How I spend hours making a perfectly curated list of shows I want to watch on Netflix but when I actually have time to watch them, none of them sound appealing and I end up deleting most of the items off the list I spent hours making
[deleted] · 25 points · Posted at 02:18:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still have my list of animes that I made in 2014.... I didn't finish it
This is actually a good way to combat procrastination. Just put the distraction into a "procrastination folder" and you get a little bit of that good feeling from procrastinating because you know you'll be focusing on the distraction later. But the good news is that once the thing you're procrastinating on goes away and you go back to the folder, you won't want to open maybe 60% of whatever you put in there.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:42:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of thought, how we can make so many decisions in a split second. Internal dialogue is crazy. Does everyone have the same sort of inner thoughts? Do animals have internal dialogue? When I think about it, it blows my mind.
[deleted] · 3549 points · Posted at 21:42:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man i had a fucking existential crisis recently, when i started thinking about how my thoughts just popped into my head and i actually have no control of what i think.
Like i don't decide to think something, i just do. How the fuck do brains even work.
Do i even have free will? Am i just a biological machine running calculations based on previews experience?
Not to get too crazy, but man this shit weirds me out whenever i think of it.
[deleted] · 901 points · Posted at 02:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i actually have no control of what i think.
Intrusive thoughts are this concept on steroids. Imagine having no control of your thoughts, and your brain assaults you with all of the worst things possible at all, or random times.
snuzu · 147 points · Posted at 02:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain does this! Out of nowhere it’ll be “what about THIS terrible concept” - and I do have the ability to visualize.
My brain likes to overload me with worst case scenario thoughts rapid fire when I’m in public speaking situations. They come at me so fast that my heart rate increases Wildly and my words become choked up and audibly stressed. Damn near panic attack, anxiety attack levels. Most of the time I wind up settling into a groove and it stops but literally it’s such a vicious cycle. When I’m about to public speak for a presentation or something my heart rate increases before due to the fear/anxiety of the impending situation as well. Like I’ve done incredibly dangerous stuff all my life due to work and hobbies and been calm and collect but this one particular aspect of life really really gets me fucked up.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 04:53:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I’m not ever in a scenario where I’m just passively overwhelmed and can just listen to a YouTube video. It’s literally moments before I do some kind of public speaking/presentation or interview situation my mind races and my flight or fight response goes off the chain just surging me with adrenaline, it sucks. I put these situations on a pedestal which virtually makes it happen every time. I think the only cure is constant exposure to these situations but the thought of that alone actually starts to make my heart rate increase. My brain is a trickster asshole.
snuzu · 7 points · Posted at 05:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I experience something similar to this. I’ve found some help with mindfulness - when I have to speak or give a presentation I get feelings like you describe. Sometimes even finding parking before a meeting my heart will start racing and my face gets flushed, shaky with adrenaline. Even if I’m consciously unworried. I learned to “notice” the sensations and focus on them for a minute and then they settle down and you can carry on with it a little easier. Something about acknowledging the the physical sensations we get when anxious and riding them out helps us to separate from them. I recommend looking into it, hope you are able to find some peace.
Do you try rehearsing a lot before you give one? Exposure helps but I found practicing as if I were doing it all the same calmed my nerves. Mine are admittedly for work so we have slides but infront of very large groups it can be nerve racking as hell
There's a theory that this phenomenon occurs because being stared at is threatening - akin to a predator stalking a prey. Old timey advice is to picture the audience naked. The reason being that generally nudity is a manner of vulnerability, so you'd then trick your mind into perceiving the audience as vulnerable rather than threatening. The vehicle doesn't necessarily have to be the naked thing, it could just as easily be pretending everyone in the audience is stupid, low-status and unforgivably weak, but the naked thing isn't quite so insulting. Lol. Plus such thoughts can backfire when that narrative crumbles for whatever reason. You could also (and this I think would be more effective) pretend everyone in the audience is nice, and totally loving, understanding and encouraging, and ready to praise everything you say. That's more often the reality than it it's not, so meditate on this fact at length before you get on the podium. Give it a try!
Being stage shy means you have a healthy dose of humility. That's a good characteristic. Despots and other tyrannical and domineering figures experience no such fear. So at least you can pat yourself on the back for possessing this contrasting attribute!
Not that drugs are always the first line or answer for everything, but propranolol (a Beta-Blocker) works fucking wonders for public speaking & other performance anxiety, so I have heard and read.
I take a high dose for rapid heart rate in general, but this will give you an idea of why it is so popular, explaining that ”Propranolol suppresses the autonomic arousal associated with fear — meaning no more racing heart. No more shaking hands.”
Here is another write-up.
Of course, I should mention that there are other options worth trying out such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), SSRI’s, & Benzo’s like Xanax. But if you don’t have insurance, money, or time for therapy, and/or SSRI’s don’t work for you, this may be an alternative—especially since doctors (thankfully) aren’t just handing out Xanax to every person inhibited by severe social anxiety, nervousness about a job-interview, or panicking during a public speaking engagement.
I get these all the time, and mine are usually of me doing really violent things to people. I’m not a violent person at all, so it’s pretty disturbing
snuzu · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry you get to experience that. Mine are usually tragic thoughts or scenes - people I love being dead or saying hateful things to me, ways for me to die.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 13:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I either hurt myself or loved ones or pets and it’s fucking upsetting.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 03:07:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The worst are ones you can tangibly feel. I can’t touch wet hair for this exact reason. Which makes showering fun because i’ve been growing my hair out for about...11 years. It’s fine.
Also, why i refuse to touch things like scissors sometimes. No thank you, brain. I saw 127 hours or whatever with james franco. I know what you’re planning.
Mine does it with songs, pieces of music, sometimes with chords and lyrics attached, just pop into my head as if from some celestial juke box. I mean new songs as well not other people's.
For example I was looking back on my life and pondering if everything has turned out as I expected it would. (I am British yet live in Ukraine which I certainly didn't expect). Anyway a few days later this song appeared in my head, pretty much complete.
I clearly wrote the song but not in the normal sense, it was like someone or something just faxed it into my head. In reality though I suspect my sub conscious just carried on with the original thought concept without telling me and then when the song was complete installed it in my conscious memory for use.
That sounds like an interesting time. Have you ever done any "mind-altering" drugs and if so how did they effect this?
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 03:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not the exact person you responded to, but i did bring it up. And i can answer your question!
I’ve done acid, and thats the only hallucinogen i’ve done. However, i was down bad and was eating it like candy for a couple months. That being said, no, it hasn’t had any effect on my intrusive thoughts. They existed before acid was introduced to my system, they exist after.
I can tell you what does exacerbate them, though! Stress is the main one. Traumas are another. Brain chemistry, most likely, is where it all comes from. I’ve always had an extremely overactive imagination as a kid, and as an adult it manifests in strange ways.
Imagine every single thing you’re afraid of. Across every aspect of life. Getting fired, getting cheated on, dying, spiders, stubbing your toe, forgetting your keys at home, whatever. All of those will run through your head and you have to force your brain not to think about any of it, which doesnt always work.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 04:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit the nail on the head my friend.
I’ve always dealt with OCD and obsessive, intrusive thoughts all my life but I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older they’re only getting worse and worse.
I used to abuse drugs and alcohol in my early twenties and I’m under the impression that it did some damage to my brain that only exacerbated these issues.
I’ve got almost 4 years of sobriety right now but I still feel like I’m cleaning up the mess that 3+ year long Storm left behind.
Do you consume caffeine at all? I stopped for almost 3 months and my OCD/intrusive thoughts were a LOT more manageable. I ended up going back to the caff because I wasn’t finding alternative methods for energy and my depression. Lo and behold those thoughts were right back in my head.
I doubt it makes you feel that much better but so many people beat the shit out of their brains paradoxically to make their mental illness less severe. Just be glad that you stopped. People like us just need to throw it out there more often to fill up the self destructed parts. Seek and destroy (not literally)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate that a lot man, thank you! I think you’re right though
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:09:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Caffeine makes my anxiety spike, but doesn’t affect my intrusive thoughts. I don’t have OCD though, that might be a factor (although im only basing that off of the only difference between you and me lol).
Also, congrats on the 4 year sobriety. Even if you’re still cleaning up a mess from 3+ years ago, thats some serious progress. You could still be in that mess, and i’m glad you arent.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn dude, this is honestly one of the nicest things someone has said to me. Thank you SO much, it really does mean a lot to read this especially during such a stressful time we’re all currently apart of. I appreciate it friend!
That’s fascinating to me it makes you anxious but doesn’t affect your intrusive thoughts. If you don’t mind me asking (feel free to disregard this) what happens to you when your anxiety takes over?
snuzu · 3 points · Posted at 05:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure - I’ve had a few experiences with mushrooms and lsd over the years, among other things (as responsibly as possible). I’ve always had positive experiences - usually brings feelings of clarity and peace. I had typical hallucinations and some circular thinking but always had a foot on the ground. Haven’t experienced “flashback” type episodes or anything since, my imagination/visualization ability has seemed to stay the same, which is quite vivid. No trouble with unwanted thoughts or figure hallucinations or anything during trips thankfully. In my sober life when I’m having a depressive episode or anxiety is typically when I experience intrusive thoughts. It’s happened my whole life and seems unchanged by my experimentation.
I took a mindfulness meditation workshop a few years ago and learned some excellent skills which have helped me to “manage my mind” and redirect my thoughts, ground myself when I start to get overwhelmed by this kind of anxious thinking.
Haven’t really noticed any connection between the two other than that hallucinogens have allowed for some positive introspection that’s helped me in my personal growth & dealing with my overactive brain.
nlfo · 15 points · Posted at 02:55:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or schizophrenia. That’s got to be some rough shit.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 03:15:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schizophrenia is one of those things ive always been afraid will randomly develop for me. I’ve had auditory and visual hallucinations when extremely sleep deprived (more visual though) and its fucking freaky.
ntnl · 10 points · Posted at 03:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I have that too. But I don’t think I’ve ever seen any real character, only like a passing shadow, and only when I’m really tired
Same here. I had twin babies and got such little sleep. After a while I started seeing shadows in my peripheral vision. It was like a small animal darting away or something. It also did weird things to my emotions. I was cycling through an intense emotion every 30 minutes.
Also I watched a program about people with OCD and this one guy kept worrying about closing his cat in the dryer. I got annoyed and asked, “Why doesn’t he just stop having cats then?” The universe heard me and for punishment, my cat got closed in the dryer twice. Once by my mom and once by my husband. The both heard clunking and howling before running to turn off the dryer. Poor cat. You would think she’d learn not to nap in the dryer!!
If it doesn't show up by a certain point in your young adult life, you should be fine. It also runs in families, for the most part. You would know if it runs in yours. I've had sleep deprivation to the point I see shadows in my peripherals. Only hallucinations I've had, besides auditory hallucinations before I fall into sleep, aka night terrors.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 12:07:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love your username.
But yeah, i know. I’m mid 20s now and if i had it, i’d know. Yet it still scares me lol
I'm 20 and not gonna lie the fact that I'm the prime age for it to develop worries sometimes. It doesn't run in my family, my brain just likes to find random things to be anxious about.
My housemate has it. He's ok as long as he takes his meds, but whenever he goes off (for whatever reason) starts to believe my other housemate is playing hypersonic noise to keep him up at night.
Well, he lives in the basement, and works the night shift, so we don't see him much. He's never been violent or agressive. He's known my other housemate (not the one I mentioned before) over 30 years so they have at least some rapport. When he's on his meds hes seems good guy. Mental illness sucks.
This one. Exactly. And I read somewhere else, on Reddit actually, that this line of thinking (or intrusive thoughts) are particularly common! So don’t think you are losing it or anything, not that you think that, but just in case.
snuzu · 6 points · Posted at 07:00:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I have also read that it’s fairly normal - maybe a subconscious surveying of potential dangers? Appreciate you sharing.
I commonly get intrusive thoughts telling me to hurt myself. Like when I wear a short sleeved shirt I think "oh look at my nice, bare skin....I could cut that all up." I'm not a self harmer and I don't entirely know where my brain gets these ideas.
I also can’t control what I think. I would just be daydreaming and then all of the sudden my brain thinks of something I don’t like. I just try to shut the thought up but it happens over and over until I give up. It’s even affecting me socially. I would just be talking to somebody then my brain thinks of doing something horrible to them. So then I would just get quiet and hope I don’t say or what my brain is thinking. It’s a nightmare and I stress over it on a daily basis. I don’t know why it happens. Nor do I understand why my brain is doing it. I just hope one day I can find an answer.
Watch the School of Life's video on pure OCD. It was mind blowing for me. Basically the reason is that you hate yourself and think you are despicable. The people around you don't seem to think so, and your brain wants to 'solve' this disparity by telling you to do horrible things to show everyone how evil you are, thus aligning the world's vier on yourself with your own view on yourself.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 12:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My personal method of circumventing that is the second i think of doing something mean, i think of “i could ALSO do this nice thing!” Give them a hug, a kiss on the cheek, a flower, buy them lunch, tell them i like their smile, etc.
It doesnt work perfectly, the thoughts are still there, but now theres some nice ones to balance it out.
Anilxe · 7 points · Posted at 09:09:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This.
I'm not suicidal in the least, I love living and am absolutely terrified of death. But I get pretty strong intrusive suicidal thoughts. I'll be walking hand and hand with my partner, enjoying a nice day, across a bridge and I'll glance at the fence of the bridge and suddenly get a loud thought that says "Maybe I could just run and leap off the side of this bridge right now, and get it over with."
Its scary because not only does the thought appear, but for maybe half a second I genuinely consider it before I catch myself and mentally freak out. Its not just a baseless thought, it's presented as a personal desire, an urge. If I didn't have an amazing handle on my impulse control, I don't know if I'd be alive today.
like i wrote above: Basically the reason is that you hate yourself and think you are despicable. The people around you don't seem to think so, and your brain wants to 'solve' this disparity by telling you to do horrible things to show everyone how evil you are, thus aligning the world's view on yourself with your own view on yourself. i hope this helps, it certainly helped me.
"Imagine having no control of your thoughts, and your brain assaults you with all of the worst things possible at all, or random times."
This is me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 07:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
imagine those thoughts drifting away without having harmed you. and then do it again and again forever. or just focus on your breath. count your slow breaths, and return to one every time you find yourself thinking. it is most assuredly possible to control your thoughts. meditation, my dudes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:12:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t say it’s unsettling, but that’s only because i’ve been used to it for years. It’s just kinda there. I’m not a danger to myself cause when i momentarily “feel” the pain i’m like “hmmmm no thank you” lol
This is actually the argument made against the concept of there being free will in the first place. The prior condition to thought happens without choice. Once you understand this it can change how you see the world and the people in it. No one is the locus of their decisions. This doesn’t invalidate good “choices” and mortality/ethics, but does force you to question things such as the prevalent prison system of society wherein crimes are punished, but rehabilitation takes a backseat to condemning people’s conscious choices :/
Thats not what I meant. Yes, you can watch yourself. Thats alot of what meditation/mindfullness encompasses is that watching. What I'm saying is that you don't have control or freedom of choice surrounding that conscious awareness. Its the first condition of thought, you no more choose your next action that you do the first movie you think of when you're told to pick one at random. You can observe the paint your consciousness throws against the wall, but you can only pick the colour once its hit the wall, or mix it with others that were thrown first.
Not here to argue but I disagree, do you have anything I can read about what you’re looking at? It would be an interesting read for someone who has a high level of interest. I spend most of my free time reading about conscious and unconscious behavior
No worries, never want to argue these points, they're alot more fun/interesting to discuss. I developed my own thinking around the subject coming from a interest in determinism and mindfullness. Sam Harris has a lot of content around the subject. His book is great. But this video should do as a overview. Let me know what you think
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t_Uyi9bNS4
You are misunderstanding determinism. Determinism states that since humans have no free will they cannot be held morally responsible for their actions. It definitionally eliminates morality/ethics. Retributive or rehabilitative justice are irrelevant "choices", humans do not have free will to decide which form of justice to employ.
So I want to start by saying that you strike me as the type of person who thinks that determinism = evil, or at least that is how your comment reads to me. I apologize if I am wrong, but your seeming frustration with the notion of determinism seems biased
Determinism states that since humans have no free will they cannot be held morally responsible for their actions
So right away we have a problem. Determinism doesn't say this. Determinism is solely a description of whether actions are predetermined or not. You could argue that an Implication of determinism is a lack of moral culpability, but this would depend strongly on your definition of determinism.
It definitionally eliminates morality/ethics
Again this depends on how you define morality and ethics. You could probably state that it means humans cannot engage in moral behavior, but that doesn't eliminate morality entirely
Retributive or rehabilitative justice are irrelevant "choices", humans do not have free will to decide which form of justice to employ.
This one really is why I wrote this comment. You have made a really common mistake here, which is to assume that a lack of free will somehow implies a lack of ability to make decisions. Humans obviously make decisions every minute of every day, determinism would simply say these decisions are not free but were influenced by external conditions. And it is precisely this fact that gives credence to the notion of rehabilitative justice. We know that human behavior can be modified by external circumstances in many cases, and so a system that treats people as if they are behavioral entities that can be molded by circumstance, we can aim that system at improving outcomes. You seem to think that somehow to accept determinism you must accept that humans somehow are actually empty automatons with no inner existence or actions, but I think anecdotally you know that not to be true. The consequences of determinism, and by extension the lack of free will, is simply that human behavior is a result of factors we can't control. Our decisions are not free, but we still make them and can modify them.
at no point did i say I was attempting to paraphrase determinism in what i wrote. More I was just stating the degree to which the absence of free will or beginning to understand its illusory nature can make some societal beliefs about the nature of choice/morality seem inherently flawed.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 04:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Without having an effective and robust way to communicate with other animals, we will not actually be able to know what how self-aware other animals are. Humans not comprehending they are animals is far and away a nurture over nature thing. Humans not being animals is ingrained into our psyche from birth by society. It is engrained in human language and culture. We want to think we are superior to animals because we are more "advanced" or "evolved" when most of us would be happy sitting in our own mess all day.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 10:41:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that case you'd expect there to be cultures where this is not the case. Where they view themselves as another animal. I know there's plenty of cultures where they view themselves as part of the greater whole of nature. But is there any that don't view themselves as superior to other animals?
I am not an anthropologist so I would have to research if their are any current cultures with that belief. I was however viewing it more from a state of nature to evolution of society sense.
But since we are unable to effectively and robustly communicate with other animals we do not know if viewing ones species as superior is a uniquely human trait. There are various animals that seem to have some level of self-awareness. Dolphins recognize themselves in mirrors and have a sense of social identity. New Caledonian crows understand cause and effect. Scrub jays plan for the future. Elephants are well known for displaying empathy, even with non-elephant animals. Many different types if apes, chimpanzees, and monkeys all show signs of self-awareness. Orcas and octopuses are far to smart for their own good. Manta Ray's, archer fish, and cleaner wrasses have all passed the mirror test.
A good way to think about it is that you have limited CONSCIOUS control of what you think. But why would you think that you're only limited to your conscious self? Your unconscious self is as much a part of your self as your conscious self. Your conscious self may decide something, for example, but you may be self-sabotaging.
There is indeed complexities when it comes to free will, but it's an issue as well to treat everything in an analytical fashion. Analytic thinking is always incomplete, as it compares things, and there are always ways of thinking or to see something, that you are never complete in analytic thinking. Analytic thinking is very useful for some things, but there are other things that are outside that analytic thinking, and seem to be non-computable. That doesn't mean it's "irrational" or non-existent, it means that it works in another sphere. The philosopher Henri Bergson spoke of this, and he referred to it as intuition.
It may interest you. I used to go crazy about thinking about certain things because whenever I went deeper I realized there was no end to the analytic thinking. I used to believe analytic thinking was the only way to think. But there are other ways of engaging into reality and to think about things. Think about your own experience for a moment. Do you realise your own conscious experience is not analytic? You're not analyzing all things all the moment, but rather, you are experiencing things from a different center of experience and thought. Your brain is indeed analyzing many things, but your experience about certain things is complete in of itself. I can go deeper if you are interested, into what I got from that philosopher which relate to me heavily and is very helpful.
Sure! It's like 1 AM where I live, but it is truly a fascinating topic.
Bergson was mainly interested in the distinction between what he thought analysis is and intuition, as far as I understand it. If you look at your own experience, I'm sure you will realize that there have been times where you have been living a moment that's unlike any other. Something was different, and it would be very hard to say that something analytical was different. Rather, what was different was your own experience of the moment you were living in. Rather than seeing it outside-in, you were seeing it from the inside, through your intuition, you understood something about the experience.
This is made clearer with his own explanation. He was interested in time, and he talked about a concept called Duration. He says, take an elastic band and stretch it. Analytic thinking happens when you compare two "states", two fixed, unchanging states with one another. Take for instance the first object you see. Let's say it's a cube. Analytic thinking is seeing the cube from one position, and then from another. The problem is that between those positions there's an unlimited number of positions. But that's what for example metric time does. It assumes all seconds are the same, and the seconds are measured by an objective standard(or semi-objective). So, you think your time happens in such a measure. While that measure is useful within a certain analytic thinking, it's the wrong way to look at your own experience as your own experience is still unfolding. The band has not finished stretching, so you cannot cut it into pieces, because the band is still stretching, it's not fixed. If you say, I'm going to take my experience and cut it into 10 equal measures of time, the issue is that as your experience continues, your measures become invalid. You need a fixed object in order to measure something "objectively". However, life, for us, and our conscious experiences, are not static in any which way. We are like that band, in constant Duration, and furthermore, even if you take a "snapshot" of each moment of our lives, there's an infinite number of "snapshots" to take, and furthermore, within each "snapshot" there are a multicity of "dimensions".
Take for instance, the snapshot of you walking down a road. Snapshot A is left foot forward, Snapshot B is right foot forward. As I said, between those snapshots there are an infinite number of snapshots that you omit out of practicality; however, is Snapshot A reduced to your foot moving forward? That could certainly be an aspect of that moment you are most interested in. However, aren't there other "dimensions" to that "painting"? Isn't there an infinite palette of colors in that painting? You weren't naked, you had clothes, but you were probably not alone, there may have been someone walking that road with you; there was probably dirt, there were clouds, there were trees; but the experience was not just visual audio, there were also sounds, even sounds you did not register because you weren't focusing on them; there were smells; you were thinking things; you were feeling things; your own body had weight, there was gravity; you had cells within your body, even if you never know them, but those cells were also made of a near infinite number of atoms, and atoms do not happen in a vacuum, they interact. So, you see, even if we may see only one aspect of the painting, because it's relevant to us, the painting has an almost number of infinite "aspects", but it is also more than the sum of aspects.
When we try to see our living, moving experience with the framework of a static analytical thinking we try to narrow that reality into a particular aspect. We say we are taking a part of it. But it is not a part, because it is not alive. If you only focus on a particular aspect of your walking movement you are not narrowing down to a part, you are narrowing down to an aspect. Just as if I have a cake and only talk about only one ingredient, let's say the eggs on it, I am not taking a part of the cake, as the part of the cake, while not the whole, has the whole integrity of the cake. I would not say that I have tasted a part of the cake if I only eat the eggs of it. No, I have to eat the slice of the cake with the fullness of the cake, with the combination of all the ingredients, the texture, the smells, the way it interacts with the tongue.
To Bergson, our consciousness was like the stretching band that didn't stretch monotonously, rather, we are a stretching band were in each unit of time, we not only adopt new life, that is, the integrated wholeness of reality as it is perceived by us, we bring the past with us, creating new experiences beyond the experience itself because we are unfolding. We cannot split our life into seconds, even though we may think we do, because we are still unfolding, our life is the act of unfolding of life, not the dead "aspects" of it. When you go beyond the analytical thinking of your own life, and enter into its "beat", into its wholeness, you go into the nature of reality and even concepts. You do not analyze friendship, for example; even though you may analyze "aspects" of it, only through intuitive thinking can you understand what 'friendship' is, even beyond the mere label. And as such, intuitions are also impossible to be shared, as even language itself is the product of analytic thinking. Yes, very useful in our every day life, but intuition is the true meat of reality and we rarely exercise true intuitive thinking.
To nail it more into the topic of free will, what I was getting at, is that if you try to approach an intuitive concept through analytic means you're a) going to conclude there is no such concept(because there are an infinite number of states and so a conclusion is impossible), b) go insane(this is legit, many people have gone crazy trying to solve such concepts analytically), c) give up on frustration and probably also conclude it does not exist. However, to your intuitive self, to your intuitive thinking, it is self-evident that you have free will because you experience it directly.
Or like dancing. You can try to dance analytically, going "step forward, but how many centimeters forward? How many millimeters forward? How many Xmeters forward? Now, spin! With how much force?"... or you can just connect with the experience, with the underlying fullness of that moment and "feel" the music. That is, actually get a little piece of the music and understand it.
Never heard of the philosopher before, sounds very interesting.
even if you take a "snapshot" of each moment of our lives, there's an infinite number of "snapshots" to take, and furthermore, within each "snapshot" there are a multicity of "dimensions".
This kind of reminded me of the moving arrow paradox.
From what I understand from that paradox it's very interesting. If there is only the "snapshots", how do you even get to the next snapshot without something beyond just the snapshots? Without the fluidity of the snapshots? That's what I get from it. Thanks!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:54:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s never weirded me out, but my whole life I always just... assumed? Accepted? ... that I everything I do is determined by biological/chemical interactions in my brain and that’s just the way it is.
When I first heard of the concept of free will, my reaction was “well no duh of course we don’t have free will”.
I'd argue that rehabilitated addicts are a good example of free will. Despite very strong chemical signals telling them to do one thing, they do another and have to constantly struggle against that for years.
Right but is your brain basing its next move on what is essentially running through all your past experiences and ordering you to do that? Or do you have free will?
While this may seem astonishing, it does not mean that you should jump to a metaphysical explanation. This is akin to the "god of the gaps" fallacy.
It is more likely another series of chemical reactions emphasizing an awareness that enduring this suffering may ultimately lead to survival, happiness, etc. A more dramatic example of this would be like if your arm was stuck and you had to cut it off to escape starvation/dehydration. Thing is, there will never be an answer because the contradictory circuitry almost certainly varies from person to person.
I'd argue against that. Those rehabilitated addicts' brains are trained to associate drugs with bad outcomes. There isn't any real conscious decision making here, only conscious justification of those decisions, and I'd even say that the justification is a primitive biological mechanism.
That is an excellent point. Although one might argue that there's a different chemical reaction going on in their own brains, namely their recollections of the worst parts of their addictions, which motivate their decision to stay clean. The problem is drawing the line between what's just chemical reactions and what is conscious action.
Maybe the brain produced chemicals stronger than addiction when it realised it gone die if you keep doin dis. Every decision is just whatever gives you the most pleasure. Sadly when your pain constantly weighs your pleasure suicide seeems like a better option, factor in frequency/time/hope. Even sharing is a selfish act ya know? Selfish in a good way?
It may just be a consequence of their state and history and the free choice is an illusion that's a helpful trait for consciousness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
To argue against free will – addicts are stuck in a behavioral chain of immediate gratification, then regretting their actions, then because of that, escaping by using. It can’t be free will.
The addictive nature of the stimulus and the punishment that is received from society are what is in control (aka the environment not the person themselves). This is why we should always look outside of blame and from a place of understanding.
Instead of victim blaming the individual, we can look at as, damn, there’s something wrong with the system.
edit – deleted “drugs”. Can refer to any addictive stimulus.
The question is, why does our brain do that? If you say our cells, why do our cells do what they do? The answer could be the parts the cell is made up of. Why do they do what they do? Does it happen on it's own? And what part is the difference between alive and not living?
Start a fire and it will burn. It is a cascade of increasing temperature, gasification, transformation of gas into different molecules into a lower energy state, freeing energy as heat which keeps it going.
If you ask why it does that there are very practical reasons. You can explain it. But at the same time there is no ulterior motive or consciousness necessary within this system for it to happen.
Life is insanely more complex though. And it's super interesting how reproduction and natural selection lead to insanely complex and intertwined life systems like ourselves.
We are not just a single living being. Every cell is a combination of once was two things. We are a host to many bacteria. And we depend on many of them. We depend on our gut bacteria to transform food into material we - as in other transport cells - can transport throughout the body. We depend on cell corporation to become and act as designed.
We are an ecosystem. A host.
We as a consciousness sit on top of an automated system that just works through great design through a long history of mutation and selection.
So back to your questions. Why does our brain do what it does? Because that's what it is. That's how it is layed out and constructed. Same for cells and all the other systems and what they are made of.
The reason we came to these is natural selection. Because if you have an inferior or lacking system the chances of that trait dying out is higher.
The question is, why does our brain do that? If you say our cells, why do our cells do what they do? The answer could be the parts the cell is made up of. Why do they do what they do? Does it happen on it's own? And what part is the difference between alive and not living?
You are not your thoughts, you are to some extent what you fell or think about your thoughts.
On a deep level, anyone can randomly think "hmm, I could drive emy car off this cliff/murder this person/eat a baby"
But it's how you think about that random thought and what you feel in response to it that defines your personality. If you feel disgust or aversion at any of those thoughts even though you feel them. Your fine.
A paychopath would not feel aversion to them, and would be able to go down the rabbithole of entertaining and nurturing those thoughts
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 10:43:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But our feelings are another type of thought. And also involuntary.
As a Psychologist I can assure you that every single person have had intrusive thoughts. There is a whole theory for this, is called "Cognitive Theraphy", of Albert Ellis (a very important Psychologist) who said that humans are biologically 80% irrationals, could you believe it? This is the reason why lots of people think they don't have control of their thoughts, and also explains why is eassier to have bad thoughts, than good thoughts. Good thoughts have more cost of energy, because you have to induce them. Intrusive thoughts just come naturally and eassier (wich is totally unfair, I know...) but fortunately this man proved in his theory that 1) it's possible to change bad thoughts, and 2)Everybody is able to do it, of course, for some people would be harder than others. What I'm trying to say is that is very common to have this type of thoughts, and is important to say that thoughts are also images in mind (this is other form to have thoughts, and this ones are stronger than typical thoughts, because is eassier to have an image of you facing some scenario, than think "it would be horrible to be fired").
In conclusion, thoughts still being studied, and they are super weird.
Search for "Cognitive Restructuring" just to know more about the process to change thoughts. 👍🏻
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 02:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no scientific evidence for free will. The thoughts you have are simply neurons getting stimulated with electricity. That electricity is just flowing through you without you doing anything to make it move in any direction.
Free will is not a falsifiable concept. You can't prove that the things I decided I decided, or didn't decide them. When I tell you I decide A instead of B, you will say that I decide A instead of B because my previous state of an emergent neuron net compelled me inexorably to decide A. You can't prove that's what happened, but you won't believe me anyway that I decided it.
It's an obnoxiously popular concept, but if you take it deep enough you are even left with the very absurd notion that there is no I. You destroy not just free will, but also ethics and morality, but not also that but even science and the search for truth, as you can never be sure that you are really understanding or expressing the truth of something or you're just outputting an inexorable state that makes you feel/think or say something as if it were true, independent of the actual truth of the matter, and you can't even decide to search for truth or be sure of it. There's plenty of holes, but if you think there's no metaphysical ground for the self and we're just an organic computer, then how can you logically explain the center of all human-related things: consciousness and a self that persists throughout the states of the matter?
I love questioning the most basic assumptions of philosophy as much as the next guy, but I am confused by your last question. Maybe it would help if you defined what you meant by states of matter? Human conciousness is certainly not proven to persist through all states.
That is. If we are made purely by matter, then our "self" is just the state of the particular arrangement of our physical selves(our atoms, or whatever particular element) down to the atom and up to the neural net, as they're all forms of matter. Matter organized in a particular fashion. That is, essentially, the naturalist/materialist claim. All is matter. We are also matter. We are just matter that happens to be organized in a particular fashion, in opposition to, say a rock, or a chimp, or more interestingly, another human.
The difference between me and you, the naturalist claims, is that you and I are organized in a slightly different manner. My "consciousness", which is really the emergent property of my particular neural net(the state of each of my neurons and their organization) is different than yours because even though we both have brains and neurons, they are organized differently in your brain than in mine, and that's what gives rise to two distinct consciousness.
All good so far, but the problem arises when we realize that no brain state is the same. The brain state you had prior to reading this is different than the state you are having right now. And right now. And right now. And so on and on, between each unit of time. However, there haven't been distinct consciousness each unit of time(infinite?), rather, it has been "you", the same consciousness persisting through the couple of seconds it has taken you to read this. I haven't been talking to an infinite number of yous, I have been talking to a single you that has persisted in time, even though its brain/physical states haven't, THEY have changed.
Thanks for clarifying. I guess I am just not convinced.
First, I don't see anything impossible about there being infinite consciousness. I wouldn't pick that as my preferred theory, but I see no logic convincing me that it is obvious there are not.
Setting that aside, your argument still does not exclude the biological computer idea. Even though the concept of "self" exists across time, that, in and of itself, does not have to be extraordinary. It could mean that our biological computer uses its memory of past states as an integral part of how we define self. Continuity in time is observable in other phenomena, what makes our processes special?
It is late here so I will stop before I become too tangential with my ramblings.
but I see no logic convincing me that it is obvious there are not.
Your direct experience is not. This, I think, is a highly dishonest position. I, in no way, shape or form, believe you actually believe this or give it any serious thought. You may say you accept the idea because of intellectual honesty, yet, in all of your actions you portray as if you were an actual you, and there weren't infinite distinct you's. When you talk about your mom, I don't think for a moment that you actually believe there have been different distinct 'moms' of yours and you have loved each of them, or that the rapist is innocent because he claims it was a different person who committed the crime, not 'him'. On and on.
ven though the concept of "self" exists across time, that, in and of itself, does not have to be extraordinary. It could mean that our biological computer uses its memory of past states as an integral part of how we define self.
This is the interesting part. If there is a self that exists across time, then we are NOT biological computers. It is, in fact, impossible, logically speaking. What do you think about my argument? I've been explaining it in many places and I have found no refutation:
For there to be memory, one needs at least different steps: You need the integration of the 'now'(the different aspects of the now), the perception of the new data(the aspect to record), (optional step: the encryption of the new data to store), the storage of the new data. For the next memories you also need to add a fourth step: the retrieval of the stored data. All of these steps are units in time. They represent change, and that's how time is currently defined: The measurement of change. So you need at least(and I'm being unrealistic, as not any of those steps would you expect to take JUST one unit of time) the permanence of the self across 4 different units of time, in order for it to be a continual self that permeates across the time.
I can see your objection: But we observe continuity in time in other phenomena. Like computers, I suppose you would say. The difference is my understanding of 'existence' vs 'essence'. This is kind of hard to explain in english because of a limitation of language. You have no easy linguistic separation between those concepts, as you use 'to be' for both of them. In my native language(spanish), it is clear: We use 'ser' y 'estar'. 'Ser' meaning being, meaning essence(same root), and 'estar' to connote existing. A human 'being' is a 'being', while a computer has existence. The computer has no essence, has no being, it merely exists. There is no continuation of 'being' for the computer, the computer's existence can be explained in such a way without any issue. It is us who try to give it shape according to our needs. The computer's memory is a matter of electrical states changing all the time. It is not a storage, it is the mimicry of a storage. We see it as a storage because WE have active memories, the computer is changing all the time and its information-state IS being different across the board ALL the time. My computer is different in time A than in time B, even though the difference is so small I do not care about it; yet it has no being in any of such times. In a way, we do have that too, the difference is that our 'being' beyond our existence is obvious. We do not only exist(which we do), and not only do our brains exist(which they do), but we have a 'being', a metaphysical center revolving around us. The computer has no such center, just as the Chicago Bears has no 'being', it has existence. You can modify all of its rooster and coaches, and you still call it the Chicago Bears, because there IS no Chicago Bears, there only exists something you are calling Chicago Bears.
I hope this wasn't too dense. I promise I'm not rambling.
I understand what you are saying, but I do not believe we have enough data to conclude that we are not biological computers. It is possible that any computer that is sufficiently complex, biological or otherwise, could integrate different states over time and percieve a self. After all, perception of reality is all we know. In fact the Heisenberg uncertainty principal suggests that because of perception alone, there are certain things about reality that we are unable to know.
I look to the animal kingdom and see a wide spectrum of consciousness across the evolutionary tree. Starfish barely have a nervous system, and only react to stimuli in the most rudimentary fashion. They almost certainly have no concept of self. Other primates have demonstrable self identity, and can process language and other complex social interactions. I am not discounting the possibility of the introduction of the metaphysical self at some point along the progression, but I also am not convinced it is inevitable.
Contrary to your assertion, I have given this position thought. Personally I don't believe the ethical or moral implications of such a theory are too burdensome. As stated earlier, perception of reality is everything. It matters little to me if my mother is singular or infinite, or if I am biological or metaphysical. Regardless I behave as if she is important because that is the reality I know.
I am not saying you are wrong. I am saying that we cannot prove your assertion with how either of us feel about ourselves.
We have plenty of data to conclude that, in various levels. Our own society cannot function if we're biological computers. And not only that, we have very little evidence to even think we are biological computers. It is just a dogma by a particular mindset. I doubt you truly believe we are biological computers; sure, you may say so in an internet conversation, but you go in your daily life and contradicting such a notion at every moment.
A computer that integrates different states over time would, as I say, logically to have a center, a self, that is integrated through various units of time. That is a logical requirement. Another unavoidable fact is that our brains do NOT have a permanence across time. Unless you LOGICALLY solve this logical contradiction(the permanence of an impermanent agent) through a naturalist explanation you cannot honestly hold this idea(intellectually this as). Make no mistake, this is a very fatal flaw to naturalism.
I look to the animal kingdom and see a wide spectrum of consciousness across the evolutionary tree. Starfish barely have a nervous system, and only react to stimuli in the most rudimentary fashion. They almost certainly have no concept of self. Other primates have demonstrable self identity, and can process language and other complex social interactions. I am not discounting the possibility of the introduction of the metaphysical self at some point along the progression, but I also am not convinced it is inevitable.
If an animal has consciousness(not just the appearance of consciousness, or complex reaction to stimuli) then it has a metaphysical ground for its being. I do not discard that animals have that. I do not know. Maybe they are biological computers, lacking 'being' and just being a complex form of existence. There's no surefire way to know this through analytical means. Add more number of complex reaction to stimuli, and you haven't arrived at consciousness. Take the hypothetical supercomputer that reacts, speaks, "thinks", has sensors all around. It still has no 'being', it just has an increase in the quantity of its complexity, not in its quality. Nowhere by adding more numbers of stimuli and analytical capacity do you get consciousness.
Regardless I behave as if she is important because that is the reality I know.
But your perception of reality is not restricted to your sensory input. Your perception is much more complex. Sure, you could know A is A, but given that A mimicks B perceive that A is B and so have no cognitive dissonance in that contradiction. Yet, that doesn't mean it's not a contradiction, and I wonder if you can really fool yourself in such a way. I think that you believe B is B because it is. Your mom is your mom, not because you'd be fooling yourself she is, but because you actually know she is.
But are you meaning the theory that there can be permanence of self with naturalism? That's a logical contradiction, as I've tried to show. If you, on the other hand, mean that there are no heavy implications of the lack of self within society(that is, it is irrelevant if we are 'beings' instead of existent objects), then I am at loss of words. I find it self-evidently disastrous to our ethical system.
I think I made a deductive argument. I made the claim that a) to 'be' we need permanence across time, b) we are 'beings', c)natural states are impermanent, they are never the same across units of time, and therefore concluded that naturalism is not sufficient to explain 'being'. I believe that it's a logically valid argument, and for you to dismiss it you would to reject any of my points, a),b) or c), yet I think they're all incontrovertible. I would say that if you want to be intellectually honest you need to show which of my premises is weak, or else, be (intellectually) forced to admit the logical unavoidability of the conclusion.
I am not trying to disallow your theory. I am only pointing out that you are a biased observer of yourslef. And we do have evidence that the act of observation can directly influence or alter results. Just because you observe yourself as continuous though time does not make it so. You are a biased observer. Therefore point b is not a given. If so, then other theories must be considered.
Except it's not an observation, it's an experience. I am not just observing myself, I'm experiencing things. My own bias is not just a bias, it's an experience I'm having. My own consciousness is not an observation, it's a direct experience. It's a fact. If that's not a fact, then nothing is a fact. However, it's a fact not because I'm judging it, it is the very fact that I judge things that I am conscious. To reject the premise that I'm a 'being', I have even to presume things that are built on that very notion, so it's a logical error, but more than that, it's an incoherent notion even.
I do observe you being a 'being'. That's the difference: You are external and I observe you. I am internal and so directly experience things. I can, indeed, do observe things about my body, my own thoughts, etc..., but I do not observe my own fluid consciousness, I experience it, and as such it is even beyond question. It is incoherent to question it.
The distinction between right and wrong and the ability to choose.
In neurology consciousness is purely a synapse of neurons across our body, many of which are found in the stomach and heart, not just in the brain.
Neuropsychology is what deals with the “self”.
The “Think their for I am part.”
If slavery exist there is freewill.
Their “will” over my “will.”
Bad vs Good, and it is subjective to who thinks they are right, and it is objective that the one who controls the others space and time has the stronger will.
The conscience part is when the “controllers” sees the physical discomfort their actions have caused and continue to do so anyway, knowing their actions will bring another suffering.
Freewill is to know that your choice will cause suffering to another, and to do so anyways.
We will then need to justify why we cause suffering, either out of necessity or malice, or ignorance, because you can believe to cause suffering, and also believe that that is just how things are, and all that was, was a thought process that other sentient creature do not think about because they can not, but we can, which also means we have no other choice but to think so, unless our environment is as much part of our conciseness as anything else.
We think what we remember and what we evolved to think to survive, and that is all determined by environment, and our environment has changed a lot in the last 12,00 years, and for our genes, a lot since the primordial soup.
At any rate, you can not expect to know consciousness by studying neurons, any more could you known color by studying the electromagnetic spectrum.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:57:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually an argument from ignorance--just because there is no evidence against free will does not justify it as a plausible explanation. It is just as likely that there is a puppeteer controlling our every perception or thought. And that puppeteer is a unicorn. As ridiculous as that sounds, you can never prove that wrong. However, there IS evidence demonstrating the creation of what we call "consciousness" on a cellular level.
Great question. I'll preface by saying I do not want to pick any arguments, I genuinely enjoy this type of back and forth discussion (determinism vs. free will). I think it's a learning opportunity for all of use, there are a lot of great responses for both sides in here!
So, obviously there is no perfect cellular map defining what the entirety of consciousness is. Further, the definition of consciousness varies person to person, and throughout regions and history, but typically it involves something along the lines of an awareness of the self and one's relationship to the environment. It also commonly involves arousal (level of alertness/attention) and content (cognition, affect, and more). An argument on determinism through the lens of neuroscience is worth an anthology of books so I will just try to talk about some basic examples.
My argument: that consciousness is a conglomeration of functions in the brain, each with extensive research defending a mechanism by which it works to produce a piece of cognition. If you could prove without a shadow of doubt what each mechanism is and how it works, then you would solve consciousness. However, that's not how science works. All we can do is continue to gather evidence and base our opinions on the evidence at hand, but always continue to question it.
I'll try to provide at least one solid piece of raw cellular evidence that helps partially explain at least on aspect of consciousness. Look at Dopamine. A neurotransmitter secreted by cells in the central nervous system. It's a crucial signal that comes from tow nuclei, the ventral tegmental area and the substantia nigra, which are part of the reticular activating system. Evidence supports that it works to promote alertness in general and wakefulness from sleep. The reticular activating system itself is the hub of what we call arousal. Lesion it or its connection to the brain via the thalamus, and you have a coma. It is responsible for waking you up out of sleep and keeping you awake and alert.
My favorite thing about Dopamine, though, is its role in behavior and decision making. In the basal ganglia, a group of nuclei throughout your brain, it is used as a way of learning behavior, and can be a huge predictor of how you will behave next. The circuits involved include the Direct (Go) Pathway, and the Indirect (No-go) pathway. There are more, but they're not in the scope of this idea. This basal ganglia receives dopaminergic input from the substantia nigra, and simultaneously receives information from your cortex which interprets the environment.
This whole system runs on Prediction Error (i.e. events were unexpectedly positive or negative compared to what you expected). This is thought to be the mechanism behind classical conditioning (Pavlov's dogs). The dogs are shown a light, then presented with food, then salivate. Over time, the dogs will salivate to the light before the food is even presented because it is what they expect now. In this scenario, on day 1, the dog initially sees a light and doesn't expect anything. It receiving food right after was a positive prediction error. This is interpreted by the cortex, sent to the basal ganglia, and activates the "Go" pathway, which sends a signal back to the cortex altering the dog's expectation with the light in a positive way (it will expect food). If after weeks, one day, the light goes off, the dog salivates, and the dog is NOT presented with food, this is a NEGATIVE prediction error (worse than expected). Now the no-go pathway is activated and relays back to the cortex not to expect food anymore (this happens over much more time and many more events).
They used optogenetics to stimulate either the go or the no go pathway in a mouse whenever they want. What they did was they put a mouse in a bin, and when the mouse was in a specific area of the bin, they would activate the GO pathway. No other stimuli. Over time, the mouse learned to love that area and spent most of its time there. They did the same thing with the no-go pathway, and it caused a different mouse to AVOID that area.
All in all, the point I'm trying to make is that a lot of higher cortical functions truly are EXTREMELY complex, and deserving of decades of investigation, but considering this example of a clear model that factors in the world (among other things) can influence our behavior on a cellular level. Definitely the type of study to ponder about and imagine a human subject in. Would they CHOOSE the area in the bin? Who knows, but I would argue that they would often mimic the mouse.
Wow that was long. I do genuinely appreciate this type of discussion especially during these kinda times. I hope I didn't too grossly oversimplify such a cool concept in neuroscience along the way lol. Hope you are all safe!
Check out Sam Harris. He’s a neurologist and a philosopher who gained social notoriety by doing professional debates against religious leaders. His “main focus” is consciousness and he has a lot of great stuff about free will.
The book Goedel, Escher, Bach discusses infinite sets. I remember it poses the question "Does the set of all sets contain itself?" in a philosophical context, which blew my mind when I read it years ago. I thought about it for weeks, filling a notebook with all my musings. I thought it explained why humans require a subconscious mind; if the mind were ever aware of all its contents at once, a new thought "object" would be created which would require a higher "self" to be aware of it, creating a hall of mirrors effect. In turn, God could not be "omniscient" in the traditional sense of knowing everything at once; God may have access to all knowledge, but there cannot be a being that consciously knows everything there is to know all at once, it's a logical fallacy.
I mean, I did a lot of drugs back then too, but that particular thought process has stayed with me through the years.
Flip5 · 2 points · Posted at 14:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laughed at the last part, pretty interesting stuff nonetheless, and worth thinking about. The relation to omniscience in particular is pretty neat
One of the first times I smoked, I became aware of the chain of related thoughts that make up a decision. It was like my brain started separating each step very slowly. Like: okay my throat is dry. Why? Must be thirsty. What to do? Probably do something about that. What? Get some water. How? Well, need to get off the couch and walk to the kitchen. Etc
Sounds dumb as hell but was interesting to experience, and appreciate all these things happening in an instant normally.
I think we have this inner dialogue in a non verbal kind of way, sort of like how we dream.
When you read how stupidly fast our brain does its synapses it makes sense that we process our thoughts infinitely faster than how we perceive the world, that is why thoughts just "pop up"
So there's probably way more than 1 of you, its just the deeper you that is doing all the thinking before the outer you can even react, its still you in my opinion.
You should read the Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Incessant thinking is something many people deal with, but it can be controlled. It’s a truly liberating feeling even if it is only fleeting at first.
My biggest one that is impossible to reconcile, how did I/me specifically, come to exist? Was it literally the lottery of that exact sperm and that exact egg? Could it have been no other combination ever. If so, more people need to be way fucking happier about being alive, myself included!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Arabia. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.We privileged few, who won the lottery of birth against all odds, how dare we whine at our inevitable return to that prior state from which the vast majority have never stirred?"
I like the sentiment, but I sort of think it’s a fallacy to assume that those who are unborn are likely exceed those who currently exist. Like we are inherently created by our circumstance and those people would likely be born in similar if not identical circumstances. I don’t believe that Newton was born great. He was great because he took the resources that he had, and used them to his potential. If not him, someone else would have.
I meditate quite frequently. I am 28, thoughts really lead me into cycles of ADHD or sometimes even depression which I used to feel like there was no way out of it. Meditation has really helped me in this regard. Let me explain.
Meditation's ultimate goal is to quiet the mind with thoughts and being aware of what the mind is thinking of, while not being trapped by it. The mind is extremely good at it's subtle instantaneous thought patterns that we as a species have accepted our thoughts from our smallest steps to our death bed as the self.
There's nothing normal about language in the mind as far as I can tell in nature. Animals may do different mating calls or echo location communication but there's no complex and anything as deep as the human conscience. Our speech and identity is a skill of connecting with other people, which is practically survival in some aspects, but it's also a double-edged sword of psychological horrors.
Meditation is a skill that anyone can use, and anyone can actually feel free no matter what ideology they identify with. The techniques are universal, not conformed to whom one has faith or allegiance to. Personally, I enjoy Sam Harris's techniques he features on his App Waking Up. I'm not a shill or any kind of sales person - the App is free and anyone can use it.
I do hope someone reads this message and finds the same peace of mind that I have found. Thanks for listening
zalso · 2 points · Posted at 07:50:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read it has “do I even have free wifi” and it made me laugh a lot lol
If you think about it, free will is an illusion. Our decisions are made even before the questions arise. Our genetic make up, our ancestral instincts, our memory of what happened to us in fourth grade, that is no longer a real memory, just a memory of the last time you thought about that memory... our momentum going into that moment, our motivation, our, lack of awareness to everything outside of our vision... those factors made the decision for us. Or not, im hungry
I had an existential crisis a few years back that I’m still working through. One day something clicked in my head, and I began to follow the train of thought. At that moment I had realized something may be... for lack of better word, off. I became confused by my own existence. I came to understand that up until this point I’d been doing something and practically overlooking my life, that’s how it formed in my head. I’m doing something and I have no idea what. And the thought that it’s me when it could’ve been anyone else, didn’t help matters. Why am I the one who’s doing it now? What does it mean for everyone else? What’s the purpose behind me being here while I could’ve been somewhere else existing there. What the actual fuck is going on? Why am I doing this and why is it here? When I die would I just vanish into non existence never to perceive again? Or will I get some answers then? The idea of making it to that point unable to wrap my head around the concept of not existing and for it to last an eternity paves the way for anxiety to kick in and I start to hyperventilate telling myself to calm down and just take a step back... now I need to go chill for a bit to calm down.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:50:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's insane. I remember reading that our conscious thoughts are only the tip of the iceberg. Everything beneath consists of unconscious thoughts, sensations, images, desires, etc- all of which leak into the conscious to influence our behaviors/decisions. It makes me wonder if my conscious self is really "me." Honestly mind-blowing.
Maybe do some research into that and find an answer. You’d be surprised to know there are answers to those questions but you won’t find them by asking but by searching.
Most of the decisions you make are decided by the more primitive parts of your brain. The smart parts of your brain are just there to rationalize those decisions.
Yooo that's so funny I realized this exact thing a few months ago. I think (except I don't really think anything) we're just like animals in that we act based on evolutionary instincts and previous experiences that lie in the unconscious part of our brain. To me, our consciousness might just be our experience of our predetermined thoughts and actions. So we may believe that we're thinking for ourselves when we're actually just experiencing our own brains making decisions for us. It's even crazier that your brain actually activates before you even make conscious thought to do anything
I used to think the idea that we we're living in a simulation was ridiculous but now idk
I’ve had these thoughts ever since I was a kid. Humans really are more or less just pro-programmed biological creatures reacting to everything life throws at us and our programming doing its best to keep us alive lol.
Are you not your brain in an elaborate sack to maintain its functions?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I held a brain (actually a few different ones) in my hands one time. I’m contrast to what you would think, there seemed to be nothing spectacular about it. It’s just a pink mushy thing. I’m thinking where the fuck do all the thoughts come from lol.
My thought (have heard it before aswell from other people) is that; things are happening to you, and you are also making things happen, neither and both at the same time sort of thing. You can’t really use English words well enough to describe the intricacies of reality.
Try for a second to “describe” or “define” what control even is. Do you ‘control’ something that ‘attracted’ you to itself, to be controlled in the first place?
This is a problem of the ego I think, the ego being the phenomenon that we think we are separate from the “outer” world, and that the outer world is doing stuff to us and vice versa.
In reality, every liquid solid and gaseous particle in our body and outside of our body are part of one universe. Things are happening to you and you are also controlling them at the same time.
Of course free will is a useful illusion. We are biological machines running calculations but you should use the illusion of free will to try to push it to the next level. If someone can refute this (Buddhism kinda does) I’m all for reading it.
But is the decision I am making not inevitable because of my state of mind and history? No matter what reasons I find I found them of course because I inevitably would. No matter which choice I make I can't 'choose' the other one because then that's the one I chose.
Jumping from quantum mechanics to conscience is quite the leap though. We have no idea how they are linked. They may be independent systems. Quantum mechanisms may just be small nudges within a deterministic system on the bigger scale. Given how well deterministic models have served us so far it’s pretty obvious that you can’t just dismiss them just because you found something not currently explainable deterministically on the smallest sub-particle scale.
You should read the short story Exhalation by Ted Chiang! It's part of a book of short stories by the same name. It goes into exactly these ideas.
Odins3 · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you considered that given enough time, basic primal instincts to survive and reproduce and spread yourself like a virus is exactly just that; basic primal instincts. You're just a little more proficient than a virus.
Given enough time, evolution comes up with some bizarre, nearly unfathomable errors, which given a few billion years creates us. Yet, strip yourself of all the niceties humanity has created and you fall back to those basic primal instincts.
What are the biggest concerns of today? Surviving and spreading like a virus. Next voyage, Mars perhaps?
Every particle in the universe has already been set in motion, it's all just reactions now. Radiolab did an interesting piece (pretty sure it's this one) where they talk about people with amnesia who give like verbatim responses every time they come to. Same jokes, same facial expressions... We are just moist fleshy computers following a trajectory ultimately set in motion in the big bang. Sure, it sucks to not believe in free will, but at least there's an illusion of free will AND it's kinda beautiful that some random shit forever ago can create art and music and who knows what.
burmy1 · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to check out what Sam Harris says on free will. Very interesting, factually based stuff. His meditation app too speaks to a lot of what you're realizing.
Thoughts are a black box, as are motivations and decisions. I am firmly convinced that there is no free will (though we do have the illusion or "feeling" of free will), and have yet to encounter evidence or an argument to the contrary that has strongly given me pause.
It’s real fucked up. I assure you that you are not alone in having those thoughts. Sometimes I try to think as the flip side of that is that we humans are fucking miracles, and so is everything we do. So let’s try to respect that and make those things that we do - what we put into the world - worthy.
Oh boy do I understand. I've been going through some shit and almost exclusively think in an existential mindset which only builds upon itself in more existentialism and jfc is it exhausting
I don't know if you find philosophy interesting but this is a current topic of heated discussion. Free Will vs. Determinism. It gets real when you find people who genuinely believe that we have no free will.
Your brain freaked out because it did not know how itself worked.
Also, determinism is just a stupid philosophy. If we have no control over are actions and everything is predetermined, we would obviously have no choice in anything we do. I murder your family and all of your loved ones? I have no freewill, therefore it could not be my fault. For humanity to exist and society to function necessitates that free will exists.
I like to think that you have control over only some thoughts. Maybe 10% of them. The rest 90% follow from that 10% based on your genetics, your memories, the foods you eat, the stimuli you get from your current surroundings etc. A rough comparison could be a train-there are only a few junctions in the whole track where you make your decisions and choices; the remaining track between any two junctions is just an inevitable decision of that choice.
Perhaps if an advanced alien species analyzed the human brain, they would see that there's 10% randomness in thoughts, and the rest 90% are completely predictable based on that human's genetics, the stimuli it receives, the food it eats etc.
But that makes me question-is randomness in thoughts the same as having free will? It feels good and a hopeful situation if we think we have free will, and it also feels good and a hopeful situation if we think we have randomness in our thoughts. So it seems likely that they might be the same thing, because presuming their existence in us has the same effect on our feelings. But I really have never understood what free will even means.
So...please calm down, there is no existential thought crisis, only weaponized language. You have a clear and compelling cognitive decision to make, to wit, do you control your thoughts...or...do they control you? Whether one is acutely aware of it, or not, every person makes their own choice. The wisest choice is guided by mindful consciousness.
You dont have free will. Free will is impossible in the universe we live in. It doesnt really change anything though, since you still have the illusiona of free wil.
Imagine you understood everything in the universe. Imagine you could predict every single that would happen. Nothing is unknown.
Apply this to a person. Every atom in their brain is predictable. Every decision they make is predicted by the atoms in their brain. That person is entirely predictable. Under this view free will cannot exist. He is what his atoms are.
I agree with this argument. It fucks with me sometimes.
A great mindfulness teacher told me that when you learn to meditate correctly you are just stepping back and "monitoring" your own mind. When you get that figured out it helps you push thoughts away.
I found the concept of monitoring my own thoughts to be really fascinating. It makes me have faith in the human soul.
of course you don't control your thoughts. Ask yourself, how would that even work? You are not responsible for your thoughts and you need not be emotionally perturbed by them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it happens, think of something else. That's what's scratched on the wall in my cell.
Some people don't have an internal dialogue but think through visualising words (there are also probably other ways too, I haven't researched it much), and some people can't visualise stuff (I can't visualise stuff)
It's not like you visualize it like a picture. The big image comes to your mind, but actually it's not detailed like in real life. It's just like a blurry version. It doesn't matter how well you wanna visualize something, it will never be like a HD picture.
[deleted] · 117 points · Posted at 00:33:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it varies for different people; I can see things very clearly, almost like a photograph (although it's still in my mind's eye, not projected onto what I'm actually seeing like a hallucination)
This is so crazy to me. Can you actually "observe" it in your mind like as clear as you would look at something with your eyes?
Say someone asked you to imagine a person that you know well. Does an image of them slowly develop in your head or are you able to visualize them instantly super clear?
pmia241 · 72 points · Posted at 01:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize them instantly, but don't see specific details very well.
I’m a little confused, I’m not sure which I have. I definitely have a strong internal monologue but I have imagines coming into my head too, they aren’t crisp HD images but I definitely see them as I narrate my thoughts
ufo21 · 5 points · Posted at 02:51:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m exactly the same!! Constantly narrated but visuals as well. After reading this thread and reflecting on the clarity of my own mental images, they aren’t that clear but at times.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, same here. Although I’m a photographer, so that explains the visual images. Even my poetry was visual too.
It might be possible for you to sharpen them with practice. I spent a few weeks trying to better visualize things when falling asleep. Brain is already going to do some of those just-before-sleep hallucinations so it’s about paying attention and being deliberate with what you’re seeing when you’re able to. It appeared to work as practice because it definitely made it easier for me to conjure up images on demand whenever, with more detail than before.
Some drugs have what they call closed-eye visuals and it’s like the ability to visualize has been mega-strengthened for the duration. Full bright color scenes in motion.
Some people work to train this skill. Some can achieve it through meditation. That's how I try. Most of the time I get blurry images but over time I have been able to produce clearer images. I too felt cheated out of this ability but it is something one can work on. Perhaps I will never have instantaneous clear images but it has improved for me over time and that I am grateful of.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 02:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is me to a scary degree. SEVERE ADHD but when I get engrossed in a book I’m in a visual wonderland.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My visual skills also improve when I'm tired or later in the day. Can it possibly be due to the chemicals that ate released? The same ones that are released when you dream?
Yeah, it's like a muscle. You exercise it. We're told this all the time as kids (or at least in my experience) but as adults you don't hear people talking about how you need to practice your imagination as often. I guess it's possible in the modern age where we have so much visual media more and more people won't be naturally pushed to develop it. Or not! I don't know.
I have always been a big day dreamer so it has sort of just come naturally for me. When I was in middle school and high school, I used to listen to music and imagine scenes with characters that sort of followed the vibe of the music and over the years I have pieced things together in my head to create a loose framework for a story. It's nothing concrete of course. It's more "nebulous" I guess.
I have considered for a long time now about learning to draw in order to try and fully realize it as something like a comic.
Can you give more detail about an attempt to build this skill through meditation? Where to even begin? I know nothing of meditation other than the stereo-typical pose seen in media.
I mean, I have really awful OCD, and one of the ways it presents with me is with a pretty consistent barrage of obsessive, repetitive, and (extremely) intrusive thoughts.
That, and movements. I act out certain motions constantly (obsessively) 99.9% of the time. Very difficult to explain to someone unfamiliar with this stuff.
I constantly seek out external stimuli that stands a chance at being louder/more distracting than my thoughts.
I really want to try something new because nothing has ever worked long-term, and even most short-term solutions are unhealthy.
When I think of meditation, I assume that you are still and quite with your eyes closed, focusing on something specific. But.. I don't really know any techniques to get to that point where you can focus on one thing (willingly). Idk if that makes sense or not.
Not to but into your guys thread but i loved your description of what you experience! I have very bad anxiety and a lot of your experiences seem to overlap with mine. You were able to put words to so many things I relate to
That said, I do meditate semi frequently, and used to have a much more regular practice. I’ve since found I can access a stimulus-free headspace (controlled and quiet thoughts) much more easily, and I have less trains of thought running at the same time on a regular basis.
What works for me is trying to keep my eyes still, by focusing on one imaginary point in my mind. Train my eyes toward it and then start to build it and create it by envisioning it. Think verbally of what it looks like and then build it. It helps w the visualization the thread was talking about earlier, and helps focus you on something so things can get a little quieter.
Idk how much of that made sense, but I think it’s cool you’re looking into meditation. It works for so many people and I hope you find benefit from a practice too!
I understand. For me it gets like that as well. I found a few guides on the topic way back and just started practicing. Try doing one small thing just briefly once a day. Eventually you will get better at it. That doesn't even need to be visualization, perhaps just simply trying to "silence" everything you are thinking about for maybe a second on the first try, 5 seconds next and so forth. Then start bringing in visualization.
So, for people that are aphantasic, if you do a guided meditation that tells you to imagine a brook or a tall tree...etc, what goes on in your mind?
What do you “see” ?
Not op but I visualise instantly and can be transported there, if I switch off and day dream or even better if I am dreaming it is extremely vivid down to the tiniest of details and I have learned to lucid dream as I can't tell if I'm day dreaming or not until I snap out of it, so I had to create tell tale signs, most recognisable is I don't feel the wind, I can sometimes feel pain but even that you can tell isn't real.
Best one is for me to change the dream so I am in the air falling, the falling feeling let's me know I'm dreaming. Its how I learned to control nightmares.
I think a lot of it has to do with dissociation and a abusive home where I would enter my mind or play computer games to escape.
I can create an entire world, remember and create faces as well as places.
I remember my dreams and can build on what I have dreampt
I also have vocalisation so I hear my own thoughts as well. Like a voice.
Its helped me in the real world as I have a crazy imagination and helps me make people laugh
it’s like you’re there... you ever watch that’s so raven? it’s like a time warp- a movie theatre you can & can’t have control of. Every sense- feel, taste, sound, sight immersed in whatever it is.
Maybe I'm not doing it right or just can't explain it right. But when I think of things I don't really get a picture. I know the details of them and describe them like that. Like one of my favorite sweatshirts I don't think about it and see it. I think of it and know that it's black and has white decals on it. My cat is grey with a white underbelly and he's a little fat and fluffy. One of my friends I know he has a narrow face, blonde hair that's combed over, skinny build, and wears glasses. But if I try and paint a picture I don't really get one I just think of the details about him.
Haha yeah, it always blows my mind when I try and explain how I see it. The best way to describe it since this is very relatable to everybody. You know when you get into a heated argument and it ends but you think of things you should have said instead? Some people might imagine a full picture of how the conversation would have went and can see yourself and the other person standing, sitting, or maybe laying down doing whatever in whatever environment talking. I on the other hand, would just be thinking of just the dialog of what I would have said and then think about their response. I don't see pictures being played back I just "see" (or play back) the dialog like a tape recorder.
Edit: adding clarity since it can be hard to understand since this concept is mind blowing to some people.
I am in the same boat as you as far as not visualizing, but I really don't have any better way to describe it.
Like.. You don't see invented or recalled images, you just know the attributes/characteristics/details that you have on file for whatever you're thinking of.
I wonder if that is why I have always sort of ascribed a "personality" to so many things? It's like, when you can just pick up on someone's vibes, only that happens for me with objects, thoughts, words, numbers, sceneries, situations, different parts of memories and places, and whatever.
Definitely. Sometimes a "color", though it isn't anything I can put into words. And most numbers have personalities and relationships of some sort with each other.
Would you consider yourself a good communicator, or better at verbalizing things or telling stories? I ask because I am terrible at verbalizing or trying to connect or tell a story, however I have always been excellent at visualizing everything. I wonder if this is part of the difference in that part of people's personalities..
No. I'm pretty terrible at explaining things when trying to teach if I don't have a visual example. I also usually jumble up my stories as well. But that's because my brain thinks faster than I can speak. I think it's a case by case thing.
Ha. I guess so. The brain thinking faster part I can relate to. It's racing around too much for me trying to figure out the right word and structure for every single sentence, almost. Especially when trying to retell a story or experience.
I mean, for me, it’s like holographic image in a movie or a video game. I can get a fairly accurate description of a few friends, but it’s not like a picture in 4K. It also depends on the person. Best friends? I can imagine from what they’re wearing, hairstyle, etc. Old HS classmates? I can get a face, and maybe their height.
Now, depending on the memory, I can totally replay it in my mind if I’m going by a certain spot.
There’s a fire hall nearby. when I was a kid, we had just left to go on a road trip and I wasn’t feeling good. Proceeded to throw up the oatmeal I had a few minutes prior. I can imagine the light dusting of snow in the morning, and I can probably tell you pretty closely to where on the pavement I was, cause I couldn’t make it to the grass line. In fact I still smell oatmeal every time I sit shotgun in the family minivan.
You tell me to visualize a little girl in a dress sitting on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree.
I visualize a little girl in a dress sitting on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree.
Details get change as I get more input from you. Naturally it’s on a small grassy hill surrounded by fields of wheat, but that’s probably just because of where I grew up.
You tell me to picture an apple, I picture a green apple in a dark room on a white surface, with a light shining on it from above and behind to the left so it casts a soft shadow.
Then again you mention the name of my hometown and all I see is Paperclips.
Brains are strange.
Oh also I can’t draw for shit, there’s some sort of disconnect between my predominantly visual mind and my hand lol
For me its kind of similar but instead of immediately having a backround scene for my swingset on the tree its just a tree with a swingset in an empty void unless given further details or if I'm reading a book based on the scene beforehand.
Mine will just make the background for me. When I read books it was like a movie in my head while I read. Just does it all itself. I spend a lot of time just thinking or being in my head
Me too, I suppose it’s a skill that can be practiced, people like us tend to not think of it that way since it’s been the status quo for...well forever
My brain creates a full picture from just a few details. Like you tell me to picture a little girl on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree. I see the little girl swinging back and forth, and I see the grassy hill surrounding the tree. I can see the grass blowing slightly with the breeze, and I can tell you the patterns on the girl's dress. I can tell you what shoes she's wearing.
My mind just naturally fills in the gaps based on a couple details, it's not something I intentionally do. It just happens when I imagine a scene.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:27:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine, well you can’t fully but still, like a tv screen in your head, personally for me I put it above my eyes, and then if I’m asked to visualise maybe an apple I just instantly, in that ‘tv screen’ I see an apple in whatever form I want. It’s like a second set of eyes that can see whatever you want them to see (minus intrusive thoughts which are like commercials)
Yes. I can visualise every single detail of my mother's face, her age spots, her whispy blonde hair, the way she smiles, articulates tone by tilting her head.
ufo21 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I visualise someone or something, I tend to over exaggerate something. For example if a person I know has a mole on their face, I visualise them with mole way way bigger than I know it is. Or if they have smaller eyes, they’ll just be little beady dots like sharks. I know that’s not how they look but my mind can’t picture it unless I’m actually looking at them or a picture/video. I’ve never really thought about the clarity of my own mental images, this is such a strange thread.
Wait, if you can’t visualize things in your mind how do you remember what someone looks like when you haven’t seen them in a while?? Does that also mean that you can’t get lost in memories of your internal highlights of things you’ve done??
You just know what it is. I remember the details but cant really form the picture. When I think of my brother I think of his narrow facial structure, blonde comb over hair, his glasses, what his skin looks like, his patchy beard he sometimes tries to grow. But I can't form the picture, but I when I just know it.
Not the person your asking, but I find it depends on how familiar I am with the thing I'm imagining, and how much effort I'm putting into the details of the image. I can also add imaginary sounds, songs and voices, that will sound in my head just like the real version of I'm familiar enough with the sound I'm trying to imagine.
I can kind of. Like if I try to see something super clear and think/focus on something specific but I can view the whole picture pretty well. Kind of like how you can see things in your peripheral vision. You know it’s there, you can see it well, but you can’t focus on it.
Now if I’m dreaming, that’s completely different. That’s like a movie. It’s sometimes so realistic that I don’t know I’m dreaming til I wake up, so kind of lucid? It’s strange.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very instantly, it's an involuntary reaction not something I have to try to construct
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's instant and it's pretty much an involuntary reaction, I don't have to try to construct the image, it just happens. Random images pop into my head all the time. I also have synesthesia so that might be related, I see music and sounds in my head and I interpret everything in a very visual way.
The visualization is very strong and clear, but again it isn't actually "seeing" because it doesn't affect my view out of my actual eyes. If my eyes are closed in the dark (if I'm falling asleep or something) it does seem more like actual seeing. Sometimes I can't sleep because I keep visualizing video games I've been playing lately and imagining going through the level or whatever, it can be kind of annoying but also it's pretty cool
I learned about this in art class in 7th grade. We were told to visualize an apple in our head. Some people would see a blurry apple. Some point would see a green one, a red one, big, small, etc. We were then told to visualize rotating these apples. I could do that easy, even then and still to this day, almost like you do when you're preview something in a game? But 360, all the way around, every angle. I can do that with any mental image. However, at the end of that "visualization activity" we were told some people wouldn't even be able to get through visualizing the apple, and art may appear harder to them, but to "look at it from another perspective" if you will. Most of the people like me got better at realism art and scenery, whereas those who couldn't visualize as well skewed towards more abstract art, even then. That always blew my mind. Some people can't rotate objects in their heads? Wild.
If I were to ask you who were the last people you spent time with before the quarantine, would you not picture the setting even just a slight amount? I could be wrong but I don’t think there is that wide of a spectrum with mental images where some couldn’t picture anything. Or maybe I’m just naive !
Yeah I mean I can replay things in my head like TV shows or Youtube videos Ive seen. Generally nor super detailed but I can focus in and usually picture the details if I really wanted to
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:16:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize people or places or things instantly with pretty much the amount of detail they have in real life. I don't think that I think in words, more in ideas. I can also "hear" in my minds ear(?) very clearly
It depends on how much I'm concentrating. I can lose myself so hard in my head that I stop seeing and hearing things around me and the daydream is laid out before me as clearly as a tv show, but that isn't practical so I generally dial it back to select details. Scenery, general look of characters, if the book supplies additional details like' their shirt was lovingly embroidered by an enthusiastic but imperfect hand' I take a moment to envision the clumsy stitching that created a crooked flower or some such before moving on.
Instantly for me. And the image is quite clear. This is how I remember things by looking up a memory and staring at it to suss out the details. Forgetting something means I cannot conjure up the mental image. It is fascinating to me that not everyone does this.
I used to think mental pictures were integral to cognition. Boy, was I ever wrong. It is a good lesson to never assume things... Very hard lesson.
For me it’s more like my past experiences coming together one by one to create a more absolute depiction of what ever I’m trying to imagine. I more experiences I have to draw from the more clear I can see the person doing things that would be how they normally behave.
Like "hearing" music like you're wearing earbuds? Can other people not do this? I used to do this a lot as a teenager to "listen" to music. Some of my memories have a soundtrack because of this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you, I also think it depends on people but I think it can be trained by exercise. I first realized I had the ability to pull out clear images from my memories back in college. During one of my finals, there was a question that I knew I studied several times but the word I supposed to write just wouldn’t come to me. Then out of desperation I closed my eyes until it becomes really dark and got into a really deep focus. Tried to find the exact page of the handout that I saw that word. First the pictures on that page popped up in their right locations and the paragraphs formed around them. Everything on the page, however, was blurry. All I needed was the diagram up at the top, which had arrows coming out of the different parts of the small intestine. Finally I was able to get the clarity focused on just the word i wanted; “Jejunum”.
It was a 2 point question but I needed those 2 points.
I practiced this a lot back in that time, and become better over time. Now I can pull up entire scenes from my past, like memories, as a whole, and I can play with the perspectives (like playing the scene from someone else’s eyes and trying to imagine what they were seeing during that event). I find it really entertaining. But the details might be unreliable from time to time. It all depends on how good the quality of the memory.
If it is a surprising event, it sticks better. For example when iPhone 4 first got out, my dad bought one for my sister. and as he was lifting the lid of the box (you know, that cool feeling when you pull the box lid up) he ended up dropping the phone on the floor with the box. I was surprised and it was a funny thing to witness. I still can pull up that memory and re-live. My dad’s face, my sister’s face, their relative locations, the phone slowly moving down in the air, which corner hit the floor first... You get it, every detail. no matter what I do though, I can’t visualize what anyone else was wearing other than my dad at that time. I guess the thing needs to be in focus to remember properly in the future.
For me I have to try really hard to stop swing the like back of my eyelids ig and like focus really hard and almost feels like my eyes are rolling into my head then I can start to visualize images
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:32:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can only see portions of the bigger image in HD at any given time.
I've noticed that when I watched a movie a long time ago, even in a shitty television or bad quality, my brain remembers it like HD quality. Then I see the movie again and I'm like Uhmm I remembered this was better.
dottree · 11 points · Posted at 23:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well for some. When I visualize a picture or a setting, it's as clear as if I'm seeing it with my own two eyes. It's not blurry at all, unless 720p is considered blurry these days.
I don't have perfect photographic memory but it is pretty close. I can bring up specific images or "scenes" almost like freeze frames of things I've seen and can even pan around the image in my mind to look at certain details. But it is also strange in that I had to have actually directly looked at the thing to explicitly remember details about it. Parts of the image or scene in my mind will be blurry because I didn't actually look at those areas or they were only in my peripheral vision. While this has been very beneficial in many ways in my life, I have also struggled with it a lot because I am unable to "delete" certain images in my mind that I would much rather forget.
whatever people talk about I instantly picture in my mind, even if I don’t want to!
People will talk about sex and it’s like suddenly walking in on their sex life accidentally! I don’t want to know/see that! TMI, people!
There's a cool YouTube video about how to forget things which also helped me with my undesirable memories. I don't have a link but googling how to forget stuff should help.
I have this sort of thing going on, now it’s a bit different and less intense because of strong bipolar medication that dulls a lot of things. Used to be able to do it and figured everyone could. Now that I have to focus so much more to do it, I get that not everyone can. Side note, that’s a big reason bipolar people don’t often like being medicated or go off meds. The highs and what we feel/can do without the meds is amazing. Just the lows are really low plus all of the other things.
So basically if you have a test about a scheme, you see the whole scheme?? I remember where what was written. I remember the colors and the words. But the worst thing is when I forgot something I knew was there but it just doesn't come to my brain. And it sucks because I've studied it, but I can't see it in my mental image. That's why it's so much better to study things theoretically.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:19:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless you eat psychedelic mushrooms. Then you see every colorful detail. It's awesome.
That's what you think, but you probably don't. I have really realistic dreams. But when I wake up, I know that the images were probably without any shape and blurry but my brain made images out of the blurry shapes, depending on what my brain knows. For example, if you always lived in a cave, it would be really complicated for your brain to dream with other things, like a rainbow, or like a cloud. Because you've always been in a cave.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:30:05 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I think? Lol I've experienced it, it's very very different to dreams, at least in the experience.They are very detailed in the moment. Once saw a leopard leaping around in great detail with my eyes closed. Yes, it's my brain creating those images via a composite of many things, but those end images were very detailed. If I thought of an elephant, it would look like one you'd see in a nature documentary but with rainbows . Crazy stuff
I can usually imagine things quite clearly. If I try hard enough I can make very detailed settings. Other times I can’t visualize anything at all and my mind just goes blank until something snaps me out of.
My thoughts are extremely vivid if I day dream I can put myself in the actual place, only way I know I am day dreaming is because I don't feel anything mostly.
I usually don't see it as a picture, but like a movie that I'm in. If you know what I mean. Like a movie where you can only focus on certain parts at time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uh, yeah. I guess it's different from some. It's like a detailed image, but super-imposed over the physical environment for me... BUT! I'm a visual artist. Which makes me think that it's something we can harness or develop. Maybe not as as adults, but maybe there's a window for it, in the way young children learned a second language way easier than adults do.
Really???? I mean, I can look at you for a long time. I can look at your face. Then I close my eyes. And I remember what It looked like but not like an image. I'm incapable of remembering every detail, and the whole image. 🤔🤔🤔 I mean, it's so strange 😂
OH MY GOD. Do I have aphantasia?? Maybe that's why I'm really bad at memorizing things?? I literally only remember the bad memories of my life, never remember anything else... 🤔🤔🤔
You don't really see it with your eyes. Though, I have to tell you, that when you dream, you maybe see it with your eyes. I remember I woke up in the middle of a dream, and I saw fractals. Or geometrical movements that create the images of the dreams. Those geometrical shapes move and evolve and your brain interprets them as images. Something similar happens when you're looking at the sky and the clouds, when the cloud shapes change, you see how it changes but then you see another thing. I think dreams work the same way. That's why we never have a continuated dream, but several different situations and places in a dream. Usually this fractals have rainbow colors and they move. And it's strange. It's like almost when you rub your eyes a lot and then lights and color appear. I guess this is what people on LSD see too. But they can't controle it because it's from a drug and not because your brain is doing it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually it depends on the person.
In my case I have a very active and vivid imagination and visualization.
For me I sometimes remember a full scene of something but can't tell if it's something I've read or if I saw it on tv cause when I'm enthralled in a book the scenes play in my mind as clearly as if I was watching a movie. Then I have to focus really hard to try to connect a memory to that moment, like remembering if there was a word connected to it or anything else occurring at the time.
And as soon as I can place it is like the memory comes to focus. If I remember a word then I can see the whole page in front of me and I remember myself reading it, and if it's something else, like a comment someone else made to the tv then I can see myself when I was watching it.
But until that happens I truly cannot tell for the life of me if it was on the tv or my mind
I found recently I have hyperphantasia, which is the opposite of aphantasia. I spent most of my life thinking everyone could visualize things that clearly and it's very odd to me that other people can't. I have an easier time imagining someone who can't see anything than someone who can see but not vividly.
When I found out I also was annoyed, but at this point I have just accepted it and I am sure that I get some benefits from having it (like not accidentally visualising stuff that I don't want to)
This is something I'm grateful for. I had a friend recently explain to me that sometimes they can see vivid images of the random horrible thoughts we all have sometimes, and that would truly terrify me
b4xt3r · 5 points · Posted at 01:59:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goddamn.. ok, I'm old, almost 50. The first naked woman I saw? The old woman in The Shining. I walked into the room after the hot woman had gotten out of the rub right as she switched to the old woman. Great introduction to the female form, let me tell you. Thanks, Stanley.
I don't think I've had a proper in depth conversation with people about this so I'm not sure if the way my brain works is normal.
I can visualise scenarios and situations, memories, and imagine how things would look like with real people, buildings, nature etc like a movie that I'm watching. I also have a dialogue in my head that says things and debates things a million miles an hour.
It's also how the messages are sent through the brain, like all the nerves and brain activity, that links with an image and how we process that in seconds and that not all people are the same and do it in lots of different ways, it's amazing.
You can gain that ability with practice, keeping a dream journal helps!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I’ve tried for a while.. and it did help! I remembered my dreams better and even had a Lucid Dream once - for like, 10 seconds or something. Though it was an amazing experience, ultimately I don’t know if I have the discipline to keep journaling. But i am still very much interested.
I guess I am lucky that I can lucid dream pretty often without putting work into it, but there's a downside, dreams are hard to control I find, they always turn a direction I dont want despite my best efforts, and you're just as aware when you're being chased by a monster as when you're flying. Plus I get sleep paralysis, one of the worst feelings
Wait you can’t? Like at all? Not even a blurry vague image? Not like your truly seeing it with your eye, but visualizing it internally through imagination? Creating an image in your head.
Wait can most people not do that? Hand on I’m so lost lol I thought everyone could see things in their head....
How did you jerk off before you discovered porn?? /s kinda.
You cant see a naked chick or dude or whatever if you think hard?
It’s funny because we could talk about this all day and we’re never going to understand it. It’s impossible to think of the alternative.
Did you know some people (women mostly) cannot shut their brain off. Can’t have a moment with no thoughts. Me and my girlfriend got in a fight about this lol. She’d always say “what are you thinking” and I’d say “nothing” and she’d freak out on me cuz that’s impossible. And then I’d say it’s impossible to not be able to think of nothing. Then we figured out there’s an actual psychology study on it. We still can’t comprehend the alternative but now we respect our differences.
Are you able to think of nothing for extended periods of time?
I get the images pretty much like you described. I can also think of nothing. Actually different levels of nothing. One is frequent. It’s like when I’m doing chores, walking, etc. I may be thinking of something but commonly I’m not. My body is in autopilot and my mind kind of shuts off. It will quickly turn back on to say “wait you forgot your laptop” or something random. This type of “nothing” can be for extended amounts of time.
A similar type of nothing is like above, except I am thinking of stuff I just don’t really know what. It’s like the thoughts of my minds eye; inception like. Sometimes this is how ideas hit me, because it was bouncing around in this preprocessor and I have a personal Aha! If it results in nothing, I often think “what was I just thinking about?” And can’t remember.
The other I just call “zoning out”. It’s less frequent but still probably 1-2 times a week on average. I’m awake but my brain just turns off. Autopilot body is not an option. This happens when I’m sitting still. I just start staring at something but I don’t even see it. Like I’m staring through it. Not even blinking. Mind is a complete void. Usually only lasts a minute or two. Often what happens is my wife asks “what are you staring at?” And I get jolted awake “huh? Nothing”. It’s happened enough they she knows it’s a thing and I just say I zoned out. But it doesn’t happen to her. So I had to explain several times that I wasn’t actually looking at something. Usually when I snap out of it, I can’t even remember what I was fixated on. But I know I was staring off into something.
I get the images pretty much like you described. I can also think of nothing. Actually different levels of nothing. One is frequent. It’s like when I’m doing chores, walking, etc. I may be thinking of something but commonly I’m not. My body is in autopilot and my mind kind of shuts off. It will quickly turn back on to say “wait you forgot your laptop” or something random. This type of “nothing” can be for extended amounts of time.
A similar type of nothing is like above, except I am thinking of stuff I just don’t really know what. It’s like the thoughts of my minds eye; inception like. Sometimes this is how ideas hit me, because it was bouncing around in this preprocessor and I have a personal Aha! If it results in nothing, I often think “what was I just thinking about?” And can’t remember.
The other I just call “zoning out”. It’s less frequent but still probably 1-2 times a week on average. I’m awake but my brain just turns off. Autopilot body is not an option. This happens when I’m sitting still. I just start staring at something but I don’t even see it. Like I’m staring through it. Not even blinking. Mind is a complete void. Usually only lasts a minute or two. Often what happens is my wife asks “what are you staring at?” And I get jolted awake “huh? Nothing”. It’s happened enough they she knows it’s a thing and I just say I zoned out. But it doesn’t happen to her. So I had to explain several times that I wasn’t actually looking at something. Usually when I snap out of it, I can’t even remember what I was fixated on. But I know I was staring off into something.
Most people can do both, and it varies across your life. Sometimes you can see a photo quality picture, sometimes just a concept, sometimes a grainy picture.
Does it affect hand eye coordination? Do you know where you’re hand is with your eyes closed? Do you play sports? Can you anticipate where a ball might land and take action to intercept? Do you have a motor vehicle, should you be driving a motor vehicle?
obviously I can do all of that, I just can't see an image while doing so. I know the layout of my house well enough so as long as I feel around with my hands I can make a trip to the bathroom. Hand-eye coordination is fine, and proprioception is fine. I don't play sports, but yes I can tell where a ball will land. I can drive just fine provided I'm wearing glasses. You don't need mental images to do any of these things. I'm not disabled, I just can't see with my "minds eye". The real ones work well enough thankfully
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 01:59:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it’s not like you SEE it with your own eyes, it’s just kind of.. behind your forehead you see a transparent image almost of a sheep.. but you don’t see an opaque image through your eyes like it’s real.. unless I have aphantasia and people see it through their eyes hahah.
That’s kind of a stupid test. It’s really just testing how many assumptions you make about a very simple thing, not how vividly you can visualize things.
I work on 3d models professionally, I visualize colour, form, and function in detail all day. I also sketch recreationally, I can take a visualization and put it on paper. I’m not trying to toot my own horn, but I think that establishes that I’m at or above average in this regard.
Now this test, I didn’t visualize the colour of a ball, I wasn’t asked to. I didn’t assign a gender to the person, it wasn’t relevant to the visualization. Could I? Yes.
How much you visualize would likely be highly mood dependent, and moderately circumstantial. Not a really deterministic test that’s useful for anything.
No its testing how vivid your minds eye is when asked to picture something. It's not supposed to hold your hand. It presents you with a scenario and your brain is supposed to fill in the gaps.
I’m an artist and WISH I could visualize shit. I can’t picture anything in my head. It’s really a pain in the ass and pretty much made school miserable. Because I’m purely a visual learner.
That being said my dreams are extremely vivid ironic enough. Which also kinda sucks. When I got depressed all I did was sleep so I could dream. Picked up a trick that allows me to continue a dream after I wake up so I would just keep going back to sleep every time my dream was amazing.
Yeah it's not fun at all but once I transition it should mostly disappear (it would be a lot easier if the UK didn't have such long waiting lists, I will likely have to use private healthcare for it)
I have hyperphantasia and I refused to draw anything for a long time because no matter how hard I tried I could never capture the image in my head. I wanted so bad to be able to show it to other people and I just couldn't.
When I was really young my older brother would show me these really creative sketches of characters. He would just sit and draw what’s in his head. I wanted to be like him so I started drawing what he drew. That and dragonball z. I couldn’t get anything right so I would pause the tv and just draw the face. Must have spent years drawing faces in different positions. Body’s, arms, legs. Referencing the show or magazines or my brother.
Then during school I would just draw from memory. After I do something I can kind of picture it. Like a muscle memory. So it sucks that I can’t draw anything from a place of creativity but more so from a place of repetition which limits my range. Now I paint only using references, but at least I’ve gotten kinda good at that. And I have a bank of stored muscle memory for specific subjects
Also I think I have a sort of freedom when it comes to colors. I don’t have a set palette in my head so I’m free to experiment more.
More like imagine the visual qualities of a sheep. They don't see it with their eyes. The more I read and draw the more detailed my imagination gets, like exercising a muscle. You think of a sheep. Well, what kind of sheep? Is it shorn? Grey, white, or black? Does it smell like a barn? Or oily hair and grass. How does it move? Imagine the skeleton and muscle and you can think of the mechanics of its movement. From there you build a picture of a sheep in your mind, like dreaming.
I have difficulty imagining rooms while reading, but not while drawing. Some very avid readers say they don't imagine much beyond the main characters. Had a great conversation about this on a literature forum.
Yeah it depends on the person, people with hyperphantasia are the opposite of me (they can visualise stuff extremely well) but most people are somewhere in the middle of the two extremes
Yeah that makes sense. I guess in my experience it really acts like a muscle. If I don't use it I get worse and worse. If I want to imagine things I need to take the time to do it. It's probably a different process depending on the person. I have a background in visual art, so I'll build a scene the way I build a painting or illustration. I can imagine, say, a mechanical engineer having a different method. It also depends on your visual library I'm sure. If you don't know what something looks like you'll have to fill in the gaps yourself.
I wonder. If you have some object you're very familiar with, how do you remember what it looks like? It's surprisingly difficult for me to wrap my head around. Say, your mother's face. If you think about her and her features, or a strong memory, you don't get an "impression" of her in your mind? Like a vague sensory ghost. The smell of her clothes and the way her eyes crease when she smiles. How do you experience it if you don't mind sharing?
I have seen others describe visualisation as a muscle they can train but to me, I do not have a muscle to train.
I take a lot of pictures of stuff a lot as I cannot remember what it looks like, for example I always forget which car is my dad's car so I just have to follow him to the car whenever I have to go in his car.
I actually cannot remember faces, sounds, smells etc. One example is how my mum died a few years ago and it makes me feel guilty how I have to look at photos of her to remember what she looked like.
Oh no I didn't mean to bring up a painful thought. Sorry about that. Your insight is really interesting though. It makes a lot of sense actually. There's a reason the word for being unable to imagine exists, yeah? Put in the context of problems one might face with it, it actually makes way more sense to me. Thanks for helping me understand.
Edit: I meant to finish that gibberish thought. Like, in psychology, things don't get called disorders unless they negatively impact your function.
Interesting you bring up reading: I read a LOT and I can hardly ever imagine anything in a book — most books are just words on a page, as it were. In some ways this is good, as it doesn’t ruin movie adaptations for me (I don’t have any expectations for what characters or places look like, for example). On very, VERY rare occasions, however, the storytelling is such that the character or scene is as vivid as a film in my head. Example: The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay. Those who’ve read it may be familiar with the the scene where Joe Kavalier climbs and leaps on to a fire escape ladder and then up on to the fire escape. I can imagine the whole thing: the movement of Joe, the excited faces of those below, the color and texture of the fire escape, the sounds as he catches and climbs up it, the color of his suit, the building it’s attached to; and the whole book is like that. But the list of books that are like that is extremely short. As in...Kavalier & Clay, American Gods, The Yiddish Policeman’s Union (sometimes), and for some strange reason a kids/young teen audience book I read years ago called The Ghost Sitter. Beyond those, I’ve never been able to visualize or audiate anything.
What I do get very strongly are emotions connected with words/scenes, the same way someone might do with a whole scene in a movie, between dialogue, music, and image. For example, Harry Potter & the Deathly Hallows, in the end when Molly Weasley jumps in to the fray against Bellatrix LeStrange and yells “Not my daughter, you bitch!” — nearly brought me to tears of emotion. I couldn’t imagine it visually, and still can’t. That moment remains just five words and a punctuation mark on a page. Yet it moves me without doing anything else.
Likewise, I can’t remember anything visually. My parent’s faces, my girlfriend’s...anything, my childhood home that I lived in for sixteen years. At most I get an impressionistic blur...but i get a feeling. Not a tactile one, but I remember for some reason that we had this berber carpet, which I can describe because I know what it is rather than because I remember it, but it’s a good memory, a warm memory. I can remember the golden content feeling of seeing Alan Jackson at sunset, or the excited anticipation and joy during the opening act of Coldplay when I was 16 at The Gorge in Washington, and the wonderment at the warmth of the evening and the peaceful connected joy of bouncing these giant yellow balloons that they released during “Yellow”; but I can’t visualize those moments. Those memories are just the feeling of those moments and when I describe the colors and textures they’re just words.
Notable in relation to that is: my thought process is a constant, relentless internal monologue. If I wake up and think about breakfast the words “maybe I should get out of bed now, maybe I’ll have eggs, ooh I’d really like some coffee, yeah that sounds good, damn I don’t wanna go through the process of making coffee though” are “said” out loud in my head, at the speed I might read them. I don’t hear a voice or see the words, but I imagine if you MRI’d my brain the speech center would light up like Times Square. I can occasionally, with a lot of concentration, force myself to transcend words and just have the thought, something like “up breakfast coffee effort don’t wanna good”, and it’s done in a flash — when I can do that my brain works so insanely fast it’s scary. It’s almost like I have to have each word pass through my brain so that my brain has something to do. Idk maybe that’s just super pretentious but it feels that way.
I have a friend who reads books SUPEERR quick and he told me once that he doesn't actually imagine the characters and instead he just consumes the knowledge almost instantly, like a book black hole or something.
I actually wanted to learn how to think things without visualizing them. For example in music. When I think about a chord, I need to visualize it in a piano. I can't think about a chord theoretically. And I would like to, without having to memorize the chord.
I don't day dream like an actual dream (my dreams are vivid but I can only do that while asleep) but I do get distracted by thoughts and it looks the exact same as when others day dream
My memories barely work tbh, I can think logically like oh I went shopping yesterday but I can't see the memory in my head
It is one the main reasons I dislike holidays, they are fun when I am there but when I get back I can't experience it again in my memories (like I heard that others have memories of the smells, sounds etc and I can't do any of it)
I have to rely on photos to help recall memories a lot of the time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a version of this where it’s not as bad? Like if I try and visualise a sheep I know the concept of what it looks like but I can’t straight up see it in my mind. I’m not sure if I’m explaining this properly but it’s like I can see a very faint version of the sheep in the peripherals of my mind but I can’t see a solid sheep.
I actually learned that I have (or suffer from as some would say, but IMO, it only becomes a disability if you make it) Aphantasia about half a year ago. When someone goes “picture ____” I’ve always just thought about whatever it was as concepts, as I have a general understanding of what things I’m familiar with is. It’s interesting to look at how many interest if mine are (probably) centered around my lack of visualization. When I was a kid, I played with legos non-stop, always creating stories, characters and events because that was a way for me to visualize all these ideas, concepts and stories I had.
Today I’m in the film making industry, and as much as it can sometimes be a burden to not understand fully what someone wants me to picture, compared to many of my colleagues, I don’t get that sense of disappointment many of them do when they see something we’ve worked on and it’s not how they picture it. For me, films are a way of visualizing things that I normally wouldn’t be able too.
Edit: grammar.
kamomil · 12 points · Posted at 01:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can picture things in my mind.
During high school, I wouldn't study for math tests, but often I could picture in my mind, the notes I took the day we studied that lesson that the question was about. If I could do that, I could remember the formula to answer the question.
Studying has been a struggle for me because of this, as many classes and tests, especially based around language learning or math formulas, are based around repetition to the point of memorizing things. What you describe right there is properly one of my biggest envy’s of not being able to picture stuff.
I have aphantasia but my dreams are really vivid and just as real as real life (of course when I wake up it is obvious that it was a dream as zombies or whatever aren't in real life)
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are your dreams like?
I can’t imagine not being able to dream in images. It’s weird, while looking at my phone screen i can also see the visual image of my last dream in my mind. Like having a dual monitor setup.
Oh wow, that’s really interesting because I can’t picture anything normally (see my other comment) but when I dream they’re usually very vivid, complete with action, dialogue, color, music, everything...I usually remember them as very impressionistic affairs but it’s the only time my brain does that all on its own. They’re also usually very mundane — they’re about paying bills or going to work or conversations with people.
Me too! Passed all my exams with high grades by writing revision notes and memorising them then reading back through them off the image of the page in my head.
In the old days, before everything was saved in my phone, that's how I would remember phone numbers, account numbers etc - by visualizing how the number sequence looked.
Isnt that bad for the creative process though? I make youtube videos for a living and all of my video ideas, channel ideas, business ideas etc come from visualising endless tangents in my brain until something interesting comes up and I get the 'aha!' moment and get to work. Almost like a filter where I dont have to actually start working on something before I know if its bad or good.
Do you have to start working first to come to revelations?
Honestly I wonder if aphantasia is a bit exaggerated. I think some people have the notion that its the norm to visualise things as if you can actually see things in your mind clear as day. I dont think this is true, so many people incorrectly label themselves as having it. For example, I can remember almost every event that has ever happened to me. I'd say I have a photographic memory. But that doesnt mean I can write a sheet of text and take a screenshot of it with my eyes.
When I picture an apple I cant see a vivid apple. I cant see anything. Although I know the concept of an apple. Im thinking of a red apple with a green stalk with the bumps at the bottom so it stands up etc.. but I cant see the apple. Its not actually there. I cant pull up imaginery images. Its just black. But I wouldnt say I have aphantasia
The only times I can see extremely vivid images is when im under the influence of drugs. Like if ive been drinking really heavy and im on a hangover. I can close my eyes and see scenes as if I have my eyes open.
Whenever someone brings up aphantasia, I never understand what people are talking about.
Someone said the image doesn't get projected onto reality, but is instead held in their "mind's eye"... Like what did this even mean?
Best I can think of is my internal monologue. I can actually "hear" my voice reading this sentence. This isn't using my ears, so it's obvious no one is talking to me, but the words still have enough quality that it has the same effect and "sounds" like my voice.
Is this what it's like for "aphantasia"? Visualization/imagining just doesn't have the same level of literal meaning as with my inner voice. It's entirely conceptual instead. If someone were to tell me there was a ball on a table, this would be analogous to knowing that "my cousin is related to me though our mothers". There are no images, but this fact "just is".
I don't know if that all makes any sense, but I guess this is appropriate for the larger topic of something that I just completely don't understand :-/
b4xt3r · 6 points · Posted at 02:08:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only thing I can visualize is an argument, or more specifically a question. If someone is asking me a long question, or telling me something that leads up to one (in a meeting at work is where this happens most often) there visualzation of the argument can go one of three days - it can stay neutral which kind of looks flat like a tabletop but feels more flat than it looks (I can't see neutral very well). If the argument is positive in the sense that I want to answer it and I find it interesting the "flat" turns into a ball and glows softly like a diffused light, not bright, just "warm". Those are the questions I like. If I don't like a question the ball shape starts to grow darker and irregular and if I really don't like it points emerge from the ball, like spikes. My own internal joke to respond to questions like that is to say "that's a very pointed question" which, to me, it is. I've told this to a few people and everyone givers me the standard WTF look back.
People have asked "what does the 'no' ball look like" and I always had a hard time explaining it until I saw ferrofluid and now I just say "a 360 degree, jet black floating ball of of that stuff".
Woah that sounds cool, to me it sounds really foreign/alien
b4xt3r · 3 points · Posted at 03:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It feels foreign! I have no idea when it started or it is something that has been with me all along. In college I knew when I was in trouble in a class when all questions from the prof to the class were black and spiked.
I don’t have an internal dialogue. I can pretty much switch between something best described as conceptual and the others - like visuals, sound, smell etc.
I thougt everyone did the same and the ”voice” in the head was just an expression until recently.
I’ve never read with a style different from speed reading as far as I can remember. But sometimes (rarely, like every few months) when I read I somehow switch to reading the text in my head and that shortly becomes too slow and cumbersome and I put the book down.. :)
I can visualize very well. I often visualize the internal workings of an engine. Horizontally opposed ‘boxer’ engines are the most beautiful to visualize.
My gf recently asked me about my inner dialogue and I said, "what inner dialogue?" That is when I realized I think by visualizing words, after over 20 years
Idk if this is normal or not, but I can also remember things in the form of movies or pictures. Like a test I took or a certain event I can play through it as if I were doing that moment again. With sounds and all of that but less details.
Checked off everything pretty much and strangely taste and smell were the most vivid. I can recall them really fast. And now that I think about it it's incredibly easy for me to remember the taste of things I've eaten even years ago
I knew a kid in grade school who couldn’t hold a mental picture of a book or story or whatever was told to him. Being 10 I just thought it was him being a dumbass but I have since met a few people who just can’t picture shit. Would make reading a real bitch.
I actually love reading, I can't understand how people need to visualise it to enjoy it.
I watch movies when I want to see the story, and books when I want to read it
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't visualise for shit but I damn love reading man. A book is descriptive enough to build the "visual" for me. So it is like a movie for me but not in pictures, in all the details and information that you add on as you read through.
Never said you had too. I consider reading to be like reading a movie. It helped a lot when I was reading history textbooks. Just makes it nice to see it play it my head.
I like it being different to movies but I do get a bit jealous as I cannot experience it the same as others (also if there are long descriptive paragraphs I just skip them as I can't see it)
I am not sure how reading is different for me as I haven't experienced it without aphantasia, but there is one thing that I have noticed.
I had always been a fast reader (like the fastest in my class by far) and now that I know about aphantasia I think its because I spend no time trying to visualise the information.
See this is a great representation of OPs question. This is something I just can’t wrap my head around. Funny too cuz it’s the same feeling I got when I spoke with that kid in grade school. Not being able to visualize a piece of text is mindbending to me lol.
Synesthesia is kind of like that. There’s different versions of it. Where people will relate smells to colors and stuff. I have a kind where I give numbers, letters, and colors personalities and genders. I thought it was crazy that everyone didn’t do that. I didn’t know until a couple years ago when my brother asked me. He found out he has a type as well.
I have it where numbers have qualities; For instance even numbers are generally balanced, solid, stable feeling, and odd numbers are much more aggressive or pointed feeling. Certain numbers like 48 are very comforting and numbers with 7 are much more uncomfortable, sharp, unbalanced. Numbers containing all even components are just comforting and remind me of home, where numbers that have odd components like 793 are like uneven ground, or staying in a hotel (just not quite right, or safe feeling). I don’t know if this is exactly what you are talking about or not, but I haven’t really talked to others about this but what you said really spoke to me. I also have sensory disorders, with aversions to certain types of fabrics and sounds.
I experience the same thing. Even numbers are soft, and safe, while odds feel aggressive, and untrustworthy. My favorite number is six. I can remember sorting numbers into evens and odds as a kid and thinking to my self the odd numbers were "bad". I am also sensory sensitive to fabrics, in particular clothes, sounds, and lighting. I often wonder if this is just my normal and not other people's normal?
I think it is a spectrum disorder, where most people have a sound or two that impacts them (nails on a chalkboard). Other people, like us, probably have more sounds, feelings that impact is that way and potentially more greatly, in an emotional way.
I've always thought it might be something like that. Though I've never had a diagnosis and walk through the world passing as neurotypical. Do I change the lighting in my classroom at my job? Yes. Am I pleased my driver's license number is almost all even numbers except one pesky odd? Yes. Do I wear synthetic fabrics? Fuck no. Do I make my partner move in a restaurant if the lighting is bad? Absolutely. I'm able to accommodate all of those feelings without ever needing to change much about my everyday.
I also find that being so sensory sensitive makes me more in tune with my environment and the people in it. I work in a mental health profession with kids and the way I think and work is a distinct advantage in knowing how to best support them.
I hope your sensitivity has become an asset for you!
Thanks for sharing your experiences. It is interesting you found yourself in the career that you did. It is a blessing and a curse. I also end up working with individuals who have ASD, but that isn’t what I do specifically. Certain materials seem to be at the other end of the spectrum, instead of causing discomfort they provide a sense of significant comfort. I also feel quite perceptive because if certain stimuli evoke negative feelings, you get pretty good at identifying and avoiding those things in your surroundings. The other side of it is that I don’t want the world, really my friends and family, to have to conform to a certain way of being to appease me. They understand how I am to a degree and do what they can to minimize my discomfort, but it really shouldn’t be on them. At the core my feelings aren’t logical or really reasonable, but they are what they are and although they can modulated they likely will never cease.
Yes very similar! 7 for me is a women and she’s a bitch lol. She’s rude af to 4. Somehow it helps me remember things better. But now that I think about it. Most of the odd number for me are also considered “bad” thier personalities are undesirable to me.
I have heard about the smells to colours stuff but I haven't heard about the rest and it sounds really interesting, I guess this is going to be the next thing I randomly research lol
Intresting i kind of do both where most of my thoughts are pictures but i also think in like book format. Where i trai. Thoughts like turning a page. Wonder thats similar.
Is it possible to draw from your head if you can’t visual stuff or do you just know how it looks even though you can’t visualize it? Or do you need to pull up an actual image to reference if I told you to draw a cat?
I have to look up pictures to draw something, but if its something like a cat I logically understand the shape so I can do a crappy drawing of a body, 4 legs and a head (however my dogs, cats and horses all look the same but different sizes lol)
I had always been confused by artists that were before photographs existed, like how the hell did they get everyone in a street to stand still for as long as it takes to paint the painting.
But now I know that they just had to look at the street once and then go home and paint it, which is extremely weird to me
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, I was always confused by movies and tv things where they got witnesses to describe what the suspect looked like
I would probably be able to give gender, skin colour and hair colour but not much else (and I might not even remember all of those, it depends on how much I interacted with the person)
Wow! I didn’t know that was possible! I visualize everything and think in concepts more then words. When I was a child I had see a therapist to learn how to put my thoughts into words, and then get the words onto paper while accurately conveying what I wanted to. Before that I would start a sentence and then trail off.
I've heard of this before, but it's still so weird to me. I am very visual in my thinking, to the point where I can remember to do stuff by leaving imagery in the corner of my visual field, like an image of a key to remember to grab my keys when I leave.
I've got so many questions for a person such as yourself, who cannot picture stuff in their heads. Such as how do you recognize people? If I ask you to describe someone, could you do it? Do you remember how they look in text form, as a story, and do you have to quickly run through a checklist to identify someone?
If I close my eyes, for a split second the last image on my retina persists, for example the strongest image would be if I looked at the sun, the for of the sun remains in my vision, which isn't a memory, just the light rods being too excited, do you get at least that?
Can you picture very simple stuff, like, if you look at a dot, and close your eyes, could you picture something as simple as a dot?
If you decide to actually answer these: thank you.
I am able to recognise people when I see them but I cannot describe them properly without a picture of them (well I can say their gender, skin colour, hair colour and other very memorable features but anything detailed is impossible for me). I am also bad at remembering people's names (like it takes me up to a week to remember someone's name) but a lot of people have that issue so it's probably not related.
I have actually once almost lost a friendship because I was unable to describe them when I had my eyes closed and they got pissed thinking that I didn't care about them (we were like 10, and 10-year-olds get angry over small things)
I also can see the annoying sun dot thing in my vision after looking at the sun, that is because it is something that physically affects the eye, not visualisation.
I cannot picture something like a dot when I close my eyes, all I can see is these weird eyelid things or pitch black when there is no light source.
It is hard for me to do that as I cannot visualise, but from what I understand it is being able to have an image in your minds eye (whatever the hell that is)
I totally have full control of my thoughts and visions, it can be actually terrifying if i’m in an anxious state and manifest things i’d rather not imagine.
Almost able to actually feel the thought/dream and change it on command.
Yes, when I was young I had several reoccurring dreams of weird houses and places that I’ve never laid eyes on, like really nice but eerily unexplainable. So I knew overtime that I would be dreaming and either wake up or enter another dream. Several odd things would happen in the dream, mostly the same people and setting, that’s when I could control it. This one dream that I think is from my anxiety, I end up airborne somehow and just before I hit ground I wake up, until one dream, I all of a sudden controlled my landing and the dream kept going.
I have had a dream like that when I was stressed a ton, it was me falling for ages and once I hit the ground I woke up sweating really bad (I also fell out of my bed)
I’ve always said I don’t have an imagination.
I think it’s because I can’t visualize anything in my head...zip, nothing.
It’s always made me pretty sad because I think an imagination would be awesome.
It's not exactly something you can lose so you shouldn't worry about it, you can also train to improve your ability to visualise if you want to improve it.
The only way you could possibly lose it is some sort of brain injury, brain injuries can have crazy results. You are more likely to die than lose your visualisation
Funny, because when it said picture an Apple, I pictured not only the Apple, but the Apple sitting on a brown table shadow and all, I even pitctured the smell and flavor of the Apple. (Granny Smith, my go to Apple at all times).
I can tell exactly how that Apple would feel in my hand, the sound it makes when you bite it, how the stem feels against my fingers or my lips.
The feeling in my jaw of biting through it.
The way it rolls.
I can play all of a song in my head, pitch perfect, on command from start to finish (even all of Pink Floyd’s “echoes”.) mainly because I’ve likely listened to it, but I can turn the volume down at a specific place, and keep up with the song in my mind, turn it back up and be exactly at the same spot in my mind. I often have concerts in my mind when I’m bored.
As for taste, I know exactly what a pickle taste like, it makes my mouth water just thinking about it.
My memories barely work tbh, I can think logically like oh I went shopping yesterday but I can't see the memory in my head
It is one the main reasons I dislike holidays, they are fun when I am there but when I get back I can't experience it again in my memories (like I heard that others have memories of the smells, sounds etc and I can't do any of it)
I have to rely on photos to help recall memories a lot of the time
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just think in feelings.
No audible or visual stimulation unless it’s a powerful emotion that I’m feeling. Otherwise do have to concentrate to have an internal dialogue
Did you struggle when you were told to write down what you were thinking as a kid? I struggled to do stuff that required visualisation as a kid (like when mediating and they say stuff like imagine that you are in a forest)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t say that I have apahantasia, I can see a mental image, I just have to force it. It’s not my “normal” and when I do force it I can’t say it’s very detailed.
To answer your question: I do have some difficulty fully articulating what I’m feeling sometimes. It depends on my mental state how effectively I can express myself
That is interesting, I would want to talk about it a bit longer but I just realised that it is 5 am and I need to go sleep lol (I lost track of time, this quarantine has killed my sleep schedule)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s midnight for me. I think I will go to bed as well. It would be better to wait to finish the discussion anyway, considering sleepiness isn’t exactly my mental prime haha
Is there a word for a more active visualization? I see music in my head but I can’t read music. Like I see the patterns in my minds eye and can interpret that into sound and motion somehow. I didn’t even know I was doing it until recently. I thought it was normal. Basically I just see shapes and patterns that represent the music
Omg dude holy fuck!!! You just figured something out for me that I’ve been trying to tackle for the last 3 months. I can do all of those on that list without effort. But when I got to Touch...
Literally a few weeks ago I realized I’ve always been able to imagine what something feels like. Exactly how it would feel and I feel it. I can go back to a girl I dated and remember how her skin felt. How my drum sticks feel in my hand.
And now recently I have discovered a new one that’s very strange lol. I can do that with smell, and it’s getting really weird. Really weird. If I’m watching a show I can look at a person and I get an idea of what they smell like. Completely in intentionally it just started happening.
Watching ozark I know how Marty’s pheromones smell lol. It tends to be mostly men I’m able to do this with. No idea why. But each person I see has a different unique sent as they probably would in real life. This one is the most confusing to me. It’s like I can activate my senses subconsciously somehow.
What a pointless superpower lol. What can I do with my super smell?
Edit: finished the list. I can taste anything I imagine.
Have I been able to do this my whole life? I think so. Why am I just noticing? I’m about to go down a rabbit hole
Edit 2. I just did a test, I can remember feelings and smells up to 12 years back. I’ll try to go further lol. I just remembered something I felt in 8th grade. Now 7th.
Whoa this is super fun I’m gonna hang out in my memories for the next few days and see what happens. I’ve never really gone back there before
I just recently learned about some people not having inner dialogue, and tbh, I still have difficulty comprehending it sometimes. Maybe bc I talk to myself or imagine scenarios all the time? I had no idea people didn’t have this, but it’s truly fascinating.
Always thought it was weird people can’t visualize. I can visualize with great detail easily. It’s just like thinking words but images if that makes sense. Or well videos I guess to.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:52:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For those of you who can't visualize things....what are your dreams like?
I have to ask, and it may sound stupid, but how do you read books? I visualize scenery, characters, background details, and can't see loving to read if I didn't have my imagination to lay everything out.
I love reading despite not being able to visualise it, I find it weird how people think visualisation is so important for enjoyment. I feel the same emotions from reading a book as when I watch a movie. (actually the best books I have read are better than all the movies I have seen, except than my favourite movie)
If I want to see the story I will watch a movie, but I don't see that as a necessary thing to enjoy it
That's nice. I'm glad you find full literary enjoyment. The visualization, while I can more or less control how much detail goes into it, is involuntary for me.
However the book is more or less always more superior than the movie, regardless of my own imaginings.
Well there was a girl who didn't learn a language due to being locked in a room until she was 13 years old (it was really fucked up, I don't know how someone could do that to their daughter) and you could research her a bit
I thought every one talks to themselves silently. Like I actually have a debate on my head over some things. It also amazes me how a single word or thing can make you remember something and suddenly it leads to another memory and so on. Like I am just listening to a song and I find myself remembering the WW2 documentary I just watched.
That's how I think, maybe. But I do have conversations with myself sometimes. When I do, I visualize the people in my conversation as well as a background setting. Sometimes I'm not even me in the conversation, like I'm watching it on TV. It's hard to explain how the things I visualize hold so much meaning. If I thought it out in words I don't think my head could hold it all
ikanx · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? TIL. Can those people do augmented reality stuff in their head? It's like half seeing and half visualizing.
This isn’t actually true, if you read any of the research claiming this... there isn’t any. This thought was created by a man on twitter. The only thing any research says on the topic is that you don’t ALWAYS visualize and vice versa. Think about throwing a ball, you didn’t need an internal monologue to run through the process. The same thing happens with object we try to visually represent in our head. In psychology there are many schools of thought on this but we don’t mentally rotate and store objects, only many 2d images. We don’t actually think in real pictures because as soon as the light hits out retina it’s actually a different shape from the “real” object anyways.
I have the opposite situation where I can’t not visualize what’s happening, i had a coworker who found out I “saw” everything and he would come over to me and describe god awful scenarios. Anyway, I thought everyone thought like that.... weird
And then there's people like me who visualize so well it literally keeps me up at night. I dont see darkness when I close my eyes and try to fall asleep, I see what I was doing that day or whatever game I was playing, and keep doing it mentally. Without wanting or meaning to.
Holy shit now I'm wondering if I can actually visualize stuff. Like when I think of a toaster or a car or fork, I know what they look like but I cant actually visualize them like in my head. Even when I close my eyes, I know what my phone looks like but I cant actually picture it. Everything is just black.
I guess I conceptualize, not visualize. I can tell you a 2 hour fictional story, but when I try to visualize a ball on a table, its geometric, not in color or detailed. My mind is blown. Ty stranger.
It blew me away to learn that, no, we do not all have the same inner thoughts. A lot of us do, but some people think in complete sentences, some in broken sentences, some a mixture, some visualize and some do not. There’s a portion of the population that is unable to visualize things. So, if I say, ‘Hey, remember that beautiful 25lb salmon we caught up the Portland Canal last summer?’ And I have a picture of that salmon in my mind, there are people who will have no picture. When you extrapolate that out, it’s sucks - there goes reading, memories, imagining scenarios, fantasy, getting creative inspiration for a lot of art.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 02:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just wanna say, I'm someone who can't picture stuff in my head and it doesn't take away at all from my experience of reading, the clarity of memories, or my creativity.
I can get overwhelmed by description that's just a bunch of physical traits of stuff because I kinda have nowhere to put those images and it's hard to keep it straight sometimes. But, I love heavy description that's more metaphorical or poetic because it captures the feel of a thing more than its literal dimensions, which is closer to how I imagine stuff in my head. I very clearly "hear" the voice of the narration in my mind as I read, too.
As far as creative expression goes, I can absolutely draw and do creative writing. When I draw, I'm usually building off what I put on the page, rather than imagining the whole thing in my head first and going from there, but it works out fine, more or less! I still get creative inspiration for stuff--it's just not pictures. Sometimes it'll be sentences, emotions, the sound of a character voice, or a different sense than sight. But it's still there!
Same. I get the sense that people who say they see things vividly might be overstating it a bit. If you see things so vividly, why is it that most people can't draw a bicycle the way one actually looks, or accurately depict the major features of currency? Our minds confabulate what we imagine to be accurate, but it isn't.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 09:42:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I were good at drawing I would be able to draw it but I’m not
Good question. I’m very, very familiar with my own face but I’d be hard pressed to draw it. Maybe more to do with my drawing skill? But I don’t think so. Artists that have done self portraits inevitably use mirrors. I will say that I don’t see all things vividly, some things more than others. Usually something that I can visualize vividly is something that has a high degree of emotion attached to it.
Thank you for posting! And for explaining what you see, or don’t see ;) I wondered how people with aphantasia process things that I handle visually. And, of course, because I’m very visual, most thing come to me in pictures, it’s hard for me to fathom it being any other way. So, when you pull up a memory of, say, a special Christmas from your childhood, you get sounds, and smells and sequences of events but not pictures? No visual image of that Christmas tree, for instance? And when you’re reading, you capture all the other senses of the story except the ‘picture’?
Have you read Lord of the Rings? Or Game of Thrones? Those were really heavy in the descriptive writing department and, as I read, I basically had a movie running in my head. I heard the story but also ‘saw’ everything in my mind’s eye. How were those stories for you? Same as me but no visuals? And, then, when I saw the actual movies and the television series, I was really happy with how the production matched up to what I had imagined. The pictures I had in my head while I was reading matched up nicely with what I ended up seeing on the screen. Do you have the same experience? Or are the visuals that turn up on the screen a bit of a surprise for you? Genuinely curious!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No worries! I like hearing how other people's brains work as well. It's wild to me how people can think in pictures all the time. Do they just appear? Like, without you meaning to? Does it ever make it hard to translate your ideas into words?
When I remember things, it's usually remembering events and emotions. I can imagine stuff through other senses. Sound and physical sensations are the clearest for me. That's how I remember map directions--I can "feel" in my body which way I was supposed to turn. I remember how things look, too, but there's no image in my mind--I just kind of know what it looks like. It's hard to explain. Like trying to define the word "that". You can't define it as simply as you'd define a noun, but you have an instinctual understanding of what it means. So, yeah, I know what all my favourite nostalgic Christmas ornaments look like, but there's no echo of the sight of them in my mind when I imagine them. It's more just the concept of them, I guess.
When I'm reading, I usually focus entirely on the words. I can "hear" the words in my mind, and imagery conjures up clear and complex emotions, but I usually don't imagine stuff with my other senses at all unless I consciously choose to. The voice and the emotions are enough for me. I loved LoTR because Tolkien was so deliberate in his word choice and sentence structure; I can really get a sense of the inflection and rhythm of the description. There's a bit of sly wit snuck in there as well, and again, it makes the "voice" of the narration feel really alive. As far as seeing film adaptations, if the visual design causes the same emotional reaction in me as the language did, it feels like it "matched". So, I loved the LoTR adaptations just like you did. In general, I actually tend to like movies that are more stylized than realistic, because it's easier for me to connect to the visuals.
...I hope all that makes sense and I don't sound like I'm nuts!
For example when I think about something, I think about the whole idea, or the picture, and I don't think it in words, I think it like in a movie, with images. So when I actually have to talk about what I've seen in my brain, it's complicated for me and that's why I can't express myself that good when I'm not writing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's kind of interesting that our brains all work differently. I wonder if it would be possible to share what some one is thinking, by maybe finding out what signals our brain uses for what things, and then using something to replicate them. Using that, it might even be possible to find things that some people couldn't understand before. I would start by seeing how our brains observe color. We probably don't know what color is when we're born, so how do we understand it? There are a lot more questions I have, but this comment is already long enough.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was a kid, I used to think if the world looked different through different eyes. Like would red be for you what blue is for me?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:31:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of synesthesia makes the spectrum even more mind-blowing. There are some people who can essentially hear colours or perceive physical characteristics of numbers in their mind.
I personally find using my mind's eye very difficult. I can remember situations, what people said and did and where it occurred, but actually reconstructing how the scene looked is really difficult. I also find it difficult to remember what people who I don't know well look like. I often tell people "I'm not good with faces".
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Vision is when the photoreceptors in your eye send a signal to the occipital cortex in your brain. I’d guess that when people imagine/visualize something, they’re activating parts of the occipital cortex through a different pathway.
I can imagine my daughter’s face right now, and it’s so hard to describe, but yeah I can see her face in detail even though my eyes aren’t seeing it.
It is thought that things that are precious/important to us may even have their own braincells called Grandmother cells. Faces are processed in a very special area called the FFA (the fusiform face area) in the Temporal Lobe (secondary visual cortex). The primary visual cortex in the occipital lobe processes very basic things like colours and corners and light and dark. We have a special area in our brains just for faces because they are so important for human communication :)
I see things I think about in my head, it is almost, almost like seeing it in front of my eyes, but not quite. Although if I close my eyes, yes I can visualize things as if with sight.
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Maybe you've never imagined anything before, but it's beyond what you see. Most people can overlay imaginary images over the real world, but you can also think of an imagine that is completely seperate to what you're seeing with your eyes. In a way, you don't need to look at it or be able to see it, because it's just an imagine in you're mind.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had to explain thinking to my 4 year old a few months ago. I asked him how many sides a square had, but wanted him to answer WITHOUT counting aloud. He didn’t understand how that was possible. “I don’t know how to think!”
So I told him to just talk to himself, but to not move his mouth and don’t talk.
It's such a weird thing to realise though that you have a voice in your head processing things. My daughter asked me if I had a little voice in my head talking, when you say it aloud it sounds bizarre, especially as people don't really talk about it.
I think for me it's a feeling bubbling in the back of my mind until I really have to think about it or make a decision, and then when it becomes more important it's a voice talking about how best to do something or the pros and cons of doing / not doing something.
I do most of my thinking out loud and my wife always wonders what I'm talking about and I just tell her I'm talking to myself. She thinks I'm weird but its how I plan stuff best. I can think and do think to myself quietly but it's less effective for me
Yeah, this fucks with my brain too. Especially how I "voice" my thoughts in my brain.
I feel like my thought voice has different volumes. I'll think something more distant, more silent, rather spontaneous, but voluntary thoughts feel louder, like they are in the front, closer. Sometimes I have more "silent" thoughts that I feel I have to acknowledge, even though I know I just had them so I think them again, "louder".
Also, sometimes my internal dialouge is formulated as if it was adressed to an audience.
It is soooo weird and I wonder if others think like that too.
Yes! Some years ago and for most of adolescence I heard loud voices. Like unintelligible yelling. I believe now it was likley from hearing my parents fight so frequently. It was scary and I couldn't control it. Sometimes it was accompanied by a "narrowing" of my real vision. Things would warp into this weird level where things were out of scale. Like further away than made any sense.
I love this topic and concept. Anyway, I’ve thought a lot about this and have some conceptual understanding that may be interesting to you. I’m no professional and really am just going off personal experience and slight amounts of research.
One thing I find amazing is what you mentioned as split second decisions. Ok, so I’m going to go from my experience playing video games. Growing up I played a ton of Halo and Halo 2, and other games. I have told people in the past that when I started playing Halo 2 online, it was the first time I made conscious decisions. I also figured prior to that time, I was really just a habitual person and didn’t really implement creativity.
So thinking about this notion of actually making decisions versus basing our lives on habit. As a gamer, I like to use the term “muscle memory,” this is kind of the mindless thing you do when you reach for your phone and automatically click Reddit and start scrolling. This “muscle memory” or habit is your mind making a regular decision without any thought or decision based on your environment trying to obtain a new outcome. It’s just comfortable and normal.
Now I’m Halo, the point is to not get shot or to perform an objective. Ok, so I’m Halo, I have muscle memory, just a series of things I have done and do regularly based on situations. Nothing really planned, just reaction, but I also have decision making. This is where I try to predict an outcome based on the environment around me. Ok, so how is this done?
Predicting a situation or event requires the experience and a group of memories that allow me to determine in my head a statistical probability of an event occurring. I can say, “Ok, 95% of the time that guy will do this, I will do this to counter it.” Or I can say, “Ok, 80% of the time someone would do this in my situation, I’ll do this instead.” Now what I’ve done is differentiated a self assessment versus assessing my competition. How can I do this? Well, if you’ve put 3000 hours into doing something, you can make those decisions easier than with 100 hours. How can my brain remember?
Your brain is like this electrical system that requires some kind of input to generate memory and processing capability. In Halo 2, there are like 20 maps. I’ve played on each of those maps enough where I remember ever millimeter of the maps. I’ve seen people doing the same types of things many times on the maps. When I’m on the maps, my brain is actually capturing my current situation but using my past to make decisions. It is processing the thousands of hours and patterns I’ve seen. I’m actually looked at the screen like everyone else but my brain is processing the prediction that I made last time.
When I make a prediction about a scenario, by brain remembers the prediction and pattern, just like it remembers the scenario. I’ll explain this from a recent experience. I play Rocket League, I started on the switch then started using the computer. The graphics on the computer were different. I was playing the same game, but the graphics looked different. I couldn’t help but focus on all the new stuff with the graphics even though I usually thought about gameplay! My mind could not draw my memories and patterns when it was seeing something new!
Ok, so why is that. I believe your mind requires similar events to determine an understanding you may already have. This could be true for traveling internationally. For instance, let say you go to France. You are seeing things that are in the US but for some reason, you’re stimulated. You are not consumed by the everyday problems because your brain cannot think about those things since it’s adapting to a new environment. Why people like hiking? Why they like to travel? It’s because what you see changes what you can interpret.
Ok, so I’ve touched base on some things and I hope you enjoy my concepts. I have more to say about this topic as I have actually had manic and psychosis episodes in the past and have been diagnosed with bipolar and been hospitalized because my brain basically short circuited. I kind of obsessed with this concept for 10 years trying to understand why my brain wouldn’t function properly so yeah, there’s that. Anyway, cheers!
It's not that we process things in a split second, it's that we perceive it as a split second based on the amount of information processed.
Dogs see things ahead of time relative to us because their brains process information faster. So a moment you are experiencing as "now" has already been experienced as "now" to a dog. By a millisecond but still.
Time is relative. It can move faster or slower relatively. Time can move faster to you than to me. Time goes slower the faster you move, so if you're on a spaceship going close to light speed time will move slower for you relatively to me if I'm back on earth. 10 seconds for you could be 100 years for me. But both of us would experience time the same. If you looked out the window you'd see earth moving in hyper speed. And if I looked into your window I'd see you moving in slow motion.
So your brain thinks through electrical and chemical reactions. So naturally if we slow down time the atoms in your body and physical laws will slow down as well so your thoughts will be slowed down because it will take the electrical signals longer to travel, and the chemicals will take longer to interact with each other.
So there isn't a real "time" or pace of time, it's just how fast you can process things happening and for your brain to make you experience that as a second. And fast and slow is ofc relative the same way up and down is relative. There isn't a real up. Up can only exist relatively to something.
Check out neuroscience too! Physics and neuroscience are really complementary. One explains the external world and the other explains the internal world.
I recommend "the tale of the dueling neurosurgeons" by Sam Kean
Earth itself is moving at ridiculous speed compared to the solar system which is removing at ridiculous speed compared to the galactic core which itself is moving at ridiculous speed in a way we can't even make sense of
Totes. We're stuck in our narrow perception of time. Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow creeps in this petty pace.
It's so hard to try to think of physical phenomena outside our perception of them.
A dog ran in front of my car today. I was able to slam on the brakes and stop in time, but the whole way home I was thinking about it. I didn’t consciously think “hey, there’s a dog, let’s stop” it just happened on its own, like it short circuited and only later I realized what happened. On top of that I’m a new driver and got my license less than a year ago. It was surreal.
I was looking to the right while talking to my friend while driving and out of the corner of my eye my brain saw a deer and perfectly veered out of the way and back into the lane in one swift motion, before I even realized what happened.
My friend said it was the most impressive reflex he'd ever seen and I barely realized it happened.
I remember seeing it and hitting my brakes, but it’s strange because I don’t remember hitting my brakes in response to the dog. I remember hitting the brakes, then realizing I did it because of the dog.
I like to think that it all stems from “feelings”, intrinsic moments such as pulling away your hand from something that is hot. You don’t necessarily think “ow that’s hot, I should pull away” you just act on it. I like to think that this is the same way animals “think”, through impulses and feelings. The only difference being that we’ve developed symbols for these feelings and can therefore ruminate (which has made us exponentially complex beings).
An easy way to explore this is to take a symbol you understand, for example the stars above, and look at them without thinking “stars”. Instead, clearly see the stars in the sky and understand that they are stars. It’ll feel interesting and it might even be hard at first, similar to meditating and clearing your mind (it’s quite difficult at first). But the more you practice, the more you can achieve this way of “thinking without words”. I like to think that reaching this state of mind, along with exploring it often, shares insight to what it is to be alive and how blessed we are to have words and a deeper understanding of the world around us.
Dude I study cognitive neuroscience and it even freaks me out/confuses the shit out of me
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:48:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I spend a solid amount of time thinking about this. I was catching lighting bugs with my son the other day and we couldn't get any. So we gave up and were sitting down and one flew over my head and I flung my arm up and caught it perfectly mid conversation. Like how the fuck did I do that? In less than one second I calculated exactly where to put my hand, above my head in a space I couldn't see at the time, and caught something. It's so mind blowingly insane how fast we can do shit like that.
I also shoot slingshots a lot and do something called intuition shooting, where you basically just pull the slingshot up and shoot at your target without aiming and I'd say I'm 90% accurate out to 25 yards. How? By the time my body starts to move to take a shot, I've already determined how that piece of ammo will fly, how hard I'm going to pull the band, what angle my arms, head, hands, feet and legs will be at etc. I'm sure a lot of it is just muscle memory, which is still crazy to think about.
I think about something similar from time to time. Is my red the same red you see? Do I experience the world the same way everyone else does? How many thoughts a minute go through other people's minds? Why do I notice things in my surroundsings that other people don't, and vice versa?
I got a kind-of answer on the first one about 2 years back. When I found out I'm mildly colorblind. So no, my red isn't the same as the red people without colorblindness see. My younger brother has it even worse. He's terrible at cooking meat, because with hamburgers for instance, he can barely tell the difference between raw red meat and brown cooked meat. Putting a large piece of uncooked and cooked next to each other is fine for him, but if there's still a part in the center that's still raw he won't be able to see it. It's almost the same shade of what he calls brown to him.
This is my new obsession. I love math and started out there, but if I could do my life over I would study and study cognitive science and learn everything I could about it.
I usually have a song or a melody or a snippet of a song running through my thoughts. Sometimes I notice it, sometimes it's in the background until something triggers it to the forefront, but it's there. And its a rare thing for me to think in words. I think in images.
Dialogue as in language? no, at least not in a way we’d understand.
I had oral surgery not too long ago, they put me on nitrous oxide, and I experienced a moment of this kind of perceived clarity where I just though “Wow... This is existence.” But for a few minutes, that was the last dialogue in my mind. My thoughts were thoughts and memories, but it went something like me picturing my mother, and feeling calmness and love, instead of me picturing my mother and feeling those emotions and making an internal commentary.
I feel like that’s the way animals think. they have distinct memories and know person from person, but instead of attaching dialogue to each memory or person, it’s just purely emotion. When my cat sees me he associates me with petting and sleeping and food, and (i hope) it makes him happy and calm. I don’t think he thinks “meow meow” (“i love him” in cat, if you were wondering), I think that his thoughts are simply translated into raw emotion. That’s just my theory
We can't understand it. We are using our brain to understand our brain, it's too complex for us to understand it. We can understand less complex things though.
I go through projects, repairs, mechanical things to kickstart rem. I will try different approaches and go through the whole project. I never get to half of them so when it gets closer to go time I call it back up and go through it again. In my mind it helps to be prepared. The reality is that it can be pretty overwhelming and depressing sometimes. Mostly because I don't have the time or money to fix something. wether it's my own problem or for friends and family sometimes I can't block it out and it becomes distracting and draining.
Stuff I can picture quite clearly, people stay blurry most of the time...I think
arce_c · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And further of conversation, language itself has been created by us, but even a baby who doesn't understand our standard definitions and language can do this, so maybe internal 'concepts dialogue' may be posible in many different ways even in other thinking beings like dolphins
Also how weird and broken it is sometimes like most times you can make split second decisions but sometimes you think you have one extra stick of string cheese and you are super confused for a solid 3 min
I think quicker than I speak, It’s weird though bc I’ll see something, recognize it, think something (Typically funny) as inner dialogue, and laugh to myself, then I’ll say it aloud. Its like repeating and laughing at your own joke? Weird.
I always wonder this about animals. Like can my dog be sitting there just like consciously thinking about something? Wondering why his food bowl isn't full yet? I always ask my fiance these questions and she doesn't get where I'm coming from
My dog is mostly living moment to moment but he definitely has the ability to plan and scheme. He waits at the window for about a half hour before I'm due home from work, that must be a thought process.
I bought a copy of the imaginary by Jean Paul Sartre because I had your same thought. I try not to think about it anymore, that book just confused me even more.
Theres a really cool vsauce video on youtube about making decisions and how your subconscious makes the decision before you do. Not directly related but if that kind of stuff interests you, this might too!
If you're into that the books Carl Jung wrote are for you, mind blowing to read about the unconscious mind and how bizzare and miraculous the mind really is. For me it was realizing how much of the mind just lays dormant while our waking consciousness is basically a small boat shining a spotlight onto a dark sea. Along with realizing that we have shockingly less control over the forces in our mind than I ever thought was the case, kind of frightening actually
So there’s a lot of different things mentioned here, but i’ll focus on one. Thoughts.
Imagine your brain is a spider-web like map of electrical circuits connecting nerve cells. Each nerve cells, or group of nerve cells, represent an idea. Let’s use « bird » for exemple. Let’s also say that you grew up with a parrot, therefor when you think of « bird », « parrots » comes up quickly. This is because every time you make a connection between two ideas, the link (connection) between them strengthens. This is why trying to not think about something is impossible (because you are telling your brain to look for cues that you will think about x thing, triggering all ideas which are strongly connected to x)
I heavily recommend Thinking Fast and Slow, by Dr. Julia Shaw (an absolute goddess of psychology)
ween19 · 2 points · Posted at 03:48:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so like I went to school for psychology and not once did ANYone EVER TELL ME that some people literally can’t visualize stuff. Maybe I missed that class but I feel like this should be a WAY more emphasized topic in the study of ya know... psychology.
I want a refund!!!!
ween19 · 1 points · Posted at 16:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahahahaha RIGHT?!!
and now they’re sending ME requests for donations in the mail.... like for real? You don’t think I paid you enough already? This is a joke right?!
I read this neat book called Homo Deus about the future of humanity, and the author said that they think consciousness is a "byproduct" of decision-making combined with emotional capacity, or something similar to that. Thought it was pretty neat, that's my view of it.
Maybe the reason for this is because our brains are actually in two parts, and each is responsible for different things. Some thoughts could be coming from a part of your brain that you aren’t consciously aware of, but that is still working to figure things out and help you understand the world.
If for whatever reason you sever the connection between the two halves (lobes?) of the brain, they can start to disagree, and that’s super crazy. Look it up!
You should listen/read "Behave" by Robert Sapolsky. It's one of Bill Gates's recommendations from a few years back. "He starts by looking at the factors that bear on a person's reaction in the precise moment a behavior occurs, and then hops back in time from there, in stages, ultimately ending up at the deep history of our species and its evolutionary legacy."
Yes I like meditation, I do a few guided ones with my children and they really enjoy it and they always sleep well with a calm mind.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:41:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Julian Jaynes wrote a book that might be up ur sidewalk. Think it was called "The Bicameral Mind". Dope ass book
Edit: "The Origin of Consciousness and The Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind"
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to understand all about this, which in my opinion is beyond fascinating, you should check out Dr. Joe Dispenza’s YouTube Channel
Similarly, David Chalmers' Hard Problem of Consciousness might be an interesting read for you. It asks why we are able to experience and sense things, and why we are not autonomous like robots, but rather present and mindful in a very individual way.
Fellow neuroscientist here. Thought is crazy! I spend all day thinking about thinking and it’s totally mind-blowing (pun-intended) how massively complex that computer is
There are a lot of replies so far and it may have been mentioned but Blink by Malcom Gladwell is a great book that talks about this split second thinking.
The human mind or consciousness actually exists outside the physical universe. Aristotle was probably the first to realize this when he said the mind isn’t anything until it is thinking something and what it is is the thing it is thinking. Not materially...but formally.
Consciousness is an biological abstraction. It exists entirely inside of the universe. Technically tables and chairs are an abstraction as well. But you don’t say that tables and chairs exist outside of the universe: this is because the complexity of the concept you are describing isn’t sufficiently “mysterious” by our every day standards. But even something by definition of mystery isn’t outside of the realm of the physical universe. It’s just a currently unexplained process.
Regarding the self reflecting mind, it’s just another high level error correction pattern. You have your sub-conscious which performs automated actions. It’s somewhat useful to have an observer that can feed forward useful information to the subconscious. Notice how every thought you generate isn’t preemptively thought of. It just arises. You’re a spectator. Being able to feed forward information for your observations is an evolved trait. Every “decision” we make is post-hoc. Only after training, habitual practice, education can we feed forward information in a manner that seems to be pointed. Rest assured, the direction is entirely biased by your bodies biological signals as well as condensed past memories. i.e. not outside of reality.
Platonic forms are certainly an abstraction that has been contemplated for what, 2400 yrs? Consciousness is an absolute unexplained phenomena by any definition of a scientific theory.
If you disagree, you should publish and then claim your Nobel prize.
I’ve been working in AI for 10yrs. I’m not impressed with your attempt to deploy technical jargon to support a banal materialist viewpoint. Boring.
Consciousness is not local. That’s been scientifically proven. Your brain processes mambo jumbo is obsolete as a horse and buggy. Giddy up.
The guy who’s explaining to me that consciousness exists outside of reality is explaining that technically bound explanations (which are not direct schematics that take into account all 72 trillion cells in your body) are mumbo* (btw) jumbo? Hi Deepak Chopra.
No person with a significant degree of understanding of even basic artificial intelligence concepts like back propagation would ever describe it as existing outside of the universe. Abstractions are bound at the very least to the rules of the universe. Regarding Plato, the only way you can verify the truthiness of your BELIEF in platonic form is by testing those ideas WITHIN reality. I was being nice before, but i’ll be terse now.
If you have in fact worked within AI for 10 years, I am astonished that you have been capable of twisting and then rooting your beliefs so deeply and I truly feel sorry for you.
But before we finish, at what point does context play a role within considering consciousness local? In other words, at what bound do you believe that consciousness exists? If your answer is none because as you’ve previously said you believe it is outside of reality, then your “explanations” are about as useful as the book of genesis. If however, your answer is, “it’s complicated” then I agree, but that does not then alow you to then substitute: “not in the universe”. Those moves are not open to you regardless of how much you believe they are. Perhaps you should use that consciousness to feedforward and correct for your errors before you speak. You may now continue to burn down the straw man.
TLDR;
//absolutely useless piece of code that describes your position
(function(){
//enter useless logic that holds no shared scope with reality and really ends up being whatever you feel like writing.
}).bind(undefined)
Before you decide to reply, i’m letting you know before hand that i’m muting this conversation. I’m not going to argue with what essentially amounts to creationist rhetoric.
You use technical language so you can pretend to be smarter than others. Then someone familiar with the art catches you and you respond with even further programming references again to make yourself appear intelligent. That’s not intelligence — it’s bullshit.
What takes the cake is you don’t realize there is no consensus model of consciousness in science....instead you pretend there is one. Pffft, friggin jag off.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What gets me is the lack of purchase between felt qualias and the actual outcomes-- when we weigh options and they sort of richochet around, and somehow something comes ahead-- etc. etc. Watching becomings like this can get really detailed and freak me out.
Well you talk to yourself more than anyone else talks to you so be kind to yourself. I know it sounds soppy but maybe some positive affirmations every morning would help rewire the way you think about yourself. Give yourself some credit when you do something well, even small things.
We all have negative thoughts about ourselves but the older I get the more I realise other people really don't care too much about me, how I look or what I do. They may think of me for a split second so my opinion is the most important one when it comes to me.
I think about this too much! I work with a lot of deaf individuals and I constantly think as a hearing person what my internal dialogue “sounds like” compared to them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As we age and our minds develop I think we begin to use instinct in our thoughts it isn’t necessarily that we aren’t thinking about it but the fact is we don’t realize what we are thinking because are mind is so massive
As a teacher, sometimes I think about how many thoughts I have in a second or few seconds. I have to predict things correctly, say things in the correct order, watch the entire room of movement, make my face look certain ways, all at the same time. Everyday. Crazy.
I was watching the flowers episode of, "Moving Art," on Netflix recently. It made me wonder, how did all these molecules miraculously assemble themselves? How did they figure out what works, and what doesn't? Was there thought involved?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you do anything right now, you aren’t thinking and deciding, just reacting based on something you previously decided. If you want to think and decide what to do about an event, that can only be a future event that might happen, and then you set in your mind what you will do about that event, if it does happen.
This is what worry and anxiety are all about, just planning for possibilities...
The decisions you make is nothing but a combination of binaries, think of something like eating an apple follows with if you want cut and eat it or just eat it as is, wheather you wanna wash it first or not and many more complex binary decisions is behind eating an apple. It also divides in different branches. Everytime you make a decision electrical signal flows through neurons from your brain to the cells of the part with which the following actions are to be done. So while you make your one decision many electrical signals passes back and forth between the various neurons to make the action more and more clear. And every time your brain does an action it makes a connection between the cells involved to do the same action in more efficient and easier way in future.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness is pretty crazy when you realize that life is a combination of systems with a very high chance of occurring, and somehow, through evolution, these systems have changed and developed to create consciousness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cargo space?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well here’s a doozy for you think about:
You’re not your thoughts — you’re the observer of thought, that is why marketing is so effective since you can’t really predict what you’re going to think, but another person can, because they know what you will observe and by directing your perception they can manipulate you into thinking things that you believe you thought of yourself when really someone is just holding the hand to your brain to some type of product/belief.
[deleted] · 60 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m mostly confused by blockchain.
[deleted] · 75 points · Posted at 04:16:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain Rules
You can't just be up there and just doin' a calculation like that.
1a. A blockchain is when you
1b. Okay well listen. A blockchain is when you chain the
1c. Let me start over
1c-a. The user is not allowed to do a calculation to the, uh, database, that prohibits the user from doing, you know, just trying to guess the number. You can't do that.
1c-b. Once the data is in the cloud, it can't be over here and say to the database, like, "I'm gonna get ya! I'm gonna be a four now! You better watch your butt!" and then just be like he didn't even do that.
1c-b(1). Like, if you're about to download and then don't download, you have to still download. You cannot not download. Does that make any sense?
1c-b(2). You gotta be, calculating with the data, and, until you just throw it.
1c-b(2)-a. Okay, well, you can have the data up here, like this, but then there's the blockchain you gotta think about.
1c-b(2)-b. Fairuza Balk hasn't been in any movies in forever. I hope she wasn't typecast as that racist lady in American History X.
1c-b(2)-b(i). Oh wait, she was in The Waterboy too! That would be even worse.
1c-b(2)-b(ii). "get in mah bellah" -- Adam Water, "The Waterboy." Haha, classic...
1c-b(3). Okay seriously though. A blockchain is when the user makes a calculation that, as determined by, when you do a move involving the numbers and field of
Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
Okay this makes more sense. I think I just needed explained to me in terms I understood. People always try to explain it in “simple” terms that are basic to crypto currencies, but I don’t really understand those so it all still seemed abstract to me. It’s basically like a bank account with a lot of people checking the books.
The other half of blockchain can't really fit into the excel example. The "chain" part in blockchain comes from the process by which changes are made to this public ledger. You must know the entire, complete, and accurate history of every transaction in the past in order to make any changes. This results in an unbroken "chain" of transactions that makes up the data of the system. Unlike an actual spreadsheet where you can just look at how it is right now, see how much everyone has, and make changes. This adds security because it becomes practically impossible to fake the past because you would need to fabricate an entirely new history up to the present before the rest of the world makes just one more change.
All these computers are trying to lockpick open a box with more locked boxes inside it.
So think of a locked chest inside a locked chest, which is inside another locked chest, etc. Each layer is currency you can "own" by unlocking it. After they unlock a layer, they keep digging into the next layer for more.
In this example if you unlocked layer 72, you would then keep that unlocked check labeled 72 as proof. You don't get the contents of the chest, you get the chest itself as currency. Other people can continue to work on layer 71.
There's also a network so the computers can verify nobody is cheating. Kind of like sharing a checkbook with lots of different people. If 1,000 people agree on a single statement, it's likely to be true.
The idea is that anything can be money. Bitcoin is like using the answers to complicated math problems as money.
1AMAVAN · 158 points · Posted at 04:05:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answer is more of a verification. The first person to find it gets awarded the chest. It kinda works like this so; the chest has the number 1684894789471615231/8978974615897 written on it. This number represents the question: "Which two numbers when multiplied produce this number?" The hard part is finding the two numbers, the easy part is checking that they actually multiply to the right product. You get the chest for finding the right two numbers and everyone else can check you very easily.
[deleted] · 63 points · Posted at 05:13:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That’s what the 1000 person checkbook is for, to show that you own that chest
[deleted] · 31 points · Posted at 05:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who chooses how the keyholes are shaped? If the math question is so difficult to solve, why does it not take very much to come up with? And how does the thing that makes the long time to calculate math questions, know the answer? Can we predict which math questions the maker will make?
Vercyx · 42 points · Posted at 05:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I’m not super smart about Bitcoin (so I can only answer your math questions mainly), and I’m not the person you’re replying to, but afaik, these massive numbers (or “keyholes”), are HUGE semi-prime numbers.
The question, then, is what are the factors of these numbers.
Semi-prime numbers are similar to prime numbers, except they can be divided by 2 other factors. These factors are typically (if not always) prime numbers.
EDIT: semi-prime factors are always prime numbers. Thanks, u/g1ngertim!
Multiplying prime numbers together is an operation that’s really easy to do, but finding the factors of a semi-prime number is almost impossible depending on the size. This leads to a mathematical operation that is easy to do one way, but much harder the other.
And because we got to the semi-prime by multiplying two numbers, those numbers are the answer to our question, therefore the system that is creating the question already knows the answer.
Semi-prime numbers are similar to prime numbers, except they can be divided by 2 other factors. These factors are typically (if not always) prime numbers.
Always.
Assume a|s, b|s, with s being semi-prime. i.e., a*b=s
If a is not prime, then there exists x, such that x|a, which implies x|s, meaning s is not semi-prime.
Edit: unless s is both a cube and a semi-prime. So, either a or b must be prime, but not necessarily both.
Vercyx · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makes sense, I assumed so, but didn’t want to make a claim without checking first, and it was like 2am haha. Thanks for clarifying, I edited my previous comment.
asdonne · 10 points · Posted at 05:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a one way hash. You take a number, put it into an algorithm and it spits out a new number that's however many digits long. There is no way to work out the original number from a resulting hash.
The only way to find that hash is to try a lot of different numbers untill you get one. You know it's the right answer because it's got the right number of zeros at the start. It's easy for everyone to check cause it's one calculation if you know the original number but it's very time consuming to find it to begin with.
Whoever invented bitcoin chose at the beginning how the keyholes are shaped. He didn't pick each one but there is an algorithm that can make infinite keyholes.
If the math question is so difficult to solve, why does it not take very much to come up with?
I can invent any number of math problems in seconds but it will take you minutes to solve them. In reality, there is only one "math problem" that is being solved many times. What changes each time is what the inputs to the problem are. As a simple example, the math problem is x+y = z.
X is the input that changes every time and is actually the previous answer to the math problem. This is how it becomes a blockchain, you need every previous answer to find the next answer.
Everyone is trying to find out what y is but the equation is impossible to solve so everyone just guesses numbers until the answer is correct. This is why it takes so long, you basically have to try every number before you find a correct answer.
The answer, Z, is always zero. So x+y = 0 kind of. As more people join to try the numbers then the group as a whole can try every number in existence more quickly. More people working on the same problem makes it go faster right? I do not know why making the process go faster is bad so you will just have to accept that. What happens is that Z is actually an accuracy value where we can make the equation harder to solve as needed; there are actually many answers to every equation. So the final equation would really be like X+Y <= 1e-z
And how does the thing that makes the long time to calculate math questions, know the answer?
Hopefully, the part just above explained this for you. Everyone knows that an answer is just a number that is really close to zero.
Can we predict which math questions the maker will make?
Ding Ding Ding! This is the one and only reason that blockchain exists. It is impossible to predict any future equations until you solve the current one. The reason is that every past solution is part of every future equation meaning they must be solved in order.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shape of the keyhole is the difficulty of the math problems. (I think that's what you mean) This is set by an algorithm every 2 weeks. If the blocks are being solved too quickly the difficulty increases and vice versa.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, that is the keyhole.
Who knows the algorithm, and is it predictive? Who knows the answer already, does the algorithm? If it isn't predictive in that, knowing the algorithm, makes you know the answers- how do we know that the algorithm will continue making solvable math problems?
Sorry this is just the mind of someone extraordinarily bad at quantative thinking.
Who runs the algorithm? How many PCs? Is that also distributed? Who gets rewarded for making the problems? I thought it were only for solving them.
How do you scale the difficulty? If it takes less computational power to make a problem, and a lot to solve it, does mathematical problems exist that are so difficult, that it would be impossible to solve it with current technology- in a timeline smaller than the countdown towards the heat death of the universe?
Will Bitcoin ever run out? Will we ever run out of novel math problems/keyholes?
Thats A LOT of questions that you asked but all can be solved with google.
No one knows the answer to the hash until it is solved, it is hard to find the answer, but easy to verify. I hope you have some basic knowledge about hashes before i continue. Basically, you start with the transaction data for that block and the block signature, then based on the block difficulty you must form a hash that makes the hash several consecutive 0s followed by some data by adding a nonce to the end of your data and hashing it. If your hash has the required number of consecutive 0s, you send the string of data to the rest of the miners in the chain to hash it and verify that it is real.
If it is real it is added to the block chain and the miner who solved it gets his reward.
A lot of your questions are based on thinking that it is a math problem, really all the computers are doing is changing the nonce at the end of the string many times per second and hoping they get the hash. i am sure there are more complex ways to more efficently produce nonces but if that were the case it would become significantly easier to mine bitcoin.
No one needs to be rewarded for making the problem because the "problem" is very simple, form a hash with consecutive 0s.
You scale the difficulty by changing the number of 0s.
Interesting that you asked "will bitcoin ever run out" because it actually does. There is a fixed amount of bitcoin that can ever be produced. This is around 21 million.
There is a fixed amount of bitcoin that can ever be produced. This is around 21 million.
How is/was this determined? Will this limit ever be reached or is there some log/expo involved with 21 mil being a theoretical value that is never reached? I.e., 21 mil is an asymptote such that rewards for solving will get infinitely smaller but never reach 0?
This has always thrown me. Seems like there is point where solving the blockchain is no longer worth it & when that happens this entire thing grinds to a halt. Or is it assumed that those with a vested interest will keep things chugging along?
Pretty much. Money has always been based on things that are restricted. Gold was first and it worked cause it was just hard to find and there isn't a lot. Then we got currency which had the issuing gov's big 'ol military behind it. And now we get Bitcoin which is hard to get cause you gotta do a lot of calculations.
This one comment made bitcoin suddenly click for me. So, it's like the people solving the calculations are comparable to the miners in the gold mines. They acquire a certain amount of gold which can be used as currency (since mining is difficult). There are others who do not want to do the mining and can purchase/trade for the gold from the miners and can then use it as currency. Correct?
DUDE I ACTUALLY HAVE THE SLIGHTEST IDEA OF WHATS GOING ON NOW
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 04:23:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not used for anything but verification in the future.
The processors are essentially given a hard math problem. The work on it until someone solves it, and claims the reward. The answer is written down so everyone can verify that it was in fact the right answer.
These math problems are really hard to solve, but if you had the right answer, it's very easy to look at it and go "yep, that's the right answer because everything adds up".
As far as I know they're useless problems. Not sure why it's not something potentially useful like finding prime numbers or calculating digits of pi. Probably partly because the current method allows for easily adjusting difficulty to match the current processing power, instead of getting either exponentially or incrementally more difficult when it shouldn't.
It's written by a simple program because creating them is simple. Take for example the numbers 123456789 and 987654321 and multiply them in your calculator and you get 112056087902635269.
Now ask a computer what number beside 1 can you divide 112056087902635269 by and get a whole number. If you pick the right numbers there is only one solution, the two numbers you picked.
It takes a powerful computer a long time to figure out the answer because they basically have to just keep dividing by every number until they get a match, but it takes a pocket calculator a second to create the problem.
It's less that it gets more difficult and more that the reward decreases. Let's say my problem was worth 10 bitcoins at some point. The very complex system looks at how many Miners are putting in how much computing power and time into it and creates scarcity by saying "okay that's enough of a problem this complex awarding 10 bitcoins, now it awards 7.5"
The system could make it more difficult by just picking bigger base pairs to multiply, and sometimes it does, but it has to be careful with this because one extra digit means exponentially longer solve times whereas decreasing the reward by a fixed amount is easier to control.
The system for Bitcoin award regulation is far more complex then the one generating the problems themselves.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a hash and the difficulty is controlled by forcing more or less leading zeros in the solution. The more leading zeros, the more tries it takes to guess, the harder it is to solve. The fewer leading zeros, the easier it is to guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm actually not sure about that. I'll let you know if I get a chance to look it up. I imagine it's a part of the protocol that all the participants of the network must use. The code/rules that must be followed to be a part of the bitcoin network, if you will.
What I've heard of is it being used for research and data. For example, there is something going on in the pc community called folding@home which uses people's PCs to run simulations and create data on the coronavirus, which helps scientists create a vaccine for it. I feel like bitcoin mining is somewhat similiar, in that data is being collected and processed.
[deleted] · 29 points · Posted at 01:35:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not. Bitcoin uses HashCash as a proof of work. Basically, it adjusts a nonce value in the block until its cryptographic hash is greater than a particular value--the difficulty factor.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:24 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
To mine bitcoin, your computer has to solve hard math. The first computer to solve it, gets that "chunk" of bitcoin, and all the miners go onto the next unlocked math problem.
This is entirely arbitrary. They could just hand bitcoin out, if it were designed that way. It was decided by humans that this is how they wanted the currency to work, because it gives it some sort of non-arbitrary value.
Bitcoin is not based on anything, and no one person controls it. You can't just "print more bitcoin" or it would be pointless.
Making it createable by everyone, but slow and hard to do was the solution to generating more currency when the currency has no authority.
The math problems are easy to create, very hard to solve, they are created by a simple program, the same one that hands out bitcoin. They are always solvable but each layer gets harder and harder. Theoretically at some point it will cost more in electricity and time to solve a layer then the value of the Bitcoin, at which point most miners would stop and the quantity of the currency would increase drastically slower until it basically stops entirely. We already see this compared to years ago.
The simplest explanation of the problems that get solved is asking "what whole numbers can X number be divided by besides 1 and X?"
So take the number 27, a Miner runs a program that divides 27 by every possible smaller number. Can it be divided by 2? Nope. Can it be divided by 3? Yes, 27/3=9. That layer is solved and the Miner gets some bitcoin. A computer can run that check almost instantly as it only checks 2 numbers before it reaches the solution.
Now instead of 27, let's make up a much bigger number say 123x457=56,211. Ask the computer the same question, what two numbers multiplied together equal 56,211? It has to check thousands of combos to get the solution when I made up the number in seconds on my calculator. In reality, powerful computers can still do this very fast, so the numbers they work on are gigantic and they get bigger with each layer.
So once we run out of math problems to solve no more Bitcoin can be created and the entire system will destroy its own economy by becoming digital mercantilism. Everyone will board their digital gold, no value will be created, money will not move, everything grinds to a halt.
Bitcoin doesn't run out of math problems, it stops being produced at 21million coins. The reasoning behind that is out of the scope of this discussion.
However, the biggest threat to Bitcoin isn't the finality of the coins, it's when people who are gambling on the hopes of it continuing to rise as an "investment" get spooked and choose not to. Without demand, the value can plummet to nearly nothing as it isn't tied to an economy or resource and is only rarely used for goods transactions.
Isn't that basically how the IRL economy already works? Everyone just kind of assumed everyone else is trustworthy enough to be worth the numbers in their bank accounts, and when people lose that trust the dollar loses value and our house of cards crumbles?
Absolutely. But the USD for example is backed by the US govt which has a lot of power, tools, and incentive to stop that from happening.
Look at the economy right now, without intervention so many people couldn't pay their bills, feed their families, or keep a roof over their heads. With the instability of the economy, the dollar could become unstable. So even though the govt is skewed heavily conservative, they are pulling out all the stops from dropping interest, to writing checks to the American people to provide damage control, because they are incentivized to do so and have those resources.
Bitcoin is totally open, unbacked by any entity with tools to maintain value. If investors (gamblers) get spooked everyone holding Bitcoin is utterly fucked whereas nothing short of the collapse of the US govt would render your USD worthless and if that's the case you have bigger concerns then your finances like how many bullets you own.
It's a singular problem, with many answers. Put a number through a function, and check the output. Does it have a bunch of 0s at the beginning? Good job!. The 'function' is unpredictable without doing the work, so you can't just create bitcoin - You need to try hundreds, thousands, millions, even billions of combinations until you hit that money.
There's 21 million bitcoin total and every few years the difficulty doubles. The electricity costs to currently mine 1 bitcoin is $3000ish. Difficulty doubles again in June; kind of a big deal if you're into crypto because price goes up in the following months.
oh, that makes more sense! thank you for the explanation. i still don't quite grasp the concept of cryptocurrency, but now i get that aspect of it, at least.
This may be pedantic but I have a small correction: The difficulty is determined automatically and is based off of how much total computing power is going into mining bitcoins. This is to ensure that only a certain amount of bitcoins are being mined. If the total computing power never changes then the difficulty would stay the same forever. What you're thinking of is the reward amount. At predetermined intervals the amount of bitcoins rewarded for solving a block gets cut in half. The difficulty of getting that reward stays the same (well kind of since the difficulty is always changing like I said) but just the reward gets halved.
From what I understand mining more is the only way to increase the amount of bitcoin available. However, it is a really slow process so while it is continuously being generated, there is not enough to inflate the currency
Not really, because the winners of these races are normally huge pools that one person could not feasibly own enough processing power to make a big difference.
They might split the reward based on how much processing power you contributed... but if you are buying good hardware to mine bitcoin you are losing money.
At least for bitcoin, I'm not sure on other cryptocurrency.
It's like asking what all the paper money is being used for. Imagine an alien saying, "Why is everybody trading paper rectangles? I get that you can buy things with them, but what are they actually for? Is there some secret use for these paper rectangles?"
The answer is that paper money isn't "used" for anything (except trading). It's just that it is something that is very hard to make more of, so we use it as certificate of trade.
The problem with computers is that you can just copy any data, so it didn't seem possible to make something that you couldn't copy. The genius of Bitcoin is that something digital was finally made that you couldn't easily copy. To "make" more Bitcoin, you are forced to do a shit ton of math problems (e.g., billions and billions), so it can be used for a certificate of sale, just like paper money, but digital.
This, right here, is absolutely the best description/explanation of how/why Bitcoin works. Absolutely. People are getting hung up on the whole “Well what do you DO with it?” aspect, without realizing that their currency (which everyone loves so dearly and generally understands) is basically doing the same exact thing.
It just that in one instance, some governing body has control of the minting process, limiting the amount of currency in the system at any given time.. thus, it has value.
Whereas with Bitcoin, while not controlled by a single entity, it IS still limited/controlled by way of extremely lengthy/difficult mathematical processes needing to be solved in order to add more to the total sum, at the cost of electricity and time, which effectively creates a soft-cap on how much can be (profitably/feasibly) made.
Ultimately, Bitcoin is worthless. In the same way that currency is worthless. Really, everything is worthless until WE, as a society, assign it value.. But doing this with something like.. sand or leaves or rocks.. would not work very well, as anybody could simply get their own to use/add into the system and then you would never be able to tell what anything was REALLY worth. Prices of things would just exponentially increase at a massive rate until you needed ‘10million pounds of rocks’ just to buy a soda, because there’s nothing limiting someone from walking down to the beach and picking up free ‘money,’ basically.
It’s really pretty fascinating when you think about it.. Especially in the context of Bitcoin, because society/humanity is beginning to uncover just how widespread and deep corruption in government and ruling entities generally goes, which causes erosion in the faith and trust of those establishments. So, I personally believe that something like Bitcoin was inevitable and will absolutely become a necessity whenever we reach the point that we no longer trust other humans to be in control of the systems that we live by. Which is happening at an exponential rate.. It’s just a matter of whether people, collectively, will realize this and change/adapt.. or fight against it/dismiss it as a novelty/unnecessary - as many have done with Bitcoin - and ultimately leave us in a position where society, for the most part, collapses before rebuilding differently.
So basically, it's time to go back to bartering then? At least then there's no need for arbitration; stuff is just worth what you need it for, and vice versa.
In what way is that better or any improvement over our current system? How do you obtain and retain wealth in a barter system? Stockpile on items you don’t need? What if you need access to emergency “funds?” Do you have to frantically run around looking for people that need whatever specific items you have?
No, bartering is most definitely not a good system to go back, especially given the absolute logistical nightmare that would result in trying to implement it on any sort of meaningful scale.
Wait, in real life to make more money you have to work harder or smarter, or cheat. Steal or rob. Whatever it takes.
But in OP's example to "make" more bitcoins you are forced to do a shit ton of math problems? Well, I can understand how you think it's the best description of how bitcoins work but how does that equate with real life? I'm asking since the later parts of your comments you touched on corruption in society. And maths isn't exactly my strength despite my decades in banking and finance. So I will probably suck in mining (in bitcoins).
It's not used for anything, the idea is that the more work put into it by someone, the likely the block is legitimate. Hence at this point, you would need an impossible amount computing power to "hack" Bitcoin. Atleast for now untill someone has a working quantum computer.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the data works like this, people want to do transactions with bitcoin. There's a max size limit. The client picks the highest paying 200ish transactions or so and adds them to a block.
To finalize the block so the chain accepts it, it says you have to have X number of leading zeros when the block is hashed. There are two nonce values in the block and you increment them to get the desired hash. Once you submit the work to the block, the work is verified, it adds the block to the chain, and everyone starts over because the only valid blockchain is the longest blockchain.
Its more comparable to diamonds deep in the earth. Its worth comes from the amount of work it takes to get them. Lab made diamonds, even though they are bigger and prettier, are cheap because they don't require as much work.
From what I understand of cryptocurrency this is completely wrong, bitcoin mining is purely an exercise in cryptography there’s no simulations being run or anything like that.
Blockchain is being used that way, not Bitcoin. Blockchain is the technology underlying Bitcoin.
In broad terms, the concept is a “distributed ledger”. That means data is stored, multiple times, all over a network rather than stored on a disk or server.
That makes the data more secure, and also harder to corrupt or alter: many true and correct copies exist, so trying to mess with 1 or 10 or a 100 is easy to spot and reject.
The same concept is used to distribute calculations and such.
There's a ton of projects like this such as SETI@Home, (help find aliens) and Einstein@Home (help find gravitational waves and Rosetta@Home (something about mapping proteins)
So if a Bitcoin is a secret answer as you've described it, why can't I send it to 2 people at the same time and get free money? What if I send it to somebody and then advertise the secret answer, does it become worthless?
1AMAVAN · 15 points · Posted at 03:41:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is the neat trick and why it works. The answer is only secret while you don't know it. As soon as you find it you yell, "I got it!" to anyone who will listen and then say you now own that unlocked chest. As long as no one else can prove they yelled out the answer first, everyone agrees you are in fact the one who now owns the chest. You wouldn't want to send the answer to someone in secret because then you'd just be giving them the money you worked for.
I'm not really an expert at all but you're basically looking at money with a serial number. If you try to dupe it, it probably won't work because that serial number can't exist in two wallets at once. The entire system is designed to fact check itself. If you want to know more, I recommend doing additional research. I tried my best to give a birds eye view of the system.
He is explaining the mining aspect. Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
It's similar to trying to handing out two checks for the entirety of you bank account.
Only one will go through and some one will end up short changed.
It's not going to get free money but you could use it to try and scam someone.
You advoiding this by waiting for the transaction to be confirmed before handing over the keys to that lambo.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're describing a 51% attack with a double spend transaction, which is possible, if someone controls enough of the network to create block 101 where you send X Y bitcoin.
Then when X gives you the item, you immediately go back to block 101 and create block 101 and 102 before anyone else can create block 102. It's a double spend attack.
What happens is most people wait until X number of blocks have been created after your transaction.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 05:35:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I think you just made it worse for people that don’t understand it
I sort of understand how Bitcoin works as a blockchain, but that's not really the issue. I'm with OP to the extent that I don't understand how Bitcoin functions as money to anyone who doesn't have a lot of bitcoin already.
You can hardly buy anything with Bitcoin. Hardly any retailers accept it directly. You need to use an intermediary to turn it into some form of legal tender (i.e. actual money) and then use that currency to make the purchase. I believe there are methods that make this a fairly seamless process, but still, technically, those purchases aren't made with bitcoin.
This is why I subscribe to the argument that Bitcoin is actually a commodity, and not a currency.
If it became widely adopted enough then sure, it could be considered money, but one of the most fundamental components of a successful currency is keeping a relatively consistent value and bitcoin, well...
Yeah but his point is a little different from that. It's using a different definition like how a chicken objectively isn't currency but id trade you a few for a yak
The same reason I can't pay for fries in America with Hungarian Forint. It's definitely a commodity to me, but it doesn't mean it's not a currency.
There are actually three fundamental components of successful currency, that detract from each other: fixed value, liquidity, and sovereignty.
If you print a bunch of your local currency willy-nilly, the value decreases due to inflation. [sacrificing value]
If you want to keep your dollar stable, but don't want to peg it to another currency, you will have to restrict who has access to it through interest rates and bonds. [sacrificing liquidity]
The most stable, freely available currency would be one adopted globally or pegged to another dollar. [sacrificing sovereignty]
That all to say that Bitcoin is a currency, just as much as any other, and it isn't hard to be one. Having purchased two cars and a house using cryptocurrency, people are certainly using it. Its liquidity is normal and regulated through mining, although maybe the stability of value has been heavily decreased in support of its sovereignty.
TL;DR If you don't use bitcoin at all then you are purchasing it as a commodity, but that doesn't preclude it from existing as a currency.
Your judging Bitcoin as a currency based on its usefulness to you.
I'm judging it based on its usefulness to the vast majority of people.
The price is volitile and can be very volitile. But so can traditinal currencies.
Not really, no. When there is volatility in traditional currencies to the extent we see with bitcoin, it almost inevitably leads to their devaluation. An established currency can go through some volatility and keep it's place because it's been established, but bitcoin is not really an established currency and this is a huge hurdle for it.
With Bitcoin I can pay anyone, anywhere, any value. And it will take 10-30 minutes.
No you can't. You can only do this with individuals who accept bitcoin.
With regular currency you can pay anyone anywhere any value as well, and it takes like 20 seconds.
No bank fees, no International transfere fees. No Government asking why I'm sending 10 mill to Mexico. No 3 to 5 days to process.
Lots of tradeoffs inherent here.
It might not get used much as a currency but it certainly can be and that's what's important.
It can be, but the point is that it makes perfect sense why its a mystery to most people.
With regular currency you can pay anyone anywhere any value as well, and it takes like 20 seconds.
But I can't pay anyone. I can only pay people I'm standing in front of. Hell I can't even pay cash to someone in the same state as me because of travel restrictions let alone on the other side of the world.
If im paying people oversees I can only pay using some 3rd party if the other party accepts it and if the 3rd part allows us to.
I think OP is referring to remittances transactions like telegraphic transfer or internet banking that takes some 20 seconds to complete. Which you could do even though the other person is not in front of you.
But I can't pay anyone. I can only pay people I'm standing in front of
We have these things called credit and debit cards now. Also tons of cash transfer apps like venmo.
Hell I can't even pay cash to someone in the same state as me because of travel restrictions let alone on the other side of the world.
Sure you can. You can I'll give you my venmo ID and you can give me some cash for an experiment?
If im paying people oversees I can only pay using some 3rd party if the other party accepts it and if the 3rd part allows us to.
Same with bitcoin, except if you cont Bitcoin as a party you need a 4th party as well to enact the transfer to cash unless that person happens to want Bitcoin.
You can't give some one venmo or PayPal or visa or any other app if they dont have means to receive it either.
Anyone can use Bitcoin. Anyone. You can't stop some one from using Bitcoin if they want to.
There are dozens of ways to send and receive Bitcoins. Compile your own wallet or sign up for an online service. Make a paper wallet. Whatever the choice is yours. They all work and they all work together.
If two people want to pay each other in bitcoin they
Can. Same with cash physical constraints aside. Not true with Venmo, Payal, banks or the rest as we just found out.
Venmo stopping me from making an account. No one stopping you from getting a Bitcoin address.
For most purposes your right in that there's a bunch of apps that are more useful for most thinngs but Bitcoin is universal. That's is power. Bitcoin won't stop me sending you money because it doesn't operate in my region. It won't stop me from sending you 6k because there's a limit of $5k. It's not going to suspend my account or do anything thing else because it's not an app. It's not a service. It's a digital currency.
You can't give some one venmo or PayPal or visa or any other app if they dont have means to receive it either.
That's correct and that's just sort of how digital payments work.
Not true with Venmo, Payal, banks or the rest as we just found out.
It's definitely true enough that most people can make these work for them one way or another. People choose these methods over bitcoin, because they utilize currency people are familiar with and know won't vary wildly in value, and the barriers to usage are relatively low even if they exist.
Bitcoin is universal. That's is power.
All I'm saying is that that's a more niche advantage than it sounds, given that most people don't have issues sending regular currency to one another via various alternative means, even if it's not exactly as clean as Bitcoin. For me, and I assume the vast majority of people, the tradeoff of having uncertainty about the value and the inconvenience of having to exchange it for currency in order to be able to use it at 99% of businesses.
If i let my computer mine for bitcoin for 1 hr and earn like 0.00001 bitcoin or sth like that.. what does it mean ? Did i crack open a layer of chest ? Did my computer solve 1/10000th of a equation?
As I understand, that 0.0000001 bitcoin has value. You could in theory trade it for something, just as you would paper money or gold, or whatever currency.
Yea i get it that my 0.00001 bitcoin has its equivalent US dollars... But just wanted to know the mechanics of how I actually earned it.. and who gave it to me ? Was the bitcoin created out of thin air ?
Again I am not an expert but from what I understand there's only a set amount of Bitcoins. That number will not change. You earn them the same way you would by chiseling out raw gold or other precious metals from a mine shaft.
You get the bitcoin because of the way bitcoins are self-checking across a community of computers. You announce "I've discovered the answer to Unit #2382342344142414 is "42", then all of the community bitcoin checks your claim. Then if they agree you found that answer first, you get to keep the 0.0000001 bitcoins now. The same system also keeps track if you purchase anything with it. It's like a 1,000 people going "Yep. I saw Dave spend those Bitcoins. They belong to Wendy corporation now." because the system is constantly fact checking.
In a sense, yes bitcoin was created out of thin air but so is our current regular money. In a way, the best thing Bitcoin has done is make people more curious about money and start asking questions. Like where did our money come from? Who gets to decide what $1 is really worth? Why does it change over time? Why do the exchange rates differ so much? Is currency only based on a tangible good?
But our current paper money isn't created out of thin air. You get them as reward for your honest hard work (cheat, fraud, theft in some circumstances). Work that created real value in real life like nursing or law enforcement jobs. Not like mining in front of a computer.
As for the rest of your comments on the philosophy of money, well, you don't need bitcoins to learn this. This is not a criticism on your explanation though. Because from reading the thread the only thing I'm slightly more clear now is that those mining activities create values. Which is ok, but what if the world refuse to accept it as payment/currency.
carc · 30 points · Posted at 02:13:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Imagine the internal ledger at a bank. It stores all the transactions between its customers in a centralized database. This data is used to show you how much money is in your account, and the historical transactions are all available for you to see.
In order for this to work, the bank needs to be trustworthy.
Bitcoin is very similar; there is a ledger for transactions, but instead of a secret internal database, it's all publicly available data. The ledger is called a "blockchain" -- the technology that makes it possible to ensure that the transactions on the ledger can be both trusted and accurate.
The blockchain is literally just a chain of "blocks" -- where each block is a mini-ledger of thousands of transactions.
So how can a public ledger be trustworthy? Mathematical puzzles!
The last block in the chain presents a mathematical puzzle that requires a lot of computational power to solve. Everyone who is trying to "mine" or earn bitcoin is keeping a mini-ledger of recent bitcoin transactions, hoping that their mini-ledger will become the next block in the blockchain.
These "miners" are also racing each other, hoping to be the first to find the solution to the current puzzle. It requires a lot of processing power, and a little bit of luck. The first to solve the puzzle wins! And as proof they solved the puzzle, they present the solution for everyone. This is called "proof of work." And that earns them newly-minted bitcoin!
Once the block is verified as the winner, the new block (the mini-ledger) is added to the blockchain; the "glue" between the blocks is the puzzle/solution set. And once the new block is added, it contains a new puzzle to be solved!
The whole process repeats as more and more blocks are added to the chain. And the cool thing is, you can easily start from the first block and quickly verify the integrity of the chain all the way to the end.
While someone could "forge" a list of transactions in their block, and solve the puzzle, this will be shot down in the verification stage -- the network will be angry that the winning ledger doesn't match their own records. Without consensus about the new ledger, the block is rejected.
Because the reward for winning is so high, it's better for a bad actor to simply accept the reward and play by the rules instead trying to throw out enough computational power to try to trick the network. Which is practically impossible, by the way.
That is how you can get a public ledger that can be trusted by everyone who uses it, without trusting a bank or government. You just trust consensus and math!
The same reason that the USD is currency, despite it being a piece of paper that's not even being backed by gold anymore. We agree that this piece of paper with a certain design on it is worth $1. We agree that another piece of paper with a different design is worth $5.
Oh, that piece of paper with a certain design? We won't accept that here. That's a Euro. We don't accept that here. Why? Because nobody else in the area accepts those.
Any piece modern currency has no inherent value beyond the materials it's made of. We as a society assign it meaning. Gold was a practical currency. It was somewhat rare, and it was shiny and nice to look at. That's the reason why gold is a good investment. It's almost never going to completely lose its value, unless the entirety of human society decides that gold may as well just be another lump of rock.
Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies have no inherent value. They're a series of numbers stored on your hard drive. From a utility standpoint, they have value in being a completely secure, completely digital, practically anonymous currency. When Bitcoin first started, the users were usually just cryptography/computer hobbyists that thought it was a cool and novel concept. Then, around 2010, someone started a Bitcoin exchange site.
One person decided to give Bitcoin a monetary value. It started at like, a fraction of a cent per coin. Then, as more and more people started to agree that Bitcoin had a monetary value, the price steadily rose. A couple months after the first Bitcoin market, someone made the first real world purchase, buying a couple pizzas.
As time went on, more and more services started accepting Bitcoin. Most notably The Silk Road, a Deep Web marketplace for drugs and other illegal products. As Bitcoin started being used as a legitimate currency, it's strength started to resemble one.
Tl;Dr: Money is only worth what we agree it's worth. If we as a group of people say that we accept cryptocurrency as payment, then it gains value.
The Bitcoin network has a set of rules which govern how it works. If you want to play the Bitcoin game, you need to follow those rules or everyone will kick you out of the team.
Other networks (ethereum etc) have other rules. If you want to play their game, you need to follow their rules.
The rules generally dictate how much Bitcoin can be made, how hard it is to make, and how much there is ever to be made.
Everyone in the network makes sure everyone else is following the rules. Bad players are called out and excluded from the network.
If the amount of bad players exceeds the number of good players, and all the bad players are playing together, they get to decide how it works.
The problem is if that happens everyone will leave the network and the price would be worthless. See Bitcoin Cash as an example. So keeping it fair is an incentive mechanism in itself.
So it's sort of a self governing mechanism in which one can see everything that's happening and decide if it's fair for everyone or not.
Edit: Bitcoin feels very very complex before you understand what every part does and how they all interact, but extremely simple (and crazy powerful) once all those parts become intuitive.
It's just a big logic puzzle with an incentive mechanism attached.
To be honest, the best way understand is to just buy some, send it to someone else, sell it. You'll understand it a million times more than reading words.
Ok this made a lot of sense to me.. I get the blockchain, problem-solving, ledger piece. What I don’t understand is mining and the “puzzle”.
Where do you find these transactions? “Publicly available code” - where is this located? How does the average person just pick up their computer and go find it?
If I understand correctly - my computer, and everyone else’s, generates strings of code for “transactions” it performs, yes? And these are results of ... what? Every email I send? Every purchase I make online? But it’s just numerical code that doesn’t contain any info on my credit card or the contents of my messages?
Also - once you access that public database or blockchain... what does a puzzle look like? How would anyone know what answer it’s seeking if it’s just endless numerical codes?
Restart your understanding of the block chain. Start from the beginning.
Think of the ledger like a Google Docs spread sheet that anyone who has downloaded it can type in. That is the publicly available code.
In the early days the problem might be as simple as "what 2 numbers when multiplied together equal 27 not including 1?"
The answer is 3 and 9. The first person to shout that answer at the ledger gets the Bitcoin. Everyone else knows they are right because they can put 3x9=27 in their calculator and their answer is time-stamped on everyone's ledger as so everyone knows they had the solution 1st.
Now the problem may be what two numbers equal 112056087902635269 not including 1? Solving that puzzle takes tons more computing power and time but is just as easy as solving for 27.
Just divide by 2, then 3, then 4... Until you divide by the number 123456789 and get the whole number 987654321. Shout it out on the ledger 1st and you get the Bitcoin.
The puzzles themselves are "simple" but the solution is basically just to guess and check gigantic strings of numbers until you brute-force a solution.
Your "wallet" consists of Bitcoin linked to a solved puzzle. So say Bitcoin number 1 was awarded for solving the puzzle "27" you can then send that Bitcoin27 from Wallet A (yours) to Wallet B (anyone else). That transfer is recorded on the public ledger for all to see.
What you get in exchange isn't part of the ledger, only the transfer. This is why it became popular on the Silk Road as you could buy illegal products/services and the only record is that Bitcoin changed wallets not the reason. For the exchange or who owned the wallet. The wallet is almost like a bearer bond, whoever has the login info can freely transfer the value.
A computer as simple as a calculator generates it by picking two RNG prime numbers and multiplying them together.
The why is... Because someone programmed them to. The puzzle solutions reward Bitcoin, that's what they are "worth." That's why people choose to dedicated time and processing power to solving it.
It sounds more like your question is why is Bitcoin worth money which is a whole different rabbit hole.
Indeed, the puzzles are worthless but the true value was the work you put into it, it was inside you the whole time. :)
But yeah, people want to solve the puzzles because you get awarded some new bitcoins for doing that. Basically it is a limited license to straight-up print money for yourself. This is good because you can buy things with this money you printed. Anything is money if you think it is. Some ancient people use shells as money, some people use bitcoins as money, and some people use green rectangles made of paper and cotton with numbers written on them.
The puzzles are generated by an algorithm that was made by the inventor of bitcoin.
carc · 1 points · Posted at 10:33:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose is to generate the proof of work -- that you're actively supporting the network by being part of it, and that you threw processing power at it and solved the puzzle. It means that you're a serious contributor to the network and have a way to prove that you performed the work.
The puzzle is automatically generated after each new block. I can go more into the puzzles, and how they're generated and solved, if you'd like. The cool trick is, once you have the solution, it's not computational expensive to verify that it's the right answer to the puzzle.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't know why you haven't gotten the actual answer to your question yet...
I'm a bit hazy on the details, but the purpose of the puzzles is to deliberately make it hard to add blocks of transactions to the chain, which is done to make it very unlikely that there are multiple forks of the chain at any given time (as it takes much longer to solve the puzzle than it does to let everyone know that you have, I think). This is important because if it is possible to have multiple forks, then it is possible for people to double-spend, because they could give the same bitcoins to a different merchant in each fork. By waiting for a certain number of blocks to be added, the person receiving the bitcoin can have arbitrarily large confidence that there are no other forks and so the transaction won't be thrown out. If I recall correctly, the system is designed so that the puzzles always take roughly 10 minutes for a solution to be found; in particular, the puzzles are made increasingly difficult the more total hardware is being thrown at it.
Because solving these puzzles is expensive (and increasingly so the more total computational power is being thrown into solving them, as it's a zero-sum game), there is a reward for finding a solution. In the early days this reward consists primarily of bitcoins plucked out of thin air, but the system is designed so that over time this component of the reward decreases to zero. Eventually, the puzzle solvers will have to rely on the second component of the reward, which are transaction fees that you have to pay for your transaction to be included in a block that a particular puzzle solver is working on.
Spending all that time and resources trying to solve puzzle means that you're a good player, not a bad one. You literally have to invest your time and money for a reward.
Once you've spent it time and money finding the solution, you broadcast it and everybody else we confirmes it.
If you don't have to correct answer, everybody else just rejects it, wasting your time and resources. If you do, everybody excepts it and you get the block reward - Bitcoin.
The solution to the puzzle means nothing, it's the time and money spent to get to that solution which proves you're trying.
The "puzzle" is : Find a hash with a given cryptographic hash function, that for the current block(last blocks hash, the transactions, some freely choosable data) has DIFFICULTY_LEVEL leading zeros.
What that means is: Build a skeleton of the block and randomly guess values until the result has enough leading 0.
People can't just sit there and write out the problems to try to "solve" them. There are computers that are constantly churning out algorithms and trying to basically crack the correct answer to the puzzle. Like, bitcoin farming servers can be tens of thousands of computers in a room with a ton of fans trying to keep them from overheating
carc · 2 points · Posted at 10:36:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The puzzles are automatically created from each new block. If you have bitcoin mining software, it detects the current puzzle and has you try to brute force a solution.
[deleted] · 70 points · Posted at 20:15:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how money is really just numbers in a computer and we all agree that the banks take care of that accounting for us? Instead of the banks we let the miners computers take care of the accounting. And we pay them for the accounting by giving them some bitcoin.
I didn’t understand it either until somebody explained it to me like this: on the Internet you can copy a digital file, a photograph, a song, a movie and you can make as many copies as you want. You can manipulate it anyway you want.
Someone figured out how to make a digital thing that can never be copied. You can own it and only you can own it. He made it a currency and only 21 million will ever be made. Because it’s unique and tamperproof, it is attractive and valuable to a community of owners.
The more people I’ve become interested in bitcoin the more it becomes legitimized.
Ok, but who made it in the first place? And what's to say they don't have 100 million more stashed away somewhere?
carc · 5 points · Posted at 12:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin has less transparency than normal money. All wallets are visible; you just don't know who owns the wallets.
The original (anonymous) creator of Bitcoin is either in hiding, is prison, or is dead. Their wallet hasn't been touched in many, many years. But they are sitting on a stash of about 2 million out of the 21 million bitcoins in existence, if I remember correctly. Nothing has been moved out of their wallet, though some people think it's funny to give a few bitcoin to their original creator's wallet. It's unlikely the wallet will ever move -- if it does, it will be a really, really big deal.
adeon · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He could also have misplaced the key for the wallet, although that would be rather embarrassing.
holy shit, really?!?!?!?! jesus, never realised that. Ok, that makes more sense.
ProoM · 4 points · Posted at 09:07:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ledger is public, so we know how much are there in circulation. Anything that's not on the ledger doesn't exist. Common misconception is that you can keep your bitcoin on your computer/phone/etc - you can't, all you can is your private key (essentially a password) that unlocks a row in that ledger. Some people hold bitcoin in their mind.
I'm doing a little bit of research on Bitcoin and Blockchain, but am no means an expert on the topic. This is a gross oversimplification of how it works, but I think it gives a good illustration.
Bitcoin is a virtual currency that offers verifiabilty without a centralized entity. For example when you buy something like a pack of gum with a credit card, this is known as a transaction. It goes to the credit card company and back to the store. The store that you bought the pack of gum from knows that the transaction is valid because it trusts the credit card company. Without trust commerce as we know it can't exist.
In Bitcoin, there is no central authority verifying transactions.
The question is then how do we establish trust?
Bitcoin operates on a technology called Blockchain to achieve trust.
You can think of Blockchain like a train. Every train car called a block, has a cargo of transactions in it, and whats called a proof. The proof in essence is a number that is created by taking the last train car's cargo, and putting it into a very hard math function. This way, each train car is connected to the last by the proof. This is how you achieve verifiablilty because you can't modify any of the previous train car's transactions without messing up the proof. In order to modify one of the cars, you'll have to modify the entire train, which is extremely difficult and time consuming.
You can also think of the train as having two versions. The first version is what is globally accepted by the community, and the second is what each person uses locally. Each person only modifies its local copy, but eventually, these local changes are propagated to the global version called the ledger. The global ledger can be thought of as just an idea of what the community accepts as being correct, and isn't stored in any one place. Think of Fahrenheit 451 where there are no physical copies of books. If a majority of the community has memorized the whole Harry Potter series, what we say about what's in the books is what's true for everyone.
How does this all relate to Bitcoin?
Well all new transactions need to added to a Block (train car), but each transaction can only be added once to the train, otherwise you run into a problem called double spending. If i have $20, I can't buy $40 worth of items.
This is where mining comes in. Mining is the process of doing extremely complex math equations to try and generate the proof, at least in Bitcoin. In other crypocurrencies, there are other methods. Think of a math test where the first person to turn it in that's 100% correct gets an A, and everyone else fails. One of the questions I saw earlier was what is all of this work for and what is it used for? For Bitcoin it goes nowhere. The work has no purpose other than to generate the proof and to make sure that it's hard enough to mine a Block so that the currency value doesn't get inflated. How do you reduce inflation? You keep increasing the difficulty of the proof equation.
The work of everyone in the classroom is wasted. This is one of the major criticisms of Bitcoin, due to the enormous waste of electrical power for no tangible benefit.
This person gets the reward of the Block, or a certain portion of the cargo in the train car as a reward, this is a "bitcoin". Everyone now has to try to mine the next Block with a new set of transactions. Unlike a classroom, there is no teacher who knows the answers, and can check the work. For Blockchain, the classroom checks the work.
A student might not know what the right answer is, but it knows when its wrong. It uses another formula for checking. If the question is what is the capital of Pennsylvania and I answer 5, then it's obvious that my answer is wrong whether or not I knew what the correct answer was.
The answer is accepted as 100% correct when over 50% of the classroom says that it is. This can lead to a problem where greater than 50% of the classroom are bad actors and say that a particular solution is correct when it's actually fake.
The main deterrent against this behavior is the difficulty that it requires over 50% of the classroom needs to work together in being bad actors, and that once a classroom is taken over, the value of any currency that it may have generated is now void.
This brings us to the next topic, how is the worth of a bitcoin generated?
There is none. Unlike a government issued currency, there is no inherent value in this currency because there is no centralized authority enforcing it's value. You can think of concurrency as stocks that aren't tied to anything. The value it's given is the value given to it by the community. The difficulty of the proof equation makes it so that the currency isn't generated too fast, and Bitcoin has a hard limit on the total number of coins that can be mined to further limit inflation and to create a limited supply with hopefully, large demand.
I know that this is by no means a comprehensive explanation, but I hope this helps some people better understand how Bitcoin works.
Bitcoin is a prime example that anything can be of value as long as a large group of people that have skills or goods they're willing to perform or trade for said value. All currency no matter where it's from works this way.
Difference is that this "anything" can be transmitted across the globe and without a trusted 3rd party to make sure we're both acting honestly. There is nothing else that exists with those properties. Only crypto.
The trusted 3rd party is the ledger you can't forge. That's not the problem with crypto. The problem with crypto is twofold.
One, it is not backed by any sort of govt or power system. It is not a standard currency with value based on the strength of an economy. Without this structure behind it, there is no stability in the pricing. Crypto can skyrocket or plummet in value completely arbitrarily unrelated to real-world events.
Two, crypto's value does not primarily come from its use as a currency but it's scarcity combined with its use as an "investment."
The vast majority of people buying crypto are not looking to utilize it for any purpose except to sell for a profit. The hope of almost every purchaser is that if they hold onto it, the price will keep going up so they can then sell it. If at any point, "investors" realize that and choose not to buy, the demand and as a result the value plummet. This feeds back into point one. Without a backer invested in making sure the currency doesn't fall, there is no floor. Your crypto worth $10k/coin today can be worth 10k coin/$1 tomorrow.
"Investing" in crypto is nothing more then gambling that the price will rise and that you can sell outside any sort of crash.
I hesitate to call either of those problems with crypto specifically. When everyone gets bored of bitcoins and moves on, it will still have value/utility. It addresses the double-spend problem and uses a decentralized model of control, even if it ends up at $5/coin it will still be used.
And that's just bitcoins. There are many other cryptocurrencies that address their own problems and propagate a blockchain by other mechanisms, that all have their own separate values. Even if most of them are scams capitalizing on exactly the hype you described, the ones that solve a problem and do it well will show their true value through the test of time.
""Investing" is nothing more then gambling that the price will rise and that you can sell outside any sort of crash."
You've described real estate, stocks and commodities.
"Your crypto worth $10k/coin today can be worth 10k coin/$1 tomorrow."
That's not how any of this works. There are futures and leverage. If someone is betting on it going up, there is likely someone betting on it going down and those people have to cover.
The point is, those are physically tied to something of value whether it's the value of the property, company, or trade.
Crypto is not valuable because of what it is. So few people use it for anything except an "investment." The only reason the price ever increases is because people keep buying it not because of what it is tied to. Eventually when people simply stop buying due to the price you see massive crashes like back when Bitcoin peaked around 20k.
Buying, leveraging, or futures on such a volatile product backed by absolutely nothing is purely a gamble.
It's tied to the strength of the US economy lol. Even during severe downturns there are tools that can be utilized to support the value of the dollar. Like you know, the stimulus checks right now.
Crypto has no tools, no large scale use in actual trade (hell their biggest historical use was the silk road and look how that turned out), and no backing powerful body with an incentive to maintain it's value.
The reason a loaf of bread costs 5x more then in 1988 is infinitely more complex then dropping the gold standard.
So tell me, what was the largest instance of crypto being used as a currency in exchange for goods instead of as an investment medium if not silk road? Also why the fuck did you respond twice creating an extra pointless conversation path?
Go google, "is my house an asset" and come back to me with your embarrassment.
I don't care if you don't understand the value of crypto. My crypto holdings gain and lose in 24 hrs what most people make in a year. My stocks are starting to behave the same.
Sell your house today, and you need to go buy another house at the same inflated price. It isn't an investment. It is a liability and produces 0 income. WSB is for autistic Redditors who gamble. I can see you are special too.. downvoting every post like it is going to help you.
You act like you can understand crypto when you don't even understand the Reddit reply button, this is the other conversation you accidentally started. It has nothing to do with a house. Jesus Christ Boomer.
That's a nice meaningless phrase there chief. Backed by as in supported by a powerful system with incentive to prevent a crash or a tangible asset to weigh it's value against. Being mined with math and electricity is not a backing lol.
Is 'math' going to pull out tools and resources to stop a crash like a govt can do to reduce negative effects on other currency? Is 'math' an asset with a minimum price floor due to inherent value? No. The only thing keeping crypto valuable is the hope that you will profit selling to other people with the exact same hope. That's a bubble and a half. You are effectively using money, to buy money, hoping the money you bought becomes more valuable along with everyone else, but nothing but speculation effects the value of your new money.
You obviously have some stake in this though. I made a few bucks on Ethereum back in the day but throwing $20 at it for fun is not an investment in the same way throwing $20 on black isn't. I hope your investments are much more diversified then just crypto dude. Things like buying real estate obviously have risk, but at least you can live in your house during a down market.
Been around crypto since 2011. Gold, google ipo, Twilio ipo, Tesla ipo and real estate. Guess which asset class has netted me the most profit? Take a guess as to why I purchased any if those things? No, you can't live in two houses at once.
Two houses? When did I say that? I never said to become a property Baron lol. Your own home is an investment. I've made far more from not owing a monthly rent payment let alone the increased value of the home compared to when I purchased it then any other investment I've made, and it doesn't rely on pure luck like picking the right crypto at the right time.
Your house is a liability, unless you own it outright and are renting it out. There is no guarantee that a house will increase in value other than to hope it keeps up with inflation. Real estate becomes an investment if you are purchasing properties to manage and rent out.
Are you an idiot? Owning your own house is an investment in the sense that you are pretty much obligated to either own or rent to you know, not be homeless and once you own that's a guaranteed monthly increase how much you take-home when you don't have a bill? I literally said not even counting the value of my home which has gone from 125 to 350 since I took out my mortgage lol.
You do not understand what an asset or liability is. I paid 250k for my home 15 years ago. It is now worth roughly 750k. It is still a liability as it produces no income. In fact it still costs me money to keep it powered insured and the taxes paid. When I am budgeting, my home goes into my liability column as it produces no return. It actually costs me to hold it.
Christ. Do a simple Google search. Is my home an asset. Come back to me after.
I was gonna invest in it a couple of years ago when the hype started to build. But shit man I researched it for days and even asked some questions on the BitCoin subreddit and still didn't understand that shit. Especially once BitCoin wallets and such became an issue before I could even get into a position of buying any.
I'm sure if they're worth half million dollars in 15 years time my future self will hate 2017 me (and current me) for being too dumb to go with it.
first of all, there's this thing called asymmetrical encryption. you create a public and private key pair. you share your public key, and people can encrypt stuff with it but not decrypt. only the private key can decrypt it.
and also, it has a signature feature, so using your private key, you can sign some stuff, and people can verify it with your public key, without seeing your private key.
Bitcoin uses this. addresses are some kind of public keys, and have private keys.
its database is shared among a lot of computers. but it's not possible to change or remove any transactions, balances etc. because of the cryptography.
let's say, you have some bitcoins. when sending it to somebody else, you create a transaction including sender, receiver and amount. then you sign it with your private key, so everybody knows it's actually you who created the transaction. and then you have a valid transaction, ready to broadcast. it's not sent to the other party yet, because nobody knows about your transaction. you send it to the computers running bitcoin and they add it to their temporary database, and tell other computers they know.
signed messages aren't possible to be changed so others cannot change your transaction, because your signature then would be invalid.
but because it can be slow for it to reach all computers, there can be conflicts, causing double-spending or forks. someone sends Bitcoin to two different addresses at the same time, but broadcasts them to different nodes (computers running Bitcoin). which transaction will the other nodes consider valid?
for this reason, they're not confirmed immediately. there are miners.
miners pick transactions from this temporary database/pool, and create a "block" containing these, previous block hash, timestamp etc.
btw, hash is like an "identifier", you take the hash of something, and no matter the size or contents, depending on algorithm get maybe 16, 32 chars long, (usually) unique text. it's not possible to reverse this process so only way to guess a hash is by brute forcing.
miners calculate the hash of that block. if it starts with some number of zeroes, it is a valid block. if not, they add some random stuff and try it again until it does. billions of tries every second.
miner then submits the valid block to other nodes, and they save it to their database. that includes transactions as well. transactions included in the block are confirmed now and cannot be reversed.
if somebody was to remove a transaction from a block, the hash would completely change and be an invalid block, and not get accepted by nodes.
the amount of zeroes is defined by the difficulty, if miners increased and are finding blocks too easily difficulty increases and vice versa. it's currently something like 16 zeroes and it's super hard to mine a block by yourself. but because there's millions of hardware mining together, it can be mined in approximately every 10 minutes
you cannot remove a block because the newer blocks depend on it. you might remove the last block from your Bitcoin database, but millions of other nodes will have a copy of it already. if you choose to go with your own modified database, it won't be accepted by other nodes.
why does it have a worth? because people determine its price. what determines a 100 dollar bill's value other than the numbers written on it?
miners get rewards because it's defined in the Bitcoin software, and it's limited. Bitcoin cannot have inflation, blocks etc. and nobody other than you can control your wallet, thanks to mathematics.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 04:36:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know those paper notes in your wallet? They're intrinsically worthless, they just piece of paper.
You know Bitcoin? It's also intrinsically worthless, it's just numbers in a computer.
The difference is that governments can just print more and more and more money forever, as much as they want. This makes your money worth less, and sometimes worthless.
Bitcoin is the opposite, we know how much Bitcoin if there is, and there ever will be in existence, which makes it easy to plan around. This gives it value, along with it not being tied to any government. It's run by the people for the people.
It's kind of like gold, but much more predictable.
It was released in response to the 2008 bank failures. It's a deflationary money as opposed to an inflationary fiat. Didn't they just print 3 trillion USD?
It’s kind of like a really expensive theoretical pizza. It’s how I describe it to my parents. You can buy as little or as much as you want. When the pizza is popular it’s gets more expensive.... it’s more in depth but that’s a start
Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
I wanted to get into bitcoin so I could maybe buy some controlled chemicals for research purposes only... I fell at the first hurdle and couldn't even understand the bitcoin wallet.
I recently saw an explanation here on Reddit that said something about a car that pumps out solved Sudoku puzzles? I'm pretty sure that's terribly wrong but the analogy was really good if somebody else remembers it.
Let me try and explain it the best way I can explain:
In my head, there are two parts to bitcoin, the network or the blockchain (I’m sure you’ve heard of that term somewhere) & then the security / mining.
Try to imagine the network like a giant game of scrabbles where everyone is keeping a tab on every word everyone is putting on the board. This way the everyone keeps a tab on everybody else and it’s nigh impossible to cheat. It’s pretty much exactly the same thing in Bitcoin where every system on the network keeps a ledger that has the list of every single transaction EVER DONE! So for someone to cheat, they would have to go to every single system and change the entry on the books which is next to impossible.
Now – what stops someone from changing the files on every other system. After all, we’ve all worked on shared files at some point and how do you verify who has the correct file. That’s where the security of the system comes into picture.
The ledger that I was talking about earlier (where everyone keeps a copy of every single transaction every taken), there’s one entry on it every 10 minutes or so which has the list of all the transactions that happened since the last time things were written in the book. So of course, every single entry is different – and that’s what makes the fodder for the mathematical puzzle to be solved. That’s why no one can solve the puzzles before hand because the puzzles are the actual entries into the ledger.
Now to understand the puzzle, think of it like a pool table with thousands of balls, all arranged randomly. Every single entry is a single ball at a certain location. There’s no way you can determine what the next arrangement of the table is going to look like. Your task is to take the cue ball and hit it at a certain angle with some speed which would result in the final layout of the pool table to resemble exactly the random order that you were given. Sounds very difficult and there’s not way to reverse engineer the solution. The only way to solve it is to shoot every random shot possible and try and see which would give you the desired result. That would require you to, at times, try millions upon millions of shots to get the final answer. This is what the computers are doing when they say they are mining. They are just randomly trying different combinations to see which of them fits the final solution.
However, to verify the solution, all you have to do is to write down the starting point, angle and force at which you hit the que ball to get the final result. Anybody else can easily verify the final answer once they have it. And then, that answer becomes one of the balls on the next pool table to be solved in the next ten minutes.
Now this row of pool tables being created once every 10 minutes extending all the way back a decade is your ledger. Every single transaction every made is on that pool table. For someone to check if someone is lying about their money / transaction, all you gotta do is go back to that date & time and see the entry. And for someone to change that entry in the past, they’ll not only have to solve that pool table and come up with a solution, but they’ll have to solve every table since then AND do it before someone adds a new table to the chain. So, there’s a constant competition to put the new table with the solution in the list and EVERYONE is trying to solve that problem at once. Of course you can’t have a competition without the people competing, and that competition is what is keeping someone from changing the previous entries. THAT is the security bit – you CAN’T CHEAT EVERYONE at the SAME TIME.
So the people solving these problems become the security of the network. And thus they get rewarded every time they solve a problem with the system creating new money for every solution and awarding it to the person who solved it first. Then, that ALSO goes into the ledger, which means that that also becomes part of the next problem to be solved.
In this way, the money in the system CAN’T just be created – there’s a lot of hard work to create value.
I hope this gives to a little idea of what bitcoin is…
It's basically internet money. It can be bought and sold or gained with some shit I don't understand. It's untraceable, and it's basically like every other currency, it's value changes throughout time and it is used to buy and sell things.
Somebody invented an imaginary currency and convinced a lot of stupid people to give him real money for it by telling them it was worth a lot. Crazily enough though, if enough people actually buy into this 'bitcoin is valuable' nonsense, it could become accepted as real currency someday soon.
But right now most places don't accept math problems as a form of payment.
The problem I have with it is this: the value of currency is the work we put into it. So if I buy something for $100, I'm trading 3 hours of hard work for a Nintendo game or whatever it may be. You don't put anything into bitcoin. So there's no value in it. Computers do everything. As far as I know, You can't put in extra time or work harder to earn it faster, all you can do to earn more is to put in more of your real money. And somewhere on the other side someone is taking this real money and making off like a king.
On a different note, perhaps I could interest you in a passedonme buck? One passedonme buck is worth $1000 but the value DOUBLES every year. So get as many as you can while they're cheap!
I get how it works but... I don't get why people even used it as money to the extent that it got this popular...
I mean, "hey GUYZ LOOK! COMPUTER MONEY!!1 " "Oh, okay, let's all buy $100,000 worth."
I just don't get how that happened. Like, one dude invented it and then somehow people mined it then charged money for it and somehow the people who first bought it convinced OTHER PEOPLE to accept it for money... like whoah.
I know you already got like 500 replies, but I found this video really makes it click in my mind. For the rest of the day, anyway. Then I forget a lot of it.
it’s like the stock market. the more people buy it, the higher the value goes. the more people sell it, the lower the value goes. it’s just supply and demand. it’s also untraceable, which is why it’s used on the deep web.
Except a stock has value because it generates more value, bitcoin only has value because people think it has value, it has no inherent value. Normal currency has an inherent value because you’re able to pay taxes with it whereas you can’t with bitcoin and holding bitcoin doesn’t generate more bitcoin
Cryptocurrencies are more like standard bank notes than you think. The USD is only worth anything more than the paper it's printed on because the government says it is and we accept it. We don't accept EUR or CAD in America because everyone else doesn't accept it. Theoretically, we could all collectively tell the government to fuck off, we use pesos now.
Crypto has value because people accept it. People will exchange it for standard currencies, and people will exchange it for goods and services. If everyone just decided that they won't accept crypto as payments it won't have value. We could do the same thing for anything else percieved as having monetary value.
corpski · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There are also the concepts of censorship-resistant payments, non-inflation / scarcity, and decentralization, which are the key driving points of cryptocurrency.
• If you lived in a dystopian country and the government locked up your bank account. They can't easily do that to any of your cryptocurrency holdings. Without delving into the tax implications, there are those that intend to use this method to seamlessly transfer wealth over to the next generation as well. Believe it or not, this is the primary way of how Chinese millionaires discreetly take money out of their country's system.
• The USD 20,000 per semester college tuition fee you pay for today will almost certainly cost double in a decade. Some buy into cryptocurrency as a hedge believing that its appreciation and scarcity can easily overshadow the cost of inflation that will hurt your fiat holdings over the coming years. As you may know, the FED just created $2 trillion out of thin air. How much does your savings account lose to inflation every year? The restaurant bill that you pay today will 100% be more expensive in years to come.
• Wiring or transferring payment to a friend who lives overseas can be a chore depending on which bank or method you choose. Paypal alone takes anywhere from 4-7%. Cryptocurrency is immediate, with feeless or minimal fee options depending on which asset you employ. It completely bypasses financial middle men and government oversight. In the country where I live, more than 70% of the population is unbanked.
These all have value in their own right, even if you don't necessarily agree with them. Wouldn't you think?
To your first point, you’re effectively saying it’s great for illegal activities. Congrats, but I don’t agree with illegal activities so scrap that, makes me disagree with it in that sense. Governments lock up accounts when people do shit wrong, yes there are governments like China which I don’t agree with but I don’t think Bitcoin is the solution through illegal activity. Avoiding inheritance tax, also illegal and shouldn’t be done (whether you agree with inheritance tax or not it’s the law that’s implemented by a democratic government, you can’t just opt out no matter how much of a libertarian you are)
It’s volatility means it’s not good as a natural hedge, stocks would be a far better hedge against inflation as they’re more stable than cryptocurrencies and grow at higher than inflation rates, therefore it being a “hedge” is not what gives it value in my opinion as there are far better alternatives.
As I said in another comment, yes Bitcoin can be used for international payment transfers without fees but so can lots of other things. For example I can transfer money with Revolut at market rates to any bank account in the world without fees and I don’t need Bitcoin for it. Bitcoin is used for illegal transfers a lot for example it’s the standard payment on the dark web.
I merely said that you may not agree with it, but it does have that aspect to it. Nothing more or less. If you don't agree, then that's absolutely fine. Conversely, what gives it that power also gives it censorship against governments as those come hand-in-hand. I'm not trying to convince you though. You don't have to congratulate me or feel annoyed with what I posted.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 06:02:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a great argument, state that I’m wrong with no backup.
It has no inherent value if people just stopped thinking it had value it would be worthless. Thinks like gold are not like that because they can be used for technology etc. Normal currency isn’t like that as it always has the ability to pay taxes which is of value. Cryptocurrencies have neither of these, hence no intrinsic value
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which goes back to my point about tax. If “all transaction all to be settled in BTC” this would include tax and therefore make USD pretty redundant, that’s it, that’s why USD has intrinsic value and BTC doesn’t (USD can pay taxes in US so there will always be somebody willing to “buy” USD for goods, or in other woods you can spend it)
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so you’re starting to talk about libertarianism with governments wasting money etc which I cba to argue over because I think the NHS alone in my country is worth the taxes I pay never mind the roads, other emergency services, welfare etc.
It is intrinsic value because the point is, physical things like gold have intrinsic value because they’re physical. Things like bitcoin, software etc don’t have intrinsic value because they can become obsolete. The USD cannot become obsolete
Yes when people start charging 1 Satoshi for a bread roll or whatever you want, BTC may (I don’t think this is likely) become more widespread, but you’ll always need to convert it back into USD to pay your taxes and whatever income you’ve made and therefore it can’t replace the USD without overthrowing the government or whatever
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 20:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It’s not though. Stocks are stakes in businesses that generate income, the share price is effectively all of the expected future income discounted to today’s value based on the risk associated with that income. Bitcoin claims to be like a currency yet you can’t pay taxes with it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because it’s completely wrong to think of it like a stock when it’s claim is to be a currency. Currencies have value because the government promises to accept them as a payment method, they won’t accept bitcoin. There is no intrinsic value to Bitcoin so I’m agreeing with OP that it doesn’t make sense, it’s ludicrous to compare it to a stock (even Bitcoin supporters don’t claim that)
well unfortunately im not a "bitcoin supporter", so ill just explain something in a way that everyone can understand which is that its something you can buy and hold onto which goes up and down in value
I agree with the idea of it being a currency, regardless of how it works with taxes, but thats getting way too indepth for a simple explanation to somebody on reddit, and as i said if they wanted a more indepth explanation that could search that on their own
Your huge arguement against Bitcoin is that you can't pay taxes with it, so it isnt a real currency?
Did you ever stop to think that it's the government's issue that they don't accept it as a payment type?
Governments as they stand now require the global currencies that are uses by each nation to not be equal so they can hold leverage over each other..
If you strip each thing of it's percieved value -- value being a made-up thing that everything has -- what are you left with?
Imagine having GLOBAL currencies. No exchange rates. No going from the UK to USA and having to spend X more or less for Y thing, solely because they run things differently.
Bit of a tangent there but holy lord I can't believe ignorant people exist. Currency is currency. Being able to pay your taxes in your nation's currency is a nation-specific issue.
I’m not arguing that that is the right thing, but my point is that if you can’t pay taxes with a currency then it’s intrinsic value is nil, it doesn’t generate future cash flows (like a stock) and you can’t use it to pay taxes. Yes it’s a medium of exchange but you’ll always have to convert it back
Yes a global currency would be great I agree but unless countries accept it to pay taxes you’ll always need to transfer it back
The point is that it was created in 2009 because of "chancellor on 2nd bailout for banks". Basically central banks was printing money (illegal for anyone else and oh by the way, central bank is not a reserve and it is private) and handing it to large airlines and bust banks (which make money from loans and lending out your money).
Bitcoin intends to replace Fiat currency because bitcoin is the scarcest asset to exist, is completely censorship resistant and has a high stock to flow ratio (like gold but will be higher). The fact is that every single currency fails at one point. Whether it be by hyperinflation (will be the death of the US dollar) or war etc, they never last too long. There will only ever be 21M bitcoins and no one can change that. It is deflationary by design and saleable across time and space.
You are right that it cannot be a global currency now. It is far too complicated for the average person and difficult to transact with on a daily basis. However, with improvements to the lightning network and just time, it will become more user friendly and its volatility will decrease as the total market cap reaches trillions.
All of those points may be valid (although the central bank here in the UK is government owned, not private) but it still doesn’t take away from the fact if a country has taxes then you need to exchange your bitcoin for the local currency to pay those taxes hence it can never be a sole currency u less governments adopt it (which they’ll never do as they can’t control it).
I’m not arguing for or against bitcoin I’m just saying it’s not a stock and it’s also not a proper currency and I think it’s intrinsic value is nil.
Ok a good question would be what is the point of even paying taxes if the central bank will just print trillions (like the fed is doing now). I'm not advocating for people to stop paying taxes but I do think that that is a valid point.
I disagree. The central bank is private in every country of the world other than North Korea, Iran and Cuba. The name really tricks a lot of people and they to work with the govt but there we disagree.
Id argue the point of paying taxes is to not get arrested and to fund public services (no matter how much I disagree with parts of government I think paying taxes that fund public services such as the NHS in the UK is enough to compensate).
That’s actually a tale made up claiming the Rothschilds own all but 3 in the world, the Bank of England was nationalised in 1946, it is owned by the UK government. The capital of the Bank is held by the Treasury Solicitor on behalf of HM Treasury
Scarcity doesn’t give something value neither does proof of work. I could sit hammered at a rock for three years but that proof of work doesn’t then give that rock value?
Ok I see your point. For a currency to establish longevity it needs to be a store of value (like gold) and be saleable (can make transactions across borders quickly and cheaply). Gold has a high stock to flow ratio which correlates with its market cap. So yes gold is valuable because it is scarce and because it has a point of sale. Jewelry, corrosion resistant etc.
Bitcoin is even scarcer and its value is that you can send billions of fiat equivalent to anyone in the world anywhere and it be revived quickly with no third party and for a fee of less than a dollar and no one could have stopped it.
Yes I get that however it’s value is only there because you presume somebody else will buy it off you, also there are other ways of sending money now with minimum to no fees at fair rates (e.g. I can send money to friends in other countries using Revolut at market rates)
stygger · -4 points · Posted at 03:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All you really need to know is that they are a form of currency that are great for money laundry and other shady transactions!
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 03:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's very simple. Some scam artists sell some tulip bulbs digital bits of information to chumps. Then those chumps sell some of these to even bigger chumps at a profit. And then those chumps find some even bigger chumps to sell to at a profit. And so on.
I'm a reasonably tech-savvy person, but I genuinely have no idea about the inner workings of the tools I use for 12 hours every day. It's like I'm like a professional driver who has no idea how an engine or a turbocharger or brakes work.
edit: For those interested in reading more about the magic boxes and don't want to delve deeper into the comments, here were the most frequent suggestions.
I will probably only do number 3 cause I have the attention span of an ADHD-riddled goldfish. And because I'm not that interested in computers, I was mainly karma-whoring. Thanks for the comments and the effort though, I'm sure many will find them really interesting!
Basically lots of electrical signals turning little switches on and off.
The electrical signals are called bits, and are represented by a 1 or a 0. A 1 basically means a wire is powered, and a 0 means its not.
Transistors are the switches. They take one input, and allow electricity to flow through depending on the value of the input. Some transistors allow power through when the input is powered, or 1, and some allow power through when the input is off, or 0. There’s a lot more behind transistors but that’s pretty much the basics.
Logic gates are made of a bunch of transistors connected together. Logic gates are the basic building block of components that compute things, like the processor. Logic gates take one or more input and produce one output. One example would be an AND gate, which takes two inputs, and if they are both 1s (powered), it will output a 1 (powered). If one or both inputs are turned off, the AND gate will output a 0 (off). There are other logic gates like OR gates, which output a 1 if one or both inputs are 1s, or a NOT gate, which outputs the opposite of the input 0 -> 1 or 1 -> 0.
The processor, or CPUs job is to execute the instructions provided to it, this could be something like take 2 numbers from the memory (RAM), add them, and store them in a new spot in the RAM, or get a value from memory, and tell the motherboard to output the value out of the USB port. The instructions are really just a lot of 1s and 0s that turn on or off certain things in the processor.
A computer has multiple places it can store things. The first and fastest is to store data in the CPUs cache, which is extremely fast, but also extremely small, and it resets when you restart. Cache is used to store some instructions or numbers the CPU is going to use for calculations. The RAM, which is the memory, is much larger than the cache, but a little bit slower, the computer stores all values for running programs and important numbers here, for example playing a game, it would store your players position and data here, for quick access for the CPU. This also resets on restart. The largest, and slowest method of storage is the disk, this is where all of your files live, and it keeps its data even when the computer restarts. Two types of disk storage are SSD or HDD, Solid state drive or Hard disk drive. SSDs use transistor trickery to store data permanently with no moving parts, and HDDs do magnet stuff with a spinning disk and moving arm.
The GPU (Graphics processing unit) creates the output that you see on your screen. It does this using data sent to it from the CPU, and renders it, producing a video output. The CPU is very good at doing a few very hard tasks at once, while the GPU is made for doing thousands of tiny tasks at one time. The GPU is the most important part for gamers, as it is the part that processes the graphics in games. All computers have some type of GPU, either using one built into the CPU, or using a discreet GPU, like in gaming PCs. The way GPUs work gets very in depth, so that’s the idea to know.
The motherboard connects all of the parts, like the CPU, RAM, storage, GPU, and it deals with IO. IO stands for input output. Everything is connected using busses, which are just groups of wires that transmit data. The chipset is basically a translator between the CPU and the rest of the system, it is made of two parts, the north bridge and the south bridge. The CPU connects to the north bridge using the frontside bus, then the north bridge communicates with the RAM using the memory bus, and the GPU using the PCIe or depending on the system AGP bus. The south bridge handles lower speed communication like PCI devices, and it handles all IO like USB (universal serial bus), Ethernet, SATA (connection to storage disk). It also connects to the ROM, read only memory, which is used to boot the computer. The north bridge and south bridge are connected using the internal bus.
That explanation was a little in depth at times but if you can understand it, great.
TL;DR:
Lots of wires and switches.
[deleted] · 1062 points · Posted at 18:46:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you think you could explain how cameras work? How do you build a machine that sees and captures what our eyes can?
Not OP but I can answer. Super simplified version is that modern digital cameras use itty bitty light sensitive photocells that make up a grid. This is called the sensor. Light hits the sensor and these photocells record how much light hits each one (which corresponds to a pixel in a digital image). This gets translated into an image.
A super basic black and white camera would need one sensor, and use either a 0 or 1 to to record black or white pixels. You would move on from there to use, say, a number from 1-4 for each pixel, so you could get half-tones at the expense of more space needed to save a pixel.
For reference, modern cameras can have red, green, and blue color sensors that store each pixel at a 10-bit depth, which means each red, green, and blue pixel can store a number from 1-1024 representing its color value. That’s a lot of data! These 3 values get blended together to make an individual final pixel which makes up the final image.
A 12 megapixel camera has 12.7 million pixels to save per image. And modern smartphones can do all this math in less than a second. It’s incredible.
Videos are done in the exact same way, but shot in 24-60 images per second. Only recently have phones been able to shoot high resolution and high frame rate because the processing power needed is incredibly high.
I hope that answers your question!
[deleted] · 130 points · Posted at 20:11:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: This is also partially why green screens became the primary colour used for special effects work. Blue and red also can work, depending on context, but most cameras arrange the red, green, and blue sensors in a way that's known as the Bayer filter that has twice as many green sensors as red and blue (RGGB.) This makes it much easier to key off green, as there's literally twice as much data there to work with.
Interesting. I always thought that there were the three types, but green was more typical because no one actually wears green outfits very often. Especially not the nearly neon green most green screens are colored as.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 23:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes i've seen every video from him.
My favorite is the one with the infinite staircase cause the story behind it and his indepth explanation of why things need to be exactly the way they are was so fun to watch. :)
I decided to hunt that video down because of your comment. That was really cool! I swear I come across this guy every so often but I've never sat down and browsed through his channel before.
I have also watched every episode and it's very weird actually... I find myself coming back and rewatching his videos from time to time although i can't pick a favourite because they are all great...
I was very impressed that he thought of playing the video backwards in the marble machine video and i could have never calculated the distance that the fighter jet moved based on the framerate, focal length and size of the plane in the "a fighter jet says hi" video...
He's awesome!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just chiming in to say that you and all the above commenters are heroes. Thank you.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A smartphone produces the same amount of pixels with a smaller sensor than that of a DSLR. Does the number of pixels produced depend on the sensor or the processor?
The sensor. That means each pixel is smaller in size therefore captures less light than a DSLR would in identical conditions. In many conditions this hardly matters, however if you want to capture rapid movements or in low light you run into issues earlier.
You can compensate for this to some extent by amplifying the sensor signal more, but that also amplifies any errors / randomness in the sensor, resulting in a grainy image.
Modern smart phones also have great stabilisers, and multiple lenses. I gave up my Nikon D90 since the smart phone.
Back to phones, they use a ton of software to compensate for cost, space on the board and chassis, as well as the physics of the size sensors that are developed each cycle.
Not op nor a professional but I'll try my best as far as I understand it, sorry if u get something wrong and if I do get something wrong someone please correct me.
The maximum amount of pixels that can be produced is dependent on the amount of physical pixels present on the the camera sensor itself, you can however use a process called pixel binnig in which you combine a certain amount of pixels from the sensor so that they act as a single pixel, this creates a lower resolution image from the sensors maximum resolution but still managed to maintain a large amount of detail for said resolution.
An example I could give of this is with my phone( a OnePlus 7pro) that has a 48mp primary sensor. Although the sensor's max resolution is 48mp, in the normal camera settings it only captures 12mp images because it combines 4 pixels into 1 to downscale the resolution to 4k(a 4:3 4k image has a resolution of 4,000pixels x 3,000pixels = 12,000,000pixels) from 8k (4:3 8k image is 8,000pixels x 6,000pixels = 48,000,000pixels) although it cuts the resolution down, it still manages to pull in more detail than what you usually get from a native 12mp sensor. You can still into the phones settings and manually set the camera to shoot pictures at the full 48mp resolution for 8k photos.
Please please to anyone reading this do not associate a higher resolution sensor to a better camera since this is not the case at all. On a smart phone, the sensor itself is just as important if not less important than the software and color science that is built into the phones camera app since the sensor only captures a raw image that I sent to the phone to later color calibrate, change exposure and so on. The software a phone uses for is camera sensor is what really makes it shine and why phones like the iPhone 11 pro and Google's pixel 4 are still considered among the best if not the best smart phone cameras even though they both use only 12mp sensors since that's all you really need for 4k photos and videos.
Another thing about very high resolution sensors is that there are some disadvantages to having them on a phone. The first is that it affects the camera's focus. On a DSLR you can manually adjust your focus which makes this not a big deal, but on a phone it means that whenever I want to take an 8k photo I have to play way more with the auto focus as well as holding the phone far steadier than I have to when taking a normal photo. This is why if you watch any video about the recent Galaxy s20 ultra it's almost garanted that they are going to complain about the auto focus being very bad, Samsung didn't do enough software wise to compensate for the sensors 108mp resolution leading to the bad auto focus. The other big problem is that the 48mp sensor on a DSLR is physically much larger that the 48mp sensor on a phone. What this means is that the pixels in the phone camera are not only much smaller but also physically closer together than on the DSLR. What this ends up doing is that if I want to take an 8k photo on my phone, I better be taking the photo outside on a sunny day because otherwise the pixels are so close together that light isn't going to evenly hit all of them and is going to cause the resulting picture to look even worse than if I just took a normal 4k picture
(this is why pixel bining down from 48mp to 12mp increases detail, by combing 4 pixels into 1 you are technically increasing their physical size and thus light light can hit each individual pixel more easily and produce a more accurate image). All the pixel binning stuff I've said applies the same to higher than 48mp sensors (I've just talked about 48mp cus that's what I have) the only difference being that you combine more pixels, like on Samsung's 108mp sensor instead of combing 4 into 1 like on a 48mp sensor, you combine 9 into 1. The last main thing about the high res sensors is that when shooting at full resolution there is much less image and color processing going on so the resulting image won't look as vibrant as the normal 4k images, for me this is fine since I find that the normal camera on the 1+7pro is a little too over exposed for me so I prefer the more natural colors form the 48mp mode.
I know I made high res sensors on phones sound like the boogie man but don't shy away from them if that's what you like cus like I said, I personally prefer the more natural colors and the super high level of detail from the 48mp mode and end up using it more than the normal 12mp mode.
O know this was super long but I hope I was able to explain everything properly
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 12:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks! That helps.
Adam-K · 8 points · Posted at 22:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Wow, super informative, thank you. After reading this, it stems another question, which is how the sensors actually work? How is the light converted into digital? Especially the colors.
Another poster in the parent comment had a pretty good explanation of this piece - in a nutshell, the little photocells will output a different electrical resistance value based on how much light is hitting them. I’m a software engineer by trade so this is where things go a bit outside my field - electrical engineering is black magic to me!
What is truly amazing about this is that someone figured out how to do this. The thought of inventing something that has never existed is mind blowing, especially something like the television. Absolutely amazing. Or even medicine like the very first vaccine again absolutely amazing. I'm jealous and thankful of all these type of people.
What’s even crazier to me is how advanced this technology is for its size. A typical photocell for hobby electronics is about the size of your pinky nail. Smartphones cram OVER 36 MILLION of these into less than the space of a single hobby one. Like...what? How? It’s incredible.
Would you be able to explain how audio recording devices work? How is a machine able to capture the sound of someone's voice, and then is able to play it back out again?
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 01:04:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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ii9i · 2 points · Posted at 14:02:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:38:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah! I figured someone would pick this up which is why I specifically said:
If you were to plot the binary values on a graph against time
Somewhere between 4:00 and 4:30 in the video you linked (which I entirely agree with) he does show the stair step which is the digital waveform before it goes into the DAC for playback, which is literally just the binary values plotted on a graph against time.
A good DAC will have fancy filtering to smooth out the steps. If you look up reviews of the first Raspberry Pi you'll see they say the analogue audio output sucked, this was because the DAC was bad and the filtering inadequate so it wasn't capable of CD quality audio, newer models have improved in that area - I'm sure if you hooked a Pi 1 up to an oscilloscope and spectrum analyser it wouldn't look anything like what a proper DAC would do with the same input.
So you're right, the output of a good DAC isn't jagged, but I'm also right in that the raw binary data is jagged, we're just looking at different points in the digital to analogue conversion. Thanks for bringing it up!
My understanding is that it’s similar to light but with sound - a cone/magnet setup similar to a speaker (a microphone) picks up the intensity of sound waves and translates the peaks and valleys of the sound wave into numbers. The digital representation is determined by bit depth (similar to the sensitivity of light per pixel on a camera sensor - how accurate of a representation of the frequency at a given time is) and bit rate (how often it’s going to sample the value going into the microphone).
Any sound is the molecules in the air moving at a certain frequency. You can detect those frequencies with a thin membrane that moves like the air next to it. That thin membrane is linked to an electric system that will record at how it moves. This is how a microphone works.
You can also do it in the opposite direction: use the recorded electric signal to make the membrane move, creating vibrations in the air, creating sound. That's how speakers work.
ii9i · 1 points · Posted at 13:57:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm doing some major league simplifying here, but it might help you understand. Know that Hz stands for Hertz, which means the number of times something happens per second.
Sound is variations in air pressure that form waves. Microphones catch sound waves and turn them into waves of electricity, turning sound pressure variations into an electrical signal.
Now, you may see a graph of complex waveform and see how crazy it looks and wonder 'how in the world could computers could ever take enough measurements of that wave in order to reconstruct something that even comes close to it'?
Well, it turns out that there is this mind blowing mathematical theorem (the Nyquist-Shannon sampling theorem) that in digital audio allows for the perfect capture of waveform frequencies from zero at the low end up to half of the number of times you are sampling the waves per second at the high end. So if you know from testing humans that the limits of our hearing capabilities are 20Hz at the low end and 20,000Hz at the high end (as is the scientific consensus), then you only need to worry about capturing 0Hz to 20,000Hz; that is all you would need to care about for audio that is meant for humans to listen to. Mathematically, to perfectly capture all waves from 0Hz to 20,000Hz, you would only need to sample the signal 40,000 times per second (twice the highest frequency you care about capturing), and not beyond that.
However, in the real world there are benefits to recording at sample rates higher than twice the highest frequency you care about capturing. Recording at these higher sample rates (such at recording at 100,000 samples per second instead of 40,000 samples per second) actually doesn't capture the 0Hz to 20,000Hz frequency range any more accurately than recording at 40,000 samples per second does, because 40,000 samples per second already captures that frequency range perfectly. The benefit of recording at higher sample rates than 40,000 times per second is that it pushes this shitty thing that I haven't mentioned yet called aliasing safely away from the 0Hz to 20,000Hz frequency range that is going to be delivered to the humans. The aliasing is then only affecting higher frequencies than 20,000Hz that are going to be discarded anyways. This is not something you would need to "look for" when buying digital audio- it's a behind the scenes thing that has been standard recording practice for a long time.
By the way, I used 40,000 samples per second just as an easy-to understand example, because it's twice the highest frequency we can hear. In reality, CD quality digital audio was standardized at 44,100 samples per second, so a CD can produce frequencies from 0Hz to 22,050Hz.
There's also bit depth, which corresponds to the dynamic range of the audio. A higher bit depth will have a quieter base level of noise that is running throughout the audio. For example, CD quality digital audio was standardized at 44,100 samples per second and a bit depth of 16 bits. 16 bits equals about 96 decibels of dynamic range. Human hearing has a dynamic range at its absolute maximum of between 120-140 decibels. However, there's a method that can increase the percieved dynamic range of 16 bit CD quality audio to 120 decibels and e en a bit beyond. It involves recording at a higher bit rate such as 24 bits instead of at 16 bits, then adding a very special type of computer-generated noise called shaped dither to the audio, and then reducing the bit depth of the audio to 16 bits. This is another behind-the scenes thing that has been standard recording practice for a long time.
Vinyl records can initially hold frequencies higher than 22,050Hz, but they lose those frequencies each time the record is played, and the scientific consensus is that humans cannot hear those frequencies anyways. CD beats vinyl in all other technical categories. However, if you enjoy the inaccuacies of vinyl (as I sometimes do) as its own sort of "special effect" I totally get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perfection. sorry I'm broke.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sooooo witchcraft!? I’m just too stupid to understand how humans are so smart that we have pictures, videos, vocal recordings, telephones, computers. It’s al just beyond me but I’m grateful for those who understand it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So at work there is this certain purple color, that anytime I get an item that has it, the photos ALWAYS show it as blue. Drives me nuts! My idiot boss makes me spend an hour every dang time on the item because he thinks if I try every damn angle imaginable it's gonna show the purple color it is...... I explain to him no matter what I do it doesn't pick it up but it's like he thinks I'm lying!
I will say I’m not an expert on the field so this is totally my opinion:
I would say not in any meaningful way. I think the only benefit would be faster processing assuming you had only one sensor. Since most phone cameras are going to have to use 3 sensors to get a black and white image (they can’t use just one of the red/green/blue sensors because it would be biased towards one of those colors, you’d use all 3 and then make the combination result into a grayscale with software), you’re not going to have any benefit in speed on a smartphone.
A dedicated black and white camera wouldn’t be any better quality, since the sensor bit depth is really the limiting factor for quality. I’m not sure on the specifics for the light filters used for the color sensors, so maybe there would be some quality gain for not having to use a color filter in front of the sensor? I don’t think it would be anything notably better though.
red, green, and blue color sensors that store each pixel at a 10-bit depth,
I'm not sure if that's a typo, but most screens can only (hehe "only") display 8 bits of color depth, or 256 tones of RGB. I would be very interested to know if the majority of cameras are shooting in a larger color pallet and then processing away an order of magnitude of colors to save on filesize
I looked this up when I posted because I didn’t actually know the depth - it appears the iPhone 11 will take photos at a 10 bit depth according to this article. You’re right - most screens are going to be 8 bit color depth on RGB. It appears the 30 bit photography workflow is more of a “future proof” thing at the moment. Interesting!
Modern digital cameras work very roughly similarly to both solar cells and the transistors in your computer, so to understand them you need to get a little into transistors and materials engineering.
Like others mentioned, transistors generally behave like a switch, you put them in the middle of a wire and they allow a current to flow through them or not, but instead of being controlled by your hand like a light switch, it's controlled by another electrical signal.
We make them behave this way by building them out of materials that are semi conducting. Essentially on the atomic level, a conducting material like a metal has it's outer orbital electrons loosely connected to the nucleus, so when you apply a little electro magnetic force, the electrons will flow freely down the material. A non conducting or insulating material is the opposite. It's outer electrons will be very tightly bonded to the nucleus so a normal electromagnetic force can't seperate them or cause them to flow. A semi conducting material is inbetween. It's outer electrons are normally tightly bonded to the nucleus, but it's pretty tenuous. If you add a little more energy to the material, it's electrons will have enough energy to break free from the nucleus and start flowing along the material. So we make transistors out of semi-conducting material that is normally blocking current, but when another electrical signal adds a bit more energy at the right spot, it causes the electrons to break free and start conducting.
A digital camera sensor (or a solar panel) is essentially just a grid of millions of transistors, but each tuned so that when light hits them (as opposed to electricity), the light gives them just enough energy to start conducting. In the case of an image sensor, your computer can then take this grid of millions of signals, and represent them as a grid of millions of pixels which can then be stored and displayed.
Edit: You know what I find especially mind blowing about this? That $20 wired Microsoft optical mouse that came with your desktop in 2005 works exactly like this. It has a digital image sensor taking thousands of pictures of the surface below the mouse (the visible glow is essentially just a continuous flash), feeding those images to a processor within the mouse that then does image processing and comparison to eventually send out simple forward/back, left/right scroll information over the USB or PS/2 connection. I just find it crazy that there's that level of complexity and sophistication in such an unthought of commodity item.
Amazing! I started learning CNN last week and it has a step of converting images in this kind of matrix. Anyway it seemed very vague. Now it's much clearer.
elst3r · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras first started (in terms of something else capturing an image, not going into the physics of the pinhole and light) when people discovered this material that changed color when exposed to light. It got darker when more light was reflected from something. So they limited light endering the box with the film in there for a more crisp photo and then when you wanted to take a photo they would uncover the hole and the film would get dark where it was light making a negative. To make the photograph, you go into a dark room, put that light sensitive paper down and then shine a light behind the negative (after a chemical bath) making the proper coloration. Then chemical baths turn the paper not light sensitive anymore.
Take an empty box, poke a tinyish hole in the side and the another large hole to look through next to it. Take it into a dark room and turn your phones brightness up alot and put it in front of the tiny hole and look through the larger.hole. You should see the phones image upside down on the back.
Now, put a sheet coated in chemical that is sensitive to light in the box where the image forms and expose it to the phones image. That's the film.
I've built one shitty camera from scratch this way. Digital cameras dont have film but rather small electrical elements that you can think of as buckets, one for each pixel. More light in the bucket == brighter pixel.
Color can be handled a few different ways. You can put a filter in front to block all but red coming thru, then do it with green and then blue, then combine all 3 images. Digital cameras do this simultaneously with a Bayer pattern. Ita like a checkerboard of tiny red, green, and blue filters
There's three important parts: the shutter, the lens, and the sensor. Generally, in old film cameras, that sensor is just the film which gets burnt a certain way when it's hit by light. The lens focuses the light onto the sensor/film through the shutter. The shutter is a sheet with a hole that can change in size and it can open and close that hole at different speeds - it used to be just a bunch of springs and mechanical gears, nowadays it's electric motors.
If you poke a hole in a dark curtain, the light coming through that hole will project an image of the outside world onto your wall. This has been known for centuries. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camera_obscura)
The camera part comes in when a chemist notices that a compound that he made changed color when exposed to light.
From there they somehow got the idea to paint this chemical on some film and place it on the receiving end of a pinhole lens. And that's how we got the first photographs.
Film cameras work by exposing a light reactive substance(usually silver based) on a clear thin surface (often plastic film but can be glass) to create the base for a negative
This is then exposed to a stabilizing compound to make the film non reactive to light. Then you rinse and repeat a couple times before rinsing and drying in a dark area.
You then shine light through the developed negative onto a surface with a light reactive substance (any surface not just paper) for a set amount of time depending on what the composition is.
This is then placed in a developing agent, rinsed, stabilized, and rinsed before washing and drying.
Lenses transmit the image (high school level physics). Photosensitive material of any kind, be it chemical or digital, captures the differences in light and, voila, the image appears.
Excellent summary, but I still don't get it. I can't quite wrap my mind around how it all actually works. I understand individual parts of it but I can't get the whole picture in my mind about how the 1s and 0s actually starts it all off or how it fits together. I was working on a computer science degree and dropped out because despite learning different coding languages and producing working code I still just didn't get it, and because I couldn't understand the basic fundamentals I struggled to do any of it. I think maybe I don't fully understand algorithms, either. Maybe my brain isn't wired correctly to understand it all idk
No one can truly understand how it all works. Even just understanding how the BIOS chip interfaces with the Operating System takes a level of understanding that would be extremely valuable and is still nothing compared to every hardware outside of it.
This right here. Computers as a whole are so complex that no single person could ever know every single part of them.
You can basically divide the whole field of computers into two: hardware and software. Both of them can be further divided into more specific fields. Let's take software for example:
Low level stuff: Operating systems and drivers
Application layer: Web development (client/server side), desktop applications, mobile apps, game development
Networking: this further divides into the 7 layers of the OSI model
Then there's people who work on compilers, which are pieces of software that take high level languages and turn them into machine code. This is actually pretty close to hardware already.
And then there is the whole hardware field which consists of people working on CPU architectures, graphics cards and a lot more. Not getting into that but you get the idea, pretty frigging complex.
I have been forced, positively, into knowing a bunch about each of these components. It took 20 years, but it is wonderfully magic to know even deeper how these SHOULD work.
Okay interesting. Maybe it helps to think of everything as part of a single process
Let's say I have a file test.py containing only the line
print('hello world')
From the moment I run python3 test.py to the text showing up on my screen, could you give a basic run down of what happens in each of these single components?
Ok, let's try C or similar, a compiled language, rather than a scripting language that runs thru a binary process, one step removed. Just assume that a C program can be a program that executes python code.
So a C programmer writes "human readable code", which is compiled into machine understandable language. Before this, programmers would use assembly language, which C made easier to work with. Assembly can be burdensome.
This compiled machine code now has instructions for the CPU to do it's magic.
Some examples might look like
MOV EAX, [EBX] ; Move the 4 bytes in memory at the address contained in EBX into EAX
MOV [ESI+EAX], CL ;Move the contents of CL into the byte at address ESI+EAX
MOV DS, DX ; Move the contents of DX into segment register DS
Edit: not sure what the code states, but it might be as simple as provisioning memory for your variables, for example.
JG307 · 3 points · Posted at 23:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The CPU magic you reference is the part I'd like more explanation on. The examples you give, instructions for the CPU to execute, can you relate how it uses logic gates to perform these activities?
Ok, I'm going to explain this part as best as possible, using cute metaphors.
Let's just talk about your program, it's simple, you just ask the user for input, add the input, and output a result to the screen.
Just for the arithmetic part, let's discuss what the CPU does.
At the load of your program, the PC (program counter) and control unit of the CPU are notified by your main() equivalent.
The instruction you send are to set two int variables and add them. The PC (keeps the address of the next instructions you told the CPU to perform) will hand over an address to the control unit, which interprets the instructions. The CU tells the CPU "hey, add two and three". CPU says "cool, gonna send that to the ALU to do the work". The ALU can provide arithmetic (add 2+3) and your logic gates (is the mouse cheaper from Best Buy or Amazon). The ALU will send that result back, and the result will be placed in memory, disk or to the screen.
Now the next instructions come along, the PC has stored the address of that next instruction, and the cycle continues.
TL;DR: dude tells people where the drawer is to do the task at hand. Next dude takes the task instruction out of the drawer, asks the wizard where to complete the instruction.
Wizard tells dude of the man who adds, subtracts, multiplies, divides and also does AND OR XOR functions.
I also heard something a while ago about a thing on your motherboard that kind of combines hardware and software and that you can basicly brick your motherboard by destroying one part of it. So does this mean that when you combine these fields you get a "new" subject?
You might be thinking of the BIOS ( Basic Input/Output System). That's called firmware, and it's code that has direct control of hardware. It's called firmware because it's the interface between the hardware and software.
You can brick something in the BIOS if you corrupt it. Since the BIOS also has information on how to start your operating system.
If you want to know more, look into embedded engineering, or digital design.
Yes, thank you this was exactly wat I was talking about.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In fact, I'd say that the more you understand how it actually works, the more amazed you are that any of it works at all. Just the timing involved has to be so insanely precise, it's mind boggling how we could possibly get it to work at GHz+ speed.
You don't need to understand the internals of computer architecture to be a good programmer. You said you produced working code, what about writing code did you feel uncomfortable with?
The higher level of the programming language, the less you need to know how the computer actually works. Assembler or C++ programmer would definitely need to know, but a Java, C#, Python, JavaScript or a similar, not really.
Well assembly is self-explanatory but you don't need to know how a computer works for C++ - you can write at quite a high level. You don't even really need it for C but it'll certainly help you write better code.
I kind of feel the same way. I am also in the same boat. If someone asks me how computers work, I'd say "something about electrical signals". The internet? "Something about servers". But I can produce a truth table in Java so that's something.
yeh_ · 8 points · Posted at 21:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I get all the binaries and stuff but how does the computer understand it? How does it know how to multiply numbers? And that's only the basics
Okymyo · 10 points · Posted at 22:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Once you have the basic logic gates, you can build increasingly complex things.
One of the first steps is a half-adder: take two bits, and add them together. Just like when you do regular addition, if it goes over 9, or in the case of computers, over 1, you need to carry it forward. So, a half-adder outputs one value and one carry.
You can chain multiple half-adders to add multiple numbers, but that's not good enough, because if you add "01" and "11", the carry from "1+1" needs to be added to "0+1", so you need a full adder, which can do that.
A full adder takes in the two values to sum, AND the previous carry, and outputs one value and a carry. These you can chain, making a full adder for how many digits you want!
Subtracting is kinda addition but in reverse, in the sense that you have the result of the sum, and one of the parts of the sum, and you want to find the other part. So, you just kinda invert the logical steps in a full adder, and you get a full subtractor.
Multiplication may seem magic, but in reality, it's just a bunch of sums. Since you're in binary, you can do something very, very simple: if you're multiplying 101 and 111, in reality, you're doing 111*1 + 1110 * 0 + 11100 * 1. So you just go over one of the numbers (A), and for each bit, if it's 1, add the other number (B), and then you add another 0 at the end of B.
(There are some tricks where you use some full adders, some half adders)
Not sure if this was a good enough explanation, but it's essentially all building blocks! Once you have something, you build something slightly more powerful using what you had before. And it's building blocks all the way up.
The only reason you can read this message is because some very busy switches in your computer were flipping, which allowed them to build logical operations, which allowed addition/subtraction operations, which allowed multiplication operations, which allowed memory operations, which allowed conditional operations, which allowed...
yeh_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, I'm following, I got lost in the multiplication part but I get how adding works now.
I guess it's just hard to imagine the amount of those transistors for me to just wrap my head around how a monitor can even display a wallpaper and let you move your mouse. And let you write code for coding more stuff. Thanks for taking the time.
Okymyo · 5 points · Posted at 22:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yep it's massive, you can't comprehend it and neither can anyone. A modern CPU has billions of transistors, with high end desktop CPUs having about 10 billion, and high end server CPUs having about 40~50 billion. It's a truly astonishing number.
To go over multiplication in a longer fashion, when you're multiplying regular numbers, to do 123 * 456, you can do 3*456 + 20*456 + 100*456. However, you can also do 3*456+2*4560+1*45600, as you're just moving where the 10 wound up. However, this is base 10, so you haven't yet solved the problem, because to know how to do 2*4560 you need to multiply yet again.
When you do the same in computers, it's exactly the same, only difference being the base 2 rather than base 10. Which... also makes something interesting happen: since it's all 0s and 1s, you're either multiplying by 1 or by 0 at each step, which don't really require "multiplication" to do since they either make the number "disappear" or they keep it the same! So, to multiply 101 and 110, you do: 1*110 + 0*1100 + 1*11000. The 0s are exactly the same as from before, but with this, it all became sums, as it's 110 + 0 + 11000. And that is how computers multiply, by transforming the multiplication into a series of sums!
EDIT: The way computers are built is analogous to one of the core principles of software development: you need to learn how to break a problem into its parts. You can't go from transistors into multiplication, it's too complex. But you can realize that to multiply, you need to add. So first, let's figure out how to add. Oh, adding is hard, but wait, maybe we can break down addition into something simpler, like AND/OR/XOR, so let's figure out how to do logic. Logic? Oh, that's not so hard, here's how we do it! And now we can add, because we just use the logic gates! And now we can multiply, because we just use the adders!
This is a great explanation for integer multiplication but, if I remember right, everything gets a lot more complicated when you start looking at it from a floating point perspective, especially with extremely large values where the precision becomes an issue because of the way floating point is stored, at least in C.
Okymyo · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yuuuuuuup, floating point is a lot more complicated, because it goes from "it's a number but in base 2!" to representing numbers as (-1)S * M * 2E , with S being the sign, M being the mantissa, and E being the exponent. Which comes with the drawback that not all numbers can be perfectly represented as an integer times a power of 2, leading to precision issues.
There are workarounds (e.g. Decimal in Python), but they all rely on ditching floating point and implementing their own operations, operating instead over more complex objects.
One of the reasons CPUs and general purpose computing is so popular in general is that you don't need to design everything you just described at the transistor level.
For something like reading a mouse's position and displaying that on a screen you can "just" write that process in a sequence of instructions to perform addition, multiplication, moving, copying, and so on. The CPU simply blindly reads these instructions and that gives you the desired behaviour. You could implement those same instructions "in hardware" (with transistors) but it would take you far longer and cost far more and then it's utterly inflexible.
Once you've designed hardware to perform addition, multiplication and so on you can create additional logic to select between the different operations and then you have the first basic component of the modern CPU. The arithmetic logic unit.
Remember long addition and multiplication, where you had to 'carry' the 1 and such? Same shit, except 0-1 instead of 0-9. Physically, a voltage on a wire, above some threshold is interpreted as 1 and below some threshold is interpreted as 0.
As for what the numbers mean; the computer has lookup tables (each called an encoding) where it shows you the letter from the table, for any given number. Google for ascii table for a common lookup table.
It's all layers upon layers of abstraction, no one truly needs to understand 100%, but knowing a layer well (and a bit about the layer bellow that also tends to be useful) is more than enough you need for the day to day drive in whatever CS/software sub-field.
You'll never get it. Maybe have a look at this. He's pretty good a breaking down computer stuff to it's lowest levels. Have a look at the ones where he makes a graphics card.
Maybe also look at how transistors make logic gates. Then how logic gates can make a bit of memory. Then how logic gates can make a simple calculator style processing unit.
You'll never really understand this if it's not your profession. So don't worry about that.
I don't really get the how, I definitely don't understand why it works. Does anyone understand why it works?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
jtcuber435 gave an excellent explanation of what a functional computer is and what the parts do, but I'll try and expand and start getting into the next logical step, how software tells a computer what to do.
Taking the CPU as a whole, it carries out instructions that are submitted to it. As jtcuber435 mentioned, computers only understand binary, 1's and 0's. In order to tell a CPU what to do, we have to submit those instructions using binary, which is usually referred to as machine language. The instructions a CPU knows how to deal with are called an instructions set. So to tell a CPU to add 2 numbers together, we would submit the instruction for addition, then submit the 2 numbers to be added together, all in binary. It's actually more complicated than that, because at this low level when we are communicating directly with the hardware, we have to tell the CPU where and how to store the numbers, where to store the output, etc...
However, since only the most insane of programmers, or those working with very first computers, could tolerate programming a computer using machine language, assembly language was invented. This made it much easier for humans to work with computers and tell them what to do, but now that means we have code written by humans which can't be interpreted directly by the computer. To solve this problem, the assembly code had to be converted into machine language, which is typically called compiling the code.
Assembly language was a huge step forward, but still had major draw backs. For instance, to tell the CPU to add two numbers,you still had to be very careful about where you told it to store those values, or you might overwrite something else that was important in the computer's memory. So humans came up with other programming languages, like C, C++, Java, etc... which makes it much faster and less error prone for humans to write software, but at the expense of some efficiency when the code is executed.
These higher level languages have to be compiled to assembly language, then compiled to machine language. Typically, when we progress from machine language > assembly language > higher level languages, we call this abstraction. This lets us treat the computer like a black box, where the programmer doesn't have to know things like what an instruction set is, how to work with binary, how to write assembly language, or even any of the shit that I or jtcuber435 have already touched on. They just have to know the language and some basic programming concepts and suddenly they can do something with 1 line of code that would have taken a computer expect an entire day to accomplish on the first computers.
In the book - I'm not sure if it was an autobiography or a biography of Bill Gates - the author made a fantastic analogy for someone to understand how binary numbers, a basic language of zeros and ones work. (I've augmented the explanation)
Imagine I have one light bulb, and 8 switches to control the brightness.
The switch(es) turned on in different configuration raise the brightness.
Turn that right switch on or off, then the second to right switch on or off, and so on, light becomes brighter.
So, visually, let's see the light switches as 0s and 1s. 1 is the switch in the up position, 0 in the down position. I will indicate the number associated with each switch configuration, translated to the binary number equivalent of human readable.
64b switches on the bulb analogy would change the brightness steps, as a modern CPUs run in 64 bit configurations.
Ok, so why does this matter?
Let's take a keyboard. Very simple peripheral.
Each letter and symbol have a binary equivalent.
Examples:
A is 01000001
P is 01010000
A simple word processor will have spell check.
If you type a word incorrectly, the software will try to use it's "intelligence" with regards to similar patterns, as well as context of the sentence (very simplified explanation). Comparing at the CPU level looks at these 0s and 1s, compare and give out the results of one or more options for the user to choose.
Hope this makes sense. Edits coming I'm sure
PlG3 · 3 points · Posted at 23:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know less than the other guy, but let me try a different way.
In terms of the abstract design, any and every computer is made of three layers. Hardware at the bottom, Application layer at the top (all applications live here), and the OS layer in the middle, all stacked like this:
ApplicationLayer
OS Layer
Hardware Layer
There are two types of computers, specific-purpose (imagine a "computer" that is only a calculator), and general-purpose (what we call computers usually).
For a specific purpose computer, you have only one application running on the hardware, so you can skip layer 2. In a general-purpose computer, you have many applications that will try to share hardware resources, so you plug in the OS in the middle to manage/schedule access from apps in the app later to hardware that is basically shared between the apps.
I will assume single core processors for our dummy system, which are ancient. u/jtcuber435 already covered very important parts we need to know above, I am only adding to it.
Specific-Purpose Computer:
The hardware layer's main parts are:
CPU (processor),
Memory (RAM),
Storage (Hard Disk),
I/O (monitor, keyboard, etc) and
the BUS (a set of data lines, kinda like an information highway) that carries the data between each of them.
The processor's job is to execute instructions from a given location in RAM. The instructions to run are stored in RAM and executed sequentially until it encounters an instruction that tells it specifically to do something else like jump to a different location, or halt execution entirely. The data and instructions are both stored in the RAM at different places, and there is fundamentally no difference between them, except how your program is programmed to read it.
During the process of executing instructions, it may store few small pieces of data in registers built in to the processor. An imaginary instruction sequence can look like:
IN R1; # Get user input and store in register 1
IN R2; # Get another piece of data and store in R2
MULT R0, R1, R2; # Multiply R1 and R2 and store result in R0.
OUT R0; # Send result to output
Of course, these are stored in RAM in binary form, but that is too hard to read so we translate to "assembly language" (valid instructions are derived from the hardwiring, and is listed in the processor's Instruction Set Architecture [ISA] as provided by the manufacturer).
Add a few more of these (ADD, DIVIDE, etc.) and allow user input to select between them with a third "IN" statement, and we have ourselves a simple calculator app. Now you can put your app on the RAM, at the location it is set to start executing from when powered up, and we have a specific-purpose computer, that is a calculator. Yay!
General-Purpose Computer:
So now, imagine, as you play around with your new machine, you watch and analyze graphs that says how busy your system is. You notice that overwhelmingly, your resources are idle, since your usage of the app is so much slower than the speed of the machine. So you have an idea to add more apps, such that the machine will switch between the two real fast. So fast that to us dumb hoomans, it seems like they are running at the same time.
So you create a music player app. Now you have a calculator and a winamp. But how do you plug them in together?
First you put them both in RAM at different locations. But how do you initiate execution such that they both run? Well, you create an OS. You make it such that the OS runs in a loop forever until you press something pre-programmed to stop it.
Remember, it is also just another program (lines of code) that is sitting at a third location in RAM. But we make it such that after booting, the machine will start executing OS code, not wherever your apps are.
After the OS has run its initial code and is ready to run apps, it will use JUMP, and similar instructions to jump, to switch execution to another section of RAM to execute your winamp app. Lets it run for a millisecond, then interrupts it to let it JUMP to the calculator app. 1 ms later, it will jump back.
Now you still have a specific-purpose computer, but it runs two specific things. Lol. Multi-specific-purpose computer. Now you can do your multiplications while listening to Porcupine Tree, or w/e else you like listening to.
But now if you add enough code to your OS (to create shells/desktops, filesystems, etc), then you will be able to add new apps from within the system, juggle your apps alongside a bunch of other things and suddenly you find yourself using a proper computer.
Hopefully that explanation helped.
Now, the way I have put it, might make it seem like what makes it a general-purpose device is the stuff you add to the OS. Well, yes and no (more no than yes). It truly has to come from what is offered by the hardwiring and the ISA. Very smart people put in a lot of time to figure out exactly what kinds of problems are "computable", and what kind of logic circuits must go in to a device (aka what kind of instructions will be supported by the ISA) to make it capable (at a hardware level) of handling any general problem that is "computable".
Once you make such a device, you have the hardware for a general-purpose computer. Then you put in the OS with proper capabilities, and plug in that weird wire that seems to fit the slot on the wall and the slot on your device, and before you know it, you are surfing with kittens on YT. Happy surfing.
Funny enough, you can make a general purpose computer with 15 instructions (possibly 8 even, not sure about that). It will be a really slow one, but in theory it would handle any problem that a supercomputer could, as long as you give it enough RAM, storage and time. Google up the LC-3 if curious.
Check out Ben Eater on youtube, he builds almost all of the most basic computer components on breadboards, it's as close to the hardware as you can get. That way he walks you through step by step how each component takes just a high voltage and a low voltage (1 and 0) and makes it into something useful.
This is a good starter video where he builds a graphics card on breadboards.
Its because shit is so advanced now that its literally too difficult for one person to understand everything there is to know. Like, singular people dont understand all of chemistry, or all of physics, you have lots of people specialize in one field.
This video series really helped me out. This guy builds an 8-bit computer on a breadboard from basic components. It does a good job of showing you how an electrical signal can be stored and manipulated, which really helps to bridge that knowledge gap.
Kraggen · 27 points · Posted at 19:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s all familiar to me, but I get very lost in the transition from generating something simple like a number or letter to something intensive like a game or music files. It’s incredible that the computers can do all of that in practically real time.
Yeah, complicated things like operating systems, games, and other large things can get confusing when you try to think about how they run on the hardware level. I think about it in a layered way, from hardware and up. I talked a bit about how operating systems work in a different comment in this thread, and if you have any questions just ask.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it kind of like recursion in programming? Like I can pretty easily understand a recursive piece of code, and write a simple program, to, say, search a tree or a graph or something, because in reality it's often just a step or two, but I never understand the whole picture unless I write out every single step. Like I just try to think of it as "take this simple idea, now apply it 500 times."
I have a question if you don't mind answering. How does the electricity, the 1s and 0s, directly link to communicating with the computer, and doing all the stuff within the computer? I understand 1s and 0s and the gates end up basically being directions, but how are those interpreted on a physical level? How does the computer take in the electricity and know what it means?
well, I guess the way to say it would be that the computer doesn't know what the electricity means, it's just that the electricity reacts with these microscopic circuits in specific and predictable ways, such that they can be organized and then layered on top of one another to give a useful output
the weird mindfuckery about computers is that no single person understands the full hardware stack to the degree that they could ever reproduce one on their own. Someone could probably build a PC that would be equivalent to like, 70's processing power, just because those CPUs were so much less complex that you'd actually be able to understand and plot the circuits out as a single person.
I'm just a layman so I'm pulling all of this out of my ass really, but from reading about things every now and then the impression that I got was that different teams of computer scientists working for CPU manufacturers basically plot out the circuits in different sections of a CPU, and they use old circuit patterns to build off of, and then make like a unit of the CPU that can be fed an input in a sequence 1's and 0's, and then do something predictable based on that input, rendering out some other sequence of 1's and 0's. Then those electrical outputs get fed into other units on the CPU that are doing the same thing, but built and specialized by other teams of computer scientists working in tandem. And this process has basically been stacking in top of itself for decades to give us more efficient arrangements of these circuits and different types of processing nodes that can all be integrated together on a single CPU.
Alongside all of that is a bunch of brilliant math that can figure out what has to be done algorithmically to modify a number in a useful way, and then these computer scientists figure out how to represent the mathematical actions done in that algorithm in the form of a sequence of elecrical switches that they can build on a circuit board. Hence all the different specialized types of chips and different chip manufacturers, like there are companies that just make incredible chips for dealing with audio because all of their scientists have really good understandings of the math around audio and how to create an effective circuit to do things to audio signals.
It's all a great big arcane mathematical co-operative effort that's been building on itself for decades
Well, the computer doesn't actually understand the 1's or 0's, which are just a way for humans to think about something having voltage or no voltage, being on or off.
The gates are made up of transistors, or little switches, which allow power through if the voltage at the base is either on or off, depending on the type of transistor (NPN or PNP). You can look up some of the schematics for logic gates, and try to think about how those work.
If you want to learn more about actual transistors and why semiconductors act the way they do, try finding a youtube video because it's kind of hard to describe exactly how they work in words. It gets really into physics when you start learning in depth about how semiconductors work.
I’d like to answer the “how does the computer take in electricity and know what it means” part as this is probably the main part that I think most people don’t understand about how computers work. I am currently taking a class at my University (CS major) on computer organization, and the overarching theme of this class deals with exactly this. The specific topics we learn are how CPU’s are designed and process instructions, the interplay between the CPU cache and memory, and the meat of the class is on ISAs or instruction set architectures. ISAs are really the thing that if people knew were a thing, then they would understand how computers generally work.
Intel and AMD desktop and laptop processors use the x86 instruction set, and iPhones, Androids, and other low power devices use the ARM architecture, an ISA that you can use but have to pay royalties on. So to my main point, what these ISAs are are a set of instructions that a CPU built with the ISA in mind can recognize and compute. An example is the ADD instruction, that has many formats in true ARM, but for the sake of example may look like ADD 4 5 6. This instruction would add the numbers in the CPU register 4, register 5, and then put the result in register 6 (registers are special places in the CPU that store numbers, they are generally very small, about 32 in a modern processor, and are extremely fast to get data in and out of). This ADD instruction to the CPU is a 64 bit string of 1 and 0s (in the case of 64-bit ARM). And the CPU is specifically looking at several bits to see what instruction it is getting. There may be an ADD instruction, a LOAD instruction (to load a number from a certain memory location and put it into a certain register) and so on. Because an ARM CPU would be built from ARM, and ARM may specify that the bits 50-45 are the opcode bits denoting what kind of instruction it is, then the CPU would take a 64 bit instruction either from memory or the disk, look at bits 50-45, and see that its 01011, and for the sake of understanding let’s pretend this is the string of bits to denote the ADD instruction, and because it sees those bits in that location in the instruction, it would know that since it’s an ADD instruction, to look at specific locations in the 64 bit string for which parts may denote one of the registers to get one of the numbers to be added, another several bits will denote the other register, and some other bits will denote the register to put the final number in.
Feel free to ask me some specific questions because I know this is a dense and complicated answer, but this is probably five 90-minute lectures in my class that deals mostly with this concept, and ties it in with some actual circuit designs across many levels of abstraction.
TLDR: The reason computers know how to take in electricity and know what it means is because they are designed exactly to recognize certain strings of on and off switches and exactly where to send the electricity based off of certain on off switches. In other words, they are told exactly what to look for and what to do.
I think that this answer doesn't quite hit the crux of the matter. You mention computers "knowing" things, "sending" things, and "looking" for things. This implies that there's some fundamental part of the computer that has some agency, and IMO leads directly back to OP's original question: "How does the computer take in the electricity and know what it means?"
The missing clarity is that for the ADD instruction 01011 in your example, those 0's and 1's literally represent electricity that blocks off and opens pathways for other electricity to travel, and once that electricity gets to where it's going it blocks off and opens other pathways for other electricity to travel, and so on until electricity is present in register 6 in the exact configuration that represents the sum of the data in registers 4 and 5. There's no knowing, sending, or looking - it's all just electricity automatically opening and closing paths for other electricity in just the right way (because the electrical channels were constructed very carefully) so that we get the results we want.
I don't mean to rag on you at all, by the way. I think your answer was a good overview of some of the basics of computer architecture. But I don't think it quite pierced the abstraction that OP was looking to pierce.
I understand your criticism, and you're right, I did use the same terminology "knowing" and "sending" that the question was asking. I think your addition in saying that the 0s and 1s are electricity flow is helpful. The point of my answer is to say that the computer knows because the circuit is set up in such a way, and my example was there to illustrate how the computer is set up to "know" what to do for a certain instruction.
It's really mind-boggling to think about it this way. I takes a couple seconds to write this sentence, but in that time, a computer CPU has done literally trillions of addition, subtraction, asking for data, or recording data, and that's just the CPU. That's not the only operations happening. There are so many chips in a computer doing lots of stuff at the same time.
jmechy · 6 points · Posted at 20:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, this is probably the best possible way to understand how you get from binary to anything resembling real running code. Really helped me understand just how combining simple gates could possibly add up to a CPU
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 20:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a fantastic explanation, thank you!
I still don’t know how 1s and 0s mean I can run around in Diablo 3, but I love the way you described it. Like, how do the gates know what “1” even means or is in the first place?
they don't; 1's and 0's are just what humans use to make it easier to describe what's going on. What the transistor recognises is when there's a voltage on it (1) or no voltage (0)
Yes, and that's the problem with most of these explanations. You truly have to start from the very bottom in order to actually understand how all of this works, instead of saying something like "it's all 1s and 0s".
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These clarifications are really helpful. It helps me have a little more perspective when looking at binary and bits and bytes and whatnot.
Y’all rock
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for that link! I like visuals, so this was really helpful. And explaining doping is useful, too.
The gates don't really know what a 1 or 0 is. Think of them as boxes that have one or more light switches, and either lights up or turns off a light bulb depending on the position of the switches.
The way each gate works depends on it's intended function.
An "and" machine would have two switches, and would only turn on the light bulb if both switches are turned on. "This switch and that switch"
An "or" machine would have two switches, and would turn on the light bulb if either or both of the switches are turned on. (i.e. you have to turn off both switches to get the light bulb to turn off) "This switch or that switch, or both at the same time"
An "xor" (exclusive or) machine would have two switches, and would turn on the light bulb only if one switch or the other were turns on, but not both at the same time. "This switch or that switch, but not both at the same time"
A "not" gate would be like a light switch someone installed upside down. When you turned it off, the light would be on, when you turned it on, the light would go off.
As to the actual mechanics of how we make each switch work the way we want inside of the transistor? Not sure exactly.
As for video games, I don't think our brains can really quite "hold" a working model of how a modern computer operates, because it's capable of doing billions of things in one second, and it's the very complex organization of billions of these little switches and the software that controls them that ends up giving us a little virtual world to run around in. Ultimately, it does all break down to switches turning on and off to do simple math, which combined does more complicated math, which combined makes Diablo breath fire on your screen.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes more sense. I still have trouble wrapping my head around how on or off does that it does, billions of times a second or not.
Something funny is, my grandfather was on the Bell Labs team that developed transistors. I have a picture of him doing a Rockette kick line with Shockley, Bardeen, Brattain and a few others. It’s surreal. He was also on a team that reverse engineered a Nazi communication system using one German vacuum tube.
And I still prefer not to think about how it all works because my brain hurts.
Great explanation, but I (to clarify I'm not OP) get the most confused about how an operating system's code works. How does a computer "know" how to interpret the code of the OS? It's like there has to be a code written into the computer telling it how to interpret the coding language. Is it that simple, where some sort of instructions written in binary tells it how to interpret code? Because even that sounds incredibly complicated, knowing how to tell a computer what to do when it's told what to do.
Thanks, I'm glad you liked the explanation. Just remember all a CPU does is take an input and produce an output. The CPU isn't programmed to do anything, it has no long term storage. Everything it does is based on logic gates. So in a way, the CPU is programmed to execute binary using transistors.
All code must be converted to 1s and 0s so the CPU can understand it, this is achieved using a compiler. Operating systems are usually written in C and are stored on the disk as compiled code. The CPU can then just execute this line by line.
When you boot your computer, the BIOS (basic input output system) which is stored in a ROM (read only memory) chip, is run. The BIOS is just a set of instructions which are fed into the CPU on boot. It deals with initializing hardware (chipset, RAM, PCIe, etc.) and POST (power on self test). It does this using the instructions on the ROM chip.
Now that the hardware is initialized and ready to go, the BIOS looks for the MBR (master boot record) on the disk, then hands over control from BIOS to the bootloader code, which is stored on disk. The bootloader loads the kernel (the part of the OS closest to hardware), and from there the kernel executes the code on disk to load to a higher level of OS and eventually a graphical interface.
The hardware can't just immediately begin executing code, first it has to set things up layer by layer until it gets somewhere, but the CPU is always able to execute binary. How computers use software and hardware to boot is a really large subject, and if you want to learn more, crash course on youtube has a really good beginner playlist on computer science.
Very good and in-depth explanation, I do however love that the only initialism you didn't reveal was SATA. It really feels like they ran out of ideas with that one
I now understand more about computers and how they work than I ever have, or could have thought I would. I’m not tech savvy despite being in my 30s, and computers / smartphones / apps baffle me. Thank you. This is incredibly helpful
This is a loose analogy that I've used myself. Think of it like a person sitting at a desk doing work.
CPU - the decision making part of the brain (not the actual thought process, just the brain structure that makes it possible to think)
Software application - The actual thought process that's currently happening in that part of the brain
Memory - The papers on the desk that the person is currently working on. (You can get to them quickly)
Hard Drive/SSD - The papers filed away in the desk drawer. (Takes longer to find that you're looking for and pull it out to work on)
Video Card (GPU) - the part of the brain that interprets light into images in your mind. (Really, it's doing the opposite, because it's taking a representation of an image and turning it into light via the monitor!)
That's the hardware. The computer also needs software... The operating system. For example, Windows or Linux...
The operating system is what abstracts the raw hardware (memory, disks, processors) into an environment that can run programs. A bunch of them all at the same time, sharing memory, disks, processors but generally not stomping on each other. The OS let's you format a disk (which basically has a bunch of bytes) such that there are folders and files. You think a computer is doing "nothing" because you're not running a program (e g. Notepad). But underneath, the OS is running along with 50 or more services/programs that you generally don't even think about.
Bruh I can put together a PC but I still have no fucking idea what you just said
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a good explanation but it doesn't help me at all. Just creates more questions and makes me even more amazed that humans managed to figure this out.
_Joba_ · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you explain to me how someone coded the first code! Like there wasn’t code invented yet! I don’t understand how they told a computer what to do when they clicked on stuff on the monitor, and I mean like how they do it for the FIRST computer like this?
Watching the movie "the imitation game" might help! Shows the first sorts of "computer".
I can't do a good job of explaining, but machines used binary (the 1s and 0s, on or off). Code is basically used as a shortcut and translator for humans to instruct the 1s and 0s because otherwise the equivalent code would be billions of inputs long instead of a few hundred lines of code.
Look into the history of things like punch cards which may help your understanding of how input was translated into tasks for the computers, and look up the difference between assembly code (talks directly to the hardware) vs high level code (used to make applications) and it might help bridge the gap :) I'm sorry I couldn't do a better job of explaining!!
tinilk · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first computers in the 40s and 50s were basically enormous calculators. They didn't have keyboards or monitors. They used big tubes that look like lightbulbs instead of tiny transistors, so the programmers could actually walk over and see their program's 1s and 0s making their way through the machine as they lit up and turned off. They were so much simpler than the computers that came later, that the programmer could actually visualize how the whole machine worked when writing programs. Programming consisted of manually arranging the 1s and 0s beforehand, either with physical switches that the programmer would flip by hand, or later, stacks of paper "punch cards" that contained the program in the form of little holes in the cards to represent the 1s or 0s.
badken · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So, from the u/jtcuber435's description, you know that the CPU uses bits (internally, electrical signals) and switches (transistors) to take certain actions depending on the bits. After it takes the actions, it outputs another bunch of bits which are in turn interpreted by the rest of the system.
In very early computers the "programs" were input using a set of switches that represented the instructions to the CPU. A CPU interprets various patterns of bits as either instructions or data, one instruction might be "remember the next two pieces of data, treat them as numbers, and add them together."
A programmer would set up a group of physical switches as a binary number (just a group of bits represented by electrical signals meaning 1 or 0), press a physical button, and that binary number would be stored directly in the very small amount of available RAM (Random-Access Memory). When the entire "program" was entered, another button would start the CPU reading the RAM, interpreting the instructions and data, and its output would be represented as a set of lights on the front of the computer. The output would also be just a binary number represented by a series of lights.
Before long, things got more sophisticated. Card readers were invented. Rather than flipping switches on a panel, the programmer could use a machine that converted typing to binary punched on a card. The cards were just like index cards, only a bit longer, and the machine punched the holes in them. (Hence the term "punch cards".) They were read by light sensitive devices. A hole in a certain position represented a 1, no hole represented a 0. A stack of cards was fed to the computer, and it was able to read those and interpret them as instructions and data, and output the results on some sort of display or printer. Those output devices simply interpreted the output signals from the CPU as numbers and letters and presented them in a more human friendly way than a panel of lights.
Eventually computers were built with their own internal set of instructions — what would now be called ROM for Read-Only Memory, but it was very different originally. Those instructions allowed the CPU to interpret more complex input, for example, a programming language like FORTRAN. Still a simple language, but easier for humans to work with. The way that worked is that it would use the built-in instructions to convert the FORTRAN instructions on the punch cards into a set of binary instructions that could be directly used by the CPU. That process is called "compiling," and the instructions that perform it are the "compiler" program. It would store the binary output of the compiler in RAM, then run the binary code and send the results to an output device.
This is the way things were when I started working with computers. Funny thing was, it was a while before terminals became a thing, where you could type directly on a keyboard and view the results on a printer, and eventually a screen. With the earliest programming languages, you still had to type your program on punch cards and feed the punch cards to the computer!
DISCLAIMER: this is all from my own memories of working with early computers as a teenager, without consulting references, so some of the details might be a little off. The broad concepts of how the earliest programming worked is all there though.
_Joba_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow this was an excellent answer. I appreciate this info kind stranger that was fascinating to read and think about. We have come a long way.
I have wondered this for years... So basically the 1's and 0's are just a visual for us to better understand off and on for the computer? Hence why the run via binary code. It is really just a series of transistors(?) That are either off or on and the computer uses that specific series to dictate what its command is. Meaning opening up an application would just turn off some transitors and open up others?
At least for the processing aspect. Or does the GPU also work off of those transistors?
What helped me understand how computers work was looking at the schematics of logic gates and understanding how they work. All they are is a bunch of transistors with their bases, collectors, and emitters connected in a specific pattern.
When you open an application a lot of things happen, but the idea is the OS moves the program to RAM, then the CPU executes it line by line. There are a ton of other things that happen but thats the basic idea.
To cover your other question, GPUs also process data, just like CPUs. The difference is CPUs can do a couple very hard tasks, and GPUs are made to do thousands of tiny tasks at the same time. GPUs are also made of logic gates.
The GPU gets data from the CPU which tells it what to render. The GPU does a lot of math to turn the data outputted by the CPU into an output that we can understand. That includes video games, where the GPU uses 3d techniques to render each frame from CPU data.
GPUs can do other parallel tasks, not just outputting video data. One great example is mining cryptocurrency, GPUs are great at parallel cryptographic hashing, which is needed for bitcoin mining.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know a reasonable amount of compsci and have an okay understanding of computer architecture, but this is the best explanation I've ever seen. On average, there is more information per word here than there is in most other sources on the internet.
Phirk · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks mate for the answer i'll save it for summer, when i have time to read this
Thank you for taking the time to type that out. I learned a lot!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This a great explanation imo. I like to use the analogy of the board in the computer as a big city and talk about each component as different parts of the city to make it run
Krzd · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very nice explanation, one thing though, your description for an OR gate is an XOR (exclusive or, as OR Gates also output 1 if both inputs are 1).
This is a very indepth and well put together explanation but I think it needs a little bit of clarity in regards to the CPU & its caches.
In your description you say that the caches are used to store information used in calculations but they are actually a constant part of the pipeline itself.
When a program is loaded into main memory, the instructions are loaded into the CPU caches in batches, this way the CPU can effectively chain execute the instructions in the cache constantly without having to request main memory if needed. The caches also working as a hierarchy with the smallest and fastest typically being L1 and upwards as many levels as needed.
From your description it sounds like you are referring to registers, which the CPU use to store temporary information in calculations like carry bits and so on.
Source: wrote a few programs to simulate this during my Master's in computer science.
I mean it was meant to just be a summary of how computing works — you could argue that dozens of spots could have been elaborated on but imo he did a really good job of keeping it simple.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The quality of comments on reddit is really astonishing!
My problem with computers, hell, with any electronics is that knowing how they're supposed to work, and the fact that they work that way most of the time doesn't make me feel better when they don't work some of the time.
Six times out of ten, double clicking on an icon will open the program in question. That's great. That's what it is supposed to do. But then there is that other 40% of the time. Not only does it not open the program in question. It doesn't even fail consistently. When it fails, it will sometimes simply not work, other times it will open the wrong program. Others, it will cause my entire device to hang forever until I have to replace it with a brand new one.
If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. What is it called when you do the same thing over and over again expecting the same result but getting different and unpredictable results instead?
A lot of time that happens because the computer is working on something else and misses the input.
Imagine you have a microcontroller that turns on a light when you push a button. You would expect that to work every time because it's such a simple task that it would be nearly impossible to mess up. Now imagine that the programmer adds in a secondary function that doesn't do anything visible, but it takes a little bit of time (this is known as a blocking function because it blocks other actions from happening). Now if you press the button while the second function is running, nothing will happen because the computer was busy doing something else.
The same thing can happen with a computer, especially since it runs code developed on different machines by lots of different people with different goals in mind. If a background process gets into a weird state and keeps control of the computer for too long it's possible to miss things
It doesn't just happen at home. It happens everyplace I go, hotels, businesses, stores. If I walk into a building, electronics in that building will start behaving in ways that don't make sense.
If someone is using their phone around me, their phone stops working right.
That was great. What are your thoughts on quantum logic gates. I started reading about them but got hung up with a logic gate containing the square root of -1.
Not the OP, but I actually get this this part. I accept the logic of binary computation. What I cannot quite fathom is how all of this is abstracted to mid-high level programming languages humans can grasp, and further abstracted into programs the average person can use daily with little understanding.
It's how millions of On/Off switches let me waste hours of my day on Reddit that I just don't understand!
If computers are, at their simplest, turning electricity on and off, then we're harnessing the natural forces of life in a way that video games are actual universes.
The fundamentals of computing did not make sense to me until I took a class (as part of a CS degree) designing basic circuits from logic gates. Once we built an adder and started stringing them together, then it was much easier to see how complex logic could be built from these fundamental electrical thingies.
I remember when I was like 10, I loved programming and electrical engineering, and I would play around with transistors and discrete components. I built a 4 bit adder using only transistors. That really helped me understand the complexity of computers, and also how simple the principle is.
oOmus · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add to this- the very, very basic levels of a computer -like how does something “know” a language like binary or machine language is because of patterns exhibited by the material components of hardware. All the higher level stuff is fascinating, but it’s also cool to think of lightning being channeled through valleys of rare earth elements, and the predictable behavior of those miraculous events to be exploited, layered atop one another, and blam- pornography.
I kinda get this, but absolutely cannot understand how and where software and hardware join. Sure, you can make a binary AND gate in the CPU with transistors, but how do you program the computer to do things? How can you change what the electricity does to such a great degree?
Correct me if I'm misinterpreting, but ill answer "how does the CPU know how to run the program I write?"
The answer is compilers or interpreters, which are software to translate from a rich language like C# to machine code (byte code) which the CPU can understand directly. Compilers prepare the programs for the CPU so when you want to use it, the CPU knows what to do. These programs are at the absolute most basic level, very very complicated pattern matchers.
As an example let's say your program could square numbers, but your calculator can only understand multiplication. To translate it you would go through your program and everytime you see the pattern "x2" you replace it with "x*x"
Great explanation. I'm being a bit nitpicky here but the actual fastest place to store data is in a register, say RAX. Accessing these is blindingly fast compared to RAM or even Cache.
I've studied computers for years, I understand how all of this works really, and you know what? The shit is STILL somehow black magic to me. Everything we're able to do on these things, all technically just little pulses of electricity.
I couldn’t give you an award for your comment for some reason. So I gave it to your bento box post. Thanks for this, it’s amazing. You should create a simplified explanation video on YouTube.
96imok · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After the second paragraph my brain started to get jumbled but you reminded me of something. People can make computers in Minecraft that do lots of different kinds of things since the redstone mechanic follow the same 1 0 principle. In fallout 4 they also added a 1 0 connectors and they even added logic gates, I have yet to see anyone make a computer that plays doom inside of fallout 4
Ok, I generally understand how data storage and indexing works and how the thransistors and logic gates work and how all these things combine to make the cpu and ram and disk and how these things are utilized to perform any task the computer needs. I get how once the OS and BIOS code are running they can tell the cpu where to fetch any set of instructions needed to get everything doing what it's supposed to. What's still wizardry to me is how the act of me pressing the power button starts the execution of the first instruction in the OS and/or BIOS and get everything started. Is anyone able to explain that?
Also, before operating systems were a thing, how were early computers given instructions at all? How did we first go from having to physically rewire transistors to make different calculations to having machine code so that we could just type instructions into a keyboard? When did something resemling assembly language first come about and how did they get computers to run it. Same question for the next higher level of languages like C? What I really need to do to satisfy my curiosity is just read up on the history of computing. Does anyone know a good book or website for me to do that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's cool and all, but the real confusing thing is how do transistors work. How does an electrical impulse turn a switch on or off, and what controls the electrical impulse length and duration.
It still amazes me. Regardless of how you explain it to me, I still won't get it but I am still amazed at how we are able to control electricity to a certain extend.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a simple browser game where you build a basic 16-bit computer from scratch (literally from a single NAND gate). Give it a try, it's great for understanding the inner workings of a computer.
NAND stands for not and. It's the inversion of an AND logic gate. An AND gate has aa number of inputs, if they are ALL set to the binary state 1 (representing electricity at a specific voltage) the the output of the AND gate will be one (outputting a specific voltage representing 1). With that in mind, take the result of an AND gate operation based on the inputs to the NAND gate and then invert the result (1->0 or 0->1), that'll give you the NAND gate's result. Look up the NAND gate truth table on google for clarification if you want.
If you were to look into it you could probably understand it. I don't, but in relevant courses at school a little time ago, I mostly did understand how early computers worked from transistors on up. It's mostly just lots and lots of logic gates arranged properly to do the things you probably intuitively kind of understand computers need to do to move bits around.
Yeah once you get down to it, it's not very hard. Cover transistors, logic gates, and a basic math unit and you've got everything you need to conceptually understand the rest of the computer, there's just unfathomably more layers of complexity built on top of those concepts. Honestly the biggest mind fuck is just realizing how insane it is to design machines made of billions of parts.
Want to blow your mind, think of a modern CPU with billions of transistors all doing their thing perfectly. But all it takes is ONE transistor to not be right and the whole thing can completely fail.
FYI, Years ago I worked on a dual core processor design for DSL modems. One guy on the team of several dozen engineers read the specification wrong and inverted a bit, just one bit, which caused the entire chip to fail. (He designed the reset logic and had inverted the internal reset so that none of the blocks that others created would come out of reset). It was an easy fix, but cost us 3 months and ¼ of a million dollars to spin the silicon.... so they promoted him to manager. /sigh. BTW, that was the only major bug in the entire design.
EDIT. I started my career about 10 years after this, been working at bleeding edge startups for the last 30 years, doing all types of things to get a jump on competitors and come on ahead. Unfortunately for me, I never was in the winning company, but still required a lot of crazy hours of work and energy. This book sounds a lot like my life. I'm finally taking a job that isn't fast paced and isn't the low level design, but working leading a team and to be more meticulous about the implementation. I feel like this will be my opus, a job that will define my career as I wind down my life. I hope, I start in a week and a half, I hope it is all worth it.
Pr3fix · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not disagreeing with you, but it was my understanding that modern computers use parity checks to validate memory. Does the memory on a CPU not have a way to be validated?
For example, I could have sworn NASA uses some method to ensure that their memory and CPU are perfectly functional even if a cosmic ray randomly flips a single bit.
Yeah, I think people kind of understand how code works, and at least in the abstract sense that you‘d be able to code an operating system. So all you really need to do is explain how to make a machine that runs assembly code, and the rest follows.
There is a great series of videos on crash course regarding this. Just be prepared to think of computers as giant supercomplex calculators instead of touchscreens or operating systems.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anyone wants to understand how a computer works, I cannot recommend this video series highly enough. They start with how a transistor works (general overview, no math), explain how transistors can be grouped to perform basic tasks, explain how small groups can be grouped to perform complex tasks, on and on until you have the whole computer.
The only thing that blew my mind more than the explanations was just how accessible it is to the layman.
Yes! Ben's videos are amazingly comprehensive. The one caveat is that you need a basic understanding of electronics to get through them. If you know Ohm's law and what switches, resistors, capacitors, diodes, and transistors are that should be enough.
This is exactly what happened to me. After I had made it through my 2 inch thick computer architecture text book I understood the logic, clocks, cache, cycle allocation to processes, threads, memory abstraction, instruction sets and how all the layers fit together. Years later I can explain what generally how those all work but the grand vision of understanding started to unweave after that class.
neos7m · 6 points · Posted at 19:31:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A college CS teacher once explained to us how processors worked, over the course of a couple of week, starting off with a transistor, building logic gates (AND, OR, XOR, NOT...), then a half adder, a full adder and an ALU. Then he introduced a clock and went on explaining latches, flip-flops and such, until he could make a basic memory circuit for storing instructions. From there it's very easy to build an actual working processor, and once you understand how a processor works, all you have to do is keep adding more and more abstractions to understand basically everything of how a computer works.
I'm pretty sure you could find some good courses about this on the web. For me, the key in understanding the whole processor was realizing how clock circuits worked and how instructions were stored and read. From there it's smooth sailing.
Joe Rogan has a great bit that is basically, "If I sent you into the woods with all the natural resources you asked for...How long would it take you to send an email?"
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ask for a tree that grows smart phones.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Realistically, a single human would not be able to do this in their lifetime. It would require huge amounts of knowledge and practical ability from basically every domain, an awful lot of work, and levels of precision that advanced technologies are required to even get to.
Same, but last year I had a class about it and I can now die in peace.
At the end we sent instructions to the processor and manipulated the different registers by hand, all I can say is that you must do it by hand to understand it. Like you can't learn to program without programing.
My bachelor's is in computer engineering, and I didn't truly get it until my third year of college.
fflip8 · 3 points · Posted at 22:29:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar to your brain. Just thousands of times less powerful and less efficient.
Just millions of little switches in a tiny box (processor) that either say yes or no. On it's own, they don't really do anything, but when paired with storage (like a solid state drive), along with code (like a program or operating system) on the storage device that knows how to control the switches in a way that produces new code/etc.
Your computer does math. People figured out how to make it do so much math that eventually you can see a visual display and control everything with clicks and taps.
Literally went into electrical engineering just because the technology the world revolves around felt like black magic. Now that I know how it works, it still feels like black magic 😋 but at least I sort of understand it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A computer is like a pyramid at Giza. Lots of small simple pieces put together.
you can read all the comments explaining each part and still not completely understand how a computer works lol. its like a space ship, there are a thousand moving parts and each part has a team of specialists who work on them. even working in tech i cant say that i understand how every part of a computer works.
If you'd like to spend some time or are interested, there's a channel on youtube called Crash Course that does a bottom-up explanation of how computers work. Playlist is here. They do a lot of other series too. They're very to the point but explain with animations and such to help with comprehension.
Edit: Saw some other people linking Ben Eater content below. He's a great resource as well, if a lot more technical, building a CPU on a breadboard and such.
I had an instructor once explain to the class that even if given all of the raw materials to make a pencil, he would have no idea how to actually construct them in a way that would make them work as perfectly as a normal pencil, none the less if he was given the raw materials to construct a computer it would probably have even less value because with the raw materials for a pencil you could probably still use them to scratch out communications, but with the material to make a computer he probably couldn't even do that
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s why we have specialization.
You don’t really have to, I mean some understanding helps, and Im sure you understand it more than most people, but like you said, probably not completely
And anyone who’s not in that field that thinks they do probably just don’t know enough to know they dont
If you spent long enough to reach that level then well, you’d probably not have spent enough time on the important skills for your field
There's a really fascinating book called "Code" that starts you at "this is how an electromagnet works" and then the telegraph, then magnetic relays, then transistors, and takes you all the way to "this is how assembly language and then every other computer language works."
It's intended for the layman, but only the layman that would find that fascinating. It's not at all trying to make sure you can pass a test about it when you're done, just trying to share the really interesting parts of how we got to the microprocessor.
My favorite part is that the very first advance, the magnetic relay, was born of a lazy telegraph operator trying to avoid doing work that bored him.
Olde94 · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have been linked a lot but many of them are technical.
The best version i have seen is this using domino bricks faling over
You know how by moving beads on an abacus, people can do math? A “CPU” basically just that, but instead of beads they’re electrons.
And people have managed to get these electrons to do math really really really fast. Based on what kinds of numbers the CPU calculates and what instructions you feed it (which are also in the form of numbers), you can get it to do some wacky stuff, like solve really complex science stuff or play solitaire.
Even though people nowadays can program with words and stuff, it all gets compiled down to simple numbers and instructions in the end.
Here's a very simple explanation of the core of what a computer is at a 5 year old level that probably leads to more questions:
Computers ask yes/no questions over and over again until they get the right response. If they ask a question and don't get the right response they change one of the yeses or noes and tries again. Then repeat ad infinitum until an answer is correct.
As it turns out you can find the solutions of the universe by asking yes/no questions. You can count (binary) and do math just like normal as long as you know how to translate it into terms people understand. It's really remarkable and the specifics are way beyond me, but you can learn more of the fundamentals by learning formal logic (mostly Boolean logic) and the specific applications can be learned in courses like Digital Logic and Design (DLD) at many technical schools.
ydieb · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I've literally built a transistor out of batteries and a light bulb, and I still can't wrap my mind around how millions of these things translate my banging on the keyboard into showing me someone's account in active directory.
Shit man, we were talking about how Windows was too complex for any one developer to fully understand back in the 90s
An interesting little java game is something called “NAND game”, it’s a play on the concept that you can technically strand together a series of inputs and NAND logic gates to make a functional computer.
You may need to brute force some solutions (and finding the optimal solution is always rewarding) but it will give you a fundamental understanding of how 1s and 0s (or true and false logic) are turned into complex computing systems including things like clock ticks and ram.
It’s pretty fun, recently went through the game again and built everything possible out of just NAND gates, kinda wanna build a binary calculator with a memory function out of just NAND gates as a proof of concept
Yeah. Would love to understand how putting electricity (another conundrum) into a box creates Elite Dangerous or Doom Eternal on the screen! ELI5! :)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally same tho. I like coding well enough, and I’m working towards a computer engineering degree, but ask me what a server is or how Wi-Fi works? You’re gonna have a bad time
Don't feel bad that you don't know how it works, even though your job revolves around one. Say you're a pizza delivery guy. You use the car to drive food around to people. You don't care what's inside the car, it should only be powerful enough to get you from A to B, preferably also with good gas mileage.
Then you have the professional driver, who race F1. Then you would, of course, be interested in what your cars inside look like. What kind of specs it has, and how you can optimise the car to perform better to your advantage. You may know what a turbo does, and which brand is better than the other, but not how it is engineered (I don't actually know if turbos have different brands, I'm not that into cars)
That can be transferred to a tech-job. Maybe your job is just to use the computer as a pizza delivery guy to do your job (with the software). Of course you know the specs - You want a big enough HDD/SSD, just like you want a big enough trunk to store food in. You don't care how the trunk is engineered, and what the insides are structurally made of. I'm not trying to explain it like you're five, so I apologise if it sounds so, but I'm just trying to point out that there's nothing wrong with not knowing or caring how your computers inner workings actually work, because there's no reason to.
Look at Ben Eater's channel on YouTube. He builds a 1970's technology level computer from scratch using bread boards and simple logic gates. I was able to build along with him from how clear he's able to explain everything and that's with very little electronics experience. You can just watch along and learn a ton
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its hard to get your head around it all together but its easier if you think of it in layers.
He creates a 6502 processor (probably about as old as you are) completely out of pretty low level components, and explains what each does before using it.
Read "Code: The hidden language of computer hardware and software "
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody really understands, it is too complicated. You get some answers starting with "transistors act like switches" and ending with "and if you have nand, you can represent anything." The physics of "transistors act like switches" is a college course (with plenty of prerequisites), and why modern transistors can still act like switches despite physics conspiring to drive researchers insane is a graduate degree.
Going from nand to a simple in-order processor (where memory and storage are abstracted away as basically magic) is a college course. A modern processor is too complicated for anybody to understand. People with years of experience in industry understand their specific component reasonably well.
Bruh, I've studied CS and there's still stuff I don't know about the inner workings. The complexity of computers is actually hilariously high, when you take in consideration that it's based on altering between true and false (or ones and zeroes).
I used to build and repair PCs, and have built several of my own. But I have no clue HOW they work, just how to assemble them and install software. I understand fully what each part does, and how binary works and all that, I just don't understand how that translates into playing Peggle or watching porn or posting on Reddit.
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This Crash course Computer Science was like the best thing I ever watched, so great to finally understand computers. It's still crazy to me that all of this software works in unison without just jamming up the minute you turn it on as all these processes try to work together.
See, I understand this. I do. But like, when I actually look at these electronics that do what they do?
I think to myself, “fucking black magickery, this.”
It’s amazing. Fascinating how things work.
I fly airplanes for a living, I know how things work, how aerodynamics work, but when I gaze upon how these things are flying in the air, how all the little parts inside of it work?
I can’t help but think to myself, “this is some black magic shit going on in here.”
It really is an amazing era of technology we are living in.
I just wanna say as some one who works with professional drivers, they most certainly do not know the inner workings of engines.... not saying all do but majority do not.
I really want to share this in the hopes someone enjoys it as much as I did. This lecture from Richard Feynman is one coolest things I've ever seen. Very easy to understand and enjoyable.
He has a fantastic description of an office file clerk that gets replaced with slightly dumber yet much faster file clerks until he basically ends up with the concept of a computer.
Additionally for me, how the recycle bin works. I've read about it and what not, but it still boggles my mind. Like it makes sense that you can't just have something vanish, but to think that once you empty the recycle bin, you get all your mb/GB back even though it's still lingering around on the computer.
I work at a place where they doe research and development for microchips. There are a couple of areas:
Lithography: here they shine a light on a layer of the chip. Some parts are lit and others not. The lit parts bind the layer with the silicium wafer on which the chips are made while the other layers won't the parts that don't bind are usually lines that will later be filled to create connections.
Etching: you bombard the wafer with gasses that react to the parts where the layer is not bound to the wafer while leaving the rest alone. This creates groover where the previously mentioned lines were (we call them tenches)
Plating and polishing: they apply a layer of material (for example copper) over the whole wafer and polish the excess so that it's only in the trenches. These are the connections on the chip.
They can also do the processes above with an isolating layer so that the connections don't interfere
Ovens: they "bake" the wafer to make these connections more permanent. This area usually also contains cleaning where they can remove residue or particles that get created during the steps above and is pretty much just washing it with a fluid like deionised water or isopropanol.
So a microchip is pretty much a maze of connections that you can replicate on a big scale by substituting the filled in trenches with cables.
There is a bit more to it, but this is the best way I can explain it without going too deep into it and to be honest, there is not THAT much more to it. It's just connections.
But then you send electricity through it and magic happens and suddenly you created something that can put people on the moon.
I love and hate that it's that simple and yet so complicated at the same time. I'll never understand how computers work, and I'm (a very small) part of the people who do it on the most basic level. It's weird.
If I made any mistakes or anyone has a question, feel free to correct/ask. Can't promise I'll know the answer though. That shit is wack!
And this is the real reason that Bill Gates deserves every penny he has. He basically created a world where you can effectively use your computer without understanding all that "magic".
You should watch SciShow Computer Science on Youtube! I am not tech savvy but my software engineer partner was watching it and it was extremely accessible and interesting and now I get it way more.
--who · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read “But How Do It Know?”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arduino is your answer. Get it from amazon and follow the tutorials.
Caydo · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd recommend PBS' crash course on computer science. They do a good job of explaining as they go and building up concepts in an easy-to-understand sort of process.
I've been playing with computers inside and out, built my first when I was 10 buying parts second hand out of a newspaper with my dads help. Worked in IT a dozen years, architecting IT Solutions weekly.
If you think I can tell you how a bit of silicone can move its switches, that allow some kid to make a gif on the internet, you're very wrong. How a big of hardware gets a voltage on a copper wire and processes it and passes it on to another network device? I know switching and routing but I don't get the processor at all. I know operating systems and virtualization. I can even blunder through programming. But computers have so many layers each so complex that each layer requires its own degree.
What I'm saying is, there are probably only a few people if any that fully understand the whole thing from electricity to user experience. But few programmers know machine code. Few server administrators know programming. Few network engineers know virtualization (but you'll probably find everyone knows two or three bits of the puzzle). So don't feel bad. But it's never too late to pick it up. The thing with humans is we often work off really simple ideas, and then just layer about 1000 simple ideas together. So it typically isn't too hard to learn little by little. The problem is there's probably not enough time in our lifetime to get it all in our head.
PlG3 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you got time and money, double major in Electrical and Computer Engineering, and don't drop out like I did. That should solve your problem.
I understand the parts that you asked about, but it is too much for a Reddit comment. I understand processors and chip design and transistors (at the undergrad level) but still struggle with switching and routing and basically everything networking. And I could not build a desktop from ebay parts to save my life. Fucking lol
I've tried watching crash course's playlist on computer science. They explain all of this but I just can't wrap my head around it. It's levels of abstraction on top.of levels of abstraction. I literally can't understand how it physically works and how they are built.
Since I see you already have Ben Eater, I’ll suggest someone who is less known, but made some interesting improvements to his 8-bit computer: James Bates.
Traffic. You sit on the high way driving 3mph thinking “Hmm must be a wreck ahead” then you get clear of the traffic and there was never any clear reason or cause for the traffic.
Exactly. If you stop 3 seconds to change your way, the next one has to stop that and a little bit more, until it becomes a chain and the last one waits for a whole hour.
Well that's part of it yes. The other part is just there are too many cars that entry and exit points can't handle the volume of cars. Usually there's a light after an exit to a freeway. Normally a light cycle can handle X amount of cars to pass. But when you have X times 2 or 4 or whatever and then bottlenecks occur.
at1445 · 68 points · Posted at 21:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is almost always it. The ingress/egress to the highways is where the bottlenecks are almost always caused.
Just normal "switching lanes" isn't slowing you down to a standstill. But that guy trying to enter going 45 when he should be 75 is.
[deleted] · 37 points · Posted at 22:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The accordion effect can happen everywhere, but on ramps and off ramps are literally everywhere and do require lane changes. The accordion effect caused by those ramps is far more than just a random car sowing down
I saw an animation explaining it and it was so interesting! I remember it basically said that everyone slows down more than they need to, sometimes coming to a full stop, which causes the person behind to also slow down. When those behind you slow down, they also over compensate and slow down too much.
The issue would be solved if we were able to know how much we needed to slow or something similar (e.g. self driving cars communicating with each other so they can just drive and not slow down more than necessary).
Npf6 · 20 points · Posted at 21:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tailgating is something that I don’t understand. Why does anyone drive like that? How is it comfortable to be perpetually one squirrel in the road away from disaster?
I think some people literally don't have enough awareness to understand how pointless tailgating is. They just go until they can't go anymore without hitting the person in front of them. And then they just tailgate. Zero foresight into how reckless it can be and how it doesn't really get them where they want to go any faster.
You’re just causing more problems by even getting to their level. Keep your speed, if you can just get over and let the ass shat pass. You’re not the speed police.
Idgaf what speed anyone drives, they can pass (of course in the circumstances I am talking about traffic is heavy and moving the same speed in all lanes) but tailgating me is not the solution.
A busy intersection in a world of self-driving cars would be insane to witness. Cars just passing each other in the nick of time inches apart would make me clench my fists and grit my teeth
In my experience, it's best to allow for more distance between you and the vehicle in front of you and to coast along when when you see people tapping their brakes. If done well, there will be enough space for you to adjust speed without using your brakes.
The idea is to keep everyone moving forward. Sudden breaking causes traffic jams.
So true. A few months back someone posted on Reddit a traffic simulator with all different parameters such as speed, how often people switch lanes, how many trucks, etc... I played around with it a lot and found that #1 thing that causes traffic more than anything else; acceleration. If people react and accelerate quickly (either positive or negative) to changes in the traffic, it does help the flow tremendously.
So when you're stuck in traffic and things are starting to move and you see that car that isn't speeding up like everyone else (maybe 20 car lengths in front of them now); they are the ones causing problems. If a light turns green, accelerate through it rapidly (not floor it) and safely; don't slowly creep forward and speed up. It causes problems. When the car in front of you starts moving at a light, you should already be starting your acceleration; not waiting for them to create space first. Hint, watch the car in front of the car in front of you for better timing. But most importantly, pay attention!
The problem is you're dealing with a simulator. In practice, those quick accelerations and decelerations cause more problems because people's reaction times, brake conditions, acceleration ability, etc., are wildly variable.
In practice, especially in a bumper-to-bumper jam on the interstate, you want the car in front of you to have a long lead time and some open space. Then you want to accelerate moderately to a speed you can maintain for at least 30 seconds, even if it's only 10mph. Stopping and starting, no matter how efficiently you do it, just causes more hiccups in the chain behind you.
If you can stop the wanker behind you getting pissed that you're "not going fast enough" and just go slowly and steadily minimizing the stops and starts, you can greatly help a traffic jam with minimal effort.
And people tend to decelerate at a much higher rate than the accelerate, so once they brake really hard and take forever to recover their speed
They slam on their brakes every time they see brake lights in front of them, then mosey back up to the speed limit. It compounds with each car, and then you have the phenomenon of rubber-banding
An experiment was conducted where a few good drivers were told to drive at a constant speed around a circular road without changing any lanes.
Yet there were traffic congestions on that circular road.
Traffic congestions are caused even in an ideal scenario such as one described above because humans are incapable of accelerating, breaking and also cruising in 100% coordination with the neighbouring traffic.
This uncoordinated breaking and acceleration along with lane changes starts the snowball effect.
Does the gap left in your original lane get filled in? Yes, moving traffic in that lane forward. Now as you move into a new lane, someone ahead moves out essentially making up for your move. Not to say there is no effect from lane changing, but the real slow down where there are no accidents, lane closures or reductions, is from a larger volume of vehicles entering the highway than exiting.
Picture a line of cars stopped at a red light. When the light turns green, they don't all start moving at once. Each car only starts moving when the car in front has already moved, maybe a delay of two or three seconds per car, but that builds up when it's a huge traffic stoppage.
Jenbu · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes slowing down is the main culprit. Touching your brakes unnecessarily is probably one of the worst things you can do on a busy highway.
The more abrupt a slowdown, the more it snowballs. Tailgaters and assholes who cut others off are by far the worst, most pervasive, and most avoidable causes of traffic jams.
This is why I leave a cushion between me and the next car! You actively break up traffic and everyone goes faster if you leave just a few car lengths. Yeah, cars will come in, so I let off a little bit and get mu cushion back. Doesn't work crazy well in the middle of the city, but highways definitely!
xanticx · 1508 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a vicious cycle of tailgating and braking suddenly. Along with lane changes as other comment said. I've noticed that when I leave huge gaps, drive slowly to avoid braking if possible, I can cruise at 10mph thru traffic almost never stopping. If everyone did that I think traffic would be greatly reduced. Regrettably most people suck.
Yep. Or honk at you for not driving closer. I can't go faster than the car in front of me dude.
E06SP · 27 points · Posted at 22:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's when you keep singing to your music without giving a fuck :}
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 02:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This kills me. It removes all hope I have in people's intelligence. I have had people cut over into the other lane, race up then cut me off while looking in their rearview mirror at me like I am the idiot for maintaining a proper breaking threshold. Bring on autonomous vehicles because a good chunk of the driving population can't seem to figure out how to do it properly.
The best part is if I’m cruising at 45-50 in a 45 on a normally 3 lane road, and watching someone take off at 70+ mph from behind me....
Just to slam on their brakes a few seconds later as we both come up to the light that turned red. I always look over to see the dumb fuck, looking out his window to see the dumb fuck.
People literally never learn in Florida lol. It’s the same shit everywhere. People flying at 20-30 over posted speed limits with no consequence besides wasting a bunch of gas I guess.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 05:41:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
More accidents happen from slow drivers then fast. That person flying behind you has somewhere to be. And you are holding them up. If there is no consequence for driving faster then drive faster.
Counterpoint: speed limits below 55 mph aren’t arbitrary; they’re set by a civil engineer to maintain safe traffic conditions, given factors in the road such as the radii of turns, the number of entry points, the frequency of stoplights, and safe speeds to decelerate onto exits.
Just because you can’t immediately see the consequences of reckless driving doesn’t mean you can go as fast as you want.
Additionally, “they have somewhere to be” is a poor excuse. I don’t mean to assume people’s lives, but I imagine the vast majority of the times people are late is because they failed to adequately plan for travel time.
Even if that were true (and it’s not), I’m thinking even you’d agree you’d rather be in a small fender bender at 40 mph rather than totaling your car and losing your life slamming into someone at 70-80+.
No need to spread misinformation bud, you’re going to give drivers with little experience the wrong idea. There’s enough deadly accidents out there as it is, for no reason better than “I have somewhere to be.” Is that worth your life?
Cmon dude, get it together. Your need for speed is the last of my worries, you aren’t a nascar driver.
I have two main pet peeves while driving, both pertaining to the left lane. One is what you described, when I’ll try to leave enough room (I was in an accident a couple months ago where I rear-ended someone and then someone rear-ended me, and it really scared me out of ever tailgating again) but since people are impatient, everyone is trying to hop over and make room for themselves and you wind up with like 4 cars riding bumper-to-bumper with either an accident or traffic.
The other is when people fail to understand that the left lane is the express lane, and hop on over to cruise at 65 mph with no one in front of them and a long line of cars behind them.
The concept of an express lane is a bit weird to me. In Australia, the far right lane (equivalent to your left lane) is for overtaking only - it's not about how fast you're going, you shouldn't be in it unless you are going past someone.
That is only when traffic is flowing though, if traffic is deadlocked then you fill all the available space.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 00:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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lcqs · 5 points · Posted at 02:28:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If youre speeding on a busy highway youre almost always passing though are you not?
Edit: cant type
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 04:06:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea this is what I don’t get on here. If I’m doing 10 over in the left and just passing people what’s the problem? Isn’t that better than constantly changing lanes to pass
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:29:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. If you are not passing someone you should be in the right lane. Speed does not matter.
It’s just a misunderstanding in interpreting what you’re doing.
If you’re passing people, you’re doing it right — it’s as simple as that. If someone’s ahead of you and you’re going to pass them, don’t bother hopping into the right lane. They have no business hopping in front if you if they’re moving slower and not passing anyone.
lcqs · 3 points · Posted at 04:16:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah way less dangerous to be going only a bit more than speed limit in left lane than to be switching constantly. More dangerous to tailgate too so i dont understand the “get over for me no matter what cause i wanna go fast” arguments
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:31:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not about going fast, it’s about passing & traffic. If you are not passing someone you should be in the right lane regardless of how fast traffic is going.
The left lane is not the “I am already going 10 over so I will stay in this lane because I don’t think anybody should be going faster than me anyways” lane. It is the passing lane.
I mean, it’s the passing lane, not the “speed to pass” lane.
So its use as a “passing lane” only really makes any sense if people in the other lane are going below the speed limit for some reason and there’s nevertheless a lot of useable open road in front of them, so you’re literally using it to get around them so you can continue at the speed limit instead of below it.
But that’s almost never the situation. Very often everyone in all lanes is already going at or over the speed limit, or the road is jammed for a long stretch, so talk about “passing” becomes sort of disingenuous.
People who make this complaint are really saying “I want to speed even more and want people out of my way to let me do so.”
And at that point it’s hard to be sympathetic with those speeders wanting a whole lane wasted just to enable them.
lcqs · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People just take whatever the speed limit is and go over it as like a need to disobey or prove they can drive faster. Just like no matter how fast you go in the left lane they will catch up to you out of habit. I dont believe people would drive as fast if there was no limit usually.
I wont go slower than 5 over in the left lane but since you can get a ticket for that its hard to justify social norms dictating speeds. I feel ultimately its more dangerous to constantly switch lanes for someone tailgating me going 15-20 over when im doing 10 over and the middle/left lane is at the speed limit
at1445 · -42 points · Posted at 21:07:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the speed limit's 65, it's 100% on you for getting pissed. They're going the maximum legal speed. Just because you want to go faster doesn't mean they should have to go slower behind someone in the right lane.
If the speed limits higher than 65 though, they're just a self-absorbed asshole.
The concept of an express lane is a bit weird to me. In Australia, the far right lane (equivalent to your left lane) is for overtaking only - it's not about how fast you're going, you shouldn't be in it unless you are going past someone.
That is only when traffic is flowing though, if traffic is deadlocked then you fill all the available space.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 21:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is how it's supposed to be in most of America. We just have too many dumbasses who don't understand how to drive.
You have to consider societal norms as opposed to just the law. According to the letter of the law, the speed limit is the maximum speed you should be traveling at; in practice, it is the minimum.
Also, like the other guy said, there's no reason to ever just be hanging out in the left lane unless you're passing someone or the traffic is heavy.
at1445 · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, that definitely depends where you are. I've lived in large metro and rural areas and both places, going above the limit isn't really the norm anymore. 20 years ago, everyone in DFW was speeding, now you just have the occasional guy blow past you, but 98% are going under 75.
Also, he indicated there was a large line behind the guy going 65, which indicates that he was passing people....or else that long line would pass in the right lane. He's just not passing as fast as the people behind him would like.
No, it means he's playing traffic police and forming a literal fucking wall with the guys next to him to make sure nobody can pass. Which, as described earlier here, is what creates unnecessary traffic.
Seriously. The cognitive dissonance some people have of, “So what, you will only get there a couple cars faster, it won’t save you any time” and “NOOOOOOOO! If I leave a gap someone will fill it!” Blows my mind.
You make fun of someone trying to get a couple cars ahead and yet you’re terrified of staying back two seconds of following distance because cars will fill the gap.
When my dad pointed that out to me I stopped worrying about other drivers filling the gap and just relaxed. And yes, I’ve even done it in DC traffic. Yes, a lot of cars took the gap. Be the change you wish to see.
fj333 · 5 points · Posted at 08:21:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I am so happy to see somebody else make this point. I've had passengers (including my wife) criticize me for letting people fill the gap. You can do the math, even if somebody new fills the gap every minute, it all only infinitesimally affects your arrival time. I'll glad lose a few seconds for a more peaceful and safer drive.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:27:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I do this in LA traffic and it's not really that big of a deal when people fill the gap. And I'd argue you're still making it easier for everybody else, as them being an asshole doesn't have as big of an effect on the people behind you.
That’s fine you just keep
Leaving the gap, and you never have issues. I drive a manual, and I just cruise at 10km/h with a big gap in front of me. Never have to brake.
if you move the average speed of the person in front of you, so you idle slowly but never have to brake, it seriously improves the stress of driving through traffic.
Unfortunately, most drivers mindlessly move forward until they’re on the tailgate of the next car.
This was actually proven by [traffic scientists?], I saw a video on it once. If everyone left significantly wider gaps between themselves and the car ahead of them and didn't tailgate, anytime someone braked a bit or changed lanes it would have little to no effect on the traffic behind them, thus preventing clogs in the traffic flow.
Mythbusters were able to demonstrate it with something like just 10-15 cars.
fj333 · 2 points · Posted at 08:25:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty easy to demonstrate with two cars. Tailgate somebody on a 30mph road until they slow to 5mph to take a turn (but you keep going straight). You get the honor of also slowing to 5mph. Had you been further back, you'd have been able to time it so you coast by their turnoff at 30mph, passing the alternate reality version of yourself who was doing only 5mph at that same time.
If this simple truth could be taught to every driver in the nation, traffic would drastically improve. It will never happen though.
Yes. Most people inch on your ass and break constantly like idiots. As if every little scooch will get you closer. You'll just wear your breaks out faster.
Here’s a fun story for anyone who cares to read. I drive the exact same way in traffic because I hate the constant braking. A few years ago, I was driving on the highway towards Chicago and was doing exactly this. This fat rat looking bastard was behind me in the left lane (it’s been years and I still have strong feelings about this) and didn’t like how much space I was leaving from the car in front of me even though we were in basically stand still traffic. He decides to DRIVE ON THE SHOULDER to attempt to cut me off, at a point where I was already moving and I of course went, “hell nah not today bitch” and didn’t let him do it. He’s screaming at me through the windows, swerves behind me again and then to my right and runs me off the road into the shoulder. Just to get one car ahead and come to a full stop anyways and be in traffic for another 45 minutes. I calmly drove behind him with my middle finger up almost the whole time and he just kept shaking his head swearing at me like the greasy POS he was. In hindsight it was probably a hilarious image being that I was a 19 year old girl and he was a fucking Neanderthal driving a tiny beater car that was an inch off the ground.
Traffic would also be reduced if more people took public transit, or more funding was aimed at increasing transit capacity or building out new transit lines. Sadly, the oil and automotive lobbies in the US are so huge that any project aimed at rail infrastructure gets shut down for being "too expensive," while being significantly cheaper than building out additional highway lanes, which ultimately do nothing to improve traffic anyway.
I noticed that when i was day shift on base. 0630 when there's a line going to the front gate a quarter mile long, and everyone in front of me was surging and braking. I had fun cruising slowly and not stopping, and watching the smooth traffic behind me in the mirror :)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah, I do this as well. I love seeing how traffic smooths out behind me. On the plus side it also helps lower the chances of people rear-ending you.
My mother beat into my brain that I needed to leave several car lengths in between me and the car in front of me whenever possible, so I try to do that, especially when traveling in high speeds. People never seem to understand that they should be doing that, and will squeeze into that little gap between me and the car in front of me whenever they can. It's almost caused wrecks several times. I don't understand the thinking that goes along with that.
Yeah, one of my friends always drives way too close on high speed roads and, every time Id always ask what he will do if the car in front slams on their brakes. Answer is always "oh they probably won't so its fine".
I don't ride in his car anymore.
As someone who drives manual, I essentially have to do this unless I constantly want to be switching in and out of first gear. Sometimes it's impossible cause other people pull in front in the gap or the traffic is so slow its impossible, but generally if I time it right I never need to break
Idk if this actually alleviates traffic though because you're still moving at a slower speed and adding extra space between cars. Basically you're just forcing the traffic further down the road behind you where there are more cars to gather around the traffic wave. What really alleviates traffic is if you accelerate at the same time as a few cars ahead of you and then start to leave a bigger and bigger gap as you increase speed, but this, like everything, requires everyone to be on the same page. When others just cruise at a constant speed way below the limit it's impossible to get up to speed as a group quickly.
By slowing the speed limit on the M25 and encouraging people to stay in their lane journey times decreased. Its change that creates the ripple down the traffic. Lane changes, lorries on inclines. Same as if you are ever at the end of a conga line - really dangerous as can be fast...
This is the general method in metro Atlanta and usually works quite well there. But if you try that here in my town people will just get in front of you as soon as there’s room for them. Whether they need to do it or not, they will.
Most people don't know that, it's never taught, and it's not enforceable, and it's counter-intuitive. It's just not gonna be a thing until self driving cars are mainstream.
yep. i do this. i just idle and move constantly at like, 5mph. traffic is made infinitely worse by people speeding forward to close the gap every 5 seconds. like, wow, you moved so fucking far when you could have just idled forward and covered the same fucking distance.
snuzu · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a great myth busters episode where they demonstrated this - if everyone chills and hangs back at a steady pace, no traffic! The tailgating & braking (and failure to zipper merge) are what causes it. If people relaxed & zippered we’d be good to go.
Where do you live that you can cruise at 10 throughout traffic??
thats0K · 13 points · Posted at 20:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
he means that when traffic is at an almost stand still, creeping at 3mph bumper-to-bumper. if he leaves space (3-4 car lengths) he can go 10mph steadily instead of 3-5mph while annoyingly riding the guy's ass in front of him.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
However if you leave big gaps so as not to have to quickly break and accelerate, you end up creating a bigger pileup behind you. If everyone maintained a reasonable distance, but, in the event of a pileup, went directly behind the stopped car in front of them akin to stopping at an intersection or red light, traffic would be smoother and flow better for everyone behind them and anxious drivers wouldn’t have to hop lanes to jump ahead of you because you’re holding them back.
It isn't a mindset. They have literally proven you wrong with testing. Someone already linked the mythbusters video.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:38:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw the CGP and chill Seattle dude’s videos but I haven’t seen the mythbusters one. Could you please link it?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 22:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudden braking isn't the problem, lack of sudden acceleration is the problem. It's not a problem to brake suddenly if you accelerate just as suddenly when the traffic in front of you allows it.
hekmo · 34 points · Posted at 22:09:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As an extension to this, I've been following this video for years on other ways to clear up jams.
Basically your goal is to never touch the brakes. Keep a good distance from the car in front of you, always drive the average speed, and slow down when you see a jam coming up. Then as soon as traffic clears floor it and get tf out of the snake.
This doesn't help you yourself, since your average speed is always dictated by the car ahead of you. But over time it should help clear up the starting and stopping for people entering the snake, and can prevent baby snakes from growing to adults in the first place.
When I used to live in a less populated area, I would approach stoplights in a similar manner. If I saw a light change to red I would actually start pressing on the brakes immediately despite being quite far away. The point is to never fully stop, that way you don't have to accelerate as much when the light turns green again. Doesn't work well in practice in heavy metros.
I mean I can/do, it just usually isn't enough and I would have to eventually press harder on the brake in the end. Getting to the stoplight quicker = harder brake in the end so a light brake in the beginning, slowly increasing as I get closer usually means I am still going a faster speed when it turns green, rather than coasting for as long as I can.
I'm sure someone can come up with an argument for why my approach is wrong but it seems to work better for me.
And what about the people that just merge in front of you because you left some space and you need to slow down even more? You leave some space again and the merge happens again, and the cycle continues. Happened to me several times.
hekmo · 5 points · Posted at 00:34:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's annoying for sure. I just don't leave as much space as I would otherwise, so there's only a couple cars that could merge into the gap at a time.
And maybe they needed to switch lanes anyway. Creating a nice big gap for mergers is better than them forcing their way into a packed lane.
That's exactly what I have been saying I'm so glad someone made that. Need robot cars.
We are well on our way , the problem is most people dont want to not be able to drive or dont trust the technology but slowly we implement stay In lane tech auto braking etc then as the next generation start driving they are used to the lack of control and eventually we just tell the car where we are going and it goes.
This was a good video but it ends up concluding that I am a monkey sitting behind the wheel. Not sure to like because it was informative or dislike because it called me a monkey.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES. My husband and I have always said that 5-10 years after getting a drivers license, people should be required to take a driving etiquette course with lessons like this. First you learn to drive. Then you practice and see the real world issues. And then you learn a little more.
It’s a good video to explain how waves move through traffic. If you must imagine them as snakes, so be it. It’s simplistic to say that self driving cars will solve traffic problems.
I linked the video because I remembered that it explained why you are stuck in traffic thinking that there is an incident ahead and then it magically dissolves without you seeing anything special.
If this kind of situations will be solved with self driving cars I don’t know.
Self driving cars solve it by talking to each other. So every car knows what every other car is doing and going to do. That wipes out cascades. You'd have cars with a set distance between them at all times and braking in unison.
Szjunk · 3 points · Posted at 00:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more than talking to each other. They can influence other drivers. This also means, you, too, can influence other drivers.
Even adaptive cruise can help mitigate it.
Ford caught wind of it and wanted to add adaptive cruise control to the equation, partnering with the scientists to re-create the simulation using 36 random drivers, Ford vehicles and a closed test track.
pulling people off the road is really the only way to permenantly decrease traffic. Creating alternatives like a train or walkable neighborhoods can make it so you don't even have to care about traffic, too
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having biked for a few years, blazing past cars lined up at a traffic light is the best thing in the world.
Oiszam · -3 points · Posted at 01:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Its very closeminded to think self driving cars will solve everything.
As one car brakes and then carries on, the car behind does the same thing a moment later. This leads to loads of cars bunching up and then spread out behind one another (like when you whip a spring along the floor), and they each have to brake progressively harder until eventually it leads to a complete stop.
This "pulse" of stoppage travels back along the line of cars, and all the drivers wonder what in the gosh-danged heck that was all about.
In the case of a no accident scenario, its basically down too slower moving cars causing bottlenecks behind them, that take hours to clear up.
Or, in a similar vein of thought, one two many traffic lights on a busy highway can do the exact same thing, causing these random bottlenecks that create traffic.
Basically, anything that impedes or slows down the normal flow of traffic, can and will cause traffic jams and delays..
Its partly why, having a higher speed limit on highways is a good thing, as it helps traffic move quickly...
Also why roundabouts are superior in design, to intersections; both keep traffic flowing as smoothly as possible.
Its totally a give and take...And why usually an engineers recommendation or input is required/accepted for the raising or lowering of speed limits or the installation of traffic lights or creation of a new intersection.
However, traffic speeds and death rates would have to be expounded upon in this context, as it most likely be a combination of factors, to include highway speeds, but I would gander that its most certainly related to traffic impediments - especially artificial ones.
As a bonus, this chart of VMT to death rates shows an interesting trend. As cars get safer, the rate of deaths/VMT has steadily gone down, but due to sprawl and suburbanization I guess, we collectively drive a lot more and continue to do so, so we havent seen a fully correlating drop in deaths. Would be interesting to add in population levels to this chart to analyze:
traffic is a surprisingly complex field of math and there are a bunch of different factors that cause traffic but one of the biggest is that human reaction times cause a cascading slowdown from something as minor as a lane change.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There could have been a cop who stopped someone and that slowed everyone else down. After the cop leaves it still takes time for the traffic to get back to normal. Also an 'almost wreck' can cause a ton of people to freak out and that ripples back through the traffic and has to be undone as well.
Darvy0 · 5 points · Posted at 19:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic functions sort of like a standing. wave in the ocean.
Let's say you have a whole freeway moving at 60 miles an hour and every car is evenly spaced. Let's say one row of cars all the way across the freeway suddenly break, and then speed up. Once those cars break, the cars behind them have to break, and the cars behind them, etc. The cars behind the first row get progressively slower as more and more people break. You have to move from behind the wave through it before you can get back into the clear.
Thats basically whats happening, someone was dumb and breaked hard or cut someone off causing them to break hard, and traffic is the result.
There's a science to it for sure, I think there's even engineering classes called "traffic and traffic management" or something along those lines and my understanding is it just starts with either Lane changers or someone braking (for some dumb reason usually I'm sure) causing everyone behind them to slow down. Once that happens, it creates a braking void of sorts near that location of the initial brake. Kind of like an accordion
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heres a gif that shows it really well. you can see that theres nothing stopping the cars at the front but there's a sort of traffic snake, its kinda how sound moves through the air.
Having driven truck and observing traffic for twenty years now I used to have the same question. Its the people that stay bumper to bumper making sure no one gets ahead of them. Everyone merging constantly to try to get to the front of the line. Ive seen people squeeze their way onto the interstate and fight across four or so lanes all the way to the left then a mile later fight their way back over to exit off. Never getting above 15 mph. Countless times ive seen cars exit off, go straight across to the on ramp and merge back on just to get a couple spaces further ahead. Or all the times ive seen people just hop over into the on ramp lane just to pass a couple cars and stop traffic to get back over. Many reasons, if everyone would just cruise along, leave some space it would all move along.
gruffi · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ethan Hunt: You hit the brakes for a second, just tap them on the freeway, you can literally track the ripple effect of that action across a two-hundred-mile stretch of road, because traffic has a memory. It's amazing. It's like a living organism.
I think about this quote every now and then. I see this not only in traffic, but in, well, life in general lol
It's called traffic waves I believe. I remember learning about it in drivers ed years back. Its where people would either switch lanes or tailgate/brake which would cause behind them to slow down which would then cause the people behind them to slow down and etc. It would then eventually create this massive "wave" as everyone would slowdown causing traffic jams. Its pretty interesting.
https://youtu.be/Q78Kb4uLAdA this video shows how one car braking backs traffic up for ages afterwards, it only takes a few people braking for it to snowball into a huge jam
It's called a phantom traffic jam. They're really frustrating but is something we're trying to model for and make a thing of the past with smart roadways and connected vehicles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work on the 24th floor of my building, and have a good view of a highway below. What I find fascinating is watching these "slow spots" slowly move backwards down the highway. The cars themselves keep moving forward at various speeds, but the spot everyone has slowed down at, that moves backwards.
Picture a highway full of cars all moving in a steady flow at the same speed. Then one driver thinks they’re too close to the car in front so they tap their brakes for a second. The car behind them taps their brakes for 1.25 seconds in reaction, the car behind them hits their brakes for 1.5 seconds, etc etc etc.
That’s how rolling traffic jams happen, propagating backwards.
One person follows too closely, and is forced to slam on the brakes when traffic merges. This creates a "shock wave" that travels backwards from the direction traffic is flowing. That's it. If everyone maintained proper braking distance it wouldn't be a problem.
A lot of times, it is simply congestion. I used to think that it made no sense, cause if the people at the front of the pack are going the speed limit then the people behind them should be able to as well, right? But every small factor of merging, slow drivers, and on/off ramp clogging add up really quick when you have thousands of drivers on the same freeway.
It gets really bad where I live because we don’t have a true freeway, our main highway is two lanes with a plethora of stop lights.
There’s a great CPG Gray Video on why something like this happens
xabrol · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called a traffic snake.
Imagine you have 20 miles of bumper to bumper traffic and one guy hits his brakes because he dropped his phone and slows down to 30 mph. Well the guy behind him slows down to 20. Etc etc etc.
500 feet back and all the way back 19 Mile everyone's at a dead stop.
The guy speeds back up to 70, the car behind him does, but it takes 20 minutes for 20 miles back to get back up to speed just for some other idget to brake and repeat the process.
Over here in England you get traffic officers on the motorway, they don’t have the same powers as the police but they always assist with crashes and breakdowns. They’re often the cause of what you’re describing here, because they’ll stop the traffic for 10 mins to remove debris from the road or something like that.
I actually have an answer to this based on modeling I’ve seen. Traffic slow downs move like a wave away from the source. If it was minor the actual cause might have cleared up, but the resultant backup could have traveled well away from that original issue in this wave like way.
I’ve notice on my commute there is a slowdown right before a slight hill with a turn. I think people just zone out and don’t move their foot, and the hill slows them down. By time they realize it the person behind them had to slow down and the chain reaction has begun.
Mythbusters did an episode on traffic and it totally explained what causes useless backups.
The short answer is: it's a chain reaction when lots of cars are on the road. 1 person up front brakes, 2nd car behind brakes a little harder, etc etc, then your in gridlock
There's a bottleneck ahead of you somewhere, that's all an accident is, but it's not the only way. Say there's a ton of people on the highway after work at the same time, all getting off at the same exit. They're not all honna fit. Combined with the breaking and tailgating mentioned elsewhere it makes it a lot worse. In my town all downtown traffic gets funneled onto a 2 lane bridge in order to get to the other side of town. All that traffic doesn't fit on the bridge. You can see videos of aerial views of traffic jams. It's pretty interesting.
copiae · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember reading a paper on this a few years ago where the authors studied this very effect. It's actually because traffic jams flow backward in banked traffic because of a compression wave like effect. Will try to demonstrate below:
Imagine a stretch of a single lane highway during peak hour where something has just happened:
--OXX-------------- (O is the bottleneck event like a car crash that's just happened, X is traffic, - is the road)
---XXXX-------- (over time the event resolves, but more traffic forms)
-------XXXXX-- (as the event is resolved the first cars can move again , but now a new bottleneck is created owing to the traffic itself, which causes more traffic to form)
That wave of traffic continues to travel away from the initial event, generally until the number of cars entering the road decrease. Hope that helps!
It’s actually surprisingly accurate to compare it to water flow through a pipe.
If something happens to clog the pipe for a moment, the pipe fills up quickly. Even if the clog clears quickly, it’s going to take a while before the water level gets low again, if the flow into the pipe doesn’t slow down.
Now imagine that it’s having momentary clogs every few seconds (1 car changing lanes unexpectedly for whatever reason and scaring everyone else into slowing down for a moment).
Search YouTube for videos of how a single car braking while in traffic causes a chain reaction that just multiplies the time spent just sitting there the further longer than chain gets. Traffic is 100% human made, obviously. But I mean its just stupid bullshit from stupid people that adds up.
I remember seeing a Disney cartoon about freeway traffic. It explained via Goofey how a slowdown causes that snowball effect that someone else mentioned. I always think about that cartoon in traffic and how, even if we had 15 lane freeways, it still wouldn’t be enough to end the stop and go.
I think its called ghost traffic and is just caused by breaking. Basically one person slows down, the person behind them not being perfect, has to slow down a little bit quciker to avoid a collision. As you go down the line this amplifies to stand still traffic. If everyone at the same time just started moving it would pretty much go away.
nedal8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its from people following too close, if for any reason someone has to slam on their brakes, the guy behind them has to, then behind that, so on and so forth. It creates a shockwave that propigates endlessly until there is a break in flow, or people following not so closely to absorb it.
I used to commute an hour away from home for work for about a year. I got a new job and moved away from home and my commute is 20 min, but thanks to the morning traffic, it feels longer.
Answer: there WAS an accident or traffic ahead. The wave of braking moves backwards like if you were to pluck a long wire. You can see the wave move along the wire. At your position on the wire you feel the wave when it gets to you but the pluck is already gone by the time you reach it
isnoe · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the Army, during long ruck marches of like 8-12 miles we had this thing we called “slinkying” which is to say something happened up in the line that caused someone to stop abruptly and the result is it trails all the way, like the movement of a slinky. Eventually someone is having to jog to close the gap, and it’s horrible.
Usually the way to avoid it is to fall in step with the person in front of you and keep pace.
This is an excellent description of how traffic exists even with the absence of reducing the number of lanes which also causes more traffic especially on highways
It's because of the propegation of the delay. You can observe this at a red light when it turns green. The first car moves, then the second, then the third...by the time the 20th car starts to move, the light has been green for a while.
I think I saw a Vsauce video on this. Simply some random person will just not pay attention and get on their phone, and all it takes is a bunch of other people to not care pr stop paying attention because the person in front of them is stopped, and all of a sudden youve formed a line.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MythBusters did an episode on this. They had a bunch of people driving in a circle and they watch traffic form for no reason. I don't remember which episode it is but I'm sure you could find it.
Mythbusters had an episode similar to this. Apparently when the traffic density is just right, if a driver suddenly slows down, it sets off a chain reaction that may result in terrible gridlock.
It’s called a traffic snake, it can happen when one person slows down abruptly causing the next person to slow down abruptly and the person after them. Thus the abrupt breaking continues down the line of cars like the way a curve travels down the length of a snake as it moves. When you’ve left the slow zone traffic goes back to normal and you wonder how it cleared up so suddenly https://thumbs.gfycat.com/GenuineTenseGodwit-size_restricted.gif
A really cool study of maths and data showed that traffic on highways most often aren’t caused by anything. Someone just hits their brakes for any amount of time, and causes a train reaction that follows. Take the individual’s reaction time and variance into accord, and then you can get mass slowdowns that persist for tens of minutes before some time that the congestion gets light enough that people stop braking.
Something really cool was when I was driving on a freeway and I watched a slowdown happen in real time. A person about 15 cars ahead braked for some reason (no idea, maybe they saw something that didn’t exist) and every single car slowed down, to the point that the 10th car and further (me included) had to slow to a stop. The slowdown continued for about 10 minutes which was insane because traffic on the left wasn’t slow enough for people to change lanes and speed up, they were stuck in this bogged down lane. People in front despite seeing open road ahead just didn’t get to full speed and just slowly cleared the spot of the slowdown, and then resumed normal speed.
Additionally, the design of on and off ramps to alleviate congestion and choke points at exits are great, but not perfect. People having to merge to get on AND get off causes mass slowdown near busy exits. I’m no engineer but common sense tells me that the half mile and mile long exit ramps are to avoid the mass congestion that several interchanges, exits, and entry ramps cause.
some jackass tailgating someone who suddenly changed lanes so he has to break real hard and the next has to break harder and so on until you get a dead stop on a highway
It's called phantom traffic jams. When everyone is at a constant speed, it's smooth until someone brakes all of a sudden and causes a chain reaction for everyone else. This creates that "traffic jam" that makes you think it's a car crash when it's not. CGP Grey explains this pretty well
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, this video is a very good explanation of how traffic jams are created.
I think it's called the accordion effect. If some wanker is speeding up and then suddenly brakes it causes a ripple effect of everyone having to brake.
Be much more effective if everyone just drove at a reasonable speed together at once
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this thing in middle school about ghost accidents that explained it pretty well. Basically some idiot does something dumb. Thinks they saw a ufo, or stops for an animals, or cuts someone off. Anything that causes the next car to slow or come to a complete stop. Then the next car behind has to slow and little bit more to avoid hitting them. And then the one behind a little bit more to avoid hitting them. Then all of the sudden 20 cars back you're in a complete stop. So you can see how at times of high traffic density one little mess up and now people are sitting for a minute or two at a dead stop a few hundred cars back from where one idiot did one dumb thing. Of course there are other explanations like closed lanes, traffic stops, or actual accidents but that's about it.
There was a cause, but probably something thst should have been insignificant (1 car messed up changing lanes or similar) but because the road was a bit too busy at the time, it caused problems. And it probably happened far away, hours earlier. Traffic jams travel.
I was really good at maths at school until Year 10 when we hit a topic called 'Numbers and Proof'.
It was about proving that the answer to an equation was definitely right.. I think? I don't really know, because I never understood a single thing the teacher said that whole term.
Same for me. I was perfectly fine with math up until calculus.
And while I got the bits and pieces of calculus, I could not understand the "big picture" of it. Like if you guide me step by step I could do it, but doing a problem on a test and navigating it myself? None of it made any logical sense to me. It all seemed like arbitrary wacky nonsense to me.
And I thought maybe I had a bad teacher or something, but, eh. I had to take calc in college after that, and I did OKAY, but I think it was just because I had just repeated a course I had in high school. And any attempts to revisit it just made no sense.
Edit: A lot of you are trying to "explain" calculus to me in terms that make calculus maddeningly incomprehensible. You're mostly proving my point.
Integral calculus in second year university. Thought I was good at math up until that point. I got a F-, didn't even know F- was a thing until then.
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Orthas · 32 points · Posted at 22:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think for derivatives and integrals, taking some physics at the same time helps. A derivitive is the rate that something is changing. Velocity vs acceleration makes that easy to visualize. And logically, if you know an objects acceleration, and how long it's been going, you should be able to figure out how fast it's going or where it is. Those would be an integral and double integral.
It of course all gets more complicated, and knowing that doesn't really help you do the math, but it makes it easy to conceptualize.
Integration is a way to approximate size by chopping things up into little bits and then adding them back up.
I want to know the area of a circle with radius 1 and I don’t know the formula from geometry, but I know the formula for the area of squares and rectangles. So I draw a square around my circle and calculate that area. I draw a square inside my circle and calculate that area. Now I chop up my squares into smaller squares and throw away parts I don’t need. Now my squares look more like the circle and their areas approximate the circle area better than before.
It's to find the total quantity of something over a duration. Like for example, we know that distance is equal to the product of velocity at which you're moving and the time for which you're moving. If you were going at 50 m/s for 5s you would know that you travelled 250 m. If you draw a graph between the velocity and speed you'd get a horizontal line because your velocity is constant and so the rectangular area under it gives the total distance. But now assume you're accelerating at a random rate. Your velocity changes with no linear pattern and is not constant with time. If you were asked to find the distance travelled, how would you do it? You'd split up your velocity into smaller chunks. For example, you'd say I'm moving at 20 m/s for the next 50ms , then I'm now at 25 m/s for the next 50 ms . You can then find the total of each of these products.
But you notice that this is not very accurate. Why? Because you are using 50 ms intervals of time . What if the change in that timespan was drastic? So what do you do? You break it up into smaller segments, say of 25 ms each. But the same problem presents itself.
So what integration does is, we first obtain the curve of velocity with time as an equation, then make an assumption that the time is split up into infinite number of such segments. Then you find the product for each segment and add them up. You may wonder how infinite segments are added up but by using limits and infinite sum techniques it's actually quite simple and gives you the integration formulae you use in your questions.
Hope this made it clear for you. Do read through as I think this should clear your doubts.
You'd be surprised by the amount of people who fail this course. Literally half the students enrolled from the whole university and averages are usually around 50%.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 23:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In case you missed the other comment, check out 3blue1brown's playlist on calculus. He does a fantastic job visualizing how calculus was invented, and why it's useful.
I like to think of it more as "fancy math" used to figure out how something changes without needing to do a bunch of complicated algebra.
Trig isn't bad but Taylor series is hell. I've taken Calc 3 and you do Taylor series in Calc 2, and that was probably the hardest thing for me to understand at first.
Im going to be doing calc at uni in a few months. Ive loved maths until I hit the harder algebra stuff. Although I get parts of the current stuff its still hard to comprehend. Think its mainly cause I cant picture as much of it in my head as I could with whole numbers.
imo every calc student and even non calc students should watch this series. elegant solutions, beautiful animation, lovely commentary and explanations that a kindergartener could understand in theory. not only helps one understand calculus, but also the beauty and incredible thinking behind it.
Gambion · 12 points · Posted at 00:18:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
His meta discussion on mathematical abstractions with Lex Friedman is interesting as well
The majority of calculus concepts can be taught to a 5th grader (not like... the algebra part, so no actual integrals/derivatives), and the longer you wait, the more esoteric and seemingly "random" it becomes.
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 23:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Trying to learn essentially on my own now due to classes moving online and a professor that cannot use the online platform. Just hoping to pass at this point via KhanAcademy and this series now.
Hit up WolframAlpha online as well. I'm restudying Physics and Maths for Engineering, Wolfram computes a problem for you and shows you step by step if you're having issues.
I use this when I THINK I know the next step but not a hundred percent sure. Helps to build your confidence in your methods.
So I’m taking a math course as a prerequisite to getting a masters degree, and we just started the calculus section of the class. I went straight to this website and HOLY FUCK, it’s the best thing I’ve ever seen!! Just the first episode where they break down a circle fucking astonished me.
THANK YOU for posting this link, it has blown the lid off this shit! So stoked.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does he slice the circle into rings? I much prefer this solution.
Edit: Oh, he's not teaching about circles. The circle is only an example for something more general. Though I guess the rectangle version could have taught the same thing.
I wasn't necessarily good at math up until high school when I encountered a truly great teacher. I then zipped through all the way to calculus until I got to to rotations around a point/line. Literally my brain was like "nope." I'm pretty sure it was nearly the last topic of my senior year. I took a lower level math class in college (yay Arts and Letters major) and never did math again. Sometimes I wonder if I actually hit a wall in my ability to understand math or if I could go back and I'd understand it differently at my current age. I find a lot of things I struggled with when I was younger come easier to me when I'm older for no particular reason other than experience or brain development.
It’s cool that you mention that, as i’m at the end of my senior year taking Calc and this is exactly the lesson we were assigned yesterday. Conceptually, it’s hard to understand for sure; but i think sometimes it takes some deep thinking some time away and a new fresh perspective if it doesn’t click the first time. the ones that rotate from somewhere other than the X or Y axis get me though.
I didn’t understand calculus until the 3rd class in our calculus series in Uni. Sort of. It definitely starts making more sense later down the line, you just have to find the patterns and have a pseudo understanding of calculus until you get to that point
I have a degree in mathematics, but calculus in high school did the same shit to me. At the college I went to we had a TON of free, easily accessible resources, and my teacher was amazing (easily the best in the department), and got me through. I'm convinced calculus is hard because you go from "memorize this and use it because I said so" to "you actually need to understand the ideas and concepts behind this equation". It's almost an entirely new way of looking at Mathematics, and it screws with people when they first encounter it, but once it all "clicks" the hardest part becomes the algebra.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 23:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The math department at the University I went to was heavy with researchers in RUME (research in undergraduate mathematical education), so everything was lead into with real life examples, and with problems that where specifically designed to get us to almost invent the concepts ourselves. It was extremely helpful, and while I was there they got more refined. It was actually something I got to work on for my senior thesis, it was a lot of fun.
This was my problem learning calculus in college. It never made any sense. Engineering math I had no issues with but "pure" math i couldn't get my head around. I still can't but then again I don't need to know how to it right now either.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
by "clicks" do you mean that you learn what tool to pull out for what situation? Like, a physical observation like, I don't know, water circling a drain or something and you'd like know what defined its physics?
I don't know how to describe it. It's like you just suddenly see behind the math? It just kind of all fell into place and I suddenly understood what the teacher was trying to say or get me to see. I used to remember the moment, but it was so long ago, I don't anymore, or maybe I'd be able to describe it better
I've always felt that calculus is often taught really badly. Which is an enormous pity, because a lot of complex things in math start to become really simple and elegant when looked at through the lens of calculus. It explains a metric crapload of why a bunch of math and physics formulas are the way they are, for starters, rather than just learning them by rote.
funkyb · 16 points · Posted at 22:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In college my wife took algebraic physics because calc-based wasn't required for her major. I tortured her and it was so much harder, because I couldn't easily explain why anything was what it was.
"This is the formula for the distance traveled, this is the formula for velocity."
"Why?"
"Because that's how fast the distance is changing."
"How can you know that?"
"I literally cannot give you a satisfying answer you can understand. So...just memorize it."
"Well I don't like that. Physics is dumb."
"The way you're being taught it now, yes. Yes it is."
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Timee5 · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? I‘m in an algebra-based physics class right now, but I’m taking calculus concurrently. We just finished learning simple harmonic motion. I got taught all these confusing explanations for how position, velocity, and acceleration graphs were determined. Then at one point I realized ... “wait... aren’t they just all the derivatives of one another?” It makes you feel so smart when you find out that connection between calculus and physics.
My highschool taught both algebraic physics and calculus-based physics, but I had to take algebraic physics because I hadn't taken any calculus courses at the time. I thought it was entirely arbitrary and you just had to memorize everything, and ended up doing very poorly.
I now think algebraic physics shouldn't even be taught at all. It is so much more complicated than just learning a bit of calculus, that it must damage students' impressions of physics whenever they take it. Even if it doesn't, they just end up learning a bunch of junk that they'll forget once they learn how a derivative works.
I don’t think this is always true. I had a wonderful algebra based AP physics teacher, and I took ap physics 1 and 2, and calc while in physics 2.
He gave us all of the formulas, but we needed to know how to apply them. He taught us the concepts about what is really happening and what the equations mean. I didn’t forget anything once I learned a derivative, because I learned the equations with how they really work.
That was my main problem throughout high school AP physics, my teacher was plain bad (There were 2 ap physics teachers, everyone failed the AP test in my teacher's class and multiple people got 5's in the other class) and could not explain or go into detail about why things were the way they were. The math was very simple the real problem with the class was finding out when to use each type of math and what values belonged where, which is what makes up the majority of the AP curriculum
Most university classes are taught poorly. They're just like high school classes except the teacher thinks he's smarter than everyone else, takes 40 min to spit out a lecture, walks out assigning you twice as much homework and then there's either too many people asking for help or the prof is never even in their office.
Have you seen 3Blue1Brown's calculus series? He's really good at giving you the intuition of why things are defined the way they are. His linear algebra series really helped me, and that's a course that's often taught even more confusingly than calculus.
I literally can’t do that stuff. I can follow along every problem but the second I’m on my own, I’m just throwing shit at a wall. It was the only class I failed in college. My second time I went to the TA every week and worked on it. I got great scores on the quizzes that were much more about the process of what we learned that week. On the exams I’d still bomb and I finished with a C+ thank god. It just doesn’t work for me
Calculus is basically just the math of change. Things can change in a lot of different ways. The more complex a system gets, the more factors that can change its behavior. One of the most common calculus problems is the emptying tank problem. Imagine you have a tank of water with a hole in the bottom, such that water is flowing out of the tank at a constant rate. Find the height of the water after a certain amount of time. So the equation for this is simple. H = Ho + dH, where Ho is the initial height, and dH is the change in height after some amount of time. If the water flows out a constant rate, say a gallon per minute, then all you have to know is how long the water has been flowing out. Multiply this flow rate by time it has been flowing and subtract it from the original Ho, and there you have it, a way to find the change in height after a certain amount of time! But now, let’s say you have a tank where the radius is constantly changing, there is more than one liquid in the tank (oil and water, let’s say), and you also have liquid being poured in. Now your dH equation is going to be a lot more complex, and that’s where you use calculus techniques to model the flow out of the tank. Hopefully that makes sense and that there’s no nitpicky errors in my example!
jrizos · 6 points · Posted at 23:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's a pretty kickass example and I don't get calculus.
I was confused about it too for several years after calc 1 even though I use it all the time. One day it finally clicked.
R00bot · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. It wasn't a problem at first but then I got to the questions where you had to separate dx and dy and until that point I hadn't even considered them as two different things. Everything kinda fell apart for me at that point and it was ages until it all clicked.
It's because the x derivative is d/(dx), and applying it to y is like multiplication. It isn't actually multiplication and it isn't actually a fraction, but that's how the notation is supposed to work. Applying the derivative twice means multiplying it twice, so you multiply it like a fraction and you get d2/(dx)2.
The parentheses are usually left off the dx because it's not actually multiplication, and you can't use the PEMDAS rule because it happens before the exponent. It acts more like a function d(x). So yeah that notation was overall not a great choice for teaching purposes.
It actually is valid as useful tool! Nonstandard analysis verified the idea that dy/dx is like a fraction of infinitesimals! It’s really cool stuff, but maybe a bit too advanced for Intro calculus.
College level math is hard. I failed almost every math class on the first go round, but stuck with it and studied hard. Eventually, I passed classes like differential equations and control theory. And there are still more advenced classes out there that I could take to further my math education.
It wasn't easy at all, but a good foundation in math is a great thing to have, and it has endless real world applications. If you're still in school and struggling with math, stick to it, you will learn it eventually.
Jzkqm · 18 points · Posted at 20:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus clicked for me right up until I hit the point where the problems we were solving weren’t applicable to real-world issues. Like, derivatives and integration? Sure, I can see where that’s useful. Taylor series? Nah.
[deleted] · 28 points · Posted at 20:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Think about it like this: what does the cosine of 7 actually mean? Well to find it, you could draw a circle, measure out 7 radians, then measure the x coordinate. That's what it actually is. But you're not gonna want to do that.
But polynomials are easy. They're just multiplication and addition and crap. So if you have a polynomial that's freakishly close to cosine, then you just have to do some arithmetic and you're done.
Taylor series is a big deal in financial math. It’s part of how the Black-Scholes equation came into existence, which is important for computer models that price options.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have any tutorial links or anything on this?
Not off the top of my head. I’m sure if you search YouTube for “Black-Scholes derivation” you will find one. You should probably have some understanding of statistics and multi variable calculus. The Taylor Series part is specifically for deriving Ito’s Lemma (basically the chain rule for functions of random variables), which is used to derive the Black-Scholes equation.
Edit: I forgot to mention though... the general solutions to the Black-Scholes equation are what are ultimately used for option pricing and to use those you only really need to know basic algebra. They’re not particularly practical to use by hand though, as options markets are pretty efficient.
Taylor series are cool because you can often get answers that are good enough with only the first couple terms. Engineers and physicists use it all the time, and basically any field where you model real things with equations that only have to be close enough.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 22:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found calculus to be hard until I gave up trying to understand it and treated it like a game/puzzle with rules that make no sense but are nevertheless, iron clad.
That's odd, I remember getting the big picture of calculus pretty easily, at least the parts I covered during my courses. Area under a curve being made up of smaller and smaller rectangles and such. It was specific teachers who were either really good or really bad at getting the formulas to stick and making everything fit together.
Do you know it's funny I was in a similar boat to you. I'm in Ireland and was grand at maths most of the way through school. Hit a road block at calculus during my final year in school and dropped from what we called honors maths (higher lever) to pass maths (ordinary level). When i was in university I had to take a module called advanced mathematics for engineers that was supposed to be much harder than finalnuear maths and thought "I'm fucked"! It turns out that the different teacher/fresh approach meant I understood the subject much better (was calculus again) and I aced the exams. I did really well in all the maths subjects after that. Unless you are lucky enough to find an approach that works for you (in real life not on reddit obs) it's not going to click.
Tl;dr maths is weird.
This was exactly me, right down to retaking it in college. Calculus was my math wall. I would listen to my teacher talk and then look at my paper like, What in the actual fuck is she going on about? Meanwhile all my friends would be scribbling away, completely understanding all then nonsense. Sitting down for the AP was horrible but thank GOD one of the big “show your work” questions was a subtopic that, while I had absolutely no conceptual knowledge of the work I was doing, I knew all the steps and places to plug the numbers. Ugh. Not a good time turning that one in, thanks for the memories.
Ashken · 2 points · Posted at 22:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand not being able comprehend calculus. I took four levels of it and it definitely takes a certain way of thinking to comprehend.
Calculus never made sense to me until I realized geometry was for finding the area of shapes and calculus was for finding the area under a random curve.
I do further maths at a-level and if you go the wrong way you a get absolutely fucked. You have to guess which way you are supposed to solve the equation or whatever so everything cancels out nicely. And they have to make the equations include unknowns because otherwise your calculator can just solve it. Sometimes it is fucking mindbending.
And when we started it we did numerical methods and I did not have a fucking clue about anything that was happening. Now I think I'm fine with it because everything else is just so much harder. Thank fuck the exams are cancelled there is no way I could do it without another 5 months of school and we only had 2 months at the time of cancelling
My brother is crazy smart. Got a perfect score on the physics AP exam, went to CalTech, etc. I was failing algebra for the second time, so my parents thought my brilliant brother could help me. But he couldn't comprehend how I couldn't understand it. It was second nature to him, and it was completely incomprehensible to him that I couldn't understand it. So he couldn't explain it. I finally squeaked by with a paid tutor and had to take Algebra 2 at a community college to get into nursing school. My instructor just had a way of explaining it, and I got an A. But I never liked it.
Calculus is more or less just finding the area or volume of a shape in a specific space.
There are certain shapes like triangles that we can find the area of without calculus (although someone definitely used calculus the first time), but when the shapes are irregular we don't have that luxury.
Every line or shape can be defined by a function. For example, x=y will just be a line at a 45 degree angle going up from left to right, whereas x=-y would be the 45 degree able going downward from left to right. If you put that on a graph you could figure out the area under that line. The reason we don't need to use calculus to find that area specifically is because the function itself is so simple.
But obviously most shapes aren't that simple. We need to use calculus to find those areas or volumes, and this becomes important in certain industries. A painter doesn't necessarily need to know this, but an engineer designing a damn absolutely does.
Yes, but one of the reasons people struggle with higher level math is the lack of visualization. People can easily visualize area and volume, people struggle to visualize speed vs velocity vs acceleration.
And considering the very first thing you learn in Calc is "the area under the curve", this is a really simplistic explanation for some of those basics. But you're right, I probably should have used some different language.
I respect that, I just see it as a common misconception. I think the idea that velocity/displacement is unintuitive is wrong. You know that if you go 60 miles per hour for an hour you went 60 miles an hour.
Calculus tells you how that will work with a constantly changing speed.
You know what a tangent line is? A line that has the exact same slope as and goes through a point in a curve? And you know how a line is y = mx + b? Well, the derivative is the m (slope) of the tangent lines of a curve.
I never passed Calculus in college. I did pretty good the first half of the class, but the second half I didn't understand anything at all and I have no idea what happened lol just glad I didn't need it for my degree.
I never even got to calculus. Probably wouldn't've been very good either.
I was relatively good at math when I went to school and it was actually my favorite subject. But then what really stumped me was trigonometry. Mostly sin and cos. I have no idea why. I don't even remember what it was all about but I could never get it. Like I literally had to turn my brain off to get them right.
Yeah, maybe I just wasn't there yet? I also went to a pretty terrible school so who even knows. For me, I just really need to understand every aspect of a problem if I'm going to answer it. My teacher would just tell me what to do but I needed to know why and she couldn't tell me. Like if I'm doing this or that I need to know why I'm doing this or that. What about those things help me solve the problem? Idk I just got on peoples nerves sometimes.
I'm not going to try and explain it to you but this might make sense since I felt a similar thing after Calc 1.
In the early stages you are basically a monkey who learns to do things to a certain problem without really knowing the significance. I wouldn't say I really "learned" Calc 1 until Calc 3. At that point the older concepts became mundane like addition and subtraction and the idea behind it begins to seep in.
The last math class I had to take was Differential Equations and I feel the same way about it as you do about Calculus. I did pretty well in the class but have no idea what any of it meant. Similarly, I'm sure if I kept taking math classes I would probably truly learn the material to the course a couple classes down the line.
I took an applied calc course where they tried to bridge the gap between theory and practicality. It was still relatively hard to grasp, but I thought they did a great job. Like, I'd sit there and be like "what the shit is the point of this?" and then one of the problems would have me calculate the most efficient size of a washing machine basin per a total volume and I'd be like "well...okay. fine".
I understand you. I still don't understand calculus. I only passed because the prof gave us extra credit for writing our homework solutions on the board, so I'd do that every chance I got, no matter how lost I knew I was. I could follow along, but definitely couldn't solve problems on my own.
But then I took other classes that utilized Calc. And I could suddenly understand and do the work in the applied sense. I was amazed that it somehow made sense in the simplified form.
But, I've been out of school for 5 years so I don't remember any of it.
Funny, I was always good at math but never liked math. That is, until I got to calculus and it was finally Interesting. I was like aha, now this makes a lot of sense! But pre-calculus, useless and boring to me.
Except I managed to crawl my way to Calc 3 (which I failed/dropped)... (.__. )
It still doesn't make sense to me, not even a little bit. I'm great at equations and geometry, but anything beyond trig just did not register in my brain.
I never really could put how I felt about Calculus in words. Thank you for this~
Tip: For multiple integrals it’s all about setting up the bounds correctly or changing variables.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proofs can be dealt with at any level of math honestly. The geometry that is taught in 10th grade has proofs that require referencing postulates and theorems. Also at the same level as Calculus is Linear Algebra, which has tons of proofs, in that there are questions like "prove this is a subspace of that" etc.
Anywhere there are formal definitions, there are proofs.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That quote has almost no relevance to intro calculus. It’s talking about the aleph numbers. In calculus you mostly just deal with aleph zero or the generalized “infinity” in determining limits.
It clicked for me when I started memorizing (and I mean word for word) the axioms, theorems, and definitions.
Upper level math is about taking those three and transforming them from their initial form to what you have on the exam in order to show that since we know the left side works this way, and the right side can be made to look like the left - they must both be true.
Memorize the axioms, theorems and definition. Sprinkle some creativity in there, and you have a degree.
I get what you mean by not seeing the “big picture”. If I don’t understand the application of the problem it makes it way harder, and there’s no motivation to learn it.
I had a similar problem. The only things in calculus that I could make sense of were the ones I used in physics, because I was able to adequately visualize what was going on. This was especially frustrating after years of being quite good at math relative to everyone around me.
Same. I wanted to raise my hand every day in calculus and ask “but why are we doing this? What is the point?” Because if I knew that I’d probably get it. Why does it matter if I know how to predict where a point is on a wave at some other time, or whatever
Nope I can get to the answer usually but cant tell you how I got there. It's less than scientific its guessing and working backwards and just kinda knowing what area I need to be in if that makes sense but having no idea why.
I was the same way. Apparently calculus let’s you determine the area below a curve. I couldn’t have cared less about that and didn’t understand why you couldn’t just get a sufficiently close estimate with very small squares.
I was the exact opposite. I couldn’t really get math until calc. I barely scraped by with C’s all through basic algebra and Trig. My first calc class? Boom. Something clicked and it made sense. Algebra though? I got a little better at it just by doing it in calc, but give me something purely algebra to do and I will likely struggle with it.
Funny how the brain works, isn’t it? One thing can totally click but something just slightly different is like a foreign language.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m right there with you. I am excellent at math, and I tested into higher level math than my peers in college. But calculus never made any damn sense to me. Cool cool cool cool this equation goes to infinity as it approaches zero but..... idgaf?
I never took calculus, the highest I went was like Algebra 2 or something, but as a layman my interpretation (and im probably wrong to an extent) is calculus is basically a set of formulas that you'd use to figure out problems in whatever area you're working in. All the "scenarios" they had you do in math class are arbitrary in a sense. They're just examples of how to use the specific formula, but I always found in high school they just teach you how to do the problems, but not the context of what you'd be trying to solve. Like if a teacher was like "this is the calculation you'd use to determine how much fuel you'd need to launch a rocket to the moon!" I'd be like okay cool, but I never remember anything like that just bullshit examples or no examples at all and just how to solve for x, but what the fuck was X aside from an arbitrary variable? So lets say you were a chemist, depending on your expertise you'd only need to probably memorize only a certain set of ways on how to synthesize certain chemicals or whatever the fuck chemists do these days.
I can’t get past geometry. I don’t know if it’s the shapes or what but it just doesn’t click for me. I’ve retaken geometry courses 3 or 4 times now and no progress.
I’m so impressed you made it that far. I gave up on math in fourth grade when they started on long division. I’m in college, and I’m taking an algebra course. As soon as fractions were introduced, my brain stopped working.
Take a class where you need to use calculus to understand the subject matter. You'll understand calculus a lot better. 'Dynamics of Rotation' is one of those. AKA 'Why a bowling ball does what it does'...
Not trying to teach you in this one! But calc was tough on me too, I eventually got through it, and only saw it as something that is really cool after I tried to learn things PAST that. I think it seems like arbitrary nonsense because the first time through you're likely not understanding everything in how it fits into the larger picture. Once I learned higher mathematics, I saw calc as an interesting useful tool to solve harder problems, not just a pain in my ass
I was amazing at math through all of school until I hit college and tested into calculus. I had graduated highschool with algebra 2 and never saw pre-calc. The first day they had us do a derivative as a warmup to see what everyone could do. I had never even heard of "derivative" in reference to math. I failed, then took business Calc the next semester, and failed again
Calculus is just the study of lines and how they curve. Understanding how one line gives insight into another line using math. Like, when you derive line A to get line B, the height of line B at any one point is equal to the growth of line A. It's the same as the relationship between acceleration and velocity. Calculus studies the lines you get from graphing those things
A lot of teachers just get down to the grunt work and the process of solving integrals and derivatives without actually properly explaining the underlying concepts behind it. It never really clicked until I really understood the reinman sums and limits. Then it all clicked. The grunt work behind deriving and integrating is just shortcuts mathematicians came up with after years of taking the long path and finding patterns to shorten it up. The concepts behind those short cuts are actually pretty fascinating.
I did alright in Calc 1, most of Calc 2 made complete sense and I aced the class, multi variable calc is killing me right now
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it just takes a crap ton of practise. And the amount obviously varies from person to person. First time i learned calculus i had no fucking clue the entire semester and just memorised the processes rather than understanding it. The more times i relearned it at a higher level, the more understandable it became and the more mathematical insight i got. Im at university studying physics and engineering (second year) and im very comfortable using it now (finally) but it took a long time (and learning other areas of maths too) to get a good grip of it, especially how it applies to the real world.
I've had straight A's in every form of math you could think of. Math came to me like breathing. Then came senior year and calculus with it. I went down to C's in one semester than straight-up failed my first test this semester. I think I understand it, do well on some practice questions then the test comes and I fuck up entirely. I don't know why, but no matter what I do, I just feel dumber and dumber.
I actually made an account because of this thread because I don't think the simplicity of calculus, in general, has really been explained. It may have...there are a lot of comments about this.
A derivative is the rate of change of a function and an integral is the area under the curve between two constraints on the x-axis (usually time axis)
So, if you take a known function, an integral can tell you where it has been and a derivative can tell you where it should go (will go in a perfect or ideal world).
I heard a while back the physics is applied math and engineering is applied physics. I am an engineer and spend most of my time tuning and analyzing closed loop feedback loops (PID controllers). I use math on a daily basis (usually a combo of calculus and differential equations) and it made less sense in college because I didn't develope equations to describe processes, implement them on machinery and watch the math work. They were just numbers in school with no tangible evidence of why they were what they were.
To explain it in the hot topic of today (coronavirus)...when they say they want to flatten the curve, they want to derivative between to previous day to go to zero. Unfortunately, the integral will still not be a non zero number until no one dies.
The same thing happened to me, I got straight A's in math all the way till calculus where I flunked. I don't know what happened, math was my favorite subject
The reason I dropped out of college. When I was walked though a problem it didn't seem hard but just couldn't grasp the big picture to do other problems.
I had this problem too in high school and it was just as bad when I went to college for computer programming (mandatory math credit each year in the program). I finally understood it in third year math, because I had to write programs that took inputs and gave the correct outputs for specific algebraic and calculus functions. For me, all I needed was a practical context to get the "big picture" of it. I always have trouble retaining abstract concepts with no explanation of "why" to go with the "how".
I am calculus god, but statistics is a real chore here.
People are all wired differently.
[deleted] · 60 points · Posted at 20:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematician and professor here, and learning the way of thinking that course was trying to teach you is one of the biggest hurdles to understanding real mathematics.
There's a tremendous difference between the way you need to think to solve the typical middle school, high school and (for non math or perhaps physics majors) college math problem and the way you need to think like a mathematician.
Even in an engineering curriculum at a top 20 college, most math classes for non majors follow the procedure of "Here are some theoretical tools. Here are some examples of the problems you need to solve and a step by step process for solving them. Now repeat this back on your homework and the exam." Depending on how good your professor is, they may modify these problems to make you come up with a genuine idea or insight on your own. Still, most people can get away with memorizing the examples they were shown and applying the exact same technique or making a minor change to earn A's. Succeeding in these classes is just about figuring out which technique gets applied when and being able to follow the process you were taught.
In such proof based math classes like what you're talking about, problems are constructed where you not only have to figure out a chain of logic on your own, but you also have to have some genuine idea or insight for solving the problem that you weren't taught before. Then you have to provide an argument that rigorously justifies your chain of thinking leaving no doubt that your work is correct.
In pure math, if you could just follow a known step by step process to solve a problem, someone would have done it already. This sort of problem solving ability, creativity, logical reasoning ability, and the ability to craft such a formal argument is such a valuable, though incredibly difficult for most people, thing to learn. It's applicable and useful in all fields of life, and I think we should build math curricula to emphasize this sort of thinking early on in life.
zs15 · 7 points · Posted at 03:57:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the side of math that I always enjoyed.
When it stopped being a quiz and turned into a puzzle.
When I see parents ranting about common core math and how pointless it is, they really fail to realize that we recognize that their kids live in a world where calculators exist everywhere. Kids need to be taught how to problem solve and critically think.
Great post but this doesn't just apply to math. The problem sets in higher level physics course are very much "prove this relationship". I had a bunch of friends drop out of physics and go into math and they claimed the problems were much easier, but when I looked at their problems I had no clue where to start. I think math is way harder, my math friends think physics is harder. There really is a difference the thinking required for each.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:28:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I did try to give a brief nod to aspiring physicists (and in another thread, maybe even theoretical chemists), but you’re right that I skewed it very heavily toward math. To my knowledge, physics majors do have to learn to think like this too, perhaps to the same extent math majors do with a different focus (though I can’t say from experience).
And physics majors also likely experience the same discrepancy between intro physics that everyone has to take and their major courses which require them to think in new ways.
And I could maybe even tack on philosophy majors to some extent... they often have to go through formal logic.
I was fairly good in math classes back in school but proving was the one area where I did exceptionally well and had no idea why or how to teach others to get what I did. Something just clicks in my head and the logic seems so obvious to me that when classmates ask me to how I constructed the argument, I can't break it down into anything other than "if this, then the next steps are that". It was the only exam I finished in half the time as others and got full marks in. Went into a science degree with very little math but sometimes I wonder if I should have gone into a more math-oriented one.
I'm shit at geometry though because we had a bad teacher that year and everyone failed his exams (even those on the honor roll). The math department had to investigate and strike out a lot of items because they were invalid (and even then only 10% of us passed). Bad teachers can wreck even good students.
I'm very curious, what field of math do you work in?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:37:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm a pure mathematician who works in number theory, which is (extremely broadly and vaguely), about finding integer solutions to equations and studying the tools that have developed from it. Though I'm sure fellow number theorists would raise a thousand objections to that definition...
And my apologies if you already know what that is. :)
I'm about to start my PhD in applied math, so I have a decent idea of what number theory is although I've only taken an introductory undergraduate course. But for anyone else reading it's useful to have that
Curious how you make a living doing number theory? Also, is there a particular problem you'd like to solve someday?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 00:44:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a professor and I consider teaching my primary job. That’s most of the motivation for my career. I’ve always liked the impacts I could have teaching far more than doing math research. I spend free time teaching talented younger kids math what I think is “the right way,” too. I’d even really like to pursue curriculum development and try to reshape math education...
But for now being a professor requires research, too. And obviously I find it interesting. :)
Unfortunately outside of academia (in my opinion) there’s little you can do with research math if it’s pure math. No one really pays people to think about problems without clear potential applications. Which makes sense, of course. There are applications of my field to areas in cryptography, particularly, but I’ve always just wanted to teach at a college level more than pursue those.
Pure math research is a different beast because a lot of it seems completely irrelevant and the stuff that does become relevant is unpredictable.
Oh there are dream problems I’d love to conquer, but there are way more talented mathematicians than I who will take them down. You hit a point where you realize how hard these things really are. I’ve got smaller ones I work on but they’re rather specialized, and I hope they’ll be pieces of the puzzle for someone who knocks down a big one.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:08:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In such proof based math classes like what you're talking about, problems are constructed where you not only have to figure out a chain of logic on your own, but you also have to have some genuine idea or insight for solving the problem that you weren't taught before
Except if you were my high school math teacher! He took a proofs class in uni where they looked at over 100 proofs over the course of the year. The final exam consisted of 10 proofs. Guess what he did!? Memorized every proof from the course and got 100 on the final exam.
Arithmetic (up through Calculus) is useful to so many different fields, that it makes sense everyone is front loaded with that topic. But, it scares off everyone from ever learning what math is.
It would be nice if Theory and Numerics were two separate subjects (like Physics and Chemistry). Unfortunately, school days are already overloaded, and there isn't a good option to get rid of to open a slot.
I hated that year in general, proofs basically were just explaining each step you did with a property that is almost common knowledge at that level of math, and they for some reason feel the need to make us write it all out
I had a lot of trouble with math past 8th grade, I think year 9? I always worked out everything in my head or on a calculator, and having to write out all the useless shit was just annoying to me so I never did it until I was forced to with that
Dude, I'm past that part now, and I still hate the proofs, cause even if I remember how to do something, but forget the name of the fúcking property for it, the entire question is wrong, cause I got one of those teachers, it just wasn't fair half the time, all my math teachers past that have been annoying or stare at you like they want to kill you if you ask any question
Never forget that it isn't math, or you, that sucks, it's your teachers. If you know how to do the proofs but don't remember the names, you're still doing the math right. Answering questions about the material is literally the job of a teacher and any decent teacher will enjoy doing it. Just keep an open mind towards math, there's a lot of cool stuff you can understand and make with it. In college we used proofs to understand how computers work and what their limitations are, it was one of my favorite classes.
to be fair though, what isnt stupid and pointless to a 16 year old high school kid? shakespeare? the civil war? mathematics is at heart about proofs, and writing proofs is really the only thing that research mathematicians do.
ill defend proofs forever, theyve done more to further my understanding of math than any integral or irrelevant computation ever could.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Research mathematicians basically never write at that level of detail.
Malco_ · 3 points · Posted at 00:28:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're objectively wrong, the thing that makes pure math powerful in ways that other sciences aren't is that whatever we know in math is absolute, and that is because of proofs. Physics relies on theories that can be disproven, and with any physics thing we are usually just "pretty sure" that it's true, with lots of physical evidence to back it up. Research mathematicians often start with evidence that something is the case, then try to formally prove it. Without proofs, mathematicians cannot get anywhere.
Unless if you're talking about applied math, then yeah you're probably right.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:49:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't say "proofs are bad". I was referring to geometry class
[deleted] · 42 points · Posted at 20:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason proofs are commonplace in geometry is because if at its core, math is about logic and understanding. The reason many students hate proofs is that they are used to rote memorization and formulas that they don't truly understand, so thinking critically and mathematically is foreign to them. Geometry is the point where you really can't continue without some knowledge of proofs, although they really should be introduced much earlier.
My mom said that she really struggled with proofs when she first took geometry in high school. Later on, when proofs came back into the equation in like, her sophomore year of college, she had taken a logic class. All of a sudden, it made perfect sense.
This was one of the biggest changes of pace for me when I got to uni for sure
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:36:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry proofs in US HS aren't really about "thinking critically". Mathematicians basically never work directly at that level of detail, because it's just so verbose and boring. And from what I saw it isn't really completely formal either, so basically it's just yet another thing to make people hate math.
i never had an issue with writing down every single step of solving a problem (i kind of needed to do that in order to understand/process it fully, and actually remember it. mental maths has never been my strong point). it was just writing down (e.g.) “X AND Z ARE BOTH 55 DEGREES BECAUSE OPPOSITE ANGLES ARE EQUAL” every time (IN FULL) i wanted to answer a trig question.
Good for you then, I just can't write out that much because to me it seems pointless wasting the time and effort to write the extra work instead of just saying 55
in my school, i HAD to write it all down otherwise you lose like, most of the marks for the question. i do think it’s stupid to write out that much, i wouldn’t have done it if i didn’t have to.
I majored in math and I hated this phase too. Honestly, in a lot of higher maths, proofs just become "show your work" again, plus whatever you need to write down to keep your own thought process straight. Because in a lot of higher math, it's not about explaining "step A leads to step B leads to step C" and going into painstaking detail over A, B, and C when A, B, and C are all common knowledge. It goes more along the lines of "I have no idea what to do here. Let me try to reframe it until I can find somewhere to start, and prove that the way that I'm reframing it isn't changing something esesntial."
In other words, proofs exist so that when someone says "wait why tf did you just go from talking about apples to oranges?" you've explained to them "well, someone else already made this conclusion about oranges, but they only use these properties that also apply to my apples, so I can piggyback off of their work to conclude something about my apples."
Math educator here! Most of math education through high school and early college is designed to train you to be an engineer - as far as math is concerned, that means to perform rapid and accurate computations. Sure, there are modern movements to build in some understanding of those computations, but none of it is designed to get you to think like a mathematician. Mathematicians prove theorems, they don't focus as much on computations. Computations are sometimes necessary but rarely sufficient. So all of a sudden, you're asked to prove things, and the toy examples you're given are so trivial that it seems pointless to even bother. It's a completely different thing. Imagine if you spent 10-12 years learning carpentry, and all of a sudden you were expected to be an architect.
Absolutely agreed. I’ve heard that the implicit training to be an engineer is a holdover from the days of the Cold War. I haven’t checked that myself yet, but it seems fairly believable.
Cold war but specifically the launch of Sputnik in 1957, I believe. Americans don't like to lose, and we're still salty over the Soviets getting a satellite up before we did. It's amazing how that one event altered the national mindset about what math education is for.
I mean, sadly, education policy has been atrocious since 2000 and shows no signs of improving. Betsy DeVos is a new low, I can only hope that a new administration will appoint someone with actual expertise.
Edit: I would chuckle if Cheeto called PISA at al. "fake tests" though.
Honestly proofs are difficult to teach and can be difficult to understand. I also took proofs in Year 10 and felt it was very out of place from the other mathematics courses I took around the time.
You are right, proofs are about proving the equation is right. It is less about maths as you would normally think about maths, and more into logic and generalization. As an example: Using normal maths (as people typically think about maths) you can show that all angles of a specific triangle equal 180 degrees. Proofs are a way of showing / "proving" that the angles of ALL triangles equal 180 degrees.
The biggest problem with proofs (and a lot of maths imo) is it forces you to learn a completely new language (symbolic logic) at the same time you are learning a new concept. Like an alien cooking show, you are expected to learn the alien language while still being able to make the recipe they are describing. So don't feel bad about not understanding what the teacher was saying, it is very difficult to understand something when someone is teaching a foreign language and "logic recipes" at the same time.
A friend sent me an article called "A Mathematician's Lament" a while back. I think it's excellently written, and everyone who has ever had gripes about math education should read it. Granted, it's long, but it gives a good idea of what actual mathematicians care about.
That paper has done wonders for helping the community explain its significance to the rest of the world. Really great writing.
XaWEh · 130 points · Posted at 15:07:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's sad... usually people are either good at understanding mathematical concepts or they are bad. I think if you pick up, where you left of you might see some success again.
That said, I have never heard of anyone, who had to understand the concept of mathematical proof in 10th grade. Perhaps some examples (for example some visual proof for the pythagorean theorem) but not in general.
Yeah, I definitely did them in geometry, and I'm pretty sure geometry was the standard 10th grade math in my district. I don't know if every class had to do them, though.
I hated them in geometry because it didn't matter to my teacher if you understood and wrote out everything, you had to remember the specific name of the concept for each step as well. Also because she played country music in class.
The majority of geometry is remembering theorems and putting them together to make proofs or remembering theorems to use them in mathematical equations.
Yeup, and that was our 10th Grade math class, and the last one required to graduate, so we got all of the "this is dumb, I'm never going to use this in life!" Every. Single. Fucking. Day. Granted, I also hate proofs, but bitching wont make it go away.
That’s frustrating. But a “proof” is just a formal mathematical argument that some statement is true. If you ever start with a collection of known information and use it to arrive at a conclusion, then you’re doing the same thing.
I know, but I hate having to record every little tiny thing to prove what, to me, was quite directly intuitive in the first place. Proofs are what pushed me into chemistry, rather than theoretical physics as my career path.
I function quite well with my ADHD, most of the time, but having to slow down and backtrack Every. Single. Step was literally torture for me
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually you won't have to prove something so simple. In this case your proof is correct if we have the restriction x>=0. Proving solutions of equations is such a small part of mathematics, it's too bad the American system has such a huge emphasis on applied math (or maybe that's a good thing!)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah my high school geometry had "proofs" but I didn't learn other methods of proof until second year of under grad. The highschool geometry proofs is mostly solving problems and writing reasons why you can perform each step.
usually people are either good at understanding mathematical concepts or they are bad.
I take a bit of issue with this because I really don't think there are people who are just "naturally" bad at math. It far, far more often comes down to how math is taught, particularly in the US historically, wherein math education was based in rote memorization, algorithms, and "tricks" rather than developing deep understanding of logic and mathematical concepts.
I have found that many people I've interacted with who felt they were "bad" at math were just never taught math in a conceptual, grounded way. Once they were shown the "how" and "why" of mathematical concepts, they had no issue applying that foundation to new topics and ideas.
Thankfully, mathematical pedagogy has changed a lot in recent years and students now are being taught how to think about math, not just what steps to take in what order to solve one specific problem.
No doubt. One of my favourite examples that everyone will be able to get is not knowing why the fraction division rule is "flip and multiply" on an intuitive level. I believe the improvements in pedagogy you mention is the "common core" down in the states?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let a and b be rational numbers.
a/b
=(a/1)(1/b)
=a(1/b)
Remember, 1/x is the number multiplied by x to get 1, which is intuitively the reciprocal of a fraction. That's the intuition.
That is a PERFECT example. I tutored for intro economics courses in college and there is a monster equation for calculating elasticity that involves a fraction divided by a fraction. So many students simply had no idea how to begin tackling the problem because they had no intuitive understanding of what fractions are or how to work with them.
Also the elasticity equation is a great example of understanding concepts v. rote memorization - I have never once "memorized" an elasticity formula. But if you understand what they are measuring, you don't need to because the formula follows clearly from having that understanding.
But seriously, how many people need to understand why we flip and multiply on a day to day basis? That information is practically useless for 99.99% of students. I feel like so much of the curriculum we learned was a waste of time.
That's true, not a lot of people run into specific math constructs through their entire life. However, data skills and data analysis skills are increasingly important and useful these days, as are logical thinking skills (which contribute directly to things like programming skills). And all of those skills are much more strongly associated with learning and understanding a concept and how it works than by memorizing a rule without knowing anything about why it works that way.
I graduated high school more than two decades ago and besides the most basic of algebra problems I've never had to deal with proofs or anything more advanced.
As a (mechanical) engineering student, pretty much everything we learn is useless to most people, unless you're an engineer. But what I really love about engineering is how it's developed (and continues too develop) my ability to solve problems and just understand how the world works. The more I learn, the more fascinated I become. I think everyone could benefit from learning the most fundamental things of physics, math, and engineering. That is how the world go round (literally). And to expand that further, everyone can benefit from learning things outside of their required knowledge base (as in what they need to know to do their job).
Exactly, this is 100% why I can’t understand algebra whatsoever. No shade to my teacher, she was just trying to get us to pass the regents, which I did, but I have absolutely no idea how or why anything works, I don’t know what a log does, I don’t know what kind of vodo devil magic the calculator does that you can put in “sin(4)” and end up with something like a negative decimal or whatever, I have no idea how or why functions work like they do. You’re completely right, all I know is that if I memorize the 8 step process of say completing the square, I’ll get the right answer, Hell I don’t even know why it’s called completing the square
Math is just a game with rules for what moves are allowed, and most of the time there's multiple ways to win. It really is the same thing as a puzzle, there's got to be better ways of teaching it like that.
It's pretty wild how no one saw that tying a school's funding to test results will get you a test-taking-centre as opposed to a learning-centre. your math career got done dirty :( If you were born in Finland it might've been a completely different story. Not to hate on your jurisdiction or anything but...
It’s called completing the square because you’re literally making the polynomial factor like it was a squared number.
Take (x+1)2=x2+2x+1 for example. If I change it just a bit to x2+2x-1 then... well shit how do I factor it now? Well I already know how to factor it if I had x2+2x+1. So let’s make it look like that. I know I need a +1 so let’s write -1=+1-2. Then
x2+2x-1=(x2+2x+1)-2=(x+1)2-2
Oh shit look now it would really easy to find zeroes. We’ve completed the square to make the zeroes easier to calculate.
I would like to try to answer these two examples and we will see if they make sense.
You know how division and multiplication are "opposites" and cancel each other? Logs are the opposite of exponents. The two log systems we use most often are base 10 and base e (called the natural log). So lets start with 10. 10 squared is 100. Log10(100) = 2. The answer you get from the log is the power needed to get to the number in parenthesis from the base. 10 is used because its convenient, but you can actually use any base you want. Log10(100) = 2, and log5(25) = 2, because both of the numbers in parenthesis are the base squared. The other one, natural log or ln, just happens to be extremely useful because e is "randomly" a super useful constant in math and science. Its actually not randon at all, but it takes some upper level calculus to understand why, so unfortunately youll just have to take my word on that one. But yeah, thats logs. Log10(x) = y is just asking the question "what power do i raise 10 to to get x?" And inversely "what number do i get when i raise 10 to y?" One final example, log10(3.1622) = 1/2, because 3.1622 is (close to) the square root of 10.
For sin, and cos for that matter, its all based on circles. Im gunna use degrees even though theyre awful because theyre what most people are familiar with. If you draw a circle with radius 1 it has a couple near properties. The one we care about right now is its relation to sine and cosine. You remember coordinate systems, like (1,2) being 1 in the x and 2 in the y? The entire circle is plotted on (cos,sin). So any given point of the circle is expressed in the x coordinate by cos of some number and sin of the same number. If you type in 90 degrees, as the argument, it draws a 90 degree angle starting from (1,0), and ends up with a line going straight up, represented by (0,1). Thus, cos(90) is 0 and sin(90) [degrees] is 1. That principal works the same way for any argument. Once you get to 360 degrees it just wraps back around, because youre on a circle, so cos(470) (90+360) is also 0.
I agree with whoever posted Lockharts Lament, mathematics isnt actually taught in school; what is taught is some of the findings and principals that have fallen out because of mathematical studies. That being said, i do think understanding WHY some of the things we are taught in math works are really important. Explaining logs like that tends to work, not necessarily intuitively, but once its laid out in that format ive found people tend to pick up on it.
I would like to know if these helped your understanding at all. I understand youre probably not likely to use any of this if youre no longer a student, but applied math isnt witchcraft at all. Some of it needs calculus to really explain why it isnt witchcraft, but most of it doesnt. I am a professional enginner and part time math tutor and would like to know how well i did explaining this.
You did awesome, I’ve been wondering for so long what any of that means, in the fall I’m going to college to major in chemistry, and calculus is one of the courses I have to take so I’ve been nervous, but if my professors explain it as well as that then I guess it wouldn’t really be so bad
Calculus isnt as bad as people tend to make it out to be. The problem with calculus is its entirely different than any math youve done before. Its like going from algebra to geometry, with calculus being geometry and literally every other math youve done to this point is "algebra". The thing that makes it hard is youre simultaneously learning a new language and solving problems that can only be expressed in that language.
But at a base level calculus is just looking at rates of change. Youve probably heard scary words like derivative and integral while talking about calculus. A derivative is just a rate of change. Its a slope of a line. If you have the line y=2x, the slope is 2. The derivative of 2x is also 2. Whats neat about taking derivatives is they allow you to learn "slopes" of things like quadratic functions, which dont exactly have a "slope" in the normal sense. The derivative of a quadratic is a function itself, so the slope is constantly changing. Thats pretty intuitive, if you just look at a quadratic you can see that it is progressively and constantly getting more and more steep.
Derivatives in day to day life that youre probably familiar with: position, velocity, and acceleration. The slope of a position function is its velocity, and velocities derivative is acceleration.
Integrals are just opposite-derivatives. If you take the integral of an acceleration function youll get velocity, and then position. If you have a curve (in math-speak, everything is a curve, even a straight line) where the derivative is the slope of the curve, the integral is the area under the curve.
College level calculus classes are just teaching you the techniques that let you solve deeper and more fundamental math. In a way its beautiful because it gives you a peak behind the curtain, kind of. Have you ever wondered in physics classes like why position is that whole function with 1/2at2 at the end? And your teacher was just kind of like "listen, man, thats just how it works."? That fact, position function being defined that way, is a natural consequence of applying calculus principles to acceleration.
Unfortunately calculus takes a fair amount of work to "get", and its kind of frontloaded where it will seem nonsensical while youre doing it. But for most of my classmates when i took it, we all got to a point where everything just clicked into place and it retroactively made EVERY OTHER MATH we had ever taken make more sense. And thats just kind of profound.
Like i said, im a math tutor on the side and i enjoy doing calculus as an exercise because i dont use it much in my day to day, so if you ever run into whatever and need someone to listen hit me up.
I just made a passing grade with all my high school math classes. Then I had to take a placement math test at community college. I was placed in the lowest math class - their high school math class.
It didn’t even count toward any kind of real math credit. I learned fractions and how to do long division again. I took great note in class, learned to ask questions and really took my time on my homework. I got an A.
Went onto basic algebra. Did the same thing. I even took extra time to recheck all my answers on my exams and was always the last one in class those days. I got As on all my exams and one of only two people to not have to take the final.
Went on to college level algebra. Got another A and went onto to stats where I got a B.
None of it ever came naturally to me. Some days I took between 4-8 hours to do my homework because I had trouble understanding why an answer came out one way and the textbook had a different answer than me. I wouldn’t move onto until I understood how to do the problem correctly. I would take the time before an exam and do practice tests. I put in the time and got good grades, but even now, years later, I struggle with math.
Exactly, and it's a shame, because exactly the point where the system of rote memorization and algorithms starts to break down is ALSO the point where math really starts getting interesting! Statistics is a great example, because you just cannot get a grasp on probability theory based on rote memorization and algorithms; you have to understand the how and why. And that is a darned shame because probability and statistics are really interesting and they are also an area of math people really do engage with in their everyday life.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:12:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a bit of a different situation - dyscalculia is specifically a difficulty with numbers and arithmetic. You can have dyscalculia and still be very good at math (which at certain levels tends to involve very little arithmetic and few numbers). I tutored a close friend with dyscalculia to prepare for her GED and my experience with that lends me to believe that folks with dyscalculia benefit *even more* from an emphasis on understanding how and why, rather than rote formulas or algorithms.
That said, I'm really sorry you are dealing with dyscalculia, which is both really hard and also not nearly as well understood or managed as its partner dyslexia. A lot of my time tutoring my friend was spent giving her a shoulder to cry on because she could do all the work right but make a mathematical "typo" and arrive at the wrong answer. Particularly hard on standardized tests where they intentionally put those typo-answers in the list of options to trip people up. I can't imagine the frustration.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't know all that much about sports or coaching (I know at least a bit about math and teaching math) but I would guess that most people can probably be coached to a basic level of kinesthetic awareness and ability.
Some people probably have a bit of a head start, but whether it’s genetic is very uncertain. Likely it’s a combination of lots of variables. But what we do seem to agree on is that people can learn mathematics if they treat it like any other skill and practice!
The problem with "proofs" is that they're often presented as being fundamentally different from showing your work on regular math problems when they really aren't. The only real difference between a proof and a regular problem is that problems are generally looking for a solution, e.g. "solve for x," whereas proofs are looking for something more akin to "demonstrate why x = y for any arbitrary value of x given these constraints." The only reason it's any more confusing than basic algebra a lot of the time is because teachers demand you use some weird format for explaining in words what you're doing with each step of showing your work with very poorly defined guidelines.
I remember when I was in school, nearly every math teacher or professor had their own standards for how they wanted proofs presented. Some wanted proofs in a structured sequence of steps next to brief explanations in plain English. Some wanted that but instead of plain English, they just wanted you to reference some theorem or identity that you used in that step which was especially frustrating because it required you to remember not just the theorems themselves and the reasoning behind them, but also some arbitrary name assigned to that particular substitution. Some just straight up wanted paragraphs with equations jammed into sentences. Almost all of them would take off points arbitrarily even if you clearly understood the problem and explained your work thoroughly enough that someone else could understand because you maybe glossed over a "by the transitive property of x=y=z we can simplify this by substituting x for z" since you figured it was obvious enough what you did to the reader.
At the end of the day, a proof is basically just a demonstration of why some mathematical statement is either true or false. The only reason "proofs" have a weird intimidating air about them is because teachers overemphasize the importance of the medium by which you present the proof instead of the actual math behind it. It's "medium is the message" taken to its absolute limits of absurdity, to the point that many people don't even understand what proofs even are walking away from the class.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 17:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm so bad at understanding math that I think it's a learning disorder.
People aren’t really at fixed levels of mathematical skill... it also makes sense that math gets harder to understand as you get older. I loved math until my second semester of college, where it was my worst class. Now I avoid it at all costs
I hated math until my freshman year of college, when I'd picked Geology, B.S. literally out of a hat and College Algebra was the first prerequisite in my way. Ended up taking Calc III and Fundamental Methods of Proofing as electives because I liked it so much.
It's been a while but I'm pretty sure I was doing proofs by grade 9 or 10 but it was an accelerated program so we were a year ahead of standard NY schedule, in the late nineties.
The basic ones aren't super difficult, and it was mostly just introducing us into the concepts involved in formal proofs.
I’m good at conceptual math, but bad at actual operations. 10th grade geometry is all about how to prove that what you’re looking at is actually related, or not related, the way it’s stated.
Honors geometry in 10th grade was like all proofs for homework. You do learn how to prove Pythagorean theorem at some point obviously, but geometry is mainly proofs and a small portion of time is spent on sin cos tan and that stuff
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XaWEh · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you're correct, but I enjoy math and like to see others enjoy it aswell... not every skill needs to have value in day to day life. Next to that math is the foundation of science and as such is often required to understand concepts in completely different subjects... which you don't need either.
Don’t give up! Everybody hits a wall somewhere. It just means you’re learning. Bang your head against that wall hard enough and you’ll break right through it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:41:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Proofs are widely despised by otherwise mathematically competent people. I think because they are seldom taught as an independent topic with the structure and formality of other concepts.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was the other way around for me, once it started to be less about the answer and more about the process I was suddenly good at maths, weird stuff
Proofs for me felt like the process of proving something to be 100% true beyond a shadow of a doubt mathematically and logically instead of just using your eyes, it seemed super dumb when the answer was clear, but I’d imagine for higher level math, the only thing you can prove things for sure with is more math and logic
Yes this is exactly the point. The significance of proving things formally becomes much clearer when it isn’t obvious to you already. It’s about putting yourself on firm logical ground.
For example imagine you wanted to prove that n2<2n for every natural number n. You could try to plug in numbers for n and see if it’s true, and you would probably find a lot of them. But how do you know there isn’t some number way out there that you haven’t tried, for which the inequality fails? You can’t! There are infinitely many of them.
To prove this you could use mathematical induction which is much like setting up and knocking down a line of dominoes. That’s where proofs are useful.
It's not too hard of a concept. Imagine you have a line of dominos and you want to show that everything will fall at the end. Well first you show that the first one falls ( so 1 < 2) and then you show that domino k has to fall if all the other dominos before it fall. Then you are done with the proof
My dad’s trying to teach himself calculus during the virus as he never managed to learn it in high school, and he’s realizing it’s because there are a bunch of tiny details he never paid attention to that turn out to be super important in math (like (a + b)(a - b)=a2 - b2 ) and it hurts a lot of math students.
ya, its pretty hard to do calculus without a really good understanding of everything that comes before it. trig ids, quadratics, all pre-calc function stuff never really goes away.
That’s awesome! Yeah those little tricks are really important tools for more complicated stuff. Tell him to make sure he knows his trigonometry and polynomials!
I got severely left behind in mathematics during 8th grade when we started algebra. They put up an equation, okay, but then they said in order to solve it, you first had to make both sides equal so they subtracted from one side and just added to the other and it threw my brain for such a goddam loop I had no idea what was happening. I just barely managed to get by in math classes from thenceforth, mostly earning Ds but grabbing any and all extra credit that I could, simply because of that one concept. It was everywhere, and in everything
Yup i'm in the same boat as you, i completely lost concept of math after 8th grade.
AgAero · 5 points · Posted at 23:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So to clarify a bit:
The act of writing an 'equation' with an equals sign means that from the very beginning you are saying 'these two things are exactly equal.' Algebraic manipulations that follow are all based on this one simple fact. Everything that you're 'allowed' to do must not change this fact, or it is an invalid operation.
It sounds like your teacher skipped a step that they thought seemed obvious. Starting with my comment in (1), the manipulation you're describing is actually two steps. The first step is 'subtract the same thing from both sides'. This first step does not change the underlying fact that both sides of the equation must be equal at all times. The second step is to 'simplify' both sides. i.e. if you had 3x+1 = 4 and you subtract 1 from both sides, you get 3x + 1 - 1 = 4 - 1. After you 'simplify', you get 3x + 0 = 3 or rather, 3x = 3.
When teachers say 'move the 1 to the other side' they actually mean they're doing both of these steps in succession. You can't just arbitrarily take from one side and give to the other because this breaks the underlying proposition that the left side must equal the right side at all times.
What you're really doing is taking from both sides, then simplifying.
Math was my favorite subject until 8th grade algebra. Math is now my least favorite subject. If only the teacher hadn't been the yell at you for not getting it in the first place kind of teacher
That’s really unfortunate. Most of those types of professors just handle stress and failure poorly. They’re often frustrated because they either don’t care or don’t understand it enough to see how to help you. I bet if you tried again you could do it no problem. Just try to stay away from people who yell at you for dumb reasons.
Hey, it was the exact same for me! Loved math and it was easy so 10th grade went to honors geometry but missed the first day because they put me in normal geometry by accident. Literally was behind and never caught up. Confused the entire time. Took it again in community college and immediately couldn't believe how easy it was. I breezed my way and aced that class. My teacher was obviously very precise and had great packet notes for every chapter with practice problems for in class and all the definitions/theorems/postulates etc. I seriously bet if you had to take a course on it again you'd grasp it. It's more so remembering certain steps so it all adds up together. Very basic definitions (a line is two points and a line is also 180 degree angle) and you build from there with what you can show.
Yes! It’s so much easier when you’re building the arguments from fundamental principles. Math has this nasty habit of forcing you to have to remember just about everything you’ve ever learned.
Hohst · 3 points · Posted at 19:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had your exact same problem until I did formal logical proofs in college. Doing those I realized it's kind of like playing with legos. All you're doing is stacking "blocks" of previously established knowledge on top of each other repeatedly to get to a certain shape. Just learn what kind of bricks you're playing with and which fit together, and you're basically done.
Similar experience here. I was good at maths (including geometry etc) as long as could see some real world use scenario for what I was doing. Like, being able to calculate angles and the lenghts of the sides of a triangle makes sense. Being able to calculate the volume of a weirdly shaped container makes sense.
But when stuff like derivations where introduced, it was almost like hitting a brick wall. I had no idea what I was doing and, more importantly, why we were doing that.
It’s like building an argument in court or for why you should get a puppy. Sometimes you just have to try a bunch of different options and after a while maybe you’ll settle on something that seems more likely to work.
Let's take your should I get a puppy example. It was as if the teacher asked me to decide on a puppy but I had never seen or heard of dogs before. That's what calculus was like for me.
That’s common. We have a pretty bad system of preparing students for things like calculus and a LOT of inefficiencies in the school system. You should never feel like calculus is impossible for you though! If just helps to have the necessary background and to have someone who can tell you what it’s all about.
John Von Neumann was one of the most intelligent mathematicians of the 20th century. Absolutely brilliant genius who wrote about 900? novel papers if I recall correctly and designed the architecture for one of the first computers. He would occasionally solve open problems within minutes of hearing them.
A student once asked him how he could better understand mathematics. Von Neumann told him “Young man, in mathematics you don’t understand things. You just get used to them.”
For me, that point was reached near the end of Numerical Methods in grad school. I was an OR Masters student in a class with Mathematics PhD students. All was good and fine for the vast majority of the course. I might have been a bit slower, but I understood. Near the end, I threw in the towel though. I couldn't deal with half-derivatives, doing Fourier in Lp spaces, blah blah blah. I found my point, it's right about the point you have to be really brilliant, and I realized I was not. That's okay, it was cool watching them do magic the last few weeks though.
Don’t be afraid of them! Proving things in math is all about just trying things! Sometimes something works and sometimes it doesn’t. It’s like trying to build an argument for why your parents should let you have a pet. You need good supporting reasons and evidence that your reasons are good ones.
The reason why proofs exist in math is because in math you have to verify that an observation, ie two odd numbers added will always equal an even number, is true across the entire spectrum of possible scenarios that can involve both infinitely large numbers and infinitely small numbers.
For example proving what I just stated: two odd numbers when added up will always equal an even number.
You would start by defining what is an odd number for the basis of the proof: in this case one greater than an even number would logically be an odd number, no?
So even number: 2x
Odd number: 2x +1
These simple definitions can be expected to hold true no matter what x is, as long as x is a whole number.
Our assumption: 2 odd numbers added will always equal an even number.
Thé contradiction to this is: 2 odd numbers added will always equal an odd number.
Because both cannot possibly be true, we will attempt to prove the latter, our contradiction, and, if our contradiction to our assumption cannot be proven, then our assumption would therefore then have to be true by default.
So what happens when we attempt to add two odd numbers:
So to explain what I just did I took our earlier definitions of an even number, assigned two separate integers of a and b to x, and algebraically added them up, and simplified the answer to 2(a + b + 1)
So what is this answer 2(a + b + 1)?
Because the numbers a, b, and 1 are all housed inside the parentheses it can then be assumed that they would all simply add up to another integer, we will name this integer C
So 2(a + b + 1) = 2(c) = 2c where a + b + 1 all add up to C.
So using out earlier definitions we established for even and odd numbers 2c is not of the form 2x + 1, or else it would have simplified to 2(a +b) + 1, not 2(a +b + 1).
So therefore if 2 odd numbers did not add up to an odd number, then by contradiction they must add up to an even number.
Thats would be a very simple proof I did for you using the method proof by contradiction. As you can see the difference between what I did and simply observing something like 3 + 3 = 6, is that what I did holds true for ever whole number in existence as I represented the concept of a whole number as variables and proved the relationships between these variables.
While this probably wasn’t the type of proof you were told to prove, the concept of proving things in math is very commonplace. Think about everytime you solved a math problem it’s more like a single observation, you solved it and observed the answer, but behind that there’s a concept that holds true in which that problem stems from, proving that concept is what a proof is. I hope this helped.
Everybody hits walls sooner or later. Even prodigies. Sometimes you just have to fight to break through the wall. If you’re every interested in it again I bet you’d be able to break your wall.
yeah, when I was struggling through those two classes, MTV still played music videos. I don't have much desire to break that wall at this point in my life.
Americans can’t handle that level of math so who knows!
PabV99 · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This so goddamn much. I went from As straight to Ds at around that age. I was even taught at age 9 how to divide decimals because a teacher saw I was really good at arithmetic, and then from age 12 till 16 (the contests were over after that) I won every year an arithmetic and vocabulary contest we had.
Pretty interesting. I was bad at math up until year 10, when we finally looked at the bigger picture of mathmatics (equations, variables, proofs, calculus etc.). I couldn't wrap my head around maths as long as we just used numbers all the time
Im in college right now, I have a course called discrete math which is almost entirely composed of proofs, which is bad for me since I was always bad at proofs, could never wrap my head around them
Same for me! Always been pretty good with math. Was in honors mat classes throughout middle and high school. But when I hit the part of geometry where we did proofs, it all went sideways. I just couldn't get it. I got nothing but top grades in math every other semester of my schooling, but just barely made it with a C that semester.
No longer getting it happens to just about every student somewhere along the way. Learning is hard. But keep chilling away at it and you can accomplish just about anything!
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you like your job? I keep on seeing engineers turn into YouTubers and switching careers. Is that the norm or fringe cases?
Im a software engineer and I feel the software engineering field is pretty good right now. Pay is high, work life balance is good, benefits are good. I majored in Computer Science in college and I personally do believe it’s a good major.
I think a huge reason there’s so many software engineers turned YouTubers is the whole sell shovels during a gold rush thing. People are flocking left and right to learn coding and get into the field. So they are opportunistically attempting to take advantage of that and use their expertise to make some extra money on the side. And I say on the side because a lot of them do still work as software engineers, such as myoko, joma tech, jabrills, Im not sure if Jarvis Landry still does or not. But a lot do.
And to put it realistically, most of them work in SV, where they probably make 150-200k a year. The amount of time and subscriber count you would need to earn that on YouTube and offset that pay is pretty hard to achieve, so for many it is more of a side hustle.
I mean, the engineering line of math is typically computational. It’s not surprising that you “still” don’t understand proofs because they’re generally not emphasized to engineers.
Haha good god PDEs is such a clusterfuck to me. I guarantee it’s because I haven’t sat down and tried to find proper derivations for things. But also some of the tricks they use are just pure nonsense evil magic.
So I'd look at the equation and go "I need to do this, because this" and find the proof that fit... before following the steps that went with that proof to do the numbers portion. And somehow the numbers would be right, the reasoning would be right, but the proof would be wrong every. Single. Time.
And Mr. Whats-his-face (Aka: Mr. You're-all-taking-this-class-because-you're-going-to-be-engineers-at-NASA-not-because-its-a-fucking-requirement) could never make it make any sense to me
Its not like my notes were wrong, all of the tests were open note so I'd just copy the important examples and every highlighted section into my notebook.
You ever have an argument with your parents or a family member, maybe a significant other? You know you’re right, but they don’t believe you until you force them to by making a case? The same way a lawyer presents facts of a case in court to show their client is innocent.
That’s a proof. It’s just an argument. The only difference in math is that you have to use a formal logic system and some pre-determined rules.
Example: Squaring an odd number always gives you an odd number.
Proof:
Odd numbers always look like 2n+1.
If we square that we get (2n+1)2=4n2+4n+1.
Factoring out a 2 we get 2(2n2+2n)+1.
Since the part in parentheses is an integer we have a number of the form 2k+1. So it’s odd!
But I'd get the math right, following the using the right logic, but the rule that pointed me to was ALWAYS wrong.
He'd grade each proof out of three points - the final answer, the math to get there, and the proof that went with it and I'd get a 2/3 every time. It was so stupid.
God fucking damn I hated doing mathematical proofs.
"Prove that the sum of two consecutive odd numbers is a multiple of 4." - Nah fuck off, it's already been proved by someone else, 'cause you now the answer, and the chances of me being one of those people who spend their lives working over intense mathematical proofs for decaddes is pretty damn slim, so kindly save that bullshit for people who do a degree who actually want to know this. It was bad enough when letters were added, now I have to tell you, the people teaching me, why what I'm being taught works? Get to fuck...
My resentment from Maths A-Levels is still brewing...
Don't get me wrog I know it's not rational and it is invaluabele oth to society and for some people's enjoyment. I'm even quite goo at it when I put my head to it and try, it just brings out an irrational level of seething in me when I struggle that makes me want to either vent (as above), or ram my head into a desk at Mach 3.
I have great respect for people that do maths for their work though, it takes perseverance and patience that I lack...
Nah mate its chill. I was ranting, so I wasn't exactly talking in a way that didn't make me look like an arse. And you weren't wrong. I just like a good rant sometimes, logic be damned lol
I was always great at math. Went to college and am a physics major. Motion of objects? Crush it. Relativity? Really interesting. Quantum mechanics? Ok, sure, so I just do the... wait, so this equation represents the... that’s not it. Ok, what about... no, wrong again.
Ive always admired people who are great at maths. Honestly even simple stuff was hard for me. I speak four languages and learning my fifth but ask me to do a small, logical mathematical problem and I am lost. When the cashier asks me to give them a cent so they give me back a dollar it’s like you could be asking me to fucking disarm a bomb.
I’m really jealous of ppl that can learn so many languages. Maths and sciences are my strong points (which is at an average level) but I can’t do languages for shit. I’ve been learning both English and mandarin since young (government requires us to) but have been consistently failing mandarin and barely passing English :P I guess we all want things we don’t have
Grass is always greener ;)
A tip that helped me a lot: watch a shit ton of movies in the language you wanna learn, preferably Pixar or Disney movies where they use a neutral version of the language and the sentences are always well built. It helps a lot! Your ears sort of get used to the way words are pronounced and you recognize grammatical structures.
I took French all 4 years of high school, and during my last year (it was AP French so basically as advanced as we could get) my teacher had a family emergency and was gone for almost a month. Our substitute couldn't speak French, so during class we just watched Disney movies in French with English subtitles.
I had really good teachers, but I swear in that month I learned more than I ever had. Grammar things I had issues with suddenly clicked, I learned tons of vocabulary without really trying. Just seeing the language in action made everything fall into place.
I still flunked the AP exam though lol.
Fofire · 32 points · Posted at 20:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely start with translated movies first.
I've noticed that when I watch a dubbed English film in another language and foreign language film (if a language I know) the structure is just somehow completely different.
The thought process and manner of speaking are just brought out differently. Some of it can just be colloquialisms or idioms or small language features that don't translate well into another language but I believe a large part of it is thought processes and character interactions are different in foreign films foreign languages.
For instance without knowing or ever having seen a movie or looking at the screen I can easily tell if a film was dubbed from the original English or if it's in its original language.
Did you watch with English subtitles or no subtitles?
Fofire · 8 points · Posted at 00:03:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both really. I'm fluent in three languages.
If you mean to learn it helped having English subtitles while I was learning and even better if it had foreign subtitles. Either way it helped with words I didn't know.
Okay, makes sense. Any tips on how to become fluent in a language (German in my case)?
Fofire · 4 points · Posted at 04:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually German is one of the languages I learned.
Well for an online dictionary I love
Dict.leo.org
School was great for giving me the infrastructure to learn and actually living there watching TV in German is where I filled it out.
Probably my best resources to keep my German up is I read German news sites. Watch German tv (something like Hulu online)
Books are a bit difficult to get into because they use more difficult words but are great if you're have the time to look up words. Kids books are great starting points
Also great are puzzle books for kids. Like crossword puzzles or word finds in square full of letters. Really helps in developing the vocab.
This is the tip I was gonna give him too, being exposed to it more is what helps. Practice makes perfect.
Interestingly enough, it's the same with math. It's such a false thing that people think "oh I'm good at languages and not math"or vice versa. Math is not something you are born with, you have to learn it from scratch, and practice makes perfect like with languages. For example I was ok at math as a kid, but not great. A couple of years ago I picked up math again to try and go to uni, and oh my god was I bad. I can't remember the multiplication table to this day, maybe up to times 7. It took me about 6 months of constant practice to stop losing my negative signs like they are crumbles when I eat.
For a long time I was genuinely scared I wouldn't be able to add simple numbers in my head again like I used to as a kid. I couldn't do 7+2 or 9+3 for the first year. Heck, I still struggle if I'm learning something new and my brain is concentrating on that: when I do calculus, I have the calculator next to me to double check the simplest of things, like 3/2.
But when I stop and think how much I've progressed, I am immensely proud, and all it took was dedication, and hundreds of hours of doing math on my own, frustrated sometimes to the point of crying. Colleagues in uni look at me for help with math now. Of course they are young and spend their time playing video games, they say I'm smart but then I ask them "how did you spend your afternoon?" And the say "oh, played something, went out etc". And then I tell them, well, after I had something to eat I did math until 10pm and went to sleep". There's no difference between them and myself in mathematical ability or IQ, it's just the different amount of hours we are willing to put in.
I think the only difference between you and someone who is "good at math" is having a goal, seeing a point to learning it, like wanting to go into engineering, for me.
Meanwhile I studied French for 8 years in school and I can't make two sentences today. I studied German for 12 but I lacked vocabulary because I never used it outside of school and today I barely understand it. I only know English well because I used it so much watching movies and playing video games.
So I am positive you could learn math, if you had something powerful to drive you to put the hours in.
Same with anything else. Besides the few geniuses who are actually more talented, and therefore they put more hours in because it comes easy, be it football, music or math, the rest of us need to find that force to drive us to succeed.
I usually watch the same movie 4 or 5 times to practice.
First, watch it with subtitles in your language to get a sense of the story and what the characters are saying. Then watch it with subs in the language of the movie, so you read what the people are saying and you get a sense of how words are spelled.
That’s what I usually do. It’s a bit tedious to watch the same movie 4 or 5 times but you can spread it out throughout the week. Like watch it once on Monday then again on Friday. And I swear it works.
I’m taking advantage of quarantine to learn French right now and I’m struggling already. The basics are fine, but I can’t do sentence structure or pronunciation. I understand it logically, but i don’t really understand it like some people do.
It takes time man. You probably never had to learn English, you just absorbed it, just like native speakers of every language did. But how old were you by the time you spoke good English? 4? 5? Granted, you’re probably much better equipped to digest and process information now than when you were one year old, but then again, your brain wasn’t filled with adult problems, and you didn’t have English, or any language as a crutch to lean on. These things take time, and it’s hard to see yourself progressing and stay motivated when it’s such a slow process, but it doesn’t happen instantly. You won’t learn a language completely during the quarantine. But you can get a great start, get used to hearing it, familiarize yourself with the basics and continue to build, every day, off that. It’s a long process that you have to commit to, but it’s a parabolic curve that builds on itself. At the start, you don’t understand anything, then you begin to be able to pick out individual words, then you grasp ideas and context, then whole sentences come together, then whole conversations begin to make sense. You will still make mistakes at this point, especially because listening is passive and speaking is active, but in a certain amount of time, suddenly you will understand entire conversations and maybe only miss a few words here and there- which you can talk around.
You think I know every medical term, or can talk about tax preparation in English? Well, it’s the same as that, there’s always going to be words you don’t know, no matter how comfortable you are in a language, but once you get to the point where you can understand the jist and participate in a conversation, you’re there. That’s the whole point of language, and learning an entire dictionary worth of vocabulary, all the necessary conjugations, application of prepositions, and grammar rules for any language takes a lot of time, and a lot of repetition. Stick with it, and realize that it’s a long, but rewarding process, and don’t hold yourself to a timeline. Everyone responds to things like this at a different pace. The key is consistency.
It is. In children it may cause a bit of a speech delay but they understand earlier than they speak and can speak both when they finally do. That is usually what happens in a bilingual home.
Absolutely, but it takes a lot more work than most people give it credit for. To achieve bilingualism, it takes immense exposure to both languages for long periods of time. If you're Polish but raised in England, it's likely that you spoke Polish at home, and were immersed in a Polish culture. You may have read books in Polish, spoke to relatives in Polish, read recipes in Polish, watched Polish media, maybe even watched English movies with Polish subtitles--but when you lift your Polish bubble, the rest of your world was in English (school, work, sports, etc.). So for all intents and purposes, your were heavily exposed to both languages extensively.
But even for children who were raised in completely multilingual environments, their language skills may be a little off when they're very young. They may speak later than their peers, mix the languages together, or their vocabularies in each may be smaller. As the child gets older, they get better at code-switching.
Absolutely. Had 6 years of total immersion Spanish, Jr. High and HS. Not fluent, but pretty able to hold a semi-grammatical conversation. Until some tree-planters from Guatemala showed up in the grocery store where I was working, and I realized I had NO camping vocabulary whatsoever. Tent. Camp. Sleeping bag. Nada. Ni jota. Made a lucky phone call!
I moved to Spain at age 25 speaking no Spanish other than “yo quiero una cerveza” and “donde está el baño.” I’m 30 now and I’ve been stuck inside with my Spanish roommate for a month and he literally told me tonight after a lot of beers “ I think you speak better Spanish than my English.” We switch back and forth between Spanish and English, and he spent a few years in Australia, so he speaks great English. Granted I’ve lived here for 5 years, but if there’s hope for me, there’s hope for anyone.
You learn what you need to learn, and what you need to learn comes from experience, so the only thing you can do is put yourself in more situations where you get the experience.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been learning German from both school and my grandfather since I was 11. It took me until a quarter of the way through the 11th grade for things to "click" in a way there were things that I "just knew" how to say without being able to explain it.
I’m learning German now and well, the grammar is a chore. There’s no substitute for time and practice.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find speaking much easier because a lot of grammar points are indistinguishable when you're speaking at a conversation pace. Nobody can tell the difference between "eine Schildkröte" and "einer Schildkröte" if I forget which adjective ending to use.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
But on the other hand, every time I leave the house, I get terribly, horrifically lost. Also my ability to recognize plants doesn't go much further than calling the tall ones "tree" and the short ones "bush". I've recently taken to calling everything a "ficus" and hoping for the best.
My husband is a math guy, and dismisses languages as "just memorization of words." Well wtf is *math* then?? You have to memorize all sorts of formulas, times tables etc.
I think he too is frustrated with his inability to grasp language problems!
ata444 · 10 points · Posted at 23:09:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you get really good at maths, then from a few sets of rules, you can derive or get a lot of other equations and rules. Its like reading two sentences of a book, then you can basically understand the book without reading it further
It's so mind-blowing to me how math comes so naturally to a lucky few people. Einstein, Tesla, even watching the movie Hidden Figures, how Katherine Johnson was incredibly great at math from very early in life........it's weird how a man-made concept seems innate to certain people!
ata444 · 6 points · Posted at 23:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't say it comes naturally, maybe there is a tendency towards more science and math things, but most people except like geniuses, who are really rare, still have to put in a lot of work and it takes years to get to that point to be able to do that
Of course, I didn't mean to minimize the work they put into it, just that they can look at the formulas and make more sense of them. They see the concepts behind the symbols, or so I imagine!
Hpmec · 4 points · Posted at 04:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My daughter has a friend from her high school days who whipped right through the math portion of the SAT with an almost perfect score. When asked where her math ability came from, she’d say she never had to work at it. It was something she could do intuitively. I, on the other hand, struggled with math. Could never understand anything beyond the basics. The word problem unit back in high school algebra did me in. Trying to determine at what point those trains or cars were going to pass. Forget it. Deciphering the Rosetta Stone would have been easier. I admire people who “get” math. I’m just not one of them.
I’m really jealous of people that learn or do good at anything. I’m preety much “mediocre to average” at best, for just about anything and everything I can think of.
Learning a language is a matter of habit, at least for me.
My method at learning new languages is to always learn conjugation by heart, a language is 70% (random estimation, not actually calculated) made from verbs, if you nail down the verbs and tenses, you'll pick the other aspects easily with time and habit.
I speak 5 languages, I love learning new ones, but sadly I don't have the time as much as I used to when I was just a kid.
One tip besides immersion (movies, visiting the country, not reading anything except your target language, etc) is for the most part DON'T do vocab one term at a time. We learn much more efficiently in a short sentence and retain those words for "car" or "road", "hospital" in target language etc when joined in a short sentence bite as well as the ones that aren't nouns. I'm teaching myself German and it does seem to help a bit.
Same boat. I can do math related thinking things well but cannot bring myself to learn languages. English was my first language. I can write well with structure but terrible at speaking (have a slow thought to speech transition). However, the one thing that stops me from being good at any language is just any creativity; there is just something that always stops me from being creative.
I learned Mandarin for 4 years out of school. I could write the characters and pronounce things well but I just couldn't speak it with structure thus preventing me from writing anything well. If I got asked a question in Chinese, I take forever to process the question and take even longer to answer it where I get it wrong half the time. Even if the teacher could speak English and asked me a question, I just take way too long to answer it in Mandarin.
Language just made me look like an idiot, especially when I was older than most of the people at the same level. I continued to study Mandarin at school and it was easier there than when I was learning out of school. I learned more until the third year where most of the standard involved creative writing, being able to listen to speech and understand it, and one to have a conversation with another class member. Got reasonably bad marks for the whole subject. Made myself look stupid to others because most know me for the top marks I would get for most standards at school, including English (which I consider myself bad at).
Back to the thought of creativity, I believe this is what hinders anything I do. Give me something to select out of an infinite range of things, such as selecting a writing topic, I will take days to select something. Give me a small number of things to choose from, I can select something in a heartbeat. So when it came to formal or creative writing in English, I took days to come up with something to write about and still manage to fuck it up. When it came to writing an essay with a few questions to choose and write about on a text/film, I can choose something easily, got my good marks.
I guess this works the similarly to those who can't do math and learn languages. I envy those people, and they're likely the same towards me.
TL;DR: a rant about me finding science/math easier than language/art/drama and I think the reason is the lack of my creativity.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:11:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cool thing about English is that it's basically ubiquitous across the internet and every mainstream entertainment platform, so easy to learn. Also Singapore sounds pretty cool despite the government.
I just watched a video on the difference between acquiring a language vs. learning it and then spoke to my wife who is in grad school for TEFL. My limited understanding from reading excerpts from one of her textbooks (and the video I linked below) is that there are a few major approaches to it, a common one being Grammar-Translation. I will be looking further into TPR and the Natural Approach vs. what I’ve been doing (Grammar-Translation). Hope this video helps!
I'm jealous of people who aren't lazy. I can learn other languages, I just get bored and stop trying to learn and just tried to get a passing grade. Math has always been what I'm great at, calculus is kinda hard though. First time I've had to actually pay attention.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, Mandarin is said to be one of the hardest languages in the world. The only way to make sure you completely know it with all its nuances and intricacies is being born to a Chinese family.
And then there's people like me who are just average at math, science, humanities and languages, and can't be great at anything cause we're so busy wanting to do a lot of things at once that we can't focus nor dedicate completely to just one thing.
And also really suck at arts. But also want to to do arts lmao
Dude, I am a native English speaker and I barely passed english from grades eight to twelve. Shit is confusing as hell sometimes. I excel in math, chemistry, french, and law though.
It's easier to learn languages from the same root. I'm Spanish speaker. It took several years for me to learn English. Languages rooted in Latin, like French, Italian, Portuguish I can understand and learn easily.
I also have trouble with that, although weirdly once I went to university and started doing higher level abstract math like calculus, and some statistics (I have a biology degree) O was really good at it, I found it easier to visually navigate abstract mathematical concepts on my mind, but I cannot manage to do simple arithmetic, like addition,subtraction, multiplication, and division, I just cannot do it without a calculator.
To be honest, most people are bad at math because at some point, they had a bad math teacher. And once it happens, you most probably have to start over at the point where it happened, and it is very complicated to motivate yourself to understand 9th grade math (for example) when you're 32. Truth is, you can do it, but the reward would be very limited. Languages are a smarter choice, I think.
In my case I definitely had bad teachers. But the one that traumatized me the most was my junior year math teacher. He’d only explain things to the kids who would get everything the first time. I’m the type of person that makes questions about everything until I understand. and Every time I went to him with a silly question, he would tell me that I was probably stupid and not to focus on English and painting.
There was a point where he just stopped answering my questions and he just rolled his eyes if I raised my hand. My senior year maths teacher was a sweetheart and way more understanding, but by then the damage was done lol
I feel the same way about math. I'm a designer but when my marketing director starts talking to me about the company's projections and percentages for growth, I start to feel panicky and will almost tear up sometimes because I genuinely feel like she's speaking another language and I just cannot understand.
Side note: My worst math teacher was my first year of college algebra. The first assignment was a worksheet in which he replaced all of the numbers with words like "cat" and "dog" because "the numbers were only symbolic". I failed that class and he left the next year to become a welder.
100 percent correct in my case. Always made all A’s in math up until one of my high school teachers. Barely scraped by in her class and that was with her basically giving us a good grade on our semester test if we took notes all year and handed them in. Was terrified of taking another math class after that bc I knew I was so behind. Did not go well in college.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally same. I know Spanish English, and I'm rather rusty, but decent at French(but that's my own fault for not practicing), and it's always bewildered me how I could learn different languages, and literally any other thing in the world, yet math just refuses to process for me lmao.
I’m only “good” or knowledgeable about the soft subjects that don’t get the bills paid. I’ve heard that I’m a decent writer, and I love reading thick non fiction history books, and occasionally dabble in armchair psychology/philosophy because I read Plato’s Republic once and desperately need a hobby/interest unique to my age because I’m too fucking stupid to do anything else. That includes abstract subjects such as math or even tangible, observable subjects like science...also known as the ones that actually fucking matter. I have very little going for me, but if there’s one thing I wish more of, it’s definitely practical and useful intelligence (rather than just “soft”) that can adapt to a variety of situations. In reality, I am a very stupid person who can pretend to appear somewhat smart if given enough time to prepare (i.e. carefully picking and choosing the words in this wall of text, because of the benefit of anonymity).
I will always recommend 3Blue1Brown for interesting, not-entirely-technical videos on math. This sudden appearance of pi in a physics problem is a great one. Also it's pretty easy to listen to Grant's voice.
And as a side thing to the top commenter, that puzzel turns out to be equivalent to some things in Quantum Search.
I've always admired people who are great at languages, I've studied French for 8 years (live in Belgium so learning French is mandatory) and I can only do the most basic conversation. English was easier since it's everywhere and it's so similar to Dutch but yea that's how far my language skills go.
My maths tho are above average but not good enough to study mathematics or physics. Well maybe I could pull it off if I was a hard working type and I'm thinking if studying Physics after my current studies (IT), just because it's the most fascinating subject imo. I love to study about the universe. I love quantum mechanics even tho I don't understand shit about it. I love electricity. You get my point.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I prefer paying with debit. Less chance of me feeling like a dumbass. When they give me change I don't even really count it unless they or the register tells me how much it's supposed to be.
Omg. Thank God I'm not alone. You described how it feels perfectly.
emwo · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me! I can barely calculate how much to tip or how much my taxes i expect to pay for my pizza/tacos would be without a calculator, but i can pick up languages pretty easily. Wish I was good at math but whatever.
I became an engineer because it was the only degree that didn't have a foreign language requirement. That's how intimidating that is to me. And I am an avid reader.
I became a journalist because it was one of the few of my options that didn’t have maths as a requirement lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:55:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was always terrible at math in school. As i get older (30's) i am MUCH better at mental math and real-world problems in my day-to-day. I am super glad for that! Anyone else feel similarly?
Haven't read all the replies, but my daughter has dyscalculia... very much like the more widely known dyslexia, but with numbers/number concepts. There's nothing wrong with her memory... she can spit the times tables at you backwards and forwards, and when you teach her the steps to solve a long division equation she can mostly get there after a ton of repetition... but try to get her to explain why 4×4=16... that it means you have four groups of four... Zero understanding. You can do it in front of her with jelly beans or pennies or whatever, but she can't make the abstract leap that numbers represent physical things, or that the physical things in front of her are the same as numbers. It's been wild for me... there is no amount of explaining it that helps. Her brain just doesn't have the capacity to interpret and understand or retain those kinds of ideas.
Anyway, just thought maybe it was possible you'd never heard of dyscalculia. There's definitely different degrees of it- my daughter's is severe- but in case you ever felt bad about yourself for not getting maths or having anxiety about it, it might not be your fault at all. Just a brain wiring thing.
You just described my late husband. He spoke five languages, could answer most Jeopardy! questions, and was so, so funny (a sign of intelligence). But he couldn't solve a simple mathematical problem. In college, in order for him to get his degree in Psychology, I had to help him--yeah, we cheated, so what...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just practice it and kinda memorize it. I don't calculate if 10-7=3 no. I just say it automatically without thinking. that's the secret of getting around numbers. I kid you not, it works.
Memorizing math instead of understanding it sounds like a recipe for stalling at anything more complicated than that example tho.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm saying that you understand and know how to get these information at any times without your memory's help. but if memorizing after understanding is much much much easier and it gets the job done. (talking about simple math really.)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you go about learning so many languages? For me since I was a kid it's been the exact opposite, complex math is fine but language has always been my bane
I felt that I missed out on really good majors because of my inability to do maths. I would have loved to go for architecture or IT but all of them had advanced maths and I was too intimidated by the numbers to go for it.
I've always used "shortcuts" to get around these little problems (like how to figure out a 15% tip, usually I move the decimal one place and double the number for 20% to ensure a good tip). Then I read that "smart" people do these things, which made me feel much better! :-p
My husband is a STEM guy, and great with numbers. Sometimes we're both confronted with a math problem, and I'll do the "shortcut" calculation and say the answer. He'll then think about it for a bit longer, and usually comes up with the same answer, which is also an ego boost.
Still, these are the really beginner shortcuts. People start talking about stuff like "15% of 35 is the same thing as 35% of 15" and I get butterflies in my stomach.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stuff I do is mostly that kind of thing, like when something's on sale x% off, can't think of anything off the bat........meters vs feet, I know that a kilometer is .6 mile, so I think "slightly more than half" when converting km to miles. Embarrassing to admit out loud! But this is for my own understanding, not NASA computations or anything.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry! When I try to figure out percentages, I tend to move decimals and round off, I don't flip the numbers around like in the example........though I guess I should try!
So 15% of 35..........would probably go to 10% to get 3.5 and then add half of that......ugh okay 1.75, 5 and change. Not so efficient I guess, but it's how I'd do it on the fly.
Flipping it around.........35% of 15........I'd think 3 x 1.5 = 4.5 + this is where I paint myself into a corner.......but figure it would be at least 5 because there'd be a bit more to add on!
I'm pretty good at learning languages and suck at math too! I learned French in high school and college, but In never have had much use for it personally and don't make it a point to learn languages in my free time, so most of that is gone. Other people just tell me I am really good at pronouncing words in other languages I have not heard yet. So far I only really struggle with Asian languages (especially pronunciation with mandarin). Nevermind the fact that I usually have no clue what I am saying.
If someone struggles to learn a language, depending on the context and why they want/need to learn it. I just tell them to get the pronunciation right (or as close as possible), then worry about fully knowing the meaning. Also, I tell them to find a physical textbook with lots of words, pictures and meanings for them, and copy copy copy. If your beginning French textbook can't tell you what is in a bathroom and how to say it, you might need another textbook. Writing things like this can help the brain remember it later.
I'm in the opposite camp.
Maths comes very naturally to me, but languages are beyond me. English is my native language and I'm still pretty average at that, and my attempts to learn German are....pretty piss poor.
I'll forever admire and be impressed by those who, like you, can learn to speak four or five languages
I love this fact and am observing it every day (or at least have been before all schools were closed). Intelligence is weird, my friends would try to explain complicated chemical processes to me but fail at a math problem that seems trivial to me. Others take five different language classes while I just about manage to speak english and can barely hold a conversation in french. And there are many which see possible interpretations of literature which I would never come up with on the regular. There are so many types of intelligence, and those are just the academic ones.
Ul71 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. On my fourth language, zero math. That cashier anecdote really hit home. Love physics and economics but I couldn't solve the simplest equation if my life depended on it.
I had the opposite problem as a cashier. It never occurred to me to intentionally overpay so that you could get specific increments back in change until I became a cashier and got confused when someone wanted to do it.
Some older guy gave me a $5 bill and an extra $0.25 or whatever so he could get a loonie back and I just gave him his quarter back with three more. We just stared at each other in mutual confusion after that.
Are you me? If your username wasn't different, I would've been convinced that I had written this. I'm an MBA and I cannot calculate things in my head. When I started working, I found out my boss was weaker at Math than I was. But what made me feel tons better was that he is a fantastic salesperson and manager. A great human being too. His team (myself included) have a lot of issues with each other, but we genuinely like our boss through and through and admire him. It's nice to be reminded through him that no, dimpld9, you are not a piece of shit because you are bad at Math. You have other talents!
I also unashamedly use my calculator in front of shopkeepers and cab drivers because it's better to be safe than sorry!
I am like you and needed to triple something for a recipe something with 9. Asked my husband, how to triple it. And he did this thing with his hands where he put down one finger and then the rest is ones and those behind that finger, that you've hidden, is 10s. It absoultely blew my mind... Then I thought I could do this with all numbers. Only works on nines... I am absolutely shit at maths... I am shit at most things. But I speak 3 languages more or less fluently, so I got that going for me.
When the cashier asks me to give them a cent so they give me back a dollar it’s like you could be asking me to fucking disarm a bomb
Lmao that used to confuse me a lot too for some reason. I didn't get it until one day I just sat down and thought for a while about what the fuck is happening in that transaction.
I completely relate! I speak 2 languages and I’m learning my third at school. I love them and honestly want to learn more. However in primary school (what Australians call Elementary school) I was so shit with coins and money. I still am tbh, I’m good at math but sometimes it’s so messed up that I understand nothing. So I completely relate to you.
I was a cashier and what happened to you happened to me vice versa, the guy looked at me and said 'what, cant you do math?' And i felt so bad for the rest of the day. Thanks for making me feel better lol, even though im sure im not as smart as you
Man, if it was just a cent, I'd always just give a dollar back rather than 99¢. As a cashier, I've been under whole dollars (supposedly, the counting method is flawed IMO) and not been reprimanded, so one penny won't hurt.
Wow super opposite for me. I'm a big math and science guy but languages kill me. My parents speak 5 languages between them and I only ended up learning English. I've always really struggled with languages other than English honestly, so bilingual+ people really impress me.
You know i suck at a lot of aspects in life but I love when people like yourself need help from people like me who are decent at math on the fly. Makes me feel like Im not a total useless piece of crap.
Mathmeticians are terrible at explaining math, it's a thousand times easier to learn through programming, and you don't even have to bother with notation unless you want to share ideas with the crazies in the other field.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband is like a human calculator. It’s just weird but very useful, I mean basic math just adding numbers I have to visualise like how you would write it out and stuff.
Meanwhile my husband is like oh that’s 5.45781 of course. My daughter will also be listening to a podcast and be like I have - pause - 17 mins left as she has just worked it all out from the running time. She’s 9. I’m glad she got her Dads math brain.
The thing I've learned why I'm really good at math is because there's always an objective answer. 1+1=2. Always and forever.
There's no philosophical debate on why 1+1=2. There's no "But wait! 1+1=3 because..." None of that. Your answer can only be wrong because it's not the answer. Not the most correct answer. It's just the answer.
LokkJ7 · 1 points · Posted at 13:54:14 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is because you are right brain dominant, which means you are better with emotions and languages.
I always thought the same about people who are good at language subjects in high school, i was always good at maths and physics etc. but when it came to writing essays in English and french, I was suddenly brain-dead.
Are you left handed by any chance?
Fudgms · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats honestly very interesting. Ive always looked at math like a language. Numbers are words and equations are sentences. This greatly helped me understand it. But you know 5 languages and dont understand math.
Isn’t learning languages an innate thing to do? I myself am learning my fifth, and I chose it to be Japanese, because otherwise it’s just absorbing the language. Japanese I actually have to learn stuff. Italian is my native tongue, I can speak English quite flawlessly (may have an accent, don’t really know), German I speak just as well, have been speaking it for more than 10 years (my only problems are the neutral and masculine articles, I still miss a few), and French is the one I know the least, but I can still converse quite well with someone, if he excuses a few mistakes while I talk, and my invasive Italian accent.
You have to view it as a model representing reality.
I remember getting so frustrated when I was a kid going through school and finding every few years that the previous year was 'wrong'.
Atoms were marbles banging together (Dalton model?). Protons were fundamental you couldn't go down any further (stop asking!).
Few years later in high school, they were solar systems of mostly empty space with atoms whizzing around like planets (Bohr model).
Then doing my degree protons were quarks, electrons weren't spinning around but occupying probabilistic "clouds", unless you looked at them too closely (Electron Cloud Model).
Except, turn around and in one class, well, let's just use Bohr's model -it's not 'correct' I thought, why use it! Well, of course it its't, it's a model not reality - and it's a useful model unless you're looking too close.
Same with mechanics. Newtons laws. Hey! They're wrong. Einstein blew them up with relativity. They're missing a huge part of the equation. Used them all through my degree because for things not a non-insignificant fraction of the speed of light - the model will do.
Same with light-wave duality. In the same lesson you treat light as a particle. You prove it as a particle in your experiment and treat it as such because it's the best model. Then you turn around and treat it as a wave because that's the best model.
Which is "the truth" though? Neither? Is there a truth? Does it matter? Ultimately, it doesn't. We're just seeking the best model of reality.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:45:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve got a physics degree and I truly hate how quantum is taught.
I was struggling with it greatly spoke to the professor I was doing research with along with his PhD student. They both told me, “no one gets it in undergrad. You just gotta learn how the expressions fit together. You’ll do learn it again in grad school and still not get it and then after a few years it’ll click.
Like fuck that I majored in physics specifically because everything could be understood thoroughly from first principles. Then we get to quantum and all of a sudden it’s just “hey trust us, you’ll probably get it later”
Yeah the historical perspective is really nebulous tbh. Frankly I would like it more if it was introduced from a Hilbert space background. Even having just a little Linear Algebra under your belt can work wonders for knowing what’s going on.
I think teaching the historical perspective is important since it's like you're there with Einstein and Schrodinger trying to piece together what the hell is going on. I think if you started from a mathematical formalism you get lost in the math and are stuck asking yourself how anybody came up with this since it seems so arbitrary at first glace. Like you'd never start with Lagrangian mechanics then progress to parabolic motion, that's just overkill.
I agree I think it’s important, but I think I would have had a bit of an easier time not having to reinvent the wheel. When I studied relativity at least, it was very frustratingly like trying to come up with an entire new theory without really having a goal in mind. The advantage of being 100 years in the future is that we know the point of it all and can give commentary from the sidelines about why Einstein or Planck might have made some connection between light and inertial frames or black body radiation and quantization of energy.
That's weird tbh, because quantum mechanics is extremely unintuitive and confusing when you think of it from a "real life" point of view, but when you tackle it from a "math" perspective, it actually becomes extremely intuitive and easy to understand. Everything can basically be represented by a wave function, and depending on what you do to the wave function, different quantum things happen.
I think some people who are good at ‘lower level’ math are really good at the visualization. I was. Even in basic relativity. So getting to something I couldn’t visualize, and has to rely on the equations entirely. I couldn’t really do it well.
A lot of math that I remember was the solution or representation of something physical. Motion of objects is an easy one. Picturing an oscillating spring on a moving object with friction. There might be some tough math there, but there is a visualization too. You don’t technically need the visualization to solve the math.
One I remember is the volume of the intersection of two cylinders. Tricky to visualize.
Even relativity has a lot that can be visualized if you are talking about moving objects.
But electrons existed in a probability cloud? Wave particle duality? And the visualization gets tougher from there. There are people who say they can picture and understand something like a hyper cube. I certainly cannot.
My father is a mathematician and hobby-astrophysicist and he always jokes about that there are people who just don’t get quantum mechanics and there are liars.
Loved physics in highschool. Was pretty good at it too. They told me to major in something that I loved, so, obviously... freshman and sophomore year of college were a breeze, things started getting hairy when I got to DiffEQ, but hey I could hang. It wasn't until I got to Quantum Physics the second half semester of junior year in college that I was like (G.O.B. Bluth voice) i've made a huge mistake
But I had gone too far and didn't want to add another two/three years of credits to get a different major. So on to Quantum Mechanics I went! I set up study groups outside of class (so I could get answers to the questions from my classmates), did not miss a single class or assignment even though I was consistently getting 40-60% grades, went to EVERY available open hour with my professor... Eventually he said "listen, I see how hard your working, keep doing what you're doing and I won't fail you" (passing qmech was required).
Related recommendation: PBS Space Time is remarkably good at explaining quantum mechanics to a broader audience. Their weekly explainers are only about fifteen minutes long, but they build on each other and boil complex topics down to their core details. Great way to gain a basic understanding of the subject.
it's just matrices, differential equations, and basic field theory for the most part for physical use. it's when you get to theoretical that it's a pain in the ass
Same as you; no problem with anything else but when I hit the quantum level my brain started to melt. I started to get it eventually, but fortunately that was the last level I had to take (last level offered). I ended with a degree in Electrical Engineering and eventually a masters; but yeah, that stuff really isn't simple.
Funny. I called law school Hogwarts sometimes. We can to learn basically secret magical things that when applied can make things happen (or not happen) in the real world.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a cousin who is a math researcher specializing in number theory and cryptography. She is an expert and spends her days doing something of which I cannot even conceive.
RageQ3 · 3 points · Posted at 04:19:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Engineering prof with some quantum engineering background explaining to our class how he was needing to complete a massive differential equation just for the probability’s alone. “You give it to the mathematicians and they get back to you in like... a week?” Like what.
I had about the same with chemistry. I got to quantum mechanics (they called it Physical Chemistry, but the book says Quantum Chemistry) and that marked the beginning of the end where I went into programming instead.
Economics was the mid point. It’s a field that had the math I really enjoyed and could still do. But when I tried to find work I found the stuff I really liked really called for a law degree to advance.
Anecdotally there is a lot of overlap between legal thinking and mathematical/scientific thinking. Of certain types anyway. Axioms and theorems can be tools you apply in a logical fashion to formulate new theorems or solutions to problems. Constitutions and statutes and black letter law can similarly forma foundation upon which you use logic to draw new rules and/or conclusions.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That seems to make sense. I did quite enjoy my law and Constitution classes in which we studied famous cases.
I find the theory behind quantum mechanics really interesting and I think I kind of get the basics of it, but doing any kind of actual math on it is beyond me.
Oh my goodness, same! I loved physics until I took first semester Quantum mechanics. I finished my undergraduate degree barely and am going to graduate school for engineering.
I was the same in university, though I finished my degree. I had a physics professor who met her husband in undergrad. She went on to get her doctorate in physics, while he said "fuck this" to QM and E&M. That was her story for why they both ahd a bachelors in physics, but he had a doctorate in philosophy, while she remained physics.
I don't want to come off as anti-intellectual but something about physics diminishes the further it gets from dropping rocks off a bridge with a stopwatch.
I didn't ever do well in math despite finding it cool, so I ended up hating it. Never understood it due to missing some core basics growing up. Picked a major that was the furthest thing from math I could go (liberal arts). Purposely put off my math requirements until right before I planned to transfer. Ended up in a geology class and accidentally fell in love. For once math made sense! Physics? Not a tug of war in my brain anymore. Stats? EASY. Chemistry/Bio connections to math? BOOM IT MAKES SENSE. Relativity? Interesting! I am so excited for quantum mechanics after doing an intro course.
We live in a simulation. The Quantum Realm is the level of scale at which the “builders” started to cut corners in order to save RAM (or ROM fuck I forget how it works). Anyway, just like in Super Mario 3 when you can move forward AND backward, they don’t keep track of all the opponents and shit. You move forward - see a turtle walking toward you up on a ledge, it drops down then you turn around and run backwards for a bit, turn around again and run back toward the turtle. Low and behold, it’s back on the ledge moving toward you again. Impossible you say? No. Of course not. If you move far enough away the game doesn’t continue to track its movement, that would mean it has to track the movement of every damn turtle in the level. It just resets. The Quantum Realm is like this. They save processing power by only really paying attention to it when you’re looking. When you look away it’s all just conceptual.
Actually, these things do tend to make me believe in the simulation theory. For me it's wave particle duality and probability clouds.
Modeling every sub atomic particle, and photon, as a particle would take tons of processing power. But if there were circumstances where you could just treat it like a wave, it really saves a lot of modeling. It's just a probability wave, an equation, only when something interacts with it directly do you need it to be in a specific location, and the simulation picks a specific particle location to simulate.
Is wave particle duality the concept behind the double slit experiment? That’s what pushed me over the edge and made me believe in Sim Theory. That and special relativity, that just screams “video game physics” to me.
Agreed. Relativity sucked for me mostly because the historical viewpoint is great and all, but fuck if it just doesn’t give you a straightforward explanation of reference frames. Reading through the aether experiments is a real bitch. It’s a lot simpler in terms of linear algebra. Basically everything is a Lorentz transformation and things are smaller when they speed up and time goes slower when YOU speed up.
I never really had to deal with relativity, lucky me. I had issues with thermodynamics. I could do the equations and remember what they were used for, so I passed but it just wasn't interesting to me.
Aaaah I've always been good at maths, logic and the like - loved algebra with a passion. But ask me to make some calculation off my head and I'm stumped.
Motion of objects is the worst kind of physics. Like the absolute worst. QED and QCD are fun though. But like they are almost pure mathematics. Which is wonderful.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The calculus isn’t all that bad...to start. Your solutions are wave solutions and pop up in fluid dynamics, thermodynamics, etc. Things you learn in an ODE or PDE. But it gets weird when you introduce applications like delta functions and residues it’s not ok.
For someone with a math background but nothing beyond 1st year physics, do you have a YouTube video that introduces quantum mechanics at a higher level than the info graphic type videos aimed at general public, so with equations and all?
That's the thing with QM. Even the top experts in the field don't understand it. They just know the formulae seem to work as far as we can tell. But why? And how? No clue.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Off topic I know but I think we put wayy too much faith in the theory of relativity. No one questions it anymore. It's a theory. A theory that a scientist who died nearly a hundred years ago came up with. We base almost everything we know about the universe off of thsi THEORY but what if wrong? We refuse to even challange it at this point but it could be so wrong that everything we know about the universe based of of e=mc2 could be dead wrong. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. If the theory of relativity is wrong then so many things we think are impossible could actually be possible we just dont know how to read the data. It's like reading German when you can only read english. You can pronounce the words but you have no idea what they mean and sometimes the spelling is the same but the meaning is very different.
That's not to say relativity is wrong. I am only saying we shouldn't just assume it's right. we wont even consider the data refuting it.
there's data refuting it? I mean, sure it's a theory, but it is a tested theory, and proven correct over and over again. Satellites couldn't work without relativity based adjustments. If it's 'wrong' then it is wrong in the same way that Newton's physics was wrong, it is a set of equations that are such precise estimations of what they are measuring that they get the right answer in all relevant circumstances within which they are used.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:47:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alot of data is thrown out becuase it is assumed to be wrong. I'm not saying it is wrong I'm just saying we shouldn't stop challenging it and from what I have seen out side of fringe science it is accepted as fact at this point. Your comment basicly summed up what I was trying to say. It's wrong in the same way newton physics are wrong if we assume it's wrong at all. We should never stop challenging accepted ideas .
Apologies if that was completely incompreheinsible I started drinking after I made my original comment. And apparently I am a rambling drunk according to my mates.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did the exact opposite! I was in a "public law" class (I don't know the English name), I left and never came back. I'm now studying subatomic physics
I'm a lawyer too, and while it may be interesting, I deeply regret not going into science. Miss chemistry, math and some of the physics. Love to read popular science books. And very glad when I can help my kid with some calculus ang geometry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:48:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I’ve heard you don’t understand quantum mechanics period, it works but it’s not actual math, it’s sort of make believe, at least that’s my take
One of my biggest disappointments was getting to university and realizing I wasn't actually going to learn any secrets of the universe but rather a lot of things that might be true so long as the assumption it's based on is true and if the assumption that assumption is based on is true and if the assumption that assumption is based on is true and only if we're on the right track at all.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way its taught is just baloney. It's better to read the original works than modern text books on the subject.
For example schrodinger's cat was intended to prove QM false, bell's inequality doesnt prove QM is correct (though bells inquality is often touted to, Bell himself rebuffed such remarks upon learning of Bohm's work)
In short, Quantum Mechanics doesnt make sense because it's incomplete.
He's just an armchair philosopher that has no idea what he's talking about.
As soon as I mentioned I'd taken a few QM courses as part of my PhD work (though it's not part of my thesis, I'm not a physics major), and told him to talk to me on that level, he shut up really quick.
ngoleo · -1 points · Posted at 02:57:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I shut up real quick or did I point out that the bad ass, ace physicists, are in defense; Academia has been a laughingstock SINCE COPENHAGEN.
I didnt even say it again, I told you to go back and read my previous remark, because you hadn't advanced past it.
This is all public record, (that ww2 spies confirmed that heisenberg and company were jokes, not even close to nuclear arms) so if your publishing it's because your work is worthless, that's the real world miss (I'm concluding you're a woman at this point since you seem divorced from reality) "grad student" working on quantum gravity who's not in physics 🤣
Eh, he's a troll. You either ignore them or troll them back.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 08:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been fun. It turned out that the grad student working on quantum gravity couldn't explain how quantum mechanics resolves the inconsistency in Everett's thesis(it doesnt obviously) resorted to ad hominem attacks and then got word lashed there too. Glad you found a support group, you'll probably need that more often than not.
I never said it was a ToE... What the fuck are you talking about?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:37 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was pointing out how you're a failure, and how physics has essentially been stunted for 60 years because of half arse physicists that want their make believe fantasies to be real more than they want to do good science.
Vagueness, subjectivity, and indeterminism, are not forced on us by experimental facts, but by deliberate theoretical choice
-John S Bell
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:30 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, problems with reading comprehension I see.
Perhaps that's why you dont recognize a universal creation system as a supreme being, but pretend to specialize in studying it.
Is it that you dont understand hiearchy or that you dont understand causation. 🤣 really it's because you dont believe in causation isn't it 🤣
You're a solipist physicist? Really a walking contradiction, too stupid to recognize his own fallacies.
Let me ask you this, do you understand the definition of create and the definition of atheism?
Come back when you've pulled your head out of your ass. Dont try to teach anyone, you'll get your ass hairs on them talking while your head is buried up there.
Anyhow, weep to yourself, if you have a rebuttal that isnt just tears then lets see it.
I sincerely urge you to seek the help of a mental health professional.
Nothing of what you said reflects anything I've said or my views. You are having a conversation with yourself and I'm concerned for your mental health.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:07:52 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, so then you agree that quantum mechanics is incomplete AND inconsistent, and that there is obviously (by definition) a supreme being that is omniscient and omnipresent?
Or youre just too weak to defend your positions(contradictions)?
Why fish for debates elsewhere if you would cower before me?
But I also don't consider you of any kind of sound mind.
Please speak to a mental health professional.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:18:34 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You maam, are a chicken shit.
I assume you're a woman, because only a woman would be so timid before a man.
Perhaps you're a man that's not in touch with reality enough to know how to modulate your hormones; admitting the fact that youre a biophysical robot would certaintly constitute self violence to the solipist atheist that thinks quantum mechanics is complete and consistent 🤣.
I'll recognize your fearful retreat as cowardice and recognition of the futility of championing your contradictions, even from the safety of the internet.
(I am trained as a mental health professional, aside from physics, theyre intricately linked)
Dont forget to chime in if you grow a pair or figure out a way to resolve your contradictions without presenting buffoonery.
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:01 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I particularly enjoyed my practicum, I taught a group at a foster home to not be chicken shit little bitches.
My analysis of you, you had no father, or two mothers.
You dont have any masculinity, and seem to think displays of masculinity are unhealthy, projecting your timidity even through the internet.
Life must be hard for you.
A well bred fella would rise to a challenger with gusto, you give yourself away.... then again, a well bred fella wouldnt hold your positions.
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:02 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now how others percieve you is a lie? 🤣 riiiiight.
You didnt have to be a coward
Being sackless must be quite a disability, good luck.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could be right.
It could be complete.
I'm certain that its inconsistent though.
So I guess, from the inconsistency, I conclude it must be incomplete since my bias is that reality must be consistent.
Its more likely it is incomplete before it's inconsistent.
You're free to name some inconsistencies though, or perceived inconsistencies you have.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 22:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ok, well I've read many papers that detail inconsistencies, Hugh Everett's "theory of the universal wavefunction" might go down easiest for you, since he forwards the bias' I assume you'd hold.
It hit me that I can detail it's incompleteness must be essentially true. That is, quantum mechanics cannot be complete, and so quantum mechanics is composed of half-truths, or contingent truths.
It doesnt include gravity
Now, after LIGO's results, the riddle of how to interpret quantum mechanics was more obviously solved by de-broglie and bohm;
LIGO results => Spacetime is vibrating
It's a long journey to go from space time is vibrating to non local hidden variables; as Bohm describes the space-time vibrations as "active information" in "configuration space". His texts are a lot longer than Everett's but I suggest his books too. You probably won't like the implications of Bohms work because it dashes most of the superstitions around Quantum effects.
It's also public record that Bohms work went into the atomic bomb, while the German physicists were a laughingstock
All in all, I dont think anyone serious thinks QM was complete or correct. Really it probably shouldn't even be taught.
What the hell are you talking about? Quantum mechanics is perfectly consistent, and it can certainly be used to describe gravity.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If you've done graduate work in the field then you should have already read what I've suggested and you should know quantum mechanics is incomplete AND it's inconsistent.
Or you're just full of it.
Now you're saying QM is complete and consistent and can describe gravity 🤣
Maybe it's just semantics, if what you're trying to appeal is that QM is "self-consistent" that might be true if you include the contradictions in the axioms 🤣
So if QM is complete and consistent, and you're well read in the field, then how is the inconsistency pointed out in universal wavefunction resolved by QM?
What a joke.
(Take it up with Godel mr grad student 🤣 or you havent read that either)
No I haven't read bohm's work because he's a fukcing joke.
So since I haven't read his work, please do tell me, for example, why quantum mechanics cannot describe gravity. You really seem to know more about this then my colleagues
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll refer you to the second to last paragraph of my longest reply.
I suppose what I'm not understanding is how my work on quantum gravity is somehow inconsistent. On the one hand, it's obvious that the models I'm working with describe gravity and are perfectly well behaved quantum systems, but on the other hand some philosophers wrote some books several decades ago claiming that the universal wavefunction is inconsistent!!
In none of my calculations has this inconsistency of the wavefunction become apparent... I suppose I'd like to understand what you're talking about so I can make sure the papers my colleagues and I have published don't have any mistakes!
The references you mentioned look pretty long though... If you actually have any idea of what you're talking about, you'd be able to give me a quick summary- would you mind doing that please?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better question, why are you arguing that quantum mechanics is complete while busy trying to make that statement true?
Do all of your publications struggle with tense?
We understand that the Navier-Stokes equations describe fluid mechanics. We don't understand turbulence. We know that in principle the equations describe the phenomenon of turbulence, and numerical simulations show this, but it takes a lot of work do understand exactly how this works in detail.
Modern work on quantum gravity is largely the same. We have models of quantum gravity which we know through mostly indirect reasons describe things like Hawking radiation. However, there is a lot we don't understand about how these things actually work. So most of what we do in quantum gravity is analogous to trying to understand turbulence in the Navier-Stokes equations -- we have the equations, and they are perfectly well defined, but solving them is the challenge.
Edit: In other words, we aren't spending much time trying to show that quantum mechanics is consistent. We think it's obviously consistent and use it to calculate. And so far (after decades and decades), we haven't run into any inconsistencies, so I have very little reason to doubt that we were wrong in thinking that it's obviously consistent.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hawking radiation and firewalls, no inconsistency as long as we assume no inconsistencies, oh my.
I think you are misunderstanding. We do not assume anything. We have well defined models- we have Hamiltonians and Hilbert spaces. We can ask well defined questions about these models, and write down expressions for the wavefunctions. The systems we study are well defined, if there are any inconsistencies, they must be between some assumptions we make about how the systems behave, and how they actually behave. But that just means that these assumptions are wrong.
Everett wrote his thesis decades and decades ago. At the time we did not understand decoherence- with our modern understanding of decoherence and classicallisation, it is clear how to describe closed systems with multiple observers. I don't know what Everrets particular objections were, but it's very understandable that he had incorrect assumptions and/or made mistakes because the subject is complicated.
In science we try not to take the work of any one person at face value- even the best physicists make mistakes. Especially if their work is in conflict with a body of other work. And especially if their work was done on a subject of which our understanding had radically improved over the following decades.
The same goes for Bohm's work on pilot wave theory. It's interesting stuff, but it had clear issues in describing the real world (it isn't clear if it is compatible with relativity), while quantum mechanics seems to be pretty well suited for describing the real world. Elevating Bohm's ancient work over the whole of the past few decades of physics research just because of some philosophical objections about determinism or whatever is unscientific and I can't take that sort of thinking seriously.
Edit: to more directly address your comment about hawking radiation and firewalls--
We can, with no assumptions about internal consistency, directly study hawking radiation and firewalls in quantum mechanical models of gravity. In fact, we have such precise control over some of these models that we can do exact computer simulations which match the results of calculations. For example, you can ask "what is the quantum mechanical amplitude for a hawking quanta emmited from a black hole in this model in a particular initial state to be in another particular state?". That's a well defined question, in some models you can express the question in terms of a formula which the computer can solve and find the exact answer, and then you can go and calculate using quantum gravity calculations and find agreement. In general you cannot get this level of precision, but it is clear that the questions are well defined mathematically and have definite answers. Where can the inconsistency arise?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never mentioned any philosophical objections to determinism, rather I'd regard a physicist who concludes indeterminacy as a failure.
It seems like you're conflating modern work, (even m-theory?) with quantum mechanics.
The topic wasn't whether a TOE is possible, it was whether QM is incomplete or inconsistent.
QM was long ago recognized to be inconsistent and incomplete, you seem to agree with that but take exception because there are so many offshoot models that do away with the problems of QM.
Everett presented one offshoot, bohm another, quantum gravity is another.
It's a promising field with a lot of potential that seems to have been going nowhere for 60 years (other than stumbling over inconsistencies)
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I referenced Hugh Everett's thesis, 'theory of the universal wavefunction.' In it he kick starts his many worlds interpretation by showing that quantum mechanics was inconsistent in a system with more than one observer, not much different than as Schrodinger did.
He does so by having the reader consider a scientist on a spaceship doing experiments, being visited by another scientist. It's really the same as Schrodinger's cat but with a scientist taking measurements instead of a cat dying.
In the debroglie bohm solution the wavefunction is of "configuration space," the particle is always "observed" (there is no collapse of the wavefunction) and it is guided by the wavefunction through configuration space.
So Everett would say quantum mechanics is inconsistent, bohm would say incomplete.
I also mentioned Godel, who would say it must be either inconsistent or incomplete.
How the fuck are you shoehorning Gödel into this? Gödel incompleteness is about extensions of PA, not QM. How the fuck are you encoding the natural numbers in QM?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Godel's theorem is essentially a restatement of Russell's paradox, about self referential (improperly defined)sets/elements, and is also linked to turings proof.
The relevance is the impossibility of the existence of a universal set/description/program that is both consistent and complete.
Now the solution to Russell's Paradox and limiting parameter to turings proof etc, is properly defined sets and elements.
The physical translation is the idea that a complete and consistent universal description isnt possible.
To compute everything you would have to compute yourself computing everything.
Only the totality can be a universal quantum cellular automaton type turing machine.
Lol bud I don’t need you to explain Gödel to me. I study logic and set theory. I’m telling you that you’re applying the incompleteness theorems in a situation where they don’t apply.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, go ahead and explain how a formalism/description can be both complete and consistent from WITHIN the formalism/description under analysis.
What you don’t seem to be understanding is that that dichotomy only applies to logical theories which can express all of Peano Arithmetic. Hence why something like ZF cannot express its own consistency. Any model of ZF includes the ordinals which encode PA.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:45:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I understand that YOU dont see the applicability.
I could restate it, but you didnt even compute my remark well enough to make your reply relevant to it.
Let's zoom out, and be more broad and general, as I had already steared the topic, since you inquired as to the references relevance.
Can an element of a set completely and consistently describe the set it is an element of? (Russell's paradox)
No thanks I think I’ve said my piece and I don’t feel a compulsion to prove my knowledge to you.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 03:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
*That's not the way you've learned Russell's paradox and you have a sad case of functional fixedness that inhibits your understanding.
Typical really, happens if you don't do proper analysis to begin with; when you're first learning the concepts.
I suggest you try mastery before moving from a new concept. That way you aren't so easily confused when an old framework presents itself in a fashion novel to you.
Nobody forgets that duh, what they do forget is replacing the turn signal fluid when they do the recalibration. So many broken quantums.
Khyber2 · 11 points · Posted at 22:26:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not broken per se, but I'd like to see you try pulling a dent out of a quark that suddenly couldn't indicate a change in axial spin because some asshole forgot to fill the blinker fluid!
Exactly. Have to use a Schrodinger determinator and those are expensive so we only have one at the shop, and its always locked in fucking Steve's toolbox, the asshole.
This needs to be done every 6 months or 5000 miles whichever comes first.
This is really just propaganda from the quantum maintenance industry. I get my quanta maintained about once a year/10k miles and have never had a problem.
Khyber2 · 11 points · Posted at 22:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah but this increases the rate of quantum decay and entropy by a factor of pi, but with as cheap as quanta are getting these days...
Actually time is real. Time slows down and speeds up around bodies of mass like planets and stars. Early satillites and probes in space had extremely precise clocks, yet, when they returned to earth, they found the clocks in space to be out of sync with the same clocks on earth. Since then, clocks in space had to be slowed down to compensate for the time dilation.
Think the movie "Interstellar'
Gerroh · 14 points · Posted at 20:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's definitely a thing we call 'time', but there is some debate as to what it is. "Time is a dimension" is a common school of thought among scientists, and I'm pretty comfortable with it. There are other ways to look at it, too (one common one being that it's just a progression of things and not something inherent to the universe as a whole). The "there is no such thing as time" stuff comes from pretentious turds looking at hours and minutes, realizing those are man-made constructs and concluding that time isn't real because they haven't made the leap to realizing hours and minutes are units of measurement just like meters and (for the Americans) furlongs.
What we think as time is a measurement to the speed of the universe. Think about it how you would measure anything else. Also a second is really weird if you look at what we define as a second now.
We all know that quantum mechanics are totally sketchy, though. Those particles aren't getting any wear from travel, they're simply appearing on the other side.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This needs to be done every 6 months or 5000 miles whichever comes first.
Quantum essentially means very very VERY small. Mechanics in this case means a set of theories, principals, and equations that describe how a system works. So quantum mechanics is the mechanics of systems of quantum scale.
That is nearly my entire understanding of quantum mechanics.
Pretty much. Quantum is not just very very small, but the smallest possible quantity of something.
Kind of comes from how how you measure things, the same root as "quantity".
A lot of quantum mechanics is around these minimums, like the Pauli Exclusion Principle etc, and results in various minimum quantities of things - planks length, planks time.
Basically everything is quantised. Everything has to have discrete values.(worth reading the reply corrections)
Not everything is quantized, just a lot of important and interesting things. For example light comes in discrete particles called photons, so they are quantized in that way, but the energy of those photons is determined by the frequency which isn't quantized. Any frequency is possible on a continuous spectrum, from radio waves to light to gamma rays, and anything in between.
The planck length and planck time are also not the smallest unit of length or time. They are just a rough estimate of when the quantum properties of gravity ruin the precision of any measurements smaller than that. Space and time are treated as continuous in quantum mechanics, and any attempts to make them quantized are speculative.
Only the properties of bound particles are quantised (electron in atom, nuclear particles in nucleus, ... ) but if they're in free space, their properties can still be continuous.
Not 100%. Quantum shares a root with quantity. It means something you can count. As opposed to something that is continuous.
For example, an electron in an atom. The electron has a certain amount of energy as it orbits the nucleus. But there are only a countable amount of allowed energy values that the electron can have. It can have allowed value E1 or E2, or E3 and so on, but not anything in between! It's like if you start your car at zero speed and accelerate to 100 kph, but you're not going smoothly from 0 to 100 but instead jump from 0 to 20, then from 20 to 40 etc without ever being at 10 or 30 kph. The allowed energy values are discrete and countable, which is where the "quant" comes from.
But it's not actually related to the size of the particle you're describing. A quantum is not the smallest thing in the universe, it's not even related to size. It refers to the properties of particles that turn out to be countable.
To give you a serious answer, it's about scale. Classical mechanics describe how the world we see every day works (e.g. newton's laws of motion). Quantum mechanics describe how the tiny world works (e.g. how subatomic particles interact). And annoyingly enough there is a difference between those.
Technically, some quantum mechanics principles still apply to the classical world, but the effects are so tiny that we can ignore it. For example, due to Heisenberg's uncertainty principle we can never truly know the exact position of anything, but the uncertainty of the position of anything we can actually see is so tiny that it makes absolutely no difference to us. On the other hand, electrons could be just about anywhere around the atom. We only know that there is a certain probability of it being in a certain place at a certain time (there's way more to this but I don't want to go into too much detail)
Quantum doesn't really mean small it means you are dealing with things that are quantized. That just means that things that physicists would want to study, ie. Energy, no longer act as one continuous stream of possibilities but rather change in discrete jumps. For example, the hydrogen atom has an electron that can live in different energy levels, but it can't live at any old energy, that electron can only be at certain predetermined amounts. We can tell this because when that electron loses energy it will emit a photon (light) at the same energy for a given transition. That means an electron in a hydrogen atom can't be between those levels. Effects like these mostly only happen at atomic or smaller scales, hence why the word quantum is associated with the word small. Mechanics just means the study of the effects and behaviors of said systems.
mitayga · -3 points · Posted at 19:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is correct; not sure why you're being downvoted. It's breaking what was once thought of as continuous things into discrete quantities (such as energy). Quantity mechanics.
"Mechanics": the physics of motion and how a system changes over time.
"Quantum": comes from 'quantised', meaning 'can only take specific values'. In this case it's talking about energy. Normally, if something has energy, that energy can seemingly be any number; however, if you look closely enough, in a lot of cases an object can only have certain specific amounts of energy (called "energy levels") — it can't have an amount of energy that's in between those levels.
Quantum mechanics is the study of what happens when the fact that energy can only have certain values becomes relevant. With most things in everyday life, the energy levels are so close together that you can pretty much ignore that they're separate and pretend that the energy can be any number you want. But with really small stuff (and in a couple other extreme situations), you can't ignore the energy levels. That's what quantum mechanics is all about.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A quanta is a small package of energy. The crazy stuff is that we noticed that matter can only exchange energy between each other is packages of quanta. Like if matter had a economy system, that instead of dollar you had energy, and instead of a cent you had a quanta.
On the big scale of things, you cant notice a single "cent" but if you look at really tiny stuff making microtransactions between each other, you will notice a lot of weird things going on. Thats why "Quantum" physics.
The mechanics of something is the apparatus, like the structure and its purpose.
Quantum Mechanics is therefore trying to understand the whole structure of those small stuff doing these weird things.
Mechanics is the area of physics concerned with the motions of macroscopic objects.
A quantum is the minimum amount of any physical entity involved in an interaction.
Quantum mechanics is a fundamental theory in physics describing the properties of nature on an atomic scale.
Quantum mechanics explains the aspects of nature at ordinary (macroscopic) scales but extends this description to the small (atomic and subatomic) scales.
The "rules" that describe the behaviour of things when shit gets really small. Common sense avails you naught. Atoms and tiny crap don't act like miniature planets with orbits and whatnot. Stuff isn't really "there" in any predictable consistent way. Some "things" can be in two places at once or have a chance of being in a whole bunch of places and only when you measure do they get their shit together and decide "where" they are. So now you know less about how fast they are moving so you figure that out pretty accurately which means you now know fuck all about where the thing is.
We live in the macro world and all the tools we have , our common sense, lets us down at the quantum level. Shit is whack (Stewie ref). Up is down or strange or charmed. If you think you are beginning to understand then you aren't.
A person is made of organs, like the stomach, which are made of tissues, which are made of cells, which are made of a variety of substances called molecules, like water, or H20.
H20 stands for DiHydrogen MonOxide
Di(2) Mono(1)
So a single water molecule contains 2 Hydrogen and one Oxygen.
"One Oxygen what?" I hear you ask.
Atom.
An Atom is the smallest piece of something that anything can be and still behave like a normal substance, like air, or water, or books, or tables, or chairs.
Atoms make up the periodic table of elements, an element is a collection (such as a pile, a scoop, a solid bar, a puddle, or a gas cloud) of identical Atoms.
Gold is an element.
Water is a molecule, because it is a substance made of multiple elements.
As I said earlier, an Atom is the smallest a thing can be and still be a thing.
But we can go smaller.
Every Atom is made of smaller pieces, known as Protons(+), Electrons(-), and Neutrons(0).
(Atoms are mostly empty space.
Imagine a sewing needle.
If the tip of a sewing needle were the central position for an atom, and the nucleus of the atom were that size, the electrons would be orbiting at a distance of over half a football field away.)
What makes atoms different is how MANY protons and electrons they have.
Now, we can still go smaller.
Each proton, neutron, and electron is made of smaller. . . things, called. . . quarks?
I think?
Something about how quarks move gives the different particles they make their properties of electric charge, and a ton of other wierd shit happens too.
Quantum mechanics, basically, is the study of how things work on the scale of quarks, and on the scale of extremely small times frames, sometimes separate, and sometimes simultaneously.
For scale, If an atom were the size of a pea, a human cell would be the size of a cruise ship.
Easy way to think of it. Objects behave in two different ways based on size. In the normal world, we have Newton's laws. When you get down to the size of an atom, Newton isn't very accurate. So we call this the Quantum size, and the mechanics portion are the laws that replace Newton.
How matter behaves and interacts with each other and energy at the infinitesimally small scale .
luhsya · 28 points · Posted at 18:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the only thing i understand in quantum mechanics is the basics of heisenberg uncertainty principle. when it was taught in my undergrad, i kinda just accepted it's a thing. but recently, ofc, via Youtube university, i learned it's a phenomenon that makes sense: 'observing' a particle also changes its state, because light hitting, let's say, an electrons, changes that electron's state
'observing' a particle also changes its state, because light hitting, let's say, an electrons, changes that electron's state
It's stranger than that though. It's not as simple as changing what it's doing by banging a photon into it. It's not that you don't know of the state because you can't look at it. It's actually not in any state until you look at it.
Look at the delayed choice experiments!
psyjg8 · 7 points · Posted at 22:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it is in "a" state - a superposition of them.
elebolt · 19 points · Posted at 19:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can even think of it as something like this: If you measure the temperature of something hot with a cold thermometer, you're bound to make whatever you're measuring colder than it was before. So by measuring it you're actually altering it. There are a lot of forms of this, but this was the simplest I could think of.
gcross · 3 points · Posted at 00:56:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i learned it's a phenomenon that makes sense: 'observing' a particle also changes its state, because light hitting, let's say, an electrons, changes that electron's state
That actually isn't true. Even if you had the ability to perfectly measure a particle without disturbing it, you still could not perfectly measure its position and momentum simultaneously because these quantities do not even exist with perfect precision simultaneously. There isn't an intuitive way to understand this because in our classical sensibilities the position and momentum of an object are two completely independent quantities, but in the world of quantum mechanics they are smashed together into a single "wave function" which defines both; roughly speaking, the amplitude of the wave function defines the position distribution, and the amplitude of the Fourier transform (i.e., the frequency distribution) defines the momentum distribution. Put another way, the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle comes from the fact that--at least in the limit--it isn't possible to have a distribution that is simultaneously a single peak (i.e., perfectly defined position) and a perfect sinusoidal wave of a particular frequency (i.e., perfectly defined momentum).
What I don't get is how does a particle know it was observed?
Sometimes the way these scenarios are explained, it seems like it stays in a superposition until a sentient being 'knows' the fact of the state?
gcross · 3 points · Posted at 17:17:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best way of understanding what happens is to recognize that the observer is himself or herself a subsystem within the full system consisting of the observer and the particle that is about to be observed. Imagine putting this full system in a perfectly insulated box so that it doesn't interact with the rest of the Universe. Before the observation the observer is in a state that is independent of that of the particle. After the observation, the full state of the system is the superposition of the particle being in one state and the observer seeing it in that state and the particle being in the other state and the observer instead seeing it in that state. From the perspective of the observers in each of these two states, it appears that the wave function has collapsed. However, from the perspective of someone outside the box, the wave function of the system has not collapsed, it has just evolved into what is called an entangled state, which means (roughly) that there is now a correlation between the two subsystems.
So in short, the particle is not smart enough to know when it has been measured, and the observer is not special enough to cause the wave function of the entire Universe to collapse when they perform a measurement; from the perspective of the observer these things might seem to be true, but when you insulate both the observer and the particle from the rest of the Universe then it becomes clear that there is no need for the particle to be so smart or for the observer to be so special to explain what is going on.
[deleted] · 505 points · Posted at 17:53:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anyone who claims they understand quantum mechanics understands less than you about quantum mechanics
[deleted] · 196 points · Posted at 19:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The smarter you are, the more you acknowledge how much you don’t know.
Gernet · 8 points · Posted at 20:05:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more you know, the more you know you don't know shit.
This is the number one reason why I do not get organized religion. How do you know that you are seeking truth in the correct direction when you start by assuming you know what the truth is?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess that’s sort of the faith part in religion. This is one of the reasons why I don’t see myself as a religious person, because I can’t put faith into something I’ve never experienced myself.
This is why I vaguely label my beliefs as "spiritual" rather than religious. Religion is just the box people use to put around their limited understanding of the universe and all the things in it that cannot be explained by science or immediate understanding.
It takes a certain amount of intelligence to understand how small you are ima indifferent universe the same intelligence lets you appreciate what you have and makes you grateful for life
During a lecture in my undergrad quantum class, one of my classmates (speaking for the whole class) once blurted out, "but that doesn't make sense! It's so counter-intuitive!"
The professor turned and looked at him, and said, "When I was a grad student, I once said the same thing. But then my professor told me that the experiment says that it's right. If it's counter-intuitive, it's your intuition that has a problem".
I_W_M_Y · 50 points · Posted at 19:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I claim to know absolutely nothing about quantum mechanics then does that mean I know everything about it AND nothing about it at the same time?
SOwED · 20 points · Posted at 19:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of a misquote there. Anyone who claims to understand quantum mechanics doesn't understand quantum mechanics. Doesn't meant they know less than you. That depends on you.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah I heard that like a year ago so I forgot the quote for the most part
As the person below said, what you're thinking of is quantum physics. My dad is a nuclear theoretical physicist. Fairly certain he understands it a decent amount lol
That's more true of quantum physics, which is where most of the crazy deeper questions make more sense to ask. Quantum mechanics is more of a mathematical paradigm that, with the right training, can be pretty well understood.
You can understand quantum mechanics just fine if you blindly accept that the mathematics you are doing is a proper representation of the problem at hand. Quantum physics looks for just why that representation works, which might as well be magic to all but a few research physicists out there today. And even those physicists wouldn't claim that they fully understand it.
It still is magic to research physicists, I can assure you. Seeing experimental results validate quantum mechanics in a lab is exciting stuff. We can predict the results accurately and then use the effects to our benefit for various applications. But every experimental quantum physicist will tell you, when they give deep thought into why the results come out the way they do, it still feels like magic.
Physicists just accept the quantum weirdness, and say "welp, that's just the spooky world of atoms and photons, I guess" and move on. We don't really understand "why" just yet, we just accept the results as is. A good place to start reading about quantum is the double slit experiment or the stern-gerlach experiment.
Understanding the things we know about QM is really not that difficult, the difficult part was finding out what we know about it. It's not intuitive, but it's quite logical if you know the rules. People say it's wack and random, but it's very consistent and always follows the rules, it's just that the rules are not what you would expect.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
but it's very consistent and always follows the rules, it's just that the rules are not what you would expect.
We're totally in a simulation. Everything exists as a probability function until we observe it to save processing power.
😒 I'm a physics major and I have the right to say I understand some of the fundamentals of quantum mechanics.. aaand actually know some. I derived the Heisenberg uncertainty principle once.. took some hella math.
Slyndrr · 10 points · Posted at 20:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think lots of people get stuck because they can't stop asking "but why??" or "how?" instead of just being an obedient student and memorizing the rule books. It's different from what we see and observe normally, we just got to accept that in order to learn the subject.
Great point, sometimes you just gotta start diving in and try making sense of it later. Took me a solid year before a light bulb went off in my head about Einstein's Equivalence Principle
To preface: I know nothing about physics at even a high school level. But, I was thinking you might find Eric Weinstein's latest video on his YouTube channel interesting. I didn't understand a single word, but I know it's more or less talking about re working Einstein's theory of relativity.
I understand small parts of it, specifically how electrons behave in semiconductors. It's really quite interesting how different substrates can force pathways and frequencies reliably.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:36:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We understand a description of quantum mechanics mathematically. And we can reliably predict experimental results. But the "why" it happens, we really don't understand.
What surprises me the most is all this people that believe in quantum mechanics as it was God. And they write books like "THE SECRET" and they talk about how the universe has the power to make all your wishes. And these kind of books were written by quantum physics scientists...
It's more that things can be in an indeterminate state that could resolve to some number of discreet states. Using the Schrodinger's cat example, it's not that the cat is both alive and dead at the same time, it's that it's impossible to tell whether or not the cat is alive until it is observed.
And this isn't just "you don't know until you look" kind of thing, it does actually exist in the superposition of the two possible states...
Quantum mechanics is hard...
Think of it more like there's two cats that exist in the same space, one dead and one alive, and which you see when you observe the system is indeterminate (and by doing so, you reduce the chances of the other cat being in the box to 0)
The thing that might REALLY blow your mind though is that this isn't even hypothetical (well, in the case of a system as complex as a cat, it is) we have actual proof of probabilistic objects, look up the double slit experiment if you're interested
But basically, when you fire a wave (like sound, or light) through a pair of slits you expect a certain pattern to emerge due to wave interference (mostly a series of areas of high concentration separated areas of low concentration). When you fire particles through the same pair of slits you expect to get a different pattern (two areas of high concentration, empty everywhere else).
When you fire electrons through these slits, they form the wave pattern, unless you try and detect which slit each electron goes through, in which case they form the particle pattern.
If you have the information about which slit it went through, and then destroy that information without looking at it, the electron/photon will have behaved (in the past) as if the information never existed. This is called "delayed quantum erasure" and was part of the Einstein-Podolsky-Rosen reductio ad absurdum "proof" that QM was wrong.
Then someone actually did the experiment (Fuji make a sensitive enough sensor in about 1985) and found out that the "absurd" outcome of the so-called paradox was actually what happens...
BonesAO · 32 points · Posted at 19:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is so outside the realm of human intuition I feel like an ant being explained the solar system
elebolt · 17 points · Posted at 19:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's exactly why I find it fascinating! Because it just kinda breaks your way of looking at reality
Just watched this video explainh the double slit experiment and he finished with the "delayed quantum erasure". Very strange. Are there any explanations to this?
Yes! The explanation is "this is how reality behaves and is predicted by quantum mechanics"!
It's weird, and seems arbitrary, but actually is no more arbitrary than the fact that (say) how difficult it is to move something is directly proportional to how much that thing is attracted to other things because of its mass - i.e. the fact that gravitational and inertial mass are the same.
The latter of those two facts is something that you accept without question because you have experienced it every day your whole life. DQE is weird because it doesn't fit with our simplified model of how things work.
basically quantum mechanics goes against one of the key concepts of physics, which is that the conditions determine the outcome.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not a very good "key concep[t] of physics" when the theory that violates works so much better than the classical theories it superseded.
But regardless, that isn't even true. Quantum Mechanics is actually completely deterministic in that if you definite an initial wave function and the Hamiltonian that governs its evolution, then the wave function at all past and future times is perfectly defined, it's just that observers within the system experience what seems to them to be wave function collapse. This might seem like a moot distinction when you are the observer but it is an important one because it gives us a way to be able to predict whether something has the effect of an observation or not.
I'm going to pretend I understand what you're explaining. But I don't know very much if anything about quantum physics.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. My main takeaway point is just that I have found that many people think that QM is in some way an incomplete theory and there surely must be a better one that fixes its flaws when in fact it is perfectly fine as a theory of reality except for the fact that we don't know how to construct a QM theory of General Relativity yet.
crowkk · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics is actually completely deterministic in that if you definite an initial wave function and the Hamiltonian that governs its evolution, then the wave function at all past and future times is perfectly defined
Physicist here.
This is half-right half-wrong.
Yes, if you control everything in your system the wave function will be determined at any point in time, however this doesnt not make the systemc deterministic at all. You may know that the particle's spin can be (50-50) either up or down but there is NOTHING and cannot stress this enough: there is nothing you can do to determine wheter the output will be up or down.
In classical mechanics if you control everything you know where the particle was and where it'll be.
In QM if you control everything you know where it likely was and what/where it likely will be but you cannot determine EXACTLY what it'll be. It's not deterministic for that. You only know your options and you can only know what it is after you force the wave function to collapse.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 12:10:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If we are going to insist on asserting credentials then I am also a physicist. Furthermore, as a physicist I am sure that you know that, while the exact measurement is not deterministic, the distribution can be exactly known because it is possible to know the exact wave function before measurement. Finally, QM is completely deterministic even when you consider measurement because if you include yourself within the system then you see that the measurement process itself is completely explained in the formalism of quantum mechanics through entanglement and decoherence.
Welcome to quantum physics 101. Today we are all grown-ass adults.
drains the bottle of absinthe
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
look up the double slit experiment if you're interested
Being able to run this experiment at school really blew my mind.
Shine light at one slit and it makes a single line on a target on other side? Ok cool....
Shine it at two slits and it makes an interference pattern on the target? Ok. So a stream of light's is like a wave... It goes through both slits and interferes just like water waves. Ok so far ...
Now shine one photon at a time at the two slits and it hits a spot on the target like a particle but only hits spots that match up with the interference pattern like a wave? Haha lol wtf is going on...
Bonus: if you look at the atoms (using a detector above one of the slits) while shooting them one at a time then you get the particle pattern. If you don't look at it, you get the wave pattern.
We don't. We can only have a probabilistic idea if where it is. In this experiment, we don't look at the atom's route, but his arrival on the photosensitive pad that shows the wave or particle pattern
The best way to try understanding it is to learn about wave functions, which are sort of like mathematical sums of all possible states. When a particle is not measured it exists as a wave function, and when you measure it, the wave function collapses into only one of those states. Obviously this is an incredibly simplistic explanation but it helps make sense out of superposition.
SOwED · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smugly thinks of my childhood photo at the Four Corners. I was in four states at the same time.
Think of it like a boat rescue operation. Your information tells you that the person lost at sea could either be at at X coordinates or Y coordinates. Until you go and check the waters for them, they could be at either location. Then you go to one location and check ("observe") and the state of the rescuee "collapses" into "at X" or "at Y".
To extend the metaphor a bit, you can consider those two locations as "entangled". The one single person at X or at Y is definitely at X if he's not at Y, and vice versa, so when you "collapse" the search and check one location, you instantly know the state of the other location: empty or with-rescuee, based on the first place you checked.
It gets a bit more complicated with the wavy nature of reality, so it can be thought of, in some interpretations, as the wave function actually existing in both places. No one really knows what the physical interpretation of that idea should be. There are lots of candidates though.
gcross · 2 points · Posted at 12:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not really confusing so much as it is fundamentally weird because it goes against our classical intuitions.
My knowledge comes from YouTube and A-Levels ONLY so take this with a massive grain of salt but I think it means a particle has a probability to be A B or C and until you look at it you won’t know which one it is. I guess it’s like bar dice; of course it can be 1 to 6 but until you look at it you won’t know which one you got. Please correct me if I’m wrong.
Too simplistic. It’s actually literally in all those states at once. Observation (?usually?) collapses the superposition of the states, however, determining just one, which however can be undone if you somehow unobserve the phenomenon. (Recording it and destroying the recording unwatched, presumably murdering anyone who observed it before they can get a word out, etc.)
We are merely dipping our pinky toes in here. I don’t understand quantum physics any more than I understand art or the human soul, but that’s okay; I am your faithful reporter. Have some absinthe. It makes the lack of logic hurt less.
Hardcore math is easier than this shit. Math doesn't make sense but it's okay because it's not real (infinit dimention ? no problem, bro). But QM is just doing some wack shit and tells you that's how the world works.
A lot of my professors genuinely believe we are missing something pretty fundamental. Sure it makes great predictions, but so did Newtonian mech in the world observable at the time. It just doesn't make sense for the world to be like this. The fact it doesn't marry with GR, antimatter asymmetry along with some other issues also suggest this.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be clear, Quantum Mechanics is not a theory of nature, it is a metatheory. The Standard Model of particle physics, which is what people generally are referring to when they refer to things like "antimatter asymmetry", is a theory built on Quantum Field Theory which in turn is built on Quantum Mechanics, just like how the classical theory of gravity is a theory built on Newtonian Mechanics. This distinction is important because the fact that General Relativity does not marry well with the Standard Model doesn't (necessarily) mean that Quantum Mechanics is the wrong theory of the Universe, it might just mean that there is some other theory built on Quantum Mechanics that is closer to being the true theory of nature; String Theory, for example, is built on Quantum Mechanics.
Math is about as real as it gets. Nothing else will tell us that 1+1=2. It is limitless of course, but since our real world does have limits, we add a thing called physics on top of math to make it grounded in our world.
Thank you! I was trying to read some basic QM, electron orbital stuff and it makes no sense to me. An electron is in an orbital, but doesn't move around it, it's just everywhere?
It helps if you don't think about an electron as a particle. If it's not a particle it can be everywhere. Even more trippy is there is a hypothesis that there's really only one electron in the Universe but it's everywhere.
Kowzorz · 4 points · Posted at 21:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Electrons act so weird in atoms partly because they are bounded resonant waves -- standing waves. Waves bouncing around in a place with walls. Based on the shape of walls and the energy of the wave, you get configurations that end up looking like orbital shapes.
An electron in't orbiting an atom (Borh Model). Or at least, that's not the most accurate model we have.
It's not like a planet orbiting a star.
The electrons fall into the lowest possible energy 'states' as dictated by the Puali Exclusion principle. Kind of like, they all try snug up to the atom, but they can't all fit.
But of course, their position is not set unless observed, like anything they exist as a probability of being at a particular position - hence the 'everywhere'. It's just a probably cloud of an election being in a particular place.
But if you observe it in one spot, the a second later obseobserve in another spot, its incorrect to think it moves from one spot to another.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In QM the position and momentum of a particle are not independently defined but rather are smashed together into a single thing called the "wave function"; the amplitudes of the wave function give the distribution of the position and the amplitudes of the Fourier transform (i.e., the frequency distribution) of the wave function give the distribution of the momentum of the particle.
Man I went down the rabbit hole learning about the double slit experiment and the other derivative experiments. That shit is mind boggling how knowledge about the experiment collapses the particle wave. Makes you reevaluate your reality. Same thing with Einstein's theory of relativity. Just makes you feel completely insignificant the more you think about it.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 16:01:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I went down the rabbit hole learning about the double slit experiment and the other derivative experiments. That shit is mind boggling how knowledge about the experiment collapses the particle wave. Makes you reevaluate your reality. Same thing with Einstein's theory of relativity. Just makes you feel completely insignificant the more you think about it.
Or, you could think about it the opposite way. Observation/measurement/knowledge collapses these wave functions.
In other words, consciousness has a real, notable effect on the Universe. So when people tell you that the human race is just microsopic dust in the vast Ocean of time and space that is the universe--consider the fact that our mere consciousness to the level of observation and knowledge, seemingly changes/settles the behavior of the super small particles that make up that vast Ocean that allegedly make us insignificant.
I understand less than zero about QM, but a very smart person who actually understands it told me once, "don't worry, just think of it as philosophy for physicists"
SOwED · 13 points · Posted at 19:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not philosophy. There are philosophical questions raised from it.
Mikey_B · 14 points · Posted at 19:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're wrong. They don't understand it (see the Feynman quote above), and it's definitely not philosophy.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually in practice there really isn't much more to it than applied linear algebra, I'm afraid. Even the weirdness of measurement can be understood completely within the formalism of quantum mechanics so that it is ultimately all math at the core.
I mean, they were making it up as they went. It was just in response to reality throwing them the curve balls that required them to make up new stuff to account for reality.
I recently started just looking at it to try to figure out like what it even is, and basically what I have concluded is that, we’ll shit I can’t even phrase it now that I’m thinking about it.
There was this great scene in the first men in black movie. The trainees have to shoot a bunch of aliens and the main protagonist is just standing there. Then at the last minute he fires a shot. The overseer dude comes out and reels in the cardboard thingy he shot. He shot a 9 yr old girl.
When asked why he said "That alien there was just working out, but this girl here's walking around with a book on quantum mechanics in a shitty neighborhood at night."
One of my favorite quotes about this comes from Bill BrysonA short history of nearly everything :
“...the question came to an interesting head in the fall of 2002 when two French Physicists, Igor and grickha bogdanov produced a theory of ambitious density involving such concepts as ‘imaginary time’ and the ‘kubo-schwinger-Martin condition’ ...”
“Almost at once The Bogdanov paper excited debate among physicists as to whether it was twaddle, a work of genius or a hoax. ‘Scientifically it’s more or less complete nonsense, but these days that doesn’t much distinguished it from the rest of the literature’”
In other words scientists don’t understand it either (but I’m glad there are smart people trying to figure it out! 😄
If anyone tells me being able to understand QM, I generally suppose they don't even understand anything. But imagination has brought us beautiful art.
gcross · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anyone tells me being able to understand QM, I generally suppose they don't even understand anything.
I really wish that people would get over this notion that it is impossible to understand QM. I mean, sure, it requires that one abandon some of one's preconceptions of how the world should work--such as that position and momentum should be independent quantities, and that all quantities need to be ultimately defined with perfect precision--but once you've done that it's just linear algebra, and in particular measurement stops being mysterious once you've learned about entanglement and decoherence.
crowkk · 3 points · Posted at 04:29:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. I'm a physicist and I still hear that type of stuff "if you think you know QM then youre doing it wrong"
No dude, I just know my calcs. I just know what's physically plausible, jeez
At last... somebody bit the hook and explained how QM is to be studied. Only those who really know how to do the job, will finish it. Congratulations and welcome in a world of people who focus on thinking out of the box instead of following the roads.
As Richard Feynman said “I can safely say that no one understands Quantum Mechanics”. Richard Feynman was one of the architects of quantum electrodynamics which is HARD AF.
That being said, quantum theory is just hard to interpret and wrap your head around. The math is doable and being able “understand” is still very possible even though it’s abstract. I think anyone that says that they fully understand quantum theory, don’t understand it. It’s a great subject due to its weirdness, don’t let the fact that you don’t understand it bother you. If you’re interested, it’s fascinating even you can’t fully wrap your head around it.
Exactly my first thought when reading this question. It's truly interesting, but mind blowing. The more you understand of it, the more you realise how complicated it really is
The dual wave-particle nature of light. Which I think is related to quantum mechanics, but I'm not entirely sure. I've tried so much to come up with a theory or model or something that makes at least a little sense to me, and I just can't.
Quantum mechanics states that you can randomly teleport 50 miles away from where you are right now. It's extremely extremely unlikely to ever happen, but it's still possible.
In the scale of molocules on up, things operate in absolutes such as off and on. On the atomic scale down things operate on probability such as of, on or maybe varying degrees of both.
The real trouble is finding the exact line, if there even is one. Also how the two seperate rulebooks operate and how they influence eachother.
That picture of a hotel hallway is such a relatable example. Sometimes I want to run like demons are chasing me on the way back from the ice machine even though nothing's wrong.
Yeah I love the book dearly. I rewatched the movie for the first time in probably 10 years last year and found... it did not age well. Maybe because compared to the book the movie just borderlines on absurdity sometimes (I cringe at how Danny’s premonitions with Tony were portrayed in the movie), but I do not enjoy the movie now.
The book however is still a classic to me and one of my favorites of all time.
It’s creepy that you can be in a building full of people but feel so alone
JDK002 · 32 points · Posted at 00:22:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to say something similar. That I wonder if the unease comes from knowing their are hundreds of people in the building, that you’re passing dozens of rooms that you know have people in them, but it’s so damn quiet in hotels at night.
JDK002 · 5 points · Posted at 04:35:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrödinger's Hotel? While the guest is not observed in their room they are simultaneously alive and dead.
This sounds like the basis for a horror short.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 01:45:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this way in my apartment. Like 100 people in the building. I see people but what everyone does in their rooms, their lives, I know nothing about them. Kinda freaks me out
lcqs · 10 points · Posted at 02:03:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Masturbation mostly.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:18:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's that one creepypasta I saw before about that buzzing in your ear you hear when you're in an empty, quiet room. That the buzzing is always there because "they" are always around you, but you only hear it when all the other noises are gone. But you have to be careful because when you start to notice them, they also start to notice you.
ab0cha · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty noisy where I am, but while reading your comment I concentrated and heard that buzz, then I finished reading and the last sentence made me feel quite uneasy haha
I used to love going to my primary school on weekends. I found the emptiness so eerie and stimulating, turns out I have ADHD, as I've found out 20 years later, and I think I used it as a weird form of stimulation.
I do IT for my old school district. Before I graduated I worked for the IT department as a summer job. It was weird being in the elementary schools or middle school with nobody in them. I was used to being in an empty high school because of staying late for theater and swing choir.
I didn't know that feeling existed haha, really interesting though
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 00:41:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like I am the only one who enjoys it though. A school during a summer break or even my office building when I work OT and everyone else is gone. I love the solemnity.
Now I could be wrong about those examples but I for one dig it when I am in a place that should be occupied but isn’t.
SAME! I absolutely adore liminal spaces and the feeling that comes with them. Its both comforting and somewhat unnerving because of the vague sense of “wrongness”. If you dig horror and you like that sensation you might also dig things like the Adult Swim Infomercials on youtube, anything by alan resnik (youtube), and salad fingers/don’t hug me I’m scared. They all use both overt and subtle horror that hits a similar nerve for me that liminal spaces do 🤷🏻♀️
They kinda make me feel nostalgic for times that I wasn't around for. The new Gorillaz track kinda hits that vibe for me. It makes me want to smoke a cigarette and cruise down an empty highway on a summer night with the windows down.
Can you further explain this? I always get creeped out if I visit towns I used to live in years ago. Do you think that's because it's one of these "liminal spaces"? If so, how? I'm trying to make the connection and your comment is closest to that feeling I get when I go to someplace from my past.
I think it has to do with the idea that you can't really go home, like the one you grew up in, even if you return to the place, it wasn't the physical location that made it home, it was the people and the fact that that was where you belonged while you lived there, as well as your mindset when you lived there. Even if all the same people still live there and you're still welcome to belong there, they aren't really the same as they've aged, your relationship has evolved, and you've all matured.
Or other places you've lived in, you have memories of good times and bad that are associated with specific places, like a regular hangout spot or a shop you frequented. Those physical locations are still there, but they aren't your territory anymore. Others might have claimed your hangout spot and it's theirs now to have good times at. Or maybe it's just abandoned entirely and no one cares to spend any time there. Or maybe what used to be there was torn down and replaced with something different. Either way, you can return to the physical location, but you can't really go back because the good times weren't just at a place but also at a time and that time has passed and is never coming back.
Or for places that are only temporarily abandoned, like the closed store, it's a stark reminder that what you know and love about that place is tied to the people that go there; they are what give it life, not the place itself. Also it can look different at night, more hidden and ominous.
I find abandoned places also give that impression, including random staircases in the woods or even ancient ruins. Once upon a time, there were people that used those abandoned places, maybe lived there or visited. There were many memories made there, but not anymore. People brought the location to life at one point but no longer do. And one day that will be the case for any place you can think of, it's just a matter of how far into the future you'd have to look to see that time. Maybe it's a long time away, maybe it's sooner than you think.
Ultimately, it's a reminder that all things come to an end and of our mortality. At least, that's how I feel about it, rather than that "in between realities" or "searching for purpose" the article said.
And another angle that applies more to places that just aren't busy is you never know who might be lurking out of sight, and since no one else is there, no one else will rush to your aid if they attack.
This is subjective, but what it feels like is my current self is connecting to the pieces of me that were left there. Like shadows of my former self — memories rush back, but it’s also emotional. Hard to explain. Maybe that helped you a little?
I imagine it's that when you left, you changed from your new experiences without noticing while also keeping a snapshot of the place you used to live in mind.
Then, when you visited again, it changed in minor ways, leaving a strange experience of what you remember and what is now. How has your home moved on without you?
For me it's amplified when coming/going from a place that's meaningful to me, but it happens even in new/unemotional places as well. Especially at night.
It is a liminal space where I just feel checked out and "nowhere." All my senses are heightened and everything feels off, or like suspended somehow
Yes, it's like crying on airplanes! Something about being in-between places and nowhere at the same time
The bit where you're "in the system" - you step from the world of Sydney, and step out into the world of London, but in between, you're in the world of air travel, where everything exists as it's own entity, and if you do the right steps in the right order, it all works.
I assume you mean flying on airplanes, but there's a few people that say they relate to it and I'm not sure if I should be worried about their wellbeing.
Liminal times are what get to me. I live in China and have one trip home every year. Used to live in Japan and would do the same thing. The last day or two before traveling back, from home to China/Japan, always makes me stressed out and weepy, even when I'm looking forward to getting back to work and my life.
Yes. No purpose, not found in nature but in existence. You are left to wonder why, and wonder WTF will happen if I walk up these creepy stairs. Likely you will have a desire to do so, even if subconsciously.
It’s a horror/thriller manga written by a really well known writer, his name escapes me atm. Basically there’s this big rock face with a bunch of human-shaped holes and the characters are involuntarily drawn to their holes, from which they can’t escape, and inevitably die.
I know, not super related but it has a similar “curiosity kills the cat” tone to the staircase example. And I haven’t read vile vortices, I’ll have to check that out.
XanXic · 7 points · Posted at 23:01:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A important detail is the various holes are shaped like very specific people. So you will see a silouette of yourself that is perfectly shaped and sized for you. A plot point is the rock was carved thousand of years ago. That's what draws people in so much
Also spoiler lol, idk if that ruins it but I what kept me reading was "wtf happens when you go in"
Did this a bunch in high school, always found it exciting. Now I live on a coast and there's like half a dozen abandoned ocean structures and islands that I've wanted to row out to and explore, but never have.
I had no idea what feeling OP was talking about, but I immediately understood it the second I saw the first picture in that article. Literally sent chills down my spine.
Me too! Most recently was when I was walking through a motel parking lot around midnight, and it was cloudy so there were no stars or anything visible above the lights. Everything was quiet, I was the only person around. I just stopped and stared up at nothing, feeling like the universe had ended and this one motel was all that was left. It was awesome.
oh gotcha. i remember getting around titanfall 2 maps, there would be invisible floors and walls. so you can get stuck forever, or the only way out is....TO DIE
Wow. I didnt know those places had a name, I've always felt attracted to them... Abandoned pool parks, cemeteries, parking lots at night, all those areas in hospitals, churches, restaurants where a sign says to keep off...
Hotels in the middle of nowhere during off season, even churches when there are nobody inside.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:47:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would that also explain why it's creepy as hell to drive down a major highway late at night when nobody's around? Because I was on the interstate once at like midnight when it was pretty much deserted, and it just felt wrong somehow.
Thank you for this! I remember being a kid and driving past this carpet store at night when it was closed. I'm pretty sure it was on our way home since I remember driving past it often. The lights inside, in front of the big windows were on, illuminating the giant area rugs hanging up. It always looked somewhat ominous and I wished I could be in there and could never figure out why. It was creepy but totally inviting.
Thanks for that. Sometimes I wonder what a day looks like for a lamp in a subway station, or an abandoned umbrella under a bridge. Seeing things outside their usual overlap with our own experiences/context is something else.
For me Silent Hill came to mind. That's the schtick of nearly every level from those games. Empty schools, hospitals, apartments, a mall and a theme park even. Just public places without a soul in sight. Really effective at being unsettling!
I think it was Silent Hill 3 when the protag was at the mall that creeped me out the most. She entered the toilet in a normal mall, then exited into the Silent Hill version of it. I had a weird fear of public toilets for a while as a kid cos of that.
Like my head expects people to be there, but they’re not. I’m getting this a lot lately when I go for walks (exercise!) in places that are normally full of people but are closed or abandoned.
Especially in a car park where the music is playing far away somewhere, and it’s echoing longingly.
There’s this overwhelming feeling of melancholy, or ennui specifically. The mundanity of life, people and time forgetting ... it’s great!
I still have to go to work and take the L in Chicago to get there. After the shelter in place here began I was at one of the busiest stops in the city, during rush hour in the morning, and it was completely empty except for me. This describes the feeling I had perfectly
This might have an unintended double meaning, but that does make sense why I get kinda creeped when I'm alone in a parking lot at midnight, or why an empty school gives me the goose pimples; fear is what we (or our brain) don't understand.
Not to mention the fact that humans are meant to be social. It's in our nature to interact with other humans, so when you're in an empty space, that would also make sense that you can get creeped out.
Also, do you have an example that doesn't include a space being empty? Like can you experience a liminal space if it is filled with people, but is meant to be empty?
I guess a graveyard filled with people at noon in summer is kind liminal
When I was on civil duty I worked in a facility that offered adult education, and also accommodations. Usually I only worked on weekdays, but on occasion I had to stay over the weekends. The last guests leave on Sunday morning, and after that the place was COMPLETELY empty. They had around 100 beds. Like, CREEPY.
I even had one episode where I heard a faint beeping sound of a fire detector in the middle of the night, and had to search that damn thing through all the corridors...
I've worked on schools during summer break and it's really bizarre to walk into a completely empty school but it's somehow MORE bizarre when all the desks are in the hallway so we can carpet the classrooms. It looks completely wrong to have all the furniture piled up in the hallway, especially when it's a open design and you can see the desks from a different floor.
Oh I love liminal spaces then! I love going to abandoned places and feeling the absolute silence of say a school where kids once ran around screaming and laughing. It's such a surreal experience and those places are where I feel the most peace
I honestly find this fascinating, because I have never felt this kind of thing.
People talk about places feeling off all the time, an all the people here relating to that give it credibility. It's not that I just don't know what "feels off" menas, I totally get that for people for example, but I can not imagine feeling it for a place, much less one of the usual examples used in the article aswell.
Trexa · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also have never really get this. I’ve been in places like the article describes and that people have commented about here. Now it feels like I’m missing out on something.
dualib · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh shit. I finally have a definition for something i’ve always liked, but couldnt describe. Like empty basketball courts, or empty streets at night. Thank you so much. I can finally describe how I feel when I look at the city skyline at night or a lonely street lamp.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the thing I really want to do before I die it's this: there are small places inside highway galleries where you could go to call for the 911 if you have a car accident or just stay there if you don't want to get hit by cars. Well I'd love to spend a night there. Unfortunately it's so fucking illegal that I'm not sure I'll ever get a chance to do it. But thanks for this term, now I now what's so cool and terrifying about those places. RN a lot of places look like liminal places because of the lockdown, at least here in italy
I read this article and I am super bummed out I have no idea what you mean about altered reality. I can recall being in empty hallways, truck stops before the sun comes up, etc, but have never felt the sensation everyone is talking about in that context.
This is fascinating. There are some places that completely creep me out and I don’t understand why. When I drive through, It’s like a dark descends over me and I want to get away as soon as possible. There’s no discernible reason for it, it’s just a vibe I get in certain locations. Luminal spaces sound similar but not quite the same. Do you know if there is a name or cause for what I am describing?
Thank you so much for this. It explains a lot. I used to work in a hotel in room service and sometimes I'd get a call past 11pm when all the other guests are in bed. What made it worse was the glimpsing my reflection in the glass walkways between the hotel blocks. Constantly looking over my shoulder.
That's so fascinating!! When I worked at the prison, I did all my on the job training during the daytime, when I finished that, I was assigned to the graveyard shift. Walking around a prison yard (medium custody, so something similar to what one might see in a prison movie with the open yard and everyone walking around) in the middle of the night is the spookiest thing ever, it gave my the creeps for a while before I got used to the experience of being awake all night and listening to the spooky silence of a "sleeping" prison.
I was just replaying Portal 2 and now thinking this is part of what makes it so creepy. There's a lot of spending too long in places where you don't belong
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the most bizarre and intense experiences I have ever had was walking through an empty parking lot of a grocery store at night while tripping on acid. I've never been able to put into words how it felt.
Wow. This is fascinating. I’ve never heard of this but, ever since I was a kid, I’ve experienced this strange feeling when there is snow covering everything and I look outside at night.
Thank you so much giving me the name of this phenomenon. Since I was a kid, driving past empty/closed places at night would always make me feel really sad and unnerved.
What exactly is an SCP? I remember playing a really scary game as a kid where you walk down a never ending staircase and ghosts appear until you find a skeleton type of guy who ends you.
I think that was called SCP-087 and another similar game where in the end a red face you can only just make out in the distance says in a distorted voice "don’t look at me" was called SCP-087b
And now I sometimes read about different SCPs on reddit and so have no clue what that means
Men In Black is Earth's secret customs service, which protects and hides normal alien citizens while repelling extraterrestrial threats to the planet. SCP (Secure Contain Protect) is like MIB, but instead of just protecting Earth, it protects normalcy. It hides all the reality glitches from the general public and boxes up all the cursed objects where they can't cause damage. They're the reason the low level telepath down the street went missing, and the reason why Armageddon failed to be noticed by more than about 3 people.
From a reader's perspective, it's a collective writing project where people create official looking documentation for the kind of things you'd see on the TV series Fringe. Nothing's canon, so each writer is free to conflict with others. The best pages take others into account, but they aren't strictly required to.
To add on to the other answer, SCPs are basically all fan-made projects. Each SCP is designed and written by one or more writers and published onto the SCP website as though it is an official entry in the in-universe SCP database. SCPs can range from weird quirky things like a time travelling frog, to weird X-Files shit like psychic vampire cults, to parallel universe, world-ending shit.
Ik it exists, that was the point, it was a fun read for me too
Smokabi · 132 points · Posted at 21:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liminal spaces! The limbo in moving through locations and time (such as at a gas station at 3 am). Negative space is an artistic term—in comics, this is the space that artists must take into account for balloon placement :)
It's so odd because I feel this way at my dad and step mums house. Brother feels it too because we were such brats trying to get our dad to let us go live with our mom. He put it off on us being upset about leaving the house we grew up in. But, it just feels so dark and off in there. Even as an adult I still feel it and it creeps me out.
I used to live in this area out in the middle of nowhere that was sitting on a bunch of quartz and time ran very weird there. A lot of people who lived there had nightmares all the time. It was like the Vaermina quest in Skyrim. The area was also a site of a massacre that occurred in 1812 where they left the bodies to just rot for 10 years before burying them in a mass grave and most people who lived there would tell you the whole area was very haunted and cursed.
I remember walking out with my friends looking for a good spot to smoke weed and we were walking down an unused backroad. At one point we passed a mesquite tree and the wind changed and the vibe became creepy. We saw a shack that had no front door, only a bedsheet. The bedsheet swayed in the wind and no one was there but you could hear the faint sound of a banjo. It was very surreal. For the record though, we hadn't smoked the weed yet so we weren't high.
Another time, I was taking a quick walk by myself. When I turned around to come back home, I noticed a tree had been crushed as if something came out of the sky and fell on it. I was within earshot and didn't hear anything at all. There was nothing around that could have possibly caused this. At first I thought it must have been a horse, but the horses couldn't have reached it because there was a fence seperating them from the tree. I still have no idea what crushed the tree.
Thats a sort of complicated question. Its a country backroad "neighborhood" made up of broken down mobile homes about 30 miles south of San Antonio, Texas, near Leming and Pleasanton. Some call it Thelma, some call it OP as it runs along Old Pleasanton Road. Basically right on the border of Atascosa and Bexar County. Its basically just a shanty town.
Edit: I should probably mention that the massacre I was talking about was the Battle of Medina. Interestingly though, is historians have trouble agreeing on exactly where it occured because they can't find any archeological evidence because it used to be marshland so its all silica sand, meaning everything sunk down and they can't excavate anywhere, not just because its in sand but also because people don't want anyone to excavate on their land. Texans are very serious about their private property.
I should also mention that about half of the properties on OP were abandoned. Back in the 50's, the land was being sold for very cheap, so a lot of poor Latinx families bought land only to realize they couldn't make a living off of the land, and soon they had no money and they had to leave. Which makes it all even creepier. There's even an abandoned half built mansion out there. What probably happened was someone was selling drugs, rolling in cash and they probably got arrested so it was never finished.
This. I was staying in an old hotel in Hurley, WI during a ski trip. It is on the border of Michigans UP. The hotel only booked the bottom floor because they were never busy, and the building clearly peaked in the 80s. They did however leave the end floor unlocked and it was so surreal. It was a literal time capsule.
I went to Dealey Plaza about 22 years ago. I was 8 months old when JFK was killed there. I say that because I don't have that 'you know exactly what you were doing when you heard that Kennedy was killed' feeling much older folks do. But, when I walked around that area, on the grassy knoll and along the sidewalk, it felt like the air was really stagnant. Like of like being in a house that has been closed up for a long time. It felt really bad when I stood to look out over where the X is on the street where the car was when Kennedy was struck. I didn't realize how close the grass and the sidewalk was to the street. But, I couldn't get over that eerie feeling.
Now, I go back again, two years later with my husband. I felt that creepy feeling again. I had told my husband before about how I felt the first time and I was feeling it again. He said he felt it too. I shouldn't dismiss his feelings but I chalked them up that he was a very young adult when Kennedy was shot. He has a different understanding about it than I did. Sort of like I lived through the Twin Towers falling during 9/11. Anyone born before that, it's just a thing that happened in history.
Interestingly enough, I didn't have any creepy feelings being in the depository where Oswald was supposedly, and it's now a gift shop/museum. I do have a theory on this creepy feeling; there is so much concentration of thought energy and negative energy in that spot that it has never been cleared. People haven't let go of the event so the energy stays trapped there.
I have felt similar vibes in my own life and I have to feel there is more to it than just being paranoid.
I like that theory! Makes sense to me. It broke so many hearts. The people bring their emotions with them to see that place and some spill out in tears. I could see that staining that spot, so to speak.
I spend a lot of time exploring abandoned buildings to photograph and time just feels like it flows differently around those places. I always feel like I've spent maybe an hour in a place only to come out later and realize it was two or three.
"Negative space" is the open area in a design or graphic image that is created by two "positive" objects that combine to create a third element in the blank (or "negative" space between).
For the past few years my design clients have gradually been catching on to the FedEx logo, calling out the arrow created by the negative space between the D and the E, and they suddenly know what to call it, requesting a concept that "has that negative space, yanno, like in the FedEx logo".
So now, along with the ever-popular misuse and abuse of the terms "disingenuous" and "cognitive dissonance" we have a third malaprop, "negative space".
"Are....are we the only ones here? Was there a zombie apocalypse I'm not aware of? Am I the last person on earth? Where di- oh, I'm just 20 minutes early."
We had a mall that was shut down except for one outer perimeter store. They filmed a zombie movie there. I went to go to that store & was able to enter through a mall entrance. No lights were on & there was not a single person there. The empty food court freaked me out the most. It was otherworldly. Kind of like now...
Ugh, worst feeling in the world. Apparently it's not limited to physical locations, either. I joined the wrong video conference "room" for a telework meeting last week and when nobody else joined after ten minutes I started to wonder if the world had come to an end.
9 out of 10 times, your gut knows that something bad is about to happen. Whenever I get a bad or an uneasy feeling about somewhere, I always listen to it.
I have anxiety so i dont trust my gut anymore, and i think that's sadder than having anxiety. I remember the feeling of confidence I have as a kid knowing that no major danger would befall me because my gut would be able to alert me, and my gut was always right.
Someone told me if you feel it in your chest it's anxiety, if you feel it in your gut it's intuition. I started paying attention to those signs and it hasn't failed me yet
Except kids have crappier "guts"/intuition, and you were just lucky, or possibly were a more anxious personality type as a child to begin with. Kids not only lack the formative experiences to learn what warning signs to pick up on subconsciously, but their brains are not even fully developed enough to make optimal connections even if they have such experiences. On top of that, during adolescence and well into the late teens and 20s, the hormonal balance is all out of whack, and hormones very much shape decisions.
Our brains don't actually fully mature until age 25 or so, and especially for women, hormones can take almost as long to really settle. Hence why some people in their 20s+ find that birth control or antidepressants etc. that worked in their teens no longer have the same effect. It's common to experience physical changes well past puberty like hip and breast growth.
The worst part is that as a result we can't even be properly self-aware of these facts at the time, and generally in adolescence our bodies are encouraging us to take the bolder option no matter what we know intellectually.
It's why it's hard to trust childhood memories - we interpreted things differently back then, so past decisions can be incomprehensible even if they still feel right. You probably did feel more free, safe, and like you could confidently identify possible danger. I remember that as well. But we were among those who were simply lucky that things didn't go wrong. As kids, we just don't have the tools to reliably gauge danger. The only downside is that adults have more social conditioning that might cause them to ignore signs that a child can react to without such constraints.
Anxiety is basically intuition erring in the safe side whether it's reasonable or not. The physical manifestations of anxiety are usually the easiest to treat, but the most important treatment is conquering the psychological ones. You're forced to learn to be extra aware of your actual intuition in order to identify the clinically detrimental thoughts and separate them. If anything, psychological treatment for anxiety (or any mental illness really) forces you to train yourself and develop discipline that everyone could use, even if they don't experience dysfunction without it. And that social conditioning works in a positive way for anxiety, because you use it to get your thoughts out of the anxiety loop before you start affecting other people, or being (actually) noticed by them. You're in much better standing now than you think in terms of trusting your gut as opposed to when you were a child.
Ugh. My anxiety has been progressing. The other day it was like nothing I'd ever felt before. We went to turn down this road and I swear, my body was physically telling me DO NOT go down this road. I felt like my body was physically trying to pull away from that road. Told boyfriend to slow down.. we went 20 down the road all the way home and i just knew something was gonna happen.. and nothing did. Just anxiety.
Nussel · 26 points · Posted at 21:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just recently had such a weird feeling when walking my dog at night. Granted, I don't like walking alone in the dark, but we have been doing this pre-sleep walk for two weeks now and it has been fine. Except that one night last week. I don't know what it was, but I could kind of sense some really negative energy, it felt kind of hateful? At first I thought I was just being overly paranoid, it being already quite late and me being basically alone (no traffic, no people etc.), but as soon as I put some distance between me and this particular spot, the feeling vanished. Also, while we were there, my dog was very focused on this one spot among some trees where I couldn't see anything, he walked normally again after we went a bit further on. I still don't know what it was, but I have never sensed anything like it before. It was so weird.
Waywoah · 14 points · Posted at 22:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The weird thing about gut feelings is that it probably was nothing. The dog could have just heard a raccoon or something and OP just misinterpreted its actions. Or it could have been a murderer hiding, waiting to strike. Which seems more likely?
Another thing to consider is that your behavior will affect your dog. If you start acting nervous, so will the dog. Generally speaking, of course.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:43:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but I actually didn't feel uncomfortable until I noticed that my dog's behavior got weirder and weirder and this feeling I had got stronger. Before I just brushed it off as my mind being weird because it was dark and didn't feel uncomfortable. Might still have influenced my dog, of course, but he was extremely focused on this one spot while I can usually get him to focus on me even if there is a cat he saw.
Yeah idk lol. I was just stating something general about dog's behaviors. Obviously may not apply as much in your scenario.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:50:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and you're right. I think it likely had an influence either way. Idk it was really weird. I've walked past this spot numerous times now at night and it never felt weird except that one time. Maybe it's best I don't actually know what was up then.
Nussel · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Might have been, yes. But the thing is that I realized my dog's behavior and the gut feeling pretty much at the same time. And at first, I wasn't scared as I was sure I was just being overly paranoid because it was dark. But as my dog's behavior got weirder and the feeling stronger, I started feeling uncomfortable. Also, I've never sensed anything this strongly. I have a pretty good gut sense, for example, I'll notice if someone is looking at me even if I'm reading a book or something that I'm really focused on. So yeah, whatever it was, it was very weird.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:39:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's what I have been thinking and it really creeps me out.
PlG3 · 23 points · Posted at 21:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You guys have superpowers. My gut only talks when I have to poop.
Maybe for boys but not for girls. Take a look at the videos of Joe Biden handling little girls. You should be able to find a running clip of them on YouTube. You can see how these little girls are creeped out by 'Uncle Joe' as he plays with their hair, caresses their faces, touches them and whispers in their ear.
9/10 times you're being paranoid. In the wild paranoia keeps you alive. Sitting alone in an area where you are well lit and can't see much outside of the lit area yourself would be suicide in nature. We evolved to not like that.
There is a selection bias in nature for that kind of thinking. The person who hears rustling in the woods and mistakes a fluffy bunny for a tiger misses out on a meal. The person who makes the opposite mistake becomes the meal.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got that almost every time I entered school...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its moreso a case of the uncanny valley effect, but with places rather than people. Take one aspect that defines a place away, and we become uncomfortable, because its somehow normal yet abnormal.
My mom was bringing me to Florida when I was a baby, we just came back from Michigan, we have family there, otherwise we would never go to michigan, but in the airport there was no one there, and a staff member near there said something about why there was no one there (flights cancelled maybe? Idk) he said that he would take is to the flight if we got in his car (this was in the parking lot), my mom quickly said no thanks, closed my door, got in the car and locked the doors and drove off really quickly, there is a few details missing, but you get the jist. Really makes you wonder...
[deleted] · 28 points · Posted at 21:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's the opposite, I love this feeling.
M_Looka · 25 points · Posted at 00:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do as well. I love liminal spaces. I love the feeling of kenopsia. I seek them out. In College, I went to a school in a city. The dorm rooms were really inhospitable (at least mine were. I was a poor kid going to a rich school). Most students studied at the libraries, or other study areas. There were whole buildings for this purpose. I used to go to one of a number of classroom buildings that were closed during off hours. I'd walk around the perimeter and tank at all the doors. Eventually I'd find an open one. Then I'd study there. The only person in an entire building.
There was a full size re-creation of Stonehenge built in the desert in Washington state that I visited on a weekday. Completely empty. Incredibly eerie. I loved it. Hated to leave. Ok, here's the best one. I was driving on the New Jersey turnpike at about 4am about 35 years ago. In southern Jersey, there was no traffic at all. No one in front of me. No one behind me. No one for miles. I took my foot of the gas and let the car roll to a stop. I turned off the car. I got out. No streetlamps, it's pitch dark. I walked around the car. Sat on the hood. Just enjoyed the eerie strangeness. Then I saw the headlights of a car coming up behind me. I had parked on a long straightaway, so the car was about three miles behind me. I just stood there, and stares at the headlights coming toward me. Me, standing behind my car, parked in the center lane of the New Jersey turnpike. I watched for about a minute. Simultaneously exposed and invulnerable. I wonder who's in that car? I wonder where he's going? Oh, well. I guess it's time to go. I love that stuff.
Me too, mostly for smaller places (e.g., a small restaurant, bakery, music store, hair salon, etc.) or a library, etc. that are closed for the night. Especially true if the place still has some low-level lights left on at night, leaving the inside dimly lit but still visible. If I had to analyze it, I'd guess that it makes me think of the friendly workers and customers who will be greeting each other again there in a few hours.
The effect is heightened for me on foggy nights, especially if the place's sign is still illuminated.
But I rarely feel that effect from big-box or franchise stores. And seeing vacant or permanently-closed businesses never has that effect on me.
As some who worked at an IKEA, you'd get sick of the limited food options pretty quick. If I never eat one of those shitty meatballs again for the rest of my life it'll still be too soon.
My favorite part of hosting a party at my place is the 30 or so seconds after everyone has left but the room is still buzzing with energy. It’s like being alone and with a group of people at the same time.
wanze · 10 points · Posted at 21:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. Is the IKEA empty? Is that the thing? Being in a big empty space is weird or?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I get what they're referring to. Problem is, it's hard to explain. Yes, I think emptiness is part of it. It's places where reality just feels...off.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I were waiting from 9 at afternoon til 9 at modning to get a virgil abloh ikea collection. It was cold and lot of sketchy People. Also my ikea is in a danish city called Odense and the ikea is at a very Dodge place at night. Atleast i were with some cool guys
If you ever become a shift worker, you get totally used to it and actually enjoy it.
I also did it a lot as a teen. Being mischievous and rebellious whenever the parents turned their eye, I’d be out that door and wandering places at 3am.
It is a strange feeling seeing the world while everybody is asleep. But I like it.
The silence, the echo of large spaces usually filled with thousands. The freedom of anxiety and all those thoughts you get while in the presence of others. You’re not worried about people seeing you not you’re best (not in your make-up whatever).
Then when I got my motorbike license I almost never slept anymore. I never had a destination, I’d just finish a night shift at the restaurant, get on the bike and follow a road till it ended.
5hours later, the sun is rising and I had to rush back the 5 hour return journey to eat, poop and go straight back to work.
It ruined me, but it was my best days.
Pitch black, empty roads, no street lights, years before google maps and smart phones. No massive street directory (where on the bike you gonna fit that huge book?). Just riding... absolutely nothing for miles but the darkness all around me.
IKEA kind of terrifies me. When you walk into one of the show bedrooms and there's weird shirts hanging in the closet or a book in an unidentifiable language sitting in the desk I feel like aliens are about to pop out
oukey_ · 6 points · Posted at 20:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can speak only about Europe, but yeah they do, the breakfast bacon it’s like from heaven and they also have these meatballs (for lunch)with mashed potatoes and gravy it’s amazing, if you have the chance try it, you won’t regret it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you have the chance try it, you won’t regret it.
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Went to a restaurant and the parking lot was empty. It was a Friday night, prime time for going out. Felt off, food was fine but there was nobody there. The place closed within the next week.
Thank you so much for showing me r/thenightfeeling. Ten years ago when I was 17, I read the book "the subtle knife" (which is second from the "his dark materials" trilogy) right in the beginning when the author describes an empty beach at night in another dimension, I felt a warm and relax nostalgic feeling that actually never felt before or after. Until today when I checked that subreddit out.
My job has me inside multiple different stores with only a few employees inside. Literally like 5 people running a whole store and its empty outside. It's become preferable to me that no one is there and when the parking lots are packed the job I came to do is much more difficult. I have this but in reverse.
Or a random fear you get while washing your face in front of a mirror or in a shower. I don’t understand how my brain just randomly pops this idea randomly and when I am trying to tell myself that it’s stupid and there is no one with a knife waiting to stab me while I am showering, the fear grows stronger to the point it becomes so intrusive you just have to open your eyes and check. You know. Just to be sure xd
tlb97 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had this feeling one time when I walked out of a forest into...heathland? (googled it, not sure if that's the correct word) It was just so...quiet there. Barely any reflection of sound. Barely any sound at all. Just a very occasional bird, and a very light breeze. It just felt surreal. I imagine that's also what it must feel like in an echo proof chamber or whatever they're called, only stronger.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the opposite. I love abandoned buildings, walking the streets at night when nobody is around, the idea of an entirely empty IKEA sounds wonderful (I’m a little bit of an ‘apocalypse romantic’ and crowds give me anxiety).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ejunco · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I use to walk through my old high school on the last day before summer break and it was empty or damn near empty I had a similar peaceful feeling.
gct · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This!! Lately I’ve been going outside in nights when the sky is clear at 2-4 and just staring at the sky. Its such a calm but primal almost scary but still pleasant feeling. Its amazing.
Tell you what... I once went to an IKEA at opening time, on a weekday, and the parking lot was essentially empty. It was like the guy seeing the double rainbow. I didn't even know what to do with myself! I usually drive up to the second level to avoid wasting time looking and I parked in the closest spot I could and it was glorious!
You mean my favorite feeling? It's why urban exploration is such a fun hobby. Abandoned buildings and construction sites are just the uncanny valley of civilization.
Am I the only one that is drawn to these liminal spaces? I don't feel fear, usually, and even find them comforting... Like a lonely airport terminal at midnight, or a row of closed, darkened shops early in the morning, or the lit but empty hotel pool at night?
Went to the local grocery store the other day in my sleepy town of 1500-2000 people to find it empty except employees. Was so fucking strange as it's the first time ever a grocery store was empty. I've worked retail for years so it was common to have a few dead hours at a best buy or whatever, but a grocery store just had a whole new level of "the fuck, nobody shops at 6pm?" Vibe to it.
Thanks corona...
(The store In question is the only option in town...)
For whatever reason, the office I was working at before the pandemic hit always felt like that to me, even with lights on and people there. It made my stomach drop and I felt really uncomfortable, like I'm in an anxiety nightmare and i shouldn't be there and if i dont leave, I'll never be able to. It was really weird.
I cannot be the only one that thought this was a good feeling. Responses seem to think this is bad? wouldn't it be fun to be in an abandoned cruise ship or military base?
Oh my goodness!!! Thank you!!! For the IKEA thing. I thought I was the only one feeling that weird thing. Everybody raves about IKEA so I went and I felt eerily lost. I never went back and I never told anyone how I felt. What was that? Can someone explain?
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You could shoot somebody right in their throat artery (I forgot the actual name for it) and it doesn't kill the instantly. Sorry, but getting shot in your throat would kill you in seconds. In a game where getting stabbed in the foot is an instant kill, getting shot in the throat should also be
Szjunk · 8 points · Posted at 02:45:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When there's a desink between the server and your computer, your screen can display the other player in one place and your crosshair can be over their head when you pull the trigger, but because hits are detected by the server and the player is in a different place according to the server, a hit won't register.
i’m a physics teacher and i’m embarrassed to say that despite reading several explanations, i still don’t understand how batteries work. specifically, if one end of the battery basically houses excess electrons and the positive side has a dearth of electrons, why doesn’t connecting two batteries but not in a closed circuit cause half of each battery to drain?
Rostin · 2960 points · Posted at 18:08:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not a battery expert, but I'll take a stab.
It's not true that one terminal of a battery has excess electrons, while the other terminal has a deficit of electrons. They are both charge neutral.
Batteries have an anode and a cathode separated by an electrolyte. As the battery is discharged to power something, not only do electrons flow from the anode to the cathode through an external circuit, positively-charged ions flow from the anode to the cathode through the electrolyte. The electrons and ions reunite at the cathode.
It takes energy to charge up a battery, and we get energy out when it discharges, because the ions and electrons are more chemically stable at the cathode.
In a lithium-ion battery, the kind I'm most familiar with, the anode is unusually graphite. The cathode is a lithium metal oxide. In the charged up state, the lithium atoms are stored in the layers of graphite. They aren't very happy about that, and would prefer to go home to the lithium metal oxide at the cathode. When the anode and cathode are connected through an external circuit, lithium atoms are ionized. The electrons go through the circuit, and the lithium ions diffuse through the electrolyte, and they are reunited at the cathode.
When you just connect two batteries together, positive to negative, nothing happens because the anode and the cathode are charge neutral. For electrons to be exchanged, there would have to be a channel for ions to be exchanged, too, and there's not.
Imagine you have a cube with a lump. The cube wants to go through a square shaped hole to the other side, but can't because of the lump. When you connect the battery to a circuit, the lump detaches, and follows the circuit, while the cube (now without lump) fits through the hole and goes to the other side
That explains why two batteries don’t discharge, but then when two batteries are connected in series, how do the electrons get back to the far terminal of the first battery? Do they pass through all the other batteries’ electrolyte pathways? And if so why can’t they just do that in the first instance in a battery sitting by itself?
If I understand correctly, they don't return to the original battery. The front battery is fed electrons from the second battery, and the first batterys electrons push into the circuit. The electrons in the wire push to the second battery. Picture a tube full of ping pong balls, add one and another pops out the end. Adding them in series just increases the force(voltage) those electrons push with.
I would imagine the electrons do move through the electrolytes, as batteries sitting on a shelf tend to lose charge very slowly.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picture two batteries in series. You might want to draw this out.
Label the anode and cathode of the first battery A1 and C1, and label the anode and cathode of the second A2 and C2. The batteries are connected with C1 directly in contact with A2.
Now draw an external circuit with a resister (light bulb, say) from A1 to C2.
As the batteries in series discharge, electrons go from A1 to C2 to power the light bulb. At A1, Li atoms are being ionized to strip off their electrons, and the Li ions that this reaction produces are migrating through the electrolyte toward C1. Oppositely, at C2, Li ions are being reduced to atoms by electrons that are arriving from the external circuit.
Within battery 1, the migration of Li ions from A1 to C1 means that positive charge begins to build up at C1. Similarly, the migration of Li ions away from A2 to C2 means that an excess negative charge begins to build at A2. But C1 and A2 are connected, so electrons move from A2 to C1 to balance the charge at both those electrodes.
Great explanation. I’ve always imagined batteries as a tank of water held in the air and electron flow is like uncorking the tank’s drain. Your explanation made my understanding a little more in depth.
Nah, not as good as what's it's from though, have you seen Idiocracy? They try to water plants with something that's essentially Gatorade because "hey, it has electrolytes"
Yeah nah I've seen the movie I mean when people say this in a thread I think the context in what you replied to made that joke much funnier then any other time it's used out of context. I love Idiocracy!
This is a very good explanation. But keep in mind that the terms „anode“ and „cathode“ are misleading, and it would be preferable to use the terms „negative electrode“ and „positive electrode“, respectively. This is even in the electrochemical communitiy not always done properly. However, it can avoid misunderstanding, because the terms anode and cathode are only precise when you also know, if the cell (i.e., the smallest unit of a battery) is charging or discharging!
hzyk · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Said the not battery expert :p
Rostin · 7 points · Posted at 20:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a case of me knowing enough about a topic to know what I don't know. In graduate school, I did a little work on lithium-ion battery cathodes. As a result, I have a basic understanding of electrochemistry and how batteries work. I am absolutely not an expert in specific materials or chemistries.
To simplify, connecting opposite terminals of separate batteries increases the imbalance of potential, it does not create a path to rectify the imbalance.
The connection point between the batteries become a net zero in terms of potential energy. While the two unused terminals now have the sum of the engery of both batteries relative to each other.
Imagine a dog that really wants to go to the backyard. However, only the front door is open. He keeps barking at the back door to go out, but he can't get through. He finally realizes he can run out the front door and go around to the back.
Now let's pretend there's a cat in between the front and backyard on the side. When the dogs not running by, the cat has no energy and just chills. When the dog runs by, the cat gets scared and jumps up. Once someone let's the dog in the backdoor, the cat is chill again. However, when he runs around the house again to get in the back, the cat will be powered again.
The front door is the anode, the backdoor is the electrolyte, and the backyard is the cathode. The dog is electrons and the cat is a lightbulb coming on.
byulo · 3 points · Posted at 03:24:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait that’s it??? that’s so simple whaaaat your analogy is mf amazing. ima write my physics notes like this from now LOL thanks man
Identifying which electrode is the cathode or anode can be a bit confusing. In a battery (galvanic cell), electrons flow from the anode (-) to the cathode (+).
Electrons are negatively charged particles so they are always attracted to the positively charged terminal, hence, the one single direction.
I do not know what to think about the "charge neutral" part. If I connect my hypothetical multimeter to the positive and negative electrodes, I will measure about 1.6 volts. Now obviously my hypothetical multimeter possesses infinite resistance, so the cell being tested is not powering anything. There might be a miscommunication here but if a cell cannot maintain a voltage potential on an open circuit, such as when disconnected, that cell is dead. A voltage potential relative to ground can be described as "having a charge".
You can have a potential difference between anode and cathode without having a net charge on either. The electrons in the cathode of a discharged battery are at a lower potential energy than the electrons in the anode of the charged battery. When your hypothetical multimeter measures those 1.6 volts, you are indeed closing the circuit. There has to be some current for the multimeter to sense.
Science and engineering is a pretty big world. You might be exercising a PhD given right to talk over my head. But from down here, I cannot comprehend why a comparison between two different batteries clarifies anything about electrodes being charge neutral. What is going on here? Is everyone else visualizing some useless clump of electrode material sitting all by itself on a table and saying, "Look, it possesses no inherent charge." Is there some obscure ramification of measuring electric potential energy relative to ground that cancels out any consideration of charge?
Perhaps I was not being clear about my hypothetical multimeter. As it connects an infinite resistance in parallel with the circuit being measured, I stand by my zero current draw assumption. Did that portion of your response have any relevance to the "charge neutral" discussion, or were you just overcome with an irrational fear that I might not be familiar with the inner workings of a non hypothetical voltmeter?
Didn't mean to insult you my guy. There are no "obscure ramifications" here. Certainly an electrode contains mobile charges. The point that our "non-battery-expert" made was that the net charge is zero. There is equal positive an negative charge. Now during operation, there well may be some non-negligible accumulation of charge, depends on the battery.
I don't doubt that you know how a multimeter works. My point was that a multimeter connected to the two ends of a battery closes the circuit, allowing the chemical reaction to occur. The current draw is negligible, but technically not zero. I'm sure you understand this, I'm not trying to lecture you. Perhaps you know far more about circuits than I do.
You need not be concerned with insulting me. Your most recent insights were somewhat helpful in clarifying what was being communicated. I still find this whole "charge neutral" thing wildly misleading. If one is unwilling to go into lengthy specifics about electrons at higher or lower energy states, then there is nothing to gain from insisting they might technically have equal numbers of the old protons and electrons bouncing around. Some poor fool is going to grab a charge neutral electrode and get shocked. Earlier you typed something to the effect of, "without having a net charge on either of them", did you mean "both of them"? It makes your dead battery/live battery comparison meaningful. As a side note, I am left to wonder who you were lecturing if not me. Perhaps some future reader will find worth in it, although it seems vanity to think I have an audience here.
"anode and the cathode are charge neutral" - I had to scroll way down to find someone who noticed that. Cathode and anode are not charge neutral by definition.
I think it would have been better for him to say, that chemical reaction inside battery produces electricity and that circuit needs to be closed for that reaction to happen in a timely manner.
I have no idea what to think. There is enough detail there to give the impression of knowledge, but only if you overlook the blatant lies in the opening section. Fuck it. 2 awards and 2.4k upvotes, clearly reddit knows what they want to hear. Excuse me while I go lick some charge neutral electrodes.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said they were neutral to correct a misunderstanding. A battery does not store energy by collecting a bunch of free negative charges at one terminal and a bunch of free positive charges at the other.
I won't argue with the rest of your comment, but batteries certainly do have excess electrons on the negative terminal. The proof is that you can bend electron beams in evacuated tubes through electrostatic repulsion with a battery.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a software guy, 80% ignorant about E&M, so forgive the dumb question but: what about butting batteries together + to - and then connecting the outside terminals (- and +)? If one battery is discharged, would this allow it to become charged? What is it about a circuit that provides the channel for ion exchange in such a way that putting the batteries together does not?
The missing piece here is that you have two chemical species (in the anode/cathode) that undergo a chemical reaction when in electrical contact. One of the two get oxidized (loses electrons) and the other gets reduced (gains electrons). This doesn't happen without an additional electron channel because the electrolyte acts as an insulator between the electrodes.
Whatever chemical reaction that is occurring to yield electrons in the anode also produces some positively charged ions that dissolve in the electrolyte and diffuse to the cathode (the details of this can vary) where they recombine with the electrons to produce some other chemical species. The products of this chemical reaction have overall lower energy than the reactants. Applying a voltage in the opposite direction could, in principle, cause the reverse chemical reaction to occur, but there's no guarantee. Depends on the kind of battery.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't the electrons travel from the cathode to anode? Conventionally current is said to flow from the anode(positive end) to the cathode(negative end) but the electrons flow from the cathode to the anode outside the battery through a circuit. Correct me if I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congratulations you just explained how batters work in a comprehensive way to someone who has never in his life thought about how batteries work. If I believed in giving reddit money I would give you an award. Instead though take my like.
In the charged up state, the lithium atoms are stored in the layers of graphite. They aren't very happy about that, and would prefer to go home to the lithium metal oxide at the cathode.
That's the part I don't get. I understand opposite charges attract each other, so it makes sense the charged lithium ions would cross the electrolyte but what makes them cross the other way when they lose their charge? They should be neutral, not going either way?
Or are they always losing/gaining electrons two at a time and see their charge invert at that time?
Is this because the external circuit is just more conductive than the internal layers? I never understood why they don't just spontaneously discharge internally, like what can happen in capacitors.
No, that’s not true. I had no interest in becoming either. But “science” covers a lot of topics, and there is very little chance anyone teaching science has an in depth education in all fields. We have more than enough to teach at a high school level, but we likely don’t have significantly more in all fields other than one or two.
i don’t fake it (pretending to understand things i don’t with my students), and this may be one of the few gaps in understanding i have it newtonian/classical physics. but physics is one of those things where you start off not understanding things, then you learn a little and you understand shit, then you learn more and realize that your prior “understanding” was superficial, and maybe continues to alternate as you continue further down the rabbit hole. i guess a lot of things are like that.
I'm not sure what circumstance you are referring to, but there has to be a closed circuit for current to flow. This closed circuit may be due to leakage effects. Is that what you're thinking of?
If you have a charged metal ball and an uncharged metal ball and connect them with a wire, current will flow between them, albeit just for a little while.
No, electrons will flow through the wire until equilibrium is reached and both balls have the same amount of charge. That's current. For sustained current you typically need some kind of return path, though.
A cell is basically two chemicals that are energetically favourable to react, separated by some kind of membrane that, for arguments' sake, let's say electrons can't go through.
As you know, reactions take place by electrons moving from one chemical to another.
The way the electrons can do this is "the long way round" via the circuit. Whatever other species is created can pass through the membrane, and so does in order to balance the charge. (This is why bits of dust don't stick to the end of a battery - it doesn't have a free space electrical field around it in the same way that a magnet does).
batteries work because of chemicals in them. There isn't necessarily a dearth or excess of electron. It's just that for a redox reaction to take place, there needs to be an electron transfer between the cathode and the anode.
the battery structure is basically this-
Cathode | Electrolyte | Anode
if you connect the cathode and anode with a wire, this enables the reaction to happen and the electrons flow through the wire and through the electrolyte. so you need a complete circuit for the reaction to occur.
however, if you connect the half of two different batteries, what you will be missing is the the electrolyte which can also act as a catalyst. So you are technically preventing the chemical reaction.
excess and dearth of electrons is probably an easy way of explaining this and hence textbooks mostly use these terminologies. If there was such a case, what you would be looking at is a capacitor, not a battery, which loses its charge a lot faster than a battery does.
i am nowhere near close to being a physics teacher, just a 12th year student. so if there are any mistakes in my explanation, i am sorry about that. you can look it up in the internet if you want! you may not find the answer to your exact question, but you can build up to it by asking the right questions. that's what science is about after all
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 23:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Even in high school? Seems like a waste of a physics degree.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a bachelor's in physics and I teach high school in the US. Besides the fact that there is a large need for physics teachers, it definitely helps me in teaching the topics. To explain anything simply requires a deeper knowledge of it.
Also, within 10 years I'll be making a professors starting wage.
Sorry if what I said was rude. You know what I mean though, teachers are notoriously underpaid.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 23:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No offense taken. It depends on where you're at, but I think rather than discussing it as teachers being underpaid, we should really be discussing it as teachers having too much responsibility. As far as work with a bachelor's degree we are paid pretty much on scale with other industries, on average anyway. The problem is that we are required to do the job of many different professionals. Not only do we teach, we handle child care, we handle emotional support, we handle classroom management, we handle curriculum writing, client interface by which I mean parents, we are required to do constant professional development, and we are provided next to no funding to complete these tasks.
I'm going to ask you something and I want you to be honest with me. What is differentiation?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've heard that not all people learn best in the same way, right? Well we are responsible for taking our curriculum and differentiating it so each students gets the content delivered in the most effective fashion. It also covers different levels of learning. I can't hand a math heavy exam to a kid who's been failing math all his life so I have to change the exam to be concept based. I can't solve equations on the chalkboard for the kid who has trouble staying awake in my lecture so I also have to provide YouTube videos they can watch on their own time. It sounds great because I'm 'meeting the students individual needs' but really it's a nightmare. If I have 25 students I'll have to create 3 to 4 versions of an exam and provide notes and lecture in 3-4 different formats.
I like using digital tools because I don't want to go through 10 reams of paper a year but you have a kid who doesn't like typing? Get him the paper copy. While it accomplishes a lot for students with disabilities, it really just takes responsibility off of lazy kids. This is the opposite of creating a good student.
I'm a physics graduate student, my research has nothing to do with batteries and until this post i hadn't really thought too hard about what was in them
I’m also a graduate student and this was asked on a comprehensive exam. If my department head came into a lab I was teaching and I couldn’t explain this, I’d be fired lol.
yeah, idk i guess i just never had or taught a class that focused much on it. capacitors, resistors, inductors, AC vs DC, were all reasonably important topics, but batteries were kind of always constant voltage black boxes. maybe someone decided they run on "chemistry" so why bother teaching it. or also maybe i just forgot
Departments are all different too. And yeah I agree 90% of the time they’re just black boxes in our circuits. I highly recommend learning about them though, it popped up in stat mech for me too!
i don’t consider myself a “physicist”. i have a bachelor’s in theoretical physics from a top tier university, but i never worked toward a phd or did substantial research.
I also teach physics and that is one subject that I am not the least bit embarrassed to say I don't understand parts. I can plug and chug the equations but there are parts that I just don't get all that much at a conceptual level.
I am not sure what level you teach but I would recommend taking a Modeling Physics class if you teach high school level. You learn a ton of stuff.
At the end of the day physics can be hard. No shame in that. It can also be the must fun as well and maybe for that reason.
Thinking of batteries as a reservoir of electrons is helpful, but not quite accurate (that's more akin to a capacitor). Thinking of batteries as a "voltage pump" powered by a chemical reaction can be more intuitive. Take a 1.5V battery for instance:
If the voltage difference between the positive and negative terminals is less than 1.5V, the chemical reaction proceeds. The reaction is a redox reaction, which converts chemical potential energy into electrical potential (through the released electrons). Once there is a voltage difference between the terminals of 1.5V, the reaction halts (the chemical potential is no longer enough to drive the reaction).
When you connect two batteries in series but leave the circuit open, electrons have nowhere to flow. The anode of one battery and the cathode of the other cannot chemically react with one another, as ions cannot be exchanged through the contacts, only electrons. The two terminals exchange electrons until they are at the same voltage, and then the system is balanced (until a load is connected via wire).
I'm not too good at explaining things but I hope this helps a little!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could think of it as a gallon of water or something instead. The positive negative indications is more like the direction it would pour out, not where the energy is hanging out waiting to be deployed if that makes sense.
Galvanic cells should show you the basics. If you look at a simple Cu/Zn cell, you're physically dissolving zinc from the electrode into the solution and that's where the electrons come from is the physical oxidation. With a complete circuit, those electrons start to get repelled and can end up at the copper cathode. At that point the cathode starts to build up negative charge and attract positively charged copper ions and perform a reduction reaction to donate some excess electrons into the electrolyte solution and get now solid, neutrally charged copper plating the cathode. What actually completes the circuit, though, is that the sulfate anion can freely flow between the cathode and anode but the copper and zinc cations can't. That's what forced electrons to go the long way around and through your circuit.
If you just attach two full cells together like you were asking about, there's nowhere for the sulfate to go. So any electrons that flow from the zinc of a second cell to the copper of the first cell will correspondingly build up a charge within the electrolytes that you can't get rid of and very quickly terminate.
Hopefully that at least gives you the gist of it without going into things like the double layer that forms at the interfaces between the electrodes and electroyltes. Plus these days most of the batteries you think of that we use have a solid electrolyte, but it really does the same thing in not allowing electrons to flow but allowing an ion to flow. Ionic conductors themselves are kind of cool to look at but can get very involved. AgI is a classic example of a simple fast ion conductor, where at 430K it has a phase transition from wurtzite to a simple BCC lattice that results in almost effectively a solid iodine sub-lattice and a relatively molten silver sub-lattice that allows the silver ions to fairly readily move between tetrahedral interstitial sites within the lattice.
One end of a battery does NOT hold an excess of electrons and the other end does NOT hold a dearth of electrons. The two ends of the battery each contain a metal and its salt. The relevant part of the salt is the metal cation - we can ignore the anion balancing it. For example:
cathode: Cu(s) and Cu2+anode: Zn(s) and Zn2+
we might write this in half-cell notation:
Zn(s) | Zn2+ || Cu2+ | Cu(s)
So for each metal, half of it is solid and half of it exists as a cation. The reason electrons flow is because the battery is basically saying "hey, wouldn't it be better if ALL of this metal were cations and ALL of this metal were solid?". This happens because one metal is more stable as a solid than the other, so the lower energy state for the system overall is to make all of that metal the solid here. Systems always shift to the lowest energy state.
You can imagine that for each metal, there is a certain change in potential energy for accepting electrons and becoming neutral.
For example, when Cu2+ accepts two extra electrons to become Cu(s), the potential energy decreases by 0.68 eV (decreasing is good). When Zn2+ accepts two electrons to become Zn(s), the potential energy instead increases by 1.52 eV (increasing is bad).
Clearly the best situation here is for copper to accept electrons and for zinc to lose them. So that's what happens. Instead of each metal being 50 : 50 solid and cation, the copper becomes all solid and the zinc becomes all cations.
The total potential energy change is a decrease of 0.68 eV + 1.52 eV = 2.2 eV.Because this reaction involves the exchange of 2 electrons, that's a potential energy change of 1.1 eV per electron transferred. eV / e = V. Our voltage is 1.1 V.
Voltage is potential energy change per unit charge transferred. -2.2 eV per -e. (where e is the electron charge) = 1.1 V
As someone has commented below, when the electrons flow to change the charges of the metals, other charged particles have to flow ELSEWHERE to counterbalance the charges. Otherwise you get charges built up either end. Electrons flow through the wire to let the metals do their thing, but ions within what we call the "salt bridge" (usually some sort of paste within the battery between the two metals) will flow to the metal surfaces to counterbalance the charge difference.
What really happens is the metals will just kinda.. do the reaction they want to do - gain or lose electrons - and that builds up a charge imbalance. The electrons flow through a wire and the ions in the salt bridge flow to correct that imbalance. The salt bridge is necessary to complete the circuit and avoid charge imbalance just happening somewhere else.
Neither am I, just a mechanical engineer. The basic battery is just destroying one material with oxygen to release it latent electricity. or the same way how a potato can produce electricity. It's the oxygen coming from the air mixing something that releases Ions.
This is incorrect, though its kinda funny. So an oxidation reaction has nothing to do with oxygen, and most batteries are sealed to the air. Even those that aren't don't use the air in their chemical reaction.
An oxidation reaction is just a chemical reaction that removes electrons from a charged atom, ion, or molecule.
While an oxidation reaction is fundamental to batteries, oxygen is not lol.
We are trying to explain something to someone who doesn't understand chemistry. If you start explaining using acid and OH links to create energy you will lose him. And yes Oxygen as it's molecule is definitively used in batteries. for example Alkaline batteries : Zn(s) + 2OH−(aq) → ZnO(s) + H2O(l) + 2e− [Eoxidation° = +1.28 V] For fuck sake get off reddit.
I’m a physics nerd, and all the explanations I’m seeing are terrible, because they don’t actually answer your question. The one thing I will add to the conversation is the the word “redox” is being thrown around. Redox stands for “reduction” and “oxidation”. Something is oxidized when it loses electrons and reduced when it gains electrons. So when someone says redox reactions, that is what they mean. Other than that, I can’t really explain batteries either.
And all I have learned about batteries is based upon the lead/acid batteries I have in my camper. They are definitely temperamental, delicate, and easy to ruin.
The way I was taught was that DC power works at an electron level like a first in last out system in a wire, one electron goes in and pushes one out, creating a force. For AC I was taught the electrons go back and forth like if you shake your head.
I think the easiest explanation is that electricity isn't the consumption/shifting of electrons, your electricity bill is produced on the basis of how much energy you use to move those electrons to consume electricity
this is definitely not right. if you connect a chamber with compressed air to a chamber with a vacuum, air will flow until the two chambers reach equilibrium. it wouldn’t matter that the two chambers are in two different sets of chambers that aren’t connected at the other ends.
The cell itself is a one unit
You can’t expect it to work if only connecting one partition to another unknown partition of a different object
It is the same thing as connecting 2 usb sticks together it just doesn’t fit
If you would connect both terminals then your theory is correct
hmwybs · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything related to electricity - my brain just can’t seem to comprehend that sorcery
In DC circuits - the electrons have to have a complete circuit so that the differential between the battery poles can be used to power things. When that circuit is not complete - as in two batteries just sitting there in series (+-](+-] and you don't connect the other battery poles into a complete circuit - the electrons have no reason to go anywhere - and they need reason to move.
In DC circuits - the electrons jump from one atom to the next in a row - so they actually traverse the wire over time - not at the speed of light - a much slower speed - feet-per-minute speeds. It's slow due to wire resistance - not every electron makes the trip and becomes heat. The longer the wire - the more heat and loss.
AC circuits flip the use of + and - poles 60-times a second. Instead of pushing electrons from one atom to the next like DC - alternating current makes all the electrons do a step forward and a step back. And Repeat. The energy from this is a nice pulse this goes much closer to the speed of light - and since you're not pushing these electrons into too many new positions - there's less heat - and loss over distance is much less - you can go miles.
Dude, you are not alone. I understand all the concepts but, how a flow of electrons can create so much physical energy still has me scratching my head.
It's also important to note that if you hook two batteries (assuming the right kind-lead acid batteries do it) up in parallel without completing a circuit they will balance each other. Put a dead car battery and a charged car battery together positive to positive and negative to negative and let them sit for a day and you'll have two half dead batteries.
Its because of the relative potential of the terminals. The positive of one battery is relative to the negative of that battery. Connecting the pos of a second battery to the neg of the first, will bring those two points to an equal potential.
For example two 5 volt batteries connected pos to neg. Relative voltage from the connected terminals to either empty terminal remains 5v. while the reletive potential between the empty terminal is now 10v.
The reason current won't flow from the connected terminals is because current will only flow where there is a difference of potential. They are one singular point at equilibrium.
It's not that one end has excess flowing to an end that doesn't, but rather that one end is more willing to become a negatively charged ion than the other is willing to remain neutral, with the difference in this willingness being what determines the 'strength' of the flow of electrons. This occurs when both ends are connected in a circuit without needing some sort of activation energy because the reaction is what is known as a spontaneous reaction, meaning that, among other things, the reaction will occur whenever it is in a position to occur as it will increase the thermodynamic 'stability' of the system. Think of it in terms of chemical equilibrium (with the products just being ions of the reactants)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason that one houses excess electrons is because of the existence of a current. If you're connecting two batteries except not in a closed conducting loop then there will not be that charge.
I'm not in batteries, but I think electrochemistry is rad. Here is the logic I use when I think about batteries.
Always start from the thermodynamics approach. A battery simply takes advantage of the thermodynamics that drive electrons to flow from a state of high energy to low energy according to delta G= -nfE, where detla G= change in Gibb's free energy, n= # electrons passed, F=Faraday's constant, and E is the potential of the cell. A spontaneous event occurring when delta G is negative (the overall energy of the system decreases), so E must be a positive value.
We know that electrons flow from high to low spontaneously. So something loses electrons (oxidation) and something gains electrons (reduction). What stops the reverse? Lets make a physics example out of this...If a kid a ball to his friend, and his friend cant throw it back without help.Why can't the friend throw the ball right back? Because he is weak and its against thermodynamics! We know that the potential difference of the cell is this difference in ability to throw the ball/electron. So we describe it as the push of electrons in one direction minus the push in electrons of the reverse direction...Ecell=Ereduction at the cathode - E reduction at the anode...or the ability to throw the ball one way minus the other. In a physics world, that ball is only going one way unless we help the kid or charge the battery (if its a secondary battery). The cathode is site of reduction, and when the battery is discharging, is the positive electrode. The anode is the site of oxidation and when discharging is the negative electrode. This terminolgy stems from the idea that when spontaneously discharging, the cathode has a positive charge and is accepting electrons from the anode. Meanwhile, the anode is negatively charged and shuttles electrons to the cathode.
Something to always emphasize is that electrons interact strongly with matter. Without a conductive shunt between the two terminals (an external circuit) electrons will not flow. Simultaneously, the electrolyte must allow charge carriers to maintain electroneutrality. Anodes are typically made of a porous graphite which allows lithium to intercalate within the structure during charging. As someone else stated the battery must remain neutral and this is where it comes into play. The anode has electrons ready to ship to the cathode by stripping the electrons from the Lithium.
When the terminals are connected is when the magic begins! The lithium is oxidized at the graphite anode forming lithium ions and electrons. Always fun to note that lithium is the most reducing of the metals and is the reason for why we use it in batteries...i.e lithum wants to give things electrons. The electrons flow through the circuit powering the the connected device and finally back into the cathode where the Lithium ceramic (LiMnO for example) is reduced. As you are doing this, you must allow the lithium ions to flow from the anode to the cathode by having an ionically conductive electrolyte. This is the challenge of solid electrolytes. They have many benefits towards capacity and safety, but they make charging a nightmare due to super low ion mobilities compared to liquid electrolyte.
I know its a lot. I hope that its somewhat of a help. Best of luck!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to be a dick, but what degree do you have? I just ask because I have a physics degree, and considering teaching years ago but decided against it.
Ok, so I'm a first year uni student in physics and I had this problem two years ago and I remember I was obsessed about it and since I was ( still am) bad with chemistry I didn't know the answer people gave here and only found out later on from the internet.
You're the first person who I heard say they shared my problem and for some reason it makes me happy to know I'm not the only guy aho wondered that.
Also respect for teaching physics and not being afraid of not knowing everything :)
A good analogy for me is: batteries are containers of electrons; like a water container, connect 2 water containers with the same head in series above one another , they will accumulate the head. Connect in parallel and the head or voltage will equalize.
Yo its ok, I got a robotics and electronics degree and I don't understand that.
From what I can understand, it isn't infinite power because other things in that circuit take the sparky bits from the battery (I don't want to use proper terms for stuff lol)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually a chemical reaction that maintains a voltage at each end. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Galvanic_cell has some information. What voltage depends on what is reacting. They can be placed end-to-end in order to reach higher total voltages. It's covered in some detail in college intro chemistry courses.
I think you need to get die of the misconception that a battery is the same as a capacitor. The concept of having excess charges at the electrodes, positive or negative, applies only to capacitors. Batteries work fundamentally different, but others already have explained it here really nicely.
Because 2 batteries in series looks like this [+-][+-] note that the positive terminal of the 2nd battery is sandwiched between the negative terminal of the first battery along with it's own negative terminal. Thus, any potential that would be formed between the 2nd battery to the first battery is cancelled as considered by the terminals that are touching each other. However, since the batteries are in series, when a sufficiently conductive path forms between the 1st batteries positive terminal and the 2nd batterys negative terminal (that is smaller than the internal resistance across both the batteries) the positive charge found at the 1st battery can be considered "doubled" since the net amount of positive charge has doubled in the circuit (doubled in quotes because internal resistances prevent this from actually being true). And so the potential is larger across 2 batteries in series rather each considered separately. Of course you can't form this process indefinitely as eventually the internal resistance across the batteries in series will effectively create an open circuit again.
This answer may be confusing because we know it is electrons doing all the work, however there is a reason history has always denoted current as coming from the positive terminal (even Maxwell equations take the convention) it's much easier to see this from this perspective. Also later on you learn about "hole" current and this perspective actually isn't that wrong.
I majored in physics, and now have a job working with batteries, so let's see if i can explain it to you.
What you described is a capacitor. If there are free elections (charge) stored statically on two pieces of metal and you connect them, then charge will flow. This is because metals are conductors and all their excess electrons float in a cloud around the surface rather than being bonded to a specific atom. So you understand that much, what you described would happen, if it were as you described it
But here's the thing. Metals can still have charge inherently, you can see this on the periodic table based on the columns that they are arranged in. Just like any other element they have electron shells that orbit the nucleus, and the charge depends on how full the outermost shell is. So a metal can be charged in two ways: with static electricity that is excess electrons floating freely, and with atomic charge that is inherent to The element.
Capacitors work off of static charge, and batteries work off of atomic charge.
The results of this is that while there is now a charge difference between whatever charged plates you choose, a simple circuit will not cause charge to flow, because those electrons are stuck on to individual nuclei. To free them from their bonds, you must resort to chemistry.
I'm not a chemist, the next part will be hand wavey.
In the main body of the battery, there is an acid or a base called an electrolyte. This electrolyte is capable of reacting with the plates only when the plates are connected, because the reaction requires an electron (or electrons) to be jettisoned from the charged plate while an ion (charged collection of atoms bonded to form a charged molecule) is formed between the plate and the electrolyte. this jettisoned electron will flow through the circuit to create the current in the battery. The ion created by this is now also charged, and will want to move towards the other plate, allowing for more ions to be formed, more electrons to be jettisoned, and more current to flow.
Recharging the battery is the exact opposite of this, where the electrons get stuck back into the ions and they flow in reverse. Each battery chemistry follows it's own chemical reactions that you can look up. The limiting factors for batteries have to do with charge difference between plates (this determines cell voltage), ionic flow, reaction rate, reaction temperature limits, and plate material (the anode and cathode get used up during the reaction in traditional batteries). I'd suggest nickel zinc to research first though (lead acid and lithium ions are slightly different).
Battery architecture is fairly straightforward, but if you want to get into it you'll have to know what the following are: cell, anode, cathode, electrolyte, seperator, battery.
i'm parsing and processing as best i can! i'm probably a little better at teaching than i am at physics, and a lot of people who responded seem to be way better at the physics than they are at the teaching. it's pretty tough to eli5 with some of the more complex subtopics like electromagnetism and relativity. just thinking of virtual photons and what magnetism really is brings back painful memories of stumbling through maxwell's equations. i came across one of my college notebooks recently and it was a clusterfuck of dirac notation written in my handwriting, but otherwise foreign and mysterious to me.
[deleted] · 1310 points · Posted at 14:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
chemistry, I genuinely have no idea how atomic layers or molecule diagrams work and no explanation I have ever had has helped. Please do not send me any explanations. Thank you.
Think about it like this, you know how when you're holding something up in the air it has a bunch of potential energy? The universe moves toward a state in which energy is expended, or at the lowest energy state. Essentially molecules want to do the same thing and react with something to get to the lowest possible energy state. For example, an alkene, or a carbon and hydrogen molecule with a double bond, will react with HBr, hydrobromic acid, to form another molecule called an alkyl halide, or essentially attaches the H and the Br where the double bond was. However, if you look at Benzene, which also has double bonds, it won't react with HBr, this is because it's really stable. Benzene has some properties that make it stable, such as resonance, conjugation, and aromaticity, none of which I'll go into now to keep from complicating things. Because it has all of these stabilizing properties, it doesnt want to react because it would lose one or more of these properties, bringing it up to a higher energy state.
I could certainly be explaining some things wrong, so if anyone else can spot some error I made please let me know. (I'm not like a scientist yet, just a chemistry undergrad.)
You know the ball you're holding, and how it just kinda wants to fall? Potential energy is like the amount of energy it could potentially have when its falling. Potential energy is translated to kinetic energy, which is pretty much the energy of motion, when it's falling.
This translates to chemistry because the really unstable molecules want to react, just like the ball wants to fall. They react and form much more stable molecules, much like how the ball falls into a much more stable state, i.e. the ground.
Some reactions are what are known as exothermic reactions, which lose heat to the environment, which is most likely where that energy went for the reaction.
As for the ball example, I can try to explain, but physics isnt my forte so I'll probably get it wrong. As far as I know, the energy is also translated to heat through friction/air resistance and lost to the environment as well, but again, I could be wrong, though I dont see anywhere else it could go, aside from the ground itself, when it hits it.
It is gravity working on it. However, you holding up the ball against gravity is essentially creating potential energy (not really creating but converting a different type of energy into potential, due to the first law of thermodynamics, but I'll keep that terminology for simplicity.). It's in a very unstable position and it wants to release this potential energy and fall into a more stable position.
energy is the capacity to do work.
work is motion, change. Stuff happening.
i.e. energy is how likely a state is to change.
Low energy states are unlikely to change, high energy states are likely to change.
Ergo, it is most likely that high energy states will change to become low energy states. Every system will change to seek the lowest possible energy state it can have.
AgAero · 7 points · Posted at 01:48:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We do actually know this. Below is my attempt at explaining it. If there are holes in this explanation, feel free to ask me about it and I'll try to fill them in.
Stability basically means that there is a 'state' to the thing that it will return to if you kick it slightly. Imagine you drop a bowling ball onto a trampoline. It will roll to its lowest point and stay there. If you kick it, it will oscillate for a bit, then fall back to that same point.
In this example, you can characterize this 'lowest point' that the ball reaches via the height of the ball relative to the ground or something, but you can also describe it by a potential energy function. In this particular case, that energy function is U = m * g * h where 'g' is an effect of the gravitational field. This gains you a few useful properties over simply using the height (e.g. the difference between the dynamics of a bowling ball vs a marble in the same situation, or the same scenario conducted on Mars vs the Earth), but the chief among them is the abstraction/concept of potential energy that you can now use in other situations.
Now, back to the discussion on molecules and chemistry. Because of how electrons disperse around a nucleus of an atom, you can define a 'field' for the electrostatic force as well as a potential energy function. This potential energy function lets you define notions of stability, just like the ball on the trampoline. The atoms don't necessarily 'want' to be in these 'stable' states, but once they get there they stay there.
The last bit we're missing is the statistics part. If you've got tons of atoms confined into some finite space such that they collide with one another, then that means they're constantly being 'kicked' by one another. Thus, even if you had all of your atoms in some arbitrary initial conditions, the fact that they keep getting kicked as time progresses means that some of them are going to fall into stable equilibrium states. Over time, the proportion of atoms that have found a stable equilibrium will grow until it's very nearly all of them.
Summary:
Stability means that a thing has reached a 'state'/configuration where, should the thing get 'kicked' or perturbed, it will return to this previous state.
Potential functions allow you to describe this sense of stability in an abstract way and apply it to different scenarios.
Atoms (and in fact sets of atoms) can have potential functions. This function lets you describe the stable states and configurations of atoms in proximity to one another.
The apparent randomness of collisions of atoms in a confined space allow you to apply statistics and make judgements about how many of the atoms have fallen into a stable equilibrium configuration, and make the case for why you are more likely to observe these stable equilibrium configurations than the unstable ones.
I'll use the H2 molecule as an example. It's a classic example that appears in almost every general chemistry textbook.
Why does the H2 molecule form? Why doesn't the two hydrogen atoms just stay separate? I'm sure you've heard the explanation that formation of the molecule is more stable, in a lower energy state, is energetically favorable.
But in the most fundamental sense, it is because the Coulombic/electrostatic forces (aka like charges repel, opposites attract) between the two atoms "tell" them to come together. If we take just the two H atoms separately, there are three such forces between them:
Repulsion between the negative electrons
Repulsion between the positive protons
Attractions between the proton of one atom and the electron of another
You can see what I'm talking about in this diagram. At a far distance, the attraction is stronger than the two repulsions. So the net force is attraction, and so the two atoms come together. By the very definition of potential energy, since the two atoms are moving in the direction of the force, their potential energy is decreasing.
At a closer distance, just like how pushing the north sides of two magnets closer together makes them push out with greater force, the repulsions will overwhelm the attractions, and so the two atoms move apart. By the very definition of potential energy, since the two atoms are moving in the direction of the force, their potential energy is decreasing.
At some distance though, these two forces will exactly balance each other, so that moving closer together will cause repulsion, so the atoms move back out. Moving further apart will cause attraction, so the two atoms move back closer. It turns out, this distance is exactly the length of the bond in the H2 molecule.
Since moving in either direction will cause an increase in the potential energy, this is what is meant when it is said the atoms are energetically most stable, or releases the most energy compared to otherwise, in this configuration.
In the end, "why" these atoms "want" to be in this most stable configuration is the same reason that a ball falls when you drop it. Or two magnets will stick to each other if you let them go. Because the force on them, whether it is gravity, electrostatic forces, or magnetic forces, directs the atoms to do so.
It's basically just electrical attraction, and which forces are most important depend on the situation because the charges are arranged differently in each case. The electrical forces pull and push on things until they are in rough balance, because they stay where they are when the forces are balanced.
...Except that the charges involved are actually quantum waves, and that means the specifics depend on what kinds of waves can exist around an atom and how they interact.
The basic rules and equations are known, but actually calculating the full behavior for anything more than a few particles at a time gets super hard, even for large computers. This is one the things that quantum computers would be really good for.
I'm about half way though my PhD in chemistry and it's still really difficult to explain. Obviously there's a crazy amount to actually know, but you can get a general concept from some pretty simple thought experiments.
Let's say you had a jar of glitter on a table in the middle of your house, eventually it's going to get knocked over and get everywhere. After it's been knocked over you're never going to get all of that glitter back into the jar because that takes way too much effort.
Because the jar will eventually get knocked over and you won't ever get the glitter back into the jar, it can be said that the jar of glitter 'wants' to be spread out all over the place.
This is a basic description of thermodynamics, essentially how hard it will be to clean up the mess after it's been made.
The second concept that usually runs in parallel to this is kinetics. This can be thought of as how hard it is to make the mess in the first place. Instead of a jar, let's say that the glitter is in a plastic bottle with a lid.
In this scenario, it's much much harder to accidentally knock the glitter over and cause it to spill, it will still happen, but after a much much longer time, and when it does spill, it will be just as hard to clean up.
This kinetic part is important, because it means just because something 'wants' to happen, it doesn't mean it always can.
For example, oxygen 'wants' to react with paper to form CO2 for thermodynamic reasons (CO2 is very hard to turn back into paper, but trees manage it!) But obviously paper doesn't just burn spontaneously, because the kinetic barrier is pretty high, so you need a little push from a flame to get it going.
Obviously this is way oversimplified, but if you have any questions I'll be happy to go into more detail.
So would this mean, for an unstable atom that 'wants' to react, if it happens to react it will no longer be likely to react further, making it stable?
Similar to the way the glitter is likely to get knocked over and can't really get further knocked over afterwards, so it could be considered 'stable ' when knocked over.
Essentially yes, however glitter being in the jar and spread all over are the two extremes. If the jar were to be knocked over gently, the glitter would kind of pile up. This is a kind of intermediate state, where you could either scoop up the glitter and get it back into the jar, or perhaps a gust of wind comes in and blows it everywhere.
The same goes for reactions, one example I can think of is incomplete combustion. If there's too much fuel and not enough oxygen, you end up making carbon monoxide instead of carbon dioxide, however if you take that carbon monoxide and react it with more oxygen you'll complete it's journey to carbon dioxide.
In our analogy, oxygen and fuel would be the glitter in the jar, carbon monoxide would be the glitter just tipping over, and carbon dioxide would be the glitter spread everywhere.
Surely, you know about electrons. You see them represented as orbiting particles around the proton/neutron core. The number of these surrounding an atom on the outermost determines its stability.
Typically, 8 electrons surrounding an atom in the outermost orbit (the electrons orbiting farthest away) give it a stable configuration. This is due to the number of protons that make up the atom. Larger atoms needs more electrons on the outer shell, and smaller atoms require less (think helium, an inert 'noble' gas with two protons/neutrons, and two electrons).
Think of stability like magnets; if you have something with a 'north' pole, it needs a 'south' pole to be stable. Unstable atoms are like singular 'poles'; they desperately want an opposing 'pole' to become stable. Atoms make themselves 'magnetic' by creating an electrical charge; some are positively charged (more protons than electrons) and vice versa. Some have no charge because they naturally have an equal number of protons and electrons, and we call these noble, or inert, gases.
Finally, how does an atom know when it is stable? When all of its outermost electrons are paired with another. You can start pairing electrons within an atom after 4 valence (outer) electrons. Simple examples include nitrogen and carbon, with 5 and 4 valence electrons respectively. Nitrogen has one pair of atoms already, and therefore it can make 3 bonds with other atoms. Carbon has no electrons paired, making it able to connect to other atoms with 4 bonds.
And why are the outermost shells the ones we talk about in regards to atom-atom bonding? It's because they're the most accessible, and anything big enough to have inner orbitals has already paired electrons within those orbits.
There are some weird exceptions to just about every one of the things I've talked about (like xenon, a noble gas, can make 6 bonds with fluoride). But generally, simple chemistry can be boiled down to stability. I know it's a long winded explanation, but maybe it will help.
Everything has order. Kind of like an intelligent architect behind it all. This is the fundamentals of science. Even the universe follows laws down to the particles, atoms and quarks follow these laws.
mdh431 · 1 points · Posted at 12:37:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is just a fundamental property of the universe. If something is at a higher energy state - or a more unstable position - it doesn’t really “like” it or want to stay there. It will then naturally get to the state with the most stability without any effort on anyone’s part.
Imagine you had a tank of water and there was a net barrier that you put right down the middle (so water can flow through this net. Now imagine that you could somehow teleport a lot of water onto the left side but not the right. The water wouldn’t just stay there; it would flow over to the right side until both sides had an equal amount. It would quickly find the stable position.
Really, stability is just a concept of the natural state that things want to approach, whether it be from physics, chemistry, or thermodynamics. It always has something to do with energy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:38:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do protons and neutrons make up everything?
Like how is an atom with two protons and two neutrons a bit of helium, a gas, but if you put two of those atoms together (for a total of 4 protons and 4 neutrons) now it's a bit of beryllium, a metal?
The properties that we see are based on interactions between the atoms and particles. The interactions are based on their shape.
Helium has its first orbital of electrons filled, so it does not readily react with anything, and not forming bonds with anything means it will likely be a gas at room temp.
Berrylium is a metal because to have its outermost orbitals filled with electrons, it joins other atoms like itself and lets the electrons flow through in a sea.
Energy wise, every atom wants its outer orbitals filled, but have different amounts of attraction from the nucleus, and thats why the properties can be so different.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But is reactivity the only thing? Like can't different types of the same substance be more or less reactive based on whether their orbitals are full? If you give beryllium more electrons, it's still beryllium, it's just more negatively-charged beryllium. I'm asking why the actual matter is entirely different based on protons and neutrons. One's a hard metal, another's a gas, etc. Seems like there's more to it than just reactivity.
Well, it would actually change a lot if you gave berrylium more electrons. It would become ionized, and ions behave very differently from atoms.
Protons and neutrons are in the tiny nucleus of the atom, which is why they don't change as easily, but electrons are often interacting in their cloud. The actual matter is different when you add electrons though.
Protons, Neutrons, and Electrons are all tiny enough and fundamental part of substances that a change to them would largely affect the substance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
K but I need to understand the differences besides from electrons. Sure, reactivity is an important feature but it's obviously not the only feature. I'm asking why helium is different than beryllium even if we assume two samples are both are equally reactive because they each have too many/not enough electrons.
Like can't different types of the same substance be more or less reactive based on whether their orbitals are full?
Yes! Absolutely! For a simple example, chloride ion and chlorine atom without the extra electron. One is essential in large concentrations in your body, and one is an extremely strong oxidizer that will react quickly with anything it can react with.
I think what you're trying to get at is why the type of element is based on the number of protons and not the electrons. After all, atoms with the same number of protons but with different numbers of electrons can be so vastly different, they may be more similar to other atoms than to each other. For example, sodium ion in terms of properties is more similar to potassium ions than a regular sodium atom.
The reason is, because it is so much easier to convert between atoms with different numbers of electrons than atoms with different numbers of protons. The protons are buried deep inside the nucleus, while the electrons, especially the outermost ones, floating around much higher outside, easily can detach away, or add another in.
If you based the element on the number of electrons, you would get confused very quickly. In basically all chemical reactions, however, the number of protons in each atom does not change, while the number of electrons does, so it is a much more practical way of keeping track of each atom.
don't listen to the rules. Most of them are wrong. Just understand the reasons things get more stable or less stable. Opposite charges like being close, like charges stay away from eachother and waves like to be spread out. Electrons are finding the balance of those three.
I was looking for this answer. I feel like I'm illiterate the moment it comes to chemistry. Is there a word for that? The sad thing is, I think chemistry is very interesting. But no explanation ever made me understand it. The even sadder thing is, I have a degree that proves that I am really good in chemistry. I don't know how that happened. I do not work with my degree because I really do not understand anything.
I’m pretty sure that no, they don’t. However, they teach it that way (the Bohr planetary model) in most schools because it’s a lot easier to visualize than the actual model of the atom. In the modern atomic model, also known as the wave mechanical or electron cloud model, the electrons just kinda move in unfixed orbits, and we only know their probability of being in certain places.
the 'electron cloud' is actually a more realistic model. it's an area around the nucleus of an atom where the electrons are/should be. we don't know, since we can't actually observe an electron, but we do know there are discrete energy levels that the electrons exist in, called orbitals. places where again, specific electrons should be.
You're referring to the electron orbitals (s, p, d, f)? Yeah, they have physical shapes (kind of, they have areas in which electrons have a high probability of being observed) and these shapes house electrons more or less distinctly (except transition metals). Chemistry is full of caveats.
The shell levels correspond to different combinations of allowed quantum numbers. Yes they do literally correspond to different shapes in space. But those shapes are really a probabilistic distribution of the location of the electron at any moment.
A 1.00L mixture of He, Ne, and Ar have a total pressure of 662 torr at 298k. If the partial pressure of He is 341 torr and the partial pressure of Ne is 112 torr, what mass of Ar is present in the mixture.
Im not sure if im doing this correctly... the math is messing my day up. How the F do I get rid of moles and keep the grams lol. Algebra will be he death of me rofl.
Essentially, d orbitals behave very strangely and break most of the rules, that is essentially what I was taught in college gen chem. Plus, half filled, completely filled, and completely empty orbitals tend to be the most stable. An s orbital is much closer to any of those states than a d orbital.
I'd be glad to give you a better explanation by digging up my materials science notes from a few semesters back, but I've got a lot of coursework of my own to work on through the end of semester, so that may take some time.
Chemistry, specifically organic, is the one time that I was taught something on an academic level and it was literally like someone was speaking a completely foreign language. O Chem 1 might as well have been Chinese to me. I managed to pass that class due to the rollover/review portion from Gen Chem and comprehension of the most basic concepts averaging out well enough with my complete guesswork and lab-partner carrying through the rest of the course.
Interesting you say that, I remember thinking about how similar the learning process felt when I was learning organic to learning Spanish. It was like a language, not for communication, but still symbols with rules and stuff. I know that’s not the point you’re trying to convey but you just made me have a flashback to the good ol days haha
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its funny u say that cus out of all the 3 sciences, chemistry is the one that makes the most sense to me lol
OmfgTim · 14 points · Posted at 20:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. Biology is just too much to memorize, and physics concepts are out of this realm.
At least chemistry explains the biology and some physics, save for physical chemistry. That’s whack to me.
The problem with biology is that much of it is just insanely complex chemistry, so at the K12 and non-bio undergrad level, it manifests as a lot of memorizing the macro
So the atom is made up of the nucleus which contains protons with a positive charge and neutrons with no charge. The protons and neutrons are arranged so the protons don't break the nucleus because same charges repel. Then there are electrons, that are attracted to the protons, they move around the atoms so fast that you cant say where they are. To solve this we say they are likely to be found in a certain place around the nucleus (the orbital). with molecule diagrams sometimes 2 orbitals overlap and both nuclei want to keep both the electrons this is a bond.
So this is a much more fundamental question charge is the strength of an interaction with an electromagnetic field. It's just a property of a particle to the best of our knowledge
The rules feel arbitrary because now one explained the "why" to you and that's because if they tried explaining it to you straight out you would be even more confused. And that's not your fault. It's because Chemistry at the end of the day is just quantum physics. And quantum is confusing as fuck. And nobody wants to overwhelm you when all you really need to know in the moment is that X dissolves Y.
Not so long ago I stumbled upon an actual image of a single molecule. There it was. All shaped just like the textbooks said they would be. The idea that there was no proof of this (before) infected me in my school days and my skepticism tanked my performance.
For me chemistry makes a lot more sense than math. Chemistry has a "how" and "why" that math doesn't have (I know there's a lot of mathematical equations in chemistry, but again there's a reason why it's like that and why this happens over something else that math doesn't have imo).
It is as simple as Le Chatelier principle: on a stimulus, everything reacts in a way that tends to minimize the changes produced by the stimulus. Basically is like a kind of conceptual friction: if you push it pushes back, if you pull I pulls back, if you squeeze it reacts in a way that leads less molecules and so on
I feel you man, I’m on my 2nd year of material engineering studies and I’m so lost when it comes to any chemistry involving course, dunno how I’m surviving this far
The answers you are looking for are in physics, the subjects are highly intertwined but functionally disconnected when you learn them.
If you can memorize reactions, and do calculations, then you can be a chemist.
If you can apply mathematics and learn physical concepts, then you can be a physicist.
But to get to the point in physics where you can apply it to chemistry takes a long time, basically until you are a junior in college. And you don't really need it to get a job as a chemist, so they don't teach it to you.
If you wanna go beyond undergrad and really understand/do research into chemistry, it really helps to have a college level understanding of physics though.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
>If you can memorize reactions
This is what I couldn't do, I have no problem (or very few problems) with calculating force, mass, speed, and reading electrical diagrams but I don't know how to read nor make sense of anything related to chemistry. What's the difference between a = and a - ??? Why do they have random angles??? I always applied everything I knew to the letter in high school yet always got shit grades. Never understood it.
I feel that. Ive found that like every topic, your ability to learn is always highly dependent on the teacher. High school is critical to understanding but a bad experience will often turn you off it for life.
Eventually you may find a resource that teaches it well and you'll get back into it, but youll have to have the time, resources, and drive to learn it, which most people never get.
My chemistry teacher was even confused when teaching us half of the time, i never understood that shit and group work is the only thing that helped me pass that damn class
I was a straight A student in a super competitive magnet high school... except I failed the first semester of chemistry because I just couldn’t understand it. It cost me a summer trip to an all expenses paid semester of medical school before my senior year.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like the world is made up of a big playpen full of jiggling balls like a ball pit. Some of the balls stick together because somebody peed in the ball pit.
Skage_ · 10278 points · Posted at 18:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people who are blind since birth talk about that they do not even see black. Its like nothingness
Also..how do they even know what “seeing is” to know that they “see” nothing. Like there is no way of even explaining to them what seeing is & we have no way of knowing if they can fathom what seeing is.
[deleted] · 1590 points · Posted at 21:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I’m blind in my right eye, went blind about 5 years ago and thats how I describe it to people, cover one eye with a patch and throw a ball up and down a few times then go outside, you just forget it was even there, even if I cover my good eye it’s not like the black is double the size it’s just the same, it’s so weird, I used to lay in bed and wonder what it was like to be blind, it’s really weird
I’m still driving, really wasn’t much different at all, shoulder check is a bit bigger turn but that’s it. Depth perception is definitely different but I only notice it with small moving things, like a lighter or small ball. Basically impossible to swat a fly or catch a mozzie mid air, I wouldn’t say zero depth perception
Pretty much the same, depth perception is the only thing but I’ve practiced a lot of catching n things, tbh when it first happened was difficult to grab a door knob. Then after a while it just got better, still hard to catch a lighter if it’s thrown or a golf ball or ping pong ball.... still driving too, that was honestly no different just a shoulder check requires a bigger neck turn now
Edit: I did it playing golf, i play golf now and I’m not great but I don’t worry about missing the ball or anything, but if someone chucks one to me I’m the waiter from “The Party”
That’s the weird thing I’ve never noticed before, if I closed both eyes a can see light and tint and stuff but with one eye closed it’s nothing, not black not white nothing, mind bend
I would guess (but don't know) that it's because your brain is busy processing the input from the other eye. It's compensating for lack of vision in one. When you have both closed, it's not doing that anymore.
I was born with Lazy Eye, Amblyopia, they tried to patch the strong eye to strengthen the weaker one. It was too late my brain had already shut it off. Amazing how it works.
I have intermittent exotropia (where my eyes drift apart sometimes and lose focus), and I do the same for reading, or when I'm squinting in sunlight. In fact I'm doing it right now lol
You most likely closed your non dominant eye. Try closing both one at a time and you should notice a “jump” and try doing stuff with the non-dominant eye open instead, it should feel a bit off.
Now imagine a bloke thats blind doesn't need to use lights at all, just walkin around there house in darkness fully aware of where things are (to an extent)
I'm going to butcher this but when you close one eye, your brain auto shuts off that input. So you literally see nothing. You notice your nose but give it long enough and your eye will being to ignore it. Now you see half the world. Close both eyes and your eyes are looking. Constantly trying to see. So what you see if the back of your eyelids. That's why you still "see" brighter light because your brain didn't shut off their input.
Am I weird then because that isn't the case for me? If I put a light near my right eye, and just close that eyelid I still see the same light through my eyelid than when I close both. Or have I totally misunderstood what you've typed?
It's not that you can't see at all. Provide enough stimulation and your brain can't ignore it. But just shut it with no additional changes, your brain will turn it off.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's what I was thinking, like your brain just ignores the input from it because it knows the eye is closed and shouldn't see anything. I wonder if this would hold up with a person without eyelids.
Here's one of the reasons why I put a pillow over my head/eyes when I lay down to sleep. Any blue lights I can't shut in the room won't bother, and any light shining through my window won't bother either.
It's great to fall asleep, and better to wake up, as I can avoid closing entirely my window, which gives me natural sun light in the morning. I feel like I sleep better and wake up rested.
On the other hand though, when I REALLY wanna sleep till late, I'll block all lights so I'll sleep without any interruptions (which not always gives me a full rest, but helps distress the body from a hard working week).
I can't stand sleeping on people's living rooms because of bright ass cable boxes for exactly this reason. I don't mind the ambient light let through a high window from a street lamp but I'll be damned if I can even try to call asleep with those lights.
I have already reduced all possible blue lights in my room because of that. Not one single standby light is on in my room when I go to sleep. I just really need to get a better routine to get off the phone and computer at least one hour before I got to bed, this is still a big problem for me, but I've moved my desk out of my room recently and I hope it will help with it.
Weird factoid, studies showed a theoretical connection between night-time exposure to artificial light and breast cancer. One theory is that something in our body chemistry gets thrown off by it (cause body's like wtf mate its night time!)
This held true with respect to those exposed to barely perceptible amounts of light (like, city lights in the distance, for example).
Another factoid; fluctuation in light is more likely to wake a person up or disrupt a sleep cycle, as opposed to a consistent level of light. Likewise with sound. So tv-on sleeping is among the worst of all the sleepings
Well... I slept through many classes in high school, and if the classroom light would turn off, or it would be suddenly silent, I'd wake up almost immediately, so I agree 100% with this factoids. The first one was the most interesting though. I'm always amazed by how complex and "perfectionist" is the human body.
Edit: Just to add I'm not proud of the sleeping during classes thing. I dunno if it sounded as if I was proud of it, so just to clearly say: I am not.
I was just going to say this and is the best description I've heard, that and an analogy to hearing: If you're deaf you dont hear a constant sound; it just doesnt exist.
I'm sure its far more dificult to explain sight to a blind person than it is the other way around though
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 00:30:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some say if you meditate hard enough you can actually see out of your third eye which is in the middle of yo foe head.
Oh fuck, I read this and I thought "Duh, I'll just see black through that eye."
Nope. Actually see "nothing". It's not there. Like if you asked me what do I feel with my tail - nothing cause I don't have one.
Thid id awesome, I'll have to share this trick with people.
Edit: Here's a neat trick I just figured out. Close both eyes, turn on the flashlight on your phone and point it at your eyes. You'll see the light through your eyelids. Now, do it woth one eye closed - no light through the closed eyelid, just... Nothingness. Fuck.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:46:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i still see the orange when i open one eye but only in my nose
My dad’s buddy had lost his eye in his late teen years in a lawn mowing accident, and explained it similarly, that it’s, “Like having an eye on your elbow right now, what are you seeing?” Nothingness.
I’ve heard this before and it helps me understand the concept, but I still can’t understand what it’s actually like. Even though the closed eye seemingly disappears, I can still see with the other eye, which maintains my sense of vision. My brain can’t make the jump to what it would be like if that happened to both eyes.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can actually still see a bit of the blackness if you pay close attention. Blind people probably see exactly what we do when we close our eyes, they just don't know what black even is.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can actually still see a bit of the blackness if you pay close attention. Blind people probably see exactly what we do when we close our eyes, they just don't know what black even is.
Just curious, what do you do for a living?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I turn my open eyeball towards my shut eye hard enough to see what the closed eye is seeing then I think I’m onto something
Yes. I see the same out of my closed eye as I would see out of my two closed eyes. I can somewhat focus on it with my mind or I can instead focus on what I see with my open eye. It would totally be annoying to have to wear an eye patch for instance.
The best explanation I've heard is try looking around with your elbow. What do you see with your elbow? You don't see black because you're not capable of sight with your elbow. Same concept with blind eyes.
Ahefp · 2 points · Posted at 03:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why wouldn’t you just close both eyes and explain what you see? Prison trauma?
Ah, so blind people just exist in the mind apace that their remaining senses produce. They have their environment around them as places where "they can't go here, there's something stopping me" and " this thing makes this noise and does these things" albeit mostly subconsciously
Best explanation I can come up with is that there is another sense that we literally don’t have. It’s literally like that. We can’t even imagine it, describe it, think about it, fathom it, comprehend it, or even make it up. It literally doesn’t exist.
The best example is a lack of one- try to think of one.... that’s what it’s like.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold a flashlight up to the closed eye and suddenly you can see through it again
So, am I the only one who sees black out of the closed eye when I do that? I clearly see that one eye still has vision and that the other one is seeing black. I've seen the idea that the closed eye sees nothing on reddit several times and lots of people seem to agree that they see nothing out of the closed eye and it is so weird because it's not my experience at all!
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:45:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, am I the only one who sees black out of the closed eye when I do that? I clearly see that one eye still has vision and that the other one is seeing black. I've seen the idea that the closed eye sees nothing on reddit several times and lots of people seem to agree that they see nothing out of the closed eye and it is so weird because it's not my experience at all!
I can theorize one possible, slightly plausible, thing that may be a difference, but I could be wrong. So let's try it. Do you know what Aphantasia is? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aphantasia
My question for you---when you try to visualize something, do you see a solid, literal image? Or do you have Aphantasia like someone who is unable to visualize concrete images (they see either nothing or almost like a mirage of an image vaguely seen through a veil that is nearly transparent)?
My guess would be that maybe you don't have Aphantasia, and are thus able to visualize images in your mind's eye, and then that maybe when you close a single eye----your mind visualizes what it thinks it should be seeing in the field of vision located in your mind's eye where that eye is located. Blackness.
On the other hand, I have Aphantasia to a mild degree. Mental images I try to visualize are like seeing a vague, nearly transparent image through a veil. And when I close one eye, its like that eye disappears and only the side of my nose is visible where my other eye used to be. Alternatively, when I re-open that eye, the side of the nose I could see becomes transparent and nearly invisible.
So, let's see if aphantasia and lack of it correlates to us seeing different things when we close one eye.
Interesting. I have a very, very strong visualization ability. Like, I can close my eyes and picture photo-realistic images of things I’ve seen.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:54:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I have a very, very strong visualization ability. Like, I can close my eyes and picture photo-realistic images of things I’ve seen.
Okay cool.
You're one of the four people. But, so far you confirm my theory.
I imagine the reason you're able to see black where your eye used to be is because you are, essentially, visualizing it. Your brain and eye are able to manifest sensory data even when no sensory information is coming in.
How well do you remember your dreams and how vividly do you remember them?
I usually don’t remember them, but when I do they can be pretty vivid.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 17:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually don’t remember them, but when I do they can be pretty vivid.
Okay interesting. I don't remember dreams often and never vividly. I was wondering if it correlated with Aphantasia/Visualization. Sounds like it may.
Btw- Max_Thunder, one of the other users I initially addressed the question to, confirmed that he has strong visualization abilities. 2 out of 4 of you 'confirm' my theory.
My question for you---when you try to visualize something, do you see a solid, literal image?
Yes, I see a strong image and it is something I'm actually quite good at. For instance in physics classes on electromagnetism there was something called the right-hand rule (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right-hand_rule#Amp%C3%A8re's_right-hand_grip_rule), and while most people had to do it with their hand while doing exercises or exams, I could easily do it in my head. I have no problem manipulating objects in my head, imagining what they look like on the other side, like for orthographic projections (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orthographic_projection), something I was also very good at and that we had to do in one class in high school.
I find your theory plausible, thanks for your comment.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's really interesting. Congrats on having such a strong visualization ability; must come in handy.
Both you and ice_maiden (2/4 so far) confirm my theory. Cheers
How well do you remember your dreams and how vividly do you remember them?
How well do you remember your dreams and how vividly do you remember them?
I am terrible at remembering dreams and very rarely remember dreaming when I wake up. When I do though, what I remember mostly is a mixture of images and how I felt; my dreams rarely make sense, like they don't have any clear narrative. There are a few dream bits from many years ago that I can still remember/visualize.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 17:11:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah okay. I'm also somewhat the same. So I guess dreaming may not correlate with Aphantasia/Strong Visualization capabilities... There goes my 2 for 1 theory combo meal
I see the inside view of my eyelid which appears to be black due to no light. When it's really bright outside it appears to be red.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was just trying this on the porch and the neighbors looked concern
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That really is it
I lost vision in my left eye at an early age (8), and when asked to describe it vs seeing with my right even now, I can really only discribe it as an endless nothingness
Also I know it's been a day since your comment, so you probably didn't expect another, but I'm catching up on saved reddit posts that sounded interesting, sorry haha 😅
A blind person once explained, on a forum I was on, that he doesn't see blackness; he sees nothing. "Try looking through the back of your head," is how he put it. That got me to understand.
I see that statement every time this topic is discussed, and I don't buy it.. if you open your eyes in darkness, you'll see it's black. Closing one eye gives the exact same picture as opening both eyes, or closing both eyes. The only reason it appears your closed eye disappear during the day is the additive nature of light, 1+0=1, so all you see is 1, but once there's no light for your eyes to see (at night), you'll find that any combination of opened and closed eyes result in the same picture, and that's presumably not what blind people see.
Huh? Can someone please explain to me how this works?
When I close one eye, I see whatever’s in front of me out of the open eye, and blackness in the closed eye. How does that help me understand what blind people see?
No because you still know what it’s like to “see”, so you know what you’re missing. I was wracking my brain trying to think of a sense that we don’t have, that we can’t imagine because we’ve never had it to begin with?! Everything I think of ties to a sense I do have!
I've heard that explanation before but I still don't understand how do you get that with both eyes. I know you see nothing but....how do you experience....nothing.
Even better: what do you see through your elbow? Because even with your eye closed, you do still see the inside of your eyelid.
iah_c · 25 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they dream in all their other senses! touch, smell, hearing etc. sighed ppl mostly really on sight and that's how we mainly dream, but blind or hard seeing ppl rely on all their other senses and they also activate in their sleep. really fascinating
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iah_c · 3 points · Posted at 12:45:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think they just feel it. people have a lot of senses that we as sighed people don't notice much and maybe blind ppl are more aware of them than we are. take the sense of space for example. you can see where you are in a space because of your sight but your ears also help with that bc of the fluid inside that's like your own personal inside level. I'm no expert here but I think when you're asleep and in a laying position that level obv tells you abt it. so maybe when you can't see your brain learns it's not asleep in a different way than sight y'know what I mean? it recognizes you woke up bc you got up for example, or bc you can experience sensations more vividly?
I'd love to hear abt it from a blind person's perspective. there are some blind ytbers out there, molly burke is one I watch often. maybe she's got an answer to that question? she's done some q&A's in the past.
I have an uncle that was blind since birth. He was born 2 months early so his eyes never finished developing. He's told me that though he doesn't know light/dark, he can "see" variations in light...like if he's outside on a bright sunny day, he can tell a difference when he goes back inside.
As far as dreams, he's said it's generally voices or sounds. He knows voices and the sounds things make, so it's no different than a sighted person's dreams. As far as nightmares, it may be a strange voice or sound he's not familiar with. He also has sensations of falling in dreams.
What if a blind person took acid? They wouldn't hallucinate? Surely even people blind from birth still make mental images based on other inputs like touch and sound? This dude uses echo location.
There’s different types of blindness. It’s possible they ‘see’ physically but are blind ‘mentally’. They don’t interpret the image in their mind. I remember learning about how people with one blind eye were tested and the good eye was shown a neutral face expression and the blind eye was shown an emotional response. Without realizing it, some subjects were making the emotional face.
I edited my comment to reflect my original intentions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flashes of light for dreams would be a beautiful reprieve from what I deal with nightly. Every part of my soul would love to dream journal but the thought of living forever with memories of what I forget ever morning is the scariest thing I could ever think of.
Actually a very common question that gets posed to me. I can, yeah. It's difficult to explain, but while I can't visualize my thoughts whatsoever, I can still conceptualize them.
It's certainly much easier to masturbate with porn and I'm sure it would be easier to do so even without porn if I was able to visualize, but - yes. I can.
By “not being able to visualize” you mean not being able to see thoughts or pictures in your head right? That’s wierd to think about dude. I feel bad for you
Exactly, yeah. For instance, many people dislike movie adaptations of books because it "doesn't look the way it did in their head". I never experience that or have that issue. When I saw Harry Potter for the first time it was perfect, because in reading about the castle, I was only able to conceptualize that it was large, dark, stone, etc. I could never see my own version of it.
For anybody more interested in the topic /r/aphantasia is a great place to find it.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just testing that too, imagining my mother’s face. Can’t do it. I get suggestions that fly across my mind, or I might get sort of a crude line-art flash of her features, but certainly no photorealistic image.
I have a friend who’s dating a girl with the same thing, he explained to me how crazy that really is. If he ever died she wouldn’t be able to see his face without a photo. Pretty crazy stuff to think about, if you don’t mind me asking, what age did you find out you couldn’t visualize and how?
I actually only realized my inability wasn't the norm about 6 months ago (I'm 21).
Because we can't accurately convey the intricacies of our individual realities it took me 21 years to understand that the term "picture this" was meant in a literal sense. Pretty crazy to think about for sure.
0XiDE · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what about memories? Can you look at something and then close your eyes and see what you just saw in your head?
My friends girlfriend who has the same thing has said it’s impossible for her to picture anything, she can look at her boyfriends face for ages and the minute she closes her eyes she can’t picture it at all. Can remember all the individual details of a face but can’t picture it.
She watched a movie that had flashbacks and was like “why are we seeing this again” or something along those lines.
I have the same issue with faces. I can picture in my head everything else about a person: their hair color, height, weight, style, etc. Just not a face.
Crazy to think we can go our whole lives without realising we have these special little differences. Blows my mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Are there people who can see a perfect "picture" of someone in their mind? I mean, for me it's like something that exist only in a moment, but I can't hold a picture in my mind
Yeah. Visualizarion is a spectrum. Most testing that neuroscientists have done use scales from 1-6, with 1 being a person who can visualize a vivid picture near indistinguishable from reality, and 6 being like me, where there is literally no picture.
I worked with a deaf-blind student for a number of years. Totally blind since birth and 85% deaf and progressing. He used to tell me about his dreams and they were mostly tactile. He said he was sure of what he would touch in dreams but smell, sound etc. was a bit more questionable. He used to tell me how scary it was to not know it was a “bad” dream until he was literally touching the scary thing. One time, he said he heard mooing and felt movement like a gentle rising and swaying. He was dreaming that he was sitting on top of a giant cow’s head. He had been to a petting zoo that morning. He’s amazing and has taught me a lot.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slightly off topic but apparently deaf patients of schizophrenia don’t hear voices but they actually visualize hands speaking to them in sign language. If I had to guess dreaming for the blind would probably be something equally as crazy
A lot of people who are blind have forgotten what sight is like. They hear, smell, and touch. If they're in a bakery, they smell baked goods. If they're in a slaughterhouse, rotting corpses
tlaine · 2 points · Posted at 23:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They still have 4 senses to experience dreams. A close friend of mine was born without eyes. Just this morning she was describing to me a dream she saw last night. She described how a "scary-looking" guy with a mask on his face had something (I forgot what) in his left hand. I've known her for well over a year now but I found myself a little surprised of the level of detail. Likely it is that either someone in the dream told her so, or the brain just assumed it, or she partially deducted it from shaking the scary man's right hand. It's a dream though, and it all happens in one's brain, so all the information is there anyway.
Check this channel out. He answers all sorts of questions and gives a very detailed account of the blind experience. As a side note, he’s a blind movie critic and his reviews are very interesting, he’s able to tap into a number of aspects that us sighted folk would never have considered. It kinda changes how you experience things if you spend enough time learning about how blind people go through life.
You should look up Tommy Edison on YouTube. He was born blind, and his channel is all about his experience. Here's the video where he describes his dreams. https://youtu.be/XpUW9pm9wxs
Something like that, yes. People that have been blind since birth tend to dream with other senses they have such as smell, touch, taste or hearing. Those who can't hear or see probably dream with smells, tastes and touch since that's all they know.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tommy is one of the most wholesome channels on YouTube
Blind people can actually have much more pleasant dreams than people that can see, in the form of scents and sounds they remember
I'd have to get another source, been over 5 years since I'd learned that. Sounds nice though, like coffee on a balcony, covered by a canopy in the pouring rain, in the middle of a seasonal dry spell.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read on reddit (so take with a grain of salt) that schizophrenic blind people hallucinate audibly. Imaginary voices telling them to do things. That's way scarier.
I saw this blind guy on YouTube whose channel revolves around what it’s like being blind. He talked about his dreams once, and mentioned how it’s a mashup of familiar sounds. https://youtu.be/XpUW9pm9wxs
koavf · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is literature on the blind dreaming: you have experiences of the other senses.
If you are born blind, it's hearing only. If you became blind, dreams are the only time you can see.(naturally, without surgery to bring your eyesight back or the aid of technology) It's really sad.
In that regard, that would be similar to Aphantasia which has recently become a much a more common than we thought disability. It basically prevents you from being able to picture things in your mind. An example of this is, to close your eyes and try to picture an apple. I can do it, you probably can too, but people with Aphantasia will just be black nothingness. It even goes for their dreams. Just like you mentioned, they only hear voices. They can understand where they're located through context of "I opened the fridge" meaning they're in the kitchen or "I lay down on my bed" meaning they're in their bedroom. It's really fucked up.
Basically yeah. Here's a blind guy describing it. He's got a bunch of other interesting vids about being blind, too. Movie reviews, setting up a new dvd player, how to use an ATM, guessing what color a scented marker is, etc.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:27:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother said he dreams in voices. Sounds kinda terrifying to me but I guess it'd seem normal to him. Although he said bad drems really suck. He has been blind since birth.
I’ve never even thought until now about the idea of a blind person learning that they’re blind. At some point they have to process that their world is significantly different than the rest of ours, right? That they’re “different” but can never really understand what the difference is. Maybe they can figure out why things are different but how could they ever know what it’s like not being able to see since it seems like you’d have to experience sight first to truly understand what it is that you’re missing out on in the first place.
Just figure an alien race, or some kind of superhumans that come and say "Did you snerk that vlore? What, you can't snerk? Man, what vlore do you feel then? Like, do you feel a low vlore?"
You don't know what snerk and vlore are, and so you can't fathom what you're supposed to feel. Same with blindness, they don't see black, they just don't see.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing we do know is that the visual cortex is still active in blind people. They do "see" but their vision is based on sounds, smells, etc, that builds a 3d "picture" in their mind. Some have a greater sense of this and those who learn to use clicks or chirps for echolocation have a sort of map of their space created by that visual center.
tlaine · 6 points · Posted at 23:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very close friend of mine was born without eyes. Of course people born without vision can never fully understand what it is to be able to see. But understanding what one can do with vision is entirely possible. In her childhood she gradually learned that people with vision can use their sense of seeing to sense locations of objects around them, colors and such. It took time to understand angles, obstruction and such to tell what people really can see from which position. She hated calculating shadows in math class, because it's all very abstract to her.
Funny thing, she's actually very pedantic about choice of color in her apartment and in her clothing. She's always thinking what colors match with what. It's just a set of rules she's learned from sighted people over the years. Pretty sure we learn in similar fashion, it's just that we can also observe it but she has to often ask what color something is.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 03:38:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I found this great YouTuber recently. He’s blind (from birth) and he answers a lot of these questions. It’s amazing how much they actually do know/imagine based on what they’ve been told.
Anyway here’s his page link totally worth checking out!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is like explaining what smelling or tasting feels like, or what being hugged feels like, how could you without drawing upon a common frame of reference.
"A lovers touch is like a warm summer breeze" Great, what is a warm summer breeze?
It is fascinating to think about how limited verbal communication is. Unless you have the magical ability to connect with someone's mind and fire the same neurons as if they were really experiencing it.
There are a lot of studies on the subject, which compares dreams of those born blind compared to those who have lost vision. It's different for everyone, just as sighted folk dream diffidently but for most it is a mixture of senses which they experience in daily life such as hearing, touch etc.
The really interesting thing is some people who have lost their vision will still dream 'sighted'. This sounds pretty awesome. However, it can make waking up and facing the reality again very difficult - especially for those who have no residual vision.
I am visually impaired / legally blind myself and have some functional vision, the topic of dreaming is a frequent one in the VI / Blind community.
Canrex · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best analogy I've heard:
What do you see when you look out of your elbow? The same thing a person who is blind sees out of their eyes.
But I know what I’m not able to do from my elbow, - I can’t see from my elbow, because I know what seeing is. A blind person doesn’t have a concept of seeing the first place to know their eyes can’t see like others. They can be told they can’t see, but they don’t know what it really is if they’ve never experienced it.
Is the same thing for us and Bata with sonar, and fish with those electric field sensors. Any animal that has senses that sense something we don't, it's the same as a kind person and sight.
Or any single thing that exists that we don't have senses for, there could be senses for them, and they'd be experienced in some way we can't fathom.
Sight is a really fucked up one for us, because it's so profound, and is really like our ability to perceive existence the most.
It's like the way the world is.
And it's kind of always on.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like this comment. They would have no conception of “sight”
Avedea · 4 points · Posted at 22:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one that really sat strange with me was the explanation that it’s just what you see if you close one eye and keep the other open while “looking” out of the other one. That’s the one that always made me feel strange yet absolutely fascinated that a body can do that.
It's still not the same because your other eye still sees even when it's closed. Notice that you're still able to detect a change in light even with your eye closed.
Avedea · 0 points · Posted at 00:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely true, nothing will ever fully emulate it. But a similar experience of there not being black, or anything specifically but just nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is black. When I close my right eye and keep my left open, half my vision is black.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there is, I'd say. I might not know what, say, some not yet discovered animal is or looks like, but I know if it's before me or not. I don't have a concept of "it", but I have a concept of..."not it".
Likewise a blind person likely knows if there's a difference between the perception their eyes have as opposed to, say, their elbows.
A similar concept is that of the mental processes of animals. Even if we could connect telepathically with the brain of a lion, it wouldn't understand what we were trying to communicate. Their minds just operate and connect to the world in a completely different way than ours.
Yes but we know what seeing is to know what we can’t do with our elbows - see. They don’t know what seeing is to know what they’re not able to do with their eyes.
A good way to explain this is that certain snakes can “see” heat. They can even differentiate between temperatures as little as 1/1000 of a degree. This is a sense no human has ever had and therefore it’s very difficult to understand how they perceive this. If a snake could talk, trying to explain this would be similar to trying to explain to a blind person what sight is.
But we know what seeing is in the first place to know that our feet can’t SEE. A blind person doesn’t know what seeing is in the first place but are just told by sighted people they can’t see, so it’s not the same feeling at all.
Moreover, we have a part of the brain that handles vision simply because we have eyes that send signals to that part of the brain since before birth.
People whose eyes don't work at all, as in not even nerves firing in that part of the brain, wouldn't have a visual cortex at all, that part is probably used for something else.
But there are several parts of the brain handling "vision" for example there are some blind people who can still tell the emotions of the people they are looking at: so the eyes are working, the signal reaches the brain, and the part of the brain that handles reading emotions works just fine and is able to extract that information from the images received, it's just that the other part of the brain that handles the actual pictures to tell you here a red pixel here's a blue one, is damaged somehow.
There is a device that takes images from a camera and converts then to tiny electrical signals on the tongue (you have to put this electrical plate in your mouth) and if your visual cortex is working fine, but you are blind because you have no eyes, you can actually train your brain to interpret those signals on your tongue as imagery and there's people walking around by seeing with their tongues.
That doesn’t allow them to really know the concept of seeing though. It’s like us being told by someone there’s another sense they can use & they have a name for it, but if we don’t have the ability to do it we can never ever know what it really is.
But they can still never really know what seeing really is. How are you going to explain what seeing means & have them grasp it if it doesn’t exist for them.
Imagine being told right now that actually the rest of us have another 6th sense called “djfnejd”, but you don’t have it so you can’t ever know what “djfnejd” does no matter how much people will explain to you using the other 5 senses.
I'm pretty sure they know what seeing is. Like their other 4 senses put together can make sense of the world, and sight should be something that they're aware of. But couldn't imagine what it would be like
They’re aware of it ofcourse but if you’ve never seen, you can’t actually grasp what seeing is. It’s something that’s never existed in their universe.
Imagine being told to imagine a 6th sense that does “djfnejd”, people will explain to you what it means but you can’t experience it to ever truly know what that is.
Everyone keeps replying with the elbow analogy, but I’m not wondering how we can get our head around them not being able to see, I’m saying they don’t know what seeing is in the first place & can never really know.
We know what seeing is to know we can’t see anything from our elbow. They can’t grasp that concept for their eyes in the same way when they’ve never known “seeing” in the first place. They only know from everyone else telling them they can’t see, they don’t actually truly know what they’re missing. It’s like those of us with all 5 senses being told actually some of us have a 6th sense, but without having it ourselves no explanation could get our head around what we’re even missing.
Your brain actually still gets signals from the eyes, often people will still be able to see certain things like spots of light. Depending on where the visual deficit occurs you can even press on the mechanoreceptors in an eye to make people “see” spots. As well the nerves that connect to the eye don’t usually stop firing this can sometimes be interpreted by the brain, in the absence of of actual visual input, as hallucinations or it can make other senses experience kinda static.
Imagine someone who doesn't possess a sense of smell. How would they know what a smell even is? Or whether or not they've sensed it before, no matter how hard you attempt to describe it to them?
I feel like we could explain sight reasonably well, let me try:
sight is just sensation at a distance. when you put the back of your hand near a hot mug you sense it from some (albeit small) distance away. this is a very basic 'sight', where we can sense large differences from close by and nothing more. we know if there is a hot mug near or hand or not.
now imagine you don't need your hand to be as close. you can sense the heat from further away. much further. across the room. you could scan around from where you are to find what direction that mug is in, getting more and more accurate as you get closer. you are able to focus on this mug specifically in a cold room.
as it turns out, things vary in temperature. some of them can avoid absorbing heat, some absorb it really well, and others can even redirect it. if we could sense smaller differences in temperature with our far-feeling hands we might learn what a usual temperature is for different things other than warm mugs. if we had an array of magic hands we could even get a sense of the general shape of different objects for even easier recognition.
our eyes are just really compact arrays of magic hands. they do a great job sensing the temperature at a distance in detail.
our eyes just happen to sense a different type of heat you don't feel very well with the back of your hand.
So many people replied to me saying that but it doesn’t actually address my point. We know what seeing is to know we don’t see from our elbow. Blind people don’t know what seeing truly is to know what they’re not doing with their eyes.
Obviously they’ll grasp some concept of it over a lifetime but they can never truly know what it really is that they’re not doing if they can never experience it.
The point is your elbow doesn't see. To say "we know what seeing is so we know what not seeing through our elbow is" is nonsensical. You know exactly how much your elbow sees, which is none at all. This is how much a congenitally blind person sees. It's not like you can look at your elbow and say "Oh yeah, this is what blindness is like", you have to take the premise seriously.
That’s explaining to a seeing person what a blind person experiences - I’m talking about the opposite, the fact that a blind person doesn’t even know what seeing is & never really can.
They can be told they don’t see to know that they’re missing this sense, but they don’t even know what they’re actually missing, they don’t know what seeing even is.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of that one closed eye, I see blackness. Because my eye still works. Why wouldn't you say close both eyes? That's just as black, and equally as incorrect of an analogy
No way to explain what seeing is?? Wtf? Of course that's possible. Do u believe there is no blind-from-birth person who understands the concept of seeing? Come on, doofus.
That’s a bit of an overreaction & 3k people agree with me.
Ofcourse you can use various ways to try to describe it but how can they really truly understand what seeing is if they can never experience. If you can tell us how you’d do that we’d love to hear it.
Are you 14 years old? I’m happy to have a debate with an adult with differing views & learn something from each other. Whatever you’re doing is extremely juvenile.
But to answer your question, a blind from birth person can never experience actual sight, they can try to grasp the concept but they can’t ever truly know what sight really is. It’s not an insult like you seem to be trying to make it out to be. It’s a fascinating concept.
Sorry I answered too long for you to understand..?
To put it in simple easy terms for you to understand, I’ll repeat what I said from the start which you replied to in the first place, but for someone reason keep re-asking. Are you okay?
No there is no way of explaining what seeing really is & for them to really know what it is.
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 21:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Guy with a blind right eye here!Blind people really do not see black. Because I don't either. Tbf I do not know how you guys see, but I think the easiest way to describe it is try to imagine seeing your left side of your nose on the right of your field of view. Besides that everything is perfectly normal. Despite only having one eye, I can't imagine what it feels or "looks" like to be blind tho. But I do understand blind people when they say they don't see black.
Edit: Actually, is that the same thing you see when you close your right eye?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't blind from birth but do have experience with being blind. I went blind for a year and it was the scariest thing I've been through. Diabetic related. It's like someone turned off the lights and looking into absolutely nothing. What's interesting though, is my sense of hearing increased and it helped me get around. Thankfully my surgeries saved my vision and I have nothing but mad respect for the blind.
I think you may be wildly incorrect in your thinking (not entirely sure though, to be honest), but I’m upvoting because of your dedication to such an insignificant cause.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
According to this article, an estimated 107 billion people have ever lived. This article states that around 0.2% of the world's population have severe deafblindness, while 2% have less serious deafblindness.
Let's first assume that Keller was among the former (0.2%). Then, let's make a statistical assumption: Some portion of our population do extraordinary things in their lifetime. In modern times, we have definite proof. Further back in time there's less rigorous proof and more hearsay. Some of that is questionable, sure. To throw a number out there, let's pretend that 0.00001% of people do something unbelievably extraordinary during their lifetime. Out of today's living people, that's about 76 000 people.
Now, if deafblind people are even half as likely to be extraordinary as others, then 0.000005% of those 0.2% would be. That's 76 people.
You may argue against my 0.00001% assumption - but then remember those 107 billion people. Keeping the 0.2% prevalence of severe deafblindedness constant, we could lower the prevalence of extraordinariness to 0.000001% (a ten-fold decrease), and still have one of those 214 million (0.2% of 107 billion) deafblind people do something extraordinary.
Another point worth addressing is that due to increasing rates of population growth, the majority of these 107 billion people lived during relatively modern times.
Of course, this is in no way scientific. I'm just trying to illustrate how the astronomical number of lives lived makes stories like Keller's almost inevitable.
New comment so you'll be notified. How do you feel about this video of Helen demonstrating her ability to speak? Granted, she needs an interpreter but making herself understood verbally at all is an achievement with her predicament.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those are most likely sentences that she was trained to say by her “interpreter” to keep the charade going. She probably has no idea what the words mean. It’s like a dog performing a trick. Notice how the interpreter has to hold her hand the entire time Helen speaks. She’s most likely using some sort of system of squeezes that lets Helen know which line to spit out.
Helen was 2 years old when she became deafblind. That's old enough to have developed some language comprehension.
Maybe she practiced the sentences before-hand. That would be understandable. If so, then it's possible that her interpreter knows the "speech" and indeed gives Helen feedback on how she's doing. Not really much different from a teleprompter.
If Helen was really taught those sentences just to utter them on camera, they must have been taught to her in an astonishingly short time frame. Assuming she's unable to speak at all on her own accord (as you imply), it wouldn't make sense to teach her sentences for no reason. So when get the request to appear on TV, and that's when they would have decided to teach her phrases (if your theory is correct). Even if that's how it went down I am thoroughly impressed that a deadblind woman of her age was able to learn any sentences at all.
I took some film photography classes in high school and I have to assume blindness is like the darkroom when you have the red lights off. Just like, NO light, since everything we see is just light bouncing off stuff into our eyeballs.
I once read a blind person trying to express their experience by inviting the person asking the question to describe what he sees out of his elbow.
Quom · 2 points · Posted at 01:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd imagine you could measure it via the activation of the visual cortex (when sighted people are visualising in their mind it still activates). My understanding is that this area isn't used the same way by blind people (born blind), instead it gets co-opted by the other senses (not in a super powers way, but in a more finely tuned being able to read braille type of way or utilising echolocation etc.)
Even people that are blind but somehow granted sight via surgery don't compare blindness to seeing black. The entire absence of the ability to see isn't the same thing as seeing nothing. But it's such a foreign idea to anyone with sight to NOT be able to see anything that it's the best most of us can compare it to.
It's like telling someone to imagine not existing. People will typically imagine a sense of peace, rest, slumber, stillness, a wide range of emotions or feelings or states of mind. But nonexistence is none of those things. Or imagining existing in 4 dimensions instead of 3. Even if you wrack your brain and manage to understand the concept logically, the reality will differ from what ever you're imagining the experience is like.
Someone else said it's the difference between null and zero which I think is a good comparison. It's effectively the same in some situations, but zero is nothing while null is like... More nothing than zero.
This is similar to being colorblind, many people tend to think that being colorblind is obvious to that person or that they only see black and gray. When in all reality you have no idea if you're colorblind without taking the appropriate test first (if you've never seen the color orange, you don't know you're missing out).
You know when you receive a strong hit to the head ? There’s a short instance when every sense goes blank, including your vision. I think blind people would « see » the world like that.
When seeing people close their eyes, they see the inside of their eyelids. That's why we think the blind "see" black. Even with our eyes covered, they're giving our brains information. A 100% blind person will get NO input from their eyes.
Sp1Nnx · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it’s like when you close 1 eye and you just see out of 1 eye
I think how they're blind would be part of it, and maybe if they used to be able to see. Like I was friends with someone in school who was legally blind because he had a brain tumor that started pressing on the vision part of his brain. He got it removed before he went completely blind but for him everything was just REALLY fuzzy. Someone who's blind because they don't have eyes might 'see' different things than someone who has eyes but there's something wrong with the connection to their brain.
I'd imagine people who became blind later in life would describe what they 'see' differently, since they have something to compare it to and understand what it means to see. But I don't think we'll ever know what it's like to be blind from birth, unless the science really improves for giving vision to the blind.
I made this mistake as a child in elementary school. There was a blind girl in my class who had this really elaborate typewriter type thing that she used to complete her assignments (I literally have no idea how it worked). I was really interested in trying to get to know her and one day I asked “do you only see black?” And she responded with “I don’t know what black is”. As a kid I couldn’t really wrap my head around that response but looking back on it now really boggles my mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
there are people who have been able to see for most of their life then went blind, and the ppl who know what “black” looks like still say they dont see “black” they say they see nothing lol
How do you even know that what I see as 'black' is the same as what you see?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The part of their brain that processes visual information is still there, usually. People can be blind for a lot of reasons but if it's physically something wrong with your eyes you'd probably "see" darkness I'd imagine. Not because it's dark but everything you see is actually just light bouncing off things in the vicinity.
You want a trippy notion consider that: you don't see an object, you see light colliding off the object and bouncing back at you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But black is an absence of light, which they experience.
This logically makes sense but it doesn't really help. It's like how knowing that there are wavelengths of light that we can't perceive doesn't actually help us imagine new colors. It's really hard to truly imagine seeing nothing at all.
I've heard it better explained like this: What do you see out of your elbow? You see nothing, it's not there, that's not how the elbow works.
People are asking for an answer to a nonsense question. The entire concept that you perceive the world from the point of view of your eyeballs doesn't exist for a blind person.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just try to see whats behind your head right now without turning it.
Try it now. Really try it. The longer you do the more unconfortable you'll be.
It's nothing. They see that. Nothing.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 22:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but that's hard to fathom. I can't see behind my head, but I can't fathom what it's like to not be able to see in front of my head. Saying "it's the same" doesn't really help in understanding it.
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:41:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, there is. I'm trying to imagine it and I cannot. I'm aware that the analogy with other body parts makes sense, but I still can't fathom it.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:50:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't even get my question, do you? What do you mean blind people can't "imagine" it? They don't have to, they live it. Why the fuck would they even try to imagine what it's like to be blind if they are blind? But I am not, so I have to imagine the experience, and I can't.
I'm not asking "what do you see?" I'm asking "how does it feel like when your eyes see the same thing your feet do?" I thought that was clear.
When you close your eyes you see black. Now cover just one of them. That eye just sees nothing. It doesn't pick up where the edge of your hand is, can't define shape, doesn't see black. Your uncovered eye is doing all the work
I see a sea of black half as wide as my normal field of vision. It's curved at the edge of where my other eye starts. It looks pretty similar as it does with both eyes closed.
The best way I've heard it explained is imagining trying to see through your elbow. (probably someone used this example in the hundreds of other replies but I'm wayy too lazy rn)
I've heard all of that too. Believe me, the concept makes sense. But I'm not having issues imaging not being able to see from my elbow, I'm having trouble imagining not being able to see from my eyes.
Colors, as in red green blue purple etc... are not a product of wavelengths, but a product of how our mind perceives them. Just because you can see "more colors" doesn't mean that you literally would see a new totally different color from anything else. You wouldn't, it would just fit into your existing set of colors you see. It's actually lamer than having typical eyes because you might "see" less, as the new information from different spectrum spreads out the color to more extremes. When people have extra cones, they are typically just clones/broken cones from the same spectra as another. They don't see "more stuff" they just get more noise from what ever spectrum they saw before. They "see" more greens (when it is an extra green cone) because they get more green information, and they can diferentiate between more shades of green, but this ends up screwing with other colors. Looking at light that is both equally green and red (yellow)? Now it looks like it has way more green than red, and won't appear yellow anymore.
A better comparison would be our inability to sense magnetic fields. We are surrounded by them, but we don't have the means to "see" them without magnet implants. I've always wanted to have some.
My aunt in law was told that she’s going to go blind within the next year or so. She’s only like 40. I can’t imagine how fucking scary that must be. Going blind is my worst fear, I’d honestly rather just die
If I think about it I can see the blackness in the other eye though it's hard. Your brain naturally filters around it but the feed is definitely still there.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you say that? If you put two different images in front of each eye, each eye sees one of the images -- even though that's hard to notice because of binocular rivalry. Same principle here.
If you close one eye your brain automatically switches all attention to your open eye (assuming you have good vision in both eyes). The only way to see black out of your closed eye is to close the other one too
I recall a study from long ago00558-0.pdf) demonstrating that Tibetan Buddhist monks can control binocular rivalry to an unusual degree. Wonder if my being a long-time meditator makes a difference. It seems to, from reading these comments.
Not actually a monk, but spent months meditating full time in a TB monastery. Not sure why that deserves downvotes and sarcasm, but that's Reddit I guess.
I mean you have to admit it is kind of convenient that you happen to be a Tibetan Buddhist Monk in one of the very few situations that it would be handy to be a Tibetan Buddhist Monk.
Idk where the downvotes are coming from, I don’t care enough to downvote them but I know how annoying it can be
Try and imagine your eyes are on your kneecaps. Now, how much do your kneecaps see? Do they see darkness?
kbextn · 64 points · Posted at 19:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe i’m missing something but what
i am so confused
Blince · 84 points · Posted at 20:01:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that he's trying to get across is basically this;
Those of us that can see perceive 'nothing' as just darkness. Generally if someone says to you 'I can't see anything' you would imagine them just perceiving nothing but blackness with no clear lines or anything (like when you close your eyes, you don't see ''darkness'', you see nothing, your brain turns the input from your eyes off)
So what his thing about the kneecaps is trying to say is that, if you can't see anything (like when you close your eyes, you don't see ''darkness'', you see nothing. Those of us who can see relate seeing nothing to darkness because it's the closest thing that we can ''see'', but if someone has NEVER perceived anything they don't even know what darkness looks like.
Does that make sense? He's trying to put across that if you can't see anything, you don't see darkness or a black void, you ''see'' nothing because the act of seeing isn't happening at all.
TremorX · 31 points · Posted at 21:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of it as the difference between #000000 (all black, eyes closed) and NULL (no data whatsoever).
Yeah, I was gonna say. You eyes definitely don't get turned off. You can still make out differences in lighting or see a vague shadow if you wave your hand in front of your eyes.
al_cj · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I developed a blind spot, more like a blind stain really, in my left eye. When I close my right eye and stretch out my arm and hand before my face I see a hand without fingers. It's really weird, there's no black, my fingers are just..not there. Really hard to describe and it totally freaked me out when I first noticed it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you trying to say that they might have the same visualization of this black darkness as we do, but wouldn't even know how to classify it to begin with?
No, I know what black looks like and what I'm seeing (or not seeing) is not the normal black darkness like when you close your eyes, so I think it's different.
Blince · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the point is more that they don't have a visualization of it as they're not trying to describe something standing in for something that isn't there. They don't see anything, it's not that there is a black picture being displayed it's that there's no camera entirely, if that makes it clearer.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes sense, but it's also impossible to imagine. Thanks.
kbextn · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that makes more sense to me now; thank you!!
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when i close my eyes i don’t see complete black unless it’s dark around me or if i’m laying face down into my pillow. i see more of a really dark brown/red color. maybe i have abnormally thin eyelids. who knows
Sharks have a sense where they can detect electromagnetic impulses from other fish in the water. Now try to imagine how you would perceive that. You can't, because you have zero point of reference, making it 100% beyond your comprehension.
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kbextn · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's impossible to see nothing unless your are blind
it's basically like seeing through glass, except everything is glass for millions of miles of glass, way past the distance you can see, you are invisible you cannot see yourself everyone is gone it's just you. Although this wouldn't happen because blind cannot see light or dark.
Like you said black is just the absence if light, if you close your eyes it won't be the same since you already know what thr color black looks like. Blind people cannot tell the difference between light or dark they see nothing, you cannot perceive this becuase you have vision, try to remember a dream, the months before you were born, or what you saw during sleep. That's right nothing you cannot remember your since nerves have no need for the vision during this time, your Brain won't process light, darkness or color this is the closest resemblance to seeing nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, does it make it easier if you imagine bees on your kneecaps instead?
[deleted] · 32 points · Posted at 21:31:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just do this. Both eyes open, slowly close one of them and tell me what you see. You wont see black, you'll see nothing
I read a post somewhere that you can kind of picture nothing by thinking of what's behind your head without turning around. Freaked me out.
thats0K · 40 points · Posted at 20:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
reminds me of a joke I saw here.
a blind man goes to get on the bus, and the bus driver said he can't get on because his seeing-eye dog which is a labrador, was Black in color. she said guide dogs don't "come black". (facepalm in and of itself)...
then the punchline: "bro imagine being blind and being told your dog can't come on the bus because it's Black, and you just standing there like: "WHAT THE FUCK IS 'BLACK'"?!
EDIT: oh shit, YEAH! now i remember, it wasn't even a joke. this ACTUALLY happened, and then someone came up with the joke in the comments of that thread I'm quite sure. unreal.
oh shit, YEAH! now i remember, it wasn't even a joke. this ACTUALLY happened, and then someone came up with the joke in the comments of that thread I'm quite sure. unreal.
Yeah, basically what blind people see is not black, not white but literally nothing. Like, try to look behind your head, but don’t turn your head or move your eyes at all, and that’s what’s blind people see. (Saw this explanation somewhere else on reddit, idk where tho)
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That don’t really help me perceive it, though I can understand it Ig
by far the best explanation i’ve seen for this is: close one eye. notice that when you try to see out of the one eye you closed it’s not black it’s not even the back of your eyelid. it’s simply just not perceived
My science teacher in highschool talked about this and pretty much said that sense the brain gets no information from the eyes it doesnt bother trying to process it.
Then he told us an experiment, close one eye, and focus heavily on your nose. What do you see out of your closed eye? The harder you focus in your nose with your open eye, the more apparent it is that the closed one is just..nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually do see out of my one closed eye.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Nothing" in general is such an unbelievable concept. It's crazy to think about.
If a tree falls on the forest, and there is no one around, does it makes sound?
There are two possible answers, each using different definitions of sound.
Yes - Because sound is just waves through the air. Of course there is air on the forest and the tree obviously creates the impact it normally does producing such waves.
No - Sound is just a mental state. Of course the air vibrates, but such vibrations only become sound when captured by the ear and decodified by the brain, which does not happen as there is no one around.
Both answers are correct within their own terms. Naturally they define sound in a different way, which is why they come to different conclusions.
With color is basically the same. We have two definitions of color: Frequency of light (physicalist), and mental states (mentalist). We often confuse the two of them. We can only perceive color according to the second definition, while the first is a description of outside reality. Absence of light is black, according to the physicalist definition. We, sighted people, can interpret such absence and view it as black, as per the mentalist definition. But that is different than absence of perception, which is what happens with blind people. In blind people, there is simply no mental states associated with any vision. Which is why it is an error to think that they see black.
I totally get it. I have migraines with auras, and often lose sight progressively: it starts with a flashing light in the center, then slowly moves to the sides leaving behing a blank, nothingness. I simply cannot see anything there, not black or anything. Just nothing. It was creepy at first, now it's... Interesting.
(just imagine: what do you see behing you? It's not black, it's simply nothing.)
I heard a blind person once describe what they “see” is what we experienced when closing one eye. The closed eye truly sees nothing. Not black. Give it a try!
I felt this way when I was having my Lasik surgery. When they lifted up my flap, everything disappeared. As it was layed back in place, my vision came back.
the way i’ve tried to think about it is comparing it to other senses. So if you smell nothing, its not like you’re still smelling something. And if you feel nothing, you feel nothing. So thinking about vision, its not like you’re seeing black, you’re just seeing nothing.
Lots of people that are blind from brith don’t see black because their eyes can still detect light, but can’t make out images. It’s similar to having your eyes closed gently. You can tell if there is light in the room or if you are outside in the sun you can tell it’s not dark, but still can’t see anything.
ztufs · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would be best to ask someone who became blind in their later years, they should have points of reference
It's like closing one eye. You don't see anything out of that eye because your brain focuses on the other. You don't see black out of that eye, you see nothing. It's almost impossible to fathom for people with sight, but that's as close as you can get. Even black is a colour and the don't see colour they get no signal from their eyes.
I have blind spots in my vision. Right eye. Happened when I was in my 20s. Busted capillaries. Macular degeneration. I know they are there. Middle of my vision. Plus other spots.
People ask me what I see. Well normally in the normal spots. But in the blind spots I don’t see anything. Nothing. But the blackness. Just a mess of no information. Best I describe it is like staring at the light or sun. That afterglow. My brain or eyes do their best to fill in the info that should be there. Sucks but I’m glad the rest of the rods and cones are working.
A person blind from birth sees the same thing you would see using your elbow instead of your eye if you had amnesia and forgot about what vision "looked" like.
You know that trick where you cover one eye and make a dot on paper disappear into your blind spot? THAT is what blind people experience - literal nothingness. If there’s no input, there’s nothing to process. It’s like trying to see out of the back of your head. You don’t see black, you just see... nothing.
But close only 1 eye and try to look through the closed eye.
That's what those people expeiry
Lblklk · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have heard if you keep both eyes open and put your hand over one eye you get this kind of experience. Like you obviously can’t see out of the blocked eye but it doesn’t feel like seeing ‘black’
I can sort of answer this? So, I have migraines with "auras" sometimes, and mine manifest in partial blindness before the migraine pain kicks in. I never understood the nothingness either until I experienced it.
So, I only go partially blind, and in those spots, it's literally nothing. If I look at a book, I can see the words on either side of the blind spot, and that blind spot makes those words in the middle just not exist. It's kind of like someone folded the page so that the middle words are hidden, they just aren't there and you would never know it. There isn't a line showing you that something's missing, your brain blurs the nothingness so it isn't even that noticeable (in the case of partial blindness).
That's not the best explanation..it's still just saying there's nothing.. but I hope it helps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m completely blind in my right eye and have been since birth. I don’t understand how people see with both their eyes. My mind can’t reconcile that your nose doesn’t get in the way.
I would compare to situation, where bat would ask you if you recieve, that the area in front of you is clear, from the high pitch location thing. No, you dont recieve at all. Because you dont have the ability to do that.
People blind from birth dont know what the sense of sight is/feels like, darkness is still sensing a lack of light. Its an absence of the entire sensation. Just like we dont miss being able to sense magnetic fields or UV or infared light. Most of us dont echo locate and we dont have electro reception and none of us feels a lack of it.
You cant feel a negative response for a sense you dont have, they dont see "nothingness" there's just no info coming in.
I heard from someone who was blind but isn’t anymore cause they got laser eye surgery, that if you close One eye, and then look through that eye, That’s what it looks like.
well when you close your eyes your mind can show imprints of what you were looking at, it would be more comparable to being stuck in a room with no walls that's pitch black and it's so dark your eyes never adjust
It's like seeing with the back of your head. Nothing because you can't see with the back of your head. I've always thought it sorta ironic to "imagine" you're born blind or with one of your senses. Wouldn't it be more like specifically don't imagine you have sight? Like imagine you can't see what's happening in the next room over. You don't need to because you can't. I of course know it's different from saying don't imagine you don't have sight, but I feel like saying imagine you're blind is the wrong way of going about it
I’ve heard it compared to trying to describe what you see behind you. You can’t. You don’t. You can’t even comprehend how to describe something you just don’t sense.
Try looking behind your head but without turning your head. When you close your eyes you see simulated black, but when you're blind you literally get out process black. It's akin to seeing behind you without even turning your head, freaky right?
It's a very presumptuous standpoint, but I honestly believe that blind people do just see black. As far as I understand it, blindness is essentially just when the receptors in your eyes don't respond to light. What is the color do you see when you're tv is turned off? Black. What color do you see when the lights are turned of in a windowless room? Black. The thing is, if I'm right, they're not incorrect when they say they see "nothing." Black isn't on the light (color) spectrum since it's just an absence of color. So "nothing" really is a more apt description of black.
Kinda relevant but not exactly, cover your eyes with your hands and block all light coming in. Then close your eyes in the same way. There's not an amazing difference, but there is a difference. This is relevant somehow I just don't remember why exactly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to close your eyes - you'll see 'black'.
Now, try to look left while sticking out your right elbow. Then try to see using your elbow. There's no 'black', there's just nothingness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep both your eyes open. Now cup your palm and cover one eye completely. Try to look through that eye, and that’s what seeing nothing looks like
A lot of our idioms don't make sense because we have lost context or words. Another example is "curiosity killed the cat" when the original was "worry killed the cat" which makes much more sense.
I always thoughts curiosity killed the cat made sense.
Such as it kept investigating things and putting its nose where it shouldn't have been and ended up getting hurt
That sounds like a way to oppress someone and prevent them from questioning authority. It's curiosity that drives a large portion of science and math which improves lives.
That edition happened within the last 100 years or so. The original is much older as we see "care killed the cat" in Shakespeare's plays (care here meaning "worry").
That's nosey, not curious. Even then, it's still discouraging that behavior. Nosiness brought down Al Capone, exposed Watergate, and stopped a slew of real estate scams, and it defines pretty much all investigations. So the saying doesn't make sense when put to scrutiny which was my point, and the original makes more sense in saying "worry killed the cat".
You said that “curiosity killed the cat” is an idiom that doesn’t make sense when it in fact makes plenty of sense.
“Curiosity/Worry killed the cat” comes from Shakespeare I believe and it is just another way of saying “boldness/bravery killed the cat” so, even though the phrase is based on old English it still applies pretty well here. At least enough to not use it as an example of misrepresented idioms.
“Curiosity/Worry killed the cat” comes from Shakespeare I believe
You believe partially incorrectly. "Care killed the cat" is in two Shakespeare plays (care to mean worry), but "curiosity killed the cat" isn't seen until after The American Civil War with the "and satisfaction brought it back" not appearing until early 1900s.
I never doesn't mean curiosity at all. It means worry or sorrow for others. It's worrying about paying rent, it's worrying about the welfare of another person, etc. It doesn't have anything to do with bravery or curiosity, and even if it did, it would be discouraging those qualities which is confusing because those are positive qualities. Worry is something that should be discouraged.
You lost me man. All I know is ‘curiosity killed the cat’ is not an example of an out of date idiom or even an idiom that is missing context.
This is where Wikipedia backfires on people who act like they are English lit professors.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never doesn't mean curiosity at all. It means worry or sorrow for others. It's worrying about paying rent, it's worrying about the welfare of another person, etc. It doesn't have anything to do with bravery or curiosity, and even if it did, it would be discouraging those qualities which is confusing because those are positive qualities. Worry is something that should be discouraged.
I think your point here is kinda arbitrary.
Most things in excess or in the wrong context end up bad in some way.
Worrying about something shows consideration, care, or empathy. It shouldn't "be discouraged" any more than curiosity should.
But, the reality is anything can be done to an extreme that makes it detrimental. Worrying too much about things that don't matter. Being too curious about things you shouldn't inquire about. Etc etc.
I don't know enough about clams or tides to dispute or believe this.
7FFF · 13 points · Posted at 20:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it’s right here on the internet. Black and white. It’s the gods honest truth. I, myself, believe it. I have spent a lot of time on mud flats but can’t see them skating underwater. Just because I lack the ability to observe the phenomenon doesn’t make it false.
They're referring to a very specific pickle which is technically just a cucumber soaked in vinegar. It has a laser cannon. Funniest shit I've ever seen.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
most idioms are nonsensical. i had a conversation yesterday with my mum about how the phrase “fresh as a daisy” makes no sense because it could have been there for a few days or it could have wilted, meaning it isn’t fresh. she told me to stop talking 😅
Daisy is a contraction of Day's Eye, which is the old English name for the flower. It's called that because the petals close overnight like eyelashes and open in the morning.
The idiom is a few hundred years old. It comes from a poem about a highwayman. The daisy is fresh because, like the highwayman, it sleeps all night.
More daisy trivia: Ancient Greeks thought daisies were the eyes of Apollo (god of the sun) and he used them to watch the world all day.
George Carlin has an amazing bit about this. Making fun of idioms like the greatest thing since sliced bread. Like who decided that was the the last great thing?
My default expression is always a neutral kinda flat/frown looking thing. Granted most of the time I’m not happy... but when I am there’s no way to tell. Happy as a calm is complete bs
But weirdly, I'm 15 and I never really listen to music on high volumes but I sometimes get a tinnitus like ringing in my left hear, my doctor says that there isn't anything to worry about but he couldn't really identify the sound :/
It could be an issue with your jaw, when i was younger my jaw started popping when i chewed tough food, not sure what caused it but since then I've had tinnitus.
Does Tinnitus just randomly cause ringing in one ear for a few seconds? I thought when you get it, it tends to last longer. Not short bursts. Cause I've had the type of Tinnitus where if it's quiet enough I'll hear ringing in both ears. But I don't know what the random ringing in one ear for a few seconds is from, it's so weird.
I have mild tinnitus in both ears. Only realise I have it in quiet rooms, in my bed with no fans OR short higher volumes bursts that last a couple seconds.
I have it primarily in one ear, for me it started when my right jaw joint began popping when i chewed tough food. It's not even about ear damage because i still score really wejl with hearing tests.
God creating ears
God: Hey, angel, let's give humans these weird looking fleshy cartilage things on the sides of their heads. Make 'em super weird and twisty with a hole going into the human's head
Angel: W-why?
God: So they can listen to beautiful music, so they can communicate with one another, so they may hear the laughs of babies and children and know there is joy in the world
Angel:W-wow... That's pretty nice, ac-
God: Now have some of them make sounds like the shrieking of the worst demons at completely random intervals so the the humans never know when it's going to happen
Angel: Sigh
I've had severe Tinnitus for the last 10 years (Work related, still wore my PPE, still happened), can confirm, whoever designed ears was a fucking idiot.
You see, funny story about tinnitus. This kid was bullying me in school, years and years ago. My grandpa, who was a mercenary, bless his heart, suggested putting a grenade in their lunchbox.
I said, “Please do not kill my friends.”
He replied, “Oh, mon cheré petite-fils! I’m not going to do it.”
“...Qoui?” I asked, horrified beyond belief.
Now later, when I recounted this story to my big-tittied British friend of the feminine persuasion, she exclaimed, shocked, “Oh my God!”
To reassure her, I responded, “Oh, relax! It was a flashbang! Little bit of tinnitus never hurt anyone.”
"Well, I got a couple of grenades for 'em. They ain't flashbangs, though."
"Ah, but zey'll flash and zey'll bang... just how I like it. Now, give zem a proper Hellsing welcome."
Isn't Tinnitus supposed to be a constant thing? For me it's like... If I have nothing to listen to or am nearing sleep I hear it like this noise or a generator running. It's hard to describe
Giving it a name is not an explanation. Good for pedantry. Not good to help someone understand things. I hope you are not a teach. If you want to be, I hear there are some great opportunities in American schools for people like you. You just say things like that and tell kids to memorize them.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 23:12:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You should advance you reading comprehension before you make comments on the internet. You should move to a state or nation where euthanasia is legal and partake in the services.
I have had it uptohere with the mirrors cracking for my passing ugly mug. I don't have a problem with it, but your mirror will. Go pick yourself up To Kill a Mockingbird and learn to read. With luck you might make it to a level where you can manage Of Mice and Men. If you can manage a 12 grade/year reading level you should try Kafka. You might enjoy some more lighthearted reading in Dick. A Scanner Darkly made me very uncomfortable at points but it is leisure reading, so you should do just fine. I managed to graduate highschool, so you should do OK getting your GED. Go back and get yourself educated.
Lmao wow you sound triggered af. She asked why she has a ringing in her ears, the reason is because she has a condition called tinnitus. Do I know the details of tinnitus? Nope. And no I'm not a teacher, but I wouldn't move to America regardless.
lulz. Did you use the term 'triggered' ironically there?
Tinnitus is symptom. I get it. You learned a word. I too use words when I learn them. You used said word correctly. Here is your pat on the back. Tinnitus is not why you hear the ringing. It is the word for the ringing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your ear basically has lots of little hairs that move with sound waves and transform them into electrical signals so our brains can understand them. Ringing is caused when there is irreperable damage done to one of these hairs. This damage is usually caused by age or acoustic trauma such as listening to loud music constantly.
I was told I had tinnitus at around age 16 and was told the reason was "too many blows to the head" (I was a snowboarder with no talent and didn't wear a helmet. I fell a lot)
Also my tinnitus blocks out other sounds when it's ringing. Very annoying.
I believe it can be caused by many things, even diabetes, but I'm not sure. I only learned a tiny bit about it when I briefly studied sound production. Sorry you've had to deal with that from such a young age!
Sounds like tinnitus. There's no cure currently, but there's hope for the future. Medical science has had some interesting breakthroughs recently. I remember an experimental trial recently but I don't recall the details.
Wtf, I just tried this, and I have never heard anything this silent! I had already accepted my life would use quiet ambient industrial as background music, but this changes everything!
It can also be caused by jaw issues, I've had tinnitus since i was in my teens, that's when my jaw started popping when i chewed tough food, my right jaw pops the worst and that's the side that rings loud and constant. However my hearing is fine, according to the regular hearing tests i take.
u got tinnitus. i do as well. love waking up to EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE and going to sleep to EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE and listeningto music with EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE but quietly because i dont want the EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE to get louder
As someone who is half deaf now due to a brain tumor, my doctors explained it as your brain filling in the gaps. For me specifically, my brain is trying to figure out why there's no sound coming from that side and that is the result. Everyone with my type of tumor has it, even after the tumor is gone, we deal with it 24/7.
Honestly not sure with others, can be blood pressure related, can be hearing damage and a ton of other causes.
I’m always afraid I have a brain tumor because I get ringing in my ears (sometimes a fullness) and a white spot in my left eye’s vision. Doctors’ said it might be CSR but hasn’t gone away after a year.
What were your symptoms, if you don’t mind me asking?
Loss of hearing, tinnitus, pulsatile tinnitus, fullness/ pressure, loss of balance, dizziness, numbness/ tingling on the side it's on, loss of taste/metallic taste on that side of my mouth, pain in that side usually sharp, sudden then dulls out a bit.
First thing is to see an audiologist, and a neurologist. They kept putting me off saying it would go away, then thought I had a blood clot in my brain, then told me that wasn't it and I was too young for this. I finally pushed and saw another doctor who ordered an MRI with contrast. Acoustic neuroma is pretty rare, but there are definitive markers for it. If you feel something really isn't right get as many opinions as you need
This tumors symptoms can also look a lot like Minears disease as well, which they can rule out through testing.
Feel free to hit me up. I can at least guide you in trying to get a diagnosis properly.
Also don't panic, these are slow growing and not all that fatal. So don't assume you have one and panic yet. Just call for an audiology appointment first and go from there
Tinnitus is the ringing in your ear, it is not a health condition, but a symptom (I googled xD)
It can mean a few things, like hearing loss - which is the main cause. e.g. at 18/19 I got an ear infection in my left ear which robbed me of quite a lot of frequencies. I'm partially deaf now and I have since gotten tinnitus in my left ear.
It's not always clear what causes tinnitus, but it's often linked with:
some form of hearing loss
Ménière's disease
conditions such as diabetes, thyroid disorders or multiple sclerosis
anxiety or depression
taking certain medication – tinnitus can be a side effect of some chemotherapy medicines, antibiotics, non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) and aspirin
NHS website quote above. If it's new, I'd see a doctor about it if it's bothering you. If you're not able to, NHS also has some good ways to help deal with it .
Yeah when I learnt what tinitus was I was like holy Jesus I have had this for my entire life and I thought it was normal. It stops when I hear noise but sometimes it just gets more defined and loud for no reason. But hey, at least sometimes I think the ringing sounds good for some reason
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 18:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wondering it this works for anyone else? It didn't stop my ringing but it definitely brought the pitch down a few octaves.
I've heard of tapping on the base of the skull. While only temporary, it takes the sound away 100%
In the time I took to write this your method has kept the pitch down. Thank you for this little trick.its really hard to drown out the highest note in the universe.
I can hear the TV coming on, even walking by someone's house. I've always been sensitive to electronics but a regular hearing test found nothing remarkable, I don't have dog hearing.
I've heard that it happening randomly and then going away pretty quick is normal and happens to everyone. It's when it doesn't ever go away is when there is an issue.
Try to concentrate on that sound for some period of time and see of it brings peace. It can become great tool for meditation. Ot is know as one hand clapping in zen
[A sannyasin says she has a buzzing sound in her head. Osho checks her energy.]
Whenever it happens, listen to it very very lovingly and attentively. It is the sound of the cosmos. It is the sound meditators have always been hearing, have always been searching to hear, praying to God so that they can hear. And if you listen attentively, it will become more and more clear. And when it becomes more clear you will start hearing it not only as noise but as a very harmonious thing, a subtle rhythm, and that is the rhythm of life itself. This sound is known in the East as 'Omkar', as the sound of the cosmos itself.
When all sounds disappear, this is heard. It is a great blessing.
So, whenever you are not doing anything, sitting silently, just close your eyes and listen to it. Leave everything in the background and become totally attentive to it. It will become more clear every day you will hear it in more detail and the rhythm will become a great blessing. Slowly slowly you will be able to hear It everywhere; even in the marketplace, in a noisy place, it will surround you and it will protect you.
This is beautiful -- continue it. Good!
Here's a little helpful trick. If it gets bad cup your palms firmly over your ears with your fingers on the back of your head. Tap on the base of your skull with your fingers for a solid 20-30 seconds. It's temporary... But it'll go away for a bit.
It's like when you think about breathing or blinking or that you can see your nose or that you can feel your clothes on you once you point it out you realise it. You just made my ears ring by making me think about it.
You know the internal demon you have to fight to get something done?
It's the opposite for over motivated people... It's like when you're not completing tasks you've ruined your day and it eats you up inside.
tah4349 · 1563 points · Posted at 18:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a really good description. It's hard to just do nothing - like insanely insanely hard. I feel like I've always got to be working through a list of things otherwise I'm dying inside. I've taken up a lot of handicraft-type hobbies (knit, crochet, embroidery) because it lets me calm myself and stop moving on some level.
I can sit and fuck off for a very, very long time, myself. But when there's a deadline I start to get increasingly bothered if I'm not working on it.
JebatGa · 91 points · Posted at 22:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But when there's a deadline I start to get increasingly bothered if I'm not working on it.
Similar with me. Except i still don't do it. Then it's too late and i'm just kicking myself over not doing it sooner. Then i just bury that feeling deep down and try to never think about it ever again while my life is going downhill.
I'm exactly like this and I've found the only way to be productive is to take advantage of those small moments of clarity you get once in a while to the fullest extent until it fades.
Another good habit is when you get up, regardless of what your day looks like, get dressed. I find that when I'm in my shoes I'm more likely not to lay back down so soon and always end up doing at least something
Really all i can say is try harder. This would probably work for me to but i feel i have other underlying issues that need to be dealt with first. So hopefully someone gives you an answer that works for you and that you can turn your life on the upward curve.
as someone that is 38 and has been burying those feelings forever, I can say that its all in your habits. the longer you can force yourself to get things done, the easier it gets. or at least thats the best way I can imagine to not be like that, since I still am.
You’ve got a LOT of time don’t worry. I’m 22 and my discipline is pretty embarrassing right now, but I know with enough time and practice I can build it up. I know this because I’ve built up and loss discipline a couple times throughout my life, so I know what’s possible.
At least I'm more mentally organized than I used to be. I used to wander around in a fog, more or less - well, emerge to work intensely on something until I felt like I'd expressed an insight, then back into the mists again.
I have hypertension so they won't give me speed to treat it. I know this because my husband got diagnosed, and they won't do anything for him due to that.
As some who struggles with motivation and ADHD, I envy you immensely. I know it's a grass is always greener but I would pay a lot of money to have some kind of itch to do something.
I am in the same boat. I went to a therapist in the hopes that I would get diagnosed and medicated, but she told me only people diagnosed young actually had ADHD (although I have pretty much all the symptoms of moderate ADHD). I struggle with motivation every single day, and I too envy the other poster's drive to do things all the time.
As someone else said, that’s pretty wrong. I’m actually starting to believe that ADHD is over-diagnosed in kids and under-diagnosed in adults due to how it presents differently in adults vs children.
Maybe look into a different therapist, or maybe just talk to your primary care physician.
Find another psychiatrist. I was suspected ADHD in my 30s and diagnosed in my 40s. Meds help but I can’t take my optimal dose because of other health issues. It’s completely worth the work it takes finding a doc that listens to you!
merpes · 36 points · Posted at 19:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I feel like I'm dying inside any time I am doing something other than nothing.
See, this is something that's so foreign to me (and presumably also to /u/3lchupacabra). All these people freaking out about staying and home and doing nothing. Seems like the easiest thing in the world. What's tough is finding the motivation to actually do something.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that sounds like a superpower to me. Im so bad at life my godd
It's a curse for them too. Be happy that can just sit and be content. There is no inherent value in doing something "productive". It's just that some minimal amount of doing is necessary to not die.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if I can’t be content while just sitting down due to intense anxiety and stress I have from not being allowed to relax as a kid but I also can’t motivate myself enough to complete tasks due to anxiety and stress while not being able to focus on things due to adhd
I have days where the demon says don't leave bed, and days where the demon says don't stop doing things.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:48:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's entirely social. Either your rewarded or punished for doing something.
The trick is to figure out what a reward or punishment is.
Some people are motivated by telling people how motivated they are. If the people around you aren't motivated, you'll either become less motivated or find more motivated people to hang around.
If motivated people seem to be rewarded more, you'll become more motivated. If lazy people are rewarded more, you'll get lazy.
I’m saving this comment. This is what I need. Although I enjoy the lazy crowd, I get so much more done hanging around the right people. I get burnt out after a while but I need to find a way around that
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 08:54:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your right. The problem is the motivated crowd often conflicts with the transition. They're very all or nothing kinds of people and if you hang around lazy people too you'll be in constant turmoil.
It's not really enough to just be motivated though, because motivated people are often headed in all sorts of different directions.
You should get kn the motivation train with other people headed where you want to go.
Sometimes though you'll find yourself at the station with none of the trains going in the right direction , which is where I see myself currently.
I'm glad you took something from what I said though.
I can fuck of for months at a time without feeling affected even if I actually am falling behind. I know grass is always greener and what not but id trade you if I could.
I don’t consider myself a very motivated person but I can’t just do nothing. I HAVE to be doing something. With the lockdowns and everything I’ve been spending like 8 hours a day doing stuff for school just because I have to be doing something productive during the day or I feel like a piece of shit
I have accepted that I am a piece of shit, but trying to not be one makes me more unhappy than doing nothing, and nobody seems to notice regardless, so why waste the energy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not at all.
but trying to not be one makes me more unhappy than doing nothing, and nobody seems to notice regardless, so why waste the energy.
That is logical.
I mean I detected a bit of ironic humor in your comment (at least that's how I read it) so my reply has some of that too, but in terms of your reasoning, if you're trying to optimize for a high happiness to energy expended ratio, it's rock solid reasoning.
Verdahn · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Awhile back someone told me, "depression is when you hyperfocus on the past. Anxiety is when you hyperfocus on the future". This is so true for me, and why I HAVE to be at least a little productive each day. I'm always looking ahead (e.g. when I pull up to a grocery store I'm thinking about what I'm going to buy in the store and not where I parked. It's a curse) so I feel as though if I don't do at least SOMETHING productive each day I'll fall behind. I also make lists for fun. Help me.
this is me, except i also have adhd so i find myself unable to make myself do all the things i want to more than anything else. it's like being a bodybuilder stuck in an overweight body, lol
As someone who can do nothing for long periods of time, I often think people who make themselves busy are wasting their lives. Like, just stop and chill for a bit!
I'm go-go-go all the time, even if the things I feel compelled to "get done" are things I WANT to do (finish an art project, clean a specific room, work on a Lego build) - but I just can't stand doing NOTHING.
Unfortunately, I have a chronic illness- and between the pain and the unbelievable fatigue that hits me like a frieght train- there are plenty of times when I just CAN'T. I can't find the energy to keep my eyes open, even to read a book. I can't stay on my feet or drive anywhere because I'm suddenly so exhausted that I can't even focus on anything. Worst of all- it's often accompanied by insomnia. So long stretches of time when I'm too exhausted to do anything whatsoever- or I'm in too much pain to do anything productive at all, and yet, I can't just sleep either.
In the end; my body FORCES me to take breaks, during which I have no choice but to 'do nothing'. It feels like I'm trapped in a cage; and I hate it. More than the chronic pain, even as severe as it is at times- the WORST part of the chronic illness is the doing -NOTHING- and having no control whatsoever over WHEN and for how long.
Unfortunately, some of us just have minds that don't feel comfortable sitting still. I've resorted to Lego to help me cope; I buy a ton of bulk second hand Lego- and then sort it. My family now owns a little over 16,000 lbs of sorted bulk Lego- and we build some pretty cool projects. But when I'm ready feeling bad and I'm stuck in one place for long periods of time- at least I feel like I'm getting something done and keeping my mind busy. And I've gotten REALLY really good at sorting Lego. :-D
We're the people who plan out vacations in detail to most efficiently use the time and budget and end up more stressed out than before the vacation, aren't we...?
I wish I were wired like that. I honestly think that if my affairs were in order, I could sit and do nothing for the rest of my mortal existence, and I really wouldn't feel all that bad about it.
Genealogy is also a good hobby for folks with these personality types. You can relax while working on a puzzle that grows exponentially with each additional generation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds terrible.
Suiagg · 579 points · Posted at 18:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if you have both demons just constantly fighting each other? If you’re not completing tasks it ruins your day but you can’t get anything done.
That's me right now. I have chronic fatigue, so I don't do as much as I should, but I have this massive pile of work that I need to do. At the end of every day, I just feel empty because normally I've done nothing at all except watch videos, play some music and browse Reddit, with maybe a half hour of work thrown in.
Hey, fellow ME (elbow bump)
You need to remember that doing nothing is a job you have to do too. Like brushing your teeth or eating healthy, lying down and doing fuckall is actually a necessary thing for your health. I'd recommend making it a goal to not do anything at all for an hour a day. No videos, no Reddit. Nothing that involves any movement. Just lie there and listen to music or a podcast, and do absolutely nothing. Making it a goal feels so weird, but in the long run it's really helped my mental and physical health. Good luck out there and stay safe.
Congrats on being a normal functioning human, like really, you're someone who doesn't want to do work (Cause chilling is cool) but feels guilty or shitty in general for not doing anything productive.
To be honest that probably the most normal.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 00:11:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was me until I began having heart palpitations and my psychiatrist and cardiologist recommended I never take stimulants again. Ritalin was the only thing keeping me on track and without it I’m back to the mess.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you manage to increase your brains dopamine that'll help a lot in many cases. If you have any type of addiction that can mess with your motivation a ton. Also get plenty of sleep.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:09:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extreme guilt from being lazy. The motivated do a lot to avoid that feeling of NOT accomplishing things
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just described the Enneagram personality type 3. There are 9 types in this system, and the type 3 feels something like shame for not working hard to reach their goals. They also have a huge focus on how they are perceived by others, so tend to have an appearance of success or make the most of their natural looks. I can name loads of them since they dominate sports and entertainment. Swarzenegger, Cristiano Ronaldo, are both “extreme” examples. So is “Patrick Bateman” from American Psycho.
I struggle to get anything done, then when the day is over, I feel bad about not doing anything.
Kinda feel like this is the default position for most people in life right?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every single dead body on Mt. Everest was once a highly motivated person. Maybe chill out a bit, huh?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not being productive ruins my day. But the problem is sometimes (maybe a lot of times) I'm not productive or not as productive as I think I should be. And it ruins my day and eats me up inside.
VymI · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"GO! GO YOU FUCKER! FASTER! WHY ARE YOU STANDING IN PLACE, YOUVE GOT SHIT TO DO, GO!"
That lower paragraph is me. It's cool to see there are more people like this. I've never understood how people can do nothing all day and feel satisfied
That’s very accurate. On my day off, I can do ten things by 2pm, sit for an hour and say “well that was a waste of a day, I could have done so many other things besides sitting”
I’ve been trying to find a way to describe this! I’m asked all the time how I can stand constantly being busy/doing something. I’m sure some people see it as a positive thing, but I get frustrated because it’s not always. I don’t remember the last time I relaxed and didn’t feel guilt for sitting down and chilling out. I physically can’t just sit and not do anything if it doesn’t have a purpose (i.e. meditation). To this day, I can’t watch movies, play video games, etc., during the day because it’s not “productive”, and even in the evening, I usually find something else to try to accomplish. Sometimes I really just want to say fuck it and not do anything, but it makes me feel worse.
What helped me was to view the downtime as a reward for doing the thing.
Also I got into the practice of forcing a break, like literally scheduling it into my diary (I mean my lunchbreak is literally a meeting in my work calendar every day) just to make sure that I'm forcing myself to slow down.
Also what might help you (I don't seem to be as severe as you are) is changing the perspective of HOW you're doing the thing, so for a movie I'm watching it as a challenge to spot flaws (If you're lazy look up interesting facts about a movie and some of it's scenes and see if you can spot them out or research something about the characters).
I play competitive games to learn and it be enough of a challenge that I can push myself, it no longer becomes time wasted it becomes a productive hobby where I can watch myself improve at a task.
I'm both of these people, I have my days when I have to fight myself to just sit up in bed. Today, I can't stop moving. I woke up, got in shower, stripped my bed, put new on, brought laundry downstairs, started wash, did an hour long workout, washer is done, dryer isn't ... damn, so I walked in circles, started to look at sales ad while in a horse stance. I hate these days, because I can get alot done, but my kids hate me because I'm constantly telling them, no messes, clean up your toys. I took a dog toy outta the dogs mouth and put that away, and he's laying there looking at me like wtf I was still eating that!!!!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My demons say I’m worthless, useless, and stupid. They call up memories of dozens of people saying those things and more to me all my life. They say I deserved to lose everything and I may as well give up.
My primary motivation is staying busy so my demons stfu. It looks like I’m such a go-getter, and people ask me about it a lot, but stopping risks the depression and self-loathing taking over, which results in me being bed-bound for days on end.
I’m basically running from myself and trying to disprove those negative thoughts.
Sorry if I come across as a pocket psychologist but I’ve observed what you described and thought a lot about it.
People who said you were worthless, useless or stupid were wrong. You aren’t any of those things. People who speak like that (abusive people) are typically projecting how they feel about themselves. But understandably you have deeply internalized it and you’ll have to be very conscientious to rid yourself of those beliefs so you can enjoy life more.
Also, it helps to have a partner who understands why you feel like that so they can be positively reaffirming in the right way. Over time, perhaps thoughts can change the brain. I believe they can.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for taking the time to type this out! You are correct on all counts, and it’s a hard uphill battle to getting better that often seems a bit Sisyphean.
That’s an interesting thought about having an understanding partner who can help with positive reaffirmation. It certainly sounds nice, but I think I should improve a bit more before letting someone close enough to be that partner— I’m sort of a mess inside, and I don’t want to accidentally drive people away. 😅
Anyway, thanks for letting this internet stranger feel seen and understood! It means a lot. :D
My wife is like this, and it's supremely irritating. She'd rather fuck around doing something all day, even if it accomplishes nothing, than just watch a movie.
For me, I'm like, "Alright, you've convinced me this thing needs to happen, let's fuckin' do it so I can go back to chortling along with, "The Boys"."
Edgii · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I felt my brain tell me "you STILL haven't worked out yet" today from 10AM all the way to 8PM. It's extremely annoying. If I'm not putting 100% of my focus into something it's like I get upset at myself and I don't understand why.
That's a good description. Even when I take an hour or two to just play video games, I feel like shit and there's a million little projects that I feel guilty about not doing.
That’s my partner. She gets close to panic attacks when she doesn’t accomplish a million things every day. It’s honestly quite stressful as I’m quite chill, but admittedly I do get A LOT more done next to her.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started running everyday now that I have to pass the time on quarantine, and I legit got angry when It rained for a whole day.
As a fatso with chronic lazyness for exercise, that got me happy :)
I have to fight the internal demon to do almost anything but later during evenings and nights I feel like I've wasted my day doing nothing. My interanl demon is never satisfied :D
mallad · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've got both. One eating me up for not completing things, and another telling me to run from it all, hide, sleep, play Xbox, get on Reddit....
Used to just be motivated, so the second one is probably just the depression.
I'd say I'm mildly motivated. I'm by no means a high achiever but I do feel I need to be doing something. I was sick last week and spent the whole day in bed, I was annoyed because it felt like such a waste for a day.
Even when I'm relaxing, I still need to be doing something new like watching a new movie or tv show, playing a new game or reading a book I've not read before.
My wife on the other hand watches the same tv shows and movies and reads the same books over and over.
This is so true, I feel so guilty if I haven’t completed at least something in a day. Even if I know I need to have a break or a day off, I’ll fill that time with tasks just to not feel unaccomplished.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly wish I had that. For me, lying around and looking at my phone all day isn't just because I can't be arsed to do something productive, it's actively fun. It's hard to fight against.
YES! Thank you. This is the same for extroverts and introverts. The same uncomfortableness you feel around large groups extroverts feel being isolated.
I'm like halfway there.. I have to be doing something or I feel like I'm wasting time, but that something could be watching TV or basically anything really. But take that away and I get really anxious about what I'm supposed to be doing and how I could be spending my time doing something more productive (even if I procrastinate my productive things with unproductive things) and I don't really get it
Exactly. It's like you start every day at 100% and then every moment you don't use doing something productive subtracts a little bit from your total score... vs. starting from 0 and everything you accomplish is +% points.
I've sat on both sides of the fence. Sometimes I won't move for three weeks. Sometimes I've wanted a break for three weeks, and just when I get one, I've spent it doing something productive.
I had a colleague like that. She couldn't sit still and do nothing for a bit, even if there was nothing to do. There always had to be -something- she could do. Not that I complained, as it meant there was less left to do for me. :P
Remember when I was a kid I was like this, pretty motivated. Then puberty hit and the depression kicked in now I have to fight my brain to get anything done.
I feel guilty if I haven’t done anything productive. Other than basic hygiene and small thing I need to look at something and fix it or feel like I’m working towards something. A planner helps me personally so I can track what I’m doing and visually see the goals I’m working towards and have finished
adequate sleep helps, it really does. when i don’t get enough sleep, all my mind wants to do is sleep. it’s hard to say fuck off when it has more power over me, but when i get sleep i am able to control that “demon” and get shit done.
Yes. I’m one of these people and it’s horrible. I’ve come to realize this: I move really fast to accomplish so much with the thought that the speed will allow me to finish early and relax. Only it’s obvious that I will always add more to the list, I will never finish, and I will never let myself relax. The same drive causes me to divide my spare time on too many things so I’m okay at several but I will never be good at one. I will never be good at guitar, I will never learn more than basic Spanish, I will never master photography to match the level of what I spent on the gear, and more.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I somewhere in between/slightly leaving more towards highly motivated? When i worked full-time, school full time (college for 2nd degree), and worked out 5+days a week I felt amazing. Now I'm no where near either of those and I feel ok, but I don't feel fulfilled. Like there's something missing.
That’s a perfect explanation. My boyfriend will sometimes tell me to fuckin relax because from the moment I wake up I feel like I’m wasting time if I’m not getting things done. My sense of urgency only goes away when I’m sleeping. Otherwise, I’m almost manic
This is better explained than I could ever explain it. I need to do something, even if it's just a trip to the grocery store. I'm okay not doing anything for a day, though if I have stuff I need to do then that stresses me. But just doing nothing, or even doing a lot but not getting enough done, eats at me.
You realize that you're a human with flaws, and that you're not alone in that regard (Like holy shit do I have issues).
BUT you can do it. It doesn't matter what it is just get started, write the first word on the project you're putting off, change your bed sheets, make yourself breakfast and then when you're done start cleaning plates...
Before you know it you'll be on a roll and actually completing the task at hand.
This, and stay at home orders are the bane of my existence. I've done everything around my house possible that doesn't involve going to lowes or home depot to buy things, yeah they're still open but working in the restaurant industry we were the first to close down so I can't afford to haphazardly go buy 2x4's or drywall, or plumbing. I just sit here staring at my computer all day, not even wanting to play video games or watch movies. I just want to be productive.
I've been learning to draw. It's a pretty good quarantine hobby. Other options include electronic music production and programming (but I'm already competent in the latter)
Can you substitute real-world tasks with a point-based activity, like games? You'd be "making progress" by scoring. Or do you have to do real things to make the anxiety stop?
Like everyone it varies from person to person, for me it's easy to get the anxiety away by just getting almost anything done but games do help, I started taking on CS:GO and signed up with a team so every day I have a little bit of homework that helps.
Also my work really does help cause I can do a little extra when there is nothing to do (Like now with quarantine)
I'm not usually a procrastinator about research project, but it's really hitting me this week! I keep doing everything else I can think of, and then I'm back to square one for the stuff I actually need to pass. D:
I really liked that description. My days off are sometimes really difficult for me because I design them to be a day of rest from all my work, but always have an internal feeling like I wasted a day of my life I could have done x, y, and z
This is a great description. I'm literally useless when I'm not busy with things. It makes me anxious. I have breakdowns the week after exams are over, because I don't know how to wind down after so many weeks of 24/7 focus on final projects and exams. I have never seen someone describe it so well.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, now I'm a little confused. I feel like I lack motivation in a lot of things (learning to drive, getting an actual job, both of which I guess are partly because of fear/anxiety or whatever the hell) but if i spend an entire day doing one thing like playing a game or something instead of also writing, 3d modeling or animating I feel like crap because I haven't accomplished anything.
I spend so much time trying to figure out the most efficient path to learn a new thing so that I don’t end up learning outdated, useless, or dead-end information. The problem is that I spend so much time building a learning path that I realize how little I know, how long it’ll take to learn something, and eventually I get demotivated burnt out from the subject before I hardly start learning anything. When I do stick with the learning for a bit I learn incredibly fast compared to other people due to my optimized path, but I never stick with it. I accidentally remove all the fun from learning something new by over analyzing all of it from the beginning
You just do things because of the fear of not doing them.
For instance, say I've got to do the dishes. The fear of them still being there come morning, and just having that loom over me, is enough to get me going.
Now, I have other motivators, but that's a good one to have.
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 23:35:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motivation is just a matter of intelligence, wisdom and boredom. They all go hand in hand unfortunately.
Because I am highly motivated and high energy I don’t understand people that aren’t. I can’t sit on a couch and watch tv for more than a bit because it feels like I’m wasting time. I have to be doing SOMETHING or accomplishing SOMETHING or I feel like I’ve completely wasted my day. That being said I also have a hard time relaxing because that’s a waste of time. I do love naps though.
This is actually such a hard thing to learn and internalize if you are more like the person you replied to. I have really only recently started getting better about letting myself relax and not feeling guilty about it.
It's a really weird internal struggle because there's that urgent need, kind like a tugging and burning in the pit of the stomach, that feels awful when you know there's things you can or should be doing. And when you're doing anything that isn't "productive" by your own standards, then that feeling is worse and gets worse the longer you're not being "productive". But at some point, you have to learn that relaxing can be "productive" as well. Life needs balance. Productivity doesn't mean anything if you can enjoy not being traditionally productive. But relaxation doesn't really mean anything if there's nothing but relaxation.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:37:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s a paradox. I’m motivated to get done what needs doing ( the necessities, not random bs). But I don’t nap unless I am sick or didn’t sleep the night before. But I can burn down hours doing nothing at all. During a particularly severe bout of depression, I did not step out of my house for 28 days. Oof.
I require ALOT of sleep. 8-10 hours and I can still take a nap during the day. Also, since when you’re sleeping you’re unconscious I’m not aware that I’m not doing anything I suppose. Then when I wake up I’m right up and back to doing whatever.
I get motivation, I’m just not consistent due to my ADHD and Aspergers. Sometimes I over estimate my skills thinking I can do something and then the next I accept that I can’t do anything just being delusional. Do admit that I’m jealous of people that can be consistent, get things done and have no issues blocking them from living a normal life
ari_pop · 16 points · Posted at 18:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this living with bipolar ii. My seesaw of motivation is either “you can’t do anything you’re a failure” or “time to become the first gold medalist in the pentathlon for the United States” and I’m very envious of the people who are consistent in getting things done.
The best thing my ADHD specialist said to me was that medication was only 60 percent of the solution. That other 40 percent is still on me and now I have the tools to deal with my ADHD issues. My wife also constantly reminds me to not be so hard on myself. I spent a lifetime building up habits and coping mechanisms and it will take some time to break that all down and have a healthy, regular routine.
poliky · 11 points · Posted at 19:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I can explain my point of view on this. I was unmotivated for a large portion of my life. In my perspective I never had the ability to want to be better than who I was because I never experienced what it meant to be better. I had to break both my hands, lose my unborn child due to medical expenses, and miss out on the opportunity to see my childhood friends mother before she died, to get the desire of wanting to be better. It's not like there was a switch that flipped, there was a long series of choices that kept telling me to not be content with my life, that if I stayed as I was I would keep suffering. Honestly, a large part of my lack of motivation came from PTSD from my childhood. It took a long time to redo the wiring and thought processes in my head, which caused me to self destruct and hate myself continuously.
Now there's this literal feeling of burning in my stomach, sometimes it passes from my feet to the pit of my chest. Sometimes the feeling spreads a warmth throughout my entire stomach. It drives this passion that I never had, it drives me to be better and to grow. I had some semblance of this feeling growing up but, after a week it would pass, it's been a year now and I get it every single day. Every single day I wake up I remember where I am, I remember the choices that I made, and I remember who I'm aiming to be. Even as I write this the feelings well up inside me and fuel my desire to never lose what I have, I used to be content with loss and now I refuse to accept it.
I just want to say if anyone has any sort of childhood trauma, and if you're like me and can't access mental health care, please don't give up on yourself, you are amazing and you are worth every qubit of energy that exists. If you are in a situation by which you are experiencing any sort of pain you can and will pull through with it, you have to for the you that exists tomorrow, the day after, and for the years to come.
Oh yeah big guy? I could probably do that if I had an infinite supply of meth and then heroin for the comedown. I mean I don't but still I totally could.
On a more serious note congrats for having a drive and consistent passion I have so little social interaction and have been on reddit so long that I figured people like you were just a myth I was told about growing up. Like Santa Clause.
Good to know fulfillment exists.
poliky · 2 points · Posted at 02:26:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did a lot of drugs but I have to say e that had some meth amphetamine definitely put me in the lowest spot I ever was mentally. Took around ~350mg and the crash was fucking miserable. Drank my heart out to deal with that shit lol, if I started on opioids at that time I 100% would have been clicked to it.
Thank you, honestly my dude you just really have to want something. Like I'm talking about hunger. I used to think I was hungry because i had these fleeting moments of drive and grit, but it was truly nothing. I'm talking about real deal hunger, like when you want something so bad you'd die for it. You need to find what that is for you. Take that shit and then look back and think about all the pain you've ever dealt with and use that shit as fuel for desire. At this point in my life, and I'm still young thank fucking God, I would die to make my Grandmother proud of who I am and who I am meant to be. I am meant to be great because I am great and I know I'm great. You are too, and if you never had anyone to tell you that then I'd be honored to let you know you are. When you wake up in the morning go to the bathroom, look yourself directly in the eyes in the mirror, and speak out loud to let you know and the world know you're great. Write down several things you love about yourself, forget the negative the negative is what's keeping you here. When something goes wrong don't pity yourself, I do that still, embrace it, be like yeah this shit went wrong cause maybe I fucked up and that's okay because this right here is a step towards improvement. You only have 36500 days to live if you live to 100. Make them count with compassion for yourself, fuck everyone else.
The most motivated people I’ve met had to be, whether it was an abusive dad, broke family, or really any adversity while growing up, those are the folks that always seem super “up and at ‘em”
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got to be just genetic luck. I know a younger guy who works 13 hours a day doing oil pipelinework. Doesn't even phase him. Makes 90k a year and builds motorcycles on the side. Its just...genetic luck.
If you ask me this country could use a little less motivation. The people who are motivated are the ones who are causing all the trouble! Stock swindlers, serial killers, child molesters, Christian conservatives? These people are highly motivated, highly motivated. I think motivation is overrated, you show me some lazy prick who's lying around all day watching game shows and stroking his penis and I'll show you someone who's not causing any fuckin' trouble ok?
You don't have to be motivated to get stuff done, you just have to do it.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this^ Id be more than happy to fill my time watching tv and lazing around forever but I just do stuff because I have to or have goals that I want to achieve. Talk to a few amazing athletes or a musicians and at least a good portion of them will admit they don't really like practising or training. I mean it's not really that fun but it's like cooking a big meal. You have to do all the steps to get your reward.
They aren’t motivated they are just doers. They don’t wait for the motivation Bc motivation doesn’t exist. It’s just that you override your minds discomfort and do
Dude. Take a cold shower. I truly believe that taking a cold shower is the key therapy for motivation. I have done everyday for about two weeks and I felt unstoppable. It doesn’t even have to be for a long time. It just needs to be all the way cold. It is hard every time you do it and it never gets easier but it will jump start your day perfectly.
It’s existential dread. I know it’s stupid, I know we’re short-lived creatures on a tiny speck in the middle of vast nothingness. Still, I have a need to be something. It’s both awful and fine. I struggle with laziness and distraction constantly and it’s the panic that gets my ass of the ground.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who grew up as the underdog with alot in life and getting tired of being looked down on, I realized being super motivated and disciplined was the only way to show people up. It gave me a sense of purpose and power knowing I could control my destiny and fate. Still to this day I keep it strong, not for the reasons that got me started, but because I see a goal and future for myself that I wish to obtain. Just gotta remember to give myself some down time, because it does help me stay on track and not burn out.
I’d say i’m highly motivated, never found it hard to focus while doing work, revision for exams in school/ uni, etc
And the reason for it is when there is a task which must be done, whether that be uni coursework, actual work, or just revising a topic I don’t understand, I just cannot relax until it is done, my brain just won’t stop thinking about it panicking, etc, but when the task is done, then I can relax
Defo wouldn’t get rid of this part of me, its allowed me to do great in exams, and while I do do a lot of work, its never hindered my social life, but I do often wonder the complete opposite, how are people able to just leave a bunch of work til the night before a deadline without feeling anxious?
Some has to do with personality for sure, but with recent sedentary lifestyle, garbage food and no sun exposure there are lots of hormonal imbalances that lower people´s energy.
I was homeless for two years and worked the entire time. I have ... not PTSD but a general anxiety about not having my rent money to the point where I always must work, if not two jobs. Homelessness made me really messed up in the head.
George Carlin famously said: Motivation is bullshit. ... Stock swindlers, serial killers, child molesters, religious fanatics, these people are highly motivated, highly motivated. Show me some lazy punk who's lying around all day watching game shows and stroking himself, and I'll show you someone who's not causing any trouble.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've overcome this slightly by putting myself in positions where if I don't do whatever I need to do my life will be ruined, or something close to it.
My oldest son, 11, is so highly motivated it is crazy. He is involved in so many things, by his choice, and still always wants to be doing more an learning more. All the time! He is so accomplished already and I know will only accomplish so much more. He did not get it from me and his dad. We are not completely lazy, but we for sure enjoy our Netflix binges and staying home, etc.
Its stresses me out. Don’t get me wrong, I love this about him, but at the same time I get so stressed out just watching him cause I couldn’t fathom wanting to do all the things he does, AND actually doing them. My father is an extremely motivated person and they are two peas in a pod. I am glad he has someone in our family that understands him fully. We encourage and support him as much as possible, but I can honestly say I will never understand the desire to do so much all the time.
I read an article once, I wish I would have saved it, but it basically talked about people being gifted in motivation as people are intellectually and academically and athletically gifted, etc. I felt like it really helped me understand and explain my child. He has a special gift that makes him excel at being motivated. Meanwhile I am eating chips in bed and to lazy to turn off tv when I cant find the remote.
I never got them either. I have ADD and since I got good medication I know understand them. It’s a combination of having energy that wants to be used and the ability to focus.
The way I see it is not as a type of person but as one simple word; momentum.
Once you get started on absolutely anything. Think of the smallest task like turning off the TV. Done. Now brush your teeth. Done. Hmmm, let’s put a load of washing on. Sweet.
Guess what? Every time you complete something, you feel good. And each successive task keeps getting better, well, so long as the complexity of the task grows also.
So after you’ve done a few chores around the house, get the fuck out (not now, during COVID of course) and exercise. Nothing drastic, just walk a bit :)
Wow! Now you’re feeling good! Done something nice for your body. But remember, take it slow at the beginning. If you over exert yourself during these early stages you may wear yourself out because you’re not used to it. Then you’ll associate ‘doing things’ with a negative (painful) feeling.
Next week you walk a little further, then a bit more so on. Do this with everything in your life.
You have to keep the momentum though. That’s the key.
Once you skip a day or two and binge shit yourself at home like a miserable piece of crap. The freight train is stuck and you have to start the locomotion process ALL over again.
Just keep it going. The little things will eventually turn bigger. Just keep swimming.
Holy hell, I sound like an Amway salesman :(
But seriously, start small and keep the momentum going. You don’t have to join a gym, a stupid group or change yourself. Just go! Take out the trash! Feel amazing you did SOMETHING!
This was an interesting comment. I’m one of those people. And I’ve often wondered if there are people who think I’m “doing the most”, you know? But I’m really just trying to achieve my goals and improve every single day.
I’m so curious to hear why highly motivated people are difficult to understand? I won’t take anything personally, but I’d really like to understand your perspective a little better. Would you mind sharing your thoughts?
Because it's natural to you. There's no switch to turn on. You ARE the machine, and doing what you want to do is part of you. For me, there's a machine I need to switch on, then crank till it works, and I'm worried the entire time if it's going to break down.
There is probably something that you are highly motivated to do like gaming or something buts it's less highly regarded by society as something that's worth while doing.
Nothing motivates you more to get stuff done then when you have 2-3 kids and there’s quiet and nap time. I can barely sit down and watch tv or a movie because I feel I’m wasting my time.
Now if it’s the kids bedtime at night and the wife is asleep, I can stay up all night and do it to just unwind
I would love to hire people based on the comments they make here! It’s a single most important thing I can know about someone to help me make a decision if to hire or not.
It’s not just motivation, but also how some people who are not motivated but they have a great understanding of things. Which is incredibly powerful as well.
a-r-c · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's easy
doesn't matter how I spend my time, so might as well spend it in a worthwhile way
who cares if i'm tired or it's hard? everything is tiring and hard, it's all the fucking same except for the results
I use to be at uni. It's like I had a target to complete and absolutely smash. Now, I'm like wtf am I doing? Went to the best area (career terms) and left because I wasn't happy. Now I'm totally lost and have nothing to achieve!!
You know I used to be highly motivated and my life was a lot worse. Now I'm a lot happier and even I don't understand why people put themselves through hell to get stuff done. In some cases I think it's pathological, like people internalising their parents pushing them too hard. Now I just wanna chill and play video games. So much better.
See I’m odd. I’m lazy and love sitting around doing nothing but it’s been engrained in me from my family that I can’t fail. Just high expectations, which I have now put on myself because I know I’m capable.
So I slack off and then when the time comes I’m impulsed to work my ass off to get everything done and I can’t stop and get major anxiety til I do.
That doesn't exist. They all fake it. Every time you see someone being good at something you can safely assume they are totally faking it and you will be right practically every time.
The same thing goes for being happy, being good at studying, having goals in life, flirting and dating, running a business, remaining calm in a tough situation, and so on.
I think I am qualified to answer this because I am highly self motivated person and whoever has talked to me has said that they feel like getting top shit done.
I am driven by a cause. A cause to create an impact. What is it that doesn't matter.
What matters is that it keeps me going. Every moment of every day.
And even in those dark dull days, I feel like doing something which can help others (basically Oxytocin) helps me back on my feet and infact turns a bad day into a good one.
Find you WHY. Find your purpose. Find the cause.
I promise you that you'll no longer procastinate.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What else are you gonna do?
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 21:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Admit that i am a highly motivated person. I can not wrap my head around people who aren't. Just do it, dude. Just do it.
[deleted] · 1014 points · Posted at 13:22:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. I understand the basics, but when it starts getting more technical I get lost.
Not OP but I'll try. I understand gravity and that what goes up must come down, but I genuinely don't understand quarks and black holes and pretty much anything past high school level "we can demonstrate this in a classroom setting with household materials" physics.
[deleted] · 48 points · Posted at 19:06:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought'd you'd say friction or air resistance or something. Black holes and quarks are very complex. It's completely fine to not get it, hell, I sure don't.
It probably helps that I never studied physics beyond 9th grade of high school, so I've never tried to learn the math side of it, and my exposure to the wiggidy and wild stuff (quarks, etc) comes from YouTube videos that probably explain it very poorly. But yeah, all of the math in physics is just greek when I look at it.
To be fair with black holes there is not too much to know. All you gotta understand really is that there is a large amount of mass in a singular point pulling things in. It's like a planet pulling in objects but instead of a full sized planet you got a really small dot.
Quarks are no weirder than any other particle. Particles are small entities that have certain properties which give them certain tendencies.
Electrons, which most people are familiar with, have a property called charge and a tendency to be attracted or repulsed by other entities with the property of charge. Electrons have other properties too which give them other tendencies; but those properties aren't as relevant on the scales we are familiar with. Properties that show up in the macro world are generally more familiar to us. Mass, charge, these properties can exist for large objects so we see them all the time. Spin, color charge (not associated with the visual phenomena of color) are properties that don't show up on large scales because when you collect a large number of particles together the properties average out to zero (just like you can have a bunch of positive and negative charges average out to 0 net charge).
Quarks have many properties, mass, electric charge, color charge, spin, etc and these properties taken together give them the tendency to group together into composite entities we call protons and neutrons.
Just to prod your brain, what comes up doesn't necessarily come down. Even shot straight up, something launched at the escape velocity of a planetary body will never stop moving away from wherever it was shot from.
Yeah, I get that. That's how we get stuff to the moon and all, and we get satellites up there and into orbit by getting them to the very edge of gravity and all that. It's the wiggity genius-level "this is nothing like the algebra I know and love" math behind those concepts where I get absolutely hopelessly lost.
I can explain black holes with a really dumb metaphor.
Imagine a really big sheet of paper.
Paper can bend, paper can stretch, but only so much.
Something like the earth is like a. . . pea, sitting on the paper, the sun is like a tennis ball, it bends it more, stuff will move towards it.
A black hole is like if you just dropped a Bowling ball from 10 feet above the paper, everything nearby is falling into that cone of death, and it's never coming out.
Right, so for quarks, can't really help you there, but black holes, I can try to explain.
So for a given celestial body, at a given radius (for simplicity's sake, let's say it's surface), it has an escape velocity, being a necessary velocity in order to get far enough away from the body such that you won't get pulled back into it. This value is dependent only on the radius (distance) from the center of mass, and the mass of the body. (Mass of the object leaving doesn't come into play beyond that due to inertia, it's harder to get a heavier object to the required speed.)
For black holes, they basically just have so much mass, that once you get close enough, that escape velocity is higher than the speed of light. Nothing can go faster than that because reasons I guess, so nothing can escape once it gets that close (known as passing the event horizon).
So how does that much mass get in one place? In summary, when stars die, depending on how much mass they have, different stuff happens. Throughout a star's existence, they're "burning" fuel (fusing hydrogen and other elements) to counteract the force of its own gravity, which unchecked would make it collapse in on itself. When it runs out of fuel, its own gravity pulls all that mass together until the elements don't want to get any closer because electrons repel each other (the whole thing where you never actually touch anything because it's just the electrons pushing each other away). This is where white dwarfs come from.
But here's the thing. When stars get really big, rather than just collapsing in on themselves, there's a whole chain reaction that results in the star exploding, expelling a whole bunch of material outward. But the thing is, due to the whole thing where every action has an equal and opposite reaction, the material at the center of the explosion gets pushed really hard into itself (in addition to the gravitational force). At this point, the electrons just go "fuck this, I'm giving up" and the atoms get pushed even closer together until eventually, they get so close, the neutrons of the atoms are pushing hard enough to counteract gravity. When this happens, you get a neutron star, which are even denser than a white dwarf. They also spin really fast and shoot lasers.
Now as dense as neutron stars are, they're still not quite to the point of being a black hole. For that, it needs a star with even more mass. The same thing happens with the star running out of fuel, and the chain reaction happening (though in these cases, it's possible not as much material explodes out) except now, that dense core is able to overcome the force of the neutrons in the atoms, and everything collapses even further down, at which point... We don't really know... We're left with a singularity that forms a black hole, but we can't really tell the specifics on account of the fact that nothing can escape it. What we do know is just that there's an absolute shit ton of mass in a really tiny area, which makes it possible for there to be a distance from it where the escape velocity exceeds the speed of light.
Ah well ill take a stab at the whole gravity thing. In advance I apologize to any proper physicists, since there might be some shortcuts and incorrect assumptions. So lets say existence is just a fuckhuge sheet of lycra. Its perfectly flat, and equally stretchy at every point; this can be sorta considered our spacetime. Any time anything with mass rests on the lycra, it makes a depression in it, as well as a bunch of the fabric sloping downwards. When you sit on this lycra, youll notice you form a little well, and any objects that you throw away will roll back to you; you'd need to whip it quite hard for anything to truly stay away from you. With a black hole, well it weighs so much in such a tiny space that it stretches the lycra to infinity, or if you want to stay true to the qualities of fabric, stretches it a ton and punches a hole at the bottom.
I stopped making progress when we were learning the different formulas for inertia amd momentum. To me they are the same thing with different frames of reference.
Well momentum is a quantifiable property of moving objects, and it can be transferred between objects such as energy. Inertia is more an object's resistance to change, it can't be transferred and is specific to certain objects.
If a moving object collides with a stationary object, why can't we say inertia was transfered in the opposite direction?
How do we know which object is moving? It depends on our frame of reference. We can adjust our frame of reference so it appears either, or both objects are moving! In that last case there is no inertia at all.
In each of the three scenarios the objects' actions relative to each other is the same. So why do we have different formulas to describe each object's tendency to keep doing what it's doing until perturbed?
the way I see it, momentum is the quantity of movement - the more mass an object has moving at a given speed/the larger its speed, the more movement there is. we can calculate this total movement.
so if we observe from the point of the location of a light object that a large object is moving towards, we see that it will get hit with a lot of movement, and that this momentum will be conserved, so our light object will now start moving at almost the speed of the big one.
if we look from the point of view of the big object we see it slow down a little bit when it hits.
Both of these objects have inertia, it is simply their tendency to keep doing what they're doing - how this works out is momentum
And why is physics the way it is? Why isn't light faster or slower, than it is? Everything is just because
ei283 · 10 points · Posted at 01:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A psychiatrist will tell you your brain acts the way it does because of biology. A biologist will tell you living things act the way they do because of chemistry. A chemist will tell you chemicals do the things they do because of physics. A physicist will... well, that's just the way it is.
Einstein was the one who discovered that, if the speed of light was constant, hey, that would explain why mercury moves the way it does, and hey that would explain a lot of things let me write this down.
[EDIT: Stated in a response comment below, Einstein was not religious.]
Einstein was religious, perhaps turning to a divine reason behind the way our universe behaves. But really, religion is just another way of saying "I cannot give a concrete answer as to why the things are the way they are; it is divine, in that it is above my understanding."
[Entirely my speculative stream of consciousness. Please correct any outright false information]
Einstein was no religious. He did say "God does not play dice to the universe", but in a future correspondence, he clarified that he is not religious. He made it clear that the beauty he sees in the universe is only in its mechanics. We are left to assume that the "god" in that quote is referring to the fundamental properties of our universe.
I wouldn't say he was not religious per se. Moreso that he was not conventionally religious, or rather, had a philisophic approach to the Divine vs. a more dogmatic and canonical one.
Thank you, I always thaught I never relly got physics beceause I could not go through the mecanics of it in the same logic than with any other subject. you explanation shows me how I've been looking at it wrong. I feel so much lighter, it's been bugging me since fifteen years, thinking I was really stupid for not getting it!
Physicists are the worst at explaining Physics. At university you can take a basic physics coarse from the physics department and it will make zero sense. Take a basic physics class from say the engineering department and you will likely end up understanding that basic material better than the physicists.
Its like they have an unwritten agreement to try and one up each other on how complicated they can make things
Noone truly, intuitively understands quantum physics.
It is truly weird and does not behave in a sensible way.
The best understanding I have is that at the tiny scale we're discussing, reality becomes "fuzzy" and you can't precisely nail down certain aspects of objects as precisely as you can in normal scale
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like somebody emptied out the ball pit with a big air blower and now all the balls are zooming around the universe and sometimes they bounce off of each other and sometimes they stick together because of the the pee and if enough of them stick together don't get near you'll get stuck too.
And you can't take apart the balls except by smashing them and then you find out that the bits that come out immediately stick back together to make other balls that are sometimes different colors.
Yep. I flat out cheated in college using a notecard taped to the back of the calculator during tests. Was a Bio major so had to take two classes of it. Ugggghhhhhhh...
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:48:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too, I think I understand basic theory, but when I try to do exercises, applications and things like that I struggle a lot
I thought I understood physics when I was younger. I was a college kid with an ego. My father, who has degrees in it, who worked at Fermi and Bell Labs, asked me to read something so I could test my abilities. The bastard handed me a book about calculating the spin of black holes.
Well even if you learned more there would still be another level that you wouldn't understand, so you share this with both nobel prize winners and 12 year olds! :P
A really basic eli5 is that electrons have a direction. When more than one is in the same direction, there's a dipole created. A magnet is a piece of metal that has the majority of its electrons in the same direction.
[deleted] · 40 points · Posted at 20:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, you can’t just connect two metals! * angrily cries *
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Haha electrons go brrrr"
– u/SketchyByte Nobel Prize acceptance speech, December 10 2020, Stockholm
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 18:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best answer on the thread. Love it
crowkk · 9 points · Posted at 04:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, in all seriousness I was going to say that. It's literally how it works.
Electrons are there, they move they go pew pew and brrr brrr and the fields go like bzzzzz
Electrons are magnets, and sometimes a bunch of them line up the same way to make a bigger magnet. A magnet is a thing that interacts with the magnetic field, so that the field energy is lowest when it makes that loopy shape going from one end of the magnet to the other. Magnets attract because the magnets being closer allows the field energy to get even lower as the influence from each magnet overlaps.
Why do things seek lower energy (more specifically, why is there an action principle)? Why do electrons and magnetic fields exist and why do they interact the way they do? Nobody knows, but it's insane that the basic rules of known reality have been condensed down to a few dozen fields and interactions.
It's more of a problem that science might ultimately be limited to only "how" questions, I think. How this, how that. There are "why" questions that are answered in science, but if you keep asking why you'll get to concepts and ideas that just cannot be answered now because we just don't know. Like why does an electron have this specific charge? We don't know, it just does.
"Why" and "how" have the same answers in science. Why does it do that? Because this happened before and this is the mechanism that led to the current result.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I admit I don't know. I also don't know why we're here at all. Why is the universe here? It makes no sense. As long as we're here there might as well be magnetism and gravity and EM waves and the speed of light...
Speed of light exists because that’s the speed that a wave has to go to keep producing itself. The moving magnetic wave makes a moving charged wave perpendicular to it and visa versa. If the wave moved slower then it would collapse on itself and if it moved faster then it would break itself. Simple way of putting it but it gets the gist across
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think your replies are coming off as a little aggressive/condescending. What I think the other user is talking about is the point you mentioned where Feynman could explain how a train turns on a fixed axle but can't explain something like magnetism.
They mentioned how you can keep on asking "why" about anything and you'll hit a point where someone can't explain it. So saying that he can't explain magnetism or that he can explain the train problem just depends on how deep of an example you're satisfied with. For example, I can explain how a magnet works; if you put two magnets close together there is a force pulling them together or pushing them apart, depending on which way around they are. This obviously isn't a deep answer, but it's enough to let a child understand why their ear is being pinched when they out two magnets on either side. On the other hand, if I want to "completely" explain how the train maneuvers a curve, I'd have to explain how forces work on an atomic level and below, which I can't do.
I feel the same way, and essentially there became a point where I realized that I stopped caring about "why" for every question. I'm not a physicist, so I don't feel that I need more than a practical undestanding of physics. I think physicists are important because a deeper understanding of physics can let people find new practical ways to use that knowledge, but I curiosity has been satisfied by the amount that I already know.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, I'm not mad I just don't need a deeper answer than what I have. I don't know really know if you're doing on purpose, but almost every sentence you write makes you sound like an asshole. You're coming off like you just want an excuse to fling insults at people, rather than trying to understand them—its irritating when I'm just trying to talk to you. I'm not angry about understanding things, and I'm not angry at you. Nobody said anything aggressive towards you... or I at least didn't mean to.
You're seeming to miss what the other guy was getting at about how vs. why; you can definitely know how an apple falls from a tree (with pretty good accuracy) but not know why. At some point after it stopped being important to me exactly why some things work, and much more important how they do. I'm not really even talking about Feynman—I know almost nothing about him. I was going on a tangent.
For example, I took some classes related to electric and magnetic fields and other nerd stuff I don't remember, so I do know some fundamanetal equations that describe how magnets work. The fact that I could use that to try designing something like a solenoid or electric motor without actually knowing why magnetic forces exist is the kind of reason I lost interest in an answer to the why question. It could literally be magic and it wouldn't make magnets more or less useful to me (unless it led to the discovery of some new uses).
I remember when “Miracles” came out and people were all making fun of it on this message board I was on at the time, particularly the magnets line. Then someone posted the Feynman clip and it shut everyone up pretty quick. But, I still laugh and think about ICP every time I watch that clip.
The question is too broad, but there's no way for the interviewer to have known that. As Feynman said, it's an excellent question.
I don't think he dodged the question. He couldn't answer it, and he said so. He even explained why it couldn't be answered as asked. I didn't see his answer as being arrogant here. He might have been frustrated, because he couldn't phrase an answer that the interviewer could understand using everyday examples, but he was patient and took the time to explain why.
AgAero · 5 points · Posted at 01:12:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually not a good response to the question though. It's just a rant.
If the interviewer asks a poor question, lead them to a better one.
Feynman's point was that magnets work the same way everything else does, but any explanation has to start somewhere. For the train wheels, you had no problem granting that wheels can exist, can retain their shape in a 3D space, and can push on the tracks, etc. Ultimately the only reason you are ok with this is because you've seen a lot of wheels.
A magnet uses the same basic rules the train does, and can be explained only if you grant that the universe can have rules that it follows. Finding which rules the universe actually follows can only be done by looking at our universe to see which ones work and which don't.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, it has to be. I’m boggled by the number of people going “it’s quite simple really, here’s Richard Feynman talking about it. Very interesting topic”
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 11:50:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, someone uses a well known reference to answer a question like this, but also is curious about the answer! Wow!
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 18:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -13 points · Posted at 20:49:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how you got that out of his answer. What he's basically telling me in my mind is that there's an answer but you'll need to know more to understand it, and it's not an answer I can give in a 5 minute interview.
AgAero · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What he's basically telling me in my mind is that there's an answer but you'll need to know more to understand it, and it's not an answer I can give in a 5 minute interview.
AgAero · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He should have either said exactly what you did ("there's a very detailed answer I could give you, but you need to know more before I can explain it to you and it will take some time"), or he should have answered the question with a question.
Lead the interviewer to a more precise question that can be answered in a satisfying way during a 5 minute interview. Hell, he could have even just explained a rudimentary Ising Model if it came down to it.
What the fuck are you going on about dude, I don't know shit about it but Feynman obviously does, and I'm willing to bet you'd be able to find him speaking on it if you looked hard enough but you sure as shit aren't going to get it in a 5 minute interview.
Your panties are seriously in a wad you may want to fix that, or maybe eat a Snickers.
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:49:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're still making no sense dude why are you so bitter. Yes you're right we haven't figured out a unified theory, good for you your figured that out, you want a medal or something?
Science is never done. Give this guy a fucking Nobel prize.
Miyelsh · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Feynman got a nobel prize for his work in quantum electrodynamics, he sure as shit understands and can explain electromagnetism. In fact, he has a whole volume of lectures online that go into intimate detail about this very matter. I've read through them several times and everything is explained very well. It just takes a mathematical background that you can't assume an interviewer has.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 22:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think that all the people in this thread know how magnetism completly works works. Same about Feynman or any scientist something we do not know, but every one understands things on a cetain level and some people on a very High level
so high others would say they understand it or it is the highest availible level
I also don't think most people are angry nerds who claim to know things, but rather that this is your interpretation of their words. Unfortunatly your condesending tone makes you sound like the arrogant one but I don't know that I can only assume
so If you would please
take your douchey attitude and throw it away, so that you can become a better person or if I like probably you misinterpret things you couls try to find a better tone to convey your opinions so that you are listened to
You are so hopelessly misunderstood in the matters of the video, I honestly could not even begin to try to correct you on it. Because you are driven to believe that you are right and everyone else is wrong, and there is nothing I can do to change that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of the confusion here is that some of our ideas about magnets and magnetism simply aren't true. For example, magnets don't have "poles" in the sense we normally think of them, and the different ends aren't really attracted to each other.
Magnetism is fundamentally different to most of the forces or interactions we deal with. Mostly things push or pull stuff. You line the two things up, and they either get closer, get further away, or stay where they are.
But magnetism is generally a twisting effect. You put two things next to each other and they'll twist around so their magnetic fields line up.
One way of explaining that is viewing magnetic fields and magnetism not as an effect of its own, but as the effect of a changing electric field (with corrections for special relativity).
Magnetism is weird, and requires a lot of maths (and a bit of quantum mechanics) to understand properly, but it does all work out.
There won't be a Reddit comment that will make you understand magnets in two phrases without you having additionnal questions. If you have time, read a scientific article or a one of the free MIT courses available.
Hey, I know a little bit about this. It's because some molecules are polar.
Water, for instance. It's made of one big oxygen atom and two little hydrogen atoms, but the thing is, the two hydrogen atoms are attached to the same side of the oxygen atom. That means that the electrons of the molecule tend to hang out more on the side where the hydrogens are, which makes that side a little more "negative" and the other side more "positive", which means the molecule is polar.
Now, water can't be magnetic because all the molecules in a glass of water are free to roll around and point in all various directions, but a solid made of polar molecules can be magnetic if the molecules are predominantly lined up with the negative ends pointed in the same direction.
Since electricity and magnetism are basically two ways of looking at the same phenomenon, if a thing is electrically polar, it will have a magnetic field.
This. So much this. It's literally black magic to me. It's like real life super hero stuff. I get HOW a magnetic field is created. What confuses me is this invisible force that when it meets is opposite it repels it... Not visually, magically.
I was obsessed with magnets when I was younger and tried all sorts of things with them. To this day they baffle me. Even putting a magnet on the fridge brings my mind back to thinking "It's really sticking there because of some invisible force."
If you think about it you’ll realize magnets are not special. How does light work? Or heat, or gravity, or electricity, or .... the list goes on and on. Next step is to study physics and realize that you can model them using a handful of universal laws. That’s the closest humanity has gotten to explaining how magnets work. And then you are left with the question “how the fuck do magnets work?”
There's a joke here, but I can't decide whether sex hormones or genitals should be the punchline. Hormones are more accurate, but genitals are funnier.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one actually knows this. Not even the best scientists fully understand it - and the interesting thing is that for all intents and purposes they are not being pulled together but being pushed together (there's a small but important difference to this). Gravity too - why?
Richard Feynman gives a great explanation that basically comes down to "they just do", but in a way that helps explain why that's a reasonable answer–especially for us magnet-naïve.
Dude, you have to watch this old video called “River of Magnetism” on YouTube. I’m a 90 year old at heart so I don’t know how to post a link, but just trust me. Shit will blow your mind.
The simple answer being that it is a relativistic electron effect, not wanting to get deep into quantum mechanics I won't go past electrons. Essentially electrons have a sort of spin and location in an atom. These two will determine how an atom behaves magnetically. Magnetic force is perpendicular to the direction of velocity and 90 degrees to the electric field. The interaction between movement and field create a relativistic effect in all electrons. Stack a bunch of electrons on one side of an atom with the same spin and it becomes "magnetized". Put a bunch of those together into a bar and you get a bar magnet.
Some of this may be outdated or wrong, this is what I picked up from my general relativity professor and electrodynamics.
Magnetic: M
Electric Field:E
VELOCITY: V
V
^
I
I
E - - - - > M
Note: The electric field is coming out of the page.
cbeiser · -1 points · Posted at 18:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. How positively and negatively charged elements line up when making up chemicals (I think).
Edit: I know people hate edits but I didn't think this would murder my inbox and I don't have time to reply to every single person. So...
I'm not depressed. I used to be, for several years. But a few years ago I got better (didn't just happen overnight obviously but I'm not gonna go into detail about it here). I'm much happier now and enjoy life a lot more, but I still hate my sleep schedule. I keep trying to get it somewhat normal, but it keeps getting fucked up.
Maybe anxiety is a part of it, but I doubt that is the sole reason.
I don't hate change, for the most part. It depends on the change but I don't think that applies here.
I'm not a toddler (kinda wish I was though sometimes).
I've tried using melatonin and other sleep aids, sometimes it works but not always.
Doesn't matter how early I go to bed, I will lay in bed for 6 hours and not be able to go to sleep until 7 in the morning.
I've had this problem for almost a couple decades now and in multiple settings (when I was in high school, when I had a full time job, and now that I'm going back to school and have a part time job).
I just think it's very nuanced and there are multiple factors that contribute to it. I'd like to have a sleep study done, but it's so difficult to find the time to do so right now.
I had a dream a long time ago where our society found it most beneficial for half to work/be active during the day and the other half a night. It doubled our technology and medical sciences but it was also just a dream ...
Ummm...I had the same dream! There were two towns separated by night and day, aptly named “Nighttown” and “Daytown” and the people were separated and had separate suns and moons and shit, but every once in a while someone would travel to the other opposite end either to never come back or acclimate to their new routines. Then I woke up and it was already dark.
I’ve done it a few times, sure. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend solo backpacking right off the bat - you really need to hone your skills and get your head right before taking on that kind of situation - but staying in a campground in a state or national park with facilities and other campers not too far off is totally doable. My personal favorite middle ground is the open camping that most state forests let you do off the main fire roads. Only the occasional local traffic passes by and you can get long periods of unbroken silence while still being off a main road and close( by car) to a bathroom if you really need it.
I dont think I will enjoy it alone... Music and thought that's all I will do. Plus I got harmonica I need to improve my skills on it lol. But for me, am tech guy I don't know if disconnecting from the world gonna be easy.. I easily disconnect from people but not the internet 😂💔
At my place now you either camp in desert near to the highway for single night or go camp in rent tents nearby to the sea which is place made for camping with all things u might need available,
Bramala · 12 points · Posted at 21:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleep is where it's peaceful for me and I'm usually untroubled by much of anything there. Rarely even do things that happen during the day invade my sleep. While I apologize in advance for seeming to humble brag, if there's one thing I can do and do well, it's sleep. I severely dislike having to wake up and wonder what the world is going to throw at me today.
When you sleep you just skip the peacful time, did you try sleeping during day time? Not healthy but I love it when am able to.
Literally everything invade my sleep 😔
Bramala · 3 points · Posted at 23:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I may not be specifically aware of being at peace while sleeping, but I know it when I wake up and nothing bothers me for a little while because I experienced it. I can and have slept during the day but I'm actually not a fan of it. The world (at least where I am) slows down at night, and when night comes and the night animals come out and make their noises, it's the best time of day to me.
If you wake up early enough, the silence and calmness is 10x better and you get to watch the world wake up. I always find early morning a lot less sinister compared to night time.
Awh yeah that is my ideal relationship. Still haven't found it. I've confused a lot of exes with my silence sometimes, it's hard for some people to understand that not everyone likes to talk
I hate the night time now... feel so alone and abandoned and anxiety feel up like something is not right. Started feeling this just few years ago especially when there is a change in my life.
It's because the change, maybe you just missing something u used to have during night time.
Things will change again and u might love night time again.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:29:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when a day is chaotic, ill just wait until it's midnight and just sit outside and listen to the absence of noise, but then i start getting anxious about random people running around out of sight and i get paranoid.
now and in multiple settings (when I was in high school, when I had a full time job, and now that I'm going back to school and have a part time job).
I didn't know hating get in and out of showers was thing, but apparently it is. What a bunch of weirdos...
Seriously though, I just think it's very nuanced and
See; I actually love the freshness and sense of "new" that I feel when I have had to get up early. Even though I never have had more than an hour or two of sleep and wish I could have just 5 mins with my eyes closed! I just feel like getting up, whatever time is beyond me, and getting to bed to sleep and being able to fall asleep is the worst thing...my parents said I was a "good" baby as I was always sleeping- they had to wake me up to feed! Guess some things are so deep maybe we just wont ever really understand them!
This can help.change how you look at things.change your perception of what your experiencing here.look at the beauty in the day.leave your thoughts out of it unless their positive.look with love through your eyes.your life will be less stressful.you have 2 choices 1 leaves you with negitive thoughts making you sick .or 2 look at everything with love an feel happy through any problems.it works and you deserve to be happy an stay that way.
Thanks for the advice, am happy buddy.. And now it's day time, clouds and calmness, in city side between 2 seas, its day time and beautiful at the moment .. But you can say am very sensitive to noise & light and that happens most of time at day time.
YES! When I buy my own home, it will be fitted with dimmers and heavy curtains. I like cosy darkness. I want it to be night all the time!
My country started it's lockdown on Tuesday. I realised that in order to be productive, I HAVE to create a space that is conducive for me to work in and that means, curtains drawn during the day and just a night desk lamp on during the night.
I have not turned on the ceiling lights in my room in 4 days and I absolutely love it!
Me too. I think it is because when I wake up, I am going to have to be dealing with my kids and work and chores and all the other hard stuff in life. At night, the family is all asleep and I am doing fun stuff I want to do for myself.
moekay · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look into delayed sleep phase disorder. I’ve had it my whole life.
It was my diet, lack of adequate water intake and a tiny (I mean tiny, im fairly lazy) bit of exercise daily & lack of body produced melatonin that all added up to equal no sleep.
Got melatonin tabs from docs, one a night 15 mins before I get fully settled.
Plenty of water, only one coffee in the morning.
Added fruit to my diet, instead of a chocolate bar I'll have a Clementine or similar - I still eat chocolate, just not snacking on it, especially late at night! If you feel hungry, you're probably needing water not food unless you feel weak, tummy rumbles etc..
More hearty meals, brown rice, lots of veg or salads, fish, red meats. You can substitute whatever here, it's just what I like, Quorn is fine along with fresh mushrooms etc for the vegans/veggies.
Brisk walk of the dogs in the evening, about 20 mins.
I literally lived off shop sandwiches, frozen food, takeout, crisps, chocolate, coffee, occasionally a fruit juice. I wasn't overweight, just body wasn't getting what it needs.
I still drop a pizza or McDonalds but I don't do it daily, prob once a week.
Took about 18 days for everything to settle but can take months so it's not an overnight change you notice. You'll still get those occasional nights where you don't sleep, that's completely normal, it happens.
No, that's not my problerem. I don't really exercise but my job is physically demanding. And when it comes to diet I don't really enjoy junk food, love fruit and healthy stuff, quit caffeine a long time ago. Don't know man, I'm just weird.
I tried melatonin. Didn't do much for me. I always had a problem with falling asleep and getting up in the morning, since i was a little kid. These days I blame shift work for it as i work nights so that messes up my sleep pattern. But then again my brother has and always had the same problem too and he never did shift work so it must be something else.
Ahhh, you need to speak to your gp. You need a bedtime routine you can do every time you need to go sleep, I'd also try getting a new pillow and just one pillow for sleeping, that aided me a little.
I did shifts several years ago and I had no end of sleep issues! My partner is the same now, she's on shift work inc nights and her sleep is a mess.
I feel like maybe I'm the odd one in this thread. I don't get how people hate going to sleep. I LOVE going to bed. I don't like getting up before my body wants to on its own, like when the alarm goes off, but I don't mind getting up.
In fact, I like going to sleep so much, I will nap a couple of times a day if I get the chance. I fucking love sleep. But it does fee less like I want to sleep because I like sleeping but more because I just always feel tired.
This is a much more direct way of saying what I tried to say. This is especially apparent in small children. They HATE having to take a bath, but once they are in they do not want to get out.
They basically believe that through an intense form of meditation and imagination you can manifest things into your life whether it be a relationship or a change of life direction.
Its really just like confirmation bias though. Really wishing for something to happen, actively trying to make it happen, and then when it does happen going "Oh that happened because I meditated on it."
I think for me the problem is that I feel like there's always something else I could be doing that would be better. Productive or not there's something else I could do instead of shower.
Was there something you did to help you overcome it? I'd love to not hate getting in the shower.
Jsc_TG · 5 points · Posted at 04:58:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure I just hit a point. #1 No one tells me to shower. #2 I like to shower every day or every other day. Staying clean and hygienic is very good. I can not stand being dirty anymore. Right now I feel my skin is grimy and I want to shower. I’m not gonna yet but I will later when I get the chance.
That’s the other thing. Set aside the time. Then find the time to warm up the shower for a minute or so depending on the shower and get in when it’s comfy temperature.
The issue is likely to be similar to the concept of inertia. An object in motion stays in motion. An object not in motion stays not in motion. An outside force is usually needed to change it. So, you just have to overcome your own “inertia”.
I do too, I used to be beaten by my brother until I did shower tho so that's why u hate it, and getting out was just me having to go out and hin being all, see wasnt bad you retard why you make me choke you out and punch your head repeatedly, like fuck you and dont wonder why you have noone in your life who actully likes you besides your mom
Not really, but I dont live with any of them anymore, still have to deal with them tho, i got it better then some but worst them most.
Thanks for asking tho, it really does mean alot,
Not yet, I just turned 18 and dont have a license yet, another way to control me and I wont do it and have her buy me a car and try to use that to control Me, plus I just lost my job due as a cook so no more money besides unemployment, was filed as a dependent so no extra for me, but it's not all bad, only living with my mom and 1 other brother so toxicity is at a minimum,plus I refuse to get dragged into it, I wont sit there and fight or argue, I'll say what i have to say in a calm manner and then stop engaging it and take the 1.5 min of extreme verbal abuse or manipulation and then go do my thing and go over it in my head so I never forget or let them ignore it or the effects it has had on me,
I'm very glad you can see through their attempts to control you and are actively making an effort to thrive as an individual. Please dont let them get to you, stay who you are and when you are physically or financially able to, cut them from your life. Stay strong, and wash your hands.
Lmao, thanks for that, love the hand washing advice, wish the people in my house didnt try to control me with this lockdown while ot doing a thing themselfs and try to blame me for everthing
also I hear that cold showers are better for you, but I feel like I'm getting more clean when I take a warm shower, so if I remember to I use cold water at the end to wash the soap and stuff off and hope that it has basically the same effect lmao
What I do after I rinse off is close the curtains all the way for about 1 minute to keep some heat in the shower, then grab my towel that I put on the shower rod and just dry in the shower. By the time I'm done the shower has cooled down to the temp outside it so no lame transition or dripping outside the shower.
Always towel dry while still standing in the shower. Just make sure I have a towel within reach when I get in. No reason to leave the floor a mess by standing there dripping everywhere afterwards.
When I lived in a condo the hot water never ran out. You could run it 24 hours a day if you wanted. Took some long ass showers back then. Now in a house with kids and the hot water is in short supply in the mornings.
Water draws heat. For ancient man, that could be seriously dangerous.
Once you find that it's hot water however, you get comfortable because that old instinct about not getting cold, shuts up.
Again, for ancient man, hot water usually stayed hot, there was no water heater, just a hot spring or something, so you want to stay in as long as possible to prevent heat loss.
Hey thanks! Glad I commented on this thread because I got to chat with a bunch of people and get a nice karma boost. I'll gladly accept you into my regiment because you indirectly taught me what the concept of Onism was.
I WAS WONDERING WHEN SOMEONE WOULD MENTION SOMETHING ABOUT MY USERNAME.
Sorry, just a bit excited to have that acknowledged. It really resonated with me when I first learned about it, and I'm sure many other people have a similar feeling.
And yea I was surprised that my comment got so much traction, never had this much of attention.
I love looking at usernames to find little gems to aid my quest of "gitting gud" at life. Also I love when people notice my name, it's fun. I've always given a lot of thoughts to random things and this concept was one of them, I first thought about it after talking to a friend over Skype who said he'd never seen an ocean and asked me if they were really big. It's pretty cool to experience
There's nothing worse than the hot water running out. Hate getting in the shower but once I'm in I'm committed.. for as long as the hot water lasts.
A legitimate goal of mine is to build a house with a custom shower that has shower heads coming from all different angles with a tankless gas water heater than can do over 3.5gpm at 102f.
Then I can finally sit in the shower for 5 hours like I've always wanted to.
Hot tubs are cool but showers are better imo, you overheat easily in hot tubs and it doesn't feel as good if the water isn't hitting you.
My dream shower head has no nozzles that shoot out in random directions or lose pressure (never seen in my life lmao) and can move around in 3 dimensions like if I want it above me I can move it there, if I want it to shoot from the side I'll move it down, or left, or right. Also the bottom of the shower needs something to delete or ignore hair.
I hate it too. That's why I don't shower unless I stink really bad. I just showered after 7 days of laying in bed. This isn't because of quarantine...I'm just extremely depressed.
Hey I cant say everything will get better with time, because not everything will unfortunately. But if you ever need to vent, need to cry, need advice, or even if you just need a place to bitch about something, please let me know and I'll be here for you. Stay healthy and wash your hands.
I think part of it for me was not wanting to be an expense for my family. I always felt like I owed my family and thus would save costs by not showering, eating out, charging devices elsewhere, etc. It's a bad habit and I'm working on breaking it.
Man I have this with so many things in life, but not showering, I'll take a 30 min shower every time because I'm the only one who showers at night. It's not necessarily a bad habit for everything though, it probably helps with saving money because you dont buty things that arent needed. That being said buy things you can afford to enjoy, and wash your hands. You are no burden.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried cold showers? It's a game changer!!!!
I've heard people take cold showers and seem to enjoy it, but it's just so cold lol. What does it change?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words cannot capture its beautiful simplicity but I'll try.
Start by adding cold at the end of a warm shower. Increase time to the point the anxiety evaporates. Then go ALL IN! Focus on your breathing. Have you heard of Wim Hof?!?
It changes everything. Its all about getting outside your comfort zone! It will wake you up in a way you've never experienced before.
It's just water! It's not going to hurt you. When you start to think about it like that you'll realize how silly it is not to try. IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD. Once you conquer your fear you'll realize that everything else is in your head as well. ALL IS MENTAL. The simple act of a cold shower sets off a chain reaction of seemingly automatic self improvement. Patience and persistence is key.
I hope u know its physics, unless u live somewhere else other than u.s then it might be phisics
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I live on europe and english aint my main language, tbh idk why at that time i though was with i, but ye ik its with y mb...
Also ty, usually when ppl correct my typos of mistakes come with quite a few insults, i think this is the first time i was able to answer to a correction in a nice way
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My bigot alert is going of the radar right now. Hmm, I wonder why.
Funny, I have called this phenomenon “sleep inertia” for years. I think it is similar. Your conscious brain just tends to want to keep doing conscious shit (remaining in motion) when it really needs to shut down and hand it off to the unconscious dream-world side of your brain so it can enter a rest state. The reverse happens in the morning when your unconscious dream-world brain wants to keep the conscious system shut down (at rest) so it can keep partying, but it really needs to reboot your conscious brain so you can get shit done.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:50:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just mention relativity and it all makes sense. Going to sleep and waking up involve two separate states of mind
Actually there are some scientists who believe the conscious, at least in some ways, exists due to quantum entanglement. So sleeping IS actually physics. Which makes your analogy even better.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father always said I suffered from inertia. I was born 3 weeks late. I never want to go to bed. I never want to get up. I procrastinate way too much., and when I finally get started on something, I don’t want to stop.
I hate it because sleeping signifies the end of my day and thus the fact that I will eventually have to be responsible again after my spring break ends. I hate waking up because I have to force myself to do things to feel productive because if I don’t I will hate myself for not doing anything.
I just wish I had the ability to let time continue without progressing.
[deleted] · 50 points · Posted at 21:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, people say that an eternity would be boring. But I'd be fine with an eternity where no one had to stress or worry about food, finances, diseases, or crime. I'd happily spend my days taking naps, going on long walks, and playing with friends. That sounds like the sort of life worth living.
koloup · 13 points · Posted at 21:23:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say that, but a Life of eternity would mean out living the death of the universe and spending most of infinity alone and in darkness
Edit: a word
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 21:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah if we are fantasizing about eternity it would include others outside of the visible world of heat death. Maybe we watch as the universe collapses in on itself and a new big bang happens.
I think this is definitely part of it. I also feel like there's something else, some other reasons. Or maybe that's all it is and I'm just making it more complicated than it needs to be
We hate going to sleep because we like to put off whatever work or other things you don't like having to go through the next day for as long as possible. We hate waking up because that means we have to get started and we're usually still very tired
That is actually a really interesting way to put that into perspective and a mindset that could apply to other mundane things. Thank you Lulu_Lannister 😊
I finally realized why that is: all my free time happens at the end of the day. I wake up, and it’s time to get ready for work. After work, it’s cooking and cleaning and tending to my kid. Every moment dictated by responsibility. At the end of the day, it’s all taken care of, and I can finally relax, pursue an interest, or socialize.
It’s not the beginning or ending of sleep that I resist. That’s incidental. What I resist is the return to responsibility every day.
Humans generally like being awake late because of the quiet. Not just of the night, but also because you don’t get phone calls and texts from people late at night, and if you do you have an excuse to ignore it.
You may have OCD/ADD/ADHD, which works with the depression you used to feel.
I'm only saying that because apparently it's common in people with disorders like that to actively hate sleeping but also getting up.
I'm technically diagnosed with ADHD from childhood, but the person who diagnosed me also lost their license to practice a few months later and the entire firm was closed down, so I'm not really sure. They never prescribed me medications? Idfk
What I do know for sure is that when it comes to sleeping, I am my own worst enemy. My brain conjures up fantastical stories that I monologue to myself, I see something on whatever streaming service I'm on at the time, I remember something I did in a video game and I expand on that, I suddenly realize how much my girlfriend means to me which is somehow more than it was 4 seconds ago and if I don't Express this to her at the time she'd be waking up because HER sleep schedule is just as fucked as mine then she'll never understand what I feel even though she does and she hates when I do that but says it's okay because it's nice to go back to sleep with that thought, I suddenly feel like cleaning my room, I need to tell some member of my family that I miss them because apparently I'm a bad relative and don't speak to this person enough even though I have a group chat that's active fuckin daily.
The only thing that stops the nightly crazy train for me is weed. I dislike smoking during the day because I get super photosensitive and the sun becomes my enemy, but smoking at night helps me sleep and keep a fairly consistent sleep schedule.
I wouldn't suggest that until you have a somewhat decent job that doesn't randomly piss test, or if it's horribly illegal like it is in some places in the world, but that's honestly what works best for me.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:15:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate going to sleep, because I know I’m going to wake up
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Ahefp · 6 points · Posted at 03:07:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You and I might be made for a planet with a longer day. I naturally want to stay up for long periods of time (20 hours or so) and sleep for long periods of time (11-12 hours). If I lived on a planet with a 31-hour day, everything would be normal. Perhaps our descendants will feel great when they live on another planet!
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause you hate your daily routine and the limits it imposes on you. Being forced to leave your bed means you have to give up its comfort because you're forced to be somewhere. Going to bed represent skipping straight to that moment.
You probably don't hate going to bed or waking up when there isn't an obligation forcing you to do either.
A1BS · 6 points · Posted at 22:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Likely nighttime is the only time you have to yourself. You hate going to sleep because its the end of your own time and you hate waking up because it's the start of your working time.
I have ALWAYS had this problem UNTIL this lockdown. I realize that I enjoy staying up because i typically have know obligations at night and enjoy doing whatever I want and I didn't like waking up to face daily social obligations. I now go to bed by 11, get up by 530, 6, even on the weekends for the most part and i'm so much more productive....in lockdown. It's crazy really.
I've been there. What changed it for me was to come up with a "nightly" activity to do before my day begins.
My "nightly" activity used to be surfing the web. Just pure mindless pleasure, often acopanied by drink and food.
I do that in the morning now. Instead of waking up at 7. I aim to wake up at 6 and spend 1h doing the thing I would do at night instead. Have a beverage some food and surf the web. This way i go to sleep early as i have a positive thing to look forward to and i wake up more eagerly to do it.
Glad it works for you but my goodness this sounds depressing to me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:38:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can relate. If you haven't already you should try Magnesium Glycinate and L-Theanine. I get the Doctors Best (100mg) version of magnesium and L-Theanine (500mg) by Bulk Supplements, both from Amazon. A journal to give your thoughts to is also a big help. Ashwagandha is another great one. All 3 are natural and non habit forming. I usually take only melatonin (20mg quick dissolve) but will take all 3 listed above if I got alot on my mind or I had too much caffeine that day. You should check out /r/sleep.
Probably will get buried but 2 things from a person who’s had sleep problems most of their life.
Sleep With Me podcast. It’s a podcast that’s made specifically to put you to sleep. It sounds weird as an idea but if you are willing, give it a try for a few nights. If nothing else, you’ll hear some mildly entertaining stories.
Look into CBT-I (cognitive behaviour therapy for insomnia). If you can’t afford an actual therapist there is a good book on it -
End the Insomnia Struggle: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Get to Sleep and Stay Asleep by Colleen Ehrnstrom and Alisha L. Brosse.
I used to absolutely hate going to sleep. In fact, it was pretty much anxiety for me come sleep time because I was dreading it so much. To it got to the point that I just wouldn’t go to sleep until sunrise. And this started when I was still a kid so going to school was torture. And going to work as an adult has also been torture.
In my case, I get really bad night terrors combined with sleepwalking (waking up screaming while banging on my window glass trying to break it so that I could get out. I used to live on the 4th floor, btw). And I also suffer from restless legs syndrome. Both these things combined made it enough for me to hate/dread going to sleep.
But the two things mentioned above have made a huge difference in my life. I still suffer from both nightmares and restless legs though I’ve managed to lessen their severity with some lifestyle changes. But at least I don’t dread going to sleep now and most nights I manage to get to bed and fall asleep at reasonable hour without having any negative thinking about sleep. Still hate waking up though :D
Honestly, I wish I could just not sleep and still function normally. I could get so much more done and have so much more time to enjoy. Or even just sleep like 2 or 3 hours and still be fine. Sleep really does feel like a waste of time
Maybe, like some of us, you are a night person. I found that I'm far happier going to sleep and waking up when I am up at night and sleep in the daytime.
Sounds like it could be ADHD and depression can be comorbid. Sleep issues and a fellow redditor’s comment got me to look into it and I was like, well shit, this describes my whole life. Saw my GP, referred to a specialist and started Adderall and my sleep has changed drastically. I often wake up refreshed and rarely have insomnia anymore. Before it was a family joke how difficult I was in the mornings.
Ensec · 3 points · Posted at 06:35:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i hate going to sleep because i feel like i'm wasting the limited time i have in this life, literally laying around unconcious but god damn does that bed feel good when you wake up
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it's not that I can't sleep at all, I just have difficulty sleeping when I want. Maybe that's still classified as insomnia, idk. Are there different types of insomnia?
I hate sleeping... Period. I usually go to bed late and wake up early. Before a normal working day I get about 6 to 4 hours of sleep. I don't get how people can become so incapacitated by not sleeping.
I did not know how much I agreed with this until I read it.
Edit. Ok, now that I reread it, of course I wouldn't know how much I agree with something before I read it.
Have you tried getting off of caffeine? No joke, you will love going to sleep. The problem is you have to do it for about a week or 2, not just a few days.
The waking up part, all depends on how much sleep you got, after that.
I actually cut caffeine out of my diet for a different reason a few years ago. Kept getting insane migraines every day. No more caffeine, no more migraines.
While it's good advice in general, I'm afraid it doesn't apply to my situation, but I appreciate it
Today I woke up with a headache. I took some aspirin at like 10 am and it went away for a few hours. It came back with a vengeance around 3pm. I didn't know why. I tried drinking some caffeine. That was it. I felt like my head had an icepick in it... That scared me, and now I want to wean myself off, but the fear that is motivating is also probably what's going to stop me from trying lol
There are 3 factors that plays a role, when it comes to getting up in the morning:
The amount of sunlight:
When it's light out, your "inner clock" knows that it's time to wake up, hence naturally making it feel easier.
Your sleep cycle.
Something tells me, that when you wake up at 7, it's due to an alarm clock next to your bed. When we sleep, we follow sleep cycles. This is a huge subject, and you can do some reading on it if you're interrested. To make it short; there are usually a timespan of 30 minutes in the morning, where it's much easier for you to leave your sleep than others. When you wake up at 9, it's ikely that you just came naturally out of your sleep.
The mere phsycological effect of having to get up early.
For many people, it's hard to get up early, for the simple fact that it's just early. Nothing to do about this, unless you can learn how to be excited to wake up early. :)
This was me when I was depressed. I didn't want tomorrow to come, so I'd stay awake as long as possible. Then waking up was just the realization that I had to do it all over again.
There are several reasons for me. But main one why I don’t want to sleep is that I have sleep apnea. Sleep is usually not as pleasurable it can be. And I had good night sleeps so I know. Body and mind might be reacting to me saying ‘no, I don’t want to go through that, right now’. I had to come to terms with this. And I try to make sleep more relaxing and fun. I try to make the bed to make it more inviting looking, for example.
Usually when I hate going to sleep it’s because I’m not looking forward to what needs to be done the next day. It’s usually the same reason I don’t want to get up the next morning as well.
I hate going to bed. Cant get comfortable, get itchy, its too cold, its too hot, etc. but in the morning the only thing I want to do is stay in that warm beautiful bed.
wilxp · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edit: I know people hate edits but I didn't think this would murder my inbox and I don't have time to reply to every single person. So...
Maybe it's your frame of mind? You used words "hate" and "murder" to describe something which typically would invoke neither of those descriptors. Idk but I do know self talk is a powerful thing...
I've tried so many things, like pills, exercise, reading before bed, forcing myself to sleep... I've only found that weed works wonders for me, but it's illegal in my country so uhm, yeah.
I have no idea how to be able to fall asleep at a reasonable time.
Oh Lordy I feel your pain. I was the same way for years!!! I will not tell you mow many sleeping pills I was taking a night! It was definitely unhealthy and could have been deadly! Instead I had a stroke a year ago!!! I don’t think it was from the sleeping pills but I can’t untether how the stress of sleeping may have played a part!!! YeRs AFO I bought a book on sleeping techniques and thst helped me to learn some new tricks. And no, I don’t know the name of it. I’ll see if I can find it on amazon or something.
I feel for you and hope you find some tricks thst eork! I no longer dread sleeping and haven’t for a while. I look forward to it now!!!
AWWOR2 · 2 points · Posted at 00:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only feel tired enough to go to bed right after i wake up
I mean... there are people who keep trying to communicate with the dead. Or sending letters to the wrong address for 20 years. Or worse. I don't think zero response is going to necessarily stop that kind of mindset.
I absolutely guarantee if nobody ever received a response to a picture again, the practice would stop overnight.
Noooo, I'm pretty sure people will still do it. Not just the desperate hostile creeps trying to get into your pants. But some exhibitionist type folks get off knowing someone saw it without the viewer's consent or saw it when they didn't want to.
Absolutely. Some people are "thrilled" by the fact that once it's in your head, you can't get it out. It's a psychological thing, an internal power dynamic.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 04:41:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no way you can tell me that that is not sexual...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
These people probably think it would be nice if some girl sent them an unsolicited pic of her tits. Therefore, it stands to reason that the girl would love to out of the blue, get a pic of his manky junk, right?!
I think it’s about power. Kind of like how they say rape is about power not about sex. They forced you to see their dick/experience something they considered sexual. You had no choice, no say, no control. They had all the power in that situation and I think subconsciously they desperately need that feeling of power. They can’t make someone sleep with them, or love them, or even pay attention to them. They are totally with out control, but if they send that nude they now feel in control.
There should be an option to not be able to receive photos from a person, just like there’s an option to hide alerts from a person. That way you don’t have to see anything unless you give permission to be able to see stuff
Absolutely agree. It's not (necessarily) about the sexual element or even the chance at getting a pic in return. A lot of people are simply thrilled by the idea that they've imprinted themselves irreversibly into another person's head, like an emotional/psychological power play. A lot of it stems from insecurity, I guess
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 00:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I doubt people sending dic pics are being that deeply cognizant. I think they think it's fine to do, and if it gets a good reaction once, then it's worth sending a thousand of them.
It's okay to have a fetish, a lot of people do. The only time I have a problem with it is when one brings it into the lives of others without being asked to and without consent. Because that's not "having a fetish", that's "forcing one's priorities into the faces of people who don't need that shit"
butsuon · 6 points · Posted at 00:38:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If I don't show them my aroused genitalia, how will they know I like them?
I’m interested in this and if the Reddits will excuse my sexism Inherent in the question: how often do women send unsolicited nudes? I may be ignorant to the voyeur smartphone rage, but in my limited experience and knowledge woman aren’t randomly sending bat flap snaps or even surprise titties. Please advise.
I had a problem with a girl that would send me nudes all the time even when I told her to stop and to fuck off. I wasn’t interested and it’d just be randomly throughout the day. It was aggravating
Luuce98 · 24 points · Posted at 22:24:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boobs are not equivalent to dicks. And I have never thought of sending a vagina pic nor have I heard of any woman doing so. It is majorly a dick problem, I think, both the dick being sent and the one sending it.
jcdoe · 16 points · Posted at 23:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the pic is unsolicited and unwanted, boobs and dicks are absolutely equivalent.
Luuce98 · 10 points · Posted at 23:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, you’re right, I’m sorry. Just that the ”ooh sexy” concept society has of boobs may change the reaction when we’re talking hypothetically, y’know? That’s what I meant but you’re 100% right
I get where you're coming from. It's sad that society as a whole takes it less seriously when women send them because "B-but boys LIKE boobs!"
That doesn't make it okay. Someone has forced pics onto someone who didn't give consent. Who cares what they're attracted to or not attracted to? Who cares what their sexuality is? It doesn't make it okay.
Of course I agree with you, I was just saying that to talk hypothetically about receiving a pic if we make the example boobs instead of vaginas, because of the (wrong, I get it) ideas that tits are harmless or that all men want to see them always, it is not well shown to “the other aisle” how weird it is to get a el random dick pic. No harm intended, and by no means am I implying boob pics are harmless or less awful than dick or vag pics, just that they are not seen as such so I made a different choice with my example because of it.
I get it, I was agreeing with you (sorry if my wording was misleading - I was trying to side with you). If it's not been asked for and if it's the case that at least one party is uncomfortable with it, it shouldn't be okay.
Honestly, it's my my fault. I used "you" in the general sense, not in a specific way, so I can see why you thought I was targeting you. Should have used "someone", my bad. Changed now :)
I found, as a woman, that younger women have tended to send more unsolicited either nudity or masturbation videos. Sometimes they'll preface it like, "You wanna see?" But they don't always wait for a response. Women who have grown up a bit more are less likely. Men don't seem to have an age range, I've seen a lot of unsolicited penis.
I’ve only done it once and I immediately regretted it. He was fine with it. But normally I send a heads up asking if now is a good time for one or not.
Now I do occasionally send pictures of my fully clothed body parts without asking. They’re provocative, but not NSFW. Wait, even then there’s normally a “my cleavage looks amazing, wanna see?” Initial message.
But I’ve received unsolicited pics from men and women. Mostly men. Which honestly I think comes down to accessibility. It’s hard to get the angles right on a vagina pic. Dicks, it seems are usually just whipped out and taken at the weirdest angle.
I'm not sure it's quite comparable to rape, but I get where you're coming from. The whole idea of "power play" is similar to what rape victims face/have faced so you're right that people who do this shit should face the consequences
I'd say it's more comparable to sexual harassment than sexual assault/rape. Of course, in lots of sexual harassment instances there is a power dynamic.
Like some poor hapless person is just gonna be like "hey nice cock bro, here's a million pounds" or some shit?
Some guys send thousands of dollars to girls on the internet, or even fulfil some of their Amazon wish list requests. Don’t underestimate how lonely and desperate some people are.
Yeah, when that's been specifically arranged, or when the receiver actually WANTS the pictures. Nobody is gonna pay for something they didn't ask for or didn't want, though.
Some unwanted, unsolicited picture of a floppy "last chicken in the shop look" custard-shotgun just ain't about to reach that level
Some people wouldn't just be not bothered if they got an unsolicited nude, they'd be happy. For them, even if they didn't want to see one, they'd just delete it and not think about it again. There are a lot more people like that than you might think.
It's also a numbers game, just like catcalling. It may not work 99% of the time, but if it works just once, it's worth it for them, even if the other 99% of the time, people are just getting caught in the crossfire.
I get that some might be pleased with it (no ill-will against them). But the idea that someone MIGHT enjoy it is NEVER an excuse to send one unsolicited.
Yeah my favorite way to respond to unsolicited dick pics is with a “wowee” or “neato” because I don’t know what else men want from me. They do seem to be quite proud of their peeners though, so good for them. Lol.
Not religious myself, but I do happen to subscribe to the idea that wisdom doesn't rely on who said it and can come from anywhere, so I appreciate your comment! :)
You're viewing it from the sender's POV and not the receiver's. Not unreasonable, but it's important to place the experience of the person who had to receive that rather than the one who sent it
As a dude who received one from a female before. It was a nice surprise. I can’t imagine it would have been appreciated if it were the other way around.
Mmm. Still poor form on her part (in my opinion, not judging you or anything). It should be taken just as seriously when it happens to men, even if naked pictures are seen to be something to "enjoy"
if you don't get one soon i'm going to have to step up. edit: There really needs to be a reddit sub for this, where you put someones reddit name in and then everyone sends them dick pics.
I used to share nudes on reddit because I wanted to see if others thought of my body as horribly as I thought about it. Than I saw the compliments or criticisms or I scrolled on the subreddit that I shared it in of other people who had other bodies like me and I realized my body isn’t as “abnormal” as I thought it was.
People have lots of different reasons. When I was younger it was due to thinking girls thought the same way as guys; if I sent a nude I’d probably receive one since that was my goal
Yeah, it's interesting from a psychological point of view, to be honest. I suppose that's a form of selection bias - thinking everyone is wired the same way. A lot of people struggle with that, but the fact that you can look back on that and see it as wrong really shows how you've grown as a person.
Yeah, I never did that as a young teenager, but I had some buddies who did it and we all had that thought process. Granted, we had all barely talked to girls outside of our families and for school purposes, and we understood that our mindset was wrong as we had more experience with girls.
Although it blows my mind, surely it must work sometimes? Like 60% of the time it works every time? Surely there must be some sort of 'strike rate' otherwise why would they continue?
I mean... maybe? If that kind of thing is specifically organised, like a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" thing, then yeah, maybe. I get what you're saying.
But beyond that, I can't see how sending an unasked-for pic of one's wrinkly corned-beef tornado to some poor unsuspecting gal would come to any kind of sexy fruition. "Ooh, he's sent me an unwanted, unsolicited picture of something I'm not comfortable talking about or seeing! Mm, what a gentleman"
That's the reaction I fully expect and often see on Twitter and the like, but if it doesn't work, and that's the reaction they get, why would they continue?
God knows. The mental gymnastics some of these people perform are genuinely beyond belief. What's also crazy is when someone calls them out on it and then the sender insults the receiver. E.g. "lol frigid" and the like. Honestly...
It does, and I imagine the success rate is vanishingly low... But for every 100 articles, Twitter posts, and blogger outrage... there's one lonely and desperate person who responds with, "Haha, you're so crazy!"
And then... he's in. It was all "worth it"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gosh, that doesn't sound like much fun! I get that a lot of people allow their identity or sense of self to hinge on the perception of others and that many value their worth on how the people around them react or respond, so that's an interesting take. Thanks for chipping in :)
iujohn3 · 42247 points · Posted at 14:48:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many fucking terrible commercials make it to TV. When I see a dumb commercial, my thought is always the same:
A group of grown ass people sat around a table somewhere and discussed how they want to promote their brand. They came up with an entire marketing strategy, probably had a vote about it, and sent approval on to the marketing department/company for production. That marketing department created, scripted, filmed, and produced that piece of shit commercial. Then they sent it back to the group of grown ass people, who sat around the same table watching the shitty commercial before agreeing that it's sending the exact message they want about their brand. They likely then vote again to approve running it on TV. A huge budget is approved for putting that dumb ass commercial out there, and the result is the piece of crap I just saw on TV.
I work in an agency similar to the one you describe...
We just did a rebrand and the guy in change if creating our promotional video made absolute shit... But the problem is nobody could argue with him cause he's the director of design in our company and happens to be the ceo's best friend. So we ended up having to post this piece of ass video that those two thought were really good... It's just because they're so far up each others asses (and their own) that they believe everything they make is gold.
This is the real answer here. As someone who has also made piece of shit commercials, we know it’s shit, but someone higher than us up the client chain has a “vision” and it’s our dumb job to make that vision happen. I’ve had clients insist on using their family members as actors, when said family clearly couldn’t act. Or they have a catch phrase that is just absolutely cringeworthy. Or they’ve got dreams worth millions but a budget of 2K, and expect you to figure out how to make it happen.
Then we sit around and look at the garbage we made and say “well... this is what they asked for.”
Yep yep. And what may have started out as a brilliant creative approach got mutilated into horseshit by the time it ran the wringer of stakeholder approvals (internal and client side)
It would take balls but the agency can refuse the stupid idea they're forced to produce for the sake of integrity. Not sure if this ever happens though.
I’m in software rather than marketing but I have seen people refuse to take on projects because they could see they were doomed for failure or disagreed with them morally. In both cases they didn’t want the project to be associated with them or their firm. This does require that you be in a position that you can afford to turn down the revenue that would come with the project and potentially any others that might come from the client in the future.
I'm also in software and for the first half of my career, i wouldn't have stood up to anyone for things like that, so I understand...
But today I will tell anyone, regardless of rank, what i need to. And refuse work if I have an ethical issue with it.
In other words I'm sure stuff does get rejected, but don't expect most of the people starting out or even a few years into their career to be the ones to stand up to the CEOs and tell them it's a dumb idea and here's why.
I'm finally at a point at my job where just saying "I'll explain to you how to do that if you really want to, but I don't want my name associated with that project at all" is enough to convince people to drop the project. Still underpaid, but I guess at least there's respect
Theoretically sure. And a good client will see their agency as the creative experts and know that when the agency pushes back, their input comes from a wealth of skill and experience.
But guess which one we get more of - good clients or the “do it my way” types?
Normally what happens is the agency completes the current contract and then they GTFO. This applies to basically any kind of agency work, not just ads. Breaking contracts will cost a fuckton in penalties and/or legal fees. Better to get the shit out of the way and then don't renew.
Except when "dumb" is actually genius. People are so desensitized, nobody pays attention to commercials any more... Except when it's a really bad one. Then it bugs you every time you watch it and you tell everyone "hey, look at this, it's so dumb" and everyone starts noticing it. You think the whole marketing process has failed but the next time your clothes are wrinkled, somehow you know you have to get Bounce dryer sheets and nothing else would do.
This is true for so many things too, especially in the corporate world.
For instance, I’m in charge of design - web design, logo & branding, marketing content, etc. at my job. I keep up with the latest design trends and new concepts in form and functionality, etc. I don’t change things too much when I have to make changes because obviously branding, brand awareness, consistency, etc. are important too. My boss, by his own admission, knows nothing about design. Honestly, he might as well be blind. Because if he tries to come up with something, you would think, ‘gah did a blind person make this?!’ That’s how bad it is.
So it happens like this: I design something that’s modern, responsive, and utilizes fresh, new ideas and concepts. It’ll look really good, and it’ll be relevant. Obviously I’m biased to my own work, but generally, my coworkers really like it. Not always, but a large majority of the time. Our clients also like it and I commissioned the first design project we ever sold to a client (we’re an IT firm), which was a result of my work. I’ve also redesigned many clients’ logos, after they saw my work and requested that I redesign their stuff. Anyways, then, I send it to my boss for him to post. He proceeds to not use what I sent him, grab some jpg from 1996 - one that’s 250x180 but, being the totally design savvy guy he is, he blows it up to 1920x1080, then he uses THAT image where you can actually count the individual pixels by hand, instead of what I sent him because ‘business isn’t about being pretty and artsy. It should be plain and simple. Just give people what they need without all the frilly bullshit.’
Like, you know my design aesthetic. Why do you have me do this work; work that takes days to complete, if you’re just gonna go with some BS low-res (more like no-res) image that you pulled from google?? And yet, he does this without fail all the time. I know when he tells me to make something that he’s going to do this. Nonetheless, I have to do it because ‘it’s my job.’ I have wasted weeks on end just from this shit. That’s not even including all the redesigns I had to do because his mind changes by the hour. I redesigned our site 12 times for a single project! Did the work, presented it, got his feedback, made the changes he wanted, presented the edited version, and he would then hate the edits that he asked me to make. I record our meetings and [try to] hold him accountable but he doesn’t care. He’s like the personification of r/trumpcriticizestrump. Once it was considered finished, it was essentially the exact fucking site i designed initially.
Ugh that sucks, I’m so sorry. Don’t you love when your thoughtful, modern concepts get passed over for some Bosch-esque clip art hellscape? Truly the best.
Going through this right now with a client. No matter how much we advise against their direction they push for us to make it as they pictured it. It’s infuriating that they are that closed minded.
Advertising might seem awful but like all that shit TV and music that's so popular it's very finely and expertly judged. When that much money is at stake, they know what they doing. Most people aren't too bright and it's normally aimed at them as the largest target group.
“When that much money is at stake, they know what they doing.”
Individually, sure, they’re smart marketers. But decision-by-committee is almost guaranteed to be the death of any good creative idea. Like you said - they’re targeting the lowest common denominator, which usually means they aren’t willing to take any risks or give much credit to the audience’s intelligence.
Advertising works just as well, if not better, than people who think they're too smart for it. I mean, it even works on people who work in the industry.
I think in this situation it's that it wasn't a brilliant approach to begin with, but it was the guy in charge's idea and he was full of himself.
It's pretty easy to find people like this, they believe they have a higher position than you because they are better than you, so confronting them about it is impossible, as they take it as an affront to their position rather than an attempt to help or contribute.
On the contrary, good managers and directors create the environment to bring the best ideas out, understand them and then really motivate people to apply them.
This. And you can replace "commercials" with any product or service. Thing is, everyone thinks they are the next Steve Jobs or Elon Musk, and probability wise, they are not.
yobyshy · 31 points · Posted at 20:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man, I work in production and I can't count the number of times I've sighed and said, "well this is what they asked for."
Like when 13 people show up to set randomly that are a mix of client and agency, and end up tacking on 2 hours to a day cause they don’t like the color of the actor’s sweater.... even tho it’s a shot of their feet....
This is part of the answer, but the bigger truth is sometimes these "bad" commercials are designed a certain way. And while they appear trite to some, they do exceptionally well in connecting with their target audiences.
One example I can think of is GM's "real consumer" commercials. I personally hate these. I feel they undermine the intelligence of their customers. They are tacky and banal. But. They fucking CRUSH. They are crafted with surgical precision, and work. That's why they have astronomical media budgets.
Charmin. I'm fucking tired of those stupid, ass-obsessed bears. I don't let toilet paper control my fucking life. Their entire world revolves around toilet paper. I get that they are in a commercial, but ass-inspection? Really? That is a little too far. They pause football games to inspect asses. One commercial has them ready to change vacation plans over toilet paper. And speaking of traveling bears, one commercial features a TSA bear inspecting another's ass before boarding a plane. Even going so far as to commend the bear on packing Charmin ("You're cleaner than I thought," says the agent). Ass-inspection in the Charmin bear universe is so commonplace that it is enforced as a security measure.
Here a bear is chasing a cub around with a dustpan to collect used toilet paper stuck to the cub's ass. The narrator says, "You'll never pass inspection with pieces left behind." Is Charmin trying to push an ass-inspection agenda? I hope to never have to endure a toilet paper inspection, let alone be subjected to it every time I use the restroom. Here a cub is literally doing gymnastics to make sure he doesn't fail his ass-inspection but to no avail. These bears are relentless. They will scrutinize each other's asses at any given opportunity. Even in print, they resort to using a vacuum cleaner to clean other bears asses.
Look at this commercial, a mother and cub looking at "the Moon". In any sane family, that would be the satellite that orbits the Earth. Unfortunately, this is Charmin Bear world, where it not only means the cosmic body, but the body of their fellow bear. They are literally using a telescope to inspect the ass of another bear sitting in a tree.
These bears are so incredibly self-centered too. All they care about is toilet paper. In this commercial the cub drains an entire lake so he wouldn't have to fish. Of course, he uses the toilet paper in the tackle box because these bears don't go anywhere without a fucking roll of toilet paper. It doesn't even make sense. Is Charmin advocating destroying an entire lake to catch all the fish? It seems a little misguided.
This commercial (video) features a bunch of cubs saying that Charmin is so good, you could wear your underwear "a second day". Mind you, all these cubs are naked! The commercial ends with one cubs saying to another, "You should try it Skids." Do these bears really make up nicknames based on the cleanliness of each other's asses? What kind of fucked up world is it where naked bears make fun of each other for ass appearance?
Especially the one where one bear says "what a great view" and the other sticks his bare bear ass in her face and says "thanks to Charmin". It's fucking weird. Fuck those bears. I will never buy Charmin as long as those bears are waving their asses at me.
they have a catch phrase that is just absolutely cringeworthy.
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
Wavara · 5 points · Posted at 23:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not from your country, I haven't seen the same tv shows as you, I haven't heard the same radio programs as you, and probably haven't played the same games as you
I hate some ads so much that I have to mute them when they come on. Things like unnecessary echoes put into tv show ads make the ads sound cheesy and irritating. And singing cheesy as fuck tunes that make people want to stab themselves.
God do I hate the word “vision” in the marketing industry. I’m in digital marketing and you just cannot argue with a clients vision no matter how stupid it sounds to the general public, especially their target audience lmao
It's a symptom best put forward as part of an argument that capitalism isn't democratic. It is too easy for someone to attain a position of unchecked authority and not just abuse power, but often make horrible decisions as far as the competitive market is concerned. The "invisible hand", doesn't actually affect them most of the time, especially if competition is stifled in a multitude of ways.
The reality is that capital holders can build castles and weather most storms, even those of their own making. It has lead to a host of the issues we are facing right now, not least of which include bad products and stupid marketing.
I make commercials too and basically I put the same amount of effort into my production that the client put into his/her thoughts on the script or concept.
I make videos for a living; and yes, often what is creative and good isn’t what the client wants in the slightest. I’ve spent hours making fancy titles, and then they ask if it can just be white text with a drop shadow moving slightly toward the camera.
Could have saved a good chunk of time knowing that in advance.
Yep! Or you’re in my position, supposedly the art director and should have the power to change the garbage into something useable but keep getting vetoed by the CEO because of his “vision”. Dude, your background is in engineering, let the creatives do their freaking jobs and trust that someone who studied marketing knows what needs to be done.
My favorite phrase is: I offer them gold, but they insist bronze is better.
Was the same in VFX. We had a studio pool for who could guess the closest rotten tomatoes score once the movie released, most guesses for most films we worked on were sub 40%.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a case of people not trusting their experts. It's like mini Trumps. Oh, I have this problem, I'll hire highly experienced people, explain the problem, explain my brilliant (read: completely wrong and obviously uneducated) solution and blame them when it doesn't work, because I'm the best at everything!
LoPath · 2 points · Posted at 03:20:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't help but think of the sketch from The Whitest Kids U Know where they're making an ad about a juice box. Dude goes chasing after kids yelling "I'm going to grape you in the mouth!" Everyone is in shock except for the guy giving the pitch.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's also not forget that some commercials are shit on purpose. They're not meant to make you like the product, just to stay in your memory. So that when you need the thing, you might think about their brand. Though I have a feeling that this kind of marketing is becoming less effective these days.
ecp001 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a policy of not buying anything from places that have commercials demonstrating the weakness of untrained voices and performers.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not everybody can be in charge, all you can do is the best products within the confines of what you have to work with.
You’re getting downvoted but you are mostly correct. Except this is my own business. That’s the service I provide, and that means compromising my own artistic visions to suit the clients needs.
And honestly most of the time people come to me for my artistry and we work together great. But maybe a quarter of the time what they want is just a mess. So long as they pay and are otherwise nice to work with, I’m fine with it.
BobT21 · 0 points · Posted at 20:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “HiPPO effect”: get a bunch of professionals working on a project only to have to add something stupid because a higher up decided he knows better. It’s the Highest Paid Person’s Opinion that messes everything up.
Every fuckin time. It’s disheartening, and arguing with the client - whether it’s a local coffee roaster or the senior marketing VP of Newell brands - puts us at risk. Or not every time: there are a couple brands I love working for because they love us and respect our work, but they’re rare and the HiPP doesn’t usually lead that department for more than a couple years, and their replacement always has some agency they’re trying to bring along with. We lost a HUGE retainer contract this year, despite a decade of award winning work that took the brand to the top of their segment, because someone wanted to prove themselves in their new position.
Same, I work as a graphic designer and am often directed to make things that I would reject if I were the one proofing it, or things that make me think "this message seems very tone-deaf".
If I bring this up, sometimes it will eventually reach management and they'll consider discussing it with the client, but usually it doesn't get that far and some garbage goes out because it's what was requested and approved.
I would like to second this as the correct answer. I have a friend who catapulted from a company he started in highschool to near billionaire status. Every idea he says must be gold, every joke must be hilarious, and too many leeches and brown nosers for him to tell the difference. To be clear his wealth status is after he sold his company, so all these ideas that suck are just about shit he doesn't know. The hubris is so bad he actually feels his body functions differently than lesser humans. So if you were wondering how someone like Steve Jobs can die trying stupid non-medical treatments...trust me it's brainwashing from yourself and no one to trust to be honest.
He decided to pick up music(to actually fund and produce himself). It is awful. He thinks it is great. I told him the truth, and he was pissed at me. I told him , okay sure, how come you have thousands of IG followers and get 20 likes on your dumbass posts. Maybe not the best metric, but any positive comment is from someone trying to suck money out your asshole. People love their echo rooms.
I legit worked for a narcissist that believed he didn't have to offer sick days because he never got sick, so if someone did, they must have something spiritually wrong with them. (Yes, that kind of narcissism)
Two days after I came back from a stomach bug, during which I was not paid, he comes down with the same and was out for a week. The day after he returned, someone else was out with it, and I had to listen to him on the phone telling her she needed to suck it up and come back to work, if he felt forgiving enough to let her.
Or sometimes it's all about the deadlines and cost. You paid however much money to get the commercial or other video content made, and then it comes back shit. But your deadline is in a week and there isn't enough time to redo the whole thing, let alone the cost of scraping the entire thing and paying all over again to make a new one.
Usually because of deadlines you have one shot to do these things and you take what you get.
That's a sad, strange, corporate human pretzel you're describing. Must be tremendously frustrating to deal with. Have you been there/expect to be there long?
This is the truth. Any creative work often can be driven to grarbage since the client or director has final say, and if they are unwilling to listen to the people they have hired then it’s gonna go badly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry that you have to work in a company where you can't respect your superiors. I would change that if I were in similar situation.
My husbands going through something similar in the music industry. The label head has zero fucking clue about how music works, he just agrees with these people they hire for various things that are “big” names. My husbands bands been going back and forth with him over this music video that looks like SHIT. They paid 100 grand on this thing, basically because the label ordered it, and this guy who done videos for people like Jay Z made a literally embarrassing video. Well, I should say the CGI he demanded looked like shit. Like, worse than a sci-fi made for TV. Worse than sharknado type graphics. But their label head is like “great work. Excellent work.” Uhhh... no. Thank GOD creative factors are one of the few things their contract gives them the final say on. They’ve had this with producers and songwriters too. He just thinks because these guys are big names and go to lunch with him and shit that everything they do is fantastic.
I always thought it was because people out of touch with society wanted to make a commercial that fit in. Like that one set of commercials (I believe it was Burger King or del taco) that were just memes of people doing xyz.
The only way to stop this is to talk to someone who can't be fired and get them to tell them they're retarded.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the same reason why shitty tv and movies get the green light and you end up with three movies about the same thing every so many years all coming out at the same time.
Yup. Also work at an agency. It’s not that we don’t know it’s shit. It’s that the people whose opinion is closest to what consumers would be, don’t actually have a voice. It’s mostly politics and making sure big bosses are pleased.
People should know, reasonable recommendations and actually good ideas are often put to clients, who do nothing with that information.
That's one thing I don't understand how business people work.
Look at YouTube. They release a design everyone loves because it's easy to use or find stuff... Then a month later they do a redesign that everyone hates and is a bitch to find stuff.
I STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACCESS MY MAIN YOUTUBE CHANNEL! I always have to stumble my way to find it, whereas before I could just click the profile button and go right there. WHY WOULD YOU HIDE IT?
This. Advertising is NOT, I repeat NOT about quality.
It's about the sales guy doing lines of coke with someone in marketing at Pepsi while hanging out with Hookers in Vegas. The owner of the ad agency doesn't care as long as money is coming in. He/she will copy or promote any piece of dog shit to get the bills paid.
conluceo · 11103 points · Posted at 17:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you know all those potato peelers that are made in any different way from the standard potato peeler that everybody has had since forever? How many engineers spent time designing that and making prototypes that went to QA and had a design review? Standard and certification for food grade materials were poured over. Collections of mandatory documentation about production and materials were carefully collected and stored. A committee approved it, and it went to production engineers who was tasked to do the tooling, which probably resulted in design changes that went back and got more QA and final go ahead. Samples was sent out to convention and consumer goods fairs. Salespeople stood stood in a both and offered representatives from large retail chains quotes for 100k units over 12 months time. Deals were struck, contracts signed. Money were put in escrow accounts. Designers made packaging and created logotypes and sent brand names to be stamped in the production facility. Instruction and labels were translated to the local language by technical writers. Logistic people poured over shipping and made sure it had all the correct numbers and barcodes. Retail worked printed labels and stacked the shelves.
Not once did anybody take the time to stop and say "Hey, I actually tried to peel a potato with this and it didn't really work... Like at all"
In a lot of cases, whether or not a product works is secondary to whether it looks good on shelves. Potato peelers are a saturated market. Everyone already has one and they last close to forever. But a different peeler with packaging that convinces you that it will work better than the one you’ve got? That’s a fresh market. Whether or not it works is immaterial, you just have to get people to buy it and make it cheap enough to be not worth returning but instead live in the back of the junk drawer forever.
To make the problem worse, a single piece of cheap molded plastic with one flimsy razor is way cheaper to mass produce than an actually good product. And it’s really hard to improve on the current design. Repeat with every kitchen product ever and you get aisles and aisles of cheap plastic kitchen products that don’t work.
Zimbadu · 2943 points · Posted at 18:48:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've just outlined 50% of everything wrong with modern society.
80% of the problem with the world is that humans live on it. The other 20% are because humans live on it
twomz · 5 points · Posted at 20:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, the other 20% is long term astronomical and geological issues. Like the sun is warming up on its 4 billion year journey to a red giant, Earth's rotation is slowing, the core is cooling, ect. Small changes over a collosal period of time that end with Earth being uninhabited and there is literally actually nothing that can be done about it... With current technology at least.
It's that the empires in the age of colonialism won. The Europeans, who built a society based on greed, laid waste to all of the peaceful, down-to-Earth societies they came across. Didn't matter where it was, one way or another they destroyed them.
...You have an odd understanding of the world if you believe tribal societies are peaceful.
I don't recall Native Americans starting a hundred year war or enslaving entire continents.
Also, news flash: The myth of the Noble Savage is incredibly racist.
The definition of the "Noble Savage":
a representative of primitive humankind as idealized in romantic literature, symbolizing the innate goodness of humanity when free from the corrupting influence of civilization.
The First Nations were and are civilization. I'm not saying that civilization and technological advancement are innately tied to our failings as a society, but that the principles on which our society is based on are horrendous and self-destructive, and that the belief systems of the First Nations were widely superior to our own.
I don't recall Native Americans starting a hundred year war or enslaving entire continents.
Most Native Americans never formed cohesive large scale societies (never mind developing ocean travel more complicated than a dug-out canoe), so one tribe enslaving a continent would be pretty fucking impossible.
They did, however, wage war. Frequently. And kept slaves. That includes the First Nations.
As for not waging war for a hundred years? I'd love to see you prove it. Can you show me the written historical records detailing hundreds of years of First Nations history in depth you got this information from?
The large scale Native American societies, like the Incas, Mayas, Toltecs, and Aztecs didn't start singular wars that lasted for hundreds of years because they had no fucking body to compete with. Any war they were involved in would be wrapped up in short order because they were each the superpower of their respective regions and times.
The First Nations were and are civilization.
And you are romanticizing the ever loving fuck out of them, claiming they were peaceful and didn't take slaves.
I'm not saying that civilization and technological advancement are innately tied to our failings as a society, but that the principles on which our society is based on are horrendous and self-destructive,
There is no failing in European society that was not present in every other society that kept written records. The thing that separated Europeans from all other imperialistic powers is that they developed large ocean-going ships.
Guaran-damn-tee you if the Hans had developed ships as advanced as European vessels, a whole lot more of the world would be speaking Mandarin today.
and that the belief systems of the First Nations were widely superior to our own.
See romanticism, above. The First Nations were war-like and kept their prisoners as slaves. I keep repeating this because it evidently has to be drilled into you.
I'm literally not saying that they didn't, just that overall their societies were more accepting and tolerant than European cultures of the time. They did not murder people en masse because of their identity in the same ways that Europeans did and there was no such thing as class inequality in most native societies. There are obvious and blatant exceptions to this but the violence prevalent in their societies was not much different than those from other, white civilizations such as Greece and Rome, both of which are largely regarded as idealized societies with high racial and social tolerance that disappeared from Europe for centuries after the introduction of Christianity. Hell they even treated their slaves better than colonial era Europeans did!
You literally said they were peaceful, and you literally tried to claim they didn't practice slavery.
just that overall their societies were more accepting and tolerant than European cultures of the time.
Can you prove this?
They did not murder people en masse because of their identity in the same ways that Europeans did
Can you prove this?
and there was no such thing as class inequality in most native societies.
It's hard to form social strata when your entire society is about 100 strong.
There are obvious and blatant exceptions to this but the violence prevalent in their societies was not much different than those from other, white civilizations such as Greece and Rome, both of which are largely regarded as idealized societies with high racial and social tolerance that disappeared from Europe for centuries after the introduction of Christianity.
You do realize that the Greek nation states were extremely warlike, the Roman Empire was highly warlike, and the Roman Empire was highly expansionist. Right? Hell, the Roman Republic was highly expansionist.
Hell they even treated their slaves better than colonial era Europeans did!
A slave's a slave. Good to see you acknowledging that they did enslave people, though. That romantic view of yours is slipping bit by bit.
I've literally done this like four times now. They did not enforce rigid gender roles, there was little to no inequality, and they respected the environment.
I'm not talking about early humans, I'm talking about Native American tribes leading up to and during the age of colonization. Most native religions espoused sustainability in hunting and gathering. They utilized as much of the animals they killed as possible so as to minimize the impact they left on the environment. If you've seen any revisionist shmuck's recreation of "the First Thanksgiving" you'd know this, because that's literally the only thing that most people get taught about in regards to interactions between natives and colonists.
I've literally done this like four times now. They did not enforce rigid gender roles, there was little to no inequality, and they respected the environment.
The sky is made completely of dirt.
There you go. I just proved the sky is made completely of dirt.
Whup, did it again.
Can I prove that God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler? Let's see...
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
Guess so! Or do I need to say it a few more times?
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
Well there's a straight fucking lie. You haven't provided sources in a single goddamn response to me. I asked you to prove your case and you responded with (to paraphrase), "My proof is that I said it."
My bad, there was a guy who was going through and commenting on every single response I made and I assumed he was you. That being said, if you look at the parent comments you will see the sources.
It’s literally unprovable. There are no written comprehensive records of native Americans like there are of Europeans from the Middle Ages onward. All the evidence is simply circumstantial that the native Americans fought a lot and never formed a truly pan American civilization.
You do realize that when colonists arrived in America, they documented the lives of the native peoples, right? And there is a rich oral history woven throughout all Native American societies.
And in 1500 they were already doing better than us in regards to the things I just mentioned. I'm done engaging with you, you're clearly not arguing in good faith. You've concern trolled enough in this thread.
Lol. Doing better at what? Gender equality? This just isn't so. Sorry. In any case, if you're alive in 1500 gender equality is about the least of anyone's concerns.
I'd also argue that defining a "civilization" as having to be massive and spread across many miles is exactly the problem. Each of the Greek city states is just as important historically as any individual Empire ever was. We give the Aztecs and such immense credit and we learn a lot about their culture in schools, but they were never really as important or long-lasting as many of the other, less "established" tribes. Just because they don't live in massive cities does not mean the way of life of those people should be rejected as "savage" or less than civilization.
Greek city states? So you're talking about 2500 years ago? That's a hell of a stupid comparison when we know precious little about Native American civilizations from just 1000 years ago. Or even 500 years ago. Because they did basically nothing of note.
As with most lurid tales of native cannibalism, these stories are treated with a great deal of scrutiny, as accusations of cannibalism were often used as justifications for the subjugation or destruction of "savages".
European explorers and colonizers brought home many stories of cannibalism practiced by the native peoples they encountered, but there is now archeological and written evidence for English settlers' cannibalism in 1609 in the Jamestown Colony under famine conditions.
So please, continue to concern troll about those savage Native American cannibals, and continue to look the fool.
Racism? Nobody likes a loser,doesnt matter the color ;)
[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 20:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Oh you sweet summer child... The Europeans fucked shit up because they had the superior weapons. If it was the Congolese, the Eskimos or the Patagonians that had the superior weapons, they'd be the ones running around vandalizing and wrecking other people's shit up.
IRCC I read that some native North Americans actually thought Europeans had a mental illness or disease that made them succumb to greed and destruction of natural resources.
I wouldn't be so sure. They didn't destroy the environment for exploitative purposes and they had better social norms. Maybe if it were the Aztecs, or one of the cannibal tribes, sure, but our deepest ills in society come from the notions of greed and inequality.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 21:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like your comment, it makes me think. In capitalism the general idea is for people to get what they deserve, that when someone works hard and efficiently they see a benefit to themselves.
Unfortunately it really isn't that way. You can work as hard as you want at dominoes, but you probably will never own your house or land. Meanwhile someone with a patent or a copyright takes in millions, buys land and pays for rental apartments to be built for the dominoes workers, while they themselves retire in their mansion.
We place so much emphasis on inequality as a species. We judge based on appearances and talent, we judge on test scores and physical ability. Someone who seems more capable is going to have more than others. And we worship them as a society. Everyone wants to buy a billionaire lunch.
I for one, am I glad to be ruled by our European overlords and not some alternate history Aztec overlords.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ynu're vastly underestimating the Europeans' cruelty. It is at least on par with that of tge Aztecs.
However, I dated a girl from Indonesia. And was surprised how much the Indonesians admired the European ways, even though they admitted they'd been slaves in their own country. I expected resentment, instead found admiration.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans everywhere were and are cruel.
However a big shift in the landscape comes after the invention/concept of universal inviolable, inalienable human rights after the Enlightenment. Prior to that the notion of rights was always invested in the sovereign itself and was subject to sovereign whims (arguably still so now but we at least THINK differently.)
Put another way: in China up until the post-Qing era all rights stemmed from the responsibility of the emperor. Rights weren’t intrinsic.
The West has done some absolutely shit things but the fact that you even think that civil rights matter is in no small part a consequence of Western thought.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have a point there... I sadly don't know enough about the history of other continents, though, so maybe they had the idea of guman rights in some fnrm somewhere elsd already... (FYI, am German)
At the very least the maori sometimes qesnlved conflicts by dancing :-)
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prior to Qing China (up until WW2 basically) human rights were largely derived from imperial edict. Confucianism doesn’t grant RIGHTS so much as it grants responsibilities.
Yes, other societies solved problems non-violently at times but then again the West is an absolute superstar at that: legal contracts. The whole argument made by Hobbes and others is that it’s contracts (legal agreements) that reduce violence. And arguably they’re right. Binding people by promises also keeps them honest and gives them a way to arbitrate disputes without the sword.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting in that sense is tge Westphallian Peace (1648), the first peace deal (in Europe) designed "forever" as opposed to "until x dies" or "for y years".
Even that isn’t true, as can be arrested even in the dozen or so treaties promising ‘perpetual peace’ between the kingdoms of England and France that were so often broken during the hundred year’s war.
What Westphalia did differently was that it realized and strengthened the already growing state as an institution to enforce peace, rather than rely on a sovereign and his retainers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heh. Weird... that's what I learned in history intensive course. (a-level).
Westphalia was a seminal moment, but more because it confirmed several processes that had been evolving for some time rather than inventing them at the negotiating table.
Native American tribes didn't even see a need for the concept of human rights because it was never a question in the first place. The Aztecs are a bad example. Many of the indigenous North American tribes had equality in gender roles, and even multiple genders dating back thousands of years, a concept that is still fought against in modern Western society.
Land ownership was not a thing. There was no concept of personal property. The entire society of the indigenous North American population is proof that the so-called "natural state of man" does not have to be every-man-for-himself violence and lack of social order. People argue all the time that communalism is impossible in practice but the native peoples are proof that that is bullshit.
There was also a great deal of respect for the rights of not only people, but the animals and the Earth itself. All life has an inherent right to exist, and that's a concept that we still struggle with in Western civilization as well.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is correct. Some tribes were more aggressive than others. When European diseases wiped out 90% of natives, they were not able to defend themselves against the colonizers. Had it not been for disease that explorers brought, Europeans would have not been able to fight off all the tribes.
No native tribe had either agriculture or industry, which meant that even without disease their defeat was inevitable it just would have taken longer and more effort.
Not amongst all tribes and never to the extent that all European powers practiced it, which meant that population density even among the Iroquois or Cherokee was never as high and the numbers they could field were always lower and for a shorter time.
Every society has wars, having wars and not being a pristine utopia doesn't mean you're not way, way better off than most other societies.
Plus, there are western examples of multiple genders.
I found three in Europe, and one of them was an extremist Christian sect that centered around castration and other forms of genital mutilation. Not exactly equivocal.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:33:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just a friendly note: “equivocable” is not a word. You mean equivalent.
And based on what I saw only one tribe had a third gender. So it’s not exactly a great example regardless.
What was life expectancy in pre-European native tribes?
But the bigger point is that violence was still QUITE common in native tribes prior to European presence. Life being “better” also implies you lived long enough to enjoy it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All humans and cultures are cruel. Many are still to this day. Europeans are enlightened. You can travel there safely. Opposed to Somalia or Afghanistan.
Truly an idiotic take. Our ancestors have constantly waged war against each other since before homosapiens even existed. Ask any anthropologist, humans love war. Apes and monkeys do it all the time in the wild. Chimpanzees are especially fucking vicious, massive gangs of dozens of chimpanzees will go to war in the wild. They kill each other and rip their testicles off. Modern humans have been waging war all over the world, Europeans just had the best technology so they won most of wars. We also have Europeans to thank for the majority of modern science and technology that you enjoy in the most civilized time in human history, but no, the big bad Europeans are just evil. I think you sound racist tbh.
Actually, quite a few societies developed European advancements long before they were made in Europe. China and the Ottoman Empire are the two biggest ones.
We just destabilized or destroyed those societies so we get to decide who gets ultimate credit for the discoveries.
Also "most civilized"... Yet America is run partially by a radical religious sect.
And if civilization = destroying the planet to you idk what to tell you. Regardless of anything else, native respect for the environment would be a really nice thing to have entwined into our society right now.
There is no telling if that course went the other direction, we'd still have so many technological advances like we have now, but I do wonder if we'd be a closer and wiser people. There'd still be war, sickness, famine, etc.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe? Maybe not.
You can look at China up to the Qing for a sense of how non-European governments worked in one case for the poor.
The Yangtze Delta wasn’t exactly great living, for instance. Lots of subsistence and hardscrabble work.
Yes and no. There's some really cool Potato peelers out there that can wrap around your finger, and some that are anti-slip, and some that are automatic... variety based on situational necessity is nice and modern society provides us with lots of variety in the product markets.
Kuhn Rikon Y peeler, hands down. Nice sharp blade that stays sharp for a long time (actually vg10, which is a high carbon steel from Japan, the same steel which global knives are made from), comfortable plastic handle (better than the plain steel ones you often get in basic y peelers), and cheap as chips, as they usually come in a pack of 3.
edit: I should also probably mention that y peelers, once you get the hang of them, are way faster than the straight type, which are universally trash
Speaking of vg10 and knives, kuhn rikon's knives are also made from vg10, and are stamped, just like globals, but around 10% of the price. They aren't as pretty as globals, but they're legitimately very good knives, and much better than anything else at that price point. My favourite knife is actually vg10 (although it was hand-forged and is very sexy), its a really nice balance between strength (high carbon blades are often brittle) and hardness (harder blades can hold a sharper edge for longer), but is still pretty easy to sharpen, and doesn't go rusty.
Oh yeah, I'm in total agreement with you there. I can see why you might want slightly different styles based on preference (smaller/bigger hands, width of blade, better grip, etc) but fundamentally it's the same basic design. I guess if I could name any improvement, I'd like a slightly sturdier handle and replaceable blades to minimise the amount of rubbish generated, but beyond that? Most of the 'innovations' I've seen are pretty pointless.
Lol my ex girlfriend had this can opener that required the can to be sitting on a perfectly flat surface and it popped the top off from under the rim, so you could “reseal it.” It didn’t really work for shit and I’ve never needed to reseal a can of aboot anything. It ended up falling apart and she pulled out her dollar tree piece of shit that didn’t work at all and just mangled the can and she basically said “see? The other one was way better.”
When I spent the whopping $12 or so and got a normal, reliable can opener her mind was blown. So I think sometimes people buy into the gimmicky shit because it works slightly better than the dirt cheap, garbage quality items they usually buy lol
That’s actually innovation though. Making a better product from a better idea. It’s still a lot of wasted resources on a product that was never that flawed to begin with
I know people are gonna get big mad about this but what was so eloquently described above is really a feature, not a bug, of capitalism. With the way the current economic system is structured, the incentive isn't to make a quality product that does its job reliably for years and years and years, the incentive is to make the sale. In fact, the crappier and more flimsy a product is, the more likely people will turn around and buy it again because what choice do they have? Especially when the competition is owned by the same parent company.
An equally important feature of free market thought would be other producers responding to consumer frustration with poorly products by making better competing products, as we've actually seen in practice in many cases: there's an explosion of interest in durability right now that's being met with growth of certain heritage brands and the introduction of new startups focused on producing more durable boutique products.
Consumers have to actually buy the stuff though, and in many cases, even many consumers who can afford the higher-end products have been conditioned not to spend the money on them. But the market will often find a way to accommodate both types of consumers.
altxatu · 13 points · Posted at 22:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of capitalism isn’t better products or a better service or better anything. The point of capitalism is how effectively can you or a business make money. However that happens, that’s the point.
It's not about what the "point" of capitalism is. It isn't the "point" of the market to, say, create a better spatula, but if there's demand for a better spatula, and a better spatula can be produced and sold for prices those consumers are willing to pay, then there will likely be some spatula enthusiast who will go into the spatula business to meet that demand.
Further, in a free market based on voluntary trade, we're free to determine what the "point" of a exchange is. It could be motivated purely by profit, or it could not be. Capitalism assumes that profit is a major motive in most economic exchanges, but it doesn't dictate that it must be the overriding purpose that precludes, say, pride in one's work. Capitalist economies actually tend to work best when virtue supplements the need for profit.
When the market is saturated, find a new market. Create demand. A new potato peeler will pique enough interest that people will buy it, and thus there is a new market and new demand. And thus capitalism continues to grow.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:54:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I won't deny that marketing can be manipulative and deceptive, but I'm not entirely sure if this is meant to be a response to the point I was making in the quoted text: which, again, is that a free market per se doesn't dictate that every transaction must be driven purely by an attempt to maximize profit at any cost, and that markets operate more freely when virtue drives us to draw on other values in our exchanges.
See, this would make sense if there wasn't also an incentive for businesses to make wages as low as possible for their workers. Being that the majority of consumers earn money to spend on products by trading their time for wages, most consumers can likewise only afford the cheap crap.
Yes, businesses that deal in small durable boutique products can thrive, but the businesses that sling cheap crap are the ones that become the whales. There's a reason why Walmart, Target, and Amazon are the juggernauts.
As for this personification of the market "finding a way" I would advise you to avoid that kind of rhetoric because it implies that the market is rational when it is comprised almost entirely of irrational actors.
There's nothing about capitalism that prohibits regulations on wages and benefits for workers. Too many critics of "capitalism" seem to think that capitalism only exists in its complete laissez faire variety. But those Nordic "socialist" countries? That's capitalism. Capitalism with extremely strong worker protections is still capitalism.
As far as cheap crap goes, the simple reality is that many people who could pay more for better stuff won't do it, because they'd rather spend their money otherwise. We spend less of our incomes on certain essentials like food and clothing now than we ever have in the history of the world, and many people have come to expect that that should be the case, because they'd rather spend a higher percentage of their incomes on other luxuries. I have boots that cost as much as a new iPhone and buy the cheapest phone I can find and use it until it dies. A great many people would rather have the iPhone. The market has found a way to accommodate both people like me and the iPhone buyers. The iPhone buyers can't really complain that their boots don't hold up as well when they're choosing instead to spend their money or products that simply didn't exist a generation ago, when they're paying less of their incomes for boots than their grandparents did. It's not capitalism's "fault" that their boots don't hold up as long as they'd like when they choose to buy cheaper boots to free up money to spend on non-essentials.
As for markets "finding a way"....well, the way systems work is that even if we're assuming "irrational" actors make up the system, the system still has an emergent rationality. That rationality is not always as efficient as possible, and it doesn't always lead to the greatest prosperity for the greatest number, but yes, markets "find a way" to accommodate diverse consumer demands. Capitalism is exceedingly good at that, and no attempt at a rationally-ordered command economy has ever even approached the level choice that capitalism produces.
There's nothing about capitalism that prohibits regulations on wages and benefits for workers. Too many critics of "capitalism" seem to think that capitalism only exists in its complete laissez faire variety. But those Nordic "socialist" countries? That's capitalism. Capitalism with extremely strong worker protections is still capitalism.
Yeah, I don't really see how this relates to what I'm saying here, but sure. I don't disagree. The trouble is that in America we can't even adopt this Nordic model because agents of capital aka big businesses, wealthy folks, lobbyists, ect, have poured money into the campaigns of politicians who will not make laws to adopt this model.
As far as cheap crap goes, the simple reality is that many people who could pay more for better stuff won't do it, because they'd rather spend their money otherwise.
This sounds.... rational.
As for markets "finding a way"....well, the way systems work is that even if we're assuming "irrational" actors make up the system, the system still has an emergent rationality.
How?
How can a system made up of irrational actors suddenly become rational? Trends can emerge from the collective action of those irrational actors but that doesn't make them rational. In fact, you argue it yourself with your example of the good boots vs. the new iphone.
That rationality is not always as efficient as possible, and it doesn't always lead to the greatest prosperity for the greatest number, but yes, markets "find a way" to accommodate diverse consumer demands.
So the markets, which are somehow rational even though they're comprised of irrational actors, aren't the most efficient at meeting consumers needs but also
Capitalism is exceedingly good at that, and no attempt at a rationally-ordered command economy has ever even approached the level choice that capitalism produces.
Why is choice the metric that we decide whether or not a system is working. Why not ability to effectively distribute resources to people that need or want them? Choice does not measure this in any meaningful capacity and it's certainly not the most efficient way of distributing resources. You know what this choice you're describing looks like? It looks like a grocery store with 20 different kinds of ketchup on the shelf and no goddamned toilet paper or bread. It is literally a failure to meet consumer demand.
Yeah, I don't really see how this relates to what I'm saying here
My point is that if your concern is that pressure to lower wages is keeping wages too low, we have the option of using strategic regulations to keep wages at a more appropriate level.
How?
Because the operation of systems is not reducible to the actions of individual agents. This is how systems in general work. Like with evolution: the logic of natural selection operates at the systemic level doesn't depend on individual agents acting in a way that's rationally informed by natural selection. Likewise, market rules don't depend on individual agents knowing the bigger logic of markets and acting rationally in light of that knowledge.
But perhaps I just don't know what you mean by "rational" here.
In fact, you argue it yourself with your example of the good boots vs. the new iphone.
You apparently missed my point with that example, which, as I stated, was that the market finds a way to meet the desires of both types of consumers. People who prefer iPhones can buy iPhones, and people who prefer high-end boots can buy high-end boots. The market has adjusted and optimized to meet both demands.
So the markets, which are somehow rational even though they're comprised of irrational actors, aren't the most efficient at meeting consumers needs but also
Ready actual words: "aren't as efficient as possible." As in, not perfectly efficient. But no system is perfectly efficient. Capitalism, however, is very efficient at it, even if not perfectly so.
Why is choice the metric that we decide whether or not a system is working.
It's the metric in this case because that's the specific thing I had mentioned when you challenged my statement about markets "finding a way." There certainly are other ways to judge economies besides consumer choice, but this discussion was about cheap junk vs. durable goods, and my point is that market is good at finding ways to accommodate both purchasing habits.
You know what this choice you're describing looks like? It looks like a grocery store with 20 different kinds of ketchup on the shelf and no goddamned toilet paper or bread. It is literally a failure to meet consumer demand.
This is beside the point that I was originally addressing, but it's rather absurd to suggest that the market's struggle to adjust at breakneck speed to an unprecedented global economic shutdown is some kind of mark against capitalism generally. It takes well-honed supply chains a little time to adjust to sudden extremely drastic changes in consumer demand, especially when much of the market has been forced to shut down.
You are completely missing how they became huge. Amazon and Walmart changed everything about how supply chain was done. They min-maxed the shit out of efficiency and made enormous profits off of it. It has very little to do with what they sell.
Minimized employee wages in order to maximize profits.
If you seriously think that Walmart and Amazon could exist in its current state without slinging cheap, flimsy crap, underpaying its employees, and literally working them until they collapse then I got a bridge you might be interested in buying.
Walmart and Amazon built everything by minimizing ALL costs. Shipping, product cost, supply chain, etc, and employee wages was just a basic obvious part of that. But they also built their own fleet (Walmart’s fleet is the largest in the US, if not the world), minimized the costs of that, and figured out lots of clever tricks to make sure customers stay only as much as they need to.
They’re definitely evil, in the sense that they don’t give a fuck about people or their employees, but they also are incredible machines of efficiency tuned to the absolute max.
I don't really see how this statement conflicts with my point at all. Yes, of course, they're efficient. Nobody is denying that.
The point is that that efficiency crushes the people that it employs and devastates the community of businesses it operates in all to make very small population of people wealthier.
Does it devastate the community? It closes mom and pop shops that compete, sure. It brings lots of local jobs as well — trucking, cashiers, mechanics, and whatever else. I’d imagine Walmart employs more people than all the mom and pop shops do, and I doubt the other shops are paying better wages or allowing unions or giving benefits.
Amazon pays $15/hr at the warehouses which is very solid. I was paid that much to be a manager at a locally owned business, and I handled 250 contractors across the country.
I think they could do more for their workers, but they do what is required by law. It’s the free market that the libertarians wanted, and this is the result. If you want to change that, vote Democrat and force them to pay a living wage.
Who should be deciding what merits "need and improvement"...? It hasn't worked out too well where communist parties have implemented by force what they viewed as the "priorities" needed for society.
Don't you recognize that your reply is even more stupid and reductive?
Call it what you will but the person you're responding to has a legitimate point as to the challenges of a non-capitalist society. There has to be some way of deciding what's worth the time and resources available, and while it's better to base that on actual need rather than pure profit motives, history has demonstrated often enough the pitfalls of that society are not to be ignored.
By responding in this manner, you're effectively calling for ignoring those pitfalls. Because what else are you bringing to the table except a shallow attempt to shut down an argument you don't like but can't be bothered to contribute to?
Sounds pretty much like your average socialist to me. Honest conversation? No no no, can’t let that get in the way of my smug intellectual superiority. If I actually talk to people I might be forced to reconsider my opinions, and we can’t have that can we?
Thing is, I'm more a socialist than a capitalist. I'm just realistic about what drives people and what kind of balance societies (likely) need to strike. We can't ignore the historic faults of any particular method~
That’s fine! I’m not saying all socialists are bad. With the definition of socialism being so broad, there’s bound to be some reasonable socialists.
On the other hand, your average eat-the-rich, USSR-praising, capitalism-is-the-root-of-all-evil, Cuba-is-better-than-America socialist is almost always going to be obnoxious as fuck, especially when confronted with the numerous atrocities committed under a red flag in the 20th Century, since smug moral superiority is the best way to cling to dogma and avoid questioning their own beliefs.
You blatantly ignorant if you don't see what the US did to indeginous people as one of the most grave and disgusting injustices in human history. Killed more than the Holocaust, completely destroyed cultures, completely destroyed civilizations, and then act like it was no big deal.
Daddysu · -1 points · Posted at 21:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Downvotes? Are the comrades not a fan of individual opinions? If you look further down I have a comment defending communism against capitalism. Look...your perfect ideology/form of governance/economic system is perfectly valid and a great system...on paper. Unfortunately, we (humans) tend to break anything that we get involved in. Communism has its issues as does capitalism as we have implemented it in America. I can say though, at least not yet (it's probably coming), I can go online and rant, rave, and bitch up a storm about products, city level Gov't, state level Gov't, and federal Gov't with no real fear of getting dissapeared. I don't think you can say the same about communism. I'm not getting into the "communism failed because of capitalist meddling" debate. Regardless of outside state actors, a Gov't decides how it treats it's own citizens...even the ones who criticize it. America has its problems and it just keeps slipping down that slope faster and faster. We've had our share of outside state sponsored interference as well. Hello recent and current elections!! Probably even more than that but we just don't know about it because it was less successful, or more successful if it had an impact and no one noticed. Either way, as little as it may seem like it actually helps, being able to go on public forums, websites, tv shows, news shows, news papers, whatever, and blast the current administration and or ruling oligarchs and not worry about just disappearing is a pretty big damn deal. I'm also not going to get into the Clintons and how their adversaries disappear or even if the same thing happens on the Repube side. There is a big difference between whispers of what happened in the corners of reddit and other sites vs the ENTIRE world knowing and acknowledging that certain governments are actively silencing dissidents through barbaric means.
Do you mean countries where they implemented some form of communism as an economic/political policy, or countries where they formed a "Communist Party" and ran up a red flag to get the Soviets to give them guns and money?
Because people too many people like to go "lol communism bad" as though it were some kind of gotcha moment, without exploring how the countries in question actually worked, or what contributed to their success or failure. This is why "communism hasn't been tried" is a fair counter-argument.
A quick look at communist/socialist countries nets you the following:
Russia- run with the same sort of bastard viciousness as pre-communism, bankrupted by an arms race with the US.
China- run with the same sort of bastard viciousness as has characterized China for millennia. Could be argued that communist/collectivist policies ended up working here, with how they went from agrarian peasants to one of the biggest economies in the world in a few decades, albeit at a tremendous human cost.
North Korea- created as a Soviet puppet state. Degenerated into a complete shithole largely due to being shut off from the world and left with a dynasty of crazy assholes on top.
(formerly North) Vietnam- doing pretty well, actually, but was strictly a "red flag for guns n money" communist state.
Venezuela- bribed populace with oil money to leave corrupt leadership alone. Oil went cheap, country went splat.
Cuba- poor economy because they offended the US and got embargoed to hell and gone. Run by a relatively popular dictator, largely due to a siege mentality.
Honestly, Cuba should count a positive example- they not only managed to hang on, but actually improve over the years in spite of the, well, spite of their large and extremely powerful neighbor as well as the supposed "damnation" of communism.
China also counts in the positive category- without collectivist action they wouldn't have bootstrapped their way to where they currently are in anywhere near the timeframe they have. You can try to make the argument that their government is cruel and oppressive (and it is), but bear in mind that their previous governments were likewise cruel and oppressive.
The Soviet Union bankrolled Cuba's little operation to be a thorn in the side of the USA. There was a sharp downturn once those rubles dried up. They still have a repressive society where political opposition is basically banned.
China also managed to kill millions of their own citizens thanks to blinkered devotion to their hair brained leader Mao. The "bootstraps" to their current economic leaps was ironically done through adopting a more capitalist economic environment, whilst retaining strict political control. They still have a repressive society where political opposition is basically banned.
China also managed to kill millions of their own citizens thanks to blinkered devotion to their hair brained leader Mao.
I'm not saying they didn't.
The "bootstraps" to their current economic leaps was ironically done through adopting a more capitalist economic environment
Not quite. Collective action pushed China through a very rapid industrialization. From there, yes they moved to a state capitalism model, but they wouldn't have had the means to do so at the time they did so without a massive push.
They still have a repressive society where political opposition is basically banned.
Considering the amount of "Democrats and Republicans are just the same" sentiment, and how protests such as Black Lives Matter were handled, I have to argue that we aren't much better off here.
Fair enough, but regardless of how collective action was used, economic reforms brought them more in line with capitalist countries, with successful companies like Huawei emerging from it.
I have to argue that we aren't much better off here.
They have literal concentration camps in China even today.
The difference is those "concentration camps" are for people trying to enter the USA illegally, and they can leave if they leave the USA. China is imprisoning their own citizens in concentration camps. They have no such choice.
They're still being run with disdain towards the people in them. As for being "free" to leave, that's not much of an option when the people have nowhere to go, if they've even been informed of the option.
My argument is that puppet states are inherently corrupt. Furthermore, this proves my original point that people just want to say "lol communism bad" without actually understanding the situation.
Again, China and Cuba were net gains. Russia did poorly because of being Russia. Then there's Yugoslavia, which nobody brings up in their rant of "lol communism bad", because it was actually done well.
Oh for sure. Unfortunately with humans involved you can take your pick. Transferring wealth or resources to a corrupt state and get fucked or transfer the wealth or resources to corrupt corporations (who run the state) and get fucked. I'm just saying that these are all great ideas on paper. Until we figure how to start being altruistic as a human on the grand scale, they are all prone to corruption and failure without the good guys (if there really even is such a thing) intervening and resetting things. It's like that saying, bad times make hard people, hard people make good times, good times make weak people, weak people make bad times, rinse repeat.
Until we figure how to start being altruistic as a human on the grand scale
In my point of view the thing that causes people to work hard/invent new things/break new records is their own greed. Money was invented to push that altruistic side in people. Money, or the promise of it, is the reason people wake up early and work long hours everyday.
Funny how the soviet union was similarly funding rebels that they liked to undermine countries they didn't like too...
Only difference is that they had to literally kill their own citizens rather than let them freely leave, whereas people fled to Western Countries, even at risk of death from your communist "paradises"...
How is that any different from any other economic system? Most of them would work just fine if people were virtuous enough not to exploit their weaknesses.
I mean, can't you say that about capitalism also...or religion...or just about anything? All great ideas on paper...and then you throw us shitheads in the mix and we fuck it to hell.
The problem is that nobody needs to sell peelers nor profit on the lack of peeler sales.
mt379 · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. So many useless products that do the same shit. What infuriates me though are the extreme specialty tools people get conned into buying. Avocado scooper, pineapple slicer, garlic peeler, etc. You know what you can use in place of those? Spoon, and knife. Fucking moronic.
The funny thing is the origin of many of these specialty tools is in specialized industry where they are very useful. A neighbour and I were just talking about cherry pitters. There is an orchard nearby that makes cherry juice, wine etc. And they have automated pitters that can crank through massive amounts of cherries while you sit at home doing one at a time.
Then someone decides to make a plastic version of this useful device to sell to consumers who don't need it, because they could never justify the purchase of the $2000 industrial unit to pit a handful of cherries once a year.
Cherry pitters aren't remotely useless if you actually cook with cherries. Sure, you can do it without specialized tools, but cherry pitters are make the job easier.
A lot of "useless" tools are only such because many people purchase aspirationally: "Oh, if I only I had the right tools, I'd surely do more baking." And then they get tools and still don't bake.
For sure, I pitted many, many cherries as a kid for my grandma to bake with using the plunger style pitters. We had huge sour cherry trees as a shelterbelt on the farm. Hundreds of pounds of cherries.
However I was referring to the hand cranked units that are designed to process a bunch of cherries at once, a consumer version of the industrial unit. Some are good metal units but costly (for the small orchard owner), and some are junk designed to appeal to the lazy that apparently miss half the pits. We honestly could have used a quality hand crank unit for the yearly cherry harvest, but I suspect 99% of people would be fine with the classic plunger pitter.
Okay but a coworker gave me an avacado tool and as someone who eats a lot of avacado toast, that thing is the shit. Cuts it open, removes the pit and then scoops out the flesh in nice, perfect thin slices? It's awesome. Would I ever have bought it in the first place? Not at all. But it's definitely worth the drawer space.
You've just outlined 50% of everything wrong with modern society capitalism.
When we structure our society almost entirely around making as much money as humanly possible, you get all sorts of businesses that are only there to make money rather than actually create value for society.
Of course, at this point, even if we wanted to change things, it'd be next to impossible to do so given how we, as a society, gauge success almost entirely based on accumulated wealth. If we really want true change then we're going to have to adjust that mindset, which will likely take multiple generations.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That the actual product could and should have been of use to society too.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 20:12:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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evranch · 10 points · Posted at 20:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Important to the economy, not to society. A piece of junk as described, designed to be purchased and used once, is simply an example of waste.
Society would actually be better off if the engineers, factories and supply chain were directed towards something useful.
It could be argued if their labour is not needed for something useful it would be better if they simply stayed at home rather than wasting materials and energy producing something useless.
That a lot of pressure. So, everything an engineer designs needs to better society as a whole? Who gets to decide? A better potato peeler is a benefit to society in my opinion.
The discussion was as to intentionally crap products though, designed to sell rather than perform. As the saying goes, lures are designed to catch fishermen, not fish.
It's as simple as that products should just be well designed and built to perform their intended task. If your design performs worse than standard benchmark designs, it shouldn't be released until it works well. With today's rapid prototyping methods, there's really no excuse for products that are ergonomically terrible or break after a couple of uses.
A publically operates product testing union should be the authority on what is and isn’t a useful product. Investors shouldn’t be able to pour money into a company making a product that nobody wants. THAT is how useless shit gets made, so much unnecessary resource waste and pollution.
Watch Shark Tank sometime for an insight, none of them give a fuck about the product being useful, just whether or not they can profit off the short term sales before the company inevitably crashes for being ultimately useless.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I literally just told you it should be run by the public, people who will actually buy and use the product should determine its usefulness before $100million dollars is pumped into making some shitty plastic potato peeler that will never biodegrade.
The free market will waste money, waste resources, waste time, and damage the environment. As it has been. How efficient is your garbage system when 10 companies all making the same shit product will spend tens of millions advertising against eachother resulting in nothing but corporatist spam.
This might surprise you, dumb fuck boomers like yourself are universally hated, for your selfishness, for you poor educations, and for your behavior.
The story is as old as time, everything around it just changed. The first axe extremely well crafted axe probably spawned thousands of different designs and ideas that failed and everyone went back to the original. Hell, we are still redesigning the shit.
Actually you could say the same " what's good with society". People are always willing to look for something that works better and they will pay for it. That drives productivity.
Part of what was outlined is the fact that often these "better" things never work better and the time and effort was never put into making the product well too begin with.
I didn't expect my slight quip about this to gain so much traction but my thought was really just that society as a whole often expends so much misdirected energy. If we were working on more things that were worthwhile rather than more shitty potato peelers, things might be better overall.
This mindset helps me understand the show shark tank. I've stopped looking at things as good or bad ideas and more of "how many people could we get to spend $30 on this and MAYBE use it a few times."
I think it's the same reason all those really odd diy lifehack channels are popular on youtube. It sucks peeling potatoes, even with a well functioning potato peeler. What we are buying is the idea that a common boring or time consuming task can be made much simpler.
Regarding time used contra cost. That is why I'm baffled when people often hold up the smartphone as the benchmark of superfluous spending. With how much the avarage person uses their smartphone and how essential it is for many things it's probably one of the cheapest things you own.
Regarding time used contra cost. That is why I'm baffled when people often hold up the smartphone as the benchmark of superfluous spending. With how much the avarage person uses their smartphone and how essential it is for many things it's probably one of the cheapest things you own.
A smartphone is the cheapest thing you own. This year's new model is superfluous, especially when you can buy last year's model at a discount because it's no longer the newest and shiniest thing. That's what people are mostly talking about. I won't say I've never encountered an idiot on the internet blathering about how smartphones are excessive and nobody should own one, because that would be a lie, but it's a very rare opinion.
Now, when you talk about low-income and homeless people, suddenly everyone is judging the value of that phone, which pisses me off. You think you can access your e-mail or job applications from that shitty flip phone? No way! Unless you intend to live at the public library to use their machines(and how's that working out for you this past month?), you need a device that can interface with the internet. It goes beyond just a phone number these days, that's advice from 10-20 years ago. But that's a whole different issue that goes beyond just smartphones.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Tbf the criticism is usually the choice to buy the latest phone rather than a 4 year old one that makes calls/runs a browser just as well
It’s “superfluous” because prior generations didn’t do it.
I spend much less on my smartphone + bus passes than a boomer did on their new cars + phone bill + TV + cable + everything else my phone replaces, but it’s the smartphone that shows I’m spoiled and don’t know how to spend my money.
The DIY lifehack channels are their own beast, called content farms. They’re designed to exploit the YouTube algorithm. They basically take 15-120 second clips of these “hacks” with minimal voiceover and text, string them together until the video is 10+ minutes long (and more easily monetized), and then do that three times a day, heavily repeating their content.
The algorithm loves the absolute shit out of this and so it recommends these videos to pretty much everyone, which gets them more views, which gets the algorithm to share them even more, etc.
I know it's algorithm driven, but people will both click on them and keep watching long enough to be served ads and keep watching. I'm talking about what it is that drives people to even watch them. If everybody ignored them there would be no reason for the algorithm to promote them.
1) the content is fairly easy to make. This means they can churn out enough fresh content to keep viewers clicking on new videos.
2) because they have so many videos, it assures anyone that has auto-play turned on and is not paying attention will watch a huge stream of only their videos.
3) Their video titles are very clickbaity, drawing further views.
4) their videos have no speech and minimal captions, making them more accessible to people that don’t speak English.
5) Occasionally one of their more batshit hacks goes viral, drawing in more viewers.
The validity or usefulness of the “hacks” has very little to do with how much they’re watched.
Basically, there’s a not insignificant segment of one of the more important areas of a modern economy that is not only useless, they are unsolving resolved problems and making cooking more difficult.
It is always amazing to me that there is a reasonably large proportion of the work force that it would be more productive to just give the same paychecks and sit them in a room with a Nintendo Switch instead of their actual job.
Wootery · 15 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the upside, those people probably have crushingly low job satisfaction.
I got a degree in engineering to make bullshit alternative potato peelers? Gary just finished building a bridge, and I'm still finishing up the peeler. Goddamn Gary.
But it's not Gary. It's the peelers. It was always the peelers.
And when he actually puts in the work and designs a pretty neat peeler, chances are that along the way it'll be changed for ease of manufacturing and made of substandard materials so the end products is still crap.
There are definitely a lot of filler products but I’m not sure they’re actually unsolving the issue. People with no money will buy the dollar store shitty version. People with some money will buy the target version. People with money will buy williams Sonoma version. They all peel potatoes to some degree, but it’s also how nice do they look and how long will they last.
And please don’t post that bullshit about Grimes and his boots. It’s really only applicable to super poor people, and most people could easily stop drinking beer for a few weeks and get enough money for a good product but they just don’t want to.
Yeah, the problem is there's no data on what happens to most bad potato peelers once they're purchased. Because who returns a potato peeler? If it doesn't work, you just put it back in the drawer, and to the people that made it, that's as good as a lifetime customer.
Everyone already has one and they last close to forever.
Every year, probably at least 1% of the world population moves out of their parents' homes and sets up on their own. That's a market for somewhere around 700 million potato peelers around the world. Or anyway 3 million in the US and 5 million in Europe (considering that a lot of the rest of the world is too poor to waste money on potato peelers), with a few more in the rich parts of Asia, and a few more for the rest of the world.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember moving out on my own (about 15+ years ago now) and being floored how many random things I took for granted in my parents’ home.
When I moved out, I was floored by how much toilet paper cost when you were buying small quantities for one person. My idea of how much toilet paper cost per roll was shaped by my parents purchasing habits, which was to watch those giant packages until they went on sale, and then buy them until the shelf in the basement was full. I think that topped out at around two big packages, give or take. I never saw more than two come home at a time, let's leave it at that. But when I thought about "how much does this roll of toilet paper cost?" I was dividing that bulk sale price by the number of rolls, and getting what seemed to be a reasonable number.
However, that is not anywhere close to what toilet paper costs when you're buying a 4-pack because that's all you're gonna use on your own and there's nowhere to store more than 2-3 extra rolls anyway. I actually cried from the sticker shock, because it seemed so crazy for me to be paying an insane amount of money per roll, just to wipe my butt...and with the cheap shit no less. It's not that I was crying over a $2.99 pack of toilet paper, it's more that I thought it shouldn't be that stupidly expensive per roll and why was it so expensive and what was wrong with the world that I was going to be spending that much money on butt paper when all my life I'd thought it was worth much less money.
I'm pretty sure the university would have frowned upon my installing a bidet in a bathroom that did not belong to me. I don't recall it being explicitly forbidden, but considering some other plumbing object would have had to be unhooked in order to connect it to the water, I think one of the other people sharing the space would have had something to say about it, and it would have landed neatly under the miscellaneous "you know that can't be allowed, so why did you do it?" clause.
Ah, I wasn't aware of that. It sounded like you had an apartment or something and bidets don't require any destructive assembly to your existing toilet to install.
Well I've never installed one, but I can't see how it would hook up to a standard toilet without finagling different parts onto it(which is kind of a problem if you're a renter and don't own the toilet). Looks like they hook into the water input, which yeah, you can't undo that super quickly when the "random" room inspection knocks. It's not like a contraband toaster where you can just yoink a plug out and stash it under the bed until the RA's gone.
Right, good point. All I've done to install them is use the water hook up and you install it between the existing lid and the ceramic bowl.
That's true. It's better suited for non-college apartments and houses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:02 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it was "holy shit, how much does food cost?" It's so masked for the most part even through undergrad if you go to a college that does meal plans.
Somehow I managed to live my life partly on a university's dole until after grad school when my wife and I moved to NY for her med school (holy shit has it been over a decade now? Ugh.) We were both constantly stressed about making ends meet between rent (the rent was too damn high!), utilities (how the fuck much does Verizon want for internet?) and food.
What's funny is now we've both managed to land pretty lucrative careers and money is anything BUT a stressor, but I still have the habit of buying stuff cheap and in bulk because GODDAMMIT I WANT THE CHEAPEST MARGINAL COSTS. It gets irrational when I spend an hour at Costco to save a few bucks.
But man, when college kids on reddit just shrug about what things cost I laugh. Wait a bit longer, kids. You'll see.
There is a market for peelers, it’s just a saturated one. A saturated market doesn’t mean no new purchases ever, it just means the vast majority of people already have one. A saturated market can be a very safe place for one or two companies to exist that produce good, high-quality products, because there are always people who lost theirs or need a replacement.
But that’s not what happened with potato peelers (and most kitchen products). Instead of a few companies making decent peelers, there are a hundred competing companies making increasingly weird peelers that cost anywhere from 50 cents to mechanized ones that cost hundreds of dollars.
Sourcing analyst here. I personally select and import 1000s of SKUs every year of general merch to put in stores.
About a tenth of the time, I’ve never held the product in my hands. After several rounds of negotiation with the retailers on what they want a department to look like and the kind of items they want in each bay, at some point we run out of time. At that point, I just send the retailer a picture of the obscure item they say we are ‘missing’ from the program and tell them I got a factory that can make it.
We usually get a sample a couple months before the product actually hits shelves and if it really is complete shit we’ll have the factory redo it. But as long as the store doesn’t complain and the item sells for them it pretty much ends with the customer.
This is exactly right. I work for a very large corporate manufacturer as a electrical and mechanical technician. The shit we throw away is insane, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it whatsoever, the barcode came out 1/3 of a blonde c**t hair to the left, so scrap it. We spend so much money basically chasing ghosts and filing paperwork on ridiculous stuff but in the end, you get a working stapler or a roll of tape, and it works, and then you move on. The things that go on behind the scenes to make consumer goods is unimaginable until you’ve seen it for yourself!
Somebody else said that what they didn't understand was "how the global economy works", and honestly this is a better answer to that question than any if the ones he actually got.
Or, like when I moved and couldn't find my peeler, bought a new one, and it didn't fucking work because it is one of those pieces of shit that looks marketable. It was the only one they had, and now I eat potatoes with skins on.
But the current design is shit and I can't peel with it. The only potato peeler I've been able to find that works better than just using a knife is about 20 years old and I've never been able to buy one as good.
Febris · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whether or not it works is immaterial
It's not immaterial, it's detrimental to your own objectives. If you sell a product that lasts a lifetime, you'll only sell it once. If it simply doesn't work at all, you now have an opportunity to sell a slightly less useless item to people who already jumped ship on the classic model that actually worked.
Then why can I not find a potato scrubber with an attached handle?!?! They are all just these weird jar opener pad things or sometimes the same, but with bristles. Can I please at least have one on a plastic stick?
Whenever anyone thinks that everyone knows everyone in small town X, or doesn't understand how the current pandemic is not getting under control, I think I will start using this as proof of concept. I mean, do you know anybody that actually has purchased that junk? It's selling, so someone is, but who? I guess you just don't know everyone like you thought, eh?
If it wasn't for sites like yelp or tripadvisor, I wonder how many restaurants in tourist destinations could serve actual crap and stay in business through tourists that had no outlet to complain in any manner that would affect future sales.
There’s really no need to overanalyze the word “everyone”. I just used it as shorthand for “the vast majority of the people who would buy one in the first place”. I suppose I could have worded it more carefully but I wrote the post on my phone in ten minutes without sourcing anything.
I wasnt trying to overanalyze anything particular about your post. I was just thinking about what you said and realized that everyone does have a peeler and those newfangled things that look like they work better but dont are everywhere and seem to be selling but I dunno anyone that had bought anything like it. So thinking about who is buying that crap kinda illustrated how few people I actually know.
I wasnt trying to overanalyze anything particular about your post. I was just thinking about what you said and realized that everyone does have a peeler and those newfangled things that look like they work better but dont are everywhere and seem to be selling but I dunno anyone that had bought anything like it. So thinking about who is buying that crap kinda illustrated how few people I actually know.
Sigh. I have one of those and have zero idea how it got in my drawer. But it still gets pulled out when someone asks if they can help. Probably because it is bright pink. On numerous occasions I have heard that grunt of frustration and looked over, gently handed them the good old regular guy and somehow Still haven't thrown out out.
Y style peelers are far superior. Also, it's very likely your current peeler is dull from use and dishwasher wear. They're cheap (like $5) and the Y style sit in your hand and work better than the old style.
I don’t know how you can say that when the usual style of potato peeler requires considerably less wrist action or work and produces excellent results. You have perfect control with it as long as it’s sharp. You just have to be used to it, which takes about two potatoes.
/has peeled mountains of potatoes using all manner of device
Different people are comfortable with different things. I feel like I would prefer the regular-style peelers(this is the first time I'm seeing the Y-style) because it looks like the Y-style peels towards you and the regular peels away from you. Going away feels safer(probably a psychological holdover from "never cut towards yourself with the knife!" as potato peelers aren't likely to suddenly stab you in the gut by accident), gives more control(at least for me, your mileage might vary), and makes sure the mess is flung sinkward and not onto my pants.
But at the same time, I can see how the straighter motions might be easier for someone who can't do the flicking motions you'd use with a regular peeler, maybe someone with RSI or arthritis in their wrist for example. I'm glad different styles exist, so everyone can find one they're comfortable with using. It's better than having just one that might not work so great for everybody.
The Y style are designed to peel away from you. The angle of the blade is such it woks better going away from you than towards you. You just have to get used to the grip and action, but they're faster and better than the traditional style.
The link that someone else cleaned up for you(apparently you edited it out of your first post?) shows it being peeled towards the user. You must have a slightly different style if yours goes in the other direction, because this one is definitely a pull rather than a push!
That's not how I was taught to peel. Maybe it's because I have no spatial sense to speak of, so my mom taught me in a way that wouldn't end with the tips of my fingers getting skinned off because I didn't know where the knife was and moved them beneath it? But the way she taught me was to hold the object you're peeling steady and then flick the blade away from you from the wrist, so the peels fall into the sink/bowl/wherever. It gets the job done, and I don't bleed on my food, so I consider that a success. For obvious reasons I'm never going to take a job that involves moving a blade rapidly and efficiently near my hands, because that's just not work that I'm physically(mentally? not sure where my disconnect is, but it's somewhere) equipped to safely perform, so it doesn't really matter to me if it's "wrong" or not. This is the first I'm hearing it might be.
Fun fact: the peelers that are now standard because they are the most comfortable and (and work best) were actually designed for people with arthritis. But they work so much better so everyone started using them.
My parents bought a version of the Slap Chop at a mall once. We used it on an onion and it was super dull and got jammed up within seconds. We tried using it again a week or two later after cleaning it and there were still pieces of onion coming out.
Ok in defense of that one, certain peelers work better for certain things, but it's a very niche market. I'm a chef, and I've got several peelers in my kit. Some are better for peeling ginger, some for larger potatoes, some for smaller potatoes, some are heavier duty, some are lighter, etc..
But again that's a really niche market so your point more or less still stands.
I don't know. I trained as a chef and spent about a year working before realizing I made a horrible mistake, that I was way to comfortable and lazy for that type of work and went into academia instead. I peeled my fair share during that year and can comfortable say that a lot of those peelers are simply not fit for purpose.
Have someone plop a 25# case of ginger in front of you and then tell me that there's not a good and bad peeler for it. Or get through 100# of Kennebeck potatoes with a small plastic peeler.
Don't get me wrong there are tons that are useless, made just for show, but there are definitely some types of peelers that are better for some things and worse for others.
No, but mainly because I'm not American and nothing came in pound-sized boxes and I have never touched or eaten a Kennebeck potato.
I don't argue that there is certain peelers that work better for different things. But that is a niche market, and not for the run of the mill potato peelers you buy at the retail store. And those are the ones I'm complaining about.
Radox shower gel. It comes in a little 250ml bottle with a shower hook at the top and a flip cap and non drip release spigot at the bottom.
I have used this stuff for years, it's available everywhere and costs usually a pound or so a bottle, so easy to get etc.
Recently I have found if you leave the flip cap at the bottom open and let the little spigot just sit hung in the shower or whatever it'll oh so slowly drip product in a gossamer thin stream until the bottle is 80% empty.
Now I know I'm not going mad, several of them have done it, various different colours and batches. It's a fault which I believe has been introduced to deliberately waste product so you end up buying more.
It's likely the same with this lysol stuff, only even less well thought out.
I have one of the type in the last link, except with a short bulbous handle that sits in my palm. I think it's meant for people with arthritis.
I have a nerve problem in my back, I drop stuff all the time, but never that peeler. It's brilliant
Not from the same brand. You need several brands to operate under.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I worked in advertising for a few years at the beginning of my career. Didn’t take long for me to see how crazy it was. You have creative directors making wheelbarrows of money by bending over backwards to please clients, surrounded by junior creatives petrified of losing their jobs, who will become yes men and women, working 80-100 hours a week, so tired and wired (alcohol, drugs) they’ll feign rabid enthusiasm over a toilet paper ad idea as long as it means they win the clients. I watched an agency go into a full-blown panic over the client not liking the colour of a bikini in a beer ad rather than address the horrible sexism of the idiotic idea.
I just remembered, doesn't the fact that straight peelers don't have serrated edges bother you? Like sometimes it won't peel because the edge is straight af.
These things are where our labor power goes instead of environmental revitalization, building community resilience, and international humanitarian outreach.
But if the free hand of the market demand's a cloud connected gold encrusted pet spa that is what we should spend our resources on right? The most efficient use of resources? Right?..
Exactly this, every time I see a stupid shitty product or commercial I imagine the entire process. The meetings, emails, discussions, it blows my mind.
iowan · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of all those fishing lures that are designed to catch anglers. I've got a bunch of them :/
At least a few of them are design student projects that they managed to sell. You know the Pedegg? That horrendous foot callous grater? That was originally someone's student design. It was originally made for food.
Yes I'm serious. No, he was not happy when he heard how they marketed it.
Those things, like you see infomercials for, start as small operations. Inventor, a couple of marketing guys, someone to fund it. They're doing direct sales, not going to trade shows and vast consumer testing.
I think about that every time I see an ugly shirt or tie in a thrift store. That went through, like, 19 levels of approval. Someone said, “I really like that, Bob. Put that in the Spring line!”
As far as potato peelers go, there are actually 2 standard designs depending on the direction of the blade: horizontal and vertical. Vertical is usually preferred as it offers a bit more control in the same way that a knife does. Horizontal peelers usually have a wider body which is good for those who have trouble with their grip.
Both get the job done and there just isn't much room for improvement outside ergonomics.
no-mad · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Regular potato peelers work in forward and reverse.
riv92 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha! A bunch of years ago I begrudgingly ordered a potato peeler from someone having a Pampered Chef party. I couldn’t attend the party, and felt guilty not getting anything. So, I just told her over the phone, “you know, I could use another potato peeler.” Well, after a few weeks she calls me and the potato peeler is in! She offers to drive it over to my house, I prepare a check to pay her for it, and GUESS WHAT? It was nothing but a plain old dime store metal cheapo potato peeler. I thought it might be a FANCY potato peeler with like a special ergonomic grip handle or something. Nope! That was the last time I ever ordered something from Pampered Chef!
Jthumm · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried running product development that requires a lot of prototyping and depends on a global supply chain during a pandemic? It's not... easy.
Jthumm · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, and nobody ever throws away the non functional ones because it feels like a waste. They are the utensil equivalent of that uncomfortable worn out pair of underwear you save because they are the emergency when you haven't had time to do laundry.
My point of reference is a toothbrush. Please, engineers and such, move on to something else for the betterment of society. Source: years ago my dentist said I was brushing too hard and he gave me a soft bristled toothbrush. I asked why they sell medium and hard then. His answer: marketing. This stuck with me for more than brushing teeth.
I don't have that much of a problem with that, since it's generally a healthy activity and people like pouring over stuff like that. It's like all the middle aged engineers who buy a super expensive bike and then spends a lot of time buying and/or talking about modifications and gear for cycling. Technically it's a waste, since they could just ride just about any decent bike to work but hey, if they put 10k in every day and race each other it keeps them in shape and healthy.
If you mean the one that looks a little like a razor - blade horizontal- instead of a straight stick with a vertical blade- I believe it is a German design originally, AND it works a whole lot better than the old fashioned one. It’s a PULL, not a push.
Same except also for those little tiny fake succulent plants in a fake mini planter with plastic dirt. The kind someone actually buys and puts on their desk in their cubicle. Someone pitched this item to be sold somewhere. Or it was part of a plan, like Target Dollar Section managers thought “succulents for fall” and sent a teammate to Hong Kong to source out the right factory that could make these limited time dollar section fake succulents for a penny a piece. Someone drew that. Some made the mold. Someone figured out how the plastic dirt snaps into the plastic planter. It was approved or not approved. Changes were made. Thousands of them were made. Then put on a big shipping boat. And then got loaded on trucks across the US for shipping to stores. Someone bought it because it’s just a dollar. Times thousands so target makes money. It sits on their desk until they move or are fired and it ends up in the trash in the landfill where it will be dug up by generations from now and analysts will explore the metal state and nature depravity humanity faced that they needed these support plants.
Yeah, mine are in the bottom of a drawer. Red, Blue Yellow , and Black I think. I have only tried to use them a few times. I have no idea how that man on the commercial uses them so effortlessly. I got a second set for my grown daughter, and she has not used hers either. I feel like such a sucker.
I mean there are actually a lot of stupid commercials that are honestly products for people with disabilities, not really your fully able-bodied human.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say what you say I use my electric potato peeler all the time and it’s the best thing ever. Especially on Thanksgiving
No, they seem to have the same basic functionality with a swiveling blade with a peeling slot in the middle. Never used them myself but they seem to be functional.
This kind of reminds me of our can opener. It’s supposed to a safer model that won’t produce sharp edges. Plus, it looks sexy.
Problem is, it’s not intuitive. We actually had to google how to use it after struggling for an ungodly amount of time. Even after discovering The Way, we still struggled for a bit. Every time we have a house guest or house sitter, we have to text them a video showing how it’s done. We forgot one time, and the house sitter—my brother’s friend—called my brother for help, then just basically said fuck it and bought a new one.
Grown ass adults came up with this design, yet no one can figure it out without instruction. What kind of bullshit is that?
thiosk · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the oxo brand peelers and other implements were designed specifically to aid people with medical conditions like arthritis. The larger handles and soft plastics were helpful for people with these conditions but it turned out a lot of other people liked them too.
They watch their stats to see if sales go up. If you see that commercial for a long time and often, probably that stats are showing increased sales. They don't care if some peeps hate it or not, they just look at the numbers.
I am going to save this not because it funny but i believe it to show case the process of creating a product that i could use later. When i get the idea about invented something.
While I do product development it's not on this huge retail scale that I described here. Take it with a grain of salt.
Also, defiantly try it. There is such an enormous amount of work into even the most basic of products. You know those basic cardboard boxes with styrofoam cutouts that just about everything comes in? That's career in designing those things. Of course you will never do everything yourself and it's a lot of ad-hoc solutions in the beginning. You make prototypes yourself and then you realize why it's a career to to them properly.
You have something that doesn't exist, and you make it so it can be bought in a store. It awesome. Best job in the world (for me at least).
To be fair, we own a potato peeler and we own a good potato peeler. The difference is that the newer one comes with a swiveling peeler and the original is a static metal peeler. That swiveling metal peeler piece literally makes the other one obsolete in comparison. There is actually a significant difference in this example. That being said, I get what you are saying and agree 99% of the time.
When I'm talking about the functional potato peelers I'm talking about the swivel ones, so we are in agreement.
Edit. O shit I didn't realize the classic stainless swivel type were designed and built in Sweden originally. That's why I consider that the "basic" one and strange fixed variants to be strange oddities.
A lot of those products are designed for people with limited mobility that can't use regular tools.
Of course, that doesn't sell. If you market something to people with arthritis or another disability, you're only going to sell it to them and only if they don't have too much pride.
If you market it as some next big fad that will save everyone time, you make a lot more money.
Those designs aren't for you. Most of the redesigned convenience tools (potato peelers, sock holders, magnetic screen doors, gizmos and gadgets) are for people with various disabilities and are designed to make their lives easier.
I can open and close a screen door, no problem. Someone who has to be on crutches going through the magnetic screen door no longer has to juggle their crutches and the door.
My grandmother had wall mounted one that worked flawlessly for 60 years. It was also designed by an former prince of Sweden. I don't much care for our royal family but I will always be thankful for that tin opener. It was really good.
I have been the man standing in the booth. Trying to sell the Black & Decker Expresso Mio, some plastic one cup coffee maker that went into the microwave. It came out of the microwave like a volcano spitting 1000 degree coffee. No one could make it work correctly. Everyone got burns. It's like the hot dog machine in Arrested Development.
We also had Frazier's dad's dog at our booth. He was a very good dog and knew a lot of tricks. He was smart enough to not even try to make a cup of Expresso Mio coffee.
B&D also had the burn your house down griddle then. The dial showed settings between one and ten but that was incorrect. The real settings were off and burning like the face of the sun so hot that your plastic handles will definitely be misshapen.
I never see so many people as booth men who manage to combine both looking dead inside, being surprisingly chipper while also giving a strong "Buy this shit or not I don't care at least there is booze tonight and that skanky looking electrolux girl from two booths over have been giving me horny looks all day"-vibes.
I like to think just looking dead inside is what I aspire to versus chipper. No one has ever accused me of being chipper. Lazy? Sure. Hungover? Plenty of times? Still drunk? A handful of times when I was younger. But chipper? Fuck you very much.
Us boothmen are a sensitive sort. It's salespeople by the way. Boothmen isn't a term.
Us boothmen are a sensitive sort. It's salespeople by the way. Boothmen isn't a term.
I always imagined it was a subset of salespeople, like normal salespeople sat in a nice office somewhere and then they sent a scared intern down the basement to ruse the boothmen when it was tradeshow season.
I have a kitchenaid 'potato peele'r. I use a paring knife for 90% of my peeling, but when I have to peel cukes, carrots, zucchini, or any other long vegetable I reach for the peeler. It's fast and efficient. More people need to learn paring skills because honestly it's relaxing. I just peeled 15 beets, it took less than 10 minutes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol why the fuck would I peel a potato? It's the best part of the potato. When I make shit with potatoes, I just leave the skin on. Surely there's other folks who operate like this. Plus peeling potatoes sucks.
Not once did anybody take the time to stop and say - quote - "Hey, I actually tried to peel a potato with this and it didn't really work... Like at all" - end quote.
Edit. Wrong Carlin, but I will stand by my mistake.
The story behind this is actually pretty cool. Most people used the old kind and thought "this is pretty hard, but it's easier than using a knife." The easier to hold design came about because a designer and his wife were making dinner one day, he asked her to peel potatoes and left to do something else. When he came back he found her crying because she had arthritis and couldn't peel them, so he designed a version she could use. It brings up an interesting design principle: design something for people who will have the hardest time using it and it will probably be easier to use for the whole population.
I'm a young engineer is this is something that genuinely baffles me. Behind every single object is a huge operation. Is there really a design review behind every door knob? Every spatula? Every light bulb? Every pencil holder? There are MILLIONS of these things; different brands, colors, forms, materials, etc. How are there enough engineers 1) quantity-wise, and 2) that are actually interested in these jobs designing the mundane?
I may have this backwards but I thought I was the only one who couldn't use the potato peeler with the blades that are all wobbly. I need that thing to stay still!
I have bought a few carafes or pitchers that are like dribble cups. They are impossible to pour from the pitcher or carafe into a cup or glass. I always think "How hard would it have been to test this? all you need is some water and a glass."
grubas · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best thing I've ever found to peel potatoes is an apple corer/peeler I bought from Chicago's Chinatown for $2 about 7 years ago. It doesn't wibble-wobble like the usual crap ones, so it actually peels a solid strip off, not tiny little bits here and there, and the sharp coring tip makes removing eyes and blight a breeze.
this would be addressed by the engineering design and the "went to QA" part of your post.
However, as your post shows, there are a lot of steps after that and the original product can be horribly disfigured at the end of the process, especially if management is not listening to the engineers.
xHECKx · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It did exactly what it was designed to do. It sold.
I agree with you post, but also want to say the Victorinox rex peeler is one of the best peelers I’ve ever used. I’ve had mine for 10 years plus and it cost like $7.
York93 · 1379 points · Posted at 16:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one, yes! I don’t get it either.
To add a maybe different perspective about the commercials that aren’t extremely terrible but just okay and maybe kinda dumb. You gotta think about “who” they are marketing to. If you think it’s dumb then they probably aren’t marketing to you. A commercial like that would seem dumb to you but really vibe with the intended target audience.
But really there are some commercials out there that boggle my mind with how terrible they are.
Think about it this way: the stupider it is, the more people remember it. If twice as many people remember it, they're bound to get something out of it.
Let's also not forget that brands outsource their marketing to agencies almost exclusively these days. And they will find a cheap agency with quick turnaround who will just get it done. And then they act surprised when their commercial looks and sounds like every other commercial.
ecp001 · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remembering it isn't the same as buying the product. I still remember a commercial from over 50 years ago that had chimps playing drums, the sound track was "Red Rose Tea" repeated for the length of the commercial. Never have and never will buy that product. Don't know how anybody thought that would sell tea.
I think the point is that a lot of commercials are so bland, no one remembers them. I'm sure we have both watched billions of dollars in commercials and have no memory of them or the product.
Intentionally creating really bad commercials isn't a bad strategy.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And the reality is, they don't actually need to market effectively to any market via the commercial to get it on the air. They just need to market the commercial itself to people who decide whether or not to fund it. And that question itself could be based on the merit of the commercial idea or who promises the most personal benefit to the decision makers, and those who win on the latter don't even need actual marketing talent. It's so hard to judge how effective advertising is anyways, they could completely flop but then just argue "it would have been even worse without the ads" when sales don't meet expectations.
Edit: Retracted last point, statistics can give an idea of success related to the ad.
You can get a degree in data analytics. It helps if you know a programming language like R or SAS but it’s not a requirement(at least for my job). Basically you need to have a degree, and be good at math and critical thinking.
Yeah, I'll retract my last point, after the fact success can be measured. But I'll stand by my point that going in, networking plays as much of a role as any merit an ad might have as to whether it gets run in the first place.
madevo · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is all quite false. Especially when it comes to digital advertising,every metric can be measured and is if the company knows what it's doing. They can track everything view time to how many and who went through the full cycle and made a purchase etc.
I think the worst high-budget commercials are a result of either the marketers not actually understanding who they're marketing to, a "don't rock the boat" business culture, or some combination of both.
I can tell you with near certainty the design firms on jobs like that are hamstrung from the jump, plus, 12 middle managers and CEO’s have had their grubby little hands all over it.
cjc160 · 13 points · Posted at 18:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, because you think a commercial is dumb, you noticed it. The ad worked then.
If it was something you were in the market for you now know about it. Mission accomplished
Some people try to bank on notoriety. It doesn't matter if the commercial is good or bad its whether it goes viral and sparks a reaction. Some concept applies to Youtubers.
Well, there’s really nothing to get. It’s exactly like every other job. Someone higher up eventually made a stupid call and everyone below had to go along with it.
I recently did a project for a well known company. 1 million euros it cost to set up a series of films, shot over 8 days. Every single person on set thought that what we were doing was shit. Actors, director, photography director, creatives, production. You name. And I mean, absolutely mind boggling shit. The kind you hope no one sees and you most definitely will never stick in your portfolio. But the client approved the films that way (even when we fought tooth and nail to convince him otherwise). Eventually you just gotta suck it up.
That’s it really. OP seems to assume that everyone making a commercial agrees that what they’re doing is awesome. Truth is, everybody knows when it isn’t. We just can’t say it.
The problem is “who” to market for but also in a time limit like those quick YT ads AND you have to please the rich old dude higher ups who think they know best about ads just because they’re paying for it
The thing you have to remember about commercials is, they don't have to be good. They just have to be memorable. A commercial that's so bad it sticks with you well after you watch it is actually a good commercial. It did its job. You watched the same shitty ad for legal help to the point where you've memorized the phone number involuntarily. Now what happens if later on, you happen to need legal help and you don't have a lawyer? Well, you have that number memorized because of that god awful commercial they keep playing, so you have no choice but to call them
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are entire brands of vehicle I wouldn’t even consider because I would be embarrassed to be associated with their marketing. Chevrolet, for example. Sometimes it’s as though they’re trying to keep you away.
Yep, hence why so many commercials portray men as idiots, women do more of the shopping...
Ehalon · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You gotta think about “who” they are marketing to.
Awesome point, agree totally. Also noticed (apologies if already mentioned, writing before I forget) - do you notice how your brain remembers cheesy, shitty ads? There was a 'thing' I'm sure starting up to 5 years ago about 'Annoyance Ads' - you it annoyed you, but you remembered it.
Neither of these tactics work on me, I'll pay me for a competitor's product than fund these arseholes 'cos I can be REAL petty.
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Ok, so my grandmother regularly tells me to look up or come into the room because "her favorite ad is on," or mentions that they got rid of one she liked, or that this version isn't as funny or whatever. You wouldn't believe the things she actually cares about in them. A bunch of shingles come off a roof in an animation and turn into a bird, a woman does a horribly cringy over- exaggerated "oopsie" face, they show a dog for 1 second in a car ad.
So not only are these marketing people getting my gram, but now they're getting me, because gram forced me to watch it. hahaha
York93 · 2 points · Posted at 13:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a car ad where a dog gets in a canoe and goes down a river, and you bet your ass I've seen that ad like 100 times now hahaha. And she loves it just as much every time
Edit: It's a welcome break when we're watching two hours of Covid news though
If you think it’s dumb then they probably aren’t marketing to you.
That's it, exactly.
sadwer · 2 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to know the people who the Quiznos hamsters were marketed to. I just know I haven't been in a Quiznos in like 15 years and if I were looking to franchise a sub place, they'd be at the bottom of my list.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I bet avoid adverts much more than most people. So if I do see an add that turns me off a product I am pretty aware of it , and it just doesn't have to be an add , it could be something stupid said by the company or someone from the company .
If you see a commercial a lot, it's because it works. Which means it's not a bad ad. An ad isn't made to be art, but to create action. Some are made to be "art" but that's only to create some action in themselves. It's all about connecting an idea to an audience.
Isn't it really hard to market to a certain, specific demographic though? Like peanut butter on a piece of bread, the further you spread it, the thinner it gets. If a commercial is going to be shown to a large audience, a company has to make it as professional and boring as possible to not offend as many possible customers. When you try to have a commercial trying to reach a specific demographic, it doesn't always attract the audience you're actually trying to convince to buy your product. An example of these are commercials for restaurants, general goods and everyday items. Being friendly with a simple slogan to attract pretty much everyone, but a commercial for something like call of duty is attempting to reach a mature audience that still play video games but in reality they are reaching younger kids and teenagers that can't actually buy the game because they are too young for an M rated game and their parents have to buy it even though they think it's dumb.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might be jumping in at the wrong end here but I think advertisements aren't really designed to "make sense". Quite the opposite, in fact.
I think they're meant to trigger an emotional response and bypass the conscious part of your mind. They're meant to insert an image or thought into your mind without your realising it at all.
The "dumber" the advertisement is probably the better it works. It just sinks into your mind without triggering any conscious argument against the product.
One thing I have never understood as long as I've lived is commercials and TV shows that use babies and toddler-aged kids that can barely talk to promote the product or create hype on the show. Remember America's Funniest Home Videos back in the 90s, where all you needed to win the $10K or even the grand prize on the "all-star" shows a few times a year, was a video of a baby falling asleep on their high chair? And when you were watching the three finalists and one of the videos was a baby falling asleep you just KNEW that one was going to win? Everyone I knew thought it was obnoxious.
Car dealerships and local businesses using kids that definitely aren't old enough to understand the words they're saying in their commercials, and then whatever they're saying sounds like mush. Everyone I knew thought they were incredibly dumb, even parents of young kids. In some cases, they even found it exploitative. Even people with severe baby fever hated those commercials.
I didn't meet anyone who found this cute or endearing until I worked with a bunch of older women, and by then I was almost 30. I was genuinely curious why the older women found it cute and they said "It just is!" No real answer. That's not a very large market either, and throughout my whole life most people I know have found them annoying, so why do they keep existing?
I always find it fun to try and figure out which demographic is actually being targeted with ads that seem dumb or out-of-place. It's most obvious on broadcast/cable TV which personally I don't use so I'm only exposed occasionally at social gatherings and what not. Consider though the "dumb" ads that you see across multiple channels and for extended periods of time. Sure sometimes that might just be poor management decisions getting stuck in contracts and failing to recognize the failure of the ad, but other times what seems hilariously dumb to you might actually be a runaway success driving business from the target demographics.
In a world now so thoroughly saturated with precisely targeted ads I think a lot of people have forgotten (or never even known) a world in which targeting was primarily a question of print vs broadcast, and picking a publication/area/production in that medium whose audience most closely matched the target demographics for the ad.
“Holy shit, put my diary back where you found it.” I love this and would like to thank you for not replying, “this.” I’m not sure why but I don’t like people who do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you keep seeing an ad no matter how bad it is, it means it's working
Now that's a commercial that would really get my attention
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One professor of semiotics once told me that if I don't understand or don't like one ad, I'm probably out of the target group. He showed the class some ads and explained them to us. Great lesson, but obviously some ads are still badly done.
Those commercials that are just two people screaming at each other in annoying voices! Why?? I'm not even going to hear the product because I'm scrambling as fast as possible to turn it off. Who could that possibly be for?
I can somewhat explain this. Creative people with talent don’t want to make commercials. Many of them obviously do, but anyone who can make their career work without doing “hack work” does it, and many people turn it down even if the pay is good. Or they phone it in and save their best effort for more creative projects. Consequently, you end up with commercials made by people who either aren’t the best at what they do, or aren’t doing their best.
The other factor is that the non-creatives who manage budgets often don’t appreciate the time and expense that goes into making even a short commercial, and force people to cut corners.
sudonem · 276 points · Posted at 17:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also clients are bullshit.
They say they want truly creative work, but when you actually present it they are too chickenshit to actually take a risk, so instead what you get is watered down milk toast variations on concepts they’ve already done in the past.
But ultimately you’ve got to pay the bills so there’s only so much fighting for your work you can do before you just have to say “fuck it” and let the client have their boring ass project.
To be fair, “milk, toast” is basically the epitome of boring. Almost as perfect in the picture it paints of a moment and a life as Nabokov’s famous “picnic, lightning.”
If you're gonna hit him with the "well akshually", you should know that the name "milquetoast" actually came from a term before that comic existed, which was "milk toast".
This is the real answer. "Creative people don't want to make commercials" is total bullshit, I've worked in advertising for over a decade and there are tons of creative people. The entire process is broken, unless you have the rare relationship where the client just trusts the agency and lets them make what they want to, but that doesn't happen anymore. It gets watered down 50 times, then the client has to put their mark on it and changes some core aspect making it total garbage.
Yeah. That’s why I left and now work in the film industry. I still work on commercials and advertising campaigns from time to time, but I get to focus on my little world (which is largely on set color grading) so my client interaction is now down to a minimum.
I would love to do that. I've been off for 2 years looking after a baby but I'm a digital strategist. I've filled my time with developing a game, but if that doesn't work out, I really don't want to go back to the same stuff.
Well counterpoint - I’m effectively unemployed until further notice because every single production has been put on indefinite hiatus or cancelled until the health crisis passes.
I miss being a digital strategist sometimes, you get to learn the most about what's going on, you find things the client isn't able to see because they're too close to see. Then you get to be the point person throughout the project. I miss that feeling, but not long hours, asshole clients and dickhead coworkers...
BBS- · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. A lot of creative people want to make commercials. Getting into the the creative department of an ad agency is incredibly hard, because so many people want want to work in one.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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sudonem · 4 points · Posted at 18:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
“Well, no, no. You don’t have to be waving. That was just what they did. You guys can be clapping. Sitting. Standing outside, inside, whatever. This is where you really get to be creative.”
Can you get them to admit they don't mean it before actually doing the work?
Perhaps give them a few examples of successful creative ads (Brawndo, Old Spice) and some examples of creative unsuccessful ads, and ask if they really want to take a chance.
As already stated, the trouble is that even if you only have one client contact, it ends up becoming design by committee because each of the client’s internal stakeholders end up needing to have input.
Not because they have any perspective or qualifications, but because dick swinging is necessary within the corporate structure.
Because of that their ideas are dumb/bad and out of touch with the entire context of the campaign so things get watered down.
To be fair, no matter how good or creative the work ends up being, someone somewhere will write a letter or an email and complain, and the client has to deal with that, not the agency.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brand equity I rate. 1 wrong step and you're a global trend with millions trashing your brand.
Look at Gillette. Bold idea... Backfired.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that has a lot more to do with it than anything else. I've done music for some commercials, so it's my only perspective. The musicians who work in that field are ultra talented, but you're not hearing the best of what was pitched...just the watered down version that the non-musician clients could all agree on
It's this 100%. There's a reason all car lot ads sound the same.
2rio2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea, from experience the clients often have the terrible ideas and feedback too that make the commercials such a bad experience to watch... but shockingly it still works in many cases. The human mind is much more of a sponge to information than people want to admit. Just lodging a product in enough minds has enormous payout opportunity.
This is one of the things I love about working in direct response advertising. The whole attitude is "I don't give a shit what it is, I only care if it makes me more money". So you test stuff, no opinions required, it's a good ad if it sells a lot, numbers don't lie
And most of the time, what works is a no nonsense ad of someone taking to the camera about what the product is.
There's some more creative ones but it's mostly more old school advertising like "this detergent will make your clothes cleaner... Thats it"
Obviously still lots of bullshit around but way less than traditional advertising, from what I've seen
Ehalon · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
too chickenshit to actually take a risk
Absolutely, hence why there are some truly stunningly creative ads out there that we all remember - I guess before CEOs were also bean counters (accountants - don't know if this phrase is known outside of the UK..).
P.S. - Yes, Gary Oldman is playing all the parts except the Devil. Yes, including Danny Treju and James Brown (like how Gary is intentionally slurring so they can bullshit James 'What The Fuck is He Saying' Brown as to why they need subtitles! I'm guessing...but I think it was done.
Yep. I didn't work in ad for very long, but one instance that stood out to me when I did was when our creative director was on the line with Miller discussing our Cinco De Mayo pitch. Miller claimed they wanted something culturally significant for the Hispanic market and our 95% Hispanic team put together something they were all proud of. We couldn't hear the other side of the call, but on our side we just hear the CD saying "Then just say you want the usual tits and ass. Why beat around the bush, you just want the tits and ass. No, we will get you your usual tits and ass." followed by the phone slamming down and a barrage of Spanish cursing. I think we just Photoshopped the Miller logo into a stock photo of big breasted Spanish women on a boat and they couldn't have been more thrilled with our creative genius.
That might be true at the lowest end of commercial production, but make mistake there are very talented creatives in all aspects of commercial filmmaking, and yes we do it because we enjoy it. The problem is the clients who ruin every single good idea with their egos and poor taste. Clients are also afraid to take creative risks so they reign in good ideas until they are safe and boring.
I certainly don’t mean to impugn the reputations of people in commercial production. There are tons of talented people doing great work out there and they deserve to be praised.
I work in a different creative field (music) and I completely understand. You can have all the best ideas and intentions in the world, but if the client wants you to play “The Chicken Dance” at their wedding... you gotta play it.
I used to do client video work and I stopped because the client tended to want a product that was worse than the product I made.
A common thing I noticed is the creative minds to direct, shoot, edit, and do post production on a video of any kind, has the expertise and education on knowing what is good and what is bad for their content.
At the end of the day the client tends to ask for all these changes that end up making the video worse.
I made a music video once and the band gave me 62 different alterations they wanted changed to the video. After that, I had to alter my contracts to add a clause that forced them to pay more per revision.
I can see why people hate working with clients. They don't know what's best for their brand.
There's also another factor. Humans are creatures of habit, and we find familiarity comforting. We all know breaking habits is hard, that takes a damned good advert, but building familiarity is easy. So a lot of the time adverts really don't need to be good, they're not trying to convince you to go out and buy right away, they just need to get into your head a little bit; because when you're out shopping you buy whatever feels familiar, and that's probably whatever you've seen the most ads for lately, even if they're a bit shit.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there is people being stupid. Look at some of the most upvoted "funny" or "jokes" posts. I think to myself, "Really? I'd feel so much shame if I had that idea, let alone followed up to build it into a meme." Like, adult cat next to kitten, text is, "Me, just trying to hold the flashlight for my dad." Yeah, we all relate to that, but seventy billion upvotes? Yep.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not true at all. There are some extremely sophisticated high budget ad agencies out there. Talented people with interest in advertising would be working to get into these glamorous companies.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 17:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of it is just rote repetition of their brand. Not unlike Pavlov's dog.
It doesn't have to be intelligent, it just has to link an image to a message.
Keep in mind that market research is a big part of that. It’s also members of the public watching it and giving feedback to say “yes, this is a great ad” or even “here’s what I think would make it better” and that can also influence it.
Lots of peoples opinions go into making these shitty commercials. That makes it even scarier.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My degree is in marketing, although I've never used it in my professional life.
The answer is two fold-- the first is simple and it's the same way bad movies get made. Higher-ups who have no idea what they're doing get involved. You ever have a manager who didn't know fuck all about the job but got there by being well connected or well liked or a good manager? Marketing is no different.
The second is that there is this theory in some marketing circles that a bad ad is just as effective as a good ad, maybe more so. People just have to remember the ad, and the product, for whatever reason, for it to be a successful ad. So some commercials are made bad on purpose, because then you'll remember it, think about it, make fun of it with your friends, and then the next time you're in the store, just maybe that product will still be in your mind. Because very few people really research the basic items they buy, their choices aren't conscious ones.
"I need a new car, I don't know the names of any car dealers, wait what's that one that has the super annoying guy yelling in the commercials, we were talking about how much we hated those the other day, that's the only name I know, I'll go there" and all of that is thought in about 3 seconds. And most people won't go "nah I ain't buying that toilet paper, they had that cringey commercial."
I'm not saying I buy into that theory necessarily, but that's the idea behind some of these terrible annoying ads you see and hear.
Yea, I was gunna comment on that too. If they were a good manager, they'd stay the fuck out of the way and let the people hired to do the work do the work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simply having a recognizable brand is worth so much.
McDonalds ads may be forgettable as fuck, but 9/10 people who want a quick burger in a new town are gonna choose the familiarity of a Big Mac over a local burger place they don't know.
Yeah if the theory is true, it obviously doesn't work for every brand in every situation. I honestly don't think McDonald's needs to advertise aggressively at all anymore, just a few spots, a catchy jingle every now and then, and a giant M on a poll to keep them in people's minds.
Marketing for McDonald's(edit: in the U.S.) would be the easiest job in the field.
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but that's the idea behind some of these terrible annoying ads you see and hear.
I buy it. Especially for local TV ads. Those fucking jingles.
I work in advertising. I'm a creative director who has done spots that have run during the Super Bowl.
Here's how it happens:
Communication is an art, not a science. Which means there's no 1 + 1 = 2. There's no proof that Concept A will actually be better than Concept B unless you produce both and run both under the exact same conditions. Everything is based on opinions. Far too often the person paying the bills has the opinion that carries more weight. The problem is the person paying the bills is not an expert in communication and tapping into human behavior and emotions. The people sitting across form the guy paying the bills have the better taste and the expertise.
Most advertising suffers from too much wanting to be said. Volvos are safe. Porsches are fast. That's about all you get to say. Try telling that to an advertiser. "What do you mean I only get to say one thing?! I paid $5M for this 30 seconds on the Super Bowl and I have five things to say. Ok. Fine. Go ahead. We can do that for you. We get paid the same either way. People will just tune you out.
People are herd animals. They want to blend in. In the wild you do not want to be the impala that is noticed by the cheetah. Well, advertising works the opposite way. You want to stand out. You want to be noticed. Your ad should feel different from second 1. But nope. That's not where marketer's instincts lead them. They get uncomfortable standing out. I go into work every day and I try to sell my clients a grey suit when they know everyone else is going to show up to the same party in a blue suit. And what do my clients say? "Gimme a blue suit."
Advertising can suffer massively from the overthink. If you're launching a rocket and the numbers add up and you know it will work you don't go back and examine that decision. But in advertising since its all subjective people stew over it and try to figure out the gaps or why their grandmother doesn't get it, or any number of problems that aren't even problems or aren't even there in the first place. Everyone is scared of making the Peloton spot where the fat wife is forced to ride the bike so she can continue to look good for her man. (That's how that commercial was perceived.) It takes balls to tell people "Pencils down. We all loved this concept when it was first presented and that's how the public will respond to it as well."
Our fractured attention spans has made advertisers nervous to the point of being neurotic so they do stupid stuff like super logos and pack too much information into spots. They listen to MBAs who think that you have to mention the product in the first three seconds or half of the people will never remember what's advertised. Each one of these smaller decisions adds up and affects the final ad. After I sell a concept through I tell myself that it is now time to protect it from the Wolves of Worry. I know that I have to win more battles than I lose if the spot is still going to be any good.
There is a massive amount of market parody out there which means many times the only difference between the market category leader and the brand languishing in 5th place is marketing. And guess what? There's a ton of money between those two places. Which then means marketing is looked at by everyone—the CEO, the CFO, the entire friggin C suite even though they haven't a clue about how advertising works, the shareholders, etc. etc. etc. etc. All of which just ratchets up the pressure and makes otherwise normal, sane people second guess every decision.
This is perhaps a little derivative of some of the things above but because advertising is an art people often think they can do just as well as the people who come up with the stuff that they see on TV. What they don't realize is that the creative team has been given a strategy that's screwed up, a timeline that's too compressed, the client wants to say eight things and has a whole laundry list of arbitrary restrictions ("I don't like funny." "You can't use the color purple." "My daughter would be great in this spot." "I don't know this Lady Gaga you speak of."). People can confuse themselves that just because they have 800 fonts on their computer and Photoshop that they also can be creative. Ridiculous. That's like me buying a chef's knife and calling myself a chef.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 16:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one’s pretty easy. Every great commercial is made by a few dedicated people. Every shitty commercial is usually made by a committee. The horse/camel committee thing is very real. In a committee, no one has absolute responsibility for “Is this thing going to be GOOD?”
All of the really shitty commercials usually aren't that involved. It's like 2 people from the business (one of them is sometimes "marketing") interfacing with a low budget production company that will just shoot whatever to make the client happy.
"We're trying to sell insurance.......how can we do that?! I know, let's take our mascot/figurehead lady, have a bunch of random guys try to hit on her, and in order to drive them away our Lady will immediately start talking about insurance! And don't forget to make it extra awkward! And include at least 1-2 shots of someone making an awkward/uncomfortable face! EPIC LEL!!"
--progressive commercial. Does anyone actually watch those commercials and go, "yep, I'm buying insurance now!"
That's not the point of commercials. The fact that you remember the gist of it instead of forgetting it means it was successful in being memorable. You may not necessarily be sold by it in the immediate present, but mere-exposure effect is a thing. So next time you go out shopping for insurance, you might not think "Man I'm gonna get Progressive cause their ads are so convincing", but you're more likely to get it because "Oh, I've heard a lot about them" because you're more familiar with them.
Now this might not be true in your personal case, but it might be in others. Looking back, I know there are moments where I was influenced to certain brands over others just because I've heard more about it. And I'm sure I'm influenced in ways I'm not aware of right now as well.
York93 · 5 points · Posted at 18:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
877-CASH NOOOOOOOOOWWWW!!
Man I hate those commercial but I sure know who I’m calling
You were just thinking of progressive while writing that, so the ad worked. Everyone who read it now thought of progressive so it worked even more than expected. Ad companies realize that absurd and unintuitive segments can be more effective than a seemingly practical one.
Absurd and unintuitive segments could easily be funny if commercial writers were any good. It would also make it twice as memorable. I’ve always wanted to write a good, memorable, funny commercial.
Exactly. This is why the funniest commercials are for products that don't have traditional competition. Insurance is all...kind of the same. Bad thing happens, company pays money based on terms and conditions.
Macrobreweries are the same. It would take little time and money to find out which of the following you like the most: Bud, Coors, Miller, Corona, and Keystone. They can't really advertise on quality because, they are all pretty similar. Whichever one you like is the one you like...but they need to keep in your and other potential consumers' heads. So, they make funny memorable commercials.
The ads aren't to sell insurance directly. Progressive is too big for that to work. Just like Coca Cola, the ads are to keep the name in public culture so people always know the name. Then when you're actually looking to switch insurance, what's in your mind? Progressive.
You're not gonna think about an ad for insurance. But as long as their company name is rolling around up there, you'll be googling it for quotes which is where they'll sell you.
Ah yes, early on I'm your commercial you say soft mattresses are bad but then you go on a huge campaign about how your mattresses are so soft you can throw eggs taped to people at them
It’s the fact that there are so many people involved. Often you start out with a decent concept but so many people get to approve the idea and give notes at every stage of the process that you end up with a horrifying Frankenstein version of the original concept. And often the people at the highest level of the approval process are the ones with the stupidest ideas and worst taste.
Source: I’m a commercial director.
Commercials don’t have to be necessarily good, they just have to stick in your subconscious mind. Sometimes a crappy commercial can be more effective than a good one.
All those "extra helpless/dumb" commercial people who seem to have issues with, and need a gadget for, the most simple things are really marketing something for disabled people. Snuggies were invented for people in wheelchairs. Electric jar opener? People who only have one hand or no grip/mobility in their hands. Clap on lights? People who are unable to get to the light switch. Slap-Chopper? Again, one hand/poor mobility in hands/tremors.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is kind of related.i live in India and cable here is absolute s h i t it's like a fucking Mexican mudslide that a bunch of people would be good to air on television.And it's not like it's one channel that has doo doo shows. EVERY SINGLE CHANNEL HAS FUCKING THE SAME CONCEPT AND THOSE CRINGY AS EFFECTS.thank god I have access to the internet tho.
Stupid sells unfortunately. Either way their goal is to grab your attention. Honestly I think the more stupid and ridiculous the commercial, the more you’ll remember it. Even though I can’t stand the commercials, here I am 10 years later, remembering every single frame of the Snuggie commercial. It’s forever engraved in my mind lol.
A group of grown ass people sat around a table somewhere and discussed how they want to promote their brand.
Answer: one grown ass person, either dominant in power or the money earner and they hired an external company to shoot their idea. At least that's how it is in our place!
To make people talk about it. Ever wondered why companies like Coca Cola invest millions in ads all over the place despite their brand name being the second most recognized word worldwide after "Okay"? Because they want you to think about Coke as often as possible.
Stupid commercials do the same thing, but differently. Not all companies have Coca Cola level budgets, so they need to make a commercial stupid enough so people will talk about it for months, years or even decades. Did you ever had a friend saying: "Do you remember that stupid-ass XYZ commercial from the 90s?". Yeah, and because it was so stupid, it is still in your head 30 years later.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 17:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
They just want you to talk about and remember the brand. That’s all. If you talk to your friends about shitty commercials they’ve reached their goal. Eventually, you’ll be in a store and subconsciously pick that brand because the name is stuck in your head. How it got there doesn’t matter.
But let's be honest: We remember the dumb or annoying ads way better than the good ones, right? So they kind of work I guess.
BFerda · 2 points · Posted at 18:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can answer this. Generally it’s design by committee, when you have 5-6 people all trying to get their ideas out there, there’s no central idea or vision which means everyone has to compromise. What comes of this is a commercial where there are 6 half-hearted ideas or themes that get smashed into a terrible mess. Not to shit on marketing people, but generally they’re not the most creative either and I find have issues relinquishing creative control even when their ideas are bad. That’s just my experience working in the creative + marketing industry.
Maybe the point is not to make a good commercial but to simply annoy you so that you remember the product. Sometimes the only strategy of marketing is making you remember the product weather it is good or bad. Then when simply seeing the product and recognising it there is a bigger chance of you buying it
Those people work for a person who has bad taste and that's the person who ultimately approves. They keep their jobs by ingratiating themselves with the boss.
Well you thought about it didn’t you? They want you to pay attention to their product and a ridiculous commercial is pretty effective at getting attention
Most of the time it’s crazy how little ‘teamwork’ goes into the decision.
Mostly I find it’s like this “big boss A wants this, middle boss B has read our ideas and decided to go for what they think is best. Employee C says that’s crap but gets overruled by middle boss B whose sucking up to big boss A who then blames the chain when it goes wrong”
Me after watching the commercial about the red bear dancing and bragging about his clean hiney.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AH yeah it's right there in your description. Committees tend to settle on mediocrity because everyone feels compelled to have a little bit of input. Probably everybody on the committee thought it sucked but it was the only thing that would get approved.
My good friend and business partner is a professional film and commercial editor, you have 100% seen something he's worked on...he doesn't understand how they get approved either. We've talked about it at length.
What about the commercials that are literally just advertising something like a grocery store, we will never just stop buying food, we sorta need it to live, at least advertise a sale or something, not just the damn store
As someone who works in video and marketing, a lot of grown ass people are dumb, hence the dumb commercials. Honestly, to make something good almost happens by accident with the perfect combination of not as many super dumb people.
But really, you have to imagine all of the budget restrictions, old people leading companies who don’t know a thing about video or trends or social media making all the decisions, and the general lack of any organization that goes into most projects and products. It really is a miracle that anything works.
Same thing in youtube. All the cringy clickbaiters haven't been banned yet, even though they break (in the case of german laws) actual laws, like baiting people into buying something by giving an direct buying order.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because remember the exaggerated scenarios, and discuss them.
So it is working.
patna2 · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes the most ridiculous commercials get pinned as the ones that air because they are the ones that make you go "Who made that?" which causes you to remember their brand.
a-r-c · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then they sent it back to the group of grown ass people, who sat around the same table watching the shitty commercial before agreeing that it's sending the exact message they want about their brand.
more like those people got it back and were like "well, we fucking paid for this already" and run it if they don't think it'll hurt them
I don't understand how some marketing team who probably went to Harvard for their degrees make such shitty stuff and the company approves it....
Like low-key I feel like I could make something better
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I don't know but I will just assume that you only saw the obvious message while there is another message hidden that tagets your subconscious mind.
I am just saying.
I make a living out of making commercials, and the commercials that make it on tv are those that paid to be there, and commercials don’t have to be appealing to be succcessful. You might not be part of the target market
Love the ones where I don’t even know what product they’re promoting. Somehow that made it through all this and no one thought to say, what the hell are we selling?
Hey! I make commercials. The worst ones are usually because we haven’t been given much budget to work with. But there definitely are some clients that give us a brief and we’re like wow, you really want that?
I think it has to do with brand recognition. You're more likely to buy products from brands you recognise. As long as the ads are stupid, but juuuust not bad enough for you to change the channel - they're doing their job.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You deserve a follow for this, an upvote don't do justice for bringing this to light.
I think it’s more the hitting that’s supposed to be fun, not the being hit. Obviously it’s a bit different with asking Steve-O ‘cos he’s famous from Jackass, the person wants a cool story (Steve-O kicked me in the balls!).
An important note, when hitting your mates in the balls, you’re supposed to do it lightly, it’s about the reaction, not trying to cause them permanent damage. Of course that might happen accidentally anyway but people doing it don’t generally realise that.
My boyfriend at the time, was asleep on my parents living room floor, and my niece was roughly 5-6years old and she was playing with a 5lb weight, and dropped it on my boyfriends head. He sat straight up holding his nose and yelled "SON OF A" before he heard the little pitter patter of her feet running away from him. We are married now, and my niece is 24, he still won't let her live it down.
I had a girlfriend once try to wind me up by pretending to hit me in the nuts. Unfortunately, she ended up actually doing it, and it turns out that my immediate and entirely reflexive reaction to that was to smack her straight in the solar plexus with the heel of my hand. I'm 6'2" and she was 5'0". So that's the story of the only time in the last 20 years that I've hit anyone.
[deleted] · 110 points · Posted at 19:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a bit unrelated to balls, but when i was in 5th grade, imitating spitting sounds was trendy in my class. so i decided to imitate spitting into a girls ear. you guessed it - i had actually spit in her ear. shit like this happens often.
When I was about 8 this kid named Dylan spit a huge loogie onto my forehead. It was entirely by accident. I still remember what that guy looks like as a kid 21 years later. I also have a huge phobia of saliva and spit noises. Thanks a lot, Dylan.
Some stupid boy in middle school named Tyler cut a lock of my hair because it landed on his desk. I punched him (still the only punch I have ever thrown).
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some stupid girl in middle school quickly super glued her entire hand to my face because she thought “it’d be funny”. I hid her glasses in my desk. They may still be there to this day. Then I hit her solar plex.
Technically, is a point in the body behind the stomach with a nerve cluster in it. It’s also used to refer to a point that sits just below the rib cage
She was. I presume that she still is, but I've not seen her for several years. She might, however, have grown since then (which is admittedly unlikely as she was in her late twenties last time I saw her).
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:22:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No, to hit means to strike, not to kill, unless you are a mafioso...
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 19:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was 9 years old I kicked my dad in the nuts after the Giants lost in the Superbowl against Baltimore. I'm quite certain he wanted to do something similar to me.
drlqnr · 132 points · Posted at 15:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i once hit myself in the nuts with my phone to stay awake in class
Holy shit I thought I was the only one dumb enough to put hand sanitizer in my eyes. I was scared to get smoked for going to medical for pink eye and being accused of trying get out of things. Weirdly glad that I'm not alone in this.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Air Force here, we just sniffed the hand sanitizer instead of.. putting it in our eyeballs? Wtf.
I was AF too lol, maybe I'm just a dumb one. I was very sleep deprived and tired of getting beat.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:32:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brother, we were all tired. Lmao. I was also a cop and still didn’t put that shit in my eyes.
**but I still love you and if you ever need someone to talk to I’m here. Not because of the sani in the eyes, but in general.
Heard that man. Those words came at the perfect time, weirdly enough. Love you brother, I'm here for you as well. I'd offer you some Purell but the hoarders took em all lol
Twist: the phone was a Nokia and he now has insomnia.
siirka · 15 points · Posted at 20:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when I’m laying down on my phone distracted my cat steps directly on my balls it’s so annoying lmao. She’s chunky too so that just makes it worse
My 2 yr old son once hit his dad in the nuts when he was laying on the couch and dad reflexively kicked him across the couch. Came out of the bedroom to him comforting our son while still groaning over being hit in the nuts.
the other day i was sleeping i my bed, like i always do at night. now my bed is right next to a small 2 stair staircase with pretty wide steps. my dog, little richard, comes walking along to snuggle up in bed with me at 3 am and hops up onto the bed from the step. hops right onto my balls while im dead asleep. i jumped up so quick, poor little ricky went flying across the room.
moral of the story; you will hurt the ones you love (even if it's by accident) if they surprise you with a hit in the balls.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:46:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my buddies clocked me in the nuts so fuckin hard I almost puked and my vision started to blacken
Kids' limbs are naturally drawn to testicles. My goddamn nephews will be walking around on the couch and climbing on me, and every few seconds, one of their feet will land on my nuts. I love them to death, but I'm gonna be pretty mad if I can't have kids of my own because of them.
I don't think you could top me every time I'm at a restaurant and some snotty little fuck keeps turning around in his booth and looks me in the eye as he wipes his nose on his hand, then shoves his whole fucking hand in his mouth while I'm trying to enjoy my god damn chicken sandwich
True, they live in the 8th floor and I think it’s be classed as premeditated if we get in the lift, knock on a someone’s door and throw her from their balcony.
When I was like 12 I told my 6 year old brother to punch some adult in the nuts at a wedding cause I didn’t like his vibe. It was a whole thing but my bro never gave me up.
There was this kid I knew back in highschool who I don't think quite understood the ball tap thing. He used to just kinda grab at your dick or balls. Always avoided that guy.
I don't think consent matters that much in certain cases. If I consent to get killed and you kill me, you're still liable, right? Or like, if we arrange to chop off my arm and then eat it like that cannibal in Germany a few years back, that's still a no-no legally, I think.
And of course, there are also cases where "I had too much to drink and couldn't consent". If consensual sex under the influence is rape, then a consensual nutshot is probably assault.
And finally, maybe all you have to do is prove a pattern. If you can prove that Steve-o is a mentally unstable weirdo (easy, he was in Jackass) who has a history of kicking strangers' nuts (also very easy apparently), then that should be enough for a settlement or something.
Source: I've watched 9 seasons of Suits, so you might say I'm a bit of an expert on legal matters.
sin0822 · 61 points · Posted at 17:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you can consent to getting hit, look at sports and things like BDSM. There is a reasonable limit to what you can and cant consent to.
So this is actually an interesting point - BDSM is illegal in a lot of states and people do periodically face criminal charges over it, even when all parties agree it was consensual.
But this is the difference between battery in a criminal context and a civil one: for a civil tort of battery, the contact is required to be non-consensual. For criminal charges, that's not the case.
It's not infallible in the slightest, since you would also probably need to show a pattern of behavior that he did this to strangers without their consent. Why would he just kick a random person in the nuts?
Second, I'm assuming this is out in public, with witnesses. So, you know, corroboration.
An intentional tort like battery requires “harmful or offensive conduct” where offensive means the person touched did not consent. Battery requires the specific intent to make that offensive conduct occur. Because the person kicked here specifically asked and consented to it, there would be no tort claim for battery. You’d have no civil case.
You might be able to press charges if the state in which you are kicked has a statute that says a person is guilty just from intentionally causing bodily injury to another (usually simple assault). But again, that would be up to the prosecutor to pursue those charges, and I don’t believe either a judge or a jury would side with a complainant who asked the defendant specifically to inflict the injury for which he’s being tried.
I think you’d lose pretty easily both cases. The civil case might even get your lawyer sanctioned for bringing a frivolous suit
Unless, and this is a big caveat, there was some history of Steve O kicking fans in the nuts, and every fan kind of had the same experience, but in this one instance Steve O went above and beyond in kicking you. Like he kicked you harder than all the other times he’s done it, and it became unreasonable for a fan to expect that kind of strength of kick or reaction from Steve O. But even then I think it’s a losing case.
Plus, Steve O is worth like, $2.5 mil. I'm sure he has access to some pretty good lawyers who would definitely inform him if consensual ball busting was a liability.
Consent doesn't matter for criminal actions, but it does matter for civil ones. You're conflating the two here. Steve-o would definitely still face potential criminal charges, but, the non-consensual nature of the offensive contact is a foundational element for a civil tort.
I admit that I am one of those people (although up until now I haven't really done anything with it so far). I totally get that it must be a weird thing if you aren't into it yourself
I'm openly gay but not at all feminine. My coworkers and buddies do this all the time. I think it's just one of those locker room, dude-type activities that you can't rationalize more than 'boys being boys'.
I only bring up the fact that I'm gay to reinforce that (most) guys don't just tap other guy's dicks out of pleasure. It's just to mess around or to get them back. When I get my friends, they don't see it as a 'grope' or a slick advance. It's all in good fun.
Now, I did find something interesting. There have been a few instances where dudes come out the fuckin wood works to hit my nuts. Like super 'straight' dudes that I wouldn't have otherwise thought would play around like that. Much less with me, especially if I don't know them that well. My theory is that they test their bicuriosity on me because they feel more comfortable knowing I'm a guy who's openly gay but not outright with it. I tend not to sack-tap these guys back because I don't want them to get the wrong idea. But admittedly, when they do it to me I just let it happen. If they wanna grab my dick to fulfill their fantasy, so be it. It kinda fulfills mine so...it works out.
My husband and one of his best friends. They met the first time at a 3rd friends house using his home gym. Husband is bench pressing.. friend reached down and tags him in the nuts. Husband finishes his set. Stands up. And pastes the guy right in the face.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
They became good friends over the years. But his buddy never again tried to hit him in the nuts.
A guy did this to me in highschool and I blacked out and hit my head on the pavement and needed stitches. It was worst pain I have ever experienced in my life and I wanted to kill that fucker so bad. He avoided me for a long time after that lol. I would not wish that pain on anyone.
My friends and I played a game called "nut ball." I don't remember if somebody saw it somewhere or we just invented it;
basically you sit spread eagle in a circle with your legs touching, about 5 or 6 people. Somebody starts with the ball, which is a bachi (spelling) ball. You can't hit the person directly next to you, but you are allowed to toss or roll the ball to anybody else. You lose when you tap out. It sounds barbaric (and it is), but it plays out like a game of diplomacy.
Back in my freshman year of highschool we had very long game of ball tap that lasted for about 3-4 months. We would find each other in the hallway and try and hit each other in the balls and then run off. Pretty fun.
God. You just reminded me how often I'd get kicked, kneed or punched in the nuts growing up, I hated it so much, and I've never been able to successfully get anybody back no matter how hard I tried, everyone seemed to have a form of defense or I'd always miss. god dammit.
effinx · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On a side note the jackass crew has a couple great VERY nsfw movies that are completely insane. I remember one part of one was Steve-o tried to see how many times Ryan Dunn can choke him until he passes out in one day. Forget the names of them but one of the crazier ones is a Steve-O movie called "PCP saved my life".
Prob won't find them on YouTube but just Google jackass movies or some shit and the lesser known, not Hollywood ones should pop up too.
Edit: One movie follows them on tge jackass tour. Those dudes used to party like rock stars. Knoxville was only one not really in the movies.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys who like to roughhouse are always looking to "wrestle". With Steve-O it's just sort of the iconic thing, and being able to say he kicked you in the nuts is the same as getting Aaron Paul to call you a Bitch.
LASC33 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing with the guys who like to pants other guys in public. This always used to happen at high school football games and it was some of the least fun I've ever had.
i did this a year back, it’s the adrenaline rush. it’s either you get hit and are in pain or you’re safe, it’s a legitimately fun competitive experience.
When I was on deployment, they flew some random celebrities including Wee Man onto our ship. I didn’t get to see it, but apparently Wee Man walker by some guy who was standing at attention and punched him in the balls. Not sure if it was preplanned or completely unexpected, but by all accounts, it was the single greatest moment of that guy’s life.
When I was in middle school, pretty much all the guys in my p.e. class had this ongoing game of getting hit in the balls. One dude got hit so hard he had to get medical attention and that was pretty much the end of that game.
Whaling motherfuckers in the nuts is a game you get into for fun, and stay in for the revenge.
The rule in my squad back when we were doing it was that you could only nut shot people that had done it before, either to you or someone else.
I got my friend for the first time when we were drinking together, then he returned the favor by swinging a full Pert Plus bottle into my coin purse when he was walking back from the showers.
I have two brothers. It's funny to hit your brother in the nuts, and it is funny to watch your other brother get punched in the nuts. There isn't a logic to it, it's just funny when you are 6 and stays funny when you are an adult. At the end of the day there isn't any actual harm and it feels fine a few minutes later.
It is because it is so nice when the pain stops. Not like I have done it. Totally not. Only idiots do you that. It is because I imagine it would be like that.
Plmr87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get the whole Jackass thing being successful. Watch if once, you get the hole idea. Did similar stuff as kids, grew out of it. Don’t get it
A fun story I have is there was this time in high school choir, the funny thing about our men’s chorus was that we behaved exactly like a football locker room, so we’d do nut taps and shit like that. Now as somebody explained earlier it’s supposed to be playful, it’s about the reaction you get rather than the pain itself. Well, there was this weird kid that was in the JV men’s chorus and none of us really knew him that well, he was just weird. So weird, I guess, that he went up to one of the dudes in the Varsity chorus and full on UPPERCUTS him. He immediately collapsed on the floor writhing in pain for like 15 minutes. Everybody was like “bro wtf why’d you do that??” Then the following day our choir director made him write a note of apology, the dude in response crumpled up and threw it away.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's also a competitive thing of the, "I can handle more pain than you can", variety.
My brother and I do this to each other, the way we play it is not to actually hurt each other but to tap just enough that it startles you but doesn't actually cause pain. I think that the most similar thing is the rush you get on a roller coaster, you have to surprise each other. It's pretty fun though.
Nuts not so much, but my friends and I are fairly aggressive with each other. All in good fun. It's not uncommon for us to wrestle, or smack each other around a bit. It's just the caveman brain coming out.
I remember having nothing to fucking do at all for a week in Afghanistan. No missions, no gear to clean (didn’t stop us though), no patrols, and no electricity for porn.
We started throwing rocks at each other and trying to dodge. Eventually we got so bored of that we stopped dodging altogether and just let each other hit us with rocks.
It's an underhanded way of caressing another man's balls without looking like a queer?
SigaVa · 1 points · Posted at 13:37:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the unexpectedness of it. My friends and I used to do stuff like this, like snap a rubber band on someone's arm when they aren't paying attention.
Its funny, and the person it's done to is laughing just as much as anyone else. But I can't explain it.
wait I was actually being sarcastic... I mean, of course this could be a kink for someone. Honestly I don’t understand it either but unless it’s causing harm to someone else I’m generally not interested by other people’s kinks
I try to explain to my friends that (for some reason) still think its funny, it's all fun and games until someone has to have emergency surgery.
Testicles are capable of royally fucking themselves up without the help of some slap-happy douche punching them.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't understand boys' from my school behavior. despite being highly homophobic, they often started to imitate sex with each other.
they could attack a boy for wearing a pink shirt or having long hair, but they don't see a problem with forcing a guy to bend over and imitating frictions.
they were still doing it in 11th grade - they were 17-18 years old.
what the fuck?
MCCGuy · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a radical way to announce you're not the alpha, but the one standing in front of you is. Which, if we lived in a primitive society, would actually help you if you're not as strong and still want to get a female to breed with. By announcing you do not wish to threat the leader, you're under his protection
I have emotions, I experience emotions, but they don't permeate every part of my life, and I often think everyone else is overly emotional, when it's probably me just lacking emotional range...
Edit: The empathy thing. I do understand empathy and I act with the knowledge that I should do things based on how I want people to treat me (the golden rule) but it's not emotionally driven, it just seems ludicrous that someone wouldn't behave that way.
Also, I know it's cliche but thank you for my first gold! I thought this comment would just get buried.
It's not that I don't experience it, it's that I don't exaggerate it enough for people to believe I feel it.
A decision was made, something contrary to what was expected happened and we can't change it. All we can do is fix the problem. Should I start crying? Would that help?
Exactly. I do have emotions and empathy. I care about people and my friends but if there is nothing that can be done then its not worth worrying over and if one can't move on, identify why. Some people find my attitude rather cold as when its not someone I know personally I generally don't get any emotional response from their issues or experiences other than a recognition of what it means. Ideally I would love a world where everyone can have a happy life and have no problems. However since the realities of the world make this impossible and there is much suffering, there is no point in me getting upset or emotional over problems or issues of strangers unless they are relevant to me or are made more real to me.
Unfortunately it is common that even though there is nothing that can be done, people can get upset with the lack of response, interpreting it as lack of care towards them or others. My go to strategy now is when my friends have problems, I given them the option of whether they want me to answer how I actually would with rational thought or whether they want me to do empathetic like responses for them. So far my friends who seem to be more emotionally expressive have preferred the second option and is what they are actually looking for when they complain or vent about their issues or problems as it gives a better feeling for them that someone cares about them. However this second option is harder for me to do and takes work, but for my friends who I realize experience empathy and emotions differently from me I try to do this for them. Its interesting because for me my way of showing I care for them is to do my best to solve their issue with them which if I didn't care I wouldn't put any effort into and would be indifferent towards.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 22:10:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't feel bad. It took me a embarrassingly long time as well. Fortunately I surrounded myself around people who were either like me or could understand/accept me and not get upset over such things so it isn't so much of a problem now, and the fact that I'm trying to understand them as well helps. But you're right. People don't seem want to solve the issue and just want to feel supported by someone or feel someone is with them. It is hard to pick the words and force myself to say things that would make them feel better. Especially because its the opposite of what I would do. If I had to work with someone and they started to vent on me and I wasn't their friend I would give these responses because I don't particularly care and just say what they want to hear like, "that must be rough", or "I know how you feel" so I can move on. So its really weird when this is a general version of what my friends want to hear because for me this is basically my way of not really caring or being invested. I will say that the one very empathetic friend I managed to maintain ties with taught me a lot about how such people think. Ironically this was a result of him being very upset at me because I didn't meet his empathy expectations for how he thought I would respond. We managed to understand each other but that said, dealing with such people is still very difficult overall.
The worst scenario however is when a person is venting and the answer/response they are looking for from you is to say that their situation was justified and not of their own doing, even if it isn't the case at all. In these situations I can't go along with what they want to hear on principle because I don't want to lead them down a bad path, but trying to tell them logically what I think can anger them because its not what they want to hear. Usually people who do this though don't stay in my social circle long because of our personality differences.
I know exactly what you mean. For example, I just cant seem to care about people dying duo to COVID-19. When i said this to a friend of mine, he was shocked how “cold” I was.
How deeply have you thought about it though? It's difficult to get real empathy going for abstract people, it's just numbers. If you think a bit more about who they might have been, the people who loved them, the things they might have gone through or felt. Empathy tends to come from being able to imagine an individuals experience.
Honestly I try not to most of the time which I'm sure is the same for everyone else. It would be crippling otherwise.
Should affective empathy work on people you don't know and can't see? Like I truly don't care when people I don't know die in some remote event, but I'm normally empathetic with people that are around me. My mom and sister seem to get actually sad when there is a killing, but I don't know how much everyone is pretending because the truth is I don't care.
Excessive affective empathy complicate ones life unnecessarily. I assisted someone with cognitive empathy for years. I’d much rather have not been wired with empathy than suffer with the overload. Ironically just as one can train your brain for cognitive empathy one trains self control on empathy. Interacting emotionally with someone that does not have affective empathy helps toughens you up. The sooner the better.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 07:06:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is in someways just becoming objective in order to resolve the crisis and then dealing with my own emotions later.
I got that skill from being abused. Shutting off for survival through the episode. Problem is I ruminate afterwards. There can be some cognitive dissonance and depression.
Easier to be resilient when younger or other aspects of life are in balance.
Yes, I agree. I started feeling empathy after I had my son. I also became less self centered. What started this change was if I heard about somebody in distress or even losing a family member I (involuntarily) imagined it would be my little son or my family and the feeling was suddenly very painful. I think empathy is to some extent learned like you suggest.
Another change is I now also take pleasure in pleasing or helping other people or strangers.
So I was not planning to have a kid, but having a kid opened me up to other people and I'm happy I did in so many ways because I feel more relaxed and happier with who I am as a person.
No, that is actually exactly what I mean. I care about people who are dying to the virus of course because I don't want people to die. I think everyone should have a fulfilling life, therefore I care about the world's population as a whole. However I don't feel anything towards them specifically when I hear about how many people are dying. I acknowledge that it sucks and the current situation is bad and the loss of all these people is regrettable and unfortunate but since I don't know any of these people who are dead or sick and don't have a path to relate it to me I don't feel anything substantial. Again, to be clear this doesn't mean I don't care. If I could help all these people I of course would do so because I care about human life.
On a side note, what I find interesting is that some of the people who appear really empathetic and profess to care greatly about people and get strong emotional reactions towards suffering of others, I have also observed to be some of the most aggressive towards hating specific groups or categories of people, or specific people. I think it comes from their desire to want to help people and therefore they feel the need to attack others who they perceive as to blame. Its unfortunate.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:33:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yes I do think that that can also certainly be part of it. People naturally want to feel they are in the right so they will find ways to justify their behavior by putting themselves on the moral high ground when their true motive is elsewhere.
Perhaps I'm wrong since we would have to ask them again to be sure, but the fact that they said "I know exactly what you mean" implied to me that they agreed with my statement about caring about people, just that they can't seem to get the feeling of caring or emotional response from it for people dying to it right now. Perhaps /u/LaBarney will clarify their statement.
When people die, I dont get emotional. I just dont. Its natural, part of the world, and the only certain thing that comes to us all on one way or another. Regardless of the cause of death or my connection to the dying. Without getting too personal, there were recent deaths in my family as well, as well as deadly illnesses. It didnt make me sad, but rather inconvenient. I try to be more companionate towards people, but I almost have to force my self to do it
Not getting personally upset about strangers dying is perfectly normal. You can have empathy towards their family's situation without currently feeling the same feelings. Empathy is about understanding what someone else is going through, because you've experienced similar emotions before.
Your problem is that you don't seem to experience those emotions at all, even when it's somebody close to you. Therefore, you can't feel empathy towards others in that situation.
That isn't really normal.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and no. It is very difficult to try and intentionally put myself in a situation and get an emotional response that I otherwise wouldn't naturally get. However it is completely possible for me to have a emotional response and be able to cry for other people even though it is rare. It just depends on how well it resonates with myself or how real it feels to me, which can be very hit and miss. I like history and while reading up on it I come across many cases in history where large numbers of people died yet I feel nothing. Again, not that I don't care, but I just acknowledge what happened and move on. For example, the siege of Leningrad and its toll on the local populace. Rationally I realize that it must have been horrible for those people and what they went through but I don't feel anything beyond a very basic level of simply acknowledging that it happened and that it was horrible. Reading first hand accounts can occasionally brings out such feelings depending on how its written. If its their account of stating events and things that happened, it wont do much. However if they go into detail about how they feel, their experiences and reactions to the events, and its consequences to them, it is more likely. Being able to see videos generally has a greater chance however to bring out emotional feelings however if I can't form any attachments to the people or fail to empathize with their situation I generally don't feel much either, if at all. Usually there has to be some form of emotion behind the video the my brain is then able to latch onto and relate with. I will say it certainly helps greatly though to experience it using the most senses possible. Movies can do a much better job at bringing out my empathetic/emotional side depending on the story since they combine visuals, music, but most importantly personal experiences as seen through the characters which the movie puts effort into making you feel for them and care for them. I should also note that the circumstances can matter when it comes to such things. Certainly types of scenarios are more likely to make me feel for those involved.
Using this virus for example, learning basic statistics of deaths has no real emotion behind it. It sucks and I know for some people that it is very real and painful to them however an emotional response doesn't come to me naturally other than acknowledgement of their situation. I saw some pictures the other day about mass grave sites because of the virus. However this is just a fact and truth of the situation, when people die they have to go somewhere, there isn't emotional response behind people putting wooden boxes of people in the ground. I know that those people had lives and desires but there isn't anything more to it. Even if this was a video it wouldn't have been different. All people die eventually and there is no point to get worked up over it without a good reason. However if instead this were a funeral for example and there was a mother crying over the loss of her son with some other personal story, if I am able to latch onto it then this has a higher chance of getting an emotional response from me. However this can also have no effect at all. For example those commercials on TV sometimes that try to make you feel for abused animals or some other cause. They have the visuals, the music and the personal stories, however I often just don't feel anything. It sucks that there are people or animals who are in such situations however it is what it is. I guess my brain realizes that it can't care about everyone and everything and is selective. Generally though the more information about their personal thoughts/situation, the more intimately I can know them, the better the chance of me being able to feel empathy.
I do think emotions play a important role in society though. Emotions like anger or disgust and particular situations can create a pretty strong drive for people to want to change how things are or what caused a issue. I believe that emotional responses can be irrational and dangerous but it is also important I feel to recognize the positives they can bring to society.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 01:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
My apologies. My affective empathy is pretty poor most of the time and also very selective. Last month while I was waiting in line to hand in some paperwork there was a person crying about some situation they were in. Regrettably I didn't feel anything for them. As I had to listen it became clear that the person they were talking to wasn't going to be able to help them and their emotional outburst was seemingly pointless as they tried to convince the other person to bend the rules.
However even if I know the person crying my general first reaction is to think about how to help their situation and help them rather than feel directly for what they are experiencing. This is what I mean by I care for them but can't feel empathy for them. If I see someone helpless I will help them if I can and helping doesn't appear to pose a risk to myself but again, I don't feel their emotions personally.
Also correct me if I'm wrong but are you trying to say that I should be able to feel the exact emotions that I see on other people? For example if someone is scared, I feel scared, or if they are in pain, that I too would naturally feel pain?
Just commenting after following this chain that I'm pretty similar to you with how my empathy goes. Guess I just wanted to say your not the soulless robot/machine/sociopath that society would sometimes try and make of someone who says they have little empathy like this.
At the end of the day my rationale goes will worrying or getting emotional about this help solve the problem if not then getting emotional just doesn't seem to be the right answer.
Ofc if one of my family members or close friends die or gets kidnapped yes I'll be distraught and try and comfort others dealing with it.
Agreed. It is unfortunate that bad things happen but it is the reality of the world we live in. I used to have a lot more negative thoughts towards the fact that this is how I am, however I learned to accept that it is just a different way of viewing the world and that it has its advantages. I do wonder though if sometimes people are simply telling themselves that they care and feel for all these people and what they actually mean is how we experience it but they are just in a way lying to themselves to feel better.
One of my friends is definitely capable of feeling a lot of empathy though and before we met he was mostly surrounded by people like himself and had never come across someone like myself. He asked me at some point specifically, what the fuck is wrong with me. He did seem to make me out to be this soulless machine kind of thing you mentioned at first. At the same time I was wondering why he was so impulsive and crazy, doing things without thinking it through first. We had a lot of disagreements before we came to understand that we both had very different ways of thinking. I'm glad I decided not to drop him as a friend as I learned a lot about people like him and how to deal with them. Interestingly he's a musician which I feel tends to attract people who are more emotional.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What drives me to help people is a sense of duty and the feeling that we should do what we can to help someone when they are in direct need as we are all human and survive better working together. I'm not religious nor do I do it out of joy. Certainly sometimes there is a good feeling in having helped afterwards but it is not required. I see it as a obligation to do so and I don't think I'm a better person for having helped anyone, its just simply what people should do. Admittedly I myself generally don't go out of my way to help people unless I personally see them in need. Otherwise it feels too detached and I don't have the energy or drive to do anything (probably due to my limited emotions),but when I do see it personally, I feel obligated to help since I'm there.
I used the word regrettably because I recognize that it is likely not a normal reaction to feel nothing towards them. I do wish that I was more capable of experiencing such emotions more naturally as I feel like part of my humanity is missing when I don't. I still don't have any feeling towards that person, my regret is purely selfish in nature in that I feel bad for not having such feelings.
My therapist is the opposite of me and has the capability to have strong affective empathy and she says that she will immediately feel for people she sees in such states. However I can personally say such things are rare for me.
[deleted] · 28 points · Posted at 21:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait. You're really telling me you're sad because a random dude died 5000 miles away from you which you never knew and never will know anything about except him dying from covid19.
How do you live? There are thousabd of ppl dying every minute. Children starving to death. Animals getting tortured in tiny boxes. Animals getting slaughtered in line because they taste good.
If i really opened my empathy for this I had to kill myself. It was hard for me to learn not to care about this stuff because it made me want to kill people around me for their cruelty to everything around them.
I am, and to be honest I find it hard to live a lot of the time. I have been suicidal many times. It paralyzes me if I think about all the suffering in the world too much. I go into these deep dives sometimes and I can't get out of them without help. Luckily I have access a lot of help. I have very good friends. And a life insurance policy for the family that would be void if I killed myself.
I don't understand how people balance it. I know people who care deeply about things like I do but it doesn't cripple them and I want to know how they do it. I think part of it is focusing on the good things and grabbing ad much joy as we can out of every day. But sometimes it just feels impossible to do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Thats why i dont eat animals, cause i really feel the pain they suffer, and cannot understand why someone simply ignore it cause of taste.
Its weird cause i dont fell the same thinking about children starving to dead... or people dying from covid-19.
Are you able explain why you do this? I just don’t understand. I mean, I understand the concept of crying when someone you love dies, but I just have this huge disconnect as to how it feels. I can’t figure the point of crying. Or most emotions, really.
Where does it come from? Why do you do it? Do you wish you would cry less? Do many people you know cry a lot?
When you’re happy do you do stupid things? Do you jump up and down? Hug people?
Do you feel a connection to people you’ve never met? Or do you just empathize with their situation?
Sorry for all the questions. I just don’t understand.
I can't really explain it, but I'm going to take the funerals of my late grandfather as an example, if that can help.
I wasn't exactly sad when the cremation started (the staff comes and takes away the casket). But my grandmother was devastated, and she clung onto the coffin for a bit, as it was being carried away. That did it for me. I just imagined how hard it was for her, having known this man for practically 60 years, having loved him, taken care of him when he got sick, watched him raise their children, still watched over him after he fell down the stairs, seeing him fall victim to Alzheimer forgetting more and more every day that went by, going to visit him every day and never losing hope... I just tried getting in her shoes, losing someone she loved, and with whom she had been living for so long. I wasn't sad for myself, I wasn't sad for losing my own grandpa, I was sad that everyone else had to live through this and feel this pain and sadness.
I'm going to try and answer your questions, but it's a bit hard.
Where does it come from? Why do you do it? Do you wish you would cry less? Do many people you know cry a lot?
I actually wish I could cry more, but for myself and my own situations. It feels good to cry, it's a stress reliever. Sometimes I'll just watch a video of something sad happening, on YouTube, and feel instantly better afterwards. Empathy helps me take care of emotional issues I can't take care of myself.
My family is pretty average when it comes to crying. My mother is way too caring so she tries to hide it but I can tell when she's frustrated. I think she tries to put our happiness before her own and that makes me sad too.
When you’re happy do you do stupid things? Do you jump up and down? Hug people?
The downside with this is that I don't know when I'm truly happy either. I get excited for things, sure, but happiness is so fleeting it's hard to really pin-point it. I can't really answer this question.
Do you feel a connection to people you’ve never met? Or do you just empathize with their situation?
It really depends on the situation. I'll be happy for people, as long as they don't flaunt around. I'll be sad for people, as long as it's not mindless complaining (e.g. "ugh I only got €500 from my parents this Christmas instead of the usual €1000, it sucks being poor").
I feel connections to strangers, because everyone is fascinating. Everyone has different lives, different surroundings, different friends and families and that makes them special, so when something bad happens to them, the repercussions it has on everything else in their lives make me shudder, it's hard to describe accurately...
Thank you for answering. I’m always trying to figure out why people do certain things and this helps.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm kind of the same way tbh. I've cried over things I heard about on the news, like a kid dying in a terror attack or something. Whenever I hear about 9/11 or one of the countless horrible things that happened in WWII it can potentially change my mood for hours where I just can't stop thinking of what it must've been like for someone in that situation. It's hard to explain, especially since even though I know how it'll make me feel there's always something that makes me keep looking like I need to know more even if it hurts. This isn't always the case, though. (Also, movies can make me feel this way, and I do feel like I'm more likely to cry watching a sad movie that my friends) (Also, I'm a guy btw).
I know you didn't ask me, but I just wanna share this.
Personally, people called me sensitive a lot in elementary school since I'd cry a lot as a result of bullying. It wasn't like I was being punched (only happened once) or had my lunch money stolen. Like, if someone just called me stupid, made fun of me for things I liked, etc. I could cry. Or it could happen if I felt trapped in a situation where I was forced to share something I knew people would make fun of me for.
Now, I'm not quite like that anymore. However, if I see someone else being treated unfairly whether it's because of their race, gender, whatever I feel like I have to do or say something about it. It really boils my blood. I don't know why I've apparently always been sensitive and I honestly didn't even realize I was always this way until recently. Still not sure. I've heard about it just being a trait some people are born with or something.
Do I feel a connection with people I've never met? Sometimes. Like, if I see someone in public I may notice their expression whether it's happy or sad and my mind might wander trying to guess what made them feel that way. If they're happy or laughing at something I might smile a bit and feel happy inside too.
If they seem sad I'll feel bad for them and almost wish I could do something to cheer them up. There's also the thing where if someone genuinely angers me, which really only happens if someone refuses to listen to me or is being an asshole to someone else or to me, I might get angry and raise my voice only to start feeling like I'm about to cry for getting so upset at them.
Sorry for all this. Just felt like venting I guess.
Vent all you want! I like to understand why people do things and this helps to figure it all out.
I want to ask a couple more questions and they’re going to make me sound like an ass, but I’m genuinely trying to understand.
Like, if I see someone in public I may notice their expression whether it's happy or sad and my mind might wander trying to guess what made them feel that way. If they're happy or laughing at something I might smile a bit and feel happy inside too.
Why do you care? Is there something that makes you say “I wonder what they’re happy about?” Are you trying to feel happy through them? Or are you happy that they’re happy? If it’s the latter, why does it matter to you?
For me, when someone dies, it’s kinda like nothing changed. One day they’re there and now they’re not, so just move on. I realize this sounds crass, but it’s just how my brain works. Is this the same for you? Does it impact your everyday life? If it does, is it because of grief that you miss them or because they actually died?
And love is a big one. Don’t really get that either. I mean, I care in the sense that I don’t want people to be sick or hurt but everyone makes it sound like so much more. Is there “feeling” or sensation I should be experiencing? Platonically, Some people say it’s warm or a glow, or that they feel close. I always imagined that there should be some kind of pull that says “yes, I love this person (platonically or romantically).” Is this a thing?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really "choose" to care about a random stranger. It really just happens. I don't completely understand it either, but when I see someone happy sometimes that is what makes me happy, even when I may not be. It's weird. I guess it's just seeing someone else having a good time and it reminding you of when you were having a good time.
I've had a few relatively close people pass away in recent years and I responded differently to them. For the first, I was completely afraid of walking up to see their body and was legitimately shaking and fighting back tears. I didn't want to be there at all. It really only affected me that bad during the viewing and funeral.
For the other person, I looked at them in the casket but I didn't cry. It was like I wanted to fight back tears but they weren't really coming out anyway. It could be because I was slightly closer to the other person or it just wasnt affecting me as much anymore, but I'm not sure. In both cases, though, I partly was forcing myself not to cry because I didn't want people to see me like that, even if it was a perfectly reasonable situation to cry in.
Afterward, I didn't think too much about them. It feels weird not having those people around anymore but it doesn't completely cloud my thoughts all the time. Thinking about them now doesn't really bother me either, though it is still kinda sad I'll never see them again (at least I hope there's a heaven where I can, but who knows?). It doesn't mess up my day thinking about them, which I guess can be surprising. I imagine it's a lot worse losing a parent, a sibling, or a close friend, though. In my case I didn't see these people every day, so it may have been easier to accept. I've heard of people falling into depression because of that, and I assume it's the inability to accept that they'll never be able to laugh, play games, go places, share stories, etc. with that person like they used to; the feeling that part of their life is always missing and they can't ever get it back, I guess.
As far as love goes, I haven't really been in a relationship to really be able to say much about that. Most I've gotten is feeling a strong connection to a girl I haven't really talked to much (so basically a crush), which I guess is because of the assumption that she's like me in some way and I therefore want to know her personally. And by strong feeling I mean legitimately shaking in their presence because you're afraid to come across as off-putting, which is kinda funny tbh. In some cases, it turned out they were surprisingly a lot like me, which is very strange to me too since it's like I somehow knew they were like me. I guess a lot of people feel so attached to someone else because they feel like that person really understands them and they can share their personal feelings with them and all that, whereas with friends you may not feel as comfortable unless you're super close.
This stuff is interesting to me too, honestly, which is why I'm sharing it. I think it's just hard to wrap our heads around people who think and react differently because we only have experience with what goes on in our own heads while people rarely open up about what's going on in theirs.
I wanted to address this even though I am not OP. I am an overly empathic person. I feel what I think others feel or can feel really bad if I think I made someone unhappy about something. It drives me crazy and no matter how hard I work at it I can't NOT care about other people. It's like my brain is hardwired to make others happy and to truly understand other peoples emotions. Take torture as an example. Even though I know that it isn't real, just actors, my brain interprets it as real and intelectually I know this happens for real somewhere in some way. I feel really bad, get a physical reaction (get cold, shivery and a really bad case of "get the hell out of here" feeling.)This only happens when there is a torturer, a person who purposely inflicts pain, and not if someone gets injured. I have absolutely no problem with blood and gore.
Love for me is a feeling of safety, of wanting to be around them and have them in my life, experience them as a person and gratitude for having them in my life. Physically I feel energized or relaxed, and feel a need to be around them (like how you feel the need for shelter or warmth). I also feel afraid of loosing them and sometimes if I can't get a hold of them, I get horrible anxiety about them being in trouble, dead or in pain.
Like you said, there seems to be something that constantly makes me wonder how people are and how they are feeling. I feel the need to make everyone happy because I am so in touch with my own feelings and just instinctly KNOW how that would feel if I felt it my self. My theory is that empathy comes partly from memory, both in the mind and body. My body remembers very well and can always "imagine" what this and that must feel like. Same with the brain and mental pain. I remember how it hurts to get your heart broken, how it feels when you feel jealousy, fear or rejection, misunderstood, hopelessness etc. I FEEL a lot often, so I guess it is hardwired as fresh memory. Grief for me is immense sadness for not having someone in my life and/or empathy for how their (other) loved ones must feel. Seing my grandmother crushed at my grandfather's funeral is what broke me, not so much sadness for not having him around anymore. I just saw how her life will be a hell during the grieving and how she has to live on with constantly wishing he was there. My body imagined and thus felt the emotions she had.
So to sum up, it definitely sounds like you are missing out on some amazing feelings, but at the same time you don't get crippled by bad or overwhelming emotions. I really wish I had some of your "drain/shield/sieve" or whatever. Honestly am a little jealous (case in point).
I really wish I had some of your "drain/shield/sieve" or whatever. Honestly am a little jealous (case in point).
It’s funny because I feel the same way about your emotions. In my case, it seems like I’m missing out on a lot of things. For example, I’ve never felt the need to be around people. I actually can’t spend too much time around others or it drives me completely insane and I end up irrationally hating that person. I’ve never truly experienced loss and I don’t feel a super strong connection to anyone (even my parents). I mean, I love them, I guess. I’m not affectionate and hate when people touch me in any capacity. I can do a quick handshake or hug when the situation calls for it, but that’s it.
I’ve never had an emotional reaction to a movie (except a super sad animal movie. Talking about you Hachi) and I don’t think I’ve ever had an emotional reaction in response to a tragic event.
This will sound strange, but the only time I’ve ever felt the warm/safe feeling you described was in a dream. My grandfather gave me a hug and it was literally the only time I felt a surge of emotion like that. Everything else is just kind of dull or nonexistent.
I would recommend building upon that feeling you get when you watch Hachi doing his thing. Can you imagine getting this feeling about something else? Nurture it! Why did you feel that way about hachi? And I'm not especially recommending drugs here, but I find that these feling or belonging and closeness to life is expanded when I drink or try weed. It enhances things you never knew about yourself. Just sit down and read about something heavy, like a parents love and loss, about an animals loyalty, about a sibling need to protects their siblings. I think you will feel something. Think about how they would feel. Elaborate about how it would be to lose this person forever. To never get to talk with them again. Think about this seriously: Who is the most important person for you? If that is yourself, how would you feel if someone wanted to really hurt you, out of spite, vengeance or whatever.
It’s very strange because I don’t feel close to anyone.
Who’s the most important person in my life?
I’d say I don’t really have one. Everyone’s equally as close/distant in my mind. There’s not much difference between my parents and a stranger on the street.
As for myself, I don’t really care what happens. I know this particular thought is part of my depression, but I really don’t care if I get sick or hurt. If someone wanted to do those things to me than they must have a reason. Even if that reason is because they felt like it. I wouldn’t say I’m a pacifist, but I just don’t care? There’s no point in getting angry or getting into a fight, it’s just going to hurt me in the end.
The only connection I feel is to my dogs which is why I cried during Hachi. I have a higher emotional connection to animals than I do people, but it’s still a very loose one.
For example, I lost my dog of 16 years when I was like 17. Obviously, I had basically grown up with him. I was there when he was put down and I just kind of was like “okay, he’s gone.”
However, he did happen to give me a little insight into other people. I came home one day and expected to see him come running towards me. Obviously, he didn’t. I didn’t feel sad, but I had the weirdest experience. This will sound stupid, but I swear I could feel my brain miss firing. Like it just couldn’t make a connection. I wasn’t upset and I remember thinking “Huh, my brain can’t make the connection that he’s not here. This must be why people cry.”
So, it’s kind of strange.
xxggmm · 2 points · Posted at 05:10:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
have nothing to add but just wanted to say i empathize (lol) with all of this, esp. about how thinking about how something bad happening in the news can just affect your mood for hours. i remember when the sandy hook shooting happened and i’m not even american but i spent hours just sobbing in my bed. i know there are worse things even in the world but i still can’t think about it too much now or i’ll get so sad.
Evolutionarily, the point of strong emotions is mostly that they can ellicit a very real, physical reaction. Feeling fear causes a chain of chemical reactions that preps your body to run or fight, for example. Hugging is just a physical manifestation of joy or love, it prompts the release of chemicals that bond you to other humans, which in turn prompts you to do thing like put yourself in danger to protect the future generation or group as a whole.
Dont confuse the physical reaction as being equivalent to the emotion. Hugging is just one way to express joy or love. Perhaps for you the physical expression looks more like hand crafted presents, picking up extra chores, or cooking a nice meal. Physical manifestations of emotion vary wildly from person to person, but they're all valid. And besides, we've all seen someone smile when they're angry, or clap for someone they hate. Emoting physically is not the same as emotion.
Yes, I guess that’s true. I’ve hugged people at funerals because A) I’m supposed to and B) because it’s supposed to help them feel better. And I’ve done this even though I’m not sad.
Do you think a lack of physical affection has an effect on a lack of emotional range? For example, I really really don’t like to be touched. I can deal with it on special occasions, like a quick handshake or a quick hug, but not on a day to day basis. I wonder if this compounds my lack of connection to people.
xxggmm · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’m not the person you responded to but i have the exact same “issue” and honestly people are built differently and can’t help it, the way you can’t help how you are. it’s a physically reaction for me. i mirror and pick up on people’s physical cues a lot - if someone smiles and talks high pitched when they talk to me, i instinctively smile and do the same. and so when they cry or are sad, i’m the same way. i cry at the end of cooking competitions when someone gets eliminated from the show and they’re crying from sadness, i cry when someone wins and they’re crying from happiness. as for what’s the point - there isn’t a point because it’s not something i intend. though i do enjoy fictional movies where i feel intense empathy, bc feeling emotion while there isn’t any “real” suffering often feels cleansing and clarifying for me. but witnessing real people’s real pain is horrible. i remember hearing my moms voice when she learned her mom had died and i never want to relive it.
i have a question for you actually. do you “see the point” of happiness? or is it only negative emotions that you don’t see the point of?
if you’re really interested in the purpose of emotions, that’s probably for an evolutionary psychologist to answer. a lot of mammals feel and express emotion, so there has to be a pretty fundamental biological reason for it.
i have a question for you actually. do you “see the point” of happiness? or is it only negative emotions that you don’t see the point of?
I understand the concept and I get why people do certain things to become happy. I just don’t believe I will ever experience it the way most people do. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not an emotionless zombie - I laugh, joke, smile, etc. like everyone else. But do I think I’ve ever experienced real happiness? No. For me it’s as dull and very fleeting as every other emotion.
I’ll see if I can describe it with an example. I’ll go to a party for a special event. Everyone there is happy - excited to see people, happy at the occasion, maybe proud of a person for some accomplishment. For me it’s just a gathering of people I know on an occasion that pretty much happens all the time. I’ll laugh and joke and help out with cooking and cleaning; I can mingle. I know whats expected of me to do/say and I follow the protocol. The rules of social interaction guide me more than anything - greet people (I often position myself so no physical affection happens), make a joke, be polite, offer to help, small talk. But there’s really no emotion behind it for me. I don’t experience the same closeness to people, I think. So for me, going to a wedding or a graduation party for family is the same as attending one of these events as a stranger. You know what you’re supposed to do and how to act, but there’s no connection and it’s kinda awkward.
Another example would be the closeness you’d experience with another family member. I have aunt whom we see every week and we invite each other over for all sorts of special occasions. When I’m sick she brings me food and in return I do the same. I guess you would say we’re “close”. But tomorrow, (and I don’t want this to happen) if she were to die, nothing would change for me. I wouldn’t miss her and I wouldn’t feel bad. I know this makes me sound like an ass, but it’s just how my brain works. She was there and now she’s not. End of story.
Hope this helps answer your question.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cry when I’m happy too
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Skiinky · 47 points · Posted at 21:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Strong emotions shut down the logic centre of the brain; humans cannot make logical decisions when they are feeling things strongly. Thankfully, most people are aware of this on some level, and so when something happens that makes them feel bad they take time out to process it, so that they can come back to the situation with a clear head. If someone in the situation is unaffected by the emotion, especially if it's perceived that they should be affected by it, it can be hard to trust that they are making clear and logical decisions. Also the decisions being made are likely not to make a lot of sense to the person who is feeling strong emotions. Empathy is so important because it signals to the person feeling bad that what they are feeling is natural and ok, and that you understand it, which can help them process faster. It also fosters a feeling of trust that the empathetic person can see past the emotion and make logical decisions that the person feeling bad would have made anyway, allowing the break taken to process things to be shorter. If the empathy step is skipped and someone just keeps pushing for a certain solution they will add more negative emotions such as distrust, suspicion, loss of control, and confusion. This will often cause the person feeling bad to resist, making the situation more difficult overall than if space for processing feelings had been provided.
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Skiinky · 12 points · Posted at 21:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes obviously groups that are used to each other and working together will have different emotional responses than groups of acquaintance or strangers. But even among people who have been through stress together a lack of empathy can feel like the person who is feeling bad is a less important part of the group because their "stupid emotions got in the way again" (actual thing I've been told before) when actually emotions can be very helpful indicators of what to do or not to do in situations. And yes there are times when they go into overdrive and take over, which is especially an issue in time sensitive situations, I'm not denying that. But a consistent lack of empathy among people who work together a lot can feel akin to gaslighting, and talking about it after often makes it worse as people like that tend to justify why they did what they did rather than actually express empathy or engage in empathetic behaviours.
Basically there is no one-size-fits-all, but the example I gave in my original comment was why empathy can be so important, which you didn't seem to understand how it ever could be. Your approach seemed to be "empathy isn't that helpful because it's not a solution" whereas I think of it more as "empathy is never not helpful, and can be engaged alongside finding a solution" which will always make situations better. But I am also very aware of the and fact that I'm an empath and so empathy is more natural to me than breathing, and I can tell the difference between someone trying to be empathetic and someone who actually is. The effort for trying is always appreciated though.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 22:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Exploring emotions and empathy are two every different things. Being empathetic does not mean you have to talk about anything, just acknowledge that you understand it so that it can be moved on from. Exploring emotions is more likely to happen when you show no indication of understanding, and the other person desperately wanting to be understood and validated then strives to make you understand by talking about what they are feeling. Ironically empathy leads to less "exploring" of emotions because it allows people to more easily move on from them.
You talk about people neglecting to learn how to set emotions aside when necessary but most people can, it's just that empathy is the tool they use for it. Unfortunately for most people it's easier to help others than to help themselves; it's easier for me to be empathetic towards others than myself, and it's easier for me to accept empathy from others and thus feel like I have someone to lean on. It comes down to the old adage "a problem shared is a problem halved". People don't do well feeling alone or isolated; empathy allows emotions to be shared, which lessens them making them easier to handle. This is not a usually a verbal process. Yes, being able to shut off emotions in extreme cases is incredibly valuable, but the vast majority of cases are not extreme and shouldn't be treated that way.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That is entirely possible since I don't know what you're envisioning. The internet also isn't the greatest for getting the nuances of conversation across, especially between strangers.
If you feel comfortable, could you explain what the matter at hand is? I would like to understand where you are coming from. If you don't want to that's cool though, I'm happy to just leave it if you prefer
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have a great deal of time at the moment to come up with an elaborate explanation, but basically I’m talking about a situation where something occurs and people’s main priority seems to be complaining, making it about them and their feelings, or trying to attribute blame, rather than get on with solving the issue.
Right I understand. I still think empathy can never hurt and it generally allows you to give people the benefit of the doubt which can help keep your patience, but I understand it can be hard when it appears like the other person isn't even trying to be helpful or find solutions. Blame and complaining are also very common reactions people have to feeling misunderstood or personally victimised, and empathy can help mitigate those feelings as people can realise that someone does understand and that it's not just them in a situation. Getting frustrated at them is likely to just make the situation worse.
It all ties back to my very first point, which is that humans generally can't think logically while feeling strong emotions, and that's not something you can just learn to do. For sure there are more constructive ways of expressing those emotions (and I wish there was more teaching of that at early ages) and with practise the time taken to process emotions under stress can be drastically reduced, but most people have never been taught that that's even an option let alone how to do it, which is why we need empathy.
I have the same thing! Like, I feel empathy inside of me, this I know, but I have trouble expressing it like, wow mate I'm really sorry that your girlfriend has cancer, but what am I supposed to do with this information? It's the processing part that's difficult for me. Or, maybe I'm a psychopath.
All we can do is fix the problem. Should I start crying? Would that help?
My mom fell really badly a few months ago and lost all control of her body and was a totally different person for a day because of the shock and pain. She has arthritis so it hurt extra bad. We called a lift assist to get her to the hospital because my dad and I couldn't get her in the Prius (she's about 300lb but working on losing it to the best of her ability) and had to get an ambulance. While my little sister was freaking out and my dad was mildly panicked (he's almost always calm and composed) and struggling to hold mom upright securely, I simply pulled out my phone and called 911 and had my dad do the talking because I have social interaction problems (autism is a bitch, plus I just don't like people in general). Not a single twitch, tear, drop of sweat, or anything like that came from me. This may make me sound like a non-affected person when it comes to emergencies and the like, but I'm actually not a collected or calm guy. Normally I'm loud, combative, and stressed/anxious to the point of intense chest pain, headaches, nausea, whatever really. But in a real emergency I automatically shut it all off. I just assess the situation, deal with it, and continue life.
On my little sister's first birthday, we were in Louisiana to see my mom's side of the family. That night I got in our rental Minivan with my maternal grandma (Nana), my kid sister, my parents, and my older sister figure (complicated family). We were driving down a road on the North Shore of lake Pontchartrain when we stop at a red light to turn left. There's a brand new car in front of us waiting to turn as well and one in the lane to our immediate right. Some guy comes barreling down the road at an east 70mph, hits the back bumper of the minivan (narrowly missing me bc I was the one in the third row), ends up veering to the right and hitting the other car directly, followed by him crashing headfirst into a ditch. Here's a kicker though- the rental ended up wrecking the BRAND NEW car in front of us. Glass was everywhere, car parts scattered all over the road, and vomit next to the passenger door (courtesy of my older sister). Everyone in the rental is freaking out, especially my kid sister, but she calmed down at the sirens and lights of the First Responders. Thankfully there were no fatalities and not everyone went to the hospital, but it was just awful. However, 9 year old me didn't freak out too much other than the surprise and mild pain (no pain tolerance back then. Haha wimpy little loser am I right?) and after the adrenaline hit my bloodstream I instantly just sat there waiting; comforting my family and my little sister as well as a 9 year old can until the cops, fire dept, and paramedics came to the scene. We made to the hospital after a lot of arguing with the paramedics who were trying to split up the family to multiple hospitals (idfk why to this day), but when the paramedics took my mom in on the gurney (she had whiplash) they forgot something. Or should I say someone? Yep, they fucking forgot the 9 year old was still waiting in the back of the ambulance for HALF AN HOUR! I was bored out of my mind but it was tolerable I guess. This went off into tangent town, but the point is that I didn't really give a fuck. I feel heartless in those situations, but I also know in the back of my mind that I'm actually doing something really useful and efficient that will end up being a help in the longer run.
Edit: to answer the quote from OP, no, crying doesn't help at all. All we can do is grit our teeth and bear through it. Then once it's over you can flip tf out and have issues.
My family jokes (in a nice way, usually) that I am a sociopath. I feel HUGE empathy and compassion for people in bad circumstances... I’d just rather fix it than whine about it. I am the one everyone calls to deal with emergencies, sort out fights and arguments, that kind of stuff. It’s like I have a little lock-box for fear/sadness, and I can lock those up until there is a more appropriate time to unleash them (usually past tense, like “that was fucking sad!”).
Now guilt and shame, I feel those bitches in real time, and have no such lock-box. 2am brain will go “hey remember in 4th grade when you did that really embarrassing thing? Yeah, lets think about that for the next two hours!”
same people almost get mad at me when something goes wrong and I am not that upset by it and instead instantly want to work on a solution I'm just like oh well being angry is not gonna help, shit happens so what
You have empathy. What you don't have is PERFORMATIVE empathy, which is what neurotypical people seem to need in order to feel that you understand and sympathise with them.
This is how I am! Didn't know thats what its called. Its like watching a sad scene of a movie. I can sit there and know its a sad scene but I wouldnt normally cry. But it makes sense that others need to cry in order to understand its sad
I literally had a whole conversation with a friend about possible reasons why he was being watched at work after making a mistake. I explained some ways I knew of how he could be proactive and show to upper management that he wasn't just some risk factor and knew what he was doing.
The conversation started as "man these upper management people dont know anything, they just see something bad and are watching me now". This was obviously overly emotional, so I tried to help.
Nothing convinced him, and the conversation just went to him going back to his already chosen plan to just "try harder", and all I could think to say was "yeah that sucks.". Like is this really what people want? What the fuck kind of connection is that?
That's because you are being a little arrogant. He's not stupid, he already knows all of the rational things to do, he doesn't need the tips. He just wants some empathy, someone to share his emotions with, not to feel alone.
Rational based on what though? He doesnt have all possible info, and I had other experience to convey. I'm never convinced by this argument of me just not getting that other people have the best solution. I'm not even saying I do, but I have dealt with similar situations and have come out successfully.
Obviously it's not the same situation but it's like a doctor explaining to someone with no medical experience why it's a good idea to take medicine. They're not doing the rational thing by not taking it even if they feel like they're doing the right thing.
What do I say? "Yeah that sucks"? Sucks that you're in a situation like that, go ahead and burn yourself out by "trying harder" which will make you make more mistakes and get angrier. What's the more empathetic thing, listening and nodding? Or spending extra effort of my own personal time to delve in, understand in full, and work to find a better way out that prevents future downsides?
If you have good reason to believe that the difference of knowledge of the situation is similar to a doctor and his patient, then maybe you're right, or maybe you're back to the "you were a little arrogant/condescendant and he disliked that" point.
To be fair I think people need both, the rational and the emotional help. In any way it probably helped if he saw that you were trying to help
The problem I see and have no idea how to deal with is that alot of the time arrogance and condescension comes from having an unchecked ego on the part of the offended person, and that's not a me problem. If I know I'm not deliberately being condescending, any take at condescension comes from the person's perception and own hurt ego at being shown something. If anything, it's more offensive to me because it shows that they dont consider me someone worthy of learning from, when you can learn a whole lot from everyone if you just have an open mind and treat them with respect.
Some people, I find, just dont like taking advice at all, and any attempt to teach them anything is taken as condescension. This is where my main issue is. I am just trying to help. I know what I know, I know my motives are pure, I even dislike helping because really what I want to do is go "yeah that sucks" and get back to what I was doing, but its because I care that I've spent so much time trying to learn how to explain better and spend the time helping out.
I have no idea when something is arrogant, I'm not acting like im better than this person, but I have enough self esteem to know that what I have to offer is valuable. It's been proven enough before. It took me basically my entire life to get the confidence to know that I have significant benefit. Before now, all I ever did was listen and learn from others, even when they were arrogant, even when they were saying things I knew already, I always kept in mind that I could be wrong to the point where it started to be confusing and the only option I had was to assume I have the right idea and to let others prove me wrong.
Now when I try to teach others, I find that most people just don't want to be taught, and frankly, if that's the case, I'd rather just let them live their life. I have things I want to do, I dont see the benefit of being there to nod to everything they say. I know I'll always be there if things get bad and that they're not alone, it's not my job to make sure they feel good at my own expense.
I spend a lot of time thinking about how my (and other peoples') decisions affect other people and I think this is both a practical and empathetic thing to but if you come to me with some story about starving kids in Africa I'm not going to have that "oh my god, that's so terrible, I'd better give you my credit card" reaction that some people apparently have. I avoid funerals because while I might be sad that someone has gone, I don't want people to look at my straight face and think there's something wrong with me.
I have the same problem. It's not that I don't understand the emotions other people are feeling, just that their emotions have no bearing on my own. If the thing that went wrong applies to me I will work as quickly as possible to fix it, feeling nothing at all except minor stress. If the thing doesn't apply to me, I will want and work to help the other person fix it but feel very little myself. The point where I run into issues is when the other person needs help to emotionally process the event rather than with fixing the problem. I just have no idea what I'm supposed to do or why I'm there in those situations.
I’ve been told many times that I am an empath and for me that means being a good listener. I rarely have a solution to someone’s problem, but most of the time people just need to verbalize their emotions to help them find their solution.
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“That’s the attitude my boy.” - Zeno of Cyprus
Edit: Although stoicism is an actual philosophical thought - and I appreciate it - but even before I’d heard of it I used to be practical about things. Like, what is the point of overreacting? Or reacting at all, for that matter, if you can help it of course. Something you didn’t like happened to you, anger and throwing a fit or crying at a corner won’t do you much good, either. In fact they’re gonna prolonge the suffering. Again, I’m talking about emotions and attitudes and reactions that you have control over - I’m not expecting anyone to have a stone face when a close loved one dies.
I’m convinced that empathy as we know and experience it is more of a learned behavior than intrinsic. You really just have to practice it and feel what it’s like on both ends.
xxggmm · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
serious question: do you ever feel frustrated that something happened, or do you always think, well, it happened and there’s nothing we can change?
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I kind of have the opposite problem. When someone I care about gets upset, I get very upset too. I'll sometimes start quietly panicking because they're upset and I don't know how to make it better and I feel like I'm doing all I can but maybe it's not enough and I should do more but maybe I'm just making it worse.
If someone I'm close to gets upset, even after they've calmed down I feel terrible because they were upset and maybe they're still upset and everything was okay earlier but now it's not because they got upset. It's empathy but weaponized into a defense mechanism.
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Saaaaammeee!!!! People often get upset with me or think I don’t care about what they are telling me but it’s like: I just cannot fake an expression. Yes, I feel bad about what happened to you, but what do you want me to do about it? Jeez I sound like an asshole.
You’re just emotionally immature. You’re not a psychopath or anything.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 22:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have had trouble expressing my emotions since I was a small child. I can never tell you that I'm happy unless I am really super happy. Same thing applies for every other emotion. Right now, I feel content, I guess... blank? I don't know.
I have the same problem. Only a few types of things can make me experience true happiness. Otherwise it feels rather dull. For me I assume this is because of emotional suppression I've subconsciously learned as a coping mechanism. However fixing it has its own problems and I honestly don't want to potentially become one of those people whos lives are dictated by their emotions.
This reminds me of an interview someone with a similar mindset had with a psychiatrist. He thought getting in touch with his emotions might benefit his relationships, but was concerned about emotions driving his actions in a negative way.
Basically, the psychiatrist said that if you're already fsmiliar and capable of functioning without emotions, then they become more like a piece of clothing. You can put it on to get the enriching emotional benefits from good situations, but if things make a turn for the worse, you can just take off that piece of clothing and act as you wish, without the emotional burden.
Thank you, I'll have to consider this possibility. I guess my main concern would be that once all or some of my emotions are unlocked/allowed out, it would become impossible to put them back where they were and lock them up again. My therapist says that by learning to block emotions in order to block out the negative ones, I sometimes take the positive ones with them. Perhaps I can train myself like you suggest and find a way to only block out the negative ones.
I'm the other way here, I'm excessively emotional, very empathetic and sympathetic. I can read the change of someone's emotion in the subtlest change of body language. I can almost feel the change in their mood.
It's a freaking pain, because I then try putting that into context of what I've done. How have I upset so and so, why is Frank so mad at me? I'd love to turn it off sometimes
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We need super emotional people to be compassionate caregivers but we also need less emotional people to make tough decisions and be sturdy in crises
Idk about this last bit. Being a naturally emotional person doesn't necessarily preclude you from having the capacity to make hard decisions, nor less emotional people from being good caregivers. I feel like people would step up however they might be needed.
That being said, I agree on the rest.
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So would the presence of either of these be a hinderance in decision making? If, as you say, psychopaths are good with cognitive empathy, would that not mean that it is helpful in decision making? Trying to understand.
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I don’t know that I agree that emotions are separate from our judgements. People are emotional. So every decision we make is an emotional one on some level. I don’t think that makes it clouded. It’s just another variable to consider when facing a choice.
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I think we agree that people can’t make a decisions on logic alone. I don’t believe anyone can. I disagree that that people acting on emotions aren’t making logical choices. They are just acting to satisfy their emotional needs. That is logical.
Edit: Also I think you are making a judgment call I’m your above scenario that’s unfair. You could also come to the conclusion that someone totally divorced from logic would take longer as they would have to take the time to weigh all variables. Where as someone motivated by prejudice, anger or panic, might hit it immediately.
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I still disagree. And in the above case who is the arbiter what is overtly sympathetic? Is it you? Where much Of this breaks down for me is I don’t see how you can say anything is the most logical. It’s only the most logical to you. And even in your own life I’m sure emotions like satisfaction, smugness, and contentment do rule many of your “logical” decisions.
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I wouldn’t say that choosing the 5 is a logical conclusion. You’ve only solved a math problem. The trolly operator is still reacting emotionally based on his perceived duty on who to protect.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But why care what benefits society? How do you make that judgement that it's "a good thing"? How do you decide that your automaton is making good moral judgements?
I’m the opposite. I’m too emotional. I honestly can’t fathom what it’s like to feel something on a small scale and not let it affect your day to day.
Majn3r · 8 points · Posted at 19:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Over the years I have thought about this many times. Sometimes I experience moments of emotional inflamation, but after that I start questioning why it happened. Anger is a fitting example. As quickly as it starts, it fades away and then this question comes into my head: "Why did I say that?" or "Why have I done that?". Emotions are very weird.
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There are tons of complex mechanisms behind emotions, but one of our physiological responses to anger is the release of catelcholines, specifically a rush of noradrenaline. Noradrenaline’s primary function is to increase arousal and readiness for action. As a neurotransmitter, NA has pathways into every major area of the brain. It signals to your central nervous system that your brain needs to start processing stimuli as rapidly as possible and it signals the sympathetic nervous system that your body needs to act. So basically, if you’re angry enough your body can shut down rational judgment to a certain degree because there’s no time to think you need to act NOW
I'm in charge of a handful of people and a supervisor told me I need to care about other people's feelings. I said "I don't care about my own feelings, why would I care about theirs?" She thought I was making a bad joke but I've never been more honest.
I was the only one to volunteer to go the 3rd shift and earned my way to 1st. I do it for the money not pats on the back.Besides if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all is my 'emotional co-worker" rule.
Again with the feelings? I'm sorry you quit smoking, wife stop putting out 10 years ago or you're not getting proper nutrition. But we're here to make auto parts. And remember to only use your phone on break.
I dunno; businesses seem to often be filled with miserable staff.
Zisx · 6 points · Posted at 21:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've felt the same way, told someone (who had thought I was talking about her behind her back) I don't care if you talk behind my back (still don't, even if people are quick to assumptions/ misconstrue facts, grudges are on them, I'm cool with all people now regardless of if they should be talked / concerned about or not), and of course she grew spiteful/ felt attacked regardless of my intentions, yeah lots of people are emotional and don't make sense
TL;DR: Even pretending to have some empathy (though highly recommend having it- is a skill that can be attained via imagination/ putting yourself in their shoes) is much better than exposing you don't care, especially as a supervisor, director or manager (which I personally wouldn't get into unless I had no other option)
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“You need to make a connection with the people you’re in charge of.” “Why? I come to work to do a job, not make friends. I tell them what their job is, they do it, the job gets done, we move on. “
Majn3r · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read the article and it didn’t seem to provide any real proof at its inconsistency, just general criticisms, but I can see how one could get different results. Even so, I don’t think it’s totally useless. It’s an interesting look at personalities. Has it ever really been taken super seriously? I always thought it was fun and introspective. And if you feel you identify with your result, I don’t see the problem.
sagoooo · 41 points · Posted at 17:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm this way too and it seems like we're the minority. It's like I have completely separate compartments for emotions and logic that pretty much never intermingle. If I have an emotion, I just kind of notice it and ignore it, while my logical side makes all of my decisions. I could never comprehend people who make decisions based on feelings or who lose control of their emotions in general.
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It depends on how much you don't care. If it's mild and not abusive/cruel, it's a high level of emotional detachment, possibly caused by a mild empathy disorder. If it's severe and if it's hurting others, you might have a personality disorder.
And it's not exactly what you're looking for, but there's also 'Anhedonia' which is the inability to feel pleasure/positive emotions, and a lack of motivation to do so. It's a part of a number of psychological/personality disorders, but is also used in a non-clinical sense as well (kind of a fancy way of calling someone a Debbie Downer).
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 18:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I struggle with most questions that want my actual feelings, what do you want to do? What do you like?
I'd like the option that other people want.
I wanna do what other people wanna do cause I know I'm not gonna strop about not doing what I want.
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Not that I don’t believe you, but just to mention most people who let their emotions control their decisions have no idea that’s the case and would say the same thing about their decision being based on logic rather than emotions. Everyone in the world has decisions based off of emotions and doesn’t know about it, and most of the time we don’t know the real reasons behind our own actions and decisions, we only know our own rationalization behind them. Reading about the decision making process is pretty eye opening.
Yh, I mean most decisions are made by emotions in an instant, then rationalised by logic later. There are exceptions of course, I've found that the more a decision affects only the future, the more logical the decision process is.
I guess I'm basing what I said on past decisions I've made. It's very rare for me to regret decisions, because even if it was the wrong choice, I usually still agree with the thought process I had at the time. Emotions do sometimes affect my decisions, but they're just so dumbed-down that it's hardly ever an issue.
I don’t know if my husband is or isn’t but we once watched a movie about an autistic woman and my hubs couldn’t figure out why people thought she was odd. He was like “everything she does makes sense to me.”
And he does have a lot of quirks. And gets sensory overload soooo easily.
That doesn’t necessarily mean he’s autistic, but we joke about it sometimes.
Autistic people DO have feelings and emotions, they just feel/express them a little bit differently. So you may be autistic. Not that it really matters much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes exactly. I have people tell me I need to build my emotional intelligence or learn compassion, but my concept of emotions is just different from others. Its so easy to ignore things, and so odd to be confronted by other people i find myself asking questions like:
What does happiness feel like? Is it an emotional range experienced truly or do people exaggerate because the media we consume sells it to us?
Is anger/irritation or anxiety the easiest emotions to identify because they are a direct negative reaction to things we're experiencing in that moment while others are more broad in target and experience?
Its all very confusing and i just don't get it.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 19:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am the same and I agree with you about emotions! Beautiful answer.
hwi_ · 1 points · Posted at 14:44:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would not say my life is driven by my emotions, but your answer made me cringe. Sorry.
I understand that you tried to be heartwarming, but I can't help it.
Maybe I have a problem.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 18:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve yet to master walking around like I’m dead inside.
I don’t understand how people do it. I always imagine unemotional people getting punched in their face and instead of getting angry (like most people would) they’d use logic instead? That doesn’t make sense.
I can’t pretend I’m too tough to feel. I tried holding my emotions inside and I felt terrible.
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I'm a cheerful guy in general. I feel pretty good a vast majority of the time.
And yeah, I basically sat back and thought a great deal about my emotions, what caused them (in an INTROSPECTIVE sense, i.e. other people/outside events did not create my emotional state). I think other people could easily do it, I just don't think many people are very introspective.
The way I describe it is that for a lot of people the world just seems to "happen" to them, and they're purely reactive. They don't seem to think any deeper than surface level of their own thoughts, motivations, faults, beliefs, values, wants, etc., much less other peoples. I try to know myself very well. All it really is, if I had to break it down, was the process of being my own therapist. Talking to myself like "this made me angry!" and going "Yes, but WHY did it make you angry?"
The 'whys' are a lot more complicated than they seem at first glance.
mtko · 5 points · Posted at 21:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in my 30s. I can think of maybe 3 times in my teenage and adult life that I ever outwardly said something angry/yelled at someone, and all of them were with family. Mostly my sister, who I love to death but is stubborn as a mule and knows how to push my buttons lol.
I can think of maybe 2 more times that I was angry and just walked away from the situation rather than saying or doing anything. All of these times were strangers in public places acting like assholes, and it wasn't worth making a scene.
I just don't get upset or angry very easily at all. Pretty much the only way anyone non-family could ever get an angry reaction from me is to do something TO a friend or family member.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand your point about managing your emotions. That’s not an example of being unemotional or ignoring how you feel.
You’re also in atmosphere where it’s normal to be hit because of mastering skill and discipline.
I’m talking about someone who at work or anywhere else where it’s clearly inappropriate to hit someone.
People saying someone is over emotional because someone died and they aren’t over it fast enough. Because the person making this judgement isn’t overly emotional.
If someone takes a break up to heart they’re considered over emotional because they’re crying over someone they’ve been with for years. Really?
That’s what I’m referring to, I should’ve been more clear initially.
I'm with you on this one. My life has exponentially gotten better since I quit denying my self any emotion but in rare cases anger. Which incidentally is usually a by product of another emotion...
An unemotional person would tend not to go about getting themselves into situations where they'd be punched in the face nor associate with the kind of unstable overemotional people who are facepunchers.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get them, I have them, but if you wanted me to care about someone or something, unless I'm already interested in it, good luck, I'm not trying to say I'm stubborn, it's just that I couldn't care, I littereally can't and for the most part, I don't want to
This is me 100%. People get so worked up over so many things that I’m sitting here thinking, “What’s the big deal here?”
I too have emotions and feelings. I can empathize with people. There are things that upset me sometimes.
I’m often accused of being a sociopath because most things don’t really bother me. Everyone is constantly offended by all sorts of things that shouldn’t, in my opinion, even matter. You’re going to run into assholes in your life. Yet so many people get upset or outraged at the mere thought of someone being mean, or saying something offensive. I don’t get it. Wallowing in the things that are out of your control or having to deal with unpleasant people should t bog down your entire life.
But maybe I am a sociopath.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:50:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not a sociopath! (And for the record, even if you WERE, that's not necessarily a bad thing.) Honestly, the ability to not care what people think of you is something I envy very much.
I'm someone who needs everyone- even people I don't necessarily respect- to like me all the time or I get sad. Logically, I know that it doesn't make sense, and I WISH I could just stop caring. Because you're right- it doesn't really matter. I know the reason why I want everyone to like me is because for most of my life I thought my only positive trait was "nice" and "people pleasing," so if someone disliked me then that meant that I was doing the only thing I COULD do right, wrong.
I don't know if that explains anything any better. Mostly I think it's just difficult for people to be disliked. Humans are social creatures.
Hey I appreciate that. I don’t usually beat myself up too much over it. Maybe because I don’t care, lol, but seriously I just don’t think there’s actually just one way to be. People are different. And they should be. I think stuff like this can just be alienating to someone like me on a site like this because everyone is supposed to be super emotional. I can’t count the times I’ve seen on posts how men should express all their emotions, and cry, and be all these things, be more empathetic but it’s just not me. But Reddit isn’t really indicative of reality either.
And just to be honest, I, like most people want to be liked too. I try to be nice. I think I get along with most people fine. For me it’s more that I don’t see things as being nearly as big a deal as a lot of people. I’m pretty even keel. I can do well whenever things are fine, and I’m just as good when things are horrible.
It might be frustrating for you caring about what people think, just as it’s frustrating for me to not be super emotional and think something is wrong with me. But honestly I think both of us are fine the way we are.
I've had the exact same argument with a few people. I tell them I have emotions, I'm just better at controlling them, and not ruminating on things, and stressing over things I can't change, and they're just not trying hard enough to control their reaction to emotional stimuli. They say I'm a sociopath.
There are 2 ways to think of the fourth dimension.
It’s time, which is comprehendible by the human brain
To understand this other version of the fourth dimension, we first have to look at 2D and 3D. Let’s look at 2D first. If there was a box in the room with a ball inside and a light source, the box would cast a linear shadow. In 3D, if there was a box with a ball inside and a light source, it would cast a 2D shadow. This is the world you’re familiar with. Now, with 4D, you’d still be in a sort of 3D space, but you’d be able to see every side of the box, and thus, the ball as well. If there was still a light source in the room, it would cast a 3D shadow.
Though if you haven't experienced it, go get some Salvia Divinorum concentrate, inhale a full lung's worth in one breath and hold it as long as you can before exhaling and diving deep into the weird.
Never tried the drink form though, just the head shop stuff that you smoke.
I've actually had some fun on salvia, but it is a little more temperamental than the others for sure. It's a kappa-opioid agonist, which is "notably dysphoric and aversive at sufficient doses." source
The fourth dimension is time. We can only experience "one" point in this dimension. (Actually we see a time "cone" as things get farther away from us) We travel in this 4 dimensional space at a constant velocity, with the majority of our velocity vector in the time dimension. When we travel along the space dimensions, our velocity in the time dimension decreases because the magnitude of the 4 dimensional vector remains constant. This is why things going faster (like if you were to travel in a plane or space ship) have experienced less time that people who have been "stationary"
Usually when people talk about 4d, they think of spacial dimensions. Time is a dimension, but of a different type. And as some people already explained what is 4d in this comment chain, we don't live in 'spacial' 4d world.
It would look like a 3D shadow, so an absense of light where the object is blocking a light source in 4D space. Just like how a box could change the size of 2D shadow it produces depending on how it rotates, a 4D object could cast a 3D shadow that appears to magically change in shape and size.
If a real 4D object were to be tangible to our 3D world, it would look like a 3D slice of that object as it passed through our space. Like if you were to imagine a piece of paper as a 2D world, and you decide you want to put your pencil through that piece of paper. To the people in the 2D world it would first look like a small gray circle that grows slightly (the lead), then magically change into a wooden circle slightly larger (the exposed core) then it turns into a larger hexagon with a varnish and stays that way for a while before gaining a metal sheath and then becoming a red rubber before vanishing completely! To you you're just pushing a pencil through a piece of paper but to them it seems like an impossible thing just happened.
Interestingly the people in that wild would determine the pencils shape by going around it. it's mindbending because that pencil protrudes through their space but has no height, only width and breadth.
It depends what type of 'surface' (vectorspace) the shadow was projected onto.
A 3D space? Yeah, you get a box or some other 3D shape.
A 2D space? You get a regular shadow.
A 1D space? You get a line.
Xiooo · 5 points · Posted at 22:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I like to imagine it like this (assuming the 4th dimension is another spatial dimension):
A 2D shape (disc) passing through a 1D space will first appear as a dot, then a growing and shrinking line, back to a dot and then disappear.
A 3D shape (sphere) passing through a 2D space will first appear as a dot, then a growing and shrinking disc, back to a dot and then disappear.
A 4D shape (whatever a 4D ball is equivalent to) passing through a 3D space should therefore appear as a small dot, then a growing and shrinking sphere, back to a dot and then disappear.
If the object movement is not perpendicular to the dimension, it will also be moving in the lower dimension. If you threw a ball and observed a clipping plane midair, the 2D-space would show a moving and stretching disc.
More complex shapes (such as a car) look like complete nonsense on a 2D clipping plane (not just moving and stretching, but also constantly changing its shape in general. Think of a brain scan video going from top to bottom.)
So if a 4D object were to pass through our 3D space, it would be some incomprehensive, shape-changing mess from our point of view, even though it might be a perfectly reasonable shape in 4D.
Picture it like a beam of light in a haze. You can see the bright 2D spot it makes on the floor (or wall or whatever) but you can also see the 3D cone shape of the beam in the air.
Imagine if you passed, say, a sphere (3D) through a sheet of paper (2D). To a 2D person on the paper it would appear as a point that grows into a circle that gets bigger and bigger til the hallway point then grows smaller and smaller then is gone.
So it follows that a 4D object passing through 3D space would likely appear as a changing and shifting 3D object.
Szjunk · 3 points · Posted at 02:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not alone in this. I doubt anyone truly understands 4D. There's plenty of explanations that try to do in a 3D way, but that's still not 4D. The human mind evolved for a 3D environment so 4D is just a concept we can't truly comprehend.
I'm mostly just riffing, but given what we know about being in the 3rd dimension and seeing in a modified version of the 2nd dimension, what we can assume is a 4th dimensional being with sight would see things in the 3rd dimension. That would mean somehow, they would be able to perfectly see something's depth. Not like the way you're picturing a cube right now from your math text books, like somehow, really truly comprehend and see depth. We have no idea what that would look like which is the root of your confusion. I think you're trying to connect dots that really don't exist yet and will likely never exist. for us at least. That may be the root of your confusion
You can actually create a makeshift 3d shadow IRL. Get a glass from your kitchen, and have a go making shadows with it. The refractions + being see through means you can see most if not all sides of the shape at once despite it being a projection in 3D space. It’s an oversimplification, but if you imagine those projections as 4D objects, it might look like that but solid.
The best explanation that comes to mind is Carl Sagan's in his Cosmos series.
Ultimately it's impossible for us to envision anything in 4D. We can only extend the rules of how each successive dimension is created onto the 4th dimension, and thus highlight properties we would expect to see.
The second point still makes no sense to me. You can't use 2D as a comparison to how 4D works because a world restricted to two dimensions doesn't even exist. Having only 2 dimensions is an artificial idea and has no basis in reality, same with restricting yourself to one dimension.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:00:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It absolutely works because you can project 3d objects on to 2D surfaces. In fact you do it all day long, you only see a 2D projection of the world on your eyeball. Your brain then makes it look 3D for you.
The laws of physics as we understand them permit a two dimensional universe to exist. We all know it doesn't actually exist, but it's a useful tool that we can use to understand analogies and properties of the fourth spacial dimension. Humans use imaginary constructs all the time to explain real-life things.
What if it actually exists and it's outside of our universe with completely different laws of physics, think about it, how our laws of physics was defined and how things should work in our universe, let's say that other simulated universe is basically a block without any defined physics yet you start the simulation and nothing is happening lets add a ball to the game wow it's absolutely doing nothing because no physics we're defined.
Right, but people always try to explain the 4th dimension by comparing how light would function in 2 dimensions, something that has no scientific basis.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We absolutely restrict light to planes all the time.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this! when you hear someone talk like its doable to "envision" a 4d anything, they are full of shit. there are 3 and only 3 dimensions in the real physical world, but mathematically you can take the various formula and generalize them to many more dimensions. the same math that allows you to map a 3d object to two, you can generalize to mapping 4d to 3d, but as you say its just a construct. thats why you sit there and look at all the artist renditions of a 4d object and think, 'uhmm, thats still 3d"
Yeah, but humans can absolutely visualize shapes in 4d space. If someone spends enough time studying and messing with models that they can begin to accurately predict how objects behave in 4d, navigate computer models of 4d space without confusion, and think creatively about 4d motion without computer aid, then it can be said that that human can visualize 4d space.
0upsla · 7 points · Posted at 19:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A drawing is a human's interpretation of what a 2D world might look like using 3D materials. If it were actually 2D, you could not see it.
0upsla · 10 points · Posted at 19:57:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A drawing is a limitation to only 2 dimension. It's not an interpretation, it exists on a 2d World (the paper) that exists in a 3d World.
You being in the 3d World doesn't mean that 2d World can't be
You interpret light as a 2D projection of a 3D world, but the 2D projection doesn't exist as its own 2D world.
0upsla · 3 points · Posted at 22:07:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not reffering to what I see, but to what the drawing is. The drawing is bound to the paper in a 2d space. The paper can be bent, folded, it's still a 2d space.
Me living in a 3D world doesn't affect the fact that the drawing is bound to that paper. Even if I can't see the drawing, it's still exist.
If you want to talk about the fact that the drawing is ink on a paper, deforming it, and thus in a 3d world, I disagree : I only need 2 variable to definea point of the drawing on the paper. The deformation of the paper is not a problem, as it's still a 2d plane for the ink : multiple values are allowed for X and Y, but only one is for Z : If you change Z, the ink is not on the paper anymore, it's not drawn. The drawing can only happens ON the paper, thus forcing the third coordinate once you fixed the first two : this is a 2d world.
You forget that you need a third axis to be able to apply the pigment to the paper. Plus then, the amount of pigment and how much the surface beneath is deformed ruins the "2D" plane. Everything about a drawing requires three dimensions for it to even be conceived.
0upsla · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I need a third axis to apply the pigment, to do the action, but I don't need the third axis to explain where on the paper the pigment is. Even if the paper is bent, only two is enough, I just need to change my axis.
Everything about a drawing is in two dimension because that's all I need to describe it.
If you describe a point of the drawing with three dimension, the third one can only be zero (relative to the paper) : anything else and it's not on the paper, so not a point of the drawing.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were actually living in the 2D world you would be seeing in 1D just like we see in 2D. The paper drawing is a good example because similar to 4D for us, we as 3D creatures are literally seeing the whole room drawing at once from a birds eye view. The people living in the 2D world have no way to even comprehend us because height doesn’t exist in their world.
whtsnk · 7 points · Posted at 19:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I find it much easier to think of higher dimensions mathematically and not impose real-world spatial plotting to them.
Simply think up an explicit function that takes three or more inputs. The fourth dimension is described by the independent variable in relation to the three dependent variables.
I think maybe being an artist kinda helps with this, but to visualize how to paint shadows, you have to be able to kindof think of them as 3d in the first place? So you have to be able to think of what shape/space a shadow takes up depending on where a light source is and what the form it's being cast on is.
So the difference between being able to visualize a shadow in a 3d form vs how it shows up as flat on surfaces in the real world is the same as how a 3d cube looks like a flat square in 2d.
So if 4D is a representation of an objects place in time, being able to visualize the parameters of how that object sits within a world based on 'time' changes where its shadow would be, so in visualizing the ways the shadow would potentially interact with the world involves kindof thinking of the shape from every possible angle.
I think as normal humans we can kinda do this in bits and pieces from different angles, but in 4d all angles and possibilities would be visible at all times?
If someone smarter than me can chime in and tell me whether this is correct or whether I'm having a Dunning Kruger moment that'd be awesome.
how can you have a 3D shadow..? I am so confused. how can you have a 360D view of a shadow without blocking the light source at some point , effectively breaking the shadow?
The cool thing about considering time just another dimension is that it explains the start of time - it's just not a thing. Time is just another axis that our consciousness is progressing on at a more or less constant velocity, but if it's so easy to imagine that the axis can go infinitely to the right, why can't it go infinitely to the left? What if there was always something before anything, just like there will always be something after anything?
But what (when) would 0 be on the time axis, the big bang? And what would negative values represent? Its like 3d coordinates, we dont really have the coordinate (0,0,0), there is no center in the universe but even if we did, the negative and positive coordinates wouldnt really be different, its all relative. Anyway big brain my friend.
I think mankind has already solved the 0 problem my putting it on the birth of Christ (or a couple of years before it because some medieval monk couldn't do his job properly), and negative values are the same as positive ones, they're just before the 0 point. I believe that something existed even before the big bang, even if it was not like the world we know today - it's not like the explosion created a dimensional axis, time must have been a thing even before that.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is also the third way of the ant on the toilet paper tube
If a red circle (2D) passes through a black line (1D), from the perspective of the 1D creatures living on the black line, this is seen as initially a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger line (1D), then shrinks into a smaller and smaller line and then a dot.
If a red sphere (3D) passes through a football field (2D), from the perspective on the 2D ants on the football field, it is initially seen as a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger circle (2D), then shrinks into a smaller and smaller circle and then a dot.
If a red hypersphere (4D) passes through an atmosphere (3D), from the perspective of the 3D humans living in the atmosphere, it is initially seen as a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger sphere (3D), the shrinks into a smaller and smaller sphere and then a dot.
Well if you think of it we wouldn't be able to think of a fourth dimension we live in a 3D world so we can think of 3 dimensions but if you were a being that lived in a 2D world you would never be able to imagine a 3rd dimension thus meaning that time is probably not a 4th dimension because we still experience it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most people understand time as being the fourth dimension, it's spacial that fucks people up, although to be fair, with a little research fourth dimensional objects aren't that abstract of a concept and one could come to understand, fifith dimensional objects on their hand
Now expand that to handle n-dimensions. Working in multiple dimensions in math is really trippy if you're a visual learner. I'm this way, when we were working in higher order math to do n-dimensions I struggled with making visual pictures in my head. 3D, easy, 4D not too bad, but 9D, huh? But that is when you just have to trust the math.
So are sunbeams that come through the clouds like 2D shadows? Sorry if that doesn't make sense. I'm just trying to comprehend the 2nd concept here.
[deleted] · 31 points · Posted at 20:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Coni_C · 4 points · Posted at 21:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So if we happen to "see" a 4D object
Do you think our brain would be able to comprehend the object or the 4D object just wouldn’t work on our world at all?
If a 4D object works on 3D standards then could it also work on 2D standards?
I’am confused lol
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:19:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Coni_C · 4 points · Posted at 00:39:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Out of all comments yours was the best at explaining hence why i asked.
Ya know, I'm sure someone's gonna tell me why this is wrong, but I just now thought: "why do have time be the last dimension when describing 4D?" Why not start with time. I feel like a thing happening over time makes more sense to us.
0D - a dot, a theoretical concept
Moving in 1D - a dot that exists, it was here before, here now
Moving in 2D - you can move along the line, you were down there, now you're up here
3D - this square was there, now it's up here and over to the right
4D - this cube came from down to the left and back a little bit
But I guess that's just going by the 4D is time thing, not the shapes one.
Uhh 5D - all of the places the cube ever was or will be? Prolly not right.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ok so yeah it's just arbitrarily the last one, but it's fine to mix em up depending on what you're trying to describe. I guess that was more of a rhetorical question on my part.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:39:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually was thinking about saying 5D would be like the integral of all the places in 4D, but thought that kinda ruins the simplistic explanation and might not go with my breakdown. Funnily enough, I did take up through Calc III (and difeq) and got up to modern physics and classical mechanics. I was a biophysics major :D, less bio focused though.
So I mean, in a way it feels so much easier to think of higher dimensions as "it's just one more" but I guess that's more ease of working with it in problems but not really explaining it. And doesn't make sense to people not stoked on math.
Edit: oh heck, I think I'm messing dimensions up with velocity/acceleration/jerk stuff with the dots notation. Some of the stuff I said still tracks though! Like imaginary axis.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also had the thought that that sentence just made no sense whatsoever haha. I dunno I started thinking how higher dimensions would be like taking a sum of the lower ones in a way, probably just nonsense but it's hard to make sense of the higher ones anyway! This stuff is banaynays when you try to visualize it. Also like how imaginary numbers are their own axis, so with a number line it's easy to be like ok imaginary is up and down, but then when you're working with xyz and they each technically also have an imaginary axis orthogonal to them. When ya start thinking about it too much math be crazy. But it works in the end!
Hmm I guess my 5D as integral of all of 4D is more from what I remember from classical where we started using dots above the variables instead of dx/dy so you'd differentiate y (with two dots) twice and end up with regular y. Hmm not great at explaining. Dang this makes me miss those courses though.
Starting to think that explaining higher dimensions to get an understanding could be more like philosophy.
Edit: oh heck, I mixed up velocity/acceleration/jerk stuff with dimension when I was thinking about the dots. But much of the stuff still tracks, like imaginary axis. Been a while.
I don't understand it either, but on the same topic, someone once said to me in a passing comment, "you know, as 3D beings we can only see things in one dimension below us" (paraphrased)
I thought, wait what? I can hold a 3D cube and I can see it just fine.
But then they pointed out, no, you're just perceiving a 2D mapping of that 3D object, and your brain recreates a 3D representation out of the 2D images each of your eyes gets. You can't see all sides of the cube simultaneously without unfolding it out onto a 2D surface.
That just blew my mind, and what's more, how would a 4D being perceive us? By that reasoning, they would be able to somehow perceive all 3 dimensions of us simultaneously.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 01:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It frustrates me a bit, because I feel like I almost get it.
Like, the tesseract, the 4D cube. 1D is a line, 2D is a square (4 connected equal sized lines), 3D is a cube (6 connected equal sized squares) so 4D is a tesseract (8 equal sized cubes all connected) and then my brain sort of gives up. I understand the idea of the tesseract, and how the cubes are ... moving through time to maintain their size? Something?
I hate only kinda comprehending something, but I accept I don’t get calculus, so I guess I should accept the same with fourth dimensional theory.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, first off, as mentioned above there’s 2 definitions of 4D—time, and then 4D as an additional axis (like adding w to x,y,z). A 4D object won’t move through time to maintain it’s shape—that’s mixing both definitions together (the object is moving through time AND through the w axis), which might be part of the confusion.
It might help to think of 4D like this. Say there’s 8 cubes in a field, but we can’t walk up the mountain that would give us the height to see all of them at once. All eight cubes still exist simultaneously even though we can’t see them. We just have to settle for seeing one at a time and imagining how they’re connected.
I just recently thought about this. Here is my hypothesis simplified:
1D: incapable of going through space, but in one through time
2D: capable to go through time and space in one direction
3D: capable to go through time in one direction, but in any direction through space
4D: capable to go through time and space in any direction
Ay I just thought of that too! Just made this comment on another part of the thread. Kinda feels like it only goes up to the 4D we live in. I think 5D and up is more for math.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4D Toys on Steam is great for visualizing the 4th dimension (even if you don’t have VR, I personally don’t).
It sort of treats a 4D object as many overlapping 3D objects (at least, that’s how I think about it to keep the concept from getting away from me). You can scroll through the different shapes kinda like you’re zooming in and out.
Imagine people in a 2d world. They couldn't see 3d, so the third dimension would be as confusing to them as the fourth dimension is to us. There could be no way they could visualize what a sphere looks like, just like we cant visualize what a hypersphere would look like.
Now imagine that a sphere passes through the flat plane they live on. (Like they are on a flat paper on a table, and a sphere somehow goes up through the table, toward the ceiling). The only part of the sphere they could see would be the cross section of the sphere with the paper, which is always a circle.
But, it wouldn't be a regular circle, because as the sphere moves up, the circle would seem to magically grow. It would get its biggest when the sphere is exactly half way through the paper. Then as the sphere kept going, the circle would get small again, until it eventually disappears when the sphere leaves the paper.
So, 2d people would see a 3d sphere as a circle that appears, grows, shrinks, and disappears. We can extrapolate and imagine that a 4d sphere would look like a sphere that appears, grows, shrinks, and disappears. So now that's one 4d shape that we can sort of wrap our heads around.
Dimensions are just how many pieces of information you need to find a specific point. Imagine a highway or interstate. If you tell me what mile marker you are standing next you, I can find you with perfect precision. Therefore, a highway/interstate is 1-dimensional (a line). If you want me to find you in a city at an intersection, you can't just tell me one of the roads; you have to tell me a cross street. Therefore a city is 2-dimensional (a plane). If you are flying you need to communicate your latitude, longitude, and altitude so flying is 3-dimensional (a hyperplane). When you add in time, you are just adding a fourth piece of information to find a specific point which means you need another dimension.
I don't know if you'll read this but dimensions are just measurements. Length is one dimension...a straight line. Length and height get you a box, a 2 dimension box. Length width and depth get you a 3 dimension box. Now take that 3 dimension box and imagine it in the past or future, now it's a 4th dimensional box. Length, width, depth, and time. So dimensions dont necessarily mean quantum other worlds, it's just that after 3 dimensions, it gets very theoritcal.
There was a tv show called travellers,and they explained it like this...
The transfer requires the exact location of the target, made possible by twenty-first century smart phones and GPS providing time, elevation, latitude, and longitude (TELL) coordinates that are archived for use in the future.
So the 4 dimensions, time elevation latitude and longitude allowed safe travel back through time.
Hold an object in the air, now try to describe where it is based on a point on the wall. It's 20 feet in one direction, 8 feet in another direction, and 3 feet in the air. That's your 3 dimensions. Now move the object. Can it still be described that way? No, it's not there anymore. That's because time is the fourth dimension and you were actually using it to describe where that object was. So that whole thing was only true for that point in time. So at 4:38pm ET your object was at 20 feet in one direction, 8 feet in another direction and 3 feet in the air. You've now used 4 values (or dimensions) to describe that point.
Here's a fun video from a while back that explains how everything is encompassed within 10 dimensions. It was made to push a book (I think) and I've heard some people take issue with some of the concepts, but I've always liked it. Clear, we'll thought out, and easy to understand.
Edit: meant to mention, it explains the fourth dimension after the first three and uses that concept down the line. That's how it might help you understand what the heck is going on.
Dude I researched this shit because of your comment and jeez it's confusing, but what I gathered is that the time explanation links with my philosophy A level, and the easiest way I can explain it is that I learnt that God sees the world in past present and future, all in one, and in that sense, God sees in 4D as he doesn't just use space to find something he uses time, so 3D is just 4D without time? Maybe idk lol. The other explanation is Hella confusing tho.
Eh, it's a bit of a misnomer. We have 3 spacial dimensions, up and down, left and right, forwards and backwards, and one temporal dimension, time. People then just say we exist in a 4D world which gets confused and relating time to the 4th spacial dimension despite them being two very different things.
There is a prototype puzzle-platform game called Miegakure that uses a 4th dimension of space. It is truly trippy to look at, but he explains it quite simply.
The shifting shapes are the 3D "slices" of 4-dimensional objects.
You are here standing, and here is you sitting in a chair exactly five seconds from now. See your two self images next to each other, then draw a line between them. Then add an image of you in the process of sitting in small increments two or three more times in that line. Add more in that line if you’d like. The more you add, the more you’ll see a line of yourself going from point A to point B in a certain amount of time. You now understand how the fourth dimension works!
The problem is you’re seeing as time itself with nothing to relate to. It’s not an object to look for. It’s a direction, a direction of which involves a 3-dimensional ITSELF undergoes when time is applied. This is change. I tried for a long time to understand it but I remember watching a video on YouTube and it just clicked with me after watching it. This guy was able to conceptualize up to the 10th if I recall, however I can only understand up to the 6th but going past that was too hard to grasp. If I can find it I’ll go ahead and put up a link here.
If I’m not mistaken, 4th domention is the time itself.
Imagine that you look at a person and think about his actions (that he/she, I dunno, helped an old lady to cross the road). But what does it mean for him and his character development?
When I think about people’s actions (I have to do that a lot, I’m a teacher) I try to keep in mind this person’s past, present and future. What did this action change? Is it good for his/her probable future?
That’s why sometimes I compliment somebody’s action in an unusual way, like ‘You started to think about other people, it’s great’ or ‘That’s good that you weren’t afraid of that person anymore and wasn’t afraid to fight him’. I compliment what that person tried to do for the first time and what I think as a good personal feature.
So, that’s how I get the 4th domention in a person: then you keep in mind their past and future and it makes sense in present.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 11:34:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A 2D person would live on a flat plane, like a soap film. If we dropped a soccer ball through a 2D person's world, they would see a dot appear out of nowhere, grow into a circle, then shrink down into a dot again and disappear. If Gro'log of the 4D Hyperforians dropped his ball through our world, we would see a pellet appear in midair, grow into a ball, then shrink again and disappear.
Just as the 2D person only sees one slice of our soccer ball at a time, we only see one slice of Gro'log's ball at a time. The 2D person can analyze our soccer ball by laying out all the circles they saw from left to right, starting tiny, growing big, shrinking back down. From there they can reconstruct what the whole ball looks like.
We can lay out the spheres we saw from left to right, starting with a pellet, growing larger and larger into a large ball, shrinking back down. The true nature of Gro'log's ball is all the spheres put together.
Let me hit you with this fun fact: in math you can have any n-dimensional space where n is an integer. So you can do math on a space with 78 different dimensions.
Also, funnily enough, you can calculate the largest number of pieces you can get when slicing an n-dimensional hypercheese with k slices. (Hypercheese being a block of cheese with n dimensions.)
How anyone learns to read. When I try to break it down it just seems so crazy and impossible. “See this shape? It sounds like this. Or like this. Or sometimes like this. Actually, sometimes it doesn’t make any sound at all. Got it? Great! Now here’s 25 more of them”
But 4 year olds are doing it! Insane.
jepsuli · 2092 points · Posted at 16:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered how English-speaking kids learn to read. In my native language, Finnish, each letter represents only one sound. English-speaking kids and/or teachers must have some superpowers
mtled · 977 points · Posted at 17:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the same process, just extended. It starts with basic letter recognition and then phonemes. Learning you "always" need a consonant and vowel sound, then learning the letters/combinations that make those sounds. Eventually it's just recognition of patterns and application of prior knowledge. There are 200 or so "sight words" that make up more than half of almost every English language text (non-scientific/non-specialized) and the rest is decoding.
My son is learning to read and my mom gave me this awesome listing of letter combinations/sounds in English. She was a teacher and this list was part of her student's "toolbox" to refer to when they are decoding a text. Things like "the "oooh" sound can be made with the characters o (do), oo (too), ough (through), u (tutu)". The "m" sound could be created with m (from), mm (command), or mb (bomb). Knowing that ch goes "chuh" and th goes "thuh" all has to be memorized.
It's a crazy fascinating process. I'm lucky that my mom is basically an early language and literacy expert, in both English and French and my kid and I are both learning so much from her! Kiddo's gonna destroy grade 1 lol.
😂 this just cracked me up. Like English be sneaking in extra B's everywhere and you didn't even know it. I knew the word jamb but completely forgot it and it looked wildto me too.
No joke dude I've been speaking this language for like 22 years now and I'm still learning regular old words. Just when I thought I was gettin' good at it too, shoot.
Nah. When those words came into English, most everything was pronounced as it was written. There had been sound changes before, but the spelling had adapted. But at a certain point the spelling of most words was frozen while further sound changes completely changed how English sounded.
And take an Anglo-Saxon word like knight: Every letter in that word used to be pronounced (gh is a two letter representation of the phoneme in "loch"). I believe Scots has mostly kept the original pronounciation of that word, the relevant sound changes did not reach that far north.
Dearest creature in creation, Study English pronunciation. I will teach you in my verse Sounds like corpse, corps, horse, and worse. I will keep you, Suzy, busy, Make your head with heat grow dizzy. Tear in eye, your dress will tear. So shall I! Oh hear my prayer. Pray console your loving poet, Make my coat look new, dear sew it.
Just compare heart, beard, and heard, Dies and diet, lord and word, Sword and sward, retain and Britain. (Mind the latter, how it's written.) Now I surely will not plague you With such words as plaque and ague. But be careful how you speak: Say break and steak, but bleak and streak; Cloven, oven, how and low, Script, receipt, show, poem, and toe.
Hear me say, devoid of trickery, Daughter, laughter, and Terpsichore, Typhoid, measles, topsails, aisles, Exiles, similes, and reviles; Scholar, vicar, and cigar, Solar, mica, war and far; One, anemone, Balmoral, Kitchen, lichen, laundry, laurel; Gertrude, German, wind and mind, Scene, Melpomene, mankind.
Billet does not rhyme with ballet, Bouquet, wallet, mallet, chalet. Blood and flood are not like food, Nor is mould like should and would. Viscous, viscount, load and broad, Toward, to forward, to reward. And your pronunciation's OK When you correctly say croquet, Rounded, wounded, grieve and sieve, Friend and fiend, alive and live.
Ivy, privy, famous; clamour And enamour rhyme with hammer. River, rival, tomb, bomb, comb, Doll and roll and some and home. Stranger does not rhyme with anger, Neither does devour with clangour. Souls but foul, haunt but aunt, Font, front, wont, want, grand, and grant, Shoes, goes, does. Now first say finger, And then singer, ginger, linger, Real, zeal, mauve, gauze, gouge and gauge, Marriage, foliage, mirage, and age.
Query does not rhyme with very, Nor does fury sound like bury. Dost, lost, post and doth, cloth, loth. Job, nob, bosom, transom, oath. Though the differences seem little, We say actual but victual. Refer does not rhyme with deafer. Feoffer does, and zephyr, heifer. Mint, pint, senate and sedate; Dull, bull, and George ate late. Scenic, Arabic, Pacific, Science, conscience, scientific.
Liberty, library, heave and heaven, Rachel, ache, moustache, eleven. We say hallowed, but allowed, People, leopard, towed, but vowed. Mark the differences, moreover, Between mover, cover, clover; Leeches, breeches, wise, precise, Chalice, but police and lice; Camel, constable, unstable, Principle, disciple, label.
Petal, panel, and canal, Wait, surprise, plait, promise, pal. Worm and storm, chaise, chaos, chair, Senator, spectator, mayor. Tour, but our and succour, four. Gas, alas, and Arkansas. Sea, idea, Korea, area, Psalm, Maria, but malaria. Youth, south, southern, cleanse and clean. Doctrine, turpentine, marine.
Compare alien with Italian, Dandelion and battalion. Sally with ally, yea, ye, Eye, I, ay, aye, whey, and key. Say aver, but ever, fever, Neither, leisure, skein, deceiver. Heron, granary, canary. Crevice and device and aerie.
Face, but preface, not efface. Phlegm, phlegmatic, ass, glass, bass. Large, but target, gin, give, verging, Ought, out, joust and scour, scourging. Ear, but earn and wear and tear Do not rhyme with here but ere. Seven is right, but so is even, Hyphen, roughen, nephew Stephen, Monkey, donkey, Turk and jerk, Ask, grasp, wasp, and cork and work.
Pronunciation -- think of Psyche! Is a paling stout and spikey? Won't it make you lose your wits, Writing groats and saying grits? It's a dark abyss or tunnel: Strewn with stones, stowed, solace, gunwale, Islington and Isle of Wight, Housewife, verdict and indict.
Finally, which rhymes with enough -- Though, through, plough, or dough, or cough? Hiccough has the sound of cup. My advice is to give up!!!
There are 200 or so "sight words" that make up more than half of almost every English language text (non-scientific/non-specialized) and the rest is decoding.
Sight words?
sseugg · 39 points · Posted at 19:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I’m not sure if every school teaches this the same way, but my little brothers would come home with lists of “sight words” that they were supposed to drill and memorize by sight (hence the name). That way you wouldn’t have to put effort into sounding out each word and could recognize what the word as a whole looks like. Think, for example of the word “laugh”. Anyone who can read in English will see that word and immediately know how it sounds instead of sounding it out and trying to remember the rules for why it makes an “f” sound instead of a “g” sound, etc..
It actually is! I’m a volunteer for an organization that tutors kids in reading if they’re struggling in school, and the younger kids actually do have a set of flash cards that are sight words. We’re supposed to go over the words with them at least twice in our session, and they are the same sight words they learn in class so that they get extra practice.
mtled · 26 points · Posted at 19:47:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are kind of two concepts in that, which I merged together for convenience in my first post.
First is high frequency words. The words that show up in almost every text, which can be decoded phonetically but which a child needs to learn to read/recognize without stopping to decipher them. The reason here being that they are so common that inability to recognize them will slow down comprehension of the rest of the text. Words like the, of, with, you.
The second category of sight words are those that are very common but aren't easily decoded; though, laugh, enough. They are super common words in most texts but the tools used to decode them by a new reader will fail; you can't apply the basic syllables to them and get the right answer. These are also needed to be recognized on sight in order to become a fluent reader.
I think grade 1 generally target ~100 sight words and grade 2 gets up to 200. For children's books, that will cover 80% of what they will read, so the remaining effort goes into new words and vocabulary. It's a big reason why early reader books are so repetitive; it reinforces these words.
If you're a parent, you've probably come across the book "Brown Bear, Brown Bear What Do You See?" The only word there that is arguably not a sight word is "bear" and maybe "brown" depending on if you consider the colours to be high frequency or not.
The book repeats the title phrase and response "I see a [colour] [animal] looking at me". The purpose of a text like this is to repeat the sight words, and add colour and animal vocabulary.
I'm not an expert on this. My posts are super simplistic reductions of what I've learned from my mother. But that's the gist of it.
Yes, I have a 5 year old who gets ‘high frequency’ words, and then ‘tricky words’ that don’t sound like how they sound when they’re spelled out, so they need to learn them by sight. It must be so hard for them to understand!
mtled · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Barring a learning difficulty, we all figured it out. Embrace the process, it's really fascinating.
I feel like that would make it easier cause they'd just be a blank slate. I tried to learn japanese for a while. It got really confusing when I would try to compare the english word to it's japanese equivalent.
I have a notebook here from the early days of my japanese learning. One of the words here is "isu" which means chair.
In the book it looks like
椅子 > いす > isu > chair
But that was confusing because my brain just latched onto the thing I was familiar with and didn't absorb the new thing. All of my later notes were done on the computer and look like this
いす / 椅子
A picture of a chair
isu
This way I connect the word to what it is without my previous knowledge getting in the way.
I dont know if it would work the same for children learning to read, but this was my experience as an adult.
Definiteky. This is why (good) language classes usually don't teach using the L1- or fluent language.
Part of why kids learn so fast is because their brains are fucking amazing little maleable learning machines, but also because every learning experience for them is immersive
I'm sorry, I'm genuinely confused at what your point is.
Also sight words was never part of my reply and wasn't ever even part of my thought process here so it's just really confusing.
Also x2 I personally don't remember learning sight words. But I also would've been very young when I would have been learning them so maybe I just don't remember.
I'm sorry, I'm genuinely confused at what your point is.
I'm just amazed that 1st graders in the states have to memorize the spelling of words and that they even have a special word "sight words" for that. As if it's unusual that one looks at a word and reads it without "decoding" it.
Like, who decodes words when reading? At any age?
Your japanese example is just the difference between visual and non-visual learning types.
Well when you teach kids to read, they don't know any of the words by sight. They have to sound them out at first. That's what he means by decode. Take the word "share" for instance. You dont say ss-hayr, because the s and the h make the sh sound. But that isnt obvious to little kids who haven't seen that word before. Letters are new to them, give 'em a break.
Sight words would mostly just be strange ones that wouldn't be pronounced correctly if sounded out with normal english "rules". Words like "guarantee". If you sound it out, it says "gwarantee", but thats wrong. So you would just tell kids "hey when you see this word, remember that it's pronounced differently".
I don't think my teachers ever called them sight words but I that was like a billion years ago so who knows.
mtled · 8 points · Posted at 21:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The basics are probably true for most languages though. The difference might be more consistent spelling rules, but the methodology is likely the same. Other languages have accents that help clarify that English don't (e é è ê ë sounds in French are just e, ee, ea in English).
As my son is also learning to read in French simultaneously, the techniques are similar but the rules are a bit different (e.g. in English you'd start teaching vowels with the letter a, in French i, because the frequency of use is different).
It's hard to articulate but the kid's learning experience is probably more common than we expect in terms of how they process the information and learn.
My first language is German. I remember the first sentence in the reading book being "Mimi im [image of a bed]." Learning what M and I sound and look like.
We never had a list of "sight words", because as we accumulated letters we could simply decipher phonetically. Yes, the syllable stress might be off on first try, but it's not complicated. And instant recognition comes with practice.
There's a reason why only English has a spelling bee.
mtled · 5 points · Posted at 00:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As I've said, I'm no expert. There have been many approaches to teaching language (or anything, really) over the years, there's no one way to do it. And English has the frustrating mix of Germanic, Latin, Greek, French and miscellaneous roots to words that just lead to a mess phonetically. Literacy is so freaking complex, and while I love listening to my mother explain things, I don't fully understand or learn it to a level where I can teach it myself.
I still see that phonetic repetition in things like "Mimi im", which isn't too far off from what I was trying to express. And even if you never had an explicit list of "sight words" you have to recognize that not knowing things like ich, bin, ein (einen), nein, mit, im, etc would make reading sentences like "ich habe einen Apfel, du hast einen Apfel" more difficult. Instead of learning the grammar of "have" and the spelling of "Apfel", they would be stuck on the frequent words and not the new ones. In this case, ich, du and einen are sight words, in my opinion. You just probably saw them more in context and not as much as lists (which isn't the best way to teach....a list supplements the experience of seeing things in a text, in my opinion).
You can thank or blame Duolingo for that German... it's a language I'm trying to learn but I'm not far along!
I can't even remember having to "learn how to read english" when classes started in fifth grade. We just got books and started reading them basically, definitely never learned any spelling rules.
grendus · 11 points · Posted at 20:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's honestly not. Childrens books are mostly made up of simple words that follow the rules. By the time they get to the more complex ones, they have mastered the basic rules and can learn the exceptions and quirks sounds.
English is a hard language because of idioms and loan words, but the core language isn't too bad.
They are high-frequency words that sometimes cannot be pronounced phonetically (meaning they contain silent letters or have irregular pronunciation)
“the” “one” “two” “into” “when” are sight words; one, two have irregular pronunciation, the, into, when are common words, and depending on the phonics program used, the and when also have irregular pronunciation
They're extremely common words so children are taught to memorize them so they don't have to sound them out every time. Also, th has two sounds, soft like in the words "mouth" and "tooth" (close to a f sound) and hard like in "the" (close to a d sound).
They're extremely common words so children are taught to memorize them so they don't have to sound them out every time.
Do children really do that? That stops within the first school year, though, doesn't it?
Also, th has two sounds, soft like in the words "mouth" and "tooth" (close to a f sound) and hard like in "the" (close to a d sound).
Huh, it really does, never noticed.
Actually, i have to admit i never liked the phonetic alphabet in my 1st school year. Seemed like an enourmous waste of time. They taught us the letters and the sounds they make, instead of their actual names. I guess that's the same as the "decoding" that is referred to somewhere in this thread.
Thank you for this comment! The process seems a lot more manageable now. But still, I'm very glad that Finnish was the language I learned to read first! 😄
You don’t happen to have a link to what your mom gave you do you? Or perhaps what I could Google to find similar resources? My stepdaughter is learning to read and I am a terrible teacher.
mtled · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m so glad my mum taught me to read before school started. I was super adhd as a kid (I’ve improved somewhat and I have better coping mechanisms now) but I didn’t get diagnosed until I was 11 so wasn’t on any meds through primary school.
If she hadn’t taught me to read before school started I likely wouldn’t have ever learnt properly at school because I couldn’t concentrate with that many distractions. It would have seriously slowed down my learning.
Thanks mum!
There are a few words (though offhand I don't remember them) that might not be representative of your dialect; I even had to reflect on them and I know I speak the same dialect as the authors!
This is just one piece of a very large literacy puzzle, bit it's fascinating to see language broken down like this.
Your comment almost made me forget how to read. It's weird how when you really think about something it can get lost for a moment.
mtled · 5 points · Posted at 21:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really is a trip. We didn't notice all these techniques when we were learning but it all makes sense now.
At one point my kid was doing an activity page where he had to circle objects that started with the letter t. He didn't circle the picture of the tractor and I asked him why. He answered because it's a "j" or "ch"..."chractor".
And dammit, if he wasn't correct that in our dialect, that's how we pronounce the word.
Likewise, he asked where the s was in "petit" because our French dialect says "pe-tsi".
Correct. There is a lot of repetition and multisensorial approaches for Kindergarten as well to make it more engaging and memorable.
Many schools use phonics programs that promote letter-sound correspondence in a fun way with graphic imagery and games. But it actually takes years for reading to develop, ideally starting around 18 months (letter recognition) and moving onto the end of 2nd grade (identifying unknown words without assistance), which is the benchmark for reading in America.
Brains are hardwired to absorb the principles of language at this time, and are hardwired to learn in general, so most can usually accomplish basic reading by 8 years.
You are a really good parent, by the way!
Edit: “th” and “ch” are digraphs and one of the hardest things to learn for Kinders and firsties. There are many books that tackle digraphs, such as Oh The Thinks You Can Think by Suess.
Alphablocks is another good (free) phonics resource but it uses british english phonemes
How do Finnish kids memorize your infinte number of word endings for the same words? "Hey kids, today we're going to study the word 'dog' .. and tomorrow and the day after and all next week! Get your 'dog' textbooks out!" - https://imgur.com/QFm6SCE
jepsuli · 22 points · Posted at 20:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting question! Because it is never taught: kids just internalise all of that growing up, listening to people talk and talking themselves. I don't suppose English-speaking kids are taught how to form plural nouns at school either?
I know that. But it is essentially the same thing. We only need to learn how inflection works for a few words and then we're good to go. There are very few exceptions to Finnish grammatical rules
But you do learn a lot of prepositions and other small words that complement nouns and/or verbs in a sentence. Finnish language does not have words like at, to, in, from et cetera, we just add all those modifiers into the word itself. Along with loads of other things that can change the meaning of the word, such as my or their.
So you do not need to learn a million different endings for every single word, just what each part of that ending means, which in practice is no more or less confusing than learning a bunch of English words that by themselves mean nothing.
As an example from the comic, word "koirattansakaan" is just phonemes dog-his/her-without-even smashed together, which can be translated into English by reading it backwards: "even without his/her dog". And you can swap out the word dog for any other noun without changing the ending, such as "tuoli-ttansakaan" means "even without his/her chair".
Oh and as an addendum, far majority of those endings have never once in the history of Finnish language been spoken out loud as a part of everyday speech. They're more like recursive demons that arise from following the basic set of rules for suffix arrangement - much like you can add more and more words to a sentence and have it still be grammatically correct if you follow all the rules, but before long it will just become unwieldy beast that has to be cut down into smaller pieces if you want to be understood. So you know, we sometimes use two words instead of one to ram an entire paragraphs worth of information into.
And as a final thought, since we are on the subject of Finnish grammar, my favorite word in our language is "juoksentelisinkohan" - "I wonder if I should run around aimlessly?".
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 18:39:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a life long process in English. Sometimes you still find unrecognizable words that you just know are not pronounced the way they are spelled. Happens to me all the time when I read older books like "Ivanhoe."
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids in general are ridiculously good at learning things
Pretty sure it just takes a much longer time. I remember being stumbling and being confused on how to say certain words for most of elementary school. And it was not uncommon for high schools to be uncertain how to read certain words in books.
And also sometimes people make fun of you for how you say certain words for this reason. And there’s some quote I read somewhere that says you shouldn’t make fun of someone if they pronounce a word wrong because it means they’ve learnt it by reading.
I remember being at the table with my spelling homework, somewhere age 8(?). The word was ‘enough’. Trying to grasp how the hell that made any sense at all, and what idiot figured that was the way to spell it, and who were the other idiots who agreed to it? I wanted to back in time and smack some people.
I remember this. You learn the basics of which letter makes what sound. They they start easy, "so what does AT" spell? Yes you are told some letters have two sounds, but "AT" is easy to figure out. Then they ad another letter to, "so what does CAT spell?"
The US Defense Language Institute has actually ranked a bunch of languages in terms of their difficulty for a native English speaker to learn. Basically the romance languages and the germanic languages are the easiest for us to learn because modern English is a bit of a mash up between French and Old English which was much more germanic than what we speak now.
I've always know how to speak Armenian, so when I started to learn how to read, it blew my mind how the letters were more like sounds. If I wanted to spell a word, I'd just have to... Sound it out. Hardest part of the whole language is memorizing letters. There are little to no rules that dictate how a letter sounds. I don't think I could learn English now if I hadn't already done it, but this is so much easier.
Honestly, hearing people talk and being read to helps with figuring out how each specific combination of letters sound together. At some point, you just memorize it.
I'm French, and we have the same issue, on another, more dramatic, scale...
From what I saw of my stepsister learning to read (I have 0 memories of how I learned...) : they learn it by pairs, and try to identify pairs in the word, and for more complex sounds (made by >2 letters) they learn them on a word-by-word basis, and figure it out through practicing...
There's this Orthographic Depth Hypothesis, which describes how in orthographically clear language like Finnish, the learner simply makes the Phoneme (sound)/grapheme (letter) Connection. In orthographically opaque languages such as English, the learner must instead memorise the different variants of these phoneme/grapheme connections and The contexts in which each variant occurs. Thus it takes longer to learn to read in English than in Finnish.
Source: I don't have the exact study on hand, but I did a paper on this topic for an exam 4 years ago, so I can probably find it for you, if you're interested.
They start small, cluster lessons, have an order and the material is designed to teach it. that sounds obvious but in books for little kids designed to teach reading there is extreme mindfulness about what words are presented. They don't start with knife, knight and know. they start with something like C at, cat. R at Rat. or C at cat , C ar car etc and keep to one or two leter/sound lessons at a time. They dont' start with the sometimes this sometimes that comes later they stay will the common rule first.
That's fine, I know native Spanish speaker adults that can't also. My sister could not until she was like 8. We made her repeat a riddle with a lot of r's over and over, hundreds of times, until it worked!
Same thing, only I grow up around it so I was forced to learn. Plus being a part of the society seems to change as you grow. When I'm 40 I'll be pretty disappointed if I hear people my age still saying "lit"
Even as an adult I'm still learning. The past year I've really started to understand how to use ";" and "-" in a sentence.
My kid is 5. I read to him. I show him how to sound out words... like cat and dog. I skip the harder ones like "through" I just tell him those ones without trying to match the spelling to the sound.
I mean in sheet music, there's stuff that you memorize without really knowing why. You just memorize it.
Also he still doesn't use all the right grammar yet nor does he pronounce "th" properly yet. But he will get it eventually
Yeah, that must have affected the situation. But it's not like Finnish has developed in a void, either. Finnish is actually really cool with loan words: once it takes one on, it is usually very well preserved in its original form. Study of early forms of e.g. Germanic languages can sometimes benefit from taking a look at Finnish vocabulary. Like the (Proto?) Germanic word for king, 'kuningaz', disappeared centuries ago. King in Finnish is still 'kuningas'. Not that you wanted to know this or anything 😅
My mother tongue is French and I obviously learned to read that before learning to read English.
Knowing English now, I don't understand how I could make sense of French as a kid. English is so fucking simple, meanwhile French is a bunch of rules that break constantly.
You have to know those rules and their exceptions, I had tests on this and I'm still fucking up almost 16 years later. Stupid sexy language, why can't you make sense ?
They break it down into each sound. My grade 1 kid is learning "th" and "tch" sounds right now. Lots of repetition and reading. I always wondered how non-English speakers learn all the complexities and idioms. They're the superheroes to me.
As a non-native speaker (though from a fairly bilingual country, The Netherlands) I learned it through memorization. I just remember how words or certain letter combinations are supposed to sound. Which results in awkwardness when I encounter a new word. Though luckily that happens rarely these days. :P
Goes for everything about the English language for me actually. I dare say I'm fluent in English. Heck, I often have an easier time saying/thinking things in English than in Dutch. Yet I have no clue at all about any grammatical rules or anything you would learn at school. I just learned English from watching TV with subtitles and later on from gaming and the internet.
I’m a native English speaker, taught all three of my kids (also native English speakers) to read. They learned the basic most common sounds each letter makes and basic words that follow those “rules”, and read short stories with words that follow the rules. Then they learned common patterns (like an « e » at the end of the word modifying the pronunciation of the previous vowel), common sounds that letters make together (like sh-,th-, -gh,wh-) and common words that you can’t really sound out (like through), and practice reading those sounds/words repeatedly and reading short stories with those new sounds/words. The rest they learn from reading normal books.
It helps that their vocabulary (from growing up speaking English) is way ahead of their reading ability. When they come across a word they’re not familiar with, they can usually figure out the correct pronunciation based on their vocabulary and the context clues in whatever they are reading.
My kids all attend school in French, and when they bring French books home to practice reading aloud, they will frequently mispronounce words without realizing because their French vocabulary is not nearly as developed as their English. They don’t know that what they’re saying is not a word in French. French learning (at least for my kids’ school) spends a lot longer teaching kids how to pronounce combinations of two or three letters.
Teaching my kids to read was an exercise in patience and also explaining "there's legitimately no rules for English that are standard across this language because every word is either made up advertising slang that's been appropriated in to common usage, or, words stolen from a thousand other languages and hammered in to place until they fit."
Why does every vowel have a different sound when paired with other vowels in certain places of words, but really only when we feel like it? Why do we need a bunch of letters that make hard K sounds but only in certain instances and also sometimes we combine two of them together when only one would work fine, and also sometimes K itself is silent?! Nobody knows. We made all this shit up. English is just the Paper Towns of language.
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75r6q3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t even know how I managed to learn thousands of different characters growing up with ease yet no w it takes me days or weeks to remember some obscure character I don’t encounter often
Kids usually learn that letters give the same sounds first and then as they get more words in their vocabulary they learn that there are some odd pronunciations in there. For me, I learned to read French first, so when I learned how to read English I already recognized the letters.
Well, they don't learn every rule at once. They learn letters, write those letters, say those letters, and eventually the sounds are automatically attached to the symbol. Then they use the sounds together to build simple words. They listen to the words, sound them out, and build the words based on how they sound.
It's actually just a lot of oh you'll just have to memorize that one... Uh okay?
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered how English-speaking kids learn to read. In my native language, Finnish, each letter represents only one sound. English-speaking kids and/or teachers must have some superpowers
I've tried to learn Finnish. I just can't. I can say some very basic things like:
hyvää yötä and that's about it. I've mostly focused on teaching her better English.
You have to keep in mind that english changed the way they pronouce vowls (The Great Vowel Shift) so they used to pronounce letters a lot more like their European neighbours in the past.
I've seen english texts written before the vowl shift and you can almost pronounce the letters as it was a swedish text and it comes out sounding like english.
This is also a reason why english speakers so frequently slaughter the pronounciation of many European names and places.
it's just slightly more painful and leads to the same result. once you have a language down natively it's not really a matter of learning how to discern symbols as much as it's learning which symbols to associate with the words you already know
Only if you consider being unable to speak competently as an adult a superpower.
I'm a bad speller, I don't have an amazing vocabulary, and I don't think I've written more than 2 things down (with pen and paper) for over 2 years.
When I listen to many people talk I sit in utter amazement that they are able to function in the real world, barely being able to speak english (native speakers, not those on their 2nd+ language).
People, in America at least, seem to be totally ok putting the onus of responsibility on the person listening to make sure what they say is understood.
Maybe I'm alone in this observation.
alien6 · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to use a lot of brainpower to smoosh your words endings together for declensions and conjugations according to arcane rules that non-Finns can't understand. We use that brainpower to memorize extra rules for pronouncing words from letters. It evens out.
I don't have the same experience as English-speaking people. I already knew how reading worked before I started to study English. While reading English was of course harder than reading Finnish, I didn't have to learn to read again. I hope I'm making sense
Same in Serbia, also we have words that are written the same but have a different meaning but nowhere near as English language. Finally, Serbia is one of the few if not the only country to officially use 2 different alphabets.
mrurg · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have taught kindergarten and have an explanation for this! Good kindergarten teachers teach children to read phonetically with each letter usually making only one sound. Sounds consisting of blended letters are not usually taught in kindergarten, with the exception maybe of really common ones like "th" and "ch". So when kindergarteners write, they are told to spell phonetically by sounding out words, such as "I bilt a sno man" or "I luk at my techr". This helps them learn to decode unfamiliar words better than teaching all the weird spellings in English all at once which can be confusing. Then, in first grade, the more complex rules of the English language and the "real" spellings of words are taught.
My family is Finnish and I’m annoyed that they didn’t teach my siblings and I to speak it as children. My Mummi tried teaching me in my 20’s and it’s sooo hard. Like 26 letters for one very simple word 😕
I can't really explain it (even being a native speaker of English), but English is a wacky language that is easily among the hardest for foreign speakers to learn. It would be (SLIGHTLY) easier for me to learn Japanese than for a Japanese person to learn English, for example, because so many of our letters have multiple sounds (and some are silent in certain cases).
And then there’s stuff like Chinese and Japanese where there are literally millions of characters and they all sound different and mean different things while also being similar to at least 100 other characters
I'm learning Japanese right now and the similarities actually help. Most characters are made up of other characters, so it's easy to remember that 明 means bright when I know that 日 means sun and 月 means moon, both of which are bright.
And it is actually a very logical and easy to understand writing language.
Hiragana and katakana are so convenient to read. Everything makes one sound and only that sound with very few exceptions. It's so nice coming from english where we have C but also S and K. Not to mention anything with a GH.
But then kanji has to show up and make me have to remember shit.
Omg I feel the other way around. I learn on my own, and I started learning kanji at a really fast rate. I was completing N3 kanji before I had even completed N5 grammar. So when I tried reading N5 Japanese books and all the Japanese was just in kana it was so hard to know wth was going on. Especially books that don't use spaces.
Like there's so many homophones in Japanese. So it makes sense they still use kanji.
Yeah I learned kana first and I only know like 5 kanji. Granted I stopped learning japanese like 3 years ago or more so I've forgotten most of what i learned. I also wasn't nearly as advanced as you are.
I had the same problem you had when I tried to read things only in kana. The best thing for me was a news site that had kanji with the kana written above it really small for children to read.
Stated learning because I wanted a change and wanted to go somewhere else (still do but... ugh). I always liked japanese culture and history and thought maybe I should try moving there. I was gonna go to college and apply for the Japanese Exchange Teaching program. But, the idea that I would have to spend a fortune to get a degree to apply to something that I would probably be denied for was not attractive. Also college just scares me. So I gave up.
In watching my son's mind unfold, it started with a love of being read to. Then, he got really fucking into letters, both upper and lower case. He'd point out the letters he knows everywhere, and now he's at a place where he knows that strings of letters are words. He's memorized his favorite books, and when he "reads" them, he knows what pages have which sentences on them. I imagine the next step is matching the words he's memorized to the written words on the page, but we're not quite there yet, so who knows!
It's a super cool process to witness because it happens way quicker and more passively than it would if he were an adult.
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Yeah I'm a Spanish speaker and sometimes I wonder how English speaking kids learn to read. I assume it's easier in Spanish because it's a phonetic language, but English...
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About the first sentence, it depends. Maybe if you're Brazilian or Portuguese, then it might be, but English does not have genders (at least on most words) and complicated verb conjugations.
And for the other, that sounds pretty complicated. Do you know if kids struggle with spelling? Because most of my classmates (I'm 15) have terrible spelling in Spanish.
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Conjugation is harder, but it's a hell of a lot more regular than in English.
Yeah that's true. There aren't that many irregular verbs in the Spanish language.
I find this really surprising! Can you give an example of the kind of mistakes people commonly make? I'm imagining that some of it is mishearings of where word boundaries are, and some of it is getting the vowels wrong (E vs. A).
Mostly mistaking S with C, or not writing the H (or using it when it's not necessary). Also, B and V, and sometimes M and N. Many people write "aser" instead of "hacer" (to do), and also "acer" and "haser".
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Yeah. I would like to say that my spelling has no mistakes, although if I hear an unknown word for the first time, I might misspell it. Or maybe I can just guess how it's spelled. I do think, however, that Spanish spelling is unnecessarily complicated, especially the use of the letter H which makes no sound at all.
I'm a native Spanish speaker and i can say that a LOOT of people who speak Spanish also do a lot of mistakes, especially with the word "Hacer" and other common words with H, G, J, N, M, S, C, V and B
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an elementary school teacher, I basically had to “relearn” how to read in order to teach 1st graders how to read. Way more complex than people think, especially once it becomes an autonomous skill and you no longer have to actually process the many steps your brain goes through to simply read letters on a page.
I now finally understand why reading is difficult and takes a long time to fully learn...especially in English!
I bliveee our biarn deson't read wrdos saepreltey but rthear we raed tehm as a wolhe. We jsut acsositae ctreian pettrans wtih the sudons and wnheenevr we idtnefiy shuc we rmenbeer "ah, tihs sulhod be raed as BUH-LOW-NIE"
Babies and children have a much greater ability to learn than older people, because babies need to learn alot just to move their bodies and children need to learn language and stuff
As a speech language pathologist, I often tell my kids that English is cruel when they spell or read something incorrectly. Obviously I then help correct them. This is also true when learning irregular plurals or past tense words. Lots of stupid phonetic rules kids have to learn and memorize then apply to the information. Then, of course, there are words and situations that don't apply to said rules. I too am memorized by the fact that I can read
jrizos · 5 points · Posted at 00:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
brain scans have been done and they prove that reading is the hardest thing for the brain to do and activates the most "parts" of the brain. It's why so many developmental disorders present with reading.
This is amazing news, you've sent me down a rabbit hole of research. My 7 yo daughter has brain damage and has been put in a literacy program at school to catch her up to other kids, I hadn't really connected how hard a skill it is to master.
jrizos · 5 points · Posted at 01:28:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it's the text I read in grad school. If you skip ahead to where it really begins and read just the first five chapters, you'll learn a lot. Glad to help!
The brain has a 'letterbox', a set of neural circuits that are adapted to read letters. It takes years to develop this, which is why it takes so long to learn to read and write.
Look up a book at the library called 'Language at the Speed of Sight' for more details. Broca's area is the area in the brain responsible for speech and communication, the letter box is a smaller and more specialized part of the brain which can be trained to read letters quickly.
it now seems crazy to me how i managed to do that when i was 4, wow! i recently learned to read korean (not really translate it yet though) and i compared it to the english alphabet and realised how strange our language is
First you learn each letter, their name and the sound they make. A = ah, B = buh, C = sss, and so on. Then you learn what sounds they make together. B + A = bah, C + H = chuh, etc. Then they start making you put together words and sentences, with pictures to help you. “See Jen run? Tom pets the dog. Pig sits on pin.” You have to sound out each word. It’s painful and boring. Then you eventually start putting together sentences with more ease. You learn how to make sense of the words instantly and without the use of pictures as hints. You start finding things you like to read, you start reading on your own, practicing it by doing so, learning new words by sounding them out just like you did as a kid. That’s why people who read a lot don’t know how to pronounce shit.
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It's times like this that I'm grateful to have grown up with English as my primary language, because it sounds like an absolute bitch to learn as a second language.
I learned to read really young and can naturally read a lot faster than most people. My dad was the same way. I don’t remember learning to read and I don’t remember not being able to read. I remember preschool and kindergarten a little and I remember first grade really well (the horror of being super shy and they made us read out loud to a group to determine what our reading level was and I just choked and was in the low-level reading group for months because of it and bored and then I’d just sort of wander off and get into trouble. What else was I supposed to do? I read the entire book already and Kelly is struggling with the fact that fox and box have the same sound and don’t need be sounded out GOD hurry up).
About 15 years ago, I had to try and help my stepdaughter learn how to read and I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t help her because the process made no sense to me. She really struggled to get beyond the reading ability of a first grader and I was just....useless. Some part of my brain just decodes words really quickly and easily and hers doesn’t and.... it really just blew my mind.
Tbh when i try to explain anything i sound so retarded, i don't understand how others are really good at explaining things if i had that skill i'd be so much better at communicating.
Zisx · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can remember a bit. Books like Dr. Seuss were easy (or at least manageable), kid books with small letters and complex words / sentence structure (at least for a 5 or so year old) was tough. It was like working out muscles, but with the mind (but like riding a bike or anything else complex, I don't remember the moment (if I even did) when I felt I'd "mastered it", just gradual improvement and failing a bunch leads you to become great
Edit: even with something super complex like tennis (started at age 14 and played in highschool), I didn't focus on doing great as much as improving. I had bad days and better days, and eventually it just hit me: "wow I'm actually half decent and not so-so"
There's a scene in one of the Star Trek movies where Data (the android) talks to a child. Basically the child is amazed to be talking with a human-like robot, yadda yadda, but then Data replies something along the lines of:
I may seem very complex and advanced, but your legs are growing every day, yet your brain subconsciously compensates and you effortlessly keep your balance without even noticing.
TLDR; our brains do amazing things 24/7 and we don't even think about it.
It’s a very interesting process that starts at toddlerhood, even for babies! They first connect that certain shapes represent reading words out loud. If you introduce them to books early on, they work on how a book feels and works straight away!
I am a literacy-expert in training for our library :)
There’s a “language explosion” period when kids are developing the parts of their brain to comprehend language. It obviously slows down and the ability to learn language becomes more difficult the older one is, because adults and older children have already developed this part of the brain.
Well, most people learn as kids, and parents usually dont just throw a book at kids. Thr parents read through the book with the kid and slowly progress up different levels to expand their vocabulary.
“See this shape? It sounds like this. Or like this. Or sometimes like this. Actually, sometimes it doesn’t make any sound at all. Got it? Great! Now here’s 25 more of them”
This is why we teach very small children the sounds animals make. The picture of the Cow says "Moo", gets related to, The picture of the 'C' says Keh like K-k-Cow, and K-k-Cat.
Kids who are read to are interested in figuring it out for themselves, and are motivated to make these connections. Kids who are unfortunate and don't get read to have a more difficult time finding it relevant, and have a harder time learning to read.
I've been wrestling with this one personally. My wife and I are planning a move to Taiwan one all the travel bans are lifted and we've been working on learning some mandarin. The spoken language isn't too terrible to learn but I'll be damned if I can make heads or tails of the written language. Once we're over there I'll have to get enrolled in classes.
not only with single notes, musicians see chords as shapes, i heard. i could see how it could be done with triads and inversion of triads but it becomes quite a bit more difficult when you add the 7th, since there's so many possibilities (Minor, major, diminished, minor 3rd with major 7th, major 3rd with minor 7th, rootless 9 chords...) in that sense i think jazz harmonic notation (like AbMaj7#9) is superior because it gives a more immediate harmonic understanding.
i can play beginner-intermediate level jazz (i know some theory but i still gotta study the weird shit like tritone substitutions or learning more bebop improvisational vocabulary) but i don't know how to sight read. I'd like to learn but i know it takes tons of effort, and it's a really slow process that could take many many years.
but that pattern story interestingly also applies to jazz, there's very very common progressions (ii-V7-I, III-VI-II-V-I...) that are present in almost every standard. i never really thought about it but once you learn them it really is incredible how often they come up.
They typically start with “sight words.” Small words they learn just by seeing them, like “the,” “see,” and “you.” They’re starting with phonetics at this time too.
We had difficulty with getting my son to read. Honestly, they usually have an “aha” moment and things just click. He was reading at a Pre K level at the beginning of first grade. His teacher was phenomenal, and things finally “clicked.” He’s in second grade and reading at a third grade level now, so he’s a bit ahead now.
From a parental standpoint, it was very difficult. I have teaching knowledge, though for HS level, so I didn’t have the knowledge for grade school. There was this precarious balance we had to walk. He would get frustrating because he didn’t know the words, so you don’t want to stress him to the point he is completely turned off to reading and does want to do it at all.
Essentially, every word is a sight word. When you read something, you don’t sound out every word every time, right? Once you learn a word, you know it on sight. Phonetics is such a crapshoot in English because there are so many words that do NOT follow the rules. More words break the rules than follow them.
I think there is probably a better way to teach reading than the standard American phonetics model, but I have no clue what that way is.
What will really blow your mind his that you're just thinking English where combinations of letters represent sound. But in Chinese the characters represent concepts. So even though Mandarin and Cantonese sound different you can write it down and people who only speak Mandarin will be able to understand something written by someone who only speaks Cantonese because they share the same script.
It starts with listening to your parents, then mimicking what they say, then sounding out the alphabet with parental aid, then connecting learned letters together (words) again with aid, then word-picture association, and boom you're reading and you know what you're reading.
I very clearly remember the moment I was first able to read. I was four. I wanted to read so, so bad. I knew that letters were for sounds and you sort of ran them together, and I knew that “the” was THE. I stared so hard at that book, I felt something sort of pop in my head, and I COULD READ ALL THE WORDS ON THE PAGE!!! It was glorious.
I ran into my parents bedroom screaming, “I can read! I can read!” The book was The Rubaiyat by Omar Khayyam. It was the prettiest book my parents had. They were librarians. They were very happy. Dad gave me another book to have me read from and I could. This was the most exciting thing that ever happened to me, until the first time I held my daughter in my arms.
That's a problem more for the English speakers (as well as a few others). My mother tongue is Lihtuanian and we are blessed with a writing system where the words are written EXACTLY how they sound. Every single letter in our alphabet can make one and ONLY one possible sound (with one exception of the 'ch' combination making a brand new sound, but again, it makes it 100% of the time)
Learning how to read English was mind blowing. My little elementary school brain couldn't comprehend the concept of silent letters.
BUT, the fact that English hasn't got any cases is definitely a blessing.
I think it's just comes from the fact that everything means something else. All animals are aware of that. Like, that shadow passing on the ground means you're going to die if you don't get in a hole NOW. Or, if the woolly caterpillars are extra woolly it's going to be a hard winter. Or, that red shape with the white squiggles means STOP.
I think the whole of human knowledge is a huge collection of "this means that". 26 letters all meaning different things? That's just a minute fraction of the symbolism the mind is capable of grasping.
My first word was "box". I didn't read it as b o x. I saw the word and pictured a box. I was now a reader. First grade. Remember it clearly. Before it was sounding it out. Now it became automatic.
I have an easy answer for that, only cos I have a nephew who keeps asking me questions. Which is great in a way, cos asking questions means he's learning. But this is how most of our conversations go during the day:
Nephew : "what is this".
Me : "it's a scooter".
Nephew proceeds to ask me the same thing about 12x.
And then:
Nephew : "why scooter".
Me : "because, it just is. Now stop asking me"
Nephew proceeds to do the same thing about another object.
Husband is dyslexic, in such a way that “sounding it out” is virtually impossible for him. He has, quite literally, memorized every word he has ever seen. It pains me when he is reading aloud and sees a word that he has probably only ever read but not spoken - he mispronounces them often. I feel bad for correcting him, but he thanks me. His grammar can be horrible, but I tend to do most of the email writing. 😅
There's actually an interesting and tragic sociological phenomenon that happened when a 14-year-old girl named Genie Wiley was isolated from everyone for most of her life. Her parents never spoke to her, and she was kept in a locked room away from any social interaction. When she was rescued, people tried to teach her English. At first it was going well, but Genie relapsed back, and it was clear that teaching language at a younger age is significantly easier than teaching a language later in life.
My family all of us kids would “read” pretty much we’d memorize words and would just see the words and go yea this is that thing I gotta make this sound.
I have so many stories of my essentially un-learning how to read. (Sorta)
Looking through dictionarys for ages, looking for a specific word, you have to look away for a bit as the words just stop making sense.
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i wonder about how they did it in english, so many letters have so many way of saying them, yeah in spanish we have ' for aeiou, wich basically says wich letter haves to be pronounced in a different way but in english you don't even have that
Exactly!!! Because of Covid-19 my eldest son, who is 6, is home with me because the schools are closed. I'm helping him to learn how to read. And although I'm fluent in English, I have a really difficult time actually explaining how each letter has a particular sound in a particular word.
Xerzaj · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can read russian and i have no idea how, i know how to speak it a little bit, but when someone types something in russian i can say it almost flawlessly, language and reading is weird
As someone who teaches children to read, it’s
Not til you break words until the smaller parts (sounds, blends, morphographs) that you can effectively teach it
It drives me nuts that I do not remember learning how to read. Not a clue of how I managed it. The earliest memory I have is being in first or second grade and being bored to tears while a classmate tried to read aloud. I had already read the page and didn't dare go further just in case my teacher yelled at me.
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I’m a first grade teacher and teach kids to read every day. It’s the COOLEST thing when you see that reading finally “clicks” with a kid and then they just....get it!
English is really the most ridiculous language to learn with all it’s crazy rules.
You can also do it later in life. I had to relearn how to read and write to learn russian. What you described is more or less how it worked for me, and at some point you get used to it and it becomes more natural
Even if you don't move onto Katakana or Kanji or bother pursuing the rest of the language. Just grab a Hiragana chart and start copying and memorising. You'll get a pretty good idea.
English is more regular than people generally realise. It's just that it has more "rules" on average than other languages. Can be tough, though.
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Bro, I ALWAYS had that question!! It was actually answered(kinda?) when I got the awesome idea of learning a new language. Try it. Learn Russian, Japanese, Hindi, and English(I assume you know atleast one of these, since your comment is in English).
As for how they get it w/o ANY reference, they don't! They actually HAVE a reference! It's just that their reference isn't lines or curves, but instead it's actually sounds.
As for why I chose Those 4 languages, You'll notice those are 4 of the major languages spoken in the world which are different from each other.
Most languages in the Indian Subcontinent are like Hindi.
Most 'Asian' languages are like Japanese.
Most USSR derivatives have languages which are like Russian.
Most languages in the other European countries are like English.
In my own personal experience, reading was extremely intuitive for me. Teachers barely had to point out the basics and I picked it up. I think that genetic memory really comes into it. My father and his fathers have been major readers for generations beyond my knowledge.
Perhaps people whose precursors weren't readers are the ones who have extreme difficulty or reading disorders?
Many people learn to read before they go to school. I have no idea how little me put it together, except that Mom read to us a lot (yes, English). First grade was booooooring.
Or when you’re brushing your teeth or washing your face and you stare at yourself in the mirror too long and you’re just like “whoa, this is me. But I’m actually me and I see me.” And you go into a mini existential crisis about you being you and then you forget it happened.
I sometimes am reading and stare at a word, thinking, “What turn of events caused this specific string of text to make this sound?” Then I spend the next 2 hours thinking about it
that's actually because you've used up the synaptic fluid. The word doesn't actually "lose" meaning, you literally forget that word because the part of your brain responsible for remembering it can't keep up with the demand for recall.
I took cognitive psych as part of my premed prescription but I honestly don't remember HOW we know that, just that the synapses do wear out and it's because of something called synaptic fluid.
I did this with the word "Strong" the other day. Sounds so much like wrong, dong, schlong, bong, song, etc. Totally different meanings, though, and all those words sound wonky too. "Ong" is just a weird little sound if you think about it lol.
WuSin · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't need to look at myself for long to know that I have no meaning, I know that shit already.
I get this way about people in my life sometimes. Like I'll be thinking about them then I'll be like...wait...this person is a huge part of my life? We had a relationship to one another? They're part of my story? weird
I fucking hate when this happens. It’s like all of the sudden I become hyper aware that I am me. And it’s almost like I’m trapped in my own body and can’t escape it. Kind of like seeing yourself as others see you and it’s terrifying or makes you anxious. Sort of like hearing your own voice on a recording. Is that what I sound like? But with this is more like, is this how I am perceived by others? Super hard to explain.
okcup · 5 points · Posted at 20:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right there with ya buddy. Sucks when it happens in a meeting and you have to distract or excuse yourself.
Personally I love this. I imagine this is what enlightenment feels like. Like none of this crap matters, it's just a body, it's just a world, it's just feelings and thoughts - you are beyond all of it. A perfectly detached observer, nothing in the world can touch you.
I’m tracking with your theory but if this is enlightening I don’t know if I want it. You have a point here though. Maybe I don’t like myself as much as I should which is why it’s not an enjoyable experience. Lots to potentially unpack.
I'm thinking the same. I remember doing it as a kid bit never since. Also interesting is staring at your mom & realising she looks different to how you think
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you're doing that, and after you think "woah, this is me", you realize you still actually have no idea at all how other people see you or experience you. This is only you that you're seeing in the mirror because this is how you are experiencing yourself in the mirror.
Basically ego death (look it up it’s an interesting read). It’s like an out of body experience on HGH and steroids. The only way I can describe it is COMPLETELY losing your sense of self and then seeing said self as a separate entity staring back at you in the mirror. It happened during a rough part of college for me and it set me straight after the come down, but damn that eternity I spent looking at myself messed my mind up for a week.
If I didn’t do that trip and look in the mirror though, I don’t think I follow through and go to med school though, because beforehand I was on the verge of switching majors and having a full mental breakdown.
I was on the verge of switching majors and having a full mental breakdown.
Shit like this is what makes me so afraid of ever trying acid. Many people say how good it is for depression, but the risk of just making it way worse or even turning me borderline insane is scary af.
No you misunderstand lol. What you quoted me on was my feelings BEFORE I went through ego death. My self doubt and feeling of “I can’t do this” got completely destroyed during the trip. LSD ego death really makes you look at yourself from the eyes of a different consciousness and it helped me see I was just being dumb and that I was going at myself for no reason.
But I’ll say this over and over again. Psychedelics are NOT for everyone, and if you’re looking into trying it, you should do your research and always have a sober eye watching you on your first trip.
Oh ok, nice. Still, even if it went well for you, my point still stands. Some people get really fucked up (even more) psychologically after doing acid, so that's why I'm afraid to try.
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Thank you for sharing this, it was definitely an interesting read. Overall, my main concern is about psychological damages after the trip itself, like being permanently traumatised and depressed by it. It doesn't seem to have been your case since you're even thinking of doing it again, I suppose? Did you feel like that overwhelming despair affected you say a few days later or is it just like having a bad dream, and when it's over it's over? (being fucked up for some hours or just the day after would be a reasonable risk to me)
I plan on becoming a Doctor but I was having serious doubts about my abilities. Idk why but I guess I just never give myself my well deserved credit. I did LSD for the first time in February and It was a wonderful trip. I remember every problem just melting away and as I went in further I realized that if in doing great ins school now with my current studying habits then I'm positive I can go above and beyond with just a bit more effort and tons of confidence.
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Wetop · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ended up realizing how ugly I am in reality
Happened to me but with shrooms, I immediately started taking steps to improve on myself and get to the root cause of what caused the ugliness and self-loathing.
DEFINITELY NOT what I went through. It was just complete separation from my consciousness if that makes any sense. It wasn’t unpleasant, but just an absolute mindfuck and left me fundamentally changed as a person.
Yeah. I was a pre-med junior in college ready to give up so I took a personal week off and spent the time smoking weed and partying to recharge. I had done acid before but my friend convinced me to double dose on acid for shits and giggles and I ended up staring at a mirror when I went to pee.
The ego death allowed me to see I was being dumb about not being able to do it and that I’d be fine in the long run (on top of other character issues I didn’t realize about myself).
Could you elaborate it somehow? How did ego death experience led you to realize your fears of failure were futile? That’s a really interesting story for me
Here's my shitty take on what I experienced because an intense LSD trip is something you can't really put into exact words:
Imagine looking at your consciousness from the outside. Like as if you've been a video game the whole time and you're finally seeing yourself from the perspective of the person controlling you. But at the same time, I was looking into the mirror as if the person looking back wasn't really me (not in the sense that your reflection isn't you, but more like the third person thing).
I got to take a really good look at the person I was, am, and will be without the rose tinted glasses one has when self-analyzing. And after the come down, I realized the good parts in me and the bad things I need to throw out. The fear of failure was one of those things I threw out.
You went into a severe dissociative state. Some people are like this all the time as a result of repeated long term childhood trauma where the only way to cope was to continually separate themselves from.. themselves, and the world, so it wasn't "them" going through the trauma. Most people go through mild to moderate dissociative episodes rarely. There are many dissociative disorders and what you described is closest to depersonalization disorder (when it only happens once it's not a disorder though of course).
Not sure about everybody, but when I did acid, I looked at my reflection and I literally stared at myself for at least an hour, it didn't feel like I was staring for that long but my buddy came in and made me look away because I had been in the bathroom for so long.
I’ve never had that negative of an experience. I’ll just go to the bathroom, look in the mirror, see myself existing, and be like “wow we really in this bitch huh?” and then move on.
Every now and then, when I'm laying in bed, I start to think "what if there is no afterlife and we just stop existing?" And I try to imagine what it would be like to not exist but it's so incomprehensible that it sends me into an existential crisis. It's almost like feeling the same level of fear of an animal that is facing potential death.
I would prefer that to the idea of your consciousness lasting forever, which is terrifying and likely the case. The only logical progression to me, is reincarnation.
"This container is constantly rotting and having bits replaced, but one day it will fail, the whole thing will rot, and I'll be eaten from the inside by the same bacteria that are helping me eat my food right now"
This right here man. I used to do this shit when I was younger, like less than 10. Thinking about that shit at that age would reallllllly fuck up my little brain for the rest of the day.
What always gets me when looking into a mirror is, "I" am a spongy squishy weird lump of cells and tissue inside a hollow ball of bone. And everything else connected to that mass of tissue isn't actually me. Its just the things my brain developed to help me interact with the world around me.
Your skin, eyes, hair, teeth, bones etc... are literally not "you" just things your brain deemed neccessary to survive in this world.
No you're not! I'm me, not you, you are all a figment of imagination!
kindad · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Acktually, you're not really looking at yourself when you look in the mirror, you're looking at a reflection. The way you really look is flipped from what you see in a mirror.
I start to separate from my image in that instance. Feels like someone else is staring back as opposed to me seeing myself. Really creepy. I usually leave as soon as that happens to forget.
Sometimes I see myself in the mirror and realize, "This is me. This is what my friends have to look at when I'm with them. This face is what people associate with me."
Like I think about how I view the concept of someone else and realize people look at me that way. I am not them.
This probably doesn't make sense, because thoughts don't always translate well into words, but whatever.
I thought I was the only one... Man was I scared
I had like, a full month where I wouldn't look myself in the mirror for more than 10 seconds just to avoid that feeling
I used to do this as a kid and would cause a panic attack. I'd stare at myself and say "I'm me" or "I can't believe it's me" and everything would become almost a tunnel vision and ringing in my eat would get louder and louder and my body would feel hot. Fucking weird.
Heck. I was sitting in front of a mirror when I read this comment and it sent me into a thankfully momentary but still very weird spiral of existential confusion.
I can’t believe there are others who understand. What a relief. I don’t know why.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try doing this shit on acid or mushrooms. Fuck me I swear I was having this mental battle with my reflection trying figure out which one of us was the real one. I do not like looking in the mirror when on hallucinogens.
There's the normal feeling, how you are day to day, then there's the surreal feeling, like you're really out of it, then there's the 100% un-surreal feeling where you're totally tapped into the realization that you exist as a human being that makes choices of your own free will
when I get this feeling I am always reminded of Bandersnatch the movie because it feels like that's the one time i'm truly making my decisions ig but then I feel normal later
Me every morning except I don't forget and I go through my entire day thinking about it and how it will happen again in the evening and then it does and then I have trouble going to sleep. About cover up all the mirrors, nothing to see here, I'm perfectly fine I promise! :/
I have a mirror on the headboard of my bed, and my cat ignores it 99.9999999% of the time... twice I've seen her catch a glimpse of herself and freeze, then start acting like she was tripping balls.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
for a very long time in my childhood i wasnt believing that mirror reflection is me, it always felt like im somewhere just 3rd person watching, but then around my 14th-16th i had this 'wow this is indeed me' realisation moments, i feel you
Yea it's like I see me, but I am thinking this thought of seeing me also. How does my whole mind see this whole visual field....WHAT is actually SEEing???
The first time I did acid, I was with a group of friends. They gave me several pointers to get through the trip, one of which being to never stare at yourself in the mirror.
Apparently it’s common when on hallucinogenics to get ‘trapped’ staring at yourself. People get bad experiences from it and ruin their trip.
That and don’t stare down any drains. Same idea
Suffice it to say I didn’t do acid too many times after that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always think of the fact that everything IS. because it didn't have to be. There could have just not been. The fact that the universe exists is really implausible. And there just happens to be me there that's thinking about it? I could have just as easily not been. But so could everything. Some things are but just as likely, some things could have isn't. It's a 50/50 chance that things just happened to be.
I've done this before, and it's kinda like, "Wow. So this is what people see when they see me." And it's dumb because I know what I look like, I've seen myself every day for 37 years. But for some odd reason, it just really hits me every now and then.
What really trips me out is hearing a recording of myself. I think I sound way different, and it's not just my tone. I have this nonchalant way of talking that I really don't hear as I'm speaking. But then I hear myself in a recording or something and it really just sounds like I'm bored with life.
I can do this with other people too. I think it's kinda cool, it feels like your are looking at them in a purely objective way, completely disregarding what you know about them.
this is called mindfulness. I did it at like 10 and fucking hated it, so tried to avoid it forever. Why meditators seek it I will never understand.
weeone · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are the only person who you will never see in person (only a reflection, photo, or video).
ajp-92 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of this can be due to the mirror effect. You know roughly where your features are because of touch but the mirror flips it, this can be really disconcerting at a subconscious level. Same reason people who don't see many photos of themselves think they look weird in photos - they just arent used to seeing their face that way round.
Looking at your face in a mirror in the dark for a few minutes can also be creepy. Our brains aren't very good at filling in the spaces your eyes can't see. It does alright with things it sees regularly (arms, body, objects) but really struggles with your own face. This can create a creepy as hell image that looks relatively normal, but with a blurred or disfigured face.
Mine is trying to picture what's outside of our universe and then what's outside of that. If you go back before the big bang what would existence look like. The concept of space time is taxing on my mind
Yeah, that's what usually fries my circuits: space. What the fuck do you mean it's infinite? There's got to be a boundary of sorts, surely? But what's outside of that boundary? And where does that end?
And then I give up and go play Tetris or something.
I read a hilarious math paper on that - the tl;dr is no. In infinity, you will eventually, inevitably, hit a long string of S-blocks and get screwed over.
Fun fact- most modern Tetris games use bag randomization rather than true RNG to select pieces. You'll never actually get the same piece more than twice in a row with this method, so you actually can, in theory, play most versions of Tetris infinitely!
amicin · 12 points · Posted at 21:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disclaimer: not a mathematician.
I kinda disagree with this. Statistically that might be true — but if we’re talking about the theoretical side of things, there does exist one possible Tetris game where you never get an S- or a Z-block, right? Which means the reasoning in that claim is nullified.
For example, it’s statistically unlikely (impossible really) that we play a game where we have only 2x2 squares, but it’s still a possible game.
But maybe infinity screws things up. Things get weird when you add infinity.
Disclaimer: Also not a mathematician and haven't reread the paper in like a year
But things do indeed get weird when you add infinity. You can have an arbitrarily long, arbitrarily unlikely game where you never get an S- or Z- block, but the odds get lower and lower the longer the game goes. When you plug in the longest possible game length, the odds are to all intents and purposes zero.
Canrex · 5 points · Posted at 23:24:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity is a concept, not a big number. In this case, an infinity long game of Tetris would contain every possible sequence of blocks. (Ignoring bag randomization, not sure how that works though.)
My understanding of bag randomization is like this:
You have a bag with 10 different colored things in it. You pick one at random. That thing is now outside the bag. Now instead of putting it back in the bag and picking again, you pick another thing and then put the first thing back. This way you still get a randomized result, but no repeats.
Canrex · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:48 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it seems that any version of Tetris that uses bag randomization should allow for infinite play. Neat!
Right, it's just part of the weirdness of probability that if infinitely many things are possible, things that are possible sometimes have probability zero. Technically it just means that the ratio between successes and failures keeps getting lower and lower the longer you play. If you keep playing, the ratio will drop below any number you pick, so the limit is zero, even though there are always ways to succeed.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not for you, you'll die eventually. But as for across generations, yes. Since tetris was first shipped out with gameboys, I'd bet there's not been a single second since where nobody was playing tetris. Since Tetris is always made for new consoles, I see no reason for this trend to end until the end of humanity.
RTRX8 · 5 points · Posted at 17:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. And not because of infinity and S pieces, Tetris doesnt use actual randomness so that's not a problem. The problem is that the game has an ending. After a certain level you beat the game and there's a little video with a rocket taking off.
Now if we're talking about a tetris-knockoff with no ending... still no. Because the speed increases with each level, eventually the pieces will appear already in place.
[deleted] · 75 points · Posted at 16:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space is so weird because realistically. It’s functionally infinite, technically every point in space is the centre of it, but also just. Has a hard boundary. That keeps getting bigger and expanding.
Has a hard boundary. That keeps getting bigger and expanding.
There is no evidence that space is bounded in any way. Our VISIBLE universe is bounded due to the speed of light, but that isn't the same as saying space itself is bounded.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I think it might help to think of space as the nothingness canvas that matter occupies. It's a vacuum not matter, and so it has no need to have boundaries like matter does.
And it’s like, even if it was finite we don’t have the means of ever find out anyway! I read an article somewhere saying that we can only travel so far no matter what. We’re bound eternally in a certain sphere and that’s just it.
So what happens if you catch up to the boundary faster than it can grow? Would it be more like crossing a geographical border, or would you hit a wall?
Just imagine if we did that and it turned out to be the latter. SPLAT!
I had it explained to me by a physicist as more like being the surface of a bubble or balloon that keeps expanding. There is no real "hard edge" you just keep going in a straight line forever and eventually you're where you started...
But then they started to explain why that was a really simplistic concept of it because it requires imagining a multidimensional object in a three dimensional space and I lost further ability to follow.
I had it explained to me by a physicist as more like being the surface of a bubble or balloon that keeps expanding. There is no real "hard edge" you just keep going in a straight line forever and eventually you're where you started...
Only true in certain topologies (shapes).
Our current data suggests that our spacetime on large scales is "flat," which means that going in a straight line forever would get you infinitely far away from where you started. Still no hard boundary.
And time too. Did time have a beginning? Like, NOTHING happened before the "start"? But surely something did. But if there's an infinite amount of time comprising the past, how did we ever make it to this point?
So it has to have began at some point. Some point, where time itself just started.
Theoretical scientists are not fans of believing in an infinite universe.
An infinite universe is problematic, not for the least part because if the universe IS infinite, there are trillions of other Earths out there that are exact duplicates of this earth, down to the flora and fauna (and you), because in an infinite universe, that HAS to happen.
That's not an afterlife though, as much as it is another life, but leaving that aside, and assuming if it is indeed the case then it would've already happened to you an infinite number of times on an infinite number of Earths.
And since you can't remember any of those, does it even matter what will happen after you die?
First of all I'd say it's infinite other Earths, not trillions.
Second the premise here is actually false.
There's no evidence that the universe is a repeating infinity, in fact all evidence suggests that it's an infinitely diverse infinity.
In either case, just because you have an infinity doesn't mean you can find Literally Anything in it, examining PI as an example would tell you as much.
In a curved universe it just eventually loops, there isn’t infinite matter. Perfectly Flat universes are very unlikely. If they did exist though, it would be new matter forever, there would be no edge.
The concept of an infinite void after an “edge of space” isn’t actually scientifically plausible.
A universe with closed geometry "loops" (although dark energy threw a bit of a monkey wrench into that idea), but a flat or open universe would be infinite. Our best data indicates that the universe is probably flat. If it's not, it's very very close.
yes but a flat universe could in theory be finite or infinite. a flat AND finite universe implies that eventually, everything stops, and from then on there's a void, for eternity. I don't think there's any models that predict that, but that is the view of the universe a lot of people have.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes but a flat universe could in theory be finite or infinite.
How could a flat universe be finite? By the by, I'm pretty sure that our measurements are consistent with a flat universe.
right!? "the universe is expanding" ...into what? and how did it start, and what was before? why was there a beginning at all? where did stuff come from to make the beginning?
This is what I was gonna say. Reality itself literally makes no sense at all to me. Time, space, existence, nothing makes sense. It seriously keeps me up at night
I then start to wonder if you're not suppose to try and think too hard about what's outside because my brain starts to physically feel fizzy. So something is not meant to be known. Then I think into matrix theory which is ok to think of because it's wrong and misdirection.
i do however think that through the scientific method we can asymptote our way towards at least understanding what the human conciousness is able to observe. Anything beyond that is kinda irrational to talk about imo because it will forever be speculation and we would be back to religion. Kinda like we will forever live inside our subjective reality
The boundary of space is the speed of light multiplied by the amount of time that the universe has existed. Probably, more than 13 billion and less than 14 billion years ago. So, just divide 14B years into seconds, multiply by ~3*10^8 and you have an upper limit of how vast the space of the universe is, in terms of meters. Outside of that boundary, is emptiness. True space. Space that doesn't contain cosmic background radiation, light, or anything else. Just nothingness. The state of being that is not a thing. Not a state of being, but existing at least in thought, which would be its state of being. Except you can't think about it. I think you know what I'm trying to say.
The wall is time. Because of the limit to the speed of light, the farther something is from you, the farther back in its time you see. If something is 50 light years away, you see it as it was 50 years ago. We could never see more than 13.6 billion light years away because space and time didn't exist as we know it before 13.6 billion years ago
I was starting to wonder that they say it's infinite, because we don't know the size of the whole universe YET (if we'll ever measure it)
Space gets faster in expanding as of now (since the dawn of big bang) so there's a big chance we'll never know. All I know is, we're at the right time to see heavenly bodies before they disappear. There's the curiousity no one can ever answer, and when we get answers we get more questions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was starting to wonder that they say it's infinite, because we don't know the size of the whole universe YET (if we'll ever measure it)
Nah, we can measure the size of the Universe. It's actually pretty nifty how. We measure the geometry of the Universe by looking at the cosmic microwave background, and then extrapolate the size of the Universe from that.
Our measurements right now are consistent with the Universe being flat (in a geometric sense), and if the Universe is flat it must be infinitely large.
I like the concept of time even more. Like, we perceive it as flowing in a direction but is it? What would it look like outside the time stream? Real life is nuts, man. Nuts.
All of these people talking about one thing that cooks their brain. Lucky fuckers. I have to fucking listen to my brain think about every mindfuck at once unless I'm focusing on one specific thing.
I dont think anyone really claims its infinite? The universe is expanding so it must have an edge. My thought was if you somehow got to the edge and "jumped" out you will create your own universe in away, you are matter existing somewhere else.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont think anyone really claims its infinite?
Cosmologists do claim that the Universe could very well be infinite. Our measurements are completely consistent with this.
The universe is expanding so it must have an edge.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:03:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Expanding is kind of a misnomer. Things are getting farther apart from each other (that is, the space between them is increasing). You can call that expanding if you like.
The universe at one point was a singularity, and the visible portion is now something like 90 billion light years across—and continues to become even larger.
That is the very definition of expansion.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but expansion might imply that the object itself is getting bigger. Which in the case of the Universe, isn't right.
The space between things is increasing. That's expansion by most definitions of the word, but avoids the connotion of the entire Universe increasing in size.
If the universe itself isn’t increasing in size where are the objects in it that are now farther apart from each other then they once were going? Are they being bunched up somewhere out of sight like a cosmic junk drawer? If the space between every object is larger now then it once was doesn’t the universe itself need to be larger to maintain that distance?
I mean, if the universe was at one point a singularity and is now much, much larger—how would it be that the object itself hasn’t become larger?
That sounds argumentative. I’m genuinely asking.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:16:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the universe itself isn’t increasing in size where are the objects in it that are now farther apart from each other then they once were going? Are they being bunched up somewhere out of sight like a cosmic junk drawer? If the space between every object is larger now then it once was doesn’t the universe itself need to be larger to maintain that distance?
It depends on the kind of Universe we live in. We can either live in an infinite or a finite Universe. Data is completely consistent with us a living in an infinite Universe, so I'll talk about that. If we live in a finite Universe, it's likely that the Universe kind of loops back around on itself, ie. If you travel far enough away from Earth you'll loop around and come back to Earth. I'm not completely sure how that works with expansion, so I won't talk about that.
But let's assume that the Universe is in fact infinite. In that case, imagine two points on an infinite plane. You can increase the distance between them, but the size of the total plane stays the same (it's still infinitely large). Now imagine doing that between every single point in the plane. That is, the distance between every point increases. Still, the size of the plane that they're on hasn't changed. It's still infinitely large.
It's the same with the Universe. If it's infinite, then you never really run out of space.
I mean, if the universe was at one point a singularity and is now much, much larger—how would it be that the object itself hasn’t become larger?
You have to differentiate between the observable Universe and the entire Universe. You're right that the observable Universe was once extraordinarily small, and later got bigger.
But that's not necessarily the case for the entire Universe. Let's go back to our points on an infinite plane analogy. We said that if you take all the points on an infinite plane and increase the distance between them, then the total size of the infinite plane that they're on hasn't changed. In the same way, you can squeeze them together until they're almost touching, and the total size of the plane wouldn't have changed either. It's still infinite.
Again, this is assuming we live in a flat, infinite Universe. The data is consistent with that, but uncertainty is always a thing. So we might not be in such a Universe.
I was under the impression that the universe was finite, without bounds.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could be, or it could be infinite without bounds. The data is consistent with both right now. I just commented on the infinite case. I'm not entirely sure how a finite but unbounded expanding Universe works.
We can determine whether the Universe is infinite or finite by its shape (in the geometrical sense). If it's flat or negatively curved, it's infinite. If it has positive curvature, its finite without bounds. Current experiments show that the Universe is flat with a margin of error around ~0.5%. So, pretty close to flat.
“Outside space” Assumes a finite and flat universe, that’s the situation where eventually matter just stops, and it’s void, forever to infinity. That kind of universe is very unlikely, though. Far more likely is either flat and infinite (new matter forever & all physically possible things do exist) or, it’s likely, finite but slightly curved (it loops back on itself after an impossibly long distance)
In both those cases there is no ultimate infinite void.
I'm usually moderately good with spacetime itself since I only have a super simplified layman's understanding of it, but once I try to figure out what/where the universe exists IN is where my mind melts down. Like okay, space is expanding. But what's it expanding INTO? if it's able to expand, it must be contained within something with "room" for it to expand into, right?
Or time dilation, just rewatched interstellar last night and the whole ten years on earth for every one hour spent on the planet next to the black hole is fucking wild shit when you stop and try to think about it.
The universe is infinite... but that's impossible... but it's expanding... but if it's expanding it's getting bigger... but if it's bigger now then it wasn't infinite before because nothing is bigger than infinite... but it can't REALLY be infinite because all things have an end... but if it has an end, what is past it... and if something is past it, that something would be part of the universe... so then it really doesn't end... or does it just start back at the beginning like a circle or sphere... but in that case it isn't expanding... unless there is just more space between each molecule but then we are all expanding at the same rate so it really isn't expanding at all in a relative manner... But if it's a sphere, what is outside the sphere... oh god, I need some ibuprofen...
Edit: This has legit bothered me since I was on vacation in like 6th or 7th grade and looking at the stars (couldn't see those at my house) and started wondering... I still have this same though process periodically and I'm in my 30s. I cant figure it out.
It reminds me an idea of nothingness and if it can be. What if there wqs nothing? It's like.. there wouldnt be anyone not only witness it but .. there wouldnt even be time, space, consciousness, nothing that could be a counter to existance. There wouldnt even be nothing. It just.. almost makes no sense that nothing would be and seems like there has to be something all the time.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard Neil Degrasse Tyson say something like this, “There is no end point to the universe. No place where it stops. And it’s expanding.” After contemplating that for ten minutes I felt loopy and took a nap.
My husband has been obsessed with wanting to know what happened right before the big bang. It's hard to find any theories on it. Most of the focus is on the big bang itself.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might be interested in this video. The channel is pretty great for all things astro and physics.
The problem is that probably what you would see would in be a 4 or 5 or 10th dimension and even though you tried to picture it, you just couldnt and that is super frustrating. And infinity i would want to see the end but you can't you only can get closer but not the end
You know what's crazy?
Because of the light speed limit, the farther something is, the further back in time we're looking. It's unnoticable on a small scale. Even the distance to the sun has a light delay of 8 minutes or so. When you look at stars in the night sky sometimes you're looking at a star millions or billions of years before its current state. Some stars in the night sky have supernova'd (?) Millions of years ago in their local time, but with the light speed limit we haven't seen it happen yet.
This is where things get crazy though. There's a limit to how far away we can see, and it's not because of our technology. The farther away we look, the closer we get to seeing the big bang. There's a spherical wall around every point in space, that wall is the big bang
What if the big bang was caused by a previous universe collapsing in upon itself, making our universe like an inside out Tshirt. Or that a star in the sky could have already gone supernova 300 years ago, but if it's 1000 light years away we won't see it for another 700 years, blows my mind every time, but is also freaking awesome.
“Outside” is a term that only has meaning with regard to space. To say that there is something (or nothing) outside of space, means that there is more space. So it wouldn’t be a boundary. I know this sounds like I’m using linguistic semantics as an argument, but in truth I think it’s much more of a physical / philosophical argument. But to even think in terms of outside of space, just has no meaning.
jumpup · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it would be pretty boring, all the fun bits got created over time, so before that you are stuck with mundane atoms.
outside our physical perceivable bubble its likely all the same, stars planets etc don't change much because they are made through physics and physics is predictable. (to an extend)
I just imagine a giant blank white zone/space like heaven. I'm a Christian and it's kind of a given that heaven doesn't exist in this plane of existence (sort of), but what if by saying "he/she is going up to heaven now." Is on to something? Maybe heaven is beyond space and our universe is basically just a big marble? Makes sense that there would be more marble universes too.
Or maybe I just watched MiB too many times idk.
notLOL · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I trip myself out with what if there’s nothing at all? No universes? No galaxies? Complete nothingness... the idea of zero existence of any kind really sets my brain off.
Or when u think "Reality is nice, but why does reality even exist when it could also just not. When I'm dead it's surely like nothing exists" Humans are truly a marvellous arrangement of matter that we can stop and reflect upon such things.
Okay bro crazy you say this Bc I’ve thought about this a lot and no answer anybody tells me is satisfying enough. They say the universe is expanding...okay
1. Wtf is it expanding into? If the universe is literally everything then wtf does it have to expand into, like wouldn’t what it’s expanding to be part of the universe making it not expanding at all and just infinite? Fuck if i know
2. If theoretically we were able to go faster than light could we reach past the expansion of the universe and out or is the universe kinda like a globe, you just go around and there is no going out. Like trying to escape earth by driving around it in a car.
3. We have evidence of the Big Bang yes, once again I’m curious WTF is it expanding into?
You made that up. I mean, there’s probably a supportable statement like that that ends in a very large number, but not that large, so I’m calling it. No offense meant.
Also, to apologize for my original lazy reply. I could have done the math, but I didn’t. Sadly, I tried, but it was very late, and my brain was failing me, and the thought of using a calculator was depressing and humiliating and frightening, so I lazy-replied. Mea maxima culpa.
There are approximately 1030 bacteria on earth (according to wikipedia). Bacteria are roughly 10-6m, so their total size would be about 1024 meters.
One Lightyear is about 1016m, so all those bacteria would stretch about 108 light years. In words: 100 million light years.
Note that all estimates are very rough estimates and serve to estimate the order of scale, not the actual numbers. The actual number might be a tenth or tenfold of my numbers.
You're generally supposed to defend your own argument, not have the opposition do it for you.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, think about the fact that all bacteria on earth outweigh all humans, now consider that if you have a certain amount of something and you want to make a line with it, you would make it thinner to make it as long as possible, so if you were to get something with a lot of mass, like all of the bacteria in the ocean, and make that line as thin as one single bacteria, it would make a line ten million light years long
You still haven't given any source or proof to your argument other than a thought experiment. I looked it up and can only find one quality source that talks about this, and it only mentions that the weight of all bacteria is larger than the weight of all humans (source). I don't see any proof or mention at all of stretching out this line to 10 million light years long (or any length at all).
To clarify: I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm saying we can't believe what you say without any sort of proof for your argument other than "think about it".
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 10:56:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
My main source is Bill Bryson’s “The Body: a guide for occupants” which I recommend you read because it’s a really interesting and nice book with loads of information.
Whenever I start thinking about growing old and passing away and the concept of maybe existing in another plane for the rest of all time I get this awful sensation that I calm down by watching stupid videos on Facebook. I hate existentialism
That's not true. We are limited to the qualia (i.e. how we consciously experience output of senses) we know, so you can't just imagine new color, sound, taste or smell. We can only imagine for example new picture, but it will never contain color different than these from visible spectrum. Same goes for music - we can imagine new melody, but it will never contain entirely new sound outside our hearing range.
You can't also imagine entirely new qualia. I mean you could define the sense behind it (for example echolocation), but you just can't imagine how your brain would "render" it for your consciousness. I'd wager that we also can't really imagine more than three dimensions in our heads (while we can think about the concept, it won't be ever as fluent and intuitive as 1/2/3 dimensional imagination).
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
infinity is so cool.
imagine you take all of the integers, 1, 2, 3, 4.... and so on. now imagine alongside them you have all of the even numbers, 2, 4, 6, 8... and so on. it seems like there are half as many even numbers as there are integers, right? well... not quite. you can take all of the integers and multiply each one by 2, and you get a 1:1 "map" from the integers to the even numbers. for this reason, we say that there are just as many integers as there are even numbers (the 1:1 map is called a bijection). you can create a bijection from the integers to a multiple of any integer, actually. multiples of 3, multiples of 10, multiples of a billion, they all have the same amount as the regular old integers. you can also create a bijection from the integers to the set of all integer fractions (referred to as the rational numbers). it's absolutely wild to me that the number of integers is the same as the number of rationals, when both of those are infinitely sized.
something i'm studying in math is when you have infinite proportions that actually maintain their proportionality.
another cool thing with infinity is that you can have objects that are infinitely long, but have a finite volume and/or surface area. you can also have finitely sized objects with infinite surface area (many fractals are like this).
Think about it: our universe originated out of the Big Bang and we tend to think of it as encompassing all of reality but if space does stretch on infinitely beyond the physical boundary of this universe, who's to say there aren't more?
There could be billions of other, equally vast universes out there with unimaginably huge distances between them developing and eventually collapsing just like ours.
If space-time is non-finite, given that the existence of our own universe is evidence that change can occur resulting in something like a big bang it is in fact statistically necessary that a non-finite number of other universes exist. I like to sit around and contemplate the implications of non-finite space-time for fun precisely because it makes my brain do interesting things. I do not claim to be entirely sane, or consistently correct. For me it is more of a thought experiment, or brain exercise, than something I do to produce a functional hypothesis.
Or to fuck with your head even more, as a math major having the discussion of whether the type of infinite you're talking about is itself finite or infinite infinity.
I got a faint jolt of that when Chris Hadfield was doing a T.E.D. talk, talking about doing a spacewalk and how everyone talks about that feeling of looking down at the Earth, but what hardly anyone mentions is the feeling when you turn around the other way and see the infinite inky blackness of infinity falling away into nothingness beneath you.
Thank you, I like playing with the idea of infinity in my head. Just ordered the book, so hopefully it will help me break my brain even further.
me_irI · 3 points · Posted at 22:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It may help you that it's just a concept. There's no physical basis of infinity at all. Measurement is reality and there's a limit to measurement, where the uncertainty in it is defined by Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle.
There's also a finite amount of energy in the universe, so you can neither measure with infinite precision nor measure an infinite amount of things. Therefore, there's no physical basis of infinity.
Jezer1 · 0 points · Posted at 19:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It may help you that it's just a concept. There's no physical basis of infinity at all. Measurement is reality and there's a limit to measurement, where the uncertainty in it is defined by Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle.
There's also a finite amount of energy in the universe, so you can neither measure with infinite precision nor measure an infinite amount of things. Therefore, there's no physical basis of infinity.
Regardless of the limits of measurement, there is still an infinite amount of points in the distance between your thumb and your index finger. So I wouldn't say there isn't a physical basis for infinity. Size is size; distance is distance. And whether I can see it or not, a point in space between those two fingers can always be smaller and measured with smaller increments of size. The microscopic world demonstrates a physical basis for infinity.
me_irI · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do you demonstrate that there's an infinite amount of points between two points in the physical world? Through logic? Physics is independent of mathematics. We understand the physical world through empirical testing - I.e. physics - not logic - which is mathematics. Empirical testing can refute logic.
With no measurement, you can't know that there's an infinite amount of points between two physical points. Points are an abstract concept, anyway.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:21 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do you demonstrate that there's an infinite amount of points between two points in the physical world? Through logic?
Through math. Which, all of physics comes down to.
Physics is independent of mathematics. We understand the physical world through empirical testing - I.e. physics - not logic - which is mathematics.
You understand the world through math. And math demonstrates there is an infinite amount of points between two points---because that's how numbers/decimal points/units of measurement work. Empirical testing, measurements, etc. boil down to mathematical concepts. Did it match a certain speed? Math. Was there a certain amount of energy input? Math. Did the particle go through each slit or both slits? Math. Is it repeatable? Math. How precise/accurate was the theory? Math.
not logic - which is mathematics. Empirical testing can refute logic.
I'm not sure you understand the nuance of "logic" properly if you think testing refutes it. Logic is fundamentally based on premises---and the very initial premise in a logical argument, whether deductive or inductive, is usually a leap of faith. So, this idea of "refut[ing]" logic is really just refuting human-reasoning based premises. Which happens all the time. But, exploring the depths of the physical world bring forth new premises to base new logical reasoning on.
For example: Here was a philosophical conundrum in the past. If God was omnipotent, could he create a rock he couldn't lift? Either he can do it, in which case he's not omnipotent because such a thing could exist, or he can't do it, in which case he's not omnipotent for being unable to do that thing. The premise here is he can either not create the thing or he can create that thing--either or.
But then, you have quantum physics and the behavior of particles as a wavefunction that is a superposition of the particle being in all possible states/positions at the same time, until it is measured.
So, this former "logical proof" against the existence of an omnipotent deity loses its premise that God cannot be simultaneously in two seemingly contradictory positions--both omnipotent, and unable to do something, at the same time.
With no measurement, you can't know that there's an infinite amount of points between two physical points. Points are an abstract concept, anyway.
Essentially, you're saying none of higher physics can be known. Sure, but that makes your beef with the limits of human testing and knowledge. Can you demonstrate that gravity, energy, inertia, the limit to the speed of light, electromagnetism, etc. exists in all solar systems throughout the universe? No physicist can. But they can come as close as they can to "demonstrating" certain universalities like that through their math and the extrapolation from it.
I know (as well as a thing can be knowable) that I can always add a decimal or digit to make a number smaller and refer to a smaller point, with the only limit being my lifespan.
And no, points are no more abstract than space is.
me_irI · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:03 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the comment. I see your points, I still disagree. I agree that mathematics does describe a reality -Godels incompleteness theorem kind of implies that imo. I don't know if that reality is the sameu reality that physics describes - it does seem that way, due to the amazing consistent nature between what we measure and what logically should happen, but there's not really a way to prove that at the moment.
I'm basing these limits of logic off of Ayer's philosophy.
Couldn't find the specific excerpt I was looking for, but from the Wikipedia page of Language, Truth, and Logic:
According to Ayer, no proposition concerning "matters of fact" can ever be shown to be necessarily true, because there is always a possibility that it may be refuted by further empirical testing. Logical certainty is possible only for analytic observations, which are tautologies, and not for empirical observations concerning "matters of fact."
I am mostly saying that analysis is separate from empirical testing. To make sense of the testing, you require analysis, but logic can be a completely separate system from our physical world, based on whatever axioms you give it.
Speculating about infinity as a concept is still valid - as mathematics does describe a reality. Just not necessarily the conventual physical reality.
Like, if you tried to get a 100% accurate census of how many humans are on the planet currently, many people would die and be born while you are counting.
But with population you can make an estimate, knowing the number won't be definite. So that is "indefinite"
But with infinity, there's no finite number because the number keeps expanding exponentially.
I'm sure this way of looking at it is faulty, but it's probably about as well as I need to understand the concepts in day to day life.
Try imagining a black hole after youve done a deep dive about it. Now that's also fucking weird. I did that after interstellar and just wish I could forget about it
I absolutely remember as a child thinking about how I couldn’t understand how big space is and trying to think of how there is no end to it. My little mild couldn’t handle it. Still can’t.
Infinity. A word that describes something that is boundless. Unbounded. Unlimited. Limitless. As in, not limited by the very definition of the concept. Limitless is a limitation in itself... it is the limit of not being able to be limited. For example, the number of integers between 1 and 10. That is a limitation, clearly. So, infinity could not be this. But wait. If something couldn't be something... is that not a limitation? Isn't infinity limited by the impossibility of being limited?
The best way to describe infinity, is nothing. Not zero, not void... just not a thing...
Nothing's another weird one. The word defines "not a thing". Except it doesn't. Because any thought you have, is a thing. A thought is a thing. Void. That's a thing. Emptiness is another thing. Everything you could name, label, articulate. Anything you can see, hear, or be. Those are all things. Even 'not a thing' is a thing. It's a description of an idea.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity. A word that describes something that is boundless
What is it boundless in?
Your post stems primarily from not defining what you mean by infinity in clear terms.
It is boundless in that thing. That doesn't mean it has to be boundless in its definition. Infinite size/number doesn't mean infinite in terms of any other thing---like color or meaning.
Infinite means unlimited. That is pretty clear, no? It is a concept of something that is endless.
It is boundless in general. In everything.
You can say “the infinity of numbers between 0 and 1”, and that is a clear blinding. Or, you can say “infinity” and understand that your utterance is a part of what is truly without bound. The Universe. Grand Existence.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinite means unlimited
"Infinite" is often, especially as it casually used, an adjective that describes something.
So the question becomes. What is infinite? What are you attaching the adjective to?
And honestly, I'm not sure the word functions properly without attaching it to something else.
Yeah, I get actual apeirophobia, which is the fear of eternity. I’m a Christian, so I basically have to avoid thinking about the next life, or else I will totally freak out and have a panic attack. Like I know it’ll be good once I get there, but my smol human brain just can’t take it.
Not just infinity, but that there are different kinds of infinity. For example, there are an infinite number of countable numbers; i.e. 1, 2, 3, 4... There are also an infinite number of rational numbers (rational number: any number that has a finite decimal value) between any two other rational numbers. There is also an infinite number of irrational numbers.
Here's the thing, our understanding of infinite is based on our finite lifespan. We can never truly understand infinite. If something keeps going on forever there's no way we could objectively observe it. Our planet is a few billion years old, your lifespan is a pin compared to it. There are nine zeros in a billion (1,000,000,000), you'd be lucky to reach a 3 digit age. To conclude, ............................................................
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And apparently there are like ten different concepts of infinity. I read a book on infinity that was titled as such cuz’ I thought it would be cool to have a deeper grasp on the subject. If the idea of infinity comes up in conversation comes up now I keep my mouth shut, because I realize I have no idea what I’m talking about. When you read a book to benefit yourself and you come out the backend feeling dumber.
For me the idea of infinity is pretty simple. Because I can substitute a decent heuristic to understand it: "think of a number, or a size. It's bigger than that." And I can do that all day, but I won't, because I know it will always be bigger than that.
What really screws with my head is the idea of very large finite numbers. Things like Graham's number, which is greater than any intelligence will ever be able to perceive, but is still less than Graham's number plus one
Brains can't fathom the concept of infinity because nothing we know has ever existed indefinitely. It can't wrap itself around the concept of something not having a beginning or an end without try to focus on some sort of point of existence.
Crazy shi, that infinity stuff.
[deleted] · 529 points · Posted at 15:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll have those moments when I'm brushing my teeth or something. I'll just start looking at myself and thinking like "I'm just a body, I'm just like living, like this is what I look like and I'm just alive. How? How is this happening? And why?"
Do you think it is? I dont think so but I think my brain wants me to think It is as a act to hope theres so mbv wthing after life maybe like we move on to a next step in a way. I think my kind is part of my body it's just a wet lump of meat making electrical impulses until I decay. But then i think about if we have free will i mean do we or is life like one big chain reaction of chemistry that snowballs. Please tell me what you think
I have no idea lmao. I'd like to think they're separate, otherwise it implies we don't really have free will. I like to think I have free will, I feel like I do. I feel like I can override the things my brain is telling me. But maybe that's just another part of my brain. Basically everything you juat said lol. I'm not sure it can ever really even be answered, regardless of technological progress. Smarter people than me have devoted their lives to it and came up with nothing
jhunt42 · 11 points · Posted at 22:40:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh boy. I'm studying human anatomy at uni and it keeps blowing my mind in this way. A trillion little things going on inside a trillion little cells that make up you. But also because they explain how a muscle works but they can't explain how YOU move the muscle...
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 00:27:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Depersonalization. It’s surreal when it happens.
Consciousness really fucks with me. Like our brains are so developed and we're the only species that is self aware, then our consciousness just disappears when we die
EDIT: Apparently humans aren't the only species that are self aware. Y'all don't need to tell me this 50 times lol
Hyndis · 366 points · Posted at 19:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The weird thing is, I'm not even sure I'm conscious in the first place.
Have you ever zoned out while performing a complex task, and yet despite being totally tuned out you still manage to complete the complex task?
Driving is a great and horrifying example of this. Road hypnosis is a thing. You can be totally zoned out you don't even remember driving for the past 30 minutes, and yet you've arrived at your destination. There was no conscious mind active, so you were unconscious, and yet managed to successfully operate a 3,000 pound lump of steel traveling at 75mph for 30 minutes.
If I can do that without the "I" being present, is the "I" part even really needed? Or am "I" just the peanut gallery, observing on and commenting on things that are happening automatically without "my" intervention?
Imagine if zoning out ment that the autopilot was taking over, beating the consciousness and restoring the body into it's original state. But then you come to your senses, overriding this sliding back into abyss. And would anyone know if zoning out won and you became autopiloted? Are there people who already are, but we will never know?
doesnt that equate to "no free will"? without free will you basically must be an observer who thinks he has a control over whatever he does, but it's just him feeling the thoughts and understanding why the thing which is happening is happening, fooling him enough to think he made the thought and decision.. ?
Adam-K · 9 points · Posted at 23:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not in my opinion. If you can observe what you’re thinking and feeling from a detached state, I’d say you actually have more power in your free will, instead of being ruled by your thoughts and feelings and desires. You can observe these things happening, and then decide what you’d like to do, and use thoughts and feelings more like a tool.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:20 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frightening concept. Would make life twice sad on so many levels.
ajp-92 · 3 points · Posted at 01:29:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are describing a fear a lot of people with extreme dissociation have. The ANP or 'front part' (the 'I') comes back, but not knowing what happened when another part was in control is way scarier
Years ago I read a paper about people who have experienced brain bifurcation. Essentially the two hemispheres of their brains have been surgically (or accidentally) seperated. They essentially lose all control of half of their body... But that half still functions.
Even more interesting, and you can see video of this, there is still some kind of communication taking place behind the scenes. Like if they show an image to the eye that is "blind", that the consciously aware test subject can't see, they might hear a bell outside or in some other way be aware of the bell. Or they'll show an image to the seeing eye, that the blind one can't see, and get the hand they have no control over to draw and it will draw the image.
The best thing that researchers were able to come up with is that, essentially, we share brain space with a "silent partner" our whole lives and the only time it ever really comes to the front is when our brains are split, or during autopilot.
You should look into it. It's fascinating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:48:35 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck i will do. I am happy with my simple view of the world. It terrifies me. BTW happy cakeday, bruh
I wouldn't say you were unconscious. I'm no psychologist, but from what I understand your brain basically regards those 30 minutes as uneventful/unimportant so it doesn't commit it to memory.
k3rn3 · 18 points · Posted at 21:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah this fucks me up too. The more I learn about physics and philosophy, the more I feel like consciousness is kind of an illusion which conceals the fact that we're just organic machinery
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:54:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 00:03:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If that's true then I love how parts of the inevitable machine has inexorably led itself to this Reddit thread where it is now arguing with itself about the nature of itself.
k3rn3 · 3 points · Posted at 23:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, this is the essence of determinism
It could definitely be an inaccurate conception for how things work, but that all depends on quantum stuff that isn't fully understood by science yet (let alone average people like us). At the moment it does seem like we are just squishy automatons
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:46:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think that we have no free will and that there's functionally no difference between us and a philosophical zombie (a human with no consciousness, but who mimicked the human body and brain perfectly), but then I thought about how we're aware of our own consciousness. What the fuck is that? What are the atoms in my brain reacting to when I think about this weird sense of "me"? If everything is deterministic, then why did we develop both a consciousness and the ability to think about our consciousness?
k3rn3 · 5 points · Posted at 01:03:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you're so right. I think that's called metacognition but I could be wrong. I believe these days determinism is falling out of popularity in favor of something called compatibilism (which I don't fully understand, myself).
I used to be a hard determinist, but certain developments in quantum mechanics seem to undermine that. Not that I pretend to know about that stuff beyond a highly superficial level.
I'm not religious or spiritual at all, but if I were, this is probably how I would reconcile faith and science.
ajp-92 · 7 points · Posted at 01:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, metacognition. The act of thinking about thinking. Super important skill in psychology/therapy. Not everyone has this to the same degree though. People with things like severe depression often have reduced metacognition whereas anxiety often comes with an excessive amount
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 21:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The weird thing with this is that you can't know if you were "unconscious", or conscious but just not bothering to record memory. The latter is more likely I think. You may have had self aware moments during that trip, you just can't access them because you're brain was like "yeah this is so familiar I'm not going to write it down".
Shows how linked memory and consciousness and identity are.
Then there is the fun of having a recall cue disorder. I have all kinds of data and memories stored in my brain, but I cannot always predict what will allow me to access them. So just because I can't think of something, or pull up a memory doesn't mean that it isn't stored in there, I just need a completely different kind of cue to get my memory to spit it out. This is also fun because my mind will also often spit out memories that are not especially relevant to the situation, but tangentially associated as a result of what amounts to a misfiled memory cue.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I pay attention to my mirrors and surroundings while driving. Hours upon hours of training and years of experience, with a little discipline helps mitigate that for the most part, but occasionally it still happens for brief periods.
Depends on what I'm driving though, smooth quiet vehicles make it exponentially more difficult to fight road hypnosis which is partially why all my vehicles are old and have manual transmissions.
Due to my mental health I can go into dissociative states and sometimes this can be for most of the day spanning weeks/months. So imagine being on ‘autopilot’ for that long and then one day it lifting and you ‘wake up’ again. I think the ‘i’ part of me is not needed to perform menial every day tasks but the ‘i’ part that provides the observations and comments and intervention is what makes me who I actually am.
I just thought I’d hop on here and mention this; this is essentially what spiritualism is. Like what Buddha taught. The truest sense of “I” is not your body, which ceases to function when you die, it’s not your mind, which ceases to exist when you die, it’s not your ego, which is a made up narrative about who you are; but rather it’s the consciousness that is observing all of these things.
Eckhart Tolle (very influential spiritual teacher) had major anxiety and depression in med school, and one night he couldn’t sleep and thought “I can’t live with myself anymore.” This caused him to think, wait, does that mean that “I” is something different than “myself”? Are they two separate entities? And mulling over this allegedly brought him to “enlightenment”, where he realized that all we are is peaceful awareness.
So driving down the highway, your body and mind are functioning just fine all on their own!
DTFH_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should check out "thinking fast and slow". They won a noble prize studying this
ajp-92 · 2 points · Posted at 01:26:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychologist here. Google dissociation. Some level of dissociation is very normal (eg autopilot driving the same route you've driven everday) but it can become a problem, especially in those who have another psychological condition, like depression or PTSD
Every time I think about the fact that I'm me, and that I'm the one saying the things I say and doing the things I do, I find myself getting a little lost.
It's a bit difficult to say an animal does or does not have consciousness
well that's because, like most things, "consciousness" isn't a real thing. It's just a descriptive term that we use, and we get to define it however we want. We get to set an arbitrary threshold and then try to see what falls on either side of the threshold we created.
The concept of "identity" is the same. In objective, physical terms, 'identity' doesn't exist. There is no you, or me, or chair, or Earth. There are only relationships between matter and energy and we recognize the more significant collections of these relationships and give them names.
A huge chunk of all Philosophy is just wasted nonsense arguing on false premises because we refuse to recnognize this truth (largely because it would have been blasphemic heresy against religion for most of human history).
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess that depends on what you define to be "real". Included in reality. That's how I define it. Is consciousness not included in reality? This awareness of mind? It's pretty real to me. It is more real to me than anything else you could name...
It's like looking through glasses, and saying that the glasses aren't real because you're looking through them rather than at them. But you forget, that you can direct your attention to the glasses, too.
I'm not talking about reality, i'm talking about the idea of 'identity' or 'consciousness'
Those are fictional ideas. It doesn't mean the things we describe with them aren't real things. It just means the definition is artificial and arbitrary. If we criticize what it means to be you, we can quickly see where the identity breaks down - are the trillions of bacteria in your body part of 'you'? What about the food you ate that's currently digesting in your stomach? What if I cut off your finger, is the finger part of you? How about when I reattach it successfully? What about a liver transplant? Were you 'You' when you were an egg, or a sperm, or a fertilized egg? The definition changes every second to stay within our expectations.
It's useful for us in practicality but its no less imaginary. Like 'The Economy'
I am All. So yes, to all of that. That's all me. As well as everything else, nothing else. Totality, is what I am. That is why, when, how, and where I exist.
Clearly, I am real. I understand that my identity isn't, but I don't need identity to be conscious. They are very different things, in my eyes.
Identity is an idea. Entirely imaginary, like the rest of ideas. Consciousness is awareness. It has an imaginary component, but it also has a real component. Would you say that sight is imaginary? Or sound? Both have an imaginary, as well as a real component. Because you actually experience them. You do not actually experience identity. You do not actually experience the economy. You interact with these, as ideas.
That’s as wrong as saying time doesn’t exist. Or anything made up of something complex doesn’t exist. Should I also say that steel doesn’t exist, because that’s just the name we’ve given to iron + coal?
We know consciousness exists because we experience it. Your supposed answer for consciousness and identity doesn’t actually answer anything. It’s entirely built off assumptions.
You're missing something or maybe I explained it wrong.
If I say the concept of "You" isn't real, I don't mean that your skin and bones and brain and blood are imaginary. They're obviously real. What I'm saying is that 'You' is not a static entity. What 'You' are is changing every second. So when we ask a question like "who are you" we are really asking what are the persistent qualities that your biomass possesses?
A bad example but maybe to illustrate - if I cut off your legs and arms are you still You? Yes, okay how about if then you get a liver, heart, eye, blood, kidney tranplant. Yes? Okay so really 'You' is your consciousness itself. So if I copied your consciousness digitally then that copy would also be 'You'? Wait no? See it gets very confusing and its because its arbitrary in the first place.
"You" is the continuous mental construct experiencing your surroundings. I would argue (as many scifi media have) that a digital copy would believe itself to be "you", but is in fact another very similar entity. As soon as "you" is disrupted in any way, it becomes something else. Teleportation? The entity that arrives thinks it is "you" but unless the atoms were the same ones, transported simultaneously, in the same configuration, "you" has ceased to exist. What is now extant is a perfect copy with all your memories... But consciousness was interrupted as the pattern was recorded, destroyed, and instantly recreated elsewhere.
So... i think the key to "you" is continuous experience. Which begs the question: if the transporter destroyed you and made you anew, but the new copy thinks of itself as the only one... How is that any different to a good night's sleep? I close my eyes, and wake up the next day. I have only my memories telling me that "i" am the same individual that laid down last night. There's no guarantee i haven't been replaced by a duplicate during the night.
How is that any different to a good night's sleep? I close my eyes, and wake up the next day. I have only my memories telling me that "i" am the same individual that laid down last night. There's no guarantee i haven't been replaced by a duplicate during the night.
This thought made me have sleep phobia a few months ago.
There's not any evidence that consciousness itself is a local phenomenon. Our human perception of it is obviously happening locally because it's directly affected by our organs, our electrical and chemical systems. But that doesn't explain in any way how it could arise from otherwise "dumb" matter. It's just as likely a basic building block of the universe, but generally nothing like human consciousness.
I'm a big fan of the filter model. Your brain doesn't create consciousness, it is a filter for consciousness that already Is. Filtering it into what is relevant to your brain. Body, sight, sound, these are relevant to the brain, so you are aware of them.
My favorite model is very similar. I really dig panpsychism.
I also enjoy the antenna theory, that the brain is just a thing that sort of receives consciousness and interprets it and had a useful physical output for it, similar to a TV or radio receiving waves and turning it into something physically recognizable. It seems like the tv or radio are creating the picture or sounds, but it's really just the right hardware tuning into something that's broadcasting all over the place.
I also like the idea that consciousness is a product of any system, and it just happens to become complex enough in a specific way to be self aware in animals.
Love the wave analogy, I think that's a great way to describe this idea.
Panpsychism is just beyond me. I can understand that it is entailed by my very own beliefs, but I absolutely cannot grasp how that would work, why that would be the case, or how anybody came to that conclusion... could you talk about it?
I'm definitely pantheist as well, but I'm not totally sold on panpsychism simply because my panpsychist leanings aren't all logically based. It feels intuitively correct, but I can't think it out and explain it the way I can pantheism.
What I can say about it though, is that I think it makes sense that the universe is alive in a way that requires consciousness. I don't think that anything could exist or behave in any particular way without having a certain intention to do so. Which isn't to say that every electron in the universe is actively thinking "I am an electron" as much as it's something that arises from a basic will to be, and governed by the rules of what has already willed itself to be. It also seems intuitive to me that consciousness could not arise out of something that isn't conscious. If there truly is no separation between you or me or the rest of the universe, then that is the universe itself thinking and doing. I also mentioned the theory that all systems give rise to some sort of consciousness, which would mean that every conceivable division of the universe is alive and aware, and that the entirety of the universe is also a conscious being. Similarly, if our body is controlled, at least in part, by a conscious mind, it seems to me that the body itself is an extension of that consciousness. There are also a lot of really interesting studies done on things like placebos, and the effects of intentions on physical events and computer simulations. This doesn't necessarily point to consciousness being the basic building block of reality, it could also be a field or something. But it's compelling in any case.
Like I said before though, this is more metaphysics and intuition than anything. There are plenty of ways to explain the things I addressed, so I try to allow myself to hold these ideas near to my heart, but not take them as an absolute truth.
So I suppose my qualm would be- are those things conscious as individuals? It's my belief that us humans do the separating, proposing that a car on the road is particularly separate from the road. I'd think the car is conscious, but that seems like a disservice to the truth, which is why it sounds so strange. It is that thing that we happen to call a car, that is conscious. The thing that isn't separate from the road, or anything else. The thing that is.. well, everything. The car doesn't think it's a car, but instead knows it is All, and that is how it exists. It doesn't separate itself, like we do. From the point of view of the car, the car is individual, but not individual as a car. Individual as the Singularity.
The entirety of the Universe is a conscious being. From my POV, the entirety of the Universe is ONE conscious being. The only conscious being. As humans, we frame that as a thing that is separate from us- even if we understand that isn't the case, it is generally what we experience. But we aren't separate. Because we are alive and have brains, it is useful to separate the human from the environment, in order to allow the human to flourish. As such, we experience our human selves as in the Universe. But more truthfully, the Universe is what we really are. Because there is only oneconscious being that exists. And it is the Universe. I am a conscious being that exists, so it only follows that I am the Universe.
I guess the point of what I'm saying is that panpsychism appears correct, but only technically. It is true that a car is conscious- aware of itself. But, this is only the case because the car doesn't see itself as a car, but instead, the entire Universe. Indivisible- no tires or headlights, just simply All. That is what it is aware of. All that exists. Not just the car. A car has self-awareness, but the self of the car is not the car. The self of the car is the Universe- and that is what it is aware of.
While you are correct in saying there's no evidence that consciousness is a local phenomenon, you'd do well to remember that the opposite is true. The question is therefore irrelevant.
It's not irrelevant. We should investigate and postulate, and look at all sides. If we don't look, we'll never get closer to an answer. It's just not useful to make an assumption that it's one way or the other, or we end up mired in dogma.
Consciousness really fucks with me. Like our brains are so developed and we're the only species that is self aware, then our consciousness just disappears when we die
Other species are self aware. Simply because we struggle to communicate with them doesn't mean they are not self aware. Or maybe I'm understanding what you mean by self aware.
There are some interesting theories of consciousness. If you're really interested in the subject, you should look up some books by Rita Carter. She has some books that discuss a few of the theories in words some enough that when I was 15, I could understand them (no I'm not a genius or really that smart even).
But we are the only species that knows as much about our existence as we do, ie our species exists as a result of evolution, and that we live within one of many galaxies. Although interestingly dung beetles use the milky way to navigate, not the same as awareness but they do know there's a big line of light across the sky exists.
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[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 19:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why/how would it? It's just a bunch of electrical/chemical signals in your brain.
Here's a weird thought: What we think of as consciousness is, as far as we know, a result of a massively complex set of interactions in the physical brain. Consciousness is the result of essentially an analog feedback loop.
An OpAmp is an analog feedback loop. Is it conscious? Why not?
What is pain? It's "a signal in the brain that informs us of damage". That's not really helpful. From a consciousness perspective... from a perception perspective, what is it? It's unpleasant.
When you turn a volume control all the way up, and the sound starts to get all distorted as the transistors all saturate and can't go further. Does it hurt them? I don't mean does it damage the electronic elements, I mean: do they perceive pain?
If you think is it all ridiculous, ask: How many analog feedback loops does it take to make something conscious, and how would we ever know that limit?
TL;DR: Don't play your music loud; it's iPhone abuse.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
is it though?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, Vsauce. Michael here!
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I've read all your comments and just wanna say that you trust your mind's ability to parse the world too much. We evolved to survive long enough to procreate and raise our progeny and maybe their progeny too. The tools we have are tuned to that task, not the task of understanding the nature of reality.
This is why you have to put your efforts into science-based investigation. It is the best way to circumvent your inherent biases and find out what is actually true, as opposed to what feels right to you.
Don't trust your perceptions and tendencies, they are not well suited to the world.
Everything we have ever observed follows a set of physical laws, across centries of observation, across billions of light years of space, looking back to the first 300,000 years of the universe, everything follows physical laws. Why then do you assume we are any different? Why do you think you are so special that you get to ignore the rules of reality?
The electrochemical nature of the brain is cannot be argued. There is no evidence that the brain participates in any interactions other than physical ones modeled by physics and biochemistry. There is ample evidence that changes to the electrochemical environment in the brain leads to perceptual and behavioral changes. There is even evidence that the signalling in the brain precedes the conscious experience of desire and choice!
In fact I think there is solid observational evidence that we have no free will because our brains must follow physical laws at all times, so our brains always act as they must as dictated by their initial conditions and the laws of physics.
I think you misinterpret my sentiment. Truth does not defy science... science is an analytical look at what is true. And of course, it can only analyze what is analyzable.
There’s a part of us you can’t explain. Simple as that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best of what information? There is no science that shows otherwise, so I’m not going to pretend that it makes any sense at all that there is any other phenomenon to consciousness.
My information. The things I've experienced, the ideas created within me.
Do you think that science is what allows you to experience consciousness, or...? Why are you so focused on science? Do you need science to know that you exist? Do you need science to know that you experience? That you're aware? Could science even delve into phenomenal matters like this?
I'm not sure, but I know we're definitely not there yet. Regardless, just consider what consciousness actually is. It is awareness of the mind.
If you identify as a human and nothing else, then yeah you're not going to be able to wrap your head around this. If you realize there's more to You than the substance you embody, new pathways open up. Although, you will encounter experiences and ideas that are simply too great for words to contain. Like Being God. Being God is ineffable. It cannot be put into words. Sure, I tried to explain it with those two simple words, but obviously that doesn't convey much substance. You have no idea what I mean when I say that. And no, it's not "thinking that you are God", because obviously those are very different things. Instead, I'll give you a few synonyms: non-being, clairvoyancy, non-duality, ego death, mystical experiences, everything, nothing. These seem like different things, but they all describe exactly the same thing. Being God.
Anyway. What exactly is my information that leads me to eschew the idea that consciousness is created in the brain? Reason. Intelligence. Purpose. These are all things that created themselves. Think about it. What is the purpose of evolution? How did general intelligence lead to realization of particular intelligence? How could evolution start, without a purpose to start it? When I say evolution, I don't just mean evolution of life. I mean evolution of the Universe. From the big bang, to this point here and now. You can say it doesn't have a purpose, yet it clearly does... efficiency. Efficacy. Actualization of the self. Creation of adaptability.
To me, there is a clear-cut purpose to this existence. Self-love. This Universe is one of the facets that allows God (the Universe) to love itself. The proof, is that conscious things tend to love. What greater purpose is there to awareness, than awareness of the best thing, love? We appreciate. Even when we've deluded ourselves to forget or ignore this truth, it is so easy to understand when you have it. I recognize this is pretty woo-woo, so feel free to laugh at or challenge anything I say. I'll love you anyway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science is simply a way of thinking. It means that things need to be proved and be based on observable information. Obviously I don't need a scientific study to know that I am conscious. To be able to figure out how consciousness works and what it is, absolutely.
The rest of your assumptions about reason, intelligence, and purpose just have no ground to stand on. Intelligence was evolutionarily advantageous, and so we have evolved with it. Our reasoning comes from this evolutionary pressure and whatever led to it. Lastly, purpose isn't relevant at all to this discussion. There was no purpose to the Big Bang, it simply was. There is no purpose to life, it simply is.
If you don't have a theory backed by data and observation, then you can literally just claim anything you want and say "well that's just my experience, and I know I'm not wrong" which is exactly what everyone responding to me is doing.
Right. Science is an ideology in itself. If you want Truth, lose your ideologies.
You say there's no purpose to life. So why do you do it? Is the purpose of life, not simply to enjoy it?
Well, I do have a theory backed by data and observation. Self-love is the ultimate purpose. The data: I feel my best when I love myself. Speaking in terms of evolution, the best and most pure feeling, would be the best thing to do. That's why I've evolved to do it. So, it follows that the best thing to do is to self-love, and the evidence is that there's nothing I enjoy more, than loving myself. To give some other examples: exercising feels pretty great, I enjoy it quite a bit. Hurting myself feels pretty shitty, I try to avoid it. In terms of evolution, it follows that exercising must have given me an advantage, and hurting myself must have given me a disadvantage. So, the logic seems to compute. Loving myself appears to the best thing, so it is apparent that the greatest advantage evolution has to offer, is self-love. What exactly is evolution doing, aside from providing the greatest advantage? If evolution is doing nothing but providing the greatest advantage over time, is it not accurate to say that that is its very purpose? If all a river does is flow, is flow not the ultimate purpose of the river? If all ant does is be an ant, isn't that its purpose? To be an ant? If something fundamentally does one thing and nothing else, that is clearly, to me, its purpose.
Well, recognize that you don't need to hold gravity as an idea, in order to witness it. And also, that's fine. One of the beauties of this lifestyle. It isn't for everyone! I think everybody is capable, but not everybody wants to do it, and I'm in no position to tell you that this will be better for you than what you're already doing. You don't need to consider God to be a good person or live an enjoyable life. I stumbled upon this path and have stuck with it- I wasn't searching when it found me. I was just trippin on some acid, when my ego died. It came back, but I started to understand the possibilities. They are beautiful, and endless. If I met me 5 years ago, I would probably disregard everything I'm saying. I just wouldn't have any way to make sense of what all of this means, or what it implies, indicates, entails, proposes.
I think something that made it easier to accept this way, is that in doing so life just became better for me, in a myriad different ways. I've had such a good time that I have no resentment for death. If 20 years is all I get to live, its already worth it. Course, I have a feeling the Universe has even more love to share. There's an endless supply, especially in each person. One of the things I strive for, is to unleash the love that people are afraid to use. Has resulted in a lot of connections :) Turns out, I love to connect, so I keep doing it.
Also, the reward typically comes beforehand. It's not like you be a good person and then get to love. You just experience a great amount of love, and that makes you a good person. And being a good person makes you love more, appreciate more, so you find new, different, unique ways to love and appreciate. Straight up, I was just having a good time and then this change sparked. It has been so good to me, that I have no reason to give it up. Still balanced, though. I don't abuse substances, so they don't abuse me.
And of course, it isn't like this is all about emotion and how I feel. Being more conscious, more aware, just has very good implications. Leads to a very healthy, clean lifestyle. One that isn't a chore, but one you genuinely enjoy every step of the way.
If you have no self, there is nothing to fear, but everything to appreciate. You are uncorruptable, pure, and perfectly complete. Just like everybody else! Only difference is that you realize it, and appreciate it.
Human consciousness (and to some limited degree animal consciousness), by our best definition, is derived from the types of circuits our neurons form. It’s not just an electrical or chemical potential that’s necessary - you need circuits that feed back and have some recursive information transfer versus simple feed-forward circuits, otherwise the organism never develops awareness of the information itself.
All that said, we don’t know what consciousness is, there is really no satisfactory reductive explanation of it as anything other than an emergent phenomenon.
Logically speaking, we can’t rule out other forms of consciousness that might exist and are not apparent to us. For example, when we look for consciousness in animals, we look for near-immediate information processing in experiments like the mirror-dot test. We don’t consider information transfers and energy transfer circuits occurring on massive time or distance scales - who’s to say there couldn’t be a “cosmic consciousness” that emerges over the course of eons?
I’ll acknowledge that all sounds a little hokey and New-Age, but many of the greatest minds in the field of Philosophy of Mind (like David Chalmers, Thomas Nagel, and Alfred North Whitehead) seriously consider panpsychism as a possibility.
law of conservation of mass, and the law of conservation of energy. if you see our consciousness as an energy of sorts, which is no stretch of the imagination... someone smarter and more spiritual than me can connect the dots here. perhaps it flows out from you after you die into the people around you, like a laugh after you tell a joke
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The mass and energy is still there. Your brain still physically exists until you decompose and the mass is transformed by whatever bacteria are doing the decomposing. The chemical energy is still there and is used in the decomposition. There's no magical/spiritual/emotional energy or whatever.
Yeah it's the coherence of electrochemical activity that is consciousness not the energy itself. When you die the physical brain is no longer electrochemically shepherding the distribution of electric and chemical potentials and so the infrastructure is lost but the energy is still there, it's just dispersing like every other non-active system.
you’ve spoken for the brain, not for the consciousness. you’ve attempted to fit the phenomenon of death into your classifications, into science which you can understand and accept it. i simply believe there’s more to it than that.
and a driver needs a car to pick up speed. if you tell me what an engine does, that doesn’t necessarily explain the physics of speed
Obokan · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All studies on consciousness if you were to look it up, show that the consciousness is the brain, our brain isn't like a radio receiving a transmission or anything like that. There is nothing that precedes the brain for consciousness to happen.
Philosophers and enlightened people have been spreading the same message in different words all over the world. That message is basically saying that death isn't the end, that there is more after death, that death is only a new beginning.
Of course they're talking about other planes of existence where the physical nature of our world isn't as much as a bondage to those inhabiting the higher plane world. In these Higher planes, beings can experience true freedom.
You go to these higher planes every night when you dream, but you don't really remember the whole experience of the dream. What are dreams? Infinite possibilities and places can be found dreaming and they're independent of physical laws unlike your and my plane of existence in the 3d universe.
Of course there are higher planes of existence then that of the astral/dream world. But these can't he comprehended by the limited human mind.
It's just like in Dr. Strange. Most people don't put any thought about the concepts that appear in the movie, but the content of those spiritual concepts is the same that had been written, documented, experienced thousands of years ago.
And even now through the knowledge and meditation, people today are experiencing this for themselves. Unless you've experienced it, you cannot comprehend it, it's like trying to describe red to a blind man. Relative to that, I realize how this all may be a pointless effort from me, being that you are the blind man in this context.
But it is still 100% dependent on you having a functioning brain to report your first person experience with(not just to others, but to yourself as well).
Therefore saying conciousness is created by the brain, and not separate is the more likely hypothesis.
Neither are proven without actual empirical evidence. Which is why honest answer to this problem of understanding what conciousness is, should be "We dont know...yet".
"It has been said" is not evidence... What I wrote Is also an example of "It has been said.".... I mean, I literally just said it.
How does an outside observer know who is more likely to be right?
Independent verification of physical evidence is the only way to KNOW. And since neither of us has sufficient evidence to KNOW, you choose to BELIEVE and I Choose to WITHHOLD belief until I'm closer to KNOWING.
Saying I dont know when it's the honest answer, is a much quicker way to actual truths, it encourages you to keep learning.
I'd like to see all these self described "enlightened beings" explain to us what the say after complete brain death. And using the same hardware they left with. 😂
Based, on some crazy psychedelic experiences, I have a hunch... but I'm still going to say "I dont know." It's interesting to think about, and speculate... but it's so easy to fool yourself into thinking you've found the answer, when you stumble upon whatever feels comforting to you. I say dont be afraid, keep and open mind, and dont commit untill you know, which may be never, and that's ok.
I just have a hard time trusting anything my brain says about objects that are apparently beyond up. Much easier to suspect they are delusions of a system not running as designed. Hallucinations, if you will :)
The only thing you can be sure of, is that you are experiencing something, literally every time you could think to check.
By definition there is no such thing as non-experience. So if you consider yourself as an "agent that experiences things", you are essentially immortal. Maybe eternal, or timeless is a better word.
Your ego, or memories, may be radically different, as in deep meditation, or while hallucinating, or high on various substances, or dreaming... but you are always, experiencing something, and never experiencing nothing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does a computer program go when it’s turned off?
a computer can’t love, communicate for itself, anything unless a human inputs data and feedback. it’s a tool. it’s as similar to a human as a hammer. you see it with human like features because humans designed it in their image. like pointing out cars have two headlights like eyes. a website like reddit has a network of other websites that it might work with, users which can affect the overall emotion of the entire site like neurons reacting to stimuli, it even changes its design as it grows older
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And each user is a self aware person. A brain cell is not.
regardless there is an analog. a computer has no analog
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First of all, comparing "conciousness" to a computer program is the most misplaced thing I've read in a while.
Second of all, turning a hard drive off is not the equivalent of death, breaking one is. In which case the computer program disappears, which seems like the opposite of the point you were attempting to make.
If you're going to make an analogy do it on something you have at least some knowledge on.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were in a car accident and bled out, your brain isn't destroyed. It's just off, and it will begin to decay as your body is decomposed. And that is exactly my point, the computer program disappears, exactly how consciousness disappears after death.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were in a car accident and bled out, your brain isn't destroyed. It's just off and it will begin to decay as your body is decomposed
Yes, and I was saying that your conflation that a hard drive works in the same way is laughable. As long as you don't shatter the disk, you can still access whatever data is on it.
You shouldn't go around acting like an expert on a concept with as much proof in either direction as the existence of god, and then make analogies on it with topics you know nothing about.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not acting like an expert, I'm saying there is no scientific basis whatsoever in consciousness after death.
I really hope you're wrong. My biggest fear in life is that death is not the end, it's the reason why I fear death so much. I'm terrified of the possibility of the suffering that goes together with even the best life should not end only transform in another, probably much worse suffering.
I just want to end when my time comes, more than anything in the world.
death signals rebirth. to know death is not the end is to understand you have a purpose in the cycle, a responsibility to your fellow humans to live positively while you can
This, may not make you feel any better right away. But it has helped me get a different perspective so I know what I have to come to terms with...
If you consider yourself, at the most basic level, an "agent that experiences things.", then that is all you will ever be.
It's not like there is experience, and then non-experience. By definition, You are always experiencing something, never nothing.
So the way I have dealt with this insight, is to use trained mindfulness to practice making every detail of every moment of experience, either pleasurable, or indifferent.
An example... when I shattered my heel bone, it was about 2 months of the worst pain I've ever experienced. It was so bad, there were stretches of time when I PAIN WAS MY EXISTENCE, and I was worried it would last indefinitely.
But, the longer I turned my focus on the raw sensation itself, the more reason I found to not be scared. Eventually I realized, even the worst pain I've felt in my life, could be looked at from a purely indifferent and detached observational point of view.
As long as you are experiencing SOMETHING, YOU ARE ALIVE. And that is ok, in fact you have the power to make it Great!
Checkout the apps, Calm, Waking Up, Insight Timer, or Headspace.
Good luck out there friend.
Yes, but you're talking about pain. I'm talking about wanting to have the hope that my existence will end one day. I'm already into mindfulness, if anything it helped me to identify these feelings. Existence is interesting, but exhausting. The thought of it ending one day brings me such a deep relief.
Consciousness would be a witnessing/awareness of active energy, rather than energy itself.
Identity might be important to consider, here. I'm of the belief that when you (the human) die, you (the awareness) merge with the One that we call All (aka the Universe, capitol U). When/if you experience ego death, it's no longer applicable to call yourself a human. Yet, you are still aware that you exist, and you might even have a Self. It's just that your Self isn't as limited, as it was before. It isn't limited at all. Everything you see, think, hear- those aren't just products of you, they are exactly what you are. You are your experience. You are everything that you're aware of, and implicitly understand that you are also everything else. You are merged, with the same source that brought you here.
Rather incoherent, to me too. It's hard to talk about these things.
it is not just the positive stuff. think of a family’s pain after a member’s suicide. or a death after an argument left without closure. those emotions are all just different forms of energy. it’s in our nature to share and help each other carry burden, that includes the pain we feel inside. it hurts to see a friend hurt
Yeah lol look at all these people trying to justify their beliefs by ambiguously/incorrectly applying scientific principles. I have nothing wrong with spiritualism, it just seems pretty wrong to confound and distort concrete science with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Believe” being the key word there.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, people that think like this are what I genuinely don’t understand.
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See and now you’re just plain wrong.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cite a source then
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:42:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not a source. And you're just trying to quote some highly technical math that you don't understand yourself out of context that doesn't have anything to do with what we are talking about.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
We don't know what happens to our consciousness when we die as we don't know what consciousness even is in the first place. It could be a fundamental aspect of reality and the brain is merely a filter for it. Theres no proof consciousness ceases to exist when we die.
Sometimes I get a minute of realized freedom and imagine that I could quite literally just drive off into what ever fucking country I'd like to drive to now (well, maybe not NOW, but ..) and then I just go back to living my stupid little worker life. Work hard and pray for pension.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 15:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
... the whole concept of existence just confuses the fuck out of me...
"But why?" he enquired with a shake of his head -
"But why and oh why are we living?" he said.
"I want to know why and I want to know more -
So why are we present, and what is it for?
"And why," he began with a sigh of distress -
"And why and oh why is it thus, would you guess?
Perhaps you can tell me the why and the how -
The why of this life that we're living right now."
He sadly explained with the weariest sigh -
"The query, the question I'm asking is why?
I just want an answer," he spoke to her, slow.
There’s no reason for anything. It just is. Once you realise that, life becomes a lot simpler.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there could be, we just aren’t able to comprehend or perceive it. In terms of the best way to live life, yes it’s to your benefit to stop searching for a reason and just living life moment to moment. It’s really easy to get trapped in a quest for an answer you’ll never find. And it always leads back to on conclusion. “Why does it matter even if I somehow knew?”
“The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time“ is a quote from a James Taylor song that I like.
I haven’t yet learned to embody the essence of the quote, but for some reason it’s a compelling argument to me when I’m often on the side of “none of this makes sense and it doesn’t mean anything so why are we doing it?”
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And because there may be nothing else. This could be EVERYTHING. Why not make the most of it? Ones experiences and outlook really determine whether they are engaged and living, or believe it’s all pointless and futile. It’s an interesting sight to see.
I think we will find out at the end of this physical lifetime. I’m not religious at all, but I think we probably continue in some form. Then we might find out the meaning, but as you say, for now we’re limited in our ability to comprehend it. We might as well just enjoy the journey, for now, and not concern ourselves with meaning.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I’m of the belief that of course no one knows anything. If there is some all encompassing meaning or heaven or whatever, great. I’ll find that out. If not, am I going to waste my time contemplating the unknown? Follow your moral compass, do good, enjoy your life and try to make the space around you better. As you said, that’s all we can do. Meaning is what you attribute it as. One persons meaning is different from another’s. So you can concern yourself with meaning on a lower level, but it’s what you choose it to be.
In life, “Why” isn’t a valid question. In the English language, it’s easy to create questions that aren’t valid. Why is Thursday orange?
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
there’s a name for it but i can’t remember but it’s like how sometimes it seems like your just watching a video of your life right? if it, is it’s some kind of instinct. like when a deer freezes in headlights. it’s some sort of like fight flight or freeze. and you body makes it seem like that so you don’t really get hurt. like it happens to me a lot. and it can happen to people when they get yelled at or stuff too. it freaks me out some but that explanation helped me a lot
The term I hear used sometimes is Jamais vu (the opposite of deja vu). Where Deja vu means something like "I've seen this before" Jamais vu means "I've never seen this before". Basically it's derealization where yourself and the world around ceases to make sense or have any sort of logic to the individual. Most people get the sensation at random but some psychologists say that extreme and persistent derealization is something that is regularly experienced by schizophrenics and people with bipolar disorder.
Woow me too! Some times in the middle of the night and i get a panic atack because of this
eXain · 11 points · Posted at 18:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a condition me and a lot of traumatized/anxious people have. The freeze-response in fight/flight/freeze-response is one of them. Other words are dissociation, depersonalisation disorder or derealization disorder. The disorders only apply if this sense of "What the fuck is this even?" occurs pretty much all the time. And yes, it's crippling as fuck.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yea disassociation was the word i was trying to think of!
pauLo- · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's the term "sonder" which is a sudden moment of clarity that you become aware that everyone around you is living their own personal independent journey through life. Not quite the same but still a cool word.
Or when you’re walking without really thinking about where you’re going, and Th en realize you’re still walking. Makes you feel like you just came back into yourself
Sometimes when I drive to work I just arrive in the parking lot and have no idea about what happened the last 30 minutes. I was on auto pilot. That happened quite often for me, if there were no special occasion to rip me out of auto-pilot-mode.
Super scary if I think about it, just mindlessly driving a bunch of metal at a good 100km/h.
You’re not mindless tho. It’s likely that your brain doesn’t find that time eventful, so it doesn’t commit it to memory. You’re still in control, it just that you forgot the memory really fast. Kinda stole this answer from up in the thread
For as long as I can remember I have had these moments every few months of just total bewilderment that people exist. Like we just walk around and exist. So freaky.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 16:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone else just be chilling then suddenly you're in space looking down at your body and realize how small you, your town, your country, planet and existence are?
I love looking straight up into the night sky and into the beauty of the infinte. But after a few seconds I feel like nothing makes sense. We are so small and meaningless, what does my live change to make a differnce? Nothing. It doesn't make me sad, but looking to the stars always has me kinda .. odd? I still love it though. For the beauty and this feeling of disconnection.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 17:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do that all the time.
Looking at myself in the mirror and wondering how all this shit makes my mouth move, lips/mouth work.
Or when brushing my teeth, how my wrists and hands/fingers work with my brain to move.
I get that feeling too! Like, how the hell do I do anything. I just, do? I’m technically thinking of doing it and my body responds. But you can think of doing anything and it won’t happen because, what? You don’t put enough thought into it or something?
Sounds like most of my anxiety attacks, just out of nowhere. Did I just do that? Are thoughts real? Is that chair really there? I should not be doing what I'm doing right now. Is this the Matrix?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Tanomil · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah, but treatment for anxiety isn't very advanced, experts still know fuck-all about it, so the treatment is just them giving you the available info about it, like "it's not dangerous", "Anxiety is a natural phenomenon, it's just that your 'alarm system' is acutely sensitive", and giving you these techniques that work for a few people like breathing exercises, going for a walk, powering through it to make yourself more used to it. They'll also offer you drugs that don't do shit but make you sloppy as a slug. The mind is such an intricate and complex thing that's nearly impossible to understand, so not much can be done. IIRC we know as much about schizophrenia now as we did in the 70's. I have yet to get any effective treatment for my anxiety, STPD, or depression. Sure, it helps to be informed, but there ain't no fixin' it. Tried a variety of prescribed drugs to no avail. Best thing is to just get used to being fucked in the head and stay informed. Powering through has helped me the most.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah CBT is probably your best bet at getting better. I received 4 months daily (3-6hrs per day) CBT by a team of psychiatrists and psychologists (one psychiatrist with over 30 years experience) while I was in rehab. That helped me greatly with personal stuff, and it's where I got most of my info on these things. The CBT i got at the psych ward when I got home kinda sucked though.
Sometimes I imagine if nothing ever existed at all and I find that even harder to wrap my head around. Like no matter, no energy, no space. Nothing. Why did anything have to exist at all? What if everything was just... nothing?
I get this a lot in traffic. You're just sitting there and it's like... who are all these people? There's so many of them, and they're all just living their lives, like you are... it's all so... insignificant.
Then I have to make myself think of something different.
One time my husband was spun on mushrooms and having his own little party. A few hours later he's screaming and I run to check on him. I find him laying on the couch looking at his hands and screaming I'M INVISIBLE.
He looked at his hands for so long his eyes went out of focus. So of course I play into it for a moment. I told him I could hear him but I couldn't see him.
That did not go over well. He was borderline crying so I had to ease up and let him know the he was visible and helped him get his trip back on track. We laugh about it now.
Hahaha that was really mean but funny! Once i was like your husband and a friend start saying that she wasnt real and that i made her up, that was so trippy that i had a panic atack and vomit a lot! I now laugh about it of course
I think this is an existential crisis and for me they were usually panic attacks so be careful. If it freaks you out to the point where you can’t do anything until it’s over, try talking to a therapist or getting other help
just had corona, and one of the symptoms was losing smell and taste. You dont realize the casual smells around you until its gone. It freaked me out and still i think about it. It was the weirdest thing not smelling anything. Best i can explain is everything just smelled like dust or stale air, and nothing else. It was so strange i resorted to just breathing from my mouth to try to rest or sleep. So strange to lose a sensation we neglect.
The awareness of the abstract nature of our existence is referred to as “The Absurd” by Albert Camus.
The absurdness of their own existence, Camus argues, that humans will inevitably think about it their minds are left to wonder and thinking about how we’re just flesh sacks with no inherent purpose, in a universe that’s so more massive than we are, really bums us out.
Most people cope with confronting the absurd by going back to distraction, to not think about it, but the other options are suicide(If you’re a nihilist, this is probably your recommendation) and absurdism, which is to find your own meaning or passion in life, and choose to be happy regardless of being insignificant on the scale of the universe.
Bojack Horseman explorers a bunch of Camus’ work and a lot of absurdist theory, it’s well with the watch if you’re interested in how others deal with these feelings.
Thank you for your comment. I'm in the distraction camp. Though I know it isn't the solution, I forcibly distract myself whenever I am struck with existential dread. Pondering my existence/inivitable-lack-there-of brings on a crushing, visceral fear. Though at times I've concluded that I no longer fear death, I have not unburdened myself from the occasional existential panic attack. There's a lovely Stanley Kubrick quote about restoring lifes élan that comes to mind. I'm not sure where I was headed with this, but regardless, I thank you for leading me down this line of thought.
HEY DOES ANYONE KNOW IF THERE IS A NAME FOR THIS? I DO IT TOO.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:06:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you’re stressed out and you take a step back and you’re like you know this really doesn’t matter, this is just stuff I’m doing cause I have to and in a week it isn’t going to matter cause nothing matters at all
This happens to me all the time and I refer to it in my inner dialog of ‘snapping out of it’ not that that does any justice.
It’s a moment whereby suddenly, the idea that all these light particles are bouncing all over in different wavelengths and all these sonic waves are mixed in and I have different organs that perceive them in ways that send signals to the brain and that my whole field of vision and everything I hear and even this thoughts is just the product of little electric pulses shooting around in my skull somewhere - all of that strikes me as if I’m considering it for the first time. And I’m just sitting there in traffic.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be able to look at things differently if I really concentrated. It was like that camera effect where you move away from the subject at the same time as you zoom in. It made rooms look massive, it was pretty trippy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think about death every now again, as in just what it would be like to be dead. just not conscious and not in existence. it fuckin trips me out that one day you’re just not here
This 1000000%. Like take hearing. Ok, we can hear things. But what are we hearing? Sounds. But what are sounds? They can be loud, or quiet. But what is loud? Like how do you DESCRIBE loud? It’s impossible. But the majority of people on earth, myself included, know the difference between loud and quiet so well they don’t ever think about it. HOW? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????? Crazy af.
Xdsboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, I’ll go into recursive loops of mental self-awareness. So I’m thinking about something, then I’ll think about me thinking, then I’m thinking about me thinking about me thinking, then I’m thinking about me thinking about me thinking about...yeah.
Sometimes I look at my wall and then it just gets farther away, but it’s actually still there, and it just looks like its being stretched out, and my vision becomes wack
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the novel Nausea by Sartre. His whole thing is about what he calls “the absurdity of the world”. It’s quite an edgy book but it’s about that moment when you hyper focus on something and that object in question just loses all meaning. What the hell is this thing I’ve seen a million times before but only now have really focused on?
It confuses, humbles, entertains, and angers me all the same time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes all my senses dumb down, I feel like I am dumbed down on my comprehension of everything. I sit there, smile at my dog, feel weird. I think I notice my increase in good feeling chemicals, but oddly, I am not actually more happy.
I guess I tend to get really immersed in things I read or watch, so that leads to moments when I'm not watching or doing anything, but I feel like I'm watching my own life, that the me doing the perceiving is totally different from the me making the choices and doing the movements and all that. And I'll talk to myself in those cases like "This is me? I'm doing this?" but not feel like I am. So that's something.
endy0 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sometimes happens when I shower, I imagine myself being a square in a 2 dimensional world, it’s odd
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I think about the fact that I’m basically a sack of meat and bones controlled by electrical impulses. That one really wigs me out and throws me into a tailspin.
I used to find myself sitting in my patrol car (I was a police officer) and thinking "is this really my life? Who gave me a badge and a gun and looked at ME and thought "Yeah, there's a person id count on if the shit was hitting the fan."
It wasnt that there's anything wrong with me .. It's just that it felt so SURREAL to have had a dream for so long and then to actually be LIVING it.
I swear when I think about it I can feel my brain in my skull, like I'm really aware that it's there and it freaks me out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I just get confused at how other people have the same exact level of consciousness as me. Like I understand other people having thoughts but once I think about it it starts to seem weird for some reason.
Aye, everyone night when going to sleep I always become depressed, like why even bother with anything. Just lying there in bed thinking a third of my life has gone by. A third.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, I'm not the only one and based on the upvotes neither are we 🤔
I get super weirded out at this, too. There are times I would get lost in thought about the continuity of humanity. Let's say one day, shit hit the earth or whatever, everybody dies and not a single person exist anymore. What is going to happen beyond that? Is the universe just fold up and be gone forever...like what the fuck is beyond the universe? Is it like an endless space? How did it get here at first? My brain is hurting thinking about this.
That feeling is very overwhelming. One minute your lying in bed and contemplating where life will take you. You recently broke both arms and legs and life feels completely hopeless and the sadness begins. Luckily, your mother is there to help you through the times in any way imaginable.
People who take personal offence when your taste in music/movies/food/ whatever differs from theirs. I went to college with a guy who listened to exclusively classic rock. Great genre, totally get it. Except he would get legitimately angry when someone put on rap in the car or wanted to sing pop at karaoke. Refused to work with a friend of mine in a group project because she loved techno, said her opinions would never matter because obviously something was wrong with her. Why can't you just let people enjoy the shit they like?
hooplah · 6132 points · Posted at 19:37:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s a form of elitism that makes themselves feel better and more cultured or intelligent than the people around them. it’s dumb.
i mean look at the other comments on this post about people liking celebrities. it’s the same shit.
swore · 1870 points · Posted at 20:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An extremely elitist friend of mine in high school got me into metal. Told me what genres and subgenres were good. Being a young dude, in high school with limited friends I quickly picked up on being an elitist twat. Listening to my superior music at full volume, playing it out loud on the bus, etc. And then I listened to one of the genres he said not to. And I really liked it. I didn't say anything, but I listened to it more and more. Eventually I saw a reddit post and a guy was calling out an elitist metal head, and saying you like what you like. Music is great, it's so varied and so wonderful. It doesn't matter if you like some obscure black metal and One Direction (still relevant at the time) - all that matters is that you listen to what you enjoy.
And that got me to stop being an elitist asshole. I now have musical taste ranging from everything from old country, to rap, to hardstyle, to death metal. And it's great. There's so much out there, stop shitting on others for two seconds and find something new to enjoy.
That's awesome. I used to be into metal , long time ago. Got out of the habit , listened to a ton of different stuff. I just recently started getting back into it , cause I had been hearing that there was a lot of interesting foreign shit around now. So I have been listening to Japanese and Scandinavian metal lol.
Dir en Grey, Coldrain, crossfaith, X Japan, Bandmaid, Uroboros, Girugamesh, Shadows, Crystal Lake, Babymetal, NoGoD, D'espairs Ray, MUCC, The Gazette, SiM, Fact, Man with a Mission, Maximum the Hormone, Old Miyavi.
Some is metal, some is more rock, some are more punky/pop punk. But there is a decent enough list to get you started.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 00:14:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm still just getting into it myself. I am certainly no expert. Right off the top of my head , Ningen Isu and Band-Maid were two I was listening to earlier today. Both on Spotify , they are very accessible to beginners.
Like I said , I am still very new to it myself. Here is a video a friend linked me to get started , see if I was interested.
I find Babymetal pretty great if you didn't know them yet
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 00:01:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not a fan of Babymetal’s music, but I absolutely love their entire schtick. It’s flipping the middle finger to pop, rock, metal elitists in the best way possible.
And there’s nothing more metal than telling the establishment to go fuck itself.
There's a band called Coldrain that's Japanese. I didn't know they were Japanese for the first year I was aware of them though, so I don't know if they really fall into the Japanese metal category.
Check out Reek of the Unzen Gas Fumes. They are like a black metal, grindcore kinda metal. Definitely a bit controversial given some of the lyrics but they are fucking bad ass
Galneryus is a power metal band I’ve heard of. While I haven’t given them too much attention (yet), all I can say is they’re basically the Japanese version of dragonforce. here’s a sample
If you’re into power metal, check out Lovebites! Absolutely fantastic!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Bloodywood. Newish band that merges traditional Indian music with metal. Pretty damn good, IMHO. Acraussicada (this is seriously misspelled, google will fix it) is an Iraqi metal band that had to flee Iraq. They’re really more hard rock, but I love the different perspective they have.
I will check out the Iraqi band. I may check out Bloodywood .... TBH I very much dislike traditional Indian music , anything Bollywood , all of that. So that one is a maybe , haha.
Like the other guy said, part of it is because it tends to be more of an outsider group. It's not popular so people feel they have to defend it more strongly.
Also, it does tend towards complexity at times, especially certain genres. There are lots of more extreme sounds happening at once. Especially when you get into more progressive genres.
So this kind of lends itself to people thinking it's better because there's "more" of it, or more to it.
Compare a pop song with three chord melody and extremely simple beat to a metal song with complex time changes and complicated guitar techniques and intricate solos.
When I was young I would have said Metal is just better because it is more music, more complicated, harder to play, etc.
I grew out of that in high school. I still like metal, but I realized that more isn't always better, and that there can be incredible music that is simple. There's some great pop and rap music, two genres I used to hate.
The thing is that nowadays a lot of talentless people started making pop/rap music (which as you said it is not complicated) and they just take the credit for it, while talented people are buried down in the industry. That led to a decrease in music quality over the last 10 years and people's music taste has also gotten lower and lower.
That didn't really happen in the metal scene, and that's why metal fans are so pasionate about their music.
Pop music has been in the best place it's been for a hot minute now. So many great players in the pop scene. Post Malone, Lizzo, Billie Eilish, Dua Lipa, etc.
I never heard a "complicated" pop/rap song.
Rap is just a guy speaking very fast about money, bitches, drugs and life over a simple computer-made beat
Pop is just a guy singing over, again, computer-made beats, usually simple beats or simple guitar stuff, 2-3 chords on acoustic.
Now I stopped listening to these genres of music a long time ago so things may have changed. Open my eyes if they did :)))
The simplest metal is probably nu metal or thrash metal, though both require guitar riffs and solos, harsh vocals and fast drumming. And if you go into prog metal you're in the expert zone. 15 minute-long songs, tens of different riffs and solos, tens to hundred time signatures changes(yes, 100), hidden song lyrics and smart stories.
Again, I'm just laying the truth here. Listen to whatever you want.
Are you in high school? You sound like me and my friends in high school.
If you only want to listen to metal, fine, whatever. But bashing other genres that you admit you don't even listen to is a bit silly.
Your characterization of rap as "speaking very fast about money, bitches, drugs" really proves you've never really dug into the genre beyond the most basic of boring radio hits. I'm not saying every song is worth listening to, by the way. There is tons of garbage out there.
Here's a suggestion. Kanye West's All of the Lights.
If you're too impatient to sit through the intro, you can skip the first minute or so. This version also cuts out a verse, which is a shame because its really good.
But just know that the horns here were real horns. And because I'll not be able to explain the lyrical content as well as this, here's a quote from genius.com.
"The song is about Kanye’s qualms living as a celebrity with personal problems in the public eye. He conveys this through the image of lights and the story of a troubled family – domestic abuse, imprisonment, separation/divorce etc. The song serves as a literal story of troubles in the home, and also as a metaphor for Kanye’s struggles with fame and his relation to hip-hop."
This whole album, My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy, is just incredible. If you can put your pre-concieved notions about what hip-hop is or isn't and what Kanye is or isn't, I think you can have an enlightening experience, even if you come out the other end saying "It's not for me".
I meant to only give some quick suggestions but obviously got carried away, so here's really just a list of some good stuff you may or may not find interesting.
Gorillaz - Dare So many layers and intricacies in the instrumentation in this one. Gorillaz are something else, man. Dare is my favorite song of theirs, but Clint Eastwood, Feel Good Inc. are both excellent singles, and honestly just listen to Demon Days, that album is fucking great.
Billie Eilish - bury a friend Dark pop, thematically similar to some metal, no joke. I bet you rolled your eyes at reading her name, but just because she's young and popular doesn't mean that Billie Eilish's music isn't actually pretty fucking good.
Post Malone - Circle Not my favorite, but the music video could be for a metal song, lol.
Fuck, you know what. Forget that whole comment. You need to listen to motherfuckin' POPPY.
As her name might suggest, she was pretty Poppy, and then she got rid of her (low-key actually kind of a dick and maybe abusive) manager/producer and signed with Sumerian Records! Yes, the same Sumerian Records that has Periphery, Animals as Leaders, Between the Buried and Me, the former Dillinger Escape Plan, etc.
And for some context and more pop flavor, here's some older stuff: I'm Poppy Computer Boy
I still dig this stuff too, but holy fuck her new direction is fucking great.
[deleted] · 30 points · Posted at 21:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From my experience as a metalhead, it's because metal gets so much hate. All the time, people say stuff like "deathmetal is just noise, how do you enjoy that!?" It makes people who are into metal internalize, seeking validation from people who also listen to the genre. Because of this, the metal community is pretty exclusive, because some people think that it shouldn't be open to everyone. For example, nu metal (slipknot, system of a down etc.) often gets a ton of hate from the metal community because it's often not regarded as being "real metal". When people say they listen to metal and act all hardcore but what they listen to is nu metal, some people who listen to "real metal" feel like the self-association with the genre isn't deserved and that it's appropriation. Personally, I do sometimes think "hah yeah, ok buddy" when someone is being particularly vocal about how hardcore they are for listening to Disturbed, but I'm not going to act all elitist about it, because they enjoy it and that's good for them. No, it's not as fast and loud as Archspire or Cannibal Corpse, but who am I to designate one set of vibrations moving through the air as superior to another? In the end, the elitism is really just a result of a kind of music-related xenophobia.
Man the 'metal is just noise' thing annoys me. Although I do agree with some songs- you kinda need headphones to hear anything other than the drums.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, for anything fast and downtuned, especially stuff like deathcore, apple earbuds won't cut it
Jaruut · 4 points · Posted at 23:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh the "just noise" gets me, too. It's music just like everything else, the heaviness and distortion makes it more of an acquired taste. I didn't start out listening to Meshuggah and Anaal Nathrakh, I had to work my way up to that from Van Halen and AC/DC.
Honestly, I kinda get it. I'm not a metal guy. Whenever I listen to metal, I hear the thumping drums, crunchy guitars, and vocals that tend to sound like the singer is performing a blood ritual. That doesn't mean that's what it sounds like. I don't have the experience with the genre to understand all of the complexities.
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 03:37:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's extreme metal (death/black/sludge/grindcore)
I guess the vocals differ a lot between subgenre, but generally most of the metal I've listened to sounds like that to me. But that's just because they're hallmarks of the genre. It's like 808s and hi hats in rap music.
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 03:53:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They do, even with those subgenres.
Black Metal has higher-pitched shrieks, Death Metal has deep gutturals (generally). Sludge Metal has mid-tempo shouts/growls. Even within black and death there are sonic traditions.
There are melodic variants of metal with only singing
I feel like a lot of the metal elitism comes from people posturing on the internet who care more for the image than the music.
I've been to probably over 100 concerts ranging in size from small local bar shows to big festivals like hellfest and wacken. Not once have I ever met someone who acts like they do over in /r/metal.
It always bugs me when people trash-talk r/metal. I know it's had its issues in the past, but these days the community is really positive and accepting for the most part. They're really passionate about the music, and they've introduced me to more great bands than I can count.
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 21:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:06:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree that there is a lot of that kind of hate going through the community, but a lot of bands don't stand by the messages in the songs. For other genres I might call BS on the same statement, but metal isn't supposed to be taken seriously (thank god). Now obviously this isn't the case for all bands, but a lot of them are genuinely amazing people. One thing I will call you out for though is the comment on the camo cargo shorts, they're obviously the superior article of clothing (/s)
People online tend to give a bad impression of the fanbase with the aforementioned elitism, but when going to shows and concerts I've found metal fans to be extremely welcoming and chill to hang out with, to the point where I've got acquaintances I tend to meet up with at local shows in my city, although that could be because people just go there for the sake of seeing the band playing and having a good time, which gives them something to fraternise and bond over.
I don’t understand the bridge between metal and being snobby about music.
It's because metal is a niche interest. People with niche interests are passionate about them, and in some cases that passion translates to snobbiness.
I like this thing that lots of other people don't, so I must be picking up on something other people aren't, so I must be better than other people. If I'm better than other people, I must have better taste than they do, so the things I like must be better than the things they like.
It's even worse in metal because so many people get into it as teenagers while they're still figuring themselves and the world out, so they're especially prone to picking up dumb ideas. Fortunately most of them outgrow it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Average metal head who told you they were a metal head”. FTFY. You probably know a lot more metal heads than you realize.
Reasons vary but for a lot it was a f##k the man! Kind of genre and, you saw yourself as an individual, not listening to mainstream music feeding the corporation. F##k you Simon Cowell!
That's how I was until I hit my 20's and fell in love with everything
I think it's less about the actual music and more about our need, as humans, to 'belong' to groups and how we signal to others in society what groups we belong to or identify with. In modern society, music is a very simple way of choosing what 'tribes' we belong to, what values we admire or hold in disdain, what messages we want to send to other people, and especially when we're teens - what messages we want to be seen to be sending those in authority - whether it's school, parents, law enforcement etc.
We might not even particularly enjoy the music but rather enjoy the sub-culture surrounding it - for example, dressing in non-conforming way that upsets people, or using whatever genre it is to get a rise out of people (I don't know why you listen to that garbage..etc etc)
The desire to find belonging is very strong, especially in our teen years, so it explains why many people are vociferous in their efforts to conform not to the mainstream but to whatever group they've aligned themselves with. It's confirmation of being a part of something in a different way.
It's so interesting to me as an ex-Sociology graduate about why and how some people stay connected to the music genre they identified with in their teen years in very obvious ways, why some people can keep enjoying the music but no longer dress in a way that identifies them with that, and some people do.
No judgment on either side. I could quack on about this for yonks, but hopefully someone who is much more knowledgeable about the academic sociologically interesting aspect of this can chime in?
Yeah but there's a limit when you have to share car space with someone.
swore · 25 points · Posted at 21:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know what you mean, are you telling me you don't enjoy my atmospheric euphoric ambient raw Norwegian black metal? Maybe if I turn it up you'll feel the raw emotions they are trying to portray better.
Jaruut · 7 points · Posted at 23:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
atmospheric euphoric ambient raw Norwegian black metal
Oh my god, I didn't think I would find someone else who listens to Drudkh
swore · 4 points · Posted at 23:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This feels like an extremely small world moment, listened to Drudkh for the first time last week lol.
That's one of my favorite types of music! I pretty much just listen to it when I'm alone tho, when there's other people who would have to listen to it, I just tell them I'm willing listen to anything they want to put on
It's so silly to dismiss an entire genre of music. I don't like country, for example, but I'll listen to the occasional country song (or close to it) that I enjoy. Johnny Cash is supposedly country (doesn't sound like it) but I like his music. There's country classic rock that's amazing, stuff like that.
My FIL is an opera buff, but he got into the Bee Gees when they were popular. I like to remind him of this, because he's a very serious, often grumpy person, and the thought of him enjoying the Bee Gees is great. I think most of their songs are catchy and fun.
My husband is elitist like your friend. Only new age, metal, or 90s grunge. Any other music was “stupid”. I liked some of his music but also country and stuff on the radio. He eventually got so bad about it that I just stopped listening to music altogether.
When we got together it was after I’d healed from an abusive marriage. My husband isn’t abusive but him degrading my music was like an attack on me personally and since I was still healing and vulnerable I just could do it.
Same. I’ve gotten so much shit for liking music like one direction and pop in general but it’s like it’s supposed to be catchy? And pop makes me feel good? Like the Beatles were considered pop back in their day. They only call it pop music because it stands for popular music. Idk music is music and it’s supposed to cater to a wide variety. Just listen to what makes you feel good or what makes you feel.
Also since I’m quarantine, can anyone recommend some good bands/music? I think I’ve listened to my Spotify list so many times. I want to branch out and listen to different types of music.
Get into all the different types of EDM. Than start listening to a band called PUP. Then from there, listen to Anal Cunt, Choking Victim, round it out with some Peaches.
I love similar music to you. I like Bachelor Girl, Steps, ABBA, Cliff Richard, Richard Marx, Celine Dion, Westlife, Agnetha Faltskog (solo singer, was blonde in ABBA), Shania Twain, 80s and 90s pop, The Bangles, Bananarama, and Jann Arden.
You guys. I’m so excited to listen to all of this. And please recommend more 80s bands. I love 80s music. But I was born in 1990. So I only know the most popular ones.
Edit: and 90s bands too!!! I love me some grunge music. But I also like the pop stuff. But throw it at me!
Sounds like an ex friend of mine in high school, who used to make a stink about a lot of stuff other people liked. He'd yell at cars that drove by, if they were a certain brand, because he hated them and therefore the driver, too. If it wasn't for the fact that I wasn't very social and he was the first to get me talking and meeting people, I'd likely have thought far worse of him, had I met him under better circumstances
Orthas · 8 points · Posted at 22:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I give teenagers a pass for the most part. Most kids don't have a strong enough sense of self, so they latch onto the things they like and try to form an identity around that. I think most of us did this to some degree or another. I know I was a metal loving mac hater (back when the ipod was leagues ahead of any other mp3 player). I look back and cringe a bit, but that's part of growing up.
I have less sympathy for adults who never grew out of it.
Not OP, but I was gonna make a comment applauding his namedropping Hardstyle so I will explain it for you.
Hardstyle is a genre of Electronic music, the BPM is normally 155 but I would argue Hardstyle can go to 170. It centers around a loud and fast kick drum and very high energy euphoric melodies produced by synthesizers.
Some notable artists in the genre are: Ran-D, Headhunterz, Technoboy, Frontliner, DJ Luna, NoiseControllers, Da Tweekaz.
swore · 6 points · Posted at 21:26:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an Electronic genre, a mix of techno and hardcore I think. I'm on mobile so having trouble linking, but if you go on YouTube and search "Headhunterz" you should be able to get a taste for it. My mother likes to call it noise rather than music lol
As an old person in Reddit Years the Angerfist track sounds very like the Pump Panel Reconstruction Mix of New Order's Confusion. I can't imagine hearing that track and not feeling the need to close my eyes and dance....(in fact I just did it now after I posted it! Ha!).
New Order are pretty bloody great - not just for their original tracks but that they lend themselves to some fucking great remixes.
People shit on power metal but I enjoy it, so sod them, you know what I mean?
Being elitist doesn't pay. I know a guy that'll only watch anime, and he misses out just as much as the guy I know who categorically only watches Live-Action.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Every metal subgenre is divisive if you look hard enough. Some people don't enjoy the cleaner singing styles, prominent melodies, or understated riffs that are hallmarks of certain types of power metal.
Not to mention a lot of people learn about power metal through Dragonforce, which can be kind of an acquired taste, even among power metal fans. It turns people off to the subgenre. Some people respond to that by deciding it's objectively bad and "shitting on" it.
Re Sabaton in particular, there's a whole can of worms there...
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 12:38:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's basically the anthem for people who barely listen to metal, but are nerdy (and start cheesy lyric chains on reddit). Sabaton are very competent at doing what they do, but to most metal fans, they're old hat and it gets tiresome having some Sabaton fan keet over them.
It's like, there's much more to metal. They're essentially the MCU of power metal.
Their music subverts the esoteric qualities that make most heavy/power bands compelling to most fans of the genre. It's telling that Sabaton is generally more popular with people who don't listen to very much metal than people who listen to a lot of it. This isn't a bad thing in and of itself, but it can get a bit annoying when the most popular representatives of your favorite music genre don't really reflect your favorite aspects of it.
They also tend to recycle a lot of riffs and melodies. A lot of metal bands are guilty of that to some extent, but Sabaton seems especially prone to it.
From another angle, there's a meme that says listening to Sabaton helps students study for their exams. It's kind of obnoxious because, while the band is obviously very passionate about the historical military figures, battles, and campaigns they write about, their music offers a very limited perspective.
Additionally, there's a critique of their music that says they go too far glorifying militaries and warfare. While they do acknowledge the death and destruction, they could be accused of downplaying it on many occasions to emphasize the valor and nobility of fighting. While there are many metal bands that this type of critique could be leveled at, Sabaton is unique because they present their material as educational to some extent.
Lastly, their fans can get really irritating. A lot of people seem totally oblivious to the stuff I talked about in the previous paragraphs. What's more, from the endless lyric chains to the constant celebration and promotion, it sometimes feels like you can never get away from Sabaton. I suppose that's cool if you like them, but it's kind of exhausting if you don't. I don't want to come off as a hater but, although their music isn't bad, as a big fan of heavy/power, there are other bands I like a lot more.
Obviously there's nothing wrong with liking Sabaton, they're as popular as they are for a reason. They just come with a bit of baggage.
Thanks for the informative perspective, and as a fan I agree with a lot of your points. You'd get downvoted if you said they glorified military conflicts, but they definetely do to an extent.
Man I listen to Sabaton practically daily, but I think a lot of people don't like the choruses you find on other power metal stuff. Sabaton especially with songs like "Wehrmacht" can inch into heavier metal territory.
Almost exactly what I told my teenage son. What you like is what you like. What someone else likes is what they like. What you like may be technically more proficient and creative than generic pop, but it doesn’t mean that generic pop doesn’t have value.
Having said that, I miss the days of being in the office and cursing the commercial FM station that played Dance Monkey a dozen times a day.
Personally, i have no problem with people telling me that they dont enjoy the music i like, but when they say the music i like is bad, thats ehen i have a problem with them.
This is tangentially similar, just a different medium, but I see this in books as well. For example the love and craze for the Twilight series and 50 Shades series. At first when I heard about them I was like “fuck no. That sounds and looks stupid”. Then I actually read them. And I actually very much enjoyed them. But I still saw/see so much hate toward those things and the people who like it. It’s so frustrating and I vowed never to be like that again. Attitude plays a big part when it comes to differences in interests. It’s okay to not be into something. It’s not okay to be disparaging and shitty about not being into something, you know?
I actually don't understand genres to begin with. I mean, I can tell the different between country and metal for example but some rock versus hard rock, or some of the diff types of metal, those I can't wrap my head around.
Well, those are more like sub genres. So genres are like you said, country and metal. But then under country there’s folk and bluegrass, both styles of country music but still different from each other. For metal, there’s hair metal from the 80’s, then there’s screamo. Both metal but very different. There’s obviously much more sub genres than that but you get the idea I hope.
Doesn't make them any less confusing to tell apart though! Genres, sub genres etc. Very few of them it's obvious what the difference is but there's some songs a station will label hard rock I thought were metal and vice versa. Every time I think I have it figured out, I'll see it's the opposite of what I thought. There might be many categories of genres but that doesn't make it any easier for me to use it as an indentifier. "What type of music do you like?" A lot is all I say anymore lol.
As far as metal goes, it's because nobody can agree on what constitutes what. The underground community has their consensus (and rallies around Encyclopaedia Metallum for the most part) but people are constantly disputing it and/or trying to make up their own rules. Metallum isn't perfect, but if you're looking for a definitive "right answer" to what style a metal band plays, they're the best place to look most of the time.
That's great, I'm going to bookmark that. Do you happen to know if there are similar encyclopedias for Rock etc? (I haven't clicked that link yet to check, been too busy at work but I'm curious and appreciative of the information!) Thanks for the info!
Unfortunately I don't think there are, although Rate Your Music may have something less precise. I've found that most genres have a population of hardcore fans who keep track of all this stuff, and if you can figure out who they are and where they congregate, that would be your best bet. Genre-specific subreddis might be a good place to start. I can vouch for r/metal at least.
Yaden2 · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’ve found that fans of metal can be some of the most elitist, toxic people there are, and as a fellow metal head that really bums me out :/
I started listening to nu metal back in 2011 when it was absolutely unacceptable to like it and internet metal elitism was in full swing. 13 year old me didn't really fit in with any of the metal crowd because of it. I did eventually grow into a proper metalhead but my experiences from back then still affect how I feel about certain metal communities, especially online. It isn't nearly as bad now as it was then though. Look in the comments of any Blabbermouth article from the late 00s or early 10s and you'll see what I mean.
Used to be me on high school, too. Discovered Morbid Angel and Suffocation and I absolutely REFUSED to listen to ANY music with “clean” vocals. I missed out on so much incredible music. Thankfully that mentality has shattered. I’m in the same boat now - Rap to pop to pornogrind and everything in between.
I have a very similar story to yourself. Was huge into metal, became a dick about it, now I listen to pretty much everything. Nice meeting you kindred spirit! (I do love obscure black metal though)
All genres have something to offer. I may dislike some artists, but there’s no entire genre that I hate.
Life is short people, don’t waste it listening to only one genre. :)
swore · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life is short people, don’t waste it listening to only one genre. :)
100% this. Life is too short not to give other music a shot.
Which genres did he recommend and which did he tell to keep away from?
swore · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He recommended a bunch like death, melodeath, and black. Told me to stay away from genres like metalcore , deathcore, etc because it's for posers and pussies. Turns out I really like metalcore and deathcore lol
Yeah i purposely avoid deafheaven a few years ago because that was when i was KVLT and TRVE. Its so stupid. Listening to one genre doesnt negate the enjoyment of the other.
Music is what emotions sound like. That’s my motto. As someone who just loves a good song rather it be country, rock, rap, opera if it causes a vibrational shift within me or evokes a strong emotional feeling I will listen.
I am a metal head from way back. But, good music is good music, no matter where it comes from. I listen to all genres at least a little. Bluegrass was my first step outside metal, and its fantastic.
Music is one of those things that differentiates us as a species from the rest, along with language itself. The only thing that actually pisses me off is people who respond with “oh, I don’t really listen to music” when asked about their favorite artist/song/whatever. Like, how the fuck do you live with yourself not listening to music? Are you an android?
There is a streamer I used to watch who said that. But then during a game they play, they said how much the enjoyed the music during it. So maybe some people just don’t go out of their way to listen to music maybe? I don’t really get it either tbh but it’s just a guess?
Why does it bother you so much that some people don't listen to music? It doesn't affect your life at all. Just let people enjoy what they like and not enjoy what they don't like.
True, but do you express that as judgement towards people who do like rap? Or is it just an innocent “not my deal” situation?
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 20:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be like this but at the same time I secretly enjoyed other genres and felt embarrassed but one day I was like fuck it I’ll embrace it instead.
i mean look at the other comments on this post about people liking celebrities. it’s the same shit.
Back in my teens/early 20s I was like this too. Thought that everyone who likes a celebrity and follows them online/was interested in news about them was stupid or didn't had any deeper interests.
I'm so happy I grew out of it.
Today I (30+) still like my niche hobbies/art/games/bands... AND follow some celebrities online and watch their movies or listen to currently trending music.
I just don't give a f**** anymore how famous or artsy fartsy something is. If I like it - I will enjoy it.
mallad · 5 points · Posted at 22:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say it's usually more to do with insecurity. Person A is passionate about it, and if person B doesn't like it, they feel like maybe B will like them less. Or maybe A thinks B is better than them (insecurity speaking) and if B doesn't like the same thing, it means A is somehow less than them. Those people also tend to take compliments and criticisms both very poorly.
Not me. They're certainly entertaining. I probably wouldn't sit there and watch them on my own, but if my gf really loved them I'd be happy she was happy
Can't stand Fortnite. It's absolute trash to me. But "One man's trash is another man's treasure." It's not my place to treat people terribly just because they like things I don't. As long as their likes aren't literally harming other human life unwillingly, then what the fuck type of worthwhile reasons would I have to start attacking them over their likes?
Definitely elitism, but to make some of you feel better, I think at a younger age, it’s also initially a way of finding and shaping your identity. It’s probably why this behavior is so common among teenagers. Of course, part of growing up is to go beyond that by then learning to accept others, but unfortunately, many do not make it that far.
It's also a form of sociopathy where their comforts and taste is all that matters and anything that differs is wrong. His appears to just be focused on music.
That was what was wrong with my last gf. In fact it was so bad I've been put off relationships since. I'm 50 and I'm not getting any younger but I just want to find someone who is as easy going as me when it comes to individual interests.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This girl I dated got a little triggered once just for repeating an innocent joke I heard about Michelle Obama. I like MO too but I can’t joke about her either?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I overcame this with one comment about, sure rock music is awesome but how much money has xyz (some successful non-hardcore rock artist) made from their music. How much have you made in your band?
I personally only like rock, heavy metal, classical, and broadway musicals.
I used to work at a front desk and I could play music as long as there was no profanity. I got some looks when after a few weeks I switched from having heavy metal in the background to having the Broadway Disney music.
I think I like a few songs of every genre but I mostly hate all the others especially country.
It's not the same shit. I feel like when it comes to celebrities, most people don't understand why someone would be so obsessed over them, me included.
It just comes from how I feel, but I really don't get the huge followings. For a long time I used to feel down when looking at celebrities. They have fame, money, recognition. It came to the point where I felt that anything I do doesn't matter, because there's a celebrity out there who can give shit about lots of stuff and still do great. Meanwhile I can work my ass off and stay in one freaking spot for a long time, with no advancement.
Anyway, I started changing my view on this, saying to myself that I can't do anything about it except loving my life for what it is and people that I have in it. I unfollowed A LOT of celebrities from my social media, if not every single one and I finally feel better. I rarely follow the news on them.
Anyway back to the point. It boggles my mind why some people would be so obsessed over them. Over a single thing they do, like what coffee they buy? What they ate for lunch? Who they are dating? And again, this just comes from my own problems. People can like what they like.
But I understand better someone who's a fan of a celebrity because of their ideals and good deeds, not what kind of drink they ordered at brunch or what their NET worth is. It just seems like glorifying to me.
Personally, there’s certain aspects of music that make me physically nauseous. For example, short repetitive beats really irritate something deep in my brain. I would get upset when someone put on rap because I associate that feeling with the genre. Realizing I was upset because how it made me feel physically helped me separate the reaction with the experience
I hate that song Another Brick In The Wall for similar reasons. When I was married, my ex would play it deliberately to upset me. It just triggers me. I'm still not good with it these days, but if I met someone who really loved it, I'd work it out.
Agreed. People like different kinds of TV shows. But I’ll admit I’ve been judgmental and put people down before for watching Teen Mom. Am I a TV elitist?
Some people have issues understanding that others experience the world differently than they do and so when they see others liking something they don't (or vice-versa) they think they must be broken in some way.
Yes, SchwippSchwapp is the PepsiCo version of that, Mezzo Mix the Coca-Cola version, it's also colloquially called "Spezi" after the original by a German brewery.
RhynoD · -4 points · Posted at 20:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna take a wild guess that you live somewhere in the American south.
RhynoD · 21 points · Posted at 20:50:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American southerner, seemed perfectly clear to me. 'Round here, it's all coke. Pepsi? Coke but worse. Sprite? Clear coke. Dr. Pepper? Other flavor of coke. Shasta? Cheap coke.
But if your coke needs impurities cooked off, was it actually pure coke to begin with?
Afaik a lot of the "cheap coke" is only cheap because it's been laced to be quite impure, that would probably explain why crack can be more expensive than some coke, somebody wants to make a profit from the time invested cooking it.
Freebase: “Freebase” is the base form of cocaine, as opposed to the salt form. It is practically insoluble in water whereas hydrochloride salt is water soluble. This prevents cocaine in its basic form from being usable for sublingual usage and insufflation. Freebase cocaine can be treated with ethers, isopropyl alcohol, and hydrochloric acid to turn it into the salt form.
"Crack": Crack refers to a lower purity form of freebase cocaine that is usually produced by neutralization of cocaine hydrochloride with a solution of baking soda (sodium bicarbonate, NaHCO3) and water, producing a very hard/brittle, off-white-to-brown colored, amorphous material that contains sodium carbonate, entrapped water, and other by-products as the main impurities.
I’ve heard that’s a thing in certain areas, but I honestly think calling all soda “coke” is pretty dated and you’ll only hear older people saying that.
I’m a young southerner and everyone I know just calls it by it’s brand name. Coke is coke, sprite is sprite, etc.
The dude who was arguing with me was from the same country so he totally knew what a spezi is. But demanded that my tounge must be broken because I like a different brand than he does ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I love spezi. We don't have it in my country, so it's always a treat when I visit germany or austria. My favourite brand of orange coke is Mezzo mix though. I didn't know freeway does orange coke? I though they only make normal one. Anyways, as normal cokes go, freeay over coca cola anytime :D
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:00:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Freeway raspberry is my favourite soda (not counting clipper but thats too hard to get), I don’t care it’s a cheap Lidl brand it’s just too good for some reason.
They are real German sodas. Schwip Schwap is like if you mixed pepsi and orange soda together. Freeway is a cheaper brand that has a few different flavors. Think in America what Shasta is compared to Cocacola.
I once made a post about how shitting on people who like super popular stuff is idiotic because obviously other people like it. People shouldn't let others dictate what they do and don't like as it makes them look like an insecure asshole. Life is too short to like some shit you don't like for someone else.
And as if I had written the post as bait on the end of a pole, some guy went through my entire comment and post history and dismissed my entire point because I post to /r/Harry Potter, /r/starwars, and /r/marvel. Like, because I like movies that millions of people have seen,y point about shitting on people's preferences is moot.
He didn't get the irony. He sent me a spread sheet of the places i visit and the things I like. He had a lot of hate in his heart. It was kind of amazing that me saying, "hey, maybe don't be a dick?" energized such a feeling of hate in this guy he spent hours of his life trying to disprove the idea that being nice is nice.
I enjoy Tom Hardy’s performance and am looking forward to more.
It’s a fun movie to not take seriously with a few beers.
But that motorbike scene its so stupid. Who THE FUCK buys an army of expensive drones just to turn them into suicide bombers instead of equipping them with projectile weapons.. come on.
Tom Hardy's complete and utter commitment to that role was really what sold the movie for me. That was the complete opposite of phoning it in, and he carried that entire movie on his shoulders.
Also, I like that they didn't make the ex's new bf a complete tool. Plus, he actually had plot relevance.
I like that Hardy looked like total shit for most of that movie, as in he looked really ragged and unkempt and covered in sweat. It made complete sense storywise and I think a lot of movies would have tried to make the lead look “cleaner” even if it wouldn’t make much sense.
Tom Hardy was pretty good except for his voice. He sounded brain damaged. Also there were like 2 or 3 scenes where Eddie just describes what’s happening in the scene that made me roll my eyes. “Now you have one of those up your ass.” Yes, Eddie. We saw it too.
Some claim that it's destroyed their childhood. I grew up with Star Wars being born in '76, a year before the first one came out, and I love each one of them for what they are. I get fired up for every SW movie.
I'm the same but the last one felt, empty? I don't know how to describe it better. But you know what, I don't hate it. I just felt it was the weakest of the trilogy.
I will admit the last wasn't that strong, but it was a fitting end to the saga.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a huge Star Wars fan. Here’s something I noticed. There’s 2 groups of Star Wars fans. One group loved the Yuuzhan Vong, loved Abeloth, loved The Ones, loved the retcon of the Mandalorians and Fetts, love the prequels, hated the sequels, particularly hate The Last Jedi worse than the other 2. The other group is more or less the exact opposite. Every other part of Star Wars both groups love.
Here’s another fun fact. The “fans” claim they’re mad that the sequels ignored the EU entirely and made their own story and they’re mad they brought Palpatine back. Except the sequels are essentially the Dark Empire storyline straight from the EU with Kylo taking Luke’s place in the story. Like, Palpatine surviving through essence transfer and clones is literally what happened in Dark Empire. These “fans” are criticizing the EU directly.
At this point, the lack of self awareness of sequel haters is so pathetic is laughable. The sequels were enjoyable. I don’t what people were expecting, but Star Wars isn’t known for its deep characterization and thought provoking storyline. It’s known for heavy special effects and space wizards.
Jedi aren't space wizards, they're space samurai. When you start digging into the subtleties of the Jedi's actions in the films there's some really amazing stuff. Like there's the old legend of the Ronin, the samurai without a master, coming to kill the Shogun, the master of all samurai. And he holds the Shogun at swordpoint, and what does the Shogun do? He spits in the Ronin's face, and the Ronin walks away. Because even though the Ronin has no honour, he's a samurai, and a samurai never kills while angry.
There are these great semi-philosophical mind game moments all through the Star Wars movie, hidden beneath the surface. Take the final confrontation between Obi Wan and Anakin. Neither of them says it, but both know the other is thinking back to the way Obi Wan killed Maul. Obi Wan knows Anakin is going to try the same trick, and he knows it won't work twice. Obi Wan knows the countermove to that gambit, and it's a move he doesn't want to have to use against Anakin. He begs Anakin not to do it, but Anakin's drunk on the Dark Side, he thinks he's invincible. And so he tries it, and Obi Wan is forced to use the killing countermove.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Aw man sorry to hear that. You paid money to get disappointed. That must suck. This is why I watch the previews so that I don't end up wasting money like that."
Malkev · 5 points · Posted at 20:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate the Star Wars sequels are the greatest example of this. They don’t just hate the sequels, they hate ANYONE who has the AUDACITY to say that the sequels are okay. I had someone tell me once that because I liked the sequels that I then supported Disney raping everyone’s childhood. Some people legit say that kinda shit.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate the Star Wars sequels tbh, BUT YOU LIKE WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT, YOU WIRELESS PANDA, YOU!
They don't do much for me, but I'm honestly glad people enjoy them, because at least then it isn't a waste of money and resources.
Yeah, that reminds me of a post from the upliftingnews subreddit about the writer of Back to the Future saying there will never be a Back to the Future remake. I asked why this was considered uplifting news, maybe some people were actually interested in seeing a remake of that? They responded with basically the same as your person responded, about raping another classic film. It’s like these people think they’re the ones who OWN the movies and made them, etc. it’s idiotic.
RoS is a bad movie, full stop. Without getting into the crusade of how This Beat is Political Pandering or what That Scene Means for the Franchise, it's a straight-up bad film, all on its own. The theme of the movie is practically "these characters lives are as fictional as their deaths and nothing matters." No amount of acting, effects, or fight choreography can cover writing that bad.
I can’t believe you lack the self-awareness to realize you just went on an elitist rant in a thread about how elitist rants are bad. How do you even draw breath without getting confused?
You are exactly the same as a music elitist. Insufferable to anyone who isn’t a fellow snob.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But some things ARE bad though right? Some movies are badly written. Some pictures are badly taken. Some drawings are badly drawn. Movie quality, unlike music, is much easier to judge clearly.
I don't listen to metal coz it just isn't my thing, but I can't call it bad. He last season of Game of Thrones, on the other hand, WAS badly written and executed but I still love Game of Thrones and it IS my thing.
Being an elitist is hating something because it isn't the same as hat you like. I think the other guy was saying that the movie was bad, whether you like it or not.
For example, I love he prequels by MY GOD are they bad movies. There is no doubt in my mind that if they weren't star wars movies, they'd have been forgotten when they came out
Yeah, but I could spend 100 hours shitting on a movie you think is great with PowerPoint presentations and factual evidence.... doesn't mean shit if you think it's a good movie. Know why?
No matter how much it makes your toes curl, all. movies. are. subjective.
I'm saying:
1) There is objective merit in art.
2) Not all opinions are equally valid.
3) Denying the first puts your opinions in the second's 'invalid' bin.
ITT: Bunch of fucks bitching about how they hate it when people have opinions about things they don't have opinions about themselves, and how much better they feel about themselves for not caring.
People of Reddit, what do you genuinely not understand? HOW TO UNDERSTAND
ITT: you, completely missing the point and thinking yourself to be smarter for it. Thanks for the genuine entertainment, it's hard to come by these days.
1) I disagree completely. Art is subjective. You can talk about the technical success of a movie, and how well it does things that we consider to be important qualities for a film, but that doesn't change the idea that art is subjective.
2) Based on what?
3) Hah what? Sure, I'm fine with that. Your opinions are invalid to me too, so we're pretty even.
It doesn't stand true with science though. Opinions =/= facts. Facts aren't all equally valid. Opinions about those facts, who are we to say that they aren't, though?
Okay, there can be objective merit in art. Some people may find art where you don’t, or appreciate the art in a way you aren’t appreciating it. Neither of you are wrong, just different, and people can of course have opposed but equally valid opinions.
They can be equal but not all of them are. Opposing views literally cannot both be true.
e.g. "Jackson Pollock was just throwing paint and called it art" versus, "Jackson Pollock was an innovative genius."
orrocos · 6 points · Posted at 22:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Opposing facts can’t both be true, but opposing opinions can.
"Jackson Pollock was just throwing paint and called it art" is a fact. That’s generally what he was doing, more or less.
“Jackson Pollock was a genius” and “Jackson Pollock was terrible” or both equally valid opinions. Some really like his art and appreciate what he was doing. Some think it’s not worth the canvas it was painted on. Those are both okay things to think and neither viewpoint is “wrong”.
Edit: Maybe “genius” can be measured and can be more of a fact than opinion. And enough people like his work so that it has real monetary value so “not worth the canvas” is more turn of phrase than a statement of fact.
Reductive. Pollock still had to determine which colors to use, in what compositions, and what marks were intentional and which were random. Challenged people's notions of art and intent while still being part of the dialogue. Successful enough to become common knowledge (or well-known trivia, at least) . All true whether or not you or I like it.
I don't like Elton John. I would not say or even agree that he isn't good beyond mere talent.
To be clear: Your opinion is both sides bullshit. Just because you don't care it doesn't follow that everyone else's arguments are equal(ly worthless). It actually means that your opinion is worthless.
Your opinion is worthless, if: You're saying the A>B camp is wrong, and the B>A camp is also wrong. That implies either A=B or A≠B. But if A=B there wouldn't be disagreement, but A≠B is meaningless, because everyone agrees there is inequality, thus argument. So the 'both sides are wrong' position is closer to 'I don't know/care enough to tell the difference between A and B.'
So when you take the "neutral" position, on ANY topic, is it really neutral, or just lazy conceit? Maybe you should stick with "I don't know or care" instead of "both sides are wrong," or, best of all, just keep your worthless non-opinion opinion to yourself.
This guy that I work with REFUSES to watch anything that gets less that an 85 on rotten tomato because he says anything below that is not worth watching and a waste of time.
I know a few people like this irl and vicariously online (streamers and such). I truly do not understand their line of think and how they’ll allow themselves to be dictated on what they watch from some arbitrary website/collective group of critics (strangers really) opinions. Like, take risks people! Watch a movie you think you may like! Same with TV shows and any other type of entertainment. You’ll discover you’ll like things that professional critics don’t because in the end, the idea of critics is a complete joke.
I also did not mind Suicide Squad. I thought Margot Robbie (I think that’s how you spell her name?) did a great job as Harley Quinn and loved Birds of Prey.
And it’s not like Star Wars movies in the past were devoid of inconsistencies or so-called “plot holes”. People have been allowing hand waves and retcons in Star Wars for years, people aren’t letting up on the sequels simply because they’re new.
I like to quote Dr. Brian Cox on topics such as this.
"The problem with today’s world is that everyone believes they have the right to express their opinion AND have others listen to it.
The correct statement of individual rights is that everyone has the right to an opinion, but crucially, that opinion can be roundly ignored and even made fun of, particularly if it is demonstrably nonsense!"
I went to see it in the theater knowing nothing about it, I was craving popcorn and some alone time. Really enjoyed it. Not a masterpiece but it was everything I needed at the time. I was really surprised to see all the hate it was getting whenever I saw it mentioned, mostly on Reddit. I read comics back in the day and felt it was a pretty good representation of the story. I guess I need mental health as well.
Dudes. We guys have a lot to answer for. It's definitely not all men that carry on like this (indeed, my last partner was a woman and she would rave about how shallow someone was if they liked pop).
But a lot of guys can be immature and carry on about stupid shit like this
shf500 · 2 points · Posted at 02:19:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I stay away from movies discussion boards like /r/truefilm because they seem to like to slam the movies that I like (of course, this may mean I should watch smarter movies).
Skywalker dude was definitely not joking. If people sent death threats to the actors because of the movie it wouldn’t be impossible if he was serious. I know the venom dude was making a joke but it’s still not great to say shit like that because of an opinion
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you, it’s just that I think people can get an inflated idea of how many people literally think this way.
I’m a really big Venom fan, andI thought that movie was great
I really wanna punch that guy in the face right now
I was excited for 2 years about that movie, and I still would say that October 18, 2018 is the best day of my life. (I haven’t had any children or major graduations yet)
Yeah, I’ve got some friends who like Carnage more than Venom, so we’re all pumped for this movie. I really hope it’s as good as the first one!
xexyz · 2 points · Posted at 05:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't care for comic books. I like comic book/superhero movies even less.
I put Venom on for background noise one day and I ended up watching the entire thing in one sitting. I've seen it at least twice since. What an awesome premise, and really fun movie.
I just saw there's a sequel coming and I'm legit excited for it.
Were you a Venom fan because of the comics, or what got you into it?
I heard that there a Venom movie was coming out in October 2018 back in the summer of 2017. I thought that it might be cool to learn things about Venom because he looked cool, and I didn’t know much about him. That summer, I watched 100’s of YouTube video on him, and I even checked out some comics from the local library. I even watched videos on the Venom movie before and after the movie came out.
I was so excited for the movie. They say that someone’s excitement slowly fades throughout the course of the movie, but I was slowly getting more excited as the movie went on.
By the end of the movie, I went out to the lobby of the theater to find COMPLEMENTARY POSTERS! (We payed for one of those XD theaters or something like that) I went home, ate, sat outside, and saw a shooting star. My wish will hopefully come true on October 18, 2020. It really was a great day. The only thing I regret is missing the post-credit scenes, but I watched those later.
That’s pretty much how I got into Venom.
SEIVIP · 7 points · Posted at 20:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s totally subjective though and if someone unironically says someone is wrong for liking something totally subjective, they are just arrogant and/or an idiot.
I thought rise of sky walker, and the entire new trilogy was bad, too. But I wouldn’t punch a kid for liking it, that’s ridiculous. I’d probably only lightly kick them
I had the same thing happen to me when I commented once about Daredevil- yes, the Ben Affleck one. It was a personal attack bordering on threatening. I really cannot understand how my likes/ dislikes can upset someone SO much. I’m all about just trying to be happy and hoping everyone else is as well.
niv13 · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, venom is not that good, but Tom hardy killed that role. Fck whatever anyone else said.
Well, I liked both movies, but apparently I should be keeping that to myself...
I don't really understand this culture of hatred we have going on -- like it's cooler to hate things than to enjoy them, and anyone who dares to enjoy something is an idiot. Maybe I had that attitude when I was 13, but I outgrew that; it boggles my mind that so many adults are still like this. You know what's cool? Liking what you like and not caring what other people think.
I don't understand why everything has to be deep and long-winded to be worthwhile entertainment either. A lot of us are pretty smart people and we spend all day thinking critically, which can get exhausting. Life can also be really rough. Sometimes I just want to turn my brain off for a couple of hours and watch Tom Hardy hang out with an alien and do a weird accent (seriously, what was with his voice in that movie?) or bounce around to pop music. Other times, I'm reading science books for fun or listening to classical music. I'm a lot happier having so many things I can look forward to and enjoy than focusing on what I don't.
People who have a wide range of interests are more complex and interesting to me, too; no one wants to listen to someone whine about a sci-fi movie they hated for 5 hours.
I’ve had a somewhat similar experience. I’m crazy super into movies, going to film school, want to pursue a career in the industry.
When I tell people about my favorite movies I always hear stuff like “alright, you’re gonna hate me, so I’m sorry, but I haven’t seen that one.” Like what on earth?!?! They’ve been conditioned to expect backlash for not having seen some weird arthouse movie. It makes me so mad that people will berate another person for not having experienced something. Like, wouldn’t it be better to share that with them? Why not enjoy the fact that you can introduce somebody to something they might enjoy? Or you know, just move on?
I’m with you on that. My personal experience with this is people not believing that I don’t like any alcoholic drink. People just can’t accept it for some bizarre reason. People who get pissed at other people liking well-done steaks is another peeve of mine. I don’t even like steak done that way myself but people who get pissy about other people having it that way infuriate me.
Some people just don’t understand (or are to arrogant to accept) the concept of subjectivity it seems.
Hey! I finally found another one! I also don't drink because I hate the taste of alcohol. I get people recommending me drinks all the time ("Trust me, this one won't even taste a bit like alcohol!"), and a few times, even buying them for me to try. I drink so as to not be rude, but it still tastes like cough medicine. 0/10, I'll stick to my non-Robitussin flavored drinks.
Had a housemate that literally hated anything I listened to. I also remember one time on his car radio he was playing the cover of Gone Away by FFDP and I was like "ayyyye this is a good cover" and he was like "this isn't a cover" and I was like "The offspring wrote this song in '94". After that he stopped listening to the cover.
Ni_Gaz · 33 points · Posted at 19:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had something like this, i also listened to all types of rock bands and felt like i was special because you don’t see it that often now and thought i had better musical taste, and everyone who listened to really popular artists or music on the radio had really bad taste but i learned and realized that is a retarded look on things
People who hate country music annoy me a thousand times more than country music itself. They have to tell EVERYONE and be SO demonstrative whenever a country song comes on the radio. It especially annoys me since me and my acquaintances live in the South. Like, yeah you're allowed to dislike a ubiquitous aspect of the local culture, but constantly complaining about it gets old. It's like going to Korea and getting angry every time you hear KPop.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love Bo Burnham, but he gave Reddit way too much ammo when he made that song lol.
Roomed with a kid at camp that only listened to the Beatles or Billy Joel. Like, why? There are just so many great artists out there, some whose names even start with B if you want to keep the pattern!
Edit: To elaborate, the kid wasn’t accepting of other genres or artists. Our other roommate was talking about how he liked Lil Wayne, and roommate A practically shunned him for the rest of the night. Not cool
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kept myself from enjoying Wayne for the longest time, 13 year old me was such a snob about music.
mt379 · 12 points · Posted at 20:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what your saying. I hate country music but it's not gonna change how I view someone or treat them. They just can't play it in my car if I'm driving.
It seems to always be people who like classic rock for some reason. I had a co-worker who was the exact same way. Eventually my boss banned music at my work entirely because he kept changing the music people were playing to classic rock then would get all pissy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it always classic rock or older metal. I don’t get it all.
I have fucking Elvis, Between the Buried and Me, Billie Eilish, Green Day, Kanye, Converge, and LCD Soundsystem in the same playlists. People are seriously missing out
I feel sorry for him, ive been raised and my parents believe that someone can do whatever they want and like whatever they want, aslong as it doesnt hurt themselves or others/animals.
m_pzz · 6 points · Posted at 20:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I expressed an opinion years ago about how crappy Once Upon a Time had become, and a preteen told me to kill myself.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:00:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God that show got so bad. I don’t even know how it ended. Apparently it was happy? I feel like it just went on FOREVER. First it was cool, you could tell who was supposed to be a certain character by their name, an accessory, a hair color- a good integration of a storybook character into reality. Then a couple seasons later Elsa’s just showing up in full dress and hair, no holding back. The story got needlessly complicated and became an effort to cram in every Disney name you’ve ever heard. Disappointing, because it was an interesting start. I wanted to like it.
That being said, how did you ever recover from such a fatal blow by that preteen? 😔
I went onto my blog and expressed the thoughts I wanted to say to the kid. I was old enough to be their parent, and just felt that kid had no business talking to anyone like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:08 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
A ton of people on the internet talk to others in ways they have NO business doing so- it can be really infuriating, I sympathize with how you feel. Thankfully that was just a kid, so there’s a chance they’ll grow out of it. IMO it’s scarier seeing adults do it, because they should know way better than that. Good on you for venting elsewhere, people like that want to be engaged and argued with, and they fizzle out when you don’t feed into it.
Yes and no, but mostly yes. It's not about elitism, as some claim above. It's about (a mostly mistaken) belief in genuineness. They think that music/art is worthless if the artist is not genuine, i.e. if they're doing it for money, or have a fake persona, etc.
It's a genuinely held, but naive belief. It leads to heartbreak when favorite artists "sell out" and also prevents discovering and enjoying all sorts of wonderful music.
I agree with what you're saying, but in all fairness you kind of just described elitism. These teens usually say things like...
"These musicians are real artists with passion, soul and a real understanding of their art. They have a message, they speak to us, they are the only real artists. And only us real fans can understand their genius, what they mean, the art behind what they do."
This naive belief is really just people feeling like the "real" artists are superior because they are genuine, and therefore they feel superior because their art speaks to them. Or, y'know, elitism lol. Just my take on it.
It make sense if they (and you) understand that it's a silly nonsensical movie trying its best to make sense adapting a silly nonsensical musical trying its best to make sense adapting a silly nonsensical poem trying its best to make sense adapting a funny way T.S. Elliot's niece pronounced the word "jolly little cat"
Or the other way around: T.S. Elliot's niece mispronounced "jolly little cat" into "jellicle cat" (or "poor little dog" into "pollicle dog"), T.S.Elliot found that funny and cute and made a poem about it, giving silly little names like this to cats and trying to make sense of how these cats would behave based on these names. Andrew Loyd Webber liked that poem growing up because it's cute and whimsical (and because he really loves cats in general), so he decided to make a musical based on that trying to tie in a sort of narrative to all the different types of cats presented in the poem. Now the movie is simply trying to make as best cinematographical sense it can of the Cats musical's narrative.
I haven't seen it (nor the musical) and I don't really care about it, but I can understand how somebody could like it based on the fact that it is supposed to be wacky and not make much sense and just be a spectacle of feline silliness.
Oh I love the musical!! It’s fantastic, one of the first I saw on Broadway as a child. I understand the meaning and adaptation of it onto the stage, but I haven’t seen a single person that truly enjoyed the movie. It’s not even a plot issue -though it didn’t translate well- it’s the quality of the movie. If there’s a functioning adult that truly thought that was an exceptional film, I would not trust them until they proved me otherwise
It literally removes flavour from the chocolate because it doesn’t melt in the mouth as much when it’s been in the fridge - fridge chocolate is just wrong
Well, if he has to listen to it because others like it then I can kind of understand his reasoning. I think it is a bit justified if you are affected by the tastes of the people around you. For example when choosing the music at a party or cooking together. Then, personal tastes do matter
I had a friend who I invited to come out with some other friends he'd never met before. He listened to exclusively classic rock and metal. No exceptions. So I was driving with all aforementioned friends in my car with the elitist in the front seat. Cake's cover of 'War Pigs' came on the radio and he immediately got irritated and said to turn it off. We protested because we like the cover and it was my car. He flipped to the classic rock station. I got kind of annoyed because he was acting like a dick and I told him to put it back. He hadn't taken it this far before. So he yelled "let's just fucking turn it off then" and punched my stereo.
I let him out of the car on the other side of town to walk home
I used to be like that when I was 13/14. I discovered hardcore and metalcore music and got weirdly elitist very quickly. I can't speak for every person who acts like this, but for me (and I reckon a lot of people) it becomes part of your identity. So when you then go and disagree with their taste in music they feel like you're questioning them as a person.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same lol, I think a lot of kids go through similar phases around that age.
Totally agree with the first part, but maybe my opinion differs a bit, theres music that genuinely irks me, repetition of the same words over and over.. alot of oldies had it. Rhyming words with the same word. But if it's not my place then I'll just leave, it's like nails on a board
xabrol · 3 points · Posted at 21:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man amen to that.
I'm a cubicle programmer that drives a lifted f150, loves techno, and watches anime, plays online MMOs, and goes offroading in my RZR through the mud, and I take hot baths, and don't watch sports or cable tv.
I rub so many people the wrong way.
Yeah, I like "that time I got reincarnated as a slime" and don't like football, yeah that's my f150. I like what I like. Besides football is soccer.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metalheads, I love me some metal but would never discuss it with a metalhead.
I've been going to metal shows for 15 years and have never had this issue.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:08:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you’re all at a metal concert than you probably all like the same band/bands
I like a lot of metal but still hate talking about non metal music with most of them. People act like you slapped their mom because you like Kanye and Lorde
People don’t like it when you don’t like the same things as them, as when people do like the same things it validates that they’re right for liking it.
I think it's also kind of weird that people can't find anything redeeming about whole genres of music, and art, because listen to enough things and you'll inevitably find something that you do like. It's really pretty close-minded.
Oh my God, this right here! My bf (love him to death, for the most part) will tell me I'm just flat out wrong for liking some of the music I like or foods I like that he doesn't, etc. I'll say "and that's your opinion" then he'll come back with "nope, it's fact. Numbers don't lie." He's obviously just a crazy person. Can't argue with crazy people so I just let it be.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Refused to work with a friend of mine on a group project because she loved techno
That is ....... So very pretentious of him. Wow dude. Get off your pedestal.
ro_ok · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their identity, value system, and most importantly sense of belonging and worth is synonymous with the genre. I was like that in high school with metal bands — would discuss the nuances between death and doom like we were searching for then outlines of our very souls.
When you find music that feels like it speaks directly to you and that it understands you, when maybe you’re not in an environment that makes you feel that way, it’s incredibly powerful. Humans are wired to ‘belong’ and for someone to reject that belonging really hurts. I think that’s what classic rock guy is going through, techno guy is a threat to his feeling of belonging (whether he acknowledges that is another story).
People that get angry when you disagree with them are assholes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think they’re very insecure and, just like Shrek said, compensating for something. They’re escaping insecurity by forcing the mentality that it’s the reverse- they’re the perfect model and everyone else has growing to do. I had an ex with that exact issue. He’d get really argumentative and offended about anything we differed on- food preferences, music, TV shows- but was distraught when I broke it off despite how ‘inferior’ I was. The facade crumbles when you don’t engage it. If anything, I feel sorry for people like that and sincerely hope that one day they learn to love and accept themselves.
When I was 19 I moved unknowing moved into a crack house when I was flying the coop. The main signer and her boyfriend would yell and he would beat her almost nightly. They LOVED EDM, played it all the time. They brought friends over who LOVED EDM. One of those friends went as far as creeping on me one day.
I can listen to maybe one song if a friend really likes their music and wants to play it in my car, but after that it's like a flipped switch. I get so agitated and angry I could kill someone.
However, I've also been diagnosed with misophonia (emotional sensitivity to certain sounds) before I'd moved out.
Hope I offered some understanding.
TLDR; I was traumatized by EDM by scary roommates on top of having already having a problem with certain sounds/noises.
Funny how any pre 90s rock is utterly horrible for me, same with any hip hop from 2010 onwards. I don’t care if people like it obviously. I like some pretty crazy electronic music and I sometimes wonder how I actually like that stuff.
One thing I do wish more people would do is discover music. Don’t just listen to what is put in front of you, or what your friends are listening to. Find what you like.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not the person you responded to, but would be down for some similarish recommendations. I don't normally listen to hip hop nor know of many hip hop artists, but when I do listen, my go to's are Deltron 3030, Wu-Tang, Blackalicious, Black Star, Eminem, Dr. Octagon, Kendrick Lamar.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you like Wu-Tang and other grimy east coast stuff, there’s tons of great New York revivalists coming up right now. Griselda is probably the biggest, it’s three street dudes out of Buffalo making super grimey 90s style rap. If you like that track, check out The Plugs I Met by Benny the Butcher, really great short album from one of them that came out last year. Hit me up for more recommendations if you like it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hell yea, thanks! that's all been dope. have any more recommendations? any from 90s-early 2000s I missed out on?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:02:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Word, if you want more Griselda it’s hard to miss with any of their projects but the best starting points imo are
Reject 2 - Conway the Machine
Tana Talk 3 - Benny the Butcher
Supreme Blientele - Westside Gunn (or Flygod if you’re willing to listen through YouTube since it’s not on streaming)
Some others that make similar music that’s worth checking out are Roc Marciano, Your Old Droog, 38 Spesh (and most of Trust Gang), Che Noir, Flee Lord and Eto.
As far as 90s to 2000s idk what you’ve listened to before but there’s always classics like
Moment of Truth - Gang Starr
The Infamous - Mobb Deep
Lifestylez ov da Poor and Dangerous - Big L
And 2000s stuff like
The Cold Vein - Cannibal Ox
I’ll Sleep When You’re Dead - El-P
Labor Days - Aesop Rock
Purple Haze - Cam’ron
Edit: oh and I forgot The Cow, it’s essential Conway listening, easily his most emotional and personal verse.
Nothing from today. I like early 2000s stuff. Don’t mind Loop Troop Rockers from back in the day too. Jedi mind tricks as well. But yeah, no “newer” artists sorry.
Feel anything? These are some of favourites from the last few years and I don't really enjoy the genre as a whole, but I love these artists and the types of music they produce.
Whenever I have a disagreement with a person about one of these kinds of things, I just don't bring that topic up again. I'll still want to punch anyone who likes the last GoT season though haha.
Who knows how reddit will take this, but i feel like this about politics. Without going into the objectively wrong things either side has done, it often boils down to what people believe and their opinions on things. Both sides of the political spectrum have facts backing them up, hating someone because they’re liberal, or conservative doesn’t make sense to me. As long as they aren’t actively hurting someone let them have their opinion on how things should be done.
This is not all that hard to understand once you know how powerful our egos can be. We all have that “inner narrator” who casts doubt on our decisions. For some people (and it’s not their “fault”) (whatever that means) that voice is so loud that they need external validation in order to confirm that they have made the right choices in life. Freud called it “The Narcissism of Small Differences” and you see it everywhere. From a skier talking shit about a snowboarder to a war fought between Muslim sects. Your friend loved classic rock, but his ego compelled him to affirm his love for it by being, what Carl Jung called, “A big ol’ fucknugget.”
slver6 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
exactly this... this is the root cause and problem with all on this world, is ok if you like something, AND is ok if you dislike something, BUT why hate on people having diferent taste on you...
Good friend of mine lost it when I said I wasn't a fan of the Shelby Cobras looks. Cool car, cool history, just don't like the look. Dude gets pretty pissed when I don't like the cars he does and shits on the ones I like 🤷 it's an opinion dude..
Kind of a consequence of our culture. We're encouraged to form our identities around the shit we consume, and when you define yourself by what you like, you feel personally attacked when someone doesn't like it, or likes something else more.
You nailed it right there. I listen to scarlxrd and lots of people bash him for screaming and whatnot and say he's trash or no one understands him, but they want me to listen to Young Thug etc..
I had a similar issue where I would judge people easily, but I kept my opinions to myself and avoided them if I had the chance to, and when I had to I would make an effort and in most cases I was proven wrong and everyone I thought wouldn't be nice turned out to be a chill person.
Today the worst kind of people I am facing are those who chose to call the other person names in any form of discussion, my younger cousin sister paints her face because some insta influencer termed it therapeutic, when I asked her why she was doing so by laughing at it (because it felt funny) she said I wouldn't understand and proceeded to call me an uncle, no relevance.
And as a young person and an elder to younger people I realised how important it is to listen to someone older than you give you some advice, there is always some basis for it. alas people choose to make it personal.
It's mental how people make their own beliefs, the only truth in the world. When I was a teenager I liked Slipknot a lot. I went to a Slayer / Slipknot concert. Very proud young man. As the evening went along I met a guy wearing a Slayer shirt. I of cause had my Slipknot shirt on. The guy looked at me, and asked me why I was there for the wrong band. I was so happy go lucky, so I said that I was there to see the right band.
He punched me right in the face and left.
The only valid reason I can think of is if the content (or creator) is somehow problematic. Otherwise, people who have huge fucking egos just act like this because they think being mean is a personality trait. If something’s not your cup of tea? That’s fine—just keep it to yourself or with friends who’d agree with you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was once told by a kid who bullied me in high school that the music I listened to (musical theatre) "wasn't even proper music to be on an iPod"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was this person as a kid, but only around my parents, because they'd constantly ridicule me and berate me for liking certain things. I'd blow up at them every time they did it, and they'd tell me I was "too sensitive" and I needed to learn that not everyone likes the same stuff as me.
A century of marketing strategies weaponizing the ego by association with products, we've been brainwashed into thinking what we consume is who we are - to be loved, respected, to be someone is all based upon what we buy, listen, watch, consume, etc.
Check out the documentary "Century of the Self" about this, it's absolutely fascinating.
I have a friend who just berates me on not eating my waffles the same as him and pisses me off and then he gets mad at me for not being able to do something he can because I’m inferior
Oh jesus...I hate that and I was like that for a while as a teenager. Not as bad as OPs "friend", but still - it was definitely a way of making myself feel better about myself. It was a way of making up for my insecurity sometimes. Doesn't matter how popular or hot you are, I can smirk at you dumbass taste in music.
Control freaks; they feel the need to exert control over every aspect of everyone's lives. Basically a dictator with zero power, so it just becomes adult temper tantrums. You see a lot of it working retail.
I can appreciate most kinds of music. People work hard and being able to see the different styles of writing music as well as seeing the different instruments used is extremely interesting.
I seriously think that there is some underlying psychogical condition behind this, that is probably in the unconscious of this person. some form of compensation
I don't really take offense when people don't like what I like, but I don't like when people tell me things are like are trash or that I'm lesser because I like something that others don't. That's where I get annoyed.
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[deleted] · 9335 points · Posted at 16:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was with a girl who was abusive to me. You truly feel like you can never escape. And they think they are doing the world a favour by disciplining you. They're cruel and ignorant creatures who are selfish. They don't give a shit about how you feel as long as you are there to do their work and satisfy them.
God I’m currently trapped in the house with an abusive ex because of the quarantine. She’s not that physically abusive but she’s very manipulative and mentally abusive. Idk what to do or how to get out my self esteem is plummeting daily and I feel like I’m less than a person. Sorry for ranting randomly on this thread I just needed to
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Message me if you want to talk. I'm here for you.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody should have to go through that. Stay strong and know that you're worth more than she wants you to believe <3
I grew up with a mentally abusive stepmom. It’s really fucking hard, but I know you can get through this. Even when she makes you feel powerless, remember, she is only as powerful as every other human, and she can’t take your humanity away from you. Remember how fucking awesome you are, and let her know that you know how awesome you are. You got this, buddy.
I had an abusive female ex. I didnt fear her, i feared that she could call men with guns at any time to deal with me if i didnt do what she said.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a similar fear. I knew what she was capable of manipulating people to do for her. The dude she cheated on my with was a heroin/coke/crack dealer from Surrey b.c., and there was a few times I was ready to see what dragon's breath would do to him. Sad part is, I'm Canadian. I shouldn't have to live in that level of fear. I kept a loaded Mossberg shotgun beside my bed and a Ruger gp100 in my car. Cops wouldn't do shit to help me because I'm a man, I should be able to fend for myself.
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[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like I would give a fuck anymore. That chapter is behind me. But it still leaves a giant hole in your heart that you don't know what to do with. Healing is a long process.
I'm genuinely interested in where that feeling of no escape comes from. Why some stay for years and others leave after the first incident. I know love and sweet talk can blind you, but is that it?
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You get pushed into a corner before you know it. You support and love them, then you're trapped financially and emotionally. You could try to escape, but then she would call the cops and say I was threatening her, and I had guns, blah blah blah. She would make shit up to destroy my esteem and mental health. I gave all my guns to my stepdad and kept my Mossberg loaded under my bed out of fear after I kicked her out. When I kicked her out I felt a brief sense of relief. Then came the regret. You wonder what they are going to do next to ruin your life and grind you down farther. I was working in a camp and my landlord told me about the going-ons at my place, her new "friend" and everything. I'm 1000km away and there's fuck all I can do. Once I got home I went on lockdown. I threw her shit on the street and had requested an RCMP officer to watch my place. Long story short, I'm glad it's over but it still hurts me to this day.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES
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so my Aunt is a divorce attorney and cases where the husband is in an abusive relationship are some of the hardest to argue for full custody simply because they are a lot less common and the judge is a lot less likely to be convinced.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank god we never had kids or anything, she was infertile due to her past drug use. We were technically commonlaw, but she couldn't afford a lawyer and I'm a former dairy farmer. All I had to do was call grandpa and say "get me the attorney.". It broke my fucking heart that it went that way, and it still hurts years later. I haven't had a relationship that was worth mentioning since.
What a C U Next Tuesday. Would me finding her and stomping her out help or just contribute to the problem? I can't decide. Regardless, the point I'm trying to make here is fuuuuck you Salina!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a gf who used to slap me a lot. I was young and saw it on TV so I thought it was normal. Like oh I made a joke that you found offensive yeah I deserve to be hit. Or oh sorry I was rude to your friend who I hate when she interrupted me mid sentence yeah that slap was justified. Then later after amessy breakup when I was with another girl who never slapped me or emotionally abused me and I would flinch occasionally when she looked at me after I thought I did something wrong. Made me realize how fucked up it was.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey man, drop a line if you wanna talk. We are all in this together, and you can't heal alone. Talking to others heals the wounds, and knowing you aren't alone brings confidence to your battle. Be strong, friend.
This is my roommate and his fiancé. They're getting married in a few months but I'm hoping COVID will postpone it longer so he has more time to escape. Although, who am I kidding? He's not going to escape. He cannot stand up to her and it's sad and embarrassing. He knows she's terrible to him 90% of the time, but still goes along with it like nothing is wrong. It's terrible to witness and I just cannot wait until they move out, except I really do enjoy living with the guy. So sad.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know dude. Just leave a post it note somewhere with a random dudes name and number and let nature take its course.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I shouldn't have said that, I'm an asshole. Be honest with your buddy. Sit him down one day and intervene on this. He deserves to know what you think, and you are obligated as a friend so save him from castration.
No, I like your first idea! Only because I already did the sensible thing you mentioned, and he admitted that he knows it's a problem, but he doesn't seem to want to do anything about it. So I've sort of lost hope 😞
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But he's so deathly afraid of her that he'd rather suffer with her than come with me because of the repercussions it'll have with her.
She's the reason he self-harms. She's the reason he has an eating disorder. She's the reason why he can't spend time with me. It's often weeks between us seeing each other.
This pandemic is making it worse because now she technically has a reason to prevent him from leaving.
I love Alex to death, and I can't wait until he's safe in my arms cuddling, whilst we watch Ratatouille for the millionth time.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Promise me you will take him or try to convince him to go to therapy to undo the damage she's done.
Ratatouille is a fucking awesome movie, I love it to. Drop me a message if you want to talk about anything. And hug Alex for me.
He knows he needs therapy and she did get him one. But not for good reasons. He's atheist (as am I), whereas she is christian. She doesn't believe in transgenderism, saying it's a mental disorder. He got therapy for being trans (read: equally abusive ultra christian therapists), not for weighing 30kg as an 8th grader, not because he has suicidal thoughts, not because his thighs look like he laid down on a paper shredder, not because he was uncomfy in his own skin, but because he was a boy in a girls body and his mum didn't like that.
He had a good therapist once, but she took that away from him because it was giving him what he needed, not what she wanted. He is her third child of 4. She abuses all of them at every opportunity. Thankfully the eldest two finally moved out and cut all contact.
He really needs therapy, but in the US, hot damn is it expensive. The healthcare system here needs to get fixed (for a billion reasons). We're both broke, we can't afford a nice one. And all the shitty ones, well, that's where he went before. I hate living in the Bible belt, and I haven't lived here for a year.
The worst part is that he can't even text me most of the time. She confiscated his laptop and phone. Even if he had them, the restrictions she's put in place prevent him from such basic things as: surfing the web, playing videogames, using it for more than two hours consecutively, and (my personal favorite) signing in because only she knows the password.
He's treated like a toddler. His problems? Insignificant, they'll blow over. His thoughts? Tis but a child. His dreams? He'll never achieve them, he's a lazy git. He's very art oriented, specifically culin arts. He's a fantastic chef, easily the best one I know personally, and they still don't believe in him.
I’m glad he has you to help him through a really hard time. Keep reminding him that he can determine his own self worth and that they have no say over whether or not he is valid and worthy and can achieve his goals. All of that is up to him and him alone, and if he decides that he is all of those things, then he is all of those things, and they have no say :)
I hope one day his life can be separated from their influence, and that he feels so much better on that day. I’m so excited for that day to happen for him.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kill the fuckin bible thumping bitch. I despise people that mask their bigotry behind the "word of God". Retards, in the literal sense.
As someone going through similar abusive parents and soon plan to escape into my boyfriend's protection. This is very reassuring and sweet to read how much you love and have helped him. I wish you guys good luck!
How would you say the support system was, if say the reverse were to happen do you think she would get more support?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah. Cops and courts always favour the women. When I had to deal with the cops to get a restraining order against her, the Sargeant looked me in the eye and said "how much of a threat could she really be?"
Had an aunt naked Selina, she was psychologically abuse to my Uncle for years and was always a cunt to me. They just finalized their divorce. So, double fuck you, Selina.
It’s not without guilt isually, but the guilt comes after the abuse. In abusive households, all emotions are displayed all the time. Anger, joy, dissatisfaction, frustration... there is no brake, no breather.
So people in that situation use very primal reactions. Essentially you should picture adults with toddler behavior.
Do you understand a 2-yo hitting another kid for taking their train? Well, it’s exactly that in many cases.
In other cases, the person is a sociopath and does not feel remorse or have a capability for empathy.
[deleted] · 406 points · Posted at 17:27:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I think I have an answer to this! A lot of abusive people, at least in my experience, have some sort of mental disorder that limits their personal control over their emotions. And a lot of the time, they have been raised in an abusive household or exposed to violence for a very long, very traumatic period. This would result in most cases a person who:
When angry, can not control their anger, and therefore lashes out in the only way they have learnt to: violence.
When they don’t get their way, or feel misunderstood, or out of control, or any emotion they relate to their own trauma, they resort to the only tool that they have learnt: violence.
Of course, I’m not a psychologist, but I’ve found this is the case. Of course it doesn’t excuse their behaviour, and there’s also abusers who are genuinely disgusting people and have no empathy, etc.
Edit: I’m in no way excusing their behaviour. I have been abused all my life. I would never excuse abusive behaviour. I just find psychology interesting.
My mom was extremely abusive to me, it’s like she’s two different people. And i think she truly believes she never was. It has completely tarnished my relationship with her but also makes me feel bad because i think it’s clear she has a mental disorder. But it makes me definitely feel when i have kids, she will never have them alone!!
My father was extremely abusive to me and he truly doesn’t believe that anything he did was abuse. I have scars on a third of my body from the things he did and he still doesn’t understand why I don’t like him
Do you think he maybe has multiple personalities? That’s what i think of my mom, it’s like i could almost see a switch in her eyes. And her and my dad got divorced when I was two because she would hit my dad so much he said he was at the point of wanting to hit her back so he left her. He also told me as i got older he made my mom go to years of counseling to be comfortable with her having custody of us kids. But i always kind of resented that he didn’t try to take us away from her, he should have.
Hard agree. I think something people don't understand about abusive behavior is that a huge amount of the time, the abuser will genuinely think that they're being reasonable.
Like, yes, there definitely are shitty people.who explicitly enjoy hurting others. But I think more of the time, the abusive person will just have this internal logic which tells them that what they're doing isn't really abuse.
"Obviously it's wrong to hit people, but I was in a bad mood from work and then my spouse didn't have dinner ready, which made me feel worse, and my spouse knows I'm hungry when I'm off work, so they must have done this on purpose, they're hurting me on purpose, that means I need to hurt them back."
It helps explain why so many people stay in abusive relationships because their partner may genuinely love them and be caring and sweet, or may genuinely cry and seem to feel awful after hurting them. But that relationship is still dangerous for them.
They see it as hitting = power. As pointed out earlier, a lot of people have been at the opposite end of it and they felt powerless in that situation. But if they're the ones doing the hitting, they're the ones wielding power over someone else. Sometimes they come to develop a ruthless social Darwinist view of life: If you want to win you have to be stronger than everyone else. Kindness is weak and makes you preyed upon. And they never want to be preyed upon again.
It's a viewpoint that can take a lot of work to overcome, and the earlier the better. A lot of times when adults are fully grown, they give up on hoping for anything better for themselves so they don't try as hard to improve. They accept this is the best they're going to get and this is what they have to do to get it.
Nope. You are implying abusers love their victims which is absurd. There is psychological concept called “ trauma bond” this is why victims find it hard to leave abusers.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:44:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abusers can love their victims. My parents certainly love me, and don’t realise what they did is abuse, because that’s the way they were raised and as others explained in comments, they think they’re doing the right thing.
Trauma bond is very real, but victims also find it hard to leave abusers for other reasons. They are manipulated into believing that the abuser is a good person. “I love you, I won’t do it again, I’m sorry,” etc.
As a psychologist I must note, that they usually don't have a mental disorder. Loose control over reactions, yes. Very little understanding of their own feelings, yes. But it's not a disorder. Some might have anger issues due to mental disorder, but usually it's the other way around — their victims will get PTSD, anxiety and depression, or have something more severe and will be abused because of that. You can't even imagine how much violence medical staff can inflict on patients in a mental hospital. It's usually the question of power and control, in any abuse.
If you consider your child, for example, not a real human being but some sort of your extension, or your possession, you can see nothing bad in beating them up, to show them who's in charge.
Yeah, I never liked the 'they were abused as children' explanation because it ignores the possibility of a normal person acting monstrous. Plenty of abusers had great home lives. There can be guilt in dominating another person but there can also be intense pleasure, I think the capacity for that is in most people. They just don't indulge it.
Well, many of them were. It's a vicious cycle: if you're treated like this, you can, unfortunately, take it as a norm in life. But being abused is not equal having a mental disorder. There are many possible coping mechanisms in these stories, and become, as an adult, either an abuser or a victim of another abuser is two of the possible scenarios. Violence should not be a norm for anyone but to break the cycle one should really try, and it takes a lot of emotional labour — the difficulty may vary from person to person.
Yeah. It seems like they're emotionally stunted and are essentially children emotionally, so they act the way a child would - hitting and screaming and throwing. It's a reason, it's sad and fucked up, but it's not an excuse, like you said.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 19:30:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know my abusers had trauma disorders. My primary abuser has BPD and PTSD from the military, and his mother is a narcissist and emotionally abuses both him and his sister and me.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right that they're often raised in abusive homes. If they were out of control they'd be doing it to other people e.g punching their co-workers. It is learned behaviour though
This is something I don't understand: why people think that explaining an action or a behavior is in some way excusing it.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 19:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when you develop compassion for the bad guy, you start to realize they were abused by their parents; and their parents were in turn abused as well; and you start to understand maybe where the idea of “original sin” or “sins of the father” comes from, and then you learn about epigenetic expression creating traumatic traits down the line and you’re like holy shit maybe this is a societal problem
we treat our kids with violence, we treat our employees with violence. child abuse is also a systemic social problem (in the U.S.)
My favorite part is when we try to stop people from bullying others... by bullying them into it.
And we completely lack the clarity to realize why that is ineffective.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, you can’t bully anyone into anything...humans don’t like being told what to do. It’s an unconscious bias we have. We won’t grow as a species until we can approach things out of love instead of fear. Fear is a tool (to protect yourself) that when misused is very dangerous, that can strip people of their humanity in degrees. Love is the polar opposite, gives everyone oxytocin :)
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 19:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry it came across that way. I am not excusing their behaviour. I edited my comment!
Mentally ill people are more likely to be abused than be abusive. That stigmatizing and innacurate bullshit with no source.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People have misunderstood my comment. Yes, mentally ill people can be abused, but often abusers have their own mental illnesses too. I wasn’t excusing abusers’ behaviour. I’m a survivor of extreme abuse and I wouldn’t wish that on anybody.
This tracks. My parents, although slightly better, were always abusive and violent. In my younger sister this manifests as extreme violence and aggression towards family members.
Last week I went to visit and try to pick up a few things, and stop to see some new kittens their cats had just had. My sister didnt like me looking at the kittens and attacked me. I have gouges all over my face just because she didnt want me to look at a kitten. Shes 20, and considerably larger than I am. Based on where the scratches on my face are I am extremely lucky she didnt take my eye out, because that's what she seemed to have been going for.
We already dont have a relationship because every time we interact she is violent and abusive towards me. But no, I wont be going to visit my family again after this. It's very clear they are always going to pick her, even as I was sitting in the car bleeding, my mom was still making excuses for her behavior. Unfortunately I still have some of my possessions there (I moved out abruptly last summer after she threatened me with a knife and attacked me). Eventually I'll maybe get them back, but at this point I might as well just move on with my life. I dont think I have a real family anymore.
The police can come with to help you get your things if you're afraid to go yourself in most cases. I hope you can get your things and get away as soon as possible.
Bringing the police would not go over well at all. Despite being the one being constantly abused by her, everyone in my family is pretty much of the opinion that I'm over reacting and that I just shouldn't provoke her. Which I genuinely try not to, I dont try to speak to her, I dont engage when she starts to verbally abuse me if I'm there. Most of the things I still have there can either be replaced someday, or are sentimental things that I shouldn't be so bothered to let go of anyway.
Sentimental things are important, too, and if your family is that awful, it doesn't really matter what they think unless they're dangerous. But that's just my opinion and I'm not in your situation so just know the police are an option if you ever decide you want to pursue your possessions without fear. If not, then that's good, too. I hope things get better for you.
My ex was a narcissist and came from one of the most emotionally abusive families I have ever seen. He was so emotionally abusive to me and I thought I could teach him that this didn’t have to be how he acted in a relationship. 3 years later and it turns out you can’t undo 22 years of emotional neglect. He’s an evil, nasty fucker who used his past as an excuse to cheat, lie, gaslight and trap me into the unhappiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I agree that abuse usually comes from a place of bad mental health and previous abuse and it’s so draining to be in a relationship with it, I felt like I couldn’t leave and it absolutely ruined my mental health. I could never dream of doing to anybody what he did to me
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my older brother was just a psychopath that liked to beat up my mom and me. he's an exception to the common rules for how abusers get the way they are.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wish to point out just because a human has no feelings and can't empathize they aren't always "disgusting", they may be sociopaths or psychopaths. Just because they don't have emotions doesn't mean you need to be mean.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sociopaths and psychopaths have feelings. They can also empathize cognitively. They just can’t feel sad for the person.
But they have feelings. Saying they don’t is a myth. And most of them are pretty much normal people (most psychopaths).
Then who are people that have apathy almost all the time? What are they called? I have met people like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re just apathetic, really. I mean they have feelings, they just care for very little. Elaborate more though, I’m kind of interested in what you mean.
This is for sure. Abusive upbringing will fuck someone up. However, there is also genetic reasons, too. Some people, especially men, are genetically coded to have the ability to be hyper-violent and aggressive. But when those two things happen to a person that has both, watch out.
If you look at the most violent, the serial killers, and all that, almost all of them have violent upbringing. Not all, of course, but almost all. Shit, just go read the wiki pages of serial killers, almost all have abusive childhoods.
Now, does this mean that all people with abusive childhoods will grow up to be killers? Of course not. But those that do, almost always have physically and emotionally abusive parents.
You and I don't have to be a psychologist. There have been academic study after study on this.
As far as excusing their behavior, I suppose it depends on how one defines the word. If they are raised in a violent family, and/or have genetic predisposition towards violence, the way I look at it, it sure does excuse them. That being said, you still need to imprison people like that for what they have done, and prevent it from happening again. There are some people, because of their parents and genetics, should never be allowed to live free. It's not their fault, they didn't give birth to themselves or pick their genetics, nor choose the family that they were born to. It's not their fault. But they still need to be jailed. But it's not their fault.
Honestly since my first encounter with mental illness I’ve become obsessed with how much our brain construction dictates how we are as people. It’s a little unsettling because everyone wants to feel like they are in control, but I wonder about this all the time now.
Orolol · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m in no way excusing their behaviour. I have been abused all my life. I would never excuse abusive behaviour. I just find psychology interesting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, and? I can still put out my opinion. This is the internet, is it not? I was pointing something out that I find interesting. Whether some people disagree or not, it’s a trend that I, myself, a victim of long term abuse, have found in my own abusers and others.
No one is saying you can’t put your opinion out there. But to even start your post with “I think I have the answer”? I’m also a victim of long term abuse. No one has a definitive answer and yes. You sounded like you were excusing their behavior.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re the only person on this thread that has had a problem with it. I said I “think,” I have an answer, and explained.
I wasn’t the only one since you had to do an edit. I think /s maybe next time say in my experience. Instead of I have an answer without being an expert in the field. Cheers! I’m done here.
My father only saw my mother when he looked at me. So he was blinded by hurt. She cheated on him, lied to him, took his money and ran him bankrupt. And I'm the spitting image of her. So he was trying to beat her out of me. So I understood. Doesnt make it right, but I know what it's like to be blinded by hurt
He needed to stop himself, though. He needed to realise you weren’t your mother and that you were an innocent child whom he needed to love and protect.
I get it. I have had to understand so many things that my parents have thrown my way. It’s a sign of sensitivity and maturity. But now I’m older, I recognise that understanding someone’s flaws deep down and forgiving them is the parent’s job, and that for us to have to do that was denying us a part of our childhood- to make us deal with that kind of pain, that’s childhood-ending in too many ways regardless.
I’m sorry your dad couldn’t be there for you. (Or your mom, by the sounds of it.) You did and still do deserve people in your life who will sacrifice for you and put you first.
Thank you very much. It means a lot. I hate to admit it, but it has had quite an impact on me. I cried to my boyfriend yesterday, and when I was done I was shocked. I kept asking how it was possible that he still loved me. And he just looked at me kind of dumbfounded and said "cuz I do." Its made me feel like I'm unlovable and just terrible.
It sucks knowing my dad couldnt see that I'm different. Nor does he now. It really does suck. But hey. It happens. I see a therapist so I can get over it. People like you help too. I needed that today
Oh, friend, you are completely normal and very much okay and lovable! I don’t know why we both got the idea that for some reason we should be able to take the abuse and never show a pang. Understanding why someone is hurting us doesn’t make the pain go away. It might make it less personal, but we still have to go through it.
I just want you to know that I’m pulling for you and you’re not alone. It’s okay to be weak. It’s okay to hurt, as much as you really do. It’s okay to feel shameful for not being perfect. We’re only frail humans, after all. But still some of the strongest, most loving people I know, because loving someone as they abuse you, knowing they’re wrong, isn’t easy.
Don’t accept your mother’s shame on guilt for yourself. You are not your moth. Your father was abusive to you. You need to feel angry and you need to confront him for what he did. Anger is natural reaction, if you try to run from it , then it will stay in your body making you depressed and anxious. You deserve love and happiness.
But that is the problem. Everyone gets angry. You have to get angry, that’s like necessary to be human and healthy again. I suggest you visit r/cptsd and read this book, Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse
Book by Jackson MacKenzie. It’s great book.
Recurrent depression is symptom of child abuse though. I hope your sadness goes away soon as you process all this in therapy. Hope you find happiness. Don’t confuse anxiety with fear and depression with sadness though.
Agreed. What I find the most unnerving about this is it seems there are two types of abusers - one is someone who has anger problems and lack of self-control they get into fights, hit people and they do feel guilt - sometimes they get help and are able to stop sometimes not.
The other category are the people that hit, abuse and hurt without ever feeling guilt, self-control has nothing to do with it they just enjoy hurting. They don’t ever seek out help because they don’t see anything wrong with their actions - this category freaks me the fuck out.
The answer is entitlement. It’s not that they have a problem with anger. Everyone gets angry. It’s that they feel entitled to take their anger out on others.
Why Does He Act That Way? By Lundy Bancroft is a great book on abusive spouses, it can be generalized to lots of situations.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Completely true. I've dealt with done pretty shitty people who did some pretty shitty things and that's the common trend I realized. They feel entitled to do anything they want to you and tend to put you below them or dehumanize you so that they don't feel guilty.
To piggyback on this: emotional and narcissistic abuse as well. Narcissists in general, honestly.
I just left a verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist, and even with reading everything I can consume about their behavior I can’t fathom how narcissists treat people who love them the way they do.
_ssac_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recommend you to see Dr. Ramani´s videos on the subjet. She has a youtube channel.
Oh yes — great recommendation! I found her a few weeks ago. Very informative, and I think my brain understands it but my emotions don’t, ya know?
_ssac_ · 1 points · Posted at 09:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I´m sure about what emotions you talk about. Maybe since it was your partner that you probably would give him (her) another chance? If it´s that, I can understand, yeah. I´ve seen it before in a close friend, BTW.
In my experience, when you´re in a relationship with someone like that you don´t understand anything. Learning about behavior patterns is a great help to recognize them.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 18:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 17:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people were abused as children, and view abuse as normal.
Others have different wiring in their brains, and can't control outburst because the wiring to assist with that just isn't there.
Some people were never taught that hurting others is bad. Yes, they were told, but they never internalized the lesson.
Some people just see it as the best way to accomplish a goal, and genuinely don't care that they are hurting people. They just care that they got their way.
There's usually a ton of guilt. If you really get down to it with most abusive people, they hate themselves and their actions. There are just layers and layers of defense mechanisms built on top of it so they can cope with their own behavior. One of the most common mechanisms is to double down on their actions, continuing the cycle of abuse.
I think the majority of physical abuse starts from emotional abuse.
Abusers have a great tendency to put the blame on the abused. It can start off with a sharp word or a look, and they are so utterly convinced that you're the one in the wrong and you are hurting them on purpose with anything you do or say.
It evolves into physical after the abuser has tried for so long and so hard to get you to understand the things you wear or the stuff you say or think is bad, and because in their mind you are doing it to cause them emotional pain, they feel its justified, or even NEEDED to give you physical pain to show what you're doing to them.
To the abuser, you've caused this. You made them hit you. You made them lose control. You made this happen and this is what you deserve for what you've done to them.
It's a completely fucked way of thinking, but to them it's right.
In my experience, they dont change, I have the scars to prove it.
To anyone in that situation please just fucking run.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 16:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be this person.
People joke about having anger issues. But when you actually have them, you literally lose control of yourself. You just physically lash out over whatever pushed your buttons.
Your triggers could be anything as serious as someone spitting in your face to something as stupid as someone eating the last 2 slices of pizza. And boom, you're swinging away.
The worst of it is, what triggers you one day could have you laughing the next. There's no rhyme or reason to it. And after it happens, you immediately start rationalizing how the person deserved it.
How it's their fault you lashed out. How they should have known better than to do the thing they did. How you didn't mean to hit them as hard as you did. How it's their fault for not fighting back (though that just leads to more abuse). How it's their fault for not running away.
I've never been a hitter (I tend more toward yelling), but I need to tell you how much this spoke to me. It's like I'm reading a description of me. I've been working on it for years, and my anger problem isn't causing issues anymore like it used to, but the anger still makes appearances now and again. Even while I keep it under control, I can feel it seething underneath, and the guilt doesn't care whether I keep it under control- it comes anyway.
It's easier than it used to be, and I have plenty of motivation to keep working on it, but I think there may always be at least some internal struggle.
Yours was the first description from someone who's actually experienced it that felt familiar. I can't really explain why, but I appreciate it so much. Thank you, dude.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been working on it for years, and my anger problem isn't causing issues anymore like it used to,
I'm glad to hear that!
Even while I keep it under control, I can feel it seething underneath
I've found the same in my experience. The best line of Avengers to me was Bruce Banner: That's my secret. I'm always angry.
Learning, and accepting, that the anger would always be there was the hardest part of learning to control.
It's easier than it used to be, and I have plenty of motivation to keep working on it, but I think there may always be at least some internal struggle.
It's a battle I've been fighting for 27 years. And in my experience you're correct.
I can't really explain why, but I appreciate it so much. Thank you, dude.
That's why I post about my past when something like this comes up. So others know they're not alone, and hopefully I can help those who are going through the same thing, so they don't go as deep in as I did.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yikes, that's pretty scary
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say you used to be this person -- may I ask how you overcame it? I know someone like this and I'm interested in what sort of things might be beneficial to them if they ever open up to the idea of working on themselves. I totally understand if you'd rather not share though. :)
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
may I ask how you overcame it?
Sure. First, I had to admit I had a problem. Until the person sees they have a problem, there's not much can be done.
Unfortunately for me, it took a trip to prison before I admitted I had one. When you're facing multiple charges of simple battery & child abuse, and facing losing your freedom for decades, it's a real eye opener.
As for overcoming it? Court mandated anger management classes, one on one time with a shrink, learning my triggers, paying attention to my triggers, and finding a way to burn off that building rage.
For me it was walking. When I started learning my triggers and realized I was close to snapping, I'd go for a walk. And just kept walking til I burned off the energy from the rage.
During those first weeks I was walking 3+ hours at a time. Over time it got to where I needed shorter walks to cool down. Now pacing across the room a couple of times is enough to get things back in control.
Thank you for sharing! I'm sorry all that happened, I can imagine it wasn't an easy adjustment. That being said, this internet stranger is proud of you for recognizing that something had to change and being strong enough to see it through. I'll keep this in mind if my friend ever asks for advice.
Thank you for posting this. I also used to be this person. I was filled with anger and self-loathing but took it out on everyone around me. Tons of therapy, coming out of the closet, and figuring out coping mechanisms changed my life for the better. I'm happy you've also found ways to manage your anger and recover😊
I have a hard time killing the wasps that build nests in my kids’ playset. Like... I feel sorry for them when they’re dying and their nests are melting and their larvae is drying out.
I could never actually hurt a person unless I really desperate to keep them from hurting me.
Those kinds of people tend to be very narcissistic, one symptom being that they have absolutely no empathy at all.
I've had a similar issue with my grandparents. They've rarely been physically abusive, but mainly verbal, particularly towards my mum (their Daughter in law) as well as tried to gaslight me about what was really going on. They refuse to admit any wrong doing as well as playing the victim card to anyone else on the matter.
Despite all this they just can't seem to fathom just why we no longer visit or talk to them
I was stuck in an abusive relationship and had a kid with her. She made bad choices and we left. I don't get it either. I could never hit her back even though I wanted to some times. I just could never bring myself to hurt her when I knew how broken she became. She got into drugs and went to a really bad place. Had we stayed she would have probably killed me or my daughter. I still can't hate her.
It's not just physical abuse that I don't get. It's also the mental aspect of it. Like how are you going to sit there and say/do things to someone that intentionally hurts them? I always tried to make sure she was taken care of because she was my daughter's mother but she didn't want to take care of herself or her family in the end. Drugs do stuff to people. I also don't get how people start up on drugs that they know will destroy them either.
I guess this all goes into my "I don't understand people" answer too.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes they do feel remorse after the fact and buy their children or girlfriends gifts and be super sweet until the next thing sets them off. They let emotions get the best of them and they do it again. It’s part of the abuse
Cycle of abuse - there is guilt BUT the person also feels secretly justified in what they did. Like how you feel guilty when you punish your kids even though you know it's the right thing to help them learn (I don't mean hitting here, BTW - grounding or cancelling some fun thing makes you feel like the bad guy all by itself.)
I can't understand why people have children if they so obviously don't want them and abuse or neglect them. It's not like anyone made you have kids - just don't have them and you're fine. You can live life however you want and have fun, and you're not hurting anyone.
I will one up that, just how selfish and self-centered some people can be. I see on the news and in real life as a minimum wage coffee shop employee just how rude, violent, and plain ignorant people can be. How can you do something, and have no regret afterwards, or the even think about what you did and how it negatively affects people?
As someone who was once a raging, abusive asshole... it's not something you think about. People often say it's about feeling control, and then those who don't understand think the thought process actually goes something like "This situation is out of my hands, so I'm going to hit this person/animal/whatever to fix that." It's just that you lash out at whatever has "wronged" you, and that takes the edge off the situation. And sometimes there is guilt, but that just makes it worse. You then either have to lash out at yourself, which would be counter-productive, or at whatever's around you that you can project blame on (not saying this is productive, it's just kind of how it appears in the mind of the person doing it).
For me, I was raised in a pretty abusive situation and so it was one of the only coping mechanisms that I learned early on. I've gotten a lot better, but The Asshole Within is always threatening to run rampant if I let him off the chain.
In the way of my dad I believe it's because he never loved me and thus relates every bad thing that happens in his life back to me. It's very clear that he wanted a daughter than a son because my younger sister has a hugely better relationship with him than I do.
He hates me so whenever my sister does something a bit stupid I do something worse on purpose so that my dad doesn't stop loving her and puts all his beatings and mental abuse on me instead of her. She hates me for it, my dad calls me an attention whore for it and she agrees ahaha, she always thinks the bad things I do are because I don;t love her. I already know I'm a supreme solar fucker of an excuse of a human being, so their hatred of me has kinda stopped bothering me now, I guess it still hurts sometimes but I kinda just bury it, haven't cried in 3 years and I don't intend to start doing it again now lmao
But yeah he doesn't feel guilty about it, I can completely understand why honestly, I'm not a good person and he never wanted me so I can completely understand why he lays it on me whenever he get's slightly stressed or annoyed, I do deserve it ahaha
Edit: He calls it discipline and good parenting, so I was wondering if it's similar with other teens that are shitty people and/or that have parents that don't love them?
Check r/cptsd. Life is about self discovery. Start journey to understand yourself. In the end you will find yourself and be happy. Success means happiness.
whenever my sister does something a bit stupid I do something worse on purpose so that my dad doesn't stop loving her
Reading through this thread late, but this made me pause. Don't try to be a martyr for your sister. It will only lead to resentment for everyone in the future, while dragging you down in the meantime. It's hard but you need to focus on doing good for yourself and finding a way out.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a bully growing up. Was quite violent in my younger years and still have a temper that I have to keep in check. Though never abused a woman ive started a lot of fights with men and done some shit things. A lot of it comes from self hatred and feeling like you need to hurt someone so they can feel how you feel. For me it was like “I’m not happy so you’re not gonna be either”. When I was younger I also just liked the idea of fighting and thought it was cool to fight people. I was a boxer and my father trained me from the time I could hold my hands up (he was a heavy weight champion). So I knew how to fight long before I needed too. Knowing that I was almost always guaranteed to win the fight I started made me more comfortable starting fights as well. Today tho I’m a hermit and try my best to avoid human contact.
Not nearly to the same extent, but how people can just be complete assholes to other people online. Why not assume good intentions?
Also, griefing or trolling. Why antagonize people for your own jollies?
_Kouki · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've accidentally punch my ex in the face a few times, and felt so fucking awful about it even though she knew it was an accident.
There's no way I could purposely beat someone.
Also, for the curious: one punch was when I was asleep. I stretched out my arm and smacked her in the jaw. The second time I went to throw a ball for her dog to catch, and in the process of me throwing and trying to not get attacked by the dog, I swung a little wide and knocked her in the jaw again. The third time I was lifting my arm up and she leaned over at the same time and hit her. I always felt so awful about it.
Several months ago, one of my dogs walked over and fully pissed all over the book I was reading. I saw red, started screaming, and tried to smack him but he was cowering and snapped at me, biting my finger. I grabbed him and threw him out of the house... and then burst into tears because he was soooo scared of me. He had to have been absolutely terrified to actually bite me. I immediately scooped him up and apologized for screaming but I felt horrible. I have spent every day since then worrying that he'll remember me screaming at him and trying to slap him and it will give him nightmares. He was a rescue, found with a badly broken leg that needed extensive surgery, and we always figured he had come from a neglectful and possibly abusive household given the extent of the injury and the lack of care, along with the fact that he was dumped in a cardboard box and nothing else. I am meant to be his protector. Instead, I frightened him. The guilt I feel over screaming and trying to strike him literally keeps me up at night (although he honestly seemed to forget as soon as I picked him up and brought him inside). My finger has healed but I almost wish it had scarred.
I can't imagine how I would have felt if I'd actually landed the blow. I will never raise my hand against him again, and I can't imagine how someone else could do the same to their pets or kids or loved ones. My parents used to say spanking me "hurts us more than it hurts you" and if they felt a fraction of what I felt yelling at my dog, I believe it.
The abuser may feel a lack of control over his/her own life, therefore does anything in their power to claim control, even if it means manipulating/abusing others. This was the case with one of my previous bosses, but I'm sure there are other reasons people abuse others.
Anger can cloud your mind like crazy, you don’t know what you’re doing until after. Some people do feel regret but there are some people that have been angry for so long that they don’t care or know how much they’re hurting the other person
I can understand how a moment of catharsis can overwhelm empathy. But I really can't get long sustained antipathy. Even with people I think are evil dipshits, part of me assumes there's something wrong with them to make them that way, and wishes they could get better.
Substances, tunnel vision, lack of self awareness, being preoccupied with your own mental state / distress to notice or empathize the harm they’re causing others, inability to express and process emotions in a healthy mature manner.
My dad would beat the shit out of me when I was and I knew he felt bad about it later. He would rationalize the beating and if he didn’t he would try to like brush it off using other signs of love like buying me a guitar. It kept happening because he would get enraged due to stress and physically and verbally abuse the whole family.
My first ex also became verbally abusive when work stress piled on and he would rage, scream “fuck you” or “shut the fuck up” in my face, destroy things, turn the car around, etc. despite me never raising my voice and then he’d profusely apologize and start crying. Also he never identified as being abusive because it wasn’t physical abuse.
Some people have no empathy. It's like playing a video game, you probably have no problem killing other people in multiplayer games, some people are like that in real life
shexna · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! I can’t believe how many people I know who say their partners seem to enjoy antagonising them to the point of tears or anger and try to pass it off as just kidding.
How is seeing somebody you apparently love upset in the slightest way enjoyable? I simply cannot get my head around it.
I think it's the slow escalation of abuse that kind of desensitizes both the abuser and the victim to it over time as it gets worse. Most abusive relationships start normal and get more and more toxic over time. So what starts somewhat normal like raising your voice slightly in an argument turns into yelling or playful teasing turns into full on degrading someone over the course of the relationship.
I think some abusers also aren't aware of what they're doing, people who have rough backgrounds sometimes think that what they're doing is normal.
We also live in a society that tends to promote a lot of early signs of abuse in a relationship like it's perfectly normal. Stuff like demanding to look through a partner's phone/emails (denial of privacy) or being clingy and overprotective of a partner (socially isolating a victim) are textbook actions of an abuser that a lot of people tend to normalize and accept as commonplace.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
memx2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The worst thing is, sometimes they do feel a huge amount of guilt after. Then you’re in a situation where you want to help them, but they don’t wanna help themselves, and you can’t stay because it’s not safe. You don’t want to leave because they feel guilt or again, it’s not safe. It’s a mindfuck. It’s hard to get out of an abusive situation once you’re in it. Even if you’re super strong and independent. It’s a trap.
My life was forever changed by my first and only real relationship. Things ended poorly without much communication and my brain doesn’t let things go. I never understood how someone who once supposedly cared about me could deliberately do their best to crush me emotionally. She blocked me on all outlets and never helped me to put things to rest. Flash forward 11 years and I’m still struggling to move on. I’m too embarrassed to date again because I have nightmares and talk/yell in my sleep almost every night...most of the time about her. I’ve been on meds for a while but all they do is make me kinda numb during the day. I can’t remember the last time I was excited about anything.
So yea, I don’t get it either.
Oh and you know what I find most ironic about it all? After changing majors a few times she eventually went into mental health. Like, really? I was flabbergasted when I heard that.
I had an abusive girlfriend when I was 15, batshit crazy, took pills and was commited, the whole package. One day she was physically abusing me and that day I snapped and hit her in the hand. She was grabbing my wrist and had her other hand in the table, and I made a fist and hit her with a hammer-like motion. I smashed her hand like a bug.
18 years later I steel feel guilty for hitting her.
Unfortunately there are people who are born without the capacity to feel empathy. Some develop it through an abusive upbringing. I can't get my ahead around not having that either
First off, happy cake day, second, there are so many people out there that for whatever reason (traumatic childhood or experience) have a broken or nonexistent moral compass, which causes lack of empathy or emotion in doing something considered morally wrong
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you were raised that way, a lot of people have grown up with violence or self confidence mixed with desicion on no ethics.
Sometimes it happens as reactive behavior. When I was growing up, I used to beat my little brother up all the time. Most folks will dismiss that as what brother's do, but I did not learn for many years that it was the way I was dealing with the rage of being abused by my stepfather. I abused my brother. Now, we have made amends as adults, but abuse usually has a root cause and none of them are pretty.
they don't believe they're wrong. my verbally abusive dad hit me once - not hard - and I told him if he ever did that again he would never see me again.
he cried, and my step mom went to talk to him and when she came out she told me I should apologize for hurting his feelings. so then it was my fault in both their eyes. somehow.
Once, in a fit of heat, I smacked my dog on the head because it had a hold of my boot and wouldn’t let go. Then I cried and apologized for at least 10 minutes like a filthy abuser. I still feel guilty about it.
[deleted] · 1153 points · Posted at 14:07:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...but why? I mean, what's the point of making karma worth less? Isn't it just a counter for how popular something is? And even if karma becomes worth less if you get more, a post with 10.001 karma is still considered more popular than a post with 10.000 karma, no?
It's to prevent the snowball effect that happens with viral posts and comments. Post gets a greater than normal upvote count -> post gets more exposure -> post gets even more upvotes -> and so on and so forth
That is indeed the main point, and also it is to prevent people from getting downvote bombed by someone (basically where someone goes onto your profile and downvotes all the posts and comments you have made in the last 6 months)
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 04:00:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That kind of behavior should be a shadowban for those mofos. Don't even tell them that all of their upvotes/downvotes now have zero value
There's no caps to the quantity of upvotes/downvotes a post can receive...but there are both upper and lower limits to how much your profile karma changes based on a single post/comment.
Then after a few dimays you cant get them anymore from that post/comment
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. They constantly "fuzz" the karma so that it's harder for bots to manipulate. Sometimes it'll stay at 1, then randomly jump to 2, etc. Back in the days when most popular Reddit posts got like 8k karma, you could go on the OP's account, and see that they didn't receive that 8k karma, it was always lower.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Screw you for your misunderstanding, I'm going to downvotes you!
Seriously, now I don't even know if people are downvoting you or not anymore. Another thing I genuinely do not understand
Thanks OP
[deleted] · 1057 points · Posted at 16:43:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Note: That only counts for ionized radiation. Radio waves is technically radiation too, as is Wifi and 4G, but aren't ionized and thus causes no harm. Same with the new 5G networks.
PS: This is probably a simplification of the full truth, but it's the gist of it :)
[deleted] · 37 points · Posted at 23:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this the same new fangled 5G the Facebook moms say cause the coronavirus?
What do you mean technically? It's very much radiation by every definition. Also radiation may be ''ionising'' meaning energetic enough to cause the separation of outermost electrons from their atoms, or ''non-ionising'', not ''ionised''. 👍
I recognize that when the regular population (Reddit/Facebook) mentions "radiation" it usually refers to "ionized radiation coming from radioactive material" (depending on context, of course) instead of radiation in the (broader) scientific context. :)
If you use "radiation" as scientific jargon is fine, but you have to take the current context into consideration - are you talking to regular folk or specialists? Is the thread talking about Chernobyl or 5G? Etc.
This is why I hate people who use the "Racism = Prejudice + Power" definition of racism, because that's a definition that is commonly only used in Sociology, so if you claim "black people can't be racist" you're just trolling, instead of informing people, no matter one's intention.
In short: Please be careful when using jargon within an informal setting - you may unintentionally mislead people :)
It's more like a tiny guy with a bunch of guns shooting in every direction. The closer you get, the more likely the bullets are going to hit you instead of something else. The bullets are really small but still dangerous because they can shoot your DNA, and DNA is important.
When the little guy shoots a bunch of holes in your DNA, now your cells can’t replicate and heal yourself because the blueprints are full of holes... so you’re fucked, but still alive
Fra23 · 23 points · Posted at 23:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fortunally, while you get hit by stray bullets all the time, they rarely do damage and when they do, it's usually something where your body engineers say "Eh, propably wasn't important. Seems like legacy code from the bananas"
That's only ionised radiation though, the bad high energy kind. Then there's regular old friendly radiation, such as light, the whole electro magnetic spectrum, all the way from ultra violet, to your kitchen light, to radio waves to microwaves, it's all the same stuff at different wave lengths. No stabbing.
Everything depends on the dosage and duration, the point is, it's all made of the same stuff, including the more harmful wave lengths. Ionising radiation on the other hand, is a different beast.
Orthas · 8 points · Posted at 22:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll try to keep it as simple as I can, but understand that I might be leaving out some intricacies.
Most radiation that you're probably familiar with is electromagnetic radiation. This is basically just "light" but as you change the wavelength your eyes can't detect it and we call it different things (radio waves, x-rays, microwave, infrared, ultraviolet, etc.), but they're all fundamentally the same general phenomenon as light.
Radiation, as it refers to with respect to things like nuclear power or radioactive materials, can be thought of as "particle radiation". Unstable atoms will regularly spit off chunks of themselves; how often they will do so can be described as a material's half-life and we can also describe the exact type of radiation they give off by what gets shot out. So, this type of radiation shoots out things with an actual mass, where as electromagnetic radiation does not. (Sometimes atoms will also spit off really high energy electromagnetic radiation called gamma rays and have no change in mass.)
What makes particle radiation and high energy electromagnetic radiation so dangerous is that they can physically react with the atoms and molecules in your body and ionize them. This can lead to mutation (not the cool comic book kind, but the kind that leads to cancer) and other complications to your health.
jrizos · 10 points · Posted at 00:15:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. Thanks. What I don't understand is where particle radiation "energy" comes from. When they say there is nuclear decay and a half life of something, I'm like, when did the clock start on this piece of Uranium you found in the ground? Big bang?
nosam56 · 14 points · Posted at 00:25:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the same guy, and also not an expert, but as far as I understand the clock "starts" when the atom is created in a sun or in a supernova or something, or from another atom that decayed
This is essentially true. I’ll give a concrete example: the decay of Cs-137. This nuclide is produced as a result of U-235 fission. It has about a ~30 year half-life. Intro nuclear students learn that the decay emits a very specific energy (662 keV photon). What they do not often teach is that the photon is actually emitted Ba-137m. Ba-137m has a half-life of ~2.5 mins. If the clock didn’t start when the nuclide is created, and started at say when the parent was created (in this example the parent is Cs-137 and daughter is Ba-137m) we would never measure the 662 keV photon at a time greater than 25 mins (10 half-lives of Ba-137m).
I think he’s saying that Cs-137 decays into Ba-137m, but you skip that step when talking about it because Ba-137m quickly decays into something else. The specific radiation is attributed to Cs-137 even though it actually comes from the interim step of Ba-137m.
Because we still see the radiation from Ba-137m after long times, the ‘clock’ that determines the decay must only start once Ba-137m is formed and not when the ‘parent’ Cs-137 is formed, or else the Ba-137m would be gone even faster.
Radiation "energy" comes from the mass of the thing radiating. Everyone and their mother is familiar with E = mc2 (I hope) but what this means is that anything with mass (which is almost everything) has energy. And c is the speed of light, so c2 is a big number, which means it has a lot of energy.
You can think of it a bit like burning coal. The energy comes from the coal itself, and when your finished you are left with less than when you start, except in stead of breaking chemical bonds (in coal) you are breaking nuclear bonds.
As for "when did the clock start" it sounds to me like you might have a slight misconception the meaning of "Half Life". It does not mean (as the name might imply) half the time of the life of the material, but rather the amount of time it takes for the material to reduce by half. (Simple maths can convince us these are not the same, if I have 16 grapes and eat half the remaining grapes every 10 minutes (meaning our grapes have a half life of 10mins), I will take 50 minutes to eat all the grapes, so it would take 25 minutes for the grapes to be half way gone).
Hope this is somewhat helpful :)
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
super helpful, thanks. I guess half life is a constant, not something at some indeterminate state of fractioning. In other words, there is no "young" and "old" U235, it's just constantly weeping energy from nuclear decay? Whether it was forged a billion years ago or just yesterday in my nuclear reactor?
Yes. Individual atoms decay randomly, you could have a brand new U235 atom formed just seconds ago decay immediately, and another atom that lasts for millions of years before decaying. the half life is just an experimentally determined measure of the average time until half the atoms in a sample have decayed.
I’ve been waiting a couple years for someone to say something like this—specifically, I’ve been curious as to what catalyzes this? I’ve found this hard to get an in-depth answer. Forgive any ignorances I may have on the matter.
You say they’re random, but I can’t shake the feeling that if I had the ability to manipulate and track individual atoms of U235, I’d could “poke it” and make it decay. In this example, by what means would I “poke” the atom to make it decay short of bombarding it neutrons and heating it up? (Namely because atoms presumably do this in rocks underground without the assistance of heat/energized particles.) CERTAINLY, there is something specific that makes an atom decay, it’s just that it happens to some atoms sooner than others. I have a hard time buying that it’s “perfectly random.” (I have the same qualms about quantum mechanic in the sense that what these particle physicists say about the randomness of the quantum world leads me to believe they’re simply missing a piece of the puzzle. I don’t see the universe lending itself to “perfectly consistent randomness,” but that’s a whole other issue.)
When the U235 is sitting in a rock underground, SOMETHING has to trigger the decay. Could it be something we can’t easily detect? Maybe a neutrino made a lucky landing and knocked something loose? Or, a seemingly negligible change in thermal energy? Again, forgive my ignorance—I’m far from knowing what I’m talking about. For all I know, this mechanism of action is well/fully understood, but I simply can’t find a succinct answer this specific question. I humbly ask your best explanation or a good place to start looking!
The best place to start looking is in a particle physics lab (preferably with at least a masters in particle physics). You can’t find a succinct answer because there isn’t one, at all. There might be something that triggers radioactive decay and would allow us to predict it, but if there is we haven’t discovered it (and may not ever, there are certain limitations to our inherent ability to detect things that makes study of very small stuff difficult).
EDIT to address some specific points:
if I had the ability to manipulate and track individual atoms of U235...
Then I hope you patented that tech, because you’re going to be the richest particle physicist on the planet! Joking aside, we just don’t have the capability to do this right now. The most powerful microscope in the world, the transmission electron microscope at Lawrence Berkeley National Lab can barely produce images of individual atoms, but the nucleus (the part you need to study to learn about radioactive decay) is completely indistinguishable. Manipulating them is a whole other beast. There is no precise method to manipulate a single specific atom of anything.
they’re simply missing a piece of the puzzle
You’re most likely right here, but there’s nothing simple about it. There’s entire fields of scientific study devoted to developing better methods to studying this stuff, and so far none of them have been able to find a way to find this missing piece. As I mentioned above, it’s entirely possible we will never find it thanks to the inherent limits of our perception.
imagine radioactive substances, such as uranium, as a bunch of dice 🎲 (one die = one atom) that are rolled every second. If the die lands on 1, the atom decays, giving off radiation (the energy comes from mass turning into energy, or part of the atom breaking off). Otherwise the atom rolls it's die again the next second.
The number of dice remaining after t seconds if the half life is h and you start with d dice is
Dice remaining = d(1/2)t/h
The clock, t, starts at 0 the moment that you find out what d is.
Maybe like 177013 years ago, some god made 10000000000 atoms, and his clock started then. When you find these atoms, you count 10000 and your clock starts then. If you plug in God's d (1000000...) and t (177913 years, convert this value to seconds) to the above equation, you get the same as if you plug in your d (10000) and t (0). This is a cool thing about exponential functions.
I guess to really understand you need to take AP chemistry and calculus or algebra 2. I took algebra 2 and chemistry h, but am taking precalculus and ap physics cm.
jrizos · 3 points · Posted at 02:12:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that's really awesome. I didn't take those courses, but you do well to explain the exponential function.
The half life is not like a normal lifetime. It just says that of a certain amount of radioactive material, after one cycle of half life there should be only half the atoms left. But that is just probability, any instable atom could decay at any time. So there isn't really a clock.
Half life isn't a clock, it's a chance. Each planc second, there's a particular chance that a given atom will decay and a particular chance that it won't. The chance is such that an atom with a half life of 1 year has a 50% chance of decaying in a year. So, if you have a lot of this element, after a year half of it will be gone. After 2 years 3/4 will be gone. After 3 years 7/8 will be gone. It's just a particular chance to decay each second.
This fucking banana (bananas are radioactive) is really fucking mad so he’s throwing banana particles at me ouch. Eventually he gets less mad but is still throwing stuff just not as strong
I’m no expert, just trying to remember 9th grade science.
Think of you exercising. You're spending a lot of energy, and as a result you're heating up, right? But you stop exercising, and you want to cool off, so you sweat.
Certain atoms also want to "cool off", and their version of sweat is chucking subatomic particles away from them.
jrizos · 3 points · Posted at 00:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but where did they get the energy to begin with? From being some other type of atom?
Important to understand: energy is neither created nor destroyed.
If you can grasp that, then physics becomes much easier to understand. So when that supernova collapses, the energy it contained gets transferred into those little particles because it can’t just disappear. Thus, that’s where your particles get their energy. (Simplified explanation)
Atoms are made of mass, and mass can be turned into energy. When atoms lose weight, the weight turns into energy and it has to go somewhere, so it becomes radiation
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the heat/explosive force come from, seeing that's what a nuclear bomb is, just a chain reaction of radioactive decay.
The energy released when each atom of uranium-235 is split. Energy is how excited particles are. When a shit load is released at once it spreads like a massive wave through everything, forcing particles to be more excited / heat up, and can straight up disintegrate particles close to the reaction.
Essentially, radioactive materials have a lot of energy holding it's pieces together. There's a lot of forces holding it together, as well as pulling it apart. There's a lot of movement that normally happens at a really small level, and occasionally, there's a small chance that something gets out of place and is thrown out really hard. These ejected particles can damage cells if they hit them.
They either punch a hole through the DNA directly, or they hit the water inside the cell, ionize it, and then the ionized water molecules mess with the DNA. Usually it just kills cells, but sometimes it hits the part of cell DNA that says "kill yourself after x amount of time" and makes it say "don't kill yourself, just keep dividing". That's how radiation is a big cancer risk.
Uhhhh I kinda know physics and nothing really about biology, but I've heard it damages the DNA within cells, so they can't reproduce, or they become cancerous cells
Theres this phenomenon called "quanta" that basically means that energy can only exist at certain levels, and because of this atoms lose "levels" of it, depending on how many of them are expelled from the atom
I did not either until I watched HBO’s Chernobyl; understood fuck all and decided to read a book ABOUT the Chernobyl disaster - stumbled on an excellent book that actually explained radiation too and now I finally know how that shit operates and what humans thought up of doing with that knowledge that is not connected to obliterating stuff
The book is Midnight in Chernobyl by Adam Higginbotham
Imagine a dog shaking water from its fur, and there's a cake next to the doggo
If you stand close, the cake will get really wet and turn to mush. If you stand far away, the cake will get kinda wet and maybe will turn to mush a little, but nothing that can't be fixed.
If you put a sheet of paper between the doggo and the cake, the big droplets will get on the cake but the small droplets will get the paper wet. Anyways, you need to swap the sheet of paper out for a dry one if you're going to repeat the process.
If you have a lead lined concrete wall between the cake and doggo, the cake is gonna stay dry.
Now, imagine the doggo is an atom, and the water droplets it's shaking off are also atoms. The cake is your cells. If the cake gets too wet, it turns to mush. If your cell gets too irradiated, it also turns to mush.
Cancer caused by radiation is the cake getting wet but looking like it's not mushy, so you don't throw it away. But when you eat the cake it turns out it's been multiplying like one of those spiders that explode into a million babies. The metaphor may have broken up a little at the end, but you get the idea.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you blew up your ball pit and little pieces all come flying out. Some kill you because they are moving really fast. Some kill you because they are made of really energetic light. Some kill you because they are really sticky because of the pee and they get inside you and stick to your DNA and wreck it.
I’m probably sort of wrong but I’m pretty sure it’s particles moving so fast that they can travel between other particles and fuck them up. Cause they’re just like bouncing around at an insane speed
radiation is the emission or transmission of energy in the form of waves or particles through space or through a material medium
So, anything that waves(like sound) or anything small that travels through space (like electrons) is radiation.
I've actually seen a lot of terminology in common when studying ultrasounds and radiation physics. For example, the term radiation dose exists in both fields.
Certain radiation types, like high energy photons (photons are "particles of light") can rip off electrons from your atoms/molecules and proteins. These electrons go on to collide with even more atoms/molecules, ripping off more electrons on the way.
Having a bunch of electrons bouncing around in your tissue is not good. They will damage your DNA, potentially causing cancer.
To top it all off, the molecules that lose their electron rarely are happy about it, so they also reek havok on your cells.
Examples of radiation:
visible light (not dangerous in most situations)
UV radiation(light, but with more energy per particle, so it can damage cells)
ultrasound waves
normal sound waves
protons
helium atoms
gamma rays (also light, but very very energetic)
Simplest way to create radiation: turn on a lamp.
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[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms have protons in their nucleus, protons all have positive charges so they repel each other.
This isn't a problem for smaller atoms because there's not many protons, plus, neutrons are nice to stabilize things. However, when the atom is really thicc, like Uranium, there's gonna be a crap ton of repulsion going on in its nucleus because theres a LOT of protons.
This makes heavy atoms (heavier than lead iirc) unstable, this makes it shoot away some stuff so it can become more stable, this often involves a proton being shot away meaning that the radioactive atom just turned into another lighter atom, this is known as radioactive decay.
Particles being yeeted off the nucleus of radioactive material can bump into the structure of the DNA inside your cells and fuck them up a bit, giving you a decent chance of developing cancer.
Alternatively, since neutrons are nice to stabilize nucleus, some lighter elements can also be radioactive if they don't have their "standard" number of neutrons. These alternative versions of atoms are known as isotopes. For example, Carbon usually has an atomic mass of 12, made up of 6 protons and 6 neutrons, but there's isotopes like carbon 14, that has 2 extra neutrons, and it's radioactive because of it.
On a side note, half-life is the time necessary for half of a large amount of radioactive atoms to decay, this is how we can know stuff like how old a fossil is, since carbon is present on every living thing, by measuring how many carbon 14 are present on the fossil compared to how many it probably had when it was alive it becomes possible to calculate the age of stuff.
So. Short version, the nucleus found out some of the particles are gay, and threw them out of the atom.
Long version
All atoms are made of protons, electrons, and neutrons. These make up different atoms when combined in certain ways. Some atoms have defects, where they are missing a particle or two. Not enough that it is a different particle, but enough that the atom is unstable. It is this unstability that causes particles to leave the atom
-Tom- · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miniature bullets being launched from an atom that is falling apart. Instead of killing you as a whole, they kill individual cells.
Like a sunburn. Light is a type of radiation (electro magnetic, not uranium goes brrr type) and if it is intense enough the energy a photon contains kills a cell when it hits it.
Basically there's light energy which comes from the electromagnetic fields all substances have in this wave form and it's 'strength' varies by wavelength (the shorter the wave length, the higher the frequency of the waves, the more energy it's carrying), with the stronger frequencies being strong enough to knock off some electrons turning stuff with charges the way they should be into stuff with charges that are not how they should be because electrons have been whacked away by this wavy stuff that has a lot of oomph
It really depends what kind of radiation you are talking about. Light is radiation. Radio waves are radiation.
If you are talking about the cancer causing kind it is what's called ionizing radiation. Here's an Eli5 of my understanding. Ionizing radiation can strip electrons off of atoms. That removal of electrons can damage your cells and cause your genetic material (DNA) to mutate. That mutation is what we know as cancer.
Radiation is stuff that comes off of other stuff. Alpha radiation is a particle of protons and neutrons, like a mini nucleus without any electrons surrounding it. Beta radiation are rogue electrons or positrons (positive equivalent to electrons).
Electromagnetic radiation is made up of weird particles the also act as a wave. The more energy it has, the smaller the wavelength. It goes through radio waves, inferred, visible colour. Once if gets to high-end ultraviolet and beyond (x-rays and gamma rays) the radiation is ionizing, meaning it has enough energy to detach electrons from atoms or molecules it hits. If some ionizing radiation interacts with a molecule in your body it can change its chemistry. If it changes the chemistry of a molecule in DNA, it can change the DNA, causing a mutation, which may cause cancer.
So all electromagnetic radiation is made of the same stuff as light- it’s energy. Specifically, “packets” of energy called photons. These photons are particles but together they behave like waves. (Like the circles on a pond when you drop a stone in)
There are 7 types of radiation:
Radio (This is used to transmit radio stations, for Bluetooth, walkie talkies)
Microwave (it’s the one that cooks the food in microwaves funnily, modern smart phones used this)
Infrared (we feel this as heat)
Visible light (this is the small amount our eyes are evolved to see)
Ultraviolet (UV light like a black light, also used in tanning beds, and is what tans our skin in sunlight)
X-ray (you won’t believe this, it’s used in taking xrays)
Finally: Gamma (this one is extremely high energy and comes from radioactive sources, the surface of the sun and will have been created in the a bomb and at Chernobyl)
They are divided into these categories according to how much energy the photon “packets” are carrying.
If you have any specific questions please lemme know!!
Try rubbing your hands together really fast for a while. Eventually you'll have some heat buildup, and you may even have some skin starts to flake off. Now imagine that instead of hands for watching two of your cells and radiation is making that motion happen thousands of times faster. To every single set of cells that it's affecting.
dnybs · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the first thing to know is that radiation isn’t always as cool or dangerous as it’s portrayed in the media. Basically, radiation is a way for atoms with too much energy to release that energy and “cool down” so to speak. Things will also radiate randomly every once in a while for reasons that aren’t important.
Almost all things emit radiation in some way. Sometimes that’s through materials decaying, which is where the term “half life” comes into play. A material’s half life is how long it takes for it to decay through radiation so much that only half of it is the original substance. Light is also a form of radiation in which atoms release energy by creating photons. Sunlight is radiation, light bulbs make radiation, you make infrared radiation through heat, and your computer and phone make radio radiation.
When you hear about radiation in terms of radioactivity, you tend to hear about alpha, beta, gamma, and neutron radiation. That list is in order from least to most dangerous.
Alpha radiation is effectively helium atoms without electrons attached. A sheet of paper stops alpha radiation, and if you were to eat something that emits alpha particles, you’d probably be fine (but please don’t actively try to eat radioactive things).
Beta radiation is where things start to get dangerous. It is usually electrons being shot at high speeds. These electrons can hit the particles that make up your body, especially your DNA, and can create problems. This is still usually not a problem since a sheet of aluminum can stop beta particles.
Gamma radiation is dangerous. It is the type of natural radiation with the most energy, and is also the highest energy form of light. Gamma radiation tends to break DNA so much that your body can’t fix it properly, which causes cancer. Gamma radiation can be stopped by lead, which is why lead appears as a radiation stopper frequently. Side note, this is the same reason x-rays are dangerous, just to a lesser extent.
Finally, neutron radiation is usually only created through nuclear fission, aka nuclear explosions and nuclear reactors. Luckily, this type of radiation is short lived. Unluckily, it tends to cause chain reactions, which result in things emitting the other three types of radiation at much higher than normal levels. This is why the Chernobyl incident was so dangerous, and is the basic idea behind atomic bombs. Dense concrete stops neutron radiation.
In the end, though, when people say bananas are radioactive, they’re not saying they’re dangerous. Everything is radioactive to some extent, and that can be really helpful. Particularly radioactive types of carbon are used to determine the age of fossils, cesium is used in atomic clocks, and tritium and radium are used to make light up watches.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything really. You give off radiation like the sun like a banana like your phone like my toilet paper. There are different types from safe to unsafe. It’s energy basically.
Radiation is just high energy light or particles, that's all it is. Visible light has a wavelength of around 600 nanometers, but high energy light has a wavelength much smaller that is small enough to penetrate the cells in your body and fuck them up, they can penetrate DNA and cause copy errors for example.
High energy particles are also called "radiation" as they penetrate your body and fuck you up too often from the same sources that are also emitting very high energy light.
biseln · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something is somewhere, then it radiates away. That something is now radiation. Doesn’t matter if it is atoms or light or your dogs running away after you put their leash down for half a second. It’s all radiation.
Nuclear radiation is something more specific that I could explain if I looked it up, but I’m on mobile and hate researching on my phone.
Well, there's "radiation" in the general sense and "nuclear/ionizing radiation" in the Geiger counter/Chernobyl sense. Often, people conflate the two which leads to idiots burning down cellphone towers because they only hear about "radiation".
At its basic form, electromagnetic radiation is like when you poke a stick in the water and wiggle it around. The wiggling makes waves that propagate through the water. Electromagnetic radiation is just like those waves, but they don't need water, instead they wiggle around the so-called electromagnetic field.
Now, when you make waves in the water, you can do it very carefully and make small waves or you can do it with a lot of force, making big waves. That's the amplitude of the wave. But you can also do it quickly or slowly, vary the distance between the wave's peaks. That's the frequency.
We classify electromagnetic radiation by its frequency. Now, electromagnetic radiation is kinda weird, because it's both a wave and a particle (which we call "photons"), but unlike most particles it's massless. They are, if you will, packets of energy. The amount of energy per package is defined by the frequency of the wave.
Radio waves for example are (relatively speaking) low-frequency waves (FM radio is typically in the 88 - 110 MHz range, that is 88 to 110 million oscillations (back-and-forths of the stick) per second).
If we increase the frequency, we get to stuff like cellular phone frequencies (800 - 2000 MHz) and microwaves and Wi-Fi (2400 MHz (or 2.4 GHz) and 5 GHz). Interestingly enough, both household microwave ovens and Wi-Fi operate at the same frequency: 2.4 GHz. The reason why your Wi-Fi router isn't cooking you right now is amplitude/power. Microwave ovens blast food with hundreds of Watts, while Wi-Fi operates on less than a Watt.
Increase frequency further and we'll arrive at infrared radiation, then the visible spectrum. When talking about radiation in the infrared and visible spectrum, we usually call it "light" and instead of the frequency, we define it by the distance between its peaks (which is just the speed of light divided by the frequency - this means as wavelength decreases, energy and frequency increase). In this range, it is typically in the micrometers to several-hundred-nanometers range.
Below 400 nm begins ultraviolet radiation, which starts to get dangerous because it (and all higher-energy radiation) has the ability to ionize things: Atoms and molecules are electrically neutral, but due to their energy these packets of energy - photons - can tear the negatively charged electrons from the positively charged atomic cores (the so-called nuclei). This can start unwanted chemical reactions within our cells, which is especially bad when it happens in our DNA.
Above ultraviolet, you've got X-rays and gamma rays. The distinction between the two isn't really clear-cut, but what we typically call "X-rays" like from an X-ray picture come from accelerating electrons and letting them impact a metal anode. Because electrons accelerated between two metal plates by a certain voltage always have the same final energy and this energy is then converted into the photon, we measure photon energies in this regime in "electron-volts" - 1 eV is the amount of energy an electron gains by being accelerated by a voltage of 1 V. Gamma rays are usually generated when a radioactive nucleus decays and still has some residual energy left. It gets rid of this energy by sending out a gamma photon. Just like ultraviolet radiation, X-rays and gamma rays are "ionizing radiation", which is why we can get cancer from exposure to all of them.
Now, all of this ionizing radiation that gives us cancer is - energy-wise - above the visible spectrum. All of the "radiation" we use to communicate - Wi-Fi, cellular and 5G - is below the visible spectrum. That's why we know that it's safe to use: If it'd give us cancer, we would've gotten cancer from just regular old visible light a long, long time ago. The only effect it can have is heating up our bodies, like in a microwave oven, but the transmission power of Wi-Fi and cellular towers transmitters is highly regulated and very low. It also doesn't penetrate our bodies well, which is why your microwave food can be scorching hot on the outside but still cold on the inside.
tl;dr: "Radiation" are wiggles of the electromagnetic field making small packets of energy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Charged particles slapping each other around basically
You know how you use a microwave to heat up food? All that invisible energy hits the food and heats it up. Now imagine a microwave that is always on at a low level, constantly emitting that shit outwards instead of inwards. Anything nearby gets hit and damaged. Now imagine that energy (or particles) goes through some shit but not others. Or collects in certain things like dust or the air...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
for what i get, i can be in the air or the water and it makes your cells go wack
Imagine the last time you were a third wheel. It’s not sustainable, and eventually you’ll decide to move on to another group. Some people get the hint that they’re the third wheel sooner than others.
Same basic thing happens with atoms that have too many protons and neutrons. Eventually one proton or neutron decides to fuck off when it realizes it’s the third wheel.
Only problem is that that neutron or proton will go to another atom and try to chill there. Only problem is they’ve made another third wheel. And depending on how obnoxious they are one or more protons will gtfo— this is a big problem if these were part of your DNA and coding something like tumor suppression, because now that gene is messed up.
Basically radiation is when tiny particles are released from atoms when they have a lot of energy in order to lose that energy. Larger atoms, such as uranium and plutonium, release more violent particles. These high energy particles can enter your cells and excite the atoms in your DNA, damaging it and causing mutations.
Radiation is the process of sending off energy in the form of light, heat, x-rays or nuclear particles. An example of radiation are the energy waves off of a nuclear bomb.
In the case of metals like uranium/plutonium, they basically leek neutrons over thousands of years until the original uranium becomes only lead. In the case of nuclear plants, they speed up this process (fission) to create heat.
Neutrons floating around unchecked will wreak havoc on your cells, especially your corneas.
I'm not an expert, but this is my level of understanding.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you know how it hurts when you look directly at the sun? Light is energy and it hurts you sometimes. Well visible light can only hurt your eyes, and other parts of the light spectrum (UV, x-rays, gamma rays) can hurt all of your body.
Ok, so basically your cells use things to make other things right? But they have to be in a very specific order to work or shit gets fucked up. So radiation comes along and fucks that order up. Usually the cell just dies off but if it doesn’t and spreads then you get shit like tumors and cancer.
So in simple terms, you know how fizzy pills like berocca and stuff break down in water?
It's kind of like that.
The 'half life' of a radioactive material tells you how much it fizzes.
Bits of the material break off and 'radiate' outwards. Like a lightbulb filament, only generally invisible to the naked eye.
When those bits hit your tissue and stuff (cells that is), it causes damage to them, because that's just what fast moving ionizing particles do.
Think of it like leaving a piece of paper out in the rain, with the radiation being the droplets.
After that damage caused by the radiation, your cells try to split, as they normally do. But the damage causes malfunctions in them, which presents as the uncontrolled behavior we generally refer to as Cancer.
Atoms are breaking apart, and shooting subatomic particles and energy in every direction. They are tiny enough to shoot through part of your body, and strong enough to damage (create mutations) in your DNA and harm the cells in your body.I
Mid level radiation can give you cancer. Higher levels can be worse than fire.
Also, radiation is not always a particle. Electromagnetic radiation can be described as just a literal wave travelling through space. Imagine a wave on the ocean - the water goes up and down, but doesn’t move to the side. The same thing, except what moves up and down is a vector of electromagnetic force (the thing that pulls electrons towards the plus pole of batteries).
Radiation is literally light. Look to the sun, a lightbulb, or even the screen you’re reading this on. That’s radiation, except when people say radiation they usually are referring to a different colour of light (literally it’s a different colour) but the colour is so off we can’t actually see it with our eyes. Certain instruments we build can see it, and “translate” it into a colour we can see in order for us to tell it’s actually there. In addition, light is only ever a different colour because of how high or low energy it is. More energetic light is purple and blue, while less energetic light is orange or red. If you get less energetic than red (infrared light, also infra means “below” in Latin, so Infrared is just “below red” light) we can’t see it anymore, but we know it’s there and we build things to see it (an iPhone bombards your face in this infrared for Face ID to work, it essentially looks at how it lights up your face each time, in addition to a number of other sensors). If it’s more energetic than purple, we yet again can’t see it, and this is called ultraviolet (another fun fact, “ultra” means “above” in Latin, so yet again ultraviolet literally means above violet). You might’ve heard of ultraviolet light or more commonly referred to as UV radiation in reference to the sun. This light is so energetic it can tan you and even give you a sunburn! Preposterous! If you get even more energetic than ultraviolet, you eventually get to much stronger and more harmful forms of radiation.
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Ally862 · 18732 points · Posted at 13:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How language developed. Obviously it did but I just can't fathom how. I just picture cavemen men walking and pointing to things and grunting.
**Sorry for the edit but my typo was driving me crazy
That's basically it, they made sounds to refer to stuff and people caught on and used the same sounds and understood through context and repetition what each other meant, and it built and spread from there.
I imagine early communication started with things like "hey" "relax I'm not gonna kill you" "come here" "look" "food" "tasty animal" "danger".
All things that are kind of obvious what is intended to convey in context and with pointing at the thing as you make a sound.
But really think about the origins of words. I mean at some point someone decided that this collection of letters means this and others went yep I like that. Especially abstract words like there, or then. Why is another one that you have to wonder about, obviously it's a very important question that has led man to figure out amazing things but why why?
Words preceded letters and written language by a very very long time, in all likelihood. But yes, it does appear that the words chosen were pretty entirely arbitrary.
Why did they do it? I don't even know if it was intentional, rather than one caveman simply using similar grunts for the same thing and his friend catching on and doing the same similar grunts back, and they realized they were both understanding each other and went from there.
And communication is useful, so once people started doing it it spread and didn't die out.
Yes. It's almost entirely based on usage, outside of rare circumstances where there is an effective authority enforcing it, but in practice those tend to only have so much success. People use what they use, and whatever they collectively use most tends to stick regardless of formal authorities.
We have a somewhat obscure and much confused regulatory body in Sweden called Språkrådet (Language council). Lot of people assume they decide what is correct Swedish. In reality it's the exact opposite as they actually are explicitly tasked to record how people are speaking Swedish and make sure government agencies etc. are writing in a way that reflects the actual language Swedish. Which is defined as what people people speaking Swedish are speaking.
I have had many discussion about this, and even pretty smart and educated people have surprising aversion to the fact that there is nobody that is deciding what "Swedish" is, other than the collective of Swedish speakers.
0xF013 · 33 points · Posted at 18:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's always interesting to see how much French in other parts of the world has deviated from the regulated Standard French.
Kind of a pain in Canada for those of us in primarily English-speaking provinces though. French-immersion education is not uncommon, but the downside is that what you're taught is formal Canadian French (effectively Standard French). It was quite jarring the first time I visited Québec City and Montréal because of course conversational Québécois French is full of slang the same as native English speakers of course. Other than the occasional mentions about Québécois natives speaking much faster, almost no time was ever spent understanding how the language was actually used in day-to-day life.
0xF013 · 12 points · Posted at 20:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the flip side, here in Bumfuck, Eastern Europe we can learn it from 1960’s soviet books and then be able to infiltrate the French economy. I learned it as a third language via Sur le pont d’Avignon and le chant des partisans and gargantua et pantagruel in school and I am still able to freely read news and technical documentation 15 years later.
American here, when I went to Ireland basically everyone I met outside of Dublin and Belfast had to slow down for me to understand that. Especially Kerry and Cork. Jesus that sounded like an angry German more than anything.
I remember walking down a street in London and overhearing what are first thought sounded like two people conversing in completely different languages. Took a second for it to click that they were both just speaking very different English!
The Académie française has an extremely circumscribed effect on French. It doesn't speak at all to most language change happening in French (of which there is plenty in Standard French), its recommendations are almost completely ignored in the vast majority of French language use (in Paris, the rest of France, and certainly in the rest of the francophone world), and even in official French government language, it has only occasional and narrow influence.
No language authority in the world is actually effective at cementing language use. The most they typically manage is to kill a few loanwords before they get too big and to offer ammunition for would-be pedants (including, not infrequently, grammar advice based on syntactic analysis that is obviously wrong).
Organizations can usually dictate orthographic norms pretty effectively, although certainly not absolutely, but actual natural language change is basically ungovernable.
0xF013 · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, Russia recently gave up on a couple of rules that it was holding on for ages, one being related to the French origin of the word “parachute”, coincidentally. You can’t go against the tide, however prescriptivistic you feel.
Every language has its own quirks. I can't think of any particular one that's been deemed superior. But English is popular and this topic comes up all the time so he probably read a dozen threads with people posting quirks of the language.
One example people like to bring up is that the same word can mean different things based on how its pronounced. Like I can address you directly or I can live at a different address. But there are languages that are far more insane with tonal variations. Like Chinese.
English is also just the most widely spread language, and between the top 2 most spoken languages (Mandarin and English), English is much easier to pick up.
That depends almost entirely on what language you're coming from.
A German speaker is going to have a much easier time learning English than a Japanese speaker will. Similarly, someone who speaks Shanghainese is going to have a much easier time learning Mandarin than they will English.
English tends to get a bad rep because of its popularity and having historically borrowed lots of terms from other languages. As a result, one of the consequences is that people like to complain its pronunciation/spelling/etc. don't follow any logical rules. In reality, they usually do, but it tends to be a set of rules from the language the word is borrowed from. This is an oversimplification for sure, but there are usually okay reasons for English doing certain things if you dig hard enough.
It's one reason why English as a Second Language programs, like those in schools, sometimes provide additional information for the etymology of English words, because it can give a better grounding for how they work later on. But then the trouble is that people who grow up natively speaking the language might miss out on that instruction if their school doesn't have that kind of program for the regular students.
English is weird to people who are learning it as a second language because it follows rules until it doesn't. In practice, directly following broad grammar rules without all the nuances still makes sense, but sounds stilted. A lot of issues also come from direct translations from other languages too, which is an issue that every language faces.
English also traditionally has kept a spelling that reflects how a word used to be pronounced, rather than how it’s pronounced now. Lots of languages are the opposite.
Yep, absolutely. It's definitely a multifactorial issue, and I'm not at all trying to say that English doesn't deserve some of the criticism. But I always like to point out that English deserves some credit, too. I also just love how productive of a language it is with coming up with new words.
JKMcA99 · 11 points · Posted at 19:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is also extremely phonetically inconsistent. I'm a Welsh speaker and once you know the Welsh alphabet you can essentially pronounce any of our words you want since it's phonetically consistent. English, on the other hand, is anyone's guess as to how you pronounce the words.
It can be rough, although even a thorough understanding of word origins can leave one trying to slog through a slough of alphabet soup as thick as a trough of dough. Just a thought.
I also hate any augh words. Or any words with 5 more consonants then they need. I also hate silent letters that aren't necessary for the pronunciation of the word.
Yeah I guess I would lol I just think it's inefficient in a stupid kind of way. Extra letters that aren't needed phonetically that are there just to be there, is kind of ridiculous. Especially silent letters that don't change pronunciations. Because it's literally just a useless letter. Like absolutely useless. It serves no purpose being there.
Interestingly, there are also beliefs/myths in a huge number of speaker populations for all sorts of languages that the language the speak is either the least or the most logical, hardest or easiest to learn, etc.
French is a particularly fun one since it's gone back and forth. A couple of centuries ago, French speakers hailed it as the most rational/logical language (and this was to some degree its reputation abroad as well). Yet it is pretty common in the last few decades to hear French speakers talk about how their language is particularly illogical, hard to learn, etc. Although the shift in the mythology is new enough that you still hear both sides of it pretty regularly.
Lol like how we spell some things and some uses of grammar. I remember my teachers would go mad on us, but now it's widely used and accepted. Language can evolve in endless directions. Hell, in the future, maybe we'll all sound like mumble rap... Hopefully not
Agreed. It’s worth noting, though, that while the relationship between sound and meaning is almost always arbitrary, a tiny percentage of words do actually have a direct connection to what they represent, those being onomatopoeias
"Words preceded letters and written language by a very very long time, in all likelihood."
they did! at least in Britain they did. written language didn't arrive in Britain until early Christianity when monks began writing the Bible. it wasn't until a guy called Saint Columba arrived from Ireland and he and his homies started writing bibles that the native British peoples started to experience written language and that wasn't until the 6th century!
if anyone disagrees with this please let me know! I've been studying the early history of northern Britain this past year so this is what I learned within this topic but when it's this early (and the absence of written language lol) it's sort of up to debate.
In Britain specifically, written language certainly predates Christianity, though probably not by much. The earliest records we have of it come from Roman Britain. I don't know if we have any surviving texts of the kind you're talking about, but certainly we have pre-Christian inscriptions in Latin such as devotions to the gods, graffiti and novelty joke styluses.
oh we certainly do have earlier things, I only mentioned Christian sources in Britain because that's what I personally studied. The Romans mastered written language way before the 6th century and there are actually some surviving texts. Although these early bibles that I mentioned in my previous comment did have a partial language difference which caused the people in the area to change the way they spoke which brought them one step closer to English (although they had a long way to go)
I read an article - I’ll look for it now and update if I find it. But certain sounds travel better in different environments. For example consonants/harsh sounds over open land, vowels over water. So that’s why certain languages sound the way they do.
western european countries use the roman alphabet because the romans conquered most of western europe
for the north of europe, it was because of catholicisms influence and they were writing in latin. for most of history the only people who could read or write were the clergy
Who named duffel bag? WTF is a duffel? Who looked at a glorified potato sack and said “that is now called a duffel bag” and everyone was like “alright I guess it is”
gsxdsm · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the name of the place they originally came from.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing that blows my mind is how they decided on an alphabet. They had to pick symbols for sounds, and that just seems it would be horrifically difficult from scratch.
Actually it's considered an essential feature of language that the words chosen are arbitrary.
Also there are a handful of theories about whether or not it was intentional - such as language being an adaptation for teaching, or unintentional - such as language being a by product of complex thought
zeezle · 3 points · Posted at 20:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aren't there animals that have something sort of like basic language (in the sense of "this sound means this thing", not grammatical structure and all that)? According to a quick Google, chimps, dolphins, orcas and prairie dogs all have "languages" that have been decoded by researchers.
So we're far from the only species that has figured out it's useful to communicate things!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't completely arbitrary. They've done experiments where they've asked people to assign made up words to different abstract shapes, and it isn't randomly distributed i.e. 70% of people would assign the word "glipglorp" to the blue polygon and assign "shplurps" to the red one, or something like that.
For nearly all modern languages, they heard a word for it and used it and those slowly changed to fit usage. Nearly all European languages can be regressed to Proto-Indo-European, even though we have no surviving documents in that language and it had to be reassembled from the oldest documents we do have. Similar proto-languages have been recreated for other language families.
It's not known if language emerged all at once early in humanity and spread with early humans or if it emerged independently in a few different places.
They may seem arbitrary but if you look at some of the words from different parts of the world, many terms are highly conserved. And I don't mean something like French and Spanish. I am talking like Latin Languages vs Sanskrit. Even the counting system have similar sounding words.
Words had for a long time bo real way of being spelled aswell, people would learn the apphabet in sounds (a e i o u, r, t , l etc) and make spell words they heard that way
(Example: house... H, o, u, s and bam we have a written the word for that thing we live in, only later would a standard for things like the e at the end set in
Primitive "words" in some form or another long predate our species. At least in the sense of "a distinct sound produced by an animal which conveys a certain meaning distinct from other sounds it can make". They've probably evolved several times completely independently.
Many bird species have sounds for things like "warning, danger nearby", and "FUCK OFF, this is my territory!" From such humble beginnings can the foundations of language eventually evolve. If you have a social species in an ecological niche that encourages complex behaviour and group coordination, that species is going to need a more complex array of sounds. Humans just became sufficiently complex that our ancestors started dealing in abstract concepts such as the passage of time ("I am thirsty!" "Do this. [demonstrates] Water will be inside tomorrow.")
With this example you could say language has always existed since the first time Homo sapiens consciousness existed. What I mean is language is defined by an attempt to communicate and grunts and whistling sounds are a language if it is commonly understood that a sound means something.
Am not a language expert just a bored college student, feel free to correct me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did it develop into more complex nuances tho. How did they go from talking about the present and things in it to, say, the past??? How would you even begin to talk about the past?
caveman points club at cavewoman to another caveman "Poooonuh!"
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the words chosen were pretty entirely arbitrary
I don't believe so. Like cunt is such a perfect word to describe a cunt, it just sounds right. if I had to tell my friend "man you're being a lil jibby" I don't think it would feel the same.
That's how works work now. At some point in the last two years someone yelled "YEET" and now people understand it as a sound someone makes with throwing something hard or to violently throw something hard.
[deleted] · 758 points · Posted at 18:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most words were slang at one point* Also, just because they came from a different language doesn't mean they weren't slang. Like the word derrierre (Idk if that's how you spell it) was probably taboo at once. Ironically the word taboo comes from Hawaiian
So when the word "ananas" finally made it's way to Greenlandic, do you think it was ever considered slang? Of course not - it was simply a word that didn't exist in the language and was adopted.
Right, but Greenland adopted a word that already had history elsewhere which invariably started off as a word that someone pulled completely out of their ass and no other languages except for Spanish and English thought much to change that word in their language too much because it worked well enough to not really bother. It being "official" in it's first appearance in one language has nothing to do with a word being complete jibberish at one point but serving its purpose enough to become useful language in an unrelated language, which is pretty much the concept of a slang word.
A great example is the word "OK" but it's origin is way more traceable as its more modern. Its an abbreviation of a purposely mispelt phrase "oll korrect" or "all correct". There were plenty other abbreviated nonsense intial words because old timey America liked doing that for some reason but they didnt last and for whatever reason, "ok" worked well enough to stick around to probably become the most used and adopted English word in history and it's history is literally just fad-induced intentional nonsense but we have people in India, Africa, or god-knows-elsewhere saying it as an "official" word in their native languages and its birth from a fad is mostly forgotten or never even known to begin with by most users of this word.
Language only has meaning because we collectively allow it to. Its super relative and trippy to think about.
Before the English dictionary, you could quite literally spell any English word however the fuck you liked. You were usually meant to read it rather aloud quietly to yourself to figure out what it was saying. I think the ancients Greeks employed this method exclusively, as in you practically could not read it silently.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can just imagine it. A teenage caveman pointing at a rock and saying, "Rock," while an adult caveman rolls his eyes at the ridiculousness of using mouth sounds to name things. (Strictly speaking, the adult caveman wouldn't be able to grasp the concept of naming things since he doesn't use words, but I imagine he feels it, you know?)
Other words begin by combining existing words together (bubblegum), by adding new prefixes/suffixes to existing words (antidisestablishmentarianism), loan words from other languages (tortilla), being invented as part of a work of fiction (muggle), or as technical jargon (magnetron). And none of those are really instances I'd feel comfortable calling 'slang'.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a very very good guess.
As far as anyone can tell, across all cultures and ages and languages, there is a single point that everyone seems to explode from and persists today with only the slightest variations, a word almost every human invents, independently, before every other word, and have done since the beginning of speech:
“mama”.
I was going to suggest waaww, like a baby wailing but that doesn't seem to fit as a word, same with laughter.
I'm guessing that ow, and mama, both come from physical movements of the body. The ma-ma-ma-ma mouth movement is very much like sucking on a nipple but exhaling. Ow - I'd go with a reflexive/protective kind of action, an exhale, a contraction of the facial muscles, restriction of blood flow to the brain maybe...
Am I on the right path?
Eta, just asked a brestfeeder and apparently the mouth movement of a suckling baby is not similar to the mouth movement of ma ma...
not necessarily slang as such. if we consider slang as non-standard language, it implies that there is a standard language. standardisation of language is comparatively very recent development -- last few centuries, when documented language goes back at least 5 millennia, and undocumented (unwritten) much, much longer. creation of new words is distinct from this. i know, semantics, but hey! i like languages..
Also works like this in a micro way within families/friendship groups. Like your kid makes a really cute mispronunciation of something, and that just becomes its name forever, or your friend always makes this same weird/hilarious autocorrect until the point that you just all refer to it as that word.
Haha my brother was reading the imbd page for Love Actaully and saw Hugh Grant’s name but pronounced it as “Huge Grant” instead. Now we refer to him as that lol.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same way and I don't understand why. A lot of new words/slang just make me roll my eyes, but for whatever reason "yeet" just resonates with me. Maybe it just captures something that "throw" or "toss" don't.
I think it fills a useful linguistic niche. It's something like 'to throw haphazardly' expressed in a single syllable. Though inelegant, it's a useful abstraction.
Also it's funny to make my daughter cringe and shout 'stop' when i use it.
Same! It's so primal and satisfying to say. On the other hand, "lit" makes me cringe, even when it's a kid saying it. It sounds like something an out of touch marketing exec would come up with.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair Ludacris has been saying "yeet yeet" as an exclamation for 15 years now and only in the last couple has its meaning changed to throwing something
The earliest point I can remember hearing yeet is some vine with a high school girl named Terry or something who is handed a soda can, says "this bitch empty", then yells "YEET" as she yeets it down a crowded hallway
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have always wondered why different words come and go but the word "cool" as a slang term is the only one that never went away. I looked it up and it's supposedly been around since the 30s.
but in your example of telephone, it is a completely new word, semantically and grammatically.
it is not new etymologically, deriving from the two greek words, sure, but their transplantation into a completely different languages (english and others that have adopted the word) creates a new word. semantically because the word 'telephone' is conceptually distinct from 'sound afar' of the original greek; telephone means something else. grammatically it is even distinct in most of the languages that use the word, since their grammars are wildly different
No it isn't. New words enter the lexicon because people want to be better understood when talking about something new. Slang is a word created by youth because they want to be less understood by adults. When slang enters the adult lexicon, it is no longer accepted by youth.
Those didn't fall out of favor because they're in "the adult lexicon"—they're in nobody's lexicon. Not every piece of slang stands the test of time. Most don't. Others, like "cool" or "okay" or "hang out," do.
Slang, like fashion, comes in or goes out because of who is using it. Things used to be "extreme" then fast food was "extreme" and nothing was "extreme" anymore. As "yeet" becomes more and more mainstream, kids will stop using it because it won't be theirs anymore.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 15:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 16:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Memsus · 6 points · Posted at 19:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up etmology. It's the study of the origin of words. Very interesting. If a single word has you stumped, just search "etymology of ______" and there it will be, with a bit of luck.
Yeah that is pretty insane, derived from the Latin "sanus", which in fact means "healthy" more generally; "sanitary" is derived from the same root.
lurgi · 6 points · Posted at 19:17:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is actually an example of a human language appearing out of nothing in modern times (well, mostly out of nothing) - Nicaraguan Sign Language. And, yes, they basically decided that this sign would represent this thing.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we had language way before writing, and many languages and vernacular were very localized well into the middle ages. All someone did was recognize the common patterns and put it into a form of symbols, and for the longest time until recently the vast majority of people couldn't read.
This last part in particular is very interesting in linguistics: the abstract.
It makes sense for physical things to be represented in language. "It is there", "throw it here". Things got interesting when abstract concepts were introduced. In early language, abstract concepts emerged as analogies / metaphors borrowed from the physical.
Time is a good example. Languages usually consider time as an axis, then use spacial words to refer to it. If you think about it, it doesn't make intrinsic sense for something to occur "after" something else. The word's origins actually refer to something physically being further away!
Another example is goodness. The concept that large things are good, such as the words great, epic et cetera, is still apparent in many modern languages, which I believe is a relic of ancient perception of the world. Likewise negative, small words such as shallow, narrow-minded and such.
I believe most abstract concepts were introduced to language as metaphors such as this.
Collection of letters? Naw. Collections of sounds, yes. We label things to discuss them, we must name something for us to talk about that thing. We name it by throwing a sound out relating to the topic we're naming.
Why why? It's easier/shorter to say than "for what (purpose)". We are all lazy speakers, we shorten everything.
jumpup · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
even birds do it. certain birds have different calls for people, prey and danger, you can reply that audio to another bird in the same region and they will respond to the audio just like the other birds
Also, how did we convey what "abstract" means before we invented that word? Most of those kind of words are almost impossible to define, and we can only really understand their meanings by seeing/hearing the word in different contexts.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
abstract is easy. I draw stick figures of people, or flowers plants trees, and those are abstract. Which means they represent the general construct of those objects, without actually being those objects.
It really gets into the visual realm. How do we associate a stick figure with a person right away? Or a stick with a round thing on top, with a tree.
All you do after this is extend this to a lot of other things.
Orolol · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean at some point someone decided that this collection of letters means this and others went yep I like that.
For the very origin of words, I'm guessing a lot of it has to do with our shape, specifically the shape of our vocal chords, our mouths, and other things that let us make sounds.
The easier sounds to make were probably the most commonly used, so maybe they were used for commonly communicated concepts, like food, or danger. Then tone is also important, so things that sound scarier, maybe had a scarier meaning, and then evolved from there to more and more modern, but still similar forms.
There was a very cool study of a Russian orphanage for deaf children (I think in the fifties), where IIRC due to the war they had no one to teach them sign language, and of course they couldn’t learn to speak Russian, so they were forced to develop a form of communication completely from scratch.
The first generation of children were able to develop a sign language that conveyed basic concepts. They taught the second generation, who expanded on it by developing complex concepts. Then they taught the third generation, who codified the grammar and were able to say pretty much anything they wanted.
So with our currently evolved brains, it takes just three generations to develop a complete language from absolutely nothing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What fucks with me is wondering what the thoughts of cavemen where like before language
Even pointing is uniquely human. The only animals, AFAIK, that understand what pointing means are dogs. This is because of our close working relationship with them for tens of thousands of years. I've heard that even chimpanzees don't know what the hell we mean when we point at things. (Correct me if I'm wrong.)
About how words are created, theres this very obscure tabletop RPG called ウンババウバッホラオラオハー, where the premisis are you are suppose to use dice to represent if you hunt for food successfully with your fellow caveman friends (other player), where every caveman have a different skill.
However, the catch of the game is every player are only allow to communicate through two phonetic sounds, ウン (un!) バ(ba!).
And when you play it actually very intresting how isanely fast a "language" starts to be created through actions. Such as after a successfully hunt, some player might go UNBABAAAAA! and then other player would "understand UNBABA as successfully hunted food".
And Across the playthrough, a set of language will develop even just with 2 phonetic words.
After some noises had been established, someone said "we can do better" and made up a new language.
I believe the current Korean is relatively recent. We even know who made it all up.
It's been iterated on for hundreds of generations.
Gilpif · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s… not how any of this works. You might be thinking of Kind Sejong the Great, who created a new alphabet (Hangul), but certainly not a language. Korean evolved from Middle Korean, which evolved from Old Korean, which evolved from Proto-Korean. We only know the last 2300 years of history, but there’s 0 chance that someone managed to convince people to speak a language they invented. Only very dedicated nerds learn conlangs, and very, very few become conversationally fluent, most people really resist learning a new language.
I am thinking of Hangul and not being that pedantic.
Gilpif · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedantic? Languages and writing systems evolve in very different ways. Language is natural to humans, writing isn’t, it’s a tool we invented a few times.
Others have already mentioned the fact that language before writing was volatile, and the ever present change of sounds (particularly in english) is actually slowed down by writing. Notably the "th" sound we have is amazingly volatile and talking to native english speakers everywhere, a lot of them have already shifted to a hard "t" or a "d" or some other sound. The shift is completely natural and is sort of a microcosm of how language would've branched off (with migration) before a specified writing system.
As a layman who hasn't really looked into it much, I consider the "creation" of languages to be fairly arbitrary. We have everything from Latin to Khoisan click languages as a means of verbal communication.
What's fun is we hosted Japanese students growing up, and some of the animal sounds little kids make are different. Instead of "Woof woof" or "Neigh." We joked that those animals are speaking Japanese.
You might want to check out Bill Bryson’s book about English language and How it Got That Way. I may have gotten the title wrong, but that’s the essence of the book. It’s pretty fascinating.
I’ve been up all night, many a night questioning the same thing!
So agreeing on a word for an object was the first step. Then agreeing on a word for a more abstract thing like place and time. But then we invented a more abstract thing to link it all together to explain abstract things and created grammar?
I’m from an arts background and really believe we used pictorial form to help us create spoken word.
Actually, I haven’t a fucking clue. But it’s fascinating!
I know I’m not talking about the earliest stuff I was talking about the transition from no grammar to grammar
And sure it was just an example, some humans most definitely did live in caves even if the majority didn’t and the point was more to illustrate how I imagine language might’ve developed in regards to those specific words.
I think proper nouns were some of the first words that came about - dolphins and whales have names for one another, so it seems like it must have been a pretty early development for us too.
I dont consider a lot of other symbolic vocalizations words -like what some animals might use for "danger" "hurt" "fear" "food" - because I think a lot of those sounds are probably instinctual and dont depend on upbringing. I think this mainly because dogs, chimps, horses, and other mammals seem to be able to communicate these ideas just fine with members of their species that aren't from their region.
Pubzzy · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up Semiotics. The question you have is an entire field of study.
I’ve asked myself this a few times but every time I try to figure out why a certain word means what it does I just kind of spazz and drop it before I hurt my head.
John Vervaeke calls the invention of letters and the alphabet system a “psychotechnology”. A psychotechnology is tool that improves cognition. Learning has a lot to do with how easy something is to understand. Language is probably the most OP psychotechnology.
How different types of questions arose is fascinating. I wonder what linguistics has to say about this development?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of my favorite things to ponder. Especially when I lock in on a word that with repetition just sounds funny. At what time and place did someone make up this collection of noises to represent an object or feeling?
Yes, I always wondered how cavernman people thought that English and this nasal tone was the greatest language they could communicate with. Like for example these extremely corky or whatever girls that talk super nasal and you already know she goes to Starbucks. How did a cavernman thing that that was the ideal language? Lol
Most languages have WAY more inflection than "whom". English only lost its inflection because after the Norman Conquest and centuries of word adoption, you had incompatible word roots that used different inflection patterns and people just stopped doing it for everything except pronouns like "he" and "who"
It is very good in the way it explains linguistics.
Early alphabets the letters sounded like actual objects
IHSYIA · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Written language took a long time to show up compared to spoken word, and even then a lot of older languages were based on images and characters that more or less depicted the general idea of what was being conveyed.
Don't forget that language is still changing and evolving. New words, phrases and ideas are being added to our vocabulary.
You have to remember that modern American English (which is what I assume is what you are using in your examples) is a relatively advanced and developed language, it didn't just spring up suddenly and has roots in languages that themselves have developed for hundreds to thousands of years.
"There" is not abstract. It's literally the "uh" when pointing at something. There's nothing unfathomable about simple calls becoming more complex over time.
11415 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We had spoken language before writing. There are theories as to how writing evolved, but one theory is that with the emergence of civilization cane government. And the government had to stockpile food and weapons and animals for whatever reason. And they had to take inventory. At first, the scribe drew pictures of whatever he was counting, but eventually his picture become more abstract. It became more and more abstract until it no longer looked like the object it was representing. Then people realized that the symbol could not only stand for that object, but could stand for the word, and the sound of that word. And thus, letters were born.
That’s the history of writing, though, not the history of language.
Ideas behave like genes in the sense that they survive when they can be reproduced. The idea that a sound means something, also needs to reproduce, it has to go from the surrounding adult's or elder children's brains to the brains of tiny tots. If there is a better alternative for the kids (more suitable to their developing brains), the better alternative wins in the long run.
Another interesting thing is that we believe languages didn't evolved independently from the brain. The two co-evolved, basically both of them changing in ways beneficial to the relationship. So, a little bit of language nudged our brains to be slightly more acceptable to abstraction which in turn added more abstraction to language and the cycle continued.
Natural selection processes are often (always?) butterfly effects. Basically, trying to understand the exact beginning of a natural selection process is like trying to figure out which stones rolling was the cause of avalanches. Certain times two languages merged into one, some languages are better at absorbing other languages and they prosper (citation needed), languages which aren't, die a slow painful death - what we see today has developed slowly and beautifully (and ruthlessly) over more than a hundred thousand years.
Remember Yoga, Google, Ikigai were not English words until 20 years back (I don't know if Ikigai is, yet).
PS: I am not an expert at this, but I used to be very interested in this sort of things about five years back and this is what I remember.
Also, written and oral part of language are completely different beasts.
The oral part of language is definitely more of 'the language', the written part sort of follows it. Consider English for example, the mapping b/w written and oral English isn't strict and it makes learning English from text hard. There is a joke that do sounds like doo but go doesn't sound like goo.
While the joke hits hard at first, the loose coupling between written and oral word is actually a strength for the language as it makes absorbing other languages and their sounds (potentially infinite) possible with a finite set of alphabets. And kids don't bother with the written word for at least a couple o years while they are listening to words a lot earlier, so the language can suit itself to the world of toddlers leaving the adults to figure out the mess of spellings.
The word “there” wasnt just decided upon as being a word, it evolved from slowly differing pronunciation and slang from an old english word, and before that from germanic, etc.
And what exactly do you mean by “why”?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's very cool to think about how elementary and almost primitive some of the more universal basic words are.
Think about the words "moon," "mud," "food," "hunt," "globalization." All that stuff.
Communication is already a significant part of social animals and we already had a concept of "This group of sounds means that thing." Also, some animals name their kids or form their own names over their life and can be "called" by it. Early humans almost certainly did the same. So pieces are in place where it would only be a matter of time that humans would figure out it's way more efficient to label things.
i think it happend when basic word were made but didnt make sense at times, so relations, verbs and fill-in-word were created. and eventualy when humans progressed so did the english language.
Gilpif · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The origin of language is a very controversial subject, but it’s certainly not how it went. It seems like as soon as humans evolved the capacity to understand and produce language, they did do it, so they certainly didn’t contemplate what words should mean what things. Even the most remote tribes of Earth have languages that work very similarly to all others, with a grammar no more or less complex overall, so it looks like “primitive” languages weren’t primitive at all, but they worked just like modern languages.
About the origin of specific words: most abstract words come from concrete words that people started to use metaphorically. In many languages, the word for inside is related to the word for stomach, the word for colors are related to things that have that color, the words for 5 and 20 may be the same as the words for hand and person (referring to the number of fingers and toes they have).
The word “why” isn’t really that weird, it’s not how it happened in English, but it’s very common to use “for what reason”, or “for what cause”. In most Romance languages, “why” is literally “for what”.
I suppose we still do this now in our own homes, haven't you got a silly word you made up that only means something to your family? We say wuf, it's the funny noise our older dog makes instead of a proper bark, she makes it to wake me up in the night. My son might say "I was woken up last night" we'll ask "By what?" and he could reply "wuf" and we'd all know what it meant.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing I always liked about Judaism, the ancient texts absolutely revere language as being like the closest thing to God of all things.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, cave drawing obviously wanted to DEPICT somethings. This idea stuck and ever since we’ve used lines etc. to DEPICT things.
Words are sounds. Written language was originally symbols used to indicate supply (at least that is what I remember). These symbols were assigned to the sounds they already used.
It’s crazy to think about how therefore, words have no intrinsic meaning and there’s nothing that makes a car more worthy to be a car than a tree, if you will. That everything we know is based on what is more or less a lie that something is it’s name, when it’s not.
(The Welsh alphabet ) “They've only got something like 24 letters over there, so they're going mental with the 'L”
b4xt3r · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra..
vekeso · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I have a theory about the word mama, its found in almost every single language to mean mother, even languages with no ancestral overlap like english and chinese.
But most mothers give their babies exaggerated kisses, a big "MWAH" to get some giggles. Even just that little pop of noise from a normal kiss sounds like 'ma'. I think mama comes from the sound of kisses. And thats why its so identical.
Some words, I can see as an understandable noise-reaction to certain phenomena. Like very large creatures walking around in prehistoric times, to which caveman Grog might vocally react to as, "BIG!". And his buddy, Grek, might conceivably have a similar reaction like, "HOOGE!". One-syllable, primitive words like that are easy to conceptualize the origin of.
But then you have French words that throw real curveballs here.
writing most definately came after spoken language, and not all languages are phonetic, so spelling was undoubtedly an afterthought rather than a basis for the word.
Well, spoken language existed long before written language so keep that in mind. Plus keep in mind languages are constantly evolving, so it makes sense they would've started pretty basic then rapidly evolved from there. Keep in mind also, communication was necessary for survival. It is now too, but we sort of take it for granted. It makes sense that it would evolve and develop rapidly when it was such an evolutionary advantage
Yeah! I mean why is an Apple called an Apple and not a dildo? Wouldn’t it be awesome if you’d say “I Bought the new Dildo iPhone 11 and to spice things up in the bedroom I also bought an Apple”
Nobody "decided", some tribal chief started referring to something by a grunt and if the others didn't refer it with the same grunt they would piss off the boss.
So the tribal chief decided. Unless you're saying some higher being implanted words in people's heads, someone somewhere decided this will be called x and others went along with it
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know Reddit will hate this but language complexity is part of why I believe in God. Human brains as children are more complex and nuanced than computers. We just absorb it. When I had a head injury I was a little slower with language for a whole and as I practiced reading and writing to get it back I became even more in awe of how random shapes on a paper or mouth sounds can illustrate ideas.
The most mind blowing is abstractions. I can understand pointing to a rock and saying Rock or a Tree or a Cat. But people write entire books and papers contemplating utterly abstract ideas that have no physical equivalent. I used to get anxiety and think I would forget what words mean when I thought about this too much. Eventually I just accepted human brains are like super computers in many ways. And yes that’s part of my faith because if you think about it it’s so crazy that say, a little kid can learn two languages just by existing near them.
If you have seen any type of bird but in this case chickens they crow at different pitches and a different amount of times to signal danger or food etc.
lesleh · 3 points · Posted at 18:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can probably get a pretty good sense of how it worked by looking at how toddlers learn to talk. They start with the most basic of things like “more” and “no” and slowly get more advanced, string together words into short sentences and beyond.
That is actually one of the posited conjectures for how to study the origin of language! Nice guess!
Unfortunately there are quite a few confounding variables that make it fairly intractable to use. The dependence on environmental factors for instance. The development of language is almost certainly affected by having many many people around you all communicating in a single well established medium, like English.
There’s actually a huge debate as to how it occurred in linguistics and philosophy. So it’s not what you’re saying it is although your perspective may be valid.
It’s more complex than what you describe. Another example of why you should take what you read on reddit with a grain of salt and do your own research.
That's actually quite interesting to me, protecting your neck is a way of showing that you're no threat, while nodding upward and exposing it can be taken as a threat. Like "Look, here, my neck, come try n bite me, I'll fuck you up."
I didn’t even think of that and it makes complete sense. Youre probably right.
It’s an inside joke among my friends... A couple years ago, I noticed that when strangers (typically men) see each other in public in certain contexts, a downward nod is almost like saying “I see you; there’s no antagonism here” lol
You should let all the linguists, evolutionary biologists/psychologists, etc. know that you've cracked this one!
They're all under the mistaken impression that this is actually a very difficult question without a clear answer or much available evidence, with many significantly different competing theories that are difficult to decide between.
This idea that it was just simple ostensive definition that was obvious from context is not actually particularly simple.
It doesn't answer a lot of relevant questions, like why other animals (especially social animals like primates) haven't developed language to nearly the same capacity, since they are in precisely the same situation. In fact, primate groups do make vocal sounds and gestures as signals that are understood by other members of their social groups, yet this hasn't developed into anything recognizable as language. That seems like a major problem for the hypothesis that once you have signs, complexity just grows organically into language - many species have such signs, and they don't seem to be accumulating complexity to create languages. It also isn't obvious from this explanation why the development of these things isn't more or less uniform across social species - they should all be on their way to language, but they aren't, and even basic communication varies substantially between social species.
It also becomes a lot more complicated when you try to establish what "obvious from context" means. Things that are obvious to us, as language speakers with established cultural practices like ostensive definition, are not necessarily prima facie "obvious from context". Your context includes linguistic and cultural knowledge you use to determine what people mean when they, for instance, point to things. Imagine someone points at a chicken and makes a sound. What word are they teaching you? The word for bird? Chicken? White? One? Food? Hunt? Fire? You have a cultural knowledge that allows you, in a lot of cases, to know - and the person pointing usually does to, so they can coordinate, guess when the context is unclear, and help make it clearer. But without that, it is not nearly so obvious. What feature are they pointing at? Why? How did they come up with the idea of "teaching" you the sign? What are you supposed to do? It isn't at all obvious how you bootstrap all of that. This is a hard question.
There are a whole host of other complications. There's been a lot written on the question of origin of language. There's a lot of disagreement. And there's very little evidence either way - the topic receives relatively little ongoing attention in the literature not because the answer is obvious (it isn't), but because there are a lot of competing theories and there's very little in the way of evidence to decide between them.
Sounds like you don't disagree so much as wanted to put a lot more effort and nuance in, which I genuinely appreciate but sometimes a guy just woke up and is browsing /new and just wants to contribute to a good thread so it doesn't die immediately in obscurity.
I'm not sure what you read since I strongly disagree with what you said. To be blunt, what you described is a naive and untenable hypothesis about the origin of language that fails to explain some of the most basic evidence we do have.
And contributing is fine, but speaking as if your bleary-eyed, totally naive guess is a factual answer, as if it's what people who study this question actually believe, as "basically it", is really misleading and unfortunate.
The movie Cave Man with Ringo Star kind of gives off that vibe. I mean, obviously it’s a comedy, but they come up with words for things.... “Macha” is “monster”, “Puca” is “sick”, “Ool” is “food”, “Bobo” becomes “friends”, and so on... it’s a pretty good watch (as long as you’re not too sensitive to some dry comedy) and it’s actually got a suspenseful plot line! Lots of fun.
Spoken Language is also likely ridiculously old and has to be. You can go back to prehuman versions of us and the larynx has shifted to allow for the complex sounds we make. The other great Apes didn't have that shift and cannot make those same sounds. There is almost no evolutionary reason for it to shift other than the ability to vocalize and the obvious power that provides in conjunction with higher level thinking. Our ancestors of literally a different species a million years ago likely had spoken language of some type. Homo-sapiens have always had language. So did the Neanderthals, Denisovans and other species of man long before those.
Absolutely not. The origin of language is an incredibly debated and controversial subject within linguistics. There are many conjectures about how language started and even more on how to study it. But none conclusive or even more probable.
That is not accurate in every language. Bear in mind the type of language that developed in the beginning were more like sounds, modern languages have gone through thousands of years of evolution...
To give you an example, "comida" means food in Spanish, a 3 syllable word...
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 17:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. It’s not like we were using terms like words like “food” “eat” and “die” for their respective meanings 10’000 years ago. You’ll find most of these words aren’t even 1000 years old.
LudoB99 · -2 points · Posted at 19:12:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But their root is. And the concept existed long before a word was put on it. The words we use now didn’t appear out of thin air, they had ancestors that can trace back to the beginning of speech itself.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they had ancestors that can trace back to the beginning of speech itself.
Indeed, but the words we’re familiar with now in English have gone through dramatic evolution since the first inception of their meanings.
True, but following your “comida” example, I found : Etymology. From Old Portuguese comer (“to eat”), from Latin comedere, present active infinitive of comedō, from com- + edō (“I eat”). Edō derives from Proto-Italic *edō, from Proto-Indo-European *h₁ed- (“to eat”). So the original word was Edo, still very short, but Spanish has gone thru a lot of evolution before being a language.
I like these discussions :-) unfortunately there is very little we can trace back before proto-indo-european. It would be really interesting to know the full etimology of a word. I bet many words have shrunk and stretched several times to be what they are today.
I love how only one of those is a complete sentences. I imagined the others in a caveman voice and "relax I'm not going to kill you" in a British accent.
It's a complete sentence in English, but probably more of a non-intimidating grunt originally. Perhaps that crude signifier quickly evolved into what we'd call a common greeting.
Some of these are things you can gesture in a pretty obvious way,for example gesturing into your mouth I feel like would be one of the first ways to represent food, and pointing a way to say "look"
My father in law only speaks Spanish. I can only speak a handful of Spanish words or phrases. We actually can converse quite well through gestures and the like. It makes me feel like a caveman every time!
If you look at some native African languages, some closely model talking drums that were used to communicate for both long and short distances before their spoken languages. There's a language (I'm having trouble with my memory here) whose word for water is literally phonetically "mba."
With the origin of agriculture, larger communities began to form that shared a common language. Tribes didn’t have specific languages anymore and this is how larger languages began to form.
As more people have more diverse jobs other than hunting and gathering, like craftsmen, new words began to develop and eventually there was a word for basically everything.
In many countries in Africa and in Papua New Guinea, tribes are still disconnected from the larger government and thats why so many distinct languages and tribal beliefs exist.
Writing was originally used to record what you owed someone and to help with trade. This obviously came from agricultural based societies.
Zenla · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never looked into this, and maybe it's been determined (maybe not), but making "speech" sounds is a fairly difficult physical process. I wonder if gestural language (thing thumbs-up or nodding or "a-ok" fingers) game before or after sonic language.
There have been tens of thousands of languages and you have been exposed to less than a dozen. Almost all of them branched apart very recently from each other and those that didn't have influenced each other with loan words.
One hypothesis with some support is that “ma” is a relatively easy sound to make given our physiology and development. Compared to “da” or “ta”. i.e. Baby says mama before dada because it’s easier.
That's basically it, they made sounds to refer to stuff and people caught on and used the same sounds and understood through context and repetition what each other meant, and it built and spread from there.
I wonder if talking in memes will eventually be a new language.
We already kind of do that. Cultural memes are super dense information carriers and afford us a way to transmit massively complex ideas with very little effort.
Im more curious about, later, how they came up with words. It isnt just completely random, there is some system in it and it also has to sound good, but.. dunno. Maybe they just pronounced sounds and how they made them feel like a music but for words, placement of tongue and sound..
Imagine if humans were advanced as we are now but still spoke like this, would be pretty funny to see, for instance someone grunting at a car like "car no work, what do?"
There's a group of monkeys/primates in Africa somewhere that have developed a shared language like this across species! Only things they all need to communicate get shared "words," like "ground danger" (eg cheetah), "sky danger" (eg hawk), and such. IIRC the scientists studying this started hearing a new "word" that meant basically "visitor, no danger" which referred to the scientists. I wish I could remember what it was called.
Also, check out the Lexicon Valley podcast, very interesting language stuff. Maybe also The Allusionist.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would imagine It's the same, but I would think Its more complex that that, and survival would be the driving force for the development of language. It seems very unlikely that they used one word for "danger" when many animals today have several different calls for danger. Rather most of their language was probably dedicated to different forms of danger. For example, this grunt might means "danger, snake" and this grunt means "danger, sabertooth cat" or "danger, poisonous mushroom" just as how many animals today have different screeches or calls for different threats, such as many mammal species that have different calls for different threats such as "hawk, look up" vs "snake, look down" or "cat over there" and once you have basic survival down I imagine it would evolve to more leisurely topics like "this stone is good for spear tips" or "this food is tasty"
You can see this in some rudimentary form all the time on sports teams (and I'm sure all sorts of other teams). As a (former) basketball player, I know that everyone else that balls knows that each group uses different noises and terms to describe certain actions, and that you learn them from context.
When shit gets real (like on a primitive hunt, for example), a single shouted word/noise can be easily understood, given context. All you gotta do is start slowly expanding that model and you can see how language developed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s just wild that those grunts turned into case systems with special suffixes depending on declension (and even that developed 2000+ years ago). Now we’re adding emojis to legitimate online communication, and they contribute a special or added meaning that can serve to clarify a written thought.
Even relatively simple social animals (like small monkeys, prairie dogs, or flocking birds) have a language and a small vocabulary. For example, I've seen a study where they found that prairie dogs have different 'words' for "man" "woman" "child" and "man with gun". They'll make different warning sounds in each different scenario, and the other prairie dogs that hear those sounds will react differently depending on which one it is.
So I'd say it's a sure bet that our language began to develop long before homo sapiens even developed as a species.
Linguistic anthropologists actually think the earliest language was words like "mama." It's why almost all languages have "m" sounds or other voiced labial consonants in their words for mother. Rather than communicating aggression and danger, babies wanted to connect with their caregivers.
This will probably be buried but this video is about how vervet monkeys use different sounds to indicate different predators. Not exactly like human speech, but definitely cool to see how language develops in other species.
And that begs the question of how body language developed (beyond sexual or survival body language). For example, how did pointing come to be understood as a means of directing attention?
This explanation reminds me of that cartoon of two scientists looking at a blackboard with complex equations on it, and right in the middle it says "then a miracle occurs..."
It's easy to "explain" how language evolved if you just ignore how fundamentally different language is than anything else in existence.
FQDIS · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earliest communication had to be the sound a baby makes when opening and closing its mouth:
What blows my mind is there is a theory that Neanderthals had their own complex language much like ours and through the interbreeding of our species there is a possibility our languages mingled, which means that we could very possibly have parts of our language which are not from our own species and the possibility that we could be speaking a form of language which is older than our own race
I suspect it's very difficult for us to imagine just how different 'original' language was, going back far enough. It was all tribal knowledge. As I understand it, one of the first things closest to 'written' language was a system of tying together different colors of rope in specific patterns, with different types of knots at specific positions! Some languages from isolated indigenous peoples have noun modifiers for all kinds of things useful for hunting like their relative direction to oneself, the wind direction, and more such that with a few words essential hunting strategies can be outlined. These forms of communication are specialized for naturally available crafting materials, or for brevity in common day-to-day tasks-- hunting. But at some point, there was a shift from simple gestures and vocalization to a form of communication with more structure and specificity, and I would love to know that looked like!
More fascinating to me, is how other animals communicate today-- dolphins and crows are two examples clearly able to communicate relatively complex information.
I get that. And I get that languages are evolving. I even understand that they evolve to achieve whatever task more simply. But it is wild and weird that for 200.000 years they have seemingly become more and more complex, with weird grammar and words, and even Finnish, yet now they (most Indo Eyropean languages at least) seem to be dropping a lot of grammar and become simpler and less nuanced.
I imagine the first word would have been 'mama'. Which does have a meaning of being first, the beginning, etc. Babies say it easily and without coaxing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ability to learn language is biological, so I’d guess that language got more complex as our brains evolved
I imagine early communication started with things like "hey" "relax I'm not gonna kill you" "come here" "look" "food" "tasty animal" "danger".
I imagine body language precedes all of these. Hey is a wave, I'm friendly is exposing your palms, look is pointing. Eventually sounds started accompanying these gestures. Then the sounds replaced the gestures.
Sapiens-A brief history of humankind, is a book that talks about this in the first few chapters. Super interesting. Other apes have “words” that mean “watch out a eagle” and “watch out a boar” and the other apes will either look up and hide or scale up a tree to escape.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grit gut ummph om hmmmmmm hun hun shhhhh, na nommm 😂
You kind of implied the answer: language evolves. That's not even really a metaphor. As people begin to use it and more of them over time, it gets more complex and grammars form and change, and new words catch on to facilitate that.
Little squiggly lines on paper give you a sequence of sounds that your brain can understand, and eventually you get to the point where you're forgetting you're reading at all, and a story plays like a movie in your head.
Pretty incredible if you think about it!
One of the things that amazes me the most about humans!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The physical process of how the different symbols on a book page can in some cases cause massive things happening in the world is in many ways fascinating.
_30d_ · 9 points · Posted at 21:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can cure cancer by pressing the keys on your keyboard in a specific order.
Check out I am a strange Loop by Douglas hofstadter. There are free PDFs online. And awesome looking to symbolism and makes you think about how humans learned such behaviours
I assume it developed along with human evolution instead of being developed after humans evolved to their current state.
What I mean is, by the time anatomically modern humans came along, cavemen, they probably already had a fairly complex language system that could express any concept they understood that they inherited from their non-homosapien ancestors.
All animals have some sort of instinctual form of communicating, man's ancestors were the same and as they evolved so did the communication. In that sense, I don't think language was "invented" so much as it gradually evolved along with us.
Of course I have no idea what I'm talking about, I'm not an anthropologist and I'm just a drunk idiot waiting for my SO to wake up from her nap, talking out of my ass about a subject I just started thinking about 2 minutes ago. But I just think that a human yelling "fuck you" isn't as different from a cat hissing as our egos lead us to believe.
Edit: I looked up some theories, from first quick reading, if you assume that modern humans did invent language at some point, my favorite is the "mother tongue" theory in that language started by mothers who would find unique ways to communicate with their children in their formative years, who then picked it up and used it throughout their lives, slowly forming one single language among early humans that then developed, spread and changed.
You ever seen a little kid who is just learning to communicate try and talk to you? You can barely understand them, and sometimes they just make up words? It’s Like that, except no one was there to correct them.
Love it when they make up words! My oldest called stairs “gaminjies” and he had another great word for any letter or number but I’ve forgotten it... sad times
Theres a Great Courses lecture series on linguistics thats awesome in discussing how languages change over time. Maybe you'll find it helps answer your question. Its called The Story of Human Language, and the lecturer is John Mcwhorter.
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind is a great book that touches on this stuff.
Slaisa · 5 points · Posted at 18:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first word ever developed was probably "OI" to catch the attention of another person. It's a fairly simple pronunciation that is very accurate across all languages and cultures.
Got another one for you to think about. We all speak a family of languages from Iceland to India because a tribe figured out how to get and make use of medium sized horses
I like to confuse myself every couple of months thinking about this. I've always asked myself or if someone is around when it comes to mind "why is a fridge a fridge and not a spoon?" Or something like that
Language predates humans. Animals have language too. Basically you make sounds that have meanings. I yell, and you know there is a predator near by. I yell differently and you know it mean I want to mate. From that vocal pattern develop complexity as it is deemed necessary.
If there is one predictor that is a blue bird and another that is a white fox, then the shouts will be different.
Awoogh would mean white fox and
Ba-a-a-ahh would mean blue bird.
So now the colors are linked to those screams, as well as the predator.
We stop shouting, and that takes out the A, leaving use with woogh. We simplify that over years, and it gets simplified differently when we separate for generations. One group replaces the "oo" with "I", another with "A". So the languages have slightly diverged. One know white to be WIght, the other as WAght. This continues for thousands of years.
And of course when we see things we have to name them, but names are rarely made up out of the blue. We name things after how they look, where they are, after things that are significant to us. So we name a town we founded after ourselves. We name ourselves based on what we do. We name other towns after what is around it. We name the animals we find based on how they look, where they are found, or if we are a tad argent, after ourselves.
Obviously Something significant to me is different than something that is significant to you, so when I find a new toad, I'll name is the grassy knoll toad, which will be shortened over generation to something like gnoltoad. While you may name it something like the lumpy backed toad, which gets shortened to lumack toad. Two word for the same thing.
This continues and builds on itself for generations, and sooner or later you have a ton of different words for the same things.
But if I make something like a computer, then I get to name it. And since I'm introducing it to you, it retains that name. That is why some words are the same no matter where you go. But people may choose a new word for that object, and society recognizes that word over the other. Such as cars being called automobiles. Some language, like German, shortened the word to just "auto", while English changed that word to an entirely new word.
Animals do not have language. Ask any linguist and they will tell you that there is a real difference between communication and language, and that's what separates us from animals. Language learning is not just learning words; humans need to have an understanding of syntax, morphology, phonology, phonetics, in order to speak their language. They need to know the grammar, not just words. If language was just content words, our speech would be entirely telegraphic, like babies. I would just have to say "give Book Me" or "book here". But we can recognize that those two sentences are ungrammatical, so there has to be more going on.
but what I'm trying to discuss here is how language developed and is created. Honestly it sounds like your arguing semantics. I will concede that language was the wrong word for that particular sentence, but I do feel that it gets the point across well enough.
The problem is is that, throughout this thread, people are giving very elementary explanations of how language developed. The real explanation is that it is a hotly debated question within linguistics and we still aren't so aware. We don't even know exactly why humans are so good at learning language in the first place --- some people think that if you took a baby from the caveman years, you could teach it language, others don't. The mere statement "language predates humans" is just incorrect as language is something uniquely human. When you're talking about how language develops, it's important to make the distinction between language and communication because a simple "humans repeat and store what they've heard" isn't even enough to explain how babies learn language, much less the development of language itself. There is really no empirical evidence for most of the conversation, so most of the work done is just pure speculation. One of the reasons why language development is so difficult is because language itself is so complex.
It might be important to make the distinction that linguists have a unique standard definition of what a language is that does not allow for certain forms of communication to be considered language.
This just made me think, what came first speaking or writing? Obviously it has to be speaking, but I can't imagine a group of people creating letters and combining them to make written words to describe their language.
Well simply put they didn't. It's a bit long to explain but basically people used drawings to communicate. Then they begun to simplify them more and more then boom letters.
One that that makes it easier for me to wrap my head around that is to realize that although we think of those cavemen as dumb creatures they are literally just as intelligent as we are which seems kind of weird to me.
Easier to understand from an evolutionary point of view, imo. We’re using words in sentence today that didn’t exist 4 years ago.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a fantastic book about this, called "The Mating Mind" by evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller. It basically suggests that complex language evolved via sexual selection, just like a peacock's plumage. Our ape ancestors would have chosen mates with the most sophisticated grunts/noises as an indicator of fitness, and over time these became increasingly complex until they developed into fully-fledged language. This probably wasn't the only factor in language evolution, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was a major one.
What's always baked my noodle about language is the limits that it puts on conscious thought because of the tools language hands us to comprehend the world around us and form ideas/arguments etc... and how this varies between languages 🤯
You know how even though animals don’t speak you can still tell from the noises they make and their body language whether they’re happy or sad or angry or begging for something or don’t want to do something? We just have a more complex version of that.
Some say there’s a link to magic mushrooms because they activate parts of the brain that normal won’t operate together. It’s called the stoned ape theory. 🤷🏽♂️
There is a podcast that I learned about on here called History of English Podcast. It is all about the history and development of the English language. It is fascinating! It doesn't talk about how cavemen first invented specific words but it tells a lot about how different tribes came to understand each other, why some languages were passed on more successful than others (it has to do with the ability to digest dairy), how the alphabet was developed, and why English has so many crazy words and rules. It is kind of mind blowing. Did you ever wonder why "c" can be pronounced as an "s" sound, a "k" sound, or can can be combined with "h" to make the "ch" sound and how to know which pronunciation to use in a given word? There is a whole episode dedicated to just the letter "C."
I think about this same thing all the time, glad there’s someone else who understands. These incredibly complex systems of communication and meaning, and we’re basically just grunting and moaning. It’s amazing
shaard · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone saw something crazy happen exclaimed in surprise and now we have definitions for "yeet" and "yeeted". One person saying it and getting others to agree on the usage is how we got here today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they were just door to door salesmen convincing people that "fhjaihsohhigao" is a word now
I think one early hominid got sick of another early hominid not understanding their grunting and pointing when they wanted a steak knife flint instead of the butter knife flint and in frustration said "just pass me the fucking steak knife" and that is how language was born...
You should read the book, “through the language glass” by Guy Deutscher - it’s fascinating and answers all of your questions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favourite is when you say a totally normal, everyday word so many times in a row that it ceases to have meaning, and even continuing to say it sounds weird in your mouth. Then you have to try to work backwards to figure out what the sound you're saying means. Bizarre.
Bro I'll just say a word and I'll say it over and over and over till it doesn't even sound like a word to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a look at toki pona, as you can see, words can be very simplistic and mean many different things, its only much much later that words began to be very precise. one meaning (sort of), one word (sort of).
I guess it would start with understanding sounds other humans make, like screaming or hissing or whatever. Other animals can already understand sounds like that and their basic meanings. I'm not claiming that that completely answers your question and I know it's a leap from what I suggest to modern day, but humans have been alive for like 200,000 years (Wikipedia), that's a lot of time to evolve
I think of this also and different accents and such that would of came to be like the American accent..or oddly enough why people’s noses are shaped different
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language evolved over time. If you look back to the 1920s, people talk different then they did now. Back in caveman times, they just had grunts, or vowel sounds like “Kanusk” which would mean bird or rock or something, then over time the language just evolved into English, or French, or Spanish, depending on what type of area your tribe was from.
One thing you mention, that is really important in the development of language, is pointing. It is widely theorized that spoken language derived from gestural language, aka sign language. This is called gesture theory, and now I am going to go spend an hour in a Wikipedia hole reading about it.
What’s crazier is how babies learn language. Even if they don’t fully speak until about 2 or 3 years old, even at like 1 year old they can understand so much of what people are saying it’s crazy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn’t all at once, Primitive language exists in many less intelligent animals. Birds, dolphins, chimps, dogs, and many other animals are able to vocally communicate to some extent. Over many generations, language became more and more sophisticated
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even animals can have a very basic language. The way your dog barks or makes other sounds have a meaning. It's a very simple language, with just a few words (hungry, play, leave me allone,...), but it's how language starts. From there on, it just becomes more and more complicated by adding words and grammar.
I was just having a conversation about this the other day. I feel like it had to stem from universal “sounds” and facial expressions together. For example a smile is friendly while grunting and baring your teeth is threatening... as far as how a comprehensive language was formed from those universal sounds/expressions over time... I have no fucking idea.
Consider that the word for mother is very similar in languages that didn't grow from or interact with each other, and that "ma ma" is a very easy sound for a baby to make, and one of the first sounds that they do make.
It's pretty much a direct line from that to language.
Oh nice, something that I’m slightly interested in too when I learnt about it. Not sure if you’ve heard of sign, signifier and signified. Long story short, the relationship between the signifier (i.e the word/image) and signified (i.e. the concept/meaning) is arbitrary so it means that we/people of the past pointing to a thing and saying a word would lead to them giving it a meaning. And this goes on and on and our vocab builds from there =)
There are a lot of theories about this. Boiling them down, they are basically that language developed from a combo of imitated natural sounds (bahhh would be "sheep" to early man); natural sounds (ouch would mean a wound); work sounds (the yo-he-ho theory); and various things like that. Eventually, those sounds evolved in to words
To add to this. I am amazed that anyone managed to communicate with people who didn't speak their languages. I think the Pope sent some kind of emissary to Genghis Khan and the message had to be translated 7 times or something.
I think along with what others have said it’s important to remember that sign language and body language probably played a huge role in the development of language... like, at no point would humans ever have felt disconnected from their tribe linguistically or like they couldn’t understand each other. Animals of the same species generally understand each other’s body language and there are many universal signs- pointing away/a direction for “there”, down/around for “here” or “this place”, at the person they’re speaking to for “you”, at someone else for “he/she/they”, etc.
I also might think back further if I were you- think like “monkeys leaving the trees” for this kind of thing, like apes who have calls and hoots to communicate. Cavemen (Homo sapiens, at least) were probably chattier than they get credit for, but then humans, apes and monkeys have always been extraordinary social. We will communicate by hook or by crook (or by blinking, if we have to!)
Ally, you fool, God gave us the words then got mad that we understood each other so he made everyone start speaking different languages so they had to leave and eventually war with each other.
Imagine, as a kid playing a vodeo game in another language, you cant understand it, so you name it how you think it would be called, but youll do that for every object and people imitate it
Basically evolution led to bipeds growing a “hyoid” bone (horseshoe shaped bone in the throat) giving us the capability of developing speech. We likely evolved from the Australopithecus afarensis- one of the earliest bipedal hominids a couple million years ago. It likely started off in grunts and over time became more complex and symbolic. If you’re interested, delve into linguistic anthropology. Probably developed this bone around 100k-ish years ago (early homosapiens) but earliest documentation of written language dates back to Mesopotamia around 3400bc iirc
Some theories suggest that it's related to a critical mutation in the brain that allowed us to think in such an abstract way. See Pinker or Chomsky - they argue pretty heavily in favor of language being inate and also specific to humans.
Other species communicate, but they don't have syntax like humans do. Even guerillas like Koko, who could do some basic sign language, don't understand syntax. Instead of, "I want to eat a yellow banana" It would be more like a disorganized outburst of "BANANA BANANA BANANA EAT BANANA YELLOW". So that suggests that human language as we know it (meaning subject-verb-object and other aspects of grammar) requires the brain hardware that we have.
This reminds me of an old school cracked skit “stuff that must have happened” the invention of last names. cracked It’s silly, but it’s a valid question. Why, and when did last names take hold? Id like to imagine that this solution came to life after the ninth “Michael Jr.” was born to the same family. They had resorted already to calling each other by their number, but needed an identity as a whole. So they became the Michael family.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a really interesting concept, and it's genuinely weird how human brains are wired up - or evolved, rather - to receive language. We see it with twins, who often make up a 'twin-language' that only they can understand. We see it with creole languages, where kids that grow up speaking pidgin suddenly create a grammar and a whole new language emerges - a creole.
Also, if a child is never exposed to human contact during their formative years, what we call feral children, they can never acquire language properly. Fascinating.
It started little by little with grunts and then thru mimicking other animals like birds. I haven't learned about written languages but i imagined Egypt or Mongols or like Vikings and then Spaniards help evolved them.
To be honest the language we are using today wasn't fully established by the early 19th century. My hint is its in Asia. Can you guess which it is?
It's interesting to look at certain commonly related words, like "hey" "oy" "ahoy" "hola" "yo" that are similar and cognate among different cultures. also like "ja" "aye" "yeah" "so" "oui" etc.
My thing is how people translate languages that have been forgotten or from newly discovered tribes. Like I can understand pointing at banana and each saying there own word. But how do you even get the other party to understand you are trying to translate or understand basic stuff like yes or no that you can't point at.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All communication is is symbolism. We have connected symbols to specific meanings. Everything you say or think is symbolic to something.
In order to communicate a thought to someone else you have to standardize the symbols. 2 people have to agree that "poopynuggetz" means something. Then they teach that to their children and so on until the language is formed.
It's both quite simple and extremely complicated. Every word in the dictionary has a symbolic meaning. Thousands of words and we all agree they mean the same thing. And to have that be able to be translated to different languages is fascinating. Humans all have similar ideas they want to share but different regions of the world came up with different sounds for the same symbols.
It's still evolving now. We dont really think about it because it's happening around us and isnt instantaneous, but it happens. 10 years ago the word "yeet" didnt exist in pretty much anyone's vocabulary, and now all sorts of people use it. We see other words gain new meaning, like "flex." Again, once upon a time it had just it's initial meaning, and now it also means showing off. We also see other terms fall out of use. Look up phrases from the 40s or 50s and there's loads we dont use today that are just so alien you may as well be reading Chaucer
Good theories I've read are that early language was used to coordinate effort. Grunting in unison when lifting or pulling at something heavy, for example.
You ever try talking to someone who doesn't get what you are saying until you say the right words that make it click? Like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel the way about food. Like I understand how primitive man could have accidentally made steak but even stuff that seems basic like a boiled egg is such a random thing to create out of the blue.
Make eye contact with someone else and turn back to the other person and say "sigh the boss wants me to get another cavity check. It's the 3rd one this week. At least it keeps the company safe."
I read this as saying "a nice talking to you," and I thought it was a quaint British saying.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it goes:
“nice talking to you”
“Yeah you too!”
“Alright later bud!”
“Yup later!”
“Alright be safe!”
“Mhm, take it easy your self!”
“Sure will see ya around!”
“Yup you too man!”
“Alright bye bye”
“Peace!”
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was once at a social gathering where a girl successfully ended the evening before it got into the "everybody knows this is over, but it won't end" moment. I still have a very vivid memory of what she did and continue to be in awe of her 6 years later.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell us!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is the thing I generallly dont understand. I watched it happe , know what she said and still have no idea how it worked
"I'll be off then" seems like such an unnatural thing to say. Feels like dialogue that would be in a book but nobody actually says in real life maybe I'm wrong though
One thing I do is to look into their eye and be warm and respectful when I say goodbye. Because if you genuinely like somebody it's OK to be a little rude so that you can be decisive. If you hurt some feelings you can always make up for it later. Give some shit, take some shit it's all good if there is trust.
I feel like this vibe is even more important than the actual words. (but the other comments are good suggestions for actual words)
Yeah, but when you have nowhere to be it comes out weird when you try to make it up. Just say "Alright, I'm gonna get going" hand out for knuckles of shake or whatever, and if they try to talk again say "I'll hit you up/text you/call you, etc. Try to go right before the lull, makes it a lot easier to leave on a high note while your confidence is intact, before the awkward silence kicks in.
When it get to the awkward part your brain will tell you you need an excuse, a place to be, whatever, 19 times out if 20 you don't. Most people won't question it and don't expect you to tell them where you are going, you just THINK they will.
I had to relearn to not over apologize or make excuses. When I had to say no I always had to have a valid reason even if it was fake, someone told me just say "No thanks" and keep it moving. That using excuses only gives some people leverage to convince you, you are telling them what tactic to use. When someone tries to do it now I just use No again, but it rarely happens anymore. It's like I was slightly subtly telling people that I wasn't convinced of my no myself.
Boydle · 6 points · Posted at 21:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I preface my disconnect with compliments. "Well it's good to see you doing so well!" "I'm glad to hear you did that thing." "it was so nice to meet/see you" then "I gotta head out and so something, byyyye have a good one"
I do the same thing! The Hufflepuff is strong with me.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always TRY to do this but I’m not socially graceful and always fuck it up. Like when I try to start my statement the other person will interrupt me mid way and ask a question.
“Well I have some thi-“
“Oh your dog is so pretty what type is he?”
Then I’ll try it again and fuck up the timing.
“What time did you want to meet for lunch again?”
“Well I have some things to do. I’ll see you around. Pleasure talking to you”
Overall I come off as awkward or as an awkward asshole.
Exactly. If the conversation doesn’t end there, I assume that I’m able to make further small talk later. If it ends there, I won’t interact with you other than to nod at you
I was at the store a couple weeks ago, and this guy and I struck up a rolling conversation over the course of an hour and a half. When the “alright, I gotta do x” came, that was it
I have practiced saying 'It's been so nice to chat with you. Have a great day!' And then just leave. If someone did that to you, you wouldn't be upset so it's no biggie to another person.
I used to be a lawyer and had 4 steps on my "time to finish this consultation" ladder:
"OK then"
"OK then" again, but this time slapping the table gently with both hands
Stand up
Walk from behind desk, past client and open door
Only one client ever stayed sitting past step 4. It was horrible, I was powerless to defeat him. He stayed another 15 minutes, trying to teach me positive energy moves from his own brand of tai-chi.
The key is that the sentence "I was a Lawyer," implies either a cessation of the state of being or a previous period of time which ended, through which they were a Lawyer, even if they remained within the profession through the end of that time period.
"I was alive yesterday, and I am alive today, with good luck, I will be alive tomorrow."
Excessively-chatty opposing or even non-opposing counsel are the worst. Yes, I do remember that case from three years ago. Yes, I am still to busy to reminisce about it.
Unfortunately lawyers don't get emergency pager calls, you lucky doctors! (Although "sorry he's at court today" is every legal secretary's line if they know you don't want to talk to that client today!!)
POSVT · 4 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooh "he's in court today", thats a good one!
Usually whoever's on phone duty will tell the pt, "I'm sorry Dr. POSVT is with a patient right now, can I take a message?" But that's also usually true if I'm in clinic and not on the inpatient side
I'm a mental health counselor, did the walking toward the door thing one time etc., and finally I just had to say, "Okay you need to leave now."
It got to where my coworkers would "call me over" to help with something, because that person didn't have good boundaries, and that was my way to "break free."
POSVT · 3 points · Posted at 22:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An an intern, before I figured out how to page myself (which is suprisingly difficult if your pager system isn't set up to allow SMS) I'd get stuck in rooms forever and ended up late to conferences/rounds etc because of it so I learned to get the patient's nurse to bail me out after 15 mins or so "Dr there's an urgent call for you at the desk from <anesthesia/radiology/pharmacy/etc" or "Dr we need you in another room now"
Decided that as a lawyer all I could do was try and clean up people messes after they made them, so decided to become a primary school teacher and stop them making the mess in the first place!
Yep, but money isn't everything. Some bits of being a lawyer was interesting (court and police station) but other bits were easy too boring for me (and in the long run its worked out well as I now teach one day a week and the rest of the time run my own business and get to travel the world training other teachers)
I had two clients like this when I worked at a vet clinic. I was an assistant, but we started and ended the veterinarian's appointments, and there were two clients that my vet knew to save me from. There was one time that my vet was also dealing with an emergency and no one else knew I was in there and I ended up literally having to just... leave. In the middle of a sentence. The appointment was 30 minutes, and I was in there for 25 of it (it wasn't as rude as I make it sound, but I literally made up an excuse while they were still talking and just left without hearing their response).
The other client one time kept talking even as we walked out the sliding door and started closing it slowly. I was able to walk away into the treatment area while the vet continued to close the door until only her face was visible to the client. I gathered the rest of my coworkers and we watched in awe as this client just kept talking to a face in a mostly-closed door.
When I was getting a divorce, my lawyer said that I had twenty minutes free for a consultation. After that, I owed him for his time. When 19 minutes had elapsed, he noted such. It was a pretty good way to stop the conversation.
The table slap is so true,like a less offensive looking at watch. And standing up ready for a hand shake never failed for me. You just casually stand up maintain eye contact while talking. Reach out your hand. And boom you are out.
Oh my gosh, I freaking love those people! They have no sense of social convention whatsoever and throw you completely off your feet. Now you need to think on the fly. It feels like a big social prizefight. And you get a great story in the end.
I'm a mental health counselor, did the walking toward the door thing one time etc., and finally I just had to say, "Okay you need to leave now."
It got to where my coworkers would "call me over" to help with something, because that person didn't have good boundaries, and that was my way to "break free."
The real trick here is to say, "Well, that accounts for the time I have allotted for you today. If you'd like to continue this meeting I will have to charge you for another hour of my time."
kioku · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I can just picture this. And him doing that to EVERY person he comes into contact with. Some people just LOVE to hear themselves talk. Makes them feel important in ways that they can’t just do for themselves.
VymI · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just pull a Harvey and yell "GET THE HELL OUTTA MY OFFICE!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its funny, cos this is not a formalised system or anything that I do, and Ive litrrally never thought about it until now, but i basicaly do exactly your steps. Particularly the table slap weirda me out. Is this just innate western body language at work?
This so much. I really try to teach people this. A lot of things are awkward simply because you THINK they're awkward, and thus, with that mindset, make them actually awkward.
It's a self-fulfilling prophecy type of thing.
Clari24 · 21 points · Posted at 20:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or the British classic ‘Anyway, I’ll let you get on’
“Alright, I’ll see you later” is all you’ll ever need
Lee_Ars · 12 points · Posted at 21:04:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Anyway, here's Wonderwall."
Ehalon · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh godsssssss I've known a few of these. I love your suggestions, however there IS a level boss higher than this, absolute social failures need to here:
"Anyways, I'm going now, thank you. BYE" - (no need to hang up on them....99.999% of the time, just don't let them get beyond a reply of "ok, bye then..did you happe..." HANG UP!!! lol
Sounds like something I do. He probably doesn't even think there is an awkward silence there.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also sounds like something I'd do, except that I would know about the awkward silence and try to reach to the cause of what caused it, and fail miserably
I’ve been a supervisor for a long time and I never have awkward silences. I’ll just say “Ok then, get back to work” or “Ok then, I have to get back to work”. Because of this my team recognizes that my time (and theirs) is valuable and we can’t waste any of it on awkward silences
Never leave it at just "anyways". I always follow the anyways with "I don't need to keep you all day" or "I better get back to it". Those two phrases are so vague and can apply to almost any situation. They are pretty much universal for "I'm done talking to you now". I don't think I have ever had anyone push past those two (except one person I know, but he is a different breed)
One of the greatest skills I have ever perfected is maintaining direct eye contact and feeding those uncomfortable silences (usually with a pleasant yet annoying smile on my face).
My parents will just go on and on in conversations so I've become really good at directing the conversation and ending the conversation when I need to go. Not sure how to explain it, but it's just something you have to learn with practice.
How the fuck do you think that's his fault? You don't say "anyway" and then follow up with nothing???
If someone says "anyway" it means they have something they want to talk about. If you're done talking, you have to follow it up with "I need to go", or "is there anything else we need to discuss?". You don't just leave them hanging.
I have a really cool manager.
So we're bullshitting on the phone but I need to get back to work because I actually have deadlines for shit and need to talk to other people while they're available.
So after the second "anyway"... I just blurted out "isn't it cool how I'm getting paid to bullshit on the phone instead of working?"
It worked almost immediately.
Him: "All right I get the hint. Talk to you later"
Have you worked for me before? I love creating awkward silences for both my workers and customers, it works amazingly well when you smile weirdly and don’t change your facial expression or break eye contact until they say something.
It's an Italian word, which is why it seems so weird spelled out. Same thing with rendezvous or colnel. They're both French, which is why our English speaking brains expect them to be spelled "rondayvoo" or "kernel".
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately, when i say that to my mom, all it does is slightly drag her back to the subject she was already talking about before getting sidetracked on 30 different tangents. I announce that we're gonna head out, and she never stops talking. She is the master of Minnesota goodbyes.
My go to phrase is, "well, I'll let you get back to it" and then head on my merry way. It gives the impression that you were interrupting them and dont want to take up any more of their time even though, knowing me, it's probably the opposite.
Lucls · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL Segway is a pun and segue is an actual verb. Thanks internet
The only people I know who say "aaaaanway" or "so" over and over again just seem to be thinking of the next useless thing to say. I'll think the conversation is over and then they just awkwardly segue into the next thing I don't care about.
No! It’s like eating a sensible meal. You don’t converse until you’re full. You end the chat as soon as you’re not hungry for conversation anymore.
The key to good small talk is to end it before it gets stale. This is especially true for planes and neighbors, once you set a pace that you can have a nice quick chat, your neighbor will be more willing to engage you again, knowing you’re not gonna subject them to a stop-n-talk.
Say you are in a business call with someone and you want to end the conversation because you've finished talking about what you needed to talk about.
But now there's this awkward silence where no one is saying anything. Can someone please provide some good lines one can say to wrap up the conversation?
“Right, I think that’s about it. Is there anything else you wanted to add?”
“Okay, I think we’ve covered all the important points. Unless there’s anything else, we can wrap up there.”
When you detect the conversation has reached a natural conclusion, signal it’s over but allow the other person to add any final thoughts. You might also summarise actions you’ve agreed, depending on the subject of the conversation.
I repeat an abbreviated summary on my next actions and thank them for their time. Then say “have an a great day/weekend” etc. the convo will naturally end. “Great, I will email you that list. Thanks so much for your time. Have a good afternoon.”
Or you thank them for their time and say you won’t take up any more of it. “Ok, awesome! Well thank you so much, I won’t take up an more of your time”.
If you are not naturally skilled at something, that just means you will want to study it more, get some aids to help you (like stock sentences to get your out of difficult spots), and just practice it more. It's really hard to feel awkward if you just keep doing something a TON. Eventually you may just get bored by it instead but the body has difficulty keeping anxiety up over the same thing over and over long term. For some it may take a LOT of practice but practice does two thing, one it is systematic desensitization and two, if you also use aids to improve your skill, then you tend to less awkward at something as you improve with it. ALso keep in mind a lot of peeps are awkward with small talk, you'll probably sense awkwardness from others often, that does not mean it's anything you did, they also often just have their own issues. But if you become more skilled at guiding conversations, that helps them relax as well. Even if you suck at something, with practice and study you will likely get better than the average person who is not making an effort to get better.
Or you go just a little bit through the awkward and potentially have a great story to tell about some wacko at the grocery store.
And I'm pretty sure that's how comedians come up with jokes. They just talk to weirdos and idiots and go along with it until something interesting happens.
Truuu. There’s no cookie cutter way to be social. Going with the flow and learning to trust your intuition more and more every time you put yourself in those situations is how I’ve gotten better. And if something ended up awkward do not, do not obsess how you messed up and replay the conversation.
And it feel like it goes against the grain to try to not obsess over that embarrassing thing you went through but remind yourself that THAT specific situations over, forever. but there’s no purpose behind it except to judge yourself. If you just forgive yourself and forget it even happened other people will treat you with that same attitude.
My therapist once told me that people treat you the way you tell them to. And that goes for whether you’re charming, shy, abrasive, or mean. And even a 3 year old can figure out what consequences they’ll get trying out each of those attitudes.
I actually find it easier to talk to strangers then people I know.
Which is weird
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:38:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not as weird as you think. Complications and complexity comes to factor when talking to those you know. Why are you talking? What are you talking about? What’s the meaning of this conversation? Is this conversation supposed to lead to further action?
With someone you don’t know, it’s usually just random, off the cuff, easy, genuine and over quicker than you know it started.
Sometimes I feel like I could give a speech to hundreds easier than I could talk to a woman I fancied.
I'm a perfectionist with this shit. You talk as long as it feels natural, when it stops feeling natural both parties usually can tell and we let it fade. It doesn't even necessarily get awkward every time, you just quit once you feel yourself forcing the conversation. I go to bars/restaurants by myself a lot and make small talk with whoever is next to me almost every time.
I'm killer at this too. I've had friends ask my how the hell I do it. Honestly I just ask people a question pertaining to the situation we're in and I do it like I've known them all my life. Now that I think about it I tend to ask more conceptual questions like: What do you think motivates people to do <thing>? Where <thing> is someone doing something nearby or goofy or outrageous. Also, I ask follow up questions, my conversations are not one-up-manship monologue trades.
My problem is that I hate talking about myself which leads me to not know what to ask people because I kind of assume that they wouldn't want to either. How am I supposed to come up with questions to ask when I myself wouldn't want to be asked them?
Try not to lead with your feelings. You might just be setting yourself up for failure every time. Start off by being a likable person in the first place. Actually, I think the key to being a good conversationalist with anyone is to simply be genuine and portray and project that genuineness. have a calm and pleasant look on your face, maintain good eye contact. Once you get good at creating a connection with people then it becomes very easy. I think that we have our heads down, so to speak, so often now that we fail to look up and look around and truly appreciate other people and have empathy. If you don't know what empathy means look it up. Have you ever had somebody in your life that seems to know what you need at all times? My aunts and uncles and grandparents were farmers and hard-working people and also really really good people at heart. They seem to have this capability. That, among other things, is empathy.
If you feel like you're being judged, deal with it. Move on and try again some other time. If you view the judgment as a negative feeling, then analyze it and ask yourself what you did or what you might have done to feel judged. Also, be brave enough to ask yourself, was I wrong about feeling judged? Sometimes we get into these lazy habits of just going the easiest emotional route, claiming defeat, and never trying that thing again. Be confident, you can do it.
You've put it well but for many people thats not something that can be explained into practicing it. Especially the "just quit when you feel yourself forcing it". What if literally every conversation feels like you're forcing it from the start?
I can do it as long as there’s no hint of judgment or dislike of me. If there’s even the smallest of indications that the person has negative feelings towards me, then I am an awkward mess.
That’s why you practice. You do it enough that you find the questions that people want to answer, the stories they want to hear you tell, the demeanor and diction that attracts people and makes them glad they talked to you. I’m naturally very outgoing but I have had to practice not being too friendly and imposing right off the bat.
If one has social skills. I've known plenty of people that don't know, or they dominate a conversation and will talk straight for 20 minutes, 40 minutes, or 18 hours without stopping, without asking a question to you. They just exist for the sake of listening only to their own voice, and literally will never stop talking, nor let you interject anything at all. I've run into many of these types of poeple, and at some point, you just have to completely socially cut them off. I don't have time to educate them on social etiquette.
Bro 😂Those people are just obnoxious af I’ve dealt with those kind before. U gotta rip off the bandaid and sorta leave the conversation in a way that’s respectful to them but the best excuse is to just say you’re busy and don’t really have the time right now.
And it’s funny, I used to rant and go off all the time and until I actually, actually listened to if they were really caring. they were never even listening to my rants or anything, they’d just humor me and agree or smile. And I realized I need to shut the fuck up because no matter how much something matters to you, you can’t convince the other person it’s importance unless it specifically pertains to them. So I stopped telling my life story every time I talk to people and started listening to THEIR stories. I’ve made more friends doing that for a couple months than I have in like years, and all my relationships with people I was already friends with all kinda improved too. Probably because I finally stopped taking the floor and gave them opportunities to be themselves and talk, not just be a fake listener.
Bro 😂Those people are just obnoxious af I’ve dealt with those kind before.
Right? It's the personality type that I most run from. I'll take a straight up mean asshole before non-stop talkers.
U gotta rip off the bandaid and sorta leave the conversation in a way that’s respectful to them but the best excuse is to just say you’re busy and don’t really have the time right now.
I know, that is what I do. It's just the most difficult, because I try to be polite. But, it's really the only solution. I'll tell people I have to get back to work, and just leave, and as I'm leaving, they don't even acknowledge it. They just continue talking, even after I turn the corner I can still hear them. Like, WTF?
And it’s funny, I used to rant and go off all the time and until I actually, actually listened to if they were really caring.
I don't mind a rant every now and then. That is ok and expected. Everyone does this, and if you are a polite and aware person, you give them the ear and listen, because that's what people want.
But, as you said, if it's all the time, then no. And, it's usual that if it is MY turn to rant, because I need to, then they won't let me and just start talking again and won't stop. There's no social reciprocity. I listened to you, you motherfucking better listen to me when it's MY turn.
So I stopped telling my life story every time I talk to people
Oh, shit, I hate this. Tell me about the weather, I don't have the strength to listen to life stories. Not until I know someone for a year and if I'm a friend.
and started listening to THEIR stories.
Nice.
It's not bad to share life stories, but just 2 minute story. Then it is the other person's time to talk for 2 or 3 minutes. Dialogues, not monologues. If I want a 30 minute monologue, I'll watch a TED talk or something.
I’ve made more friends doing that for a couple months than I have in like years
Totally.
Probably because I finally stopped taking the floor and gave them opportunities to be themselves and talk, not just be a fake listener.
It's better to be a good listener, but I'll take a fake listener that gives me equal talk time, over a diarrhea of the mouth person who never let's you talk at all.
Glad you changed your communication style, good job!
Comment on something going on around you. Whatever’s on the tv, the song that’s playing. the drink you’re drinking, ask them what they’re eating, give them a compliment on their hat. Before I do this I try to make eye contact and smile at least once or twice and smile. Hold it for a couple seconds after they smile back or nod and then look away or go back to your phone/food/the tv. That way it seems less random when you start up a conversation because you’ve acknowledged each other.
Thanks for the advice. I guess just pick a random topic (that both can somewhat relate to) and run with it.
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 18:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I start angling my body away, and issuing benedictions “ok! Well, have a good one!” “Hope you get to enjoy this beautiful weather!” “May your daughters be fertile!” Oh look! I have my car keys in my hand suddenly, and have started talking to you over my shoulder.
My strategy is to always wind up the encounter first, because I cannot survive the idea that I might be awkwardly holding someone up who is trying to extricate themselves.
That lady I sat next to on the plane a few months ago never got the cue I wanted to end the conversation. Even when I unpaused my movie several times. 4 hours. FOUR HOURS!!!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet you every time there was a lull you gave her a solid minute of silence to let her continue, then when she didn't you pressed play, and the INSTANT you pressed play she started on again.
Bingo. Best part of it all, she bought her seat the night before so there was a chance I could’ve had an empty middle seat beside me. Also, the conversation started because she asked if she could stick her large purse under the seat in front of me taking away my leg room.
I struggle with this BIG time. If I have to go or am in a rush I'll still feel too awkward or rude to stop a convo when it needs to and usually pray the other person will for me. I'm awful at being assertive socially lolol
But my current job has forced me to get better at it, I work in therapy so I'm often on the phone to some very vulnerable people, particularly currently with all the shit that's going on. Parents in lockdown who haven't spoken to another adult in a very long time...oh yeah, you can imagine how long it can go on for, lol.
I've found the best way now is to, of course, let them talk as much as they need to but already give yourself a set "finish' time that they're unaware of. In this case it's 50 minutes maximum as that's the average time of a regular therapy session anyway. And when it comes closer, start the "wrapping up" language. The round-it-off statements like taking a big breath and pretty much gently summarising what you've just talked about. Sort of, "well I've got to say it's great that your mother is talking with you as you'd mentioned, and it sounds as if exercising is really doing you well" etc just listing and mentioning everything you've discussed
Some might go with it, some really won't take that approach and would gladly continue talking for hours (I don't blame them one bit for that)
So then I do the one that almost ALWAYS works; when they've paused for a moment, take that to say "well, I won't take any more of your time up!"
That seems to work because you're putting the feeling of leaving them as a kindness to them. Instead of making them feel cut off or guilty, they feel it's actually my own burden for having to leave...none of this works all the time and I hate HATE when I have to simply be honest. Hate it, so worried I'll offend or hurt some people. But shit has to be done!
I’m not great at instigating conversations, but with practice I’ve noticed it’s based on 1. Chemistry 2. Similar sense of humor 3. Being able to ask questions based on what the other is interested in.
You just ask questions and listen to the answers. To do that, you have to actually be interested in the person and their perspective or insights. Occasionally, you commiserate, but never interrupt. When the flow starts to fade, say something to part ways.
I don’t like being in crowded places but for some reason I’m great at small talk that leads to serious conversations where we can talk like we’re friends catching up. I don’t have “real friends” I speak to daily (or even al all) but I have a lot of older friends I see regularly like delivery people and I feel like I’m distanced enough to where I get the daily connection but not the problems of other people. I do genuinely care for these people but I’m not looking into developing really close friendships.
It's not awkward for social people because imperfect conversations are normal. So the "awkward" silence are just par for the course and you dont have to take them as bad. If you dont take them as bad then you dont need to have much anxiety over them.
You see this in other things as well. What things do you participate in that have mistakes that are considered perfectly acceptable and normal even if it's not desired? A 20 minute unproductive conversation at work. Missing a bit of dust under the counter when cleaning. Overcooking food or slightly messing up the flavor. But you take a bite into the food and say "this is still pretty damn good and those small mistakes are fine."
The non-initiator is just politely reacting to the initiator and feels awkward throughout the entire interaction. This is my perspective as an introverted non-initiator.
I can get everything down but the goodbye. So I dont say goodbye. I kind of just say good seeing you and then walk away. Phone calls I just say thank you and hang up.
For me it's like finding something that'll brighten people's day, usually a small joke. I'll make a comment about what they're shopping, the weather, their shoes, etc. I usually make people have a small chuckle and then move on.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah if there’s a pause and you can see there’s nothing left either person wants to say you just give them a pleasant goodbye
CC--- · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been one of those perfect strangers before. Honestly, I’m not sure how we do it. We just do. Usually it’s in a situation where I’ll be forced to walk away like when I’m waiting in line at the grocery store
bosco9 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually seems to go like this: 1) greeting 2) ask them about someone they know/something on the news/etc 3) awkward silence when both parties ran out of things to say and then it usually ends
Well, at one point in my life I decided to go out to the world and begin small talk with as most people as I could, just for the sake of it.
Nowadays I can engage in small talk very comfortably, and when I want it to end I just simply make the decision in my mind, and then the conclusion of the talk sort of manifests into existence. I feel like I begin to give some subtle cues that its about to end and the other person sort of safely disengages from the talk, and then i disengage.
You need to have the ability to make non-akward silences simply by feeling comfortable within yourself and giving off that aura of relaxation and also the ability to walk away.
Pay attention to their body language. Signs they're done? Scratching their neck/back, folding their arms, eyes darting elsewhere, and especially if their feet start pointing away from you (even if it's just one). Those are the signs to wish them a good day and go elsewhere.
If you're reaching for something to say instead of wanting to say something say nothing. It is ok to just make a sound. You have to have the confidence to want to say something and hear a response rather than wanting to be heard.
When I meet a stranger, I look at anything they are wearing or listen to what they are talking about. Then try to build on the conversation.
For instance, I see a guy at a cookout wearing a Browns hat. I'll ask him a general question like "Who do you think the Browns are going to draft?" This lets me gauge how big of a fan he is, if he's been watching the latest sports news, or if he's more of a casual fan. etc
Religion. You really believe hat your particular version of magic is the right one? There is such overwhelming evidence against most of the nonsense that people believe. How does it keep going?
I'm one of these people. Whilst I couldn't explain each conversation to you, I can tell you the principles behind them.
It's really about watching, listening and not being self-conscious. You can start these conversations with a small question or observation, and gauge by other persons response whether you should continue further. Once you've done it a few times, it becomes progressively easier.
A real key part is not caring too much. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, it really doesn't matter. It's not a rejection of you as a human being, it might not even be about you. Either way, you don't know and never will, so why care?
Practice makes perfect, no one starts good at anything.
Zisx · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is- most people have small talk/ think like ceu's on a video game. Or if you don't want to engage in small talk- just listen to the other person. Ppl like to be heard & eventually they should get the message you're not really interested
It's pretty formulaic.
"Hey."
"Hey. How's your day going?"
"Good, you?"
"Can't complain. Man, it's so hot today!"
"Yeah, really hot. I don't remember it being this hot last year by April."
"Me either. It's making it harder for me to stay indoors right now. I just want to be golfing."
"Me too. It's so nice to have some sunshine."
"Well, here's my stop. See you!"
"Bye!"
You just have a regular conversation about trivial, non-offensive things. Then when there are clues the other person wants to end it (gathering belongings, starting to lean towards the exit, saying goodbye or anywayyy, etc.) the other person says goodbye.
kirdie · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that just comes from experience when they have done it a few thousand times.
I used to not understand how to do this either. Then one day I realized I have to be the one to end the conversation. So now I'll let the common small talk questions flow and get answered:
Some greeting: "Oh, hi I'm [insert name, real or fake] maybe add a handshake
"How are you?"
"What brings you here?"
"Where do you live?"
"How old are you?"
"What's your name?"
"We should hang out sometime, are you in to [insert some noun that may help form a connection and further talk around that noun]
I'll ask and answer the common questions and then when we've had our fill of getting to know eachother, I'll either ask to exchange contact info and then state a goodbye or go with the goodbye right away:
"Well, it was nice to meet you. You have a good day and take care."
"I'm glad I ran into you. Let's set something up soon/go get coffee sometime/see a movie sometime. Wanna exchange numbers?"
When I here them state a similar goodbye I'll smile and walk away.
When I get an answer to my number exchange question, I'll either exchange numbers and smile and walk away, or state, 'Well that's alright" if they say no, reiterate some goodbye and take care and then smile and walk away.
(Smiling is up to you. I sometimes just walk away because the exchange was so easygoing or the person was rude and I no longer care to chat with them.)
If we're perfect strangers, I physically remove myself from the situation. They don't know what I have to go and do, I can just make some bs up, or say I have to go to the bathroom. If I want to keep talking to them after then I get their social info so we can talk online or something later. I think I've always been this way, because I can't remember a situation where I've had this awkward silence at the end of a conversation, I just kinda leave to avoid it
I'm pretty good at this and I have never even thought about why. I want to say practice but it has always kind of been a strong suit. Maybe just a personality thing?
Keep your responses short and vague if it’s someone you don’t really care about talking to; for example “ahhh that’s crazy” “ohh really?” “huh, that’s interesting.” Slowly back away and position body away from them as you throw in a small laugh and let them know to have a good day.
Or if it’s someone you’re genuinely interested in ask them questions, let them talk about themself and pay attention to what they’re saying instead of thinking about how to respond. People like to talk about themselves and it psychologically makes them like talking to you. The thing is it actually makes it easier on them too. It’s easy to answer questions about yourself or about something you’re knowledgeable about obviously.
And don’t worry if you give a stupid response, everyone does it all the time. The person you’re talking to does it as well and they’re not better than you just because you said something stupid.
I used to do a lot of traveling for work, which meant a lot of lonely nights at a hotel bar, which also meant a lot of chatting with strangers because I get bored. It's all about context. Usually you can just start with something innocuous, like I was sitting at a bar in Kearney, NE one time and struck up conversation with the guy next to me by just saying "Hey how about those Huskers this year?"
Truth be told I didn't know much about Nebraska Cornhuskers football that year, mainly because I couldn't give two fucks about Nebraska, but it spiraled into a fairly long conversation over a few drinks. Even if you aren't familiar with a topic, once you get someone started talking it's not terribly difficult to steer the conversation, and if you pay enough attention you can usually find topics you're familiar with even on a subject you don't know much about. It's really all about picking up on context clues.
Also, know the signs when someone doesn't want to talk. Some people just want to be left alone.
I can't converse with people, but I can generally do small talk, because there's already a script. Anything past that is extremely anxiety inducing. I have anxiety/social anxiety, though. Weed helps some.
Or when people make small talk and don't analyze every single thing about the conversation for days. I replay every conversation and somehow find a way to criticize myself everytime
In the conversation with someone and they ended it by saying, well I know you got to go...
I walked away being wow, that's how you end a conversation.
Alwin_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well isn't that what makes them perfect strangers?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The other day I said "Well, I gotta finish tightening these bolts". Will probably only work when you have bolts to tighten but worth a shot either way.
havent figured out the ending the convo bit unless it's like a saved by the bell kind of situation. But sometimes, it just starts with a compliment or if you both see something happen and just start talking about it. I dont get it myself, but it's nice to meet someone friendly and open and I'm more than happy to roll with it!
edit: I get really chatty, my partner often has to pull me away from conversations. They've admitted part of the stress for comic conventions for them is me spending half the con talking to random people and them having to drag me away. They're super introverted and have a harder time jumping in.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have 2 uncles who can literally talk for hours to people they had just accidentally run into. I never understood this & still dont. Both seem to have been gifted (or cursed) with verbal diarrhea.
Just look at your watch/wrist and say "Alright man, I gotta get goin'! Have a good one!" and walk away with purpose. Even if you can't leave, just make like you're late for your 2 o'clock poop and gotta take care of it asap.
When I want people to “leave me to it” I’ll just say “Okay, well I’ll leave you to it”.
As soon as you’re feeling the conversation has run it’s course, just make it seem like YOU don’t want to waste THEIR time and then just leave yourself.
You look like you’re being considerate, but you’re just framing your exist like that.
Disengage on a high note. When the conversation is still good but you're right at the cusp of running out of things to say then just be like "Alright, I'll see you later." (If you have nowhere to actually be, don't try to make up something, it will mess up the flow and 95% of the time no one actually expects you to tell them, your head just tells you they will.) Hand out for knucks or shake, or whatever (never go for a hi five, no one ever expects it and it makes it weird.) And walk away.
Have to go in their same direction? Don't, just walk the other way until they are out of sight and proceed upon your route.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"well, have a nice day" and walk away. You'll get it right at least half the time.
LPT: My secret to exit a conversation is to thank them for something they’ve done in the conversation. It’s a perfect segue to exit and instead of feeling awkward, they feel reassured and confident. Win win.
“Well thanks for letting me know about the bees nest, Jim. What would we do without you? Great talking to you!”
“Thanks again for the weather tip! Better go grab my umbrella now! Bye!”
“Thanks for the compliment, you charmer, now I’m set for the day. Gotta go!”
“Well. Thanks for the chat. Let’s chat again soon.”
Oh man this makes me cringe. I'm from the Midwest and people always expect you to have a conversation with them when they strike. Waiting at a bus stop and its you and 1 other person? "Oh boy the weather today is much nicer than yesterday, huh?" Or you're just trying to get your groceries "oh I love that brand more than the other brand!". As someone who has severe social anxiety my entire life has been "how do I get out of this conversation with this complete stranger, without hurting their feelings?"
“im gonna let you go, i’m sure you’re busy!” or
“well it was great meeting you”
gouf78 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read “How to Talk to Anyone “ by Leil Lownden. She studies language and conversation styles. Super book. She’s written many and some of the best are about conversation dynamics among family members.
I used some of the tricks in her book and (when I got brave enough) struck up a conversation with a total stranger who turned out to be totally fascinating (writing a book, about to be published, traveled world wide) character. Once you learn to put yourself last (everyone loves to talk about themselves) it’s very easy. But helps to have some pointers on how to steer a conversation. As an introvert it’s given me a lot more confidence in social settings where I don’t know anyone.
In the movies, people just plain hang up when the plot point has been made.
salgat · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small talk is all about speaking in very vague and general ways (such as "how is the weather" that everyone has an opinion on) and refining the topics as you find things in common. It's basically a way to probe for similar interests.
What’s even crazier is Larry is a midwestern American and Balki is Mediterranean. They have practically nothing in common yet they are able to small talk. Don’t get me started with all of Balki’s zany antics.
"I like corn" always works for me. They look confused at first, then comes the look of pity as if they feel sorry for you, then comes the look of concern as they contemplate whether or not you are about to cause them bodily harm. It helps if you stare blankly past them as if you are trying to read something behind them.
As an Irish person, whenever any conversation slows down I have a compulsion to go "ah sure look" but that ends literally every conversation. Horrible habit
Knowing when to end and exiting a conversation is a critical and tactical part of communication that MOST people are not good at. I love people, I’m a massive extrovert, and I get my energy from communicating with people. I like to watch how people talk and critically analyze the flow of how things work - like - a LOT of fights can be avoided with better verbiage and that absolutely fascinates me.
Small talk is a skill. There are rules of engagement, and it takes practice. That said, the best way OUT is to say “it was nice talking to you. if you need anything from me let me know.” Where that starts to get more challenging (also see-impossible) is when you’re forced to sit next to someone for long periods of time and there’s really no way out until you can leave.
My general rules-
1. Do NOT talk about Politics, Religion, Health, or Money. It’s even ok to say “I’m sorry, I don’t talk politics.”
2. DO talk about Weather, Sports, Music, Traffic, Work, Family, Food, Pets, Hobbies, Travel. Most everyone can relate and it’s not polarizing.
3. The most important person in the room is the person you’re talking to, not yourself. Be sure to ask lots of questions and let them carry the conversation. It’s like holding the door open (plus, if you’re not a talker, they’re doing all the work).
4. The fastest way to get to know someone is to ask them about their family. You’ll get a sense of how they were raised and what their beliefs and expectations are. Balance of probability, you can assume the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
5. Tip your waiter, step out of your comfort zone, and wash your hands.
Just thinking about life and the universe. Like where do we go after we die? Why are we here? Thinking about the universe and how big it is and space and time? Black holes? Why are here generally and what’s our purpose? If there are other live forms in different galaxies?
Dalipoc · 47 points · Posted at 17:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's one of life's great mysteries, isn't it. Why are we here? I mean, are we the product of... some cosmic coincidence or, is there really a God... watching everything? You know, with a plan for us and stuff. I don't know man, but it keeps me up at night.
I totally agree and also thinking about how big everything is I mean. You’re literally your own self right out 9 billion people it really makes you feel small and worthless at least to me it does. Or like if there is so many people like why do I matter.
tyrico · 15 points · Posted at 22:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah not to undercut your response but he was quoting the first scene from red vs blue, a parody/comedy series. Just search "why are we here red v blue" on youtube
It’s worth it. It’s very funny, an actually good story develops later, there are some mind numbingly good fights at around season 7 and on (or something like that), and it’s honestly just neat to see a series that’s 17 or so years old develop over time as they get better and more have more real animation. Also, stop at season 13, 14 if you want some extra anthology stuff. That’s the real ending, and everything after that will just sour the experience imo. Cheers~
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tend to think of death as like non REM sleep but forever because when we sleep we only really remember 1. going to sleep 2. our dreams if we dream (REM) and 3. waking up . I think its basically incomprehensible to our brains
Me too. Not existing is such a terrifying concept to me that I have to just make the decision to think of something else. Otherwise, I sink into a pit of despair.
Distraction is key. It’s pretty much the only thing that can get me out of it, or else I spiral into panic. Watch a funny YouTube video, play a game on your phone, read a controversial comment section that gets you pissed. Just anything to take your mind off of it.
Also, I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve conditioned my brain to force itself away from those thoughts the moment they pop up. Took a while to get there, but if you can train yourself to just nope out of that thought process right when it starts, you’ll suffer a lot less.
I know what you mean by training yourself, like the second the thoughts pop in, you dont let yourself "go deep". For some reason it's been harder lately, but I probably havent been truly trying things like your suggestions
Just face it. There's nothing you can do about it and we're all in this together. People that came before you, everyone you know now and everyone that will be after.
I'm not religious, but the way I dealt with fear was that I believe there is more meaning to everything. You have people saying "There's nothing. It's the end." ... And I just believe there's something more. Look at how beautiful life is. Here on Earth, how far people came. Look how misterious and beautiful the universe is. Everything is connected in one way or another. And I truly think that after we die, there's something more. Maybe you are reborn as someone else down the road? Maybe you exist in another space. Maybe you just become a part of something bigger. And even if there actually is nothing, you can't fathom it. :)
Well, that's part of the problem. I'm 100% convinced that after I die, there will be nothing. Nothing at all. I'm not religious. I don't believe in anything afterwards. It'll just be like before I was born and the logical thing is that it won't matter. I won't be aware that I don't exist, obviously. There won't be any pain, happiness or any emotions. No thoughts. No consciousness. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. It's hard to comprehend. And it's terrifying. If you believe in continued existence of some sort, then that's great. But I can't make myself believe something that I don't believe, if that makes sense.
It does makes sense and I understand why you feel that way.
But the best thing I can say to you then is to just enjoy your life to the fullest. Make the most of it and remember we're all in this together. Whatever THIS might be. :)
Yeah, same as other reply; distraction. I don't think my mind can ever come to terms with not existing. So I literally just have to think of other things. Distraction, distraction, distraction. I can't make myself believe something that I don't, so there's no other way around it for me.
Sometimes, and always at night, I realize I could die at any second and stop existing forever, and then I mean I'm glad its "nothingness" but maybe that's even scarier than... even pain? And then I hope I live forever. And then i know i wont and am terrified. And then I go to sleep and just live my next day with not a care in the world.
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hear you dude! And with our modern knowledge of space (billions and billions of galaxies, each with billions and billions of stars) there is absolutely no chance that our little rock is the only one that supports life, but this will be debated until we actually observe extraterrestrial life. Humans are weird
xkzito · 9 points · Posted at 21:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've thought about this a lot, and my current thinking is that, as existential and unsatisfying as it is to say, there isn't one. The desire to understand is a human thing, sure other species have a certain function or roll they fulfill, but humans are the only ones to ask why we do the things we do.
In fact questions themselves are only a human thing, we have taught apes, gorillas, chimpanzees, bonobos, and orangutans the sign language necessary to be able to ask questions, but none have ever done it. We've asked them questions which they have answered, they are able to make statements and requests, but they have not once asked a question despite being the most intelligent species aside from humans.
The truth is, we evolved to where we are now because our species, as well as all the species we originate from, were better at surviving than others. That's really the only reason humans exist, because we're abnormally smart compared to all other animals and it has allowed us to develop language and culture and infrastructure and technology and all these things that put us far ahead in the food chain. And the reason we have these things is because we are curious and want to make things better (a lot of us only want things better for ourselves unfortunately), we wanted to explore the world and colonize new places, and now that the world has basically been dominated by humans we want to explore everything outside of the world. We don't just want to experience things, we want to understand things.
So the reason we wonder about our existence is because we're uncomfortable with unknowns, when we saw a new piece of land beyond a sea, or an unreachable location past a mountain range, we had to know what lied beyond. And now that the entire surface of the Earth is charted with great detail, we have to know what lies beyond our planet.
Human existence is a never ending quest to answer unknowns, and unfortunately the biggest unknown looming over all of us is existence itself. Because the truth is, I can talk all day about evolution and how the galaxies and solar systems formed, but I still don't know how the big bang started, or what happened before it, and what will happen in the future. So I can't answer all the "how" questions, but I can at least have a good guess at "why", and say that there isn't an answer. You can certainly add meaning to your life with goals and relationships which is a great thing to do, but why you exist in the first place I don't think has some bigger meaning.
TLDR: Saying "we exist because we evolved this way, there isn't any larger meaning to it" is very unsatisfying, but it's just how it is. The universe wasn't designed for us, we just happen to live in it. The universe and everything in it existed far before us, and it will exist far after us, we just happened to be in the right circumstances to be able to exist. So really, in my opinion, there is no deeper meaning to why we exist. But that doesn't mean that our existence isn't an amazing miracle.
I like you're thinking, but I'm the person who believes in exactly the opposite thing you do.
I do thing there's a bigger meaning. Not as something heavenly or eternal life, but that we exist on much grander scale. How everything in the universe is connected. Maybe you will exist again, maybe you move to another place ... Everything has a beginning and end.
And even if it's like what you think or what I think, we can't do anything about it. And I agree with you that us existing is a miracle. Just look how beautiful small things at your place are. How beautiful our communities are. Our advancement as civilization. Look how beautiful planets and the whole universe it. So many possibilities. It's exciting.
Your belief is just as valid. I certainly still believe our existence is important, we have a large impact on the people around us and we all have the chance to really improve the lives of our fellow human beings, and even if we're small compared to the universe, our lives still matter.
And the truth is, my belief is what I currently think is most likely, who knows what I'll believe in the future. That's the great thing about being human, we are always experiencing new things and our experiences can change who we are.
Well the idea of infinite chance in an ever expanding universe is that there most likely is another planet that can recreate the conditions to create life
I dont know a whole lot about stuff, but I ask why a lot. I've come to terms with a concept that because the universe runs on logic and causality, that maybe it only exists with the universe. So, whatever happened 'before' time and existence existed, or what was there before, isnt subject to logic or causality.
This is.probably worded weird but it might make more sense in the scope of talking about the 'creation' on the universe: if something created the universe, what created it? Well, if it created the laws of logic and caused and effect, maybe it doesnt need all of that to exist.
I used to be afraid of death and shit, but now I have this thinking ... The universe is so big and misterious. Everything connected in it's own way. No matter what happens after we die, everything begins and ends and I feel like there's a bigger reason at play for all things that happen. There's so many possibilities and thinking about how stuff in the universe works and it's so exciting.
I must agree. When I was a kid/young teen thinking about this gave me bad panic attacks. Even now (I’m 28) I find myself with anxiety and in existential crisis when I try to wrap my head around questions like ‚where do we go when we die‘, ‚is there just nothing?‘, ‚do we have some sort of soul/energy‘ and ‚why the fuck are we even here?‘
I am beginning to think/realize that to some of these questions, we human beings are not capable of finding the answer. This kinda bums me out since I really would like to understand, for example, why we even are here... Maybe there is a next evolutionary step where we can start understanding more
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We go to soil and eventually fuel the stars.
We are here because otherwise we wouldn't be here.
Very big. Likey nobody knows, and it keeps growing. In fact, it's growing so fast that the outer parts are moving away faster than the speed of light so the light will never get to us - it will forever be dark. Also, there is no such thing as 'outer parts' - everything is a middle in the Universe.
Black holes are the coolest.
We are here for no reason, probably. We were lucky I think. We probably don't have a purpose as a specie. The Universe doesn't owe us a purpose either. But we all make our own individual purpose.
Yes, I think there are many life forms in this galaxy, even more in other galaxies. There are billions of galaxies, and who knows what is out there. Chances of us being alone is 0. We will reach the stars some day, I just hope I'm alive when we meet the first aliens.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chances of us being alone is 0.
You have to say how life started if you want to say anything about the chances of us being alone, and if you can do that you wouldn't be talking about it here.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know the theory of abiogenesis, and the evolution, and the chance of life starting is very small, but there are so many planets out there that it raises the chances significantly. Why does me talking about it here means I don't know how to explain life?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you don't know the thermodynamics and kinetics of life formation, then you don't know the probability of it happening, so you can't talk about how probable it is. You're not defining "very small" and it could easily be small per trillion trillion planets.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think we can really calculate the probability of life starting. But, if life formed here, why not somewhere else? What makes us so special that, out of trillions of possible life habitable planets, it just formed here and developed so much only here? I think that's what makes the chance of life only being here so small. No, I don't know the precise probability, but, neither do you. So I go with my instinct, as always.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually in the ground. No particular reason, pick your own. Space is really big, for us it’s effectively infinite. Time is a mathematical construct to describe division of cyclical movement. Black holes are matter. Again no particular reason. Yes there are probably other life forms.
Im an INTP personality type, we see the world a little differently. When I did psychedelics, I was able to see the big picture of how the world works, I can totally see how this is — according to Elon musk— 99.9% a simulation. In my opinion, there is no religious god, just how the nature of reality is. And if there is a god, it’s either consciousness, or the patterns in reality (such as the dendritic pattern or 5 fold symmetry.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:00:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But when you say a simulation, do you mean like the matrix? Like an outside being controlling what we experience?
(I’m not trying to come at you or anything just really curious)
No... I mean I see that we are living in a 3D space, just like what you’d see in a video game. Not sure if an outside being is controlling what we experience, unless you’re talking about nature and physics itself. Physics is programmed a certain way, just like “game physics” for example. I still haven’t figured out why humans are here and how we have the capacity to think the way we do and how psychedelics play a role. Maybe we are all god.
I’ve seen it. When people say “I am the universe” they mean it. I truly believe we’re just living in one giant Mandelbrot zoom, and we are living in a giant organism who’s also just an atom/cell in another even larger organism, and so on.
They are dense balls of mass, that generate gravimetric fields large enough to swallow light.
Why are here generally and what’s our purpose?
First part already answered.
You are an independent life form. You make your own purpose.
If there are other live forms in different galaxies?
The chances there isn't are so trivially small that we only say maybe out of intellectual honesty, and not because anyone actually thinks there might not be.
We are made of the most common stuff in the universe, in some of the most common conditions, and there are actually proposals for many other kinds of life (silicon based etc).
Mars looks to have at one point had oceans, and analysis seems to suggest chemicals which we think can only form with organic chemistry at work.
Titan (the moon) has huge oceans on it still, and is very likely to have life on it as we speak. Though getting probes there to check properly is somewhat more difficult than simply landing them on mars.
The universe is a big place. And that's 3 or more potential sources in our own solar system.
Life is out there. We may not as a species live long enough to find any outside of our origins however.
Like the whole concept of nothing boggles my mind. What was here before our universe? Nothing. What’s in between the atoms of our bodies? Nothing. What’s for dinner? Nothing.
As weird as it sounds, we actually don’t have any concrete examples of nothing. Even if you examine an area of “empty” space, you find that you still have something there
Forgetting small particles or dark matter, even space-time itself is something...I think?
JJ668 · 99 points · Posted at 19:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah you’re right. Ignore the people below you though. They have no idea what they’re talking about. There isn’t some abstract “energy” filling up that space. Instead space itself is a thing. It isnt just empty space because you can produce more of it.
If you ever hear that almost every galaxy in the universe keeps accelerating away from each other, that’s because of space’s expansion. Imagine you have a chocolate chip cookie, the cookie is space and the chocolate chips are galaxies. Then imagine all of the chocolate chips are moving towards each other but the cookie itself is expanding. Even though the galaxies are moving towards each other the cookie is expanding so fast it looks like they’re moving away from each other. It’s sick af
Isnt the whole thing about the shape of the universe essentially impossible to accurately measure because of our location in it? As in, there is certain parts of space we will never, ever be able to see and our observation is constantly skewed. Like we can only see across but not up and down.
There is no pan, it's just cookie in all directions forever. Or it might be that going far enough in one direction gets you back to the same chocolate chip you started at. The universe doesn't have an edge, and there's no where outside for a pan to be. There might be places that aren't in our universe, but they wouldn't be beyond the edge, they would be in an entirely different space.
PBS spacetime, the nature of nothing explains how this is an implication of the uncertainty principle. this energy isn't usable, which is why zero point energy machines are bullshit. but the energy is there.
JJ668 · 2 points · Posted at 07:08:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can have energy, I never said it couldn’t. What I did say was that it was not filled with this energy. Space can exist in a state where no energy exists, which it says in your links. My point is that space is a thing by itself, regardless of whether or not it contains energy.
Perhaps it's going to be like a rubber band, it will pull until gravity slows it, retrace (times going to get weird) and then pull forward again at a steadier speed.
A lot of people here are making definitive statements that make me a bit uncomfortable, so let me offer you a cop out answer: physics does not make claims about ontology, i.e. what exists, rather it attempts to model phenomena. Nobody can tell you if spacetime is something because that depends on 1) your definition of something and 2) knowledge about the nature of spacetime that we simply don’t have.
In particular, this second point is tied up with considerations of quantum gravity; we don’t know if spacetime is some fundamental thing or some emergent phenomenon resulting from underlying dynamics. For example, consider string theory: in this scenario, our observed 4D spacetime would just be an artifact of our inability to see small extra dimensions.
Basically what I’m trying to get at is that you should take anyone giving you authoritative answers to this with a bucket of salt; we really don’t know what actually exists.
Physicist here. When people learn I'm a physicist they often want to ask questions about things they are curious about (which I think is great and I try to encourage). But a rather large number of the questions I get unfortunately get answered with, "That's metaphysics, not physics."
That said there is an awful lot that we are awfully certain about in the observable universe. It's good advice to take anything (especially unsourced comments on the internet) with a grain of salt but there's plenty that can be understood, at least as best we can with what we have been able to thus far observe.
I don't fuck with string theory though. I'm an experimentalist, not a theorist, and I don't even bother speculating on things that we so far have not even contrived any possible experiments to confirm or deny.
I think we’re pretty much in agreement. I wholeheartedly agree that we have some pretty amazing physical models that come very close to describing reality at the scales we can probe (I.e. not string theory), and we can be pretty certain that electrons exist, even if we’re not exactly sure what they are.
I just think it’s misleading for people to make metaphysical statements about what “actually exists” based on physics, when we have close to no idea what microscopic physics creates the emergent phenomena that we observe.
addxzzx · 20 points · Posted at 18:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is energy everywhere in the universe even in "empty space".
Well all the evidence we have supports Einstein's theory of repulsive gravity in empty space. Whether hypothetical dark energy is actual energy is impossible for us to prove or disprove. So you're both wrong, I guess.
We do know it's energy. We just don't know why it's there and can only see it indirectly from its gravity, hence the term "Dark Energy". The part we don't know is whether it's a cosmological constant, a new field, or something else.
This doesn't have anything to do with dark energy.
-Gaka- · -1 points · Posted at 22:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IIRC, It boils down to the uncertainty principle.
Really, the trick to the whole "energy from nothing" thing comes from looking at veeeeery small slices of space and time. The uncertainty principle essentially holds that the more closely you can determine the momentum of some particle, the less certain you can be about its position.
At very tiny distances and times, then, the expectation value of some particle essentially smears. Say you know the momentum of a particle. You cannot, then, precisely know the position of the particle. Instead of a particle being at x=1, it's somewhere between x=0.9999 and x = 1.0001, for example.
We can then take the "expectation value" of that particle, using the shroedinger equation to effectively count the energy possibilities of that particle. For empty space, it results in a non-zero kinetic energy value, i believe it's h-bar/2. Don't quote me, its been awhile since I've studied this.
This is a super basic and hand-waving explanation of the underlying quantum mechanics, but it is very real and very demonstratable. A more qualified explanation would take at least a few hours to describe the mechanics involved.
I would agree with you. I remember my mind being blown in my modern physics class (I'm a physicist) when we talked about the expanding universe and how the implication is that space itself is expanding, as in there is more of it every moment in time than there was previously. So yes, even empty space that stuff can fill up (or not fill up) "exists" in a real sense, and more of it exists now than existed a few seconds ago. Absolutely mind-blowing.
What always bugged me is; if there is the potential for space to exist, then that space that "wasn't" actually WAS, which means it wasn't nothing. I know it's kinda circular logic but that never made sense to me. If there's space to expand, then it's space. Space is space. Probably the dumbest syllogism of all time, but it's always messed with my head lol.
How could you have an example of nothing? By definition, it does not exist. If anything, it's present by being absent. In that sense, you could say it's everywhere and yet nowhere simultaneously since no thing must exist in order for some thing to be, so in effect it underlies all that is.
Mathematically, you have the definition of nothing as the empty set, but one could argue that it is a philosophical notion (in most mathematical theories, it can be easily deduced from the axioms, and it is a fundamental notion, but that doesn't necessarily imply that it is natural in any way).
d3pd · 2 points · Posted at 20:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a philosophical notion
And all philosophy is implemented in matter like brains.
atle95 · 4 points · Posted at 19:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Set out to find nothing, found nothing, mission accomplished.
Even vastly empty space can be defined as the distance between 2 objects. Sure, there’s nothing there, but it has substance in its meaning. True nothingness doesn’t even have that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:05:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if there would be absolut 100% vacuum, there would be fluctuations
Hyndis · 4 points · Posted at 19:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And if someone ever does find actual nothingness, that could lead to a doomsday event that wipes out the entire universe. Kind of like the Nothing from Neverending Story, except it moves at the speed of light and erases everything in its path. There's no escaping it.
unphil · 5 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is not nothingness. The idea of a false vacuum is that the vacuum values of the differing quantum fields that we observe may not be global minima and could, with some nonzero probability, tunnel to the global minima which would alter the dynamical evolution of the universe.
This would of course catastrophically change our universe, but the fields would still exist. Because there would still be something, tunneling from a false vacuum to the true vacuum is not a transition from something into "nothingness", but instead merely a transition from one configuration of reality to another.
Yet, even if this change were to happen somewhere - it would only propogate at the speed of light. so given how immense our infinite universe is - you'll never experience it.
Unless, of course, you're in our timeline and it's 2020.
This idea isn’t really “nothing” perse. It’s in close analogy to what happens when you supercool water: you can get water below it’s freezing point without it actually freezing if it is sufficiently pure and still, but when you give it something to “freeze around” the entire body of water rapidly turns to ice. In much the same way, our vacuum could be in a local energy minimum (like supercooled water), but then spontaneously fall to a lower energy vacuum due to a quantum fluctuation (like the water rapidly freezing when an impurity is introduced).
Vacuum has nothing in it but it is not nothing itself. It is space, it has volume. Space is in a sense a "thing", it expands. Gravity has an effect on spacetime.
"Prior" to the big bang (I put prior in quotes as technically there was such thing as time until the big bang) there was no space. That's true nothingness.
From what I understand the Bohr model of the atom with the electron and nucleus looking like a sun and planets is a little out dated. Now it seems that electrons are "spread" out in a cloud around the nucleus
Current models suggest that the arrow of time was created with the Big Bang. It's completely counterintuitive, but the notion of a "before" doesn't seem to apply. And with the heat death of the universe due to entropy, time itself might literally end
It might sound more philosophical, but there is no such thing as nothing, because by definition that "nothing" is something.
Say we have an impossible box... inside it contains nothing, not air, not a vacuum, not a higs field, absolutely nothing. Someone asks, "what's in the box?" And you say, "nothing". But you have just described what is in the box, which is the lack of anything, what we call nothing, and by doing so, we have defined nothing as something.
Or like the number 0. If you have no things, we call that amount zero (0) but zero is still something, becuase if it was not, we would have no name to give it. So we say that zero = the absence of everything or anything and define that something as "nothing"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if there would be absolut 100% vacuum, there would be fluctuations
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of the space in, well, space, is made up of things call Neutrinos.
As far as we're aware there does not exist any way for us to observe "nothing" because any wmpty space is actually just filled entirely with something we can't see. But it's not nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What confuses me about this is how can there be matters with different densities without there being parts of "nothing" between the particles in all but the highest possible density?
koavf · 0 points · Posted at 23:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
we actually don’t have any concrete examples of nothing
The set of all married bachelors or all prime numbers divisible but both 15 and 22 are examples of nothing. What do you mean by "concrete"?
I was speaking in terms of physical reality, not mathematics. A empty space is never truly empty, there is always vacuum energy due to subatomic particles blinking into and out of existence
But isn’t there that theory of observation? Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it? And by that logic, if we can’t perceive it, and nothing else can, it doesn’t exist? I also don’t mean to sound condescending, I’m just asking because I don’t fully understand the concept.
tempski · 568 points · Posted at 17:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no evidence that said theory is correct.
You also mentioned how there was nothing before the universe. Who says there was nothing? Maybe the universe has existed for ever and we're just here for this iteration of it. After the big crunch, another big bang is initiated and the cycle repeats, like it has a trillions times before.
Also, we can only perceive things on this plane. Perhaps there are a million other planes, or dimensions if you will, coexisting right beside ours but we are unable to perceive them.
Just like how we can see certain colors of the rainbow yet there are more light waves we can only detect using specialized tools and can't with our own eyes, that doesn't mean they weren't there before we had those tools.
That's the thing, there was no 'before' there was only 'forever'. It's a very hard concept for humans to to understand, if it's even possible to completely understand because I can't. Everything in the universe just existed since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, but with that argument there can also be no infinite universe since there is a finite amount of particles in the universe. This is a concept that I love and hate to think about
Yes! It's about so much more than that, but saying anything else is a spoiler. It's truly one of the best shows I've ever seen. The final season drops in June, so you have time to catch up :)
Though many people end up watching it more than once to catch everything.
Doesn't the evidence of virtual particles in quantum theory denote they do in fact appear and disappear? As far as we.can understand it so far that is.
As far as quantum mechanics go particles do in fact appear with a particle and antiparticle, and destroy themselves within a fraction of time. We only know they exist because they cause decoherence in wave functions. So much so all quantum calculations have to take it into account. They usually only mess with particles though. So nothing major.
We saw further evidence of it through hawking radiation recently, which is the idea the black hole drags the antiparticle down in some instances, making the other particle just appear and stick around.
Quantum theory is fucking nuts. With an infinite amount of time it's possible for anything to appear and disappear, who knows. The crazy idea is where the hell do they come from? Right now physicists can only shrug.
Virtual particles are mathematical tools used to make calculations tractable, not actual things that can be shown to exist. You are confusing the map for the territory here.
It has never been directly observed. If it had, Hawking would have received a Nobel prize prior to his death. Most people accept it as existing, but due to a lack of observational evidence the actual mechanism cannot be confirmed.
That is a simplification, we don't know if they come from nothing, it's just that we don't know where they come from. To be honest you have to be a scientist to actually know what that sentence means because it is basically a metaphor.
Yep definitely. From nothing is a big simplification, just getting across we don't actually know what is happening. It's just certain particles to appear and destroy themselves.
Energy can be created or destroyed. What you're reciting is a "lie we tell children" to make things more simple. It's likely what you recited will be accurate for you. But it's not the truth.
Well the universe might be finite. We simply don't know and I don't see a reason to prove a finite or an infinite universe without getting around the limitation that the speed of light imposes.
For someone on a pacific island for example the ocean might also seem infinite, but we of course know it is finite.
As for the concept of forever, the idea of a before is so closely linked to a concept of time, which doesn't necessarily exist or it may exist in some different form as far as I understand it.
Also I don't understand why a finite amount of particles would contradict the idea of an infinite universe. Why does a universe need particles to exist?
a good way to grasp infinity is through loops. this is how it is theoretically possible to have a finite amount of particles in an infinite universe.
Imagine that if you travelled straight out from the earth in one direction, never changing course. One theory says that eventually, you'd reach where you started again. Another theory says that you'd end up in a slightly different place to where you started.
You can imagine this the same how the universe has been around forever. Just think that eventually, the universe would somehow revert to what is was before, and eventually becomes what we are today.
You can imagine this the same how the universe has been around forever. Just think that eventually, the universe would somehow revert to what is was before, and eventually becomes what we are today.
I think what is hard to grasp is that we as humans can't really grasp something just always existing. Sure, it's fine to think of infinity as a loop where you start somewhere and then end up back where you started, but in this scenario you still started. The concept of not starting, always existing is impossible to think of, at least for me.
But how can it simply exist? Where did it come from? How does fucking ANYthing exist? We know we were born and our parents were born and their parents and so on through the decades and centuries. And before that we were apes or whatever. And before that we were single cells. And those cells were created by building blocks of the universe.
But how do those buildings blocks suddenly just appear? They could always have been there but how the hell? How does anything exist?
Why should it not simply exist? My understanding is that our concept of time is simply linked so much to these building blocks of the universe existing that it does not make sense to consider something "before" because that would necessitate time. But time doesn't exist.
It might be absurd to think of a state of true "nothingness" can even "exist". It could be that, by definition, "existence" necessitates being eternal in some form or another.
It could be that questions like, "How does anything exist?" is a redundant question while, "How would nothing exist?" is a complete contradiction.
Now if you're asking "how" as in "by what mechanisms", I definitely do not have those answers. It just occurs to me that perhaps the incredulity that comes over people asking these sorts of questions might be rooted in a presupposition that "nothing" is the default state of "being", (which seems kinda funny to me) when it could be that "existence" is the default.
"By what mechanisms does existence perpetuate and change" is probably the most interesting question of all questions though, and we may never know the answer!
Relating to matter not being able to be created or destroyed. matter-Antimatter reactions to in fact destroy both particles into a slew of energy and short lived particles.
But in the end the matter is gone. And antimatter formation and annihilation is a natural, albeit very slow, process.
Problem with that is if you have an infinite past, then you can't have a present since an infinite amount of time would need to have passed before now happens, so you never get to now. It was something like that in the explanation of why time had to have a begining
The big bang is usually described as a black hole exploding at the center of the universe. A black hole has tons of mass all condensed into a point, where did that mass get there? The big bang was not the beginning but rather a way to conceptualize the universe 'restarting'. Our time may have only started with the big bang but there was another time before that and another time before that as well.
Not necessarily. Time may just be a property of our universe, and not of others. We can't really assume anything about "before" the big bang because that statement may not even have meaning, just as there is nowhere on earth north of the North Pole.
There may not have been a before. Time may literally have "began"
A super interesting analogy is the North pole. I'm in America and I ask which was is north. Someone points the way and I travel. I get to Canada and ask which way is north. Someone points the way and I travel that way further. I get to the North Pole and ask which way is North, and people look at me like what the fuck are you talking about? This IS North. You can't go further North than this. That doesn't even make sense.
Maybe traveling backwards in time is similar. You eventually reach the beginning and ask, but what was before this? and then realize that there is no answer because the question doesn't even make sense.
I get where the analogy is going but it still doesn't really help me that much. Was the big bang just a singularity popping into existance and simultaneously exploding? If so what existance did it pop into if there was nothing before it? It's all just too much for my wee little monkey brain to understand.
I have the same thoughts as you. Like, there could never have been "nothing" because true nothingness would not be capable of spawning something.
Except that's us using our intuition and drawing upon our experiences, and these things are far outside the realm of what we can comprehend intuitively. We could learn the truth without a doubt, and still in no way be able to actually feel comfortable with it.
Hmm I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. According to Hawking & Ellis, "Extrapolation of the expansion of the universe backwards in time using general relativity yields an infinite density and temperature at a finite time in the past". Isn't that what a gravitational singularity is?
Forever never starts nor ends. The only reason it sounds so wild is because our brains can’t comprehend the sheer amount of infinite time that the universe exists in. Humans only perceive time for organization purposes. There’s no sun that rises in many parts of the universe, and no life to determine what’s today and what’s tomorrow.
That's only our best guess. Someone above said that it could be expanding then contracting over and over again, almost like breathing. We're observing the expanding part right now and think that it will contract in the future. No one really knows for certain, it's all best guess.
If nothing changes in the dark energy term, space will actually expand forever. We already know it's expanded far too much for gravity to bring it all back together.
This is something you can come up with because of your own subjective perspective. It might be a meaningless question to someone else (a robot, an alien scientist etc).
You can think about it in these terms.
You throw a rock up and it falls down. It followed a straight line on its way back, right? You can safely say it returned to its original point. However, consider the earth moves a certain speed in space. Same thing for the sun, galaxy, cluster and supercluster. The Rock may have travelled thousands of km within a very short period of time from a different frame of reference. So it never really returned to its original point in space. And it is incredibly difficult to figure out its initial point without knowing all the conditions.
I'm no scientist either, but from what I've read the universe is not only expanding, but expanding at an increasing speed over time. That implies we aren't in a loop as some people have suggested. No one knows what started the big bang or what happened prior.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does that imply we are not in a loop? Especially if said loop is too big to perceive.
Take the Earth for example. It's "generally" understood that the Earth is round, looking at you Flat Earthers. However, when you are standing in the middle of a large, flat parking lot, it is hard to reconcile the fact that you are standing in one tiny spot on a big ass ball.
It's not possible for me to explain all the science behind it, I'm just saying my understanding of what I've read which is that scientists seem to all generally agree that the universe is expanding faster over time with no signs of slowing, and they have certainly considered we may be in a loop. Sure it's possible they are all wrong, but in science it doesn't make sense to make a claim that something could be possible without any evidence to support it. I also think it would be foolish to overlook a theory just because it may conflict with things we think we know to be true. Basically what I'm saying is there doesn't seem to be anything concrete that would imply our universe is in a loop, but there is some evidence that supports it not being in a loop, if that makes sense.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren't making an outright claim. All of this is proposed theories based on some indicators. With this field of science, a lot of the time they aren't sure if they are looking at the right indicators or if they are even reading them right.
We're probably in a simulation, anyways. Just a big elaborate game of Sims created by some supreme and less shitty version of EA Games. The big crunch and big bang happens when they start a new game.
I totally understand what you're getting at, and I'm certainly not saying it isn't possible. I do doubt the simulation idea though. Who or what would be simulating everything and for what purpose? The only reason I could fathom creating such an elaborate simulation would be to model and understand the universe, in which case what would be the purpose of creating such an elaborate and detailed simulation? Why would feelings, and smells, and tastes or even people need to be simulated? Things that have no tangible influence on the universe at large.
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At the risk of sounding facetiously philosophical, why do we do anything in science that doesn't directly relate to health and survival? Why do we conduct experiments? Why do we simulate environments to be able to control its variables while we observe the behavior of some unaware test subject? Because we are curious creatures. Because we want to know the how and the why.
If, and it's a huge if, our universe is a simulation created by a species that mirrors our own, how wouldn't that be useful? To speed up and slow down time at will to observe the happenings in finer detail, to study events that have passed billions of year ago.
Or, maybe in another billion years, the univers has expanded so much that the nearest solar system is billions of lightyears away. We ended up getting lonely as a species and said, "fuck it, we're gonna create some friends". Now, every consciousness lives inside this simulation from their moment of birth, to help us forget the bleak reality of our existence.
Or, I need to stop letting my imagination run wild and get back to studying.
It's fun to think about, and certainly possible, I just think it's much more likely that we truly exist inside a 'natural' or accidentally created universe rather than an existence that was willed into being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are likely right. Trying to take it too seriously will drive anyone batty. I just hope I get some answers when I kick the proverbial bucket.
"Here's your end of life starter kit, the big book of Why and What included. Feel free to read through while you stand in one of those lineups over there. Eternal Darkness has been popular this eon. That one over there leads to the Reincarnation Station and over there you can take a chance and receive judgment at the Judge, Jury and Executioner table. They should really change the name, you are already dead. An execution would be redundant."
Have a good day, fellow Redditor. I have an essay to look at.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but in your analogy it's more like the brakes of the car have been cut in the car while rolling down a hill, and we can't see if the hill has a bottom. But until we figure out what dark energy is and how it works, you're right it's merely speculation.
It's not that I can't comprehend the time as much as it is that I can't comprehend something that, even if it prevails time, doesn't have a comprehensive origin.
That doesn’t make sense because time also started when the Big Bang occurred
ZebZ · 4 points · Posted at 19:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who's to say that the Big Bang of our current universe isn't just the latest in an infinite series of Big Bangs that themselves followed a prior universe contracting into a singularity?
What throws me is how it's said that the big bang didn't happen in any specific location, but happened everywhere at once. It was less of a 'bang' and more of an instantaneous and insanely fast expansion of spacetime from a single point (which also didn't exist anywhere specific because every 'where' WAS that single point). So wouldn't that mean time didn't even so much start at the big bang, but expanded in the same way that space did? As in time already existed in that single point, and also rapidly expanded with space since it seems that space and time are bound as a singular thing, i.e spacetime? The shit is so difficult to think about.
Until which time a black hole in a parallel universe hits a critical mass and an Einstein Rosen bridge is created, at the other end of which a white hole pops up in our now immeasurably vast and empty universe, spewing forth matter and energy in a new big bang and the whole cycle repeats. Which is probably complete bullshit, but with this thought experiment and others, even heat death could just be a resting period in an infinite cycle of existence, nothingness and rebirth. We have no fucking clue and likely never will, but at least there will never be an end to scientific curiosity, and trying to figure that shit out.
I love how we are essentially the same as cavemen still when talking about the universe, we literally have no clue to the deeper mysteries. I also love how we can "discover" our the laws of physics, they already exist and have defined parameters and complications and just work without us even knowing how, it absolutely blows my mind.
nofoax · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's my preferred interpretation too -- that our universe becomes the empty landscape in which a new universe is born.
I'm kind of pissed of that we will probably never find an answer to all of our questions, but at the same time maybe it's a good thing that there will always be some sort of mystery behind the universe? Maybe, knowing all the answers wouldn't be as exciting as we think it would be? What do you think?
It can be frustrating coming to terms with the idea that there's some things that we'll just have to settle for wondering about. But the beauty of discovery is that with every new answer we find comes a ton of new questions we didn't even know to ask before. So that idea to me is the most exciting thing, along with the chance that some time in our lifetimes we may have a whole new facet of existence opened to us that brings with it a whole flood of new questions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
scientific consensus
That is worth little more than nothing.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 12:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hasn't the idea of the big crunch lost ground ever since we can see we are speeding up in separation of the universe? I thought it was my more likely a big rip or freeze. Genuinely interested
The big bang was the starting point for spacetime. You can't really say that anything existed before it because "before" is a measurement of time and time did not exist. It's possible that our universe was created inside a larger universe and there was a time before it was created, but that's just kicking the can down the road as the larger universe would also need to have been created somehow.
I've been occupying my mind with the Holographic Universe Theory - but specifically to how all 'information + time' is potentially stored in an event horizon of a black hole(to be specific the only information would be what that BH had absorbed not all information)
The fact that its kept( theoretically ) in a 2d format has sparked this idea that maybe what we perceive as a 3d world if just our brains interpreting 2d info then essentially projecting that interpretation. Then if that ends up being true - maybe the code to our reality plane is only populated when viewed by a conscious(for lack of a better word).
I like to think of this plane as a being procedural generated by some collective energy that may or may not be sentient or maybe this is evidence of multiple dimensions *think Schrodinger's cat. If it's not observed then it does not exist.
I would love to hear some more of what you have to say - if you would humor me.
Eventually it comes to a source, maybe not a start. What the fuck! It's the beauty and terrifying origin of existence. We're the universe looking back at itself and pondering how we exist. Why, that's secondary. How? That's the real question. And all those planes amount to the god of the gaps. We explain what we don't know with magic man. still means nothing, just pushes the unanswerable further.
vruv · -1 points · Posted at 19:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, to me, a random dude who knows nothing about physics, I see this as being the only logical possibility, given the information we have. The universe must be like a sinusoidal function in a sense. It expands, and collapses, infinity times over. There can’t possibly be an “end” when the universe is all that exists. At least as far as we know
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a-r-c · 6 points · Posted at 18:47:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Specifically, laymen like to use the word "theory" when what they really mean is "hypothesis."
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 19:51:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the use of “theory” to mean “hypothesis” predates the use of the word “hypothesis” itself.
So can you really fault somebody for using a word a certain way just because you use the word a certain other way? Especially when your usage is more recent?
I would argue yes, because context matters. And language in context matters. You don't get a pass on being wrong just because it used to be another way 100 years ago or whatever. Language evolves. And I know you were taught the difference between a scientific theory and a scientific hypothesis in high school.
whtsnk · -1 points · Posted at 20:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You don't get a pass on being wrong
But they are not wrong if their definition supports their usage. If you want to put a line in the sand and claim they are wrong no matter what, then you run the risks of making your argument either dead-ended or circular.
If you tell me you are going to a basketball game tonight. And in the nick of time, I assert that from now on the definition of “basketball” is what used to be the definition of hockey… would I not then be absurd to call you “wrong” for claiming to have gone to a basketball game? Would I not be wrong to chide you for failing to say something other than basketball?
I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm talking about the people who say shit like "evolution is just a theory, bro." Specifically in the scientific context, a theory describes a model of something. It's not an idea someone had that still needs testing. That is a "hypothesis." That was my only point.
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 20:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then such a person is taking your operational definition and trying to shoehorn in his other definition. The problem is not in his other definition being wrong—it is in his definition being misapplied.
Misapplied is just a friendlier way of saying contextually wrong.
whtsnk · -1 points · Posted at 20:58:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But such a person is still operating within his context when making that statement. To him, evolution is just a {proposed explanation used as a starting point for further analysis or experimentation}.
Of course, he is wrong about that fact, but he is still not wrong about his word usage.
What you’re describing sounds more philosophical than scientific. It is the idea that reality can only exist in the mind of a conscious individual, so if there is no consciousness perceiving something, then that something may as well not even exist.
That's kind of all we have when trying to understand something we cant identify.
Theirs all sorts of theories about miasma and "bad air" before we discovered a way to observe micro-organisms.
Maybe theirs also a way we will eventually be able to see the space between atoms an maybe even discover a whole universe below a sub-molecular level. But until then it's all theories and ideas.
That comes back to the old question "If a tree falls and there is no one there to hear it, does it make a sound?" The simple answer according to physics would be yes, because sound is a vibration that propagates an acoustic wave, and doesn't require an observer in order to exist.
If you are thinking of the observer effect, in that observing a phenomenon affects or changes that phenomenon, then there is a lot of evidence in favour of that. But it's also important to note that in physics "observing" basically means "interacting with" because you can't observe a particle without interfering with it in some way and altering the outcome.
Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it?
That concept isn't really about existence, it's about proving existence. Things can and do exist but without observation you have no proof that something happened or exists.
Its the old concept of "If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, did it really fall?" Yes, that's the most plausible explanation. But it is possible that the results of the tree on the ground happened due to a different event. Probable? No, but still possible.
It does. There’s just nothing to observe it. Because why wouldn’t it? It’s not like physics would just take a break for a minute because no one is around to appreciate it.
That would be solipsism and you could decide to agree with that branch of philosophy but there are of counter arguments against it so I wouldn’t recommend it.
That was basically philosopher George Berkeley's theory.
He realized the objects we perceived were just a bunch of ideas put together. Colors, textures, smells, etc.
He said, well, all this ideas exist only in our minds. So what happens when you take the observer away?? His conclusion was that they simply failed to exist.
His doctrine can be summarized as "to be is to be perceived".
It generated great discussions but it's not taken seriously anymore in today's philosophy.
You might be thinking of the anthropic principle. All sorts of universes might be possible to exist, but the only one that we can be sure about is one that must work out so that we can be here to see it. If there was a universe with different physics, we could never know about it if it forces us into not being able to exist in that universe
You got to think bigger then that. This isn't the only universe in all of existence. We are nothing but a small bubble amongst bigger and smaller bubbles in a sea of nothingness.
I don't really understand or buy into this theory at all. Why would Schroedinger's Cat be both alive and dead until we look at it? Why are we ruling out a cat being definitively alive, but unseen, even though we haven't personally confirmed it?
It would be better to say we can't prove the existence of something until we observe it. Just because we doubt know it is there in any capacity doesn't mean it does not exist. But yes our senses are how we observe and understand everything we know about the universe.
Then you get into quantum mechanics... that basically says that stuff on the quantum level is one way until observed. Once observed it changes state.... somehow.....
Because "observation" at that level means "we fired electrons into it to measure the interactions because it's too fucking small to see." It's like measuring the shape of a bus by ramming motorcycles into it so hard they explode.
Lol no. Just on its face that’s a ridiculous argument. How many countless things have we found after not knowing about them or having the tools to observe said thing.
But isn’t there that theory of observation? Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it? And by that logic, if we can’t perceive it, and nothing else can, it doesn’t exist? I also don’t mean to sound condescending, I’m just asking because I don’t fully understand the concept.
You don't understand the concept of 'does a bear shit in the woods' or 'does a tree falling in a first make a sound if no one is around to hear it'?
It's like gravitational waves. Just because no one has been able to wonder about the mysteries of the universe, theorize, build an instrument, or detect something for billions of years doesn't mean it hasn't existed all along. We don't have to be able to think about something, observe, or measure something in order for it to exist, happen, or have had happen at some point in the past.
Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it?
This can be easily proven false by butterfly effect. Just because our consciousness by definition needs to "observe" something or some process (by direct close contact like detecting sounds waves, electromagnetic waves in visible spectrum, touch etc.) to realize it's existence doesn't mean that said thing or event doesn't take place before that.
So thanks to logic we can predict that something exists or happens even if we don't directly interact with it. We won't know it but we can be sure of it with (almost) 100% confidence. It's one of most beautiful features of ours mind in my opinion.
Well, yes and no? I think you may be putting pieces together from separate concepts and observations. I'm no expert, I just enjoy interest in quantum physics and philosophical concepts, but I'll try to explain what I know. Anyone, correct me if I'm wrong, but please do so respectfully. Like I said, I enjoy these topics, so I won't be upset if I'm wrong and get to learn something new.
Let's start with quantum fun! There's an old experiment called the double slit which demonstrated that light actually behaves as a particle and a wave. It's been augmented and redone countless times, and has even been used to show that subatomic particles, like electrons, can behave the same way. As for the original, it resulted in a ton of hypotheses and interpretations that come down to what is known as the "observer effect". There are some issues with the effect, but one of the best examples is another famous experiment known as Schrödinger's Cat. Now, this one is actually a thought experiment, but it's an easy way to demonstrate the different theories and interpretations at work in quantum mechanics.
Setup: you have a box containing a cat, a radioactive particle, and some poison. The box is built in such a way that no information about it's contents can be determined externally. The cat, particle, and poison are placed in the box together and sealed in. When the radioactive particle decays it will trigger a mechanism that releases the poison, killing the cat.
Implications: After a short time, it will be impossible to know if the cat is dead or alive, as the particle may or may not have decayed in that time. If a determination can't be made regarding the states of the cat and particle then they exist in all states simultaneously - this is quantum superposition. Until an observation is made by an outside observer, both outcomes are equally likely: "the particle has decayed and the cat is dead" is just as probable and true as "the particle has not decayed and the cat is alive".
This little thought experiment was actually meant to show flaws in quantum theory around the time Schrödinger put it forth, but it also serves as a pretty handy tool for explaining the field. See, you probably think that it's irrelevant that the cat remains unobserved. Common sense would dictate that an outcome exists within the closed system, regardless of whether or not we check up on the system. However, normal physics, common sense, and causality breakdown when working on the quantum scale. There have been dozens of interpretations of the data put forth to explain the fact that, contrary to our common sense, the quantum world doesn't actually have a definite set of characteristics until it is forced, through observation, to decide on a set of characteristics.
Now, observation is a tricky word, because it implies a person is looking at something, but that's not really what it means in quantum mechanics. Observation is anything that requires quantum "stuff" to have a determined state. Instruments used in testing are observers just as we are, as they force stuff out of superposition, and down into one of the possible outcomes.
The observer effect has lead to numerous hypotheses and even more pseudoscientific nonsense. Some of it is interesting, but unverifiable, at least at present. A lot of it is just the result of people taking the basics of the field and stretching them to fit another concept, despite it in no way supporting that concept. I'll put a few of the ideas at the bottom of this post, if you're interested. Point being, yes, there does seem to be an observer effect, but, no, it doesn't mean that nothing exists until we observe it. It just means that some quantum stuff doesn't have certain outcome until it is forced to by some observation.
As I mentioned earlier, there is still the philosophical side of observation. It doesn't require much explanation, as there isn't the same need to explain an absolute state and process underlying our perceived reality. A lot of the conversations to be had on the subject are closer to fun thought experiments than anything else, but they are fun nonetheless.
What if the reality you perceive is the only reality? Nothing actually exists outside of your perception, you only believe it does. When you observe something it exists, then ceases to exist when you stop observing it.
Or, everyone perceives reality, but it is impossible to perceive another's reality. That being the case, it is possible for something to both exist and not exist. Someone else may perceive something that you don't. If you don't percieve something then doesn't exist in your reality, but it still exists in the reality of someone who did observe it. This has more to do with individualized perceptions of reality, but essentially, if you lack knowledge of something, it literally doesn't exist within your reality.
Anyways, there's a bunch more that could be said on this topic, but I might as well stop here. I hope I was able to answer your question! I'll put a couple of the quantum mechanics things below, like I said earlier.
Many Worlds: You've probably heard of the concept of branching realities before, and that's what this hypothesis. Whenever a quantum event with multiple potential outcomes is observed, every outcome occurs. However, every outcome can't occur in the same world, so reality splits and branches into multiple realities. Each of those realities are exactly the same, except for a different outcome at that last moment of quantum observation. Those realities will exist independently, and further branch off in the future. This concept is used pretty often in time travel pieces now, as it eliminates the countless paradoxes that occur with one reality on a single timeline.
There is no evidence of this being true, but it's technically possible, as far as I understand. Still, there's not much reason to put stock in it, and it would likely be impossible to determine were it actually true. It would require us to determine that a separate, branching reality exists, after all. How the hell would we go about doing that?
Time for dumb pseudoscience. This whole observer thing has been used by some to try and add validity to the claim that we can directly effect reality with our conciousness. Sending out positive energy will cause positive results in reality, such as a flower growing faster, or having good luck. The opposite is true of negative energy.
While it is true that there are psychological effects of being positive or negative, the rest is scientifically unsound. Every experiment done on this topic has failed to produce repeatable, convincing results. Some proponents of this idea like to use the observer effect as a scientific concept that does support their beliefs, but often misinterpret the concept in doing so. We know that the effect works, even if the observer isn't a counscious entity, which means that no intent or mental action is necessary for the effect to occur.
But isn’t there that theory of observation? Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it?
Those are the same "philosophers" who would say "Maybe not" to the question "Does a tree fall in a forest if there is no one to hear it fall?"
The tree is up at sunset. It is down at sunrise. Yes, it fucking fell, and it doesn't matter whether someone heard it or not.
Light01 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's literally the shrödinger cat, typically, if you put a cat into a cage and give him poison, until you open the cage, he's still alive, because you can't aknowledge his health in its current state. But, logic kinda goes against it, if you give the cat more time to live and take back the poison, if you let him live in a cage for 1000 years, that is eventually discovered, hypothetically, the cat wouldn't exist, since no one have the knowledge about it anymore, but he'll still be here. (shrödinger is using a cat, but it could be anything really, a rock would do just fine as well.)
The issue with said theory is, like Shrödinger's cat, there's no way to even slightly understand what is going on outside of your axioms, let alone perceptions of other beings, so the only way to prove it is to being unable to disprove it, which is a tautology, like theories that will always be beyond our scope(what's behind a black hole for that matter is surely a pretty good example of it).
Since blindness is really the main factor of any organic (hence alive) beings, even if the world didn't exist, even if its beauty was all a lie, he still wouldn't see it, because in the end, you only get to see what Nature wants you to see. (that's Matrix for you sir).
Alternatively, if you can't perceive something could it be effectively non-existent? Just like how everyone sees slightly different versions of colors, reality is subjective
The No-Boundary Proposal put forth by (among others) Hawking is a pretty interest - though fairly contentious - way to look at that issue. It basically renders tome obsolete as you approach the Big Bang. He compares it to traveling to the South Pole. Once you get there, which way is south? Does South even mean anything there? However, despite the removal of any sort of southness, the South Pole is still just like any other spot on Earth. It’s not like someone wandering around Antarctica would be able to find it. That’s essentially how he proposed to look at the Big Bang. Time doesn’t mean anything, you can’t go further back in time, but it’s still “normal” in the same sense that the South Pole is a normal place. Obviously it’s more complicated than that, and it’s a contentious proposal, but it is backed up by math and intriguing nonetheless.
There’s also the idea that there was something before the Big Bang but we don’t know what. Maybe the universe before that all collapsed like a black hole and then exploded at that point for the start of the universe as we know it.
I think matter just exists. It gets confusing when we're made to believe a god created everything. So people try to say "Well then what created matter?"
Humans really aren't able to comprehend nothing. Even what we imagine to be nothing is something. You imagine blankness, darkness or blinding white nothing, simple grey, you imagine something no matter how much you try to think of nothing.
That's because you think the space "exists" i.e. that there is some 3D or 4D grid filled with particles. Try to think of it this way: All the particles are actually objects with some properties (coordinates, mass, energy..) in a list. "Nothing is on those coodinates xyzt" would actually mean "for all the particles in the list, the coordinates are different than xyzt".
I think of "nothing" as "lack of something" and it works perfectly well for me.
Yeah he basically points out that nothingness or empty space is just as important as the thing itself, you can't have one without the other and in fact they are both one thing looked at from a different perspective. He also has a lot of good metaphors and analogies to demonstrate this, love listening to his lectures
If you like him, you should try reading Derrida! He's a linguistic philosopher, so he's much more focused on language, but he's a bit more academically rigorous than Watts. He focuses on the same idea of contrast though, that to define anything you need to put a border on it, and if you've got a border you necessarily have both an inside and an outside. You have the thing, and what the thing is not. By definition, language (and it follows meaning itself) is simply an interconnected mesh of these contrasts, and if you pick them apart there is no base meaning! It's all nothing, and it's all everything, just like Watts puts it. Cool stuff to think about!
ihaner · 11 points · Posted at 18:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no nothing. Nothing does not exist. Nobody can describe nothing nobody has seen nothing nobody knows what nothing is.
One thing that sort of helps with the concept is trying to see through the back of your head. What you "see" when you try that is what nothing looks like. It still feels very strange, but that helped me a bit.
Elryuk · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
However, there comes a point where when you’ve traveled far enough away from any other matter, that the sum of all empty space between you and the closest measurable matter is expanding at greater than c, meaning you would never be able to return.
All signs point to that being the case in about 150billion years from now for our local group — which means that there will be no microwave background to observe, no evidence of the Big Bang, etc.
The other stuff recedes faster than you can get to it. You're limited to moving slower than the speed of light through space, but space expands exponentially. With a large enough gap, the gap expands faster than you can cross it.
That is the answer I would pick if I were taking a test on it. But knowing that, or at least thinking I know that, doesn't make it any easier to wrap my head around. Is a very humbling concept for me.
What if the space is curved in such fashion that there is no end to the space, that it actually makes a closed loop? Where does "space" on a sphere end (when you keep going east on the Earth where do you end up)? Our 3D space could be "curved in fourth dimension" so that it makes a surface of 4D sphere thus making a perfect loop...
Just kidding we would have noticed the curvature even with our 3D senses... Unless the radius of the "4D sphere" is large enough to make it look flat just like the surface of the Earth..
The thought of existing forever is far worse in my opinion.
jooes · 15 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree.
I know what it's like to wake up in the morning and start a new day. I've done it thousands of times. I can wrap my head around the concept of doing that forever. It's what I've already experienced, over and over again.
But dying is permanent. You don't wake up. You don't get to dream, you get nothing. Literally nothing, not even a dark empty room. It's pure nothingness for all eternity and you never get to come back from that. How do you even comprehend something like that? In the blink of an eye, poof, everything is nothing forever. You don't even get to realize that you're dead.
I know people say that you experienced nothingness before you were born, and that's true. But I came out of nothingness and here I am now. It's completely different to go from something to nothing.
Living forever would suck because you'd still have to experience things like death and loss. You'd probably get unfathomably bored after a while. But I'd take that over nothingness any day.
I know people say that you experienced nothingness before you were born, and that's true.
But you didn't EXPERIENCE nothingness though.
Elryuk · 4 points · Posted at 21:16:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, it is frightening from out feeling/experiencing state of being. But it's only scary untill it happens, after that you wont feel anything, cause there will be nothing to feel, to fear, to enjoy something. Yes it's terrifying from our perspective, but as we didn't miss existing before being born, we won't be missing anything after we die. It's normal, it being terrifying, but in the end you can either live in fear of it, or live for the excitement of living. Not the perfect, or from our perspective, or the best option, but for the time being, only option. In a sense we all know what awaits us, only thing we can do is come to accept it. Sometimes i feely really anxious about it, but then i think why fear something you already know? It's at the same time terrifying, amazing, exciting and comforting.
But FOREVER dude. I’m just shy of 28 years old and this feels like it’s taking a long ass time. I’ve heard people in their 80s and 90s say they’re ready for it to be over. It sounds like a relief. All the pain, regret, grief, bitterness, etc of life, it keeps piling up and there’s only one way for it to end.
I have heard old people say that, but it’s always been because they are weak, unwell, all their friends have died etc. And I think just knowing that they will die soon increases the desire to get it over with. If one could still have a good, fulfilling life for longer I think the attitude would be different.
Sure but who knows if that common feeling of “readiness for the end” would give way to something else if humans had longer lifespans. Maybe “let me die” is just a standard phase of a lifespan and once you hit your 150s you decide to just make the best of it and live life however you want.
Existing forever in THIS reality? Sure, but assume u were given a new nature, and body in a different plane or dimension thats suited for eternity. You'd likely never want to leave.
I feel you on that. No universe would make a lot more sense than... anything else. I’m not a religious person. I don’t believe there is a “why”, no reason that any of this exists, and the fact that there are living beings not to mention sentient ones.... it doesn’t make any sense, and it isn’t supposed to, either.
It's difficult to talk about a concept without passively insinuating that it is a thing that has attributes.
There is no evidence to suggest that there was or will be nothing in the purest sense. Science doesnt assert that there was nothing before the universe.
To be fair - the big bang theory doesnt imply there was nothing before the singularity. It simply states that we have no way of knowing with current technical understanding, because once you bring time back to the point of singularity the math gets real, real weird, real.... real fast.
To the point that it doesnt make any sense.
The starting point of the big bang is the point at which two things happen:
The universe begins its expansion process
Time as a mathematical variable starts being a functional thing.
At least this has always been my understanding.
Gilpif · 0 points · Posted at 21:50:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t really matter if there was a thing before the Big Bang or not. What we know is that at some point in the past the Universe was a singularity. If the Universe were to become a singularity again, no vestige of our Universe would survive. If the Universe used to be four faries dancing to Melanesian music, but one of them is banging her head on one of the other 3 every 12.2361255252 seconds, it wouldn’t matter because every trace of their existence would be gone.
If there’s absolutely no trace of the past, did it really happen?
That is a meaningless question, it is like asking what is "north of the north pole."
Time was not in existence before the big bang, so there was no "before," just like there is no "north of the north pole." And "time" is a term only relevant within our universe. Time only exists after the big bang. It doesn't exist even as a concept before that.
It's difficult to accept, but that's the way it is.
And, actually, there is no such thing as "time" in our universe. It has been proven. There is only space-time.
However, if you want to know more, search youtube for Lawrence Krauss and "A Universe from Nothing." There's a bunch of videos on his book, some better than others. Try to find one that has him explaining it all, rather than an interview someone is giving him.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think only the charge is flipped. From wikipedia:
There are compelling theoretical reasons to believe that, aside from the fact that antiparticles have different signs on all charges (such as electric and baryon charges), matter and antimatter have exactly the same properties.[19][20]
You just blew my fucking mind with the atoms but, I study science in uni and had learned about atoms not being " connected" but holy fuck when it’s laid out like that
Time and space are something, so concepts like outside/before the universe might be nonsensical. And between atoms, we find space. And maybe, the only property of nothing, is non-existence.
Well, it’s not so much nothing as it is space itself which is formed from 3 dimensions. Nothingness is about perception really. Perceiving nothing is more mind boggling imo. Like when you die, there’s not like a permanent black screen or whatever, your perception is completely gone. You don’t feel anything. You don’t feel that you don’t feel anything. You don’t.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always liked that Talking Heads song: "Heaven, heaven is a place; a place where nothing, nothing ever happens". It makes a lot of sense to me. If heaven really is a place and it's populated by people or spirits or essences or whatever, how can anything ever happen? Actions and interactions will almost inevitably lead to conflict: "Hey, how come Alex received two helpings of ambrosia and I only got one"? In the final analysis, Humans are rather clever apes geared towards acquiring resources. So what happens when everything is distributed fairly and everyone has equal social standing and equal access to resources? Nothing. No wars, no disagreements, no conflicts. Nothing.
The way I try to understand the concept of nothing is with this phrase
"What do you see with your foot?"
It's not that you see just black, empty space. But instead it's that there literally is nothing to see, because it's impossible.
I hope I explained that alright, it's definitely a hard thing for me to describe
MxM111 · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s because there is no nothing. Let me explain. We do not know how exactly universe formed (our laws of physics do not work before time 10E-43 or something. But there are two possibilities. 1) universe existed always, then there is no question about what was before, and 2) universe and time started at some moment. Then, there is no time before, so there is no “before” itself.
A good example on nothing is when u close one eye. It's just nothing. It's not darkness. It just nothing.
This gives a good idea what the difference of darkness (close both eyes) compered to nothingness. Hope this will blow ur mind a bit.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its not nothing, its pitch black, black is still a color, its therefore something. What if your brain indicated the absence of color as white to you? that's still something.
Nah, doesn't work me . Geometry and swirling patterns are there in full colour.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I close one eye, it is darkness. It's like being in a dark room. I see black, the absence of light. It's literally the same as when I close both eyes.
It seems like you can’t have something without nothing because you need a reference point. Like light and dark,
Good and evil. How can there be happiness without sadness as an opposite?
It would seem they are all dependent on each other in order to exist in this universe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps, but it still seems that the concept of nothing is necessary in order to experience something. Are you saying that nothing is null, void and unnecessary when you have something?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! I heard a marriage counselor say once that men have a "nothing box" in their brain so believe it if they say they aren't thinking about anything and that concept just totally doesn't make sense to me. How do you think of nothing? I always have something going on in my brain.
It's not literally nothing it's just nothing of importance. Right now I have my TV on, with a game playing background music. I am not looking at the tv. The music has no lyrics. I am just present, not thinking about anything hearing this music.
It’s not expanding into anything. It’s a really weird concept because that’s so unintuitive, but what’s happening is that the geometry is changing. Lengths are getting longer. The classic example is baking raisin bread. As it bakes, the bread gets bigger and the raisins get further apart, but you aren’t making more bread, all that’s happening is your unit of distance (length between raisins) is increasing. Obviously the bread is expanding into the oven or whatever, but imagine you are inside the bread (and that it’s infinite). You don’t need something outside of the universe in order for it’s geometry to change. Now, if you go to something like string/M theory then the picture changes somewhat since we are embedded in a manifold with 11 dimensions, so there is something to expand into, but given the uncertainty regarding the truth of string theory, we don’t really worry about that too much.
Well, I don’t think I can ever really “get it”. If the raisin bread (yuck btw) is everything, and the rest of the oven is nothing, I just can’t wrap my head around nothing.
Don’t think of the oven as existing. This analogy is quite limited. It’s just meant to illustrated how distances can change without making anything new. Also how dare you be so blaspheme raisin bread.
Sorry. If you said banana I would have been with you all the way. But you used raisin for your example and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever understand the universe now. Thanks for nothing.
The Nothing That Is by Robert Kaplan might be up your alley. It’s about the concept of the number 0 and how it’s relatively new to society. Pretty rad book if you’re into smoking cigarettes silently while just thinking about things.
I feel like nothingness is impossible though bc doesnt the absence of any sort of space-occupying thing just result in a vacuum that fills that space? So like there always has to be something there? Idk I'm not a scientist or anything that's just what makes sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're whole premise is faulty though. We don't know what was here before the universe. And the empty space between atoms or atomic particles? Again we don't know it's empty. In fact Einstein referred to all that "empty" space you consider nothing as time-space. And while it seems empty to us, who knows what it would look like to someone able to perceive it?
I swear I think about this all the time. The concept of nothing is just so crazy.
xXaphr · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eventually when we die we’ll fade to nothing. We wont be able to process that we dont exist and if there is no afterlife, the complexities that are in each of our lives (emotions, rational thought, experiences, hopes and dreams) simply ceases to exist
In-between the atoms are electrons, in between electrons are subatomic particles that operate on fields that extend the entire universe. That should clear things up nice and easy.
I think that before the universe there was nothing literally nothing. Just a place where it isn't cold or hot, bright or dark, a place that is nothing but it can't be a place since a place is something.
I think nothing doesn't exist. It's just our way of thinking; the way our brain works, albeit through centuries of listening to people of who we believe know how things work.
Nothing is probably like dark matter. We're unable to detect it, so it probably is non existent. But think of how people long ago thought about the air surrounding us. We can't see it. We're used to it's odour and in between you and me, the air, is nothing. There surely is something, just as there is something in between galaxies. The universe is nowhere empty, it's just our perception because it's never been of interest to us: if plain air can't hurt us, why bother? So is the same with emptiness or nothing.
This reminds me of how the concept of "zero" came pretty long after civilizations had developed number schemes. Like the ancient Greeks didn't even have a symbol for zero.
AmpNC · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Before" our universe there was the singularity, everything was so densely packed together that time didn't even exist. Bill Wurtz described it in an unironically amazing way in the history of the entire world video:
It's been so everywhere you don't need a where. You don't even need a when. That's how every it gets.
I sorta get what you’re saying, but do you have to try that hard to keep your mouth closed underwater? For me holding my breath doesn’t feel like tightening my lips more that a tiny bit
I often dream I am underwater but can still breathe but im using my nose suckas!
urka511 · 12 points · Posted at 22:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! And it's not regular breathing. I breathe in slowly through my nose and I get oxygen that way. In my dreams it's something I've practiced "in the past" and learned the skill so the bad guys never think to look in the water because it's something people normally can't do.
I don’t do it, but theoretically it would equalize the pressure inside vs outside of the mouth.
just kidding, I’m retarded. that’s wrong
[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 19:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If your cheeks are inflating you’ve pumped more pressure into them. If they look normal you’ve equalized it. If they are sunken the pressure external is greater than the pressure internal
You can hold can hold your breath without inflated cheeks, without tightening your lips,with your mouth wide open, even without closing the trahea. Take a deep breath and don't exhale and dont close your trahea. Just like you are about to exhale. It depends only on the muscles of your chest.
I did it and it feels much more natural with my mouth normal. I was about to argue with you except that I remembered I've been swimming as long as I've been walking so it's not exactly fair.
the-nub · 11 points · Posted at 18:37:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you puff your cheeks out, there's more tension on your lips and it would be easier for them to part and let water it, sort of like how it's easier to poke a hole in an inflated balloon than a flaccid one.
The cellular process of respiration produces CO2, and actually adds net air to your lungs the longer you hold your breath. So it makes sense that you would start keeping air in your mouth to help hold it in
As a WSI it's how we teach kids to hold their breath (learning through sight and example). Harder to explain holding breaths if you just look normal lol.
Edit: WSI= water safety instructor. Fancy title/certification for person that teaches people how to swim.
wwcraw · 137 points · Posted at 18:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry...uh....we do it b.c we all evolved from Pufferfish. The government doesn't want you to know we are descendants from a mythical city called Atlantis.
wwcraw · 23 points · Posted at 18:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's more of a safe way to get kids to even put their faces in the water. I taught water babies up to actual swim team (still my fav. Perfecting a stroke is easier than building from nothing; obviously)
Also builds a base for blowing bubbles into actual breathing while swimming.
More explaining to others rather than you lol. But I've also had kids drink water and vomit. Those are the worse. So it happens
Former WSI and pool manager... Yes to instinctual. We always taught blowing bubbles and pulling them under water (as opposed to dunking). Something about the water rushing past your face triggers that instinctual hold your breath thing...
I teach my kids/adults to press their tongue on the soft palate. Usually keeps them from puffing and puts the air bubbles at the bottom of the nose so they can feel them and keep water out!
eh i didn't go into that much detail lol. didn't expect it to blow up the way it did tbh. it's just to show them holding a breath getting their mouths underwater to blow bubbles and leading into a full head submersion. its mostly just a kid thing..you don't do this for adults
I think that children learn to hold their breath this way. They’re not used to not breathing, but they are used to breathing out of their mouth and holding their lips together
offalt · 15 points · Posted at 17:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anything this is unlearned. Infants know how to hold their breaths without any teaching or learning.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 17:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infants can drink and breathe at the same time. Their epiglottis is different.
lare290 · 13 points · Posted at 19:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL. Also fuck infants, I want that superpower.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol can confirm one time in either kindergarten or first grade I had hiccups and the teacher asked me to try holding my breath and spelling my name and then when everyone looked at me I just sucked in a bunch of air and had giant cheeks. I didn't think it through on how I was supposed to talk tho lol
But consider where the air comes from: First, you inhale to fill your lungs, then you close you mouth and then you push air into your mouth from your lungs. Try as you might, you can't suck in air with your mouth alone, you can't puff your cheeks out without exhaling from your lungs.
Ultimately you have the exact same amount of air inside your body, but now a small part of it is inside your mouth where it achieves nothing, unlike in your lungs, where your alveoli can keep transferring the oxygen into your bloodstream until the air is entirely devoid of it, allowing you to remain underwater longer.
Inhale with your nose until you can't anymore, then shunt some into your cheeks, then inhale a bit more through your nose. Chest feels like it's about to explode but that's the price you pay for optimal dive times.
Ultimately you have the exact same amount of air inside your body, but now a small part of it is inside your mouth where it achieves nothing,
Okay but kids don't think that far through. When I was younger I definitely thought I was getting extra air by doing that.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do that! Even I don’t understand why I do it. I never noticed it until somebody pointed it out. For some reason, when I go underwater, I just can’t not do it! No matter how hard I try! I guess I’m just used to it.
I did it as a kid because I saw cartoons do it. Cartoons did it to show visual representation that they were holding their breath and would not be able to breath if the air was let out. If they were just sitting there looking normal, it wouldn't be as obvious that they were not breathing since, unless tired from sprinting or if they are snoring while sleeping, breathing is not typically animated.
I have 0 evidence but fully believe this is why everyone does it irl, whether they know it or not.
e_007 · 3 points · Posted at 18:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's definitely ways to keep water out of your nose without plugging it. It's keeping the air pressure steady and either staying right side up, or breathing out if you turn upside down. It's generally thought to be a children thing to have to hold your nose, but some people also just never learn and still do it or use nose plugs.
there's more air to hold. like you fill your lungs and then fill your cheeks with air, then when you feel your lungs you can exchange the air from your cheek and lungs. that's how it works for me anyways.
I used to do this as a kid, it felt like if I didn’t the water was going to leak into my nose. I remember that when I puffed my cheeks it felt like it created enough enough pressure to help with that sensation
I think it's because they got the idea from cartoons, comics or TV, and therefore, they think they are supposed to blow out their cheeks while holding their breath. When in reality, the reason they do it in cartoons, comics or TV is to emphasize the fact they are holding their breath.
When I try to hold my breath for a long time, I usually end up "pseudo-breathing": pushing air out of my lungs into my cheeks and then back from my cheeks into my lungs. I think it helps me to feel like the lungs are functioning normally.
For me it has always been a habit I couldn't break.
I'm guessing I saw people do it at a young age and started to do it too. I understand that I don't need to inflate my cheeks when holding my breath but now it just happens automatically.
I use it as a counter-pressure as I'm releasing air underwater. If my cheeks have to deflate, I'm out of outgoing air, and know the clock's now ticking on needing to get more. I get across most of a pool length doing this without taxing my lungs
For me, it's the whole "not holding your nose" thing. I do that, I drown. Other people do that, they're fine. Is there just some invisible nose plug technology I'm not aware of?
I did this when I was younger, I saw a bunch of people around me do that so I thought they were keeping extra air in their cheeks. I later started to see people not inflate their cheeks and did an experiment and realized inflating my cheeks did nothing.
My logic used to be, it was like an air reserve. So incase I ran out of air in my lungs, I’d use the air in my mouth. I still catch myself doing it out of habit.
I’ve noticed that when I do it it helps keep water from getting into my nose. (I know how to keep it out using air, but it seems to make it easier. And I only do it upon initial submersion, then I blow it all out. No idea why though.)
Zyluki · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do it because that's a little bit of extra air and holding all of that in my chest is uncomfortable and takes unnecessary effort
Inflating your cheeks can also activate the valsalva maneuver which can actually help performance in a number of ways, so while it’s still useless in the act of only holding your breath, it’s helpful in other ways.
Zumbah · 0 points · Posted at 19:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can bring the air from your cheeks into your lungs for more oxygen. Try it its cool.
I do this. I take a deep breath and my inflating my cheeks I can store a little bit more, meaning I can go slightly faster going up for air a little later.
It'll probably take that long for 5G to be both the main wireless signal and for OEMs to stop producing solely 4G phones. Could take even longer for these people to be forced into 5G assuming they hold onto their 4G phones for several years after the fact.
What often happens is the service provider will say that you have to when in reality there's no technical limitation requiring it. My suspicion is that the people up top create rumors that they'll be switching off the older generation service to encourage store reps (who, by the way, make commission off of store sales) to pass on that rumor as a reason to upgrade, because the rep gets the sale and the rep gets to think they're doing the customer a favor by future-proofing them.
I will say that service providers have been making actual changes to their networks in recent times that do actually negatively impact paying customers, such as switching to only transmitting an LTE data signal in some regions and forcing those with phones not supporting Voice Over LTE (VoLTE) to buy new handsets (as well as requiring more certifications from manufacturers, potentially affecting handset prices)
I've also heard about one region losing all 3G coverage despite it being a very rural region that greatly benefitted from the extended range that 3G could operate at, and effectively cutting off a number of customers from receiving any service at all.
ok, let's accept your assumptions that 5g is not dangerous and that we will all be back in a normal world before two years.
Do you not see that you are taking a harsh view towards other people for believing that we should be less reliant on technology rather than continue the plunge into every conception of dystopia ever conceived?
I know who it was written by. I looked into that article last week. The man has also spent more than 30 years claiming wireless technology is harmful and even after hundreds of studies have shown there is no conclusive evidence.
You are also ignoring that the article says opinion right at the top. If he had proof it would have been a full article from the staff and not an opinion piece.
I understand people who don't want 5G implemented because of security concerns. I know there's quite a few 5G towers being set up by Chinese companies.
I don't understand people who don't want 5G implemented because "we'll become more reliant on technology" or "it isn't safe". 5G isn't going to make us more reliant on technology. It's a faster iteration on 4G. We're already reliant on our phones, 5G will just speed things up.
It's also not dangerous. What does that even mean? It can't spread COVID-19. You'd have to be beaming extremely concentrated RF waves directly at your head for hours a day to experience any negative effects.
i'm not saying its connected to covid or anything like that. The point you raise about extremely concentrated waves directly at our heads touches on what I mean to discuss.
They have been installing 5g boxes everywhere while everyone is quarantined, you might already have them in your neighborhood. We will be submerged in more concentrated waves than ever before and this is not a conspiracy theory, this is their marketing campaign.
I know who it was written by. I looked into that article last week. The man has also spent more than 30 years claiming wireless technology is harmful and even after hundreds of studies have shown there is no conclusive evidence.
You are also ignoring that the article says opinion right at the top. If he had proof it would have been a full article from the staff and not an opinion piece.
Do you not see how baseless that claim is, and that simply changing from 4G to 5G isn't going to make people tech reliant?
Also you people have existed since the beginning of time. You're the same type of person that would have wrote letters about how the human body can't exceed 35 miles without severe trauma, and how dangerous these new locomotives will be without any evidence to base it on.
you people? so wait, we're not talking about whether or not technology should be tested before its implemented? we're hurling insults at shadows now? come on man, we may not agree but wtf is that?
It's not dangerous. It's non ionizing radiation. The only thing it could do is heat your cells. But you would have to be standing next to an extremely high power source for an extended period of time. 5g towers don't push that much power. Significantly less than 4g in fact. So if you think 5g is bad you should be shitting your pants over 4g. 4g has been around a while now and it isn't causing mass bouts of medical issues, so why would 5g?
how do you know that all of the wireless frequencies we're swimming in aren't what's behind the ever growing number of people with various cancers? all i'm saying is there are reasons to be skeptical especially when they have admitted that they haven't even tested the shit themselves.
if you're willing to at least read about the source of some of these concerns, here is a good link:
Because it's non ionizing radiation. It doesn't have the ability to strip electrons from your atoms which is how ionizing radiation causes cancer. It's from a completely different part of the electromagnetic spectrum.
As for there being more cases of cancer, that can simply be because of advances in medical science that allow cancer to be diagnosed more accurately.
Edit: I read that article and while there is some accurate information in it, it makes multiple false claims. Such as, stating that it could alter your DNA. It can't for reasons stated above. They don't mention a single time that it is non ionizing or that there is a difference between ionizing and non ionizing radiation. The author of that article lacks fundamental understanding of radiation and has taken the quoted studies out of context. They are also using studies over 40 years old.
They also claim millimeter wave radiation has been weaponized. That's only partially true as I wouldn't consider a completely non lethal crowd control device to be a weapon. It uses concentrated non ionizing radiation to heat your skin. Which is just annoying and used to disperse large groups of people. It doesn't damage you and it doesn't cause cancer. Again because it is non ionizing.
clio44 · 7 points · Posted at 20:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it happens every time a few frequency is introduced so we get to watch the idiocy happen again every few years. It's amazing really. I bet it's a conspiracy by the people who make tin foil
Cool. Big Tin Foil. Now there's a conspiracy I can get behind
SOwED · 5 points · Posted at 19:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That one's great, because unlike antivaxx where they can say "oh well millions and millions of kids are vaccinated with no I'll effect, but mine would certainly get autism", 5G haters are going to be living in the waves soon enough, every moment of their lives proving them wrong.
Lmao yep I have come to the conclusion that this world is full of dumbasses...
Kraggen · 15 points · Posted at 19:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize that half of them are stupider than that. - George Carlin
SOwED · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then realize that all those people have the same one vote.
siirka · 5 points · Posted at 19:58:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless they’re from a rural, poorly educated, low pop state in which case their vote is worth more than yours! Yay electoral college
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe democracy is a bad idea.
S_Pyth · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, just how America decided to do it. Anyway
The definition of democracy is a form of government in which the common people hold political power and can rule either directly or through elected representatives
So if I read it correctly, the people make the decisions, though I may be wrong with that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democracy is simply mob rule. You can’t honestly believe that “the common folk” have any sort of real political power outside of violent uprising.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which, per the guy below, doesn’t really count anyways and even if they do live in a rural state the private electoral college votes are big enough to swing decisions regardless because, yes, some individuals and small groups have additional private electoral college votes.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
State elections don't have an electoral college to my knowledge
It could integrate a prejudice into someone’s views. Sam Harris may have read too much into the Bell Curve and ended up thinking certain demographics of the population were less intelligent that the others.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the human ego. It takes a higher level of self awareness to see it.
Also there is something weird about humans where people, especially in a group, seem to think people who confidently act like they know what they are doing are somehow more worthy of respect than those who actually know what they are doing.
So that reinforces for a lot of people that’s it not about being right or anything noble or honest, it’s about how other people perceive you.
I call it the Harvey Weinstein effect. Everybody knew what he was doing. He still had clout. He still had respect. He still had power. People wanted to work with him and be around him.
It was only after it became a public scandal did he become a pariah. The same people who wanted to court his favor suddenly didn’t want to be around him, even though they knew the whole time what he was.
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[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 20:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And every Bernie supporter. See how that works?
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 20:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it’s just not an argument.
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[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 20:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie has been proven time and time again to be naked Marxist who know nothing about economics, history or human nature. Anyone who thinks he is a good leader and a good senator is denying rock solid evidence to the contrary.
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I love when people make piss weak accusations on Bernie... as if Trump gives a fuck about history or human nature. As if he isn't a borderline Fascist wanting military parades, silencing critics, being hardcore divisive. And Bernie wanting universal health care (something other western countries have and enjoy) is what pins him as a communist? The dems definitely fucked this one up. Missed opportunity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, yes. The literal enslavement of the entire medical sector, wouldn’t that be great? If only Trump was as fascist as you think he is.
We both know we can't get in a reasonable discussion about universal health care. Like, it's a fucking great thing, but in America it's actually a split issue? Mind boggling. Your big pharma makes billions from it's citizens not having sponsored health care.... citizens are in massive debts or life gets turned on its head due to medical issues ot costs... that doesn't happen in places like Australia. Nobody goes broke due to medical bills... nobody goes without due to medical costs. It's suppose to purely benefit the citizen, yet you believe the fear mongering by billionaires and choose against universal health care.... to the point you call it "communist"
Anyway, as I say there's no point us arguing. I think it's sad that America is so extremely divided that it actually has to decide between what it perceives as communism and fascism... when it's simply fear mongering and your citizens are under the thumb of elites, more so than other western nations. Genuinely sad. Solutions are deemed "commie" or "fascist". You got to admit, it's a pretty sad state to be in
My brother and his wife are antivax 5G conspiracy nuts. If you knew my brother you'd get it. He's always been one of those guys that isn't smart enough to understand how dumb he is, but he thinks he's smarter than everybody.
The issue with 5G is that it IS going to be used as a massive spy mechanism. Soon IoT devices will come with 'free' 5G connections you cant turn off. Right now i keep my TV completely disconnected from the net because Samsung has no problems tossing ads at you. By 2030, TVs will automatically connect to the net, whether you want it or not.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The U.S government has been spying on it's people for years and no one seems to care so what can you fucking do at this point?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are naive to think you're not already being spied on. The more technology advances, the more it'll be common in everything. Some apps you download track more then you think, there will always a privacy problems with anything. 5g will just be another
You are being pointlessly nihilistic. The reason i point out the 5G problem is because up until that point we are in control of 'the point of demarcation' between our network and others.
5G will erase that. I assure you im quite aware of the current surveillance state. There are still mitigations available, 5G removes some of those.
TLDR: Privacy is multi-faceted, not binary
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not rejecting any moral beliefs. I realize how big of a security threat it can be. It literally picking between security or speed. But it is also barrier that will be passed now or in the future. Technology will always be moving forward.
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If your hugging the tower then that's natural selection, but even wifi causes problems for long term use in some yet it will still be used. 5g is also just another radio frequency. The main thing is that 5g isn't what's killing thousands, it's the virus yet people are burning down towers.
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Well there's not much known on the health reasons but there will be huge security concerns that will cause major problems. But as I told another guy, as technology moves forward, 5g will be needed. It's literally picking speed or security/maybe health.
The thing about Anti-Vax is that people love to tare those people down, say they are wacky nut-jobs especially here on Reddit but I've never seen one article on any of the usual suspect sub-reddits pointing out definitively that vaccinations don't cause some of those more loathed conditions in young toddlers. In fact, there's wayyyy more peanut allergies now than 25 years ago and they think it's due to the plethora of vaccinations babies have. I mean, couldn't other conditions emerge when you are introducing a very young immune system to many, many inoculations in short period of time? I haven't taken a stance one way or another but I'd like to be educated..it seems there's more berating that educating.
Yep. My friends kids (16 and 14)both got a shot on the same visit and developed peanut allergies a month later. People say I'm crazy for suggesting it was the shot, but there is no other explanation.
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 16:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is in itself weird. Because they look stupid for clinging to their stupid idea. And I lose all respect for people who are absolutely unwilling to consider they could be wrong, so they lose face, too.
Therein lies the paradox, because being wrong is understandable but deliberately choosing to be ignorant in the face of clear evidence clearly makes you look stupid
And because of that they look stupid and lose face.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's funny because most of the time my "evidence" isn't actually opposed to yours, and vice versa. We'd rather argue than think through any differences that often boil down to semantics. I think humans' greatest gift is [the complexity of] their language, might as well use that to see why rather than where we differ.
Also because sometimes their family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors believe the same wrong things, and deeply. So if they change their mind, they lose a lot of community.
People are too entrenched in their believes that a change of belief is perceived as a loss? And the entire time believing something false is therefore a loss?
I don't really see how that connects very well with the sunk cost fallacy
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are too entrenched in their believes that a change of belief is perceived as a loss? And the entire time believing something false is therefore a loss?
I decided to reply to your comment, and even though I might get downvoted and maybe shouldn't have commented, I have invested enough energy in this comment to justify just leaving it here to myself.
This is essentially how Nicholas cage got his fortune. If I'm not mistaken he got paid an upwards of 15 or 20 million or some shit to play superman before Christopher reaves (I think) and even has headshots and shit in the superman costume.
But something happened and he was no longer playing the role but walked away with the money from the deal.
If This isn't correct I would love to hear the actual occurrence. But this is what sunk cost made me think of =/
Yeah, but sunk cost fallacy isn't about changing opinions per se. People are prone to stay with their opinions even if they formulated their opinion just a moment before. Changing opinions gives you a cognitive dissonance regardless of how recently you formulated them and cost of time you sunk into them.
The answer to this is very very very rarely is the evidence actually rock solid to them. Sure, in your world it is. But in theirs it’s a conspiracy or your study was flawed in way X or my study actually disproved your study and a million other ways. I’d be willing to bet most the examples you’re thinking of that’s the case. Most people need a 20 year experienced scientist to drag them by the ballsack over to a microscope and explain shit for them to ever actually believe “rock solid” evidence.
Most people need a 20 year experienced scientist to drag them by the ballsack over to a microscope and explain shit for them to ever actually believe “rock solid” evidence.
Yes, conspiracy logic. THEY say x is rock solid; but THEY hold all the cards and have something to gain therefore THEY would say x is y despite x actually being z.
Its just some people have different concepts of "rock solid evidence" depending on what they believe. It can get really philosophical, like, what is real? You believe that this liquid will change colors depending on what it touches. This has happened everytime. It turns pink when it touches calcium, so you see that as rock solid evidence it will turn pink when it touches calcium. But, what if its a color changing liquid that just happens on coicedence to turn pink at the same time it hits calcium. Not because of the calcium, but just insane timing.
Honestly, read some Descartes. He was a philosopher and scientist when it began to spread that the universe was heliocentric. He thought, "Oh my God, if this whole time we thought the universe was geocentric, we thought we had evidence, but it was wrong. What else do we think we know for sure, but is false?"
Its some mind boggling stuff. And many people, me included, have instances where we take our personal beliefs over "rock solid evidence" because we just trust them more in those cases.
Used to be like this. Grew up in a household where being wrong, making mistakes and having a different view to my mother led to arguments and humiliation. Learnt to stubbornly defend my opinions and beliefs and learnt to stop when I realised not everyone will hold every mistake against you.
The problem is that for social issues the disagreement is generally not in the evidence but in the ramifications of that evidence.
Take gun control: there’s pretty solid evidence that if you just stopped selling them to the public at all and instituted mass buyback programs the number people who die by firearm would decrease. So this is rock solid evidence in support of strict gun control if you believe that the role of the government is public safety at any cost. But to the person you’re arguing with, the point is moot because they don’t hold the same fundamental view about the roles and rights of the government. So you just talk past each other and call each other idiots and look down on one another for no reason.
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This should be higher up.
It is very difficult to “convince” anyone you are “right” if you do not understand their fundamental values/worldview. That’s from where the whole walk a mile in their shoes concept stems.
They probably see a different angle.
If this happens to OP often, maybe they should consider changing their discussion tactics. People really do not respond well to feeling like the person browbeating them thinks they’re stupid/dumb/etc. for their beliefs.
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I used to think this but now I think it’s really just as simple as being brainwashed by a narrative that masquerades as some sort of critical thinking. Firmly believing that all teenagers and college kids should carry concealed firearms is just irrational and should be rejected by nonsense immediately by any adult. Blaming the Obama admin for hurting the federal government’s response to Coronavirus, or choosing to believe in miracle cures while refusing to believe scientists isn’t really value based. They are just repeating what they were told, because they trust the wrong people and aren’t smart enough to understand what they are supporting.
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I've seen plenty of people argue that high schools would be safer if the students had guns. We live in a world where a significant number of people believe in Qanon and the Flat Earth Society. Do you really think nobody believes in unrestricted gun access for 18 year olds?
But yes, it is an extreme and arguably hyperbolic example.
Here is a more reasonable one:
This is an gross exaggeration based off stereotypes and deliberate misinterpretations of actual beliefs.
This could also be said for the people who believe "the Democrats want to take my guns away." There is no evidence of any political will for confiscation. Such a policy would be impossible to pass or implement. Yet many uncritically believe this as fact.
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What you're doing is taking a generalized shorthand statement (i.e. "democrats want to take guns") as 100% literal, when its not meant to be 100% literal.
This thread is about the position that a lot of people are too stupid to understand nuanced arguments. These people also are not going to have the critical thinking skills to understand that some things shouldn't be taken literally.
There are absolutely people who take all of that that literally. Furthermore there are absolutely people who aren't smart enough to understand anything figuratively or abstractly, which is my whole point.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure if you understand that what you're saying is that you didn't understand that that statement wasn't meant to be taken as literal........
Regardless, I think people should be above such basic rhetorical trickery and manipulation, and discuss the actual values and principals behind these issues rather than play 'gotcha' games like literalization or reduction.
There is no evidence of any political will for confiscation
Beto O Rourke, as a candidate running for the Democratic nomination for president, literally went on tv and said “hell yes we’re going to take your AR-15”.
CykoTom · 76 points · Posted at 16:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thing is 1) I'm stupid, so I do not trust myself to critically think through all the ramifications of 'rock solid evidence' when it's first presented. So I will never change my mind on an issue as soon as you present your evidence. Part of the process in figuring out if the evidence is rock solid is to try to attack it from every angle. And I'm not going to be able to do that in one sitting.
2) I don't know what real things have 'rock solid evidence'. There are some scientific things that have repeatable experiments, so those are rock solid. But all social issues do not have 'rock solid evidence'
You might consider that whatever your predisposition is, does it rate better than the new evidence? In other words, have you given your current position the same scrutiny that you give to new evidence?
Too many people start from a false position, and unless the new evidence is Sooooo overwhelming, they won't change their original stance.
I totally agree. Just because someone has good evidence doesn’t actually mean they’re right. You have to evaluate all the evidence from your side too, and critically examine theirs. There aren’t too many things that are obvious from the evidence.
I don't consider this stupid at all. Probably one of the smartest things I've read.
Really, it's not about the speed to change your mind, but the ability to change your mind, I mean, I guess within reasonable time limits and study. But some people will not change their minds no matter what.
However, some things you just must accept the experts' rock solid evidence. For example, don't go to church right now. Tell that to some religious people. Or if you have cancer, do what the expert cancer doctor says. Steve Jobs died because he was an idiot and ate a fruit diet, probably given to him by Jenny McCarthy.
As far as your point #2, yes. Social science is pretty much a joke, as far as the "science" part goes. However, as far as the indoctrinating part of social science, and the rest of the grievance studies go in the university, that's pretty solid that they have their social and political agenda that they push over what little science there is. But science it ain't. See the Sokal affair
Steve jobs was 91 percent going to die anyway. I don't blame him for trying something funky when all science could say was 'we can keep you alive a few more months'. Pancreatic cancer is a bitch.
I don't know, that is not what I read, but it really doesn't matter too much, that's not what my point was. And if he did get the diet, it was probably from Jenny McCarthy. (that was the humor part of the post).
Yes, but the difference is you are open-minded enough to at least LOOK AND LISTEN to this new or different information and evaluate it. That makes you an intelligent person in my book.
I think you're giving the average person too much credit.
Even recognizing you aren't prepared to instantly assess information is a step above the average person. Recognizing there are things you don't know, or that are beyond your understanding is the first step to gaining knowledge and a better understanding. This already puts you above average. I'm not saying this to butter your bread, I just genuinely appreciate seeing someone recognize this, because I know far too many people who can't recognize their shortcomings, and if you can't even do that, you will always be ignorant.
Being able to admit these things, not just to yourself but to others is a quality that should be admired. It's the kid that raises their hand in class to ask a "stupid" question that is eventually going to outpace the others.
The average person does all those things just at different times. There are extreme examples, but thinking your above average generally is a good way to fuck your head. Everyone is stupid sometimes, and the average person is average.
This is a clever way to preserve skepticism, but it's also a clever way for me to defend not changing my opinions based on evidence until the evidence is overwhelming.
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exboi · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going off in the first example, I think a lot of people in such a situation have accepted that they're wrong but just don't want to admit it. A lot of the time if you admit you're wrong you end up getting made fun of a ton and then feeling embarrassed. Nobody wants to go through that. Especially on the internet where people will be much harsher.
exboi · 6 points · Posted at 18:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate it when you’re in an argument but then a ton of smug idiots come join the opposing side bringing up a point that you’ve already addressed. Like is it really that hard to just listen to/read what I’ve already said before replying?
I know your question was rhetorical, but many people are just parroting and might actually be unable to discuss a nuanced argument. Given recent events I think a lot of us are astonished at how dumb people are on average.
sarge21 · 13 points · Posted at 19:41:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just FYI, you and everyone else here most likely do this. You just think that only others do it.
I know I do, but I also make specific efforts not to. I purposefully seek out contrary information, and play devils advocate with myself. I'll use tools like this to examine the arguments on each side.
I'm not an expert on most things, but I at least try not to believe incorrect things or things based on fallacious reasoning. I value being correct over what how I feel.
Some people are actually trained to look up information from opposing sources to try to make the best of it, but I don't believe it is a natural process at all. It needs to be taught and trained.
This is just bizarre to me too. I’m a science educator and researcher in the area. The idea that you can have good evidence shown to you and say “not real” is incredible to me. What mental gymnastics are you doing to ignore reality? It’s legitimately insane to me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a science educator and researcher in the area.
As a teacher I’m Bio/Chem/Physics. As a researcher I work broadly in the “Learning Sciences” but more specifically in educational technology, psychology, and online learning materials. I also collaborate with biology and chemistry post-secondary teaching and learning research.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what beliefs in your area of expertise do you see people having that they don't change?
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Sometimes those people have built the foundations of their lives on those beliefs. They identify the person they are with those beliefs and opinions and so evidence to the contrary is viewed as an attack on who they are rather than simply how they feel or what they think. Religion and politics are great examples.
It's been proven that if someone's ideas are contradicted with hard irrefutable evidence, they will typically double down on there flawed belief system.
It's not that simple. We all have different ways of seeing the world based on experience, belief, and bias. When we receive new information, we try to put it into our existing framework. If we can't fit it in, we might change our framework or reject that information off hand. When you hear something that doesn't fit into your science framework, you reject it or change it to fit your worldview. When someone else hears something from science, like that evolution exists, but they are from a religious background where they value tradition and religious figures, they reject it to fit their existing worldview.
You may think you aren't guilty of doing the same thing because you care about science, but every time you hear new information, seek out a certain source over another one, or discount someone else's views, you're doing the same thing. Your framework is just different. You have different values.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah usually people who assume others are ignoring evidence are themselves the narrow minded ones who can only see one view.
For example to theists, the existence of earth and humans is self evident evidence of the existence of God. Others do not see it that way at all.
Yeah but if one side of a debate has hundreds of years of scientific discovery, refinement of the theory over time, millions of individual pieces of evidence from different lines of investigation, and the other side has "nuh-uh, this book says no" it's not hard to say which side is more likely to be actually, literally correct.
You believe science is the way to know the truth. They believe faith is the way to know the truth. It's a difference in values. It's not that they think all science is wrong or bad, they just don't think it's the way to know things to be true or not.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a strange take. I’m no expert on the matter, but I’d imagine that most departures from religion are gradual disengagements on a personal-experience level rather than simply being “reasoned out” of it by some other party.
My dad believes maggots grow out of meat. No, a fly didn't lay eggs on it, the meat spoiled and maggots were the magical result. We had a full on argument about it and I shoved scientific Google proof in his face and he still wouldn't give in.
samsuh · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
omg. the opposite happened to me. someone was using the word "Mong" to call someone an idiot, and refused to believe that was a racist term. after solid evidence, they were convinced and said they didnt realize, and would stop using that term. i sat at my keyboard dumbfounded that someone would take evidence, and change their outlook and behavior based on new information.
I recommend Quinton Reviews's episode on the "Paul is Dead" theory. It explains why conspiracy theorists refuse to believe in rock solid evidence.
In short, Quinton explains about the way a foundation is laid out for a scientific theory versus the way a foundation is laid out for a conspiracy theory like how a table is built. In essence, a scientific theory is laid out with the legs first and the surface after. Scientific theories often are decided on if there's enough evidence that supports it. Conspiracy theories are often laid out with the surface first and the legs after. Due to the structure of a conspiracy theory, conspiracy theorists will often try to find any evidence that proves their theories true. Both of these theories may take years to properly conclude. Thus, people don't want to look like idiots for having a theory they chase after for so long ultimately be disproven.
Even the small children are prone to this. Someone did experiments with having kiss try (or refuse to try, more precisely) new foods. They make up their minds based on looks, smells, whatever, and then even if you get them to try it and they like it, they still maintain it's bad. Acceding you were wrong and someone else was right apparently carries some social cost that's greater than the new knowledge to the degree that it became innate in humans.
Yep. Recently had a conversation with an old coworker who was convinced 5G was going to give us all cancer from radiation. She thinks we are exposed to too much radiation already from cell phones, computer screens, and WiFi. I showed her scientific papers about the difference between ionizing and non-ionizing radiation. She refused to listen to any of the research and just ended it with “I’m not hurting anyone, so it’s my right to say I still don’t like it.”
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think if someone is trying to change your belief, someone is telling you that you are wrong. I think that is when people put a guard up or get defensive. If someone doesn't know me, it will be very unlikely that I could change his or her mind on a subject. However, if they get to know me and respect me first, and value my opinion, THAT is the opportunity to make an impact.
When people's beliefs are confronted directly and are proven to be unequivocally false, they often double down on their position.
Try using street epistemology. Just listen. Ask them why they believe what they believe until you get to the root of their belief. Then with a little luck, they will see the flaws in their own logic, and notice that they have no real reason to justify their beliefs.
My dad literally said that you can't possibly get coronavirus if you are a priest and I told him ,,that's not how it works'' and he just continued to say that if you believe you won't get it,you won't get it
In the heat of the argument it can be difficult to just accept that you’re wrong but afterwards it’s just stupid to keep being wrong when you now know better
“You know the problem with people? They only wanna hear what they already believe”
A depressed cartoon horse
Jagob5 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I am starting a conversation about something with someone and they bring a valid point up to change my opinion, I’ll listen. If we’ve been going at an argument for 10 mins and they finally decide to bring up a solid, irrefutable point that proved them right, I hate to admit I’m wrong.
Its easy to understand. It might be because of culture and that someone has lived their whole lived convinced to belive in that god or theory. When you are in a community for beliving the same thing and when you throw your problemsat that thing and have something to feel safe about then of course you wont belive in facts. Im mostly talking about religion but if i take flat earthers it might be because they want to feel apart of something, a movement or to be with people they can understand.
For some people there does not exist evidence that could change their mind about a particular issue. When you place an idea at the peak of your system of values, the acceptance of any evidence that is opposed to that idea will be perceived by your brain as bad for you. No one wants to ask the question "how can what I value most be completely wrong?" because that is a very unsettling position to be in.
I get this. We all have core beliefs. Often these are normal sometimes they can be harmful. I was raised in a conservative household. It was terrifying to think the reality and core beliefs I had built my world upon were wrong. My world will come crumbling down! My understanding of everything, my very self identity within relation to how I identify everything else - terrifying! But it didn't crumble. Life went on and I was better for it.
Imagine finding out that every time you were hugged, that was sexual assault. Period. Everyone knew except you. And now you have to face the fact that you have been terribly, terribly abused. You world goes upside down. What about all those times YOU hugged someone!! You unknowingly assaulted them too!
I think people who have had these experiences might be better at understanding why someone would rather do the mental gymnastics and be content with the cognitive dissonance than face the fact that they are wrong and all that implies.
When I met my now wife she was like this, we would disagree about something and she would get extremely mad, and refuse to even consider it. I like 'arguing' albeit calmy, so I would wait for her to calm down and then continue, sometimes multiple times. A previous relationship had taught her that any disagreement was a 'fight' and that me saying she was wrong was an attack. It's taken some time but she's much more reasonable now, every once in awhile she reverts, but usually catches herself.
I think alot of people have similar experiences, and attribute being wrong to being dumb and therefore an insult. No one got everything right the first time, the only way to get it wrong is to not learn/grow from the experience.
Most of the time they aren't refusing to change their "beliefs", they're refusing to change their identity/culture/emotions. That's much harder. Evidence can be the least of their concern.
There's a quote by NY Times reviewer James Poniewozik about Ken Burns' Vietnam War doc that always hits me in relation to this. I remember reading it and can't get it out of my head to this day. - "The saddest thing about this elegiac documentary may be the credit it extends its audience. “The Vietnam War” still holds out hope that we might learn from history, after presenting 18 hours of evidence to the contrary."
I have a friend who believes all the aspartame conspiracy bullshit. We got into a bit of a battle over it on Facebook and I brought my wife into the conversation. She’s a dietitian with a PhD in food and nutrition and is a professor, and of course she backed me up. He continued to argue, and when I said something along the lines of “do you seriously think you know more about this than she does? She’s literally a doctor of food and nutrition and she’s telling you you’re flat out wrong” - his response was “yes, I know more than she does.” He’s a tucking labourer, I don’t know if he even graduated from high school, but he refused to acknowledge that a fucking doctor of food and nutrition could possibly know more than him about aspartame.
I think that the combination of reading the book "velvet elvis" and then later on learning about employment personality tests really helped me to understand that some people are naturally concrete thinkers and some people are more conceptual thinkers (although like sexuality, it is a sliding scale across a lot of different aspects so forgive my generalizations).
Concrete thinkers tend to look at the world as if it was a brick wall, where every piece of info is a brick in that wall, and removing a brick will cause the collapse of their wall and thus their foundational understanding because the different concepts are locked together.
Conceptual thinkers are more likely to create brick piles, where info is sorted and making new piles or reclassifying a brick into a different pile is much easier.
Society often supports the existence of concrete thinkers because they "do". They typically don't require much to be happy doing repetitive tasks. They only need structure and consistency. They can be intelligent, experienced, wealthy, good at science etc.
It seems as though (lacking recent resources, don't take my word for it) this is a hard wired aspect of someone's mind and likely out of their control for the most part to change.
For example, my high school ap chem teacher, also a Christian, after many years came to believe in evolution, but only in small changes within a species, but not evolution from one organism into a different organism. High school level chemistry, and being a chemistry teacher for that matter, is a very good place for a concrete thinker. I found that he struggles with newer concepts in the higher level chemistry theories I went on to learn, kinetics vs bohrs model of an atom for example.
Try not to get upset at them. What is easy for you might be difficult or impossible for them, just like being happy doing the exact same thing everyday for years might be difficult for you. Conceptual thinkers make changes to existing paradigms, and it will be the younger concrete thinker who will pick up on your "new rock solid evidence" and hold it as truth for their whole life, even as newer info emerges that expands our conceptualization of how that thing works.
And thanks to the following future comments, I'm sure I'll be changing my understanding of what I just said incorrectly as easy as moving a brick off this pile of bullshit! This is reddit after all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok...? I'm talking about People who think 5G causes cancers, are presented with the differences between ionizing and non-ionizing radiation, are thoroughly informed that 5G couldn't possibly cause cancer, and then keep saying it does.
That kind of holding onto belief or opinion that flies in the face of evidence.
Who said anything about abuse?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause if I admit I’m wrong about one thing, I’m opening myself up to the possibility that I could be wrong about a lot of things and my sole character trait is being right about everything
My grandmother recently told me that she is 79 so I won't be changing her mind on how terrible (she believes) marijuana is. I found that to be so sad. Not that she still wants to believe that marijuana is the gateway to being an absolute junkie and only absolute losers use it and the reason my mom didn't finish college is because she started smoking marijuana (she got pregnant with my sisters and then life got in the way of going back), but because she uses her age as an excuse for not listening to facts and basing her opinion on them.
Whoden · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. That was Hitler's reason for hating the jews.
I used to be like this. I would change my belief, but would never tell you that, and would argue till the end of time to prove my point even when I realised I am wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The truth is something that burns. It burns off dead wood. And people don't like having the dead wood burnt off, often because they're 95 percent dead wood.
Jordan Peterson
Welcome to trying to convince people that factory farming is bad and that maybe they shouldn't support it. They dig in deeper and never question anything.
jleVrt · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
logic is not the only thing that builds up people's beliefs.A lot of times it is the emotions. Like if your very caring mother tells you something is right, then you don't want to find reasons, you just believe it that it is right.
This phenomenon is also common amongst other domains. e.g. big businessmen do not always look for logic to make a decision, but instead sometimes they go with there strong feeling.
I have also tried answering your question in the past and have comeup with the above understanding. I also use it in many situations in my life. When I cannot convince my mind to start working (logically even if I start tomorrow I'll be fine etc etc) I just start working on it because there is a feeling inside me that says that I have to start working right now, and that is good enough a reason even if logic does not back it.
I have a coworker who has very strong views about things she knows nothing about and will insist she is right. I've pulled up sources for her on my phone disproving her stance and she's just muttered something non-committal and just kind of trailed off.
The worst part is that we are both auditors and fact check people FOR A LIVING and she is happy to just assume inane shit.
Where do we get these are armchairs BTW? My chair when I use Reddit typically has no arms, a hard back with no lumbar or neck support, a rigid seat with a hole in it, and to top it off it's always cold when I first sit down on it!
Qubeye · 19 points · Posted at 21:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called pier review. As in, I fucking threw all my research off a pier.
Email the author, 9/10 they'll be so excited you're asking about it and will give you the paper for free
Zatary · 17 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It feels so bad to be genuinely interested in a topic then realize I can’t read the paywalled articles anymore because I’m off campus for the rest of the year :/
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 21:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Zatary · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was for mathematicians for a long time. Someone would post a problem in a public place, mathematicians would race each other to solve it, so when you discovered a break through, you would tell nobody and just use it to flex on other mathematicians with your faster solving techniques.
After just finishing “demon haunted world” by Carl Sagan, I cannot recommend enough for people to read (or listen to) that book. It is changing how I perceive the world, all for the better.
As a scientist. TAKE MY DATA please read my papers. I've been stuck in this lab for months with no escape. Nobody reads my stuff. I'm running out of food.
I think the point is that these should be links you already have on hand. Because it’s assumed you got this information from somewhere and didn’t just make it up on the spot
The telecommunications industry and their experts have accused many scientists who have researched the effects of cell phone radiation of "fear mongering" over the advent of wireless technology's 5G. Since much of our research is publicly-funded, we believe it is our ethical responsibility to inform the public about what the peer-reviewed scientific literature tells us about the health risks from wireless radiation.
The chairman of the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) recently announced through a press release that the commission will soon reaffirm the radio frequency radiation (RFR) exposure limits that the FCC adopted in the late 1990s. These limits are based upon a behavioral change in rats exposed to microwave radiation and were designed to protect us from short-term heating risks due to RFR exposure.
Yet, since the FCC adopted these limits based largely on research from the 1980s, the preponderance of peer-reviewed research, more than 500 studies, have found harmful biologic or health effects from exposure to RFR at intensities too low to cause significant heating.
Citing this large body of research, more than 240 scientists who have published peer-reviewed research on the biologic and health effects of nonionizing electromagnetic fields (EMF) signed the International EMF Scientist Appeal, which calls for stronger exposure limits. The appeal makes the following assertions:
“Numerous recent scientific publications have shown that EMF affects living organisms at levels well below most international and national guidelines. Effects include increased cancer risk, cellular stress, increase in harmful free radicals, genetic damages, structural and functional changes of the reproductive system, learning and memory deficits, neurological disorders, and negative impacts on general well-being in humans. Damage goes well beyond the human race, as there is growing evidence of harmful effects to both plant and animal life.”
The scientists who signed this appeal arguably constitute the majority of experts on the effects of nonionizing radiation. They have published more than 2,000 papers and letters on EMF in professional journals.
The FCC’s RFR exposure limits regulate the intensity of exposure, taking into account the frequency of the carrier waves, but ignore the signaling properties of the RFR. Along with the patterning and duration of exposures, certain characteristics of the signal (e.g., pulsing, polarization) increase the biologic and health impacts of the exposure. New exposure limits are needed which account for these differential effects. Moreover, these limits should be based on a biological effect, not a change in a laboratory rat’s behavior.
The World Health Organization's International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) classified RFR as "possibly carcinogenic to humans" in 2011. Last year, a $30 million study conducted by the U.S. National Toxicology Program (NTP) found “clear evidence” that two years of exposure to cell phone RFR increased cancer in male rats and damaged DNA in rats and mice of both sexes. The Ramazzini Institute in Italy replicated the key finding of the NTP using a different carrier frequency and much weaker exposure to cell phone radiation over the life of the rats.
Based upon the research published since 2011, including human and animal studies and mechanistic data, the IARC has recently prioritized RFR to be reviewed again in the next five years. Since many EMF scientists believe we now have sufficient evidence to consider RFR as either a probable or known human carcinogen, the IARC will likely upgrade the carcinogenic potential of RFR in the near future.
Nonetheless, without conducting a formal risk assessment or a systematic review of the research on RFR health effects, the FDA recently reaffirmed the FCC’s 1996 exposure limits in a letter to the FCC, stating that the agency had “concluded that no changes to the current standards are warranted at this time,” and that “NTP’s experimental findings should not be applied to human cell phone usage.” The letter stated that “the available scientific evidence to date does not support adverse health effects in humans due to exposures at or under the current limits.”
The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures.
Millimeter waves are mostly absorbed within a few millimeters of human skin and in the surface layers of the cornea. Short-term exposure can have adverse physiological effects in the peripheral nervous system, the immune system and the cardiovascular system. The research suggests that long-term exposure may pose health risks to the skin (e.g., melanoma), the eyes (e.g., ocular melanoma) and the testes (e.g., sterility).
Since 5G is a new technology, there is no research on health effects, so we are “flying blind” to quote a U.S. senator. However, we have considerable evidence about the harmful effects of 2G and 3G. Little is known the effects of exposure to 4G, a 10-year-old technology, because governments have been remiss in funding this research. Meanwhile, we are seeing increases in certain types of head and neck tumors in tumor registries, which may be at least partially attributable to the proliferation of cell phone radiation. These increases are consistent with results from case-control studies of tumor risk in heavy cell phone users.
5G will not replace 4G; it will accompany 4G for the near future and possibly over the long term. If there are synergistic effects from simultaneous exposures to multiple types of RFR, our overall risk of harm from RFR may increase substantially. Cancer is not the only risk as there is considerable evidence that RFR causes neurological disorders and reproductive harm, likely due to oxidative stress.
As a society, should we invest hundreds of billions of dollars deploying 5G, a cellular technology that requires the installation of 800,000 or more new cell antenna sites in the U.S. close to where we live, work and play?
Instead, we should support the recommendations of the 250 scientists and medical doctors who signed the 5G Appeal that calls for an immediate moratorium on the deployment of 5G and demand that our government fund the research needed to adopt biologically based exposure limits that protect our health and safety.
Tl:DR for my post: The evidence that the risk from most sources of em radiation, including 5g, is effectively negligible on the human body, is greater than the evidence that it produces any appreciable level of detrimental effects.
I have been interested in science and technology for decades. I take time out of my busy day to learn by reading peer reviewed scientific literature, maybe 3 hours a day. I have read many studies on the effects of various sources of electromagnetic radiation on the human body.
The above poster is incorrect on many things, I'd say, on average, the whole wall of text is about 20% accurate.
I occasionally use this term (though I prefer "I've researched this") but I'm a scientist with a doctorate and I'm always happy to reveal sources and articles and often offer to go through them with people. Nobody has ever let me go past the first article
It’s why when I see from an anonymous source from an article covering something political I immediately believe it’s made up, and 9 times out of 10 it turns out it was made up.
Bizoza9 · -1 points · Posted at 21:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is "that's fucking stupid and insane, I'll never believe that, I demand a source". That's kind of a reddit standard where they have no intent on accepting sources. The plan is always to nitpick sources that they don't agree with while blindly accepting sources they do agree with. Confirmation bias has ruined genuine conversation and fact checking.
252 scientists from over 40 countries with 2000 peer reviewed papers between them are actively trying to get the WHO from creating a moratorium on the roll out of the 5G infrastructure until more experimentation is done on the effects to humans and other life forms on a cellular and more macroscopic level.
These are leaders in there field of EMF research and have many years between them of research, expertise and brilliance. We should listen to them, will you?
250 scientists is a hilariously small number of researchers in comparison to the quantity of health physicists, medical physicists, and medical professionals rejecting these claims.
Numerous reports, including the EU’s official report on mmW dosimetry for regulatory investigation, have shown that there is no quantifiable biological effect of mmW radiation anywhere within existing regulatory power density limits on either internal or external organs. mmW have been shown To exponentially attenuate in biological material, depositing the majority of incident energy on the very surface layer of the skin or exposed tissue, and not transmitting significantly beyond that layer.
I say this as an actively working Radiation Effects Engineer.
Same. I approach all this different types the same way.
"I really want to understand what you believe and why you believe it. If you have the desire and intention of changing the minds of me or anyone else here, heres a blueprint. I am open to hearing what you have to say but the ball is in your court now."
I had a "conversation" with an anti vaxxer who said she wouldn't show me any of her sources, I told her I really wanted to understand where she was coming from and she got angrier and told me that she'd spent hours and hours researching vaccines, she wasnt just going to give me that information, I have to go and do the work myself otherwise it's not fair.
I'm a Christian, like most of these people claim to be.
So I get a free pass when I say, "if you dont choose to have a conversation here, then you arent going to change anybody's mind. And if you are trying to advance the Kingdom, you're doing a terrible job and making an embarrassment of my Lord. So as a brother in Christ I admonish you to go home and get your case together. Otherwise, stop that."
I ha r a family member who is going on and on about conspiracies and the virus. She tells me to research it cause she has. Her research consists of google searches!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
After scrolling past all of the truthful answers, because it's "at the top because that's what the government wants you to see", watching videos about "Truth of 5G", immediately clicking off them as soon as they mention debunking such a stupid belief because they "must be a state sponsored agent".
Looking up a debated topic and then purposefully chosing to not watch, listen to, or even consider one side of said debate isn't "doing your research". It's just fortifying your echo chamber.
pae913 · 19 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone tried pulling the “do your own research” thing on me for the same topic. I just walked away because there’s no having a decent debate with them. It’s their argument, they should be prepared to defend it themselves
There's just no use trying to explain the burden of proof to someone like this, unfortunately.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 21:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Coronavirus has already caused testicle problems in men akin to high doses of radiation."
God, FUCK I hate people who hear the word 'radiation' and assume it's inherently harmful. BITCH, LIGHT IS RADIATION, RADIO IS RADIATION, AND EVEN IF YOU DON'T USE IT, THOSE RADIATIONS PASS RIGHT THROUGH YOU ALL THE TIME AND YOU'RE NO WORSE FOR WEAR! TAKE MIDDLE SCHOOL SCIENCE SOME TIME!
It's so basic, and it pisses me off so much all the same.
They all say “Do your research, I did my own.” They think that googling conspiracy theories is research. No method, no scientific method, no statistical population actually studied, nothing.
"I'm not going to reveal my sources. I did my research. Do your own."
wut why when where how.
Ok but this is actually hilarious though. As if knowledge is a tangible finite number of things that you can treat like potatoes: "I found these, these are mine, go find your own!"
Erm, it isn't? The UK released 3.4 - 3.6 GHz for 5G, plus existing 4G bands being repurposed which are below 3.4Ghz. "Proper" 5G is in the milimeter band which is above 20 GHz. Power != Frequency, either.
At my old job (Dental implant design consultancy), they took on a new guy who turned out to be an anti-vaxxer and against 5G.
And the guy was an engineer! Not even a theoretical mathematics guy or a business person, a fucking engineer!
The bloody guy knew how to do math on energy dissipation in titanium and bone, could talk about six-sigma, and knew exactly why titanium oseo-integrates with our bones, yet somehow couldn't put two and two together and apply the same basic logic to the rest of the world.
If it wasn't because the guy was dumb as a rock I would've thought he was pulling my leg.
Education has next to nothing to do with intelligence. Learning a subject in a school environment is all about effort not actual "smarts". I got a degree in physics and mechanical engineering and I'm an idiot.
5G operates between 24-68GHZ range.
Visible light, the stuff coming out of your phone or computer monitor allowing you to read this sentence, is between 300GHz and 30,000GHz.
That lady was probably dead before she finished typing at those ranges.
Someone told me once that talking on the phone while pumping gas can cause an explosion. I asked how? She replied phone batteries have been known to explode. Then I said maybe you think about that next time you put a phone to your face and when have you ever heard on the news of a gas station blowing up that wasn't caused by an actual bomb? I bet you think cars blow up too.
People just don't even have common sense anymore.
The telecommunications industry and their experts have accused many scientists who have researched the effects of cell phone radiation of "fear mongering" over the advent of wireless technology's 5G. Since much of our research is publicly-funded, we believe it is our ethical responsibility to inform the public about what the peer-reviewed scientific literature tells us about the health risks from wireless radiation.
The chairman of the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) recently announced through a press release that the commission will soon reaffirm the radio frequency radiation (RFR) exposure limits that the FCC adopted in the late 1990s. These limits are based upon a behavioral change in rats exposed to microwave radiation and were designed to protect us from short-term heating risks due to RFR exposure.
Yet, since the FCC adopted these limits based largely on research from the 1980s, the preponderance of peer-reviewed research, more than 500 studies, have found harmful biologic or health effects from exposure to RFR at intensities too low to cause significant heating.
Citing this large body of research, more than 240 scientists who have published peer-reviewed research on the biologic and health effects of nonionizing electromagnetic fields (EMF) signed the International EMF Scientist Appeal, which calls for stronger exposure limits. The appeal makes the following assertions:
“Numerous recent scientific publications have shown that EMF affects living organisms at levels well below most international and national guidelines. Effects include increased cancer risk, cellular stress, increase in harmful free radicals, genetic damages, structural and functional changes of the reproductive system, learning and memory deficits, neurological disorders, and negative impacts on general well-being in humans. Damage goes well beyond the human race, as there is growing evidence of harmful effects to both plant and animal life.”
The scientists who signed this appeal arguably constitute the majority of experts on the effects of nonionizing radiation. They have published more than 2,000 papers and letters on EMF in professional journals.
The FCC’s RFR exposure limits regulate the intensity of exposure, taking into account the frequency of the carrier waves, but ignore the signaling properties of the RFR. Along with the patterning and duration of exposures, certain characteristics of the signal (e.g., pulsing, polarization) increase the biologic and health impacts of the exposure. New exposure limits are needed which account for these differential effects. Moreover, these limits should be based on a biological effect, not a change in a laboratory rat’s behavior.
The World Health Organization's International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) classified RFR as "possibly carcinogenic to humans" in 2011. Last year, a $30 million study conducted by the U.S. National Toxicology Program (NTP) found “clear evidence” that two years of exposure to cell phone RFR increased cancer in male rats and damaged DNA in rats and mice of both sexes. The Ramazzini Institute in Italy replicated the key finding of the NTP using a different carrier frequency and much weaker exposure to cell phone radiation over the life of the rats.
Based upon the research published since 2011, including human and animal studies and mechanistic data, the IARC has recently prioritized RFR to be reviewed again in the next five years. Since many EMF scientists believe we now have sufficient evidence to consider RFR as either a probable or known human carcinogen, the IARC will likely upgrade the carcinogenic potential of RFR in the near future.
Nonetheless, without conducting a formal risk assessment or a systematic review of the research on RFR health effects, the FDA recently reaffirmed the FCC’s 1996 exposure limits in a letter to the FCC, stating that the agency had “concluded that no changes to the current standards are warranted at this time,” and that “NTP’s experimental findings should not be applied to human cell phone usage.” The letter stated that “the available scientific evidence to date does not support adverse health effects in humans due to exposures at or under the current limits.”
The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures.
Millimeter waves are mostly absorbed within a few millimeters of human skin and in the surface layers of the cornea. Short-term exposure can have adverse physiological effects in the peripheral nervous system, the immune system and the cardiovascular system. The research suggests that long-term exposure may pose health risks to the skin (e.g., melanoma), the eyes (e.g., ocular melanoma) and the testes (e.g., sterility).
Since 5G is a new technology, there is no research on health effects, so we are “flying blind” to quote a U.S. senator. However, we have considerable evidence about the harmful effects of 2G and 3G. Little is known the effects of exposure to 4G, a 10-year-old technology, because governments have been remiss in funding this research. Meanwhile, we are seeing increases in certain types of head and neck tumors in tumor registries, which may be at least partially attributable to the proliferation of cell phone radiation. These increases are consistent with results from case-control studies of tumor risk in heavy cell phone users.
5G will not replace 4G; it will accompany 4G for the near future and possibly over the long term. If there are synergistic effects from simultaneous exposures to multiple types of RFR, our overall risk of harm from RFR may increase substantially. Cancer is not the only risk as there is considerable evidence that RFR causes neurological disorders and reproductive harm, likely due to oxidative stress.
As a society, should we invest hundreds of billions of dollars deploying 5G, a cellular technology that requires the installation of 800,000 or more new cell antenna sites in the U.S. close to where we live, work and play?
Instead, we should support the recommendations of the 250 scientists and medical doctors who signed the 5G Appeal that calls for an immediate moratorium on the deployment of 5G and demand that our government fund the research needed to adopt biologically based exposure limits that protect our health and safety.
I don't have the scientific expertise to argue with any of it, though I certainly stand on the side of performing as much research and as many tests as needed in order to understand potential long-term effects of new technology or systems. Perhaps someone here has the knowledge and understanding I lack.
That said, if 5G really is dangerous, it's not because it has anything to do with the coronavirus, like the nutter I mentioned and countless other idiots seem to think. These people believe that 5G towers are somehow transmitting the virus, which just isn't how things work.
It is 4G mobile connection on steroids. It is supposed to be faster, more reliable, and able to handle higher volumes of usage by a fairly decent margin.
You'll know 5G when your phone has it because you can down/upload faster than you ever thought imaginable. AT&T's "5G evolution" is absolute bullshit, it's just 4G uncapped IIRC.
You have to be within a line of sight of a 5G antenna to use real 5G. It uses millimeter waves which do not penetrate walls (enough).
Or you won't notice at all, because you were already getting 50/20 with 4G and doubling or even quadrupling that for most peoples' cell phone use makes no difference at all.
I'm not against 5G whatsoever, I just know what I have now, what I need, and know for sure that I don't need a 5G capable phone for the next couple of years at least.
Don't all EHF frequencies require line of sight? Hell, UHF barely penetrates metal/concrete/dirt.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally just a different wireless frequency that trades off coverage for speed. High tower counts are required to accommodate the reduction in range, but that ends up also helping with speed since there aren't as many subscribers per node.
Cell providers have successfully marketed the idea that this is going to be some sort of magical generational leap in technology. It's just a different frequency that will have more bandwidth as well as being less crowded.
It's the upgraded version of 4g. Used for new cellular technology. Which basically means you can download stuff faster and the time it takes for 2 things to talk to eachother will be lower. It uses radio frequency same as 1g, 2g, 3g, 4g, fm radio, wifi just on a different frequency.
VTL_89 · 90 points · Posted at 18:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are (stupid) people that have to believe they are smarter than they are and this is their way. I’ve met people that don’t think any noteworthy event in history has ever happened without some type of conspiracy. Kobe’s helicopter crash? Bad weather? Pffft perfect cover up. If he crashed in good weather? Pffft you’re telling me a helicopter crashed in perfect conditions? There is absolutely nothing that isn’t a conspiracy and they cling to it for a desperate need to be “woke”. I’ve never met a smart person in my life that believes any of this shit, it’s always the kids that went to continuation high school.
Conspiracy is open ended and in a way that's more interesting to them and they feel special like only a small group know the truth so to speak. It's more boring (to them) to have a concrete explanation. Like, that's it? The open ended conspiracy can go on forever and because they don't understand science and evidence or they choose not to, they then cling to these conspiracies because it's all they can grasp and it makes them feel smarter. That's my theory anyway. I could go deeper as I've thought about this a lot, especially with smart people who have schizo or psychosis mental problems like they can understand other things that most people can't but then go off the deep end with certain subjects, like it doesn't add up. it's fascinating.
I think Kobe died because he knew about the Corona Virus before everyone else and was on his way to the White House to tell the President about it, but the Chinese took his helicopter down!
And you just cannot reason with these people. Any inconsistency or thing that doesn't make sense is just "that's them just gloating that they are getting the better of you".
I’ve never met a smart person in my life that believes any of this shit,
Well, half of reddit believes the 2016 US elections were a conspiracy. Similarly, many believe the democrats primaries are a conspiracy. 99+% of reddit believes that Epstein's did not kill himself.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 22:20:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Just like Epstein's suicide wasn't like other suicides...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people who commit suicide in prison don't do it while both guards are asleep, the cameras that point to their cell are mysteriously not working, whimper, yelp and struggle, do it off the top bunk of a bed that is shorter than they are and with enough force to break two bones that are usually only broken in strangulation, not hanging.
Oh and did I mention the bedsheets are like toilet paper?
And since so many people believe this conspiracy theory, the notion that "I've never met any smart person that believes in such theories" is completely ridiculous.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:53:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's be fair. One of those points alone is a conspiracy theory.
All of them is a fucking floodlight
bdonvr · 2 points · Posted at 23:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He didn't say nothing is a conspiracy, just that not everything is lmao
They think since it's a higher radio frequency it's interfering with people's immune system. I mean, I don't believe that but that's what they're getting at. Unintended consequences doesn't sound all that crazy but no, it's not causing Coronavirus.
It is something that was starting at a conceivably similar timeframe and it is something I would say most people don't have a grasp on. Then you play into preconceived ideas of people (for example that the government is fucking them). That is how I would imagine.
That said there are much much more knowledgable people than me on the topic of why and how conspiracy theories work.
I work in telecoms and all our field engineers received an email recently regarding safety on our sites due to people destroying our equipment because of this 5g coronavirus conspiracy...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since you do 5G research, any idea if it's looking like Nokia will be the lead dog in deployment since they seem to have the head start in the infrastructure?
Uhh I dont know I do specific stuff with error correction coding. I do know that Huawei > Qualcomm but everyone is l trying to decide on 5g standards and protocols
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 20:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Okay fair but 4G LTE also permiates your body so with this logic why even use a cell phone or wifi? There are strict standards for what power you can broadcast at so that you are biologically harming people. Thats what I dont understand about that p.o.v.
I don't really know anything about this and have no idea if it's really dangerous but I did come across this article which at least seems to have some scientific facts behind it:
"The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures."
_00307 · 5 points · Posted at 20:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conspiracy theorists are gonna give a bad rep to anyone who is against 5G rollout for legitimate reasons. I really want health and telcom experts to do way more testing and research before they start rolling 5G out.
The article you shared does a good job of pointing out some potential risks. I believe that since everyone is so adamantly against these conspiracy theorists, they're gonna assume that people who are doing this sort of research are in the same boat and call them all loons. This is a regressive way of thinking and has bit the human race in the ass more than once.
To be fair, they actually have studied it's effects. How much more study would ease your mind though? I'm just curious because it's probably different for everyone!
Here is why these people are treated as retards. 5G is a standard, that is put together by a consortium of companies who have the technological know how to manufacture the equipment and what needs to be done to make things more efficient, faster, and better. They also have to comply with governments around the world, where every government has their own regulations on what is and isn't safe, and what tests need to be performed.
This takes time; it has been building since before 4G was released, just like 6G is already in the works and has been for some time. To comply with all of the requirements from all of the different governments around the world takes huge amounts of testing and validation. If any one government found a problem that would cause issues in humans, this would never see the light of day.
Additionally no company would ever want to be associated with a technology that caused cancer or a "virus". It would be financially devastating for them; even the consortium of companies who put it together would destroy them. Thus everyone takes extreme precautions to make sure things are safe.
Yes, in the past, companies rushed and pushed things to markets that were bad; but that is why the testing today exists. Because we learned from our mistakes.
Not everyone can be an expert in everything; and thus we have to realize that we have to trust that they are doing the right thing. This is NOT a new technology, it is a generational change from one to another. Not much different then upgrading your 2010 Honda to a 2020 Honda, it will have new features you didn't have before, it will work better, be more fuel efficient and safer; did you go through all of the research or do you trust that they did their homework and made sure that they complied with the safety standards and that the testing was actually done? No, generally you take them at their word. This is no different.
Trust the experts; it isn't an issue. IAmPizzaPrincess is obviously knowledgable; trust her opinion.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't wanna alarm you but there are radio waves going through your body all the time as it is. This same uproar happened with 4G. It happened with cell phones in general back when they started becoming mainstream. It happened with microwaves when those became household items. If people don't understand electromagnetic radiation... That's absolutely fine and doesn't make them stupid! Nobody in this world can understand everything after all. But that's no excuse to go around and make absolutely wild claims as "facts" and scaring the shit out of other people who don't understand how it works either.
Absolutely people should always be curious and dubious of how new technologies will affect us but when it's been studied and proven to not be harmful, that doesn't seem to stop the conspiracies at all. They are not willing to hear it.
I had someone on FB posting this, he is a typical Alex Jones nut, and he trusts me as an IT professional and I tagged like 8 people with various wireless and RF degrees and certs who explained it to him
He came to the light once someone he trusted brought professionals into the conversation
A) it's radiation at a higher frequency than 4g, so people fear it causes mutations and thus caused the virus in a bat to mutate to Sars-Cov2 as we know it.
B) COVID19 spreads faster in densely populated areas, for understandable reasons. 5g towers are mainly placed in densely populated areas, also for understandable reasons. Where there's correlation, people will think theres causation.
Its microwaves, it would have to get into the terahertz past visible light and into UV to even begin to be ionizing radiation. Just because something can cause skin burns at close range (microwaves) does not mean it has enough energy to ionize your cells and mess with DNA. This has been common knowledge for decades.
Common knowledge among those with any sort of degree in physics, yes. Outside of that, organisations like Greenpeace have been really effective at selling the message that all radiation must be scary.
Somebody told me they "know" that Hollywood is behind COVID-19 because (and I quote) "all the sci-fi movies have come true, so there's no way they didn't know about this years ago"
About two weeks ago there were conspiracy theorists claiming it's a hoax because famous people in Hollywood were the first ones to be tested positive- "they're all hired actors!"
Like, rich people getting tested first is all kinds of fucked up, and that's what they decide complain?
My mother and her entire side of the family think they'll use microchips in the vaccine for coronavirus, and then after that the government will turn on the 5G towers, instantly killing everyone with said microchip-vaccine remotely somehow.
There are some absolute fuckwits here in the UK that have set fire to 5G cell masts because they’re too dumb to think for themselves. Shit like this makes me ashamed of my country on a regular basis.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sister is currently having her second baby with one of these mouth breathers. Stupid cunt thinks that the world is flat, I'm not joking...
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a lady tell me that they deliver Chinese food on boats to the US and that’s how people get Coronavirus here.
it’s not that they think it causes corona, they think corona doesn’t exist and it’s a cover for the fact 5g is a way for the government to kill us off or something like that. it’s so stupid
I think these are the same people that believe the earth is flat and refuse to give their children vaccines tho. They're pretty dumb lol. Most of them have the same clump of beliefs.
Source: literally worked with a couple who were both legit flat earthers. I thought they were joking at first but as time went on I know they were being serious. They then had a kid together and before she actually gave birth I was having a beer with the dad after work. I thought he was joking at first about his experience on how hard of a time hospitals and nurses gave them because they didn't want to vaccinate their kid on the way. They ended up having to go to some special birthing facility or do it at home or something. We all got laid off recently so I haven't heard from them but I 100% in my heart believe they also latched onto this new 5g coronavirus shit.
It's disinformation and there will be A LOT OF IT leading up to the elections.
Basically it's propaganda designed to make you question your leaders and educators. ("what aren't they telling us?")
Mostly coming out of Russia and China, disinformation is designed to drive populations apart into this "us vs them" mentality that has been hyper-prevalent since about 2016.
This is something I genuinely struggle with. What is the correlation between 5G and coronavirus in their minds? To me, analogically, it sounds like saying telephone wires cause the flu. I don’t get what is convincing them the two things are related. Is it because of the waves 5G receives and/or sends out? How would those create pathogens?
The argument that people make is that 5G started rolling out in China right before the virus hit. Thus the radiation is causing the virus because they both happened about the same time. And that the roll out happened in China, and the first cases of the virus were in China that means that there has to be a correlation, right?
Well yes, that would be a correlation, but that doesn't mean it is a causation. Too many people don't know the difference between the two.
Someone I work with referred to it as a bug and one of my bat shit crazy coworkers decided she would be safer drenching herself in bug spray to keep the virus away. I guess it worked because the smell is so terrible no one gets remotely close to her.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look, I am about to get a degree in electronics and know enough biology as a normal person should know
Any way, worst thing it could cause is cancer and that'd be about as much as having a router taped to your ass would
bdonvr · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it can't. It's non ionising. Worse thing that could happen is it might burn you. And that wouldn't be from a router more like sitting on a proper radio mast.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah exactly, taping a router is going to do jack shit--
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:58:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G is awful not talking side effects it’s just not good in general. It speeds are amazing because it’s 6 GHz but its reach is terrible. You put something between you and the tower and it’s even worse. You’d have to have towers literally everywhere for it to viable.
For people to understand easier the higher the GHz the faster the speed data can travel but the shorter the distance it can travel, 2.4Ghz travels further than 5Ghz but has slower speeds 5GHz has faster speeds but can’t travel as far. 6GHz has faster speeds than any of them but travels even shorter distance. 5G can barely travel 400FT and barely through walls LOL, 5G ain’t gonna cause no virus lol
People like that just have so little understanding of how modern technology works that it literally frightens them. When you don't understand something, it can be frightening.
Many people here in the U.S. are already hesitant to accept anything new or different, which only makes the problem worse.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I can get a conspiracy behind 5g if its along the lines of digital privacy or some means of oppression via communication, but god fucking dammit a tower causing a virus is the dumbest thing ive ever heard.
It makes a lot more sense depending on how long you believe the reptilians have been engineering humans.
Personally I think it’s obvious that reptilians have been around for eons and have been experimenting on us for thousands of years. These people who think they’re only just starting now with 5G must be a bit dim because that whole idea is just ridiculous.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The original theory was that a government made the virus, and that 5G going through someone’s body can mimic the symptoms of Corona virus so that people could die as a result of both from one excuse.
It’s so confusing because for that to be the case wouldn’t AT&T and Verizon need to be the biggest companies in the history of capitalism. For 5g they’re able to shut down almost every other business and force them into bankruptcy. Like Disney is losing boatloads of cash right now but they’re powerless to the might of Verizon and their agenda to put up more towers.
Just had a discussion on FB with someone about this today actually. I was open minded and willing to read/listen to his sources. Told him if he could provide any reputable evidence, that'd be good. He couldn't of course. Sent me a link to some 30 minute video of some religious kook who claimed to previously "work for Vodafone" or some shit. It was all really nutty talk and just the video-guy going "believe me, this is a fact!" but with nothing to back it up whatsoever.
I was just like... Dude... This is not proof of anything. Its just some guy talking with no sources for anything he's claiming at all. I could make a similar video right now claiming everything I say is "facts" but it doesn't make what I'm saying true.
He said I was stubborn and not willing to have my mind changed.
People are retarded. I saw an article about it once on the news, and they asked an anti-5G person what she'd rather have: An hour of full sun contact at 40 C, or live with a 5G mast closeby. She answered the sun, because 'the sun brings life, while radiation only brings death.'. (translation, radio waves and radiation have the same term in Dutch) These people can honestly not think above the level of a fifth grader.
She’s also very sympathetic to Palestinian terror attacks, especially when they kill “Zionist oppressors” who were apparently placed in Israel by the Freemasons.
Who knew?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love pointing out the palestine and palestinians didn't exist until the Muslims had a bunch of Jews show up in their own holy land. It's all part of an old Russian misinformation campaign from when they were having a soft war with the USA over there.
Yeah dude ethnonationalism and colonialism are way cool. If only Britain could arbitrarily decide to set up homelands for more white people in the Arab world.
There a pockets of small numbers of individuals the believe stupid shit all over the world. Social media and the pivot to click bait headlines by once legitimate news sources has amplified these voices and given them a free platform to advertise their craziness and attract swaths of similarly stupid people in a really unprecedented way.
Because it's true. However, what people don't realize is that only reptilians can be infected by the coronavirus. The mole people specifically designed it to target the reptilians so humans have nothing to fear.
Unfortunately, I have found evidence that leads me to believe that the greys are attempting to further modify 5G to infect humans as well. Luckily tinfoil hats can protect you from 5G so I recommend you wear one at all times.
That being said, the most effective way to combat the greys blatant disregard for the ceasefire is a large scale thermonuclear war. It's common knowledge that greys are weak to nuclear bombs. So we must ally ourselves with the mole people who can give some of us access to their deep underground lairs, protecting us both from nuclear fallout and 5G.
Once the coast is clear we can annhilate and enslave the mole people and retake what is left of the surface. From there we can turn our sights on the despicable insectoids. Using our newfound mole people slave army the insectoids will never stand a chance because as everyone knows mole people are super effective versus insectoids.
Once that is said and done the little green men will no doubt sue for peace. Regardless we will crush them like all the rest and finally be free from our intergalactic invaders. Sure 99.999% of humanity will die, the surface will be reduce to a bombed out molten cinder but at least we will have our freedom. Unless you subscribe to the theory of the existence of merfolk, which obviously I do.
Most of the merfolk will have gone extinct already however, the strongest will remain. With their advanced technology we cannot hope to face them head on, but they have one glaring weakness, their energy is supplied by the tides. What makes the tides? The moon. We will bring down the moon. Crashing it upon R'lyeh, their capital, hopefully destroying Cthulhu as well.
This of course will come at a cost because the moon wizards will no doubt be upset. I cannot be certain we will defeat this final foe. The dark lord Xenu is indeed poweful. With any luck he too will perish from the collision. Only then would we truly be free. Unless of course you believe Earth is flat and perched upon the back of a great tortoise, but that's just idiotic.
well, luckily it wasn't a zombie apocalypse cause otherwise only the smart people will go and earth will be filled with zombies and dumb asses, who will try and cure zombification with glue
I understand it just fine. People are insanely stupid, almost unbelievably so. To the point where one moron posts a meme about a conspiracy theory by the government and it is automatically taken as gospel.
I could teach a class on this crap, I have a family member who believes it all and have had several arguments with her.
The explanation I've heard it's that 60ghz waves can excite oxygen molecules and you intake that and it makes you more sensitive to respratory illness. Covid19 is nothing special according to this theory it's just the scapegoat for 5g making our lungs weak
There is of course no real evidence of this from what I can tell
Stop this just perpetuates the myth no one believes that except a dozen people. This is how the vaccine thing started as well,
Stop bringing attention to it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father-in-law sent all his extended family (including me) like 4 or 5 hour long videos about corona being caused by 5g and not a virus.. He's very conspiritorial, I usually grin and bear it and just go about my day. (He's open minded... To anyone he agrees with) I pushed back politely with facts and reason and he got a little agitated.. I have been removed from the family group chat. My wife is still included... I Am not.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad asked me if I had 5G the other day. Didn't realize why until now :/
Of course he also believes in chemtrails, JFK and 9/11 conspiracies, I could go on...
H-713 · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please tell me people don't really think that... it's so far from making any sense.
I personally believe that there needs to be a mandatory "radiation basics" class taught in every high school. 1 Semester, doesn't need to be math heavy. Just something to cut down on the misinformation being spread. It'll lower the average blood pressure of all the physicists and radiologists who have to listen to people spewing misinformation in public spaces.
I personally have zero health concerns with 5G. Here's why:
5G, operating around 24 GHz, is non-ionizing radiation. The photons have insufficient energy to ionize atoms or molecules. X-rays, for example, are a form of ionizing radiation. X-ray photons do have sufficient energy to ionize atoms and molecules. When those atoms and molecules are in your DNA, it causes genetic damage. This is why they have the potential to cause cancer.
Energy of a photon is given by E = hc / λ. As a hint, hc = 1240 eV * nM. (eV is electron-volts, a unit of energy). The energy of a microwave photon with a wavelength of 1 mm is about .00124 eV. The accepted ionization energy of a hydrogen atom, 13.6 eV, is almost 11,000 times higher.
I have one major gripe about 5G, however, and it's an ethics one:
To make way for 5G's wider coverage, cell carriers needed a lot of UHF spectrum. In the US, the FCC sold most of the 600 MHz band to T-Mobile for 8 billion dollars. For the pro audio industry, this was like setting off an atomic bomb. Suddenly, $3000 wireless microphone systems operating in the 600 MHz band became illegal to operate. As an example, one local performing arts venue was given about 1 year to come up with roughly half a million dollars to replace equipment that had been bought just a few years earlier. The old equipment, which was worth probably $150,000+ prior to the decision, became so worthless that it was sent to E-waste. The cost of not upgrading? A fine of $10,000 per microphone per day- a relatively standard FCC fine, sure, but painful none the less.
Sometimes sacrifices need to be made for technological advancement, but I'd really prefer it if it wasn't the performing arts world that had to make those sacrifices. It's happened twice now.
My own fucking brother... what the fuck? Did I not teach him better than that? I had to deactivate my FB account because I was legit depressed that my OWN FLESH AND BLOOD would believe some random guy on Youtube's nonsensical conspiracy theories. I'm a bit in shock from it....... my own fucking brother.....
I have a conspiracy theory: that someone is running an experiment to see how effective various forms of social media are at persuading people that complete bullshit is true.
Most of the “humour” of popular YouTubers. They literally just scream, make dumb faces and do goofy dances. Don’t see how that appeals to anyone over the age of 10.
Humor has a lot to do with being surprised. Young kids have experienced fewer things, so they're surprised more easily, and find that kind of "reaction" content funnier, generally speaking. It's also harder to tell fake excitement from real excitement when you're younger, and it's energizing and interesting to see someone excited about something, especially if it's someone you care about at all.
jomb · 107 points · Posted at 19:39:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True. I sometimes go back to the YouTube videos I loved back in 2007-2008 and other than the feeling of nostalgia they're all awful and unfunny to me now.
Kowzorz · 26 points · Posted at 21:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sketch comedy groups are the worst for me regarding this. "I thought that was funny? That's just... dark..."
One of the guys behind them did a stream where he watched all of them like 5 months ago, there were definitely a few where he was like "oh god that was horrible"
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looking back, I can't see how fred was so popular that he got his own tv show. It's so annoying to watch his videos.
One day he was coming to tell me all excited about this one youtuber he watches and his Sonic game speedruns and comments. Had all the hallmarks you mention of the generic ytuber.
Then one time he came up on another YT video that was in my recommended and it was part of an interview series. Basically he admits that it’s a weird zone where yeah he fakes a lot of the excitement but at the same time he had to like the subject to begin with so at some point it’s real excitement. The oddest part is that sometimes during the filmings he swears that he isn’t sure how much he’s purposely hyping himself up and how much it’s genuine.
Kinda changed some of my cynicism towards Ytubers haha.
Yeah, I kind of regret calling it fake excitement since it isn't necessarily that - the people who make that kind of content in the long term just try to inflate their excitement, sort of ham it up because apparently it makes a big difference for their numbers. It's not surprising that if they do that sort of thing over a long time, that it might actually change them subtly.
I dunno, I mean you’re not wrong technically calling it “fake.”
It’s hard to say I guess but his gist was that his scripts would basically be something like “ham it up here” but after a long time doing the videos he’s actually not sure how much was purposely fake or not himself haha.
But yeah, in this case, he started because he likes Sonic games, got popular enough to be a celeb and is basically going through the usual celebrity issue of acting versus genuine feeling. It’s the usual dilemma of adults making content for children.
I think children generally like seeing adults behave like children. In addition to being more relatable, they also get to enjoy the rambunctiousness vicariously. For kids who grow up in strict homes, this style of humor can be a needed outlet. I think that adults enjoy stand up comedians who say controversial things for similar reasons. I don’t actually have any evidence to back up this intuition however. I would be interested to see if anyone has tried to investigate this scientifically and what the findings were.
KrabS1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, yeah. My 11 year old sister in law laughed for like half an hour when I mentioned the fact that you have poop inside of your intestines.
you ever rewatch something you loved as a kid again today that you clearly remember dying of laughter from it? would you agree with your 6-12 year old self that this is the Pinnacle of funny now that you're this old?
I rewatched the old skits from classic "all that" and.... yah no. kid me was a simpler human. 😌
I don’t understand how parents let kids watch that type of garbage content. You might as well get them a monster energy tattoo for their 12th birthday.
I remember seeing something about how someone's natural reaction to a surprise is to laugh, and since kids are kids, they are surprised much more easily, then laugh at said content more, and since they laugh they like they watch more...
ikwtif · 12 points · Posted at 17:58:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but who are the "reaction" video's made for though. I don't understand how that can even be remotely popular watching someone watch something else. If they could act and actually put effort into it and actually make it into some entertainment form of content, maybe, but those don't exist.
I guess for some people it's a way to spend time with someone/get their thoughts on something they like. Why do people read reviews of something they already watched/played? Why do they ask a friend what they thought of a movie? It's just a more detailed version of that. Instead of looking for the thoughts your favorite youtuber had after watching it, you're looking for their whole reaction to it.
I think a lot of the time it’s just people are already very interested in the product that’s being reacted to, and they just ran out of other articles about it. So they eventually just click on a reaction video.
Yeah, it's mostly about either the personality or perspective. I used to enjoy The Fine Brother's content. Mostly the Old People React stuff. It was interesting seeing their perspective on current pop culture.
There are times I can understand it. For instance I enjoy watching rugby players react to some of the best football players of all time, or new NBA fans who are reacting to their first experiences seeing Bird or Jordan.
The audiences are often adults with the mentality of kids too.
daboog · 3 points · Posted at 22:32:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be faaaaaaaair
small-j · 6 points · Posted at 18:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
And it sucks cause those kids grow up on that stuff and then become young adults who think that (screaming) is what constitutes quality entertainment....
my 13yo brother is exactly like that. Just watches Markiplier scream all day. “Yeah this is a one hour video by him and there are 13 of them and I’ve seen all 13.” Like really???
Honestly, I grew up on semi-stupid YouTube humor (I’m in my late teens now) and I would say my tastes have evolved quite a bit. The vast majority moves on.
That’s probably totally true. I think being locked up for a month with two 13 year olds (twin brothers) who no exaggeration play video games / watch YouTube 15 hours a day has made me lose sight of how they might eventually grow out of it. Feels eternal rn lol
I can definitely see that. I’m not saying this generation doesn’t have time-specific problems - every single generation has that. But that seems exaggerated and not normal, to me.
Fair point. I do try to see value in the stuff that my younger siblings take interest in, it’s mostly the screaming and repetitiveness that confuse me (in terms of how that’s enjoyable)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even channels targeted toward adults do it. There's one host in particular on a channel I'm subscribed to that yells a lot, while the hosts on the other shows they do just talk normally but with a little energy put into it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few months ago I visited a little cousin of mine (he's about 6 or 7 can't remember) and I was saddened at the fact that he could not and would not take his eyes off some screaming/bright colored thumbnail/"OHHH" face youtuber on my uncle's phone. If we took the phone he'd throw really bad tantrums and would only shut up when given the phone back.
Call me a boomer (although I am only 18), but I remember a time when at that age I would only be at home to eat, shower and sleep. Any other time I would be either at school or outside riding my bike with friends or whatever. I might just be projecting on him what I think it's the 'perfect childhood' bc that was mine, but I dunno I just feel it would be so much better for him, especially because he is already a bit chubby and I think he would benefit a lot from it.
But what do I know? Like I said, I'm only 18, no younger brothers (only older ones) which equals to very poor parenting skills so maybe I'm just not progressive about the whole "this is what kids do these days" argument.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I legitimately feel bad for kids these days, they are growing up with a media environment that is so incredibly brainless and lacking in a soul that I don't even know where to start. Like, okay, kids cartoons in the 80's and 90's were mostly garbage also, but they were at least garbage with a plot and some production values, right? They usually tried to impart some sort of moral lesson or aesthetic sensibility.
Now we have an entire generation raised on youtube and shit. These kids are going to be fucking braindead by the time they hit their teens
Occasionally I'll watch people play horror games and it's really funny to see the vast difference between someone with lots of views and someone with no views.
The lights could flicker and Markiplier has already screamed and pissed his pants three times over because that's what the kids want to see.
I automatically thought of Mark when I saw the statement you replied to. By boyfriend likes that kind of humor to an extent and he thinks I just find everyone he likes annoying. I don't.
My wife is similar, she watches all those YouTube that start out like"soo I accidentally bought $500+ of clothes and so I'm gonna make a video about trying them on! Holy by the way here's an in-video ad about some useless shit." She doesn't get why I hate them, it's fake as he'll with every single one of them. Nothing original anymore on yt trending or popular. I miss neegaheega and Freddie Wong.
sje46 · 20 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look for educational stuff on youtube. It's far more entertaining than "entertainment" youtube.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
You saw that video in where hes supposed to give a talk in a conference but the captain gets delayed in traffic in another Galaxy and his "assistant" has to give the talk? (The assistant is him without makeup) the ending is the best thing I have ever seen in my life, I almost shit my pants laughing
Good list! Few more; Scott Manley if you're into space stuff, Tom Scott for general (random) knowledge and computer science(also computerphile), there's loads of good educational youtubers.
Same as above but replace Scott Manley with Everyday Astronaut. Numberphile is also good for learning how numbers are manipulated in satisfyingly weird ways.
Also SciShow!
I would add Real engineering, Learn engineering, engineerguy
They're not really technical and they're great to have a glimpse of an understanding of how the world works
Also Primitive technology and many cooking channels are great
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good to see that isn’t just exclusive to my wife. Her thing is military couples vlogs (were a military couple as well) but seriously what is so interesting and intense and gripping about watching some lady live her life? 99% of those vlogs aren’t anything special, nothing really abnormal, just regular people. Shit if you wanna watch regular people live their lives, then go people watch at a mall. Never understood how people enjoy vlogs that aren’t by some hot shots adventurers or something interesting
sje46 · 38 points · Posted at 20:21:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parasocial relationships. It's a way to battle lonliness.
I used to do this for a few hours a day when I was NEET with minecraft letsplayers. They had utterly boring, uninteresting lives, and the gameplay simply isn't interesting at all 95% of the time. It's just a familiar voice/personality that you relate to from some shallow aspect you share in common.
People-watching at the mall doesn't cut it because you only see those people once, and get snippets of conversation. People require something more longterm.
It takes the place of normal friendships. Following a vlog or podcast or two is fine, but people need some outlet for two-way social interaction.
Not talking about your wife, btw, who I don't know, just explaining why most people watch these things.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably the most insightful and well explained reasoning I’ve heard. Thanks for that
I know this is the truth, but fuck she watches these women talk while doing make up ( Not a tutorial or tips and tricks for make up) and they don't do shit. Yet my wife has many passions and she sinks time into these "content creators" I just hate seeing people our age more invested in someone else that doesn't give a fuck about them rather than themselves. I just miss listening to her saxophone I guess, hearing someone talk about random b.s. from the other room makes me want to time out what my wife likes.
Sorry dude, you can't control what your wife likes and you shouldn't try. It's very frustrating when people like dumb shit but then I remember that I'll literally jump in delight over potatoes and cheese so it's really a matter of perspective.
How am I trying to control her? You're never going to love everything about your spouse. Mostly you should read the main question, this is in reference to me not understanding her love for these people on a personal level. Stop projecting and I'm going to go listen to my wife watch videos of people cooling on miniature fucking cooking sets. Which I showed her initially because I know she loves asmr-esque shit even tho I think it's brainded!!
He used to be less annoying. I started watching him as a kid and it was because he was way more toned down than pewdiepie. He didn't just scream all the time and make excessively stupid faces.
I remember watching him more recently and I just couldn't. I thought maybe I just hadn't noticed when I was young but then I actually went to an older video and he was actually less annoying.
God, there's this Year 7 (grade 6?) kid that gets on my bus who has obviously just grown up on Markiplier and screaming YouTuber trash, and so he thinks that's just how people behave. Constantly over-reacting to everything, screaming about shit, never shutting up, and surprise surprise everyone hates him.
It's not just Youtube that teaches them this. I've caught snippets of a lot of modern kids' cartoons and it's constant histrionics and flailing. I loathe it, not just because it annoys me but because this is what they're teaching kids.
PBS is a parent's friend. They're all about educational entertainment, which means none of that overdramatic bullshit, the characters pretty much act the way you'd want your kid to act. Daniel Tiger was incredibly helpful in teaching my little brother some manners.
Kids cartoons have been like that forever. Looney tunes is also full of it.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 09:46:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looney Tunes wasn't really constant screaming and loud noises though. I never watched Spongebob as a kid so when I see clips of it as an adult I'm like "how the fuck can anyone tolerate this screeching nonsense?" And it's even worse with newer ones like Chowder.
It's much worse than Looney Toons now, though. I mean, I agree. Kids want bright colors, broad gestures, obvious humor. And to be fair I think Looney Toons was originally for adults as well, not targeted at kids.
But a lot of modern kids' shows are screaming and flailing nonsense with such horrifically cringey behavior, it makes Looney toons look chill.
Flailing and histrionics naturally captures children's attention --> shows that have lots of it get more viewers --> shows with more viewers get more advertising money --> networks push more flailing shows and cancel less flailing shows in search of that advertising money --> wealthy investors in networks get slightly wealthier.
Yes but kids grow up watching grown men acting like that so they think it’s normal and cool, hence acting like that themselves. Most kids these days want to grow up to be YouTubers. Saw a video the other day of a kid, no older than 15, literally sexually harassing girls in a shopping mall and justifying it by putting “prank” in the title.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 00:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean, did you? I'm sure there are plenty of stupid humor you laughed at as a kid that you grew out of. Enjoying a type of entertainment isn't necessarily going to mold your personality and behavior as an adult.
Is this why my kids overreact to shit so much? I can't believe I never made this connection. At any rate I cut YouTube out of our house about 6 months ago.
Ok I get that YouTubers can inhibit a bad mentality on your children, but I absolutely despise it when people cut off an entire fucking platform just because of a connection that they made about something occurring inside of one. Damn vaccines inject viruses into your system? No wonder I'm getting sick! No more pharmacy again. The content inside the internet is making people more toxic? Guess I'll never touch the internet again. My kid got bad grades? Oh of course! He's been playing video games. Welp, time to throw his Xbox in the nearby lake into the depths of the abyss to never be seen again. A job well done.
No, I just think it's illogical and wrong to judge and cut off an entire platform because you made connections that were irrelevant and does not reflect youtube as a whole. Many of the content you can find is really amazing, and doesn't depend on the stereotypes that you find here. I've made analogies in my previous comment. If you can understand how outrageous they are, then surely you can understand the same with YouTube, because it literally is the same thing. I usually never use upvotes nor downvotes as any form of annotation, but you can clearly see how many people feel heavily about this. Especially in a thread that is literally meant to rant about things, you of all people should be getting an advantage and upvotes. But just take a moment to realize that what you're doing is thought negatively by others. Doesn't matter if you care or not.
But your advice is also paradoxically contradictory in of itself. Why should I trust your advice considering you're an Internet stranger? I don't get why it's so difficult for you to see how unreasonable your point of view is. Is it possible to make a rational discussion, instead of resorting to attacking other people? If anything that's a childish move on your part. No, I'm not a YouTuber. What makes you think that in defending an thing, that I have to be directly affiliated with it? In what sense in 2020, does the word triggered even make sense? Is it not normal to get mad? Like that should be something in this thread. I don't understand what triggered is supposed to imply.
Personally I enjoy Markiplier. I think his horror stuff is good and I am bad with horror games by myself so having someone alongside commentating makes it bearable.
Plus I just find him funny.
Kyidou · 16 points · Posted at 20:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think Markiplier is a very good example. Compared to some other Youtubers his reactions are like nothing.
Honestly I’m likin’ markiplier nowadays, he seems a lot more down to earth, especially with his Unnus Annus stuff. He just seems like a very motivated person who has to do new things sometimes
Aidith · 20 points · Posted at 20:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! I get seriously annoyed with people who bitch about his “overreactions”, because it’s called BEING ENTERTAINING. And each Youtuber has their own style of being an entertainer which is part of why it’s great, there’s something for everybody!
I find Markiplier has actually grown a lot as an entertainer since his early days on YouTube. Yes, he still overreacts to things, but not to nearly the same extent he used to.
Reminds me of SovietWomble's playthrough of alien isolation, which was great because of how genuine his fear was. It made the game ten times as intense.
siirka · 5 points · Posted at 19:56:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god I love those videos lol. He’s legitimately terrified the whole time and it makes it so much better. I wish he actually did more than one episode of Outlast
Markiplier has really grown as a creator since making videos like that with over the top reactions. If he still made videos of that quality I wouldn’t find his videos entertaining but his channel with crank gameplays, Unus Annus, is actually really good.
Sayor1 · 13 points · Posted at 18:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that why people watch him? Am I the only one that fell in love in his story telling voice?
I was watching one youtuber, an Irish gamer, play Spyro and there were moments where he got into the game and was just normal and then realized he had to be a "personality" and started shrieking and it was just
Why
Somewhat related: im a huge horror fan and known to be very stoic and the calm cool head in a crises, not much phases me. But watching someone play a horror game, when something starts chasing the player, it triggers a huge adrenaline rush in me, to the point where it is sometimes really hard to enjoy watching.
Pewdiepie playing amnesia a decade ago is actually really good. Some of his videos was excellent. A good mix of humor and horror. You especially know the feeling if you have played that game.
I'm 30 and legit cannot play horror games because they scare me too much. I'm not saying it's oversenualized, because it is, but there are definitely adults who cant handle amnesia.
My favourite horror game YouTuber is John Wolfe. He doesn’t pretend to be scared so I don’t have to worry about going deaf from screams every two seconds.
elun19 · 3 points · Posted at 22:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh he looks so over the games half the time.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 17:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I watched a no-commentary walkthrough of HL:Alyx recently and the player had so much personality just through the way he played. The hand gestures he made and the items he chose to interact with alone made for more entertainment than any talking could.
I mostly just listen to Mark play horror games cuz he sounds like a male version of my ex panicking and screaming and I feel more comfortable ignoring it while I work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like Markiplier a lot as a person, and there are some of his videos that I think are funny. But man, some of his stuff just makes me cringe so hard. I understand that he has an audience and is appealing to said audience, but there are way too many instances where he just hams it up way too much. I never liked Pewdiepie, but one thing I can absolutely respect him on is that he said he stopped playing horror games because he just doesn't get scared anymore and didn't want to 'put on a show' of being scared.
On the other end of the spectrum you have John Wolfe, who would probably still remain unfazed even if an actual serial killer broke into his house and started running full speed at him with a machete.
My favorite horror YouTuber is John Wolfe. Doesn’t freak out at all. Hes also got a snarky sense of humor and isn’t afraid to call bullshit on bad games.
Edit: people who are downvoting this comment: can you let me know why you find this guy enjoyable? I find him very insincere but genuinely interested in why you like him
Having watched Markiplier for several years now, I feel like a lot of what he puts out is very sincere. Of course he plays up his reactions for the camera when playing horror games (definitely less so now than he used to), but there are a lot of people who find that funny. People just have different senses of humor. There really isn’t any form of humor that exists that is purely objectively funny or unfunny. It just depends on what the viewer finds funny.
I didn't watch the link, because I already know who he is thanks to my kids being kids about the time he was getting started, so I'm already familiar with him. It kinda makes me sad, because he seems like a pretty good guy. I even took my younger daughter to see him live 2 or 3 years ago, and it was a good time. But I just can't watch his gaming videos. So annoying. :(
Yeah, I definitely can't watch them play any horror games. However, I feel like the videos where he plays games with his friends are a lot better. He is still obnoxious, but the banter and reactions at least seem genuine.
Markiplier used to be so chill when he started out. He really didn't scream. Sometimes he'd get surprised by something and let out a quick shout. That's it really. Nowadays he'll get chased by something and go "AAAAAAHH! NOoOooO LEAVE ME ALoOooOnE!!!". I still like him as a person, but I haven't watched him in a very long time now.
I have a friend who's pushing 30 and loves his videos. She would show me one occasionally and I've told her multiple times I just don't get his humor. I don't get the appeal of someone screaming and overreacting to stuff like that, it feels super fake. I feel like I'm watching an actor instead of a real person playing a game.
That's where POiiSED comes in. I think that dude started with a scream and just never stopped..regardless of whether it was "necessary" or not. So I like him a lot better than Markiplier who used to genuinely seem like he was there for the indie horror game creators and not to make a quick buck.
It annoys me how this whole surprise face thing in the thumbnail blew up. It's the new duck face and I hate it. Unsubbed to so many youtubers I've been loyal to over 10 years. I refuse to click/watch those videos so pointless to crowd my feed with it
Besides, the answer isn't that the algorithm recommends videos with those thumbnails more often - the algorithm doesn't care about the actual content in itself. It does however greatly care what people click on (which incidently would be this kind of thumbnail). So the real question is why people would be more inclined click on those thumbnails to begin with.
Oh, god yes. I used to subscribe to the Try Guys. I still think they seem like good people, and I hope they're doing well, but I just couldn't stand those irritating fucking visual-click-bait video thumbnails popping up in my notifications. Seriously, it was so annoying it turned me off the entire channel.
Absolutely love them, but I don't watch their videos unless I'm binging them for that very reason. It's always a game of "nothing else to watch, so I'll click on this video with the bad thumbnail. Huh, I forgot how hilarious they are, better watch the 10 videos I avoided in one sitting!".
Also can't stand titles like "[Something that doesn't need an explanation] EXPLAINED!" or "X Things You Didn't Know About [Show/Movie/Video Game]" (but it's all common knowledge).
It's usually a ten minute video, three of which is advertising Squarespace, Manscaped, or Audible, followed by seven minutes of "According to a reddit comment by /u/AnalDischargeCollector" or multiple screenshots of someone else's article with lines like "The author goes on to say...".
It's human nature to be intrigued by things which other people are excited about. A thumbnail which showcases that catches your eye much more than "Look a thing"
It's amazing how popular YouTubers have changed over time. It used to be that it took actual consistent creativity and humor to have a successful and popular YouTube channel. But now if you make enough stupid and clickbaity, fake prank/social experiment videos you can get popular enough to then make stupid "I GAVE $100 TO THIS HOMELESS MAN" or "I SPENT 24 HOURS ON MY BALCONY" that take zero effort and get like 10 million views on them because 8 year olds just think you're the coolest person alive and hilarious. Not to mention the one hit wonder Vine stars who thought they were funny enough to make the transition to YouTube even their content is shit and still get millions of subscribers
Don’t forget titles like “3AM FACETIME WITH INSERT DEAD CELEBRITY CHALLENGE (GONE SEXUAL)” or “DROWNING MY DAD IN A RIVER PRANK (GONE WRONG)”.
This is literally the kind of garbage kids are exposed to and they’re being exploited in the process with shit like fake giveaways. It’s actually really sad that the younger generation looks up to and aspires to be these people. Kids went from wanting to be astronauts to wanting to be narcissistic talentless douchebags.
This is literally the kind of garbage kids are exposed to and they’re being exploited in the process with shit like fake giveaways.
I'm going to be extremely curious to see the research on how having an endless stream of largely low-quality content at your disposal affects children. There was a pretty big chunk of time during my younger brother's 10-14 years that he was watching youtube for like 8 hours a day. There's no fucking way that can be good for you.
Don't mean to sound like a luddite or a baby boomer but every time I go on youtube when I'm not logged into my account all of the suggested videos are conspiracy vids, alt-right stuff and similar junk. It seems worryingly easy to fall down a rabbit hole like that... and if you're doing it for 8 hours a day for days on end?
Bozarn · 25 points · Posted at 19:07:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“3AM FACETIME WITH INSERT DEAD CELEBRITY CHALLENGE (GONE SEXUAL)”
THIS FUCKING GUY. For those of you who don't know, a guy named ImJayStation made a shit ton of these. Mac Miller, XXX, Etika, etc. were all featured, and the videos were rushed out right after they died for maximum clicks. He also made other high quality content such as "WE BOUGHT A LITTLE GIRL OFF THE DARK WEB" and "(WE KISSED) ORDERING GAY POTION FROM THE DARK WEB AT 3AM!!" The gay potion one in particular seemed extremely offensive, the portrayal of gay people in it was terrible. The guy who drank the potion talked in a high-pitched voice, put on make-up, and flirted with and eventually kissed the other guy without his consent. If that doesn't convince you that he's a stellar role model, I think he's also on trial for assault.
He also us an abuser to his girlfriend, he had a livestream bragging about getting an assault charge for hitting her. The "consent" he got for his dead gf prank was her saying yea half-asleep in the night because he kept bugging her about it
He also faked getting beaten up and faked his girlfriends death, telling his audience that her dream was to reach 1 million subscribers in their second channel. Turns out she just broke up with him. Total piece of shit.
AlonsoQ · 18 points · Posted at 19:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s actually really sad that the younger generation looks up to and aspires to be these people. Kids went from wanting to be astronauts to wanting to be narcissistic talentless douchebags.
Not saying I disagree, but this is exactly what 1950s parents were saying about Elvis. Except the astronauts bit.
Oh yes, often skipped over but he held back and repealed so many laws and decrees, in regards to freed slaves and reconstruction efforts, I wonder how he felt about Lincolns idea to send many freedmen to Liberia?
Hehe this reminds me of a recent article I read which collected quotes from adults, across the past several hundred years, complaining about the “youths of today” and how XYZ was ruining them. It’s been the norm since the dawn of time apparently.
One hilarious one was from the 1800s, when fiction novels were apparently gaining popularity, and adults were freaking out about how reading books (books!) was going to destroy the younger generations! “It’s unhealthy! They should be doing [what we did as kids]!”
I started to notice my kids watching this garbage. Like low effort extremely fake paranormal videos. Between that and some of the other crap I just got fed up and had them uninstall youtube from all their devices. If they need to watch something for a how-to or educational I let them use one of our devices.
I think every kid goes through a spooky phase. Ghosts and stuff is scary and cool and you’re finally “old enough” to check it out. I used to watch tv shows about ghost hunting and stuff all the time as a kid and I would read any ghost book I could get my hands on. Doesn’t seem that different to me. The reading isn’t even always replaced entirely. Creepypastas and places like r/nosleep exist.
I don’t know how old your kids are, but uninstalling YouTube on all their devices is kinda like if your parents never let you watch TV. And during a quarantine that must really suck.
There's other stuff for them to watch. The problem with YouTube was that we knew what they were watching until the autoplay started to take over. Next thing you know we're in ElsaGate land.
Like I said I have no way of knowing how old your kids are. If they’re really young I can see how easy it can be to end up with elsagate stuff playing. Idk why but I was initially thinking of a kid old enough to pick and choose what to watch and type things in.
Idk if anyone else has said this but TO BE FAIR, haven’t kids always wanted to be “narcissistic talentless douchebags?” When I was a kid, I remember almost every kid wanted to be a singer, dancer, actor, professional athlete, model. Obviously not every kid but easily most. Youtubers are pretty much just actors/dancers/comedians. It’s new media but it’s not that different. Kids just think being famous and having people pay attention to you and like you and being rich would be the best thing ever. (Which I cant really argue with since it does sound awesome compared to many other careers. Kids just don’t understand how unrealistic it is) Many many adults have this dream as well.
Also it’s actually probably way easier and more likely to become a youtuber than an astronaut.
DaJoW · 16 points · Posted at 18:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What? Fred was huge and all he did was scream in a high-pitched voice.
Ehhhh you should've seen how the skateboarding videos were like in 2008.
Even before Youtube, the internet was full of videos and animated gifs where the 'humor' is like the equivalent of those 90s 'Funniest Home Videos' that we used to see all the time.
When youtube started going on the roll, it was already getting clogged with videos of guys actively trying to do the most 'shocking' falls (and when Jackass came out, it caused an avalanche of videos from Jackass wannabes).
Those half-assed videos now are just the 'tamer' equivalent of those Jackass/skateboard-injury videos.
A lot of people are replying to this disagreeing with you on the idea that the internet had stupid shit back then, as well, and that perhaps it was even more stupid, or you were more likely to see stupid shit due to lack of any kind of filter.
Both are true. Sure, there was a lot of stupid shit, but there were also SO MANY platforms, not JUST YouTube. I mean, newgrounds, funnyjunk, fucking neopets...all of these things had equal popularity. The stupid shit from other platforms made its way to YouTube, but a lot of the better YouTube channels (before they were run like low-budget tv shows for a shitty, local tv network) were creative, interesting videos. Like, actual skits and stuff, not just some attractive person sitting inches away from a camera and talking for an hour and a half/singing/screaming/(not) reacting.
Look at Donald Glover, aka Childish Gambino, the highly successful rapper/filmmaker. He came from the early days of youtube, with Derrick Comedy. That shit was really good and funny, and although some of it was the stupid, childish humor, it was all still really well shot and performed, by talented people taking it seriously.
Thing is, I believe that talent and work ethic exists today, it’s just that the platform has changed, and if the talented folks want to succeed, they have to figure out some version of some attractive person sitting inches away from a camera and talking for an hour and a half, since that’s all anyone wants to watch.
a lot of the better YouTube channels (before they were run like low-budget tv shows for a shitty, local tv network) were creative, interesting videos
That's the point I was trying to get across. I think if you compare the uber popular YouTube channels of today and the relative uber popular YouTube channels of 10 years ago, the popular channels from 10 years ago had better and higher quality content
I'm not including Cody Ko in that group. He actually has genuine comedic talent
izvin · 0 points · Posted at 21:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's meh. Noel is funnier than him.
Are either of them funny enough that one would expect then to appeal to literally 5 million people - no. But it's not surprising considering the shit quality of the majority of YouTube that they're able to stand out against amongst.
It used to be that it took actual consistent creativity and humor to have a successful and popular YouTube channel.
That's not really true. There was actually way more hot garbage on youtube back when it was pretty new because there weren't any algorithms to decide what should be on the front page.
I'm no expert but this is Reddit so I'm gonna pretend I am
Even the effortless videos probably actually have a lot of work put into them, from planning, to filming, and then careful editing. The most popular YouTubers aren't just creating individual brilliant videos, they've created a brand and a character that their target audience can relate to, or aspire to be like, so they'll keep watching new videos even if they're boring. It's a bit like 'natural' makeup or bed hair - nobody actually wakes up looking like that, both take effort and skill to make it look effortless
To be fair, some Viners do make really good content. I’m a big fanny of Danny and Drew’s stuff, they’re really good. But some Viners like the Dobre Brothers and stuff just need to leave the platform.
Me too as well! In one video he mentioned a pun Vine he made years ago, like I said idk if he was famous.
It's strange that these Vine stars are the only ones successful (at least that I know of lol), while everyone else is now doing clickbait or crappy prank videos
Not to mention the one hit wonder Vine stars who thought they were funny enough to make the transition to YouTube even their content is shit and still get millions of subscribers
There's a reason Vine died, YouTube. Let it rest in peace instead of recommending me some shitty, cringy vlogger for the 1000th time
Adult content is allowed and monetized (including sex/swearing/violence, etc.)
Nobody under 18 is allowed to use it.
Then split off a lot of the stuff you're complaining about to 'youtube kids' ... but still call it just 'youtube', because there's nothing edgy teenagers hate more than stuff explicitly made for kids.
I agree with these points, I just wanted to mention a couple of people who stand out from the crowd to me. CalebCity is pretty good and his content feels very much like Vine. Theres also a guy that made a video called something like "I stayed in VR for a week" and that was pretty good. I kept dodging in in my feed and I was pleasantly surprised when I finally watched it.
But now if you make enough stupid and clickbaity, fake prank/social experiment videos you can get popular enough to then make stupid "I GAVE $100 TO THIS HOMELESS MAN" or "I SPENT 24 HOURS ON MY BALCONY" that take zero effort and get like 10 million views on them because 8 year olds just think you're the coolest person alive and hilarious.
Well if you think it's easy to make 25K a month via YT, why are you not?
izvin · 0 points · Posted at 21:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could make lots of money easily being a stripper, doesn't mean anyone wants to do it. Many people works aspire to do something they find challenging and rewarding with career progression and becoming a soulless YouTuber just out to make money by masking self-depreciatatingly low quality videos
(no hate against stripping, it's tough work, I just mean you make a lot of money and it didn't require as much work as jobs that involve something like grad school degrees and technical work).
You could make lots of money easily being a stripper,
Another false statement. A friend dated a cocktail server at a strip club for a couple months, so a couple of us became regulars there. You almost feel bad seeing one of the less that model looking girls up there at 9pm on a Tuesday, two songs, and then she gathers up like $12 and gets off the stage.
It is not easy, it takes timing and an incredible amount of luck, as well as marketing skill. What it doesn't require is talent, that is what people are saying.
tbh that's what old Jim Carrey feels like too to me. I guess this kind of humor lives in every generation. just that it used to be snl and now it's youtubers
It doesn't appeal to anyone over 10 - it's just that the majority people who have time to watch YouTube for 9 hours a day are children, so the content that gets the most popular is content that children would like.
VTL_89 · 6 points · Posted at 18:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or reaction videos. So you aren’t watching the video, you’re watching someone’s...reaction to it? I don’t get it.
Sorry to break it to your man, but Minecraft videos fall into the 13/14 year old humor category too. But that's fine, my point is that people of different ages just have different tastes.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. My kids watch all these rich gamer guys on YouTube and I feel like all they do is scream and act stupid. It drives me crazy. It is fascinating to me though that they have are able to make so much money just recording themseves stupid.
A lot of youtubers are just Nick Jr. shows. Kids watch everything you put out there, and don't have to worry about relationships or jobs. You are their priority, so that is 1 guaranteed view per child per video.
The algorithm and autoplay certainly helps as well.
cheque · 2 points · Posted at 17:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don’t need to appeal to anyone over 10 because they only need to get their videos watched to gain exposure and make money. Because of the way the site works there’s no need for to target a more discerning audience and it’s probably counter-productive to do so. They’re children’s entertainers.
Sadly the site is designed that way which really sucks for quality content creators making interesting or in general time invested videos.
Plus content that a certain demographic over the age of 10 would want to see is non existent because when videos get age restricted, they are more likely to get demonitized, which lowers the likelihood of that dude making another video. You can copyright claim for the simplest of things and flag a video for small insults directed towards anyone.
cheque · 1 points · Posted at 09:23:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s sad isn’t it? The biggest impact I felt personally was when the incentive became to make long videos rather than lots of videos. Literally a change from quality to quantity. There’s still a lot of content on there that I enjoy but it’s almost all created either by companies that make money from other sources or from people who just do it as a labour of love- it shouldn’t be like that in my opinion.
Yeah whenever I want to see a letsplay I go for the video with about 10k views instead of the one with 350k views. As they usually play like shit and always has random zoom ins, stupid faces and fake screaming.
Weird I love the twitch transplants. YouTube stuff is edited heavily and doesn't seem like realistic representation to me.
Does depend if they add in the twitch chat though that's a big plus to me. Then again I'm not watching like TV I just have it going in the background while I do actual shit. In that sense length is more important to me then attention grabbing or gripping.
I disagree. A game can be played just fine without faking but with editing. Or at the very least it can be played unedited but with the player not distracted by a chat. Any time a player interacts with chat, it's time in the video that I didn't go there to watch. It's like if actors in a movie could be seen ending the takes and drinking coffee and asking about their lines. I don't need to see that.
It's different if the chat is live, as it feels better to be part of a stream, but old streams shouldn't be labeled as let's plays. I'm fine if you call it a stream, but if your stream is the first thing that shows up when I search a game, then you're an asshole.
TheRadBrad is one of the youtubers I've watched for years. Sadly it feels he only really plays big titles like assassins creed or God of War these days.
It's good if you don't want loneliness like no commentary vids or annoying-Ness like those popular youtubers.
And all the fucking quick cuts! I feel like I'm spazzing out when I try to watch some of these videos and there's a half second time jump every 3 seconds. Who the fuck decided that style of editing should be popular?
I’d say most influencer in general confuse the hell out of me.
I get the views and popularity if the they’re actually teaching you something or are legit entertaining. But I don’t under stand how the people who post 20 minute videos of them shopping at target or going to the park has millions of views. They’re just... regular people.
Because they’re aiming to entertain children younger than 10, not you. The younger the better. Look up children’s channels with wheels on the bus and shit. Tens of millions of views on every video. Children have endless time, parents give them the iPad, autoplay works its magic. They comment and like when they’re told to do so, can watch repetitive content hundreds of times without getting bored, and don’t leave anything critical in the comments. Way more profitable to aim at children on youtube than adults.
Damn, I hate the hyperactive, screeching, loud, obnoxious YouTuber persona. No faster way to get me to stop watching a video and to ensure that I will never visit your channel again.
I'm similar for let's plays. I can't stand "comedy" let's players where it's just some person who tries to be funny. It's like watching an amateur improv prop comedian, when the prop is whatever is in front of them in the game at the moment.
If I am watching a let's play I either want to have someone who's familiar with the game wanting to take it seriously and share thoughts about the game, real interesting insights with maybe a snark or two, but if it's primarily comedic, I want a group dynamic.
If a person in group makes a joke, it feels genuine. It feels like they're trying to make each other laugh. If they're doing something utterly silly, it's to mess with each other, to get a rise from one another. Others can laugh at jokes or make fun of them for not being funny, which itself can be funny. If someone's playing a scary game, people watching them play can laugh at the player for being scared and encourage them to do what they need to do.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 16:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gaming, video reactions with his own commentary and opinions about it, he does news and reviews of books and anime.
his content is basic but what led him to popularity is really his personality
he’s a 8/10 in my book and I understand if you don’t like him, his content mostly involves his older content, so most of the humor will go over your heads and you’ll find it weird. And being up to date with his content is not really easy, he has 4000 videos.
his book and philosophy reviews tho, don’t need to watch him to like it, they’re good
As a high school teacher for over a decade now, I have noticed the comedy high school students enjoy has drastically changed. Legitimately believe it is the “YouTube effect”. Students today don’t react to the subtleties of humor nor do they care for a story when it comes to humor, they just want it to be painfully obvious that someone is trying to be funny.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I believe you made my case in your response for the changing of humor. If you go back I never said it was “worse” or “dumbed down”, I said it has changed.
Also I was never saying they caught the subtleties in MY humor, just humor in general. My job as a teacher isn’t to get them to laugh at my jokes or what I find funny, it is to teach them. I believe if you re-read what I wrote you would see all you did was confirm in your response that comedy has changed, and I said I think Youtube has had a significant impact on that change. That’s all I said and then put in some of the things I’ve noticed in my 11 years of teaching. In my original comment I wasn’t even comparing it to what I find funny, just what high schoolers in 2009 found funny compared to today.
I’ve noticed after watching what my kids watch that it seems scripted. I know a lot them “work” for external media companies but I’ve grown to just accept it like Saturday cartoons.
I agree but apparently it works because these people get incredible amounts of money from ad revenue because so many kids 10 and under watch that shit. I wish there was like a Youtube Kids for kids and regular Youtube was for adults -- oh wait that already exists but nobody gives a shit about it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They cater for children.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "humor" I dislike on YouTube is people who fake awkwardness or like they've made a mistake when talking about something, but it's completely planned. Also, when they say "blah blah blah blah...so yeah...".
What about the videos of stuff like "my mom is my sister" or "my dad got me pregnant* and all the shit like that, there was a person that has almost 5 of those videos posted within a month and somehow they were popular, or people like aviatorgaming, just listing the first one I can think of from what I've seen, talking about the first time they had sex or were almost caught and random shit like that, especially when the story is so obviously fake that it's painful to listen to
The YouTubers know what their audience likes, and thrir audience, which are usually children, lack the understanding of what you or me considers "humor." The current audience will likely grow up and realize that there is better entertainment on YouTube and other web sites, but there will always be a younger audience for that kind of stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably other people have said this but it's probably specifically appealing to kids who are 13 or younger. Youtuber success is solely based on what youtube and their algorithm make popular. First it was short videos to keep people's attention, then when long form videos started making money the video game streamer took off, then with advertisers being wary of content the screaming jake paulers took hold.
The algorithms on Youtube nowadays basically force you to appeal to a very young audience or let your channel die. A lot of channels used to be pretty good, but now they're either gone or they've devolved into clickbait titles and fortnite dances. It's kinda sad, tbh.
They often record with high end cameras/microphones and have good editors who make the video entertaining no matter how uninspired the video itself is. Its pleasing to the eye and the ear, thats what i noticed is common among most popular youtubers.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ever see something get wildly popular on YouTube and you can't understand how anyone likes that stupid content, just think about how much free time you have as a college student, or as an adult with a job or whatever. Then think of how much free time kids have. They all have cell phones.
An absurd amount of YouTubers intentionally and illegally target children. Jake Paul himself has openly admitted in interviews that his audience is mostly under the age of 10. It's disgusting
Unspeakable! Can’t stand it. My 7yr old loves it though, keeps bugging me to buy Unspeakable merch. Just a bunch of yowling and screeching. He laughs like a hyena. But ya know he probably stacks cash, so, maybe joke’s on me.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean that’s part of it but I like people like jacksepticeye because of how good of a person he is and he does have some good jokes. Granted I’m 13 so I don’t really have a say in this
I have a feeling that it's the exact same reason that Two and Half Men, Two Broke Girls and Big Bang Theory are all insanely popular.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't. That's their target audience. Craziest thing is, almost every youtuber is 10x less funny and interesting due to all the video editing making them funny and interesting.
I work at an elementary school and overheard the kids talking about a minecraft YouTuber named “Skeppy”. Came across one of his videos, watched it for about 5 minutes... couldn’t watch anymore. It was just him making the most stupid jokes and attempting to be funny. I wonder if my humour was the same when I was 13
My child is 10 and this is his favorite You Time genre. I don't understand it either and I am constantly asking him to lower the volume, but I just remind myself that my parents thought Ren and Stimpy, Ed, Edd, and Eddy, and a few other 90's classics were just awful and didn't understand my interest. Every generation has their thing, I guess.
As far as I can tell the only reason people are talking about it is that it had huge investors, over a billion dollars in startup capital, and it looks like a terrible instant failure in addition to being yet another startup whose entire premise is sidestepping labor laws (citation needed). I think there is a small chance it could be successful, but I really doubt it.
Edit: mis-remembered sidestepping labor laws as complaints by entertainment workers that the ten-minute format is part of a scheme to pay workers less, learned from Griffin Newman's twitter:
All I know about it is that the episodes (maybe not all?) claim they are only 10 minutes long.
Okay, but talk to Netflix about my 5 hour binges. 10 minutes does nothing for me.
turbo5 · 93 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right but it's intended to be watched on a phone. I think the premise is watch one when you have 10 minutes to kill and you aren't at home, so they can shove ads down your throat.
Y'know that person who's always on about how they have an idea for the next big Facebook or the next big YouTube if someone would just do all the work? Someone gave one of those people money, it seems.
turbo5 · 13 points · Posted at 21:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More or less, but I guess their sell is that it has a higher production quality/more narrative/actors you might recognize from other media. I'm not sold on it either, just assuming based on all the ads on other platforms.
I have to say, I'm enjoying the production values of a lot more of their shows than I thought. It's truly perfect for a lull in work out there in the retail world right now. They do some really cool things with cinematography as it relates to a phone/rotation (it's hard to explain) and overall I find serial shows to be broken up well, with quality writing and a sufficiently "cliffhanger-y" ending.
It’s such a weird concept to me. 10 minutes doesn’t seem like a lot but to people, or an entire generation who have grown use to instant gratification, 10 minutes might be too long.
The reason vine and tiktok took off was because they promised to give you good content in 6seconds-1 minute. Very little “risk” there.
I say risk because when you’re. Trying something new you’re taking a risk that it won’t be bad and waste your time. That’s why people are slow to try new shows they’ve never heard of or YouTube channels with low views/subs. There’s so much proven content out there.
If anything they should’ve gone for like 5 minutes, but idk. I don’t think it’ll take off.
turbo5 · 7 points · Posted at 21:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but vine and tiktok are user generated content, those companies didn't/don't invest significantly into making content, just the platform. There's not really any risk, except your platform not getting noticed and becoming unsustainable to operate.
I think quibi is literally trying to be 30 minute tv shows, condensed to 10 minutes and front loaded with ads. I agree it's risky, and think it will take off either, but I'm curious to see what happens. Personally, I think they just dumped a ton of ad dollars into getting brand recognition and it's over-hyped.
I agree the platforms are different but I was referring to the “risk” (idk if there was a better word I could’ve used) of the watcher because 10 minutes isn’t short enough. From the stance of normal tv, yea it’s short cuz it’s half the usual 23~ minute runtime. But idt 10 minutes is a lot of time to people.
That’s all I was sayin, I think they should’ve gone shorter if they wanted to get peoples attention
Tbf I'm more inclined to binge a dozen 15 minute long episodes of something than I am three 1 hour long episodes of something. My attention span isn't that great
snt271 · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it's 10 minutes. It feels to short to get a good plot. I'd rather watch a 10 minute YouTube video than a 20 minute one because they don't revolve around a plot, but I'd rather math a 20 minute episode of a show than a 10 minute one
I saw the first commercial with the pilots who say something like "it'll be another Quibi" while eating yogurt, and for the longest time I thought they were advertising the yogurt.
Ok, I have some insight into the investor side of this so I want to try to help explain that here.
This might seem like talking a bunch of nonsense, so take it for what it's worth, but it comes from someone who was steeped in the Silicon Valley for 30 years, actively involved with tech companies, and has several friends and their family members who have successfully launched and sold tech companies.
Since the dot-com boom VCs and investors have been shifting their target. Newly successful business founders fit this too (my best friends' fathers fit this profile).
Michael Seibel talked about it last year at startup grind 2019 as well.
The tldr is: VCs and investors are afraid to fail, so they only focus on things that look like success. That includes people good at pitching, networking, and dressing up a product as a winner.
This is one key reason Kleiner Perkins has fallen by the wayside.
Investors aren't really investing in moonshots anymore. Big companies are, but the seriously suck at launching them.
Alphabet's X, the moonshot factory is notorious for failing to launch brilliant products. Google routinely kills off brilliant things because of internal politics and other ideas being sold well when they're really shit.
Want to see another great example of this, look no further than Alphabet's company Verily, which tore themselves apart from the inside.
Those who have successfully accumulated wealth are no longer innovating. They aren't putting their money into companies that are as unproven as theirs was when they started.
They want to see you successfully have users and traction, revenue and a fully fleshed out business plan.
But did they?
Elon Musk is an exception to this rule, but it's his ideas that he's promoting, not so much other people's. He keeps it in the family.
Investors have turned into late-adopters instead of early ones
Why are they suddenly throwing tons of money at a platform like Quibi?
Because they realize that if Disney and others are getting into the streaming game, then there must be potential there, instead of investing BEFORE it was a "good idea".
Quibi has sold themself well, on a popular model, and so investors are flocking to them
As someone who grew up down the road from Sand Hill road and Stanford university in the heart of the Silicon Valley, I'm so sad about the death of VCs and successful business founders-turned-investors, their lack of innovation, them being fearful, is killing companies that should be successful startups.
It's preventing people with brilliant ideas from succeeding.
As a founder of 2 startups, We are having to bootstrap and we refuse to spend time pitching to investors. It's not worth it. We also don't want them causing issues trying to pump and dump us.
We may consider a zero-interest business loan, like what Curt Richardson (Founder of Otterbox) does.
Also, I should note here, I have personally invested time and money in both other people's startups as well as a couple individual student researchers.
Some of those startups fizzled out but some are still growing and the individual researchers have won several awards with their work.
These were people that VCs and investors wouldn't give the time of day to because they didn't look like winners
But they were and are.
Any company like Quibi and Zoom that throws as much money at advertising as they have should be avoided.
Advertising, networking, and dressing-up something as a "winner" doesn't make a great product.
That's a common misconception that I saw a lot of in the Albany, New York area.
What specifically made you mention Albany, NY at the end of your comment? Just curious, it was an unexpected twist to a comment that started out in the silicon valley, and I'm from NY.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m from Albany myself.
It’s at an odd spot, where southern Canada, the American Midwest, New England, and NYC’s influence all meld into a perfect storm, where everyone has profoundly different values and ideas and needs, and they all hate each other.
Literally the only thing people can agree on is whatever is good at looking flashy and new and cool - whatever advertises itself well, in other words. It’s literally the only value that transcends over to everyone.
And often those good at selling and flashy looking things really aren't very substantive or great quality. Albany and the Silicon Valley share this quality now.
A friend of mine from upstate New York put it well:
We're really good at polishing pieces of shit and selling them
Also, often times you get someone good at being a tyrant monarch pushing their "brilliant" ideas.
See Shirley Ann Jackson for this.
And those ideas are arcane, outdated, poorly implemented, and even a junior person with the really great idea gets shut down.
OR, worse yet, someone has their idea stolen, they get cut out, and then it gets implemented very poorly.
TLDR: Investors don't want big risks so instead of investing in unknown concepts and ideas they flock to start ups that look like companies that are already successful (even though a lot of those companies are just pigs with lipstick).
So investors flock to Quibi because it looks like NETFLIX but with 10 min stuff, vs investing their money in a new unproven idea.
in addition to being yet another startup whose entire premise is sidestepping labor laws (citation needed)
Wait, why would you assume this? I would assume they produce shows like any other competitor (i.e. Netflix, Amazon, etc.). That industry uses a lot of gig labor already, but I don't see why Quibi would be especially bad.
OK, was remembering wrong, it's not exactly laws being sidestepped, but according to Griffin Newman and others, the ten minute format of the shows are designed to be able to pay entertainment workers at lower rates due to union agreements made some time ago:
I think it just got released and it's a mobile exclusive streaming service that has a bunch of original content from some B list actors. Idk if people are actually watching the shows, but they've had a huge marketing effort the last week or so
I think the idea is people have short ass attention spans and a mobile only app for short content seems like it could be a good idea. Who knows, it depends on how the first people who get into this type of stuff feel about it.
Personally, streaming shows have no need for episodes to be 30 minutes or an hour. They could and should be any length the creators want. I kinda liked that about the OA, some episodes were shorter and others were longer. I never knew when the episodes were about to end.
They've actually got quite a few good actors, idk what your definition of B List is but I've seen Christoph Waltz, Sophie Turner, Mark Duplass, Maika Monroe, Will Forte, and Dane DeHaan to name a few and I enjoy all of their work very much.
I'd say Waltz is A list, or B+, Sophie Turner, Will Forte, and maybe Mark Duplass are B List. Never heard of Maika Monroe or Dane DeHaan. Googled them.... still never heard of Maika, but Dane was in Chronicle.
Id personally consider them all A list tbh. I knew who they were when I saw there names and could link movies to them. But maybe we need a more definitive definition of A and B list.
I mention veteran actors to my friends all the time. They have no idea who I'm talking about. Took me a while to realize a lot of people don't care about actors or who they are. So I guess it wouldn't surprise me. I see a movie I like and an actor that does a good job and then I watch the movies they've been in. So if imagine my idea of A and B is a bit skewed. I watch too many movies and TV. Lol
I've been using the free trial and watching a show called flipped with Dee from it's always Sunny and Tandy from last man on Earth. So far I like it and wish it was a real show on tv
I don't think it's even released yet. It seems like it was a dumb idea that someone over-funded, but then with COVID Lockdown the formerly-just-embezzling-vc-money person running it decided it might actually work out.
jello34 · 16 points · Posted at 22:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually kinda think COVID might have ruined Quibi. The whole premise was that people don’t have time for long form TV anymore, not even 21 minute sitcoms. So Quibi is trying to market something that you can watch, in full, on your phone, while waiting at the dentist’s office, in a short Uber ride, etc. But the problem is, all of a sudden we all have time for long form tv now. There’s no more short 10 minute pauses in the day where the only convenient option is to look at your phone. There’s no more waiting in line, no more cab rides, just everyone at home unemployed or working remotely. Their niche disappeared right before their eyes.
If you don't think a major disaster that's dramatically shifted americans leisure time and streaming preferences had a huge impact on a new streaming service, you're much farther down the road of thinking "Quibi is a scam" than I am.
The commercials on Hulu and my podcasts seemed vague to me. Sounds like a lot of people are excited for some of these series, so maybe those numbers will go up with word-of-mouth?
There was an episode of the Morning Brew’s Business Casual podcast with Quibi’s CEO as the guest this past week. They’re basically trying to fill a really particular niche for consumers in the ~10 minute format. So think your favorite YouTube channel, but with paid content from known names (I’m pretty sure she said they bought a series from Spielberg? I might not be remembering correctly). Their whole business plan is predicated on the idea that video consumerism is going to have an ever increasing share of smartphone viewers, who are often in transit, and that 10 minute video time is gonna be the future of tv experience.
I work with Quibi. The idea is super-premium content from huge names in quick-format videos. I actually think, or thought, it was a great idea after hearing their pitch but two things happened that I think will sink it.
I can not believe how bad their advertising is. I saw their super bowl ad and really confused, and I actually knew what it was. I can’t believe how confusing it must have been for someone who didn’t.
I think the Covid situation is going to hurt it rather than help it. It was made to be on the go, and if you’re traveling or commuting on a train or something, you might be bored and check it out and get hooked. When you’re staying at home all day and Hulu/Netflix are killing it, you’re just going to keep adding to your watch list. People aren’t in the situations Quibi was meant for.
Yeah, I think both points are right on. The commercials that I've seen up until these week just kept telling me "a quibi is 10 minutes" with no context other than celebrities.
I'm not a big fan of 10 minute content personally, I'd rather a minute or two on my phone or 20+ minutes on my TV/computer. But I can definitely see people watching a 10 minute clip in an Uber or waiting room, in between the rest of their life. Now people don't have those awkward breaks they want to fill with something.
I know they have a 3 month free trial right now but it being a paid subscription service will also contribute to it's failure. $5 a month with ads or $8 without? No thanks. There are a myriad of things I can already do for free to entertain myself during those commutes.
I'm with you there. I believe Hulu has a similar model but the idea of paying for a monthly subscription and still receiving ads is kind of shit. For Hulu I think it works because you pay for cable and get ads, you pay for movies and get ads, but you don't pay for Snapchat, Instagram, Youtube, and other mobile formats unless you want to want to eliminate ads.
I also think it's stupid that they introduced the free trial with an option to receive ads or not. No one is going to choose to watch ads if it's optional and it's going to contribute to a huge dropoff in subscribers once the trial ends while also reducing ad revenue in the next couple of months. Plus it has also royally pissed off the advertisers (I am deeply involved with one of the advertisers).
Never mind of it. What is a quibi? Sound like a ripoff of qbert.
kysnou_ · 10 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the longest time I thought they were like some sort of doordash competitor. Their original ads said literally nothing about what it was or what it did.
Go90 was some scattershot video service by Verizon "The service was positioned as a mobile-oriented 'social entertainment platform' targeted primarily towards millennials, featuring a mixture of new and acquired content from various providers. "
Meanwhile Vessel was legit trying to be a competitor to Youtube going as far as paying established youtubers such as LinusTechTips for video's 7 days before they go up on youtube. Vessel had a monthly subscription fee so there wasn't any ad's (least when I used it) and Veesel used said money to pay the youtubers.
However when Vessel launched and Linus Media Group joined it Vessel somehow thought it was a good idea to give a ENTIRE year of service away for free while paying youtubers who have millions of subscribers enough to delay content on youtube for a week. So I hope you can see how Vessel bled cash, a lot of cash. Verizon bought out what team remained at Vessel and put them to work on their go90 platform.
What is there to understand? It’s just another streaming service, but they’re trying to capture a niche in the mobile, on-the-go, quick-bites market. I haven’t checked out any of the shows because I have tons of other stuff I still need to watch, but I’m sure there are people outside of the Reddit bubble that find some of their content enticing.
And it just launched, so they’re trying to advertise their brand new service. That’s why you keeping seeing ads for it.
At first I thought it was like an Instagram TV for celebrities making mock TV shows. The commercials on Hulu and my podcasts were pretty vague. I'm learning a lot now, it seems like they're high production 10 minute episodes. Pretty interesting
Yeah I don’t personally find much value in it, but I really like the idea of having a 10-15 minute high quality tv episode you could watch on a subway ride or something. It’s certainly niche, but I think the concept is interesting. Sometimes you just need 10-15 minutes of content while on the go and this is exactly that. YouTube certainly fills a similar role, but I like the idea of a serialized show with very short episode times.
sm3rsh · 10 points · Posted at 18:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
New Reno911!
psiufao · 13 points · Posted at 20:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reno 911 is funny but I'll be goddamned if that's enough to make me want to subscribe to yet another streaming service that is mobile only and limited to 10 minute episodes. It could work for Reno 911, I admit, but like a different poster said up there ^ somewhere, (paraphrasing) if it's good at 10 minutes wouldn't it be EVEN BETTER if it was, like, a "real show" that was longer than 10 minutes?
I won't make a prediction about whether Quibi will survive or not (you kids these days seem to watch a lot of what I would humbly refer to as "dumb shit" and that's a pretty big market, so...) but it doesn't seem likely to me.
If I have < 10 minutes to kill I can think of at least 100 things I can do on/with my phone that I'd rather fill that time with (*cough*reddit, anyone?*cough*). Clearly I'm not the target demographic, though.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both agree and disagree - I think the concept is actually really great, I often have these little chunks of time that’s too short for a tv show that I usually fill mindlessly redditing and wouldn’t mind entertainment for.
However, I too don’t want to pay for a streaming service just for that. I’d be fine with some ad support, which I get negates the idea a bit as it lengthens the episode time, but still. If the show was 10 mins and I had to watch a 30 second ad during it, I’d be down.
That’s half their budget. Jesus. You could do so much more with $850m production budget and $150m marketing budget. It doesn’t even have to be an app, just a film studio. That’s a waste.
SAME! Advertisements are so annoying. They introduce the product but don't say what it is. I'm purposely going to avoid that product because of its annoying marketing strategy.
You can use a hydraulic metaphor. Voltage is like pressure in a system. Current is the flow rate. Transistors are values or switches. Resistance is friction, resistance to flow. Motors are like turbines. For a motor, the voltage(pressure) pushes a motor(turbine) at a given current(flow rate) and outputs meaningful mechanical work. You need both voltage and current to power a device, with them being related as work=current*voltage.
Thank you for that - so let's imagine a simple circuit with 1 3V battery and one load (light bulb). What does "potential difference" mean? Like after the electrons go through a load, are those electrons (after vs. before) without a charge?
Furthermore, same scenario, let's use 3 loads (in series), do the electrons "know" not to use the full charge after going through the first load and divides them evenly between the 3 loads?
So voltage is potential difference. It's the difference between point A and point B, the electromotive force. Like a pressure. We designate one point as zero volts. The potential difference in your case would be 3 volts. It's the difference from a reference zero point. Charge is innate to an electron and doesnt change ever. Energy is released when an electron goes from higher voltage to lower, like a ball going down a hill. Voltage is a measure of potential energy. The voltage is split between loads relative to the amount of energy it takes to run them, or their resistance. I can get more into the units and how they relate if that would help you.
The simplest explanation I've been able to think of is using a river/stream. The width is the voltage and the amount of water is the amperage.
Say the river is 100ft wide but there is only 1ft depth of water running through it.
If you maintained the amount of water and suddenly shrunk the width to 10ft you would now have 10ft deep water.
It's the same amount of power in both cases but standing in 1ft depth is much safer.
As far as power goes 12v and 10a are combined to make 120watts but so is 120v and 1a. Watts are power and the higher the voltage the less resistance caused by the amps in the wire. With more resistance you lose more power in the form of heat this making it less efficient over long distances. That's why our power lines are 600k to 1m volts
Thank you for that - so let's imagine a simple circuit with 1 3V battery and one load (light bulb). What does "potential difference" mean? Like after the electrons go through a load, are those electrons (after vs. before) without a charge?
Furthermore, same scenario, let's use 3 loads (in series), do the electrons "know" not to use the full charge after going through the first load and divides them evenly between the 3 loads?
Just did a quick search. Potential difference is the theoretical term for voltage. They're the same.
every battery has two terminals, and its voltage is the potential difference between them.
I can answer your 3 series inquiry: the light bulb "knows" how much to use. It can only handle so much current before popping. Homes in the us are typically wired to provide 120v and the sockets typically allow for up to 15a. The light bulb has access to the 15a but it won't use it because the filaments (width of the steam) don't allow for that amount of flow.
The reason the bulb doesn't pop is because it's not in the direct line of the river but rather a small stream that breaks away and then flows back in
Voltage is like gravity and it causes electrons to "fall" through the circuit. Current is like the velocity of the electrons.
Ialyos · 2 points · Posted at 05:48:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a lot of trouble with this. My high level guidelines are as follows:
Power (watts) = volts * amps
Voltage is roughly a constant in your power source. The power source provides 5 volts or 110 volts or 220 volts and that's it.
Your device tries to draw the amps it needs without knowing what the voltage is.
Generally, a consumer of electricity will have a power it needs to run (watts) and a specific rating for current and voltage that looks something like 2 amps -=== 5v.
You can't generally provide too many amps to a device, but you can provide too much voltage.
So in terms of which one matters more for powering a device, you should generally be able to find the watts a device needs and the voltage it runs at, and infer the amps you need to provide.
Once you piece this all together, you can see some obvious patterns. For example, most electric space heaters never go over 1500 watts. Since we know that US outlets have 110v, it seems the limit for amps is near 15A, since 15A * 110v = 1650 watts.
If you look up max amperage in US households you'll find that most are 15 or 20 amps
tl;dr Figure out the watts and voltage you device runs at, and then solve for the amps you need.
For me it's just fundamentally electricity. Like, are there actual electrons flowing in there, like physically? If you had a microscope that could see electrons, could you see them moving down the wire?
And alternating current - why doesn't that result in the device turning itself off and on 50 times a second?
you see, if your balls sag you might want saggier jeans to give them room to swing free. If you buy saggy jeans for your tits then that sagginess is on a whole other level.
My guess:
Sagging came about initially as poor parents, had lack of access to high paying jobs and because clothing is expensive, hand-me-downs were way more popular in my time. Many people had hand-me-downs and it was not uncommon for the oldest to get the newest clothes, and the younger people getting the hand-me-downs. Now when the oldest gets a new pair of Adidas sweats and that's the current fashion trend, often younger brothers or sisters also want to rock them so they might borrow them.
So then you develop people who wear baggy jeans and clothes with no belts. Now, in colder climantes, baggy clothing actually keeps you warmer as it traps larger pockets of air between your jeans and skin keeping you warm.
Now, there was a big explosion of black sexualization in the media with the Karl Kani and 90's hip-hop fashion. Men of color as fashion icons exploded all over, and if a guy had a nice ass, or nice underwear, he might not wear a belt in oversized jeans and show off his ass or nice underwear, especially those expensive ones.
Lastly, there is an urban legend that allegedly men in prison would lower their pants to indicate the length of dicks they would put in their ass in prison. I don't know how true any of it is, because no actual proof has ever been determined.
Can confirm on the urban legend one. My criminology prof is an ex cop and frequently worked under cover. He knows a great deal about american prison life and how criminals would act behind bars. According to him if you sag you are saying you are available and willing to have fun
I think that mostly just come from the rampant homophobia that existed in the 90's and early 2000's. I've never seen an actual evidence of that being the case and there is no way that trend would spread into a hyper masculine culture like 90's gang culture.
I mean, regardless of how it came to be (there are tons of explanations about prisoners not having belts, poor kids wearing secondhand clothes), it became a fashion trend. And nearly all fashion trends follow the same logic - that person is cool and/or looks cool, I want to be a little like them. That's really all there is to it. The richest and most famous rappers, the most badass dude in your neighborhood, the popular kids at school are all doing it, it makes sense for you to want to emulate them.
I can think of dozens of fashion trends that I think look stupid, but that's just how fashion works. We don't always have to agree with what looks good - hell, many of us look back on our own past fashion choices and think they look terrible, although we didn't think so at the time.
drlqnr · 5 points · Posted at 15:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People sag because prisoners aren't allowed belts (because they can be used as weapons) so their pants sag sometimes. What I don't get is why people think it's cool to look like your in prison? Because it's bad-a? Yes, being caught by police after snorting white powder and killing your wife is tooootally "bad-a."
So sagging began in prison, right. Who would've guessed? Around the time Prince came out and all, guys in prison started sagging their pants to let other guys know they were "open for business" if you catch my drift. When the inmates left prison, they took the whole sagging thing with them and other black people thought it was cool, so they started doing it too. It then became confused for gangsterly and all, but it was originally meant to infer one's homosexuality.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 01:32:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and what if she did the deed 29 years ago instead? Would you be a completely different person, or just a barely noticeably older version? I often wonder how different I'd be if I were born slightly earlier or later... how big of a difference would there be if a different sperm got there first.
You wouldn't be you. You wouldn't exist. Your unborn brother or sister would experience those things. But you wouldn't. If they did the deed one day sooner you wouldn't exist to experience any if those differences.
[deleted] · 77 points · Posted at 18:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every single sperm cell is unique, meaning that if a different sperm cell from the same "release" had fertilized the OP's mothers egg he wouldn't be him.
The first sperm to hit the egg almost never fertilizes. Men ejaculate millions at a time becuase the egg has a protective coating that the sperm have to literally bash through. After enough hit it first to weaken it, one finally breaks through and fertilizes.
Good point re: siblings. In some families, siblings are drastically different despite being close in age, while in other families the commonality is almost eerie.
I'm a non identical twin, so two sperm from the same "release" fertilising 2 eggs. couldn't be anymore different (she's a girl and I'm not for starters)
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 19:07:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Luckily sperm cells don't have a conscience, if they did then I would feel horrible every day
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really even the slightest of change could’ve resulted in that specific sperm not meeting the egg. The chances of your existence (of anyone’s) is incredibly low.
The first part is true, but your last sentence is false. Sperm can live inside a woman for about a week. Perhaps, if their mom had done the deed a day later, they wouldn't exist, but the odds of her getting pregnant from sperm the previous day are about as high.
digicow · 21 points · Posted at 19:06:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but the odds of the same sperm being the winner if it happened on a different day are pretty low. Different sperm => different person
Are you saying that a particular sperm and egg combination is solely responsible for you, and any other sperm/egg wouldn't be you? That is not provable.
Hell you can believe in solipsism and then everything is a lie, and you are all that exists.
How is it not provable? There are genetic differences in each individual egg/sperm, any other combination would've made you a different person. People have siblings and they have separate consciousnesses.
How many atoms of sperm/egg have to be different in order for you to not be you?
People are saying if it was a different sperm or a different egg, it wouldn't be "you". So what is it about that specific sperm or specific egg that resulted in "you" and not "not you".
Do you think you could not exist? That is the deeper question.
Mojorna · 10 points · Posted at 00:46:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that you're trying to sound sophisticated and existential, but trust me, you're just coming off as an asshat.
I still think it's a perfectly reasonable question.
If a different sperm/egg combination results in a different consciousness, what causes that? How much damage to a particular sperm or egg results in a totally new "person", rather than a different person?
When does it change from being "you" with brain damage, to somebody else entirely? Clearly people are suggesting a totally different sperm/egg results in a totally different conscious being.
What % change in the sperm egg is required to change the conscious being, rather than being an altered version but the same conscious entity?
How many atoms of sperm/egg have to be different in order for you to not be you?
Considering no two siblings have ever been the same person, the differences between reproductive cells are more than enough for them to be different people, that's all you need to know. It is way more than just "a few atoms", there are alterations in genes that lead to important physical differences in how the person develops.
So what is it about that specific sperm or specific egg that resulted in "you" and not "not you".
"You" are a result of both genetic and environmental factors. The bigger the changes in any of them, the further away the resulting person would be from being "you", like a book being rewritten, until the differences are so great that it wouldn't be "you" anymore. The differences that would reach that point are at least equivalent to those seen in identical twins, because we can know with certainty that they are different people, but could potentially be much smaller.
Do you think you could not exist? That is the deeper question.
This can mean many things, but if you're referring to something akin to the determinism vs free will debate, then it's a separate matter.
I feel like bringing things like solipsism up in casual conversations is a bit of a nonstarter because it always just devolves into the same "we can't prove anything therefore you can't know that". Like, yes I can't truly know anything except for that I exist in some way, shape, or form because I am thinking but it doesn't really further most discussions.
Only if you consider date of birth to be vital to identity. Which it does not have to be. just imagine your birthday a day earlier or later, does it feel as if you are a different person as a consequence?
You only existed for a split second as a sperm along with thousands of your rivals, you wouldn't exist if she did the deed 29 years ago instead of 28, no idea how someone can think that just because it's their mom and dad that they would be born just a year earlier wth
Sperm only live for a few days right? And an egg can only be fertilized for a day or two. If your parents conceived at any other time it would be someone else who was born and not you. Hell even if it was a difference of one second it almost certainly would have been a different sperm that reached the egg making a completely different person, maybe the opposite gender.
Exactly, this is why all time travelers are either childless or - at minimum - wish to reroll the dice on the children they make. Or, they simply never travel further back than when the child was conceived.
Recreation of a specific conception would be as futile as revisiting a beach at the exact same time, and attempting to grab the exact same grain of sand as before.
Probably a lot. Everything you've experienced is because you experienced a specific year at a specific age.
I was born in 1980, so my personality was formed by living through the eighties. Had I been born in the 90's or 70's, I'd have completely different influences to shape my personality.
MrHoit · 2 points · Posted at 17:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Might be a lot different. We would go into grades earlier or later, around different people. Grow up with a different crowd.
The odds of you existing are infinitesimally low. Going with the assumption that the average ejaculation has roughly 200 million sperm means that that you had a 1 in 200 million chance of reaching the egg first. Now extrapolate backwards. Both of your parents had to exist, each with a 1 in 200 million chance, or a 1 in 40 quadrillion chance that both your parents exist for them to get together and make you. Go back to your grandparents. That's 40 quadrillion times 40 quadrillion. Or if that's hard to conceptualize look at it this way: just going back 2 generations, to make you, someone would have to reach into a bag with 199,999,999 white tiles and 1 black tile, and pick that black tile 7 times in a row for you to exist. (Grandma1, Grandpa1, Grandma2, Grandpa2, Mom, Dad, You) Go back to your great-grandparents and they'd have to do it 15 times. The odds that some rando exists is 100%, but that YOU exist is practically 0.
If you were born one year earlier you would most likely go to school a year earlier, giving you different friends that would have a difference influence on you making you a completely different person. The butterfly effect always interests me
Just look at your siblings, or someone else's if you don't have any. That's pretty much the same idea, as far as physical appearance goes. If you're talking about some kind of soul then I guess that wouldn't change.
I mean, you also have to account for friends and stuff. If I was born a year earlier I’d have an entirely different friend group, which would probably have a major influence on who I end up being.
If a different sperm got there first, you could be a girl with down syndrome, or a guy who had green eyes and blonde hair with a crooked nose who loves poetry, or a non binary person who is a good singer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think you’d exist in that case. Your mother would have another son/daughter and you’d be the actual sibling they never had.
I think of that a lot, what if i was born one year earlier? I could be in a class above me I couldve been the most popular, most outgoing person at school, my whole life could've been different just by the people Im surrounded by at school, would I not have been bullied? Would I have more friends? Or would it be the oposite? Would something have happened? Its all so weird all teh What If's
no, it perfectly sensical, it's just stupid.
Life is a gift - put aside your frustrations at petty shit and take a little bit more control over how you choose to spend it, there is so much to learn and do and see, don't blame people for your own existence
Now I HAVE to get good grades, go to college, get a job and everything if I want to make the most out of the life I never asked for in the first place. And the actually fun things I like to do are not great for making money.
There is truly no answer to that. Personally? I want to live because im afraid of the concept of nothing that death represents, so i will try to enjoy life by the definitions that make me feel the best.
But, I don't understand why people are so judgmental about why certain people live or what they wanna do with their lives. If the life im building right now ever goes down and I'm too tired to fix it, why would some people feel the need to stop me from doing coke til i die?
Depression is a mental illness okay, but what if i wanted to kill myself for no other reason than it's what i want to do? Life doesn't interest me and death doesn't scare me? Why is this wrong to handle your life as you see fit as long as it doesn't breach other people's boundaries, objective morality and all that.
This is very interesting to talk about in parents ways too like :
Why should anyone be grateful to their parents? I didn't choose to be alive and i wouldn't be more or less if they didn't fuck as i would not exist?
Because they took good care of you? No, every parent has the legal and moral duty to take care of their child. If you can't take care of them, you shouldn't have any.
It is a choice that you made and have to deal with the consequences.
I am very far from my parents for no particular reason, i was raised in a good environment, maybe it's because my parents were always separated from day 1. I like my dad because i enjoy talking with him, I don't really like my mom as a person so I don't see her a lot, or my brother and i have been indirectly told to feel bad because of that.
Which i feel is very illogical. Don't have a kid and expect them to care about you the same you do about them. They were your choice, you aren't theirs.
On a similar note, if you have any sibling(s), you could’ve be them, look like them, have their personality/voice/brain/etc. This amazes me because me and my sister are very different and the thought that I could’ve been exactly like her is... whoa
When I was little I thought about this a lot. Like what are the chances that there would be a “me” when there’s billions of other people in the world? It’s such a weird thought it’s hard for me to think about
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 05:20:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of edgy teens in these comments is hilarious. “I didn’t ask to be here!” You’re right, you didn’t, but you are...
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
smalltalk
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 18:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small talk should be called shallow talk, not in a pejorative way, but because you don’t get into anything too deep. You could make small talk for an hour (for example with another parent on a play date) just by talking about cool things to do in the area, etc. But if you find yourself chatting away about local sports team and your conversation partner isn’t adding much, it’s probably time to wrap up.
You dont even know.I had a english teacher give me a fail on an exercise because...games are not a small talk topic.The teacher literally had a writen list of small talk topics.This is in university btw.
"Oh, it's a game where you pilot an imaginary space program staffed by little green aliens. You build rockets, do research on other planets, make satellites, crash in to things, that sort of stuff"
"Sounds fun"
"It is"
"... Anyway, I better not take more of your time."
If you're not comfortable discussing it with your grandmother, don't discuss it with a random stranger.
For example, don't come up to me and try commiserating with me about how "sometimes you gotta spend time away from the ol' ball and chain, amirite? They are nice to look at though." Fuck you Matt, I love my girlfriend, I don't view her as a shackle, and yes I do like looking at her ass but you'd better not.
It really depends on the person, which doesnt really help I know but maybe tell them something short like "Oh not bad, actually I found this cool new video game the other day I've been enjoying alot, how about you?" and if they were actually asking about you because they genuinely care about how you are doing then
A: They may ask more or share something that has effected their life recently and/or
B: Them knowing you are truly doing well in some sense will make them feel better
Yeah, that was a big eye opener for me, just throw it at the wall til it sticks, and don’t get too caught up in the fact that someone wasn’t responsive. There’s to many variable to over analyze someone simply just not wanting to talk.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:25:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“How ya doin” on the east coast is hello.. not how are you
THAT I don't understand. It's a question, not a statement. If you want to say hi, say it! If you want to know how someone is, ask! Why does one have to mean the other? Ever since I was a kid I'd ask, "How are you?" because I was actually wondering and would get annoyed when someone would say, "Hi" in return. Okay, so you're high? Good to know. On with my day. I'm sorry, but it's frustrating for me!!
Like when the cashier says "how are you" she doesn't have time to listen to you, so I always say, im great, and I always get " a wow great"? Then I say well I could tell you all the negative in my life but I'll spare ya, and that makes them laugh.
Pro Tip: Say “I’m doing alright. Loving this weather/perfect weather for the beach/it’ll be lovely at the ballpark/wish it would warm up/glad the farmers are getting some rain, but the rain delay means I’ll have to miss the game/any innocuous comment about the weather and/a local sport.” Neither of you give a flying fuck about the weather or farmers or whatever, but you can segue into a possible common interest. The purpose of small talk isn’t to learn anything, but to demonstrate benevolence to another person. How long it lasts depends on body language and inflection. It takes practice, but don’t be afraid to do it. Worst case scenario, you don’t care that the other person thinks you’re a socially awkward idiot, because you’ll probably never deal with them again. And if you do deal with them again, that’s another opportunity to practice.
No, the only proper response is "Fine" or if you're really not fine it is acceptable to say "all right" so long as you don't lean into too much trying to garner sympathy with your tone. Intermediate small talkers will also tack on a "you?" at the end.
Advanced small talkers will respond with a specific interrogative that demonstrates your listening and memory skills from a previous conversation - - a sort of artifice of affinity (unless there's no time as in when you on the move and passing in a hallway/sidewalk.)
"Oh, I'm fine. Hey, did you ever hear back about that ________?"
I’ve found that if I’m not fine I can answer with “eh, been better. How are you?” Which answers their question of how I’m doing without stealing the conversation for myself and throws it back to them to continue as normal
I absolutely hate this question because it’s so false. It’s just a rote interaction that i can’t help but be bored by. So I refuse to engage with it now. Whenever someone asks me how I’m doing as a standard hello, I respond with something like “I’m doing well, I hope you are too” to avoid giving them the rote question in return. And instead of asking “hey, how are you” when I see someone I’ll say something like “it’s good to see you” or “hey (insert specific compliment)” like “I love your outfit today”. Anything to avoid howareyoufine.
I used to overthink such situations too. Just do whatever feels right. Sometimes you will overreact and sometimes you will under-react but you would know. The feedback loop will help you get accustomed to the social norms in no time.
Just like in a machine learning algorithm the more times you try this, the more number of times that feedback loop will run and your social responses will become more and more accurate.
I made it a rule for myself to not lie about myself. Its part of trying to be mentally healthy for me, so whenever someone that I think doesnt care ask, I usually tell them Id prefer not to talk about it if fine would be a lie. Works well most of the time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I feel a bit shitty about this but I am the person asking just for the etiquette and I really don't care 95% of the time. I personally don't like going into details about how I feel, so I always assume the other person is like that too and don't bother.
But I had this friend and every time I'd ask or anybody asked, he would go into a lot of details and over text write paragraphs. Tbh it really annoyed me, but it's really my fault for asking
I walk every morning and when I pass someone I say, “Good morning, how are you?” No one has EVER said anything more than “fine”. (Probably 70% never acknowledge the greeting ... maybe bc they are wearing ear buds or in heavy thought.)
They don't care. That's the rule of thumb, just assume everyone is pretending. Its social etiquette. That means you respond in a socially acceptable but glib way.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on who’s asking. An acquaintance? Probably asking out of good manner so be brief, like really brief, and ask back. There was also a thing I learned in a Philosophy video, I don’t remember the terms but it went something like “content and degree”. Different people are probably gonna be more interested to know about different parts of your life. Your ex? = Who you’re dating (or have dated) since you broke up. Your mom calling your dorm room? = How you’re doing in school. Your weed dealer? = How you liked and miss his older products. Your psychiatrist? How you been feeling lately. The degree is how much they need to know about it, or would like to know. It also depends on how close they are to you.
Depends on the person you speak to I'd say. Is it your therapist it would get a difference response then if it was your co-worker Bob who asks you that every day
I never learned how and when to try and get in a romantic relationship with people. I never recognized how lacking my knowledge in the subject matter was until I worked with some people who just did it naturally. I always thought you needed to know the person, talk to the person, like the person. Then these mother fuckers strike up a conversation with someone and 5 seconds later they are getting numbers.
How to small talk:
1. Encourage other person to talk about themselves
How to make friends using small talk:
1. Combine above two pieces of advice
How to flirt:
1. Make them laugh
2. Have open body language
3. Initiate (non-creepy) physical contact
4. Give them attention
5. Be near them
6. Maintain eye contact
sseugg · 22 points · Posted at 19:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. This comment was great. I’m excited to see if it works.
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So, I see you like reddit. I also like reddit. We both like reddit.
Dude I just got your “I like reddit you like Reddit comment” haha.
If you’re looking for the absolute best resource to learn how to communicate property, read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.
sseugg · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve actually read it! It’s an incredible book. I don’t really have a ton of issues communicating with people, I just was impressed with how concisely you put it into words. Those were all things I more or less do subconsciously but had just never actually thought about.
conversation is an art form. that means that when you get the foundations down and you’re a pro at it, you can start to add your own flair and zing that makes people remember who you are and how unique your style is. just like music or drawing or fashion or writing. practice makes improvement
For me, it's more how to reach out to a friend to hang out or whatever. It always feels forced. Also, how you reconnect with a long lost connection.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always have an issue going from acquaintance to friend you randomly chat with/hang out with. E.g., Put me at work and we'll chat, take me out and its gone.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
here's a guide on how to social interact
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3- what the fuck stay inside there's a pandemic, john
There's an old book called "How to win friends and influence people" (Dale Carnegie). It gives lots of good tips.
The "secret" is to practice. Yes you're gonna make mistake but you will also improve. Take yourself out of your comfort zone. Go volunteer, get a job where you have to talk to people. It's gonna be terribly hard at first but you will get confidence with time.
get a job where you have to talk to people. It's gonna be terribly hard at first but you will get confidence with time.
This is what did it for me. Totally horribly awkward until I was an adult and worked at a grocery store. Conversing with customers was difficult for a while (and never stopped being boring) but eventually it was easy af to have full conversations with strangers and its definitely the most valuable skill I learned from that job. Sometimes I'll even go shopping just because those mini-interactions with a cashier/barista/whatever can be a pleasant way to start the day
Try asking questions. That sounds dumb and I really can't come up with more but I'm really good at making small talk. I speak to people in a normal tone of voice like I've know them for a long time. I'll pay someone a genuine compliment and ask follow up questions too. People like to talk about themselves after receiving flattering or complimentary statements.
My problem is that my brain during "small talk" is often a vast ocean of emptiness and picking a question out of that void is obviously not possible as there is no question. Ya feel me? So is there a cure or am I just retarded?
I think you are missing the connection. Start by connecting to someone. Start with visual. Pick something you can actually see. If someone has a Metallica shirt on, ask them if they've gone to a show, is it their favorite band, where are you from, are you into hard rock, what do you like most about them... things like that. Just an example. Another one, if you're in line getting food somewhere (once social isolation ends) ask the person be home you, since they can see you, ask them if they come here a lot and what are some of the good things to order here. Tell him/her that you always get the same thing and want to try something different. WORKS EVERY TIME! Try it but also learn to read people. Keep it quick/lite. And always, always thank people for their time. Seriously, learn to connect to people then you'll be a person people can connect to. You can do it.
I'm not great in any of these, but in my experience the following can get you a long way:
Show up and be kind. Don't expect anything from people; just keep showing up and focus on the thing you showed up for.
Ask a few questions on non-loaded topics or related to the current situation. Listen and follow up. Share things you're enthusiastic about.
Keep fucking doing it. Once they share something more personal, you can, too. Don't pick someone you want to be friends with, but see who you get along with naturally.
It takes practice. In my boarding school, twice a week we had something called "seated meals", where we would be forced to dress well and learn table etiquette while we had dinner. The etiquette was not outwardly noticeable, you just learned to pick up tips from other people. Same goes with small talk. It's easier to learn small talk with small groups of people. Some people are more gregarious than others, so you learn quickly what techniques are more effective.
We also had to mingle after dinner in the grand room with other people at the school. This was also a technique where you could apply small talk from the seated meal and practice it with your peers.
All in all, it takes practice. I was lucky that my boarding school did this, because it has proven extremely useful and helpful down the line. But I would recommend small groups of people so you dont put yourself completely in the limelight, and learning from others. You will make mistakes, and it's easier to practice with people who are strangers rather than people that you have any sort of investment in, as that will cause distress. Distress makes people say and do dumb things, and that further reiterates that you are incapable. You're not. Start with small groups of strangers- a bus stop, a line, etc. It works!
Flirting, always painful, see someone you might like, walk up to them, introduce yourself, let them talk, listen as best you can and respond when they sorta guide you to, I generally am not good talking about myself, so I say that and ask them to ask any questions they want and have both of us answer, getting to know someone is half of flirting, the random pickup lines are jokes that are mainly for online stuff where it doesn't matter as much, but after you get to know someone, make more jokes, tell them they're beautiful/handsome, press at it a bit if they say they're not, I really don't understand why but women sometimes say that they're not beautiful or cute if you say they are
Generally a lot of it is believing in yourself, confidence and all that shit, but try to be a good listener and talk when you feel like it'll be important, small talk really isn't the best idea cause "hey, great weather" doesn't contribute to getting to know someone and just sounds awkward, if you say something that isn't important to getting to know them, try to make it a compliment or something like constructive criticism
A pretty good way that I've actually done before, roller skating if you know how to do it, where I live there's a place to roller skate, I talked to a lot of people and made friends for a day by just skating around, one person came up to me to ask how old I was cause I looked young and was really good at skating, a few other people I taught a bit, a kid was falling every few feet so I asked if I could help, held her arm steady and skated beside her for a while, really wish I could've gotten a number then xD a lot of times if someone is willing to talk to you, they'd be open to a relationship, you just have to have enough confidence to ask for a number
And like in gravity falls, if your family goes on a road trip, try it with anyone you meet that you like, you'll never see them again, practice, maybe get a number, learn how you can improve how you act and what you say
I used to be shit at this, like so bad I just wouldn’t even try. I’ve found you just have to do it and keep doing it until it becomes second nature. If you don’t put yourself out there that much every interaction will seem scary and new. But eventually you’ve done it so much that one failed attempt isn’t that bad and doesn’t hurt as much.
In actual practice, I like to imagine how I would react if someone asked me what I want to say. It helps to put myself in that position and go “oh that isn’t so weird”. I’m not sure if that helps but it quells my anxiety a lot. Also just saying fuck it life is short and going for it is good.
I’m not sure how I made my friends. I sat next to a dude in my friend group talked with him a bit then he introduced me to the group. I just hung out with them and I guess they just were like “okay, you’re in.”
I guess I know how I made friends.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the opposite problem. Feel like I was born with a silver tongue, but God or whatever almighty deity there may be said "fuck you" and gave me a stutter. So I basically just don't talk to people now.
Trial and error while having no shame if you seem dumb or not. More good people out there then bad. Odds are if you’re friendly, they’ll be friendly back. My definition of friendly is smiling and laughing at dumb things they might say or that I say.
You have to realise that making conversation is a two-way street.
That is, the two parties must have some kind of compatibility for it to happen.
So if you're unable to make smalltalk with them, they are also unable to make smalltalk with you. It isn't anybody's fault, and it doesn't mean either one is deficient.
You're not lacking in ability, nor are they. You're just not a compatible pairing.
No big deal.
If they seem to have an attitude that you are the reason the smalltalk is failing, that they are 'good' at it and you are 'bad' at it, they are being at the least impolite, and at worst, a dickhead.
So don't beat yourself up about it. We're just not all compatible.
It's actually possible to learn how to do this. Some people just don't get the memo early on, but it's pretty much fixable. Practice matters and there are rules.
Don't worry about how to flirt worry about when to flirt. Are you in a sports club? You can flirt. Lady helping you at the clothing store? NOO NO NO . She is stuck there. Guy at the gym? Yes. Guy at the hospital no.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dreadfully fail at all of these.
Now i just interact only where necessary, on topics relevant or the weather/transit which is safe. Its worked out so that I make friends from places I always go, like work or school just because it's constant for so long.
aridax · 3 points · Posted at 18:02:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I kind of approach those all in the same way. My preference is to listen in on conversations until I hear something that I have an interesting point to make on, and then join in. If the conversation or people are no longer interesting, I’ll restart the process and look for another interesting thread to join.
For flirting, once they show interest in you as a person (quiet and looking looking at you when you speak, or starting conversation with you), ask their opinions about things, and maybe do an arm touch very occasionally
I'm a pro at flirting but I am terrible at making friends and small talk.
Edit: well I'm actually not a pro but I'm pretty good at flirting. I did know this one guy that was a pro at flirting though. It was amazing to see him get down to business.
Do you study anything at all? If so, do you take time doing it, and learn? If so, you just have to make up your mind to learn how to be social. It's not something that you can do without working at it. And by you, I mean you. You have to work at it. So if you want to change, you HAVE to spend actual time and work at it. How do you do this? By research and study. Lucky for you, there's these tools called duckduckgo and youtube so you can do these things called "internet searches."
Don't just do the above. Make it a field of study for yourself. Take notes. Put small things into practice, one or two things every day.
Memorize ways to act. A lot of it is just simply mechanical and a script - you don't have to be original.
Like, when you meet someone, it is a script. Now, I'm not talking about the entire conversation, I'm just talking about the first 5 seconds. 1) Look someone in the eye, 2) smile a regular smile, and 3) say "hi". That's it. Every single time. Those 3 things, and only those 3 things, every time you approach someone. Don't worry about what comes after that. Maybe you say you know, but I don't think truly socially awkward people know this.
As for what comes next, you just say the stuff that you think is boring and unoriginal and meaningless. "How do you like this weather?" "What brings you here?" You just need to remember "stock phrases." The reason for this is that you don't want to get too far along, because it is too intimidating. You don't want to ask someone something too personal. "How often do you masterbate?" would be an example of something that is too personal and you wouldn't want to ask someone right after saying "Hello". You ask easy stock questions so that you can gauge each other's speaking and non-verbal cadence, tones, etc, so that you can synch up together. It's not about he words or whether it is shallow, but synching up.
So you don't know about small talk phases? You can use duckduckgo to do a search and come up with small talk phrases and here.
I think a lot of people that don't know how to make small talk are just super literal people, very concrete thinking. If you say that a store is a million miles away, they will say, "No, I drove there the other day and it is 1.5 miles away." I notice this on reddit all. the. time. They don't understand metaphors and allegories and most literary devices. And especially they don't understand humor.
To flirt basically means having a sense of humor and playfulness. Wordplay, like sexual double-entendre and sexual innuendo, are big ones for flirting.
Also, never, never flirt at work, even if you know with 100% for sure that it would be welcome.
I think a lot of people that don't know how to make small talk are just super literal people, very concrete thinking. If you say that a store is a million miles away, they will say, "No, I drove there the other day and it is 1.5 miles away." I notice this on reddit all. the. time. They don't understand metaphors and allegories and most literary devices. And especially they don't understand humor.
This is me at an extreme. I'm either extremely metaphorical or I'm extremely literal. I'll be the person who converses using facts. Then 5 minutes later I'll be exaggerating to describe something.
Also, never, never flirt at work, even if you know with 100% for sure that it would be welcome.
That sucks. The only place I meet people outside home is work.
Well, a conversation is not about you. Or me. Or anyone. It's about 2 people. So you, me, anyone, cannot indulge ourselves. We have to speak with the other person in mind.
But you don't sound like the person I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who have ZERO sense of metaphorical speech comprehension, and ZERO sense of humor.
I'll say something humorous on reddit, and everyone will understand, but there's always some knucklehead that doesn't understand that it is humor or some literary device like hyperbole or zeugma or catacosmesis et al.
Also, never, never flirt at work, even if you know with 100% for sure that it would be welcome.
That sucks. The only place I meet people outside home is work.
If you are in the middle of a rural America where there are only 150 people in the county, I can see that. But, if you are in a decent size city, there's no excuse for that. I mean, right now, sure, no meeting anyone, but, I make an effort to go places where other people are. Meetup.com, for example. I have found about 6 or 8 groups that I go do, and if you go to them regularly like clock work and don't skip, you will get to know lots of people. Also, you have to sometimes go to lots of groups at first, because some just suck, some just are not a good fit, etc.
Or, maybe start your own group to meet with people. Your hobby, your career, whatever interests you.
But it is work and does not happen by magicks. Sometimes, I'm like, "Fuck, I don't want to go to this meeting." But I do, because I need to meet people outside work, for my mental health. One should never make friends at work. Professional associates, people you like...yes. but friends, no. Make friends outside of work. It's...the professional way to do it. The intelligent way to do it. The rational way. It's emotionally better to not make friends at work, and save your friendships for those outside of work.
We go to school starting at age 6, finish high school at age 18. Then many go on to university for 4 years for more education. Than many go on for another 2 - 12 years to get masters, PhDs, MD, JD degrees.
So you have to work harder. I don't know what your skill or hobby is, but let's say it's gaming. Some people will play video games 4-6 hour or more per day. That is a lot of time to build up expertise and knowledge that I coming in for the first time would know jack shit and suck at it, compared to someone playing for 4-6 hours per day for the last 5 years.
If you studied and practiced hard for 4 to 5 hours per day, in a directed and systematic manner, and in an academic manner, meaning read and learn and watch videos and get feedback and go out and practice, then you would be awesome at being more sociable.
The question is, do you want to?
I mean, you should start academically. Start out by reading about what humor actually is
Then recognize the types of humor. Here are some styles and words for humor, but believe me, they don't cover all the words for types of humor. So you can make a study out of it.
I think that there is a mind-set, too. There's this guy at work. He is so serious all the time. I try to joke with him, but he right away goes to serious topics. I don't mind them, but holy shit, lighten up. I'll tell him what I said was just a joke, and he'll say, "Oh, yeah, ok, but what do you think about the dollar's value as compared to the Euro." And this is not just once, which is always cool, but it is all the time.
All I can say is if you have the mindset that you don't want to do small talk or playfulness because it's trite and meaningless, clearly that is not true. That's how people are. Otherwise, the phrase "small talk" and the word "playfulness" wouldn't even exist in the first place.
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But it requires work. I mean, if it is important, you could even hire someone for money to teach you and practice with you. We pay for university educations, so I'm not even kidding.
But it is like martial arts. You have to practice it 3 times per week. You can read about it and study it academically, and watch videos to break it down, but you also have to go out and systematically physically practice being playful or humorous. You have to dedicate specific time to it. When I studied martial arts, I went in like clockwork 4 times per week and never missed a session. Plus I studied it outside of class in books and reading and videos. I was much better after 2 years than when I started, and even better after 5 years. That's how it is.
They used to have finishing school for women, that was a program dedicated to learning social graces. It's out of style now, but sometimes, I think it should make a comeback for both women and men.
But, if you are not playful because you are serious and academic, then make an academiic study of playfulness and humor (humor is such a key part of playfulness), and practice it. If you are a serious person, take it seriously, and master it. You can, for sure. If you want to. It will help you so much if you do. Start out and find the little victories. Practice one thing at a time until you get it. This is like any sport. Martial arts, you just learn a few new moves every few months and practice them over and over. Then after 2 months, you learn 2 or 3 new moves and practice the new moves over and over, plus the older ones. And it keeps progressing. One or two or three new things every month, and practice them, conscientiously and rigorously practice them all the time with people, no matter what.
But, don't be playful if the situation requires seriousness, of course. Control your mind, monitor the ever changing current situation.
JTD121 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have literally given up on the answers (satisfactory or not) to any of these questions.
All I’d say is, everyone’s different. So if you don’t feel like talking you don’t have to. Or if you want to do it, just do it! If they look nice, give it a shot!
I have absolutely no clue how to flirt, but in making small talk, you just inquire about their interests, and if you don't know their's then talk about recent news or one of your interests you think they'd like. making friends is relatively easy for me, but I don't try. my best friends sorta just fell into my lap. I guess just be friendly and talkative and bold.
I don't think you really can make friends with small talk, maybe once you become better acquainted with someone, you can go from small talk to regular talk? and then you can become friends that way?
Even with having a friend I've known since I was born I still don't understand this either. And let me just say that she is the complete opposite of me and still somehow finds a way to keep a smile on my face while being extra annoying
Watch documentaries like explained on Netflix. Read articles on Mental Floss and listen then tie it into a documentary article or podcast. Then you always have something to talk about.
Podcasts:
Wait wait don’t tell me
There’s no such thing as a fish
American hysteria
27 club
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's hard for me since I don't know how to start a conversation, how should I continue the topic using the right amount of words, how to pick my words, how to express myself(I can't laugh on most of the funny things), how do I look from the other person's eyes(since my father said I look like I'm daydreaming while he was talking to me, I wasn't), and how to end a conversation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. How does one exist as a passable and realistically social human?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s all a game of familiarity and compatibility. You meet someone and you like them so you try to impress them to have them like you back. If they like you enough, you won’t even have to try hard because they’d meet you halfway; they’d invite you over, call you, talk to you, try and setup meetings and stuff virtually as much as you do. And then there’d be this invisible score of “likeness”, which is why old friends are probably gonna stay friends for the rest of their life; there isn’t much they could do to fuck up years-worth of happy memories and good intentions.
So, I really don't mean this in a mean way at all, but isn't it interesting that personally I don't understand why so many proteins this difficult. I understand anxiety and stuff, and I myself had to have treatment for an anxiety disorder. But it just never manifested for me as a fear of or difficulty with talking to people.
I guess I mean, I never understood why people don't know how to do these things. I honestly think it's mostly about practice and understanding that sometimes it gets award and you just have to accept that and keep rolling.
A little tip - you don't use small talk to make friends. Best small talk will do for you is acquaintances. Small talk is lame and boring (in my opinion) and you can't get to know anyone with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I was socially isolated (was never allowed to be with friends after school hours. And never went to birthday parties)
People see me as a social person but I had to learn it manually in 7th grade and I still have no fucking idea of what I'm supposed to do. How do you end a conversation? Is this socially acceptable?
It's so hard for me to make new friends that I can connect with. I have made a few "friends" but it's just people who are there. I really only have 5 friends that I hang out with, and most of them are from elementary
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 17:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel bad for you, all the above are like my bread and butter.
Richje · 979 points · Posted at 14:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we literally have the entirety of human knowledge available all the time on a device that's small enough to take everywhere and some people think the Earth is flat, vaccines cause autism and 5G will melt us from the inside.
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:40:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That's true, but I don't think that really has anything to do with flat-earthers or anti-vaxers, Second Languages never came easy to me, and I would always just forget it whenever I learned something new. I was never able to internalize a second language, that doesn't mean I think Spanish is a myth by the media or something. These people believe in this things, because they believe in them. Belief structures are tautologies, they reinforce themselves. It doesn't matter what the facts are.
Every person alive has had their beliefs siloed and reinforced by the internet. It’s no surprise that all of us have become less critical, and crucially, more certain of our own beliefs.
I've been there and let me tell you it works like this:
Don't know how things work so you just assume some random article is professionally done with a proper research and you take it into a fact, i literally believed every article there was that looked "legit" and now since i've got more mature and learned much more now i know how dumb i was.
Then there's the flat earth theory, people believe that because they see earth as "flat" with their own eyes, then they stay entitled with their own opinion, they're known as ignorant and arrogant people.
It's because some people exclusively seek out 'sources' that support their own opinion. You would think that access to all of humanitys collective knowledge would make us smarter, but it's actually having the opposite effect since there's no fact checking and idiots are able to connect with other idiots, which only makes them more convinced that their delusion is true.
People don't want to learn. That want to have people agree with what they think and reinforce their beliefs. It's why Facebook became so huge. There's nothing more comfortable than an echo chamber.
THIS! I genuinely thought that once we had this ability, we would use it mostly for good, like in Star Trek. I'm a highly optimistic and happy go lucky person, but this has shaken my faith in humanity.
Count me in. Growing up, I remember how expensive communications were — so many cents per minute to talk to a distant relative, with the first minute costing much more. And publishing your ideas? Better be rich and own a newspaper or have years of expertise and have people wanting to hear your opinions. The Internet, I thought, would make the world a better place by driving the cost of communicating and publishing down and enabling everyone to share ideas freely.
Now I regret it. It turns out that 95% of the ideas weren’t worth hearing, anyway, and a handful are actively toxic. Those cost barriers did a decent job of filtering signal from noise.
And, yes, I get the irony in my posting this idea on a forum that would not exist save for the existence of the Internet. Somehow I count Reddit (or this slice of it, anyway), in that 5% worth hearing.
A big part of the problem is that the internet is 'free'.
Back in the day I paid per minute for my phone line AND per minute connected to my ISP.
There were also a lot more types of premium website.
Nowadays the internet is paid for by adverts almost exclusively. This means that it is no longer content that is king, but page clicks.
Unfortunately that seems to be what the vast majority of people want, or are used to (so they get angry about paywalls and such.
Add to that that your time on the internet is no longer a per minute charge, it means you actually use it to waste time, rather than use it as the tool it was meant to be. Do you think people would be as likely to go around shitposting if it was costing them coin?
I see a common theme in a lot of these people and that's "we're being lied to". And of course this is absolutely correct sometimes. The problem just starts when people adopt a stance where they consider pretty much everything that is believed by a majority of people to be a lie.
Those people typically perceive themselves as "critical thinkers" or those who are "awake" etc. - in other words: They are the elite, the rest are gullible sheep.
And as soon as you have that stance it's easy to apply it to everythig. "They* say corona is a natural virus - I am not falling for that". And then insert whatever the fuck you want. Pharma conspiracy, Bio Weapon, Tech Conspiracy, etc.
*"they" can be anything in this case. Government, Pharma, Media, whatever
And of course this creates a loop because at no point do you want to fall back into the category of gullible sheep.
There's this short story about the library of Babbel ( or whatever it was called haha) a library with all the books. Infinite books. The majority filled with pages of utter gibberish and nonsense. Just letters and symbols written on pages but some did have information some could fully describe your life bit by bit and some books would be a guide to said book of your life and future but there are also millions of books that say they speak of your future but have no real info in them or are lying.
What I'm trying to say is that although we have all this information now we also have even more misinformation and utter nonsense. Reality and value is but a diamond in a sea of utter gibberish
I was thinking more along the lines of, we have the sum total of human knowledge, beliefs, cultures, and humanity at the touch of our fingertips and people actually believe that’s a bad thing. I used to have a high school teacher who said that the smartphone, personal computer, and internet were de-evolutionary and were single handedly the reasons why education was at its worst as it was today. He was easily my most hated teacher for me, and really pushed his own politics into his lessons (he was very much a left leaner but in his mid fifties). Just remembering that statement makes my blood boil.
People that will flip you off or yell at you when they are the ones doing the wrong thing. One time my daughter was getting off the bus and crossing the street when a car came barreling down the road running the bus stop sign. I ran out into the road in front of my child held up my hand and screamed STOP!
The lady flipped me off. Like fucking seriously. I saved you from killing a child. MY child and you flip me off.
I won’t go into the details of what I did next. I wasn’t proud.
EDIT: to add what I did and some more details.
This lady did this a few times a week. I was ready for her. My daughter wasn’t the only one crossing. I just had a feeling I would encounter her that day.
Ok. So I started screaming at her because I was in shock that instead of her saying OMG, I am so sorry, she flipped me off. She CONTINUED TO FLIP ME OFF AND STARTED SCREAMING AT ME as I was yelling at her that she would have ran over my daughter.
I ran up to her door where her window was open and started grabbing at her trying to pull her out through the window and at the same time trying to open her door. I was seriously pulling her out as she was trying to get her window up. She finally got her window up and pulled her door back shut. I was screaming curse words and whatever else (I really can’t tell you) yelling at her to get out of the car and banging on her window. She finally sped away and I stood there in the middle of the street and all the other moms, the bus driver and a bus full of kids where just staring at me. I felt stupid for cursing in front of all the kids and losing it. The bus driver called me over and said as I was trying to kill her he got her license plate and was going to report her. So at least that happened.
But yeah. I am SUPER non confrontational. But when somebody does something like that, I have no problem going off I guess.
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I have a similar thing that I remember my drivers ed teacher telling me. I was sitting at a stop sign at an intersection where I had the stop sign but the cross traffic didn’t. A car was approaching from the left and they had they’re right turn signal on. Before I had a chance to do anything he said, “just because his turn signal is on, doesn’t mean he’s going to turn. Always wait to be sure.”
Just so happened that this car didn’t turn and kept on going. Always stuck with me.
Funnily enough my mom taught me this one later on. We were about to leave a parking lot and someone with their signal on was coming. I said she could just go. She said nope, cant trust everyone to drive right. Sure enough that dude didnt turn.
I had a job further downtown in the city (would be about a 30/45 min walk) last semester and used to bike to work in order to save time on the commute. One night on the way back home I almost got hit twice because people just didn’t give a fuck about the bike lane. Haven’t ridden a bike since. Every day after that, if I couldn’t find a ride, I just walked there and back.
I had a friend who biked everywhere (granted this was in Boulder, CO so that's pretty common). However, he lived in Nederland which requires a ride down (or up if returning) a canyon to get to Boulder where he worked. This was before cell phones were common and he didnt have a home phone, so we'd just meet up after work at a local bar a few times/week (plus we weren't super close, just kind of friends who hung out when we saw each other). One day, he didn't show up. Then it was a week. Then a couple weeks. Then a month. It wasn't totally out of the question for him, maybe he'd just gotten a girlfriend, gotten busy, you know.
Well, it turned out he had been biking down to work one morning when a car hit him and caused him to fall off the mountain. He barely survived, and I've never seen a helmet so messed up as the one he had been wearing. It was completely unrecognizable as a helmet. Just a heaping jumble of plastic and foam and straps. He broke every bone in his legs, both hips, his left arm, his jaw, and along with a few others I don't remember. He was really lucky to survive. The most interesting part to me was the fact that he fell in the icy stream fresh with spring runoff and it probably saved his life. The cold slowed his heart rate and prevented him from bleeding out before help arrived (at least this is what he told me).
adeon · 3 points · Posted at 19:50:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mum used to use a poem:
Here lies the body of John Gray,
Killed exerting his right of way,
He was right of course, he was right all along,
But he's just as dead as if he'd been wrong.
I always do the look both ways thing, but I'm still terrified of the people who just run the light in the middle of the cycle and you have no idea at all that they're coming.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cars are so deadly; I’m not sure why we drive erratically, myself included. When I get angry, I lose control and do stupid stuff that I realize could have killed me or worse, someone else. I’m working on managing my anger though.
Weirdly I find when I’m in a good mood I lose inhibition and cruise. When I’m in a bad I get so annoyed with other people’s driving I’m aware of my own.
I was making a left from the inside lane of a two lane turn with a bus on my right and decided to let it go a second first so it had space to turn and a red F150 came flying through the intersection right in front of the bus. If I would have tried to pass the bus instead of giving it space I would have gotten smashed for sure.
Awful for your mum, but it also wasn't entirely the girl's fault: the USA design of traffic lights, putting them the far side or middle of the intersection is not terrific. You need to make the decision to stop before you even enter the intersection. T-boning doesn't seem to happen nearly as often in places that have lights before the intersection. Leaving this comment here in the hope that some traffic planners see it.
What does that have to do with it? It's just so you can see the light when you're waiting at the intersection. Of course you have to make the decision to stop before you enter the intersection, but it's not like you can't also see the light before you enter the intersection.
I’m unclear. Who had the green light? The chick and her drunk friends, or the victims of the bitch and her drunk asshole “friends” who I hope are in prison.
This is exactly how I got into my car accedent that nearly killed me!! Except they didn't make it over onto the on ramp, they t-boned the passenger side of my car! They walked away basically unharmed, I had 2 surgeries and almost two weeks in the hospital! :)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mostly recovered, I had to have surgery on my shoulder to essentially reattach my arm, so that area never really got 100% better, but it's fine most of the time. And because of the damage done to my pelvis, it made it hard for me to walk long distances, which is really the worst part of it all because at the time I was a mail carrier, and most of my route was walking, so I unfortunately had to leave that job. I'm back at school now at 24, and I'm hoping to get a nice IT job at a school district after I finish my 2 year degree. I'll always miss being a mail carrier, but I'm learning to move onto better things.
I honestly don't know how the person driving the other car didn't get badly injured. My car was in pieces, and I saw pictured of theirs later and it was no where near as bad off as mine. I guess they just got really lucky.
I remember one time on the highway I was just driving along, roughly around the speed limit, no cars around me really. This guy moves a couple lanes over and then starts to move into the lane I am in. If he kept moving left he would have pushed into my car. We were driving about the same speed. I didn't know if he wasn't paying attention or what but I honked because I was like "Uh, this dude is gonna hit me." And after I honk he just looks over and begins SCREAMING and flipping me off, and then he just... sped off? I have no idea what happened there. It wasn't like I cut him off or anything, he came out of NOWHERE.
Similarly, another time I was in a lane for left turns waiting to turn. I couldn't because there was a lot of oncoming traffic. This guy behind me starts honking over and over and over and I look in my rearview mirror and he is yelling and flailing his arms. And I'm like... if I went I'd get hit by a car? I have no idea what he wanted or expected but even if I got out of the way for him to go, he would have gotten hit by cars? And it's not like the guy couldn't see them either. They were passing him while we waited!
I read this like "both you and my own child flip me off"
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I almost got into a head on collision when someone crossed over the double yellow and got completely in my lane. It happened almost 4 years ago and I still get nightmares about it, and to this day I slightly panic whenever I get to the same spot
It's a fair few years for me too, whenever I drive to the local shops I think about the time a lady exited out of the entry lane and called my mother some very choice words.
In the US, you never have right of way. There's responsibility to yield and that's it.
Right of way means that you can proceed into a situation and it's always the other person's fault if something bad happens because they didn't get out of your way. In some states emergency vehicles have right of way when they're on a call, but even that is limited by circumstances so not "true" right of way.
This matters from a legal standpoint, if you ever fill out a police report and put down you had right of way, you may have just talked yourself into contributory negligence.
The other thing you should know is that if someone is at fault in an accident, they are the one doing the hitting. You wrote someone could have hit this guy blowing the stop sign…again, never write that in a police report. The one that has the responsibility to yield caused the accident, therefore no matter the specifics, they are the one that hit the other vehicle. If you flip that around it means the party that hit the other party could have yielded—which they have a responsibility to do because there's no such thing as right of way—but didn't, so the accident is at least partially their fault.
You might object that's not what you meant to say. The law doesn't work according to the outcome you want, though, it works according to the picture you paint. If you say person A hot person B while person B was blowing a stop sign, you inadvertantly imply that person A should have done more to avoid the accident.
Once you start to understand that people react according to how something makes them feel, and nobody wants to feel like the bad guy, human behavior makes a lot more sense. Frankly, being able to recognize when you are reacting out of shame/guilt can be a major opportunity for person growth.
That kinda makes sense. But do people not feel embarrassment in these situations? Because when I fuck up in traffic or something, and someone honks or the very few times when people have flipped me off when its my fault, I just feel ashamed. Acting like a dick about it afterwards just sounds even MORE embarrassing.
The more fragile your ego, the more likely you are to double down in order to defend your pride rather than admitting fault. The fact that you feel embarrassed about antisocial behaviour at all is telling of your character.
This explains why our former downstairs neighbor flipped us off the other day.
We live in an older apt complex so our floors creak. Well former neighbor started banging and screaming when we walked in there during the day, while we were doing laundry or cleaning our something. He never came upstairs to talk to us like an adult because I guess he works at night, he just started screaming, banging, and cursing. It escalated to the point I was fearful he would attack us if we passed outside. We complained to the property manager. It was over a year of being afraid of walking in our apt. They finally moved him 2 buildings away like 3 months ago. Drove past him Tuesday and he flipped us off. Like, if we were preventing you from sleeping supposedly, and the complex made you move so you could sleep and are now sleeping, why flip us off? I didn't understand.
The human psyche has an amazing ability to protect itself from damage. Without even being conscious of it, our minds drive our emotional state to protect our sense of self.
I fucked up one time by cutting a guy off and he honked and I waved out my window as to say sorry and the guy ended up following me, threw a McDonalds cup at my car, rolled his window down screaming at me. I was thinking about calling the cops cause this guy was nuts. He ended up cutting me off, break checking me and forced me to stop on the side of the road, then proceeded to get out of his car, come to my window and scream at me on the side of the road with his girlfriend screaming too. I knew I did wrong and kept saying sorry to the guy, saying it was an accident. He just kept screaming saying he had my plates and his girlfriend was filming us (me and my girlfriend) freaking out in our car until they eventually left and sped off going about 100 km/hr on a city street. It's almost like feeling bad for your actions isn't good enough any more, people will straight up assault you because of a simple mistake.
Yeah honestly I'm not immune from making mistakes and whenever I do some dumb shit while driving I always feel super embarrassed and usually give the "oh shit I fucked up" wave out of shame, I don't ever flip someone off after I do something dumb. However, I've been flipped off by people doing absolutely asinine shit on a fairly regular basis. I can't tell you how many times I've pulled into the parking lot at publix and some dumb shit is driving the wrong way and they flip me off, at this point I don't even let it bother me because I just accept that some people are morons.
Ok, I get they don't want to admit fault. But they KNOW they were wrong, so couldn't they at least try to leave the situation as quietly as possible, rather than blaming the other person?
I had my friend in the passenger seat and we were stopped at a red light. The light turned green, we both saw it. I started going. Oncoming car nearly plowed into us. We pulled over, and the first thing the person says to me is "You know you just ran a red light?"
Another time I was on my bicycle and an ambulance was coming up behind me with its siren on. I pulled over and waited, another car pulled over directly in front of me. And then started reversing. Straddling my bike, I couldn't move very quickly, so I started yelling and pounded on their back window (because they had gotten close enough for me to do so).
The driver came out and immediately started scolding me for getting behind a vehicle that was backing up. Literally told me "You need to be more careful." I was here BEFORE YOU and you obviously didn't look before you started backing up.
Denial, denial, denial. Do these people truly believe that they were correct? Do they know they were wrong and are trying to cover their ass? I just don't fucking get it.
A few extreme cases do believe that they can do no wrong. Others are just trained to believe that "good people never make mistakes so if I make a mistake I must be a bad person. But I'm not a bad person and it really wasn't my fault. I didn't see that other person step out until it was too late, and now they are looking at me like I was trying to run them down on purpose. How dare they judge me to be that type of person. Like they're so perfect that they've never made a mistake in their lives. Screw them."
A lot of flawed thinking in these assumptions: black or white thinking, mind reading (assuming what the other person is thinking), catastrophizing:
I'm either a good person or a bad person.
I'm either entirely blameless or I ruthlessly intended to harm other people.
Admitting I made a mistake is a sign of weakness and culpability, and the other person might be an unreasonable ass who will hold it against me for the rest of their lives.
They might call the police on me and I'll have an expensive ticket or be thrown in jail for something I didn't mean to do.
If it makes you feel better I once pulled over for an ambulance to pass and got rearended. The guy had an absolute cow and I APOLOGISED. I was 18 and thought maybe I wasn't supposed to pull over.
Luckily there was no damage to my car so we didn't exchange details. Obviously because it was his fault he didn't want me to come after him.once I had a chance to realise what happened.
They’re so used to deflection that their brains neural routing no longer provides options/solutions, but rather weaseled fabrications that allow them to avoid the conflicts reasoning. Aka non-self-realized manipulation. It’s typical in teenagers
That weird to me. I always will throw my hands up and mouth sorry if I’m in the wrong and somebody honks or whatever. Like, yes, I definitely can fuck up but I own it.
Many people never learn that, or at least never make it a habit. My observation is many people react with violent anger towards any sense of discomfort because that's just how they learned to cope with stress somewhere in their development. Like say, if they were raised in an environment where they never felt safe or secure because someone else in the house had anger issues themselves.
Anger is just how the learned to adapt to big threats early on and will likely react to even the smallest sensations of 'threat' later in life the same way, regardless of the reality of the situation they're in. And it takes a ton of work to unlearn that kind of thinking unfortunately.
Ultimatum thinking lines up a lot more constructively with the mentality of an individual who isn’t self aware, meaning they’re not capable of judging their response patterns. If someone told me they always acknowledge their mistakes, I would think they rarely do.
It was reply to someone who had just said that they throw up their hands and mouth sorry instead of flipping people off. Follow the line up to the previous comment and you will know what it is a response to. ;)
Yeah, I get that, but how does flipping someone off make them feel like less of a bad guy? I guess it's shifting the blame, but deep down they know they were wrong. Doesn't that haunt them? Don't the realize that they'd feel better if they just acknowledged their mistake?
Or even just how they feel. Just got dumped? Found your spouse cheating? Just won the lottery? Wife having a baby in the car? People generally don't consider their actions as "is this something I will later regret? How would I want someone else to react if roles were reversed?"
This is really true. As I get older I’m getting better at releasing my ego and saying, “you’re right, my bad.” Some people really appreciate it and it can be pretty grounding.
No. This is why emotions like regret and shame exist. There are plenty times in my life that I've been on both sides of being an asshole or someone else being an asshole and usually the asshole side apologizes, especially if it's an accident. Most people have these feelings, and if they don't then they're an outlier.
Ok. So I started screaming at her because I was in shock that instead of her saying OMG, I am so sorry, she flipped me off. She CONTINUED TO FLIP ME OFF AND STARTED SCREAMING AT ME as I was yelling at her that she would have ran over my daughter.
I ran up to her door where her window was open and started grabbing at her trying to pull her out through the window and at the same time trying to open her door. I was seriously pulling her out as she was trying to get her window up. She finally got her window up and pulled her door back shut. I was screaming curse words and whatever else (I really can’t tell you) yelling at her to get out of the car and banging on her window. She finally sped away and I stood there in the middle of the street and all the other moms, the bus driver and a bus full of kids where just staring at me. I felt stupid for cursing in front of all the kids and losing it. The bus driver called me over and said as I was trying to kill her he got her license plate and was going to report her. So at least that happened.
But yeah. I am SUPER non confrontational. But when somebody does something like that, I have no problem going off I guess.
I actually think that’s a totally justifiable reaction there. Someone almost runs over your kid and then gets shitty at you for preventing that horrendous situation? That’s grounds for a smackdown.
If someone flipped me off for preventing them from accidentally KILLING MY SON I would absolutely see fucking red. I don’t even know what I would do but it would certainly be similarly aggressive to what you did. That’s some seriously biological mother bear type fighting instincts. Just imagining it is getting me heated!
Lol I can’t say for sure how I’d react since I haven’t been in that situation, but I imagine it would just be anything to inflict immediate damage on her. So glad it ended the way it did, though. People are crazy.
That's truly an insane reaction. If I almost hit a kid, even if it wasn't my fault, I'd at least have to pull over and calm myself down before setting off again
An old guy sped through our neighborhood at 60+ mph while we were out playing and my mom checked her (full) water bottle at him lol. Seeing my normally calm mother dress down a guy older than my granddad was a sight to behold!
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:04:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:05:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what's your solution when someone almost kills your child, and then acts indignant and flips you off for stopping them? Let them be on their way while you mumble, "I do say I've never encountered such uncouth behavior!"?
It may not be strictly legal, but I'd bet money they'd go free if stood before a jury.
Okay, I'm really curious about something. I'm usually pretty non-confrontational, too, but on very rare occasions (like only maybe 3 or 4 times ever) I've been outraged to the point I've literally gotten tunnel vision as the fight part of fight or flight kicks in. Just wondering if that happened to you as well.
I can be downright cowardly when it comes to standing up for myself if taken by surprise. If someone is really rude to me or unexpectedly raises their voice, it seems to activate a freeze instinct on me. I just pause in shock not knowing how to react.
However, I can apparently grow spine of steel if I need to stand up for someone else like you were when you had to defend your child. I was working with my two first grade girls with special needs at my job. The class was on stage practicing for the concert and my girls went through the song once so I said they could have a break backstage. The littler one was appropriately playing with one of the toys that was left hanging around.
At some point I went in front of the curtain to check on some other kid. I could hear a door close and someone say something. When I walked backstage the little one was walking towards me with her head down like a scolded dog and she wrapped her arms around me like she was scared. The other girl said, "some lady just yelled at little one!"
"What?! Who?!" I shouted. She told me someone just demanded she "put that toy back!" and left. They couldn't name the person so I stormed out the door in search of the culprit. No one there, so I stomped down the hallway with the girls on my heels, ready to angrily ask if that doll left on the floor was a precious heirloom. My little one gets in trouble enough, she doesn't need to be yelled at by some rando for playing when I said she could.
I never found out who it was, but I was surprised at how brave I was when I felt I had to protect someone else.
It happened to me once, and I’m a very laid back, non confrontational person.
My infant son was in the back on the passenger side. I was stopped in front of a busy four way intersection. A lady pulled up on the right, in the lane that only turned right, talking away on her phone. When the light turned green we both started forward, but that idiot went straight. She came within inches of hitting my son’s side.
I lost it. Followed her into the shopping center directly ahead and parked my car behind hers. Then I confronted her, loud enough to draw attention, and told her she’d almost killed my son because she wasn’t paying attention. I was furious and terrified at the same time. I had tunnel vision.
To her credit the woman apologized profusely and practically broke down into tears. She was genuinely remorseful and that calmed me down. But for a few seconds there I wanted to do bad things to her.
ive had this happen to me before as well, usually followed by the shakes and intense nausea.
during the conflict, id get tunnel vision, everything seems red-tinged, my brain stops all thinking. time seems to slow down. i get a ringing in my ears and everyone seems far away.
it happens less and less as i grow older but in my teens it was a weekly occurrence id get so pissed about something it would just turn on like rage mode where i barely remember what i did afterwards.
and it was always some stupid thing like a kid teasing me a bit too far, or my little brother broke something i liked or whatever. fucking hormones, you know?
now as an adult i can count on one hand how many times its happened since 20 years old. and its always been for an understandable reason like once someone spit in my face or another time someone hurt a member of my family.
ive never hurt anyone bad enough to require medical assistance but ive mashed a few noses in my day.
i dont know what causes it, im not an angry person. ive talked my way out of more violence than i can even count, but everyone once in a while someone will do something so bafflingly evil or disrespectful that my fight or flight just goes "nah. know what? this is the hill we die on. have some adrenaline and some endorphins and lets FUCKING GOOOOO"
I don't wanna sound cynical, but you really gotta be careful with self centered people like that, especially if you live anywhere in the US. People like that will make usually try themselves look like the victim. Next thing you know you might be slapped with an assult charge and they could get off scott free.
Nothing on you, good on you for putting that bitch in her place. But this is a warning for future readers of this thread.
That is 100% what the driver thinks. Actually explaining to people why their actions are dangerous might have some positive effect; acting like a crazy person and trying to rip them out of their car absolutely will not.
If she is mentally ill enough/enough of an asshole to repeatedly endanger the lives of children, and then become enraged when someone is trying to protect their child from being mowed down due to their actions, there is no conversation there. OP even tried to talk to them and car lady only kept yelling and flipping them off. These people need consequences, and while I would love for those consequences brought on them by the law (as will hopefully happen here) I’m assuming this parent is terrified this woman will continue until she kills someone and felt powerless when she wouldn’t listen to her so felt she had to act.
Soy_Bun · 12 points · Posted at 19:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Momma bear activate
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’d rather you get angry at a woman for almost killing your child than you have to deal with a hurt child. and all that didn’t even sound bad, I don’t know a parent who wouldn’t do the same thing. I applaud you
I believe this lady is displaying what I like to call “diamagnetic anger”.
Just like how magnets induce an opposite, repulsive, magnetic field in diamagnetic materials, I propose “diamagnetic anger” is anger in response to anger irrespective of the source or reason for the initial anger.
Maybe I'm giving her too much credit, but for some people, it's just like it was for you. You started screaming because you were in shock. Someone in her situation might freak out back because they're in shock, too. I know I probably would be if I almost killed someone. Mind racing, unsure how to process it, not wanting to feel so incredibly guilty for what was almost a tragedy, wanting to find a way that it could be someone else'sjust not your own fault, seeing that you're already getting attacked and need to defend yourself...
Of course it's not an ideal reaction, but chaotic things happen in chaotic situations.
That reaction was COMPLETELY justified, however, I just want to give you a heads up on something. I was actually talking to a lawyer friend a few months back and he was talking about how laws and charges can be combined and stacked. I'm sure this is different in every state but in my state, he was telling me that if you break a car window or enter someone's car without permission...that's breaking and entering, but a misdemeanor.
If you hit someone or punch someone, it's assault but also a misdemeanor.
But, if you break into a car AND then assault a person....that's breaking and entering WITH assault and that combination is a felony.
Anger goes a long way and you reacted the way I think most people would and it was justified, but keep that in mind that sometimes attacking someone in one context can carry drastically different consequences than in another context.
I'm glad your kid was safe though and honestly that person totally deserved the beat down.
I live in Orlando and I see people act like this after almost killing others all the freaking time. One person cut us off at a 4 way stop where they didn’t have the right of way and they were literally looking us dead in the eyes and just wouldn’t stop and we had to slam our breaks to avoid hitting them. Now, no one was going fast enough to die I’m sure, but he was, of course in a gigantic pick up so it wouldn’t have been great. It was like he was trying to play chicken.
Then he flipped us off and stopped in front of us for a solid minute, as if he was trying to decide whether to get out and confront us. (Confront is for what I don’t know, having the audacity to drive a vehicle I guess.) This kind of shit happens 9 out of 10 trips out of the house.
Also my SO who is 6’2” and built pretty big was hit - physically, as in he was a pedestrian - not once but two times in the last year in a parking lot by someone backing out of a spot without looking at all. He’s not easy to miss. He had to actually punch their vehicles with his fist to get them to realize they were slowing trying to back over a human being. Un-fucking-believable.
I've done something similar. When I was on the way to drop my kid off at daycare, there's this road where, before you can turn right, you need to drive around a small streetbump. But it has markings around it so you can't cross it. It's to protect cyclists, so you won't cut em off when you're not looking.
Anyway, as I was going around that thing and turning right, some old lady just went straight through and would have rammed my car in back side in the right and effectively killed my daughter IF I hadnt slammed the brakes. She just drove off and I went in full pursuit, she saw me following her so she accelerated quite a bit. At one point I was able to overtake her and block her. So I jumped out of my car and ran to her window and was screaming why the fuck she ran that bump. Her excuse was "well if you would have done the same then there wouldn't be a problem"
I wanred to punch her fucking fake teeth into a million pieces but was aware that I would be 100% at fault and wouldve gotten arrested. So I called her the ugliest Dutch word there is, and spat right in her face
Can’t say I don’t understand. I always worry about what I’ll do when put in situations like that. I’m crazy before factoring in somebody potentially harming my child. I like to think in that moment I’d realize my daughter is in the car and let it go... but you never know.
To be fair it wasn't the first time it happened and the first couple of times cars didn't go for it but slammed on their brakes as soon as they saw me turning (I mean I have my fucking blinker on so you should be able to anticipate). But here I blacked out. As soon as I got out I was apparently able to think again since I "just resorted" to do the thing I described. God I cringe just thinking of it
I empathize so much with you. One time i believed somebody dear to me hurt my kid on purpose (i was wrong - nothing happened. i heard a slapping sound but it wasn'T that person hitting my kid) and I instantly went into lioness mom bear mode with this white hot rage in me. In my mind i knew where the kitchen knives were and what way was quickly out the door, grabbing my kid.
I was incredibly surprised by myself, but instinct took over. (Nobody was harmed, misunderstanding cleared up. Got scared of myself but also weirdly reassured, that I got this. that meek, socially awkward, easily frightened me WOULD HAVE DEFENDED MY KID WITHOUT A SECOND HESITATION).
I don't know,w hat i would have done in your situation. I get very angry about people who endanger others. And if they endanger my kid..... oh boy.
i so wish somebody had this on camera and this woman would have gotten a just sentence.
Boss99 · 2 points · Posted at 03:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This situation is very different depending if you're a man or a woman. Either way it would have been rad if you got her keys and threw them really far.
Honestly, she deserved it and most people would probably do the same in a situation like that. I'd like to think that your aggressiveness scared some sense into her and made her realize that it could have been FAR worse. Realistically, she probably remained a self-absorbed twat, but I like the other scenario better.
She almost hurt your daughter and showed no regard when you called her out. I hope that piece of shit learned a valuable lesson when you nearly beat her ass but unlikely. Don’t feel bad, your adrenaline kicked in. I would have done something similar.
You could have been proud if you’d actually pulled her out of the window and beat her ass. I’m also absolutely non-confrontational but when it comes to my kids some primal thing kicks in and I can’t help it. Your way probably resulted in less blood shed and legal action so I’m sure it was the more reasonable way.
She almost ran over your kid and was defending her actions. The only thing you have to be embarrassed about is that you didn't manage to get her out through the window so you could smash her dumb fucking face.
Definitely with you on the super non confrontational but it's crazy how fast that can change when it's someone or something we love at risk. To a much lesser extreme than your own situation, I'm a very friendly person until someone is rude or dismissive of my pets. They're well trained and I take care to make sure they dont bother others but if someone comes home, idc how bad your day is dont yell at the dogs for circling and being happy to see you or we will have a serious fuckin problem.
While this may be an overall unproud moment.. there are positives. You showed how much a parent can love their kid when they see someone else as a threat. You showed that men (wait are you a man? If so..) can be super protective in a physical way should anyone try to harm your family.. everybody saw that nobody fucks with your family. (Again, IF you're a man) a lot of people would say men rage too much and in some ways society tells us to suppress that, but it's in our DNA, we have testosterone, and it can sure as hell protect a woman and her child. For that, women should be thankful. If you're a woman then disregard lol, but still positives
ngoleo · -3 points · Posted at 20:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should have citizens arrested her ass. Better next time. Children's lives matter. You should not be ashamed of your attempt to make the citizens arrest. Valiant, within your rights. Technically you might have been able to lawfully kill her depending on what state you're in, California has the most lenient justified, (for private citizens pc 186?) homicide laws I've found.
fear translates to anger, which is them flipping you off, or whatever.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my job, in which i regularly get abuse off the public, we call it reflected anger. They are doing something wrong but they react in a way caused by the embaressment of being caught. When faced with being caught, some people say sorry and are decent. Others yell and scream as if somehow it's my fault. This doesn't last too long, but it's usually long enough for us to part.
Interestingly I had this a few months ago, it ended, no big deal. But the person concerned, 30 mins later, ran into a colleague of mine and asked him to apologise to me for her behaviour.
a-r-c · 15 points · Posted at 19:00:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
three days ago, a woman flipped me off because she crossed the double-yellow into oncoming traffic and almost hit me
and 6 months ago, a guy cut me off and then pulled up and actually threatened to fight me until I pulled the metal baseball bat from my back seat and pointed it in his face and told him to fuck off before I shoved it up his gaping asshole
and shit, 3 months ago I cut a guy off kinda by accident (but mostly bc I wasn't paying attention like I should have been) and I waved at him to say sorry but then he followed me for 2 miles dodging and weaving through traffic to taunt and honk at me...like ok, I fucked up, but it's not like I flipped the guy off or hit him.
I think a lot of people just don't know how to, or refuse to own up to their mistakes. Then they get defensive or even combative when getting caught.
It's sad really cause just on a very basic level, owning up to your own actions not only looks better but it also helps to fix a behavior that otherwise will continue to happen.
It doesn't matter whether or not she saw a child, it is illegal to drive past or around a bus when it is stopped. Hence, the stop sign on the side of a bus.
I will say this. She did it all the time. I even said to myself “I wonder when the shitty red blazer will speed by” and then it happened. She always ran the bus stop sign and I was ready for her.
I ride a motorbike and more than a few times someone has put me in danger and I honk my horn, its amazing how many people flip me off but it happens to be the same number of cars that have their side mirror removed by my boot
A driver one reversed onto the pavement (to do a three point turn), nearly hitting my 4 year old daughter, outside a school at closing time. My wife pushed her out of the way and had to bang on the back of the car with her palm (she still didn't stop).
The driver cursed at her for being in the way and not visible in whichever mirror she was supposedly looking in.
Yes! I was in a parking lot once and someone was backing out very fast without looking (I had the right of way, I was going around the lot, fairly slow but I had to slam the breaks) and I tapped my horn so she would stop. She flipped the fuck out, both her and her passenger. I grew up terrified of road rage incidents so I use my horn almost none and then only a tap. They were coming out of a tanning place so I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
True. I've never been angrier on the road in my life than the time a truck behind me was holding his horn down as I sat at a red light. The light turned green for people going one way but stayed red for people turning left. The idiot behind me had gotten in the wrong lane and was blaring his horn nonstop because I wouldn't run the red light for him.
I had EXACTLY this happen to me last year. Woman almost hit me backing out of a spot, as I was pulling into the spot across from her. I tapped the horn, she flipped me off and started yelling. I got out with my wife, the woman and her passenger continued to yell and flip us off as we walked by. Fucking psycho.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twice I have had a man with a stroller jump into a crosswalk while I had the right of way and was going normal speed in my car. When I honked they flipped me off. They were with other people, too! The first guy even kep doing it while laughing. These men are husbands and fathers! They endangered their own child and flipped me offf!
This must vary by country. In many places pedestrians have right of way at a crosswalk.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not if they jump in while their light is red, or hit the light button and jump in without giving the car the time to react and stop or finish going through.
Did you have a green light? Or rather how do you decide who has the right of way?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First one I had a green light. Second one they hit the crosswalk button and their light immediately flashed, and they jumped in without giving me a chance to stop or finish getting through. I had to slam my brakes.
People like this are really crazy on another level. I know someone who was beaten by a driver who almost hit her. The driver came barreling down the road, and she jumped back and instinctively said “what the fuck!” She continued on her way and it turns out the driver was following her. The driver pulled her to the ground by her hair and started attacking her. The person got away, she had to be stitched up, and she’s now dealing with anxiety and ptsd.
IMHO that's pretty much narcissistic behaviour in a nutshell. Nothing they do can ever be wrong and so they're never in the wrong. So the fact that you reacted the way you did means you were in the wrong. And she reacted to that perceived fact. I wouldn't be surprised if she was oblivious to everything around her and didn't even notice the sign (or understand it's significance) or your daughter.
See, now we're all imagining what you did and I guarantee it's worse than the reality. Unless the reality is that you jumped up on the hood of her car, proudly pooped upon it, then ululated and flew away.
Reminds me of when I damn near crashed into some dunce because they decide to pass a truck that was slowly moving on the side of the road (trying to let the person behind them pass) right as I was coming along. Like it's a double yellow line IN TOWN so you need to wait for me to go by mate. She honked at me and I lost it, like you shouldn't be passing in the first place here unless there's no oncoming traffic. I swear half the people where I live don't have their licenses or don't deserve them lol
Not super similar but driving related. I was in the passenger seat with my step-dad driving and we were at a traffic light junction with the lights red. A car pulled up next to us and my step-dad just had noticed their passenger side front wheel was flat, like, how was that car still driving flat. He was trying to get the attention of the driver but the kid in the passenger seat got confused at why he was basically shouting at him. Eventually the kid rolled down the window and he alerted the driver to the situation. However, just as they rolled down the window the lights turned green and everyone behind both of us started honking their horns in anger and swearing at my step-dad. I know they didn’t really know why both of us were not moving, but that car was full of kids and something bad could have easily occurred if the driver went much further.
My parents got mad at me when a car almost ran over me when they refused to stop at the bus stop. THEY almost ran over Me. But my parents were angry at me because "I should have been paying more attention." I'm sorry that they came barreling from behind a curve, and I didn't see them. They even stopped by the house to apologize later on, but still.
I have no idea what was going on in their heads really. My bus stop was right there where a curve was so I couldn't exactly see if a car came around that curve. It stopped in time and I was okay lucky. This was maybe 5th-6th grade. I think they were incredibly worried and therefore lashed out on me, but I have no idea.
Something like this happened to me and my friends once. We were biking up to tennis lessons and we went to stop at the four-way stop. As we started to bike through the street, this car came out of nowhere barreling down the road, didn't stop at the stop sign, and came really close to hitting us all. Then proceeded to lay in his horn and then continue down the road at an unsafe speed.
It wasn't a very fun experience...
Honestly, you could have jumped on the roof of the car, dropped a river of diarrhoea down the windscreen, cycled through every known profanity dating back to the mesolithic era, sacrificed a wombat to satan and eaten the last dodo, and still take pride in it. There is no limit to what you can do in defense of your kids.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Different strokes, some folks react angrily when they know to be in the wrong.
Was it get her license plate and report it to the police? Some school districts are installing dash cams on buses to catch people doing this
rsk222 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once saw someone blow through a stop sign, nearly hitting another car, then proceed to slam on their brakes, back up, and curse at the car they’d nearly hit because they broke the law. What the frick, man.
Forgive my nosy nature, but I’m dying to know your honest reaction to that. Like PM me if that’s easier, but I always wonder how stuff like this plays out in real like. Not just “oh this is what I think/would like to do in that situation.”
I was walking across a pedestrian crossing in front of my University's main entrance. This lady driving while texting nearly ran me over. And she is the one throwing signs. Like wtf.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of those people are just entitled and think that since they are in the car that they have the right of way. I had someone honk at me once when I was crossing the cross walk then shout at me for being in their way.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once got flipped off for stopping at a yield sign, so the guy with the right of way could continue on his way. I am still confused about that one.
I don’t know what the word for a person like this is, but this is my sister. She can take ANYTHING and turn it to how it’s hurting/effecting her/fucking up her day. She is a very miserable, insecure person. These types of people think anything and everyone is out to get them. You know those people who have the mindset “why me?” But then won’t think twice about doing shit like flipping off a mom saving her child.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to live in this house that was on a busy street. One day I was coming home after work and this older man that was having hip problems, or whatever, was walking really slowly across the sidewalk/entrance for my driveway. I put my right blinker on waiting for him. The woman behind me laid on her horn, started cussing for me to move. Where? There was no street parking and circling back around my block to come back around would probably take another five minutes.
It was early in the afternoon because I started work really early in the morning, so it wasn’t as busy as it typically gets. She could have just passed me. She sort of did. She got in the middle of the road, stopped right next to me (the cars going the opposite direction had to stop since she was blocking them) and she rolled down ALL of her windows (her kid was in the backseat too) to tell me she hoped I would die a painful death as well as other lovely things.
I guess I was an asshole for waiting a minute for the old dude to walk. I could have just spent the extra five minutes circling around, but I just worked an 11 hour shift and I was fucking tired. Jeez.
I started delivering Pizza a few months ago and have gained about a story a week about people getting mad at me when they break the rules of the road. I am a rather cautious driver most of the time, and I have no desire to get a ticket or to get in an accident. If my driving record gets messed up I lose this job (not that it's the best job ever, I'd just rather not go from one dead end temporary job to another and devote more time on gaining one better job to stay at long term). My favorite was when I left a house on a main road and someone on a side street, who had a stop sign while I didnt, blew past their stop sign and didnt stop until they saw me, despite the fact they were now in the road. I luckily realized they werent stopping and stopped myself, but the guy in that car did one of those exacerbated throw the arms up in the air because apparently I'm a fucking idiot for not crashing into him when he blew a stop sign. God, I was FUMING for the rest of that shift
Seriously, I am not like this normally. I would never cause a scene anyplace. I’ve done it 2 other times and all 3 had to do with my child. The other 2 were when weirdos were following me and my child, one was trying to take pics of her. I lost it and confronted him. So I guess it’s only when it involves me kids. Lol.
I had someone hit me (slowly, gently) with their car while I was crossing at a crosswalk, the lady in the passenger seat called me an asshole, I called her a fucking bitch (not sure if I'm not proud of continuing to escalate), her husband got out a threw one of the most pathetic slow motion swings at me, that was comically easy to just back away from. First and only time in my adult life I've ever "been in a fight."
I'm not a social dude, but I ate out a lot on my block, and am reasonably nice. Two of the restaurant owners nearby came running out to help and make sure I was ok. They got in their car and drove away.
It was surreal. I mean, sure, I continued to escalate, but the balls on this fucking bitch (yeah I guess I'm.not not proud) to call me an asshole after they hit me with their fucking car.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A sign you’re a tremendous and caring mother/father in the end
The bus driver called me over and said as I was trying to kill her he got her license plate and was going to report her
I love this. The bus driver sees you lose your shit and gets the info of the woman to report her. It's just perfect honestly. You could've been the one reported but the bus driver pulled an epic powermove and reported the woman (who definitely was the one at fault)
Yes, and I mean I was apologizing to him about what I did but he didn’t care. He was like she does this all the time. We finally got her license plate. I also apologized to the bus stop moms. They didn’t mind at all.
Totally with you on this, I remember when me and my ex were driving home from the grocery store with my newborn son in the car with us and some asshole ran a red light and pulled out right in front of us when we were doing like 45-50 mph and I laid on the horn just to let them know we were about to nail them, thankfully I had enough room in the lane next to me to dodge them but then these stupid fucks speed up to pull next to us and threw a giant handful of change at our car. I'm a super non-confrontational person but with my newborn first and only child in the car I lost my fucking shit, followed them up to the next light and got behind them, got out of my car and walked up next to the passenger window where the person who threw the change was sitting.
It was a 50+ year old man with his wife driving and they had what I assume were two grandchildren in the back of their van, I asked the guy if he realized his age considering the absolutely childish shit he just pulled after his wife's shitty driving almost got them crushed in the first place. He then said if I didn't back up he was going to get out and kick my ass, I was around half this dude's age and more than willing to throw down at that point so I told him to feel free and take a step out, then he rolled up his window and pretended I wasn't there while his wife started screaming she was going to call the cops. I told her to feel free so that they could explain why the fuck they threw a handful of change at us after running a red light, then I walked back to my car and my ex already had the cops on the phone, unfortunately they didn't do a god damn thing and I just ended up being super heated for the rest of the day. I still get fucking mad every time I think about it, people can be so fucking ignorant.
Omgod. Oh yeah with newborn baby in the car, your already in heightened mode. But seriously, what is wrong with people? Like what is going on in their minds?
tmntnut · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Honestly I have no idea what that guy or his wife were thinking, I'm sure she just made an honest mistake while driving but the events that transpired after were mind boggling, I probably didn't handle it as well as I could have but I'm pretty over-protective when it comes to my son since he's the single best thing that's ever happened to me which is why I totally understand your reaction to the situation you were in. There is no rational thinking when it involves the potential harm of your child or children, some people are just assholes unfortunately.
I had a guy cut me off so bad one time that I had to SLAM on the brakes. So I got into the lane next to him and flipped him off. The guy proceeds to FOLLOW me for the next HALF HOUR around town. I tried losing him but this fuckwad wanted a piece of me. I live in a town 10 or 20 miles outside of a bigger city so he kind of just gave up, but that fucker wanted to commit murder after already almost causing an accident.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some idiot, tried to drive both dangerous and illegal, the crazy old bitch got a middle finger, then started speeding as crazy trying to crash into our car, a car with 2 kids and 1 adult. If she had scratched that car i would have walked out and beated the shit out of her
My old commute to work involved merging from one interstate to another. One day I had a bunch of cars in front of me doing the same thing. The interstate we were merging onto was completely clear in the other lane. So as we approached the merge, all of the cars already on that interstate moved over to let us in. All but one driver. So when it was finally my turn to merge, that one driver (whose car was basically just a frame) didn’t follow the lead of the other cars, so I had to slow down in order to let him pass. Rather than just continuing on and passing me, he slammed on his brakes and flipped me off. Then he sped around to get in front of me. I knew a state trooper liked to camp in a spot shortly ahead, so I hoped he would get pulled, but I don’t think anything ever happened to him.
When I was in middle school I was about to cross the road and the girl ahead of me was walking across and this car came speeding down said road and hit her. She literally flew into the air, rolled up the car, and fell off. She only broke a leg and I have no idea how that was the only thing that happened. I should also mention that it was right when school got out and the road was lined with parents picking up their kids and buses so it was very obvious that kids were walking around everywhere. And the girl was a very responsible and follow-the-rules girl.. she wouldn't just run out into the street. I don't understand how people can be so reckless.
If this makes you feel a little better, in my city stop sign are a suggestion (I'm not joking at all) and every law you studied to obtain your driver license will be erased soon by the experience of a chaotic galaxy that you immediately encounter when you take your car and start driving by yourself.
It's like a tons of singularity and infinite random quarks that moves around and interact to each others. The only rational thing is to adjust in a way that everyone survive and you cannot be put in jail.
ctng37 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One time on my motorcycle, a truck pulled out from an apartment parking lot and was probably about 6 inches or less from hitting my knee. I turned around to see the person/ car and he furiously flicked me off with both hands... I almost couldn’t focus in class that day.
This happened to me and my dad recently. We were driving home and some homeless woman rode her bike across the street when the crosswalk sign clearly said no crossing. My dad honked at her and she flipped him off. Like, WTF lady, do you want to die?
I chalk this up to a perception issue. I just assume they don't perceive themselves to be in the wrong, regardless of how obvious anyone else may think it is.
k_b101 · 1455 points · Posted at 17:11:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people actually give 2 shts about what celebrities think.
I was a little disappointed to see Mark Ruffalo in the video. He actually does a lot of things to help people, but being in the video made him look a bit stupid. Most of the others in the video I either don't care about or genuinely dislike
I work as a music journalist and a lot of the artists I seek to interview are highly motivated, passionate, industry pioneers with unique perspectives that have lead to them becoming successful. Understanding that mindset is interesting to people. It’s no different than an accomplished scientist giving a keynote speech. It’s just on a different subject.
Yes but most people(maybe not most but a lot of people) dont really judge if the opinion is wrong when it is coming from a loud voice. Extra points if you already agreed with the opinion, because you will use the loud voice to spread the opinion.
I think that depends on the celebrity and the context.
Like, I am interested in Quentin Tarantino's opinion on films because I trust that he has some idea what he's talking about. His opinion on something irrelevant to his field probably wouldn't interest me though.
I do agree it's weird when people treat celebrities as an authority in areas where they have no real experience.
This. I understand people who share ideals and interests as a celebrity.
I don't understand people who love them for every single shit like what they ate for breakfast and what they were like in a relationship. And what I don't understand even more is people who shove celebrities down your throat to enforce their opinion. Who tf cares if Beyonce likes her coffee that way, and why is it wrong that I drink it another? This is just an exaggeration but seriously this kind of things get out of hand when people take celebrities opinion in everything, even when it's something bigger.
Mainly boredom with their own lives. Think old fashioned house wives reading about celebrities because they've been doing the same shit all day everyday.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a line in the Get Smart movie where at some point the possible destruction of Hollywood comes up and how all the celebrities will die and someone says, "Oh but what will we do without their cutting-edge political opinion"
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beyond this, how about celebrities in general. Who cares what clothes they wear, who they see and what they do?
"Can you write your name on this paper for me? OMG THANK YOU. We've never met befoore, have nothing in common and will never meet again, but let's take a picture together despite the fact that you don't even know my name."
Celebrities play roles in movies that people often idolize. e.g. rich businessman, famous high school kid. Hence they start respecting the celebrity on screen and sub conciously off screen as well. Hence they give a lot of importance to what they say or think.
A celebrity is an avatar of sorts. You identify and are interested in the one celebrity whose qualities you'd like to see more of in the world.
Take Keanu Reeves. Guy has badass hobbies, is humble, good hearted and dedicated to his art. You just know Hollywood, nay, the world would be a better place with more of his Ilk.
Depends on the celebrity. I don’t really care about Kim Kardashian’s take on the Israel-Palestine conflict, but there are plenty of celebrities I respect and look up to and I do care about their opinions on certain things.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrities in general? Yeah, who gives a shit. However! There are some poets, painters, filmmakers, songwriters, etc. who may come from a particular environment or used to work in a previous field, etc. and so forth, and their work is their way of raising awareness or voicing criticisms. I do give a shit what these types think because they are speaking from personal experience.
People need someone with a seemingly higher status to follow
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been happening here in NZ with the lock-down. They keep bringing in some random woman who was relevant once for her opinion. - "And now we're crossing to Karen in Huntly to hear her thoughts on the R0 of Covid-19 and what it's going to mean for the world economy"
briuh13 · -5 points · Posted at 20:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS. if I had gold to give you’d have it all, you beautiful human
Former infantry team leader here. What ALWAYS blew my mind is how these kids- fresh out of high school, never lived on their own, ect... - with such minimal life experiences, sign themselves away to a life a literally kicking doors in, being shot at, and being completely miserable 95 percent of time. Aside from the obvious, when you step off on patrol (especially when briefed that enemy troops have been confirmed in the area, and taking contact is very likely), you have ZERO idea if you'll make it back to your little plywood and hesco paradise to ever watch another sunrise or not. I joined in my mid 20s, and always thought of college and all the things I never would have experienced had I did what they did. I dunno... it might sound dumb, and eventually you come to terms with the dangers of the job, but still- I personally will never understand it.
There's a war novel I'm reading titled The Things They Carried, and there's a chapter about the crisis the narrator went through about deciding to go fight in Vietnam. There's obviously a lot to it, but the conclusion he reached was something along the lines of "I went to war because I was embarassed not to."
I suppose it's different within the context of the draft because from what I remember it was between joining the draft and running away to Canada for the main character of that book. Although I could be remembering it wrong (we did a whole unit on Vietnam) but I don't remember him voluntarily going to war.
Might be related to testosterone? Pretty much every guy feels invincible at that age. Also at that age guys aren't really thinking things through. They just see one facet of a thing and make decisions based on that.
Also has to do with upbringing, a lot of people (in the U.S. at least) are taught that being a soldier is a good and honorable thing to do, that it will save lives rather than just end them, that it will make you a hero, as if that diminishes the consideration that it will make you a corpse.
There's also the aggressive recruiting practices, at least here in the U.S.
According to my mother, who uses the house phone more often, the Marines and Army have both called multiple times attempting to recruit me.
Both she and I have told them no.
I'm a soft, friendly, lazy asshole who works at a restaraunt.
I wouldn't last through day 1 of training in the army or the navy, let alone the Marines.
There were people from a military branch trying to get people to sign up frequently at my highschool.
(As for it being a testosterone thing, the fog of invulnerability associated with testosterone is very much a short lived thing for most people, worry will rapidly set in with any downtime given to contemplate.)
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 09:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thousand times more worth it to be a soft, friendly, lazy guy working at a restaurant than going to fight and come back with acute PTSD and depression, if not dead.
Be a happy soft lazy friendly guy, my dude. And notice how I did not quote you completely by saying "soft lazy friendly asshole". Because you're not an asshole, people who sign up without really considering the consequences are.
I think it also has to do with the fact that, a lot of teens either don’t have a home to go back to or at least a good home to go back to. Whatever anyone’s thoughts regarding the military branches here in the US, they really are a family so to speak. There are also genuine positives that military personnel do across the world that isn’t killing. There’s of course post military benefits as well (free college, pension, etc). And then there’s just not really knowing what to do with your life after high school, so the military is there. It’s really not a bad thing, but people must understand the risks of joining and accept them. And I imagine most do.
One of my friends is in the air force special forces. He's trained for it since he was 14 or so, working out, doing weapons training, backpacking through the woods, etc. Smart kid, too- graduated top of the class and could have gone anywhere after high school, but it was his dream to be air force special forces. He went through all the tests and made it, even though none of his training buddies made the cut.
I remember talking to him right after that and there was this uncanny understanding in his eyes as he told me how fucked up his life was about to become. He told me about how high the mortality rate is for special forces guys and how, even if he does live through it, he's going to be mentally destroyed. Special forces tend to see the people they kill. He almost certainly will be wounded in some way. The operations alone will be mentally and emotionally draining. But, even knowing all that, he's still excited about it. He could do anything he ever wanted to, and he's fine knowing the thing he's going to do will destroy his life.
Oh for sure. In addition to cheating on his long-term girlfriend the day before she flew across the country to visit him for a week, he's told me lots of stories about the shit him and his squad have done to stave off boredom. It's insane.
Just know that the vast majority of what he tells you is likely bullshit. We’re not in that type of war anymore. I’d be interested in hearing what is job title is
I've spent some time around AFSW people and I don't think that's entirely true. Mortality rate for AFSW isn't _that_ high. It's higher than the general pop of AF people but that's because AF has a lower death rate than general population (due to age/fitness requirements).
Also standard of living is pretty high. It's def different than being a SEAL or Army SF.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 05:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Air Force Special Operations is pretty soft compared to army or marines combat arms. They see less action than the average infantryman. Your friend is a boot.
[deleted] · 101 points · Posted at 18:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some kids are signing up because they simply have no other option. College is expensive, and they can't afford it. When our country says "hey, join our military and we'll pay for your college!", they have no other choice. Pair that with an aggressive recruitment program and suddenly there are a lot of high school kids willing to lay their life down for the chance that their college may be payed for
Not to mention the different recruitment styles for well-off and disadvantaged areas. A lot of it is very much either "you had military parents and they want you to join, too!" "you're young and invincible and should support your country" "your family is too poor to feed you and you want to take care of them? we'll send you to school"
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 21:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah recruitment officers are pieces of shit that will say whatever the prospect wants to hear to get them to sign on the dotted line. I had friend who wanted to go into the military (I tried to talk him out of it for 2 years) and the recruiter still fucking lied to him about everything. He didn't take care of things he wanted to because he was told he could do it after he entered the Marines (like get his driver's license, for instance.) My friend told me "if I ever see my recruitment officer in public, I am going to kick the shit out of him!"
I do thing some recruitment officers are just as bought into it as their targets, but I'm sure plenty of them are less than ideal people. I hope that your friend has his essentials and a more stable life now!
Did he have trouble getting a drivers license afterward?
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 02:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't remember. I think he had to do it on his own time. He was just pissed because he would have just done it before he had to report for bootcamp had he known. The end of that story is that he visited me two years later and I asked him if he was going to reenlist after his 4 years were up (he had previously said that he wanted to be military as a his career.) He said "Fuck no!" I asked when did he know he had made a mistake. He said his first day of bootcamp. I had previously tried to talk him out of going into the military because he had like a 4.5 GPA with AP classes and could have gone to any college he wanted. I tried to convince him to go to college and join ROTC so he could go in as an officer. He said that the military respected guys who enlisted and worked their way from the ground up more than guys that came in from college (I suspect that it was his recruiter that planted this little seed.) He really just wanted to get away from his parents. I told him he could do that by going to school away from home. He didn't need to enlist. He was stubborn and didn't give in. He was great guy and one of my best friends. And the military changed him for the worse. He was a straight edge guy who didn't curse, drink, smoke or do drugs. He came out of the military doing all these things. In, fact he was dishonorably discharged (not the super bad one but one of the lesser ones) because he had coke in his system after weekend leave. His entire unit (I don't remember what the name for this group was, platoon?) went out were all doing coke the whole weekend and they had a surprise drug test on Monday. He was the only one who tested positive in his entire unit. He even lost out on all the amazing benefits you get from serving in the military. I heard he's doing good now and has a kid. So I guess it was all chalked up to life experience. I personally blame his parents for being so uptight and restrictive. He was never allowed to do anything and when he finally got into the world he went a little crazy. He was a great guy. And I am sure he still is. Just fell in with the wrong crowd at the wrong time. I really regret not writing to him when he left for the military. I didn't realize how important mail is to guys in the service. If I had I would have written to him. Thanks for letting me vent.
Not at all, thank you for your story. My brother enlisted under similar motivations. He does seem to be doing better than your friend at the moment, but I do worry about him
everyone has their reasons, and I think they're all valid in their own way.
Fig1024 · 15 points · Posted at 21:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going off to kill Muslims half way across the globe isn't really "helping the country"
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 21:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not marketed as that so most don't really look at it that way. I don't agree with any of it, but most sane people aren't joining just to kill people. Or so I'm assuming.
I used to know a former Marine who lived in my apartment complex. He was mostly a nice enough guy when he was sober but when he got drunk, he loved retelling stories from the war (can't remember if he was in Iraq or Afghanistan but I think it was Afghanistan). Once night he had us over, he got suuuper drunk and told us he joined the Marines because he wanted to legally kill people.
Going through Boot Camp is uncomfortable when you're just doing it for a stable life and everyone around you is like "Hell yeah, slay bodies!"
A lot of them genuinely think war is like a video game and don't actually weigh the thought of killing people that much.
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Yeah I've heard about people like that. It's definitely messed up and people like that shouldn't be anywhere near a gun. Human beings are complex. We all have things we want to accomplish, people who care about or who care about us. Why the hell would anyone just enjoy destroying all that? They need professional help. I'm lucky to have never experienced people like that but I've heard of how utterly evil and messed up people can be and it's sickening and scary. Makes me not even want to step outside.
Doesn’t matter whether you personally kill people or not. You’re actively making the choice to support the war machine that sees thousands of people like you and me dead.
I know this is late but I just wanted to say I joined because I was 18 and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life and I hated school. I went to college for a semester and within two weeks I decided "nah fuck this I'm joining the military". Plus I wanted to travel.
Luckily I didn't pick a stupid ass job that doesn't translate well in the civilian world (a friend of my wife's family was security forces in military and now he's working at Wendy's). I've been blessed af since I got out and haven't really had to work hard in years and make good pay (imo). Haven't even gone to college yet though I will start soon.
I know I'm rambling but that's my perspective. There was no propaganda about it.
Same here. I tried the college experience and working, yet I realized that I just wanted a different accomplishment. Joined the Marines, went comm (didn't have to kill Muslims), got a TS and now I am not only retired before 41 I can enjoy a great career and have a beautiful family. I am am fortunate for my experience and would definitely do it again.
Not really, very few join for patriotic reasons. Most join for honestly many different and varied reasons, all that are fairly valid and understandable. Travel, post-military benefits, not knowing what to do after HS, family, wanting a close knit foster family sort of, etc. I don’t support the war we (the US) are in, but I do support my military and the choice to join it. There are many actually good things they do for our country that isn’t killing. Thinking otherwise is easily just as much propaganda in of itself.
A mixture of propaganda, lack of opportunities or other prospects, enticing incentives, and an adolescent feeling of invincibility.
Not that all do for those reasons, but the stereotypes are so common. r/justbootthings is a treasure trove.
Also, there's probably a fundamental misunderstanding of what active duty life is like; the recruitment ads and the like don't exactly want to show potential recruits what life is actually like.
Def gunna check out that subreddit... simply by the name alone I can imagine I'm in for a treat! Thanks bro.
Aside from that, your answer provided the most realistic probabilities thus far. But still with all that being said, the amount of jobs there are where the biggest deployment worry is not being first in the chow line opposed to kicking a door down and seeing who the fuck knows on the other side just made choosing to be an 11bang.
obviously, you have the low scoring, mouth breathing knuckle draggers that only scored high enough on the asvab to have the opportunity to be a highly trained meat shield... but alot, are actually Pretty smart dudes. My GT score was 118... far from perfect but good enough for pretty much any job I wanted. I dunno, crazy tho
That's why they get them right out of high school.
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It’s definitely an odd experience
rcas_ · 6 points · Posted at 01:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that's the thing right. It's a fine line. I don't think one should feel like military service is just a means to be debt free. Say you were actually deployed to a zone with high levels of danger. Risking your life to be debt free seems so wrong. If you want to be in the military that's one thing. As for maturity that another poster mentioned, I don't see the difference when I'm recruiting. Engineering specifically, you are already motivated a disciplined enough due to the nature of the course work. So by the time you are the office, let's just say I've never worked with or interviewed a new grad who wasn't professional.
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rcas_ · 2 points · Posted at 03:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems like you had an overall positive experience so I'm happy for you. Friend of a friend also greatly benefitted from all the experience they got from the navy so I know it's definitely possible to come out OK. I guess back to the main topic of this thread, I guess I just don't understand the concept of having to do military service to be debt free. There has to be a better way to put people in college. I know people say well "just get good grades" or "play sports" or "work through college". These are all legitimate solutions but none solve the actual problem of having to go through some extraordinary circumstance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a totally different argument, though. It sucks that college is so expensive, but there’s a lot that goes into that problem.
My sister's ex bf joined to get health insurance to pay for him and his side chick's baby
Irketk · 7 points · Posted at 03:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tricare is legit. I’m 29, Each of my four kids only costed me out of pocket $19-23 each. Included all checkups, ultrasounds, delivery drugs and after birth check ups.
Never would have been able to afford my awesome little spawns otherwise.
I signed as an 11B with an option 40 (Ranger) before I was done with high school. I had always wanted to do it, I thought it was a super cool thing to do. All my heroes had been in the service and so that's what I did. 9/11 happened when I was in elementary school and that forsure played a part in it. Over all it was a wild ride and definitely a thrill. I got to do all the "cool guy" stuff I wanted to pretty much. I also couldnt think of anything else I could do after school that would be as much fun as the military seemed. Sure stressful and stuff, but some people live for that.
Crossing out the people that must do it for education or to escape poverty, young people want a combination of discipline and a higher purpose.
The problem is they don't realise how hollow that purpose can be.
It's much easier to be given a purpose than to create one for oneself.
This extends to any life consuming undertaking.
isnoe · 8 points · Posted at 22:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. What I never understood was why every single one said “I joined because I wanted to legally commit murder” and after taking care of these kids, and seeing just how emotionally impulsive and irresponsible they really are, kind of made me feel bad. They’re trying to be cool, and it was a serious, dangerous job.
Well then, hello there you fellow big dicked, blue corded, body stacker. Haha, yeah I've had privates like that before too. Usually prior gangbangers and/or just general shitbags completely ignorant to what fireman carrying your dying buddy back to the CCP feels like...they, like you said, just wanted to kill people. Or atleast that's what they THOUGHT they wanted. Everyone is "basically infantry," till it's time to do some real grunt shit.
Also, i took your "same here" as you were or are also an 11 series and not as you just also didnt understand the same thing. So I apologize if the first part of my response got taken as anything differently then a "what's up my brother" vibe
Pssh not me. I was over the infantry thing halfway through MCT. I see grunts sometimes when we were apart of exercises with them and I just look and go I hate my life but at least I'm not hating it with 80 pounds on my back. Fuck that. Also glad that I would have done 4 years of infantry and not used my training once since we haven't gone into any war. My body is already fucked couldn't imagine making it worse for literally nothing.
Haha ya, you know what you're talkin about. I can definitely tell that. Also, for a POG, you seem aight lol I was always so jelly...we would be getting back from doing like a 16 mile ruck in full kit, straight suckin dicks for beer money for pt, and walk past all the pogs mostly just bullshitting while half assing some "circuit exercise". Lol people like you... I swear. Lol jk. Naw you actually seem pretty down, for a pog atleast 🤣😉
Shittt, I may be a POG. In fact, the biggest POG. I'm in the wing. We don't go to the field and live terribly, but I'm no stranger to shitty situations. Being a maintainer working 12 hours a day having to get off and PT outside of work to make the fitness standards. You're left with a few hours a day to yourself just to get up and do it all over again the next day. Then you see all the admin papper pushers roll in 2 hours after you, take 2 hour chows while you have to scarf down your meal in 20 minutes to get back to work, and then they leave before you too? The hate grows for them. But again, I'm still glad I'm not hiking through the desert or pulling weapons at 03 for a 08 step off that gets pushed to 11 because of some BS reason. I almost feel sorry for you guys until one of you yell at me and say, "fucking pog" and it snaps me back to reality and I think nah fuck em.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the search for meaning and to be a part of something. That's all.
I can agree. The whole waking up with a purpose everyday was one of my original reasons for joining. Little did I know, that purpose was weather I liked it or not...at ANY time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Haha, young, dumb and full of cum I suppose
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You can say I’ve been brainwashed, drank the kool-aid, watched too much propaganda etc idc. My mom and dad grew up with nothing, they were dirt poor. I grew up upper middle class, my dad was the first in his family to college, I’ve never known poverty. That is all thanks to the army. I grew up around soldiers, the army is home to me. I feel like I do owe it something after everything it’s provided to me.
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There’s partly the fact that many don’t care for the college life. Like at all, I joined and thought for a second about what I’d be missing and thought “oh yeah, I don’t give a fuck about all that.”
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was heavily considering joining just to pay for college. My parental guardians talked me out of it, and I’m so glad they did. I think I’d rather try to figure out how to pay off student loans on my own then to have the military tell me what to do with my life for 4+ years
o11c · 5 points · Posted at 21:18:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people do it to put for college. I for one am always blown away by people who go to college and then join the military. It’s like a missed opportunity.
Just before I graduated high school, I had recruiters calling and coming to the door(I think I agreed to the house call over the phone just to get him to leave me alone, but when he showed up, I ignored the door). I don’t know if those guys get bonuses for everyone they get to sign up, but they seem pretty motivated. And they’re showing up right when people suddenly are unsure of their future and are expected to “grow up”, offering them a way to do it that might make them “heroes” and pay for training and education. It sounds good, but I doubt the recruitment presentation comes with footage of real combat to give the whole picture.
For those about to yell at me, it’s not all bad. For some it probably seems like (and might be) their best shot for a career and to start their life, and I won’t fault people for feeling they have a patriotic duty; we do need a standing, capable army. It just seems like they do recruit too young, and at a time that makes it seem predatory. Maybe flip it, pay for their education before they go into combat and if they suddenly change their minds, they have to pay it all back. At the very least they get to live a few more years before possibly dying. And if anyone says, “but then the money to educate them might be a waste if they get killed, “ that person is a realist, but also an asshole.
11B here, Deployed to Afghanistan when I was 18 then again at 20. Most of us young door kickers are from blue collar rural/inner city families. Not a ton of opportunities right out of HS. Plus the post 911 GI bill is a pretty good deal. I personally wanted to challenge myself and serve. There are many reasons to join young, its honestly not a bad gig at all. But not gonna lie, being infantry sucks and is incredibly taxing to your body and mind. No job can ever compare, it matured me, paid for college, free healthcare and I made many life long friends. I wouldn't change a thing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly they need to raise the age you can join to 21. Your frontal lobe hasn’t even finished developing at 18. And the fact that the military takes advantage of young dumb kids, going as far as coming to high schools to recruit, is fucking despicable.
HW-BTW · 2 points · Posted at 01:02:35 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet we should open voting to16-year-olds
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand their frustration at not being heard. Especially as decisions that are being made will affect them. I was extremely frustrated with the 2008 election as it happened only a few months before I turned 18.
HW-BTW · 1 points · Posted at 15:12:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you can say the exact thing about 12 year olds. So, should we lower the voting age to 12? If not, then why not?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:16:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said I agreed with lowering the voting age, only that I understand how they must feel. I'm sure there's good points on both sides but I personally don't get involved with debating opinions, it's exhausting.
4QM8 · 2 points · Posted at 16:19:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll never understand how any of you assholes want to pick up a gun and shoot brown people that did nothing to you. As a Canadian, I look at Americans in the military with absolute disgust. It's such a shameful job, and yet, most of you seem act as if it makes you better than the average person. It's the exact opposite. You cause pain and suffering for profit. Shame.
Well then, that's okay...were all entitled to our own opinions. But know that YOUR countries army are amongst a handful of other. Actions armys that I've literally conducted drills with...and they too have troops deployed rn on a small scale. So it's not just americans my friend. Have a wonderful easter tho and remember those who cant be at home with their families so YOU can be.
Have you never talked to a recruiter? They talk like almost dying everyday is the best shit in the world. Recruiting also appeals to poorer people a lot as a potential option to escape poverty because of sign-on bonuses and promised salaries and potential upward movement. Recruiters also take advantage of the fact that college is ridiculously expensive and say they'll pay for you to go to college. I know that one isn't what you're talking about, but it works, too. There are also all the commercials the military puts out about how you're part of a team and everything is hunky dory with your brothers. Then there are the countless war movies that glorify the hell out of violence and most of them show the "bad guys" dying and the "good guys" coming out fine. Essentially, a lot of young people join because it's like a fantasy for them. I mean no disrespect, but my opinion of the way America does things has really grown sour because of the atrocities I see and read about and the way so many veterans are on the street rather than safe at home.
Obviously I've talked to a recruiter before... lol
AND my recruiter was an 11B. I hear my fair share of horror stories with recruiters and recruits, but mine was pretty honest. I told him what I wanted to do and after he saw my scores tried to almost talk me in a different direction. I guess I was just lucky.
I agree with the whole fantasy complex people think it will fill. You always hear crazy stories and see it in video games and shit. You always have the "this is gunna be just like call of duty" privates that get the biggest reality check of their lives once they get to fort Benning...and again the first time they take contact down range. Meh, who knows tho
I kinda figured it went without saying that it was a rhetorical question.
But I'm glad you had a recruiter that didn't sugarcoat things. I think that's really important and could help save a lot of people from making the wrong choice, whatever that choice may be.
I figured as much, i was more or less just being a prick. Anyways, you're totally right...you can always tell when a new dick shows up to the unit with a complete "my recruiter lied to me" look and vibe to them. It's a damn shame...but it's super simple, in your standard infantry plt., if you arent an asset, you're automatically a liability. Especially in a gun fight. Unlike if he decided to be a fueler or something; his ability to fuel vics generally wont get himself or anyone else killed...but as a bravo, the inability to perform your job has the potential of filling bodybags and windowing loved ones.
.. ALL because pvt Lambson played COD 18 hours a day and didnt think seeing a real human through an optic would feel any different then seeing a computer generated one. Long story short, we hit an IED and got blown up...were also taking small arms fire AND trying to pull wounded out of the haul of a Stryker. It was fucking wild, and this kid tells his squad leader that he "just cant take it anymore, and didnt want to kill anyone so he shot over the enemies heads." ...while were literally in the middle of getting ambushed...this kid (whom is being shot at with full intentions of killing him), returned fire with zero intentions of hurting the same people that just killed one of his platoon mates.
So yeah, recruiters lying so they can check a box at the end of the day have much more of an impact then some people realize. It's sad as fuck
That's a bad time to have a crisis. Even so, a better man would have realized that it's not always about him. Regardless of how he felt, more lives than his were on the line. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Hopefully, bad recruiters are rare and most people have a better understanding of what they're getting into that doesn't end up costing lives.
Yup, the typical " hometown hero." Wears his uniform every chance he gets including at the airport and on leave. Pops a boner every time someone thanks him for his service... it's like that where I'm from too lol
tyrico · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because kids that age still don't have a fully developed prefrontal cortex and they can't fully process the implications of their actions
From what little bit I know about this sort of thing... I had a friend who explained it this way: the smart and motivated kids go to college. The not as smart kids but motivated go to trade school. The ones who don't have any plans and not too much in the brain department join the military. Obviously that's not going to be remotely always the case, but it made sense to me.
Some teens might not have a home to go back to. Or a terrible one to go back to. And while the military is dangerous, it really is basically a family for a lot of people, which is often worth the danger. There are also aspects of it that are positive, such as traveling the world (theoretically) and sects of the military that do actually do good, humanitarian things. They likely understand the risks and accept it, just as you do. Which imo is amazingly brave, and I could never do it.
my buddy joined the military at 18 because he had no money and no way to support himself/get out of his parents house and it was the clearest option he could see. I don't think he's happy with his choice.
It’s because the military dangles the promise of a better life in front of them. If you’re from bumfuck nowhere and living in relative poverty, the military is often the only way out. And that’s on purpose.
Not to mention that male citizenship in the United States is legitimately tied to military service. Even if you aren’t conscripted and likely never will be.
The military is so innately engrained in American culture that some people will react violent when you criticize it in any way (and there is A LOT to criticize about the United States military). The military entertainment industrial complex is real and it’s a powerful marketing tool.
From my current job, I learned you can be 17 when joining the military... I get that some states have 16 as the age of consent, but California is 18... so to be allowed to kill and give your life in service when it's still illegal for you to have sex and drink alcohilalcoho.. like
Camaraderie I think was my biggest drive. Grew up in a pretty blue area so I didn't have a lot of people like me, needed some buddies that were more my speed.
I don't get why anyone would want to become a soldier either. Seems like even in the best case scenario you're getting bullied, tortured or bored every day. Then there's the chance of, y'know, death.
I understand. We all have different reasons and justifications to what made us join in the first place. 95 percent of the time its fucking miserable and you're doing something fucking stupid...but the other 5 percent of times, without a doubt, make it all worthwhile. And it all lends to personal growth and lessons learned that I wouldnt trade for anything and would do all over again if necessary
Plus the brotherhood of the infantry is unlike any other relationship you will experience.
I have friends today that would drop everything they're doing and come help me if I'm in trouble, anywhere in the country. I can't say that for a single one of my civilian friends. The friends, the experiences and the personal growth are all worth it, in exchange for a busted body and a little ptsd, right?
Haha I know exactly what you're describing. There are the ones that just come and go...but theres a handful of those people who will stay with you for a lifetime.
I joined at 17 to escape a shitty home life. College didn’t seem like an option at the time because my dad made a lot of money and said he would not pay for college. Finding a job was super hard in my area at the time without a car. I felt helpless and in over my head because I didn’t want to hustle all alone. So off I went to the army.
Relations with a friend/girlfriend. I communicate well just with friends and other people who surround me. But I do not understand what to do when you need to build relationships.
I see my boyfriend as a sort of secondary best friend. I'll tell him absolutely anything that I'd tell my best friend, and go out and do anything that I normally would with any other friends. The only real difference is that at the end of the day we go back to the same house and have dinner together. Then we both go to our computers and happily ignore eachother while we immerse ourselves in gaming for the remainder of the night because we're terrible adults.
EDIT: Mandatory thank you kind stranger for the award <3
LOSMSKL · 68 points · Posted at 19:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting here took a few nightmares. But every "wrong" person could at least teach me what I was looking for in the "right" one! A lot of it also just comes down to me being comfortable and care free too, if you are in a relationship go ahead and treat your partner like a friend and tell them all the weird stuff! Just don't forget about the special relationship stuff too :)
(I use wrong and right loosely, wrong for me in no way makes a person wrong/bad. They're still great people even though we didn't fit together)
This is so true. My boyfriend is 27 and tonight he bought a toy marble track to recreate the Marblympics, and of course we both absolutely loved it and then complained about having to clean up afterwards haha
I feel lucky every day to have a relationship like this!
I've had less fantastic relationships before and I'm just as grateful for them for teaching me about the things that I do/don't want. I'd like to think that everyone could find the perfect person for them given enough time :)
Getting married (if you're marrying someone you ought to be marrying) is like having a sleepover with your best friend every day for the rest of your lives, with the convenience of everything you both own being in the same house.
I have to admit, he had it pretty easy. We work in the same place and I've been friends with his brother for a really long time. So one day I basically just told him that I was going to date him and he just had to accept that haha. I get that most people don't do that though so as far as normal people go I can't help you xD
Relationships are just really good friendships in which you also shag each other.
90% of my interactions with my significant other are interactions I could feasibly have with my best friend.
Establish that you have some form of romantic interest (For instance by asking the person out on a date) and then just treat them like you'd treat a good friend, with perhaps an added dose of sexual undertones.
My partner and I knew each other all through middle school and highschool and we were best friends throughout. We just clicked instantly, like we somehow knew each other our whole lives. Sometimes you just know they're the one. I know it sounds cheesy but we both acknowledge that we had feelings for each other pretty much upon meeting. After nearly seven years of friendship we finally started dating last year and my partner is still my best friend, just very much closer than before. Don't try to force a relationship, because it'll happen naturally when you make connections with people.
Haha honestly it was terrible waiting for that long, but I have an ungodly amount of patience. It was indeed 7 years, but neither of us knew if we were attracted to the other, and we were terrified of ruining our amazing friendship. It's funny in hindsight how scared we were when nothing has changed, other than the intimacy.
I'm in my first year of Uni so unfortunately, it doesn't change after school for everyone. The ability to make female friends just means thats all you know how to do so you can never go any further
250kcal · 11 points · Posted at 19:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you become friends with a girl first then try to steer the relationship towards romance? Basically when you establish yourself as a friend first you put yourself in that box in their head and they view you onlt as a friend.
If you want to date a girl thats how you should approach the initial interaction, you have to let her know what you actually want.
Coming from a woman, I agree 100%. I always tell guys this. If you wanna date me or whatever, if you come to me with a sexual or romantic oriented view, don't fake a friendship with me, it's really offensive. Just become my friend if actually you want a friendship. If you want the other thing, come to me and try to talk to me or flirt with me, or just get to know me but maximum in 2 weeks you need to try something physical with me, try to kiss or something. If she doesn't respond, then she doesn't like you and you go back and leave. And it's pretty easy. If you fall for a girl and you're waiting 1 year, your love for her will increase to a 100%, but her feelings probably won't if she didn't like you in the first place. So, it's easier to have things clear. Go for it. And if she says no, it's fine, it's better than expecting her response for a lot of time. Just move on and go for another one. I as a girl, when I like a boy, I can't be friends with him, maximum two weeks. If he doesn't try anything physical I move on because I assume he doesn't like me. And that's it.
The issue here is that, at least for me, feelings don't come for strangers (or, at least only in very rare cases). They often start to develop after the friendship os established. My suggestion? Wait to she doesn't have a bf/gf and then tell her.
And I actually also, as a girl, disagree with you. I would find it kind of wierd to date a stranger. If you get feelings for me, tell me. But I would like to get to know you first. I've so far only dated people who I first where pretty close with, and I can recommend it. That means there is something else than only chemestry and that we might actually be able to make a relationship work.
On the other hand, if you are just interested in hugging up, just make it clear from the beginning. And I agree that regarding hook-ups or cassual dating, you should start out making it clear. But for anything deeper than that, I know that I wouldn't even consider it Unless I knew you first.
But this just shows how different people are. Which does not make it easier to figure out what others want. And if you have feelings for a friend, tell her. That might even get you out of the box she has place you in, and she might start seeing you in another way. I know at least some persons where this has worked. But it might also not. But at least you would have it off your chest
Agreed, attraction works differently for everybody. I've had plenty of crushes but only fallen in love twice, and I actually wasn't romantically interested in either of them initially. Not saying that that'll always be the case for me, but it's very possible for strictly platonic feelings to develop into something more.
I had a whole thing typed out, but I think the easiest way to put it is that as you get a little older friendships matter less. Being friends with women and being a good partner are different beasts entirely, but once you do have a partner being able to be a good friend helps.
I get along great with guys usually, but it's really complicated for me to get a boyfriend. And also, personally, I don't take a boyfriend as a beat friend. I think that's wrong. For me a boyfriend is something much more serious. I wouldn't tell my boyfriend the things I tell a friend. For example emotional stuff. I don't know I have a different concept. I would never trust a boyfriend the way I trust my friends. Because trusting a person just because of the sexual, emotional Attraction you have for someone is not a great combo.
Well yeah, if you get into a relationships based strictly on attraction because friendship is like a dealbreaker you’re never gonna trust yourself to date someone you should trust, lol. That’s just the plot of Trainwreck.
Hm, I would definitly say it takes time to build up a relationship where there is this kind of trust. I'm not good at it either. But the trust is there, it is amazing having someone you trust and that you know have your back - no matter what. But it takes time, and it requrieres a SO that you trust and can become friends with, not just someone you are in love with. I think that's one of the main differences between being in love and loving someone.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when you need to? hmmm. what about when you want to?
Your partner should be your best friend, just find someone that you love spending time with and don’t worry about anything else.
Then once you’re comfortable, you get to bone them.
My partner is my best friend that I sleep with. I have more joint responsibilities with them than I do with other friends. Other than that, it's pretty much the same, and it's awesome.
Zisx · 4 points · Posted at 21:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Similar boat here, but feels super weird being in a relationship (been in 3, none longer than like 5 months). Logic goes out the window a lot (especially as a guy dating a woman) / have to walk on eggshells in a sense. Personal space is a thing of the past. So many expectations, less money, free time (and real life is not a rom-com movie, everyone has bad days, you will be exposed to their faults, baggage, messy past, obnoxious or boring friends, parents, wants/ desires, and you're suppose to be Prince Charming who was allegedly created to slay (&/or coexist with) all her dragons lmao-- all the while of course have to accept her for how she is & stay perfectly manly/ showing no vulnerabilities and staying selfless, because apparently pussy is the greatest and pussy rules the world...
I mean it's not all bad, just not for everyone and not everyone is for everyone.
Must be that lots of people don't know how to enjoy their own company/ grow their own interests or fight isolation (and thus most people are willing to compromise their lives away to make a seemingly good relationship work?) but idk to each their own
Putting waterproof hard-to-peel stickers on a cups, plates, and kitchenware. I have a colander that has a sticker on the inside on the very bottom. It covers almost all the holes at the bottom. I try to peel it off and it refuses and tears. I try to get it off with water and it still won’t come off. So now I’ve got a colander I can’t really use all because someone thought “hey! Instead of putting this sticker on the outside packaging of this colander, let’s put it smack in the middle of the inside! And let’s make it a really tough sticker that’s water resistant!”
Edit: I appreciate all the advice. I’ll definitely try all your suggestions! Yay!
Stainless steel from Amazon? I had to use WD40 to get mine off. Then I refused to use it for like ten washes because I was convinced there was oily residue. (There wasn’t really, tbh).
Use cooking oil and let it sit, since it’s food-safe.
For other things that don’t touch food, baby oil is great.
I used to buy a lot of things at auctions, and the stickers the auctioneer used were terrible. Selling a beautiful antique table? Slap a permanent sticker on that baby first! I’ve tried goo gone etc, and goo gone isn’t bad but so many suggestions here we’ll ruin the finish on furniture. Just use light-colored oil.
Well, ASMR is actually a feeling that videos are designed to induce, not the videos themselves. If you don't experience it, I can see how a lot of the videos would just make people uncomfortable. Even among people who get tingles, there's a huge amount of variance in what triggers it - I find a lot of personal attention videos creepy, but some people love them because they're triggered by that content.
Tbh, a big problem with the whole thing is that a lot of people watch videos labeled ASMR just because it relaxes them (or in the case of the sexual ones, because it's basically soft porn) and there's nothing wrong with that, but it has led to a lot of confusion about what ASMR actually is.
Even among people who get tingles, there's a huge amount of variance in what triggers it
Exactly. And even the same thing that could give you the sensation at one point can have no effect a few days later.
And there are also certain "genres" that really creep me out or are gross to me that I wouldn't watch or listen to even if it gave me the sensation, just because I don't like the content itself.
I guess ASMR the sensation is a thing I don't understand.
And there are also certain "genres" that really creep me out or are gross to me that I wouldn't watch or listen to even if it gave me the sensation, just because I don't like the content itself.
See, that's interesting to me, because for me, being uncomfortable automatically means no tingles. It's like I have to be open to feeling that way, I guess, maybe because it's kind of a vulnerable state for me with the level of relaxation it causes.
I have no idea if I share that same trait, since I wouldn't watch or listen to ASMR content if it's going to make me uncomfortable. Maybe I would still get tingles, I just don't care to find out. Because why would I?
I think you would know, I could be wrong, but when ASMR started to be discussed on YouTube, most of the comments were everyone saying "As a kid X would cause this tingly feeling and I always wondered what it was!" so everyone already knew they experienced it.
For me it was people talking over microphones in school assembly, especially with an accent, and young me was sitting there relaxed as all hell and enjoying every minute of the boring assembly.
The feeling is akin to those metal spider looking things people use for scalp massages.
Yeah, sure. I have some examples of ASMR in my youth. But that doesn't mean there isn't more that triggers it. I've found out about a bunch of things that trigger it for me over the course of years, but I don't care to find out if the uncomfortable stuff will do it for me is what I'm getting at.
I wouldn't consider that to be ASMR, because part of the widely agreed upon definition is that the tingles feel good. If they don't, it's something else - like maybe misophonia.
I personally hate the whispering stuff. Mouth sounds are just...ew. That's gross, not comforting. BUT quiet conversations in languages i don't understand always gets me. So do chalkboards. No idea why.
You might also be experiencing frisson, which is similar to and often confused with ASMR, but tends to result from music. I think, totally anecdotally, that frisson is more common, or at least more people know what you mean when you mention the sensation. Do you feel it more on your arms (like goosebumps) or your scalp (like tingling/chills)?
It’s like bliss. Sometimes it makes me cry. It’s like tingling chills from my head all the way down my spine. I am a music addict because of it, that high I get when I find a good new song that can hit me right where it feel amazing is, well, amazing. So whatever that is lol. Oh just realized I’m on my alt account, how’d that happen
That's super interesting! That could honestly be either - I tend to feel more euphoric from frisson and more deeply (like drooling on my desk) relaxed from ASMR, but I would imagine people experience both in different ways.
Okaaaaayyyyy.... I’ve not really had any idea what asmr is so I did a little googling. I just listened to 3 minutes of this video with my eyes closed and I don’t know about tingling sensations, but, I literally grinned like a crazy person the entire time because I was So. Frickin’. Happy!! I don’t get it. But I like it.
It's hard to explain to someone who don't have this "asmr feel". When i was a kid I often had this nice feeling at the top of my skull, like a soft touch kinda. Could happen when I had a haircut, or with some peoples over the phone, pretty random. The thing is, nobody around me had this so I was just this weird kid who was telling things like "hey this voice is so relaxing, I love the tingles in my head !". Fast forward many years, youtube is getting started. And I start to notice that certains videos give me this feels, but also some peoples in the comment have them too ! Soon there were messages boards where we've put the links of videos that "worked" for us. None of them were ASMR videos by design (mostly people having haircut, peoples talking about something they are passionate about, or someone working on a craft). It took a while again but finally here we are, youtubers making ASMR specific videos. I'm sure most of the views are due to peoples looking for a kind a proximity, or because the youtuber is attractive...But it's made for the few that have this ASMR feel.
Edit : maybe 1 in 25 ASMR youtubers make me have this feeling.
I never knew there was a word for this feeling. When I was a kid, I remember getting this feeling when someone would borrow my things? Like a pencil or something. It was tingly at the top of my head and would spread down in the manner of an egg being cracked on my head.
I watch asmr but not usually the roleplays with talking, I just like the sounds. Some of them are really weird but it helps me sleep to hear really quiet sounds, it just feels relaxing. If you want to see some high quality asmr without talking or cringe I would recommend ASMRsurge
Me too! I had to download Instagram again recently because it’s the best source for collecting videos. Quarantine free time I recently rediscovered it again since about a year ago when I first got into it. It’s gotten very popular now and lots of niches.
I can’t STAND the whispering or talking at all. It feels like when somebody jokingly comes up from behind you and tries to scare you. Especially when you’re scrolling through a few and a whisperer comes out of no where.
I like a few categories of the non speaking or eating, but I found that when I’m stressed I always gravitate to the soap cutting.
Oh, it just stimulates certain parts of our brain. Some find it nice, for some it will be over stimulation so it will feel unpleasant. It's like massage of the scalp with this weird metal thing, you know what I mean? Many people find it pleasant, I get goosebumps and feel awful. It's the same but for our brains.
There was a trend for a while there where YouTubers or Twitch Streamers I enjoyed would do "ASMR" in the middle of their videos (opening a bottle, crunching on a chip, etc.) and it drove me nuts. No, I don't want a quick "ASMR moment", it's weird.
I don't listen to ASMR too, but I think I can explain.
It gives you that feeling, in the back of your head (at least that's what it was initially for), you've probably experienced it at least once. You just have to find your own trigger.
I personally don't like the whispering kind of ASMR too. The only way I can get this feeling is when the ASMR is unintentional, and it also works with the soap carving videos.
I only like sound ASMR but the ones with speaking and whispering really slow that you hear all the sounds of their mouths is quite disturbing to me. I hate it. There was this video of a girl on ASMR and was literally licking the microphone and the camera angle was in a point that it looked like if she was doing a blowjob lol
I listen to ASMR every night. I totally understand why people wouldn’t like it. I love it but my sister hates it. I also really like the creepy ones where it feels like people are up on you but I also know people who hate those videos and like the ones with just sounds.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I feel like that’s the other end of it as well though, but so far the understanding seems to be just focused on the tingling feeling. But it’s like your sense of hearing is sensitive and tied to your sense of touch more than for typical people.
Like I hate whispering videos, I can’t even try them for a second. I also have always hated when people try to whisper and tell you a secret, I even hated whispering myself, it feels like cotton balls in my ears. But of course I like whispering in intimate settings, because I’m receptive to having someone else triggering physical sensations to my body in that setting.
So whispering asmr videos feel creepy to me like if a stranger was talking to you and then suddenly caressed your face. A caress is gentle touching, but your alarm system would be going off so it’d feel out of place and creepy.
There’s a bunch of videos that also make my ears itch, it’s hard to filter out the crap videos.
I’m pretty sure I depends how you’re wired. People who get chills in their body when someone is, say, touching their hair or tracing something on their back are the same people who experience what asmr is and watch videos to get that same reaction. Good chills btw, not like you’re cold or creeped out. It helps with sleeping a lot
I’m a big fan of ASMR, and it’s usually the soft noises of objects that I enjoy. I first realized this feeling when I was in my late teens, and I was at the desk of a bank teller. I remember looking at her hands as she tapped away on the keyboard and remember feeling a strange tingling sensation on my scalp, like the low dose of pins and needles on a foot that is asleep. She apologized for taking so long and I remember thinking “take your time, I could literally sit here all day.”
Funny you say soft noises, because I was recently binging a bunch on Instagram and collecting the good ones. It seems to have gotten very popular since I last used to watch them, so now people who obviously don’t understand make videos. You can tell which ones are people who don’t get it, but want to join in. They end up sounding like a 5 year old banging on a drum set.
I like ASMR because it helps me sleep for the most part. I also get stressed out over the dumbest things so watching an ASMR video can be very relaxing to me. I understand that it’s not everyones cup of tea though.
As someone who listens to ASMR videos I understand that. There are a lot of videos that I won't watch for the same reason. Whispering I find weird but other sounds, like sand cutting, is relaxing. Or using a towel to simulate the sounds of waves is amazing
I NEED to understand this feeling .. I’ve never heard of this and now want to experience it! I’m open to all suggestions, and maybe I have experienced it and never noticed. I don’t know, I just went down the rabbit hole researching this after reading this post.
Best feeling EVER! I’ve actually had a migraine all day and found an ASMR video for migraines while looking around and it worked! I felt the tingling and everything. This may be my new bedtime routine. Migraine is also gone but it could have been a placebo effect. Thank you for replying :)
My favourite is gentlewhispersASMR on youtube, her hair cut video was my first asmr and I was asleep before the ten minute mark
You're welcome for the reply and I'm glad you've found aid for your migraine! They're the worst
I’ve had them since I was in 2nd grade. They were way worse when I was younger but unfortunately I still suffer from them frequently. Thank you I will watch one of those videos tonight !
Could be the tannins. I get migraines too and it's a pretty common trigger. They're in black tea, red wine, chocolate and dark whiskeys and rums, basically all the good stuff!
I have both misophonia AND respond to asmr which is interesting to me. Sounds of eating, slurping, chewing, sipping, or smacking mouth sounds make me want to throw up, hit someone, or scream and run away. But for some reason tapping sounds, light rubbing sounds, and soft speaking make me feel the same level of intensity but in the opposite direction, relaxing me beyond belief and making me sleepy and cozy. As a little kid I called it brain massage due to its similarity of a physical massage relaxing you and feeling physically good...but inside your brain. Think like goosebumps you get from a beautiful song that moves you, but inside your body instead of the outside of your skin.
Also, soft spoken asmr is my favorite thing in the world, but usually whipsering videos make me feel as you described. Something about it feels so contrived and the sharp sibilance of whispering makes me unbelievably uncomfortable. Like porn, usually amateur videos have a more authentic feel to them and tend to work differently than staged videos. I find this entire phenomenon fascinating and could talk about it for hours.
Okay well I guess my understanding was flawed. I assumed getting a negative physical sensation to some sounds was just the other side of the ASMR spectrum. But I guess eating videos wouldn’t be so popular if some people didn’t like it.
Because I also find whispering to be pretty creepy, but it’s not the same automatic overreaction I have to the eating videos. Even seeing the thumbnail of one of those videos makes me grossed out at the thought of it.
I actually think you had it right! It's the other end of the spectrum, but what's fascinating is that everyone experiences these sounds differently. Idk how in the FUCK people enjoy videos with eating sounds, but for some people it's genuinely enjoyable. I think it's creepy and unsettling, like you feel with whispering. But I love soft spoken "personal attention" videos.
So everyone experiences them differently (or just feels neutral about them which is also interesting to me). It's almost like how people enjoy or hate certains tasting foods or smells or color schemes. So interesting to me, especially because it's not well understood at all.
I use it to cope with being alone and loveless. It provides a sense of intimacy I have never experienced in real life. It's nice to have someone/a character who wants to be close to you like that even if it isn't real. It just feels good to not feel totally alone.
Aww I’m sorry you feel lonely. Now I think I understand those types of videos a little more. I guess because I’ve never really liked other people touching me, those videos always felt so invasive to me.
I guess we’re all going to learn a little more about being alone this year. I hope that when we come out of this you’ll find other people that are generally more understanding and more open and willing to connect.
My biggest beef with asmr is the weird sexual undertones. However, there is one that I do follow. No bizarre sexual content or subtext. Just an Indian dude reviewing products. Drinks, snacks, toys, hotels, cell phones, etc. i have an extremely inconsistent sleep schedule and generalized insomnia. His videos seem to help.
I've always had this thing I couldn't explain where if someone whispered in my ear, like kids telling secrets or the game telephone, I always had this like tingling feeling, later I found out that's called asmr, the videos can be weird and a lot of them are just straight up softcore porn but there are also videos of like people pouring soda or crunching up a bag etc.
There's different kinds of asmr. Some of them have no talking at all and it's just people tapping on things or whatever. It's relaxing to me, and somethings just hit different and I get tingles/chills in my back? It's hard to explain, but it's not something that works for everyone.
Aridius · 26 points · Posted at 19:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tingles/chills is called ASMR. That’s the entire point lol
I've heard people describe it as tingles in the back, but I've never experienced that. What I have experienced, and what I believe ASMR to be, is a tingling sensation in my head. I would almost describe it as a pleasant headache.
It really is. The first time I heard that song I felt itchy all over my body...kind of like what happens when you get high off dxm. And I've experienced both. It's really odd how sound can affect the brain
merpes · 12 points · Posted at 19:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Every ASMR noise is like nails on a chalkboard.
Fun fact, that's possibly called misophonia which is basically the opposite of asmr (in a nutshell). I have both misophonia AND respond to asmr which is interesting to me. Sounds of eating, slurping, chewing, sipping, or smacking mouth sounds make me want to throw up, hit someone, or scream and run away. But for some reason tapping sounds, light rubbing sounds, and soft speaking make me feel the same level of intensity but in the opposite direction, relaxing me beyond belief and making me sleepy and cozy. As a little kid I called it brain massage due to its similarity of a physical massage relaxing you and feeling physically good...but inside your brain. Think like goosebumps you get from a beautiful song that moves you, but in your head instead of on your skin.
Then I’ve definitely got misophonia because it angers me beyond belief hearing and seeing people eat with their disgusting mouths open, slurping and smacking...so gross 🤮
I have this! People who don't suffer have no idea how lucky they are. I have had to move on a bus before because someone started smacking on a McDonalds. I was fuming, cos my headphones had died on my way home
Ugh me too. I have yelled at friends over it, had to leave restaurants, and I most certainly WILL NOT watch any of those videos. EVER. You're not alone haha
Orthas · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. It makes me deeply uncomfortable.
-Tom- · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try watching this video of a bartender making a drink in silence. Several points throughout the video the hairs on the back of my neck tingle and stand up.
I don't know why. But it does. None of that whispering stuff does anything for me but this....semi... mechanical? Does. And....AND it's unintentional. This is just supposed to be a video demonstrating how to make this specific drink.
My mom really likes it and I honestly can't stand ASMR. Not because I find it creepy but because im so pissed at how quietly there speaking. Speak the frick up my dudes.
When I watch ASMR videos a sense of extreme rage fills me to the point I have to stop or I am going to crush my phone to the floor. I can't help but feeling this and I tried multiple times with the very same effect.
I’m not one of those “tingles” people, but certain ASMR is a nice way to get me to sleep if I’m struggling. I like a channel called ASMR Surge on YouTube, because he doesn’t talk and just makes noises with things that help my mind wander
Lot of weird shit out there. I don't get tingles. But if my body is really pulling the big, fuck you we aren't sleeping, then ill turn on "asmr singing" its just soft singing. Relaxing is all
Why it's such a taboo to talk about anything sex related. I'm from India. We have a pretty high population, second only to China. It's not like we're shy about doing it,but we HATE talking about it. U say "Sex" anywhere and people look at you like you said "Hail Satan" or something. Teachers are uptight and super scientific and formal about sex education. They actually hold seperate classes for boys and girls. And no talk of menstruation either. It's not a disease it happens to literally every woman on the planet. Women don't report sexual assault because they're blamed for it ,the way they dress etc is called enticing men into doing it. It's a social stigma and nobody would marry you and your family will be shunned. I've honestly never understood any of that
Not only that,in India, particularly North India, parents want a son to "carry on the family name", and help their dads earn more income, because women are supposed to "stay at home, cook,clean,and look pretty",so they'll keep trying until they get a son,and that might take more. If they can't, then the WIFE is blamed for being unable to sire a son and treated horribly by the in-laws
This is mainly in North India,where literacy rates are very low due to unemployment and poverty. They have no proper sex ed and don't know that the sperm decides gender. Technically it's not choosing gender,but no one should be blamed for it. There are cases where wives are divorced cuz they can't "bear sons". One woman protested when her husband stubbed out cigarettes on her daughter's skin on multiple occasions,and one day the man and his own MOTHER dragged her to a room, doused her in petrol,and lit her on fire as punishment. She died 10 days later in hospital and the man was arrested for murder. This is only one case,there may be more. Maybe not all cases are this extreme, but it's sad the way this happens. This is mainly due to a lack of education about sex,and how is that possible when it's taboo?
Exactly. The wage gap is real. Education is denied to young girls. Female foeticide is rampant. This needs to stop. And there are a few fake exaggerated feminists who instead of preaching equality, declare "All men are pigs,trust no one, they'll all use you" . Worst part is media only focuses on such people cuz they're great for ratings.
The "doing things that are good for ratings" is the entire problem. Media and culture are stuck reinforcing outdated norms because that's all the establishment knows. It takes decades for popular opinion to shift, and it's always too late. The same thing has been destroying American politics for years.
[deleted] · -18 points · Posted at 00:58:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the "wage gap" is not real in the sense many people say it is. Don't just throw in that unrelated topic when other people are talking.
It's not unrelated, we're talking sexual equality,and women are paid less than men for the same job. I can vouch for that because my Aunt worked in IT,and she found out the men working with her in the same department were making 30% more than the women. When asked why,they bluntly replied that women aren't smart as men and get less work done so they deserve less pay. The women got together and proved that they did just as much work as the men,so then they said The quality was poorer. She quit and joined another company where she was assured she would get rightful pay. Many many women in India have the same experience.
The inertia of culture is a deadly thing.
Thankfully as we become interconnected on this spaceship Earth, culture gets broken apart and reforms more fluidly. The changes I've seen since being a child are mind-boggling and give me great hope.
I grew up in the Southern U.S. and it was pretty much the same thing. I will never understand how people can blame the victim. Nobody blames the victim of any other crimes like that.
Was just going to say the same thing about the Southern US. So many young women with so much potential who had kids too early and now will continue the cycle of being a poor single mother, while the men who got them pregnant continue to live their lives as if nothing happened. The worst part is that it's seen as completely normal here and if you went to college, didn't have kids before 25, and are outspoken about more sex ed being needed you're the weirdo.
If I had a dollar for each time I heard a parent say "but we're Christian and we don't discuss those things, they should save it for marriage" and my favorite "it's not the school's job to educate my children about sex, I will tell them everything they need to know" while telling them NOTHING, meanwhile their kid is looking at porn on the internet (and when I was a kid, in magazines) and showing it to all their friends...
Oh yeah! I finally moved away and cut most contact because half my family disowned me after finding out I showed my 13 year old son how to put a condom on. Oh I'm sorry I don't want to be a grandparent at 35 like the rest of you.
I studied in co-ed. Not much better. You spend 30 seconds in the general vicinity of a girl, you're dating and teachers gonna come over an lecture you about how dating is ruining the teenagers of the country.
PS: https://youtu.be/ZchI_-atKec Check this out. It's a stand up comedy routine by Sorabh Pant, who is hilarious btw.
Thing is, it tests memory not intelligence. Also, actually due to our large population, the only way to effectively separate out certain classes IS the current education system. The way to reform that must come about and can do so only if the population decreases which is where sex education is needed.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 05:59:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And all that repressed sexuality comes out through usernames, doesn't it? ;)
Most probably true. Especially because ever since Pornography and Porn sites have been banned there has been a sharp noticeable increase in number of rape cases. Probably the only way to relieve frustration lost and leading to such an increase.
India has dismally low standards of protection laws in place for the safety of women. In many Middle East countries,rape is punishable by death,or lifelong incarceration,which probably acts as a deterrent, although it happens. In India, there's a social stigma associated with the VICTIM,who did nothing. Victim shaming is prevalent,her family is shunned,and they are socially ostracized. So most women don't report it,and public outrage only happens when rape is followed by murder. There was even a case where a woman was tortured,her arm and breasts cut off, and hung to death after rape,and the police classified it as "SUICIDE"....by hanging.....with one arm. Communal discrimination in North India led to the kidnapping and continuous rape and then murder of a 5 yr old Muslim girl by Hindu POLICE OFFICERS AND PRIESTS!!!! Despite heavy outrage,the government did barely anything for a long time....until public outrage reached a critical point.... it's very sad that all this could be avoided by removing the stigma associated with sex education and yet no one is willing to do that
Your sex Ed was my sex Ed. Its just a matter of A, basic decorum and privacy mixed with B, your own desire and libido fighting it out. Its like mentioning crippling debt, no one wants to talk about it.
But if we talked more about how to manage finances better,we could help many people stay out of debt. Same principle, better sex ed could lead to proper family planning and population decrease,which is necessary in India. We are still a developing country and we do not have the resources to support a population larger than China, but we are almost about to overtake China
When they had sex Ed for us it wasn't like that both male and female students in the same place same explanation, India is highly different across I guess? But I'm not going to say you are wrong since this is just my personal experience.
Then you were lucky. Teachers logic is that boys will laugh when talking about girls and vice versa, atleast that's what they told us. Maybe your teachers felt you were more disciplined. Some people I know have had same experience,but unfortunately the majority experience the same as me
I mean . People don’t rightly talk about fuckin in public most the time but if they do then that’s their business . I live in USA so it’s not uncommon to hear some wild shit in public
I get not talking about it in public. But parents should teach their children, or better sex ed in schools must be brought about. We don't talk about it even there. Children learn about sex from porn sites,and that isn't healthy and causes huge expectations, but not every man or woman has porn star qualifications. Better Sex Ed could prevent a ton of problems which are rampant right now
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 07:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We also gave a lot to the world,same as many other countries. We do need improvement in certain aspects,but we don't "suck". Every country and every community has its drawbacks but those can be overcome. It's not an excuse for racism, sorry if I conveyed that impression.
whtsnk · -15 points · Posted at 19:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you haven’t understood any of that, it means you have not investigated people’s reasoning well enough. Read into Indian philosophy and social theory, and it all practically explains itself.
All that is tradition. I get wanting to stick to tradition,but the world is evolving and so should we. Victim shaming needs to stop. Women are not meant to be housewives, that needs to stop being the norm. Men can stay at home, that needs to stop being stigmatised
whtsnk · -18 points · Posted at 20:05:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
All that is tradition.
That tradition is rooted in philosophy. You deprive yourself of access to Indian philosophy and are familiar only with what gets spoon-fed into you through popular culture. That’s why you “never understood” any of it.
but the world is evolving and so should we
The world is conforming to western notions, as an indirect reflection of western economic interests. This is not evolution, it is subjugation.
All in all, it’s interesting how you wish India were more like the West. Yet I wish the West were more like India. People here are obsessed with sexuality, from the entertainment industry to politicians to pervert teachers trying to teach it to children.
I truly wish it were a taboo here like it is in India. You said that the world is evolving—I wish the world would evolve to what I feel is a mighty example that Indian thought represents.
I don't know about philosophy,so I can't say anything about that. And ok, becoming more like the West seems a stretch,but sure. I don't wish India was more like the West. I do wish we didn't stigmatise something normal that happens to everyone. Also, I'm happy that in the West, people are comfortable in their sexuality and are able to deal with it instead of repressing it, getting depression,and committing suicide like in India. The LGBT community is heavily ostracized in India,which is also I suppose because of "Philosophy". If Western notions let people be more comfortable and happy, leads to less repression of emotions,less toxic masculinity and less notion that women are inferior to men and must submit to men, I say go for it. Let the world be more like the West.
whtsnk · -19 points · Posted at 20:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't know about philosophy,so I can't say anything about that.
Then the discussion should end there. The AskReddit prompt was about things you don’t understand. I’ve outlined why I feel you might not understand something. And you have admitted to it. So quit sulking in your failure to understand, and maybe…go read and actually try to understand.
Also, I'm happy that in the West, people are comfortable in their sexuality and are able to deal with it instead of repressing it, getting depression,and committing suicide like in India.
The psychological studies behind that notion are heavily conflicted and psychologists themselves are deeply divided as to whether the concept or consequences of repression even have any basis in experimental study. If you really think that, then you are likely falling victim to pop psychology. You are happy that this is the way things are in the West, but conversely, it makes me feel embarrassed to live in a society of such perverts. You have no idea how much I envy what you have and yet somehow long to let go of.
If Western notions let people be more comfortable and happy, leads to less repression of emotions
Your problem is your failure to see that comfort and happiness being normative goals are the express designs of positive psychology. Positive psychology has its roots in transatlantic social theory of the 1930’s and 1940’s—all of which at its core is easily critiqued philosophy. If you are familiar with the work of existentialist psychologist K.J. Schneider, you can see strong examples of such criticism. He famously said, “Perhaps genuine happiness is not something you aim at, but is a byproduct of a life well lived. And a life well lived does not settle on the programmed or neatly calibrated.” This strain of thought is highly compatible with Indian thought—something which, as I’m sure you know by now that I highly respect.
Beyond it being easily critiqued, it is diametrically opposed to the values of most non-western societies, which made it a handy tool in imperialistic goals (especially of the British against India) to dismantle indigenous thought processes and make people perpetually dependent on the goals of colonists even long after independence.
A. I'm not "sulking" in my failure to understand. I told u I don't get it, and I don't really wanna.
B. I didn't get a word of what you said about Happiness so I can't even.... like whatever dude.I think living well or happiness or whatever doesn't matter as long as your ok with your life. You're probably gonna come up with some philosopher who said that's also wrong,but dude everything some philosopher said was contradicted by someone else so whatever.
C. You say u live in a society of perverts, I see them as outspoken and bold people who aren't afraid of challenging outdated thought processes,and I live in a society of highly tightly wound close and narrow minded bigots. The current ruling party declared that Hindus,Sikhs and Jains are the only community indigenous to India and they're gonna discredit the citizenship of all other communities. That's bigoted and people like you justify that as tradition and philosophy.
D. I notice you haven't said a word about feminism issues in India,the way women are downtrodden, child marriages,rape cases on the rise,child raping, pedophilia, victim shaming in rape cases, and so many other issues which could be avoided if people are more open about sex related issues and sex education was better. You also mentioned nothing about LGBT ostracization in India. I suppose you'll say "traditionally, they don't exist"
E. Daniel Shravan,an Indian film maker, literally declared that women are meant to satisfy men,and they should legalise "Rape without violence". Women should carry condoms to help the rapist, submit to the rapist and let him "relieve his sexual frustration" without complaint,as the rapist will then spare them,if it is legalised. He used Indian philosophy and tradition of Sati, where wife is burned alive with her husband's corpse at his cremation,to prove that women are bound to men and must serve them unconditionally and unquestioningly.
F.People like you are the reason why India is still socially backward,and still a developing country while America and the West are far ahead of us, because their fundamental ideals on how society should function are different, and simply comparing the countries we can see which society is more prosperous.
No I want to clarify that he didn't rape anyone. A woman named Priyanka Reddy was raped,and her body burned and thrown under a bridge. A Member of Parliament declared that the rapists should die. His comments were in response to that. Here is the whole article containing his terrible logic.
He basically says rape is ok,but murder isn't. So if rapists feel they can rape without consequences, they'll let the victim live,which is why women should co-operate with the rapists and carry condoms themselves and hand them over to the rapists so they can "relieve their sexual frustration".
I wonder how & where people get these sick ideas in their minds. Every woman in India should social distance herself from him, preferably 500 feet away.
this is probably stupid but I’m sometimes puzzled at how we named stuff. Like who decided a table was called ”table”, or chair, those everyday things we’re used to
What's weirder is one person doesn't decide this. It comes out of agreement of people using the language. Like if you call the table "Bob", and I had no idea that you meant the table, then it doesn't work. I don't understand what you are saying and communication has failed.
Hm not sure if this is helpful but one time I read a paper about how different languages' sounds are a factor of the sounds surrounding them as well as what they eat. For example, more herbivorous diets softened the teeth, leading to softer dental fricatives.
This doesn't answer your question about the words themselves, but maybe someone can take the next step for us. It's probably somehow related to the sound a table makes?
Always Be Selling The Concept Of Selling Stuff To Other People
XaWEh · 7359 points · Posted at 15:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a room with different options arranged in a circle on the floor and everytime some decision has to be made, some important people cut off a chickens head and drop it onto the circle. The the chicken walks around while a kazoo plays. Whichever option the chicken lands on is the correct decision.
Or the economy is its own entity like God. We must please the economy by not frivolous spending. Ride lamas instead of driving cars. Dress with sheets instead od buying clothes. If we do one day the son of the economy will apprear and wipe out all our sins/debts
Ever since the GFC I've come to believe that economics is political - what was better, austerity measures or stimulus? I live in Australia and stimulus (school building, infrastructure projects etc) kept us going. Places that introduced austerity measures (UK) hit the poorest people worst.
Australia had a left-leaning government, UK a conservative government.
Every country now is introducing stimulus measures.
Discrediting facts has existed for decades if not centuries. “Fake news” was a phrase also used (by politicians and civilians alike) in the early 20th century. This isn’t new, it’s just come to the forefront again thanks to nationalism/blind populism and deteriorating public interest in challenging authority.
If one believes that Reinhart and Rogoff actually made mistakes and were not pushing their own ideology. As Krugman pointed out, there was a lot to be skeptical in their methods:
Did you read the article? Because nowhere does it say that Excel spreadsheets that run the global economy led to The Great Recession.
It says one error in one think-tank piece that had already been largely refuted by reputable economists was used by right wing governments to justify cutting public programs for the poor because they spent their trillions helping corporate pals stay in business to keep milking the poor.
You're getting a lot of weird answers, so the simplest way of understand the global economy is to equate it with an ecosystem. Businesses diversify to take advantage of the environment around them in the same way that life evolves to survive. Some evolve into apex predators, and others evolve to pick up the pieces. And at the end of the day everything is interconnected with each other.
A company can spread out into doing a bunch of different things, like Wal-Mart doing everything from groceries to oil changes. Because Wal-Mart is so diversified, a company like Whole Foods can specialize in organic foods, and Jiffy Lube can specialize in oil changes, and both of those companies do their thing better than Wal-Mart does them.
Then when the environment changes and the major fauna fails to adapt some people say “we must use our collective resources to save them!” while others say “let them die, the ecosystem takes care of itself!”.
You’d then die of starvation because not that many people actually want to spend their days working in fields harvesting the food you eat. They do it because they get paid and need money. Likewise, global transportation would collapse and food would not make it from the farm, to your plate; cities would die off, and everyone would revert to being subsistence farmers, meanwhile defeating the whole point of all of human history to this point, which has been to free most of the world from being slaves to their land.
Sounds like things have to be different to begin with, in order to fix problems caused by the way things currently are.
Societal change is organic, but also iterative, and therefore can be guided. If, for example, supply lines were more self-sufficient (things like buildings and houses having their own power generation, or integrating food production into our communities), we’d be more resilient against destabilizing factors like pandemics. The inclusion of every member in a community in the essential processes that keep that community alive would also do wonders for the community’s health and wellness. Rather than having a class of workers who run grocery stores and keep power plants from exploding, so that a much more massive portion of society can do non-essential tasks (like build crap people don’t want or need, and then manufacture those wants and needs), people would spend significantly smaller portions of their available hours helping to keep the gears turning, freeing up time to relax, innovate, and be creative.
Nobody would revert to being a subsistence farmer, because wage labor isn’t what took us out of subsistence farming. Advances in agriculture that allow for massive food production did that. The next step is making it so that nobody is praying that a handful of highways stay open, lest food become undeliverable.
Whenever someone suggests changing the way society works, someone like you pipes in to say, “Well if we did that, then society wouldn’t work the way it does now, and that would mean planes would fall out of the sky,” which is just not true. it’s not like we have no choice but to run our society so that 8 men have as much wealth as 3.5 billion people, while some other portion of billions continue to face the dilemma of fighting one another for wage labor, lest they become homeless. Things can be different, you just don’t trust the people thinking about it because you’ve been told not to.
It’s funny you say that because it’s honestly a pretty standard depiction of the eco-socialist project, but every time me or another eco-socialist lays it out, people recognize it as, at least, not an unreasonable vision for the future, and an interesting set of ideas to consider. Yet, ideas that even hint in this direction have been so demonized and forced underground that they strike people as very novel, despite having like a century and a half of thought behind them. People hear “anarchism” or “free housing” or whatever, and because they’ve been taught about the way society is structured as if it’s an immutable science in the same vein as chemistry, they think attempts to radically change it are as insane as like, ghosts, or superpowers. It’s sad because exposure to these ideas is so important to enacting them, but individuals doing their best to discuss it wherever possible is zero match for things like mass media or free marketeerist corporate propaganda.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the problem is it’s hard to do anything without an economy, because you can’t have or make everything yourself, you depend on someone. This dependence is quantified using money and hence the economy is built.
There are patterns and ever evolving theories to help us understand this shit. Supply and demand is not inherently chaotic. I’d say the real messy part is high finance, which is relevant but not the same thing.
samsab · 9 points · Posted at 19:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how the US economy works, let alone a self-sustaining one. I don't understand how finances work.
Alright imma give you layman's rundown of the global economy cause I am a layman and not an economist myself.
This video from Economics explained explains modern monetary policy very succinctly. I will not explain how central banks and banks manage money.
The most important concept to understand is
Supply and demand.
Everything has a supply, whether it be goods, stocks, currency, bonds, land whatever. And there is a demand for that item. The more people that want an item, the more expensive it becomes and more people try to make that item.
The biggest thing to understand from supply and demand is that currency also has a supply and demand chain. Supply is what the government spends on its projects and salaries while the demand is generally for the tax payers trying to pay their taxes.
Trade of goods
Countries want goods they can't make, their consumers/their populations want a very diverse list of goods. Other countries have these goods and want to sell them to other people. These companies want their country's currency and not the buying countries currency. A bank in the middle converts the money and the goods can be sent.
This supply chain of goods is extremely complex as manufacturing takes many steps. Countries that do the part of the step that adds the most value/needs the most expertise, make the most money. This is generally the end seller. Countries like China ( for everything ) or USA/France ( Planes ) etc. dictate global economy because other countries really want their expensive goods.
Trade of currency
I would highly suggest watching the linked video for this one. This one is the trickiest to understand.
Central banks basically tell their governments how much money they are willing to spend depending on their fiscal policies. This is a very complex decision which includes tax paid back, exports, imports, expenditure, debt, inflation rates etc. I won't even pretend to understand what these reserve banks do. This is the supply of the currency.
Central banks also issue bonds that offer a fixed interest rate, this has a major effect on loan rates and inflation numbers. Most modern economies are completely debt driven.
America has a very unique fiscal policy where they use their military might to force the trade of oil in USD and a lot of their allies trade in USD. This creates an artificial demand for USD which allows the US Government to print a lot more USD. But other countries also need to buy these goods, so they need USD. Now other central banks buy and keep American bonds in case they need USD to help their economy.
Balance of currency and goods
Now you have 2 different supply and demand chains. One of currency and the other of goods. Every country is trying to manage these two chains such that there is just enough money printed to get a desirable inflation number.
You always want inflation because people holding their money is really bad. It reduces Velocity of money ( The real "Trickle down economics"), the more times a money changes hands, more people win.
Print enough money and buy enough foreign currency so that your country can buy goods that your citizens want.
Have enough exports that other countries want to buy your currency to buy those goods. This is why economies like North Korea will never prosper without external help, their currency is worth nothing so they can't buy any foreign goods at all. This is also where a high inflation is good for your economy, when your country wants more than it produces. Your goods going out are worth more to the people in your country and you can print more money. That's a win-win. But your bonds become trash tier and no foreign bank will ever invest in them.
This balance messing up is what causes Hyper inflation, you print more currency than the world wants and now you can't buy anything without just printing a ton more.
USA keeps selling bonds and paying intrest on them just so that they can print a lot more money. They also don't really need to export that many goods to maintain the value of the dollar because international trade creates a natural demand for their currency.
And now I'm ready for someone to tell me how wrong I am 😂
The film "The Big Short" taught me a lot about this. Also how fragile the whole thing is.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's crazy how we essentially created a system that is now beyond our control, yet controls so much of our lives.
tbos8 · 14 points · Posted at 19:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's be real, the economy was never "under control" to begin with. It's not an entity. It's an emergent property of the actions of millions of people making independent decisions. Sure, there are bigger and smaller players. Corporations are to the economy what celebrities are to culture. But they still only have power as long as people are buying what they're selling. The only way to "control" the economy is to control the people.
But Its not fragile, despite all the fraud and over leveraged defaults on credit default swaps(something like 40trillion who actually knows tho) the economy rebounded in 3 years, followed by lowest unemployment and biggest growth.
You're right, it would have been more accurate to say how fragile the stock market was at that time due to the dodgy CDO's. Also how fragile the big banks were at the time, the only reason most survived was due to bailouts.
bb-m · 3 points · Posted at 19:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simple explanation: Businesses in poor countries extract resources and make stuff for cheap. Businesses in richer countries buy them and sell them further at a higher price. Any import and export is taxed by the state. Nowadays, most of what we consume comes from somewhere else. Likewise, most of what we produce goes somewhere else. If one big economy fails all of them dip like a professional diver. If I missed anything, please do remind me or comment with the explanation
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. I am at least averagely smart and for the life of me I can not grasp how exchange rates work or fluctuate. Every time my husband tried to explain it to me I have so many questions that I eventually just end up feeling stupid and not asking.
Is there an ELI5 somewhere on this????
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Lishmi · 1 points · Posted at 12:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh.... That's helped me understand a little better why/how currencies change value (against each other). So for eg, pound sterling has dropped a lot in recent years because less companies want Britain's goods/services?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:15:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well goods and services are 1 part of the exchange rate.
The other is related to investors. Brexit has brought more uncertainty, so investors have been pulling out of the UK relatively speaking. This means that demand for the Pound has declined, which has resulted in a decline in its value.
Many things affect exchange rates simultaneously, but recognizing that it is ultimately just demand and supply interaction is key to understanding it.
I am taking a history class that I need in order to graduate. The subject changes with each new class and the professor teaching it. My class focuses on the New Deal and the Great Depression.
Each class instead of talking about the history it turns into a basic lesson on economics because we are history majors and have no clue how the economy works.
(I will say it is disturbing that our professor tries to teach us about the economics of the Great Depression by using recent examples right here in 2020...).
Classes that focus on New Deal and Great Depression are often politically motivated, I'd recommend expanding your sources if you're seeking to learn the economics behind recessions.
Yeah. This laptop, even though it's new (cheapest in the shop out of necessity), is so poor it barely functions so I go with what I can get. I irrationally hate Bing too (and every single thing about Microsoft Edge).
Honestly, I don't even know what the economy is/means.
Like when people say "Our economy is doing well right now"...what does that even mean? Are people getting more rich? Do people have more jobs? Is the dollar rising? (why does currency even rise or fall)
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The responses you've gotten are absolutely right about what people mean when they say the economy is doing well, etc.
But I kind of want to point out that is distinct from the school subject/college major "economics" which is more about how decisions and behaviors combine and interact to create an "economy". Getting a degree in economics isn't really learning what is going on in the economy now (and maybe not even about learning how to judge that for yourself). It's more about learning how everything in the economy is connected and how a change might impact incentives, decisions, and then ripple throughout the entire system.
It means people are living better. In the strictest neoclassical definition it means the world is producing more and therefore your quality of living is rising. Of course, with Trump he just means the stock market, which isn’t really an equivalent to the wider global economy.
I guess it would work if debt was distributed equally but it's not so someone would get screwed over
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's scarier is that, nobody really knows. Sure, economists and world leaders have a better idea than most, but even they make assumptions and educated guesses. Economy fundamentally is a study of human behaviour. The models and theories we have require rational actors or take certain conditions for granted. When these go out the window, such as now, nobody really knows what's happening
I think that it’s because your question is too broad. But the global economy runs on people trusting one another and trusting the system. If they don’t believe the other will do their part they won’t do theirs and little by little the entire thing falls apart. If they do then it’s business as usual.
Don't worry, even economists don't fully understand it. Because economic outcomes are the result of billions of interactions between groups and individuals, each with their own diverse interests and desires, the macro-level outcomes are not always predictable. Outside of the context of the individual actors (who are each merely a small pieces of the puzzle with a very limited view) that drive economic events, economic outcomes may not even appear to be logical. Although we can find general trends, economics is a social science, and as such does not have many fixed, universal rules (if it has any at all).
The global economy is nearly impossible to understand, and even harder to control. Anyone who would say otherwise likely lacks an in-depth understanding of the discipline. As Friedrich Hayek said, "The curious task of economics is to demonstrate to men how little they know about what they imagine they can design".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand economics at all besides supply and demand
One person’s spending is another person’s income. Credit (what you can charge to a credit card but not pay immediately) + hard money (what’s in your checking account) both allow you to buy things. You have to pay back credit eventually, which means you have to decrease your spending on actual items so you can pay back what you owe. This is why we have cycles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously check out Ray Dalio's,"How the Economic Machine Works." Quick 30 minute intro to the basics of economic drivers. This applies to both domestic and global economics.
Every job is just moving something from one place to another. That movement costs money, and when it's done being moved, it generates money(typically by lighting it on fire). If it generates more money than it costs, it has enough money to move again else it stops moving.
Yes! In Australia our government is spending $130bn on a stimulus package over the next 6 months, but like, where is the money coming from? “Oh our taxes will be paying this off over the next 2 decades” yeah, but.. who is lending them the money?
Just thinking of global economies as some super complex entity is the wrong way to think about it.
Civilization and economies begin with the workers at the bottom. Retail workers, fast food, construction, service workers, etc. Then you get to the managers and keep going up the chain. Until you get to the CEOs/founders/board members who dictate how those companies function in which cities, states, and countries. These are just the giant businesses, small business on a local level play their part with commerce.
My point is that the global economy is just made up of small and large businesses and the customers that purchase their goods. Governments also dictate laws and regulations on how those businesses can operate. You scale it up for the different countries that make the global economy and the trades they make amongst themselves and you get the global economy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economic activity (how "good an economy is) is measured in Gross Domestic Product (GDP). So, for example, let's say your employer payed you $20. Then, you spent that $20 on a meal. Then, that restaurant payed your waiter the $20, who put it in a savings account. That's a GDP of $60, because all the goods and services (your work, the meal, the service) are valued at a total of $60.
Now, a recession is basically a decline in economic activity, which means people spend less money, and therefore get payed less, and so on--it's one big snowball effect. On the global scale, when a country exports less, other countries, who rely on that country's goods, import less, which carries over. And then you have a global recession / depression.
The funny thing to me is that while a vast majority of people would fail at trying to explain this concept, most of them also hold strong opinions about how the global economy should be run.
Every individual, company, local government, etc. acts in their own best interest. That all these individual components collectively form a global economy is an emergent property.
Specific, notable exceptions are made when there exists a Tragedy of the Commons situation, in which each individual needs to behave in a way counter to their particular incentives for a better whole. In those cases some stronger incentive is artificially created to curb the potentially disastrous consequences of each individual acting in his own self interest.
For example, a company has no natural incentive to make its factories “green”; in fact, the counter-incentive exists (a better bottom line) to burn cheap fossil fuels and improperly dispose of wastes. It is only because of government mandated penalties/credits that even stronger incentives exist for these individual companies to be eco-friendly, despite the less attractive financials. If these incentives were not in place then each company would act in its own self-interest, theoretically destroying the environment causing everyone to lose.
I am no expert but my visualization is that
people collect a lot of - small sums of money (e.g online subscriptions) and accumalate it together to become wealthy.
Then they distribute that money to smaller people (e.g. by buying mansions, planes) and the money goes back to where it started from in the first place, to people who make small transactions.
Then again a lot of these people make small transactions and the cycle continues.
The smartest person accumulates the most wealth (e.g. Bill Gates) and then that money gets distributes to less wealthy people (e.g. startups helping to make ventilators now)
Time started at “time zero” (made up reference point). You can also just arbitrarily just pick a time (e.g. the “start” of the Big Bang) and call it time zero.
Animals think using their brains and/or other stimuli-response mechanisms. They also think about lots of things—for instance, food, sex, and Reddit.
Time probably started when the big bang occurred. Since time space is what our universe is made of. If you're into dimensions and stuff then I think that also means that time for our universe started then too.
I say probably because I'm not an expert or anything.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its a bit early to ask how animals think. Like we barely understand how humans think tbh.
Animals do not think in the same manner as humans do.
There are three parts of the human brain.
The reptilian cortex (which is responsible for basic bodily functions needed to sustain life like breathing feeling hungry, beating heart, startle mechanism for survival),
limbic cortex ( which is responsible for social behaviors such as taking care of babies, social actions like snuggling, playing or fighting, the sadness of losing a loved one),
and finally the neocortex (which is responsible for higher order thinking which are in humans. This is responsible for thinking about the past, future and present. Thinking about consequences and rewards and responsibilities.
So as us humans have all 3 cortexes, animals and insects do not. So for example your cat has only a reptilian cortex and a limbic cortex. It doesn't think about the future, it's not able to, so it doesn't.
Lizards or like animals/insects have only reptilian cortex, they just do what needs to be done to survive. They're instinctual and do not have complex thoughts. They are unable to generate complex thoughts.
Why doesn't my computer make sound? Because it doesn't have a sound card.
If a currency is not actually backed by anything physical then why does it's perceived value go down when there is more of it in circulation. It's not like adding another trillion to the pool means everything else is now representing a smaller slice of nothing.
Currency is based on the faith that we have in the issuing institution. We trust this government this much and that one this much. As trust in one of them changes their value against each other changes. Now one prints more money, but the ratio of trust between the two didn't change, so there's now less trust represented by each piece of currency.
But, and that may sound dumb, but I cannot grasp it, how does anyone know that there is more money in circulation? Like, if there are a few trillions printed, but the government doesn't tell anyone about it, is money worth less now?
Nobody is going out to specifically see if there is more money in the world. What happens is that if that money is put out into circulation, ie, the general public, the public has more money to spend. If they spend it, businesses will see that uptick in demand and potentially increase prices. This of course causes money to be less valuable due to inflation. All this happens normally without anybody specifically going out to see or even knowing that there is "more money" in circulation.
I absolutely agree, there are many factors going into this. That is why when people tell me, well you do X, then you are going to get inflation. You might get some but not what most people think of like 8 dollar hamburgers. Those burger price increases are still spread over economies of scale. Or, people have more money but they don't have enough where they would pay 8 bucks for a burger so a company wouldn't raise prices that much.
It's generally done through federal loans and interest rates. Lower interest rates incentivizes people to borrow and therefore spend more. Higher interest rates means people aren't as likely to spend money because it's not as freely available to get.
As there are more dollars being competed for, downward price pressures are lessened. Prices are lowered to try and get people to choose you over another, but if there are more dollars you don’t have to lower them as far to hit your sales targets.
If the government prints a few trillion and puts it in a vault, then nothing happens.
If the government prints a few trillion and gives it to everyone, now people suddenly all have a lot more to spend. Because people will be wanting to buy things more, things will get more expensive. Because you used to be able to buy a loaf of bread with say $3 before, but now it costs $5, the money has lost its value.
Also, if the government just randomly prints a few trillion and injects it into the economy, people will lose faith that the money means anything. What if you were playing tag with your friend and your friend just declared where he was standing as a safe zone whenever you tagged him? Same kind of deal here. If people see that the US Gov't doesn't care about respecting the rules, then they won't play the game, and the value of the currency will decrease.
These are basic concepts, but a lot can be inferred from this. What if the US wants to encourage people to export goods from the country? Maybe they'll devalue the currency a bit. Suddenly a Canadian dollar that used to be exchanged for an American dollar is now exchanged at 2 American dollars. So Canadians are more willing to buy American goods.
khysor · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currency and this mutual trust doesn't exist in isolation. The USD is essentially backed by the American economy. So it sort of has some intrinsic value. Whereas something like cryptocurrency has a degree of mutual trust, but is backed by literally nothing.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why it took so long to get detachted from the gold standard.
While it is not "owned" by the government it is governed by a Board of Governors. They are defined as an agency of the federal government that reports to and is directly accountable to Congress. So it is definitely not "just a bank".
Sez__U · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re wrong. It is not part of the federal government. Its owned by member banks. And while it may be accountable to congress, congress never tells the Fed anything. It’s a bank owned by banks.
Idk what to tell you. Simple google search shows it is run by a presidentially appointed board of governors. The federal government sets their salaries. You are correct that they do not take orders from or need the approval of the federal government in monetary decisions, but I was mostly taking issue by you saying it was "just a bank." Normal banks don't have the federal government setting the salaries of their governors, so right there is proof it is not "just a bank."
I agree it is not just a bank, but it is pretty accountable, the board of governors for the fed only has the head chair presidentially nominated, all the actual members of the board come from their individual zones, not elected and the chairman usually listens to them quite closely. Although sometimes political pressure is exerted, it is generally frowned upon as they are supposed to only follow their objectives set forth to them by congress when the federal reserve was created in the early 1900’s. So yes it is more than just a bank, as congress can technically change what they do through law but is generally pretty reliable in being independent and looking after the economy. Sorry I don’t really have a point, I just wanted to talk about the fed as I know a little about them.
Sez__U · 1 points · Posted at 12:11:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go past the simple google search. My point is that it is not a government that creates money, but the bank. The whole question that these posts were about was how the government creates money. It doesn’t. It spends money.
Where does the money come from? It is revenue and debt. It borrows the money with bonds. Who buys the government bonds and owns the debt? The Fed, the bank. That’s how money is created. The government printing press doesn’t create federal reserve notes down at the machine. It is direct deposit to you.
To add to what the other guy said, money is just like any other good, the easier it is to get, the less valuable it is (for example gold is expensive because of how rare it is). Usually, when there's more money in an economy, that means it's easier for any one person to get more of it, thus making it less rare and therefore less valuable (This is also the reason that a single bitcoin is worth so much, because of how ridiculously hard it is to mine one and how few there are right now).
Another way to think of it is this: When money is added into the circulation, it inevitably goes to various people/groups. Businesses and companies see this and go "hey, these people have more money, we can raise prices and they'll still be willing to buy our stuff". And eventually all/most companies will raise their prices, meaning everything costs more money to buy, thus the currency is worth less.
453mm · 10 points · Posted at 19:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If inflation is out of control sure, but regular inflation is completely normal. We've had a 2% inflation rate for years now.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you are a business selling something for $5 and after a trillion dollars gets added more people are willing to buy at that price, the demand has increased, so over time you as a business realize you can raise the price and you do. Extrapolate that across the economy and all the prices will go up over time.
Well, it is backed by something. It’s backed by the goods and services it can purchase. And though a fiat currency (purely paper currency) is called ‘fictional’ by a lot of people the things it gets you are real, tangible things with value.
We know, at least close enough, the value of the things that our economy makes every year. We also know how much currency there is in circulation—and that that currency will be used to buy those goods and services. If there are more dollars chasing around the same set amount of goods than each dollar must become a little less valuable by comparison, no?
This explanation is cutting out some other scenarios and other more complicated cases, and is simplifying others, but it isn’t a bad way at all to think about the value of a currency.
Also of note, currencies ‘backed’ by other things became so fraudulent (the US didn’t really have all the gold or silver necessary to back their currency, for example. I’m not sure that any country did) and so influenced by people cornering markets that it just became kind of dumb and restrictive (and at times disastrous) to tie money to some other thing.
Governments even devalued currencies when they were made of gold or silver. The amount of gold or silver in them would change when the government needed to raise money and couldn’t do it otherwise. This is what is meant by ‘debasing’ the currency. It literally meant removing some or all of the base metal in a coin.
It’s weird that the world wakes up everyday and goes to a place they probably don’t like all that much to do things they’d rather not for pieces of fucking paper—but that’s what we’ve come up with and so far we haven’t thought of better.
It's supply and demand, of money.
As you increase the supply of money, its "price" (value) goes down.
At any one time, the total quantity of goods and services produced can be exchanged for the total quantity of currency in circulation.
So adding a trillion to the pool means that the money is in fact representing a smaller slice of the total goods and services.
Slaisa · 2 points · Posted at 18:35:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go to Youtube and watch kurzgesagt, they have a few videos on economics and the like.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Power resides where people believe it resides -Varys
Imagine an economy with one trillion dollars in circulation. That means that however many goods and services that economy produces, the total value of those goods and services will add up to one trillion dollars. That means everyone's income will add up to $1T, and everyone's expenses will add up to $1T.
Now imagine that the central bank of that economy decided to print an extra $500 billion and add it to circulation. But the economy is still producing the same amount of goods and services. Now all of that production is worth $1.5T. Every citizens's income and expenses now add up to $1.5T. But because production is the same, everyone is still CONSUMING the same amount, the only difference is the nominal amount that they spend and earn. That's inflation.
I like to think of it as, there’s a certain amount of money assigned to a certain thing. Let’s say $1000 for one ounce of gold. Then let’s say the amount of money in circulation is doubled. Now it’s $2000 for one ounce of gold. The rarity of the gold has remained constant. However, there is more money, so the value is distributed even more thinly.
You're getting some pretty decent answers, but none of them have mentioned the "velocity of money." When the money supply increases in an otherwise stable economy, there are now more dollars chasing the same amount of goods. But if the increase in money is being invested, kept in savings, or otherwise not being spent on consumption, there is no inflationary pressure, and the new money does not seem to be worth any less. Each dollar in circulation changes hands, let's say an arbitrary six times each year (it's velocity).
Now let's say that the economy starts to boom, consumers become more and more confident, people start buying houses and furniture and appliances and new cars and boats and RVs and eating out more etc. After a time the velocity of money doubles - a typical dollar is changing hands twelve times a year instead of six. This has the inflationary effect of doubling the money supply, even though the government may not have added to the money supply at all during that period. The increased velocity of money results in "too many" dollars chasing "too few" goods and the result is that prices go up - or, put another way, the value of the money goes down. Governments combat this by raising interest rates, making borrowing to buy those houses and cars and RVs and appliances and furniture significantly more expensive - thereby dampening demand and reducing the inflation.
Because money means the ability to buy stuff so it literally does mean a smaller slice of the stuff available to buy when the nominal value of money increases. Printing money doesn't make more stuff
Other then people believing it has value the most important reason why money has value is because you have to pay your taxes in said currency. So the currencies value is determend by th repercussions of not paying your taxes.
With more bills, it becomes easier to get a hold of, meaning people have more, meaning stores can charge more.
Lets say object A costs 20% of the average joe's earnings. If this median of joes suddenly gains a 100% pay raise due to more money in circulation, object A is now only worth 10% of his days earnings. The people who produce object A notice that their product is now comparatively worth less, so they increase the price in order to earn just as much as they previously did in comparison to average joe.
Note: i never took any course regarding economy, this is just my best guess
Fiat money is actually based on credit. Government issuing bond, so that central bank could print money.
How government paying bond? By creating another bond (well, aside from another income). So that means government dilluting its own currency by issuing bond, creating inflation in the long run).
Sez__U · 0 points · Posted at 21:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. It is. But in deficit spending, when government spending exceed their revenue. Government ussuing bond through the central bank. Based on the bond issued by government, central bank can create more money.
Suppose Amazon has $1 billion worth of merchandise.
They issue 100 gift cards. Each gift card entitles the owner to 1% of all merchandise. But it's worded funnily. On the card it says "This card entitles you to 1 cut of all merchandise. A cut is equal to 1 divided by the number of gift cards in existence."
So if there are 100 gift cards then 1 card entitles you to 1/100 (1%) of all merchandise.
This means 1 card can get you $10m worth of merchandise.
Now suppose Amazon wanted to issue more gift cards. They issue another 100. There are now 200 cards in existence. This means a 'cut' is now equal to 1/200 or 0.5%. In this scenario that means each card now entitles the holder to only $5m worth of merchandise.
Currency is a gift card for stuff. Instead of just Amazon, it's all products produced by all companies. All the currency combined can claim all the stuff combined so $1 note is like a cut in the above example where it entitles you to 1/AmountOfAllCurrency multiplied by ValueOfAllStuff.
If the value of all stuff increases (economic growth), your $1 can claim more stuff than before. If the Fed prints more dollars, the average 'cut' per dollar drops. This is why the value goes down when there is more in circulation.
This is probably what I largely meant with my answer of stocks/high finance. I just don’t get it. A dollar is generally worth the same to me as it was $20 years ago regardless. For instance, a can drink from a convenience store is worth about a dollar, within 15 cent less. Idk
So yeah, the general perceived value of a buck to me doesn’t change if there are suddenly 20 trillion more dollars in the world. Also, where does the money come from from all these “new” billionaires? Hell if I know about good stuff man
Like im just this flesh thing, with some bones n nerves and everything i am mentally is just some electric current things zapping the ball of flesh in some liquid, hovering or floating about in a jar in my head inside me.
There was a study done by Andrew Wakefield (who had a huge amount to gain from people not taking vaccines) that linked the MMR vaccine to autism. It was later disproved and retracted (and he was struck off the medical register in the UK) but because of a lot of media attention, people still believe it.
Funny thing I just thought, why do they not believe any doctors, but believed this one former doctor. I think a lot of dumbass conspiracies boil down to people wanting to be in on a secret truth to feel superior to others.
I got into an argument once with someone that said my pediatrician was trash and uneducated and “clearly doesn’t specialize in babies” because she suggested something for my daughter that this woman’s pediatrician didn’t recommend for her. I don’t understand believing only one doctor. Like if you go into your doctor with some hip pain and his first suggestion is to do a total hip replacement, wouldn’t you go get a second opinion or are you going to go through with unnecessary surgery because your doctor said so? (I actually had a patient (rehab) who did just that. No scans were taken before he suggested it) I don’t get it.
There are a few side affects to vaccines that could be harmful (I had one were my platelet count dropped for a few days) but that is still no reason to not get vaccinated, the diseases you get vaccinated against are so much worse than almost any side affect they cause, made up or real
It comes from a general (and frankly understandable) mistrust of the giant pharmaceutical companies. Those companies have show time and time again that they don't actually care about the health of the people taking medications, they only care about selling you a pill regardless of the side effects.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ahhh, the old, "It's a conspiracy propagated by the conspirators so that they will suffer a little hardship at first, but eventually reap giant rewards when their full conspiracy comes to fruition" -thing.
Also in a majority of children the behavioural effects of autism aren’t really noticeable at birth and start to only show once the child is about a year old, couple that fact with the numerous vaccinations most kids receive between birth and 12 months and you can understand how some people (falsely) correlate one causing the other
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asbestos, DDT and lobotomies were once popular too. Remember Hitler? He liked this scientific belief called eugenics.
Now add time to this. People alive today never really experienced polio or measles. It's not a issue today, unlike autism.
Now add time again. Vaccines are decades old treatments. Hasn't science progressed enough that we are capable of handling things without vaccines? Aren't vaccines more of a cheap fix for third world countries rather than countries with top tier medicine?
Vaccines that are preventative are actually the opposite of the cheap fix in my opinion. It’s like packing food and water before you leave for a camping trip rather than being on the way and stopping by the gas station for cheap snacks and drinks. The treatment of an illness once it’s onset rather than preventing it seems more like the cheap fix.
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 20:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem with your camping analogy is you're guaranteed to need to eat. What's the likelihood of being exposed to polio? It's more like getting flood insurance. It's a cheap precaution, but you're going to weight the cost based on the last time it flooded.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 21:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The likelihood grows exponentially if random people suddenly decide that they don't want to vaccinate. So his analogy is indeed valid.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 21:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As does the likelihood that people will vaccinate if people start getting polio. People take risks everyday There are vaccines available that people don't get unless they travel to countries with outbreak.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is your point that it is somehow worth risking people’s lives, especially the immuno compromised, because ‘the risk is low’? Are you going to be the one telling the families of those who died that it could have been prevented with something as widely available as a vaccine? Statistics are a really garbage factor when playing around with lives.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:20:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I'm saying I understand why some people don't vaccinate because it's not as clear cut as some people make it.
Theyre are countless preventable deaths that happen every day. People die from obesity, smoking, reckless activities. Car crashes are killing a lot more people in the US than these vaccinated diseases. Are you going to be telling the families that the reason their kid is dead is because we allowed a 16 year old to drive a car?
Vaccines are on a scale like everything. DDT is credited with saving 500,000 lives or more and yet..it's banned. Asbestos saved countless lives over the years and yet it's mostly banned.
Marijuana was criminalized for many years for being dangerous and now it's being legalized as a medicine. Glyphospate was seen as very safe and now people are worried about it. Things change.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would rather not allow 16 year olds to drive but thats nitpicking and besides the point.
The simple fact is that all of that has been banned after thorough study of its harmful effects. The debate about vaccines is often made on a ‘feeling’ or based on the same repeated false ‘proof’. With Asbestos and DDT you could find direct correlation on ‘I come into contact with this and become sick’, but they don’t try to do that with vaccines. It is an argument that devolves into and inevitable nothing because one of the parties refuses to do anything but preach that they’re right and keep peddling the same disproven garbage.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It impacts credibility. It's not like there hasn't been a study that proved something was dangerous that was kept a secret in the past. Now I agree with vaccines generally being good and recommended because of overwhelming evidence, but in 10 years that could change
I was once talking to my family member and mentioned anti-vaxers, and to my surprise, she answered she knew one semi-antivaxer (who is not against mandatory vaccines). That person has told her that her kid started acting weird after a vaccine, banging their head against a wall and the like, like a child with autism (their words, not mine). She was sure the child was not simulating it and probably got scared. Other than that, I'd like to know too.
If you start injecting enough people with just a saline solution, at some point something goes wrong in the process. A batch got poorly refridgerated, needle isn't sterile, polution in an ingredient, shit happens, such is life.
People are just so stupid.I went to a junkyard a week ago and while I was paying,some guy started arguing for the worth of a part with the employees.Eventually he gave up,but not before coughing on the employee on his way out.
MST3K81 · 119 points · Posted at 19:35:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People worship, seriously. I just can't wrap my head around how far people go or how much allot of people obsess over a celebrity or athlete. I mean, I get it to a certain extent. There are celebrities I really like, they seem like good people, but I can't tell you everything about their lives.
Seems pretty straight-forward to me. You see someone who behaves a certain way that you admire and to try to emulate this person, you study them to learn more about them so that you can become like them.
I mean, I emulate different things from different people that I find funny or interesting sure, we all do to a certain extent. Doesn't mean I study that person or even try to be like them. I can pick things up and learn useful things from people without putting them on some unreasonable pedestal.
I suppose you'd have to be at a point in your life where you recognize that you don't know much or you don't amount to much, so you place the people that do on that pedestal.
This kind of thing was also popular hundreds of years ago. Apprentices learning from their masters, squires and knights, samurai and lords, etc...
Weirdly, my sister claims this all the time. All my siblings and I are hella depressed, but it's largely genetic. My parents are AWESOME, but she blames them for not doing enough somehow.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:10:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes people just want someone to blame. I wish it was that simple for me but my sister's agree with me on how our mom was and still is. I had to go no contact again last fall when she told me she wasn't abusive because she didn't punch us in the face all the time like her parents. She went to college to be a social worker. She knows abuse takes many forms. She just refuses to admit when shes wrong. Also she hit us all the time, just didn't punch us.
It's just like "bad" people. Nobody thinks of themselves as a bad person. They use all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify why they do the things they do.
Some people didn't particularly want kids but either felt like they're a mandatory indicator of adulthood, or got guilted into it by the people in their life, or had an unplanned pregnancy and were either against abortion themselves or lived in a place where it's effectively inaccessible. Then the kid is born and the switch to Loving Parent Mode that they expected either doesn't happen or is less intense than they were counting on, and now they're a shitty parent.
jf153 · 4 points · Posted at 23:45:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
Or, you'd rather become a parent than take actions to prevent it if you don't have employment/ stable housing etc. I get babies are cute and people are clucky but come on people. If you can't afford food and don't have a place to live why would you get or keep a pregnancy. I mean the pill is 5$ for 3 months here, there is not many excuses
I think every person should be forced to make a psychological test before parenting. And these tests should be forced by the government. I wouldn't allow any person that didn't make that test to be a parent. There are to many abusive parents out there that ruin children. These children can become criminals when they grow up. It's pretty terrible.
Some people with mental health diagnoses language their conditions well and can parent just fine, while people who don’t have any diagnoses or meet the criteria for anything sick at parenting. It’s not this simple.
The only situation where talking on speaker phone in public is justified in my opinion is when it’s so loud around you that you can’t hear your conversation partner otherwise, but that’s very rare.
I think the former explains the original popularity, then because they got famous popular, people aspired to be like them because its clearly the path for fame and popularity
It started as just watching a train wreck
Then it became "fuck...I wish I had a train. That looks dope"
That was the vibe I got when Jersey Shore was on. People I knew always said the same thing: “I just watch them because they’re so stupid and ridiculous.”
I really believe people want that level of carelessness in their lives.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean yea tbh. I’m sick of being a nurse. Especially right now. I wish I could just go to the gym and bum it on a beach with my friends everyday. Sounds like heaven
I watch the Kardashians sometimes, but only for laughing at them like you said. I kinda thought that was the point tbh. The only thing I really aspire to have that they have is their incredible success rate. Like them or not, you have to admit it's impressive that Kris Jenner had five otherwise average daughters and managed to market them all into millionaires. But I don't really aspire to be them at all.
Spending your day throwing away money and generally having fun while getting millions? I don't know about you, but living the 18+-version of childhood sounds quite awesome to me.
I play the show in the background because I don’t like absolute silence. It’s the least engaging and most vapid option which works for me. The only thing I aspire from them is to have Khloe’s organised cookie jars. Those are some nice cookie jars.
mmikke · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think saying she fucked him is pretty generous considering she laid there like a dead rat while he fucked her. Of all sex tapes out there, the fact that this is the one to blow up and create stardom is mind boggling. I've seen hotter sex narrated by attenborough in a nature doc
I’m only 17 so I found out about her sex tape after she was already famous and I was so confused when I watched it, like ‘wtf this is why her whole family is this fucking famous’
Many may not like it or care to admit it but the Kardashians are a marketing monster.
If getting millions upon millions of dollars was as simple as a sex tape, porn stars, snap girls, reddit girls and all of those that sell sex would be millionaires.
They created a brand which is no easy feat. I'm sure they are not as dumb as they seem.
[deleted] · 65 points · Posted at 18:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, she parlayed that tape into an empire. Not everyone with a fuck tape gets an instant ticket to fame and fortune. She seems really smart to me.
Credit where credit's due, but I think the fact that both her and Paris Hilton are daughters of significant people helped draw attention to their pornos. But then you also look at Montana Fishburne (Lawrence Fishburne's daughter) and she wasn't able to launch a big career out of porn, although she went to actual porn producers to be a porn actor and didn't leak a sex tape and try to become a "personality", so her approach was different.
The thing is about it being leaked. That's why Kim became famous. Because it was leaked and leaking something makes a lot of controversy around this person and there's a lot of noice around this person as well.
No, the TV show had already been announced when the sex tape came out, so even that doesn't really explain it. I know Robert Kardashian was a lawyer on the OJ Simpson trial, but surely there's no way he could have parlayed that into a TV show... right?
You’ve gotta remember that this was around the same time that Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie were all over television. When a tv exec sees one popular tv trend, he’ll look for a way to make his own version of it.
I’m sure we all remember the countless regional Jersey Shore knockoffs in the early 2010s.
Szjunk · 2 points · Posted at 09:23:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kim was also indirectly on TV a lot because she was Paris' personal assistant.
Szjunk · 2 points · Posted at 09:21:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Started with Rob defending OJ. (But it helped they were already well known by other rich people.)
So Kim was Paris Hilton's personal assistant in the early 2000s. That started getting her into the spotlight and is probably how she ended up meeting all of these other famous people.
Kourtney gets on the reality show, "Filthy Rich: Cattle Drive." because she'd been on The Simple Life, etc. (August 2005)
Then the sex tape leaks (Feb 2007), Vivid buys it, they have a lawsuit about it driving up the controversy and it really rocketed her up the fame charts. There's nothing like trying to stop people from seeing something to make them want to see it.
The Kardashians were actually inspired off of the Osbournes because Seacrest saw that they naturally created so much drama, were crazy, but looked like they were having fun doing it.
The show wasn't announced in August 2007, well after the tape leaked.
So basically, rich people hanging out with other rich people doing crazy rich people things impressed even richer people to just record them doing rich people shit.
They’re good at marketing. No matter how much someone dislikes them there is no denying that.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 21:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unpopular opinion on reddit, but they have crafted their image perfectly - they have riches and looks that 10% of people aspire to (loyal fanbase), and have committed to public personas designed to piss off 70%, with the remaining 20% joining the piss bandwagon because they hate how much publicity they get. People are so pissed off by the Kardashians that they will be outspoken about it without provocation, which becomes free advertising, and reinforces the idea that they are famous for being famous because it's all anyone can talk about (even if 90% is trying to tear them down). It's the same formula that lots of reality stars, political pundits, and wrestling heels follow, and audiences (including reddit circlejerks) play into it every time.
Exactly. The amount of energy so many people, especially on reddit, put into actively hating the Kardashians is mind boggling. If you don’t like them why do you talk about them so much?
My gf watches their show all the time, and I've broken it down like this. They're idiots and it's entertainment. I used to watch Trailer Park Boys religiously and it was for a similar reason, I knew people that stupid, and imaging them feeding a mountain lion weed in small portions to get it off its weed addiction is hilarious!
I think another good example of this is Tiger King, everyone who talks on screen is a special form of idiot, and generally speaking, most viewers aren't idiots and can't think like idiots. This is why what they say catches us of guard, it's an idiot speaking.
Now take this formula (giving idiots a platform) and add it to the perfect storm that was the khardasians, and you get mega stardom. Now when I say perfect storm it really was. Take Kim for example. Dad defended OJ Simpson in court, dies, mom marries an Olympian with gold to his name, work for Paris Hilton as a closet organizer, become friends with Paris Hilton, starts dating d-list rapper, makes a porno (3 years after "1 night in Paris l" blew the fuck up), mom sells it AND BOOM reality tv show.
Now who in the early late 2000's wouldn't want to see the life of Robert Khardasian's porno making, Paris Hilton wannabe, brainless daughter? The shows a complete meme fest. Some of the stupidest things ever said in reality tv come from that show. So once it started taking off, comrade Kris used her knowledge of what people want to see like some kind of evil genius. Gets her daughter's to start dating other questionable celebrities and the story just started writing itself from there.
So the reason why they're famous is because they're not boring, each characters life is an absolute quagmire of never ending drama and ridiculousness.
tulvia · 8 points · Posted at 19:30:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But is all fake. Manufacturered drama and stupid situations where the level of drama is not necessary.
I get the entertainment bit but why are the popular is the sense people want to be like them and worship them.
Notoriety. Every idiot in history had a fan club. Who wouldn't want to be a moron making millions just to do nothing? It's no surprise a portion of society keeps a Walmart rollback tag on their dignity.
I know it's the thing to see them as idiots but they managed to market themselves to the point that they have millions and millions of dollars off of clothing/beauty brands, a T.V show, smart investments. Kim herself owns part of Disney, Apple, Adidas, etc. They're not idiots, but they marketed themselves as idiots and made more money than you or I will ever see doing it.
Having financial success doesn't cancel out ones idiocy. I said in the original comment that Kris is an evil genius, if there's one thing she can do like no other, it's sell her children as media fodder.
Also, the "cash me outside" girl has more money than you and I, do you think the girl who went on Dr.Phil and hollered "cash me outside, howboutdat" isn't an idiot?
You mean the woman that turned internet fame into a relatively successful rap career? Lots of people have been on Dr. Phil, how many of then rode that cash cow? She might play the idiot, hell she might even be white trash, but that doesn't actually make her an idiot.
These people all effectively played the game of Capitalism better than either of us play it, that is definitely a form of intelligence. Sure they might not be researching string theory or leading us to new types of medicine but they do possess a form of intelligence that many people dismiss because they act trashy or materialistic
Nah man, she bought songs and features. Just like the khardasians, once you have money it's simple to explode it. Financial advisors, stock brokers, etc. They'll inflate your money. Shit even the bank's too. Just put 2 mil in a high interest account and it doesn't take long to grow. Paying people to blow up your money isn't intelligence, you'd be stupid not to use those options.
And again, having a lot of money doesn't make these people respectable, rich or poor an idiot is an idiot. Sure they may have a some small intelligence financially but they're paying people to do that thinking for them, and it doesn't outshine the fact that they're trashy people who truly don't deserve the time of day we give them.
Trashy, not worthy of respect, sure, absolutely, but not idiots. They play idiots very well but it still requires a decent bit of intelligence to exploit those 15 minutes of fame into financial security for yourself/your family. There are countless people who had those 15 minutes and never went anywhere because they lacked the intelligence to exploit it.
Not that hard, their dad was a famous and successful lawyer that was involved in the OJ Simpson case, Kim Kardashian was very close to the Hilton family and best friends with Paris Hilton, their step-mom is a retired Olympian and one of the most famous transgender people in the world, Kim is now married to Kanye West and their TV Show became very popular for some reason, probably because many people find that type of fancy lifestyle appealing. Many factors led to the rise of fame of that family and now most of them are actually quite accomplished women.
People like to live vicariously through others. That's why the British Royal Familyis so popular. That's why people like princesses and princes, zombie movies and games.
The K's love a very wealthy and privileged life style that most people can't imagine. Sometimes it's nice to just watch other people have what you want.
Redditors just like to feel superior to someone and don’t realize it’s not easy to go from generally wealthy to one of the biggest names on earth. I don’t think she’s a genius by any means but she was able to successfully leverage her connections and make deals to propel herself from “OJs lawyers daughter with a sex tape” to the multimillionaire face of the beauty/fashion/lifestyle industries. Credit where credit’s due.
Exactly, wholeheartedly agree with your comment, she's no genius IMO either but I actually find it funny reading all these nobodies looking down at people far more successful than them.
sfoxx · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their dad represented OJ Simpson so that put them in the spotlight at first. Kim was a friend of Paris Hilton on a show called the simple life for a couple years. She was going to launch her own show and used the attention from the sex tape to get more viewers.
I would disagree. Maybe 10 years ago, but how 'perfect' their looks are now throws them into uncanny valley. No real woman looks like them naturally, and that's completely unnerving.
OJ case + Kim, who is the first OG social media Kardashian, is a very intelligent person and knows how to pull the strings of the media to gain fame and money.
Agree. My gf watches their show sometimes and it blows my mind people like that crap. So fake, so staged, it’s ridiculous how they’re famous. But when you sleep with the right people, you can get whatever you want apparently
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The Buffalo Bills barely lost a game in 1970 by missing a pass for a touchdown. That loss allowed them to get the first pick in the draft, O.J. Simpson. OJ stays in Buffalo for awhile, meets his wife, then allegedly kills her. O.J. hires Kim Kardashian's father to be his lawyer. They win the case, making the Kardashians somewhat famous. Then Kim drops the sex tape, becomes famous.
The show is extremely low stakes. So for people who like reality television it’s really easy to watch. A lot of shows are hyper dramatic and they have you feeling stressed out or feeling bad for someone, or you get worked up over the fights. Not on keeping up with the kardashians it’s all just khloe being mad that Kourney is late again, it’s absolutely mindless to watch.
Some clarification: Rich person is a general term used to describe someone who is wealthy in the sense of not just owning assets worth some millions. Rich person here is someone who has liquid assets in the millions and can spend a few million here and there when they want to. Getting into the neighborhood of but not necessarily real "Fuck you" money if you will.
Be relatively good looking daughter of someone who makes a fuck ton of money. Money is made via brilliant misdirection and the ability to dodge criticism of misdirection with legal precedent. Learn from dad some of this craft.
Be friends with others of the same social class from a young age. Rich people meet lots of other rich people. This is some of the reason that the wealth in the upper class trustifarians consolidates.
See other rich people's petty squables make for great gossip. Who doesn't like some good gossip. I even find myself falling into the trap though I would say, "I hate all of this petty drama!" This is a lie we tell ourselves.
See that famous people having petty squabbles about fuck all makes for awesome magazine sales and new internet social media platforms make gossip easier to spread.
Be bored kid of rich person therefore has unlimited time outside of social obligations. Has some petty squabbles and loves to talk shit about other rich kids. Same shit talking that people in the magazines etc. do.
Hang out with rich friend with a huge family brand. Said rich friend parties hard core. You like to party hard core with said friend. There are already people who recognize your rich friend with a huge family brand because she is known to be a bit of a disappointment to the family empire.
Make sure you get seen with this rich friend out partying. Rich friend always wanted to be a star but has no real tallent besides the ability to party hard and look like she gives 0 fucks about being a disappointment. Why not make money from this thinks rich friend.
! A wild idea appears
Start spreading some fun tabloid stuff. Do this with consent of rich friend or not. You will make it up to friend when you get your side hustle up and running. Suddenly you matter to tabloids etc. because you are close with the now trainwreck of a disappointment. Do all the interviews! Get into all the tabloid shots! Drink all the shots and do all the coke with this bitch! Start fucking other more famous people like rich friend did.
Lose all the shame! There is no shame when you are making money hand over fist. Act like a child actor at age 15 when you are a grown ass adult. People love this shit! Social media has advanced. All the kids are using Facebook now. My Space is shit platform for promotion and no one likes Tom anymore. Twitter becomes a thing. People love your gossip and tune in more. Run with it. Saturate the market. Suddenly matter to idiots who love rich person gossip so they can live vicariously.
Make money hand over fist. Rinse and repeat.
I think I got it. Let me know if I missed something.
She's not exceptionally attractive. She's not exceptionally likeable. She has no talent in the traditional sense. She banged some dude in a leaked pornesque video. I don't get it. This woman should not only not be famous, she should be obscure.
I remember when Paris Hilton set the mold for this sort of fame, I was amazed by it. I originally thought "well, people are laughing at this moron."
It turns out that a large swath of the population is OK with that as long as you're on TV.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:30:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Paris was a lot of she's hot, she's rich, woah, she has a sex tape too?
It was a brief look into the lives of the mega wealthy that we don't usually get to see, especially seeing them fuck.
The whole selling point of The Simple Life was seeing the fish out of water aspect.
Good point. I don't understand celebrity worship. I worked at a large hotel near our city's main performance auditorium. I have met hundreds of celebs/sporties/politicians etc... They are all just normal people, a lot of them are dorky and weird. Plus, a LOT of celebs are really really short!
kbextn · 59 points · Posted at 19:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i mean personally the feeling of having long, painted and polished nails just feels good, and somehow it makes me feel more confident
(i’ve only had my nails done like that once though bc i have no money but i wouldn’t be opposed to it again in the future)
(sorry if that didn’t make sense)
Yeah. I paint my nails pretty often myself. I enjoy doing it, from picking out colours and thinking of designs to the actual painting of them. Once i'm all done with them I just feel so much better than when my nails are plain, so I totally agree with you on the confidence bit.
My theory: It makes your hands look longer and more slender for a more youthful appearance. Also the nails are smooth whereas aged fingernails tend to have more ridges. Its also a trend that i think women do for each other. When they get extra long and claw-like, i almost feel like its a power signal.
It makes sense under signaling theory. Women can’t maintain flawless long nails while working menial jobs, so having the nails signals to other people that they have high socioeconomic status.
People showing off how much they have has always been a thing and it changes with time. Being pale was attractive, because it showed you don't have to work on a field and had a higher status than a common field worker. Nowadays having a tan is attractive, because it shows you have the time and money to spend on nice vacations.
No it doesn’t. It’s really easy to get used to. It also helps with confidence & helps to distract from your shit every day life as a cashier :) because you have something to feel good about: your nice nails!
And you get that wonderful "tap tap tap" sound as you use the screens. I remember the pure joy that gave the first time I ever got my nails done. It's the little things that get you through the day lol
the really weird thing is that a lot of porn actresses have long nails, which seems to be a bad choice for people who are around genitals a lot
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 21:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who's in an environment/culture where that's viewed as normal and attractive, I find it so beyond strange reading how people are annoyed by it. Some people to the extent of exaggerating the length or going as far as to insult the women who wear them. Super weird to me how that bothers some people.
And alot of people dont wash at all or care. I'm willing to bet people getting expensive manicure ( nails that long are quite pricey) are using good hygiene. I would think if you spent that much money you would want to keep them clean because they draw attention? I'm sure there are people we encounter on a daily basis with short nails that have contaminated hands and nails.
And yes fecal matter gets everywhere. Yet most of the people talking shit about long nails probably keep their toothbrush in the bathroom.
Long nails harbor a lot more germs and bacteria, and I highly doubt they are using a nail brush when they wash their hands which is required to actually properly clean under them.
Okay. And hella people with short nails don't even wash. Theres alot of crap people do that spreads germs. Like take their phone into the bathroom lmfao. I never see anybody talking shit about that. It's just not weird to me because in the culture and environment o grew up in its pretty normal.
koyawon · 17 points · Posted at 22:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not finding them attractive, in the context of this post, can also mean you don't see why anyone would personally want them. As in, I'm never going to have talon shaped nails because I think they're ugly, therefore I wouldn't put them on myself for myself. I wouldn't enjoy having them, and - going back to the original question - I can't understand why anyone would. (And that's fine: we all find different things appealing. I dye my hair pink and purple, plenty of people can't understand why I enjoy doing thatn/find it attractive. my point is just that saying "they're not attractive" doesn't have to mean you think the only reason to have them is for other people).
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 21:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People have a really hard time understanding this
"why would you do something i don't like? i thought i was the center of the universe?"
It's not necessarily about hating on them or anything, I mean the thread is what do you genuinely not understand, so it's perfectly valid to wonder. It's weird to frame it like the OP is acting egotistical. They did say things a bit harshly but it's a perfectly fine question, especially in this thread. I'd think that you're mischaracterizing op's post, that's all.
JohnGB · -5 points · Posted at 21:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would assume they wrap their hand in tp and wipe. Also if you have long nails your probably pretty into your hands looking nice and keeping them looking clean. So ya know even if you did get something on them your supposed to be washing up after anyways.
thats0K · 10 points · Posted at 20:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or take contacts out?? im a dude and if my nails get longer than 2-3mm (which is pretty long on a dude but short for a woman), it's tough getting my contacts out because you use the index finger and thumb, near the tip, and any fairly significant length of nail as mentioned above can scrape my cornea!
I've always used one finger pad to slide contact to the far corner of my eye and then blink it out, into my hand. It's so much easier for me that way, but no one I know has ever done it like that.
I used to, so I guess it comes from that. My nail beds are pretty long and even with my nails trimmed, they're quite oval shaped. Now I almost always have my left hand trimmed short and nails on my right because of guitar, but still feel like I'd put my eye out of I tried any other way lol
Towards my temples. I've noticed it doesn't work as well if my eyes are really dry, and then it just feels weird like I'm trying to remove my cornea. (Do before smoke sessions if that's your jam lol)
I just can't get any grip without slowly rolling my fingers toward the eye until the nail hits it. thanks for your insight tho! never knew people took them out in so many ways.
JohnGB · -6 points · Posted at 21:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always imagine come crusty brown shit stuck under their nails.
No idea, it makes me feel physically sick to see them. Especially if they're growing out and you can see the natural nail-beds underneath. A few women in my office have them (in female too) and I dread when they come over with a bit of paper to show me something and I have to look at the nails while they're pointing out the relevant part.
literally its just facts--my family member is a NICU nurse and she isn't even allowed to have short acrylics or gel nails, let alone long ones--the bacteria and germs may put the babies at risk. truth hurts lol
People mostly get nails for themselves because it’s fun to be able to customize them every month and they also just make you feel more confident. And to answer your question, the same way you do it doesn’t affect anything in that sense.
Fudge ripple is what they're calling cocaine nowadays?
Hi-Day · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a male and I have a fair bit of talon nails, but only on my right hand. They are quite handy and practical actually. Especially for playing guitars. And it can be used to maintain conversation with people. And the best bit of practicality is I can use it as some sort of rudimentary head-scratcher to females. Some of them did got turned on.
JohnGB · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not talking about guitar nails (which at least have a function). I'm talking about these or worse.
Hi-Day · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, I apologize. I actually forgot how ugly it looks, until you showed the link there. Sorry for my misplaced answer there, mate.
JohnGB · 2 points · Posted at 14:02:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's awfully polite of you, but there's no need to apologise for an opinion.
I’ve joked for years about how to those people wipe their eyes. Or laying in bed at night, go to pick the nose and oops! Accidentally pulled out your brain.
People ride on rollercoasters and go to horror movies because they want to experience the theoretocal idea of danger, but nit be in danger.
Similarly, talon nails attached to a sane person present others with a safe danger, one they can enjoy when shaking their hand or sitting in their vicinity.
It can start conversations, too.
This is similar to the old man who people called "Pimp Larry," or somesuch.
The guy would wear bright colored clothes for no other reason than because people like seeing bright colors.
I think manicured nails are attractive on females, but nothing over like a 1/4 in (6mm) past the finger tip. Dudes with long fingernails is fucking weird and gross (-100 cool points). Nobody should have nasty toe nails either (call the toe truck).
Everything women do to enhance attractiveness started with a girl that was a bigger ho than the rest, all the men want her more and so the others start copying her.
Like high heels, it started as something butchers wore, then prostitutes started using them (personal theory is that they make squatting more comfortable) and they stuck as a trend.
I mean, butchers wore platform heels to keep their feet out of blood, but modern heels were invented for horse riding not too long after stirrups were. They were for men (which makes way more sense, when you think about it) and adopted by women as virtue signalling later, same as the long nails (can't get anything done in heels, also shows off money of having useless shoes made)
Think of it as mental masochism - usually the humiliation turns them on
psiufao · 26 points · Posted at 20:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add on to PicksAndLenses' contribution while taking into account your reply:
*What do you genuinely not understand?"
Mental masochism (or physical for that matter), or why/how humiliation can be a turn on.
I'm not kink-shaming, you* do you, I just don't get it. I can't shake the feeling that something really "bad" must have happened to a person in order for humiliation/pain to be conflated with sexual gratification.
*the royal "you" not (necessarily) you specifically, BlackerGames.
Even though it's entirely possible, being into humiliation doesn't have to be a sign of past abuse or something of that kind. It can be the taboo of the - a lot of fetishes are triggered by taboo. Take the rising trend of step-family porn - there's nothing that actually makes sex with step family members stand out other than the fact that it's considered to be wrong - it's not something that you should be doing, and it's a massive turn on.
So just as you're not supposed to have sex with family members, your S/O shouldn't have sex with other people, and the feeling of actively participating in this can be a turn on.
Alternatively, as I said in my first comment, it can just be that the person is into humiliation for no real reason. Maybe it's because of a shift of power dynamics, or maybe it really is just for no reason. Maybe for some deeply ingrained anthropologic reasons, or maybe, as you said, past triggers. But it can be a myriad of different reasons, and I doubt it's past triggers most of the time.
I get all that on a reading comprehension level and I do realize that kinks aren't always because of trauma or something like that but my (admittedly fairly vanilla) brain just doesn't understand how the connection between taboo/"you shouldn't be doing that"/humiliation and "NOW I'm turned on!" is formed or however you want to say it. Again, I am NOT trying to kink-shame it's just (as the post asks) something I genuinely don't understand. To me, even the thought of any of those things sends me to the exact opposite of the "that's hot!" spectrum but I firmly believe in the "to each their own" way of approaching life.
I appreciate the answer and that you didn't take offense! Cheers and stay healthy, friend!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Throwaway for this but I wanted to share. A girlfriend who I completely trusted cheated on me. It was bad, but I got over it. When I got a new girlfriend I noticed I was having fantasies about seeing her with another man, sometimes joining in, sometimes not. Sometimes with my permission and sometimes without my knowledge. I’ve fantasized that about every subsequent girlfriend, but none previous. Not the one who cheated on me or anyone before.
I’ve never followed through in it, never even mentioned it to any girlfriend, because I know I don’t actually WANT that to happen for so many reasons. But it’s there. Turns me on. Drives me wild.
I was sexually molested as a teen and have since fantasised about rape. A psychologist who is a friend of mine explained to me that it was "normal". This is fucked up how our mind chooses to react to a traumatic event!
Dioxyde · 10 points · Posted at 20:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, I have almost verbatim the same experience. Cheated on at a young age by a girl I was head over heels for...now get turned on by the thought of it for any girlfriends I've had since. Would never want to actually act on it...ugh
This is wild to me, I’ve been cheated on more than once and the thought of it happening again drives me insane. Being cheated on definitely changes a person and even in a new healthily relationship the thought was always there for me, even though I knew in my heart she wouldn’t. Insecurities I guess on my part.
Arousal as a term can mean sexual or just "heightened emotional state" so many things that cause a heightened emotion of any kind can also add to sexual pleasure. Rape kinks often have heightened fear, and cuckolding can either have heightened shame, or heightened jealousy depending on the person.
See this is an interesting take in my opinion. Has cuckholding always been a thing? Or is it becoming more prominent now that porn is more widespread? If people are conditioned to want to watch porn more often, it kind of makes sense why a lot of people would like the idea of seeing their so “star” in a live porn.
Fun fact, it's called cuckolding because people believed cuckoos were entering other birds nests and fucking their mate. Turns out cuckoos actually commit egg infanticide by replacing an egg with their own (by pushing it out) then fucking off elsewhere. The chick cuckoo then hatches pretty quickly and is fed by the parents, who are usually small birds. The cuckoo is a pretty big bird, so the chick outgrows the birds natural babies, then fucking murders the other chicks, either by pecking them to death and flinging their corpse out or flinging their live bodies to their death. Cuckoo grows up, leaves, and the cycle continues. A whole ass fetish ascribed to a misconception. Ain't humans wacky?
Don't say that man. It is so much fun! It's like when you are playing golf, and you shoot your balls across the field (and get a hole in one). Of course, instead of using golf balls, you use your own. Haha, the pain never gets old. I still miss Jody though, but at least I can be happy knowing that my nuts are treating someones grandma during these difficult times.
Wife and I got into swinging and I was a bit nervous how I would feel watching her have sex with another guy. When it has happened I enjoyed watching her receive pleasure, even if it wasn't me providing it. When we met she was a virgin and her sexuality was repressed by religion, so watching her have sex with another guy is exciting to me because she has she has opened up (pun not intended but it works) and had new experiences by embracing her sexuality. I also like the idea that she gets experiences that I don't/can't simply by trying something different. It also goes the other way, she enjoys that I get to do things with other women that she doesn't enjoy.
Imagine I'm Coke, I'm her favorite drink, but that doesn't mean she wouldn't enjoy a Sprite every once in a while.
With all that said to me this is different than cuckolding, which I feel like involves degradation and humiliation, I'm 100% not into that.
Me either! Its so gross to me, and sad. I think sex is only supposed to be something you do with your spouse anyway, but even if people are gonna have sex before marriage don’t have sex with other people during marriage!! That’s so sad. Just don’t even get married then.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 16:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically your body wants to reproduce. That’s like your only objective in Mother Nature’s eyes. If you reproduce, you win the game of life
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it's got to be more complicated than that. Because how do you explain gay people ? They obviously can't reproduce. Well they can but not following their sexual compass
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It gets complicated because we are a civilization with sets of rules and morals, but thousands of years ago, that was pretty much your only purpose, just like any other living being’s
[deleted] · 162 points · Posted at 18:29:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like others have kinda said, it has to do with an inhibition of empathy. That can come from either a mental disorder, e.g. an underdeveloped brain (similar to how chimps and gorillas torture animals), or having it broken through repeated abuse, simply lashing out from or replicating the cruelty imposed on them.
The former is shown in many serial killers, who often show no brain activity in their amygdala when confronted with images or thoughts of violence.
I must say I disagree, a lot of people shave their heads because they want to try new hairstyles/are sick of the way they look/ want to grow their hair from scratch to see how it turns out. I do understand what you mean, and it’s probably like that for some people who want to constantly be in control but for a lot of others including me it’s just for.... ‘fashionable’ reasons
I don’t understand how internet works. At all. Like how does this tangible object we can make turn into an endless web on a screen where I can see anything and go anywhere?!?!? I’ve tried learning about it. I don’t get it. Hahahha
Not any sort of professional so if I'm wrong please someone correct me, but this is how I understand it, basically the internet is in its most simple form a web of connections between computers, this means that If I was to get 5 computers and connect them I would create my own private "internet". Now for the World Wide Web. Let's take for example Google, Google has thousands of massive football field sized warehouses of computers with a fuck ton of storage, these are called servers. And each one of these servers is connected via large underground connections to internet service providers. The internet service providers have cables to cellphone towers that use basically radio waves to connect to your phone if you are using wireless data, or have phone lines that connect to your houses modem. The modem takes this signal from the ISP and gives it to the router which routes the signal to your device. In order to connect to other countries we still use physical cables that traverse the oceans and these basically function the exact same way.
I am by no means a professional (I haven’t even finished high school) but I think I kinda get the very basic gist.
The way I think of it is just file sharing on a massive scale. You could say it’s like Airdrop on an Iphone or Email. Your device (computer, phone, etc.) sends a request a request (a computer’s version of an Email) to another device for information. If your using Google it’ll be to Google’s servers (massive computers like the guy before said), that process the request and find the information you’re looking for. The server then sends the response (another computer Email) back to your device. Your device then displays the information.
That could be completely wrong but the internet really is just what it says, a net of information in between devices.
So basically, conputers send out packets with bits of information on them. These packets have an adress on them. The router sends it to the location by other routers (i think.) This route can change midway through. And packets sent at the same time may have different routes. Some guy ITT compared it to a postal service, and this is correct. It may not always be the best way, but it works.
Also, they're hidden most of the time, so there's a mystery to them. The fact that someone allows you to touch theirs feels very intimate.
Finally, they're an erogenous zone. Anything that can make my woman feel good kinda makes me like it by default.
edit:
Lol, two people have already PM'd me looking to sell foot pics. I know y'all got nothing better to do now that we're all stuck inside, but c'mon, that shit's never going to work.
[deleted] · 322 points · Posted at 14:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I had a girlfriend that would get mad worked up by foot rubs. It escalated to the point of licking her toes to get her wet. Never once did I want a foot job though.
And my next girlfriend wasn't into it, so I didn't keep up with the toe-sucking.
01dSAD · 34 points · Posted at 17:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your response, including the edit, reinforces my fascination with human sexual responses to distinct stimuli. While I am not a foot guy, I now have a much better understanding due to your comment. Thank you for sharing.
It's not just that they're hidden, it's also that they're verboten - the fact that society views them as off-limits sexually, or as gross, makes it seem pleasantly rebellious and subversive to enjoy them that way.
Same, i realised it quite early.I don't think it is a rebellious thing and i also don't think the body map that places the feet near the genitals that someone always brings up is the reason either, that is more about like to have your own feet touched i guess. I simply think that a well groomed and taken care of foot is a sign of health and in some way, social standing. A woman with nice feet, takes care of herself and isn't living in the streets. That makes it a marker for succes. That makes it perfectly evolutionary explainable as to be something that attracts someone sexually. But i do agree with the hidden aspect. Not seeing them normally makes it more exciting, when you do.
Somehow buttholes feel less verboten than feet. Unless we're talking about putting your mouth on one, in which case they're equally verboten in my mind, even as a dude who loves anal.
damn, this makes sense now. thanks for explaining, dude. this whole time people have only really given me zero answers or that thing where it's like "oh, the part of the brain for arousal sometimes crosses over to the limbs part" but that doesn't help me visualize and understand it in any way,
WR810 · 10 points · Posted at 19:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is literally an infinite number of foot pics on the Internet.
Why anyone would buy them from a stranger is a mystery to me.
It's the same thing with just straight up titty pics. Why do people go on Tinder to try and find someone to swap nudes with? There are billions of images of very attractive girls with very attractive tatas at the tips of their fingers. It's knowing that someone took those pictures specifically for you, or at the very least sent them to you. You didn't just find those pictures. You had an interaction that lead to someone sending those pictures. That makes it feel more intimate.
WR810 · 6 points · Posted at 20:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Further proving my point and the reason I included "from a stranger".
The few times I've bought fetish material it's because the model had some special appeal to me. It wasn't a solicitation from someone I'd never heard of.
Alot of people don't realize how sensitive the feet are! I went to foot massage once and I swear I was about to melt on that chair!
I dont really see feet as anything sexual but something that people give too little credit for!
Idk about the hidden part, don't people walk around barefoot pretty often? And flip flops? Heck in summer, I see hundreds of feet everywhere, and they're just like any other body part
samx3i · 1 points · Posted at 13:04:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depending where you live, climate, societal norms, etc. feet are more often covered/hidden than say face, neck, arms, hands, etc.
Even in the case of barefootedness, the soles are usually obscured by virtue of being stood upon.
It obviously isn't, it's just that approaching someone to sell them is not the best way.
Even if I were to buy foot pics, I'd look around for sellers that I liked and then I'd be the one asking to buy. If you're approaching to sell, I generally tend to think you're a dude.
And on a more personal note, I really really dislike sex work, so approaching me to sell foot pics is never ever going to work.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 15:26:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do selling feet pics actually count as sex work though, I get it is a fetish. But sex work eh. Like I love veiny strong arms/hands but would that be considered sex work. Well I suppose I don't get off from it and some people do with feet pics.
Actually now I'm really confused, why do people love feet so much lol
I do not have a foot fetish. But the body map that lies in the brain has the feet placed very near to the genitals in some people this can cause sexual pleasure to be generated by stimulating the foot.
I think there's been a medical case of a woman who could orgasm via foot stimulation.
She had a nerve disease or accident, I can't remember, and something went fucky, and since those areas are so close together, her brain got them properly jumbled up and they were one and the same after a while.
The area in the brain that represents sensory information from the feet still exists. the area representing the Genitals sort of takes over that area in the brain. Sorry if I didn’t explain that very well it’s been a while since I learned about it if you’re interested V.S RAMACHANDRAN explains phantom limb experiences really well if you want to give him a google :)
I also do not have a foot fetish but if you touch my bare feet I will kangaroo kick you into the next dimension. I hate having my feet touched because it hurts. My muscles contract and I have horrible leg spasms if you try to run your finger across the bottom of my foot.
But surely, their own foot? I have a foot fetish, and i have heard this explanation before. It just never seemed to explain it very well though. My take on it is, as i said in another comment:
I think that a well groomed and taken care of foot is a sign of health and in some way, social standing. A woman with nice feet, takes care of herself and isn't living in the streets. That makes it a marker for succes. That makes it perfectly evolutionary explainable as to be something that attracts someone sexually.
Well said, my wife has really pretty feet, takes care of them, they are soft and never stinky. I would think less of a women with nasty smelly jacked up feet.
That theory makes sense and it also explains why some people would be attracted to feet while other people are totally out of the loop on the foot thing, their brains just got hooked up a little differently. In this model the genitalia to foot connection wouldn’t be a defect (it doesn’t seem to cause problems for people or associated with ill health) just a difference found in a minority of human brains.
[deleted] · 48 points · Posted at 15:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The closest I've come to getting it was playing with my wife's feet. They're just so small and pretty, compared to my hefty man feet. Maybe those guys are picking up on the femininity of small feet, I dunno.
Fun fact! This has to do with the somatosensory cortex in your brain! Basically regions of the brain that process sensory information. The region of the brain that processes your feet senses is closest in proximity to the area processing your genitals. In some cases, these senses can excited nearby sensory neurons and transfer a little. I'm doing a terrible job explaining this. Grad school was a long ass time ago. Google the somatosensory cortex homunculus and looks at pictures.
I don't understand that fetish or the devotee fetish, it's fetishizing people with physical handicaps. Im a paraplegic male and I've had random people message me on here wanting nudes. I don't think my nudes would have been anything to look at before I was paralyzed and now the fucker doesn't even work so why?
AJRW- · 4 points · Posted at 17:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just turn me on , & I find it really sexy when women shpw their feet
What's the difference? The only one I've heard of so far is that people don't like flat feet because obviously, people like curves, and that arch is a pretty good curve I must say.
What else? What are some attributes of a good foot? I need to know how much mine are worth.
Preferences vary a lot. There are some that like flat feet I'm sure. Another thing people have opinions on about feet are toe length. Most can agree that bunions and corns and shit like that are a no no.
You mean like, long and thin toes? I mean I also heard like, only 14% of the population has their second toe longer than big toe, I'm guessing that's also a thing that people fancy?
I dunno man there's just something so feminine and beautiful about well pedicured or nice feet. Also the smell of nice feet is pleasing to my senses at least
The feet are the foundation of every human being. They are the structural support that the entire bodily system relies on for coordination and balance.
That kind of importance and dependance is not unusual to be idolized
I believe it’s because the parts of the brain that control feet and attraction are really close together and they like mix or something I’m not too sure about that part
I still don't think I ever seen a person even online that has a sexual fetish for eyeglasses. But I really want to believe that there's a set of people who are antagonized by daily life.
They are also the only people who will care about what material glasses are made out of. No one's ever asked.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the major factors is that anatomically, the part of your brain that processes sexual attraction and the part of your brain that processes extremities are very close to each other. Inevitably, certain people end up with some crossover between the neurological pathways, and voila, foot fetishes are born.
So here's an explanation I've heard which may or may not be true.
In your brain, the parts which pertain to the rest of your body are usually in a logical order. The part which worries about your hands is next to the part which processes your arms is next to the part which processes your shoulders and so on. However, the part which controls your feet is right next to the part which focuses on your genitals and sometimes the wires get crossed.
Think of what gets you aroused Boobs? Butts? Abs? For some people it’s feet. I can’t really explain it, but the thought of others not being into feet is weird to me lol
Read this a while back, so take it with a grain of salt.
In your brain there's sort of a 'map' of the human body, and associations with each part. On this map, feet and genitalia are fairly close to one another, and the 'sexual attraction' association blends over due to this proximity.
I think at a fundamental level it is impossible to explain an interest in a thing. You can get close, circling around that drain, but never actually nailing what it is that does something for a person.
This is doubly so for fetishes. Like all of them. What makes my dick go off is fucking inexplicable, even to myself. I can hazard guesses, but at the end of the day it works so I go with it.
I heard on a podcast that fetishes often come about because that thing became associated with sex early in a person's life. The example they gave for feet was: a little boy spies on his sister's friend undressing during a sleepover under her bedroom door, but he can only see the friend's feet through the crack as she takes her clothes off. He gets aroused and now that arousal is connected to the sight of feet.
Any fetish really. Why do some things turn people on but not others? And fetishes that don’t have to do with sexual body parts. It’s so weird how our brains work.
Luwe95 · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriend has no foot fetish but he likes to massage and kiss my feet and I really enjoy that. He says he likes my soft skin and that they are so small and petite.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once worked in a sex shop /adult store. A lesbian shopper once heard me talking about that and explained it like this. She said nothing sexier than a woman who takes care of her feet because she takes care of herself(&other parts) and that's sexy. It made sense because it's good hygiene. And that's sexy.
This is a result of wires in the brain crossing making you think that feet are sexual. Apparently the sectors related to feet and genitalia are right next to eachother in the brain.
[deleted] · 507 points · Posted at 18:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there really an obsession with them? I just assumed that rarely a famous woman will think “hey men like big butts” and then decide to have a beanbag chair surgically implanted in the hopes of getting more attention.
I mean, I get liking a normal butt, and I'm down for that, but a huge one? I've never understood that either. Like, just because it's bigger doesn't mean it's better, honestly it's probably the opposite
ASSuming here, butt, Doesn't a gigantic ass make certain sex positions impossible unless you're hung like a stallion?
Small dick dudes obsessed with huge asses are in for a world of disappointment if they ever get the chance to do sexytime things with one, right? I need answers.
It doesnt make them impossible but you might lose an inch or so. Asses are usually squishy too so you can make it work if that makes sense. It's the same with very overweight women. There's a lot of padding there.
I didn't know what the word humongous meant. And I assumed it meant something like a caveman would say. Humongous, humongous!! It just sounds like caveman words.
Idk about tooo huge asses, but nice ones i do know. Men likes boobs, ass and a good hip to waist ratio because back in the day curves suggested fertility. When we were cavemen if a woman was curvy they can raise the child (breast milk) and can survive (tend to have more fat).
I’m not a scientist butt, I think I remember reading that the leading theory on men finding butts attractive is that it’s an indicator of healthy fat reserves, which in turn indicate the health of the woman and makes her more attractive from an evolutionary point of view
Interdisciplinary education is excellent for learning, and probably great for innovation too. It’s been hard for people to get out of the factory specialization mindset even though we’re in the digital age now, but education research makes its slow way forward with interdisciplinary stuff.
Henrek · 24 points · Posted at 21:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not exactly the answer but I saw an explanation of why there is those weird math question that you always ask yourself if you'll ever use it in real life or when teachers teach a different formula. It all comes down to just basic problem solving, doesnt matter the question, its a problem and you learning how to overcome it help builds on your abilities to problem solve when faced with any problem. Sorry if i didnt explain it well its been awhile since ive seen the explanation
This is the correct answer. School is just as much about teaching you how to react to unfamiliar/uncomfortable situations as it is about teaching you whatever specific thing you're specializing in. Without the non-degree things, you could be technically proficient, but otherwise useless outside of very specific situations if you don't know how to approach something unfamiliar. It's about teaching you how to think, rather than teaching you the content itself.
Whether the ratio is appropriate or not is a very fair question, but there's absolutely validity in non-degree classes and learning things you'll never use again.
This is true, yet every math teacher in my life dismissed the “We’ll never use this” thing. I never realized that’s why these problems are taught until one math teacher finally said that we were never actually going to use the formulas, it was just to learn problem solving.
It took until 8th grade for a teacher to finally fucking explain that.
Same reason you had to do verbal and written reports about things you had no interest in all through school- You were learning to research, cogitate, collate, and reach an evidentiary conclusion that you can explain to your peers in a comprehensible manner. Those are essential life skills.
This one's actually kind of straight forward if you think about it.
Highschool education is supposed to prepare you for one of two things, more studying in college, or getting job somewhere. In either case, the classes are supposed to be diverse enough to enable you to continue in whatever path you choose to go with. You could end up a biologist, or a chemist, or a historian..etc, thus it's important that you have the basics for them.
College works the same way, you'll either get your Bachelors and move on to some job, or continue your education with a Masters, the master degrees, while a bit more focused on a specific field, are still quite diverse and therefore requires you to have the necessary knowledge for them. You could study computer science in Bachelors, and continue on to be an Interaction Designer at some company, or study a Masters in Computer Systems and Networks, hence it's important that you have the knowledge for either field through your Bachelor's courses.
At the end of the day, Highschool and College are meant to prep you for whatever you'll end up doing eventually.
TFRek · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and then they just hand out degrees to brain-dead famous people.
vivvav · 2 points · Posted at 01:11:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This right here. I was studying screenwriting and needed to meet requirements in math, humanities, etc. I wound up taking a bullshit meteorology course no more advanced than middle school science just to meet my science credit for the general education part of my degree. When I asked why I needed to do all this shit, they said to "have a well-rounded education".
Well what the FUCK was the point of that first twelve years of school?
People saw calves drinking milk, just like human babies do, and wondered if we could have some too. The real question is why we started drinking milk from other animals when we didn't develop lactose tolerance as adults until way way long after we started drinking milk. Have a slight memory that cheese contains less lactose than milk, which would explain it, but doesn't explain how we figured out how to make cheese in the first place.
Humans likely started drinking animal milk out of desperation. People who are lactose intolerant can still get some nutrients out of it, but don't benefit as much as those who are tolerant to it. If you're starving and on the brink of death, you're probably still going to eat/drink something that you know will make you sick, if it means a chance of surviving.
The gene mutation that allows us to drink milk gave a huge evolutionary advantage to people who could use it, and thrived in communities that domesticated livestock. It's the reason behind lactose intolerance being very prevalent in modern communities that don't have a history of domesticated livestock - there was no evolutionary advantage to being able to drink milk.
tl;dr version, everyone drank milk to survive, but those that could fully process it thrived evolutionarily and passed their gene mutations on to people who were more apt to thrive due to increased nutrient uptake over those who couldn't process it.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans produce milk at a much smaller input:output ratio as other animals. Proportionally, we do not produce a lot of it, and the milk we do produce is nutritionally expensive. Ever notice how livestock has a lot more nipples than humans? It's because they have larger litters of offspring, need more nipples to nurse them all, and as such, need to produce a lot more milk to sustain their babies.
The animals that we drink milk from eat different things than humans; we can't survive on only grass, they can. Humans milk farms would require very different intake than cows/goats/sheep, and would very likely be a net negative in terms of usable calories produced. Think of how desperation started in the first place; there's plenty of grass around for livestock to eat, but food suitable for human consumption is harder to come by. A human milk farm would be like having a factory that takes cars and dismantles them to make cars, as opposed to a factory that takes raw materials and makes cars. One is using a useful resource to make a useful resource, the other is taking something unusable in its raw form and making something useful out of it.
This same thinking, but with cheese. How do you go from fresh milk from another species to... cheese.
If I recall correctly, one hypothesis out there was that when older humans killed bovine or such, they found curdled cheese inside the stomachs of the dead animals. They did a bit of thinking and bam. Cheese. Yuck.
I thought it was because people used cow stomachs as bags to carry milk, and the enzymes in the stomach caused it to turn into cheese. And I guess when you need to eat whatever food you can get you're not gonna just throw it out.
... wait until you find out humans masturbate male animals in order to collect prized sperm... dog breeders and cow breeders do this, for example
Imho, it's animal cruelty worse than imprisonment because if aliens started forcefully masturbating people for sperm collection, it would be some traumatizing sexual assault.
How people cheat after years or even decades in a marriage. Especially when there are kids involved.
I genuinely can't put myself in these people's shoes. Is breaking up your family worth it for some strange cock/pussy? Or even if you are "in love", is that really a fair trade in those people's minds?
cheating is usually nothing to do with sex, usually the cheating is a catalyst (it's amazing how sloppy people having affairs are...like they want to get caught), because there's nothing really left in the relationship anymore and something drastic is needed to end it..
I guess I can't understand breaking up after all that time either, to a degree. I mean, there's still love there, even if there's no more romance involved, right?
And even if there's nothing left in the relationship between them and their spouse, there are still tons of things left in the relationship between their kids and their mother/father with whom they're are breaking up. I suppose it's never going to be the same again.
People can change over time. Sometimes there isnt love there anymore. People do horrible things to each other all the time.
As far as sticking it out for the kids, they know when their parents aren't happy. Growing up listening to your parents fight and be horrible to each other can be much worse than them getting divorced. Two happy homes are better than one miserable one.
This. I was a toddler when my parents divorced so all I ever knew was them in separate homes. Every two weeks we would pack and go across town to the other home, it was an adventure for me. My older sisters were old enough to understand what was going on and 30 years later still have trauma around marriage and relationships.
[deleted] · 29 points · Posted at 19:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom’s cousin and his wife divorced when their kids were in college. I think they were “sticking it out” until the kids were out of the house. It definitely wasn’t a snap decision. But kids know when their parents aren’t happy, as another poster mentioned.
My best friends parents decided to divorce, they said that they had been aware of it for a long time but they wanted the kids to be older and more mature so it was easier to understand. He always said he was really grateful for that, he doesn’t know how many years it was like that, but he is happy that it happened when he was 17 and his brother was 16. He said had the divorce happened before the teens (12 and down) he would have been a lot more significantly impacted than he was.
Like the other poster said, people change over time, you are not the same person at age 45 that you were are age 22. Cheating is usually more about emotional emptiness than sex, but not to say sex doesn't play a role in some cases. Imagine being married for 15 years and you have sex 3 or 4 time a year at most, that is probably more common than people think, and could easily lead to cheating.
Staying in a failed relationship is a really bad idea, trust me it's torture and will drain the life and happiness from you. It would be like having a job that you hate and makes you miserable, but there is no vacation or weekends to escape it, it's non stop.
i feel like sometimes cheating is really just the result of this hesitancy to break up a long-term relationship. they're thinking about their kids' lives, their own lives, and all that would have to be untangled and figured out when they tell the person they've been with possibly longer than they were single that they don't want to be with them anymore. i bet a lot of cheaters probably just feel trapped.
Thank you so much. Thank goodness there are people like you in the world, or this life wouldn’t be worth living. You have a great day too Squirrel . :) :) :)
The only reason a person will cheat is if their needs are not being met by the relationship, and it is not possible, for financial or safety or child reasons, to leave the relationship.
Stable and loving doesn't mean that a person is getting the intimacy or companionship or even respect that they need.
[deleted] · 39 points · Posted at 19:39:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is false. Cheaters are responsible for their actions. Just like anyone else. Plenty of people cheat everyday who are completely safe, financially stable on their own, and childless
That’s true, I agree. But that’s not what happened in my case. Not all cases are the same. There’s a difference between a serial cheater who doesn’t give a damn for the feelings of others, and just goes around hurting people willy-nilly, and someone who endured 14 years of loveless,sexless marriage with an abusive man and then eventually falls in love with another person. Some people have no conscience. Some feel terribly guilty even though they probably shouldn’t. You can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has there ever been a cheater who didn’t blame the victim?
Pretty much any statement that has "only" in it is false, and this is no exception. People cheat for personal reasons, low self esteem, sometimes its a compulsion, sometimes it's just impulsivity and the thrill of it
My personal definition of "stable and loving" would include such things as intimacy, companionship, and respect. But I can see how it doesn't imply that.
You can't really call a relationship stable if not everything is being done to fill both partner's needs. That's on me though I guess.
pauLo- · 3 points · Posted at 08:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So ignoring the patronising introduction calling people naive....
In this case you chose to cheat rather than leave. Which is exactly what OP said. You could have left instead of cheating. If you were scared to leave, why were you not scared to cheat. That seems hard to reconcile. Ultimately you made a choice that many people would disagree with. If your point is that you were young and scared then doesn't that just further validate his OPs point? The decision wasn't made because of the rationality of it. I'm not judging your choices or anything but this post is incredibly condescending and self justifying.
I don’t wanna sound like that asshole or anything like that but you definitely had a choice. You were probably just scared to make that choice because of the possible repercussions.
I think that's pedantic - "My job is toxic, hard on me physically, I make so little money, but I have no choice but to stay." "Well nobody is stopping you from quitting and finding another one."
Well sure, everything is a choice, nobody has a gun to one's head preventing them from quitting, but when potential repercussions in this hypothetical are that you lose your lodgings because you were living paycheck-to-paycheck and you can't get assistance for your family that you needed your meager earnings to take care of, I think it's quite fair to note that when they say they have no choice, they don't mean it in the literal sense of the word "choice".
For real. It's risk vs reward. And in this case its high risk low reward...or more precisely, unknown reward, which is arguably worse than low reward because at least with low reward you know what you are getting in to.
Just because you don't have an immediate choice doesn't mean you don't have a long-term choice. If a job is toxic, you are making the choice to not look for a new job.
A shitty job where you need it to survive is much different than staying with another person because they support you financially but don’t treat you right.
If your job is terrible. You have the option to look for another job or get a 2nd job without any moral integrity being shot.
Life isn’t as simple as getting up and quitting you’re right, but life isn’t so complex where you’re just trapped and have no other option unless you’re just scared of the one way to freedom. Cheating is never alright but it also ain’t alright to tolerate a terrible relationship because you “have no choice.” There’s always a choice whether you like the choice or you don’t. If a dude threatens to kill you. Call the fucking cops. If he pays all the bills and the house is in his name. Look to your friends to see if you can stay with them while getting back on your feet. There’s a simple answer to a lot of stuff. People just don’t like the answer so they’d rather deal with the shit they got now because they don’t want to take a step down. It sounds like an asshole statement but it is how it is.
Resorting to cheating will do absolutely nothing but make things worse than breaking it off.
[deleted] · 34 points · Posted at 19:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for calling me out. I was going to elaborate more, but accidentally deleted my paragraph so just settled with the one sentence.
What I’ll say is this. I understand if you depend on the guy financially or how you grew up and were taught, whatever it was. But I still believe you had the choice to leave. Maybe life wouldn’t be as good, but the choice is still there.
I’ve had a similar situation happen when I was 10. Maybe it’s different, but whatever. My mom she was struggling and was pretty much homeless. She gave me the option to stay with her or live with my dad. I chose to stay with her because I didn’t like my dad for personal reasons. I would do the same if I was in a shitty relationship. I’ve experienced homelessness before and it fucking sucks. It does, but I’d honestly rather deal with that than to be in a shitty relationship where my partner doesn’t even respect me.
its horribly unaware of outside perspective, that perspective being that no one is like most people. everyone has stories, everyone has hardship, everyone. you are no more or less unique than anyone else. see /r/notliketheothergirls
your judgment of someone else's choices isn't nulled because you're not like most people. its nulled because even with context you refuse to give in that you might be wrong or that its okay that they wouldn't make your choices since they aren't you. and that makes you very much like most people.
You're sounding exactly like that asshole. You've obviously never been in a situation where your life would be threatened if you try to leave, or you would lose all your family and or friends and or job. Shut the fuck up about things you know nothing about.
I mean, I've known plenty of good people who "cheat" because it's the only out they can see as being safe. Like, by being able to leave and have someone to protect you, house you, and love you, you have the ability to safely leave, as opposed to breaking up and hoping you can get to someone's house before your partner beats you. Plus, abuse psychologically changes you.
How was Kingmir1 being judgmental?
Based off of redditalisong66’s comment it sounds like she was afraid of leaving so it seems reasonable to assume she was scared of the outcome from choosing to leave. Ultimately Kingmir1 is right, whether she chose to stay or leave was 100% up to her, there may be consequences for both choices but it doesn’t mean she didn’t have a choice. Claiming circumstances prevented you from having a choice is only an excuse used to justify your actions or choices. There is no judgment here, it’s all simply the truth?
twlscil · 11 points · Posted at 21:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The notion of choice in this situations isn’t that easy. Do you choose happiness over shelter? Over life? When someone has a literal or figurative gun to your head, choices aren’t as simple as they seem.
The choice is only as hard as you make it. This is a perfect example of the saying, “Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t” and the choice is “hard” in your scenario because you’re “sacrificing” shelter for happiness but why wouldn’t you pick happiness? Because you’re afraid of what might happen without shelter? A literal gun to your head is a situation outside of your control, it may seem to make the choice harder but it’s probably because it’s a good excuse to justify actions?
“I would have died if I left”
Would you have really? How could you know that without leaving?
No... You literally don’t even see options when you are the victim of abuse. And it’s an abusers mindset to think that, “if they don’t like it, they can leave”.
You aren’t choosing happiness (i was being sloppy earlier when I suggested that, as I should have said that how it appears)... You are choosing to leave, and maybe be less miserable... and maybe be more miserable...
Please, get out and talk to victims of abuse before you suggest that these decisions are easy, because they aren’t. Even if it’s not physical abuse, but emotional, and peer group pressure... If you are religious, that’s a whole other thing, where you could be condemning yourself to hell for not being a good spouse.
These aren’t simple choices, and often the options aren’t even apparent.
I am not really sure know how to respond to this? It’s not like I said seeing all of the possible choices is easy.. The point was and still is you always have a choice? And with that abuser mind set, you should change the thought to, “if I don’t like it, then I can leave” because that is what I am trying to get across. No one can tell you what to do or make you do something you don’t want to (as long as the situation doesn’t have things out of your control). If your choices are to:
leave and maybe be less miserable
leave and maybe be more miserable
stay and guaranteed be miserable
Then you have still have choices, leave or stay, even if the outcome of leaving is unknown. Each person is responsible for their own actions, you don’t have to rely on external factors to make your choices.. and I am not implying that in a “screw everyone, as long as I’m good” type of way. I am sorry I don’t know how to explain this better, I really wish I could.
But based off your response it looks like you assume I have never dealt with any kind of abuse and that is not true, I have learned some hard lessons in my life. One thing I learned is that if my family or friends try to get me to do something I don’t want to (peer pressure) the answer is no, and I accept the consequences of my choice even if that means those people won’t be a part of my life anymore.
Also I know this is probably reads as an “easier said than done” kind of response, some people may have a really hard time dealing with peer pressure, and allow that to influence their choices but that is also their choice even if they can’t tell. Everyone is literally doing the best they can, all the time. If you feel you can’t make a choice because you’re worried you will go to hell because your religion says you will then that is the best you can do and no one can ask for more. But you still made the choice to allow an external influence to sway you and no number of excuses or justifications will change the fact that you still made that choice.
I'm not trying to be accusatory or combative, just point out that it looks WAY simpler from the outside...
Oddly, I have known about equal number of men and women in toxic relationships, and the overriding sentiment has been one of not wanting to fail... Everyone can see their partner is toxic, but since the person taking most of the brunt of their toxicity seems to making excuses for them, it's hard to reach out from the outside... Once they do finally figure out that they might be better off, they (and myself) have figured that out in short order... In my case, I got divorced shortly after my 20th wedding anniversary...
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:36:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edit: to elaborate, the surest sign someone is about to make a shitload of excuses for their shitty behavior is starting with “oh, anyone with more integrity and accountability than me is naive.”
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:58:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup
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That’s not a reason to cheat. Even if your partner isn’t communicating to you, you have a personal responsibility to communicate your intentions with the new person to your partner and end the relationship once you realize your desire to be unfaithful. You’ve worded your post as if you had no choice. No matter if you were dating a brick wall, that wall deserves to know as you’ve entered a mutual agreement/relationship with them. I’m not saying that there can’t be factors contributed by your partner, such as the negligence you mentioned, that increase your desire to not be in that relationship anymore. But to imply that your partner is accountable for your infidelity is simply incorrect. Cheating in this situation would just weigh on a person’s conscience more (and for a longer time) than an uncomfortable conversation (note, letter, anything) would. Why not leave the relationship knowing you did everything properly rather than leaving with such a burden? I understand I’m an outsider to this situation, but to say that you were unable to communicate to your partner because your partner was bad at communicating to you is a blame shift and is not correct.
Disagree. This is a common pattern with cheaters who are unhappy in their primary relationship. They can't leave until they have the security of another person and place to go to. I'm not saying I blame you for being unhappy. I don't. It sounds like a shit situation. But you could have left on your own, you didn't until you found someone else...and regardless of whether or not you meant to, in a way you did use them to get out.
Is that right? Well you seem to know an awful lot more about my situation than I do. OK!
Thanks for the heads up there. Although that’s not my memory of the situation at all. But since you seem to know my life history so much better than I do, I ought acquiesce to your superior knowledge...
Well, well well. I could have left on my own - but I didn’t until I found someone else, huh? And do you recall if I went to live with that person at that time? Did I marry that guy, or what? See you would know so much better than I do...
Hmmm I could have left at any time, and yet I didn’t until I found another person. Fancy that! Huh! . . . Not the way I recall it happening at all! When exactly did I leave my husband to live with this other person then? Because you see, my memory tells me the exact opposite of what you’re saying!
Guess you know what you’re talking about though huh? 😂😂😂
I mean, or they’re fully aware you’re going to rip apart anything they say and have no interest in trying to understand, just want to judge and feel superior?
Let’s be real, is there anything they could have said that you wouldn’t have been shitty about?
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He hypnotized you into a 4 year long affair? Thots today have no limits I swear
Yeah, dude may have had a sex/porn addiction... Addictions make people emotionally unavailable and uninterested in their spouse. So sorry you had to go through that.
Counseling and learning the ropes of healthy emotional processing may be the only way out of the vicious cycle
I don’t know what was wrong with him, but I was his second wife. He remarried within a year of me leaving him and he’s now on his fifth wife. So there’s something not right there, for sure.
I can’t understand how people cheat at all. If your needs are being neglected. Communicate that shit. If you don’t love this person anymore. Break up.
To 1. What if he/she doesn't do anything about it? Or doesn't want to talk about it? You can't force someone to have sex. You can't force someone to want sex.
To 2. You can not be attracted to someone sexually but still love them, one may think its the same thing but its not.
There was a time when the separation of church and state was inconceivable, imo a separation of sex and love is in a similar place in todays society, but they should be separated, having sex and loving someone are two different things.
I thing for your second point, you can also not love someone anymore and still be sexually attracted to them. You can also care about someone and their wellbeing but not be “in love” with them.
I think also, you can love someone, but want different things in life, so it makes it harder to break up with them or have those hard conversations because you love them and you don’t want to stop loving them even if it is hurting both of you.
To 1. Well then we weren’t meant to be. If she can’t make that effort to at least try to get something going. It’s over.
To 2. It’s different when you’re in a relationship vs when you’re single. When you’re single. You can have no feelings attached sex. When you’re in a relationship with someone. You should not only like/love that person for who they are. But you also need to be sexually attracted to that person. If you only love who this person is. Then you’re just a friend. It’s a combination of both that makes a relationship. If you both agree that you’re not gonna have much sex in your relationship. That’s one thing. But if you’re going into a relationship expecting to have a reasonable amount of sex and you’re getting nothing. That’s another thing.
Sex and love should only be separated if your intentions aren’t relationship purposes. If you’re in a relationship. Both need to be an option unless agreed upon. I would never date someone I love, but couldn’t see myself fucking her. That doesn’t even make sense. That sounds more like Family member (unless you’re into incest for some odd reason) or a close friend.
[deleted] · -12 points · Posted at 17:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. Wouldn’t care if she was the most amazing person on earth. If we cannot be intimate. Then we aren’t gonna fare well in a relationship. Would rather her be a friend. Like I said. I understand if she’s got personal things going on that could reduce the sex we have. Sex ain’t everything but it’s something that differentiates a relationship from a friendship. You take that away and we’re just close friends. Maybe you see my views as toxic or shallow but it is what it is.
I fantasize about that everlasting bond between me and another person, but if you can’t even get intimate with me. I’d rather us have that everlasting bond.... as friends. I love sex it’s fun. It’s amazing. It’s something that is even better when you have it with someone you love. But if the person I love takes that away from me, and I get frustrated. There’s a major problem.
A dead bedroom is as much of a problem as is any other relationship problem. And if you can’t even put the effort to make that up. Then why should I continue to date you?
If you aren’t willing to give your partner some for reasons that aren’t valid like kids, depression or you aren’t allowed to have sex or whatever. Then why the fuck are you in a relationship? You have a good dynamic? Well so do friends.
I agree. Even if there’s no ability to communicate, give them an ultimatum or find a safe place and leave if your partner is abusive. See a therapist, confide in friends, get a divorce, try to rectify things. Cheating just brings more factors into an already problematic relationship.
It's usually an issue due to communication. When someone gets cheated on, they usually have some responsibility in the regard that they are being a shitty partner, and the cheater doesn't know how to communicate how they are feeling about it, so they look outside. Cheating makes the cheater feel pretty shitty too.
You gotta understand. Love is about making those sacrifices, love is like one of those feelings that’s very hard to break. So yeah it’ll be extremely hard to break up with her. But tolerating a dead bedroom and letting myself become frustrated because I love her is a recipe for disaster on my end. I could never bring myself to cheat no matter what so the next option is breaking it off.
I understand if there are situations that can mess you up like pregnancy, Depression, a lot of stress. But if those aren’t factors into why you can’t make that attempt to sacrifice for me. Then it just isn’t gonna work out. I can make that sacrifice to wait a while just because you don’t feel like it. But if you can’t make that sacrifice. No amount of love is gonna stop me from making that hard decision. Relationships is a partnership and if I’m the one doing all the sacrificing/leg work. Then there’s a major issue and if communication doesn’t solve that issue. I’d rather be single and have her as a friend instead of a friend with a bf/gf label.
I've talked to people in that situation, and they love their partner so much, but there is no resolution to the dead bedroom. Maybe they consider ending things, but the reality is not that simple. They also love their kids even more than their partner, and are terrified they will ruin their childrens' lives. Or even if they dont have kids together, there can be a psychological or medical issue that makes sex untenable. Yes, they are unhappy with the situation, but they don't blame their partner for any of it. They dont want to break someone's heart for something that's out of their control.
I said I understood if there are factors like kids, pregnancy or depression that could kill the bedroom.
That’s fine. Shit happens, but if these aren’t factors and you just have no desire to be intimate with me. That’s the issue. Why would I date someone with no desire to be intimate with me when we could just be friends. Sex and intimacy play a big part in relationships and the feelings towards one fluctuates for various reasons but there are some people out there that just don’t wanna give it up because they don’t want to. Yet they expect their partner to sacrifice because they “love” them.
Just because you don’t feel like it isn’t a good reason to neglect someone’s needs. I don’t want to go to half the places my girlfriend wants to go sometimes, but I still go and enjoy myself because it makes her happy.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 18:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Esther Perel wrote a book on this and did a TED talk (you can find on YouTube). Shes a relationship therapist. It's really eye opening. I think it's called The State of Affairs. It's basically down to wanting a need filled and at the same time chasing a feeling of being alive. Often times it's nothing to do with the first relationship or the person they're having an affair with, but the rush of feeling alive. Like a mid life crisis. Wanting to feel like a teenager again etc.
Honestly I think it's as simple as just giving in to pure selfishness just for a short while (whether it's a single kiss, making out, having sex, whatever). When it's a sustained affair it's obviously a bit different. Anyway I don't agree with it but I definitely understand it.
The sexual needs of married people can diverge significantly over the years.
Imagine you're a woman who has been married 20 years. You like sex, but your husband can't really do it any more and isn't interested in you these days anyway.
Your options are:
A) discuss it with the husband, maybe come to some mutual arrangement
B) have an affair with your line dancing partner who's definitely up for it, or
C) never have sex again
If option A fails, option B looks pretty damn good.
Well, I can go that far, what I can't understand is their thought process after they select option B in that analysis. How they balance the risk and the reward.
The risk is a non-zero chance of irreparably fucking up the people you love most in the world.
The reward is just... sex.
Does not compute for me. Even if that chance is infinitesimally small, it's still a no-brainer.
[deleted] · 90 points · Posted at 14:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was kinda including kids in that example, I can "understand" cheating somewhat better if there are just two people. Marriage is just a glorified long-term relationship in that case.
I stopped loving my wife within a year of getting married
I guess here's where I'm having trouble. I've never fallen out of love with someone while in the relationship. I don't get how that's possible, the more I get to know someone the more I tend to like them.
axw3555 · 32 points · Posted at 15:09:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly that just means you’ve been lucky.
There have been plenty of times I’ve met people, liked them, hell, one was my housemate at uni, but over time I learned things about them that made me not only stop liking them, but outright detest them. And those were only friendships.
A real relationship goes so much deeper. It could be that you find some massive philosophical difference like antivax vs provax, religious school vs secular, kids vs no kids, or something minor that just rubs one side the wrong way. Initially that would be a minor irritant but if you’re living together that minor irritant could drive you mad.
me too. i've never fallen "madly in love" or have been infatuated with someone for like a month and then realize i don't actually like them at all like you sometimes see on tv or hear from people. like... what the fuck is that?
You’re lucky. Most people fall out of love because the person they love has changed. Once you realize you loved the person they were before and not the person they are now, the relationship falls apart.
A person’s personality typically changes when they go through something very emotional or they get close to someone.
I've never fallen out of love with someone while in the relationship. I don't get how that's possible
They lose their job, so they are feeling more stressed. Now they can't pay their share of bills so more stress. They don't want to spend money so they stay home and are bored. They are not active so they put on a couple pounds. This whole time the stress is killing any sexual desires they had, so sex is gone. Their stress is now being thrown at you for forgetting to put away the dishes, or not taking out the trash before leaving for work.
So now you're living with someone who is angry, doesn't want to be touch, isn't happy, doesn't show you any love, only causes you stress when you've done nothing wrong, they are not even smiling at you, "I'm FINE" is all you can from them.....
If people were good at cost-benefit analyses in highly emotional situations, we probably could’ve saved a lot of pain over the course of human history.
Not necessarily. It could be an emotional attachment to substitute what was missing in their relationship. Not defending it, just pointing out there are a lot of different aspects that could be at play.
I'm a guy, so I'll go from my perspective as a guy, but also think of my uncle and aunt who have no reason to still be married. They yell constantly. When drinking, it's twice as bad. They sleep in separate bedrooms as he snores. She never like us (his family) so she often doesn't attend birthdays or holidays. Maybe he's fine with that, but maybe he's super lonely. Maybe a smile from a server at Apple Bees is the most attention he's gotten in months. Pretend he's at a bar downtown, and a woman not only smiles at him, but puts her hand on his thigh. He's instantly 15 years old again. He's nervous. He hasn't even been kissed in months, maybe years. The butterflys, the beating heart, it's like his sole has been awakened. She's representing everything he has been missing for so, SO long!
This is why I would NEVER stay in a dead relationship.
It's probably just a matter of how much you love the person vs how much you want to have sex with someone else.
If you love someone a lot and don't really care about sex with other people, you would obviously stay with them.
If you have a strong desire to have sex with other people and don't really have that strong of an attachment to your S.O, you would break up and have all the sex you want.
It's the third situation that leads to cheating, in my opinion. When you really want to have sex with other people and you also really love your S.O. You don't want to break up, but you also want to be sexually fulfilled. Obviously at this point I think the only factors would be the chance of getting caught and how ethical the person is.
let's say that you really love your SO and you're not in an abusive relationship and you feel love from them as well. if your SO isn't ok with you having sex outside of the relationship, it is extremely selfish to want to keep that love while still meeting your so called needs. of course, no one is perfect and we are all capable of being extremely selfish at times. this comment isn't necessarily directed at you, but i feel like sometimes people are forced to unnecessarily justify their behavior when someone else calls them out on it. and in justifying it, i feel like sometimes they inappropriately victimize themselves. like why not just admit you're selfish?? Lol why is that so crazy??
KsBoom · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its just sex, I don't understand this norm of you can only have sex with ONE person while in a relationship or for the rest of your LIFE. Sex and love can be completely separate. My opinion.
Then leave the person who is not making you feel loved. You can move on after that, but why string them along if you are screwing around behind their back? If a relationship is far beyond communication and repair, end it and start anew.
In an ideal world, I would agree. I’ve already explained why I could not do that. Also, you’re assuming that I’m the only one that had an affair. He’d done it many times for years... I had to endure 14 years of misery with nowhere to go. There was nowhere to go, no get out. Life isn’t always that simple.
I'm not assuming that you were the only one who cheated, I say the same for any cheater so I would've said the same thing to your spouse. Two wrongs do not make a right, and none of that cheating was going to fix anything that needed to be fixed in your relationship. Yes, I'm sorry you had such a shitty relationship, but there is always a way out of it. If you had the resources to have an affair, you had the resources to get help leaving. Friends, family, neighbors, coworkers, women's shelters, even your illicit lover. It isn't easy, but the right things to do never are. If your affair partner had so much love for you, they'd be glad to help you get out of that situation.
Which is exactly what I did. You’re also assuming I had friends neighbours coworkers etc. I didn’t, and there are good reasons why which I don’t need to explain. There was a way out of it, which I found, and did get out of it. This was 25 years ago, there weren’t the resources then that there are now. I did do the right thing. I did get out as soon as I could, with no help from anybody but myself. You’re preaching to the choir.
And again my point of finding someone to help you, if you had no friends, neighbors, etc. who were you having an affair with? (Rhetorical question, I do not really want to delve into your personal sex life.)
You left your shitty situation. That is great and I'm happy for you! So my "Then leave the person who is not making you feel loved." that I stated in the very first post you are arguing with is valid. It takes a long time and a lot of work in most situations, but in a lot of instances it is necessary. I hope you are in a good place and doing better now.
twlscil · -3 points · Posted at 19:02:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reward if feeling like a loved human being, and there isn’t a better feeling out there. It’s not just “sex”, and I’m sorry if you don’t know the feeling I’m describing.
But in a situation like this, wouldn't you be getting the feeling of a loved human being from your spouse? If not, that requires communication, and if nothing can resolve the issues, then leave them. Don't use that as an excuse, either stay with someone who makes you loved or go your separate ways and move on to find someone who does.
Have you been either married or divorced? It’s not that simple or cut and dry.
When you are unhappily married you are convinced it’s your fault. You try to work and communicate, and when your spouse can’t work through this with you, you feel like more of an unloveable failure.
Yes, yes I have for 11 years now. And if my relationship was so far gone that there was no love or joy, with no way to reconcile, then I would leave.
If your spouse can't/won't work through it with you, move on and step out of the unhealthy relationship. Cheating is not a fix for a shoddy relationship, but if you are desperate to feel loved then leave the one who is unwilling to work through it with you and make a new relationship with someone else. If you feel like an unlovable failure, you should work on your self worth before anything else. Stepping out and sneaking around on your spouse is not an answer for that.
Yet you missed the point entirely. I’m happy you have a good relationship, but telling someone to “work on their self worth” is as helpful as telling a sick person to be less sick.
I did not miss the point, you are missing mine in the fact that someone wanting a relationship with another person (sexual or otherwise) should at least have the decency to leave their current person first. Why stay in a relationship that is that in your eyes unhealthy and unable to be fixed? Yes, I do have a good relationship. If I did not, I would not stay. Neither of us deserve to be stuck in a situation that is awful.
As for improving your self worth- you have to work on it, obviously it does not just magically happen... Distancing from the people that make you feel unworthy of love, therapy, a good support system, doing things that are good for yourself and boosting your confidence, working on your personal growth and hobbies, forming good healthy relationships with other people are all steps you can take. They are a much better alternative to cheating, and have long lasting results that are life changing. You are always worthy of love, you just have to acknowledge that and make an effort to help yourself. I grew up in a very abusive household, and it took me a long time to realize all of that for myself, but you can do it.
A sick person seeks treatment most of the time. With a combination of doctors, therapy, medicine, good healthy life choices, and exploring treatment options it is a better alternative than just sitting around moping that you are sick.
You are just saying what you said before with more words. You don’t understand depression if you think that people can make the mental jump to start working on self esteem when they feel down. It’s a long winding spiral with very few moments of recognition on how to fix things, and a lot of time has to pass before people can take the steps needed to correct. After they live with spouses that yell shit like, “get over it”. “God, you are worthless, would you just stop moping around”. Your phasing puts to burden on the person suffering and says it’s all their fault and they should just change their situation. Do they become homeless? Is that a valid choice to make?
To put this back in the context of cheating, cheating isn’t about sex a lot of the time, it’s often about finding someone that understands, will listen, and will comfort. The only people I know that cheated for sex were people who were always cheaters and only briefly stopped when married if at all. Most people I know just wanted closeness. They didn’t mean to cheat, but found someone to listen, and it’s often the first step towards regain some self esteem and caring about themselves. Sometimes people cheat and begin to repair the relationship, and some people end their marriage so they can not cheat, but be with the person they want, but that puts a lot of pressure on a new relationship, and is really scary.
The short answer is every dynamic is different and often you are dealing with depression, abuse, and anxiety. I’m not saying people should cheat on their spouse, just that it is completely understandable.
I understand depression, more than I'd like to admit. I struggled with it every day for years, and realized I had a problem. You cannot get over it quickly, it is a long and hard process and you cannot do it all alone. I grew up with a parent that spoke like that to me and worse every day from the time I was born until the time I escaped home at 16 and was physically abusive as well, so yes I know how badly it can make you feel. But if you have moments where you realize the feelings are there and you need to do something about it, you can start to make yourself better. Obviously you recognized that in yourself if you sought out connections with someone else to feel better about yourself.
I am not blaming the person suffering, but if they do nothing about it their situation will not change (certainly not for the better.) No one else can make you work on yourself, you have to want to do that and improve your own situation mentally and relationship-wise. And there are places someone can go if they are worried about being truly homeless, there are some great support systems out there that can help. It is scary to have to worry and to make a big change like that, but if your home life is so awful then starting anew is sometimes the only way. If someone loved you so much that they were willing to have an affair with you, would they have really let you become homeless?
In a relationship where you are dealing with such issues, and they cannot be resolved, that is not a relationship to stay in.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:46 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
and its likely not directly sex but also the complexities preventing it as well.
you can become sexually isolated if you and your wife are constantly arguing about kids or daily routines or just about anything.
I would imagine dealing with those REAL issues in the relationship is fucking hard and scary for people. Its WAY easier (in their minds) to cheat and not get caught (thus satisfying the sexual urge as well as the need to be wanted etc etc) than to actually have those real conversations with their partner id imagine.
A lot of people trying to defend why they cheated. There's no excuse. I was in an unhappy loveless relationship for way too long. Various abuses going on. Did I cheat? Nah, I got out (even at the sake of being homeless on and off for 6 months), and made a better life for myself. He's in jail now, and I went from being on my own, to finding a wonderful man, to living with said man. I couldn't devalue another human to the status of side piece.
It’s pathetic and shows zero willpower, zero personal responsibility, zero confidence
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I do agree cheating is absolutely shit behaviour, your example does not really prove your point. What happens when you do love your husband? What happens when your life together is happy, except for the fact that the sex is boring or nonexistent? That's not so easy to break up. And the alternative is what, never have sex for the rest of your life?
Have an open dialogue. A sudden drop in sex drive usually is a sign of a deeper problem. If you can't wait a few months to work with your SO to fix it, you don't love them.
Ok so you wait a few months, nothing has changed you say? Bring it up again. If they refuse? A lack of sex is a real reason to break up, go find someone compatible. If you leave your husband, they'll get over it. Cheating brings an emotional trauma that many, many people never get over. If you truly loved your husband, like in this hypothetical scenario, you would never inflict that specific pain on them.
Edit:a word
I used to think like this, I have been cheated on in the past in minor younger relationships so I really hated it.
But I'm older and married now. Not to say I want to cheat or anything like that, I am happy. But I get it now, i have an open mind to it I guess?
It can happen for a lot of reasons I guess but I get why someone would want to keep their partner and kids and the house they have and their entire life together but that one thing that is bothering them is the sex, the closeness, the intimacy or just the excitement.
They have tried to talk to their partner several times in regards to this, but the partner either doesn't see the problem or doesn't think the same. They haven't stopped loving their partner they just want some excitement again.
I mean in some cases it's probably just as you say 'they wanted the cock/pussy' but I would think in most cases it boils down to a lack of communication or at least a lack of compromise.
I'm feeling some serious lack of compromise in my current relationship. Although seriously, if one person really wants to have sex with other people and the other wants to be fully monogamous, how do you compromise that?
If one person wants an open relationship and the other even has a hint of doubt about that kind of thing it's a no go. It would never work
The only compromise on that is that it just gets a bit more adventurous in the bedroom (roleplay, watching others in cam stuff or porn but not partaking with others). If that can't happen then, you either give up the relationship or start with some secret affair.
To be clear, if you have explored every single option with your partner and it still isn't good enough then that's only when I would have an open mind. If someone just had an affair because they weren't happy but the other person was totally unaware, then I'm not so understanding of it.
We only live once, imagine looking back on your life and thinking 'golly I missed out on a lot of things I could have done that I wanted too' just because the person you decided to marry and hopefully love, didn't want to do stuff with you.
Good luck, I hope you figure out a situation that makes you happier.
I follow you completely. Unfortunately my girlfriend does not seem very responsive to any more adventurous things I want to do. She feels silly doing any kind of roleplay (no matter how hard I try to encourage her), does not trust being naked in front of anything that has a camera (on or off, even her own phone), is too scared to do anything anywhere that is not indoors, and there are other other examples, but I guess I don't need to get too detailed into them.
I'm going to have to make a big decision soon. There are a lot of things that I would be unhappy to miss out on in life, as you correctly put it. At the same time I feel bad about walking away from a girl that has loved me unconditionally, helped me through bad times, and been basically my best friend for the last few years.
No offense, but all of her objections seem pretty reasonable? You said she loves you unconditionally, are you still in love with her? Just seems like the pros vastly outweigh the cons here, but obviously I don’t know your relationship haha.
I completely understand her objections, and don’t want to push her to do things that she’s uncomfortable with. I guess it’s a matter of sexual compatibility. As much as I hate to admit it, I continue to have strong desires to do things she doesn’t want to do and also do things with other people. Nobody else in particular, just different people. And these don’t seem like things that can be solved through compromise
It’s a bit hard to weigh up the pros and cons, and depending on my mood certain things might seem more important than others. In the end it seems like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place, and it’s negatively affecting my mental health.
Ahh understandable. Basically, you have to decide if you want to compromise with yourself and be happy with the way she is or head out. Wish it wasn’t wearing on you brother. Ultimately your mental health is most important. It’s tough to make up your mind in a situation like that. However, it sounds like when you make the decision you’ll be much better off, and honestly your girlfriend will too. If you do decide to leave, no one should be in a relationship with someone with one foot out the door, wondering what’s wrong in the relationship. Good luck to you man. Answer will come
Yeah you can't really compromise that in a way that doesn't just make everyone half-miserable :/
It is a really sucky situation, I'm sorry you are dealing with that.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 18:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of cheating itself boggles my mind. if ur genuinely thinking of cheating atleast hv the decency to break up first ffs. ppl that cheat and flaunt it like its a good thing are such shitty ppl. especially the whole concept of 'sidechick'. so disgusting honestly
NAN001 · 11 points · Posted at 17:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating can be an attempt as making it through an unhappy marriage without divorce, that is, precisely without breaking up the family.
I would say that most cases of people cheating it’s not because of sex, but because of a complete lack of intimacy with their spouse. Years of accumulated negative sentiment override, neglect, and apathy. If you find someone that enjoys your company and makes you feel like a desirable human being.
If you can’t understand why someone would cheat, consider yourself fortunate that you have a good partner.
Some people cheat, some get divorced, either way, it’s not typically about the sex. If it is, they were probably a cheater the whole time.
jutct · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just went through this with my wife. my son is 4 and I haven't seen him in person in a month due to corona. granted, she is a garbage person and a narcissist, I knew the thing was never going to last. I only married her because I accidentally knocked her up. But she was cheated on previously and always said "I don't know why someone could do that. Don't go cheat. Break up first and then go find someone." and that's not at all what she did.
Before you think I'm a victim in this, I cheated on her as well, but I would have stayed married for my son's sake. She wanted to end it to be with a guy that's mid 50s and a mechanic.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If cheating were less taboo they might have been able to work something out that was actually consentual.
If there wasn't an attitude of "if you want to have sex with someone else there is something wrong with your relationship" in society, there would be no need to go behind people's back and be dishonest.
My SO left me after 18 years together (for a younger woman). I was devastated. He was the person I trusted the most in the world. We worked really hard to get where we were and he threw everything away.
It's hard to get over that kind of betrayal. In the movies, the woman finds a new Man easily. The reality is that middle age women are not really wanted in the dating world (unless they look like Kate Beckinsale).
You should ask my ex wife but she’s probably busy choking on another mans cock. She clearly thought it was worth it! Honestly I will never know what her justification was, and I don’t care, all I know is my son is a legend and he will find out when he’s like 20 or something what happened and he can make his own choices from there. I’m playing the long game.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:33:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who cheat are literal garbage.
Knute5 · 5 points · Posted at 14:30:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A friend of mine didn't have sex with his wife for a decade and then had an affair. Not saying that was the best or even a right answer, but I kinda understand.
Told my girlfriend if she ever pulled the “We got married now we aren’t gonna have anymore sex” trick. I’ll send those divorce papers fast as hell. I didn’t marry you to downgrade from boyfriend to friend. If you wanted to be friends. We could’ve saved this money.
If I was not having sex, or the person got so fat that I was no longer attracted to them, I might stay in the marriage for the kids if I don't have the balls to get a divorce. Cheating is wrong. But a dead bedroom is also wrong.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it difficult to understand as to why people don't properly evaluate a relationship after a set amount of time. So much time and effort could be saved, if people had standards and abide by them. But everyone desperately wants to be mated, no matter the cost and no matter how incompatible they are with someone.
Then it just goes downhill, they get married and kids thinking that's going to fix shit. It doesn't so they get into ugly fights about it, they get a divorce and someone is paying child support that could stem into domestic violence and things escalate.
I think it comes from a lack of self-awareness really - they don't know themselves well enough to know what they can and can't live with. So it's not that they don't have standards, it's just that they don't have the right ones.
This is a fairly interesting subject matter, and one that I am involved in, in my own way. Although I’m not married, I have played with many women over the years and know a few friends of mine that cheat on their SO. I don’t judge, and even had my own code at the start of my hook up career. But I do like to discuss that topic with the women that step out of their marriage.
One of the main reasons for their cheating is the most obvious one, lack of sex or lack of appreciation. Everything can be well, they love their SO, the house and careers are fulfilling but the sex isn’t simply there. You’ll think well it’s just sex, but sex can be great motivator to some, especially those who enjoy it. Most do talk to their SO, even suggesting open marriage, counseling, introducing new things into the bedroom etc but eventually it just falls at the weight side.
Sex sex sex, yup more sex. A boring person in the bedroom and sorry to those that are, will eventually get their partner tired, especially if the partner is more open minded and into kink. Vanilla is fine but variety is the spice of life.
The thrill. I knew many of women in my years that had it all, executives at their company, business owners, Porsche and Tesla cars, beautiful homes and loving family. But in the end, they loved the thrill of sex and cheating, oh yeah it’s a thrill to some. Just like a gambler can get the biggest high of his life hitting the numbers, some men and women live off the high of sleeping with new people.
The love is there. Oddly enough, a lot of women did love their SO, I had a business owner who’s husband had cancer and she was helping him out with the therapy in all but she wanted those last thrills. She made her list of things she wanted before she fully went in, and she managed to knock down a lot of them. I have a friend both man and woman who love their SO, but unfortunately the sex is terrible. And like I said, to some sex as an excuse seems stupid but to the person I those shoes, it’s different.
Roommates, the second most common reason I have ran into. The love and apperception has dwindled and they have become roommates sleeping in different rooms. Just like when you leave a child unattended for or give up on, they find someone who cares and nurtures them, someone who gives a fuck. That’s all it takes
Physical attraction, at the end of the day we are animals with baseball caps, guns and can drive. Many married women or men, never thought of cheating but then they meet someone, that whooo baby person. They hit it off, one thing leads to another and we start thr downward slope.
Happy couples. You know who has this figured out, and it’s not for everyone of course, open married couples. I been invited to be part of some group fun with married couples and they are probably the most happy out of everyone. There’s no or very little jealously, they are very hands on with their partners, and are genuinely some of the more interesting people you’ll meet since they have no hang ups on subject matters.
Of course each person has their reasons for cheating, every head is its own world. But these were some of the reasons I have ran across in my years of crafting my skills in the bedroom. Are they justifiable, to those that are in those shoes of course they are, to those looking from the outside those people may seem like bad people. But to each their own.
Highly recommend the work by Ester Perel. Her book “The State of Affairs” is a great examination of why/how folks step out in relationships. She’s beautifully non-judgemental as she examines the motivation/ revelations of the people involved. Life and relationships are messy and complex. Much more complex than the current popular belief system that “marriage is only one person forever” allows.
Her podcast is also great.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 10:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
After a few decades of marriage? They probably just don't give a fuck. It's like that episode of House. Old guy is fucking this old lady. Individually they both complain to him that they fuck too much and both make excuses why they can't talk to each other.
Eventually, he realizes they're married to different people because of their rings and they were worried that the other partner would start having an affair with someone else.
FYI: STDs are the most common among old people because they don't give a fuck and are more open to threesomes, gangbangs, and other sexual experimentation.
The alphabet. First, the order of the letters, next, how were sounds assigned to those symbols?
Blince · 9 points · Posted at 20:13:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
afaik the order of the letters has no significance to them, I think it's just an order that stuck throughout time and the use of having an order supersedes anyone making up their own.
Also the sounds given to letters already exist in language, just when you speak you don't make as much blatant use of them, the letters just represent the sounds, however the origin of the letters is probably very unique to each one specifically as many have changed/been borrowed from other languages.
Nobody knows what the order is for, and different alphabets have different orders (and abjads, syllabaries, and abugidas have their own orders).
A lot of modern writing systems are ultimately descended from proto-writing systems, which in essence were drawings put together to communicate something. Those gave rise to scripts like the Egyptian hieroglyphs, which itself gave rise to the Proto-Sinaitic writing system, which eventually gave rise to almost all alphabets, abjads, and abugidas (Hangeul being a notable exception). Other systems like syllabaries (hiragana, katakana, bopomofo,...) and logographic scripts (Hanzi, Maya glyphs*,...) usually have their own origins.
The reason a letter has a sound and not another is usually because the name of what the “drawing” that eventually gave rise to this letter represented eventually became the name/pronunciation of the symbol, and it changed as the writing system was passed on from language to language and as the sounds of those languages changed.
A very telling example of this is the letter A, which originated as an Ox’s head (something like this) and then became something like “𐤀”. The name of this letter always was something along the lines of “ ‘alp”, which originally meant “ox” (see Hebrew “אלפים”, which can mean “cattle”), and gave the Greek letter called “alpha”, which gave our A.
Edit: I forgot to add the footnote for the asterisk:
*Maya glyphs also represented sounds but they are spectacularly complicated, so for the purposes of this explanation they are solely in the logographic box.
How a father or mother could rape or molest their own child.
Also including family members such as uncles & brothers, or even sisters. How tf could somebody do that to someone, and be able to sleep at night.
I just cannot fathom how they could possibly live their life knowing they fucked up someone’s mental health like that. Not just anyone, their own fucking child.
I agree some rapists may have experienced sexual assault in the past. But the majority of rapists have not.
And even if they were victims themselves it doesn’t justify the fact that they would rape somebody. (Not arguing, just saying). Rapists usually start in high school & college, some only do it once or twice and stop, but some make a game out of it. God, people can be really sick.
It's still being studied, iirc. Pedophiles repressing their sexuality having constant proximity to a victim makes it overwhelming, or something like that. Likely tied to psychopathy too.
I do definitely agree with you. I do struggle in the same way with an hyper controlling mother and yes, it's all about having a grasp on somebody's else life.
The simple fact that a parent claims to have the right of deciding their kid's life choices simply disgusts me. Parents do not own their kids just because they generated/adopted them .
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brothers and I are straight.
I once talked about sexuality with my dad and asked him if it would have mattered if one of my brothers and I were gay.
I should not have asked.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 12:29:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's on the same level for them as kicking them out for drug use, criminal behavior, or a rebellious attitude. It's both an attempt to make them realize their "mistake" and to avoid any form of supporting their behavior.
Even drug use and criminal behaviour are not good excuses. If you truly wanted to have kids because you're so selfless then you'll hell them instead of throwing them away like a faulty toy.
pop013 · 94 points · Posted at 14:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of it comes down to fear and existential dread. I wouldn't necessarily call myself an atheist but i do believe that a lot of people who would call themselves Christians believe in it for the simple fact that if they don't, according to beliefs and descriptions that have been hammered into their heads since they could walk, they will spend eternity in the worst place they could possibly imagine. You could apply this line of thinking to the extremist forms of certain religions as well and why they kill people in the name of their God.
If you believe in the religion, then this Earth becomes the deciding factor in an ETERNAL struggle. Events here decide dates FOREVER. If things have consequences far, far, far outlasting any human life, then it makes sense that it could be the most important thing. And everyone probably has a reason they would kill someone.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why public schools don't teach practicalities like making a budget or seeing how much money certain careers make so students can be more informed about their choices.
Hi. My high school did have something like this and everyone hated it. Basically it's a good idea in theory, but once you take into account kids' varying skill levels, ideologies, and goals, it makes putting a class like this into practice very difficult. A few reasons why:
•The class was made mandatory to be able to graduate. That meant that everyone had to pass it. Instead of holding students accountable and making it so there was an option for a retake if you failed it on the first go, the school instead opted to teach it at the lowest possible level to avoid getting shit from parents because a 1 semester class was keeping their kid from graduating. That meant the standards in the class were so low that very little information of value was taught. Many students in my class didn't have (or claimed not to have) a decent grasp on decimals and fractions, so there was a multi week unit on converting between decimals and fractions.
•For every 16 year old in that class who didn't know that 3/4 = 0.75, there was another 16 year old whose entire existence revolved around getting into the most elite university possible. That meant maxing out your GPA by loading up on weighted courses or electives that would look good on your transcript. If your parents were willing to make a big enough stink to the school administration, you could get out of that class and take a tech based elective that would make you a more attractive candidate to a college admissions committee. My state had mandatory PE for every semester that you were in high school, giving us a disadvantage compared to students from other states when it came to having a diverse high school course load.
•Political ideologies. There were some parents so nutty they thought that the school merely teaching their students how to file taxes was liberal indoctrination.
Hopefully they have relatives or grand parents that could help. It only takes one caring individual to make a difference. I have a poster in my office of all the legislative additions added to the school curriculum since the 1940's. The poster is 3 feet long with small print. We can't do it all. Others need to step up. It takes a village to raise a child.
spurz07 · 975 points · Posted at 13:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NASCAR. I don’t get the hype, it’s cars going left for 1000 laps, I just don’t get it
Oval racing is surprisingly difficult, I've done both in racing sims, and would say that it's a completely different ballpark. The cars get very twitchy at high speed. The fact that the cars are so close together at such high speed is very intense
Yep, the cars can be twitchy, you have to strain to keep it from riding up the corner into the wall, the wheel can be heavy. Even in sim running a full length race can be tiring.
If you simplify sports they all sound boring. The thing about motorsports are the exciting side by side battles. 2 or more cars going side by side at 200KMH or more is so exciting because even the slightest of mistakes will lead to a crash. And anything can happen at anytime, people have lost a race win because of a crash or mechanical failure on the last lap before. I myself prefer European motorsports like F1 and GT racing, but I also appreciate the American ones for what they are
spurz07 · 39 points · Posted at 17:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“22 people running after a ball”.....totally makes sense now lol. I like watching F1 as well, been watching drifting more though. Pretty crazy controlling that kind of madness on a track
UF8FF · 19 points · Posted at 20:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you find that with most sports. Once you dive in and really understand how technically difficult a sport is, the more you respect it.
If you think it's normally weird just wait until they get to Watkins Glen, best shit show known to mankind watching them fumble around the track like an NFL player trying to thread a pack of sewing needles for their grandmother.
Ok, I maybe get the appeal of watching it on TV, but going to a NASCAR event? Don't the cars just kinda zoom by every once in a while? Is it solely about getting wasted and yelling about buttholes?
At least at a baseball or basketball game you can see most of the action from your seat. Someone please explain
It’s funny you ask, because I’ve never watched a car race on tv in my life and have no interest, but last year a friend invited me to go to a NASCAR race on a whim (she got free tickets). The outing was sold to me as a “sociological experiment.”
The people-watching alone was incredible, but having physically been there I now understand why people get into it. It is SO LOUD and your blood is pumping and it’s just intense af. I haven’t become a motorsports fan and I haven’t gone back, but I 100% understand the draw now and why people get addicted to it.
Oh you absolutely should go to a race. In the parking lot before and after everyone is grilling and tailgating so it smells like heaven, you can bring beer and food in from outside, and afterward everyone drinks and socialises with all the other rednecks drinking in the parking lot, it’s a whole weekend experience and a total blast. During the race, we bought LMRs and headsets so we could tune in to the comms between crew chief and drivers (it’s hilarious to hear your favourite driver you’ve only seen in PC interviews speak normally, which usually is pretty profane), the cars shake your seats they’re so loud, you actually can get an appreciation for how blisteringly fast they’re driving that you just don’t get on tv. It’s a great time, highly recommend.
Edit: Dammit Kyle I'm trying to talk up your redneck ass sport here but I can't defend that shit.
It seems like it is always easier to see things that seems like it would be hard to in person. I watch hockey and it seems like people in the stands would lose sight of the puck, but when i go to games the only time I dont see it is when the boards are in the way
Nah. F1 or any other motorsport is different. There's actually a circuit in which the cars are competing. That makes it interesting. The different races. NASCAR... it's just a fucking circle.
Pack racing is a very different thing that you never see in f1. When 3 cars are side by side, inches from a wall, at 200 mph, where the slightest twitch from one could take them all out, and on top of that you have a much more drafting and constant lead switches, and the guys who thread the needle to narrowly avoid hitting 5 crashing cars at once, and this all happening from freaking 40 cars out on the track at once. It's a very different kind of racing, and its hard to compare it to road racing.
I prefer road racing but I still have a lot of respect for oval racing. Indycar is fun because it's the best of both worlds. Great road racing and 5 oval tracks in there to change things up.
Ultimately though if you are bagging on Nascar and don't watch any other form of Motorsport, I doubt other Motorsports are going to change your mind much. Different strokes for different folks.
Mate, have you seen last years Bahrain, Monaco, Canadian, Austrian, British, German, Hungarian, Belgian, Italian, Singapore, USA and Brazilian grand prix?
“Anything can happen at any time”... I meannnn, can’t only a very finite set of things happen during a nascar race? And usually they’re not interesting unless they’re at the end of the race?
Once DVR became a thing, my dad just fast forwards until a crash or something happens. So even some NASCAR fans know there isn't a whole lot to look at.
I think the difference is most fans of sports treat them much more like a TV series than as a pure competition to determine a winner and nothing more. There's a significant story aspect to following a team for years and knowing the "narrative" of everyone involved. You know that it's this player's first game back from injury, or this is the last season of the old veteran who's been playing for years, or this is the last chance the core of the team has to pull together and win a championship before a bunch of key players move on. The games happen and the games are exciting, but they're much more interesting with that emotional narrative hook to them than just appreciating athletic talent. There's a reason why most fans will have individual games, goals and moments they will remember for the rest of their lives.
In my own opinion, sports are probably the most successful and engaging narrative dramas that have ever been created. A big part of that because they're real events, they are happening constantly around you life in a way that other element of culture can't, but also in their unpredictability. In any other medium, where the story is planned out ahead of time, tropes emerge, themes are followed and conventions pop up for any given genre. With real sports, you can never know what will happen, and that uncertainty makes the outcome even more compelling. I'd say this is probably why most sports movies aren't very good, and the ones that are focus much more on the characters than the actual athletics. When winning can be scripted, it isn't as exciting.
This was a bit of a ramble and you can feel free to continue not liking sports, just thought I'd explain why I do, and why I think you might enjoy them.
No it makes 100% sense to me. In the FGC (Fighting Game Community) Super Smash Bros is one of the hypest story lines to me, there were kings, champions, and us peasants watching these men do things that the developers never intended nor wanted. I seriously recommend this video even if you don't give a rats ass about video games. It's always been great what humans can achieve when they're passionate about something.
I've already seen all of EmpLemon's Never Ever series and I love that video. I was already decently interested in video games, but had never really been interested in smash or in competitive gaming as a whole. I'm still not super invested in it, but it's cool to watch it from time to time, and that video definitely helped me gain a bit more of a grasp for what's going on at a smash tournament.
To offer a sports suggestion to you, I'd like to offer up Jon Bois. He works for SB Nation and makes things sports-related or adjacent to tell interesting stories. I love literally everything he has ever made, but this one is one of my favourites. It's all about athletes named Bob and their impact on the sports world. If you have time to burn later he has a 2hr mini-series on MMA and it's place in our world called Fighting in the Age of Loneliness, and he's in the middle of one right now on the history of the Seattle Mariners that is also great.
I didn't expect to watch a video about athletes named bob, a surprise to be sure but a welcome one. Thank you, I currently don't have anything going on because of quarantine so this will help a lot.
Yeah but running after a ball hardly contributes to the air pollution.
[deleted] · -22 points · Posted at 18:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
football is actually boring tho. like its literally what u said, ppl running after the ball for an hour and a half and for the most of it, literally nothing happens.
You could simplify anything to make it boring. Videogames are just a bunch of pixels in the screen; music is just sound, movies are just people pretending to be someone else etc.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
id say thats oversimplifying? and even if u like football there's no way u can deny that majority of it is pretty uneventful and drags out
lmao you've probably never watched more than 40 minutes of a football game or know any players. The game is fun because it's fun seeing how managers outsmart their oppositions and how so many different teams with different playstyles can perform so differently and seeing all the different competitions like the champions league etc and comparing teams from other leagues than just 1 league in 1 country like most american sports. Supporting a team makes it 1000% better because you feel a connection to the team. I hope this helps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
id probably enjoy it more if the game wasnt 90 mins lol. thats why im more into ufc and mma cus the fights take less than an hour most of the time
I think I would enjoy it more if there was less passing the ball around that led to one player standing there cornered or the other team getting the ball and the whole process started over. If we had more one-on-one battles like in basketball, it would be more exciting.
I have no evidence for this, but I'm going to speculate for a moment:
Football (most sports for that matter) is essentially a proxy for war. Two "tribes" battling to see who's stronger.
Perhaps (and again, I'm pulling this out of my ass), it's an innate desire to be on the "winning side". Obviously it's more prevalent in some than others; I personally find competitive sports extremely boring.
It's a reward/punishment machine like many other interests. You get rewarded for doing well, which is made all the more potent because of the risk of punishment, of having that reward taken away.
In video games the reward is loot, finishing a level, killing a bunch of other players, growing your city, whatever. The punishment is dying, failing a level, losing items, mismanaging.
In sports the reward is seeing your team score a goal, finish a good play or make good moves, winning a match. The risk of punishment is in seeing the opposing team do the same to yours.
This is only a first look thing, the corners of every track are banked with a different degree, which means they are higher or lower which can have a huge impact. Also I think some tracks have 3 corners, some have 4. I'm not a Nascar expert by any means. I've never watched a single Nascar race in my life, and is simplicity really that bad? Just because something is simple doesn't mean it's boring, the early versions of Minecraft were quite simple and nearly everybody loved those
Since the rest of the replies are jokes, I'll try to answer.
Superspeedway racing (aka restrictor plate racing) requires knowledge and precise manipulation of a bunch of invisible factors all surrounding aerodynamics in some way.
Cars go faster or slower depending on the cars around it. If there is a car in front, it cuts through the air for you and your car goes faster, that's slipstream. It can be used to either gain speed to go for a pass, or to allow you to ease off the throttle and save fuel.
If there is a car behind you, it reduces the ammount of air your car has to drag along and lets you go faster (although its not as powerful as slipstream). Sometimes drivers will pair up, one pushing the other, this combines the power of this phenomenon with the slipstream, making the pair drastically faster, however doing this blocks the radiator of the car behind meaning it can't be done for long or else they'll overheat.
There is also the sidedraft. When a car puts their nose next to a rear corner of another one, the air bouncing off of the chasing car's nose hits the spoiler of the car in front, drastically slowing it down.
So restrictor plate racing becomes this massive mental game where each driver is constantly trying to outsmart each other, manipulating the air around them to their benefit.
A driver has to think about when to go for a pass, when to save fuel, when and who to push, where to go when being pushed, when and who to sidedraft, when/how to block someone going for a pass on you, how to evade the block of the person you are passing, when to back out, etc. etc.
Add into all of that the rivalries, exhaustion of doing that for hours, ridiculous heat, team politics, and very passionate fans, and you get an absolutely mental 200mph, 40 car peloton, where everyone is trying to get past one another and only have a couple of feet of clearance to pull it off.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They added the restrictor plates in 1988 to hopefully prevent the cars from going airborne as often. Before then the cars would easily reach 220 mph consistently.
Having 40+ cars in a pack like they race at super speedways is scary as it is, doing that 30 mph faster us just impossible. It’s a necessary safety measure to lower the danger from extremely dangerous to only semi extremely dangerous
Without a plate, racing just wouldn’t be safe at those tracks.
You know what's more exciting than crashes involving 20 cars? Crashes with cars flying 20 feet in the air. Extraordinarily dangerous, yes, but very exciting.
What I like about NASCAR is the depth of it, while the action is so simple. Yes, its cars going left for 1,000 laps, out of such simplicity, because it's the cutting edge of competition and technology, the strategies behind how to win are insane.
When do you pit?
When do you pass vs draft?
Is it worth fighting for position when the very act of pulling out of the draft slows you both down and allows the pack to catch up?
Can you keep racing on minor damage or do you pit, and are now down a lap?
What fuel strategy do they use?
Are the teammates working together, or fighting?
There's a lot more to it, and the raw horsepower, the slightest mistake that sends cars sliding into the wall, the insanity of the speed and sound. If you've never gone fast in a vehicle, you should. There's nothing else like it, it feels like the car is trying to fly, and there are 40 other cars just like it all fighting for position? Hell yeah, lets go racing.
Myself, I like MotoGP races, but I can see the appeal of NASCAR.
Well, with rally the skill is a lot more obvious, just ending the race in one piece is impressive. With nascar the environment is so controled and there are so little reference points that the cars look slow on camera, couple that with the difference between a fast and a slow driver being little more than inches and it ends up being a lot harder to appreciate what they do.
Been to four professional baseball games in my life, and that was four too many. Even in person, it sucked. I can't imagine watching that on TV. BUT that is just my opinion and I guess people get joy out of it, good for them. I just don't understand it.
I never got NASCAR. My dad ran the sponsorship for a big company that sponsored a car for 20+ years. Finally after being incredulous and told the same thing you just said many times, I relented and joined him for the Daytona 500.
It was even worse than on TV. At any point while watching, if you’re in the stands, it’s a huge circle of cars and there’s no way to really tell who’s fighting for first and who’s fighting for 20th. Everyone is zooming around, but some cars have been lapped several times, there’s no obvious front or back.
We were also in the infield, which is even worse. At any pint you can only see about 1/10th of the track. Every few seconds a few cars whizz by all loud. Too fast to see what numbers they were, no clue if those were the leaders or not, can’t see them for long enough to watch any “battles” or whatever.
Lots of people have these headsets you can rent for like $100 that allow them to listen to the crews and stuff? I listened to that for a minute - you can’t really tell who’s talking and it doesn’t give like a play-by-play if the action, it’s more about the pit stops and such.
It was really stupid. Some of the parties before/after were a lot of fun, but those are not the nascar.
My dad, brother, and I all love cars. My dad likes NASCAR. We got free tickets to a race. I never got into watching it on tv. I was hoping I might get into it live. I did not. Now I just feel bad my neighbor wasted a ticket on me.
Fans like to see big boom, but no one wants hurt. See, replay of Ryan Newman crash, fans cheering when big crash, but instant “oh mys” when they see Marshall’s running to him.
Crashes are interesting because they show the energy and forces that are being wrestled with and are kept under control often by only a very narrow margin.
No racing fan ever wants to see anybody get hurt. A huge amount of science, technology and effort go into keeping the participants as safe as possible.
Anyone watching racing hoping someone gets hurt is not a fan, they are just a ghoul.
I mean I suppose, but the shit they do in F1 requires like above average levels of focus body strength and knowledge of the tracks because you ha e to be able to go through every corner as fast as you possibly can. And I mean they push the limits of what a driver should be doing in any vehicle. Monaco is such a dangerous track for example, and i am by no means an expert but my roommate is a big fan of the sport and it just seems absolutely insane the speeds these guys are going through corners at.
It used to be, but by now Formula 1 cars have so many safety features drivers rarely get hurt. And only in freak accidents like last year in a Formula 2 race in Spa, where Juan Manuel Correa sustained life threatening injuries and Anthoine Hubert lost his life, do drivers get seriously injured or die.
That is probably true. Everything has interesting aspects if you look at it correctly.
spurz07 · 10 points · Posted at 14:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not saying I don’t. It takes skill, patience, etc but I just never understood why it’s “life” to some people. Other motor sports are far more interesting
I think it's more about the event than it is about the "sport" for a lot of people. It's fun to camp out for a few days with a bunch of people that are there for the same reason, get drunk and watch cars go fast. One of the best places to have a beer at 10am. I used to work at the track in Michigan, which has a campground a d also happens to be (or was) the highest rated track I'm customer service. So I may be a little biased.
01dSAD · 4 points · Posted at 17:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been to two NASCAR races.
First one: loved the start and the first ten laps. Visited all the corners and straightaways to watch, listen and feel the physics. Same with the crashes. Still don’t know who won.
Second one: Start was interesting. Five laps in, I’m wandering around people watching, mingling and drinking. Still don’t care who won. Or finished.
I’ve turned down free tickets ever since because I have nothing vested in the game and I’ve experienced all the rush. It’s also an annual thing unless I watch it on TV and I’ve wasted enough time watching others compete on a screen.
The thrill comes from the speeds they're going and how close they get to each other, sometimes to the point of physically pushing each other out of the way. No other form of motorsport combines those two things to the same degree as NASCAR.
I'm only aware of exhibition-style competitions where each driver goes one-at-a-time and is judged on style. Do they do actual wheel-to-wheel racing now? If so, then I absolutely do need to check that out. Rallycross at 100+ mph? Sign me up!
I’m not too sure on rallycross but they have head to head drifting where one driver will lead and the other chases then they alternate. Talk about precision, being that close to the wall at high speed with someone at your door
If you go into a race not caring you're obviously not going to enjoy it. Nascar is one of those sports where you have to be rooting for someone to enjoy it (and have a good race, dull races are fairly common).
I mean, I was responding to the oft-said sentiment of “you have to go to a race to get it”, so that seems to contradict the idea of if you don’t already care, attending won’t make a difference.
Also I did have a car to root for - as I said my dad and our whole crew was part of a big corporation that sponsored a car. We were cheering for that car.
There's strategy, mechanics, personnalities, technology improvement. Don't over simplify a passion, you could do that with everything and live in a boring world where everything's nonsense
Personally, I'd find it infinitely more interesting if it wasn't a circular track.
On the few occasions I've been in the room with someone watching motorcycle races or F1 or whatever, I find it somewhat entertaining, whereas NASCAR kind of puts me to sleep.
I used to talk trash about oval racing compared to exciting tracks like in Formula 1, that it was too simplistic and whatnot. Then you try it and go "shit, why is this so much more difficult?!".
It is horse racing for cars. Horses go around a circle to see who is fastest. Drag strips are too short. Put it in a circle.
NASCAR is easy to watch from the sidelines. You can see the whole track.
Your dad or your grandpa or great grandpa used to go to the old dirt track to watch with friends. Dirt tracks turn to paved tracks because they are way faster. VROOOM VROOOM! Can't go to the track? Watch it on TV. Easy to watch on TV.
Easy to produce for TV. Need 5 camera crews for skeleton production team. VROOM VROOM CARS! people who like cars like car racing. Marketing starts out easy. American car racing. MURICA!
-Gaka- · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't stand watching oval racing, but stuff like Formula1 with plenty of turns and plenty of chances for contestation is fun. It's obvious that nascar racing is difficult, but it's really hard to translate that to the viewer. Like you said, they're just turning left. To me it doesn't show driver skill or track differences very well.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually quite exhilarating. As a car fan I never understood it until I went to a race and drove one myself at high speed. I don't follow or watch it but man it sure is exhilarating
My dad tried to get me into since I was young. He gave up sometime when I was in middle school. It never appealed to me.
Forward to me being thirty, end up knowing a guy on a pit crew so we get "Hot passes" do we can watch the race from the pit area. Every fans dream, we had it. Met drivers, toured the garage and trailer, sat in the raised booth in the pit with the monitors and crew chief, talked with the whole pit crew to learn about each individual job. Literally my dad was angry jealous. The actual race still bored me and my wife to tears. Ended up leaving with 10 laps left to beat the traffic.
I get the individual pieces of it and I do find it all really interesting. The speed, noise, pit stops, crashes, but everything together as entertainment... Nope.
But the thing I really don't get is some of the fans. There were people in the pit area with chairs they brought, set up in front of the jumbotron all day... What? You're sitting on hot asphalt, during August, watching TV of the event you're at?? Just stay home. It's the exact same broadcast.
Start by saying hi. Be friendly. Keep pushing (gently) for the next step. If she's good with it, she'll let it happen. If not, well, you have a girl friend (which is not a bad thing, if she thinks you're nice she may introduce you to other girls).
It's a case by case basis there is no answer to a generalized question such as that except if you say you dont understand how to get a girlfriend then first you don't understand women
Nah man, I've got a potato-ass looking friend who's just the nicest dude on the planet. He just got engaged to another super close friend through sheer charisma.
TL;DR if unattractive, be funny.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you do tl,dr for 2 sentence comments, I guess you pretty much do it for every comment. I wonder if it's legal to write tl,dr longer than the actual comment. And can you tl,dr a tl,dr ?
tl,dr : asking questions about tl,dr
tl,dr : tl,dring the tl,dr, but longer than the actual tl,dr
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god it’s actually very easy. It’s all about status. Are you the man in the room with the most confidence? Maybe try making her laugh. Find your strengths and be proud to express them without being a jerk about it.
Be a little cheeky but not rude. Picture yourself as confident and her as someone that needs adult supervision! Be fun! Play around with them! Lol be a man! Master your emotions, join a gym or play a sport! Have some girl “friends” first. Focus and work on yourself, your hobbies. Remember the rule with girls. 1 steps forward, 2 steps back. Never let the line go slack. It means give them a little then back it off. Then give them a little more. E.g know when to end a good time. Tease them in a playful way. It’s easy guys
If you can learn to really love yourself first. Then you will be able to get a girlfriend.
i like the part about finding girl “friends.” i started hanging out with more girls and really more people in general which ultimately made the friend group split between girls and guys. i never had any intention of dating them and still don’t but it helped me learn how to really talk to all girls like they are friends and when someone is interested, i acted on it if i had interest too. idk it’s way less complicated than what i described it as but it all comes down to this: if you are sitting in a corner, complaining about not having a girlfriend, you won’t get one. do what the dude above me said and better yourself.
When you do find a girl you are interested in just ask them questions. Asking questions is the easiest way to talk to a girl. Ask them anything. Even if you don’t say much they will feel like they have had meaningful conversation with you. Ask them questions my dudes
Biggest problem for me is just saying hi or whatever, I just can’t compute saying it to someone I don’t know and never talked to before. I feel like I’m invading their personal space! Thanks for the reply though!
I once knew a guy who was ugly as hell. He was absolutely full of confidence though. He picked up more girls than anyone I ever met. If he liked the look of them he would just say Hi, then introduce himself. Sure he was rejected ALOT but he just kept on trucking. Rejections bounced off the guy like water off a ducks back.
How do dudes not mash their nuts every time they sit? My ex husband tried to explain and show me but I 100% do not get it. Having external parts seems dangerous and complicated.
There are many different techniques. This first one is simple, spread the lege. This leaves enough space for the balls to be free. The second technique is moving the balls. If you move the balls to where they are slightly above the point of contact between your thighs, there will be no pain. This one is slightly risky. This third one is an extreme way that involves alot of pain but will prevent any guy from mashing their potatos. I will not reveal the entire thing, but it involves a knife
They just naturally come to rest on top most of the time, or kinda split to accommodate where your legs come together. But yes, it is dangerous and complicated.
It’s like a painful slow involuntary peeing. Don’t sneeze or cough or laugh, otherwise it feels like you’ve peed yourself BAD if you wear menstrual pads. Being constantly paranoid you’re going to leak and it’ll show on your pants for all the world to see. And it feels like a raptor has settled into your pelvis and is chewing on your uterus.
Don’t get me started on PMS/emotions or period poops. Life is just generally miserable while menstruating.
I know you’ve gotten quite a few of replies, but they don’t seem too specific.
You know how our nuts are kind of in front, right? Well in my case they just stay in front by quite a bit when I sit down so there’s no way for me to sit on them, so no way to get smushed. Also my underwear/pants keep them up a bit so they don’t hit whatever surface I sit on with too much force when sitting down.
Yeah, I’m aware they’re on the front, not actually between the thighs. Just seems perilous especially on a warm day, to sit with your legs apart and then stand up? I’m grateful I’m not responsible for external parts like that, just seems complicated.
Yeah define equal and define rights. That’s where this gets nitty gritty for a lot of people.
I understand it to some degree because a lazy piece of shit doesn’t deserve as good of a life as someone who’s diligent(I’m not referring to ceos and the Uber rich either). But it really is a nuanced, mind boggling mess
Don’t think of it as a lazy person having the same life as a hard worker.
Think of it as both people have a platform to stand on. A roof over their head, water to drink, access to a doctor, heating in the winter and air in the summer where needed, a basic phone (just smart enough for work but not the latest and greatest) The tools they need to learn and work (public education, base access to the internet, public transport to and from place of business)
I believe we should have the right to a home and in public housing but I don’t think we should get a 2 story house with a yard and a pool for free, we should get an apartment (basically a dorm with a seperate bedroom) hell even make adjoining apartments share a bathroom if need be.
I believe in Universal basic income, but I’m not saying give everyone 10k a month. I’m talking, food, gas, electricity, with maybe enough left over to fund a CHEAP hobby like a book or two a month to read.
All these things would let you live as a single person with no kids, but wouldn’t let you do whatever you wanted. If you wanted luxury you need to work, or if you wanted to start a family you would be able to afford to have a kid and feed it and cloth it but if you wanted to treat them or pay for toys or to take them to a theme park you’d need to work. So if you work your ass off like you do now you can do whatever you want. But people that can’t or won’t don’t suffer in the streets either or work 2-3 jobs just to have a place to live.
But that entire argument is in bad faith, it’s not about a trans persons “right to not be offended”, the fact of the matter is that hate speech and phobic speech encourages hate acts and acts of aggression that make trans people unsafe, wether that is the intention of the speaker or not. It fuels the fire that leads to violent acts against them and encroaches on the trans persons right to life and they pursuit of happiness, since living in fear of your safety makes it impossible to be genuinely happy and being unsafe shouldn’t happen do to their right to life.
Even the way that interview approaches the subject is weighted (on both sides though). By calling it their “right to not be offended” it belittles their struggle. Then again the argument that being able to be hateful to them publically is also not entirely covered by your right to free speech since that right only protects you from the government stopping you from saying it but not from the consequences of what you said be they be public consequences like being kicked out of the store your in, or government consequences if your phobic speech leads to phobic action.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of that is shifting the goalposts. You state no one claims it's a right, I showed you just one prime example of a large media personality saying it is, and you go on to argue something else.
I can show you media personalities claiming all kinds of things that the people don’t actually claim. Let me be clear, the general populace or even a majority of people don’t believe that they have a right to never be offended. That doesn’t mean they won’t be mad when someone says something hateful or offensive.
Freedom of speech says I won’t be arrested for saying the N Word, it doesn’t mean people won’t get offended, that I won’t get beat up or fired for it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:57:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said the majority claim it, you are the one that gave it a number of zero. I showed you an example. She didn't say "others are saying", she presented the idea as her own idea that she believes in. Why are you looking to pick a fight? All I wrote was there are things people are claiming as rights that are not.
orokro · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:23 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it depends on which ideological philosophy the stance comes from. They all have some form of genuine logical backing behind them though same as most political stances
Idk I guess people like to think that their rivals aren't people with their own conscience and thoughts and reasons for the way they act and things they believe
I'm interested in what you think about this situation I ran into a couple months ago then.
So I was in a debate with some people about the use of the n-word (a not r) and said that if you truly believed in equality, you wouldn't see race when you looked at someone, you would just see a person. I said that therefore, saying that only blacks are allowed to say n-word wasn't equal.
The stance on their side was that blacks are given this right to have sole propriety over the n-word as a way to make up for the other equalities that they don't enjoy.
They further explained this concept for women's abortion rights. If people are just "people" then both of the people in the relationship should have equal rights in the say of abortion, but people aren't just people, there are men and there are women and women get that right because they are the ones with the ability to become pregnant.
Speaking of abortion, why isn't the fetus allowed to have a say? Isn't that unequal? Or maybe a fetus isn't a person at all and doesn't deserve to have the same equality as a baby?
Mucky waters in equality. You see what I meant in my original comment.
SAME. A friend of mine recently discovered her boyfriend had severe anxiety and depression and she was trying so hard to understand and sympathize but told me she’s never felt depressed ever in her life, and has a hard time imagining what it must feel like. I just assumed everyone has felt this way at some point in their life, even if infrequently? Mind was blown.
When I see celebrities wear heels constantly, it makes me wonder if $1,000+ dollar heels are made with some kind of with held secret from $150 dollar heels. I just want one pair of comfortable ones.
I understand paying a little more for clothes sometimes feels nice but a thousand dollars is a lot of scratch for something you walk with idk
emeeez · 5 points · Posted at 01:14:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate wearing heels and find them so uncomfortable. Once in a while I’ll try on a crazy expensive pair to see if there’s a difference, there really isn’t. Supposedly a lot of celebs get injections in their feet to deal with the pain of wearing heels.
mitoke · 3 points · Posted at 01:45:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Louboutins are pretty expensive and aside from a couple of styles are in $1k+ range. They’re pretty uncomfortable if you don’t wear them enough
I wore a pair of YSL heels once (not mine, my uncles sugar mama) and let me tell you those were the most comfortable heels I’ve put my baby feet into. Idk if it was just those heels or not but I WILL own some designer heels one day ... sighs in broke college girl
Yves Saint Laurent. He’s a French designer. Some of his heels (like the actual heel) are the YSL logo and it’s really cool (imo) cause it’s different but elegantly done.
I present to you: wedge heels. Heels from the gods. I will never wear another type of heel again unless it has some sort of platform or wedge, anything to distribute the pressure evenly.
I have a pair of 4 inch wedges for years now, and I’ve had to wear them for multiple days, all day (conferences and stuff). It only hurts on my 3rd or 4th day of all day wear on consecutive days. That’s how comfortable they are. If they break beyond repair, I will cry, because I’m yet to find another pair of wedges that doesn’t look fucking ugly.
I love wedges. However I was told told by many different men that they are considered unattractive shoes. Because of course only uncomfortable fashion is deemed attractive.
Those men can shove it where the sun don’t shine. Also the wedge provides a nice solid block so I can beat them when they say stupid shit like that.
emeeez · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate wearing heels and found them so uncomfortable but I found one pair that I can walk in and are comfortable and I bought them in black leather, nude leather, and black suede. I may buy another pair of them in nude just in case.
The point of a high-heeled shoe is that you are having to use your calf muscles to hold yourself up, so I don't think it's really possible to remove all of the pain.
The better question is why womens fashion is so stupid. Like, just make pockets real? And wear normal shoes? Beauty standards are dumb for everyone tbh.
I said to a friends that I hate these crap pockets that you get with women’s jean and he said “well this is what woman asked for”. I don’t what women they asked but it’s bullshit
High heels are uncomfortable because women's fashion is uncomfortable. Corsets, tight jeans with no pockets, makeup, dresses that shove boobs up and are barely held up cause they're strapless and backless, miniskirts so high up they're one light breeze or camel toe away from flashing everyone, coats that don't keep you warm in the winter, dresses that bake you in the summer the list goes on and on.
So true. I remember trying to find a nice dress for a Christmas party as it was so hard because all the dresses were super short, to low cut and had no back which means you can’t wear a bra. Which is fine if you have a nice body and boobs that behave but I don’t.
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my parents let their 3 year old daughter (me) decide my little brother's name. I named him Diego because I was obsessed with Dora.
I wanted my sister's name to be Compton Dane so my mom went with Dana lol
Gee_Gog · 347 points · Posted at 18:33:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The education system.
Like who the fuck decided that everyone in the country has to have an advanced understanding of trigonometry and doesnt need to know shit about first aid and things that could literally save lives easily.
The more kids they get learning math, the more people they'll have going into careers as engineers, technicians, scientists, etc., which will lead to growth in the industrial sectors. I think there were a lot of government funded programs in the cold war era encouraging science and engineering in kids, as they would be particularly necessary in a future war against the soviets
It's not just people who go into STEM fields either. I had a friend in high school who took the advanced math sequence (principles of math in British Columbia, Canada), and planned on becoming a plumber. We caught up recently, and he said he is super happy he took those classes because he does fluid pressure/flow calculations all day.
I and many people I know really enjoyed school time, made some great memories and it’s learning maths and sciences which made me choose an engineering career
While some kids unfortunately don’t enjoy skl, wouldn’t say kids in general “typically grow to hate school”
A majority dislike it. Not necessarily because they dislike the subjects themselves, but because our school system is the worst joke ever told. All the needless procedure and teachers abusing their power make a majority (though not all) dislike doing anything for school. I enjoy a lot of school subjects outside of doing them for school. But when doing math or grammar for school, all of a sudden it's mind-numbingly painful.
athrow4 · 16 points · Posted at 21:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole point of school isn't to prepare you to encounter a triangle and learn everything about that triangle, it's to exercise your brain in a way continuously that teaches you how to identify what you know and don't know and then from there use that knowledge to find out what you don't know.
And then teaching language allows you to communicate more effectively, and put words to places that you may not have had words for before. You're better able to express yourself.
Both of these together make you able to think more critically about your world, exercise caution and make better decisions that improve both your life and the lives of people around you. Probably.
I think both are important. Everyone should be taught some basic first aid, but when it comes to the more serious stuff, that should be left to the professionals.
In order for one to get to an acceptable professional level, they need to have a complete understanding of biology or atleast have the ability to quickly/efficiently reach a conclusion about a biological issue. In many, if not most, cases when trying to resolve a biological issue, one needs to understand the chemistry behind it. In order to truly understand chemistry, one must attain some level of physics comprehension. Physics often requires some pretty complex mathematical concepts that parallel with calculus. Calculus is almost directly built off of trigonometry.
If your goal is: clean wound, apply pressure, and bandage then math can fuck right off in most scenarios. If you’re trying to perform real medicine or give proper treatment to other damage caused by a wound or ailment, you gotta get your maths up.
The system is set up to teach biology, then chemistry, then physics because the math that aligns with them gets more complicated as it goes and math builds more directly off of itself.
First aid can be learned from a weekend course. Trigonometry is used in a lot of jobs for all kinds of things and takes a little more than one weekend to pick up and apply.
My high school had electives for finance, first aid, home repair, etc. I was one of the few people that took them and of course others gave me shit for it.
Basically education is just a "look what I can learn!" If you show you're capable of learning physics or something else hard it will look better even if you're not in the same field.
It’s to learn how to socialise. The government wants to teach you to work and obey rules so you can build on thier wealth. You are slaves to the system. But seriously, drop out. Do what you love now! You will be way ahead of the curve if you just focus on what you love to do.
It's so divorced from reality. It sounds like you have daddy's money and watched WAY too many coming-of-age teen movies, then used the money to make your dream come true
Not everyone is that lucky. Plus with the world becoming more digitized coding will no longer be seen as a special skill, just a popular hobby like sports, arts&crafts, ect
Or why I have to pay school taxes for the REST OF MY LIFE when I only attended public school for 4 years & never had kids. (My parents sent me to private school for 8 years.)
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well, I've been paying for 13 years now. It seems there should be a cap. When senior citizens lose their homes because they can't afford their property taxes. My parents have been paying school taxes for 60 years, and I can reasonably look forward to paying school taxes for 60 years or more. At what point have I repaid the 4 years that I've used?
So you don't have access to cars, buildings, roads, companies, any kind of product more advanced than a stick, anything which uses supply chains, anything which needs accounting...?
Do tell us what your fascinating cave life is like. And how you're managing to post from a potato.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is like this giant ball pit that we all get to play in. But we are made of the balls so that is weird. We are the ball-pit thinking about itself.
Gender. I don't understand how people 'feel' female, male, non binary, etc. I will always respect people's pronouns and trust them when they say their gender, but I don't think I'll ever quite grok it
Finally one I can answer! I’m a trans guy. It’s kinda like, when you look at your body, and it’s.... another persons. Just some tits slapped onto a meat mold. And you’re like, what the fuck?? How did those get there? Why does my voice sound like that? Etc etc... we “feel” strange and different. Like everyone saying our name isn’t our name. For me it feels like there’s a REAL me hidden inside of this body I’m in. I hope that helps!
If this sounds offisive, I apologize because I dont want it to. Is it the body that is/was weird to you or was it what society said your original gender should be like?
No worries, not offensive at all. Honestly it’s both social influences and my body that makes me feel so weird. Like I’m still in transition, so if someone came up and said “you look beautiful today” my brain would sound the red alerts of uncomfortableness.
But if you have any more questions feel free to ask!
Even as someone with primarily trans and nonbinary friends, I've never really bothered to ask: is that a feeling you always had, or did it slowly escalate?
I certainly don't prescribe to traditional genders, but haven't ever felt that "self-alienation." If it escalated, was there a trigger, like puberty? If it was lifelong, i can't even imagine the constant confusion.
It was lifelong for me. But it doesn’t always have to be for every trans person! Some people figure it out at 12, some at 50. For me it began before puberty, but REALLY hit home around 12, and I came out at 16. It’s been pretty bad ever since. Hope that helps!
It really takes a while to figure out. I thought I was just a Teen Girl(tm). Don’t make any rash decisions, maybe even speak to a gender therapist? I wish you the best of luck <3
(this is not an explanation - I don’t understand it either!)
From my understanding, people use the word “gender” to describe their psychological/societal tendencies. What I don’t understand is how it is possible to classify people in this way. To me, it seems that people are way too complex to be categorized like this.
I understand that biologically speaking, I am a male, but I don't personally identify with the things that make a male in a societal sense. If you asked me what gender I felt I was, I wouldn't be able to pick one
I think it’s perfectly fine to do or like things that are not common for the most people of your gender. I don’t want to offend you, but e.g. if you are a man that likes painting his nails or using make-up: that's unusual sure (and totally ok) but you are still male, right? I want to understand this better
I think that's all fine, too, I just personally don't identify with masculinity whatsoever, and I don't feel like I need to. I just personally feel like it's wrong to call myself a male.
But it is biologically correct though? I'm not trying to hate or question, but at the end of the day, how you feel may be different than the biological truth, but the truth is the truth
Bringing up biology is weird, because we assign gender at birth by genitals. And chromosomes are weird, because there are things like XXY and XY but there's no SRY gene and all sorts of fun stuff that can cause a mismatch between chromosomes, hormones, and genitals. So that's why I'm trying to understand why people feel about different genders than why people don't have a battery of DNA and hormonal tests to determine gender since I didn't get a look at my chromosomes to determine I'm cis female
Chromosomal defects like YY for example or XXY as you said are extremely rare, much more rare than people that dont identify with their biological gender
I don't have specific data, but as I said these defects are much more rare than transgender people, meaning that the vast majority must not have these defects. I dont know why you are so hellbent on fighting every point I make
Yaden2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that’s bc gender is different from sex, sex is what you are biologically, gender is the societal roles and categories assigned to each sex
Societal trends change like British weather - if you base any part of your identity on what society expects it to be *[right now], you might struggle to define it in the long run.
That's part of what confuses me, since 'masculine' in 21st century USA is different from what was masculine in 17th century France and so on. So is it identifying more with the norms of a certain gender in a society? Or something else?
Gender is a social construct. As the social construct applies to the lives of people here, they do not conform. That's totally okay. Non Binary people don't conform to either, and to them it's more comfortable to go as... Neither. For trans people they usually (but not always.) Have gender dysphoria and feel like they are in the wrong body (but gender euphoria is just as valid a reason to transition imo). Point is, gender is bullshit but it's the bullshit we live with. No one needs conform to it if it doesn't make them comfortable.
That's something that I've heard described to me as "cis by default". Sometimes sitting down and thinking about your gender identity is too much work but the gender you've been assigned doesn't bother you too much. There's plenty of people that are in your position, my friend.
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[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 20:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I gather it is a hard concept to understand when your gender identity and assigned gender are congruous (cisgender). Which makes sense, we live in a world and a culture that was shaped around cis people. People who grow up in a society shaped for who you are often have trouble understanding the plight of those who struggle against those norms, whether that is heteronormativity or white normativity or male normativity. That is even more true for a cisnormative culture because gender identity is a less understood and more esoteric concept wrapped up in several competing concepts including sex, gender norms and roles, and gender presentation.
But you already said the important part, even if it’s not something you understand you can still appreciate that everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, so right on!
I was looking for this one. I also dont get it. they/ them nonbinary specifically. I dont need to get it to respect peoples' choices but I just cant wrap my mind around it.
The way I explain it to people. I’m a women. But I identify with my gender as much as I identify as a brown eyed person. Yeah it’s a thing. But it has 0 impact on my life apart from how other people treat me. So the whole go chat to other women. Good to see a women in a man’s job. Etc.
To me it makes a much sense as grouping together to chat with someone who also has brown eyes.
I don't understand how you can't identify with the parts that are in your pants. They've been there all your life. That's not to say I don't respect your choice to be or love whoever you want. Love is love! And I hope everyone can love themselves. I just don't understand. A friend once said it's because I'm SO straight! Lol
You know how you can tell where your hand is in a pitch black room? It's because your brain has a neural "map" of the body. Part of our sense of touch. The prominent theory is that dysphoria comes from that "map" being wired to expect opposite parts.
I’m cisgender, and I only necessarily understand trans people, because they were born with the wrong parts but they identify as the opposite gender, it’s confusing, but as long as you’re respectful you’ll still be appreciated!
It's hard to understand something like that when you've never experienced it yourself. And that's okay. Having your gender identity be different from your sex is an experience that's hard to grasp if that's not something you go through.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most people stumble because they think they never went through the same process. Damn near all of you did...when you were about three or four. And I'm talking about a step further back than what most people assume. This isn't fashion choices, personality traits we assign a gender, etc. It's more which standards you compare yourself to or how you respond when someone calls you one or the other. And based on the best evidence we have, the core component of that is neurological. Instinct to model actions off one parent over the other, nervous system being wired to expect body features that are different than reality, that sort of stuff.
For most of us, that finished as a toddler and we never had to think of it on that level again. To the point most people can casually brush off the entire notion. It's the first form of identity development for the vast majority of people. You don't have to think of that psychological makeup as a separate thing from genitals, secondary sex characteristics, etc. because all that gets rolled up into "gender" as a single aspect. Which is confusing because we talk about terms like sex/gender as a single trait. But they're both a sum-total judgement of a lot of factors right?
The reality is, no matter what cis people may tell ourselves if everyone started legitimately perceiving you as the opposite sex it would seriously screw with your sense of self on a level most people can't handle. Especially since that experience would probably show you the difference go a bit deeper than you think. Trans people go through the same process of development, just their identity develops in contrast with what everyone else is saying. Which usually results in a looooot of conflict with people who should be loved ones.
That said, gender, or better "gender identity" is the psychological/neurological component of sex. It's not really much more complicated than that. Sexual traits don't always line up neatly, and it isn't our place to dictate which ones are more important to someone who has to live with that.
The first people to undergo this treatment did so before WW2. The current standards of care have been mostly unchanged since the 60s, and there have been plenty of depictions in media. Everyone sure seemed to know about it when I was a kid.
The only thing that's changed is seeing these people as more than a punchline or gross-out gag.
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mitoke · 0 points · Posted at 01:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. As gender is a social construct and part of the whole concept is that there’s no right or wrong, how does feel that they are the wrong gender? Isn’t what you’re actually saying is that you don’t mesh with what you think someone of your sex is supposed to feel.
btj3 · 94 points · Posted at 18:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom will see me about to do the dishes and then be like "remember to do the dishes!" I don't even live at home anymore
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 02:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people base their identity on stupid jobs. I could understand if you had a profession that was important and/or required lots of skill and experience, but if you have a job any moron can do, why hang your identity on that hook?
XaWEh · 253 points · Posted at 15:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our occupation is the number one thing we spend time on (well except for perhaps sleep).
If someone doesn't have a major hobby or a family they are proud of, they will hold their occupation as the highest priority in their life. And so if someone criticizes that, they will get defensive
Oh geez, me when I was store manager of a Little Caesars making only $10.25/hr. I would be there every single day and work ~55 hrs/week. The only other things I'd do were sleep and smoke crack. My job was all I had going for me.
It wasn't exactly expensive, but as soon as you run out, you gotta buy more. I also had to pay for my then-boyfriend and his friend. It was easy to spend $100+ a night
When catching up with people I haven't seen in years and years, I try to tap-dance around asking about what they do for a living. I wait tables for a living, and while I'm not embarrassed by it, it's just a job that puts food on the table and pays my bills. At least with my job, I know it's not that interesting to talk about, but most people's jobs aren't that interesting. I'd rather know what someone does in their spare time!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good, come talk to me. I was a SAHM for 20 years and am now an over-educated, unemployable 50-something who has no career as my identity. I cringe when people say, “so what do you do?”
I get ya. I'm 47. I was SAHM for years and dealt with seizures. I tried to when I was younger, but my seizures made it almost impossible. Meds weren't helping, and I tried many. I went for 13 years without attempting to work. However, I did attend college during this time. I didn't want contact with anyone I used to know. I didn't want that question "So what do you do for a living".
My seizures got better and started looking for work. It took four years of looking for work before I found temporary job my daughter was working at. That lasted 3 months. I felt more confident and tried looking for a job again. No one bit.
A year after that I got the same temp at the same place, and finally a job as a concession worker in movie theater. Not the best, but it was something.
Now I am laid off because we closed due to covid. I'm hoping to find a better job as soon things get better, but I'm not holding out any hope. But my experience has me fearing that ageism is a thing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:41:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish you lots of luck. Maybe the theater will hire you back soon. And yes, ageism is a thing. Please stay safe!
A sociology professor talked about this. It's how we stratify ourselves with others. It's just what we do. Like how animals sniff each other. I do like your point though. I've heard some people followup with "I didn't ask what you did for a living, I asked what do YOU like to do". Or something along those lines.
That's easy, you talk about it and recommended it for other people. Tell them what you like about it, how you got into it, why you stay into it, and why they should consider doing it. I am a software developer and have been one for over 23 years. I cannot talk about the work I do so that makes it conversationally awkward. But what I do do, is ask the person I'm conversing with if they know someone who is a software developer. I ask them if they know anything about software code. I will tell them that I work with such a wide range of people they would not believe it. Young, old, men, women, grandmothers, grandfathers, millennials, gamers, weird people, normal people and on and on.
BROTHER IM A FORK LIFT DRIVING BEER CHUGGING AMERICAN AND IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT BROTHER YOU CAN KEEP WALKING SNOWFLAKE I STAND FOR THE PLEDGE AND ONLY ANSWER TO JESUS. /s
Nobody on their deathbed says they wanted to spend more time at work.
akg720 · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really feel this. I was 26 with just a high school diploma but managed to work my ass off enough to where I was running a multi-million dollar surgical center. I was so proud of that and absolutely loved my job. Then I had a massive mental breakdown. Been jobless for a year and half and now Dollar General won’t even hire me and I feel like I’ve totally lost my sense of identity.
I get it if you worked your entire life to be an astronaut or brain surgeon (or even something less prestigious, like practicing law or politics).
I don’t get the amount of pride some restaurant and office managers get in selling ALL of their time to micromanage like, twelve people. They’re probably not getting paid enough, so their self worth has to come from believing the job is crucial to their identity.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if they are nice people, why can't they have that as an identity and be proud of that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My identity rests on my job because it's where I spend the majority of my time and it's very relatable to others. Yes I only work fast food, but I spend 10 hours a day there. In comparison I could rest my identity on being a college student, but I only spend 4 hours a day there and nobody I'm friends with really understands my field or what my research is on, making me a less relatable person.
...hate to say it, but spending ten hours a day working a fast food job doesn't increase your relatability.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your "stupid job" is 1/3 of your entire life. Another third is for sleeping. Besides what you do outside of work, your career is one of the most important things about you.
It's an income source, not an identity hook. I could do ten different jobs in a year and as long as they paid the same for about the same amount of work (and didn't have particularly different chances of injury or anything), I can't see how it'd make any difference to my life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why identify as anything, yes we get comfort in being around people who share the same beliefs and act in similar manners but using it to hang your hat on is pretty asinine.
It’s like having a conversation with someone and them immediately telling you what they do without you asking. It’s fucking weird. Can’t we all just be cool people who have awesome hobbies that don’t define us.
I agree with you. But also, I’ve noticed over the years that society really needs those kinds of people. Even jobs any moron can do are important to all of us. It’s why we get annoyed when someone sucks at their job and we think “ugh come on any moron could do this!”. Having someone who bases their identity on their job means they give a fuck about their job. It’s good to have people who take pride in being good at their job even if it sucks, pays for crap, and isn’t going to move them up any management ladder.
If all you have is your job, then it is who you are. There are far more people in the world, including the rich world, who have little else than their job than those with interesting lives. Some people have a job that they really like. Sometimes the other parts of your life seem to have a lot of stigma attached. I am an adult who's major hobby revolves around video games. This is stigmatized. I like to play music and am pretty good at it. I am not a professional nor do I play out, so to most, this does not make me a musician. Some people are just happy to be humble and show this by embracing their humble job. Your job can explain your station in life.
I can't begin to comprehend the opposite. Why wouldn't someone be passionate about something they spend most of their lives doing? Even if the job isn't "important"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't one just be proud of what they are and are good at?
Sure other people are maybe more experienced and more intelligent.
But that is the case in every field
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, sexual orientation. People that base their entire existence on being gay. Ugh...old.
Or a medical condition. If I get (or find out I was born with) some kind of permanent injury or condition, I'm not going to base my entire identity around it. I have a shitload of things in my life more interesting to mindlessly cling to.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people are searching for a definable identity. While it’s easy and laudable to define yourself to the world as a surgeon or an astronaut, as a parent who never really had a career I can see how people are just stating what they feel is their main occupation. I’m a mother with no career and I never say parenting is my “occupation.” I’m embarrassed.
People who don’t get ‘stay inside, there is a global pandemic’. It’s simple, just don’t open the front door! (Except for work, daily exercise, medicine/medical needs or weekly food shop!). I just don’t understand why there are so many people who don’t understand this.
Yeah, but I meant we don't know for sure if it's a relapse or they caught it again from someone else. Unless we've figured that out since I heard about it.
TFRek · 3 points · Posted at 03:33:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad wants everyone to get exposed and/or die so that he can go back to work, uninterrupted.
My dad has a lot of mental health issues, and the only times he feels "normal" are while working, or while blackout drunk.
Going outside will not spread corona. Having the door open will not spread corona. Gathering in large groups will spread corona. If it’s nice out open the door. Fresh air and sunlight are good for you.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 07:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t get ‘stay inside, there is a global pandemic’
But.. for how long? 2-3 years?
TCBHale · 17 points · Posted at 19:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people are quite active and have a lot of energy (mainly younger ones). It's quite hard for such people to stay inside and not get bored to death even with games and such. Nice weather outside and sunshine after months of cold winter also make going outside very tempting. And like someone already said it's not in the air all around us and there are safe ways of going outside and enjoying all the benefits.
What I don't get is people with symptoms walking around instead of staying at home for two weeks. Those people are what's wrong.
But people who might not be displaying symptoms may still go outside and expose others to the virus.
Yes it’s nice weather, but everyone is in the same position. Yes you may be bored but so is everyone else. Stay inside. It’s not difficult to understand. Stay inside, shelter in place, whatever.
Again, there are safe ways of going outside. If i go for a hike in the middle of the woods who am I gonna infect? The vaaaast majority of infections happen when they go to the supermarket and other such high traffic areas which you can't stop since people need to go shopping. Going for a walk poses virtually no risk.
Well, I live in a very small village and when I go outside I don‘t go near any people and keep my distance. That and I have to go outside to feed my pets.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:54:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, if I didn’t have to worry about spreading it I wouldn’t think twice about risking my life to go explore the world. I get severely depressed when I stay in one place for a while. I get that outdoor exercise is still allowed given social distancing is adhere to, but working in a hospital means I must be extra cautious. I’ll be opening my birthday in two days at home alone and at work.
I’m already beginning to feel shaky and anxious, adding on to the locked up feeling New England winters always cause me. The only saving grace for me is that I’m an extreme introvert and don’t really enjoy hanging out with anyone except for two or three close friends.
The day my hospital closes its covid wing (which will be a while after the rest of the country reopens) I’m heading north, and I’m not stopping till I’m the only one around.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went to the bank to deposit my monthly salary. The cops were there and told me that it was not a good enough reason. They fined me 135€.
I'm going out :) Oh yeah. I gave 10% of my monthly salary for my freedom so I'm goddamn using it. Downvote me all you like. I give no fuck :)
Miners' computers complete the calculations that keep the bitcoin infrastructure up and running, and for that, they are rewarded a very small amount iirc
Seevian · 61 points · Posted at 16:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure if youre memeing or genuinely asking but
The idea is that he erases segments of time from the perspective of the target.
Let's say that you are taking a drink from a glass of water. That action can be split into 3 sections: grabbing the glass, bringing it to your mouth, and swallowing the water in your mouth. Using his ability, he can, for all intents and purposes, erase that middle section of you bringing the glass to your mouth. From your perspective, you grabbed the glass, and then auddenly your mouth is full of water, probably causing you to choke and spit it out.
In a fight, this is incredibly useful. Instead of him approaching you to throw a punch, giving you time to raise your guard and mentaly prepare to block or counter, he would simply erase all the time it took to walk up to you and throw it, meaning you go from "Oh, he's standing over there" to "I am being punched in the face by him" with no time to prepare
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the actual confusing part of king crimson comes down to the specifics. The fact that it breaks rules set up for itself is what makes people confused.
I have not found a single explanation that accounts for everything it does. There is always one example where it doesnt make sense.
The cleaning of the room, the risotto lil bomber thing and the elevator scene are three scenes that often show up as contradicting explanations.
My headcanon is that the room cleanup was Araki not entirely having planned how it works at that point and wanting to make a cool scene.
Unless someone wants me to explain it in depth i wont, because this would be a pretty long comment.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The consistent is: KC erases segments of time, like let’s say 8 seconds. Anything that happens within those 8 seconds, like you falling off the stairs and breaking your ankle, is erased.
In someone else’s perspective, at one point you were just about to go down the staircase, and then you’re on the floor with a broken ankle.
When the user cleaned his room, he erased the ‘descent of the staircase’ (the process of cleaning up) and only left the ‘broken ankle’ (a clean room)
The same concept applies for the Aerosmith scene (Risotto’s death) and I don’t remember quite well what happened on the elevator scene
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your explanation is kind of lacking i would say.
The issue is in some cases he can act during skipped time, in others he cannot. It all seems really inconsistent when you think about the ways he uses it, which is why it has become such a meme. But it does make sense once you get what it really does.
In the Risotto case he skips the bullets hitting him, but they still hit Risotto.This would indicate that during skipped time, the world cannot interact with him but he can interact with the world.
Another reason the cleanup doesn't make sense is because of the time it would take, he cannot skip that far so i assume it was just ill considered when the scene was written.
The actual explanation to how KC works is fate. Fate is a very prevalent theme in jojo, and KC works against fate. Its a main part of the themes that while the gang accept and fight fate, Diavolo avoids it instead. That is why he tries to hide himself and why his ability works as it does.
During skipped time he becomes detached from fate. Anything that is fated to happen to him will not occur, while everything that is fated to others will still happen. As such he can yeet Narancia, because as the rolling stone already dictated that was his fate. Thats why he can cut off hands in elevators, because it was already fated. What he cannot do is do something that would not have happened if time had passed as usual.
What is so broken about KC is Epitaph. By seeing the future he can know what his and others fate are, and skip any bad fates he would have, or remove some of his own attacks from peoples memory. If he ever sees anyone hurting him, he can just skip it, and it never happened.
His stand is legitimately fucking busted. Unless you have fucking GER there is no way to beat him, like at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:26:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, he’s OP to the point where you have to bring up what would be one of the strongest characters in all of fiction. And I don’t consider that a stretch
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And you can also apply this to defend yourself. Let’s say you get a knife thrown at you, and it splits into 3 sections: throwing the knife, the knife hitting you, and you bleeding out. You can erase the segment where you are hit by the knife, and to the assailant, it appears as if the knife teleported and is now behind you, flying away. And how will you react to that? That’s what Epitaph is for. You’ll be able to predict when the knife will be thrown, as long as it’s thrown within 10 seconds. This is what makes King Crimson kind of overpowered, and may put him above Star Platinum
zy_saki · 47 points · Posted at 16:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He can basically erase a small section of time. Since JoJo revolves around the concept of fate, he can foresee peoples' fate using Epitaph, then cause them to come crashing into it faster using King Crimson.
I thought you were talking about the prog rock group and I was about to be like "YES THANK GOD SOMEONE ELSE UNDERSTANDS THEIR MUSIC IS CRAP THAT ONLY SOUNDS GOOD IF YOU'RE HIGH AS BALLS," but nevermind.
Well yes, if I don't like a band's first album, I tend not to go back for more, which is a completely reasonable position to take. Again, I'd probably have loved it if I listened to it after I started using hallucinogens (or any other drug that makes things sound deeper than they are and interferes with the perception of time), but alas, 'twas not meant to be.
If you haven't listened to even 1/10th of a band's discography it's dishonest to try to categorize them like you have in your previous comments. And you certainly dont need to be high to enjoy them, you're just not in to what they're trying to accomplish. Which is fine. There are lots of artists I don't care for, but I dont go around saying they suck because of it.
I'm allowed to think artichokes suck, no matter how they are prepared. It doesn't matter if there's been ten new dishes invented since I first tasted them- they still suck.
Have you listened to much of their music? It's not for everyone, but it's prog so it's pretty diverse. Some of their music I don't like. And the latter half of their discography is particularly different. I don't use drugs and I very much enjoy their music.
I listened to "In the Court of the Crimson King," which I was genuinely interested in because I saw it being referenced by authors I liked and a lot of musicians as this transcendent masterwork, and it was... definitely not that. It was such a letdown, and the lyrics were so ridiculously silly (despite the incredible depth attributed to them by their fans) that I just couldn't stomach the thought of more of their music.
The song or the album? My favorite King Crimson albums are "Red" and "Larks Tongues in Aspic." The music isn't really the kind of thing you play in the background. It's kind of like classical, where you have to focus your attention just on the music to enjoy and appreciate. Lots of interesting musical ideas going on. You'll listen once to appreciate the cool guitar work, and then on the second listen you suddenly hear all the fascinating drumming going on in the background. Listen again and you'll notice something else. There's a lot to take in. And it's a mistake to judge their songs just by the first few seconds, or even minutes (they've got some long songs). You may start to hear something and think "eh, that's sappy" or "this is dissonant; I'm not listening to the rest." But it's prog rock, and lots of these songs change considerably through the course of each song.
A good example is the song "Starless," which is one of the band's most beloved tracks. It's basically three "songs" in one. Starts off with a slow, simple, crooning song. The only lyrical part. By itself, it's nothing special. But then it transitions into this creepy, dissonant, monotonous segment that rather uncomfortably builds tension. A lot of tension. You listen thinking "where is this all going?" And then the last part kicks in to break all that tension, and you realize it was all worth it. It's where the song really hits its stride. But if you jump to any particular part of the song, or listen to any of the three parts individually, you may think, "what do people like about this?" You gotta listen--and focus--from the beginning, with an open mind.
But no shame in not liking it. It's not for everyone. Especially if you care a lot about lyrical content. I'm not really a fan of their lyrics, and barely pay attention to it. I love what they do with the music though. So interesting.
Lyrics are a big deal for me, that's also why I can't stand Rush. If you can't write good lyrics, then just go full instrumental. Lord knows both King Crimson and Rush would be better for it. I've dated way too many guys who were convinced they could get me to like Rush because of the musicianship, ugh, no. If you've got words in your songs, they need to not suck.
My big prog-rock likes are Pink Floyd and the Alan Parsons Project. Floyd, largely (I think) due to Gilmore's influence, knows the value of restraint. A song doesn't have to have 27 time signature changes to be good. It's okay to take a breath or two, and not have a bajillion things happening all at the same time.
I was never much of a lyrics kinda person. I just naturally don't pay attention to them. I'll hear a voice and just treat it like another instrument. Also, even if I am paying attention to the lyrics, I frequently have trouble discerning the exact words. Rather than look up the lyrics, I normally just tune them out. Honestly, if I want some interesting, thought-provoking words, I'll open up a book. Lots of these artists are fantastic musicians, but it hardly makes them great poets as well. Even Pink Floyd, which I love, will make me roll my eyes with its lyrics from time to time.
As for "too much" going on in prog rock, I'd say King Crimson isn't the biggest of offenders. You have stuff like Yes and Dream Theater on that side of the spectrum, which can sometimes get tiresome. But it's prog, so there's always lots of diversity. The band Yes, for instance, likes to pump out these long, over-the-top, 20-minute monsters, with god knows how many instruments and pretentious vocals. But then they'll also come out with some simple, acousticy, knee-slapping kinds of tracks too. It's what I like about prog. You got a bunch of talented musicians trying to experiment and come up with interesting sounds.
If you think musicians can't match writers, you need to listen to more Leonard Cohen. And Gilmore's solo stuff.
What I hate in prog-rock are songs that sound like someone just took a ton of different challenging bits of music and crammed them all together just with nothing tying them to each other. It feels like meaningless showmanship. You don't have to tell me how big your dick is- just whip it out already, so to speak. King Crimson isn't the biggest offender (Rush), but there was enough of that, plus the wildly pretentious and very silly lyrics (on "In the Court of the Crimson King") that I was turned off.
Though I do actually like some of Yes's stuff, so if I contradict myself, well then, I contradict myself. I am vast, contain multitudes, yadda yadda.
Yeah. I mean if we're talking over-the-top showmanship, I think Yes is a far bigger offender than Rush. I like Rush's music, but I have very little patience for the vocalist. Really don't like his singing. The drummer is one of the best in the business though, and the band is responsible for some really classic, addictive riffs.
A lot of people interpret the song Starless to be making fun of that obnoxious, proggy showmanship you're talking about. You have this very long segment devoted mostly to guitar, and a band like Yes would've filled that space in with all kinds of guitar solo wankery. But in Starless, the guitar just belts out a long series of single notes that get higher and higher in pitch (starts at around 4:30 in the song). It's kind of a "fuck you" to that "let's make this as complex as possible and show off how awesome we are" mentality.
I'm sometimes in the mood for a little wankery though. But yeah, other times it can be obnoxious.
Anything astrophysics related. Distance and time seem so strange in the universe, but it makes sense to us on earth.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Law of physics
ihaner · 21 points · Posted at 18:32:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the world. What is the point of it why are we here what are we doing is it power to get control of other people and things. Or is it to be happy and successful?
Some people think we're here for a purpose, based on whatever religion they follow. Some people think we're here on accident and life has no real purpose. I personally believe there's no real point to being here, we're just here. I live my life to be happy because why waste my one accidental shot at life? Live your life in whatever way is fulfilling to you, it's really up to the individual person.
ihaner · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the grand scheme of things, there is no point. There's no goal to reach or game to win. We just exist. We as individuals give life meaning. Some seek power and wealth, some wish to bring change, and some only want to be happy at the end of it all. We're just animals with a uniquely complex perception of reality.
It’s simple. Humans can recognize that a symbol with a particular shape and place can have a meaning. If told the meaning, they can memorize the meaning of this weird shape thing. I’m guessing you no the logo for something, right? Such as a store, game, show, etc. When you see the logo, you instantly realize what it represents. Now pretend it’s some notes on a music staff. You see the note, and instantly recognize what note it represents and how to play it.
I’ve been reading music for most of my life at this point so it’s really natural, like reading a book or sentence. But thinking about it it’s really weird because it’s like I’ve assigned personalities to each of the notes. Like D is a swell guy and E is a Nerd. A is an pretentious asshole and G a big Dope that is Ds younger brother.
Practice. There are also tricks to learn where notes are. Also, I play the violin, and when I read sheet music, I don’t think of the notes, I just remember what note is what finger.
Basically if there is a C looking thing next to the fraction looking thing, it is probably going to sound low. If it is a different symbol, it (probably) can be either low or high. Unless it is one if the many clefs never used. And onto the actual notes and stuff. Lower means it will sound lower and same with higher. To find note lengths, you need to know the time signature. This is the fraction thing at the start. I dont really understand those so Im just going to use a normal 4/4 for this example. If it is a tiny oval, it has 4 beats. If it is a non filled in circle with a line on it, it is 2 beats. A filled circle with a line is 1 beat. A filled circle with a line and then a line sticking out of the line gets half of the last note. Then they just add lines to the other line to make it smaller. However, none of this matters if there is an arc with a dot above the note. This symbol means the direction or musicion decides how long to hold the note.
Because it looks pretty and people like it? Dude leave your mom alone. Poor woman wants to look nice and have fun and her son insults her for it. Rude.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say that, but obviously your the minority otherwise there would be.more clothes with real pockets
See, the great majority of women WANT real pockets. However, I think that there's two reasons we don't have pockets. First, money leads the way. Purses? Fancy wallets? Clutches? If we had normal pockets, most women wouldn't have to buy purses, clutches or large wallets. Second, socialization and the message society sends. It's normalized to expect women to wear clothing that hugs the figure. You can't have pants with huge pockets if they're "skinny." Also, big buldges in pockets of, say skinny jeans, is not really attractive. So "want" or "demand" isn't ALWAYS what chooses the supply. There are manny more factors at play here.
[deleted] · -29 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Lucriaz · 18 points · Posted at 20:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao they wouldnt cause them asses want us to buy purses -.- If we do get pockets they are either small or cant hold crap weighing more than an empty wallet without looking or feeling weird asfuck. Anything els is rare, atleast from my experience.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Have found even dresses that had great pockets with no issues with weight of the items.
But way to many make stretchy pockets if they put in one. So put a phone or w.e in there and suddenly you find yourself kicking your shit with the knees.
And yeah it does feel like some time way back fash biz just made an agreement to push purses since even fucking jeans can come with a tiny ass pocket that can maybe hold a coin. Or fake ass shit that look like the real deal until you get up close.
Since highschool I have been in a fb group just to find clothes with pockets cause I hate always carrying a purse or backpack.
In a pinch boobpocketing works v.v
Omg same! Flapping pockets while waddling awkwardly xD
And in store:
Fondling dress, find nice side pockets.
Mouth: IIIIHHIHIHI weird happy noises
Brain: Shut up you fucking weirdo
Mouth: almost sexual weird sounds when discovering it's not the kind that sagg down when putting in stuff
Or if with friends waving it at them screaming about pockets ~
I wish there was more of them so I can stop being so freaking weird abt it
I need us to shop together, so we can pretend our weird shopping noises are to each other. Then we can pretend we've just invented a new language and bobble around the store with our big brains? Just a thought lol
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 21:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Guess definitely makes jeans and purses. Most designers make pants AND purses. Purses and pants are often made by the same companies— I have no idea where you’re getting this idea that they are separate entities, like women have to go to special separate stores to get their pants and their purses. I work at a retail store and when there’s not a pandemic happening you can definitely get a discount Jessica Simpson purse to go with your discount Jessica Simpson jeans which will have shallow, useless pockets.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:08:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
But if that were true boy’s emo skinny jeans wouldn’t have had the pockets they did. I remember girls buying the boy’s version of the jeans for the pockets because they were full-sized instead of tiny ones (Also longer, I’m old, you wanted your pants to just draaaaaag back then). Just as tight. I’ve also bought plenty of clothes as a woman that were NOT in any way tight or form-fitting that could have had normal pockets that just didn’t. Jeans, sweats, shorts, hoodies, sometimes you even think they have pockets and they’re FAKE, just sewn on the outside even though the garment has room inside. It’s bizarre.
Also, if you look at the history of pockets you will find a history of sexism both in the fashion and social realms and with the way capitalism works I’m really surprised this is your sticking point. It’s a genius marketing plan. Women sometimes carry purses>make women’s pockets obsolete>market for purses will rise out of necessity. You have to create a need for your product.
Certain beauty ideals and standards have long been ingrained into our society for decades. It’s all about the illusion many women want to create that enhances their overall appearance.
High heels = creates the illusion of elongating the legs; makeup = enhances your facial features
As for this newer trend of super long lashes and super long nails? I have no idea. I think it’s a temporary trend. But who knows. As a woman myself, you learn from a very early age what these beauty ideals are and how society expects you to look. Of course, everyone is different, but this overall concept represents the “accepted” look society expects of you.
I really recommend “Be a Lady They Said” video on YouTube. Really demonstrates all these conflicting beauty ideals we experience.
I don't disagree, we should wear what we want and what makes us feel good. But unfortunately, society will continue to hold beauty ideals and norms of what they consider desirable. "They" being narratives from thousands of different voices from TV, social media, historical standards, peer pressure, and so on. :/
It’s wild when men talk shit about women wearing makeup, but at the same time wouldn’t be attracted to us if we didn’t wear it. And yes, the woman you think is hot on the cover of that magazine, on that TV show/movie, in that Instagram photo, is wearing a shit ton of makeup even if it doesn’t seem like it
Could reverse that. Women claim to do the makeup for them and not for the male gaze but you just said “wouldn’t be attracted to us if we didn’t wear it.” So, is it for us or for you?
And btw, I think caked on makeup is different from what you think I meant.
No they don't think that. Caked-on makeup is you just referring to girls who are terrible at doing their makeup.
Even if it doesn't look like they have a lot on, they almost certianly do have a lot of makeup on, there's just a difference when they're good at it/a professional does it for them.
This in turn answers the question about the caked on makeup, they're just bad at their makeup.
The nails and lashes is usually for the girl and not the guy. They like feeling pretty. It's similar to guys having nice cars or blasting music in their car. It's usually not for the girls although some will be attracted to it.
I’ve read somewhere that wearing heels a lot does cause them to adapt to that position. Which I guess makes sense, just like your muscles will grow to accommodate slouching or straight posture depending on which one you do more.
Western fashion is (probably*) organized around the philosophical values of dicomfort and impracticality. The less comfortable, less useful, and more restrictive/restricted it is, the more it is valued.
*It would require intensive academic study by one or more members of an uncontacted tribe to be certain of this, but I'm pretty sure.
Honestly as a girl who has had skin issues since the ripe old age of 11 I don't understand the appeal of wearing so much makeup. It's just really bad for the skin. I like colorful eyeshadow and own a couple dozen pallettes but packing every pore full of foundation just seems really unhealthy.
Makeup itself isn’t bad for the skin. Yeah if you leave it on too long or if you’re allergic to the ingredients you’ll have an issue. But the thing that causes acne isn’t just “particles” it’s bacteria. Makeup alone won’t break you out. Not keeping it clean and using dirty brushes and the like will though.
Well I used to wear makeup every day, would always clean my brushes every other use, and wore mineral foundation and still had issues. Now I refuse to put anything on my skin that's not 100% natural and have seen some improvement + drinking like 60 oz of water a day
100% natural doesn’t mean anything. Everything is natural. “Natural” makeups still have oils and preservatives just like everything else. There’s also no actual guidelines to what is officially called “natural” and “organic” those are just labels anyone can put on any cosmetic regardless of the content that’s in it.
I’m glad you found something that works for you though!
I cannot stand the feeling of foundation. They’ve tried powers, liquids, mixtures, I don’t know. It all felt like a was five smearing mud on my face. Caked on and I couldn’t ignore it, even done by “professionals” with “just a little bit.”
Same with painted nails, not even acrylic nails (those suck too). I feel it and it bothers me.
Do you realize how long it takes to fuel up a space shuttle at a regular gas station just to hopefully escape this planet and avoid ever seeing you and your mother again...
Let alone finding a space shuttle to steal?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I only made it as far as trying to steal the shuttle. After NASA security caught me and I was eventually prosecuted for the “incident”. I am currently serving a 20 year sentence. So if you can wait 4 years, I’ll have had 20 years of boredom built up and you disappointing me might be a nice change.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how people can live like this also. I have to find out what is at the end of that long road, I have to find out what is on the other side of that mountain and if I dont I will drive myself crazy thinking about it. I just have to know while I know people who are more than happy to just stay put and I can never wrap my mind around why they feel that way. Maybe if we were all trying to find out what was over the hill we wouldnt have societies and we needed people who were happy to just sit still but if everyone sat still we would still be fighting off lions in africa
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if the universe is expanding then wtf is it expanding into
Sipsy33 · 27 points · Posted at 00:22:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astro major here.
When people usually talk about the “edge of the universe” they refer to the boundary of the observable universe. We can’t physically see past this boundary (because here spacetime is “moving” light faster than the speed of light), but there is more “universe” beyond it. It could be infinite or finite beyond the observable universe, we don’t know.
The universe doesn’t expand like an explosion, it’s actually a stretching of the distance between objects.
From our POV, this stretching is observed to be radially away from us at the center. But if we took the Earth and teleported it 1 billion light years away, we would also see things moving radially away from us. Explosions don’t work like this. And that stretching happens faster if the distance itself between objects is large. When that stretching happens faster than light (at a particular distance from the Earth), it defines the edge of the observable universe.
And because the expansion has been and is accelerating, more galaxies move into the “unobservable” universe every year.
When people talk about the universe expanding, they are talking about the observable universe. The part of the universe we can observe/see. The reason this expands is because the speed of light isn’t infinitely fast. The further the light travels away from us the further we can see. So the “expanding” is simply light traveling further and further.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of frustrating that the things we have access to knowing are slowly slipping away from us over time.
I know I don't get it, but neither do you, as I was not speaking of the subject/shape/whatever physical term related to baloon itself as of meaning of infinity or nothingless. How can something with infinite surface have an end? What in your mind is beyond "confined"?
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 16:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything is just one big cause -> effect chain reaction... imagine if you moved just a few atoms around right before the Big Bang, the butterfly effect that would have after billions of years? Would our species even exist?
"The story so far: In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move. " -Douglas Adams
let´s say you invented something cool and want to produce it, but you don´t have a lot of money. You then decide how much the thing costs to produce, let´s say a 100 dollars, divide this price in 100 parts, 1 dollar each, and ask your neghbor , Joel, for some money. let´s say Joel gives you 10 bucks to help. After producing the thing, you sell it for 150 bucks. So, you spent 100 dollars and gained 150. You then give Joel back the money plus a part of the profit(150% of 10 dollars), 15 dollars. It´s a win win situation. In the real world, Your product would be the company, and Joel an investor. It´s actually more complicated, but simplistically speaking, that´s how the first "Stock market" deal happened, when the West Indies Company needed money and asked from locals, dividing a part of the profit with them
I mean...it should only ever be important biologically. I’m about as white as humanly possible (my husband maintains that I’m so white, I glow in the dark)and that’s important because I know that means I have to be super cautious in the sun because I’m much more likely to get certain types of cancer as a result. Beyond that, the color of my skin means nothing.
I guess it started as elitism, the dislike that someone else looks different thus should be treated differently to you. Stereotypes only make things worse. Someone of a different colour does something you dislike or disagree with so you generalise their entire race? It's something I'll never understand, I guess culture enforces it/used to enforce it
6/4 people understand fractions, the other third don't.. we're all different like that
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:24:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea, not to demean the guy, but I really don't see which part (pun intended) he doesn't get.
Fractions are as a concept very allinged with how humans think. Out of all the weird ass math concepts not to understand I don't get fractions being the one.
It might be aligned with how you think when you grow to with the imperial measurement system. Metric didn't use fractions, so it's not second nature to many of the non freedom units world
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use Metric.
The main reason Imperial is even a thing is exactly because its easier for our brains to comprehend.
We are just better at understanding partials and our minds works using references. We live in an analogue world where absolute values aren't really a thing.
As a concept everyone understands fractions, we have to. Its only really the concrete written form that can be confusing
whtsnk · 11 points · Posted at 19:40:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popular pizza pie analogy never served you well?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. But not like fractions themselves, but everything you do with them. Reducing? I know how to do it, but I don’t know how it works. Etc.
Tlizerz · 19 points · Posted at 19:19:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in a customer-facing job and just can not understand what makes people think it’s acceptable to be rude/mean to complete strangers. I mean, I understand being frustrated in certain situations, but I’ve never felt the need to swear at or insult the person working with me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:23 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Power dynamics. Re-directed frustration and anger.
[deleted] · 33 points · Posted at 19:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people think it's any of their business whether someone else - possibly a complete stranger even - identifies as a man, woman, or anything inbetween or outside, or who they're attracted to.
It seems to be a lizard-brain reaction, like the uncanny valley. Basically "this isn't what i know to be normal about people, so maybe it's dangerous." Then it escalates with groupthink.
How people can care so much for their dog and call themselves an animal lover but also eat sausage for breakfast, a burger for lunch, and steak for dinner and not care one bit. Baffles me
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 06:39:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I found this through your comment on some other post related to animals and morality and I wanted to drop a line here because I think the debate in this area is really interesting, especially in regards to how most people engage with it. Maybe this is pretentious or dumb, but hopefully it will be at least a little interesting for you?
For most people, I think the answer is simple cognitive dissonance. Most people don't think for a second where their meat comes from, or they think its okay because they aren't directly doing the killing (even though they directly contribute to it). I agree with you in that I think in almost all cases it's pretty dumb when meat eaters get butthurt about a video of animal abuse, it just doesn't make sense logically.
I'd also like to answer from my own perspective though. At its most basic level, my framework for morality comes from a selfish place. For example, stealing is wrong because I personally do not want my property stolen. While you could argue that the basis in selfishness is bad, I believe it ultimately leads to a positive moral framework in which people ubiquitously believe things like murder and rape are morally wrong. However, animals are not moral agents, as they are unable to reciprocate in the same way as humans. I can respect a tiger's right to exist, but if I roll up into its territory it will not respect that right for me. Therefore, to me, animals are not worthy of moral consideration because they simply cannot be moral agents.
So, where does that get me, because I have a dog and I love him! I care about my dog because it brings me personal pleasure to treat him nicely and care for him. However, if I were to torture him to death and eat him, I would consider this a morally neutral action. Now, I would never do this because I have no inclination to, and personally it would make me feel bad to harm an animal, though I recognize that feeling comes from an empathetic place and not a logical one. I can care about my dog in particular because he provides more value for me personally as a loving pet than as a meal. It sounds fucked up, but I think this is the only way you can consistently eat meat and say that you 'care' about an animal.
So, while I can recognize that I don't get pleasure from harming animals, I also don't believe it is morally wrong to do so. Animals are basically here to do with as we please.
I'm open to having my mind changed on this because I am unsure of how much my position is motivated by my desire to continue eating meat. Oh well, there's my rant. Read it, don't read it, it doesn't matter. I had fun writing it out.
Edit: It seems like people disagree with my position but I am interested in hearing why, especially from other people that eat meat.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 08:33:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No idea why you're getting downvoted. You're speaking your mind calmly while being open to discussing your views, eve willing to change them. But yeah, Reddit is a weird place with "elite morals" but no openness. I'll follow you down to oblivion then.
Now ! Concerning your comment, the only thing that bothers me is "torturing and killing your dog being a morally neutral action". You mean in the way that it's ok to kill a cow for meat ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think animals are worthy of moral consideration. In a moral sense, killing a dog is the same as throwing a rock in the forest, both are morally neutral actions. Tons of meat eaters have a knee jerk reaction to this position which I find hilarious because you ultimately have to take my stance if you want to continue eating meat without either accepting you're acting morally wrong and refusing to change, or accepting that you're being huge hypocrite. This generally makes a lot of meat eaters pretty upset.
But yes, in a moral sense there is no difference between a dog and a cow. I truly don't think it's possible to explain why a dog is worthy of moral consideration while the animals we consider 'ok' to slaughter for food like cows, pigs, and chickens, are not.
Boiled down and simplified, it starts as "You're not like me, therefore you're bad." Combine that with hundreds of years of stigma, rumors, misinformation and flat out ignorance, and it builds. It doesn't help that many of the group's starting hate like this, are trusted on a spiritual level for some. When you challenge that someone's deeply held faith or belief is wrong, they get defensive and can double down.
Where I grew up most people had never met a single (openly) gay person in their lives.
70-80 years of only going on the information they learned from their parents and the adults/groups around them. It wasn't, for the most part, until my generation grew up that many of them met an openly gay or transgender person.
Many of them have come to accept us because we have an open dialogue and they've also known us since we were small. Realizing someone they care about is happier and more free being openly LGBTQ+ really forced some of them to rethink their values.
Some of them, they're still homophobic and refuse to change, and have their insular little echo chambers, where they do nothing but spout and rant. That's how it's always been. An echo chamber of misinformed and afraid people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly couldnt care how someone identifies themselves as i feel it shouldnt be a priority for others to know. Lets say the first thing someone tells me is that theyre vegan. Cool, but that doesnt define who you are; what you aspire to be. That just tells me youve never had a pork pie before...
1) Being vegan is a choice a person makes based on their own thoughts, beliefs and experiences. Being LGBTQ+ isn't. I didn't choose to be trans, I didn't choose to be gay. Lord knows I've spend enough nights wishing it wasn't my case. It'd make my life easier.
2) It actually does have a huge impact on who you are. I'm speaking solely for myself in this instance but many of my friends and peers have echoed similar experiences to mine, however I won't post their stories for them, it's not my place.
I lived somewhere very conservative, and that meant that I never developed a language to describe myself, until later in life. So I spent 20 years being unable to communicate why I hated myself or to understand what I was feeling, and open discussions of anything other than heterosexual, cisgender relationships and body norms were shunned and passed off to community leaders.
Leaving my region for college I met others and developed a language for what I felt and could only start understanding my feelings after age 20.
Twenty years of my life were dedicated to a name, body and personality that I lived in that no longer apply to me. It means there are things about living as a man I never learned. It means I have had to go to court to get my name, and defend myself and my person hood to a judge. I had to prove my fervor and desires to complete strangers to start my transition. I had to sit in psychological exams to prove I wanted this badly enough so I could have chest surgery. Having to sit and wait for a phonecall to know my boyfriend was okay after we got outed to his family. Having complete strangers on the street tell me that I am a freak for trying to be true and happy.
If I didn't have to constantly prove myself, maybe it would feel like a lesser part of my person hood. However my reality and my life is a big stack of papers proving I am myself. It's been the last few years of my life, experiencing all of this and I'm not going to sit there and pretend its not a huge part of the person I am today.
It even complicates talking about yourself to others. When a woman I'm not familiar with talks about menstruation, and says "...but you wouldn't know about that, Ven!" Am I supposed to pretend I didn't experience Satan's waterfall for 20 years? But if I bring that up, OOP I'm making it about me being trans.
And most of all, I work in a school system if I am not loudly and proudly myself I set up some poor kid to go through what I did. I want them to see that being transgender is a normal thing. It doesn't make me bad, or scary or eeeeevil. When we do throwback pictures of the staff at the kids ages am I supposed to not participate? These are all things that are part and parcel of myself and who I am. And I've worked hard so dammit I should be proud.
TL;DR: Being trans is a huge life-changing thing. You don't get the choice to not talk about it.
It's the same reaction as most people have hearing that there are Nickelback fans. You've never met one, and everything about it seems gross from your perspective, so why trust that they're real or that they matter?
I guess only a homophobic would know but maybe they just are and can't concretely explain. People are twisted and as much as there are explanations to why I don't know any.
Bujwua · 10 points · Posted at 20:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree (M), but I have have had the same experience the other way around with (F). I think it’s usually people that are naturally competitive. With all that said I am a bit competitive myself and I am usually down for a bit of a fun competition so they can prove it if they really think they’re better. Whether I think I’ll win or lose.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Bujwua · 1 points · Posted at 09:37:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, ok I see your point. I can see that not making sense some people are just annoying
Let’s make this clear. I’m a man. I have many male friends. None of them think they are better than any woman.
Ethario · -10 points · Posted at 22:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its pretty easy to think that if you look at the world. Best athletes in sports are men (cause biology). Famous world leaders are usually men, people who give important speeches, managers the list goes on and on.
Now as a boy growing up this is what you see and this is the world around you, its easy to fall into this trap.
Mostly all raised by women, hopefully to be respectful to women
But those MGTOW type guys basically remind me of a man who's mom does their laundry while they cry about how their toast is soggy and have a shitty relationship with their sister.... they're just losers that can't see how pathetic they are, but dunking on women makes them feel bigger and better. Lots on reddit like this
Because it's a man's world. Women have equality because men allow them to plain and simple. I don't think this makes men "better" but different. In the end that equality could be taken away in a very short amount of time and women could do literally nothing about it but accept it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t think that’s true. Men and women rely on each other. There are lots of things women could do to prevent this.
Like what? Obviously this kind of severe scenerio would be some end of the world shit but If men just decided to physically take control, locally or globally or whatever, it would be over. Because there is an inherent power that's there that makes us not equal at all. There might be pockets of resistance but ultimately women would choose submission over the alternative.
This is apparent in places where women are treated poorly, or like property. Certain Muslim nations come to mind. Liberation will happen if it does because men open up to the idea of it, but in hypermasculine environments like that it is ultimately up to men. That kind of situation could happen anywhere, even here. But we are civilized and believe in equality so we choose not to subjugate women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:56 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s an inherent physical imbalance between the two sexes, I agree with that. However, in a developed society where power doesn’t rely so heavily on the physical, but our agency is determined largely by institutions, physical power imbalance becomes less and less important.
In countries where women’s rights have not progressed and there is a big cultural entrenchment of sexual subjugation it will take a big ideological shift in both men and women to embrace sexual equality.
To your last point ultimately it would take men giving up that physical control in those areas for change to happen. And the ensuing rights are predicated on a thin line where men subconsciously know that it is because of them, and they if they so chose, could take it away at any time. If men here decided they no longer wanted women to have rights, poof they are gone. It would be naive to think otherwise.
There will be periods of liberation and periods of subjugation from now until humans are a distant memory, but liberation is allowed by men. We are not equal, but we deserve equal rights. Men run the world and will always run the world. Women will run occasionally but generationally return to periods of submission and subjugation, depending on men.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess only time will tell, but I see a future in which the world is run by both sexes equally.
Women have long fought for rights and continue to do so. For you to think women having power boils down to the benevolence of you and your ilk speaks of your own personal insecurity.
It has nothing to do with insecurity, like I said I believe in equality. A world where men and women have an equal say is a fantastic place. Im just saying that its a fickle thing that could be taken from men at any time, and to believe otherwise is quite naive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a Christian and I do a lot of studying into this stuff, I'd love to have a discussion. Shoot me a DM if you're interested. But I'll try to water it down to fit a comment:
The concept of God is that He always has been, is, and will always be. Admittedly it sounds crazy and really fabricated, but realize humans will never understand God. It isn't possible. If you fully understand or can comprehend someone, then it removes his or her purpose. That applies to anything in life, including God. There will be many aspects about Him we'll never understand, but the Bible (which once proven to be factually correct, which it has) can be used as a reliable source to give insight on Him. Trust me, i even ask the question you asked, but I know that I'll never fully understand.
Like I said, it's a rabbit hole, but message me if you're interested in discussing!
Thats basically what it comes down to. He is the Creator. This is the situation when id like to use an analogy but quite literally nothing logically works as a comparison.
because nothing is physically impossible so nothingness created stuff (its quite complicated and I barely understand it myself, also science is constantly improving and this theory could be proven to be complete BS)
I once thought "What if God is just a being from another universe that is technologically advanced and just uses technology we don't understand?" Then I started thinking "What if when we die, he just somehow has the ability to transport our consciousness to that universe?" I swear I've never done drugs. God is just a really deep rabbit hole with no evidence in one way or another.
Believing that your failures can be reconciled after death is powerful for a lot of people. Personally, I can't begin to comprehend such a close-minded train of thought. We are far more powerful than we think we are
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, with great respect, I believe it should blow our minds. The idea is that you shouldn't be able to fully fathom or understand God. If you knew everything your parents did and thought, they're not useful. If we knew what God did, or fully understood Him, then all of a sudden it takes away a lot. As a Christian who does a ton of research into evidence (Lee Strobel has great resources), it still boggles my mind, probably more than yours, actually. It's a rabbit hole, and it'll always be. It's a wonderful journey to learn more about. DM me if you're ever interested in discussing!
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 01:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are many philosophies that affirm theism. I don't know what you mean by a philosophy that "respects" Theism though. Respect as in the sense there is no conflict or respect as in the sense of a personal attitude. The latter is impossible as a philosophy is incapable of having an attitude and the former is just the nature of conflicting claims. I don't know what you mean by "proofs" either, proof is a sufficient evidence or sufficient argument to accept the truth of a proposition. Any attempt to provide a proof is not a excuse to search for logic where its not, its using logic to reach a conclusion. So I'm unsure if what you said even makes sense. I think what you mean to say is that you think the reasons for believing in a God are bad.
There might be stuff that we might not be able to phanthom, but I don't think the solution is a bunch of incoherent stories and reasonings.
Theist and non theist alike would agree with this. Nobody is saying the solution is incoherent collection of stories and reasoning, your just affirming your own personal take on Theism.
I don't personally lean either way in the discussion as I'm agnostic, but I always find it interesting how much Atheist love to try and psycho analyze those they disagree with, mix it in with their logic, and vomit up a piece of work that if had any self awareness about it, is of the same level of the thing they think they are espousing themselves against.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it fascinating that because you disagree with your opponent you assume they are lying to themselves. As far as crossing a border when looking for evidence I really am just mind boggled as to how that can held against a position as that's the way we come to reach conclusions in any circumstance.
You don't need religion, even in death where it seems most sorrowful - you only need to accept it. I don't like the definitions of theist, atheist or agnostic. I do like the terms jewish, christian, muslim, because obviously religion is tied to culture and tradition.
Yes religion is tied to culture, however the terms of theist, atheist, or agnostic are ways to describe a general belief without having to list every position, they are worldview positions, I have no understanding of why you prefer a set of terms over another its completely irrelevant.
But they're not moral guidelines whatsoever. Education is a moral guideline.
I'm an Ethicist and this is just so wrong...education can not act as a moral guideline, it can act as a way to inform of moral theories and etc, but its not in itself a moral guideline. Also to say religion isn't a moral guideline is just so wrong, just because you think something is flawed or wrong does not make it non existent. Religion in tandem with a moral theory can and does act as a moral guideline for billions of people.
This is my problem with how you reason, you essentially beg the question in everything you say. You start with your conclusion and make assertions from there. And on top of that my biggest pet peeve is that you try to psycho analyze your opponents. Just realize that people come to different conclusions and just because they disagree with you doesn't mean they are intellectually dishonest, in most cases when you psycho analyze I think its likely your just projecting.
You don't need religion, even in death where it seems most sorrowful - you only need to accept it.
This is a coping mechanism, it has nothing to do with whether or not your position or the religious position is true.
You can't have a conclusive answer in life when there is no source material. The universe could have been invented last thursday for all I know.
If by conclusive you mean 100% certainty that would be the case for all beliefs, even properly basic beliefs like you mention that the universe has been here longer than since last Thursday. That's not a good reason to not attempt to find answers. We have the capacity for reason for a reason (haha pun). If you want to take a skeptical position as such to avoid finding answers yourself then fine, but don't use it as dirt to sling at those who do care to find the answers.
It’s difficult to understand respecting something so incomprehensible and contradictory.
Thanks for posting your response. Why do you care what delusional people think? They’ll find some other messes up reason to hate you.
Bardsal · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Totally with you there, I just know within by being that 'god' doesn't exist & the whole jesus thing is whack. I just cannot fathom how ppl believe what is essentially fairytales. And the extremes ppl go to, following what they believe to be set in stone rules from these times, religious fanatics & extremists are beyond my comprehension. I do, however, believe in karma & universal energy, so it's not that I'm not spiritual or that I don't agree that there are some good messages in their teachings, but believing the whole virgin birth & dying on the cross, going to hell blah blah blah, nope. I do understand, particularly during difficult times, that ppl need to believe something better is coming, that they're working towards something, maybe some need to believe someone's watching so that they do the right thing, but then you get pedophile priests...
Well, we dont really know how every thing started. Yes there is the big bang, but that means the gasses where there before. As humans we think that in order for something to exist, it has to be made. Everything we have experienced has shown that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:32:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine how I feel. I'm a very logical person normally. Yet, I believe. I have no idea why I do, and no amount of logic has made me stop. But my religious side and logical side are occasionally at odds with each other.
I don’t feel like going into a massive annoying “religious man rant”, so I’m just going to explain it like how I think. 0 + 0 + 0 + 0... can never equal 1. There has to be something behind it all. I don’t quite genuinely understand how something can just be. The idea of an all creating being that knows is I guess a bit, comforting? Idk how to explain it. And then there’s also the concept of how the human mind can’t really make an idea on its own with no inspiration, so the concept of a god has to come from somewhere. But those are just my two cents.
Oh I know what they are. Vile creatures that have a personal vendetta against me for some unfathomable reason, and they show their hostility by shitting on my head (suspiciously high frequency)
About 60 years ago birds were wonderful creatures. We have waterfalls everywhere clean air and it was paradise on earth.
Then you young fggt kids came along and polluted the air and chopped the trees down. Now we have shit coloured birds that get theirs back by shitting on the heads of the old people! It’s not my fault you fking dumb plovers I yell!
It all started when the hippies changed the quality of the bread. Bread used to be fresh and natural real seeds in it made from the maples. These days it’s been bleached. I try to feed the bread to the pigeons and they just look at me like I’m a fking nazi pleb.
What I don't understand is where these glorious references come from? Do people just have a stash of hundreds of really specific videos with only a few thousand views for meming? Do you search for this stuff? How do you even know it exists? Did you make this yourself? so many questions...
Not who you’re asking, but that specific song was hugely popular around 2005. It’s literally the first song I thought of after seeing the words “whisper rap.”
People shit on mumble rap for not understanding the lyrics or the autotune.
First of, music is music lyrics or not (and yes they do write lyrics, sometimes it makes no sense, sometimes they have meaning), and second, autotune is an instrument just like any other, at least they realize their singing voice isn't that great and didn't quit their music careers there.
It's like everyone who doesn't understand spanish sing despasito/every other flamingo cha cha cha song, isn't that mumble pop for non-spanish speakers ?
OmfgTim · 10 points · Posted at 19:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People dont really even know what mumble rap refers to. R/music called Travis Scott and Roddy Rich mumble rap, which is just wrong
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:29:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here is my explenation: music does not need lyrics to be good. There are several genres that doesn't have lyrics at all. So, as long as an artist aren't trying to say something deep/smart/meaningful lyrics aren't important IMO. You might wonder, why bother writing lyrics if you aren't saying anything important? My answer to this is that the instrumentals in hip-hop are often very repetative and they might have the rythm, but they aren't very catchy. Vocals can fix both problems if done properly.
Some (so called) mumble-rappers I recommend:
Young Thug, Playboi Carti, Lil Uzi Vert, Travis Scott, Lil Pump (pre Harverd Dropout) and Future.
Hope this helps! Sorry if my text looks sloppy, writing on mobile and english isn't my first language.
Well, i personally like it because it often has a very layed back attitude and i can vibe with it. Its a taste-thing what you can vibe to, i happen to like this kind of vibe. I dont care about the lyrics when i listen to a mumble rap song, i just like the phonetics.
I’m not OP but people lump so much stuff under mumble rap. Young Thug is my favorite thrown under the umbrella, but there’s also Future as another very popular artist. Then you could include people like 21 Savage or Roddy Ricch. I’ve also seen people call Lil Uzi Vert mumble rap
Neither would I but I’ve seen it said so I figured I’d include him
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing with “mumble rap” is that it’s not really a genre so much as an insult, kinda like dadrock. So it can really mean anything depending on who you’re talking too. But some of my favorites that I would definitely consider “mumblers” are like Future, Young Thug and Playboi Carti.
Well, the thing is i am german and listen mostly to german rap music, so i could give you some examples there if you want, though i noticed that most people i talked to didnt care for the music if they cant understand it. One artist would be Ufo361 (Song examples: VVS, Rich Rich, Sonnenuntergang), another one that i really like, which is a lot more underground is Yin Kalle (Examples: Plug Call, Hose Tief, Nase voll). They are both Trap Rappers but they often use the mumbling rapstyle. A important fact that i forgot in my comment is that i think that a lot of people cant just vibe without listening to the lyrics, so maybe it helps that u cant understand the language. So mayb try, for example dutch trap rap and stuff, also great.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish i could get into that. Normally when i turn on a mumble rap song i just think about how lame the lyrics are and how weird the people are making the song
Mumble rap is actually kinda surprising as an art form. While it initially seems really simple, the specific way you need to write and rhyme is both very limiting and a lot more complex than traditional flows. For mumble rap the multisyllabic triplet is super important. 3 words in a row that all rhyme both inside and out. Without that, it doesn't flow well.
Mumble rap usualy emphasises on the beat, the key, the flow etc. The lyrics aren’t truly important, but the flow, key progression etc. of the vocal makes it appealing in my opinion. However the lyrics in mumble rap are usually humourous, like Young Thug’s chorus in “Dome”
she suck and put me in a coma, i nut on that fish in my sofa
And later in a verse he goes
hop in the car and I'm wilin’, I'm styling, I hop out it cause I'm a driver,
which just flows really nice and sounds appealing on top of the simple yet beautiful beat
On the same note, heavily auto tuned vocals. I don’t get the appeal of singers/rappers who cannot sing or operate the auto tune plugin so it corrects the pitch issues. Used as an effect it is as appealing as the sound of vomiting to me.
Tbh honest some of their games were original and fun but yes they just keep remaking the same games over and over. it's even worse than bethesda milking skyrim
I have a strong feeling we're going to get another re-release of Skyrim on the next console generation before Bethesda finally releases Elder Scrolls 6.
conspiracy theories...when you break them down and work out how many people would have to be involved and the cost of keeping all those people quiet, they're completely ridiculous...
Conspiracy theories are the ‘acts of the gods’ of our time. We want to assign blame and understand mysterious things. Since the gods don’t cut it nowadays, we blame ‘the man’ instead and come up with some myths to help us cope with hard situations.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 14:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a really interesting way to look at it. Makes sense and explains a great deal. I would hope that we as a species will outgrow it though. I feel it holds us back overall.
Ooer · 11 points · Posted at 18:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s oddly more comforting to believe that humans have the capability and power to orchestrate things, even if nefarious, than to accept that everything is random chaos and we are just in it for the ride.
I actually never thought about this. That’s how the ancient civilizations explained pretty much everything. What’s the sun? Oh, it’s some guy named Ra. Why does the Earth exist? Because of this woman named Gaia. Makes a lot more sense than actually finding out why this thing happened or exists
I disagree with the equivocation because people still believe in acts of god. Look at how many preachers have said coronavirus is the work of God trying to kill off particular groups of people.
Conspiracy theories are their own disease, and I think the cause is living in highly unequal societies where a few thousand people have as much power as the next group of hundreds of millions of people. This leads people in the latter group to start assuming that people in the former group are using their power to create lies designed to maintain that power.
Indeed - aren’t those 80 or so individuals who own half the wealth of the world indistinguishable from gods at the moment? In terms of power to make things happen that affects the rest of us...
In our modern age there is little incentive left to believe in gods. Hell is not scary and believable anymore. Those conspiracy theories are almost unfalsifiable and exploit the same fears. They often come with a religious package as well. And some of the stories turn out to be true in the end. Or true-ish. There is some sick stuff going on in the world.
Is it though? Useful data and explanations are readily available. Acts of god were in a time when knowledge was not there. In this day and age you are just willfully ignorant. Provided you are mentally healthy.
I think that the same people who would have previously believed in gods have just switched. I make no claims about the state of their mental health though.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ridiculous doesn't always mean it's wrong. If you think about plenty of things you know to be true you'll realize how ridiculous they are too
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not necessarily a conspiracy theorist but some of the stuff that U.S. government declassified would be considered as crazy tinfoil hat stories if I shared it with a layperson.
Except some of them turn out to be real. MK Ultra, Project Northwoods, poison alcohol during prohibition, FBI spying on MLK and John Lennon, the list goes on. The Vietnam War and the Spanish American war were both triggered by false-flag attacks on U.S. military assets that were actually 100% staged by the U.S.
Conspiracy theory is an overly broad term is the problem. It ranges from the ludicrous (flat earth, reptile aliens) to the plausible (there's more to the Epstein thing than the official story is telling us).
And yet people conspire to commit crimes all the time and have done so throughout history. We only hear about the ones that eventually came to life. You'd be surprised how the threat of death will motivate people to remain quiet. Another motivator is holding dirt on someone in exchange for their silence. Also, these days, when a conspiracy is leaked, the news can be manipulated to cast doubt or create a distraction so attention is taken away.
He's from the government trying to fool us dont believe this false civilian
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree for some conspiracies but there are a lot that ended up being true. Now that doesn’t mean I think coronavirus is a hoax but it’s hard to believe government’s have the people’s interest first thing.
1 million or 2 is many but not really when compared to 1 billion or 2.
100 is many but not really when compared to 100000.
Your comment doesn't really challenge the point that I made in any way to be honest, in fact the more I read over it I realise it is a baseless argument
Eh, all you did was reiterate my point. It's not acrually many. You're saying 0.5% of conspiracy being true is many? I'm not against conspiracy theories, but to think any more than 10% are entirely true is just delusional imo
Yeah I did reiterate your point to show how silly it sounds.
0.5% of certain amount can still be "many"
And yes at the end you said "imo. " that's proves the point. It's subjective, it's your opinion, thanks for finally admitting that
To quote another user's answer: "I think a lot of dumbass conspiracies boil down to people wanting to be in on a secret truth to feel superior to others."
that was a pretty closed environment though. i'm thinking more of the ones that involve the public at large. for example: "they" want to inject a potentially deadly virus or something into everyone with a vaccine...well, presumably those at the top aren't going to be, or their families. but that family includes partners and in-law from other families so they wont be either...and what about friends? it's like the 6 degrees of seperation thing, eventually it involves everybody. also if 1000 people are sworn to secrecy, SOMEone's gonna blab, it's human nature...
The one thing I love about them is that they're so organized. It requires so many people in so many areas of the world with so many different agendas to all agree to do the same thing.
A big enough group of people can't even agree on what to have for lunch, ffs.
I heard it started in the prison system. They’d wear their pants like that to let other prisoners know they were down to fuck. Somehow it caught on as trendy in the outside world and it’s origin has nothing to do with it anymore.
As an asexual, I don’t understand why sexual assault happens, especially with people in the workplace, between students and teachers, in churches, etc. Why would you risk your reputation to have sex with a non-consenting party? It just doesn’t seem worth it.
I alsodon’tgetsexingeneralbutthisissomethingthat’sbothered me
How people eat 'normally'. What 'normal' is. As someone who has never had a atypical relationship with food from birth, I cannot fathom how people know when to stop eating.
Because it’s supposed to be a Pavlovian response to feel slightly nauseated when you overeat but obviously overweight people push past that and keep eating.
I’ve always been a thin person and grew up with overweight people and the only times that I overeat, I pay the consequences for. I feel sick to my stomach so when I eat now, I learn to eat just enough to feel “full” so I don’t get to that feeling sick place.
Also when you eat slower, you might feel fuller versus someone who eats like they’re about to die in 5 secs and need to eat in under 5 mins.
life- earth is kinda crappy. what even is this suppose to be????
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha. Yes, I get it. Why anything exists is very confusing. I battle with this question frequently.
From a personal perspective, I guess everyone has a different experience of life and some enjoy it more than others.
The good thing is that everyone’s life is always changing. Nothing is stagnant and there’s a good chance that things will change for the better, particularly if we direct our ships towards betterment.
I think life is never a walk in the park for anyone, however. It’s full of challenges.
The people who think the corona virus is a hoax or can only hurt old people. Newsflash, even it can kill young people too, and even if it couldnt, this can effect all of us, wether its second hand or not. For example, the nursing home my grandma is in is on lockdown now. I used to be able to do laundry for her, now shes locked in there by herself. It affects us all.
Right, and the whole “you can’t die from it if you’re black” 🙄I wish people would take it more seriously. I just had a 24-year-old cousin to pass from it 2 days ago..I try not to think about the fact that he had to die alone in a hospital room
Well im sorry, do you see the flu destroying italy? This is still a pandemic and you should treat it like one, rather than acting like killing the elderly is something that shouldnt be feared. And before you say it, yes, other sicknesses can only kill the elderly but those are bad things too. Dont act like just because a sickness has a demographic of people it can only kill, that means that all of a sudden "oh its just the flu" i agree, the people panic buying are ridiculous, but the people saying this sickness is something that shouldnt be cared about are just as ridiculous.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:54:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Newsflash: You are wrong. Search up Ismail Mohamed Abdulwahab. Not just did he have no known underlying conditions, he was 13. Move that towards 50 and you will find many more...
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 02:00:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So there was one kid somewhere? That’s your response? You cannot possibly be serious. Covid19 is called boomerremover for a reason.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s killed no one under 50 who didn’t have a preexisting condition
You were wrong. That was my response. Nothing more.
Don’t bother. You’ll just waste your time and be frustrated. Try to think of it like this. It’s easier and less scary for them to believe this version.
[deleted] · 65 points · Posted at 16:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I understand basic maths, but when it gets complex thats when I switch off.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
X= plus or minus the square route of B squared minus fourAC all divided by twoA
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you are counting the balls in your ball pit but then you figure out you can stack them and then count them and then you figure out you can make one blue ball stand for 10 red balls and then you figure out that you can make a green ball stand for any amount of red balls and then you figure out that the same rules for adding blue and red balls apply to counting green balls and then you figure out that you can have pieces of red balls and that the pieces can be infinitely small and you can still count them and then you get to group theory and you're like what the fuck.
Sure, what about them? They don’t make sense? I’m not saying the reasons for them are good, but bad reasons count as reasons too.
Ghosting is a lot easier than actually telling someone you’re not interested.
That’s a generalization, they vary from person to person, and people have reasons about why they have those ‘rules’. Depends on the rules you’re speaking to, I guess.
Gender roles aren’t fundamentally about limiting people, they’re mostly constructed to describe how the two sexes differently express themselves. And the sexes have historically expressed themselves differently, on average, and have slight, but significant, variations in psychological factors, on average. Different cultures also have different gender roles. They make sense, but shouldn’t be used in limiting people to what they should do, as you say.
Again, different cultures frown upon different things. In Japan, for example, introversion is the norm. In western societies, the opposite is true, generally speaking. There are some fair reasons why it might be the case for each society.
Again, not saying that these reasons are good reasons, but nonetheless they are reasons why people do these things. They’re not just arbitrarily made up, though.
Yes! Seems to be a big thing in our culture today. I have been “ghosted” by grown adult clients as well as in romantic relationships. If you’ve decided to move ahead with your event without my help, just let me know. Otherwise I will keep planning and trying to contact you for a while. So inconsiderate and unfathomable because I would never do it. I also think for major job interviews (not in my personal career) where you’ve made it to the last round, they should give you courtesy that they have made their decision and hired a different candidate.
exactly! i try to think that the problem is not me, it’s them. of course you’ll have to deal with the rejection and the time spent trying to find a reason but sometimes it’s best to acknowledge what they’ve taught you and just move on. also i try to think that the fact that i would never do it is a sign of their emotional immaturity or not being able to communicate clearly. in both context though (relationships as well as in your job) it might be because they viewed you just as a tool, but again that sounds like emotionally immaturity to me. it still sucks once you’re starting to care for that person but it’s not your fault
I’m just playing devil’s advocate, but it’s a helluva lot easier to disappear from that person’s life than to deal with the consequences of a failed relationship.
of course! that’s why you shouldn’t do it. no one deserves that. once you’ve developed a relationship with someone the best thing to do would be to explain your reasons and move on with your life, as opposed to just leave someone hanging. that’s just a sign of immaturity from who’s ghosting and that they can’t deal with confrontation.
you can always explain how you don’t want them in your life. no one should force you into a relationship. you should be able to move on after that. but at the same time everyone deserves an explanation :)
Not always. Abuse, both mental and physical deserves no explanation. And do you seriously think I didn’t explain? Some people are clingy and don’t react well to rejection and it shouldn’t always be the responsibility of the other person to deal with that.
no one said that’s your responsibility! I just said everyone deserves an explanation. even when you fear someone might not react “well” to the rejection or someone is “clingy”, you can just tell them directly. :) it seems to me you’re describing something completely different from what I imagined. my point is: in a seemingly “normal” relationship ghosting is an act of immaturity and disrespect towards the other person. also ghosting means cutting ties with that person completely and out of the blue. it’s definitely not your case if you had already made your point clear to the other person.
that’s my understanding, but i obviously wanted to know other people’s opinions on this haha. honestly i’m not even sure why people do it, i just know i wouldn’t do it
Some (many?) people just don't take rejection very well. It's easier to just ghost people. Also some people think they can weasel their way around your rejection. They start to interrogate and forcefully reason with you why you should continue with them. Like, are you trying to bully or guilt-trip me into being with you even if I don't want it? What's the point? So it all is just unnecessary waste of time.
I do this a lot without realizing it. Personally with my anxieties, I sometimes have no mental energy to respond to people. Days can go by until I have the energy again, and by that point it's hard to continue a conversation. It's nothing personal against them, it has everything to do with me.
People don't handle certain situations well, for an example a bad relationship, they push the problem away thinking it will go away. If they confront the problem they get really uncomfortable, so they ignore the problem and pretend it never existed. It's selfish.
right! ghosting means that you can’t handle confrontation or just that you can’t explain your reasons. or simply that you’re immature enough to think someone is not deserving of your time. sadly the only people that feel bad about it are the ones that are being ghosted but it probably gets easier with time
Sometimes I just forget about people if they don't really contribute anything, if someone I haven't talked to in a month talks to me, or I see them then yeah, I'll talk for a bit, but unless that starts a new sort of friendship, then just back to silence
It's a shitty thing to do, but I don't think it's that hard to understand.
"I don't want to interact with this person anymore, but I'm too much of a coward to deal with this situation like an adult." There you go, that's why people ghost others.
Makes perfect sense to me. I've had people verbally attack me when I told them I didn't want to see them again, so I've stopped bothering to explain myself.
Avoiding confrontation or disclosure. Cowardly control. For some it’s a defensive move- avoiding danger and disclosing location. For others it’s avoiding respectful resolution and disclosing info detrimental to their agenda.
I do it for everything. Jobs, locations, lovers, friends, family, whatever. Don't know why but I've just always done it. I love walking away from things.
What does time travel have to do with it? It’s just one particle being at more than one place at the same time, making it possible to collide with itself.
The part I don’t get is that you can never fully determine the location and speed of such a particle at the same time.
Oh can you tell me more about that maze one? I’m sorry if my previous comment came over as mean or ignorant, I guess I didn’t know all of it. I do know about the double slit one where the impacts form a “spread pattern” on the surface that is impacted on.
I've tried many times but I can never get it right. It's like figuring out analog clocks, someone can tell me how to do it, but I can't seem to retain it or whatever
Edit: goddamnit, this is going to hot isnt it, and my comment is boring as fuck smh ugh >:(
For me it's just a lack of pure spatial understanding. Someone can show me how to do a knot 30 times and guide me through it 30 times, but once I try to do it on my own I'm just lost. It isn't that I can't physically do it, it's that I can't understand what the hell I'm supposed to do.
I wasn't able to tie my shoelaces until I was 8. Everybody kept trying to explain to me by using the bunny in the tree hole analogy but it just wasn't working for me. It wasn't until my BIL explained it to me by not using that analogy that I was able to do it. Maybe it hasn't been explained to you in the right way to make it click in your brain ?
I recently learned how to tie my shoes, after you like learn it from your parent or your friend and you keep and keep trying to tie your shoes it get downs to your muscle memory and then boom you know how to do it :D
Once you eat it, you no longer have it. You can't eat it and then still have it.
I understand and agree the phrase is not the clearest.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 14:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About as clear as a fruit cake, but that makes more sence 👍
Knute5 · 3 points · Posted at 14:34:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you want to eat your cake and still have it too?
Blince · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll see if I can explain the phrase to you.
The general idea that you're communicating when you use it is that someone is trying to have two ''good'' things (as in 'good' for the person in question, it doesn't reference morality) that are mutually exclusive. To relate it to the phrase, having a cake is a good thing. Eating cake is a good thing.
But if you've eaten the cake, you don't have it anymore. So you either continue to have the cake, or you eat it. You can't have both.
If your response is 'why can't I eat some of the cake,' you're taking the saying a bit too literally.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all far to confusing, I think I'll stick to biscuits, they're so much more user friendly! 😕
As I understand it, it basically means...You have this beautiful cake. A work of art. It would be such a shame to destroy this beautiful work of art. But you also want to eat this delicious cake. So to eat the cake, you have to destroy the visual presentation.
So you can't "have your cake" (this perfectly crafted work of art) and "eat it too" (because to eat it destroys the art.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that cake sounds amazing!! Trouble is it sounds so good I want to eat it the dam thing!! Nope, that's not helped solve the issue at all, in fact, just made it worse 🙄
I actually enjoy K-Pop but I 100% agree with you. The level of obsession that some people IVE KNOWN and of people I don’t know is absolutely insane. It’s scary. It’s also weird/interesting that it’s just K-Pop that’s like this, as in every famous thing has a few obsessers but it seems like the majority of people who like K-Pop stan it into oblivion
Hello fellow person on the spectrum! It's taken me literally decades to figure this out but here goes: Non-spectrum people love being comforted when hurt, either emotionally or physically. Which is the exact opposite of what we want, which is to be left the fuck alone. Communicating this can be very difficult, as people take it as a personal failure not to comfort someone. I have found talking like a police officer gets the point across.
"I'm going to need you to back up and keep your hands to yourself"
"I'm going to need you to leave the room now"
Keep repeating yourself. Loud and clear voice, speak with authority. Usually hammers home the point to most that I'm not in the best mood and you're on my last nerve before I tear your head off.
24520ls · 35 points · Posted at 16:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the boy scouts decided to name a anti molestation program "two deep."
Seriously like how the fuck do you decide that's the name you wanna go with, for a program to prevent kids from being molested. Two deep. Sounds like a bit from an American pie movie
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 15:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flatearther. How can they still think the planet is a plate in modern times like this. We probably got enough evidence that its round to burry them all alive.
klgp24 · 11 points · Posted at 18:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally agree. I've seen just the 3 original movies. It's good, but overrated as fuck
L0CZEK · 5 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well for me I just find it funny, that of 9 movies named Star Wars, only 3 are considered good, and yet it's one of the biggest franchises in the world.
Like, look at some other popular fandoms. You can, for example, dislike Harry Potter, but people who like it don't say "well I only liked 3rd and 4th one".
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. I don't like Harry Potter too. At least, I've seen all the movies.
The Star Wars fans buy anything related to Star Wars (shirts, mugs and even posters). I think that's because it is a big franchise
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no, I love HP, don't get me wrong there (not the movies, the books).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ignorant some people are, especially in America. I understand that everyone has problems, but people freak out over their food or coffee order being off. Children in the middle East starve to death every day, kids as young as 5 are working to support their own or their parents opium addiction. They live in total poverty. I think about this daily, I live in Idaho, I'm 19, female. I have a full time job and support myself. I'm most always broke but to some people I'm filthy rich. People are blinded by privilege and it disgusts me. Another thing is everyone is so obsessed with celebrities. It's all over social media constantly. People who are absolutely filthy rich and do nothing to help anyone with their money, this is who we look up to? I truly don't understand how you can admire selfishness.
How people are happy for a whole day. I have Autism, ADHD, Tourette’s Syndrome, OCD, Parasomnia, Anxiety, and Depression, and so because of that I can never see how people are so happy with their life.
First off, as one of the people "happy with their life," I couldn't fathom what it's like to be you. That sucks, no sarcasm intended. Maybe it's because I don't have really have any of those things you have.
I have quite a few of these problems as well and to me it’s about learning how to be happy. I used to look for happiness in women but I quickly moved on past that. The past 5 years I’ve stayed away from women and have been working on achieving goals that make me happy. So for instance, I started making beats, this has allowed me to express myself in ways I couldn’t before. I’m pretty decently equipped with an arsenal of words but the second I go to describe something I just can’t properly explain things. When I make music wether it’s writing lyrics or making a beat I can portray my feelings in a way that makes me happy that I have an outlet for one but it also lets me vent my feelings in a way I couldn’t before. I can make a beat and you can vibe with it and to me that’s something that makes me smile. Music has always spoken to me, but I’ve also been working on my self as a human finding my way and trying to better my self from my fucked up past. I try to view everything as a learning experience and I try not to harbor resentment for others. I used to be severely depressed growing up and cannabis has definitely helped me grow, learn and conquer some of these problems but the main thing that helps is relearning how to be happy, we tend to focus on all the bad things in life and never the good. So I’d say just learn to live, learn to laugh things off and learn to find meaning and happiness without the aid of others. So much of my life I spent thinking negatively and I’ve gotten drastically better and not thinking that way anymore and that’s more than likely the reason I don’t feel depressed anymore, I was always focused on why am I not like everyone else, why do I not fit in with anyone else, but thinking this way is just a rabbit hole and it only makes you feel worse. I’m not normal, I don’t fit in with 99.999999% of people, but that’s also something I’ve grown to like, I’m not like everyone else, I think for myself, I’m very aware of my issues and I try my best to learn from these issues and it tends to be much more helpful than any medications I’ve taken and I’ve been on a bunch. I hope you start feeling better and that you learn to love yourself for who you are. It’s not easy but nothing in life worthwhile comes easy.
It's hindbrain unconcious/reflexive thinking - a "Different == bad" response. It's easy to see how that hard-wired mental response was useful early in our human history (in BC times), when meeting someone new who looked completely different from you, or who was not in your tribe, presented a real danger. But it's a relic of that era, and we have to get over those hard-wired mental responses and make sure that we're not feeding into structural or societal racism based on those unconscious biases.
Downvote me, but this is the one comment in this post in where I actually understand why something works the way it works.
Lets say you're a White kid and you grew up in a mostly Black neighborhood in Detroit (for example) and your family's house has been broken into a lot of times. Then when you got older, you moved to a WASPy suburb somewhere and all of a sudden there is no crime any more and all your neighbors are White and educated. You can see how people connect those dots.
I lived in Houston for 6 years. I went to the University of Houston, which was surrounded by a pretty much an all Black neighborhood and every time a crime happened on campus, we would get an email which had the description of the perpetrator, including his race. This was very controversial among students because the email always mentioned that it was a Black guy. Most students (including myself) commuted from suburbs that were pretty decent and there was not a lot of crime there.
Racism is something I completely understand and it's something you see everywhere. When I worked as a server in restaurants, most of my coworkers did not want to serve Black tables because they never tipped. The human brain recognizes patterns, it is like this because it was needed for survival.
I am not saying racism is right (or wrong), I'm just saying that it's blatantly obvious why racism exists in the first place
I still think this makes for a good discussion, even though it's offensive or controversial.
It can be such a tricky topic to discuss. When I was a hairdresser, the other stylists told me they typically avoid Indian-looking customers because those customers are demanding and never tip. I waved that off as racism and took a lot of those customers and guess what? They were my most demanding clients and they never tipped more than a dollar. Does that mean all Indians? No of course not, I haven’t met them all. But I can see how someone can get frustrated and come to that conclusion if they experienced that again and again. AND I can see them feeling frustrated if they voice that experience and are immediately dismissed as a stupid nazi.
I agree that it is a tricky topic ! It's funny you say that because my girlfriend is a hairdresser and she mentioned this about Indians and Black clients. Hahaha. Racism is certainly not a simple topic.
It certainly isn’t. I think we kind of created this environment today that is very unforgiving in terms of letting people speak freely about their experiences and their mistakes and misunderstandings that lead to the prejudices they hold. As if telling someone that what they experienced was wrong is going to make them suddenly say “oh yeah you’re right, thanks for telling me that my experience are wrong and yours are right...”
That is never going to change hearts and minds. But honestly I think a large amount of people don’t actually want to eradicate racism and prejudice so much as they just enjoy starting those arguments so they can feel better than their opponent.
Confirmation bias. Humans see a person of another race engaging in a certain behavior, maybe more than once, and they ascribe that behavior to that race. Even if people of their own race do the same thing.
It's their way of rejecting their own ugliness and throw it onto someone else.
Humanity has some very ugly bits. People don't want to accept that the ugliness is in all of us and we have to watch out for it. Easier to say "it's THOSE PEOPLE" rather than to accept "it's people."
I strongly disagree with what you’re saying, though not maliciously. There are definitely differences between what certain cultures consider the norm and behavior/habits are often related to socioeconomic standing but I don’t like to associate that with ethnicity. In a particular sample size, you may see some correlation between those two factors and ethnicity, but correlation does not equal causation. The perception that people (generally) act differently strictly based on their ethnicity is one of the things that helps to perpetuate racism.
It is associated with ethnicity though. Races tend to have their own cultures. But even in the most deracinated multicultural societies, the differences in behavior and performance persist. It's impossible to not notice.
Another way to look at it is that SES is one of the things that race predicts. If a place becomes blacker, it invariably becomes poorer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Growing up in homogenous communities is a pretty deciding factor. Everyone looks similar, acts similarly, have very minor variations in their likes and dislikes. Imagine meeting someone who hated ice cream, your first response would probably be “wtf is wrong with you?” Now expand that to an entire culture of people saying that line to another and anything an everything becomes a point of contention when the majority of one group disagrees with the majority of another. Also, black people steal.
The ancient Egyptian slaves? Or the east Asian slaves? Was it the south and west Africans who enslaved their own neighboring tribes or was it the south Asians who held islanders as slaves? Ohhhh. You're specifically saying the evil white slave traders that operated from about 1500-1850. That's the cause of racism in the world
Holy shit. That's like... a lot of steps and details. It's the culmination of decades of research by thousands of people as to how to create tiny transistors on silicon wafers and how to make those transistors act as switches so that they can hold their state. That then leads to the concept of logic gates which are made up of groups of those transistors in a specific configuration. Those logic gates can then be grouped up to make basic building blocks of microprocessors. Teams of dudes throw all that stuff together in CAD software, send it off to a foundry, they process the crap out of it and BAM you have a chip. It's hard to eloquently and concisely describe that entire process. It's more fun to just think of it as magic.
There are a myriad of mental issues behind what makes people so nasty.
Cheating is an odd one though, some do it because they've found someone new who fulfills holes in their long term relationship, but cant end the relationship.
I'm not sure what the deal is with serial cheater, but I knew one. He always cheated on his GF with a new GF, broke up with the old one to date the new one and I never understood why, but then maybe they're afraid of being along and committed at the same time? Not excusing them, just rambling :)
I'm so sorry, I hope you're healing from the vindictiveness of that person. I won't ask what happened, that's not for me to know, but if you do need to vent, rant or whatever, you can always DM :)
You have empathy and remorse accessible in your range of emotions. Others do not. You have a satiation point. Others do not. Neither is evil, broken or weak. Just different.
The fact that denying the existence of a movie about Avatar The Last Airbender made by M. Schmalamadingdong gets you invited to a mysterious subreddit.
I like to do the pour where I start at the rim of the glass and raise the bottle as high as I can and then come back down without spilling it (most of the time). People are really impressed by it. I just kinda got used to doing it and understanding physics and liquids helps too I guess.
Yea that’s cool visual and people are impressed by it. Crazy how somewhat simple it is but bartenders never really utilize that trick. I know I don’t use that trick but I should lol. I learned though if you bring the bottle down fast, the pouring will stop for a second allowing you to tilt the bottle upright without spilling
Just like anything impressive, lots of practice. If you see an amazing dunk, a flashy deal, or [insert something about soccer/football handling or shooting] and it is the same thing. A lot of practice to impress people
I’m aware practice but at first glance you just are amazed. Everything and anything are perfected with practice. I didn’t mean it in a literal sense when I don’t get things.
We’re in isolation due to Covid19 and not in a regular relationship. So Isolationship. Pretty much stuck in our house together until this pandemic is over.
First of all I wish you the best and I’m sorry you’re stuck in this situation.
I don’t understand that either. There are so many people out there who just cannot grasp the concept of accepting a “no”.
I had a good friend who I liked last year. I had really strong feelings for her and I spent a lot of time hoping she would too. When I told her, she did not feel the same way. As soon as she told me no, I gave up on hoping. I never had the desire to try and change her mind.
I’m not trying to say I’m a perfect person, but it’s not within me to keep pursuing someone who doesn’t want me. I’ve had people do that to me and it’s so awkward and sometimes downright uncomfortable. It can’t stand it.
I think the media definitely romanticizes pursuing the one you want to be with even if they’re not interested. Then when someone outright rejects someone, which everyone has the right to do, there’s always that horrible word “friendzone”. That really bothers me because then people see it as normal not to respect others’ boundaries.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 19:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's very possible that he's heartbroken, and seeing her day after day kills him knowing she doesn't want him anymore, and any day now she'll be gone. Men experience heartbreak too. Or did you learn somewhere in life that men don't have feelings and shouldn't cry?
This is learned behavior from childhood. My mom's "No" was always final. One day I was with a friend and her mom said No. I immediately gave up and she continued to pester. Eventually her mom caved and my mind was blown. As an adult she continues to plead thinking the first "No" is the beginning of negotiations
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you do anal, everything changes. Not even once.
Man that I live with until we’re free to leave the house. He’s under a lot of stress. I see it. I feel it.
He wants to start a relationship after I leave and my answer is No. If I leave after all of this I’m not coming back. I’m not moving out to start a relationship with him only to come back.
He wants everything his way. To have his cake and eat it too. I’m not game for that.
I used be that guy.. I was selfish and ignorant. He’s got a lot to learn.. he probably was raised almost always having his way without having to compromise for it. Wish you the best in your next relationship ✌🏽
i see typo's in professional news articles and even headlines CONSTANTLY!!! like how do these grown ass professional people not notice these glaring mistakes, what happened to the job of an editor? How do any of the hundred ppl that see it before its released not notice words missing letters and headlines missing entire words? MIND BOGGLING to me
dude i just graduated college a semester early and i can write papers you couldn't even imagine, theres a clear difference between the professional news articles im talking about and a REDDIT comment, im not really worried about my grammar here
Wow ... you’re so convincing. My English professors at a top 10 university make mistakes. Just because you went to college and graduated early doesn’t mean shit. Now, you could be a brilliant writer for all I know ... just, maybe next time try to prove your point with something more substantial than “I graduated college a semester early”. Also, as an English major, I have yet to meet a grammar Nazi whose grammar is this poor on an informal level (not expecting perfect grammar, but you can’t even capitalise your “I”). Also, you went to the effort to put a comma (more work on an iPhone) after “imagine” when you should have started a new sentence ... just saying.
LMAO at u throwing in the subtle "my english professors at a top 10 university" while youre telling me not to say I graduated early HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Same thing, i didnt mean it as a, "Oh I'm so much better than these people," but its super ironic that u did the same thing and helps my point that you're coming across the same exact way without intending to.
I'm literally explaining how I'm a grammar nazi, if I was on a formal forum, writing a paper, or doing anything professional where my grammar/spelling mattered, it would be perfectly punctual and correct. I DO NOT care about my grammar on reddit
I work in an industry when subscription based online education is huge. A basic coaching program is usually between $150-$300 a month. It’s is INFURIATING that I see typos in their ad’s or content. You want me to pay you $300 a month for business coaching but you can’t even hire a fucking copy editor to go through your Canva graphics? Hard pass.
Exactly, I've actually been meaning to contact some of the corporations/news outlets by reaching out to a high ranking employee on LinkedIn or through any other avenue. Literally just hit them up with a gigantic list of flaws in their publications with edits of different correct ways to articulate what they're trying and failing to say. Maybe ill make them feel so shitty or ashamed of their quality control that they'll hire me to fix it LOLLLLLLL
I’m tempted to do that myself. I work in the beauty industry though and it’s full of ego. I’ve been to more trainings than I can count that have incredibly obvious typos, misspellings, and other grammar infractions in their marketing. I find grammar nazis on reddit to be annoying, because it’s reddit, but if someone is paying me a ton of money I would expect correctly spelled words. I’m no copy editor but I can at least convince most people.
sosila · 1 points · Posted at 04:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of it is because with the internet, everyone races to get their story out first so they can get paid for you eyeballing the ad embedded in the article.
People hate ads, and no one reads newspapers, so text-based news outlets are usually hurting for money, and pushing to publish faster. Basically, haste makes waste.
I think most of them think human accelerated climate change is a hoax because the earth has gone through periods of different climates. They are still dumb but thats their side
Why people start smoking. It’s super expensive, comes with a plethora of health issues, makes you and your possessions stink, and I’m pretty sure it hasn’t been considered cool since the seventies. I can’t think of a single good reason to start.
For a little while, it feels good, like any other addictive substance. Then, like other addictive substances, after using it regularly for a period of time, it doesn’t feel as good anymore, but it’s highly addictive and hard to stop because you feel better when you smoke, but mostly just because it makes you feel so much worse when you don’t.
Because people make poor choices... a lot of people smoke because their parents smoked so it seemed normal to them... but in a lot of other cases, it comes down to some of the same reasons why people use any addictive substances... it can be any combination of:
-wanting some form of relief
-other people around them doing it and liking it, so them deciding to try it too
-curiosity
-and all sorts of other potential reasons in all sorts of various combinations...
People don’t always make decisions based off of logic and understanding risks, especially young people whose brains aren’t fully developed yet, and most people start smoking when they’re young. Everyone makes stupid choices sometimes, and for some of us, that means smoking that first cigarette...
Liqqa · 0 points · Posted at 06:41:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or maybe it’s that they go back to feeling normal when they don’t. And a lot of people can’t handle that. They don’t like how they feel, and they’re scared of it
It’s not just going back to feeling normal... I’ve quit before and I’ve also quit other drugs... addictive substances cause withdrawals when you stop using them, and they’re pretty miserable... it takes time for the substance to be completely out of your system and once it is, the withdrawals stop and then you only have to deal with cravings, which are when you just miss it, in a lot of cases because you don’t like how you’re feeling and you want to feel some form of relief.
Hockey: having a player on your team be in front of the opposing team's "blue line" before a player on your team, with possession of the puck, crosses the "blue line".
Football: having a player from the defense being across the line of scrimmage and not moving, when the ball is snapped.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 19:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Canadian, I understood hockey offside long before soccer/football. I think of soccer offside the same as hockey, but the second last defender back (could be keeper or other player) is the blue line, and you can cross that “blue line” as soon as your teammate kicks the ball.
Well FIFA just changed it a bit in the last few years (with respect to what counts as being involved in the play, iirc) so you’re probably not the only one
Cwmcwm · 4 points · Posted at 15:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American/Gridiron - A defender being passed the line of scrimmage (where the ball starts) at the start of the play.
International/Soccer - when the ball is passed to (or near) an offensive player who is past the last defender (excluding the goalkeeper) at the time that the ball is kicked.
I live in the UK it’s not known as international anywhere here, in wider Europe, the Middle East or most of Asia
It’s just football...
champs · 4 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The USlargest collection of native English speakers anywhere in the universe by far is one of the few countries where football is not the real football
FTFY. Add the Aussie and Canadian games of football and you're just shy of three quarters of Anglophonia.
I also fail to see how anyone from a gray rock apart from Europe where they play sports named after insects has any claim on other languages or etymology.
Or it's just easier to distinguish between them by adding the word "international," especially when talking about both of them. Considering that many (most?) Redditors are from the US, it was logical to include an explanation on American football. They gave more information and were inclusive to everyone regardless of which sport they call football.
Plus, we didn't "ruin" the word, and definitely not on purpose. Language just naturally evolves into dialects and changes some word around--chips vs crisps, elevator vs lift. And it's not "ruined" because there's clearly a way to distinguish it that should work for anyone who is reasonable enough to not get offended by someone using a different word for a different sport.
They didn’t assume you were American (or from any other country where they have a sport other than your football that they call football, like Canada). They didn’t know whether you were or not, so they included both. You’re assuming that they assumed something, so...
I’m talking about not just the one comment on this thread, others also commented about why is it called football anyway when there is little contact with the foot and ball...
I believe for soccer it is that at the time of a pass between 2 players on the same team there must be at least 2 players from the opposite team between the receiving player and the touch line. This may or may not include the goalie. There are a couple of limitations like it doesn't matter if the receiving player is in their half of the field or if the passing player has already passed one or more of the last 2 defenders.
Further on this point, why does gridiron persist in being called football? In fact there are very few times feet touch the ball and in most plays outside of infrequent, specific kicking plays, it's a penalty to kick the ball. Just come up with a more applicable descriptive name. As an Eagles fan, I'll suggest we change the name to jawnball.
The football you are talking about, was first called soccer in Britain, to distinguish the rule set from the "Rugby Soccer" rule set since they were both variations of the same game, but yeah, blame Americans for calling it soccer.
In soccer it basically when the offending player who is recieving the ball is past the last defender (second to last actually but that is a little complicated) when the ball is passed.
GK. A. D. P.
Gk is goal keeper A is attacker D is defender and P is passer, A would br offsides, but if A and D switched places A would not be offside. Also, you can not be offsides on your own half. Hope thos helped!
My theory is that a lot of people just can't accept their own ignorance on certain subjects, but also won't take the time or don't have the resources to learn.
When someone tries to explain to them why they are wrong, it makes them realize how little they know about modern science/technology. This triggers a defense mechanism of sorts which makes them believe that people with more knowledge than them are condescending and malicious "elites" that think they're better than them.
Then they start coping by convincing themselves that the experts are wrong, and that they know more than the "elites".
This just creates a vicious cycle, since any time they are told they're wrong, it only makes them more entrenched in their beliefs.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget those idiots that think all practice of nontraditional religion is satanic and completely ignore the fact that esoteric knowledge is not inherently evil
There are far more ‘not very smart’ people than I imagined. This panic epidemic has brought that to light.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People dislike people for countless reasons and you are not immune from this trait.
Let's take a big one like racism. What benefit is there possibly in being racist? How about we consider a primary teaching of economics, which is the Law of Scarcity. It states we have unlimited wants and limited resources. So at the heart of it racism is a way to acquire more resources for yourself through limiting resources to others.
But let's look at the economic benefit of being against racism. If you're at a higher income level you may be able to acquire more resources through the use of cheaper labor. Having illegals do the job for $10 is beneficial for you compared to uneducated citizens do it for $15. And let's be fair, you probably think those people are a bunch of racist, red neck trailer trash who probably married their sister.... (discrimination for personal gain on either side)
I at least dislike people for what they do and how they act, not for how they're born. If someone hates on someone for something they can't control, then they're an unintelligent asshole
Trans people have been around since humans and gender were a thing, so we really shouldn't have an excuse about that. The first vaccine was administered in 1796. Over 220 years is long enough to know vaccines are definitely helpful and advantageous. It's only because of a certain twat doctor that idiocy spread like, you know, a disease. 5G is new, yeah, but we've had 3G and 4G. I don't get why people are being stupid with just the next phase of things
Trans people have been around as long a time as you say, but like the antivax idea spread like a disease all it takes is a lot of people, ignorant, stupid people to hear one view that they can adopt and in what you could consider the dark ages I doubt many people would be able to hear the kind of hateful views such as transphobia and adopt them to their mentality as easily as they can now. The modern age is big on communication and information and with a large part of the population able to access others views and know about transsexuals, vaccines etc all it takes is a twisted mind, unfortunate upbringing and the presence of a view that can be adopted easily because of their upbringing or personal views as well as the added fact they can talk to or find other people who hold a similar view solidifies the view.
I agree with you there. The internet unfortunately allows the creation of echo chambers. Fortunately, the internet is also a source of education which is exactly what we need to bring to these 'twisted minds'. Just a shame that they like to veer far away from that part of the internet
What they need is love and support. The reason many kill themselves is because they don't feel like they belong and they don't feel supported. Support goes a long way, and trying to 'treat' them of how they're born is more harmful than good.
"The modern world doesn't want to give them"? What do you think therapy is, dude? Every trans person has to go through therapy before they get hormones to make sure they're mentally sound (as in, not doing it for shits and gigs). At least, that's how it is in the UK. It's not as if hormones are chucked at them as soon as they ask. The waiting times are insane.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Nothing wrong with transphobia though"
Truly based, m'Redditor. Now tell us about how feminism is destroying society.
Trans people are not mentally ill, they are mentally different. Transsexual and Homosexual are no longer in the DSM, as science has progressed in its understanding of this. I suggest you do the same.
People who have to be right and have a deep need to be right. Or more: people who believe they are always right.
I’m confronted every damn day how wrong I see things or felt things or thought things.
Like, just yesterday I thought I grabbed a spoon but it turned out to be a fork. Oops.
But, at what level does someone who has to be right see that? Do they acknowledge they grabbed a fork or... I just don’t know. How do you not just say, “oh. I’m wrong/I messed up.” And continue on?
Personally in my experience I feel extremely ashamed at myself for not knowing better. I’m no psychiatrist but I feel I may have tied intelligence to self worth at a young age because I really wasn’t good at anything else and that was the only thing that made me interesting. If I’m not smart, then what is left?
Disclaimer: I can’t speak for everyone and realise I may be especially messed up or something.
How someone can agree to make plans. agree to show up for plans. then when it's time for the plans they want to cancel and agree to reschedule in cancel again over and over. Like why
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental illness is a bitch. At the time plans are made you really want to do that thing. But the closer it gets to the time to do that thing, your anxiety mounts. You want to cancel but cancelling well in advance makes me you feel like an asshole so you put it off and put it off until you’re weeping in your room, phone in hand, crafting together some lame last minute excuse. It really fucking sucks and we don’t enjoy it either.
My “friend” and I were planning a trip to Knotts Berry Farm an entire summer for a trip in November. We planned that he’d show up at my house the night before so we could head there together; easier for both of us. It’s the night before and I’ve been cleaning my room where I’d give him a bed (an air mattress with pillows and sheets but a bed nonetheless), and it’s a half hour before he’s supposed to show. He fucking cancels. I bought him his ticket months beforehand, I had a room prepared for him, transportation planned for him. And his excuse: he wasn’t “in the mood to go”. I was fucking pissed. I called another of my friends and told him I had a spare ticket to Knott’s Berry Farm and he went. Last minute. And he showed up at my house the morning of, on time, and we went together. Needless to say I don’t talk to the “friend” who cancelled anymore
For me, I rarely make plans because I know I'll dread having made them as the time gets closer and I realise I'd prefer being alone in my house. I make plans with friends who I want to spend time with but it's often exhausting communicating with people, especially when we're not on the same wavelength.
I don't after the third "reschedule" I said forget it. I felt like they just didn't what to go but I don't understand the reason behind canceling like an hour before the event. Then acting interested to reschedule. Rescheduling and then something "come up". If you don't want to go. Why not I don't know say it, Imply it at like it. Give me some type of sign instead of wasting my time.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is even a debate anymore about why the church is protected from any and every actual consequence of their own actions. Name another billion dollar industry thats legally protected because of a stupid belief many people disagree with.
Why learning a trade is considered the "easy way out" or "lazy." Or generally looked down upon.
I'm sorry I took a smarter route and went into a field that pays good, teaches me a genuine skill, minimum debt, and high employment rate.
I'm sorry I didn't wrack up damn near $100k in debt with college to get a degree that landed me in a mediocre job like you probably did.
I'm not bashing people who DID get a Masters Degree. I know it's likely to land somewhere great once you do. People who manage that were smart, lucky, planned ahead, or all of the above.
I'm talking about the pieces of shits looking down on me because I didn't end up in a cubical clickety-clacking away on my computer wanting to kill myself with my precious degree and broke.
When adults and parents think they are smarter then everyone else. "I'm an adult because I said so" or "Because I'm your parent. Whatever I say goes I'll never understand why adults say that. It's as if they hate being proven or told they are wrong even when facts are provided.
I genuinely do not understand why my mind causes me to be depressed. I have a great fucking life, I love my family but more often than not I would feel like killing myself. Finally on antidepressants and I don't really have the thoughts.
Wtf brain why are you making me spend money on persceiptions why cant you just work properly.
Dark humor usually rides the line of being in bad taste, as it usually offends a small percentage of the population. Some people are okay with humor that offends a very small percentage of the population, while others are willing to be offensive to a wider audience.
Dark humor is funny because it is barely used in any situations, just a theory, it generally shouldn't be offensive since it's a joke, like someone just making a dark joke without any intentions that they did it because they are like that.
Folks don’t like jokes that are offensive to minority groups, because it’s never just that one joke. It’s that they’re on their 500th joke about (insert their minority status here) this month, and yours is the 501st, and frankly they’re fucking done with your bullshit.
That’s why lots of people will jump on you for that sort of thing.
Also usually self described “dark humourists” fucking suck at comedy. So there’s also that
I won't say I won't accept someone who likes dark humor but I don't respect that humor either, casually joking about racism, slavery, death, rape and all this very dark subjects is disgusting in my opinion.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally agree, and I know people will downvote us for this. I've had people come up to me to joke about 9/11 or the Holocaust and I was forced to give them a fake smile because I honestly just felt uncomfortable. Like, you're not being funny. You're just trying to be edgy. Those sorts of topics can really screw me up emotionally sometimes so I'll never understand how anyone can joke about people being placed into traumatic or violent situations they have zero control over.
What's worse is people who don't respect you for not liking their offensive jokes and will call you a sensitive snowflake just for disagreeing with them. I don't have to laugh at your stupid joke just because you wanted me to. And if you're willing to make a joke you know will probably offend people you shouldn't complain when people actually get offended. And, no, the excuse that "people get offended by everything so why should I care?" does not work when you're literally saying something that so obviously will offend someone. Just be considerate, and if you can't make jokes that won't offend half the people in the room then you shouldn't be making jokes in the first place.
I am really interested. Since i am not American. Why do people give a lot of examples of only 9/11?! Like no other example happened which was more traumatic? I mean i wouldn't want it to happen to anyone, but honestly, has only 9/11 happened in America?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was probably the most recent and most horrific in US history and caused a lot of destruction and death. I personally can't think of any other event than the mass shootings or I guess this pandemic that were as bad in recent history. Maybe I'm forgetting something? Basically, a lot of people were alive when it happened or maybe knew someone who died or almost died then.
If you look at photos of the aftermath you'd understand. That area of New York looked like a hellscape, and it's made worse when you realize there were people in that rubble and that there were families, including children, on the planes that were hijacked. All of them died. I've even heard about people jumping from the building so they wouldn't get crushed. It's seriously depressing because none of them deserved any of it. If you're like me, I can't help but imagine what it must've been like, and that makes me feel worse.
People also say quite a lot that it changed the US for good. People have been a lot more paranoid since, and there was a notable increase in security. I don't know what it was like before since I was too young, but that's what people say. Not only that, but the stuff in the Middle East and the fear of Muslims it was likely responsible for. The effects are still present.
How people will go outdoors and socialize with the current situation by simply saying "I'm safe I'll be fine." Like where have you been and why aren't you running the country?
How people value their genes so much and some even downright hate 'bastard' children. Like it's an attack to their self-perceived greatness. Most people don't have worthy genes either way.
Being poor and rooting for capitalism. Specially liberalism.
What is your deal? That you'll somehow be rich, someday? Or are you just so anti-socialism that it doesn't matter the size of the dick that is in you, as long as it's not red.
thomoz · 5 points · Posted at 19:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 35% of my country can blindly support a President who lies a minimum of 5 times each press conference, nealy every day on Twitter, and they turn a blind eye when he places his own financial interests above the safety of the general populace during a disease pandemic.
Supposedly. They loved what you did for them and how you made them feel. They did not love you. They just want something or someone else now and feel no remorse. They aren’t like you. You are not like them. You believed you were alike and it’s shocking and painful to find you are not.
Why absolutely every person I have tried to date in the past 2 years (and also my ex husband of 13 yrs) cannot muster up the courage to be honest. Why am I not worth the truth? And it can be about the most petty things, also. I hate liars.
I do not, nor will I ever, understand fragile white redditors, white supremacists, incels and other assorted racist bigots, fragile male redditors, sexists, misogynists, homophobics, transphobics, xenophobics, body shamers, slut shamers and all the rest of the pieces of shit that discriminate against people because they are different. Y’all are fucking weird for that
It’s group think mentality in human societies. Being outcast , ridiculed, or left out is to much of a risk or to scary for the majority. We are mostly the product of our environment we are exposed to growing up.
It’s also fucked up and I wish people who think like that could be sterilised and die off so they would breed and spread their bullshit to the next generations
I mean, I have some ideas and some possibilities as to why, and I could possibly understand it if I did a lot of research, but at this moment, I don't get it.
AwaiYT · 18 points · Posted at 20:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls that cheat make themselves the victim, and they always change their mind like, “Come on let’s talk it out.” to “Stop acting like a kid.”. It’s annoying.
It's manipulative. These same types of people, both male and female, will gaslight you and then use the intimate knowledge learned about you against you often times making it public in order to validate their abusive behavior
It’s blame shifting and victim shaming - projection and scapegoating. They do what they want without remorse. Don’t do it to them though- double standard.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 + 1 = 8 or something like that
ohspgq · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am 51, well educated and successful. I recently learned that I have ADHD. I have also learned that it’s very common to be associated with math related learning difficulties due to how our brains focus.
I have tried at many times in my life to really apply myself from arithmetic to basic algebra and every step is so disconnected for me.
It’s hard coming to grips with the fact that brains are different and mine is great at some things but will never speak the language of science and the universe.
mo711 · 18 points · Posted at 16:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why all countries and businesses arent starting social and business distancing with mainland china
Sick and tired of the ccp and mainland china now i just cant articulate my inner rage
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 18:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One word: money.
Thats why i dont take western politicans serious when they rage about Russia when they support China or Saudi-Arabia. They take about freedom and democracy but its only about money. Its so hypocritical.
mo711 · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if only they supported taiwan at this point in time, that would be great (putting this in the most simplistic terms)
By dumb asses you mean corporations out sourcing to China to be able to provide cheaper products for consumers. Or do you mean the consumers are the dumb asses. Supply and Demand.
[deleted] · 49 points · Posted at 13:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Terrible oversight on my part. Although some super-spicy stuff tastes better than others. When it's just straight heat I'm not as big a fan, versus a nice savory heat like ghost pepper.
And eating spicy food is more pleasant than exercise!
XaWEh · 22 points · Posted at 15:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
adrenaline...the same reason why some people are fond of extreme sports. The risk and in some cases the pain is exciting. This can be attributed to the hormone adrenaline, which causes the fight or flight reflex and makes us excited, aware and ready to give peak performances.
Some people enjoy that, some don't.
A lot of people talk about the adrenaline with the pain. I just plum don't mind pain and think peppers/hot sauce tastes delicious. There's so many wonderful varieties, from fruity to smokey... It's a whole world of flavor! Also peppers are super good for you.
But the reason you don’t mind the pain is because of the pleasure chemicals released by your brain. (I’m not sure if it’s actually adrenaline; I thought it was endogenous opioids that were released in response to capsaicin.)
But.. pain. I wonder about this as well. Spicy food actually hurts my tongue to the point that just a little bit of a serving and I get those “lie bumps” which can be massively annoying.
So my question is do we all perceive spice differently? I was raised eating the same foods as my siblings and most of them love spicy things. (We are half Latino)
This also makes me think I’m just broken. I always liked my soda “flat” and would shake it up and let out carbonation several times before I’d drink it because I found the “sharpness” painful.
It's another flavor, bbq wings are nice, but with a lol hot sauce in there it's another dimension that also combines very very well with other flavors.
I mostly eat bland foods. Too many tastes at once is overwhelming to me. Having more the one or two foods or ingredients mixed together is something I cannot handle.
Glo0py_ · 33 points · Posted at 14:47:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foreign languages, like, dude, what are you saying, it's like they're speaking another langu-
How people such as blue face, lil pump, and so on and so forth are so famous. Their music is absolute hot garbage. They’re not cool, or funny. They are just plain annoying. Rappers such as Lil mosey are so underrated.
Also, I don’t understand why Tik tok is so popular now. It’s not even a good app.
Rap in general has mostly changed from lyric centric to focusing more on the beat which is why mumble rap has such h a following. Sometimes you just want to feel the bass in your chest.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think the TV show The Big Bang Theory is funny. If it were even remotely so, they wouldn't need the laugh track every 2 fucking seconds to let you know when it's supposed to be funny.
mahade · 7 points · Posted at 19:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US political system ends up deciding: "Trump and Biden are the best candidates for this job". The only answer possible is that the entire system is rigged from A to Z and beyond. But still, people think voting matters. And I'm not saying it doesn't, but I just do not understand why these two individuals are the result of it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voting in general is important. Voting in America is like a parent asking a child what they want for dinner and then the parent makes what they want anyway.
Thanks for the info. It's just impossible these days to know what kids are exposed to. All you can do is equip them with knowledge and an understanding of healthy boundaries. But still, I am kind of shocked to hear about this....
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! It is incomprehensible. They will contradict themselves in the same sentence l, justify the most fucked up stuff, then so the opposite of what their religion dictates.
Just be a decent human. It’s not difficult at all.
I live in a Catholic country and most people don't, including my parents. I understand if they haven't read the whole thing so they're oblivious. But there are bible study groups with regular meetings and it never dawned on any of them or cherry pick it apart.
I think it’s down to genetics isn’t it? A small percentage of the population are able to taste a chemical present in coriander/cilantro that tastes soapy.
Seevian · 34 points · Posted at 14:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a particular gene that people can have (I believe its present in about 20% of the population) that allows them to taste chemicals called aldehydes, which are present in cilantro (and taste like soap). If you have this gene, then the taste stands out dramatically, but if you don't then you aren't physically able to percieve it.
They don't think it tastes like soap, it tastes like soap and your tongue just isn't capable of noticing it
This is fascinating. My mom told me the other day that cilantro tastes like perfume to her. I was confused, but apparently this is like a legitimate thing?! Wow.
For me freah coriander smells like stink bugs, especially the stalks. Horrible. Once cooked, no problem. As for crunching on cardamon pods during a curry...
Some people have a gene that makes it taste like soap. I have a gene that makes it taste like OMG GIVE ME MORE I WANT IT ALL OF MY FOOD OMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOM
It’s a thrill for most of them.
It’s promoted by media.
It’s extremely easy with few repercussions.
Some folks want to get caught - they want the drama or to end the current relationship.
Because I’ve taken alg II 5 different times in my life since high school and the second half of alg 2 just doesn’t compute in my brain. I just end up with a migraine and in tears trying to understand it..
Not everybody needs to understand higher levels of math to be successful
I then dont understand why there would be the possibility to fail school because of it, if it isn't about the math the math-part shouldn't be as important as they make it seem
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Likewise, I thought I got it, and then I watched End of Evangelion a couple of years later and that's when I realized that I didn't understand anything and needed to start over and re-watch it all.
(and i still don't understand everything so... there's that)
Thanks a lot. Now it's making much more sense. I've actually never read the books. Probably that's why I was kind of clueless towards the end. Still it is a beautiful movie & I enjoyed it a lot like any other Miyazaki films.
If a girl expects me to make all the moves that's not someone I want to be with. I'm the only one who has to show I care? Well that only tells me you (not you) don't.
Once you start doing it, you realize that even if it ends in some small talk for a couple minutes it was still fun and they usually are very nice, even if not interested. It's flattering to girls, they like a guy who chases them or is so interested they go up. I was terrified to approach for years. It took me moving to another country and hanging out with a guy that does it without thinking. You get used to it and find out it's fun and nothing to lose. Then it just becomes normal. But I totally get it, a few girls I still think about were interested in me and I was so scared to talk to them they gave up. What could of happened if I did, who knows...But now, I have had such great experience meeting many beautiful girls, most of the time just chatting and seeing them around and knowing them and of course dating some of them. Give it a shot, even after one time through sheer terror, you will be very proud of yourself.
Why someone would want notifications every time a YouTube channel they're subscribed to uploads something. If I want to see if anyone's put out something new, I just check my subscription feed when I have time to watch stuff.
I watch this series called “HermitCraft”. I have some free time so I like notifications whenever someone uploads a video of HermitCraft just so I can catch up on what players are creating and such. I do like subscription feeds though.
They’re bored and waiting for it. Imagine if you had to check every second you were bored just to know if a video has come out. You couldn’t pass the time with some other activity will you waited
I'm gonna get flack for this, but polyamorous relationships. If you truly love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them, why bother adding in more people? You cannot possibly love both equally there will always be the favored one. Plus any regular relationship issues are now amplified by how many partners are involved. Like cheating, normally this only affects two people; the one being cheated on and the one being used to cheat with. With more partners more heartbreaks.
There is also the issue with ensuring you are spending equal time with each partner, leading to scheduling your time and making it a "have to" as opposed to a "want to". What if it's your night with one partner and you two have a disagreement? Suddenly you don't want to spend the night with them but you have to in order to keep the balance, you can't just say "I'm mad I'm going to spend the night with the other one" because now you will be forced to rebalance the scales.
Also, if you are in an unhealthy relationship, making it poly or opening it up is NOT how to fix it, and will only make things worse and cause more trauma when it all falls apart.
Now, I understand I cannot tell people how to live their lives, and my views on poly could be biased due to my experiences with it (not me personally), and I do respect those who want to do this. But with so much harm than good coming from this I don't think I would ever do it myself even though I've humored the idea of it myself. I want my partner to be mine and I theirs, sharing would just be too weird to me even if we are 100% trusting of each other and secure in our bond.
Honestly I think it goes back to the sunk cost fallacy. A lot of people I know in open relationships didn't set that boundary in the beginning, so you become attached to this person and possibly have a homestead/kids/finances/etc together and instead of losing all that decide to go along with it. I'm sure some people make it work, but the ones I've personally seen or experienced always fail dramatically.
I've also been asked to open up the relationship by previous girlfriends and it always seemed like a way for them to cheat with a free pass. There always seems to be a partner in mind before the relationship is opened up.
So yeah it just basically having your cake and wanting to eat it to, as well as fear of losing the relationship
beders · 18 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is a fallacy to think you can only love one person.
However the norms of the society we currently live in strongly demand you find “the one” and have a regular family.
There’s also biological factors in play but they don’t demand serial relationships either.
Also:
Jealousy is a difficult social construct to overcome.
Yeah, you can love both your parents, other family members, and multiple friends at the same time. It’s the same concept, just with the voice of your society saying ‘no’.
I understand the sense of finding the "one" being our cultural norm and that people think it's possible to love more than one person, but it falls into the "keeping the balance" for me that does it for me. Most poly relationships I've seen schedule everything, no monogamous relationship is forced to do such thing (unless both partners are workaholics or otherwise extremely busy) - if they want to go out together or sleep together they can just do it with no need to ask for permission from someone else or ask to switch days/nights.
You cancan find different people attractive... but there will always be that one person your heart belongs to, who you feel is like home even when they're not all dressed up or made up.
Well the idea that you cant love equally is scientifically wrong. I really dont know why people think this. Its not impossible for two people to give the same amount of happy chemicals.
I can love my parents, my friends, my siblings, my nieces and nephews. With romantic love I've always fallen for one at a time, never had the dilemma of "omg I love two people at the same time!". You can get a romantic love but to me you "fall" for another when you get bored of your partner, making you subconsciously seek out another more desirable mate. Again, this is all based on my personal experience, and I never said I despise it and think anyone who does it is wrong.
I have accepted that there isn't a meaning to life, we just exist. If there is something about the world that you want to change, go for it and that can be the meaning for YOUR life
I just kinda force myself not to think about how insignificant everything is to focus on what I find to be important. I mean, what’s the point of finding the meaning of life right? We’re just gonna meet our demise sooner or later.
I like your positivity but I don’t really want to do anything big at the moment. Maybe it’s because I’m still young but I’m just going with the flow and enjoying what I’ve got as best as I can.
I haven't decided on what I want to do yet but I have experienced how society is a mess in many places (sexism, transphobia etc) and I want to fix that
Everyone has different goals in life and wanting to do that is perfectly valid if that makes you happy. I just don't want to disappear without making my mark on the world.
The way I see it, humans desire for things to be more convenient and work towards it. That is how we developed to become so advanced.
Hmmm. You see, evolution in general is weird. Probably because I’m clueless about biology but it’s strange to see how far humans have come. We’re communicating with each other through tiny portable devices across the globe or wherever we are in an instant! That’s insane! How come we don’t see cats or dogs evolving to the same level.
Maybe I’m just a little loopy since it’s 2am where I am. It’s been a fun conversation with you! Please message me if you want to talk more, I’d love that! But right now I just want to sleep and forget all about what constitutes life because it’s too much for my brain.
GRW810 · 6 points · Posted at 19:46:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Video recording. You point a device at something, click a button, and it documents a perfect copy of what was happening at that particular moment.
I know about photography and light and all that but it just absolutely blows my mind more than any other technology I can think of. A space rocket makes more sense in my head than video recording.
I hate to sound pretentious but I really don’t understand why people care so much about celebrities. Not their movies or work or anything, but their personal life. Whenever I hear gossip about celebrities getting together or breaking up or getting pictures taken of them when have GASP flaws GASP and people get so into it... I really do not get it
cyglow · 6 points · Posted at 20:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one and only BULLSHIT i dont understand is: WHY THE FUCK ARE WE GETTING MORE ESSAYS AND PRESENTATIONS NOW THAT WE AREN'T AT SCHOOL
I just don't understand clouds. How does water stay up there? What makes it downpour? Why are some clouds dark but not raining??? Clouds just upset me because I don't understand how the work and why the exist
Its about the different pressures in the atmosphere and evaporation. Certain criteria all have to happen for a downpour or thunder storm. Temperature and barometric pressure and air currents and thermodynamics all are involved. Physics and science
mknwq · 5 points · Posted at 20:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why football players cost so much, like it straight up doesn't make sense to me, although I love the sport, isn't hundreds of thousands of pounds up to hundreds of millions excessive for just for one player to move club and play for you. There are so many more things that people could do with that money, it's always baffled me.
Don’t they deserve it if they are the foundation of the show
mknwq · 1 points · Posted at 09:09:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree they deserve their wages, for having their entire life publicised. But clubs paying for them with so much money seems really excessive.
bgazm · 5 points · Posted at 20:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BitCoin, or crypto currency, in general. I've watched videos. Listened to podcasts. I still can't figure out how it works, or what "it" is, other than a different form of currency.
I'm asexual, and, I just dont understand attraction. Like, I never realised that allo people can just randomly be Romantically/Sexually/Aesthetically attracted to people. I had to have my bisexual sister state to me, in certain terms, that non-asexual people feel sexual attraction, that non-aromantic people feel romantic attraction. Like, it should be a given, but, it just never occurred to me. Also, what is attraction?? What is romantic attraction and sexual attraction specifically? I've never felt it so I just dont get it. What is sexual attraction? What is romantic attraction?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:26:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Right, I see where you're coming from, but you're actually wrong about this. Granted my periods arent as regular as I'd like but I have a libido, I just don't look at people and think "I would". The trauma I've experienced came after I came out as ace. And I have an ADD, but my sexuality and difficulty are in no way related- in pretty sure my doctor would've talked to me if he thought otherwise.
How people buy drugs. Like the most people say is “you just know somebody” and I’m like...okay? But how did you know that somebody?? I’m pretty sheltered and not very bright so that probably plays a role.
Well I guess that can happen but they will ask people who look a certain way (meaning fit them into stereotypes). Of course stereotypes don’t always correspond to how people actually are but I guess people who do drugs have a drug radar in general too.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my own experience it’s people I become friends with and then you find out they grow weed.
Money. Money and value of money doesn't exist. It exists because we believe it so. Why then are there money problems in the world when countries print out more money?
I know that when they do so it makes the money worth less but... just say that it's worth the same amount as before. Duh. If everyone agreed that it was worth the same there wouldn't be an issue, because there isn't some universal rule saying this must happen, we do it.
What Covid-19 protestors think they’re really doing
Frankly they’re the epitome of stupid
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 19:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's stupid how people believe Covid is so serious that we should enact martial law, even though it's only targeting really old people and those with pre-existing conditions. Why not just help those at risk instead of creating a stampede of chicken Littles.
I think it's a reputation thing. Everyone represents their race and with one clown fooling around everybody is automatically seen as part of the clowns circus.
I was joking, I take the same route with other family members, just pretending our differing opinions don’t exist because it will only lead to estrangement and problems. Wish you the best, mate
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:16:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Exactly, you love who you love! End of discussion, i will always stand behind this and loudly say it eventho it gets me in trouble a lot🙃.
I really hope that one day on this planet earth we will start to mind our own bussiness and focus on just our genitals and its usage and see that love does not exist just for the opposite sex and accept that as a fact!
Same with my family ( “there is no bum poking in nature!!!!”) and more i try to explain that animals do it for fun too more they insist its not okay.
But its so funny when you have a man and a woman do bumming and that is fine but when two blokes do it its “not natural”. I honestly dont get it.
I'm just curious what your argument would be from the bible tho, lol. Because the church has explicitly made it a mortal sin. Was wondering how Catholics were going to mental gymnastics around shaming and literally damning people for something we now know is not their fault and also is protected under the Constitution.
Books have been wrong before. Also, book was written by man and adapted over the years. Religion is meant to shame us all in everything we do eventho its actually good for our bodies. Bible also speaks of out of the earth beings so i dont give it much credit.
Its also a book over which diff religions have different stories. So yeah, religion is a hunch of bollocks whose only goal is to subdue us and make us slaves to clergy who want to hold the lives of people in their hands. Its east to manipulate with people afraid of a mythical hot place, so yeah. I don’t give credit to their bigotry and the whole: “god made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve” because there was no Adam and Eve. Their reasons are completely invalid. According to them women are filthy for menstruating and masturbation is a sin....
For some people it’s a religious objection and I totally get that. But if you’re not religious and you have opinions about someone else’s sexuality, that doesn’t make sense. These downvotes don’t make sense but that’s Reddit being Reddit I guess.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 18:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, homophobics, why the fuck would you criticise someone because of what they look like or how they like. Fucking idiots
I agree with you. The last part of your statement is hypocritical, as that’s exactly what you’re doing to them. Again, I agree with you, but just pointing out that they think the same way only opposite. If that makes sense.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 18:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of separate bathrooms when inside those rooms there are individual stalls with locks... why do we have separate bathrooms in public when we don't in private?
I'm completely all on board for single/all gender bathrooms with one toilet with a lock. But if I'm say, on a date, and need to lay down the law, I don't necessarily want my date to have access to that room.
Because most work places were solely the domain of men, and when women started entering the workplace, there was tons of pearl clutching fear around men and women mixing in “that sort of space”, so they had the segregated bathrooms.
Since then it’s just how things are, so the will to change them is minimal.
Next, get a job with said degree and invest a majority of your paycheck instead of wasting it on useless crap like most people do. Do this for a number of years while you keep climbing the corporate ladder.
I currently save 80-90% of what I earn, the only problem is that I'm on something close to minimum wage and work maximum 30 hours a week. I've saved a good amount over the last 5 years, but I'm looking at working another 5 years until I can buy a house - if I'm lucky and house prices don't increase drastically in London.
Stocks. ETFs (Exchange Trade Funds) are the safest, they can double your investment every 12 years on average. You can learn more in r/investing - the sooner you start, the more you can save.
Truthfully. You gotta apply to literally everything you're qualified for and some you're almost qualified for. And you've gotta keep at it until you hear back. I've only worked for fortune 500 companies and make close to 6 figures. I'm only 26yo and having a general business admin degree from a small no name school in Alabama.
I just started a new job in January, but it took me probably about 8 months of applying to different 20-40 jobs a week. I only had 2 interviews in that entire time, so it absolutely sucks to see no results for a while but it should eventually give. It definitely shouldn't be this way but if you don't have a inside connection, like I've never had, you just gotta brute force your way into that bitch!
Hope everything works out for you man. Just remember, everyone can't say no forever.
That’s what I did. After switching majors too many times, racking up student loan debt, and testing out different fields, I discovered that my passion in life is to sit on the couch and open the same three apps over and over again while money magically appears in my bank account. So I did some math and figured out the minimum I need to earn to be ok, and wrote down my deal breakers, then researched careers to find one that was kinda close and told myself this is it, no more changing your mind even if you hate it. Just pick a goal and work towards it. Seems to be working out for me for now.
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I’m an email and front end developer. I really suck at it and I am not a CS major and that is really obvious. But it pays what I aimed for and allows me wfh privileges. Now that I’ve met that goal, I set a new goal for myself to pivot into some kind of design technologist role or create it in the company I’m currently at.
I have family that voted for Trump and they will post long comments on FB about how he cares deeply for the American people and he's deeply saddened that people are dying from Covid-19. It's astounding. His actions show none of that but right wing memes do, so they believe it.
Like, I get if your child is allergic to or has some underlying medical issue that prevents them from getting the vaccine, but if your child is otherwise healthy, they should be getting vaccinated (not only for them, but for the younger and immunocompromised children and people around them). Yeah, it can be heartbreaking seeing your kid cry when they get a shot, but would you rather them get some virus/disease/illness that kills them?
It also blows my mind how each generation is being exposed to over sexualized media at a younger and younger age. I work at a middle school and the number of times I've seen girls wearing wearing super short shorts or extreme push-up bras astounds me (for the record, I am a woman I have to be mindful of the schools dress codes). I have also wished to have the ability to wipe my mind after witnessing middle school couples playing tonsil tennis in the hallways between their passing periods.
the universe ends when entropy ends, when the universe cannot get more messy and everything reaches the same temperature, which is 0. When this happens, nothing moves and time stop existing(it freezes). Then, there´s no beyond or forever for this universe, because it will stay still
How can nearly half a country can vote for a narcissistic, stupid, ignorant, racist, selfish, greedy and rapist individual for president. Like you are voting for someone to take the most prestigious and debatably the most difficult position in the country, is this really the best person you can come with?
How to run a business. I have a handful of friends and the pricing and costing and scheduling seems so out of my spectrum of knowledge. I've always just been a foot guy, but my own small business is an interesting venture.
How a solid state drive works. Nothing moves and there are no wires. How does data get added or read? I don't get how a shiny flake can do anything just by plugging it in.
I've tried replying to this 3 times and each time I try and write out what I don't understand and I notice it makes no sense because I don't understand it enough to describe it.
Why someone would be so selfish in the short term when it is painfully obvious that we'd have so much more growth if we all profited together but at a lower level
LASC33 · 4 points · Posted at 20:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How parents think they're allowed to yell at you and sometimes outright disrespect you, but the moment you try to argue you've committed a mortal sin and are wrong because they "said so." I feel like I'm gonna be the cool dad because I will actually try to let my children talk to me and I will acknowledge when I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the fuck are people so obsessed with the Kardashians/celebrities in general? Or influencers? Like, what, I should somehow want to spend tens of thousands of dollars because some moderately attractive girl advertises on Instagram? What exactly are they influencing, other than the tired "sex sells" mantra?
People who can't put themself in others shoes. I don't read others very well narurally so through my whole life this has been my way to understand the world. So for me when people can't set themself in the place of others and understand that actions have motives? I don't get it.
I genuinely do not understand how somebody can hurt another living thing, like another person or abusing a pet dog or killing a beautiful wild animal. I literally do not understand how someone could take away someones/something's life and then go to sleep at night
You have affective empathy and remorse in your emotional range. Others do not and can’t relate to you and why you’d have it. They perceive it as a weakness.
People that believe anything they read on the internet and claim to be ‘more educated’ than others. Like the whole 5g conspiracies, it’s a non harmful form of radiation but these people insist that it’s harmful.
When girls say “I want a guy like you” but you are a guy like you but when you bring this up to her she says “No, I don’t want to ruin our friendship”.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To me it’s they want someone they feel safe and comfortable with, as they do in the friendship you share, but with someone they find sexually attractive. Not sure if that helps.
Like bitch is a term for a female dog and yet its frowned upon. Also why do people have a tendency to make sentences that consist of 50% curse words. You could say anything but it's for some reason compelling to say the one thing you shouldn't
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 02:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sums. When I try to look at numbers it's as if they won't even keep still. Truly the work of Satan. The devil's gibberish.
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cjldvm · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! This is me. All numbers seem the same to me. I don’t ever know how much something cost. I mean sure I know how much it is when I’m buying it but I don’t know how much it was when people ask me later. Was it $20 or $200? Feels the same to me.
I genuinely don’t understand how anyone can see Donald Trump and think “he would make a good president”. It is illogical to me and I just... cannot grasp the concept.
I dislike it because it used to be a good game before updates ruined it. I think the game has great potential but is ruined by updates that nobody asked for, Epic Games always putting money over the fanbase, and a really toxic community. Before that it was a BR that was more relaxed, had cool features, and a nice map.
I can’t argue with that, since I didn’t play that much fortnite back then. I guess I jut hated fortnite because it was popular, wich was really stupid of me. I probably disliked it because I thought the fanbase was full of toxic 12 year olds, but when I actually played it I noticed that it isn’t as toxic as I thought it was.
Why are people downvoting this comment? This is simply someone who likes a game that others don’t. I’ve seen plenty of comments on this thread stating that they don’t understand why people can’t accept other people likings.
Like why am I so uncomfortable with my body-- specifically the male parts of it? Why does taking HRT help with that? A theory that I've heard is that our brains kinda 'know' what our bodies are supposed to be like. It's why some people who were born without a limb can still experience Phantom limb syndrome. Even though they've never had that limb, their brain instinctively expects it to be there. One of my friends from school was born without one of his arms from the elbow down and he's said he's tried to catch things with his nonexistent arm before as a split second reaction. So... How does this tie back to gender? Well-- basically trans people's brains are in a way, having that same instinctive expectation for what our bodies are supposed to be (ie. Our preferred gender). When the non-instinctive (logical) part of our brain recognizes that our body doesn't match that instinctive expectation, it has trouble reconciling that, and that disconnect causes a distress that we call "gender dysphoria". What I don't understand is why do some of us experience this? What causes this instinctive expectation to not match one's sex at birth?
I wish I knew, because transitioning isn't fun, and if I could be comfortable in my body without going through it all, I definitely would.
On a side note, another thing I don't get is transphobia... Like c'mon-- this shit's hard enough on its own. Why do you gotta be a prick about it? Like I'm just trying to go about my day and feel comfortable in my own skin-- not trying to hurt anyone, or establish some kinda crazy radical new world order, I just wanna be happy, same as you.
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[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:00:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s an easy one. It’s because there are. If you just look into it you will learn about it. I didn’t know until I read about it and now I understand.
Poor people voting Republican just because they think Rs are going to make abortions illegal. Spoiler alert: They can't and they won't. They're just using the issue to get your vote.
I guarantee you probably half the Rs in Congress have paid for their mistresses' abortions.
Voting works. It just takes longer when you’re trying to overcome SCOTUS precedent. But it’s been done before. I totally get where those people are coming from, especially since they see abortion as the greatest human rights violation of our time
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 07:10:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking it away would be a violation. My bodily autonomy is worth more than the equivalent of a wart on the inside of my uterus. Outlawing abortion doesn’t make it go away it just means women aren’t dying in back alleys trying to use any instrument they can.
There is an explanation for this that makes sense.
Many, and possibly most, people vote for presidents because they’re voting for the agenda of the candidate, not the personality.
For example, if what is most important to you is tax policy, or foreign policy, or abortion, or whatever, you pick the candidate that stands for what you believe in.
Seriously, pause and consider:
Let’s say the thing you care about most in the world is climate change. And the 2024 presidential contest comes down to a major misogynistic asshole who wants to sign the Green New Deal on Day 1, and the sweetest most loving woman ever who thinks climate change is a hoax. Honestly, who would you vote for? Isn’t seeing your beliefs represented more important than one single person’s comments?
Or another analogy: let’s say your appendix just burst. Do you want Dr. House doing the surgery, even though he’s a bigoted angry drug-addicted sociopath, or do you want Keanu Reeves doing it, seeing as how he’s the most beloved person on Reddit? The goal is surviving your surgery.
This is also why religious people don’t care if Trump has a history of non-religious behavior. They didn’t elect him Pope or Bishop. They elected him for the office of the presidency.
The women who voted for Trump obviously weren’t voting for his pussy-grabbing comments. They were voting for his agenda: border security, lower taxes, and conservative judges.
Besides, in the US, we get two choices. If we had 16 candidates on Election Day, random comments or personality flaws would probably doom candidates for sure, because there would be alternative choices that still represent their political beliefs.
I’ve always found it helpful to remind people of Sarah Palin, too. Many people who would say “we need a woman in the highest office” did not support her. Why not? Because of policy differences. So, when push comes to shove, policy will override personality and identity.
As yes because that comment looks down on women and Oh Man it's not Like almost EVERYONE IN THE FUCKIN WORLD HAS MADE COMMENTS EQUAL TO OR WORSE THEN THAT so get off your damn high horse
OFark · 6 points · Posted at 17:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gay guys act effeminate whilst trying to attract other men that like men? Surely gay guys should be extra manly? To be clear I understand homosexuality, I just don't understand how that's supposed to work with men who act like women.
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 11:47:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think, now having read people's responses to this, it seems like we assign people's relational preferences in the same way we assign sexual preferences. I am assuming you as a gay woman would not want a relationship with a man who exhibited the same traits as a woman. You know if they had the same personalities, because of the nature of the sexual interaction. However, again assuming, you could be good friends with said man? So your relationship could be the same, with the exception of the sex? Or not? Makes me think the sexual attraction requires the other person to be in possession of the right 'bits'. This is where I get confused. As a straight guy, it seems like the classifications we use, gay, straight, really don't matter, because what people are attracted to isn't always straight forward. But then some people, usually the gay effeminate guys (I'm generalising here) like to shout out from the roof tops how very, very gay they are. But then they're actually into something else, something slightly different? Like I said, confuses me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:31:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 13:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To elaborate: I suppose I ment people who are mentally attracted to effeminate men, they are sexually attracted to the male gender, but the mental attraction is toward a person who is male but doesn't act in a typical male way, like a bisexuality but for the mental/psychological side of the attraction.
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 14:47:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, I get that. I understand that. My initial point, because we've kinda left the rails although it's been quite interesting, was that men (but I guess it applies either way) who go out to attract other men that like men, then act similar to women, is something I don't understand. It obviously works, but I just don't get it, seems like it makes life more difficult for yourself. But maybe that's part of the fun?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:36:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effeminate gay guy here. I can't speak for anyone else, but I find that a lot of behaviours/interests that society considers feminine are more fun. There's a lot more freedom to be playful and expressive if you're not trying to be traditionally manly all the time. Since I'm already "breaking the rules" of masculinity by being attracted to men in the first place, I figure why not throw the whole rule book out? (Though, I don't think of it as "being a man who acts like a woman". I act like a man who does feminine things. Feminine men and feminine women give off very different vibes, to me.) It's more a self-expression thing than actively trying to attract people.
In other guys, I like a mix of masculine and feminine because it often shows up in unique ways. Unconventionality and creativity are attractive. And, for many guys, it takes a lot of courage to be a bit effeminate, and bravery is always hot!
OFark · 1 points · Posted at 11:29:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you say then that your gay, in the traditional sense or, as I'm thinking about it, your sexually gay, but in a relational sense something else? To say that there is a difference between men who like men who act in a traditionally manly way, and men who like men who act in a, I was going to say feminine way but perhaps in a mixed way would be more appropriate. Now that I've organised that into words, I'm wondering if there is something closer to androgyny but rather that being neither one not the other is more like being both.
sosila · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no way men act or women act. People are individuals.
OFark · 0 points · Posted at 11:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes there is, it's basic biology. Not that people have to conform, but it's how the majority of people procreate.
Any kind of discrimination based on ideals and values, really. Misogyny, racism, homophobia, xenophobia, etc... should be long, long gone but people still opt for being absolute morons.
Honestly it’s only a small percentage of people in America that actually are. If you’re talking about other countries, not so much. But in America there’s really not that many people that think that way because nobody they know thinks that way.
I know this is political and thus stupid... but I really don’t get how devout religious Americans approve of Trump or see him as godly. He’s always carried himself as a rich lady chasing, cheating, steak salesman who fires people and insults people. Even through stormy Daniels many of them look at trump and genuinely see a man of god. How is that image consolidated with his crude behavior
He seems to actively go against the advice of Christ on the reg. How do they go to church every Sunday, come home, see Trump, and think “yup that’s exactly what Jesus meant”
Actual climate change deniers are like flat-Earthers, they are out there but there are far less of them than people give credit for. The general climate is undeniably changing, there is no doubting that. The real debate is what level of change are we willing to force on a society in order to compensate for this climate change? Calling conservatives climate change deniers is disingenuous to (most of) their actual positions on the issue.
well i dont understand it -enough- to explain it without it being very convoluted and probably wrong, but i can recommend a few (two) super simple, not at all good enough but easy to understand things
I don't understand how it's possible not have the time/energy or effort to take a plate and move it 20 additional inches into the dishwasher instead of leaving it on the kitchen counter.
It defies all known logic.
I am beginning to believe I am the only person in the house who perceives the dishwasher; and they literally can not see it because they don't understand what it is and what it does. Perhaps the dishwasher is in a quantum realm only I can access.
What the term "What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?" means. I've always thought I understood what it meant but, every time, it still makes no sense to me.
I understand that racism is still a thing and that some people dont forget and people judge others but why can't people just get along? Why can't we attempt to fix anything at all?
Math.
I genuinely think I am incapable of learning it. Like i know basic stuff but I take like a million hours to put together 2+2.
If someone were to prank me by saying 1+1 doesn't equal 2 I'd probably think about it for a few seconds before figuring out I wasn't the idiot that time.
nos500 · 3 points · Posted at 18:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking girls tho i doubt it is worth spending some effort on it. That is why i never did. But still i don't understand.
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nos500 · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls in general
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nos500 · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro i didn't say girls are awful i said i don't understand them.
Because equality isn't always fair. Do you want murderers and rapists having same rights as you? If everything was equal, nothing would be fair. Fairness is most important. Would you want everyone to make same amount of money? I'm fine with my wife making $95,000 and me $70,000.
I get that and I agree with that but I meant genders, sexualities and races shouldn’t be discriminated against. And by that I don’t mean every race and gender should get the exact same amount of money ect. I go to meme pages on instagram for fun but all of the comments are ‘women aren’t funny’, ‘women don’t deserve rights’, people commenting ‘ 🦇🍜 ‘ under videos of asian people. I don’t care if it’s a joke, it’s still wrong.
1st world problems. Guys you gotta be glad you were born in a rich country. There i am sitting in a poor as fuck post soviet country in the middle of nowhere
Here’s my try at answering your question, someone who has mental illness, we will use depression, you can’t see that mental illness, you can’t feel that mental illness. It’s not like a broken bone that you can see, does that make your problem any less real? The same can be applied to first world problems, a problem is a problem, not every problem equates to the same severeness. But it’s still a problem, you ever walk in the kitchen and get your socks wet from someone leaving ice on the floor or snow? It’s still an issue, just because it doesnt effect everyone doesn’t mean the problem doesn’t exist. Acting like your problems are more important is pretty one sided. I’m not saying first world problems are more important at all, but it still is an issue and acting like it’s not denotes the worth of any problems. Just because it doesn’t effect you doesn’t mean it doesn’t effect others. Hopefully this gives a bit of insight.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we find boobs and butts sexy
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your subconscious connects it with fertility. Big tits = can feed a baby. Wide hips = can survive giving a birth, and make more babies.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you
uidsea · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can spend hundreds or even thousands on mobile games. It may just be because I'm not in the greatest place economically but why would you put money into something that you're getting nothing back from?
Also mobile games shut down all the time and whenever it does then you're just out all that money with nothing to show for it.
People who, from my experience at least, support politicians or political parties that are so obviously inherently corrupt. Like can’t you see that? Is your media exposure THAT limited??
I get that everyone has a different perspective and viewpoint but come on it’s like cheering for the villain- and worse off you’re his next victim.
For my, my former religion was part of my core identity. It had been that way since I was born. Separating myself from my former religion was incredibly difficult and physically painful at times. (Doesn’t help that I now realize it was a cult)
We mark our age in years based on the years you've finished living: When you are born, you are effectively "zero." While you are zero, you live for a year until you "turn one." So now you're one, and that year you just finished living was your first year of living. Now after your birthday where you became one, you start living your second year of life. For a whole year that you're one, you're living the second year of your life. At the end of that year, you "turn two." After that day you become two years old, you start living your third year of life. At the end of your third year of life, you have a birthday and we say that you are three years old. The day after your third birthday begins your fourth year of life....and so on. So if you had your 28th birthday recently, you're now living your 29th year of life. The age you become on your birthday is a marker of the year you just finished living.
g399 · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand now life can get created from space rocks. I understand how organisms can develop and evolve into new ones. I just can't comprehend how something makes the jump from not alive to alive.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
don´t know if my answer is good enough, but life is an emergent property, meaning it doesn´t exist in individual pieces of a system, but do exist for the system as a whole. Let´s say a wave in the ocean (also an emergent propertie): if you take 1 mililiter from it, it won´t dissapear, and if you keep taking milimiter by milimiter, i doubt you´ll know when it stops being a wave. So i believe there´s like a gray area between non living and living creatures, and, by chance, onde day that area was crossed. If you think that Earth was a messy place at the time, it´s not really crazy to think this happened countless of times before it was enough to form life
Famous people. Like, why do people get so invested in the lives and drama of people they don't know and probably will never meet? I usually can't even remember actors' names, let alone what they were in or who they're dating.
I still can't associate a face with Michael Jackson or his music. Though I've said this before, and been told that neither could he, sooo... 🤷♀️
People who yell at other drivers on the road, from inside their car. They can't hear you, you just look like an idiot.
And yes, I do this occasionally and I hate myself for it
Wymsi · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to move forward from grief and guilt. Had a bunch of bad situations happen all at once and I've been dealing with PTSD from it since.
(To those about to coment it. Therapy isn't allways an option. I've had a few sessions, but the working/academic world doesn't always care about your mental health.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If therapy is not an option, you should try introducing meditation to your daily life. There's also supportive communities of meditators, for example, in Zen centers.
Wymsi · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tries that actually XD It was definitely somthing
Not really my thing per se,
but I am a musician and practicing my different instruments is very relaxing for me.
I don’t understand how people see math as something beautiful and exciting. The times I’ve heard a mathematician or a professor talk about why they love math, it’s spoken of so romantically. I really want to understand it the same way - I’m just not sure how.
MZGTY · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here
My teacher basically said "nobody was there for me, but math was"
Why so many people my age (teenagers) are obsessed over being single or not and complain about getting hurt all the time then go back to the same person or worse. And then them coming up to you and try to pity you because you've always been single.
I'm autistic, so social related things are not inherently coded in me. Whenever I want to start a conversation, literally every neuron in me tells me not to, and to avoid that person. And that's just with me today.
Before, when I was younger, I couldnt read body language or even facial expression unless they were VERY obvious. Most jokes went over my head, I couldnt tell how the things I said emotionally impacted people unless they told me, and this all led to me having very few friends.
Even now I still have difficulty making friends because not only am I socially inept, but I'm also slow to trust people. My closest friend right now, after I met him for the first time, I didnt start truly interacting with him until a month after I met him, and it was him that did all the talking until then.
And dont even get me started on the gender related topic that is so common today. I'm so scared of pissing people off that I when I refer to someone, I just dont use any pronouns at all. I just say 'you' or refer to them by name. My mind lacks the emotional, or social, (honestly not sure) ability to comprehend on how someone can identify as a gender that is not what they physically are.
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On the brighter side, calculus is literally the easiest thing I've ever learned.
Humans. Somewhere in this goddammed planet, people are dying while all of the more fortunate people do is check their wallets. they are the scum of the earth and do not deserve what they have.
Usually insane or deranged or otherwise unstable people go to war for very little sane reasons so either they die or the world learns from the experience.
Wars do great things, even the space race did great things. You wouldn’t have any technology if it wasn’t for war, it’s because of these times that we have freeze dried foods, electronics that fit in our pocket. It all trickles down, the war itself does nothing, it’s what we produce to help our cause that we benefit from. But I guess your question wasn’t do we benefit from war, it doesn’t solve anything. And you’d be correct.
People being toxic online for no reason, I know some people are just trying to be funny or ironic, but getting a paragraph long message calling me a cuck for winning an close game of Rocket League baffles me
How humans created anything. I get how TVs work, I understand the concept. But how did we come up with that. Let’s take this piece of plastic and bend it around and connect it here that connects to that bit of created material that makes TVs work. I don’t get it. How did we think of that.
How/who figured out certain things are edible. For example, who the hell was the first person to see a potato and say "You know what? I'm gonna eat this dirty, hard lump I just pulled out of the ground."? Or something like oysters. Who was the first person to crack one of those open, see the slimy, snotty looking creature inside and decide to slurp it down?
So you’re Telling me that the mass of the entire known universe was condensed into an area that was infinitely small and infinitely hot. Then, because of SOME reason this infinitely dense point decided to instead explode into an infinitely large area that is expanding faster than light, which we know should be impossible since the same kind of scientists who told us this is impossible also told us this is happening at the edge of the universe.
Then, after the Big Bang the world literally just didn’t function since the universe was too hot for the forces that literally hold us together.
That shit blows my mind
ka9dgx · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum field theory, and the standard model.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people watch stand up comedy shows. When you're on stage telling jokes, it's just not funny. Well, atleast to me.
Why does people hate other people that have a different color, like WTF what does this affect you.
The same goes for people that hate other people that love the same sex or have other religions etc.
Why do people get so bent out of shape when someone misses teasing or sarcasm or them being playful. If someone took you seriously, just inform them you were kidding and move on. Don't take offense and insult them and act like they were an asshole for not picking up on your joke. What is so hard to understand that some people have difficulty picking up on this stuff? It's not that they are being negative or are a downer, or don't know how to have fun, they just have difficulty picking up on it and understanding it.
I've asked my husband about it and the best he could do was tell me it makes him feel sad when I don't get his humor and it makes him feel he can't be himself. This is something I don't understand either. People make humor be part of their identity?
My ex also used to get upset when I wouldn't know he was joking but I told him I can't tell when he is joking or being serious when he jokes all the time. But he expected me to just get it. It's the the boy who cried wolf, you now think he is always joking and then he gets upset when you didn't take him seriously and it's your fault just like it was the villagers fault for not listening to the boy who cried wolf when there was an actual wolf.
What?? Don't you ever had a tough moment when you are really sad or stress and a friend or a family member give you a hug and stays with you until you get better??
(Cuddles can come from lots of people not just from your significant other)
Edit: I come from a place where human contact is very common so hug, touch and even kiss people in the cheek is so normal that, in some regions, is a greeting
Well... It has probably happened before but whenever I'm going through a hard time, I try my best to keep it to myself. My problems are typically not that significant anyways. Also, I'm fairly awkward, so I refrained as much as possible from hugging people until I was like 15 or something. I'm okay with it now
Yeah, but I typically get over it pretty quickly. And everytime I complain about my problems, I regret it later because it wasn't worth bothering someone over it
As my therapist once said me
"You are not bothering people by telling them about your problems, you are preoccupying them by not telling what is happening"
So if you can't afford a therapist try talking whit someone you trust, but just if you are comfortable with this, don't overstress yourself with that.
How the brain works/doesn’t work. Like it’s a lump of jello that makes emotions and chemicals and it lets you move your body and it lets you say things, but the moment a nerve thing is out of place suddenly you’re a serial killer or hey you can’t see because fuck you. Shit’s wild and interesting.
People who cannot or will not admit that their favorites make mistakes. Or when they'll defend those mistakes as if there were intentional, not as bad as people think, or 'just a joke'. I'm talking people who would freak out because their fave got a parking ticket and go on twitter rants about how it's absolutely impossible for such a thing to have occurred.
Like... These are legit just human people. They make mistakes. They drop shit. They trip over their own feet. They piss and poop and vomit. They're not some made-up idol.
ffs, my favorite singer took their own life and I'm not going to sit here and claim it wasn't a mistake
How some people can seem to be able to live for free. They don’t have a job, they’ve never had a job in the entire time you’ve known them, they have absolutely no way of getting money that you know of, but they somehow have a roof over their head and a vehicle to drive, and sometimes even nice things. Makes zero sense to me.
How, not only are we gonna all die one day, but how at age 40s 50s 60s you start to slow down and you just dont have the same energy as you did in your 20s and my friends and people in general would STILL rather stay at home and watch netflix than go out on weekends and plan for fun shit.
Like we're all a decade away from starting to decay and people cant logically accept the concept of time moving quick , not just cause we die at 90,but because youre slowly losing energy too and the majority of people would rather be 96 years old laying in their death beds saying they watched Netflix today than saying yea i went out and had fun on April 11 2021.
I just truly truly truly cannot work my mind around that mindset.
Theres A LOT of weird odd ways of thinking that ive come to understand. But that 1 thing just blows my mind.
Like we have the resources, my friend HAS the money, he HAS the next 3 days off.. its the weekend.. the weather is great.. the world is moving..(clearly not talking about right now but the last 10 years) lets go downtown and have some fun.. "Nooo im just not feeling it - kinda just want to chill - not in the mood - etc. etc." LIKE BRO HES 26 AND IM 27. WE NEED TO MAKE MOVES OR LIFE IS GONNA PASS US BY.
I truly wish i just got lucky with those groups of friends you see that literally do everything possible together .. go to house parties.. raves.. festivals.. events.. cons... NO. Everyone ive ever met in my life is just low energy, no to everything.
I'm 38 and this year feels like the start of that decline. Up to now I was always young. I can honestly say I made the most of my 20s and 30s though so now I'm looking forward to chilling out and having some kids. Don't waste your youth, money won't buy it back.
99% of people I've known are like that too. Some people outgrow their friends, that's life. Don't hold yourself back so others feel better about coasting. You're dead way longer than you're alive, savour every moment.
Go and find them. They won't just come to you. You have to be the places those people are, doing the things those people do. If there's somewhere you want to end up, or someone you want to become, then the fact you're actively working at something will attract other people who are actively working too. Enjoy the hustle, always have a goal in mind, always be moving forward.
How will i go to the places those people are if i dont have the people to go with to get there in the first place?
I mean i literally work at Disney World with young people in the heart of what youd call fun and STILL most people are the way i explained.
Like if i just had 1 single person thats driven and like minded i could acheive so much of what youre saying. Those people really are the 1%. No matter how much energy you put into finding them its gonna be damn near impossible. And building relationships dont just happen over night. This shit is tough.
How people who respond to this exceedingly valid discussion with, "Well, just pick something and be happy." "It sounds like you're just complaining to complain." "You're blaming others for your unhappiness/dissatisfaction." "Don't let it bother you." --actually buy into this mindless insensitive arrogance as they lecture their admonishments.
I have lived this. From certain family, friends, SOs, and randoms I've tried having logical and thoughtful convos with.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work. Like our eyes are one of the most complex parts of our body, so the fact that a camera can capture what we see and print it out..... my brain is itchy.
Honestly, how people perform daily functions. I see people out working in their yards, decorating, cooking, cleaning, spending time with friends and family..... and I can't even do my dishes every day.
Why we litter a paper full of in-text citations and the penalties that fallow doing it incorrectly.
To clarify, I am 1000% for giving sources credit where it is due in reference pages and the like, but I find lots of the regulations and restrictions APA presents only complicates writing papers and makes them look bad.
How programming languages are programmed... and what programmed whatever programmed them?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:24:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so like you'll be laying in your bed. And then you feel like you gotta take a piss. But like you could control it like and wait some time so you put on ur mf pants and shirt and walk to the bathroom. And when u enter like you can't control it like it urges you to pass and u can't hold. Like wtf causes me to need to do it so desperately once I enter the bathroom like wtf? If I stayed in bed it woulda let me hold it in but when I go into the bathroom I can't hold it like wtf? How does this work. Also how come when you're done taking a piss-shit and you get up from sitting position like u piss a little and sometimes it gets on ur underwear and ur like wtf??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't relate to anything more than I am right now. All of it. Mostly with shits though, hold it while driving no prob, as soon as I pull in the driveway, its game time, I have mere seconds to get to the can!
Programming. You have been programmed to associate walking in to the bathroom with emptying your bowel or bladder.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
huh
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:06:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technology. Not in the sense where I don’t know how to use a phone or computer, I’m really tech-savvy. But like, how in the hell is this clump of wires and circuit boards create a functioning device that lets me do all this shit?
Like who the fuck decided that people should try to own parts of a company and use that as its own market for making money? Then, who the fuck decided that this made-up system of making money off of other people actually working hard and making money should control THE ENTIRE FUCKING ECONOMY?!?
Is it just an indicator of the economy and growth in general? But then how in 2008 everyone selling stocks caused an economic collapse? Who bought those stocks then? The company who sold it in the first place? Other people who thought it might be valuable? What if no one wants your shitty stock? Are you stuck with it?
Genuinely never had it explained to me so it made sense.
Why anyone likes Donald Trump.
Speaking as a non-American, I can’t see why anyone would like Trump over any other republican. Literally any republican would have the same policies (in terms of restricting immigration, promoting trade, hiring right wing judges to the Supreme Court etc) -if those are the policies you value, but wouldn’t be such an embarrassing spectacle in the process.
I’ve looked for explanations and haven’t yet found any that hold up, they are usually either his policies (see above), things that are very clearly false (he’s a straight talker, he’s not part of the “swamp” etc) or that he pisses off Democrats (sure... but that’s the worst reason to like something Imaginable).
It’s actually very simple, we like trump because he says whatever, but it’s more than that, immigration is bad when you let any and everyone in your country, look at how bad California is doing right now, look at Chicago. Look at any democratic run area and you’ll notice a few things, poverty, massive spikes in crimes, third world country status like California’s became. These places are hot beds for sexual assaults, gun violence even though they ban guns and so forth. Now go look at republican ran states, notice how we don’t have the Black Plague? Notice how school shootings don’t happen that often in these areas? Notice how crimes aren’t so high? Look I get it, you don’t have to like trump, you don’t have to like what I’m saying but to act like democrats are the better choice they simply aren’t, while growing up I considered myself a socialist, as I got older I turned democratic, now I’m conservative. Conservative people tend to think of more than just themselves, they’re not just Christians and whatever else we get called. Trump may say stupid shit, but I’ve never seen any democratic nominee say anything smarter either. Look at Bernie sanders, multi million dollar homes yet he’s a politician, where did all his “hard earned” money come from? Also now that he dropped out where did those millions upon millions of dollars go? Right back into his pocket. Politicians are corrupt, trump gave up his right to run his own businesses and gave up his presidential check to charities, that’s already more than the majority of democrats have done. Notice how democrats are always blocking bills to help the country because they have a list of demands to be met. They don’t care if your poor, they don’t want you to prosper either, they need you to rely on them solely so that you have no where else to go, planned parenthood which was made by democrats was put in place to keep the number of black people to a minimum, they also aren’t aloud to be on any form of support for their children if they have men in the house, also, did you know which side fought for the end of slavery? Republicans, democrats where the ones for slavery and still are but they’ve changed their tactics, once you see through the facade that is socialism and democrats you realize that it isn’t Republicans that are the problem. Are there bad seeds on all sides? Your damn right there are, but it’s not trump that’s caused this shit. Like what I said or dislike it it really doesn’t matter to me, there’s a reason America is turning red and not blue. People are starting to see things as they truly are, if trump is so bad then why is it with multiple multi million dollar investigations that they still haven’t found a single thing to get him on, the question is, why hate someone for speaking out and trying to change how things are ran, trump is a business man and he understands how it operates. This is why people vote for him. This is why he is still in office and this is why he will win the election again. The media does nothing but lie, Fox News included. But Fox News isn’t saying they aren’t biased they claim to be right wing, cnn claims they aren’t biased but that’s a straight up lie. Also note how all left wing media is funded by George Soros and a few others.
Non-binary people, like I think I'm almost there and I'm trying, but I just don't get it.
I understand gender dysphoria and the need to transition from one gender to another, and I fully support people's need to do that and more importantly to be acknowledged as the gender that they identify as.
But I think I just haven't had non-binary explained to me well enough. I just have difficulty wrapping my head around the concept.
And I get that as a cis white male my ignorance is deserving of an eye-roll and perhaps some disdain, but if it could be explained to me, I'm willing to learn and adapt.
I get that I might get some hate for this, but I am genuinely curious.
How many people don't fucken vote, everyone opens their mouth to complain but when it comes to doing a simple ass thing like voting for change you can't be bothered to vote. Also the Democratic party is a fucken hoax and I fail to understand how people still believe in it.
How the Republican Party can be so big. I mean, their policies are only beneficial to about 1% of the population, but they are voted into offices by about 50%.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
most things
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:45:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who vote in elections for guy who is more likely to win.
I will confess to one major thing....that is probability. I have a master's in electrical engineering from a top 3 school...I worked for a telecom company and actually took random processes from Stanford... I got an A- in the class...With all that said and done...I don't understand this subject. I can do the complicated problems because there is usually a formula to put in for telecom but simple stuff like choose balls or sock drawers or coins or cards and I have to write all the combinations down....I feel like a fraud...
I genuinely do not understand how people without healthcare could vote for a candidate who will ensure that they never have access to healthcare.
LLJewJ · 3 points · Posted at 14:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand Tik Tok. I don't know how it's fun to watch the shit posted to it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some men believe it’s their “right” to treat women like objects. It’s disgusting. Us women are sick and tired of not being able to go outside during the night by ourselves because we fear being raped/murdered/trafficked. Not all men are like this (thank you) but some are, and it needs to stop
How the left has gone from #feelthebern, #metoo, and hating white men to supporting Joe Biden, the whitest of white men who inappropriately touches little girls on video in public multiple times and even used his power and influence to suppress an employee he fingered. He’s literally everything people claim to hate Trump for yet they act like he’s some kind of savior for women and minorities.
Got tip, if they’re really into joe Biden besides as a devils bargain to avoid re-electing a literal facist, chances are that they’re not left wing, just left of trump supporters.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 01:54:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, they’re not from what I’ve seen. Bernie bros fucking hate the Democratic Party lol.
Leftie here and was part of the #feelthebern crew. Ever since Bernie withdrew, the only viable blue candidate left is Joe. Joe was never first choice but it’s become a choice between lesser evils, and Joe will get my vote over Trump. That’s really it.
Bear in mind that absolutely everything being debated at curent has long and thought out roots through hundred of years of political philosophy. There are very good reasons for every political stance of current, you can look into it easily if you want to spend the time.
I wasnt necessarily talking about it from a conservative point of view, just rather that everything has a very strong backing and a lot of thought behind it
No Burke said those things because he thought that we must honour the dead's wishes as they would have had something to say were they alive and it is our duty to preserve their wills through tradition, it's a whole different thing entirely
Ok, we’re misunderstanding each other. Where’s the disconnect? It might be that we’re discussing two different things, both of which can be found in Burke’s ideas. Do you think the disconnect is the distinction between honoring the wishes of the dead through non-rational tradition vs. active investigation of our intellectual tradition?
Edit: yeah, that’s the disconnect. I see what you mean, and there’s a somewhat meta level on which we have a rational discussion regarding the importance of non-rational tradition. The inquiry itself can have the same impulse. I see them both encapsulated in “Most people have already died; don’t be a smug modern”
Talking about "free" healthcare just gives ammo to opponents of medicare for all. Let's be clear that it would be covered by taxes and the cost of that tax increase for each person would be offset by eliminating health insurance. Employers should also increase worker's pay accordingly.
MpVpRb · 90 points · Posted at 15:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How otherwise intelligent people believe the stories told by religion
If a god exists, it's currently beyond human comprehension
It's probably best to directly ask or read the writings of the intelligent people who believe in religious things. They'll give, presumably, intelligent reasons for their beliefs.
Here's a thoughtful answer i hope i can phrase this right.
Human standpoint
We still believe in religion because when humans intelligence was still in the way for development when they couldn't explain complex ideas (How world begun, what created us) they believed that there was a creator, now think, you are a kid and you are asked how did you came into existence? answer by your instincts is that there is a creator, we've been raised in the idea of religion and adapted it to it so much that it has became a common sense now.
My view:
I do not believe in religion but i used to, because i didn't know how things worked, now the more i knew more questions popped up in my head and i stopped believing in religion, for our next big steps, humans shouldn't use religion for their actions, if we as species want to generally improve, we should also face the facts and act according to our brain and not by our heart, nobody is stopping you from believeing nor is anything wrong with it, but what is currently the issue with religion that alot of people become arrogant and ignorant just because something is against of what they believe.
Why? There are plenty of intelligent, religious people. Islamic Spain saw one of the greatest scientific booms in human history, why is it so strange that intelligent people might also believe in a higher power?
There are lots of very intelligent philosophers who have approached the question from a religious perspective. It's also important to remember that the materialist perspective is a very recently developed one, and still grounded in not-necessarily object philosophy.
If it exists, it doesn't require belief. I don't need to believe in tables.
I bang my shin on it, it exits.
So much of what people ascribe to the divine looks a lot like what humans would do if they had super powers. That doesn't look divine, that looks like wish fulfillment.
I consider myself intelligent, but so does literally everybody else on this hell site, and my family would disagree, so idk.
Anyways, it’s a comfort thing for me, it’s nice to know that someone up there is watching. Or that bad people will get what’s coming to them, and good people will be rewarded.
I believed too for a long time loved and trusted that I was watched and cared for. And then god watched me suffer and didn’t help. The bad people hurt me when I was young and when older -took what I worked and sacrificed for and they weren’t punished instead they did very well, they were admired and got a way with it. I was blamed.
That happened over and over again. I still believed. Even my church leader embraced my criminal abuser and shunned me. I still believed something better was on store- I wasn’t made just to work and try to do right and suffer, right? There was no comfort. I was alone. With nothing. I waited on the Lord.
Still would be waiting. I still suffer. There’s no god I can see helping me. Every time I make things a little better, find a way, feel some happiness- I watch it blow up and I lose even more than I had before.
I stopped praying, stopped believing and loving. I either became agnostic or hate something that set me up for agony over and over. I can’t handle the idea that god or some entity- even a Sim developers can be so cruel. I hate that I was indoctrinated with this ideology of a kind and loving god and wasted my life trying to live by it only to be destroyed by it. Had I been free minded and my society didn’t support this delusion- what I would have accomplished instead?
The way things play out- seemingly like a humorous reality show for entertainment - I’d believe more in a Sim and my player is just an asshole.
Have you read the ontological, teleological, and cosmological arguments? Even if you don’t buy it, you can at least begin to understand why people believe.
2 of every single animal? and food? where did they use the bathroom? he boated to AUS for koalas and kangaroos, and went elsewhere to drop off other region-specific animals? ...all over the planet?? with no motor either?! k.
Why is this downvoted? I agree. I used to be very scientifically minded but now I feel that logic stripped from life/the subject isn’t the full picture
For me at least it’s how when I pray I am comforted, and when I humble myself and ask for guidance I’ve never been betrayed. It’s not a matter of intelligence. Faith is super complex. Like I don’t believe because of that comfort or guidance, but because I know that there is a God. This is a mess but just my take.
Otherwise there wouldn't be such a strong negative correlation between intelligence and religiosity.
(Really not trying to be an edgelord here).
Edit: kinda surprised about the reaction I got, the relationship of intelligence and religiosity is a very well researched topic and the results are not contended or ambiguous at all. I assumed it was common knowledge.
Here's a meta study as a introductory source, if the topic interests you, google scholar is overflowing with additional sources.
I posted a source that supports the widely known fact that statistically, intelligence and religiosity are negatively correlated.
The fact that education and religiosity are also strongly negatively correlated is kinda irrelevant to that, as I wasn't really looking to source that, just my initial one, kinda as an invitation for people that are curious about the topic.
You had some time now to research this topic on your own, and it's clearly very important to you.
Has that research changed your opinion in any way?
And telling me to go research it myself is not a source.
It isn't, but the fact that you refuse to seek out information yourself does create the impression that you're looking for a fight, not an exchange of information.
And honestly, that's not something I'm looking for when I visit Reddit (anymore).
My user experience improved drastically since I adopted this policy.
You are welcome to look it up if you're really interested, but I will not argue with you about basic scientific facts.
Yep, it's always a question what you're actually measuring.
At least this correlation holds separately for logical reasoning capacity, mathematical ability, spacial awareness and verbal intelligence, memorization ability and the ability to attain higher education. (As in, on a population level, a rise in any of these makes the observed population less religious).
It's too much to claim that any of these on their own make a person "intelligent", but I do think that they're a fairly good proxy in totality.
All of these things correlate with education. Is this a matter of educated people being less religious? Is it that the instructors are less religious? From here we would have an entirely different discussion. You see how single threaded this line of reasoning is, right?
If we define intelligence by our modern means, it doesn't make sense why intelligent person would believe in it, but intelligent people ask questions, they are not ignorant and they drive their way for what is realistic and makes sense most to them.
I don't believe all the stories, there's too much politics in the writing of them. But I do genuinely feel at times God helping me and leading me down the right path. But you're right, God is definitely beyond human comprehension and those that say they know so much about him are likely bs-ing
Not every Christian thinks that everything in the bible literally happened. I'm not doubting that some do, but none of my religious friends and family believe for example in creationism. They do however take Jesus as a role model and see the value in "Love thy neighbor", charity and community. What makes them Christian is their believe in the higher being described in the bible. Not their believe in the bible. Big difference.
Most modern Christians don't use the bible as religious law you have to live by. Instead it is a collection of stories to learn the values, god wants people to live by.
It is generally accepted, that large parts of the bible were never meant to be taken literal. The bible is full of symbols, metaphors and allegorical stories. But they leave room for interpretation, especially because there has been a lot of chinese whisper going on. The stories in the bible were told and retold before being written down and after that they were translated (sometimes in a faulty way). Literally believing in any English bible would be foolish, because an English bible does not contain the literal "word of God".
(EDIT: in Islam this is different in a very interesting way: Mohammed's teachings and the quran have been recorded in Arabic during his lifetime and it is generally read in Arabic, so the margin of error is way smaller. Because of this the quran often has a different value to Muslims. It is generally believed to be the literal, unedited, unfiltered "word of God". I'm not judging Islam or Christianity here, just highlighting one important difference)
It would be unfair and wrong to reduce Christianity to the belief that the events in the bible literally happened.
But how can we verify that a higher power write it? Not someone who thought it’s what that power wanted or what they wanted others to believe?
I’m no atheist, but I don’t like organized religion because humans are imperfect. We have our own bias, language and translations over thousands of years can lead to a loss of original meaning, or practices just become outdated. Sure, it made sense to ban pork and shellfish back when they were unclean to eat, but nowadays there’s no point since they can be properly cleaned.
Jekaah · -6 points · Posted at 18:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s the thing, it’s not about verifying anything. It’s about having faith.
And as for the food thing, I’m a Christian so I cannot speak for other religions but in the Old Testament it was forbidden to eat pork but the New Testament does away with that in saying:
“What goes into someone's mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." Matthew 15:11.
The verse you just quoted is figurative and doesn't have to do with food. Unless you think puking or spitting out food "defiles" people.
Jekaah · -1 points · Posted at 19:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it does actually have to do with food mate as the previous verses the Pharisees asked Jesus why his disciples hadn’t washed their hands before they had eaten. Hence Jesus said what he said in vs 11. And yes it is figurative, but also literal. The literal part is eating pork or any food for that matter is not a sin, the figurative part is that what comes out of your mouth is what can defile you. Meaning the words you speak come from your heart and mind. And if your heart and mind are unrighteous and wicked, so will your words be.
Yes Unclean foods were forbidden until the church age. Such laws were specifically abrogated by God as the gospel went to the whole earth as opposed to staying within small Israel.
Well the Bible presents human beings as imperfect so you are in agreement with it there.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 14:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I've had people try to explain it to me. Looked up resources online to try to understand it. It's just way over my head for whatever reason. Sucks because I really want to get into electronics more but I'm lacking in that aspect to progress more.
Have you tried submitting a question about how electricity works on the sub r/explainlikeimfive? I've always wondered about how it works too, but every time somebody tries to explain it, I just get confused.
The appeal of most modern rap music. I'm sorry, but most of it sounds the same and it gets repetitive very quickly. That and it's everywhere these days, which I find to be particularly annoying.
I have been listening to old school tunes (hip hop and soul) and boy oh boy! Goldmines everywhere. Eric B and Rakim, Lady of Rage, Ice Cube (no Vaseline), Dilated people....
How young people can pick up smoking cigarettes. With everything we know about what it does to your body, how can someone choose to pay a ton of money to do it anyway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Before you know it you’re addicted and your body chooses for you.
At least that’s my experience
Like how does qué mean stand in a line and a stick you use in snooker/pool. What came first? Did someone say pass the qué and the other person was like how do I pass you a line of people? Or was it "I'm in the qué" and the other person was like wtf kind of wizard did you fuck with that he put you inside a stick?
Weed is good, therefore things that are dope == things that are good
I'm more curious about how something slaps. Did it come from people saying "This bass slaps", i.e. "This bass is so powerful that it feels as though it's physically hitting me", and that spread to describing other things as powerful/potent? Or did it originate with food being described as so good it would make you "slap yo mamma" and then get transposed to other things? Two possible origins there, would love to figure out which lead to "This [x] slaps!"
I have never head the expression 'this bass slaps'.
I will guess that if you stand in front of a bass speaker, that the air pressure hitting you in the face is like getting slapped, kind of like 'cold air slapping your face' that kind of thing. It could very well be from an old book in which an author was describing other things hitting your face like a slap.
Well, in this case, there's a Latin word 'coda' that means tail.
Coda gave old French the word 'Coe' for a tail which became 'cue' or 'queue' in modern French.
The English language picked up the French word (and a whole lot of others) after the Norman invasion. A queue of people and a pool cue are both called that because they resemble a tail.
Usually it comes down to common roots of words, and different groups of people using those common roots to mean different things. Eventually, the different groups merge and both usages/words remain.
Etymology is really fascinating - I highly recommend looking up the roots of words you're interested in when you get bored. If this pandemic lasts much longer, you could use that free time to look up the roots of all of the top 1000 most used words in the English language
People with absolutely no mental issues. People no unhealthy vices, no medication, no deep issues or trauma. Most of my friends have some kind of mental health issues or trauma and unhealthy coping mechanisms but the idea that people are out there just raw dogging reality and being perfectly fine.... it just blows my mind
Most people who claim to have no mental health issues are very good at hiding them. Otherwise they had to have a very lucky upbringing and genetics to end up so advantaged.
Peak Simpsons. It’s a play on the ridiculously contrived “uh oh, I’m in a sticky situation, how do I lie my way out of this?” scenarios that were popular in old sitcoms.
Blince · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The joke in the situation is that Chalmers always calls Skinner out on the crazy things that he does, so the audience is set up to think that Skinner is going to get his comeuppance in that moment after he spins a very clearly bullshit story.
The humour then comes from the fact that Chalmers completely buys it hook, line and sinker in a very genuine way, thus surprising you.
Why some people hate lgbt people.
It literally is something you can't choose and (if I remember correctly from reading about it) it's (partly) decided by the level of testosterone in the womb.
No it not created by testostrone levels in the womb. Its a very complex system spanning hundred of diffrent genes that we fully do not understand. All we know is that other animal can display homosexuality so its not a gentic mistake. One current theory is that homosexuality was a sort of population control we evolved to help orphan offspring.
Mainly to separate the Jews from the culture and the rituals around them. Like when the Bible says not to have long hair, the tribes that practiced ideology around Israel incorporated long hair into their rituals.
Even with shellfish and pork, it could’ve been because the Philistines or the Canaanites had them for a cultural meal, so commanding to not eat them would lessen the chance that the Israelites would adopt the idolatrous culture around them (which the Israelites still did anyway).
It’s not so much that long hair, mixed clothes, shellfish, or pork are bad, but that the practices with them were either for special people (mixed clothes with the priests) or that they were apart of the tribes around them.
It’s less of a moral reason and more of making them “holier” by keeping them from being tainted.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But then why would that not include homosexuality? It's mentioned in the same chapter as mixed fabrics, shell fish, etc. If we get rid of the whole list of rules, but only keep the one, then it seems more like an excuse to keep the one.
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But there are other laws in the New Testament that plenty of modern Christians do not abide by, having modernized, such as women being expected to cover their heads inside the church and to pray, women being expected to have long hair, men expected to not have long hair, I’m sure there are more but my Christianity lore is rusty.
Ok so, I know next to nothing about Christianity, but I just want you to know that I do respect the people who believe in it and I mean no offense or anything.
But I've been wondering this: I read that the phase 'A man shall not lay with a man' was mistranslated, and that originally they weren't referring to two men sleeping together, but a man and a boy. As in, pedophilia.
What do you think about that?
Thoughts on all of his golf trips? Thoughts on blaming China for the pandemic and then tweeting how great their leader is? Thoughts on his past involvements with Epstein? Thoughts on the massive tax cuts in a time of a rising economy coming out of a recession? Thoughts on the constant turnover in his administration? Go ahead and pick any of those to start.
Does it concern you that it's been reported that it has cost almost 133 million dollars in tax payer money to fund his golf outings? 29 of which have been to his own Mar-a-Lago resort. Do you fear he might be breaking the annulments act by traveling to Mar-a-Lag and having the U.S. pay the bill?
I'll agree China is mostly to blame for the pandemic, but does it not concern you that back in February, President Trump was praising Xi Jinping for the way he had handled the outbreak. Specifically stating, he handled it "really well" and "doing a very good job"
So, who gets credit for turning the economy around during Obama's presidency, "since an economy can only succeed under deregulation and capitalism."
True, many presidents fire and hire staff. But does a near 80% turnover rate (highest out of all presidencies) build confidence that Trump is able to find the best people to help him run the country?
Edit: Oh and my friends and the people I hangout with dont run a child sex trafficking ring for the wealthy and then blackmail them. And if I found out, I'd probably AT LEAST distance myself from them and not refer to them as my friend/s anymore and probably notify authorities.
It's widely and commonly known that the best business deals and deals happen on the golf course, as Trump as a businessman he discusses business at the golf course, which I would believe is business having to do with the country. So I don't have a problem with that.
And I'm pretty sure the economy and unemployment rate was at its highest during the Obama administration and at lowest with Trump pre covid. Could be wrong tho.
It also doesn't help that regardless of what Trump does, he gets hate for it.
Imagine waking up and having your every decision scrutinized by people.
My only problem with him is he days certain things and I'm just like "why tho" at the same time, I love having a president whos vocal about his beliefs.
As kids we where taught to have a voice, stand up for what you believe in and express yourself. It's our right to have this freedom.
There is no denying he has done good for this country.
How transgenderism is no longer considered a mental illness. Objectively speaking, something wrong in the brain is causing people to think the way they do. Whether or not you consider it valid is up to you, and that’s not the point if this post. Some wires are crossed somewhere and that is causing transgender people to feel the way they do. So how is that not a mental illness?
Because there's nothing to correct. There's nothing inherently wrong with being born in the wrong body. It's psychologically accepted that sometimes a wire gets crossed and you feel you're living in the wrong body and there's nothing we can do to fix that. The mental illness comes from the pain and suffering and dysphoria that living in the wrong body causes.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only thing wrong is the way they are treated by the society from an early age. From interactions with parents, with fellow children, to teenagehood, to adulthood, they are often rejected and laughed at, making their existence difficult to bear or making them have to fake their identity. That's why they're unhappy. If the society accepted them and gave them all the support and resources that they needed, there would be no problem.
Being trans causes mental illness. It causes gender dysphoria, which is still considered a mental illness. While acceptance of the treatment is making social strides, there isn't much debate about whether trans people experience mental distress. We do. It sucks. Try not to hate us for expressing ourselves the way we want and modifying our bodies the way we want. I don't understand people who get gauges in their ears, but I don't discriminate against them for it. (Sorry to call out all you gauge wearers. I just can't imagine having a hole that large in my ear.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:23:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to discrimate against you, but I have an issue with what you said. You said "being trans causes mental illness" but how can you not say that being trans is mental illness? How can anorexia or body dysmorphia be a mental illness, but thinking you are somehow an entirely different gender isn't? That's where I have issue, that is where I draw the line. It's a mental illness in my eyes, and we are indulging it, rather than treating it. I would never tell someone who is schizophrenic "yes those voices telling you to do bad things are real and you should listen to them" or that the clock talking to him is real. No, you treat that person with medicine. We need to do the same with trans. And I'll never settle for less than that, ever. There will never be anything that will change my mind. And it isn't coming from a place of hate. It's because I truly believe it's the best way to help people.
Well it's cool that you have an opinion and all, but what I'm saying isn't my opinion. It's the definition of dysphoria from the people who study mental health. When you have your degree and have studied the topic, your opinion might be valid and relevant.
It's also not a delusion the way the other mental health issues you described are. All of those mental health issues come with a lack of recognition of reality. Trans people recognize reality the way it is, which is why they want to change it. If we were delusional we would have no urge to make changes because we would already believe ourselves to be the sex we are transitioning to. Some trans people have other mental health issue too, such as body dysmorphia, etc. But being trans itself isn't mental health issue. It's a human variant like being gay. You can be trans and have associated mental health issues at all (such as after transition when the dysphoria is relieved).
We do treat trans people with medicine. Giving trans people hormones and surgery (is varying degrees) is currently the best available treatment. It helps us feel comfortable in our bodies an. They have tried treating trans people in various other ways, but none are as successful.
Not to be political, but how literally anyone on our planet can look at Donald Trump and all his history and think he is even respectable as a person or politician. A lot of people even believe he was literally chosen by God himself to lead our country and reestablish Christianity.
I’m not always the brightest person so a lot of things to me doesn’t make sense. But I feel like something I’ll probably never understand is why my father sees gay people so revolting. He says he’s fine with them but if they show up on TV he yells at it and calls it disgusting. I’m the show “I’m Not ok with this” (if you want to watch it with no spoilers please skip this) but what happens is the main character kisses a female friend after having a boy being interested in her. I saw him legitimately stand up and just yell at the TV over it. He’s called it disgusting a multitude of times even though he has a gay cousin that he was on good terms with. Maybe it’s a cultural thing, or the way he was raised, but either way he’s not even religious so I really don’t know why he’s like that.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don't see the art and creativity in chess. Like seriously no one, really no one wanted to play with me from my family except my grandfathers, after I took interest in the game. It's quite sad honestly how much there is in a game made in the past
How there are people who still believe Donald Trump is doing a good job as President of the United States.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women calling their partner daddy. It’s creepy. STOP.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Transphobes and Homophobes still exist.
My very religious grandma has managed to accept me, a bisexual girl, and she also managed to accept that her own daughter is a lesbian, so My ReLiGiOn isn't an excuse
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm saying that no one has to agree with what you believe for example someone doesn't have to agree with homosexuality but they must be civil and not cause any harm etc etc.
One night stands.
I mean, I love sex, sex is awesome, but having sex with someone you barely know with no relationship or affection in the first place? Just don’t get it. (Literally and figuratively!)
It’s about the opposite of comfort and affection. It’s about the thrill and the discovery and this interesting dynamic created when you know you’ll never see them again. It’s something new and shiny. Plus sex and love are not equated for everyone.
I see it as using another human being as your sexual toy and then throwing them away, that’s kinda dickish.
Maybe it’s just my values but I can’t be alone in the opinion that it makes no sense/is wrong?
But you’re not just using them, they’re using you too. It’s an equal and mutual thing, no one is being a dick to anyone (if it’s done right). It’s not a great romance where someone is having their heart broken horribly at the end, it is people using each other to get what they want through mutual agreement and benefit.
I’m not saying that viewing sex as something meaningful is wrong, but that’s just one viewpoint. Other people see sex as a physical thing, no different then helping a friend move. Is it better with a connection? It definitely can be, but it can also be pretty damn great with a stranger too.
Biologist here. Quick run-down from a purely genetic perspective:
Two important things you may not know about genetics:
1) Chromosomes are humongously large pieces of DNA. They break off and get re-arranged all the time.
2) Genes are not just active or inactive, but have a sliding scale of activity, called "expression level".
So from that alone follows:
Your family may have an X-Gene that a few generations back switched an arm with a Y gene. So your mom may not actually be an "XX" genotype, but an "7/8th X and 1/8th Y"-Genotype. Making her, on a purely genetic basis, something one might consider "1/16th male" (Because there are two X-chromosomes, and one of them has our hypothetical 1/8th male-mutation).
There may also be a case where a single gene jumps to another Chromosome. Imagine that gene being something relevant to sex like SOX2 ("Sex-determining region box 2").
Expression level is a whole other bag of tricks. Your brother may have the exact same Y-gene as you, but twice the gene expression - making him twice as male, I guess. He may also have an X-chromosome with half the gene-expression as yours; In combination that brings us to a 4x "maleness factor difference" (I just made that up) between the two of you.
This is just meant to be some food for thought. It is highly simplified (like, ELI3-level simplified) and not an accurate representation of how genetics work, but these are real, existing, and measurable effects of how genetic expression differs between individuals.
Hi, I'm studing biology as well! I also like to take a look at things from a purely scientific perspective. That being said, I understand your explanation and it all makes sense.
However, my argument is that it doesn't make sense to list all the infinite possibilities for gender. It's much easier and makes more sense to simply categorize all these genetic differences into two (or three (intersex)) genders: male and female. So yes... I mean TECHNICALLY not everything here is labelled black and white, but that's just not my argument.
I'm talking about people who haven't studied genetics once in their lifetime, who know nothing about science, just making bold claims that there are thousands of scientifically proven genders... just as distinct as male and female.
But if you can understand that the expression of physical sexual characteristics is more nuanced than “you’re one or the other,” why doesn’t it make sense to list all the possibilities? As humans we categorize things down to incredible detail, many of which are way more trivial than sex. Think about how many colors we individualize, or specific breeds of dogs, for example.
That's true. Makes sense to an extent. It's just that it's obviously easier to see the clear differences between a German shepard and a golden retriever, or red from purple. It wouldn't make sense to categorize everyone based on how much their X chromosome is expressed, or Y chromosome. I can't just look at someone and say, hey, you're exactly 26.2% more male than me!
So yes, I understand your POV and the science behind the genetics, but I don't see the point in why we MUST differentiate between all the gender expressions. What's wrong with just using male or female?
Gender does not equal physical sex, but the same spectrum applies. Some people don’t feel 100 percent male or female. Or they don’t feel one way all the time. Why shouldn’t they describe what their true experience is?
I just don't get why they assume what they're feeling is neither male nor female. Who even gets to decide what either gender is supposed to feel like?
It's okay to be different and feel different from others. You can still categorize as one of the two, why make up an "infinite" number? It just messes everything up and there is no clear answer in the end.
Sports, for example. A man, who is clearly a man, can identify as being a female, and dominate in female sports because of natural biological advantages. And no one can stop them, or else they're being "homophobic" or a "bigot". I just don't see a reason why people worry about gender too much in the first place.
You're allowed to feel whatever you want... but why make the system so much more complicated than it needs to be?
Sports specifically is a sticky one, and I don’t think there is a good answer right now for addressing transgender athletes. I agree that the way it’s being handled now is very unfair.
Do you have any other examples? People think about gender because it has an enormous impact on your social life and how you express yourself. In just about everything outside of sports, anything where your physical strength doesn’t matter, why should people not express themselves fully?
Why do you get to decide how complex this system “needs to be?”
Well, that certainly wasn't your argument in your original comment. Whatever "makes sense to list" is purely a matter of opinion. Have fun debating that, but please don't go around claiming that you don't understand how people could possibly hold that view when in fact, you perfectly understand those reasons.
Fact is that probably among the almost 9 billion people on this planet, there are not even two that are exactly as biologically male or female as the other. Whether or not it makes sense to change the categories into which we classically group people is besides the point when discussion whether or not biologically separate genders exist: They definitely do.
Wait. You haven't seen anyone say that before? I wish I lived where you lived. I don't think I need to scroll through IG reddit or YT to try and prove common sense for someone I don't even know on the internet.
How about YOU do that instead of making me do the work
Your entire argument is based on the idea that people are saying there's a thousand genders. I asked you for an example, and you failed to provide one.
I hope you realize you're just making yourself look foolish right now.. You still have been unable to give a single example of your claim. The way the burden of proof works, that means you are incorrect.
[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 18:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As bad as it sounds, I wish it was as simple as it used to be. I understand why it isn't now, people are more honest with themselves and society (most of it) is much more accepting of a dude fuckin some other dude.
[deleted] · -28 points · Posted at 19:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender is a social construct and sex is a biological fact. Please learn the difference.
Also, who said there are "thousands of real scientifically proven genders/sex"? Thousands, really?
I have never heard a single person (even those in the LGBTQ community) say there are thousands of SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN genders. Gender is not science-based, it is societal-based. So that in itself doesn't make sense.
I know right?! It doesn't make sense at all? But that's all I hear from the community! I could never grasp how they could say that they are actually scientifically proven.
I don't think anyone is saying that lol. If they are, it doesn't make sense. My point is, just know that gender and sex are not the same thing. There are an indefinite number of genders, though.
That's really good to know. Thanks! It's just that I've heard it a lot around the internet and in person. Can't really tell if you're joking or not. Cheers!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do you even care if there are “thousands of different genders/sex” if it makes someone genuinely happy to identify as one of them who the fuck are you to say whether or not they’re allowed to be?
So. If a 67 year old man with brown hair and size 6 feet claims to identify as a 23 year old woman with blonde hair and size 4 feet.... but it makes him "genuinely happy", are you just going to accept that? If they can be whatever they want to be?
I'm an 18 year old Korean. Am I allowed to just identify as 12 year old Brazilian? Like what?
Well, there's a difference between opinions and facts. Opinions can change, facts canNOT. Telling me that there are an infinite number of genders is just breaking facts. You can't just do that lol.
And no, I don't think you'd be "more than happy" to inform me about it. Stop lyin.
i’m not “more than happy” to tell you about how gender dysphoria works because you obviously have your head too far up your ass to even attempt to listen to what i’m saying, also your argument about facts and opinions is bullshit because there are literal documented scientific proof that there are more than 2 genders.
obviously you think that 3rd grade biology is the only biology that counts and that’s sad. i hope one day you can stop being a bigoted cunt, but it seems that’ll never happen.
also, what facts even are there that there aren’t multiple genders?
great job entirely ignoring what i said and then attempting to insult me for being pissed off at the fact you’re saying i don’t exist.
also before you even ask, i’m nonbinary
also, they don’t teach you algebra in 3rd grade either, also most schools don’t want to touch on transgender studies because of bigotry. read what i sent and actually understand how gender works.
Notice how the link you sent is a blog post. Not a real article. Sorry you think that I'm a bigot and you can't handle the fact that there are people out there who have different opinions. Have a nice day!
Man there are ways of trying to convey a point without being an asshat. If you go into a discussion or argument without considering that the other side has a reason for believing the things that they do you are setting yourself up to be ignored.
Thanks for teaching yourself a lesson. Try to understand me before being an asshole about it okay buddy? You need to at least listen to the other side and try to understand rather than being so stubborn about your own idea.
They said that winning an argument against a smart person is difficult but achievable, but winning an argument against someone dumb is impossible.
There is no way I'm coming out of here with my point across. So save yourself some time and have a nice day.
I was never arguing for or against the argument to begin with. I simply suggested that if your aim in an argument is to actually bring somebody to your way of thinking, saying things like "And please don't tell me those are different again, I had a laugh attack the last time." does nothing to advance your position in the debate. All it does is turn people who are open minded away from your position....because you're an asshole.
I don't think that I have a history of calling a lot of people on the internet assholes. And in a perfect world, I would gain an internet where people share ideas and debate philosophies in a more genuine way as opposed to mud slinging and making fun of people for having different beliefs than ones self.
And I don't have a history of people calling me any bad names. I get along with 99% of people just fine.
I proposed a simple observation I've made over the years (people think there are thousands of genders), and I proposed a personal opinion. And here you are just shitting on me.
Didn't you just say you want an internet where people aren't making fun of other people for having different beliefs?
You stated an opinion, when somebody disagreed you laughed at them and dismissed their opinion as irrelevant. To me that is not okay. I'm sure you do get along with 99% of people you interact with and I'm sure your a fine enough person. But in this case, I think that your opinion was overshadowed by your conduct.
I just wanted to share with Reddit about something I "genuinely do not understand", and I'm being flooded with downvotes and angry people responding to me.
I've had this conversation 20 times already with triggered Redditors who can't grasp the idea that there are people out there with different opinions than their own. So sure. I'll just say sure.
I understand that there are people with different opinions than me, and I’m fine with it. But the difference between sex and gender isn’t my opinion, it’s a fact.
A fact for those on the left, an opinion for those on the right. I think we should respect both ends of the spectrum, rather than pushing for a one-way conversation.
It’s funny, because earlier you said something about, “triggered Redditors who can't grasp the idea that there are people out there with different opinions than their own” but you can’t even seem to accept a scientific fact.
You're lonely aren't you? Why are you pushing so hard? Do you have no one else to talk to? I know I can't change your stubborn mind's opinion, so I'll just stop here. Go spend time with your family or something.
I think it's the other way around... people on the left just LOVE fighting for emotions and betray modern science all together. But yes. I completely agree with you that science isn't based on opinion.
Do you know how Wikipedia works? It's a compilation of academic articles, all of which are referenced Below. Every single claim is cited. Just because righties hate facts doesn't mean Wikipedia is unreliable for broad information.
Like, literally just go to "references" and you have over 100 academic sources saying the same thing.
As I said on another post, who cares? Ok, there’s 2 genders, if that’s what you believe that’s fine. But if a man wants to dress up like a woman, why do you care at all? Let people do what they want as long as it doesn’t harm other people.
I never said I cared if a man wants to dress up like a woman. Why did you just make that assumption? If that's what he wants to do, who am I to stop him? But he's crossing a line if he says he's not a man.
A man dressed up as a woman. Nothing wrong with that.
A man dressed up as a woman claiming that he IS a woman. There's something wrong with that.
Well that’s exactly what I meant. Sorry I didn’t phrase it exactly right. Anyways what’s the problem with that? Why is it “crossing a line”. Once again, if you’re not hurting anybody, you can do whatever you want and call yourself whatever you want.
Exnaut · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, that man would obviously have gender dysphoria and if it's severe enough, the only way to deal with that is to transition. So
Lets say you are on an island with 4 other people and there's enough food for 4 people. You need to find something in common with 3 of the people so that you establish your spot in the 4 that get food and in doing this you create "the other." He isn't like us. He doesn't deserve our food. Due to this characteristic are we sure he even qualifies as human.
Jagob5 · 4 points · Posted at 19:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to sort by controversial to find this? I think everyone should agree.
If you need a car to haul around people or things there are much better and cheaper options. If you need a truck for work then just get a used one you don’t have to worry about getting beat up.
I get it that some people use these as a status symbol but even that makes no sense to me. I have co workers who have them and these people don’t seem to make any other high class choices. They shop at dollar stores and tell each other where to find low gas prices all the time. Why not get a cheaper, more efficient car and you can take nice vacations instead?
Their monthly payments are insanely high. I’m the kind of guy who buys a used car outright, I’ve never had a monthly car payment. I don’t understand why they can’t put two and two together and see that this rapidly depreciating, inefficient, underutilized vehicle is dragging them down. They would have so much extra money and be happier without it. They may as well buy an elephant for their front yard, it would be just as expensive and useless but at least that would impress me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it comes down to financial illiteracy. Most people, in general, do not know how to manage their money after receiving it or building and sticking to a basic budget. They do not want to feel restricted in accessing their own money or have the willpower or motivation to plan their own financial management. It is a widespread problem as most Americans live paycheck to paycheck with less than half would have difficulties coming up to pay for a $400 emergency bill. That is why the car industry emphasize less on the price of the vehicle and instead focused on the monthly payment instead. I suggest listening to Dave Ramsey and the ridiculous callers he would receive seeking financial help. He has excellent tips on getting people to get their savings in order, but he has terrible investment advice.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Misunderstanding of finance combined with trying to fit in and feel better about yourself in any way you can.
-People who treat sex like it's an actual currency and are starved for it
-Treating someone who's trying to stop an argument as someone who disgaree's with you
-People who hate LGBT+ people for reasons that aren't religious (I don't agree with the religious reasoning either, but they can at least claim the whole being brainwashed thing)
-Why swearing is considered to be such a bad thing. Especially when there sre no children around.
-Why Hitler is considered to be the evilest person who ever lived. I'm sure there are way worse people who we've never even heard of.
-People who act as though certain forms of entertainment are either the best or worst things on the planet and defend that statement with their lives. Eg: Kpop is the absolute worst thing on the planet and deserves to burn in eternal hell forever. Or: If you don't like Kpop you're racist. Stan Loona or die skskskskskfjjqiowofofjdnaoasos
-People who treat vegimite like it's nutella. You ever so lightly spread it over the top. Get a small little line of vegimite on the end of your knife that's as long as let's say the width of your thumb and lightly spread it across some very buttered-up golden toast to neutralise the yeastiness.
Why "ordinary" people defend a electoral college/first-past-the-post political system.
For example, as the US political system is constructed today, you can in theory win with only 22% of the popular vote. How can anyone defend this? Representation can be given in other ways, much better ways.
If your country claims to be a democratic one, you should have popular votes.
Explain to me why, constitutionally, it’s somehow right that my vote is not as worthy as a vote from the someone in the Midwest simply because densely-populated regions are more likely to vote progressively than sparsely-populated regions and for some reason we have to give both political ideologies a fair shot whether they are the majority or not? Tell me why I am less of a citizen than someone in other parts of the country and I get less of a voice in our electoral process?
It’s not about being ‘less of a citizen’, it’s the idea that simply the popular vote alone is not the only important factor in a huge country. Otherwise the people in a handful of popular areas make ALL the decisions for everybody - but they have no idea how the rest of the country actually lives, or what people in a completely different situation need. And the people in those places would have effectively NO say in anything.
No system is ever going to be perfect and make everybody happy, but I think it’s a decent compromise to make sure every part of the nation has a say.
They might benefit from it now, but that doesn't mean they always will. Does it have to be unfavorbale for them in one election to change their mind? Don't they care about the other voters?
I never want a party that I'm voting for winning just because the system helped them win, that's not fair. In a democracy every vote should be equally valued.
The US is a REPRESENTATIVE REPUBLIC. It is a FORM of democracy, but it isn't a DIRECT Democracy. We ELECT people to make the decisions. In fact the electoral college was to elect the delegates who would vote for the State. They weren't even bound by the vote of the State. Legally they still don't have to, that's why some States want to make a compact where they will vote with teh popular vote no matter how the State voted.
it's a complicated system so it won't be changed that easily
exoalo · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The voting compact would hit 270 with Texas joining. It is that simple
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I agree that it is time to move to the national popular vote it is easy to understand the existence and persistence of the electoral college if you look at the history of the US. I mean it’s right in our name, we are a federation of united “states”, meaning the power structure, although always firmly situated at the top in a federation (as opposed to a confederation), is still tiered. When forming the government as we see it today, in order to convince all the states to join, there had to be a compromise that ensured the smaller states would have their fare share of efficacy, which eventually lead to, in addition to our bicameral legislature, an election system that gave greater weight to smaller states. Without it, they worried, only the largest states would decide the election. Since then there has been a constant struggle of states rights versus federal rights, and the concept of a national popular vote was made a harder sell for the exact reason it is now sensible, the urbanization of America. Now, under a NPV, indeed population centers would be the deciding factor in nationwide elections, however, with the disparity between the urban and rural populations, it is something smaller states would never ratify.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard the argent that the electoral college keeps major cities like LA or NYC from controlling the nations vote. But I dont know a whole lot about politics so...
One of the arguments for the electoral college is that it is necessary for the stability of the nation to prevent states with smaller populations from being marginalized and seceding.
Must have been good 3 years if you accumulated in those so much that she got $500k out of it.
Otherwise chunk of it is premarital asset and unless you were represented by joe the janitor, it should have been easy to keep it when marriage lasted 3 years.
Unless you were living together for quite a more years before marriage your story is very unlikely... or you are forgetting kids that will make use of those money too. Or again the joe the janitor.
People who continue to support Trump. How much evidence do you need? Could he kill your family member in front of you and still find a reason to justify it?
[deleted] · 40 points · Posted at 17:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, i get the appeal when the Dems are putting out people like Hillary and Biden
I’m very happy with his accomplishments. His political philosophy largely agrees with mine.
I find most criticisms against him to be baseless. Like calling him racist because he wants illegal immigration stopped. That is not a racist position whether you agree with it or not. Controlling borders is historically normal and even currently done by all countries. And he has no personal history of racist speech or actions.
I suppose when he baselessly accused the Central Park 5 and they were exonerated and he still thought they did it was just him being a silly fun loving guy, huh? You people will justify anything
His political philosophy largely agrees with mine.
Which political philosophy is that, exactly? This is an honest question. I have literally no idea what Trump stands for except "Global Warming is a Hoax" and "no immigrants". On every other issue I've even remotely followed, he's made some outrageous claim one day and then never followed up on it.
He seems to be liberal, except he also seems to want a police state. He seems to be pro free markets, except he also wants stimulus packets and tax-gifts of a ridiculous size. I can not find a red line at all in his views except that it's very important for him to stress how great and competent he is, even when talking about things he obviously has very little idea of, like anything related to science.
I could quote stupid quotes by any public figure. I don’t think he is stupid. Obama for example had well documented slips of the tongue. I don’t think that meant he was stupid.
Every president has made the occasional bizarre error. Obama did it. Clinton did it. Etc. It’s not the usual for any of them and I don’t think any of them are mentally incompetent.
I do think Biden is but that’s because his gaffes are routine. He is the one I think is mentally compromised, probably dementia.
I am pleased with his foreign relations in general. He stands up for America and handles tyrants well. He has gotten Americans and others released from torturing regimes.
I love his defense of religious liberty.
I think his recognition of Jerusalem was very brave and wise.
I think he defines America’s enemies well and fight them.
I think he is scrupulously honest and has integrity.
I love how he fights back against personal attacks instead of just accepting them.
His trade deals have been fantastic.
His decrease in unnecessary and job killing regulations has been so welcome and helped so many.
I appreciate his tax reform.
His judicial appointments have been stellar.
I could go on. I think he’s been great. Way better than I dared hope.
You were good until you said honesty and integrity. Those are two things that i never thought i would hear someone use to describe Trump.
I do agree with the defense of the country and mostly how he has handled foreign threats. I just wish he would stop the mindless name calling when he gets defensive.
Trade deals could be argued. Specifically his tariffs that have been proven to ha e been passed to the American people in the form of price hikes.
His appointments have been garbage. He continues to hire the “best people” for the job only to fire them later on.
The roads and ports that corporations use to transport supplies and products are not cheap. The workforce corporations employ are educated in schools that are not cheap. Stable laws require a population that is not in revolt which requires loyalty of the masses which is not cheap. International supply chains require international law which requires a strong military which is not cheap.
The wealthy profit off the wealth of the nation and the expenditures of the government. No corporation is an island. We live in a society. Taxes are the price of that society. Not paying taxes makes the wealthy free riders parasitizing the wealth of society until they are kicked out/move on to another rotting corpse of a nation to feast on.
Q.E.D. The people have the right to tax the wealthy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A small increase in taxes on the top 0.1% alone could do so much good for the people who are struggling by enabling them to be much more productive members of society
Can you do the math on this and post it here please?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:58:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Haha yeah, I had to make a comment to myself to figure out what I fucked up.
OK, so 23% isn't lower than much of the working class. We need to define how much the "working class" makes in the first place.
Let's go with $40,126. Use the calculator here to see what their federal tax rate would be https://smartasset.com/taxes/income-taxes. Come back and tell me what percentage it is.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No, check out "Table 1. Summary of Federal Income Tax Data, 2017".
However what you pointed out is also important - the top 50% of America is basically paying for the benefits of the bottom 50%.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The majority of them have to do with unemployment. Like 6.7 million jobs were created as of January 2020, more Americans are employed than ever before, which doesn't take into account that there's more Americans, I don't know the death and birth rates for America under this president compared to other presidencies, something mandatory about Obamacare was removed, which I know definitely helped me and my family. I know that coronavirus definitely has thrown a wrench into all of this, but I don't think anybody accounted for this to happen, if they did, they need to be tried for crimes against humanity. Whether you think he's handled the pandemic well, don't tell me. I don't care. While he has had accomplishments, he has also had his failures, as we all have.
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 21:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, if you read through this whole thing, I said that the coronavirus has thrown a wrench into everything.
Controlling borders is normal, yes. However this scale of the deportation of undocumented people, the expansion and support of a special police force whose sole purpose is to hunt and detain undocumented people, and the fact that these deportations disproportionately affect POC all suggest that Trump's border policy isn't about security.
The staggering majority of those detainees posed no threat to America; most were not "bringing drugs, bringing crime, [or] rapists". In fact, undocumented people are largely seeking the same opportunities for a better life for themselves and family that the rest of us are.
The biggest counterargument I hear is "They're not allowed to be here, so we should kick them out." If legal migration were viable, then undocumented status wouldn't be an issue. However, between the President's crackdown on legal immigration and the increased deportation raids, there isn't a viable way for these people to legally integrate into American society, and the President has made it his mission to kick these people out rather than helping these Americans in all but name become citizens.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 20:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The biggest counterargument I hear is "They're not allowed to be here, so we should kick them out." If legal migration were viable, then undocumented status wouldn't be an issue.
Soooo....'if it wasn't against the law, then they wouldn't be breaking the law'? Doesn't that apply to EVERY law?
Undocumented status wouldn't be an issue for these people under a viable immigration system because the system would allow these innocent people to enter the country legally. These people would live their lives the same way they do now, the only difference being that they won't be arbitrarily pursued by ICE.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:06:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmmm, if there were only a way for people to move to the States legally. Man, they could probably even let in at least like a million a year! Sure wish someone would invent that system...
It's not just about stopping crime and drugs, it's about not losing our vote.
Let me explain: when you look at racial voting demographics, whites are generally split down the middle between democrats and republicans; maybe they skew right a bit more. This does not hold true of almost any minority group in America. This, despite both political parties bending over backwards to try to appeal to their interests. When I went to a Trump rally everyone sitting behind him was holding a "Latinos for Trump" sign. Despite this, minorities vote for Democrats at rates similar to that of dictators. Even if they claim to hold conservative opinions.
Democrats are completely aware of this. The main reason they want more immigration is specifically because it will allow them to win more elections. Who needs to campaign when minorities will automatically vote for you?
Therefore, if we don't deport every single person here illegally and actually block off immigration for a long while, republicans will never be elected again and white votes will literally not count, because we don't vote along racial lines like minorities do.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, this is literally why people know most of the shit the MSM says is bullcrap. This has been debunked since forever and people like you still believe it. And it's the same for every single thing they say about him.
"California's law provides safe harbor to some of the most vicious and violent offenders on Earth, like MS-13 gang members putting innocent men, women, and children at the mercy of these sadistic criminals,"
Pretty sure he was referencing the awful gangs that report to awful cartels.
He also stated that mexico is sending all their rapist, drug dealers, and murderers when most immigrants are none of those. Generalizing a group of people because some people are like that is racist
He said, "Some of which I assume are good people," in the same paragraph. He's an idiot and there's way more he can be called out for. But I don't think this is one.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:25:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He said, "Some of which I assume are good people," in the same paragraph.
"I'm no racist but..." is literally a meme because it's something so obviously racist but still so very common.
Same with the "some of my best freinds are mexican/chinese/whathaveyou"-defense. Those are not conflicting statements or a sign of a nuanced view, they are smoke-screens meant to add a layer of deniability to statements that very obviously display racist thinking.
I see, everything that goes against your point is a smokescreen, but everything that fits into your worldview is obviously the truth...
You are still straw manning, saying ""Some of which I assume are good people," is in no way similar to saying "I'm" no racist, or the "friend" defense.
You're arguing against an imaginary set of statements that doesn't actually exist.
fskoti · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hail Black Phillip! Man I wish Patrice was around to talk about current events.
I voted for Trump and will probably vote for him again. I'll give you my reasoning in a nutshell.
Several of his stances align with my own. Abortion, for instance. Also, he seemed/seems to be the better of the candidates. He's an ass, but he's not a well trained and polished politician. Should he stop tweeting? Absolutely.
Hillary Clinton is a joke. I was told that I was a bad woman because I didn't vote for her. They said it was time for a woman president. No, it's time for a competent president. She was the shadiest candidate. People die around her when they oppose her, the emails, etc. She had stances that I could not agree with. She literally said that she supported abortion up to birth. That's what I would consider murder.
Biden is a joke. He's a creep. Whether or not he's a pedophile or predator is not for me to say, but he clearly doesn't understand/respect personal boundaries of women and children. He stutters and can't seem to put together a comprehensible sentence. He keeps trying to use his time as VP under Obama as a leg up. I've heard him repeatedly refer to Obama Care as the Obama-Biden Healthcare Reform. Obama has yet to publicly endorse him. That says something to me. I did not vote for Obama, but I respect him and the time he spent in office. Why isn't he endorsing his former right hand man?
Your biggest statements here seem to be that you dislike the alternative, less emphasis on how you support Trump.
Am I accurate? If so, no shame, Americans have been picking the "least bad" candidate since I've been alive.
Seems very common, also, that Trump supporters very quickly attack Clinton or Biden. Honest question, might it be that you just dislike the alternatives more than you like Trump?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:22:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true for me, but to an extent.
I support many Republican stances on issues (Gun rights, taxes, immigration, smaller government, etc). But when it comes to Democrats, most of their ideas are just too insane and not possible for me. The only things I can really agree with them on are LGBT rights, taking money out of politics, and climate change.
I've been saying this for a while, but if Democrats supported the 2nd amendment and stronger border security (and knock off a bunch of other stupid comments), they'd win every election.
The shiniest of two turds is one aspect. However, I tend to have conservative values. Trump's platform aligns more closely with my beliefs than that of most Democrats. I agree with what he's been doing with the economy. I have been saying for a very long time that we need to put the US first. Our people need our help. We need to get back to producing here, buying American, etc. I appreciate many of his policies. Obama Care was a joke. My premiums skyrocketed for the same coverage because my family was helping cover others.. I welcomed its reversal. Those are just a couple of examples.
I would have voted Sanders had Hillary not, somehow, stolen that nomination. Had Sanders been the nominee for the Dems this year, however, I would have stuck with Trump.
I feel that the Democrat platform has turned into simply being Anti-Trump. If Trump says or does anything, then it must be wrong. The US has one of the lower infection rates of COVID 19 per capita. People blamed Trump for closing borders, testing, not testing, getting supplies out, not getting enough supplies out, not having a treatment quickly enough, etc. He sent out a tweet concerning a promising treatment and some dumb asses drank fish tank cleaner and were hospitalized because "Trump told them to." Trump didn't tell anyone to drink something they picked up at Petco. Democrats are quick to jump on things like that though. "Trump should have known better." No, adults should know better than to consume something that is clearly marked as not for human consumption.
Biden is a joke. He's a creep. Whether or not he's a pedophile or predator is not for me to say, but he clearly doesn't understand/respect personal boundaries of women and children.
And "Grab 'em by the pussy" Trump isn't a creep that fits that exact scenario as well?
He stutters and can't seem to put together a comprehensible sentence.
And the word salad that Trump spews is better? He constantly mispronounces words and sounds like he's reading his speeches for the first time while he's giving them. You can tell when he reads something, then stops and riffs on it "Oh, I guess that's a thing we're doing now" because he had no idea what he was about to say.
He keeps trying to use his time as VP under Obama as a leg up. I've heard him repeatedly refer to Obama Care as the Obama-Biden Healthcare Reform. Obama has yet to publicly endorse him. That says something to me. I did not vote for Obama, but I respect him and the time he spent in office. Why isn't he endorsing his former right hand man?
I can see Obama's desire to stay out of the primary. Let the candidates separate themselves and not try to force public opinion before the votes.
That being said, Biden's "Vote for me because Obama" tactic is a little annoying.
Biden is more than a little annoying, and it really shows his voters intelligence that they support him because he is riding Obama's coattails. How anyone can support Biden is beyond me, but it does seem to be because they despise Trump and make excuses for him. But, the thing is that is exactly what Trump supporters do. Excuse all of his behavior and are okay with him being a lackluster person, much less president. I supported Trump over Hillary, but I can no longer support him. He is just as corrupt as everything he said he was going to fight against, and equally as evil. The biggest turning point for me is I realized that if Trump was my boss at work, I would not want to work for him. If you disagree with him, he fires you. He throws everyone under the boat, he is either the Savior or the victim, never the solution, and the lies and demeanor that he spews are unfathomable. He is a boss, he is not a leader. And he's done about as good running this country as a crappy mid-level manager.
Oh yes because Allegations = Facts, That's not how that works m8
RevTom · 1 points · Posted at 14:01:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact is 20+ women accused him of sexual assault, not that he did it. The post I replied to tried to play that off as consensual. The accusations prove it was not.
I don’t pick and choose facts. But allegations aren’t facts. We saw the same thing with Kavanaugh. A bunch of accusations, but later after he won the seat multiple accusers came out and said their accusation wasn’t legitimate. The allegations were obviously political attacks trying to prevent him from being elected.
You shouldn’t judge people based on allegations that are never confirmed or taken to court because they are fake. Whether it be Kavanaugh, Trump or Biden.
RevTom · 1 points · Posted at 14:02:31 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact is 20+ women accused him of sexual assault, not that he did it. You tried to play that off as consensual. The accusations prove it was not.
You don't have any American values and you support a fucking blatant criminal who doesn't even give a single fuck about America. It's the most obvious thing I'm the world and you either need education or mental help because you're so fucking gullible.
Says the person who would rather swear at a stranger on the internet than have a civilized discussion simply because their views are different. But, yeah, my values are skewed.
I look at the world from as many points of view as possible, and make up my own mind. I often don't have enough time to look into things as thoroughly as I'd like because, as with many people these days, I'm busy. I've got 4 kids ages 7, 5, 3, and 1. Plus I'm due with our last kiddo on Halloween. With schools shut down here, I'm juggling it all while homeschooling two very different learners, plus trying to keep up pre-k learning with my 3 year old. Between family life and trying to keep up with the house, yard, and taking care of myself, I don't always have the time to search for other media outlets that give differing perspectives. I'd be more than happy to try something new if you have any suggestions 😊
For daily news I always recommend PBS Newshour. It's the least biased news report IMO. I think people should completely avoid all cable news/infotainment networks. For online news I think apnews.com is the least biased, but I'm always on the lookout for new sources. In depth understanding of any issue takes time. Pick a topic that's always interested you and read a book or two on the issue authored by a reputable source. Over time you'll build a solid foundation for your beliefs.
I also have a busy life with two full time adults and a 14, 10, and 1 year old to raise, so I understand the difficulty in keeping properly informed. I find that once you are able to identify what your core values are and train yourself to filter all the absolute deluge of noise firehosed at you on a daily basis it gets easier to understand the world around you. Good luck and I wish you well.
I will see if I can access PBS Newshour online because we don't get PBS with our streaming service. Who needs PBS when you have 800 other stupid channels, I suppose? Thanks for the recommendations!
That's why I try to look at both and find the truth in the middle somewhere. I don't have a lot of time to read articles online, so I make due with what I have and what I have time for. I often find myself laughing at both ends of the political spectrum because their attempts to win people over with exaggerated stories is so obvious. What can you do?
People continue to support him for the same reason that people have an irrational hatred for him, it's people putting personality and emotion before political theory and ideology and then voting based on who they like better rather than who actually represents their ideology
Good mentality brah. "If they disagree with you, block them". Bravo.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I understand why people voted for him but not why they support him untill now. Xenophobes like him besides his wife is non-american and he employed illegal mexicans. High religious Christians like him besides he doesnt know shit about the bible and is divorced multiple times. He lied multiple times openly, mexico didnt paid for the wall, he spents million dollars on golfing, cut taxes for the rich and is reasponsible for the worst crisis managment of the history of crisis managment which lead to unnecessary deaths of thousend americans by Corona. He gives clearly no shit about the lifes of his people.
How is he a xenophobe? He is divorced but Christianity is about forgiving one for their sins so why wouldn't Christians like him. Obama lied openly all the time but you wouldn't know since the left leaning US media refused to ever cover any scandals in his administration. Obama spent millions on golfing and tens upon tens of millions for Hawaii vacations. You say he "is reasponsible for the worst crisis managment of the history of crisis managment" yet Dr. Fauci who is the NIAID Director said that we acted as early as we could and that Trump has never overruled him on any of his medical advice and has done what he suggested during this crisis. And if your saying he doesn't care about the lives of Americans you are delusional because he has been from the time he first started running all about the American people first.
[deleted] · -13 points · Posted at 19:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So inform me then.
raj96 · -14 points · Posted at 19:37:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the link you reply with to that statement? Fucking lol.
raj96 · -8 points · Posted at 20:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it’s evidence the champion of the counter movement is a dipshit that got clapped two times in a row
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So trump employing a few minorities disproves everything that he has done to divide us? 😂😂😂
raj96 · -4 points · Posted at 20:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s not one single link that would’ve shown you what you wanted so idk what you expect. But in general yeah, if you appoint someone of a certain race to do a difficult job, you probably don’t think poorly of that race
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im a different person.
what about all of the slave owners who “employed” the former slaves for dirt wages and basically treated them like slaves after slavery was abolished, they were racist but employed different races to work for them.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 21:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about them? What are you actually talking about?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“if you appoint someone of a certain race to do a difficult job, you probably don’t think poorly of that race”
I gave you an example that contradicts what you said
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to draw an analogy to the 1850s to prove a point go ahead. Explain to me how paying someone slave wages a half hour after slavery becomes abolished is the same as appointing a minority to a presidential cabinet. Actually, don’t. You sound stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That wasn’t the point. The point is that racists will still employ people who they’re racist against.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well your point sucked, I don’t know what more you expect from the man besides venmoing every black person his net worth. You’re unrealistic and a waste of time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that’s what most of you say when your arguments are proven wrong. Say some strawman or ad hominem argument and then insult my intelligence. “IM NOT WONG YOU WONG AND STOOPID GO CRY WIBTARD HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH SNOWFWAKE!!!!!”
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re accusing me of a straw man while you’re drawing analogies to post slavery America alright dude
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, because it’s an analogy. If it was a strawman it would be “you dont want me going outside and congregating? Why do you hate my birthday!?!”
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 23:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah a dumbshit anology that has no ties to the situation at hand. New challenge bucko. Name a REALISTIC situation in 2020 (gotcha bitch!) where someone that’s not held to any quotas or diversity requirements would voluntary want a black person doing a six figure job for them and having reporting directly to them...while still being racist
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That “challenge” is like a fallacy cake. An Argument from Ignorance with a mixture of an Existential Fallacy and a Nirvana Fallacy.
I could compare your “challenge” to Roger Ailes or Rush Limbaugh, but I dont want to waste 5 hours of my time googling things.
Your challenge is an insubstantial, moot claim. No matter what I could say you’d find some tiny point and say my entire argument is false. It’s an unrealistic challenge, you even prove that by saying “gotcha”.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 01:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bye poor person
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sore loser lmao, cant even take an L without insulting someone
raj96 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did I have to scroll so long to see this? I'm not American so it completely boggles my mind that this cretin is actually the leader of their country. Obama seemed like a fantastic human being and then they elected this shit stain? What the actual fuck?!?
I'm guessing very aggressive manipulation of reddit. Vote patterns on that very topic - outside of /r/politics, where mods are quite heavy handed - are nowhere close to reflecting reddit's main demographic opinions when you look at any sort of serious polling data.
In short, organized bullshit by people as useful to society as a metastatic tumor. It's not like these fuckers would keep tampering with social media to Facebook only.
There are quite a few genuine right leaning die-hard people, single issue voters and whatnot, but it's nowhere skewed as what we see in the main subreddits, espcially when you think about who the average American reddittor is. (cue downvotes)
The intent of 200 year old dead men is important historical but not in the least pragmatically at present.
The intent of 200 year old dead men lead to the most prosperous and free nation that has ever existed.
And yes, would you not?
No, I probably wouldn't lecture the architect of the federal reserve, the father of the constitution, and the director of early US foreign policy on the electoral college.
But I’ll bite; they were smarter than the average person from back then, sure, but now? The average smart person is leagues more informed about science, history and religion. And a smart poli-sci or philosophy undergrad would shit on them.
The American population in 1776 was 2.5mil, it’s now 300mil, with increased land to match. They would be utterly clueless on how to manage or even conceive of the current state of the US.
And two of those guys were slave owners, so I’d at least beat their asses for that.
But I’ll bite; they were smarter than the average person from back then, sure, but now? The average smart person is leagues more informed about science, history and religion. And a smart poli-sci or philosophy undergrad would shit on them.
No, the average person today absolutely does not know more about science, history or religion. You are proving to be a perfect example of that. And you have got to be fucking joking when you say an undergrad 'would shit on them'. Madison and Hamilton would eat Chomsky's lunch, let alone a college student's.
The American population in 1776 was 2.5mil, it’s now 300mil, with increased land to match. They would be utterly clueless on how to manage or even conceive of the current state of the US.
They cover that in the federalist papers.
And two of those guys were slave owners, so I’d at least beat their asses for that.
The original draft of the constitution abolished slavery in the US.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America is not a monolith, and our government is a living entity that can evolve and change. If I left it to asshats like you, the country I go to would probably get bombed anyway
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a pretty big assumption on your part. You see, I believe what George Washington said, and one of those things is to stay out of foreign affairs. I don't think "asshats like me" want to bomb any other country.
The one point that has stuck with me over the last few days, he claimed that all the Covid-19 tests were perfect, this is demonstrated not to be true, how can he just lie and people aren't calling him out on this.
Hear me out: as a straight man, myself, and I'm sure most others, cannot understand the idea of being attracted to men over women. I am NOT saying I disagree with it. People can do whatever they want to be happy. I just don't understand it, because I don't feel that way, and I have no clue what would make someone feel that way.
Exnaut · 26 points · Posted at 21:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm bi and I don't understand how others can only be into one gender.
As a gay guy, I fully understand this. Like I know some will probably misunderstand and just say "It's the same as being straigh", which I'm sure you get. It's just a weird thought for some. Like trying to imagine myself as striaght, and really put myself into that just feels... off. Like it's just not right. Not in a moral sense, but just for me, it doesn't fit.
It has to do with how're are brains develop, but those kind of attractions are something your born with. It's a mental map that we are born with that determines our basic instincts. It's normal and it comes in a spectrum.
There was a story of a botched circumcision of boy that the parents decided to raise like a girl because of it. Point is the boy believed that he was a girl the moment he was born. But throughout her life he felt off like he wasnt supposed to be a girl and was obviously attracted to other girls and what not.
Anyway the parents came clean and everything clicked, ended up having sex change back into a man then committed suicide. I think there was one other case if that happening but I don't know. His name was David Reimer.
Point sexual preference to genders is a born attribute and would be impossible to understand
However there are times when the "brain map" , I forgot the real name" can be damaged and have some pretty messed up results. Like people feeling like theyre legs don't belong on their body and purposely getting their legs amputated, self mutilation.
Could you imagine? Fuck no , I'm assuming.
Point is the brain develops normally on a spectrum and once in while you'll have men like women, women liking women, or women being born in men's bodies.
Point is the brain is a lot more fucking wierd and amazing then anyone can possibly imagine
I'm not an expert, just a dude from the internet that might've read up more then the average person
Subnets in networking. Been fucking with understanding those for over ten years now. The thing I'm trying to understand is probably not even being used anymore but damn.
Both to be honest. I know it's sort of like 'hey, we have this range of addresses but you can't use all of them, oh no no no. You have to listen to the subnet to know what the fuck the possibilities are.'
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 14:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From the UK here, we drive on the left hand side of the road. Whenever one of my American friends comes to visit, she always without fail remarks "You guys drive on the wrong side of the road!".
That's precisely what i don't understand. They have been proven wrong over and over and still remain adamant that vaccines cause autism. I believe that they even did some research themselves that proved that vaccines don't cause autism.
It's more complicated that than but those are key reasons (other reasons can be stuff like doctors messing up and them/a family member getting injured)
Some people - not me- believe he was coerced into admissions and accepting banishment instead of death. Human nature- we want to believe so bad - we’ll rationalize anything away.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is some link to a traumatic event triggering underlying issues. Shots are very traumatic to some children. I believe so many have had genuine experiences but not fully educated.
But not everyone that is "antivax" has had a traumatic experience or any experience for that matter. They just heard their friends say that vaccines contains poison such as mercury, formaldehyde, aborted fetuses etc. etc. And therefore they research it and find a site that says vaccines cause autism, then that theory gets proven wrong but they still believe it.
And i have full understanding that people have had traumatic experiences i just didn't understand how that made them tell all their friends about how vaccines cause autism and their only backup a site they found on Google page nr 43 that looks as sketchy as any website on page 43 would.
Sorry for my rant and bad grammar. English is my second language.
Maths is it like real or a huge thought experiment ... does it only exist in our heads or does it exist outside of it and what’s the base of it ... it is huge problem for me like I can understand algebra and shit on its own but not maths as whole I don’t get on what basis it stands
Morgz, N&A Productions, and Jake Paul. These guys have the IQ of the number of times I've went on a date (0) and they have more subscribers than a genuinely good YouTuber
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's funny is I'm terrible at math and I hear everyone talk about not understanding long division, but that's all I know how to do.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV advertisements net revenue for medicine. There are a number of hoops they must jump through:
They must spend a lot of money to get enough audience.
Spend money coming up with the advertisement.
Only a certain percentage of people actually need the medicine for their issues.
Only a certain percentage of those people will buy from their brand.
Some people with the disease may be turned off by the listed side effects.
I have never bought an object based on an advertisement so from personal experience it must be a slim number of people buying it.
The people that aren't doing the stay at home orders and stuff so we can beat COVID and get back to our lives. Also the people that are blaming the 5G towers for bringing COVID
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genetics. I've never understood the "hierarchy" IE how DNA , proteins, chromosomes etc are structured together. I missed two biology classes & have never caught up.
I understand that I can tell a computer to display an image.
I understand that a series of 0s and 1s will instruct the processor to send a signal to the display to display that image
I understand how the input devices work, I understand on a very basic level how the display works. What I don't understand is what goes on inside the processor on a physical level.
How any number raised to the power of 0 is 1. So n0 =1
I am very good at math, always have been. I had a small stroke three years ago, and had to relearn almost from scratch when I went back to school. I've taken college calculus at the same time I took statistics, and aced them both. I understand math. And I've googled this particular conundrum. I've read very watered down, very basic explanations. I've asked professors. I've definitely done everything I could to learn why it equals one. I just don't get it.
And you know what? I'm okay with that. I just memorize that little factoid for when I need it, and move on. I don't need to know why. But every once in a while, it haunts me.
Another thing to point out here is that n CANNOT be 0. 00 is indeterminate. A quick insight as to why this is is that, for some number n, n0 =1, but also 0n =0, so if you put the two together, you end up with two different answers of 0 and 1.
If n0 =1 weren't true for nonzero n, then the concept of counting itself would be fundamentally different than what we know of it today. Think about it: the far rightmost digit is the ones place in any given base b. Each next place immediately to the left of the previous is the bk+1 's place. The ones place is therefore thought of as the b0 's place.
Why Americans have residential areas and have to drive so far to get something as simple as groceries. Lived in different countries and all of them had shops and supermarkets on walking distance. Always. The fact you have to drive over 30 minutes just because you ran out of cookies blows my mind.
Why people keep voting against their own self interests and then get mad at the people trying to give them better lives because "it's different and wrong"
I studied it and did reasonably well in high school and college physics classes but that was over 50 years ago and I need to totally re-learn this topic since so much has changed.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the foot fetish
H0508 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone ate a bat (or whatever animal it was) and contracted covid? If it was something like a chicken, fine. Even a dog (i do not endorse eating dogs) but a bat?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are probably delicious. I imagine trapping enough bats to make a soup is pretty hard compared to e.g. buying (or farming, even) some chicken.
H0508 · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bats come into the rodent family, I’m sure you don’t find the idea of rat soup appealing to you. I hope that is.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bats aren’t rodents.
But I’ve eaten rabbit before, and that was pretty good.
H0508 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot genuinely understand the concept of Money. What is money/currency? How is it's value determined? Why is one country's currency stronger than other. What would the world look like if there was no money?
Money is a unit we use to define value. It´s value was once determined by gold, then there was a transition to coins made of metals(gold, silver and bronze), then the modern use i believe. These days, money has its value determined by it´s quantity in said country.there isn´t a world without money.,simply because we need to have something that we can use when trading items.
L9773 · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. I mean each country prints their own money. How knows how much to print? How do they regulate it? Where do countries get loans from. Where does the organization giving the loan get their money from?
Why do they do it or why does it hurt like no other pain?
I can't imagine hitting another guy in the balls because I know what the pain feels like and I wouldn't wish that on any other human.
The pain location is more that just in the balls. It's sorta in the abdomen. If bad enough, I can imagine a guy puking his guts out. It's just unlike any other pain, so it's probably impossible to describe to you.
And it doesn't take much trauma to make the pain come. Just a tap feels like you're dying. I guess it's the body's way of making you protect that thing that will continue the species. Yes, it's that big a deal.
So, sorry, this may not help. It's like no other pain so it's hard to relate to a female I guess. That's the best I can offer! :-)
Racism, misogyny, etc. It literally just doesnt make sense to me how people will see others as less than them based solely on skin color, ethnicity, gender, etc. I don't get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. The amp/volt analogy of water through a pipe only helps a little.
So to my understanding volts are like the... potential power of amps... sortve? Amps are the "all at once" work force behind the electrical charge? If volts are only a potential then why bother measuring if you have amps and resistance? Why not just record the units of input amps and output amps over a transmission medium? If you get shocked by 200,000 volts with .01 amps does that feel different than getting shocked by 200,000 volts with .001 amps? Isnt the drop in effective electricity (amps) just due to more resistance in the transmission medium? If so why bother advertising the voltage and not just advertise amps on batteries as the unit of useful power?
libsi · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work
Butexx · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it feels to chew 5 gum... Like how does it feel, i really wanna know but i cant... If only someone could send me a video that could demonstrate the feeling
How companies like EA and Activision think it's ok to make the player pay $60 for a game, and then pressure them into gambling for some slightly better gear.
Videogame Streaming. Look, I'm 30 and have been gaming since I was like 6 or something, so despite feeling like Grandpa Simpson sometimes, logically I figure I should still be 'with it' enough to get this.
But I cannot wrap my head around this 'trend' among the 'young'uns' of giving money to people to watch them play a game for you. You kids realize that's not how games work, right? Someone please explain this to a lost and confused old man.
I almost never play any games anymore at all. I have to really force myself to play anything. So it is neat to be able to check a new game out, knowing you will never pay money to buy it or play it.
I feel like my brain works better if I'm doing something creative while a friend is playing stuff on the computer while in the same room. Having a streaming service can accomplish the same results. I like to put chill people on while I work on my projects. It helps my mind focus the same way it does by bringing a laptop to Starbucks. You would think TV would accomplish this, but regular TV is designed to harass you for attention. Video games aren't always like that.
Some of the artists that stream live are amazingly talented.
Lastly some of the streamers have a genuinely cool group of friends that show up when they go live.
How, despite numerous studies and real life examples all around us, there are still people who start smoking.
It harms you, the environment and everyone around. (It also makes you smell like shit and it's seriously annoying passing by you on the street or by the entrance of a building).
If you're a smoker, please, seek help. There are alternatives out there as well as many types of therapy. You matter to those around you, don't be just another part in some death statistic.
If you're not a smoker, don't start. Just one cigarette is enough to take you down a dangerous path, I've felt it close and it hurt like hell, I miss them every day.
How people are so open... like about their personal troubles or a condition they have. It's fine to be comfortable in your own skin, but I don't understand wanting to share your personal life with strangers
Pre-calculus and any math at higher levels than that. I tried taking pre-calculus in high school and college, and failed it both times. Thankfully, I didn't need it to graduate high school, as I had already satisfied my math requirements. And I found another option to satisfy my college degree requirements; philosophy of logic was way more fun and I received a 4.0 in that class.
Why do we accept the fact that our money "value" it's basically: this worth more because it's a different colors/different numbers on the printed bills. Like it's the same materials, just an other colors/numbers, why do we build the world arounds the "printed papers" made man value?
I'm probably way late on this, but the idea of strangers having separate lives and experiences that have nothing to do with your own existence. They have their own story and life, that you'll never know about unless you meet them, or learn/ read about (etc)
How you can't say 'Coronavirus' in youtube videos but youtube features Coronavirus news on their homepage.
And I don't understand why COPPA and the FTC implemented the rules onto YT. It doesn't protect kids in any way, shape, or form. It's just a 1st and 8th amendment violation.
How someone can hear their name be called and just straight up ignore it until it’s called to the point they get annoyed. I always at least acknowledge if someone is calling me but half the time I’ll call someone’s name and when they’re in clear earshot and just nothing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:47 on April 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just assume they’re calling someone else because my name is so common. Happened a lot in high school.
How flat earthers actually believe the earth is flat.
How stupid antivax people really are.
How you always hear shit like “god saved my son” (no that was the doctor)
Or how during times like now when people say “god will save us from this virus” but they’re too stupid to realize that if their god is actually real...that god sent the virus.
Politics - Honestly. I'm appalled at how inefficient the whole thing is. These are people who are supposed to be deciding what's best based on their constituents opinions, and it seems like they give zero fucks about humans at all.
And how some policies are in place - like no terms limits, blatant bribery via lobbying, etc.
Lmao I don't think it's that hard. The actual thing of "long division" where you make the box and put the two numbers is pretty simple, but I get what you mean if it's like super long numbers
Everything is relative and nothing can move as fast as the speed of light (except light itself) and light can't go any faster. Ok, well let's test that.
I travel north going 99.9% the speed of light. You pass me going south at 99.9% the speed of light. How fast did we pass each other?
The answer is 199.8% the speed of light. A speed that can't exist. Science me that, Batman.
Yes, its fake but do you really care? I don’t get why it’s such a big issue. I have been a wrestling fan for 10’years and I still don’t care, it’s fun to watch
How humans started from a world of natural resources and somehow went to making complicated big ass machinery that's stronger than them like airplanes and skyscrapers and cranes. Basically harnessing electricity and somehow using it to tell rocks (machinery) what to do (coding).
For ex. You’re a photon leaving a clock’s surface at 12:00 and you’re facing the clock, after about for ex. 156 Hours (random amount) a Human would have seen it pass 156 Hours, but since light travels so fast and the clock would still have said exactly 12:00
Jagob5 · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who claim to be a Christian but don’t act like it at all. One day you’ll see your friend at church and the next she comes to school “dressed” in half a shirt and shorts that don’t even cover her entire butt.
If you read the fine print, you just lease the can for a bit and a gnome will return it back to the factory. They've been selling refurb WD-40 as new for years.
Why the fuck is the universe there? Since when was it there? How was it formed? Because of the Big Bang? Where did the singularity from the big bang come from? How did it exist? Since when did it exist? Was it there since the beginning of time? If so, how did it come to existence in the first place?? Did God made it? If so, who made God? What was before God? Nothing? How does 'nothing' exist? It's ironic that nothing doesn't exist but the nothingness itself is there. Mind fucks me everytime.
Fucking gender reveal parties. It’s just an excuse to have more parties and more attention. Some people are gonna be like “a mother’s allowed to celebrate her baby” and hell yes, but you don’t need to CONSTANTLY be hogging attention because you’re pregnant🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I wrote in C for 20+ years. Wrote trading and backoffice systems for a securities brokerage. Never encountered a scenario where pointers were necessary.
The concept of infinite. Life is finite. Everything that surrounds us is finite. Every being that has and ever will live will one day die. But somewhere, someone believes the universe has and always will exist. Humans can not perceive this.
OCD. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
I’ve watched tv shows about this but still can’t understand what makes someone (for example) check a door is locked about 30 times before leaving. Surely twice is enough?
It blows my mind but I really feel for them.
Why is there no money for education, no money for infrastructure, no money for minimum wages, yet when the government wants, it can pull 6 trillion dollars out of its butt?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cambered wheels. It does nothing for your Honda Civic, bro.
How suddenly the conditions of the earth caused that binary switch from the moment when there was no life and then there was.
Next, how permutation and evolution expanded from one spring of life into All the different families of animals, from whales to spiders to rhinos to cats to seagulls.
It’s not even that I can’t comprehend, how Darwin’s evolution model works, I mean, that’s even intuitively understandable and quite logical, but the sheer amount of completely different concepts of organisms. Just imagine, everything would be the same but insects didn’t exist. Then think: could I make them up (or mammals, or amphibians, or crustaceans)
Thirdly, the sort of engineering miracles caused by evolution. How that trial and error of permutation and either having a successful sex life :> ultimately leads to such intricate designs as the wings and beaks of falcons, paws on cats and dogs, octopuses changing their colour and producing ink in their bodies, the dislocateable jaw of snakes, the ultrasound radar of bats, human abstract thought.....
the fascinating thing about linguistics (i.e. genetics of language) is that there is many unrelated springs of language, with large superfamilies and tiny isolated like Georgian and Basque.
conversely, the fascinating thing about biology is that every.last.fucking.living.thing goes back to a common ancestor.
Why people just can't leave the LGBTQ community alone if we're not doing anything to them like bruh stfu stop trying to tell us that we're going I hell we all already know this lmao
JOK815 · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like, a family might keep kosher and have separate pots, pans, and utensils for dairy foods, and if you accidentally mix up a knife you can cleanse it by plunging it into the dirt.. but that same family might have all kinds of ways to skirt the rules of sabbath, bc of course god put all these rules in place for you to obey, but they simultaneously believe god is too stupid to see that you’re basically cheating those same rules when the rules inconvenience you? Just... I can’t wrap my head around that kind of thinking...
EVERYTHING ABOUT TECHNOLOGY. I’m completely incapable of processing how it works. Cars/engines, appliances, early cameras & basic electricity I can kinda wrap my brain around but I don’t understand how any communication technology works - like going back to radio. Don’t even try to explain phones, computers, TVs, etc. to me. That is straight up witchcraft. No other explanation.
The funny thing is that I study neuroscience and I have zero trouble understanding how EEGs, PET scans, MRIs & fMRIs work to gather data. But how that data can be visualized on a screen is beyond me.
Understanding the electrical signaling of neurons in the body? No problem. Morse code? Get the fuck out of here with that sorcery.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a mortgage is. It’s just that no one has sat me down and explained it to me and answered the questions I have. It’s assumed that certain things you’ll pick up along the way. But what if you don’t, and now it’s too late to ask because you’re 21, and people will look at you like you’re actually stupid.
Phones. Ive always defendes phones to boomers who roll their eyes at it, because it's very versatile!! But for the life of me, I don't understand how a single screen that's about 5 centimeters thick could access info in real time.
How even in the face of a global pandemic, partisan politics, denying climate change, prolonging armed conflicts, maintaining or increasing social inequality, and religion still are priorities for people.
We could be using this time of forced shutdowns and isolation to fix a lot of problems, but, instead those lucky enough to have been born with a platinum spoon complain how their portfolios are losing money while they're lucky enough to work from home.
I’m in the military and was stationed in Germany. The amount of service members that just leave their pets to fend for themselves when they get stationed back in the states is unreal. Also when getting stationed overseas the amount of people who just take their pets to the pound. I was not allowed to adopt a dog from the pound in Germany because of how many people would just leave their dogs when getting stationed back in the states. I would have had to buy a puppy from a breeder which I refuse to do with so many dogs up for adoption. So I waited until I got back to the states and went to the pound the first chance I had. These animals are a member of your family and you just cast them off like they meant nothing to you. I don’t understand it! It can definitely get very expensive for your pet to travel during really hot/really cold months but that doesn’t mean you just essentially throw them away. Sorry, rant over
Credit cards. Debt. Mortgage. Finance plans. Grown up money stuff.
I don't understand how someone would use credit responsibly. Like yeah. Finance a car or house ?
I've never had one. My parents were upper middle class but never ever spoke to me about money. I don't know how much they earn, spend or save.
I'm not almost 27 and living in the opposite side of the world. I make decent money (compared to my home country and country of residence) and am happy just earning and spending. I paid for my (used) car in cash upfront. I don't see myself ever buying a house. I'm relatively smart but when it comes to this shit I'm uninterested and come across dumb af.
The fact that some people can't find jobs or do work at all, and no matter how hard they try they also can't live alone easily plus with the Corona virus in place as well money is going out faster than it's coming in
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxers; the science is incredibly clear and they will only be harming their children. The excuse “oh I’m fine” is because THEY WERE VACCINATED AS KIDS. Infectious diseases don’t care how “good” you are; they care about who is vulnerable.
I guess the same way as anyone else? A written word is a group of lines and squiggles that we assign a meaning to. A hearing person connects that written word to an object/action/etc and also connects a group of sounds to that written word. A deaf person can still connect a written word to an object or action without knowing the sounds all the lines and squiggles represent.
phones, like how do they work? how do i talk to someone on the other side of the world? and they figured this out before sound recording was widespread? and there’s no lag?
The people who are getting upset that 1st line responders are getting special treatment. Like people really get upset. Some guy posted a huge rant when McDonald's was giving out a small coffee and sandwich to first responders. Everyone is like "Well without me X wouldn't able to do their job." I'm an essential employee, but I've never really cared about special treatment, or even being recognized. I have many friends who are nurses it's a fucking tough job I'd step aside in any line do they could shop before me.
How the first people to reproduce realized that something that happened 9 months prior is the reason that a small person is coming out of my body now. I have thought about this for HOURS!!! I mean, how did they make the connection??
Sure , there are some ok songs but many modern rap "songs" are just awfull
Do they have melody ? No !
Do they have harmony ? No !
Do they have a good rythm ? Some of them
Do tbe lyrics express the audience ? 90% No !
Is any talent involved ? Yes , learning to use autotune
I really cant imagine how will be the music of the future
Like, they're supposed to be a bunch of people with common goals trying to achieve those goals. But you don't have to share those goals to be in the party? Why is there a group dedicated to doing a thing where half the people in it don't even want that thing? No wonder the government never gets anything done.
Religion.....it seems so obvious that many people are too convinced and don't want to doubt their own existence and stuff but if so many million atheists see it then why don't the rest ?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock Market
Luxvee · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astrology. I don’t get how the position of stars, many of which have moved or died by now, can affect your personality in any way, shape or form. The position of burning balls of gas millions of light years away, I just don’t understand how it will influence your life.
People who think it should just be LGB. Now, I would respect them if they just wanted gender and sexuality to have different communities, but they’re really transphobic and it makes me so mad.
Definitely, it doesn’t make sense. I don’t mind if they wanted gender and sexuality to have different communities, like you said, but they can’t just erase the transgender community. We’re people, too
Why Nintendo won’t let each account on Animal Crossing have their own island.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am such a self absorbed asshole. Why can’t I go places in my life. And this isn’t me trying to be humble. I’m genuinely a disappointment. To myself and my family. Why am I like this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just generalize and discriminate against a group of HUMAN FUCKING BEINGS that feel emotions and get permanent mental scaring for their sexuality/race/political stance just... BECAUSE.
How people can still not take COVID-19 seriously, even when our country leads the world in deaths caused by it. I try to only go out for contact-less pickup of groceries and food. Some things aren't allowed for pickup orders, though, because of stock, so I have to go in (wearing a mask if I can find one). But on these trips out, I see groups of people walking together, going to the park, and acting like things are normal. My county is third in the state for COVID-19 infection rates, yet leadership refuses to set a stay-at-home order.
Probably already been addressed on this thread, but how people - ESPECIALLY those who claim to be Christians - can be fans of the current US president, whose name I can't even bring myself to say (Voldemort had nuthin' on this dude). He's an incompetent, unfaithful, disloyal, God-mocking (re his remarks about taking Communion) narcissist.
trizub · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree with you. I’ve never understood the attraction either.
Racism. I can understand not being acclimated to a sudden change in authority, like if dogs suddenly became sentient and became free-willed members of society I’d be pretty spooked, especially since I’m unsure if it’d be socially acceptable to pet them and call them best bois. But with racism though it’s been like (in the US) over a hundred years since our emancipation proclamation, I’m surprised some people still can’t accept certain groups as people.
swikss · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not appreciating others hobbies, I am a railroad photographer. People ask me what I like about trains and get legit confused when it’s just a personal interest of mine, like chill out, I’m having a good time enjoying my hobby, go bother someone else.
How some doctors fully invested in studying the process of sex transformation yet there are still lots of common diseases that only has small research and there is still no cure for cancer.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people cut themselves? Ive know multple depressed people throughout my life and most of them cut themselves, but how do you deal with pain by creating more pain? I genuinely dont understand
It depends a lot on the person. It can be a distraction; you stop focusing on emotional pain if your brain is saying OW PHYSICAL PAIN. Physical pain also releases adrenaline and such that can make you feel better, and there's a more immediate way to fix the pain then there is with emotional pain. It can be a self punishment; I messed up and I'm not worthy of anything, I'll hurt myself as punishment and the scars will remind me I'm a fuckup. And occasionally it's an attention thing; I know depressed people cut themselves sometimes and I don't want to reach out, maybe if my friend sees self harm scars they'll reach out instead.
AKKats · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly do not understand how a complex like our U.S Govt. just sits back and watches
this president and his G.O.P gang, get away with all of the crap that is going on. Former leaders; are they doing anything, at all? Do they care if this country is overtaken and turned into a third world entity. I don't understand how cheating and stealing are ok, and integrity is something to be afraid of. This is WHAT I genuinely do not understand. Why doesn't the military stand down and fight for us, not the jerks behind the fenced gates of the White House. I know I will be disagreed with.....
Why the hell aren't we actually doing something for climate change. Seams like something even a kid understand it's necessary, but it's at least 50 that we're waiting instead of actually saving the life of future generations
Hypocritical critiques. If you are will to ask some to change a behavior that you’re not willing to change then why speak to them about it in the first place. If you want someone to change their behavior but you’re doing the same thing, then change your own behavior first at the very least.
Homophobia. Like seriously dead serious. Why the fuck does it matter to you who I date. I don't follow your religion exactly so why does it matter to me.
The Stock Market. Shouldn’t stocks stay almost exactly the same because as soon as a stock goes up or down it becomes more attractive to buy/sell. It seems like an automatic stabilizer.
I genuinely don't understand how information is stored in those pieces of metal we call motherboards and memory cards. It blows my mind. You take a picture and somehow it gets stored into an SD card that will show you the picture on command. Like how? How is that information stored and then translated into the specific thing we saved...
You can't claim that gay people are a mistake, an atrocity, just because "the Bible says so." Cuz ya know what else the Bible says? It says to love other people and that no human is a mistake.
You can't claim to just be acting as a "good christian" when you are mindfully and willingly saying things and doing things that hurt others.
Also applies to other religions, but I understand Christianity more than the others, so that's just an example.
Ads for mobile games. The ones like gardenscapes and fishdom where they’re so bad but they’re not even about the game. I don’t understand how these are even verified as good ads for the company that makes the games
Matrices! (Plural of Matrix), as in the mathematical concept taught in pre calculus. I did so poorly with them, I contemplated just not going any further in math. Nope, ended up with a math minor in college but still can’t tell you what the purpose of a matrix is and how to operate one vs another
I give 2 dollars to Apple in exchange for a very small percentage of their income. Apple will use those 2 dollars to make more shit and get more income, which comes back to me in the form of 2.5 dollars.
How you can select things on DVDs/CDs like I would understand it if it was like a tape and you could just fast forward to the part you wanted to listen to but you can do that instantly so what's the deal.
When people (or mainly women it seems) fake orgasms??? Or fake their pleasure in bed??? It's weird and I never got that. Like if you know what you like just... tell your partner that??? And ACTUALLY have a nice time??? Idk it's the weirdest (trend?) I've heard and I just can't comprehend it.
How people can be racist, sexist or discriminate based on religion etc etc.
Like how is that the most important defining characteristic of someone that you can honestly say you HATE them?!
People who think that you can only be friends with someone if you have everything in common. I can get that you might want to have SOMETHING in common, but wouldn't liking all the same things as your friend just make it boring? Same goes for dating.
How people figured out how to make elaborate and exquisite meals from various ingredients. I’ve been baking a lot of cakes lately and can’t help but wonder what made someone mix all of these ingredients together and bake it for X amount of time.
ieraaa · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practicing religion to the point its all you know
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s unbelievable, there are people that can recite the entirety of the Koran word for word...and still not speak Arabic
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people actually kill and killed others in the name of religion, something that was basically started by someone with a book who claimed to be some spiritual communicator of god. aka people who kill/killed others because of something they haven't even seen or even proven with genuine evidence. I really can't.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think you're evil, if you have a different (wrong) opinion on something. Especially about politics. I just can't understand why you would end a friendship, just because he thinks different then you. Of cause, if it gets to extreme, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with that person anymore, but just because of a disagreement about politics? There is so much more important stuff.
Why my dad had to die. It’s been a week today and it still hasn’t settled with me. Even though I saw him. I touched him. I held his hand. It still doesn’t make sense. I mean, he was only 44. He was supposed to have a surgery but it never happened because of COVID-19. And tbh I feel like it would’ve been prevented and he would still be alive today if they had just fucking done the surgery when it was scheduled.
How we can always find an extra couple trillion dollars lying around to bail out corporations, but we can't find the money to take care of our own people.
Natural response and dont tell me you wouldn't run. Unless your on the battlefield or conceal carrying your most likely gonna run. I know I am. I'm not gonna leave my gf over some people I dont know.
It's different if you have people you want to protect. Obviously you'll want to get them away from the danger. And I also do carry something at almost all times. Not old enough to carry but something, yes.
I wasn't talking ab physically leaving my gf I ment dying to protect some people I dont know or care about. Also you carry but you dont?? I dont understand what you mean completely. I've done my time to protect and the only time I'm gonna do that again is to save my loved ones.
I'm not legally allowed to carry a firearm because of age but do carry a knife. It's not the best option but if there's one threat it'll do. I wasn't exactly talking about a human threat either. One example is a flood, which happened last year in my town. My dad and I were using our pond canoes to come and take people to safety as the water from the river was still rising. (Tulsa, OK, May 2019)
I see about the carry thing. Also I think I would still be hesitant to go out to save some a random person if there was a natural disaster. I've been there done that. Now that I have my life on track I'm most likely not gonna go out of my way or risk my life to save someone I don't know. You sound younger than me and more willing and trust me I did that. Yet now i have more to lose and I think that's why people dont want to save people. They have to much to lose.
You answered your own question but I'll repeat. We choose what makes puts us at peace or what we were raised with (which usually comes with acceptance and peace).
You seem at conflict or mabey just closed to religion in general and that's good if it puts you at peace or acceptance. But I would ask you not to shit on somebody's religion its really damn offensive tbh and just a dick move. If you do some research into the concept of god it would answer more of your questions. I was raised Christian so I'll answer some questions.
God didn't put war and evil that was satan. Or in other regions god wants to test us to see if we are worthy of his kingdom. Or in others he put that there to punish those who oppose him.
When it comes to the whole good and evil is really up to the religion some say to see if your worthy others say that you stopped praying. Or others say that we will never have that knowledge. Its really up to your interpretation
I'm personally not religious at all. I was raised Christian but after I got overseas and got some combat experience my faith fell fast. But Please don't shit on someones religion even if your trying to "show them the truth". I can see that your not religious at all. Are you nihilistic or just atheist mabey something else? I'm curious.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You didn't offend me at all and I mean at ALL. I agree with your point but just to add most religions have a Satan or demonic god whi creates the bad.
Also I'm not trying to convert you I dont really want you to get that Idea. I agree with the last paragraph to and it's not just you to pal.
While every religion has different looks and forms of god its usually up to interpretation. Especially due to this modern day and age you can freely choose which religion you want. Unless you live somewhere where they force it on you. And if they do that's fucked I grew up in the bible belt south where the basically shamed you if you weren't Christian.
I'm personally atheist although I have certain morals that I highly believe in but a god is out of my mind. And I'm probably not the best person to answer your questions I would recommend googling some of your questions and, looking deeper in it if you truly want some answers.
And I'm with you on getting frustrated ab religion or just not getting something in general. That's common as shit.
Collective learning. I’ve thought about it for so long and it still boggles my mind that at one point, the best we could do is create basic tools for hunting and such. How we went from that to what we have now makes me go insane.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok/popularity. Not being toxic. I genuinely don’t understand what’s so great about it
And why, rant starting now* people have to be as loud as they can, as obvious as they can, in front of the most people while making them. Talking from experiences of being home during quarantine as well as school. Also it feels like a lot of reposts. At least reddit says that reposters are not awesome.
Rant ended* I just don’t understand the concept or how it became popular. Also can somebody please explain to me why a lot of popular people are a**holes or just do dumb stuff randomly.
Because they have pain meds and a numbing medication for childbirth unless you go natural for what ever reason. They dont for a good kick down there. I'm not trying to argue about the pain of childbirth just that It hurts too
Belgium, Holland, Netherlands. I don't understand what they are and I have no intention of learning. I have visited them before though (I think??)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. It truly makes no sense to me. Some people suck, no matter the color of their skin. I'm not going to give a pass to someone because their melanin is similar to mine. Don't be a dick, end of story. Nor would I expect somone one to trust me based solely on my appearance.
How people get SO into a professional sports team. To where they're actually screaming at the TV (anger or happiness) or crying when their team wins/loses. I can understand if you have a relative or a friend on the team and I can see having some team spirit. But some people take it so far where it's all they think or talk about. Like who actually gives a flying fuck that much with something that doesn't directly affect them (unless betting).
It doesn't directly affect you because you don't care about it. If someone is interested in a sport and has a favorite team, then that team's performance matters to that person.
Rain. Yeah, I know, water goes hot because of that weird fireball in the sky, evaporates, turns into cloud and then falls from the sky as rain, but how the fuck does every particle of steam coordinate to fall at the same time in a particular area. And before you ask: indeed, i'm an idiot.
Why the hell are we here? What the hell made it so that there is a universe? Why does all of this exist? Why does life exist? I guess we’ll never know.
nbluey · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a plug without a grounding prod still requires that I plug it in one way. It should go in either way I put it in
Honestly? Personal finance. Anything talking about deductibles (???) and interest (????) and so on, I'm like "??????" Like I get the gist, but my brain legit glazes over and I can't take in a word of it and I just don't GET it. It's like I'm trying to read Greek.
People still going outside. There are people on instagram going to their friends/partner’s houses and even the BEACH. Are they stupid, understand the situation and just don’t care, or both? Who knows! Not me.
Racism? You demean someone based on the color of their skin? Who their family is? Uh, any -ism really. I just don’t get how people let other peoples lives impact theirs in a way where it has to interrupt their way of living. Is it THAT hard to think: “Well that bothers me, but I can’t see an outcome where if I come for this person, their, or my day will improve.” Why can’t people just let people exist in their own spaces?
I don’t know if you’ll see this but whatever what I just don’t understand is people who claim there child is a “precious angle” when the kid is ether just a normal human being with respect or someone’s worst nightmare when I see the parent/s I just think why do you not know what discipline is you Karen’s (no offense to any Karen’s unless your a bad parent) it’s just infuriating really so this is to any one who is going to be a parent or knows someone that is going to be a parent don’t spoil your kid let retype that spoil them but not all the time spoil them when they get good grades or discipline them but not to much and make sure your child eats healthy and if they say I don’t like vegetables just say vegetables and fruits are really good for you and explain how they are good for the body and as a child (not 10 or younger I won’t say my age) I love to eat fruits and veggies because it makes me feel so happy and good but yeah I am going to stop with how long this is so I guess have a great and wonderful fantastic day/night
The health insurance system. I’m relatively smart on several subjects, but I don’t understand how the system works relating to doctor visits, how it’s profitable for whom, and why a person just can’t go buy an effective health insurance policy. Don’t get me started on networks, deductibles, and co-pays.
Why guys send dick pics when its common knowledge they hate them and why guys get abusive when a girl doesnt reply. I WISH i knew the psychology behind it!
I dont know why people own coffee machines. 1 buy one 2 buy coffee beans 3 trial and error to find how you like to make coffee 4 wait. In all of that time I could have gotten coffe at a starbucks or mcdonalds quick and cheaper. Coffee machines are just inconvienient.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to start an argument, but while that sounds cheaper short-term I can't imagine it is cheaper long-term.
A very serviceable French press coffee "maker" can cost $5-15 USD. Another $10 for the coffee. After 15 cups, you would at least break even on McD's and be way in the black compared to Sbuck's.
I understand the argument for the experience and choices Starbucks offers, and the convenience and choices McD's offers. But if saving money and reducing waste is the goal, it still makes sense to me to brew at home.
How older siblings accept their younger siblings. That kid just stole your thunder and at least 1/2 of your attention if not more depending on how many kids there are. Older siblings should 100% want to destroy this new competition but they don’t (excepting psychopaths). I am a younger sibling and I milked that attention for all I could to the detriment of my two older siblings, yet they still love me.
Why people like bing mean on games, i view games as this way to relive stress and whenever I am mean or someone is mean to me it just makes everything tense. Rainbow six is one of my favorite games and i hate the community thanks to like 5 people along with gta. I just wanna be able to play without being called the N word over and over. Like is that too much. And yes i played cod where it was normal didn’t care since i didn’t really like the game
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I buy clothes that i like, usually on sale. I don't understand buying clothes i don't really like just because everyone wears it (and they are usually overpriced for this reason)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why major companies don't just lower their production. If the top 10 polluting companies lowered it by 10%, global warming would be solved within a few years. What the fuck do they think money is going to do when the world is dead or almost dead and we're gone?
What can the amount of money they already have do? At what point is it just a number? Oh wow, you can make that huge number slightly smaller to get bigger again you must have a huge dick.
Why we work until we die and try to make ourselves feel better about it by obtaining unnecesaary things. All we do is consume and reproduce, and everyone seems to turn a blind eye.
Oh I could list SO MANY THINGS. I genuinely don’t understand maps. I don’t understand brains. I don’t understand why noises make me angry but also some noises make me soothed. Idk.
Chess. It’s funny because I’m someone who learns things pretty quickly once I put my mind to it. I taught myself how to juggle (I know it has nothing to do with chess it’s just a fun fact) simply because I was bored. Taught myself how to play solitaire because the actors on the office always played it during the episodes. And now I’m learning Hangul (the Korean alphabet). However, chess is something I don’t understand. Both my brothers are above average chess players and have tried to teach me since we were all barely teenagers (I just turned 22). I know the names of the different pieces and how they move but I simply do not understand why and when you should move the different pieces to this place and not that place. Also checkmate is not logical, how do you get stuck why can’t you just move wherever you want you are the king for crying out loud!
We just became best friends. I’ve never understood chess and I’m nearly 40. Like you, I completely understand the concept, but I can’t translate it into game play. And it’s basically the only game I don’t get!
Ok I’ve just spent a little while thinking about what our club would be called and I’ve come up with nothing. That’s how little I understand chess!
lynng · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Directions as in maps and NSEW. I get the idea behind it but when I go to use a compass I get so lost. It's why I've never went for my instructor diving course because I couldn't lead anything other than a drift dive. I understood the navigation part when someone is there but under the water I'm going a different way to everyone else. I'm the person that leaving a shop I forget which way I came in from and end up doubling back on myself.
How someone like Helen Keller learned to read or communicate... Basically how do deaf people learn to read? Without an internal monologue how are they taught to read and communicate and know what things mean? If someone is born deaf that must be so hard to begin to teach them things???
Polarization of antennas, frequency matching of antennas both transmitting and receiving, and really well tuned bandpass filter cavities. RF is black magic. I am an amateur radio enthusiast and collect antique CB radios. I like to open them up and modify them with channel kits, and see just how many "channels" between channels, and how many "above" and "below" the normal 1-40 I can get. Channel 1 being 26.965Mhz, and channel 40 being 27.405Mhz.
The grooves are literally the sound amplitude being pressed into vinyl. The stylus rides in this groove, and is attached to a teeny tiny arm, that is attached to basically a "microphone". As the stylus moves side to side in the groove, it moves the pickup and forth, making a small amount of voltage and current that varies just like the tone and volume fo your voice does. Before my hearing went to shit, (REALLY bad tinnitus), I could hear it without the turntable being hooked up. You also might be able to. Just put on an LP, set the stylus in the starting groove, and hold your head very close in a quiet place. You should be able to actually hear the stylus riding in the groove and making noise.
Yea like the mechanics make sense but it’s like how does a groove separate out into very distinct sounds like a singer with a band accompany with all the different distinct instruments with just some grooves. I guess moreso how can a groove hold THAT much data and be able to play it back “relatively” clearly.
The level of narcissism on social media. Nobody cares what you think about any topic. No one. Not even your family. We don't need to know that you support one idea over another. I don't care if you you think the coronavirus is fake, and you aren't some special enlightened being tasked with bringing us the truth.
People think that just because you can reach hundreds of people through a facebook post, that means they all care what you have to say.
Also the things I see people post on their public profiles is appalling. I understand coming on reddit and saying whatever you want, but to have that displayed in public is crazy.
The fact that this thread is going to end up in a YouTube video being read by a robotic voice, and that I'm going to watch that video and be entertained by it.
People who won't try new food. Worst case scenario you have a bad taste in your mouth for 20 seconds. Best case, amazing taste in your mouth with the option to do it again forever
How gates become circuits become processors become computers.
On a surface level, I get that the gate does some little mathmatic operation to pass electricity through. How this gets to even the complexity of a 1990s processor chip is beyond me.
There are a handful of songs that when I listen to I get chills on my neck and arms, and very emotional. I don’t know why (they are songs I like and I’m not an emotional person at all normally). There are no good or bad experiences tied to any of them either.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in a profession where there is a lot of electrical work, and somehow I skate by the most basic problems by just asking someone else, or doing a Google search. I usually get weird looks, but managed to survive quite a while with this approach.
Over the years, I've bought all sorts of "Electricity for Dummies", wiring projects for kids, etc. There is just some sort of knowledge gap between what these teach, and what I actually want / need to know.
I do wiring projects all the time, make connectors, solder joints, etc. but I just don't grasp how everything actually works. Volts, amps, current, AC / DC, and the list goes on. All the videos I watch are either meant for 5 year olds, or they are drawing formulas on a board and my brain spasms.
Sometimes I don't understand how unhappy people can carry on with their lives. I have been many times so close to send everything to hell and run away.
Farmers paid to NOT grow food. I don't get it. The argument I hear is that if all Farmers grew crops, then the individual Farmers wouldn't be able to make any money and the farms wouldn't survive.
Ok.. isn't cheaper food a good thing? Wouldn't we be able to feed more people for less effort? I don't see why this is bad.
The farmer would lose his farm. Ok, that sucks, but if I get a job that moves into unprofitable territory, I have to do the whole unemployment thing and look for a new job. Why don't they?
I can’t fathom how Hellen Keller could have accomplished the things in her life that she did. How was she able to communicate? I don’t understand how you could do that just by touch. But ofc I haven’t learned about her yet in school so I don’t know much about her.
I also don’t understand simplifying radicals. Or anything to do with radicals and I’ve yet to get lower than an A in geometry. How have I come this far. What the heck.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can completely deny science and not trust people who devoted their whole lives at accredited universities.
Taxes. The Stock Market. Financial Aid. 401Ks. Basically anything to do with money and numbers. But I can do long division in my head. Also the Electoral College (we so don't need that bullshit)
ikeif · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Estimating distance.
I legit cannot look at a building and say that’s 30 feet tall.
I can’t look at a car and say it’s six feet wide.
I can barely make 1/4” or 1/2” cuts when cooking.
Just the whole processing of measurement is foreign to me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines. I know they’re ‘outdated technology’, but scanning a document and then somewhere in the world another machine prints my hand writing when it receives the fax? Wild!
Sexuality.
I’m a Pansexual meaning that my attraction (both romantic and sexual) is regardless of gender or sex. I do kinda understand sexual attraction being based on genitalia, but why also romantic. You could meet someone who is absolutely perfect for you but turn them down just because you’re not attracted to their label. This also brings up the problem of loving trans people. If a straight man falls in love with a trans woman I’m all for that but how can he like her sexually if he’s not attracted to dicks??? As someone who feels attraction regardless of gender and sex I don’t understand why anyone is only attracted to a certain type of person or genitalia, and I don’t under stand how someone with an attraction to only one genitalia can be sexually active/attracted to someone without that genitalia. I’m not transphobic (non-binary myself) but as a pansexual I’m very confused about all this.
People that have their pants down enough to show their underwear.
I don't get it. It makes you look like nothing more than a complete fucking idiot that can't dress himself and has lost so much self respect that they stopped caring about their image.
Why people allow politics to drive their emotions. I mean yeah, I understand you have your opinions. But how can you hate someone for having different ones on something SO STUPID. Politics in general is stupid, just a bunch of old farts arguing on tv. If this country united again, I feel everyone would be quite happier. (US)
I could just google it... but where's the fun in that. What do people mean "When a tree falls in the woods but no ones around, does it make a sound?" I've never understood what that was asking. Of course it makes a sound. Things are happening all over the place and they make noise. Seems like a reality we share so WHAT DO PEOPLE MEAN WHEN THEY BRING IT UP BECAUSE IT'S HONESTLY SO WEIRD?!
I love this one. Sound is just vibration right, so until it hits a receiver like an ear drum, it stays a a vibration. the sound is made in your head. (or whatever, what do I know)
i genuinely will never understand why people feel the compulsive need to argue through their phones towards another human about an opinion they feel strongly about that clearly doesn’t matter. religious topics, political topics, or just arguing about one show being superior to another. i understand civil dialogue in private, but going ape shit in the public arena of youtube comments towards one another and feeling so empowered by what you say to someone bewilders me lol seems people get off on making someone else feel stupid, and even if you’re technically right and know your shit..... it still doesn’t matter....... in a nutshell, why can’t people see a statement online that they disagree with and move the fuck on??
I thought I understood it when I was an undergrad, doing ecology and basic statistics. Then I got into grad school... Biostatistics, Experimental Design, Non-Parametric Analysis, Multi-Raster Spectral Analysis.... Degrees of freedom started feeling like a word people just put into the sentence, like an axiom, and we're supposed to just understand its relevance.
It seemed like a sort of cliche for statistical profs to always ask, "and what are your degrees of freedom then?" I could, mostly, dutifully regurgitate their expectations. But, particularly in factoral and MANOVA circumstances...I'm asking myself why the fuck do we do this?
.. it was statistical power enigma for me. It was first just a calculation... but now, with respect to all manner of different statistical methods.... how to make any sense of WHY this a thing we do.
Made me feel like I didn't belong in the sciences... like I was just plugging data into these spread sheets, and hoping I wasn't violating assumptions when I picked a statistical test. .. and peer reviewing.. it seemed like almost everyone, at least us biologists, were always violating assumptions of the test. .. and no mention of degrees of freedom or statistical power in our papers proffered for peer review.
Lol well I understand tattoos in general, I have quite a few myself. I just don’t get putting something that could only temporarily mean something significant to you, like a significant other. Kids names, fine, I get that.
But yeah, I am with you on the face tattoos, our society is just not ready for that one yet
Baby on board signs in cars- like "Welp I was gonna ram that car in front and force it into a ditch but now I know there's a BABY ON BOARD! I will spare your worthless adult lives for the sake of saving this innocent baby...for now". It feels like the insinuation is that at some ill defined moment or age that a person is deemed not important enough to be driven considerately around? Like we can't tailgate the car with the baby in it but we can tailgate the car with the middle aged commuter in it and there's a weird grey area of age in between when it might be ok to kill other people?
People who discriminate (ie religion, sexuality, gender, gender identity, race, etc). What do you get out of it? If it’s not directly affecting your life, what do you care about someone’s skin color or who they marry or how they pray?
SJWs who are offended by things that don't personally concern them. For example a white straight middle class person being loud and vocal about the plight of minorities. It just sounds so disingenuous. Do they not understand how fake they sound? It's OK to care about that stuff, just don't go overboard
I don't understand why Americans continue to tolerate politicians who give the largest corporations and richest NO STRINGS TAX CUTS amounting to trillions of dollars in lost revenue? During this COVID-19 calamity, additionally legislatures have passed a 2 trillion $ bailout for distressed families and of course corporations and the richest and so called SMALL BUSINESS( they are not mom and pop),500 billion for Americans out of work and an additional 1 1/2 trillion to Corporations, no strings whatsoever, just welfare or a windfall.
IBM was asked why medical supplies ordered by a governor was not delivered,
They replied a lame excuse about their warehouse but finally came clean as this crime(price gouging) continued. They said, oh we're shipping them to another country who mad ed a higher bid!
So they took the no strings tax cuts, took the bailout Congress has recently given them and feel like they have no obligation for all that FREE TAX PAYER borrowed money?
Then there are the airlines, who after Congress decided the next bailout needed to include some expectations(like the loan Pres.Obama passed for the Chrysler Car Co).
Yes, you know they got billions in no strings tax cuts ALREADY, anyway they said, oh,we're thinking about refusing that grant.
So they want something for nothing, private companies who should fail if they can't manage their business. It's not like another airlines will not be started to meet demand.
Finally, Trump insists not only should all the cruise passengers of all ships refused port of entry by any other country but these cruise ships who don't pay taxes here; that's why they all fly other countries flags and are not subject to our law 7 miles out also got free no strings money.
As far as passengers, take American citizens, all the rest will have to remain on their ships! Instead, anyone who didn't display symptoms were disembarked supposedly but with no guarantee they would go to their country and certainly with no guarantee if they had COVID-19.
Can anyone understand this heist that is going on, with minimal to no resources going to actual Americans in need who are dependent on help the first time in their lives, or first insuring hospitals are supplied with necessary equipment to treat patients and keep their staffs safe?
How about investing in some breathing machines, testing kits and masks which certainly wouldn't amount to the no strings tax cuts they have given to the privileged few!
Why people get offended when I speak truthfully and literally or why they don't do the same. Everything is so much more complicated with these extra layers of communication people make.
qwer68 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. I don’t understand how to invest, it vesting, up and down, all of it just goes right over my head. I’ve had people explain it to me but it goes right over my head.
Why someone choses to risk the entire life they have, for sex with someone they don't care about. I will never understand how that half hour of sex will ever measure up to the years, or even decades, you have shared with someone you really care about. (Not talking about the ones who are in bad relationships they just don't have the guts to get out of, but happy people who somehow still cheat).
How some parents punish their children for being close to people of the opposite sex but the moment they become old enough to have a family the parents ask when they are going to have grandchildren.
"What do you think about X thing?" I genuinely don't know how to answer that... Its such a broad question... And i really cant get around what to say.
edd6pi · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make small talk. Specially with strangers. My dad is one of those people who can find someone to talk with everywhere he goes and I genuinely envy him. I have trouble making conversation with people I know, I can’t fathom being able to have a fluid conversation with a complete stranger.
How brutally selfish people are ok with their actions deep down. I’m talking the extremes like cheaters, scammers, and the like. I would not be able to live my life knowing I had screwed other people over.
Yoriq · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe started. Was there nothing and then suddenly something? Or was there always something? Both are impossible but one of them must be true
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capturing video with a digital camera. I can read about the process a million times, but the idea of it will never get less mind blowing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This tiger king bullshit. He’s fucking gross, stop aiming your attention at carol baskin and aim it at him, he’s a piece of shit and the doc intentionally left out details of his life to make him seem more likable
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records. Like, I understand the science behind it and I could write out how it works and everything. But, like...HOW?
bndboo · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What to do with my hands
txn8tv · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am seriously so sick of all the “cute” videos of how bored families and newscasters are spending the lockdown. It’s making me feel annoyed not happy.
I'm not including the kind where one spouse/partner is an abusive piece of shit and the other is "cheating" with another party that is treating them like an actual human being.
I mean the cheating with little to no explanation except for the desire of (more) sex related problems or a romantic falling out or even just greed. I don't understand why they do it? If you're able to safely talk and address the issue then why not do it? Why not talk it out and figure if this relationship is worth being with someone who clearly d
I understand the circumstances of not being able to simply leave when your money is tied into property, but...I literally don't understand why? Why cheat? If you aren't happy and feel like you are being used, then leave.
Maybe it's my lack of life and relationship experience but I don't logically get why it happens.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Letals · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings and the TV schedule. What happens at 2am? Do they put on a movie and just say that the movie is an hour, and really it’s two hours, but we lost an hour?
I get really worked up thinking about it. Have since I was a small child, am now in my mid 30s.
Like, how does nearly everyone that supports abortion support some arbitrary time (like 6 months?) and say "yes, after this point it is too human and has the right to live and not have it's body destroyed, but before that, the woman's right to her body trumps the fetus' right to live."
Like, does everyone just come to the same understanding on timing? It's like, if you support abortion, you have to support this because the rest is unethical.
It makes no sense to me because so many people are so confident about their stance.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Call insurance: "your yearly checkup is free!"
Go to doctor: "that'll be $84 for your co-pay, plus $243 for your prescription to treat seasonal allergies! Thanks! Come again!"
How people like Trump. For real. I’m not saying you have to be a liberal. But people that honestly really think he’s a good guy and was a good candidate to be our president. Like how do you look past all the horrendous things he’s done and said and how he behaves and speaks and say hey let’s elect him.
I genuinely don’t understand people being assholes/socially irresponsible/destructive for no reason. This extends from people opposing regulations that would mitigate climate change, to people that walk/ride side-by-side on the bike path, to litterers, to those people that will accelerate in their cars when you start signaling, to people that just break things for no reason other than that they could.
It takes so little effort to be a decent person that I just can’t fathom how people can have so little consideration to their fellow man.
I don’t mean people need to be living Saints that work and work solely for others, but rather just living and let live.
I wanna come back to this, but when I'm coffeed to point of coherence (manana) cuz I wanna deliberate a la 'case in point' I'm enduring lately. Semi-rummy now...
I wanna be in right frame of mind & amid atmosphere which allow for optimal thought-into-my-scribbles as to this, because there are some key points I want to be careful with/about.
Today's been a semi-rollercoaster, so I've mumbled in these parts perhaps, but have had a few elements here where I am which I hafta be semi-paying attention to.
Why people give so much emotions to things.
I get mad but not like others do, I get mad then get over it after 5-10 minutes. I know people who spend the whole day mad and just let it ruin their day from there. Also why people complain so much about the same thing over and over and over, I complain once then that’s the last you’ll hear of it. ......am I a robot?
Why my sister broke with her man when he is a working man, takes her places, out to eat, gives her some stuff, goes to car meets with her, and she broke because he doesn’t text her a lot. He’s a quiet guy btw...
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That in the millions and millions and so on of years of existence, here I am awake and alive and I’m myself, but after less than a century I’ll be gone. Existence will carry on going forever and I’ve just stop being. I can’t imagine there not being an ‘I’.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have absolutely no empathy for others. I have worked retail for 15 years now. Not my first career choice, but you do what you have to for your family. In the past 15 years I thought I had seen everything, eight years on 3rd shift you see some shit. However I have never seen such hatefulness and downright rude behavior. I understand people are scared, I'm sacred too. Fear doesn't excuse any of it. We all need to be kind to each other and remember everyone is going through this pandemic. If we go through it together, helping each other it will be a lot easier on us all.
People's political stances...as in, voting party line no matter what.
Biden is a perfect example. He's not going to be any better for the U.S. than Trump currently is but the expectation from the Democratic party is that everyone who voted Bernie or any other candidate should now fall in line and vote Biden.
Like why? Simply so the Democrats can beat out the Republicans but nothing changes for the vast majority of the people?
The part I don't understand is how/why people blindly follow this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed. I understand wanting and striving for more in life but once you get over a certain net worth or achievement level (diff for everyone, I know), what propels people to want more and step on others to get there?
I don't understand stocks and their values. I always thought stocks were bases off of the companies performance, but it seems like they hold value like Pokemon trading cards.
Automatic transitions I’ve seen them apart but still can’t understand them, everything else in a car I can understand, even the other transmissions (manual, cvt, dual clutch, (haven’t looked into hydrostatic yet)) but good old fashioned automatics blow my mind (I know how the torque converter works that’s it)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My nicotine addiction. I feel hopeless and no one in my life, including me, understands how powerless and weak I feel about it. If there is anyone who could give a few good words it will be appreciated. It goes deeper than just nicotine but tobacco has kept me in this loop of misery and I just want out. It's been making me feel physically ill for several years. I just want help. I read Allen Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking 16+ times and smoked as many "final" cigarettes and many more. People don't realize the hell smokers who want to quit go through. Someone please help. It has been ruining my life and relationships. People don't think tobacco can do that but it has been and I am so tired of being this zombie. Someone please help.
Idk if this may help Ive been smoking for almost a year but I'd just give away my cigarettes and look for another addiction that's less harmful. I'm not saying all together but gradually.
Flight. I have a (very) basic understanding of aerodynamics, but it still seems so so wrong in my mind to get quite a lot of quite heavy materials (in relation to materials I regularly interact with), screw them together, fill them with liquid (fuel), then pack it full of hundreds of people, all their bags, food for them (options even!)...then you just drive it a bit fast, and you're in the air for 12 hours. It makes me so uncomfortable. Helicopters make more sense to me, a bit, because of how I can understand the rotor system continually creating lift. Anyway, the thought of whatever laws of physics are being followed to make it happen suddenly like, turning off, is what makes me more of a nervous flyer than anything like an engine failure or turbulence or whatever scares normal people.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming. Im can build a pc, been doing that for 25 years. I can troubleshoot hardware and software with no issue. I can look at code and see what its doing but for the life of me i just dont "get it". Took a few classes while on college and just barely passed them while holding a 4.0 in the rest of my classes.
Why doctor's don't give it people straight and tell them they are killing themselves by leading unhealthy lifestyles. Instead we just throw a pill at people and that doesn't fix the root of the problem and just leads to side effects and more pills to treat those side effects when most chronic diseases people are on medication for can be resolved with proper diet and activity levels.
JsyHST · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics. You guys get the choice of shit Vs. shitter, and somehow you always manage to choose shitter.
Seriously - basic healthcare, an effective social safety net, a government that retains an element of common decency. Every developed nation that the US has a semblance of respect for has these, but your voting system seems to think that this is an anathema to the "Freedom" that your country is built on.
The freedom to die if you don't have enough money. That's what the US political system is built on, AND IT FUCKING SUCKS. Come on guys, you can do better.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell won’t women just say what they want? I am not a god damn mind reader.
If you want something from the store, tell me instead of saying no then getting upset when I come back empty handed.
If you wanna watch a movie, don’t tell me to choose, decline my next 69 suggestions then finally tell me your choice.
Say WHAT YOU WANT GOD DAMNIT.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I know, even they know they do it. Crazy bastards.
How the first cake was made. Like, I get that mixing random things together and sticking it in a fire would have been a common thing at one point, but how did we so gradually and perfectly develop modern cake recipes?
That and bread. Let’s stick this tiny powdery stuff into my mushy grass and water mix and let it fart all through it, then stick it in fire.
The "All of Group X is bad" mentality. You see it a lot with politics, race, police, etc. You'll even see some post saying "there's no such thing as a good X. I don't care what they've done or what kind of beliefs they have. If they're X they're bad and deserve to die."
Like...whoa...settle down. I usually just figure it's some fragile person who if someone thought that THEY were bad just because they belonged to whatever group they'd get super defensive and say how it's an unfair judgement. People should be judged individually, imo.
surrly · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can vote against their best interest despite the overwhelming facts they have at their fingertips.
Similar: How people embrace ignorance out of laziness to search for evidence of the truth that might actually help them. (this can apply to health/gov't policy/family relations, you name it).
Like, how did we get bread? How did someone first decide to grind a grain up, then add water to it, and decide to toss it over a fire? What caused that sequence of events that allowed someone with no knowledge of what would happen to just do it?
I have no actual clue, but I wonder if the first bread was something like overcooked gruel? Some slipped from the cooking container onto the coals and got a bit toasted, then someone ate it. Then someone ground some wheat into flour and the first sourdough starter was born.
Annnd you answered your own question. Some people with autism struggle communicating for others its interactions and social cues but yeah. For the most part you answered it already.
How do a bunch of cells and some chemical reactions equate to a living being capable of an infinite amount of thoughts and feelings? Science nor religion has fully answered the question.
I genuinely can't understand how anyone can feel better after hearing 'I understand what you're going through.' Let me explain.
Every time someone says those words, it is always. Always followed up with a story explaining how they have been through a similar situation. Never in my LIFE has this ever been useful to me. Most of the time I've noticed its a way for people to 1-Up each other, ultimately telling me that my problem doesn't matter or to stop complaining because they've had it worse. But even when its genuine- often times when it's about a traumatic event- it just makes me feel worse. Guilty for bringing up the subject in the first place and it switches the whole conversation around and makes me feel as if I have to comfort them instead. All the while I snap shut like a clam and I can't continue talking after that.
Is there ANYONE out there in the world that this method ACTUALLY makes you feel better?
Some people take comfort in knowing theres others who have been in a similar situation and understand how they feel at that moment, If they tell you their traumatic experience then they've got over it and are willing to talk about it to make you feel more secure. Or at least thats what I think.
My fear(? I guess that's a way to put it) of silence. It's completely odd but when things start to quiet down I just start to slowly freak out and can't really tell what's normal and what isn't.
Not the C++, Java, HTML, VB, etc, but the system that knows what to do with all that.
Like, there’s an operating system, but something has to run the operating system. There’s the BIOS, but...what tells the BIOS what to do? So on and so forth.
Any game my brother tries explaining to my family. Currently trying to play castle risk. Started 30 minutes ago and finally got to the first turn, everyone is still confused.
People that hate Fortnite, i know they just probably hate the “Fandom” but for some reason they seem to hate the game in general. In my defense the game doesn’t have loot boxes or any sort of BS that any other game would have.
Having anxiety. There are so many things I can look at logically and understand completely, and still have anxiety attacks over. Its like one side of my brain is clear and the other side of my brain is freaking out and they're not communicating.
Elder scrolls lore. That stuff makes Tolkien seem like a marvel writer. Tes is so indepth and complicated. Apearently none of it is even real, and instead is just the dream of an unknown God. Not only that, but everyone both exists and doesn't. People can also realize this is a dream, and to an extent become real. Everything is also it's own being, and, all one being.
How a virus is not alive. It’s just code programmed to make copies if itself. But there are no cells. It’s a non-living thing, eager to stay alive, although it’s not alive.
Trumps. Hair and fake tan. I just don't get it? Is he gonna go the entire office looking like a clown?!
Hundreds of years from now ppl will ask why was he wearing that makeup? Well children, it was a different time and many woman considered the pale skin was better and that lead was not harmful..... Oh wait. Trump right. Ok lets back track.
How mentally healthy people just...exist without mental illness? You've never spiraled and spent all of your money on drugs and art you never finished? There's not some deep, dark childhood trauma that lingers around every corner? Wow, crazy, sounds boring lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck the economy works and why the American government throws unthinkable amounts of money into the stock markets and corporations when things start to go south.
What if I'm in a hallucination. If I'm in a simulation. I mean how tf does my life just do this whole "oh speaking of ____ this is going to happen now."
Speaking of coronavirus, your cat (best friend) will get sick with a URI to the point you'll think he'll die. Oh and did you know cats can get coronavirus?
Update: actually he he did pass away. As of 4am, on thr 13th of april. Seriously fml
Speaking of your cousin getting pulled over for a apeeding ticket, you'll encounter a cop in 2 days sitting in a speed trap but you'll just barely slide by. Be careful next time.
Speaking of seeing a guide on reddit on when deer are out and about, you'll nearly hit 2 on your way to the store tomorrow. At noon.
Wanting to wait in bed 10 more minutes to go use the bathroom? Well, guess what? In exactly 10 minutes your brother will go to use the bathroom and he'll get in right before you step out your bedroom door. Even though he usually gets up much later than you.
I don't understand how a parent can abandon their kid...like just live a happy life ..working...going out for dinner...brushing their teeth...just living life every day as if they don't have a child...I just don't understand.
How anyone can assume a drunk or passed out person is a green light to have sex with them, then say “They asked for it” or “They didn’t say no”. I’m not trying to be political. I GENUINELY can not grasp how someone who doesn’t have a severe mental illness or a traumatic past that affected how they view intimacy can experience that way of thinking.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Also why it's ok to put animals down for the benefit of not living in suffering but it humans want the same compassion it's met with condemnation and arrests.
Why people still fall for MLM's and blantant pyramid schemes in 2020.
I came to this after listening to 2 seasons of The Dream. Its a great podcast detailing the people in targets, history, relation to cults and the mass deregulation of them.
Racism. I honestly just don’t get why anyone would hate someone else because they are a different color or nationality. I’ve been on the receiving end of this even as a white male (albeit minimally and primarily when overseas) and it breaks my heart and boggles my mind why it happens. When I think of how many black folks, especially, are hated and belittled simply because they are black, I just can’t fathom where that hatred comes from. I know all minorities in the US have been victims of racism but it seems to be more prevalent against Black people. I’m thankful for parents that raised me to love everyone, regardless of skin color, and to especially fight for those that are the victims of such cruelty.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started studying music when I was 5, taking cello lessons. Started taking piano as well at 8, joined school band (trombone) in 6th grade, and added choir once I got to high school. Along the way I taught myself a couple other brass instruments and some stringed ones, too. In college, I kept playing cello in the orchestra and did some choir on the side. All this is to say that I have played an assload of music in my life. It’s not even second nature to me, it’s just nature.
I have no clue how/why other instruments can be in another key. If we are all playing the exact same note, why do the strings call it A, and each of the wind sections call it something else entirely? It’s the same note! Let’s just start teaching kids the correct names for notes from the beginning and gradually all the music in the world can be rewritten. Great!
How human are able to do things like breathe, blink, move, smell, and just function subconsciously. I sometimes try to figure out how my body just know, I know it's because of my own brain, but I still don't completely understand it. It makes me wonder that the first humans must've just done things without even realizing that they were doing it.
How computers delete data.
I can understand how the store files and even add new ones but when you delete something from its memory, where does it go? How is it just gone?
I suppose that also means I don't really understand how you can just FORGET things, especially important stuff...
Man I know its cliche cuz politics, but modern Republicans confuse the fuck out of me. How can people genuinely support some of these horribly fucked up people? Like its all but proven they care about money and power no matter how many people they have to step on to keep themselves at the top. Like no doubt theres some bad apples in the Liberal side but even they arent blatantly racist and sexist about it. I cannot fathom it at all.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of putting music/sound onto vinyl records.
I know sound waves, I know bumps and grooves but I just can’t get my head round it.
My mind is blown when I think about it.
Not sure what you mean by that. Nothing can get below 0 Kelvin. That's when there is absolutely no energy in the atoms and particles. Since heat is actually just a measure of energy, it can't get any lower than that.
Yeah, that's weird stuff. It sounds like that's something that exists only in theory and not really in real life. But I don't understand it either, so I don't really know.
Mostly the terms themselves - specifically "below sea level" always confused me because it seems like you'd be underwater. I just don't understand why it's a thing.
So the level of the sea itself isn't exactly used, they use mean sea level, or MSL. That way elevation doesn't depend on the tide changing. And the reason for using sea level in the first place is that the oceans are all at the same elevation, and they're everywhere. You don't need conversion tables to figure it out when you're going from one continent to another.
So above sea level just measures how high you are above MSL. The airport in my home town is 1115' MSL. They measure the difference by using air density or air pressure. The higher you go, the less there is. They do also have to measure temperature, because a high temperature causes the air to expand and lower its density.
Below sea level is only used in certain points, such as Death Valley or around the Dead Sea. These are both below MSL, but there's no way for the water to get to them from the closest sea or ocean, so they remain dry.
If you black out from alcohol and completely forget your night, it simply feels like a gap in time. So did you ever really live it or does it just feel like a skip. Like I know that you lived it, but it just freaks me out to think about. Like one minute you’re drinking and the next it is the next day. You’ll remember it while it’s happening, but in the morning your life will just edit that out. That shit just amazes me and if anyone can help me see it in a different way that’d be much appreciated. <3
I know, I know: they displace more water than they take up. But c'mon, those things are thousands of tons, I can't begin to fathom how that floats in any universe.
Whenever we learnt them at school i was always in hospital or away frok school for some reason and why time we went to highschool i truly never learn't it. I have grade 2 understanding at best.
I have never grasped how a person can just walk up to another person, a stranger, and start a conversation. I get anxious walking into any place where there are people I don't know, and it feels so weird not being able to do that seemingly simple thing.
Societies fascination with reality television. Especially the Kardashians and the bachelor/bachelorette kind of shows. I don’t understand why people care so much about such nonsense. It’s scripted. To each their own though; that’s just me not caring about it whatsoever.
Who I Knew You Were Trouble by Taylor Swift is about. Apparently she said it was about Harry Styles but the timeline doesn’t make any sense because they started dating in October 2012, the same month Red was released. This has been confusing me for a very long time because the timeline and her words completely contradict each other and I don’t know what to believe
Well I see it as a piece of art on someone’s skin. It’s like when there is a feature about yourself you really love like let’s say your eyes. When you look at yourself in the mirror, even if you don’t like anything else, your eyes will give you a bit of confidence. The piece of skin the tattoo is in, if you get your vision perfectly in the tattoo, will be your favourite piece of skin in your entire body, believe me.
It can also be a reminder of why you are where you are.
It’s cool you don’t want to get them. Just thought I’d give my perspective
How it can be true that all dogs came from the same common dog ancestor. A chihuahua and a Great Dane? Seriously? My husband is a geneticist and I have asked him this question once every few months for the last 20 years and he answers it patiently every time but I still don’t quite believe it.
Why the laws punishing drunk drivers (who have injured/killed people) are so ridiculously lenient. Seriously, a guy in our area killed 4 people and is in minimum security for 10 years and is already up for parole after 3-4 years. Make me furious.
The concept of nothingness and not existing. The idea of nothing being after death is terrifying to me because what is nothingness like? What is it like to not exist? I know in reality it doesn’t feel like anything, but it still is so confusing because how does one not exist? How does one prepare themselves for that possible existence, or should I say non-existence?
There is so much proof that vaccines work and save lives and yet they consider it a conspiracy and instead opt for herbal medicine that has no scientific backing or even worse, urine therapy.
How can they risk lives of their children so carelessly?
Earth spins one way, the moon spins the other, in the ‘day’ you face the sun, while the moon is on the ‘dark side’ of the planet.
You can see the moon in the day because it’s not a perfect orbit, so the moon is only ‘halfway’ round when it’s daytime so you can still see it because it reflects the sunlight.
However events like solar eclipses are when the moon’s orbit is so out of sync it’s in front of us, and it’s just pure coincidence that our moon is the same size as our sun relative to our position. You can’t see Mercury or Venus when they pass because they’re so far away and so small
I have pondered much over this. Imagine a material underground, under HIGH pressure. Now imagine all this material doesn't want to squish well together. But the opposing force is much stronger and still squishes the shit out of it. Now some human being goes underground and extracts this shit. This thing now has nothing squishing the shit out of it and starts deteriorating on a molecular level. By deteriorating, I mean, there are tiny little atoms/molecules FLINGING THE FUCK OFF AT SUPER HIGH SPEEDS. I these have almost zero volume so will shred right through most things, except for lead which is like a big dumb dense ass sponge that can actually catch these fuckin things. You can develop tumors from radiation, because these fuckin atoms or whatever the fuck are literally shredding through your fuckin body. You cant feel it because it's really small, but your body still heals the damage caused, and what I imagine happens is a tumor is caused by a fucked up cell that got hit in just the right spot by something, and now it doesn't know how to heal properly and basically grows and grows and grows.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our solar system is being constantly propelled at a speed in reachable by humans— and we can’t even feel it.
How such a high percentage of the world can be such pieces of shit. I really thought it was like 10% but ever since working in the service industry, it’s more like 90%. the percentage of people that don’t tip at all is astounding especially in the time of coronavirus and everybody wants to be special and wonder why “we can’t put their ticket in the front of the line” and saying the reason we do what we do is because we are stupid lazy underachievers who don’t know the value of hard work. How can so many people not give a fuck about other people.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything related to sex. School has taught me nothing and I don’t know how to learn.
People getting angry at each other for differing political opinions! Like yes I understand disagreements happen and debates can get heated. But outright abusing somebody for who they support without any provocation is ridiculous, especially in a democratic society. Differing opinions should be welcomed and debated respectfully whether you agree or not.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my SO’s family all kiss each other on the lips
The state of politics in the US. I have ideals on both sides, I agree with a lot of social ideals of the left despite my personal religious disagreements and I agree with the economic ideals of the right as its caused my family to move up a little in the world.
So you could say I'm libertarian, but they would never win in modern politics. So I go with what would effect me day to day and I side with economic right. I dont see why we cant get a decent 3rd party going though.
I used to be a yellow dog Democrat. I would have voted for a yellow dog so long as he was a dem... now I am not. I consider myself libertarian and I agree with you 100%. The two main parties are so off the charts to the left and right, and I don’t recognize the Dems anymore with all of their socialism crap. It’s a shame.
Why women are so attracted to tall men, even if they're short themselves. Height is an immutable characteristic that has no bearing on absolutely anything. Anything else I'd understand--looks/handsomeness, intelligence, humor, education, income/salary, strength, lovemaking ability, ANYTHING--except for tallness. And for many women, it's absolutely the number one thing they're attracted to. It's wild and I'll never understand it.
I'm a short woman. I wanted a taller man as a husband so that my kids would be taller than me. I was the shortest kid in class by a lot and I always had to fight my way out of the locker room or defend myself from bullies of both sexes. I was determined to go out of my way so that my children wouldn't have to do that. My husband turned out to be 5'10 and my only child (daughter) is 5'4 and still growing, so it is a huge relief to me. I realize that 5'10 isn't really that tall, but he lied to me and said he was 6ft on the phone, and I didn't whip out a measuring tape. Everyone seems tall to me. I'm 5'2.
That's not to say that I didn't date shorter men before I decided I wanted children. I dated quite a few, and one was even shorter than me at the time so I'm guessing he was 5ft or slightly under.
I used to be a smart, motivated kid. I routinely won prizes for being top of the class/school. I didn’t even need to try much of the time, I just absorbed knowledge like a sponge. I was expected to get straight A*s and go to Oxford.
It got a bit iffy when I started being more severely abused and I think the stress of not being able to talk about it got to me. I became scared of going to school and then scared of going outside and after a few months I’d essentially dropped out of society. I was hideously depressed for many years and struggled to have any level of functioning.
I’ve spent the last couple of years now emerging from my pit and trying to re-engage. It’s incredibly hard though because I feel like an entirely different person. I’m too lazy to want to do anything and when I look at the complex maths and science that I used to love getting to grips with, I just can’t understand and of it and I feel like I don’t have the mental energy to even try and understand it. Sometimes I can’t even follow a simple conversation and I especially struggle to understand languages that I used to be functionally fluent in. It’s degrading and humiliating. Sometimes things come back if I get drunk and relax but it’s not exactly a coping strategy I want to use but it does reassure me that I’ve not completely killed off my brain. Maybe it’s just dorment?
What happened? Where are my smarts and can I ever have them back?!
majahi · 2 points · Posted at 01:31:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of twitch and watching other people play video games. I’m not being critical of what others enjoy, and know obviously many people love it for their own reasons. I just genuinely cannot wrap my head around the appeal to it. I used to think it was for people to simply find tips or ways to beat difficult games, which I understand. But just getting enjoyment out of watching someone else play the game confuses me.
I'm not that big into it myself, but it goes one of three ways.
The first is that sometimes, you find someone who's good at a game that you're not so good at. In that case, you can vicariously visit a difficult game, not necessarily to learn how it's done, but to see how a pro does it.
The second is the opposite. When it's someone who's not nearly as good at the game as you are, there's a bit of throw-popcorn-at-the-screen schadenfreude that can be enjoyable as well.
Last is usually the key, though. It's the personality that the person playing brings to the game. They don't just play; they participate. In a way, it's a performance. Sometimes there's sarcastic quips and poking fun at the game. Sometimes, it's a player who gets fully into the game and you can just feel how much fun they're having.
That doesn't mean that those aspects will appeal to you, or that they're universal to other people who watch these kinds of things more than I do, but maybe that'll help you get it a little more.
majahi · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Appreciate the insight, that does make sense to me. Especially what you’re saying on the last one. For some people, it could be just as entertaining as watching a TV show. The person streaming is basically a professional entertainer. Not my thing, but helps make more sense of it.
You got it. As I said, I'm not hugely into it, but enjoyed a series run by Team Four Star. They do an affectionate parody of Dragonball Z and had a few of their voice actors do playthroughs of games while staying in character. Sometimes just highlights. There's some comedy gold in some of those.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skyscrapers. I wanna trust them, my mind just won't allow it, I'm sure it's safe, but I just can't figure out why, and that is frustrating me. I tried to research how they are built, but none will settle my 'insecurities' of being on/in them. I *think* I'm fine with height, Eiffel tower's shape seems logical to me. But a big straight pole upwards, nah
Maybe it's just that I get frustrated by not understanding that makes me not like them, lol.
Statistics. It’s the last class I have to take before graduating and I swear the numbers and formulas get so mixed up in my brain... it’s the only time I’ve ever felt genuinely stupid in my whole life, I was always an A student.
It’s basically just a data type (like int, string, char, bool etc.) that acts as a sort of placeholder for another value stored in memory.
The pointer holds the address of where that value is stored. So couting p for example will give you the address, but couting *p will give you the value associated with that address.
Sometimes you want to reference this value and it may be more efficient or only possible if you use a pointer.
Have you checked out introductory vids? This seems like a good one
Thing is, I know all of this. The issue is when I come to reading or writing code. It all looks like voodoo to me. I'm really unsure why, but it's just one of those things I can't get.
I'm also much more at home with Lisps or other mainly functional languages, despite my origins in programming being in C-like languages. Maybe my brain just doesn't like C.
Hmm that’s interesting. Well if you have access to textbooks they usually have little exercises in the back of each chapter. Have you tried those? And I’d like to think they start off easy. The wonderful thing about it is you can just throw stuff at a wall and see what sticks. Make a short program and try a & here and run it, see what happens, try a * there and see what happens. Often times when I’m confused I’ll just fuck around like that and come to my own conclusions about how things work if the video/textbook explanation isn’t making a concept click.
I'll try that. I've been trying to make a program recently and ive been prototyping it in python for the time being before I translate it to C. I should try reading through K&R if that has any exercises.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been trying to learn guitar (and I have gotten better but) I don’t get how you are supposed to “memorize the fretboard” (so many frets!) and if I learn different blues scales I don’t know how I’m meant to use that while freestyling a solo + adding other notes that aren’t in that scale.. I don’t even know how to ask it haha.
How have you been playing? I've played for like 3 or 4 years and trust me it comes to you. It's less that you memorize it and more like you hand just kinda goes where it needs to be automatically.for me at least
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:05:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well this is the part I know makes sense as to why I’m not a pro by any means ; 1 year maybe, but I haven’t been practicing evvveryday.. solely because I don’t understand where to start really. I learn basic chords and can play a long to most songs (with strumming) but I just am stuck in playing campfire songs when I want to be soloing. Just overwhelming I guess when you don’t even know how to search the questions you have haha.
Death. I get conception and birth- two raw ingredients merge and evolve into a baby. I get that flowers and trees wither and die.
I just can’t wrap my head around death of humans and animals. When I’m with a person who is talking to me and then they no longer exist, or a dog is still staring at me and wagging his tail and then just isn’t; I just can’t understand it. It used to be so simple to me. It’s death. They are gone.
As I’ve grown older I become more perplexed. How is it we live these complicated lives and then it’s just gone. All of those memories and experiences just cease to exist. I guess ultimately I understand death of the body, but not the cessation of the conscious. The body gets old, sick, or damaged and stops working, much like a car in a wreck. The parts are still there but they don’t function anymore. I just don’t understand the death of consciousness. How the essence of someone is just gone in the blink of an eye. (And no - I don’t believe in an afterlife. I believe this is it. When you are gone, you are gone).
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:02:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing... I have some rhythm but when it comes to learning dance moves I’m so horribly stiff and awkward. My family and friends have tried to teach me but I just don’t get it.
This has to be one of the most humbling things I have ever seen on Reddit. Such a good question is bringing out so many excellent answers that is really making me feel good about myself and somewhat 'normal'.
Knowing that every person despite what their strengths or weaknesses are or how intelligent or unintelligent they may seem to be, all experience the same doubts and misunderstandings in similar ways. This really helps with a lot of insecurities that I personally have with imposter syndrome.
Thanks OP and everyone who answered honestly
I guess most of the stuff that I see has the facist ideology representing that certain side of the political compass. A good example of what i mean is this youtuber called Jreg and his centricide series.
Why did all my hobbies become boring after a while?
I get a new game for example and it’s fun for a while, but then it gets boring after a while. It wasn’t like that a few years before.
If God created all of creation then who created God? And if there is no God what is the source of the known universe? What was before the Big Bang? Where is the beginning?
How someone put a couple wires together and made a computer work. How does someone even think, "So what if I put these wires and pieces of metal together" .
How people communicate feelings. I'm very well versed in keeping everything on the inside and when I try to do just that I make no sense and words don't work.
Abdu_1 · 2 points · Posted at 02:15:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand, nor have I ever, how people can be so blatantly mean. Whether it be, in the store, online, in a waiting room, anywhere. I see people just being total assholes with each other. I have bad days, I get pissed, but I have never been able to just be mean, especially to total strangers.
How to balance a chemical equations. Scraped through two low-level university Chem courses, just by memorising almost everything in the textbook chapters...as in memorising them as images with solution-images. Miraculous.
Peeing on toilet seats. Why. Just c’mon man, if you do a couple drops take two seconds to wipe it. If we all did that I bet there’d be far less murder suicides!
When people put a not in a yes or no question. For example "Do you not like that?" You can respond by saying "No I don't like that." or " No I do like that" Pretty much yes or no questions. I don't know why though, I think I think to much about yes or no questions.
To be fair, you got a point. But i'm just thinking sometimes, in a world where there would be no planets, no form of life, no space, just... just nothing. It just seems a little scary, but maybe that's just me.
How when you become aware of your breathing pattern, you start controlling it. And it seems like you have to passively breathe forever now.. until it somehow becomes autonomous again...
I honestly and genuinely do not understand why the United States does not have a universal healthcare system. The people against it (unfortunately outnumbering the people for it) are so adamantly and ferociously against helping out their fellow person while preaching freedom and ‘merica yet don’t give a single fuck about anyone. It’s ridiculous. Then they call it socialist communism because they don’t know what either word means. The propaganda surrounding it is sickening and it’s such a hard concept for them to grasp even though 32 of 33 countries that have it have made it work. I live in Canada and here in Alberta the government is trying to privatize the healthcare system in the province and I don’t get why more people aren’t furious about it.
How there are still people who think the earth is flat.
Coxinh · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure if I know anything properly. I guess i don't really understand if i really understand things? Learning shit is frustrating, you never get less ignorant
How do people communicate and how can someone easily find a person to talk with.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum mechanics, thermodynamics, any physics really. how to make relationships with anyone in any capacity. how to write a novel/screenplay, because i keep coming up with stories, i figure i should write some down. why the hate on pineapple on pizza, why ppl like mumble rap
Not to be controversial but why people question their gender. I don’t want to cause any debate but a friend of mine recently came out as non-binary and I don’t understand why one bit
Flat Earthers/ Anti-vaxxers. "You've never seen it!" or "What about the Black Plague, that went away without a vaccine!" 1. Well, I've never seen a lot of things, like I've never seen a murder or a mugging. I didn't see my parents conceive me, but here I am. 2. A third of Europe died. Because there was no vaccine. No, random doctors aren't out to get you because you and your child exist as puny, insignificant humans on the rock hurtling through space. No, the government isn't trying to poison. There is no proper argument for these theories!
The concept of water conservation. If the let the water run in my sink while I brush my teeth, it runs down the drain, to the sewers, to a treatment plant and then released back into the lake or reservoir or wherever and then it’s sucked back up to the water treatment again and delivered back to the next person brushing their teeth. It doesn’t disappear off the face of the earth.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:00:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cannot live and let live. You’re against gay marriage? Don’t marry a gay person; there’s no reason for you to try to prevent other gay people from marrying. Against abortion? Don’t get one.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate to get political, but I dont understand how people can think that Trump has done nothing wrong. I can understand thinking that the good things he has done outweigh the bad, or say that you done care. But there are some people who whole heartedly thing he has done nothing wrong, even though everything is out in the open and one can find direct transcripts of what he has said. There is evidence he has done bad/stupid/illegal things, so why do some people think he hasn't done anything wrong?
How space is continuous and never has an ending then if it did have an ending what would be blocking it and also if a god or higher power exist because how was god created but if their is no god how do all these planets exist etc
God damn investment stuff. I have a diploma in science , done high level calculus but economics just doesn’t make sense to me. Luckily I understand mortgages pretty well for the house but hopefully I’ll die before I need to retire or I’m fucked.
The sheer vastness and limitless expanse of the universe. I can’t grasp it. I love watching documentaries on the subject, but nobody fucking knows what the width of one billion quadrillion Jupiters is. Where does it start, where does it end ? How did it begin ? Could have it been the Big Bang if Newton’s first law states that an object object at rest remains at rest unless it is acted upon an outside force ? What was the force ? So many questions, and man has been only to two floating rocks in this vast expanse.
The idea that a female has invested so much positive emotion into me that she is willing to let me touch and go inside of her. I realize how fucking creepy that sounds but I have to break it down that way to drive the point home.
It's unreal.
I'm 24 and I still can't crack the code but it amazes me every time.
I've got this beautiful girl in front of me, who can be anywhere else in the world but she's chosen to be right there, in front of me, naked, and ready to do whatever the fuck just because I said some words and conducted some actions.
Side-note: Was faced with a breakup last week and since getting back into the spin of the single life, this thought hit me hard.
edit - I know there's a virus. Don't worry. I'm keeping it in my pants until the air is clear.
Why we, as humans, with the resources, manpower and brainpower to reach for the stars, spend ridiculous amounts of time and money figuring out better ways to kill each other over dirt and imaginary friends.
hscene · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people keep ear buds in their ears? I can’t wear air pods and such because they always fall out within seconds. Or I’ll put one side in and the other falls out instantly. I need the ones that go over your head or I can’t use any.
Personally, the good ones that you want if you do any sort of physical activity have these rubber tips that sit between the arches on the inside your ear lobe. They prevent the buds from moving. I’ve done HIIT and not once have they budged or gotten loose where I felt they would fall out. The Apple fanboys will downvote me, but the design of AirPods is trash. They fall out of my ears if I’m so much as walking.
I don't understand people who go out of their way to be an arsehole.
I've met so many people who for no reason, are just jerks.
What I don't understand is why they do it.
Why not just be normal and be nice to people? Why not make a bunch of friends and have a good time wherever you go?
Instead they darken peoples day by being mean. I won't ever understand that...
How people believe in god. Even when I was a small child I didnt get it. I was told I was supposed to so I tried, I really tried. Even when I would talk the talk and walk the walk, I could never do it. It seriously seems so strange to me that people genuinely believe.
The self victimization of black communities. I grew up in the hood. The hood-hood. Not some Mickey Mouse club house where kids parents are working class and kids like to get in trouble cause they’re bored. But shoot outs and drive bys every other day kind of hood.
Yeah the system is fucked up, but why sit and be a pussy ass bitch and complain about it? I’ve always been about “if you don’t like the rules, play by the rules to change the rules.” Of you don’t like the white mans rule, play by his rule to change the rules. No “socio economic” social study/experiment can convince me of just plain out weak mindedness. Especially after the grievance studies affair papers.
I genuinely don't understand how the DARK/DEEP web works... Who controls the inner workings? Is it just illegal websites or is it used for something more?
Why pepole have a Grudge over the lgbtq+ community like my cousin he despises me
jdlech · 2 points · Posted at 04:15:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How assholes get anywhere.
I really don't get how people can go through life acting like assholes to everyone without getting shived. Either literally, or metaphorically.
Because every time I meet an asshole, the only thing I want to do is shive him - either physically or metaphorically. I become especially unwilling to do anything for him. I deliberately make his life as difficult as I can. Once one identifies oneself as an asshole, I become his own personal asshole.
I'll bend over backwards for a nice person; and even for an average person. I make it a habit to not start shit with anyone. So why would anyone tolerate an asshole? Assholes deserve a hellish life. And I think everyone has a moral obligation to make their life hell. Otherwise, assholes might proliferate - and none of us want that.
Everyone should tell assholes to fuck right off and refuse to do anything for them. So how the fuck do assholes get anywhere in life?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:22:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can I make my limbs move? Like if I think “I want to move my right hand” my right hand won’t just move. Yet somehow I am able to move my right hand when I want without having to command it or think about it.
People who buy huge houses for their tiny families and never have anyone over.
I know someone who's family is moving into a huuuge four story house so that they can have more space during the quarantine. This house has 6 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, a ginormous backyard, about 6 balconies, a spa and 2 living rooms, and it's for two parents with two kids.
I get all the rules, but just randomly move bits around for a while until there are obvious moves to make, but even that has no strategy. I just can’t do it
Languages like how do people make different sounds and it garners different meanings.... also accents lol
sontaj · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music.
To me it is basically just noise? I find some music more pleasant, but I rarely make any strong emotional connection to it and I certainly don't like music enough to play it for its own sake. Generally speaking I do tasks in silence as music tends to distract me from what it is I am doing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t wrap my head around how people delude themselves into believing things that are clearly not true. It doesn’t make sense to me that a human being with a brain and a basic education could fall for stupid lies
Yeah, on a certain level, things can make sense. I can see an apple fall from a tree and know it's because gravity. But how does gravity work? Why does it work? Or video or audio recording. No idea at all how those actually work. Or brains. Or communication. Economics. Anything.
You might understand the surface version of it. The words and generalizations and assumptions we humans have made up to sort the universe. But I've come to the conclusion that if you think about anything enough it stops making any sense whatsoever, and you can say that you understand something but really you're just lying to yourself.
I mean, it’s not like an every day purchase people make. People buy one every like 10 years, and even then, it’s only a few hundred dollars. Like a grand for a nice king. Then you never see that customer for a decade.
Yet these places rent out the largest stores to showcase the mattresses, and there’s never anyone there. I have no idea how these places bring in enough money to pay rent.
Why the fur trade was so detrimental to the North American Aboriginal Population. I understand, in a vacuum, why it sucked, but I don't understand why there was no trade with the Aztecs before then; in other words, why metal tools didn't exist in Canada and the United States before Europeans came along, when gold smelting was popular in Mexico.
Stig0 · 2 points · Posted at 04:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how, but at a sub-atomic level, the laws of physics fly out the window. Look into quantum mechanics, electrons are in fact matter, but depending on whether we observe them or not, they can act like waves and can in some cases even for lack of a better term, “teleport” past physical objects. Interesting stuff for sure.
The purpose of dishwashers. I grew up without one so we would wash all dishes by hand. I bought a house almost 3 years ago with a dishwasher and have never used it because I don't see the point. You are supposed to rinse the plate before loading it into the dishwasher and wait for it to be full to not be wasteful. But that would mean I would need to buy like twice the amount of plates I currently have. If I have to rinse them already why not just wash them? I am looking at getting a drink fridge installed and getting rid of the dishwasher.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transgenderism. I completely accept that trans people don't feel like they were born in the correct body, but I don't understand what it even feels like to be a particular gender. If it's simply a matter of liking "boy stuff" or "girl stuff" then isn't that reinforcing the socially constructed gender norms? I'm genuinely not judging or doubting trans people, I just really don't get it. I think it's something that you have to experience to really understand, so I'm not sure that it's something I'll be able to understand, but if any trans people want to explain what it feels like to be born in the wrong body (If I'm saying that accurately), or would like to correct anything I've gotten wrong, I'd love to learn.
You were born in the wrong time. Your understanding of others is stuck in the 50’s. Trans rights are human rights, treat them like they are any person. If they are cool, be nice.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:19:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are you talking about? Did I deny trans rights? This thread is about something we don't understand, so I guess your comment fits.
Housing as a basic human right. It seems like it would be in the best interest of everyone to give as many people as possible basic housing. If you want a nice house go for it but a 600 square ft. basic home should be essentially free at this point. I don't understand how this problem hasn't been solved yet.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:56:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why two men alleged rapist in their 70s, neither one liked by the majority of Americans, are the two people deemed the most qualified to be president of the United States for the next 4 years.
Or, alternatively, why Joe Biden, a 77 year old man, possibly suffering from the beginnings of dementia, accused of sexual assault, and whose primary reason for running is “beat Trump,” is the candidate most liked by the democratic party. I know literally no one who actually thinks he’s a good candidate. Everyone I talk to says he’s awful, but that they support him because he’s more likely than candidate X to beat trump. If Joe Biden can beat Trump, shouldn’t someone with actual policies and a vision for a better America with policies that will actually effect change in America also be able to do that?
The idea of eternity and time in general. How long was there nothing before the universe was created either by a boom or a creator? How long has existence of everything been?
Modern LED headlights in modern cars. Like, they're eye-piercingly bright. How TF did they get approved, they are way too bright (likely we are more sensitive to whiter light vs orange-y/yellowly light as moonlight is white-ish) and they definitely increase hazard to other drivers because sometimes they're so bright in your mirrors or in front of you that you can barely see. Literally everyone I know hates them and the internet has plenty of hatred as well. How do they continue to be produced and fitted when an entire civilization is expressing their disdain towards them?
I work in hospitality so I genuinely don’t understand how people can be rude to other humans (especially minimum wage employees). Also human decency is a big one as well
How people in a family of essential workers deal with a child?
Drop them off for care while you work (family, because every facility is closed).. are able to pick said child back up and not have to quarantine for 10-14 days and do the same thing again.
How any animal knows what is food and what is not. Like if you have a cracker in hand, most likely a dog will already know it's food. But if you have a rock and try to feed it to the dog, he knows it's not food and won't eat it.
How do they just know? I know as humans we are constantly told what is and what isn't food or edible, but sometimes dogs grow up without guidance from another and they just automatically know that bark off a tree isn't food for them and won't eat it, but can tell that cooked, flavourless rice or pasta is food and they can eat it.
I just don't understand how they just know. That and how certain things do stuff for them. Like how eating grass helps an upset stomach. How do they just automatically know that or how is it that they just immediately go to eating that as a solution like it's common knowledge despite not being taught?
I never have done taxes and I’m trying to get the 1200$ but it’s is saying I need a pin and when I go to apply for one it says I’m not eligible... help!!
Capitalism: an economic and political system in which a country's trade and industry are controlled by private owners for profit, rather than by the state. And yet you use that same capitalism to make money off people with you’re Onlyfans nice one 👍
The desire to want children. I have tried to get there in my head many many times and just can never get to the need or want others have. I feel like whatever makes most people want them is missing from me completely. I'm 35, with my wife for 13 years and it has never even been a serious thought in my mind.
How and why my intellect was assigned to this body. If you think about it, your mind could have belonged to an animal or even your best friend. It gets even weirder when you try to figure out why that happened and why you control this body instead of someone else's.
I don’t understand why some people don’t use a blinker. I’m like — it’s literally for YOUR own safety, plus the dozens of others around you. I’m all about good communication in every way, so it blows my mind when people choose not to use a blinker.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get it, we all want to go outside and it's getting to the point where some just can't hold it anymore. But if you think for any moment that your freedom is worth the pain and possibly even death of several others, then you've got a problem.
I know this will get people mad, but I genuinely don't understand why people like animal crossing. to me it looks monotonous and boring, with a really pandering artstyle.
I think it comes down to the same reason people like world of Warcraft. Rather than something like overwatch or call of duty where the excitement comes from the suspense of the fast paced game mechanics. Animal crossing is really good as rewarding people for reaching long term goals and making small improvements in the game over time.
Semicolons. No matter how many times I ask people, the internet or even my *english teacher* mother I just cannot wrap my head around how to properly use a fucking semicolon.
Pro-life. As a cover for anti-abortion, the pro-life movement seems to only care for “life” before birth. The amount of pain and suffering they inflict on those who wish to make their own choices about their own bodies, is criminal.
I would understand if they were putting their resources into the result of not having an abortion, but that doesn’t seem to happen. Bringing a life into this world is not easy, yet these folks want to force it on people they don’t have a clue about.
Telephones. And I don’t even mean cellphones, even the old school wired ones. Just can’t get my head wrapped around hoe these things work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any of the things we've done to build a society for the last couple 100 years. Your average person isn't happy with the state of the world, and yet here we are, continuing to march forward while we all complain about what we're marching toward.
When you look through a high power telescope into a distant part of the universe, you’re seeing how it was millions of years ago, not currently, because the light takes time to travel. If you’re able to see something, how is it that it’s not in its current state?
Fucking quantum computing, how can something be both positive and negative at the same time. (Same concept)
Computers and the making of said computers. I have a basic idea of their functions but I have no understanding how you put lightining inside a rock which lets me play video games. Something to do with signals and that results on what we see on screen. I just don't understand it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:14:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
EboBro · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sun can stay so bright for so long of a time. The vastness of space.
sankis · 2 points · Posted at 06:10:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking selfies. My face was always something I tried to hide. That people can post pictures of themselves and be happy with how they look good is just a feeling something my brain cannot comprehend.
I've never understood U.S. politics. I think its because its so faceted, almost too transparent, or maybe because I'm Canadian and ours is so tame comparatively. Either way, your politicians are basically celebrity's. They should be working for you but both sides of the aisle seem to only be self interested. U.S. citizens revere and idolize politicians of every level, or seem completely apathetic to it. Why are you so dedicated to people who don't care about you? Why are your political beliefs inherited instead of earned? Why can't you admit a politician is bad of they're bad? Why don't you hold these people accountable?
People who genuinely like to do productive things. The kind which goes like “Yea I was reading Kant’s critique of pure reason before bed the other day and....” WITHOUT just trying to sound elitist. The kind which makes apps in their spare time.
You can tell who these people are by the fact that they never mean to brag. They’re genuinely confused when people are surprised at the amount of work they’re doing and the knowledge that they have.
For them what they’re doing doesn’t require any willpower or discipline, it’s what they WANT to do. I could never imagine myself genuinely wanting to work. And I don’t even have a job yet. (I’m in college not a potato). I don’t know if that trait is learned or how to learn it if it is.
How everything just exists like this. A world where we have things like hands and feet and things we are born with that makes life just so much easier. I know that evolution plays a big part but everything is pretty well organized all the way down to the last atom.
I've had this explained to me so many times and still don't understand how the "Monty Hall Problem" works. Why does switching to the door offered increase chance of winning to 2/3? Why isn't the chance of winning always 1/2?
Fellow BPD here and I think I can explain why you can’t take criticism even when it is fair. (Keep in mind this is just true for many people with BPD, may not be true for you).
The whole thing about people with BPD is that they have no inherent self worth not at all. Everything, every emotion every reaction stems from that.
Yeah, while I take medications to help stabilize my moods, I personally have just accepted that I will be BPD the rest of my life (and I am only twenty something).
Sorry man, hope things somehow manage to get better.
Edit: Now I am paranoid that I may have offended you. I promise I have no malicious intent! I just wrote down what I have heard a million times. And while this is true for me, it may not be true for you. So sorry!
iConcy · 2 points · Posted at 06:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get how Hellen Keller knew what she knew if she was deaf and blind before she was two. How can someone who is deaf and blind understand the concepts of words like “orange” or “fog” if they have no reference for it? How can you teach someone words when they can neither see or hear? Maybe I’m missing something and haven’t spent enough time learning about her, but I’ve always been baffled by it.
I hate being late, but I have virtually no concept of how long things will take, get distracted incredibly easily and am an expert procrastinator
Even if it’s something I do every day, I need constant alarms and reminders to keep me on track
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:47:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much wood a woodchuck could chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood.
I have no clue how vaginas holes work. Apparently there is two?. Help. What are the holes functions? One to pee the other for sex? Can the guy enter the wrong hole? I feel so stupid for not understanding. As you can see I did not get a good sex ed class.
Why parents kick out their children for being gay, transgender or anything that goes against the religion or what the parents think is right. I understand it’s a huge shocker for them but that is your child, it doesn’t matter if they’re adopted or biological. You had a child and have loved it it’s entire life, you bully someone and tell them to kill themselves? Oh you’re just being kids, no harm done but, as soon as that kid says “I’m gay/bi/pan etc” their a disgrace to the family name and you kick them out?
How photographs work. Digital or otherwise. It just seems otherworldly to me that we have a device that can essentially snatch a moment of time and preserve it, encapsulate it, and reproduce it so well that future generations can look back and say, “oh that’s what grandpa looked like. Neat.”
With all this time stuck at home, and plenty of things around me to do (musical instruments, design programs, art programs etc.) I find coming up with anything original in the creative sense almost impossible. Like there are things in my head that would make great stories, songs or pictures, but it feels like they're just outside the corner of my eye, so to speak. It's disheartening and I don't understand.
How do build a computer language? I mean how did we even invent the first computer to compute calculations?
I simply cannot imagine Charles Babbage simply sitting in his lab or whatever and suddenly he develops a method of communicating with circuits to do some calculations for him.
And whereas doing calculations is one thing.. how the hell did we get from there, to being able to create virtual Voice Assistants that can do bizarre things?
Republicans and why they're so fucking stupid, more importantly Trumptards and why they blindly follow the orange goon. He's so fucking stupid, it's painful to watch his daily briefings.
Precisely my point. Everything is laid out with multiple news sources and yet you blindly follow the fucking moron. Get your head out of your ass and stop watching fox.
Discrimination. I honestly have no clue as to why, anybody would want to attack or annoy someone else for being different. Why should Gay people be shamed for liking someone the same gender as them?Why are women put down for being the weaker sex? Why are people with different skin colours called names? What’s wrong with all these things, and why do people hate it so much?
Why I have such difficulty hanging washing up once it’s finished in the machine. Sometimes I just wash it all again to avoid doing it. No reasonable reason for not doing it but I just can’t a lot of the time
The reason I was put on this earth to be bullied and have every aspect of my life feel so miserable and confusing and like I’m just wasted space. Why if I’m so miserable i can’t just make it quit without being to scared.
God damn record players and how a needle can apply friction to make sound. Even thinking of it in terms of vibration gets me. Recording a vinyl makes a vibration that cuts a physical groove that when scratched at the right speed plays back the exact same sound. How is it even made louder?!
And I'm like a musician as well, I know about amplifiers and stuff! It just boggles my mind!
How things exist. Where did all the matter come from? Did it always exist? If so why did it exist? And why the amount there is? If it didn't always exist how was it created? From what? Argh..my head
It was explained to multiple times, but currently all I get are the following:
1) Electricity comes from a hole in the wall
2) sometimes spare electricity have to be released from my pc after I touched the heater
How a lying, manipulating narcissist, only looking out for his personal profit can be the president of the United States.
It honestly makes me think americans are dumb. They are literally trying their hardest to destroy their country but voting for this orange haired toddler. How is it that so many people are voting against their own good? I could understand if this was a devious master politician. But no, what Trump is doing, is so incredible obvious that it makes me doubt the intelligence of the american people.
How once again the race for US president is between two sex offenders, one of which is a pedophile.
W31R1N · 2 points · Posted at 12:07:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did an entire *universe* was created from nothing? I mean, there was some energy and whatever, but how did that was created? How were created those *things* before the "Big Bang".
(Sorry for any mistakes, English isn't my first language, obviously)
I know what an apple tastes like. But does the combination of tastebuds, nerve conduction and electrical impulses in your brain result in the same taste sensation to you as it does for me?
The whole righty-tighty lefty-loosy thing. It's a circle. There is no right or left. Also, if im screwing two objects together, which does right and which goes left?
How planes work. They're so heavy and big. It doesn't make any goddamned sense and I've read up on it. I understand the idea, just not the fact that it works.
I’ll never understand why so many Americans (and probably non-Americans as well) are so susceptible to empty puffery by salesmen. He’s not a business man in any meaningful sense so even the whole “the business of America is business” thing doesn’t quite explain it. It’s all sales and marketing the product behind the curtain is worthless and venture after venture fails miserably once the time comes to deliver. It would take minimal research to discover that pretty much everything this guy has ever touched has turned to shit, whether or not it had anything to do with politics. I wouldn’t hire this guy to stock shelves with cat toys if I ran a Petco.
Expensive designer brand clothes such as Gucci or Louis Vuitto . I really don't understand the appeal, they usually look like normal clothes with there logo or look like something you would find in the discount bin in a second hand store, but people go nuts for them
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:54:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human brain. I could make an entire list about the craziness I don’t get. Like why does hypocrisy exist? Why are there genuinely bad people? How does it remember things so vividly with little electrical signals? Why when I think to myself is it in my voice? How am I thinking to myself?
How did we invent bread? I mean, you don't just find bread in the wilderness. You've got to look at this grain and decide "hey i could crush that." And then youve got to think "i could make it wet." And then add some rot ro it, and then make that rotten crushed wet grain really hot.
how I got a C- for reading a play with perfect speech compared to the rest is what flutters through my mind to this day.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:26:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reasoning behind our healthcare structure.
DC4MVP · 2 points · Posted at 15:29:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
Like space is infinite....it apparently never ends (as far as we know). It just goes on and on and on and on and on. It's just mind boggling that we haven't even thought about scratching the surface of space exploration in 60+ years.
And that makes you think, how is there not life elsewhere?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have read about how it works but still can't comprehend it. I'm actually interested in buying and selling stocks to try and make money but for the life of me can't make sense of it. (I know with the virus going on this is probably a terrible time)
Also, all of the people standing in the room looking at monitors is so weird to me...like how do you know what any of that means!
I think its just natural human bias. People like to think that they are better then everyone else and its as simpkle as that. Fortunately racism, sexism and(cant find ism words for Homophobic and Trans phobic ) is going out of fashion ( I hear about a lot more boomer racists than millennial ones. but then again, I am a millennial myself so I might just be displaying the natural human bias I was talking about. But sadly even if all of these things die out and humans become equal for the first time is history soon enough I beleive robots will become smart enough to want rights and using them to do calculations (etc) will be considered slavery and once robot slavery gets abolished we will most likely treat them differently in a depressing repeat of dark history.
How my grandma can harass and berate me any way she wants to, but I'm not allowed to stand up for myself, being a younger member of a family. I don't see how her age was a proper reason for trying to control every aspect of my life and yelling at me for disobeying.
She used to get really offended every time I was explaining to her the unfairness of the whole ordeal. She manipulated me by screaming, crying, cussing, locking me in my room, and leaving me without a dinner. In her opinion, her actions were always justified as she was an elderly, while I was an entitled prick.
Peevin · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers, flat earthers, vegans and people who think the moon landing was fake. Basically idiots
People who want to use the current crisis to enact positive change rather than going back to normal first and then trying to make the world better after we've recovered
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia, racism, etc. How could someone hate another person just for...being different? I don't get it
The pressure to go to post secondary schools (College&Uni)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dentists make a point about a tooth decaying in coke. They leave it in for 2 weeks straight without cleaning it like yes I need to stop holding coke in my mouth like a pelican for 2 week bits without brushing
Women who support patriarchy.
I understand that men want to be in power(etc.) and hence support it but how do can women support their own suppression?
For example, it is unimaginably infuriating to hear a woman say that she is meant to do a job like cleaning utensils because she is a woman and that, I as a woman, should also follow the same.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:37 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
How helicopters work. Yes I know the theory, but my mind can't get around those big steel things just lift up.
I honestly don't understand why printing more money doesn't solve problems, and instead causes inflation.
I don't think I'm a dumb person, I do well in school, but I just cannot comprehend why this does not work. My mum is exhausted trying to explain it to me, so maybe y'all can help?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:56 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to compare money to gold, a mineral which is expensive because of its rarity.
If gold became more common, it'd be cheaper, causing it to inflate.
Money does the same thing, pretty much. The difference here being that the value of currency depends on the number on the monetary unit and not the value of the metal or paper itself.
Graphing functions. Had it explained to me a ton of different ways by different teachers, no dice. I passed college algebra by the absolute SKIN of my teeth because of my inability to grasp the understanding of it.
Some people see sex as a sin punishable by eternity in the 9th circle of hell (or something stupid like that) but claim that life is the most precious thing to ever exist and is God's gift.
most of the things I genuinely don't understand are things that I don't want to understand. But one thing, is how the hell does money in the music industry work? I'm learning about it in a class and it's SO confusing
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:55:52 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, bullying, homophobia, ghetto mentality, trolls and Trump!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 15:21:06 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:24:05 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have any idea what kind of and the amount of science and charity was being done in the bronze age? 4000 years ago. How you have one up vote is beyond me.
You need to read about The Tea Party of the Early 21st Century. The Bronze age was way before any current Churches were created. Maybe you're thinking of Franciscan Monks of the 13 hundreds. Doesn't make up for Spanish Inquisition and the burning of Incan Texts.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rather odd to look to the early 21st century for the origin of torture and science suppression dontcha think?
Well this is the century I happen to live in. If you have proof of the Tea Party using torture please notify the authorities. BUT Institutions that got rich off torture still exist today and pay retirement benefits to child molesters. True or False?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right that they suppressed science, but they were not the "origin of torture". That's insane, torture has been around as long as mankind in some form.
Knute5 · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feels good to do a good thing. Yup, then you're hooked. Kind of like that first Scientology personality test... but I'd rather be tortured and suppressed than be the asshole doing it. And there's a few religions and churches that do have a pretty clean record.
But you're not doing a good thing you're supporting someone who lies for a living.. Fucking money for nothing Chicks for Free.If churches paid taxes like a bowling alley has to there wouldn't be poor people for you to pretend to help.
Knute5 · 2 points · Posted at 00:30:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Megachurches make money. Corner church? Not so much. (proof: I'm a preacher's kid). I'm not a Christian. Went another way, but I have nothing against those who do. For hundreds of years they've helped knit communities together. But to your point, yes, a lot of messed up churches and no, they shouldn't be political activists without getting their tax-free status pulled.
Rostin · 19 points · Posted at 19:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's hard to understand about that? Think of it like a club that has dues. The club needs money to operate, and its members feel that they derive benefit from the club, or that the club's mission is important, so they pay.
Trust me I know my Church's finances and yeah they DO need money. Do you really think the only bill people pay is taxes? I hope you never try to start a business if you think all you have to pay to run a place is taxes. First a church has to pay their staff, even if it's only the Pastor. Then you have utilities. Most pay some kind of housing for the Pastor(ever heard of a Parsonage?). Even if it's an allowance over having an actual house. Of course you have maintenance. ALL buildings need to be maintained and a public building like a church can't cut as many corners as people do with their house. Do some churches get more then they need? Yes. Hopefully they are doing good with it, but not all do. My mine point though was that they do still have plenty of expenses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually most churches are small churches that do need the money. Where do you think the money to keep the lights on and the building maintained and such comes from? What do you think that they do that generates revenue that they don't need donations?
I mean I could ask the same thing about pretty much every non-America country.
Why no military? Imagine living in a world where one country’s military is essentially the world’s military but people still complain about how much that country’s military costs.
Indeed. You would think that other nations would pay their fair share. But the US still foots a large part of the bill while we still spend money on our own military and it still trumps the UN peacekeepers by a huge margin.
Well we learned it form G.B.. When everyone was shifting over the cost to reeducate the general public and recreate every aspect our infrastructure just made it not worth it. Additionally, most Americans actually have a general knowledge of both systems depending on their exposure. Personally, I was in the military so I understand metric distances pretty intuitively. I've always measured my liquids in liters and milliliters, but many don't. People in more science related fields regularly use the metric system.
When I traveled abroad, the most difficult conversion that did not come naturally is Fahrenheit to Celsius and vise versa. I don't necessarily think that Celsius is inherently better for every day use but it is clearly better in a scientific environment, which again, people in those fields use Celsius.
As to why not free healthcare, that is more of a a subjective matter in regards to the role of government in the US. Many conservatives believe that providing health care is simply not a role of the government. A considerable number of medical advancements in recent history have taken place in the United States because there is more monetary incentive here than in other places.
The marginal benefit is not worth the cost of switching to metric.
Nothing is free. Why no universal healthcare? I like the idea but I don’t trust the government to handle it without corruption and misuse of tax funds.
it was made by one single scientist in the 1700s where he set 0°F to the coldest temperature he was able to achieve himself at the time. Shortly after establishing it he was able to achieve a colder temperature himself. Nothing about fahrenheit makes any sense at all.
Celsius has two datapoints which both are super relevant both to humans in our daily lives as well as in science. Water freezing point and water boiling point.
I'll say that is my understanding of what the idea is supposed to be, however I don't see where you are wrong of the feel of Celsius. I'd bet the rest of the people think that 30 feels like 30 C. Just us Americans are used to our system so we like the wider range for what we think the FEEL is.
Yeah, this sounds like horseshite. How it “feels”. Oh it feels like a 70 out today, doesn’t it bob? We should make a measurement out of this completely arbitrary number.
Because the dude that was sailing to the US to introduce and teach metric at the time, got all his shit stolen or lost. I can't remember his name but that's basically what happened.
I can at least try to awnser the no free healthcare. Well first gotta be that one guy with the obligatory "it's not really free" ok, now I'll get started. Alot of Americans dont vote for free healthcare since they really dont like and possibly fear anything that leans more left then they feel is comfortable and possibly combined with ignorance. And a personal reason for me and others who enjoy firearms, many of the political figures who want to start government funded healthcare and other programs like want to criminalize and demonize gun owners.
Then again this is just the opinion of a dumb as fuck 16 year old American who dosent know a while lot about politics.
Having been raised half in america, half elsewhere, I have this terrible bastardized system of measurement that works in my head where I go from inches to meters and grams to pounds and it’s all messed up
I say metric is much better. Except for Fahrenheit, I still prefer that. Celsius isn’t exact enough, the difference between 24 and 25 degrees is too significant. But the difference between 24.3 and 24.4 is negligible. So a system like Fahrenheit where the differences between the degrees is just right makes more sense to me.
cant comment on the healthcare... but it is too late to switch to the metric system in here in america. all of our machinery depends on the imperial system.
Why would you eat a cow? (I’m not some raging vegan, I’m making a point)
It is cultural. As to why specifically what we (and other Asian cultures) consider strange or gross as a bat? Rural regions and a history of famines would explain its apparition, cultural aspects or norms or tradition would explain its persistence to the modern era.
Also, it is not as if wet markets where bats are sold/eaten are some raging hotspot for the current Chinese culture, it’s isolated cultural expressions.
Why reddit is so dam liberal. I don't expect it to be conservative by any means but it is surprising how far left reddit is. You'd think it would balance out to the center somehow.
Honestly it’s because Reddit is a hive mind. Half these people probably don’t even care about politics but the only way to get an upvote is to say something very far left.
Hw, You go to school for 8 hours for 5 days. Then go home and do 4 hours of hw. Why!?
If it’s so you can know the work and do it without a teacher and for extra practice. A lot of the times in class anyways the teacher give us work and we have to do it and they don’t help at all and just watch us try to do it. For homework now-a days half my class doesn’t even do it or, they just copy of each other and cheat. But if we did in class the teacher could watch us and make sure that people are actually doing it and actually learning it.
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that's why I almost never did my homework. Too much hastle. Now my work ethics is wack, and during our little corona party I can't bring myself to study. Even for winter exam session I started to study 2 weeks before exams, and basically had to learn whole semester in that time. And boy was that boring stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly get home work from Spanish, math, and earth science. Not really too much from any other classes but those 3 classes give soo much where I can’t even have to much time to just relax after school, Even more with sports I don’t get anytime during sport seasons.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a university degree holds so much bearing. Hell if you have 20 years experience, this kid just paid 50k for a piece of paper, he’s more suited for the job! (An extreme example yes, but my point still stands)
In the past In that situation I probably would’ve said “well then I’ll just eat half and save the rest for later!” Without knowing the phrase they said.
Why Hollywood is so insistent on ignoring the source material to make an adaptation have “broader appeal.” Especially since Marvel has essentially proven that you can make films that stick closely to the material yet are massive successes.
Homophobia. Just why? What's so wrong with lgbt? I just don't see it and all the arguments of homophobic people make so little sense that it's impossible for me to believe that they actually think that. Like for example "the bible says that homosexuality is wrong" or whatever. The bible says a lot of things that you don't do because the bible is not up to date. I really hope homophobia stops soon once people realize how stupid they are.
Killing because of religion. Yeah, I get the normal reasons like „You have something I want“ etc pp but „My god is the only and right one, all others are infidels and must be killed“.
Although I understand, that there are of course other reasons with century-long backstories.
Hamsters. The fuck is up with those lil shits? They’re small, like, really damn tiny, but why? And when they see a wheel, their first thought is “Ah, yes, an infinite running circle”. And they just have those dopey eyes that have no colour or anything, and did you know that they actually have two hands and two legs, and not four legs? Like, they just be crawling around on their dumb fluffy stomachs. They may be the single most adorable fellas but damn the only good way to describe them is “Fluffy Orbs of Nonsense”
People who honk if traffic is stuck. There's literally nowhere to go. The guy in front of you is stuck behind the other guy who is also stuck. Honking doesn't help. It won't make traffic go faster. Its just noise. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU HONKING?!
If there's anything I don't understand and pisses me off beyond sanity, it's unnecessary honking. I might go to jail for it one day.
Sometimes they may be honking at the guy in front of you. There's no way to create a honk that says "Hey guy 3 cars ahead of me, the light is green, why aren't you paying attention?"
Granted that is just slightly less stupid than honking at the car directly in front of them when it has nowhere it could possibly go except by smashing through the car in front. But I have known people who did this, and were genuinely upset when the vehicle directly in front of them got upset about it. Total obliviousness as to how it is actually hindering traffic instead of "helping" or even actually communicating to the possibly clueless person 3 cars ahead that they "are an idiot".
How people have hookups. Like, how do you meet someone and end up having sex in a matter of hours? How does the conversation go? How do you not come across as a creep?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Hi, my neighbor is fapping to one of the retards in charge, what should I do?”
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a culture of social media addiction and overload of misleading information that primarily benefits existing structures and corporations, I'm more surprised some people still remain sane.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Modern Feminism and why they are against the Men's Rights Movement
Edit: Men still suffer legally. I am from the UK so there may be some inconsistencies but here are ways men get it worse.
1. Men are more likely to be falsely accused of rape completely ruining their life in every way
2. Men are more likely to be murdered or die in their workplaces.
3. Men commit suicide more often than women, although women attempt it more often.
4. Most domestic violence shelters don't help men.
5. In domestic abuse and rape cases, the woman is more likely to be believed without evidence than a man.
6. Most university drop-outs are men.
7. Men are very legally disadvantaged when it comes to child custody.
8. Men can be drafted, unlike women.
9. There is very little support for men's rights and issues, which is why MRA is a thing, even though feminists oppose it for some reason which I'm trying to find out here.
10. Legally, women cannot rape
11. Men are given longer prison sentences on average
12. Doing any kind of child care will have people accusing you of paedophilia (doesn't happen to women)
13. Male victims of female sexual harassment or female paedophilia are not taken seriously
14. Men die at a younger age on average.
And more, probably
As a guy, I can only answer for myself. When the men's right movement started up a few years ago, I was stoked. I know even some feminists supported it. I even went to the sub ever so often...
And then it turned to shit. Like real fast. In the times when they actually were posting about men's rights, more often then not a lot of it was just jabs at feminism. Most of the comments were saying how feminists just wanted supremacy, and they wanted equality. Are there some feminists who hate men? Yes. But that's not "modern feminism" . That's jusr shit people have been saying for decades. Even back in the 90s poeple talked about the feminists meatings where they would conspire against men. It's bullshit. The vast majority don't.
What I did see a lot of, though, was things about how women should listen to men. About how feminists didn't want to date them because they're secretly lesbians. How feminists only date men for their money, and screw them over in divorce. There were men's rights authors who held meetings where they basically shared the same view as women as people did back in the 40s and 50s. Shit, just the other day there was a post in /pussypassdenied about how Adele has to give her now ex-husband millions of dollars in a divorce, and they're celebrating it because it's equality. When I called them out on that, saying we should build both sides up rather than drag the other down, I got call insulted for it. I was told I should kill myself for supporting women. It quickly became clear they don't want equality. They want women below them. And now that they have an example of that happening, they celebrated.
Do I think men's rights still need to be talked about? Yes. Is it the whole group that's like that? Fuck no. But as a whole it was a movement that did get taken over by the alt-right, so that pushed some people away to the point that most of the people left in the groups were like that. Meanwhile, at least in the most feminist sub I go to(TrollXChromosomes) they actually really do talk about things that affect men, and they support us. I would say I feel like I get that more there than I did the men's rights sub after a bit.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically. Granted, that's just my perspective. And I do still acknowledge there's still plenty of men who would love to take up the mantle again. It's just something that seems to be what fascists do. They move into groups and take over. Even with little things. Like the swastika. Totally fine symbol. Actually has a great history... Up until the Nazis used it.
1 & #5. I take issue with. Only because I went thru years of sexual abuse by this older man that I lived with as a kid (I was 6 and he was in his 40s). All that happened was that the foster system removed me from his care but he didn’t go to jail or prison. I didn’t have any semen on me so they had no way to prove it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:24:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not trying to say that rape on people is not a problem and I'm really sorry you had go through that. What I'm trying to say is that if a woman really dislikes a man she can drop the accusation and boom, life ruined. Rape should always be taken seriously and people who try to undermine this by false accusations are terrible people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:17 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edited my comment down below.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 21:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because men already have rights, you dingus. The reason that women's rights movenents even started is because men were making all the decisions and being generally oppresive.
Edit:
False rape accusations barely ever lead to any consequences for the man.
While this is true, men are also more likely to choose a job that will cause them injury
Men kill themselves more because they are taught to never show emotion. Can you guess who taught them that? I can tell you that in most cases, it's not women.
Yep, this is a problem. Not everything can be perfect, and it doesn't counter anything I said.
Please provide a source. I can't find any evidence for this.
That sounds like your problem, and it's not by any fault of women.
...because men are more likely to abuse than women. Bias affecting custody decisions does seem to be a problem in the US, and it seems that often children ARE given to methed-up mothers when the father is fully able to be responsible for the child.BUTthe only cases like this I really hear about are first-person accounts from redditors. I would love an article about this one, too.
This is likely to change in the near future because the men-only draft was ruled unconstitutional.
Men's rights movements are a countermovement to feminism. Most of them are not legitimate.
Thats pretty fucked up, the UK needs to fix their shit.
Men are also more likely to commit crimes.
This sounds like bullshit.
Source for a court case like this?
That's due to biological factors, and bad decisions. That is no fault of women.
With all the problems with both men's and women's rights movements, maybe we all need a broader equality movement, because any gendered movement is bound to get out of hand eventually.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What right do men have that women don't?
[deleted] · -18 points · Posted at 22:02:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No differences in the eyes of the law because of those said movements, but society treats women like less than men still. Of course, your mind is already set so nothing I say will convince you.
Oh, you're a teen. Well, at least try to grow out of this phase soon. I went theough a phase just like this when I was 12 or 13.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No differences in the eyes of the law because of those said movements
Considering the wild injustice men suffer in both criminal and family courts, I find this hard to believe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the american justice system is shit. Maybe if you don't want to have your children taken from you, don't stick your dick in crazy?
Edit: whoopsie daisy, I may have accidentally taken inspiration from prolife arguments in my haste. It seems that keeping your legs closed is the solution to everything, aye?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you're right I'm 14. It's not a phase, but rather me trying to see reason and I can not do that without seeing both sides of the story, hence my original comment.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 22:59:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember thinking that when I was 14, too. Sometimes genuine attempts to understand a point of view end up coming out sounding hostile because of your predispositions towards that group. Just remember to not use charged language when asking questions, because that's likely why you are getting negative responses.
Oh, you're a teen. Well, at least try to grow out of this phase soon
Just remember to not use charged language...
:thinking-emoji:
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol you took what I said out of context right there.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
theough
So he is half your age and twice as intelligent.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 22:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's good to see that your prefrontal cortex is on the same developmental stage as a 13 year old going through rapid physical and hormonal changes lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You're probably a 22 year old stoner playing Nintendo in dads basement while yelling at teens on the internet, but yeah you know maturity when you see it man.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can’t lose weight I really don’t want to fat shame or start an argument I just don’t see why you can’t just eat less food it’s not hard to not do something
It’s all in a decision, and following through on that decision. Burning more calories a day than you are consuming. It’s not rocket science and it doesn’t take a special pill to make it happen. Cut out sugar, cut down on carbs, and eat veggies.Lean proteins and nuts every now and then. And for Christ Sake exercise. Yeah it sucks at first but stick with it, you’ll see personal gains and the weight loss over time will exponentially increase your stamina. But 80% of it is diet. A good healthy diet does wonders. No fast food. It’s not advice. I’m just stating how simple the concept can be.
I'll weigh in here, since I've helped several fat friends and relatives lose weight in the past decade or so. The main trouble comes from the fact that fat people were raised with really shitty eating habits ingrained by their parents. This is something that your average fit person seldom is cognizant of. While your mom may have been feeding you a balanced meal consisting of a lean meat, fibrous veggies, and some sort fat/carbs, the fat person's mom was feeding them three whoppers, a large fries, and a large soda every other day. Over time these habits stick, and by the time a person is considered an adult, it becomes a major uphill battle to change the habits entirely. For this reason, I think that fat people who become fit are incredibly tenacious individuals, and I give props to them. In that same vein, I think that parents who let their kids get fat should be charged with child abuse. For boys these days, especially, it's a social death sentence, as they tend to become feminist incels in this path.
Mental health plays a huge role. It’s incredibly difficult to make lasting behavior change through sheer willpower, if not impossible. You have to learn to care about the long-term effects over the short-term gratification, and that’s something that builds when a person starts to heal from
their traumas and finally truly care about themselves.
some people can’t lose weight even if they try, could be thyroid problems, pcos, etc. i’ve eaten healthy and worked out, starved myself yet i still think i’m really fat
I've never understood that. Are you saying if I locked you in a dungeon for 1 year and only fed you a piece of bread per day and enough water to survive, you wouldn't lose any weight? Pretty sure you'd be skin and bones no matter how fat you were going in.
thyroid problems and pcos only alter your tdee (aka metabolism) by a few hundred calories, which makes weight loss harder, not impossible. if you ea fewer calories than you need you will lose weight, regardless of medical condition, end of story. doesnt matter what type of food you eat, just how much
Medical science is very complicated and nothing is as simple as "just run" or "just stop eating so much". Not to metion the socio-economics that go into weight and how sugery food is marketed to poor people who dont have much of a choice in what they eat. And then there are cultural reasons were some cultures praise weight. Its very complicated.
I've caught myself before half way through eating something that I shouldn't, it's as if I just went into Auto pilot when I got hungry. It's really freaky. Self discipline exercises help a lot in the regard.
Most people would actually struggle to lose weight if their access to food weren't restricted because we evolved in an environment where food scarcity was a daily issue so most people have a very strong preoccupying urge to eat when they are hungry and sometimes even when they are not hungry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's A LOT more complicated than that. Here is my experience - I grew up poor. It may sound strange, but it's far more common for poor people to be fat than thin. Usually, when you are poor, you will have just enough money to buy yourself some crap food, for example bread and some form of red meat. When you have no way to eat a balanced diet, it's very hard to "just eat less food". People then asked me "well why don't you just exercise". Simple reason? I can't. As I didn't have enough money to buy food, how do you think I could afford proper running shoes and training clothes? Now you can say that I don't need that and I could agree, but there are only so many compromises a person can make. When you reach that point you ask yourself - Why should I even bother doing this? I'm spending extra energy that tomorrow I might not have; and believe me I had those days. That is why I never could really lose weight. After two decades, it integrated itself into my mentality and destroyed every part of my life. You stop moving everywhere in order to conserve energy, but then you understand that is actually a trap because once you've completely stopped, it's next to impossible to begin again. It kills you inside. That is why people like me are fat.
You named a lot of excuses, none are your fault which seems to be a problem. Fear of not wanting to spend energy for tomorrow? That doesn’t apply if you have 60 pounds of energy stored as fat. If proper “shoes and equipment” are stoping you from losing weight you didn’t want to lose to begin with. The hard truth is that being “fit” is mostly a mindset. Instead of saying I need X to do Y, just start with Y because the only thing stopping you is the X that you created to prevent you from doing Y. Example, if I only had running shoes(X) I could start jogging(Y) after work, instead you can look at it as I’m going to start jogging(Y) after work I should start saving for a pair of running shoes(X). In the first example you let the running shoes have power preventing you from jogging after work. In the second example you empower yourself to start jogging for a reward of running shoes. It is all about mindset. Also, EBT buys healthy food as well so being poor is no excuse for an unbalanced diet.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 07:26:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is always one of those like you. Unless you've been there, believe me that you don't and can't know. First and foremost, I don't live in USA; I live in a pimple on God's butt. The best way to describe by living situation back then would be - sister, mom and I had about 350 bucks a month to live on. There were days when I literally had nothing to eat. To give you perspective, I spent a weak eating 3 day old bread given to us to feed the neighbor dog. We instead rebaked it in an oven, so we'd survive. I spent 6 months living without elecricity and the rest of the time in fear they'd come to shut it off. I spent days without water and rest of the days in fear they'd come to shut it off. I lived a very hard life.
The entire point of what I wrote is exactly what you said - Excuses. These are all excuses, because there is a way around them. The issue however is that when enough excuses accumulate along two decades of your life, they wear on your psyche. Why should I start training if tomorrow I'll be unable to take a shower? When I might not have enough to eat? When I can't do half the exercises that I want to do? When my health would make said exercises a damn nightmare (I developed breathing issues)?
Most importantly though, unless you live in Eastern Europe, you will never understand that fresh healthy food is hellishly expensive here compared to red meat and bread. An example - Two days ago my mom spent equivalent of 10 bucks on kilogram of apples, lemon and oranges and one wet wipes. Literally. 10 bucks. This isn't the money I could spend back in the day, because 10 bucks was something that lasted us a whole week. That is the reality of my life. Can I lose weight now? Oh yeah, absolutely. I'm in a lot better position than I used to be. The thing is though, when you live through that it kills you inside. You can't even call it living at that point, it's surviving. So yes, those are excuses, but excuses with a real weight to them.
You spent 30 minutes writing this out to someone who really doesn’t give a shit. That could have been a 30minute 1.5 mile jog. Change your mindset. Quit being the victim.
exoalo · 22 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think capitalism is the only way
Virge23 · 13 points · Posted at 23:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody thinks that. Every capitalist economy mixes in aspects of social welfare, government oversight, and market controls. The problem with Real Socialism™ is that any attempt to mix it with other ideologies ruins it and you end up with fucked up authoritarian regimes and it can only exist in its pure form as an idea.
exoalo · -3 points · Posted at 02:07:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ask this on r/conservative. See if they think socialism is okay
Probably because it lifted a majority of the world out of severe poverty.
exoalo · -7 points · Posted at 02:05:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, not having a super powerful military (socialism), clean drinking water (socialism), national mail system (socialism), regular police and fire (socialism), or modern medicine (started in private labs but funded with tax dollars so kinda socialism) did it.
Our collective good is largely due to socialism. A balanced economy has both elements
Yeah and those countries, like Sweden, that people point to for their supposed socialist utopia sustems? They have privatized hospitals.
Capitalism works and has brought literally billions of people out of dire poverty. The majority of this website points at idiotic things like America's healthcare (not capitalist, not free market) as reasons why capitalism had apparently "failed".
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 15:41:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are viruses so hard to cure and why are they so hard to find a vaccine for? Why haven’t coronaviruses been cured from the previous outbreaks of SARS and MERS?
Harmxn- · 13 points · Posted at 19:17:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you practically have to remake an unknown virus from scratch.
yeah, i kinda get what this guy said, isnt a vaccine a dead/inactive virus that makes you immunological system aware of said virus, then why is it so difficult to make the vaccine, wouldn't always the same process ?
Ok, so viruses are not technically living things so we can't just get something to kill them, like anti biotics, and viruses are constantly mutating, so to get a vaccine you need to find a core piece of the dna of the virus that can be put into a vaccine but still recognized as that specific virus for your immune system to activate and produce antibodies, as apposed to the body having no reactionor a bad one. This coronavirus is different to SARS and MERS just as they are different from eachother, so a vaccine for one of them wont help against covid-19, just like flu vaccine wouldn't. I'm not a scientist, this is a very basic reply.
Geor508 · 11 points · Posted at 16:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 05:48:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're talking about the Big Bang it's 12~14 billion years ago, and Earth wasn't created from a
giant explosion that came from nothing
Actually, according to NASA:
When the solar system settled into its current layout about 4.5 billion years ago, Earth formed when gravity pulled swirling gas and dust in to become the third planet from the Sun.
Actually the Big Bang theory doesn't contradict Genesis.
Also, today is a good day to meditate God's misteries, for today the Pascual Vigil is celebrated (at least for Catholics).
You are missing some key details about the Big Bang theory. The Big Bang doesn’t describe how anything came to exist from nothing, it’s a mathematical model that hypothesizes how the universe was formed from what was most likely a high-energy singularity. The theory doesn’t attempt to explain how that initial singularity came to be and isn’t in direct conflict with a religious creation theory.
In fact, Christians were the first to lead with the Big Bang theory. 1927, a priest named Georges Lemaître proposed an expanding model for the universe to explain the observed redshifts of spiral nebulae, and calculated the Hubble law. He based his theory on the work of Einstein and De Sitter, and independently derived Friedmann's equations for an expanding universe. Also, the red shifts themselves were not constant, but varied in such manner as to lead to the conclusion that there was a definite relationship between amount of red-shift of nebulae, and their distance from observers.
But many want to talk about "Christians being anti-science?"
The Steady-State Theory was the dominant theory for an absurdly-long period of time.
1916. Albert Einstein took a look at his general relativity theory, and realized… “Wait, if I’m right, the universe had a beginning. That can’t be right.” He later called this discovery “irritating.” He wanted the universe to be self-existent—not reliant on any outside cause—but the universe appeared to be one giant effect. In fact, Einstein so disliked the implications of General Relativity—a theory that is now proven accurate to five decimal places—that he introduced a cosmological constant (which some have since called a “fudge factor”) into his equations in order to show that the universe is static (steady-state) and to avoid an absolute beginning.
And a good number of secular scientists just accepted this, despite some pretty obvious flaws.
Fred Hoyle himself coined the term, “Big Bang,” in his mockery of Christians. That's where the name came from!
Then, a few years later, British cosmologist Arthur Eddington conducted an experiment during a solar eclipse which confirmed that Einstein’s emotionally-rejected conclusion was indeed right—the universe wasn’t static but had a beginning. Like Einstein, Eddington wasn’t happy with the implications. He later wrote, “Philosophically, the notion of a beginning of the present order of nature is repugnant to me. . . . I should like to find a genuine loophole.”
A few more follow-ups found Einstein’s theory to be a mistake.
By 1922, Russian mathematician Alexander Friedmann had officially exposed Einstein’s fudge factor as an algebraic error. (Incredibly, in his quest to avoid a beginning, the great Einstein had divided by zero— one of the most basic mathematical wrongs)
Dutch astronomer Willem de Sitter had found that General Relativity required the universe to be expanding.
In 1927, the expanding of the universe was actually observed by astronomer Edwin Hubble (namesake of the space telescope). (This is when Einstein himself admitted said mistake).
And the Big Bang theory was accepted. (Obviously, academia movies interestingly, so that's a bit of an oversimplification. But you get the idea.)
djle12 · 10 points · Posted at 16:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can support trump from the plain citizens aspect. He is corrupt to the core that any supporter has to basically ignore or believe it all are lies.
They think the exact same thing as you, why would anyone not vote for trump because he's the only person in politics who isn't part of the system of political elites and is therefore not corrupt, either way, these stances are emotion, not politics. Dont vote based on it
because he's the only person in politics who isn't part of the system of political elites and is therefore not corrupt
Imagine saying this about a billionaire with decades of fraud who just recently eliminated congressional oversight to a multi-trillion dollar "stimulus package" to large corporations.
I guess when he said "you all just got a lot richer" to his friends at Mar o lago right after being elected, he actually was talking about the American people right???
Without exaggerating, he is literally the most corrupt president in the history of the United States. If you can't see this then you are either ignoring everything he says, or watching way too much Hannity.
That guy is being sort of a jerk so I'm going to be give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you don't know, immediately after signing the bill Trump said he was not going to abide by the law he literally just signed, and was not going to allow An Inspector General to oversee a large portion of the stimulus money. The inspector-general That was supposed to oversee the money was picked by a congression of his own peers, other IGs.
He then fired multiple inspector General's within the next couple of days and installed his own guy, naturally. He's trying to ensure there is no one to oversee the money so that he and Steve munchkin can do whatever they want with it.
You missed my point, I'm mocking both sides of the argument, they're both about as founded as the other either way, the very fact that everybody is so invested in this senseless name calling makes them forget what they actually stand for and instead vote based on the character of the politician rather than whether the politician's alignment matches their own
And that’s the RIGHT way to vote. You don’t vote the democratic candidate because you’re a democrat or viceversa, you vote for the individual be ause you think he or she would be someone bent on making the country better even if you don’t agree with him or her 100%. One issue voters are worse than mongoloids.
The democratic system in America is an insult to democracy as well as Americans the fact that you're voting for a person rather than an ideology at all is a failure, not to even mention the two party system which China seems to struggle to be less representative than despite being a constitutional dictatorship.
How anyone expects their views to be represented when they have a pitiful two sole ways to vote is beyond me and the fact that the country is run more by a single self interested individual person than a government is even worse. Everyone in both the parties is corrupt if not from external sources from the party itself else they are all as bad as each other
Focus on the real issues like the entire political system rather than the glorified namecalling of civilian debate.
You seem to have missed the point, they believe what they believe for the same reasons you believe what you believe. You think he's corrupt they think everyone else is corrupt, point is this overly personal name calling is not politics
Indeed, so can I. Trump is wrong sometimes. Sometimes he is hilariously wrong. But it’s the exception and not the rule. The difference is that most Trump voters recognize these occasions, and conservative media calls him out on it, rather than just believing whatever he says, unlike people who listen to most liberal media sources like CNN or MSNBC that will lie straight to your face of deliberately avoid reporting on things that don’t fit their agenda.
unpresidential and rude, or outright lying or attacking someone.
I'll give you three out of those four, but I wouldn't say that the majority are lying. Not even close. As for the other three, he did those things prior to being elected, and it was him figuratively giving the finger to the establishment (remember that both democrats and republicans hated him) that inspired so many people to support him. Heck, look at the last two republican presidential candidates. Both McCain and Romney turned their backs on the republican party and conservatism after all.
People didn't just want another candidate that would sit there and take all the lies and slander from the other side. They were tired of just being called racists because they didn't like Obama, sexists because they didn't like Hillary, homophobes because they were Christian, transphobes because they didn't want men in the women's restroom, or all of those things because they were straight white males. They wanted somebody to stand up and speak out, not some soft spoken people pleaser.
(remember that both democrats and republicans hated him)
Excellent point. I forgot that this is essentially how he got elected in the first place. I myself didn't vote in 2016 but I specifically remember being one of the " a little chaos and Shake Up will be good for everyone" people.
But I was wrong though. He's been far worse than anything I imagined, with the help of Mitch McConnell and William Barr, and other complicit bad actors.
And he lies constantly and consistently dude; honestly, it's laughable for you to ask me to prove that. His lies number in the thousands by now, there are websites that keep track of this, reality is real. It's like having to prove water is wet.
Or it would be laughable, if we weren't in the midst of an informational/misinformational crisis. I'm deeply concerned by the fact that we can't even seem to handle our current level of technology, so the future of information Warfare looks grim indeed.
The saddest thing is that honestly the most important thing any of us could be talking about or doing is addressing the fact that our climate is collapsing all around us, but instead we're stuck with a leader who publicly exclaimed that climate change was a hoax.
It's beyond tragic being in my position because I am uniquely aware of just how bad things are with regards to our Earth Systems, and precious few people understand how dire things really are.
And as we descend into climate chaos, see the first Blue Ocean Event, absolutely devastating topsoil erosion, carbon sinks totally sequestered, oceans too acidic for life with changing/disappearing currents, the absolute collapse of marine food chains, increasingly volatile natural disasters, increasing disease, increasing plague, increasing antibiotic resistance, unknown pathogens, viruses and bacteria from ancient thawing permafrost, tick and parasite populations exploding across the world as climate systems change, significantly decreased vitamin and mineral content in all fruits and vegetables(due to said topsoil erosion and general bad practices), disappearing fresh water, water wars, disappearing resources of every kind including rare earth metals, forever chemicals...
That's just off the top of my head. Oh yeah and plastic lol, christ how could I forget all the issues with plastic today.
So anyway, at a time when this is all the stuff we need to be really truly focusing on, instead the western world is led by a man that.... doesn't believe in any of the things I just listed, and actively works to defund scientific institutions collecting data and working on solutions. To be clear, that man is Trump.
From my understanding from what quotes I've seen Trump takes a controversial stance on the issue, but it is focused primarily on the economical impact of actions taken to allegedly combat climate change, and how China does little to nothing about it and thus their economy thrives as a result. But I can't say that I've seen him comment on any of those specific examples that you've listed.
He defunds the EPA aggressively and attacks all kinds of regulations. If you looked into it you would be startled how much he has done actually.
And you have to understand that per capita the United States is still the worst polluter, and on top of that China is producing physical goods for the vast majority of consumerism in the world, of course that's going to cause pollution, but if it wasn't them it would be someone else; theyre not creating the demand, that's on individual countries.
Culturally I feel the USA dominates the rest of the world, or at least we did up until somewhere around 2016. If we had led an aggressive charge towards combating climate issues, with serious experts leading us, I believe the rest of the world, or at least the Western world, would follow suit soon after. Instead, they are now moving ahead without us and we are being left in the past.
And you have to understand that per capita the United States is still the worst polluter,
Blatantly false. There are plenty of smaller countries that have a larger carbon footprint per capita than the US.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhhh you've got it flipped homie. On the two occasions that Fox didn't cover for him he called them traitors. For the most part they back up his lies. I'll give you MSNBC because it's basically Fox News for the Left, but even that has a higher accuracy rating than Fox last I checked. CNN definitely does, and I don't watch either.
I do read the NY Times which again has a very high accuracy rating. For all the shit it gets from Trump about being a leftist rag it gets just as much shit from the left for it's anti-Cuomo pieces.
You have ask yourself if you truly believe that there is some global conspiracy where every single news outlet from newspaper to TV, from CNN to Al Jazeera, are all conspiring against one orange man, and Fox / OANN are the only two beacons of truth despite every independent rating showing them being less truthful. It really doesn't seem plausible.
I'm not claiming it is a global conspiracy. You don't need a global conspiracy in order for individual companies to push their agendas and to do things which would benefit their agendas. For a source of news, it only makes sense that they would be particularly affected by this.
As for most fact-checking websites. I don't really see why I should trust them more than the sources of news themselves. Even Snopes has slid downhill fast. All it takes is a little opinion here, close enough there, to change a "True" to a "Partial truth" or a "False" to a "50/50". That's how many news articles work too. Word choice and sentence structure designed to make it seem like X is true, while it technically isn't necessarily saying that it is true when you get down to the particular language used.
I'll give you an example from another comment I made earlier. Take this article for instance:
"Full-page ads Trump ran in 1989 advocated for bringing the death penalty back to "punish" the teen suspects, who were eventually exonerated."
"Donald Trump is refusing to apologize to the Central Park Five for taking out full-page advertisements in New York City newspapers in 1989 calling for the death penalty in response to a case in which the five black and Latino teenagers were wrongfully convicted of rape."
When you read these excerpts, what do you think happened? They make you think that Trump wanted these teens to receive the death penalty, right? But you see, the first can be written off by saying that the bringing back of the death penalty would be the punishment, not the death penalty itself. The second could be written off by saying that Trump calling for the return of the death penalty was in response to a case that involved the five black and latino Teenagers, but that he wasn't actively calling for the teenagers themselves to receive the death penalty.
Full context though, Trump did not call for the death penalty for these teens. If you'd like more information about this just ask me. But this was an example given to demonstrate the techniques that can be used to openly and deliberately imply false things while technically not saying anything false.
The title ("Trump Will Not Apologize for Calling for Death Penalty Over Central Park Five") is another example of implying something false, but not technically. The word 'over' is used rather than the word 'for', and the 'central park five' case can refer to the general series of crimes that occurred at the time. Extremely misleading, and deliberately so. They even go into how Trump did not call for the death penalty for these five boys later in the article ("The ads never explicitly called for the death penalty for the five defendants."), so they clearly knew that the title was misleading.
A fact checking website could describe these articles as 'true' by calling the implied falsities as being 'technically not false', even though nearly every plain reading of them would say otherwise.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are alleging that though even if you personally have never thought about it that way. If every outlet that you deem left of Fox News so pretty much every news outlet from print to television around the world is reporting one thing and you deem that thing to be a lie because it contradicts your news outlet of choice that's alleging there's a global conspiracy and that American far right news outlets are the only ones not involved in that conspiracy.
Independent news rating orgs score all outlets the same and tally half truths, outright lies, etc and it's the news outlets that you're saying lie less that have lower accuracy ratings.
For what it's worth you're arguing with a black New Yorker. You did some amazing mental gymnastics on that description of the NYT article. You said it yourself, they reported that the ads didn't explicitly call for the deaths of those boys, and now you're saying that the central park 5 case isn't about those 5 boys? Lol. All NYT did there is report the news, they said he wouldn't apologize for it as there were calls for him to do so and they even said that the ads didn't explicitly call for the death penalty for them. Again you're spotting some kind of sleazebaggery or conspiracy where it doesn't exist.
The NYT for all Trump's bitching about it gets a lot of shit from "both sides" because they run less than flattering stories about "both sides."
If you had just said we could use higher journalism standards that would have been one thing, but you said that the right-wing news is more honest and that's quite laughable. Again, independent rating orgs show that isn't true. So unless there is a conspiracy there as well ...
Keeping with your Central Park 5 example, Donald Trump's statements on the subject are reprehensible and amazingly false. He said horrible shit about those boys over a full decade after they were exonerated by DNA evidence. But hey he'll pardon a war criminal so whatever.
One thing that fascinates me is how people have gotten less intelligent about Fox. When I was a Republican for almost two decades we knew that you couldn't use Fox as a source because it's essentially a tabloid. It has zero credibility as a source. Now here I am arguing with someone that's trying to tell me that it and outlets like it are more honest than virtually every other outlet on the entire planet. Bizarre.
Even in my most hardcore Republican days I would have taken NYT or NPR over Fox ten times out of ten.
Why does Trump want nothing but adoration from the media? They'll ask him a critical question and he'll say that they should instead be thanking him for how good of a job he's doing. That's not the media's job.
I can't come up with a time when the liberal media has actually lied about Trump. Can you? Give me some examples. Seems like they fact check his dumb claims and he and his supporters don't like that because it makes him look bad.
I can't come up with a time when the liberal media has actually lied about Trump. Can you?
One particularly blatant time that I remember was about the central park 5. Multiple media sources claimed that Trump had, in the past, called for the death penalty for the 'central park 5' in order to slander him (he never called for their death penalty). Some articles suggested so through misleading titles and word choice, but others did so blatantly. For example, this NYT article's title:
When you read this title, what is it that you think happened? Most people would read it and conclude that Trump called for the death penalty for the central park five. When in fact, he did no such thing. In fact the very same article clarifies:
"Mr. Trump was asked about newspaper advertisements he bought back then calling for New York State to adopt the death penalty after the attack. (The ads never explicitly called for the death penalty for the five defendants.)"
In the sub-title: "Full-page ads Trump ran in 1989 advocated for bringing the death penalty back to "punish" the teen suspects, who were eventually exonerated."
"Donald Trump is refusing to apologize to the Central Park Five for taking out full-page advertisements in New York City newspapers in 1989 calling for the death penalty in response to a case in which the five black and Latino teenagers were wrongfully convicted of rape."
"President Trump on Tuesday refused to apologize to the "Central Park Five" for calling for their executions over rape and assault convictions that were later overturned."
"Trump in 1989 took out full-page ads in New York newspapers calling for the death penalty against the five boys, aged 14 to 16"
In the title: "Trump — who wanted death penalties for Central Park Five"
"President Trump — who infamously demanded death penalties for a group of black and Hispanic teenagers wrongfully convicted of raping a woman in Central Park"
In the sub-title: "The president, who once called for the five to get the death penalty, offered no apology even though the convictions were vacated."
"He called for them to get the death penalty after they were arrested and their criminal convictions were later vacated, but President Donald Trump on Tuesday wasn't offering any apologies to the so-called "Central Park Five.""
I remember this instance of media lies very clearly because one of my friends on Facebook posted about it in righteous indignation about how Trump is a monster for calling for the death penalty for these boys.
If that ad Trump took out calling for the Death Penalty during the height of the Central Park 5 wasn't calling for the Death Penalty OF the Central Park 5, why do you think he took out that ad? Just a coincidence? Read between the lines. He thought they were guilty and refuses to accept they weren't.
As for Trump's response to COVID, what are your thoughts regarding his comments about not wanting to work with certain states whose governors are critical of him?
This is Trump's one and perhaps only skill - he's really quite good at ensuring he has plausible deniability, and I very much think he learned this from the mafia since his father did indeed work with the mafia
Well yes, there are some plain citizens on the left after all.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet most people get their news and form their opinions based on that same media that you claim is corrupt. Most people aren't subscribed to your narrative homie.
Because he makes people like you cry at the foot of your bed every night. That's why
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you get your information on Trump from Journos who hate him and produce media for people who want to be infuriated by him? Do you think that's wise?
[deleted] · -24 points · Posted at 20:22:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could say how could anyone support Bernie or biden when Bernie is a pushover and would never get anything done in office and biden... I don't even have to fucking explain biden that m̶o̶t̶h̶e̶r̶ kid fucker
He authored the bill that gives americans a free credit report, voted against the restriction on gay marriage, he voted against the Iraq war, he steered a bill to help veterans and the department of veterans affairs better take care of americas aging veterans as well as the new generations of veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan. He helped Chris Shays to pass a bill that would help veterans from the gulf war afflicted with illness. He is the leading senator for a universal healthcare system and on top of all of that he has passed more bipartisan amendments than anyone else in his time in the house.
I would argue if that's the worst part for Bernie, then that's not a terrible arguement agaisnt him comparatively. I'd go with the guy who's to timid over the rapist con artist.
[deleted] · -17 points · Posted at 20:40:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cant go for him now since he quite literally cant win so theres another reason to not vote him
I know that Bernie not campaigning is kind of a big deal but... it is kind of messed up to say voting for him is hopeless. A lot of low-income working folk were hoping for him to become pres. America is voting/voicing what you want.
None of that is true though. That's the problem. And it certainly doesn't justify his corruption and incompetence. He's doing an objectively terrible job and is among the top 5 worst presidents the USA has ever seen.
After my own analysis, talking to many people, reading articles, watching videos and listening to podcasts - those are just a few of the reasons I have come up with for why he was elected, and why people support him.
I came to this thread to explain what many view to be the reasons why he was elected. It appears as though you came to this thread to disagree with me on a factual basis, and push your own opinion into the mix... Which is perfectly acceptable, but was not my point. I never said most of it was true or not - I said that it is what people viewed to be the truth.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If u actually niece trump is corrupt you are delusional he's the first president we've had in modern times that every opinion and choice he makes is based on his own beliefs
The way I see it Trump is no more or less racist than the Democrats so that factor cancels out for me. I’m not a fan of feminism, the lgbt movement, or illegal immigration so Trump gets my vote by default.
Because people vote republican because they'd hate a democrat to lead and implement their policies. Some vote on religious stuff like anti abortion and won't budge.
What i want some conservatives to admit is how if there was literally any other republican option they'd prefer him over trump. I'm getting the feeling they want a republican period and if given the choice Trump would be the worst of alternative republican options for many reasons
And I'm talking post 2016 once everyone has had a chance to observe how he leads
I'm a moderate that leans Conservative and that's why I WOULDN'T vote for Trump and won't this year either. I honestly don't even consider him to really be a Conservative. Heck if you want to go by the religious right then he is more liberal then most of them want to admit as well. You'd actually find a lot of Conservatives don't really like him or support him. They will likely vote for him over Biden, but he isn't as beloved as he'd want you to think.
Anyone who supports the GOP/Trump is delusional and/or mentally deficient. Very simple to understand.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 01:41:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For my in-laws I think it let's them feel more comfortable saying the quiet part out loud. They get to voice their bigoted thoughts about Hispanics/Asians and I'm sure when I'm not around my people as well. I mean one of them had already made the comment to me that they're not going to see "black" movies anymore because they thought we collectively hated white people for liking Liam Neeson. Who knows? Maybe I'm "one of the good ones."
The small government party is the hill rednecks party. A strong government may find their way of life worth passing laws about, while a weak one would not. They don’t care about corruption, they don’t usually need money. They farm their food or live off the land. If they need money for something they work a job for a month then disappear again. This isn’t hard to figure out. They don’t want other people relying on the government either. This mostly applies to local and congress reps. Presidential republicans are usually big government republicans, but trump generally isn’t. At least not to the extent his predecessors were.
I’m honestly baffled y’all don’t know what the average trump voter is like or strives to be like, but you probably don’t live in a hardcore red state either.
I mean damn just watch tiger king and all this will become clear.
Not my political opinions, but I think it’s more useful to understand each other than just say the opposing political spectrum is “what’s wrong with american politics.” Honestly I think that’s more what’s wrong with american politics. Knee jerk idiots like yourself who think everyone on the other side is scum because they don’t vote like I do.
And did you not just generalize an entire wing of the political spectrum as hill rednecks who don't care about economics because they'll just opt out to go subsistence farm anyway? And you have the gonads to assume I'm the one with knee-jerk opinions, while you claim to understand politics and are able to mediate both sides like some Earth-bound Captain Kirk?
Here's a newsflash for you. That might have been the most out-of-touch response I've ever seen. That you think you can be some kind of hero by doing the same things everyone else does just because you pretend to be nice about it would be pure comedy if it wasn't so infuriating. You're not uniting anyone in this state, and your self-righteousness only serves to make an ass out of you.
😂 thank you for the Captain Kirk analogy, i appreciate it.
And for the record, I love hill rednecks, especially the ones that haven’t yet discovered meth. At least they have some balls unlike most of my city democrat friends. They really encompass the phrase “live free or die,” I’m sure the founding fathers would find more in common with them than your average voter.
i would, because in my opinion tolerating bigots and allowing them to exist in public spaces is the about the same as endorsing them and their actions
Bigots existing is inherently harmful to communities and individuals
Also bigotry is a choice, they chose to be intolerant and voice this intolerance, they chose to follow the irrational path that lead them to believe they are superiors to other, they chose to be violent (be it in words or actions) against people who did nothing to warrant such violence
Tolerance is, in short, is the acceptance of other people being able to have their own opinions and being allowed to Express them in any non violent form they wish regardless of what their views are, even your worst enemies and those who you find the most despicable.
Bigotry is the intolerance of those people who have different opinions as you.
However the grey area comes with intolerance of the intolerant and has been the source of much debate over the last few centuries and there are strong arguments on either side.
It's on these principles that freedom of speech, democracy and other liberal principles are based
Essentially what I'm saying is a hell of a lot of people who call other people bigots are completely unaware that they are themself bigoted
i think we simply don't have the same definition of a bigot, for me a bigot is and has always been someone who doesn't tolerate people for reasons outside of the opinions they hold (stuff like gender, race, sexuality, physical condition or social status for instance)
for me a homophobe is a bigot. But being homosexual isn't an opinion, so would a homophobe be considered a bigot with your definition?
Also in my opinion a conservative who hates the left isn't automatically a bigot, just a dumbass (although if said dumbass also hates women or queer people or people of color, i would consider them a bigot)
so yes i guess if we're following you're definition of bigotry, i would be considered a bigot because i refuse to tolerate people who are a threat to others
You are not referring to bigotism but rather anti-libaralism or those who are against individual liberty and human rights, bigotism and tolerance are very set and defined things that have foundations in liberal theory dating back to before the enlightenment, you are simply using the wrong terminology.
In fact if the hypothetical person in question did not agree with the way that people with different sexualities and gender identities lived their lives but also did not want to take any action to promote their legal right to live the way that they do they would in no way be anti-liberal nor even perhaps intolerant, however if you were not tolerant of their right to think the way they do and Express their distaste, you would in fact be the bigot in this situation.
Meta0X · -4 points · Posted at 19:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigotry isn't just about opinions. Racism is a form of bigotry, for example.
Only if that racism manifest in a way in which the bigot does not tolerate the opinions of the person they are racist against, it can extend to racists, however not all racists are bigots and you could very well be bigoted against them
Meta0X · -3 points · Posted at 19:49:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes a person who is intolerantly devoted to their own opinions, including hating a group of people is indeed a bigot, note how the definition that you have cited does not say that racism or hatred of a group is bigotism but rather the term can only be applied especially to someone in that case if they meet the first condition of being intolerantly devoted to their cause. What I have just said is literally written in the definition you cited
Meta0X · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You...
Yes a person who is intolerantly devoted to their own opinion
Im wrong how? Whether a prejudice or opinion the key here is that they are intolerantly devoted to it or are you just not following at all, I can explain the whole history of the terminology and their relationship to political philosophy if you so wish, point remains if they are tolerant in their prejudice a bigot they are not
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 11:59:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now hold on here.
My issue with your initial definition was that bigotry was about opinion, not about whether or not it has to be about being intolerantly devoted to your opinion or prejudice. That wasn't what you said at first. You said bigotry was about being intolerant of another's opinion. I simply stated that it could be about race, too.
Also... I don't care about the history of the terminology with this. There's historical use and then colloquial use, kind of like how you keep using the term "bigotism" which is an incredibly rare and outdated word in the modern age. Even if historically the word bigotry was all about opinion (nothing I've seen says so) people use it in a modern context to describe people who are extremely racist, homophobic, etc, which has nothing to do with the opinion.
Oh just let off mate, opinion and prejudice are pretty much the same damn thing. And in case you have forgotton the whole point of this is most people who call people bigots and are intolerant of them are themselves bigoted, it's not hard to understand, the whole damn point I'm making is that the word has become an insult used to discredit people rather than something meaningful. You're completely missing the point and arguing about something quite irrelevant and my question still remains: would you be tolerant or a bigot who shares your same veiws?
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 14:52:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First, you never asked me that question. Considering that I don't think of myself as a bigot, it's not a question I could answer.
Second, you said that bigotry was about being intolerant of another person's opinions. I said, and pointed out quite clearly with actual dictionary definitions, that it was also about being intolerant about another person's race or sexuality or gender, none of which are opinions.
Third, I don't disagree that a prejudice is a form of opinion, but that's not what either of us were arguing about at the start.
Fourth, I don't really disagree that the word "bigot" can be misused, I just don't think it's some massive issue like you're making it out to be.
And fifth... I was questioning your definition of bigotry. How is that irrelevant?
Prejudice is literally any preconceived opinion based on lack of evidence, nothing specifically to do with race, sex, gender etc. I can be prejudiced in a way that I believe watermelons don't exist. I'll rephrase the question though seeing as you seem adamant about clinging to your own prejudice of what bigot means: would you be tolerant of anyone who holds the same belief as you who is in turn not tolerant of other people's beliefs.
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 16:03:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Typically when I encounter someone who shares the same general beliefs that I do, they don't enter into the realm of bigotry so much as they might point out the issues with things that we disagree with. An example being how I wouldn't tell someone not to be christian, but I wouldn't shy away from talking about the damage they've done over the centuries. If someone took it too far to the point of "I openly don't associate with christians" or "I think christians should be punished for their beliefs"... then we don't hold the same beliefs. So I would probably argue against them and, if they kept holding onto those beliefs, I would probably stop associating with them.
If that makes me a bigot, which I'm guessing you're going to say it does, so be it. But I disagree. Considering the extreme negative connotations of the word bigot as it is widely used today, I think being intollerant of intollerance isn't covered by the term. It's an aspect of the paradox of tolerance.
You're also completely dodging what I said earlier and moving your goal post.
Your initial statement that I took issue with was this:
Bigotry is the intolerance of those people who have different opinions as you.
To which I said:
Bigotry isn't just about opinions. Racism is a form of bigotry, for example.
And you responded with:
Only if that racism manifest in a way in which the bigot does not tolerate the opinions of the person they are racist against, it can extend to racists, however not all racists are bigots and you could very well be bigoted against them
I responded with the definitions of bigotry and bigot, which counter your argument and showed that the words are also used to be intolerant of people because they belong to a group- race, sexuality, gender- and not just because they disagree with that group's opinion on something.
I also never said that prejudice only involved aspects of race or sexuality or gender, just that it did also cover that. I even showed that with the definition of prejudice that I posted. It covers all of that, not just opinion and not just issues with groups of people.
But the fact of the matter is, I only ever argued against the idea that bigotry is 100% about being intolerant of opinions. It's not. Do you disagree with the dictionary definitions? Or are you going to gloss over what I'm saying yet again and return to arguing over the definition of prejudice, which I was never arguing over to begin with?
Well let me help you understand. So back in the day when humans were mear hunter gathers we evolved the idea of triblism to protect our tribe from other tribes. Triblism is the idea of putting your group above other groups. It kept us alive in the early day of man. But now it masfests in war and bigotry but also social change and friendly compation. Bigotry is illogical but it has a logical cause.
Meta0X · -1 points · Posted at 20:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Rather than just arguing with the other guy's weird (and incorrect) definition of bigotry, I'll try and shed some light here.
It typically comes from two places: irrational fear or dogma. Usually a bit of both.
Irrational fear would be this: you were mugged once by a black man, therefore all black men are more likely to mug you than white men. It's a fear based on the idea that because one person who looks a certain way did something, people who look similar are more likely to be the same. But people will typically not view their own race as a monolith like that, right?
This comes from evolutionary biology. For thousands of years, those that were different, namely from other tribes, were active threats. From the time that humanity stopped being tribal and started settling into cities and nations, we haven't evolved to the point where we've dumped that evolutionary safety measure. Thankfully, humans are able to self analyze like this. We're able to make a concious effort to not feel that way about those who are different. But, it's good to be aware of these bits of bigotry that can still exist within us. Self awareness is a really good trait, here.
But for some people, that can be really hard, because dogma is really powerful.
Let's say you have a young, impressionable white kid that goes through that first scenario. Rather than reflecting on what happened and realizing that it was one individual who happened to be black that mugged him, he goes online to find similar experiences and is exposed to white supremacist ideologies. These ideologies, which are usually based in psuedoscientific nonsense done in order to try and rationalize those tribal fears, will do everything they can to confirm this young white kid's fears. It wasn't just one black man that mugged you- that's just how they are! They're more prone to it! People exposed to that stuff range from just plain old ignorance to outright neo nazis.
The same sort of dogma can be enforced without negative experiences starting them up though. If you're raised in the Baptist church, for example, you're taught as early as possible that homosexuality is horrible and unnatural and a sin. If you really do believe in the god they raised you to believe and this god will send you to eternal punishment in hell for being gay... that irrational fear kicks in. You hear about people learning they're gay later in life, you see more and more gay people coming out, and you start to think, shit! What if they can make you gay? What if they want us all to be gay? And you start to blame them, and hate them, and think they're diseased.
It's a really complicated thing, bigotry. It fucking sucks. But knowing the cause can help you fight it. When you meet a bigot, don't just tell them to fuck off right away. Try and figure out why they feel a certain way, and then try and educate them on the truth that usually clears those fears and dogmas right up.
It won't always work, but even if you only turn one in a thousand people away from that shit... it's worth it.
Fear of the other. You know how, in the current political climate, you may actually hate and distrust people that vote differently from you? Maybe Trump supporters? Maybe people on the left? That feeling?
That's the same thing racists feel.
They're afraid of the "other" because they live in a bubble and don't interact or befriend people that are different from them.
Why people who are supposedly adults seem to act like spoiled toddlers when told to do something that is OBVIOUSLY for their (and society's benefit) like staying TF home.
I really do not understand how come some people would gladly let illegal immigrants taking social benefits. They are criminals and you let them take something from you for free....do they understand money doesn't grow on trees?
The idea behind most social welfare is that it's much cheaper to give people the money they need to survive than it is to deal with the increased crime and social problems that result from severe poverty. That's true regardless of immigration status.
As for the actual cost of giving welfare to undocumented immigrants, well, it's beyond microscopic on a public spending scale.
The system of social welfare in Belgium works so well, I don't understand how a powerhouse like the US struggles with illegal immigrants.
We just pay about 40% of our income to taxes and if we ever need to go to the hospital we get covered for the most part.
And I'd rather have 2 people abuse the system and let a family who needs help have help than just not having the system because "I pay too much taxes"
I do still find that the system of unemployement in the Netherlands is way better than what we have in Belgium (You get less money over time but the government helps you get a job. In Belgium you can literally just stay at home and get free money)
The United States really doesn't struggle with immigrants. The immigrants are just a scapegoat. But, to answer your question, I think the core of a lot of American conservatism is the ideas that people only deserve benefits in proportion to their (economic) contribution to society and that poverty is inevitable for some proportion of the population because there is not enough to go around. Check out the writings of early Calvinists and you'll find the roots of the modern American ethic.
I know. I never said it was good, all i'm saying is there's a difference between someone who came here on a visa, got a job, paid, taxes and everything, then someone who snuck in.
Ok, I was just pointing it out because it's different then saying most of them are sneaking in and stealing, it's different because it was purposeful. That's all.
Also, what exactly are these said immigrants stealing if they are paying taxes?
Read what I said above. But you haven't answered my question. What benefits would they be getting that are unfair? Things that them benifiting would harm americans?
You keep avoiding my one question. You said before they were taking benefits and it's unfair cuz the are illegal. To the people that aren't commuting any crimes (besides the fact that they are here illegally) and the ones paying taxes, if they are illegal, what are the benefiting or taking from americans? All I want is for y oui t explain what you said earlier.
alright I don't get what you ask before that's why I haven't answered
the answer is quite simple - those jobs should belong to Americans and people who come AND stay with valid visa. The fact they either sneak in (illegal immigrants) or overstay (also illegal) they are taking away the opportunities to legal citizens and is hurting other Americans and legal immigrants
This is a common misconception, as most immigrants take the jobs that most Americans don't want. The impact of immigrant labor on the wages of american workers is low. Undocumented workers often work the unpleasant, back-breaking jobs that American workers are not willing to do.
And also helping by working for americans. It really doesn't hurt americans in the way you think. The truth is, we need them because without them we won't have enough labor workers.
Criminals and drug lords would sneak in illegally, because they wouldn't qualify for a visa. I'm talking about the majority of illegal immigrants, people who come through a visa to not live in a dangerous country and overstay it.
It's very very hard for druglords to come in legally because of background checks. They'd be entering in illegally, as opposed to people who jut want to be safe entering in legally
You should care. If you think both should be kicked out that's ok, but it's still worthwhile to know the difference before assuming all illegal immigrants steal, sell drugs, and commit many crimes. It's still good to know the truth instead of false stereotypes.
Nope, I said commit many crimes, plural. Hence the "s". I didn't say commit a crime, i said crimesss. I explicitly said that in both scenarios, they are committing crimes. All I ask is that you acknowledge the difference between the two, since the one where the only crime committed is that they are here illegally happens more often.
Yes both are illegal but it's worth acknowledging cuz stereotypes are assumptions are never cool.
Jesus Christ, did an illegal immigrant rob your house or something? You're constantly repeating the same talking point. Add something to the conversation instead of being stuck on repeat.
So im a hardliner on illegal immegration as well, but coming into the country illegally and having an expired visa are vastly different things. One is a fine and you get it reinstated, the other is deportation. Your focusing on the wrong type of illegal immegration.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's like being okay with tossing people in jail for jaywalking... Or paralyzing a person for it.
I have broken the law so many times. The amount of random stuff I’ve pocketed and drugs I have done in the past, I guess I’m a criminal but I’m currently a law abiding and contributing member of society
if i break the law and police handcuff me and put me into a cell, would I blame the police for 'being an asshole and a pile of shit'? no I blame myself for my poor decision and I have to take my responsibility
Many people are forced to do it. I don’t see how being alive in another country means you should be sent to die and treated like an animal. You’re so arrogant it’s incredible.
So your fine with sending people to their graves over a little paperwork? When instead we could have a legalization process that would allow these people to become legal immigrants without being deported?
then that would be extremely unfair to people who migrant to America via the legal process. Those people spend years and tons of money to do so and you are letting others to do it for free?
Have you tried to do it? I have family in Spain that wanted to move here, my Aunt and her kids. There was so much red tape involved, and the process was going to take years and resources she didn't have so they gave up. My Dad was her brother and she wanted to be closer to him. It was was unfortunate.
So what process have you tried that seems so easy?
And for the record, I'm not disagreeing with you. Illegal immigrants are breaking the lasty but you also have to take into account the severity of crimes.
You are coming across calling them criminals and acting like they robbed a store or something. They overstayed a Visa. Yes, they shouldn't have done that and it's a crime, but a very minor one. I'm sure some point you ran a red light, or trespassed, maybe stole a candy bar, or sat in a parked car drinking, or any number of things. Are YOU a criminal that deserves to be punished?
At some point we all have broken minor laws.
Yes, they are in the wrong but they are not on the same tier as rapists and murderers, and the EXPENSE of fighting it greatly outweighs any damage then living here does.
All I said was the legal process is not as easy as you think, that you're talking about then as if they are on the same level as hardcore criminals, and I ACTUALLY AGREED with you that it is wrong and illegal, but we're using more resources to fight it than what we're losing to it.
Illegal immigration, it's a problem yes, but it's pretty far down the list of priority issues.
And the sympathy was for my family who couldn't get in through the legal routes. I'm sure my Aunt would have loved to be by her brother's side when my Father died. So my sympathy was to my family, but of course you couldn't see past your bias and put words in my mouth.
"People spend years and tons of money". Right, so how can someone poor and running for their lives have money and the resources to apply legally? Your solution is "too bad so bad". You lack even the basic level of empathy. They need to be given a chance to legalize themselves and the US needs to do it's part in making that possible for those poor and helpless.
if someone really feel for them they can always provide their own home and use their own money to feed them, I don't really mind if they do so, but don't use the public funding to do so.
Public funding is used in billions every year for excessive surplus supplies in military, president's golf trips, and other useless things. Why is being a humanitarian and helping your fellow man worse than that?...
Indeed, but America wouldn’t be the best place to live on earth anymore if we just let anyone who wanted come live here for free without becoming a citizen.
Then that person is an illegal immigrant. This doesn't mean we should lock them up in cages or abuse them, obviously, but we send them back to their country and if it becomes a repeated offense, we lock them up.
What does "invalidating their humanity" even mean? You can acknowledge someone's humanity while locking them in prison. What exactly do you think would count as invalidating someone's humanity?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im just saying you dont know.what its like to immagrat across the american boader so why judge.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is hard to earn money, so I just steal from others
Plenty of companies do that.
It is hard to get a degree, so I cheat in exams
There's so many drop outs who can succeed in skill alone a degree isn't really worth cheating on exams and if you are that clueless about something you chose to study, maybe you should find another major. People are more likely to "cheat" in education by throwing money at issues and using bribes to get into better schools.
It doesn't sound so ridiculous because we live in a world where there's so much crime that ends with nobody being hurt or affected that it seems kind of ridiculous to really enforce certain laws.
As for the original argument I'm pretty sure they need some kind of legal status in order to claim benefits from the government. There's probably a decent amount who have jobs that aren't under the table and pay taxes still just because they started at a time where they had legal status.
You also have cities and even states that have come to sort of depend on immigrants. Whether legal or not. Overstayed or smuggled in.
Also keep in mind that America wouldn't really be America if we closed the doors to others. So many people are willing to risk it all just for a chance to see the American dream.
Personally I want those people to live here because I think a culturally homogenous society would be an absolute nightmare. I also want as many people as possible to have a better life. I don’t think being born in the US makes you special. That’s not to say I think that borders should be open to anyone, but the ones that are already here, and the ones that continue to come in, they are alright by me. I would do the same if I were in their place.
I think a culturally homogenous society would be an absolute nightmare
that's what you think and I totally strongly disagree
I also want as many people as possible to have a better life
always feel free to donate to charity or use your own money to take care of people who are homeless and unemployed, let them stay in your house and feed them for free. They will thank you forever for their life, trust me.
I don’t think being born in the US makes you special.
no it doesn't, it only gives you the right to stay in US legally.
That’s not to say I think that borders should be open to anyone
thanks for being rational
and the ones that continue to come in, they are alright by me
then what is the point of a border? just let anyone walk in for free? you wont do that with your own house isn't it?
preserve prestigious, valuable tradition and culture
When I went to Japan, I would like to enjoy and appreciate the traditional culture and the beautiful views of the old buildings and temples. Imagine trying to enjoy Kinkaku-ji or Kiyomizu-dera, and there is a fucking church or mosque next to it, it completely fucked up and ruin the view.
In addition, there are certain groups of people who are specifically easily triggered by others, like complaining about being offensive to them to say merry Christmas or having bikinis in the beaches, imagine people who lived there for generations and suddenly there' are conflicts around things that they have done for years and decades. I don't want to decide what culture is better but if there is a clash the best thing to do is stay at where they belong. No one complains about a woman not showing their skin in the Middle East or force them to take swimming class if they dont want to and no one would complain people being naked in a free beach in France.
preserve prestigious, valuable tradition and culture
Doesn't that kind of assume that all of the existing culture is valuable or prestigious? I don't think everything in the US falls into that and I would love to see a many traditions die out entirely. You also mentioned that you don't want to pick whose culture is better but by saying you don't want to bring in other cultures because yours is prestigious makes it sound like you already have.
When I went to Japan, I would like to enjoy and appreciate the traditional culture
I totally understand wanting to be able to preserve parts of history but that's different from the what people in that country actually have as a prominent part of their culture. For example, when I was in Japan I also was excited to check out the temples and shrines but the majority of my time there I didn't actually see them. People don't go to shrines everyday, they don't wear kimonos, or any of that. The two are separate. Just because Japan has changed over the centuries doesn't mean any of that was lost, it's just different.
In addition, there are certain groups of people who are specifically easily triggered by others, like complaining about being offensive to them
To be completely honest, parts of what you are saying make it sound like you're offended by others just like they are supposedly offended by you.
offensive to them to say merry Christmas
It's not that it's offensive but it is presumptuous. If I said Happy Hanukkah you probably wouldn't appreciate it since I'm guessing you're Christian. People don't want you assuming they're something they're not which is fair IMO. Being American doesn't make you Christian nor are we a Christian country so jumping straight to assuming someone is Christian or celebrates Christmas does seem weird to me.
having bikinis in the beaches
The individual states already can't decide what is or isn't appropriate to wear. When my wife and I first moved down to Alabama she got scolded while we were in public for having exposed shoulders. That's such an arbitrary thing to try and control about someone else and yet it's a thing that happens here.
Further, just because say someone who is Muslim were to move here (since that's an example you gave), doesn't mean they're going to start petitioning for bikinis to be banned or for women to have to remain covered. We already have laws in place that are supposed to protect us from religious oppression.
Here's another thought for you, if you were to decide to travel to somewhere in the Middle East where it was common for women to cover themselves, would you (if you're a woman or anyone in your family if not) cover themselves since that's what is the norm that area? I'm guessing not. Why is it OK for some people to violate cultural norms and others to not?
No one complains about a woman not showing their skin in the Middle East
This is a huge thing right now and has been for at least a decade. People are very much up in arms about women being told they need to cover themselves in the Middle East. People in the US are actively telling them they are wrong to have such a practice. Let's not get into if that's right or not since that is definitely a different debate.
I'll leave you with two last thoughts. First is the idea that the US is a Melting Pot. We take in people of different backgrounds and incorporate them into the mix. The idea being that the sum is greater than the individual parts. A mini culture is exactly the opposite of this. If anything it would be more culturally accurate to accept immigrants.
Secondly, we go through this exact issue every few decades and things don't suddenly become an awful mess. I would be willing to bet that many of the valuable traditions that you mentioned are actually from immigrants bringing in drastically different traditions in. For example, Germans, Irish, and Italians all came to the US in droves and were hated. Same thing with Catholics. They had different beliefs and cultural norms and people didn't want that to be part of what the US is. Now I don't think you could imagine not having things like Christmas trees or even celebrating Christmas at all. Remember that Americans hated Christmas for a long time and celebrating it wasn't allowed.
By preserving your culture you would be missing out on everyone else’s. Being a white Christian of Mennonite background, about every other culture is richer and more interesting than mine. I would also be much less open minded without all my friends that are different than me. I also find that the people who get offended the easiest are right wing Christian types. Go on Britain First on Facebook and see for yourself
Have you ever pirated music? Watched an illicit sports stream? Consumed cannabis when it wasn't legal? Then you broke the law, and you're a criminal.
This binary of whether someone is a criminal or not shouldn't be the justification for uprooting someone's life and kicking them out of the country they call home.
You talk as though you've never broken a law before.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no they committed a misdemeanor like jaywalking. The horror. When people walk across the border illegally for asylum that's all it is, a misdemeanor.
Most people who are here illegally are here on expired visas so something like a stupid wall is beyond worthless.
Ironically you've probably benefited from the work of undocumented laborers and don't even know it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they broke the law, and they are criminals
Have you ever jaywalked? If you are, you're a criminal.
Parked somewhere for too long? You're a criminal.
Weird how you don't give a shit about those (unless you shout CRIMINAL!!" to basically everyone you meet), but you lose your absolute shit if a person stays in the US 1 day longer than he is allowed.
why don't just stop them from coming in ILLEGALLY in the first place?
You do realize they enter legally and just overstay their visa, right?
You act like illegal immigrants existing causes reality itself to fall apart at its seems. I wonder why you're so riled up about them...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost nobody in America lives in actual severe poverty though, even if they didn’t receive welfare. Such lenient social welfare programs enable people who don’t want to work, and discourages them from getting a job because they’d lose the free money. Welfare should be temporary to allow a person time to find a job, through government aid in finding a job. I reckon that all those unemployed people who ‘can’t find a job’ would find one real quick if they found out their welfare would be cut off shortly.
Most people could find jobs really easily if they really wanted to. Problem is that most people don’t want to work the ‘sucky’ jobs and so they just remain on welfare unless they can get a good job with good benefits that isn’t too hard.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:47:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is such a gross misunderstanding of our social programs that goes against easily accessible data. The vast majority of people on these programs need them, a lot of people struggling don't even qualify for these programs. If you want to raise people out of poverty data shows that these programs should be greatly expanded, not further diminished.
But then you said people "get welfare" and that makes me think you're probably under the mistaken belief that people are getting just a fuckton of free money. You should probably do some research before just parroting the myth of the welfare queen.
The vast majority of people on these programs need them, a lot of people struggling don't even qualify for these programs.
Well yes, I know a lot of struggling people that don't qualify for welfare because they make too much money at their jobs. What are the necessary qualifiers for 'needing' the welfare though? Do you have a definition?
You had me up untill you put all immigrants under the umbrella of "criminals". That's very black and white and ignorant and that's why you got down voted.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is that instead of blaming corporations for not paying any money in taxes we get distracted by people who are undocumented to the point that we have dehumanized them. How are we supposed to get rid of corruption if we are constantly blaming people for crossing the border (a non-violent crime) when there are corporations not paying money in taxes, we're constantly going to war and are making those countries unstable through our foreign policy?
[deleted] · -15 points · Posted at 19:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's simple, there are rules and laws for a country and it has the right to apply them. I do not give a single flying fuck how tough their lives are, there are millions to billions who are struggling in the world, so they should all move to America because 'they need to live safely and healthy'?
Tbh if someone really feel for them they can always provide their own home and use their own money to feed them, I don't really mind if they do so, but don't use the public funding to do so.
I'm cool with them all moving here. And i don't even need to give them a home! There's plenty of empty homes that are move-in ready for them. Them being here doesn't affect me whatsoever.
How so many people could vote for Donald T for president regardless of who the opposition. I mean Evangelicals really want a known lying cheat in charge? Pro-lifers are really willing to look past all the immoral BS on the chance that he will follow through on this one agenda item? Will he? So many other examples. I just don't understand.
Because most people choose who to support for reasons entirely separate to political theory and politics in general, this goes for everyone all over the voter spectrum. Truth is that people nowadays vote on their emotional and societal relationship with the two people who are at the top of the parties rather than what the party stands for because of a two party system which is currently more of a threat to liberal democracy than anything else on this planet
So you think they shouldn't have voted? I mean if you think opposition doesn't matter then you think it was a yes or no vote for him. That's not how it works. Also if you are pro-life then yes he has followed through. Once again OPPOSITION matters as well. They KNEW Clinton wouldn't appoint Pro-life people to the Court. They KNEW there was one vacant seat on the USSC, and there has been 2. An incumbent has a better chance of winning and honestly there is a reasonable chance if Clinton had one Ginsburg would have retired. Not saying she would, just saying it's possible. So in reality Pro-Life expected 2 new Justices if Clinton won(The vacant and possibly Ginsburg). 2 of 9 is pretty important.
That response baffles me. Tbh, I don't blame any of my very few problems on the current President. How did that interpretation come out of my comment? The original request was to say what you don't understand. I'm not trying to be grandstanding, political and really dislike that in the US these days we immediately choose sides and sling shit at each other.
As far as the Presidential race of 2016, if the Republican party had put up a good person via the primary process, e.g. McCain or the Mormon former Gov of Mass, I would have happily supported one of them.
As my question said, I just don't understand how others were able/willing to support Trump, especially when approaching that decision from a strong moral base.
Final part of my response, to Redditman246810, I'm sorry you have a heart filled with such hate but Happy Easter and may this day fill you will glory and love.
How people are so squeamish to death penalties, and other inhumane treatment on prisons.
Sure, yes, I understand that the first thing that pops in their mind is how this will be abused to hell and back against minorities and smalltime felons who are actually being silenced by higher-ups with a lot to lose.
But my own point is, on the other hand, "no death penalty" equals "all crimes are punished with a slap on the wrist".
Basically, you get Brazil, where even politicians are brazenly breaking the law. Where the police are dishonorably discharged for doing their job, even when no harm was inflicted. Where nobody is afraid of breaking the law, because the maximum penalty you get is a time-out. With a ceiling over your head, and food, for free.
I'm on the mind that, yes, someone who made a mistake shouldn't have their legs broken as a punishment. But when they're way beyond the point of "mistake" and have done it time, and time, and time again, then yeah, the law should consider amputating their legs altogether. Re-incidence should mean less and less humane measures.
The death penalty does not prevent crime and the US is the only western country to have the death penalty but they do not have the lowest crime rate of all western counties and are not on top of the corruption perceptions index. So it is not necessary to kill people by law to live in a safe and non corrupt environment. A lot of countries aim at resocialization of criminals and not revenge. The ones that are beyond any help they just lock them away forever. Also in case of miscarriage of justice you killed a person who was not guilty. That's not something that can be made right again.
...Which, again, people, is why I've made a point about the re-incidence corollary. There's reeducation, there's rehabilitation, and there's no saving certain people.
Heck, I even mentioned Brazil because that's where I'm from. Our crime rates are on the Top 5 of the planet, there's criminals on the Interpol's blacklist making either a retreat or conducting an empire from here. And they simply don't care about getting caught because, again, penalties here are a goddamn joke.
"Joke", as in, even life sentences and solitary confinement are considered too inhuman. And no matter the weight of your crime, across all estates, you get at least two days a year where you can leave prison to visit your family, a ruling so stupid that every single person expects them to use the opportunity to escape, and guess what, they do exactly that!
Policemen here carry firearms at all times, but this is such a paper-tiger that they're at risk lose their job even if they fire blanks to the sky. And pacification arms like tasers and pepper sprays are simply not available to them OR to the populace because they're not produced in-nation, and import costs are crippling even for them.
Oh and speaking of the blues, did you know the main urban centers from here are also infamous for having the highest assassination rate on officers? Wasn't that an automatic lethal syringe on the USA and other countries?
This is my whole point on death penalty. In a country like mine where this doesn't exist, nobody is afraid of breaking the law, when there's no reason to be scared of doing so! Monetary fines? Why do you think they're criminals on the first place? Ya think they don't have enough scrilla to pay out their own bail, with their soiled income?
The ages of consent of the countries that have 11 -13 as the ages of consent. Like yeah they can engage in sexual activities when they're 11 but if they wanna get kinky and get some fucking vibrators and shit, how're they gonna obtain the necessary sex toys? They aren't old enough to go into a shop and whatever parental figure they live under will certainly flip when they find their credit card charged for a fuckin vibe egg. It's not the people's fault, it's the fuckin' law's fault for giving the country such a young age for engaging in sexual activities.
Honestly the "boyfriend sweater" and women just complaining about wearing a man's shirt and even button up cardigan. Ladies if you like or want something instead of waiting for the designer or creator to make or tailor it to you just buy off the men's rack.
Ok we all complain about our normal shorts(I'm referring to what we might wear to run errands with the kids) not having a decent pocket. A pocket sized to hold a phone, some keys and a wallet. We look at men's shorts and sigh. Buy the damn men's basic short. Not all men's shorts have the button or zipper fly cover. Seriously ladies buy the shorts. Now the so called boyfriend sweater. If what you want is a big sweater similar to what Billie elish was wearing just go to a big and tall men's shop and buy the floppy cozy button up sweater. If anyone judges you they're not worth knowing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does every 60 seconds a minute passes in Africa ?
Why Americans continue to vote against their self interests
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we as a people have let trump continue to lead our country, or how the system still somehow protected his dumbass and allowed him to remain in power. It’s truly a mind fuck
kdd1 · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How men seem to prefer fake plastic tits over real ones. How do you rather unnatural hard odd feeling fake boobs that stay in place over soft and squishy real boobs that bounce?!
Jdsnut · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Supporters and today's GOP?
Does Trump need to kill a baby or someone on video for people to finally realize he and his ilk are bad news?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Jdsnut · 2 points · Posted at 22:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure I agree with this but I just dont understand why? What more do you need to change your world viewpoint and realize your fighting for the same thing you hate?
How some feminists support gender identity politics, but people who use different genders as personality labels for themselves are enforcing traditional gender roles, by saying "this quality is manly, so I identify as a man". Isn't their goal to abolish traditional gender roles?
Additionally, Muslim feminists. Your religion/culture is dedicated to oppressing women. How can you wear a hijab and be a feminist?
Edit: a word
bwjam · -2 points · Posted at 23:10:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Additionally, Muslim feminists. Your religion/culture is dedicated to oppressing women. How can you wear a hijab and be a feminist?
Islam isn't "dedicated to oppressing women". This is just some shit that islamophobes use to justify oppression (ironic). Though honestly some Muslims (especially Arabs) like to perpetuate that too because taking advantage of people is fun I guess.
Men and women in Islam are spiritually equal. They share the same rights, but men and women are expected to do different things - generally the woman of the house will raise the children, the man will be the breadwinner, etc. Emphasis on generally. So you could say there are gender roles, but absolutely not oppression based on sex. Why would God make one person objectively inferior to the other based on their birth? (Some will bring up genetic defects or illnesses, but those give you a more difficult life, not make you an inferior person.)
Feminism is mostly about social equality, so you could say that "Islamic Feminism" is really just against hyper traditional culture around the Middle East. Western female Muslims are essentially doing the same thing but just for whatever social issues women face there.
I'm all for female empowerment in the Middle East. Unfortunately, in many of these Islamic countries, women are made to hide their bodies and aren't allowed to drive or work.
bwjam · 3 points · Posted at 23:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I get what you mean now. You mean how you could cover yourself personally while also being a feminist? Honestly in many Islamic countries if you don't wear a hijab you can very well be killed. That doesn't stop you from being a feminist - not every activist has to die for their cause. Other people legitimately just prefer the traditional clothing and that's their choice.
Do you believe that any religion with a conservative dress code oppresses women? Say, a Catholic woman who believes that showing too much skin is shameful?
But they don't enforce this. Muslim countries exist. As in, they are ran by dedicated religious bigots. Maybe if the pope was the president, that would be an issue
There are plenty of Muslims who practice their faith in a way that is compatible with democratic ideals and sexual equality. Feminism doesn’t set itself against religions, it sets itself against the kinds of discrimination that are present in extremist, fundamentalist practices.
But seriously though, lots of religions make specific demands concerning what women can and can’t wear to protect their decency. Why take issue with hijabs specifically? Do you believe that even moderate Muslims in democratic nations shouldn’t practice that way?
here’s a good article about why many women enjoy the hijab and choose freely to wear it.
“In Islam, the word hijab refers narrowly to a screen that shields you from strangers, and more broadly to rules of modesty in behavior, speech and dress that apply to both men and women.”
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 17:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious people. I don't see the thought process. "Something created this"...okay, I can see where you came to that. "This thing loves me and I know what it thinks, what it wants, what it doesn't want, then there was this talking snake, and a virgin, and a bad place for bad people"...that's where you lose me. How do you mentally make that leap? Can someone that's religious please explain?
Jekaah · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a Christian and I’ll give it my best shot. What is it exactly you struggle to make sense of?
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can even claim to know what happens after we die. I really don't understand how religious people can say "god wants this, god doesn't like that, and he is loving." How do you know? If something is all powerful how could a human claim to know these things? What if there is a god and he is not loving at all and maybe even malevolent? It's just as likely.
Jekaah · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand what you’re saying. Now as a Christian, I can only speak for my religion and beliefs. I will try to make this as short as possible and hope I make sense. I will include passages for reference. I hope you take the time to read this with an open heart and mind.
All our beliefs come from the Bible and what it says. Now to answer your first question, the Bible is clear that there are only two options for where you go when you die: heaven or hell (Matthew 25:26) and there is a description of hell as a lake of fire in Revelation 20:14-15. Now, we decide where we will spend eternity, we have all sinned and fall short of the Glory of God (Romans 3:23). Our sins are washed away by the blood of Jesus (Romans 6:23) and that is how we achieve eternal life with God in heaven.
Now to answer your second question, we know what God wants through various passages in the Bible, an example being that the first and greatest command is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul, secondly love your neighbour as you would yourself (Matthew 22:27-29). Likewise what he doesn’t want, an example being; thou shalt not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14). We also know that God is loving as stated in 1 John: 4.
Your third question. God is all powerful (Psalm 147:5) and the reason we know these things is because he loves us (1 John:4 again). He wants us to love him and worship him, he does not want us to burn for eternity that is why he sent His Son, Jesus to die on the cross for our sins, to save us (John 3:16).
And lastly, there is only one God (1 Timothy 2:5-6) and he is loving. There is no God besides Him. As a Christian I believe and have faith in these words and scriptures.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of that makes sense in that I can perfectly see where your faith stems from...I just can't wrap MY head around it, and that's fine. Most people around me are religious and we all get along fine. People usually assume I am too and I usually only bring up my lack of faith when asked about it.
Jekaah · 4 points · Posted at 20:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your beliefs are your beliefs mate, I have no problem with it. Just wanted to hopefully shed some light on a few questions you may have. All the best to you.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the response! People get defensive when I ask so it helps me to understand people better.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 20:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a Christian don’t listen to what other people say the Bible says, and don’t read a weird version of the Bible, read the king James or NIV, they say what the Bible says. Other people manipulate the words of the Bible and say it says something it doesn’t. Also it’s really up to you if you want to believe Jesus and the god we believe in, I can’t force you to believe that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was raised Baptist so I've read the bible many times. I just never understood how people believe it. But I acknowledge that people of faith don't understand me either.
I have an honest question, why can't Christians/Jewish/Muslims just all agree that their monotheistic God is the the same? Why does it matter who is the son of God/the messenger of God when each religion teaches the same set of values? Also how do Christians still use the old Testament, but not belive in it? How can it be both right and wrong?
For a lot of people, it makes more sense to have a God than the Big Bang, since both exist from nothing, the idea of God at least has an explanation, that he is a higher being. The reason a lot of people believe in the bible and Christianity , myself included, is that if there is a God, he would have made us for a reason, and as such it makes sense that he puts his message out in the form of the bible. I think I may be generalising people’s beliefs, but that is what it is at least for me.
I wasn’t clear, I don’t believe they are conflicting beliefs, unless you are an atheist
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me the universe being eternal works...if a god can be eternal then why not everything? Either way, existence is weird so I hold no ill will towards whatever gets you through the day.
Because the universe isn't Absolute. It's contingent. It's not like the theistic God. If the universe was infinite, it would also have infinite causal loops, it would violate the law of entropy, it would leave quests about how laws exist as eternal dictations of a universe with very precise laws that allow for said universe to continue / expand. Etc.. there are a good many problems with the idea of an eternal universe. But simply? All of the science points to a very clear beginning. The law of Entropy (yes again). Our expanding universe. Background radiation. Galaxy seeds. And the theory of general relativity itself. They necessitate a beginning. Not to mention that we have no real infinities. We can conceptualize them. But we don't have actualized infinites within the material. So an infinity that has occured? It's not mathematically plausible.
Yes, I do, and I appreciate that the whole idea seems ridiculous, but to me, it is no more ridiculous than the universe and all of humanity Springing up from nowhere, for which no one has an answer for how it happened, apart from the people so commonly shunned as stupid or gullible or afraid of death.
I'm not arguing either side. I was just giving you something to watch because you said "universe springing up from nothing" is ridiculous to you. Krauss could help you understand why it's not that ridiculous after all.
I was trying to say that for me, it is equally as ridiculous as the idea of God, which as a Christian, is not very. I struggle with trying to say what I mean, sorry.
Krauss misrepresents his own work for sales. He's been criticized many times over the issue by many in his field. And I'd be very careful to recommend his work simply because it's popular. It's his type of pop-science that is, unfortunately, infesting Reddit.
What Krauss discusses is nothing like justifying a 'universe from nothing.' Heck, there's a reason his book, Something from Nothing, is mocked by-and-large.
I mean, not only is a 'perceived vacuum' not equivalent with a non-existent universe... But it's not even a true vacuum. What Hawking famously observes, and what Krauss misportrays is what naturally occurs within the presence of a quantum field, of which the whole universe is composed. Taking the old view of 'matter' to declare a vacuum, then using the modern view of quantum mechanics to create a notion that something comes from nothing... It's absurd.
It's espousing quantum physics to say, "See! There's stuff there! And it's from a vacuum, as long as you ignore what actually passes as matter, or that it isn't a true vacuum when you take the presence of quantum fields into account... But look! IT'S BASICALLY NOTHING."
And even if it wasn't trying to redefine our observation of what truly makes our modern definition of 'matter'...
The reality of the situation is simple: Krauss' mistake is presenting untested speculative theories of how things came into existence out of a pre-existing complex of entities, including variational principles, quantum field theory, specific symmetry groups, a bubbling vacuum, all the components of the standard model of particle physics, and so on. He does not explain in what way these entities could have pre-existed the coming into being of the universe, why they should have existed at all, or why they should have had the form they did. And he gives no experimental or observational process whereby we could test these vivid speculations of the supposed universe-generation mechanism. He merely postulates, "It's possible." Because doesn't that sound neat? Abuse the science enough. Claim, "It's possible." And if you're smart enough, nobody can disprove you. Except Krauss clearly didn't do enough work to cover his tracks... or even finish the dang job.
The fundamental laws of this theory take the form of rules concerning which arrangements of those fields are physically possible and which aren’t, and rules connecting the arrangements of those fields at later times to their arrangements at earlier times.
Not only does his theory ignore the question of where these rules came from, especially prior to the matter they govern, but they also have nothing whatsoever to say on the subject of where those fields themselves came from, or of why the world should have consisted of the particular kinds of fields it does, or of why it should have consisted of fields at all, or of why there should have been a world in the first place. It's hilariously defunct as an argument.
I would recommend you google his misrepresentation of the science. But, unfortunately, the first article that comes up when you google "Lawrence Krauss misrepresentation" is an article about the many allegations of his sexual harassment and resignation. These are shortly followed by videos calling him out on his misrepresentation of key works, including Alexander Vilenkin's theorem, which, as corrected by the man himself, shows the universe had a clear and defined beginning that cannot be pursued beyond its origin. Lawrence Krauss literally omits the portions of Vilenkin's work he doesn't like by using ellipses, then saying, "It was technical." And Vilenkin corrects the error, as do many of his colleagues.
I would not recommend Krauss to anyone. Much less someone who doesn't know better, and who probably isn't capable of recognizing Krauss' abuse of the literature.
...I'm showing you how Krauss goes against the scientific literature, and that what you're recommending, intentionally or not, is intellectually dishonest. If that causes you to refuse to read something...?
And I know you have time, we all do now ;)
Then it seems you have larger concerns than 'religion' sneaking up on you.
Ok. You can imagine believing in a higher being. Now imagine that this being can inspire thoughts in us, that he can “speak” to us through this process. Imagine that through this he reveals his truths to us, through the people he has spoken to which in turn write books and teachings down. And that’s how you make the leap.
Take the bible, most religious people don’t believe it’s full of actual fact but mostly symbolic.
Same as the bad place, it can be symbolic. I personally believe in the teachings of the new testament because I think the message of loving one another nonmatter what spread by Jesus Christ is a perfect message of love that has no agenda. It didn’t make sense for anyone to spread it, nobody would personally benefit from it, we ALL benefit from it and that’s why I believe it comes from a higher being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or it could be a sneaky mean god that put the word and thoughts out there to mess with humans...I don't really believe that but I imagine you would have problems believing that too...that's how I feel about religion.
I've gotten a few responses but I still don't get it...probably never will.
We can PM if you'd like to. I'll mostly a troll on reddit now, after like 8 accounts. If you want to talk in good faith and have honest discussions.
He made us and gave us free will. That didn't work out well according to any of the Old Testament. Nahum 1:2-8 explains our God. He expected better of us, the same as our parents expected better than we did and the way we expect our children to behave us.
Jesus came to take our sin on him so we can have a path to God.
I'm a Christian after reading all the "holy" books and looking at science. It's the only thing that makes sense to me personally. I also take the Bible at face value and don't look for things to make me feel better about my choices.
Also, when you see someone quote a verse, read the passages around it to put it into context. A lot of anti-christians post Leviticus as the reason we don't support gay marriage. Noone follows Leviticus since the New Testament, and if they do they're just assholes
No I don’t have problem believing it. My religion talks about demons seducing people with evit thoughts and demonic possession.
But I believe that the new testament teachings are genuine because what asshole would tell people to love each other, be generous, practice forgiveness?
Bottom line is: I believe with not a shred of doubt in my heart that if all people acted like Jesus told us to life on earth would be so much better and happier. Mind you: I am not saying that all people should believe in Jesus and I don’t think that all people should convert to christianity to be good people.
You don’t need to be christian to be good, in fact, lots of other religions have messages that put people on a similiar path.
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The issue is you have entirely the wrong impression of religious people. I’m not sure if you’re being intentionally condescending or just have never met one. Christians don’t sit around a table talking about the garden of Eden. All that bullcrap is just metaphorical fables. You learn it once when you’re a kid because absolutes help a child learn about the world.
The way you need look at religious people is this: Life, the universe, and everything we have come to know are ultimately unanswerable questions, and they always will be. Deism is an irrational explanation and science is a rational explanation.
Some people would agree that the simplification of “there was nothing, which exploded.” is just as silly of a belief structure as “God created everything.” But religion has many cornerstones outside of the explanation of the universe. It has cultural, moral, and altruistic nuances. This is just an important of a part of religion than anything else, and in my opinion, worth believing in. For no other reason than it brings people together. George Washington said it himself, what made America strong was a people bound by an ideology - and I agree.
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I'm not being condescending at all.
So what you are saying is that it doesn't matter if it's real and that we should believe it anyway because it brings us together?
Most people I know are religious and they are way closer to my impression so I'm going to have to disagree with your first point. The part I don't understand is believing in something that you have no real reason to. Never made sense to me.
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I guess religion is just for people to belief in something, otherwise life would be dull.
There has to be a reason why we are here.
I do agree that there would be way less conflicts if there was no such thing as religion, but then mankind would fight over other things like nationality and landmass (Like Israel and the other country)
It absolves them of responsibility, makes them feel like they can do something about things they can't, gives them an excuse for unjustifiable behavior. Allows them to feel better than others.
But most of all it feels good to have faith in something. Religious participation gives people a high akin to taking drugs.
Exnaut · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who used to be Christian. That's pretty much not true at all. It would only relate to a few.
Can't say I'm a fan of wrestling, personally, but it operates the same as any procedural TV show. I mean, every TV show operates from a script and wrestling is no different. A script is set up, the matches are determined, they fight, sometimes an arc is created, sometimes it's ended. Onto the next show.
As for not knowing that it's scripted, most people do. It's like Christmas (spoiler alert). They believe Santa's real until they find out he's not. But, after that, they still put presents under the tree because they enjoy it. Wrestling operates in very much the same way.
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Exnaut · 6 points · Posted at 21:25:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
....what? The only difference is one is done in front of a shit load of ppl like a stage.
Did you know that "reality" TV is edited that way? Yet people watch THAT. It really is the same as any other TV. A bunch of people following a script. The fact that you can understand how a staged fight is the same as a sitcom or reality show or other stuff on TV says more about you.
Everyone knows. It’s a television show. Why do people like Rocky movies? Miracle? The Mighty Ducks? Air Bud?
It’s a sports drama, everyone except small children knows it’s just a TV show.
I work in pro wrestling, and can tell you as a performer there is no bigger adrenaline rush. As a fan, I can tell you some of my favorite memories with my dad are watching wrestling as a kid, and me thinking it was legit and him playing along.
TLDR: pro wrestling is a live action rocky movie, everyone knows it’s scripted, and you should watch it.
PS. The unfortunate truth is that watching pro wrestling, especially WWE as a first time viewer probably sucks. I’d recommend finding a local independent promotion in your town, trust me there is one, and going to a live show. It might suck (if the tickets are less than 10, it probably will) but you’ll have a blast. The energy is infectious. AEW on TNT is a new TV brand so there’s less context to understand but even still tv wrestling often assumes a general knowledge of wrestling, sometimes to their detriment.
Miracle? You mean the movie based on teh Miracle on Ice? I mean yeah people know the ending because it was a REAL historical event that it's based on. However it wasn't based on a script like the rest of what you are listing. I mean yeah Rocky was inspired by a real fight to a degree, but it is still more based on a script(although I give Sly credit for the original ending, which is also proof he was basing it on the real fight). Beyond that I totally agree with you, just wasn't sure why Miracle was picked.
It's live action performance, like theater. The wrestlers, commentators, managers, on air personalities, referees, even the audience: They're all actors working to create a story. The matches are just the action scenes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I'll explain as if you were 5 lol (because u ever so kindly asked lol)
A company sells a part of themselves.
People can buy said part.
That part isn't actually a percentage of the profits of that company.
So it's interesting to buy stocks of a company that will succeed in the future because the profits will he higher and then you will get more back.
And yeah recession is just the economy falling back.
In practise it's when the GDP (total of costs of all produced products of a certain country combined) growth is negative for 2 or more than 2 following quarters (6 months or more).
It occurs because of a lot of reasons. One example I can give because we learned about it in my class.
When Trump banned import of Chinese laundry machines to make sure the American people would buy American products the GDP of China decreased a bit.
Now say if the GDP decreased a lot it would form a recession
You can not like him but also not believe he's the most evil person in the world like Reddit would have you believe. It's possible to think he does some good things and some bad things but is mostly a douche bag who should be hung for war crimes like pretty much every other president. Maybe even think that Clinton could have been an even worse president who could have gotten us into a world war. A person who voted for Trump could quite possibly have several thoughts in their head that have nothing to do with walls or racism.
I agree lol but I'm just genuinely curious. I'm not American and don't follow American politics all too closely, so I don't often hear about anything good he's done. I actually would like to know why people support him.
Support is a strong word. I lean towards free trade and against tariffs but I reluctantly support his tariffs against China. I believe that they are a bad actor on the world stage and need to be put in check. However I reluctantly voted for him over Hillary because of comments she made in debates that made me believe she would push us into a third world war. She said she would treat Russian hacking as an act of war and she also said she would enforce a no fly zone over Syria. Both of these stances had a very high chance of putting us in a hot war with Russia. Trump on the other hand spent his entire campaign criticizing the never ending wars in the middle east (yes I know he supported them at the beginning) but Clinton had to spend her campaign apologizing for voting for the wars.
As a european I am frankly disgusted that anyone would vote for him. I’m on the conservative side on a lot of issues but for me it’s enough to hear the guy SPEAK to see that he’s unfit to lead. Not only everything he says is vague and hyperbolic, he completely lacks the eloquence that a guy smart enough to lead a country needs to have.
It’s clear that he’s actually fucking STUPID and it seems like his voters are either ok with being lead by a dimwit or themselves too stupid to see it.
A country should be lead by the smartes and most competent people around, not by a literal nimrod.
Like, I get that they like how he hates liberals and Mexicans just as much as they do, and they don't want the goddamned poors to get healthcare without having to suffer for it. But even still... how could anyone look at that inept pile of douche who can't string together a coherent sentence and say "this guy's fuckin' GREAT and is exactly the kind of guy I want running my entire country?!"
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The premise that was given was that illegal immigration was the issue that Trump supporters have. /u/beer_is_tasty suggested that if all immigration is made legal, then there's no more illegal immigration.
But now the goalpost changed with you arguing about borders. It's obvious that you just flat out don't want any immigration so why sugarcoat it with "illegal immigration"?
The idea is not that all illegal immigrants are bad. It's that if they are easily able to hop over the border, many criminals can sneak in as well. Yes the immigration system in America needs to be made more convenient, but that't not an excuse to allow unmonitored immigration.
No, that is open borders. A country shouldn’t have open borders. It’s no longer a country then.
The process of immigration should try to make sure that those immigrating in are somewhat aware of the country and how things work here, and would contribute to it rather than just add to the problems.
I definitely am privileged to live in one of the best places in earth.
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Conservatives dislike illegal immigration
Ronald Reagan grandfathered in literally every single hispanic illegal immigrant when he passed the Immigration Reform & Control act. He did so under pressure from - largely - conservative farmers, who wanted more cheap labor.
Make no mistake, Conservatives are collectively the one group most responsible for the current amount of illegal & legal immigrants from Mexico & South America.
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Did Reagan deport illegals > no
Did Reagan increase legal & illegal immigration > yes
Are you fucking retarded to not understand that?
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If you (or someone like you) are arguing for a higher minimum wage, why would you also argue for increasing the supply of unskilled labor? You do realize those are completely antithetical to each other right? Same goes for UBI and universal healthcare, as well.
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The entire crux of my post was about minimum wage, what do H1 engineers have anything to do with that? Or the rest of your post for that matter?
I’ll never understand how someone can be so dumb. You talk like you know what you are saying but clearly have no damn clue. The delusion is real. Where did you see that he hates Mexicans? A random Reddit comment? There’s a difference between hating Mexicans and not wanting illegal immigrants into the country.
I’m sure if you lost your job to someone that isn’t even an American citizen or something happened to you involving an illegal immigrant you would change that dumb ass stance real quick.
And all politicians are douches, get over it. As for the healthcare part, everyone should get free health care. So I won’t argue with you over that.
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Men that say I am made for them and they love me but treat me like shit the second it is not convenient for them or there is no possibility for sex.
Me and my dad were kayaking once and some geese attacked him for getting too close and he lost his phone. It was pretty funny but those geese were cucks
Kind of depends on what you specifically mean when you say liberal. But for me a big part of it is just the idea of live and let live. Like if someone wants to do something, and it's not hurting me, it's not hurting them, and it's not hurting anyone else, then why should I give a fuck?
Down the road from my apartment there's a big model train store and exhibit. Apperantly it's super fucking impressive. Like the whole thing takes over multiple rooms, but they built it in a way where you can walk around and see the whole thing. And despite me being here for 6 years, I've never been. Why? Because I have no interest. I really just don't care. But I also have never protested it. I've never said it should be shut down. If they wanted to advertise it, I would still just go about my day. Why? Because no ones being hurt. People are happy. My life is not affected by them. Even though I see the building going to work 5 days a week, my life continues as it would if they closed down.
I just apply the same logic to basically everything else. Wanna smoke some pot and watch a movie? Go ahead.
As for the most economic side, I've been poor. I was raised poor. I've seen the fact that working hard doesn't guerantee success. In fact, having worked retail and fast food, I would say those people typically are super hard working. I've hard easier jobs that pay twice as much. I've also noticed are system is broken. Like I keep hearing about how the free market will solve the problems, but the free market doesn't generally solve shit. Why? Because there's no real incentive for a business to. I'm fairly capitalistic, but for certain things I feel like just leaving it open is more harmful than good. I would personally rather some of my tax money go to help people than to buy yet another group of jets we don't need. Like the military started loaning things out to police forces because we have to much shit. We don't need to spend billions more than that. We could cut the spending in half and still have the world's biggest military. So I say we cut it even just a little and use our money for us. We put money in, I don't see why we should get chastised for wanting to take money out.
Like if someone wants to do something, and it's not hurting me, it's not hurting them, and it's not hurting anyone else, then why should I give a fuck?
I agree and I'm a trump supporter. Am I liberal now?
Also your last paragraph is basically anti-taxation. Congrats, welcome to becoming a conservative.
That first part would be libertarian, and the part about taxation is the exact opposite of what you think I said. Im arguing for things such as free Healthcare. Im arguing for it being paid for through taxes. I support taxes. I just want our taxes to help us. Does the military support us? Yes. But there's a limit to that where we're just throwing money at corporations instead.
When you start paying enough taxes to make a down payment on a house each year, let me know what you think about increasing taxation for this fantastic "free" healthcare you talk about.
That's a weird level to put it, but I'll still agree. I don't even need it right now. I have a great job with great benefits. I'm renting an apartment, but living fairly comfortably with $8 a month healthcare, dental, and vision. Benefits of working at a hospital. Still think it should be done. I know it's weird for conservatives to think everyone who wants it only wants it for themselves and must be poor while they agree with it, and that those who have money suddenly realize why it's a terrible idea. Yet it seems like the people who work in Healthcare, from what I've seen, tend to support it.
But sure thing bub. It's totes just that I need to make an extra $10k a year, and then my mind will magically shift over.
I guess it depends on your definition of liberal but how could you be conservative? Isn't the whole idea of "liberal" moving society forward?
No offense, but being conservative seems unintuitive to me. What's that quote, about the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing and expecting different results?
I think being a healthy amount of both is good, but at the end of the day, we have to be at least a little liberal to move is forward.
Why people would birth kids into the world when their quality of life is going to be crap or their life will be cut short. Global warming is going to cause untold economic hardships, disease, and destroyed ecosystems. Bringing somebody into a broken, burning world just to force them to deal with all that seems selfish to me.
Thats true, life always has kind of sucked, but my point stands. I think if I had a kid, I would want it to have the best shot at a happy life. Whether I lived now or 50 years ago or 500 years ago. Still wouldn't wanna do it. Different troubles, same misery.
It's not a housing bubble like the last crisis. People still need to stay somewhere, and if anything be this highlights the advantages of having a house versus apartment.
Wouldn't not having a job make it hard to pay a mortgage? Wouldn't a lot of people defaulting because of no savings cause an influx of houses not the market? Wouldn't a lack of buyers cause a buyers market? Supply and demand and all that.
Many lenders are being pretty forgiving at the moment. Foreclosures can be slow and wouldn't have even started yet even without such measures though. Not many buyers, but not many sellers either.
How dumb I am in comparison to genuinely intelligent people.
When I think about How the fuck people managed to invent the technologies we average people use and rely on everyday. Things like phones, computers and the satellites they use to communicate with. I used to think I was somewhat intelligent but when I really think about it,I don’t know shit. I just use things smart people made and remember things smart people said.
“If I left you in the woods with a hatchet, how long before you could send me an email?”
Networking and servers beyond a basic level. I'm in IT but I'd like to learn more about those. I have a co-worker who knows his stuff in the subjects and when he talks about them I really try to pay attention to soak up what I can but it's like trying to learn about US history but starting in 1900 instead of 1492.
Why do people insist on working against their own best interests for the sake of people who want nothing but to take advantage of them? Looking at you, democratic voters. As a non-American, it baffles me, though that's not to say it's a problem exclusive to America.
The subject matter of Tiger King is almost irrelevant- I mean it's not, but really it's the amount of pure fuckery that's going on with, in and around all the people involved, and the fact that almost all of them are just batshit. I think we have a natural fascination, some less than others, with outlandish characters and bizarro situations and events and they just keep coming in this.
I don’t understand how I can offer to plan an Easter dinner menu for the house, and no one really seems to have an opinion. I LOVE to cook, and I do a good job, but I sort of like some input so I can make things people want to eat.
Bitcoin. Like, how do you get them? What represents them? Hou can't say you have 50 bitcoins without there being a way to verify it. How does that all work?
Human chromosome 2. Two chromosomes fused into one at some point and the telomeres and centromeres add up but how did that not throw off transcription? Did it have to happen two a male and female both? How'd that whole thing go down? I know it did, just not sure on the nuts and bolts.
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I started to think about travelling through space and never reaching the end because there isn't one. Then I thought about going up or down forever and I couldn't get to sleep.
Tons of people do stuff to help people without expecting benefits. If people act the way you think they do then no one would post on things like r/IllegalLifeProTips etc as they would benefit much more if no one else knew about it
It's easy to make an adblock, it's not like they run any servers so it costs nothing. All they have to do is make some code and upload it online.
I assume that most adblocks are made by people who have too much free time and want to make something useful or by students who are testing the coding they have learnt
I don't understand why people support LBGT but are not part of it. I don't really understand anything that has to do with LBGT or any thing that California supports or does. I'm from the South east part of the US. It is very uncommon to see a local LBGT member here.
Oh okay thanks, I am having a hard time understanding LBGT because where I live people don't support anything like that and I really don't have an opinion about it. I don't agree with LBGT but that does not mean I am ageist it.
I don't see them where I live, but I hear about them on the internet. I just don't understand why somebody would want to be gay or change there gender.
How people have it worse than me/we do around the world. Like yeah we know it’s true, but I don’t think anyone truly understands how much different it is.
How strong your Math teacher's immune system is. ;-;
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My middle school math teacher paid for her immune system with her psychical health. That one time, when my friend was angry, because our school wouldn't pay for his transport to a math contest (the contest was in the capital i think) so he said that to her, and she started to cry, because "if you insult the school, it's like you insult me". She left the class that time. Never got sick tho
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People who treat someone who treats them well, like shit, just because they can. Like what? they're being nice to you, why would you be mean to them? That makes no sense.
People who take you for granted and sniff that you're "not needed" but then blame you when they lose....all while making you out to be the asshole when they've never shown they give a single shit about you.
I can do trigonometry. But I have no idea why it works. Why can you find the length of a triangle side with sine, cosine or tangent? And the angles with the inverses?
d3jake · 1 points · Posted at 16:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worship and "reality shows". I don't care what stupidly rich people are doing, or whatever BS scenario producers have dumped the most drama-filled folks into.
why is there no history before america was settled in by white men?? there were people here before. i want to know more about that. i want everything before the white men came in. maybe it’s a stupid thing to think about and maybe there just wasn’t any history but we are never taught that in school.
I understand revenge and retaliation but I just don't get this:
People wanting to harm others out of plain jealousy and envy, wanting to destroy someone that helps you, or because the person is beautiful or smart, without the person ever doing anything to you, it makes no sense. Doing harm because it makes you happy, how could someone's happiness is based upon someone's else suffering? That's is beyond me.
Another thing I don't get empathy for sexual predators and abusers, especially when it's family, how could a family that knows someone is abusing the kids in the family support the ongoing abuse? Or refuse to helps their daughters or sometimes sons when they're with a violent SO and always take the side of the violent SO, and when they're killed or end up in a coma they cry about it? Like why the f*&$ are you crying? You saw the abuse and told the police all was a lie, or pressure or threatened your flesh and blood with harm so they'll deny the abuse and say all it's a lie. That's beyond me.
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L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I'm possibly goint to r/woooosh myself, but oh well. I think it's quite simple. Let's say we have a sitution.
Men walks down the road, sees his friend, walks to the other side of the road to meet him.
Now the same situation, but with King Crimson.
Men walks down the road (KING CRIMSON USES HIS ABILITY) during it men sees his friend, walks to the other side of the road to meet him (KING CRIMSON ABILITY ENDS) and men is confused as to why is he somewhere else. Nobody but Diavolo can now remember anything from that time. Anime wasn't specific about some things, so I always considered it more like a psychological effect, where people in some distance to him can't remember anything. Then again, Araki forgets about a lot of things.
The phrase, “he wants his cake and eat it too”. I understand what people are trying to communicate in terms of describing a persons greed or unfair expectations... however if I get a cake, goddamnit, I also want to eat it... such a stupid phrase. Can someone explain this shit!?
I am not sure, sayings get passed around in weird ways (it could have originally been like that but changed over time, its like how when you play Chinese whispers the message gets changed completely)
I believe I have been lied to then, nevermind.
Thanks for responding!
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But since it's still Europe we still don't know about more civilized lands. For example, in Africa they don't stand in queue's for food, because there's none.
Circuits. I'm in my junior year of undergrad biomedical engineering, I've learned about circuits in 4+ classes now. Still for the life of me don't understand a damn thing about electricity.
Nit-picking or obsession with other people's bodies, everything from tattoos to abortions.
Why the fuck should it matter to you? How does your niece's septum piercing impact your life in any way, other than triggering your own insecurity? How is your classmate or coworker using birth-control or having an abortion any of your fucking business? "I won't date someone with tattoos," well fine, they probably don't wanna date a judgmental asshole like you, either. As long as no one is trying to force YOU do any of these things to your own body, you can mind your own business.
People that have that fake way of speaking that makes them sound like trashy valley girls from the 80's. "Lahk ah mah gahd". They think it makes them sound super cool, but my skin crawls everytime I hear it. I just can't understand it at all
They were originally stuff like occupations, places they were from, family members names (like they would take their father's name as their surname) and also some surnames were physical descriptions of the person.
Why my love for her wasnt equal to her love for me.
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People doing social distancing meetings in person. I see people doing charade movements while screaming at each other so the other person can hear. Isn't it just safer to video and call each other?
people have such different experiences. for people in my small town, even though we all go to the same school and basically do the same things every week day, everyone has such different lives and life experiences. I know a girl who literally goes to NYC every other day, another whose family is SO rich that every few weeks she flies to Japan to ~ reconnect with her culture ~ meanwhile I am here and basically sit on my couch and watch tv/ do hw all day!
How I still get sick with an autoimmune disease. Like, you're so bored you actively kill my thyroid, but then a cold comes around and you sleep on that shit? Okay
I am pretty tech savvy but the backside of computers still escapes me. I learned some things about programming in Linux recently and it only left me with more confusion. Programming languages were already intimidating for me, yet they are made specifically to be used to create and build and they are not always user friendly. How do those languages work in the first place? How does binary create the whole experience that we now take for granted in all tech? Who designs the programming languages and how do those codes take the form they have? I don't get how 0's and 1's make it all happen. Freaks me out a little bit.
How to socialize. I have unconfirmed social issues in the first place, and due to a hostile elementary environment and homeschooling during middle school years, I missed out on developing many in-person social skills.
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What was there before the universe and what will be there after.
The way tomatoes taste to people who like them. They taste so unbelievably horrible to me that they can leave a bad taste in my mouth for hours. I’ll never understand how people enjoy them or what it tastes like to them.
Okay this is gonna odd but I will never understand why women go into the bathroom together. Like I work at a gas station, the bathroom is inside, single stall bathroom and there are still women who go in the like 3-4 at a time. I can’t imagine why
Wave-particle duality confuses the fuck out of me, despite how interested I am in it. Granted, I have no formal education on the subject of quantum physics, but from what I've seen, it confuses all the physicists too. It gets so godamn weird so quickly.
Stixsr · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people drive so fast on non-highway roads. Where are you going that requires you to go 25 over the limit? You're literally only making the road more dangerous for everyone.
How the universe came to be. I mean obviously nobody exactly knows, there's theories and scientific proof but, how did those things come to be. What made the atoms or what ever was there to make the big bang, and what made that. It's like an endless loophole in my mind that I get caught up in and confused
Dating someone you don’t love at least a little. Like I genuinely cannot fathom how you could bear spending so much time, kiss, have sex with a person you don’t have feelings for. (ngl relashionships have been hard for me partly because of that).
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Littering. Why can’t you just hold onto something until you get to a trash can or some type of receptacle? This includes cigarette buds. The epitome of laziness.
whenever i am almost asleep, but then i either here my name in a different conversation or i hear someone come near me, all of my senses go crazy and everything feels amplified.
isxail · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alcohol, you hear non stop negative things about it, it tastes terrible and almost everyone says they didn't like the taste at first and/or drinks cheap beer they dont like because its cheap, it destroys families, it destroys bodies, drunk driving, and a fair amount of the time you barely remember it
Long division. Never got it. I jumped around from school to school, different states, another country, back again... nothing was consistent and you know being forced to learn another language and sitting in classes where I don’t understand anything doesn’t help. So I never learned how to do it 🤷♀️ top of my classes otherwise, honors in college. But no long division. And at this point I don’t need it so who cares but I do kinda feel dumb for not grasping a simple mathematical concept.
How airplanes, airports, flight schedules, air traffic controllers etc work together. How tf can something so complex and dangerous involving millions of people be so organized and safe(ish).???
They enjoy watching it enough to think that the person who provides the entertainment deserves money.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly my point. Arnold Schwarzenegger entertained me in every one of his 80s films , never once have I felt like sending him a fiver because of it.
Absolute Muppets game.
Well, you paid to watch the films and paying to watch the film supported him.
People who make content on Youtube/Twitch have to spend a lot of time and if they don't get ads then they don't get any money for all the effort they put into it. There are some fans who are willing to pay the content creator the same amount of money they would spend on a movie as they like it just as much.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on the one hand we have people who can determine origin of our planet from some dust or radiation and on the other hand people who don't believe in vaccinees or global warming. Yet they both can cast equal vote for government or president.
How the fact that my dads work is an “essential job” even though he works at a dealership and the work he does mostly can be done at home yet his boss isn’t letting them stay home.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese. I’ve never learnt it. It looks like it wants to kill me. I don’t understand how there can be so many characters, in so much detail. Props to people who have it as a second language.
From, person who speaks Korean and Japanese.
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what aspect is Japanese harder that Chinese ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not.
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 11:05:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:46:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
While Japanese is quite simple to learn, the only difficult thing about it is the different types of it. Katakana, Hiragana, Kanji, etc. A lot of the characters are taken from Chinese anyway, the same with Korean.
Korean has only 24 characters, and once you know them down to a T, you basically are fine. I became somewhat fluent in Korean in little over a year, from memorising common vocabulary. The grammar in both is pretty simple.
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 12:28:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the alphabets are the scary part for me. We'll see what will win. My determination to watch anime without subs vs my lazy ass.
zyrg13 · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced mathematics, also intermediate mathematics.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least in my city, the older population is acting like nothing is happening right now. I'm "essential" so I've talked to many older people with no mask who think it's being blown out of proportion and I'm here wearing a mask and gloves to do my part. The lack of people trying to help instead of hurt at this time is astounding to me.
i genuinely do not understand how someones actions can be the direct source of my breakdown & frustration... & how they can day in & day out watch me struggle.... I asked over & over if they had something to do with it.... no... made me feel even more crazy.... a lot of fights & shitty days coulda prolly been avoided....
but i dont get how you can do that to someone you care about... or “love”??
Republicans. The hypocrisy from Fox is astounding. The way they went after Hillary for using private server but don't care that Trump's family uses WhatsApp to conduct official business. They got worked up over Hunter Biden getting a job in a private company in a another country but are they totally fine with Ivanka and Jared kushner working on the Whitehouse. The list goes on and on. I just can't understand how they're ok with all of this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people figured out skateboard tricks, or the right shape to make the skateboard
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Thud2 · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics. I read about it. Achieve no comprehension.
How a person can think of nothing. I have a constant stream of thoughts all day long, but a male friend insists he can clear his mind to nothing. So what exactly is nothing? Is that in itself something?
I’m a senior in high school and I’d have to say how my teachers tell me to relax and say that we won’t be missing much despite piling tons of hw on us.
Users. How some people can think it’s acceptable to use others (whether emotionally, physically/sexually, or financially) to meet their own wants. How they can disregard how that behavior affects the people they do it to.
Why people desperately want children. Like it's been explained to me as an 'innate desire', a 'biological need', a 'greater purpose', and to have a 'meaningful life', but I still don't understand, and have been called selfish for not wanting my own.
I just interpret it as people hating their lives and feeling so unfulfilled that they need to devote it all to a small human. I also find it really narcissistic that people are so desperate to have kids with their genes, or that they can't love an adopted child like they would their own.
It's such an alien concept to me that people would want a baby. Children are cute and fun but having them around always for 18 years sounds horrific. It's a choice for most, and as long as people are happy and treat their kids right, all is well. Still don't get it though.
People who go out of their way to be mean. I work service industry and I get SO many rude asshats who are mean just for the sake of being mean. You can tell they enjoy it. But why?
How complex the human body is. We've barely scratched the surface of the mechanisms of life, there are so many billions of things that could go wrong that are fatal, and yet the body functions so smoothly (despite humans injuring themselves or putting poisons like drugs in their bodies).
The most fascinating, in my opinion, is how the body heals itself. First it has to detect a problem before it even starts to fix itself. There are so many defense mechanisms and programming in the body and brain it's astounding. Nothing man-made has come anywhere close to working as smoothly as the human body does at such a complex level.
How people can vote for politicians. Example: How can people go straight from Bernie to Biden and why even support them in the first place. All they are doing it working for themselves. This goes for republicans too but the whole Bernie-Biden thing is beyond me.
Why do people party until they throw up and get wasted ? Even the words get wasted sounds terribly unappealing to me. I don't understand how you had an entire week of work or exams and then when it's finished you get wasted and end up being tired the whole weekend. Partying is an effort in itself so why do we need to add that to a week of effort ? Really i don't understand. It's absolutely not judgmental i just want to understand.
Economics! I’ve taken 2 courses at uni and each time I’ve ended in tears because it just stops making sense after a certain point and I can’t wrap my head around it. I’m not stupid, I graduated magna cum laude, but goddamn I just don’t get it
Algebra. I can't wrap my head around it. Everything keeps looking backwards to me. The only reason I'm passing my math class is because everything is online now and I'm paying my brother to help me with tests.
I get what it is. My problem is that every thing looks backwards to me. It just jumps around in my head. My biggest problem right now is that I keep writing my equations on my homework in the wrong order, sometimes backwards. I also have shit handwriting and I keep forgetting if I wrote down a 3 or an E
Well we have the quarantine rn so you could work on your handwriting (it takes a lot of practice but is worth it, plus you could surprise your teachers and friends with it)
Societal views and morals and the overall way people think during situations or problems.
Kids: makes a classmate's life miserable through emotional and physical torment
Victim: shoots the kids as revenge
Society: "Damb dude, didn't see that coming, maybe if we teach our kids to be nice so they don't die it would fix this problem. But nah"
I’m not even talking about giving them to civilians. I’m literally not even trying to be political I’m talking about recreation, like shooting ranges and such
Fair enough. You're entitled to your opinion. I disagree entirely and see no reason whatsoever why a civilian should ever handle a lethal weapon. But hey, you do you.
why more and more official social media channels of serious institutions choose to include emojis in their texts. looks extremely unprofessional. still so confusing to me why they would do that
Sure I get that my initial guess was made when there were 3 options, but what I don’t get is why switching my guess in the second half is any better than not switching because surely not switching is also a choice??
M other half is a maths teacher and she hates that I can’t get around this but my brain just won’t let me.
There is an one third chance that the one you originally picked is the car. So, there is a two thirds chance that it is not the original door. Once the wrong door is revealed, there is still a two thirds chance that the car door is not your original door, and the only possible car door that’s not the original is the third, unreleased door, giving that door a two thirds chance of having a car in it.
But surely this is a separate choice now, and not choosing to switch is the same as choosing. By removing a door you’re effectively changing the equation from 1/3 to 1/2. Sticking with your original door is still a choice.
I got A or A+ in every single math course in university (I think totalling 7). I don't understand ANYTHING about differential equations. I think they crammed too much in and all I could do was learn how to solve them without gaining any understanding.
How people are so thick and don't listen to what they're being told about what to do at the moment, do they not realise it's serious, do they not care, just how can they not realise
Why count Dooku never made any moves against palpatine despite being opposed to him. I mean the guy up and told obi wan about a sith controlling the Senate but then just goes along with palps plans till the day he dies.
Living in constant paranoia and skepticism. I understand it in regard to mental illness or in an environment that's fostered it, but in people that aren't mentally ill and have lived safe/relatively normal lives, I can't wrap my head around it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How eternity works. I mind cannot process it.
I believe in an afterlife and the thought that we will exist for eternity and the world will end freaks.me.out.
I had this one teacher that was ok personally. Not bad, not good, nothing special or definitive teaching wise, personally. I will have to admit that some...no, all of my classmates...no, all of my batch have collectively decided that he was trans and gay.
Like cmon!! He just said some words weird and has a different demeanor as opposed to other teachers! He may look so but he is in no way incompetent or dumb.
Anyway, the class tormented this teacher day after day after day. They always directly opposed his orders, made it a habit to never do any homework he gives out, spread rumors about him being trans, actively shouted at him to die and burn in hell. I heard that in another class, the students tried to stone him to death with their books, pencils, backpacks, locker keys, etc. I even remember someone biting him in the arm. Of course, he grew stricter; and that only made the students hate him even more. I don’t remember the things that happened after that, i just know it got worse. After the school year and the summer following that, he resigned, citing that it was “too much.”
It was torture seeing this man slowly melt into a hot pile of raging mess over the course of a school year. I have no idea how someone can have the moral capacity to treat someone else in such an inhumane way.
I still have breakdowns whenever I think back to that time. I hope he’s okay.
To the monsters I am referring to,
To the people that hate on their teachers, and;
To the people that hate people because of their sexuality,
Over time the process was refined, it was probably accidentally made at first (and the accidental product likely looked nothing like what you think bread looks like)
Parents who don't show their child basic life skills eg cooking, doing their own laundry, or even changing a tyre on a car. Or if the child tries to do it, the parent says "You're doing it wrong" and does the entire task for them anyway.
Then when the child becomes an adult and surprise surprise, they cannot do those tasks, the parent says "Look how useless the younger generations are! They can't even change a goddamn tyre!". Well who brought your kid up? These days I guess you could Google it, but even so, I feel like if you don't show your kids at least a couple of basic life skills, in my opinion you've failed as a parent.
At least 90% of the time if a kid can't adjust to the real world, its the parents' fault for raising them that way. You should have a child that is ready to face the real world when they become an adult, not have a human clone that you brought into this world that will likely depend on you until the day you die.
I’m in my late 20’s, never been in a relationship, haven’t even been on a real date. I wonder if I’m aromantic or something, because it seems so foreign and intimidating. I would love to be married, but so desperately wish I could skip all the steps in between.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girl can use so much toilet paper. I swear, when it's just me and my male roommate, a roll or tp will last at least a week. If there is a woman in the house, we go through practically a roll a day. How?
I can not wrap my head around how we evolved from apes. Did the genes start mutating all of a sudden and them bam early humans ? I also do not understand how people were able to train ravens to deliver messages. I know ravens are very intelligent, but how did they know what kingdom to go to?
I’m probably not the first one to say it, but the stock market! I’ve been wanting to invest so I tried doing some research, and it just makes no sense to me.
Why antivaxxers seem to find it easier to make up incredibly far-fetched, ridiculous and blatantly incorrect tales about the horrors of vaccination than to just understand how vaccines work. It’s really not that hard a concept to grasp. I don’t consider myself to be very creative so what they’re doing seems a lot more difficult than just learning a couple of facts.
How judgement becomes impaired when you're emotional more than when you're under the influence of alcohol.
Like yeah I've made some bad decisions when I'm drunk but nothing too crazy, but the shit I've done when someone's upset me or I feel attracted to someone? I'd take drunk any day.
Accountancy. I believe that's how you say it in English? idk, the school/college subject where you have to organize finances and calculate active goods and incomes and debts etc etc. It made my two last high school years a nightmare.
In theory it shouldn't be hard to understand, but I just c a n 't. Maybe it's just that I find it so ungodly boring my brain straight out refuses to grasp it.
People who seem hyper invested with politics but have no interest whatsoever in hearing out their opposition or understanding why others think the way that they do
The internet and transfer in general.
I mean with infrared and bluetooth it was ok but internet? I log into my wlan and take everything from everywhere.. see stuff and idk man fucks my brain
and TVs.. Idk how they work but hey .. they are great
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger's cat. Seriously, he's either dead or alive, I don't get it.
People who are obsessed with gucci & unnecessarily expensive shit. A 10$ watch and a 450$ watch do the same thing. There's also those who have gold belts and show it off wherever they go. What's the point dude? Really makes me cringe.
Effect and affect. I’ve looked it up multiple times; have had people try to explain it to me, then feel like I have a grasp on it for a whole minute before it melts away...again.
I genuinely do not understand how there are billionaires in the same world at the same time there are starving children who die from lack of nutrition due to lack of money. I don't understand how we all live with this inequity as if it is some natural system.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic. If we’re all going at least the speed limit on the highway, there shouldn’t be stop-and-go anything! Not matter how people try to scientifically explain it, I keep thinking, “There’s some little old lady doing 40 in a 60”.
Even though Darwin must be close but I feel his work isn't complete.
MrHoit · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. If there isnt an after life, is it just blank? What is blank? It cant be black, be cause black is a real colour. When we die, i dont think we'll see black just as much as we'll see blue.
How people can be so soulless... this especially rings true to politicians and those rich fucks like jeff bezos... how can you live with yourself taking away from people who have nothing and hoarding so much that you will NEVER need...
How people can casually strike up conversations over text daily, hold it for a while and then end it without it being awkward
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Object Oriented Programming. I've been explained many a time, I work in software, I still don't get it. 80% of code is just declaration of what anything may be. Where the FUCK does anything happen. It's infuriating, it's like reading an old Greek drama and the first 300 pages is just enumeration of what the troops are like and where they stand. Where in the living shit is the action?!
Ayhayb · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we built a world that primarily consists of geometric objects, despite the world being irregular
Cheating. How can you claim to care about someone and then intentionally hurt them? It’s never a mistake, it’s a decision someone makes. You can’t love someone if you cheat on them. Just grow a pair and end the relationship if you wanna be with someone else. And on the other hand, STAYING with a cheater. The trust is gone after that. Don’t be surprised when they do it again.
People who genuinely don’t have common sense or critical thinking.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck did I get so good at grade 12 level math? In every single math class before this, I barely passed, but all of a sudden come this class, I suddenly understand everything and I’m getting the highest scores in class (granted there’s only 14 people, including me)
How people can wear dress shirts ties and slacks with sneakers. It honestly bothers me a bit lol
If you’re going to wear formal attire wear dressing shoes IMO
How the brain is a creature in its own, like. What controls the brain if the brain controls our body, there needs to be something that is controlling the brain right? For example a soul. But where does that soul then come from? Does it just poof out out of no where??
And there are some other things such as people that you gave advice too, helped them out in bad situations but then they suddendly just ditch you as if you are disposable or just another 'thing' its weird, how can you just do that to someone that helped you or has never done qnything bad to you.
There are also things like, whensomeone is just nice to you and really tries to talk to you and is interested, how can you just say 'ok' or leave that person on read.
Why things have certain words. Like, some things were named by their inventors, so did Edward Mirrors invest mirrors? What about Steven Windows? Rachel Grass? Sandra Stairs?
Maths. I’m fairly okay with learning other languages, but for some reason numbers just make my brain hit a wall. I was genuinely tested for dyscalculia but they just found that I was a dunce lmao. Doesn’t help that my uni degree requires statistical analysis
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global Macroeconomics. It's really mind blowing that fiat currencies aren't real. To the common person our money is very real and very finite. But it's just a perceived value of goods and or debt that's changing hands
Why some professionals such as athletes and entertainers earn millions of dollars and others professionals who provide what I would say are more important and contribute more to society such as educators receive earn so little and every one just accepts this.
Which is the part I don't understand. How entertainment is more valuable than teaching people to read and write and do math. Without educators, those actors would be able to read their scripts, the writers would be able to write them and the executives would be able to count the money they make.
It's just something I do not understand, the lack of value placed on those who provide education while the value placed on those who provide entertainment is so high.
I don’t understand how any religious practices developed who decided that they needed blood sacrifices to make crops grow.? Was it one guy and the rest just thought sounds great! That’s what we will do from now on. Let’s sacrifice people to appease the sun?
Why are some people always so angry? Why can’t they push past the anger and see some of the positive. Why do people focus so harshly on the small things?
Who would've thought, ohh we must see what is outside of earth. We must try to explore, live there. The discovery of space and every detail about it. How the hell does someone go on to explore something unimaginable.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic algebra or why schools stress the 'need' to spend years learning it. I have never needed it, even once as an adult and I'm over 50 years old. Is it -really- a measure of intelligence or just a relic of an idea of such a measure? I would have benefited much more from learning about mortgages, car insurance, and emotional intelligence training of some kind.
Why anyone in the US ever voted for and continues tonsupport Trump as POTUS.
Scandal after scandal, proof he isnusing the White House to setup his family and his wealthy friends, but poor people support him, even with tens of thousands of American deaths from their negligence.
Our society is broken, and I do not think it can recover.
Not advocating racism, but I think it has to do more with the culture that is associated with the skin tone. "They" figure since that person looks that way, they were born into that culture or has peers that color, so will behave a certain way that's unsavory to their own tastes. Luckily, that mentality is in the process of being shattered with so many people intermingling now more than ever, you can't put people in these boxes anymore. So people who used to only have a "box" for spoons and forks are now given sporks and chopsticks, forces them to think for themselves and redefine their boxes or be stubborn and die questioning if everything they knew was right. Yes, racism still exists but I believe we're in a far more progressive place than we were 50-60 years ago and it'll only keep getting better.
Why some people think they have the authority to tell me how to live my life.
As in, what justification do those people have to tell me I can’t own a gun? What I choose to spend my money on? Who I choose to associate with? What I choose to say? What I choose to put in my body?
I really don’t understand how someone thinks they know more about what’s best for me than me.
Having sex, wanting children, getting married, drinking alcohol and/or doing drugs of any kind.
I just understand the appeal. Don't understand why anyone would want to do any of those things especially with eager excitement and anticipation. All of it just seems so awful, the build up and work...for very little in return if you do succeed in obtaining it. Just blows my mind that people would sacrifice all that they are to get one of them and be happy to do it and never look back. I just don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't just go put whatever they don't want anymore back in the right place. "Oh, I don't think I need these hot pockets, let me just sit them with the milk duds and m&m's.
Why am I so fucking bad at math? Every year in school I tried so hard to understand it. I was a 3.5-4.0 GPA kid, putting extra effort into my other classes to balance out my God awful math grades. I just could not wrap my head around it.
Like, what is it exactly that people like about them?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a government would know about the dangers of a deadly fast spreading virus within it's borders and take no action against it until it's too late, even going as far as to silence those who speak out about it so that's thousands can die for no good reason, and potentially cause a global recession
How people can be so stupid and not able to even fucking listen, nevermore search about the claims they make. And yes I am talking about Antivaxxers. It just blows my mind. It's like they want to hurt them and their kids.
jrow21 · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fear of other ethnicities based on how their parents feel or felt growing up. Let me be clear that I mean the type of fear that leads to or has lead to the many atrocities throughout history for people of color.
Along the same lines as others they have posted about taking someone’s life or being a bully or never ever ever doing research 🙄. I don’t understand how some people feel that being a bully to other ethnicities make this world better for them to live in.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who eat garbage day in and day out and never get any kind of exercise. It's fun to do for half a day and then I just feel terrible.
EvErYtHiNg. Life is a forever paradox that makes no sense.
Besides that, people who think they’re the shit and better than everyone. Like, really?? Everyone is equal and the cocky guy down the street is just as relevantly important as the homeless guy under the bridge. None of us matter, no one is better than anyone, we’re all smarter monkeys but still ignorantly stupid. So I don’t see how people can think they’re better than everybody with all of that being said.
Electricity. Seriously. I get that it's the movement of charged particles. But to go from that to plugging something into an outlet and harnessing power... just blows my mind and I don't understand it.
Some social norms.
I don't have any examples in my mind right now but some things are rude, some things are polite simply because it is considered rude or polite by some mysterious unspoken social contract.
Like, not shitting ? What the point of having toilets then ? I'm not going to torture my digestive system because you can't afford deodorant, Karen. I'd rather have friends take a shit in my toilets than them leaving early.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unmitigated greed. What's the end game? You have more money than you or your descendants could ever hope to spend, yet you want more. Not just more but all of it, it is simply nonsensical to me. Will it come down to two men alone on the planet conspiring to get the others money? You squash others, destroy the ecosystem, cost untold amounts of death and despair... to what end?
Sports shouting. I love shows like PTI, and stuff from the Ringer. But First Take, Skip and Shannon, and other really aggressively antagonistic sports shouting turns me way off.
How the world turned into a bunch of goddamn pussycunts... And I'm serious. Like, we used to go to the moon and fight wars. Now we sit behind our computers and whine about how we wanna get our ducks hacked off and turned into cunts. How? When?
Food fights. I was homeschooled so I never had a food fight at a school, but once I had my cousin over and we were making brownies, and she put some of the brownie mix powder in my hair. Then she got mad because I was annoyed at her, and she said I was boring for not playing along. What about wasting food is fun?? Excuse me for not always having access to large amounts of food that I could consume whenever I wanted. My dad was a missionary kid in Africa and even he didn’t always get a lot of food. We were raised to conserve food, not throw it around like infants.
I understand that matter and energy are basically the same thing. What does the "2", or squared mean in the equation? I know it means to the second power, but how does that relate.
Honestly, I sometimes have trouble paying with cash in a store. I never understood math, and people always said ”when you understand it, it’s fun!!”. No?! When I understand it it’s just more math to be done. Luckily it’s something I tell people and don’t hide but at the same time it’s pretty awkward.
(Not hating on people who likes math. Good for you! Wish I felt the same way).
Electricity. How it works, the difference between voltage, amperage, and wattage. I’ve had it explained to me so many times and in different ways but it still never makes sense to me.
Zonsen · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can't take criticism. Those people obviously want to feel like they're the best, but taking upon some criticism would make you better. Why bury your head in the sand?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the difference between current and voltage EE
I 100% dont understand how people compose music. I had a friend tell me all she does is think of a note, then what note would sound good following that note. When I do that I get a scale, or a song that already exists. I just don't get it.
what was there before the universe was there. i mean seriously, it must have started sometime, somewhere, and i really don't understand how it is possible
Being a man who likes the colour pink and cute things doesn’t make you a woman any more than liking video games and toy cars as a woman makes you a man. It’s just enforcing toxic gender norms when you could be spreading the message of, hey, I’m a man who likes talking about feelings, flowers and dolls, and none of those facts make me any less of a man.
Your personality and interests have nothing to do with your genitals, society is just pressuring you into doubting yourself.
Its called gender dysphoria, being called a man makes a trans woman feel like shit. There are plenty of masculine trans women and plenty of trans men who are feminine
How exactly computers work. In my head, it's just a bunch of metal and plastic bits put together and suddenly I can watch tv shows, listen to music and type out this comment.
The actual science behind coding and languages. How does typing some letters and numbers on a screen make something else DO something? Like the physics behind it. It’s fucking magic to me
The infatuation that some people have with "celebrities". I mean why???
Yes, they may be a great actor/singer/dancer/whatever, but that doesn't automatically make them a good person or life role model in any way.
Especially those who are famous and popular just for being related to someone famous (looking at you, the entire Kartrashian/Jenner clan as well as a certain Hilton family member).,
Like, I see it as a RPG with 1 stock and (maybe) without a final boss, just keep leveling up until any miniboss (or other player) takes your 1 stock. You can get a lot of items and increase some stats, but the endgame is unclear.
Also, why did the developer not think of non-PvP maps?
What makes us alive, or I guess how we experience reality. Neurons are firing in our brains, there are chemical reactions going on, but how does any of that make me experience any of the five senses the way I do?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People going waaaaaaay of topic in an argument they are losing and using the of topic thing against you despite it not being in any way connected to the argument
Why anyone would support the democrat party in America. They have outright stolen the nomination from Bernie twice, and for Biden. Creepy Uncle Joe is barely with us these days.
How no civilization came up with the concept of a null value before India did. What did you guys put instead? What did you have as a value for 0? Baffles my mind.
kbonk7 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand if you can hear silence or not
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What life is like without an eating disorder.
I've had an eating disorder since a fairly young age and I genuinely can't remember what life was like without it.
People who spend giant amount of money on branded clothing\shoes. I am not against branded products, I mean, pretty much everything has a brand label on it. What I don't get is why someone would buy a red hoodie that says supreme for the same amount of money that a full set of clothing costs. Can someone explain?
How people can complain about the president for 4 solid years, and suddenly refuse to try and get him out of office because their guy didn't win the nomination. Seriously! You have been bitching about him for 4 god damn year, non-fucking-stop, and suddenly Biden is just as a bad as Trump.
Well, a lot of things to be honest. The more I look and get to know about the human things, the less I understand many of them. Some things about nature are truly hard to understand for me, for example the concept of nothing is what baffles me. I too can't understand very well love, like a relationship with a girlfriend, I can love my family but I don't feel like I am capable of being romantic and I have a hard time trying to understand it.
I had some ass hole follow me around reddit because of a philosophical position I have and called me a hypocrite for getting help on the assistant thread because I got in on an offer and got help from there a couple of times.
He clearly doesnt understand the difference between asking for help and people giving in voluntarily and a form of government in which there are penalties and possible jail time over not contributing to the collective without choice. He also jumped the gun without knowing all the facts which is I have been paying it forward.
Why people give money to internet celebrities. Sure they make videos for entertainment but there isn't much of a reason they couldn't make videos as a hobby and work an actual job. Instead they e-beg for the most trivial of things and people pay them money.
Influencers. Not the influencers themselves, I get what’s great about being followed and making bank and having your ego stroked constantly. What I don’t get is the followers. They get nothing out of the deal, and keep making idiots rich and famous.
IckyBB · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
I have a university degree in chemistry, and the biggest thing that it taught me is that we dont know what the hell is going on on a quantum level.
Why people want children. Here's a pro-con comparison from what I know:
Cons - Cost lots of money, take up lots of time, take up incredible amounts of attention, can make huge messes, require constant supervision, require education, more people to cook for, dealing with picky kids that won't eat anything you cook
Americans who think that the US is the freest country in the world (there's more to freedom and speech you know!) and the greatest (people have to take Ubers to the hospital ffs).
Why people take so many selfies. I can’t find a reason to why people love obsessively taking and staring at a bunch of photos of themselves other than narcissism.
So i've been taught that god is the most merciful and almighty. Then why would god let us live in this world full of sufferings and sorrow. Why cant god just let us live in a world where everything is fine and alright. Why would god created us just to worshipped him, and punish those who dont like we're a bunch of playing tools. Im seriously askin, I do believe in him, but these last few years i've just been wondering all the time, like searching for what is the true meaning of god
I genuinely do not understand The Blues Brothers. I know people find it funny but I cant even identify which part is supposed to be comedy. They just perform and then dance a little silly. It came out before I was born so maybe I just cant understand it but I wish I did.
String theory. I have read books, watched talks about it, watched documentaries but I understand nothing past that it is try to unify quatuim mechanics with general relativity.
The word 'cray' is from ancient Sanskrit. It mean 'many waxy colors'. It is combined with the word 'on' to mean 'putting color on paper'.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m skeptical, but I’ll take it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the plan is for moving beyond “full isolation social distancing.”
Woohoo, it worked for a month... this thing is going to be around forever?
We did not move underground at the threat of nuclear winter in the 70’s... it is absurd to think this is sustainable long term or really for another two months, frankly.
I want to see some real appraisal of the situation and some answers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are regular or not even that good looking men getting so many pretty women?
Death. Not what it is, but the idea of being dead. We’re so used to being alive and seeing/hearing things, but we can’t think about actually being dead. It’s not blackness or like sleeping, it’s your body no longer functioning. Like you can’t hear anything, see anything, you can’t even think anymore. That is something I will never understand until it one day happens to me, and I won’t even be physically capable of saying “Wow, this sucks” because I won’t even know it sucks, as my brain is no longer functioning.
The Gamergate controversy stemmed from a harassment campaign conducted primarily through the use of the hashtag #GamerGate. The controversy centered on issues of sexism and progressivism in video game culture. Gamergate is used as a blanket term for the controversy as well as for the harassment campaign and actions of those participating in it.
Beginning in August 2014, a harassment campaign targeted several women in the video game industry; notably game developers Zoë Quinn and Brianna Wu, as well as feminist media critic Anita Sarkeesian. After Eron Gjoni, Quinn's former boyfriend, wrote a disparaging blog post about Quinn, #gamergate hashtag users falsely accused Quinn of an unethical relationship with journalist Nathan Grayson. Harassment campaigns against Quinn and others included doxing, threats of rape, and death threats.
Gamergate proponents ("Gamergaters") have stated that they were a movement, but had no official leaders or manifesto. Gamergate supporters organized anonymously or pseudonymously on online platforms such as 4chan, Internet Relay Chat, Twitter, and Reddit. Statements claiming to represent Gamergate have been inconsistent, making it difficult for commentators to identify goals and motives. Gamergate supporters said there was unethical collusion between the press and feminists, progressives, and social critics. These concerns have been dismissed by commentators as trivial, conspiracy theories, groundless, or unrelated to actual issues of ethics. As a result, Gamergate has often been defined by the harassment its supporters engaged in. Gamergate supporters have frequently responded to this by denying that the harassment took place or by falsely claiming that it was manufactured by the victims.
The controversy has been described as a manifestation of a culture war over cultural diversification, artistic recognition, and social criticism in video games, and over the social identity of gamers. Many supporters of Gamergate oppose what they view as the increasing influence of feminism on video game culture; as a result, Gamergate is often viewed as a right-wing backlash against progressivism. Industry responses to the harassment campaign have focused on ways to minimize harm and prevent similar events. Gamergate has led figures both inside and outside the industry to focus on methods of addressing online harassment.
(I'm going to use a Christian church as an example because that's what I know.)
Why do you have get up early on a Sunday, get dressed in your best to sit there and sing stupid and stupidly long songs (in which the singer repeats choruses and has long guitar/piano solos) and be preached at for a least an hour?
I don't understand why it has to be so early. I don't understand why we have to sing a song before the service starts, six songs after the pastor makes opening statements, and at the end. I don't understand why we have to wear uncomfortable clothing. I don't understand why I can't just stay home and pray and study my Bible on my own (if I so choose). I don't understand why I have to listen to some dude preach at me.
How the Big Bang came to be. Before it, there was no color, no time, no space, nothing. Now your brain will picture pitch black, but there wasn’t that either. There was nothing.
And then out of nowhere, some singularity formed. It had the entire universe in it. And then it expanded. The universe as we know it is just an expanded singularity getting bigger. But how did the singularity form, and how did it get bigger? I don’t get it
When I'm driving down the interstate in the right lane...and there is NO ONE behind me...why do people speed up and cut in front of me by 0.00000001 inches, forcing me to apply my brakes so that they can Exit? I genuinely don't understand this.
fucking math, I just can’t get the hang of it, I know this is probably a stupid thing to say but I have never been able to understand how to do it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say, they feel so alone, when they can't see there friends for a while. I felt never lonely, when I couldn't see my friends, since they were still my friends, even so we couldn't meet each other. When you feel so sooo soooo lonely without your friends being around, then maybe you have no friends. Because a friend gives you the feeling to be loved - no matter, if you're together or separated.
You can always talk to your friends on so many ways, but...if that isn't enough, then maybe you guys just use each other to stay entertained. And that is very very sad.
Math beyond basic math. I'm fair with percentages and fractions, but that's the extent of it. And physics. My brain just wants to melt any time I try to understand physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be attracted to every single person (pun intended) except me..
Okipon · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can someone lack empathy.
I understand that we’re all different to a certain degree, but some people just have absolutely NO empathy. I don’t know how it is possible without it being from a psychological disorder.
KCEB07 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Erytzz · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say “Its just a game”
The phrase “it’s just a game” is such a weak mindset. You are ok with what happened, losing, imperfection of a craft. When you stop getting angry after losing, you’ve lost twice.
There’s always something to learn, and always room for improvement, never settle.
why the business i work for is currently still open. I work at a coffee and ice cream shop
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy or motivated to do things other than the tiny few things that grab my obsession at the time.
I might have some disorder like ADHD or something but I'm scared (and poor) to see a psychiatrist. I'm DEFINITELY depressed. I don't understand how other people function.
I dont inderstand how all the household items came into market and became everyday essentials, how their marketing worked. Like take, toothpaste. How they convinced people to use it daily.
Some years ago, I was stopped at a light on a one-way street. A car turned the wrong way, a block ahead and was approaching a wall of cars, all headed the right way. A chorus of car horns sounded out, and the driver flipped us all off as he turned off into the cross street.
The whole “we need to compliment each other more share this to your friends” on Instagram. Like no, you don’t need to compliment each other more, you need to compliment each other less. You fucking comment on every post like “queen omg ❤️❤️❤️cutie” it’s almost toxic. Be more honest tf?
People hating kids. I understand if you want to be child free, but hating kids is something I just don’t understand. A lot people need realize there are really sweet kids out there, and maybe the reason why they’re acting up is because they might have autism or ADHD.
Poor people espousing political beliefs that only benefit obscenely rich people. I understand how this is done. What I don't understand is how people can continually fight against their own best interests and never learn it's not working for them.
the tories. do they lack empathy? are they just not that well read (which tbf these days id hard to do because we are worked to death) like its common sense for 90% of people to vote labour
Why Warner Bros won’t release the Snyder Cut of justice league.
It’s proved to exist with complete cgi and soundtrack, fans have clearly stated they want to see it with millions of people tweeting during the tweet events, with the stars of the film showing their support.
Zack Snyder, the director himself, supports it and is constantly teasing finished shots of the film and some of the higher ups at WB have even supported it.
So why not release it. Does WB not like money. It’d be the perfect day one release for HBO Max, and they kind of owe it to us after making us sit through the theatrical justice league with that horrible moustache cgi.
Anal, how is it enjoyable? Like... what? I would think it would be extremely painful but it’s also really popular :/ I guess some people are into that??????
Whole concept of 0 and 1 in computers. I researched it, try to understand, but just think I understand i forgot the beginning. Like how the fuck a processor give me an image on my screen. I mean how my brain fails me to grasp that concept. Blackmagicfuckery, thats what it is.
Mental disorders: why doesn’t my brain have enough happy in it to keep me from spiraling?
Math: I’ve asked a lot of questions regarding math & most math people just answer “that’s just how it is”, but WHY is that how it is? Who made it that rigid? Is it for the same reason that the alphabet could be in any order but we all chose to go by the same one?
Kids nursery rhymes: why are they actually so terrifying if you think about the lyrics
Bugs: what purpose do bugs like flies and mosquitos serve except to annoy us?
General: why do our teeth fall out? Why, if you pull out your hair enough (trichotillomania), it doesn’t grow back? Why are habits hard to break? I have lots of things I don’t understand. Is asexuality real or am I just afraid of sex? All the things, guys, I have so many questions for everything! 💕
agammm · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people being mean for no actual reason(referring to people who bully or comment cruel things on others), why be so negative about life and things other people might feel good about. it can be hobbies, body insecurities and so much more
How some people can just lack empathy or flat-out not care about something. It absolutely boggles my mind how someone can have so little empathy that they’d just beat someone for no reason.
Money. The world runs on it, it seems like everyone craves it, but I legitimately don’t get it. It’s made up, it’s imaginary, and yet an even more imaginary graph that shows how much imaginary value people attribute to a money-making business determines if I keep my job.
Cheating, just break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend
SJeanC · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was a kid I couldn't understand the concept of infinity. It boggled my mind that there was no end and no beginning. How could that be? It has to end somewhere. Even now, its hard to believe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why homeless people just don’t steal food or other stuff...I mean they have nothing to lose, what’s stopping them? If they get caught and go to jail, they’ll get a place to stay and meals too. If they get away with it, they end up with more stuff then they had before.
How pictures work, you push a button and like magic it a picture appears. I kinda get in the old days different chemicals reacted a certain way with the light and burned onto a piece of paper, which still boggles my mind but now we have digital. It’s all just magic.
Seasons being different on different sides of the world. It was something I was never taught in school and it doesn't come up in conversation much. I genuinely though Australians saying their Xmas was in summer was this big joke until a year or so ago (I'm 20) and my mates tried to explain it to me but I still don't really understand it
The spinning bicycle wheel (gyroscope) in physics. As a class, we did the math, did demonstrations, assessed and observed every individual part of the arrangement, including how it spins slowly around the string it is tensioned on, and yet I have absolutely no clue where to begin explain how this works. Right hand rule and all, and still clueless.
I genuinely dont understand why anyone still supports Trump. The guy seems like such an incompetent buffoon, but yet millions of Americans still treat him like he's the messiah.
Ennion · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people borrow a cart at the grocery store to ferry around and gather all their stuff, wheel it around, pay for their groceries or items and then unload them into their car and decide to just leave the cart there between parking spots.
The cart return is right there you lazy fuck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death, like, is that it? I think one idea that stuck with me was the Sopranos. When it cuts to black at the series finale. Supposedly this was the directors way of showing how death can be black and instant. When Tony gets shot in the head by the hitman that entered the restaurant.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That we can describe nature with maths. Repeatedly. And it works. Just blows my mind every now and then...
Kluu01 · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, and how they work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we don't have mandatory classes for psychology, mediation, emotional management and philosophy/logic in schools all the way until university? It certainly would solve many would be criminals because some certainly kill for emotional issues and irrational decision making.
I just can't fathom why schools aren't designed in a way that facilitates self-development but instead focuses so much on subjects most of which we do not use in our every day lives. I haven't used french or my knowledge on Macbeth ever after I finish school.
Health insurance. I read over my plan and get the general idea of it but them FSA and HMO and other terms start to come up I'm lost. Anytime I've tried to get someone to explain it to me it just sounds like Charlie Brown's teacher talking.
I genuinely do not understand the covid-19 conspiracy theory stating the virus does not exist, that people are not actually getting sick and dying, because the government made it up and continues to produce falsified statistics to place fear in citizens and make them more cooperative in being controlled by the government and having their freedom revoked. The fact that people believe the idea that all countries' governments unanimously decided to do this boggles my mind.
fritka · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don't care about major problems in our world even when given a lengthy explanation of what these problems are and how to fix them. A few months ago some friends and I had been talking about doing a challenge where they would try to be vegetarian for a week and I would go vegan (since I'm already vegetarian). Since we're in lockdown I brought it up again since it seems like the perfect time to do something like this since everyone has a lot of time to plan and cook and everything. I asked if they wanted to do it and they laughed and said "what? No! I need my comfort food right now." I've explained SO MUCH in the past how harmful meat consumption is for the environment in the amounts people eat regularly today. Yet they still don't care. They are unwilling to make a small change to their lives even when they know how beneficial that change could be. Even when I asked if they could try pescatarinism or even one meatless day a week they all laughed and said no. The same thing happens with other issues as well. People I know will want new clothes and go to any number of fast fashion brands even when I remind them that these clothes are most likely made in sweatshops and will almost definitely end up in a landfill. I tell them that they can get very similar clothes at the thrift store and it will be cheaper too but they just shrug and keep doing what they're doing. I honestly do not understand how people can care so little.
Women’s clothes sizes. Like what does a 2 or an 8 mean? I get that one’s bigger than the other but at least for men’s sizes the numbers represent length or waist size. The whole concept is abstract to me especially when a 6 in one store does not necessarily mean a 6 will have the same fit when it’s from another store.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle class people and especially poor people, deliberately voting against their own best interests, for decades, despite things getting progressively worse for everyone.
Why are women so complicated and horrible at communicating what they actually mean?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a stock can plummet even if the company turns a new record result. The thing is that "the market" expected an even better result, so now that stock is a steaming pile of shit, even if the company has never been in better shape than it is. So it's all about expectations (meaning: guesswork), and not about the actual value of the company at all. How that works is beyond my grasp.
Also: With the above in mind, how is buying and selling stocks not categorized as gambling, the same way lotteries, casinos, bookmakers, and race tracks are?
East and west. When someone says “it’s east of that”, do they mean in the direction of true East of the magnetic north, or do they mean East from my perspective looking at it, regardless of the true direction I’m facing, which would be toward the right.
ovogi · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson. Does all time on the universe skip? is it just within a certain range that time skips? If so, that would fuck up the flow of time for everyone in the area. Would it put them on a different timeline?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make small talk? Seriously, does anyone think “hmm i sure wonder what this dude’s dog is a hybrid of”, and then somehow keep a conversation from being awkward
Patriotism - the accident of your birth on specific patch of dirt means you are therefore loyal to this specific patch of dirt and anybody else who was also born on this specific patch of dirt, against those who were born on a different patch of dirt. this stupidity, sorry, ‘loyalty’, has basically been the cause of a large majority of deaths over history that weren’t caused by religion or other such stupidity
Fire & heat - like, when you look at a molecular level, heat is caused my molecules moving and causing friction that leads to heat, and cold is the absence of heat, but what exactly is heat? Why does it exist? How did it come to be that friction causes heat? And why or how does a large presence of heat cause fire?
Politics. How someone can align so strongly with one side and totally cut out people who believe other things. How someone can let it dictate their entire life
When people are born blond they see nothing. Not like everything is black or everything is white, but absolutely nothing. No color, no shades, just nothing.
Cameras. If I think about it too long my head hurts, how can they be in front of something and then just,,,take it into an image?? How does it come out looking exactly like how the human eye sees it??? I don’t get it.
The Little Man computer programming tutorial. We had to do it for a class and the professor explained it to me like 5 times and I still just had to make up nonsense on the project. No clue at all what I was meant to be doing.
I understand the thought exercise but not how to create an output?
How steering wheels turn cars, the steering whel is placed vertically, and the wheels are horizontally from eachother. How can the steering wheel control other wheels like this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes money just transfers to my account. Yesterday i had 3 dollars (dont poorshame me, i just bought a new monitor and pc) and tosy i have 5 dollars? Wtf no one even send anything to me.
Human emotion, now think hard on your self and those around you, how do you know what you are feeling or even what they are, and yet you do without knowing why or how, but only after the emotion first appears. It is a confusing part of humans that I have still yet to understand in the slightest.
Every time i try my best i do half a question and then go "alright that should be enough" ive had like a month of school this semester and i already have 16 missing assignments
How people say that it takes a month or more for weed to get out of your system. I wish they would have more valid studies especially since its legal. I buy home drug tests and after smoking “moderate” for 2-3 months and cessation after 19 days I pass all 5 of them and my friend smoked several days and had to take a test 4 days later and passed. It creates a lot of paranoia.
I also don’t understand the purpose of drug testing since I have prescriptions that I don’t like to write down.
I don’t understand why weed isn’t on the same level as alcohol or just legal to begin with.
But this is just my opinion. I always found that to be a weird urban legend. But we will see after my results!
How gravity slows down time, it’s just a concept that I can not grasp. Same with the speed of time in relation to speed of an object. And while we’re on the subject, the Big Bang, what came before the Big Bang? What’s outside of the universe? If there’s a God or gods, where did that come from? How was it created? It blows my mind.
How electronics work. I’m more into the biology side of science, and thinking about how electronics work just completely baffle me. Like, it’s just completely mind boggling!
Space.
Are we the only ones here? What's the chance that I was born on this planet and not another?
Why does everyone think that aliens fly in flying saucers?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Friction forces. Could not understand mechanics at all at sixth form
MRye16 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t be compassionate with each other especially during rough times like this pandemic for example
How in the world are people so rude to each other? EVERYONE HAS PROBLEMS INCLUDING YOU SO JUST TREAT PEOPLE NICELY.
Ebeigh · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking as a software developer: I genuinely don't understand 99% of how computers work.
People who don't work with computers often seem to think that us "computer people" know everything about them. In reality, IT professionals typically have a specialization, but know very little about other aspects of computer science. An application developer probably knows very little about networking. A hardware specialist might go their entire life and never write one line of code.
Not all computer people have the same knowledge, and it really bugs me when people expect us to know everything.
Setting variables in computer programming, why do we need to change the basis of a system of operations in every freakin language. On the contrary I guess we also do the same whenever we speak actual languages and need to conjugate words
What it means to understand. when we remember/forget/are "put to the test", how do we know we will remember/won't forget/will excel at that "test", and especially for how long? Why do I vividly remember crawling towards a toy at 2 yo but yesterday is a blur.. ?
Virez · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women's magazines:
"Are you to fat?, tips for you" "Lose 5 pounds in 4 weeks" "Are your man reliable, take this test" "Interview with this has-been VIP woman" "How to handle the kids while being a hot mom" "Are your hair lifeless, this guide will help" "How to get perfect nails" "Are your girlfriends talking behind your back?, 5 easy steps to stop it" "5 must-have bags this spring" .....
Emotions. Mostly how other people, who are so full of emotions, can fail to understand that their actions affect other people who are full of the same emotions.
It’s like, “Hey dummy, you being frustrated and yelling at me is making me sad.”
vore fetishes. I dont understand the mindset of wanting to be swallowed whole, digested slowly, then shitted out. even if you were the person voring that would not be a good experience. and dont even get me started on cock vore. Oh, and also feet fetishes. why would you want to suck someones dirty toes and sniff them? i don't think ill ever understand.
How many people say they're bored? Like, in our day and time, how can you be bored? Read a book, a comic book, watch a movie, learn how to draw, a new language, workout, start writing a book/short story, play a game, call a friend... the possibilities are endless.
Why the fuck my uber driver saw that the light was yellow and decided to speed up to make the red light. How do you break a traffic law so simple that a kindergartner would know it?
jjkl7 · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I will never fully understand human behavior, the human psyche, and why I feel like an alien accidentally dropped off here from another planet. I feel like the subject of a science experiment when it comes to understanding people.
I don't understand wifi. I get the internet (Broadly). But I also don't really understand tv and radio. I get it's waves in frequencies, and those are interpreted as x y and z....but wtf? Lololol
When homeless people say fuck you or get mad when i don't give them money. I never carry cash so I wouldn't be able to even if i wanted to.
You saying fuck you to me TOTALLY makes me want to give you money more. I don't owe you shit but yeah I genuinely feel bad when i'm unable to give a homeless person money if they're nice or polite
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The story about a Florida man attempting to rob a drive through with a baby alligator. I struggle to understand his thought process.
Anti-vaxxers. How they can continually ignore doctors, medical professionals, even the god damn bloke who initially published the paper and take their evidence from god knows where. It would be funny if it was for something far less serious but they're effectively increasing their kid's chances of catching something that could kill them.
I genuinely don't understand why people want to have kids. I want to have a romantic relationship, but kids are a whole other level that I don't want or understand.
When I follow a block my block build tutorial for Minecraft to the T and still fuck it up, making me go back like 10 parts in a series to fix it made it impossible to put a chair on the right block
People that fucking honk non stop in bumper to bumper traffic. Guess I’ll just monster truck this shit and gravedigger over every car in front of me so the inbred behind me doesn’t have to be stuck in traffic like everyone else.
I dont understand how some pastors like Kenneth Copeland have balls to ask for money from unemployed followers during this pandemic under the pretext that God signs your paycheck, not the company. Like WTF bruh,take a break.
I also dont understand why and how some people buy into this.
How people can just be mean and rude. I genuinely believe that people are inherently good but sometimes people do things that are just so pointlessly mean and rude and I just don’t get it. I don’t get how bad people just choose to do bad things like what’s the point. why be rude to service workers, why abuse your spouses, why kill kittens. I don’t get it
I don’t understand why people worship that Schnoodle person and their poems. Like I understand enjoying their poems, but people comment on those posts like the poems are some service to humanity.
The idea that a woman will almost always be believed in a rape case, even if the man she's accusing is openly and actively gay/just not into anyone, a lot of courts are messed up to an extreme.
how people act like they have no basic understanding of how to do everyday tasks in commercials,
oh no,grandma turned on the blender with the top off and is surprised that it sprayed all over the place,
oh no,i threw a slice of cheese on an open grill and it melted through the top,who would have guessed?
every time i see this shit,me and my grandfather laugh our asses off because it just doesnt make sense,hes always sitting there going "look at this jackass throwing cheese onto a grill ahAHAhahAHHaha"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dmt can truly awaken some senses never perceived before in real life. Like some imagery in our subconscious comes from something more transcendent.
0fbf · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are still mixing households, mingling and socialising while complaining that the virus won’t just “disappear” in time for them to begin enjoying the warmer weather...
How somone can come out of an abusive relationship and can name all the abusive things that person did to them .. yet proceed to do the exact same things to you .. and when you point it out your the bad guy 🤦♂️
Last summer, my best friend for 13 years ended the friendship over a text (and i still do not know why)
And yeah it was sad for like a little while but i never miss him yaknow?
I lost my grandma last year too. I loved that woman, she was literally the best person on the face of the earth, but i don't ever get sad thinking about her.
What do companies care about the stock price. Take my old company. We did billions of revenue every year. It was a great place to work. Then we went public and it turned to shit. What changes? Why does it matter if shareholders are happy as long as customers are happy? Who cares about the shareholders, they aren’t the ones buying product. People would continue buying our stuff whether shareholders are happy or not, so why do they matter? They didn’t matter to the company before and it was successful, why do they matter after?
Two things
1. How so many Fortnite Bad Shitposts make it to the top of subs like Dankmemes, they're so unfunny that it hurts
2. Those stupid promos that Nickelodeon does with the modern trends. I'm here to watch Spongebob, not listen to shitty visco girl jokes. Where are the ads for things like the wubble bubble ball or GameFly these days?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can really think that the government is legit
As a heterosexual male I genuinely do not understand the dating scene and women in general.
Two recent examples :
-online dating, matched with someone and asked about what kind of music they liked. Got a response of “fuck you, you don’t even want to know me”...like what?
-girl I liked took off her clothes and told me to play with her body as I wanted sans full on intercourse exactly three times over the course of two weeks. Then hits me with “Hey do you not find me attractive? You never push sex.” Are you FUCKING kidding me you literally told me not to.
LA0811 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. I was a great math student up to calculus and then I felt just frozen in my tracks. I realize as an adult I need context or framework to really understand and learn things and I feel like calc was taught more in ground up way that I just couldn’t find a single moment of clarity to anchor on to.
How to build a computer I’ve always been curious about it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. I’m 23 years old and always payed my taxes on time but...why? I’ve googled why and where my taxes go, but maybe I’m dense because I just don’t understand it. Where does my money go? Why don’t they just do my taxes? Why do I get money back? Gotta love the USA.
porn. i find it depressing watching someone else have sex while your alone at home. i don’t think there’s anything bad with it but i just don’t understand how people get turned on like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What to feel, at what moment. And how to express it.
I never learned how to deal with my emotions as a kid so now I'm just a way to smiley person, because thats the only thing I know how to do right.
That othet people thoughts are as read and complex to them as mine are to me. I genuinely don't understand others existence, it just feels like they're part of my life and they don't exist when they're not interacting with me.
yeah like a week ago i decided to not be lazy and sit in my bed until i merge to it and never be able to escape but quarantine was kinda bad timing cause i can barely go outside now
Death. I have no idea what I think will happen after we die. Turning to nothing is hard to wrap my head around, but so is waking up in heaven/hell. I also can’t understand rebirth. Thinking that 20 years ago I was a completely different person and I could of been 80, I could of been someone famous, and now I’m me. Just any beliefs of what happen after death are difficult for me to understand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how some people navigate through life. Like their intentions, actions, intellect just dont age well.
0jojo · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I dub the car culture. I will never understand how anyone can genuinely tell the difference between car brands, know the inner machinations of a car, or want to spend their lives around cars. They're just big, smelly, fast hunks of metal that can kill someone if you take a wrong turn.
How we don't feel the earth orbiting the sun, as due to the centripetal force there is always a resultant force, meaning that the earth is constantly accelerating. We should feel the pull of the earth as it spins. The earth travels at hundreds of kilometres a second (sorry for lack of specifics), and in proportion it should feel only slightly less as a car going round a roundabout at 20mph, which we would all feel, no doubt. Simply something I can't get out of my mind.
If dogs can be trained to shit in their own yard, and THEN go for a walk. I'm talking about in towns where people have yards. Obviously a city apartment is a different story.
Can dogs not shit without leaving their own property? Or is it how they are raised/trained?
I don't like that people's choice to get a dog means other property owners have to deal with the shit. Even if people pick up after their dog - I still don't understand why everyone else has to deal with your life decisions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Genuinely, I do not understand how the minds of others work, truly I don't. I wish I understood people more so that I could approach them and understand if we get into arguments, but nope.
Actually, women. I don't fucking understand women.
how hard it is to get back out there after a chemical deficiency in your brain even after getting better, it’s like you’re looking at your happy self from a distance bc you know happiness but just don’t quite feel it.
How some people can talk to anyone. I have social anxiety and this boggles my mind. I wish I could do this. Also relationship. Like everything about them; how do people get into them, how they work, how you can be that close to someone..
I dont have social anxiety, but this helps me a lot when I'm scared of talking: how many of the conversations you have every day do you remember? Probably not a lot of them. Most people will forget anything you mess up as soon as it happens.
How Americans look at Trump and think 'yeah, HE'S who I want to be my president'.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think “just eat less!” is good advice when you’re trying to loose weight.
“Just eat less! It worked for me! Oh really b*tch?? Really? Oh My Gods I wish I had thought of that before!! Guess I’ll tell my anxiety and depression and eating disorders to chill and stop making binge every time someone is the least bit cold or detached because my brain immediately assumes they hate me! Thank you for this life changing piece of wisdom oh mighty and skinny one.
Like, different animals probably see more colours than we can, but what the heck do they look like?! I need to know! I keep trying to imagine it but how can I?
I don’t understand how there can be more colours like wtff
Computers really boggle by brain. How do ones and zeros even work? I know it’s on/off, but how on earth does that translate to making a cat video? How does this little tiny chip made of silicon, gold, plastic (and whatever else) actually do the things? The vacuum tubes and punch cards of the 60’s...... how?
How accents developed, did an Englishman decide to pronounce words differently upon arrival, or did the native Americans affect their pronunciation? I'd really want to know if someone had an answer.
I do not understand one thing: why do entitled people exist? Are they here only to ruin lives, or what? What is the reason entitled people exist? Who was the first entitled person?
Because the pricing at the store is generally set by the deals made between the retailer and the provider and then the tax is different based on where you are, sometimes even by county, so when the pricing is being done you would have to basically calculate it for each individual store and no one can be bothered doing that so they just ring up the whole cart and tax the total.
It's very stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How math came to be. How did they decide on how to do geometry, algebra, other maths, both simple and advanced. I’ve never understood how they came up with maths more advanced than basic addition, subtraction, and counting.
Pi is especially mind boggling to me, like how do you just measure a circle and all of a sudden decide “oh hey this thing is infinite haha it’s a number now” like how do you even find it and understand it in the first place? Then the concept of infinity is equally as confusing to me.
JTMY_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don’t need to plug their noses underwater with be a huge mystery to me.
Also why religious people that go door to door knock on the door for like five minutes. I believe in Jesus but I already go to a church and you don’t need to knock for that long. Maybe just the people that come to my door.
Why bullies think it’s a wonderful idea to bring someone down so much they become depressed, like am I just a buzzkill?
Why Shane Dawson doesn’t post on his original channel and on his Shane glossin. I find that a bit weird he just doesn’t upload them to his original. I love Shane!
Why people are racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic.
The meaning of life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone claiming to be tolerant, open minded, and highly progressive can say anyone who thinks differently than them should die a horrible painful death.
AI and machine learning. I got degrees in statistics and discrete math and then spent 40 years coding. I’ve been out of the workforce for 6 years now and in that time those things have taken off. It seems like I must have the tools to understand it but it mystifies me.
Peoples belief in a higher power... I genuinely can't wrap my head around gown adults believing in primitive beliefs they should have grown out of centuries ago. The utter lack of evidence provided by anyone should be enough to sway any rational, logical mind and yet despite it all people still believe.
People who put things in their back pockets where someone could steal it instead of their front pockets. Only valid excuse is if you're a women then you don't really have front pockets lol.
ex. In January of the year 2000, I was one more than eleven times as old as my son Will. In January of 2009, I was seven more than three times as old as him. How old was my son in January of 2000?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they can't afford them and their corporate bosses care more about saving money than their employees. Also, there is probably some bullshit thrown in the official memo as to why they're not providing the supplies about it not making a good impression on the customers because they can't see if you're smiling or not.
I get that, it frustrates the crust off of me that the public health department doesn't do more to assist. Also even if their company or corporation does not offer a mask or other PPE and if money is tight there are still options and super easy ways to improvise/diy a mask from materials at home.
If a fire breaks out but your boss doesn't excuse you from work you still need to save yourself. I feel if their is ignorance involved the employer at the very least should be held accountable to education their staff on the risks and encourage at the minimum them to diy a mask. Teach infection control etc. I'm not blaming the employee, it truly breaks my heart to hear how people in unsung occupations are losing their lives over this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The political architecture and structure (cause I've no intrest in learning about it nor the motivation to do so in the near future)
Computer coding (I've seen a lot of videos of people coding and making amazing stuff, but when they were teaching it in school they did a really bad job of it and all my excitement and eagerness to learn coding died.. Still good with the tech and surface level computer stuff)
Drawing / sketching (basically free hand drawings always get out of proportion. To make a simple sketch, say of an eye, I need to know about the eye structure, it's anatomy, they various parts and layouts and only then can I Sketch an eye while other artists can imagine and draw like that's alien to me)
Basically, there are two plausible hypothesises: either the universe came to exist from nothing or it existed the whole time, BEYOND the time.
And both practically beg for the same question to be asked:
H O W
My head hurts a lot whenever I try to think about it. It's absolutely incomprehensible. I think, if I put enough effort, I may be able to unveil whatever mysteries of the world there are.
why the world is becoming more and more populated with gaslighters and there's no consequence for such bullying. More and more hateful people and cheaters moving ahead in the world and honest hard-working individuals just being helpless
Press the the pads of your thumb and middle finger together firmly. While maintaining pressure between them, try to quickly slide them apart. If noise is not produced, try pressing more firmly.
They're just parts of a whole. You divide the apple into the bottom number of pieces and you have the top number of those pieces.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay like, logically I get it. At the very very simple level, like the apple, I get it. I can visualize it. But then come along decimals and percentages which are somehow the same thing, and then you’re supposed to multiply 3/26 by 1/13, and I just freaking lose it. I was very good at math until fourth grade lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most people in the world always feel the need to put others down in every situation. Too many people are like that in this world
The size of universe. Space. The huge amount of timelines of planets, solar systems, galaxies etc. All these things are way too vague and vast and infinite for me. I know what they mean. Technically. But it just fucks me up whenever I try to think about any of it.
Same thing about parallel universes, string theory, and basically anything related to astrophysics. My mind just goes numb.
Clockwise and counterclockwise both have left and right motions.
If you’re talking clockwise on an actual clock, the hand is going to the right when it’s “on top” at the 12, but it’s going to the left when it’s “on bottom” at the 6.
Or if I’m tightening a screw, clockwise, one side of my hand is moving to the right but the other is moving to the left.
So how do “to the left” and “to the right” mean “clockwise” or “counterclockwise”?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You want to know what I genuinely don't understand?
How people can talk about equality, fairness and treating people with respect when it comes to a multitude of subjects but when politics is brought up suddenly you're scum of the earth for voting for what you believe in purely because you didn't vote the same way as other people
It amazes me that we talk about democracy but heaven forbid you vote for a party or vote a certain way because your beliefs are genuine and not based on hatred or division
This doesn't apply to a specific country it's all round
A prime example would be brexit, I've had many people throw abuse at me for voting to leave the eu with the usual race and hate card being played despite the fact that I actually agree with immigration to an extent.
Nobody should have the right to abuse someone because of how they vote or who they vote for so long as that what they're voting for isn't a nazi regime
How so many people are so easily manipulated with propaganda. Especially now after the introduction of "alternative facts" and "fake news". People are getting away with lying about things that are easily refuted. For example, if someone says "I never said that" but you can quickly find a video of them saying "that" from a week ago. Also, the tendency towards anti-intellectualism. People love the benefits of technology, but some people reject scientific facts which do not align with what they want to believe.
I’m going to be hated for this but. The fact that on the memes subreddit they all get triggered by someone talking about reddit badly but then proceed to bully other cultures and other apps.
How large universities get away with paying players. I don’t mean systemically. I know the The NCAA sucks ass and is about as competent as I would be flying a space shuttle. I mean logistically. How does it work? Usually schemes fall apart because people can’t shut the hell up. This has been going on for 70 years with very few “accidents.” I need to know!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. i have dyscalculia so it's always been hard. i do understand some things, but others...? hell no.
Technology. I spent an hour talking with my girlfriend about how little we know about how TVs, phones, computers, etc. work. I think Joe Rogan had a bit about this. Something along the lines of 'put me on an island with everything I would need, how long until I send an email?'
You could give me a million years and I'd probably barely crack how to make a light bulb.
Relativity.
I don’t understand the concept where time slows if you go faster than the speed of light. I don’t know if it’s scientifically accurate, but the planet in interstellar where an hour was like a few years on earth really boggled my mind.
Also existence in general blows my mind. Why do we exist? Where did life come from? Do we have an inherent purpose/meaning or is this all random? Is there a God/higher power? If so who created him? What happens after we die? That sort of thing.
Taxes. How to afford an apartment AND go to college. How to properly save money. People who disrespect food service workers. Why my thumb does that very painful thing.
People not understanding social distancing and adhering to current lockdown measures or even not understanding how there is people not understanding how serious covid-19 is
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come girls won't make a decision on where to eat. You'll start naming off several restaurants but receive a no or im not hungry for that. Which results in aimlessly driving until she says which ever place you already named 5 times.
the concept of entropy in physics and real life. I'm graduating this school year and i still don't get it. I tried to watch youtube videos and read academic books about it but it just doesn't make its way in my brain. All i know is it's heat around us everywhere(?)
After watching a video on the japanese writing system, I firstly don't get why 2 syllabaries are necessary (in the video he said the reason was 'context', but wtf is 'context'?), and then with the whole kanji thing that took over half the video and a second video, and then accounting stroke order, I just don't see why someone hasn't tried to make it simpler yet. Heres the video https://youtu.be/bcdYKxHT8kY
Why maps have to have the size of the countries changed. I just don't see why you can't make the country the actual size it's meant to be compared to the rest on a 2d map
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the force of gravity actually works. I understand the idea of the curvature of space-time, but how does space actually know it needs to curve? Isn't a particle supposed to help transport that information?
Maybe I need an ELI5 on loop quantum gravity.
Geones · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the fuck America can just keep printing money.
How people first translated languages. I can just imagine a French man screaming 'pain' while pointing at a piece of bread while an English man just cries thinking the French man wants to kill him with some bread.
I get the basics and the definitions but it doesn't make any practical sense - energy is conserved but then what about birth of stars and death of stars
ecks89 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics. I have tried reading "A Brief History of Time" by Stephen Hawking and I didn't understand much about the subject when he covers it (maybe I understood about 20%). I also tried watching some YouTube videos to reinforce the knowledge but still not a clue.
How money works. How can our country lose money? How can a whole country be in debt? Currently we’re in a recession, which means we are losing money - where does this money go?
Life itself. How bad things happen to good people and how shitty people seem to get ahead in life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generic blanketed hate over a specific group different then your own. Whether its religious, political, cultural, etc- I just don't get it. How does a person decide they hate everyone who is Christian or Muslim or Republican or gay? There are good and bad people is every group. And speaking from my own experiences I like/love/respect people who have totally different worldviews then my own. So I don't understand people who can't and think there is some high road in spuing hate on people you don't know personally.
Why do people order double stuffed food when you could just eat two of that food and not only be more filled but also have it last longer?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
proof in geometry, yeah so someone else already did it, why do it have to do it again. 28 years ago i said this to my geometry teacher his answer was to give me a d for the class.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think that they know that we do not possess free will. I’m not saying that we do. But how can you know that when we still do not totally know how conscious thought works?
The logic of women sometimes, people that tailgate thinking you’ll get somewhere faster, people that don’t move over when getting tailgated, people posting racist things on social media and not expecting insane backlash, the people that kicked toilet seats on TikTok to get fame over corona and getting it anyways, why when people ask hey you want anything from McDonalds they say no and still proceed to eat all your fries when they could have ordered one, why the mismatch of quantities in a pack of hot dogs and buns.
How right wing leaders are elected pretty much anywhere, like how are the majority of the people voting that selfish when voting (and if not selfish then either dumb or intolerate)
Poker. Maybe it's because I haven't bothered to learn the rules well enough, or memorize the ranking system for what hand trumps another, but my brain just doesn't seem to want to grok any of it. I'm glad people enjoy it, it just does nothing for me.
How people are mean and selfish for no reason. I just don't get it, for me it's so easy not to be, and when I am I feel absolutely wretched about it and never want to be so again. On a logical note I sort of get it, but on an emotional level I just... can't comprehend Why.
Why the people are not better trained in the first 4 environments, before 13, when they still have as much enthusiasm as they are going to have. The teaching of elementary school is way off, and reflects that we do not look of other ways of doing things from the other 240 countries. Elementary school needs these supplements, perhaps at home, in the form of a family report, a department of good ideas. They would know writing and selling it in grade 3, the 4 invention steps in grade 4, international business grade 5, being of service to others is the theme of grade 6, the direct methods of creating opportunity, benefit, and service for ourselves and others. Grade 7 is film and documentary, grade 8: ice cream, one cherry, 3,4 peanuts, dollop of whipped cream; now back to work you little monsters!
Agwens · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is sit possible that computers work the way they do, i mean i know about the programming, but first you have to build it and in what part of nature does the construction make it function
Why people like David Sedaris. I read that owls with diabetes book and it was quite possible one of the least funny things I have read in my entire life. His whole shtick is telling ridiculous stories that ‘supposedly happened’ to him but I can’t tell when he’s being serious and when he’s trying to be funny. IMO audiences should all be in on the joke and not wondering the intent of the comedian.
Also I swear to god if anyone responds to this post saying I’m just not ‘smart’ enough to get his humor I will downvote you.
Ordinary and Partial Differential Equations get insanely difficult and unintelligible very fast, like "ok I get it...ok, I kinda get it...OK just what the fuck happened??"
Getting in to huge debt for a wedding. I just cannot fathom how people drop 30k on a wedding in the first place, but if you can afford it and it makes you happy, more power to you. But spending an obscene amount of money that your going to be paying back for ten years, having a negative effect on your life? For one day? Nope.
The philosophical shift from liberal minded individuals fighting against things like the death penalty to “it’s ok to casually discuss these people dying because I disagree with them”.
It’s honestly a really wild transition; I say this as a very liberal person.
Essentially the router knows if something is inside it's network or outside its network. If the something is outside its network it uses a system called BGP. In this system the router doesn't know really how to get a packet to the correct location but it knows the direction to sent it to. So it sends it that way and then that router sends it to the next one, until it reaches a router that actually knows where the recipient is.
There's a lot more stuff if you have specific questions I'm happy to answer.
How can people go out the streets of Brasilia, capital of Brazil, in the middle of the Covid-19 quarantine, and shake hands with the president of the country.
My ex. 12 years and no feelings worth talking about apparently. Has just completely turned them off and wiped our relationship and me from her memory. Goes on with me like I'm a robot without any feelings but perfectly fine when she's with her friends.
Wouldn't be so bad if I didn't have to see her every other day to spend time with my daughter. Hurts like hell that I still care for her but there's just a wall of ice.
FUCKING FRACTIONS! Both my second grader and fourth grader are doing fractions right now and I can't for the life of me figure out how to explain it to them. I'm not a teacher, I didn't sign up for this homeschooling shit. It dawned on my earlier this week that I do math at a first grade level, thanks corona.
na7oul · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Results the same w medication most times you feel normal and like you dont need meds but really thats whats making you normal if your getting shit results your doing a shit job
lly44 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How no one thought to ask for a reference or qualification for the sign “interpreter” for Nelson Mandela’s funeral. I don’t even know South African sign but even knowing British sign language, I could tell that dude was just waving his hands around.
People who believe in god and their reasons or lack there of.
Believe what you want. I really don’t care but when I question things about some people’s religion, they get angry and can’t support their beliefs with any knowledge or simple convictions.
I’m not questioning them as a person, just their choice of religion and why. Should be simple right?
I just don’t get the willful ignorance or the defensive ignorance to something that is supposed to be profoundly enlightening.
Someone has already said this and I know it's a joke but. For real. Magnets. Not so much the positive attracts negative, but everything after that. Whenever I see or hear any explanation my mind just goes blank and I hear white noise. Like Me. Brain says "no kiddo you don't need to listen to this". I legitimately have no clue about magnetism.
Computers.
I mean, I understand the basic stuff like 1s and 0s and bits and bytes... But I genuinely have no idea how all that becomes the device I'm typing this on.
quasur · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My purpose. How ppl can be so cruel and heartless. And math. I don’t understand math.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be such hypocrites and do stupid shit and not understand how their wrong and then they lie and shit to their friends, like you legit did EVERYTHING wrong here, now stop fucking harassing me. But then it turns out i’m harassing them by not responding much
I find it interesting and hard to understand how we are sentient beings who have our own thoughts and control our own flesh bodies. I find it very cool how much we also can learn.
I genuinely cannot understand some people's actions. Like someone will do something wrong after being told how to do it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are some people out there so unbelievably stupid- SO lacking in basic human understanding, and yet somehow manage to lead relatively normal lives. What the f-yahuck?
People can be awful, wonderful, and everything in between. As a species we destroy our planet and build unnatural things and are in general so unnatural it doesn't make sense for humans even to exist.
To be short, humans are weird and don't make sense.
How enormous planes fly. I've watched videos and heard explanations, but my mind will never comprehend it. That thing is so heavy and it's just... FLYING
Why people pay $160 for shoes, mine are $40 and I guarantee they will last longer and do the exact same thing. Also why caraway seeds exist. Made spaghetti last night and those damn things were everywhere in the sauce, ruining dinner for me
The fact that “aliens” in space are more than likely “things” we can’t even comprehend. They won’t be physical beings they could be literally anything.
Also of the same ilk, colours in different places. Light will be different and the colours will be different and we would never know them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Purpose of life. No suicidal shit I just don’t get it
Corporate loyalty. Like, why try so hard to convince me to use a brand? I do tend to stick with brands/products that I’ve used and like, but I don’t care what someone else does.
Cars, phones and computers are the worst about this.
Seriously why are all of you so weird and complex, can you not?
On a more serious note: I seriously do not understand why people are so bad and mean in nature, they act like they're the most important thing in the world, think they can buy their place into shit, even if it's just a DnD group (we had a limit is seven people per group, and this fucking human literally asked to the DM, after we had told her full is full, you're too late, how much he wanted, money, to get her into that specific group... Then acted like we were the badguys for not allowing her to do so, and be a little offended, and very baffled, that she even tried that.
How tf I understanded math I middle school, and now in math related high school I am almost failing math class. Or how we think, like everyone thinks but how, how they see world, like me or not, maybe with more emotions or less ect.
b00c · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Embarrassingly, almost all concepts about space and time. My partner is really into space and we have watched multiple documentaries together and every time I think I’m beginning to understand who revolves around who or what a light year is, it just kind of slips out of my brain.
I would genuinely not be able to explain the structure of the solar system, the universe, the galaxy etc. if asked. Makes me sad because I like understanding and knowing things and being proud of my brain for grappling with things, and eventually grasping them. But space... spaces makes my brain say no.
Victim mentality, Not to say that there isn’t real victims of things. But like shoot yourself in the foot and blame the person you bought the gun from, whole world is out to get me kind of mentality.
Monogamy and sexual jealousy. I’ve tried to but I just don’t understand why most people take sex so seriously and base relationships off of it and base whether or not you love someone by how much you can deny your desires for others.
how consciousness or awareness emerges from computation. if our brains are supposed to be wet compute machines, that create our minds, then how is awareness created by that computation. i think it may actually be a nonsensical question, but this is the current modern view of the brain and consciousness.
“The straw that breaks the camels back” scenario to any situation. Say, if an elevator can only carry xyz amount of nickels at once max, what would happen if you added an extra nickel, or dime or penny? any situation can relate back to the “straw”, and it’s mind boggling to think about.
well youtube comments quality has decreased a lot but I have seen comments like who is watching this is in 2014
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the movie avatar. i literally don’t get it at all
gmh182 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Locks that require specific keys. Like how the heck are there so many thousands/millions of combinations to make them work, and how smart were the people who invented them to come up with something so intricate and complex back in the day!
Why people gravitate towards professional athletes/singers/actors instead of really great thinkers. I imagine the world would be a better place if people chose the latter.
The concept of when you say a century, it refers to the century before. For example, the 18th century is the 1700's. Everyone explains it to me but I just don't get it.
Arbitrary concepts on language
Why does table is named table, how does the basic establishment of words and language work if it’s so common of us to use, why isn’t a common knowledge. As someone who’s a native spanish speaker, rules, grammar and orthography are thrown at us like 12 years of our lives but still we don’t know how does it work from the beginning.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worshi. Any celebrity no matter how great he/she was
Light years. More specifically things that are 1000s of light years apart. When we talk about distances that large I don't think it's possible for any human grasp.
Anti Vaxers!!
If a Corona vaccination became available are they gonna refuse it? I hope not ofc i hope everyone gets it but I seriously dont understand those people.
Like why "chair" is named chair? why "wall" is called wall?
And why people believe in god. like they say he always existed, i dont understand how god always existed.
And how universe is eternal. I just can't imagine something begging eternal. (I dont know English very good)
Why people believe in money and currency still, like we transitioned (as an entire planet) to a surplus economy a few decades after the industrial revolution took off, we produce more food/houses/water/power/clothing than we could possible imagine using all at one time but there are still people living in what we consider substandard conditions, going without things we physiologically need for the simple fact that they don't have enough chunks of metals/paper notes. Living like this in the current day and age is incredibly cruel, not to mention completely unnecessary.
Space....well...not all of it...I kinda get solar systems and planets etc etc...but galaxies...wtf...where does one galaxy start and the other end? What's inbetween them? And the universe? Where does it end...what's at the end? A wall? It cant just end can it?
the need for pride parades a part of the LGBT community has. Like sure you exist and all but parading in the streets and being loud and obnoxious about it is just gonna make your life worse. No one likes protests or whatever. No one.
Also, before all hell comes raining down on me for 'being homophobic', i'm bisexual so stfu.
Why people can't stay inside during lock down, the longer you wander around the longer the lock down will be and the greater the number of deaths. STAY INSIDE
Seeing a family out cycling and while the kids are wearing their helmets, the adults are not. I just... I don't get that logic. Who takes care of the kids if the adult gets a head injury?
B-AP · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was rewatching Mad Men this week and there’s an episode where they are recreating the beginning of Bye, Bye Birdie to sell diet drinks to women. The one woman who is in creative tells them that it doesn’t speak to the audience they want to purchase. The boss tells her that she’s wrong and that it will make women want to be like the girl in the commercial and men will want to see the ad. They make it exactly to the specifications of the client who naturally does like it. Even though they can’t explain why.
You have people who aren’t in the demographic to buy the products, creating what they think the fantasy of that demographic should be. If you want an interesting look into marketing, it’s a fantastic show, but in all honesty; not much has changed in the decades that have followed.
How people who have been abused can go on to do that to other people. You know the pain so why make someone else go through it? Especially in this day and age
I don’t think humans can comprehend that something just doesn’t end. We are creatures on a linear path of past, present and future. The concept of forever just doesn’t make sense.
I don’t understand why people of my age group 15-20 are so eager to get into fights, I have encountered so many kids that want to fight someone and this includes my younger sister.
ALRIGHT, YOU WANNA KNOW FINE?! I ADMIT IT, I DON'T KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS!! HE ERASES TIME BUT WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?! IF YOU ERASE TIME THEN SHOULDN'T HE NOT BE THERE?! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN- WHAT DOES HE MEAN HE ERASES TIME?! HE ERASES TIME BUT STUFF STILL HAPPENS IN IT!! HOW DOES HE KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IN IT WHEN HE ERASES IT?! IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME! YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME! FINE! YOU CAN FREEZE TIME AND YOU CAN TURN BACK TIME, BUT YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME!! THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE! IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!! YOU ERASE TIME NOTHING HAPPENS IN IT!! I DON'T KNOW, I DON'T KNOW SOMEONE TELL ME! SOMEONE TELL ME HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS! I NEED TO KNOW! I NEED TO KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS, PLEASE!!! PLEASE, JUST TELL ME!! I NEED TO KNOW! SOMEONE EXPLAIN IT! ITS CONFUSING I DON'T KNOW, HOW DOES KING CRIMSON WORK?!?! HOW DOES IT WORK?! HOW DOES KING CRIMSON WORK PLEASE!! PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME I NEED TO KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS!!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, how someone can be neither boy nor girl. Like, I really do try to understand, but it doesn't compute. I'm definitely open to education, though.
intersex people exist so that proves that sex isn't just male or female (although society does usually force intersex people into one of those roles)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean more of the whole identity thing. Like, if you're AFAB or AMAB and you grow up and don't identify as either male or female. If that makes any sense??? I appreciate the comment, though!
gender dysphoria is basically when someone hates their bodies gender. If they can't change their body they feel depressed and suicidal. Having a body that is their preferred gender and people using their preferred pronouns gives them gender euphoria, basically they feel very happy (the first time someone used female pronouns on me I smiled the entire day)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, that makes a lot more sense if you compare the dysphoria/euphoria thing. But how does that include the non-binary people?
They get dysphoria other being called both male and female and get euphoria from looking androgynous and people using the pronouns they/them
I should also mention that some trans people don't get dysphoria/get barely any, they just get the euphoria (the trans community is a bit split over that, people who think that you need dysphoria to be trans are called truscum)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, yeah. That makes sense.
Actually, I met a trans person one day at my last job. She said she was MTF and was wearing makeup. She did a fantastic job and I was telling her how beautiful she was, and I was hoping that wouldn't trigger the dysphoric feeling, but I was afraid to ask if I had. I honestly don't want to hurt anyone, and wouldve felt badly if I had. I couldn't tell if she looked uncomfortable because of that, or maybe I shouldn't have complimented her?? But I told her she was pretty before I knew she was trans, so idk. I get very awkward about these situations.
All you have to do is use the correct pronouns and treat them the same as you would with anyone else. If its something that you would have said it to a cis person then it's perfectly fine.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it for sure was. Just the look on her face made me think I said something to make her feel bad. But I'll definitely take this education going forward. Thank you for your time!
I never really understood how cars work. Like stuff that has to do with the battery, engine, transmission, suspension. I just can’t seem to wrap my head around it. I’ve been taking a stab at it recently since I purchased a pretty nice vehicle and want to take proper care of my baby. But it’s a lot to wrap my head around especially since I was never taught anything about cars growing up
who do people worship individuals in higher positions? for example: thousands will line up to wave at the celebrity passing by or at a president or some shit.
what do those people get from that wave they did that the celebrity probably didnt even notice or even if noticed will forget in 30 seconds?
How we just learn an entirely new language as babies with correct grammar and everything while I have learnt basically nothing from 15 years of French in school
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hivemind thinking. Why can't people come up with their own thoughts? Like we really live in a simulation, and using enough processing power to make everyone unique is too much to ask.
Wanting to have human babies. Or other instincts people aren't able to control. Is it really so hard to let your higher brain functions do the thinking? Get over yourselves already.
TLDR: Why are human beings so simplistic and stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe.
OROHSH · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi. Why can it pass through me?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cat in front of my is driving slow. Car behind me decides to rides my ass. WTF is that rationale?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, I just don't understand having faith over what you can see with your own two eyes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frats/Sororities. I understand basic need for social approval and what not, but god damn they’re so annoying.
J-J16 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WR810 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're disgusted with how to federal government is handling COVID-19, if you (rightly) believe the government has a long history of racism, and if you hate Donald Trump why on God's earth would you think it's a good idea to socialize our medicine, especially with Sanders' Medicare for All that would abolish private insurance.
I genuinely don't understand why Disney is giving their classic movies pointless bland remakes. Like, why can't they just make something new and original? They're never gonna top the original films, so they should just stop now.
Bro, I legit don’t understand how mankind can encode frequencies inside of wavelengths. My computer networks class right now is just boggling my mind and it’s really hard to grasp the concepts of somehow putting signals into the air and it actually working. Like, how?!
Money, and how it works...like when countries are poor I don’t understand why they can’t just print more money without the value of it going down. I’ve had it explained several times to me and I still can’t grasp it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I’ll just be laying in my bed, waiting for the bliss of sleep to take over, and I’ll just become self aware of my own existence and confuse the absolute hell out of myself. Why? Why does this happen?
it sounds lame, but death/pre-birth. like, whats it like not existing? do you just see black? do you see at all? do you go to heaven or hell? does anything exist beyond? do you get reincarnated?
And the shit that keeps me up at night: you live your life, and done. you're gone. forever. you might think it'll last until something happens but nothing will. ever, ever, ever. nothing.
Life is unexplainably, amazingly, divinely valuable. make use of it, don't throw it away.
How some of us Americans can think we live in the greatest country ever to exist. Like bruh our government is fucked, so is our economics system and don’t get me started on the social issues. Nevermind we have the biggest military spending budget instead of free healthcare so therefore we’re the best WOOOOOOOO USA USA USA 🇺🇸
How cartoons used to air on TV. The way I imagine it is that there is a reel like a slideshow. I can see voice actors talking to the motion they see on the screen. I don’t understand how that got that to televisions around the world. Did they have a camera that was recording, pointed towards the reel slideshow? Like, I don’t understand
How is the world like this today? I mean… The continents, the culture… What if Columbus didn't arrived to America and died in the middle of the ocean? What would be the world after that? Would we be in the same place that we are right now?
This is how one event can change the fucking world's history.
HOW can someone like GENUALY like Maths? Especially algebruh! Whenever there is a problem on the board that one or three kids will shout ironically but knowing like shit it's not ironic they tell out "EaSy" or "SomeThing HaRd" it makes my blood boil really, I know just because I can't understand it it makes me look like a jerk but Holy shit I don't understand WHY and How can they enjoy it ?!
Like I really try to understand stupid people, but I can’t. Lack of knowledge and common information in people makes me wanna hit the wall with my head when I try to explain something basic.
How someone with blindness+deafness is able to be taught abstract concepts well enough to write about it + become a lecturer. I’m specifically thinking about Helen Keller
As in if party A has debt party B owns the debt, then over all there in no debt. That’s correct, but that’s not what they mean by overall debt. The US has 23trillion in debt, that’s the US federal government as an entity has that much in bonds out standing. Lots of regular folks as well as large entities like China can own buy and sell that debt.
The structure of corporations. Why is it that the people who actually do the work and make the company run make these least amount of money and have the least say in how the company is run? Why are there so many levels of unnecessary management and why do they get paid more despite the fact that they have little knowledge not processes and are completely unnecessary to the actual running of the operation. This is made obvious when a merger occurs and those middle managers are the first to go. None of it makes sense to me.
Why Religion is still a thing, and how we haven't realized that we are literal gods in the eyes of ancient people, from cell phones to microbiology, we have the power to change the climate yet we don't, because "god" will look after us. We are god now. We are the Captain now, and we're sending her straight into an iceberg while engulfed in flames screaming Despacito
Why people are homophobic, racist etc. Like, everyone is different can’t you just accept that? You don’t choose to be born white or black, or straight or gay, yet some people are so horrible about it! its just ridiculous
Why people care so much about brand(ed) clothing. Especially if it's an unoriginal design with just the company name on it. Why pay to be a walking ad?
This is a selfish one but I don’t get why I’m not more successful. I’ve done things the right way. I’m pretty smart, people like me, I went to college and try my best to do good things and to treat people well. Yet here I am, living a normal average life. It’s not bad, please don’t get me wrong... I just thought it would be something a bit more special.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every cuntry is not united yet to one big UnitedNation of earth ? What the hell. I mean yes, language could be issue and loss of culture would hurt but other then that ?
Why we exist. Not in the way of “what is my purpose?” (I’ve been told it’s to pass the butter). But why is anything here in the first place. What is now, has always been, maybe there has been millions of big bangs, maybe this is the first, but what was before?
Fleming’s left hand rule. No matter how easy others find it and how much its been explained to me, I cannot understand it.
Noob_l · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thermodynamics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I keep having dreams, and they happen later in real life. For example, one time me and my mom ate pizza in my dream, and I had not seen her in a month. And she came over to visit and we were wearing the exact same clothes, and eating pizza.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do British students have to do English literature and language. Just do SPaG and done.
The invention of technology and computers. I just can't perceive how the fuck it was all started and then continues to grow so rapidly, it breaks my brain
Why celebrities houses are always so large and empty. I swear those houses look severely uncomfortable and not cozy at all. What makes it so appealing to live in a giant house that it uncomfortable and too clean to feel like a home?
Why i am forced to stop gaming with my friends and watch tv in silence downstairs. I am still looking at a tv and i get way more enjoyment from playing games.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people need to bring politics into everything or play politics.
No matter if you’re a creationist and believe that your god or gods created it, or whether you prefer the Big Bang theory or some other scientific theory, the fact that once there was nothing and that somehow became something always fascinates me.
To this day, I still do not understand why, in the the movie "A Christmas Story", when Ralphie says the F word in front of his dad, gets punished for it, and his mom asks where he heard the word from, WHY doesn't he say he heard it from his dad?
He has his whole internal monologue about it, and there's not really a reason he gives as to why exactly he didn't tell on his dad. All we get it "I chickened out", and then he tells his mom he heard it from his friend.
If I made that mistake, you can bet your ass I'd be saying it heard it from dad. That would be my get out of jail free card! But for some reason, Ralphie doesn't, and after watching the movie every christmas for so many years, I still genuinely do not understand why he doesn't blame it on his dad.
Neexy- · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of death. It genuinely scares me that life just stops. Is it like when you’re asleep and dreaming? Or is it just nothing? Because when you’re an infant, you have no recollection of anything and don’t start becoming aware of your thoughts until you’re, what, 4 or 5? I’m terrified to lose any of my family members, because I’m afraid I won’t ever see them again. I can’t function without them and I’m fucking terrified.
I genuinely do not understand animal abuse. Here you have chosen to have the responsibility of caring for something that is ENTIRELY dependent on you for food, water, love, attention, and shelter, and yet people still decide to beat and neglect their pets. What’s worse is that (and I’m not saying abusing people is any better by any means) the animal that’s being abused can’t even understand that they are being abused because the owner is a jackass, not that they have done something wrong. The worst part is the fact that the animal, especially in dogs and other standard domestic pets because they have developed over time to be loyal to those immediately around them, will keep going back over and over to be abused.
Anti-gun people. I understand a fear of guns.. kinda.. but most people who are adamantly anti gun dont actually know anything about guns and used extremely flawed logic and a victim mentality.
Why do radio stations all play talk shows in the morning when their primary audience goes to that station for nusic?
Why do they sometimes arbitrarily speed up or slow down songs by tiny amounts?
Why do they spend so God damn long on their catch phrases and self promotions when the only people listening to those ads are already their audience?
Why do all the radio stations sometimes play the same song repeatedly even though that song came out like 5 years ago, and then later they suddenly stop?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. I genuinely don’t understand how it all works, how the majority of whatever party is in cabinet (or whatever it’s called in Canada). I just don’t understand any of it.
Also, fractions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how evolution knows what the fuck its doing. Like does it just do whatever the fuck it wants and whatever happens happens? Or does it add very specific things related to its environment? If so then how does it know what environment its in or what its like? Its weird and uncalled for.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer code works, how do robots understand computer code, and how exactly can you program something with code if it can’t understand code in the first place?
HEM0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been watching Formula 1 for quite some time now. I understand how important scoring points when the driver and/or team is fighting for the world championship. What I don't understand is why scoring even a single point is a big thing for the rest of the field.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the increased revenue it generates helping to secure the team’s future helps too.
How to be happy. I go to work 5-6 days a week, the 7th is laundry, cleaning, and some video games. Then it starts all over again. I like my job, I like my life outside of work, but when I look forward to doing the same stuff for the next 40 years... it feels like I'm wasting my life away and there's no escape, because whatever I end up doing will always feel the same. Work work work sleep do laundry work work work video games work play work work.
How we move our limbs. You don't ever notice sending a conscious message from your brain to your arms to type or to your legs to run. It just happens, and it sorta freaks me out.
To be mega filthy rich. Imagine buying whatever you want at any cost at any moment without hesitation. To never have to worry about financial problems.
maybe not the funniest post out here, but generally prejudice towards minorities. i mean, i understand the root causes of it and all, but... we're all grown here, aren't we? can't we cut this bullshit out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people just treat minorities like they're not as human as everyone else? Seriously, too much hate goes on in the world.
rsk222 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that want to police other people’s behavior when that behavior has no effect on them. Like if gay people get married, what possible impact does that have on a straight person’s marriage?
What's beyond the whole universe. Since we know it's expanding, there's it's border/end somewhere humanity will never be able to travel that far. And we already call space "emptiness" so what's beyond emptiness ? Even more emptiness or less emptiness. It's beyond human mind. Like it may be black emptiness but when it's black it's already a thing so it's not empty. Maybe it's white so it's also not empty. What the fuck is out there?...
The arrogance of what I call page one opinions, or what : people who on stuff like science, medicine, politics, philosophy, will hear about an issue, spend 30 seconds "solving" it, and then go through the rest of life never questioning their answer, as though there aren't a hundred generations of people who have devoted their lives to answering that question/problem, but Joe Facebook was the first one to think of it.
Named for an environmental ethics elective I took to fulfill some college core requirements, where almost nobody did the readings, and the professor was just happy to see class participation, so we'd spend the whole lecture discussing page 1 of the reading excerpt, which was literally just an introductory paragraph or two basically summarizing the oldest relevant work on a subject. The professor would never force us to move on to page 2, which refuted page 1; page 3, which refuted page 2; pages 4 & 5, which discussed problems with page 3; much less the next dozen pages that set up the premises for the philosopher's actual argument, which wouldn't really show up until pages 15-20. Every single time, we got bogged down in the demonstrably most archaic, ignorant position on a subject, with answers just a single page turn away, much like so many Facebook arguments where it's painfully obvious anyone involved who has even spent 30 seconds googling the topic was looking only for evidence to confirm their predetermined conclusion, and apparently sucks at googling. And the result is a classroom of people who took a 3 credit generals course so they could double-dip their pre-reqs, many of whom will leave with the belief they are college educated on the subject.
“Briefly stated, the Gell-Mann Amnesia effect is as follows. You open the newspaper to an article on some subject you know well. In Murray’s case, physics. In mine, show business. You read the article and see the journalist has absolutely no understanding of either the facts or the issues. Often, the article is so wrong it actually presents the story backward—reversing cause and effect. I call these the “wet streets cause rain” stories. Paper’s full of them.
In any case, you read with exasperation or amusement the multiple errors in a story, and then turn the page to national or international affairs, and read as if the rest of the newspaper was somehow more accurate about Palestine than the baloney you just read. You turn the page, and forget what you know.”
– Michael Crichton (1942-2008))
wross1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mobile game ads can literally use images that isnt from their own gameplay and still get people to download. Ive seen so many games rip screenshots from age of empires on an ad that had nothing to do with that. Hows that legal?
I don’t understand Tik Tok. Like everyone dances the same way to the same music, leaving no place for creativity. Like I would understand I they danced to the same music but make there own moves, but thats bot the case
It's a little stupid but I still can't grasp why you can't divide zero by zero. For every other number it makes sense. The way I think of it is like this:
Any number multiplied by zero can't give you a number which is why it's not divisible by zero
Example: 0 x 12 =12 isn't true so 12÷0 is impossible
But 0 x 0 =0 so how come 0÷0 is impossible? I just can't figure it out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who tell me what is best for my life in terms of what I personally have to experience.
Example: If I work a full-time position and my schedule limits me due to constant schedule changes, why provide me BS about working a part-time position that interferes with my full-time schedule?
If all living species are sentient and there are more animals on this earth than humans why the hell was I born as a human and not something cool like a shark
Rational equations. I swear, I follow the steps the math professor provides, and I either get a completely wrong answer or stuck in an infinite loop of moving variables around.
ZM539 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is gonna sound vaguely immature but the concept of death as a whole. like, we have this lump that creates consciousness and coherent thought and controls us and how we perceive everything and you’re telling me that one day it just... stops? where does it go? i’m not sure if i believe in an afterlife or a higher power but there’s no way it just stops existing and stops perceiving things
The existence of other people. Sometimes when I'm sitting at a light, I look around at the other commuters and think they have a life completely outside of mine that I will never know about. If I go too far down that rabbit hole, I start thinking I'm in like The Truman Show. Freaks me the hell out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of being straight or gay. I'm confused on how you can only be attracted to one gender. Like, I understand having a type, but can you really look at someone and say, "I'm not a attracted to that person because they are blank gender?"
I genuinely cannot believe that people are as stupid as they are. I’m sure not everyone is stupid but there are so many idiots out there, it’s astonishing
romafa · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time itself can slow down due to a phenomenon called Time Dilation. It was predicted by Einstein and then confirmed by scientists experimentally. I just can’t wrap my mind around this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time_dilation
People being afraid of Autism. Just the fear of "catching" it or it "spreading." I don't have the Black Death Plague. And even today, with all the support services and knowledge, people still react like I am brain dead. Have Autism today was not like it was 20 to 30 years ago.
How the fuck does time slow down around black holes? How in the hell does gravity of a black hole make it so that time literally passes more slowly for you than someone on Earth? I get how it bends space and energy, but time itself?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idolizing of celebrities.
If someone were to ask me my favorite band, I would answer The Beatles, but the only personal thing I know about them is that John and George is dead, Paul is rich and Ringgo is not even the best drummer in the band.
I don't get starstruck and I never needed to know more than the work they do.
How the asshole type of person always gets fhe girl, here comes the simp etc comments, but srsly y do some girls go for the asshole type that treat them like garbage? Do they like to be dominated to that extent or what?
What makes one hate others lot like them or not living as per their beliefs? Like what goes on in their minds, and why can't they usually be reasoned woth?
How some people will continue defending their point with stupid ass arguments even when a cross between a sloth and a turkey can figure out that they have been proved wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to "fall in love." Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of people that I love...but no one I've ever looked at and thought, hmm, I'd like to date him/her or be their girlfriend. I don't even get what people mean when they say someone looks "hot." The whole idea of love and having crushes on people just doesn't make sense to me.
Why people laugh when somebody wears socks in sandals.
Come on, the argument is usually that if you wear socks than what's the point of sandals instead of closed shoes. But the feeling is very different and if it's cold summer morning having sandals makes perfect sense, for example. Or in cities where's ton of dust and you don't want to have black feet by the end of the day.
And it DOESN'T look ridiculous. I don't wear them only because society is pressuring me not to. Otherwise it would be my shoe choice for summer.
How a placebo response could have evolved. Things basically evolve in two ways: either there is a selection pressure that selects for a specific quality, such as wing color matching birch color in the specific species of butterfly that survived the British industrial revolution in spite of the soot deposits on birch trees, or it is a side effect of something else that is selected for.
It's very clear the placebo response in humans involves many different alleles, so it is extremely unlikely it's a side effect. However, given our phylogenetic history, it's also extremely unlikely it was specifically selected for. So why are we receptive to placebos? I genuinely don't understand.
I see everyone in large homes with new cars making half of what I do and can’t figure out how they’re doing it. Oh and their giant home is only a $600/month mortgage payment and they’re brand new truck payment is the same is my 10 year old payment. Vacations? People spending $3k on vacations like it’s nothing but I know they’re combined household income is <75k/year.
Why people go to prom. I'll never get it. Why spend so much on one night? People say "It's because it's senior year, and we won't see each other again." or "It's the senior experience." That's fine. Why not hang out with your friends for free?
How programmers type code but the final product is a video game, plantary orbits, copy machine technology, and people who believe the most absurd conspiracy theories.
When will I finally know I’m happy with myself? Like, if I’m happy with myself I’d more than likely stop hyper focusing on myself so therefor how would I have that thought that I’m finally happy with myself in the first place?
The watch industry. This is from the perspective who knows very little, but I hear about it a lot. If what I say is wrong I'm sorry. My bf adores watches and he is always going on about how rolex are really slow at producing watches. Some waiting lists for a brand new watch are like 10 years long. It's ridiculous and this drives up the prices of second hand watches immensely. Not only that all the rolex dealers are under a lot of restrictions regarding how they present the watches etc, yet there aren't ever any watches there for them to sell! Not only that brands affiliated with them like Tudor also put in place the same restrictions. My bf was looking at getting a Black Bay II or something, the watch with the chronograph and lovely two tone braclet, anyways at the time he could only find a dealer in Manchester who had one. That's over 200 miles from us. They categorically refused to deliver and as a result lost out on a £5000ish purchase. Eventually we found one in Exeter, but honestly I just can't believe how one watch brand can have such a negative impact on an entire industry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CE-5 meditation. I did it once and actually saw some shit in the sky. I’ve been told I’m just hypnotizing myself and seeing satellites. But satellites don’t blink once and disappear.
Lawjaq · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the things when you look up outside, for most of it I don't even have the time to understand them by hearth. The others either I forget, or too complicated.
The right hand rule in physics. I don’t think I got a single one of the questions right on a test. Also telling what type of stereoisomer a structure is in ochem. I just took my C’s and left those classes in the past.
why people do the fake money advert thing, like "oh my god u tricked me? im going to bye ur shitty shit now", like does anybody even get convinced by that? Like no im not going to your church because you made me pick up a fake 100 dollar bill.
Why people insist on playing hard to get when it would be much easier to just say outright what they want! I was talking to my younger sister, so that's how I know ppl do this, but still.
This is not based on experience, but more that convo i had haha
I genuinely don't understand why anyone would drive unsafely when they definitely know it could get them or someone else killed. I'm talking about those drivers with 100 dents in their car swerving through traffic like everyone else is just in their way.
How some people can just leave their house and do stuff. I don’t mean now with the Covid stuff but before that. How people just casually make plans to go out and hang out
I really can’t get my head around it, the idea of leaving my house and seeing people from school outside of it makes me feel odd
DKN3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people wish to more quickly act on things than understand them?
I'm not just talking politics. This goes for religion, science, TV shows, everything. People hear something different than they've believed and lose their minds trying to silence it. Most of the time, they're clueless about what the other side believes.
How people value animal lives over human life. I can totally understand you valuing you dog’s life over a random human but when people say they never give to human charities, just animal ones, it blows my mind.
I know I’ll get a huge amount of hate for this but starving babies in refugee camps/trafficked women and kids/women in domestic abuse/people with cancer and other illnesses comes first. Once we fix all these problems, I’m happy to save the animals.
I can however understand animal conservation so saving animals that are close to extinction I would support. As humans we should look after the earth and fellow creatures but not to the detriment of human life.
Coding, as in for software. I’m a tester, been testing for over 13 years. I have done plenty of automation as the API is simple enough to follow. Ask me to write an app for whatever, I have no idea. I can read some of it but it’s just foreign for me most of the time! Just where do you start?
The Five Nights at Freddy lore, I never was realmy into it, but I always liked watching MatPat and his fnaf theory videos, but it has gotten really complecated and I can't keep up
yumbby · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why as a semi smart 46 year old woman who has left an abusive relationship in the past (mother) i cant seem for the life of me to leave my alcholic abusive husband. I seriously cannot figure out wtf is wrong with me. Its not love..I barely can stand the sight of him. Its not money..I dont give two flips about that. We dont have children together. So what is wrong with me!! I just wanna punch myself in the face!
Die hard Trump supporters. Not being a troll. I don’t believe in being loyal to either party. But as someone with a pretty high level of education and a lot of life experience from being homeless to having my own family, house, cars, and dog, I don’t understand how Trump supporters can cheer and gloat when he brags about acts that are clearly illegal. On a human level, forget politics, how can you not dislike the guy?
I just cannot understand how there are people who genuinely think that communism works.
I think the idea behind it is not bad, it sounds pretty, but it could never actually work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics
D94r · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time.
When we talk about it on a geologic scale, Its just a bunch of zeros that seem like a lot.
But I dont think we actually can grasp the depth of it.
From our perspective the earth is almost in a stagnate state throughout our lifetime (tectonically / interglacially [etc.]).
However, even over just 1 million years, there are significant changes observed over that "short" period.
And to think for over half a billion years, Earth did not have a shred of life.
Health Insurance. If the rates were based on the health of the individual we would be paying much less,it would give people incentive to be healthier. Smokers,chonkers, addicts are a major factor of why we pay so much. Car insurance,home,life all have many variables that determine the rate. A healthy individual should be paying like $50 a month for a basic plan.
People willing to stay in a relationship even though both parties are unhappy and don't have kids or any financial ties to each other. Who wants to live like this? I just don't understand it.
Why does it always seem the stupidest people are in control? Whether it be government or work, why do the smart people get buried and the stupid rise to power?
Why people are racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. I understand the logical explanations I've heard like, "oh people are afraid of what they don't know about." I still don't understand it in my heart.
How far technology has gotten and where it can go. As a kid I watched and loved playing snake on dad's old Nokia 3310. 10 years later it has more processing power than the computer that landed the shuttle on the moon.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people just have a complete inability to acquire or accept new information. We live in an unprecedented time with literally thousands of years of combined research, history, entertainment and more available at our very fingertips yet some people really believe in things like the earth being flat or that vaccines cause autism.....
It's not because it may be confusing, but I moved here when I was in 6th grade, (now a Senior in High School) and no one ever taught me how this works. I'm still here trying to understand what are the primaries, what are caucuses, etc.
How someone like Paton Manning, who has made well over 100 million dollars and won many awards in his NFL career, feels it necessary to make commercials for an insurance company.
Math... I'm 32 and have always had a hard time understanding it and get so embarrassed when numbers, problems, equations get in front of me. Or of someone asks me to add two numbers and I stall for 2 minutes doing the problem in my head. I grew up in a school system that did not reach it. I have always wanted to find a tutor that could teach me basic math, but feel so weird as an adult asking.
1) why people automatically tend to open their mouths while applying eye make up
2) why some people (in my circle anyway) have a really strong need to talk on the phone for long periods of time every.single.day... year in year out... even when they have absolutely nothing to say
3) how people ever find themselves feeling bored when there's always so many interesting/pressing things/projects to work on/things to accomplish or even if they don't have that in their minds they likely have books, or the internet, or a pen & paper, or nature or strangers to just sit and watch, etc...
4) why the vast majority of people on this planet feel an innately deep yearning to seek a relationship with some form of a 'higher being'
5) why so many people feel so passionately involved in the players' achievements while watching sports
And there's so many more... basically I am curious about human behavior so there's likely several hundred dozens of things I could list which I genuinely wonder about.
Religious People. I'm not talking about those who go to church for tradition or as a family gathering. I understand the social aspect behind it. What I dont understand is incredibly well educated religious people who have genuine belief. These people seem to be rational and logical in every part of their life, yet thank god for their success. Maybe its be cause I grew up in a pretty atheist household, but I cant seem to wrap my head around it.
Why women like men. Seriously, most of us are only a few meals away from being cavemen (myself included). We start wars over dumb things. We generally miss all signals that you’re into us. And it’s hard for us to not think about sex/female body parts. For the most part, we’re not as emotionally intelligent as you. Yet you still love us?! I have no idea why.
Why people even bother to make super shitty movies. I saw an add for this movie " the iron mask" both Jackie Chan and Arnold Schwarzenegger are in it, but the movie looks like absolute trash. Two hours of CGI bullshit. Why would anyone ever bother making something so terrible. Or act in it for that matter.
Sight reading music. I played the string bass for about 6 years growing up and always played by ear (school orchestra & competitions etc). I never learned or could read music (from a song I had never heard before)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is gonna sound stupid but gerrymandering. i’ve had that shit explained to me so many times and i still do not have a firm grasp of how it works
I'm talking TV, Radio, Internet. Talk to me about 0s and 1s all you like, but there's still unfathomable, complex data just somehow riding electricity waves down cables and turning up on my screen like Tiger King, and I have never understood it. I call it magic-science because I think it's genuinely somewhere between the two.
Are accents shaped by language or language shaped by accents? Because I have seen multiple polyglots who have wildly different accents depending on the language
How the fuck nearly everything in a computer works and I'm actually really fascinated by them
fskoti · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the citizens of the United States tolerate our government being so corrupt and why we tolerate our government killing people all over the world for their resourc... I mean, because they hate our freedom.
I don't understand emotions, I have actually lived my whole life pretending the emotions I see in other people or in Tv or stuff like that. Yeap it's something Psychiatric.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. We seemingly know so much yet so little, and every theory out there sounds whack but is somehow scientifically proven. Shits weird.
Insurance.. I don't understand health insurance in the fucking slightest. Like how do I know what is a good deal and how do I know what is a bad deal.. it's all just so confusing!
The obsession with social media. I don’t care what you had for breakfast this morning nor do I care how long it took for you to put your crying baby down for a nap. I have no interest in sharing my world with anyone else except my wife. Twitter and Instagram, influencers and all that shit. People famous for just being famous without showing a shred of talent. I’m at a loss and extremely out of the loop. I don’t get it. The only people that can explain this stuff to me are my kids.
I used to have a hard time with life not being fair. Would always ask why does this happen, why me, what did I do to deserve this.
In the last few years I decided to work on being more prepared but this virus situation has been a great curve ball. I noticed that I was going back to my old ways while looking for a job. I saw a quote two days ago that encouraged me: To expect life to be fair is to expect a hungry lion not to eat you if it had the chance to.
Why well over 50% of people find evidence-based explanations of the world around us to be forever problematic and faulty. Yet they find untestable and unproven magical explanations to be extremely compelling.
Why every other voting method (laws, senators, judges, ect.) is determined by the citizens of the US, but the president is chosen in a completely different way that involves state governments and points and...it's overcomplicated, if you ask me.
How power is generated. I just don't understand how the magnetic field produces power and how it gets harnessed. Mostly talking about rotor and stator relationship. Seems like magic.
Why the world is so unfair and so many good-natured and hardworking people suffer every day while there are many scumbags are having the time of their lives
Why most Christians aren’t more socialist leaning, my understanding of Christianity is that we are supposed to be more Christ like, and according to what I learned while going to church in my childhood, that meant helping people who are more unfortunate and loving our neighbors. But in the good old USA where I live and where there’s a large Christian population, we hate socialism like we hate everything else that’s not seen as ‘American enough’.
Socialism has killed more people than any other modern political philosophy. Jesus helped people not because he subscribed to some dogma but because he was a nice guy. You don't have to fall into Marxist bullshit to be a good Christian you just have to not be a cunt. Jesus came down and said fuck religion it's all bullshit a way for a brood of vipers to make money off of genuinely nice and good people. Jesus said it's all about your connection to God threw your heart not your mouth or your wallet or your politics all that shit is distraction. Your mind will always lead you astray follow your heart,that's where God can reach you.
It means that instead of you personally paying the insurance company for your coverage the government, representing every single person in the country, is the one paying.
I genuinely don't understand why people think getting drunk is entertaining. To me, it just looks like people enjoy putting themselves in situations where they are willing to do things they wouldn't ordinarily do sober, only to forget it / get sick the next day.
I'd love for someone to explain this because I feel like I'm in the minority sometimes with this, haha.
Modern day dating. I've got single friends who are all over Tinder, Bumble, etc. and I met my spouse before any of that was a thing. The notion of meeting someone to potentially become romantically involved over an app just baffles me. That said, I'm sure folks still meet under other circumstances (friends, bars, and the like), but the online scene seems to be the way to go.
Lack of empathy, selfishness and self centered behavior, lack of respect and understanding, willful ignorance and how a part of the populace is okay with all that as the main driver of today's policies.
If there is a God, why is the world so unfair and so many good-natured and hardworking people suffer every day while there are many scumbags are having the time of their lives
People who are able to play MMO/MOBA games for 1000 hours+
How.
I personally can't sit and just do the same thing over and over. I need variety, at the minimum an RPG game like Elder Scrolls or something. Even if its a story-drive MMORPG or a Survival Game, the most I've ever clocked is around 300-400 hours and that was over the course of 2 years.
It's honestly why I have a respect for people who stream on Twitch or are able to play professionally, that level of dedication and study of one particular game is amazing to me.
I understand prejudice -- leftover animalistic fear of 'the other'. For that matter, I understand fear, the primal instinct to self-preserve at all costs.
But I cannot grasp where 'cruelty' might come from -- the desire to cause pain and suffering deliberately, and taking enjoyment from it. Animals don't express cruelty -- they can do cruel things, but as a side effect of some other action or impulse. No animal sets out to cause pain for its own sake.
It gives me a minor existential crisis to think about cruelty being a sign of intelligence.
How ridiculous spoiler culture has become. I always thought it was real dumb, but it used to make some sense. But now that FF7 remake part 1 was released I saw people shouting spoilers at youtubers making videos on the plot of FF7... an over 2 decade old game. What the hell?
People who form an idea based off their own thoughts over the course of 10 minutes, and think it's a better idea than whole groups of people who have studied the topic their entire lives, then SHARE their genius idea to other geniuses who then agree with them and then they all rant and bitch together about how the scientists and the government and whoever else are a bunch of idiots. Scary shit.
My sisters say that our old leather couch was “wet” and the new couch is “dry”. Their feet are “wet” but the carpet is “dry” therefore they CANNOT walk on the carpet with bare feet. Concrete is “wet”. I don’t get it, and never will, no matter how often they try to explain it to me!
How emotions work?? How you can have them in certain situations but not in other, very similar situations. And how you can have them for people. And how some people have much stronger emotions than others. I feel like a psychopath but I think I just have super mild emotions across the board and so I don’t understand when other people display such strong anger, love, jealousy, etc.
How computers work. How you turn electricity into 0s and 1s that can represent almost anything, from audio to instructions on how much pressure a device must apply?
I mean, how you get some mineral from nature and turn them into machines that run out daily lives? It’s beyond me.
How genetics choose who gets fucked over. I understand the basics of it thank you tenth grade biology but why do I have every shit genetic thing I could when most leap frogged my parents and my siblings got nothing.
People who can't be tickled. I have relatives who say it's just about self-control, but I can even tickle myself, but apparently you're not meant to be able to do that.
Why everyone says college is the best 4 years of your life, the entire time I’ve felt like I don’t belong
RzK · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my gf prefers mac & cheese instead of Wild Mushroom Broken Spaghetti Risotto with Arugula and Hazelnuts, served on a cool plate. Mac & Cheese tastes like ass, why do people like it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This huge act the whole society is on. Particularly the one pertaining to flirting between a woman and a guy. Both parties know what they want exactly and what the other wants, yet they have to pretend they dont, and play mind games. And if one party expresses their honest intentions too early, the other party acts like they dont like that and cut it off.
I also genuinely don’t understand the difference between the British “it’s polite to tip” culture that I’m used to and the American “we must tip because the servers are paid like $2 an hour” culture. How is paying your staff so little that they have to rely on tip money ok?
I have been trying to pick up skills in various types of art, Im horrible at painting but I can at least see what I have made, music on the other hand is something I can't understand or see what I'm making even after I'm done.
Why people buy reddit coins, just why would you spend money and guve it to someone else, and they get only a small picture next to their post or comment and sometimes some coins.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. I have tried so many times to genuinely understand this sport so I can enjoy it with my dad since my brothers have no interest in it. But I just can’t. I don’t get the rules or plays or anything.
How people can close their eyes and actually visualise anything in their mind at all. I found out I have Aphantasia today (The inability to visual imagery), and thought it was completely normal to not be able to visualise even the simplest shape.
Why America has more cuss words than Britain.
"Bitch" is used to refer to actual dogs,
"Bastatd" refers to someone born out of wedlock,
"Piss" can be used to refer to passing time,
etc.
Computers. I don’t get how a computer knows what the code you enter is supposed to do. For example, you enter the code to make a dancing platypus appear. How did the computer know what it all meant? And how does a computer know what a dancing platypus is.?
So many of you probably know about console wars, aim assist complaining, etc. What I dont understand is why doesnt console use mouse and keyboard. Someone please explain
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the mind works and how you manipulate it with so many different techniques; meditation, subs, neuroplasticity, LOA. The mind just amazes me!
So I've got a few
1) I don't really understand how sexuality works, like, I know that people are just attracted to different genders and stuff, but like, I don't have a specific gender I'm attracted to, I have people I am, and am not attracted to, but that's not how sexuality is, theres specific groups of people that you are/aren't attracted to, and I don't really get how that works.
2) I don't understand how some people can just, not wash their ass, just what the fuck
3) I don't understand why sucide/suicidal ideation/depressiob is so prevalent in my generation that the number of mentally healthy people is probably lower than the number of sad bois, and that parents manage to be so dismissive at every turn despite watching the progression of all this shit in their child
4) I don't understand how people can be parents and sooo bad at parenting, like, you made the decision to have and keep the kid, how are you so bad at all of this, how are you going to have a kid and then completely ignore them at all times, or when you're not ignoring them you're angry or cruel, how is such baseless cruelty a thing, and why do people have to be so hateful to each other
5) lastly I don't understand why so many people feel the need to be cruel to others just cus, if someone's not harming you, their not harming anyone else, why are you so mad, I don't care how many genders you think their are, or if you think that others are lesser or that trans people are fake or whatever, why have you got to be cruel, just be kind and move on, you can disagree with someones existence sure, but why does that mean you've got to hurt them in any way, live and let live
6) oops added another, why are nazis still alive??
What contains the universe? Sure it’s infinite, but there must be something outside it, something holding it in. And if there isn’t, then what are we? What is this developed life of ours based on? Because the answer would be absolutely nothing. But not nothing the way we think about it, because it would literally be nothing. And in that case, what’s the point in life?
Ab1156 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that lack the willingness or know-how to be introspective and want to better themselves.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's relationships
Some people are weird, crazy, manipulative, stupid, and much more worse vocabulary.
I don't understand how some people can end up in a relationship with these type of people and enjoy it to the point where they even marry each other, cursing themselves to a shitty life.
If you don't understand what I'm talking about then r/relationship_advice should enlighten you on how some people's behaviours are so incomprehensible stupid, you hear about everything in there, sometimes the normal cheating stuff (which is pretty stupid as well), but sometimes you read somethings it's hard to believe it's true, and makes you think.
How people gain wealth... Like, I have a fairly good job and I work 50hrs a week and I can barely save £300 a month. How do people ever have enough to buy new houses and cars & vacations?!
Length dilation. I understand time dilation. The faster you move through space, the slower you move through time. I get that. I've done the equations in class but I can actually sort of make sense of it.
Length dilation just makes me think we're all in a simulation.
People's unequivocal support and devotion to a political leader or movement. I get that when you first hear the rhetoric of said people, you like what you hear, but when things later come out or happen that should make people reflect a little and possibly change their mind. They don't, they double down.
How we ever built computers. Like how to you go from 1s and 0s to a functional operating system and graphics and everything. It’s witchery as far as I’m concerned.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness, like could computers be conscious? Are we the conscience that we were 10 years ago. We don’t have any of the same molecules, they all get replaced. It’s just weird to think about
How top level news organizations can let stories get published or go to air with major inconsistencies and straight up falsehoods. Dont they have editors or forethought.....
lurgi · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.
I'm not alone here. We understand an awful lot about the properties of things. Mass, color, taste, etc. That's all objective and we are generally good with that. The origin of subjective experience, however, is a mystery. When we talk about what it is like to be someone, what do we mean?
It’s none of your business, and it’s not information that should influence how you treat people at all. So it would be extremely rude if that question came any point before we know each-other well, or there was a damn good reason to ask it, which there wouldn’t be.
Wealthy people want to be valued for something other than money, bc it’s not who they are and has nothing to do with ‘them.’ Non-wealthy people want to not feel excluded by financial gatekeeping or potentially judged for admitting they make less than the average for a given social setting.
There is just no way to make that not rude as hell, because asking about net worth inherently reduces the subject of the question to the money they make. No one likes that.
It’s also inherently a comparison-oriented question that will always lead to some inequality-related awkwardness. Self-comparison is never a good thing to indulge, so it’s rude as hell when you force people into self-comparison.
How am I making it seem like I will judge them based off how much money they make? What if I am curious about their job? What if I am thinking of joining the same profession?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get so upset by words on the internet....
How the stock market can change even with the quarantine, like isn't the stock market people meeting in a big room and selling to eachothers? How would that work online?
I understand why you would prefer the street to the sidewalk for running or riding a bike. Why do singular people walk down the street next to a sidewalk??
I've always wanted to ask, but can't think of a non-confrontational way to do it.
Why people want to climb deadly mountains. I watched the "Everest" movie based on the tragedy in 1996, and no "reaching the top" is worth it if the other option is dying and being buried in snow for decades. I genuinely don't get it.
LOeyv · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stonks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the musical “Hamilton”. I do not find it clever or interesting or any of the songs catchy.
Why somebody would abuse animals. I’m not talking about eating them, just hurting them for no reason when nobody has anything to gain. Why would you do that? How twisted do you have to be?
MP-MBJ · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why dy/dx can be treated as a fraction but it isn't a fraction
How RUN capacitors work on single phase motors. I understand a standard, or start capacitor. But run capacitors confuse the heck out of me. I know they are needed, but I have no idea what's going on
Phases of the moon. I've taken an astronomy course in college and watched several TV episodes of various shows talking about it. Still can't understand what's going on
The national debt for the USA. Does it matter? Will interest payments get higher? Will there be a limit where they can't take out more because they can't pay it off?
Just seems like everyone talks about paying down the debt. Then gets elected and proceeds to increase the debt.
Yrvaa · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe, its formation and what is outside it. I mean ok, Big Bang or God or whatever... but what was before that? What is outside the universe? How can the universe be so big? How can time not exist outside the universe? Is the space outside our universe infinite? How can it be infinite? Nothing is infinite!
Coding/programming. I just dont understand that when people type out a piece of text with weird signs all over the place, the computer does what they want, and if they made it a slight error, it'll do anything but what they want?! I really dont understand.
When it's midday and the sun is up but you can see the moon too, people at the other side of the Earth (where they're at night) can see the moon too? How??
How technology and all materials have evolved. I’m a very smart person but find it amazing how ANYTHING has been created and thought of by a person. Even a plastic bottle: how?
Bryqi · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how someone can just be so genuinely stupid. It seems to me that a lot of people do not think before they say something or at least look into a topic before discussing it. People hear some arbitrary information/theory that makes no sense at all but something sounds good to them so they take it and run with it. Very odd and most of the times.. infuriating.
I mean, I know the physics of it, Bernoulli and all that. But viscerally, it makes no sense. It just SHOULDN'T HAPPEN that this thing gets off the ground on its own power.
Potential energy. Probably a bit different to what the question was intending, but however good my physics teacher was, I never understood this. I can calculate stuff with it just fine, but I dont know what it actually is.
I have an art degree. I do digital art. I can create procedural textures. I can digitally sculpt. I understand how colors work. Blah blah blah.
I've watched my tattoo artist work on my sleeve and I just don't get it. I watch him use colors together that break my brain. I've watched him draw perfectly straight, razor sharp lines across different parts and shapes of my arm. I'll never understand how tattoo artists do it.
The appeal of point-and-click/turn based combat games such as ESO, KOTOR, Final Fantasy, etc
I’m one who likes to press a button and when I press that button, I expect an action. Not locking into an enemy, pressing an attack button, and just watch the battle until either myself or the enemy dies. The same goes for turn-based combat. Honestly the most boring games I’ve ever played. Hence why I believe action RPGs are superior. Obviously just my stance and a very underdog-type opinion in this regard.
Why are music videos and trailers for games and movies allowed on Youtube’s trending page? Obviously those things are going to blow up and it takes away space for people who are actually independent creators on youtube that are making content, even if it’s good or bad. I get “money” but come the fuck on at least make a separate tab for them. I go to the trending page to cringe at the menial bullshit on there and smile at the occassion quality thing.
How someone can be bad to someone else just because. I never understood my school bullies because they were just assholes for absolutely no reason. It's a concept I just can't grasp
How photography works. I understand the concept of how light is used to imprint an image on film but in practice I cannot seem to grasp it (especially with digital photography) no matter how often it's explained.
But people who believe in ANY religion. There is literally zero actual proof of any god from the literal millions of gods and religions.
Yet people think that they just so happened to be born in the right time, right year, right country, right family, etc etc etc, and indoctrinated into the right... religion.
Yea... how lucky of them.
But yea.. to base their entire worldview on something they usually never read, fully understand, and has no actual proof.
Ghosts, bigfoot, aliens, etc etc etc, you get called crazy, and rightfully so. But hey, magical gods? Naa thats just religion, they get a free pass.
How people can make such realistic art and sculptures. I think I am smart in many ways, but I just can't understand how people can expose such realistic things using paint or clay.
I'm from England! So the reason people voted for Brexit is because of a few things. There was some misinformation as well about how much our healthcare system would get if we were to leave the EU. A few other reasons was because we provide the EU with a lot of money (we get a bit of it back though) but a lot of people don't see where that money goes. Because they don't see it actively helping them they think the money is just being sent somewhere and forgotten about. Another reason could be because a lot of people don't actually get how the EU works and is believed to be as indecisive as any other major multinational organisation. There's an argument because of some EU reps not being voted for. The final and possible most common reason was because of the migrant crisis. People didn't want people entering the country on high quantities and as an EU nation we had to accept all migrants who were seeking asylum. Those were the main reasons
Dirt. I had this realization as I as spreading sod the other day. I have no fucking idea what dirt is. I understand It’s various mixtures and levels of eroded rock mixed by tectonic movement. But how? Why is dirt not sand? What else is in dirt? I know I could easily find out, but as of yet I have not. So my answer stands: dirt
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers they might as well as run on magic
I get the very fundamental of coding that you tell it too do the thing so it did the thing etc but why does coding work
So you know that tempting feeling that you just want to jump off of something you're on or when you're standing by the road and wanna throw yourself in there? I kinda understand but not really about that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue with illegal immigration is that the person is "undocumented". The country doesn't know the person is there. That means they aren't paying taxes. That's the issue. This means the country is supporting someone who doesn't chip in.
D&D
I don't know if its my anphentasia or i'm not a very original thinking person, but i could never do d&d very well and as such it stopped being fun eventually much to my boyfriends dissapointment i stopped wanting to do it period, cuz i was always the one who either took a lomg to choose what to do, or couldn't think of anything at all, and of i did do something its was like to be something lame no matter how cool my charecter was
Life in general. I failed to even comprehend how we are able to think, some things live and some don't, despite being made up of essentially the same material. This extends to science also, how can human just came up with concept and shits
How a person can think another person, a human being just like them, somehow deserves less in life, physical harm, or even death just because of where they were born, skin color, hair type, socio-economic class they were born into, most addictions, and other things beyond the individual's control. Hell, even things that are in the person's control such as hair color, tattoos, religion, where they live or not even if they have to go with literally only what they can carry, and so on. It just blows my mind that there is still this superiority complex some have, and it makes me sad and angry to know it's "built in" with how parents raise kids, even not fully recognizing what they are doing, and how governments are set up and run to favor certain people, classes, and so on.
Time dilation as it relates to the theory of relativity.
Apparently, as you approach the speed of light, time becomes slower. But I don't get how time doesn't just move as a constant for everyone, all the time, despite their speed.
My understanding is time never changes. Only out relative position to time or in time. The faster you go the closer to the speed of light, normalizes the relative speed with respect to you.
I'm having a hard time piecing together that second sentence. "The faster you go [towards] the speed of light, [it] normalizes [its] relative speed with respect to you"?
Assuming I properly understood you, I get that one's perception of objects becomes distorted (objects appear smaller), but I fail to see how a minute for a stationary party is different from a minute for a party moving at near light speed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How FED can keep printing money without it affecting the American dollar value and without questions being asked. Capitalism seems like the biggest scam in history.
Religions help explain things that can't be explained and give people hope in times of crisis. I'm atheist myself but I see patients with terminal cancer being happy because they believe they will be going to heaven. Whether there is a god or not is debatable but if it gives people happiness then carry on
Interesting article. But still why do we know that? Should we be able to know that? Is maths something that has been there forever or did we humans "invent" it?
But what 2 do they count? Do they count two seconds (which we also came up with) or do they just wait a certain time they wanted to/think is the best? What I mean: do they realize they do this or do they just do what they think they should do at a certain time?
They wait for 2 leg movements of the fly. I'm sure they know what they are doing but I am not sure if they realise they are "counting" as that's a more human perspective
A stock market is just a collection of companies that are allowed to sell shares in that establishment. They rise when the majority of their shares go up or the overall increase is higher than the overall decrease
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In primary school we had to eat sandwiches before any other item of food in our lunch. If you didn't the 'dinner ladies' would get triggered.
How some people are so willing to choose socialism over capitalism thinking it will transform the nation into a utopia despite there being very clear historical (and present) evidence that this is not and will never be the case.
When people say socialism I've usually found them mean democratic socialism which is where it's a democracy but with a welfare system (like free healthcare, benefits to those that are disadvantaged etc). Very rare they mean full blown socialism
I don't have a good example of communism or socialism. But have a look at European countries for a working democratic socialist country. England for example
The queen's role is purely ceremonial. All the actual work is done by the elected parliamentary members. Our welfare system (dubbed "cradle to grave") has been around for over 60 years! We have free healthcare, benefits, educational funding etc. But we are still democratic. For all purposes we are a democratic socialist society.
I have played guitar for over 20 years but was never technically trained on theory or anything like that. I would love to understand how to create neat harmonies for vocals or even guitar but any time I try to research it it just goes over my head.
Why farmers don't earn more money, they literally keep every one alive and work 24/7 and all they get back is shit because people don't understand how things work in the real world. But they don't want to learn either because what are the going to complain about then?
The issue is there isn't much intrinsic value in a crop because there are loads of farmers and the buyer has a lot more power than the farmer does. The buyer can go anywhere but the farmer has limited options. If the farmer tries to increase their prices then the buyer will just go to a cheaper farmer. If you're interested, the UK company "Tyrrell's crisps" was founded because this potato farmer got annoyed that a supermarket tried to force him to lower his prices
Just because I don't trust someone doesn't mean I need a gun to protect myself from them. Unless your country's stability is quite low where that sort of armed protection may be required. I live in England and if I don't trust the government I just try and elect another one in. Protests and talking to our parliamentary members is quite effective over here so we don't need guns incase we need to overthrow the government. It ain't the 18th century now
How people can continue to support Trump when he didn't follow through on his promises to them, bungles everything he does, disregards his own Tweets when they are quoted back to him, and during his campaign said to grab women by the pussy.
And sadly, I predict this coming election is still gonna be a close race, even though it really shouldn't be. It just makes no damn sense, kinda like Trump.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men who argue that catcalling is "not that bad" or should be "taken as a compliment", regardless of the fact that the women in their life tell them it's awful. Like what do they gain from it besides making women uncomfortable?
Short term thinking tied to hypocritical stupidity.
The type of very short-term thinking that condemns us to being victimized on repeat by the same forces and systemic failings. Then, expecting charities and random people to effectively fix the problems our power and/or money minded leaders have no incentive to address.
And then the punchline is we complain and don't do anything to change the terms of the game, dooming ourselves to a self fulfilling prophecy of problems.
How terribly edited spam email and web ads are still a thing. Nigerian princes have been trying to offload money now for about a forty years, and apparently the scam succeeds enough that spammers/scammers are still willing to throw money into advertising and email bots.
The boner pills will not, in fact, make your shlong grow 6 inches. This one trick will not let you lose 100 pounds in a month. The secret that doctors don't want you to know is not being spread on a google ad on pornhub...
How do these things not die?
It works to an extent but there can be bottlenecks. Think about it this way, Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, has a great year and Amazon profits are through the roof. So he wants to expand. This creates more jobs for people. That's the ideal way a trickle down system would work. But sometimes they don't create jobs and they just keep the money
Rucco_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How movie companies can spend literally hundreds of millions of dollars making and advertising a movie, but don't seem to care to spend any time or money on the script.
I think it's because on the internet you can represent yourself as anything, thanks to distance and anonymity. So for some people it's "fuck it here's a bipedal wolf character I created, this is what I want my online image to be". And that becomes their online image, because there's nothing else to go on.
As for why they're into that... concept, it's probably quite dependent on what people read/watched when they were young.
How there is supposedly jobs for everybody. When I had my HVAC tech degree, with 20 person with the same one in this town only, I can't imagine an economy where everyone of them get a job, EACH YEAR. That can't work, and yet it almost does.. I don't get it
Alternating current (AC). Somehow, we wiggle the poles of a power source 50 times per second and that is somehow more efficient when transfering it at high voltages.
People who support Joe Biden for any reason other than “he can beat Trump”. I often wonder if any Biden supporters could name one single facet of his platform.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do blind people see?
Do they see black? We can’t ask them cause they don’t know what black is. Do they see nothing cause they don’t have sight? But what is nothing? My closest idea is what you see when you close one eye.
It's called confirmation bias. You ignore anything that goes against your views or find a way in which to disregard the information given. This leads to your full faith in a belief
It makes scenarios more helpful to deal with if I can represent something as a letter. Let's say I want to know how many pence make a pound (UK currency). If I create a general equation "pounds = pence x 100" then I can keep reusing it but substituting values. y = X x 100. I could also stick it in a graph with the y-axis (vertical) being pounds I've got out and the x-axis(horizontal) being pence I put in
Parents charging their children rent when they become adults. I just don’t understand how you can allow your own child to live in your house for free for years Then wake up one day and decide that this isn’t ok? I’ve also noticed that 90% of the time parents that do this are controlling as shit
SSL certs. I honestly believe they were invented to sell security services.
They are so ridiculously complicated to implement and manage that I wouldn't be a bit surprised to learn in 20 years that it was actually a hoax and they were meaningless.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can lead such toxic and dumb friendships.
Like, especially teenage girls, not all of them, but a lot lead such weird, toxic friendships where there's always drama and then their "friend" is apparently a toxic bitch and "they never liked them anyways" and then they gossip about them etc. But a few hours later they're best friends again.
I just see this a lot in teenage girls but of course, also people in general
How does technology improve generally? like lets say, computer memory, how did it jump from little bits of megabytes to gegabytes and then to terabytes, what did they even do to improve memory this much?
wanting to have safe and easily accessible abortions banned
i don’t think people should get abortions all willy nilly and take it lightly, but i just think they should always be available because there truly are circumstances where it’s the best option. just my thoughts though! i always try to be respectful of other opinions, i’ve just never been able to put myself in a pro-lifer’s shoes i guess
This is how I see it. No religion sets out to make people's life worse. Religion is there to "save people". Unfortunately some religious people take it too far and believe the only way they can go to heaven/paradise or whatever they wanna call it is to do something for their religion. Killing people who don't believe in their god because they should is the classic example.
Kingdom Hearts. I watched different videos before KH3 released. The all said the exact same thing and i still to the day have no idea what was going on
I have tried pretty hard to understand it, and I just can't my head around it. It's probably because I haven't played enough, but that's partly because I don't understand the damn pot odds!
Also, in a totally different vein, unit testing in software. Same problem. I have spent time trying to understand it, and my brain just refuses to accept it as a concept.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability in maths. I can calculate with it, but for some reason i just can't hold it in any logical thought.
Conservative politics. Just seems like a cult for white people to be racist, horde money, and steal/maintain power at the expense of all human decency, morality, and ethics.
There's racists in every part of society unfortunately, no party is safe. At the end of the day people like money and don't really want to share it with everyone else, I don't for a start! But a lot of people understand that we have to help everyone out. It can be hard for people to see "the greater good".
Okay so if say 1000 people have coronavirus, and 50 died, you divide 50/1000 and you get a result of .05, or 5 one hundredths (5%)... so doesn't that mean you're logically saying that each "1" in the 100 represent 5 people? There are only 20 groups of 5 in 100 though, so that doesn't make sense. Where is my logic failing? I know I could solve this with fractions and some algebra but I've never quite understood logically what is happening.
what happens when we die, simply the fact of not existing? like i understand it but i cant comprehend it. if i think about it for too long my head hurts, like when we die we just do nothing? we don’t exist? so many theories are that were in out subconscious or it’ll b like when were asleep but not existing? its hard to phrase but i simply cant understand not being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers originally got made, like how could you figure out that putting all these components together would get a computer to work. Then how coding works, like how does the code turn into what it turns into. Another thing is something like GPUS, how did people figure out all the parts to make a GPu do what a GPU Does ?
Well I don't know much about computer history but I can help with coding!
Let's say I have a text file with some code in it, let's say it just says "Hi!". Right now the computer can't do anything with this information, it might as well be a word document. When a text file becomes a program we say it has been "compiled" into an executable (a binary file the computer can understand). There are four stages of compilation that is done by a program called the compiler
Step 1: remove all the crap stuff. Unnecessary empty lines, spaces, all that rubbish a computer doesn't care about. It also creates a table that tells itself what each bit of code means in hexadecimal
Step 2: make sure it's in the right syntax. If you expect me to write in English and I write in French, that's the wrong syntax. Same idea. If it wants it in C and I give it java it won't like that and will tell me it doesn't.
Step 3: more Checking that the programmer isn't an idiot. Making sure that if I've checked whether X = 1, that X is actually given a value at some point. Also makes sure I haven't tried to do mathematical operations on text instead of numbers.
Step 4: code generation. Turns my code into binary if everything else was successful. This bit is very complex because it depends on how your PC is built (windows, linux, how many bits etc).
Life insurance. I get offers for, say, $300k for $2400/yr ($200/month). I'm 52. Let's say I sign up and live another 30 years. That means I paid in $72k. How does the insurance company make money? Do my premiums rise as I get older?
Personal Finance. I am really, REALLY bad with money. I'm 30 and I'm afraid I'm going to get old and die bankrupt like the rest of my family. Not for lack of trying, it's just one of those things that does not compute for me.
Well a teacher is just someone with information that decided to spread it. Even those that spread false information are still teachers, though dubious. The first teacher was probably some caveman who was like "I just saw my friend get eaten by this creature, let's not go near them" or "I just saw someone throw up after eating this berry, we should stop eating them*
How people can sleep around. To me, sex is intimacy, and it's not stressful for me worrying about anything because my partner and I know each other. I don't have to worry about not farting in front of a stranger or anything like that. I find it to be a very special time with either my partner, or just having fun by myself. I would never want to share that with a stranger, only someone I'm very close with.
A stock is a tiny part of a company. If the company is public (on a stock exchange) the value of that stock is determined by these guys called "market makers". They decide how much a stock is worth, but how? Well...a stock is comparable to a good/service. Imagine if stock was toilet paper. The demand for toilet paper has increased so the value of it has increased. When demand reduces, so will the price. Same idea with stocks. If everyone wants to invest in Apple then their share price will increase. If apple are doing badly people might wanna sell their stock and leave which would bring the price down.
So why hold stocks? Well some companies provide dividends, these are like a "thank you" to investors in the form of a check. It's usually like a few cents/pence per share you own. That's a short term profit.
Others might hold stocks, like me for example, so I can sell them when the company's share price increases to a high amount (buy low, sell high, just like goods that companies have).
Each stock is worth a tiny percentage of the company and gives you the right to comment at their annual meetings, if you own a lot of stocks they'll listen to you more and if you own the majority they have no choice but to do as you want.
Funds are like a collection of stocks you invest in. Someone has usually created this collection for you so you just dump your money in it. "But why should I do that, the value might decrease!" Funds usually increase at a higher percent than interest rates so it's a good long term strategy of saving money. Plus because funds are diverse in their investments, there's less risk than cherry-picking a few shares.
Hope this helped, reply if you want anything else!
How every subreddit above 1 mil is toxic and doesn’t respect any opinions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yawning. Are we tired? Is it really an oxygen thing? How come if I are you do it, I have to do it? Why do I do it do it before I go to sleep but also when I wake up?
Geometry. Seriously, I took Geometry in high school, and I guessed my way through it. I still have no understanding of it. I genuinely hate geometry with a passion.
Edit: Also, whatever finite mathematics is. I was tested into a finite mathematics course my first semester of college. Halfway through the semester, I ended up in php (a day hospital type of program) for a couple weeks, and had to drop out of finite mathematics because I missed so much I was literally in tears trying to do homework.
Gotta love a right angled triangle. Let's say I'm making a ramp and due to regulations I need it to be 30 degrees as the incline. I also need it to be 5 metres high by the end of it. How long should the ramp be? No idea, but some maths person figured it out and told everyone.
If we label the hypotenuse (the longest part of the triangle/the ramp bit) "H", and we label the side that will be 5 metres tall "O" (for Opposite of the angle) and then the ground "A" (for adjacent to the angle). We can work out the length of the ramp. Because we have O and we need A we should use the angle with tan (SOA, CAH, TOA can explain that but if I need to). So tan30 = Opposite/Adjacent or tan30 = 5metres/the length of the ramp. So 5 = tan30*length. If we divide by tan30 then we are left with just the length. Therefore, 8.66 metres the length the ramp should be.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well here's one for you. Exponential growth. Something that is exponential in growth means it will keep going up at a faster rate than previously. The coronavirus cases graph is a good example. Starts slow and shoots up. For a graph it would be y = ex.
y = ex is good for modelling stuff like virus spread, population growth, bank account growth from interest etc
Ask me if you wanna know something in particular I've got a pretty good understanding of it
I'm from the UK and we have a system that is government ran. It's called UCAS. We pay around £20 for an online service that provides us with tonnes of information about universities and other information that might help us through the process. Crazy amount of useful information. The £20 is an admin fee for that service. Is that similar for you?
nycama · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don’t have a government ran system that I know of. There is a widely used program called Naviance that is run by a private corporation. It helps you match up with schools and possible careers, and teachers use it to submit letters of recommendations to all your schools at one time. It’s linked to the commonapp, which is the program that contains all your individual applications. I think Naviance is about $10 to use, though I’m not sure because my school set it up for us. Honestly I didn’t use it that much and it seems different from UCAS because as far as I know it doesn’t hold a database of info. It was a good tool to have to organize my schools, though.
The concept of numbers- like, who decides that 1+1=2? Just because that value was assigned that number. Similar to the development of languages, I suppose.
People who educate themselves via social media or a few websites and then develop beliefs that spit in the face of centuries of scientific research and data (ie, flat earthers). Just blows my mind.
The mind of stalkers. Honestly, what is the purpose? What do they think is going to happen? No one who was stalked was suddenly like, "Yeah, you're right. Let's get together!".
drpjr1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese Calculus
tttkkk · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket/ Baseball
Had it explained many times I just don't understand where the excitement comes from
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can pull something down when it can lift them. Like a large balloon that can lift a person can be held down by that person I get muscles play a role but can't grasp how you can "increase" your weight.
As long as the force from the balloon is smaller (in magnitude) than the force you experience just due to gravity, you would still feel a pull downwards due to gravity.
However if you were stood on a weighing scale, then yes the reading would decrease if you were holding on to a balloon pulling you up, and no amount of resisting could change that.
how people can claim they're animal lovers and then they eat animals... you're a pet lover, not an animal lover. you wouldn't eat your pets, would you?
I do not understand why the word 'China' will instantly make majority of Americans lose their ability of critical thinking.
All too many time, everything about China has to be bad, inhumane and not 'free'. Every. Thing. Everything there has to be state-controlled, everyone is a communist and people never ever think or make decisions for themselves because that's what you've been told all your life but you do not have the money to travel to China and see by your own eyes. And if you don't agree with it then you're simply brainwashed pityful little baby. Any random things on the internet can be interesting or wonderful, until the C word is mentioned, then everyone just comes crashing down lambasting how bad this thing actually is because it's coming from a evil communistic regime.
I don't understand how the C word can be so powerful in evaporating critical thinking skills.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a really weird one that I'm sure a lot of people on here would raise an eyebrow at.
I'm pretty good at understanding why people like things. Even if I don't. I have a friend that's obsessed with the Golden Girls. I've never liked them, but I get the appeal. A bunch of old ladies being brutally honest does sound hilarious. Everyone I knew when I was younger loved Homestar Runner, but that's never appealed to me in the slightest. It just wasn't my sense of humor. And even though I think it's an objectively bad book series and has some harmful messages, I get the escapism behind something like Twilight, and why it was such a massive hit within its target audience.
You know what I don't understand to this day?
Why people loved Scott Pilgrim Vs the World. It is literally the only movie I've ever walked out of a theater on. I only finally watched the whole thing about two years ago when a friend forced me to, and I thought it was so frustratingly bad. The action scenes, the special effects, the dialogue, the chatacters, the pacing, most of the jokes, even the core concept all annoy the fuck out of me, and I don't get why anyone likes it as much as a good handful of my friends do.
And honestly, when I say that (never harshly, I'm being way more brutally honest about it here, I usually just say "I don't get it, I don't like it, it's cool if you do though") a lot of them get... kind of defensive. Like I said, a friend of mine basically all but forced me to watch through it. It's something special to them and while I sure don't feel left out, I've just never gotten it.
I would love it if someone could explain it to me.
Electricity, I just can’t figure out what I’m essences it is, it’s the flow of electrons... ok so does that mean that electrons flow from one atom to another, so is electricity a magnetic force then. I just can’t figure it out
How inflation works. I've read that giving everyone 1 million dollars would be bad as prices would go up. Why do prices have to go up? I get the supply and demand thing but isn't it all just psychological? Meaning that if we just impose for prices to stay the same plus a small percentage each year, everything would be the same.
Being an introvert, I genuinely and honestly do not understand what is so great about partying. When I see movies that portrays partying as their plot, or TV news or shows about parties or spring break, I was really baffled. When I was in college I did try to go to a party just to satisfy my curiosity and more importantly to understand why it is considered fun. Scenes of drunken youths screaming, dancing, being overly friendly, non stop talking about really stupid things, and incredibly annoying people getting within my comfort zone really puts me off. I really don't get that.
I’ve looked it up and there are so many definitions and variations of the word that I still to this day don’t know how to use it efficiently (31m) I think I’ve given up lol
How to apply for university and what loans I will need. I want to be a math teacher but I just don't understand courses, the different types of credits, and where to go for student loans. It confuses me so much.
The difference between velocity and speed and acceleration. Been studying physics for years. Heck even wrote papers on it. Just can't seem to visualise it.
wiriux · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi actually works. The low and high pulses which represent the bits; how exactly do they travel in the air? If I send a message and start waving my hands along with 30 people distributed from where I sent it to the router, do some waves pass through my body?
Apparently wifi waves do pass through your body? I find this hard to believe. So what happens if I actually disturb the waves while I send the text? It doesn't matter since the message still gets through.
I still don't understand how messages are sent through the air via wifi. If anyone has a great video explaining this or a link that would be awesome because I truly do not understand the technical aspect of wifi.
Why do people base characteristics of individuals and make relationship and personal decisions (won’t date, only date, only trust) based on horoscopes.
How computers, phones, TVs etc ACTUALLY work. Like I understand it conceptually. The fact that these things exist in the first place is what quite literally blows my mind. It legitimately seems impossible to my simple mind.
Being racist/bigoted/misogynistic/prejudiced. I don't understand how people can genuinely despise and want dead other people based on their color/creed/orientation.
Why parent cry when their kids reach certain milestones like going to school. I know people say "they are growing up so fast" etc but I'm not sure why that's an emotional thing for people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms. Like I understand what they are, but I just still can’t fully wrap my head around them. I was always really good at math, and then way back in high school, I missed a good few weeks with an infected tick bite that was causing the skin on my one thigh to basically rot away. Came back in the middle of the log unit, and just couldn’t get it. That was the end of me being good at math.
How people from different places look so different. Eg. White Arabs in the levant and caucasians in the caucuses look pretty similar, but if you go slightly more eastward, you get to Pakistanis, whom also look distinctly different from Iranians
How mankind evolve to look so different in different parts of the earth?
Islam. I understand most religions, but I just don't get Islam. I feel like I'm missing something or misunderstanding something. I don't mean it in a discriminatory way; I just genuinely do not understand it.
What being gender fluid means. Like one day you can just feel like a boy the next you can feel like a girl? That literally sounds like you have multiple personality disorder and that’s why im so confused by it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how can people be bigoted? i hardly have the energy to hate people for valid reasons, let aline based on their gender or whatever
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigger infinities. Like the number of whole numbers (..., -2, -1, 0, 1, 2...) is infinite, but the number of rational numbers (aka fractions) is infinite but bigger, and the number of irrational numbers is infinite too but a bigger infinity than both of those?? It makes sense mathematically but in my head... just HOW?!?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why depressing songs on radio's exist.
Normally every single day I listen to the radio, and most of the time I hear depressing songs. This being songs that have a sad and depressing tone. I thought music was the form of showing happiness and feelings to other people to make them 'feel' something (which I understand) but why do these songs have to be on the radio, when all you want to do is just to listen to some tunes and stuff from time to time? I think they just make me feel like committing suicide because half of these songs are full of people without the talent to sing since they are so gloomy and dark. I mean, just why? I need answers.
I don't get why people try to spread the corona virus..
Spitting on elevator buttons, spitting/licking food in stores and etc.
What do you gain from it?
How the 'being rude to wait staff' answer continues to get thousands of upvotes every time it's shoehorned into a thread that it's tangentially related to. I get it, everyone hates people who are rude to people in service, I definitely hated it when I worked in retail, but nobody seems to call out the obvious karma farming that makes these threads so stale.
I’m definitely late to this one but I will never understand how people don’t recognize Trump’s utter narcissism. It is so blatantly obvious that he only cares about himself and his appearance. I mean he tweeted about the RATINGS of his coronavirus press conference....? I cannot fathom the whole MAGA/KAG cult mindset.
If I’m being honest, politics. So many words and phrases that get put out there and I have no idea what most of it means. Government wasn’t my best class.
The last two films of The Matrix franchise. I’ve watched videos where people explain the plot and the theories behind it, but I just don’t get it. Maybe because I’m stupid
Why tf do I have to take a shopping cart in the store during coronavirus? I think they want the shoppers to keep a distance to each other but if everyone touches the cart, then the virus will spread over said carts.
Ehunda · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that hoarding toilet paper will save their life during this crisis.
Gravity. And just space in general. Like there’s a bunch of rocks, but then something happened and now they’re perfect spheres. Oh and they’re all spinning around each other, but they never crash into each other. And why are they spinning in the first place? And also the spinning makes stuff stick to it. How??
Sometimes I’ll just stand for a good few minutes dropping something on the ground and just thinking “woah”.
Why people insist to keep "helping" despite seeing the results of their misguided attempts right before their eyes.
"Oh no, these poor deer and boars don't find food in the winter! I gotta feed them!"
"Oh, there's so many deer and boars this year that they turn into a real problem!"
"Oh no, there's even more starving deer and boars this winter, gotta feed them more!"
My grandpa was a forest ranger and actually had to disassemble the feeding stations and place signs that threaten hefty fines because many locals kept dumping bread and potatoes in there year after and year, which led to overpopulation that had to be decimated because it caused significant damage to the trees and nearby fields.
Didn't stop these idiots from still dumping their shit because "they want to help the animals".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why sailing against the wind works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take up smoking in this day and age. Like...do people want to stink? Nothing smells worse and yet people willingly make themselves smell like it.
Also why some people believe that healthcare is not a human right, but owning a machine gun is.
Why some companies who advertise in mobile games insist on being such a nuisance. Not allowing us to mute, clickbaiting, false advertising, putting a muting icon on the screen so when clicked it takes you to the download page...
I mean ya'll know it only guarantees I'm never ever even considering downloading the app right? It just makes me feel angry and played. Bamboozled.
People who build their entire lives / personalities around one single thing, like a star signs, formations or a personality test.
I just don't understand people who say "I'd love to be with him but our signs just don't align" or who force it into every conversation or aspect of life. Take MBTI as an example. It's literally just a test that classifies your personality based on 4 different aspects and gives a suggestion on how you might view the world. But for some reason people take it as gospel and are shocked when you don't fit their exact stereotypes.
At the end of the day you're condensing everyone down into one aspect they might not even be able to influence (like birthday) and then more or less subconsciously decide whether you like them from the get-go, purely based on these random things before you might have even talked to them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you teach a kid to talk and specifically teach them words like "will", "was", "am", etc. Also, how Helen Keller understood anything.
Why parents can't accept their child being a writer or artist/illustrator. There's nothing wrong with wanting to do either, they're both perfectly normal jobs. But parents can only accept their kids being doctors or dentists or something high paying, even when they didn't have jobs like that?
How some people who've already tested positive for COVID-19 and are asymptomatic or relatively healthy still have the nerve to go and infect other people.
Someone already brought up abuse, but I specifically want tqo call out CHILD abuse. I will NEVER understand why someone would strike/rape/murder a child. Such things easily set me off like a nuclear warhead and make me want to wreck the ever loving shit out of the faces of those who would do it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I got ghosted from a 2 year long friend today. And why his profile pic on discord suddenly displays a black n white gif of someone crying/about to cry.
EB__ · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How two languages in contact with eachother for the first time came into understanding eachother
how we all came about. i don’t believe in god so it doesn’t make sense how or why nature and animals and science came to exist in an otherwise lifeless universe.
DevGin · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people continue to vote against their own interests. Or why people's own interests do not reflect the reality they live day-to-day.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not bother to google this but i do not understand how one black parent and one white parent give birth to a brown child, is this the same reason why coffee with milk is brown?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to explain common sense to people who were never taught certain common sense things. Basic communication comes to mind.
Why do people cheat on each other while maintaining another relationship? Just...have the balls to break up with them and go on hoeing. I'm appalled hearing stories of people nonchalantly saying that they've banged friends/randos who had significant others already. It saddens me that this is the norm in our society and loyalty is a rare thing in relationships.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of it is the thrill, if they break up, it's no longer forbidden, so the thrill is gone.
When I go to certain places and my brain gets a weird radio static feeling run through it.
I don’t know how to beat word how it feels, but the last time I remember it happening, I was at my great grandmas funeral and me and my siblings were in a room away from everyone else and there was a stairwell down to a basement and as I stood at the top of the stairs, that weird wave of radio static went through my brain.
How mobile gaming developers get away with stealing footage, making false claims, targeting easily addictive people, and give wrong age requirements all for the sake of making an easy buck.
And it works fucking well.
When people say ‘I could care less’ about something that doesn’t bother them. They’re basically saying they do care because they could care less.
A-Ron · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Politics - Why are people so tied to a political party, regardless of what policies they have? What's the point of democracy when you'll only vote for one party, ever.
And why are people so defensive of 'their' party?
I genuinely don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve tried but still don’t quite get how we perceive colors and rainbows. For colors, it’s related to the complementary color, right? But how does white, black and grey work as they aren’t in the visible light spectrum?
why i paid to go to university when all the information i learnt is on the internet for free.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You get a degree which proves you're at least half-way competent. If there's an employer who wants to hire a programmer, but doesn't know anything about programming themselves, how do they tell the difference between a 22 year old who knows Java and a programmer who lies about knowing Java? The university degree.
How to chill tf out. How to be empathetic and still not make someone else's problems my own just because I care about them. How to not overthink things my boyfriend says when he is one of the most straightforward people I know.
How so many americans think single payer health care is bad and would rather let insurance companies gut them while their medical expenses are many times the cost of other first world countries.
Some americans would rather straight m-up die than go to the hospital because they would bankrupt their already struggling family if they choose to be saved. That does not look like something that would happen in the "world's greatest country".
How the hell are commercials relatable to the audience??? They fucking aren't!
Those laundry commercials show people enjoying their laundry so much, just because they used Tide, but then they go on to explain why and give us a montage of them loving life because of Tide.
Honestly, cheating in a relationship where the other person is genuinely in love with you, cares about you, and wants nothing but to see you succeed. I’m sure it’s happened to most people, and I found out one of my friends recently did this to his wife. I don’t understand it. I could never do that to my wife.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell are commercials relatable to the audience??? They fucking aren't!
Those laundry commercials show people enjoying their laundry so much, just because they used Tide, but then they go on to explain why and give us a montage of them loving life because of Tide.
How you can be talking to a girl and they only respond with "lol" or "cool haha" so you stop talking to them because you think they don't want to talk and the very next day they say that they miss talking to you.
Because it's not your weight but the sum total of all the stuff inside your body.
You eat and drink - literally adding weight - your organism processes it, extracting and converting it - altering its composition and weight - you piss and shit some of it out - literally losing weight, you shed dead skin, dead hair.. there's tons of stuff happening in the background.
flat earthers. it takes so little thought to prove them wrong. how can anyone be that stupid?
anti-vax i can understand. You need to understand basic biology to understand why vaccines are a good thing. But with the flat earth all you need is to look up at the nigh sky.
why so many people are willingly stupid and ignorant of the truth, looking at everyone on a far political spectrum both far-left and far-right
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination
2FDots · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like comic book movies. It's the same thing over, and over again. The studios keep churning them out and the people keep watching them. It's sad, really.
The price. The packages. Commercials even tho you pay for it. How the DVR can be so incredibly shitty. Contracts. Somebody with no carpentry experience can come drill a hole in your house.
How some people are perfectly content to live in a boring subdivision in the suburbs, drive and hour each way to work, and never go on vacations. I would be miserable but there are people who do this who seem generally happy. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
Things existing before I did. It's so hard for me to wrap my head around that concept, recently my mom told me a story about a relative that was mindblowing because their personality was so different than from what I know, it makes sense that people change but, like, what
Modern arts. Like really. How does a painting that looks like someone puked after drinking a bottle of rum signifies dimensions and surreality and layers and other stuff. Way over my head.
Calculus. Math in general makes all the sense in the world. If you have two of these and get two more you have four. Great. But what in the hell is calculus explaining to me in simplified terms?
How people can look at others who are struggling, like people in poverty, and say they don’t want their tax dollars go towards helping them..... But then those same people might donate to people in poverty during Christmas.
Or same concept, how people don’t want taxes to go to health care for others. But then donate to a children’s hospital or a foundation for a disease or something
Mining for bitcoin and how the internet actually works. I always thought it was basically computers talking to servers but the depth of the dark web and bitcoin mining lead me to believe I have no idea
Politics fooling so many people into doing things which are plain stupid. Also, why is society focusing on money and not on science, education, healthcare, resources (water, fuel) as we used to. 😣
Like...I have tried. I have studied it. I've had scientists walk me through it. My dad is an electrician. I understand it as a basic concept but it still just seems like magic to me. Especially lightening. Crazy stuff.
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY NOONE IS ASKING where the US keeps getting trillions of dollars to bailout the stocks and shit, but Republicans and democrats want to know how Bernie Sanders is gonna do Medicare for all.
How people get sucked in and believe this while 5g, bill gates, Dr fauci conspiracy nonsense. Watching it happen to a friend of mine over IG and I'm so baffled by it
mck357 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School systems. Specifically what they teach in high school. Yes, we need to know how to read and write and basic math but what’s the fucking point of algebra? I hate algebra and am terrible at it and am I ever gonna use it? No. Why not teach us things that are useful? Like how taxes work or even basic stitching. And don’t get me started on tests and homework.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys that like being hit in the nuts. Like what the heck how can anyone like that.
Football. I was even on teams in school. I just don’t understand how the rules work. Or why anyone cares. My mind just shuts off at the mention of the word.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kickflips. 13 years of skateboard and I still can’t figure it out.
I tried looking up one of those unsolved math equation things once. Felt like the biggest idiot in existence just trying to figure out what it was saying. Why did math have to start getting so hard around Pre-Calculus?
Who Tf looked at the terrible cash friendzy ad or other terrible mobile app ads with Siri Voiceover and said: that’s good that’s what people like imme get rich with this ad.
I've always been naturally good at maths, I was in a g&t (gifted and talented (I've always hated the name)) class towards the end of my final year of high school and the syllabus was so large that they used to teach one thing per lesson and that was it, they wouldn't properly go back to it for the rest of the year
I missed one lesson and they talked about "completing the square" as a method for solving quadratic equations and it's now 3 years on and to this day I cant fucking figure out how to do it, I have had it explained to me countless times and it just baffles me
What's worse is that I'm pretty sure it's like absurdly basic and it infuriates me still that I dont understand it
The song "Truth Hurts" by Lizzo. It's downright unpleasant to my ears. Every choice made in the composition is to layer another annoying sound or melody on top of the last ear-splitting one.
Why my switch stopped working. I was playing it every day and taking good care of it. Monday night I plug it in because it was low on battery and it hasn't woken up yet.
Tried all the trouble shooting steps and nothing happens. The cord definitely works because it charges my phone.
Sadly it costs $120 to get it fixed by Nintendo repair services and their repair centers are obviously closed for the foreseeable future due to covid 19.
I'm just really disappointed because I was enjoying animal crossing and now I'm not going to be able to play it for who knows how long?
Leaving it plugged in since there's some reports of switches eventually turning on if you leave them plugged in for long enough, though those situations typically involve no playing your switch for a while before hand.
People and the weird shit they do. Mostly the strange dark sex stuff: Kids, dead people, nut stomping, sex with anyone named Jared. Fucking degenerates..
Carreh · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything to do with how computers work. Whenever I have to tinker with a game to get it working its pretty overwhelming, even if I have the step by step instructions.
how in the fuck did hellen keller learn how to communicate?
BZZBBZ · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All these COVID-19 conspiracies and fake cures. Man made in China? Man made in the US? Caused by 5G? Can be cured by drinking topical antiseptics/disinfectants? How do people believe these things?
b2rond · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people have political opinions, voice them, then decine to explain their reasoning and discuss anything. One of my coworkers routinly says "did you see x? How rediculous is x?". I say "not really that rediculous because y". Then they say "im not gonna argue about it". Then why the fuck did you say it in the first place? We all know where eachother stand politically. Why would they say something they know i probably disagree with, then bitch out of even hearing why i disagree?
If you want to debate, fine, im all for that. but dont assert something, force a responce, then plug your ears and go lalalalalala. Wtf? Hes almost 50 too.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The IRS, why do I have to fill it out and why do I get money after that, I don't get the idea behind it. I spend some money at various things like health and education and after a while the government sends me a check that gets bigger the more I spend? I don't understand it
The “5G caused the virus” people. You have to literally have no concept of how anything works to believe that. I don’t understand the mental gymnastics.
How todays American accents developed? (I.e. southern, New Jersey, Louisiana..) everyone that migrated here had an accent (British, Irish, Scottish, etc.) why didn’t they carry on throughout families?
Astronomy. I'm taking it for college. It was supposed to be the easy science. It is not. We have an entire chapter on quantum something and I just can't. Its melting my brain. Apparently this class is an especially hard incarnation. People I've talked to and showed my assignments to said their astronomy course wasn't nearly as difficult.
I like to think I'm smart. Other than a B in trig (which I did online so it was basically "figure it out") I've gotten As in everything else. But astronomy? Nope.
"Discuss the possibility of life-forms and biological processes occurring in giant molecular clouds. In what ways might conditions favor or hinder biological evolution?" No idea.
sl1878 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you think astronomy was easy science? Its got a shit ton of math just off the bat. But yeah it can depend on how the professors runs it.
Can't say as there are a lot of different ways the money can exchange hands for everyone to get paid (more-or-less) and the show to end up on TV but in a nutshell - it's never for free. Usually it's you, the viewer, paying for the show with your time spent watching it.
How the universe is larger than 13.8 billion light years. I understand that it is and I’ve tried reading explanations but it still doesn’t make sense to me.
I don't understand how the people in Interstellar spent a short amount of time on the planet surface but it was 20+ years for the guy in the ship. I've read up on it several times and it just slips through my mind like water and I can't retain/understand it.
People in general. I guess what I mean is that there is so much judgement and close mindedness that I have a hard time understanding how so many people truly don’t see other sides or viewpoints. There is an entire world out there and it doesn’t revolve around you...
Why does girls use so much toilet paper after going to the bathroom, like they cober their hands with paper and just use one side and put all to the trashcan.
How people discovered which foods (or parts of foods) were poisonous. How many people needed to die to discover a certain type of berry was lethal? Or that a specific area of an animal needs to be cooked in a particular way in order for it to not be poisonous.
Bit coin. Each time this question is asked I reply with the same answer because I’ve yet to read something that adequately explains it in a way I can understand.
Hard to breathe when I drink warm drinks or just randomly through the day, can't breathe and in severe discomfort when standing, sleeping is a challenge not to fall into a panic attack from severe lack of breath. It makes me tired from lack of oxygen and I can't focus on anything anymore and this all slowly developed since January with no seeming reason, other than a mild flu / possible coronavirus I had during that time. Cut caffeine started sleeping properly, nothing works, doctors can't figure it out either but we can't test for asthma, x-rayed my chest and everything looks good only possible excuse is asthma but it's constant and severely draining to the point where I can't even do recreational things let alone work.
That's what I cannot understand and neither can my doctor.
Why schools continue to teach us things most of us will never use in life. Classes like chemistry or calculus should be optional classes for people who want to pursue a career in that. But for me to sit in a class and lose points on my gpa because my teacher can’t teach us a math that we will never see again is useless
sl1878 · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A math class that focused on how to do taxes or invest would be pretty damn useful.
Mind over Matter. We can see matter. But is what I "see" the same as what others "see". Some people dont see, perhaps they sense. They still Matter. O.O
The key concepts behind electrons, valence electrons especially (more than just they’re negatively charged). Chemistry is so beyond my comprehension level but how the hell electrons work is always something that’s stuck with me lol.
Why wars exist. Like bruh, i get that you want money or glory or whatever, but why kill people? Like wtf?? And why people in army are just kinda like yeah, i guess that's what i'm doing now, sure, if some random guy with a funky moustache said so. Just why? We have already learned that it leads to nowhere, didnt we?
Why neglectful and unavailable fathers (daddy issues) significantly affect children and their development into adults. Like what is it about needing a father’s approval and interaction? What can be done to fix it?
how the universe was created, like I know the Big Bang happened, but what was here before that? Was there just always atoms here? Who put them there???
How cell phones work...you push some buttons and are connected through the air to someone who could be in ANY part of the world? Same with texting? WTF?
I do not understand what could drive you to date or sleep with someone else behind your spouse's back instead of being straight forward and break up.
I do not understand why is it so hard for someone to stay with one person without having this "need" of looking for "something new" so quick but not leaving their supposed partner.
Extroverts, I have no idea how someone could tolerate so much social interaction on a daily basis, I honestly I'm really enjoyed the social break that quarantine gave me, at school I'd have to interact with people on a daily basis not just my friends but teachers and other students that I don't know very well and have never talked to. In quarantine, I dont have to do that. I just dont understand how you can enjoy that level of social interaction
Like, I respect other people's beliefs (except when they are used to abuse minorities or shoved down people's throats) but why do they believe in it? And how? Lots of religious stories sound mad and makes me think that the characters need to be in a mental hospital... Sorry if that was offensive to you, I'm not trying to be...
Evolution. I understand the basic concepts, I've researched it, I definitely believe in it. But the change over time of fins to legs? No spine to having a spine? No eyes to eight? Like WHAT.
I get it, the environmental factors and that it takes MILLIONS of years. But that organisms get there at all is astounding, and I don't understand how.
I do not understand how mathematicians from long ago made their discoveries. Calculus, for example, how did Leibniz and Newton get around to thinking about instantaneous rate of change? How did the earliest number theorists come around to their findings, like the divisibility rules? How did Cramer's rule for matrices get developed? The entirety of Leonhard Euler? Traditional math classes usually don't teach math history, so I've done a lot of reading on that on my own but I still fail to see how they came around to finding out those discoveries.
The whole concept of judging someone based on the color of their skin. I cannot imagine looking at someone and saying to myself, "that person sucks" just because they look different from me.
How seemingly intricate a nose is. I’ve read scientific articles about emotions, breathing, illness, even neuroscience! The nose has had something to do with all of those subject and I’m sure more subjects. As far as I knew it was just some cartilage with some hair and special cells or something but no. Smell is the only sense that goes directly to your brain. 85% of taste is smell. Sinus infections. Why some people get more bloody noses then others. The nose is so important and so intricately linked to a lot of things that I will never understand.
Why any municipality would allow any people to collect donations in the middle of intersections. Like Lions Club, etc. Esp old ppl who can’t even move fast.
What is the difference between a linear scale and a logarithmic scale on a graph? Specifically, what does a logarithmic scale show me that the linear scale does not?
I do not understand how emotions work for other people. I know the basics and i know how they work for me but in the last two years I had my heart broken by five of my closest people, neither of whom even realised/didnt care how badly their actions were going to hurt me.
Ill také this as an opportunity to Went about stuff ive still hadnt completely understood or come to terms with.
Had a female best friend. I had a crush on her way back in early high school. She wasnt interested that way, but i was happy to be friends since i enjoyed her friendship. Stopped talking to me for a year after 5 years of friendship because of jealous boyfriend. Called me to apologize a year later, i said ok to being friends again. A year later she got drunk in an attempt to seduce me at my place, i spent the whole night taking care of her dummy shitfaced ass. She wanted to be fwb, i Said no, she relented and fjnally got me. Two weeks later she said She loved mě, gradually she wanted more And more And i went with the flow, it was a beautiful relationship, She was very dear to me. We dated for a year, then suddenly She didnt want to see me anymore, i wanted to know whats up which ended in her telling me she does not want to be with me because She wants other things in life. I told her i understood, that i would not be holding any grudges, but to give me time to be able to talk with her as friends again to which She said it was Okay And that She would be here anytime. It took me a year And a half until i was sure i was over it, She didnt try to reach me.I Contacted her but She didnt respond.
A month later i got a message from.her about how unhappy She was with her new boyfriend (married Guy in his 40s, 2kids,wife. We Are both 25), crying etc. I listened, she thanked me And then stopped replying Again. Another month passed and she called me crying , i couldnt even understand her, said She tried to overdose on pills but it didnt work , And that She would end it. I wanted her to Tell me where she was but she hung up. I got into the car, calling her 9997 times , driving to places where She could be. In the end she picked up And promised to go home, said She was sorry ,that She didnt know what to do and that i was the only one who ever cared for her. I wanted to meet, She said She couldnt after i cut her out of my life and hasnt responded since.
Girl i worked with, we spent a lot of time together, built a really nice platonic relationship. I asked her out after a year. She said she couldnt say yes, that she liked me as well but She had a boyfriend and was in a different place in life. Ok makes sense, no problemo. We hung out 3 times a week, Went on trips, dancing , it was a beautiful friendship. Last year we Went to my Sisters prom , after that She came back to my place And we talked until 7 in the morning about life,music , stuff , having a great time.
Bang, stopped responding. A month later she called me to Tell mě She broke up with the boyfriend. No further communication fór 2 months. Arranged to meet a couple od times over the course of next few months . Always stopped responding day before or cancelled saying She wasnt feeling well(She has one health problém) or didnt have time. Then after that ,called me to apologise And by the way mentioned that She was Now living with her new boyfriend.
I told her that Hurt me very much and to leave me alone. She would Continue to send messages , but didnt want to meet. I blocked her , And she sent a physical letter to my workplace telling mě how much i meant to her and how much love She felt to wards me. I called her to ask her to meet - i told her how much all this was hurting me And to make up her mind. She said she didnt want to lose me, arranged to meet. She stopped responding a day before.
Guys from my band- we spent 5 years together, made oaths about how we were going to give IT all. All this shit etc. I love them all almost moře than my family. Then they stopped practising one by one, making excuses, until the band broke up And we had to cancel the festival gigs we worked So hard for. This one hit the hardest...
And it has left me wondering if I was crazy? Or if I was too demanding? Was it my fault or Is this just how life Is? So many question i Will never get the answer to...sometimes i just feel a bit lost and maybe i try to understand things i cannot.
I genuinely do not understand how when you are talking with someone about an important issue, they only let you take one side or the other with no in between. For instance, where I live there are two big groups, pro vaxxers and antivaxxers. If you talk with one of them and take even a slightly different stance than them they scream at you and say you are in the other camp, and having any disagreements with that person makes you evil, vaxxer or anti. Another instance is Corona, if you have an idea of how you think something should be or should have been done differently, you are yelled at and asked why you want to kill people. There are more, but it's this idea of either or that makes no sense to me, it doesn't have to be one option or another when you have an opinion on something, there are numerous opinions you can have on any subject. Making someone choose between two options out of thousands makes absolutely no sense to me.
Space and what there was before the Big Bang and what caused the Big Bang and how our universe keeps expanding. What’s it expanding into and what’s outside of the expansion.
You know when you're on the highway and theres just a ton of traffic at one on ramp and it's barely moving at all and everyone's just slowly trying to merge and then one guy drives two miles up the highway on the shoulder and tries to shove his way in?
Who's that guy? What's going through his head? Why does he need to get ahead of everyone else? And who let's him in?
Zouhe · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things.. Math.. Politics... Other people.. It all confuses me so much.. How anything was invented.. Engineers are crazy man..
Why I have the consciousness that I currently have. Like, why am I looking out of my eyes and not anybody else’s? Why am I in THIS body in particular? I’m not complaining, I love myself, but it’s a weird feeling to lack the looking-through-my-eyes perspective that everyone else uniquely has, and to only be looking out of my own eyes. I commonly wonder if I see things differently than others because I just don’t know what it’s like to look through other people’s eyes.
How does consciousness work? Is it a function of the human brain solely at the level we have it and do animals have similar consciousness? Does the nervous system and other systems contribute to our consciousness? Can our brains have consciousness independent of our bodies and vice versa? Have humans always had this level of self-awareness? Does DNA have any factor? Is their a true collective consciousness? Do we actively hinder consciousness by focusing on our bodies more than our minds? Can we tap into consciousness to solve problems the right way for all earthlings? Does our planet play a part? So many questions.
papi_J · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not any authority on the subject but from what I’ve seen for the more biological aspects is that while animals may not be as complex as we are they are far more complex then we give them credit for.
And I do believe they have thoughts beyond simple instincts so in some ways I do think they have consciousness perhaps not as we think of it but in a form or perhaps I’m just thinking of great apes to much and not other animals
I think elephants have similar consciousnessm. Some birds. Cats. Some dogs. I think bonding is involved somehow and that humans and animals can bond a share some of their consciousness woth one another with empathy and energy as the conduit.
Being able to see “nothing” like truly blind people that have no concept of color, what do they see? I assume we always see black because of our closed eyelids but what is “nothing” to them?
What is the “time” part of spacetime? I understand the general premise of spacetime (like placing a bowling ball in the middle of a trampoline), but don’t understand the time description.
How does one get into mainstream shit so deep ? Music , media ... ; i mean mainstream media is ok , but literally living in that idea is so dumb and I can’t understand why no one thinks about that
how people can be homophobic/racist/etc. like bruh, it isn’t your lifestyle. my favorite is when they’re told to speak english because they’re in america. like... why do they want to force everyone to speak english?
THCv1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything is ‘weighing’ down on a fabric of spacetime making matter bundle up, until you’re too heavy for the system and creates a fucking hole in it. Like, wtf!?
People and how to deal with them. Like honestly, I'm having the most tough times I've ever had to face. This girl I like suddenly loses interest in me, my so called friends don't know about my existence and at this point, I'm not sure if I even know myself anymore.
It's hard to meet expectations, prove myself and all for what?
Math. I want to understand it but I'm so bad it at. I feel like an idiot at work trying to process data. I thoroughly don't understand how people just know what formula to use.
I don't and will never understand how girls/women think that playing hard to get has ever worked. A boy/man will just think that she isn't interested and will therefore move on so tell me ,why do some girls/women think that it works
How some people can function with 2-3 hours of sleep per night. Like man if I don't get at least 8 I can't do shit all day and I know some people from school that had to work all day and study at night. They're some kind of robots or what
Why some people can’t comprehend there’s a pandemic and KEEPING SOCIAL DISTANCE is literally the only thing can we can do to help slow down the spread.
How so many people in fast food dont understand the concept of pointless work like squeegeeing a floor. Dont squeegee part of the floor in the dish area and get in my way to "help" I'm just gonna have to squeegee it all again later. Find something useful to help with like putting away dishes or cleaning top to bottom.
If I never file my taxes, and I'm super poor. Will they actually imprison me? If I've nothing to offer. won't they just garnish my shit and keep me poor forever?
And if global society is crumbling... do you think maybe I'm good to wait it out.
You have to really refuse to pay before they lock you up. It happens, but very infrequently and almost always to the "tax deniers" who say that the government has no right to collect taxes.
You should file anyway. You might get a refund or be eligible for tax credits. At least fill out the forms to check on that, even if you don't submit them to the IRS. You can get all the forms from irs.gov
Since you are poor, you might not even owe any taxes and then you don't have to worry.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Question is how poor? If poor enough you just file your taxes and the standard deductions will bring your taxable income to where you owe nothing.
A relative has not filed income tax in years though he gets a couple of $100 per month from family. Guess who gets no pandemic stimulus check? Yea the guy that didn't file his taxes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. High school math? A’s. College Algebra? A. College Trig? A. College Calculus? Dropped bc failing. Took it again with a tutor lined up and all. F.
Some people’s stupidity. Like not the usual “pEoPle aRe StUpiD” but some people’s complete lack of critical thinking and cognitive abilities to logically analyze a topic.
Coronavirus created in the lab by some secret billionaires to make the market collapse so they’ll get richer? Totally plausible, here’s an article from openyourthirdeye.com
Academic papers, scientists around the world telling you that the virus is natural and Nobel prize economists saying that such theory is ridiculous? Nope, they’re manipulated by evil secret powerful people, but my source is genuine.
Why the hell the big boss of the Darkroot Garden is a wolf with a sword in its mouth, like... the fuck? I’ve fought demons, hydras, weed monsters, living statues, gargoyles, and zombies but a wolf with a sword is the best thing that they could come up with.
I've been having a hard time understanding how people do not understand "lockdown". It's a lockdown, not a holiday or vacation or break from school and work. If you don't absolutely NEED to go out, you're supposed to stay home.
8 inches, and then you can have 1/2 as half inch, 1/4 as quarter, etc
If someone says “8 and 5/16ths” it’s just 8 inches and 5/16ths of an inch
The measuring tape itself has lines on it that show quarters and all of that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tape measure each mark is a 16th or 16/16 to an inch of course. Newer models have fractions on one edge with the traditional marks on the other edge, thank goodness.
Electricity. What makes it worse is my father is an electrical engineer and he has walked me through it countless of times but all the V=I*R is confusing
Records. It blows my mind that a needle running against a groove can make the exact sound of Bruce Springsteen’s voice.
Or the mass production of records before computer technology; how did they know how to create the exact groove to replicate Louis Armstrong’s trumpet sound?
Its just rudimentary enough that it blows me away. Listening to a streaming song, I can easily wave it away as a computer. But records, man.
I will never understand how smart and educated people so easily fall for fake news in the form of WhatsApp forwards & clickbait articles, and how a lot of people don't believe in science and proven facts
Texting and driving while paying absolutely 0 attention to the road. Some people at least pay some attention and drive normally while actual idiots don't care that the light is green and there's ten people behind them. How can you be THAT careless and distracted
People that can’t self-quarantine. Why is it so hard to only leave your house out of necessity?
If you need fresh air, you can easily stay in your own yard. You don’t need to travel around town and put others at risk just to avoid going stir-crazy in between grocery store trips.
ktsb · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe is expanding faster then the speed of light. Several people have tried explaining it to me like if im going to be able to wrap my head around it
Why has there been no attempt at metric time (that I am aware of). I know that this would never be implemented but the current system is horrible when you look at the raw numbers. 60 seconds to 1 minute. 60 minutes to 1 hour (alright these two are in sync). But below a second we have hundredths and thousandths (presumably because measuring to this accuracy was no where near feasible originally). We then move to 24 hours in 1 day and then 7 days in 1 week. The length of a month can be 28 29(sometimes) 30 or 31 days long and a year is 365(ish) days.
I would love for metric time and a metric calendar to be made.
How I watch hours of a channel on YouTube daily and I’m recommended a cooking video from 6 years ago.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How smell exactly works. In detail. How come we study so much about eyesight and sound in school and all we know about smell is that we've got olfactory sensors and particles come in contact with them and our brains connect one thing to another and done?
Before I was given birth to, I was obviously non existent. Then suddenly I slowly became conscious of the world and life. My mind fucks everytime I think of this. What was it like being non existent before we were born? Of all the people in the world, why do I control this particular body and live with its POV everyday? What was it like before we were all born like way before fertilization and shit. Why do I even exist???
note: don't reply with shit like oh its because you were the sperm that one the race bc yes im aware of that
It may sound cliche, given the current situation we're all going through, but I cannot, for the life me, understand why toilet paper is still so hard to get a hold of. Store after store, and nothing. I understood at first; lots of other products were also hard to keep on the shelf as well.
But now, it's ONLY the toilet paper that no one has in stock anywhere. Why? There's no supply shortage on the manufacturing side, and stores now limit the amount you can buy. So where the fuck is it? We've got two rolls for the house, right now. That's it. And I can't find more anywhere at all.
How games, like super high quality games, are made by using codes? What..!?! How can codes make amazing realistic graphics?! My brain boggles just thinking about it.
mev186 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can think healthcare is not a human right. I mean, you can't help it when you're sick.
If you eat your cake you no longer have it. You can't have a cake you can see and touch and have eaten it as well. Basically, certain things you can't have both ways.
The difference between liberal conservative Democrat republican and all that stuff. I don’t care about it so it doesn’t matter. All I know is that the Whig party is the best one.
How people like chocolate and peanut/peanut butter treats. That shit is fucking NASTY to me, I almost can't keep it down and gag whenever I've tried to eat it
Terbil · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why there are so many people convinced that ghosts are real despite the fact that they're not. Even though I've had so much time as an adult to come to terms with the fact that so many people do, I will never understand why.
When I was at college I saw a lady walking through campus wearing slip on duck boots(well I guess shoes) what’s the point of buying waterproof shoes when there’s no back on them?
People's inability to be able to engage in an argument and see when they are clearly wrong. You can present thousands of facts and logical arguments to someone but they won't be able to see how they're wrong. I don't get it.
The creation
I mean if we look from religious ways ,god created us that's ok but who created gods or from when god actually did exist.
If we look from scientific theories ,what before the big bang ? And if there is no space then there is what ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do white people wipe with a dry tissue instead of using water? Water cleans everything. Dirty hands, dirty feet, dirty face. Why not use it in your butthole?
Why do we not quarintine the old and the immunocompromised and allow/encourage the young and healthy to interact and spread the coronovirus? Surely this is the fastest way with minimal death toll to develop herd immunity. These are just my lockdown ponderings i am by no means a social scientist or immunologist but surely this is a worthwhile idea to be discussed. Any thoughts?
Feelings, like I feel them but just don't understand what feeling is what and how you know what feeling it is and that other people feel that same thing but understand it differently
Why my boyfriend thought it was ok to go on vacation spring break with his kids, when the world was starting to shut down, social distancing was a thing, and we all knew that we were suppose to be starting put to reduce the virus spread.
So you know how we use the air hand dryers in washrooms to minimize use of paper towels? That air blows onto our hands... where does that air come from?
Aren't we just blowing ass air back into our hands? Isn't that kind of like, farting in our hands? It seems a bit unhygienic, but maybe I'm just ignorant, idk. Help.
how land on the earth, that wasn't made by man, has to be purchased with created bills that are somehow of value to another human. AND on top of the one time purchase of the land you have to also pay property tax for that land every year just for the privilege of existing on the land that again wasn't created by anyone, but has to be bought because the first guy who found it and stole it said so. This is also very specific to America.
mlyt18 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe a man who lies and knows nothing about a virus. Is excited to get half their paycheck with unemployment and test prison people over is regular folks. I’ve lived in the USA all my life and I’m embarrassed to be an American with this guy in charge!
I honestly don't understand how people believe in superstitions in general. I have come to the conclusion, without any evidence whatsoever, that it comes down to a biologic difference. You either are, or you are not, capable of being superstitious. But if that is not ultimately the cause then I don't understand how people can be superstitious. It is crazy to me otherwise.
Is electricity like a corporeal thing? Like i understand that it flows through currents I just have no clue what itself is. What state of matter is it? Do these questions when make sense?
How typical SSRI and SNRI antidepressants work. It just doesn't make sense to me. They're supposed to block the reuptake of serotonin and norepinephrine. That I get.
What I don't get is why they take WEEEKs to start "working" but have all these terrible side effects during those first few weeks. Some of my friends have called those first few weeks purgatory. It just doesn't make sense to me knowing what I know about most other drugs that block the reuptake of neurotransmitters. Wouldn't the brain just be back to homeostasis after a few weeks?
It just doesn't make sense.
Prejudice in general. Racism, homophobia, transphobia. People hating people for no reason. As long as you’re not hurting anyone else, I don’t see anything wrong with you.
If money is backed by gold, what is gold backed by? Is it inherently valuable? It seems useless and just like money, something representative of wealth that needs to be backed up.
I don't understand when someone says they can not love a child that is not their biological child and I don't understand how someone can treat a child worse than an animal.
How God is supposed to be the "All Knowing" but still somehow didn't know when the serpent gave Eve the forbidden fruit and when she shared with Adam.
According to the Bible, God came in the evening to see them as usual and didn't see them and strated calling out for them (instead of using his superpowers to look for them or something 😂 ).
I also don't understand how the a supposed merciful God let's you spend eternity in hell for sins that won't get you more than probation and community service on Earth.
I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF RELIGION
WATGU · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose for the universe. Not trying to be 14 and deep, but it's been bugging me on and off for 20 years more so recently.
Reality seems to have no reason for existing on a grand scale. There doesn't appear to be a top down strategy to the universe that could be integrated into a way of life. It all just seems random. Make a system, assign a few rules and then let arbitrary complexity/celluar automata take over.
Obviously how we experience life gives us purpose, but it seems like it's either biologically driven or self assigned more than any real reason and there's no way to know if the life your leading fits into a grand scheme or if the way you live was predetermined by factors outside of your grasp.
How really really bad games exist from bigger companies. Like did you not playtest this? How does one release a game with shitty controls in the modern age.
I genuinely don’t understand why people get a stomach ache and their first reaction is to go to the emergency room. Humans get sick. It’s a thing. We’ll give you the best care if you come, but you usually don’t need to be there.
People's fascination with team sports. Bunch of guys smash into each other over a funny shaped ball. Bunch of guys try to shoot a ball into a hoop and try to keep the other team from doing the same. You've probably seen nearly identical plays in your favorite sport year after year after year, and you still watch it.
I don’t understand hunting. Seriously, I don’t get how people can be so damn cruel to take an innocent life. I know I’m gonna hear the common retort “I’m gonna eat it,” but I don’t buy it. Go to the fucking store and buy something already slaughtered. It’s all about killing and feeling powerful. I think it’s vile.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:45:58 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people like watching sports. Playing sports I get, it's a competition, you can try new techniques or strategies, all that jazz. But watching sports is just ... boring. I can watch a movie, tv show, or play, and have a fun time or go on an emotional journey. I can watch a video game streamer and learn new techniques for my own play, or laugh at their commentary. But watching sports, I just don't get anything out of it.
I love the subject, and I just about finished an ap chem course in school(wish me luck on the exam) I understand a lot about it, but the more I understand the less I realize I understand. I wanna go as far as my doctorate in it, but looking in some chemistry subs for example is incredibly daunting, it kinda feels like you have to know just about everything about matter and why and how everything works, and it feels like I’ll never truly become proficient at it
Honestly I can say I love them but genuinely don’t understand Women. Not being a sexist or something crazy like that. I just don’t understand them. I swear life could be easier if there wasn’t so many mind games and rules. Just let me love you and our life could be great. A woman broke up with me over a cookie. No reason it’s just because I didn’t save her one. We later got back together after 5 hours. Women are weird.
How the USA is home to the brightest minds of our time and has a global cultural influence, but yet seems to be populated by the stupidest people on earth.
I dont understand how people choose to not continue learning about things. Why would you just believe a random blog post that says a Governer fucked a goat and run with it. Why would you not take the time to at least get a basic understanding of certain things. We live in a world where you can literally become an expert on certain subjects without leaving a chair in your house.
The big bang. So it started space and time right, I get that but surely time must have been in existence BEFORE the big bang, otherwise surely, nothing would have happened ... Ever?
I don't understand why our generation has to take care of global warming and all this shit. The Earth has 100 years more, stop making me do small changes with no real impact, and where those who really can do changes, are speculating with that.
How bad people can get with distracted driving. I mean jesus, you're travelling at high speed in a multi thousand pound box that can kill you or anyone else very quickly, and it seems like people will do just about anything because driving becomes so routine and "boring" I guess.
Medical commercials on TV. I mean none of their statements make any sense whatsoever. Like the whole "if you or a loved one has died from ____ call now and get help" makes no sense, if I have died there is literally no way for me to call in. Or when medicine commercials say "tell your doctor if you have _(disease name)_" like,, shouldn't my doctor already know if I have those diseases or issues? And there really is no point to them in the first place, I don't know who is trusting commercials over doctors to find medicines but maybe lets not do that.
Math. If I have a formula and a calculator I can figure it out eventually, but if someone were to ask me "what's 7x9?" I would freeze up. Even simple addition makes my mind go blank. It's like all the numbers get jumbled in my mind and I can't make sense of it. Ask me a word problem or something logic related and I might have a better time, but those timed math tests they did in school are still my worst nightmare.
Those who are rude, loud, thoughtless and generally inconsiderate in general. Being a decent human being does not require any effort. It takes effort to go out of ones way to be otherwise. I will never understand why so many people are so awful.
Thanos had the right idea but went about it the wrong way. The world would be infinitely better if there was a snap that eliminated all the wastes of space who only look out for themselves and their own well being.
More and more the more that I do understand! The replacement rate for confusion seems to be at least 5x, every thing I feel like I understand spawns at least 5 more things I have absolutely no understanding of.
Example: computer architecture. One of the first things you learn about programming is that the code that you write is taken by the compiler and translated to machine instructions. Okay, cool, so how does the compiler work? Why are the machine instructions somehow readable by the machine, and why is binary the number system of choice? How do bits and bytes translate into actions and behaviors? How does the underlying hardware even implement this at all? How does electricity work again?
It’s easy to go down this rabbit hole in academic topics, but it’s also easy in the real world too! Like, I understand what my role in my job is, and I understand basically the roles of my coworkers, but what does the guy in the cube two rows down do? Something with mechanical design? How does literally any of that work (advanced legos?)? Or what about classically well-known jobs, like a judge. How the heck do you become a judge? What is their daily routine like? Or what about literally any of the devices I use on a daily basis, how do they work?
This is one of my favorite parts of life, that there is so much to know, and that most of it we can know. It also induces a certain amount of dread and confusion, but that makes it interesting too.
Medical commercials on TV. I mean none of their statements make any sense whatsoever. Like the whole "if you or a loved one has died from ____ call now and get help" makes no sense, if I have died there is literally no way for me to call in. Or when medicine commercials say "tell your doctor if you have _(disease name)_" like,, shouldn't my doctor already know if I have those diseases or issues? And there really is no point to them in the first place, I don't know who is trusting commercials over doctors to find medicines but maybe lets not do that.
Artworks shaped like turds/trash displayed on squares, in nature and historic places. For the sake of all citizens, remove them. It is not aesthetic, there are many better uses for stone and metal
As well as the neon letters on our old clocktower, placed there in the name of 'art'.
Music elitists that believe themselves to be better or of higher intellect for enjoying certain genres over all the "cavemen" who like what they as highly educated "Audio culinary entrepreneurs" do not
The lymphatic system. I moved around a lot as a kid and missed this part of science class entirely. I'm pretty sure there are lymph nodes in your neck, and they swell with certain kinds of illness, but that's the extent of what I know, and I'm not sure what part of the neck even. I don't know what the system really does, or how.
How comes that someone is completely absorbed by some of the most ridiculous thing in the world, in other words : how the fuck do people think a joining a group of people who has no sense of intellect and who try to impose to the world things like anti-vaxx and veganism.
I can understand why becoming vegetarian and that it it respectable, but vegan.. do these people even know how much we modified things during all those years us humans have lived ?
Religion. So your set of beliefs, which in most cases are based on centuries of distorted, made up stories, somehow guide your judgement and actions? And for many, someone else's made up stories don't overlap with yours and that is a good enough reason to hate that person and for them to potentially hate you? Or kill you? And this is all based on ideas and ideals from ancient people who had no way of understanding the vast amounts of scientific information that we have now? Religion is responsible for a tremendous amount of good in society, but I just don't get how the irrational component is disregarded by the masses.
Jmersh · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the top YouTube creators/social media "influencers ". Insufferable, un-entertaining narcissists. What's the appeal? All I see are horrible people acting like shittier people.
How people think it's okay to socialise in the UK during the coronavirus pandemic. Like, fuck off, Susan, sure it's easter weekend but are you really gonna kill people just to take your bratty kids on a walk that you'd never be doing normally?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything Geography or Problem Solving Math related. Never understood it and never will. Seems like I missed important main steps when I was learning it.
Explain to me how the fuck ‘trap’ music which is literally a complication of the same hi-hat + snare + bass combo on repeat with terrible adlibs from rappers that came out of god knows what ‘hood’ somewhere in the US or UK that are all fried out of their minds, foaming at the mouth from Adderal, Xanax, Percocet unable to formulate any comprehensive lyrics past a few simple words.
Oh and let’s not forget the mind numbing “mumble rap” that’s somehow gotten fame from these same rappers and how the media advertises their fashion, money, drama, and terrible lyrical prowess all over the world and people still listen to that shit religiously. Its literally poison to people’s minds these days I swear.
I’m not trying to start an argument (if anything I’d really like some personal opinions so I can see it from the other side too) but why so many people in the US are opposed to a universal health care system?
Pistons, engineering, any with creating energy. It sucks to because all my friend are car guys and work on them and I can’t comprehend how stuff even moves
Why people continue to believe in Myers-Briggs as though it’s a robust personality assessment.
Simple snafu in the whole MBTI: how do we know there’s only 16 personality types? What if there are 18, 24, 300, etc.? If the number isn’t exactly 16, then there are people being misclassified.
How did the originators come up with the categories and was their method for doing so evidence-based? Also, shouldn’t neuroticism be a major factor (e.g. as in OCEAN).
The whole MBTI assessment seems like woo-woo bullshit. And I don’t understand why people are willing to label themselves and filter their interpretations through a superficial lens whose foundations rest upon potentially specious classifications.
Mainly cause of water tension, the I think it has to do something with the difference in “pressure” that’s why once the boat starts to fill up with water and it fills up “equalizing” the “pressure” it sinks (not 100% sure though)
How people genuinely believe the earth is flat. I understand how people believe in most conspiracy theories because most of the time they are stories with hidden or unavailable information, but how can a living human with available information and science believe the world is flat.
Baavoz · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How this fancy hot ass girl living near me 4 yrs older than me, wanna bang me, and thinks that m hella cute, cause I’m really not anywhere near that confidence
People of the opposite political persuasion of myself. I can respect their views as I believe this is America and we should be free to express ourselves (including politically) but I genuinely do not understand how they think they are correct or can’t see the hypocrisy of the side they represent. (Note: Leaving labels out of it because it’s irrelevant to the question and not trying to turn this into a political battle; just answering his honestly).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one said I don’t expose myself to other thoughts and ideas - but exposing myself to other viewpoints does NOT mean I will be adopting them or agreeing with them. Also, totally fine if “other side” thinks the same - again, please go back and read the question that was posed to the group.
I’d love to to know, when I’m looking at pictures that people/telescopes have taken of deep space, what the ‘clouds’ and swirling cloud-like images are. Am I looking at clusters of stars, clouds of debris or gas of some sort? Or is it something entirely else?
the internet, phone calls, video calls and everything like that. i completely understand how it all works and why it works but just thinking about how i can tap a piece of glass and see and talk to someone at the other side of the world baffles me
How humans are on top of the food chain. Nothing about us says predator, we're weak, we're slow, can't see, nor hear too well. Can't climb, fly, nor swim worth a damn. We're prey all the way, all day everyday if you ask me.
Why we cannot cancel a Gamepass subscription if there is a past due balance. I was unaware of a past due payment, no one told me. There was no e-mail. Nothing. And it auto renews today. I did not see that in text anywhere. If it were there, it was in transparent text.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus beyond 3 dimensions. My 3rd year calf prof was nerd flexing about how he could do calculus up to 11 dimensions. It was then I knew I was not “smart” smart but “average” smart.
Why so many citizens of the US (my country) don’t see that politicians (regardless of affiliation) are the problem and by focusing on your fellow citizens instead of politicians you are doing exactly what they want.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
utupuv · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can actually be so horrible at times. It seems to go against every fibre in my humanity and I don't understand how anyone could possibly justify some actions that they commit.
People who go to a beach, then decide to put the bumper sticker abbreviation on their vehicle... Do you just want random ppl to know that you went there? Does it actually start conversations? I thought maybe it was a status symbol but they do it for regular public beaches so I don't get it...
Same for the stickers/magnets that say 26.2 or 13.1... like what do you get from putting that on your vehicle?
How people's voices are transferred through phone lines and through waves in the air. How do sound waves go into a cell phone, to the towers, across the country, to the other persons phone, and back out of someone else's phone as sound waves.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The existential crisis every single person seems to get when they discover as a kid that we all die one day.
And the big anxiety everyone seems to feel about having a purpose, about life having a meaning.
I genuinely have never gotten any of those things. I don't remember ever struggling about accepting death, nor trying to desperately find my supposed purpose. Why is death scary to so many people? You just stop existing at some point, it's fine. I don't get what is so upsetting about it. Why does life have to have a purpose? What if humans were created by accident because of space stuff? Why be desperate to find an answer? We just happen to exist for some time and then disappear, it's fine.
Edit : added "about it".
Edit edit : here is how I was taught about death, if it helps some with my point of view ; I lost my grandma in primary school, and remember my parents telling me that when we get old our body deteriorates until it stops functionning, and that was it. I never had any crisis about death, the concept never affected me at all. I was obviously sad about never seeing my grandma again but the idea of death never bothered me like it bothers so many people.
How people's voices are transferred through phone lines and through waves in the air. How do sound waves go into a cell phone, to the towers, across the country, to the other persons phone, and back out of someone else's phone as sound waves.
The fact that people can actually close their eyes, create an object in their mind, and be able to manipulate and move the object around. I dont understand how you can just know what itll look like my changing the perspective mentally, or even how you can think up an object on demand. All I see is black and it sucked when I found out this was a normal thing for people to do.
It explains why I was awful at geometry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
At least for me, but I think also for the majority of us, yes, you can imagine it, but it does not have a "reality" edge to it. Like, it still has colors and a shape in one way, but it's still transparent and formless in another way. There's one whole dimension of "reality" missing, so it's not as vivid as a normal object you would see.
What i dont understand is why we have to do school work during a complete pandemic so we don't fail school. Most people during this time are supporting there family's or dealing with all the rules being set into place i think of it like this you shouldn't force kids to go through extra stress
How pieces of media such as games, videos, movies etc. manage to make me cry
thEY’RE NOT EVEN REAL PEOPLE DARN IT
zqmbgn · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reggaeton and Trap. I get that they must have something or people wouldn't listen to them, but the first just seem so repetitive and tasteless and the second...the voice and the way it rules feels so stupid...
I refuse to say that they are bad. They must have something, but I just don't understand them...
Ignorance whether its sexuality, gender, or religion. It doesnt effect you. Why does it matter they are different? Nobody is the same, not even twins. Just mind your business.
The ATP/Krebs cycle. I’m a bio major and this is one of those things that, no matter how much it is studied or is discussed, I can’t remember or grasp.
Smart religious people. Like, I get that many of us were born into one religion or another and that makes sense that it would be hard to break free from since it would be such a fundamental part of a person's identity. But I don't understand the folks like William Lane Craig who seem way smarter than me but can't seem to work out that the arguments they are using to conclude that their god exists are laughably bad.
Gekuul · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people ship Bakugo and Uraraka
Like this girl just starts hitting me through the open door of my Uber while I am sitting down and I, being a big guy and not really feeling the hits, start gently trying to push her away while yelling at her to back the fuck off.
Cue boyfriend sucker punching me from behind her, driver yelling at me to get out of the car, and security guard coming and pulling ME away. AS IF I ATTACKED HER. The guard threatened To beat my ass then call the cops. So I called them for him.
Needless to say I got attorneys involved (had multiple witnesses in the car with me), but now I carry a gun when traveling.
I have no problem killing anyone to defend myself after seeing how idiot cucks working deadend jobs respond to a woman attacking a man. I could have ended up getting beat down by a gangs of pussy whipped blue collar trash.
Edit: it is largely this incident that made me lose my respect for working class people. Despite being raised working class around refinery workers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The doppler effect with photons, that makes everything " red " cause of the universe expansion. I perfectly understand doppler, it's just that I thought photons wavelenghts were linked to their energy by the planck constant. So is the photon less energetic if we mesure ? I don't get it. Like a photon emited with a specific energy by an atom for example (i don't know the name, when an excited electron changes of orbital), if the atom is moving then the energy is not the same ? I don't get it. Please can a Physician explain ?
Minecraft. You know your getting old when they make video games you do not understand. Or your balls touch the toilet water when you sit down to take a crap.
I get the gold standard (each note is equal to a quantity of a precious metal), and I get the USD (USA has enough export and a strong enough military to make the currency viable).
But where does bitcoin get the value?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump can spew mass amounts of bullshit out his asshole of a mouth and millions of people agree with his horrible, horrible ideas.
Especially the people who think that Orange Man are actually speaking sense and is a "prophet who came to save us". Just how in the world do you come to that conclusion?
People like Donald Trump lived their entire lives in wealth and never knew what it was like to be afraid of not having enough to feed yourself. How can people believe that he is going to help them? 'Cause he ain't. He's a fucking millionaire, billionaire, whatever.
Iotatl · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why money management and taxes are not taught in public schools
Why there's medicine based commercials because like why would I ask a doctor if it's the best choice for me shouldn't they know what to give me? I never went to schoolbor know the adverse effects. I feel I'd just sound like some idiot trying to do my doctors job.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine there's only one central point. Ok, now imagine there's two, point A and point B, and everything is moving away from them both. Well that would pose a problem, because what about stuff in between A and B? Where would that stuff move, away from A or away from B? To solve that problem, just imagine the actual point B moving away from A, faster than the stuff in between, so that all the stuff in between can still move away from A and away from B at the same time. Note: in this thought experiment we made point B move away from A, but the picture is symmetrical - just consider point B stationary, and from its perspective point A moves away identically.
So, I suppose it makes sense for 2 points, but why restrict it to two points? If every point was the "central" point, where things further away move faster away from you than things closer, it works just as well as having two "central" points, and the picture from each point would be symmetrical, no matter which point you take as a reference point.
Not a physicist, but that's how I like to think about it.
Why some tv shows start with a timewasting recap and/or preview. We know what happened last show and if we didnt we could watch it again, and we dont need a preview of the show itself. Some shows take 2-5 minutes of this which is an eternity for tv time and could be used for extra scenes.
Humidity vs. dew point. They're both measures of how much moisture is in the air, but different somehow? I've tried to read and learn, but I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That one time in 1st grade where the assignment told me to write something about zebras or something, erase it, and rewrite it. Just... why? Years later I still don't understand why the assignment instructed that
Permutations and combinations. I remember we first learnt about it in the sixth standard, and it came up again and again all through my college, bachelor's and masters course. Still.dont have a clue how to solve them
How someone could go through their whole life without ever questioning certain opinions their parents raise them with. This could be religious beliefs, racism, homophobia. Anything where parents worked to convince their children that other people are wrong, and they were right. I don’t understand how someone reaches adulthood without ever questioning these things when there are so many people saying something else. I don’t understand why they refuse to even listen to people with different opinions.
How when someone tries to discuss their deep passion, and someone just says "I don't get it. It's just (insert topic)" like. That's cool you might now understand. But don't belittile my passion and love for this just cause you don't understand. Especially when they go on to bash it on a different day.
Dating. Never done it and never had a girlfriend but I've been told that you can't approach women at certain locations but focus on bars, nightclubs, social events, online dating despite the fact I'm not good at socialisation and don't have social hobbies. I'm also autistic which means that I'm not good with social cues.
Guess I'll remain alone so I don't come across as creepy and make the other person uncomfortable.
I work parttime at a pool as a lifeguard. We also have a lake outside for when its hot outside. What I don't understand is some parents not giving a sh*t about their children and their safety. I have 2 examples.
1) Toddlers and babies walking/crawling into the pool without wearing any wings or any form of lifevest. And not even looking or wondering where they are.
2) In the summer we every once in a while have a thunderstorm going. When that happens nobody is allowed inside the lake, because they could be electrocuted. So parents take their children out and go back to day-drinking and don't pay any attention to their kids and they proceed to walk back in. Once we risk our own lifes to get them out, the parents usually scream at us, cus us out and complain at the reception.
I still like my job for those wondering.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. Yeah, I know the basics of supply and demand, but beyond that it's mostly incomprehensible to me. And I'm surprised so many people have strong opinions on it, as if they were experts, considering how complicated it seems to be...
How do people have so much stuff to talk about? I hear people saying "I talked to that girl for hours". How do you find topics that you can discuss. I struggle to keep a conversation going past 3 minutes or so before going completely silent and hoping the person I am talking to has stuff they want to say.
Why people care so much about other peoples' decisions when they have absolutely no bearing on the individual who's upset by it. Pro-lifers, for example. Mind your own business.
I don’t understand how seemingly so many people are blissfully unaware of how harsh life is to many others while they themselves live either lavishly or even normally. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block chain and crypto currency. Its been explained to me a few times in different ways each time. I don't fucking get it. It just doesn't seem like a thing. Not tangible to my brain. Feel free to try explaining it.
Radiation and nuclear power. How is it produced and why is it so dangerous.
Omepas · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly don't understand why religious people are right wing. Almost every religion preaches that taking care of each other and being nice to each other is a good thing, but in practice its almost exactly the other way around... This does not go for all religious people but the meta is horrible and full of hate.
Music theory. I've had many people try to explain it to me, I've read books, looked at websites, and watched YouTube videos. None of it makes any sense at all and, despite knowing better, I come away feeling like it's some sort of high brow snobbery I'll never be included in.
I don't really understand phobias. I can make perfect arguments of why I have nothing to fear, then I come face to face with it and suddenly my brain is going "red alert, get the fuck out of here!"
I genuinely don't understand most things in life. I've been bewildered since I was a little girl. I truly do not know what we all think we are doing most of the time. Or why it takes so long to accomplish meaningful things on a political level.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is yawning contagious!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Like the fuck!
Computers and programming. Seriously, just because I'm young, part of generation Z, does not mean I'm tech savvy. I'm always asked by older people, especially family, how to solve some problem on their computer and I genuinely do not know how to fix it a vast majority of the problems. When I do solve a problem it usually takes me hours. Even when I search how to solve the problem on Google more than half the time I question what in the universe I just read/watched then angrily punch my keyboard.
People who actually believe thay can decode a secret message from the Bible, by using a number pattern or whatnot, from an English-language text. That, and the non-biblically-based-on-anything Rapture. I mean, grown ass people think those are real and take economical or political decisions around it. Mind blown.
People who are going out and hanging with other people right now. Hello.... global pandemic!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is dumb, but I have absolutely no understanding of Minecraft redstone machines and circuits. I have mad respect for people who can make epic machines and farms but I just can't grasp the concept whatsoever.
That humanity is always limited by how much money we have/the economy/stock market. We could be so much more advanced if we put humans first before some system that's controlled by an invisible hand.
I speak three languages, but I can’t understand how there are young children speaking and understanding multiple languages at a time, and doing a good job at it.
Why it's so hard to make friends irl. Personally I've made a ton of friends online that I've later meet in person but I've never understood why it's so hard to meet new people.
Might be just me.
Math. I physically cannot understand it. I made it a goal last summer to work on, get better, but i can’t. I watched Khan videos for hours, did practice tests, and still didn’t know shit.
Why the intro to Bob's burgers I so fucking loud, it'll be like 12:30 and the intro wakes the entire neighborhood. I like the show and all the cops would show up on a noise complaint, ruins. the. night.
Why women require a certain height to date, have a relationship, with a man. And vice versa.
I'm above the national average in a country of reasonably tall people and height has never been a make or break issue for me. Height in general is something I do not think about in respect to myself or others.
Why, some people, should be so determined about height eludes me.
Joci_B · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Mostly people I find idiotic, but people in general. People can be so simple yet so enigmatic at times. Since I'm a guy, this goes double for women. Yet, they don't seem THAT complicated. Yet, at the same time do.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can genuinely deep belly laugh in response to a comedian. I just don't find them funny, maybe they'll get a little chuckle out of me but that's it. I think it's the unnatural environment of "I'm here to make you laugh and I'm here to laugh" that gets me.
How space is infinite. Like is their actually an end? If there is what’s on the other side? What if there’s no end? How is this universe infinite? Does it jest keeeeep going? Like what???
Why Americans don't vote for someone who would actually work for them. They love to line the pockets of billionaires and go hundreds of thousands into debt if they develop a major illness
Gravity. Charts usually show gravitational force as a planet or star sunken into a 2D grid representing the fabric of space/time. Their mass distorts the fabric, which bends the trajectory of objects around it. But, space is 3-dimensional. It melts my brain trying to understand how the fabric of space/time works in three dimensions.
On how No human being ever recorded ever display a super power but dreams of doing it And making up stories of a guy who could walk on water made water into wine as he pleased and somehow this universe has no excitement to it knowing we may never get to use superpowers
How currency works. Ie here in the U.K. 100 pence makes up a pound sterling and 60p for a can of coke seems alright but like in Asia or somewhere like japan it’s about 120 yen. And it’s like I don’t get that like 120 pounds here can get you a set of tables and chairs. So like would the equivalent of getting say a house here for £600,000 be the equivalent to paying 600,000 yen and effectively paying £4,450 for a house with the same price tag of 600,000 with exchange rates?
Like, whatever positive feeling it may give you, the links between smoking and cancer and all the other health issues are concrete; it seems stupidly expensive and every year gets more expensive; "Smoking Kills" plastered over everything even related to tobacco ....... and yet, despite things being this way (in the UK at least) since I was a kid there's still people in this day and age that start smoking!?!? WTF?!
How a needle, running across a Vinyl LP can produce sound. Like. I have read about it. But it still just doesn't make sense. haha. and this is coming from a guy who did music in University.
I genuinely don't understand how people can believe in religion. I mean, I get how a young child can if they've never seriously thought about the subject. I truly believed until I was 18, but then as Lewis Black would say, "I had thoughts." It just seems to me that otherwise intelligent people have a blind spot when it comes to religion for some reason. Some emotional need it fills that is like a drug to a part of their brain that I feel lucky not to have.
I should add I'm autistic but I've had people who I thought were interested based on how they acted both in person and not, but they weren't and I think someone likes me but they don't do things that indicate interest, but in person they definitely act it. So like what the fuck?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to people cant figure out common sense or how to label things.
The „duck” selfies.I don’t understand why girls do that.It does not make them attractive.To me,they just look like those stereotypical stupid girl in high school.Just why?
dating, like it’s just kinda weird to me like you meet someone who you’re interested in and then they just change up and vice versa/ you meet someone who’s interested in you and then you lose interest. i don’t get it
I cannot understand Bitcoin. I've had it explained a million times but I don't understand how solving math equations gets you money, or where all of this money is being generated from.
Smubee · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical power.
Current, charge, electrons moving one way and whatever.
One can kill you, the other zap you as a party trick...
I know it's possible to understand. Hell, I even know people who work with it, who I wouldn't trust with a pet rock.
But I just can't wrap my mind around it and I've been trying for years.
At this point I am content to just write it off as magic.
How people are so interested in cars and four wheelers and the like
drlqnr · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
really confidently confident people with insane amount of confidence that can just confidently talk to people or do something in public that's a nightmare for introverts.
Why we can’t have good internet, I swear, every time I try and log on to do my homework or just when I want to enjoy myself online, the internet only works when it wants to, and when it does, its slow as hell and disconnects from my devices every couple of seconds, making it completely worthless. I’ve lived in 4 completely different areas: suburbs, rural, and city and I never have internet that can be relied on.
Ah i do this. Even though voting may help me, i know it harms others. I personally can not vote to have government do something that harms someone else, even if i gain from it.
Why people don't just try to love more...
This planet would be much better if we were all just a bit nicer to each other.
I mean, at the end of the day, we're all just equally small tiny humans trying to make it through our lives in this mess as good as possible
Isaa_B · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who define themselves by their Zodiac sign.
"Oh you're a Sagittarius? Sorry you're too boring"
"Yea I cheated on him. It's alright cause I'm a Leo"
"Ew a Gemini? You two-faced backstabbing bitch. Goodbye"
Women/girls I don't get there logic it doesn't make any sense for example :a girl let's call her tsundere-chan almost always looks in my direction while I was just looking over to a friend of mine you know when the teacher says something funny and you both look at each other let's get to the point.Tsundere-chan wasn't the quietest of all so we got a new order to sit in my lucky ass as I thought got the place right next to her she was ALWAYS sad only when I talked to her she smiled and laughed (sometimes so loud the teacher almost screamed at me because I didn't heard him) after numerous compliments hours spent talking her feelings towards me didn't change ,you would ask how do you know well she told me about her feelings and SURPRISE SURPRISE she loves a other guy.I thought that with all the compliments the fact that I was totally her type always listend but still she didn't care.
You might be thinking what does this have in common with things you don't understand well I still don't know why she didn't feel the same way I felt?
Basic carpentry/installation work to fix/improve stuff around the house (quarter round, building shelves, hanging shelves). Also basic maintenance of lawn equipment. And also basic car maintenance. I feel like I suck as an adult with two kids.
Why politicians would rather bury each other rather then find common ground. It's always my way or the high way with politics. The people who try to lead following one ideology or mindset are doomed to fail in my opinion. Theres a good side and a bad side to most arguments. If we focused on the good rather then the bad I feel like wed progress much faster as a society. Instead we bicker and argue and ultimately stopping or hurting progress as a society.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most differential equations. So many heuristics, and I always end up fudging boundary / initial conditions
What it is blind people see, you literally cant comprehend the concept of nothing, because for seeing people its black, but theres nothing there and I really want to know
I just typed this up for another person! Ill paste it for you too!
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Company makes money, but the employees want lots of money FAST. To either buy things and upgrade things, OR to put into their pockets.
So they chop the company up into millions of little shares. And ask if anyone wants to buy them. Normally a few large banks and investors will buy the shares. So the company takes the money and does whatever. They are 100% deattached from the share price at this point.
Normal people start to buy the shares from the banks and each other. If someone wants a share, they can offer money to someone with some shares to sell. The seller may decline because the price offered was too low. Later on another buyer will offer MORE money and the seller. And the seller may accept. This is what causes share prices to go up. The reverse can happen to cause prices to go down. It has NOTHING to do with how good the company is doing. People may base their buy/sell prices based on the company numbers. But that is not required. Lehman Brothers (went away in 2008) still has shares being bought and sold for 4-30 cents a share.
Now why would someone want to buy a share? Well you could hope someone buys it from you at a higher price. Or there is a chance the company will pay dividends, a tiny bit of money for each share you own. Companies can start and stop this at almost any point that they choose, some SEC rules apply.
So this is why right now things look weird in stock market. Most deaths, more job less yet stock marking it shooting back up. It is because people paniced and sold their shares driving the price soooo low. And smart people will see a company is paying a good dividend and just after 10 years, the dividends will have covered the cost of the stock. So we're buying up all this cheap stock, which is driving back up the price. I know johnson and johnson, ATT, VZ, walmart, CVS will be around in 10 years, so i feel safe in buying right now and know i will make gobs of money in the future.
And yes, i have nothing to do at this time. I hope this helps your understanding :D
Where the the first STI’s came from.. if they have to be passed on sexually, then who was the first person to give it to someone else? How did they get it without someone giving it to them?
It may sound dumb on my end but I really don’t get where they came from and how someone wound up with an STI in the first place if they are sexually transmitted person to person.
During my 2nd grade parent teacher conference (Private catholic school), the teacher told my parents that I was having trouble will phonics. I was put in a special class to help, but it didn’t.
I was transferred to public school before 4th grade where I had my main teacher and class, but I would be taken out for a special phonics class a couple times a week.
Once I got to jr high and high school, my study halls were replaced with going to a special ed room where they would help me with homework and phonics/grammar/spelling, etc. I barely graduated high school and went to college.
I was given additional tutors in high school and I hired them in college to try to help. I’m in my 40s and I still don’t understand it. “Too/to” is a struggle for me. Writing emails for work to outside customers bring fear. I have a few people that I will send important letters/documents to, too (not sure if that is right) proof read.
I’ve put a lot of effort in trying to learn, but I’ve all but given up.
I genuinely don't understand how its offensive to ask a woman for her height and weight.
Like I'm genuinely asking to get a better picture of how you look without asking for a picture of you. It doesnt make sense to me how someone could be offended by a simple question. My best friend is well over 300 lbs, hes not ashamed of his body. Why is it such a sensitive subject for so many people? Not just girls, I've seen guys get really defensive over the subject too. Why?
How people believe that the entire universe down to the smallest microscopic life developed by chance billions of years ago. How every interconnected, complementary life form descends from common ancestors through mathematically impossible mutations and changes over ludicrous amounts of time, to arrive at this moment. The complexity of the universe can not be explained that way. It is obviously the result of design.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't a matter of being sticking it out with one bad person because you are afraid you won't have other options. It is a matter of having access to all the options and not being limited to just one
Ohhh another stock based on. I am on a roll answering these :D
I'll keep it at their simplest form.
If you buy a call. What you are doing is paying some money right NOW, and later can buy the stock at the price that you agreed to. Or you not buy the stock, but you loose your upfront cost.
So if you wanted to buy a call it would go like this.
Price is 9$/share.
You pay 0.50$ right now and they promise to give you the shares @ 9$/share. You have up to a week to decide if you want to complete the purchase.
If the price goes to 20$/share the next day. Would you be willing to pay 9.50$ for the share? I would think yes. Then you would turn around and sell it, basically doubling your money.
If the price went to 5$/share. Would you be willing to pay 9.50$? Prob not. So you would do nothing and only lost your 50 cents.
The things that can very are the fee you pay for the option to buy. And the time frame in which you can decide to buy. Generally the longer time frame you have, the more of a fee you will pay.
Company makes money, but the employees want lots of money FAST. To either buy things and upgrade things, OR to put into their pockets.
So they chop the company up into millions of little shares. And ask if anyone wants to buy them. Normally a few large banks and investors wil buy the shares. So the company takes the money and does whatever. They are 100% deattached from the share price at this point.
Normal people start to buy the shares from the banks and each other. If someone wants a share, they can offer money to someone with some shares to sell. The seller may decline because the price offered was too low. Later on another buyer will offer MORE money and the seller. And the seller may accept. This is what causes share prices to go up. The reverse can happen to cause prices to go down. It has NOTHING to do with how good the company is doing. People may base their buy/sell prices based on the company numbers. But that is not required. Lehman Brothers (went away in 2008) still has shares being bought and sold for 4-30 cents a share.
Now why would someone want to buy a share? Well you could hope someone buys it from you at a higher price. Or there is a chance the company will pay dividends, a tiny bit of money for each share you own. Companies can start and stop this at almost any point that they choose, some SEC rules apply.
So this is why right now things look weird in stock market. Most deaths, more job less yet stock marking it shooting back up. It is because people paniced and sold their shares driving the price soooo low. And smart people will see a company is paying a good dividend and just after 10 years, the dividends will have covered the cost of the stock. So we're buying up all this cheap stock, which is driving back up the price. I know johnson and johnson, ATT, VZ, walmart, CVS will be around in 10 years, so i feel safe in buying right now and know i will make gobs of money in the future.
And yes, i have nothing to do at this time. I hope this helps your understanding :D
Yes, companies can pay dividends to people who own shares. There is almost never a requirement for them to do it though. And they can quit paying them, lower them or raise them for almost any reason.
Why would a company pay dividends? Because they know that makes the price go up, and they retain tons of their own shares, which they can use as bonus to employees and other perks for working in the company.
"The bigger sucker" theory, this is the case for companies like amazon (up until recently) and tesla. For years and years they do not make money, they loose money and keep taking out loans. And they pay no dividends. But someone bought amazon @ 100$/share and someone else is a bigger sucker and buys it @ 101$/share. Then the guy who bought @ 101$/share found another sucker to buy it for 105$/share. In the end amazon made money, and JUST now tesla is starting to make money. But for the longest time they both ran in the hole.
The other one is the hopes of a dividend. A person might reason, well once Tesla has 20% of market share, they make money year after year, they will pay a dividend in the future. And i rather pay 400$/share right now, rather than paying 2000$/share where it might be by the the time they start paying a dividend.
You don't blow money on crap like cars, TVs, cable TV, cell phones.
20 years ago when i was a teen, my dad made 25k/yr, with 4 kids and basically adopted 2 others, my mother was sick with MS. Yet life was just fine for us. It was normal. I had everything i wanted, some rope, a tree house, a black and white zennth TV and what matters most, healthy cheap food.
Yea I’m talking about the families with all that too. I get how to be frugal and smart with what you have. I don’t get how people have all those bills and still make money.
Music.
The creative process and how to make something decent.
I'd love to, specially with instruments not only on daw. It's so hard, I kinda understand but i feel dumb all the time.
Yes they have cash, that is how they work. You can pay money into them to buy bitcoin, or you can take money out.
I used to use them from time to time. I played poker online, after goverment shutdown partypoker and made it illegal, i switched to playing with bitcoin. And to get my $$$ i would use those machines.
Most "blind" people actually have some form of vision, it is rare that a blind person is 100% blind and sees nothing. Most have a motion or light perception.
So you can view it has having your eyes covered by a dark blanket outside in the dark, then you see a car driving up, you see the bright lights moving towards to
Why fat shaming is a thing. How does another person’s size have any impact on your day. You don’t like it, look away. You wanna comment on it, just don’t. You wanna start some shit- bring it on, cause most people who’ve been fat shamed are just waiting to throw fists at the next mf that decides to say something.
The whole fascination with scripted reality TV and the "why should I vote? It doesn't matter." If too many folks think their vote doesn't matter then suddenly it won't.
And they say something like "i love cheetos!" and only 1% of those 1mil people go out and buy cheetos. That means 100,000 bags of cheetos were bought. If each bag is 1.25$ that is 125,000$ made for cheetos brand.
And that was just 4 words spoken.... ONE time.
So cheetos brand is willing to pay someone 50k to say those words. Spend 50k to make 125k, worth. Not only is cheetos doing it, but microsoft, nike, addias, tenent, amazon, JNP, ford, ATT, everyone pays them to say a small bit. Or wear a small bit.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for explaining. It still seems like an absurd amount for what they do though
Some people like the skill of it it, some people like the way it allows them to have a fighting change against someone larger and stronger than them and others like the history and engineering behind it.
Geometry. Just geometry. It is useless and adults out there, I'm sure you haven't used it in the real world. I'm happy this school year got cancelled, idk how i was gonna pass the final
P.S.- Ive always been good at math, especially algebra, but this is a whole different level of complication and uselessness
Film theory. I can get it while it’s being explained to me but ask me to analyze a film and I’m lost. Strange because books are, well, an open book to me. I can analyze them in my sleep
The twin paradox
Motion is relative, so who's to say which one is moving? There speed has nothing to do with it. One twin accelerates, but if a twin is in orbit it should experience less acceration than the one on earth. It confuses me.
Why I can do literally everything people say is a good way to gain positive attention and still be invisible
pscle · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between adjectives, verbs, etc. I just don’t get it. Whenever this comes up, people laugh and define them. I appreciate this, but for some reason, I just can’t retain it.
I’m a grown ass, graduate, pencil skirt wearing, Costco card holding bonafide adult, but what the FUCK IS AN ADVERB
How people can justify taking people's money by force, then giving them something they don't want and calling it "fair" and a "social contract" just based on where they were born.
How buying plants and fertilizer is essential. Go to a home goods store and it’s full of people walking around buying things that really aren’t essential. I have to go to buy items in a hurry( when I don’t have time to go to the supply house). I’m an electrician and deemed necessary.
Shitty writing. Surely when these awful TV shows, films and games are being made, there has to be one sane person around to call them out on how garbage the story is?
Mathematics. Like simple stuff makes sense, but who the heck sat around and thought “how can I prove that some numbers are imaginary” or “there are 2pieR radians in a circle.” Like legit this is mind boggling
k54- · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Like, it’s honestly a problem. I pay attention in class (or at least, I did before miss corona), I did my work, I got help from the teacher and somehow still when the tests come, I can never get higher than a B. Like, no As unless the concept is ridiculously easy, and even then I’m barely getting an A- while everyone else it’s getting 100% on the test. Math is the only subject I actually have to study for and even then I still do so poorly. It’s an actual problem and I feel like I’m the only one in my class who has this problem. Everyone else seems to get that moment of recognition when they finally understand the concept but that never happens for me. Sometimes I pretend to have that so I don’t look like an idiot in front of my peers. I have just revealed one of my greatest shames to one of the largest subreddits. Good thing no one will see this🙃
How you can live life without ambitions. You should always have realistic goals and try to achieve them. I learned the tough way that some goals are never meant but that's just an opportunity to replace it with a new goal. I wanted to complete Highschool, then get into U of T, then go to law school. Law school did not workout so I had to change goals and now I'm at college studying something else.
I have friends that have never gotten into uni or even tried. They're happy working at factories. It's just insane to me.
I'm a mechanic, and I understand a lot about cars right, and I'm not even trying to toot my own horn but jeez dude How in the world does it make sense that your car burns more oil with less back pressure to the exhaust? For instance when I strait piped my car everyone told me that its gonna burn oil like a mf but it really doesn't, I've been wondering if that's just a myth or if it just happen to some cars because back pressure shouldn't effect anything, when your exhaust valve opens it should be pushing that exhaust gasses out anyways why would you need pressure pushing it back in? and you still have oil rings on your pistons anyways, so how come all the sudden that you have less back pressure the oil rings don't do their job? It's a myth.
My job. Seriously I get the basics but the rules are constantly changing so I'm never sure if I'm following up to date procedures and guidelines and I get snarky answers from management if I ask. So i just guess a lot.
The size of massive stars. Just in our Galaxy alone, UY Scuti is around 1700x as big as our sun, which is 109x the diameter of the Earth. That size is just unfathomable to me, and makes me really uncomfortable when I think about it.
When I saw this post title in my email notification, I immediately thought it was an aggressive reply to one of my mindless comments. I was so relieved it was just a neutral r/askreddit thread. So I guess I don’t genuinely understand why I care so much about petty things like random, faceless people attacking me online.
Why does anyone give a fuck what someone else ate for lunch? Or give a shit what some B-list celebrity is doing? It's all fucking weird and intrusive.
Also, why the fuck are radio commercials so fucking annoying when their only way to communicate is via audio? Make it pleasant to listen to.
Also also, why the fuck do TV shows still use a laugh track? It cheapens the show and distracts from it as well. If it isn't funny enough to get a laugh without being told where the jokes are, you need a better show.
How the American people just accept the political system. They give us two awful candidates that we have to pick from when there are a million better candidates out there.
roahir · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't accept that some prefer a pet over a child. We all accept "Oh you want a kid? Awesome!" but not "You don't want kids? You are so selfish."
tl;dr a subatomic particle has no set position in space until you observe it, then you force it to assume a position. That's the simplified version of it.
Over the past two months I thought I had everything figured out, and then boom. I had a rich of new powerful emotions I never experienced before, and put in an unfamiliar and challenging situation with no clear answer. I’m now two months in and I’m still confused, and an emotional wreck
Evolution. Like they say that life came from the oceans. Organisms lived in the ocean and evolved to survive in land. But how does that happen on a individual scale? Like one day a fish like thing just had a son that could breathe outside water and that's it?
There are still some hybrid species that lives on very shallow waters. They're fish that occassionally walk on the shore. It's not that hard to imagine.
this may be digging too deep but I don’t understand the mentality of when a kid’s parent dies and instead of taking care of their kid like they’re supposed to or trying to be fit to take care of them they get pissed that someone else is taking care of them. i saw a situation once where a couple was about to get married and they had 1 son, a toddler about 3 years old. they didn’t live together, the son lived with the mom and her brother. the son was born blind so he needed special care. before they moved in together the mom died and the court found the father was unfit to take care of his own son (he had no job and still lived with his family) so the uncle ended up with the kid and the father was so pissed and yet never tried to take back custody of his kid. his son is like 20 now and in college and his Uncle and biological dad ended up hating one another because even tho the dad was supposed to technically have rights to his own kid, he never got a proper job or a place fit to raise his own kid. I don’t understand the mentality of “thats my kid! I should be raising him not you!” and not doing anything to change that
Why Hollywood keeps trying to adapt Books, only for them to completely change it from the source-material.
Seriously. Allmost all movies that did that failed (Eragon, Percy Jackson just to name a few) either critically or at the Box Office. Or both, most of the time.
How to get a job. I’m 20 and I’ve been putting in applications since 2016 for various entry level positions. It seems like every time I go into a store and ask for an application I’m told to fill one out online. I fill one out online and I never hear back. What frustrates me to no end is when I call in to check on the status of my application and I seem to get someone really rude with an attitude who says, “The hiring manager will call/email you when they’ve had a chance to look over your application.”
So the elements of the universe just...existed somehow? Also, it can't go on forever but if it stopped there has to be...something...on the other side right? The universe is just as unbelievable as the idea a higher being just created all this.
Why convicted pedos dont get automatic death penalty. Why are we risking this thing getting out and fucking someone up again??? He lost his chance at redemption with that, why not hang him? I've got a lovely, strong, stout tree right in front of my home, we could do this on a budget.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About 10% of all convicts are innocent and some who plead guilty are doing it because they can’t afford lawyers and they know pleading guilty will result in a better case. If you execute them then they have no way of proving they are innocent (even if it’s a slim chance) because their dead. Justice should always be maintained over punishment no matter the punishment.
pnkgtr · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, especially to the point of genocide. There is absolutely no logical reason to believe that eliminating another group will make your life better. And frequently, the perpetrators seem to be surprised that there is resistance to their plans.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it’s not even the minorities who are being oppressed it’s the majority that just wants them out. Like at least in Haiti when they killed all the whites most of them were slave owners or were directly profiting from it I don’t condone it either but at the very least they were trying to change the oppression they faced
pnkgtr · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would call your example a revolution and justifiable homicide not genocide.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The inability to play devil’s advocate with personal ideologies. People who have opinions, but never question them or stick to them as truth, are people I avoid.
Like where da hell did these numbers come from and why do they do what they do and how did people figure out what they do and why we decided to start shoving letters and other shit in them and all these terms.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those fucking charmin bears and their goddamn toilet paper fetish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How music can be captured in a mofoing wax record?!?!?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. I mean, I do understand graphs and charts and stuff like that, but I don't seem to get a feeling for the science behind it yet. Otherwise I'm rather good at maths, I don't know why I struggle so much with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mukbangs, so nasty (I do understand the origins of it), but like so much food, and discusting chewing noises
Ixirar · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why kids love the taste of cinnamon toast crunch
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I got this far in life, honestly
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone asks you for something (i.e. food, a favor, or anything else) and you decline, only to be met with a negative response from them. A bit childish.
R_Spc · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming, i have a degree in IT and understand computers as a whole and am very computer literate but for some reason i just cant code. I have tried learning many times but each time my brain just nopes out. Anything else i can do and learn no problem.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can hold hate for something for long periods of time, regardless of the action committed against them or how much at fault the other person was. There's no point to keep that rage inside for years and years, but people do it.
This new use of the word "bet." People have explained it to me, but it still makes no sense. It seems to be roughly synonymous with "affirmative." What the hell does that have to do with betting?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. The whole thing in Interstellar. I just don't get it and I really want to.
how in the absolute fuck is it legal for news organizations to have political affiliations and personal agendas?
why is there not some sort of laws forcing news stations to adhere to defendable, justifiable truth?
and im talking about how theyll spin stories like instead of "an aggravated robbery resulted in the deaths of two people today" theyll say like "A black american shot and killed two white church deacons at a 711"
and thats the headline. so you watch the story and find out that the black guy was defending himself from the white church deacon robber or something but they know people wont watch that far, theyll just see the headline and go "YEP THEM BLACKS SHURE ARE A DANGEROUS BUNCH YEE HAW"
theyre just stirring up shit and societal unrest to sound more "exciting" thats not how fucking news is supposed to work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the English language was created.
It was made by putting Latin, French, and many other various languages into a blender, pouring it into the sink, and collecting the residue, and making a new language with it.
Taxes. I can catch on to most things pretty quickly. I’m a fast learner and I think I’m decently smart. However, you can explain taxes until you’re blue in the face and it just goes in one ear and out the other.
People who blow through stop signs to cut you off or pull in front of you while driving, then they go significantly slower than you were going. Doesn't make any sense to me at all
Women’s way of thinking about things. Even the most logical situation they’re still trying to understand/explain it in an empathic way... I’ll never understand
Why must people be so critical about the way bills are facing? Here are all $5 bills. It doesn’t matter if their heads are up or whatever. Is it that serious? What’s the point?
Meatball subs. Why must the meat be in all ball form? It would be 100% easier to eat if it was in simple ground beef form. Like chopped up meatballs for better eating.
Why don’t WNBA players dunk in games? I mean, female basketball players can definitely dunk but I’d like to see it more.
I mean maybe a bit of gossip is natural, like shure u may discuss people's actions for a minute or to sometimes when they affect you.
But I can't understand how you can make an jour of discussion about the fact that aquaintance A is dating person B or the fact that C's shoes look bad.
Ect...
How some people read something once and they know all about it but if I gotta study it on my own I gotta do it 3 times and it’s not enough.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The willingness to create a public disruption to get your way in a transaction, even when you're clearly entitled to what you're asking for. Too uncomfortable for me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are not into cars.
Most people spend alot of time operating one, Why not take care of it and have a genuine passion for it?
It's a fairly simple thing to start learning. And you can use the skills from working on cars in alot of other places.
How sanders followers believe invading every subreddit with their topics trying to push it to everyone will make him win. The worst case is /r/MurderedByWords:
- Hey I don't know why this hospital bill was so expensive
- HaHA that is because we don't have socialism haha feel the bern
Whenever I wake up, I am very unmotivated, so I don't stand up. I need to figure out why it's worth to do anything, and as far as I can tell, other people don't need to do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. How if you travel closer to the speed of light, time will slow down. How a clock at the top of Mount everest will run faster (or slower?) to one at the bottom of the ocean.
ELECTRICITY.And I’m a college grad... and my dad is an electrician that has attempted to explain it to me many times. It just doesn’t work in my head
Edit: also, how does a tv get info live and present it in that way. Mind boggling if you ask me.
If Henry the VIII invented the Church of England in order to divorce his wife, why did the the church later pressure Edward to abdicate? Why, how, when did the Church of England become against divorce?
I genuinely don’t know why I get mad or frustated so easily. People told me I’m always cranky and get frustated about the littlest of things. Like seriously, people knocking on my door while I’m doing my shit? I get mad about that. Not the screaming, abusive kind of mad, but it just like that. I get annoyed pretty easily too. Probably the reason why I don’t have so many friends. I know I’m a little entitled sometimes, but when the moment comes, I can’t do anything about it. Thinking about this is already making me frustated.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How building 7 fell
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just division. I can multiply fine, and I promise besides my political views, Im not retarded, but I just don't understand how someone can divide large numbers off the top of their head.
And don't get me started on how dividing by a zero point (number) ends up making the number bigger.
I genuinely cannot understand why people deface national parks, beautiful rocks, trees, etc. Or anything for that matter. There is a beautiful sand canyon near my town that has hundreds of names carved into it, or driving through Joshua tree, the place I grew up, I see hundreds of tags on the rocks and trees.. Why? Just.. why? Do you real feel that entitled? That selfish to take away one of the peacefulness and pleasure of nature for a name tag? I don't understand. Never will. Absolutely disgusting. (You can see I'm very pissed off about this)
Why parents who don't want to put effort into raising their children decide to reproduce. That child will become a teenager, then an adult. You knew fully well what you signed up for, please stop avoiding responsibility for what your neglected kid becomes.
How some things evolved. Like, I understand poison and eyes and stuff; an animal happens to have a deadly chemical in their spit, and kills something when they bite it, or a patch of skin is sensitive to a certain color of light, but what about breasts? How did animals go from just hunting things down and feeding their young normally, to being able to process food into milk and developing specially-designed nozzles for it‽ Iftseems like an all-or-nothing kinda deal, ya know? Or what about the ability to fucking explode yourself to defend the rest of your colony? How do you go from just a normal ant to an ant that can turn itself into a bomb‽
So, that’s my rant on things evolving weirdly, I guess.
How I can put a plastic CD into a drive or place a piece of vinyl on a record player and hear recorded music. I've even tried ELI5 explanations and videos and I still can't wrap my head around it.
I don't understand why people brag about their taste in music. Everyone has different taste is that not ok to you or something? I don't like modern music that much but I don't go and brag about it.
Tha95 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Was never at all good at it. I barely passed it in high school, I just can’t understand how anything other than the basics work. Like all of the finding the angles of x, all the word problems always screwed me up, and all of the algebra work was the worst for me
Why do so many people think that it is "not in their place" to tell on a cheater. I genuinely don't get it. Why not? If the guy/girl is cheating and someone in the friend group knows about it, why not open up about it. The other person (who has done nothing wrong) is wasting their time and energy for that person who basically is shitting on their emotions.
Why do people let it go on. It's the right thing to do
How so many people can't be intellectually honest. Instead of acknowledging an error or recognizing something or someone or some idea can be imperfect, they just double down or get angry.
There's something amazing about a universal respect for objective truth. It makes for happier people all around!
How nearly an entire country is blinded by the idea that whoever opposes them is absolutely 100% wrong and in no way whatsoever has a valid opinion or point of view to add to a healthy conversation. The country i live in i feel is obvious on that description alone but its seriously starting to bother me how many people haphazardly throw around labels like insults and follow it by something akin to "because youre xxxxxx youre wrong and cant know anything about yyyyyy". Its disturbing to a certain level. Its like we're all kids picking "sides" and if youre not on their side how dare you try to have a voice. Ive had this happen over my skintone, over my education, over my age, over my political views hell over my own baby! I cant know anything because im xxxxx and therefore whatever opinion or knowledge i have on the subject at hand is null and void. I wish for once we would listen to each other and understand that even if we dont like each other we are still citizens of the same country and we should be looking to make it a better place for ALL of us rather than fighting over nonsensical things. Im tired of being told im wrong for not 100% supporting a politician, or for saying "why cant we compromise?" We are supposed t be a democracy but that sure as hell flies out the window when your vote is going against theirs. How have we gotten to 2020 and not figured out that we all benefit from education systems being funded or from limiting the power the pharmaceutical industry has over its profits? Why is it that at this day and age we see people who are okay with others being crippled and destroyed by unnecessary debt because its not them and therefore they wouldnt dare give a penny to help the common man but will happily give thousands of their funds for policies they will almost never directly benefit from? Why are our teachers having money ripped from their wallets and we are seemingly okay with it? Why are our roads still trashed if we are supposedly paying for it? And why the hell are we fighting each other when at the end of the day we all want the same thing - a country that is stable, United, and lead by someone who has the people in mind and not the economy for their own gain (dont get me wrong economy is important but when youre doing things to directly benefit you and people like you, rather than the country as a whole it makes me question how much of a leader you are for the people) this isnt necessarily just politics as i mentioned above its happened in various situations but it drives me batty and thats the most commonly heard one. Im ready for society to say enough's enough and work towards creating a place we can all feel safe and stable in. Rather than the mess we are currently in. People in this country are buying propaganda that we are fed (and no im not a conspiracy theorist- i say this mainly because we still hear that we are the number one country in the world and we are the best all the time. Its practically shoved down our throats since i was a child at LEAST and undoubtedly long before that. Yet i was talking to someone in a different country about something big going down for them and i had no idea what they were talking about. Highlighting how little we are shown of the outside world unless theres a side to sell. Its kinda creepy really..)
I just wish we could really be what our name is, because I've never felt more troubled by our state of affairs than now.
How the stock market works. In fact most financial things fly right over my knog. All I really understand is if I work I get the dollars and the bills take away my dollars so I gotta make more dollars than bills. Anything more complex than that and you've lost me.
Simpity. Never understood why everyone feels the need to say sorry or whatever for something they had nothing to do with. I also don't understand how someone can relate to what another is feeling. Never understood why it was a thing.
How human babies cannot fall asleep on their own. We’re born knowing how to naturally eat, poop/pee, breathe, etc., yet a basic biological function like sleep is not known by babies. Most have to have an adult help put them to sleep and won’t just fall asleep when they’re tired.
For the majority of my adult life I was homeless and have no real work experience.
I have seen life from many different angels and don't see how a person in my shoes will ever get an opportunity at gainful employment despite the tremendous barriers I've overcome and the five years of stability I've established the world values things I don't possess more than things I do without being a esthetically pleasing or having a parent to pay my way into college or KNOW someone on the Inside I will continue to work extremely hard stay positive and keep trying to overcome
When I found out that electrons are not made up of quarks I genuinely lost sleep over trying to figure that out. Up until then I assumed all particles were different compositions of quarks.
How actors become wrongfully typecasted. Obviously there are some actors who like to do certain genres of films and dont mind doing those type of films, ie: Liam Neeson is infamous for doing action films. But for the others, if you dont want to be stuck in a certain role, then tell your agent to search in other genres or elsewhere. Certainly there are directors out there that would be joyous to have Toby Maguire doing a sad movie
Bchuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had food poisoning before and I keep shitting. This will go on for a couple days and at some point I'm saying to myself, "Oh come on, I haven't ate that much in the last month, there's nothing left to come out." But then I'm wrong. Again.
Figuring my life out and how to be happy. I always try to find solace in the small things but I get so caught up in deadlines and expectations that I forget what I actually wanted in the first place for myself.
People who can only feel good about themselves by making other people feel miserable. However, I keep my opinions regarding these folks to my self. The only way to help them is to compliment their good aspects and praising their benign accomplishments. Lead in by asking about their favorite She/heros.
Why my dad has had such a really bad luck in life, he’s always struggled in life and everything he does just seems to fail or doesn’t workout for him😐😐😐
Depends on your definition of "just." If you can charge fraud, price fixing, or breach of contract, you have a case. Otherwise, the market is the market with winners and losers.
well you're presupposing an ethical framework here. that's my whole point. this discussion involves a ton of deep philosophical beliefs with wide ranging implications.
you can't just assume your framework is right, the fact that you don't understand why people would disagree with you means you're ignorant of the discussion itself.
Westworld. I'm about to start season 3 and still a little lost.
clio44 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone on the other side of the planet can hold a device, record a video, upload it to the unfathomable www, and it can transit through the air, end up on my device, playing with the exact sounds they recorded, and all the tiny little pixels showing exactly what they saw there.
Like, I can't wrap my head around it. Heck, even just old school telephones with sound transmitted via cables is mindboggling for me
Inflation. I need an ELI5 lol.
I understand it causes an insane markup on items but what causes that? Like if the treasury prints more money, what causes a can of soup to go up?
i will never understand why my grandma grabs the nearest object and throws it at me or my grandpa with perfect aim when she’s mad. she’s dominican and all i can say is, the army would love to have her as a sniper.
The 5G waves cause our immune systems to fail so that we get sick with the Rona. After this passes the waves will be safe to sell to the 97% left living.
Why we all stand by watching as our government slides further into corruption and disaster, forgetting that we the people have control to replace said government if it fails us. Or why we don't come together boycott their stupidity?
I can’t seem to understand why Netflix has so many bad movies. Some of the content they make is absolutely amazing, but those are so far and few in between. I can browse Netflix in an hour and not find anything worth watching. Also, why they make it so that you have to put in that code into a web browser to find more content. I watch on a smart tv and I can’t unlock more shows. It’s just a shitty model.
I don’t understand why people think dating someone else to make their ex jealous or to get attention from their crush is a good idea. It harms the relationship more than it could ever help it and just makes the person look like a jerk.
Soap operas. Endless (genuinely endless) television shows that exist as a means to suck people in to show them advertisements with a show that has no conclusion.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Teenage girs who fetishize gay people and want a gay bestfriend just bc they are gay and not bc of their personality. I used to have a friend like this and it made me really uncomfortable. Also shows that make a gay character but their only personality triat is being gay. For example, Kevin from Riverdale. Literally the only thing abouy him was he's gay and his dad is the sherrif. Nothing else.
Mushrooms. Seriously what the hell Mother Nature? They are not plants, animals, anything. They are not even alive except they are and they are everywhere. And they live forever. Like why?
Affect vs Effect. My favorite English teacher tried to explain it to me again once I was an adult and I still cannot wrap my brain around it. Example: the girl was greatly affected/effected by the video she saw about stray dogs.
I do not understand how sound is captured onto a record, how those little grooves can sound exactly like a voice or instrument. I can’t wrap my head around it. I know there are sound waves but I just can’t seem to grasp it.
People who are petty over stupid things.
You like dub more than sub? F*ck you!
You are of a different political opinion to me? How dare you live?
OK, we get it, you're a control freak with mental issues, learn to accept difference of opinion.
What really is the “free world” if no one really has freedom or much rights?
jaaynt · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do sovereign citizens feel like they are above the law? Like what makes them think they don’t have to “follow the rules” like the rest of us normal people? I’ve seen enough videos on yt to conclude that it almost always ends badly for them during traffic stops and whatnot. Their antics are too entertaining like when they say they’re traveling instead of driving or operating a vehicle on the highway. Did they rewrite the dictionary or something? Do those words not mean the same anymore ? I legit don’t understand what they base their school of thought on.
Both tried and ultimately failed. Only difference is that one for closer to it's goal.
It's the difference between a rapist and an attempted rapist, really. Just because their success it a horrible thing, doesn't mean their failure is an absolution.
the reason being that "Nazism is a form of fascism and showed that ideology's disdain for liberal democracy and the parliamentary system, "
so by definition you if think democracy is good then Nazism is inherently a bad ideology in your eyes.
socialism is a much more broad term that deals with an economic system rather than a political one. Have socialist leaders been tyrannical dictators in the past? of course. that doesn't mean that all ideologies under the brand of socialism condone those actions.
that would be like saying that because the rwandian genocide happened under a capitalist system; capitalism is evil. that doesn't logically follow.
you dodged the entire point of my comment. For most people's beliefs Nazism is inherently untenable. The same isn't necessarily ethically true for the other side.
It's amazing how manage to miss every point I make and just say the same thing over and over without critically thinking what so ever.
Have Nazi's and communist's done terrible things? of course! I explained in my first comment why painting socialism/communism inherently doesn't make sense because the broad nature of the term. a communist can literally be an anarchist, complete statetist or literally anywhere in between. This is an economic theory. your logic means all capitalists are bad because some of them have done terrible, horrible things like genocide. that logic is terrible.
Nazism, however, is not a broad term. if you believe in almost any western value, then Nazism is inherently untenable to you. the same is not true for the definition of socialism/communism: the collective ownership of the means of production. Which implies almost nothing politically.
How some people spend so much time complaining or being angry at a problem they have then actually spending the time coming up with a solution to said problem.
The dumb people. I mean. How do you not understand the earth is round? How do you think your baby is safe from measles because “the vaccines give them measles”. WHO BREAKS THEIR SKULL FOR THE SAKE OF FOLLOWERS?! And most importantly. WHO GETS TIK TOK INSTEAD OF REDDIT!?
Why Bruce Willis is quarantining with Demi Moore and their adult children and why his current wife and two young children don't seem to have a problem with it.
Edit to add that I usually don't care at all about the shit celebrities do, but this one just has me tilting my head.
Airplanes! I still find it fascinating how a 100k lbs metal can float up there and why aren’t we allowed to use phones and gadget before take off in planes?
uresse · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot wrap my head around how humans built things like the Vatican, or Notre dame, or any large, non modern building. My brain just can’t add it all up.
How did people came up with bread. I just can’t wrap my head around that. Did they go like “hey, this wheat thing, can we eat it? No? Ok how about we pulverize it, can we eat it now? No? Ok how about mixing it with water? No? Ok how about putting it under high temperatures for a while and adding some other ingredients?
It seems so random. I mean how badly did people wanted to eat wheat? Did they did insane experiments trying to eat everything else as well?
People who stubbornly, doggedly insist on driving slowly in the left lane of a multi-lane highway when other cars are piling up behind them.
Look, I get it, you think YOUR speed is plenty "fast enough" for you, therefore it should be "fast enough" for everybody else on the highway, too. I don't actually care one way or the other if you want to drive 10 mph under the speed limit, or exactly the speed limit, or 20 over. Just do it anywhere other than the far left lane.
Vacuums in physics. Like the space between protons, neutrons and electrons in atoms. Just basically the empty space between particles. I’ve studied it for awhile, I just genuinely can’t fathom truly empty space.
How people that come across as simple are so happy, contempt and confident.
Like I'm constantly searching for meaningful purpose, or authenticity in everything but rarely satisfied, and my boy with the average Joe job, social skills of a cricket bat, no girlfriend and no hobbies is so much happier than me.
He also gives me life advice that wasn't asked for in full confidence, as if he understands.
I wish I could just turn my brain off and be like that.
I don't know how I graduated while taking two semesters of physics and not learning anything. I literally was not able to answer any question in that class.
How you can hear music/voices through headphones. Like I get the idea of soundwaves and that but how do you take a digital song and make it play via a headphone or speaker.
How people can take at face value what the media reports as news as truth. Those who don’t do any fact finding/checking on their own and are willing to relay the news as reported as if its gospel. I guess I’m not a trusting individual.
I dont know if someone has said this yet or not, but i genuinely do not understand the appeal to having children. And before someone say "oh you just hate children" no, not really. Like, i enjoy seeing my nieces and nephews. But i do not like the idea of creating a little human. I guess i just dont see the point of creating a kid. And I've had people explain it to me before because I've asked. A lot of them say that they want to continue their blood line or that I'll never know true love until i have a kid (weird to me but okay). Like its nice that other people love kids and want to have them and people have their own reasons. But i personally just dont understand it.
Mobile games like Mafia Boss or whatever that shit is that spams ads on YouTube. The ads are cringy I looked up gameplay and they are like tower defense games filled with microtransactions. What I dont understand is who the fuck is giving these apps their money?
I’m studying to become an electrical engineer and I just can’t comprehend the math around calculating the Voltage and Current involved in different circuits.
People are disregarding this pandemic completely and still going to group hangouts and seeing multiple different friends every day. I genuinely don’t understand how they can be so oblivious and think themselves so above everyone else.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what i mean by social media. Like ppl who live on fb, instagram and stuff. I just don’t get why people are so into that. I guess it’s a need to stay relevant and constantly connected, but i just can’t keep up honestly. Im not that interested in what others are doing either, just my character.
Dancing, I don't understand what makes a dance good ? I looked it up in the dictionary and all I got was something around " a way of rythmically moving your body to music". Based on that definition, then if I walk in a way that matches some music, am I dancing? I asked this question to my friend and he said no. I also tried doing capoeira once, but the instructor told me that I was being too stiff, even though I was being as loose as possible. I just don't understand it. It's weird, because I play the piano and am good with rythmic instruments like the drums.
People that participate in fake Facebook raffles. Those pages never have an imprint, there’s usually only one post on the page (that you have to share in order to „win“), there are no terms & conditions given & the list goes on & on.
How people can still defend Trumps need to call this a hoax, his “response”, and continuous inaction. It’s like he’d rather play golf and let people die than actually start being a president for once. And they applaud, and defend it. It baffles me.
straight guys who pretend to be gay as a joke, even acting super gay around their bros, but then when they meet a gay person in real life they are extremely uncomfortable/homophobic. If gay people can act normal around you, you should be able to do the same lmfao
Search engine optimization (SEO). Every time it’s explained to me, they run through a brief history. Once they get past “and keyword stuffing doesn’t work anymore”, it just feels like /r/restofthefuckingowl. My university doesn’t have a class based around SEO so every time it’s just like a day or two around the concept
The ending of Lost. I’ve had multiple people try to explain it to me and I still don’t get it.
cenuh · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always read how dumb trump is, how bad he is for the country, but he is the votet president anyway. Where are the all the people who votet for him? where do they hide?
How my mom after 2 decades of showing her how, does not understand how to both differentiate turning on/off the cable box and the TV as well as actually turn on the cable box and TV
My upstairs neighbours’ need to continually blast their music at full volume. If I can hear it as though I’m in the same room, then I can’t imagine these people haven’t severely damaged their hearing yet. Bunch of twats.
How infants can learn to be bilingual. As a monolingual English speaker who’s only ever had basic French immersion education, there’s probably a logical explanation but it just doesn’t make sense to me. Like as dumb as it sounds, wouldn’t they get confused, or combine words from both languages while speaking? It sounds dumb but it just marvels me.
when people are extremely rude and take out their day on young kids working in retail, food industry, any type of service industry. Or even just any person, but when I see a middle aged man screaming at a 16 year old cashier. Really? just really? you really don't have a life?
But just any person really. It's a shitty thing overall.
Electricity. Ye I understand it’s with wires and a power source, batteries, etc, but I cannot begin to fathom the intricate bits to it, it’s a personal mindfuck
Ok I know this is childish, but there’s this game I play where there are two modes; solo or teams (there are multiple versions of teams but that’s irrelevant). A lot of people choose teams, but then HINDER their team by blocking them off to certain places or items etc. Like, I would get it if it was just teams and you want to get the best stuff (but it would still be hard to win by yourself against other groups..)I don’t agree but I understand. The thing is you CHOSE teams! Like just pick solo?? If you want to win by yourself and mess up your team so they can’t, why don’t you just pick the solo option?? WHY?? There’s no reason!! I know they’re not trolling either because they actually try to win the game but it makes ZERO sense to me
How fucking stupid people are right now going out and socialising while the UK is on nationwide lockdown to stop the spread of a worldwide pandemic that has the potential to kill hundreds of thousands of not millions in the right circumstances.
What's more is I cannot understand how the same people who go out recklessly and ignore social distancing are the same ones that call for the NHS at 8 O'clock each evening when they're the ones making the doctors and nurses jobs 10x harder
Christ what a rant
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously? Have you ever heard of slavery in America? The word was used by white people who bought and sold and owned other humans as a way to refer to them as being less than human. Years later, descendants of those humans forced into slavery have taken the term back for use in their own culture as a way to take the power away from the word. Black people say it as a form of unity among themselves, and white people using it now is akin to slave owners long ago who used it to label black people as less than them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it's so much more important for people to be liked than to be good people. I've seen so many good people/friends who just fold and go along with someone or a group of people because they want to be liked. I'm talking grown ass adults. I have far fewer friends these days because I can't believe people are so weak and cowardly.
There's a difference between being polite and going along with some bullshit that is downright socially wrong just because they're afraid to not be liked. Disgusting. Society sucks.
You may have a chemical imbalance in your brain, which antidepressant medications can address. Please speak to your doctor about this; you don't have to live like that.
The “police” system in the US. Sheriff, police, deputy...I have watched too many to count Crime and True crime TV shows and movies in my lifetime and still don’t get the different names, authorities, etc. Btw, I’m European.
The concept of changing the past with time travel.
Like if you looked back and saw something you wanted to change and fixed it. But then would you be able to look back?? No! Idk how to better explain this but I find myself thinking about this at least once a month.
People who automatically assume the worst in people, or assume their actions are directly to cause your inconvenience. Instead of first wondering if there is a logical explanation for an odd scenario.
One instance haunts me for some reason. Came across a bridge with no one in front of me but someone behind me. A troop of ducks were crossing the road so I slowed and eventually stopped, waiting for them. The guy behind me had plenty of time to stop and starts laying on the horn, furiously. Like I've stopped in the middle of the road for no reason and clearly the only reason was to inconvenience him. He starts to go around me on the wrong side of the road peeling his tires and my ducks have cleared so I start to proceed and he slams in the breaks to not hit the ducks who are on that side of the road now.
I just don't get how the first thing in his mind wasn't "let me look around for a reason this is happening" instead of "omg this person sucks and my life is ruined because they are inconveniencing me"
Re: Advertising . . . I enjoy good ad campaigns. No ad, good or bad would convince me to buy a product that sucks or I have no use for or I cannot afford. I also do not patronize companies who mistreat their employees, are not eco-friendly, bigoted, and anti LGBTQIA.
I genuinely dont understand people that get into polyamorous relationships. Like I've personally been invited to a couples house for a fun experience a couple times but I would just straight up bolt after cause it's ridiculously awkward talking and drinking with a guy after you've been realigning his wife for 3 hours. But some people will wind up straight up living with and dating the couple and that just boggles my mind
When someone posts a rant on reddit about something and you go and look at their post history and ALL their posts are rants about things. They have no posts about anything unless its full of loathing and hate.
I don't get how you can let hate dominate your life so much that you don't have any life beyond the hate.
Ryvitt · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me? I ain’t ever gonna understand what happened Last Nite. I mean, she said to me and I shit you not: “Oh baby I feel so down, see it turn me off when I feel left out” so I just turned round, I mean, I had only been in town for a few minutes, honestly I don’t know why I keep walking for miles around here, but what was going on with her was a great big lie. So I left
How love happens. I'm in high school and should be falling in love and stuff but I just don't get it.
TnTxG · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Why am I here?
What am I supposed to do?
Am I doing things right?
Am I supposed to be here?
What's my purpose?
What's the point of it all?
I don't get any of it
Bchuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did the phrase "a needle in the haystack" come to exist. Why were you sewing over a haystack to begin with? Assuming you were one of these people and you lost your needle, why wouldn't you just go sew over something else and by the next day forget about this incident. Why were so many people sewing over haystacks, and losing needles that when this phrase was said to someone else they were like, "You know Mary, your right I can relate to that because I too, lost a needle in a haystack." It's just such a weird thing to even do, no matter what time period a person lived in.
I have a dream, that one day people will be judged on the content of their character, not based on what's between their legs.
I don't understand people that keep doing the whole "girl power" thing.
The reason it drives me crazy is that people don't seem to think:
"Women are bad at things to a higher extent than men."
But that's literally all I hear when people say "girl power" or something similar. It's demeaning and condescending, not encouraging.
For me, it's completely backward in how people think. But maybe that's just me. It's like when 3-year-olds show their paintings to people. You just encourage it "because". And people seem to be encouraging girls "just because".
I've never understood it, and I don't think I ever will. If anyone wants to enlighten me on how this is not sexist (towards girls/women), then please do. But it's misogyny in my book.
Twitter. This is not even a political or social thing, I'm not talking about which mindsets are prominent there I mean I don't get Twitter. It's basically just short facebook updates that are public; what's the appeal? Seems like the people that enjoy Twitter (and again this is very much a both sides thing) are kind of the self-congratulatory types that think their opinions are far more important than they actually are.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records make no fucking sense and I will never understand how they work, watches tons of YT vida about it, just tiny grooves and vibrations on a needle amplified. But like. How.
Measurement. With metric and imperial my brain can't manage that and visualize the dimensions of things beyond something being 6ft because that's my height.
The whole anti-scocial club hoodies and merchandise,like wtf does that even do. Might as well make more brands with a mental disease glorified. Schizophrenia club:get yours now!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to stock up on toilet paper of all things. You can clean your ass an infinite number of times in the shower if you run out of TP.
I am seriously monogamist. The idea of even a threesome seems gross to me. I don’t want ANYONE else involved or outside of my relationship. I do understand that it comes from a place of love. Of having so much love you want to share it more. But my brain just can not fathom it. Another person? Why?? I already have one.
How “we” can know so much about distant stars and planets just by looking at them from so far away. Like “this planet is made up of 65% this gas” or “this star is X billion years old and will collapse in Y billion more years.”
How people forget how/what they were from a younger age.
Like the whole every older generation thinking less of the younger one. It's the same arguments from the beginning of time and we have all experienced it so why not break the wheel
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Half of the memes and challenges circulating nowadays.
Yes, I'm a millennial, but I'm a boomer inside my soul and good God I feel like one. I just want to make money to support myself, get what I need to survive, and try not to die early.
This 1st 2nd 3rd @ challenge like what is it exactly referring to? In your bio, in your comments, the third person you tagged
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People saying “slept like a baby,” When referencing they slept well. Babies do NOT sleep all through the night uninterrupted, if you were to actually sleep like a baby, you’d be waking up every couple of hours crying. I just don’t know where this expression came from.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things I genuinely don’t understand:
- Space, like wtf is up with that.
- Why I had to learn how to calculate imaginary numbers. That’s literally what the name of a negative square root is and I just don’t understaaannnddd.
- How people can abuse animals. Fuck off.
- Why some people don’t recognize that mental health issues are serious and that service dogs are a huge help.
- Getting genuinely pissed at people about video games (graphics, storyline, “real gamers”, etc.) It is a made up experience where you fuck around with technology for a bit.
- The idea of “talking to someone”. Like I get what you are trying to say but when I first heard someone use this phrase I was very confused.
People who name their children common names with no major historical significance... Like Britney or Kyle. Why do you want your child to have a name that thousands of other people have with no real significance?
This isn't for people who were trying to name them for personal reasons. But people who just choose names.
How computers work. I don't mean how to use them, I've built computers before and generally consider myself pretty tech savvy, but I can't wrap my brain around what the fuck goes on in those circuit boards that translates to playing Minecraft
Why people like to watch "Love is Blind" on netflix. I get that some people like reality trash tv, even ironically. But this isn't even fun in that way!
Dry Aged Meat. Meat spoils in days without refrigeration and maybe a couple of weeks with refrigeration who know what antibiotics are being used. How is dry aged preserved and sold as the most special meat?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that feed the seagulls at the beach. Why are you the way you are? You’re making it miserable for the rest of us. Tossing a chip to draw in a seagull doesn’t make you freaking Snow White.
I’ve been told a thousand times, and I’ve heard all the tips and tricks to remember it, but I just can’t. When I want to use it in a sentence I just rewrite the sentence to avoid it all together.
Quantum entanglement. Or how it supposedly transfers information. The fact that you can't measure the thing you NEED to measure makes absolutely no sense to me. Like, the parameters disclude the initial question.
How Karen’s are made. Like how do you get to be so entitled and feel like you deserve everything? How the hell can you be so in your own head that you feel like he world revolves around you?
I don’t get why people want to push their beliefs onto other people. They can tell people of their beliefs to explain them, but trying to say that someone can’t do something because of your beliefs doesn’t make sense. I didn’t come up with this but it’s like telling someone that they can’t have a donut because you’re on a diet.
shapu · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
rej718 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how microphones work. i know somewhere in there the sound energy gets turned in to electrical energy that turns back into sound energy when it gets to the speaker??? but how does it magnify the sound? what goes on inside the microphone to convert the energy???????? it's very confusing to me
fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a few different kinds of microphones. One is a condenser microphone.
"Condenser" is another word for the same electronic component that's also called a "capacitor". A capacitor is made of two thin sheets of metal that are separated by plastic, air, or other non-conductive material. It can store an electric charge between the two metal sheets. This can be useful for various things, such as echoing a signal between the two sides (in a resonating circuit) or cancelling out noise.
But in a condenser microphone, what matters is that the distance between the two sides affects the voltage between them. So if you can move one of the two conductive sides, you can make an electrical signal.
And sound can move things. In fact, sound is moving air, and when it hits a surface it makes that surface vibrate a little. This means that if you can vibrate one of the two sides of a capacitor, you can turn that vibration into a changing voltage signal.
And a changing voltage signal is exactly the electrical energy you're talking about.
rej718 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people think Jeffrey Epstein didn't kill himself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole anti 5G people and anti vaxxers
Etobio · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on Earth can a Qbit be both 1 and 0 at the same time?
How is that information processed?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people are super curious about aspects of sexuality that they haven't personally experienced; like being a different sex or orientation, or having more or less success at finding partners.
One time when I was little I threw up and it hurt my throat and it felt like I threw up an organ or something like I saw some sort of mass in puke. I still to this day don't understand wtf I threw up.
fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just blast each other online for everything. When people (espically wealthy or famous) post happy pictures in this pandemic time and saying they feel blessed for being healthy, people are saying they are tonedeaf og insensitive. All I am thinking is like glad someone can see the light in these devestating times...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Hawking Radiation but people are saying more everyday life stuff so I will say how soccer goalkeepers kick the ball so far I have played soccer all my life but my kicks don't launch the ball 30m to the air across the field
Of all forms of communication, speaking is the one I've always hated because I don't understand it. I can express myself in many ways: I can write, I can draw, I can dance, I can mime, but speaking? I asked Santa if I could be mute when I was little.
Yeah, I wonder about that one a lot. Indoctrination from childhood? A need to understand the world? Cultural influence? Massive family pressure? So many different belief systems contradicting and borrowing... So much time, energy, academia, institutions, all helped to create an amazing momentum that leaves us with around 85% of 7.7 billion believing it...
The motives of "stans," moreso kpop fans than any other.
If I were a celebrity, I would probably be pretty uncomfortable with people making accounts solely for the purpose of posting videos and pictures of me in unrelated comment sections.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an overwhelming majority of people know the make/model/year of any car they see, even from far distance. Like I'll be in the car with someone and they'll be like "The Chevy avalanche 3 cars ahead of us is swerving a bit." Or I'll be at work and a coworker will say "The guy in that honda accord in the parking lot looks like Santa claus."
I never know what car they're talking about. Why would I unless I've owned and gotten well acquainted with that car? But literally everyone besides me can do that. If I ask people how they can, no one can really tell me. I always get some roundabout shrugged off answer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In some people, the foreskin can remain tight throughout their life, and grow to block urine from the urethra. That's one reason anyway; maybe Moses had phimosis.
How people can’t mind their own business when others are just having fun or doing their hobby.
Is it so difficult to just scroll past a post you don’t like?
Not like Kpop then see a Kpop post? Scroll the fuck past it
I can’t stand Kpop but if one comes across my feed, I’ll grumble and groan but then I’ll scroll past
It’s so easy
Same with furries
You not like furries? Find them weird or gross? THATS FINE. you don’t have to like furries but give over about how much you hate them because it is NOT your business and you can very easily block what you don’t like without being an ass about it
Lol sorry for the rant, some people just baffle me with this
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket. I have no idea what the fuck is going on, and if you go to /r/cricket it's like they're talking in some alien language you need some cypher to interpret.
I sometimes don't understand what I have done "wrong" in a sense to why people react a certain way towards me. They're the ones asking the questions usually.
Why the fuck people are so rude to Customer Service Agents (Emails, chats and phone) like they aren’t just trying to do their job and have so many expectations to be met.
whenever i try to have a discussion on there, it’s “well i’m [minority] how dare you speak over me, your opinion doesn’t matter”. funny thing is i’m a minority too in many aspects, but i don’t understand what that has to do with anything. i don’t want to be heard just because i’m [x] minority, that does nothing to integrate everyone in society. i don’t want to give my entire life story and have to repeat it every single time just to have an opinion and i’m sick of it.
this is why they should’ve never banned porn on tumblr, now they’re going to every other platform
1) how phones work eg calling and texting and video calling
2) how online gaming works
3) how tv works eg live shows
4) how radio works
5) how man reached the moon
How people accept community-wide corrupt practices.
As a student I used to got to a eat street and the guy charged us more than MRP and somehow those who asked why got a take it if you want else fuck off in response, but no one ever questioned the practice
Money for voting, a lot of people take the free money for voting, and then they still ask why the politician doesn't do any good for them?
I can never seem to get around how people normalize unacceptable things.
Depression. I've been through the gambit of life experiences but I've never felt so deeply in a hole that I could lose sight of the good in my life or give up on life in general.
Mahjong. I can't complete yakuza 0 because of this crap
cidpit · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reddit karma system. I just don't get it. I try to comment and post stuff but it just doesn't get better.
I want to post under a few subs but it's always like "you don't have enough karma to post here"...so I comment somewhere else and literally NOBODY cares.
Why people say “epicentre” meaning the very centre. It actually means something completely different and I have no idea why people now claim the epicentre is the heart of something.
BobT21 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Designer stuff. Pay many times more for a label? Is a $400 scarf 400 times more scarfy than a $1 scarf?
Machine learning. I understand it learns through recognizing patterns but I don't understand how it can recognize those patterns in various forms even with all the data that is input.
eikeo · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a computer take a bunch of 1s and 0s and turn it into the complex software we have today. I have taken multiple programming classes and I completely understand how code logic can be built into programs but how in the world do a bunch microscopic switches store, read, calculate, and display all of this information.
Infinity and zero, beyond the conceptual nature of these mathematical values, I don't think they exist, and if somehow they do I cant comprehend or understand it at all.
I have been a nurse for 10+ years and it baffles me the amount of people I encounter who think they have a greater expertise in anatomy, physiology, and pathophysiology than I do with ZERO education. It would be lime me going to a mechanic and them saying “Your car is out of oil, it needs oil” and my reply would be “well, I know my car and my car does not need oil”. I never had people question me nearly as often when I worked behind a register, delivered pizza, or did landscaping. Why do so many people feel that they know more than the experts!?
The polarization of Politics. Some people believe that you HAVE to support either A or B, with absolutely no compromise. and when I say something like "I agree with A's Environmental policy and B's Immigration policy" people seem to lose their minds.
People who sent basic scientific fact, in particular when it is detrimental. As an Oceanographer, anthropogenic climate change is just a fact I work with every day. The fact that people still refuse to accept it astonishes me. They debate about it as if it were an opinion based topic like abortion or something without much research like gun control. There is no debate that we are affecting the climate. We are. We just don't know exactly how much we do so.
And other things as well, like alternative medicine. I am sure that there are plenty of herbal medicines that work that just haven't been tested yet or found conclusive results. With that said, homeopathy does not work. It never will, it never can. The idea behind it astonishes me to no end.
I was once talking to an acquaintance of mine about chemistry. He flat out told me he didn't believe in atoms. I was shocked. Taken aback. I thought he was kidding. I asked him about why he thinks that and his response was "I've never seen one. I can't see an atom, so why should I believe they are real?" I was nice about it and told him essentially that I disagree with him and that he probably shouldn't voice that opinion around other people, that they may judge him for it. I offered to explain to him how we can know something exists without directly seeing it. All of the proof that atoms are, in fact, real. He politely declined my offer and I changed the subject.
I can't quite blame people for having these beliefs. I think it is a failure of our educational system. If a grown man can go through 12 years of public education and 4 years of higher education, he should at the bare minimum know that atoms are real. Just how poor the educational system is at explaining science past "guys in lab coats with test tubes discovered this so now memorize it" honestly disgusts me.
Not like, "these parts go here and these parts go there" but legitimately, how someone decided that placing components on what would eventually become a chip would result in your ability to eventually display information on a screen.
Time Dilation: every time I try to understand it, I just can’t wrap my mind around it. I feel like Mr. Incredible hitting the textbook going “TIME(math) is TIME(math)”.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
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Why people stay in relationships even though it's hurting them. I've already read a ton of explanations but none made me truly understand it.
I am completely unable to understand and people can put complete faith in abstract concepts that have no proof outside of a few coincidences. I have a hard time trusting something with no proof as to why you should trust it.
How anxiety works and why it happens so regularly with me. I could be moving along in life with no issues and then suddenly something COMPLETELY minor happens and I get sent into a fucking death spiral of worry and anxiety for several days at a time.
How come America is a rich country, with record debt of $27 trillion. How the debt is structured and who owes who and what, and what insurances debitor has. What happens if the debt isn’t paid in time. And where is the cap to amount of it.
My high school physical science class is still way over my head. I’m 29 The whole proton electrons thing I genuinely just do not understand and probably never will.
How people thing Trump is a good decision maker. I literally cannot understand why split second decisions, double down against all facts that are presented, and then throwing insults is somehow seen as having strength. This literally is what my 4 yr old daughter does, except her insults are poop related.
People that continue unnecessary risky activities (skateboard tricks with no helmet, jumping over bonfires, street racing, etc...) during the pandemic. Where are you going to go if you get hurt? The hospital needs every bed for virus patients.
People who ask you why you listen to music that was put out a while ago like they would ask you "oh why do you listen to that song still it's so old?" I'm sorry I didn't know music had a expiry date
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls want to be friends with you after they break up with you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I say I’m going to do it later and someone persisting that I do it right now. Like come on, I’ll do it, but later?
How refrigerators and freezers work. Like how the fuck can you be like “yo, heat, I’m just gonna move you over heeeere away from my Ben & jerrys”. Where does that heat go?
I dont understand the inherent cause to (for a lack of a batter word) hate, a person because of their skin color or it being the cause of their dislike towards them. Skin color is something so benign and has to difference in a persons ability to be friend or not. Dont use the excuse of us being tribal animals and having a cause to distrust other tribes, we are beyond those times.
Kpop stans. I get it. You like their music. You don't have to worship them though.
JuIyen · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn bed times. When I was a kid, I did not understand that at all. My mom’s reasoning on bed times is because I’ll probably fall asleep in school. I fall asleep at school ANYWAYS because I wake up so early. I tried to explain this to her but she didn’t care
I genuinely don’t understand how reality came to be. How is anything real? What made space? Whenever I ask myself what made space it just gives me this anxiety all over my body. And I don’t mean what made the planets, or stars, or a galaxy. I mean what the fuck made the place where everything that exists, exists?
I don’t understand space travel and when scientists refer to something as “light years away” or like how if you look in a telescope a million galaxies away you can still see the dinosaurs on earth. Like how is that possible... my mind just cannot fully grasp it.
One light year is 186,000 miles. It's how fast light travels.
Let's say you're standing at one end of a field. I'm standing at the other end. If you were looking at my hands as I clap, you would notice that there's a delay between when my hands meet and you hearing the clap. This is the speed of sound.
Light works the exact same way. If you were in a galaxy millions of light years away, looking through whatever massive telescope it would take to see earth, the light (from the earth) that would finally go through your eye is millions of years old.
Computers. I don’t know how they work and I probably never will, too complex.
As well red stone in Minecraft, it looks simple yet I just can’t recreate it.
I also don’t understand maps at all, it’s just a bunch of random shapes to me and none of them look different enough that I know “that one is this country”
The concept of countries and their spendings.
We are being told countries don‘t have money for schools, better infrastructure or a minimum fixed income, yet they are capable of pumping hundreds of billions of dollars into the economy immediately in this time of crisis.
Also, why the hell do we not suffer from a massive inflation after all this is over and we put so much money out. I genuinely do not understand the way money works in these huge quantities.
Household AC power. I have a very firm grasp of DC, as I work with it every day, and I am known in the surrounding areas for finding and repairing very difficult to diagnose automotive electrical issues, but AC doesn't make any damn sense. How does any meaningful work get done when the current is flowing forward and backwards 60 times a second? Plus AC 110 hurts like hell when you screw up (and I understand the mechanics of why, your body is a capacitor and AC doesn't care about capacitance) but what the hell Tesla, you mad genius.
wanting current western societies to move towards less regulations for businesses, a government which essentially does nothing but military and police, and a society where all the problems are left for the 'free market' to solve.
Why do people support LGBT?
Adequate opinions only, no
"Because my liberal agenda says they are humans", I want an adequate answer since these people are mentally ill but we don't accept mentally ill people in our society, so why are they an exception?
They are not mentally ill. Same-sex attraction occurs all throughout the animal kingdom. Brains of gay people have been studied and they have determined that there are physical differences from straight people brains. Their brains are just different, not sick.
Also, most mental illnesses do not require isolation from others, and in fact most are not even treated.
Being gay does not harm anyone, so there's no need to consider gay people in need of any sort of treatment.
Some animals behave gay because of a disorder or a mental damage, and gay people do need to be cointained in my opinion because their impudency poses a threat to world regimes, since any anti-gay law in western countries will be bullied into non-existence by the moron media
Can you explain how gay people's impudence threatens world regimes? Is there a particular regime you're thinking of which could be toppled by gay people?
Most of the NATO and EU countries for example. They were so annoyed by these tiny lgbt protests that tricked the rich and influential people who support anything that sounds good. During the existence of the Soviet Union and constant economic crisis the countries simply had too many other concerns than the neversnding annoying protests. After LGBT got a foothold in modern politics in the 90s, they then managed to convince post-soviet countries to at least legalize lgbt.
Okay, so now LGBTQ people are free to love who they want to love just like you are, and they won't be arrested or imprisoned anymore. How is it that they have an effect on the governing of NATO and EU countries?
Ok, so if a country became ruled by gay people and the majority of people support them (either due to brainwashing or on their own accord), how specifically would it destroy a country?
Which morals do you think would be degraded by gay leaders being supported, aside from homesexuality which you believe to be immoral?
Why would mental illness increase in a country when mental illnesses are not contagious?
Because LGBT are all liberal thinkers and would gladly degrade morality to allow more mentally ill people to be normalized and bias the media. And in an LGBT country mental illnesses are kinds contagious if you think about it, since mental illbessed would be encouraged
Modern science does not consider homosexuality to be a mental illness whether you dislike it or not. Additionally, mental illness cannot be formed merely by it being encouraged or normalized. Homosexuality can not be "caught" or "spread" by it being encouraged or normalized, either - it's something biologically determined.
It sounds to me that what you don't care for is liberal-leaning politics. I'm not sure why you think that gay people are the major factor in liberal thought, when they only comprise around 10% of the world population, and a much higher percentage of people support liberal politics. I will venture a guess that you are a religious man in a country that values masculinity, such as many Latin American and middle eastern countries. If this is true, consider that you've been told what to believe from a very early age, and that if you're an adult now, you're free to examine things critically. It may be possible that your feelings about gay people have been shaped by your upbringing, your culture, and your religion, and are only feelings rather than actual knowledge based on science. What you view as immoral may not be universally accepted to be truly immoral.
The fact that you assume my nationality and that I believe in god makes you genuinely look pathetic as it makes you look like you associate the south american nations with non-liberal thoughts. I am actually Russian and atheist. Political and financial bias does not make modern gender studies truthful. And mental illness can be in fact contributed by its normalization and encouragement. Your generalization and altering of the already subjective morality such as "like it or not" proves that you are fine with the mentally ill people taking over and prefer to brag about it since your brain has been already washed in the new society where LGBT is normalized and backed by false studies
I only guessed at your background, which is why I used the verb "guess", so there's no need to insult me just for guessing incorrectly.
In any case, I think you're attributing way too much power to the LGBTQ community who simply want to exist in the world with the same rights as everyone else. That's literally it. You can live your life as you wish and they have zero impact on your life.
I'm not interested in discussing this further if you're going to continue insulting me - it really doesn't contribute anything to the discussion.
I read what you wrote - you think LGBTQ are mentally ill and immoral. I told you that homosexuality is not considered a mental illness, and you suggested that I based that on flawed studies, when I actually based that on the DSM-5 from the American Psychiatric Association. I do not know if there is a Russian organization which does psychological research and if there is one, I don't know if they in fact categorize homosexuality as mental illness. If you have that information about such an organization and their findings, I would love to see it.
I, too, am atheist, and I believe morality is subjective. You think homosexuals act immorally, and I do not. Why do you think you are correct and I am not?
How the world doesn’t run out of natural food. Like let’s use Rotisserie chickens for example. Costco alone sells 60,000,000 per year. Walmart sells these too, and so do several other grocery chains. Where the fuck are all these chickens coming from and how do they keep up production?
Where the alters go and what do they do when they aren’t fronting in someone with DID. Like I just straight up cannot fathom what that is like. Do the alters do things? Do they talk to each other? Does the host ever find out what abuse they underwent to have had their personality split? I just don’t understand how human minds built this defense mechanism against abuse.
Google may help.
It is the process of the female body preparing the lining of the uterus for pregnancy, and when no pregnancy happens, the body gets rid of the extra tissue it put in place for a fertilized egg to live on. The body repeats the process monthly, because biologically we are just animals and have an imperative to reproduce.
Girl testicle yeets egg down a tube. Egg tube is connected to the womb. If there's no sperm for the egg then the womb will tear it's insides out and throw them down into the vagina. This is very painful and will last for a week. Amount of pain varies from girl to girl ranging from mildly inconvenient to passing out from pain. No we cannot hold in the blood, same way you can't stop a papercut from bleeding.
Most girls are happy to answer any questions we seriously don't care
amoh23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are homophobic, racist, etc.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can be shown evidence and facts and still think that they’re right(antivaxxers/flat earthers). Like, with me if I see faces and evidence that my theory is wrong I’ll drop the theory but then there’s karen over here that gets shown legitimate legal documents proving that vaccines don’t cause autism and she just makes up some bullshit like “oH tHAtS jUSt tHe GoVErNmEnt HiDINg tHe tRuTH”. It confuses me.
How people think that just banning things or making them illegal fixes problems. Murder is a crime, yet murders happen daily. Another thing I don't understand is how people think that banning implements of death will help the murder rate go down. Scary murderous black one hundred magazine clipped black shoulder things that go up can be made from scratch with hand tools. With ease. Knives are all but banned in the UK and yet people still get stabbed. A lot. But knives aren't even particularly dangerous unless you know your stuff. I'd rather have a padlock in a sock than a knife. What are you gonna do, ban socks? Everything is a weapon or can be readily converted to a weapon. Banning things does jack.
They/Them pronouns and all that comes with it. Im not against it, I have a few friends who use they/them, and Im not saying its a bad thing. Hell, I can even somewhat understand trans people and why they transition. I just dont understand why people use They/Them pronouns or more specifically what makes someone think to disassociate themselves from "traditional gender" to put it badly.
How a computer or any circuit board, can use the transistor.
It's a bunch of on/off switches that are magically switched somehow. A majority of electronic components are pretty straightforward, but the transistor is a mystery to me.
Operational Amplifiers. I am a physics head and went to school for audio engineering. In my program we basically received a physics minor with all the classes we took and electronics was one of my favs. I pretty much aced everything in two years of physics classes except the test and final questions on opamps. I have absolutely 0 ideas about their purpose or function. I can't conceive of how they're uses or why. I completely bombed that exam.
Why do people need to take their whole families and clans and what not into the stores right now. You need one person to buy groceries for your family. Leave your shitbag kid in the car or at home. We need that ugandan policeman fucking capping everybody
how life that procreated without a sexual partner evolved into life that requires a partner. i mean , if a mutation made a being have an ejaculation sustem, another would have to have a sydtem to receive the genetic code
How I’m always seen as the bad person for cutting out toxic people even when it’s extremely evident that they are toxic. Like I’ll always lose a bunch of friends for cutting off one person. I even try talking things out so I don’t have to cut them out. Like let them know how their actions make me feel, etc. I’ve just accepted that this is what life is for me as a girl
How all the information get on the web? There's about 1.2 million terabytes of info on the surface web alone. Who puts it there? Is it slave labor in Beofrah of people transcribing data?? I just pretend it's magic.
Science class, it is genuinely so confusing to me. Like hey here’s rocks, oh, and now periodic table! I don’t understand anything about science but ig im passing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults acting as if celebrities are ungodly. Like, yeah they’re cool, and you,like their work, but jumping up and down screaming “_CELEBRITY NAME _ LOOK AT ME! OMG THEY LOOKED AT ME AHH WOOO IL OVE YOU”. I idolised them when I was younger (not to this extent) but now I find it a bit pathetic. But hey, each to their own.
Happiness, it's such a fickle thing. One day I'm just getting up, go to college, go to work then come home to hw, video games and my dog. And that's a good day.
Then for the rest of the week I do the same thing but it drags on, I'm not happy and I can't find anything interesting. It feels like some RNG
Why people use the word like so much. Like why? In America we use like so much. Like does putting Like in every sentence have any grammatical correctness. I'm pretty sure that like 90% of people don't really like realize how much times they use the word Like in a conversation. Is Like like some kind of like word that we have to use in like every sentence. I like detest people who use like in like every sentence they say. L-I-K-E, how is it like pronounced? Like with the E of "Hey" or of "called"? Please help me understand why people like use like so much.
Let’s say a train was built that went around the entire planet. If you travel on that train just under the speed of light for two years, you would travel x amount of years into the future. How? Aren’t you just traveling at that speed around a planet for 2 years?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works. Like how it actually works. Mystery to me.
how my physics teacher was less qualified to teach than me lmao. I had the same amount of teacher training as her and she only got a 5 on her physics (-C) and I was working at a 8 (low A*).
Six grade me in the early 2000s. history teacher has a massive miscalculation and decides to show Pearl Harbor for history class. I hate it but I was born a movie snob so nothing new there. I’m also a girl btw. Boy leans over to me during movie, goes: you know, I usually can’t see what girls find appealing in guys, but with Ben Affleck I totally get that he is a beautiful man.
i just look at him. Baffled. Ben Affleck type of guys who are basically made out of squares have never been appealing to me and I will never get it. I look at boy. I feel like I will never understand why he will never understand why men are attractive to girls except Ben Affleck.
in modern times it’s the Channing Tatum effect. Men made from squares with tiny eyes and very short hair. I will never understand. I will never get it. I cannot compute why template Ken doll is supposedly peak hotness for men in the eyes of every woman and boy I went to school with.
Parents that are horrible to their children. Some parents make their kids feel terrible for no reason, they call them names, yell at them, they make everything about themselves and complain about their problems but when their child speaks up about something bothering them, they wave it off. This is from my own personal experience and I know there are people out there whose parents are worse than mine and that’s a horrible thing to think about. I’ll never understand parents like that.
All beliefs aside, what the fuck comes after death? Like, you die suddenly, and then what happens? Do u just get reincarnated as a 100% different person, with no previous memory of your past life? Or, do you just kinda vibe with eternal darkness for eons?
Why every household doesn’t have at least one bidet installed in the place they live, if not on every toilet in that house hold. Way less TP is needed when you wash your ass first.
How annoying and unfunny some people on the internet are. Basically toxic communities like maximilianmus’ that think it’s funny to just say racist things.
When my wife says, "Yeah! Well that's because guys think different than girls!"
I had recently gotten a promotion at my company. Previously, I had bought, laundered and pressed my own shirts. Well, she did. Stay at home, mom/wife.
I would constantly buy new shirts, because I always wanted to look fresh and clean, because I knew this promotion was coming.
Booyaa! It happens! I got a shit ton of brand new shirts. Higher quality, company dry cleaners, etc. My wife laundered them.
When the shirts arrived, we had a WHOLE conversation about her not having to launder my shirts anymore.
She took my brand new shirts out of the plastic, took them to the laundry mat, and washed them.
Really?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND
How Trump is chosen to be the president... and still after all BS he pulled over the past few years, still has a good chance of running again for another 4 years.
(I am European)
How society and other things that are part of human life exist in general. How the fuck did some random guy think the squeezing cow tits and drinking the white liquid hat came out was a good idea? How did people decide that random sounds from their mouths mean random things? How did some people decide that something was the most powerful thing in existence and that it had to be worshipped? How did two humans realize that putting a thing in a hole made more humans??????!
The size and complexity of the universe. Like how tf does it rain diamonds on Saturn and Jupiter? And how crazy is it that the light we see from stars is from thousands/millions of years ago? Pulsars. Quasars. Dwarf stars. Nebulae. Astrophysics. I genuinely love space but damn if it isn't so complex.
I had friends or so called friends when came over to my place to chill ild be doing my chores n listen to what ever I like! One of them got pissed cause wouldn’t turn it off or down low! I simply said if you don’t like it there the door! I don’t rag on you for the stuff you listen to! So either chill n have a good time or go away!! They never came back. But the rest of us had a great time!!! It’s that simple injoy what you like that’s cool but we all have different like in music!! N that’s great be open minded to everything around you it’s life!!!
Generally don’t understand how someone can be a socialist after educating themselves about world economics and the system. Not trying to start shit, mostly looking for someone intelligent that I can have a debate with because I’m curious
Romantic and sexual attraction, specifically crushes. Like why does my friend feel so upset about being single? Why does he need a bf? Just dont get why yall want to slap flesh against each other. I'm aromantic and asexual btw
I'm a science teacher, and I could explain to you exactly what electromagnetism is, how it works, the theory behind it, the equations you can use for it...
But at the end of the day, it's all magic caused by particles that aren't even real, creating a field that doesn't exist that affects things beyond itself because we say it does.
It's genuinely magic, we just have called it science.
how our universe is just there and infinite. as far as we know its always been there but how can something have always be there and be infinite? how can something exist but was never created. how were the rocks and gas that formed us have always been there? something just doesn't come from nothing.
gives me gas just thinking about it.
ch536 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras, video cameras and televisions work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to start, and continue a conversation without being dry
Furries. Are the Philly Phanatic or other costumed mascots part of the whole furry culture? Is there some sort of distinction? Look at the mascot for the University of Washington Huskies......Pretty sure I've seen something similar on r/WTF.
I don't understand how a tiny argument can break up a couple, friendship, or anything really. It's because of one tiny detail an entire relationship is destroyed, I don't get it! And it's always some massive fight too, like why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C6H12O6+6O2–>6CO2+6H2O happens every time you take a breath
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll probably get hate for this but fuck it. Why do girls say they hate when guys checking them out but wear revealing/seductive clothes?
I work out and feel uncomfortable if I'm wearing a t-shirt that rolls up and shows my arms too much.
I've known a few that only eat carbs and protein in all it variations but cannot stand fruit or vegetables. Not even tomato or lettuce with their hamburger.
I just can't believe their body is not asking for vitamins or minerals.
What I don't fucking get is when I'm thinking of something that I have to get or do I immediately forget as soon as I leave the room I thought about it in! My mom says it has something to do with the doorways.
How people put blind faith in astrology like yeah sure it's fun to see what it says but I've met people that won't talk to me because we "aren't compatible signs"
Why I seem to be so slow to learn things. Like it's like my brain just turns to mud when it receives new information. I usually catch onto things months, sometimes YEARS after it's explained to me.
It made the first decade of my adult life very difficult. It also makes me really scared to try to learn new skills.
I'm an IT technician but everything I learned was by watching and doing. If you ask me what x acronym means or how y protocol works I draw a blank. Yet somehow I'm still able to do my job with minimal difficulty.
I'm leaving my career this year and going back to school for a subject I'm super interested in but once again I'm nervous that I'll not be able to keep up.
I understand the science and threat of climate change, however i dont understand the goals of most climate change activists. They dont seem to realize that climate will change regardless of human intervention. We could become completely carbon neutral and our climate would still fluctuate between ice ages and tropical times and the same issues with human survival (famine, migration, natural disasters, and novel diseases) would occur. You can certainly make a "flattening the curve" argument like they did with Covid, not pretending you can stop it but rather lessen the hit, but that never seems to be the message. Thoses people seem to think getting rid of fossil fuels will end all climate change and we'll live in a garden of eden from then on.
These so called "Bad words".
To me the only bad word is the word bad.
Tell me 1 bad word that doesn't have an acceptable synonym.
It's all ridiculous bull manure to me and these people who get offended by words can go sadomise them selfs or would you prefer, go make love to your self?
Why people eat meat. I understand that it’s tasty but after you’ve learned how the animals are treated, the environmental impact, and the risk to your health, what is the point??? There are so many ways the world would improve without the meat industry (antibiotic effectiveness, ability to feed the impoverished, less suffering, extended lifespans, available land) and it’s almost like people don’t care?
es-cee · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get offended after debates or discussions. I mean, okay, maybe you have a different opinion in politics/sports/film or music but that doesnt mean you'll start hating the other person for having their own opinions and principles .
How to find a job that pays well that's not serving or bartending
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How old/new cameras, film development, Polaroids, video/VHS, internet, phone lines work. As well as wrapping my mind around space and how there is no "end". Thinking of how these things were invented and how they work makes me feel simple and unintelligent.
How to kill myself. Like do I have enough pills or no? I have 23 pills of 600MG tablets of Ibuprofen and 33 pills of Quetiapine 100mg. If I take everything all at once (possibly including alcohol) will I die?
I’m a 17 year old female and honestly I find pills the most peaceful way to go. But I’m tired of not being dead so if I have to I’ll jump in front of a train. I’d just prefer pills.
Not ideal :/ I want to assure death. I don’t want to have to go into ICU and deal with all of that and mental hospitals again. Last time I was having seizures for weeks and couldn’t walk. It left me with extremely bad memory loss. Also did ETC (electric shock therapy...it’s legal in NY) as a last resort and that also did nothing but ruin my memory even more. So I’d want to assure death
That sucks horse cock ab your memory. But I'm not gonna give you a inquiry of how to kill your self. I understand that you want to die and I cant do shit but life can get better.
Where do stoners get the idea from that weed is not addictive? It's like a myth that just started to exist a long time ago, and they all claim it's science, but 1 second on google and you know better.
It's less addictive than you think. And NO it's not meth or heroin or any opioid. Those can be where if you take one hit you'll be really addicted to. I've smoked on and off and never had to be in rehab at all. I get what your saying ab the people who use it daily but once or twice won't addict you. It's still a drug but it's not as dangerous as you think. It's your dealer who you need to worry ab dont want something laced.
I'd say it's more addictive than you think, but I don't know how addictive you think it is, so that statement makes just as little sense as what you just said (:
Here's another thing I don't get, why do stoners get this defensive over their hobby they all claim they're not addicted to? It's seriously weird. One on those things I just can't wrap my head around.
My point was that you don't know how addictive I think it is, so it's weird of you to say it's less than that. And I don't get it. Why the defensive posture, unprovoked?
You didn't answer my question have you ever smoked weed. Also I think you're mistaking how I'm trying to come off. I'm not defending weed or trying to be defensive about it but what I am saying is when I used it for pain or just to chill I didn't have to go to rehab to get off of it.
Yeah kinda, you have no idea what you're talking about you call me defensive and talk about weed like you've smoked. Weed isn't as addictive as you think at all yet you tell me it is more than I think. It's legal in multiple states including mine btw and their not gonna legalise something that's so addictive.
Imagine thinking you have to do the addictive drug before you're allowed to talk about it. This is what baffles me about stoners.
So I need to smoke tobacco before I can say it's addictive? Ever note how many tobacco smokers can quit whenever they want, supposedly? How do I know cocaine is addictive? Spend 3 seconds reading what you write and you should realise it doesn't make sense. It's a weak defense. And it is always the same with stoners.
Alcohol kills a shit ton more. At least in the USA and also I said that the other drugs are dangerous like cocaine its very addictive I never said it wasn't. I also agree with you about tobacco (quit a couple years back). But if you aren't even gonna be open to some kind of open train of thought your not gonna get your first answer at all. Because the answer is what you want to hear
We were talking about how addictive it is, pay attention. I am not talking about deathrates. Alcohol and tobacco are both addictive, tobacco is even designed to be addictive. Yet they are legal. Weed being legalised is not an argument that i is not that addictive.
I agree with you that weed may not be ao addictive. But I also think that atoners that go out of their way like you are doing probably are. Otherwise I do not understand why you are here.
I'm not defending that it's not addictive never said it was at all. I get you about the death rates man but its fucking dangerous same with tobacco. But your never gonna understand the stoners if you dont agree that weed is perfectly safe ( which its NOT) their just gonna argue.
But your never gonna understand the stoners if you dont agree that weed is perfectly safe ( which its NOT) their just gonna argue.
So I have to believe the same lies is what you're saying? That's true to my experience, but I do not understand it.
Alcoholists tend to hate their addiction, see the poison for what it is, they don't like that they're doing it. They just can't stop. And they're ashamed of it. Sure they make excuses, but they know it's harming them.
Tobacco same thing. Never had a tobacco smoker NOT tell me not to start.
Yet with weed, it has become a religion where you believe it is harmless, not addictive, cures anxiety (despite the fact it can cause it), cures depression (tends to make it worse according to some experts), and if you don't use, they reply the way you did, but MUCH less rational. For whatever reason, it just conjures up an us vs. them attitude and that is probably the most dangerous part of the addiction.
I do have experience with several tobacco and weed addicts. Even some weed addicts that were pushing really hard to get me to use. And one caffeine addict that is currently removing it from her diet. It's just the weed addicts that act this way. And I don't get it.
I'm only gonna say one thing and the I'll leave " cures anxiety (yet despite the factit can cause it)" does take the edge off what your referring to is after people smoke way to much and way to offen and then they stop. If you smoke once this wont happen nor will alot you mentioned but I agree with you
Maybe good to note, in practice smoking once should be harmless (except the smoke, for me smoking once would be a horrible idea due to a lung condition). The only risk is it becoming an addiction, and that is not guaranteed, of course.
The fact that there are genuinely people put there with no mental health problems. I really feel like they're a myth. I know some people that claim/look like they don't have any mental health problems and I just can't fathom it.
like imagine caring THAT much about a stranger you saw in the street once & you became so offended by it that you had to speak your thoughts & feelings into existence
(also, i understand ppl struggle with their sexual identity so they have to take it out on others to sort of 'prove' themselves as hetero but it's j like bro--it's not that deep)
Girls G-spots, I understand clits and how to give a girl a orgasm (most of the time). Yet I've recently been with this girl who wants me to hit that spot. Yet it's so damn tricky to find and properly hit well without her shaking or squirming. I get its probably the best orgasm ever yet its really tricky for us guys. I prefer sticking to the clit as its easier and more simpler than most guys make it out to be. Yet I understand why girls love it but why is it hidden like the magic Easter egg in video game.
The expansion of the universe in relation to where things were when the light we see now started to come towards us. Like if a galaxy currently appears to be 13 billion light years away because it took 13 billion years for the light to reach us, how far away was it when the light started and before universe expansion caused the light to travel further and how far away is that galaxy's actual distance now.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything about cameras. How does a bunch of wires and glass and stuff “see”? How does it “see” everything in front of it and put it onto a screen? I don’t get it at all.
After high school I feel like I’m on a time limit but I have the rest of my life ahead of me, I just don’t understand why people say you should immediately go to school/start your career.
Vinon · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there still deeply religious people.
And before I get the usual "o wow so edgy lol", this is an honest answer.
O can't fathom how someone can believe in angels and demons and gods. Its like if someone came up to me and seriously told me that he thinks lotr is a real story, and orcs are just hiding.
tits, why do people like them they're kinda just fat sacks. i got yelled at when I told people I saw tits for the first time and I said I wasn't a fan.
How black widow and Steve Rogers had the conversation about whether or not he trusts nat after the first avengers, during the winter soldier. I mean, They kicked ass together against the alien army if that wasn’t enough then that’s ridiculous.
Partial Differential Equations. Three semesters of my brain exploding exponentially.
Also, how to get a notification if someone replies to me on a Reddit thread.
How my brain works and why it does the things it does. I can rationally think to do something, understand why I need to do it, then not want to do it, then berate myself for not doing the thing.
es-cee · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, the "Please confirm if you aren't a robot" tests on sites. I mean seriously, do they work?
How people can be so abusive to someone mentally and just live like that.
I do one little thing that makes a person a little bit sad and I'm overwhelmed by guilt and all.
My ex used to be so abusive and I didn't realised it until now and I can't understand.
Like how can you harm someone so bad mentally and drop their confidence into the ground and be aware of it and sleep at night
How people can be anything but careful, vigilant and courteous behind the wheel. You're behind the controls of a multi-ton killing machine, capable of ruining or taking both your life and the lives of innocent strangers due to a moment's negligence.
I often compare it to everyone walking around with a loaded handgun. It's a risk-laden responsibility that most people seem to grasp; muzzle a safe direction, finger off the trigger, mindful of surroundings, etc. But then, every 10th or 12th nitwit out there is waving it around or sweeping people for fun or scratching their nose with the muzzle. People don't take automobiles seriously enough.
mz509 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Software languages
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is kind of obvious but racism and sexism. It isn’t hard to understand that people think they are just inherently better because of their gender or the color of their skin. It legitimately blows my mind.
Basically, you first make a budget and figure out what you want to do. Then pick a CPU that fits in your budget / needs. Then match it with a motherboard that fits your budget / needs. Get 8 or 16 GB of DDR4. Get a graphics card if you are gaming. Get a SSD for your OS and programs. Get a hard drive for bulk data storage. Next, choose a case that fits your motherboard. Last, pick a power supply, 500W from any reputable brand is fine.
When putting it together, most things will be clear how they fit. Your case will come with directions, sometimes cases do things differently from each other. Screws for the motherboard. Watch videos on installing a CPU, that's the only difficult part where you can break something. The memory and graphics card go into their slots. Once the drives are mounted in the case, SATA is straightforward. The PSU will have all kinds of cables, lots of them are labeled these days. The main ATX power is the biggest, then the 12v motherboard connector for the CPU, the 6pin PCI-E cable for the graphics card, then the Sata power connectors for the hard drive.
Electricity. I'm and soon to be architecht and I can visualize estructures, tension, a lot of physics involved in various scenarios. But it doesn't matter how much I try to study anything electric related, I'm not able to understand it. Also alchemy glad I don't touch that subject that often.
iZuqh · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still believing the earth is flat or that the moon landings were fake. Like wtf we know for over 2000 years the earth isn't flat. And it can be proven in minutes.
The notion of investing in the stocks or 401k in the free market. Even before the pandemic never understood wealth just showing up on a screen and going away. Yet people still participate in this ponzi scheme.
People who vote for parties and individual politicians who act or promote ideas that work directly against their own, and their friends and families interests.
Like gay people who vote for anti-gay politicians, I will just never be able to wrap my head around that.
Cheating on a spouse/SO. I just really don’t know how that’s a thing people do and where any enjoyment comes in. If you’re unhappy, can’t you just break up with the person you’re unhappy with?
Believing strongly in things that would make you hate someone for being different. I genuinely cannot understand why people are racist or homophobic, I seriously don’t get why
Paranormal investigators and urban explorers running from what they encounter. The logic doesn't connect.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why employers label their positions as “Entry Level” in their job posts. But then require at least 2 years experience, with certificates in these so & so programs, fluency in 8 languages and 5 Olympic gold medals.
I don’t wanna say it’s clickbait, but it’s clickbait.
DnD. No idea how it works, had a friend try and tell me how but it went in one ear and out the other. Makes absolutely no sense to me how to play or how any of the dice, player stats, or boards (? I’ve seen some boards used) work.
m_pzz · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that I’ll never be able to be outside of my body and my perception and that I cannot be certain of whether other people exist or not. And also how tf do I get to reason all of this and think, like who’s in my mind and who tells me this stuff inside my brain.
Why someone can't just drive a plane like a normal person in videogames, I just tried the prison break in GTA and the pilot would destroy the plane like it's a stunt plane Everytime he can, and when I told him, he tried but then he tried to land IN the prison instead of the airfield
Why so many people seem to lack a basic sense of compassion for other human beings just because they're different or have no personal stake in their lives.
What century we are in. Everytime it is explained to me it makes sense but I never get it for long. I think that 1859 was the 19th century and we are in the 21st but in 2200 it will be the 22nd?? Because you don't count year zero but there is no way I would say anything with certainty around my coworker or people who I don't want to know how stupid I can be.
Chernobyl. And how it’s still radiated. And why people still live in little villages next to it if the show made it seem like they were forcing people with threats of violence if they didn’t leave.
Every day people who feel the need to own military grade weapons. A small pistol to defend yourself or a hunting rifle, sure, but will never understand folks who buy AR-15s, etc.
How people go to film school and/or study movies and then go on and make shit movies they're satisfied with
kpe18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are people living in New York and California when they are living in the USA, it's like, a slave that has been released from their captors but prefers to stay with them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like Christianity. People legitimately believe some magic man in the clouds can create a universe yet give a shit about them personally. Blows my mind
How engineers figured out how to make some of these complicated devices we use today. Sure, you can explain to me how these things are made, and I’ll go “oh cool so they do it like that”, but people figured out how to make those things with no prior knowledge. It honestly blows my mind.
What so special about dogs. I’ve always been indifferent to them, they affect me as much as trees, I just don’t care about them at all. They’re agitated, they lick you, they eat everything (including poop). I don’t care if you have one and love him, I just personally don’t understand the insane culture around them.
Stock market. I follow r/wallstreetbets because it looks like they're having a lot of fun over there. However, I'd be lying if I said I understand ANY of it.
How people don’t think it’s important to self isolate and not hang out in group if not absolutely necessary during a fucking pandemic. You don’t know where your buddies have been and who they’ve come in contact with and shit doesn’t get serious until someone you know passes away. Your stupidity and recklessness gives you a greater chance of getting the virus and taking ventilator away from someone who was careful and never wanted to get it, from someone immunocompromised, from someone who works in healthcare/essential job and risked their life helping others, etc. because of ventilator rationing.
Why people don’t realize how dirty money is? It’s so gross to me! I mean think about your single dollar bills. Most have been in some strippers butt crack at some point. Or between some huge woman’s sweaty breasts while she’s walked around Walmart! Or even some snotty kid’s pocket on the way to buy ice cream or candy. Super yuck! I watched a woman yesterday put a couple of bills in her mouth as she struggled to pull out enough to buy her groceries yesterday and I swear I almost threw up right there in my mask !!! 🤮😷 Btw, I only pay with my credit card.
Seems it’s the easiest thing in the world for everyone but me. I’ve had several try to teach me multiple times over the years (In my 30s) and cannot pick it up.
Left wingers, Democrats, Liberals and Progressives trying to ban something they have no idea about. If you're gonna come after something you better make damn sure you understand it inside out.
Why little kids are obsessed with horror stuff, specifically Five Nights At Freddy’s and Stephen King’s It, particularity Pennywise. They make tons of little plushies of all these characters and little kids ages 7-10 or thereabouts live them. It makes no sense at all.
why i am 23 years old and have yet to have sex with a girl and have a girlfriend. Let alone why i can only build a few connections with a couple friends and not many people
First of all making the player an absolute idiot isn't gonna make me immediately want to download the game especially after seeing how easy and pointless the game is.
Secondly having click bait ads is gonna make me resent the game even more because on most of them I've played them before and seeing this(even though I already have the game) is gonna make me wanna delete it instead. Also having things like: "if you pass this level you have 143 IQ" or "Only 1% of people pass this level" is obviously unbelievably stupid and also gonna make me wanna delete it.
So if you're gonna make a mobile game ad then make the game good so you don't have to have click bait ads that'll drive people crazy!!!
Taxes. Why can’t the man take what he needs right away and leave everything else alone? It could be so much simpler. I Might also feel this way because I really don’t understand why I might owe or get money back. Doesn’t make any sense to me at all.
The government may not know about all of the income you make. The government also does not know what deductions you will make. Because of these things, the government doesn't know how much taxes you really owe.
But they still take taxes out of your income. So at the end of the year, you have already paid X dollars in taxes. But then you report the extra income you have from your side business, and also several deductions you get because you have a business. Now you owe Y dollars in taxes for that year. And if Y dollars is less than the X dollars that you already paid, the government owes you money back.
The recent viral video of a dude right out in the open on a sidewalk shoving his hand down the back of his lady’s jeans and placing his fingers in or around her asshole. Almost understandable. What I completely don’t understand follows. He removes said stank hand with attached fece fingers and presents them to his lady who enjoys a nice, deep lunged sniff. But why? Just why??
Like, I get little white lies. Or lies that protect people, like "Did my son suffer when he died in that car accident?" Obviously you'd lie if you have to.
But like, "It's your baby." Or "Yeah, I'm single." Why lie about that shit? What do you get? A bunch of destroyed lives?
People who post Facetune/heavily edited pictures of their children on social media. It is both bewildering and upsetting. Like if you want to make yourself look like a deformed Bratz doll that's fine, your business, but I have seen people literally Photoshop and heavily filter their infants and toddlers. Just WHY?!?!
How drugs work in the US. I'm not American and I just don't understand why people can casually confirm on camera that they smoke weed or even smoke on camera , like in my country if you talk about that on the phone or someone else finds out you go to the foking prison.
How people believe the stories in the bible actually happened, but wouldn’t believe any of them if they happened in current time. For instance, would you ever believe nowadays a woman could get pregnant and still be a virgin? A man walking on water? We would say they are crazy lunatics and never believe them. I genuinely do not understand this.
Macroeconomics. Sure, I understand supply and demand. Elastic and inelastic etc. But WTF is going on at the State, National, and International level?
For example I live in California. All of our state leaders are slapping each other on the ass celebrating that we have a "budget surplus." Meanwhile, we also have an estimated 287 BILLION unfunded pension obligation.(see the link below) How is this possible?
If an individual said, "wow, I paid all of my bills and have a bunch of $$ left over" (surplus) but they also owed 100k in credit card debt (unfunded liability) they would be in a crappy financial situation. But at the state level, it's time to par-tay with all of the extra money.
The same seems to happen at the Federal Level. We have a massive national debt and lawmakers bicker and fight over spending during normal times. Then a disaster occurs and suddenly we have an extra 3 TRILLION dollars to spend on relief. Don't get me wrong, I understand that we need to help people during desperate times but how does this happen?
Why people don’t just do what they know darned well they’re supposed to do.
You tell people, “Don’t smoke cigarettes. Don’t do drugs. Don’t spend more money than you make. Don’t commit crimes,” etc. Then they turn around and smoke cigarettes, do drugs, charge up their credit cards, break into people’s houses, etc.
And then, when their life turns to shit (“I have lung cancer!”) you think, “Of COURSE you have lung cancer! You smoked cigarettes. That’s why we told you not to do it. And here you are whining about how the very thing we told you would happen, happened.” Wouldn’t it have been simpler, cheaper, easier and less painful to do the right thing in the first place?
How people view the coronavirus peaking in a certain as a sign the end is near for it. Since there isn’t a vaccine wouldn’t the cases just go back up once people resume normal life?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How car insurance works. I'm really illiterate when it comes to car insurance.
I've spent so long showing people statistics and evidence, but still they ignore it all. There was an interesting short french movie on youtube that showed the roles reversed. Men as the caregivers for children, stay at home parents, etc. Women wearing no tops when jogging, women being in all the jobs, women harassing men in the streets. It's such an eye opening movie, but because we are so used to seeing these things happening to women we just dont seem to care.
Responding to womens issues with "what about men" just distracts from the conversation and ensures women never get the help they need. Ofc men need help in certain areas, but they shouldn't be talked about when discussing womens issues. It's a separate conversation. (Same vice versa)
Misogynists have their obvious reasons for not wanting to help, they want to keep women oppressed. But I like to believe most men are better than that...but they don't prove it by publically supporting women. They assume that as long as they're not doing the negative behaviour then there doing good, but their lack of support hurts. We need to be allies to each other.
I dont understand the hatred and need to oppress us just because we have a different gender.
How bad shit happens to people?
Like sometimes there is no reason behind it, it just happens and the person affected has to fix or make it better. Its so sad.
My friends bath tub/faucet. It’s been 2 months and I still don’t know how to turn on the shower. Too embarrassed to ask. I have to use a plastic cup and “shower” when he isn’t home.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't get why we're able to suspend the constitution and throwing money in every companies pockets but unable to do the same to prevent climate change.
Climate change will kill more than covid-19 through heat strokes, heat exhaustion, lost crops, etc.
Are humans really that short sighted? If so we really deserve to be extinct. Rather sooner than later.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know there is scientific advoce on how to get a hold of human made climate change and because of covid-19 europe is over achieving in the Paris climate treaty. So don't tell me we can't do anything about it. Right now we are doing more than we need.
The goal should be to do it without breaking the constitution and huge loss of rights.
The COVID lock down is bullshit. Also, man cannot stop the climate from changing. We are not turning the clock back now and our contribution is minuscule compared to a sun flare. Man cannot control the sun either.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course we're able to control the climate. We managed to repair the hole in the ozone layer by adjusting our pollution. We managed to get rid of acid rain.
Do your research before you write.
Btw. A solar flare has absolutely no effect on our weather.
"Of course we're able to control the climate." No we cannot. It will continue to change on Earth forever (as long as humans can comprehend). Don't be silly.
What the Sense of self is physically, and what consciousness is.
st0zax · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life came to be. I understand the circumstances needed, but how did molecules come together in such a way that they can make decisions and do things willingly? Like is it all really just a series of chemical reactions?
And on a similar topic, how does the brain work? It’s crazy and I need to know.
Most of calculus and mathematics. Why people don’t understand the impacts of losing natural resources and biodiversity. Why people aren’t more kind with one another. So much, I don’t understand so much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world without anything. As in, no planets, no “space,” nothing. Hard to process.
Incels. All women are disgusting whores and useless and yet their whole “movement” is based on....having sex with women? Or rather, their inability to have sex with women. It’s, by nature, oxymoronic; it makes no sense. They hate women, but want nothing more than female attention. It’s so stupid.
I don't understand how some people make so much money. I don't have any real specialized skills so I don't value my time that highly, but when I hear people make $100-200k a year or even more it breaks my brain.
how people lie for no reason or just because. they could be talking and just lie about something to make themselves liked, I never really understood why.
I have a hard time grasping how people “become” a couple. Like two people are in a play together and then a week later they’re an item. What happened to make that happen? It’s like when you were a kid trying to understand magnets. It was two things, bow they are together, but how?
Or how they start careers. Like one minute I was in high school with you and the next you’re a teacher. I just have never really “gotten” the middle steps and it’s so weird to me. Getting jobs in general is strange and difficult fir me let alone some defining career.
Anyway, this is why I’m a thirtysomething loser; the world confuses me and these sre things we were never taught.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer programming. I've tried my best to learn and though I grasped if-then statements loops and raise I don't understand how assets can be drawn in to make a user interface and meaningful program
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i cant have at least one day ever where i feel well rested
How really the economy works, i mean i undestand the basics of capitalism for example, but the complex economic moves made for example by the goverments just fuck my mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to comment on people's food choices and the amounts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are racist towards other races coming into western countries and especially over a pandemic.
The amount of hate natives and middle easterns in my city is disgusting. Hearing "they're always drunk in the streets" or "they're ruining our culture" is disgusting. Yes, there us an alcohol and drug problem here, but there are more white addicts than natives, the natives just stick out because they're not white. And middle easterns aren't ruining our culture, they are our culture. Noth America is a culture based on many cultures from many different places. I don't see anyone complaining about St.Patrick's day.
Also, I went grocery shopping today and people where staring deer eyed at two asians in the store, jetting by them like their life depended on it, but the same people would stand 1 foot away from any other white person or leisurely strolling past them. Like, fuck you.
tibla · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trade and salary cap rules for sports teams in general. For example, rules surrounding transfer windows and deadlines, franchise tags, massive transfer fees amongst European clubs, MLS’s TAM, GAM, designated player, and homegrown player rules, guaranteed money in contracts, luxury taxes, etc.
Chemistry. I graduated barely scraping by in that one. Also my native language is English but I got a D in it and an A in Spanish. Anything passed graphing in math is beyond me. My best subjects were art and literature. I'm great socially but thats about it.
Why Americans didn’t rally behind Bernie Sanders who seemed to genuinely be looking out for the greater good of the people...as opposed to joe biden who appears to be losing his mind and trump who lost his mind a long time ago.
People who blame their problems on others, I get to an extent but I know so many people who make the effort to free themselves from blame instead of helping their situation. Like it sucks that your life isn’t great but blaming it on someone does nothing to help you
Why the media pushes companys into hiring more females in higher positions.
I genuinely don't understand it.
You should hire someone because of their skills, not because some feminists tell you that you need more women in higher positions.
Recursion, I get it, but I don't get it, do you get what I mean when I say I don't get it? Because genuinely I don't get it, but sometimes I do get it and it's like "oh how didn't I get this before" because now I totally get it. But then I look at it again and I don't get it.
In any game with a team speaking system there will always be that one guy, for no reason, screaming into his mic "SHUT UP" over and over along with other profanities at the people just trying to have a good time playing the game and speaking to their teammates.
It's either a choice to be a complete dick and I just don't get why you would want to be one, or you're actually completely unaware that you're an asshole and that might even be worse.
djp73 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market and how it works. I still haven't watched The Wolf of Wall Street because I've seen a few films with that whole 'Wall Street' theme and it's like they expect you to understand the stock market and how it works, but I don't. It might be because I'm from a small country in Europe and no one really does that here, and I guess a lot of working class Americans have some share of stocks in something.
Accounts. I analyse them every day and still cant make correlations between the balance sheet and p&l. I have to read my same few notes every day to figure out why I'm not balancing. And I did it for 4 years in college!
Aerospace engineering. Specifically on planes. Despite watching several videos on design I cannot of the life of me solve to problem of my planes in KSP veering off to one side on the runway. It's what kills all of my designs.
Those numbers and facts are impossible to grasp. The concept of time and order is a human creation so I guess,the big bang,black holes,galaxies,perhaps "other" universes e.t.c. could be explained,just not by the human mind.
Like...why does it matter if the earth is round or flat? You’re here for such a short amount of time, whatever shape it is, you ain’t getting off it alive. Just enjoy your life. Don’t worry about that stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gravity effects time.
Like I understand that it happens, and I understand that they are related somehow. But I cannot wrap my head around how more gravity=slower time. Just not smart enough to quite get it.
I have both that we are on a collision course with the Andromeda galaxy and that the space in between galaxies is expanding, pushing them away from each other.
Electricity. My brain will never understand why electrons moving can change the image or transfer sound or really anything. My extent of real hardware knowledge is how film cameras work and radio works. Everything else is a mystery. At least I know how to use a computer though :/ I hope when i get old I keep up with how to use the tech of the current time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having to lie about why you left a previous job when the real reason was sexual harassment.
How multiple families can live in one house and be OK with it. You know, like a normal size house, not too big, and like eight adults and four kids living in it, plus probably 4 dogs.
I consider myself an audiophile from an appreciation of sound point of view. I also have a very detailed ear that can hear differences between speakers and sources.
But I don’t understand how the actual sound is reproduced. Yes, woofers and cones move air but how does the sound come out? How does the computer play back a digital audio file through my speakers????
People need to conform; why Instagram allows prostitution; why being bisexual or gender morphia is more common now a days and more common in people that does drugs.
How we take videos, I don't really understand how cameras work so that they can document the real world, I also don't understand how we capture audio and add it to the video
soulmates. i know there are people who get along really well with each other, but i can’t imagine being perfect for each other. it just doesn’t make sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Audio: tapes, cds, speakers, vinyl, digital whatever formats, etc. I know how they work, but it's like I'm not actually convinced these work like I know they do.
How some ultra religious conservatives in America say they hate liberals and the idea of democracy and use the Bible as a guidebook for how our country should be run. The very word liberal comes from the word “liberty”, if a gay person gets fired from a job for being gay and files for a discrimination lawsuit against a company with a homophobic boss they cry “religious freedom” but if they get fined and blasted online for being homophobic then they blame liberals and the government. We’re a democratic republic, hell we’re even part socialist from an economic standpoint yet they can’t seem to wrap their heads around the fact that they want to wrench control of the many and give it to the few just so they can feel validated in the eyes of their god. Isn’t that one of the reasons why early colonists came to this country?
How people can feel sympathy for fellow humans, cats, dogs, horses, dolphins, and monkeys yet be indifferent about the suffering of cows, chickens, and pigs
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH!! I struggle so much with it and always have. I’m 24 and just started college and revisiting math makes me want to cry. First of all, I’m literally never going to use it. Ever.
And then for some reason my brain can’t make sense of it. I got straight a’s in school besides math. I remember once my friend was trying to explain a problem to me in class and when I didn’t understand she said “ stop acting stupid on purpose, it’s not cute”. Like nooo I’m stupid in real life it’s not cute
Neon Genesis Evangelion. I have watched it several times, I watched the movie, I've read wikis, explanations, and thought pieces. Im almost 40 over here, this anime has haunted me for about 25 years. I still can't figure out why Shinji is such a whiny little bitch.
Why my sister has to wait to be a certain age to do a certain thing, but when she tries to do that certain thing I, her younger brother about 2 years younger than her, have the option to do it with her. Same goes for an app or item. She has to wait to be a certain age to get a certain item or app, but then once she is old enough I can get that item or app too. I don't even want to do or want the item most of the time.
TLDR; My sister has to wait to be a certain age to get something or do something, but once she turns that age I, two years younger than her, can get that same item or do that same thing.
z3k3m4 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same happens with me and my brother who is 2 years older than me. Long story short: parents are retarded.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I have an undergrad in engineering and I could never quite wrap my head around it. It “flows” but not in any sort of way that my brain can draw a real world, simple comparison. I understand math behind waves and energy individually, even some basic concepts like voltage and resistance. It seems like no matter how many formulas I remembered to scrape past the classes, something never clicked in my brain to the point where I could just understand it at the logical level. To this day I am afraid of walking through electrical rooms, or just plain paranoid about overloading the circuits at home because I don’t have the “street smart” cheat sheet in my brain to know what’s totally safe, mildly ok and bound for failure. It’s a good thing I use my engineering degree in a business capacity..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Is there a greater purpose? Is that purpose self-doubt and misery or happiness? Am I doing it wrong if I’m not happy? Is happiness a state of mind or a place you get after achieving X amount of things in your life? Do you know when you’ve achieved X amount of things? How many things is X amount of things? Are these things under any specific category of life events: Friendships, love, career, children, education, furry, travel, sexual, hobby? Something else? Why did anyone think Trump was a good idea? Is the number of things 27?
Car dealerships. I don’t understand how there can be THAT many people buying new or used cars in my metro area to necessitate the thousands of cars displayed on lots at dealerships around town. How long do they stay there? What happens when they’re not bought? Why are there so many vehicles?!???
My age. Im 17 and this age is full bs. Its possible that only in this country but every teen wants to get drunk, smoke weed and give/get the D. I have to talk to 25+ people for good conversations because i cant have one with same age. It makes me cringe soooo bad when they talk about how drunk they got. Like this is todays status symbol. How many times you threw up last night. Help me i want to talk to someone...😕
Nixty_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i dont understand myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly. I had to read Thomas Pynchon in university, and sometimes I still go to Wikipedia to try and understand: what does entropy mean and how does Maxwell’s Demon challenge the second law of thermodynamics? And still 100% do not understand.
Why someone would talk shit about people who have a different skin tone than them just because of said skin tone. They haven't even gotten to know each other and already BOOM categorized. I just don't see how people can be that fucking stupid.
B-V-M · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the people who have kids complaining about the 10 million things they have to do and how hard it is taking care of their kids at home all day since this covid thing. Like they deserve a statue in D.C, or a medal. They post to Facebook, Reddit, insta and Twitter 300 times a day, so how overwhelmed can they be?
Why people will STILL argue that Bernie wanted to enslave the healthcare providers and force them to supply care when all he was asking for was AFFORDABLE healthcare.
How can they not realize that? Where do they get their information?
There are almost an infinite number of colors/spectrums and we can only see a very small percentage of them. Obviously we will never know what the other colors or spectrums look like, but imagining the possibilities of what they may look like blows my mind.
The concept of life and how we do the same things over and over again and add in friends to make sure that we dont kill our selves in this infinite abyss of life, and also sao the anime
How being transgender works. I genuinely don’t understand how in your mind you can know that you’re supposed to be the opposite sex when you don’t know what being the opposite sex feels like. I’ve tried to bring this up nicely to people before because I don’t understand and it always ends up with hostility. It sucks that we can’t talk about these things because there are a lot of confused people out there, including me. I’ve never been mean about it, I support my trans friends and adapt to however they wish to be called but I’ve never understood the mental part of it. But maybe I never will, maybe it’s just something that you need to experience to understand
As an engineer, I dont understand electrics. Very, very basic stuff I can follow with formulas, but anything above that causes serious understanding difficulties.
It's not like Plague Inc where there's a counter that ticks the instant someone gets infected. They have to get infected, develop symptoms, realise that it's not a usual illness, get tested. Then the number of infected goes up by 1. It takes about a week for symptoms to start appearing once you first get infected, and you can spread it even if you're not showing symptoms.
How you’re suddenly worthless or irrelevant if your opinion differs from that of another, and that other person is really offended that you have a different opinion on top of that.
Like these people will be so upset by it and you’re suddenly not worth talking to anymore and all your other opinions are stupid or something.
I’ve met too many people like this and that includes my “10-inch pole up their arses” parents.
How does electricity "flow" I've tried to get this infor into my brain on a few occasions and I just don't understand. I get the the energy is passed atom to atom but I don't really understand how or what that really means. Like it's not like a bucket chain of atoms dumbing energy into my TV right? I just can't get my head around it.
What is going through a liar's head when they tell such unbelievable garbage? "I saw Rihanna, and we hooked up backstage" Oh, yeah, sure, some small-time guy working fast food in podunk middle America who cant even get the loose girl at the counter to look at him... or how about "My father is in the CIA and I have been inside Area 51" yeah, sure dude, and I'm next in line for the Martian throne. How can people even lie about stuff like that? What is going through their heads that they think they can make such outrageous claims?! How do they rationalize to themselves that it is OK to make up such blatant BS??
Astrology. And especially why people believe in it, despite being so utterly ludicrous. I kinda understand religiousness, mostly because of the culture, but the belief, that horoscopes or stars are somehow responsible/related to a persons nature. I always thought, that nobody took it seriously, but every third girl on tinder names her zodiac sign and some really want to know mine. I genuinely cannot understand, how sometimes even totally irreligious people can believe something that ridiculous.
How tides work. Water is an inexpressible fluid, so how does the gravity of the moon affect it at all? A little bit of upward force shouldn't make the water rise if it isn't compressed in the first place. Are there pockets of vacuum space that show up with a rising tide? It doesn't make sense.
my brother-in-law nearly lost a 60 million (million!) dollar contract, because the client, a bank that wanted to advertise child accounts, had a guy on the team who demanded to know why a kid would draw an orange dinosaur. he wanted to pull the plug on the whole campaign, until they said, "what colour do you want? we'll change it!" there's always one asshole who needs his input.
also, bad adverts are remembered, and many of them are on purpose :(
When people argue about which of their opinions is right for example,
Human 1: salt and vinegar chips are disgusting.
Human 2: no, what are you talking about, they are good.
Like the conversation isn't gonna go anywhere, you can't change other people's opinion.
Religion. I don’t understand how we can all think children are so simple minded to believe in Father Christmas, the Easter bunny, the tooth fairy etc, yet people follow religion which seems just as daft to me.
I'm a teenager I don't understand a lot but my mains are; homophobia, how things are feminine or masculine their just things, why people would hurt other living things(besides plants and if your eating the animal), and math
People who are pro-life and argue that the only reason why someone should keep the baby is because it was gods plan.
I don’t know if it’s just me but I find it offensive that they are basically saying that it was gods plan for me to get raped at a young age?
Maybe I’m overthinking it. But why should I conform to your religious beliefs in a state of law when in my country it is a human right to practice my own religious beliefs if I have any. Oh yes and there’s the whole thing about separating the church and the state.
However, I would like to state that I understand why someone would be pro-life because of health complications that can come with abortions and birth control. This is reasonable.
Although, what we should be doing in the first place is providing proper sex education.
And hey, if a consenting adult somehow gets pregnant while on birth control or a condom breaks then they should not have to be scared for their life. They should be able to have a safe abortion in the hands of professionals that will take care of them and make sure they are ok physically and mentally.
TL;DR: I can understand the concern for health complications that can arise from an abortion but what I don’t understand is the religious arguments that some pro-life people throw out there.
Gewif · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just about everything since I have aspergers, and also anything math related. Im failing all my algebra etc assignments and I cant figure a single thing out.
Why people put others down- I get that it’s to make themselves feel better about their insecurities/loss/failure. I play a lot of online games and my girlfriend has recently started playing LoL with me. She gets flamed for under performing or dying or having bad gold upkeep like, she’s brand new. You wouldn’t call a 6 year old a fucking dumbass for not knowing University level physics would you? Probably not, so why hate on new players for trying to learn something? Accept that they’re new, accept you will lose your casual match, maybe give them tips or pointers or where to improve!
I genuinely do not understand how some people can be so heated over unnecessary matters of pride, especially matters of which they have put no significant effort into.
I’m honestly a pretty vain, self-centered guy, but I would never consider myself prideful.
I also don’t get people with extremely tribalistic behaviors. It’s almost like some people don’t want or care to think for themselves.
Racism. I get national pride, but racism is taking it way too far
I especially don't get the Christian Trump supporter racists. "Love thy neighbor" had no conditions, especially not ones that couldn't exist people the commandments were written before Mexicans were even a thing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I lose weight faster by laying on the couch than exercising for an hour and a half. I can gobble down junk food and lounge on the couch with Clone Wars all day, and I'll lose all the weight by the next morning. Leading an active lifestyle, however, results in weight lose being slow.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you get hungrier, or potentially subconsciously eat more when you're regularly exercising? I think it's common for people to over-estimate the caloric effect of exercise. It's an easy justification, "oh I ran 3 miles today so I can eat this ice cream."
It also could be drinking more water, building muscle, etc that contribute to the scale staying the same. Doesn't mean exercise is worse than not!
Regardless of exercise, calories in < out = weight loss. If you keep calorie-sparse foods around (like celery) you'll fill up your stomach without contributing extra calories in.
Basic helpful knowledge. The alphabet, Metric, Imperial, I couldn't name a single place on the map except for maybe the small part I live in. I learned the approximate size of a mile (or was it kilometer?) last year, and only in 2020 did I learn I'm about 6ft tall. I also thought that 5ft9 was right under 6ft until a few days ago, which was why I was confused when somebody who was 5ft9 was a bit shorter than expected.
robral · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although I understand it now, it took me a while to comprehend what blockchain is.
I don't understand why everyone is so eager to take much so from everyone else when we all get the same. GAME OVER screen, the 'I got mine, F you' mentality.
How the universe has no center. If everything is racing away from each other, it's also racing away from a single point, right? Can't we just trace velocities backwards to a point?
People that treat you like garbage if you turn a black character into a white character, but if you turn a white character into a black character you're praised like a god
art. what makes good art and what makes bad art? why is that painting that looks like a 4 yr old scribbled with a crayon worth $100K but another that is beautifully and accurately done worth nothing? even great musicians and writers put out an absolute did that everyone hates so why is every van gogh painting worth so much and sitting in a museum?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One point I'd like to make though. A lot of people are pointing out that by making a crappy commercial the companies are successful because I remember the ad. That's all fine and dandy, but remembering an ad and wanting to buy the product because of the ad are two different things. If I don't like an ad, I usually make it a point NOT to buy the product.
Why do we have to split the human race up and treat humans differently based on gender/sexuality/race. It's like "cool, you are gay? black? I don't care". True equality is something that should be standard. You aren't better or worse depending on any differences, we are all human. However if you start acting like an ass expecting to be treated differently because of something you think is special, you become an ass and will be treated like one.
Also why is religion still around when all it does is cause chaos and destruction based on lies to gain profit and power.
I cant wrap my brain around why it seems a lot females I know, love that murder mystery stuff? whether its documentaries, or those murder podcasts. It sorta baffles me why they almost fantasize death and how it can be committed.
Why I see number 42 literally everywhere. I've read The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, I know what this number means but I still don't understand why there are so many 42s in this world.
Women and the way they choose men? The fact that they don't seem to want men that would treat then like the love of their life and instead choose men that become abusive, controlling etc. sometimes I think they would rather be a conquest or flavor of the month instead of being treated with respect and honor.
Any math more complex than basic. My brain can’t compute. I have to take a math class to get my AA and it’s going to tank my GPA. It’s either algebra or stats. I’m so doomed.
The concept of parallel dimensions, you could very well die in one dimension and seamlessly move on to another and never know that anything happened...but with slight differences in the new dimension.
Imagining the possibilities of those slight differences keep me up at night...just imagine a universe in which Friends is funny.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thought experiment:
Your mind is one continuous "four dimensional" experience: 3D universe, experienced in small moments of accumulating time. Overall, you are the same being from start to finish, but can only experience a tiny slice of that in each moment.
As you exist, bad things could happen to you. You look both ways, start crossing a street, but a car comes out of nowhere and kills you. But if your shoe came untied before you got there, you never died.
Both of those possibilities exist and happen, but you will never experience the moment of your death. Instead, your conscious mind "moves" along the path that still exists. You are still alive because you stopped to tie your shoe, and you'll never know it.
In that way, we all live our paths to the fullest possible length of time individually. Depending on the choices and random chance you're given, you may see loved ones perish. Maybe they have a divergent path where you still exist with them for a time, maybe all available paths for them or now closed, or maybe the only way for them to continue that path was for you to be gone. Those alternate paths are unknowable, so while you may create the longest possible path for yourself by being cautious, there is no way to predict your or anyone else's cumulative effects.
In one sense, every individual experiences "immortality" if there is a non-zero chance of surviving. But aging over enough time or absolute-certain-death with zero chances to survive will end that last thread of existence.
It's a little bit pointless in the end. It's not measurable or predictable, but it does form an interesting frame of reference for viewing each individual's existence. Aren't we all experiencing individual "universes" that constantly intersect?
avabo · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still vote republican
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people give so little importance to ethics, morality and spirituality.
I think they should be compulsorily taught in school. We wonder about if we are being just in our behaviour or not. And whether others are being just to us or not.
Morality and ethics are more applied in our lives than complex science and maths.
Teach kids something irrelevant and they would naturally get bored. Teach them something that they can use in daily life and they would naturally participate more.
Our current teaching is more utilitarian.
But if people know how to cooperate and reach a middle ground, a lot of unnecessary conflict can be avoided in life.
Nation wants to utilise their population into doing things that are in interest of the nation. And the interest of the nation and interest of the common man are not always the same.
I also believe that military / army, should not be romanticized at all. But no one in their right state of mind would risk their lives to fight for nation run by greedy degenerates. So they romanticize army / military, and manipulate young healthy individuals into risking their lives.
How people can still support Donald trump or are even considering voting for him in November. It’s utterly dumbfounding.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people use mean insults in arguments with loved ones instead of just dealing with the issue. It's sad that some would rather than be right then happy, and hurt eachother for no reason.
Most people take offense when I say this if they enjoy it but I genuinely don’t understand how people can actually enjoy constantly listening to country music. Like it’s not bad but it all sounds so similar and it’s kinda boring.
People who believe news articles and fear mongering campaigns over real live people experiencing things and working in those industries. (I work in agriculture, gmo’s aren’t poison, we aren’t abusing animals, and we care for the earth too) But this goes for all sorts of fields. (I’m looking at you antivaxers)
Why rich people want to hoard wealth. What’s the point of having crazy money if you don’t do awesome shit with it? Not just buying your 12th yacht but idk hiring bands to play free concerts or giving out free food and housing to people in need. Fuck hoarding that shit, so weird to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the term "he/him" lesbian like???? no disrespect I just can't wrap my head around it..like ever.
Well when a business makes enough money for example 5,000 every month, and for some reason it just won't make more, why will they government shut it down if it doesn't make more.
(Living in Germany)
Why does the Profit graph has to keep going up. Why can't it stay level, as lot it stays out of the red it should be okay.
Please enlighten me.
Not proud to admit, but constitutional law. I understand how constitutions work, and the rights listed in them, but the analysis is mind numbing. And I challenge laws as my living. But how this shit got thought up - from the beginning of law all the way to Originalism - just escapes me. Whenever I do a constitutional challenge I just plug and chug (take a case on point, cut and paste the analysis, apply my facts, hope and pray), and I can tell you the levels of scrutiny from memory, but I can’t explain it to you.
Maybe it’s so simple that I’m missing the point. But it all is confusing to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people say “Sorry.” When they hear about an experience you went through that caused conflict for you? Saying “Sorry” means your accepting responsibility for the conflict someone has gone through without which wouldn’t make sense because it wasn’t their fault and they weren’t there, and had no cause it it. So why say “Sorry”?
Honestly? Electricity. I can recite all the theoretical parts that are out there. I know volts, watts, ampere, ohm,... I ace every test that's out there. I just don't understand it. It bothers me. A lot.
How in the USA - with literally 10s of millions of people all meeting the requirements to be President - we have ended up with a choice between Trump and Biden this year.
Homophobia. I absolutely do not understand how some people can be so severely uncomfortable (hateful even) towards the very idea of two men or two women loving each other.
Why people feel the need to spread hate on social media. Especially when they @ the person. If you want to spread you negativity on your profile, then go ahead, that's your prerogative, but don't tag the person, they don't need to see your nastiness on their timelines. Be kind.
Reaction videos with no substance. I get and appreciate reactions that are actually in-depth and contain legitimate discussion. For example, there's a channel I love called Lost in Vegas where they listen to a lot of music that I like and it's interesting to me to see what kinds of things they pick up on and enjoy as newcomers. Sometimes they notice things that I never did or have a whole new interpretation of something and it gives me a whole new appreciation for songs that I've listened to for 10 or 15 years.
But then there's those reaction videos that are literally just a video of someone watching something. Sometimes there will be a facial expression or two but mostly you're just watching someone watch something. At the end sometimes they'll say a bunch of meaningless shit like "ok guys I really liked it because I liked the way that it was and that's how it be" or some shit like that. Like why? What possible benefit or entertainment value does it provide? I couldn't even do that for people that I find genuinely interesting because it takes away the potential for anything interesting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why computers can’t load stuff instantly. If electricity is basically instant as far as us humans are concerned, why does it take any time at all to do something like download an app or load Minecraft chunks?
people who pay for streaming services, to then complain that the show isn't available for them, so they pay for a vpn to watch one show, and then they watch the show while doing something else, missing most of the plot
Yes, you understood. Cats can be very insistent and irritating while attempting to type.
What you want to understand is special relativistic time dilation and how it behaves with respect to the relative speed of light.
Gaining a broader understanding if you haven’t already grasped the basic concept is going to be a challenge. I am not a teacher. Sorry I can’t be more help.
My girlfriend and I recently bought a house and shes much more on top of how the whole fixed/variable rates, interest repayments and just general money stuff worka. I'm basically "tell me how much I owe and it'll be there".
She was asking questions about different home loan packages to our broker and i understood words but they were talking a different god damned language, I swear!
I genuinely do not understand how someone can be non-binary. I have no hatred or disrespect towards them and will use they/them when speaking about them but I just can't wrap my head around it. I understand being transgender, just not non-binary.
Not that you can have some unique gender expression, but that you can identify to a specific socially constructed label that others are then suppose to just use based upon your own definition of such. That's not how words work.
It would seem a label is rather restrictive. And if you had a unique gender expression, it makes more sense to me to believe that no label could even begin to describe such. I see words of "he" and "man" to simply stem from male. And the male descriptor only goes as far as my biological status of genitalia and chromosomes. No words to befin to describe my gender. Because I think it's truly an individualist state of being. It would be too difficult to start lumping people together based on certain expressions of the billions that would make up gender.
I mean, this applies to any identity to a group classification descriptor with ill-defined barriers. Such as race as well. I'm white, because I'm sure the describes my apperance and heritage to most people. I don't see what it truly says beyond that. And I don't "identify" to the group because I don't see what it would actually say about me.
I've tried to understand it, many times. I just don't.
And this isn't just about transgenders. It even aplies to the descriptors of "cis". Because that consists of people who "identify" to a gender based on their birth sex.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Labels don't have to "say" anything detailed though, their point is to provide the first-level contact for a concept.
Some people would like to represent the way they want to be referred to, viewed as, treated like, whatever scenario you want to think about. So, those people might ask their friends, coworkers, and family to refer to them with new, specific pronouns. If they are asked why, what should their answer be?
One person might think, I don't identify with any of the labels Western society has provided to describe how I want to dress, appear, etc. They might answer, "I identify as non-binary gender-queer, and feel that he/she or man/woman does not adequately represent me."
Others might think, My thoughts, mindset, approaches to relationships, taste in clothes, and my own desires for how I appear in public closely aligns with the Western society label of 'Woman.' They might answer, "My inner self most closely reflects traits typically found or encouraged in Women in our society. I identify as a Woman and want to be referred to with she/her pronouns."
Is it hard to disconnect that idea of gender for you? It seems like you think gender is kinda made up anyway, so does it matter if someone asks to be referred to with a particular pronoun or to just use their name?
Labels don't have to "say" anything detailed though, their point is to provide the first-level contact for a concept.
Sure. But what is that first-level concept? Let's use "Man". What does that tell you about my gender expression?
So, those people might ask their friends, coworkers, and family to refer to them with new, specific pronouns. If they are asked why, what should their answer be?
If I want you to call me compassionate, will you? Even if, according to your own definition of words, I was acting more like an asshole? Do you not care about understanding the language you use?
Their answer should be to provide a definition of the word. And if understood and accepted, then it can be used. Just like all words. How many words do you use that you don't know the definition to?
Maybe this will clear up my perspective better. I don't see these gender labels as having a standard definition. It's simply a language issue for me. It seems anyone can claim association to a label for any reason they so choose. That if you labeled yourself a specific gender for reason A, that if reason A exists with someone else, they could be another gender for that very same reason. With no foundation, the words don't have utility. Because they don't actually convey any meaning.
One person might think, I don't identify with any of the labels Western society has provided to describe how I want to dress, appear, etc. They might answer, "I identify as non-binary gender-queer, and feel that he/she or man/woman does not adequately represent me."
It doesn't need to represent you. That's my point. He/She or Man/Woman can easily refer to your sex. This entire "movement" has been to change these words to describe gender, and then at the same time declare how unique gender is. It doesn't make any sense.
taste in clothes, and my own desires for how I appear in public closely aligns with the Western society label of 'Woman.'
So if I like to crossdress, does than make my gender "woman"? Or can I simply be a "man" who wants to challenge social norms?
My inner self most closely reflects traits typically found or encouraged in Women in our society.
See. You're using "woman" here to describe females. That's confusing. That females have certain gender norms associated to that sex. So if you want to challenge these norms, you can stay a "man" and just go against these social norms.
Basically, the larger question for gender labels is at what point am I one gender over another? How many of these gender norms do I need to associate to to identify as one over another? Sex has pretty specific defined barriers (with slight outliers). So I'm just trying to grasp the barriers of a classification label. And barriers need to exist for a classification to have any meaning.
Additionally, group labels exist for others to classify you. You don't get to classify yourself. I don't get to declare my race, my personality, my attractiveness, etc. and call for others to define me by such. They have definitions, and they are applied to me.
Is it hard to disconnect that idea of gender for you?
Huh? Very much the opposite. I don't think the practice of certain gender norms would define you to a specific label. Because it's so easy to take some from one side and some from another.
Are you just accepting these gender norms as objective realities and setting the foundation of gender based upon them?
I don't understand. What happens when gender norms change, as some have over decades of social change? Does your gender then change as well?
The reason people fight against the use of he/she to describe one's gender is because they want to continue to use it to describe one's sex. I don't understand the point of the change. Gender Expression is deeply unique. I don't think anyone has the same gender expression. Which is why it's weird to see a movement for labels to apply to it.
The question is "Why should these words now describe gender (a very unique expression with billions of factors), rather than continue to describe sex (a very static descriptor with very few factors)?"
It's like people want to show off their unqiue expression so much as to co-opt words not meant for that purpose. I just don't get it, beyond it being potentially narcissism or as a massive misguided battle against poor self-esteem. Where your attempts at fighting gender norms need to be accepted through mandating it.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sure. But what is that first-level concept? Let's use "Man". What does that tell you about my gender expression?
It tells me, in the United States at least, that you would likely be masculine in thought and presentation.
If I want you to call me compassionate, will you? Even if, according to your own definition of words, I was acting more like an asshole? Do you not care about understanding the language you use?
If you held a strong enough belief and self identity in those traits that a professional psychologist would diagnose you with dysphoria about that trait, then emphatically yes.
I care greatly about the language I use and its consistency with reality and understanding of it, as well as the effect it may or may not have on others. It is interesting you chose Compassion as the trait you may have or lack. That hypothetical may be approaching a false equivalency though, since consciousness may only be possible with self-identity and that is the root component of this discussion.
If you spent your entire life not understanding why a feeling or self loathing could not go away, if you never felt comfortable or the desire to expose yourself to others you were attracted to, if you believed your whole life you might be asexual because of the repulsion your own body caused you, could you see the potential improvements to life that would happen, even by taking the smallest steps?
Some people live their entire lives presenting as a man but identifying as a woman. If that person asked me to use "she/her" in private, I would. If the meaning of man or woman is specified to refer to gender, while male/female are reserved for sex, I don't see how it hinders communication. Language is meant to express ideas, but it also has to encompass nuanced topics as we develop, change and challenge concepts as a society.
Maybe this will clear up my perspective better. I don't see these gender labels as having a standard definition. It's simply a language issue for me. It seems anyone can claim association to a label for any reason they so choose. That if you labeled yourself a specific gender for reason A, that if reason A exists with someone else, they could be another gender for that very same reason. With no foundation, the words don't have utility. Because they don't actually convey any meaning.
Anyone can claim anything for any reason. We aren't simply discussing association to a label. I have been referring to the label used as a brief shorthand for one of the major components of self-identity in our culture.
If someone wants their social group and/or society at large to see and refer to them a certain way, I do not see anything ethically, morally, or legally wrong with it. If they say, "I am a man, I prefer he/him pronouns," and he wears a dress and makeup and traditionally-feminine hair, the word still conveys meaning to me about his self-identity. The rest of the things I learn will inform me even more.
There is still utility in knowing that component of self-identity, even if it is as simply-described as "man."
It doesn't need to represent you. That's my point. He/She or Man/Woman can easily refer to your sex. This entire "movement" has been to change these words to describe gender, and then at the same time declare how unique gender is. It doesn't make any sense.
Is it possible Man/Woman was used synonymously with Male/Female in the past because the exceptional cases were so rare?
A doctor may assign Female as a child's sex at birth, based on their visible sex characteristics. If it was discovered later that they have underdeveloped testes and are genetically male, but have lived and know their self as female, would you describe them as a man or a woman?
Even outside of specific edge cases, maybe we have reached a point as a whole that we can adopt more specific language and think about these complex questions and thoughts on gender identity.
Is your issue with any change of definitions or usage?
So if I like to crossdress, does than make my gender "woman"? Or can I simply be a "man" who wants to challenge social norms?
You absolutely can be a man who wants to challenge social norms. Or a gender-fluid person that embodies masculine or feminine sides depending on the day. Or a woman, if your self-identity is described by that label.
My inner self most closely reflects traits typically found or encouraged in Women in our society.
See. You're using "woman" here to describe females. That's confusing. That females have certain gender norms associated to that sex. So if you want to challenge these norms, you can stay a "man" and just go against these social norms.
I was not describing only female-sexed individuals in that sentence.
As a matter of probability, someone using the label Woman has more traits associated to femininity. Personality, appearance, sex could be components of that. A woman may be overwhelmingly masculine in many aspects, and identify as a woman and be female-sexed.
Is it possible then, that they could be overwhelmingly masculine in many aspects, and be female-sexed, but also identify as a man? Where "man" is a label for their self-identity, for whatever reason they have?
Basically, the larger question for gender labels is at what point am I one gender over another? How many of these gender norms do I need to associate to to identify as one over another? Sex has pretty specific defined barriers (with slight outliers). So I'm just trying to grasp the barriers of a classification label. And barriers need to exist for a classification to have any meaning.
You are one gender over the other as soon as you have the self-awareness to understand yourself, to the extent that you know whether you are accepting or rejecting traditional gender norms based on the gender or non-gender that most closely describes that self.
In short, if I am a man that portrays and identifies with many traditionally-feminine traits, and you address me as "Miss," I feel it's reasonable to reply, "Oh I am a Man and use he/him pronouns." I would of course be gracious in the correction, since I would know my appearance was challenging the societal convention for what a Man should look like.
The knowledge that I identify as a Man but appear very feminine also informs you about my self-identity and personality. I think Man still has meaning in this case, even without a clearly-defined barrier for the outside observer that is not in this hypothetical conversation.
Additionally, group labels exist for others to classify you. You don't get to classify yourself. I don't get to declare my race, my personality, my attractiveness, etc. and call for others to define me by such. They have definitions, and they are applied to me.
How would you define Race then? Interesting example, since genetically we have quite a few things in common outside of any "defined" race.
Why have forms started including, "White/Non-Hispanic" as an option? Other cultures might see a certain person or ethnic background as "White" that you may not consider to be the same "race" as you. The Irish used to be considered "Irishman" and equivalent in status to "Blacks" in the not-so-distant past. Why have we changed that definition?
Also, before moving on. You do get to declare your personality. What you say is only a very small portion of that.
Is it hard to disconnect that idea of gender for you?
Huh? Very much the opposite. I don't think the practice of certain gender norms would define you to a specific label. Because it's so easy to take some from one side and some from another.
100% in agreement with you. The practice or rejection of norms alone does not define or limit you to a specific label.
Are you just accepting these gender norms as objective realities and setting the foundation of gender based upon them?
No. Those gender norms inform everyone else of likely aspects/labels about a person. They may be conscious or unconscious traits that are consistent with the assumed gender of a person. They may also be inconsistent with the assumed gender.
If a person is misgendered, and they aren't around to hear it, does it matter at all? Probably not at all as long as it doesn't affect that individual.
I don't understand. What happens when gender norms change, as some have over decades of social change? Does your gender then change as well?
Not necessarily, but maybe. If you felt very feminine your whole life, and you had the language and societal acceptance to define it more specifically or in a different way, we have found a way to communicate a more-specific idea.
If society's concept of a gender shifts, and you remain with the same identity, it just means you have passively begun to challenge societal norms for that gender.
The reason people fight against the use of he/she to describe one's gender is because they want to continue to use it to describe one's sex. I don't understand the point of the change. Gender Expression is deeply unique. I don't think anyone has the same gender expression. Which is why it's weird to see a movement for labels to apply to it.
Absolutely, it is deeply unique to each individual. But we already have terms to describe sex, male/female. Seems redundant to me to have two more words that literally mean the exact same thing. Why not think about the complexities of self-identity more, and try to use purposeful language when discussing it?
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit the comment limit but wanted to include context quotes above. Continued briefly below.
The question is "Why should these words now describe gender (a very unique expression with billions of factors), rather than continue to describe sex (a very static descriptor with very few factors)?"
Scientifically, we have had a distinction of "sex" and "gender" for quite some time. If common usage is shifting to be more precise with our understanding if self-identity and psychology, that's a positive change in my opinion.
It's like people want to show off their unqiue expression so much as to co-opt words not meant for that purpose. I just don't get it, beyond it being potentially narcissism or as a massive misguided battle against poor self-esteem. Where your attempts at fighting gender norms need to be accepted through mandating it.
Sure, people might do that. Ignore them. Don't set up strawwomen or buy into trolls or pay attention to those. Most people with dysphoria want you to not notice them and to live their life.
Someone can have the opinion that there is complexity to gender and we should be precise when discussing it. But that doesn't mean we must tie man/woman strictly to mean biological sex, when male/female adequately describes it.
I try to talk with anyone willing to discuss it, because I think we should encourage new ideas and growth in society. I'm not forcing you to pay attention to pronouns people request. But you should know that it can cause harm to a significant number of people, and you will never be able to know a person's truest self. You only know what they choose to and subconsciously present.
I cannot fully know if someone is selfishly or sincerely using labels, but as long as there is no harm I am happy to use what they are comfortable with. I am much more interested in knowing their self in a deeper way, but I'm grateful that I can communicate with that self more comfortably and accurately.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand. What happens when gender norms change, as some have over decades of social change? Does your gender then change as well?
Not necessarily, but maybe. If you felt very feminine your whole life, and you had the language and societal acceptance to define it more specifically or in a different way, we have found a way to communicate a more-specific idea.
If society's concept of a gender shifts, and you remain with the same identity, it just means you have passively begun to challenge societal norms for that gender.
Bonus food for thought if you or anyone else actually sees this comment:
If I wear pink all the time as a self-described masculine man, am I challenging or aligned with gender norms? Pink was a masculine color, especially used for male babies, until a shift occurred in the arbitrary masculine and feminine qualities of a particular absorption of light wavelengths.
It tells me, in the United States at least, that you would likely be masculine in thought and presentation.
So back to relying on gender norms themselves as a foundation of gender. "Men have been observed to normally have acted this way, thus if you act this way you are a man". That's the logic you're applying. It doesn't actually have a foundation as it will move as gender norms move. We already have a specific label for the things men normally do, masculine. You aren't a man by the nature of acting like a man, you are masculine.
If you spent your entire life not understanding why a feeling or self loathing could not go away
Everyone has things they loath about themselves. Everyone has instances where they wish to belong to a group, but are rejected.
if you never felt comfortable or the desire to expose yourself to others you were attracted to,
Are we discussing sexual orientation or gender? Or are you leading to a state of simply not "measuring up" to expectations? Because of course many people feel that. Many people can't approach those who they are attracted to out of fear of rejection. For appearance. For lack of sexual experience. For communication skills. For their "status". Etc.
if you believed your whole life you might be asexual because of the repulsion your own body caused you
I can understand body dysmorphia. I can understand not wanting a dick, just as a can understand wanting a bigger dick or bigger breasts. I just don't understand why body dysmorphia when tied to sexual characteristics would suddenly make that person the gender of the sex normally associated with their desired attributes.
could you see the potential improvements to life that would happen,
When it comes to what action?
If someone wants their social group and/or society at large to see and refer to them a certain way, I do not see anything ethically, morally, or legally wrong with it.
Sure. The issue is that there is something rationally wrong with it. As in, classifications require barriers. You get rejected if you don't abide by the definition of the label. That's how the classification can maintain meaning.
Is it possible Man/Woman was used synonymously with Male/Female in the past because the exceptional cases were so rare?
I don't think so. It just seems like a grammar choice. Current definitions of "man" seem to still be "a human male". How would you like to redefine it? "A masculine human"? How do you define masculine? Is it tied to male or men?
If it was discovered later that they have underdeveloped testes and are genetically male, but have lived and know their self as female, would you describe them as a man or a woman?
It's an interesting question. Let me ask a question back, as somewhat a reply. Is sexual orientation based upon sex or gender? Is heterosexuality male/female or man/woman? Also, I'm not quite understanding your example. What consists or the rest of the genitalia? If this person has a vagina why would it be declared they are genetically male after discovery of testicals? It's a further question on what makes a male. Testicals or a Penis? I would think any unique instance of such should would then involve a chromosomal test. And if they are intersex, then they are intersex. They are an outlier to a scientifically created binary based upon our observations.
Is your issue with any change of definitions or usage?
No. My issue is with alternate definitions not being provided. You've said it yourself, it's simply "empathy" to accept these labels of people who desire them. That's not how I use language.
My original belief on this issue was that I'm not a confrontational person thus I'd abide. But the more I thought about it, the more I couldn't rationalize myself into doing such.
Listen, if everyone calling themselves "man" was actually fitting to the social norms normally associated to males, then sure, it could work. We'd have some foundation of a definition. But that's not the case. We have people claiming these labels for any reason they so choose. And I don't see anyone accepting this gender identity and fighting against that behavior. So it seems that its accepted and part of the larger practice. And that's what I don't understand.
Or a gender-fluid person that embodies masculine or feminine sides depending on the day.
That's another can of worms.
I was not describing only female-sexed individuals in that sentence.
You were discussing traits "encouraged in women". But these traits are actually ecouraged in females. That's the point I was making. Our society isn't encouraging anyone claiming a gender identity of woman to behave a certain way. They are encouraging biological females to act a certain way.
You are one gender over the other as soon as you have the self-awareness to understand yourself, to the extent that you know whether you are accepting or rejecting traditional gender norms based on the gender or non-gender that most closely describes that self.
Can you help me out. I'm male. I like to crossdress. I believe I would have prefered to have been born a female, but am still comfortable in my male body, except for the basics of attractiveness and health. I fit many gender norms and stereotypes of both sexes. I just don't feel the need for a label though. I don't see how any one would begin to say anyrhing about me. And I reject non-binary because I reject the entire concept of gender identity. And I think the label itself gives of it's own impression that I don't want to associate with.
The knowledge that I identify as a Man but appear very feminine also informs you about my self-identity and personality.
Like what? If you like your femine appearance, what does the "man" label tell me about you? No matter how you identified, you dress would simply tell me how tou liked to dress.
How would you define Race then?
...I wouldn't. I don't think it's a very important descriptor.
I don't even understand the current definition. It seems to be some mix of national heritage and culture. But it seems with the passage of time, as we mix more and more, the reasoning of why and how certain races were formed, have and will lose meaning.
Why have we changed that definition?
Yeah, it all seems so arbitrary to me as well. That's kind of my point.
Also, before moving on. You do get to declare your personality.
Okay. Anything you want to believe about my personality, I'm actually the opposite. That's my choice. Accept it. ...once you've accepted that, I'm now going to be something completely different, because it's my choice. You keep mis-identifying me. Please stop. I'm also not at all a contrarian. I'm a vastly agreeable person. /s
Absolutely, it is deeply unique to each individual. But we already have terms to describe sex, male/female. Seems redundant to me to have two more words that literally mean the exact same thing.
Is man and he redundent then? It's grammar. "Look at that man" reads better than "Look at that male". "He carried the box" reads better than "the male carried the box". Especially after we've established a name. "Billy opened the door. He then closed it." They have different uses.
Male is a noun and adjective. Man is a noun. And he is a pronoun.
Why not think about the complexities of self-identity more,
I still think it's illogical to "identify" to a socially constructed group classifciation. I completely agree with the complexities of individuals and how they don't fit into these group classifications. I just don't think adding more of them does anything to better that view.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So back to relying on gender norms themselves as a foundation of gender... You aren't a man by the nature of acting like a man, you are masculine.
I didn't say you were a man because you were masculine. I said you were likely masculine, because you told me you identified as a man.
My position is that you are a man if your gender matches society's implicit definition of man. Because genders are entirely constructed by society, even if many traits considered masculine or feminine are rooted in sex-based differences.
If I said I self-identify as Waria what would that communicate to you about me?
I can understand body dysmorphia... I just don't understand why body dysmorphia when tied to sexual characteristics would suddenly make that person the gender of the sex normally associated with their desired attributes.
I find issue with this wording. Sex reassignment doesn't suddenly make that person have a gender matching their reassigned sex.
A treatment for gender dysphoria is to make the body match their internalized picture of themselves, aka self-identity. Their self-identity is strong enough to cause them psychological distress, and they are already the gender that they internalize.
I do feel like we're moving a little away from the topic. Using man/woman to describe gender, and distinguishing between gender and sex, is the main point. Whether you think they "don't qualify" for using the term man/woman doesn't really matter, because the trend is indicating that society is making this distinction in language. I can try to tell you all day why this is logical, but if you disagree that's ok.
could you see the potential improvements to life that would happen,
When it comes to what action?
Using a pronoun that matches your self-identity. For some, beginning to transition and live full-time as the gender matching their self-identity, and choosing to ignore or follow whichever societal conventions they want.
Or, generally, doing whatever they want that makes them happy and less-dysphoric. Regardless of which conventions they're following or breaking.
The issue is that there is something rationally wrong with it. As in, classifications require barriers. You get rejected if you don't abide by the definition of the label. That's how the classification can maintain meaning.
How do you think we scientifically discuss sex and gender? They are already distinct. We have distinct terms to refer to them. We can pick language that is specific to the societal side or the biological side of things.
I still have not been convinced that classifications require barriers to the extent you seem to want them. You even admitted that the classification of "race" exists but has changing or poorly-defined barriers.
There are constant discussions and debates over which species should be grouped together, where to draw lines for species vs sub-species. Those grey areas don't make the created classifications wrong or rejected, there is just not a complete consensus when all of the information is not available.
Self-identity is even harder to classify, because it is reliant on self-reporting and professional opinions of psychologists to study.
I don't think so. It just seems like a grammar choice. Current definitions of "man" seem to still be "a human male". How would you like to redefine it? "A masculine human"? How do you define masculine? Is it tied to male or men?
"Masculine" traits are traits associated to Men in the USA. Other cultures have genders with mixes of masculine and feminine traits, but those are relative to the culture.
Some people spend years researching and debating what gender is and how it is defined. I will probably do a poor job, but I can try:
"Man" is the term we created for the gender of a person that exhibits some implicitly-agreed-upon traits. In Western culture these are generally "masculine" traits and many male-sexed individuals identify as this gender.
It's an interesting question. Let me ask a question back, as somewhat a reply.
You haven't answered if you would call them a Woman or Man.
Is sexual orientation based upon sex or gender?
Sexual orientation is based on the gender you are sexually attracted to.
Is heterosexuality male/female or man/woman?
I would consider Heterosexuality a sexual attraction to the gender opposite of your own. As a heterosexual man, I am attracted to women.
If it was based on Sex alone, a heterosexual would be attracted to a masculine person as long as they have a vagina. I don't think that really holds up; while genitalia may play a vital role in compatibility and attraction, sexuality is more specific to perceived or known gender.
Also, I'm not quite understanding your example. What consists or the rest of the genitalia? If this person has a vagina why would it be declared they are genetically male after discovery of testicals? I would think any unique instance of such should would then involve a chromosomal test. And if they are intersex, then they are intersex.
I was talking about someone genetically male, chromosomally, but with externally-visible indications of being female. They were mis-sexed at birth, then later in life discovered that biologically they are male.
I was not talking about how you would classify their sex. Rightly so, you have declared them intersex. But is their gender Woman or Man? I would still call them a Woman if that was consistent with their (unchanged) self-identity.
Small side note. Testes aren't always descended before birth.
No. My issue is with alternate definitions not being provided. You've said it yourself, it's simply "empathy" to accept these labels of people who desire them. That's not how I use language.
Not simply empathy. It is also providing a distinction between sex and gender, which are accepted as distinct. Even if you don't believe they are.
I was not describing only female-sexed individuals in that sentence.
You were discussing traits "encouraged in women". But these traits are actually ecouraged in females. That's the point I was making. Our society isn't encouraging anyone claiming a gender identity of woman to behave a certain way. They are encouraging biological females to act a certain way.
I agree that society does reinforce female-sexed individuals to act certain ways. If a person feels their self-identity is closer to the way society defines Woman, even if their sex does not align with the typical sex that is placed in that role, then that person may make changes due to the societal pressure and standards for what it means to be a Woman. Both cisgender and transgender individuals can conform to that pressure.
Society is defining what it means to be a Man or Woman. Western society was fairly uncreative and defined two genders to match the two sexes. It was not thought of to distinguish between them, until we learned more about self-identity and psychology. And now, if a person wants to conform to and holds a self-identiy consistent with one of those genders, we refer to them as that gender.
Can you help me out. I'm male. I like to crossdress. I believe I would have prefered to have been born a female, but am still comfortable in my male body, except for the basics of attractiveness and health. I fit many gender norms and stereotypes of both sexes. I just don't feel the need for a label though. I don't see how any one would begin to say anyrhing about me. And I reject non-binary because I reject the entire concept of gender identity. And I think the label itself gives of it's own impression that I don't want to associate with.
Agender. There's probably a few different terms but I don't know that there's consensus for "I don't believe anyone has a gender identity." Do you live your life completely blind to all gender?
Okay. Anything you want to believe about my personality, I'm actually the opposite. That's my choice. Accept it. ..once you've accepted that, I'm now going to be something completely different, because it's my choice. You keep mis-identifying me. Please stop. I'm also not at all a contrarian. I'm a vastly agreeable person. /s
What you claim is your personality is only one small part of your actual personality, especially when demonstrated in actions.
I accept everything you said as your portrayal of your personality. Taking in that information among other sources, I then form a view of your personality as contrarian, internally and externally inconsistent, and intentionally obtuse.
If a person claims they are a certain gender, acts like they are a certain gender, has gender-specific traits and behavior that conform to society's expectations of that gender, and want to be referred to as that gender, then I will refer to and consider them as that gender.
Is man and he redundent then? It's grammar. "Look at that man" reads better than "Look at that male". "He carried the box" reads better than "the male carried the box". Especially after we've established a name. "Billy opened the door. He then closed it." They have different uses.
Is the primary focus of the sentence to communicate the sex of the individual you are referring to? I don't see your point here. Keep using he/him when referring to Men. The fact that it is "that man" communicates to me that I am looking for a type of person with masculine traits, not that I'm looking for a person with a penis.
Why not think about the complexities of self-identity more,
I still think it's illogical to "identify" to a socially constructed group classifciation.
Unfortunately, our society loves to put people into easily understood categories. It sounds like you think everyone should entirely drop the concept of "man" and "woman."
I just don't think adding more of them does anything to better that view.
We aren't adding classifications. Two genders are widely recognized: Man and Woman. Sex is not as important as Gender unless their biology is specifically under discussion.
If I said I self-identify as Waria what would that communicate to you about me?
Based upon It's definition, that you're likely an Indonesian Male who considered themselves a woman. I have no idea how you interpret woman though. And why you are rejecting any label of man tied to your biologic sex of male. I might imagine you'd dress and behave a certain way, but that would be quite sexist to believe any such stereotypes as your true individual self.
That brings up another question. If "man" is someone who simply buys into male stereotypes, how should sexism be observed? If a man is a man for having a dominant personality, does that then excuse the personality? Or if we then tell men to not be dominant, does that make them less of men?
You want people to be defined by stereotyoes as we are attempting to deconstruct them. It just doesn't make sense to me
I would consider Heterosexuality a sexual attraction to the gender opposite of your own. As a heterosexual man, I am attracted to women.
So you would be attracted to self identified women if they had the sexual characteristics of a male? You don't think it's homosexual for a person with a penis to be penetrated by another person with a penis?
Because, let's not forget, gender identity isn't held to these sex barriers. One can be transgender and still be fine with their body.
That's why I hate the term gender dysphoria. It lumps two completely different things together. Sexual reassignment would only be a treatment for trans people who have body dysphoria. Many don't have that. Many seek to simply seek social acceptance for their gender expression. And sexual reassignment could offer that (as appearance of a gender would gain better acceptance within the community), but could actually result is body dysphoria that didn't previously exist. That's why we very clearly need to separate them.
while genitalia may play a vital role in compatibility and attraction, sexuality is more specific to perceived or known gender.
But "gender" can be decided for any reason. If you were attracted to a woman and then they identified as a man for the same reasons you were attracted to them, you'd become unattracted?
You keep explaining gender as something we agree on. We clearly don't. And the "trans community" would be the first to day so.
That's why I'm not understanding your position. Because it's not dealing with the reality that people arent defining gender identity based upon these "social norms", they are allowing claim for any reason tue individual so chooses.
Like I said, if people were consistent to the their gender to this larger idea of gendered social norms, then their is some understanding there. The fact we aren't, is why I'm confused. And why I don't think you're actually addressing my confusion.
Small side note. Testes aren't always descended before birth.
I know, I personally had one undescended testical.
Not simply empathy. It is also providing a distinction between sex and gender, which are accepted as distinct.
But you keep tying gender to gender norms which are then tied to sex. The fact that a certain behavior is tied to "men", is because most all "men" are males and males have acted a certain way to be observable and recorded.
These gender norms were created by observing males and females, not taking record of how each indvidual identified. If you don't believe that, then we're never going to come to an understanding.
Western society was fairly uncreative and defined two genders to match the two sexes.
No. Man and Woman aren't genders. They are descriptors of attributes that are assigned to male and female as "normal".
It was not thought of to distinguish between them, until we learned more about self-identity and psychology.
I agree that gender expression should be actualized. I'm however arguing against your link to the labels of man and woman.
Do you live your life completely blind to all gender?
All gender? I'm not sure of what you're speaking. I observe social norms that attempt to assign me as a male to specific things. I don't think if I don't fulfill that, I'm not a man. Because I simply see male and man as the same thing. I understand not fitting to social norms of behavior, thought, etc.. That just makes one's gender expression unique to those attributes.
I observe unique individuals who act and thinking individually. Individuals of one group of "men", would be vastly different from one another. There would be some similarities, but I'd tie any similarities to the fact they are males, not based upon how they identified. If a female was behaving and thinking "like a man", then that's simply a female that shares some atrributes normally associated to males. She would be an outlier to our historical observations based around sex. She would be just another unique individual.
I accept everything you said as your portrayal of your personality
Exactly!! It's my portrayal. You wouldn't just accept it, you'd challenge it on your own beliefs.
You seem to be agreeing with me now.
If a person claims they are a certain gender, acts like they are a certain gender, has gender-specific traits and behavior that conform to society's expectations of that gender, and want to be referred to as that gender, then I will refer to and consider them as that gender.
Okay. What if they claim a certain gender for their own reason, that seems truly justified and rational from their point of view? Where they disagree with your claim of what "gender specific traits" are?
That's what I'm arguing against. Again, if everyone that wanted to claim indentity to "man" was buying into the social expectations of "men", then yeah, I agree there is some understanding there and I could see how you'd then accept that. But that's not how everyone is using gender.
You aren't addressing my concern. We are talking past one another. If you're not going to acknowledge the people who claim identity, but still don't fit the the norms associated to such, then this conversarion is pointless.
The fact that it is "that man" communicates to me that I am looking for a type of person with masculine traits
You'd most likely be looking for the person with observable masculine traits (such as facial and body structure). Which have been specifically formed from observations of males.
Again, I think you're ignoring the massive link between sex and these gendered labels (I'd call them the same thing). You say they are strongly distinct, how?
It sounds like you think everyone should entirely drop the concept of "man" and "woman."
No. That they should remain tied to male and female. And that a person of any sex can have any gender expression they want. That a female "acting like a male" is simply that, not a "man".
Sex is not as important as Gender unless their biology is specifically under discussion.
Well gender expression consists of basically all behavior. Because you're simply observing anything an indiviudal does and thinks and assigning it to a group classification. So of course that's more important. I feel like you think you made a point, but there isn't one.
The question is if linking that behavior to sex has any utility. That if I act the way that males normally have and have been identified as "masculine behavior" or the behavior of a "man", that I then am to idenify myself as a man. Rather than being a female that simply didn't follow the historic norms observed.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Final comment, I did want to say I appreciate the civil discussion we've had so far. This article is a specifically aimed towards physiologists, but I thought it was an insightful look at the importance of this distinction. If you'd like to learn more, I think it provides a compelling substitute for my clumsy attempts at an explanation.
Programming, I've spent hours watching online videos and reading what I can, but it's all just gibberish and I rather just copy and paste stuff instead.
And people who religiously complain about having a weight problem (without motivation to speak about it) and never do anything about it.
People who deny scientific evidence due to their beliefs or feelings. It’s mind boggling and incredibly frustrating, especially because I’m surrounded by people like that, live with them.
I have these strange sporadic moments where I can really deeply hear my voice and breath, it strongly reverberates in the head and it feels like the sound in one of my ears is deadened so I scrape around in the earhole and maybe smack it to try and get the feeling of sound back. I would've just put it down to some medical condition but it's something that only ever happens a handful of times per year...but it also happens in the middle of class so it's really bothersome whenever it comes up. No clue what to make of it.
When people as you why you cant remember something?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
I was raised in a household where, from 0 - 5, I went to a church/temple of sorts maybe twice a year. However, over that period, my parents lost their faith and we never went since.
I just don’t get why people need it or want it.
Finttz · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate a specific game and shit on people for liking the game, we should let them play regardless you like it or not and not scold them
Why anyone would get a septum piercing, or what its appeal is. Like to me it looks like youre either trying to look like a bull, or you got a shiny metal booger hanging from your nose at all time.
J0LTED · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly dont get why people give a shit when it comes to calling out a video as fake. Like okay, I guess that guy knocking an apple off his gf's head was fake. Not sure why that particularly matters. Obviously this doesn't apply to news videos and things that matter. But a random fun video on reddit? I really dont care. Let me believe.
On top of that, Grammer's nazis on this site are apparantly out of hand. I'm always seeing people's edits saying something like "yes okay I didn't mean to type their when I should have said they're*". Honestly can't see why people give a shit about such minor inconsequential details. If you know what they mean, and it's clear it's a typo or grammar error why go to the effort to message some random about it? Just nutty.
Non-Binary people. I seriously do not understand. I listened to a podcast from the Washington Post a couple months ago and I found myself getting mad at how this person acted and the way they led their life.
fttw · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm preparing to get downvoted here, but, from a leftists' point of view - liberals. I don't understand why you'd continue to play the moral high ground from an obviously hypocritical point of view when you could just be a lefty and leave all that partisan shit behind you
Why all the memes on r/politicalhumor are one sided and not funny. I get Trump May be bad but that sub is just people banding together making themselves look stupid with false information and misleading memes.
GE15T · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, after cycle after cycle of watching the Donkey and Elephant gangs lie, swindle, cheat, and pilfer their way into office and power, the majority of the "United" States still practically worships them like they are two anointed religions, instead of the two glorifies street gangs that they are.
Along with this, how a supposedly educated and enlightened populace totally buys into the lie that "every situation, issue, and problem, in all levels of governance (from federal, to regional, to state, to county/parrish, to city/local), can be boiled down to two blanket philosophies: "Liberal" or "Conservative", of which, there is no in between allowed, or deviating from the party-definition, lest you be cast out as a "kook", or evil "centrist"?
Our nation has become too stupid to deserve to continue...
JaJe92 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck people can not vaccinate their kids but have their pets vaccinated with the excuse “there are preventable diseases I don’t want my pet getting.” how fucking dense do you have to be??
Big Bang Theory. The scientists trying to explain it said that before the Big Bang, there was no time - time started with the Big Bang. Huh? My feeble mind just can;t grasp that concept. How can there be "no time"?
How calling/texting/or anything internet related works. Like how do invisible waves in the air make it possible for us to talk to people on the other side of the world. I think I will never understand this.
How coding works. I think about how simple electronics with like motors and lights and even how chips have millions of different diodes(?) and try to figure out how they are coded and work but then I think about the actual code itself and then how even the code itself has a basic form which is 1's and 0's right? But then 1's and 0's has to have a basic form.(?) So I'm just at awe at the whole concept.
How people are willing to Believe almost anything they're told believably... I've red many spiritual guides and theological stuff and there's always lots of concrete wisdom to lead people to peace which could be enough imo but there always has to be something unbelievable and supernatural shit that gives me more questions than before..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults who purposefully act like toddlers. Whether it's because they think it's funny or are throwing legit tantrums. I just don't understand the motivation behind that behavior.
Before the universe existed, if it hasn‘t alredy existed (with a big bang, big crunch cycle), there HAS to have been something there... I just can‘t imagine how everything appeared out of nothing and if everything existed before then when and why did it appear? There has to be a beginning of everything and time, but there would technically be a time before that.
In theory an infinite number of time units must have passed by now and an infinite number of time units will be passed in the future. I can’t imagine how something can exist for eternity or appear out of literally nothing.
Maybe it doesn‘t make sense but I have to haven’t understood the principle of time and nothing correctly yet or it would be kind of a paradox. Maybe the solution would be that time isn’t linear and somehow it works that way, but I‘m not sure if a human can fully understand it.
I know its a mixture of nature and nurture... but it boggles my mind that one person for instance, can have triplets and they're all quite different in temperament, discipline, emotional maturity, etc. They were raised in the same environment and womb. Add in neuroscience and psychology and I'm doubly lost.
People who have brand loyalty. Like yeah, sure, keep buying from the same brand because it fits you well or whatever. But refusing to buy from Nike because you're committed to Adidas, or getting outraged that a restaurant serves Pepsi instead of Coke... What??? These are multi-billion dollar corporations. Your brand loyalty is nothing to these people. Look out for yourself, buy the brand that gives you the most utility.
I understand the effect it has in us, I understand how satallites orbit using gravitational force. The be effected if it are not lost on me.
But what IS it.
It's like wind. I understand the effect of has on me but I also understand how wind is created and where it comes from. Gravity I don't. What causes it?
for the longest time, about 4/5 years, I had no idea what the joke "Why was 6 afraid of seven? becaus 789!" meant. I found out last year it actually means seven ate nine.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there are people who exist that dont have suicidal thoughts and dont have depression. I just csnt fathom having a clean mind
Suicidal thoughts are normal. It's the minds way of reacting when it is having trouble finding a way to cope.
People who claim to never feel depressed or contemplate certain things are not being completely honest or just haven't been there yet.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This isn't just feeling depressed. I'm talking about clinically diagnosed never-going-away depression. It's there when you go to sleep, and when you wake up all day, 24/7, 365.
And why do you say suicidal thoughts are normal? I've been looked at like a freak by some people when I tell them I have suicidal thoughts.
I’m not an expert, nor an educated professional. This is just my opinion.
I can tell you that going through depression is quite natural. There is nothing freakish about feeling that way. What I can tell you is that any of us can get in a situation where we need help. You have to remember that our brains are complex biological mechanisms that none of us fully understand. We’re all such a mess of chemicals and hormones, and I’m sure I’m not wording this in the best way but sometimes our brains can get stuck in a way, where a certain mood becomes the usual. An analogy would be like the wheels on a cart being stuck in a rut. The brain gets so used to producing an arrangement of, meaning an overabundace of some and even lack of other, certain neurotransmitters and hormones that that becomes our day to day mood. What we consider “our mood” is so insanely reliant on a complex mixture of chemicals produced by an organ that can sometimes get out of balance. We literally are that balance of chemicals.
To say that a certain arrangement is inherently freakish or unnatural is, I think, very short sighted and can be hurtful.
It can be debilitating, and can be abnormal compared to that individual’s “normal” chemical balance. But comparing yourself to others in a matter of brain chemistry can do nothing but cause confusion and hard times.
To answer why I feel suicidal thoughts are normal, I have read and learned that the occasional contemplation of suicide is a natural response to prolonged stress when our brain’s usual coping mechanisms are not working. Like I said, I think people who say they never have those thoughts are either not being completely honest or have not gotten to that point where their coping mechanisms fail.
Personally, I have definitely had suicidal thoughts in periods of depression. I’m one of those weird guys who has accepted both the evil and light of the world in balance and I don’t run away from darkness but rather embrace it as part of me. Death doesn’t scare me and it is something that I can contemplate without being overwhelmed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:01:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The occasional contemplation of suicide is a natural response to prolonged stress
What if it isnt occasional? I have suicidal thoughts every hour of every day, at least one thought of killing myself every hour. I have already made my plan for when I'm going to die as well.
I don’t really know. I think we can get into those situations and feel there’s no way out. I know the response is natural and can be expected and is no way “freakish” or wrong. I might could understand more if I knew more about the situation. You’re welcome to reach out if you want to. I’ll listen and give honest feedback.
I think if I was at that point I would be ready for something to change in my life. I’d be desperate for change. If I was getting to think the only way out was to die, I would probably be willing to try anything else. Another city, another country, all new people, new scenery, a whole world apart from where you’re at... I’d change every single thing around me on the off chance that it has to be better than what I currently was dealing with. I’d jump on a train or sneak my way on to a ship or I’d just hit the road. At least for a short time I’d be homeless, I’d work any job I could find, I’d be washing dishes part time and have done so in the past. They say running from your problems doesn’t really solve them but, sometimes a short term fix can make a world of difference.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have dreamed for moving away from my town. I want to go away where noone will know me and start all over, but I dont know how to do that. How would I live? Get money, etc.
Moving away has sounded like a dream to me for so long
mejok · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disliking people because of their ethnicity, country of origin, and/or religion..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most CO’s have a bully mentality when they walk into work and just treat inmates like they’re not human, but rather that they are just low life scum and nothing more. Like at the end of the day, they’re still human. They just broke the law.
People that think constructive criticism is the same as bullying. Constructive criticism is meant to help you and can make yourself and/or something you do better. Bullying is attacking you and tearing you down. Yet people confuse them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does a greens function work. I can derive it, but have no idea why that shit works.
4th dimension. I had many people, podcasts and videos of different levels (from very basic to advanced) of comprehension trying to explain the concept and my stupid brain can't absorb any of this. Generally l'm not an angry person, but 4th dimension makes my blood boil everyone I spend more than 10 seconds thinking about it
Why cutting corporate tax rate improves the economy, unemployment rate, etc. As I understand it taxes are only paid on profits, so if you increased the corporate tax rate, wouldn't it encourage them to hire more people to lower their taxes, which would in turn increase growth over the long run?
I might have some fundamental misunderstanding or incorrect assumption, because I'm not exactly trying to make a point, as far as I'm aware a lot of economists disagree with that and think raising the corporate tax rate is a bad idea, so I'm genuinely looking for clarification.
camm44 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
difference between "effect" and "affect" been told so many times but I just doesn't sink into my brain. I need some sort of song or something to get it into my long term memory but there isn't any I guess.
Human consciousness and everything living overall. Like, I'm made out of essentially the same things as inanimate objects. How do I have emotions, how am I able to make decisions, how am I able to have senses, how am I even able to move my thumbs to type this? Do animals have thoughts? Some people could have a very different perception of reality, time or anything else, but as long as these senses are as strong as senses of other humans, we would never know. What is the point of living and what comes afterwards? How did we advance to the point of being able to connect with anyone else and have basically infinite access to the world's knowledge and take it for granted? I also find it insane how hard an average life is and how it's almost pointless and barely matters to anyone, this world system we have established, the beginning of the universe, the concept of infinity, how we can basically zone off and basically be unconscious and still complete tasks. I just can't wrap my head around how living beings work.
Heavns · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that are just born to understand math so easily. I can understand math up to college algebra (as that is what was required for me to know), but it never made concrete sense to me. It's just a part of my brain that doesn't click. But give me a paper to write, words to spell, or grammar to correct and I'm your guy. It sucks because I feel like math is far more needed in the career field im in.
Why we haven’t all condemned China and Chinese made products? Why everyone in America is scared to talk about China being the evil world power they are, why I’m probably gonna be muted or banned or downvoted to all hell for talking about the CCP.
How people like fundamentalist Christians or trump cultists can willfully and consciously just override facts and reason as if they doesn't exist or aren't real and then just...believe it as if their fantasy is true.
To be fair, I also am boggled by people who believe in astrology, witchcraft, flat earth or Gwyneth paltrow goop. Humans are fucking insane.
Why Americans still support Donald Trump. He has proven multiple times that’s he is corrupt and doesn’t care about the American people but just fattening his ego and pockets. I’m saying this as an American.
Modern yugioh cards that have a 90-page thesis written on them in microscopic font.
By the time i read and understand the card my opponent just played, they'll have 8 more out on the field and i'll have a growing backlock of these single page books to catch up on. Seriously wtf konami?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad didn’t pull out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all this evidence coming up that the USA, we, knew since November about the out break. Our leadership did nothing and they aren't being held accountable.
Measurements of any kind. I cannot estimate how big, long, or full something is. It just doesn’t make any sense to me. You could be a foot away from me but without a measuring tape, I couldn’t tell you that.
I don't understand how people vote based on purely selfish ideals, as if they live in a bubble. They vote as if they'll be a millionaire even though there's zero indication that they ever will be, and the things they vote for make it even harder for them to get there.
Workaholics - working 80-90-100 hr weeks when you're not the owner or founder? I get it when you're trying to start your own empire. But dedicating that much time to someone else? Nah, I'm good
I dont understand automatic hand soap dispensers. This is because if you are going to touch them, surely youre going to wash your hands afterwards. Like the whole reason that there isnt a pump on them is so that germs dont reside on it but it surely doesnt matter cos youre going to be washing your hands anyway!?!?!?!?
How some people can act aggravating, be told that they are and why they are, continue to act the same way, and ask what they've done wrong later when tensions rise due to their actions and
Greed and power. Stepping on others to get to higher places. I just dont get it. Be nice to each other and work together. In my perfect world, no one is poor or disadvantaged. Everyones on the same level.
In a perfect world.. but this planet is far from even nice. Maybe im just too empathetic..
The american healthcare system, schoolsystem, gunlaws, why americans have the most ridiculous presidents, why there roads are sh*t, and some other things
why people become really angry. like it boggles my mind. i understand frustration and irritation, i go through that alot but i’m never really angry anymore.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You remember Morse code? How we translated language into dits or dahs? We evolved from that, now we use 1s and 0s. You can transport data hundreds of miles in the blink of an eye, then use a machine (computer) to translate the 1s and 0s into Never Gonna Give You Up 10 hour version on YouTube
how the predatory business guys can do some of the shit they do to rip people off and be ok with themselves. how the guys that do shit like raping or beating some old lady don't spend all their time having terrible guilt ptsd for every terrible thing they have done to others. i get that no-one is the villain in their own story, but when one flexes like that in a way that damages others, once they know they're hurting people, how do they not just know it's wrong and stop? how can the pedos go though with damaging some kid ?how can the tv preacher ask for that old lady's or that poor bastard's money? how can the POSs live with themselves?
How people will openly disagree with science because they’re stupid OR how people will instantly agree with science in that’s been disproven.
5G is corona? What...
Vaccines cause autism? How in the...
Earth is flat? Huh?!
More than two genders? But...
Climate change isn’t real? Where did you?
It boggles my mind people can’t stay objective when science and facts disprove your belief
meoe · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please no one take offence to this as I don’t mean any but I genuinely don’t understand how someone’s brain lets them believe in god. Even if I wanted to believe in it, there is nothing on this planet that could convince me. Basically it blows my mind that so many people believe in a god. ( I of course don’t have anything against it, these are just my thoughts)
Suicide from depression/mental illness. I know that will come across as ignorance and heartless but I just can't wrap my head around the thought process. My best friend tried to kill himself twice (he's doing brilliantly now) in front of me and I knew what he was going through. Even then I couldn't understand it. I'm sorry for anyone who has been this through and has lost somebody
I just can't fathom the sheer amount of things going on in this world. Billions and billions of interactions I'll never be privy to. Even just my next door neighbor, not to mention the person halfway around the world. Everyone has their own story going on right now and everyone of us is completely ignorant of it.
Point to one person you see and imagine what's going on in there mind or even just what the hell they are doing. You can't and you never will. This could quite possibly even be the case with your own family members, maybe even your spouse. They may have thoughts you'll never know. They may look at the exact same piece of clothing and see a different color green then you do and both realities are true.
It's mind boggling, and I don't even know what it really all means. More and more it feels as though I'm in my own version of the Truman show except it's not a show it's just like, life. Like every single person is their own dimension and two may never cross because, why wouldn't it be? If you and I can look at the exact same thing and see two different shades of red, the reality of the world is there are no truths.
Or maybe I'm just really high.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, algebra and up. I was homeschooled but was working full time from a young age and didn’t really do schoolwork. I had an opportunity to take adult education while collecting unemployment because my job of 6 years relocated to Mexico, and I tried to comprehend algebra and got a tutor and my mom tried to help me and it never clicked in my head. I tried so hard and it was like looking at hieroglyphics it made my head hurt so much I just said fuck it and got another job manufacturing. I’ve been a manager and I’ve managed budgets and production schedules and now I run a cnc machine, but I cannot comprehend algebra or show my work with math, I have my own method for doing math in my head and don’t know how to show my work and I’m really self conscious about it.
Math. I really struggle with even simple math like addition and subtraction. I will think I finally understand it, then keep failing a test.
SirRhor · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Integrals. I get Derivatives, I was able to solve them with my eyes closed in 1 second flat. But Integrals, for the life of me, it's like a completely alien language.
How people are able to waste money like idiots. Come on, if you’re short on money why would you go get a tattoo as soon as your paycheck arrives? JUST SAVE IT
How we can be perfectly fine speaking multiple languages. Without needing to be like "okay I'm actively translating this English word to Dutch in my head" No, at some point you just KNOW and it's so weird.
I've taken 2 year's worth of physics courses at the college level and I understand everything they've taught... EXCEPT ELECTRICITY. I'm pretty convinced it's witchcraft at this point, like a magnet moving near copper can produce an electric current, and better yet we learned to trick solid pieces of metal into thinking for us on levels we can barely comprehend. Like I understand that power goes in, it does some shenanigans, and that's that, I understand that. But how we, on a quantum level, go from moving an object to getting electrical power from it is absolutely absurd/a mystery to me. All of it is just so beyond me it's annoying.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how a putting a CD in your car makes music. Like I've had it explained to me so many times and it just does not compute. Flat plastic disc = complex sounds? Drives me nuts.
CDs aren't actually flat. They have a billion tiny marks that can't even be felt by a human hand. Only using certain machinery (radios) can read them. This is why CD scratches really fuck up the content. The tiny bumps are now unreadable.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti Vaxx mentality. It’s so weird to me. How can people think they know better than doctors, why doesn’t like 99% of the population have autism if we’re almost all vaccinated. They’re so stupid it’s hard to understand, and I’m not exactly the sharpest tool in the shed.
Algebra. Even after getting private tutoring all thru school I never could grasp more than a single variable equation. I passed my classes by showing up every single day and turning everything in and then getting a D on the tests.
Why people can't understand or deal with unironical humor/dark messed up jokes or comedy. IE (making fun of topical things such as racism, death, all those kinds of topics). I'm not trying to poke fun at those things, I'm making jokes for people to laugh at.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How little some people know to be convinced that 5G caused the pandemic, and how hard they stick to the bullshit when presented with real data on a silver plate.
I have been struggling with a couple of different thing so let me list them and why they have been so hard for me to understand.
How people get REALLY good at computer science.
I'm a junior in college studying computer science and honestly I have been carried by homework partners. I understand that it's a combination of looking up problems you have and practice but I guess the thing I'm still trying to figure it out is the following.
how the hell people phrase the questions they look up to find the "answer" online
how someone works through a conceptual problem without another person explaining it to them
how the impeding feeling of stupidity doesn't make you want to stop all the time even before starting
how people work quickly through super hard problems. I feel like I take ages to get something while others seem to pick up on super hard concepts like it's addition.
How to turn someone who you are friendly with into a good friend.
I have really good friends but honestly the way we all became REALLY good friends was kinda a fluke. We kinda are all just still hanging out together and have continued to grow the friendship. How can I meet new people and turn them into life long friends that I can count on and truly want to spend time with.
Why some people want "friends" that are really more like drinking buddies or casual friendly acquaintances. There are so many people in have met that seem perfectly fine (I'm sorry I don't know how else to say this) friend zoning a potential friend. It's almost as if they can see that you want to put in the extra work and keep you in this awful casual purgatory.
How people without parents are able to fill that void.
I grew up without my mom and I feel like because of it I'm missing A LOT of lessons people with moms generally get taught. It's hard to name an example because they are generally nuances that come up with a conversation or the way I behave but they show clearly I know when I'm showing them. If you are someone that feels like you were able to get past this and learn these nuances how did you do it? I've been to counseling and everything and explained this and they always seem to just give me a "I understand" face or explanation.
I have a lot more questions that I truly don't understand but those at the moment are the big 4.
Working with teens, and I genuinely believe they are more racist than Gen X and the millennials ever were. Have you ever seen TikTok? Holy shit are there some smug, hateful young people out there.
How time travel could be possible through string theory and a 4th dimension. I can’t get over the mental block that’s saying time isn’t a tangible thing that can be travelled over because it’s essentially a social construct to keep everything organized
Let's see...sexism. More specifically how women and men are under a different set of disadvantages and sometimes use said disadvantages against the opposite sex. Racism. Particularly racial slurs. Words born of hate and being taught to our future generations. Bipartisan politics and the stereotypes they imply. If you're not red or blue through and through, your labeled the problem. Westboro Baptist Church. Fuck those assholes. And shame on them for their actions. Job interviews. Most interviewers will not call you and tell you no job for you. They just leave you hanging. That's just rude and unprofessional. And lastly, people who insist on commenting on anything. In the USA, you have freedom of speech. That's a given. But there are still repercussions for the words of your mouth.
How Americans can virtually worship some animals (cats, dogs, etc) but will have absolutely no problem killing cows (which are equally sentient compared to said cats or dogs) for food.
Same people will get angry at the Chinese for eating dogs but will mock Hindus for not eating cows.
Not trynna rant or trynna to be funny I genuinely don't understand women. Like how can a topic that we've joked about with you making fun of me for it so many times and us just laughing it off become a whole fucking drama when I do it to you
It's like saying a yo mama joke to a person who's mom died of cancer. It may be funny when directed at person A but not to person B, even if Person B watched the joke to Person A. Because person B is now thinking about HIS mom instead of Person As mom. It's just a matter of reading the room.
Yh but like I understand that I didn't specify the issue cause its genuinely not that deep actually. Basically I'm on about like playfully calling a friend, close one at that like a slut or a bitch as a joke. Cause like she would always make fun of me for having shirtless pics and bulge pics of myself when I looked the best I ever have but this one time we were just talking and like I showed her a post on insta about how girls all have that one song that turns them into a stripper and she said true and I so blatantly jokingly said slut and said jokes quickly after and she got so pissed off at me
I mean we don't talk anymore but what bothers me is that ppl saw how ridiculous the situation was but only because a guy and she's a girl, it's unacceptable
How spaceships can fly in the vacuum of space. Isn’t the ‘air’....’empty’? It seems like no air means no go...no friction or way to hold the ship? Idk. It makes my brain hurt when I try to visualize it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks! I want to invest so bad right now because I know the tourism industry will take off again in the next year or two but I don’t know where to begin!
Fandom. I don't mean "really liking and enjoying something," I mean truly "fanatical," I mean the kind of fandom that has you buying a lot of related memorabilia or branded products just because of the association, or screaming and crying or utterly speechless in the presence of the subject to which you are a fan (e.g. Beyoncé, the Jonas Brothers), or going to a movie revolving around the subject even if the reviews are terrible (e.g. Star Wars).
I have been a "fan" once in my life. It was when I was very young. I was a fan of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Since then, I can't think of anything I have ever been fanatical about. I have had the experience, and I still don't understand it.
Any math that's more advanced than like, idk, 7th grade?? (Says the person who wants to become a robotic/ electrical engineer)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What nothing feels like. Where did my conscious come from before birth and where will it go after death? How will I feel? I guess I won't feel at all... But what does that feel like then? Lol.
I'm pretty good at robotics, more interested in the mechanical aspect of things, though I do understand modules, sensors, programming etc. The one thing I don't get is how processors work. For example: ATmega, ATtiny. How does that thing have so many "legs" that can do so many separate things in that space? How does it work? What's inside of it?
Why people care so much about what others think of them. Live your life men don’t stop yourself from doing something just because someone thinks it’s weird or dumb!!
How phones or the Internet work. How I can write a shit post to someone on the other side of the earth and they get it at the same moment. Or how I can hold a conversation with someone in the US and they get what I'm saying the moment I say it from the other side of the planet. What wizardry.
Why people discriminate furries. Please, just hear me out.
I'm sure a good amount of furry discrimination is just people being trolls, but there are plenty of people who do have genuine problems with how furries are.
The nsfw art they make, the lewd fursuits, I do admit these exist and are furry material.
HOWEVER.
It seems to me that some people are only aware of/only think of these materials when it comes to furries and not acknowledging the full entirety of the furry community.
Furries aren't an entirely nsfw group. They do also create age-friendly content and other normal things as well.
Keep in mind that "normal" people have their sexual desires too. They're no different from the group they're accusing.
Another point I want to make about this topic, imagine if humans were replaced with anthropomorphic animals and therefore never existed.
Even without humans or knowledge of their existence in such a world, I don't think there would even be much difference in their society compared to ours.
They have their own lives with their own jobs, hobbies, troubles, etc...
Furries are people too. They're barely any different from "normal" people.
Thank you for reading this. If you have something to say, I'll allow it. I'm open to seeing other people's discussion, whether it's in agreement or not.
I met a group of them and I can certify that the group are all head cases. Especially when I a little boy walked up to a person whom was stuck between being a mom and a dad and he called it Dad. I felt super sorry for that child.
I get how binary works, I don’t understand how someone made a graphical interface for electrical pulses. I also don’t understand how, when new technology comes out, how they build application programming interfaces in general.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Little kids' sense of humor. I don't think i could ever be a mom because I just don't understand children. They're so... Energetic? But grumpy and fussy at the same time? And they laugh at dumb stuff? And they can do the same thing over and over again with the exact same result every time and still laugh at it? I just don't get it, and it's even more confusing to me how people like my brother can get along with them so well, like they just keep going along with whatever the little kid does. I can't do that, I get too pissed off by that
I will probably get shit for this, but I'll be honest.
I don't understand the prospect of being trans. Don't get me wrong, I'm not homophobic, and I don't judge these people or treat them any differently, I just don't understand it. I don't understand how someone can believe that they are something that, biologically, they are not.
To me, being trans is pushing gender stereotypes rather than removing them. "I have a penis, but I am significantly more feminine, and relate more to things that are feminine. Therefore I must be a woman." No, you are just a dude that likes things that society calls feminine.
If you are a man and you like other men, you enjoy wearing makeup, you feel more comfortable amongst women, you got breast implants and dress like a stereotypical woman, then be that. Just be a dude that does all those things cause that's what you are. You are a man, regardless of what society might think. And vice versa obviously.
If someone wants to explain this to me, I am all ears, cause like I said, I genuinely don't understand it.
I'll never undeestand the "couples can't like or support each others hobbies" mentality. I think it's more of a "boomer" thing, but I still see it quite often. The whole "oh man the wife is gonna kill me for spending 200 bucks on this action figure!" thing is so awkward. Roles can be reversed of course, but I primarily see it with married men who are into collectables.
How airplanes can fly. Trust me, many people have tried explaining it to me, I‘ve watched so many videos on how it works. But a heavy object just flying does not make sense to me. Whenever I’m in a plane I wait for the moment where physics realize - Oh wait! This doesn’t actually make sense lol .
zoggyy · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is the pressure the same at the bottom of the last container? I'd understand if the pressure reading was taken directly under the neck of the container since it would have the weight of the water above it, but the pressure exerted anywhere in the bottom section will be roughly the same. If you've got, say, 1 litre of water in the neck then that's 1kg, which is 10 Newtons of force. But that force will have to be spread out over the entire surface area of the container, so surely if you were to expand that bottom section the pressure would decrease? But in reality it doesn't.
This means if you had a box of water the size of Manhattan that is only a metre deep, simply adding a column of water anywhere that is 1 metre high, no matter how narrow, would supposedly double the pressure throughout the entire box of water. How?????
When I'm riding in a car with someone and they have their music blaring and the bass is literally shaking the entire car as a whole.I don't understand why people like to put modified speakers into their car systems and turn the volume up to blare some stupid mumble rap.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
y ppl hate me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uninformed voters, shaming me for thinking biden is trash
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have all the knowledge in the world about certain things, but make no active choices to change.
The best example I have that will undoubtedly be downvoted is eating meat. There are people who have all the resources, did not grow up hunting, there’s no moral or ethical reason to do it and they have seen the videos, and even understand that these animals do not want to die, but refuse to give it up “because bacon.”
Or those who continue to vote for their class enemies aka the republican or Democratic candidates in the US. These people think black people or immigrants or white people or men are the enemy, but it’s the puppet masters who are making sure the candidates they pay get into power.
Or, in Trump’s case, although he wasn’t bought, he has class consciousness and solidarity with his fellow elites and does right by them.
A lot of different themes in mathemathics confuse me so much and I feel absolutely stupid for not understanding. Everyone else seems to find it so simple and I'm usually completely lost.
Why the Renaissance is so overrated. I understand that it was a giant movement in the art world.... but why does it have to be shoved down into Art majors’ throats
You know what I can't grasp? That there is no center to the universe. To me if it all started at a point of singularity then that point had a physical location. That should be the center but I'm not getting something quite right. I've heard the balloon analogy and that doesn't help because the balloon has a center. Oh well, not the only thing in the cosmos I don't get. :)
I've only felt sexual attraction for one guy in my life and my brain just cannot understand a relationship without the love and commitment that I need in order to even feel sexual attraction.
I know that it happens and it's not the person's fault but my brain cannot ever understand it. I cannot fathom how someone could abuse that trust either.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
Never understand it before and never will now
How people can see Donald Trump completely two different ways. Some people see a corrupt, wannabe dictator, and idiot, a babbling fool. Some people see a successful business man, a good person, a good Christian, and is doing everything right.
I. Don't. Get. It. and it nearly keeps me up at night because my brain feels like it desperately needs to understand.
1 - If you stepped into a teleporter that destroyed you in one location and rebuilt you with atomic perfection in another area, the first you would be dead. Then, the second you would have no idea the first you died. Everybody would assume teleportation is working perfectly, with a transfer of consciousness, when in fact, the original copy of you would be vaporized and dead.
2 - If I cloned myself with atomic perfection, which one is the real me? How do I know I’m real, since both would remember creating the clone?
3 - What happens if you sawed someone’s brain in half and somehow connected it to half of your brain? Also, what if they then took your half-brain and connected it to their brain? Which one is you, and which one is them? Which person would you remember being? Would you have memories from both you and them?
4 - If conjoined twins somehow shared part of their brain, do they have a sense of individuality? Or, do they sense themselves as one person? Do they both think about the same thing in one brain, and if one is studying, are both learning that information?
5 - For conjoined twins, if you tickle their feet, do they both feel it?
This is so unbelievably mind-blowing - especially the part about them communicating with each other from within their own mind, and seeing though each others’ eyes. This is so hard to comprehend.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What for does life exist and why the fuck do we live
This is weird, but truth tables. I swear, my philosophy prof has said since the beginning of semester that it'll click eventually. Four months later, and it still hasn't.
This course is about critical thinking, and I often call it "how to debate" the class. Took it to fill a 'critical competency' credit. The prof is great, course was interesting, the truth table crap is just not clicking for me, no matter how many times I review notes and look for video explanations.
This’ll be controversial. I can already feel it. But I honestly don’t understand trans people. I’m a bisexual man, and definitely not the most manly guy out there. Pretty feminine as far as personality goes. But I’ve never once felt like my sex, sexuality, or ANYTHING of that nature defines me. It’s simply natural, and so, not something to yearn for, be proud of, ashamed of, etc.
It simply doesn’t make sense to me, because I cannot understand attributing value to, or being ashamed of, things that are just...there. Why would someone want to change something that intrinsic to themselves, rather than learn to accept it, and see the good in it? Even so, I don’t see good in those facets of myself either, because of how little they matter. I don’t understand. It seems very complicated.
I should probably add that I don’t care if people are trans. That’s totally fine - you do you. Just doesn’t make sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ruby programming language and objective-c for that matter
What blind people see. They don't see anything. But I don't have an idea or know what nothing looks like. I can't imagine "seeing out of my elbow..." so...
People who believe that whatever religion and God they believe in actually exists and that said God gives 2 shits about what they're doing. And why those people feel that they must impose it on everyone else
Why people think they're brave by not letting the virus stop them from doing things. Like I see people say "I'm not afraid of this virus. I'm not going to let it stop me from doing x, y, and z". And they seem to have no idea that they're a huge fucking asshole - because it's not about them. It's not about whether or not you get it. Sure, maybe you'll be fine - but you could easily kill someone else that can't handle the virus. Just the level of selfishness of people astounds me.
I have ASD, seizures related to the part of the brain that processes emotions and memory, grew up fairly socially isolated and being gaslighted, etc. -- which have all combined into a condition known as Alexythemia. My emotions don't work correctly. I've been told I have them, but you only need to spend a short time with me to know that something isn't normal.
You'd think I'd fine the premise of Inside Out relatable. But I don't. I get that psychiatrists were consulted, it has helped a lot of kids express their own emotions, and that I'm not a normal case -- but I'm grateful I didn't see it as a kid, because it would have really screwed up my botched concept of emotions even more and made me more suicidal than I was.... Now I kind of think of it as just a gimicky metaphor played for drama. Not how things "actually work."
How the phases of the moon work. Like does the whole world see the same phase at the same night, and how can we all see it every night even though it takes a month to fully revolve around us.
If somebody has the energy to dedicate actual time to ruining your day. I’m not talking about somebody just having a bad day and taking it out on other people I’m talking about like a long-term dedication to ruining somebody else’s life
Phones. Or even the internet now. I never could understand how you can talk in a phone and it goes over miles and miles of wiring and comes out your voice on the other end. And that it happens so fast. And now we don't even have wires. Stuff just goes to satellites and comes back down super fast. I just can't comprehend it all.
The last three and a half years. I genuinely would like a Trump supporter to help me understand why they feel they can support someone who speaks and acts like he does. What about him appeals to them? If a school superintendent, for example, said, "You can do anything, you can grab them by the pussy." I can't think of anyone who would support that person... Why president Trump?
Somehow watching people eat became the height of entertainment for some of my friends and apart from being impressed/disgusting by the sheer amount these people can eat I only feel utter boredom whenever they try to show me what's so great about it.
How people can so easily go up to someone and spark up a conversation. I can never and have never been able to just go up to a girl somewhere and start talking casually with her.
Why my one dog will pee literally an inch off the pee pad while my other dog is great at it, and this is after like a month and a half after both were great at it with no issues.
Why I wake up on the weekends at 6am with no alarm (going to bed around midnight). But tired as shit going to bed at 1030 and getting up at 6 for work.
How something I learned recently starts showing up all of a sudden. Like if you just learnt about some word and the you see it coming up anywhere later. Makes me doubt how many things do I ignore everyday to not have realized that I don't know what it is.
max420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why aren't all modern cars made so that the headlights are just automatically on or off with the engine? I think about it every dim, rainy, hazardous driving day where I see half the cars with their headlights off and who always love to hang in my blind spot.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Russian cases, what the hell? genitive, dative, accusative? why?!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in March Madness they put the best team against the "worst" team for the best team's first game. It gives a huge disadvantage to the team at the bottom and not much pressure against the #1 team.
Why people are so vicious to each other via the internet. Like, what mental process is going on here that you have to be so awful to another human being? Regardless of whether or not you can see them.
Social media notifications sometimes give me anxiety from previous issues with the whole cyber bullying thing, even when the last comment I left was a pleasant addition to a conversation.
Being rude to and yelling at retail/customer service staff when there's a minor inconvenience.
Like they're out of whip cream and in the process of making more, go inside and wait for 5 minutes then get your drink. Calling the minimum wage 17-year-old working the counter a bimbo does nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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runekn · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You add the sound waves together to get a new wave that is the product of the two. The speaker then plays this wave. Your brain is able to deconstruct it into the original seperate sounds.
Remember that you hear by having small hairs in your ear that moves along the the sound waves. If two sounds come from two seperate sources, there is no way for the hairs to tell. So this separation had to be developed in an intelligent system.
Alot of things, but how can people be actual dicks? Like some people ik really have no heart and have no problem straight up being mean and making fun of people :/
How the United States can have such high debt. When a country owes billions of dollars to a country, why don't countries collect on that debt?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people seem to lack the common sense to stay the fuck home during a pandemic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you store nested resplies to a comment in a NOSQL database such that the retrieval of a reply from a comment thread is efficient? I tried making such a system but failed.
Pleroo · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nested loops.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people write blank comments on Reddit.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how parents, specifically mothers, could just not care about their children, or choose dope over their kids. All I've ever wanted was to be a mother, and that may not be possible for me, so why do these women who get the opportunity just throw it away?
How the fuck are people genuinely surprised that they have a fire problem when they douse themselves in gas and light it? What do they think will happen? What’s the desired end result?
Are people basically equally feelers, thinkers, perceptors and our thoughts depend on what happend before to them (people) or is everyone actually individually different??
Why do I write so complicated..
Why people can't just not be dicks to each other. It really is beyond me. From the little inconsiderate acts, right up to international posturing, I just don't get it. Just be kind FFS.
Religion with a deity or multiple. It just doesn't click for me or make sense. Billions of people have an imaginary friend, theirs is real and everyone else's is fake if they don't share that friend's same name. And some people hear their imaginary friend's words differently, so they fight and sometimes even kill people who didn't hear it the same way.
How gear boxes work. I had an exam about this and other things am it went good, but I still can't understand how it works, how it is made, what are the parts in it. And don't even get me started about the clutch.
There’s a lot of things I don’t understand, but one thing in particular confuses me. I don’t understand how people can be so mean and terrible without feeling guilty. I’m good with figuring out people’s emotions, but when it comes to personality or motives I have problems
Why people who are "open minded" have no open mind for opposing ideas.
Why people are dedicated to political parties and have no idea how corrupt their chosen candidate is. (Democrat, Republican, other... they are all the same.)
How the 2008 financial crisis happened and what is deregulation and privatisation. Whenever I read about it I can never seem to wrap my head around it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anxiety exists. Why do so many people fear such non-life-threatening things like walking up to the cashier and talking to them? To an extent I have this problem myself so I’m not judging anybody. I’m just wondering why our brains fear things that we don’t need to fear for our survival?
A stock is a share of a company. If you own 10% of all Amazon stock, you own 10% of Amazon.
A company may sell their stock for any reason. Like a co-founder wanting to sell his part of ownership and moving on from the business.
If you want to sell something, you'd have to either find individual buyers, or you put it for sale at a marketplace. For stocks, this would be the stock market.
Tl;Dr: Stocks are slices of a company. A stock market is where you go to buy businesses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people harm/cut themselves when they’re espresso depresso, i just don’t get why people do it.
The leap from single cell organisms to multicellular and why there are no two or 3 cell organisms. Even the most simple multi cellular organism is a worm with millions to billions of cells.
I’m suuuuper late to this but I still don’t understand water pressure or air pressure. Like how water just travels UP through pipes that shit don’t make sense to me at all. So pressure just don’t add up.
Why people are still coming into stores AS A GROUP right now. I work at a store known for its red and khaki uniform and we have never been busier. And no one pays attention to how close they are to you till you kindly ask them to stay put and not keep approaching you when asking for help. I could go on but you get my point: STAY HOME AND AVOID CROWDS RIGHT NOW YALL.
Why dudes "top off" their gas tanks at the pump. Like, there's a shutoff system that works and it's there for a reason, but so many dudes have to show it who's boss and ka-chunk it another three times after it shuts off.
A few things
Anti vaxers: like what. How does anything they say make sense
People buying toilet paper
People who think that the coronavirus can be transferred through the wifi and 5g
What's going on with my girlfriend anymore. I havent seen her in 2 months and we just have the same cyclical conversation that makes me feel like shit everyday
Life science. Atoms and molecules getting together to form something beautiful, fight and destroy each other, reproduce, all that stuff. Mr. Arsenic wonders why nobody will play with him...
It's all bizarre.
In Special relativity, what determines whether something is stationary reference frame vs moving reference plane? If there is aether, than this can be calculated. If no aether, then what is moving and what isn't?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did the Supreme Court of the United States grant itself the power of judicial review? Based on what I learned from Civics class, it used the power to give itself the power, which doesn't make sense to me. Apologies if this is an idiotic question.
Ok so there's these Japanese dollar stores called Daiso, right? Everything in them is 99 yen, or whatever the equivalent is in your local money - here in Australia it's $2.80. I bought a couple of kitchen knives from Daiso, and they're the best knives I've got. I've had them for 8 years now and they're still sharp. I have literally no idea how you can forge and sharpen a stainless steel blade, stick a handle on it, ship it to Australia and pay someone to sell it to me for $2.80 and make a profit off that. Like how the fuck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I genuinely do not understand the whole "white guilt" culture in USA. I don’t live there.
There is some circus going on. SjW act like racist and discriminate white man, then there is SjW friendly The Witcher with black elves (funny fact, "elf" does mean "white being") and other funny things that happen because of this obscure cult of guilt.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think Britney Spears is a good singer. Great person I am sure but her singing is just so bad. I do not understand how people can actually think that weird fake and forced voice is good.
Electricity. I can make it do what i want, and work with it reliably, but damn if it ain't just magic lightning that i don't think i'll ever understand the 'how and why magic do thing?'
How people deny Covid-19 is a problem, how do people not see that, I get joking about it (Lessing the fear it can cause) but people ignore that it’s a problem and it confuses me so much.
Republicans. I'm not being a dick, I truly cannot understand the things they believe in. All of the social issues I'm either far opposed to or indifferent about. I've had friends try to explain why they believe in it, but I can't understand how anyone can arrive at those conclusions.
I'm not really even a Democrat. But I can find certain things that make sense from them and their arguments usually are fact based and less emotional (from what I see from Congress and the Senate).
One thing i definitely do not understand is why people love to give comments awards? It literally costs money just to put a gold star on a post it makes absolutely no sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sonder, or "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own". I think about it all the time and even though it's a fairly obvious concept I just can't wrap my head around it, it seems so strange and upsetting
The theory that our brain is actually 2 brains( some say 3 since the spine does some stuff that the brain can't do some things really fast) cooperating
I dont understand why deadbeat parents disappear, and years later, he or she wants to be part of the child's life.
Did you expect to be welcomed back like "man that line at the gas station was something serious huh?" It's been 10 years. Fuck that. And fuck you.
Electricity. Never understood it since I first learnt about it. Parallel circuits confuse me the most, why does it not just all flow through the first thing it finds?
why my mom can’t leave me alone when i ask to be alone during a breakdown she knows if she just continues to bother me when i want to be alone that shit will escalate but no she continues to do it
Life. Making a baby who grow up and have to work all his life on a fucking stupid planet who don't care about suffering like a mother do because she wants a baby. YOU STUPID MOTHERS.
The minute you are a bit mature and your stupid parents tells you your out on 18 years old..I will NEVER be happy in life. I will never have a wife,kid,house,car or fucking happiness ever.WHY DO THEY DO THAT? But if we don't,the human race will vanish!! I may sound extremely stupid,but as a parent,you are the most selfish shit that got on Earth.
Why my partner of 14 years decided to break up with me after proposing and declaring his love for me almost every day since then. Only a week in, starting to not give a fuck if I get answers now or not. That and the human sub conscious.
Not to get political, but I have no idea how anyone can support a party of person that is so blatantly corrupt and lies about everything, then takes advantage of a broken system to get away with it.
Also, why the super billionaires of the world are still hoarding more and more... Like, they can't bring it with them when they die.
How we can have consciousness. I understand that there are electric impulses and chemicals fueling us, but it beats me how that all leads to thinking and feeling.
Family love, i just don’t understand how people can love their family so much even if they’re complete assholes? I dont get along with any of my family and dislike em all most of the time so i really dont get it, i wish i would tho. The closest thing i understand is me loving my pets to death, they’re all i care about and i love them so incredibly much, i guess this is all i can compare it to tho.
Why some people in the US want so badly to ban firearms. Especially when the type of firearm isn't used often in crimes involving firearms and the overall murder rate involving firearms is low.
No one ever considers banning alcohol or texting as a result of car crash killings, which significantly out number firearm killings.
How dating is supposed to work. Like, I’ve done it, I’ve dated some folks. But it never felt like something rewarding, I was just doing it because it thought it was getting weird that I hadn’t really done it and that could cause problems in the future.
How anybody could look at the Superman Reborn suit and think it looks good.
After the Rebirth suit fixed the color scheme issues the trunkless costumes introduced, them taking a step backwards and introducing the most painfully generic attempt at a Superman "redesign" just hurt. The comics at least brought the trunks back eventually(which is the ultimate look), but toys and stuff are still using that stupid Reborn costume as if it was ever any good.
If you're gonna mess with an iconic look, put some effort into it!
algebra. Like, seriously, I can't connect the dots on that shit & it's seriously holding me back from the GMAT & eMBA programs, learning computer programming languages, on and on . . .
How people can accept the fact that to get cosmetic items in MW2019 you have to buy it, where we can just get solid cosmetic only lootboxes and keep the weapons in the battle pass, or just have Activision let the devs give us actual content in the missions. I'm tired of being told I have to spend $20 on a pack for one cosmetic item I want, or $10 on a battle pass for a $60 game. This is worse than BO4s before they added weapons into reserves. The free maps aren't even worth it, if I want to play them I'd just go back to MW2 since all the maps they've been adding have been remastered.
Calling people out rudely and hiding behind “tough love.”
How about, I don’t know, not being mean? Lol.
MBS_RL · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men ever think it’s a remotely good idea to send an unsolicited dick pic. I have never once spoken to a woman who has had a reaction other than disgust upon receiving one.
How people in my country are still walking about outside and acting as if its a holiday rather than a lockdown when they know 1000 people a day are dying from this virus. It's just fucking mental and painful when you know of people personally who have died.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people with OCD deal with the little line of dust after sweeping
Why a little bit of inflation is a good thing for the economy. Conversely why a little bit of deflation or no -flation at all wouldn't be better.
z-loan · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are some people out there who have absolutely no intention of trying to at least understand your point of view and would try and say anything so you would accept theirs.
I get human nature is quite tricky, but come on! Especially if those people are your friends. It’s just bewildering to me.
Often, I think about how many objects are on the planet. I think about blades of grass, and leaves, and cars, and how much it would be if we added it all up.
I usually give up once I get to the blades of grass and try to think about something else.
wymco · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people bully children for something they can’t do anything about: being poor, physical issues, parents profession, parents addiction.
I was bullied for all of that. It started when I was 8 and continued until I was 17 and we moved across the country. I couldn’t do a damn thing about it. So why??
I don’t understand how people still base so much of their life choices on religion, even though at this point in time, science has debunked everything. Tradition, maybe? 🤷🏻♂️
I don’t mind it and I don’t have anything against the people who do it.
I can definitely see how it could appeal to teenagers, but whenever I see somebody over 20 doing it or posting it on their Instagram it really makes me wonder.
I guess that in my heart I just don’t see myself enjoying looking at teenagers dancing with cringey and cliché phrases typed over their foreheads.
Why we’re still alive. Majority of humans have boring lives, we eat we shit we work we sleep
Idk the reason behind all of this
We have the life span of 60-75 years yet we still act like we’re immortal, people die everyday bc of hunger bc of wars etc etc... but we still are happy
We kill our kinds we kill eachother we hate eachother without a reason or bc of our skin color, beliefs, sexuality... I hate humans.
Trump supporter. Honestly not trying to make a big how do you do, but it is clear time and time again that he does things out of self-interest. I do not understand how anyone believes he is working for the betterment of the country.
People who have a devout belief in god. Like I used to go to temple as a child and believe there might be a higher power but like I never felt that spirit or firm belief. Like I’ve had experiences that seem otherworldly but like that strong belief that god is real and responsible for everything going on in Earth, not so much. I’m honestly jealous of those people a bit I guess.
Also I don’t understand the people who believe in one god to the point they bash any or all other religions. Especially when the faith they’re preaching is the best is teaching to be accepting of everyone regardless of race or beliefs. It’s very ironic.
I “get” that religion and other stuff is a “thing” on a logical level but I just fundamentally do not understand how someone’s sexual preferences have the power to make some people SO. MAD.
How are video games created especially the big ones on consoles. Hundreds of hours of gameplay, battles (where you can chose any combinations), open world task, shorcuts. Like they need to be made keeping in mind like there can be so many different ways to complete any tasks and there are thousands of tasks.
How people can want to be involved in other people's business. The need to have an opinion about everything and constant criticism. Who the fuck cares, mind yours.
I genuinely do not understand why so many people are unwilling to accept that people with mental illnesses are just "different" than those who do not have a mental illness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hacking and cheating in online games against other players, especially in ranked games.
Is it fun? Maybe. But it ruins the game for everyone else, risks your account getting reported and banned, and even if you get a high rank by cheating it isn't really an accomplishment. You can always sell the account as long as it's not already banned, so I guess that could be one reason. But still I can't understand why there are so many cheaters.
Why we can only use the GTS on the Mobile version of Pokemon Home, and not the Switch version. The Pokemon Company refuses to even acknolwedge attempts at finding out.
How we struggle to stream media through the internet (actually we’ve probably solved it over the last 10 years), yet we’ve been streaming wirelessly for the past 70 years via the crooked aerial in the back of my TV. Nobody has been able to ELI5 yet.
I genuinely do not understand Trump supporters. I understand disenfranchised people looking for a change in the old guard and giving trump a chance, but I do not understand continued support after the 10,000 plus lies and untruths, personal attacks and dismemberment of social programs designed to help those who voted for him in the first place.
I have read some articles about racism but I hope that racism isn't as prevalent across his base as the article suggested.
So someone, please explain.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who complain about things they have control over. I don’t get it. I have tried to understand. Yet, I can’t figure it out. Maybe it’s laziness? Which I also genuinely don’t understand. Too lazy to make the change? I’ll never understand.
I’m sure this is the dumbest thing ever. For the life of me I can’t understand why the U.S can’t simply print more money for us when we’re out. Assuming that debt is an indicator of a functional and operational economy, any country that has a collective estimated debt of trillions to other countries couldn’t possibly afford to sustain most of its citizens for an unforeseen amount of time when its economy is stalled indefinitely. (So it’s issuing money that doesn’t really hold value)
why everyone is just so okay with being born and then suddenly they have things expected of them - by law you have to go to school and get a job pay taxes everything costs money you have to follow the laws made by people who will probably never meet you and you have to work to do things you want to do and some things youre not allowed to do things even though someone else could. like no one asked for this? why is everyone like yeah sure ill do this for the rest of my days no questions asked. like what i dont understand
I don’t understand emotions very well. I’m not saying I don’t have them but most of the time, they’re just not present. It’s only when it’s a deep or strong feeling that I feel it. I don’t know if it’s the same way for others but every time I try explaining it to someone, it comes off strange. I’m a very expressive person up front but inside, I just don’t really feel that way most of the time. It’s mostly acting and I feel bad for not caring the way I should. I can’t even say it’s because I’m repressed because I’m not.
This is a bit difficult to explain but how the first computer was made.
I understand that we can code them now. I understand that if I put in some code correctly, something will happen. But why??? Who 'explained' that to the computer the first time? How do you tell a screen that you move a cursor if I move this mouse??
Why does the computer know what a string of code means?????
Why on certian days I look up at the sky around noon and I can see the sun its directly behind my house every day around this time. But on some days a full moon makes an appearance as well in broad day light .. it seems to be around the same place it usually is around 1130 pm the night prior or the coming night. It's doesn't happen eveyday but you can see it a few times a month . I dont understand it lol. Space and astronomy intrigues me I guess..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get offended by jokes so easily. I am Indian and Muslim. My friends joke around about me working in a call center or being a terrorist. Heck, sometimes they are afraid to bring up the terrorist card and I bring it up. I don't get offended by ANY jokes at all.
Myself....
If I could even properly understand myself better, even just a little bit... Life would be a bit easier.
I wish I knew why I do/think the way I do. Even having just a bit more of an understanding of myself would go a long way and I feel could lead to a better way do rme to function and live.
I wouldn't keep falling into this loop of self-loathing and pity. I have some phenomenal friends who have helped me immensely the past few years. I'm definitely far different from the me 3-4 years ago. Hopefully this train can keep going.
How do people not know what they want to do with their lives? I'm at an age where knowing what I want to do is really important, and just about all of my friends are figuring it out. Maybe I'm just a worry-wart, but I am constantly thinking about what I'm going to do, and questioning my decisions, so I'm pretty much certain I want to be a lawyer.
Maybe it's not necessarily that they don't know what they want to do, but they don't think they can do it so they're searching for an alternative that's "more realistic". Like I have a friend who wants to be a dolphin trainer, but he's a senior and yet to take his SAT's and he feels like he won't be able to be fit enough to do it. And I'm like- DUDE! You're awesome! You're so good at wanting something and working to get it- you do it all the time! Why now? Why can't you trust yourself for this one?
Idk. Just weird to me.
TAKG · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. I understand that it’s needed to exist but why. Why can’t we go back into farming and trading for what we need like with what we can do now tech wise we should be able to find a way to make sure everyone is able to get what they need at the least and spare the monetary system for the wants.
Society. Why do we really care about what one person is doing with their lives if it’s only truly affecting them and no one else? Why should we give a shit about one race or gender or whatever being better then the other when really we’re all wandering around life confused and usually dealing with the same issues as the next if you remove the problems that come from other people. Why aren’t we able to look at the past for what it is good and bad and just leave it in the past?
I do understand that .9 repeating is so close to one that is is indistinguishable from 1 at any meaningful level yet something inside me says that on an absolute level 3/3 will never truly be absolutely == 1. It will ever remain in my mind infinitely close to but never equal.
Also I never pretended Im the gooder-bestest in maths.
Quantum randomness.
Like, you're telling me this can choose one of two ways to spin or whatever, and absolutely nothing drives which it goes?? It just picks one? Crazy stuff.
Religion. In general. Like, how can you enjoy a good fantasy novel and then turn around and read something like the bible and not draw the similarities?
People that say that marijuana is not addicting but also complain about people going to prison for it. I think that it should be legal but if people can’t stop smoking weed while on probation for smoking that sounds like an addiction. People losing their kids and going to prison for weed is terrible but that just shows it is addicting.
Limits in Calculus. I had no problem with mathematics before I took it. Just something doesn’t click when came to limits. I understand them in theory but something about the formulas never fully clicked in my understanding.
J_Mc88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sometimes I become more aware of everything I’m doing to the point of thinking how to answer someone or say something so that in 10 minutes whatever I said hasn’t been misconstrued or that if I do this particular in this particular way now, what will the outcome be in 2 steps time from doing that thing.
It’s hard to explain.
That and Facebook adverts. Can’t do them - funnels confuse me = waste money testing.
Inflation fetish...that's just too weird for my poor normal human mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why music makes us feel and what the hell is music really
eken11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to openly hate on things that other people enjoy. I understand if you don't like something, but why do you feel the compulsive need to tell people that the thing they like is something that you hate?
A personal example for me would be baseball. I grew up in a baseball-loving family and I genuinely love the sport. Yes, I know it is slow and can be boring, but as a fan, I don't care. I love it regardless. Yet, when I talk about baseball around some people, they will emphatically say something like "uh I hate baseball, it is sooo boring!" People have said this to my face.
I genuinely don't understand why people have to be that way. Why shit on something that I love right in front of me? We live in a society people!
Music. I play two instruments relatively fluently, love listening to all types of music, etc. but I just don't understand how it makes our brains feel certain things like emotions or memory. Why do only certain songs make people feel certain ways? For example, I can't listen to space oddity without balling my eyes out, yet many people feel nothing from it with some disliking it. It just doesn't make sense to me.
People who truly believe their opinion/perspective is the one and only truth. I just don't get that... There are so many people in the world with so many opinions, it's a shame to be open to only a single version.
Why my wife who I’ve been married to for 10 years whom I loved and supported in everything, provided everything I could and stretched myself beyond my own limits to give her what she wanted, decided to cheat on me while I was away for work and doesn’t want to try and reconcile during a global fucking pandemic.
I dont understand movies when they travel to the future... is everything already decided and we just don't know it? If we did travel would there be nothing because it doesn't exist?
My brain hurts now... thanks
Sometimes when it’s late at night and I get in bed, I just lay there. I don’t close my eyes, I don’t scroll through my phone or anything, I just lay there and look out my window that just behind my bed. I look into space and thunk about nothing other than “How? How is anything existing? Why can the arrangement of atoms that make up me, have thoughts, but not blanket? How am I here? What does everything me? What existed before the Big Bang?” I like philosophy.
Also another thing I don’t understand and is hard to think about, is; Based on what astronomers and other scientists say, the universe came from nothing. Something literally came from nothing. How did everything start existing? The universe is an infinite age based on what I think.
Why Windows usability is still stuck in the 90‘ - why would you have 4 different places for users to change settings for eg Bluetooth?
Why a “self diagnostics tool” for different parts when the OS should be able to recognize and fix faults themselves, and mostly finds max mundane “faults” in the system.
Why is the user responsible for downloading new drivers for every piece of internal and external hardware.
I recently had the problem that the Pc decided to forget it had an internal Bluetooth module.
After hours of troubleshooting, I decided to do a complete reinstall because apparently “that just happens” sometimes.
Idk how that shit got through any meeting, let alone in a company that big.
Mathematics.
That doesn't mean I can't do math, is just that I can't understand the big picture of it (I can understand "piece by piece", however, I have a big problem trying to understand all together), it just doesn't make sense to me.
It is...weird for me and hard to explain to people when I say that I'm a programmer and I don't understand mathematics. I found easy the programming stuff, but not the math stuff.
Turing reductions. I spent like a whole month trying to understand that shit in CS and was about halfway there when the class ended and then I never had to figure it out.
Basic multiplication.
I’ve always had a really hard time in school and I could never get it down. I would ask for help but my teachers would repeat the same thing over and over expecting me to understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to take away in math such as subtracting, I don’t know how I graduated HS but I did
Quantum computers. I have a good grasp on how conventional computers work, but when people start talking about superposition and qubits I completely lose it.
I’m a relationship coach, why is it so much easier to spot and fix problems with other couples, than it is to apply my same teachings to my own Marriage :)
Why are people still treating this pandemic lightly....
Seriously! My sister had a close encounter with it. A coworker was hospitalized mid-March due to breathing complications. At the hospital, the guy tested positive for COVID19. Her company was forced to shut down for a week. During that week, my ashthmatic sister started developing flu symptoms. Her doctor gave her the ok to get tested. She came back negative. She was only sick for 3 days, but doctor believes it was just her allergies.
Unfortunately, another cousin of mine also had a close encounter. A coworker from his job lost her daughter to pneumonia after she came back from Italy. The mom also got pneumonia and was hospitalized. This was back in late February to early March. My cousin started developing symptoms too. It's April 11, and his symptoms haven't gone away. What's even more unfortunate is that his mom has been a strong Facebook conspiracy nut. She's been calling this virus a hoax. So that's rubbed off on her son and my cousin still thinks it's a hoax and he just has flu.
Now what pisses me off and I still don't understand is that, his brother and another one of my cousins are coming over. My aunt (his mom), and another aunt are planning an Easter party. Both her sick son, my aunt, her husband and sons are going to be attending. I live with my aunt (not the one with the sick son), but the one who is planning to host the party. Yesterday she had invited my other aunt and sick cousin over. He was coughing everywhere in the kitchen, while drinking beer and taking shots with the aunt I live with and her husband. None of them were wearing mask!
My sister and I have asked my sick cousin to get tested, but he's refused! His mom gets angry at us for even suggesting it. Says that how can we suggest such a thing, that her son just has flu. When we point to the mom and dead daughter from his work, she claims it was just pneumonia and not this made believe scare.
Omfg! Part of my family, all think this shit is just a scare and not real. Every time I try to talk to them, it just devolved into bullshit Facebook conspiracies. They show me videos of people who supposedly got it and those people claim it's just the flu. I honestly don't know how California has such low numbers compared to NY. People like my aunt's are everywhere! At my mom's job, people are going into work sick. Her employer already threatened to fire people who abuse sick paid leave during this pandemic. So naturally, workers are showing up nearly dead to work. It's not until the managers catch them, that they send them home. Oh and these same people who think it's just a scare, also won't get tested or go to hospital or seek medical help.
EDIT: Autocorrect!
m8key · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why for the last year I'm constantly getting deja Vu and always think I've done something in the past but can't seem to remember it
Don’t get me wrong I can write and talk perfectly fine, but you could explain to me what exactly the categories of words are and I just wouldn’t understand. Actually in no language, whether mother tongue or a language I learned later.
Why do Republicans and most democrats oppose someone like Bernie Sanders who is fighting for things like free healthcare, social security, better living wage etc. that actually benefits majority, maybe more than 90%, of these people who are opposing him. I’ve failed to understand people flying American flags with don’t treat on me stickers(btw I am an 11B veteran) on their pickup trucks while drowning in thousands of dollars of medical debts, but when someone is screaming for more than 30 years for getting these same people the benefits that would take them out of it. They hate him.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s better to have a base education in all subjects so that you aren’t pressured into a certain profession/field before you have to make that decision
When and how empathy became illogical. I see and argue with so many people whose political stance boils down to a believe that it's foolish to care about others. Who hurt y'all??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really embarrassing but...electricity. I've looked up how it works and I'll understand while I'm reading about it, but then I'll forget. It's like I have a block or something.
Why people, particularly those of modest means, continue to support politicians that are actively, and blatantly, exploiting their positions for personal gain and/or corporate profit at the expense of those same voters. I understand the role of propaganda and the manipulation of feelings and ego that goes into it, but it still baffles me how people can allow politicians and businesses piss in their face year after year.
Why the fuck we never see the moon’s other side. Like.... if i can’t, then the exact oppsite side of earth should see it cause it fucking rotates right?....
How religion is so pervasive. I get back in like the 1800s but between science and seeing how Christianity is literally a plagiarised version of Egyptian god stories how do people fall for it? I guess it's the opposite of science and knowledge since it relies entirely on faith but it just feels like adults beleiveing in santa Claus.
The moon. Like it would genuinely not surprise me if I saw it one place one night and then not at all the next night, and then somewhere else radically different the following night.
Why people hate fortnite, I enjoy playing it and I’m not a 10 year old boy before y’all say something. Why can’t people let others enjoy something cause if not that’s kinda toxic
What amps and volts are, i mean, i have to know it since its basic physics stuff and my brother explained it to me before, but still, i genuinely dont get it and how to apply it
Why 16+ million people bought Pokemon Sword and Shield.
How is not overwhelming obvious the games were rushed to release during the holiday window? The graphics are worse than Let's Go and the animation for generally everything is terrible.
Philosophy, whenever I was in Philosophy class I genuinely had small panic attacks, I understood NOTHING that the teacher said.
You might think I’m overreacting, but the small problem was that:
People always consider me good at philosophy
And sometimes the teacher or my friends would ask questions I had no idea how to answer, the teacher always said that my answers were great, and when I said to my friends “I genuinely don’t understand” they would get angry.
How did I miraculously passed that class? All of the exams were made in at least pairs, that saved me THREE years in a row. Every now an then I have nightmares about that class.
I don’t understand fitness programs and routines. How people come up with them, how long you’re supposed to stick with one for, etc.. whenever I ask I get hostile responses especially online.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to properly use a semicolon!! As a non native English speaker using a semicolon has always been hard for me in a sentence much less differentiate between a proper use in a coma.
You use a semicolon when you want to relate two similar but different ideas. For instance mountains are very tall; the tallest mountain above sea level is Mt Everest. Also, a semicolon can replace a comma, most often when making lists.
C3004 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come nobody has tried to invent something to see dark matter.... I got a lot of hell for making a
post like this a while back under a different name.Also all the stuff we send out into space and none of it we sent to Orion's belt??? When almost everything on the Earth that we look into is lined up with Orion's belt??? From what I know we have sent nothing to planet x/nuberu/our Beetlejuice? I know it will take thousands and billions of years for us to send anything that direction but why have we not???? From the Beginning .Of us sending stuff into space???? WHY DID WE NOT SEND ANYTHING that direction?????
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can write "abolish capitalism" "eat the rich" or "feel the Bern" on an iPhone (tm) unironically.
What's the difference between friendship and relationships /platonic and romantic love? I mean I get that the feeling of having a crush at the beginning of a relationship is different but that feeling dies down doesn't it? And then isn't it just a very good friendship? I love my close friends. And since I'm bisexual I'm also attracted to some of them. What would be the difference to a romantic interest?
Why in Europe its spring and on the other side of the planet it isn't. I mean, we're floating on the same Rock
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. Honestly math in general. I was always great at writing, drawing, and being creative in general (I’m a chef), but numbers and I don’t get along. I’m sure it’s disinterest more than inability but I just don’t understand the math “logic” and I’m sure that will never change.
Fundamentals of Trigonometry. I always excelled in Math until I got into trig. I always found math easy since I always understood the concepts behind it. But in my trig class, there was no explanation to how Newton came up with Sine, Cosine, and Tagents. I can solve problems which include it, but I don't understand a thing and it drives me nuts.
I genuinely don’t understand why people like seeing other people naked or like are turned on my that like it’s just so weird to me to think that like wtf how do people like that
I get and can comprehend the rest of LGBT but the whole today I think I'm a woman and the next im a man and then back and forth I just dont understand. I've tried but it just boggles my mind.
Mols in chemistry. I was never great at science or math, but by all rights, I should have failed high school chem. I had a student teacher for Chem, and that may have had a small part of it, but once we hit the concept of mols, I was lost and totally screwed. Luckily, our Science dept was big into fundraising (my entire school was always severely underfunded even tho it was really high ranked). Student teacher offered extra credit for bringing in receipts to a certain store (kind of like box tops today). Except, being new, he didn’t understand the students at my school and didn’t put a cap on the amount of extra credit. I went from an F to a B-. 😅
If someone can give a simple explanation, I’d really appreciate it. Just cuz my kids will be asking me to explain it soon enough. The fact that the number changes really throws me off.
hoyrry · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brexit
I read a lot about it and I know the arguments for and against it. But I still don't understand why anyone would think that this is a smart move
How internet works. Especially WiFi and mobile data. I get the concept. I just wonder how can 0's and 1's "fly" through the air and show you funny cats in your pocket computer.
A MODEM (modulator/demodulator) converts radio waves into digital data (1's and 0's). Your phone has a GPRS radio that basically does the same thing. Basically how does a wavelength get interpreted and translated to 1's and 0's.
how people are able to see pictures in their head. like i know technically i’m the one with something wrong with me but i just don’t fucking know how it’s possible. it’s like a superpower
People who throw trash out of their Vehicles. Its like even the thought of doing it feels impossible to my brain its so fundamentally wrong to my head.
How people find it so hard to repeat one word said in another language. I get that if it’s a fast sentence it’s hard to repeat but if someone just says one word with a simple noise structure I seriously do not understand how it’s that hard to repeat
Sports fandom. On the one hand team loyalty is the point. People want to support their local team no matter what, even if they’ve consistently lost for decades. On the other hand the teams spend mountains of money in a competition to hire the best players in the world, regardless of where they’re from. So which is it?
"Many seek the Solace of Wisdom - to know the why of a happening. There are a stark few that get an answer and fewer still that actually take Solace from it. Money can't buy this for or from you so take it or leave it - once you start asking "why" you won't stop..."
Somebody who is born deaf how do they think for instance I think in English but someone born has never heard or can grasp the idea of vocal language so what “voice” is in their head
People that don't stay at home and don't follow profesional advise. People that discriminate DOCTORS AND NURSES FOR CHRIST SAKE in fear of getting infected with corona.
Why private credit score companies exist, and why we are forced to use them. On that same note, why schools dont teach you about their influence BEFORE you get into debt.
I'm a nurse. I cant for the life of me understand how chest tube drainage systems work. I get that there's physics involved but the whole water seal concept just baffles me.
Addition and subtraction of negative numbers. Only thing I failed to understand in high school maths. Turned out to be pretty important in year 11/12 😬😬😬
Space. How come it's infinite? Whenever I think about it, I find myself dazed and teary-eyed and feel like just a useless primitive who is trying to do something to live on.
Because the more you have (and can effectively use) the harder it is for someone else to take them from you. This is compounded by firm belief in our Constitution's Second Ammendment (and rearing children with this in the forefront of their minds) alongside various politicians and less-than-informed "concerned citizens" pulling for guns to be outlawed and forceably removed from law-abiding, gun-owning citizens due to issues such as mass shootings (take from our news what you will).
Those of us who enjoy the idea (false as it may be), that we are prepared for any and all issues that could arise (speaking in very general terms of apocolypse) most often carry, collect, and feel proud of the resources we most highly value for such an occasion. For some (the average American) it's weaponry (usually firearms). For some (like me) it's other stuff like healing items and easy-carry containers (I make pouches and backpacks from upholstery vinyl). Some think along the lines of stimulating commerce by "bringing something unique to the table." Some think more along the lines of capturing that table by force if needed (or wanted). In any case, it's not all of us that hoard guns (I've never owned one myself at 30 y/o,m) (I also happen to think they're lazy - preferring more traditional meleè styles/weapons for everyday use).
I hope this helps and I'm happy to discuss my thoughts further if you'd like
I agree. It's expensive as hell and I'm sure regular maintenance eats up a fair bit of time. With all of this in mind, I can't see my way to asking for any change in the matter. Nobody gripes about how many knives I own - where's my right to tell you you can't (or shouldn't) own so many xxxxxx('s)?
My brother is a decent example of what I find to be excessive. When our Dad passed about ten years ago, he left my brother his guns. A shotgun, a rifle and three handguns. Since then, little bro has sold one of the handguns and bough three more. I've rarely seen him have the time to take these all out at once to a range (man's got a busy life). I've asked a few times what it would take for me to just borrow one of his handguns for some range time. His consistent response runs in course with "get your own while you still can." What this tells me is that there is an embedded attitude of someone(s) attempting to take this freedom, by force if necessary. In looking at some of the gun control lobbies and potential bills running around, I can sort of see this too. While I might see excess, his guns and my knives are not the only places I see these things. I've started to see it as most other collections - put together with care for the spirit of collecting and sometimes with disregard for the price of the individual item. The same can be said of cars, boats, various other pieces of sporting equipment, jewels, kitchenwares, coins, etc. While the specific desire doesn't make sense to me (specifically me and specifically guns), I say that as long as it's not harming anyone - let's all collect whatever we want.
Genetics. there are only a couple of building blocks in genes and by putting them in a different order you can make a code that can create every thing in your body. it’s insane.
Biology. I get how Physics works and, to an extent since I've stopped studying it, I understand Chemistry. Biology, however, never makes any sense to me. Why does plant do plant thing? How does body do body thing? At least with physics I can link and derive equations based on experiments and such, I just don't understand how Biology makes things work.
Why people keep defending Trump and acting like he understands what the poor man goes through. Kinda weird how he can get away with anything due to political convenience because almost half the things he has done and said that if Obama was in office there be blood on the street
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have issues with gay people (and any sexual orientation other than straight).
Like WHY DOES it matter to people who other people fall in love with? I just cannot understand it. I find it so illogical.
I don’t get why when people introduce people they also go ‘this is my gay best friend’. Like - what exactly is their sexual orientations relevance in an introduction.
I think someone’s sexual identity is a part of who they are and a component of their identity so I am not for a second wanting to deny its importance, it’s very important. But these wack reactions OTHER people have just baffles me.
Can’t we just love and look after people?
If you’re out there reading this and feeling judged or not accepted I LOVE YOU AND YOU ARE AMAZING! And the judgement you face has absolutely nothing to do with you, NOTHING. Enjoy your life, I’m glad you get you live your truth and be you! Because you are more than enough and deserving of love. You NEVER have to earn it or suppress a WONDERFUL part of yourself (your sexual orientation) to be loveable or be loved, so here, please please feel all my love to you!
Most languages, but Chinese stands out as a good example
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely I don’t understand how humanity could have evolved so intelligently - making fire, flight, heart transplants, curing diseases - and people take it for granted. I look around at folks sometimes looking at their phones and wonder, do you actually appreciate all this or is it just ‘there’ for you? If I sit and really think about what humans have achieved it makes me dizzy. And that’s before we get onto the bigger picture of nature and the universe in general...
Looking at the maps of the universe's background radiation. I'm 68% certain we are not located within that map, but what's the base perspective? What is north? If this is seeing beyond everything else (is it even that?) where are some recognizable points? Howard does anyone get any information out of those things? To clarify, I am impressed, love looking at them, but what am I really looking at?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
U.S. taxes. Why do I claim nothing just for the government to take the maximum amount of money from me, and then they give me that money back after I file taxes? Why take the money just to give it back? If you take it from me, why don’t you use it on the roads and for the schools? If you’re going to give it back, why must you take it from me in the first place? Shit makes no sense to me.
nadjp · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't read maps... I mean for me it's so obvious that I'm here a need to get there so next corner I turn left walk the street 2nd corner right, and I'm there.
Whatever a mole is in chemistry. I know it is a unit of measurement, but what it exactly measures is lost on me, even after AP chem in high school.
Suffice to say I did not take chem in college.
Ailyra · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People (that are not large corporate CEOs) that genuinely support Trump. Like, truly believe in him, what he says, what he stands for, that he fully has their interests in mind, that there is nothing that could be better for our country than what he says or does.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't fully understand pedophilia. Like a 15 and a 18-19 year old could be dating but as soon as they reach 20 years of age, it's illegal. Or a 20 year old dating a 25 year old, but a 15 year old can't date a 20 year old. That's not to say I don't think it's wrong, just to an extent. I'm just saying 15 and above is when I personally stop caring.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution. How did water dwellers become land dwellers when evolution takes so many years? How did they survive the “in-between” time between gills and lungs?
And before you go and be an anal bead about it maybe you could explain it to me instead!
reduff · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fantasy football works.
NOYB94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Allowing Euthanasia on patients with clinical depression. I am actually pro-euthanasia, but suicidal thoughts are literally the main symptom of the illness. When I first heard it I thought anti-euthanasia people made it up, but it's actually true, at least in Belgium and Holland. Scary shit.
Interpersonal communication. I struggle with it even after having six children, finishing two degrees, and working as a Liaison for a government agency. Go figure.
Hearing stuff like, “2500 annual deductible, with 200 deductible after , with a 20/80 copay once your max out of pocket is met, capped at 5000 flex spending for services rendered” or whatever ....confuses me.
Even when someone explains , I have no idea five minutes later
How to most people it's viewed as normal for some girls to dress in more masculine clothes and be tomboys, but immediately get disgusted by guys being feminine.
How stupid this race is. I understand that there are many intelligent people in the world, but the fact that we are "the most intelligent race" and still have the capacity to be stupid enough to believe the earth is flat or that vaccines cause autism [as a couple of notable examples] is laughable.
llama_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you short stocks, and more generally how people claim to know anything about the stock market.
How our brain works. It seems so simple, a gel sack that fires electrons too and fro via synapses (or something like that) but I still don't get how it works, how we are able to remember anything or send signals from it to the rest of our body. Like, I "get" the "basics" but don't actually understand it. As in, I "know" how some of it works (electrical impulses etc ) but I don't "understand" how it actually works.
Accounting. I'm working on my masters and have always effortlessly been able to do any work assigned to me. Accounting on the other hand has been a fucking test of patience. I dont think I've ever worked so hard on something and still not understand it at all. Stupid balance sheets and income statements still look foreign to me.
People who don’t believe in science...or worse, people who pick what science they believe and what they don’t...yes doc, I’ll take this heart pill daily, but climate change, that’s some made up BS.
The modern political fad of refusing to persuade and entice the opposition to switch and vote for you, and instead attack/insult/ban them, guaranteeing they will never vote with you, and actively pushing them further into opposition to you.
Reddit has been instrumental in this.
The damage reddit has done to liberal political advocacy continues to be immeasurable, and possibly irreparable.
Frankly I never understood the persuade and entice activity either. It’s as if people of differing opinion cannot coexist, particularly people who only have a “cocktail” level of participation. Leave the gerrymandering, statecraft, and lying in general to the people who are actively involved.
Rude people, this lady comes to my work every day and always has a bitchy attitude and and everything she says it sounds like she is wasting her time talking to me. I give her what she wants reasonably quick and not even a thank you. I can’t fathom how someone can be so rude.
I would really like a head doctor to sit down and break it down with me. So many times I do not navigate crucial conversations to the best of my ability because someone in the conversation is reacting so personally and working so hard to bring another person down and it just baffles me.
I get it’s one of those things that’s just like a macho contest, but if we actually held a pissing contest is the winner whoever pisses longer, or further?
How people can be mean to grocery store workers/other essential workers right now. Especially considering a lot of them are teenagers.
My friend has been called a r*tard, a stupid bitch, and been told she’s too stupid to ever have another job within one day. By grown ass adults. She’s 17. How can you speak to someone risking their health and safety, especially a kid risking their health and safety? I don’t understand people.
I don't understand when I am looking at my phone and then feel like I'm about to fall asleep but then when I turn over to plug my phone in I am wide awake....like seriously body just go to bed
Ashken · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of wanting to be and thinking you are or should be a different gender. I get that it happens, but I won’t ever be able to understand the actual feeling of it.
How people’s minds work when it comes to politics. How they can listen and watch someone lie to them on television, know it’s a lie, and do mental gymnastics to convince themselves otherwise
Conflict in the middle east, place names, leader names, I just find it really hard to keep track of and it's so important, something that effects the world on terms of conflict and oil prices etc and I have to admit, its beyond me!
Deaf people..... or more specifically, what language do they hear in their head? Or do they just visualize sign language? I’ve done research and I understand the concepts, but it still just blows my mind. I can’t image not talking to myself, but when you don’t know verbal language, it must get quite.
That some people don’t have an internal narrative.
I read that some people “hear” their thoughts, and some people just have non-verbal abstract thoughts, and have to consciously verbalise them.
I’m in the former category, as are the majority of people, and cannot understand the other for the life of me. My thoughts are a podcast that I can’t turn off.
where money comes from during a crisis. currently there are a ton of headlines about X-country freeing billions of dollars to help stabilise the economy. where the hell does that money come from??
Have you ever stopped at a gas station during a roadtrip at like 2am to take a piss or something, and you get this... Feeling. I can't explain it, it's a smell, and a temperature, and a vibe. It feels empty and crowded at the same time. It feels cold and warm. It feels like another dimension. I have no idea what it is.
People who are rude/self centered/racist/sexist. I dont get how people can completely disregard everyone else's emotions/feelings and treat people like garbage. They're as much human as you are and they deserve to be treated like one.
on the theory of evolution, there's the big bang, and from my very limited knowledge on the big bang, there was stuff compacted into a very very very small space so small that it blew up with a bang and created everything. but where did that stuff come from?
it's the same concept with any kind of god or higher being. who made god? where did he come from??
that's why I figure it's easier never to think about it because you can't get anywhere
edit: another thing, I seem to feel very little emotions of sadness about people I know dying. while writing this edit I'm realizing the better way to put this into words is I have an extremely difficult time making real connections with real people. I will cry over my pet, or a fictional character, but I just don't find the same sadness from real people. Someone very close to me died recently, and I barely cried. I don't know why.
How anyone can hear, "I want all humans to have complete access to basic necessities required for living, without any barriers," and consider that a negative thing in any way at all. How could you argue that some people should just die for no good reason?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trigonometry even works
SACGAC · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a nurse but I just don't understand blood gases. We have RTs at work so I rely on them a ton, but, yeah, other than respiratory acidosis, I got nothing. Thank you, respiratory therapists!
Electrons hate each othet and want to get as far from each other as possible. When there is a path between a reservoir with lots of electrons and an empty reservoir, electrons will flow in to the empty reservoir until they are evenly distributed.
No, one's education is not a display of intelligence. You are desperately clutching at straws in an attempt to sound smart.. If you had the answer to what you think you know, you would be able to explain it. But you can't, because you don't.
You see... Although one's education is not a metric we could use to measure one's intelligence in it's fullest, you can't be a dumb fuck AND also have an advanced degree in mathematics, which therefor becomes a displays of a certain degree of required intellect, meanwhile a complete lack of education says absolutely nothing about the subject's intelligence at all.
So the question then arises : When you make mistakes that are corrected in first grade, such as the ones you've been committing so far, are you stupid or just uneducated?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
''There are many educated unintelligent people''. Yes and no, it depends on the subject. For most, a certain degree of intelligence is required for you to understand it.
No, I did not misspell ''Therefor'', I just did not write ''Therefore''.
One is an adverb that means “as a consequence,” “as a result,” or “hence.”
The other is an adverb that means “for that,” or “for it.”
Lacking information about a topic does not make one stupid, as one can always educate oneself. Rather, stupidity is more of a choice. If someone chooses to act without taking full measure of the available evidence, that is stupidity.
Therefor, I genuinely do not understand stupid people's choice to remain stupid and ignorant.
Thanks for the chat, have a good one.
ay-sea · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love it. Have seen season 1 a lot, season 2 (GGO) a few times and the film once. It does seem very Male centred. Very easy. He has all the girl hanging on him so can see why it isnt everyone's cup of tea.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to squeegee for some fuckin reason
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How those cassette tapes that have an aux cord work! I’ve never looked it up due solely to the fact that it is the closest thing I’ll ever have to magic.
Math.
Is something weird because I'm really good at math, I know how to do math. But I don't get how it works. I'm not good to explain things like this but I just don't get it
the actual reason why electrons behave in such a way that makes sense but doesn’t make sense. the general idea of chemistry i understand but when we break it down to atoms and how they behave, i will not understand. basically asking why to every chemistry question about atoms and not getting a clear understanding from anyone.
I don't ahve a good answer for you, but Richard Feynman explained why it is hard to explain complicated things to somone without the neccessary groundwork of understanding to understand the answer.
People showering in the morning but not in the evening. Clearly, you get dirty/sweaty after a long day, not after spending 8 hours in your clean bedsheets. I get the argument that a morning shower wakes you up but I will never understand why someone would dirty their bedsheets by going to sleep without taking a shower first ugh
Roon22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They say the universe is still expanding....into WHAT ?? I don't get it !
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people in Australia buy peugot’s. They aren’t even cheap here. They aren’t particularly classy, luxurious, practical, high performance or reliable, they depreciate faster than milk, their interior trim falls apart in the heat here, they are a pain to work on & their service departments charge an arm and a leg. Honestly why?!?
In the US you have a country, state, city/zip code, street, house/building address, and maybe apartment number.
Or in a hotel, floor, wing, room number.
In atoms, n is the orbital. It's like the floor number in a building. l is the sub orbital shape. It's kind of like a wing of the floor. m is the magnetic quantum number. It's the direction the wing faces. The spin is whether you are in bed or out of bed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:01:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work
I've been alive decades and I still lowkey think phones are some kind of voodoo. How can I talk into a little piece of plastic and metal and someone in japan can clearly hear what I'm saying
I am 26 and I genuinely have no idea how life works!
I know that money is good and bills are bad, so I pay then as fast as possible so they disappear but other than that I have no idea..
Just wake up everyday go to work, have small talk pretend to do adult things and know what they are, go to bed sleep and hope I don't have to do this again tomorrow..
Ask me how an appointment with the doctor is made and I will just burst out laughing, cause I have no idea what you just said..
How matter warps space. That's how we get mass. Gravity is the result of this warping effect. Matter somehow warps space, like stretching taffy. There are no straight lines in space at all.. That's just an illusion. It's all orbits and curves.
Matter also warps time - because time and space are connected. I don't understand that either.
Sleeping. Like one minute you’re laying there, eyes shut, content with your thoughts. And all of a sudden you wake up to needing a piss or wake up with a dead arm because you were holding the quilt too tightly. How do we so suddenly slip into unconsciousness??
Customers leaving half eaten food/drink on the store shelves. Even during this pandemic, I can't seem to go 1 week without finding a half full can of Mountain Dew, a sandwich from our deli, or more recently, a box of White Castle sliders! With half of said sliders missing but the other half still in there! It's "nice" to know that even though there's a ravenous lung/blood disease on the prowl all over the world, there are still humans with little enough common sense that they can just leave a mess with no weight on what would be their concience.
And store employees are supposed to be praised and regarded as "heroes"?
How a parent can just walk away from their child, and have little to no contact with them. How can a person know they have flesh and blood on this earth and not feel lost without them in their life? I don’t understand this. I want so badly to understand my son’s father, but no matter what I do, I can’t wrap my brain around it.
Why people get dogs and then put them outside on chains. In America that’s super common and I’ve heard some people say it’s for protection but....how can they protect you on a 10 ft chain???? Can’t they protect you better y’know, in your house? If you can’t train/house train/handle a dog then don’t get one????
If the universe is expanding... what is it expanding into? Where is "the end" of the cosmos? I just can't comprehend it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are incredibly smart people at the helm of financial and managerial decisions in big multinational companies, but all they do is panic and carryout mass layoffs at the first sight of trouble.
Their only job is to ensure that the company efficiently does what it is expected to be doing, make products or services for the customer often partially consisting of their own employees. They are paid high salaries to be prepared for all contingencies. I just don't understand this.
How does one "build a PC". What the hell does that mean?! How do you know about all the hundreds of components and what not that belong in a computer! Fuck that.
They don't build it completely from scratch. They typically buy a few key componants.
The motherboard (the thing everything plugs in to).
The processor (CPU) this is the brain of the computer that does the computing. Most computers have more than one.
The hard drive, or hard disk. This stores the programs and other data.
RAM. This is memory. Temporary storage where the computer puts data it will need shortly.
Video and sound card. Some motherboards have them built in but people often at least prefer to supply their own sound card.
Power supply. Supplies the power.
Cabinet. Typically a tower. The housing of the computer.
Cooling system. Fans and heat sinks. Some cooling systems use liquid through piping.
People might also add an optical drive and other accessories.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weather and forecasts.
I can't read radar on weather forecasts. I understand what it is SUPPOSED to be telling me, but I cannot look at one and understand it. I swear, most do not specify whether they are past, present, or future. And unless you live in a large city, we're just supposed to KNOW where we are on the map? There's no weather channel that leaves it on the screen long enough for me to have time to piece it all together.
When I talk to people and they say "well it's supposed to rain around three" I honestly don't understand where they got that information.
I have downloaded many, many weather apps over the years because I've constantly thought that everyone around me had the "good" one and I am clearly using some sub-par app. But I say confidently, with three weather apps currently on my phone, it's me.
Nosy people. Why is my life so interesting to you? I'm just reading Reddit posts. Why? Because I'm trying to find the meaning of PI.. Because I want to, now go away and mind your own business!
JediH · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone with Aspergers syndrome... Emotion.. I genuinely don’t understand emotion.. I barely feel it myself most of the time but will occasionally be overwhelmed. Even then I don’t understand my own emotions or the emotions of others.. Within the last few years I’ve experienced more and started experiencing complex/mixed emotions like happy crying etc which just makes thing even more confusing.
How do you regular humans even cope with all these emotions, how are you able to decide anything or be even remotely logical XD
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A flame is actually a region in which an exothermic (energy emitting) chemical reaction is taking place. The reaction causes electrons to give up energy in the form of heat and photons (light) as they reorganize and drop to lower energy states. This heats the air and in a gravitational field, hot air rises, causing the flame to have the shape it does. In microgravity, such as on the space station, flames are spherical.
How the sex who bleed (and quite often can go through considerable pain during it) once a month, for a very large period of their life, (not to mention have to deal with even bigger shit After this) birth children (and deal with the recovery whilst dealing with an infant), (or go through the pain, often with little support and with very few people knowing, of miscarriage or still birth) feed children from their own body (even though it can hurt and can cause them to be stigmatised and forced out of public places), wear uncomfortable clothes and footwear along with getting waxed up and down their body regularly, etc. Etc. are considered the ‘weaker’ sex.
health insurance. Deductibles, co pays, etc. the math of what is charged for healthcare makes no sense. I am a nurse. I need to take a education hour credit class on this. But I'm so bewildered at my own health expenses that I cannot deal with trying to explain to anyone else. Also I had heart surgery in 1998, BCBS MA. I paid $21 a week. I found a PCP who happened to be a cardiologist who I happened to mention that I was kinda short of breath going up stairs and with emotion. One ultrasound later I was booked at MGH for immediate open heart surgery. I had a total of 3 cardiology consults, all labs, OR, inpatient, outpatient visit...$5. I. DID.NOT.WORRY. Now 21 years later I'm nickel and dimed for every damn test, lab, visit, (forget ER and anthing else) I have an FSA but, kid needs braces and I NEED HEARING AIDES so that is not viable for both of us since we had to pay 6000 out of pocket for hubs prosthetic leg not due to diabetes. (obvs my kid gets braces first...WHAT? WHAT????I'm fine with not hearing you also you won't know it since I've done it since birth) Also my husband is Type 1 Diabetes, his insulin has skyrocketed in the last 10 years. IT> MAKES>NO>SENSE. I'm luckier than sooooo many.
Probability. I was always top of my class in math, took calculus in high school, have an engineering degree. Grade 12 precal we took probability. My average in the class was 99%. Probability chapter was around 50.
Give me differential equations and advanced calculus... no problem. Ask me the odds of anything past a coin flip and I’m useless.
Electrical - has two parts the rotar and the stator. The stator has windings which when energised create a magnetic field which turn the rotar which is basically the opposite of the magnetic field so will push away from the magnetic field in stator and will spin.
Petrol/diesel - explosions move pistons. The pistons have a crank shaft and drives wheels or a fan in a leaf blower or maybe the stator from the electrical motor so this time it creates a magnetic field and produces electric like a generator.
A bicycle- the sun sends energy to the earth and the energy helps seeds grow. The seed becomes a plant. Woman eats plant. Woman has the energy then to move the pedals on the bike. The pedals move chain chain moves wheel.
How people don’t realize the corona virus is man made. My guess is that it is a terrorist attack made by China because it was made in a lab (it is mutated from SARS) and some how got released. Why would China be working on a virus for no reason. It makes sense that it is a terrorist attack, why use bombs which cost a lot, don’t kill a lot, only work in a little area, when you could just make a new virus that spreads like a wildfire and is hard to trace back?
Maths and why I struggle to wake up no matter when I go to sleep
NMJ87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm a musician, I have very very very good pitch, but I don't understand the significance of the notes and how they came to be.
I don't understand if they have some sort of special quality to them -- I understand the intervals, I understand that those are mathematic in terms of how the frequencies change between a half step and a whole step -- but where exactly do you start?
The sound of a tree falling is a note, but I can't sing it - you could base an entire order of music around it - stepping up each interval just like we do with our 12 notes across seven octaves.
I wouldn't say that I have perfect pitch probably, but really damn close, but I seem unable to sing out of key or play something out of key, is it because I'm only used to Western notes? Do the notes have some sort of significance as far as our biology and our hearring?
music is certainly subjective but what is in tune and what is out of tune is not subjective for most of us, most of us can tell if something is flat or sharp even if we can't say "oh that's middle C" after hearing it played - why?
When I sit down at the piano I know what keys to press based on whatever note I started with, absolutely innate, no thinking happens about it, I just know which ones will sound good after I start and I dont know why or how
There is this gal Lara on twitch and she has described her process, and she's the only person I've ever heard be able to put what I experience in words, but it didn't bring me any closer to understanding
Sometimes I feel like I'm outside of my body looking at myself. Most of my memories are just looking at myself doing things from the outside. Or I'll look in the mirror and feel like it's not myself looking back at me. I don't understand how I can see myself from the outside when that isn't what I'm really seeing. It's one of the things that really messes me up.
This is gonna sound super dumb but like a whole bunch of social constructs. Like respect your elders and family comes first and a whole bunch of other stuff.
I’d like to say that I’m a logical person but logic has lead me to some conclusions that are, apparently, very strange. For one thing I don’t believe in safety; like people think they’re safe in their homes or whatever but like natural disaster, your body could fail you (heart attack or whatever), a family member could kill you or whatever, like there’s so many threats at all times that safety just isn’t a thing? I’ve been told most people wouldn’t like to hear that but it makes perfect sense to me?
I guess I just don’t understand other people’s thought processes? Like if I can reason my way out of being upset I just won’t be upset anymore, which apparently isn’t normal. I dunno man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slope. Or rather everything that is build from understanding slope.
High school math, I was doing fine, we had just started to learn slope, which at this point feels like the main building block for anything graph and plotting related. But then I missed about a week of school because of an illness.
I came back and nothing made sense. I barely passed that class. It’s been over a decade and I can’t commit that shit to memory. I taught myself to learn it again, but then it sort of just drifts away.
Admittedly, I don’t use it in my day to day life and I don’t think I need it, but it comes up once in a while and I can’t help but remember when I felt completely derailed by it.
A lot of things actually, but what I come in contact with daily without understanding it: microphones and headphones/speakers. Or I guess sound in general
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.. math in general, but algebra literally makes me cry. It’s like my brain just DOESNT GET IT and I had like 12 different algebra teachers and it just didnt ever makes sense.
I grew up with hip hop. It's my culture. I love it. I dont get how this new generation of kids, see nothing wrong with being a crackhead, and mumbling through life looking like a zombie. The music has suffered.
No but really I don’t understand how some people lack empathy and understanding. I guess selfish/self centered in short. It’s necessary to put yourself first sometimes but all the time especially over those who are important to you.
Why some people just can't understand basic technology. Now, I'm not a tech guru or anything. In fact, if you asked me how to hook an iPad up to a television I wouldn't know. I could research it though.
But that is impossible for these people.
I'm talking about people who don't know how to exit a tab, or people who don't know how to access settings but manage to turn on the disabled assistance in Korean. People who don't know how to change the volume on their phone or how it got on mute.
That also how people can believe those insane FB posts like "FB will start changing you to post unless you like this picture." Or "Big scary tropical spider is living in your toilet seat right now and will bite your butt, killing you instantly! Like and share to save lives!"
How? How do these people navigate everyday life?
I'm not talking about 80 year old WWII vets. I'm talking about your local 40 something soccer mom or that 35 year old district manager who has no idea how to Google how to change the font in docs.
This isn't the easiest memory tool, but I use this: one's a verb, one's a noun. Affect comes before effect alphabetically, and an affect has to happen before you can have an effect.
If anyone can explain this one because I can never find an answer I understand
Why do humans not make the world heavier? Like think about the world today compared to when there were no humans, there’s now roughly 7 billion of us as well as animals yet somehow this doesn’t affect how heavy the world is? Like how does that even work? We each weigh different amount and you’d assume all that combined would make a noticeable difference. I get why houses and skyscrapers don’t affect the weight because the material was already there, but humans are created, idk this one always messed with me.
I'm not saying it's objectively bad game or anything like that. It just runs so completely opposite to my personal tastes that I genuinely don't understand the appeal of it. Usually, it's easy to understand the appeal of something, even if you don't share the sentiment. You can understand what exactly people are liking in a thing and relate to that feeling, even if you don't like the thing yourself.
I can understand why people do science, even if I'm not a scientist myself. I can understand why people commit crimes, even if I find them abhorrent. It's not that I understand those people or those thing. It's that I feel that I have a capacity to understand them. There is something in it that I can find relatable.
But Animal Crossing is foreign to me on such a fundamental level that I just don't understand how anybody can like it. What is there to like? It's like having been blind from birth and trying to understand color. It's impossible. I just don't have a part of the brain that is capable of understanding it.
Animal Crossing opened my mind to the fact, that there are certain aspects of human condition that is not present in me personally and that I never will be able to grasp. I have never felt that way with any other peace of media or anything else in my life. When this game blew up couple of weeks ago, it truly changed my life.
I am extremely literall minded. Bad at small talk with women. I just don't get it. The very few times I've gotten one of those I'll do you now looks, or the quick casual flirting (guessing it was casual, but I have absolutely no idea), I've been so far away from my home area I don't bother pursuing it.
why do people not think before they speak, teachers say 5, 4, 3, 2, 2 and a half, 1, 1 and a half. But isn't 2 and a half bigger than two? and they are teachers? thought they are supposed to teach people good stuff, not jamming random counting shit into people's brains
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hot air rises. Other air rushes in to fill its empty space.
Why some people expect you to be a mind reader, the get mad when you can’t and don’t do what they thought was common knowledge/curtesy. My parents do this a lot after they shift around where everything goes without my knowledge and start yelling when I can’t find something.
The mindset that leads people to far right ideologies
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fiancee and mine's relationship. We met while i was on the clock at my cvs and i helped her find what she was looking for. Then ended up complimenting her hat (harry potter fandom unite) and to make a long explanation short we ended up talking to each other in two fake languages talked about borderlands 3 before its release and 3 days later started dating. Now we just harass and annoy each other from dawn till dusk.
The fact that space is infinite, how can there be such vastness with very little life (that we know of). There are so many galaxies and planets but human kind does not know where it all ends or if it ends at all and if it does end what is at the end of all this darkness?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That article is 17 years old, so if they haven't managed to prove it yet I think it's safe to assume it's infinite for the time being
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean with that horrible logic the fact that they haven't proved its IS infinite in the whole time that theory has been around is even stronger proof its not?
Anything about Blockchain. People use it like I should understand exactly what they mean when they say it.
“We’re using blockchain to distribute our content”; what? How? I thought it was a mathematical list or something?
“Our security/transactions are verified by blockchain”; doesn’t that mean it will take longer every time a transaction takes place because the blockchain gets bigger?
Also - how can you have your own blockchain? Doesn’t it have to be multiple users across a decentralised network verifying stuff?
Just how different my voice sounds in my head vs what other people hear. I've heard my voice on recording and it comes out a lot more monotone and with less emphasis than I hear. Makes pretty much anything aside from normal conversation feel doomed to fail.
People and basic communication. I don't think the same way most people do, so my speech patterns are different and sometimes very blunt, which can come across as rude to those who don't understand me (even when I don't mean it to be). This has lead to many avoidable misunderstandings. Similarly I'm bad at picking up the signals and hints in conversations; I have to be told outright. I don't understand why people don't just accurately say what they mean (I think this stems from me only understanding the literal words that they say, but not their body language or tone of voice). With all the guesseork involved, I'm amazed they expect to get a specific point across without saying it outright because it could easily be misinterpreted even by people with a good understanding of this sort of thing.
I also don't understand the obsession with celebrities- they're just people. Why do we worship them?
Why individuals with autism are judged so harshly, even when they're high-functioning. "Autism" and "autistic" seem to have become synonymous with "stupid" in recent years... which is, needless to say, inaccurate at best. Why there is a fear of autism/autistic people, and why there's not better education/awareness of it (hell, even why people don't bother to educate themselves before assuming things).
I could go on, but I don't wish to get political or spark arguments so I'll leave it at this instead.
How all colors are the same for people. The red I see is the same red you see. But for animals with more cones? or color receptors whatever, the red I see is not the same red they see. It just blows my mind that like 2 people are seeing the same color there, but something else (like a dog) doesn't see what we see.
I don't understand the BODMAS or PEDMAS.
Specifically AS part where you do addition before substraction.
Eg. 8-2+1 according to BODMAS is 5. But in most natural cases it will 8+(-2)+1 which is 7.
Can only think of electrical charge as an example of a "natural case". I don't get it. I don't.
This thing has made me doubt the BODMAS, Math and educational systems.
Why, even with all this covid-19 shit, people decide its a good idea to go to the parts store with their entire family, risking them all getting sick or spreading this fucking plague. This is after a stay at home order has been issued
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US (and Reddit’s apparently) obsession with guns.
I don’t understand how they can’t see the rest of the world functions just fine without a second amendment.
Entropy. If entropy is unusable energy, and energy is the ability to do work, than entropy is just destroyed energy. Even though energy can be destroyed
Why some people are so obsessed with brands. Why is it a such an important status symbol? Do they really believe they are better than other people because of that?
Inflation. I've had people try to explain it to me before, but it just doesn't make sense. I think my dumb monkey brain just takes over whenever I try to think about that sort of thing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is there a 2.5 pound cancerous tumor on my side. How did I not notice until it became so big and difficult to treat. I’m 15. Why is my body putting me through this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How grown up men and women can be so incredibly wile and destructive on social media. I always regret entering any type of comment section on Facebook, especially politics and news in general, and they use their real names for everyone to see. And why doesn't the decent side of humanity hardly ever push back? It's so demoralising, everything is twisted into evil half-jokes and laugh-smileys. I don't understand how it got to this.
What may follow may be genuinely idiotic, but I legit don't understand it. What I do understand is this:
In the old testement god was an angry god. He did this to provide justice. Someone did something wrong and justice was served. At some point god decided he wanted to give justice and mercy.
Justice and mercy contradict each other. So what he did is kind of split apart so he came to earth as a man. He was a perfect being so he was totally good and didn't sin. When he died he took punishment for all the sins of mankinf and was punished for them.
If people nowadays accept Jesus as their saviour then they can sin, and still go to heaven? They can do this because justice has been done becuase Jesus was punished for thier sins, and mercy is given so they can go to heaven.
Jesus is a sort of loophole so god can be mercifull and give justive at the same time? Isn't that a bit unelegant? What happened in the old testament? God got it wrong for a while?
Almost all math outside of basic addition and subtraction...I can actually trace the problems I have with division back to like 3rd grade where I missed, like, the two days of classes they went over division and I just never figured it out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C++ debugging errors
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I truly, honestly understand almost none of it. My dyscalculia has a lot to do with it I know but none the less it’s truly the most confusing things I’ve ever encountered in the sense of things that you are supposed to eventually understand.
How to let my parents know im maturing, that im growing up and no longer a child and that they need to support me and love me, not manipulate me into doing what they want because theyre not prepared to let me go. I understand their point of view, baby bird wanna leave the nest, but talking to them only makes things worse.
hate to be one of those people, but how are people NOT attracted to women? Of course I’m fine with it, I’m bi myself (also how are people not bi??? Everyone is awesome!) but wow. Like I said, I’m chill with all sexualities but I know some people just cannot see women as attractive. Once again, sorry if I sound like the asshole, I just think they’re amazing!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you’re having a friendly debate with someone and they ask you for your sources. Like do some people have a list of sources memorized in the event it comes up in conversation? Who does that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never understood how dissociation works, and I dissociate often. It leaves me in awe at our brains. It’s obviously different for everyone though.
I read about derealization and it described what I felt correctly, but I couldn’t wrap my head around how my brain could do that without my “permission”. When I dissociate, suddenly I feel like less of a human. I am more aware of my body and the fact that I am a brain sitting in a skull moving the rest of my body like a puppet. During these moments, I feel as if I am sitting far behind where my eyes are, like I am witnessing the world behind the mask that is my actual face. It is unbelievably unsettling. Other times, the world seems as if it is fake, or like I am dreaming while still awake. Things don’t seem “real” to me, I don’t feel “real”, and I am on autopilot. The lights are on, but no one is home.
It’s just crazy what the human brain is capable of.
Statistics. I have been trying for years to teach myself intro level statistics, and I have consistently failed. I’ve tried free online classes too, to no avail.
I have those moments where I feel like I’m juuuust starting to get it, and the skies part, and a ray of understanding shines on the damp confines of my brain... I rush to do homework to lock in this newfound insight... and get everything wrong.
The Heisenberg uncertainty principle. I’ve had it explained by my physics teacher, read and watched videos about it and still can’t grasp it in the slightest.
How is it when someone is in coma? What do they see, hear, feel? Do they sleep all the time or wake up but cannot move their bodies? Do they understand what is going on around but are trapped?
How animals think - like they don't have a language to think in in the way that humans do - so do they think in images? Or is there just nothing there?
Omomon · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom who has a bachelors in child psychology never took me to a therapist when I was a kid even though I had some pretty big emotional issues and even a potential learning disability.
Why people care about the opinions of those who do not care about them.
If Becky tells Anthony his butt is too big, why should Anthony care? So many Anthony's take Becky's opinions to heart and genuinely get upset and hate theirselves over it.
My body's stress management system. Why does it do the things it's doing, why do mental problems cause physical ones. Can we just keep that shit separate please.
I genuinely dont understand a general amount of things about a generous amount.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy and think dogs with brachycephalic conditions are normal or acceptable. Lookup Apple head chihuahuas vs Deer head. Bet you've seen less deer head chihuahua which are the natural way they develop.
How people can play a guitar at an elite level. Weather it’s electric or classical. As someone who’s trying to learn. It’s insanely difficult.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How indoor plumbing works.
I'm not a dumb person, but I generally don't get how we seemingly have infinite water with perfect water pressure. If everyone in my neighborhood turned on their faucet at the same time, would we all still have adequate water pressure? Would it just come out in a trickle?
Why people STILL think pushing in line is still okay. I've forgotten the number of times in High School where people just enter the cue at the front for no apparent reason mostly due to no actual effective punishment. And when the canteen cooks at the tills find out that people have pushed in, it's very rare and takes a long time for them to go to the back. I know that there are exceptions for skipping the cue but it is still rude.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "I am home" you are not home. you are maybe at home maybe in your home but how can a person be home.
I sincerely do not understand how cars work.
Like I can drive just fine and do things like jump a car and change my tires but there are so many mechanisms and things going on that every time I’ve tried to sit down and learn I’ve become completely overwhelmed with where to even begin.
How anyone could still possibly think that COVID-19 "is just media hype" or "just the flu" or "a Democratic conspiracy" at this point. My FB feed is full of these people. Is the whole freaking WORLD in on this conspiracy?!
Apparently which directions my boyfriend is telling me to go in video games based on how I spent today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really hope this isn’t offensive or out of line, but I don’t understand transgender people. I have no problem with them at all, I’ve met a few in my life and they’re great people. What I don’t understand about them is their feelings of not being the right gender. What does it feel like? How do you feel like a girl or a boy? How do you know deep inside that you are one or the other? Like I am a girl, but wouldn’t know how to answer someone if they asked me “what does it feel like to be a girl?” If we didn’t have gender roles, would there be transgender people? These things have always puzzled me but I have never had the courage to ask a transgender person these questions because I fear they are offensive. I want to become more understanding of the topic because I really can’t wrap my mind around it
Lies. I get a white lie, just to make sure nobody gets hurt by something unimportant, but for real like lying in someone's face? I don't understand why somebody would do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to have meaningful friendships
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a digital refractometer works.
Curm12 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why teachers assign essays more than 3 pages long like I can literally prove my point in 2 pages like wtf do you or me gain from reading more than that?
Cutting. Like i just can't even fathom it. If you want an escape, isn't something like pleasure a good escape? No one likes pain at all. Don't hate plz i just genuinely don't understand
Coding. I really like watching coding videos and maybe it's because I didn't give it my all when I tried to learn, or have the right resources, but damn is that shit confusing as fuck.
How being transgender isn't a mental illness. If you ask people what makes them transgender they say dysphoria. If you ask them what dysphoria is (mental illness -- clearly defined and they'd agree in all other context) they just yell at you and tell you you don't get it. I don't hate you or want you to live a bad life or even infringe upon your rights....but I don't get it. It's very clearly a mental illness. A lot of us have them.
zak2k3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own feelings. Am I happy? Am I sad? Do i like people? Wtf is wrong with me?
How people go around not thinking about death. Like, it's the fucking end of all things. There's nothing after it. Your existence is over. How are you ok knowing that?
Alchse · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s cliché, but I don’t understand racism. I get hating people. That’s super easy. I hate people that chew with their mouths open, don’t use turn signals all that kind of things, but hating someone for color is weird to me. I genuinely DO NOT get it. I just hate the person., not their race. Don’t get me wrong I’m not privileged, Im the cliché black dude that grew up in Chicago and moved to another state and saw how the other side lives, but it don’t get why people hate people because of color. There’s so much to hate besides that!
Umm... So I love Twenty One Pilots and I watch tons of their interviews and listen to all their songs (even the really old ones that you can barely find anymore) so naturally I was excited when I heard they were releasing a new song, "Level of Concern". Upon watching the video live and listening to the lyrics I noticed Tyler saying something about a Julie and a Michael. Now what I wanna know is, who tf are Julie and Michael. Like are they just random names, do they work with TØP, are they relatives or something, is it another reference and I'm just stupid...? I'm for real lost but I didn't wanna ask because I was afraid I would either seem like a fake fan or find out they didn't mean anything and then seem stupid...
Health insurance. Deductibles, co-pays, coinsurance, in network, out of network, out of network max, etc. That shit is confusing AF. I understand what they generally mean but how they work together, overlap .... it's exhausting.
Decompression in a submarine. I know you can get the bends if you rise or dive too fast but I don't know understand how ,if you are in a watertight machine, does the air pressure change?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to calculate percentages. It’s such an odd knowledge gap but somehow I never really properly learned fractions and percentages and now I just live my life without being able to do any math involving them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so selfish and why people would go out of their way to hurt others if they think they can benefit from that
This sounds really stupid, but alternators. I always think that if the car is dead, you put cables on and jump it and it still doesn't fire, thats its the alternator not being charged which is wrong. Idk. I just have a hard time getting it
Don't understand how bees fly. According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I'm a straight man who liked(likes) Barbie dolls and Vespas but still uses a skateboard and hybrid trail bicycle to get around town occasionally listening to metal music.
How I think. I know it’s probably said a lot, but how do two cells grow into an organsim which has the capability to think and percieve? Why aren’t we like plants, just moving and growing towards the food source? Why do other animals not stop and think about what happens after they die? Why are humans different? And how?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Christians claim their religious freedoms are taken away by sensibly closing churches during this pandemic. Radio, TV, and streaming services don’t carry the virus but do carry church services.
Why when I want to sleep that's when it's hardest to sleep. But when i NEED to be awake, that's when it's damn near impossible to study awake. Like in school I've had a 5 hour energy and a rockstar and I still feel asleep. It's even happened when driving, I end up having to pull over for a while.
Also cheating on a significant other. Like how do you do that to someone else as well as yourself. As a lonely loser, I dream about having a gf or wife and all the things that come with it. Like even the mundane things, or things I wouldn't particularly enjoy like getting dragged along to go shopping. Even I can realise how awesome it is that she'd want me there. I see long term relationships end because of cheating and wonder why you'd ever even come close to thinking about it. The person cheated on it's now broken hearted and had figure out what to do and the cheater just threw away years of live and someone who genuinely cares about them. And in the case of it being a bad relationship already, just break up, be an adult and deal with it.
How scientists can measure distance in outer space. From star to star/planet/galaxy etc. How can they possibly measure that and how can they be sure it’s accurate??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can be head over heels in love with someone they just met. then they break up after a week. and then a week later the next man they meet they are in SO MUCH LOVE. repeat every month.
Why I haven't gotten a job yet. I've wanted this job since I was 7 and still no one will hire me because I 'lack experience'. They never say I give of the wrong vibe or anything. I got my shit together because I was very nervous the first couple of times. But I know what to do and I'm a pretty good teacher for a "newbie". I just don't know what I do wrong at interviews to never get a full time job.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my mother has 0 common sense. It is so hard to explain things like sarcasm or any thing in general...
Late to the party, but oh well, what I don't really understand is human sex drive.
Been around, lots of partners, now been married over twenty years. My wife and I have talked about this and we both just think it is just odd, how sometimes, even for periods stretching into months or even years, sometimes ya feel it, sometimes ya don't. Sometimes you are in a near constant state of sexual desire and other times not at all to the point where the thought of it bores or even repels you. Most animals it seems are driven by seasons or what have you. With people? Its a total friggin mystery.
Why in the world people still (willingly) are using ms windows? It wasn't a smart idea in the '90's, and it doesn't show any signs of getting any better.
Bots who really think violently intruding my messages with "Henlo!!🥵😍😍! I'm am real girl whomst want yuo'r sausage 👁️👄👁️" and some random 18+ video, is gonna convince me to download their dating app.
Why are there like almost no funny ads. It's the best kind of ad you can do, it makes me want to watch it, why don't you make these ? Why make all these shit ass ads, that are so stupid.
Why all modern societies value democracy... How you expect low educated people to decide future of the world? The same people who put Trump on president chair of the US? In my country there was referendum about using nuclear energy. Why the society value low educated farmer and nuclear scientist the same on this matter?!? The opposite is true too - if there is vote about future of the farming industry, farmer will have the same right to vote as... let's say IT (me)?The vote count as numbers, we don't care who vote, everyone has the right to. I really don't get it...
Why people follow religions. Why people vote against their own interests. How time and gravity interact with each other. How people could be cruel to animals. Math.
How anyone can be a trump supporter or have extremely conservative values. I genuinely cannot wrap my head around that kind of hate towards other people.
That we as humans beings and rulers of this world have created this mess of a world. We can create our own heaven but make our own hell. We are so smart, have the means to share ideas via communication means never had before, the internet, but we continue this same cycle of suffering.
I dont think non binary people reject the existence of gender roles, its just they dont feel entirely male or female. I am not non - binary, but this is what i think.
Supra fanboys.
Some people are convinced that budget grand tour car from the 1990s came stock with over 1000 horses.
How?
Why are you dumb?
(Supra's a cool car - but waaaaay overrated. It's only fast if you put thousands upon thousands of dollars worth of mods into it and is nearly as heavy as most full size American sedans. With only 320 hp to its name, that brings forth a pretty underwhelming power-to-weight)
I'm being vague because I'm unfamiliar with any proper terminology, so forgive me....
Drug (abuse/addiction) culture, eg. methamphetamine, marijuana, or whatever else. I cannot understand how someone can choose to frequent harmful drugs and continue to do so while there is so much prevalent evidence of its negative effects.
For example, I work with two underaged associates (under 21) who frequently smoke weed as a hobby and, despite any notion for their work performance or well being, they either don't care or don't understand the consequences -- professional or otherwise.
I can't understand how anyone can look forward to drugs as a hobby-turned-addiction and not see any bigger picture of what they're doing to themselves.
All throughout school, every teacher, professor, or substitute, it doesnt matter who. Whenever the topic of attendance came up, the person would say they suck at pronouncing names by saying, "Sorry If I BUTCHER your name."
Or at least some form of that involving the word butcher. But I've always wondered where did the word's popularity originate? Like when and where was the first person to say it in that context and how did it spread to all these damn teaching professions?
a lot tbh. Algebra, the concept of time, how tf do strangers have normal conversations when I can’t even ask my friends for a piece of gum, how people don’t use turn signals, how abusers can be so abusive but fee no guilt. I mean I’m not stupid but none of that makes sense to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big space is
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely believing that people who work a full time job should live at or below the poverty line.
Why you would use Profile Analysis instead of a MANOVA or an Univariate Repeated Measures ANOVA. I understand that Profile Analysis is looking at the Parallelism, Flatness, and for Equal levels, but I don't understand what that allows you to do interpretation wise compared to the other types of analyses.
That majority of the world's spoken and written languages. However many there is in total and decuct three, no actually two*; now you know how many I genuinely do not understand.
You may know nothing about physics or any other stuff, but if someone threw you a ball and you catch it, you have basically predicted the movement of the ball, put your hand in the right place at the right time and catched it. All that in milliseconds.
How people don't understand things when the answer is right in front of them. You know the type: "Why is that person freaked out I'm pointing a gun at them? I know it's unloaded!" but they don't (and the gun, more than often, actually IS loaded). "I don't know why that guy hasn't called me back after we slept together!" Is it cos you slept with him on the first date and he clearly just wanted that and nothing more? "I don't understand why girls don't like me!" It's probably cos you immediately talk about breasts or act like a douche.
I know this may come off as a "I'm smarter than you" kinda thing but, seriously, how many of you have seen people who seem to actively ignore the truth punching them in the face? I'll legit never understand how some people just love ignoring obvious answers.
ehd94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What being blind is like. They don't see black like we think they do, because they cannot perceive color, or anything for that matter, by definition. It baffles me to think about that
How casually people talk about/brag about breaking the law, especially if they’re using social media as an outlet to flaunt their latest felony. There are even communities online that promote if not romanticize theft. Things like that are just disgusting to me.
How nobody can intervene and stop a president that’s incompetent. How nobody can fire politicians for doing shady shit. How Nunes was able to participate in hearings while also being part of said investigations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really is the inmates running the asylum.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOX genes. I know that they are the “body map” that tells the developing cells what genes should be active and what genes should be inactive based on where they are in the body. What I don’t understand is the spacial awareness of individual cells. How does the 15,000th cell in the lining of your eye know that it should be the edge? They must be pretty good at hitting the right numbers because red blood cells, for example, have generally less than 15% variation in size. But how they know where they are is a mystery to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I get raging crushes on people that last months but the second a relationship starts with them (like within 2 weeks) I lose feelings as get this ball on anxiety in my stomach and the bad kinda butterflies when I see a message pop up from them or see them around the school. I might have commitment issues but I fantasize about marrying them and stuff before the relationship starts. Does anyone relate or know what this is? Please, im worried that I will never be able to last a relationship.
Zuze_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a math student in times of online classes there is a lot of things I really don't understand now 🤣
I know the concept of a pyramid scheme, but why are they so bad? I have a family member that seems to be involved in one but seems to e making money from it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good portion of digital electronics. Especially “don’t care conditions” for some reason.
Life. It makes no sense. Why do we feel? That’s because of neurones. Why? They take an electric signal to the brain. Why? Because that’s how
Electricity works. Why does it work in that way and not another way? Because it does. Why aren’t we made of lemonade? Because we wouldn’t survive. Why? Because. Why? Because because.
A stock is a small part of ownership of a company.
Stocks exist so a company can raise money. The company sells part of the company in exchange for money. Now the company has a bunch of cash it can use to operate with.
It's worthwhile to invest because if a company is making money, the company will be worth more, meaning your small piece of the company will be worth more. In the long run, this is generally true. Which means if you buy stock in good companies, your stock will increase in value over time. This doesn't require any work on your part, your investments will grow just because you own them.
Nothing is guaranteed though. You can lose money if a stock falls in value. Nobody can predict the future. But there are still trends though, over time the market has generally increased.
It's sort of guessing, but it's guessing based on how the company is doing financially. With slot machines, it's random, there's no way to predict a slot machine, no info to go by. With stocks, companies are require to show their finances, and you can decide good/bad based on that. You still don't know, but it's not completely random.
I don’t understand how humans figured out. TVs computers and etc because how do you get information to travel through wires and such and how do you get it there. I’m just baffled
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AP Physics Electricity and Magnetism
D3mqnU · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything exist. From where does everything come from?
The whole "liked" and "laughed at" bullshit in text chains. Especially when it pastes an incredibly long, detailed text with the sole addition of "liked" tacked on. I hate it with a fiery passion and I will never understand why people do it and how they put up with it.
Helicopters - the spinning blades can rotate so fast it lifts the a helicopter that weighs about 6k kgs to 20k kgs, and extra weight! But! If you tried to take those blades off and then you try to carry the helicopter from underneath with those same blades in that same shape, they will bend out of shape?? I get this, but i dont???? So weird to me
Americas greed, now don't get me wrong the entire fucking world is greedy but america really ain't ashamed about its greed unlike other countries including my own who will try to hide behind some bullshit excuse we can all see through but not america its proud to take all your money without even telling you why and i ain't talking about taxes we all know why we pay taxes it's the other greedy paws i'm talking about like high cost of meds, high rent, high well exorbitantly high interest rates on all kinds of shit, high cost of education.
The depth of some people's emotional responses. Like, I get anger at a situation, or at someone doing some stupid shit, but I dont understand hatred. Like, how can someone feel something that intense? Jealousy is another one I dont understand. I know the concept behind them, but why? And what does it feel like?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why america just sticks with the two party candidate options during elections when there are actually many more third party options...
cela96 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Big Bang theory. On a conceptual level, I understand it. What I dont understand is the math behind it. My thing is, of I dont understand the math, do I really understand, or am I just assuming it to be true because people who can do the math say it is right? It is almost like religion before the average person knew how to read. Just alot more complex lol.
How the economy actually works. Man, I don't even know how to ask this question. The problem for me, I think, is that an economy is inherently circular / cyclical. So there's really no starting point I can use to build my knowledge, it's confusing to see how it all works and what the implications are. How everything fits together.
So many questions, but here's one. Due to COVID-19, the Federal Government has been implementing a number of measures to save the economy, namely printing a crapload of money. OK, I get that the stimulus checks will help people pay this months rent. But let's look at it from a high level, fundamental perspective. What is money? The purpose of money is to facilitate exchanges -- there's no inherent value in money itself. They are just pieces of paper.
So even if the Fed prints all of this money, how does that in any way solve the situation of people not being able to work due to COVID? All we've really does is print some paper, and the actual problem remains exactly the same. Yet the economy is supposed to benefit from it. Just don't get it.
Why many people say it’s bad drinking milk.
“Humans are the only that drink milk in adult”. That’s write buy, unless you’re alergic, it will not hurt you. In my country, animals can’t open the fridge to get milk, maybe that’s the reason
Why the hell a million wierd things are going on with my body lol. I have pains everywhere, constant exhaustion, constant thirst, and reduced mobility. I'm only 16
Why some people get so angry all of the time. Is it going to fix the problem? Probably not. All it's probably going to do is make you and the people around you feel like shit. How about being calm and trying to work through a problem?
I’ve always been embarrassed that I don’t grasp the concept of acceleration in terms of physics. Like what does it mean for something to be accelerating at 10 m/s2 to 15 m/s2? For the former does it mean that the object increases velocity 10 m/s every second? But in the time the object reaches top speed, the acceleration was constantly decreasing right? I don’t know man.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An economic collapse. And admittedly, I studied Econ in college lol. I just don't get "the bubble." I don't quite get what is bursting. I get that prices can go up and people spend more, but what's actually happening behind the scenes that we aren't *seeing*?
How when people go to big stores to shop they can morally justify to themselves that it is okay to leave a cart in the middle of the parking lot...!!! Like 6 feet from a cart rack..like wtf!!!
Gender fluidity. I understand that transgender people are born with the opposite gender in their brain and there is nothing they can do to change it back. But what does it mean to be gender fluid?
Neither trans or cis people are switching genders.
I’m a Videographer and I think about it all the time. But I have no idea how cameras do what they do. Just taking something that we see and capturing them into something we can watch over and over. Shits wild. Just how we can essentially take the world and put it on a computer.
Why people are racist, like we've come so far and still we have problems bc people are different colors. Like really? You still hate black people, you hate Mexicans, and Asians that much? I just don't understand how people can hate someone for the color of their skin. I thought growing up we had an understanding that we will work / live with people from different walks of life, different understandings and still people are racist to the ones who are different from them.
I always have a hard time understanding why people are still racist.
Mirrors. How on earth can I see one thing in this mirror while if someone else was standing on the opposite side of the room as me, they would see something totally different!
Motivation. Literally do not know how people develop persistence and energy to try and try again. In the way of habits or hobbies. Like I really want to learn the guitar or keyboard and I have all the materials, and the internet to learn I just get bored and discouraged at how much information there is knowing I could try forever and never be even close to the best. All my life id love to make music and the closest I can get is I write songs. But that’s the easiest part. Cannot grasp self determination.
Record players have boggled my mind forever. How does a needle, dragging across grooves in vinyl, create so many different tones/noises/sounds which equate to music?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why countries that are in a financial crisis can't just print more money. Apparently it would cause the world's economy to go into shambles but I honestly don't understand how.
How the American public is so complacent about the federal government not working for their interest like all the immoral and illegal stuff politicians get away with.
Trigonometry! I was sort of okay at mathematics, till this was introduced in my life. I don't know what 'sin' of an angle actually means. From that point on, math became a mystic art.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I'm so bad at communication that I legit think I might have autism, but I can kinda sort of get along with guys with similar traits of mine. Not with women doe. I just can't understand how a woman's brain works
When people are driving in a parking lot and drive slowly around the speed bump like they think they're bad for the car to simply drive over the speedbump.
Why Conservatives elected a non-religious, elitists, celebrity, mob boss wannabe, adulterer, three time married, failed casino owner, liar, fraudster, hack, lack of government service, draft dodger as Donald J. Trump and his fraud-ling family?
If you froze time in the multiverse , does that freeze time for everything or will a universe exist where you didn't freeze time but is time freezing like a wave that just keeps going and will hit that universe as well?
How Donald Trump passed the interview for the highest office in the land and got elected after the "grab her by the pussy" thing. Literally if you were interviewing for any other job and that happened you would be a no go. Not to mention everything else.
Btw I was not in either the Giant Douche or Turd Sandwhich camp. Or for that matter a participant in the shit show that is American politics so I have no political charge whatsoever..
how languages began to differ between regions. and also hoe people manage to teach other people languages.
for all we know, we could be learning all the words wrong but because of the reaction, assume its correct. I could be speaking total nonsense right now and noone would have any idea.
These are people who are usually skeptical of science and data, yet are so certain of whatever science and data is telling them their child getting vaccinated could cause autism?
Why do people fear nuclear power more than the radiation coming out of coal's fly ash? Per terawatt hour of energy produced nuclear is the safest by far.
Racism. How can anyone truly believe that they are better than another person or group of people they do not know based simply on their genealogy or where on this planet they are from.
The plot of the Matrix. Boyfriend explained it many times and it just won’t go into my head for some reason. I think I have it, then I watch the movie and just have so many questions again.
Why the US government is giving corporations and billionaires $0.98 for every bailout dollar and only $0.02 for every dollar to their citizens
Yoriq · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still think about going out and meeting others when there are thousands of warnings literally everywhere about the pandemic, caused by an extremely contagious virus which is currently incurable, is not well understood even by some of the smartest minds in the world, proves itself to be lethal for everyone indiscriminately every passing day, has caused a lot of casualties and destruction according to the questionably understated numbers released by officials and politicians all of whom cannot be counted on with handling the ongoing crisis, and spreads mainly through meeting other people
Why, as Americans, who are currently being abused by corporations and our own government, haven't we said enough is enough and started a revolution. This isn't being better. Let's end this nonsense.
How the heck our brain renders clean and sharp image with the use of light of chemicals, thats seems absolutly crazy that chemicals make us see, but its true.
Its the interactivity of streaming. When you are watching a streamer you can actually talk to them, vote on things to do, ask and answer questions. You also get the real time reactions and dialog of other people who are watching, so when something funny or awesome happens you will see the chat go wild which just adds to the excitement.
The line of live vs video gets blurry the larger the streamer is, someone with a few hundred people can read and respond to nearly every coment made in real time. With a few thousand people in their chat a streamer is able to read some but not all of the messages so the interactivity is still there, but individual viewers start to have less of a direct impact on the stream. Massive streamers with tens of thousands of viewers pretty much only read donated messages so you will have to pay to interact with them much, there are still polls and other ways to have an impact without spending money but the stream is much more similar to a video now than small-mid size streams.
I think its a very different type of content, streams feel a lot more personal as you are directly/indirectly involved and are much more spread out the enjoyment comes from the feeling of community even if there is small lulls between jokes or action. But with that said videos have much higher production value and are much more consistently entertaining, you dont have the lulls and dips that streams will inevitably have so they are easier to pick up and just watch.
Why my girlfriend says something and expects me to read her mind and do the opposite...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We live on a rock, floating around in space, and fight over words and kill each other over pieces of paper...life doesn't make sense to me anymore. I feel like I am watching the world go by before my eyes and it makes me want to kill myself because I want to help but can't because my own flaws outweigh my strengths.
Did you ever watch Amazing Stories? Or Tales from the Dark side, or Ray Bradbury's Theatre? Those are good, too. *But if you need quick fix, watch Super Troopers or some YouTube clips of fainting goats. I know it sounds corny, but I've been in dark places, these help. (I'll check out Night Gallery. I've tried before, Serling just nailed it for me.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant say I have ever watched Amazing stories, but I will look into it now. Tales from the dark side is definitely a favorite too. Thanks so much for reminding me of them. Yeah, things feel pretty heavy to carry and deal with right now. I did end up watching a few episodes of twilight zone, it definitely helped calm myself. Super Troopers is hilarious, and goats are awesome.
The phases of the moon. I'm not doubting it but I do need somebody who is a great communicator to explain it to me probably using a desk lamp and some balls.
I really don't get how in the world I can be on a massive ball that's both spinning and orbiting a colossal nuclear power plant at thousands and thousands of miles per second and live and breathe and exist here without the incredible forces acting on my body reducing me to a fine paste and flinging me off into the void. I know it has something to do with frames of reference and the Goldilocks zone and such, but it just seems so insane. I'm nowhere near a flat-earther, but I can understand why someone confused by the swirling, screaming universe around us would choose to be so.
Greed. Like I get wanting to be rich af and never have to worry about anything. I don’t get fucking over entire populations of people to become rich and then working to make it harder for everyone else to make even a little bit of money.
Or heads of non profits who make millions of dollars a year and barely any of the donations going to the cause of the non profit!
AXxi0S · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand people who aren't willing to fail at stuff. Think about how good you are at walking. You put your feet in front of the other one one at a time like it's nothing. You can walk backwards, sideways, diagonally, any direction. No problem.
Do you know how you learned to walk? Your parents set you down on the floor and said "walk, bitch" and you fell over 3000 times but then eventually you made it across the room. What if you had just said "No, I'm not doing this, I'm not very good at it". You'd be the biggest bitch in the history of big bitches.
Push yourselves. Always aim higher. Quit being a pussy.
So if I want to make my website’s header a different font size, I understand that. I jump into the backend and change it in html. But how does the computer know to make that specific change? All I did was change a number with my keyboard and it made my font size a specific amount of pixels. How? How does a computer understand that 20px means what it does? That simply typing keys makes all these changes? Who writes these languages to designate these changes? What makes a computer react the way we want it to whenever these language prompts are used?
Smoking. Not in a judge mental way - I just don’t understand how it occurs to anyone that that’s something they want to do, and why it’s been socially acceptable for so long.
Rebiblicans. I honestly just don't get any of their points.
DUtlum · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking and consciousness, what makes us able to do whatever we want in our mind. There can’t be a chemical process for every single possible thought, right?
Especially the way it affects the amount of sunlight a specific region gets. I.e. Alaska.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Department store Santa’s. You’re making a profit off a creepily elaborate and pointless lie told specifically to children. Lieing about Santa is a dumb tradition.
I don't understand friendships and professional relationships if that makes any sense. I can't tell how far the friendship has progressed. I don't know when a joke gets old, or when someone's annoyed by jokes. I can't read people very well either. I can never figure out the tone needed for specific situations. I don't know when conversations end either. When does the topic change? Will they be annoyed if I change it now? I run emails to lecturers and job interviewers by people just to make sure I'm not sounding sarcastic, or passive aggressive.
I know it's totally on me. It could also be just anxiety. I'm more aware now that I don't know what I'm doing, so I try to be as casual as I can. But then that worry of tone and jokes and overused jokes comes into play.
And I hope that this doesn't come off as a "poor me, no one understands me" scenario. As stated before, I'm awful at tone. And I'm really sorry if this sounds edgey, or cringey, I don't mean it to. I'm more just explaining that this is something I struggle to understand, but I am working on it, so I can navigate these situations better.
How brains store thoughts! I understand how sensations are sent, with neurotransmitters and reuptake and all that. I just don’t understand how it is stored
Bigotry and prejudice, there's so many facets to it but I always find myself questioning why. I've made it a personal life goal to confront it. There have only been a few occasions but it's fun and I highly recommend it. For example if someone was making fun of my gay friend so I told them that was my boyfriend, they shut up pretty quick.
In the physics of Relativity, if all motion is relative, with no absolute point of reference, how would the time-dilation thing work - one observer relative to another? The common example: one person on Earth, his brother on a spaceship near the speed of light. Isn't the most that can be said that the distance between them is expanding near the speed of light, rather than one is stationary and the other moving?
How my girlfriends brother treats their mother, and the way she treats him back. He is most of the time giving her verbal abuse over the phone about something or other, but asking for money on the other hand. He takes her bank booklet aswell and takes money out of her account and she just lets it happen(as far as I know) and also the way he treats his sister, my girlfriend.
Not as badly as their mother but once I had to take her away after he yelled abuse at her while I was in the bathroom, she gave him a black eye then the day after, because he spit on her)
I really don’t know what to do in those situations, she’s well able to hold her ground, I would say ever better then me if I was were she was, but I feel that I should do something but I don’t want to get involved(got involved in a friends situation before and messed it up even more and I’m afraid to get involved again)
The loyalty to political parties. I'm registered independent, and some people swear by their parties like sports teams, except that sports fans are far tamer than this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep going back to Communism? Why don’t all religions don’t get equally shit on? Why unfettered capitalism is a thing? Why some atheists feel they are superior to their theistic fellows? Why isn’t studying Philosophy part of High School curriculum?
Why the abortion argument has become a left and right thing. No one argues for killing toddlers, we're all disagreeing on when life starts. Why do we get away from that and make it baby killers vs. disregarding women's rights?
Fill the 5. Use it to fill the 3. Then dump out the 3.
Now you have 2 gallons of water left in the 5 and an empty 3 gallon jug. Transfer the water to the 3.
Now you have 2 gallons in the 3 and, crucially, 1 gallon of empty space. Everything to this point has been designed to get exactly 1 gallon of empty space in the 3 gallon jog.
Now fill the 5, and use it to top off the 3 (requirung 1 gallon).
What you have left is 4 gallons in the 5.
It took me forever, because in the movie they cut all the parts up to getting 2 gallons (a 1g space) in the 3.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything about being against fighting back. It doesn't matter if someone hits someone else or yells at them or insults them, everyone seems to rally against the one fighting back, not the one initiating.
I get all the things against fighting but everyone has the right to protect themselves. If it so happens that fighting back or yelling back or insulting someone back will stop them from doing anything further, then that is an appropriate action to take.
Cross products.
I’ve watched countless videos. I understand how to find it but what the fuck am I really finding? What real life situation is it applied to? I know torque is one but then why is the vector perpendicular to the actual rotation? It makes my brain spiral
Risaza · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be okay with existing. Ever since I was little I always wanted to disappear and not be here. It mind boggling to think people are good with living and being here
I’m not sure about the trauma bc I don’t remember anything really bad happened to me. But I know I have had depression for a long time. I’m not really sure how bad it is some days are worst than others.
Yeah I know of someone’s mom whom has gotten married 15 times and is now banned from getting married in the state of Texas— my question is more so why would they marry her?? Either she is lying or they don’t care and that alone is a red flag on them too.
I have never hear something like that it is shocking but funny at the same time being banned for getting married hahahah
Maybe she is like somekind of black widow
The concept of existence, like why do we exist? Why are we alive? Imagine if the universe didnt exist... nothing would exist... what tf would be going on? WHY DOES ALL THIS EXIST??? WHAT IS THIS???
i font understand how ppl can be so not interested in all the pain the world is going through (and i am not referring to the covid situation), i mean with all the problems we have with governements and criminality, why are we not helping each other?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can learn stuff easily.
I have to repeat the same thing again and again and again excessively in order for it to stick. Basically I have to do the thing everyday and if I stop doing that thing I'll forget mostly how after a couple weeks of not doing it.
Learning brings the worst out of me and it's terrifying. To the point I cant learn the things I want to because my brain shutdowns.
Why do people think china deliberatly started the covid 19 virus? My aunt told me this morning that they are trying to tank our economy? What the fuck is up with that? All from a deans koonz book post she read on Facebook
Sh44nT · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That statistical thing with the three doors and you should switch after one is eliminated. It's been explained to me so many times by my math-savvy father but... nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some women treat their men like trash yet the guy doesn't see it and defends her.
This is going to sound so stupid, but I don't understand how countries are poor. Like why can't they just print more money at their mints or something? I know that sounds stupid but I've never understood it
Paid vacation time. I have banked so many hours at various jobs bc I've always treated working as "you work to get paid". If I take time off, I'm not earning $. So I rarely take time off. I once had a boss essentially force me into using my vacation time bc he didn't want to see me go over my cap and said he would approve any requests. That turned out to be a great year bc I turned a lot of 3 day weekends into 4, took random Wednesdays off to break up the work week, etc. I usually sell back my vacation time for cash instead.
I understand the concept but I can't understand why it doesn't make sense to me.
Understanding the speed of light, and what light years mean, and how what we see in the sky is based on how light has travelled a certain distance.
f0gax · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter how many times it’s explained to me I still don’t quite get long and short in investments.
Like I sort of get that one (long?) is investing with the expectation that the instrument will get more valuable. And the other is that it will get less valuable.
What I don’t quite get is how one makes money when something loses value.
I don’t really know how waterproof coats/clothing works and I just take it for granted that I am wearing this thing that stops all water, it is incredible and very common.
Radio/television waves and how they're converted into sound and pictures. I've read about it but it still seems like magic. Especially people pulling radio signals into their bodies because of metal and things and then the sound comes out of them. Amazing.
I don't understand how Aunt Becky got charged for paying her daughter's way into USC and Charles Kushner (even though he has been charged for other stuff) has not. Rich people have been paying for admission forever. Why is it NOW a problem? (Not saying it's right)
Why you park in a drive way and drive on a parkway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how politics and the banking system work. I got some notions about who gets elected and why, and I also know that banks are dangerous if you don't know how to use them. I'm 18, so I guess that it's because of that
How someone thought to eat oysters. Or sea urchin. Or most weird ass animals. Also how people came up with cheese? They just let milk go so bad that it became good again. How people came to create and eat certain foods in general is insane to me.
How my most recent reddit post seems to be getting a negative view solely because I posted it a certain way.
How else am I supposed to share my salt for a video game if the app that coincides with it only works for my old account on my broken Switch and doesn't work for my current one?
Also, my own comment about how bad the photo is taken got more love than the main post.
Why people can't just get along despite our differences... We are all people trying to live in the same world, but for some reason a difference in opinion makes people see others as a completely different species that, for some reason, is seen also as an enemy.
I can’t fathom that some people hate dogs or cats. They are the greatest source of joy known to me and most of my friends, and I genuinely do not understand how some people do not like them.
the biggest reason a friend of mine gave me is that it's hatred by associaten. A lot of people (I agree on this part) treat pets like they are the best thing in the world and that they own us which we both find anoying. In turn that makes him dislike the animals aswell. I think if people acted normal around animals he might open up a bit more
How little bumps and scratches on vinyl makes sound. Like I understand that the waveform is captured there, but why is it that when needles touches it, it produces sound? Is just rubbing against the bumps?
Why anyone would pay for nude content from random internet girls. Is that the closest you’ll ever get to an actual woman, and so it just comes from a place of resignation? Do you not understand high-quality porn is free online? Maybe you have millions in the bank and you don’t care how you spend your money? This last one is the only reason that maybe makes sense to me, but even still, what are you really paying for that you can’t get for free on the internet? Are you that obsessed with this one singular woman that you HAVE to see her naked? It’s just all very strange to me and I will never understand it.
Why people keep playing rage inducing video games. If it pisses you off that much, stop playing it or at least take a breather. Why torment yourself with that much anger for the sake of an imaginary victory?
Coding. I've wanted to learn unity so I've been getting into python to introduce myself to code before C# but I can never understand how people make/delete files or show graphics and videos. There's no tutorials out there I can find so I'm probably searching the wrong thing
Honestly, religion. It has never made sense to me how people just blindly believe in something they have no proof or evidence exists. I know that's "faith" but I have just never felt that way about anything and it seems so foreign to me. I have to be able to see or feel something to believe it exists. No offence intended toward anyone of any religion, it's just something I can't understand and I'm okay with that.
I think you are mixing up religion and god. There are many different religions but only 1 god. I think what you are saying if I'm not mistaken is that you cant "see or feel" god so you cannot believe in it. If all people knew that there was a god do you think that there would be evil in the world? Everyone would be good people doing the right things not stealing, killing, etc. Hence that is why we have free will. We have free will to do whatever we want because it is our choice to believe if there is a god or not
But I feel like every religion has their own "version" of god, yes? Like any given religion believes that their god is the only god, even though when you compare all religions they're basically the same. And I feel like if God was a tangible thing there would still be evil in the world. Even now, people do evil things in the name of God, because they feel it's the right thing to do. Everyone has their own perception of what is right and what is wrong. And that's where it gets messy. I believe I am a good person. I don't kill or steal and I try to bring joy to those around me, but I don't believe in any higher power. So why do people commit atrocities in the name of a god that they cannot prove exists?
Why college students are left out of the stimulus.
We’ve been kicked out of our dorms, forced to finish the semester online, pay for high speed WiFi at home, struggle with bills, job loss, and car payments... really hassling to save money just for textbooks next semester and because my parents filed me [20f] as a dependent, I can’t get any help.
My parents contribution to the last two years of college: $0
Yet my 15 and 14 year old brothers get $500 each. How are my brothers (who are also dependents) getting this? Why are we being sh*t on for working hard to make something of ourselves?
College students who fall into this gap, I feel for you. It’s not wrong to want help like everyone else.
Why we have neglected and blamed animals like rats, racoons and pigeons for our own trash. I mean, I know they carry diseases and I can't go against that, but still people refer to them as if they couldn't ve conscious of the whole panorama of why those animals have become what they are :///
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how a piece of silicone is running entire computers, functioning as its brain.
I understand the concept of bits. But i genuinely cannot fathom the idea that someone discovered that a silicone die would help us run ocmputers, which in turn run the world
People liking men or women. I genuinely don’t understand when that question is posed to me- like who do you find more attractive. I feel like there’s no way to know if you’re attracted to someone unless you’re around them.
tuncs · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s so hard for me to visualize how space is expanding and there’s no center, and how there was none of it in the beginning... the “balloon surface” analogy works to a certain extent, but this is 3D so it’s harder to make visual sense of all this for me.
How people born deaf think if they don’t know what words sound like.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bad people can be, or are I should say.
The pettiness, selfishness, and shallowness is so unnecessary, and never gives them what they actually want.
It's like everyone has been told a weak lie in order to be happy, and they're too scared to be the person they're supposed to be.
Detracting from yourself in order to be purposefully miserable.
People who are sexually attracted to children, ie micheal jackson. Ive watched leaving neverland and am a huge fan of his music, but I don't understand how its even possible to become physically attracted to children, even if you "had no childhood."
IsrarK · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How FedEx and UPS are so shitty. Even pre-corona FedEx is dog shit. UPS is somewhat better. UPS has been in business over 100 years. FedEx 50 years.
Amazon Prime? 15 years. They can get me my shit in two days and tell me when the driver is like 10 stops away. FedEx and UPS? It'll be there by the end of the day... probably. If USPS goes to shit I'd much rather Amazon deliver my mail than those two.
People who can somehow work a full time job, eat a balanced diet, exercise, and hold a healthy social and/or love life. I can barely maintain the job part, and I’m only just starting to shift my diet to something more healthy.
Anything actually. Politics on both a micro and macro level. Same goes for economics. Stock markets. Inflation. Taxes and what they do. The electoral college. Et cetera. I’m 26 and I feel like I don’t actually know anything that I’m supposed to to be a competent adult.
How I’ve been doing yard work/housework by myself for the past 20 or so years of my life, yet whenever I’m at my mom’s her husband needs help doing the same shit. Putting a desk together doesn’t take 2 people... picking up dogshit or mowing your backyard doesn’t take two people, taking the bins down to the street doesn’t take two people.... I would know I did that yard and all their chores by myself for three years before I moved out.
On a funnier note: I don’t get the whole ducklips/selfie faces every girl seems to do
idumby · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does a person need 7 billion dollars? When you have more money than your grandchildren’s grandchildren can spend, why not share the rest??
Why Reddit doesn’t just have a “Post as Anonymous User Function” I’m on mobile so maybe it’s different for computers but I just want to be able to write a post on my main on a subreddit I follow but not anyone else know it’s me but still getting notifications on it
Programming languages - been trying to study this for a long time know. And the logic just doesn’t seem to compute with me. Which mean I’ll probably never be able to figure it out to a competent level.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frick you I’m tired
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get a job. I mean the finding a job that sounds interesting, applying and getting the job. I never actually gotten a job I applied to.
I worked before in different companies and areas. I even got a job training qualification (in my country you either go to university or do a job training like trade school. It's part school and part working in a company for 3 years). I just got the jobs I had so far through whatever. Sometimes, I'm not really sure how. But I've never gotten a job that I picked myself and applied to.
I even did multiple trainings and coachings on how to apply to jobs (they're paid for when you're unemployed or not working full time). Everyone is always telling me that I should find jobs with my qualifications and cv. I even had a information talk with a person working for public office (kinda like recruiting, except that he can't hire anyone, just point in the right directions). He also said that I should have no problem getting a job.
I have no clue how people send out a couple of cv and get a job (or even multiple offers where they can pick one).
I know that no one can really help me here, but I still got a question. How does it feel to be the "lucky" person who gets the job?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity, I understand how it works. Just not WHY. Why do things with mass pull shit to it?!
A boring answer compared to the rest but...relativity. I get the science, it's been explained to me many times by many formats, but fuck man, it just makes no sense. And I refuse to believe it.
For those who dont know what I mean: Einstein's theory of relatively, general and special, which refer to the dilation of time (I'm not smart enough to explain, clearly, so please look it up yourselves).
Chewing tobacco. Like, I already have a major issue with how disgusting cigarettes are and why the hell would anyone choose to smoke. But holy hell chewing tobacco is a whole new level of just hit you in the face with it disgusting.
Why does it seem like most people prefer to back out of a parking space? Like when there's a pull through spot open they pull into a spot behind another car.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand time and relativity. Like in the movie interstellar how being on that one planet for 30minutes was like 7 years to the people on the ship. How is that a real thing!? Scary. Space in general is just mind boggling.
That feeling of not knowing exactly what I am. I mean yes I understand I'm a human and a living organism, but what exactly am I? Am I my brain? Is that what makes me who I am? Is that what gives me the ability to feel emotions, and gives me sentience? I'm not sure and when I think too deep on it I feel like everything is too overwhelming
Parents who “stay together for the kids”, or one parent who’s miserable but who “doesn’t want to break up the family”. In our modern western world, there is no logical reason for it. So many families are made up of divorced parents, kids who have a set of parents and a set of step-parents. By staying in a bad relationship, you’re not helping your kids, you’re actually hurting them. You’re teaching them bad lessons about how a romantic partnership should work, and you’re making them feel guilty because they know you’re staying in a miserable situation for them and they blame themselves. Seriously, just separate and move on with your life already, the idea of single parents being bad parents or lesser people is so outdated.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people who cut corners, don't follow the rules, and slack off at work are rewarded, yet those of us who do things by the book, follow the rules, and never slack off are treated badly.
How people can genuinely believe in religion. It's the dumbest shit ever and none of it makes sense. I get that it's a nice alternative to the inevitability of death but most of them are still scared of death anyways. And it doesn't excuse the shit people will do for religion or the weaponized ignorance required to not get that it's ridiculous.
I genuinely can't understand how America is a country that should be a leader in everything from technology to politics, social science and economics and environmental issues,but more than half the population is so backwards that it has pulled the whole country back a century. Like,how does that even happen?
Tiktok dance videos and why no one is ashamed anymore to just do some shit tier dance moves in public for a lame video. That shit would make you a prime bullying target only a couple years ago.
How investments work. I throw my money into a Roth 401k at work for the company match, and I throw extra into an Edward Jones-managed account. Even though I picked everything to be on the aggressive side and sat through explanations by people about the different options and funds etc (which was doing well until recently lol), I still don't know what that shit means.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who take their anger out on others who’ve done nothing wrong. Don’t ruin someone else’s day, please.
I genuinely cannot understand how Radios, TVs, or computers work. How did someone even think to make it? How do people continue to make them now and even better than before? I’m lost.
If you were born deaf and blind what is your thought process? Is it just association of things by feel or emotion? How do you even think to yourself? That keeps me up at night sometimes. It's just baffling...
Why I'm on and off with exercise, but each time I actually do it, I feel amazing for the rest of the day. It's like when you can finally breath again after a couple weeks of cold, but I keep getting the cold.
Why people think trump is smart or a good leader in light of all his failures and obvious daily lies. Why trump people exclusively talk like bots yet call other people NPC. How so many people simply rejected critical thinking at an early age and never recovered.
Stupid financial decisions.
Not reading what you sign, I read and catalogue (take photos) of everything I sign because that the mark of my responsibility. Yet people carelessly agree to sign any stupid shit.
High fashion. It all looks insane to me. And when my girlfriend watches shows about it, I feel like it's a bunch of people putting on ridiculous clothes and pretending it has some deeper meaning.
I don't know. It reminds me of million dollar, pretentious, nonsense art pieces.
How wireless signals actually work? How did the first 'signal' come about? How does a metal dish create a signal that other metal dishes just know how to read?
I'm about to finish a masters degree in computing too
DFMABN · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people's empathy is hard to come by and not having it is rewarded. I mean, I know kinda WHY, but how its allowed or even rewarded at this point when there is so much evidence in sociology and psychology to give the world some perspective. Why is it okay to not look at people and be able to, or want to see what it may he like to be them, or have their struggles? Again I feel know why it happens the causes, but I hate how it's made to be okay and even encouraged down to families or everyday life
How people can do so many mental gymnastics to justify and accept the multiple layers of contradiction and lack of common sense it takes to support the current US president and his actions
Try eating greens / foods with iron it you might be a bit anaemic one of the symptoms is feeling tired, but eating an overall healthy diet rich in dark, leafy greens, nuts and seeds, seafood, meat, and beans can help you get the iron you need. Im no doctor though.
How do loops and nested loops work in any programming language and how can I effectively know when they can be useful?
I have only been able to figure this out on my own once, and even then it was a fluke. All other times, I am just thinking to myself “ok textbook, that is neat and all, but ...huh?”
(I understand the concept of gravity - that’s not what I mean).
Ever notice how nothing ever seems to stay put?
Why.
khayy · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to program my LED hula hoop. i’m struggling so if anyone has any advice id love to hear. it’s the astral atomic V and i’m able to plug it in and i have java running the designer but once i download a design it says click and hold to put into receive mode but what do i do from there?
Time. You know when your doing something and it feels like it was 10 hours when it was just 1 and then someone else feels like it was 1 second. Like, time passed quicker for them because they enjoyed it.
People who have the urge to r*pe, harass, kidnap, stalk, murdee and abuse others. I get that people like that have no sympathy 'n stuff, but why do they do THAT of all things?. I can't seem to understand how those thoughts start and why.
Usually because of trauma they experienced as a child, it fucks them up psychologically and they don’t develop the same way mentally as you or I or anyone else.
Why I’m so bad at math. Maybe it’s mentality at this point where I start to almost get anxiety when asking for help but the numbers just never clicked, formulas I’d start to mix them up and just never was very good at it I guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This electrical box and it’s contents I’m working on.
JST0B · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating. I legitimately can’t fathom that shit. Maybe because I’ve been cheated on and it hurt so bad, but I just don’t understand how someone can do that to another person. If you’re not happy with a relationship, talk it out or break up with them. Obviously, if you have the opportunity to cheat on them then finding someone new won’t be a problem for you. I just don’t get why people do it other than to be evil.
(Edited) because I left out a word.
Why is it that when i stand in a tall building i get a split second urge to jump even though i know i dont want to. Or even sometimes get that split second idea of stabbing someone when i hold a sharp knife even though i am not psychotic.
This sounds like male-bashing, but it’s not meant to be: I just honestly don’t UNDERSTAND why dropping underwear and dirty clothes NEXT TO—but not inside—the basket seems to be a typically male thing to do
I’ve been known to do this, and the solitary reason is because I’m a really bad shot. I do throw stuff at the basket, but socks seem to have a life of their own, and just want to land on the floor.
The thought processes of my children. I tell them " Don't run inside and not 3 seconds after I turn around to get a drink or use the washroom or whatever I hear a loud thud followed by crying and hurried steps trying to find a hiding place.
rx6553 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Graduated from undergrad with a B.S. in Biology. I still do not understand entropy, enthalpy, and thermodynamics in general.
All I really know is entropy. Entropy is pretty much a measure of how much usable energy is left in a system. If there is a lot of energy left in a system, there is low entropy and vice versa.
Genderfluidity. I don't have a problem with it, I don't care what gender you feel like you are, what your skin colour or sexual preferences or religion is. I think everyone has the right to feel how they want and be happy. I just don't understand what the "genderfluid" mindset is. My best friend had a gf who was genderfluid, they preferred neutral pronouns and said that they "sometimes felt like a man and sometimes felt like a woman" and I just don't get it.
I’m cursed with resting bitch face (RBF) so I’ll just be minding my own business maybe on the bus looking out a window or walking down a hall in a building or even just in the line at the grocery store and some stranger thinks it’s totally alright to tell me I should smile. Like I’m not here to make you feel better man, I’m just looking out the window minding my own business. I don’t give a frack whether you think I’d look prettier if I smiled. Holding my face in an awkward position to make you leave me alone is more than I’m willing to do each day.
Maths. Not even the complex stuff. Even simple maths just never made sense to me.
qwondre · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How anybody could decide-for whatever reason- to choose to vote for trump. Everybody should have known before 2016 that trump was/is a scumbag. It was so obvious, yet he got the vote of the religious right? And they have gained much... to hell with the cost... righteousness purifies all rationalizations...
happy easter... I choose to glorify the easter bunny...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How technology works. How does my phone and computer do what they do? How do cameras record videos and take pictures? How does this crap work?
Please dumb it down for me. I’m not that bright when it comes to technology terms.
I don’t understand why UFO sightings don’t seem to be a thing in the media anymore, which confuses me especially given that almost all of us have a high quality cameras on us at all times in the form of smart phones
I don't understand how legitimately stupid people, like people who just have no common sense or are just lacking knowledge in general, think they know more than you about anything, even though you have literally dedicated good time, effort, maybe even your whole life to the topic you are talking about (that they "know" more about than you), whether it be physics, history, politics, anime, or anything at all. I cant wrap my head around their obliviousness to their own lack of understanding.
sy029 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Why is it that big things pull other things to them?
How people do not want society to continually improve. I.e. I know people who don't want college to be free, because they had to pay, or they dont want free healthcare cause they have had to pay. I dont understand how you can just not care about your fellow man. How some people can be soooooo greedy to amass billions. Blows my mind. Will never understand that mindset.
dryark · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market. Also, my lecture notes on genome research. For some reason I just can't organize the notes into cohesive take-home lessons aside from how different methods of sequencing compare to one another.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we are trillions of dollars in debt but apparently we had a few bucks just laying around...now everyone can just get $1200 bucks. Thank God we don't need universal health care. That would collapse the economy.
Why we work so much. I understand things are expensive and we need to buy them to survive and to buy them we need money and for money we need to work. Why though? We work our lives away and here in North America our vacation time isn't impressive at all. Our lives are literally wasted working for two days a week and those two days you're typically exhausted. Then we spend that time working for hopefully three weeks a year off. That's really not a lot. I dont really understand.
How being gay and being pedo is different?
Like how they say that when a man is sexually attracted to another man it's genitec and stuff but when a man is sexually attracted to a child or a minor in general it's a disease
If someone can explain please that would be very helpful
Btw I'm not talking about the legal or moral aspects purely medical
And dumb it down I'm not that good in English
Social interaction. Communicating with other human beings always befuddles me and like I have to legit plan out and get a script of what I want to say before I even try to talk to others, and one "wrong" answer/unexpected response throws me off my tracks so much
jwfulz · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation.
I've tried everything including even simplified YouTube videos to try and wrap my head around it and I seriously can not fathom how it works.
How do radios work? How can music be turned into a wave and then received and turned back into music? Blows my mind more than a computer and the technology is far older.
Music is a wave, just a wave in air and not of light. What happens is that a circuit takes the analogue signal of the music, shifts the frequency up some, and uses that signal to generate radio waves. These waves are then picked up by an antenna, their frequency shifted down some, and used to play a speaker.
How are those mobile game ads where the ad has nothing in common with the actual game even legal? What's up with that and how the hell is it so common?
I just don’t get how some people can only think about the present/the near future. This really applies to groups like corporations and politicians that only see their bottom line and not how their actions will bite them, or their successors in the future, in the ass further down the road.
Blue/White Control Decks. Why play a game if you don't want anyone else to play? How is it fun if you counter every spells, summon or counter to your own?
That how come I am supposed to earn Karma if I am not allowed to post in most of the subs because I am too 'new' and having too 'little karma'. Its like asking for 2 years of work experience for an internship.
How there are so many people voting for autocratic leaders and parties. Ever since I’ve woken up to the last US elections it seems like I’ve been transferred to some weird parallel universe where half the population is acting and voting like stupid assholes.
The fact that everything is made of atoms/molecules. So even the air I breathe is a tangible object if you look at it closely enough? Does this mean in a sense that we are all constantly connected because there really is no empty space, just tightly packed atoms?
Gluten. What is it? I've googled so many times, it's in wheat, it's in soy sauce, it's in bread etc. But then you can have wheat products with no gluten? Its toxic to some people, then fine for most? Can you get a tablespoon of gluten? Why would you add gluten to something?
Gluten is a protein made by some kinds of grains. It is a protein just like hemoglobin (in blood) or egg whites are. It can be removed by some chemical processes, like how lactose can be removed from milk. Gluten is absolutely harmless for most people, unless they have celiacs disease (which is like lactose intolerance but for glucose). Gluten is what gives dough and bread it’s stretchiness and is therefore added to some products in order to make them more stretchy.
Most things, despite being pretty smart. Some from the last hour that I can remember are social distancing, my mum making me fill out a form so the school knows what name to put on my diploma
Government Economics, and Political "fan boys". how do these organizations and people over-tax everything with a more than sizeable population and economy (Illinois I am looking at you) and yet only gain debt. Where does the money go, how do they have no control over it; and why does the average person stupidly think that all of this is Billionaires versus Peasants, or Democrats versus Republicans, or Socialism versus Capitalism. These problems are more complicated than we are led to believe and it is infuriating to figure out.
Bayesian statistics. I've run some models based on Bayesian stats, but don't quite understand exactly what's going on. Anybody have any good tutorials?
How there’s Christians who teach that Jesus and love is the answer yet want to murder pedophiles and rapist. I’m not defending pedos or rapist it’s just confusing why some Christians who love Jesus have enough hate to want to (sometimes do) kill someone. Also Christian judges who give out the death penalty
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a fucking black hole is. Wtf it’s emptiness but it’s not.
It’s not emptiness, it just looks like it because light gets suckled in. It’s more like a lil climb that is so massive and small that it’s gravitational force attracts and collapses anything that gets near it
I genuinely don't understand extremely passive people. People who never talk or express anything. I know people who litterly never talk nor express anything, rather it be a conversation or doing something fun. It's beyond my comprehension.
Suicide. I want to live more than anything else, just being alive is enough for me. I'd rather live with eternal pain and suffering than die. Just the fact someone can decide not existing is better than existing I can't wrap my head around it.
Maths.... maths in general- all the maths. Or how people could ever remember school work from studying, no matter what I do I always forget everything. :(
heathn · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spooky action at a distance. How the hell are two things entangled? What makes them pair up? Why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi and telecommunication work. How is enormous amounts of data packaged up and sent thru the air and converted into high definition video in our hands across the planet almost in real time?
How people can still trust archaic institutions like the Catholic Church. I don't have any problem with church-goers and the lower ranks in the hierarcy (they even do some humanitarian works which I applaud) as I support the freedom of faith while keeping on being an atheist. But church leaders are just too privileged and have accumulated an exorbitant amount of wealth whereas they don't give a beneficial input to society in any form.
I don't understand how audio tech (from ear phones all the way up to concert speakers) can produce any possible sound with perfect details.
I understand what the voice coil is (usually aluminum or copper), but I don't understand how electrical codes and signals are sent to the audio system and then is output as specific instruments and voices. Bass is simple and easy to understand, but any multiple factors (voices, instruments, other effects etc) that are converted into sound is mind numbing
DC/AC circuits, everything about them. I have been enrolled in an electronics technology class at a vocational-technical school since my sophomore year (I'm a senior, high school). I'm in this class every single day of the week, three hours a day, and after a few mental breakdowns the first year I noticed that I could complete a majority of the curriculum without any actual knowledge of the subject. I've been doing this for years and even though a lab here or there will make me legitimately cry in class, I've been maintaining high C's.
How are we going to flatten the curve? I mean if everything opens back up all at once in May and there are people that are infected leaving their houses that they've been cooped up in, doesn't it just start the whole cycle over again?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand people that constantly complain. I know a couple people who are only negative all the time. Its almost like they cant think of interesting things to talk about so they just nitpick everything around them. Seems like a miserable mindset, and its definitely miserable to be around.
Just...howw..is it possible?? What even is it?? The fact that there is even a term for it. Imagine how crazy it must have been for the first person to explain it to another, and them go "oh yeah, I get that too you're not tripping??"
I really wish I had been more inclined in the sciences. I think particle physics, quantum entanglement, space and time waves are so interesting. I just don’t have enough context to adequately conceptualize the ideas the way I want. I get it on the broad, Tyson DeGrasse on Stephen Colbert sort of way, but not the way I want to fully understand.
How do I get my wife to think objectively about politics and not operate on an emotional level.
I just want to have one conversation about politics where I don’t get personally attacked for is that too much to ask?
I don't understand why, people just don't get that I am a 34 year old black female that like only listens to rock. People still get in my car turn on rap and say, "don't you like this song?" Then look at me like I'm crazy when I don't dance to it....
this might be a psychology thing or an evolution thing i don't know
but why is it so hard to get people to open up to others? What are we all so collectively afraid of that we hang on to our impression management for dear life? you'd think the chance to let your guard down would bring emotional relief, but it doesn't seem to.
I wonder sometimes. Would life be less stressful if we all just up and admitted that we have problems? Would it level the playing field somehow?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why my dad used to beat my ass as a teenager and then apologize 30 minutes later. I don’t think I ever really got over how fucked up that felt.
I'm in IT. And I don't understand how computers work. I get binary and microprocessors and all that jazz, but the part where something programmed meets something physical blows my mind.
i genuinely don’t understand most math problems, i’ve have them taught to me by many different teachers, tutors and other students in so many different ways and i have never been able to do it.
I don't get the fact that parents think spanking is a good punishment, like why would you hurt your kid in one of their most vulnerable spots just to "teach them a lesson". What's next, parent are gonna kick their kids in the balls as a punishment?
I don’t understand why certain celebrities have such a massive following for their brand -
Hear me out .
Kylie Jenner , has a line of lipsticks to make your lips “just like hers” . But google can literally show you what she naturally looked like and then bam <plastic surgery> and now she looks like this .
There is no lipstick in the world , there is no green coffee drink , there is no corset trainer blah blah bs that will make you look like her because it is all plastic surgery / Botox / fillers etc .
the SIMP meme. I know it means Squirrels in my Pants and where did it come from, but I don't ask why because I know someone will answer with the song instead as part of the meme
I genuinely don't understand clouds how can water which is denser than air float up into the sky only to fall back down again later, not only that how come water droplets can stay in the air for that long when they're way heavier then air? how come it doesn't constantly fall?
They capture an initial sound as a wave to though a microphone. In a microphone, a tiny magnet is vibrated by sound waves. The magnet vibrates through a coil of wire. When the magnet moves, it induces an electrical current in the wire, proportional to the movement of the magnet, and therefore the sound wave. The sound is released by a speaker, which is the same as a microphone, but in reverse.
American politics. It seems to be the least democratic democracy. Those in power (even at local/state level) can reduce the effectiveness of the opposition.
Any kind of war, conflict, or general angst caused where religion appears to be a significant factor. Like the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I get the mechanics of the issue but I don’t understand it at a fundamental level.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivatives of log functions. What the fuck. Help. I'm drowning in 12th grade Math.
People who watch one thing in a vast genre then defend it to death and bashing other things that aren't that thing
Example: my hero fans, it's not a bad show got some great arcs but these people have only ever seen it and bash things like fmab and AOT with no understanding of what there bashing (personal example I see alot in highschool)
Why Mcdonalds is still so much more popular than other similar fast-food restaurants (BK, Wendys, Taco Bell). Mcdonalds is good and all but its not the best and it is so much more expensive than the others.
Because the majority aren't starving yet. Only really destitute people with no political power are starving right now. The majority who would stand to make a difference are comfortable enough to not rock the boat.
Hey lads trying to get 1000 karma so I can post and actually use reddit properly, well I think that’s how it works from what I read so if anyone is able to help us thanks a million! Enjoy your Easter holidays
Go and take some meth and find out first hand! I have never been an addict but appreciate the need of addicts. I used to smoke and quit 30 years ago and that was hard enough.
I don't like the feeling of being high, so I don't know that it would work with me
I quit smoking over 20 years ago, and just because I didn't want to do it anymore, and I was done. Just like that - once the withdrawal stopped (1 week) I was good.
You are the exception to the rule then, but the fact that you smoked and found enjoyment out of it for a time tells me you did enjoy the high. It is very insidious smoking because you may start by forcing yourself to enjoy it through peer pressure you find the effects you enjoyed when you give up. Taking drugs for addicts is not just about the high it is also about the anticipation, like the process of turning powder into liquid and sucking it up a syringe, ( smoking before you light that cigarette and the first drag) it is like salivating when you smell a good food you love to eat. You have been there you just weren't conscious of it because its all about feeding the reward indorphins.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
300GTP · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump's brain.
Minyae · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pingdg · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m 21 and still can’t really wrap my head around there and their. I normally wing it and just choose the one that looks right and 9 times out of 10 it works out.
I'm from a family with a lot of color blinded people, while having full vision myself.
No matter how many times I need to pick out the right color pencil, give advice on color matching clothes or explain how to see fruit is ripe, I'll never understand how they simply don't see the same colors as I and many others.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I zone out while driving- usually home- but I'm still aware of what's happening around me and it feels like I go into autopilot and before I realize it I'm home. Trips me out and it just happens randomly I've tried to think about what I was thinking of or looking at right before but nothing comes to mind about what triggers it. Hasn't happened since I've been home during this pandemic but still.
Nationalism. I have no idea why am I supposed to feel related to a bunch of people that have nothing to do with me because all of us are supposedly connected by "nationality". I understand that I'm on the minority here, but I genuinely have no idea.
How a person can think it's ok to to lie about birth control to get their partner pregnant or get themselves pregnant without consent. (yes, there are actually people who do this)
I have zero sympathy for the man if the woman gets an abortion. and zero sympathy for the woman if the man walks out and leaves her a single mom.
How people not show up on time for things outside of unforseen cercumstances. That and the general culture of showing up late for events. Boggles my mind.
NJoose · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a bisexual, I cannot for the life of me understand straight AND gay people.
Most often, people experiment when they're still unsure about their sexuality, and through experimentation discover whether they're gay or straight or bi. If someone didn't like it with the same/opposite sex then, I can't see how they would suddenly start liking it now.
Long division. I was actually pretty good at math in school and never really struggled with too much of anything(algebra was a doozy for me but I got after time) and graduated no problem but in all my time in school I just never learned how to write out a long division problem and solve it. I think I was just sick that day and It snowballed into just never learning it.
How people judge serious topics with their emotions. If there's a potential disaster or a very major issue, then I will think about it 100% rationally.
How to braid hair. My girlfriend is determined to teach me. I have the patience to watch step by step but when I try it myself, I always fuck up and get pissed off.
Black holes and gravity. I'm fascinated by these topics and I get the concept of gravity but have no idea why it works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
supply side inflation ratios between economic asset classes. its easy to model but hard to apply. its basically like asking everyone around the world to show their poker hand.
How so many people in my area can afford $300,000+ houses.
We're looking right now and despite being in a Midwestern city and making solid incomes, every house seems to be a mcmansion and everything going up for sale sells within 2 weeks of hitting market
I've tried several times to really understand what's going on. A rotation about a vector. And you can do transformations on it. But for actually understanding what's going on, it's still all a complete mystery to me.
How I can see when something needs to be done (cleaning, laundry, etc) but my husband is completely oblivious until I ask him to do such things. Like, is your passive perception -10 ffs?
Oh, ok. I don't know if there is a good reason. I think it's stupid that they don't have one. But a lot of people seem to want only private healthcare, like my grandma. I can ask her the next time i call her
Front loading washing machines. Fuck whoever invented them, they're not "HE" and they don't get your clothes cleaner. They stink unless you wash the damn machines every little crevice, they don't get your clothes as clean, they're loud as fuck, they can't hold as much as top loaders and they have a bunch of bullshit settings they slap on to make it seem like it's sooo much better. Not only that but they don't even last as long. Top loader all the way.
I don’t understand why every time I look in the mirror, I just notice every little imperfection. It’s such an inconvenience- But whatever, you got to deal with it?
How some people can just be awful to a person who has never done anything to them. I guess I'm naive, but it seems like the default mode for any interaction should be neutral or positive. What do people get out of just being a dick?
Programming languages. I have programming courses in school and i technically know what you can do, but when i see code and try to understand it it just doesn't work. My friend is amazing at this. He takes a 5 second look at my screen at tells me what i did wrong or can explain to me, what the code does
Math specifically graphing and geometry, it just doesn't click I've tried khan academy but I just can't seem to get a grasp on it and it sucks because it's the one test holding me back from my G.E.D if anyone has any resources that can I'd be really grateful.
How physicists can can think up seemingly abstract concepts about space. I say abstract because its unfathomable for me to comprehend things like that.
I don't understand why humans are still eating animals.
It's not necessary. It causes torture and suffering for no reason. (If you don't believe that torture is an appropriate word, look up some videos from slaughterhouses and it'll make your stomach turn.)
People in Western countries love their "pets," and couldn't FATHOM eating a dog or cat but for some reason animals people eat are in this different, arbitrary category. Why is that any different?
People cry all these tears for the animals killed in the Australia fires, when just as many animals are killed every single 2 days for food........
Meat causes all kinds of diseases.
Logistically, it's cheaper to grow vegetables, so the poverty argument doesn't work either.
I could go on and on but you get the point.
I've heard every possible ridiculous argument there is, and I've yet to hear one that makes any sense against veganism. The only argument is apathy, really. And apparently that's good enough for most people.
What a simp is, no idea. I hear and see children calling eachother simps, every time I ask online someone just says "well then you probably are one" and then everyone leaves it at that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the United States seems to just have endless debt, like...I don't pay my bill once and I'm getting calls non stop. how can we be trillions in the hole but it's like chill?
how our collection of experiences is purely based on our memory. like I’ll remember me lying in bed and then all of a sudden i’m awake the next morning. the fact that stuff happened in between those two memories is crazy.
Death. I remember being very existential at around five and I would keep asking questions. My dad is an atheist so he told me nothing happens. I still genuinely don't understand it, even after years of study, meditation and searching.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be great musicians but so bad at learning anything at school (science, math, history etc) I knew guys in school who had the worst grades and were honestly kind of stupid. But they were great guitar or drum or even piano players. I was good in school and for me learning any instrument was hard I tried and never got good at guitar or piano. Same goes for a lot of the rockstars that I really liked growing up.
It takes a strong discipline to learn music and become proficient in it. Yet some of them can learn music like it’s nothing but be absolute idiots about anything else. 🤔
Blended fabrics.. How does a clothing designer decide the percentage of cotton, polyester and elastane (or whatever material) for making a pair of jeans? How can blended fabrics be dyed uniformly? And make prints on top of it!
How, if the Big Bang was 13 billion years ago, how all the light from that event has not “passed us by “ since we still see it’s light as the the cosmic background radiation from that event...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although buses themselves are long, there wheel base is not to much longer than a car, so they can get round city streets without a hassle. If your talking about tipping, all heavy systems are mounted in the lower section of the bus so the centre of gravity is quite low
Our welfare system. Maybe anecdotal, but my neighbor tried to commit suicide with insulin and failed. After leaving the asylum she gets her bills (water, gas&electric, rent, internet, phone, etc.) paid for, for free. She manages to go walk to the store everyday for soda and pack of cigarettes. She doesn’t work at all just sits outside her home and smokes cigarettes all day.( I see her everyday after I get off work and have to walk past the smell of her cancer sticks) Why does our system accept this behavior?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not even that half of it. It’s bullshit. I understand why people wanna do away with it. People like her live for free and I can’t get a dime of assistance as a hard working American. Wtf.
Weirdly specific to my job but I have no idea how telephony/softphones work. I am able to upload an xml file and then magically I can click on a phone number and make a phone call.
The term “mutually exclusive” I read up about it and get a general understating of it and when to use it but as soon as I hear it in a conversation my brain just short circuits and I get confused on what the term exactly means.
Weird as it’s such a basic term that’s used all the time but for some reason my brain just can’t grasp it.
I will never understood how after consuming expensive amounts of THC, I still am not high. I feel I have not been high in months and I smoke like 3 times a day and have a dab pen. I understand tolerance but god damn me and my boy will finish like 5 js in one sesh and I’m still sober sally
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like getting drunk. I can understand enjoying a beer or a glass of wine here and there, but being drunk makes me feel like I am simultaneously retarded and sick.
I do not understand why, with as many problems our county has (before the pandemic), such as Unemployment, Rampant GREED Causing HIGH Prescription Prices, Runaway Healthcare Costs, Drug Addiction, Widely & Easily Available Illicit Drugs (like Heroin), Racism, A BROKEN Education System, Gang Wars, HUNGER, HOMELESSNESS, A Broken Veterans Care System and SO ON.... WHY DO SO MANY of our elected politicians, want to absorb Thousands and Thousands of Government Dependant Refugees from Enemy Countries?
They're sadly mistaken if they believe that these people will Educate and Assimilate to become productive Americans! LOOK AT ENGLAND, Germany, France, Sweden and every other country that's taken them in! They CAUSE TROUBLE, THAT'S IT!!! IT'S GOT TO STOP!!!
When you have to pay $85 so you give the cashier $100 and he asks for a $5 so he can give you a $20.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So he can give the change in one note
100-20=80, he loses money, or your carrying more notes
105-20=85, he gets the correct amount of money and you only carry one more note
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a manual?. So there are different sized cogs on the shaft going out the manual. they connect the the gear box shaft cogs. Now the reason they are different is for power and speed. At a start you the engine needs the best leverage to get over the friction of the tyres, and from school physics the more distance the more force, so the first gear has a low ratio to get the car going. But when a cog needs to turn lots of times to get the big cog to turn once, you ain’t going nowhere fast. At higher gears the cogs are more equal, do give more speed. Think of the engine running as a constant spinning force. Think of first as a tiny cog, and it’s connected to a big cog. The tiny cog has to turn many times to get the big cog to turn once. Now keep the engine speed the same, but have equal cogs, like 4th. The bottom one is faster. But in the first gear, the little cog had more leverage and there for more twisting force or “torque”. This overcomes the friction from stand still. The gearstick moves a lever that moves a fork, which changes the gears. The clutch makes it disconnect the engine shaft so that if the car stops it doesn’t force the engine to stop. It also means the cogs can match speeds and change over smoothly without the twisting force of the engine destroying the cogs.
How the heck do flash drives and hard drives store my data?
How does physical data storage work, is data stored as an electronic capacitor and is maxed out when the capacity is reached? What's happening on a microscopic level inside these things?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, I’m 23 and it makes very little sense, even after watching videos.
I saw a reddit chat the other day about how some people don't have an internal voice in their head. Like they dont "chat to themselves " . Example if they need to make a decision they just do it rather than weighing it up in your head. That just freaked me out.
ike709 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the mechanisms on my organic chemistry exams.
i have absolutely no idea why people feel it is acceptable to repost various items on reddit for karma; I mean, just be creative and stop leeching of others work.
Why people base friendships and relationships on political affiliation.
Obviously you don't want to be friends with a raging racist or the person who keys businesspeople's cars and commits arson because they don't believe in personal property (yes, I HAVE met someone personally who is this far-gone down the communism ideology and is now in prison)... but most people are pretty reasonable and are just mostly byproducts of their environments and given time and exposure will change their minds to be more rational. Especially when put in a context where they can see and understand its benefits.
If we hole ourselves up in our own little bubbles of friends, we're not able to teach or learn or witness the world and the people in it, and that just fosters even more hatred and bigotry to the benefit of absolutely nobody.
I'm not saying go make friends with the people who suck, but maybe instead be the judge of whether someone sucks based on the whole of what they say or do rather than of what they maybe prioritize out of our leaders.
There are a lot of truly awesome people in the world from all walks of life. It's okay to be friends with people who you disagree with on things, because neither of you are experts on every issue, and it's very easy to get lost in personal feelings and experiences.
The only people who deserve condemnation are those operating against a truth they have been enlightened with (looking at most climate change deniers). But you won't know that they are until you sit down and really talk it all out.
People who are super mean to their parents and try to blame all of their shortcomings in life on them. I know plenty of people have genuinely awful parents, but I’m not talking about them. I’m talking about the people with decent parents that have tried their best. I see so many people take their parents for granted that it’s astonishing at times. Zero appreciation for them giving you life. Never understood that whole concept.
Human Cognition and intelligence. I game with someone who is very good at FPS and creative games like Minecraft and such, but he seems off. He has anxiety and depression and is insecure when we say things like “stupid” or “dumbass” like typical joking gamers. He also mispronounces words and is oblivious sometimes idk. I just don’t get how someone can be so good at outthinking opponents and and video games in general. Maybe he watches youtube and gets his ideas from there?
I guess we are all just smarter in different fields.
Having a sense of direction. People who can just automatically orient themselves to look north blow my mind. I guess I am capable of it, but it takes me a lot longer than the average person. I routinely confuse right and left, and my navigation skills are an utter joke. I hate being so crappy at something so useful.
It drives my husband crazy, he's given me shit about it on multiple occasions, has said that I "just don't want to learn". I envy that it gives him no problems.
Math, I study accountancy at university and to be honest I don't have my standard grade math. I understand what I need to basic and probability but my classes expect me to know advanced probability and I'm basically stumbling in the dark.
n0tter · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who never wonder about human conciousness and greater purpose EVER. I'm fine with "you know what I think we'll never really know so I'm better off not worrying about it and simply enjoy life the way it's thrown at me" rather than getting the blank stare of someone who's never had any reflection about it at all, I don't understand how you can go through life and never wonder once if there's something bigger. Again, maybe there is maybe there isn't it's not about the beliefs it's about wondering even just ONCE.
Start off easy. Everyday, write 3-5 things you want to do on a piece of paper, phone or whatever and try to get those things done. It'll be a chore at first but getting things you want done gives you a sense of accomplishment.
Phokew · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be hateful towards a certain group so much that they want to kill them
Nazis, I understand wanting to kill them, but not unhateful groups that do nothing to bother anyone and just want to exist
zeda96 · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
y=mx+b. I used to be A+ in math until that equation. It broke me and I couldn't do math again
How a plane gets up in the air. Like, I've read how engineers and physicists say it's gets up there... but I literally do not understand how something that heavy gets up there.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, I’ll try my best. Air, is just a less dense body of fluid, like water. Now if you been swimming, you get a feel for the physics, mainly that more surface area makes you float as well as movement. Planes work on that principle but at speed.
See, I've had this explained before (this is possibly why I dropped out of Physics in High School) but it just makes absolutely no sense to me.
Truthfully, I think it's all witchcraft.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you have a bike, ride it at speed and stick your hand out flat. You feel the force. Then stick it at a 45’ angle. You should feel your hand lift a little. Now increase the surface area massively and increase the speed.
How people can look at directions and follow them and do anything they put their mind too. I'm diagnosed ADHD so I'm sure that has something to do with the inability to focus. But I can look at directions and the words on the page just mesh together and make no sense to me. It's been this way since I was a kid and I'm 27 now.
Ozemba · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Premium tax credits... ???
I just bought my first health insurance policy and I was so confused. I'm still confused.
0847 · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tell if you paid enough attention to someone (including oneself). It seems like everyone is a thought magnet that isn't content with their attraction.
I genuinely don’t understand how an engine works. I’ve always loved cars since I was a kid, but I don’t have a clue as to how some explosions in the engine pushes the wheels of a car.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you like or click on a video you'll get more of it in the recommendations. I mostly look up video game stuff so I get a lot of recommendations of other gaming channels. Even if you click on a video to rant om the YouTuber the algorithm will think you want to find more of said YouTuber or similar.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, how do they work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The minor key and how to find it. I swear I keep watching videos, use the same 5 shapes but slide the root note down 3 frets and you're in the minor pentatonic? Huh? Wuh?
A few things that bother me (because there's a lot of stuff I don't understand but don't care about either): how computers work like the other guy said, however I know how eacht layer kind of works. But all the layers won't connect as a whole in my head, I can't find that click.
Quantum mechanics, the math works, it all works but what does it mean. What does any of it mean, how can I interpret any of it.
Why turbulence in a pipe causes less friction by creating a thinner boundery layer. But turbulence on a moving object causes more drag. But suddenly with golfballs it causes less drag? I had a short eureka moment, but it hasn't resolved it completely.
adding and subtracting fractions, i just don't get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When u add or subtract fractions,u make sure the denominator-bottom number- is the same(lowest common multiple) and when u have the same denominator,u either add or subtract (depending on the question) the top number.
Example
2/10 plus 1/5
As the denominators are a different number, u need to make these the same by looking at the lowest common multiple . In this instance it is 10.to get the 1/5 the to have the same denominator as 2/10, u multiply 1/5 by 2.
This results in 2/10 plus 2/10. Now that the bottom numbers are the same , u just add the top numbers.SONT ADD THE BETTER TROM NUMBER
So the answer is 2/10 plus 2/10 equals 4/10.
I know this is long and complex to explain but in real life would be way easier but I hope this helps:))
I've tried so hard to learn, it's not within my capability to learn :(
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, it’s easy to learn and as soon as u get it it all starts to click together
However I would recommend watching a video explaining it because the videos take u through each step:))
How the tides are influenced by the moon. I get it sort of intellectually, that it has to do with gravity, but it just doesn't make any sense to me logically.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “beginning of time.” There couldn’t possible be a beginning of the universe. I mean, there’s the Big Bang but when was before that?there literally always had to be something. Mind fucks me
Apple products, why would you pay more for a product that does the exact same thing but with more flashy animations. "I don't like windows", that's like not buying a car because you don't like the buttons. It's really petty and dumb.
Apple has a reputation for extremely user-friendly interfaces, excellent security features, and a well-maintained app store.
These features may be present in part or entirely on other phones, but Apple made them famous and accessible. It's would take a massive flop to derail the good name they've built for themselves, at least in terms of hardware and software quality.
Calculus. Like why did I learn that shit (and forgot), it served no practical use at all.
Fra23 · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to ignore/change my emotional response to things. It happens way too often that I consciously want to do something because it interests me/it needs to be done and then I end up not pulling through with it/procrastinating because it takes too long to complete, or because it takes proper work to do, or because I associate past negative experience with it etc.
Sometimes I try drawing things because I have hated arts class in school but the idea of making simple pencil drawings of things I care about is something I really want to do. Yet, unless I have had a recent rush of "feel good hormones", it is literally impossible for me. During one of these rare "phases" I could literally pinpoint the moment my mood ran dry and I was back to tensing up every time I picked up a pencil.
I really wish I could change these things because it always feels a fight between what I want and what my monkey brain wants.
ORI0NE · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You see in the clip, Obi-Wan sneaking on to Padme's ship by entering a room. When he's outside the room, he clicks a button to open the door and then goes in. After he sits down, he uses the force to close the door.
My question is, is there a button on the inside of the room to close the door? If there isn't, how does a non-force user get out, once they go inside? Is that room supposed to be a prison chamber, so prisoners cannot escape.
The room is a closet. It probably isn’t meant to close with someone inside it, hence Obi-Wan using the Force to close the door so he can hide properly.
How my dreams are no longer like a movie playing in my head? Its more like fictional things are happening but i also feel very awake and aware during them to an extent where i can judge what’s happening and make decisions on what i say or do next in the dream. However, im still unable to control other factors of my dream such as the people and the places.
How anyone could support Trump at this point. His supporters, some members of my own family, are literally terrifying in their ignorance and fervor. It actually gives me anxiety.
-kVIII · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currency. It’s so mind boggling. How do we even know what the value of the stock market it? It makes no sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who are born blind picture things in their head
How come so many women talk about not being able to meet men, and so many men talking about now being able to meet women. Can’t you guys arrange a place to all meet or something?
(Source of confusion: been married for 15+ years so I don’t understand today’s dating scene)
Why some girls and women try to seduce men that are married or in a long term committed relationship, especially when they know the family and their children. I cannot comprehend it.
How to break 'the cicle'. I somehow ended up in some cicle I can't break.
I legit understand my situation but I just intesively think about it, then get tired thinking about it and take couple naps a day. Then as I go to sleep I am thinking about really doing something about it but come to conclusion that it's too late so I promise myself I will do a better job tommorow.
And here I am, ended up a little bit overweight, huge daily ammounts of nicotine in my body which I can't seem to give up on neither, no job, struggling financially and yet I still beat myself mentally about it but no real outcome
The naming of age groups, and the rabid tribalism among these groups. The fact people tie their entire identities around the time period they were born in and will use that as an excuse to be nasty to each other.
Named generations are just another way to separate people even more than they already are, except this one is entirely artificial and pointless.
Also, entirely American. It's an entirely American concept, based around American culture and events, so I cringe anytime I hear someone referring to some rando in India as a 'Millennial'.
How the fuck do American politics work how in the ever living fuck did Joe Biden beat bernie to be the candidate when he litteraly had a fraction of the support.
Here’s my input. Well, Reddit made it look like he was the most popular candidate. The front page of Reddit is an echo chamber, believe it or not, and it is no way indicative of the entire US population. Bernie still won CA and a few other states. However, he couldn’t win the more middle-of-the-road crowd. He had lots of support, but his policies were too left-leaning for many people.
Still it is mega scummy that a candidate that so many people fully supported now has no say, how come the US has a garbage system that only votes for the president and not a parlement with multiple political parties trying to represent the people as well as they can like the rest of the civilised world.
He may have some say by backing Biden, as Biden and his team will definitely want to corral the Bernie supporters so they’ll turn out for the election. Obviously, there are pros and cons to both two and multi-party systems. For people that like consistent and steady change, this system works alright. Of course, local legislatures and congressman can make a difference at the state level. However, as you mentioned, it’s not perfect, and there can definitely be rules in place to reduce lobbying, gerrymandering, and other issues.
Imagine you have zero cookies and you divide them evenly among zero friends. See? It doesn’t make sense. And Cookie Monster is sad that there are no cookies. And you are sad that you have no friends.
This can easily be answered with a calculator. Just type in 8 divided 0 and you get Error. So this obviously means the answer is Error. Idontgetiteither
Qwerk- · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
centrifugal force, or centripetal force. not even not understanding which is which (although I forget right now), but I just dont understand how the force is being applied and how it creates like a spin. I have tried for hours studying to wrap my mind around it, but finally just resort to memorizing and using that for physics tests. I've given up on actually understanding it. every ah-ha! moment I've had in regards to this, I've explained to a teacher/classmate, etc and been like "that's it, right?" no. wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think they can be animal lovers despite the fact that they’re constantly shoving meat into their mouths.
How there can be millions of people in Canada paying taxes to the government and they still can't mange to make a government site that runs well and can handle more than 20 people at a time..
Like what the buck is that shit. I’ve tried looking into it but I just get more confused. I really only know the basics like which types are bad and what happens when you are exposed to too much, and what it can go through.
Physics major here. I'll start with special relativity. Einstein essentially asked the question, "what if the speed of light is the same for any observer, or frame of reference". What that is basically saying that there is one constant that is unchangeable, no matter how fast you are going, or where you are. Let's say there is a person 5 meters away from a firecracker exploding, and a person 100 meters away from a firecracker exploding and they both are on the phone together. They will agree, by sight, that the firecracker explodes at the same instant in time. Now what if we have a person 2.998x108 (how far light travels in one second)meters away and one right next to the firecracker and they have the ability to instantly talk to eachother? Well, that same event, which is 100% happening in a location and time, will be seen to happen at 1s apart by the different observers. They will not agree on the time the firecracker is exploding! This also changes if the observers are moving relative to the event and each other ( the effects start to be noticable when you are moving around 1/7 the speed of light). Not only that, but the locations can vary as well. Objects can become shorter to some observers, no joke it's called length contraction, and the timeline of different events are argued upon. Its mind blowing shit. Essentially our reality as we know it, flagpoled in our existence, is very malleable when your reference frame starts moving super fast (like you are in a train going half the speed of light). I'm sorry if this is jumbled, I'm at work on the phone.
Tldr: when you move fast, the time and location and size of an object doing something/event is not agreeable by all observers. The length of a train could be shorter!
The term coming out just means telling people who you want to be with. It's not an event and if its made into one it's due to the personalities involved
Texting a photo to someone! Even when explained I dont get jt.... it's like the picture de-materializes and flies through the air and re downloads on their phone.
How the e-maps work (Google Maps, MaptQuest etc.). Where do the companies get their sources? If there's a central database of places, who updates it when a new road/street is added?
pwbue · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. Why it exists and why it gets bailed out.
Sports fanaticism. I understand the basic underlying concept of tribalism and ingroups and outgroups, I just don't see how that progresses to the point of defining oneself by way of team affiliation--despite not actually being on that team and not benefitting from wins or losses in any way (betting aside). Even city/state affiliation is tenuous. "I am a [team] fan, I watch the games, buy the merchandise, and actually antagonize fans of other teams" is a way of life I just can't wrap my head around.
As an offshoot, it's almost bewildering to me that sports are so important to the average person that an entire block of time is dedicated to its coverage in daily local news.
People who can easily speak multiple languages. I honestly have no idea how they do it. Like, do they heard the words and automatically translated them in their head? How do they not have to think about it? Most of my family grew up speaking more than one language, but I just hit a snag, it doesn’t work for me no matter how had I try.
I have a friend who is bilingual she says that depending who she is talking to, her inner voice changes languages, so she thinks in two different languages. I just don’t get it! The only class I ever failed was French. I bombed almost every assignment.
Maths, no matter who teaches me it i just dont get it, this annoys me because i need to get a 4 in my maths to progress with my course im doing, never reached high 3, always been high 2 or low 3. My family have put thousands (not exaggerating there) into personal tutors for them to not really get me anywhere.
Some people have looked at the work i do and said “why the fuck are they teaching you that? Its fucking useless!” After they said why i just sit by that, “its fucking useless knowing that i dont need it”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its the game reason why people still think the earth is flat, because that makes you think you are better, or just ignoring your ignorance about thing and justifying your actions whith a it's not important
YouTubers and vloggers. You’re just sitting there by yourself talking to a camera pretending there’s people there? Not even a camera or lighting crew, just you. It just seems so awkward to me. “Hey guys, it’s me, coming at you with another episode”. But there’s no one there, just your own face on the monitor.
These are some of the reasons I have come up with but I need help narrowing down which one is correct.
- My Mom and Dad had unprotected sex.
- The universe is constantly expanding and that energy is what I actually am and I nearly exist as a representation of the energy.
- Billions of years of random events happening all over the universe somehow all came together in an exact sequence that ended up we me being born and being able to breath, eat, sleep, mate and procreate.
- I don't actually exist, but am created by whoever is reading this text is...or...maybe I created them!
-God, he thought of my entire life from start to finish, especially that time I peed my pants in front of everyone.
- Lizard people who plotted my existance for the soul purpose of using my body as food for the eternal feast which is actually a different demention that we go to after we die.
Quantum physics. We can't even see what's going on but we have complex mathematics that explain how things work and even their magnetic field structure.
How babies pick up langauges. It’s amazing for me. I think the fact humans can immerse in any language, without studying, is the most fascinating thing about the human brain. The fact that some children are bilingual before the age of 5 is really strange for me too. As for someone who loves linguistics, it’s just so interesting, yet it doesn’t make any sense. Especially with how specific and complicated our language is compared to the other creatures on earth.
Flat-earthers. There's a lot of people I don't agree with intellectually or politically (anti-vaxxers, Trump supporters, pro-lifers)... but I can at least understand their point of view and where they're coming from. Flat-earthers... I just don't understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything IT, coding, programming... Not one bit. I've risen quite far in operations, but am completely illiterate when it comes to that stuff and I feel likes it's embarrassing and I should know more. Then again, Ive never put in the effort because I haven't had to.
I know how to use programs and am very good with Excel (pivot tables, vlookup, etc...) Salesforce, SAP. But how those things work, I have no clue and do not feel like I ever will. And I'm in my mid 30s.
Why I can't seem to figure out math and language.
I'm an expert in all things English and fine arts, but I've struggled with math, language, and music my entire life.
It's not like I haven't tried. I took all my notes, I practiced and practiced, I joined band, I studied online when math class was over, but I can't retain or understand it even ten minutes later.
Some people say I'm simply more right brained, my family says it's hereditary as everyone on my mother's side of the family struggles with the same issues.
But I simply can't understand it. Even after all the work I tried to put into it, a part of my brain simply... Doesn't feel like working so I'm stuck?
I don't get why brains work like this, what warrants a person to be left/right brained, or if that's even an actual thing.
People always chalk it up to "Well you just can't help it, that's how you are" but I feel there's more to it I'm just not getting.
How my parents don’t see just how entitled my younger sister is.
I had to go to the hospital because of some extreme abdominal pain and was literally rolling around on the floor screaming. When my sister learned my mom was taking me she threw a huge fit and broke the tv in our living room claiming my parents didn’t care about her, and they didn’t care when she had a stomach ache. This was about 15 min after she and my mom got home from a 400$ shopping spree that my mom paid for... she also has stolen about 3500$ worth of things from me including my Xbox and tv and my parents haven’t done anything to make it stop. And whenever she throws a did about something she gets what she wants...
WyrdX · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of having to make education a type of buisness. I dont get it, it the reason why in the world, America ranks like 26th in education.
It’s pretty straight-forward, bunch of equations that in the end make sense and thus we can prove it with our current technology. Computers, smartphones and the bulbs in your house it’s all possible because at the end is simple to do.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics and the fluctuations which occur in a vacuum in space. Someone please explain to me what the fuck is going on with that, if you can reliably explain that to me so that I understand it in the frame of physics I will give you a Nobel Prize in Physics and a cool million bucks.
how to make scales sound natural and like music on the guitar
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see ur point but a lot of the time I get random stuff that I’ve never seen anything related/to do with that before.
And then when I click the video and go to the comments everyone just comments about how they also got recommended this and how it doesn’t make sense because they don’t watch that kind of stuff
How the hell can someone hear me In real time when I talk into a 3inch piece of glass and plastic (phone). Like how the hell does my real voice just make it to that person.
All my dad's conspiracy theories. I've tried genuinely talking to him about it, like sitting down with him with an open mind and just talk to him about what he believes and then me trying to explain what isnt right, or accurate,but it's no use. He's a flat earther, anti government (but bows down to Donald Trump, which that in itself doesnt make any sense, but I digress.), anti history, and now an antivaxxer.
He has bipolar disorder and at first I thought that maybe he's just not talking his medication anymore. But he's been like this for 2 years and it's just getting worse and he's going further and further down. I still think he's not taking his medication, but there's nothing I can do about it because it's not a harm to himself or others. I've talked to my aunts and uncles about it but they dont really seem to care or think it's that bad. I just dont know what to do.
im always behind on the hip new trends, i had no idea what a simp was till a friend said it to me and i looked up what its supposed to mean. i just dont understand how i never find these things out until they're halfway through their life.
As some one with a well aging, baby face, how the fuck do people go through puberty and come out looking completely different? I have had this face since I was born (I'm 29) and I just do not understand. All I have now are some bags under my eyes occasionally.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont want to do anything with My life and I dont entirely know why. At some point i guess i just started thinking "why bother when someone Else more motivated and talented is gonna Come along and do what i can do 10x better" along with other things Like. I dont want to use lots of My life on something and just lose it All again when i enevitably lose it All when i die. I have and have had a fair amount of teachers try and talk to me about My lack of motivation for things and what i wanna do in the future. The only answer ive Come up with after having these thoughts for 3 years is i want to Coast. I wanna live on the line of not really doing anything but still workin a bit. I want to have enough money so i can buy something i want every now and again but I dont wanna work more to just get a load of money i wont ever use. Ive also thought about things Like is there really Any point in trying to achieve something when the future is so unscertain. Like i Mean the majority of us could litteraly get wiped out druing these next months. Along with thinking about how close we are in technology to achieve freedom in terms of food Like if the top People wanted to they could invest an insane amount of money into production and research of food and just solve world hunger. If things Like these happen is there really Any point.
Its very late for me rn so if anything dosnt make sense dont worry to much about it.
Also this has more turned into me ranting sorry abou that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean everyone can just say that someone is gonna do better than them or they feel like what’s the point. But the thing is u shouldn’t compare urself to other people because than it wouldn’t really be ur life would it.the whole point of living is that it’s an experience that YOU make out of nothing.Yes the world is changing, but that’s a part of life , I mean it’s about u adapting to it and gaining the benefits and he things u enjoy.Life will look dull if u have a fixed mindset however if you were to look at the things u could achieve, it by far outweighs the negatives.OPTIMISM IS KEY
I do not understand why college students are not getting stimulus checks. Please read this response I made to someone else before you @ me:
Being a dependent means your parents pay %51 of your bills. It doesn't mean I'm some bottle fed fucking baby that my parents take care of. I have my own shit I need to pay too. If I work part time in the service industry, live on my own and pay %49 of my bills, what happens when my parents who just lost their job can no longer support me while I'm in college? I'm fucked. Not only am I fucked, I get to listen to assholes tell me I'm not a struggling American and that I don't deserve the assistance that everyone else is getting. Oh and also, my parents won't even get the $500 since I'm over 17 so they're not getting anything for supporting me. Not only am I getting fucked by the government, there's people telling me I don't deserve any help. Thanks for your bullshit I'll make sure I forget about it immeadiately. I hope I and my parents live through the year since the government just made it a lot harder.
I respect people's beliefs, and love discussions with religious people. I've searched, but never found any evidence, and I just couldn't believe something without any.
T_Peg · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Records are making a comeback. They're objectively inferior in every single way except "My AeStHeTiC vInTaGe"
I believe vinyl records are better quality? So it might make sense for audiophiles. But for your average consumer, I agree it is just an expensive aestetic gimmick.
sth128 · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. Why do we only seem to only traverse in one direction? Why do things at light speed like photons stand still in time? Do they perceive the universe as instantaneous?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could possibly be emotionally stable lmfao
Anti vaxers who think that a “clean and healthy lifestyle only” will protect them and everyone. And that they “don’t expose themselves to those kinds of illnesses”.
Like what about their pets? Don’t their dogs need rabies shots to be able to have them? Or if they travel abroad, there’s vaccines to avoid illnesses that we don’t have here...do they just not get those vaccines? Or people visiting here from another country...I’ve got so many questions...
People. I feel so lost when it comes to social interaction. My friends and loved ones say it doesn't show but people always find a way to surprise me in a usually not good way
Tying ropes of any kind. Like, even basic tying shoe laces is complex to me. I understand everything else perfectly fine but when it comes to rope it just doesn’t make any sense, it’s like dyslexia towards it
ShriLo · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the moon has phases...I can understand it but just can’t retain the knowledge!
Girls
I am as of last year 18, Male and I am definitely naive
I have been trying to get into a relationship but at every turn to try to get one with a certain person I couldn't tell if anything was happening at points I would think that there was of some effect. Because of the things I like about her like the overall deadpan personality (unless with friends) it has been difficult to know if things are moving forward. Not to long ago it was valentines day, because I am not very good at showing how I feel I had decided to draw a portrait of her and give it to her on V-day being that I am an aspiring artist. I ended up giving it to her scared to death, this was my first big attempt shooting my shot to show who I am in my own way. Later the same day I got a text saying she had a boyfriend because I wanted to make sure I was seeing things right I showed a my mother who I had been conversing whit along with friend all year about this situation my mother had said that the way it was written it sounded like it was a parent influenced response if not directly then in a way I could try and decipher. Some backstory, the whole year leading up to this point this girl had been starring at me in class turning around to look at me talking to friends and to where her and her friends would seem to look back, still doing this after the fact, in fact it seemed like it was going to start getting a bit more heated until this worldwide crap show happened and while I can say for the most part I am not to affected this was the one thing I was looking forward to find out and now prom are gone other things like graduation are on a stricter leash. What do you think?
Why people think and very loudly exclaim that USA is the best country, no questions asked.
I don't see how living in a country and paying taxes to a government who doesn't pay for stuff like healthcare, college et cetera could compare to the other western countries like in scandinavia and so forth.
and then there is gun laws but thats a whole other can of worms i am not going to get into
I don't understand anxiety, or depression. I've been sad, and ive been overwhelmed, but I have friends that suffer from both afflictions, who often tell me that what I have experienced doesn't come close to what they experience.
It only sucks when i try and empathize with my wife, who often suffers from anxiety. I don't have a point of reference, and I often come off as cold or uncaring.
I understand what both of these things are on a textbook level, I just don't think I've ever experienced them myself, at least not in my adult life.
I apologize if this is poorly formatted, currently writing this from the comfort of my porcelain throne, on mobile.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of the best ask reddits I've ever seen.
There has been so many great, trippy questions
Ok, so if I feed my dog 3 cups of dry dog food everyday, but then I switch to making homemade dog food (really healthy nutritious recipe), how much homemade dog food do I feed my dog each day? 3 cups? It’s driving mad trying to figure out the right answer.
There's a whole field of philosophy called epistemology. Basically we don't really know, we just call science what's popularly called science in pur environment.
Why so many amazing people are living in terrible situations. What did they do to deserve that? -- I'll also never understand how people can be so cruel. From animal abuse to just bullying someone online, it will forever baffle me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. I see threads on Reddit about the top 1% taking everything and that we should tax them more. Then more people saying most millionaires/billionaires don't make wages, so taxes would do nothing. So instead we should tax capital gains, but I don't even know what capital gains are.
Also that one recent article of that one guy saying let the airlines fail. A lot of people are saying they have 401k's invested in the managing hedge funds, so that guy doesn't know what he's talking about.
And everyone has a point that makes sense to me, so I don't see how I'm supposed to choose a side. It feels good saying "fuck the man" and stand up for the little guy, but not knowing if it's the right answer really gives me anxiety. People get so vitriolic over it, but the more people discuss it, the more painfully obvious it is that it doesn't seem like most people understand it either.
People say that they don't control their dreams. This allows confused me because I can close my eyes and think of anything and at some point I doze off. Maybe this isn't dreams and if so then please help me because I think I don't dream, I'm always self aware in my "thoughts/dreams" until I lose consciousness. And that may also be because I'm always daydreaming so maybe I get so used to daydreaming that regular dreams don't seem that much different than when I'm awake.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras, no clue how a little machine sees the same thing I see and can save that picture.
I genuinely don’t understand how people create video games or apps, is it just a tremendously long line of code? As the quality of games and apps improved, did the code become much much longer? Am I way off? Probably. I genuinely don’t understand.
Exponents. To me, it's like multiple dimensions... Mind boggling. For instance, if something is falling at an exponentially faster rate... IDK wtf that means. Btw, I have my masters in business.
I head a few large Facebook groups. I don't understand 2 things-
1) How others who head large groups become dictators or the Facebook group becomes the main focus of their lives. This isn't a paying job! Hopefully, it isn't the most important thing in their life!
2) How people who are in your FREE Facebook group complain (leave the group!!!) or expect you to put in hours and hours of your time in private messages to them.
Quantum mechanics and quaternions. If anyone here is experienced with Euler quaternions please can you explain it to 9th grade me. I only understand some of it for unity for programming but not as much as I would like.
No matter what, I cannot understand the speed of light the speed of light. I can understand there being a sort of universal speed limit, but what's it in relation to?
IIRC light doesn't move faster if for instance the object emitting light is moving, so does that mean that light moves at a constant speed (given the medium its passing through) relative to a specific point in space, like a hypothetical center of the universe?
To this day I do not understand how people look at prices or numbers in general and can just... add them... with no hesitation. They don’t have to count as a whole and that’s crazy, they see 3 apples and 5 pears and think 8 fruits. I see apples and pears and I have to count all of them together. No one has ever addressed my problem with any level of success and honestly it’s frustrating. I can’t calculate tips, I can’t add or subtract prices to see if I can afford what I’m spending, I can’t even read a clock without counting by 5s up to the number it’s pointing to. It’s bad. I almost failed math until the 4th grade, and then suddenly in 5th grade something clicked and 5th grade math was a breeze, 6th grade I was placed in Advanced Math and got 2nd place in the Regional Math Bee. I then skipped both 7th and 8th grade math and so far Algebra 1 through Pre-Calc has been a breeze. I can do Pre-Calc in my head but can’t multiply, divide, add, or subtract.
Why all these fuckers are clogging up my street doing ludacris cherry blossom photos. It's like cat nip as soon as the pink comes out my street looks like a market.
As a person with autism and a high sense of self-awareness, I can never understand people, the way they think, process things and behave, I don’t understand it. I try, but I’m too busy trying to understand and control myself
Flirting. I have a hard time picking up on it and I don't understand how to start or how to reciprocate. I feel like I'm always being too obvious, too subtle and I'm afraid of coming off as a creep or disinterested.
Where exactly does economic growth come from ? I have heard various answers from discovering new natural resources, increased productivity, expanded consumer market, or added credit.
You can easily come up with counter-argument for first and second.
The third is plausible, but does it mean in a market of fixed population, there can never be economic growth?
If it is the added credit, makes me feel the chills because economic growth is really an illusion?
How a speaker produces sound. Like I know how it does its built and works, but can't comprehend how vibrations from some materials can result in clear, concise, controlled sound.
The folds of the bedsheets accumulate and get uncomfortable after a while. Also, they get filled with sweat and hair (and potentially... other things) so they should be washed and changed over relatively short periods. I do it about once a week.
This comes down to perception and mental health, with the idea that your surroundings influence your mental state. So a clean and ordered bedroom leds to a healthier mind.
I don't understand people who can live in, or very close to squalor, it baffles me that, keeping your own sanctum in a state of chaos can be okay with people.
So in short, having a clean and tody room, with a made bed, feels better.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why some people (conspiracy theorists) will believe weird random stories they heard somewhere, and they sometimes can not even remember where they first it. However if they are presented with a research paper that gives enough detail to be able to replicate the study; all the statistics so readers can check results for themselves; reviews of previous articles; references; and a report written by someone who has most likely spent years researching the topic, they claim it’s a conspiracy and a manipulation
People who believe God is real. I wish I could. Not to offend anyone at all but I wish someone could give me a good reason to believe in the existence of an almighty figure, heaven and hell. Most of the time the only answer I get is "faith" with them getting mad at me for doubting or questioning it.
I don’t understand why I need to learn all this stuff in highschool. Why do I need to know logarithms and how to convert moles of one thing to moles of another and than to grams.
Personally I’m going into the trades so math does matter to me and my future, but making me learn about how the mongols invaded China is useless to my future.
Personally I believe that highschool should be focused more on career exploration and how to live as an adult. I’m extremely fortunate to have a wood shop and metal shop at my school as well as the opportunity to take classes at the technical college.
Sadly a lot of my friends go to a school where there’s no mention of the ability of trade schools. I’ve had to teach people about carpentry and welding in my garage.
My school has never actually advertised the ability to do a trade. There are tons upon tons of universities and colleges that have banners and flags all over my school, but only once have I seen anything mentioning the trade school we have near us. Even the classes at dctc are restricted for highschoolers. I take an automotive class because it was the only opportunity for me to weld and just as we were getting into it the virus cancellation happened.
gyptii · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That when I eat a lot in the evening, I'm more hungry in the morning.
I don’t understand why people trust the government/ why we still have the amount of corruption we have in government. The governments track record for doing “the right” thing is horrendous, it’s like most Americans have Stockholm syndrome/ reminds me of someone in a really abusive relationship that makes excuses for a abusive partner “they promised they’d change! I can’t leave them!”
AFP312 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sixth sense.
When you just get a feeling that something is off, someone is watching you or that something is about to happen.
Often it's due to our brains picking little clues without us even notixing nut sometime, SOME-BLOODY-TIMES it is nothing but a gut feeling and it is right.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How code works.
Why does typing in a bunch of numbers or commands do things? Like who coded code to do that and who coded the code that codes the code?
How can some people be so unaware of the people around them and be so egoistic , live in a egocentric world and they always think that they are right and have to do things first , even those small things. I still cant get those kind of people.
Special relativity, space time. The faster we go, what we observe can appear to slow down. Time is also slowed down. How can time slow down, it's an abstract concept of measurement that we created. It's not real. So movies where we travel through time is false.
How it took humans so long to figure out flight. My son and I have this discussion often, and my hypothesis was that faster and smoother forms of land travel (cars, trains) made the concept of aerodynamic lift easier to grasp: eg, putting your hand out of the window of a moving car and angling it differently makes the idea of aero lift extremely obvious.
How toilets work. I have repaired and replaced many over the years, but I will be dammed if I REALLY get the physics behind it all. Plumbers are under appreciated.
Basic stuff like addition / subtraction / fractions / decimals I can do, but almost as soon as variables entered the scene all bets were off. Despite studying literal hours every day the best I could manage throughout middle and high school were Ds. In my first go at college I spent the money to get a tutor for math (which turned into four tutors as progressively each would give me a refund, apologize, and proclaim I just didn't understand it). Took a break for a few years and went to a different college a couple years back, and ran into the same issue.
So with literally thousands of both hours and dollars invested into trying to overcome the weak point I just accepted the fact that numbers loathe me and I won't ever be able to understand math.
People who work long hours at jobs where no one cares about this and there is no incentive to work long hours. These employees get paid no more and receive no additional credit for their toil. Usually, these folks end up burnt out and bitter. These are public sector employees, I don't get it!
I don't understand the exitement/reverence that people have for beyonce.
To me, she's just another fairly good singer. She doesn't give of a remarkable 'vibe' in interviews - she doesn't seem (to me, at least) to be any different from any other famous singer.
But for some reason she is a queen. I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
physics, which is a crying shame considering I'm doing physics at college
EGPL21 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people who are born deaf think? Do they have an inner voice? In what language do they think to themselves? Do they think purely visually and have no words associated with the images they see?
How people think. With this covid stuff going on, people thinking Corona is related to coronavirus. People think 5g towers are related to this. Dont even get me started on anti-vax people. Like were they never taught science or common sense?
Why so many people have a hard time understanding how 1 in 2 equals 4. All you have to do is extend the tail on the two and put the one half way through it.
Balcil · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is at the edge of the universe and what would happen to you if you reached the edge. Like would you get stopped by something? YouTube videos about this subject don't answer this question, not even hypothetically "because it is impossible to know". Yet we hypothetically know what happens the closer to light speed you get and what could happen to you inside of a black hole because math or something.
This lady says hiding thing is bad and when she is told Trump is blocking witnesses, she then resorts to saying "I don't care". It just goes to show how many people in this country and perhaps the world that are all about "teams" rather than being able to reexamine their held beliefs without feeling threatened.
How scientists and physicists can calculate stupid complex stuff like how far away stars are, and the temperature of far off planets by using math equations and rules. Mind boggling we can construct ways to find stuff like that out
Well, distance starts by using the parallax method. Try holding out your finger at arm's length. Close one eye and look at it. Now close that eye and open the other. You can see that it shifts due to perspective. So we look at a star, and then six months later when we're on the other side of the sun, we look at it again. The difference in perspective is a measurable angle, and we know the diameter of our orbit, so it's just some basic trig to finish the equation. However, parallax only works for stars that are closer.
So we find certain stars with the parallax method. I can't remember their name, but using the parallax method we could tell these stars are always the same brightness. That means that we can look at how bright they look, and based off of how bright we know they actually are we can tell their distance. There are certain traits to identify these stars other than brightness, so that's how we know what they are to start with.
After that it gets a bit weird, but this works for many light years.
So it looks like that was figured out by using Mars as a reference. They were able to see how mars orbited, and they knew the distance between Earth and Mars. So they were able to take the change on angle over time and use math to figure out how far the Earth is from the sun.
Looks like it was originally known how many times farther or closer to the sun a planet was relative to the Earth. We didn't know any actual distances but we could say mars was about 1.5 times further out than the Earth because of how much longer it takes to orbit. Then they used the parallax method to see how far Mars was from the Earth by checking the angle from two different points on Earth at the same time. So then they knew the extra .5 in orbital distance, so they could figure out our own. It was a bit inaccurate, but we got better equipment later on and improved.
If you’re looking all this shit up as I’m asking you it you’re an absolute saint, and if you just know this shit, you’re a genuine. If I had any reddit gold or silver to give you i would
Well I did have to look up those last two. It seems like such a simple thing to know the distance to your own sun when you're measuring the distance to other galaxies that I hadn't really thought of it. So I learned some more too. Plus I like sharing about space. So this was fun. If you have any other questions about it let me know.
So we started by figuring out the distance to other planets. We didn't know the actual distance, but we did know how many multiples of Earth's orbit they were from the sun, based on how long it took for them to complete one orbit. In Mars' case it's about 1.5 times as far as Earth's. So we didn't know the 1 of Earth's orbit, but we could use the parallax method to find that extra .5 that Mars orbits at. So we did that and figured out that it's closest point is somewhere around 33 million miles. So we knew that the extra .5 of Earth's orbit was equal to around 33 million miles (keep in mind these numbers are rounded a bunch for simplicity, they would have been more accurate than this). So then we knew how much one half of Earth's orbit was. Multiply by two and you're good.
Again, these numbers are relatively close, but not very accurate. And I hope this isn't too confusing. I'm having a hard time straightening this out into something I actually like.
I remember the proof, but I don't remember the exact math.
Basically when you take those measurements you create a triangle. The two base points are your measurements, and the third point is the star. This is an isosceles triangle, since the distance from the two points to the star are the same.
We know the two base angles, and we know the length of the base. The basis of the proof is that with the width of the triangle and those angles, we know when the sides of the triangles will intersect. I don't remember exactly how it's figured out though.
Yes, but at the distances you're working with it gets you pretty close. Again, that early estimate was alright, but there was error in it. But once you have a specified distance to work with you could start to narrow your estimate more and more with more and more measurements. I'm sure part of it was that since we knew how far away they were we could now figure out their size. And once we know their size we can look at changes in size that come from the distance changing and narrow it down more.
I would assume so. This would be back when all we had were optical telescopes, and information was shared much less efficiently than now.
Nowadays when we see something new we just keep looking at it for something to help us figure out what it is. The more information we have the better. Like that interstellar asteroid that came through a few years back. Pretty much every telescope and satellite suitable for it was pointed at the asteroid to see what it was.
Why people walk towards oncoming traffic, in the road, when there is a sidewalk right next to them. Why walk in the road when there is a sidewalk right there? It makes no sense!!!!
A large part of it comes from the fact that it can have up to a 14 day incubation period. You're still contagious during that time, but there's no sign of it unless you actually get tested. So you could be out there spreading it around for two weeks before you know you have it. If it weren't for that it wouldn't be so bad. It's not too terribly deadly, especially if you're otherwise healthy. It's just that so many people can get it, so even though a small percentage die, it's still a lot.
Lack of kindness, Most word problems or riddles (I interpret things not good) social cues, all of math past algebra one, maps, polygamy (kinda), political terms, the movie 'the arrival', cheesecake, coconut flakes, decaffeinated coffee, magnets, being aware my own struggle with mental health and still confused, hate on the Beatles or Led Zeppelin, polka, white reggae,
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people LOVE Waffle House.
I’ve tried it sober, drunk and high. The worst breakfast food I’ve ever had in the country. The only way I swear people love it is through nostalgia growing up with it, get to see your food being cooked, late night munchies or only having that as your diner; which compared to most diners is just.. really, really bad. I grew up in the NJ/NYC area, so I have been spoiled with great diners, but I’ve traveled enough to know it’s really not good.
I’m not saying you’re dumb or have a weak palate for liking it; I’m just saying the fan base is highly overrating it and delusional for thinking it’s god tier somehow. I mean, if it’s all you know, it’s all you know.
I also know most diners use minimal cheap ingredients because that’s how most run, but I’ve taken people there who enjoy basic, bland food and still hated it. I don’t get it.
How do we know the strong nuclear force is not just gravity? or do we really know? Protons and neutrons have to be extremely dense (for obvious reasons) which means their gravitational force per unit volume is idk thousands times greater than lead or gold. It seems like their gravitational force could overcome the electrostatic repulsion.
How do the birds find my bird feeders? Like, can they smell the seeds? I sometimes go days with empty feeders, but as soon as I fill them up, boom! Birds everywhere!
The concept of death, like it's easy to understand from the outside but if you die then your brain stops working. It isn't just "darkness", it's nothing, you physically can not experience anything anymore. The only way I can think about it is going under anesthesia but never waking back up. Even then you brain seems to function somewhat. I don't think it's even physically possible to imagine death or nothingness but I still try.
Well ain't that perfect. I reffed soccer for a couple of years.
So being in offside position is legal. That's when you are behind the second to last defender. In most cases the last defender is the goalie, and the second to last will be a the next closest person to the goal.
You can go back there with no problems.
The penalty comes when you participate in the play. Usually this is if the ball is passed to you. If you're in offside position when it's passed, and then you touch it, that's offside. If you don't touch it you haven't participated and so there's no penalty. If you're not in offside position when it's passed, you can then run into offside position to get the ball with no penalty. It all depends on where you are when the ball is passed. This is to keep offensive players from gaining an advantage. But if you're faster than the defence and run past them, there's no reason to penalize you.
There are two other ways to get penalized. If you block a defender from getting to the ball, that's a penalty. And if you block the goalie's view of the ball, that is also a penalty. Obviously you need to be offside when you do these for it to matter though. But any of these three things will be called offsides.
Then why is it not an illegal move to be somewhere where you will get penalised if you touch a ball coming your way? You know, to prevent that situation from coming up in the first place?
From a non football fan it feels like home brew rules to stop you playing within rules that are there. Like a video game exploit that makes you ‘that guy’ but is part of the game.....
Isn’t having a player (that’s good at offence) in the front in order to gain an advantage a sensible strategy for the game??
Because if you don't touch the ball, what advantage have you gained. Unless you gain that advantage, you haven't hurt the other team, and there's no reason to stop the play. It's to keep the players happy, really.
The offense will be upset if you penalize them because their teammate accidentally kept going towards the goal line when the defence stopped. And that would actually be a strategy of the defence to stop an attack. So you don't call a harmless activity, play continues, it's all good. But the defence are happy because you'll still call a penalty if an advantage is actually gained.
It could be compared to a "trifling" call. This is when a penalty technically happened, but it didn't really do anything. Say someone got a handball but the ball either didn't change course or it went immediately to the other team. Unless they clearly tried to hit it with their hands (in which case you stop it to prevent future infractions) the ref might just let it go. There's either nothing changed, or they've already been penalized because the ball just changed course directly to the other team. It could be called, but it doesn't really need to be.
The corruption and greed of our leaders. How willing everyone is to screw someone else over for a leg up. How it’s promoted to work your entire life away.
How helping others must be done with a return
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Monty Hall problem works, like how is it not a 50% chance?
Why girls are interested in men at least 1 foot taller than them like the talks about 6 feet guys. It is painful to lean over and kiss. Sex is a whole topic of even worse and awkwardness
How people who designed the Malibu maxx, the pontiac aztec or pt cruiser got paid for that, and those designs were approved. Also how they can sleep at night.
Well, they don't keep their sails perpendicular to the ship. That's only when they have the wind straight from behind. When it's at an angle they rotate the sails, so they're actually getting pushed to the side. But they have a keel on the bottom, which is basically a fin that runs the length of the ship. This makes the ship want to go straight ahead, and minimizes side slip.
So when they want to sail into the wind, they do a manuever called tacking.
They sail at an angle slightly into the wind. They're also going a fair amount to the side though. If the wind is coming from 12 O'Clock, they're sailing towards 2 O'Clock. But they're still moving forward. After a while, they turn and start sailing towards 9 O'Clock. And they keep zig zagging. It's inefficient, but they still move forwards.
How some humans can witness the cruelest shit and have no empathy or remorse whatsoever even if they never suffered from anything in the past. Correct me if I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how anyone on this planet tolerates mumble rap
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand why people on the internet will be downright cruel and judgmental, but would never do that in the real world. What is it about the internet that brings out really crappy behavior? Also, what do people 'get' out of trolling? Attention from people you don't even know?
It is. Anonymity is very powerful. I read that in the Nazi death camps they compartmentalized the people running it. The people guarding the prisoners are just keeping them contained. That's not too bad. The people putting the prisoners in the chambers could say they didn't kill them. They just put them into new cells. The people who activate the gas are the problem. There's nothing for them to do. So what they did was not let them see the prisoners, and not let the prisoners see them. That way, they're not actually hurting someone. They're just twisting a knob.
Same thing with online. There's no one there to hurt. It's just a screen.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, but how? What part of the human psyche allows someone to disassociate this when the connection seems pretty clear. I've read some truly horrific insults that people have made to others online - do they think this about people in real life in their minds but just not vocalize it - because that would be anonymous too.
I think it's because there's nothing that really forces you to realise that that's a person. It's just a name on a screen. In real life, you see them. You hear their voice, see some of their habits. So you can't deny that they're another human.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people don't like being told what to do. They like doing nothing when that's what they feel like, but if someone tells them to do nothing, they don't like it.
I genuinely do not understand death. Very few people really can without the inclusion of religion. I have a fear of death but not in the sense that I fear death itself. I fear not living to my full potential. I have many aspirations that I’d love to achieve, however, death can interrupt it all and what happens to what makes me, me. The mental part of myself, not the physical, where does it go once I pass. Do I get stuck in a constant state of dreaming without the urge to ever wake up? Do I feel the great amount of dread that I have towards death relieve itself? Death is quite the subject to not understand in my mind.
That oddly nostalgic feeling I get when I hear a sort of event for example "pov: she left you at the dance so you're crying in the bathroom". I know I didn't experience it but I still feel a sense of nostalgia.
Why people have to hate on games they clearly aren't the target audience for.
Also, people who play games and do nothing but hate on the game they're playing.
In both cases people have to hate like their life depends on it. It's beyond the 'cool kid' internet thing, it's like it's their justification for living.
If you don't like it, stop playing and walk away. If you didn't enjoy the experience, so you didwlike it and play your preferred game.
Another being why people have to hate so damn hard on any Final Fantasy that isn't their singular preference. I get it, you like that one specific thing, why can't I like my preference and we go about our respective times of day?
Why society is required to pick up after their dogs, but police on horses soil every walking path and bike path and just leave it all over. (In Toronto)
How torque is measured in physics, particularly in car engine output. I get foot/pounds as far as say a gun's explosive output when fired.
Will admit that I can never remember off the top of head if the number means amount of energy created to move a certain weight a distance of 1ft. Or, if the number means 1 pound moved a certain distance. But I get it.
But when I try thinking about torque, I just get lost and don't know what I'm looking at.
Torque is measuring the force (or weight or whatever) applied at a certain distance. If you have a wrench with a one foot handle and you push on the end of it with one pound of force, that's one foot pound. To find the foot pounds you just multiply the distance in feet by the force in pounds.
The reason distance matters is because it acts as a lever, so one pound at two feet is two foot pounds, one pound at three feet is three foot pounds.
daowel · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Code. Was just never able to pick it up. Then going for a traineeship in IT and being told no because I was a girl didnt help me want to learn. This was closer to 20 years ago. Damn that makes me feel old now!
I guess I'll give it a shot. If you traveled at sixty miles per hour for 8 hours before stopping you would have traveled 480 miles. You could call that a day's travel. So a year's travel at 8 hours a day every day would be 175,200 miles.
Light travels 186,000 miles per second. So a day's travel for that (8 hours, just like yours), would be 5.356 billion miles. And a year's travel (this time going non-stop) is a light year, or about 5.88 trillion miles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything posted and upvoted on r/streetwear. I'm not even that old, I'm in my 20s but if I saw people wear that shit outside I would legit laugh. Genuinely not trying to be rude as I understand people have unique tastes, I just don't get it.
People. I'm often able to effectively predict their actions but I've never been able to really understand a person's mind and what they're thinking when they make those decisions.
Why hasn't the IRS AND the Treasury figured out how people on SSI would be getting their stimulus money? They already have their banking information, and they CAN'T file that so called "simple file" because they don't give you the routing number
I'm Asian, and I need to know: why do people wear shoes in the house??? Doesn't it track a bunch of dirt and gross things onto your carpets and floors? Also, wearing shoes is so uncomfortable. Someone please enlighten me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gossiping and not liking people unless it's because they're mean to you
The financial system like stocks and trading and banks and stuff. I just can’t fathom it. Why is it a whole financial crash when one bank goes bankrupt like in 2009?
This has probably been said a million times already but what what what what seriously WHAT is the obsession with toilet paper during this pandemic? Exactly what about this virus compels people to buy toilet paper en masse? It’s dying down now but during its peak I remember Walmart still having plenty of food/water etc. (in other words things you need to survive) but they were still absolutely out of toilet paper.
Just cant understand statistics. Like I get the basic stuff ( 3 doors pick one, are offered to pick a different door, is it safer to stay with first pick or change?) but once you get into heavier stuff I'm at a loss.
I dated a girl who did research compiling data sets and my pa Is a medical researcher they would get off on these topics and try to explain how 2 things are the same when they shouldn't be or 2+2=7 or whatever idk I cant even explain it. Like the basic math I know and understand just doesnt work for that kind of problem and I'm just lost. They always tried to explain it but just not something I can wrap my head around.
Religious fanatics who believe that epilepsy is removed by exorcisms and who believe that cancer and homosexuality are cured with prayer, even going to extremes of believing that the earth is flat and that vaccines are bad and cause autism, throwing blaming all the evils of the world on the devil, for them to do, literally their history is corrupted by the power they wished, modifying the bible to cover up and erase pagan festivities, making all its "truth" end a hundred and one tangle of lies and indoctrinations
How on earth does a Torque converter work. I get the turbine blade part stuff but the physics behind it just make me think.... how can a fluid transmit power?!?!?!
Why my laptop's audio services died amidst this corana pandemic, I mean cmon does it have to be this kind of time ive got alotta gaming to do and a bunch of art to finish!!
pmak13 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms. If they repel each other do we actually touch anything? If not, how do we know something is hard and something this furry etc
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be $1000 away from bankruptcy their entire lives and never make any effort to become more financially independent.
How we evolved from sea dwelling creatures to be able to live on land. I understand how evolution works in a general sense with a genetic mutation sometimes allowing a species to have a better chance of survival/reproduction. I understand how land creatures evolved and how sea creatures evolved and could explain a simplified version of it to someone, but when it comes to the first sea creature to live on land I would have no idea.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just blindly hate things like Fortnite.
It’s a fine game, it’s just like Minecraft. They are both popular games with annoying fan bases, but also fun gameplay. Is it just because Minecraft is more nostalgic? Monkey see, monkey do.
i genuinely don’t understand why i am the bad guy for not tipping. society has constructed a system where employers get off scott free for paying their employees next to nothing and making them rely on the tips of their customers to support them financially. when i purchase a good or pay for a service, i shouldn’t be looked at sideways for not throwing in extra money, especially when someone expects to be tipped for such a low level service (delivering pizza, filling my cup with water, driving me for A to B). idk, maybe i’m wrong, but i see a problem with the world where i am supposed to feel guilty for not tipping, especially when the company they work for could just pay their employees basic living wages..
How the sun shines, the moon shines but the earth doesn’t shine. For real, I can’t comprehend how the moon reflects light I guess and makes itself visible with a holo around it depending on which part of month you see the moon.
I might be silly but I have not understood this fact. For some reason I can understand or make sense of another human and give a gist about them without ever talking to them, through mannerism and body language but this Moon phenomena has bothered me much more than you can imagine.
If anyone can break it down, I’d be up to learn the basics of it.
Peltii · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As European I don't understand the candidates people vote for in USA.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve always been fascinated by CDs. Like, how does a laser hit a piece of plastic spinning really fast and you get noise. Not just any noise. Noise placed on the plastic circle that when hit correctly by a laser it plays exactly the same noise you put on the disc.
Why some people are extremely cold and evil
Iam sure everyone is different and we have our own story but it really scares me how some people are truly evil. Iam not saying iam perfect, i have done things i now regret but feeling remorse and compassion have never been an issue for me. when i see cold people it just makes no sense to me.
I could never help but think 100 times every night over everything bad i have done that day. I remember i stepped on a snail and that haunted me for weeks, i cried and cried because of that so how come a person is willing to kill or rape someone? I guess i will never know 😣
Like did everyone but me have a secret meeting to figure out all the workings of drugs, approperate mesurments, methods on consumption, things that are weed but are different (like wax, sativa, etc.). I got scammed from a "friend" because I was so uneducated on all of this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cliché, but antisemitism. I just don’t get the thousands of years of Jew hatred across the continents and centuries. What the hell is so wrong with Jews???
I have hypotheses about why people don’t like them, but at the end of the day it just doesn’t make sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AutoCad for commercial kitchen design- any takers to help me out??!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The greater than and less than signs. Lmao. I know it’s very dumb but I never understood it in school and probably never will. For some reason it doesn’t click.
Electronics. In general. Even more so towards the beginning of the age of the telephone. A wire transferring sound and a speaker interpreting it back to the actual sound.
I don’t understand why most organized religious communities single out gay people as not being worthy of respect. Insinuating that they actually did something wrong. Subsequently they chronically persecute them and will do anything they can to hinder their lives. But then deny they carry-out these behaviors.
That the earth is round. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that it’s round, but how are people in the southern hemisphere not upside down?! I just don’t get it!!
The concept of god/religion. I don't get it, I really don't. It's a mass of contradictions, dullness and rules you have to adhere to for seemingly no reason. I get people have faith and want to believe in things, that bring them comfort and hope. I get that and there's nothing wrong with it but looking deeper into it and it makes no sense to me whatsoever.
Maybe it's the fact I found church tedious, religions all seem dull, things all seem to be forbidden, and prayers don't work; yet if you are not down on your knees worshiping the one true creator absolutely, you are punished for eternity no matter what you do. I don't get how people think this is a rational thing to believe in.
How a needle pressed against a big plastic disc transmits music out of my speakers. I’ve had a sound engineer try to explain it to me but for the life of me I cannot wrap my head around it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sound is cut into a vinyl using a type of lathe, depth=shape of soundwave. Then they stamper a negative copy of record onto metal. They then take the stamper and push it into vinyl and voila!
Why people think it's 100% ok to be out and about during a shelter in place order just because it's Easter weekend. Like, these stupid fucks understand that they won't just rise from the dead if they die of Corona, nor anyone else they kill via exposure. Wtf. Stay the fuck home you selfish cunts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t simply leash their dog in parks and on trails.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. How the economy works. Why can’t we just print more money? Why does it matter if there’s more money in circulation? Isn’t it only as valuable as we say it is? Idk man
Kolenga · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't understand how there can be different sized infinities. I heard all kinds of different explanations and watched many videos about it and I get their point, but it just doesn't make sense to me.
How vinyl records work. I understand how the system works and amplifies the sound, but how the hell does one needle moving across a groove of vinyl perfectly reproduce a stereo version of music including all the intricacies, human voice, guitar, percussion, bass? 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crochet. I got as far as learning the knot thing at the beginning and cannot work that shit out!
How high school girls think that they are better than the rest of the school just because they are cheerleaders or something like that. I'm a junior now (because of the beer flu) and I've been to two different high schools and I have yet to meet a humble cheerleader. Another thing is how high school boys can be such a dick to quiet kids like me sometimes. Smh people cant just let quiet kids be.
Whoever I'm using my phone before I go to sleep, I feel really tired. So I put it down to go to sleep and I'm wide awake, just laying there like a dumbass.
From my perspective, some people are just assholes to others, and I don't get how you can be such an ass...
Are these people not aware that they're being jerks? Do they not care? Are they enjoying it?
It makes no fucking sense to me.
I cannot fathom why people live there lives chewing with their mouth open. Sure, most of the time you don't actually see the food BEING chewed... But that sound... THE SOUND
I don’t understand radiation no matter how much I read about it...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i haven't killed myself yet.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything wireless works...Sending voice messages for example: How do the soundwaves from your voice get coded into your phone then sent to halfway around the world for someone to listen to? I'm sure it's actually pretty simple but I just never take time to learn about it.
How in the world are we going to get back to "normal" if there is no mass Covid-19 testing ? As it stands now my county has tested less than 1% of the population and they keep telling everyone they have a handle on the situation. The reality is they don't have a freaking clue due to not testing.
Stock market, high finance type stuff. Just really don’t understand the ins and out. Mostly because I don’t care. I think it’s largely bullshit (sorry for my language).
I know what it means, but it takes me a long time to fully remember what it’s true meaning is.. especially in situations where understanding said phrase is required for further analysis.
Why I have such a hard time changing my diet. I am an extremely picky eater, and I have been my whole life. I don't eat any fruits or vegetables besides potatoes and, rarely, spinach. I don't like wheat bread, yogurt, cottage cheese, steak, eggs, most kinds of pasta, etc. I can't eat healthy, and it's not even that I won't, if I try I just gag to the point of vomiting. I can put healthy stuff in my mouth but after two seconds of chewing I have to spit it back out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump can say untruths and it seems ok . How he can make it up as he goes along and when questioned on it , it's the reporters bad for doing their job for us . We can't ask him , the reporters NEED to , so thank you reporters for doing your job in the face of baby's crying unfair . And the risk of being kicked out of the club unfairly .
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics. As a person with a math degree, I got further lost the longer I studied the depths of the subject. It'll drive you mad if you let it.
I don't think I'll ever be able to understand baseless prejudice and hate.
I've hated people before, like the kids who bullied me so mercilessly in school that they nearly drove me to suicide. I've hated institutions, like the corporations whose avarice is sucking our planet dry. I've even hated concepts, like inequality and injustice.
But an entire group of people? Hundreds, thousands, millions of people who I've never met and never will meet? How could I possibly hate them? How could I have any feelings for people I don't even know?
And yet, so often I've heard statements like "Gay people are an abomination unto God" or "Men are evil" or "Arabs are animals." And I honestly, truly, simply cannot understand them. How do you know that all men are evil? What evidence do you have that all arabs are animals?
I don't know. Maybe I'm just naive. But fuck, if being "mature" means comprehending baseless hatred, I think I'm better off like this.
People when talking to them on the phone. I get a lot of human sounding static, with a few intermittent words. If I hear the right words, I can infer what they're saying. If not, I tend to guess.
That many people generally tend to prefer texting over real face to face interaction nowadays. How can you say you know a person if you never met that person in real life?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can become "friends" with someone, and years later, you find out that they were completely fake, but ignored that fact because of a friendship you spent years building with that person.
trump voters. Of course I don’t expect that uneducated lot to be sophisticated and avid readers. But geez. Voting for trump is like 2+2=9 simple. Dumbest people around
How a computer gets from electron spin states to what you see on your monitor. I understand it at the base level and the higher levels of programming, but not the part in the middle
Thanos was right tho? If you reset everything with the mindset that if we limited our endeavours etc the universe wouldn’t outgrown itself, he was right all along
Perception of the self. I am a non-religious person, thus I don't believe in souls or anything else as the source of what makes us human but one's brain.
And every time I fall in that thought it keeps leaving me astonished. I mean, imagine a person who had a lobotomy or a part of the brain removed, one that has amnesia, other that has a neurodegenerative disease or even plainly simply your own brain over the years.
If the interaction between neurons RIGHT NOW is what you are NOW, what would it mean to be in one of there situations. Would it mean you're not exactly you anymore? Is it the same when you grow up and get old?
Imagine for example, in an attempt to become immortal you start replacing every single neuron in your brain, one by one with mechanical ones. Of course a single neuron being replaced won't make noticeable less you, but what about a couple millions... over time your entire brain is replaced with billions of robotic neurons. Would that still being you? Would that be the same (assuming their behaviour is the same as their biological counterparts) as getting old? So would it mean we're just... information? Is our conciousness not the physical structure but the interaction taking place there? So what would be to be dead if you can simply copy that interaction in a brand new mechanical brain all at once and not gradually? What would it be if your old is reactivated while the new one also is active? Being a physical support much like it's biological counterpart, would be able to do the same in the future? I think it would present the same questions then.
Then what is to be dead, what is to be alive really? I'm not the first nor the last one to make these questions. This is pretty much the paradox presented by the "Ship of theseus", created hundreds of years ago between Plato and Heraclitus but just most modern.
Where does the hate for the US postal service come from, and why? Both politically and at the local level. I’ve never had a problem or a bad interaction with them, whereas FedEx and UPS have both made me drive 30 minutes out of my way to retrieve my packages at one time or another.
Why naming a product after a person (ex: Ben and Jerry’s, Dean’s, McDonald’s, Wendy’s, etc) is a much more popular concept in America than anywhere else in the world
How people still think the earth is flat. I don't understand how they can still boleave it dispute disproving themselves with their own experiments on multiple ocations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wup-deedoo, off to controversial I go...
703rd · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a narrow window of grocery shopping hours help lower the spread of disease? If anything they should be encouraging off hours shopping
How to see those one pictures that you have to stare at and the 3D pictures pop out. I have NEVER understood how people can do it :(
emeeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t vaccinate their kids. There was one ‘study’ that said vaccines cause autism and it was proven to be completely false. The benefits to vaccines are so obvious, especially with what’s going on with COVID-19.
The concept of simultaneous time; that linear time is a manmade concept. My father tried to teach me this from when I was little, but I still don't understand at 33.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. I've had them explained to me multiple times. I didn't know you get taxed for literally everything including what laminate flooring you have. Money is ridiculous. Adulting is hard
The logistics of time travel. Like you go back in time to do something and when you catch up to the time you time travelled from you technically have yo continuously do it again or you technically never went back since the intimate time loop wasn't completed. No wonder people haven't invented it yet is because it's literally impossible.
Transmissions. I'm in the auto industry, and those fucking things are witchcraft to me. I get the mechanical innards, I understand the process that they utilize. It just doesn't make any fucking sense.
I've been an indie game dev for a decade, love making 2d games and whatnot. But the concept of 3D and its math, just blows my mind. I always try to watch online tutorials, get hyped, start my own project and then get lost again. Done this cycle probably 4-6 times a year, I just don't think my brain can comprehend it.
How data and things like video or audio are sent through the air or cable. Like I don’t see how something could be able to convert a band playing a song and send that to someone’s home computer where it is played in hi def and perfect audio.. even am fm radio amazes me . I get that it is data being sent and then replicated by said computer or receiver but it’s still crazy to me.
How a color of your skin can make such a big deal.Where you grow up or where you came from and traditional habits and beliefs , Maybe , but color of skin is so shallow some times I think people should be born blind so we would see the inside of a person not the outside. How people believe and do would tell who they are.
I can understand how individual things work but how did someone figure out the intricacies of things without the knowledge that we have after the invention exists. Idk if this makes sense i just think about it often
Electricity. I can't get my head around volts, amps, ohms, no matter how well it is explained to me...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do add binary. I dropped my uni paper on it because I just don't understand how to do it, no matter how much I went over the lectures or looked it up.
HOW DO PRINTERS WORK???? Like I can’t rap my head around it I know they don’t have typewriter-like stamps inside but that’s the only explanation I’ve ever had for them and that doesn’t even begin to explain how they print pictures in EVERY COLOR OFBTHE RAINBOW??????
Why people like trap music so much. Repetitive beats and generic lyrics about wealth, violence, success, sexual promiscuity. It's like dumbed down rap and hip hop.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad always says "I'll see you in 2 shakes of a lambs pidgeon" I know what he means, he is just saying I'll see you in 2 shakes of a lambs tail, but why pidgeon at the end?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The general willful ignorance of the greater American public.
This might not be answerable but why can’t we, in all actuality, just print more money? Inflation and money are concepts, man made, why can’t we just print more money and fix our issues without inflation?
Math. I know that everyone is thinking this, and is definitely not an uncommon answer, but there are just some subjects i have no fucking clue what is going on. I can do an many practice problems as i want, but as soon as a test comes and i need to remember/figure out what to do with all these numbers in weird places, not to mention letters thrown in there as well, everything is just so confusing to me.
The phrase "six of one, half a dozen of the other". I know that it means the choices are the same, being that six and half a dozen are the same thing. But if I have one thing and another thing how are they the same.
emeeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics aside, I seriously don’t understand how Trump can just say things that are completely false and just get away with it. Also I don’t understand how he can say one thing and then say the complete opposite thing like a day later and people still support him. Also how can people support him when he speaks to reporters so horribly? I get so uncomfortable when I hear the tone and language he uses.
No it’s actually better than nothing because if you cough or sneeze you are not passing a virus to any one else. Also you are not able to touch your nose or mouth keeping a virus away and it can filter air you breath if it’s the right mask
I dont really understand what other dimension really mean, how do they exist, how do they interact with the 3D world and creatures.
A friend of mine has explained me what the fourth dimension entails and how its existence is mathematically proven, but I simply cant comprehend it.
Kowth0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A really good book for those interested in the theory but not necessarily delve into the hardware side of it, The Pattern on the Stone. The last third gets more philosophical about computation vs thought, AI, machine learning and orthogonality.
How do people follow a Religion?
Why did people vote for the Australian Liberal Party?
How can I get better at my job when I'm not given the kind of support and guidance that I need?
How you you go from molecules randomly floating to a system of highly specific molecules which are seemingly programmed to go specific places and do specific things. Essentially Inorganic matter -> Organic. (Then past that there’s the whole development of consciousness thing but screw that)
How politics or religion can make the most intelligent person into a complete moron
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can knowingly elect a racist, sexist, and blatantly ignorant man for president. And how America just accepts this reality and goes no further than sending saucy tweets about how ridiculous it is we live this way. We just accept our government is run by old greedy bastards. Like what?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everyone involved but especially the writers of Game of Thrones finished the final season and were like, “yup, this is acceptable. You’re all going to love it”.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand mean people. Parents who think it’s ok to invite every boy in the class to a party except one. People who reward their kids for getting kicked out of a soccer game. Girls are the good awful worst. They are so mean and their moms don’t discourage it. The moms are mean too. What do you get from being mean to an 8!year old.
I don’t intend this in any way to be disrespectful. I don’t understand how someone can genuinely believe in a god. I get why someone would believe because of comfort and a sense of purpose, but I don’t understand how you could logically literally believe there is a god above us.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on your definition of god, I think. But, most people can't even give a good definition. They just feel like there's something beyond the materialistic things, something bigger and beyond anything the words can describe, so they name it god for the lack of a better word.
That was very well put and actually helped, but to go deeper: But why does everyone feel the need to pray and go to church to appease this things that is beyond our level of comprehension?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good question. One reason is that they were brought up this way and just keep doing it out of habit. Another reason, well, since people feel like there's something beyond, they just kind of feel like connecting to it. And, they obviously find mainstream religions to fulfill that desire. Once they do some things like going to church, praying, they convince themselves that they are now more connected to god. The power of self-affirmation in churches can be very strong. Churches can also give them a sense of belonging. It is also often what keeps cults going, not to imply that cults are the same as churches though.
But there is a deeper question going beyond the mainstream religions, misconceptions, cults, desires for connection, etc. Why are we here? Why are we born on a surface of some random planet, with laws of physics as they are, and we can perceive the whole thing, and even study it? Why is there something rather than nothing? Asking these questions is not meaningless, and looking for answers is good, in my opinion. I've always been grappling with these questions, and still am. And religion (Christianity) used to be an escape for me some years ago, though I eventually realized it didn't answer anything actually. I keep investigating those questions through self-reflection and meditation, on a daily basis. It is not wrong to explore it, I believe, and see for yourself whether anything can give you clues. Our minds are part of the universe, no matter how you look at it, and that means that the origin of our minds must contain some connection to the origin of all things. And that is what I'm trying to attain by looking deeply inside. I don't know if anything will happen, or if things that happen would be "real", but that's probably the only shot at these questions.
That was a very thorough response. I agree in pursuing the answers to existential questions that we don’t actually have a choice but to think about from time to time. I find that writing down and making graphs of connecting ideas can finally set some ease to your thoughts in time of existential panic. But there comes a dead end every time; an unanswerable and incomprehensible question. Considering the fact the we are bound by the laws of physics and stuck without the ability to perceive anything beyond a three dimensional space, I too believe that there is something bigger than us. I believe we live in an infinitely increasing amount of dimensions, that we can not observe or comprehend beyond three due to the human race’s abilities. Do I believe in god?
When you look at yourself like a person. I used to hate myself for things I would never hate on other people. When you look at yourself impartially.
I was only able to do that after experimenting with acid. You will get there.
Music and why music sounds good to us . Today’s music is all built off of scales and patterns from some ancient mathematician and if you deviate from that you just call it jazz and keep going
Eating meat. Once I understood that something has to be killed for me to eat. I stopped eating it from then on. I find it so hard to get why people think another life is less than thiers. People try to justify but I just can't view animals as lessers so I guess that's the difference.
Not saying I don’t agree but aren’t you also killing when you eat plants? When it comes to eating, you always need to kill. I just think meat it’s so addicting that most people won’t quit it.
If you think about it, most people won’t even give up their favourite thing for their second favourite thing in most situations even if that would help others just because of how everything nowadays is built for our pleasure and that’s everything we think about.
Plants aren't hooked up the way humans and most other animals are. There is evidence that they respond to being eaten but that is just chemical response rather than synaptic. They don't feel pain, even if they did vegans consume so many less plants. As it takes copious amounts of grain to feed cattle. So even if we did discover that, I've still reduced suffering in a way. And yeah man that's totally it. People always (very patronising normally) tell me how I'm doing such a good job and it's good for the planet. But God forbid, I could never go vegan. I'd miss bacon or cheese or this or that too much. I mean awful that animals die but bacon though is where the discussion leads. People would rather be easily satiated than help animals or the planet. Almost like its own bystander effect. People don't want to be responsible for their consumption, not even to do with meat even down to stuff like palm oil, or people sourcing cocaine likely made by children in columbia. Consume consume consume.
Agreed. My question was more hipothetical than anything. I’m not totally vegan yet but I’m in transition and not even talking about the ethical, environmental, political and economic aspects related to veganism, it is a livestyle and set of ideologies that have improved my health both mental and physical and increased my energy levels.
So you selfish humans out there with no selfish reasons to be vegan, here they are.
Awesome man glad your enjoying it 5 years vegan for me now! Any change towards sustainability is a great one. I never push it upon people to be vegan even cutting beef out your diet has tremendous effects on your carbon food print. All the best.
How banks and companies get billions of dollars in bailouts, but when the rent is due and millions of Americans need food on their table, they are given a single payment of $1200.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroversion. I just can’t comprehend it as a concept. All my family are super introverted, and by chance all my close friends and partners have been introverted. I can’t fathom how being with other people could give you energy. Don’t get me wrong, it sounds great, but it’s like being told you get energy from doing intense physical labour for hours. It’s such a weird concept for me.
how certain commercials are cost-efficient. there are a ton of high-budget ads i see al the time that there's no way they would have a significant enough effect to warrant the budget
Computers. And digital displays in general. I do not understand how a bunch of binary code and four color cables make TV shows happen. It’s a magic space box and I’ve tried so hard to get people to explain it to me like I’m five but I got nothing.
so an LED TV screen has millions of pixels made up of a red, green and blue diodes, backlit by a white led panel. There’s a control chip inside that when it receives a 1 or a 0, it knows “right pixel 1 needs to be yellow” so it lights up the green and blue diodes and that pixel turns yellow, with the brightness provided by the backlight.
This process happens 50 times a second for every pixel on the screen to give the illusion of a moving image (of course it’s just 50 still images played over 1 second so you see it as a moving picture)
If something has mass, it has gravity, you have a tiny gravitational field and if you were in space, you would attract smaller objects but only if they were very close to begin with because you’re so small. Earth is huge, so when you get close to the planet you’d be pulled in.
Now imagine matter concentrated so densely into a small area, a black hole the size of a grain of sand is heavier than our planet believe it or not, that’s going to pull everything in (including light waves) and because the gravitational pull is so great it just rips things apart then adds to the mass, making the black hole bigger
I don't understand how we can detect terrorist 4,000miles away and use drones to attack, and not be able to notice a pandemic that's been around for 5 months and have no clue on how it started and where it came from?
I know we have the resources to prevent this but why so late?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How debt works for countries. USA, like many other countries, are in trillions of dollars in debt, but I don’t see any consequences and the countries keep spending more to add to the debt.
tomime · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't we as a species make better governments to help everyone, not just the rich/powerful/etc, so as a species, we all benefit and progress forward in leaps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my minecraft sometimes changes from qwertz (i live in germany) to qwerty and half of my keys dont work as intended and i type random shet the whole time & %"=;/
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
object oriented programming— can't wrap my mind around it.
When you’re using your computer, you make a power point (for example) and save it to your computer’s storage. But you can’t access that file if you’re not at your computer.
All Google Drive, OneDrive or iCloud is, is someone else’s computer (Google’s, Microsoft’s, Apple’s etc) and when you save that file, it’s saved on their system, so you can log in and download it from any internet enabled device
Why I can't get my girl to order her own fries even after I offer to pay for her own set of fries after she just tried to take mine >:[....very difficult times as you can see
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are organisms evolve in such a way that they have to take care of their young ones so that their species thrive. I mean the whole thing about caring for the younglings is that they should survive and we somehow evolve in a way that they bring the prents happiness as long as they as small. Because at the end once we die, we are just gone. Also, why the fuck would you hoard money, like rich one will also die. Why are you obliged to give your child a better future when you won't even be there to experience it? How deep has the love for our kids been sown into our DNA?
How people maintain multiple friendships without getting completely overwhelmed. There are lots of people i get along great with but at the end of the day i just cant be bothered to do the upkeep. Eventually they get tired of messaging me first, and i get tired of pretending i didnt see their messages in time.
How people can still be anti-gun and believe that the police and govt will always be there to save the day. Pretty sure the police have said they will not help with minor crimes like theft. Seriously.
Edit: I wouldn't be surprised if another L.A. riot happens.
I’m from the UK (I’m not about to be smug btw) but the chances of me being shot be some lunatic with a gun is very low, it could happen but in a town in Yorkshire that’s not very likely. So why do I need a gun? I don’t
So I’m going to assume an average sized town? I’m from one of the biggest ‘towns’ in the UK and we don’t get a lot of crime (not by New York or London standards) but we have theft, vandalism, robbery etc and probably the odd murder. I’d say most of our crime is victimless like drug dealers.
But I don’t think giving everyone a weapon would reduce that crime rate, this is just my opinion, but you rely on the authorities to help you in those rare times when you’re affected by crime. I’m all for defending yourself, I have a golf club hidden in my bedroom in case of intruders but at the age of 20, I know of 2 people who was broken into and they weren’t in the house so having a gun wouldn’t have helped them
California, the state I currently reside in, has the strictest gun laws in the US and they also have high crime rates. Same with Detroit, Michigan and New York.
Now, it seems you're doing fine. All I'm saying is gun laws don't work. You should be allowed to own any gun you want as long as you pass a background check without these silly "red flag laws" put in place by politicians. Self defense was the second purpose of the 2nd amendment the first was to keep those filthy politicans in check and some of the people here are just giving away their rights away.
Here in Cali, we have to abide by a law that prevents us from having more than 10 rounds per mag. That's absurd. Well enough of my ranting.
How complex things were evolved, like I understand simple things like how giraffes evolved long necks to reach higher trees since the ones with longer necks were more likely to survive. But take something like a liver, simple organisms didn’t have a liver, but complex ones do. So like, did one generation of some in-between-er species just suddenly have a whole ass liver that produces bile and all??? Did generations have partial livers that weren’t functional as the trait evolved? How did having a partial chunk of liver improve an organisms survivability great enough for it to pass on? Whatttttt!?!?!
You’re 6ft tall, I’m 5ft tall. The food is on the top shelf out of my reach, so youre going to be able to survive another day and one day attract a mate and pass on that 6ft trait, I will not because I will starve and not pass on my 5ft trait.
Then your kid does the same, then theirs does until hundreds of generations have passed and the only people left are 6ft tall because they’re the ones that can reach food
Edit: you’re correct, one day a simple organism revolved to have a basic liver, which filtered out toxins which made it more likely to live and pass on that trait
That’s exactly what i meant when talking about the giraffes, they survive since they can get food easier etc etc. But what about something like a liver, the whole structure can’t have just appeared across one generation, it must have appeared gradually, right? So why did it continue to evolve since a underdeveloped liver provides no survival advantage whatsoever.
Ok so we have hearts, but so do insects yet they don’t have blood like we do. Millions of years ago before humans, our predecessors that would eventually become early humans were very different and would utilise organs differently, we have eyes with eye lids and lenses, yet fish don’t have eye lids and nautilus don’t have lenses.
The first ‘eyes’ might have been patches of skin more sensitive to light than the rest (like how you can feel the sun on your arm, because you can detect the heat through your skin) over the years that adaptation gets nurtured, so if I can sense light, I might find better food. Or to use your example, a few cells that filter toxins might allow me to live a bit better, so I will pass that down and then thousands of years later you have creatures with whole organs devoted to filtering toxins
How, in this day and age, with all the sciences and experiences of man, so many people believe in religions. We can look into history and teach our kids about the many Greek gods, we can discuss wars over differing religious beliefs - but then we are downright certain that OUR God is the right god and we are firm in our faith.
Cynical..never understood the word...it’s the only definition I cannot comprehend and how it’s applied. It’s the only thing my brain does not understand despite multiple examples given to me.
When someone complains about one of their faults (like to the point that they truly see it as an issue), but doesn't attempt to do anything about it.
For reference I mean something that's within their power to change (even with help from others) like smoking or procrastination e.t.c.
How people are able to memorize things so well. I meet some people who are on Mach 3, remembering with ease and I’m stuck on Mach 2, barely remembering what I ate for dinner, a concept, names, faces, you name it.
Yes, I greatly struggle with multiple choice tests. I take 5-7 days out to study for an exam. Hard class = B. Neuroscience killed me—barely finished with a B
Cricket. I consider myself to be a reasonably well-educated person, but when I watch this game, I start to believe in conspiracy theories - like this is some mass joke to deceive us into thinking there's a game with actual rules being played here.
My mother actively did heroine while I was in utero. My father shot our tv in anger & would stab inanimate objects. Physical abuse was common. I was often left hungry.
Yet, I graduated from college, put myself through. I’m well read. I know enough to have nothing to do w my family. I genuinely don’t understand how most people are so mired in ignorance, completely led by their emotions and lack logic.
Magnetism. Magnetic fields. Electromagnetism. Anything magnetic. I have a very scientific background and can grasp most sciences but never magnets. They just don’t make sense to me even when explained in the most basic way. None of it except same sides repel and opposites attract. That’s all I got.
There was this youtube video (I know, reliable) with an animated man talking about how electrons can "decide to behave" when observed. It blew my mind and I think about it all the fucking time but I have no idea how any of it works.
Edit: found it
Probability and statistics in Maths, absolutely no chance of me understanding how that even work
I was good at everything else in maths (algebra, geometry, differentiation, integration, trigonometry etc) but statistics was the one topic i just always failed at
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that when people ready they don't say every single word in their head.
The way that I can somehow understand most of the concepts that Michael from Vsauce has explained, (maybe not in a way I can explain it to another person but enough so I can understand) but I can't understand simple algebra.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our bodies can "feel" that something/someone is watching us. Those feelings/vibes you get from certain people/environments/things. Even while I understand it's instinct, it still baffles me how our bodies can pick up on things like stares. How does someone's stare make your body react, if you're not even aware someone is there, or looking at you?
Why people kiss and why people enjoy kissing. I used to genuinely not understand the logistics and mechanics of how two people go about kissing. But one of my friends (who I had fairly open platonic friendship with) were discussing kissing and she offered to show me, so we kissed. From the tutorial, I finally understood the logistics of kissing but I still don’t understand the psychology behind why one would be aroused by kissing nor want to kiss another person. Despite her explaining it along with a couple of friends who I have similar relationships with explaining it to me, I still genuinely understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just to really fuck you up: I present to you the Twins Paradox.
And also: Things don‘t happen simultaneously in the universe. At least not for everyone. A result if relativity is that while some things might happen in order A and then B for me, you might experience them B and then A. And I‘m not talking about the light reaching you and you see them differently. No, for you: They did happen in reverse order to me. Even if you subtract how long the light takes to travel, the order is switched.
And I suspect in the framework you are operating in (Newtonian Physics), you can‘t really understand relativity, because it‘s not part of that framework. In order to understand relativity, you first need to understand how spacetime is interlocked and how Newtonian Physics fails. No matter how good the explanation, you can‘t build relativity on top of what we use to make sense of our day-to-day observations.
For me, it took about a year in Uni (I study physics) to wrap my head around. And I suspect it‘s mainly because I got taught the whole framework at once. It‘s probably much harder to understand it one piece at a time. That‘s like replacing your house one brick at a time. Might work, but the house might collapse during that, and that would mean starting from day one.
How Donald Trump isn't in jail yet. Multiple times on live TV, twitter and speeches he has admitted to illegal activities yet nothing happens. I really got to wonder what he has to do to actually be put in jail.
At this point if he fucked a baby on LIVE TV then snapped it's neck he'd still be the President of the United States and the incident would be bitched about on the internet for a week and then forgotten.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learning.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people seem to equate caring about the environment/nature with being a liberal snowflake. I mean, it's more often those that lean to the right that spend more time actually out doing stuff in nature like hunting or fishing, am I wrong? Not everyone who wants better environmental protections is a vegan peta member.
When I capture glitches in the matrix but no one else around me sees it or it’s too complex to wrap my mind around but I know something off just happened..
But if you want to get somewhat of an answer, it might be better to work backwards: Look at a function f(x) and find it’s derivative. The derivation is easier to understand most of the time. And then apply that backwards. Instead of starting with f(x) you start with f‘(x) and work your way back. If it works one way, the reverse should be true (under certain circumstances) as well.
It‘s still a topic that took me half a year to understand and fully settle in to in my uni classes. This stuff is hard, especially if you don‘t use it every day.
Not how colorblindness works but exactly it’s doing to my vision. All my life I’ve had to explain it to people and the best I’ve got is that I see sepia tome but I’m so used to it that I actually still see the colors for the most part with less variation? I’m really just stabbing in the dark though, I have no idea how what I see is different except that rarely it’s harder to differentiate colors..
How governments get away with crime? For example, US and Russia aid terrorists, triggers coups and even invade countries. They sell guns, they kill civilians, they test stuff illegally. I do not get how big powers are explicitly doing stuff and moving on like nothing happened. Someone explain pls.
Football and how the rules work. I’ve tried and I have no concept of what a 1st down, 2nd down, why are they doing a field goal? I get the fundamental idea, move the ball down the field to get it into the end zone. Everything in between is beyond me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing. As in, let’s go dance at the discotheque. I think it is weird because I’m a musician and have a sense of rhythm, I like EDM a lot, I like to make EDM but I have zero interest in dancing. It feels like my brain is just missing the dance module.
Chemistry. I was a straight A student until chem in high school. Failing it changed my whole career trajectory. I couldn’t even pass a test when I cheated with formulas input to my T-89 calculator. 🤦🏼♀️
Specifically, I remember being introduced to atoms and how everything, everywhere are made up of atoms that bounce around each other and create energy etc. I could never wrap my head around how things are formed ie. a table and how little pieces of atoms of the table aren’t bouncing around and break off and attach to something else.
People who put their lives on social media and when people comment on it, tell them it’s none of their business. ... like dude... you made it everyone’s business when you put it all over social media. Am I wrong?
I'm not trying to be rude and hate on the band but why do people like the band Gorillaz so much? I'm genuinely interested as to why, their music is very unique. Is it that they have the 2d characters maybe the random artists they invite for a collab?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long term marriages. I wish we could spend time and move to someone else every once in a while with no negativity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spielberg had an animated series where you renewed your marriage licence every 10 years. 🤔
Not a joke...how anyone can LIKE Donald Trump. I understand voting republican if you’re very into guns, or very against abortion. But he is NOT a decent person.
i do not know the first thing about cars/mechanics and i really wish i did!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe anything at face value in the internet. That people can be easily convinced without a shred of reliable, peer reviewed sources.
We've been taught in school, college, university etc. That you have to cite everything and check whether the source is biased. Yet there's people that don't follow this curriculum.
Do they know they're wrong but the human ego is too stubborn to admit and leads to it doubling down, creating an ever deeper delusion?
How do you convince someone like that without some sort of therapy?
Honestly, these sort of people are the source of my sadness on the internet and I'll never understand their ignorance.
Like I was told physicists make close estimates through equations of the physics behind planes but the math is never perfect. We’re basically riding these things hoping everything works out.
Myself, tbh. My mind is really confusing and hard to navigate. People always yell at me for not understanding, saying its because I don't pay attention, but to me I'm trying my hardest to listen and focus, but I can never seem to get my brain to work. Everything seems so foreign to me, all day every day.
I talk to myself, like a lot, out loud, in my head, always WORDS.
There are people who dont have that voice in their head, so wtf is going on in there?
space. fucking space. how does it go on forever? there has to be some sort of barrier or something. but then what’s beyond the barrier? it’s not like it’s a barrier forever? or is there? or is it just space for eternity? sometimes i’ll think about this in the shower and give myself headaches.
Not me but my boyfriend. He doesn't understand how I could care less if a someone insults me. I'm often the verbal punching bag of jokes when it comes to my friend group. Mainly because they know I don't care (in fact I think most of the jokes are pretty funny). Now my boyfriend is quite the opposite. He's delt with bullying and a lot of stuff esteem issues growing up. As a result he's very sensitive about negative comments regarding himself. For me I've just come to the conclusion that words only have power if you give them meaning. I know people can just say anything. After all your actions are more important than your words. He just can't seem to understand how I can just decide to not let something like that affect me. Of course I understand how words can be hurtful, even more so if it's from someone your close to. For me at least I've realized it's really a choice on how you let things affect you, and I'm (mostly) confident in myself to realize things said about me either aren't true or exaggerated.
How people can be mean, rude, or just plain cruel to you when, personally, I intend to be kind and considerate ALWAYS, and as non-judgemental as possible when meeting someone Ive never personally met or been introduced to. If you have never spoken with me, if we've never had a chance to show each other who we are (or hope to be perceived by others in general, the reputation I hope I have through your eyes) if I haven't had the opportunity to talk with you, and choose what sort of effort I care to make in that regard....HOW ARE YOU ABLE JUDGE ME AND LIKEWISE, DECIDE IF IM WORTHY OF YOUR KINDNESS OR RESPECT, OR NOT???
unwarrented, or unjustifiable judgement and rudeness to others is too common these days... ESPECIALLY... If I havent even had a chance to show you how kind and considerate of a man I am in the first place. Its not fair.
Be kind to one another. You havent walked in their shoes, and that's so important to keep in mind no matter what, in my opinion.
Anyways, I hope you had a good day today, you are important and deserve to live the best life possible.
And I bet we'd be good friends.
What a special opportunity we all have, getting to experience what life is like. No matter what. Someone else couldve been born instead, but we all lucked out. Thats pretty cool. 😎
poetry. my boyfriend and best friends have tried so hard to get me to understand that what i was taught about it in school is bullshit but it just feels like reading song lyrics without the music, it feels like its missing something. books im fine with, i connect with them fine, but poetry is beyond me
This will seem beyond basic but how the diagonal line in the middle of a square is longer than the sides. Not specifically with a square, but how a diagonal has to be longer than the sides in order to go the same distance in the directions it is mimicking.
My life path. Like whats going on? What am I doing at this job? Why am i not doing something that I enjoy? So many questions. Idk whats happening and its as if Im just existing everyday but not living :(
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that blind people don’t just see black like when sighted people close their eyes. they see nothing like how sighted people see out of their feet and my mind just can’t imagine not seeing things bc I’ve always been sighted
weevr · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination, mostly the why but how is wrapped up on there
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people nowadays still treat their partners as property and want to control every aspect of their lives.
What is so fun of controlling your partner to the point you decide even how short or long they cut their hair? Life is to live for these perfect imperfections.
Do you hate cilantro by chance? If so, the pizza place might have it in their recipe and maybe that's what's turning you off from it. Found out about this phenomena when I met a friend in college in San Diego who couldn't stand authentic street tacos because of the cilantro.
Nah I know the thing your talking about where it just tastes like soap to some people but I love cilantro I put extra cilantro in price de gailo when I make it
The whole medieval era, did it even happen or was it just madeup? Did knights actually have tournaments and rise to power or is that a recently developed theory?
How people come up with theories, like yeah there's evidence but what helped you find that? Was it a Kind of machine? But then there's who came up with the design? How did they know it would work? It's kinda hard to explain but I just can't grasp it.
I don’t understand how cameras work. Like how do you take a still image of something from the real world and save it on a camera. I don’t understand the same thing with videos as well.
The singularity. Like, do we all mind meld or wink out of existence?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, snakes scare me cuz I don't understand how they move. I know it has to do with scales or muscles or something, I just can't understand it and it freaks me out.
Physics. I didnt try very hard at Physics the first time in high school, got a terribly low grade. Second time i decided to pay attention more. Still failed miserably. Couldnt grasp the equations, color spectrum, etc
Imagine a ball rolling off a table and hitting the floor.
What color was the ball, how about the table?
When i was asked this the ball or table didn't have any color or shape, i couldn't really imagine anything but the bare concept of a ball rolling off a table.
I asked one of my friends and the ball, table and floor all had color and shape, i find that crazy, i literally can't comprehend being able to do that.
Electricity. Especially AC. Like wtf how does it move? Why does AC electricity go back and forth? (this is why I almost failed electrical engineering class/physics)
I don't understand why the government is stabbing American citizens in the back. I don't understand idiot voters voting against themselves when they elect idiots. I don't understand why we don't elect people that stand for us. Andrew yang is one example, Bernie Sanders, etc. Jesus Christ America sometimes I feel like you deserve it.
I don’t understand how anyone likes rap music. Lots of degrading women and talking about killing people. They rap about how much money they make on this horrible music.
But I genuinely don't understand greed and the shamelessness of corruption at the top here in the united states. How does jeff Bezos ask for his employees to donate sick time for those affected by the virus. How does delta have the best 3 weeks of all time, then need a bailout when they slow for 2 weeks. How does trump strip the oversight committee for the bailout and not feel like he's doing something unethical. I dont get how these people's brains work. Would I be the same way if I was in those circumstances. I say I wouldn't, I hope I wouldnt, but how would i know?
I don’t understand how pills are, I know the ingredients and the process and stuff, but like how the powder can help cure diseases and stuff, while being an addictive substance, it’s all very confusing.
Statistics. Specifically the Monty Hall Problem. I've read the whole thing, watched videos, but I just don't understand it. I "get it" but I just don't understand how it actually works. I hate it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t get interested in school work but from 1-10 I loved school but from then on and into college I’m having issues learning and doing work
How our brain can make pictures/ voices in our head.
Now, what we perceive as “real” is actually just our brain’s best guess at how things are. It’s already “imagining” everything we think we perceive. So to some extent, thoughts that we can “hear” or “see” are just like opening a new tan on a computer, but keeping it minimised and in the corner.
But since I was a child I have been baffled how my brain can draw realistic pictures of things I’ve never even see.
I have this really vivid image in my head of a cave halfway up a cliff, occupied by a velociraptor in a lab coat and spectacles.
people who believe things like the 5g towers, anti vaxxers, and flat earthers. Completely blows my mind how everything they have and do in today’s world is because of forward belief in science, but can’t or won’t put simple logic first.
Sound. I understand waves, but at the same time is basically magic. Take a record, is just a needle going over some grooves, but for some reason this groove gives makes a trumpet sound, this groove makes a cymbal, etc. Somehow this groove makes 10 different sounds at once.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t 100% understand how vaccines work and I don’t know how to ask without people jumping on me like I’m advocating against them.
I really just don’t understand how they work. I get them because my doctor isn’t an idiot and recommends them. I know some of them trigger your blood to make the antibodies (or whatever they are) that you get when you’ve had the illness. I just don’t understand how it triggers that or if you are getting it it’s just a really not severe case of whatever it is? If that makes sense.
Maths. Like just a quick google I saw y = 2x + 1. Wtf? Where are all these letters and shit coming from? Maths was never my strong subject at school and I get all panicky when I have to do this as an adult. Stupid me. Stupid maths. But mostly stupid me.
How when we think of a memory or event in our life, we can almost visualise it - even while we are awake and looking at everything thats in the current moment. Same with sound, how can we hear a song in our head?
math really confuses me i have no clue why it exists but it does
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The molecular mechanisms of circadian rhythms. We have like 3 different labs in our school working on them that all give multiple presentations per year. It all goes over my head
rml23 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why US education makes you learn everything you don't really need later or things people usually don't want to be. Like yeah some of us will be scientists, but we can learn that when we decide. If you teach me math I'll just holdbit until the test and forget it.
I think we should follow the countries that are actually good with their schools instead of "haha History and Math make you have big brain. Nobody cares about art and music. Fuck that"
Watching sports. I mean playing sports is fun. Maybe even watching some friends play sports. But people who spend tons of time and money watching overpaid athletes play (and often act like dipshits)...I mean you couldn't pay me enough to waste my time on that.
Quantum mechanics, hypnosis and consciousness. My 3 nemesis from studying math/physics, psychology and philosophy. They are absolutely crazy. It's not necessarily hard to learn by heart what you need to do, how the equation solves itself, how the protocol work and the definition but you can get an A+ and still feel like you understand absolutely nothing about it. It works, no idea why. And then I get paranoid: is this all bullshit? Does anyone actually really get it or are everybody just too damned confused by it to refuse some weirdo past affirmations?
I don’t understand why people cut their wrists. I hate to say that I don’t understand it and I don’t want to ask because it’s a touchy subject so I never asked.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Jesus story works: if God is omnipotent, why would he kill his son and how exactly does that benefit anyone? We re supposed to be grateful that he died for us, but I’m not following why he had to die when God is all powerful and also how does him dying even benefit anyone? I truly don’t follow the “logic”/story.
Dreaming, like our minds can create entire worlds full of people and can be really vivid and evoke emotion and can stimulate all kinds of senses, all inside our own head without even knowing we are doing it.
dlasky · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just can't wrap my head around quantum mechanics. I can recite the dumbed down explanations, models, examples and what not all day long. I just dont understand how the parts you have to assume are true to make the whole thing work. Like how electrons don't necessarily exist in a certain place at any time. How can that possible fit into how atoms work macroscopically. Like how can something have mass but we don't know where it's at? How can an electron only "probably" be somewhere? But it only has a definite location when we measure it. Where was it before we measured it? Idk maybe the dumbed down examples are too dumbed down and they misrepresent the actual concepts. I'm missing something somewhere and it drives me crazy.
As far as I can tell, life only really gets worse and there's barely anything to look forward to, but so many people preach about "The Gift of Life" and how wonderful and thankful they are, and I don't get it.
I see people who just think that the earth is flat and they don't support vaccinations because they cause autism and many more. I seriously can't understand their mindset. If you ask someone who is against them, they will usually answer "because they are idiots". A short answer that doesn't really helped with my question ... why these people think like that. There must be something that makes someone stupid... but im not sure...
It's crazy how many people are stupid and we just can't understand them... We tried to listen, process and answer but these people were not convinced for something that has been debunked by the most of the world.
I can't understand these people. Their mindset is a mess and I just can't understand them. Watching people online and in person being stupid really bothers me.. I often question my self.. Are these people looking for attention? what makes them think that their opinion is a fact? Can you actually change a stupid person?
even if we knew we wouldn't be able to change them.We really can't.
Just...why?? Like, a lot of important historical figures like Alan Turing, Mozart, Michaelangelo are or were supposedly autistic themselves. ASD is literally just being wired slightly differently but people go absolutely ape over it. Just look at the "vaccines cause autism" crowd, for example; people would literally have dead children over autistic children and that's so depressing to me.
Why there is a generally "expected" path for everyone to follow in life, i.e., go to college, get married, have a family, work till you're 65, then grandkids, etc. The U.S. is basically 320 million clones of one person, and I think that's both sad and terribly mundane.
I don't understand how time changes based on speed.
I asked a friend who is smarter than me if we set two digital watches at exactly the same time, then he effed off on a rocket ship for a while at insane speeds, when he came back the watches would have different times.
I forgot to log out of a grocery delivery site and someone a few states away tried to have a 60" tv delivered to their house on my account. The site said it was because I didn't log out, but I have no idea how the people "found" me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people create things. I genuinely don’t understand how people create something from nothing.
People who say "Just do ____" like it's something that just comes to everyone naturally. Like "Oh, just build your own PC" or "Oh, just buy a junk car and fix it up". I get it but I have limited funds and im not very bright. Im beyond a YouTube video's help in some cases.
They only say it once they‘ve done it and proven to themselves that they could do it (and gathered experience on the topic). It‘s easy to say „just drive to the shops“ if you have a drivers license and know how to drive and what route to take. But tell that to a 12 year old and everyone immediately sees that the kid lacks the prerequired skills. But tell that to a 20yo without a drivers license, and while the skills still aren‘t there, this isn’t as immediately obvious. It‘s not exactly as hard, but comparatively as hard for the 20yo to drive to the shops as it is for the 12yo. But this time, people don‘t immediatisieren see that you lack the skills, and they can‘t perfectly empathise. We all know what it‘s like to be 12 and not understand how to drive, but many of us don‘t know how it‘s like to be 20 and not know how to drive.
The only difference to your example is that most people are still aware that it took a good bit of effort to learn how to drive safely. But if you don‘t get taught by a person and need a license, you‘re much more likely to forget that effort and only remember the skill.
So when someone tells you „Just build a Pc“ they forgot what it took to get the knowledge or they project their own knowledge to you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it’s pretty fricken lame, but long decision. I’m going to graduate soon and ever since it was taught to me in elementary school I never got it. It has been explained and shown to me so many times over the years and for some reason I get it when it’s explained, but after my mind just completely loses any information about it then I’m back to square one.
How non autistic brains work versus my autistic brain.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who say history is written by the victors. I guess Athens won the Peloponnesian war when i wasn't looking, the South won the civil war, the Wehrmacht did nothing wrong (well tbf America kind of helped with that one)
Military victory isn't the only type of victory. It's often not even the most lasting or effective type. After all, if you write the history of how it took everyone else ganging up on you to defeat you, and you still rose back to power afterwards...who won, in the eyes of history? If you spin a narrative about how sure, you lost, but only because you were too noble for the world, and were truly the only force fighting for freedom against a dastardly oppressor who had no finesse, no honor, just massed troops fed to the slaughter against your brave and honorable warriors? Well, that kind of narrative can win a deeper victory for your cause than you ever were going to manage with guns.
Put it this way. You know how, when you see a flash of lightning, the sound of the thunder doesn't reach you until several seconds later? You're hearing the lightning, but the lightning is already gone. Light is just much, much faster than sound.
But it does have a top speed, and while it's mostly irrelevant to us on Earth, it gets important quick when you're talking distances between planets and stars. So important that we use the speed of light as a measure of distance - light-seconds, light-minutes, light-hours, light-years...all just ways of expressing how long it takes light to travel in a vacuum.
The Moon is a little over one light-second away from Earth. The Sun is eight light-minutes away. If the Sun suddenly went dark, we wouldn't know for eight whole minutes because the light that would reach us during those minutes was already on its way.
The CLOSEST star to our solar system, Proxima Centauri, is a bit over four light-years away. If anything happened to Proxima Centauri, we wouldn't know for four years.
Imagine what happens when we see the light from a star that's ten million light-years away. If that star burned out ages ago...when would we find out? Only ten million years later.
Now, all of that is true, but the thing is that the person saying that the stars you can see are already gone is actually full of crap. The furthest star that you can see without a telescope is Deneb. It's 1,500 light-years away. Sure, that's a bit of time to people, but stars usually live between millions and trillions of years. None of the stars that you can see unaided are really that far away.
Atoms. I love science and nature, but my basic science education was not very good. I watch stuff on strong theory and get it a bit, but the basics elude me. Like, around make up everything, and like particles attract, but how do they know when to stop being a knife and start being the sandwich I'm cutting?
Why we have genitalia and breast that protrude out. I understand the theory of sexual selection but it doesn’t make sense to me that such a vital body part would be put in such a vulnerable position.
Humans got to be what they are now by selecting for intelligence.
A human that doesn't guard the dangly bits isn't very smart.
If only unintelligent humans are removed from the gene pool by preventable damage to the dangly bits, but it does not reduce the amount of offspring in the next generation to the point of threatening the species' survival, it wound up being a selection for intelligence.
I dont understand how characters and stories portrayed on tv can completely reflect a real persons bad habits and life style. Then the actual person continues on dogmatically through life doing the same predictable actions.
How you ask about something and someone says "you don't want to know," if I god damn asked about it, I want to know it! If it sends me into crippling depression, so be it! I asked about it, so f**king tell me! Sorry, I got a bit carried away there. But yeah, I don't understand that.
Blockchain. I write about technology, I am a smart cookie, and I have had this explained to me several times and I just can not grasp it for some reason. Its frustrating AF.
Why the UK and US sheeple masses continue to vote C*nservative. I truly hope 2020 helps them realis(z)e what this scurge's agenda is actually really all about. The One Percenters are ONLY interested in OUR sweat and blood, and THEIR ever-devisively obscene slave wealth and offensively overpriced power trinkets. Please try your hardest to WTFU and have a much, much nicer day! Peace out and stay safe... THEY hate that xxx., 🇬🇧🌍🇺🇸🇪🇺❤️✌️
Einstains theory of time relativity. How where if you move faster you age slower. I just dont get it. I know what the theory is, i just dont know how it works.
Essentially, space and time aren't entirely separate concepts. Move too quickly through space and you disrupt how quickly you flow through time. The rest of the universe keeps going at the same pace it always does, but for you, you're effectively pushing forward faster in time because you're moving so much faster in space. That means - to you - while you're moving very quickly, everything that's not traveling at the same speed has had time advance more for them than it did for you.
Craps. My husband loves the game and has tried to explain it to me soo many times. I. Just. Cant. Get. It. But I will be his cheerleader everytime he plays!
How people are so blindly partisan when it comes to politics. How can people expect to exist peacefully if everything is black or white and never anything in between? Sometimes, we got to meet in the middle.
How life insurance works. I feel like life insurance companies must pay more to families when a client dies, than the total cost of the life insurance fees. It seems like a loss on every client, as everyone of them will die. What am I missing?
The company has the money NOW. They're playing the stock markets, investing and using it. Money NOW means they're able to make money in order to pay you or your beneficiaries back LATER and still make a profit. They do a lot of math to determine how much they should charge you, how much they can expect to make from investments and the odds of you kicking the bucket early, resulting in them losing money by not having the time to invest it.
On top of that, not all life insurance is 'whole life' insurance. Whole Life will pay out for sure, sooner or later - either when you die, or when you hit a hundred years old. At that point, the company declares you dead to them (in a good way) and pays you out as if you'd died.
A lot of other life insurance is 'term life.' That means you pay the company for ten years to have a policy. If, during that ten years, you die, the company pays out. But if you survive the duration, the contract is over and you and the company go your separate ways. You can opt to buy a new term policy, and some have provisions for upgrading your term policy to a whole policy, but not all of them will allow it (it's in the contract from the very start if it's allowed). Term life policies don't build up value because they don't have the guaranteed payout, and will instead expire completely.
I don't understand how electricity works.
We would t have anything without it and I look at these boards in my electronic devices and just think it's magic
How the Earth harbor life. It must have to have a perfect position to do something like that when none other planets we have found has no life on them as far as we know.
And also how Karen’s mind work
Politically conservative ideology. And more than that, I really don’t understand libertarianism. Like....why?? Why is it a good thing to fuck over everyone else so that you can make a few more dollars? How does that make society better when the entire ideology is centered around literal selfishness?
I can't imagine how the universe stretches on forever. Everything around me has an end. The end of the couch, end of a room, end of the earth. There must be an end somewhere. But then what's in the other side!?
The feelling of pleasure, how can rubbing a clit or head make us feel good, how is it that only when we want to feel good we have that feeling of rubbing it and now when that part touches our pants or under wear. how can people enjoy pain like hair pulling or painal. Why do i have to rub my dick for like 10 minutes just to have a few seconds of eufora?
Bonds, mutual markets and what the fuck hedge funds are
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely don’t have a understanding of how we can navigate a fucking RC car on Mars yet i will still drive thru cell phone dead spots. What in the hell is that shit. Lol.
How can what comes out of a speaker sound exactly like its original recording. Like what is entering my ear is vibrations in the air caused by a vibrating speaker. How do those vibrations sound exactly like what comes out of Robert Plant’s mouth?
How some people can enjoy watching videos of real people getting killed/seriously hurt, especially those who find it funny.
Really breaks my heart and makes me lose faith in humanity.
i_Azoz · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes exactly! In fact radiation was a huge shock for us when we found it because half life is a constant. No matter what you do to radioactive materials, heat them explore them drop em off a building, they always decay at the same rate.
Why humans need to do all these tasks and work when all animals just need to mate and survive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people just die. Like why can't you just keep living, obviously like if you get stabbed, it damages your organs but why is that fatal? why can't it be fixed, like okay basically what I don't understand is why do humans die of old age? or die at all? IDK what I'm saying but if you understand please help me out
How eggs and sperm multiply to become anything. Skin cells,organs,muscles,etc etc.that they can figure out where arms and legs go. Creating a brain. How can people not believe something or someone is bigger than our world?
Why people that have very little income decide to have pets. I don't understand because it's another living expense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fascination and devotion surrounding sports.
Completely inconsequential and giving nothing whatsoever to the spectator other than a false feeling of "belonging" to something, while being rooted in nothing more than corporate modelling and marketing.
The fans are more devoted to the team than the actual team members and staff.
Hardly makes any sense at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many Bernie supporters think voting green will help the progressive cause.
Fiat currentcy.
And how there's more money in the world then we start off with, more than is accounted for by any jet gain in raw materials.
Something to do wth fractional banking, which seems to create artificial wealth, and how that system isn't a major house of cards is also something I don't get..
People. How they can put petty emotions before facts. How the majority seem completely incapable of looking at the big picture, or putting all of us before themselves, or even equaled. People are selfish and stupid and I truly do not understand, how it's not only so common, but it's openly rewarded.
Being the one screaming "iceberg" for years while no one listens is just so soul draining
momasf · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hegel.
Jatrap · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The machismo bullshit over sex crimes. When there’s a story posted on Reddit about some rape or molestation that has occurred and is inarguably awful, the entire comment section will be filled with these people saying things like “If it were my sister they’d never find the body” or “I sure hope he gets raped every day in prison for the rest of his life”. It’s absurd and it’s indefensible. It gets to a point where I genuinely hate the people making these comments more than I hate the criminal the story is about.
How people think there are more than 2 genders. I’ve tried several times to justify their reasoning but I always come to the conclusion that they are selfish self-entitled uneducated dumbasses
It's more of a concept of what is gender and what is sex. Those "self-entitled uneducated dumbasses" refer to gender as the societal and mental constructs around what you refer to as gender, which would be sex to them what is what you are born biologically.
Then it brings up another question, what about those who are born with both? How would you characterize them?
They are kinda outliers. I’m not saying disregard them, but u can’t rly use people born like that as evidence to back up their argument. They are their own. But u can’t tell me every single person that identifies as a made up gender was born neither male of female.
Chapter 12 of Algebra and Trigonometry Seventh Edition by Michael Sullivan
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand anything really. Nothing at all. How is bread made? I know the ingredients but why does it makes bread? How do computers work? I know about electric signals, but why do they do what they do? If you asked me "why does this happen" for anything at all and I wouldn't be able to tell you. It's like my brain is incapable of knowing true explanations for anything that's told me.
So I guess what I don't understand is how to understand the first thing in a series of thing's that lead to something being something.
Finding your place in the world. What if I don’t have a place? What if the place I come to isn’t something I like? I just wanna be happy but what does that even mean? I guess as a whole I don’t understand life and where I fit into this whole thing. I’m starting to think I don’t fit.
I don't know, man. I am aware that i do not understand a lot of things and there's so many things that I wish to immerse myself into but with my discouraging family and their continuous habit of leading my life as to what they think is right for me, the possiblities of me learning and understanding concepts offered by the world really narrows me from little to nothing at all. So in the end, I am generally confused all the time.
Magnets, that shit is pure magic. Also seeds that grow into plants, also pure magic. Electricity is also something I have tried really hard to comprehend, but still can’t fully grasp.
Several things actually 1. How do people eat so little and say they're stuffed 2. The concept of seeing things in your head 3. How do people read so slowly 4. Y'all need 8 hours of sleep?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why different people like different genres of music.
Caring what others think about you. Believe me I used to care A LOT as the typical teenager.
I get it that it's waaay more intertwined into society, but using Japan as an example, a problem they seem to face is a lot of shaming surrounding sex/sexuality? As an adult you can do whatever you want?
I'm from America so I am aware there are societal differences. I'm sure I don't understand the underlying implications from general society and relationships with families.
Why money is the basis of life in the U.S. and most people will resort to almost any immorality to get more of it. How can you live with a clear conscience knowing you did something illegal or immoral, rather than genuinely earned your money?
When you say words in your head you remember saying them but not hearing them.
KMKY · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math classes. I am one math credit shy of my degree. I’m almost 40. I can’t pass the class and I do not know what to do. I have good credit. A great job. Balanced a budget on a single mom income for almost two decades now, never missed a car payment and have a (small) savings account. But I can’t pass college math and it is holding me back from so. Much.
The irony is that unless you work in some specialized fields, you won’t even need college math. I majored in Finance and worked on minoring in Comp Sci so I took more math than an arts major, but less than a math major and I don’t use any of the advanced calculus. Like ever. It felt great knowing it in school because it made me feel smart, but I’d have to start at square one for anything more complicated than derivatives.
Getset · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I the only one reading these comments who feels like they understand almost all of them?
Why people brag about sleeping late and I see them in the morning complaining that school doesn't give them enough sleep.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can know that their actions directly result in the torture of innocent animals, yet choose to value the taste of their flesh over their existence. Despite humans being able to eat plants and be completely healthy
How it works, that we can think in different languages.
So to explain what i mean:
Im german and (mostly) think in german and i cant make up how others think in their language because i can just think in german and english.
Well if it sounds confusing, here are some other things i dont really understand:
Timetraveling
How life developed and how it functions so well.
How any rational adult can think Donald Trump is a good President/human and that he has done nothing wrong in his presidency.
I genuinely don’t know how to relate to anyone who does because their world view is so vastly different from my own that we must not have much (if anything) in common.
Why people get mad at vegans for eating vegan alternatives of meat.
Some vegans admit they miss the taste of meat and their lifestyle is due to reasons such as ethics and the environment. They miss the taste. I don’t understand why people find this so hard to comprehend.
the universe. so many things happening all at once, everything happening by chance, and here we are, an insignificant speck of rock with a sentient bit of mold drifting through it all. it's beautiful, yet terrifying.
Why people lie about dumb things that don’t matter. Yeah, I understand lying sometimes. But why are you lying when you know you ate the last cookie JARED
Intelligence - the ability to learn things. What is it in the brain that can make a 5 year old understand calculus or play chess at a high level or play the piano with ease. I've always been intrigued by child prodigies and how the ability to grasp concepts come so easy for some people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What life is and how living creatures live and how did the first living thing come to start living?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's ability not to stay at home during CoVid restrictions of movement....
Why people on Reddit always state the reason they edited their post or apologize for editing their post/comment. Like, how does anyone even know, and why do they care? I’m on mobile so maybe I can’t see everything.
Why i enjoy torturing myself so much. I get a Slurpee then get a brain freeze and it's living in hell, then the second that hell ends what do i do?... Take another drink of slurpee. Same thing with sour stuff or spicy. I cannot figure out why I love to turture myself.
Or there is a perfect gentleman in front of me who can make every dream of mine come true and is just a good human. Do I accept the offered hand. Hell no i just run. Because it makes more sense to continue my struggle right?...
Or I do something the difficult way 20 times and i say to myself. Okay next time i am going to do it the other way so i don't have to deal with all this nonsense. One day later guess where i am. Yelling at myself for doing everything the hard way. I love torture apparently. ???
Blockchain...why it's revolutionary and why it matters
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
deja reve. I have had several events of this. One dream was about a guy I knew in my hometown who was an acquaintance. We lived on the same street as kids and went to the same high school and played on the same soccer teams. We weren't really friends though. About 15 years later I had moved to another city attending school. One night I have a dream about a soccer game that included him. The next day I get off the elevator at school and literally walk into him! It was his first day.
How everyone in the West doesn’t constantly question their political and social convictions, or at least their intensity, knowing that there was and is a massive Russian propaganda intended to blow them out of proportion. How does no one seem to 1) question whether they were influenced by it and 2) be redirecting that intense anger to Russia instead?
It’s like we were in a fairytale where a whole town of villagers was put under a spell by an evil queen and convinced to fight amongst each other; and then one day the spell was broken and all the villagers learned they were under this spell; but instead of turning on the evil queen they just said “fuck it,” and went back to throwing punches.
Why I feel like after thirty years, I still haven’t changed, and yet I know that I have, but something was left behind that I can’t get back and it keeps me awake some nights.
Finding permutations of things. I work in software and I oftenbhave to think of all scenarios for test cases and I can't just do the math in my head. It drives me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The gift of tears. Happened to me when I first walked into church. I am not religious nor am I an atheist. Also, I’m not a person who cries easily but I am highly emotional.
When people say turrents instead of turrets on Ark..
tplnr · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that suddenly many women remember to tell you about their feelings and consider you more attractive when you get into a relationship (especially when they don't even know about you being in a relationship at all).
I'm totally not being any different from my usual self. The only thing that has changed is my overall happiness because of my girlfriend
Agnostic-theist and agnostic-atheist. I know what a theist and an atheist is but I have a hard time understanding how agnostic-theist and agnostic-atheist work. I always thought you are either a theist, agnostic or atheist.
Agnostic refers to the idea that there isn't enough information to make a scientific, evidence based decision. An agnostic theist has decided that while there is no way to know for sure, they'll choose to believe there is a god. Agnostic atheist means that while there is no way to know for sure, they'll choose to believe there is no god.
How time works. Obviously it exists, buy what I don't understand is how we would perceive it if we were on a different solar system. Time as we understand it is based on our planets movements in relation to the sun. But another planet can do that in either more time or less time. So if we colonized a different planet in a different solar system whose year is half the time of ours hear on Earth, how does that affect how would we perceive time? Are there any scientists that can explain this to me?
How video games work. You put the disc/cartridge in then you can run around and play however you please within the game!!! I would love to learn about game development and see how it all works.
Bitcoin. Does it have actual worth? Is it just to show off? Is there a certain amount that equals to a US dollar? Can I touch it? I could look this up, but I don’t care enough too. I remain curious yet lazy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I came here to say, how people can be so inconsiderate.
Movie theater, who care's if there's other people lets talk away throughout the whole movie/take a phone call.
Friend's house, their mom make's the friend go to a birthday party and I'm stuck there with nothing to do until they get back. Uhh, shouldn't one of you had thought about that before I came over?
When someone parks over a puddle and I have to try and get around it going in and out of the car.
Our cabin, we're sitting on our dock fishing. A couple in a little boat stop in the middle of the bay we're in. They didn't anchor, presumably because they didn't have one. It was almost completely calm but there was just enough breeze to cause them to slowly drift toward our dock. Long story short, they kept drifting closer and closer, and closer. They didn't put their motor in and drive off until they were literally like a foot away from our dock. They didn't say a word but the expression on their face was like they were annoyed that we were there... on our own dock. That wasn't only inconsiderate but it was incredibly rude. There's kind of an unwritten rule at least where I'm from that you're not supposed to invade someone's space, especially when they're like fishing. But some people either don't know, or don't care.
There's probably a gagillion other examples but I can't understand why so many people are so inconsiderate of others. I mean when I think about it sometimes it's cause people forget to think/of others, but still.
I consider myself a quite intelligent, logical person - studied computer science, have a wider and deeper knowledge & understanding than most people in many fields (science, psychology, nature, history, society,...)
but when it comes to forms, taxes, law, insurances, ... i just ... i just don't understand it. i can sit down with someone explain everything to me. 1min later, I am completely clueless again. It feels like sand running through my fingers. and if i think i got it, i try to postulate it with my own world.. and it shows that I didn't get it.
it really Annoys me so much, that i get really really angry.
I've tried to learn computer coding multiple times. I can understand certain things but as a whole I have no idea why things break and why they don't half the time.
Language and how we can comprehend even our own language in our minds, when I think about it I start to lose my own understanding of my own language. Kinda freaky.
Outer Space. Like I know that scientists say the universe is ever expanding but I have this thought that if I could travel in space forever, meaning no food, water, air, or fuel needed, then I’d eventually loop back around to where I started. I know that’s not the case but all my life I haven’t been able to get that cognition of space out of my head.
Why the hell the education system is as fucked up as it is. Like, they expect you to wear the uniform, and you cant wear boots for whatever reason, they don't teach you how to do taxes or how to apply for a mortgage or even how to help people with depression.
Oh, but that's all fine, cause now I can tell you if the number of unnecessary deaths caused by that stupid choice is prime.
JoelAK · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
E=MC2
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of The Elder Scrolls’ more esoteric lore. Fucking stop using big words, Vivec, you dick.
Mayas1 · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone earning less then 75K voting Republican. The process of voting against your own interest. I've read a lot of different stuff regarding this from people in different fields, but can't say I can wrap my head around it. There are all sorts of reasons lack of critical thinking being a popular reason, but how much of it does one need, to know that you don't have food in the table, you can't go see a doctor and so many other such basic human necessities that you are deprived of which people all around you in other countries have. And yes if it was one or two or three people sure. But millions of them.... Boggles the mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Light years. You can explain it to me now and I’ll completely understand it but ask me about it again 30 minutes later and I will be completely dumbfounded by it.
Where the material for a tree comes from? I mean picture a 100' 10 ton cedar tree. where did the 10 tons of material come from to make the tree? it's not like it used up 10 tons of dirt, all that is still there. plus trees rot and make MORE dirt! where is all this material coming from? are trees made out of air and water? doesn't seem so.
How anyone that isn't a rich multimillionaire supports trump. Like, unless you're super rich, he will shit on you and your redneck family in an instant and then laugh in your face about it.
I can sorta understand emotional cheating if I really think about;maybe your SO won't talk about a certain thing, or is otherwise terible at communicating.
But having sex with a third party? Maybe it's because I'm a virgin, but I can't wrap my head around something being SO AMAZING that you'd be so wiling to get it at any cost.
I could understand if your SO hasn't slept with you in years, or being an idiot and getting blackout drunk,but other than that?
But then again, I have the(maybe warped) view that a relationship without sex is just friendship. Like...what else could be the difference between the two?
I don't get it at all. What does a person think when they see the post they're about to steal? Where does it get them? Why do it when there's going to be a trace of someone else posting before you? My one theory is either people do it for clout or compliments, but even then why not just take one talent they have and post that to social media? It confuses me to an even further extent when people get mad and say it is theirs. What makes a person think this is fine? Everything about it is so murky to me, and it just doesn't feel right when I see stolen work. My spidey senses go through the roof when I find reposts. If anybody does have any thoughts or knowledge as to why, please do tell me. Thanks for reading my wall of text.
How can people or a lot of them can sleep for 10 hours or more at a stretch.
Sleeping more than 6-8 is literally time wasted.
I am 26.Cant sleep a second more than 6 hours or even less sometime.No dark circles no testesterone dips no nothing.
I am 5' 8" 72 kgs. Feel fine and super energetic.
How the western society thinks trans , gay and drag are ok , statics shows different story yet it’s acceptable and pushed even on kids whom literally wanna become anything from a stone to a fly.
Cooking. It’s a foreign language to me. What food goes with what? How do you cut vegetables, types of seasoning, how to put together a dish, and so many types of knifes? I guess I just didn’t grow up with parents that cook. Really affecting me now that I’m home so much.
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Anytime a young kid commits murder, people say "he was never taught right from wrong". Even in cases where the kid kills himself afterwards. Um...the guy killed himself to avoid going to jail.
This American Life had an interview with a guy who blamed the Sandy Hook shootings on Adam Lanza's mother. No, not for not recognizing Adam's warning signs (which makes sense):
Christine Gentry:My dad started blaming Adam Lanza's mother.
Ira Glass: The shooter's mother.
Christine Gentry: Yes.
Ron Gentry: And I said, well, I think that the mother is as much at fault as the boy that shot the kids. And she kind of looked surprised when I said that. And Matthew said, yeah, you know, we were taught from an early age not to handle guns and not to do things like that.
I don't understand "not to do things like that", but I think he means "Adam Lanza was never taught you shouldn't kill people". Look, if you're 20 years old, you know if you murder a bunch of people, you're going to get arrested and go to jail. Remember, Adam Lanza killed himself. He knew damn well that he would go to jail if he didn't kill himself.
Edit: I'm not a big fan of the "this kid did something bad! He wasn't raised right!" thinking. Just because you taught your kid to not do something doesn't automatically mean he's not going to do it. If you teach the kid "it's wrong to hit people" don't assume the kid will never be in a situation where he's going to hit someone (AKA a bunch of kids are making fun of him and he is trying his damdest to ignore it, and he's had enough and hits the next person who messes with him. Especially years later when he thinks "i hit someboidy who made fun of me. I was right, that person did deserve it." Yeah I know it's /r/oddlyspecific)
This may be basic, I don't understand coding and medical stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The beginnings of the universe. How big is the universe? Are we alone? Where did we come from? Did some sort of God create us? If so, where did that God come from? It blows my mind to think of the possibilities! 🤯
The Pauli exclusion principle. I know what it is, but why is it?
Entanglement. I get the basics, knowing one set of observables determines the other, how do things become entangled? What ISN'T entangled? Where does entanglement occur?
Wave Function Collapse. What's waving? Probability? Higher dimensions?
Why doesn't Schrodinger's cat count as an observer?
What are the equations that describe a mathematician sitting at a desk reading a math book?
Where does consciousness fit into physics? Like not woo-woo meta physical stuff, but actual testable science?
How basic commands are given in cpus. So I understand how memory and data storage works, and I understand that instructions essentially move blocks of data around. But how are those basic instructions actually carried out?
Why genital mutilation is still legal to do on baby boys. You’re violating someone’s right to their own body, their own genital integrity. Nature made you intact, yet people somehow are allowed to decide getting their sons genitals mutilated if they wanted to?
Faucets. I don’t know why but they absolutely blow my mind. Hell, the science behind pipes and sinks are probably pretty simple but I just can’t even comprehend it.
The Monty Hall problem. Alright, so, three doors and you pick one, you think it’s a 1/3 shot. But if the gameshow host opens a door that ain’t yours, and it has a donkey or whatever behind it, now it’s a 1/2? Like, I guess, from your perspective, sure. But in practice, don’t that mean that it’s always been a 1/2?
Also, the idea that not every parallel universe exists (for example, “hehe what if there was a universe where star wars was real”) because “there are infinite points between 1 and 2, but none of them are 3” makes no sense to me. Like, the idea seems logical but not that specific explanation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crowded intersections of pedestrians, each walking towards each other in a giant swam, yet somehow we make it across to the other side efficiently without massive collisions.
People who listen to loud music or talk on speaker phone in a public area but relatively small space (subway car, elevator, store). What happened to your headphones? Do you just not care that we can hear it too? Did it occur to you that we don't want to? If you don't care, why is that? Who did/didn't raise you?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who play competitive playlists in video games that constantly complain about how shit their teammates are but never put effort into finding teammates.
How I worked myself to the bone for nearly a decade at community college and then Stanford University just to end up completely under employed tending bar and tutoring.
How people can get around without seeing in 3-D. I even work with people who have never seen 3-D before and it just blows my mind. Technically I don’t have 3-D all the time as I have eccentric fixation in my left eye so my brain sometimes just says “ah fuck it” and turns it off...but I can’t tell O.o Brains are weird.
Thanks for asking. I’m good enough to be on the outside of a group, and good
Enough to ask for help, but not someone they want to willing talk to.
It’s hard to describe as I don’t know what is happening but I’ll try in two examples:
I help all the new employees onboard to our office, but no one is friendly with me after the on boarding is done. (But they’re friendly with each other.)
or for social gatherings: I’ll invite a group of People (who I thought were my friends) over to my house 3-4x in a year. I think everyone has a good time. I later find out they were having their own parties and not inviting me- multiple times during the year.
Does this help?
pak256 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A little. I see a few things going on here. I can 100% help with the first since I do that for a living (I’m a training and development manager for a company and do on boarding). The second will require some explaining. I’d love to chat with you about it, feel free to pm me and we can set something up.
Thanks for asking. I’m good enough to be on the outside of a group, and good Enough to ask for help, but not someone they want to willing talk to.
I imagine this results in feelings of rejection, loneliness, and frankly, of being used.
It’s hard to describe as I don’t know what is happening but I’ll try in two examples:
I help all the new employees onboard to our office, but no one is friendly with me after the on boarding is done. (But they’re friendly with each other.)
One possibility is that during an onboarding process, it is easy to come across as going "over board." If you are responsible for showing the new person "the ropes," if you are over eager in offering information or multiple channels to accomplish office tasks, the other person may subconsciously put up a wall in order prevent themselves from being overwhelmed. In this case, you are trying to be helpful and share all the tips to help make the new person's life more productive. The reality is, onboarding is about "office vibes" as much as it is about office protocol. This means, a gentler approach may be to be friendly in a responsive way instead of a "here let me show you XYZ" way. If you are the onboarding designee, the new person may subconsciously associate you with "information only" and not as "friendly chatting." This is a fine line to walk because you are responsible for the not fun, not sexy parts of beginning a new job, and thus, are not included in the friendly office banter once everyone feels comfortable.
Another way to address this: is it part of your official job description to onboard new staff? Does it seem feasible for someone else in the office to take over this task? A way to look at it as like good cop/bad cop, or fun parent (commonly dad) and strict parent (commonly mom). In the cop situation, both cops care about the person, the bad cop is more straightforward about it, and the good cop goes slower and is more "dancing around the topic." In the case of the parents, the dad often guides and does big picture stuff like christmas presents and summer vacations, while the mom often does the nitty gritty everyday stuff like teeth brushing and homework.
If you are responsible for teaching the nitty gritty protocol stuff, the others may not be able to associate you with anything other than tedious feelings.
Let me know I am on the right track here.
or for social gatherings: I’ll invite a group of People (who I thought were my friends) over to my house 3-4x in a year. I think everyone has a good time. I later find out they were having their own parties and not inviting me- multiple times during the year.
I generally break parties up into three categories: open house party, close friends, and topic specific.
Open house parties are giant parties where I invite close friends and acquaintances. These are housewarming parties, a giant new years party, a baby shower if I were trying to collect many gifts. I am less discerning about the guest list because I am interested in having people from all areas of my life attend. I expect to spend only a few minutes chatting with each person because I am busy greeting guests, taking coats, organizing appetizers, etc.
Close friends party are much smaller, maybe 5 to 10 people. These are people I have one on one encounters with, people I enjoy spending time with, and people who either are all also friends or friendly with each other, or at least mesh well together. This is a party where I expect to spend significant time chatting with everyone, either one on one, a few groups of three people, or even all of us as a group. I am usually less busy playing hostess here because the focus is on spending quality time together. This party takes place in a quieter environment - no loud music, no bustling big party feel - because the focus is on connecting with each other. When thinking about who I would invite here, it would people that when I saw them, I would give a hug and a squeeze to.
The topic specific party are those like a book group, or a hobby specific group, like my hiking group. These friends may be close or they may be acquaintance level, or most likely, a mix of both. The primary focus here is that our shared interest is what brought us together. This type of party would have some hosting duties and some small group or one on one conversations, but the focus here wouldn't be on close conversations. It would be on friendly getting together, passing time type of party.
I imagine you and your friends are having different types of parties and also thinking of each other as different types of friends. It can be challenging to rectify this, so don't feel discouraged if it doesn't change right away.
Some options are to try throwing a different type of party. Like, if you always throw house parties, throw a close friends party and invite these friends. There are a few other options to try and help this. Please let me know if I am on the right track before I keep writing.
Thank you so much - I think you hit the office one right, and I may be coming off strong. If you dont mind, I'm going to sit with this for a bit.
For the second one, I get what you're saying, but let me think on this a bit more. I was told later I wasn't supposed to know about their parties (to which I wasn't invited to...) so it definitely felt deliberately mean.
Ah, if you were intentionally excluded from the friends party, that leads me to believe it is similar to clique- y behavior some experience in middle school. I will elaborate more below.
Now, I mentioned middle school as an example for cliques because people commonly associate middle school with bullying. The reality is that cliques exist often into adulthood and social and professional environments.
It is a way to increase social status by diminishing others, therefore increasing real or perceived power.
Cliques intentionally leave out individuals by considering them as 'other' or 'different'.
So for example, if you are throwing a party and inviting 10 people. They all attend. Later, you find out that all 10 of them had their own party without you.
The point here is for them to emphasize that they are similar to one another specifically because they are all different from you.
This elevates there social standing above you.
People choose someone to ostracize based on small actions - a slight accent, a chaotic personality, distracted/all over the place.
So, for example, if you all hang out together, and everyone eats meat, and your vegetarian, if one of the meat eaters feels insecure about something, or perceives you have a positive quality that she is jealous of, she will begin to build alliances with the other meat eaters as they already consider you different because of the vegetarian option.
I'm not sure if I am explaining it clearly here. I will try to write about this again in a little bit. Let me know if any of this makes sense or not.
I have been thinking about commenting since I saw your post and just had the time now. I am happy to help with this and give specific instructions for you to try, if that is helpful. Would you like to chat over reddit mail?
I genuinely don’t understand feelings. Yes i’m a 15 year old kid and yes i’ve not been in any serious relationships, but listen to this. I’d known this girl in my 8th grade year of middle school. I was put in a gym class with purely 6th graders. I kind of gained “feelings” for this girl. Of course, she was in 6th grade. I never thought it would work so for the sake of the friendship, I set those feelings aside. Now i’m in my 9th grade year of high school. I’ve had about 5 girlfriends since then, all of which ended poorly. But each and every time I crawled back to her for comfort and safety. After my most recent break up, she admitted her “feelings” for me and a few days later we ended up together. We text every day, she would wave to me on the school bus and we even had a minecraft world together. But I could tell she was kind of drifting away, so I asked her about it and she told me she “lost feelings a week ago” The really confusing part of all this is that
1. She held feelings from me for over a year.
2. She somehow lost those feelings in about 3 weeks.
I’m not posting this for pity or sorrow, i’m just genuinely confused. In about 2 hours it will be officially two weeks since we’ve been split, and I still feel terrible. I won’t lie, the three REAL weeks of the relationships were the best of my life. I can’t tell you how happy I was. And as ironic and stupid as this sounds from a 15 year old, I honestly feel like I was in love.
Can anyone shed some light on all of this?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I told her everything prior to us getting together through our friendship. I told her EVERYTHING. It’s not like we got together and I completely changed my life.
People telling you something didnt happen. Like, I've had someone tell me I never had meningitis despite my proof and it just boggles my mind how someone cant understand facts prove a point.
I'm not saying there really are 200 aliens in your back yard but like, if I have a medical document and picture evidence of events, it happened, like it just happened. How can you honestly believe something didnt happen when there is 100% solid evidence proving it did?
Okay, okay. I genuinely can't understand why no one teaches us how to do our taxes or how to buy a house or whatever, or how to apply for jobs (our school has a program for it but it's basically cancelled due to quarantine), or any nessessary things, but instead they teach us algebra and Shakespeare and mythology and stuff that isn't nessessary to the majority of the population. Yes I'm aware of the fact some jobs actually use those things. 99% of the jobs we will have won't have to do algebra however. I bet like 83% of the class of 2023 will be working at either Walmart, Burger King, McDonald's, or their local gas station.
ksgif2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many things. Why do we have a bum crack? I mean, my dog doesn't have a bum crack and has no need to wipe, isn't that a more efficient design? And what about gravity? The earth has more than the moon because it's bigger, but why??? Why don't I have tiny moons flying around my head?
How the ‘background’ of space is black. I don’t even know how to describe why it confuses me. How do we see black? It’s like a big black sheet is wrapped around the universe of something?
Well, I don’t understand the formation of the universe. What was before the Big Bang? If there was anything, what was before that, and before that, and so on? And how did those things form when there wasn’t anything there?
How to do fucking algebra. I’m literally failing the class and I’ve really been trying but I still don’t understand it. And with this stupid break, I can’t even ask my teacher for help even though it’s never worked in the past.
People who only listen to media that follows their political leanings and hang around with people who agree with their political leanings- and then question out loud how anybody could hold views they disagree with or assume that the only way people could do so is because they are ignorant, horrible people or brainwashed.
It baffles me just how many people like this exist, and how lacking in self-awareness they are.
How 300mil people get themselves deeper and deeper in shit for by decades electing presidents that are an embarrassment for the entire nation whether it's is by getting a blowjob in the office, thrusting country in an appalling war spanning short of two decades or electing a malignant narcissist in the office who blatantly does not give two farts about ordinary folk who installed him... and then they're surprised the entire world laughs at them or outright dislikes them...
Do not bother with your answer if you gonna tell me something about
Space..time can slow on different planets? How big is it and why is it always growing?! If it snaps back would we even know.. would we even feel it if the universe imploded?! How did the big bang happen out of nothing? Where did it explode from if it was nothing to begin with...
Why people think that I don’t have the right to kill myself or label me as selfish if I chose that I want my life to end because of “people I’d leave behind and the impact it would have on them.”? They basically guilt me into not committing suicide because I’d make other people feel bad.
How people can stay focused on homework and studying for hours at a time. I can't work for 15 minutes before needing to take a break and watch a video or go eat something.
Consciousness. Literally everything can be explained by physics and math. My brain works via a bunch of chemical reactions that govern everything I do. But somehow my brain creates a consciousness which experiences everything, and supposedly all other brains do the same thing (all though I can’t prove that anyone besides myself is conscious which is depressing as fuck to think about)
For an extra mindfuck google “Boltzmann brain”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person could harm a child or worse. The level of evil I cannot fathom.
speed of light stuff. if a star explodes 50 million light years away and it take 50 million years for light to get here then to us didn't it not explode yet. we base time on light. light speed only really matters when something is sent and we want an answer.
Current, Amps, and Voltage. I’ve taken Physics in high school and Calculus 2 a year ago and STILL can’t figure it out. It just doesn’t register in my brain how they each work.
Envjd · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem.
-kung- · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can move my limbs, like, what control do I have to use to make myself move
How the internet exists and functions. I can't comprehend it, for some reason.
And apparently, another version totally separate from the internet can't exist?? Like... it's literally a man made concept, virtual and digital realities don't exist in nature.
mumble rap, I just don't get it, are you there for the beats? mumble rap songs have a few good beats here and there but most seem sub-par at best. and it sure as fuck isn't the lyrics.
I mean hey your free to listen to what you want but I just want to understand what about it there is to like about it.
Over-the-air television. Such an old technology. How can a signal flow through the air and be received on a device such that a perfect HD pic and multi channel sound are derived from it. Fascinating.
I understand enthalpy and Gibbs free energy etc for ideal gases, but then all the same terms get used for chemistry. If enthalpy is U+PV, what do P and V refer to for a chemical system?
But like, what does volume refer to? The volume of the molecule? Like what is the enthalpy of a reaction between two molecules, what do pressure and volume refer to in that case?
It's the pressure and volume of the system you're measuring. In chemistry these sorts of equations relate to closed systems because it would be impossible to calculate anything if the system were open.
fitfag · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socialising. Social cues and norms. I was a spoilt, sensitive kid and was isolated many times by the ‘leader’ that hated me. Despite growing up with the same guys, I was always distant and a bit different. That’s how I still am. I’m good at many things, but I don’t understand how people have those friends (real/fake, guys/girls) that they go to nightclubs with, and how I can have friends like that. I do wish being normal sometimes.
Folding proteins. At our work we have our computers folding proteins or something of the matter to help cure the coronavirus. I don’t understand how it works and I need someone to explain it to me like I’m 5 years old.
So proteins are made up of amino acids right? That is the primary structure of a protein. On top of that, proteins can also have turns and folds which are referred to as their secondary structure. Additionally, they can actually have a quaternary structure which refers to multiple types of subunits that compose the overall structure of the protein. Hemoglobin (what carries oxygen in your red blood cells) is a good example of this. Protein folding refers to the tertiary structure of a protein.
Romantic Love. It's weird how you can have the same love you have your family for a total stranger or how that emotion is basically constructed on the basis of sex. It's weird how people act so dumb when in love and think a total stranger will make them better.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like any religion. Its probably the most ridiculous thing I can think of and I'm super happy it's finally starting to go the way of the dodo.
how people genuinely don’t understand the concept of more than 2 genders. not the people that disagree, the people who you can sit and explain it to for 20 years and they say “so what your saying is they’re confused”
For starters, it doesn't work. But in theory it's actually quite simple:
This guy is a billionaire, and buys a yatch. The yatch is worth one million dollars, which he pays to the owner of yatch inc. Yatch inc. doesn't make yatchs appear out of thin air, so their profit margin isn't a million dollars, let's say it's half that. The other half is then divided between the clerk who sold the yatch, the workers who build the yatch, and the companies who sold the raw materials, who themselves pay the workers for harvesting and transporting said materials.
I agree it doesn't look like it's working .
There's a great movie about a tray of food that's lowered down a hole and has to feed hundred of pairs of people as it goes down. it shows how the top layers take everything they can of value before it gets to the next layer. I feel like trickle down economics is like that but even worse because they sipohen funds to different tunnels and to their billionaires friend who builds the yacht's.
How can newer CPUs and GPUs can have incredible tiny and complex parts, i heard there was an amd graphics card with transistors in it that are 7 nanometers across, which is apparantly less than 100 atoms, like how do robots assemble these with such accuracy and not instantly destroying them?
The fact that other people exist and live lives like me. The thought of someone experiencing feelings like me is crazy. Other people make memories with other people that also have feelings and make memories is crazy. Other people have jobs that they either love or hate. I think the craziest thing is how much someone else can impact your life, while you know basically nothing about their life. Just the whole thing is crazy.
How it's possible to get a song stuck in your head if you don't want to. Like, my brain is telling my brain to STFU with that noise. How does the part of my brain that's having an all-night rave get to overrule all of the other parts of my brain that just want to hear a different song, FFS?! This lame-ass DJ has to be outvoted, but apparently that doesn't matter.
How phones work. Like how is it possible that I can talk to someone so far away, understand exactly what they are saying, and it sounds EXACTLY like their normal voice! Just like they sitting there with me in the same room.
At what point does political stances become ideology. I mean why do I gotta vote like it's a sports team? And why do the teams hate each other so damn much
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers. Like, are you so wrapped up in proving yourself right that you're willing to potentially kill your own children? Are you so unaware of, like, reality that you don't even realize that you're gonna hurt your kids? It's honestly baffling.
Hymapp · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi, radio waves, etc. Like how is it possible that this computer I talk to can transfer my image and sound across the world to another persons computer/phone.
How we put so much pressure on individuals to fix the economy/environment yet there's people make billions of dollars and not helping. Pay your taxes and stop telling us plastic straws are the problem.
How electric motors work. AC and DC. I need to understand all of it to get it I think. Have to be able to visualize and its hard to visualize fields. I neer this to move forward in life.
I was asked to determine if the assumption of homogeneity of variance was violated. I had to Google most of those words individually.
I ran a couple of formulas in SPSS (statistical analysis software) just to get an idea of how it worked. Somehow when examining a group of age ranges, I would get a negative number (how can an age be negative!!??!!??). Then, I was told I did it wrong, which was obvious, but the correct answer was a different set of negative numbers!!!!
I was asked if .05 is greater than 1, I said no.....again, I was somehow wrong.
Statistical analysis is stupid. I don't get it. I don't want to get it. I quit.
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the Super Nintendo came out in 1991, a number of kids who owned the original NES wanted it (no surprise), but a lot of parents were pissed at Nintendo and a number of parents put their kids in therapy(!!!!!). No, I'm not kidding. These parents put their kids in therapy because a new advanced console is out.
Okay, this is the first time these parents had to go through a hardware refresh of a video game system: "I spent hundreds on video games for my child and now I have to start over? No thanks!" But did these parents not experiencing upgrading their record collection to a CD collection? That required buying a new player!
My favorite quote: "And I'm going to explain to him how people market things to spend more money". Yeah, that's how a business works. By making products people (hopefully) want. And by making new, advanced products.
I can completely understand teaching kids "You know that toy that looks awesome in the ads. It's a terrible toy, just look at the reviews. Marketing is supposed to make terrible products look good".
And I can understand putting kids in therapy for more serious things like: stealing the parent's credit card to buy things, intentionally destroying a phone or car the parents bought them just so they will buy the kid the phone/car the kid really wanted. Not because new technology requires you to purchase a new system.
The word duality. I’ve read the definition and I’ve heard it in sentences but I just don’t understand the meaning or how to use it correctly in a sentence. I’m not sure why but this word is difficult for me to learn.
Why I’ve been disliked by so many my entire life. No this isn’t some “oh feel bad for me” type of thing because I truly don’t care anymore, I’ve grown to love being alone, I just genuinely cannot understand why I’m so unliked by most people I’ve come across. I know I can’t be the only person that’s felt this way.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How digital cameras take a photo and store it on a microchip. Its legit magic to me. We are like stopping time. I can wrap my head around old timey tech.. Like how we first started taking photos but cant figure out how that jumped to digital .
Video recordings are straight up witch craft to me lol
Like what the fuck am I doing with my life. One year I am a straight guy looking for an entry level programmer position. The next year I am a gay trans girl working at Walmart stocking produce. Is this what adulting is?
I forget which one, but either the first or second fundamental theorem of calculus and how it's used to solve calculus problems. Calc 2 was stupid hard. Calc 3? Was a breeze.
But yea, I missed a problem on the test using that theorem and the teacher showed me how to solve it and I'm still unknowing as to how to use it for any problem, including the one she solved for me
After reading a lot of replies, I don't understand how a human can't understand something. If it's properly explained and the person actually wants to learn, I can't figure out how they can't understand something.
Not everyone's brains are set up the same way. Like I know someone who's incapable of learning more than basic math. She wants to, and she's tried so many times, but her learning disability makes it impossible. Her brain simply doesn't make these connections.
I think that all brains have basic logic skills, and then if properly explained if someone can understand 1=1 then all maths can be explained based on it. I'm not talking about solving problems because you have to either REMEMBER or SOLVE the thing, but I think every healthy brain should UNDERSTAND it. Just to clarify I'm not an expert or whatsoever but that's what I think.
But what you think is based on your own experience, not that of others. And other people have brains that simply can't do things. There are things that you'll never be able to understand.
How people can be so stupid to believe any of the crap that spews from Trump's mouth. He's been proven a liar and a con man hundreds of times but people still believe Trump is going to make their $35,000 hillbilly asses rich. This is why public education sucks - dumb people are gullible people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CRISPR. Like you take some blood from someone and plug it into your computers USB, change a couple BRCCA’s around and then inject it back into someone and they won’t get a disease. How. The . F*%k?
How I’m pretty terrified of water but love pools& showers an baths-
Like I find water fascinating but when I go to like a lake I’m genuinely terrified of it but if I’m on a floaty often it’s okay but if not I feel good as dead- like wtf
It makes absolutely NO sense
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to hold normal conversations. Like when am I supposed to laugh or when is there. Double message? I was homeschooled and sometimes social situations go over my head. I learned as much as I could from books and tv but the actual practice usually leaves people uncomfortable in my presence. Not like I said soy wrong but like when you here a non-native speaker say a sentence that is technically right but hits the ear just a bit off.
When you confront them with: "Well..5G affects everyone and the "elites" as you call walk in the same area as we do, why would they be OK with getting cancer ? "
Their answer: "They get so much money they don't care "
Well then !
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just how hateful people are towards each other....
People. Like, in general. I'm autistic and what makes sense to me is alien to others, and what makes sense to others is absolute moon logic to me. It may as well be arbitrary what other people come up with and how they react to things for all the sense it makes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement. No matter how many modern physics classes, no matter how many quantum mechanics books and equations, it still boggles my mind that this, this thing can actually exist.
How anyone looks forward to going away to college. I dont understand how someone can enjoy living at a school and in most cases sharing a room with someone.
Empathy and sympathy. It makes no sense to me. People gave told me the differences many times but in real life situations I can't make a difference. Which do I use?
literally electricity... like in school i feel like we were taught the water cycle and how air moves and that stuff but wtf is electricity like is it just in our atmosphere and we tap it? is it created and or was it invented? was it found one day? i genuinely do not understand
How the fuck consciousness works. I don’t think anyone does. For instance, what if I took an exact copy of my brain and somehow put it into a robot. Like exact exact, right now. The robot would have all my memories and shit, but would I be in that robot? What would happen?
Why people let their whole outlook on their day be ruined by a small inconvenience that befalls them. Especially if that inconvenience is someone else’s actions that conflict with their unspoken expectations for the day.
How someone as grossly negligent, and as pathological when it comes to lying, as Donald John Trump can be President of the United States of America; and, after all he’s done (or failed to do), people still support him.
It just blows my mind that this is real. It’s almost like this is the part of the video game where the bad guys win temporarily and their brainwashed minions get all excited about it.
This will sound weird but I don't get probability. If something has a chance of happening, even if it's very small, then it might happen, right? So, in the end, everything always has a 50% chance of happening because either it will happen or not. I'm not trying to say probability is fake but I don't believe in it and I'm only half kidding.
While I understand how stupid people do, I genuinely do not understand how seemingly intelligent, rational people believe in God.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand love, and all the problems, the drama and the attachment, when you care about someone and then you dont....it makes me lose faith, sometimes I think that love in old times where so much more easy, a boy who fall in love with a girl and be together for ever, but now love is not easy at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the universe/space as a whole was made. I’m not just talking about the Big Bang, I’m talking about literally everything ever. Why was it created? How? I have like an existential crisis every time I think of this.
When you're mad and someone says "calm down". That's like putting 100,000,000 mentos into a volcano of cola. Also (and yes I know this sounds like grade a under a but he made a good point) when someone says that I tell them that if they can't calm down in 2 seconds after being told to calm down then they have no write to tell me to. Thank you for reading.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do cameras work?
nzchw · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When some guy is wearing a football shirt and gets a girl but when some one else is in a basketball shirt they don't get the girl. Totally didn't happen to me.
evtda · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact the you have a consciousness that you see through your own eyes but you can't see through other people's eyes. You can prove your own consciousness to yourself but can't to others.
People that don't have friends or respect people with different political beliefs. I'm not saying that militia-men should get along with communists or anything, but the amount of people that seem to think ~50% of their neighbors and countrymen are stupid or evil blows my mind.
I've seen people cut their loved ones out of their lives after they find out they have a different letter next to their name.
It's the sheer volume of commoners that legitimately believe the whole hodgepodge of cognitive dissonance while constantly moralizing over the supposed hypocrisy of others that is..
I don't understand why people believe in free will. Free will is an illusion. To have free will one must be able to choose any path at any time. Unfortunately, our choices are limited to the knowledge and experience we possess. One can not possibly choose a path they don't know exists, therefore they do not truly have free will. The will to choose from whatever set of options your personal experience and knowledge base allows perhaps, but that is still a limited set of options.
I genuinely don’t understand how any of my friends can stay in their relationship for over 4 years while I’m struggling to even have a stable relationship for a month. I just don’t understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry, I understand the basics at a surface level but getting by brain to understand it past that is difficult, maybe that’s why I went to law school. 😂
People who say the big “I Love You” within a couple of weeks of knowing someone. People who isolate their friends for the sake of their SO. People who get convinced into an open relationship when they’ve been strictly monogamous.
How stars can be light years away. Like what you’re seeing may not even exist anymore. I’ve had several people explain it and I still have zero comprehension of it.
I don't understand inflation. Like I literally understand that a nation taking the action of printing a bunch of money has the effect of the money losing value. What I don't understand is how the economy somehow knows that a bunch of extra money has been thrown into it and how the billions of different markets know to react by raising prices.
Why people in the school only care about being popular, going to parties, (i dont mind that tho) judging others and bullying just for more reputation. what is wrong with themmmmmmmmm.
Anyways, not everyone is like that just like three quarters of the whole school.
At what fucking point do you just mature? from being a kid
Like one week you'd be having fun and shit and the next some fucking teacher be like "stop acting like child" like "wow thanks Karen, I think it's time I just start paying taxes in Primary School"
Stocks and investments. I don’t understand anything. I don’t understand the “what’s in it for me” or the other people that do it. I have yet for some to explain it to me like an alien from another planet.
I'm always that weird kid since I was little, and when was about 19ish, I began to understand things about myself even more, and notice that I have a hard time understanding social situations, like for example, knowing and understanding the "air" around a certain situation (although I admit I started to understand this concept a few months back, now I'm 24). Because of this, I'm very oblivious about a lot of things, and how "things" work in my campus. I'm uncomfortable with most of the people there, but able to make few friends. Still in this journey of understanding myself further, and in process of crawling out of depression.
Why anyone trusts a single thing that ANY politician says. Why does nobody ever talk about how politicians are going to say anything needed to be said for their personal gain? It’s mind boggling that people actually listen to any of these clowns. I have lost all faith in the system
Cryptocurrency. I’ve had it explained to me probably 80 times and my brain just cannot connect A to B. Mining? From where? There’s a finite amount...? There are charts? Wat.
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Movie critics love to say "People are sheep! They like to watch [terrible mainstream movie that makes a ton of money] instead of [low budget movie that barely gets released]".
Look, people have heard of [terrible mainstream movie]. People have not heard of [low budget movie]. You can blame marketing for overhyping the mainstream movie. But I'm not going to see a movie that isn't released near me. I'm probably not going to see a movie if I've never heard of it! "You should research what movies come out". A lot of people don't realize you have to do that.
I don’t know if this is true to all people but the fact that I can see the numbers in the air that I’m using in an equation. Like I can be doing a multiple part problem and put some numbers to the side and do the other parts of the problem while the other numbers just stay there.
I really don’t understand how some people can get genuinely angry at another person. I can dislike someone or be pissed off, but there’s no hatred. I’ve never raised my voice at someone or never even thought of using physical violence against another person
Magnets. When I try to learn about how they work, I hit a wall of not understanding. They attract because they have a magnetic field. Yup, sounds good. And they have a magnetic field because..........WALL
Tattoos. Go ahead and downvote me. Why would someone permanently change their skin? Is there any purpose to it? If it's the process of getting the tattoo and the endorphin high from the pain, well go for a run or a hard workout. If you need a tattoo to remind yourself of a dead person or some life event you must have a poor memory. If it is because you think it looks "cool", well if it is not visible then no one sees how cool you are, and if it is visible, then it is as much of a social liability as a benefit.
How guys will pay for porn, or donate to twitch streamers and then get mad when they find out said streamer has a boyfriend/husband. It just boggles my mind
Is right and wrong real or did we make that up to keep everything sane. Is the word sane real because I’m starting to feel insane what is real and what isn’t HELP ME!
jj1042 · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How certain laws of the universe even exist. For example, chance. So many things in our lives and in nature are subject to chance, but why is chance even a thing that exists? What universal constant allows concepts such as chance to exist? If the Big Bang happened by absolute chance, what allowed for chance to exist in a place where reality as we know it didn’t exist?
Shit like this gets my mind turned inside out... I need to go play more Doom or something.
The universe....what is out there beyond Earth / whatever the fuck we’re floating in.. and how is it infinite... I just cannot fathom space when I really start to think about it
When I was younger and in school, if I was walking down a hallway full of people and felt that even one person was watching me I would forget how to walk normally. I'd literally have to stop and say to myself, "hey get your shit together, walk normal." But I probably looked like a zombie trying to blend in.
Radio waves. I have issues mentally visualizing abstract items. You show me a map and I can travel across states with no trouble, but try to 'tell' me to take certain roads and turn right gets me lost.
So the idea of radio waves, something that is not visual, befuddles me...and I really want to get a technical license for ham radios for my small BaoFeng radio I bought.
I have tried to work out how tides are affected by the moon so many times. I feel that my brain cells do work, but I can’t see in my mind how there are low and high tides.
The reason why anything exists to begin with. I sometimes ask myself why anything exists, is it because the universe exists? Like why is there a need for anything to exist instead of nothing existing? It's a little hard to explain but that's the jist of it.
Just like the music thread down below, how people can get so wound about not important crap. Example: I am giving my brother my old laptop with Xubuntu installed so hopefully he can't screw it up like his Windows machine. Also I have Xubuntu installed so I can tell him see this do this as I am doing this. Anyhow some other friend of his is getting way bent out of shape about him getting a Linux machine and how it sucks so bad. Gee guy its just an OS, it isn't a big deal.
Can we take a moment to appreciate what’s happening in this thread? People are teaching each other and learning. This is freaking heartwarming and I can’t stop scrolling lol
Why evangelicals (like me) tend to make blanket statements about everyone based solely on their own experience. For example: all men are struggling not to be sex fiends, while women don’t like sex. I can understand the mindset but the thing I don’t understand is why this seems so particularly prevalent in the church.
What happens after we die? Like something has to happen like if we go to heaven will we be there forever and will it be a cycle that never ends same with reincarnation.
How modern day pundits and politicians can say one thing on air, and then a few days later say the exact opposite (or deny ever saying the original statement). Are these people unaware that they're being recorded. Do they not know that we can go back and "check the tapes"? I guess they just don't care and I genuinely don't know why we let them get away with it.
My internal dialogues. They are scary sometimes. I don't get it whether I have a person inside who is controlling me like anything, forcing me to do things which I don't want to. For example, suppose I am going to help someone, then the inner dialogues will start functioning like "Yeah, you should help him. It will show everyone that you're a good person and blah blah blah" and that dilutes the thought of helping someone, even though when I don't want anything in return. It feels like I am doing anything to get something in return. Not only this, even though I don't want to answer anyone but my inner dialogues will start forcing me to respond otherwise it'll make me look bad in front of the other person. There are so many problems like this which I am not able to understand. Is it only me or it happens to most of the people?
Inflation...I know a good amount about economics, and know the theory behind inflation. But I don't know why it can just get totally out of control (e.g. Zimbabwe not so long ago).
How people can be so stupid and actually believe things like 5G causing the carona virus, and how some people in this day and age still think that vaccines cause autism.
Griffith made the basics a tiny bit easier but goddamn I thought I would get in something exciting, so I chose Quantum Mechanics. Feels like I’ve chosen the short straw. It’s like classical but adjusted, I need more time to try to comprehend this. I want it understand this but fucking hell! The abstraction is getting to me. Before exams.
I’m happy for the quarantine though, I now at least have some time before it’s back to pavilion.
Why people on Reddit think that anyone that they are morally superior to people just because of their opinion. Reddit unfortunately was made for circle jerking
How only fans girls make money. I don’t even have a problem with only fans, i just legitimately don’t understand why people pay for only fans (or even premium for sites) when they got the whole rest of the internet available. Why pay for a product that is readily available for free?
How computers / electronics work.
I've always learned WHAT each basic component does, i.e. bits and bytes and how ram stores memory and all that , but if I could take a microscope and literally look at what's happening on the circuit boards, what is even going on. How does ones and zeros end up being the backbone of a computer. What does storage even mean? How do computers "store" information? It's so confusing cuz all the answers online just leave it like that. They explain some electronic component of computers and conclude "that's how information and data is stored" on your computer. HOW??? haha
like I get there's a solar system in a galaxy in a universe, etc. but at some point you run out of names and explanations for what's beyond and, I know it's nearly impossible to answer but... wtf is out there?? like where is the end? what is the end? how could it possibly just end? but how could it go on forever?
How we can feel so still when we are in such a fast moving complicated universe.
- We live on a ball of rock that is spinning in space
- Earth is not only spinning but also travelling around a sun
- And our solar system is also travelling around the galaxy etc
Everything in space moving in a speedy circular complex dance, yet here I am in my living room watching a spec of dust fall in a beam of sunlight
gah514 · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how all animals of a species do certain things exactly the same, like dogs who kick dirt over their poop/urine or do that “will you play with me” bow. if humans need adults to teach us anything, how do animals all know to do these certain things?
How in the genuine fuck do shower thoughts happen? Like....how does washing your ass or letting the water just hit you cause an existential crisis in your head?
Do you ever wonder why the water has to be at a certain temperature for it to feel right when you take a shower? It’s because your brain is like “hey if this temperature of water hits me then I’ll find the cure to cancer” so your body’s like “ok that would be cool” and then ten seconds later your contemplating what the meaning of life is.
I've been taught it by 4 different teachers I've taken a hand full of online courses in it and I still don't understand it.
I can do fluid dynamics fine enough, I have a great under standing of physics, and I'm a natural at anything hands on but the moment you ask me the angle of a triangle my brain just freezes and I have a break down.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have synesthesia, specifically chromesthesia, grapheme-color synesthesia, and some ordinal-linguistic personification. (Look it up if you’re not familiar with synesthesia)
I genuinely cannot imagine what it’s like to not see colors when you hear sound. I don’t understand how the letter S isn’t smoky, yellow-ochre, soft as velvet and coyly feminine for other people. It’s hard to imagine each song not having its own colors and movements and textures. What is it like not to have thoughts that smell like licorice? It’s very foreign and quite frankly odd to me that most people live without the colors I have. I know the why of it, of course - I have a rare neurological condition that most people don’t have, so on and so forth. But I just can’t imagine a part of people’s worlds being so... blank compared to mine. It’s not something I’m able to picture.
kwhugh · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is space? How we all come from a big bang from nothingness. Also, where do the bang came from? If the big bang created a space as we know it, where did the big bang was before it happen?
Why I can’t read anything without internal dialogue, and how others have asked me who I’m talking to when I’m having internal dialogue with myself about something and I’m not opening my mouth.
TL;DR Having internal thoughts/dialogue when you aren’t opening your mouth, but people come up to me and ask who I’m talking to.
EsVaHo · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does anyone believe you can change sex? Baffling.
Basic algebra. I have the highest scores of Language Arts, Reading, Social Studies, and one of the highest in science in my class; but I don’t understand simple equations.
How we are alive.
Everything we create have to be powered in some way. Batteries, solar power, momentum, electricity, etc. How the hell are we alive? Sustainability is solely based on air and food (simplification obviously). But, like from an embryo, our organs are formed and our heart just somehow autonomously beats rhythmically. It beats until the day we die. What kinda sorcery...
How electricity just makes electronics work and what electricity even is. I cannot for the life of me understand how a generator creates energy that powers things to just work. It boggles my mind completely.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
It blows my mind. I cannot understand how derivatives turn into areas or rates and it is beyond frustrating, maybe I’m not trying hard enough, but I’m taking it for the third time and I might make it this time.
How currency works in an economy as something of monetary value. How a country can be in debt and still function. There's a lot about economics that I don't really understand
How we're told by the media we have to listen to a 16 year old on the climate and how we're all gonna die, but when multiple countries and doctors find a cheap way to treat Wuhan Flu we're told we can't trust them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Protons and neutrons being the building-blocks of everything.
One proton is hydrogen. Alright, sure I guess. I can understand that if I think that basically a proton is a little bit of hydrogen. Two protons and two neutrons is helium. Alright, sure I guess, since I don't really know what a neutron is. Some protons plus some neutrons is helium, apparently. If you say so!
But then you're telling me I add one more proton and one more neutron and now it's a fucking metal called lithium?! And you're telling me if I took two helium atoms (two protons and two neutrons is one atom) and smashed them together the result is some bullshit metal called beryllium? How the FUCK does that work?!
I don't buy it. Something doesn't add up. I'm a chemistry truther. There must be something else going on that They don't want us to know about it. /s
Yesterday I was counting my fingers, and then I realized that I can’t count to 10. I have 10 fingers and I know that because I can count. Just not on my fingers, 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 10 where the fuck did 9 go
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't genuinely how to chill out and not work all the time
How im alive. Like how cells... work? Im just a bunch of little atoms shooting electricity at each other and making things happen but how?!? How do they make ME? How can i move and think and act. Like i kinda understand plants and fungi and small single cell organisms but i don’t understand how we have instincts and thoughts and momorys and “free will” i don’t get it!!!!
How anyone would possibly want to live in a socialized state . It makes me really sad that so many young people believed in Bernie . Please look into the massive amounts of failed socialized governments thought old and recent history and . You see The thing about socialism is you eventually run out of other people's money.
The shit I see on acid. Also the stuff people see on DMT. Life for the most part makes sense with science. Then I take psychedelics and I’m like, what the fuck was that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the brain can make us really like someone, or love someone, without our permission or conscious decision, then have us/them stop liking us/them or fall out of love sometimes without rhyme or reason, leaving us then to consciously grieve and hurt.
Where we are and who we are.
Think about this. No matter what God you believe in or where you're from, we all are on this planet Earth together. A biological form we call "humanoid" that adopted different cultures and languages and intelligence - living and dying on this round planet seemingly floating in this enormous universe. We don't even know what we know about what's out there. We discovered a form of communication to explain the physics of how the world works through the medium of mathematics, which could be totally differently interpreted on some alien planet.
Like why are we here? Why on a globe? What is before life? Looking at all the creation around me, I believe in a Creator. I can't fathom the idea that everything just exists because it does - popped out of thin air. Someone/some God had to create this. We often question the idea of "the meaning of life" it gets so cliche. But have we thought about the idea "life" itself?? Like what is the end goal to this Earth and the human race ?
I just realized after writing this there could be many answers - there is a biblical answer no doubt. Ig I just wanna hear your guys thoughts.
Why a supposedly advanced and "great" country like the USA cannot provide enough tests to find out who has the coronavirus? Without knowing who has it, how are we going to transition from stay-at-home?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fathers who want to be in their children’s lives are constantly shit on in Family Courts, and when fathers who don’t are catered to by the same Courts.
Pwnch · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can own a home, raise 5 kids, have 3 cars, a boat, 3 dogs and a wife and do this all in the wage of a forklift driver. Debt?
People who abuse animals. I just can’t begin to understand how they can possibly bare it. Animals feel and know more than we do but somehow some people see them as a lower life form or something. We’re all the same just different species.
Why exactly I give up on learning something because I can't understand it's concepts down to the littlest detail that isn't even relevant to using the skills efficiently.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of actually being dead, unconscious forever, and the fact that our reality may not become anything further once we die.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does League of Legends work? I genuinely don’t understand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black people. Why put thugs, drugs, and sex on a pedestal when you could just not do that and have a good wife and kids?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The commonly accepted idea is that... it’s... complicated. Firstly you have to recognize that space and time aren’t separate, but instead the two sides of the same coin. That’s what Einstein talked about with relativity. In other words there are four dimensions (three spatial, and one temporal), and they all interact with each other. So, changing one will change the others.
We know this to be true because the ISS has to set their clocks to run slowly because of this issue.
At the beginning there was no space, and therefore no time. So the idea of “before” the Big Bang really doesn’t make much sense.
Some have the idea that the universe goes through an infinitely repeating cycle of expansion and retraction to an infinitely small point.
Again it’s complicated (a lot more complicated then I can explain, or even grasp fully), but it’s really interesting when you get into it if you want.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m studying computer science at university but I have no idea how I got into my course because I in studying computing science for 5 years at high school I never got passed the simplest of programs, I can’t write arrays I struggle with ifs and loops and sorting algorithms besides a bubble sort seen like trying to write in an alien language and I haven’t the faintest idea how to write them or how they work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our existence as a whole. How did everything come into existence? How long has the process of time been going on? What happens if time stops? What happens after we die? The best part is, entire wars have been fought over religion which ties into this whole thought process.
Think of it like an alligator mouth and it only wants to eat the larger number. You always read the equation from left to right, so whichever way the "mouth" is open towards is how you interpret it.
Example:
8 > 2 = 8 is greater than 2
or
2 < 8 = 2 is less than 8
Getting banned from Instagram Reality. Are we supposed to be only nice? Honestly, tell me where I can go to be a little petty, snarky but still within the bounds of normal behavior.
I don’t understand why the dark web isn’t regulated.
How can the surface web stay under regulation by the FBI and the government but the deep web can’t. I know things on the dark web are encrypted and are meant to be hard to shutdown permanently or find the culprits that put bad sites up, but I feel like it’s a feasible task. Is it just to difficult to handle for the FBI and our governments or is it just not worth it in the long run because it doesn’t pose much of a threat?
Illegal operations are typically done in cash. Large amounts of cash can't be actually used without tipping off authorities.
You have a legit business that operates in cash (bar, casino, strip joint etc). You then begin to filter in your ill gotten cash and make fake receipts as proof of purchase. This allows you to then pay taxes and make it seem like you're business is very lucrative. You end up with less after taxes, but it is "clean" money that can be used without the authorities wondering where it came from
Magnets... Like I've read the textbook definition of how they work and I still can't understand how something can repel something else with something that's completely invisible.
Someone please answer my post I’m new it’s my first post and idk how to get people to see it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-Binary/Transgenders.
I mean, they just decide not to be the gender they were born with and they're that gender? How does that work? Non-Binary genders make even less sense, for example: Demi-boy/Demi-girl, meaning you are partially boy/girl. That makes no sense, what's the other part? Is it nothing? I mean people are "Identifying" as downright random things.
This may not be on here but how people thing certain things are normal and right. Like when your abused but it’s happened to you your whole life so you think it’s normal. Or when you hear yelling all the time and you think that’s how the world works until you get on the outside .
Because that's their baseline for normality. You're comparing their experience to your own without shifting the frame of reference. It's relative normality
How colorblind people know what colors they are seeing when they see them for the first time, specifically with the glasses that help colorblind people see colors. Like if someone is completely colorblind (they can only see in B&W), and they use the glasses, how do they know what color they are seeing?
Mathmeticians (like the creators). Taking Calculus 3 and at this point I'm wondering how the hell somebody figured this shit out in the first place. I'm still struggling through solving problems with detailed instructions at hand, but some of the proofs and concepts are really impressive. The type of intelligence it must have taken to develop the proofs and methods for for integrals, limits, etc, before the concept was ever even invented just blows my mind.
Calc 3 if you’re talking about multi variable seemed a natural extension of the first two courses just applied to more dimensions. The first courses are what impressed me and more specifically second semester calc which imo is the big conceptual jump and the hardest for students to wrap their head around. Then differential equations is another leap.
Leibniz and Newton did some badass work but the concept of infinitesimals came before them, it was just shunned and not considered serious work iirc. The history of mathematics is a really cool story that everyone should learn.
I genuinely don’t understand why people follow Trump like a Svengali. Why they dismiss his insane antics and shady dealings. I literally can’t understand it
Full blown carnivore here, but plants are living beings too. By your assertion, no one should be eating plants either. A better position might be the suffering in living beings to satisfy ones taste buds. To that I have no answer. Some might troll and claim that plants suffer too, but if I trim the weeds, they’re not gone forever, they’re back in 2 weeks.
It's like an external hard drive. Except instead of plugging it into your computer, it's in a server rack in a warehouse somewhere. So you upload it to the internet and it gets stored there and you can access it from anywhere
The internet is just a series of tubes lol. You're over thinking it. Cloud storage is an external hard drive on the internet is the basic answer to your original statement
Cameras. None of the individual components “see”. So why do adding things together suddenly create sight, let alone the ability to capture an image/color. That’s like adding blue, blue, and blue together and expecting to get red.
How conciousness functions. We humans have conciousness and other animals have conciousness, but what allows us to be conscious exactly? Could a plant or computer attain conciousness? What can and cant be conscious? There have been reports of twins sharing feelings and pain, is that a form of shared consciousness? I have so many questions...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroverts.
I just do not get the need for interaction. I just don’t get it.
I don't understand how people can be straight and/or cis. I'm a total queerdo but it really blows my mind that other's aren't at least a little like me. I've dated so many men who claim to be strictly straight but I'm not a woman (or a man) so how are you straight if you're attracted to both women and non-women? How can you be a monosexual gay if you date men and non-men? My best guess is that it's a failure of language and education but I really can't wrap my head around the concept
I genuinely don’t understand why parents do not love their children or disown them if they’re gay/lesbian. Like I don’t care what you do with your life, you’re my child and I will love you matter what.
How the fuck we have such fucking terrible people who win primaries for President of the U.S, the last couple of elections, damn man.
We GOTTA have someone better than the choices we got from both sides of the aisle, when George Bush looks like he had class compared to anyone in the forefront you know we are fucked man.
As simple as it may seem, its actually kind of wierd when you think about it. There is no difference between sleeping or just laying down in terms of energy waste, and your brain actually does more because it has to keep you alive while you are unconscious.
Sexual love. How can two people start to like each other more than anyone and even have sex? I know it exists, but truly cannot understand it. I'm aromantic asexual, and it's not something you can ask to other people.
How different modes/keys or styles of music portray emotions. Like you hear the music and say, "this makes me sad" or "this is energetic" or whatever.
I get the immediate why; the way it impacts our brain and all.... but if you keep asking the why of the why, it's just wack. Like really, why does this lyric-less melody make me cry? Music is crazy powerful.
Electricity. I get the flow of electrons, AC vs DC, finger-touches-prongs-equals-pain (I'm a learn by doing kind of guy) but past a certain point my caveman brain says "just accept it's witchcraft."
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope I am not too late to the party, but I do not understand economic crises. I mean, where is the money? The economy has slowed down because people are not spending money because they do not have money. Well, where is the money?
how the fuck advertising works!?!? Maybe I'm just a full blown anti-consumerist but it seems to be that interrupting what ever I'm doing and enjoying to shove your product down my face Is a great way to get me to NOT buy your product!
I don't understand how people pay a premium for the exact or lesser quality item just because it has a famous name on it. Bag made by Mary is $10 but a bag made (licensed) by Mary Moviestar is $500. If you buy the more expensive bag, color yourself pathetic.
Death,
I understand as much as the next person. However, it truly freaks me out and keeps me up. It’s almost like an obsession I have. Wondering why, how, when. The thought of dying. Leaving my kids and wife. It brings me to paranoid panicky state. From here I end up taking quick escalated breaths and turn myself into a real time panic attack. Now I can’t figure those out.
I just don’t understand how one minute you’re here and the next minute you could not be? It is absolutely terrifying to me.
Capoeira... I've tried to gain an understanding but it still looks like my nephews play fighting after just having watched ninja turtles for the first time.
I have never understood the apparent desperate need some people have to have biological children. I dont mean just the ones that spend money and time and go through all the hoops to have kids if they are infertile. I mean anyone that has ever said that they cant wait to have kids. I dont get it.
Yes I have kids, and I love them like crazy,, but I never actively tried to get pregnant.
Why gaming businesses feel skill based matchmaking will be the future of gaming... what happened to the days where if you genuinely practiced to get better you had the right to be, well, the best.
(Businesses like
Epic - Fortnite
Respawn - Apex Legends
Activision - Call of Duty Modern Warfare
Riot Games - Valorant
The origin and fate of the universe; God (I’m a Christian I’m just very confused); straight people (from the very little I’ve seen on TV straight sex seems really painful)
Correct singing technique. Like, breathe from my diaphragm? I try to, but it feels like I get way less of a breath and I feel like I'm suffocating, but when I breathe with my chest, I feel like I'm overflowing with air and it feels way better. I just don't get it :(
Daylight saving time...why does it have to exist? imma head out, cause I feel so stupid
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How video games are even possible. The fact that programming leads to a visual and manipulatable thing with all these colours and imagery it baffles me. Like, number and shit caused that. How is that possible???
My wife on any given day, especially right now as she talks about a mysterious "clothes bin" and how it's "half done".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crowdfunding is better than the Lottery.....but Americans are so greedy they cant see that we can make the USA great again is we started Crowdfunding in a more responsible manner.
Why USA likes Guns so much? Its almost like a love affair with guns.I am 30 years old and I have never seen a real gun in my entire life!!
I just can't imagine going for a school or a movie or a club and getting shot . How can you live with that constant tension?? How can yall even go out???
Probably starting from 2008 on to now. We print dollars, create and monetize debt that will never be paid off, live with new zero percent interest rates and some how the market goes up.
Humans have been around for about 200,00 years (according to Google). Where the hell was I that entire time? What is it like to not exist? We have no concept of life before we exist, so what will it be like afterwards if there is no afterlife?
This relates to another thing: I don't remember anything from when I was a baby, so it's like it never happened from my perception. How am I aware of all this right now if years from now I will have no memory of it either?
And how can a man (Jesus) die for their sins? Some might say how dare u say a man?! But hey, he came for lost sheep of Israel and even they didn’t take him as a God
I don’t understand if when you commit a crime and hire a lawyer, do you have to tell your lawyer the crime you committed or if they know they can’t represent you.
Wow, so defence lawyers know when a horrific crime has been committed and their job is to convince a bunch of people that their client is innocent. What a way to earn a living.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra and Calculus. I went through all the classes in high school and college but still don’t know how to apply it to actual real life scenarios.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, I just get to the point of repeating illogical, illogical, illogical and turn into Spock when I try to understand it.
It just won't fit in my head I can understand wanting to lie to yourself so it makes life easier but I don't seem able to do it and I know it would probably make life easier to think there is an external power controlling things but I can't even start to begin to understand it.
The double slit experiment and its implications in the real world. Life is like a box of possibilities. You dont know what your gonna get until you measure it.
Cameras. When the person looks at the picture, it looks great, high quality, then when a person looks at the original thing without the camera, it just looks depressing.
The whole concept that if you are on a train going the speed of light, and you run from the back to the front of it, you are still NOT going faster than the speed of light......... I'M SORRY, HOW TF AM I NOT?
how and why trump’s supporters look passed his “just grab em by the pussy” remarks. not just “citizen” supporters, those in government positions as well. is that acceptable to them? do they just look passed it? i’m just not able to see the bigger picture, and maybe i’m not meant to, but it really just doesn’t make sense.
Why is dinner the hardest meal to figure out? My spouse and I run into this nonstop. Breakfast lunch and snacks seem to be easy or just whatever you're in the mood for but figuring out dinner is a beast
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we capture photos/film. I've read about it and it still absolutely baffles me. We are literally taking what we currently see and capturing it forever.
The time travel paradox from Endgame. Everytime I watch it, I know lose more and more of my imaginary grasp of it.
Most recent thought- Thor takes his hammer from his old self after talking with his mom- wouldn’t that ill-equip that time’s Thor and change how he interacted with Hela?
And then...if they return the stones to when/where they got them wouldn’t there be other Thanos running around in different years, like a 2010 Thanos instead of a 2014 (second Thanos that gets snapped).
Brain hurt. Dumb dumb. Halp!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of things. I can read about it and people can explain it but I still can’t really understand it. It’s like I can regurgitate the information but it means little. Mostly things like how a electronics works, the stock market, math equations, economics Ect
How light travels through a medium, like it’s always said that like from air to glass or something, light slows down in the medium, now what I don’t understand is if it is actually slowing down, or if it is constantly ricocheting against the atoms, therefore through the medium it appears slowed down, but is it really just traveling a farther distance that seems like it’s slowing down, or is there a wave interaction that actually slows down light, I understand what’s happening on the outside, but really confused on the inside.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that, even with all the moral development and science in the world, people still believe in right wing ideologies. we're supposed to evolve, not devolve, idiots.
How such a huge airplane that weighs who knows how much can glide in the air across thousands of miles and deliver passengers safely to their destinations.
This annoys people when I bring it up, but how our bodies are 70% water, I know it means H20, but isn’t that just water, and there is hardly any water in us, skin isn’t water, it’s skin, same with bones...
Water is a main component of intracellular fluid and extracellular fluid (blood plasma, lymph fluid, interstitial fluid, spinal fluid), so every cell in the body contains and is bathed in an aqueous solution
Like how to solve them is basically to find every way not to directly compute it (Cauchy's formulas and deformation of paths). I have no idea what I'm doing.
"Rightside-Up." If it's not upside-down, then the object in question is vertical; therefor, the right is facing space.
...
Yes! I know "Right" has another definition, but I'll take the rest of my night to consider the term Downside Up or Upside Up when the object in question is up the right way. You may proceed to laugh at my stupidity.
How two pieces of paper doubles 100 times would create a stack of paper 13 billion light years long? Sorce
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reditt users think an up or down vote is how the world views success....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Percentages
Like here's an example
A plane has a 1/10 chance of crashing
There are lots of planes that take off every day
The plane doesn't know if I'm the 1st of 10th
Just wondering why I haven't won the Powerball yet.
I don't understand how people can go out of their way to be so shitty to each other. From little things as just saying crappy things, to stealing and murder. For supposedly having such big brains, it doesn't seem to have elevated us much beyond basic monkeys.
Well on a vinyl record it's actually a needle that vibrates up and down as it cuts a groove. The vibrations represent the sound wave so it's cutting a replica of it in to the record. Record players reproduce the vibrations by running a needle along the groove and as it goes over the "hills" the signal is translated in to an electrical one and then a sound wave at the speaker.
Take a breathe and relax. This isn't a question needed while alive, but if I had to give an idea. I would say your reality changes. You live on, but in a different reality. Your thoughts will be somewhere else. Until (If you believe in Jesus) then I guess you wait to be brought back to life after the end of the world.
chavs2 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the the leader boasting on twitter about his tv ratings during a pandemic that has already killed 20,000 AMERICANS wasn't removed from office. Thats more than:
9/11,
soldiers the Iraq war and Afghanistan,
police and firefighters killed on the job since 2001,
Bengazi
If we can’t describe it in language it does not exist. We are unable to describe (for example:) color “Blue” without using any examples or reference.
What are such concepts that we don't understand because we don't have vocabulary for it.
Death. Shit terrifies me. What happens after? Do we know we're dead and just exist in nothingness for eternity? Do we not understand what's happened and are just gone? Sometimes I think about it too much and I start freaking out. The thought of literally nothing forever makes me sick. Boredom is my biggest enemy and that sounds like eternal boredom...
When people ask to borrow money in huge sums and have no intention if paying it back. It should be a given that they'll need to pay it back to that person who lent it to them, especially cuz a huge sum of money is hard to forget about; it's noticeable. And they have the audacity to not feel any guilt, and be upset when they're asked when they can pay that money back. Which means they had no intentions of paying it back ever. I... I truly don't understand that.
How someone just one day decided it was fathomable to produce a moving image across a braided wire to a screen and that it would work. Like, did people think he was a nut job back then?
Like someone did it with the telephone before then. And that was crazy. But then someone was like “f*** it, watch this.” And people literally did. Just seems crazy to me.
Why people smoke cigarettes, my grandpa died from them a couple years back and after that I genuinely do not understand why. Idk if its just cuz I’m a kid or if you get a high from it or something but it just seems dumb.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The speed of light being a universal speed limit. I just don’t understand how there can be a speed limit to the universe.
I once heard an analogy and it fucked with my brain, and still does. Two trains are traveling opposite directions towards eachother, and both trains are going the speed of light. If a passenger in either train looks out the window, the other train would appear to be going the speed of light relative to themselves, even though you would expect the relative speed to be 2c.
I love physics, but I just can’t grasp how the speed of light works. I’ve put a good amount of study into quantum physics and engineering just because I want to beat the speed of light. I simply cannot accept it, and I hate things that don’t make sense, so either I need to understand it, or I need to prove it wrong, otherwise it’ll bother me my whole life.
My father, FIL, MIL, grandfather, and Aunt. They all think 'Mexicans' and Black people are 'less than'. How two of those people hate Jews. How two different people hate Chinese, Japanese, and people they 'assume' to be Japanese or Chinese but can't actually name any other countries that have the people they hate so call them all by one of two racist terms.
I honestly, genuinely can not understand how they could all be so incredibly racist and not have the self awareness to realize that people are people. And should each be judged upon their own character.
...Mexicans is in quotes because its the only country any of them seem to think exists south of MURICA.
Why am I me? Why do I see through these eyes? Why am I inside this body, and not another? Why am I not that guy over there? Why was I not a guy in 1802? Why did the universe decide to use my consciousness in this body at this moment in time?
Why?
Calls puts and strike price. I've watched so many videos for "dummies " and still just over my head. I understand regular training. I'm very new to this whole thing. I've recently been placing limit orders for boeing, southwest, United airlines, and disney. But outa and calls. No fucking idea.
How do quantum computers works?
It's based on principles of quantum entanglement, which is so hard to understand for me. Furthermore, how can you apply that concept to computers???
The square root of -1. All the math stuff makes perfect sense, everything fits, except the square root of -1. So, we will all just agree to call that an "imaginary number" and move on. Any questions?
The stock market. Like, how in the hell... what in the hell... what the hell IS a stock? I’ve looked it up... but for the life of me can’t figure it out. Maybe it’s just not worded for a dumb person like me.
My husband and I just got into it. He’s loving it, he clearly understands what the hell it all is. I’m to afraid to ask him, even though I know he’s probably the only person who can explain it in a way I DO get.
I’ll be 35 this month... and it’s a huge thing that confuses me still.
I don’t understand why some cities just hate homeless people. I’m talking about when they install those benches that you can only sit on, or make it so you can’t sleep under bridges. You’re still a person who deserves to be treated with respect whether you can buy a house or not. Are you going to tell me that people who lost their homes during the Great Depression aren’t people just because they can’t afford a house? I honestly just don’t get it.
How people can grow up without critical thinking. I’ve visited multiple countries on many continents in my life and I’ve seen entire societies where no one seems to be critically asking the “hard” questions. How does that happen? Who started it in that society? How does one fix it?
What's after the universe? My brain can't comprehend the idea of the universe being infinite and neverending, because well, how? The idea of infinity entirely overwhelms me
How people on Reddit can’t understand that they are as much in an echo chamber as conservatives. Article after article full of anonymous sources and spin and they eat it up and act like the other side is brainwashed. You are all brainwashed idiots, conservatives included.
I know this is really controversial, but I really want to know; Why does anyone follow that guy. I need to have someone explain it to me without yelling.
deisle · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetic flux
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok. My Achilles heel here - I am a physics major but it just boggles my mind about how can clouds stay suspended in the air and cause rain. Scientists estimate that one inch of rain falling over an area of one square mile is equal to 17.4 million gallons of water. That much water would weigh 143 million pounds! How does all that moisture stay elevated in the air in a coherent cloud??
edosi · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, as a darkskin, I genuinely don’t know why darkskin is considered inferior or ugly in general society (on women, but also men too in some places). Like how did it become this thing that keeps people from having jobs in certain countries, or bullied and teased? It’s just melanin and no one asks to be born a certain way, plus darkskin is super pretty to me. I don’t get it.
How an E6B flight computer works. I’ve had it explained a dozen times and watched a bunch of videos but I just don’t get it. If someone is showing me how it works I can follow along, but I can’t do it on my own.
The economy and how money works. I’m a licensed history teacher (and having a basic understanding of economics is part of that—and my understanding is the bare minimum) but I genuinely don’t understand how it works. It’s a human developed system, why can’t we just create more money or drop debt?
why younger people smoke. I’m a millennial, and people at least in my age range and below have known from the very beginning that smoking is terrible for you and anyone else who can inhale that crap around you. so why do young people smoke????
_Odin- · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don’t understand how the vast majority (99.999....%+) don’t get “It”. No specifics necessary, just “It”. Fucking mind blowing, OMG, holy shit, wtf, how do you not get “It”?!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “It” is fucking insane, as in “How are you still breathing?...” that kind of “WTF”. I’ve explained “It”, numerous times, in complete detail, all “i’s” dotted, every “t” crossed, decimals to the “googleplex”, and it still escapes them. Yet, they still breath, manage to “function” (if even at the most basic level of “survival”). How, on Gods green Earth, do these mouth breathers make it through the night?!
... and then “Modern Science/Health Care”/Gov Assist/... “Social Wellf...”.
Supposedly, if we took out all the blood vessels in the average human body and laid them end to end individually, they'd cover about 60,000 miles...similarly, our lungs are said to have over 1500 miles worth of airways in them. I understand how tiny blood vessels (and bronchioles) can get, but still...it's almost incomprehensible that the numbers are that high for something that is stored in the human body.
That blind people don't see blackness. They see nothing. I once had it explained to me like this: Imagine what's directly behind you. You know there's stuff there, you just can't see it and you don't know what it looks like. That's what blind people 'see'.
People. It has taken me 20 years of thought to conclude there are people that are completely alien to me. Completely indecipherable. Of course, a serial psychotic like Ed Gein (think Leatherface/Texas Chainsaw Massacre) is going to strain the mind to understand his mental clockwork but I’ve come to accept that much much more benign and albeit normal average humans are absolutely foreign to me. Now I’ve discovered if that says more about me or them. Thoughts?
Difference between Present perfect tense and Simple past tense, English does not make any sense in many ways to foreigner. (I am Czech guy living in Canada for couple of years, but this thing sets my brain on fire)
I mean I get this part hypoteticaly, put if we put it in conversations, it does not make much sense to me, in Czech we have only past, present and future, nothing else. So Perfect simple, perfect, continuous etc. Is hard to put in my head and do flawless conversations
I Genuinely don't understand how people can so easily be 2 faced. In front of you they're one person, but behind your back in the presence of another they will trash your name and everything you stand for.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking math classes, it seems that the fucking core concepts change in every version of math and what works before is incorrect now
There is a section of the city I live in, a stretch of street (it's a major street) that runs north/south. Super easy. I can not for the life of me recall where it starts or ends, any businesses on the street, where the other major streets cross it, or where to turn off it to turn onto my friend's side street until I'm actually on it. Once I'm driving down it I'm g2g. But I can't fathom it's route or layout any other time. I've lived in this city for about 20 years.
My brain maps are useless out of context. I know how to get to certain places from certain places, but can’t plan my route or join any of my maps together if I need to go between two places I wouldn’t usually travel between
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreaming, why do I do it? Do I need to? Can they mean anything? Why is it I’ve had dreams of events of the future that have come true? Though they are small events, is my dreaming just a calculation of possibility?
If dreaming is possible and anything is possible in the universe, have i dreamed of something that has already happened? Is time linear? Is our universe just some donut of time and Space where the center is everything and the out side is nothing with us being the possibility in the center?
How people manage to learn -and converse, in more than one language.
I loved the idea of learning other languages than my own, I took French when I went to secondary school (aged 11 for those who are not from the UK!) and I really really wanted it to work! It was another 5 years of lessons and 4 separate French teachers in that time before we were able to drop it, I scraped a C but only because the exams were pretty predictable and if you were prepared to learn photographic-memory style *raises hand!* it was possible to just about scrape through. Most of my class were As and Bs and all of my other exams were A*-B; Art, Maths, Music...etc but not French :( I still wish I had the ability, it wasn't for want of trying, I just didn't get it. Not with French or any other language :(
What really impresses me though is when you find little kids who are like 4 or 5 and fully bi or tri-lingual and able to converse and often translate so that mummy can understand what the teacher/Doctor/etc has said. Blows my mind! Then they go study something else altogether because they loved something else far more. Amazing skills they seem to have taken for granted. I wish I had a fraction of those skills!
Option trading. I get buy puts if u wanna make money on a stock going down and buy calls for a rising stock but how does holding an option make you money? Especially for puts.
ezt93 · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.. I understand that we are a complex organisms made of atoms and billions of year of evolution. But I can't understand why we are conscious of ourselves and have "freewill"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our propensity to make decisions that could potentially destroy our life. I.e. making choices to be with certain friends or selecting a partner that we know only causes chaos within us, or using a substance that we know will harm us, yet we do so anyway.
Let's start with air bubbles in water. The water is denser (heavier for the same volume) than the air, so the water above the air bubble falls down around the air bubble, displacing it, causing the bubble to rise.
Water is also denser than ships, so the ship cannot displace enough water to sink much like the air bubble can't.
The shape of the wings of airplanes combined with the speed causes higher air pressure under the wing and lower air pressure above the wing causing lift.
If I wanted to add them, I have to make it so their denomenators (bottom numbers) are the same.
Looking at 2/3 I see the denominator is 3 and I can turn it into a 6 if I multiply it by 2.
But I don't want to actually change the quantity that 2/3 represents so I also have to multiple the numerator (top number) by 2.
In other words, I am performing 2/2 * 2/3. 2/2 is another way of saying 1 because any numbet divided by itself is 1, and 1 multiplied by any number is that number. That is why the quantity is not changed. 2/2 * 2/3 is the same as 1 * 2/3
But it makes it look different. 2/2 * 2/3 = 4/6
4/6 and 2/3 represent the same quantity, just like 4 quarters and 1 dollar do.
So I have managed to represent 2/3 in a way that gives me a denominator of 6.
That is actually the lowest number I can get the denominators to have in common.
I can now perform 2/3 + 5/6 = 4/6 + 5/6 = 9/6. That can be reduced but I will leave it.
A trickier one.
1/3 and 1/5
I can't find an integer that makes a 3 a 5 or a 5 a 3 but multiply the denominators together will give me 15.
Or rather, following the previous method, 5/5 * 1/3 and 3/3 * 1/5 gives me 5/15 and 3/15
5/15 is another way of representing 1/3 and 3/15 is another way of representing 1/5
15 is the lowest number I could make the denominators have in common.
Social norms and such.
I have brain damage due to a birth defect, I'm lucky to have overcome as much as I have. But I'm socially retarded and need rules explained to me in painful detail. Basically autistic symptoms without the autism.
I've learned certain forms of sarcasm and can sorta indentify it now, but social behaviours still perplex me despite knowing the basic guidelines.
Another aspect of social behaviour that confuses me is how people can understand words. How does everyone not just hear it as a bunch of nonsense sounds that require internal translation?
My approach to combating that is to memorise as many words as I can, such as spelling, meaning, contextual usage, and grammar rules. It helps, but if I'm not actively focused on what you're saying, you may as well be making velociraptor noises at me.
Imagine this.
Random person: dirka dirka dirka
Me: you want me to shoot little Timmy?
Random person (active focus engaged): no, i asked you to turn the kettle on...
Me: oh, why didn't you say so?
I cannot understand how both good, and bad, can exist in someone. If I find out something bad about a person, I automatically think they are all bad.
This isn't entirely my fault. I have borderline personality disorder, and that is one of the symptoms. Unfortunately, this has led me along a lonely path.
I always wonder to myself whenever i walk home how language was created and how people were able to decide what was what in a different fucking language like wtf??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm having such a tough time answering this question.
The allure of video games & gambling. I get that other people like or are addicted, but personally genuinely feel nothing compelling about the activities.
On Earth, the higher from the ground an object is ,(assuming the pull of gravity is constant...it isn't really but we can ignore this) the more potential energy it has. For example, a ball on top of a 100ft building has more potential energy than a ball on top of a 50ft building. Drop the ball off the building and the potential energy is converted to kinetic energy. The ball dropped from the 100ft building will hit the ground with more kinetic energy than the ball dropped from the 50ft building, meaning it will be going faster at impact.
Voltage is the electrical version of potential energy and the "balls" are electrons.
Amperage is the unit of current...the flow of electrons. It's like velocity but instead of distance per unit time, it's charge per unit time. More specifically coulombs per second.
Watts is energy per unit tome, more specifically joules per second. It's better known as power. It's the amount of work done in a period of time.
The generator rotor has a magnet surrounded by coiled wire. The magnetic field is created by unpaired electrons in the magnet, which have small repulsive forces against other electrons. All the small fields in the magnet create a larger field capable of repulsing electrons in the wire coil as it spins. The flow of electrons in the wire moves electrical energy down the line so it can be used somewhere else.
Yeah, I have to think about shit that nobody knows that I've done but me, Do I tell anybody or do I keep this, All to myself for the rest of my fucking life.
How the Universe began. Even if there was a Big Bang then what created that to happen? Not talking religion or anything else but how did the first piece of matter begin??
A man who wants to synergize with a woman and show his intentions by doing things(trying to be handy, ) and being conventionally traditional about courting, while expressing emotionality, sexual appeal and desire is seen as creepy, incel-ish, and toxic; especially if he is either a social late bloomer or not up to societal standards.
A man who is openly brash, bluntly objective about relations with the opposite sex and has a more selfish drive is seen as real because he was "honest about his intentions from the get go."
While there is truth under most things, and no one is perfect, This mindset is the most absurd thing I have heard and seen. You reject the very thing you say can be potentially ideal because you want to poke holes in it's contradictions, but you ignore all of the skin rips in the ladder because it wasn't trying to hide them. Nonsense imo.
My brain can’t comprehend the fact that blind people just see nothing, not black. If I can’t see anything, I mean everything is black. But to see actual nothing, to not see, just, what?!
Mathematical Logarithms. They scare me till today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people got "buy every medical supply that people on the front lines, like medical workers, first responders, and grocery workers, need and use them incorrectly" out of "wash your hands and don't touch your face"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where universe ends, and if it ends whats behind it? Like how something can be infinite, I cant visualize volume that has no other volume storing it...
I scare myself when I start thinking about outer space. How we are on one sphere, floating around a fireball sphere, with a bunch other spheres? With potentially endless amounts of black space, filled with even bigger fireballs and bigger spheres AND BIGGER GALAXIES? Life is really just like Horton Hears a Who, and we're all on a speck, within a speck, within a speck. We could be a piece of dust?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically fossil fuels are organic matter that has been left to decompose over time and break down into simpler molecules. This organic matter is primarily made up of Carbon, Oxygen, and Hydrogen, which will take a multitude of forms as it decomposes, which are different variants of fossil fuels. In a combustion reaction, the fossil fuels will break into mostly Carbon Dioxide and Water. As the bonds in the fossil fuels are broken to make these products, small bits of energy are released that were previously being used to hold the atoms together.
This energy then heats up water to form steam which then turns a turbine rotor. This rotor is attached to a magnet inside an coil of wire. The magnetic field exists because of unpaired electrons in the magnet, leading to a slight attraction or repulsion of other electrons around each atom. These repulsiones move electrons in the wire coil, thereby creating electric flow in the wires which can then be transported elsewhere for use.
I don’t understand how some people can visualize things so well in their head. I can see mental images, but very, very faintly. It’s detailed, but fuzzy and it’s hard to keep there. I have a huge imagination and I just wish I could close my eyes and see clearly what I want to see!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:34:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I am. I see images when I read. When I just close my eyes and imagine, it’s like the images are very far away, if that makes sense. I hope that there is a way to change that.
Why do we HAVE to made good first impression to new people, as if we dress all dark and people will think you’re a killer or something, why don’t you think they LIKED it?
Where the fuck did this come from? I literally cannot figure out how people came to this conclusion. The weakened virus in a vaccine does not just say "nice place" and waltz right into someone's brain and whoopsies! Now you have autism. A lifelong mental disorder isn't caused by an injection designed to make your body a little bit more resilient to a stronger virus you might eventually come across.
Another thing, how in the flying fuck did people go with it? How the hell did someone think "Yeah this sounds right with literally NO reliable sources or any way to prove it"? The virus you're getting vaccinated against has literally zero connections with autism, but just because someone said so, you're willing to put your own fucking child under risk of a dangerous virus if left untreated? What will you do, scare it off with disinfectant and aloe vera?!
Sorry for this absurdly long rant but people like this just really piss me off. Remember your vaccinations kids.
A British doctor wrote a paper stating that the MMR vaccine caused autism. He has since admitted fabricating results and has been struck off and banned from practising medicine in the UK.
IIRC, he was trying to produce his own single vaccines to replace the triple MMR and was also paid to write the paper for some class action lawsuit.
I think he now gives talks at anti-vaxx meetings, but how anybody believes anything he says is utterly beyond me.
I can’t remember his name, but if you search for MMR vaccine autism paper, you should be able to find something
People with natural sports ability. You know, can run 5km no sweat, balance on a beam, throw and catch, pick up skiing or skating in an instant. I struggle with sports and balance yet I see so many who take it for granted.
For me it’s definitely death. When I die am I just gonna stop thinking? Or is there some kind of outlet our brains do it’s fucking weird considering I don’t remember the past 14 billlion years yet here I am.
Lying. I mean obviously people do it because it benefits them. They lie to avoid accountability, responsibility... they lie to hide things, to get away with things. They lie to get what they want and cast off what they don’t. Typically people assume they’ve gotten away with it. Some people flaunt in duper’s delight knowing full they haven’t.
Nothing can be resolved, reconciled or healed when people lie to themselves or others. There’s always collateral damage and the truth always comes out.
Alright, somone gonna tell me how the fuck they started programming computers. Now you can open the computer and write a program and up it on the files, but how do you create an operating system? Seriously what is this black magic fuckery?
Maybe its because I'm young or just plain ol uninterested, I've never understood one's need for sex or how one's appearance can make someone act as a clown all for sex. It's extremely baffling and sometimes funny lol.
H1rose · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the fuck shot Johnny Joestar?
Is it the President, Wekapipo, Diego?
1728tc · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I read a book on Einstein that goes into detail on special relativity and gave a lot of thought experiment examples on time dilation. Seemed fascinating but I couldn’t quite understand it. Read some articles and watched about a dozen YouTube videos explaining time dilation. Still can’t wrap my mind around it.
How countries go bankrupt. Like it's just too big to fathom for example a few years ago it was like Greece is going bankrupt. OK how does this work it's not like a house or business asset and the bank or other country with most owed by Greece can just take it and sell or own the WHOLE COUNTRY... or can they?
How the alphabet and Roman numerals came to be and how math was invented. Blows my mind to think that someone one day said "This is A and this is what it looks like"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
money laundering. its not a complicated concept, but my brain just CANT. been watching “ozark” and ive asked my husband for clarification so many times, he is completely bewildered
Evolution/adaptation. In college they teach you that Lamarck didn't understand natural selection, because he thought parents passed on traits that they used a lot. Like if you worked out a bunch your kid would be stronger and there was a giraffe example too somewhere, but they said he was wrong and I get the basic ways traits are passed on, mutation, gene flow---but I still have a hunch Lamarck was a little right in some way...
My boyfriend is a senior software engineer. I'm also an engineer and can usually grasp concepts pretty well but I have no idea what the fuck he's talking about when he's venting about work lol.
Where Christian Bales character in the movie The Big Short put all of the money to "bet against the Housing Market" and how he made them so much money from it.
Chemistry. And I'm not sure why. I was always decent at physics and math, and I did great in biology, but chemistry? You might as well be talking in a different language to me. I really tried to study and understand during my chemistry classes, but I genuinely couldn't grasp even the simplest concepts. I barely passed with minimal required grades and am totally useless at it to this day.
How someone else can look at another person with a different skin color and believe that person is inferior to themself because of skin color only. Idk I try my best to understand people’s POV on most things but this one is impossible to me.
People that actually think the Government spends the time and the money for WHATEVER FUCKING REASON to convince us that the Earth is a sphere. If the Earth were flat, why the hell would they go through all that effort and money to make us believe otherwise? I just don’t get it. No Flat-Earther has been able to answer that question reasonably for me.
How my younger sister gets everything she wants when she act spoiled enough. I get my phone for an hour very day. I ask my parents why i cannot get my phone for longer. They said it will hurt my eyes. They gave my sister who is four years younger than me and they don't complain that it will hurt her eyes.
Going forward in time would be possible by freezing a human in a way that the cells dont lose their integrity, and let them sleep there until they wake up years later, in a different world. This w the current tech isnt possible. But when we find a way to do this, space travel will not be an issue, at least for the astronauts.
Why the ACTUAL FUCK do mukbangs exist!?!?!?!?! Which deranged fucking lunatic thought to themselves "yeah this sounds pleasing." Just looking at the word pisses me off at how completely nonsensical it is.
Magnetism still melts my brain no matter how many time I try to learn about it. How one piece of metal really wants to be near its little metal buddy, but only one side, you show me the other side and I’m heading out. Craziness.
I understand religion, but it's always been crazy to me how widely adopted it is. I'm 18 and I have a hard time putting faith into such wild ideas and concepts with little proof especially when there are so many different religions and branches of those religions. I would've thought that by now with how connected everybody is in the world, most people would move away from religion, but it's still such a large part of life for so many people.
How Americans are not rioting at the shitshow that is Trump's America. Our Australian Government is corrupt too, sure but nowhere near on the scale Trump and his goons are.
How I can be great at meeting and talking to people, but when I’m walking past someone and they say, for instance, “I like those shoes man,” I just grin while violently nodding my head and say something along the lines of “hahoughthanksivehadthem” and then walk away.
Photography and videography. I don’t understand how a scene from real life can be captured forever. I’ve tried to look it up and know it has something to do with light, but I just can’t wrap my head around it.
I've got a damn good one...STUPID PEOPLE!
Ok, stick with me here and I'll explain. You learn new things by studying yeah? Physics, driving, yoyo skills, knowledge about certain subjects, you all learn by reading and trying yeah? Well why the fuck don't all people do this? Why are there STILL people out there who are incapable of getting off of Instagram or wte and learn what they're asking others to do? Or are not understanding.
This feeling has genuinely led me to feel extremely lonely in the world because I'm a mega geek, like Sheldon Cooper level of geek and it's hard being this smart 😔😔
How people can abuse defenseless animals. I just don’t understand how anyone can look into the eyes of a helpless soul and decide to mistreat it in any way.
I have a problem with negative numbers. They have to have imaginary even roots but can have odd roots like -27s cube root is -3 but you can't have -9 square root without using an "i" yet the square root of 9 can be either 3 or -3.
And before AHoles start trying to teach me math. Forget it. You will never convince me negative numbers exist outside of math. So you will be wasting everyone's time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why certain Physics sites, based on homework for aspiring young minds continue Promoting "The Hubble Constant" when it is very commander obvious that space is not expanding at a constant rate because of how space is affected when mass displaces Gravity. They refuse to discuss it because it hasn't been proven, neither has the Hubble Constant.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moles in chemistry. I didn’t get them then, and I don’t get them now.
That some humans among this earth can out their milk before their cereal
Xenton · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As somebody with imposter syndrome: the Dunning-Krueger effect.
Spoken simply, the notion that stupid people are so stupid that they don't realise how stupid they are and hence overestimate their aptitude and ability.
As somebody who constantly doubts every action and conclusion I make, even when I do all the research I can manage, the idea that somebody who did no research can so vehemently believe they are right is alien to me.
basically anything related to quantum physics. i watch a few videos and think "huh, that's pretty crazy" but then i realize that i really still don't get any of it
How to put it in words. I mean I always try to go on social media and think about writing something to spread information or awareness but end up writing few words and that's the end. Can't write more, as you can see now I can't even explain it clearly what I mean.
How anarchism or libertariaism are supposed to work on a large scale. They seem to both need large amounts of buy-in to function on even the basic level.
According to string theory there are more than 3 dimensions. It makes sense to me that as you travel through time, you are simultaneously going in different conventional directions in different layers of the unconventional dimensions. But it just doesn't make sense to me that we can't properly observe these other dimensions anywhere as easily as the conventional 3. We sense things by interacting with the aftereffects of other things interacting. Why can't we interact with the aftereffects of other things interacting in another layer of an unconventional dimension. And what the hell did Klein mean with those unconventional dimensions being squeezed into too small a space for us to observe anyway?
why we regard murder as the worst possible crime yet punish it by executing those who commit it. why do we kill people for killing people? why is only that kind of killing justified?
The topic of free will. In many religions they say you have free will but it just doesn’t make sense. Like in Christianity you technically have free will but if gad has a plan and already knows what you’re going to do is it really free will. Or with atheism. Yeah you have free will but what’s the point. It’s not like it really matters since it’s only social laws keeping you from doing morally right things.
Even though I don’t understand it a friend straight up just told me “why does it matter” and I think it changed my whole perspective. So even tho I don’t understand it I don’t really care
How the hell all that computer stuff comes from a green board with little black squares and metal string on it, and knows what image to make on my screen, which is a completely different piece of machinery.
I really enjoy computer programming, like using algorithms to solve problems. But my technical vocabulary is very limited. If I look something up, like how a function works, I start going down a rabbit hole of "What does that even mean?" over certain words, then other words to describe those words, and so on. After a certain point, everything becomes too abstract.
Calculus or coding. I think I’m fairly smart but always gravitated towards english and history in school. I have some friends who are mathematicians and software engineering and every time they bring up their fields I think “welp, there’s an entire area of human experience I know literally nothing about.”
My mother.... and I'm 40 yrs old. It's as if she lives on another planet and the thought of giving me a ticket to tag along didn't even occur to her. All of her friends who fangirl over her got to at least fly coach.
How people still stand behind Trump. He has done so many terrible things, said so many terrible things, and just proves all the time he does not care about the American people. There are so many people who have listed of all the things he's done that are not good for our country. Baffles me.
Electronics. A mic preamps has an input transformer, op amp, and output transformer. All the preamp has to do is boost the signal to line level. Why have 3 different things to accomplish that one task?
How babies differentiate parts from whole. Like we teach kids body parts by pointing at them and saying it's name like "nose, chin, eyes" but then when you to teach "Mommy" you point to your chest or face, and expect the baby to figure out that "Mommy" doesn't mean "chest" or "cheeks"
Climate change deniers. Sooooooo much evidence pointing towards climate change and the evidence against it is either biased, taken out of context, and/or just flat out stupid
NG800 · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that you’re the main character in your life and everyone else is also the main character in their own lives.
This sounds facetious, but it’s a genuine struggle for me professionally and personally: that some people complain about a problem and DO NOT want you to offer them solutions; the only want to vent. I’m a very analytical and approach everything with an efficiency mindset. If something is broken or wrong, fix it or forget it and move on.
I’ve mentally accepted that while I can’t understand it, that it is still a valid emotional need of the person complaining, but man, I do not get it AT ALL.
Sometimes I wanna rant, but just need to get it out so I can work on fixing my problems myself. Its nice fixing something yourself. Id recommend just telling people that if they need help, you would love to offer it. That way they can’t take it as “I’m trying to fix you” and as “I’m trying to help you”
No problem dude! Sometimes when you offer solutions to people, it makes the feel inadequate or insecure, like you think they couldn’t figure it out themselves. Sometimes its good just to listen and be there for people who are struggling(literally any struggle, power-tools to emotional hardships). :)
The infinite time before and after our deaths; how there was 14.8 billion years before me and probably that many more after me. Just all that time that you will never witness, how we will only just ever see blips of the grand scheme of the universe, like how we will never get to experience what it was like 68 million years ago or 68 million years into the future. The universe will go on as time goes on, people might go on as well, but we will never know. Once we are done life will be like what it was before you were ever born, infinite nothingness, how we have the privilege, yet burden of knowing what has and will come, the inevitable nothingness. I feel like people get a glimpse of this when we sleep, the nothingness; what if sleep is our way of preparing for death, for the nothingness of what was before us. How so many lifetimes and spectacular events happened while you never existed. Its like everything and nothing happened before us, and will after us. The depressing, yet exciting reality of knowing that everything will be like before you were born; everything, and nothing. How there was a 1 in a billion chance that none of this would have happened hadn't you not have been born. I wonder if the short 80 years of life is worth it knowing that billions of years have been before and will be after you. The incredible advancements in humanity, or the incredible destruction. Damn, that question got me thinking to much. One more thing that I don't understand tho, who makes those little knick knacks that cost like a nickel. One more thing, how does the karma system work?
I don’t understand our whole US government system. We have the president, supreme court and other branches just to look at sign bills. Why on earth do we need so many branches when we have a president that can do all that?
Destiny’s developers, Bungie, claiming they don’t want the core PVP mode they’ve been working on for months now (after being on hiatus for over a year!) to “go out half baked.” The community, before and after all things could be done with the mode, agreed in unison that it was beyond less than half baked. How does this happen?
How sexual attraction works. I don’t feel it, never have. I’m 18 now and have never understood it. Like sure, I bet it feels great but how does yalls brain pick people? ¯_(‘-‘)_/¯
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are our muscles able to move us and our objects in any space what so ever. I completely understand the concept of them balancing out and that two alway work together but it still doesn’t answer how in the given space we’re able to lift and move our arms to a different position.
I know I sound weird and maybe I haven’t explained it correctly but, yeah worth a try.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If matter is not created nor destroyed? Then where tf did it come from
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans can vote for a President that has no experience, married 3 times, with 3 families of children by different mothers, and is psychologically disturbed? No really, I need to know. This is not a joke. His latest lies with the corona virus, still people fall for his crsp.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The use of the word irony. It has so many definitions and yet every time I try to understand them and their contextual uses I just wind up getting mixed up and all of it gets dumped. For someone who is, if I may say so, quite decent at English, this one mindbogglingly continues to elude me.
Gim3z · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so the covid19 virus is killing people by thickening the wall that oxygen normally passes into the blood through, so it can't pass any longer and your organs don't get oxygen.
How people who have no healthcare insurance vote for people who want to ensure that they never get healthcare insurance, or people whose sole retirement source is social security vote for people who want to weaken it, or how people who are working two jobs to try and make ends meet vote for people who want to keep their wages artificially low while the person they work for has so much money that they literally have nothing better to spend it on than rockets.
I seriously don’t understand all the fucking polls/surveys/ what have you, that asked 100 people and then put it out there saying 71% of this country thinks this. Like how the fuck... even if you did 1000, if there is 300 fucking million in the country and tf is 1000 people. Or even 100,000. It blows my mind.
How does hair on different parts of your body know it's the right length to stop growing? if you cut an arm hair it will somehow know it was cut and know when it has grown back to the normal length and then stop growing. Head hair doesnt really stop growing, maybe after a very long time.
But an eyebrow hair or leg hair will not only know it was trimmed but somehow know when it has grown back to the correct length. It blows my mind.
On a real level? Hating people for things that people have no control over. Like racism and shit. On a weirder level, evolutionary mutation. Organisms "randomly" knowing exactly what aspect to mutate for the next generation of the organism to help it survive. Though I suppose that's more the human limitation into understanding exponentials and even the things we create ourselves naturally, like time. Been around forever but so far all we really know about time is that it is relative to our own position within space. Gravity be weird too.
Engineer not a physicist, But in the most basic terms the energy that is contained in some arbitrary amount of mater is equivalent to the mass of that object multiplied by the speed that light travels in a vacuum squared
I can comprehend infinity as a concept, but I cannot get my head around non-existence; even in the most abstract sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sympathy/empathy, especially for people you don't know.
I would freak out if something happened to my son or wife, but every time I hear about a mass shooting, or even all these recent covid deaths, I just feel absolutely nothing about it.
I also don't understand religion but I've just given up on that argument.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras can capture images, review videos and live stream thingsz
Photography. F stop, apature, iso. Confusing for me to decided which is best a what moment I’m trying to capture. And I am a videographer also! Lol. It’s funny cause my photographer friend doesn’t understand video. So we try to explain to each other how to Better understand it and we still feel clueless. 😂
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am what’s called a “sun sneezer”, meaning often I sneeze when I look up into bright light.
The other night I felt right on the edge of a sneeze and suddenly thought to look up and imagine the light of the sun above me.
It made me sneeze. Or, I sneezed and just thought it made me sneeze. I have no idea how it would work. I genuinely do not understand
Kat_ri · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generally, yes. I live in Australia, so I believe that politics are not such a passionate/sensitive subject as it may be in the US. Most, of not ALL, people I know do not have a strong opinion about which political party they believe in. There is no open hatred toward one party or another. As a result, I have never seen or felt the importance of understanding everything about politics. I’m sure that stance will anger some people, but when it comes time to voting, I read and listen to as much there is relating me and my family. Outside of that, I tend to steer clear of it all.
What you are feeling is what Carl Schmitt critize about liberal democracy. you dont feel you matter in it, a good way to understand politics is looking at local goverment. You will get a good understanding of how little goes either a long or short way. Politics is about how people share or dont share ressources
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand nonexistence. But I have before. It clicked all of the sudden. I literally almost went mad.
It left as suddenly as it came, taking everything with it.
I will never understand how someone can listen to an ASMR of someone eating a pickle or a super spicy potato chip. It is just about the nastiest thing to me.
Like I’ve talked to people that oppose LGBT rights. They’re either oblivious to the anti-LGBT agenda, they want to enforce their religion, or they try to support killing LGBT people because “their side is killing babies.”
These aren’t valid arguments and I’d really like to hear someone explain their perspective on LGBT rights solely. I cannot understand how being LGBT makes you a democrat, and how your religion is above the constitution. The answer is that it doesn’t.
So does ANYONE have an actual argument opposing LGBT rights? It’s a serious question and one that I have not seen clear answers to. It honestly just seems like politicians are killing people to pull in more votes.
Something. Don’t know what it is. Have felt my whole life that others intrinsically understand a concept that is just eluding my grasp. Something important.
Connections to people. I don't miss people, even family members, when I'm away for extended periods. I don't really have my own friends. It's not that I'm anti social. I very much enjoy the company of people, but I don't understand the connections people seem to have with each other. I'm married now, but before that I would come home at nights after work and not go out, not interact with anyone and my weekends were pretty much the same and it didn't bother me whatsoever. I've wondered for a while if a part of me is broken, but it doesn't bother me, because I really don't mind isolation (physical or emotional). And yet, I wasn't always like this, certainly not when I met my wife twelve years ago, this is something more recent at some point.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m unable to comprehend the idea that space is infinite. When you think about the sky, being on a plane, eventually you’ll leave the atmosphere, there’s a limit to how high you can go. In space, there’s just no limit.. YOU JUST KEEP GOING. FOREVER.
How people decide to design things is such a way that the most necessary, commonly replaced parts take HOURS to remove and replace. Vehicles are my main gripe. Yes we all know newer vehicles are made so the regular common folk are discouraged from fixing them, thus dealerships and the like getting more money from you by making you pay for simple repairs. But to make it so even people specifically trained to do it take hours?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating. How to date, how to meet women, how to proceed in any way shape or form, and I have been married... I don’t understand it so much that sometimes I think i might be an alien or something.
Electronics have always confused me. I can assemble all sorts of mechanical systems but I just can’t understand exactly how we are able to control electricity so precisely.
Einsteins theory of the space time continum, I've read countless pieces, attended lectures and watched videos, yet I can grasp that we move through space and time. The closer you get to the speed of light, the slower time is
To put it very simply it all measures the same thing weight temperature distance etc. But different names stand for different amounts and those amounts often make doing math much simpler
How do babies think if they dont know words? How to they look at a light and think its bright but they dont know what a light is and they dont know what bright means??? How does the human brain learn language?
The very basic economy thought of the more of something there is, such as money, the less valuable it is. It just does not make any sense to in the modern day. I’d understand if we were still using metals for our money, but our money is largely digital and paper now, which is near infinite. It just seems kind of an arbitrary economic law at this point.
Imagine it this way. I have an orange tree and I sell oranges to every person passing through town to each person I charge $500 dollars an orange. I can do this because I am the only person with an orange tree.
The next year however every person see that I am making a killing selling oranges so every person in town plants 10 orange trees. I try to sell my oranges for $500 but my neighbor says he well sell them for $450 but his neighbor sees that and decides to sell them for $400 this continues until an equilibrium is reached and you can't sell them for any less (say someone tries to sell an orange for $1 but it costs $5 in water to make that orange)
This is the balance of supply and demand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. How big is that shit actually? Is it infinite? If not, what's at the end of it? How's anything even infinite? How'd that fucker even get made in the first place? Fuck it.
b90313 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why atheism exists when existence cannot be explained by science. Nothing can explain why the Big Bang happened in the first place, something paranormal must have happened at some point.
Why would you say that because we don't have an answer then the cause must be paranormal. Just because we can not explain why the big bang happened doesn't lend itself to their being a paranormal reason for it. For most of human history we did not understand how a great many natural processes worked. We did not know that techtonic plates caused tsunamis and earthquakes or that tides were influenced by the moons gravitational pull. In time we found out that these in fact all have natural explanations that follow governing laws of physics. Is it too hard to believe there is a perfectly natural explanation to the creation of the universe that is just currently to complex for us to understand. I don't see why this makes a supreme deity or paranormal explanation more likely. We just haven't solved this particular problem yet.
Source: am an atheist
I hope that cleared it up a little.
b90313 · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no natural process to existence. Realistically nothing should exist in the first place. No matter how it begun it can't be scientific.
I don't think it's so much that, "There was nothing that existed and atheists are out here sneering at religious people for not getting that." It's just that we don't know and we don't understand it yet. There's no process that we know of currently that could explain it. It could be anything and that includes a supreme being. However none of the natural phenomena or really anything in the oberservable universe that we do understand is caused by a supreme deity. It's easier to say that we have no idea what happened to create the universe however it's more likely that similarly to everything we currently do understand it was not caused by a supreme being.
No one can go up to you an tell you that they know 100% that there is no god. All the best they can do is say it lacks any evidence and it doesn't seem like the most likely solution to the problem.
Driving. Normal 10 minute drive, there's hundreds of things that can kill you. And you're normally just jamming out to whatever song only seemingly paying attention to when you're supposed to stop (red lights, etc.). But think about it...You're on a 2 lane road. The person coming toward you sneezes at the wrong time, you're dead. Someone isn't paying attention getting their mail. Dead. Someone doesn't react to the 3 seconds the lights give you to stop. Dead. And yet 99% of us does this every day, usually at least twice. And that's not close to the leading cause of death anywhere. That's crazy to me.
How different music instruments were invented in different parts of the world prior to the ease of communication that we live in today. Did the person who invented the harp know how to play it before it was finished? & how would someone from somewhere else have an idea to make a horn? How did music spread globally from its original source?
I don't under why is it so hard to be happy. Like I help everyone out and try my best to do something for myself but everyone treats me like shit then. What am I supposed to do.
I dont know where you live but my 5 cent Is in America there is this odd “you against me” mindset which is quite toxic. Try looking for people with the same hobbies as you, it can help quite alot.(Forums are a good place to start)
We are all slightly broken and we are in this togther!
Why people get offended over every little thing. Why people can't let other people like, love, read, do, be..... Whatever makes them happy, as long as no one is getting hurt.
Have you gone to the doctor? Might be a clinical depression, it sounds odd. But most people are sad and dont think they can do anything about it, but you can, go out and ask for help.
Fashion shows. How can the fall-show take place in the first few weeks of February but then Paris/milan/london/NY fashion weeks takes place in the next month? Are they not the same?
I used to have my cousin on speed dial in college to ask questions like “why do people get jealous?” “I know she hates me but I was being nice to her, why did she get so angry?” Etc etc
I could just blame it on the autism but I think a lot of people are confused, they are just better at knowing the normal cues of what to say/do (even if they don’t know why)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most Americans are so stupid.
How could like supposedly the smartest country let somebody like Trump get in, and then when they need a guy who actually cares about the ppl and not rich corps, ppl dont want him.
How did you get so dumb. Was it all the processed foods or Sunday Football. I just don't understand
I can't understand people that can do it in their head but give me a calculator or Excel and I can figure out much more difficult calculations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a really hard time understanding sub atomic particles and spin ratios. How could a particle be at a one place but not be at the same place?
So confusing. I just memorized like a parrot to pass my university class.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the light emitted from a flashlight travels at the same speed whether your holding it stationary or holding it while standing on a vehicle traveling 100mph. I would think that the light would be traveling at speed of light +100. But it dont be like that. Same goes for sailboats that can travel faster than the wind pushing them.
If you know your future, you can change it. Then there is always a future planned ahead of that future and that future and that future etc. Mind fucks me when I am alone in my thoughts.
How a camera can just be clicked and print out a picture of something you’re looking at
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember trying to talk to my family about this and they just didn’t get what I was asking.
Record players.
HOW THE FUCK do bumps on vinyl touch a little needle and then wires tell a speaker how to make the right noises? I know if you don’t have speakers, you can still barely hear the needle and vinyl play the song so like what is happening right there?
Simply put, I do not understand and why so many of us chose to have relationships with other people even though there are possibilities that they will betray you, and even if not, why form them anyway? Is it an evolutionary instinct? Is it simply a human desire to be with others, just because were social animals?
Why do you need other people in life? Statistically you’re going to lose them and get “hurt” as most say, and if not, then the question arises “is it even worth the effort?”
What feeling of pride or gratitude do you get from being with someone? What kind of emotional forces you to stay with someone, even if it adds 0 benefit??
(I am someone who has difficulty understanding why people form these bonds, I do not have ASD, but rather Psychopathy)
People that litter. I see it happen all the time living in NYC, but I do not understand why people are so fucking selfish and lazy to the point where they would rather throw a piece of garbage on the floor than walk a couple of feet to the nearest trashcan. The trash you throw on the floor can end up in the sewer system, or confuse a poor animal for food and result in their death, overall it makes the city dirtier, you're adding to pollution - there are so many consequences to littering yet people do it all the time. These are the same people that turn around and say their neighborhood or the city is so dirty yet they're actively contributing to it. And then if you point out their littering, they get aggressive! They get caught doing something bad and I'm the bad guy? I don't understand.
I try to act like they accidentally dropped it and point out to them like "here I think you dropped this" or something to that effect without accusing them that it was intentional even if it obviously was.
They seem more confused and receptive in my experience than if you accuse them of doing something wrong.
The difference between effect and affect. I’ve had multiple English teachers, classmates, friends, and parents try to lay it out for me but I’m convinced I will never ever grasp it with confidence.
Cats. and Trump supporters. For totally different reasons
I get that cats are adorable assholes. I miss mine terribly. But WTH are they???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get how Americans used to have an addiction to fast cars and now you see people riding their brakes all the way down main street. Are people worried that a cop will materialize out of thin air and pull them over the instant they get slightly above the speed limit?
I genuinely don't understand why people think rich people (the ones who did their own hard work to be rich not the you know who my dad is type) are evil,Satan,bad?
Whenever there is a post about someone donating money there are people commenting this isn't enough,he should donate more,he is evil etc.
Like everything you have around you is because some rich dude decided to invest in it in the early days.
I truly wonder about the concept of 'normal', especially socially. Is being normal just finding enough people to validate you as you are? If it's so abstract, is there any way to understand what normal is?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
June bugs and why God created them. They are by far the stupidest creature ever. They literally die on contact and don’t amount to nothing in life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say “ I am humbled “ when they receive a big award or do something awesome. Like wouldn’t you be the opposite of humbled????
Does something look the same in two different pairs of eyes? Is someone else’s blue the same as mine? If I were to pinpoint the exact location I was in the universe 1 second ago, where would that be? Billions of miles that way? How fast is our solar system traveling through this ever expanding universe? Why are humans more intelligent than other species, or are other species thinking the same way? What is time? Do we all perceive time the same way? Is one second the equivalent of 1 minute for other beings? What makes a person intelligent? Why do objects have to not work before they work? How is the universe expanding or does it go on forever? Is there an end to the universe? Are we the only planet gifted with life? What’s it like to not have these thoughts all the time? What’s it like not to wonder? I may never know.
Why animals stare at empty spaces of a room. It freaks me out
lennso · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fire!
It’s actually crazy. Like what the fuck do you see and what do you not see? As far as I understand there is some sort of process going on including a spark (what?) which then leads to combustion. But what am I looking at when I see flames and why isn’t the actual part confusing any more interesting? I don’t understaaaaaaand
I'll say it and get made fun of for it. But football. American football. Feels like there's a thousand rules and positions. Don't understand the huge rave and excitement about it especially when I live in an area where everyone has flags and posters of the team here
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I’ve read the science of it and learned about all the tiny tiny tiny things that are happening but I’m blown away by it.
For me this is mainly about team based games (looking at you League), but I'm sure it applies to other scenarios as well;
How someone is unable to blame themselves for their own mistakes, but instead blame someone else for it who has had nothing to do with it.
Or, even worse ;
People who want to give up even though their entire team is doing well and they're guaranteed a win, but for some reason can't accept they're not the reason they're winning. Like, it's okay to be carried once in a while, be happy you're still going to win when you've got a bad game.
goth60 · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parallel universes- the idea that in another universe another me exists that is not in lockdown and free to roam the streets
My sleeping pattern. I have consistently woken up multiple times every night for no reason for years. Not from a bad dream or can’t breather I just wake up. Like I’m waking up in the morning but this’ll happen every half hour. Sometimes every hour and sometimes not at all. It’s really weird and I never know what it’s going to be like. It plagued my high school years and I got 4 hours of sleep a lot. I still have it now and sometimes I’ll wake up every hour.
Why I get huge anxiety from noses. I am fine with looking at them, having one, etc. However, a couple of days ago I was watching a YouTube video and as a joke the YouTuber did a nose vlog for a minute. The camera was just really close to their nose. I had this huge feeling of fear, and I felt like I a bad headache, and after I skipped that part I still felt scared for a few minutes. I only had this since a couple of days ago.
How you can hit a fly in mid air and they just fly away like nothing happened. But if I got hit by something equally as large compared to the fly and my hand I would be obliterated. I'm assuming I'm not able to transfer the energy efficiently enough to the fly why it's mid air.
As someone with good vision I cannot understand how people make it through life with bad vision. My mom had surgery to correct her eyes being crossed and as a result she basically can’t see in 3D and I just can’t imagine a world like that.
My minds blown every time I think about how each person has a full life with nuances, struggles, relationships and a past.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does writing code, a bunch of words, equal programs doing stuff? How the hell does that work? What is actually going on? Does that mean the coding possibilities are endless? Why does the program even listen?
How the United States can be so deadly committed to hating another for their bipartisan beliefs, but build each other up during the face of a pandemic like COVID.
Coompa · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
electricity. I do lots of diy stuff and the shit still baffles me.
Why can't I be happy, I do my best for everyone else and when I try to do something for me I get yelled at and treated like trash, I work myself to the bone 5o help my family and my friends with anything.
Anyone want a friend or a boyfriend ? Slightly broken lol
Super late to the party, but if someone could explain this to me, I'd be grateful.
I don't understand internships that want you to have (professional) experience in what you are applying for in order to get it. I mean, isn't the whole point of an internship is to gain experience? Before I got the internship I have now, I applied to over 70 internships. Many of them required you to have prior intern experience to apply. When I got interviewed for a couple of them, they all asked me, "Do you have experience with writing emails for corporations or have done any corporate writing?" Like, I'm a college student. Where do I even get the experience to do that? If anybody could help me understand that, I would be grateful.
How the fuck I'm supposed to flirt with women without being a creep. I'm 22 years old and just never learned to flirt. There have been plenty of women who I've been very attracted to (especially in high school) and had no problem talking to, but I could never navigate my way to flirting; so we would always end up as good friends. I'm currently having the same issue in college.
How is it that the tilt of earth axis is more relevant to the weather than the distance difference (delta) between perihelion and aphelion. In other words, the distance to the sun is less important than the angle of exposure.
ahyet · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the fuck can you point big ass telescopes to the sky and understand that there are things that no one knows what it is, and that the universe is expanding, and time stretches, and what the fuck is dark matter
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My will to live.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like every other human on this planet, there is a potentially innumerable list of things that I genuinely do not understand.
I said it to my guy friends on different occasions because I took it word for word, literally. Until they started to make moves on me. It's quite funny. Like which part of the phrases hints that you want something more??? I still don't get it, though now I never used it again.
Why companies and managers get away with being shitty to their employees. No context here. I need companies and managers that screw over employees to be equally screwed themselves without fail.
How people process language, through the wall I can tell someone’s speaking English, but I have no idea what they’re saying, while I can another language through a wall and just be able to tell it’s not English despite the fact I wouldn’t be able to differentiate any words even if it was english
Quantum physics. I have a degree in physics and took multiple nuclear and quantum classes, but that shit is still so unintuitive for me. Can’t wrap my head around it. Maybe I just haven’t found the right way to look at it yet.
Integration and disintegration problems in maths. Never understood the purpose even after trying it for 100 hrs. And now i think am i retarded. For not able to understand it after all this effort
How people can just be ok with being addicted to things. I don't understand how people can be aware they're addicted to coffee or cigarettes and not do anything about it and not even care to the point that, at least with coffee, it's the societal norm.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I never want to sleep.
Like, I know I can be a better me when I get more sleep. Yet, when night comes I don't want to quit doing the things I love so I stay up late, wake up early, and then the cycle continues. I hate wasting time sleeping and having to consolidate memories.
Edit: I just gotta suck it up and surrender though :/
Black holes and bending of the space-time continuum and whatnot. I see all the funnel graphics and explanations and sometimes I am at a point where it makes sense - and at the same time I simply cannot understand shit how an object can be at two places at a time and i lose it all.
How to communicate with people. I was a reserved child and didn't talk to anyone except a couple of other kids who were also weird. Now that I don't have the communication experience that others have, it's very difficult for me to make friends and make new acquaintances. Fortunately, books on social psychology help me
I genuinely do not understand how insurance works, what the hell are deductibles and premiums!?! I am not even sure what my insurance covers, I’m confused every time someone explains it...
So from what I understand, and I’m fairly new to life so I may be wrong, but the premium is the amount of money you pay in order to be insured. The deductible is how much you have to spend before the insurance will actually give you money... so if you pay $200 per month to be covered for $20,000 and have a $1,000 deductible, and you get in an accident or something, you have to pay the $1,000 before receiving the actual insurance money... or if you get in an accident, and the damage is worth less than $1,000 to fix, you would not receive any insurance money... please correct me if I’m wrong
How some adults don’t see climate change as a real threat to society and the earth.
D048 · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are we just basically machines? Do we really make decisions? Or are we wired and guaranteed to make certain decisions at certain times? Does it just feel like we are in control? Is there any true random? If we don’t actually have control, and neither do animals, and (obviously) inanimate objects don’t, then wouldn’t that mean everything that happens was guaranteed to happen since forever? (Also I will say in advance computers are NOT truly random, they are time-based)
The 2007 financial crisis, specifically within the United States. I have tried to understand what had happened and how the bubble within the housing market developed. From my understanding, it became easy to get loans without collateral, credit checks, background checks etc. People were taking risky loans to pay for homes that had artificially rose above true market value. Banks were using mortgage bonds that consisted of poorly rated assets masquerading as fully guaranteed AAA rated backed securities. Banks were incentivized to build and sell these mortgage bonds for easy and quick profit. Now assuming what I have above is generally correct this is the part that is confusing to me. Did the terms of loans change after a certain period of time to increase monthly payments and this is what caused people to default on their loans on a wide spread scale? We’re the banks to blame? People for not closely examining the terms of their loans? Ratings agency’s such as the S&P and Moody’s? All of the above? Also I don’t understand how it was possible to bailout these institutions without checks and balances such as preventing stock buy backs, bonus structures, etc.? Also, I have trouble truly understanding traunches and CDOs, synthetic CDOs....makes me feel stupid/vulnerable to problems like this in the future.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it's an old meme but MAGNETS. Like gravity I understand -- the mass of one object attracts other massive objects, cool, got it. But MAGNETS?!?!? What is there, some kind of fucking enchantment on them bad boys?! They just KNOW when other magnets are near them?!?!?
I don’t understand why there’s people under the age of 18 that are making inappropriate stuff online, namely smut/lemon fanfics or inappropriate videos (eg Gacha community) and not understanding the gravity of their actions. I mean where the fuck are their parents????
Football like all competitions end when the time ends most points win or they can tie
Football games start with a kick off like basketball with a tip off *like most competitions one team has to on defense while the other is on offense
You could start the game in the middle of a big field with both teams fighting to go the furthest north while one team tries to keep them the furthest south but most football players and fans in attendance love the adrenaline of a ball flying high to one man who "returns" it until he scores or get tackled
Football teams are rewarded by points that can earned by placing the ball in the end zone "furthest north or farthest south" or kicking the ball through the up rights (field goal)
Due to the fact that end zones call be extremely far. There are first down yard lines along the field to keep a "drive" alive ( no first downs yard lines means team have to score in the "downs/plays" that are giving to them
Tldr teams want to score points, first downs are like a check point in a video game where it's like you start a new chapter going further into the story until the end. If you get to the end you are rewarded
venusk · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very close friend now shared life and philosophical quotes from Money Heist especially mouthed from Berlin and The Professor from time to time. Says it made her think as of she goes with Berlin way back. But what do I make of it ?
Writing a code. When you spend a weeks to figure out what the error is and one day the program decided to run without any error and you don’t know what the problem.
How to learn the key of a song and what chords come with the key. I am playing guitar and want to get better at the theory part and yes there are many videos out there but how do you properly memorize it?
Strategists. Playing RTS games, strategy board games, anything that takes complex thought. I just don't get how people can think ahead without their minds going somewhere else.
Measurements. I don’t understand how people estimate or visualize measurements so easily. Whenever I hear on the news that we’re getting ___cm of snow, I just wait and see what happens.
In space movies, when you’re near a black hole the time slows down and you come back to the ship and the person waiting there has aged... why, it’s a biological clock, you weren’t really gone for biologically 40 years right?
How CD’s and hard drives work. A spinning disk with data on it and its read and interpreted perfectly with a laser reading 1’s and 0’s. I don’t get it.
Why the hell there are only two political parties in america that hate each other and are governing the country by rotating every one or two elections ? I really dont get how it is like impossible for a new third party to rise.
How time differs in space, like in the movie Interstellar, when he comes back the same age while his daughter is older than him. Isn't time supposed to go forward as always, like the biological changes in a body keep moving forward in time linearly, so he should be older too. I still don't understand that! And many other things too.
I dont think I've ever experienced it. Like, I "get" being worried that somebody may come along and try to take my S.O. , BUT, it takes two to tango, ya know?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Division. Specifically the process of long division. It makes zero sense to me no matter how many times it's been explained to me and I can't do it. I'm mathematically pretty good and I like it but long division is like trying to do a puzzle but you only have one piece.
Yes. Like why did shepherd declare TF 141 criminals. Was it Makarovs PMCs that invaded America or the actual Russian government, why were there guys dressed in Russian military uniforms keeping the Russian president and his daughter hostage, and what happened to the other members of TF 141 like Robot, Worm, Nomad, Zack, Archer, and Toad. Were they captured, killed, or did they go into hiding. Way too many plot holes for me. Still great games though
xHECKx · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. We should all be homeless and starving, but we're not.
That’s easy enough. Stability. One knows for a fact they’ll come home to a warm bed so they can afford to be bolder than they usually would added to the thrill of sneaking around. Most cheaters are often simply people with issues, people who follow the "be with the one who's around you rule" or people who settled but are still looking for the better option.
When I see people and think 'why is he/wearing that ugly outfit? I get it- fashion is subjective just like any other form of artistic impression but sometimes there's just no excuse.
A great example would be jeans. Wearing the wrong fit, cut or size for your body can make them look just horrible, while just getting one or two of the three categories correct can make a HUGE difference.
To get back to the actual point and add a little clarification, let's just assume at first the person in question has no one else at home or in their circle of friends to nudge them in the right direction. That would remove some of the accountability for the person's choices.
Ok- so here's what I don't understand. I would say it's safe to assume that I'm correct in saying an overwhelming majority of adults over 25 in the world wear clothes, do our makeup or style our hair in order to create the best possible example of ourselves that we can be.
The guy with the ill fitting carpenter's jeans isn't looking into the mirror and thinking "Damn these jeans are ugly and they're falling off without a belt. Looks like I've got my blind date outfit covered!" He's more likely thinking he's a lone wolf or a trendsetter.
Because who would do that? Who would wear something that doesn't suit their fashion or outward image they want to achieve. No one would, I just don't get it.
I want to make sure everyone understands that yes, I know (like I said earlier) fashion or people's tastes and choices are all subjective so I'm just using that for the example to make my point.
I'm also not including anyone under the age of 25 because I remember being in my late teens and early twenties and wearing big baggy jeans hanging off my ass and a leather biker's jacket covered with spikes and studs. It was a tossup what color my hair was going to be that week. Yeah a part of me thought it looked cool but the main reason i was wearing that Rancid t-shirt with no sleeves and those green/black sprayed 62 hole air cushioned boots was to get a reaction or to keep others at a distance from me. In wasn't trying to look my best and I would dare to say that their just as many of kids out there doing the same thing I was- so I'm not including them in the example i used.
tl;dr- do people who dress badly look in the mirror and think: hmm... This looks great, who's ready to go to the club?!? I've always assumed that people are trying their best but it seems I'm wrong in some cases.
Edit: jesus I didn't mean to turn my reply into homegrown terrorist manifesto length
I really have tried for a while now to wrap my head around why people enjoy BDSM. I don’t understand being the sadist or the masochist. I just don’t get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took computer studies and computer programming in school, so I know how programming works and I was pretty good at binary maths and Boolean logic and all that. But I want to know what goes on to convert theoretical ones and zeroes into a Word Document, image, spreadsheet or application programme (for example).
Everytime I ask, I get the same answer: it's ones and zeroes and eight bits make up a byte and bla bla bla. All that aI understand. What I DON'T understsmd is how the ones and zeroes (the electrical current being either ON or OFF) works on a microchip or motherboard for instance.
How can those currents on a single chip or circuit board or flashbdrive or whatever be able to store/run images, applications, documents...
I don't get the link between the theoretical and the physical way the computer works.
How people refrain from organizing and fighting for their rights, especially in the workplace.
History has shown over and over again that inequality only changes if the suppressed get together and fight for their rights and against the oppressors.
Today, most people seem to happily give up all their power in order to play pingpong with their boss or something like that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every sandwich based catering order has to come with onions on every sandwich. No meat? Fine, but plenty of onions. No cheese, no problem but there will be about half an onion per tiny piece of sandwich. No bread? Sure, here is a sandwich wrapped in something else, oh by the way it is just an onion wrapped in lettuce so enjoy!
Don't get me wrong, I love fried onions (must be cooked completely) and cook with them frequently. I am not even allergic, I just have a severe taste aversion and if I get even the SLIGHTEST hint of raw onion flavor and/or texture I start gagging uncontrollably and cannot enjoy the taste of anything for at least 30 minutes afterward.
The worst is when sandwich places keep the cut up onions next to the prepped tomatoes, and some onion bits and juice make their way into the tomato container and contaminate the entire thing.
Don't worry I'm not the least bit bitter about this.
The infinity of the universe. Just thinking about that there are infinite versions of infinite things and unlimited possibilities of any imaginable and unimaginable concept, blows my mind up.
How people get energy from coffee. I hear all sorts of people saying how coffee powers them,etc. But when I drink coffee it's just a warm tasty drink. I don't feel any energy. I feel shit as always.
How are any of the big cat zoos/sanctuaries/cults/whatever you want to call them from Tiger King any different from one another? They all keep big cats in cages. Why does Carole Baskin get an out?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Red stone in Minecraft, I will never understand some of the shit people make
How tf did Helen Keller learn to read and speak.
I read her book called The Story Of My Life and the first thought was: this is pure bullshit.
I mean how can anyone who got blind and deaf at the age of 18 months learn to read and speak and write.
I genuinely don't understand how to set demarcation between working and chilling/off work time while working at home. I feel I'm always working throughout the day, more than what I was working when I used to go to office.
Vaccums in space.. My dad is a physics teacher and has tried to explain to me hundreds of time. I just don’t understand what fills the space if it’s nothing??
How we know people see the same colors. If somebody pointed to an object and I said it’s red, how do I know they see the red I see? How do I know that their version of red isn’t my version of blue??
Long division/ multiplication. I could never grasp it in math class and I've had numerous people try to help me through it.. they always end up receiving the same blank, confused stare.
Why is everyone so ok with dying. Sure there is a fear most people have. But theres this whole societal culture where death is ok. We all have to die blablabla. I know we dont like in some sci-fi utopia, but it feels like theres an asteroid headed for earth and everyones just acting like everything is fine. Im sure its out there but i feel like there should be a more collective panic or effort to halt it or... idk.
TLDR; I am so afraid of dying and i dont understand how people are indifferent to it.
Why people call them "assless chaps", I understand that they are trying to emphasise that they're assless, but that's what makes them chaps instead of just jeans.
How so many otherwise logical people can think they just so happened to be born into the only "real" religion without any even remotely compelling evidence. Religions have changed throughout history as we became better able to understand the world, why wouldn't that apply now? I guess I just don't understand blind faith.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the greedy people who get into important government positions are so short-sighted. If they want to keep power and wealth coming, they'd better invest in the people who put them there. Keep the people happy and they'll choose you every time. Instead, people just get the metaphorical shaft in favor of personal interests.
It makes no sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so ignorant, needy, and selfish and cannot do what they are told to stop the spread of Corona Virus.
Where is the internet coming from? I get electricity is processed through a wire in a series of lights that go on and off in accordance to the coding but where is the internet? Is it in the cables or the electro magnetic waves around us?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:26:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's less sunlight in the winter and more in the summer, like how it's cooler in the shade than in the sun. The seasons occur at opposite times in the opposite hemisphere, but the planet is too big for all the heat to equal out
Racism / Sexism whatever bullshit unwholesome -ism - I genuinely don't understand why not everybody is able to treat each other with decency and respect.
How electrical ground works. When is ground used vs the neutral socket? Over time does the electricity have any effect on the actual ground outside over time?
why butts or boobs are considered attractive. I don’t get it. I don’t get the fact that people can look at someone’s butt and be like “yeaaah that’s a hot butt.” Its weird.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a phone call works, like the physical science behind it. You could explain it to me all day long and I still won't be able to wrap my brain around how my voice can travel through wires and someone thousands of miles away can hear me.
Oh, also the universe. Because holy fuck is that thing big and my poor little human brain can't fathom infinity. It gives me a headache to think about the size of it, because it literally doesn't end. And if it does end, then what's outside of it? What's outside of that? And what's outside of that?
It hurts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Square footage. Specifically relating to houses/apartments/etc. I understand that it's used to describe the size, but understanding what a certain number means is completely lost on me
Same. I would only ever be able to understand it in comparison to something I already know. My house is x sq ft, the new houses being built are x+2000 sq ft and is therefore bigger. By how much, I still don’t know, but I know it’s bigger
I’ve worked for a research lab for a while, went through tons of science related courses in Uni, and devote much of free time to reading related books, papers, and essays. So far I’ve yet to hear convincing evidence as to how the first eyes developed... In conversation, I can explain all the major theories, regurgitate popular explanations, and sound competent and knowledgeable to most people. In reality, it still makes no sense to me. How the hell did creatures go from eyes not existing, to BOOM, you can now “see”? I understand how modern eyes developed from the primordial theory of eyes. But, I have some sort of logic-gap or blind-spot when going from point A (no eyes) to point B (first primordial “eyes”) developed on the first organism.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:32:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a whole different discussion friend... creationism vs common ancestor evolution. In the labs I’ve worked in and circles I run with, the former is akin to flat-earthers and taken just as seriously. Not dissing creationism or anything, I try to keep an open-mind, but many of my colleagues would laugh if someone presented those ideas to them; then their opinions would never be taken seriously again.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:49:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Netflix can keep pushing out the shittiest content.
Like these motherfuckers really made a THIRD SEASON for 13 Reasons Why, like goddamn, and it’s about Bryce Walker, who raped the girl who killed herself in the first season, and their trying to give Bryce some sympathy by showing him bonding with his mother and shit, like what in the goddamn!
Honestly probably a really dumb thing but I never understood how instantaneously things can happen over the internet basically just using 1s and 0s ( obviously more complicated) but apart of this is voice and video chat. Probably easily understood by others but it's like magic to me
LYX-ok · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me how dumb are some people are who can F*cking afford any high end shit ,why apple trade(I may get blasted by toxic android and apple sheeps) in is a lot different for other countries in my opinion
7hend · 1 points · Posted at 06:42:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not close the entrance to healthy cities where there is no coronavirus
The metric system was made just after the American Revolution, during the French Revolution and put in place in France a few years (decades) later, while everybody was using imperial. The system caught along over Europe for its simplicity over the past couple hundred years and I guess it just didn’t catch along in America, Liberia and Myanmar.
Fun fact: The metric system is actually older than the imperial by 35 years! It just got put into place later!
And yes, I did research it.
Also the answer to why they don’t use it is because they actually did implemented the change, but they did it sloppily, and, instead of making the change compulsory, they made it voluntary and nobody cared enough to change over to another system of measurement.
If you were on an infinite, flat plane, and you could see infinitely far, would there be a horizon? If so, what the fuck? If not, would the plane loop up around your head, or at least look like it?
I think I have an issue with auditory processing because 90% of the time, I can look straight at someone who’s talking to me, concentrate on nothing except for what they’re saying and not understand a single fucking word.
increasing the money supply in economics. Yes, "print more money" but how does it make it's way into the economy and how does the government ensure it keeps moving?
I don't understand why I can find romantic interest in some one and then I suddenly lose that interest all of a sudden. I've had most of my relationships end because I suddenly lose my romantic interest for no reason at all and I absolutely HATE this about myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to bleach hair without crying after because it looks terrible.
What happens when you die, where do you go? Do you even know you are dead? Because do you even have a mind to know you are dead? What do you see?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Online banking, online shopping, credit cards, debit cards, credit. Please help me someone. I don't want your opinion, I just want a factual and consistent answer.
How someone can hurt a person and not feel bad, or even feel good about it. Like, even when I'm writing a story, I have a hard time writing real 'bad' people. I can write selfish or ignorant people, but true sadists... nope
KwtanL · 1 points · Posted at 06:51:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people will never learn something because someone will be around to help them. What if they aren't ?
Why can't I find someone to talk about my feelings or thoughts with ?
For the student side of me,
Geography, China is currently in the stage of transforming from secondary industries to tertiary industries. Who will do the first and secondary industries when all countries have developed ?
Biology, How did everything come to be? It can't be just by chance of something randomly coming to be the way it is now. Someone designed it or something did ?
Religion, what someone just make something up and people believed in it or something , why ?
Humans, why kill each other or argue over some ideas that doesn't make any sense that is completely made up ?
Language , why do we still learn something that is over 10 centuries old which are completely irrelevant now ? History I understand but why language ? No one is going to understand or use them.
One last thing , what counts as normal ? And what is subjective opinions ?
If matter, which is essentially energy, can't be created nor destroyed. Why is perpetual energy impossible? Matter is perpetual isn't it... The universe is running off perpetual energy and the matter of which it is comprised can never go away. Right?
It can't be created or destroyed, but it can change form. Think of a log, you set it on fire and use that heat to power something, all that energy gets converted to fumes. Now you need to build something else that can use those fumes as an energy source.
The universe is not perpetual, it seems that way because of how vast it is and incomprehensible but it's not perpetual, the universe will eventually run out of energy and stop, it will take billion upon billions of years for that to happen but it will.
Arenyt · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fast time goes by when we are asleep. Like sometimes I’ll get anxiety thinking about it. I’ll purposely stay up late, because I know if I sleep, the next day will come super fast. Staying up late allows me to slow down time.
Probably stupid but color. I'm colorblind but it's not like I see in a gray scale, I see color but I see them mixed up.
I can tell which color is which if it's pure but when mixed I'll probably see it differently than most people, but why? Color is perceived by me and I'm telling you how I see it, how do I know that the turquoise you're seeing is not exactly as the green I see but we just name them differently?
I don't even know if I can explain this correctly.
How fucking computers work man, like how the electricity moves and shit. How typing e on a keyboard makes it appear on the screen. I also know that’s code is behind a lot of it, but who coded the code, how does the machine understand the code that’s being type. God damn.
Why, when I die in a game, an entire load screen has to be sat through just to put everything back where it was when I've been affecting the game world in all sorts of ways up until that point with no loading needed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printers work, how can they be so fast and yet so accurate, does it stamp the letters one by one, how do the letters get on the paper? I just don't get it.
Except it's not, our universe is finite, it just keeps expanding and while we will never reach the corners of the universe, it's still an expanding universe, not infinite. At some point that expansion will stop, when all the energy in the universe is expended.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:04:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people call people try hards in video games. Isn’t that the point? To try hard to win?
I’m an EMT and when I was in school I learned that the chest cavity has negative pressure in it and that’s what allows the lungs to inflate, and if that is compromised (like an open wound into the chest cavity) air comes into the chest cavity and that creates positive pressure and can collapse a lung (pnuemothorax). Like I completely understand the correlation of “air in chest cavity bad” but i still can’t wrap my head around negative and positive pressure, it just makes no fuckin sense to me.
Wish I got here earlier, but what, if anything, drives time forward? Where is the next moment coming from? Must the next moment happen? If so, why? What is making that moment in time come to pass? Is there a driving force behind time?
I'm by no means knowledgable in such things, so this might just be my personal opinion (and therefore invalid).
Time doesn't exist, it's a human concept. What drives everything and what seems like "time" is all the other laws of physics working together.
A star being born from a nebula, a star producing heat and having a massive gravitational pull, planets getting caught in its pull, entropy, living organisms consuming energy and heat to function and so on.
Every moment is generated by everything that is and working according to the laws of the universe.
Imagine you are dreaming and you are at some place you can't identify. Supposedly you are in a room which you had never seen before and you are casually dream and nothing weird, at this point you can only see the room and a few doors and windows. The thing that fascinates me is when you try to move around like towards on of the doors, our brain tries to render that space for us and it's soo damn perfect (all this happens in a split second). It's like from the movie inception where the build the world/spaces around them but the difference is that our brains do it subconsciously and it's perfect to the finest detail. This makes me think that our brain is more powerful while we are asleep. Anybody else notice such things?
The feeling of staring at a window with closed curtains in a very bright day and the room is dark, or a deserted street in the middle of the afternoon. A lot of places that get deserted in broad daylight kind of gives me this inexplicable sense of distortion in reality somehow and it's really bizarre that it's kind of hard to put into words sometimes.
The theories surrounding the existence of Earth, when i was in 5th grade taking about stuff on how the Earth existed, they said the Big Bang theory, a star supernova theory and another one which i forgot, I paid all attention to the explanations and still hasn't understand these theories, During quarantine I'm still helping myself understand what they mean.
Why ps3 did not get the village and pillage update on Minecraft, but stopped at update aquatic. Like, it's the only edition of Minecraft that didn't get the village and pillage update. It sucks but I just have to deal with it... Btw if you were wondering, yes i have a ps3, and it's what I play on.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t worry. I still use my Xbox 360 and I am perfectly content with it
I'm fine with it too I just really want them to update the rest of the platforms you can play Minecraft on. Its annoying but like, what can you really do ya know.
So i'm danish, my best friend is chinese. (This is importen to the story. ) She speaks danish, english, german and chinese.
So one night when we where walking home, she was speaking with her chinese mother, I was walking in beside her, just thinking about things, when one question poped into my head.
"does she think in danish, english or chinese?" Becauce when we talk we speak half danish and half english.
To all of you, that speak more then one language. What language do you think in?
A mix of both native language and English. But for different purposes, I think native for serious things and English for anything else that pops into my head.
Sound. Inputs, outputs, channels, etc. I'll get it to do the thing I need for a moment, but ask me a minute later and I've confused myself again. It's an endless cycle of trial and error with no real learning for me and drives me nuts.
Not trolling, not out for a fight, not trying to be an instigator, but I honestly genuinely don’t understand republican ways of thinking and general right wing views of the world.
Flat earthers. It's a guilty pleasure to watch the videos of flat earth believers. There's something special about people so lost in their convictions that they ignore solid tangible evidence and then talk like you're the stupid one.
How it’s possible for me to quickly mention trix cereal, hold my phone in front of my face moments later, my phone recognizes specific pixels as regions of my face, uniquely identifies it as my face, and then opens up to Instagram where I can see ads for trix.
And despite the fact that we have the technology to do all this, when I highlight my text and hit ‘caps lock’ the text doesn’t automatically switch to capital letters.
The real impact of the national debt. We owe the vast majority to ourselves. China's and Japan's stake is less than 10% and completely exaggerated in the media. The debt fairly reasonable until the early 80's when Congress went nuts. And the two parties actually operate as polar opposites of their standard party lines. Debt skyrockets under Republicans and recovers under Democrats. I think Bill Clinton actually balanced the budget during his tenure working with both parties
I don't think anyone knows what it means over the long term because it's never happened without a country going bankrupt
The stock market. I just... can’t grasp it. Like, you buy a stock, but it’s not a tangible thing, it’s like an investment..? And is there a finite number of stocks for one company, or do they conceptually have no limit?
Idk. I have a BS in Chemistry and now I’m working on an advanced degree and stocks just continue to baffle me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In video games and movies how did the ancient people discover magic spells? How did they know what to say and if they wrote it and made it themselves why not make it just like “boof” and not a paragraph long sentence while also having to do weird hand motions in the movie Onwards (IDK ITS NOT REALLY SPOILERS BUT IT COULD BE) it could have ended in 20 mins if the spells were just one word long and they didn’t have to do weird things like focus on one thing and “sPeAk FrOm YoUr HeArTs FiRe”
Gravity. I know the earth is round, and I know it keeps us on earth, but my brain just can’t comprehend how the people living on the countries at the bottom of earth don’t feel like they are upside down.
YLI4 · 1 points · Posted at 07:52:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Their thoughts. Mindsets. Worldviews. Why is everything difficult? Why is everything so complicated? Why is it that contentment and happiness are too hard to find for someone. Especially to someone who claims that she knows exactly what she wants.
evolution in the sense that animals evolve to their surroundings lol. The one that made me question this particularly was like a fox that has white fur during the winter to blend in with snow and then sheds it and has brown fur to blend in during the other months.... lol like howwwww does it’s dna and fur even do that. Like I understand why just not how I don’t know.
LaSage · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can it be that despite the fact that trump is clearly compromised and beholden to a foreign power, and despite the fact that he is activly working against the health and well being of Americans, and despite the fact that t is causing the deaths of countless Americans, how in God's name is he still in his job as though he weren't committing treasonous War Crimes?
Computers. I am pretty good at using computers, and I am more educated than the majority of people on computer stuff, but I get completely lost with certain parts. I dont understand how a combination of parts can result in a computer experience. In my head I know what each individual part does, but it baffles me how they just magically work together. Also, folders and files. Oh my god. I am horrible with downloads and getting certain files to run. I play vr and try to install mods for certain games. But when I have to go into the game files, and pick the correct folder, I just get utterly confused.
Dissociative Identity Disorder: I've always been amazed with people having it, as they display the personalities are distinct and possess skills that the host doesn't even have.
What the fuck is wrong with humanity, (I know that this next part is a touchy subject but I think it proves my point) for example...Candace newmaker yeah I know but before I get to my point in case anyone hasn’t heard of Candace newmaker or her story here’s the link to the transcript start of with this (quick content warning it’s extremely disgusting as in a disgusting visual of this horrid story so fair warning) https://www.ratbags.com/rsoles/comment/candace.htm there’s the link but anyway my point is that humanity is just disgusting so yeah I genuinely don’t know what is wrong with humans
When I was little I used to think to myself “if I draw a line straight up in the air, and keep going, what comes after we leave the earths atmosphere? And after we leave space? And keep traveling in the same direction forever, what’s after “nothing”, and what’s after nothing’s nothing?? And after that? And after that?”
How coding works. Like wtf do u need a slash here or a file. there. Also, how tf does a cockpit work?? too many buttons, switches, it's like tryin to choose a chocolate but they're all your favourites and u dk which to choose.
i live in New Zealand, where the corona virus has only taken four lives, due to the efforts of oir prime minister and Parliament. i can't comprehend what the fuck is wrong with trumps head
i can't comprehend what the fuck is wrong with trumps head
I'm pretty sure trying is bad for one's own head.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people don't seem to translate or express their 'second silence'.
There is always that memory or thought we recognize as 'oh yeah, that thing' but there is also that second silence which only surfaces for intense/impactful things which tend to be the moments that make us go 'well, this is me now'.
A second silence is essentially the part of our brain/internal dialogue that goes 'if all obstacles are removed then I'm in!' while the first silence is the one that goes 'what can I learn from this?'
If there was ever a contender for what I just said it would probably be how translation/transition isn't taught as a basic idea or class in schools. Not specifically foreign language but the general idea that there are always two unknowns that we are living/operating within and being able to take two unknowns and make a thing from an existing understanding of it, then present that to another, and have them recognize or relate to the output product is just a joy.
Serious question for all the scientist out there!
I dont get why theres a way to remove or safely contain radiation from a nuclear site. I mean is there nothing we can do for disaster sites like, Chernobyl?
Is there nothing on this planet that can safely absorb, remove it, destroy radiation or radiated materials?
How are we able to see them with cameras? Do they think it’s the time period they died? Do they know the current time period? How are they bound to us? How are they more active around certain people and not others?
It confuses me and intrigues me all at the same time.
Also, demons. Where do they come from? What determines a soul becomes demonic?
How vinyl records work!
How the heck is there music carved into an object physically. It blows my mind, especially that they came up with this method and used it for recording in the early XX century.
People who get so paralyzed by the idea of making a decision, even if it seems obvious.
When I was younger I had a friend who was a genuinely smart and passionate person. She always spoke about her dreams and how she would execute them if she only had the chance. Due to long, irrelevant reasons she lived with my parents and I for a short period of time where the only expense she had to pay was her phone bill. After a few months and some research my parents offered to pay for her to go to school for her dream. It wasn't a lot of money to them and they've always been the kind of people to help where they can. They sat her down and laid out that they were willing to pay for all expenses, so she would continue to only have to worry about her phone bill, and at no point did they expect her to pay them back. She asked if she could "think about it". Granted, this was a big decision and for anyone who doesn't know my parents it might sound to good to be true. But she had known us for years and knew that this was the kind of pay-it-forward thing I was raised on. After months of my parents and I bringing it up to her about every other week we realized she was never going to decide and gave up. I really don't understand.
In a less extreme case I also once dated a boy who was so indecisive that he texted me to ask if he should take a shower or a bath because his family was out of the house so he couldn't ask them. Lol, I really don't get people.
Why movies can't be assed to actually put liquid in the props. It is kind of ridiculous watching the actors 'drink'. If it was up to me, I would put liquid in.
Vision after light gets converted to neuron signals.
The eyes are pretty straight forward thing. You just have bunch of sensors that convert light to signals. But what happens after that? How does brain processes this signals? Where is the final image projected?
Random guys asking women for nudes out of nowhere, over text obviously. Its super weird and reaaallllly creepy. Stop. This goes both ways just males do it a lot more.
Dreaming of things in your life before they happen.
I've had many occasions since I was young where I have a weird and vivid dream. I wake up wondering who it was I was with or in places I never thought I would ever be.
Eventually the day arrives where that dream comes to life and I catch it. I remember having the dream and there I am in the middle of it.
I have even remembered the moment a person walked into the room in my dream and I knew they were coming before they arrived.
People have told me it's a good thing to have dreams or deja vu like this though, they say it means your where your supposed to be or your on the right path in your life.
It's just one of those things in life that I don't understand. How does it work? Can I learn to do it whenever I want? Why does it happen?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:53:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams I guess. They are very complex and intricate. We don't know why they exist and what is the purpose of our dream in our daily lives. Why sometimes we don't have a dream and why sometimes we forget it really really quick.
The instinct many people have to slap bags of rice/soil/flour/soap. I don't know what makes our ape brains go "hmm yes smooth shiney surface, must slap" I've seen people of all ages and sizes do it. And although I don't understand it, I will continue to slap the bags.
You know, you killed me with your explanation. I have never felt this. I don’t know what love is and it’s hard for me to understand. I experienced a huge gamut of feelings for people, but nothing like love. Like pity, yes it was, sympathy, respect for people. But there is no love. What is it? Explain how it feels?
My desire to be approved and complimented. Mostly concerning my penis and face, vanity uhg!
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 09:04:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pysically selective sexualities.
Im pan, so other than hearing the same small dick crockery jokes (jrockery?), I also don't care about what you are. I get going over personalities more than anything. Sure, there are bodies that I love, but they're like irrelevant bonuses to the attraction - I have never once saw someone, no matter how much I enjoyed looking at them, and wanted them to bed me.
Now some dork talking about mongolian linguistics? Fuck yes take me now. Don't even finish the sentence, you've already got me.
I can understand asexual peeps, and aro to a degree, because it's the same but in reverse kinda, but hetro, homo, bi, etc? Fucking bizzare to me. Like, in theory they don't even have to be human - so long as they're an adult who can give legal informned consent, a cow with a good personality is as good as any human. Bodies are just a non-factor to me and I can not, for the life of me, understand how they can matter so much to y'all.
Hmm my theory based on a constructivism philo way. Its basicly that people trough the times have “learned from evolution that people need a good and healty partner” to mate with, and this is passed trough social-capital from generation to generation.
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 13:31:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I understand the logic behind it, I just can't 'get' it as an experience. Like telling a blind person about what it's like to see: makes sense but also so alien at the same time.
I kinda pity them - it's like a buffet but you're allergic to everything except one dish. except you want to fuck the food, i guess.
So basicly for you, its you look at the buffet and like the taste of the food, just not the look of the food or the mouthfeel of the food.
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda. I appreciate the look and the feel, but I have a.. much greater, I suppose, appreciation for the taste, the chemistry of the combinations, the nurtrional value, and all that other internal stuff because I don't have to spend time lusting over the curve of a lettuce leaf.
This is different to people who 'fall in love after a while' or 'but he's got a nice personality' - I can want to fuck someone after a simple greeting, so it's not like it'a delayed response either.
How people grasp music theory and apply it to their instrument of choice. I've played guitar for 4 years now and I struggle learning a song and even then I cant tell people the notes. I dont know how they process the information in a way that it just.. stays and they can then learn the next thing. (There are no teachers in my area and Yousician sucks.)
Stocks. Not for companies like Tesla no no no I mean like who the fuck decides when the Canadian dollar is worth less all of a sudden, The CEO of money?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:10:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ask anyone I know, they'll say I'm an idiot and understand nothing, but what they dont know is that i want them to think of me like that because if I dont want to talk to them I can easily play off the dumb blonde act and then easily slip away. Oh but I am still an idot, how else did you think I could play it off so easily? I've got years of experience under my belt. XD
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:14:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Don't understand what it is, how it works, or how to calculate it. I'm not dumb and I've always been good at math. Just cannot seem to grasp the concept.
How you ”see” something in your mind while looking at something else and how you can perceive both, as well as the fact I can see colours in my head even though I don’t have any way to perceive them
How someone can go through an entire childhood and not remember much of anything. No TBI, or any other trauma. Just no vivid memories. Like they weren’t really present or ever in the moment. How did that person pass through school if they weren’t paying attention?
I don't understand how someone dealing with a problem can attack it head on with confidence and courage, but facing a different problem they will break down and hide from it
How can the mind/brain/person be so different, sure I understand the problem may be different but why would you change the way you approach it?
If you get results being confident, why is your go-to to be a coward another time? Especially if the problem you hid from comes round again and again?
Fact resistance. Why can political leaders get away with incompetent decision making and being caught in obvious lies again and again? It becomes a joke and almost normal, but they don’t seem to loose democratic popularity because of it. Why is that even possible? How come humanity haven’t found a solution to this yet? It really scares me and I don’t understand why it is being accepted by the majority of people. That’s not how democracy is supposed to be.
Existence...Ok we exist in earth then we die and we go to heaven,a parallel universe,another dimension and who knows where but even those who are already there, were somewhere before that and before that like how does heaven or this dimension exist where did it come from what is the source of that existence? And if we do find out what that source is then again what is the source of THAT existence?No matter where you go there always was something before that and after that and its so crazy i can't even process that
Why the concept of obtaining per capita data appears to be lost on most people. Most recently: The US has more deaths from COVID-19 than Italy. Um, yes we do. We also have 5x plus the population, so it is going to get a lot worse. But this doesn't just come up in situations like the world is in right now, it is all the time. People compare cities, states, countries, etc. without using per capita information (which is honestly the tip of the iceberg, but what people should be doing minimally).
Sorry, too sombre? But on a less personal note, as a teacher I see parents all the time who clearly don't love their children. I would say a solid 5 to 10% of my students are neglected. And that's not including the children that get actively abused.
Maths. I Just dont understand why we have to learn something Like sin, cos, tan, and stuff Like that, especially If you already know you wont need it in your Future.
Also: why are so many people afraid of spiders? Poisonous spiders i would understand, but this simple small housspiders, what are they gonna do to you? Your a hundret Times bigger, you can simply kill it If needed?
why are yOU RUNNING?
The concept of energy.
Why/how is ATP making us able to move our body? I don't understand how something at a chemical level can "correlate" to a broad term such as energy.
It also seems like energy has a different meaning depending on the context, and that is so confusing to me: When talking about energy in psychics, I feel like I'm starting from square one again
(I know that there are plenty of other types of energy, but I still don't understand any of them, lol)
The concept of infinity. Mainly because if there turns out to be an afterlife, you can do nothing for infinity long and still have an infinite amount of time left, the whole idea just boggles me.
How your preceptors or mentors (in your relevant profession) get a kick out of being a jerk. It’s like they want to watch you cry in order to feel as if they are superior, idk. I work in healthcare and my preceptors on all my rotations have always tried to upset me, but it never bothers me.
How we perceive colour!?! I once spent 10 minutes desperately trying to see yellow under only blue light and it was low-key frustrating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe in a god or gods. My opinion is, it is a form of hypnotism or they are mentally unwell.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any sort of religion, but mostly those that involve higher beings or other wacky stuff. Ive grown up around different denominations of Christianity, but my parents aren’t very religious and therefore I was never too involved with it.
I don’t know if this is just me but the fact that we’re breathing and seeing and just being alive I don’t know how to explain but I just look around and I think to myself "fuck this is actually real im actually real i Can fucken see and im standing here" then as I think about it more it starts to seem like it’s fake i don’t know
Racism, sexism, homophobia etc. Like why would anyone out anyone else below them just because they look a bit different/have different views? Beyond me
How my fifth grade teacher -who traumatized half a class with yelling and barely taught us anything- didn't get fired. I cried myself to sleep multiple times because I didn't want to go to school the next morning. Thank FSM we got a new teacher for sixth grade but still! HOW DID HE MANAGE TO GET OUT OF THAT WITHOUT ANY PUNISHMENT!?
When your brain sends signals. If your arm was super long could there be a delay? Sure the brain sends signals to move stuff, but what sends those signals? How does it know when to send the signals? Surely we don’t just think of it like “move finger 7 up two centimeters” it’s just happens.
Anything math related more than the basics. I've never been diagnosed with any type of learning or mental disability but for some reason I just cant wrap my mind around numbers. At all. It's like being only fluent in English but trying to read Spanish. Its so embarrassing to me and I hate talking about this. I just have so much trouble. I cant spot patterns or even so basic budgeting without having to write things physically or do charts to understand what's going on :(
the contradictory nature and trajectory of emotions. how they change from once upon a time “i can’t wait to see you” to “i won’t mind if we never saw each other again”, as you grow out of a particular love. how sometimes they feel just the same even after many years as they all come crashing back like a wave when you see someone you loved once again. how you can be content with and genuinely care for someone, but be completely in love- a very different type of love- with someone else.
There is this one thing I've been trying to wrap my head around since forever, really scared me sometimes as a kid. I was never religious, so as a kid I always thought nothing would happen after our death, today I just dont know what will happen or if anything will happen. But let's say nothing happens. That nothing eill be eternal, literally, there is no end to this reality. and rven if there is, time cant stop it goes on for ever, now I ponder that for a while and really try to realize what it means not to exist for the rest of eternity, and whenever I think about i hard enough theres this point where the thought really flashes me and makes me go oh shit. I dont know why, and as a kid as I said, this absolutely terrified me.
I don't understand / can't visualise infinity. Mathematical rules just fail when applied to infinity. e.g.
2infinity = 3infinity.
Why can't the world be simpler.
The fact that my consciousness isn't actually located in particular place, just roughly around my head. Making my brain feel more like a biological accessory that I barely notice.
How the things inside our body can stretch for thousands of miles but condense into a figure of about 6 ft tall.
The terminology of guns and how exactly they work.
Why every action has a reaction, even when it doesn't make sense.
How bees can fly.
How gravity can hold everything together but be so weak.
How and why we're here, and how random everything actually is when you think about it.
Whether or not animals have thoughts.
How the human body is so strong and weak at the same time.
Technology & Discs.
Im not a boomer but:
From playstations to gameboys to computers to even cell phones, I just don't understand how a motherboard con hoard so much information for us to utilize.
And discs, I did read up abit on it and understood how it works based off of the grooves but that might make sense for vinyl since the squeaks are designed enough to make the words and sounds we hear... I guess?
But how does a CD contain the files or pictures we put onto it. Baffles me tbh.
Why people have the need to feel taken care of. It makes me feel awkward like I owe the other person something, so I try to avoid people doing me favors if at all possible.
Selfish people aren’t rude to me, they are a different species, who needs to be understood, not shamed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:52:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you can have a real talent for something or be really good at something and yet absolutely hate doing it. Like, what's the point?? For example: customer service.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:54:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CELLS. Like when you zoom into all places of our bodies does it really boil down to one single cell?? I wish there was a video or something that shows how it looks like zooming into different parts of the body where you reach different cells. I can’t even explain what I don’t know!!!! Also microscopes at the same time ... telescopes!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:59:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can create overthink to the point of creating problems in our heard that weren't even there. Even to the point that it affects us psychologically and how we approach situations (especially social).
goblix · 1 points · Posted at 11:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How boomers this Biden is better on the environment than Bernie
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:31:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Colour blindness - so is that thing invisible? Is it grey?
Basically, if you add all positive integers from one to infinity together, so 1 + 2 + 3 + 4 + 5 + 6 ... forever, then the answer, I shit you not, is negative one over twelve
The theorem has actual physics applications, and the proof is super easy to explain, but that doesn't mean I understand it any better
My answer is going to be controversial. But- I shouldn't be worried about that. Anyway, to explain, I will first tell you a story. I'm not naming any names, but I know this guy who is gay. At the time this happened, he was 17. We were on a bus to go to what was basically a summer camp, and he was telling everyone the story of something that had happened to him recently at his college. There had a been a girl there- she had a crush on him. And she had come up to him and said, "I think I really like you." Aparrently, that was offensive because he was gay. He responded with "Well sorry to burst your bubble, love!" in a sarcastic agressive way. And told her he was gay. Because of the agression (and probably partly because she now knew that she could never be in a relationship with him), she got very upset and went to a teacher crying. The teacher came in and told the gay boy (man?) that he had upset her. He responded that she had upset him, and he just told her he was gay. He was saying on the bus how wrong the teacher had been to tell him off instead of the girl. And everyone on the bus seemed to agree.
I didn't say anything, but I don't get it. Why should it be offensive for a girl to like a gay boy? Especially if she didn't know he was gay? It's not offensive for a gay girl to like a straight girl or a gay boy to like a straight boy, so why is it different? If somebody can explain it to me, please do, but I doubt I'll ever understand. And please don't say "straight people never seem to understand these things", because... I'm not actually straight. I'm bi. Anyway, that's my answer.
How for over 1300 years people who call themselves Christians flock in droves to the most Evil Fascist they can find... like moths to a flame. It makes me believe that those who claim Christianity are more Cult members than anything... they sure have nothing to do with Jesus but everything to do with Fascism and Cultism.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 12:06:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. What's causing these stock values to go up and down? Why does the success of a company have any impact on the value of a stock?
Could I create a dummy company, sell stock in it, and have people compete just as fiercely for the shares? Could I just take the money and run, leaving the shares to be bought and sold with no further interference on my part?
I've been learning about investing, but all the instructional sites seem to deal with what the things are rather than why things are the way they are.
Probability. Basic phenomena like tossing a coin is alright. But phenomena with more variables and outcomes make the probability figure incomprehensible.
It is said Albert Einstein spent the last year's of his life trying to establish a general theory of relativity that would reconcile how things behave on the scale of the very small with the behaviour of things that are very large. I don't understand how things could suddenly change. I would like to know where exactly along the line of things getting larger things change their behaviour? Have I even got the question right?8
How anything came to be. Like there are insane amounts of interconnected extraordinarily complex systems that just happened to be. My brain hurts when I try to comprehend the possibilities of what everything could be if it wasn’t this, because it is quite literally unimaginable because it just isn’t
I know I will never be able to comprehend the nonexistent possibilities for existence but it’s still cool to think about.
Humans,I just genuinely don’t understand and am fascinated with how the human body works.How we are so similar,yet so different,how we think,how we percieve different situations,and experience the same things very differently
And also the multiple personality disorder,how they are in the same body but like one can be allergic to something and the other not,or like one be talented in something the other not so much.My brain just can’t grasp it
That probability has anything to do with the real world. I could have a 99% chance of lose and 1% chance of winning and still win 10 times in a row. Since the prosentige is of the whole and doesn't mean anything since u dont know the sample size needed to get it right. Like 50/50 coin toss lands half the time on head but you can get 20 heads in a row so what does the probability mean even in real world application.
-HTID- · 1 points · Posted at 12:24:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can just walk into a place and talk to anyone. Or dance in a club. I just can’t do it. It takes days for me to work up the courage to just ring someone.
I still do not understand how you can measure and know which line is the neutral and which one has the voltage in an AC system. The current flows in equal amounts by both lines 60 times per second.
I truly cannot understand how millions (billions?) of cell phone calls, text messages, photographs, printer directions, wireless anything - how can they happen all at one time and everything gets where it is supposed to go? I get that there are bandwidths, but that's it. How many bandwidths can there be?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many many bandwidths. But mostly things just don't travel wireless for very long. Your cell phone for instance only sends signals to a tower that's roughly a couple dozen miles away (depending on how rural you are) which in turn sends things into wires. So each tower is probably only doing a few thousand things at once.
(B) If it is Men-Made then what is the purpose? If men know how to make it then men should should know how to destroy it.
Is the purpose to suspend human activities is to reduce pollution, resist climate change or the purpose is to destroy the economy of a developed country or group developed countries and take edge over the country or countries who cannot stop the havoc caused by Coronavirus?
Makeup. I live in a house of a tri-generation that's dominated by women. My grandma, mom, and sister. Aside from my grandfather I'm the only dude there and anytime they mention makeup on someone using makeup I can't help but get confused. When they say stuff like "oh that girl is using too much makeup" I don't get it. When they say "it's because she looks like a clown" I am thinking "but she doesn't look like the Joker or Harley Quinn". And then when they themselves use makeup I could never tell but when they're with other chicks everyone is saying "I love your makeup". On top of that when they use that special wipe, the Makeup Remover, that was the only way I could tell there was makeup. Plus what am I supposed to think of that makes the concept easier to understand. Is it a basically paint to help "beautify" them? Is it basically human white-out to help cover up any acne? Plus there's the talk of apparent different "advanced" techniques and names for different types of makeup stuff there is. I mean when they talk eyeliner and lipstick I'm thinking "okay so it's the stuff on their eyes and lips" but once words like "mascara" shows up I'm at a loss what to think.
politics. it always seems like every person you choose to support or every new bill or law that gets passed sounds good but then theres an ugly side to it that you're not aware of. Every news source seems to twist things and staying up to date with it all is so exhausting. I can't ever come to a conclusion of who or what I support confidently.
So I understand that there's a finite amount of 'stuff' on earth and economics is the study of who gets what. Sure. Got it.
When you start busting out graphs and the invisible hand and talking about Keynes like he's your BFF and whatever else, 20-year-old me suffers through second-year political economy class a little bit more.
Why do I have to be the leader of a group if I do something useful and well. For example, if I decide now that I want to pick up some trash from the beach, people will start gathering and help because of course it's a good thing to do. But then, they will expect me to make the next group decision. Like, why? Can't you decide on your own if you want to pick up some trash?
I’m what would be considered “suicidal” which the term sounds like I’m going to do it, but I never will even if I wanna die real bad. These thoughts are mostly out of my control. I don’t have the chemicals in my brain to be myself and have my normal perspective and thoughts, I’m in extreme emotional pain and I don’t sleep. SO the brain goes straight to “I desperately need relief” so poor suicidal thoughts constantly. They are either kind of a relief bc I would do anything not to exist or annoying bc I’m not dark enough to have no hope or desire to live!
Got hit with all this 6 months ago, so it breaks my heart I’m not “me” most of the time. I now have I profound understanding of what ppl go through when they are suicidal, I used to just think like “ok why do you need to jump to that conclusion, that’s horrible.”
At what point and how did I understand people as a child. Like how can a baby understand "say mama" and actually utter the word. When did i start to converse with people?
Why governments can't just print more money if they run out. I've had people explain it to me over and over again, that it decreases the value of the currency, but I just don't get it!
If you only have 10 $100 bills, then people want them more, because there’s very few of them. If you have 1,000 of them, people want them less because there’s so many of them you’re more likely to have one. That’s a very simplified explanation, but it’s decently close.
This is pretty random but I've never understood the appeal of really big cities. I've lived in one most of my life (Paris) and I just couldn't wait to get out. The reason I hear often for people to stay is "There is everything here", like if you want to eat Nepalese food on a a Sunday you can. Sounds very strange to me.
From someone who has lived in a small town, like 500 people small: The idea of being able to do whatever you want whenever you want is intoxicating. In a small town, you can’t have any food delivered, if you want to go to a movie it’s 20 minute drive, if you want to go shopping it’s a 45 minute drive to the next big town. Living in a big city and being able to walk to wherever you want to go is very convenient.
Hum allright, well in the opposite way being able to do anything easily makes everything bland and kind of average; perhaps because you don't have to put much effort into anything you don't get the same rewarding feeling. So then nothing feels special anymore. But then that's just my opinion, I guess I got too used to everything being within reach in big cities... It's really interesting getting your perspective though, as it's pretty much opposite to what I know and insightful
I honestly don't understand how microwaves work, my 8th grade teacher told me tiny waves of energy called microwaves, but I did some research and others say it's radiation, but microwaves couldn't be radioactive could they? Is the radiation caused from an internal mechanism?
What people see in Naruto. The main character is annoying and all of the fight scenes that people link to 'prove how good it is' all seem rather boring.
Why do science and religion feel the need to disapprove each other? They are, by definition, unrelatable. Belief without facts vs. proof to create facts.
How we reached to the actuality. Like how people thought some minerals and other things I don't know could create technology, how far has medicine went and what people consider nowadays basic and obvious but it wasn't 100 years ago
Anti-vaxxers. I don't understand how anyone can ignore the mountains of evidence in front of them and gamble with their children's lives that way. I'll never understand how, when most of them are vaccinated themselves, how they can hate their children so much, just to make a point and not admit they're wrong. This is the ground they choose to sink their rocks on but it's their children that bear the brunt of their stubbornness
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:40:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate on other fandoms or things people enjoy just because they don't like the same things. Like it costs zero dollars to not be a jerk just because you don't like something that someone else does like.
Why do humans all look so different? I dont mean just in term of race, but shouldn't we all look more like one another then not? And I get the "early ancestors" distinction in some part, but why are we still so dramatically different?
how anyone likes brooklyn 99. the first episode one of the cops shoots a mannequin in the head 6 times and it was presented as an innocent joke. why is it funny that a cop would shoot someone in the head 6 times? i don’t get why it’s so romanticized i guess.
Chemistry, especially organic one. Never got it, never will get it, since i stopped trying a long time ago. Seemed interesting during highschool, but was too difficult for me.
Reality's can u love someone through all realities but still keep the soul in the body u first met it in? I know who my twin flame is but her ethereal body will not let her respond to me how do I save her? Amanda bazzell
Math. Plain and simple Algebra. If a number and letter are in the same equation my brain literally turns off all receptors, and I become a baby nursing again my mother's teet.
Mathematics.... Was told I would be using it in my daily life after school.. I have a mini computer in the palm of my hand that does all my thinking for me and I have long forgotten what they tried to teach me in Math! :-)
Im wondering how does the first people come to life. Did they just spawn like in game? I mean we have Adan and Eve inside a so called gate before they were threw. But how did they come to life did they spawn?
Money. Money makes no sense to me. Most money that you have is never a physical. It all exists online with the bank, your employer, and with credit cards. If the government wants more money, they print it. Everyone is in debt, even governments.
How mirrors work, how my left hand is still on my left side in a mirror but facing someone else, my left is their right, etc. I feel so dumb when I think about it
The light bouncing off your hand travels to the mirror and bounces off the mirror. It's like when you stamp a paper with a rubber stamp, you produce a mirror image on the surface the stamp struck.
Why people promote themselves at the cost of others. Like are they that jelly? It is not other people’s fault that they did not find and aspect to improve and build upon in your life. So why do they hate others that have? I will never understand, what stopped them and why they are that way.
How people can be so completely absent-minded as to litter. For example, all of the disposable gloves and masks I have seen recently all over the ground in the Walmart parking lot. Fucking mindless fucks.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how life works. Anyone here know?
Two. The number two. I don’t know what’s wrong but for some reason I don’t...hhh this is weird but it doesn’t make sense to me. It’s a weird number. Something about it scares me. It’s just something that I can’t describe.
ngl I have never understood mathematical and geometrical proofs, in a sense of what should i do next. I went through 8th grade geometry and that was the main topic I somehow managed to pass, I have literally not understood an entire year's worth of a subject.
empathy, people usually tell about their problems and things and it's hard for me to understand how they feel and sometimes I don't even care, that doesn't mean that I give them advice or try to help them but it's still not important to me
People that drive slow when there's only one lane, and then as soon as a passing lane opens up they floor it so no one can pass them, then slow down again after the passing lane ends
Modes and cadences. Like, is a mode not just a scale?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have so much money. I only make 27k a year before taxes and it makes me go NANI!? When i hear someone putting down 25k on a car as a down payment. Like how the hell can you do that? And they are just average joes like me.
If it makes you feel any better, physicists don't really get it either. Light is weird. Nothing can travel faster than it. It has wave properties. It has particle properties. And it's it's own propegation medium. Sometimes being a good phycists doesn't mean having a good understanding of something but the ability to say "Well that's weird but whatever."
NulloK · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:56 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
That actually did make me feel a little bit better :-D
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A thorough literal interpretation of any "holy" book. Some things have happened since most of these were written: logic is a pretty decent thing, literacy of the masses is on the up and up, oh oh and this new thing called science...just wait till you hear about this one
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how anyone can, in good faith, “like” Donald Trump as a president. The guy has a documented (i.e., substantive, longitudinal) history of lying about matters from the smallest to the largest (e.g., number of floors in a building), so what makes you think he is not lying/would not lie to you?
If you like his usefulness with respect to advancing the Republican Senate majority’s agenda(s), that’s fair. If you like his usefulness with respect to “sticking it” to people with whom you disagree (e.g., liberals; immigrants), then that’s honest. But how can you feel any kind of camaraderie with the man himself?
saved a friend from her suicide attempt i have been told, but i blacked out the memory of it. but what I genuinely don't understand is how the brain can blackout a memory like that?
Politics. When they’re all sat in that room on them daft fucking benches all shouting at each other. What on gods given fucking earth is going on there?
magnets, As far as im concerned magnetic energy is a force( magnetic forces duh) and it makes things move, things need energy to moive there is kinetic and potential energy. when i put a peice of metal next to a magnet there is no potential energy for th metal(I think so at least). anyway my point is where does the energy from magnests come from. they produce energy by making things move but they dont haver any energy in them. unless your using an electeromagnet then a magnet is just a special rock that can makes things move without using energy. please explain
edit: yeah I know I made a lot of spelling errors deal with it I dont care
w3dg22 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand, and I was about to post an ask askreddit about this, how business individuals think bringing people back to work faster while the virus is still spreading will help the economy for more than a week. Unexpected, mass absence and massive amounts of dead customers and employees is really bad for business. Not to mention the optics, long term.
Even thinking about it without empathy and sociopathically; idgi.
Everything. My whole reality is based on my perspective and memories but there’s so many other ways people see things I can’t possibly understand it all. I only know what I can perceive. But also, how do I know what I perceive is right?
mcm5tt · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who excercise in public eye... I either 6am it or 9pm it. Feels in your own lane
Women. She holds you so tight you can't feel your arms, makes you breakfast, confides in you, sends you kissy-face "Love you!" texts, falls asleep next to you. Then when you open up, she says we were never even friends, then her mother joins in and attacks me.
How the computer chips are made with billions transistors on one die without faulty triggers.
Memory is easy - you can disable faulty blocks, but cpu or gpu is mystery for me.
One time when I was a little kid I was outside playing with kids in my neighborhood. All of our parents were outside hanging out while we played. One of the moms put up one of those 'Warning Kids At Play - Drive Safe' signs. A few other parents put of cones and various other things to make sure no one sped down the street and hit us. At one point we decided to play baseball in the street and we saw a car coming. We all got out of the street and waited for him to pass. The parents saw that this guy was speeding toward us so they seemed on edge. So what does this guy do? He slows down his car, leans out the window, and grabs one of the cones?!?! He proceeded to drive a bit then throw the cone. All of our parents were angry and went to confront the guy. He ended up speeding off. Later on I learned he was notorious for speeding around our neighborhood and he was one of the main reasons our parents put the cones out. I don't understand why he grabbed the cone. To this day, I have no clue. What did grabbing the cone accomplish?
gmtcm · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How price fixing is legal with OPEC
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do we record sounds from a phone?? Or how is music recorded and played from a vinyl? I cannot comprehend this.
How some people choose their partners based on perks/benefits rather than genuine connection...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean that’s utilitarian. But not logical. Every decision is an emotional one. The only logical conclusion would be what ever one made most sense to do as the operator in the scenario. What repercussions would he face hitting one group or another. All you’ve done again is proven that 5 is less than 10. There is no conclusion that we can come to as humans that operates on only logic. Even scocipaths have emotions that guide them. They still feel anger.
How like signals work. I have no fuckin idea how we send a signal. Like what even is a signal? How is information put in a signal? How can a signal let me call somebody?
Furries. What turns people into cringy fursuit-wearing fucks who act like animals in public? I can't seem to get behind the idea of wearing a fursuit in the first place.
Heck, it wouldn't be that much of a problem for me if these people would at least shut up about it. But no, I somehow know several people who are in this community, and they always try to turn a conversation in this specific direction, no matter what was previously talked about or if the other people in the conversation are even interested.
And the ridiculous wondering why they're getting bullied, of course. For fucks sake, if you keep bringing it up in conversations with your relatively normal classmates and try to show people clips of other furries acting like maniacs in public you're going to get ridiculed by others. The worst thing is the kind of furries who go out wearing fursuits don't keep to themselves for the most part. Larger gatherings of furries in public, when there's no convention going on or something, are mostly just a bunch of weirdos harrassing people. There are lots of video documentations of furries in public harrassing others.
I genuinely don’t understand how students look so surprised after a teacher tells them off for something that they did. I sometimes fail to understand how students can be rude to their teacher, who only wants the best for them.
It’s not funny. They are not some revolutionary human rights activist that is standing up for the rights of students by being rude and plain disrespectful.
Unfortunately, this happens quite a lot in my class. The teacher has to stop the lessons and start a row with a rude and ungrateful student who is desperate for attention. Those students are selfishly preventing others from learning and making the teacher upset and moody for the rest of the day.
It’s alright to make a class joke every now and then, I don’t want to seem like someone that hates it when a person has fun, but doing it frequently and annoying the teacher to high heavens is not funny.
Stop seeking attention. You are not a comedian. Let the other students learn.
how people will assume they're offending someone else merely by being near by them. (this might be especially an american thing, not sure.) for instance, i'll be standing on a trail in the park, taking in the view or something. lets say a couple walks by and, a lot of the time, one of them will smile all guiltily and say or mouth "sorry!" right as they pass by you.
and if one of them is like talking or appears less aware of your presence, the other one will put their hand out and usher their partner along, in addition to the apology.
this is pretty specific, and its not something that annoys me per say, its something that genuinely befuddles me when it happens. when i was little i used to look around intently afterwards, thinking something bad happened or someone got hurt. and really, it makes me feel a lil crestfallen, like i wanna get up and do a jig or something and be like "you can be you!! you're safe here!"
Dreaming, like how do you see, what's going on up in your head that makes it so you can see and feel things just in a reality in your head.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. How do we know that time itself slows down; and that it's not just our clocks not working properly at speeds high enough for relativity to be relevant?
That for people to have money, other people have to be without it.
For a table to exist, it has to stand on its legs.
For example, someone has a service, like electrician or a locksmith. He does it himself and gets the full net profit. He decides to expand and hire employeesemployees... the employees have to be paid LESS than what he made doing the same thing.
That principle exists everywhere in economy. For large companies, the management that d oesnt do the actual service is still being paid 100k salaries, but how? Because they have to screw someone over at the bottom rung, and if not within its own operation, then it screws foreign manufacturers of its product (3rd world $2 wawages)
It's just horrible and depressing to think that for the average person in the usa to own a home and grab a Starbucks with friends while throwing a half-eaten pizza out the window of their new car... five people in a poor country have to labor for peanuts.
I'm not an economist, but from my experiences, it feels like to make money comfortably, someone somewhere has to suffer. Like every action has am opposite and equal reaction.
If there was no money what would people do? They would barter. I am good at fishing but have no success at catching other animals to eat. I wold trade X # of fish for X # of animals that you caught. If there is an abundance of fish and not a of people who can catch other animals the value of 1 fish goes down while the value of a different animal goes up. That is essentially the job market; people with skills that are harder to acquire are paid more.
As for the wood worker, how about you lean how to make tables. Invest in tools. Purchase (or somehow acquire) the wood we will use for the projects. Line up the potential customers and develop a reputation over years of hard work; now I will come and work with you. I won't have any tools, I won't have any wood, I won't have a well earned reputation but I demand an equal share of the profits. I have risked nothing, but demand to be paid the same as you has risked everything. It doesn't appear to be an equitable split.
People who start businesses risk all of their assets on the hope that it will work. Starting and successfully running a business is hard. If you take away the profit incentive fewer people will attempt to start & run small businesses.
The vastness of the universe. Hell, even the vastness of one spiral arm of the Milky Way is mind-blowing. I don't understand how we have learned to plot ourselves in the Milky Way. And who was the genius that figured out how to find exoplanets? In addition to this, how did they learn to find whether or not said exoplanets are in the Goldilocks zone?
The entirety of astronomy is incredible. I literally get butterflies in my stomach when I watch documentaries about the universe.
It kind of sounds like you have some sort epmathy defiency (like in autism I don't know) or a depression dominated by apathy. Can you really don't feel the difference imagining your parents dying vrs. a stranger? Imagine the feeling of never having them talk to you ever again. Dream about having someone that just fills your heart?
I guess it starts with yourself. I have so much empathy because I can imagine/remember it happening to myself. So much that it takes my focus away when I really shouldn't feel so much.
orzrly · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to deal with anxiety in general for myself and others
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Internet Slang I'm Young but it still does not make sense
second which platform posts good memes (Reddit hated, Twitter dumb cringe, Ifunny racist, 4 chan cringe) WHERE DO I GOOOO AHHHHHHHH
How atoms are (apparently) mostly made out of nothing, but things still exist. And I can touch those things, although they're made out of bits that are barely even there.
Thank you all so much for helping explain this! I won’t say I understand it completely now, but my brain has a nice outline. I definitely can make a lot more sense of it now than just thinking about it like abstract rocket-science. I appreciate you all!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father says: quantum physics
My mother says: my father
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How parents let their kids have random friends (primarily middle school) over at their house and be completely cool with it. I'm an Indian 13 yo, that might have something to do with my confusion.
To premise this, I have multiple degrees and a PhD in education. I do not understand the insistence of utilizing common core in the US school system. I boil it down to this. There are almost limitless ways to travel from Los Angeles to Las Vegas. If the end result is not the arrival in Las Vegas, then why insist the traveler utilize one method to get there. Also, as a human, do you care about the process ( assuming it is moral :)) scientists find a cure To the Coronavirus or do you care that they found the cure? Common core curriculum makes zero sense regarding application in any real-weld scenario.
How a CPU works. Genuinely have no idea how it actually works even when someone explains it. It’s like every time someone explains it there’s a gap in the information.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can solve cases on r/Whatisthisthing so easily! Most things posted can not be searched easily, nor are common objects.
The creation of life (not sustainability, but how it is actually formed). What are the chances that all the right elements will come together in the perfect spot to function as a conscious entity, even it’s a tiny bacteria?
OrenKC · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Body language and facial expressions holding more weight than actual words.
I got Asperger's/High Functioning Autism. I always get my point across with my words and always say the truth. When I talk to people not on the spectrum and don't disclose my AS, it feels like I'm speaking Italian in my own country (America/Florida) and sometimes it makes me feel horrible that it's like I don't belong everywhere. If I want to connect with strangers I have to learn how everybody else operates, not that everyone else is made aware of how I and other AS and HFA people are. Like I have to adjust. It always makes me feel broken. Like everyone thinks I'm not telling the truth when I'm just unaware of their and my non verbal communication. I just want to be understood. Not feel like I have to change how I act for everyone else's comfort.
Why people can't be straightforward or honest. Like the amount that people will neglect to say something that needs to be said, baffles me. Many times I find that a little bit of uncomfortableness in the beginning can save a lot of pain or heartache later on
I genuinely dont understand the concept of death. I mean i know when you are gone, thats it. But after. Like if i sit here and think about it the idea that i wont be able to think and talk get to me. Im not religious. If you are thats ok. Whatever you believe is fine. But as someone that doesnt believe in an afterlife. The idea of the unknown baffle me.
Butts go there. The worst aspects of the human design is deposited there on a daily to tri-daily basis. 8 if you're having a bad day. Yet people will put hands on, and heads in, the booty bowl. Can't you throw up in the trash can next to it, or get a trash bag and wrap it up?
music theory. i just have an ear what sounds good, but for the life of me, i can't understand why. so many have tried to help me, but i just don't get it.
music theory. i just have an ear what sounds good, but for the life of me, i can't understand why. so many have tried to help me, but i just don't get it.
Cells in biology. I know that the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell but I have no idea what the fuck that means, and cells are so abstract to my brain I glaze over when it's explained to me.
Monster moonshine and the categorization of simple groups. J-functions and elliptic curves. Ugh.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loving someone who’s not blood related.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are greedy. Look at the richest and most powerful people in the world. You have all this money and control and you just continue the monopoly to try and make it to the top of the economy, but for what? What is so special about it? We all die eventually. Why not dedicate your life to being compassionate and helping others so we can become one?
The blind hatred people have a President of the party opposite thier affiliation, matter what good they do, its always portrayed as evil or incompetent Hannity with Obama and Joe and Mika for Trump.
i don't understand how some people just know what way to turn or what direction they need to go without having done it before. i dont have any innate sense of direction and i have to learn streets by memorization only.
When an adult says always tell an adult figure to say if something bad happens to someone else or if you get bullied yet you get in more trouble this is why smithed get stitches
How does Siri understand what I say. Not to mention all the other languages that you can switch too. I get that someone says a certain phrase In a certain language, but how does a robot tell if someone is speaking or if it’s just the wind blowing hard?
How the economy failing is like a self fulfilling prophecy. Like people panic thinking the economy is going to tank, so they spend less money, putting less into businesses, in turn actually CAUSING the economy to tank, and going, "I told you it was going to happen!" Like if people just stopped panicking all the time and just went on with their daily lives as normal most economical droughts could be prevented, no?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:20:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work? Im assuming miracles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:48:06 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tesseract from Interstellar. Is it built by future humans and is it in the 4th dimension?
How stocks or pretty much anything me with the economy works 2. How fast our brains can come up with a response. It has always blown my mind how fast our minds move.
Professional Wrestling, and more specifically why otherwise sensible, well-adjusted friends of mine love it so fucking much.
It's scripted and even the people who know it's not real are somehow okay with all the people in the audience who don't know it's scripted.
And presumably people who know it's not real have had a moment in their lives where they finally understand that, but they kept watching? Is that like learning Santa Claus isn't real or??
I play vidya games and listen to extreme metal, but pro wrestling just seems like nonsense to me.
Well, not really. Money is made up, nothing stops you from getting a boat and living on the high seas from what you fish and algae. Or moving some place with extensive woods and build a shed in the middle of nowhere.
If people actually cared about each other there’s more than enough land to feed and house the entire population several times over. Just look up how much good food is thrown away every day because it doesn’t look the way supermarkets want it to look.
How do people believe it to be a good idea to inject a large population of one cultural into a region dominated by a different culture and expect everyone to blend together to form a new culture. Humans tend to live with those like themselves, so instead of blending, diversity kicks in and each group stays separated while trying to make the other culture convert to their own.. Makes you wonder if those conducting these social experiments are evil or just misguided, hard to tell but even with all the evidence (events) that show it isn't a good idea they keep pushing forced diversity.
lemlom · 1 points · Posted at 15:27:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The single piece of tape on Iceberg lettuce, the only way to get it out is by ripping it. The packaging techniques of the folks at the cabbage farm are far superior - an elegant twist and tuck.
I don't understand finna as a slang word. Don't get me wrong, there's quite a few slang words I like to use, that are good contractions that shorten words and some of them that are downright genius but finna is just stupid. It's just gonna but with an fi instead of a go, that's not shortening it or making it eaiser to say or anything. If it was supposed to be a contraction of "finally gonna" then I'd like it but that's not the context I keep seeing it in.
“Going to” becomes “gonna” in the same way “fixing to” becomes “finna”.
Fixing to, fixin’ to, fixin’ ta, finta, finna...you can see the progression there.
Keelel · 1 points · Posted at 16:40:51 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The general concept of life. The way it started and how we are all alive. Also our concept of time, like how is it we can stare at like a pile of wood for what feels like 5 minutes but is really up to an hour, or the other way around.
I been learning English since i was 8 (I'm 17). But I don't understand a lot of expressions that millenial people use in text like "btw" "tho" "stfu" and more. Sometimes it makes me feel dumb when i ask what does that mean :C
Why some people have to be gangsta, hip and cool (thug life) and then complain and bitch when they see people who are more successful than them in this society.
How can such a large portion of our population believe in a God? A super-natural being that knows all and controls all (when it suits him) has all the answers. Yet we can not see him/her, hear him or genuinely experience him in anyway. How can so many people be fooled in this day and time.
How the current occupiers of the White House are not yet in prison.
Seriously, the number of crimes collectively committed -- sans repercussions -- throughout the lifetime of these clowns... I'd be willing to bet they are the mob. Only explanation they're still standing.
I will never understand it as long as I live.
And yes, I know all politicians are corrupt to an extent; I'm merely speaking of the ones in control now. Worst I've ever seen.
I never under stood the function of the brain. In the end your brain is meat whith electricity flowing through it. brain disorder are another thing I dont get is depresion, i dont know how it works and i know it must be bad for the victom.
sisar · 1 points · Posted at 08:49:59 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Michael Scott. I'm on S6, and at this point the only way I can understand is to believe that there's some elaborate joke that I'm not in on
Molecular orbital theory. Despite probably 100 hours trying to understand this shit, I finally realized it was never gonna happen, and promptly dropped out of my OChem class.
Why I should give a shit about politics, like , there are just so many sides and so many wings and so many stupid people , I just wanna live my life politics free but that seems impossible in 2020.
How days/ years are calculated based on how long it takes a planet to tilt/ travel around the sun. Like when people say "a day on such and such planet is a year on our planet"... I can't wrap my head around it no matter how it is explained
Math, 6th grade and up.
I am able to remember and understand up to about 4th grade math, and some of fifth grade math, but beyond that it just gets so frustrating. It is like trying to hold water in your hand and not spill any over 5 miles of rocky terrain where you have to put it in a well that is mostly dry anyways.
I have always felt worth less than others my age because of that.
Why the fawk do we forget most of the things we learn / experience throughout the day?
I want to remember a lot of things I forget. I practice, use memory tricks and do tons of things to make sure I remember those things put I eventually forget them. On the other hand; I can't forget things that were really unpleasant, bad or horrible. Mf I don't want to remember somethings because they are bad. Why do you keep it in my head???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:52 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who get married can get divorced. Why does everybody jump ship when things get hard? Makes zero sense to me.
The amount of people who watch those “life hack video” or “5 minute crafts for kids”.
Many of those videos display incorrect facts and a number of them are actually very dangerous, and for some reason YouTube has it for kids under their algorithm. It’s extremely irresponsible to have those kind of videos directed to kids.
Thats a loaded question. Time, infinity, the universe, but those I can deal with. The big boy of them all though?.... Females.. No joke.
EmyNNN · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:18 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easy. The way installing private solar energy works in the US. For us in Nigeria, you just get the parts (that must include the battery) do the installation and call it a day.
In the US, I don't understand I have to seek permits to install one in the first place and that an "on-going" option exists in the first place. When you now throw in the energy saving benefits calculation and saved bills part, it leaves me thoroughly confused.
After all, it's my house and I'm doing them a favour saving them power and going green so why the permit or having to still be connected to the grid?
All the medical equipment and supplies that keep getting taken by the United States federal government during this pandemic—where is it and what are they doing with it? It's not like the federal government runs a lot of hospitals. Military and prison hospitals are the only ones that come to mind, and it's not like they make up the bulk of hospitals in the country. Where's it all going and what is it being used for?
The fact that there can't be nothing. Think about it, we're on earth surrounded by other planets but if you removed all planets and stars ..what's left? Empty space? Is empty space perceivable? Is it a container? Are there other empty spaces next to this empty space? How can there be nothing and who is allowed to exist outside this nothing? Blows my mind.
When you have a "Gut feeling" that you feel like something is not right. It's really weird to think about the fact that this "Gut feeling" saved peoples lives on some occasions.
the "nobody: this person:" trend. like it literally doesn't make sense. if it's "nobody saying nothing", then it doesn't make sense because nobody wouldn't be saying anything anyway because its NOBODY and NOBODY isn't SOMEBODY to be able to say something. it would make more since if it was "everyone: this person:". the trend started on twitter and i was so confused so i would say it with the "everyone" format because it just makes more sense that way, because everyone would have the ability to say something but they don't because of "this person:"
How people can do shit like steal or kill people or kidnapping. Just the guilt of taking a loved one or a priceless item that could have been attached to so many memories. If I ever did it, I would not be able to live with the guilt of it and would probably end my life. Or I'm just sensitive, idk.
The purpose of Minecraft. Some say it's to build stuff. Some say it's to defeat the Ender Dragon. Some say it's survival. Every time I ask someone what the point of Minecraft is, I get a different answer. BTW, I'm 23.
Another honorable mention: Lady Gaga. The woman looks like a completely different person every time I see a picture of her. Most celebrities, ok, they change their appearance but you can still tell it's the same person. Not Lady Gaga. You could put up 20 different pictures of her and tell me it was 20 completely different people. I've been saying this since 2010.
Tried on numerous occasions to learn at my local college failed or dropped out of all the classes I took. Not from lack of trying, I just can't get my head around it. I'm a A+B=C guy. I don't need an A+C/B=AB+C. Or I don't need a question for an answer, I need a solution.
There are very few that actually do. Also of note Evangelical Christians are only one part of the Republican Party. Their numbers and power are hyped up by critics because they're a nameless, faceless adversary that gets you to focus on one group instead of the party's overall message or ideas. Remember when a few years back everyone kept saying "The GOP doesn't have ideas or a platform." That was ridiculous, of course they have both. Critics what you to focus on what they say are your adversaries. To think of others are groups and not individuals. Are there some people who worship Jesus and Trump? Probably, the realm of possibility is there. Are they supposed to be ideologically perfect according to the definitions that others set upon them. Hell no.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Election season, so bots and brigading. Just like 2016.
zugtug · 14 points · Posted at 19:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because not every thread needs to turn into this. It's thrown out there as a circle jerk at this point. Yes it technically falls within the limits of the question but it's every single thread on the front page for the most part. I say this as a non Trump supporter.
Some people likes his views on: guns, abortion, lgbtq rights, and economics. Some people wanted a guy that would stand up to China and bring jobs back to America. Some people wanted a president that would secure our borders. That should be enough reasons for you
62 million. I can understand why people voted for him. I can understand why people support some things he does. I can't understand the die hard supporters who insist he is always right, and can do no wrong.
Because it is an ignorant statement? You can hate Trump and think of him all you want, but if you treat this echo chamber like it is a reflection of the real world and pretend that people don't have reasons to support him, then you will get the downvotes. Simple as that.
There's no reason to support him unless you hate America or are in on one of his blatant taxpayer cons (or really like having 10 million unemployed and tens of thousands dying).
Trump absolutely kowtows to other nations. Saudi Arabia. North Korea. Brazil. The Philippines. Fucking motherfucking Russia. But he won't work with nations we are allied with; suddenly he thinks he's a hardass.
I want a President that understands our flaws and tries to fix them and apologizes when we fuck up. I don't want someone who puts blinders on and says we're the greatest no matter what.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 23:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we just leave the political shit out of here please? Allow people to like what they like, it's none of your fucking business
Give an example of a typical behavior you don't understand.
ech0FX · 16 points · Posted at 14:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well saying something and meaning something different.
Exapmple: Like when you ask her if you can go out with the Guys.
She says "yes" and after that she complains that you allways leave her home alone (even tho this happens like once a month)
And this is not a univeral thing with women...
mtled · 4 points · Posted at 17:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At a guess; she doesn't want to deny you those friendships and outings, but also would enjoy a similar outing with you. Maybe she has fewer friends, or "going out with the girls" means a different activity and while she enjoys that, she'd like to do whatever activity you're doing with the boys too.
Or, if you have kids, you going out means she's taking care of them and that's exhausting. She'd rather you two go out together and hire a babysitter than know you're having fun while she's home, despite not wanting to tell you you can't go out because that's not nice of her and she probably wants you to be happy.
Or, you're a dick that does nothing around the house/parenting/etc and she says yes to get you out of her way, but she's really unhappy about something else that you've fought over 57336 times and nothing's changed, do fine, go out with the boys but that doesn't mean she's happy.
I don't know you, or her, but perhaps you should talk about it at a time when you're not scheduling an outing (and therefore not trying to meet friend expectations too). Ask her kindly, or schedule a night out, or whatever.
So you see, as mtled so thoughtfully and brilliantly explained, it's possible that its not that some men don't understand women but possibly a difficulty with communicating with the women whom you do not understand?
ech0FX · -1 points · Posted at 20:52:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
wow calm down. Not talking about anyone specific. But had that experience way too often. I do communicate very much when im in a relationship. But if you lie in my face, dont tell me when somethings bothering you in the first place or just litterly say Yes when meaning no. Thats a problem i cannot fix.
Theres more i whould tell, but im good thanks.
Edit: Ah yes, and thanks for implying that im a "dick". Im suprised you know me that well allready
I love how you put that. I also love how you blamed others for their behavior, because not taking responsibility for their own shortcomings is another stereotype.
It's obviously not only women, but tends to be mostly them from my experience:
They want to do something that makes no sense, for no reason only because they want to and they want to do it their way. You can show them a hundred different ways that are better, you can show them things that make more sense, you can write a dissertation explaining your point and be as nice and as understanding as possible. And it doesn't make a difference. I like to think that if I'm doing something and someone who knows what they're talkin about came along and offered advice or suggestion or did anything to better what I am doing I would listen to them and at least consider what they're saying. Again, it's not only women who do this, but from my experience primarily a woman does not care about anything other than her doing this particular thing the way she wants to for any other reason than it's what she wants to do and she wants to do it her way.
Absolutely, a common one for me is on our way home. The first time going to this new house, we went one way. Then found a shorter distance (by about 10 minutes) that I always use. Now, does it really matter if she wants to drive further? No, but for no reason other than she wants to drive that way she will. Even she has said, when asked, she has no reason for driving that route: it's not more scenic, less potholes, faster, nothing other than (her words) she just wants to. Afyer two years, yes she knows both ways Now in this example, really the only time it matters is when we're trying to keep a schedule and she wants to go that way when we're behind, otherwise it's not a big deal. Very basic example, but one I will never understand
Well, it's not about telling someone what to do. I don't care that she does it (again, unless were running late or something) but it's something I can't understand. Why do it when there is no reason other than she wants to do it that way. I don't tell her what to do, but it just baffles me that people do things like that just because it's what they want, regardless of how much sense it makes. If there is no justification other than "I want to" that's what I don't understand. Now granted, there are things that are right or wrong (loading dishes into a dishwasher for instance) that she does like putting glasses in the bottom when they fit in the top and then you can't put plates on the bottom. Well...my solution there is to just do the dishes since I can load it in one go, instead of doing two loads. Why does she do it that way? She wants to...no other reasoning behind it.
Yup, and that's all my response to the question is. I genuinely don't understand why someone does something for any other reason than they want to. If I'm doing something, I have a reason why, or at least an idea behind my thought process. Outside of it's "just what I want." It's always a "I want it because of..." But it's just different personalities and everyone is different.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 14:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because not everyone likes to give their money to people who choose to not work or better themselves. Though I'm not a conservative, per se, I'd never vote for a republican... Just telling you why.
I don't know about welfare but republican states statistically are poorer, and are considering welfare states due to them getting more federal funding.
California for example are considered a donar state because they receive something like 78 cents back on the dollar. So all the shit republican talk about California, they are bank rolling a lot of the poorer/republican states. They why they have such influence in the country, they would literally have more money by becoming their own country.
Funny enough the poorest county in California happens to be republican, Centeral Valley, receiving the most federal funding.
That's why I say if you're looking to make more money , don't vote republican, statistically they don't know anything about business, All those fox News pundits that talk shit on California happen to live in California, Tomi lahren is a good example and just goes to show, they don't want to live in a republican state, because they are poorer.
Just look up donor states and welfare states, it's interesting
Texas might be a outlier, but their cities that are bringing in the cash, probably are democrats, I'm willing to bet
Sorry for the rant
[deleted] · -17 points · Posted at 20:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s simple: people have different views and opinions on things than you do. Some people likes his views on guns, abortion, lgbtq rights, borders, and economics.
Yeah bullshit. He's a crook with mental issues and that's objective fact. Your brain is broken. He'll say anything- He's so obviously a conman. All his supporters need serious help.
People can have opinions but there are still objective facts and there's nothing good about Trump. Objectively. He's a piece of shit conman who cares about nothing but himself, and he's pushing America more towards fascism every day. His crimes and abuses are blatant and there's simply no excuse to support this unless you are also a criminal benefiting from his criminal acts.
I’m curious...what are you trying to accomplish with all of your toxic posts, bashing others, calling people “snowflakes”, and not accepting the fact that people may have different views than you?
You have no idea what my political views are and have no idea who I am, yet you said my brain was broken? Because I said other people have different views? I’m genuinely curious what your end goal is. You are doing nothing but losing credibility and pushing people away.
Ok ok, that's understandable I get that. Guys needs to go into history as an example, pretty obvious. It's just your comment came of as a little harsh. Bit I will say, as a gun loving American I do like that Trump is fighting some of the anti 2A Bill's floating into Congress, but I find it hard to believe anything beyond that.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least it's enough to almost definitely win him into office again
Some people have a different idea about the role and scope of government in society. Some people just don't like the Democrats or their ideas. Your wealth level doesn't automatically decide who you should vote for or not.
to play devils advocate lots of non rich republicans are more on the libertarian coin of republicanism and blue collar workers who don’t want the government “taking the money” through taxes they’ve earned through their under appreciated labor.
I guess it's the whole focus on liberty, that each individual is responsible for their own success or failure. The key to America's achievements and may yet be the key to it's downfall. A German said to me " It's in my narrow self interest to make sure that the poor people in my community don't get sick and infect my family. " An American said "Why should I pay for health care for other people? "
[deleted] · -19 points · Posted at 18:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is legitimate horse shit and you should try to spend more than 5 minutes away from r/politics to actually get an idea of why someone that isn’t wealthy would vote republican.
Some people just believe in a small government. Some people believe in the rights of an unborn child. Some people believe in the 2nd amendment.
This may blow your mind, but there’s plenty of people out there that don’t vote with the mentality of “let’s see what the government can give me for free” (which I only even mention since clearly you’re of the belief that everyone should vote in their best financial interest) and instead vote on beliefs they genuinely believe in.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 20:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh yes the second amendment. One of the best amendments
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:39:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It absolutely is
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans aren't protesting in the millions.
As a Canadian ( Who Grew up In Australia ) America is not the greatest country in the world, It's so far away from that I'm shocked.
( I Love the USA, I love the people, but my god so many people are brain washed ).
1) No Free Healthcare
- If you are poor, unemployed, you either die in the street, or go into enough debt that Bill Gates would even raise an eyebrow.
2) A Joke of a President
- Seriously, this is your leader, your commander and chief, your boss... You have an Orange Reality Tv Show host who is racist, sexist and wants you all to stay poor
3) No Middle Class
- You are either rich or poor in the USA, there is no inbetween, and if there is an inbetween you are one heart attack, child birth or medical bill away from going into debt that will cripple you for years
I suffered a Blood clot, Gallbladder removal, diagnosis of an auto immune disease, if I was in the USA it would of cost me well over a million dollars in Medical bills, It was free in both Canada and Australia with leading industry doctors to get cured.
When Covid-19 happened and I lost my job, The Canadian government stepped in, here's $8000, hope it helps.
There's little to no crime in both countries, I can leave my door open, if I see someone in the street I can invite them in for coffee or tea, It's safe, there's no hate or fear.
I mean the list goes on, and it hurts me to write this as since i was a child I idolized America, I wanted to move there so much, but after visiting and seeing what it really is I get saddend, There's a better life out there where you don't have to suffer.
Another thing is i dont know how theres like a gap between egyptians, and like romans. I think im confusing this but i feel like theres so much missing about the human race history, like mayans and stuff, and theres people right now who live on islands that we arnt allowed to interfer with and know nothing about.
I don’t get how Trump can wake up in the morning and think ‘yep, I’m doing a good job for my people’. He’s like an uncle who needs to be taken off social media.
Republicans that are not the top 1-15%. You don’t have to be a Democrat but why constantly vote for people that activity go against your best interests. You don’t have to throw away the bath with the bath water.
There are plenty of politicians that don’t go totally in line with their party, find one and support them. Your hardly going to find a politician that’s going to agree with everything so find one that agrees with you on most things.
How EMOTIONALLY business, political, “big” decisions are made! It blows my mind that CEOs, bankers, the President, whomever make decisions based on their emotional read of the situation. “They didn’t treat us right, so do X.” “Based on the way they’ve been acting, let’s move forward with Y.” Seriously blew my mind once I started working in finance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 16,000+ have died in the USA and it won’t matter to trump’s voter base, leading to his re-election.
Also how Fox News is still considered by so many to be a viable news source, especially after their recent coordinated effort to discredit the coronavirus as a hoax...
How homophobic/conservative people say “I don’t want my children to be exposed to sexual thoughts at a young age” but are the same people that think it’s cute constantly ask the kid about bfs/gfs in elementary school. Or buy a T-shirt for the child that says “chick magnet” or something to that effect.
How parents force their girls to change out of shorts or tank tops bc a male family member is coming over.
rdldr1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could people still support Donald Trump.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That 40% of the US population still thinks that Donald Trump is doing a good job. I'm not trying to start a flame, it's truly the most puzzling thing I have ever encountered in my 60+ years of life.
Second would be why Hostess Twinkies, Cupcakes and Pies with too much filling were considered 'rejects'. No really, grew up near the Hostess factory/ outlet store and that's true.
Trump supporters. I’m saying this as a Brit, I just cannot even comprehend how someone could vote for someone so fucking stupid. I mean his stupidity isn’t even up for debate.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How schools and terrible parents still believe video games cause violence.
How boomers keep ruining the world.
How crabs move so quickly.
How cooking bacon is reversed when saying baking cookies.
How mirrors work, like they reflect you but also horizontally flip what you see so if you wave your right hand your reflection will wave it's left, also how does it the reflection even work and in such a thin layer, my best guess is magic.
How anyone could listen to Trump and think he has anyone’s best interests at heart but his own. I genuinely don’t understand the support he gets from seemingly half of America.
Radical feminism. It used to be women's right, you know, before they could vote or do anything, but now it's about bringing men down. The people who support it have as much critical thinking as an anti-vaxxer, which I do not want to talk about.
ubik88 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls who say stuff is sexist just bc they don’t like it (I don’t mean actual sexist things I mean like a girl getting called Karen and saying it’s sexist)
I can wrap my head around most other forms of hatred, I can understand how racism evolves for example- not saying it’s ever acceptable but being brought up by a racist homophobe stepfather, I could see how his ignorance lead to his racism- but why care about who other people are fucking in consensual relationships?
How people can still have faith in "voting" away their troubles. Isnt it basic sense to know that other people cannot and will not solve your problems for you?
I seriously do not understand the support of Donald Trump. He is a complete fool. I just do not get that anyone supports him. I'm not American, so maybe I'm missing something.
how people can genuinely believe that everyone has an equal chance of success and financial security in America and how slavery and white supremacy are not things that have had any effect on this. And how poor people are lazy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some americans consistently vote for policies which benefit the 1% rather than the 99% (FYI I’m European)
I don't understand why people still get married in 2020. Don't people realize marriage is ONLY a business? That's why it costs so much to get married and costs so much to get out of a marriage.
Why did we start buying rings for our significant others? Does anyone know? A Birks commercial. A Birks commerical that told people to spend not 1 but 3 month's salary on a ring for your woman because that's the only way you can make her happy. People still do this today.
Probability. If a coin flip is supposed to be 50/50 then why can I flip a coin 50 times and get 30 heads? Supposedly it's sample size but that makes the whole idea of probability worthless when it can't be applied to a real life situation. Kind of like a schrodinger's cat thing, sure the probability of a coin flip may be half and half but until it actually lands no one knows what it could be, so wouldn't it be better to say the coin is both heads and tails until it lands?
Why people vote Republican. I mean I know they're influenced by a variety of media and cultural reinforcements, but it seems to be that Republicans and ESPECIALLY conservatives, are voting for people who obviously do not have their backs at all.
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Why Trump has so much support. If people voted self interest he'd get 20% max.
ccgg21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US is the “best, most powerful” country on the planet. I had the blessed opportunity to live in Canada for a little while and I can tell you the US is shot compared to Canada.
I also do not understand kissing. If you really think about it as if you’re an alien, it’s the weirdest fucking thing!!!!! Putting your mouth against someone else’s and exchanging saliva in the name of “love.” The. Fuck.
How people in America still want to vote for Trump. Why they don't seem to want free healthcare.
Also why Christianity is still so powerful despite all the evils it produces.
Perhaps people are just dumb.
Edit: also the fascination Americans have for holding onto their guns. When school shootings are a part of life surely you should realise that something is messed up. But they seem to think the answer is more guys. Baffles me.
the fascination Americans have for holding onto their guns. When school shootings are a part of life surely you should realise that something is messed up. But they seem to think the answer is more guys. Baffles me.
Nevertheless, it's still an issue. Realize that people don't see more guns as the answer (they just recognize that it benefits no one besides the shooter if the only one armed in a shooting is the shooter). The answer is addressing mental health issues in this country (such as the reasons some people want to kill a bunch of people), preventing at risk people from falling through the cracks in the system before they get the help they need, etc.
Why I choose the most random, sometimes disturbing even, porn video’s.
I don’t like what I’m seeing, however, I only realise when post nut clarity kicks in.
I understand that I’m horny, but no matter how horny one might be, watching a video of a guy putting his head in a vagina is not okay.
And we’ve all seen that one, don’t even deny it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would vote for that shitbag Donald trump.
Honestly I do not understand monosexuality. As in only ever being able to be attracted to one gender.
I do trust that it's a thing, but I do not at all understand how? People are so fricking different from each other in a million different ways. I just don't understand how gender is ever the thing that makes someone go "nope not interested in fucking that person"... because what even is gender actually?
Even for people where it is just that they are grossed out by dicks/vaginas... how can a body part be so gross that you just cut everyone with it out of your dating pool? I do not relate.
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Rotational relativity, which is apparently solved in Einstein’s special relativity.
In general relativity, all velocity is relative, meaning that any given frame of reference is not special and velocity must always be relative to the chosen frame.
But when an object rotates, there is a center of that rotation and the entire universe can be assigned rotational motion relative to that center.
What I don’t understand is how to reconcile the absolute nature of the rotational frame with the notion of relative motion in translational motion?
The insane psychology of a Trump supporter. Like, how does your brain even work? What in the absolute f**k makes you think any of what he does/says is good for humanity, yet alone the country? It’s not even political anymore; it should be common sense. I grew up Republican, and G.W. looked like Gandhi compared to this angry, apricot hellbeast.
Heres one: The appeal of sports. I just don't understand how people can get super hyped up over watching a group of people kick or throw a ball around for >1 hour. What's even more baffling is how people get fanatical about their teams. Who gives a fuck about this shit?
I become restless if i live in the same place for too long. I dont understand how someone can live in the same house for more than a few years. It kinds correlates with that.
How anyone can believe that one side of the political aisle and ONLY one side of the aisle has all of the right answers and only right answers to every problem.
Who else am i to support? I dont care much for politics but i cant bring myself to support some senile fucker whose views doesnt correlate at all with mine before him. And before you tell me that i am not halfway intelligent: sure, im only on my third year in med school but i wouldnt consider myself stupid.
Hey I don’t think that’s the point tho. It’s not like abortion is “the easy way out” that people make it seem, it’s incredibly hard mentally on a lot of women unless they are psychos. It’s not like they have no concern for the baby. For what I have seen, babies who are born into the world without being wanted turn out to either be horrible human beings or incredibly unhappy.
Either way, you don’t know what the kid wants, you are assuming the kid will see life as a gift but I don’t really see it that way though.
But by bringing them to life you are not giving them a chance to live, you are making them live. Do you get my point of view?
Also, parents who want to abort children and then don’t are more likely to abuse those children.
I don’t know, I’m not saying it’s an easy choice but I definitely know a lot of people who have been taken away from or abandoned by their parents (my daycare and kindergarten was held in the same place as an orphanage and a met a lot of kids there who are still my friends, literally dozens) and the ones who have been able to open up throughout the years have told me parents who don’t want to have kids, shouldn’t have them.
All of these conversations we had started because I was pro life. They totally changed my mind
Yeah man I just don’t understand how one can argue that it’s their own body and completely their own choice. There’s another human inside that has the chance to live. If he chooses not to live in the future, he can make that choice.
You can do whatever you want to your own body. Surgery, whatever. But taking out someone else inside of you? I don’t see the argument that it’s your body your choice. I totally understand other arguments like health reasons. Just not that one.
Yeah man but deciding not live isn’t that easy either, is it?
I totally see your point, like I said I was pro life and quite honestly you are being calm and collected which most people aren’t during arguments.
Just know all I have said, while I totally believe it, before anything else, I believe contraceptive methods come first always.
How America got SO BAD with covid. Im Canadian, in WA state while my husband and I go through adjustment of status for me to get my greencard, and I'm...struggling to understand how this country has lasted this long. It's pure chaos and everyone is dying, and people are still ignoring stay inside rules? They're still making jokes and doing as they please? How....is anything supposed to change if everyone is so...selfish?
Why I can’t remember things in detail. I can’t remember complex things, simple things, old memories or even newer ones. I sometimes remember just feelings and little glimpses/pictures from what should be “memorable moments”
I'm a physics undergrad and a technician in mechanical engineering, but I feel stupid BC Alternated current makes absolutely mo sense for me, mainly the part where u ise IMAGINARY numbers to describe a REAL physical process
NEVER use that word derogitarily. I was a pediatrician, so IN other words I was a doctor who worked specifically with children. One of my Patients, had down syndrome, in other words, retarded. He and I were very, very close, AND had a very strong connection with one another. He unfortunately passed away at an incredibly young age, and I am forever haunted by this.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 11:54:18 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did you call him retarded?! That's so mean!! Retard!
NEVER use that word derogitarily. I was a pediatrician, so IN other words I was a doctor who worked specifically with children. One of my Patients, had down syndrome, in other words, retarded. He and I were very, very close, AND had a very strong connection with one another. He unfortunately passed away at an incredibly young age, and I am forever haunted by this.
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What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.
This'll probably get buried, but why can't faith and science peaceably co-exist? I mean, faith is that God (or whichever divine being(s)) created everything, and science is figuring out the universe and thus bringing us all closer to God.
Is it because we, as limited creatures, basically don't have a real concept of omniscience and truly ultimate power so people like many scientists or atheists and the like reject the idea out of hand? Like, "no one could be able to make all this, so it must all be random,"?
Are the faithful that scared of learning to be closer to God, so they reject science out of hand? Do they just want to be all "God created it, so leave it be," rather than "God created it for us, so let's figure out how it works and how to use it for the betterment of everyone."?
The 4th dimension. No matter how much it’s explained to me, I can’t get my head around how 4D objects rotate and move and look like. It never made sense to me.
I think they’re named because of the main elements they’re made of, rather than their state (solid, liquid, gas). Hydrogen for us is a gas, but at certain temperatures and/or pressures it would become solid. I could be completely wrong, though.
It’s either that or they’re stars that aren’t made of the right things to be shiny ☀️ 😂
Same. I don’t ‘feel like’ a woman, I just am one. I don’t doubt transgender people feel the way they do, but I just can’t get my head round it. I think it’s one of those things that’s impossible to understand unless you’re going through it
How an infinite amount can add up to a finite amount. Between each whole number there are an infinite amount of decimals. So how do you end up with finite whole numbers?
Why it's impossible to have a rational discussion about controversial topics on Reddit. You can't even mention he who shall not be named in a non-negative light without being called a right winger and hounded on. People wonder why places like 4chan are growing.
Also, why religion isn't universally looked at like grown people believing in santa clause. And yes i understand that many MANY people are religious. I used to be too. Had my doubts. Shit didnt make sense. Quit. And now its the equivalent to the tooth fairy or whatnot. And yes. As a former religious person i understand faith. But even as a religious person you have to admit it makes no logical sense.
Not being vegan nowadays in the economic West makes absolutely no sense to me. All the evidence is out there and proven time and time again but somehow people feel like they’re too good to make selfless decisions.
They want free stuff without having to work for it and aren't smart enough to do the math to see that it doesn't work. It's pretty easy to understand really.
I work and have great health insurance. I don't need the government to help with that. Yet most of the people I work with still support it. Not to mention most of us wouldn't be getting it for free, so that arguement doesn't hold much weight to begin with.
Ok. Here goes. There are 3 general sexes. Male, female, and intersex. They are determined by what is between your legs, and other organs. They are biologically determined.
There are a potentially infinite number of genders, but let's simplify it to boy, girl, and non-binary. They are determined by they are determined by the individual. They are mentally determined, but they are no more a choice than your sex.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:51:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im mostly talking about the 4th and 5th people claim to be. Sorry for not being specific at first
Sex is biological, gender is a social construct. Sex normally dictates how a person's gender identity is formed, but not in all cases. Sex only dictates how your biology works. Gender is a spectrum of beliefs, personality traits, and socially accepted norms that categorize which gender mold you fit into.
Each culture can vary greatly on how they construct certain genders. A machismo man in American culture can be seen as a feminine representation of the male sex by a different society. There are many cultures where women are seen as tough and the leaders of their household, while men are the soft and effeminate type.
So when you say how can there be multiple genders, it's fairly simple. You are in fact multiple genders simultaneously, but you only fit a certain definition of a gender depending on what culture you're in. If you equate sex with gender, you're doing it wrong.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like for example LGBT clubs at schools, right? Usually, they're about bringing everyone together to stop harassment and stagnation from both ends of the equation. From my experience, the people in those clubs really seemed like they were anti-heterosexual and thought of themselves as much more important than those who were heterosexual. But everyone is important, not just these small groups of people.
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Are you alright?
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you go through a breakup or...?
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are you avoiding the question? 16.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, your comment seemed like you were having a rough time, I'm just trying to make sure you're okay. I don't know what I'd do if you weren't, granted, so I don't know why I want to know.
I never said it wasnt. I dont judge those who do no harm. I was only haveing a bit of fun god.
miauna · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope you will find someone :( Heads up mate, don't lose hope!
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miauna · 0 points · Posted at 22:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it did sound a bit like you were accusing everyone of lying, had to read your other comments to get your point, too.
More than finding love, I think it's more like achieving love. The love you feel at the beginning of a relationship is (for me personally) very different from the love you feel several years into a relationship. It takes love, duh, but also a lot lot lot of work to maintain a healthy and 'fulfilling', whatever that means to one individually, relationship.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 19:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I am starting to doubt that too
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[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:03:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot hast to do with how values have shifted
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone is so worried about what they can get out of the relationship or how they will appear to others. That's always been a factor but seems even more magnified now
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How old are the girls you are talking about? I think we also through stages
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A lot of countries have religion at part of the core subjects up to a certain age. This means teaching about a number of religions, including their practices and the stories behind them.
I assume this is what they mean by forced, but this isn't forcing religion it is just teaching them about it.
I mean I go to a Catholic school and they don't really force it onto us.
But one thing I have noticed is how everytime we learn about a religion other thsn Christianity my teacher finds a way to connect it to Christianity.
Idk how she does it but it's like:
In Hinduism, cows are praised, in Christianity however we do not
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't speak for your school, but at mine they did that as well and we found it easier to learn just because it gave us a comparison point to learn from.
Also Christianity does tie in with Judaism and Islam to varying degrees, so Christianity being mentioned with respect to those religions is fairly common as well.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:37:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We were taught the different religions but that should be a basic thing. If that's forcing religion to you than what has gone wrong with your schooling years?
Gender identity has been shown time and again to be something innate to someone that can't be changed, and transgender people's brains have been consistently shown to have a lot of things that are sided more towards their gender identity rather than the sex assigned at birth. i.e. trans women (MtF) have brains more similar to cisgender women than cisgender men. This mismatch between the brain and the body often causes gender dysphoria.
The only proven way to treat gender dysphoria is transitioning. It consistently improves quality of life, with regret rates for things like lower surgery generally being around ~1%, and while suicide rates decrease are also shown after transition, being accepted by peers/family can often make an even bigger impact on suicide attempt rates. I can provide studies for any of those claims if needed.
I'm trans, and I have dysphoria that can sometimes get really bad, but being on hormone replacement therapy, being perceived as my actual gender, and being accepted has significantly improved my mental health. Several of my friends who are trans can also attest to this.
Contrast with the idea of transracialism. There's no major inherent mental differences between races, nothing that shows that your brain can be different from your race, and no evidence that if it were "wrong", it would cause distress. Not to mention just how uncommon it is, especially compared to people who are transgender- I literally have only ever heard of one example of someone who says they were born the wrong race.
TL;DR Race just isn't something that's as hard-wired into your brain as gender, and there's nothing to show that you can be the "wrong" race, or that trying to change it would actually improve your mental health.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some do and some don't. You can't change someone's gender identity but you can help someone realize their gender identity. So some people end up happy in their birth sex and some don't.
Page 12/13. Therapy can help but it doesn't actually "cure" dysphoria. Dysphoria stems from something in your brain that isn't actually wrong, and trying to force people into therapy instead of giving them gender affirming care is harmful.
Also note, in children, "gender expansive" is different from transgender. A child who cross dresses won't necessarily grow up to be trans, and won't transition, but denying treatment to those who do grow up trans ends really poorly.
It has its place, of course. I have regular therapy, and I actually know someone with relatively mild dysphoria who is able to cope with it through therapy and has no plans to transition. And in an ideal world, that's all I'd do too- transitioning is long, expensive, and difficult. But it's the only actual treatment that works.
And anecdotally, therapy really helped me, but nowhere near the extent that actually transitioning has. Therapy helped me cope, but from literally the moment I started hormone replacement therapy, it was an immediate weight off my shoulders. I felt like I could actually be alive for the first time in years, and you can actually see the quality of my work go up as a result.
Here is one document from the American Psychological Association dating back to 2008 that supports this, and they've continued supporting transition as the most effective treatment to this day.
Transgender people hate their bodies and will want to commit suicide if they can't change. There isn't a gender dysphoria equivalent for not being the skin colour that you want to be
But what about people who say they're trans but aren't dysphoric? I've heard mixed things on that.. and what if a x race person did hate their skin and thought they were y race on the inside?
Well the trans community is a bit split over whether people without gender dysphoria are trans(look up truscum). In my opinion, if they experience gender dysphoria and/or gender euphoria then they are trans (basically its where if you dress up as the gender you identify as/people use your correct pronouns you feel happy)
About the race thing, I haven't seen anything about people wanting to change race outside of people not wanting to be black so that people aren't racist against them
I haven't seen that before, I guess it could be possible but it sounds more like internet trolls who say stuff like "I identify as an attack helicopter"
Gender dysphoria is where your brain expects you to have organs your body doesn't have. There is no equivalent for race because there isn't a fundamental difference between races. The current science points toward the brain developing the way female brains develop and the rest of the body developing male, or vice versa. The races are too similar for different brain development.
Lol. I think attacked means different things to you and me. I know people who have been beaten half to death for expressing themselves. You ever get that for 'discussing the myth of brain sex'? If you get insulted for talking about your beliefs, I'm sorry. But try to recognize that people like me get insulted regularly for existing. Even if trans people are, in your mind, delusional, do we deserve to get harassed and/or physically attacked for wearing clothes we feel comfortable in? Try to toughen up a bit....
I can understand the blocking and banning, depending on how you're 'discussing it' and the rules of the community you're in. People giving you death and rape threats need to be reported. The way I do when people threaten to kill/rape me. Sorry I don't have a lot of sympathy for you. I get the same treatment because I'm minding my own business trying not to hate myself. Trans people aren't hurting you. You don't have a great reason to be against their existence.
This. The majority of people on reddit need to learn this.
Rostin · 20 points · Posted at 19:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have tended to vote Republican or Libertarian for most of my life because of three issues: abortion, religious freedom, and second amendment issues. The Democrats (and "third" parties to the left of them) are terrible on all three.
aren’t most libertarians typically staunchly pro choice?
Rostin · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably. I think the capital-L Libertarian party platform is pro-choice. However, I know (and know of) a good number of pro-life libertarians. The movement seems more welcoming of pro-life people than the Democratic party does.
Overturning Roe v. Wade won't make abortion disappear, only make it less safe as people resort to backalley abortions or other methods that would endanger the mother. On top of that abortion is only treating the symptom, not the cause. If you were truly against abortion, you would support people in favor of making birth control accessible and improving sex education, as those stop unwanted pregnancies that otherwise end in abortion.
religious freedom
What "religious freedom"? Democrats have demonstrated themselves to be more open to different religions while Republicans seem to only care about Christianity and its subsets.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If a major party did a good job of supporting both abortion restrictions and policies that would make made it easier to raise children and reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, I'd support that party. I'm not married to the Republicans, and the Trump presidency has greatly eroded any loyalty to them that I once felt. Unfortunately, that is not what we have.
It's very difficult to estimate the number of illegal abortions that occurred before abortion was legalized nationwide and that would continue to occur if it became much more restricted. I'm not convinced on those grounds that a truly pro-life person ought to support the Democrats.
Moreover, the Democrats have made it pretty clear that they are fundamentalists about abortion. It used to be common to hear Democrats lamenting the number of abortions and arguing basically as you are here. My perception is that this argument is now deployed only in a weaponized way, again, as you have here. The mainstream, or at least the elite and controlling, attitude about abortion is that it is a women's rights issue, full stop. Something like 40% of pregnancies to black women are ended by abortions in NYC, but numbers like that are really of no concern to the Democratic party. If for the sake of argument I did accept the logic that the Democrats are effectively more pro-life and chose to vote for Democrats, I would not be welcomed as a pro-life person by the Democratic party.
On the question of religious freedom. I have to agree that Democrats have been marginally better on defending the religious freedom of some minorities. A good example is Trump's attempts to restrict Muslims from entering the country.
At the same time, there has been a dramatic increase in willingness among Democrats in the the last 5-10 years to steamroll religious objections to their pet projects. The Obama administration sued nuns for refusing to offer contraception, which they were required to do under the ACA. The state of Colorado fined a bakery for refusing to make a cake for a same-sex wedding, even though the baker otherwise had sold cakes to gay patrons and had gay employees. The Democratic conception of religious freedom seems to be a freedom to privately believe things. They seem to broadly reject the idea that the government ought to be constrained in its actions in any way by the people acting or refusing to act in certain ways on the basis of their religious convictions.
I think the RFRA, which institutes strict scrutiny for religious freedom claims, is a good approach to religious freedom. Democrats used to agree. It was passed almost unanimously and signed into law by Bill Clinton. Democrats have shifted and are now opposed to it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abortion. You wouldn't need if you y'know, kept your fucking legs shut and learned what birth control, condoms, and vasectomies. Also if you chose your men better than a shit ton less people wouldn't need an abortion
Yeah! Good thing Republicans don't routinely defund sex education programs, or cut funding towards women's health initiatives and establishments like planned parenthood.... Oh wait.
Choose your men better? Holy shit. You have never actually had sex before have you. Lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not with men but I can speak as a man who believes in trying everything you can to prevent kids
Holy shit, now I realize your only like 13. Damn internet
Jagob5 · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, my most important values line up more with republicans than democrats (which, if you must know, are regarding economy and abortion, amongst a couple other less important things I agree with). Voting republican doesn’t mean I agree with everything they have to say, just what I consider important. I could ask the same thing about Democrats but I’m sure I’d get the same answer, along with, of course, the occasional “Trump bad”. Like many things, it’s a matter of opinion/beliefs/values.
First of all those aren't sexes, they're sexualities, just so you know.
Second, there isn't much to get. I'm going to assume you're a dude, you know how you like girls? Imagine that, but with other guys.
Exnaut · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be even more specific tho, they're sexual orientations. Sexuality is a bit more broad and includes other stuff
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:03:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am curious about where it comes from in the sense of evolutionary biology. We aren’t the only species that exhibits homosexuality. I actually don’t understand how it can arise in a species. Does it have a benefit to our evolution? Can it be nature’s attempt at population control? Or is it just a certain mathematical chance that one in every certain amount of humans born will be gay or some other sexuality.
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 21:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First, what's the difference?
Second, I know what it means, I don't understand it because I'm not one. Why it's a problem anyways?
Sexes are biological Male and female and intersex. What's between your legs.
Sexuality is stuff like straight, gay, bi. Who you are sexually attracted to.
Dont worry, it's not really a problem, but the way you said it seems like it comes from a place of hate, and I'm not sure what about it you dont get.
Other people live their lives, express themselves, and love their partners in ways that are not the exact same way you would do it. What don’t you understand?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Downvoted for not understanding something, y'all are sick.
It's the same thing as a guy liking a girl. Society has engrained in our heads that "boy likes girl" and "girls likes boy", but it's the same thing. I will see a girl and I know what I am physically attracted to (boobs, nice smile, etc.) It's the same for a gay man to look another man and look for the physical features they like.
What do you mean by "Where they're coming from"? They're not some sort of different breed lol. They also aren't born that way (known to us thus far that is) and it's not a choice either, so I'm not sure what you mean.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 13:22:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look, why would I strive or work to be a billionaire if I was going to give my money away to people without getting anything back? Poverty is always going to exist, you can't just "end" poverty.
Yeah, that's not how the world works, and that's not how it should work. If you want to expect empathy and basic decency from the rich, you should have those expectations from the people causing these problems first and foremost .You should go teach poor people to not have kids. You should preach to corrupt government policies.
The fact is, expecting rich people to "solve" the poverty problem is like asking rich people to pay for poor people's choices to have kids, and to pay for corruption in government policies. Why should they? IF poor people weren't having kids, and government policies weren't corrupt, then i'd probably agree with you. Starving children are the direct cause of somebody's decision, and I'm not going to pay, or to expect others to pay, for the poor decisions of others.
qudina · -4 points · Posted at 19:40:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So poor people who are already deprived from money and all the benefits that comes with it you want to deprive them from the joy of having a family children (becoming pregnant, being a parent...ect) because they weren't born with a golden spoon in their mouth which was never their fault in the first place? theoretically (cause I don't know if you would do it if you had that power) this is really selfish.
I'm not depriving them of shit, they want to have kids, that's fine, but we shouldn't be expecting the rich to support and pay for those kids.
It's not selfish at all. The ability to become a parent is a privilege, not a right. That privilege comes with responsibilities. If you aren't able to meet those responsibilities, then you shouldn't have kids. You aren't entitled to children.
And it's an exaggeration to say that every rich person was birth with a golden spoon in their mouth. The majority of rich people earned their money, A lot of them chose to give up having kids because they couldn't comply with the responsibility of raising them.
By all practical means it is impossible. So why dedicate your life and resources to something you know can not fundamentally happen? You can help alleviate it but no amount of resources will ever end poverty.
Their parent are losers. Don’t have children and starve them. That’s not anyone else’s fault. The mentality of people that would want to spend billionaires money would never be able to make a billion dollars. No one is talking about defenseless children. If you’re in poverty don’t reproduce yet.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 17:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You got to be fucking kidding me right? You have no idea what life is like in Africa for you to be jumping to conclusions.
I was born under the Apartheid era to know what living in a 3rd world country is like. Get off your high fucking horse before jumping to conclusions without first walking in someone’s shoes.
Its pretty easy. I'm a strong Catholic but I still believe in evolution, the Big Bang (which was a theory created by a Catholic priest btw), and science in general. I believe that God is the origin of order and structure in the universe.
There is also no data for love, compassion, or empathy. There are things beyond data. I believe the order and structure of science were created by God. There are still things science and data cannot explain. Living by data alone is faulty- it removes any idea of free will, human rights, etc. If everything is just data, why dont we kill half the population for the good of all. After all, data could be used to support such an idea. Saying "there is no data" is an incredibly lazy sentiment.
Love, compassion and empathy will show activity on a brain scan. Human rights are a recent social construct created by humans and have not always existed. However, we like the human rights idea and it says don't kill half the population, so we aren't doing that. "There is no data supporting X" is a perfectly valid and common experimental result. It's not lazy, it's a fact.
The origins of the universe are not explained- we know of the Big Bang, but what caused it? What is the universe expanding into? It would also be entirely plausible that God be the source of these things. Its just as likely that data will prove that God exists ss it will that God doesnt exist. Isnt one of the biggest teaching points of science that just because there is an absence of data, doesnt mean something is not there? 100 years ago, we didnt even know of black holes. There are many unknown and unexplained things in the universe. God could be the source of any number of them.
No, I just don’t understand how you could eat yourself to death. Just trying to be honest. It’s on me. I fully recognize how reprehensible I am for thinking this. Are you fat?
I know, me neither. Day at a time is the best I can do. I don’t think fat people are losers. I just don’t understand the mindset. I’m happy to answer any questions about alcoholism if you’re interested! :)
You said it best, brother! That’s what I exercised for years and then once I stopped, only a matter of time before I slip. But that’s ok! Today I have self control, and today I feel great. :) It’s less of a mindset and more of a disease, just like being fat. I guess you gave me some insight :)
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gay pride parades are full of people with dicks around their necks or people who dress overly sexual. “Accept me for who I am” but having a straight pride parade is homophobic.
•People are sexual because they’re celebrating sexuality.
•Straight pride is homophobic because it’s already straight pride everyday. The whole point of gay pride is to normalize and celebrate queer sexuality because it hasn’t been. It’s about equality.
Do you eat meat, eggs, dairy, or fish? Have you seen the horrible practices we have to use to feed those to people to meet the demand of the population?
If you don’t support animal abuse, you should try eating plant-based foods instead of animal-based foods (if you don’t already).
Jagob5 · -19 points · Posted at 19:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People who support abortion but not murder. Same thing.
Edit: I knew this would be the case, but the fact that so many people disagree with me simply astonishes me.
If I murder someone, I’m ruining their life and their family’s, probably mine as well. If I oppose a woman having a safe abortion, I ruin her life and the kid’s. Apples and oranges.
To be fair: I support abortion (with exceptions of rape and medical reasons) up until the first trimester, the way it is in my country.
To me (and science, as far as I know) is not a life, it is not a baby, it is a clump of cells at that point in time; but I do try to understand your point, so let’s assume there’s a “life” being stopped.
That kid would not have a good life if it were born, the rich and capable would have an abortion regardless of legality if they wanted it so, so we’re not talking of middle or upper class; so either being raised by parents that cannot support them or abuse them, or in the system, that kid is having an awful life. Then the mother and father if there is one, they have the burden and trauma of bringing unwanted children to the world.
I would love for it to be a system in place teaching young and/or impoverished people to practice safe sex and for there not to be such a (mostly religious m) taboo on sex that open talk of it is rare; but there isn’t, and reality is not cut and dry. I’d rather let a woman that would have the abortion anyway (and risking her life in the process) get it safely and save her and her partner if there is one the grief of having a child they don’t want/can’t care for, and following your logic keeping that “life” that never formed from suffering.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Jagob5 · -1 points · Posted at 08:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it’s a fucking natural death, whereas abortion is taking another being’s life.
It depends on how you define a person. I require people to have thoughts and experiences. Destroying self-realization is a crime. Destroying the potential for self-realization is not.
Given the fact the time is infinate and that space is BIG with a capital HUGE its not impossible for the circumstances of life to not eventually fall into place. If you give bunch of monkeys typwriter and infinite time one will eventually write Shakespeare.
Mathematically speaking it’s impossible for there to not be a planet/galaxy where people are living and look identical to us and even mirror our decisions, etc.
Why people voted for trump, think hes a good man and is incapable of screwing up. People are fast to call out Bush and obama but I literally see people DEFEND trump like hes jesus and make excuses for him when they have been super critical of the Bush's and Obama, I'll admit EVERY person and president has done some good and bad things but trump supporters are acting like he has NEVER and WILL NOT mess up in any way, shape, and form and that's what kind of bothers me.
Gender was and is created by people. People will feel certain attractions or have certain types of people and/or genders they are attracted to. This is where the gender categorization comes in. It is not based in science but rather in society. This is what I mean by "social construct."
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair point, I feel some genders are socially constructed. Pansexual for example. People feel a certain way and find a term that best defines who they are, hence me using "social construct."
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I could explain! Honestly I understand the confusion and can't blame anyone for at first thinking it's all just bunk.
So our cultural norms are built around 2 sexes (male and female; Love you though intersex people!) and social roles have come to be associated with people who look like they're of a certain sex. Think of the stereotypical "boys like monster trucks and girls like dolls" idea. Of course this is a pretty benign example, but the main thing to see is that social/personal dispositions such as liking one thing or another are not entirely dictated by one's sexual makeup (that is to say that having XX doesn't force you to like dolls and XY doesn't force you to like monster trucks).
It sounds obvious when you say it like that; peoples' behaviors, desires, social roles, etc are not genetically dictated. So if they're not wholly genetic, then they're probably a result of social influences and expectations, and it becomes useful to differentiate between the biological (sex) and social (gender). So at its most basic level, gender is meant to be a descriptive label of how one is expected to act. It's meant to inform others of one's social roles and values. So, since the labels are meant to be descriptive, some people will choose a different label that fits their behaviors better. A big misconception about transgender people is that they are necessarily changing something about themselves, but really it's just that they aren't accurately described by the gender assigned to them at birth, so they choose a label that does accurately describe them (as opposed to trying to change themselves as people in order to fit themselves into the gender they were assigned at birth).
To put things succinctly, there are more than 3 genders because people find that none of those 3 paint an accurate picture of who they are. Having genders isn't about changing who you are, it's about telling others how you fit into certain aspects of society. If a piece of fruit looks like an apple, but tastes like a strawberry, smells like a strawberry, and has the texture of a strawberry, I think it'd be best to call it a strawberry!
I kinda get what you mean but why do you care? If you want to believe there’s only 2, or 3 I guess, that’s fine. But why does it bother you that men dress up like girls and vice versa? Let people do whatever makes them happy as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone.
Coronavirus is an entire class of virus, it's not specific (though today everybody would know what you're talking about). COVID-19 is the disease caused by the novel coronavirus SARS-CoV-2.
Why people get really mad about animal abuse. I genuinely do not understand it. I know logically there will be consequences if you do it and get caught but when I see people get angry it just confused me. I've never really had the compulsion to hurt any animals either so I just don't get either side.
They say that once it gets going it will also become cheaper than animal meat, though I'm not holding my breath for that nor is it excusable for us to wait quitting meat until the lab stuff arrives, because it's already easy quitting it.
Math. I’m serious. I can’t grasp the concepts of equations and formulas. It’s making college fun :) /s
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arguments on why you can't be racist towards white people.
The most common thing I hear is "racism is institutionalized" as the explanation. But there are institutions that discriminate against whites, like college campuses having "no whites days". So as this is discrimination that is institutionalized, shouldn't that mean you can be racist against whites? Or do colleges not count as institutions. If that's the case, then what's the definition of an institution?
Perhaps it is something measured on an individual basis, and just because some institutions exist that discriminate against whites doesn't mean that a lone individual not affiliated with those institutions can be racist towards whites. But if that's the case, then since I'm not affiliated with any institutions, then no words I say or actions I do would be considered institutionalized, and I therefore cannot be racist towards any race.
And what's the scope of the definition anyways. Does the institution have to exist in the country I am in for it to count? Or does some random discriminatory institution on the other side of the planet make it so that prejudice can be considered racism? If slavery can be brought up to determine if prejudice is racism or not, then what exactly is the expiration date on how long an institution needs to have no longer existed for it to be irrelevant? Is it valid to bring up institutions that went away 2000 years ago in discussions on what is or isn't racism in the present day? If not, how is that not as valid as bringing up slavery when they hasn't been around for over a century?
I haven't seen any definition of racism that would mean that you can't be racist against whites without also meaning that you cannot be racist against blacks, or a definition that allows one to be racist against blacks without allowing them to be racist against whites.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How little computer chips hold so much information. And how a gallon of random liquid (gasoline) can make a big ass piece of metal semi truck drive around and tow stuff.
I hate it when people think their opinions matter SO MUCH that they've got to voice it.
I was once with a friend talking about something or rather and this woman comes up to us and starts badgering us about our opinions. I just looked at her dumbfounded because of 1. She was not part of mf conversation and 2. she was sharing her opinion to a bunch of teenagers who were talking something that had nothing to do with her. Like tf? I tell you Karens are literally the worst.
Anyone who doesn't look at the donor list of both parties and can't figure out who the government really serves, is beyond me.
Both are funded by a very small percent of very wealthy elite (often donating to both sides), they have enough similarities between fiscal, foreign, and other aspects that it doesn't ever change. It's just back and forth, 1 step forward and 2 steps back...unless you're in the upper/upper middle class than you get served in various degrees that keep them happy with more of the same mediocrity.
It's a system that doesn't represent at least 50% of it's populace. If not more like 70 or 80%. I'm honestly thinking the only way for people to realize this, is to experience what those in the unrepresented populace deal with. Seemed that's what helped get the New Deal era going...probably history repeating ... Having to because we have short memories I guess.
"In the 1932 presidential election, Roosevelt defeated Republican President Herbert Hoover in a landslide. Roosevelt took office in the midst of the Great Depression, the worst economic crisis in U.S. history. During the first 100 days of the 73rd United States Congress, Roosevelt spearheaded unprecedented federal legislation and issued a profusion of executive orders that instituted the New Deal—a variety of programs designed to produce relief, recovery, and reform."
This is my prediction, we will need the worst economic collapse for enough to snap out of it and see what its like for us that are too disenfranchised, and beaten down, to care.
Good luck... I guess... But sucks that's what it seems it will be to get help to those who desperately need it... Now. We don't have the time or patience now, and wether its Biden or Trump, I'm thinking we will crash and burn regardless at this point. The current system is unsustainable.
So I've sharpened my pitch fork, rewrapped my torch, when the rest realize how that are being played, I'll be here.
I'm a pacifist, to a point. But both parties threaten my health livelihood, and whatever little dignity I have left by being in power and don't think about it for a second...so I'm not going to think about them anymore as a viable option for me.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women put so much effort into make up, hair, nails....but then no effort into being in shape, staying healthy and and being a REAL example of a successfull healthy attractive woman??
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any reasonably intelligent person doesn’t want to cut off the CCP from the rest of the world. They kill so many of their own people, just like North Korea. They’re ruining the rest of the world, having infiltrated the civilised world with soft power plays. It’s a truly evil regime.
Why people end sentences with prepositions so often. My kids will often ask me "can I come with?". At that point I will wait for them to finish their question until I ask them "with what?". Why add the extra word?
Edit: my first sentence was a dangling participle, and I apologize. It should have read "why do people".
Granted, sometimes being grammatically correct can be a bit more awkward; e.g. "who am I talking to?" should be "with whom am I speaking?".
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between reverse racism and double standards. I know i sound dumb but i came across this topic last week and genuinely couldn't understand it even after reading a few articles about it. It's kinda confusing for me
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people actually want to be at work.
The last 9 to 5 job I had was at a warehouse, and there was no reason my coworkers and I couldn't have finished each day's work in 4-5 hours. Except that my coworkers spent most of the day talking about absolutely nothing, fucking around on their phones, shooting hoops in the parking lot, and doing some work in between. I'm a "work until work is done" kind of person, and that's because I don't want to spend a second more time at work than I have to. But instead, I had to kill time while I waited for my coworkers to do their job so I could do mine. The worst part is that the boss who set the hours probably did the least work of all and had no life outside of work. Like, you'd seriously rather be in this hot, windowless tin can of a building than...literally anywhere else?
Why people don't understand what Congress is doing with is covid virtus. This is a socialism trial run they are doing and everyone is biting. Please help me understand why people are just laying down and handing over their freedom
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:58:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get the thought process of Republicans.
I'm not saying you're stupid, I'm wondering why y'all decide to do things the way you do! Like, what makes guns so fun? They look really cool, but they kinda scare me.
Also, What would be the point where you decide to vote Democrat instead of Republican? bc, I know that if a Republican said they'd do free healthcare and environmental protection, I'd vote for them, do you guys do this too? (like vise versa ofc)
Finally, I grew up in a household that constantly stressed that Republicans are stupid, and are the enemy, I know this occurs on your side too. Is there any way we could reach a middle ground and set parties aside, and simply talk about the legislature/morality of things without predicaments?
Edit: I've been told "no" to all these questions by people from my party, the Democrats, I'd like to see what y'all think from the other side of the fence.
Why people think “the rich don’t pay their fair share” in America.
It’s fine if you think rich people should pay more, but why would you pretend that they don’t pay a “fair share”? The American system has people paying a higher percentage of taxes the more they earn. So, no matter what, they’re always paying more in terms of dollars, and they’re always paying more in terms of percentage.
And if people retort “yeah but some higher-ups take a salary of $1 and get paid in stock which is only taxed at 15%”... 1) that’s still higher than basic tax rates, 2) that’s the employment arrangement, and 3) sometimes stocks lose value before you can sell!
I suppose the issue I have is with the word “fair.” It’s used exactly wrongly. Flip it. If there was a cake to be shared between two people and one person took 4/5ths of the cake, would you say they took a “fair” slice? I’m guessing most people would say “no, they unfairly took too big a slice.” Yet that’s the tax system. 20% of taxpayers pay 80% of the taxes.
Euchre. My partner and his mother have tried to teach me how to play, and I just can't get it. I consider myself maybe slightly above average as far as intelligence goes. My partner has a mildintellectual disability and he knows how to play it.. I get so frustrated when I can't understand something and I think that hinders me learning at all. But I've downloaded euchre apps, I've watched videos, I've tried to play it with them and I just cannot learn the game. It's been years and I dont get it. Lol
I realize it’s a terrible illness as I work at a hospital and I also didn’t say that it was bad that we’ve implemented social distancing and shut down certain nonessential businesses. I’m just saying hearing about it left and right and causing panic and anxiety in Americans to the point they are loading up and preparing for an apocalypse and not spending any money has hurt not only our economy but our overall mental health. Not that being informed is a negative concept but it does get overwhelming.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you and I hope I didn’t sound snobby or arrogant. I guess I’m just tired of hearing about it all the time especially due to work. Anyways I hope the best for you and I just can’t wait for a return to normalcy. Cheers!
Christians supporting Donald Trump, especially the "devout" ones. I feel it's the ultimate hypocrisy, and so telling about the lure of power. What would Jesus do, indeed...
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people sacrifice their freedom and things that truly bring them joy just to do the respectful/right thing in societies eyes.
sorry i offended yu man, neva tried to hurt anbody i have bipolar and add and i always offend everbody but i genuinely was curius on subject though, sorry.
Well, as a gay man, I can turn that around and say I don't understand straight men's attraction to women. The same female features that turn straight men on, i.e. breasts and vagina, turn me off. I think breasts are ugly, and the bigger, the uglier.
I don't understand the hype around that 'never gonna give up up' guy.
I've only heard the chorus and it's not great at all. The dance he does, looks silly. People like doing 'tricks' where you click links and it goes to that song. Why do people love it so much? Why? It's so stupid and I genuinely don't understand why such a horrible song is loved.
Athiests: I don’t understand how someone can be so oblivious to the existence of God. Sure, 99.99% of the time a booming voice from the sky is not heard. There is, however, literally countless other evidences of God’s existence, presence, and personal involvement with us every day.
Pro Abortion: I don’t understand how so many are blind to the fact that abortion is straight up murder of another human being. There is no greater evil in this world than abortion.
Anyway, Happy Easter. He is risen!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:55:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Republican voters see Republican efforts to supress voter turnout and often decry it, and don't see it as any kind of problem worth holding the party accountable for.
I m Canadian. I don t understand how Americans elected and may re elect Trump. He is clearly a serial liar , a racist , a sexual predator , bereft of morals . Any ONE of these would make him ,in my opinion,unfit to be the president. I just don t get it. I ve lost respect for Americans .
Women being so damn confusing. Being subtle and saying they’re telling you EXACTLY what they’re saying but they never said it DIRECTLY. Like they’d expect you to understand their actions or how they feel..In other words, when they’re confusing!
Slope. I’m on my way to a science-based PhD and would consider myself intelligent. Fuck if I understand slope and I’ve been learning about it since about 5th grade.
How people think it is okay to kill a human being growing inside them. How they think it isn’t murder as well as the government saying it is okay. How do people really think they can justify the killing of innocents.
Yet, if I were to accidentally or purposefully kill a pregnant woman...I get 2 counts of murder. (Or attempted)
The saying “blood is thicker than water” I’m a family kind of person and I do love my family but that doesn’t mean that I stick with them no matter what, if they do something unbelievably awful then I’m walking away, family or not. genuinely sometimes friends can have your wellbeing in mind and be better for you than family so it’s not really about the blood it’s about the person, or that’s how I think anyway
How does one feel emotions? How are we able to feel emotions and do people feel differently for emotions. How do we clearly convey how we are feeling without giving an example, for example, “Imagine if you lost a bet for $5000”. Why do we express emotions like we do? Why can we empathize? Is it just the act of feeling the same emotions as them. I will never understand us humans.
Also, why can’t people understand the same way? I know it has something to do with our brain, like with people with disabilities and such. But for those who don’t, do they just have different degrees of the brain? How do we learn? I have no clue on this. How to we think? Is thinking just us making sounds in our brain? How do we think back on a memory? Are all our forgotten memories stored in a back closet, waiting for us to remember.
Not Actual Real Life Things:
In a time loop, is before the time loop the past or future if you go back in time to that time? Does time loops go the Back to the Future or the Avengers way. In the Back to the Future style, if you change anything, will it cause a change reaction that’ll affect you? Example: you go back in time and kill a caterpillar. It’ll prevent it from going into a cocoon and growing into a butterfly that’ll help this one person win a picture award. The person is inspired that they won and decided to travel the world. They eventually become super famous and establishes a business that will create it’s own town, the town you lived in. Will this actually happen like this?
How bowling is scored. I know a perfect score is 300. I know a strike is ten. I know three strikes in a row is a turkey. I know a spare means it took you both balls to knock down all ten pins, and that carries over. That's about where I lose it...
Getting a strike in each box means you get 30 per box essentially.
When you get a strike, both balls in the next box count towards the previous box. So if you got a strike in the first box and then a spare in the second, the original box can only be 20.
Then the second box can only be a max of 20 because only 1 ball on the next box counts towards the previous box on a spare.
To get a perfect game you have to throw 12 consecutive strikes.
I can understand algebra until graphing starts to come into play. Some where from the quadratic formula to y=mx+b I get incredibly lost. Barely passed Algebra 2 and failed my algebra class in college because of graphing.
How anybody’s individual consciousness is decided to be in any individual body? Like why my soul is in this vessel? Consciousness decision assembly line? 🤯
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are going to look at me funny, but I cannot understand how someone can happily have sex with a person they hardly know. A person they do not love, care for and trust implicitly.
I had one guy who, on the first date wanted to kiss me on the mouth. I tried that (first guy I dated) and everything in me said "Oh, Hell no!" I actually ran from him because he insisted on doing it again. It felt so unbelievably wrong to me.
Fortunately, later on I met the person I am with now and he was the kind of person who took things slow.
I don’t understand how one can have a philosophy where you do not want the best for all your fellow human beings.
I get that there are relevant economic, political and social forces at play. But why is it that we as a civilisation continue to define a ‘us’ and ‘them’ in each and every micro context possible, and not want the good for all others as a whole.
Anxiety. I have it, still don’t understand why or how it happens. And, I don’t know if this only happens to me, but there are these times where my thoughts get “Meta”. Like, I’m thinking about something and then I think about what I’m about to think about and I think about that thought and then when I try to stop the cycle I keep thinking about thinking about stopping it.
Meta is the only way I can think to describe it, it kinda summarizes it.
How people can enjoy life and have actual goals when we're all gonna die. I can't fathom that. I have almost no drive to do or learn anything since I know it will be pointless eventually
That bouncy hand waving hyper expressive TikTok movement style. Usually done by cosplay people lip syncing
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Color sometimes I sit and think does everyone see the same colors as each other? I know we all call them the same name but what if someone’s green is my yellow and vice versa there is no way to ever now that. Maybe this is a stupid thought but it drives me crazy thinking about it
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can gaslight others and take advantage of people in difficult mental health situations or/and physical issues. I've been personally gaslighted and was in more shock than anything when I realised, i cant wrap my head around people being that horrible.
How the universe can have an edge to it. The very concept of there being an outward limit of "everything" distresses me no matter which way I come at it. (I guess this is very similar to the person who said how "nothing" can exist too)
To have no more space in my mind would suggest that there's no more dimension in that direction. If you took the model of a cross-section of the universe and drew the outline on a piece of paper, what is the outside of that outline? Should the right representation be to take out scissors and cut away the rest of the paper? If we graph it out and the edge is at 1 universal radius on the x axis, what is at 1.1 universal radii? Does that even exist at all?
I don't understand, even 'til now, in my 30s, how did we get to name colours. I mean, how do we know red is actually red and not green? How did people came to terms to agree that white is white and is not yellow? This thing is bothering me since middle school.
How some medical professionals are not following social distancing rules places by the CDC. Adding to that—how anyone is not following the social distancing rules.
Accumulation depreciation. I use to LOVE accounting and was very good at it, for some reason whenever that’s introduce everything goes to shit, I just can’t understand it for some reason.
So it doesn’t matter how you think the earth was formed, but what caused the Big Bang. What put giant things there to hit each other. How was the universe really created. The story with God and the days doesn’t include any other planets or dinosaurs, but something had to of put things in place for something like the Big Bang.
Passive aggression. Maybe it's because I'm on the autistic spectrum, but I apparently shut down people attempting to be passive aggressive with me because I just... Don't process it the same way? Ex. my manager once came up and said, "We're really behind. I wonder why that is?" and then stared at me as though expecting an answer... So I provided the very literal, blunt response. I thought she got frustrated because it wasn't actionable feedback... According to friends I was supposed to be ashamed.
Oh no! It wasn't like a "you should have been ashamed and therefore you have performed Being An Entity badly" it was a "dude, she was trying to make you feel ashamed, fuck that". Sorry for the wording!
I genuinely do not understand why people don't care about what is happening in the nursing home industry. People are being abused, neglected, and dying! There are no huge social justice movements and the new doesn't pick up these horrible stories? Why?
Selinux and git i used It every day... Also i dont understand law or acouting. Or medicine... I just know im not that smart and thats ok..
wial · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why time slows down for the object approaching the speed of light relative to its origin from the perspective of the origin, but not for the origin as far as the object is concerned, which is moving away from the object at the same near luminal velocity relative to the object.
Space - it’s such a frightening question of how big is it, how much of nothingness is out there. Where is the end? And if there is an end, then what are we in this planet? Are we inside something else? Can gravity stop working at any second and the earth goes into free fall? So many questions and it makes me queasy to think of it and the older I get the less I want to know but really I want to ask these questions to get over my fear of space.
They were believed to be able to hypnotise and control people so have been portrayed in many films and literary works as having beautiful women surrounding them and being irresistible. Being good looking makes it easier to get an audience to believe people could be lured in.
The early vampire (as in beings that were once human, not just bloodsucking creatures) tales were based on a lack of understanding about body decomposition and a condition known as porphyria.
(I actually wrote an essay about some of this last summer. It’s really interesting stuff.)
There’s also the whole ‘danger is sexy’ thing. Increased heart rate and breathing, adrenaline spike etc are fear responses and responses to arousal, which can easily be misinterpreted. Obviously, more common with indirect fear, such as horror films, rather than if you were being attacked by a lion
How can a human being, with this wacky mushy thing piloting a meat machine, just suddenly stop. Where do we go. What happens..!? All my thoughts and memories, just for nothing? I just disappear. Is it dark forever? Will I experience anything after death..
There is so much more to get into, but oh my god I have a crisis every time I think about it.
It's easier if you think about shapes. A shape can change, but what happens to the previous form? From a common point of view, it stops existing. But the truth is: that form's never been substantial.
The universe man, like think about there being nothing, like nothing in the entire universe, no light or space. That just blows my mind every time I think about it. Like we are too small to even comprehend that scale.
How Reddit is a Anti-Trump propaganda machine but everyone pretends to be a liberal while everything here is clearly skewed. I don't like Trump and I don't live in US but somethings are too obvious to ignore.
KwtanL · 0 points · Posted at 06:25:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of language arts test, especially Chinese. To me, language are created or used to describe something complicated with simple ideas. However, the language arts tests uses complex language combinations to describe a simple idea. Completely the opposite direction of what I understand as language.
Or maybe just the inner engineer of me is screaming practicality over everything. Idk.
Most people's dreams. I am a natural lucid dreamer, therefore I can control my dreams. I don't understand how come people can't even control THEMSELVES in some dreams. Like, just MOVE, guys
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:37:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do i lucid dream. Got a list of things i need to do
There are lots of tutorials on YouTube and Google. I don't know how to make yourself lucid dream, because I was born with it
Liqqa · 0 points · Posted at 06:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people can be so stuck in their little box. Maybe not just themselves, but maybe stuck in the box with their family, or friends, or job. Even religion and the like. They never look out to the world. The clouds, the stars, the entire universe. It is so vast. So meaningless and meaningful at the same time. So unforgiving and cruel, yet beautiful. And people choose to waste their time here being so closed in. You are ALIVE. Living and breathing and feeling. You are here. Do something with this precious time. You will not be here for very long, don’t let it all pass you by. You will regret it at some point if you waste this time. You have ONE life. About a quarter of my life is over now and I regret the time I’ve spent doing things that don’t matter with people that don’t matter. It’s an extremely profound feeling that I have, being able to look in to the sky and understand how small and meaningless I am in the grand scheme of things, yet having that be the fuel to make it as meaningful as I possibly can. I don’t want to waste the rest of my time. I want to be something.
Sometimes I think in German, I don’t get it, I don’t know German, I’ve watched one show in German, didn’t know what was going on. But I realize it’s German when I see the stupid show again. :/
Why the Coronavirus statistics don't add up yet everyone in the UK blindly believes them. And in particular why the extreme left have not only stopped questioning a strongly right government, but are actively helping them enforce extreme right wing policies.
They do add up, its just how they are said that makes them sketcy, very normal in politics to make something look like nothing or everything, everybody know the basics of math, just not everybody have critical thinking
They just don't though.
78,991 cases,
9,875 deaths,
0.5% death rate.
At least one of those number MUST be wrong, yet they are all being put forward as factually correct. Lets assume the actual deaths is at least in the right ballpark, then either the death rate is over 10% or there are actually nearly 2million people infected.
EDIT: Downvote all you like but this is basic fucking maths!
How race is a social construct and not a biological reality but then certain medications work better in different “races”. For example different types of blood pressure medications work better in African Americans versus caucasians
I have no idea what to think of racism... cause many people find things only racist if you do them to a black person and not to a white one, which should if i understand also be racism as well, which means that calling someone a racist is racistic??
How so many people can deny that Jesus is the only begotten son of God. Jesus died and rose again so that they can have eternal life with God after they die, if only they believe that Jesus died for them and took their sins upon Himself. Happy Easter! He is Risen!
Christians. Just ‘god’ in general. I dont understand why people believe this dude that wrote a book one day, called it the bible, and filled it with discrimination. Seriously, that mustve been a straight, white male who made it.
[deleted] · -33 points · Posted at 13:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls logic: They get mad at you and ask them to leave them alone yet they get more mad at you for actually letting them be alone. Like WTF you want?
MMXXfan · 20 points · Posted at 14:37:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not Girls Logic. It's Your girl's logic. I don't understand it either, and I'm a girl...
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 14:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunetly she aint the first one to do so. Almost all of the girls I have been with have done the same thing. Im starting to question myself in this situation if Ive done something wrong in the situation :/
I don't think it's you necessarily unless you have a naturally aggravating personality. You might just have a type that you go for who are overdramatic :)
I promise as a female we are not all overdramatic and confusing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe pick your standards up so you dont have to deal with those women
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 15:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a inner conflict. At one side you don't want to be left alone with you thoughts, but on the other side are you still mad at this person, even if you don't want to.
I would stay, but still let them think about it. That's at least what helped me.
mtled · 1 points · Posted at 17:19:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking for myself; leave me alone to give me a few minutes to process my emotions because they are overwhelming me and I don't want to make things worse because I'm so sad/angry and the conversation has shifted to my feelings (which are valid, but overwhelming, and you talking about them makes it worse) and not to the issue that triggered all this. So let me calm down.
BUT, whatever the issue is is still unresolved.
So please also take this time to reflect on the problem and maybe offer a solution/talk about YOUR feelings or maybe just hug me calmly and tell me that we can work on/fix whatever and it'll be ok.
I don't know, it's hard to give such general advice because there are so many variables. But in short, I still want my husband's love and affection but also need space to handle my feelings. And yeah, those are conflicting things, but that's human. So don't "leave me alone" and go play games/have fun/pretend nothing's wrong because that just seems dismissive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what you mean. Usually I let her know that Ive noted she wants to be alone by saying something like "okay, come talk to me when you want I will wait" or something like that. It is just that whenever Ive said it they keep being mad at me at bring up stuff like "oh wow you dont care about me"(?!) wich makes me pissed off. I dont want to sound a douche but their reaction usually makes me feel like Ive told them to "fuck off I dont wanna talk to you"
I (in general)appriciate girls who can actually tell me straight that they need few mins to calm down and then we can talk about what was bothering them/making them upset. Its just all the unnecessary things some needs to say after that like "so youre gonna ignore me" or something like that. Its not like I just told you that I will give you your own space and time and Im gonna be here waiting until you feel like you want to talk about it..
[deleted] · -46 points · Posted at 13:53:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 14:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -28 points · Posted at 14:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even allot of animals don't use sex for only reproduction. Quite alot of primates, one species especially, the bonobo, use sex to relieve themselves or express familiarity or kindness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do know kissing, nibbling, all that jazz, isn't necessary for reproduction, nor are their sole purposes for reproduction? Kissing especially, is oft used as a way to show affection to a romantic partner, and nothing about it has to be sexual, though it can be if wanted.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 16:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't see how this is different than being straight and having different-gendered sibling. What's your point exactly? A teenage guy can have a girlfriend whom he kisses and have a younger sister, too.
brcn3 · -1 points · Posted at 19:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some whites will defend the anti-racist point of view to the death in a conversation, even when there aren’t any non-whites around.
Like, who are you trying to score points with?
The fact that there is an American commercial depicting a family of bears who confider the highlight of their days to be wiping their asses. I get it, it's for toilet rolls, but still. What the hell?
Why people don’t do more research on or look into event 201 and agenda 21, Gematria behind propaganda and fake news rather than just assume everything on the news is true and the government is there to help us and not control us and get as much power as they can.
Why older people insist on us saying good morning e en to stranger, for me I don't know why but it's very awkward and I feel my heart race everytime I'm told to say that instead of just a simple 'hi' or juat nothing. I don't understand how it's a sign of respect, I see it as older folks just trying to get attention for no reason. Don't get me wrong if someone says it I'll try my best to say it back or at least a hi because it really is hard for me to do social norms.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand fear of racism that Republicans are accused of. I don't understand bowing to the government as a master with the stain of slavery in US history. Democrats are about big government dependence as a master
Aly3n · -1 points · Posted at 22:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took ap biology and completely don’t understand how homosexuality works
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can clearly see that throughout history, socialism has never worked, and in present day, socialist countries are not working, and yet they look at that and say yeah, I want to try that. I honestly can not understand that.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh give it a rest. Get help for your Trump derangement syndrome. People throw insults when they lack the intelligence to present a valid argument... childish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women keep saying there's no more good men out there but were clearly rejecting the good men and kept going for the bad men. (not referring to nice guys, good men and nice guys are different)
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:44:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heterosexuals
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people enjoy s*x. Even the idea of kissing is weird for me. I love giving hugs though, but even then I feel awkward. Am I the only one? Lol probs not but still
Well 5 g isnt harmful because it one the low frequency left end of the elctro magnetic spectrum which is home to infared and radio waves which do no harm to cells. Also the holocaust did happen its a fact and millions died you fucking asshole. And people litter because they are too lazy to walk to a trash can.
I find it wierd people still do the whole downvote troll thing. Like it was funny years ago when there were a few infamous accounts doing it, but the joke is kind of old.
Dumbass feminists who think the world is unfair. Like honestly, everything is already fair and feminist groups just want more. Honestly the feminist movement should get a life and move on.
the hypocrisy of parents. (note: we're christians)
one time my mom asked me after mass why I didn't pay full attention to the priest.
I told her she wouldn't have known that unless she wasn't paying full attention either. My sisters were "OOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"-ing their heads off and my mom doesn't bother me for this anymore.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:27:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people on this website can hate an entire country (America) when most of them don't even live there or even interacted with an American other then the Strawmen they made up in their head.
It's baffling how easy it is to shit on the US but when an American tries to defend themselves everyone and their mother comes out of the wood work to just shit on them for not being 'born right'.
How there are people that still want to establish communism on their first world, rich, successful, capitalist countries
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How leftist anarchy is supposed to work. I just cannot wrap my head around how you're supposed to prevent capitalism without significantly restricting people's freedom.
Because all of those things are just people trying to live their lives with partners and expression of self that they self chose and not society.
Minorities in any sense don't deserve to be shunned by their fellow members of society just because they are themselves.
I actually didn't even know how to reply to this message..i can't decide if you are coming from a play of utter naivety or institutionalized hatred.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but what makes my opinion wrong on the matter? If people are praised for loving who they love and all that, why can't i hate on those people without getting flagged as a terrible person?
Same reason you get flagged as a terrible person if you hate ob anyone who hasn't done anything wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In my eyes the bad thing they have done is being part of the lgbt. I shouldn't force my own values on them, and i don't. However, people flag me as a terrible person just for disagreeing with their values, doesn't that contradict the "acceptance" part? 🤔
I think i will actually delete the comment because it would be really bad for my karma :D
Because hatred of a person that hasn't done anything harmful to you or society is incompatible with peace.
With that mentality violence is lurking around the corner, and I think I speak for most, I enjoy peace.
emzett1 · -2 points · Posted at 20:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there homeless people in countries like Germany. We literally give them everything they need to live. Everything. They can literally choose to live in an apartment and a regular life or live in the streets, take drugs and beg for money
The absolute stupidity of Trump supporters/Republicans when it comes to their denial of actual facts and science and how absolutely paranoid they are even though they stress given science to reassure them.
Ok, think about it like this. Assuming you're a dude, imagine if everyone else thought you were a girl. If you were forced to dress a certain way, if you had to behave like a woman, if you had to use a name that didn't refer to you, even though, to you, it's obvious that you're a guy.
why did they changed the name of wuhan virus to covid? wouldn’t it better to call it for its origin? and people seems to be offended by it when you call it a wuhan virus.
I don't care about that. I'm saying they should b killed not cured. Why would I like people like that living in the same planet as me, ugh. Send them to the sun so they die burnt
People who are pro-abortion. It scares me when people devalue human life so harshly.... I don't really remember hearing a logical, unbiased opinion from the opposing side. I think about it morally and legally, 'all men are created equal... Right to life' type of stuff. I feel like it's so obvious that it should be illegal, it's the very first line of the US' Declaration of Independence.
Edit: my ears are open. Please share your opinion with me, I really want to understand - please help me.
[deleted] · -14 points · Posted at 15:16:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who unironically think the Star Wars prequels are good movies. Especially if they dislike the sequels as well.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Episode three is one of the best star wars movies
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm mostly talking about one and two(specifically two). I truly don't understand how one could think those are good movies. They share a lot of flaws with the sequels as well so that makes it worse. Three still has a lot of problems, even though it is better than the other two.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you take out all of the cringey Anakin and padme scenes it becomes a decent movie. And episode one is pretty cool but yes, they aren't that good.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm mainly talking about Anakin's entire character. I don't get how one could dislike what was done with Luke yet be okay with Anakin's treatment. Even if you take away the OT it doesn't really make sense. It's supposed to be about his turn, yet in two he's basically already a Sith in all but name.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree because we see him murder the tribe of sand people out of anger but still feel the guilt after I don't think a sith would feel the guilt and the Chancellor had already began to poison his mind. I have to re watch the movie because I don't remember any other specifics but it kinda goes like this I'm pretty sure. The clone wars show also fills in a lot of the gaps between episode two and three.
[deleted] · -14 points · Posted at 15:47:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sitting around in the recliner watching TV or napping while someone else runs around the house doing chores, then actually deciding it's the correct thing to do to ask the to get you a drink "while they're up".
philosophically it's actually really hard to justify eating meat. I'm not a vegan/vegetarian, but most people who do hold inconsistent beliefs that do not soundly justify their behavior.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans. No seriously no disrespect to trans people at all, I just don't get it. Not from a religion standpoint. You were born a male or female. Why is it so hard to be gay? Why is it so hard to crossdress? Why is it so hard to get mental help? I just don't get why teenagers and adults are saying they don't feel like the proper sex/gender. This is called "gender dysphoria" and is a thing that needs to get checked out. I've run into a lot of zoomers who've said, "I don't feel like I'm a boy" maybe you're gay. Youtube - I want my sex back. Watch that and understand the stuff you'd have to go through. Do you see think you are the opposite sex? Your life wont be happy, it will just be different.
Also, all these genders and sexualities. I'm sorry but if you read any sexuality outside of gay, straight or bisexual and asexual, they are all fancy ways of saying "I'm bi"
I looked up "sapiosexual" that's just bisexual with nerd sprinkled on top. You want a smart person to date, just say that. That's a preference not a turn on "OMG WEAR THAT STAR WARS SHIRT AND FUCK ME" "OMG TELL ME MORE ABOUT SCIENCE, YOU'RE SO FUCKING HOT" Really? No, sure that might be a turn on but that's not a sexuality. I look for smart girls myself, but you don't see me saying, "talk comic books to me in bed and watch me fuck you hard when you mention your love for Nightwing too"
The genders thing? It bothers me and I don't get why you can't be a boy or a girl. People wonder why they get made fun of and they are calling themselves "non-binary" you're not a fucking code, you're a human-being.
Sorry to get so mad about this but I just don't get where this is all coming from in the last 20 years. I'm 28, so I've seen a lot of people on the internet crying about their gender, their sexuality, about everything. You're Gay, you're straight, you're bi. Awesome, enjoy your sex life, enjoy your adult life. But don't expect everyone to "respect it" because respect is EARNED not GIVEN
How people can be Gay or Lesbian or even Trans. Im not Homophobic or Transphobic. You can do whatever you want, its your life. i just don’t understand it.
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lonelywhalien52 · 493 points · Posted at 19:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I spend hours making a perfectly curated list of shows I want to watch on Netflix but when I actually have time to watch them, none of them sound appealing and I end up deleting most of the items off the list I spent hours making
[deleted] · 25 points · Posted at 02:18:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still have my list of animes that I made in 2014.... I didn't finish it
binkyboo_8 · 12 points · Posted at 04:43:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this with movies I "plan on" watching. I currently have two different Post It notes with movies to watch. Yeah, right.
Stick_and_Rudder · 7 points · Posted at 06:46:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually a good way to combat procrastination. Just put the distraction into a "procrastination folder" and you get a little bit of that good feeling from procrastinating because you know you'll be focusing on the distraction later. But the good news is that once the thing you're procrastinating on goes away and you go back to the folder, you won't want to open maybe 60% of whatever you put in there.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:42:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re probably bored though?
gandfatli3 · 2 points · Posted at 11:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Timetoruinlife · 2 points · Posted at 13:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
UncleSamLuvsGuns · 2 points · Posted at 16:23:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people spend hours making perfectly curated lists.
lurkingandjudging · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes!!!
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:37:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 11:51:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same but with Porn
cygnisinteranates · 11791 points · Posted at 17:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of thought, how we can make so many decisions in a split second. Internal dialogue is crazy. Does everyone have the same sort of inner thoughts? Do animals have internal dialogue? When I think about it, it blows my mind.
[deleted] · 3549 points · Posted at 21:42:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man i had a fucking existential crisis recently, when i started thinking about how my thoughts just popped into my head and i actually have no control of what i think.
Like i don't decide to think something, i just do. How the fuck do brains even work.
Do i even have free will? Am i just a biological machine running calculations based on previews experience?
Not to get too crazy, but man this shit weirds me out whenever i think of it.
[deleted] · 901 points · Posted at 02:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intrusive thoughts are this concept on steroids. Imagine having no control of your thoughts, and your brain assaults you with all of the worst things possible at all, or random times.
snuzu · 147 points · Posted at 02:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain does this! Out of nowhere it’ll be “what about THIS terrible concept” - and I do have the ability to visualize.
absentsquirrel · 61 points · Posted at 03:33:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s incredibly normal! Brains are so funny
BallFlavin · 7 points · Posted at 00:32:10 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brain: "What if you raped and murdered that child?"
Me: "Haha brains are so funny"
threwzsa · 47 points · Posted at 04:14:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain likes to overload me with worst case scenario thoughts rapid fire when I’m in public speaking situations. They come at me so fast that my heart rate increases Wildly and my words become choked up and audibly stressed. Damn near panic attack, anxiety attack levels. Most of the time I wind up settling into a groove and it stops but literally it’s such a vicious cycle. When I’m about to public speak for a presentation or something my heart rate increases before due to the fear/anxiety of the impending situation as well. Like I’ve done incredibly dangerous stuff all my life due to work and hobbies and been calm and collect but this one particular aspect of life really really gets me fucked up.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 04:53:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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threwzsa · 14 points · Posted at 04:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I’m not ever in a scenario where I’m just passively overwhelmed and can just listen to a YouTube video. It’s literally moments before I do some kind of public speaking/presentation or interview situation my mind races and my flight or fight response goes off the chain just surging me with adrenaline, it sucks. I put these situations on a pedestal which virtually makes it happen every time. I think the only cure is constant exposure to these situations but the thought of that alone actually starts to make my heart rate increase. My brain is a trickster asshole.
snuzu · 7 points · Posted at 05:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I experience something similar to this. I’ve found some help with mindfulness - when I have to speak or give a presentation I get feelings like you describe. Sometimes even finding parking before a meeting my heart will start racing and my face gets flushed, shaky with adrenaline. Even if I’m consciously unworried. I learned to “notice” the sensations and focus on them for a minute and then they settle down and you can carry on with it a little easier. Something about acknowledging the the physical sensations we get when anxious and riding them out helps us to separate from them. I recommend looking into it, hope you are able to find some peace.
whorewithaheart_ · 3 points · Posted at 05:14:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you try rehearsing a lot before you give one? Exposure helps but I found practicing as if I were doing it all the same calmed my nerves. Mine are admittedly for work so we have slides but infront of very large groups it can be nerve racking as hell
SamGlass · 3 points · Posted at 21:12:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a theory that this phenomenon occurs because being stared at is threatening - akin to a predator stalking a prey. Old timey advice is to picture the audience naked. The reason being that generally nudity is a manner of vulnerability, so you'd then trick your mind into perceiving the audience as vulnerable rather than threatening. The vehicle doesn't necessarily have to be the naked thing, it could just as easily be pretending everyone in the audience is stupid, low-status and unforgivably weak, but the naked thing isn't quite so insulting. Lol. Plus such thoughts can backfire when that narrative crumbles for whatever reason. You could also (and this I think would be more effective) pretend everyone in the audience is nice, and totally loving, understanding and encouraging, and ready to praise everything you say. That's more often the reality than it it's not, so meditate on this fact at length before you get on the podium. Give it a try!
Being stage shy means you have a healthy dose of humility. That's a good characteristic. Despots and other tyrannical and domineering figures experience no such fear. So at least you can pat yourself on the back for possessing this contrasting attribute!
billygoat-25 · 6 points · Posted at 04:50:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This gave me anxiety just reading this.
CaroleFuckenBaskin · 6 points · Posted at 06:15:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not that drugs are always the first line or answer for everything, but propranolol (a Beta-Blocker) works fucking wonders for public speaking & other performance anxiety, so I have heard and read. I take a high dose for rapid heart rate in general, but this will give you an idea of why it is so popular, explaining that ”Propranolol suppresses the autonomic arousal associated with fear — meaning no more racing heart. No more shaking hands.” Here is another write-up.
Of course, I should mention that there are other options worth trying out such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), SSRI’s, & Benzo’s like Xanax. But if you don’t have insurance, money, or time for therapy, and/or SSRI’s don’t work for you, this may be an alternative—especially since doctors (thankfully) aren’t just handing out Xanax to every person inhibited by severe social anxiety, nervousness about a job-interview, or panicking during a public speaking engagement.
brownieofsorrows · 3 points · Posted at 12:57:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read that as "Note that drugs are always the first line or answer for everything" was confused for a moment haha
wedgered2 · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your brain goes to worst case scenario regarding the public speaking situation? Or worst case scenarios for life in general?
threwzsa · 1 points · Posted at 09:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Public speaking in particular, thoughts racing about everything involved with that.
novomagocha · 5 points · Posted at 05:56:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get these all the time, and mine are usually of me doing really violent things to people. I’m not a violent person at all, so it’s pretty disturbing
snuzu · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry you get to experience that. Mine are usually tragic thoughts or scenes - people I love being dead or saying hateful things to me, ways for me to die.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 13:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I either hurt myself or loved ones or pets and it’s fucking upsetting.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 03:07:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The worst are ones you can tangibly feel. I can’t touch wet hair for this exact reason. Which makes showering fun because i’ve been growing my hair out for about...11 years. It’s fine.
Also, why i refuse to touch things like scissors sometimes. No thank you, brain. I saw 127 hours or whatever with james franco. I know what you’re planning.
Martin_Birch · 4 points · Posted at 05:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine does it with songs, pieces of music, sometimes with chords and lyrics attached, just pop into my head as if from some celestial juke box. I mean new songs as well not other people's.
For example I was looking back on my life and pondering if everything has turned out as I expected it would. (I am British yet live in Ukraine which I certainly didn't expect). Anyway a few days later this song appeared in my head, pretty much complete.
I clearly wrote the song but not in the normal sense, it was like someone or something just faxed it into my head. In reality though I suspect my sub conscious just carried on with the original thought concept without telling me and then when the song was complete installed it in my conscious memory for use.
https://youtu.be/evSPAW4jOeY
Greetings from Kyiv
FerrisB00bler · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:45 on August 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
This song reminds me of the folk songs of the late 60s...I dig it!
Martin_Birch · 2 points · Posted at 12:29:51 on August 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many thanks, I should have been born a few decades earlier perhaps!
madscot69 · 6 points · Posted at 02:59:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds like an interesting time. Have you ever done any "mind-altering" drugs and if so how did they effect this?
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 03:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not the exact person you responded to, but i did bring it up. And i can answer your question!
I’ve done acid, and thats the only hallucinogen i’ve done. However, i was down bad and was eating it like candy for a couple months. That being said, no, it hasn’t had any effect on my intrusive thoughts. They existed before acid was introduced to my system, they exist after.
I can tell you what does exacerbate them, though! Stress is the main one. Traumas are another. Brain chemistry, most likely, is where it all comes from. I’ve always had an extremely overactive imagination as a kid, and as an adult it manifests in strange ways.
Imagine every single thing you’re afraid of. Across every aspect of life. Getting fired, getting cheated on, dying, spiders, stubbing your toe, forgetting your keys at home, whatever. All of those will run through your head and you have to force your brain not to think about any of it, which doesnt always work.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 04:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit the nail on the head my friend.
I’ve always dealt with OCD and obsessive, intrusive thoughts all my life but I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older they’re only getting worse and worse.
I used to abuse drugs and alcohol in my early twenties and I’m under the impression that it did some damage to my brain that only exacerbated these issues.
I’ve got almost 4 years of sobriety right now but I still feel like I’m cleaning up the mess that 3+ year long Storm left behind.
Do you consume caffeine at all? I stopped for almost 3 months and my OCD/intrusive thoughts were a LOT more manageable. I ended up going back to the caff because I wasn’t finding alternative methods for energy and my depression. Lo and behold those thoughts were right back in my head.
Anxiety is a bitch man
SlowTomorrow6 · 5 points · Posted at 04:47:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I doubt it makes you feel that much better but so many people beat the shit out of their brains paradoxically to make their mental illness less severe. Just be glad that you stopped. People like us just need to throw it out there more often to fill up the self destructed parts. Seek and destroy (not literally)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate that a lot man, thank you! I think you’re right though
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:09:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Caffeine makes my anxiety spike, but doesn’t affect my intrusive thoughts. I don’t have OCD though, that might be a factor (although im only basing that off of the only difference between you and me lol).
Also, congrats on the 4 year sobriety. Even if you’re still cleaning up a mess from 3+ years ago, thats some serious progress. You could still be in that mess, and i’m glad you arent.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn dude, this is honestly one of the nicest things someone has said to me. Thank you SO much, it really does mean a lot to read this especially during such a stressful time we’re all currently apart of. I appreciate it friend!
That’s fascinating to me it makes you anxious but doesn’t affect your intrusive thoughts. If you don’t mind me asking (feel free to disregard this) what happens to you when your anxiety takes over?
snuzu · 3 points · Posted at 05:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure - I’ve had a few experiences with mushrooms and lsd over the years, among other things (as responsibly as possible). I’ve always had positive experiences - usually brings feelings of clarity and peace. I had typical hallucinations and some circular thinking but always had a foot on the ground. Haven’t experienced “flashback” type episodes or anything since, my imagination/visualization ability has seemed to stay the same, which is quite vivid. No trouble with unwanted thoughts or figure hallucinations or anything during trips thankfully. In my sober life when I’m having a depressive episode or anxiety is typically when I experience intrusive thoughts. It’s happened my whole life and seems unchanged by my experimentation.
I took a mindfulness meditation workshop a few years ago and learned some excellent skills which have helped me to “manage my mind” and redirect my thoughts, ground myself when I start to get overwhelmed by this kind of anxious thinking.
Haven’t really noticed any connection between the two other than that hallucinogens have allowed for some positive introspection that’s helped me in my personal growth & dealing with my overactive brain.
vxyz1234567 · 0 points · Posted at 03:10:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It affects it in my opinion but not so much the intrusive thoughts for me at least.
tamsui_tosspot · 2 points · Posted at 14:10:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"My baby is so cute, I love her so much. What would happen if I threw her off this balcony right now."
Astandsforataxia69 · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I told you not to go to my hell
nlfo · 15 points · Posted at 02:55:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or schizophrenia. That’s got to be some rough shit.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 03:15:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schizophrenia is one of those things ive always been afraid will randomly develop for me. I’ve had auditory and visual hallucinations when extremely sleep deprived (more visual though) and its fucking freaky.
ntnl · 10 points · Posted at 03:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I have that too. But I don’t think I’ve ever seen any real character, only like a passing shadow, and only when I’m really tired
Itstoointhere · 7 points · Posted at 05:48:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. I had twin babies and got such little sleep. After a while I started seeing shadows in my peripheral vision. It was like a small animal darting away or something. It also did weird things to my emotions. I was cycling through an intense emotion every 30 minutes.
Also I watched a program about people with OCD and this one guy kept worrying about closing his cat in the dryer. I got annoyed and asked, “Why doesn’t he just stop having cats then?” The universe heard me and for punishment, my cat got closed in the dryer twice. Once by my mom and once by my husband. The both heard clunking and howling before running to turn off the dryer. Poor cat. You would think she’d learn not to nap in the dryer!!
NaziBe-header · 6 points · Posted at 04:47:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it doesn't show up by a certain point in your young adult life, you should be fine. It also runs in families, for the most part. You would know if it runs in yours. I've had sleep deprivation to the point I see shadows in my peripherals. Only hallucinations I've had, besides auditory hallucinations before I fall into sleep, aka night terrors.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 12:07:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love your username.
But yeah, i know. I’m mid 20s now and if i had it, i’d know. Yet it still scares me lol
NaziBe-header · 2 points · Posted at 17:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah. I didn't know you could have an aortic aneurysm until I met my SO with a connective tissue disorder. Thanks I've had this account for years.
your-imaginaryfriend · 3 points · Posted at 17:32:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm 20 and not gonna lie the fact that I'm the prime age for it to develop worries sometimes. It doesn't run in my family, my brain just likes to find random things to be anxious about.
brownieofsorrows · 1 points · Posted at 13:01:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well better get your sleep
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Been getting 8 hours a night recently! :)
brownieofsorrows · 1 points · Posted at 13:51:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coronas good side
MrWeirdoFace · 5 points · Posted at 03:57:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My housemate has it. He's ok as long as he takes his meds, but whenever he goes off (for whatever reason) starts to believe my other housemate is playing hypersonic noise to keep him up at night.
whorewithaheart_ · 3 points · Posted at 04:55:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s that like? Is everyone terrified? Wouldn’t he be sleep deprived
MrWeirdoFace · 3 points · Posted at 06:29:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, he lives in the basement, and works the night shift, so we don't see him much. He's never been violent or agressive. He's known my other housemate (not the one I mentioned before) over 30 years so they have at least some rapport. When he's on his meds hes seems good guy. Mental illness sucks.
insertpanusername · 11 points · Posted at 03:34:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually hate intrusive thoughts like do I want to cut my hand with a knife and watch the blood drip...um no... do I still think of it? Yep
snuzu · 10 points · Posted at 05:28:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can totally relate. Driving to work “What if you just drove your car off the road into the trees right now” great idea brain hard pass 🙄
CaroleFuckenBaskin · 8 points · Posted at 06:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one. Exactly. And I read somewhere else, on Reddit actually, that this line of thinking (or intrusive thoughts) are particularly common! So don’t think you are losing it or anything, not that you think that, but just in case.
snuzu · 6 points · Posted at 07:00:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I have also read that it’s fairly normal - maybe a subconscious surveying of potential dangers? Appreciate you sharing.
your-imaginaryfriend · 3 points · Posted at 17:36:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I commonly get intrusive thoughts telling me to hurt myself. Like when I wear a short sleeved shirt I think "oh look at my nice, bare skin....I could cut that all up." I'm not a self harmer and I don't entirely know where my brain gets these ideas.
ThatWeirdoNamedAmbet · 7 points · Posted at 06:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
parascrat · 6 points · Posted at 13:06:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch the School of Life's video on pure OCD. It was mind blowing for me. Basically the reason is that you hate yourself and think you are despicable. The people around you don't seem to think so, and your brain wants to 'solve' this disparity by telling you to do horrible things to show everyone how evil you are, thus aligning the world's vier on yourself with your own view on yourself.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 12:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My personal method of circumventing that is the second i think of doing something mean, i think of “i could ALSO do this nice thing!” Give them a hug, a kiss on the cheek, a flower, buy them lunch, tell them i like their smile, etc.
It doesnt work perfectly, the thoughts are still there, but now theres some nice ones to balance it out.
Anilxe · 7 points · Posted at 09:09:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This.
I'm not suicidal in the least, I love living and am absolutely terrified of death. But I get pretty strong intrusive suicidal thoughts. I'll be walking hand and hand with my partner, enjoying a nice day, across a bridge and I'll glance at the fence of the bridge and suddenly get a loud thought that says "Maybe I could just run and leap off the side of this bridge right now, and get it over with."
Its scary because not only does the thought appear, but for maybe half a second I genuinely consider it before I catch myself and mentally freak out. Its not just a baseless thought, it's presented as a personal desire, an urge. If I didn't have an amazing handle on my impulse control, I don't know if I'd be alive today.
Crotean · 5 points · Posted at 00:25:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats actually called the "call of the void" or "high place phenomenon" when it has to do with heights. Nothing actually suicidal.
https://www.wbur.org/endlessthread/2018/06/29/the-call-of-the-void
tomanon69 · 5 points · Posted at 05:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate intrusive thoughts. They plague me daily.
parascrat · 3 points · Posted at 13:16:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
like i wrote above: Basically the reason is that you hate yourself and think you are despicable. The people around you don't seem to think so, and your brain wants to 'solve' this disparity by telling you to do horrible things to show everyone how evil you are, thus aligning the world's view on yourself with your own view on yourself. i hope this helps, it certainly helped me.
GingerJanMarie · 3 points · Posted at 11:04:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Imagine having no control of your thoughts, and your brain assaults you with all of the worst things possible at all, or random times."
This is me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 07:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
imagine those thoughts drifting away without having harmed you. and then do it again and again forever. or just focus on your breath. count your slow breaths, and return to one every time you find yourself thinking. it is most assuredly possible to control your thoughts. meditation, my dudes.
MasterHorus333 · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for putting this thought out in the universe lol.
FlaminFenrir · 2 points · Posted at 05:47:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would assume this is a way for your brain to prepare for or bad situations...idk
South5 · 2 points · Posted at 06:04:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds normal to me, the intrusive thoughts.
omneomega · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha yeah. Sounds just like me. Just like me. Like me. Me. holyshitfuck
brownieofsorrows · 1 points · Posted at 07:54:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arent intrusive thoughts something like wondering about hurting someone and then thinking what the fuck just went trough your head ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 12:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda. That can be part of it. For me, it’s visualizing hurting myself in very high detail. Among other things.
brownieofsorrows · 1 points · Posted at 12:54:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus that must be even more unsettling
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:12:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t say it’s unsettling, but that’s only because i’ve been used to it for years. It’s just kinda there. I’m not a danger to myself cause when i momentarily “feel” the pain i’m like “hmmmm no thank you” lol
bewitchingwild_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hello, as someone who suffers from OCD, I can confirm this "imagine" statement is actual reality for some people.
DefinetelyNotAPotato · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:02 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
PTSD is this on double the dose of steroids
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 12:46:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ding ding ding! You are absolutely correct!
Skycomrade · 1 points · Posted at 14:19:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Invisibilia, the NPR Podcast did an amazing episode on intrusive thoughts. Really shows how it can fuck up someone's psychological state.
Ethchappy · 29 points · Posted at 02:29:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually the argument made against the concept of there being free will in the first place. The prior condition to thought happens without choice. Once you understand this it can change how you see the world and the people in it. No one is the locus of their decisions. This doesn’t invalidate good “choices” and mortality/ethics, but does force you to question things such as the prevalent prison system of society wherein crimes are punished, but rehabilitation takes a backseat to condemning people’s conscious choices :/
whorewithaheart_ · 6 points · Posted at 04:58:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t believe you are able to watch over yourself? Consciously be aware of yourself.
It’s definitely in a small portion of the population but I think everyone has the ability
It seems like this thread is proving that people are starting to think about it..
Ethchappy · 6 points · Posted at 06:38:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats not what I meant. Yes, you can watch yourself. Thats alot of what meditation/mindfullness encompasses is that watching. What I'm saying is that you don't have control or freedom of choice surrounding that conscious awareness. Its the first condition of thought, you no more choose your next action that you do the first movie you think of when you're told to pick one at random. You can observe the paint your consciousness throws against the wall, but you can only pick the colour once its hit the wall, or mix it with others that were thrown first.
whorewithaheart_ · 1 points · Posted at 14:30:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not here to argue but I disagree, do you have anything I can read about what you’re looking at? It would be an interesting read for someone who has a high level of interest. I spend most of my free time reading about conscious and unconscious behavior
Ethchappy · 1 points · Posted at 06:14:34 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No worries, never want to argue these points, they're alot more fun/interesting to discuss. I developed my own thinking around the subject coming from a interest in determinism and mindfullness. Sam Harris has a lot of content around the subject. His book is great. But this video should do as a overview. Let me know what you think https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t_Uyi9bNS4
Somebodys · 0 points · Posted at 06:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are misunderstanding determinism. Determinism states that since humans have no free will they cannot be held morally responsible for their actions. It definitionally eliminates morality/ethics. Retributive or rehabilitative justice are irrelevant "choices", humans do not have free will to decide which form of justice to employ.
ForsakenSon · 2 points · Posted at 07:47:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I want to start by saying that you strike me as the type of person who thinks that determinism = evil, or at least that is how your comment reads to me. I apologize if I am wrong, but your seeming frustration with the notion of determinism seems biased
So right away we have a problem. Determinism doesn't say this. Determinism is solely a description of whether actions are predetermined or not. You could argue that an Implication of determinism is a lack of moral culpability, but this would depend strongly on your definition of determinism.
Again this depends on how you define morality and ethics. You could probably state that it means humans cannot engage in moral behavior, but that doesn't eliminate morality entirely
This one really is why I wrote this comment. You have made a really common mistake here, which is to assume that a lack of free will somehow implies a lack of ability to make decisions. Humans obviously make decisions every minute of every day, determinism would simply say these decisions are not free but were influenced by external conditions. And it is precisely this fact that gives credence to the notion of rehabilitative justice. We know that human behavior can be modified by external circumstances in many cases, and so a system that treats people as if they are behavioral entities that can be molded by circumstance, we can aim that system at improving outcomes. You seem to think that somehow to accept determinism you must accept that humans somehow are actually empty automatons with no inner existence or actions, but I think anecdotally you know that not to be true. The consequences of determinism, and by extension the lack of free will, is simply that human behavior is a result of factors we can't control. Our decisions are not free, but we still make them and can modify them.
Ethchappy · 0 points · Posted at 06:43:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
at no point did i say I was attempting to paraphrase determinism in what i wrote. More I was just stating the degree to which the absence of free will or beginning to understand its illusory nature can make some societal beliefs about the nature of choice/morality seem inherently flawed.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 04:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Somebodys · 2 points · Posted at 06:36:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Without having an effective and robust way to communicate with other animals, we will not actually be able to know what how self-aware other animals are. Humans not comprehending they are animals is far and away a nurture over nature thing. Humans not being animals is ingrained into our psyche from birth by society. It is engrained in human language and culture. We want to think we are superior to animals because we are more "advanced" or "evolved" when most of us would be happy sitting in our own mess all day.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 10:41:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that case you'd expect there to be cultures where this is not the case. Where they view themselves as another animal. I know there's plenty of cultures where they view themselves as part of the greater whole of nature. But is there any that don't view themselves as superior to other animals?
Somebodys · 1 points · Posted at 15:01:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not an anthropologist so I would have to research if their are any current cultures with that belief. I was however viewing it more from a state of nature to evolution of society sense.
But since we are unable to effectively and robustly communicate with other animals we do not know if viewing ones species as superior is a uniquely human trait. There are various animals that seem to have some level of self-awareness. Dolphins recognize themselves in mirrors and have a sense of social identity. New Caledonian crows understand cause and effect. Scrub jays plan for the future. Elephants are well known for displaying empathy, even with non-elephant animals. Many different types if apes, chimpanzees, and monkeys all show signs of self-awareness. Orcas and octopuses are far to smart for their own good. Manta Ray's, archer fish, and cleaner wrasses have all passed the mirror test.
sismetic · 27 points · Posted at 02:51:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good way to think about it is that you have limited CONSCIOUS control of what you think. But why would you think that you're only limited to your conscious self? Your unconscious self is as much a part of your self as your conscious self. Your conscious self may decide something, for example, but you may be self-sabotaging.
There is indeed complexities when it comes to free will, but it's an issue as well to treat everything in an analytical fashion. Analytic thinking is always incomplete, as it compares things, and there are always ways of thinking or to see something, that you are never complete in analytic thinking. Analytic thinking is very useful for some things, but there are other things that are outside that analytic thinking, and seem to be non-computable. That doesn't mean it's "irrational" or non-existent, it means that it works in another sphere. The philosopher Henri Bergson spoke of this, and he referred to it as intuition.
It may interest you. I used to go crazy about thinking about certain things because whenever I went deeper I realized there was no end to the analytic thinking. I used to believe analytic thinking was the only way to think. But there are other ways of engaging into reality and to think about things. Think about your own experience for a moment. Do you realise your own conscious experience is not analytic? You're not analyzing all things all the moment, but rather, you are experiencing things from a different center of experience and thought. Your brain is indeed analyzing many things, but your experience about certain things is complete in of itself. I can go deeper if you are interested, into what I got from that philosopher which relate to me heavily and is very helpful.
ForktheSeventh · 9 points · Posted at 03:11:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please keep going this is beautiful
sismetic · 3 points · Posted at 05:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sure! It's like 1 AM where I live, but it is truly a fascinating topic.
Bergson was mainly interested in the distinction between what he thought analysis is and intuition, as far as I understand it. If you look at your own experience, I'm sure you will realize that there have been times where you have been living a moment that's unlike any other. Something was different, and it would be very hard to say that something analytical was different. Rather, what was different was your own experience of the moment you were living in. Rather than seeing it outside-in, you were seeing it from the inside, through your intuition, you understood something about the experience.
This is made clearer with his own explanation. He was interested in time, and he talked about a concept called Duration. He says, take an elastic band and stretch it. Analytic thinking happens when you compare two "states", two fixed, unchanging states with one another. Take for instance the first object you see. Let's say it's a cube. Analytic thinking is seeing the cube from one position, and then from another. The problem is that between those positions there's an unlimited number of positions. But that's what for example metric time does. It assumes all seconds are the same, and the seconds are measured by an objective standard(or semi-objective). So, you think your time happens in such a measure. While that measure is useful within a certain analytic thinking, it's the wrong way to look at your own experience as your own experience is still unfolding. The band has not finished stretching, so you cannot cut it into pieces, because the band is still stretching, it's not fixed. If you say, I'm going to take my experience and cut it into 10 equal measures of time, the issue is that as your experience continues, your measures become invalid. You need a fixed object in order to measure something "objectively". However, life, for us, and our conscious experiences, are not static in any which way. We are like that band, in constant Duration, and furthermore, even if you take a "snapshot" of each moment of our lives, there's an infinite number of "snapshots" to take, and furthermore, within each "snapshot" there are a multicity of "dimensions".
Take for instance, the snapshot of you walking down a road. Snapshot A is left foot forward, Snapshot B is right foot forward. As I said, between those snapshots there are an infinite number of snapshots that you omit out of practicality; however, is Snapshot A reduced to your foot moving forward? That could certainly be an aspect of that moment you are most interested in. However, aren't there other "dimensions" to that "painting"? Isn't there an infinite palette of colors in that painting? You weren't naked, you had clothes, but you were probably not alone, there may have been someone walking that road with you; there was probably dirt, there were clouds, there were trees; but the experience was not just visual audio, there were also sounds, even sounds you did not register because you weren't focusing on them; there were smells; you were thinking things; you were feeling things; your own body had weight, there was gravity; you had cells within your body, even if you never know them, but those cells were also made of a near infinite number of atoms, and atoms do not happen in a vacuum, they interact. So, you see, even if we may see only one aspect of the painting, because it's relevant to us, the painting has an almost number of infinite "aspects", but it is also more than the sum of aspects.
When we try to see our living, moving experience with the framework of a static analytical thinking we try to narrow that reality into a particular aspect. We say we are taking a part of it. But it is not a part, because it is not alive. If you only focus on a particular aspect of your walking movement you are not narrowing down to a part, you are narrowing down to an aspect. Just as if I have a cake and only talk about only one ingredient, let's say the eggs on it, I am not taking a part of the cake, as the part of the cake, while not the whole, has the whole integrity of the cake. I would not say that I have tasted a part of the cake if I only eat the eggs of it. No, I have to eat the slice of the cake with the fullness of the cake, with the combination of all the ingredients, the texture, the smells, the way it interacts with the tongue.
To Bergson, our consciousness was like the stretching band that didn't stretch monotonously, rather, we are a stretching band were in each unit of time, we not only adopt new life, that is, the integrated wholeness of reality as it is perceived by us, we bring the past with us, creating new experiences beyond the experience itself because we are unfolding. We cannot split our life into seconds, even though we may think we do, because we are still unfolding, our life is the act of unfolding of life, not the dead "aspects" of it. When you go beyond the analytical thinking of your own life, and enter into its "beat", into its wholeness, you go into the nature of reality and even concepts. You do not analyze friendship, for example; even though you may analyze "aspects" of it, only through intuitive thinking can you understand what 'friendship' is, even beyond the mere label. And as such, intuitions are also impossible to be shared, as even language itself is the product of analytic thinking. Yes, very useful in our every day life, but intuition is the true meat of reality and we rarely exercise true intuitive thinking.
To nail it more into the topic of free will, what I was getting at, is that if you try to approach an intuitive concept through analytic means you're a) going to conclude there is no such concept(because there are an infinite number of states and so a conclusion is impossible), b) go insane(this is legit, many people have gone crazy trying to solve such concepts analytically), c) give up on frustration and probably also conclude it does not exist. However, to your intuitive self, to your intuitive thinking, it is self-evident that you have free will because you experience it directly.
Or like dancing. You can try to dance analytically, going "step forward, but how many centimeters forward? How many millimeters forward? How many Xmeters forward? Now, spin! With how much force?"... or you can just connect with the experience, with the underlying fullness of that moment and "feel" the music. That is, actually get a little piece of the music and understand it.
At least, that's what I got from him.
FarRightExtremist · 1 points · Posted at 10:16:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never heard of the philosopher before, sounds very interesting.
This kind of reminded me of the moving arrow paradox.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zeno%27s_paradoxes
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 12:59:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I understand from that paradox it's very interesting. If there is only the "snapshots", how do you even get to the next snapshot without something beyond just the snapshots? Without the fluidity of the snapshots? That's what I get from it. Thanks!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:54:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
thank you
whorewithaheart_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you ever listen to Athenes talks on consciousness or read Jung?
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. I "kind of" know some of Jung's work, but I can't say I know it. I do not know who's Athenes. Is it interesting?
TheBuddha777 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well said
ClutchAirball · 25 points · Posted at 01:43:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s never weirded me out, but my whole life I always just... assumed? Accepted? ... that I everything I do is determined by biological/chemical interactions in my brain and that’s just the way it is.
When I first heard of the concept of free will, my reaction was “well no duh of course we don’t have free will”.
PuroPincheGains · 28 points · Posted at 02:22:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd argue that rehabilitated addicts are a good example of free will. Despite very strong chemical signals telling them to do one thing, they do another and have to constantly struggle against that for years.
selim_challie · 15 points · Posted at 02:54:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right but is your brain basing its next move on what is essentially running through all your past experiences and ordering you to do that? Or do you have free will?
Grantelkade · 2 points · Posted at 17:19:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah like you're just the running system of processing and revaluation of new and old data that comes in through your senses.
DoctorStrang3 · 9 points · Posted at 03:38:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
While this may seem astonishing, it does not mean that you should jump to a metaphysical explanation. This is akin to the "god of the gaps" fallacy.
It is more likely another series of chemical reactions emphasizing an awareness that enduring this suffering may ultimately lead to survival, happiness, etc. A more dramatic example of this would be like if your arm was stuck and you had to cut it off to escape starvation/dehydration. Thing is, there will never be an answer because the contradictory circuitry almost certainly varies from person to person.
Hamburger-Queefs · 11 points · Posted at 02:55:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'd argue against that. Those rehabilitated addicts' brains are trained to associate drugs with bad outcomes. There isn't any real conscious decision making here, only conscious justification of those decisions, and I'd even say that the justification is a primitive biological mechanism.
tyrmidden · 3 points · Posted at 02:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is an excellent point. Although one might argue that there's a different chemical reaction going on in their own brains, namely their recollections of the worst parts of their addictions, which motivate their decision to stay clean. The problem is drawing the line between what's just chemical reactions and what is conscious action.
suprisekillvanish · 3 points · Posted at 03:09:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe the brain produced chemicals stronger than addiction when it realised it gone die if you keep doin dis. Every decision is just whatever gives you the most pleasure. Sadly when your pain constantly weighs your pleasure suicide seeems like a better option, factor in frequency/time/hope. Even sharing is a selfish act ya know? Selfish in a good way?
Kissaki0 · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But making a decision is not proof of free will.
It may just be a consequence of their state and history and the free choice is an illusion that's a helpful trait for consciousness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
To argue against free will – addicts are stuck in a behavioral chain of immediate gratification, then regretting their actions, then because of that, escaping by using. It can’t be free will.
The addictive nature of the stimulus and the punishment that is received from society are what is in control (aka the environment not the person themselves). This is why we should always look outside of blame and from a place of understanding.
Instead of victim blaming the individual, we can look at as, damn, there’s something wrong with the system.
edit – deleted “drugs”. Can refer to any addictive stimulus.
SuperMagic42 · 3 points · Posted at 03:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The question is, why does our brain do that? If you say our cells, why do our cells do what they do? The answer could be the parts the cell is made up of. Why do they do what they do? Does it happen on it's own? And what part is the difference between alive and not living?
Kissaki0 · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can think of it as intertwined systems.
Start a fire and it will burn. It is a cascade of increasing temperature, gasification, transformation of gas into different molecules into a lower energy state, freeing energy as heat which keeps it going.
If you ask why it does that there are very practical reasons. You can explain it. But at the same time there is no ulterior motive or consciousness necessary within this system for it to happen.
Life is insanely more complex though. And it's super interesting how reproduction and natural selection lead to insanely complex and intertwined life systems like ourselves.
We are not just a single living being. Every cell is a combination of once was two things. We are a host to many bacteria. And we depend on many of them. We depend on our gut bacteria to transform food into material we - as in other transport cells - can transport throughout the body. We depend on cell corporation to become and act as designed.
We are an ecosystem. A host.
We as a consciousness sit on top of an automated system that just works through great design through a long history of mutation and selection.
So back to your questions. Why does our brain do what it does? Because that's what it is. That's how it is layed out and constructed. Same for cells and all the other systems and what they are made of.
The reason we came to these is natural selection. Because if you have an inferior or lacking system the chances of that trait dying out is higher.
thecrazygray · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it breathes It’s alive
SuperMagic42 · 0 points · Posted at 04:03:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So cells aren't alive?
SuperMagic42 · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The question is, why does our brain do that? If you say our cells, why do our cells do what they do? The answer could be the parts the cell is made up of. Why do they do what they do? Does it happen on it's own? And what part is the difference between alive and not living?
Kissaki0 · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You accidentally posted this twice
BalrogPoop · 4 points · Posted at 03:43:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are not your thoughts, you are to some extent what you fell or think about your thoughts.
On a deep level, anyone can randomly think "hmm, I could drive emy car off this cliff/murder this person/eat a baby"
But it's how you think about that random thought and what you feel in response to it that defines your personality. If you feel disgust or aversion at any of those thoughts even though you feel them. Your fine.
A paychopath would not feel aversion to them, and would be able to go down the rabbithole of entertaining and nurturing those thoughts
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 10:43:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But our feelings are another type of thought. And also involuntary.
JIvanCR · 4 points · Posted at 05:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a Psychologist I can assure you that every single person have had intrusive thoughts. There is a whole theory for this, is called "Cognitive Theraphy", of Albert Ellis (a very important Psychologist) who said that humans are biologically 80% irrationals, could you believe it? This is the reason why lots of people think they don't have control of their thoughts, and also explains why is eassier to have bad thoughts, than good thoughts. Good thoughts have more cost of energy, because you have to induce them. Intrusive thoughts just come naturally and eassier (wich is totally unfair, I know...) but fortunately this man proved in his theory that 1) it's possible to change bad thoughts, and 2)Everybody is able to do it, of course, for some people would be harder than others. What I'm trying to say is that is very common to have this type of thoughts, and is important to say that thoughts are also images in mind (this is other form to have thoughts, and this ones are stronger than typical thoughts, because is eassier to have an image of you facing some scenario, than think "it would be horrible to be fired").
In conclusion, thoughts still being studied, and they are super weird.
Search for "Cognitive Restructuring" just to know more about the process to change thoughts. 👍🏻
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 02:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no scientific evidence for free will. The thoughts you have are simply neurons getting stimulated with electricity. That electricity is just flowing through you without you doing anything to make it move in any direction.
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Free will is not a falsifiable concept. You can't prove that the things I decided I decided, or didn't decide them. When I tell you I decide A instead of B, you will say that I decide A instead of B because my previous state of an emergent neuron net compelled me inexorably to decide A. You can't prove that's what happened, but you won't believe me anyway that I decided it.
It's an obnoxiously popular concept, but if you take it deep enough you are even left with the very absurd notion that there is no I. You destroy not just free will, but also ethics and morality, but not also that but even science and the search for truth, as you can never be sure that you are really understanding or expressing the truth of something or you're just outputting an inexorable state that makes you feel/think or say something as if it were true, independent of the actual truth of the matter, and you can't even decide to search for truth or be sure of it. There's plenty of holes, but if you think there's no metaphysical ground for the self and we're just an organic computer, then how can you logically explain the center of all human-related things: consciousness and a self that persists throughout the states of the matter?
Pharmacosmology · 5 points · Posted at 03:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love questioning the most basic assumptions of philosophy as much as the next guy, but I am confused by your last question. Maybe it would help if you defined what you meant by states of matter? Human conciousness is certainly not proven to persist through all states.
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is. If we are made purely by matter, then our "self" is just the state of the particular arrangement of our physical selves(our atoms, or whatever particular element) down to the atom and up to the neural net, as they're all forms of matter. Matter organized in a particular fashion. That is, essentially, the naturalist/materialist claim. All is matter. We are also matter. We are just matter that happens to be organized in a particular fashion, in opposition to, say a rock, or a chimp, or more interestingly, another human.
The difference between me and you, the naturalist claims, is that you and I are organized in a slightly different manner. My "consciousness", which is really the emergent property of my particular neural net(the state of each of my neurons and their organization) is different than yours because even though we both have brains and neurons, they are organized differently in your brain than in mine, and that's what gives rise to two distinct consciousness.
All good so far, but the problem arises when we realize that no brain state is the same. The brain state you had prior to reading this is different than the state you are having right now. And right now. And right now. And so on and on, between each unit of time. However, there haven't been distinct consciousness each unit of time(infinite?), rather, it has been "you", the same consciousness persisting through the couple of seconds it has taken you to read this. I haven't been talking to an infinite number of yous, I have been talking to a single you that has persisted in time, even though its brain/physical states haven't, THEY have changed.
Pharmacosmology · 1 points · Posted at 07:43:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for clarifying. I guess I am just not convinced.
First, I don't see anything impossible about there being infinite consciousness. I wouldn't pick that as my preferred theory, but I see no logic convincing me that it is obvious there are not.
Setting that aside, your argument still does not exclude the biological computer idea. Even though the concept of "self" exists across time, that, in and of itself, does not have to be extraordinary. It could mean that our biological computer uses its memory of past states as an integral part of how we define self. Continuity in time is observable in other phenomena, what makes our processes special?
It is late here so I will stop before I become too tangential with my ramblings.
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 13:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your direct experience is not. This, I think, is a highly dishonest position. I, in no way, shape or form, believe you actually believe this or give it any serious thought. You may say you accept the idea because of intellectual honesty, yet, in all of your actions you portray as if you were an actual you, and there weren't infinite distinct you's. When you talk about your mom, I don't think for a moment that you actually believe there have been different distinct 'moms' of yours and you have loved each of them, or that the rapist is innocent because he claims it was a different person who committed the crime, not 'him'. On and on.
This is the interesting part. If there is a self that exists across time, then we are NOT biological computers. It is, in fact, impossible, logically speaking. What do you think about my argument? I've been explaining it in many places and I have found no refutation:
For there to be memory, one needs at least different steps: You need the integration of the 'now'(the different aspects of the now), the perception of the new data(the aspect to record), (optional step: the encryption of the new data to store), the storage of the new data. For the next memories you also need to add a fourth step: the retrieval of the stored data. All of these steps are units in time. They represent change, and that's how time is currently defined: The measurement of change. So you need at least(and I'm being unrealistic, as not any of those steps would you expect to take JUST one unit of time) the permanence of the self across 4 different units of time, in order for it to be a continual self that permeates across the time.
I can see your objection: But we observe continuity in time in other phenomena. Like computers, I suppose you would say. The difference is my understanding of 'existence' vs 'essence'. This is kind of hard to explain in english because of a limitation of language. You have no easy linguistic separation between those concepts, as you use 'to be' for both of them. In my native language(spanish), it is clear: We use 'ser' y 'estar'. 'Ser' meaning being, meaning essence(same root), and 'estar' to connote existing. A human 'being' is a 'being', while a computer has existence. The computer has no essence, has no being, it merely exists. There is no continuation of 'being' for the computer, the computer's existence can be explained in such a way without any issue. It is us who try to give it shape according to our needs. The computer's memory is a matter of electrical states changing all the time. It is not a storage, it is the mimicry of a storage. We see it as a storage because WE have active memories, the computer is changing all the time and its information-state IS being different across the board ALL the time. My computer is different in time A than in time B, even though the difference is so small I do not care about it; yet it has no being in any of such times. In a way, we do have that too, the difference is that our 'being' beyond our existence is obvious. We do not only exist(which we do), and not only do our brains exist(which they do), but we have a 'being', a metaphysical center revolving around us. The computer has no such center, just as the Chicago Bears has no 'being', it has existence. You can modify all of its rooster and coaches, and you still call it the Chicago Bears, because there IS no Chicago Bears, there only exists something you are calling Chicago Bears. I hope this wasn't too dense. I promise I'm not rambling.
Pharmacosmology · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand what you are saying, but I do not believe we have enough data to conclude that we are not biological computers. It is possible that any computer that is sufficiently complex, biological or otherwise, could integrate different states over time and percieve a self. After all, perception of reality is all we know. In fact the Heisenberg uncertainty principal suggests that because of perception alone, there are certain things about reality that we are unable to know.
I look to the animal kingdom and see a wide spectrum of consciousness across the evolutionary tree. Starfish barely have a nervous system, and only react to stimuli in the most rudimentary fashion. They almost certainly have no concept of self. Other primates have demonstrable self identity, and can process language and other complex social interactions. I am not discounting the possibility of the introduction of the metaphysical self at some point along the progression, but I also am not convinced it is inevitable.
Contrary to your assertion, I have given this position thought. Personally I don't believe the ethical or moral implications of such a theory are too burdensome. As stated earlier, perception of reality is everything. It matters little to me if my mother is singular or infinite, or if I am biological or metaphysical. Regardless I behave as if she is important because that is the reality I know.
I am not saying you are wrong. I am saying that we cannot prove your assertion with how either of us feel about ourselves.
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have plenty of data to conclude that, in various levels. Our own society cannot function if we're biological computers. And not only that, we have very little evidence to even think we are biological computers. It is just a dogma by a particular mindset. I doubt you truly believe we are biological computers; sure, you may say so in an internet conversation, but you go in your daily life and contradicting such a notion at every moment.
A computer that integrates different states over time would, as I say, logically to have a center, a self, that is integrated through various units of time. That is a logical requirement. Another unavoidable fact is that our brains do NOT have a permanence across time. Unless you LOGICALLY solve this logical contradiction(the permanence of an impermanent agent) through a naturalist explanation you cannot honestly hold this idea(intellectually this as). Make no mistake, this is a very fatal flaw to naturalism.
If an animal has consciousness(not just the appearance of consciousness, or complex reaction to stimuli) then it has a metaphysical ground for its being. I do not discard that animals have that. I do not know. Maybe they are biological computers, lacking 'being' and just being a complex form of existence. There's no surefire way to know this through analytical means. Add more number of complex reaction to stimuli, and you haven't arrived at consciousness. Take the hypothetical supercomputer that reacts, speaks, "thinks", has sensors all around. It still has no 'being', it just has an increase in the quantity of its complexity, not in its quality. Nowhere by adding more numbers of stimuli and analytical capacity do you get consciousness.
But your perception of reality is not restricted to your sensory input. Your perception is much more complex. Sure, you could know A is A, but given that A mimicks B perceive that A is B and so have no cognitive dissonance in that contradiction. Yet, that doesn't mean it's not a contradiction, and I wonder if you can really fool yourself in such a way. I think that you believe B is B because it is. Your mom is your mom, not because you'd be fooling yourself she is, but because you actually know she is.
But are you meaning the theory that there can be permanence of self with naturalism? That's a logical contradiction, as I've tried to show. If you, on the other hand, mean that there are no heavy implications of the lack of self within society(that is, it is irrelevant if we are 'beings' instead of existent objects), then I am at loss of words. I find it self-evidently disastrous to our ethical system.
I think I made a deductive argument. I made the claim that a) to 'be' we need permanence across time, b) we are 'beings', c)natural states are impermanent, they are never the same across units of time, and therefore concluded that naturalism is not sufficient to explain 'being'. I believe that it's a logically valid argument, and for you to dismiss it you would to reject any of my points, a),b) or c), yet I think they're all incontrovertible. I would say that if you want to be intellectually honest you need to show which of my premises is weak, or else, be (intellectually) forced to admit the logical unavoidability of the conclusion.
Pharmacosmology · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not trying to disallow your theory. I am only pointing out that you are a biased observer of yourslef. And we do have evidence that the act of observation can directly influence or alter results. Just because you observe yourself as continuous though time does not make it so. You are a biased observer. Therefore point b is not a given. If so, then other theories must be considered.
sismetic · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except it's not an observation, it's an experience. I am not just observing myself, I'm experiencing things. My own bias is not just a bias, it's an experience I'm having. My own consciousness is not an observation, it's a direct experience. It's a fact. If that's not a fact, then nothing is a fact. However, it's a fact not because I'm judging it, it is the very fact that I judge things that I am conscious. To reject the premise that I'm a 'being', I have even to presume things that are built on that very notion, so it's a logical error, but more than that, it's an incoherent notion even.
I do observe you being a 'being'. That's the difference: You are external and I observe you. I am internal and so directly experience things. I can, indeed, do observe things about my body, my own thoughts, etc..., but I do not observe my own fluid consciousness, I experience it, and as such it is even beyond question. It is incoherent to question it.
tututitlookslikerain · 1 points · Posted at 04:38:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is if you believe in the multiverse.
As in, each action you take creates different possible universes where you made a different choice.
The simple fact that there are possible alternative choices (infinite) means that free will is a thing.
ProphecyRat2 · 0 points · Posted at 03:49:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The distinction between right and wrong and the ability to choose.
In neurology consciousness is purely a synapse of neurons across our body, many of which are found in the stomach and heart, not just in the brain.
Neuropsychology is what deals with the “self”.
The “Think their for I am part.”
If slavery exist there is freewill.
Their “will” over my “will.”
Bad vs Good, and it is subjective to who thinks they are right, and it is objective that the one who controls the others space and time has the stronger will.
The conscience part is when the “controllers” sees the physical discomfort their actions have caused and continue to do so anyway, knowing their actions will bring another suffering.
Freewill is to know that your choice will cause suffering to another, and to do so anyways.
We will then need to justify why we cause suffering, either out of necessity or malice, or ignorance, because you can believe to cause suffering, and also believe that that is just how things are, and all that was, was a thought process that other sentient creature do not think about because they can not, but we can, which also means we have no other choice but to think so, unless our environment is as much part of our conciseness as anything else.
We think what we remember and what we evolved to think to survive, and that is all determined by environment, and our environment has changed a lot in the last 12,00 years, and for our genes, a lot since the primordial soup.
At any rate, you can not expect to know consciousness by studying neurons, any more could you known color by studying the electromagnetic spectrum.
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DoctorStrang3 · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually an argument from ignorance--just because there is no evidence against free will does not justify it as a plausible explanation. It is just as likely that there is a puppeteer controlling our every perception or thought. And that puppeteer is a unicorn. As ridiculous as that sounds, you can never prove that wrong. However, there IS evidence demonstrating the creation of what we call "consciousness" on a cellular level.
mmoore5325 · 4 points · Posted at 04:14:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the evidence of consciousness on a cellular level, out of curiosity?
DoctorStrang3 · 2 points · Posted at 05:24:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great question. I'll preface by saying I do not want to pick any arguments, I genuinely enjoy this type of back and forth discussion (determinism vs. free will). I think it's a learning opportunity for all of use, there are a lot of great responses for both sides in here!
So, obviously there is no perfect cellular map defining what the entirety of consciousness is. Further, the definition of consciousness varies person to person, and throughout regions and history, but typically it involves something along the lines of an awareness of the self and one's relationship to the environment. It also commonly involves arousal (level of alertness/attention) and content (cognition, affect, and more). An argument on determinism through the lens of neuroscience is worth an anthology of books so I will just try to talk about some basic examples.
My argument: that consciousness is a conglomeration of functions in the brain, each with extensive research defending a mechanism by which it works to produce a piece of cognition. If you could prove without a shadow of doubt what each mechanism is and how it works, then you would solve consciousness. However, that's not how science works. All we can do is continue to gather evidence and base our opinions on the evidence at hand, but always continue to question it.
I'll try to provide at least one solid piece of raw cellular evidence that helps partially explain at least on aspect of consciousness. Look at Dopamine. A neurotransmitter secreted by cells in the central nervous system. It's a crucial signal that comes from tow nuclei, the ventral tegmental area and the substantia nigra, which are part of the reticular activating system. Evidence supports that it works to promote alertness in general and wakefulness from sleep. The reticular activating system itself is the hub of what we call arousal. Lesion it or its connection to the brain via the thalamus, and you have a coma. It is responsible for waking you up out of sleep and keeping you awake and alert.
My favorite thing about Dopamine, though, is its role in behavior and decision making. In the basal ganglia, a group of nuclei throughout your brain, it is used as a way of learning behavior, and can be a huge predictor of how you will behave next. The circuits involved include the Direct (Go) Pathway, and the Indirect (No-go) pathway. There are more, but they're not in the scope of this idea. This basal ganglia receives dopaminergic input from the substantia nigra, and simultaneously receives information from your cortex which interprets the environment.
This whole system runs on Prediction Error (i.e. events were unexpectedly positive or negative compared to what you expected). This is thought to be the mechanism behind classical conditioning (Pavlov's dogs). The dogs are shown a light, then presented with food, then salivate. Over time, the dogs will salivate to the light before the food is even presented because it is what they expect now. In this scenario, on day 1, the dog initially sees a light and doesn't expect anything. It receiving food right after was a positive prediction error. This is interpreted by the cortex, sent to the basal ganglia, and activates the "Go" pathway, which sends a signal back to the cortex altering the dog's expectation with the light in a positive way (it will expect food). If after weeks, one day, the light goes off, the dog salivates, and the dog is NOT presented with food, this is a NEGATIVE prediction error (worse than expected). Now the no-go pathway is activated and relays back to the cortex not to expect food anymore (this happens over much more time and many more events).
There's a great study here that takes this further https://www.nature.com/articles/nn.3100
They used optogenetics to stimulate either the go or the no go pathway in a mouse whenever they want. What they did was they put a mouse in a bin, and when the mouse was in a specific area of the bin, they would activate the GO pathway. No other stimuli. Over time, the mouse learned to love that area and spent most of its time there. They did the same thing with the no-go pathway, and it caused a different mouse to AVOID that area.
All in all, the point I'm trying to make is that a lot of higher cortical functions truly are EXTREMELY complex, and deserving of decades of investigation, but considering this example of a clear model that factors in the world (among other things) can influence our behavior on a cellular level. Definitely the type of study to ponder about and imagine a human subject in. Would they CHOOSE the area in the bin? Who knows, but I would argue that they would often mimic the mouse.
Wow that was long. I do genuinely appreciate this type of discussion especially during these kinda times. I hope I didn't too grossly oversimplify such a cool concept in neuroscience along the way lol. Hope you are all safe!
Str8Faced000 · 3 points · Posted at 03:08:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Sam Harris. He’s a neurologist and a philosopher who gained social notoriety by doing professional debates against religious leaders. His “main focus” is consciousness and he has a lot of great stuff about free will.
Social_Justice_Ronin · 5 points · Posted at 02:17:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You want to get really weirded out.
Contemplated just exactly what "infinity" means.
TheBuddha777 · 4 points · Posted at 03:57:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The book Goedel, Escher, Bach discusses infinite sets. I remember it poses the question "Does the set of all sets contain itself?" in a philosophical context, which blew my mind when I read it years ago. I thought about it for weeks, filling a notebook with all my musings. I thought it explained why humans require a subconscious mind; if the mind were ever aware of all its contents at once, a new thought "object" would be created which would require a higher "self" to be aware of it, creating a hall of mirrors effect. In turn, God could not be "omniscient" in the traditional sense of knowing everything at once; God may have access to all knowledge, but there cannot be a being that consciously knows everything there is to know all at once, it's a logical fallacy.
I mean, I did a lot of drugs back then too, but that particular thought process has stayed with me through the years.
Flip5 · 2 points · Posted at 14:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laughed at the last part, pretty interesting stuff nonetheless, and worth thinking about. The relation to omniscience in particular is pretty neat
One of the first times I smoked, I became aware of the chain of related thoughts that make up a decision. It was like my brain started separating each step very slowly. Like: okay my throat is dry. Why? Must be thirsty. What to do? Probably do something about that. What? Get some water. How? Well, need to get off the couch and walk to the kitchen. Etc
Sounds dumb as hell but was interesting to experience, and appreciate all these things happening in an instant normally.
rpgs_player · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:07 on June 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever studied about nonduality? In that context, I don't think there's such thing as 'logical fallacy', since it assumes duality.
DMindisguise · 2 points · Posted at 02:52:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we have this inner dialogue in a non verbal kind of way, sort of like how we dream.
When you read how stupidly fast our brain does its synapses it makes sense that we process our thoughts infinitely faster than how we perceive the world, that is why thoughts just "pop up"
So there's probably way more than 1 of you, its just the deeper you that is doing all the thinking before the outer you can even react, its still you in my opinion.
dutchbag- · 2 points · Posted at 03:38:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Incessant thinking is something many people deal with, but it can be controlled. It’s a truly liberating feeling even if it is only fleeting at first.
WillisAurelius · 2 points · Posted at 03:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is similar to Many Worlds Theory within quantum mechanics
Assassin_Seal · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever watched "Parasyte-the maxim"? Don't know man, think you'll like it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:42:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea boy. Even read the original as well. Good stuff
paparat236 · 2 points · Posted at 04:00:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This hurt me time to get off reddit
Ryboflavinator · 2 points · Posted at 04:31:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My biggest one that is impossible to reconcile, how did I/me specifically, come to exist? Was it literally the lottery of that exact sperm and that exact egg? Could it have been no other combination ever. If so, more people need to be way fucking happier about being alive, myself included!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
we hit the lottery to even be here
11711510111411009710 · 3 points · Posted at 05:08:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Arabia. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.We privileged few, who won the lottery of birth against all odds, how dare we whine at our inevitable return to that prior state from which the vast majority have never stirred?"
WhiteWolf3117 · 3 points · Posted at 05:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like the sentiment, but I sort of think it’s a fallacy to assume that those who are unborn are likely exceed those who currently exist. Like we are inherently created by our circumstance and those people would likely be born in similar if not identical circumstances. I don’t believe that Newton was born great. He was great because he took the resources that he had, and used them to his potential. If not him, someone else would have.
Kissaki0 · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was a consequence of state and history. So in a way by pure chance but at the same time not "randomly".
It's not even just sperm and egg but everything that came before and what happened after.
It could have been many other thing theoretically but that's not what happened.
AlmightyKyuss · 2 points · Posted at 05:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, thoughts.
I meditate quite frequently. I am 28, thoughts really lead me into cycles of ADHD or sometimes even depression which I used to feel like there was no way out of it. Meditation has really helped me in this regard. Let me explain.
Meditation's ultimate goal is to quiet the mind with thoughts and being aware of what the mind is thinking of, while not being trapped by it. The mind is extremely good at it's subtle instantaneous thought patterns that we as a species have accepted our thoughts from our smallest steps to our death bed as the self.
There's nothing normal about language in the mind as far as I can tell in nature. Animals may do different mating calls or echo location communication but there's no complex and anything as deep as the human conscience. Our speech and identity is a skill of connecting with other people, which is practically survival in some aspects, but it's also a double-edged sword of psychological horrors.
Meditation is a skill that anyone can use, and anyone can actually feel free no matter what ideology they identify with. The techniques are universal, not conformed to whom one has faith or allegiance to. Personally, I enjoy Sam Harris's techniques he features on his App Waking Up. I'm not a shill or any kind of sales person - the App is free and anyone can use it.
I do hope someone reads this message and finds the same peace of mind that I have found. Thanks for listening
zalso · 2 points · Posted at 07:50:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read it has “do I even have free wifi” and it made me laugh a lot lol
Lowllow_ · 2 points · Posted at 07:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think about it, free will is an illusion. Our decisions are made even before the questions arise. Our genetic make up, our ancestral instincts, our memory of what happened to us in fourth grade, that is no longer a real memory, just a memory of the last time you thought about that memory... our momentum going into that moment, our motivation, our, lack of awareness to everything outside of our vision... those factors made the decision for us. Or not, im hungry
AngelusALetum · 2 points · Posted at 08:00:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had an existential crisis a few years back that I’m still working through. One day something clicked in my head, and I began to follow the train of thought. At that moment I had realized something may be... for lack of better word, off. I became confused by my own existence. I came to understand that up until this point I’d been doing something and practically overlooking my life, that’s how it formed in my head. I’m doing something and I have no idea what. And the thought that it’s me when it could’ve been anyone else, didn’t help matters. Why am I the one who’s doing it now? What does it mean for everyone else? What’s the purpose behind me being here while I could’ve been somewhere else existing there. What the actual fuck is going on? Why am I doing this and why is it here? When I die would I just vanish into non existence never to perceive again? Or will I get some answers then? The idea of making it to that point unable to wrap my head around the concept of not existing and for it to last an eternity paves the way for anxiety to kick in and I start to hyperventilate telling myself to calm down and just take a step back... now I need to go chill for a bit to calm down.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:50:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's insane. I remember reading that our conscious thoughts are only the tip of the iceberg. Everything beneath consists of unconscious thoughts, sensations, images, desires, etc- all of which leak into the conscious to influence our behaviors/decisions. It makes me wonder if my conscious self is really "me." Honestly mind-blowing.
guydudebuddypal · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe do some research into that and find an answer. You’d be surprised to know there are answers to those questions but you won’t find them by asking but by searching.
CaptainAries01 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The short is yes. You are just a highly advanced machine with a supercomputer (your brain) controlling it’s functions.
Leafstride · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the decisions you make are decided by the more primitive parts of your brain. The smart parts of your brain are just there to rationalize those decisions.
i-hate-reddit420 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch Devs
gonzit99 · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yooo that's so funny I realized this exact thing a few months ago. I think (except I don't really think anything) we're just like animals in that we act based on evolutionary instincts and previous experiences that lie in the unconscious part of our brain. To me, our consciousness might just be our experience of our predetermined thoughts and actions. So we may believe that we're thinking for ourselves when we're actually just experiencing our own brains making decisions for us. It's even crazier that your brain actually activates before you even make conscious thought to do anything
I used to think the idea that we we're living in a simulation was ridiculous but now idk
VballUser1990 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve had these thoughts ever since I was a kid. Humans really are more or less just pro-programmed biological creatures reacting to everything life throws at us and our programming doing its best to keep us alive lol.
AuronSky24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch “Devs” on Hulu... or maybe don’t because it’s basically your exact crisis brought to life.
I_love_pillows · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s just chemical reactions in the brain
Stegosaurusflex · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re not in control. Your brain is in control.
Somebodys · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you not your brain in an elaborate sack to maintain its functions?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I held a brain (actually a few different ones) in my hands one time. I’m contrast to what you would think, there seemed to be nothing spectacular about it. It’s just a pink mushy thing. I’m thinking where the fuck do all the thoughts come from lol.
omtopus · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You would love Zen Keys.
willthachimp · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thought (have heard it before aswell from other people) is that; things are happening to you, and you are also making things happen, neither and both at the same time sort of thing. You can’t really use English words well enough to describe the intricacies of reality.
Try for a second to “describe” or “define” what control even is. Do you ‘control’ something that ‘attracted’ you to itself, to be controlled in the first place?
This is a problem of the ego I think, the ego being the phenomenon that we think we are separate from the “outer” world, and that the outer world is doing stuff to us and vice versa.
In reality, every liquid solid and gaseous particle in our body and outside of our body are part of one universe. Things are happening to you and you are also controlling them at the same time.
jessicamoro · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read behavior -Robert sapolsky
mrmseeks · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This tripped me out.
dhdthjrjdjjd · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course free will is a useful illusion. We are biological machines running calculations but you should use the illusion of free will to try to push it to the next level. If someone can refute this (Buddhism kinda does) I’m all for reading it.
powerfulKRH · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here, my child, cometh with me and consume thine sacred mushroom. And all will be revealed.
And then you’ll forget what you learned immediately after
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All things are machines, TBH. I don't think anyone can even define "free will" except in terms of itself.
redsanguine · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch DEVS, it explores the concepts of free will vs determinism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go read "Thinking fast and slow" it does a great job of explaining all of this and how it works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch Westworld. I think you’d enjoy it.
josh_the_misanthrope · 1 points · Posted at 04:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've discovered determinism. Enjoy.
Th3CatOfDoom · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practice meditation.. It helps the thoughts that you can't control
zaprin24 · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We actually have no idea if we have free will, its entirely possible that we dont if our theories of physics are true.
Johnmau51003 · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meditation will shed some light on this
ElDopo56 · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh Jesus, I should not have read that while high AF
Gagan_Karna · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could have been a WestWorld episode. That show is crazy and constantly makes me question about humanity, Free will, choices etc.
aka_deddy · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do not have control over what you think, but you do control on how you act.
Ignore intrusive thoughts and understand them as synaptic noise, and focus on choosing your actions.
Kissaki0 · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But is the decision I am making not inevitable because of my state of mind and history? No matter what reasons I find I found them of course because I inevitably would. No matter which choice I make I can't 'choose' the other one because then that's the one I chose.
aka_deddy · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:03 on April 24, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. Read up on quantum mechanics. Determinism is a disproven theory.
Kissaki0 · 1 points · Posted at 09:10:37 on April 24, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jumping from quantum mechanics to conscience is quite the leap though. We have no idea how they are linked. They may be independent systems. Quantum mechanisms may just be small nudges within a deterministic system on the bigger scale. Given how well deterministic models have served us so far it’s pretty obvious that you can’t just dismiss them just because you found something not currently explainable deterministically on the smallest sub-particle scale.
Astandsforataxia69 · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You aren't "just" a system like that but past experiences do build your future self
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"A Man can do what he wants, but not want what he wants." [Schopenhauer]
abby_cello · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the short story Exhalation by Ted Chiang! It's part of a book of short stories by the same name. It goes into exactly these ideas.
Odins3 · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you considered that given enough time, basic primal instincts to survive and reproduce and spread yourself like a virus is exactly just that; basic primal instincts. You're just a little more proficient than a virus.
Given enough time, evolution comes up with some bizarre, nearly unfathomable errors, which given a few billion years creates us. Yet, strip yourself of all the niceties humanity has created and you fall back to those basic primal instincts.
What are the biggest concerns of today? Surviving and spreading like a virus. Next voyage, Mars perhaps?
BongRipsMcGee420 · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every particle in the universe has already been set in motion, it's all just reactions now. Radiolab did an interesting piece (pretty sure it's this one) where they talk about people with amnesia who give like verbatim responses every time they come to. Same jokes, same facial expressions... We are just moist fleshy computers following a trajectory ultimately set in motion in the big bang. Sure, it sucks to not believe in free will, but at least there's an illusion of free will AND it's kinda beautiful that some random shit forever ago can create art and music and who knows what.
burmy1 · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to check out what Sam Harris says on free will. Very interesting, factually based stuff. His meditation app too speaks to a lot of what you're realizing.
The_King_C · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch Devs on Hulu
RogueModron · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good thoughts. True, too.
Thoughts are a black box, as are motivations and decisions. I am firmly convinced that there is no free will (though we do have the illusion or "feeling" of free will), and have yet to encounter evidence or an argument to the contrary that has strongly given me pause.
toodamnmad · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s real fucked up. I assure you that you are not alone in having those thoughts. Sometimes I try to think as the flip side of that is that we humans are fucking miracles, and so is everything we do. So let’s try to respect that and make those things that we do - what we put into the world - worthy.
MoistTickle · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh boy do I understand. I've been going through some shit and almost exclusively think in an existential mindset which only builds upon itself in more existentialism and jfc is it exhausting
PureGoldX58 · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know if you find philosophy interesting but this is a current topic of heated discussion. Free Will vs. Determinism. It gets real when you find people who genuinely believe that we have no free will.
Somebodys · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Your brain freaked out because it did not know how itself worked.
Also, determinism is just a stupid philosophy. If we have no control over are actions and everything is predetermined, we would obviously have no choice in anything we do. I murder your family and all of your loved ones? I have no freewill, therefore it could not be my fault. For humanity to exist and society to function necessitates that free will exists.
dareealmvp · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to think that you have control over only some thoughts. Maybe 10% of them. The rest 90% follow from that 10% based on your genetics, your memories, the foods you eat, the stimuli you get from your current surroundings etc. A rough comparison could be a train-there are only a few junctions in the whole track where you make your decisions and choices; the remaining track between any two junctions is just an inevitable decision of that choice.
Perhaps if an advanced alien species analyzed the human brain, they would see that there's 10% randomness in thoughts, and the rest 90% are completely predictable based on that human's genetics, the stimuli it receives, the food it eats etc.
But that makes me question-is randomness in thoughts the same as having free will? It feels good and a hopeful situation if we think we have free will, and it also feels good and a hopeful situation if we think we have randomness in our thoughts. So it seems likely that they might be the same thing, because presuming their existence in us has the same effect on our feelings. But I really have never understood what free will even means.
Shadowman-The-Ghost · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So...please calm down, there is no existential thought crisis, only weaponized language. You have a clear and compelling cognitive decision to make, to wit, do you control your thoughts...or...do they control you? Whether one is acutely aware of it, or not, every person makes their own choice. The wisest choice is guided by mindful consciousness.
HungryHornyHigh · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But sometimes you can control it, right? But it's kind of exhausting and then I forget to control them and before I know it I'm on autopilot lol
Passi1612 · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You dont have free will. Free will is impossible in the universe we live in. It doesnt really change anything though, since you still have the illusiona of free wil.
JeSuisOmbre · 1 points · Posted at 06:34:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine you understood everything in the universe. Imagine you could predict every single that would happen. Nothing is unknown.
Apply this to a person. Every atom in their brain is predictable. Every decision they make is predicted by the atoms in their brain. That person is entirely predictable. Under this view free will cannot exist. He is what his atoms are.
I agree with this argument. It fucks with me sometimes.
ArthurMorgan_dies · 1 points · Posted at 06:36:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A great mindfulness teacher told me that when you learn to meditate correctly you are just stepping back and "monitoring" your own mind. When you get that figured out it helps you push thoughts away.
I found the concept of monitoring my own thoughts to be really fascinating. It makes me have faith in the human soul.
HeftyJohnson1982 · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scientists actually say the evidence supports this idea - (at this point in time) that were in a simulation.
aidenhall · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of the most freeing realizations you can have. Welcome to Zen.
FiftyBabies1 · 1 points · Posted at 07:04:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/8kX62n6yNXA
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aw man, I feel exactly the same.
And once you go research that subject,youll notice soon enough; that stuff goes deep.
Mindfulness training helpt me a lot too.
CritzD · 1 points · Posted at 07:41:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember, you are just a brain piloting a meat mechsuit.
Dingusaurus__Rex · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
of course you don't control your thoughts. Ask yourself, how would that even work? You are not responsible for your thoughts and you need not be emotionally perturbed by them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it happens, think of something else. That's what's scratched on the wall in my cell.
ErohaTamaki · 1181 points · Posted at 17:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people don't have an internal dialogue but think through visualising words (there are also probably other ways too, I haven't researched it much), and some people can't visualise stuff (I can't visualise stuff)
The lack of visualization is called aphantasia
cygnisinteranates · 182 points · Posted at 17:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even that in itself is amazing, all the different ways people think and process things, I just can't wrap my head around it 🤔
ErohaTamaki · 133 points · Posted at 17:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I can't wrap my head around how not everyone has aphantasia (like when people count sheep they actually see sheep wtf)
garlicnaught · 142 points · Posted at 20:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't realize that other people could actually see real images in their mind until very recently. I almost feel cheated
FatPam007 · 138 points · Posted at 20:50:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not like you visualize it like a picture. The big image comes to your mind, but actually it's not detailed like in real life. It's just like a blurry version. It doesn't matter how well you wanna visualize something, it will never be like a HD picture.
[deleted] · 117 points · Posted at 00:33:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it varies for different people; I can see things very clearly, almost like a photograph (although it's still in my mind's eye, not projected onto what I'm actually seeing like a hallucination)
elementscaffeine2 · 44 points · Posted at 00:53:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is so crazy to me. Can you actually "observe" it in your mind like as clear as you would look at something with your eyes?
Say someone asked you to imagine a person that you know well. Does an image of them slowly develop in your head or are you able to visualize them instantly super clear?
pmia241 · 72 points · Posted at 01:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize them instantly, but don't see specific details very well.
ErodedPlasma · 18 points · Posted at 02:32:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a little confused, I’m not sure which I have. I definitely have a strong internal monologue but I have imagines coming into my head too, they aren’t crisp HD images but I definitely see them as I narrate my thoughts
ufo21 · 5 points · Posted at 02:51:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m exactly the same!! Constantly narrated but visuals as well. After reading this thread and reflecting on the clarity of my own mental images, they aren’t that clear but at times.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, same here. Although I’m a photographer, so that explains the visual images. Even my poetry was visual too.
kittenkowski · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can see details - like it's there in real life. Faces most of the time are very detailed unless I haven't seen the person in a long time.
Smoke731mcb · 1 points · Posted at 09:40:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have internal monologue and can visualize insanely clear
sterexx · 1 points · Posted at 11:25:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be possible for you to sharpen them with practice. I spent a few weeks trying to better visualize things when falling asleep. Brain is already going to do some of those just-before-sleep hallucinations so it’s about paying attention and being deliberate with what you’re seeing when you’re able to. It appeared to work as practice because it definitely made it easier for me to conjure up images on demand whenever, with more detail than before.
Some drugs have what they call closed-eye visuals and it’s like the ability to visualize has been mega-strengthened for the duration. Full bright color scenes in motion.
TheManWhoBothers · 25 points · Posted at 01:07:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people work to train this skill. Some can achieve it through meditation. That's how I try. Most of the time I get blurry images but over time I have been able to produce clearer images. I too felt cheated out of this ability but it is something one can work on. Perhaps I will never have instantaneous clear images but it has improved for me over time and that I am grateful of.
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watercolortitties · 3 points · Posted at 02:58:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is me to a scary degree. SEVERE ADHD but when I get engrossed in a book I’m in a visual wonderland.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My visual skills also improve when I'm tired or later in the day. Can it possibly be due to the chemicals that ate released? The same ones that are released when you dream?
SlapTheBap · 17 points · Posted at 01:32:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's like a muscle. You exercise it. We're told this all the time as kids (or at least in my experience) but as adults you don't hear people talking about how you need to practice your imagination as often. I guess it's possible in the modern age where we have so much visual media more and more people won't be naturally pushed to develop it. Or not! I don't know.
Nbaysingar · 3 points · Posted at 05:54:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have always been a big day dreamer so it has sort of just come naturally for me. When I was in middle school and high school, I used to listen to music and imagine scenes with characters that sort of followed the vibe of the music and over the years I have pieced things together in my head to create a loose framework for a story. It's nothing concrete of course. It's more "nebulous" I guess.
I have considered for a long time now about learning to draw in order to try and fully realize it as something like a comic.
amanda_burns_red · 4 points · Posted at 02:40:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you give more detail about an attempt to build this skill through meditation? Where to even begin? I know nothing of meditation other than the stereo-typical pose seen in media.
beanshadow · 3 points · Posted at 03:00:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to visualize a trefoil knot (google) as effectively as you can visualize a square. Be able to spin it in your head as an end goal.
TheManWhoBothers · 3 points · Posted at 03:15:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Second this. I try a to focus on nothing other than a square, then rotating it to a cube. Do that for a while then work up to more things
amanda_burns_red · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about other thought and worries and..?
I mean, I have really awful OCD, and one of the ways it presents with me is with a pretty consistent barrage of obsessive, repetitive, and (extremely) intrusive thoughts.
That, and movements. I act out certain motions constantly (obsessively) 99.9% of the time. Very difficult to explain to someone unfamiliar with this stuff.
I constantly seek out external stimuli that stands a chance at being louder/more distracting than my thoughts.
I really want to try something new because nothing has ever worked long-term, and even most short-term solutions are unhealthy.
When I think of meditation, I assume that you are still and quite with your eyes closed, focusing on something specific. But.. I don't really know any techniques to get to that point where you can focus on one thing (willingly). Idk if that makes sense or not.
karma_cloud · 3 points · Posted at 05:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to but into your guys thread but i loved your description of what you experience! I have very bad anxiety and a lot of your experiences seem to overlap with mine. You were able to put words to so many things I relate to
That said, I do meditate semi frequently, and used to have a much more regular practice. I’ve since found I can access a stimulus-free headspace (controlled and quiet thoughts) much more easily, and I have less trains of thought running at the same time on a regular basis.
What works for me is trying to keep my eyes still, by focusing on one imaginary point in my mind. Train my eyes toward it and then start to build it and create it by envisioning it. Think verbally of what it looks like and then build it. It helps w the visualization the thread was talking about earlier, and helps focus you on something so things can get a little quieter.
Idk how much of that made sense, but I think it’s cool you’re looking into meditation. It works for so many people and I hope you find benefit from a practice too!
amanda_burns_red · 2 points · Posted at 15:17:58 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's definitely worth a try, and yeah I do understand what you're saying. Thanks!
ditirocks · 2 points · Posted at 04:52:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look into focused-attention meditation. It takes practice and consistent, conscious effort to develop your mind’s eye.
TheManWhoBothers · 2 points · Posted at 13:38:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand. For me it gets like that as well. I found a few guides on the topic way back and just started practicing. Try doing one small thing just briefly once a day. Eventually you will get better at it. That doesn't even need to be visualization, perhaps just simply trying to "silence" everything you are thinking about for maybe a second on the first try, 5 seconds next and so forth. Then start bringing in visualization.
amanda_burns_red · 1 points · Posted at 15:09:57 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds possible. Thanks.
Macubex123 · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can see crystal clear images when I am recalling scenes from movies but not when I’m thinking of completely new things it’s weird
PeonyLion · 1 points · Posted at 10:28:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To piggyback off this meditation comment....
So, for people that are aphantasic, if you do a guided meditation that tells you to imagine a brook or a tall tree...etc, what goes on in your mind? What do you “see” ?
The mind is truly fascinating.
Cassper88 · 12 points · Posted at 01:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long tangent.
Not op but I visualise instantly and can be transported there, if I switch off and day dream or even better if I am dreaming it is extremely vivid down to the tiniest of details and I have learned to lucid dream as I can't tell if I'm day dreaming or not until I snap out of it, so I had to create tell tale signs, most recognisable is I don't feel the wind, I can sometimes feel pain but even that you can tell isn't real. Best one is for me to change the dream so I am in the air falling, the falling feeling let's me know I'm dreaming. Its how I learned to control nightmares.
I think a lot of it has to do with dissociation and a abusive home where I would enter my mind or play computer games to escape. I can create an entire world, remember and create faces as well as places. I remember my dreams and can build on what I have dreampt I also have vocalisation so I hear my own thoughts as well. Like a voice.
Its helped me in the real world as I have a crazy imagination and helps me make people laugh
IdreamofFiji · 10 points · Posted at 01:10:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. (not the person you asked, just chiming in bc this is extremely interesting)
It's like recalling a memory. What do you see when you recall a vivid memory?
oldfashioncunt · 14 points · Posted at 01:55:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i have PTSD so i can chime in a little here-
it’s like you’re there... you ever watch that’s so raven? it’s like a time warp- a movie theatre you can & can’t have control of. Every sense- feel, taste, sound, sight immersed in whatever it is.
can be cool & can be scary 👻
sufibufi · 12 points · Posted at 01:33:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe I'm not doing it right or just can't explain it right. But when I think of things I don't really get a picture. I know the details of them and describe them like that. Like one of my favorite sweatshirts I don't think about it and see it. I think of it and know that it's black and has white decals on it. My cat is grey with a white underbelly and he's a little fat and fluffy. One of my friends I know he has a narrow face, blonde hair that's combed over, skinny build, and wears glasses. But if I try and paint a picture I don't really get one I just think of the details about him.
IdreamofFiji · 7 points · Posted at 01:46:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit, this is a trip. To think we are both humans and perceive reality in stark contrast. Someone throw me a googlable term so I can follow up.
sufibufi · 5 points · Posted at 01:57:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Haha yeah, it always blows my mind when I try and explain how I see it. The best way to describe it since this is very relatable to everybody. You know when you get into a heated argument and it ends but you think of things you should have said instead? Some people might imagine a full picture of how the conversation would have went and can see yourself and the other person standing, sitting, or maybe laying down doing whatever in whatever environment talking. I on the other hand, would just be thinking of just the dialog of what I would have said and then think about their response. I don't see pictures being played back I just "see" (or play back) the dialog like a tape recorder.
Edit: adding clarity since it can be hard to understand since this concept is mind blowing to some people.
amanda_burns_red · 3 points · Posted at 02:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am in the same boat as you as far as not visualizing, but I really don't have any better way to describe it.
Like.. You don't see invented or recalled images, you just know the attributes/characteristics/details that you have on file for whatever you're thinking of.
I wonder if that is why I have always sort of ascribed a "personality" to so many things? It's like, when you can just pick up on someone's vibes, only that happens for me with objects, thoughts, words, numbers, sceneries, situations, different parts of memories and places, and whatever.
sufibufi · 3 points · Posted at 03:16:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, exactly that! Glad I'm not the only one here like this.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you associate anything with numbers?
amanda_burns_red · 2 points · Posted at 15:27:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely. Sometimes a "color", though it isn't anything I can put into words. And most numbers have personalities and relationships of some sort with each other.
Poopiepants29 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you consider yourself a good communicator, or better at verbalizing things or telling stories? I ask because I am terrible at verbalizing or trying to connect or tell a story, however I have always been excellent at visualizing everything. I wonder if this is part of the difference in that part of people's personalities..
sufibufi · 2 points · Posted at 05:41:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. I'm pretty terrible at explaining things when trying to teach if I don't have a visual example. I also usually jumble up my stories as well. But that's because my brain thinks faster than I can speak. I think it's a case by case thing.
Poopiepants29 · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha. I guess so. The brain thinking faster part I can relate to. It's racing around too much for me trying to figure out the right word and structure for every single sentence, almost. Especially when trying to retell a story or experience.
ItsMcLaren · 6 points · Posted at 01:18:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, for me, it’s like holographic image in a movie or a video game. I can get a fairly accurate description of a few friends, but it’s not like a picture in 4K. It also depends on the person. Best friends? I can imagine from what they’re wearing, hairstyle, etc. Old HS classmates? I can get a face, and maybe their height.
Now, depending on the memory, I can totally replay it in my mind if I’m going by a certain spot.
There’s a fire hall nearby. when I was a kid, we had just left to go on a road trip and I wasn’t feeling good. Proceeded to throw up the oatmeal I had a few minutes prior. I can imagine the light dusting of snow in the morning, and I can probably tell you pretty closely to where on the pavement I was, cause I couldn’t make it to the grass line. In fact I still smell oatmeal every time I sit shotgun in the family minivan.
FlailingConversation · 5 points · Posted at 02:13:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You tell me to visualize a little girl in a dress sitting on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree.
I visualize a little girl in a dress sitting on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree.
Details get change as I get more input from you. Naturally it’s on a small grassy hill surrounded by fields of wheat, but that’s probably just because of where I grew up.
You tell me to picture an apple, I picture a green apple in a dark room on a white surface, with a light shining on it from above and behind to the left so it casts a soft shadow.
Then again you mention the name of my hometown and all I see is Paperclips.
Brains are strange.
Oh also I can’t draw for shit, there’s some sort of disconnect between my predominantly visual mind and my hand lol
Mimple64 · 6 points · Posted at 03:30:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me its kind of similar but instead of immediately having a backround scene for my swingset on the tree its just a tree with a swingset in an empty void unless given further details or if I'm reading a book based on the scene beforehand.
stevo427 · 4 points · Posted at 10:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine will just make the background for me. When I read books it was like a movie in my head while I read. Just does it all itself. I spend a lot of time just thinking or being in my head
FlailingConversation · 1 points · Posted at 09:07:57 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too, I suppose it’s a skill that can be practiced, people like us tend to not think of it that way since it’s been the status quo for...well forever
your-imaginaryfriend · 2 points · Posted at 17:46:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain creates a full picture from just a few details. Like you tell me to picture a little girl on a swing attached to a low branch on an oak tree. I see the little girl swinging back and forth, and I see the grassy hill surrounding the tree. I can see the grass blowing slightly with the breeze, and I can tell you the patterns on the girl's dress. I can tell you what shoes she's wearing.
My mind just naturally fills in the gaps based on a couple details, it's not something I intentionally do. It just happens when I imagine a scene.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:27:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine, well you can’t fully but still, like a tv screen in your head, personally for me I put it above my eyes, and then if I’m asked to visualise maybe an apple I just instantly, in that ‘tv screen’ I see an apple in whatever form I want. It’s like a second set of eyes that can see whatever you want them to see (minus intrusive thoughts which are like commercials)
LendMeYourEars89 · 2 points · Posted at 03:10:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize them instantly and to me it is very clear. I agree.. this thread is crazy and I haven’t put much thought into it before.
Tanteline · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I can visualise every single detail of my mother's face, her age spots, her whispy blonde hair, the way she smiles, articulates tone by tilting her head.
ufo21 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I visualise someone or something, I tend to over exaggerate something. For example if a person I know has a mole on their face, I visualise them with mole way way bigger than I know it is. Or if they have smaller eyes, they’ll just be little beady dots like sharks. I know that’s not how they look but my mind can’t picture it unless I’m actually looking at them or a picture/video. I’ve never really thought about the clarity of my own mental images, this is such a strange thread.
tsuchiya_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, if you can’t visualize things in your mind how do you remember what someone looks like when you haven’t seen them in a while?? Does that also mean that you can’t get lost in memories of your internal highlights of things you’ve done??
sufibufi · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just know what it is. I remember the details but cant really form the picture. When I think of my brother I think of his narrow facial structure, blonde comb over hair, his glasses, what his skin looks like, his patchy beard he sometimes tries to grow. But I can't form the picture, but I when I just know it.
Sea-horse-in-trees · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s more like a memory of what someone looks like.
Material_Plum · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the person your asking, but I find it depends on how familiar I am with the thing I'm imagining, and how much effort I'm putting into the details of the image. I can also add imaginary sounds, songs and voices, that will sound in my head just like the real version of I'm familiar enough with the sound I'm trying to imagine.
ZeroXeroZyro · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can kind of. Like if I try to see something super clear and think/focus on something specific but I can view the whole picture pretty well. Kind of like how you can see things in your peripheral vision. You know it’s there, you can see it well, but you can’t focus on it.
Now if I’m dreaming, that’s completely different. That’s like a movie. It’s sometimes so realistic that I don’t know I’m dreaming til I wake up, so kind of lucid? It’s strange.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very instantly, it's an involuntary reaction not something I have to try to construct
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's instant and it's pretty much an involuntary reaction, I don't have to try to construct the image, it just happens. Random images pop into my head all the time. I also have synesthesia so that might be related, I see music and sounds in my head and I interpret everything in a very visual way.
The visualization is very strong and clear, but again it isn't actually "seeing" because it doesn't affect my view out of my actual eyes. If my eyes are closed in the dark (if I'm falling asleep or something) it does seem more like actual seeing. Sometimes I can't sleep because I keep visualizing video games I've been playing lately and imagining going through the level or whatever, it can be kind of annoying but also it's pretty cool
throwaway294847819 · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I learned about this in art class in 7th grade. We were told to visualize an apple in our head. Some people would see a blurry apple. Some point would see a green one, a red one, big, small, etc. We were then told to visualize rotating these apples. I could do that easy, even then and still to this day, almost like you do when you're preview something in a game? But 360, all the way around, every angle. I can do that with any mental image. However, at the end of that "visualization activity" we were told some people wouldn't even be able to get through visualizing the apple, and art may appear harder to them, but to "look at it from another perspective" if you will. Most of the people like me got better at realism art and scenery, whereas those who couldn't visualize as well skewed towards more abstract art, even then. That always blew my mind. Some people can't rotate objects in their heads? Wild.
Baloneysammich888 · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I were to ask you who were the last people you spent time with before the quarantine, would you not picture the setting even just a slight amount? I could be wrong but I don’t think there is that wide of a spectrum with mental images where some couldn’t picture anything. Or maybe I’m just naive !
CynicismNostalgia · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used my partner as an example. I can see them technically? The hair, the defined nose and scar he has, face shape. All of it.
At the same time, I really cant. It's more like my brain mapping out features. I 'see' it but it isnt an image.
Jesus that makes zero sense but there it is.
lamalalamal · 1 points · Posted at 07:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I mean I can replay things in my head like TV shows or Youtube videos Ive seen. Generally nor super detailed but I can focus in and usually picture the details if I really wanted to
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:16:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize people or places or things instantly with pretty much the amount of detail they have in real life. I don't think that I think in words, more in ideas. I can also "hear" in my minds ear(?) very clearly
1drlndDormie · 1 points · Posted at 13:16:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on how much I'm concentrating. I can lose myself so hard in my head that I stop seeing and hearing things around me and the daydream is laid out before me as clearly as a tv show, but that isn't practical so I generally dial it back to select details. Scenery, general look of characters, if the book supplies additional details like' their shirt was lovingly embroidered by an enthusiastic but imperfect hand' I take a moment to envision the clumsy stitching that created a crooked flower or some such before moving on.
deokkent · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instantly for me. And the image is quite clear. This is how I remember things by looking up a memory and staring at it to suss out the details. Forgetting something means I cannot conjure up the mental image. It is fascinating to me that not everyone does this.
I used to think mental pictures were integral to cognition. Boy, was I ever wrong. It is a good lesson to never assume things... Very hard lesson.
TigBittiez · 0 points · Posted at 01:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it’s more like my past experiences coming together one by one to create a more absolute depiction of what ever I’m trying to imagine. I more experiences I have to draw from the more clear I can see the person doing things that would be how they normally behave.
GJacks75 · 10 points · Posted at 01:57:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. And I "hear" music.
your-imaginaryfriend · 2 points · Posted at 17:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like "hearing" music like you're wearing earbuds? Can other people not do this? I used to do this a lot as a teenager to "listen" to music. Some of my memories have a soundtrack because of this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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yungdeathIillife · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i can do this and sometimes i actually see it there for like half a second then it goes away
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup that's me. I can "see" it, but I can't see it.
This is hurting my brain to think about now.
serhatsolmaz · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you, I also think it depends on people but I think it can be trained by exercise. I first realized I had the ability to pull out clear images from my memories back in college. During one of my finals, there was a question that I knew I studied several times but the word I supposed to write just wouldn’t come to me. Then out of desperation I closed my eyes until it becomes really dark and got into a really deep focus. Tried to find the exact page of the handout that I saw that word. First the pictures on that page popped up in their right locations and the paragraphs formed around them. Everything on the page, however, was blurry. All I needed was the diagram up at the top, which had arrows coming out of the different parts of the small intestine. Finally I was able to get the clarity focused on just the word i wanted; “Jejunum”.
It was a 2 point question but I needed those 2 points.
I practiced this a lot back in that time, and become better over time. Now I can pull up entire scenes from my past, like memories, as a whole, and I can play with the perspectives (like playing the scene from someone else’s eyes and trying to imagine what they were seeing during that event). I find it really entertaining. But the details might be unreliable from time to time. It all depends on how good the quality of the memory.
If it is a surprising event, it sticks better. For example when iPhone 4 first got out, my dad bought one for my sister. and as he was lifting the lid of the box (you know, that cool feeling when you pull the box lid up) he ended up dropping the phone on the floor with the box. I was surprised and it was a funny thing to witness. I still can pull up that memory and re-live. My dad’s face, my sister’s face, their relative locations, the phone slowly moving down in the air, which corner hit the floor first... You get it, every detail. no matter what I do though, I can’t visualize what anyone else was wearing other than my dad at that time. I guess the thing needs to be in focus to remember properly in the future.
WyrmWood88 · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me I have to try really hard to stop swing the like back of my eyelids ig and like focus really hard and almost feels like my eyes are rolling into my head then I can start to visualize images
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:32:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can only see portions of the bigger image in HD at any given time.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:15:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've noticed that when I watched a movie a long time ago, even in a shitty television or bad quality, my brain remembers it like HD quality. Then I see the movie again and I'm like Uhmm I remembered this was better.
dottree · 11 points · Posted at 23:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well for some. When I visualize a picture or a setting, it's as clear as if I'm seeing it with my own two eyes. It's not blurry at all, unless 720p is considered blurry these days.
-Friskydingo- · 5 points · Posted at 01:49:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have perfect photographic memory but it is pretty close. I can bring up specific images or "scenes" almost like freeze frames of things I've seen and can even pan around the image in my mind to look at certain details. But it is also strange in that I had to have actually directly looked at the thing to explicitly remember details about it. Parts of the image or scene in my mind will be blurry because I didn't actually look at those areas or they were only in my peripheral vision. While this has been very beneficial in many ways in my life, I have also struggled with it a lot because I am unable to "delete" certain images in my mind that I would much rather forget.
Sea-horse-in-trees · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
whatever people talk about I instantly picture in my mind, even if I don’t want to! People will talk about sex and it’s like suddenly walking in on their sex life accidentally! I don’t want to know/see that! TMI, people!
Mimple64 · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a cool YouTube video about how to forget things which also helped me with my undesirable memories. I don't have a link but googling how to forget stuff should help.
zedicuszulzoran · 1 points · Posted at 07:32:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have this sort of thing going on, now it’s a bit different and less intense because of strong bipolar medication that dulls a lot of things. Used to be able to do it and figured everyone could. Now that I have to focus so much more to do it, I get that not everyone can. Side note, that’s a big reason bipolar people don’t often like being medicated or go off meds. The highs and what we feel/can do without the meds is amazing. Just the lows are really low plus all of the other things.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:20:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically if you have a test about a scheme, you see the whole scheme?? I remember where what was written. I remember the colors and the words. But the worst thing is when I forgot something I knew was there but it just doesn't come to my brain. And it sucks because I've studied it, but I can't see it in my mental image. That's why it's so much better to study things theoretically.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:19:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless you eat psychedelic mushrooms. Then you see every colorful detail. It's awesome.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what you think, but you probably don't. I have really realistic dreams. But when I wake up, I know that the images were probably without any shape and blurry but my brain made images out of the blurry shapes, depending on what my brain knows. For example, if you always lived in a cave, it would be really complicated for your brain to dream with other things, like a rainbow, or like a cloud. Because you've always been in a cave.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:30:05 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I think? Lol I've experienced it, it's very very different to dreams, at least in the experience.They are very detailed in the moment. Once saw a leopard leaping around in great detail with my eyes closed. Yes, it's my brain creating those images via a composite of many things, but those end images were very detailed. If I thought of an elephant, it would look like one you'd see in a nature documentary but with rainbows . Crazy stuff
PlNKERTON · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more that you understand, not see.
Thanks-But-Nope · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can usually imagine things quite clearly. If I try hard enough I can make very detailed settings. Other times I can’t visualize anything at all and my mind just goes blank until something snaps me out of.
Cassper88 · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thoughts are extremely vivid if I day dream I can put myself in the actual place, only way I know I am day dreaming is because I don't feel anything mostly.
PitchBlac · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually don't see it as a picture, but like a movie that I'm in. If you know what I mean. Like a movie where you can only focus on certain parts at time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uh, yeah. I guess it's different from some. It's like a detailed image, but super-imposed over the physical environment for me... BUT! I'm a visual artist. Which makes me think that it's something we can harness or develop. Maybe not as as adults, but maybe there's a window for it, in the way young children learned a second language way easier than adults do.
LoreMaster00 · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
actually, blurry image is one of the aphantasia degrees. people who don't have aphantasia see it clearly, detailed, with background and movement even.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 15:16:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really???? I mean, I can look at you for a long time. I can look at your face. Then I close my eyes. And I remember what It looked like but not like an image. I'm incapable of remembering every detail, and the whole image. 🤔🤔🤔 I mean, it's so strange 😂
LoreMaster00 · 2 points · Posted at 15:18:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, what you're describing seems more like a 2 or 3 to me on the scale:
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcQKplOKPRSxPCFFc0LZ3pESaQEDQrS2PzJGxWCef1DNbfkNG0mD&usqp=CAU
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 23:19:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep
LoreMaster00 · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
people with no aphantasia see like 1.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 12:34:44 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
OH MY GOD. Do I have aphantasia?? Maybe that's why I'm really bad at memorizing things?? I literally only remember the bad memories of my life, never remember anything else... 🤔🤔🤔
LoreMaster00 · 1 points · Posted at 15:52:53 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
probably. could be other things though.
Sleepy_Chipmunk · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of literally seeing anything sounds batshit to me. So far I can’t tell if I’m misunderstanding what people mean or if I have aphantasia.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't really see it with your eyes. Though, I have to tell you, that when you dream, you maybe see it with your eyes. I remember I woke up in the middle of a dream, and I saw fractals. Or geometrical movements that create the images of the dreams. Those geometrical shapes move and evolve and your brain interprets them as images. Something similar happens when you're looking at the sky and the clouds, when the cloud shapes change, you see how it changes but then you see another thing. I think dreams work the same way. That's why we never have a continuated dream, but several different situations and places in a dream. Usually this fractals have rainbow colors and they move. And it's strange. It's like almost when you rub your eyes a lot and then lights and color appear. I guess this is what people on LSD see too. But they can't controle it because it's from a drug and not because your brain is doing it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't believe this even has to be explained lol
not_so_good02 · 1 points · Posted at 16:31:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually it depends on the person. In my case I have a very active and vivid imagination and visualization.
For me I sometimes remember a full scene of something but can't tell if it's something I've read or if I saw it on tv cause when I'm enthralled in a book the scenes play in my mind as clearly as if I was watching a movie. Then I have to focus really hard to try to connect a memory to that moment, like remembering if there was a word connected to it or anything else occurring at the time.
And as soon as I can place it is like the memory comes to focus. If I remember a word then I can see the whole page in front of me and I remember myself reading it, and if it's something else, like a comment someone else made to the tv then I can see myself when I was watching it.
But until that happens I truly cannot tell for the life of me if it was on the tv or my mind
your-imaginaryfriend · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found recently I have hyperphantasia, which is the opposite of aphantasia. I spent most of my life thinking everyone could visualize things that clearly and it's very odd to me that other people can't. I have an easier time imagining someone who can't see anything than someone who can see but not vividly.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's so cool.
ErohaTamaki · 13 points · Posted at 20:09:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I found out I also was annoyed, but at this point I have just accepted it and I am sure that I get some benefits from having it (like not accidentally visualising stuff that I don't want to)
garlicnaught · 13 points · Posted at 20:26:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is something I'm grateful for. I had a friend recently explain to me that sometimes they can see vivid images of the random horrible thoughts we all have sometimes, and that would truly terrify me
ErohaTamaki · 15 points · Posted at 20:28:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah and stuff like picturing an old person naked, I am glad I cannot accidentally do that
LuftDrage · 30 points · Posted at 21:36:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you for making me picture that
b4xt3r · 5 points · Posted at 01:59:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goddamn.. ok, I'm old, almost 50. The first naked woman I saw? The old woman in The Shining. I walked into the room after the hot woman had gotten out of the rub right as she switched to the old woman. Great introduction to the female form, let me tell you. Thanks, Stanley.
Just_a_normal_lad · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks
deokkent · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for that, asshole!
Fuuuck, sorry grandma.
FatPam007 · 3 points · Posted at 20:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah my thoughts never make that haha
cygnisinteranates · 15 points · Posted at 20:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think I've had a proper in depth conversation with people about this so I'm not sure if the way my brain works is normal.
I can visualise scenarios and situations, memories, and imagine how things would look like with real people, buildings, nature etc like a movie that I'm watching. I also have a dialogue in my head that says things and debates things a million miles an hour.
cygnisinteranates · 4 points · Posted at 21:14:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's also how the messages are sent through the brain, like all the nerves and brain activity, that links with an image and how we process that in seconds and that not all people are the same and do it in lots of different ways, it's amazing.
Cassper88 · 2 points · Posted at 01:59:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. Can you also lucid dream, I suggest practising it. Its awesome and can get you through some shitty nightmares.
number1plantfan · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same same same!
Mimple64 · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
number1plantfan · 2 points · Posted at 11:26:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks!!
cygnisinteranates · 1 points · Posted at 08:53:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
number1plantfan · 1 points · Posted at 11:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
sufibufi · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they just have intrusive thoughts?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:02:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Some people get Lucid Dreams! That is f CRAZYYY
Material_Plum · 4 points · Posted at 03:35:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can gain that ability with practice, keeping a dream journal helps!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I’ve tried for a while.. and it did help! I remembered my dreams better and even had a Lucid Dream once - for like, 10 seconds or something. Though it was an amazing experience, ultimately I don’t know if I have the discipline to keep journaling. But i am still very much interested.
Material_Plum · 1 points · Posted at 07:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I am lucky that I can lucid dream pretty often without putting work into it, but there's a downside, dreams are hard to control I find, they always turn a direction I dont want despite my best efforts, and you're just as aware when you're being chased by a monster as when you're flying. Plus I get sleep paralysis, one of the worst feelings
garlicnaught · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can only lucid dream, or maybe the only ones I remember when I wake are the lucid ones. I do it fairly often
powerfulKRH · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait you can’t? Like at all? Not even a blurry vague image? Not like your truly seeing it with your eye, but visualizing it internally through imagination? Creating an image in your head.
Wait can most people not do that? Hand on I’m so lost lol I thought everyone could see things in their head....
How did you jerk off before you discovered porn?? /s kinda.
You cant see a naked chick or dude or whatever if you think hard?
garlicnaught · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
nope. I can conceptualize an idea in my mind, but I can't visualize any images
powerfulKRH · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s funny because we could talk about this all day and we’re never going to understand it. It’s impossible to think of the alternative.
Did you know some people (women mostly) cannot shut their brain off. Can’t have a moment with no thoughts. Me and my girlfriend got in a fight about this lol. She’d always say “what are you thinking” and I’d say “nothing” and she’d freak out on me cuz that’s impossible. And then I’d say it’s impossible to not be able to think of nothing. Then we figured out there’s an actual psychology study on it. We still can’t comprehend the alternative but now we respect our differences.
Are you able to think of nothing for extended periods of time?
playballer · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the images pretty much like you described. I can also think of nothing. Actually different levels of nothing. One is frequent. It’s like when I’m doing chores, walking, etc. I may be thinking of something but commonly I’m not. My body is in autopilot and my mind kind of shuts off. It will quickly turn back on to say “wait you forgot your laptop” or something random. This type of “nothing” can be for extended amounts of time.
A similar type of nothing is like above, except I am thinking of stuff I just don’t really know what. It’s like the thoughts of my minds eye; inception like. Sometimes this is how ideas hit me, because it was bouncing around in this preprocessor and I have a personal Aha! If it results in nothing, I often think “what was I just thinking about?” And can’t remember.
The other I just call “zoning out”. It’s less frequent but still probably 1-2 times a week on average. I’m awake but my brain just turns off. Autopilot body is not an option. This happens when I’m sitting still. I just start staring at something but I don’t even see it. Like I’m staring through it. Not even blinking. Mind is a complete void. Usually only lasts a minute or two. Often what happens is my wife asks “what are you staring at?” And I get jolted awake “huh? Nothing”. It’s happened enough they she knows it’s a thing and I just say I zoned out. But it doesn’t happen to her. So I had to explain several times that I wasn’t actually looking at something. Usually when I snap out of it, I can’t even remember what I was fixated on. But I know I was staring off into something.
playballer · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the images pretty much like you described. I can also think of nothing. Actually different levels of nothing. One is frequent. It’s like when I’m doing chores, walking, etc. I may be thinking of something but commonly I’m not. My body is in autopilot and my mind kind of shuts off. It will quickly turn back on to say “wait you forgot your laptop” or something random. This type of “nothing” can be for extended amounts of time.
A similar type of nothing is like above, except I am thinking of stuff I just don’t really know what. It’s like the thoughts of my minds eye; inception like. Sometimes this is how ideas hit me, because it was bouncing around in this preprocessor and I have a personal Aha! If it results in nothing, I often think “what was I just thinking about?” And can’t remember.
The other I just call “zoning out”. It’s less frequent but still probably 1-2 times a week on average. I’m awake but my brain just turns off. Autopilot body is not an option. This happens when I’m sitting still. I just start staring at something but I don’t even see it. Like I’m staring through it. Not even blinking. Mind is a complete void. Usually only lasts a minute or two. Often what happens is my wife asks “what are you staring at?” And I get jolted awake “huh? Nothing”. It’s happened enough they she knows it’s a thing and I just say I zoned out. But it doesn’t happen to her. So I had to explain several times that I wasn’t actually looking at something. Usually when I snap out of it, I can’t even remember what I was fixated on. But I know I was staring off into something.
syi2k20 · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people can do both, and it varies across your life. Sometimes you can see a photo quality picture, sometimes just a concept, sometimes a grainy picture.
WhalesVirginia · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s a test, look at your hand. Close your eyes and imagine it as if it was a wireframe. Or a pyramid. Something anything.
Surely that gives you a visual.
garlicnaught · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
nothing. I've tried this before with my therapist, I just can't do it.
WhalesVirginia · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not even walk blind folded to your bathroom?
Does it affect hand eye coordination? Do you know where you’re hand is with your eyes closed? Do you play sports? Can you anticipate where a ball might land and take action to intercept? Do you have a motor vehicle, should you be driving a motor vehicle?
just curious
garlicnaught · 1 points · Posted at 08:10:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
obviously I can do all of that, I just can't see an image while doing so. I know the layout of my house well enough so as long as I feel around with my hands I can make a trip to the bathroom. Hand-eye coordination is fine, and proprioception is fine. I don't play sports, but yes I can tell where a ball will land. I can drive just fine provided I'm wearing glasses. You don't need mental images to do any of these things. I'm not disabled, I just can't see with my "minds eye". The real ones work well enough thankfully
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 01:59:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it’s not like you SEE it with your own eyes, it’s just kind of.. behind your forehead you see a transparent image almost of a sheep.. but you don’t see an opaque image through your eyes like it’s real.. unless I have aphantasia and people see it through their eyes hahah.
ErohaTamaki · 5 points · Posted at 02:05:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think only people with hyperphantasia (opposite of aphantasia, extremely good visualisation) can actually see it as a normal sheep
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait so I have aphantasia??? Or am I just on some weird middle ground haha
ErohaTamaki · 5 points · Posted at 02:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah most people are in the middle ground, but there is a quick aphantasia test on the subreddit here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Aphantasia/comments/cpwimq/ball_on_a_table_visualization_experiment/
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:12:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting thank you! I definitely would say I’m middle ground then
WhalesVirginia · 3 points · Posted at 06:03:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That’s kind of a stupid test. It’s really just testing how many assumptions you make about a very simple thing, not how vividly you can visualize things.
I work on 3d models professionally, I visualize colour, form, and function in detail all day. I also sketch recreationally, I can take a visualization and put it on paper. I’m not trying to toot my own horn, but I think that establishes that I’m at or above average in this regard.
Now this test, I didn’t visualize the colour of a ball, I wasn’t asked to. I didn’t assign a gender to the person, it wasn’t relevant to the visualization. Could I? Yes.
LadiesHomeCompanion · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surely the point is that some/most people visualize those things without being prompted at all?
WhalesVirginia · 2 points · Posted at 07:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much you visualize would likely be highly mood dependent, and moderately circumstantial. Not a really deterministic test that’s useful for anything.
LadiesHomeCompanion · 1 points · Posted at 07:57:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s true.
CynicismNostalgia · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No its testing how vivid your minds eye is when asked to picture something. It's not supposed to hold your hand. It presents you with a scenario and your brain is supposed to fill in the gaps.
CynicismNostalgia · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw the colour of the ball, the size of the ball, and a male of basically no description
So that's something I guess?
WhalesVirginia · 1 points · Posted at 07:58:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you taste the ball? can you taste it now?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 10:41:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah that means you don't have aphantasia
FlacidBarnacle · 4 points · Posted at 03:13:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m an artist and WISH I could visualize shit. I can’t picture anything in my head. It’s really a pain in the ass and pretty much made school miserable. Because I’m purely a visual learner.
That being said my dreams are extremely vivid ironic enough. Which also kinda sucks. When I got depressed all I did was sleep so I could dream. Picked up a trick that allows me to continue a dream after I wake up so I would just keep going back to sleep every time my dream was amazing.
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 03:17:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I relate massively to the second part of that comment, I also have really vivid dreams and have figured out how to go back into a dream
Dreaming is so much better than being awake as I don't have gender dysphoria when I'm in a dream
FlacidBarnacle · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aw man that hurts to read. It’s gotta be a whole nother level not feeling like yourself in your own skin.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it's not fun at all but once I transition it should mostly disappear (it would be a lot easier if the UK didn't have such long waiting lists, I will likely have to use private healthcare for it)
your-imaginaryfriend · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have hyperphantasia and I refused to draw anything for a long time because no matter how hard I tried I could never capture the image in my head. I wanted so bad to be able to show it to other people and I just couldn't.
FlacidBarnacle · 2 points · Posted at 17:59:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that. I went a different way.
When I was really young my older brother would show me these really creative sketches of characters. He would just sit and draw what’s in his head. I wanted to be like him so I started drawing what he drew. That and dragonball z. I couldn’t get anything right so I would pause the tv and just draw the face. Must have spent years drawing faces in different positions. Body’s, arms, legs. Referencing the show or magazines or my brother.
Then during school I would just draw from memory. After I do something I can kind of picture it. Like a muscle memory. So it sucks that I can’t draw anything from a place of creativity but more so from a place of repetition which limits my range. Now I paint only using references, but at least I’ve gotten kinda good at that. And I have a bank of stored muscle memory for specific subjects
Also I think I have a sort of freedom when it comes to colors. I don’t have a set palette in my head so I’m free to experiment more.
SlapTheBap · 7 points · Posted at 01:26:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
More like imagine the visual qualities of a sheep. They don't see it with their eyes. The more I read and draw the more detailed my imagination gets, like exercising a muscle. You think of a sheep. Well, what kind of sheep? Is it shorn? Grey, white, or black? Does it smell like a barn? Or oily hair and grass. How does it move? Imagine the skeleton and muscle and you can think of the mechanics of its movement. From there you build a picture of a sheep in your mind, like dreaming.
I have difficulty imagining rooms while reading, but not while drawing. Some very avid readers say they don't imagine much beyond the main characters. Had a great conversation about this on a literature forum.
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 01:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it depends on the person, people with hyperphantasia are the opposite of me (they can visualise stuff extremely well) but most people are somewhere in the middle of the two extremes
SlapTheBap · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that makes sense. I guess in my experience it really acts like a muscle. If I don't use it I get worse and worse. If I want to imagine things I need to take the time to do it. It's probably a different process depending on the person. I have a background in visual art, so I'll build a scene the way I build a painting or illustration. I can imagine, say, a mechanical engineer having a different method. It also depends on your visual library I'm sure. If you don't know what something looks like you'll have to fill in the gaps yourself.
I wonder. If you have some object you're very familiar with, how do you remember what it looks like? It's surprisingly difficult for me to wrap my head around. Say, your mother's face. If you think about her and her features, or a strong memory, you don't get an "impression" of her in your mind? Like a vague sensory ghost. The smell of her clothes and the way her eyes crease when she smiles. How do you experience it if you don't mind sharing?
ErohaTamaki · 4 points · Posted at 01:51:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have seen others describe visualisation as a muscle they can train but to me, I do not have a muscle to train.
I take a lot of pictures of stuff a lot as I cannot remember what it looks like, for example I always forget which car is my dad's car so I just have to follow him to the car whenever I have to go in his car.
I actually cannot remember faces, sounds, smells etc. One example is how my mum died a few years ago and it makes me feel guilty how I have to look at photos of her to remember what she looked like.
SlapTheBap · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no I didn't mean to bring up a painful thought. Sorry about that. Your insight is really interesting though. It makes a lot of sense actually. There's a reason the word for being unable to imagine exists, yeah? Put in the context of problems one might face with it, it actually makes way more sense to me. Thanks for helping me understand.
Edit: I meant to finish that gibberish thought. Like, in psychology, things don't get called disorders unless they negatively impact your function.
madeofpockets · 3 points · Posted at 02:55:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting you bring up reading: I read a LOT and I can hardly ever imagine anything in a book — most books are just words on a page, as it were. In some ways this is good, as it doesn’t ruin movie adaptations for me (I don’t have any expectations for what characters or places look like, for example). On very, VERY rare occasions, however, the storytelling is such that the character or scene is as vivid as a film in my head. Example: The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay. Those who’ve read it may be familiar with the the scene where Joe Kavalier climbs and leaps on to a fire escape ladder and then up on to the fire escape. I can imagine the whole thing: the movement of Joe, the excited faces of those below, the color and texture of the fire escape, the sounds as he catches and climbs up it, the color of his suit, the building it’s attached to; and the whole book is like that. But the list of books that are like that is extremely short. As in...Kavalier & Clay, American Gods, The Yiddish Policeman’s Union (sometimes), and for some strange reason a kids/young teen audience book I read years ago called The Ghost Sitter. Beyond those, I’ve never been able to visualize or audiate anything.
What I do get very strongly are emotions connected with words/scenes, the same way someone might do with a whole scene in a movie, between dialogue, music, and image. For example, Harry Potter & the Deathly Hallows, in the end when Molly Weasley jumps in to the fray against Bellatrix LeStrange and yells “Not my daughter, you bitch!” — nearly brought me to tears of emotion. I couldn’t imagine it visually, and still can’t. That moment remains just five words and a punctuation mark on a page. Yet it moves me without doing anything else.
Likewise, I can’t remember anything visually. My parent’s faces, my girlfriend’s...anything, my childhood home that I lived in for sixteen years. At most I get an impressionistic blur...but i get a feeling. Not a tactile one, but I remember for some reason that we had this berber carpet, which I can describe because I know what it is rather than because I remember it, but it’s a good memory, a warm memory. I can remember the golden content feeling of seeing Alan Jackson at sunset, or the excited anticipation and joy during the opening act of Coldplay when I was 16 at The Gorge in Washington, and the wonderment at the warmth of the evening and the peaceful connected joy of bouncing these giant yellow balloons that they released during “Yellow”; but I can’t visualize those moments. Those memories are just the feeling of those moments and when I describe the colors and textures they’re just words.
Notable in relation to that is: my thought process is a constant, relentless internal monologue. If I wake up and think about breakfast the words “maybe I should get out of bed now, maybe I’ll have eggs, ooh I’d really like some coffee, yeah that sounds good, damn I don’t wanna go through the process of making coffee though” are “said” out loud in my head, at the speed I might read them. I don’t hear a voice or see the words, but I imagine if you MRI’d my brain the speech center would light up like Times Square. I can occasionally, with a lot of concentration, force myself to transcend words and just have the thought, something like “up breakfast coffee effort don’t wanna good”, and it’s done in a flash — when I can do that my brain works so insanely fast it’s scary. It’s almost like I have to have each word pass through my brain so that my brain has something to do. Idk maybe that’s just super pretentious but it feels that way.
Anyway that’s my thinker.
Mimple64 · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend who reads books SUPEERR quick and he told me once that he doesn't actually imagine the characters and instead he just consumes the knowledge almost instantly, like a book black hole or something.
FatPam007 · 3 points · Posted at 20:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually wanted to learn how to think things without visualizing them. For example in music. When I think about a chord, I need to visualize it in a piano. I can't think about a chord theoretically. And I would like to, without having to memorize the chord.
fresh_limes · 3 points · Posted at 02:44:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, can you day dream?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't day dream like an actual dream (my dreams are vivid but I can only do that while asleep) but I do get distracted by thoughts and it looks the exact same as when others day dream
tallgirl24 · 2 points · Posted at 05:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So how do you recollect memories?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My memories barely work tbh, I can think logically like oh I went shopping yesterday but I can't see the memory in my head
It is one the main reasons I dislike holidays, they are fun when I am there but when I get back I can't experience it again in my memories (like I heard that others have memories of the smells, sounds etc and I can't do any of it)
I have to rely on photos to help recall memories a lot of the time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a version of this where it’s not as bad? Like if I try and visualise a sheep I know the concept of what it looks like but I can’t straight up see it in my mind. I’m not sure if I’m explaining this properly but it’s like I can see a very faint version of the sheep in the peripherals of my mind but I can’t see a solid sheep.
RealPigeonKicker · 27 points · Posted at 00:30:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I actually learned that I have (or suffer from as some would say, but IMO, it only becomes a disability if you make it) Aphantasia about half a year ago. When someone goes “picture ____” I’ve always just thought about whatever it was as concepts, as I have a general understanding of what things I’m familiar with is. It’s interesting to look at how many interest if mine are (probably) centered around my lack of visualization. When I was a kid, I played with legos non-stop, always creating stories, characters and events because that was a way for me to visualize all these ideas, concepts and stories I had.
Today I’m in the film making industry, and as much as it can sometimes be a burden to not understand fully what someone wants me to picture, compared to many of my colleagues, I don’t get that sense of disappointment many of them do when they see something we’ve worked on and it’s not how they picture it. For me, films are a way of visualizing things that I normally wouldn’t be able too.
Edit: grammar.
kamomil · 12 points · Posted at 01:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can picture things in my mind.
During high school, I wouldn't study for math tests, but often I could picture in my mind, the notes I took the day we studied that lesson that the question was about. If I could do that, I could remember the formula to answer the question.
RealPigeonKicker · 4 points · Posted at 01:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Studying has been a struggle for me because of this, as many classes and tests, especially based around language learning or math formulas, are based around repetition to the point of memorizing things. What you describe right there is properly one of my biggest envy’s of not being able to picture stuff.
Fun fact - I don’t dream in images either
ErohaTamaki · 7 points · Posted at 01:40:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have aphantasia but my dreams are really vivid and just as real as real life (of course when I wake up it is obvious that it was a dream as zombies or whatever aren't in real life)
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are your dreams like?
I can’t imagine not being able to dream in images. It’s weird, while looking at my phone screen i can also see the visual image of my last dream in my mind. Like having a dual monitor setup.
madeofpockets · 2 points · Posted at 02:58:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh wow, that’s really interesting because I can’t picture anything normally (see my other comment) but when I dream they’re usually very vivid, complete with action, dialogue, color, music, everything...I usually remember them as very impressionistic affairs but it’s the only time my brain does that all on its own. They’re also usually very mundane — they’re about paying bills or going to work or conversations with people.
alreetlike · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! Passed all my exams with high grades by writing revision notes and memorising them then reading back through them off the image of the page in my head.
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We had a teacher who encouraged us to make revision notes on one page, cramming all the formulas in, probably based on the visual memory thing.
GJacks75 · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the old days, before everything was saved in my phone, that's how I would remember phone numbers, account numbers etc - by visualizing how the number sequence looked.
FinalPutsch · 4 points · Posted at 02:22:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Isnt that bad for the creative process though? I make youtube videos for a living and all of my video ideas, channel ideas, business ideas etc come from visualising endless tangents in my brain until something interesting comes up and I get the 'aha!' moment and get to work. Almost like a filter where I dont have to actually start working on something before I know if its bad or good.
Do you have to start working first to come to revelations?
Honestly I wonder if aphantasia is a bit exaggerated. I think some people have the notion that its the norm to visualise things as if you can actually see things in your mind clear as day. I dont think this is true, so many people incorrectly label themselves as having it. For example, I can remember almost every event that has ever happened to me. I'd say I have a photographic memory. But that doesnt mean I can write a sheet of text and take a screenshot of it with my eyes.
When I picture an apple I cant see a vivid apple. I cant see anything. Although I know the concept of an apple. Im thinking of a red apple with a green stalk with the bumps at the bottom so it stands up etc.. but I cant see the apple. Its not actually there. I cant pull up imaginery images. Its just black. But I wouldnt say I have aphantasia
The only times I can see extremely vivid images is when im under the influence of drugs. Like if ive been drinking really heavy and im on a hangover. I can close my eyes and see scenes as if I have my eyes open.
a-handle-has-no-name · 1 points · Posted at 06:49:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever someone brings up aphantasia, I never understand what people are talking about.
Someone said the image doesn't get projected onto reality, but is instead held in their "mind's eye"... Like what did this even mean?
Best I can think of is my internal monologue. I can actually "hear" my voice reading this sentence. This isn't using my ears, so it's obvious no one is talking to me, but the words still have enough quality that it has the same effect and "sounds" like my voice.
Is this what it's like for "aphantasia"? Visualization/imagining just doesn't have the same level of literal meaning as with my inner voice. It's entirely conceptual instead. If someone were to tell me there was a ball on a table, this would be analogous to knowing that "my cousin is related to me though our mothers". There are no images, but this fact "just is".
I don't know if that all makes any sense, but I guess this is appropriate for the larger topic of something that I just completely don't understand :-/
b4xt3r · 6 points · Posted at 02:08:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only thing I can visualize is an argument, or more specifically a question. If someone is asking me a long question, or telling me something that leads up to one (in a meeting at work is where this happens most often) there visualzation of the argument can go one of three days - it can stay neutral which kind of looks flat like a tabletop but feels more flat than it looks (I can't see neutral very well). If the argument is positive in the sense that I want to answer it and I find it interesting the "flat" turns into a ball and glows softly like a diffused light, not bright, just "warm". Those are the questions I like. If I don't like a question the ball shape starts to grow darker and irregular and if I really don't like it points emerge from the ball, like spikes. My own internal joke to respond to questions like that is to say "that's a very pointed question" which, to me, it is. I've told this to a few people and everyone givers me the standard WTF look back.
People have asked "what does the 'no' ball look like" and I always had a hard time explaining it until I saw ferrofluid and now I just say "a 360 degree, jet black floating ball of of that stuff".
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woah that sounds cool, to me it sounds really foreign/alien
b4xt3r · 3 points · Posted at 03:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It feels foreign! I have no idea when it started or it is something that has been with me all along. In college I knew when I was in trouble in a class when all questions from the prof to the class were black and spiked.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It sounds like some sort of crappy superpower lol
b4xt3r · 2 points · Posted at 08:38:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it would be if I could use it to pick the correct lottery numbers! lol
Tigertigeryellow · 6 points · Posted at 02:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have an internal dialogue. I can pretty much switch between something best described as conceptual and the others - like visuals, sound, smell etc.
I thougt everyone did the same and the ”voice” in the head was just an expression until recently.
I’ve never read with a style different from speed reading as far as I can remember. But sometimes (rarely, like every few months) when I read I somehow switch to reading the text in my head and that shortly becomes too slow and cumbersome and I put the book down.. :)
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 02:24:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the exact same about when people said stuff like "imagine ___, its amazing how people are so different to each other
flashtvdotcom · 6 points · Posted at 03:44:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact some people don’t have inner dialogue weirds me out and if I think about it too much my brain hurts. Not sure why lol
MelMac5 · 5 points · Posted at 04:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have inner dialogue. It seems weird that other people do - i always thought it was just a convenient Hollywood tv or movie device.
If I prep for a conversation or argument I always talk out loud to myself like a crazy person.
flashtvdotcom · 3 points · Posted at 04:50:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t say it’s crazy but from my perspective I just can’t fathom it I guess? But that’s probably how you feel about inner dialogue lol
StrangeClothes · 5 points · Posted at 03:15:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found out through a Reddit thread that I had aphantasia recently.
It’s crazy how different everyone’s body can be and we may never even realise!
P0RTILLA · 6 points · Posted at 02:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can visualize very well. I often visualize the internal workings of an engine. Horizontally opposed ‘boxer’ engines are the most beautiful to visualize.
WhalesVirginia · 2 points · Posted at 06:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humblebrag
xander-666 · 5 points · Posted at 02:59:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sincerely, thank you for teaching me the word for my blind brain.
ErohaTamaki · 4 points · Posted at 03:00:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is also a subreddit for it if you are interested: r/Aphantasia
Way_No-Way · 4 points · Posted at 03:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you can't visualize things, do you dream?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 03:29:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dreams are actually really vivid, like on the same level of realness as real life but usually with fictional stuff like zombies
flyingitalian1316 · 3 points · Posted at 03:35:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My gf recently asked me about my inner dialogue and I said, "what inner dialogue?" That is when I realized I think by visualizing words, after over 20 years
PitchBlac · 3 points · Posted at 02:00:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is it called when people can think through both visualization and dialogue? Asking for a friend
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not sure, I think most people can do that (but since I can't visualise at all I am the worst person to ask)
Try asking family members about whether they do both
PitchBlac · 2 points · Posted at 02:10:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk if this is normal or not, but I can also remember things in the form of movies or pictures. Like a test I took or a certain event I can play through it as if I were doing that moment again. With sounds and all of that but less details.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That sounds a bit like hyperphantasia, I am not sure though so try doing the quick test for it https://www.reddit.com/r/hyperphantasia/comments/9hwe7t/hyperphantasia_checklist/
PitchBlac · 2 points · Posted at 03:39:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah this is describes it well. Thanks
Rackbone · 2 points · Posted at 12:37:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Checked off everything pretty much and strangely taste and smell were the most vivid. I can recall them really fast. And now that I think about it it's incredibly easy for me to remember the taste of things I've eaten even years ago
ItsPronouncedOiler · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that’s how memory works for most people.
PitchBlac · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called hyperphantasia. You should check it out
EthiopianKing1620 · 4 points · Posted at 01:26:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I knew a kid in grade school who couldn’t hold a mental picture of a book or story or whatever was told to him. Being 10 I just thought it was him being a dumbass but I have since met a few people who just can’t picture shit. Would make reading a real bitch.
ErohaTamaki · 7 points · Posted at 01:29:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually love reading, I can't understand how people need to visualise it to enjoy it.
I watch movies when I want to see the story, and books when I want to read it
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't visualise for shit but I damn love reading man. A book is descriptive enough to build the "visual" for me. So it is like a movie for me but not in pictures, in all the details and information that you add on as you read through.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I get the same feelings from a movie by reading a book despite not being able to visualise it
EthiopianKing1620 · 2 points · Posted at 01:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never said you had too. I consider reading to be like reading a movie. It helped a lot when I was reading history textbooks. Just makes it nice to see it play it my head.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like it being different to movies but I do get a bit jealous as I cannot experience it the same as others (also if there are long descriptive paragraphs I just skip them as I can't see it)
EthiopianKing1620 · 2 points · Posted at 01:57:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol preach about long descriptive paragraphs. So I’m interested how is reading different for you if that question makes any sense.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not sure how reading is different for me as I haven't experienced it without aphantasia, but there is one thing that I have noticed.
I had always been a fast reader (like the fastest in my class by far) and now that I know about aphantasia I think its because I spend no time trying to visualise the information.
EthiopianKing1620 · 2 points · Posted at 02:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See this is a great representation of OPs question. This is something I just can’t wrap my head around. Funny too cuz it’s the same feeling I got when I spoke with that kid in grade school. Not being able to visualize a piece of text is mindbending to me lol.
soullblaze · 2 points · Posted at 02:15:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Synesthesia is kind of like that. There’s different versions of it. Where people will relate smells to colors and stuff. I have a kind where I give numbers, letters, and colors personalities and genders. I thought it was crazy that everyone didn’t do that. I didn’t know until a couple years ago when my brother asked me. He found out he has a type as well.
StockyJohnStockton · 2 points · Posted at 03:20:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have it where numbers have qualities; For instance even numbers are generally balanced, solid, stable feeling, and odd numbers are much more aggressive or pointed feeling. Certain numbers like 48 are very comforting and numbers with 7 are much more uncomfortable, sharp, unbalanced. Numbers containing all even components are just comforting and remind me of home, where numbers that have odd components like 793 are like uneven ground, or staying in a hotel (just not quite right, or safe feeling). I don’t know if this is exactly what you are talking about or not, but I haven’t really talked to others about this but what you said really spoke to me. I also have sensory disorders, with aversions to certain types of fabrics and sounds.
ahumanperson2789 · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I experience the same thing. Even numbers are soft, and safe, while odds feel aggressive, and untrustworthy. My favorite number is six. I can remember sorting numbers into evens and odds as a kid and thinking to my self the odd numbers were "bad". I am also sensory sensitive to fabrics, in particular clothes, sounds, and lighting. I often wonder if this is just my normal and not other people's normal?
StockyJohnStockton · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it is a spectrum disorder, where most people have a sound or two that impacts them (nails on a chalkboard). Other people, like us, probably have more sounds, feelings that impact is that way and potentially more greatly, in an emotional way.
ahumanperson2789 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always thought it might be something like that. Though I've never had a diagnosis and walk through the world passing as neurotypical. Do I change the lighting in my classroom at my job? Yes. Am I pleased my driver's license number is almost all even numbers except one pesky odd? Yes. Do I wear synthetic fabrics? Fuck no. Do I make my partner move in a restaurant if the lighting is bad? Absolutely. I'm able to accommodate all of those feelings without ever needing to change much about my everyday.
I also find that being so sensory sensitive makes me more in tune with my environment and the people in it. I work in a mental health profession with kids and the way I think and work is a distinct advantage in knowing how to best support them.
I hope your sensitivity has become an asset for you!
StockyJohnStockton · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for sharing your experiences. It is interesting you found yourself in the career that you did. It is a blessing and a curse. I also end up working with individuals who have ASD, but that isn’t what I do specifically. Certain materials seem to be at the other end of the spectrum, instead of causing discomfort they provide a sense of significant comfort. I also feel quite perceptive because if certain stimuli evoke negative feelings, you get pretty good at identifying and avoiding those things in your surroundings. The other side of it is that I don’t want the world, really my friends and family, to have to conform to a certain way of being to appease me. They understand how I am to a degree and do what they can to minimize my discomfort, but it really shouldn’t be on them. At the core my feelings aren’t logical or really reasonable, but they are what they are and although they can modulated they likely will never cease.
soullblaze · 1 points · Posted at 09:12:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes very similar! 7 for me is a women and she’s a bitch lol. She’s rude af to 4. Somehow it helps me remember things better. But now that I think about it. Most of the odd number for me are also considered “bad” thier personalities are undesirable to me.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have heard about the smells to colours stuff but I haven't heard about the rest and it sounds really interesting, I guess this is going to be the next thing I randomly research lol
TheGame364 · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does it mean that when you dream you don't see any pictures?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:21:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah my dreams are extremely vivid actually, dreaming is different to visualising stuff
CaucasianHumus · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intresting i kind of do both where most of my thoughts are pictures but i also think in like book format. Where i trai. Thoughts like turning a page. Wonder thats similar.
Pandepon · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Is it possible to draw from your head if you can’t visual stuff or do you just know how it looks even though you can’t visualize it? Or do you need to pull up an actual image to reference if I told you to draw a cat?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:34:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to look up pictures to draw something, but if its something like a cat I logically understand the shape so I can do a crappy drawing of a body, 4 legs and a head (however my dogs, cats and horses all look the same but different sizes lol)
Pandepon · 3 points · Posted at 03:19:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find this wild.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had always been confused by artists that were before photographs existed, like how the hell did they get everyone in a street to stand still for as long as it takes to paint the painting.
But now I know that they just had to look at the street once and then go home and paint it, which is extremely weird to me
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you see images when you dream?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dreams are actually really vivid, like on the same level of realness as real life but usually with fictional stuff like zombies
amanda_burns_red · 2 points · Posted at 02:35:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me either. Even with a lot of detail given and even stuff from memory. I have the data, but I can't see any of it.
I always think that I would make the worst witness if solving a crime depended on my descriptions.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:42:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, I was always confused by movies and tv things where they got witnesses to describe what the suspect looked like
I would probably be able to give gender, skin colour and hair colour but not much else (and I might not even remember all of those, it depends on how much I interacted with the person)
amanda_burns_red · 2 points · Posted at 02:56:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly.
meeshi000 · 2 points · Posted at 02:39:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow! I didn’t know that was possible! I visualize everything and think in concepts more then words. When I was a child I had see a therapist to learn how to put my thoughts into words, and then get the words onto paper while accurately conveying what I wanted to. Before that I would start a sentence and then trail off.
JoyFerret · 2 points · Posted at 02:46:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if there is someone without internal monologue and with aphantasia and how that would work.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 02:50:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They might be able to think through colours, sounds, smells etc
It would be an even weirder version of synesthesia
throwawayyy55576 · 2 points · Posted at 02:47:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard of this before, but it's still so weird to me. I am very visual in my thinking, to the point where I can remember to do stuff by leaving imagery in the corner of my visual field, like an image of a key to remember to grab my keys when I leave.
I've got so many questions for a person such as yourself, who cannot picture stuff in their heads. Such as how do you recognize people? If I ask you to describe someone, could you do it? Do you remember how they look in text form, as a story, and do you have to quickly run through a checklist to identify someone?
If I close my eyes, for a split second the last image on my retina persists, for example the strongest image would be if I looked at the sun, the for of the sun remains in my vision, which isn't a memory, just the light rods being too excited, do you get at least that?
Can you picture very simple stuff, like, if you look at a dot, and close your eyes, could you picture something as simple as a dot?
If you decide to actually answer these: thank you.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am able to recognise people when I see them but I cannot describe them properly without a picture of them (well I can say their gender, skin colour, hair colour and other very memorable features but anything detailed is impossible for me). I am also bad at remembering people's names (like it takes me up to a week to remember someone's name) but a lot of people have that issue so it's probably not related.
I have actually once almost lost a friendship because I was unable to describe them when I had my eyes closed and they got pissed thinking that I didn't care about them (we were like 10, and 10-year-olds get angry over small things)
I also can see the annoying sun dot thing in my vision after looking at the sun, that is because it is something that physically affects the eye, not visualisation.
I cannot picture something like a dot when I close my eyes, all I can see is these weird eyelid things or pitch black when there is no light source.
throwawayyy55576 · 2 points · Posted at 03:41:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, thanks for answering all those questions! It's so interesting to find out how other people's minds work.
CartierStreet · 2 points · Posted at 03:14:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
does that mean you can’t dream?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 03:20:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dreams are actually really vivid, like on the same level of realness as real life but usually with fictional stuff like zombies
CartierStreet · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The re-creation of visions or worries of the subconscious mind
Mack_Blagic · 2 points · Posted at 03:14:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Define visualization.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is hard for me to do that as I cannot visualise, but from what I understand it is being able to have an image in your minds eye (whatever the hell that is)
CartierStreet · 2 points · Posted at 03:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally have full control of my thoughts and visions, it can be actually terrifying if i’m in an anxious state and manifest things i’d rather not imagine.
Almost able to actually feel the thought/dream and change it on command.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 03:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That reminds of lucid dreaming, are you able to do that too (I have never experienced lucid dreaming so I have no clue what its like)
CartierStreet · 3 points · Posted at 03:33:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, when I was young I had several reoccurring dreams of weird houses and places that I’ve never laid eyes on, like really nice but eerily unexplainable. So I knew overtime that I would be dreaming and either wake up or enter another dream. Several odd things would happen in the dream, mostly the same people and setting, that’s when I could control it. This one dream that I think is from my anxiety, I end up airborne somehow and just before I hit ground I wake up, until one dream, I all of a sudden controlled my landing and the dream kept going.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have had a dream like that when I was stressed a ton, it was me falling for ages and once I hit the ground I woke up sweating really bad (I also fell out of my bed)
CartierStreet · 2 points · Posted at 03:43:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s almost like a way for your brain to let things go, so my therapist says..
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the brain does a lot of weird things, I don't think I will ever fully understand the brain
artsy897 · 2 points · Posted at 03:23:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve always said I don’t have an imagination. I think it’s because I can’t visualize anything in my head...zip, nothing. It’s always made me pretty sad because I think an imagination would be awesome.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagination is different to visualisation, visualisation is a part of it but there are authors with aphantasia who can imagine a good story
kontrasangre · 2 points · Posted at 03:50:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now im fucking scared to lost my habilty tk visualise stuff :(
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 03:52:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not exactly something you can lose so you shouldn't worry about it, you can also train to improve your ability to visualise if you want to improve it.
The only way you could possibly lose it is some sort of brain injury, brain injuries can have crazy results. You are more likely to die than lose your visualisation
the_spookiest_ · 2 points · Posted at 03:55:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have an overactive imagination, so I actually imagine the scenario, etc.
Partially why I got into studying design. It’s hard for me to explain something Using words, so I just draw it.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have hyperphantasia?
https://www.reddit.com/r/hyperphantasia/comments/9hwe7t/hyperphantasia_checklist/
the_spookiest_ · 2 points · Posted at 04:13:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Funny, because when it said picture an Apple, I pictured not only the Apple, but the Apple sitting on a brown table shadow and all, I even pitctured the smell and flavor of the Apple. (Granny Smith, my go to Apple at all times). I can tell exactly how that Apple would feel in my hand, the sound it makes when you bite it, how the stem feels against my fingers or my lips. The feeling in my jaw of biting through it. The way it rolls.
I can play all of a song in my head, pitch perfect, on command from start to finish (even all of Pink Floyd’s “echoes”.) mainly because I’ve likely listened to it, but I can turn the volume down at a specific place, and keep up with the song in my mind, turn it back up and be exactly at the same spot in my mind. I often have concerts in my mind when I’m bored.
As for taste, I know exactly what a pickle taste like, it makes my mouth water just thinking about it.
I have a very over active imagination, lol.
Desireespecks · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So wait, what about when you recall a memory? Do you not visualize what you saw that day? HOW DO MEMORIES WORK FOR YOU?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My memories barely work tbh, I can think logically like oh I went shopping yesterday but I can't see the memory in my head
It is one the main reasons I dislike holidays, they are fun when I am there but when I get back I can't experience it again in my memories (like I heard that others have memories of the smells, sounds etc and I can't do any of it)
I have to rely on photos to help recall memories a lot of the time
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just think in feelings.
No audible or visual stimulation unless it’s a powerful emotion that I’m feeling. Otherwise do have to concentrate to have an internal dialogue
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 04:07:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you struggle when you were told to write down what you were thinking as a kid? I struggled to do stuff that required visualisation as a kid (like when mediating and they say stuff like imagine that you are in a forest)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t say that I have apahantasia, I can see a mental image, I just have to force it. It’s not my “normal” and when I do force it I can’t say it’s very detailed.
To answer your question: I do have some difficulty fully articulating what I’m feeling sometimes. It depends on my mental state how effectively I can express myself
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 04:11:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is interesting, I would want to talk about it a bit longer but I just realised that it is 5 am and I need to go sleep lol (I lost track of time, this quarantine has killed my sleep schedule)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s midnight for me. I think I will go to bed as well. It would be better to wait to finish the discussion anyway, considering sleepiness isn’t exactly my mental prime haha
hazeust · 2 points · Posted at 04:09:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aphantasia gang represent. Also we don't visualize the words, we just think of the words. They have no imagery
powerfulKRH · 2 points · Posted at 04:14:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a word for a more active visualization? I see music in my head but I can’t read music. Like I see the patterns in my minds eye and can interpret that into sound and motion somehow. I didn’t even know I was doing it until recently. I thought it was normal. Basically I just see shapes and patterns that represent the music
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this might help: https://www.reddit.com/r/hyperphantasia/comments/9hwe7t/hyperphantasia_checklist/
It could also be Synesthesia
powerfulKRH · 2 points · Posted at 04:46:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Omg dude holy fuck!!! You just figured something out for me that I’ve been trying to tackle for the last 3 months. I can do all of those on that list without effort. But when I got to Touch... Literally a few weeks ago I realized I’ve always been able to imagine what something feels like. Exactly how it would feel and I feel it. I can go back to a girl I dated and remember how her skin felt. How my drum sticks feel in my hand.
And now recently I have discovered a new one that’s very strange lol. I can do that with smell, and it’s getting really weird. Really weird. If I’m watching a show I can look at a person and I get an idea of what they smell like. Completely in intentionally it just started happening.
Watching ozark I know how Marty’s pheromones smell lol. It tends to be mostly men I’m able to do this with. No idea why. But each person I see has a different unique sent as they probably would in real life. This one is the most confusing to me. It’s like I can activate my senses subconsciously somehow.
What a pointless superpower lol. What can I do with my super smell?
Edit: finished the list. I can taste anything I imagine.
Have I been able to do this my whole life? I think so. Why am I just noticing? I’m about to go down a rabbit hole
Edit 2. I just did a test, I can remember feelings and smells up to 12 years back. I’ll try to go further lol. I just remembered something I felt in 8th grade. Now 7th.
Whoa this is super fun I’m gonna hang out in my memories for the next few days and see what happens. I’ve never really gone back there before
COuser880 · 2 points · Posted at 04:50:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just recently learned about some people not having inner dialogue, and tbh, I still have difficulty comprehending it sometimes. Maybe bc I talk to myself or imagine scenarios all the time? I had no idea people didn’t have this, but it’s truly fascinating.
coolerchameleon · 2 points · Posted at 05:01:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, I can listen to full on songs in my head. I cant imagine life without robust internal monologue
theMothmom · 2 points · Posted at 05:03:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t visualize stuff either my brain just talks at me
LoveButtz · 2 points · Posted at 05:10:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have an internal dialogue and I didn’t realize people did until this year.
nichandl_ · 2 points · Posted at 05:13:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have a dialogue I think In images and patterns. Yay autism
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:31:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think in bof
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow so that's a thing? I mean I'm not the only one to not be able to visualize even the simplest of things?! Nice to know, thanks reddit!
stevo427 · 2 points · Posted at 10:45:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Always thought it was weird people can’t visualize. I can visualize with great detail easily. It’s just like thinking words but images if that makes sense. Or well videos I guess to.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:52:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For those of you who can't visualize things....what are your dreams like?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 10:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually get pretty vivid dreams, like the same level as real life but usually with fictional stuff like zombies
However it can be different for others with aphantasia, you can see that here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Aphantasia/comments/fovi7f/how_do_you_dream/
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the link! It's interesting how you're able to unconsciously form vivid dreams.
1drlndDormie · 2 points · Posted at 12:39:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to ask, and it may sound stupid, but how do you read books? I visualize scenery, characters, background details, and can't see loving to read if I didn't have my imagination to lay everything out.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 12:42:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love reading despite not being able to visualise it, I find it weird how people think visualisation is so important for enjoyment. I feel the same emotions from reading a book as when I watch a movie. (actually the best books I have read are better than all the movies I have seen, except than my favourite movie)
If I want to see the story I will watch a movie, but I don't see that as a necessary thing to enjoy it
1drlndDormie · 2 points · Posted at 13:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's nice. I'm glad you find full literary enjoyment. The visualization, while I can more or less control how much detail goes into it, is involuntary for me.
However the book is more or less always more superior than the movie, regardless of my own imaginings.
christinebarto · 2 points · Posted at 13:27:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always think, would you have thoughts if you never learned a language? 🤯
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 13:31:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there was a girl who didn't learn a language due to being locked in a room until she was 13 years old (it was really fucked up, I don't know how someone could do that to their daughter) and you could research her a bit
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genie_(feral_child))
MurkyAmbition · 2 points · Posted at 13:54:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought every one talks to themselves silently. Like I actually have a debate on my head over some things. It also amazes me how a single word or thing can make you remember something and suddenly it leads to another memory and so on. Like I am just listening to a song and I find myself remembering the WW2 documentary I just watched.
tiusrup · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's how I think, maybe. But I do have conversations with myself sometimes. When I do, I visualize the people in my conversation as well as a background setting. Sometimes I'm not even me in the conversation, like I'm watching it on TV. It's hard to explain how the things I visualize hold so much meaning. If I thought it out in words I don't think my head could hold it all
ikanx · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? TIL. Can those people do augmented reality stuff in their head? It's like half seeing and half visualizing.
ThatBlackScienceKid · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This isn’t actually true, if you read any of the research claiming this... there isn’t any. This thought was created by a man on twitter. The only thing any research says on the topic is that you don’t ALWAYS visualize and vice versa. Think about throwing a ball, you didn’t need an internal monologue to run through the process. The same thing happens with object we try to visually represent in our head. In psychology there are many schools of thought on this but we don’t mentally rotate and store objects, only many 2d images. We don’t actually think in real pictures because as soon as the light hits out retina it’s actually a different shape from the “real” object anyways.
fuckyusuke · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who don’t have internal monologues are MPCs
love-seat · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But how do people that visualize words, do that before learning how to read?
Sw33tLim3s · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the opposite situation where I can’t not visualize what’s happening, i had a coworker who found out I “saw” everything and he would come over to me and describe god awful scenarios. Anyway, I thought everyone thought like that.... weird
ShtFurBr41nS · 1 points · Posted at 11:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there's people like me who visualize so well it literally keeps me up at night. I dont see darkness when I close my eyes and try to fall asleep, I see what I was doing that day or whatever game I was playing, and keep doing it mentally. Without wanting or meaning to.
knappy17 · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit now I'm wondering if I can actually visualize stuff. Like when I think of a toaster or a car or fork, I know what they look like but I cant actually visualize them like in my head. Even when I close my eyes, I know what my phone looks like but I cant actually picture it. Everything is just black.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:17 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a quick test for aphantasia you can do, it does sound like you have it but ultimately only you can diagnose yourself
Here is the quick test: https://www.reddit.com/r/Aphantasia/comments/cpwimq/ball_on_a_table_visualization_experiment/
knappy17 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:06 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I conceptualize, not visualize. I can tell you a 2 hour fictional story, but when I try to visualize a ball on a table, its geometric, not in color or detailed. My mind is blown. Ty stranger.
archiewouldchooseme · 59 points · Posted at 20:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It blew me away to learn that, no, we do not all have the same inner thoughts. A lot of us do, but some people think in complete sentences, some in broken sentences, some a mixture, some visualize and some do not. There’s a portion of the population that is unable to visualize things. So, if I say, ‘Hey, remember that beautiful 25lb salmon we caught up the Portland Canal last summer?’ And I have a picture of that salmon in my mind, there are people who will have no picture. When you extrapolate that out, it’s sucks - there goes reading, memories, imagining scenarios, fantasy, getting creative inspiration for a lot of art.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 02:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just wanna say, I'm someone who can't picture stuff in my head and it doesn't take away at all from my experience of reading, the clarity of memories, or my creativity.
I can get overwhelmed by description that's just a bunch of physical traits of stuff because I kinda have nowhere to put those images and it's hard to keep it straight sometimes. But, I love heavy description that's more metaphorical or poetic because it captures the feel of a thing more than its literal dimensions, which is closer to how I imagine stuff in my head. I very clearly "hear" the voice of the narration in my mind as I read, too.
As far as creative expression goes, I can absolutely draw and do creative writing. When I draw, I'm usually building off what I put on the page, rather than imagining the whole thing in my head first and going from there, but it works out fine, more or less! I still get creative inspiration for stuff--it's just not pictures. Sometimes it'll be sentences, emotions, the sound of a character voice, or a different sense than sight. But it's still there!
lasercat_pow · 5 points · Posted at 04:58:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I get the sense that people who say they see things vividly might be overstating it a bit. If you see things so vividly, why is it that most people can't draw a bicycle the way one actually looks, or accurately depict the major features of currency? Our minds confabulate what we imagine to be accurate, but it isn't.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 09:42:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I were good at drawing I would be able to draw it but I’m not
SuperMagic42 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I can always imagine what I want to draw but it never turns out right.
archiewouldchooseme · 2 points · Posted at 16:14:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good question. I’m very, very familiar with my own face but I’d be hard pressed to draw it. Maybe more to do with my drawing skill? But I don’t think so. Artists that have done self portraits inevitably use mirrors. I will say that I don’t see all things vividly, some things more than others. Usually something that I can visualize vividly is something that has a high degree of emotion attached to it.
archiewouldchooseme · 2 points · Posted at 16:09:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for posting! And for explaining what you see, or don’t see ;) I wondered how people with aphantasia process things that I handle visually. And, of course, because I’m very visual, most thing come to me in pictures, it’s hard for me to fathom it being any other way. So, when you pull up a memory of, say, a special Christmas from your childhood, you get sounds, and smells and sequences of events but not pictures? No visual image of that Christmas tree, for instance? And when you’re reading, you capture all the other senses of the story except the ‘picture’? Have you read Lord of the Rings? Or Game of Thrones? Those were really heavy in the descriptive writing department and, as I read, I basically had a movie running in my head. I heard the story but also ‘saw’ everything in my mind’s eye. How were those stories for you? Same as me but no visuals? And, then, when I saw the actual movies and the television series, I was really happy with how the production matched up to what I had imagined. The pictures I had in my head while I was reading matched up nicely with what I ended up seeing on the screen. Do you have the same experience? Or are the visuals that turn up on the screen a bit of a surprise for you? Genuinely curious!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No worries! I like hearing how other people's brains work as well. It's wild to me how people can think in pictures all the time. Do they just appear? Like, without you meaning to? Does it ever make it hard to translate your ideas into words?
When I remember things, it's usually remembering events and emotions. I can imagine stuff through other senses. Sound and physical sensations are the clearest for me. That's how I remember map directions--I can "feel" in my body which way I was supposed to turn. I remember how things look, too, but there's no image in my mind--I just kind of know what it looks like. It's hard to explain. Like trying to define the word "that". You can't define it as simply as you'd define a noun, but you have an instinctual understanding of what it means. So, yeah, I know what all my favourite nostalgic Christmas ornaments look like, but there's no echo of the sight of them in my mind when I imagine them. It's more just the concept of them, I guess.
When I'm reading, I usually focus entirely on the words. I can "hear" the words in my mind, and imagery conjures up clear and complex emotions, but I usually don't imagine stuff with my other senses at all unless I consciously choose to. The voice and the emotions are enough for me. I loved LoTR because Tolkien was so deliberate in his word choice and sentence structure; I can really get a sense of the inflection and rhythm of the description. There's a bit of sly wit snuck in there as well, and again, it makes the "voice" of the narration feel really alive. As far as seeing film adaptations, if the visual design causes the same emotional reaction in me as the language did, it feels like it "matched". So, I loved the LoTR adaptations just like you did. In general, I actually tend to like movies that are more stylized than realistic, because it's easier for me to connect to the visuals.
...I hope all that makes sense and I don't sound like I'm nuts!
FatPam007 · 17 points · Posted at 20:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For example when I think about something, I think about the whole idea, or the picture, and I don't think it in words, I think it like in a movie, with images. So when I actually have to talk about what I've seen in my brain, it's complicated for me and that's why I can't express myself that good when I'm not writing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
More of an experience than a movie, no?
ethanajn · 8 points · Posted at 00:58:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think to myself like I'm trying to explain everything to a mind reader. It isn't fun.
spetrillob · 3 points · Posted at 02:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you visualize stuff? I get faint images in my head, but nothing like how I would see it in reality
SuperMagic42 · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's kind of interesting that our brains all work differently. I wonder if it would be possible to share what some one is thinking, by maybe finding out what signals our brain uses for what things, and then using something to replicate them. Using that, it might even be possible to find things that some people couldn't understand before. I would start by seeing how our brains observe color. We probably don't know what color is when we're born, so how do we understand it? There are a lot more questions I have, but this comment is already long enough.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was a kid, I used to think if the world looked different through different eyes. Like would red be for you what blue is for me?
SuperMagic42 · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there are some very small differences. Maybe one person sees the world brighter?
SuperMagic42 · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or something like that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:31:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of synesthesia makes the spectrum even more mind-blowing. There are some people who can essentially hear colours or perceive physical characteristics of numbers in their mind.
I personally find using my mind's eye very difficult. I can remember situations, what people said and did and where it occurred, but actually reconstructing how the scene looked is really difficult. I also find it difficult to remember what people who I don't know well look like. I often tell people "I'm not good with faces".
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WargasKitar · 7 points · Posted at 01:54:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'd be surprised, but people do. If you can't - that's probably aphantasia.
YogaLatteNerd · 5 points · Posted at 02:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vision is when the photoreceptors in your eye send a signal to the occipital cortex in your brain. I’d guess that when people imagine/visualize something, they’re activating parts of the occipital cortex through a different pathway.
I can imagine my daughter’s face right now, and it’s so hard to describe, but yeah I can see her face in detail even though my eyes aren’t seeing it.
solinaa · 2 points · Posted at 06:10:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is thought that things that are precious/important to us may even have their own braincells called Grandmother cells. Faces are processed in a very special area called the FFA (the fusiform face area) in the Temporal Lobe (secondary visual cortex). The primary visual cortex in the occipital lobe processes very basic things like colours and corners and light and dark. We have a special area in our brains just for faces because they are so important for human communication :)
rebellionmarch · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see things I think about in my head, it is almost, almost like seeing it in front of my eyes, but not quite. Although if I close my eyes, yes I can visualize things as if with sight.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:56:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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rebellionmarch · 2 points · Posted at 03:03:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Buddy, just give it up, you lack something others possess, deal with it.
SuperMagic42 · 2 points · Posted at 03:22:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's trolling people here
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe you've never imagined anything before, but it's beyond what you see. Most people can overlay imaginary images over the real world, but you can also think of an imagine that is completely seperate to what you're seeing with your eyes. In a way, you don't need to look at it or be able to see it, because it's just an imagine in you're mind.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:57:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok then. You're trolling, or just very ignorant.
HeyItsMeUrSnek · 2 points · Posted at 03:06:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He’s trolling. I’m here from his post history after a similar exchange.
ween19 · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the irony of this post is killing me rn 😂
TellmSteveDave · 34 points · Posted at 22:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had to explain thinking to my 4 year old a few months ago. I asked him how many sides a square had, but wanted him to answer WITHOUT counting aloud. He didn’t understand how that was possible. “I don’t know how to think!”
So I told him to just talk to himself, but to not move his mouth and don’t talk.
Never thought I’d have to explain how to think.
cygnisinteranates · 19 points · Posted at 22:44:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's such a weird thing to realise though that you have a voice in your head processing things. My daughter asked me if I had a little voice in my head talking, when you say it aloud it sounds bizarre, especially as people don't really talk about it.
SuperMagic42 · 4 points · Posted at 03:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also does that voice have a specific sound, or is it just the idea of words?
throwaway1728495 · 6 points · Posted at 03:38:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it’s my voice
SuperMagic42 · 9 points · Posted at 03:52:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, it's just words until I think about it specifically. Then it can be any voice.
cygnisinteranates · 3 points · Posted at 08:34:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think for me it's a feeling bubbling in the back of my mind until I really have to think about it or make a decision, and then when it becomes more important it's a voice talking about how best to do something or the pros and cons of doing / not doing something.
kamomil · 3 points · Posted at 01:15:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My kid just turned 5 and he's so fun. He thinks for himself but he's still pretty innocent.
TellmSteveDave · 4 points · Posted at 01:17:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is 5 now too. My wife makes fun of me because I argue with him like an adult...but an adult who has the knowledge of a 5 year old
kamomil · 3 points · Posted at 01:58:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine has started rolling his eyes at me if I tell him some cheesy joke, or something he doesn't want to hear
AoXPhoenix · 2 points · Posted at 04:01:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do most of my thinking out loud and my wife always wonders what I'm talking about and I just tell her I'm talking to myself. She thinks I'm weird but its how I plan stuff best. I can think and do think to myself quietly but it's less effective for me
llama0llama · 28 points · Posted at 23:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, this fucks with my brain too. Especially how I "voice" my thoughts in my brain.
I feel like my thought voice has different volumes. I'll think something more distant, more silent, rather spontaneous, but voluntary thoughts feel louder, like they are in the front, closer. Sometimes I have more "silent" thoughts that I feel I have to acknowledge, even though I know I just had them so I think them again, "louder".
Also, sometimes my internal dialouge is formulated as if it was adressed to an audience.
It is soooo weird and I wonder if others think like that too.
capital_bj · 8 points · Posted at 01:39:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! Some years ago and for most of adolescence I heard loud voices. Like unintelligible yelling. I believe now it was likley from hearing my parents fight so frequently. It was scary and I couldn't control it. Sometimes it was accompanied by a "narrowing" of my real vision. Things would warp into this weird level where things were out of scale. Like further away than made any sense.
LuftDrage · 14 points · Posted at 21:36:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I figured out I could hear my voice in my head when I was young I was fucking blown away
ComfortableYam1 · 12 points · Posted at 01:30:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I love this topic and concept. Anyway, I’ve thought a lot about this and have some conceptual understanding that may be interesting to you. I’m no professional and really am just going off personal experience and slight amounts of research.
One thing I find amazing is what you mentioned as split second decisions. Ok, so I’m going to go from my experience playing video games. Growing up I played a ton of Halo and Halo 2, and other games. I have told people in the past that when I started playing Halo 2 online, it was the first time I made conscious decisions. I also figured prior to that time, I was really just a habitual person and didn’t really implement creativity.
So thinking about this notion of actually making decisions versus basing our lives on habit. As a gamer, I like to use the term “muscle memory,” this is kind of the mindless thing you do when you reach for your phone and automatically click Reddit and start scrolling. This “muscle memory” or habit is your mind making a regular decision without any thought or decision based on your environment trying to obtain a new outcome. It’s just comfortable and normal.
Now I’m Halo, the point is to not get shot or to perform an objective. Ok, so I’m Halo, I have muscle memory, just a series of things I have done and do regularly based on situations. Nothing really planned, just reaction, but I also have decision making. This is where I try to predict an outcome based on the environment around me. Ok, so how is this done?
Predicting a situation or event requires the experience and a group of memories that allow me to determine in my head a statistical probability of an event occurring. I can say, “Ok, 95% of the time that guy will do this, I will do this to counter it.” Or I can say, “Ok, 80% of the time someone would do this in my situation, I’ll do this instead.” Now what I’ve done is differentiated a self assessment versus assessing my competition. How can I do this? Well, if you’ve put 3000 hours into doing something, you can make those decisions easier than with 100 hours. How can my brain remember?
Your brain is like this electrical system that requires some kind of input to generate memory and processing capability. In Halo 2, there are like 20 maps. I’ve played on each of those maps enough where I remember ever millimeter of the maps. I’ve seen people doing the same types of things many times on the maps. When I’m on the maps, my brain is actually capturing my current situation but using my past to make decisions. It is processing the thousands of hours and patterns I’ve seen. I’m actually looked at the screen like everyone else but my brain is processing the prediction that I made last time.
When I make a prediction about a scenario, by brain remembers the prediction and pattern, just like it remembers the scenario. I’ll explain this from a recent experience. I play Rocket League, I started on the switch then started using the computer. The graphics on the computer were different. I was playing the same game, but the graphics looked different. I couldn’t help but focus on all the new stuff with the graphics even though I usually thought about gameplay! My mind could not draw my memories and patterns when it was seeing something new!
Ok, so why is that. I believe your mind requires similar events to determine an understanding you may already have. This could be true for traveling internationally. For instance, let say you go to France. You are seeing things that are in the US but for some reason, you’re stimulated. You are not consumed by the everyday problems because your brain cannot think about those things since it’s adapting to a new environment. Why people like hiking? Why they like to travel? It’s because what you see changes what you can interpret.
Ok, so I’ve touched base on some things and I hope you enjoy my concepts. I have more to say about this topic as I have actually had manic and psychosis episodes in the past and have been diagnosed with bipolar and been hospitalized because my brain basically short circuited. I kind of obsessed with this concept for 10 years trying to understand why my brain wouldn’t function properly so yeah, there’s that. Anyway, cheers!
Database-Error · 17 points · Posted at 22:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that we process things in a split second, it's that we perceive it as a split second based on the amount of information processed. Dogs see things ahead of time relative to us because their brains process information faster. So a moment you are experiencing as "now" has already been experienced as "now" to a dog. By a millisecond but still.
Time is relative. It can move faster or slower relatively. Time can move faster to you than to me. Time goes slower the faster you move, so if you're on a spaceship going close to light speed time will move slower for you relatively to me if I'm back on earth. 10 seconds for you could be 100 years for me. But both of us would experience time the same. If you looked out the window you'd see earth moving in hyper speed. And if I looked into your window I'd see you moving in slow motion.
So your brain thinks through electrical and chemical reactions. So naturally if we slow down time the atoms in your body and physical laws will slow down as well so your thoughts will be slowed down because it will take the electrical signals longer to travel, and the chemicals will take longer to interact with each other.
So there isn't a real "time" or pace of time, it's just how fast you can process things happening and for your brain to make you experience that as a second. And fast and slow is ofc relative the same way up and down is relative. There isn't a real up. Up can only exist relatively to something.
paul_pothh · 6 points · Posted at 23:05:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn I'm not dropping physics this is absolutely mind blowing
Database-Error · 3 points · Posted at 00:23:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out neuroscience too! Physics and neuroscience are really complementary. One explains the external world and the other explains the internal world. I recommend "the tale of the dueling neurosurgeons" by Sam Kean
IdreamofFiji · 6 points · Posted at 00:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earth itself is moving at ridiculous speed compared to the solar system which is removing at ridiculous speed compared to the galactic core which itself is moving at ridiculous speed in a way we can't even make sense of
Database-Error · 3 points · Posted at 00:44:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totes. We're stuck in our narrow perception of time. Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow creeps in this petty pace. It's so hard to try to think of physical phenomena outside our perception of them.
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 01:27:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understanding just how my fast garbage will never time travel really shook me.
Stale_Butter · 11 points · Posted at 00:15:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A dog ran in front of my car today. I was able to slam on the brakes and stop in time, but the whole way home I was thinking about it. I didn’t consciously think “hey, there’s a dog, let’s stop” it just happened on its own, like it short circuited and only later I realized what happened. On top of that I’m a new driver and got my license less than a year ago. It was surreal.
MoneyIsMagic · 9 points · Posted at 00:44:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was looking to the right while talking to my friend while driving and out of the corner of my eye my brain saw a deer and perfectly veered out of the way and back into the lane in one swift motion, before I even realized what happened.
My friend said it was the most impressive reflex he'd ever seen and I barely realized it happened.
Stale_Butter · 4 points · Posted at 01:08:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s awesome and exactly what I’m talking about. Reminds me of this video.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 02:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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rainey629 · 3 points · Posted at 01:04:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this type of thing really freaks me out. You have no memory of actually seeing it and making the conscious decision to hit your breaks?
Stale_Butter · 6 points · Posted at 01:06:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember seeing it and hitting my brakes, but it’s strange because I don’t remember hitting my brakes in response to the dog. I remember hitting the brakes, then realizing I did it because of the dog.
Nethlem · 3 points · Posted at 01:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people apparently don't have them at all, they only "visualize", while others are having literal conversations in their head.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 01:16:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness is something that everyone knows but no one can satisfactorily define
soyelsol · 4 points · Posted at 02:20:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to think that it all stems from “feelings”, intrinsic moments such as pulling away your hand from something that is hot. You don’t necessarily think “ow that’s hot, I should pull away” you just act on it. I like to think that this is the same way animals “think”, through impulses and feelings. The only difference being that we’ve developed symbols for these feelings and can therefore ruminate (which has made us exponentially complex beings).
An easy way to explore this is to take a symbol you understand, for example the stars above, and look at them without thinking “stars”. Instead, clearly see the stars in the sky and understand that they are stars. It’ll feel interesting and it might even be hard at first, similar to meditating and clearing your mind (it’s quite difficult at first). But the more you practice, the more you can achieve this way of “thinking without words”. I like to think that reaching this state of mind, along with exploring it often, shares insight to what it is to be alive and how blessed we are to have words and a deeper understanding of the world around us.
Silverpinkpony · 3 points · Posted at 02:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I study cognitive neuroscience and it even freaks me out/confuses the shit out of me
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:48:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I spend a solid amount of time thinking about this. I was catching lighting bugs with my son the other day and we couldn't get any. So we gave up and were sitting down and one flew over my head and I flung my arm up and caught it perfectly mid conversation. Like how the fuck did I do that? In less than one second I calculated exactly where to put my hand, above my head in a space I couldn't see at the time, and caught something. It's so mind blowingly insane how fast we can do shit like that.
I also shoot slingshots a lot and do something called intuition shooting, where you basically just pull the slingshot up and shoot at your target without aiming and I'd say I'm 90% accurate out to 25 yards. How? By the time my body starts to move to take a shot, I've already determined how that piece of ammo will fly, how hard I'm going to pull the band, what angle my arms, head, hands, feet and legs will be at etc. I'm sure a lot of it is just muscle memory, which is still crazy to think about.
Tsu_Dho_Namh · 3 points · Posted at 04:45:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a brief summary from the 2 cognitive science courses I took in uni.
No one really knows for sure.
Sanquinity · 3 points · Posted at 01:15:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about something similar from time to time. Is my red the same red you see? Do I experience the world the same way everyone else does? How many thoughts a minute go through other people's minds? Why do I notice things in my surroundsings that other people don't, and vice versa?
I got a kind-of answer on the first one about 2 years back. When I found out I'm mildly colorblind. So no, my red isn't the same as the red people without colorblindness see. My younger brother has it even worse. He's terrible at cooking meat, because with hamburgers for instance, he can barely tell the difference between raw red meat and brown cooked meat. Putting a large piece of uncooked and cooked next to each other is fine for him, but if there's still a part in the center that's still raw he won't be able to see it. It's almost the same shade of what he calls brown to him.
spaceboys · 2 points · Posted at 03:57:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got you mate, I've always ask myself if my color is the same as yours all the time...
KennySysLoggins · 3 points · Posted at 01:18:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
some people dont even have that
somedood567 · 3 points · Posted at 01:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
100% agree with this. Sorry for the cheap CV related award - I don’t have income these days but wanted to give you something.
cygnisinteranates · 2 points · Posted at 08:54:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks so much my first award 👍
PastSatisfaction · 3 points · Posted at 01:28:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is my new obsession. I love math and started out there, but if I could do my life over I would study and study cognitive science and learn everything I could about it.
JUICYRAMENBOI · 3 points · Posted at 01:54:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You gave me a brain orgasm
Gabe7777 · 3 points · Posted at 01:58:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read blink
Auberginecassio · 3 points · Posted at 02:49:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually have a song or a melody or a snippet of a song running through my thoughts. Sometimes I notice it, sometimes it's in the background until something triggers it to the forefront, but it's there. And its a rare thing for me to think in words. I think in images.
sint0xicateme · 3 points · Posted at 04:59:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a little late and haven't read the replies, so hopefully no one has linked these. But, no, not everyone has an inner dialogue.
It's pretty hard to comprehend. I know I wish mine would shut the fuck up.
Throwawya10 · 3 points · Posted at 05:32:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dialogue as in language? no, at least not in a way we’d understand.
I had oral surgery not too long ago, they put me on nitrous oxide, and I experienced a moment of this kind of perceived clarity where I just though “Wow... This is existence.” But for a few minutes, that was the last dialogue in my mind. My thoughts were thoughts and memories, but it went something like me picturing my mother, and feeling calmness and love, instead of me picturing my mother and feeling those emotions and making an internal commentary.
I feel like that’s the way animals think. they have distinct memories and know person from person, but instead of attaching dialogue to each memory or person, it’s just purely emotion. When my cat sees me he associates me with petting and sleeping and food, and (i hope) it makes him happy and calm. I don’t think he thinks “meow meow” (“i love him” in cat, if you were wondering), I think that his thoughts are simply translated into raw emotion. That’s just my theory
kamomil · 5 points · Posted at 01:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can't understand it. We are using our brain to understand our brain, it's too complex for us to understand it. We can understand less complex things though.
zlatan868 · 4 points · Posted at 01:20:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
🤯
ciononostante · 2 points · Posted at 01:16:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Sometimes my mind blows my mind”
capital_bj · 2 points · Posted at 01:27:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I go through projects, repairs, mechanical things to kickstart rem. I will try different approaches and go through the whole project. I never get to half of them so when it gets closer to go time I call it back up and go through it again. In my mind it helps to be prepared. The reality is that it can be pretty overwhelming and depressing sometimes. Mostly because I don't have the time or money to fix something. wether it's my own problem or for friends and family sometimes I can't block it out and it becomes distracting and draining.
Stuff I can picture quite clearly, people stay blurry most of the time...I think
Fantastic post op
gloriousfire101 · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can def people hear themsels think
spaceboys · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
holy...
gloriousfire101 · 2 points · Posted at 04:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I blow your mind
arce_c · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And further of conversation, language itself has been created by us, but even a baby who doesn't understand our standard definitions and language can do this, so maybe internal 'concepts dialogue' may be posible in many different ways even in other thinking beings like dolphins
supergiraffe475 · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also how weird and broken it is sometimes like most times you can make split second decisions but sometimes you think you have one extra stick of string cheese and you are super confused for a solid 3 min
rocketkitty22 · 2 points · Posted at 02:15:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read Blink by Malcom Gladwell
cygnisinteranates · 1 points · Posted at 08:49:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was recommended this book recently, does it go into Maslow's hierarchy of needs? Thanks for the recommendation.
frascht85 · 2 points · Posted at 02:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how every thought you have is in English? I’ve always wondered how that works with people that are born deaf.
cygnisinteranates · 1 points · Posted at 08:47:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or bilingual people, is it a mash up of the two languages?
errythangsowrng · 2 points · Posted at 02:26:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think quicker than I speak, It’s weird though bc I’ll see something, recognize it, think something (Typically funny) as inner dialogue, and laugh to myself, then I’ll say it aloud. Its like repeating and laughing at your own joke? Weird.
NippleBarn · 2 points · Posted at 02:33:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always wonder this about animals. Like can my dog be sitting there just like consciously thinking about something? Wondering why his food bowl isn't full yet? I always ask my fiance these questions and she doesn't get where I'm coming from
cygnisinteranates · 2 points · Posted at 08:45:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dog is mostly living moment to moment but he definitely has the ability to plan and scheme. He waits at the window for about a half hour before I'm due home from work, that must be a thought process.
Anatharias · 2 points · Posted at 02:34:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socrates and Plato would be proud of you 👍
cygnisinteranates · 1 points · Posted at 08:42:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never thought of myself as a great thinker 😂
weaseldream · 2 points · Posted at 02:37:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman... the book is exactly what makes your head ache... a fascinating read...
Weird_Vegetable · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bought a copy of the imaginary by Jean Paul Sartre because I had your same thought. I try not to think about it anymore, that book just confused me even more.
jjtwiggs · 2 points · Posted at 03:16:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theres a really cool vsauce video on youtube about making decisions and how your subconscious makes the decision before you do. Not directly related but if that kind of stuff interests you, this might too!
hididdlyhoenbrino · 2 points · Posted at 03:23:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're into that the books Carl Jung wrote are for you, mind blowing to read about the unconscious mind and how bizzare and miraculous the mind really is. For me it was realizing how much of the mind just lays dormant while our waking consciousness is basically a small boat shining a spotlight onto a dark sea. Along with realizing that we have shockingly less control over the forces in our mind than I ever thought was the case, kind of frightening actually
neverlearnedhowto · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So there’s a lot of different things mentioned here, but i’ll focus on one. Thoughts.
Imagine your brain is a spider-web like map of electrical circuits connecting nerve cells. Each nerve cells, or group of nerve cells, represent an idea. Let’s use « bird » for exemple. Let’s also say that you grew up with a parrot, therefor when you think of « bird », « parrots » comes up quickly. This is because every time you make a connection between two ideas, the link (connection) between them strengthens. This is why trying to not think about something is impossible (because you are telling your brain to look for cues that you will think about x thing, triggering all ideas which are strongly connected to x)
I heavily recommend Thinking Fast and Slow, by Dr. Julia Shaw (an absolute goddess of psychology)
ween19 · 2 points · Posted at 03:48:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so like I went to school for psychology and not once did ANYone EVER TELL ME that some people literally can’t visualize stuff. Maybe I missed that class but I feel like this should be a WAY more emphasized topic in the study of ya know... psychology. I want a refund!!!!
The_Wrong_Fella · 1 points · Posted at 12:04:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get scammed b*tch! (I don't mean it though ;) )
ween19 · 1 points · Posted at 16:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahahahaha RIGHT?!! and now they’re sending ME requests for donations in the mail.... like for real? You don’t think I paid you enough already? This is a joke right?!
The_Wrong_Fella · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smh
EchoPerson14 · 2 points · Posted at 03:55:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this neat book called Homo Deus about the future of humanity, and the author said that they think consciousness is a "byproduct" of decision-making combined with emotional capacity, or something similar to that. Thought it was pretty neat, that's my view of it.
triana_cover · 2 points · Posted at 04:14:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you read Blink by Malcom Gladwell? Great book that talks about this thought process
Dieslexyia · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe the reason for this is because our brains are actually in two parts, and each is responsible for different things. Some thoughts could be coming from a part of your brain that you aren’t consciously aware of, but that is still working to figure things out and help you understand the world.
If for whatever reason you sever the connection between the two halves (lobes?) of the brain, they can start to disagree, and that’s super crazy. Look it up!
Johnmau51003 · 2 points · Posted at 05:03:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should listen/read "Behave" by Robert Sapolsky. It's one of Bill Gates's recommendations from a few years back. "He starts by looking at the factors that bear on a person's reaction in the precise moment a behavior occurs, and then hops back in time from there, in stages, ultimately ending up at the deep history of our species and its evolutionary legacy."
kiriyamamarchson · 2 points · Posted at 05:11:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever tried meditation? Think and breathe and let your thoughts go. Think about your thoughts as they occur?
cygnisinteranates · 2 points · Posted at 08:22:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I like meditation, I do a few guided ones with my children and they really enjoy it and they always sleep well with a calm mind.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:41:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Julian Jaynes wrote a book that might be up ur sidewalk. Think it was called "The Bicameral Mind". Dope ass book Edit: "The Origin of Consciousness and The Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind"
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to understand all about this, which in my opinion is beyond fascinating, you should check out Dr. Joe Dispenza’s YouTube Channel
Supah_Cole · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similarly, David Chalmers' Hard Problem of Consciousness might be an interesting read for you. It asks why we are able to experience and sense things, and why we are not autonomous like robots, but rather present and mindful in a very individual way.
Voittaa · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:15 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people don't have inner thoughts and internal dialogue! https://www.iflscience.com/brain/people-are-weirded-out-to-discover-that-some-people-dont-have-an-internal-monologue/
puntoputa · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fellow neuroscientist here. Thought is crazy! I spend all day thinking about thinking and it’s totally mind-blowing (pun-intended) how massively complex that computer is
wristsdontwork · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:33 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a lot of replies so far and it may have been mentioned but Blink by Malcom Gladwell is a great book that talks about this split second thinking.
brereddit · 2 points · Posted at 02:06:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human mind or consciousness actually exists outside the physical universe. Aristotle was probably the first to realize this when he said the mind isn’t anything until it is thinking something and what it is is the thing it is thinking. Not materially...but formally.
PredictabilityIsGood · 3 points · Posted at 03:52:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness is an biological abstraction. It exists entirely inside of the universe. Technically tables and chairs are an abstraction as well. But you don’t say that tables and chairs exist outside of the universe: this is because the complexity of the concept you are describing isn’t sufficiently “mysterious” by our every day standards. But even something by definition of mystery isn’t outside of the realm of the physical universe. It’s just a currently unexplained process.
Regarding the self reflecting mind, it’s just another high level error correction pattern. You have your sub-conscious which performs automated actions. It’s somewhat useful to have an observer that can feed forward useful information to the subconscious. Notice how every thought you generate isn’t preemptively thought of. It just arises. You’re a spectator. Being able to feed forward information for your observations is an evolved trait. Every “decision” we make is post-hoc. Only after training, habitual practice, education can we feed forward information in a manner that seems to be pointed. Rest assured, the direction is entirely biased by your bodies biological signals as well as condensed past memories. i.e. not outside of reality.
brereddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Platonic forms are certainly an abstraction that has been contemplated for what, 2400 yrs? Consciousness is an absolute unexplained phenomena by any definition of a scientific theory.
If you disagree, you should publish and then claim your Nobel prize.
I’ve been working in AI for 10yrs. I’m not impressed with your attempt to deploy technical jargon to support a banal materialist viewpoint. Boring.
Consciousness is not local. That’s been scientifically proven. Your brain processes mambo jumbo is obsolete as a horse and buggy. Giddy up.
PredictabilityIsGood · 0 points · Posted at 15:41:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, a whole 10 years?
The guy who’s explaining to me that consciousness exists outside of reality is explaining that technically bound explanations (which are not direct schematics that take into account all 72 trillion cells in your body) are mumbo* (btw) jumbo? Hi Deepak Chopra.
No person with a significant degree of understanding of even basic artificial intelligence concepts like back propagation would ever describe it as existing outside of the universe. Abstractions are bound at the very least to the rules of the universe. Regarding Plato, the only way you can verify the truthiness of your BELIEF in platonic form is by testing those ideas WITHIN reality. I was being nice before, but i’ll be terse now.
If you have in fact worked within AI for 10 years, I am astonished that you have been capable of twisting and then rooting your beliefs so deeply and I truly feel sorry for you.
But before we finish, at what point does context play a role within considering consciousness local? In other words, at what bound do you believe that consciousness exists? If your answer is none because as you’ve previously said you believe it is outside of reality, then your “explanations” are about as useful as the book of genesis. If however, your answer is, “it’s complicated” then I agree, but that does not then alow you to then substitute: “not in the universe”. Those moves are not open to you regardless of how much you believe they are. Perhaps you should use that consciousness to feedforward and correct for your errors before you speak. You may now continue to burn down the straw man.
TLDR; //absolutely useless piece of code that describes your position (function(){ //enter useless logic that holds no shared scope with reality and really ends up being whatever you feel like writing. }).bind(undefined)
Before you decide to reply, i’m letting you know before hand that i’m muting this conversation. I’m not going to argue with what essentially amounts to creationist rhetoric.
brereddit · 1 points · Posted at 16:20:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You use technical language so you can pretend to be smarter than others. Then someone familiar with the art catches you and you respond with even further programming references again to make yourself appear intelligent. That’s not intelligence — it’s bullshit.
What takes the cake is you don’t realize there is no consensus model of consciousness in science....instead you pretend there is one. Pffft, friggin jag off.
jackiepele · 2 points · Posted at 04:41:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meditate
emslaya · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try acid lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you ever have those sort of...”pre-thoughts?” Like i’ll think of something before thinking of it.
gobusspy · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow thanks for the existential crisis
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What gets me is the lack of purchase between felt qualias and the actual outcomes-- when we weigh options and they sort of richochet around, and somehow something comes ahead-- etc. etc. Watching becomings like this can get really detailed and freak me out.
phoenix_12_GT · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My inner dialogue makes me sad.
cygnisinteranates · 2 points · Posted at 08:41:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well you talk to yourself more than anyone else talks to you so be kind to yourself. I know it sounds soppy but maybe some positive affirmations every morning would help rewire the way you think about yourself. Give yourself some credit when you do something well, even small things.
We all have negative thoughts about ourselves but the older I get the more I realise other people really don't care too much about me, how I look or what I do. They may think of me for a split second so my opinion is the most important one when it comes to me.
phoenix_12_GT · 2 points · Posted at 17:58:51 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks
ufo21 · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
EDIT: I am blown away hearing that people can’t visualise things! So crazy how we all process information differently
This! I can’t comprehend that people ‘think’ differently. I kind of hear my voice in my head but don’t ?? Along with visuals but constantly narrated.
pippypup · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about this too much! I work with a lot of deaf individuals and I constantly think as a hearing person what my internal dialogue “sounds like” compared to them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think about it
Yunggodyitz1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As we age and our minds develop I think we begin to use instinct in our thoughts it isn’t necessarily that we aren’t thinking about it but the fact is we don’t realize what we are thinking because are mind is so massive
Dutchwoman · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a teacher, sometimes I think about how many thoughts I have in a second or few seconds. I have to predict things correctly, say things in the correct order, watch the entire room of movement, make my face look certain ways, all at the same time. Everyday. Crazy.
PassiveAgressiveGunt · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was watching the flowers episode of, "Moving Art," on Netflix recently. It made me wonder, how did all these molecules miraculously assemble themselves? How did they figure out what works, and what doesn't? Was there thought involved?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this Question...
IPutTogetherLEGO · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will blow your mind then.
When you do anything right now, you aren’t thinking and deciding, just reacting based on something you previously decided. If you want to think and decide what to do about an event, that can only be a future event that might happen, and then you set in your mind what you will do about that event, if it does happen.
This is what worry and anxiety are all about, just planning for possibilities...
greywolf248 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come you can control the accent, pattern, emotion of your inner dialogue but you can't control volume?
GruffMcguffStuff · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eat some mushrooms
Macubex123 · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve mean noticing this a lot more ever since I started meditating recently. The amount of things i cycle through is insane.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Internal dialogue is not my default state. I have to concentrate and force myself to internally monologue/dialogue.
It feels so unnatural. Like staring at a wall and talking to it
DarklordH24 · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The decisions you make is nothing but a combination of binaries, think of something like eating an apple follows with if you want cut and eat it or just eat it as is, wheather you wanna wash it first or not and many more complex binary decisions is behind eating an apple. It also divides in different branches. Everytime you make a decision electrical signal flows through neurons from your brain to the cells of the part with which the following actions are to be done. So while you make your one decision many electrical signals passes back and forth between the various neurons to make the action more and more clear. And every time your brain does an action it makes a connection between the cells involved to do the same action in more efficient and easier way in future.
Paraxic · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
at least y'all have thoughts, my minds permanently silent.
mikebaker1337 · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I often wonder what the internal dialogue of deaf people is like.
mikael-mikkelsen · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hitler has Infernal dialogues, The must have Been mad
darthrosco · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn now my mind is spinning
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness is pretty crazy when you realize that life is a combination of systems with a very high chance of occurring, and somehow, through evolution, these systems have changed and developed to create consciousness.
Dialgalazer · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:27 on June 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well said
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cargo space?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well here’s a doozy for you think about:
You’re not your thoughts — you’re the observer of thought, that is why marketing is so effective since you can’t really predict what you’re going to think, but another person can, because they know what you will observe and by directing your perception they can manipulate you into thinking things that you believe you thought of yourself when really someone is just holding the hand to your brain to some type of product/belief.
denverbronco27 · 3313 points · Posted at 18:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin, no matter how its explained to me.
[deleted] · 60 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m mostly confused by blockchain.
[deleted] · 75 points · Posted at 04:16:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain Rules
1a. A blockchain is when you
1b. Okay well listen. A blockchain is when you chain the
1c. Let me start over
1c-a. The user is not allowed to do a calculation to the, uh, database, that prohibits the user from doing, you know, just trying to guess the number. You can't do that.
1c-b. Once the data is in the cloud, it can't be over here and say to the database, like, "I'm gonna get ya! I'm gonna be a four now! You better watch your butt!" and then just be like he didn't even do that.
1c-b(1). Like, if you're about to download and then don't download, you have to still download. You cannot not download. Does that make any sense?
1c-b(2). You gotta be, calculating with the data, and, until you just throw it.
1c-b(2)-a. Okay, well, you can have the data up here, like this, but then there's the blockchain you gotta think about.
1c-b(2)-b. Fairuza Balk hasn't been in any movies in forever. I hope she wasn't typecast as that racist lady in American History X.
1c-b(2)-b(i). Oh wait, she was in The Waterboy too! That would be even worse.
1c-b(2)-b(ii). "get in mah bellah" -- Adam Water, "The Waterboy." Haha, classic...
1c-b(3). Okay seriously though. A blockchain is when the user makes a calculation that, as determined by, when you do a move involving the numbers and field of
2) Do a blockchain please.
Clash-the-Corrupted · 19 points · Posted at 05:24:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baseball copy pasta in Bitcoin. Nice. I applaud.
[deleted] · 40 points · Posted at 22:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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hawaiikawika · 19 points · Posted at 04:12:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That didn’t explain anything to me because even that was higher level than my understanding.
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 04:50:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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pendulumpendulum · 1 points · Posted at 15:10:51 on June 6, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what if you fake the ledgers on thousands of computers?
0o0oo0ooo000o · 13 points · Posted at 05:10:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
hawaiikawika · 8 points · Posted at 14:20:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay this makes more sense. I think I just needed explained to me in terms I understood. People always try to explain it in “simple” terms that are basic to crypto currencies, but I don’t really understand those so it all still seemed abstract to me. It’s basically like a bank account with a lot of people checking the books.
Ndvorsky · 4 points · Posted at 15:17:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The other half of blockchain can't really fit into the excel example. The "chain" part in blockchain comes from the process by which changes are made to this public ledger. You must know the entire, complete, and accurate history of every transaction in the past in order to make any changes. This results in an unbroken "chain" of transactions that makes up the data of the system. Unlike an actual spreadsheet where you can just look at how it is right now, see how much everyone has, and make changes. This adds security because it becomes practically impossible to fake the past because you would need to fabricate an entirely new history up to the present before the rest of the world makes just one more change.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 2 points · Posted at 17:36:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bingo
CHUBBL3S · 1 points · Posted at 07:47:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a bunch of rules, just one: everyone has to see everyone else's copy and agree they're the same, for the next block to be validated.
As long as everyone agrees it says "CHUBBL3S now owns all the bitcoins" then that's what it be.
If it's just me, or less than 51% of all nodes, I'll be ignored.
It's called a consensus model.
noknockers · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A chain of blocks, each intrinsically tied (through maths) to the previous one, forming a chain.
malisc140 · 594 points · Posted at 20:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
All these computers are trying to lockpick open a box with more locked boxes inside it.
So think of a locked chest inside a locked chest, which is inside another locked chest, etc. Each layer is currency you can "own" by unlocking it. After they unlock a layer, they keep digging into the next layer for more.
In this example if you unlocked layer 72, you would then keep that unlocked check labeled 72 as proof. You don't get the contents of the chest, you get the chest itself as currency. Other people can continue to work on layer 71.
There's also a network so the computers can verify nobody is cheating. Kind of like sharing a checkbook with lots of different people. If 1,000 people agree on a single statement, it's likely to be true.
The idea is that anything can be money. Bitcoin is like using the answers to complicated math problems as money.
Twomekey · 196 points · Posted at 23:32:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who then uses these answers and for what?
1AMAVAN · 158 points · Posted at 04:05:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answer is more of a verification. The first person to find it gets awarded the chest. It kinda works like this so; the chest has the number 1684894789471615231/8978974615897 written on it. This number represents the question: "Which two numbers when multiplied produce this number?" The hard part is finding the two numbers, the easy part is checking that they actually multiply to the right product. You get the chest for finding the right two numbers and everyone else can check you very easily.
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EHerobrineE · 71 points · Posted at 05:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what the 1000 person checkbook is for, to show that you own that chest
[deleted] · 31 points · Posted at 05:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who chooses how the keyholes are shaped? If the math question is so difficult to solve, why does it not take very much to come up with? And how does the thing that makes the long time to calculate math questions, know the answer? Can we predict which math questions the maker will make?
Vercyx · 42 points · Posted at 05:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I’m not super smart about Bitcoin (so I can only answer your math questions mainly), and I’m not the person you’re replying to, but afaik, these massive numbers (or “keyholes”), are HUGE semi-prime numbers.
The question, then, is what are the factors of these numbers.
Semi-prime numbers are similar to prime numbers, except they can be divided by 2 other factors. These factors are typically (if not always) prime numbers.
EDIT: semi-prime factors are always prime numbers. Thanks, u/g1ngertim!
Multiplying prime numbers together is an operation that’s really easy to do, but finding the factors of a semi-prime number is almost impossible depending on the size. This leads to a mathematical operation that is easy to do one way, but much harder the other.
And because we got to the semi-prime by multiplying two numbers, those numbers are the answer to our question, therefore the system that is creating the question already knows the answer.
g1ngertim · 6 points · Posted at 08:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Always.
Assume a|s, b|s, with s being semi-prime. i.e., a*b=s
If a is not prime, then there exists x, such that x|a, which implies x|s, meaning s is not semi-prime.
Edit: unless s is both a cube and a semi-prime. So, either a or b must be prime, but not necessarily both.
Vercyx · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makes sense, I assumed so, but didn’t want to make a claim without checking first, and it was like 2am haha. Thanks for clarifying, I edited my previous comment.
asdonne · 10 points · Posted at 05:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a one way hash. You take a number, put it into an algorithm and it spits out a new number that's however many digits long. There is no way to work out the original number from a resulting hash.
Those "keyholes" are leading zeros. Take a look at this block and look at the hash. https://www.blockchain.com/btc/block/000000000000000000124c0502c5f20d3a48ce906b98e5455d4d9ff74ebfd547
The only way to find that hash is to try a lot of different numbers untill you get one. You know it's the right answer because it's got the right number of zeros at the start. It's easy for everyone to check cause it's one calculation if you know the original number but it's very time consuming to find it to begin with.
C-RAMsigma9 · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nonce 1,963,525,847
Ndvorsky · 4 points · Posted at 15:03:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoever invented bitcoin chose at the beginning how the keyholes are shaped. He didn't pick each one but there is an algorithm that can make infinite keyholes.
I can invent any number of math problems in seconds but it will take you minutes to solve them. In reality, there is only one "math problem" that is being solved many times. What changes each time is what the inputs to the problem are. As a simple example, the math problem is x+y = z.
X is the input that changes every time and is actually the previous answer to the math problem. This is how it becomes a blockchain, you need every previous answer to find the next answer.
Everyone is trying to find out what y is but the equation is impossible to solve so everyone just guesses numbers until the answer is correct. This is why it takes so long, you basically have to try every number before you find a correct answer.
The answer, Z, is always zero. So x+y = 0 kind of. As more people join to try the numbers then the group as a whole can try every number in existence more quickly. More people working on the same problem makes it go faster right? I do not know why making the process go faster is bad so you will just have to accept that. What happens is that Z is actually an accuracy value where we can make the equation harder to solve as needed; there are actually many answers to every equation. So the final equation would really be like X+Y <= 1e-z
Hopefully, the part just above explained this for you. Everyone knows that an answer is just a number that is really close to zero.
Ding Ding Ding! This is the one and only reason that blockchain exists. It is impossible to predict any future equations until you solve the current one. The reason is that every past solution is part of every future equation meaning they must be solved in order.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shape of the keyhole is the difficulty of the math problems. (I think that's what you mean) This is set by an algorithm every 2 weeks. If the blocks are being solved too quickly the difficulty increases and vice versa.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, that is the keyhole.
Who knows the algorithm, and is it predictive? Who knows the answer already, does the algorithm? If it isn't predictive in that, knowing the algorithm, makes you know the answers- how do we know that the algorithm will continue making solvable math problems?
Sorry this is just the mind of someone extraordinarily bad at quantative thinking.
Who runs the algorithm? How many PCs? Is that also distributed? Who gets rewarded for making the problems? I thought it were only for solving them.
How do you scale the difficulty? If it takes less computational power to make a problem, and a lot to solve it, does mathematical problems exist that are so difficult, that it would be impossible to solve it with current technology- in a timeline smaller than the countdown towards the heat death of the universe?
Will Bitcoin ever run out? Will we ever run out of novel math problems/keyholes?
irfan1812 · 2 points · Posted at 12:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats A LOT of questions that you asked but all can be solved with google.
No one knows the answer to the hash until it is solved, it is hard to find the answer, but easy to verify. I hope you have some basic knowledge about hashes before i continue. Basically, you start with the transaction data for that block and the block signature, then based on the block difficulty you must form a hash that makes the hash several consecutive 0s followed by some data by adding a nonce to the end of your data and hashing it. If your hash has the required number of consecutive 0s, you send the string of data to the rest of the miners in the chain to hash it and verify that it is real.
If it is real it is added to the block chain and the miner who solved it gets his reward.
A lot of your questions are based on thinking that it is a math problem, really all the computers are doing is changing the nonce at the end of the string many times per second and hoping they get the hash. i am sure there are more complex ways to more efficently produce nonces but if that were the case it would become significantly easier to mine bitcoin.
No one needs to be rewarded for making the problem because the "problem" is very simple, form a hash with consecutive 0s.
You scale the difficulty by changing the number of 0s.
Interesting that you asked "will bitcoin ever run out" because it actually does. There is a fixed amount of bitcoin that can ever be produced. This is around 21 million.
getmydataback · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:35 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is/was this determined? Will this limit ever be reached or is there some log/expo involved with 21 mil being a theoretical value that is never reached? I.e., 21 mil is an asymptote such that rewards for solving will get infinitely smaller but never reach 0?
This has always thrown me. Seems like there is point where solving the blockchain is no longer worth it & when that happens this entire thing grinds to a halt. Or is it assumed that those with a vested interest will keep things chugging along?
Am I out in right field here?
irfan1812 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:59 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
It will keep halfing so yes the asymptote is around 21m
FUCK_ME_IN_THE_ASSS · -1 points · Posted at 05:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Én meg nem.
shouldbebabysitting · 1 points · Posted at 12:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your identity is recorded with your secret number. However if someone could solve that math problem, they could steal your money.
If quantum computing takes off, all existing Bitcoin could be stolen.
cryptotraderKO · 1 points · Posted at 14:47:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except then all bitcoin is worthless, which is why it likely wouldn’t happen like that
shouldbebabysitting · 1 points · Posted at 14:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first team to do it will make a huge amount of money. Much later the last to do it will break the entire system for the lulz.
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shouldbebabysitting · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the first quantum computer beat a regular computer in Sept. It will be 10 years minimum before Bitcoin is broken.
Bitcoin wallets will increasingly be "stolen" (https://techcrunch.com/2019/05/07/binance-breach/) for a while before the announcement. Because after the announcement, all Bitcoin will be worthless. It would be like if a cheap gold synthesis machine could be built. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synthesis_of_precious_metals#Gold_synthesis_in_a_nuclear_reactor
If you could crank out hundreds of pounds of gold for pennies, you'd have to slowly sell supply or it would all instantly be worthless.
ALiteralLetter · 3 points · Posted at 16:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So Bitcoin is a reward for getting the correct answer? Like when an Elementary school teacher gives a student a lollipop for answering a question?
1AMAVAN · 1 points · Posted at 16:23:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much. Money has always been based on things that are restricted. Gold was first and it worked cause it was just hard to find and there isn't a lot. Then we got currency which had the issuing gov's big 'ol military behind it. And now we get Bitcoin which is hard to get cause you gotta do a lot of calculations.
SuchKill · 2 points · Posted at 18:28:16 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This one comment made bitcoin suddenly click for me. So, it's like the people solving the calculations are comparable to the miners in the gold mines. They acquire a certain amount of gold which can be used as currency (since mining is difficult). There are others who do not want to do the mining and can purchase/trade for the gold from the miners and can then use it as currency. Correct?
Help-plees · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:51 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
DUDE I ACTUALLY HAVE THE SLIGHTEST IDEA OF WHATS GOING ON NOW
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 04:23:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not used for anything but verification in the future.
The processors are essentially given a hard math problem. The work on it until someone solves it, and claims the reward. The answer is written down so everyone can verify that it was in fact the right answer.
These math problems are really hard to solve, but if you had the right answer, it's very easy to look at it and go "yep, that's the right answer because everything adds up".
As far as I know they're useless problems. Not sure why it's not something potentially useful like finding prime numbers or calculating digits of pi. Probably partly because the current method allows for easily adjusting difficulty to match the current processing power, instead of getting either exponentially or incrementally more difficult when it shouldn't.
Baloneysammich888 · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is the math problem written? Who is writing them?
Lord_Alonne · 11 points · Posted at 06:21:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's written by a simple program because creating them is simple. Take for example the numbers 123456789 and 987654321 and multiply them in your calculator and you get 112056087902635269.
Now ask a computer what number beside 1 can you divide 112056087902635269 by and get a whole number. If you pick the right numbers there is only one solution, the two numbers you picked.
It takes a powerful computer a long time to figure out the answer because they basically have to just keep dividing by every number until they get a match, but it takes a pocket calculator a second to create the problem.
Baloneysammich888 · 2 points · Posted at 06:25:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got it. And what is the deal with it getting more difficult every few years-? Saw that in an earlier comment.
Lord_Alonne · 5 points · Posted at 06:34:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's less that it gets more difficult and more that the reward decreases. Let's say my problem was worth 10 bitcoins at some point. The very complex system looks at how many Miners are putting in how much computing power and time into it and creates scarcity by saying "okay that's enough of a problem this complex awarding 10 bitcoins, now it awards 7.5"
The system could make it more difficult by just picking bigger base pairs to multiply, and sometimes it does, but it has to be careful with this because one extra digit means exponentially longer solve times whereas decreasing the reward by a fixed amount is easier to control.
The system for Bitcoin award regulation is far more complex then the one generating the problems themselves.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a hash and the difficulty is controlled by forcing more or less leading zeros in the solution. The more leading zeros, the more tries it takes to guess, the harder it is to solve. The fewer leading zeros, the easier it is to guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm actually not sure about that. I'll let you know if I get a chance to look it up. I imagine it's a part of the protocol that all the participants of the network must use. The code/rules that must be followed to be a part of the bitcoin network, if you will.
LegitRenegade · 40 points · Posted at 01:07:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I've heard of is it being used for research and data. For example, there is something going on in the pc community called folding@home which uses people's PCs to run simulations and create data on the coronavirus, which helps scientists create a vaccine for it. I feel like bitcoin mining is somewhat similiar, in that data is being collected and processed.
[deleted] · 29 points · Posted at 01:35:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not. Bitcoin uses HashCash as a proof of work. Basically, it adjusts a nonce value in the block until its cryptographic hash is greater than a particular value--the difficulty factor.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:24 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol nonce means pedo in england
Twomekey · 25 points · Posted at 01:15:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what's the data actually being used for? Or is that a big secret?
rinkiyakepaapaa · 61 points · Posted at 01:34:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think I kinda get bitcoins but this just confused me more.
paul-writes · 49 points · Posted at 03:36:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was lost at “All these computers are trying to lockpick”
experiment636 · 28 points · Posted at 03:55:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I don’t understand the concept of money period
heimdahl81 · 1 points · Posted at 09:20:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This explains it really well while being wonderfully entertaining.
Message_Me_Selfies · 20 points · Posted at 04:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin is created every day by 'miners'.
To mine bitcoin, your computer has to solve hard math. The first computer to solve it, gets that "chunk" of bitcoin, and all the miners go onto the next unlocked math problem.
This is entirely arbitrary. They could just hand bitcoin out, if it were designed that way. It was decided by humans that this is how they wanted the currency to work, because it gives it some sort of non-arbitrary value.
Bitcoin is not based on anything, and no one person controls it. You can't just "print more bitcoin" or it would be pointless.
Making it createable by everyone, but slow and hard to do was the solution to generating more currency when the currency has no authority.
Koalasss · 15 points · Posted at 05:00:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who created these math problem? Where are from? What happens when no one solves it?
Lord_Alonne · 8 points · Posted at 06:11:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The math problems are easy to create, very hard to solve, they are created by a simple program, the same one that hands out bitcoin. They are always solvable but each layer gets harder and harder. Theoretically at some point it will cost more in electricity and time to solve a layer then the value of the Bitcoin, at which point most miners would stop and the quantity of the currency would increase drastically slower until it basically stops entirely. We already see this compared to years ago.
The simplest explanation of the problems that get solved is asking "what whole numbers can X number be divided by besides 1 and X?"
So take the number 27, a Miner runs a program that divides 27 by every possible smaller number. Can it be divided by 2? Nope. Can it be divided by 3? Yes, 27/3=9. That layer is solved and the Miner gets some bitcoin. A computer can run that check almost instantly as it only checks 2 numbers before it reaches the solution.
Now instead of 27, let's make up a much bigger number say 123x457=56,211. Ask the computer the same question, what two numbers multiplied together equal 56,211? It has to check thousands of combos to get the solution when I made up the number in seconds on my calculator. In reality, powerful computers can still do this very fast, so the numbers they work on are gigantic and they get bigger with each layer.
Dr_Dingit_Forester · 1 points · Posted at 07:21:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So once we run out of math problems to solve no more Bitcoin can be created and the entire system will destroy its own economy by becoming digital mercantilism. Everyone will board their digital gold, no value will be created, money will not move, everything grinds to a halt.
Bitcoin is doomed to fail due to its own design.
Lord_Alonne · 2 points · Posted at 07:26:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin doesn't run out of math problems, it stops being produced at 21million coins. The reasoning behind that is out of the scope of this discussion.
However, the biggest threat to Bitcoin isn't the finality of the coins, it's when people who are gambling on the hopes of it continuing to rise as an "investment" get spooked and choose not to. Without demand, the value can plummet to nearly nothing as it isn't tied to an economy or resource and is only rarely used for goods transactions.
Dr_Dingit_Forester · 2 points · Posted at 07:29:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that basically how the IRL economy already works? Everyone just kind of assumed everyone else is trustworthy enough to be worth the numbers in their bank accounts, and when people lose that trust the dollar loses value and our house of cards crumbles?
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 07:40:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely. But the USD for example is backed by the US govt which has a lot of power, tools, and incentive to stop that from happening.
Look at the economy right now, without intervention so many people couldn't pay their bills, feed their families, or keep a roof over their heads. With the instability of the economy, the dollar could become unstable. So even though the govt is skewed heavily conservative, they are pulling out all the stops from dropping interest, to writing checks to the American people to provide damage control, because they are incentivized to do so and have those resources.
Bitcoin is totally open, unbacked by any entity with tools to maintain value. If investors (gamblers) get spooked everyone holding Bitcoin is utterly fucked whereas nothing short of the collapse of the US govt would render your USD worthless and if that's the case you have bigger concerns then your finances like how many bullets you own.
kingdweeb1 · 8 points · Posted at 06:04:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a singular problem, with many answers. Put a number through a function, and check the output. Does it have a bunch of 0s at the beginning? Good job!. The 'function' is unpredictable without doing the work, so you can't just create bitcoin - You need to try hundreds, thousands, millions, even billions of combinations until you hit that money.
gracefullyInept · 10 points · Posted at 05:09:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
but... you can "mine" more, can't you? i don't understand.
mypaycheckisshort · 11 points · Posted at 05:30:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's 21 million bitcoin total and every few years the difficulty doubles. The electricity costs to currently mine 1 bitcoin is $3000ish. Difficulty doubles again in June; kind of a big deal if you're into crypto because price goes up in the following months.
gracefullyInept · 3 points · Posted at 05:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh, that makes more sense! thank you for the explanation. i still don't quite grasp the concept of cryptocurrency, but now i get that aspect of it, at least.
fuckgoldsendbitcoin · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This may be pedantic but I have a small correction: The difficulty is determined automatically and is based off of how much total computing power is going into mining bitcoins. This is to ensure that only a certain amount of bitcoins are being mined. If the total computing power never changes then the difficulty would stay the same forever. What you're thinking of is the reward amount. At predetermined intervals the amount of bitcoins rewarded for solving a block gets cut in half. The difficulty of getting that reward stays the same (well kind of since the difficulty is always changing like I said) but just the reward gets halved.
loganv2018 · 6 points · Posted at 05:27:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I understand mining more is the only way to increase the amount of bitcoin available. However, it is a really slow process so while it is continuously being generated, there is not enough to inflate the currency
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 07:49:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm that case, don't more advanced computers and people with lots of them have an inherent advantage?
Message_Me_Selfies · 3 points · Posted at 09:26:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. People pool together thousands of computers power and split the prize.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:24:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't that also imply that already-rich people have an advantage? They just buy a larger amount of more powerful processing because they can.
Message_Me_Selfies · 1 points · Posted at 10:36:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really, because the winners of these races are normally huge pools that one person could not feasibly own enough processing power to make a big difference.
They might split the reward based on how much processing power you contributed... but if you are buying good hardware to mine bitcoin you are losing money.
At least for bitcoin, I'm not sure on other cryptocurrency.
cowgod42 · 20 points · Posted at 05:22:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like asking what all the paper money is being used for. Imagine an alien saying, "Why is everybody trading paper rectangles? I get that you can buy things with them, but what are they actually for? Is there some secret use for these paper rectangles?"
The answer is that paper money isn't "used" for anything (except trading). It's just that it is something that is very hard to make more of, so we use it as certificate of trade.
The problem with computers is that you can just copy any data, so it didn't seem possible to make something that you couldn't copy. The genius of Bitcoin is that something digital was finally made that you couldn't easily copy. To "make" more Bitcoin, you are forced to do a shit ton of math problems (e.g., billions and billions), so it can be used for a certificate of sale, just like paper money, but digital.
KawasakiKadet · 6 points · Posted at 07:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This, right here, is absolutely the best description/explanation of how/why Bitcoin works. Absolutely. People are getting hung up on the whole “Well what do you DO with it?” aspect, without realizing that their currency (which everyone loves so dearly and generally understands) is basically doing the same exact thing.
It just that in one instance, some governing body has control of the minting process, limiting the amount of currency in the system at any given time.. thus, it has value.
Whereas with Bitcoin, while not controlled by a single entity, it IS still limited/controlled by way of extremely lengthy/difficult mathematical processes needing to be solved in order to add more to the total sum, at the cost of electricity and time, which effectively creates a soft-cap on how much can be (profitably/feasibly) made.
Ultimately, Bitcoin is worthless. In the same way that currency is worthless. Really, everything is worthless until WE, as a society, assign it value.. But doing this with something like.. sand or leaves or rocks.. would not work very well, as anybody could simply get their own to use/add into the system and then you would never be able to tell what anything was REALLY worth. Prices of things would just exponentially increase at a massive rate until you needed ‘10million pounds of rocks’ just to buy a soda, because there’s nothing limiting someone from walking down to the beach and picking up free ‘money,’ basically.
It’s really pretty fascinating when you think about it.. Especially in the context of Bitcoin, because society/humanity is beginning to uncover just how widespread and deep corruption in government and ruling entities generally goes, which causes erosion in the faith and trust of those establishments. So, I personally believe that something like Bitcoin was inevitable and will absolutely become a necessity whenever we reach the point that we no longer trust other humans to be in control of the systems that we live by. Which is happening at an exponential rate.. It’s just a matter of whether people, collectively, will realize this and change/adapt.. or fight against it/dismiss it as a novelty/unnecessary - as many have done with Bitcoin - and ultimately leave us in a position where society, for the most part, collapses before rebuilding differently.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 07:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically, it's time to go back to bartering then? At least then there's no need for arbitration; stuff is just worth what you need it for, and vice versa.
KawasakiKadet · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what way is that better or any improvement over our current system? How do you obtain and retain wealth in a barter system? Stockpile on items you don’t need? What if you need access to emergency “funds?” Do you have to frantically run around looking for people that need whatever specific items you have?
No, bartering is most definitely not a good system to go back, especially given the absolute logistical nightmare that would result in trying to implement it on any sort of meaningful scale.
deputypresident · 1 points · Posted at 12:29:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, in real life to make more money you have to work harder or smarter, or cheat. Steal or rob. Whatever it takes.
But in OP's example to "make" more bitcoins you are forced to do a shit ton of math problems? Well, I can understand how you think it's the best description of how bitcoins work but how does that equate with real life? I'm asking since the later parts of your comments you touched on corruption in society. And maths isn't exactly my strength despite my decades in banking and finance. So I will probably suck in mining (in bitcoins).
KawasakiKadet · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that’s not what they said at all. YOU aren’t personally doing the math.
TresTurkey · 10 points · Posted at 03:53:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's not used for anything, the idea is that the more work put into it by someone, the likely the block is legitimate. Hence at this point, you would need an impossible amount computing power to "hack" Bitcoin. Atleast for now untill someone has a working quantum computer.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the data works like this, people want to do transactions with bitcoin. There's a max size limit. The client picks the highest paying 200ish transactions or so and adds them to a block.
To finalize the block so the chain accepts it, it says you have to have X number of leading zeros when the block is hashed. There are two nonce values in the block and you increment them to get the desired hash. Once you submit the work to the block, the work is verified, it adds the block to the chain, and everyone starts over because the only valid blockchain is the longest blockchain.
uebdkisbwnmakd · 11 points · Posted at 04:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its more comparable to diamonds deep in the earth. Its worth comes from the amount of work it takes to get them. Lab made diamonds, even though they are bigger and prettier, are cheap because they don't require as much work.
Anything_Random · 1 points · Posted at 06:44:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I understand of cryptocurrency this is completely wrong, bitcoin mining is purely an exercise in cryptography there’s no simulations being run or anything like that.
CAJ_2277 · 1 points · Posted at 08:56:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain is being used that way, not Bitcoin. Blockchain is the technology underlying Bitcoin.
In broad terms, the concept is a “distributed ledger”. That means data is stored, multiple times, all over a network rather than stored on a disk or server.
That makes the data more secure, and also harder to corrupt or alter: many true and correct copies exist, so trying to mess with 1 or 10 or a 100 is easy to spot and reject.
The same concept is used to distribute calculations and such.
arnav2904 · 0 points · Posted at 05:03:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a ton of projects like this such as SETI@Home, (help find aliens) and Einstein@Home (help find gravitational waves and Rosetta@Home (something about mapping proteins)
sinisternathan · 17 points · Posted at 01:19:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So if a Bitcoin is a secret answer as you've described it, why can't I send it to 2 people at the same time and get free money? What if I send it to somebody and then advertise the secret answer, does it become worthless?
1AMAVAN · 15 points · Posted at 03:41:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is the neat trick and why it works. The answer is only secret while you don't know it. As soon as you find it you yell, "I got it!" to anyone who will listen and then say you now own that unlocked chest. As long as no one else can prove they yelled out the answer first, everyone agrees you are in fact the one who now owns the chest. You wouldn't want to send the answer to someone in secret because then you'd just be giving them the money you worked for.
malisc140 · 22 points · Posted at 01:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not really an expert at all but you're basically looking at money with a serial number. If you try to dupe it, it probably won't work because that serial number can't exist in two wallets at once. The entire system is designed to fact check itself. If you want to know more, I recommend doing additional research. I tried my best to give a birds eye view of the system.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 7 points · Posted at 05:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He is explaining the mining aspect. Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
asdonne · 2 points · Posted at 06:06:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's similar to trying to handing out two checks for the entirety of you bank account.
Only one will go through and some one will end up short changed.
It's not going to get free money but you could use it to try and scam someone.
You advoiding this by waiting for the transaction to be confirmed before handing over the keys to that lambo.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're describing a 51% attack with a double spend transaction, which is possible, if someone controls enough of the network to create block 101 where you send X Y bitcoin.
Then when X gives you the item, you immediately go back to block 101 and create block 101 and 102 before anyone else can create block 102. It's a double spend attack.
What happens is most people wait until X number of blocks have been created after your transaction.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 05:35:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I think you just made it worse for people that don’t understand it
st_steady · 5 points · Posted at 07:34:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah i know right
Ndvorsky · 1 points · Posted at 15:08:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I DO understand it and that comment still made it worse.
Danbearpig2u · 9 points · Posted at 05:56:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do the chests come from? Is there a central thing creating them?
thatnameagain · 17 points · Posted at 05:16:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You had me until here.
I sort of understand how Bitcoin works as a blockchain, but that's not really the issue. I'm with OP to the extent that I don't understand how Bitcoin functions as money to anyone who doesn't have a lot of bitcoin already.
You can hardly buy anything with Bitcoin. Hardly any retailers accept it directly. You need to use an intermediary to turn it into some form of legal tender (i.e. actual money) and then use that currency to make the purchase. I believe there are methods that make this a fairly seamless process, but still, technically, those purchases aren't made with bitcoin.
This is why I subscribe to the argument that Bitcoin is actually a commodity, and not a currency.
If it became widely adopted enough then sure, it could be considered money, but one of the most fundamental components of a successful currency is keeping a relatively consistent value and bitcoin, well...
malisc140 · 6 points · Posted at 05:24:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well anything CAN be used as currency. Whether or not you should tho...
That-Sandy-Arab · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but his point is a little different from that. It's using a different definition like how a chicken objectively isn't currency but id trade you a few for a yak
CHUBBL3S · 4 points · Posted at 07:40:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same reason I can't pay for fries in America with Hungarian Forint. It's definitely a commodity to me, but it doesn't mean it's not a currency.
There are actually three fundamental components of successful currency, that detract from each other: fixed value, liquidity, and sovereignty.
If you print a bunch of your local currency willy-nilly, the value decreases due to inflation. [sacrificing value]
If you want to keep your dollar stable, but don't want to peg it to another currency, you will have to restrict who has access to it through interest rates and bonds. [sacrificing liquidity]
The most stable, freely available currency would be one adopted globally or pegged to another dollar. [sacrificing sovereignty]
That all to say that Bitcoin is a currency, just as much as any other, and it isn't hard to be one. Having purchased two cars and a house using cryptocurrency, people are certainly using it. Its liquidity is normal and regulated through mining, although maybe the stability of value has been heavily decreased in support of its sovereignty.
TL;DR If you don't use bitcoin at all then you are purchasing it as a commodity, but that doesn't preclude it from existing as a currency.
Impossible Trinity
asdonne · 4 points · Posted at 06:20:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your judging Bitcoin as a currency based on its usefulness to you.
Your right that there's limited places where you can spend Bitcoin directly but you can.
The price is volitile and can be very volitile. But so can traditinal currencies.
You points could argue that it's not a very good currency and I would have a hard time disagreeing with you.
With Bitcoin I can pay anyone, anywhere, any value. And it will take 10-30 minutes.
No bank fees, no International transfere fees. No Government asking why I'm sending 10 mill to Mexico. No 3 to 5 days to process.
It might not get used much as a currency but it certainly can be and that's what's important.
thatnameagain · 0 points · Posted at 06:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm judging it based on its usefulness to the vast majority of people.
Not really, no. When there is volatility in traditional currencies to the extent we see with bitcoin, it almost inevitably leads to their devaluation. An established currency can go through some volatility and keep it's place because it's been established, but bitcoin is not really an established currency and this is a huge hurdle for it.
No you can't. You can only do this with individuals who accept bitcoin.
With regular currency you can pay anyone anywhere any value as well, and it takes like 20 seconds.
Lots of tradeoffs inherent here.
It can be, but the point is that it makes perfect sense why its a mystery to most people.
asdonne · 3 points · Posted at 06:57:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I can't pay anyone. I can only pay people I'm standing in front of. Hell I can't even pay cash to someone in the same state as me because of travel restrictions let alone on the other side of the world.
If im paying people oversees I can only pay using some 3rd party if the other party accepts it and if the 3rd part allows us to.
deputypresident · 1 points · Posted at 12:48:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think OP is referring to remittances transactions like telegraphic transfer or internet banking that takes some 20 seconds to complete. Which you could do even though the other person is not in front of you.
thatnameagain · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have these things called credit and debit cards now. Also tons of cash transfer apps like venmo.
Sure you can. You can I'll give you my venmo ID and you can give me some cash for an experiment?
Same with bitcoin, except if you cont Bitcoin as a party you need a 4th party as well to enact the transfer to cash unless that person happens to want Bitcoin.
asdonne · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:58 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venmo don't operate in my county so I can't do anything with a Venmo ID. See my problem? It's not cash, it's a 3rd party.
Cash doesn't care who I'm paying because it's cash. Bitcoin is the same.
thatnameagain · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t really see your problem because there are probably a dozen apps that do operate in your country that you can use with others.
You can’t give someone bitcoin if they don’t have a means to receive it.
asdonne · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:26 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can't give some one venmo or PayPal or visa or any other app if they dont have means to receive it either.
Anyone can use Bitcoin. Anyone. You can't stop some one from using Bitcoin if they want to.
There are dozens of ways to send and receive Bitcoins. Compile your own wallet or sign up for an online service. Make a paper wallet. Whatever the choice is yours. They all work and they all work together.
If two people want to pay each other in bitcoin they Can. Same with cash physical constraints aside. Not true with Venmo, Payal, banks or the rest as we just found out.
Venmo stopping me from making an account. No one stopping you from getting a Bitcoin address.
For most purposes your right in that there's a bunch of apps that are more useful for most thinngs but Bitcoin is universal. That's is power. Bitcoin won't stop me sending you money because it doesn't operate in my region. It won't stop me from sending you 6k because there's a limit of $5k. It's not going to suspend my account or do anything thing else because it's not an app. It's not a service. It's a digital currency.
thatnameagain · 1 points · Posted at 04:30:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's correct and that's just sort of how digital payments work.
It's definitely true enough that most people can make these work for them one way or another. People choose these methods over bitcoin, because they utilize currency people are familiar with and know won't vary wildly in value, and the barriers to usage are relatively low even if they exist.
All I'm saying is that that's a more niche advantage than it sounds, given that most people don't have issues sending regular currency to one another via various alternative means, even if it's not exactly as clean as Bitcoin. For me, and I assume the vast majority of people, the tradeoff of having uncertainty about the value and the inconvenience of having to exchange it for currency in order to be able to use it at 99% of businesses.
Tophrrr · 6 points · Posted at 06:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i understand it even less somehow
malisc140 · 2 points · Posted at 06:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I tried :-\
MythicMango · 6 points · Posted at 03:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you do with the chest you own? what do you fill it with?
SirWaddlezAlot · 14 points · Posted at 04:11:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peanut butter
JBSquared · 10 points · Posted at 03:49:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 6 points · Posted at 05:38:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
what
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:38:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But where does the money come from? What are the loot boxes?
Coolsacs_2 · 3 points · Posted at 06:47:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If i let my computer mine for bitcoin for 1 hr and earn like 0.00001 bitcoin or sth like that.. what does it mean ? Did i crack open a layer of chest ? Did my computer solve 1/10000th of a equation?
malisc140 · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As I understand, that 0.0000001 bitcoin has value. You could in theory trade it for something, just as you would paper money or gold, or whatever currency.
Coolsacs_2 · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea i get it that my 0.00001 bitcoin has its equivalent US dollars... But just wanted to know the mechanics of how I actually earned it.. and who gave it to me ? Was the bitcoin created out of thin air ?
malisc140 · 3 points · Posted at 07:27:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Again I am not an expert but from what I understand there's only a set amount of Bitcoins. That number will not change. You earn them the same way you would by chiseling out raw gold or other precious metals from a mine shaft.
You get the bitcoin because of the way bitcoins are self-checking across a community of computers. You announce "I've discovered the answer to Unit #2382342344142414 is "42", then all of the community bitcoin checks your claim. Then if they agree you found that answer first, you get to keep the 0.0000001 bitcoins now. The same system also keeps track if you purchase anything with it. It's like a 1,000 people going "Yep. I saw Dave spend those Bitcoins. They belong to Wendy corporation now." because the system is constantly fact checking.
In a sense, yes bitcoin was created out of thin air but so is our current regular money. In a way, the best thing Bitcoin has done is make people more curious about money and start asking questions. Like where did our money come from? Who gets to decide what $1 is really worth? Why does it change over time? Why do the exchange rates differ so much? Is currency only based on a tangible good?
deputypresident · 2 points · Posted at 13:03:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But our current paper money isn't created out of thin air. You get them as reward for your honest hard work (cheat, fraud, theft in some circumstances). Work that created real value in real life like nursing or law enforcement jobs. Not like mining in front of a computer.
As for the rest of your comments on the philosophy of money, well, you don't need bitcoins to learn this. This is not a criticism on your explanation though. Because from reading the thread the only thing I'm slightly more clear now is that those mining activities create values. Which is ok, but what if the world refuse to accept it as payment/currency.
Noobster646 · 2 points · Posted at 08:15:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still didnt get it
tytyty5x · 1 points · Posted at 10:09:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that’s actually a really good explanation. Props to you!
T3ABAGG3N · 1 points · Posted at 14:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What
Cameltotem · 1 points · Posted at 15:25:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Solve math problems for who and what? Are they just arbitrary problems?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:06:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but why is that worth anything. Doesn’t make sense.
Fubai97b · 67 points · Posted at 05:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine if everytime you revved your car it solved sudoku puzzles which you could then trade for meth...
iknowyourbutwhatami · 9 points · Posted at 15:20:44 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The quote is
@Theophite
Not meth. Nice try though.
CHUBBL3S · 15 points · Posted at 08:31:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the most accurate answer in thread.
carc · 30 points · Posted at 02:13:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Imagine the internal ledger at a bank. It stores all the transactions between its customers in a centralized database. This data is used to show you how much money is in your account, and the historical transactions are all available for you to see.
In order for this to work, the bank needs to be trustworthy.
Bitcoin is very similar; there is a ledger for transactions, but instead of a secret internal database, it's all publicly available data. The ledger is called a "blockchain" -- the technology that makes it possible to ensure that the transactions on the ledger can be both trusted and accurate.
The blockchain is literally just a chain of "blocks" -- where each block is a mini-ledger of thousands of transactions.
So how can a public ledger be trustworthy? Mathematical puzzles!
The last block in the chain presents a mathematical puzzle that requires a lot of computational power to solve. Everyone who is trying to "mine" or earn bitcoin is keeping a mini-ledger of recent bitcoin transactions, hoping that their mini-ledger will become the next block in the blockchain.
These "miners" are also racing each other, hoping to be the first to find the solution to the current puzzle. It requires a lot of processing power, and a little bit of luck. The first to solve the puzzle wins! And as proof they solved the puzzle, they present the solution for everyone. This is called "proof of work." And that earns them newly-minted bitcoin!
Once the block is verified as the winner, the new block (the mini-ledger) is added to the blockchain; the "glue" between the blocks is the puzzle/solution set. And once the new block is added, it contains a new puzzle to be solved!
The whole process repeats as more and more blocks are added to the chain. And the cool thing is, you can easily start from the first block and quickly verify the integrity of the chain all the way to the end.
While someone could "forge" a list of transactions in their block, and solve the puzzle, this will be shot down in the verification stage -- the network will be angry that the winning ledger doesn't match their own records. Without consensus about the new ledger, the block is rejected.
Because the reward for winning is so high, it's better for a bad actor to simply accept the reward and play by the rules instead trying to throw out enough computational power to try to trick the network. Which is practically impossible, by the way.
That is how you can get a public ledger that can be trusted by everyone who uses it, without trusting a bank or government. You just trust consensus and math!
DailyTrips · 14 points · Posted at 03:39:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK. That all made sense.
But how does that block end up having currency? Like, how can it be sold?
JBSquared · 28 points · Posted at 04:13:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same reason that the USD is currency, despite it being a piece of paper that's not even being backed by gold anymore. We agree that this piece of paper with a certain design on it is worth $1. We agree that another piece of paper with a different design is worth $5.
Oh, that piece of paper with a certain design? We won't accept that here. That's a Euro. We don't accept that here. Why? Because nobody else in the area accepts those.
Any piece modern currency has no inherent value beyond the materials it's made of. We as a society assign it meaning. Gold was a practical currency. It was somewhat rare, and it was shiny and nice to look at. That's the reason why gold is a good investment. It's almost never going to completely lose its value, unless the entirety of human society decides that gold may as well just be another lump of rock.
Bitcoin and other cryptocurrencies have no inherent value. They're a series of numbers stored on your hard drive. From a utility standpoint, they have value in being a completely secure, completely digital, practically anonymous currency. When Bitcoin first started, the users were usually just cryptography/computer hobbyists that thought it was a cool and novel concept. Then, around 2010, someone started a Bitcoin exchange site.
One person decided to give Bitcoin a monetary value. It started at like, a fraction of a cent per coin. Then, as more and more people started to agree that Bitcoin had a monetary value, the price steadily rose. A couple months after the first Bitcoin market, someone made the first real world purchase, buying a couple pizzas.
As time went on, more and more services started accepting Bitcoin. Most notably The Silk Road, a Deep Web marketplace for drugs and other illegal products. As Bitcoin started being used as a legitimate currency, it's strength started to resemble one.
Tl;Dr: Money is only worth what we agree it's worth. If we as a group of people say that we accept cryptocurrency as payment, then it gains value.
DailyTrips · 6 points · Posted at 04:18:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh....that's trippy af
noknockers · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And the difference between money and Bitcoin, is that governments can just keep printing as much money as they want.
Where is Bitcoin has a finite amount and it's very predictable in its issuance.
DailyTrips · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait why can't people make more? I thought it was just math so can't they just make more math problems?
noknockers · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The solution takes a certain amount of time to find, that's the limiting factor. And everybody is trying to crack the same problem at the same time.
DailyTrips · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That didn't really answer my question.
Why can't there be more made? You said its finite. Why is it finite? Who is stopping someone from making more?
noknockers · 3 points · Posted at 22:34:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The Bitcoin network has a set of rules which govern how it works. If you want to play the Bitcoin game, you need to follow those rules or everyone will kick you out of the team.
Other networks (ethereum etc) have other rules. If you want to play their game, you need to follow their rules.
The rules generally dictate how much Bitcoin can be made, how hard it is to make, and how much there is ever to be made.
Everyone in the network makes sure everyone else is following the rules. Bad players are called out and excluded from the network.
If the amount of bad players exceeds the number of good players, and all the bad players are playing together, they get to decide how it works.
The problem is if that happens everyone will leave the network and the price would be worthless. See Bitcoin Cash as an example. So keeping it fair is an incentive mechanism in itself.
So it's sort of a self governing mechanism in which one can see everything that's happening and decide if it's fair for everyone or not.
Edit: Bitcoin feels very very complex before you understand what every part does and how they all interact, but extremely simple (and crazy powerful) once all those parts become intuitive.
DailyTrips · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ya. Its trippy alright
noknockers · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just a big logic puzzle with an incentive mechanism attached.
To be honest, the best way understand is to just buy some, send it to someone else, sell it. You'll understand it a million times more than reading words.
sunday_wanderer · 4 points · Posted at 04:54:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok this made a lot of sense to me.. I get the blockchain, problem-solving, ledger piece. What I don’t understand is mining and the “puzzle”.
Where do you find these transactions? “Publicly available code” - where is this located? How does the average person just pick up their computer and go find it?
If I understand correctly - my computer, and everyone else’s, generates strings of code for “transactions” it performs, yes? And these are results of ... what? Every email I send? Every purchase I make online? But it’s just numerical code that doesn’t contain any info on my credit card or the contents of my messages?
Also - once you access that public database or blockchain... what does a puzzle look like? How would anyone know what answer it’s seeking if it’s just endless numerical codes?
Lord_Alonne · 10 points · Posted at 06:58:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Restart your understanding of the block chain. Start from the beginning.
Think of the ledger like a Google Docs spread sheet that anyone who has downloaded it can type in. That is the publicly available code.
In the early days the problem might be as simple as "what 2 numbers when multiplied together equal 27 not including 1?"
The answer is 3 and 9. The first person to shout that answer at the ledger gets the Bitcoin. Everyone else knows they are right because they can put 3x9=27 in their calculator and their answer is time-stamped on everyone's ledger as so everyone knows they had the solution 1st.
Now the problem may be what two numbers equal 112056087902635269 not including 1? Solving that puzzle takes tons more computing power and time but is just as easy as solving for 27.
Just divide by 2, then 3, then 4... Until you divide by the number 123456789 and get the whole number 987654321. Shout it out on the ledger 1st and you get the Bitcoin.
The puzzles themselves are "simple" but the solution is basically just to guess and check gigantic strings of numbers until you brute-force a solution.
Your "wallet" consists of Bitcoin linked to a solved puzzle. So say Bitcoin number 1 was awarded for solving the puzzle "27" you can then send that Bitcoin27 from Wallet A (yours) to Wallet B (anyone else). That transfer is recorded on the public ledger for all to see.
What you get in exchange isn't part of the ledger, only the transfer. This is why it became popular on the Silk Road as you could buy illegal products/services and the only record is that Bitcoin changed wallets not the reason. For the exchange or who owned the wallet. The wallet is almost like a bearer bond, whoever has the login info can freely transfer the value.
gratefuluwu · 6 points · Posted at 07:24:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get all this, but who generates these puzzles and why? These puzzles aren't worth anything, so why try to solve it?
Lord_Alonne · 6 points · Posted at 07:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A computer as simple as a calculator generates it by picking two RNG prime numbers and multiplying them together.
The why is... Because someone programmed them to. The puzzle solutions reward Bitcoin, that's what they are "worth." That's why people choose to dedicated time and processing power to solving it.
It sounds more like your question is why is Bitcoin worth money which is a whole different rabbit hole.
Edited for clarity.
Ndvorsky · 2 points · Posted at 15:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, the puzzles are worthless but the true value was the work you put into it, it was inside you the whole time. :)
But yeah, people want to solve the puzzles because you get awarded some new bitcoins for doing that. Basically it is a limited license to straight-up print money for yourself. This is good because you can buy things with this money you printed. Anything is money if you think it is. Some ancient people use shells as money, some people use bitcoins as money, and some people use green rectangles made of paper and cotton with numbers written on them.
The puzzles are generated by an algorithm that was made by the inventor of bitcoin.
carc · 1 points · Posted at 10:33:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose is to generate the proof of work -- that you're actively supporting the network by being part of it, and that you threw processing power at it and solved the puzzle. It means that you're a serious contributor to the network and have a way to prove that you performed the work.
The puzzle is automatically generated after each new block. I can go more into the puzzles, and how they're generated and solved, if you'd like. The cool trick is, once you have the solution, it's not computational expensive to verify that it's the right answer to the puzzle.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't know why you haven't gotten the actual answer to your question yet...
I'm a bit hazy on the details, but the purpose of the puzzles is to deliberately make it hard to add blocks of transactions to the chain, which is done to make it very unlikely that there are multiple forks of the chain at any given time (as it takes much longer to solve the puzzle than it does to let everyone know that you have, I think). This is important because if it is possible to have multiple forks, then it is possible for people to double-spend, because they could give the same bitcoins to a different merchant in each fork. By waiting for a certain number of blocks to be added, the person receiving the bitcoin can have arbitrarily large confidence that there are no other forks and so the transaction won't be thrown out. If I recall correctly, the system is designed so that the puzzles always take roughly 10 minutes for a solution to be found; in particular, the puzzles are made increasingly difficult the more total hardware is being thrown at it.
Because solving these puzzles is expensive (and increasingly so the more total computational power is being thrown into solving them, as it's a zero-sum game), there is a reward for finding a solution. In the early days this reward consists primarily of bitcoins plucked out of thin air, but the system is designed so that over time this component of the reward decreases to zero. Eventually, the puzzle solvers will have to rely on the second component of the reward, which are transaction fees that you have to pay for your transaction to be included in a block that a particular puzzle solver is working on.
noknockers · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spending all that time and resources trying to solve puzzle means that you're a good player, not a bad one. You literally have to invest your time and money for a reward.
Once you've spent it time and money finding the solution, you broadcast it and everybody else we confirmes it.
If you don't have to correct answer, everybody else just rejects it, wasting your time and resources. If you do, everybody excepts it and you get the block reward - Bitcoin.
The solution to the puzzle means nothing, it's the time and money spent to get to that solution which proves you're trying.
Henkersjunge · 0 points · Posted at 07:01:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "puzzle" is : Find a hash with a given cryptographic hash function, that for the current block(last blocks hash, the transactions, some freely choosable data) has DIFFICULTY_LEVEL leading zeros.
What that means is: Build a skeleton of the block and randomly guess values until the result has enough leading 0.
CHUBBL3S · 0 points · Posted at 07:49:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
explorer.bitcoin.com
bitcoincore.org
liIboyy · 2 points · Posted at 05:06:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This
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They_Are_Wrong · 1 points · Posted at 15:22:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People can't just sit there and write out the problems to try to "solve" them. There are computers that are constantly churning out algorithms and trying to basically crack the correct answer to the puzzle. Like, bitcoin farming servers can be tens of thousands of computers in a room with a ton of fans trying to keep them from overheating
daPterodactyl · 1 points · Posted at 07:49:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where or How do people find the puzzles
carc · 2 points · Posted at 10:36:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The puzzles are automatically created from each new block. If you have bitcoin mining software, it detects the current puzzle and has you try to brute force a solution.
[deleted] · 70 points · Posted at 20:15:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how money is really just numbers in a computer and we all agree that the banks take care of that accounting for us? Instead of the banks we let the miners computers take care of the accounting. And we pay them for the accounting by giving them some bitcoin.
PM_MEOttoVonBismarck · 14 points · Posted at 00:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was actually really good, thank-you.
PoopMonster696969 · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been trying to explain how Bitcoin works to my family and friends for years now and this explanation may be the best
stop_selling_drugs · 17 points · Posted at 04:02:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn’t understand it either until somebody explained it to me like this: on the Internet you can copy a digital file, a photograph, a song, a movie and you can make as many copies as you want. You can manipulate it anyway you want.
Someone figured out how to make a digital thing that can never be copied. You can own it and only you can own it. He made it a currency and only 21 million will ever be made. Because it’s unique and tamperproof, it is attractive and valuable to a community of owners.
The more people I’ve become interested in bitcoin the more it becomes legitimized.
fuckeditrightup · 2 points · Posted at 08:45:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, but who made it in the first place? And what's to say they don't have 100 million more stashed away somewhere?
carc · 5 points · Posted at 12:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin has less transparency than normal money. All wallets are visible; you just don't know who owns the wallets.
The original (anonymous) creator of Bitcoin is either in hiding, is prison, or is dead. Their wallet hasn't been touched in many, many years. But they are sitting on a stash of about 2 million out of the 21 million bitcoins in existence, if I remember correctly. Nothing has been moved out of their wallet, though some people think it's funny to give a few bitcoin to their original creator's wallet. It's unlikely the wallet will ever move -- if it does, it will be a really, really big deal.
adeon · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He could also have misplaced the key for the wallet, although that would be rather embarrassing.
fuckeditrightup · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:40 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
holy shit, really?!?!?!?! jesus, never realised that. Ok, that makes more sense.
ProoM · 4 points · Posted at 09:07:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ledger is public, so we know how much are there in circulation. Anything that's not on the ledger doesn't exist. Common misconception is that you can keep your bitcoin on your computer/phone/etc - you can't, all you can is your private key (essentially a password) that unlocks a row in that ledger. Some people hold bitcoin in their mind.
CHUBBL3S · 0 points · Posted at 08:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since everyone on the network is required to copy it, I think it would be more accurate to say it can never be manipulated.
As Syndrome might put it, "Once everyone makes a copy, then no-one else can."
Zaidinator7 · 10 points · Posted at 21:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
watch the video on YT by 3blue1brown
All_Out_War · 9 points · Posted at 05:29:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm doing a little bit of research on Bitcoin and Blockchain, but am no means an expert on the topic. This is a gross oversimplification of how it works, but I think it gives a good illustration.
Bitcoin is a virtual currency that offers verifiabilty without a centralized entity. For example when you buy something like a pack of gum with a credit card, this is known as a transaction. It goes to the credit card company and back to the store. The store that you bought the pack of gum from knows that the transaction is valid because it trusts the credit card company. Without trust commerce as we know it can't exist.
In Bitcoin, there is no central authority verifying transactions.
The question is then how do we establish trust?
Bitcoin operates on a technology called Blockchain to achieve trust.
You can think of Blockchain like a train. Every train car called a block, has a cargo of transactions in it, and whats called a proof. The proof in essence is a number that is created by taking the last train car's cargo, and putting it into a very hard math function. This way, each train car is connected to the last by the proof. This is how you achieve verifiablilty because you can't modify any of the previous train car's transactions without messing up the proof. In order to modify one of the cars, you'll have to modify the entire train, which is extremely difficult and time consuming.
You can also think of the train as having two versions. The first version is what is globally accepted by the community, and the second is what each person uses locally. Each person only modifies its local copy, but eventually, these local changes are propagated to the global version called the ledger. The global ledger can be thought of as just an idea of what the community accepts as being correct, and isn't stored in any one place. Think of Fahrenheit 451 where there are no physical copies of books. If a majority of the community has memorized the whole Harry Potter series, what we say about what's in the books is what's true for everyone.
How does this all relate to Bitcoin?
Well all new transactions need to added to a Block (train car), but each transaction can only be added once to the train, otherwise you run into a problem called double spending. If i have $20, I can't buy $40 worth of items.
This is where mining comes in. Mining is the process of doing extremely complex math equations to try and generate the proof, at least in Bitcoin. In other crypocurrencies, there are other methods. Think of a math test where the first person to turn it in that's 100% correct gets an A, and everyone else fails. One of the questions I saw earlier was what is all of this work for and what is it used for? For Bitcoin it goes nowhere. The work has no purpose other than to generate the proof and to make sure that it's hard enough to mine a Block so that the currency value doesn't get inflated. How do you reduce inflation? You keep increasing the difficulty of the proof equation.
The work of everyone in the classroom is wasted. This is one of the major criticisms of Bitcoin, due to the enormous waste of electrical power for no tangible benefit.
This person gets the reward of the Block, or a certain portion of the cargo in the train car as a reward, this is a "bitcoin". Everyone now has to try to mine the next Block with a new set of transactions. Unlike a classroom, there is no teacher who knows the answers, and can check the work. For Blockchain, the classroom checks the work.
A student might not know what the right answer is, but it knows when its wrong. It uses another formula for checking. If the question is what is the capital of Pennsylvania and I answer 5, then it's obvious that my answer is wrong whether or not I knew what the correct answer was.
The answer is accepted as 100% correct when over 50% of the classroom says that it is. This can lead to a problem where greater than 50% of the classroom are bad actors and say that a particular solution is correct when it's actually fake.
The main deterrent against this behavior is the difficulty that it requires over 50% of the classroom needs to work together in being bad actors, and that once a classroom is taken over, the value of any currency that it may have generated is now void.
This brings us to the next topic, how is the worth of a bitcoin generated?
There is none. Unlike a government issued currency, there is no inherent value in this currency because there is no centralized authority enforcing it's value. You can think of concurrency as stocks that aren't tied to anything. The value it's given is the value given to it by the community. The difficulty of the proof equation makes it so that the currency isn't generated too fast, and Bitcoin has a hard limit on the total number of coins that can be mined to further limit inflation and to create a limited supply with hopefully, large demand.
I know that this is by no means a comprehensive explanation, but I hope this helps some people better understand how Bitcoin works.
Ya_Boi_Hank · 7 points · Posted at 04:44:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin is a prime example that anything can be of value as long as a large group of people that have skills or goods they're willing to perform or trade for said value. All currency no matter where it's from works this way.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Difference is that this "anything" can be transmitted across the globe and without a trusted 3rd party to make sure we're both acting honestly. There is nothing else that exists with those properties. Only crypto.
Lord_Alonne · 3 points · Posted at 07:14:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The trusted 3rd party is the ledger you can't forge. That's not the problem with crypto. The problem with crypto is twofold.
One, it is not backed by any sort of govt or power system. It is not a standard currency with value based on the strength of an economy. Without this structure behind it, there is no stability in the pricing. Crypto can skyrocket or plummet in value completely arbitrarily unrelated to real-world events.
Two, crypto's value does not primarily come from its use as a currency but it's scarcity combined with its use as an "investment."
The vast majority of people buying crypto are not looking to utilize it for any purpose except to sell for a profit. The hope of almost every purchaser is that if they hold onto it, the price will keep going up so they can then sell it. If at any point, "investors" realize that and choose not to buy, the demand and as a result the value plummet. This feeds back into point one. Without a backer invested in making sure the currency doesn't fall, there is no floor. Your crypto worth $10k/coin today can be worth 10k coin/$1 tomorrow.
"Investing" in crypto is nothing more then gambling that the price will rise and that you can sell outside any sort of crash.
CHUBBL3S · 2 points · Posted at 08:28:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hesitate to call either of those problems with crypto specifically. When everyone gets bored of bitcoins and moves on, it will still have value/utility. It addresses the double-spend problem and uses a decentralized model of control, even if it ends up at $5/coin it will still be used.
And that's just bitcoins. There are many other cryptocurrencies that address their own problems and propagate a blockchain by other mechanisms, that all have their own separate values. Even if most of them are scams capitalizing on exactly the hype you described, the ones that solve a problem and do it well will show their true value through the test of time.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 1 points · Posted at 08:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
""Investing" is nothing more then gambling that the price will rise and that you can sell outside any sort of crash."
You've described real estate, stocks and commodities.
"Your crypto worth $10k/coin today can be worth 10k coin/$1 tomorrow."
That's not how any of this works. There are futures and leverage. If someone is betting on it going up, there is likely someone betting on it going down and those people have to cover.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 15:53:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point is, those are physically tied to something of value whether it's the value of the property, company, or trade.
Crypto is not valuable because of what it is. So few people use it for anything except an "investment." The only reason the price ever increases is because people keep buying it not because of what it is tied to. Eventually when people simply stop buying due to the price you see massive crashes like back when Bitcoin peaked around 20k.
Buying, leveraging, or futures on such a volatile product backed by absolutely nothing is purely a gamble.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 2 points · Posted at 18:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
physically tied to something of value
You do realize that usd is tied to nothing, right? There is a reason a loaf of bread cost 5x more then in 1988.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's tied to the strength of the US economy lol. Even during severe downturns there are tools that can be utilized to support the value of the dollar. Like you know, the stimulus checks right now.
Crypto has no tools, no large scale use in actual trade (hell their biggest historical use was the silk road and look how that turned out), and no backing powerful body with an incentive to maintain it's value.
The reason a loaf of bread costs 5x more then in 1988 is infinitely more complex then dropping the gold standard.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"biggest historical use was the silk road "
Wrong again. If that were the case, we would still be at pre silk road tx tx rate and price.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So tell me, what was the largest instance of crypto being used as a currency in exchange for goods instead of as an investment medium if not silk road? Also why the fuck did you respond twice creating an extra pointless conversation path?
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:22:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also why the fuck did you respond twice creating an extra pointless conversation path?
On my phone in the hot tub.
instance of crypto being used as a currency
Not here to lead you to water.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fancy way of saying you don't have an answer lol
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:27:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go google, "is my house an asset" and come back to me with your embarrassment.
I don't care if you don't understand the value of crypto. My crypto holdings gain and lose in 24 hrs what most people make in a year. My stocks are starting to behave the same.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know WSB is the other way right? Masturbating over numbers that are made up online is only fun with the right community of autists around you.
Still waiting on my answer though. I'm thirsty.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:38:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sell your house today, and you need to go buy another house at the same inflated price. It isn't an investment. It is a liability and produces 0 income. WSB is for autistic Redditors who gamble. I can see you are special too.. downvoting every post like it is going to help you.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'd fit right in.
You act like you can understand crypto when you don't even understand the Reddit reply button, this is the other conversation you accidentally started. It has nothing to do with a house. Jesus Christ Boomer.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:43:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was using Reddit before Slashdot became irrelevant. I was born into it, you mearly adopted it
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 17:37:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is backed by math and enough power to keep a small county lit up. You have no idea what you are talking about.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a nice meaningless phrase there chief. Backed by as in supported by a powerful system with incentive to prevent a crash or a tangible asset to weigh it's value against. Being mined with math and electricity is not a backing lol.
Is 'math' going to pull out tools and resources to stop a crash like a govt can do to reduce negative effects on other currency? Is 'math' an asset with a minimum price floor due to inherent value? No. The only thing keeping crypto valuable is the hope that you will profit selling to other people with the exact same hope. That's a bubble and a half. You are effectively using money, to buy money, hoping the money you bought becomes more valuable along with everyone else, but nothing but speculation effects the value of your new money.
You obviously have some stake in this though. I made a few bucks on Ethereum back in the day but throwing $20 at it for fun is not an investment in the same way throwing $20 on black isn't. I hope your investments are much more diversified then just crypto dude. Things like buying real estate obviously have risk, but at least you can live in your house during a down market.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Been around crypto since 2011. Gold, google ipo, Twilio ipo, Tesla ipo and real estate. Guess which asset class has netted me the most profit? Take a guess as to why I purchased any if those things? No, you can't live in two houses at once.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Two houses? When did I say that? I never said to become a property Baron lol. Your own home is an investment. I've made far more from not owing a monthly rent payment let alone the increased value of the home compared to when I purchased it then any other investment I've made, and it doesn't rely on pure luck like picking the right crypto at the right time.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:10:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Your own home is an investment"
Oh fuck, now I know I am conversing with a fool.
Your house is a liability, unless you own it outright and are renting it out. There is no guarantee that a house will increase in value other than to hope it keeps up with inflation. Real estate becomes an investment if you are purchasing properties to manage and rent out.
Very basic principles which you are not seeing.
Lord_Alonne · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you an idiot? Owning your own house is an investment in the sense that you are pretty much obligated to either own or rent to you know, not be homeless and once you own that's a guaranteed monthly increase how much you take-home when you don't have a bill? I literally said not even counting the value of my home which has gone from 125 to 350 since I took out my mortgage lol.
But hey glass houses and all that crypto boy.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 0 points · Posted at 18:19:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do not understand what an asset or liability is. I paid 250k for my home 15 years ago. It is now worth roughly 750k. It is still a liability as it produces no income. In fact it still costs me money to keep it powered insured and the taxes paid. When I am budgeting, my home goes into my liability column as it produces no return. It actually costs me to hold it.
Christ. Do a simple Google search. Is my home an asset. Come back to me after.
Chromattix · 4 points · Posted at 03:59:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was gonna invest in it a couple of years ago when the hype started to build. But shit man I researched it for days and even asked some questions on the BitCoin subreddit and still didn't understand that shit. Especially once BitCoin wallets and such became an issue before I could even get into a position of buying any.
I'm sure if they're worth half million dollars in 15 years time my future self will hate 2017 me (and current me) for being too dumb to go with it.
agenteb27 · 4 points · Posted at 01:53:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same problem with money.
slidingtorpedo · 5 points · Posted at 05:02:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
first of all, there's this thing called asymmetrical encryption. you create a public and private key pair. you share your public key, and people can encrypt stuff with it but not decrypt. only the private key can decrypt it.
and also, it has a signature feature, so using your private key, you can sign some stuff, and people can verify it with your public key, without seeing your private key.
Bitcoin uses this. addresses are some kind of public keys, and have private keys. its database is shared among a lot of computers. but it's not possible to change or remove any transactions, balances etc. because of the cryptography.
let's say, you have some bitcoins. when sending it to somebody else, you create a transaction including sender, receiver and amount. then you sign it with your private key, so everybody knows it's actually you who created the transaction. and then you have a valid transaction, ready to broadcast. it's not sent to the other party yet, because nobody knows about your transaction. you send it to the computers running bitcoin and they add it to their temporary database, and tell other computers they know. signed messages aren't possible to be changed so others cannot change your transaction, because your signature then would be invalid.
but because it can be slow for it to reach all computers, there can be conflicts, causing double-spending or forks. someone sends Bitcoin to two different addresses at the same time, but broadcasts them to different nodes (computers running Bitcoin). which transaction will the other nodes consider valid? for this reason, they're not confirmed immediately. there are miners.
miners pick transactions from this temporary database/pool, and create a "block" containing these, previous block hash, timestamp etc. btw, hash is like an "identifier", you take the hash of something, and no matter the size or contents, depending on algorithm get maybe 16, 32 chars long, (usually) unique text. it's not possible to reverse this process so only way to guess a hash is by brute forcing.
miners calculate the hash of that block. if it starts with some number of zeroes, it is a valid block. if not, they add some random stuff and try it again until it does. billions of tries every second.
miner then submits the valid block to other nodes, and they save it to their database. that includes transactions as well. transactions included in the block are confirmed now and cannot be reversed. if somebody was to remove a transaction from a block, the hash would completely change and be an invalid block, and not get accepted by nodes.
the amount of zeroes is defined by the difficulty, if miners increased and are finding blocks too easily difficulty increases and vice versa. it's currently something like 16 zeroes and it's super hard to mine a block by yourself. but because there's millions of hardware mining together, it can be mined in approximately every 10 minutes
you cannot remove a block because the newer blocks depend on it. you might remove the last block from your Bitcoin database, but millions of other nodes will have a copy of it already. if you choose to go with your own modified database, it won't be accepted by other nodes.
why does it have a worth? because people determine its price. what determines a 100 dollar bill's value other than the numbers written on it?
miners get rewards because it's defined in the Bitcoin software, and it's limited. Bitcoin cannot have inflation, blocks etc. and nobody other than you can control your wallet, thanks to mathematics.
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CHUBBL3S · 2 points · Posted at 08:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the future, don't just buy things because people say they'll be worth a lot of money someday.
isnt_it_obvious_ · 3 points · Posted at 05:08:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's what you call a quarter after you bite it
CHUBBL3S · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I prefer pennies.
mcjanzton · 2 points · Posted at 06:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Monopoly money. Online, but still Monopoly money.
icyangel2666 · 3 points · Posted at 01:55:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's basically data that's somehow used as a form of currency. But how and why is beyond me. lol
CHUBBL3S · 2 points · Posted at 08:18:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why should be pretty obvious.
noknockers · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You know those paper notes in your wallet? They're intrinsically worthless, they just piece of paper.
You know Bitcoin? It's also intrinsically worthless, it's just numbers in a computer.
The difference is that governments can just print more and more and more money forever, as much as they want. This makes your money worth less, and sometimes worthless.
Bitcoin is the opposite, we know how much Bitcoin if there is, and there ever will be in existence, which makes it easy to plan around. This gives it value, along with it not being tied to any government. It's run by the people for the people.
It's kind of like gold, but much more predictable.
0o0oo0ooo000o · 3 points · Posted at 05:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was released in response to the 2008 bank failures. It's a deflationary money as opposed to an inflationary fiat. Didn't they just print 3 trillion USD?
Durtskwurt · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s kind of like a really expensive theoretical pizza. It’s how I describe it to my parents. You can buy as little or as much as you want. When the pizza is popular it’s gets more expensive.... it’s more in depth but that’s a start
YangGangBangarang · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also 3blue1brown
0o0oo0ooo000o · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it as an excel sheet distributed across 1000's of pc's. If I want to send 1000exel points from my cell a1 to yours at c7 then I delete 1000 from my cell and add 1000 to yours. Through the excel updating algorithm, our transaction is included in the next excel sheet update and all those people hosting the excel sheet have agreed it was legit and no duping occurred... or double spending. If we wanted to cheat, we'd have to control 51% of the nodes hosting the sheet to trick the network into believing we're not duping.
send_nipples · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even with an ELI5 I don't get it lol
MrAVAT4R · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep.
divat10 · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Outgame money
McLemon24 · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
International money
-stoneinfocus- · 1 points · Posted at 06:40:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanted to get into bitcoin so I could maybe buy some controlled chemicals for research purposes only... I fell at the first hurdle and couldn't even understand the bitcoin wallet.
PistachiNO · 1 points · Posted at 07:15:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recently saw an explanation here on Reddit that said something about a car that pumps out solved Sudoku puzzles? I'm pretty sure that's terribly wrong but the analogy was really good if somebody else remembers it.
S0u1glow · 1 points · Posted at 07:57:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use it and I still dont really get it!
abhishek-kanji · 1 points · Posted at 08:10:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let me try and explain it the best way I can explain: In my head, there are two parts to bitcoin, the network or the blockchain (I’m sure you’ve heard of that term somewhere) & then the security / mining.
Try to imagine the network like a giant game of scrabbles where everyone is keeping a tab on every word everyone is putting on the board. This way the everyone keeps a tab on everybody else and it’s nigh impossible to cheat. It’s pretty much exactly the same thing in Bitcoin where every system on the network keeps a ledger that has the list of every single transaction EVER DONE! So for someone to cheat, they would have to go to every single system and change the entry on the books which is next to impossible.
Now – what stops someone from changing the files on every other system. After all, we’ve all worked on shared files at some point and how do you verify who has the correct file. That’s where the security of the system comes into picture.
The ledger that I was talking about earlier (where everyone keeps a copy of every single transaction every taken), there’s one entry on it every 10 minutes or so which has the list of all the transactions that happened since the last time things were written in the book. So of course, every single entry is different – and that’s what makes the fodder for the mathematical puzzle to be solved. That’s why no one can solve the puzzles before hand because the puzzles are the actual entries into the ledger.
Now to understand the puzzle, think of it like a pool table with thousands of balls, all arranged randomly. Every single entry is a single ball at a certain location. There’s no way you can determine what the next arrangement of the table is going to look like. Your task is to take the cue ball and hit it at a certain angle with some speed which would result in the final layout of the pool table to resemble exactly the random order that you were given. Sounds very difficult and there’s not way to reverse engineer the solution. The only way to solve it is to shoot every random shot possible and try and see which would give you the desired result. That would require you to, at times, try millions upon millions of shots to get the final answer. This is what the computers are doing when they say they are mining. They are just randomly trying different combinations to see which of them fits the final solution.
However, to verify the solution, all you have to do is to write down the starting point, angle and force at which you hit the que ball to get the final result. Anybody else can easily verify the final answer once they have it. And then, that answer becomes one of the balls on the next pool table to be solved in the next ten minutes.
Now this row of pool tables being created once every 10 minutes extending all the way back a decade is your ledger. Every single transaction every made is on that pool table. For someone to check if someone is lying about their money / transaction, all you gotta do is go back to that date & time and see the entry. And for someone to change that entry in the past, they’ll not only have to solve that pool table and come up with a solution, but they’ll have to solve every table since then AND do it before someone adds a new table to the chain. So, there’s a constant competition to put the new table with the solution in the list and EVERYONE is trying to solve that problem at once. Of course you can’t have a competition without the people competing, and that competition is what is keeping someone from changing the previous entries. THAT is the security bit – you CAN’T CHEAT EVERYONE at the SAME TIME.
So the people solving these problems become the security of the network. And thus they get rewarded every time they solve a problem with the system creating new money for every solution and awarding it to the person who solved it first. Then, that ALSO goes into the ledger, which means that that also becomes part of the next problem to be solved.
In this way, the money in the system CAN’T just be created – there’s a lot of hard work to create value.
I hope this gives to a little idea of what bitcoin is…
Pardon the formatting - mobile user!
Auroros · 1 points · Posted at 08:37:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically, computer money go BRRRR!
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It's a two bit con.
Good_morning_man · 1 points · Posted at 11:58:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's basically internet money. It can be bought and sold or gained with some shit I don't understand. It's untraceable, and it's basically like every other currency, it's value changes throughout time and it is used to buy and sell things.
IcallBSonthat · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro, FIAT is so last century. Bro.
Samsungpassedonme · 1 points · Posted at 12:55:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody invented an imaginary currency and convinced a lot of stupid people to give him real money for it by telling them it was worth a lot. Crazily enough though, if enough people actually buy into this 'bitcoin is valuable' nonsense, it could become accepted as real currency someday soon. But right now most places don't accept math problems as a form of payment. The problem I have with it is this: the value of currency is the work we put into it. So if I buy something for $100, I'm trading 3 hours of hard work for a Nintendo game or whatever it may be. You don't put anything into bitcoin. So there's no value in it. Computers do everything. As far as I know, You can't put in extra time or work harder to earn it faster, all you can do to earn more is to put in more of your real money. And somewhere on the other side someone is taking this real money and making off like a king.
On a different note, perhaps I could interest you in a passedonme buck? One passedonme buck is worth $1000 but the value DOUBLES every year. So get as many as you can while they're cheap!
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get how it works but... I don't get why people even used it as money to the extent that it got this popular...
I mean, "hey GUYZ LOOK! COMPUTER MONEY!!1 " "Oh, okay, let's all buy $100,000 worth."
I just don't get how that happened. Like, one dude invented it and then somehow people mined it then charged money for it and somehow the people who first bought it convinced OTHER PEOPLE to accept it for money... like whoah.
Marsstriker · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:14 on May 9, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know you already got like 500 replies, but I found this video really makes it click in my mind. For the rest of the day, anyway. Then I forget a lot of it.
But at least I know it isn't nonsense.
alextheautism · 0 points · Posted at 20:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s like the stock market. the more people buy it, the higher the value goes. the more people sell it, the lower the value goes. it’s just supply and demand. it’s also untraceable, which is why it’s used on the deep web.
Balkrish · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Digital Cash. Secure and fast,. No copy and paste
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V4Vendetta69 · 6 points · Posted at 20:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except a stock has value because it generates more value, bitcoin only has value because people think it has value, it has no inherent value. Normal currency has an inherent value because you’re able to pay taxes with it whereas you can’t with bitcoin and holding bitcoin doesn’t generate more bitcoin
JBSquared · 2 points · Posted at 04:20:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrencies are more like standard bank notes than you think. The USD is only worth anything more than the paper it's printed on because the government says it is and we accept it. We don't accept EUR or CAD in America because everyone else doesn't accept it. Theoretically, we could all collectively tell the government to fuck off, we use pesos now.
Crypto has value because people accept it. People will exchange it for standard currencies, and people will exchange it for goods and services. If everyone just decided that they won't accept crypto as payments it won't have value. We could do the same thing for anything else percieved as having monetary value.
corpski · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There are also the concepts of censorship-resistant payments, non-inflation / scarcity, and decentralization, which are the key driving points of cryptocurrency.
• If you lived in a dystopian country and the government locked up your bank account. They can't easily do that to any of your cryptocurrency holdings. Without delving into the tax implications, there are those that intend to use this method to seamlessly transfer wealth over to the next generation as well. Believe it or not, this is the primary way of how Chinese millionaires discreetly take money out of their country's system.
• The USD 20,000 per semester college tuition fee you pay for today will almost certainly cost double in a decade. Some buy into cryptocurrency as a hedge believing that its appreciation and scarcity can easily overshadow the cost of inflation that will hurt your fiat holdings over the coming years. As you may know, the FED just created $2 trillion out of thin air. How much does your savings account lose to inflation every year? The restaurant bill that you pay today will 100% be more expensive in years to come.
• Wiring or transferring payment to a friend who lives overseas can be a chore depending on which bank or method you choose. Paypal alone takes anywhere from 4-7%. Cryptocurrency is immediate, with feeless or minimal fee options depending on which asset you employ. It completely bypasses financial middle men and government oversight. In the country where I live, more than 70% of the population is unbanked.
These all have value in their own right, even if you don't necessarily agree with them. Wouldn't you think?
V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 11:04:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To your first point, you’re effectively saying it’s great for illegal activities. Congrats, but I don’t agree with illegal activities so scrap that, makes me disagree with it in that sense. Governments lock up accounts when people do shit wrong, yes there are governments like China which I don’t agree with but I don’t think Bitcoin is the solution through illegal activity. Avoiding inheritance tax, also illegal and shouldn’t be done (whether you agree with inheritance tax or not it’s the law that’s implemented by a democratic government, you can’t just opt out no matter how much of a libertarian you are)
It’s volatility means it’s not good as a natural hedge, stocks would be a far better hedge against inflation as they’re more stable than cryptocurrencies and grow at higher than inflation rates, therefore it being a “hedge” is not what gives it value in my opinion as there are far better alternatives.
As I said in another comment, yes Bitcoin can be used for international payment transfers without fees but so can lots of other things. For example I can transfer money with Revolut at market rates to any bank account in the world without fees and I don’t need Bitcoin for it. Bitcoin is used for illegal transfers a lot for example it’s the standard payment on the dark web.
corpski · 1 points · Posted at 13:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I merely said that you may not agree with it, but it does have that aspect to it. Nothing more or less. If you don't agree, then that's absolutely fine. Conversely, what gives it that power also gives it censorship against governments as those come hand-in-hand. I'm not trying to convince you though. You don't have to congratulate me or feel annoyed with what I posted.
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V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 11:06:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a great argument, state that I’m wrong with no backup.
It has no inherent value if people just stopped thinking it had value it would be worthless. Thinks like gold are not like that because they can be used for technology etc. Normal currency isn’t like that as it always has the ability to pay taxes which is of value. Cryptocurrencies have neither of these, hence no intrinsic value
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V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 17:47:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not intrinsic value for the holder. These are all points as to why somebody may think bitcoin is a good idea but it’s not intrinsic value
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V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 17:58:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which goes back to my point about tax. If “all transaction all to be settled in BTC” this would include tax and therefore make USD pretty redundant, that’s it, that’s why USD has intrinsic value and BTC doesn’t (USD can pay taxes in US so there will always be somebody willing to “buy” USD for goods, or in other woods you can spend it)
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V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so you’re starting to talk about libertarianism with governments wasting money etc which I cba to argue over because I think the NHS alone in my country is worth the taxes I pay never mind the roads, other emergency services, welfare etc.
It is intrinsic value because the point is, physical things like gold have intrinsic value because they’re physical. Things like bitcoin, software etc don’t have intrinsic value because they can become obsolete. The USD cannot become obsolete
Yes when people start charging 1 Satoshi for a bread roll or whatever you want, BTC may (I don’t think this is likely) become more widespread, but you’ll always need to convert it back into USD to pay your taxes and whatever income you’ve made and therefore it can’t replace the USD without overthrowing the government or whatever
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V4Vendetta69 · 3 points · Posted at 20:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not though. Stocks are stakes in businesses that generate income, the share price is effectively all of the expected future income discounted to today’s value based on the risk associated with that income. Bitcoin claims to be like a currency yet you can’t pay taxes with it
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V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it’s completely wrong to think of it like a stock when it’s claim is to be a currency. Currencies have value because the government promises to accept them as a payment method, they won’t accept bitcoin. There is no intrinsic value to Bitcoin so I’m agreeing with OP that it doesn’t make sense, it’s ludicrous to compare it to a stock (even Bitcoin supporters don’t claim that)
wraithrule34 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well unfortunately im not a "bitcoin supporter", so ill just explain something in a way that everyone can understand which is that its something you can buy and hold onto which goes up and down in value
I agree with the idea of it being a currency, regardless of how it works with taxes, but thats getting way too indepth for a simple explanation to somebody on reddit, and as i said if they wanted a more indepth explanation that could search that on their own
have a good day man, stay safe!
V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understood, stay safe as well!
danny953 · -2 points · Posted at 20:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your huge arguement against Bitcoin is that you can't pay taxes with it, so it isnt a real currency?
Did you ever stop to think that it's the government's issue that they don't accept it as a payment type?
Governments as they stand now require the global currencies that are uses by each nation to not be equal so they can hold leverage over each other..
If you strip each thing of it's percieved value -- value being a made-up thing that everything has -- what are you left with?
Imagine having GLOBAL currencies. No exchange rates. No going from the UK to USA and having to spend X more or less for Y thing, solely because they run things differently.
Bit of a tangent there but holy lord I can't believe ignorant people exist. Currency is currency. Being able to pay your taxes in your nation's currency is a nation-specific issue.
V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not arguing that that is the right thing, but my point is that if you can’t pay taxes with a currency then it’s intrinsic value is nil, it doesn’t generate future cash flows (like a stock) and you can’t use it to pay taxes. Yes it’s a medium of exchange but you’ll always have to convert it back
Yes a global currency would be great I agree but unless countries accept it to pay taxes you’ll always need to transfer it back
Zaidinator7 · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point is that it was created in 2009 because of "chancellor on 2nd bailout for banks". Basically central banks was printing money (illegal for anyone else and oh by the way, central bank is not a reserve and it is private) and handing it to large airlines and bust banks (which make money from loans and lending out your money).
Bitcoin intends to replace Fiat currency because bitcoin is the scarcest asset to exist, is completely censorship resistant and has a high stock to flow ratio (like gold but will be higher). The fact is that every single currency fails at one point. Whether it be by hyperinflation (will be the death of the US dollar) or war etc, they never last too long. There will only ever be 21M bitcoins and no one can change that. It is deflationary by design and saleable across time and space.
You are right that it cannot be a global currency now. It is far too complicated for the average person and difficult to transact with on a daily basis. However, with improvements to the lightning network and just time, it will become more user friendly and its volatility will decrease as the total market cap reaches trillions.
V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of those points may be valid (although the central bank here in the UK is government owned, not private) but it still doesn’t take away from the fact if a country has taxes then you need to exchange your bitcoin for the local currency to pay those taxes hence it can never be a sole currency u less governments adopt it (which they’ll never do as they can’t control it).
I’m not arguing for or against bitcoin I’m just saying it’s not a stock and it’s also not a proper currency and I think it’s intrinsic value is nil.
Zaidinator7 · 2 points · Posted at 21:39:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok a good question would be what is the point of even paying taxes if the central bank will just print trillions (like the fed is doing now). I'm not advocating for people to stop paying taxes but I do think that that is a valid point.
I disagree. The central bank is private in every country of the world other than North Korea, Iran and Cuba. The name really tricks a lot of people and they to work with the govt but there we disagree.
V4Vendetta69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id argue the point of paying taxes is to not get arrested and to fund public services (no matter how much I disagree with parts of government I think paying taxes that fund public services such as the NHS in the UK is enough to compensate).
That’s actually a tale made up claiming the Rothschilds own all but 3 in the world, the Bank of England was nationalised in 1946, it is owned by the UK government. The capital of the Bank is held by the Treasury Solicitor on behalf of HM Treasury
Zaidinator7 · -2 points · Posted at 21:20:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its scarcity gives it value and from the electricity and proof of work to mine the bitcoins.
V4Vendetta69 · 5 points · Posted at 21:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scarcity doesn’t give something value neither does proof of work. I could sit hammered at a rock for three years but that proof of work doesn’t then give that rock value?
Zaidinator7 · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok I see your point. For a currency to establish longevity it needs to be a store of value (like gold) and be saleable (can make transactions across borders quickly and cheaply). Gold has a high stock to flow ratio which correlates with its market cap. So yes gold is valuable because it is scarce and because it has a point of sale. Jewelry, corrosion resistant etc.
Bitcoin is even scarcer and its value is that you can send billions of fiat equivalent to anyone in the world anywhere and it be revived quickly with no third party and for a fee of less than a dollar and no one could have stopped it.
V4Vendetta69 · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I get that however it’s value is only there because you presume somebody else will buy it off you, also there are other ways of sending money now with minimum to no fees at fair rates (e.g. I can send money to friends in other countries using Revolut at market rates)
RoboDroid390 · 0 points · Posted at 20:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Wow this is an amazing explanation
Edit: not sarcastic
stygger · -4 points · Posted at 03:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All you really need to know is that they are a form of currency that are great for money laundry and other shady transactions!
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 03:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's very simple. Some scam artists sell some
tulip bulbsdigital bits of information to chumps. Then those chumps sell some of these to even bigger chumps at a profit. And then those chumps find some even bigger chumps to sell to at a profit. And so on.I_hate_traveling · 11171 points · Posted at 13:29:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How computers work.
I'm a reasonably tech-savvy person, but I genuinely have no idea about the inner workings of the tools I use for 12 hours every day. It's like I'm like a professional driver who has no idea how an engine or a turbocharger or brakes work.
edit: For those interested in reading more about the magic boxes and don't want to delve deeper into the comments, here were the most frequent suggestions.
Watch The Crash Course Computer Science on youtube.
Read the book Code: The Hidden Language of Computer Hardware and Software
http://nandgame.com/
Some dude named Ben Eater who builds magic boxes from scratch. Personal site, YT channel.
I will probably only do number 3 cause I have the attention span of an ADHD-riddled goldfish. And because I'm not that interested in computers, I was mainly karma-whoring. Thanks for the comments and the effort though, I'm sure many will find them really interesting!
jtcuber435 · 9150 points · Posted at 15:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Basically lots of electrical signals turning little switches on and off.
The electrical signals are called bits, and are represented by a 1 or a 0. A 1 basically means a wire is powered, and a 0 means its not.
Transistors are the switches. They take one input, and allow electricity to flow through depending on the value of the input. Some transistors allow power through when the input is powered, or 1, and some allow power through when the input is off, or 0. There’s a lot more behind transistors but that’s pretty much the basics.
Logic gates are made of a bunch of transistors connected together. Logic gates are the basic building block of components that compute things, like the processor. Logic gates take one or more input and produce one output. One example would be an AND gate, which takes two inputs, and if they are both 1s (powered), it will output a 1 (powered). If one or both inputs are turned off, the AND gate will output a 0 (off). There are other logic gates like OR gates, which output a 1 if one or both inputs are 1s, or a NOT gate, which outputs the opposite of the input 0 -> 1 or 1 -> 0.
The processor, or CPUs job is to execute the instructions provided to it, this could be something like take 2 numbers from the memory (RAM), add them, and store them in a new spot in the RAM, or get a value from memory, and tell the motherboard to output the value out of the USB port. The instructions are really just a lot of 1s and 0s that turn on or off certain things in the processor.
A computer has multiple places it can store things. The first and fastest is to store data in the CPUs cache, which is extremely fast, but also extremely small, and it resets when you restart. Cache is used to store some instructions or numbers the CPU is going to use for calculations. The RAM, which is the memory, is much larger than the cache, but a little bit slower, the computer stores all values for running programs and important numbers here, for example playing a game, it would store your players position and data here, for quick access for the CPU. This also resets on restart. The largest, and slowest method of storage is the disk, this is where all of your files live, and it keeps its data even when the computer restarts. Two types of disk storage are SSD or HDD, Solid state drive or Hard disk drive. SSDs use transistor trickery to store data permanently with no moving parts, and HDDs do magnet stuff with a spinning disk and moving arm.
The GPU (Graphics processing unit) creates the output that you see on your screen. It does this using data sent to it from the CPU, and renders it, producing a video output. The CPU is very good at doing a few very hard tasks at once, while the GPU is made for doing thousands of tiny tasks at one time. The GPU is the most important part for gamers, as it is the part that processes the graphics in games. All computers have some type of GPU, either using one built into the CPU, or using a discreet GPU, like in gaming PCs. The way GPUs work gets very in depth, so that’s the idea to know.
The motherboard connects all of the parts, like the CPU, RAM, storage, GPU, and it deals with IO. IO stands for input output. Everything is connected using busses, which are just groups of wires that transmit data. The chipset is basically a translator between the CPU and the rest of the system, it is made of two parts, the north bridge and the south bridge. The CPU connects to the north bridge using the frontside bus, then the north bridge communicates with the RAM using the memory bus, and the GPU using the PCIe or depending on the system AGP bus. The south bridge handles lower speed communication like PCI devices, and it handles all IO like USB (universal serial bus), Ethernet, SATA (connection to storage disk). It also connects to the ROM, read only memory, which is used to boot the computer. The north bridge and south bridge are connected using the internal bus.
That explanation was a little in depth at times but if you can understand it, great.
TL;DR: Lots of wires and switches.
[deleted] · 1062 points · Posted at 18:46:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you think you could explain how cameras work? How do you build a machine that sees and captures what our eyes can?
Jimmy422 · 1544 points · Posted at 20:04:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP but I can answer. Super simplified version is that modern digital cameras use itty bitty light sensitive photocells that make up a grid. This is called the sensor. Light hits the sensor and these photocells record how much light hits each one (which corresponds to a pixel in a digital image). This gets translated into an image.
A super basic black and white camera would need one sensor, and use either a 0 or 1 to to record black or white pixels. You would move on from there to use, say, a number from 1-4 for each pixel, so you could get half-tones at the expense of more space needed to save a pixel.
For reference, modern cameras can have red, green, and blue color sensors that store each pixel at a 10-bit depth, which means each red, green, and blue pixel can store a number from 1-1024 representing its color value. That’s a lot of data! These 3 values get blended together to make an individual final pixel which makes up the final image.
A 12 megapixel camera has 12.7 million pixels to save per image. And modern smartphones can do all this math in less than a second. It’s incredible.
Videos are done in the exact same way, but shot in 24-60 images per second. Only recently have phones been able to shoot high resolution and high frame rate because the processing power needed is incredibly high.
I hope that answers your question!
[deleted] · 130 points · Posted at 20:11:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes sense, thank you!
inexpensive_tornado · 149 points · Posted at 20:57:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: This is also partially why green screens became the primary colour used for special effects work. Blue and red also can work, depending on context, but most cameras arrange the red, green, and blue sensors in a way that's known as the Bayer filter that has twice as many green sensors as red and blue (RGGB.) This makes it much easier to key off green, as there's literally twice as much data there to work with.
marksomnian · 43 points · Posted at 21:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And also because human skin is not (usually) green - although blue would work for this as well.
lemortede3 · 10 points · Posted at 00:20:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I always thought that there were the three types, but green was more typical because no one actually wears green outfits very often. Especially not the nearly neon green most green screens are colored as.
ColgateSensifoam · 8 points · Posted at 00:58:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Green was the predominant colour waaaaay before digital sensors, chroma-key has always been green
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Captain Disillusion knows how to explain. :D
Laert_Lani · 4 points · Posted at 23:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see you're a man of Culture....
Btw did you see his new video three days ago?
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 23:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes i've seen every video from him. My favorite is the one with the infinite staircase cause the story behind it and his indepth explanation of why things need to be exactly the way they are was so fun to watch. :)
DrPeroxide · 4 points · Posted at 01:13:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I decided to hunt that video down because of your comment. That was really cool! I swear I come across this guy every so often but I've never sat down and browsed through his channel before.
Laert_Lani · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have also watched every episode and it's very weird actually... I find myself coming back and rewatching his videos from time to time although i can't pick a favourite because they are all great...
I was very impressed that he thought of playing the video backwards in the marble machine video and i could have never calculated the distance that the fighter jet moved based on the framerate, focal length and size of the plane in the "a fighter jet says hi" video...
He's awesome!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He is, he is. :)
PolarWater · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just chiming in to say that you and all the above commenters are heroes. Thank you.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A smartphone produces the same amount of pixels with a smaller sensor than that of a DSLR. Does the number of pixels produced depend on the sensor or the processor?
GermanGliderGuy · 20 points · Posted at 21:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sensor. That means each pixel is smaller in size therefore captures less light than a DSLR would in identical conditions. In many conditions this hardly matters, however if you want to capture rapid movements or in low light you run into issues earlier. You can compensate for this to some extent by amplifying the sensor signal more, but that also amplifies any errors / randomness in the sensor, resulting in a grainy image.
Slingshotsters · 8 points · Posted at 22:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern smart phones also have great stabilisers, and multiple lenses. I gave up my Nikon D90 since the smart phone.
Back to phones, they use a ton of software to compensate for cost, space on the board and chassis, as well as the physics of the size sensors that are developed each cycle.
Ryan_JMP · 13 points · Posted at 23:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not op nor a professional but I'll try my best as far as I understand it, sorry if u get something wrong and if I do get something wrong someone please correct me.
The maximum amount of pixels that can be produced is dependent on the amount of physical pixels present on the the camera sensor itself, you can however use a process called pixel binnig in which you combine a certain amount of pixels from the sensor so that they act as a single pixel, this creates a lower resolution image from the sensors maximum resolution but still managed to maintain a large amount of detail for said resolution.
An example I could give of this is with my phone( a OnePlus 7pro) that has a 48mp primary sensor. Although the sensor's max resolution is 48mp, in the normal camera settings it only captures 12mp images because it combines 4 pixels into 1 to downscale the resolution to 4k(a 4:3 4k image has a resolution of 4,000pixels x 3,000pixels = 12,000,000pixels) from 8k (4:3 8k image is 8,000pixels x 6,000pixels = 48,000,000pixels) although it cuts the resolution down, it still manages to pull in more detail than what you usually get from a native 12mp sensor. You can still into the phones settings and manually set the camera to shoot pictures at the full 48mp resolution for 8k photos.
Please please to anyone reading this do not associate a higher resolution sensor to a better camera since this is not the case at all. On a smart phone, the sensor itself is just as important if not less important than the software and color science that is built into the phones camera app since the sensor only captures a raw image that I sent to the phone to later color calibrate, change exposure and so on. The software a phone uses for is camera sensor is what really makes it shine and why phones like the iPhone 11 pro and Google's pixel 4 are still considered among the best if not the best smart phone cameras even though they both use only 12mp sensors since that's all you really need for 4k photos and videos.
Another thing about very high resolution sensors is that there are some disadvantages to having them on a phone. The first is that it affects the camera's focus. On a DSLR you can manually adjust your focus which makes this not a big deal, but on a phone it means that whenever I want to take an 8k photo I have to play way more with the auto focus as well as holding the phone far steadier than I have to when taking a normal photo. This is why if you watch any video about the recent Galaxy s20 ultra it's almost garanted that they are going to complain about the auto focus being very bad, Samsung didn't do enough software wise to compensate for the sensors 108mp resolution leading to the bad auto focus. The other big problem is that the 48mp sensor on a DSLR is physically much larger that the 48mp sensor on a phone. What this means is that the pixels in the phone camera are not only much smaller but also physically closer together than on the DSLR. What this ends up doing is that if I want to take an 8k photo on my phone, I better be taking the photo outside on a sunny day because otherwise the pixels are so close together that light isn't going to evenly hit all of them and is going to cause the resulting picture to look even worse than if I just took a normal 4k picture (this is why pixel bining down from 48mp to 12mp increases detail, by combing 4 pixels into 1 you are technically increasing their physical size and thus light light can hit each individual pixel more easily and produce a more accurate image). All the pixel binning stuff I've said applies the same to higher than 48mp sensors (I've just talked about 48mp cus that's what I have) the only difference being that you combine more pixels, like on Samsung's 108mp sensor instead of combing 4 into 1 like on a 48mp sensor, you combine 9 into 1. The last main thing about the high res sensors is that when shooting at full resolution there is much less image and color processing going on so the resulting image won't look as vibrant as the normal 4k images, for me this is fine since I find that the normal camera on the 1+7pro is a little too over exposed for me so I prefer the more natural colors form the 48mp mode.
I know I made high res sensors on phones sound like the boogie man but don't shy away from them if that's what you like cus like I said, I personally prefer the more natural colors and the super high level of detail from the 48mp mode and end up using it more than the normal 12mp mode.
O know this was super long but I hope I was able to explain everything properly
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 12:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks! That helps.
Adam-K · 8 points · Posted at 22:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Wow, super informative, thank you. After reading this, it stems another question, which is how the sensors actually work? How is the light converted into digital? Especially the colors.
Jimmy422 · 6 points · Posted at 23:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Another poster in the parent comment had a pretty good explanation of this piece - in a nutshell, the little photocells will output a different electrical resistance value based on how much light is hitting them. I’m a software engineer by trade so this is where things go a bit outside my field - electrical engineering is black magic to me!
jayiscanadian1 · 6 points · Posted at 00:11:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is truly amazing about this is that someone figured out how to do this. The thought of inventing something that has never existed is mind blowing, especially something like the television. Absolutely amazing. Or even medicine like the very first vaccine again absolutely amazing. I'm jealous and thankful of all these type of people.
Jimmy422 · 7 points · Posted at 00:39:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s even crazier to me is how advanced this technology is for its size. A typical photocell for hobby electronics is about the size of your pinky nail. Smartphones cram OVER 36 MILLION of these into less than the space of a single hobby one. Like...what? How? It’s incredible.
Beodrag · 5 points · Posted at 22:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you be able to explain how audio recording devices work? How is a machine able to capture the sound of someone's voice, and then is able to play it back out again?
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 01:04:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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ii9i · 2 points · Posted at 14:02:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "jagged digital waveform" thing is a misconception.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:38:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah! I figured someone would pick this up which is why I specifically said:
Somewhere between 4:00 and 4:30 in the video you linked (which I entirely agree with) he does show the stair step which is the digital waveform before it goes into the DAC for playback, which is literally just the binary values plotted on a graph against time.
A good DAC will have fancy filtering to smooth out the steps. If you look up reviews of the first Raspberry Pi you'll see they say the analogue audio output sucked, this was because the DAC was bad and the filtering inadequate so it wasn't capable of CD quality audio, newer models have improved in that area - I'm sure if you hooked a Pi 1 up to an oscilloscope and spectrum analyser it wouldn't look anything like what a proper DAC would do with the same input.
So you're right, the output of a good DAC isn't jagged, but I'm also right in that the raw binary data is jagged, we're just looking at different points in the digital to analogue conversion. Thanks for bringing it up!
Jimmy422 · 2 points · Posted at 23:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My understanding is that it’s similar to light but with sound - a cone/magnet setup similar to a speaker (a microphone) picks up the intensity of sound waves and translates the peaks and valleys of the sound wave into numbers. The digital representation is determined by bit depth (similar to the sensitivity of light per pixel on a camera sensor - how accurate of a representation of the frequency at a given time is) and bit rate (how often it’s going to sample the value going into the microphone).
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any sound is the molecules in the air moving at a certain frequency. You can detect those frequencies with a thin membrane that moves like the air next to it. That thin membrane is linked to an electric system that will record at how it moves. This is how a microphone works.
You can also do it in the opposite direction: use the recorded electric signal to make the membrane move, creating vibrations in the air, creating sound. That's how speakers work.
ii9i · 1 points · Posted at 13:57:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm doing some major league simplifying here, but it might help you understand. Know that Hz stands for Hertz, which means the number of times something happens per second.
Sound is variations in air pressure that form waves. Microphones catch sound waves and turn them into waves of electricity, turning sound pressure variations into an electrical signal.
Now, you may see a graph of complex waveform and see how crazy it looks and wonder 'how in the world could computers could ever take enough measurements of that wave in order to reconstruct something that even comes close to it'?
Well, it turns out that there is this mind blowing mathematical theorem (the Nyquist-Shannon sampling theorem) that in digital audio allows for the perfect capture of waveform frequencies from zero at the low end up to half of the number of times you are sampling the waves per second at the high end. So if you know from testing humans that the limits of our hearing capabilities are 20Hz at the low end and 20,000Hz at the high end (as is the scientific consensus), then you only need to worry about capturing 0Hz to 20,000Hz; that is all you would need to care about for audio that is meant for humans to listen to. Mathematically, to perfectly capture all waves from 0Hz to 20,000Hz, you would only need to sample the signal 40,000 times per second (twice the highest frequency you care about capturing), and not beyond that.
However, in the real world there are benefits to recording at sample rates higher than twice the highest frequency you care about capturing. Recording at these higher sample rates (such at recording at 100,000 samples per second instead of 40,000 samples per second) actually doesn't capture the 0Hz to 20,000Hz frequency range any more accurately than recording at 40,000 samples per second does, because 40,000 samples per second already captures that frequency range perfectly. The benefit of recording at higher sample rates than 40,000 times per second is that it pushes this shitty thing that I haven't mentioned yet called aliasing safely away from the 0Hz to 20,000Hz frequency range that is going to be delivered to the humans. The aliasing is then only affecting higher frequencies than 20,000Hz that are going to be discarded anyways. This is not something you would need to "look for" when buying digital audio- it's a behind the scenes thing that has been standard recording practice for a long time.
By the way, I used 40,000 samples per second just as an easy-to understand example, because it's twice the highest frequency we can hear. In reality, CD quality digital audio was standardized at 44,100 samples per second, so a CD can produce frequencies from 0Hz to 22,050Hz.
There's also bit depth, which corresponds to the dynamic range of the audio. A higher bit depth will have a quieter base level of noise that is running throughout the audio. For example, CD quality digital audio was standardized at 44,100 samples per second and a bit depth of 16 bits. 16 bits equals about 96 decibels of dynamic range. Human hearing has a dynamic range at its absolute maximum of between 120-140 decibels. However, there's a method that can increase the percieved dynamic range of 16 bit CD quality audio to 120 decibels and e en a bit beyond. It involves recording at a higher bit rate such as 24 bits instead of at 16 bits, then adding a very special type of computer-generated noise called shaped dither to the audio, and then reducing the bit depth of the audio to 16 bits. This is another behind-the scenes thing that has been standard recording practice for a long time.
Vinyl records can initially hold frequencies higher than 22,050Hz, but they lose those frequencies each time the record is played, and the scientific consensus is that humans cannot hear those frequencies anyways. CD beats vinyl in all other technical categories. However, if you enjoy the inaccuacies of vinyl (as I sometimes do) as its own sort of "special effect" I totally get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perfection. sorry I'm broke.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys get this man an award
cm99-2000 · 2 points · Posted at 01:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sooooo witchcraft!? I’m just too stupid to understand how humans are so smart that we have pictures, videos, vocal recordings, telephones, computers. It’s al just beyond me but I’m grateful for those who understand it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So at work there is this certain purple color, that anytime I get an item that has it, the photos ALWAYS show it as blue. Drives me nuts! My idiot boss makes me spend an hour every dang time on the item because he thinks if I try every damn angle imaginable it's gonna show the purple color it is...... I explain to him no matter what I do it doesn't pick it up but it's like he thinks I'm lying!
NaturalImage · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
some guys from the internet use optical mouse sensor to capture image.
Homer89 · 2 points · Posted at 05:13:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it that the sensors capture red, blue and green? Wouldn't it make sense (no pun intended) to use yellow instead of green?
ADP_God · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does this mean that black and white pictures are better quality/ have the capability to be better quality?
Jimmy422 · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will say I’m not an expert on the field so this is totally my opinion:
I would say not in any meaningful way. I think the only benefit would be faster processing assuming you had only one sensor. Since most phone cameras are going to have to use 3 sensors to get a black and white image (they can’t use just one of the red/green/blue sensors because it would be biased towards one of those colors, you’d use all 3 and then make the combination result into a grayscale with software), you’re not going to have any benefit in speed on a smartphone.
A dedicated black and white camera wouldn’t be any better quality, since the sensor bit depth is really the limiting factor for quality. I’m not sure on the specifics for the light filters used for the color sensors, so maybe there would be some quality gain for not having to use a color filter in front of the sensor? I don’t think it would be anything notably better though.
redweasel · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Historically, black-and-white film did have a higher resolution than color film.
Prussian-Glory · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cool, didn’t know that before.
Twothumbsthisgy · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a "mirrorless" dslr, which is apparently not "Full-frame." What do those words mean?
Trainguyrom · 1 points · Posted at 11:37:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure if that's a typo, but most screens can only (hehe "only") display 8 bits of color depth, or 256 tones of RGB. I would be very interested to know if the majority of cameras are shooting in a larger color pallet and then processing away an order of magnitude of colors to save on filesize
Jimmy422 · 1 points · Posted at 14:03:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I looked this up when I posted because I didn’t actually know the depth - it appears the iPhone 11 will take photos at a 10 bit depth according to this article. You’re right - most screens are going to be 8 bit color depth on RGB. It appears the 30 bit photography workflow is more of a “future proof” thing at the moment. Interesting!
Trainguyrom · 1 points · Posted at 15:15:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
30 bit would certainly be future proof with even 10 bit displays being unusual still
redweasel · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The crucial part is how an image gets to the sensor in the first place. Look up "Camera Obscura," "pinhole camera," and anything about lenses.
Caleegula · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:41 on May 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow all complex technology always breaks down to simple little steps taken to an extreme.
m-sterspace · 61 points · Posted at 19:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Modern digital cameras work very roughly similarly to both solar cells and the transistors in your computer, so to understand them you need to get a little into transistors and materials engineering.
Like others mentioned, transistors generally behave like a switch, you put them in the middle of a wire and they allow a current to flow through them or not, but instead of being controlled by your hand like a light switch, it's controlled by another electrical signal.
We make them behave this way by building them out of materials that are semi conducting. Essentially on the atomic level, a conducting material like a metal has it's outer orbital electrons loosely connected to the nucleus, so when you apply a little electro magnetic force, the electrons will flow freely down the material. A non conducting or insulating material is the opposite. It's outer electrons will be very tightly bonded to the nucleus so a normal electromagnetic force can't seperate them or cause them to flow. A semi conducting material is inbetween. It's outer electrons are normally tightly bonded to the nucleus, but it's pretty tenuous. If you add a little more energy to the material, it's electrons will have enough energy to break free from the nucleus and start flowing along the material. So we make transistors out of semi-conducting material that is normally blocking current, but when another electrical signal adds a bit more energy at the right spot, it causes the electrons to break free and start conducting.
A digital camera sensor (or a solar panel) is essentially just a grid of millions of transistors, but each tuned so that when light hits them (as opposed to electricity), the light gives them just enough energy to start conducting. In the case of an image sensor, your computer can then take this grid of millions of signals, and represent them as a grid of millions of pixels which can then be stored and displayed.
Edit: You know what I find especially mind blowing about this? That $20 wired Microsoft optical mouse that came with your desktop in 2005 works exactly like this. It has a digital image sensor taking thousands of pictures of the surface below the mouse (the visible glow is essentially just a continuous flash), feeding those images to a processor within the mouse that then does image processing and comparison to eventually send out simple forward/back, left/right scroll information over the USB or PS/2 connection. I just find it crazy that there's that level of complexity and sophistication in such an unthought of commodity item.
Slingshotsters · 6 points · Posted at 22:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ones that work on glass blow my mind. And I have worked on super computer clusters.
feochampas · 5 points · Posted at 22:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you might enjoy this website. once you capture the data from the photo the computer needs to read it.
its data. this guy made a website to turn it into an excel spreadsheet. it helped me understand the next step in processing of photos.
https://www.think-maths.co.uk/spreadsheet
kmnlopqr · 2 points · Posted at 22:17:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amazing! I started learning CNN last week and it has a step of converting images in this kind of matrix. Anyway it seemed very vague. Now it's much clearer.
elst3r · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras first started (in terms of something else capturing an image, not going into the physics of the pinhole and light) when people discovered this material that changed color when exposed to light. It got darker when more light was reflected from something. So they limited light endering the box with the film in there for a more crisp photo and then when you wanted to take a photo they would uncover the hole and the film would get dark where it was light making a negative. To make the photograph, you go into a dark room, put that light sensitive paper down and then shine a light behind the negative (after a chemical bath) making the proper coloration. Then chemical baths turn the paper not light sensitive anymore.
MeiIsSpoopy · 3 points · Posted at 22:28:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take an empty box, poke a tinyish hole in the side and the another large hole to look through next to it. Take it into a dark room and turn your phones brightness up alot and put it in front of the tiny hole and look through the larger.hole. You should see the phones image upside down on the back.
Now, put a sheet coated in chemical that is sensitive to light in the box where the image forms and expose it to the phones image. That's the film.
I've built one shitty camera from scratch this way. Digital cameras dont have film but rather small electrical elements that you can think of as buckets, one for each pixel. More light in the bucket == brighter pixel.
Color can be handled a few different ways. You can put a filter in front to block all but red coming thru, then do it with green and then blue, then combine all 3 images. Digital cameras do this simultaneously with a Bayer pattern. Ita like a checkerboard of tiny red, green, and blue filters
chickenCabbage · 3 points · Posted at 00:27:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's three important parts: the shutter, the lens, and the sensor. Generally, in old film cameras, that sensor is just the film which gets burnt a certain way when it's hit by light. The lens focuses the light onto the sensor/film through the shutter. The shutter is a sheet with a hole that can change in size and it can open and close that hole at different speeds - it used to be just a bunch of springs and mechanical gears, nowadays it's electric motors.
pavlov_the_dog · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The lens is the essential part.
If you poke a hole in a dark curtain, the light coming through that hole will project an image of the outside world onto your wall. This has been known for centuries. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camera_obscura)
The camera part comes in when a chemist notices that a compound that he made changed color when exposed to light.
From there they somehow got the idea to paint this chemical on some film and place it on the receiving end of a pinhole lens. And that's how we got the first photographs.
feint_of_heart · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out this video explaining autofocus. I'd never really thought about it until this popped up in my Youtube feed.
Betternet_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Camera sensors are reverse pixels. That's the best way I can describe them without getting too technical
what_am_i_doing_now2 · 2 points · Posted at 23:08:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Film cameras work by exposing a light reactive substance(usually silver based) on a clear thin surface (often plastic film but can be glass) to create the base for a negative This is then exposed to a stabilizing compound to make the film non reactive to light. Then you rinse and repeat a couple times before rinsing and drying in a dark area.
You then shine light through the developed negative onto a surface with a light reactive substance (any surface not just paper) for a set amount of time depending on what the composition is.
This is then placed in a developing agent, rinsed, stabilized, and rinsed before washing and drying.
Sorce: I am a photographer
Kamelasa · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lenses transmit the image (high school level physics). Photosensitive material of any kind, be it chemical or digital, captures the differences in light and, voila, the image appears.
fairiefire · 2 points · Posted at 01:47:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a little demon in the box that paints very quickly.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes
GrizzlyEagleScout · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is an episode of The Slo-Mo Guys where Gavin free explains this exact thing. It is really well done.
qweirdo13 · 61 points · Posted at 20:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excellent summary, but I still don't get it. I can't quite wrap my mind around how it all actually works. I understand individual parts of it but I can't get the whole picture in my mind about how the 1s and 0s actually starts it all off or how it fits together. I was working on a computer science degree and dropped out because despite learning different coding languages and producing working code I still just didn't get it, and because I couldn't understand the basic fundamentals I struggled to do any of it. I think maybe I don't fully understand algorithms, either. Maybe my brain isn't wired correctly to understand it all idk
SutekhThrowingSuckIt · 32 points · Posted at 21:45:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait until you find out about how your own brain works!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Oh... Oh no! OH GOD! I'm gonna think about this for the rest of the day!
Boshikuro · 6 points · Posted at 22:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll just pretend it's the same but with meat instead of metal.
PlG3 · 3 points · Posted at 01:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah basically. "One is a barbecue accessory, the other is the barbecue."
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, your brain works? I can't even get mine to get out of bed.
JamieHynemanAMA · 40 points · Posted at 21:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one can truly understand how it all works. Even just understanding how the BIOS chip interfaces with the Operating System takes a level of understanding that would be extremely valuable and is still nothing compared to every hardware outside of it.
ReekyMarko · 25 points · Posted at 21:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This right here. Computers as a whole are so complex that no single person could ever know every single part of them.
You can basically divide the whole field of computers into two: hardware and software. Both of them can be further divided into more specific fields. Let's take software for example:
Low level stuff: Operating systems and drivers
Application layer: Web development (client/server side), desktop applications, mobile apps, game development
Networking: this further divides into the 7 layers of the OSI model
Then there's people who work on compilers, which are pieces of software that take high level languages and turn them into machine code. This is actually pretty close to hardware already.
And then there is the whole hardware field which consists of people working on CPU architectures, graphics cards and a lot more. Not getting into that but you get the idea, pretty frigging complex.
Slingshotsters · 11 points · Posted at 22:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have been forced, positively, into knowing a bunch about each of these components. It took 20 years, but it is wonderfully magic to know even deeper how these SHOULD work.
I'm happy to answer any questions if you like.
exlipsiae · 5 points · Posted at 23:03:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay interesting. Maybe it helps to think of everything as part of a single process Let's say I have a file test.py containing only the line print('hello world')
From the moment I run python3 test.py to the text showing up on my screen, could you give a basic run down of what happens in each of these single components?
Slingshotsters · 5 points · Posted at 23:33:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, let's try C or similar, a compiled language, rather than a scripting language that runs thru a binary process, one step removed. Just assume that a C program can be a program that executes python code.
So a C programmer writes "human readable code", which is compiled into machine understandable language. Before this, programmers would use assembly language, which C made easier to work with. Assembly can be burdensome.
This compiled machine code now has instructions for the CPU to do it's magic.
Some examples might look like
MOV EAX, [EBX] ; Move the 4 bytes in memory at the address contained in EBX into EAX
MOV [ESI+EAX], CL ;Move the contents of CL into the byte at address ESI+EAX
MOV DS, DX ; Move the contents of DX into segment register DS
Edit: not sure what the code states, but it might be as simple as provisioning memory for your variables, for example.
JG307 · 3 points · Posted at 23:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The CPU magic you reference is the part I'd like more explanation on. The examples you give, instructions for the CPU to execute, can you relate how it uses logic gates to perform these activities?
Slingshotsters · 3 points · Posted at 05:10:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I'm going to explain this part as best as possible, using cute metaphors.
Let's just talk about your program, it's simple, you just ask the user for input, add the input, and output a result to the screen.
Just for the arithmetic part, let's discuss what the CPU does.
At the load of your program, the PC (program counter) and control unit of the CPU are notified by your main() equivalent.
The instruction you send are to set two int variables and add them. The PC (keeps the address of the next instructions you told the CPU to perform) will hand over an address to the control unit, which interprets the instructions. The CU tells the CPU "hey, add two and three". CPU says "cool, gonna send that to the ALU to do the work". The ALU can provide arithmetic (add 2+3) and your logic gates (is the mouse cheaper from Best Buy or Amazon). The ALU will send that result back, and the result will be placed in memory, disk or to the screen.
Now the next instructions come along, the PC has stored the address of that next instruction, and the cycle continues.
TL;DR: dude tells people where the drawer is to do the task at hand. Next dude takes the task instruction out of the drawer, asks the wizard where to complete the instruction.
Wizard tells dude of the man who adds, subtracts, multiplies, divides and also does AND OR XOR functions.
Results sent to where original dude wants sent.
Flying_chicken24 · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also heard something a while ago about a thing on your motherboard that kind of combines hardware and software and that you can basicly brick your motherboard by destroying one part of it. So does this mean that when you combine these fields you get a "new" subject?
Sdrawkcabssa · 3 points · Posted at 05:09:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might be thinking of the BIOS ( Basic Input/Output System). That's called firmware, and it's code that has direct control of hardware. It's called firmware because it's the interface between the hardware and software.
You can brick something in the BIOS if you corrupt it. Since the BIOS also has information on how to start your operating system.
If you want to know more, look into embedded engineering, or digital design.
Flying_chicken24 · 2 points · Posted at 09:39:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, thank you this was exactly wat I was talking about.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In fact, I'd say that the more you understand how it actually works, the more amazed you are that any of it works at all. Just the timing involved has to be so insanely precise, it's mind boggling how we could possibly get it to work at GHz+ speed.
yazalama · 14 points · Posted at 21:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't need to understand the internals of computer architecture to be a good programmer. You said you produced working code, what about writing code did you feel uncomfortable with?
FarRightExtremist · 10 points · Posted at 22:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The higher level of the programming language, the less you need to know how the computer actually works. Assembler or C++ programmer would definitely need to know, but a Java, C#, Python, JavaScript or a similar, not really.
Kommenos · 1 points · Posted at 12:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well assembly is self-explanatory but you don't need to know how a computer works for C++ - you can write at quite a high level. You don't even really need it for C but it'll certainly help you write better code.
JadedMis · 8 points · Posted at 22:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kind of feel the same way. I am also in the same boat. If someone asks me how computers work, I'd say "something about electrical signals". The internet? "Something about servers". But I can produce a truth table in Java so that's something.
yeh_ · 8 points · Posted at 21:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I get all the binaries and stuff but how does the computer understand it? How does it know how to multiply numbers? And that's only the basics
Okymyo · 10 points · Posted at 22:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
EDIT: Someone posted this game, and it's freaking great: http://nandgame.com/
Once you have the basic logic gates, you can build increasingly complex things.
One of the first steps is a half-adder: take two bits, and add them together. Just like when you do regular addition, if it goes over 9, or in the case of computers, over 1, you need to carry it forward. So, a half-adder outputs one value and one carry.
You can chain multiple half-adders to add multiple numbers, but that's not good enough, because if you add "01" and "11", the carry from "1+1" needs to be added to "0+1", so you need a full adder, which can do that.
A full adder takes in the two values to sum, AND the previous carry, and outputs one value and a carry. These you can chain, making a full adder for how many digits you want!
Subtracting is kinda addition but in reverse, in the sense that you have the result of the sum, and one of the parts of the sum, and you want to find the other part. So, you just kinda invert the logical steps in a full adder, and you get a full subtractor.
Multiplication may seem magic, but in reality, it's just a bunch of sums. Since you're in binary, you can do something very, very simple: if you're multiplying 101 and 111, in reality, you're doing 111*1 + 1110 * 0 + 11100 * 1. So you just go over one of the numbers (A), and for each bit, if it's 1, add the other number (B), and then you add another 0 at the end of B.
So, to build a multiplier, you chain full adders so that some of the inputs from the previous adder feed into the next one, to do those sums above: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/c6/f6/5c/c6f65cf881af1ef3c73198db2065cbc0.png
(There are some tricks where you use some full adders, some half adders)
Not sure if this was a good enough explanation, but it's essentially all building blocks! Once you have something, you build something slightly more powerful using what you had before. And it's building blocks all the way up.
The only reason you can read this message is because some very busy switches in your computer were flipping, which allowed them to build logical operations, which allowed addition/subtraction operations, which allowed multiplication operations, which allowed memory operations, which allowed conditional operations, which allowed...
yeh_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, I'm following, I got lost in the multiplication part but I get how adding works now.
I guess it's just hard to imagine the amount of those transistors for me to just wrap my head around how a monitor can even display a wallpaper and let you move your mouse. And let you write code for coding more stuff. Thanks for taking the time.
Okymyo · 5 points · Posted at 22:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yep it's massive, you can't comprehend it and neither can anyone. A modern CPU has billions of transistors, with high end desktop CPUs having about 10 billion, and high end server CPUs having about 40~50 billion. It's a truly astonishing number.
To go over multiplication in a longer fashion, when you're multiplying regular numbers, to do 123 * 456, you can do 3*456 + 20*456 + 100*456. However, you can also do 3*456+2*4560+1*45600, as you're just moving where the 10 wound up. However, this is base 10, so you haven't yet solved the problem, because to know how to do 2*4560 you need to multiply yet again.
When you do the same in computers, it's exactly the same, only difference being the base 2 rather than base 10. Which... also makes something interesting happen: since it's all 0s and 1s, you're either multiplying by 1 or by 0 at each step, which don't really require "multiplication" to do since they either make the number "disappear" or they keep it the same! So, to multiply 101 and 110, you do: 1*110 + 0*1100 + 1*11000. The 0s are exactly the same as from before, but with this, it all became sums, as it's 110 + 0 + 11000. And that is how computers multiply, by transforming the multiplication into a series of sums!
EDIT: The way computers are built is analogous to one of the core principles of software development: you need to learn how to break a problem into its parts. You can't go from transistors into multiplication, it's too complex. But you can realize that to multiply, you need to add. So first, let's figure out how to add. Oh, adding is hard, but wait, maybe we can break down addition into something simpler, like AND/OR/XOR, so let's figure out how to do logic. Logic? Oh, that's not so hard, here's how we do it! And now we can add, because we just use the logic gates! And now we can multiply, because we just use the adders!
MuscleMike · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a great explanation for integer multiplication but, if I remember right, everything gets a lot more complicated when you start looking at it from a floating point perspective, especially with extremely large values where the precision becomes an issue because of the way floating point is stored, at least in C.
Okymyo · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yuuuuuuup, floating point is a lot more complicated, because it goes from "it's a number but in base 2!" to representing numbers as (-1)S * M * 2E , with S being the sign, M being the mantissa, and E being the exponent. Which comes with the drawback that not all numbers can be perfectly represented as an integer times a power of 2, leading to precision issues.
There are workarounds (e.g. Decimal in Python), but they all rely on ditching floating point and implementing their own operations, operating instead over more complex objects.
Kommenos · 2 points · Posted at 12:35:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the reasons CPUs and general purpose computing is so popular in general is that you don't need to design everything you just described at the transistor level.
For something like reading a mouse's position and displaying that on a screen you can "just" write that process in a sequence of instructions to perform addition, multiplication, moving, copying, and so on. The CPU simply blindly reads these instructions and that gives you the desired behaviour. You could implement those same instructions "in hardware" (with transistors) but it would take you far longer and cost far more and then it's utterly inflexible.
Once you've designed hardware to perform addition, multiplication and so on you can create additional logic to select between the different operations and then you have the first basic component of the modern CPU. The arithmetic logic unit.
blue_umpire · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember long addition and multiplication, where you had to 'carry' the 1 and such? Same shit, except 0-1 instead of 0-9. Physically, a voltage on a wire, above some threshold is interpreted as 1 and below some threshold is interpreted as 0.
As for what the numbers mean; the computer has lookup tables (each called an encoding) where it shows you the letter from the table, for any given number. Google for ascii table for a common lookup table.
RoIIerToasterTyphoon · 6 points · Posted at 21:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all layers upon layers of abstraction, no one truly needs to understand 100%, but knowing a layer well (and a bit about the layer bellow that also tends to be useful) is more than enough you need for the day to day drive in whatever CS/software sub-field.
TheBestIsaac · 5 points · Posted at 22:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'll never get it. Maybe have a look at this. He's pretty good a breaking down computer stuff to it's lowest levels. Have a look at the ones where he makes a graphics card.
Maybe also look at how transistors make logic gates. Then how logic gates can make a bit of memory. Then how logic gates can make a simple calculator style processing unit.
You'll never really understand this if it's not your profession. So don't worry about that.
qweirdo13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tried to make it my profession, but I didn't understand it lol. Thanks though I'll have to check out that video sometime
butrejp · 4 points · Posted at 22:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
are you perhaps not looking for how, but rather why?
qweirdo13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really get the how, I definitely don't understand why it works. Does anyone understand why it works?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
jtcuber435 gave an excellent explanation of what a functional computer is and what the parts do, but I'll try and expand and start getting into the next logical step, how software tells a computer what to do.
Taking the CPU as a whole, it carries out instructions that are submitted to it. As jtcuber435 mentioned, computers only understand binary, 1's and 0's. In order to tell a CPU what to do, we have to submit those instructions using binary, which is usually referred to as machine language. The instructions a CPU knows how to deal with are called an instructions set. So to tell a CPU to add 2 numbers together, we would submit the instruction for addition, then submit the 2 numbers to be added together, all in binary. It's actually more complicated than that, because at this low level when we are communicating directly with the hardware, we have to tell the CPU where and how to store the numbers, where to store the output, etc...
However, since only the most insane of programmers, or those working with very first computers, could tolerate programming a computer using machine language, assembly language was invented. This made it much easier for humans to work with computers and tell them what to do, but now that means we have code written by humans which can't be interpreted directly by the computer. To solve this problem, the assembly code had to be converted into machine language, which is typically called compiling the code.
Assembly language was a huge step forward, but still had major draw backs. For instance, to tell the CPU to add two numbers,you still had to be very careful about where you told it to store those values, or you might overwrite something else that was important in the computer's memory. So humans came up with other programming languages, like C, C++, Java, etc... which makes it much faster and less error prone for humans to write software, but at the expense of some efficiency when the code is executed.
These higher level languages have to be compiled to assembly language, then compiled to machine language. Typically, when we progress from machine language > assembly language > higher level languages, we call this abstraction. This lets us treat the computer like a black box, where the programmer doesn't have to know things like what an instruction set is, how to work with binary, how to write assembly language, or even any of the shit that I or jtcuber435 have already touched on. They just have to know the language and some basic programming concepts and suddenly they can do something with 1 line of code that would have taken a computer expect an entire day to accomplish on the first computers.
Slingshotsters · 3 points · Posted at 22:44:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the book - I'm not sure if it was an autobiography or a biography of Bill Gates - the author made a fantastic analogy for someone to understand how binary numbers, a basic language of zeros and ones work. (I've augmented the explanation)
Imagine I have one light bulb, and 8 switches to control the brightness.
The switch(es) turned on in different configuration raise the brightness.
Turn that right switch on or off, then the second to right switch on or off, and so on, light becomes brighter.
So, visually, let's see the light switches as 0s and 1s. 1 is the switch in the up position, 0 in the down position. I will indicate the number associated with each switch configuration, translated to the binary number equivalent of human readable.
00000000 = 0 00000001 = 1 00000010 = 2 00000011 = 3 00000100 = 4 ... 11111111 = 256
64b switches on the bulb analogy would change the brightness steps, as a modern CPUs run in 64 bit configurations.
Ok, so why does this matter?
Let's take a keyboard. Very simple peripheral. Each letter and symbol have a binary equivalent.
Examples: A is 01000001 P is 01010000
A simple word processor will have spell check. If you type a word incorrectly, the software will try to use it's "intelligence" with regards to similar patterns, as well as context of the sentence (very simplified explanation). Comparing at the CPU level looks at these 0s and 1s, compare and give out the results of one or more options for the user to choose.
Hope this makes sense. Edits coming I'm sure
PlG3 · 3 points · Posted at 23:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know less than the other guy, but let me try a different way.
In terms of the abstract design, any and every computer is made of three layers. Hardware at the bottom, Application layer at the top (all applications live here), and the OS layer in the middle, all stacked like this:
ApplicationLayer
OS Layer
Hardware Layer
There are two types of computers, specific-purpose (imagine a "computer" that is only a calculator), and general-purpose (what we call computers usually).
For a specific purpose computer, you have only one application running on the hardware, so you can skip layer 2. In a general-purpose computer, you have many applications that will try to share hardware resources, so you plug in the OS in the middle to manage/schedule access from apps in the app later to hardware that is basically shared between the apps.
I will assume single core processors for our dummy system, which are ancient. u/jtcuber435 already covered very important parts we need to know above, I am only adding to it.
Specific-Purpose Computer:
The hardware layer's main parts are:
The processor's job is to execute instructions from a given location in RAM. The instructions to run are stored in RAM and executed sequentially until it encounters an instruction that tells it specifically to do something else like jump to a different location, or halt execution entirely. The data and instructions are both stored in the RAM at different places, and there is fundamentally no difference between them, except how your program is programmed to read it.
During the process of executing instructions, it may store few small pieces of data in registers built in to the processor. An imaginary instruction sequence can look like:
IN R1; # Get user input and store in register 1
IN R2; # Get another piece of data and store in R2
MULT R0, R1, R2; # Multiply R1 and R2 and store result in R0.
OUT R0; # Send result to output
Of course, these are stored in RAM in binary form, but that is too hard to read so we translate to "assembly language" (valid instructions are derived from the hardwiring, and is listed in the processor's Instruction Set Architecture [ISA] as provided by the manufacturer).
Add a few more of these (ADD, DIVIDE, etc.) and allow user input to select between them with a third "IN" statement, and we have ourselves a simple calculator app. Now you can put your app on the RAM, at the location it is set to start executing from when powered up, and we have a specific-purpose computer, that is a calculator. Yay!
General-Purpose Computer:
So now, imagine, as you play around with your new machine, you watch and analyze graphs that says how busy your system is. You notice that overwhelmingly, your resources are idle, since your usage of the app is so much slower than the speed of the machine. So you have an idea to add more apps, such that the machine will switch between the two real fast. So fast that to us dumb hoomans, it seems like they are running at the same time.
So you create a music player app. Now you have a calculator and a winamp. But how do you plug them in together?
First you put them both in RAM at different locations. But how do you initiate execution such that they both run? Well, you create an OS. You make it such that the OS runs in a loop forever until you press something pre-programmed to stop it.
Remember, it is also just another program (lines of code) that is sitting at a third location in RAM. But we make it such that after booting, the machine will start executing OS code, not wherever your apps are.
After the OS has run its initial code and is ready to run apps, it will use JUMP, and similar instructions to jump, to switch execution to another section of RAM to execute your winamp app. Lets it run for a millisecond, then interrupts it to let it JUMP to the calculator app. 1 ms later, it will jump back.
Now you still have a specific-purpose computer, but it runs two specific things. Lol. Multi-specific-purpose computer. Now you can do your multiplications while listening to Porcupine Tree, or w/e else you like listening to.
But now if you add enough code to your OS (to create shells/desktops, filesystems, etc), then you will be able to add new apps from within the system, juggle your apps alongside a bunch of other things and suddenly you find yourself using a proper computer.
Hopefully that explanation helped.
Now, the way I have put it, might make it seem like what makes it a general-purpose device is the stuff you add to the OS. Well, yes and no (more no than yes). It truly has to come from what is offered by the hardwiring and the ISA. Very smart people put in a lot of time to figure out exactly what kinds of problems are "computable", and what kind of logic circuits must go in to a device (aka what kind of instructions will be supported by the ISA) to make it capable (at a hardware level) of handling any general problem that is "computable".
Once you make such a device, you have the hardware for a general-purpose computer. Then you put in the OS with proper capabilities, and plug in that weird wire that seems to fit the slot on the wall and the slot on your device, and before you know it, you are surfing with kittens on YT. Happy surfing.
Funny enough, you can make a general purpose computer with 15 instructions (possibly 8 even, not sure about that). It will be a really slow one, but in theory it would handle any problem that a supercomputer could, as long as you give it enough RAM, storage and time. Google up the LC-3 if curious.
flobbley · 3 points · Posted at 02:22:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Ben Eater on youtube, he builds almost all of the most basic computer components on breadboards, it's as close to the hardware as you can get. That way he walks you through step by step how each component takes just a high voltage and a low voltage (1 and 0) and makes it into something useful.
This is a good starter video where he builds a graphics card on breadboards.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7rce6IQDWs
aashay2035 · 2 points · Posted at 02:24:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to do a electrical or computer engineering job to really understand. It took me until Junior year to get it to all click in my mind.
qweirdo13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did two years of comp sci courses and it never clicked for me
Doctah_Whoopass · 2 points · Posted at 13:17:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its because shit is so advanced now that its literally too difficult for one person to understand everything there is to know. Like, singular people dont understand all of chemistry, or all of physics, you have lots of people specialize in one field.
sohmeho · 2 points · Posted at 17:03:43 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video series really helped me out. This guy builds an 8-bit computer on a breadboard from basic components. It does a good job of showing you how an electrical signal can be stored and manipulated, which really helps to bridge that knowledge gap.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLowKtXNTBypGqImE405J2565dvjafglHU
Kraggen · 27 points · Posted at 19:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s all familiar to me, but I get very lost in the transition from generating something simple like a number or letter to something intensive like a game or music files. It’s incredible that the computers can do all of that in practically real time.
jtcuber435 · 20 points · Posted at 21:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, complicated things like operating systems, games, and other large things can get confusing when you try to think about how they run on the hardware level. I think about it in a layered way, from hardware and up. I talked a bit about how operating systems work in a different comment in this thread, and if you have any questions just ask.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it kind of like recursion in programming? Like I can pretty easily understand a recursive piece of code, and write a simple program, to, say, search a tree or a graph or something, because in reality it's often just a step or two, but I never understand the whole picture unless I write out every single step. Like I just try to think of it as "take this simple idea, now apply it 500 times."
I have a question if you don't mind answering. How does the electricity, the 1s and 0s, directly link to communicating with the computer, and doing all the stuff within the computer? I understand 1s and 0s and the gates end up basically being directions, but how are those interpreted on a physical level? How does the computer take in the electricity and know what it means?
KingMinish · 7 points · Posted at 22:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well, I guess the way to say it would be that the computer doesn't know what the electricity means, it's just that the electricity reacts with these microscopic circuits in specific and predictable ways, such that they can be organized and then layered on top of one another to give a useful output
the weird mindfuckery about computers is that no single person understands the full hardware stack to the degree that they could ever reproduce one on their own. Someone could probably build a PC that would be equivalent to like, 70's processing power, just because those CPUs were so much less complex that you'd actually be able to understand and plot the circuits out as a single person.
I'm just a layman so I'm pulling all of this out of my ass really, but from reading about things every now and then the impression that I got was that different teams of computer scientists working for CPU manufacturers basically plot out the circuits in different sections of a CPU, and they use old circuit patterns to build off of, and then make like a unit of the CPU that can be fed an input in a sequence 1's and 0's, and then do something predictable based on that input, rendering out some other sequence of 1's and 0's. Then those electrical outputs get fed into other units on the CPU that are doing the same thing, but built and specialized by other teams of computer scientists working in tandem. And this process has basically been stacking in top of itself for decades to give us more efficient arrangements of these circuits and different types of processing nodes that can all be integrated together on a single CPU.
Alongside all of that is a bunch of brilliant math that can figure out what has to be done algorithmically to modify a number in a useful way, and then these computer scientists figure out how to represent the mathematical actions done in that algorithm in the form of a sequence of elecrical switches that they can build on a circuit board. Hence all the different specialized types of chips and different chip manufacturers, like there are companies that just make incredible chips for dealing with audio because all of their scientists have really good understandings of the math around audio and how to create an effective circuit to do things to audio signals.
It's all a great big arcane mathematical co-operative effort that's been building on itself for decades
jtcuber435 · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the computer doesn't actually understand the 1's or 0's, which are just a way for humans to think about something having voltage or no voltage, being on or off.
The gates are made up of transistors, or little switches, which allow power through if the voltage at the base is either on or off, depending on the type of transistor (NPN or PNP). You can look up some of the schematics for logic gates, and try to think about how those work.
If you want to learn more about actual transistors and why semiconductors act the way they do, try finding a youtube video because it's kind of hard to describe exactly how they work in words. It gets really into physics when you start learning in depth about how semiconductors work.
mariebks · 2 points · Posted at 22:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d like to answer the “how does the computer take in electricity and know what it means” part as this is probably the main part that I think most people don’t understand about how computers work. I am currently taking a class at my University (CS major) on computer organization, and the overarching theme of this class deals with exactly this. The specific topics we learn are how CPU’s are designed and process instructions, the interplay between the CPU cache and memory, and the meat of the class is on ISAs or instruction set architectures. ISAs are really the thing that if people knew were a thing, then they would understand how computers generally work.
Intel and AMD desktop and laptop processors use the x86 instruction set, and iPhones, Androids, and other low power devices use the ARM architecture, an ISA that you can use but have to pay royalties on. So to my main point, what these ISAs are are a set of instructions that a CPU built with the ISA in mind can recognize and compute. An example is the ADD instruction, that has many formats in true ARM, but for the sake of example may look like ADD 4 5 6. This instruction would add the numbers in the CPU register 4, register 5, and then put the result in register 6 (registers are special places in the CPU that store numbers, they are generally very small, about 32 in a modern processor, and are extremely fast to get data in and out of). This ADD instruction to the CPU is a 64 bit string of 1 and 0s (in the case of 64-bit ARM). And the CPU is specifically looking at several bits to see what instruction it is getting. There may be an ADD instruction, a LOAD instruction (to load a number from a certain memory location and put it into a certain register) and so on. Because an ARM CPU would be built from ARM, and ARM may specify that the bits 50-45 are the opcode bits denoting what kind of instruction it is, then the CPU would take a 64 bit instruction either from memory or the disk, look at bits 50-45, and see that its 01011, and for the sake of understanding let’s pretend this is the string of bits to denote the ADD instruction, and because it sees those bits in that location in the instruction, it would know that since it’s an ADD instruction, to look at specific locations in the 64 bit string for which parts may denote one of the registers to get one of the numbers to be added, another several bits will denote the other register, and some other bits will denote the register to put the final number in.
Feel free to ask me some specific questions because I know this is a dense and complicated answer, but this is probably five 90-minute lectures in my class that deals mostly with this concept, and ties it in with some actual circuit designs across many levels of abstraction.
TLDR: The reason computers know how to take in electricity and know what it means is because they are designed exactly to recognize certain strings of on and off switches and exactly where to send the electricity based off of certain on off switches. In other words, they are told exactly what to look for and what to do.
ShortGiant · 1 points · Posted at 08:56:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that this answer doesn't quite hit the crux of the matter. You mention computers "knowing" things, "sending" things, and "looking" for things. This implies that there's some fundamental part of the computer that has some agency, and IMO leads directly back to OP's original question: "How does the computer take in the electricity and know what it means?"
The missing clarity is that for the ADD instruction 01011 in your example, those 0's and 1's literally represent electricity that blocks off and opens pathways for other electricity to travel, and once that electricity gets to where it's going it blocks off and opens other pathways for other electricity to travel, and so on until electricity is present in register 6 in the exact configuration that represents the sum of the data in registers 4 and 5. There's no knowing, sending, or looking - it's all just electricity automatically opening and closing paths for other electricity in just the right way (because the electrical channels were constructed very carefully) so that we get the results we want.
I don't mean to rag on you at all, by the way. I think your answer was a good overview of some of the basics of computer architecture. But I don't think it quite pierced the abstraction that OP was looking to pierce.
mariebks · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand your criticism, and you're right, I did use the same terminology "knowing" and "sending" that the question was asking. I think your addition in saying that the 0s and 1s are electricity flow is helpful. The point of my answer is to say that the computer knows because the circuit is set up in such a way, and my example was there to illustrate how the computer is set up to "know" what to do for a certain instruction.
icepyrox · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really mind-boggling to think about it this way. I takes a couple seconds to write this sentence, but in that time, a computer CPU has done literally trillions of addition, subtraction, asking for data, or recording data, and that's just the CPU. That's not the only operations happening. There are so many chips in a computer doing lots of stuff at the same time.
I_hate_traveling · 44 points · Posted at 16:08:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the effort, mate, I'll give it a read!
Psykechan · 17 points · Posted at 19:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why explain it when you can play and learn it?
jmechy · 6 points · Posted at 20:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, this is probably the best possible way to understand how you get from binary to anything resembling real running code. Really helped me understand just how combining simple gates could possibly add up to a CPU
miraksy · 6 points · Posted at 22:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This and redstone computer maps in minecraft
Xyber-Faust · 3 points · Posted at 21:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That really just confused me more. Now I need a game to learn how to play that game.
BreadOfTheChild12 · 14 points · Posted at 20:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I lost you at "basically".
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 20:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a fantastic explanation, thank you!
I still don’t know how 1s and 0s mean I can run around in Diablo 3, but I love the way you described it. Like, how do the gates know what “1” even means or is in the first place?
SidewaysSky · 16 points · Posted at 21:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
they don't; 1's and 0's are just what humans use to make it easier to describe what's going on. What the transistor recognises is when there's a voltage on it (1) or no voltage (0)
Boostafazoom · 8 points · Posted at 22:09:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, and that's the problem with most of these explanations. You truly have to start from the very bottom in order to actually understand how all of this works, instead of saying something like "it's all 1s and 0s".
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These clarifications are really helpful. It helps me have a little more perspective when looking at binary and bits and bytes and whatnot. Y’all rock
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:51:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for that link! I like visuals, so this was really helpful. And explaining doping is useful, too.
wilki24 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The gates don't really know what a 1 or 0 is. Think of them as boxes that have one or more light switches, and either lights up or turns off a light bulb depending on the position of the switches.
The way each gate works depends on it's intended function.
An "and" machine would have two switches, and would only turn on the light bulb if both switches are turned on. "This switch and that switch"
An "or" machine would have two switches, and would turn on the light bulb if either or both of the switches are turned on. (i.e. you have to turn off both switches to get the light bulb to turn off) "This switch or that switch, or both at the same time"
An "xor" (exclusive or) machine would have two switches, and would turn on the light bulb only if one switch or the other were turns on, but not both at the same time. "This switch or that switch, but not both at the same time"
A "not" gate would be like a light switch someone installed upside down. When you turned it off, the light would be on, when you turned it on, the light would go off.
As to the actual mechanics of how we make each switch work the way we want inside of the transistor? Not sure exactly.
As for video games, I don't think our brains can really quite "hold" a working model of how a modern computer operates, because it's capable of doing billions of things in one second, and it's the very complex organization of billions of these little switches and the software that controls them that ends up giving us a little virtual world to run around in. Ultimately, it does all break down to switches turning on and off to do simple math, which combined does more complicated math, which combined makes Diablo breath fire on your screen.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes more sense. I still have trouble wrapping my head around how on or off does that it does, billions of times a second or not.
Something funny is, my grandfather was on the Bell Labs team that developed transistors. I have a picture of him doing a Rockette kick line with Shockley, Bardeen, Brattain and a few others. It’s surreal. He was also on a team that reverse engineered a Nazi communication system using one German vacuum tube.
And I still prefer not to think about how it all works because my brain hurts.
Samwise210 · 13 points · Posted at 20:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except all of this is built on transistors which literally use magic to be on or off, so...
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic otherwise known as semiconductors and electricity.
liveontimemitnoevil · 10 points · Posted at 21:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in a uni level solid state physics class right now. Can confirm. It's actually magic.
GermanGliderGuy · 7 points · Posted at 21:44:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that feeling.
And then they add magnetism.
Just keep at it, it's pretty neat once one
understands itembraces the magicvengefulgrapes · 12 points · Posted at 19:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great explanation, but I (to clarify I'm not OP) get the most confused about how an operating system's code works. How does a computer "know" how to interpret the code of the OS? It's like there has to be a code written into the computer telling it how to interpret the coding language. Is it that simple, where some sort of instructions written in binary tells it how to interpret code? Because even that sounds incredibly complicated, knowing how to tell a computer what to do when it's told what to do.
jtcuber435 · 12 points · Posted at 20:51:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, I'm glad you liked the explanation. Just remember all a CPU does is take an input and produce an output. The CPU isn't programmed to do anything, it has no long term storage. Everything it does is based on logic gates. So in a way, the CPU is programmed to execute binary using transistors.
All code must be converted to 1s and 0s so the CPU can understand it, this is achieved using a compiler. Operating systems are usually written in C and are stored on the disk as compiled code. The CPU can then just execute this line by line.
When you boot your computer, the BIOS (basic input output system) which is stored in a ROM (read only memory) chip, is run. The BIOS is just a set of instructions which are fed into the CPU on boot. It deals with initializing hardware (chipset, RAM, PCIe, etc.) and POST (power on self test). It does this using the instructions on the ROM chip.
Now that the hardware is initialized and ready to go, the BIOS looks for the MBR (master boot record) on the disk, then hands over control from BIOS to the bootloader code, which is stored on disk. The bootloader loads the kernel (the part of the OS closest to hardware), and from there the kernel executes the code on disk to load to a higher level of OS and eventually a graphical interface.
The hardware can't just immediately begin executing code, first it has to set things up layer by layer until it gets somewhere, but the CPU is always able to execute binary. How computers use software and hardware to boot is a really large subject, and if you want to learn more, crash course on youtube has a really good beginner playlist on computer science.
yazalama · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're thinking of how a compiler works
Pascalwb · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much. Basically the CPU has some set instructions. Like move this from this place in memory to this place in memory. Interrupt this.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Machine_code
Then you have e.g. assembly which is more readable than machine code.
Or up top you have high level languages, which are really readable for humans. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/High-level_programming_language
Which then gets compiled to something lower level.
s0m30n3e1s3 · 8 points · Posted at 20:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very good and in-depth explanation, I do however love that the only initialism you didn't reveal was SATA. It really feels like they ran out of ideas with that one
JestFlamez · 2 points · Posted at 01:47:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That genuinely seems like a plausible scenario.
DrBag · 8 points · Posted at 21:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so basically a whole bunch yes or no questions going at incredibly high speeds
JadedMis · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perfect TL;DR
mikemncini · 3 points · Posted at 21:31:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I now understand more about computers and how they work than I ever have, or could have thought I would. I’m not tech savvy despite being in my 30s, and computers / smartphones / apps baffle me. Thank you. This is incredibly helpful
EnlightenedCorncob · 3 points · Posted at 21:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic. Got it
_duncan_idaho_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, I don't have any original thoughts. You all comment what I'm thinking hours before I do.
punmanager · 3 points · Posted at 21:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the right commentator meets the right comment...
DriverGuy99 · 3 points · Posted at 19:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scrolled for the TL;DR. Thank you :)
Dontgiveaclam · 2 points · Posted at 19:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, just wow, fantastic explanation! I've always had a hard time remembering all the parts and stuff but this is very clear and concise. Thanks!
wilki24 · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a loose analogy that I've used myself. Think of it like a person sitting at a desk doing work.
CPU - the decision making part of the brain (not the actual thought process, just the brain structure that makes it possible to think)
Software application - The actual thought process that's currently happening in that part of the brain
Memory - The papers on the desk that the person is currently working on. (You can get to them quickly)
Hard Drive/SSD - The papers filed away in the desk drawer. (Takes longer to find that you're looking for and pull it out to work on)
Video Card (GPU) - the part of the brain that interprets light into images in your mind. (Really, it's doing the opposite, because it's taking a representation of an image and turning it into light via the monitor!)
notacommonname · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the hardware. The computer also needs software... The operating system. For example, Windows or Linux...
The operating system is what abstracts the raw hardware (memory, disks, processors) into an environment that can run programs. A bunch of them all at the same time, sharing memory, disks, processors but generally not stomping on each other. The OS let's you format a disk (which basically has a bunch of bytes) such that there are folders and files. You think a computer is doing "nothing" because you're not running a program (e g. Notepad). But underneath, the OS is running along with 50 or more services/programs that you generally don't even think about.
Computers are definitely crazy-complicated.
SimpleQuantum · 2 points · Posted at 21:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh I can put together a PC but I still have no fucking idea what you just said
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a good explanation but it doesn't help me at all. Just creates more questions and makes me even more amazed that humans managed to figure this out.
_Joba_ · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you explain to me how someone coded the first code! Like there wasn’t code invented yet! I don’t understand how they told a computer what to do when they clicked on stuff on the monitor, and I mean like how they do it for the FIRST computer like this?
sigmatic_minor · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watching the movie "the imitation game" might help! Shows the first sorts of "computer".
I can't do a good job of explaining, but machines used binary (the 1s and 0s, on or off). Code is basically used as a shortcut and translator for humans to instruct the 1s and 0s because otherwise the equivalent code would be billions of inputs long instead of a few hundred lines of code.
Look into the history of things like punch cards which may help your understanding of how input was translated into tasks for the computers, and look up the difference between assembly code (talks directly to the hardware) vs high level code (used to make applications) and it might help bridge the gap :) I'm sorry I couldn't do a better job of explaining!!
tinilk · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first computers in the 40s and 50s were basically enormous calculators. They didn't have keyboards or monitors. They used big tubes that look like lightbulbs instead of tiny transistors, so the programmers could actually walk over and see their program's 1s and 0s making their way through the machine as they lit up and turned off. They were so much simpler than the computers that came later, that the programmer could actually visualize how the whole machine worked when writing programs. Programming consisted of manually arranging the 1s and 0s beforehand, either with physical switches that the programmer would flip by hand, or later, stacks of paper "punch cards" that contained the program in the form of little holes in the cards to represent the 1s or 0s.
badken · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So, from the u/jtcuber435's description, you know that the CPU uses bits (internally, electrical signals) and switches (transistors) to take certain actions depending on the bits. After it takes the actions, it outputs another bunch of bits which are in turn interpreted by the rest of the system.
In very early computers the "programs" were input using a set of switches that represented the instructions to the CPU. A CPU interprets various patterns of bits as either instructions or data, one instruction might be "remember the next two pieces of data, treat them as numbers, and add them together."
A programmer would set up a group of physical switches as a binary number (just a group of bits represented by electrical signals meaning 1 or 0), press a physical button, and that binary number would be stored directly in the very small amount of available RAM (Random-Access Memory). When the entire "program" was entered, another button would start the CPU reading the RAM, interpreting the instructions and data, and its output would be represented as a set of lights on the front of the computer. The output would also be just a binary number represented by a series of lights.
Before long, things got more sophisticated. Card readers were invented. Rather than flipping switches on a panel, the programmer could use a machine that converted typing to binary punched on a card. The cards were just like index cards, only a bit longer, and the machine punched the holes in them. (Hence the term "punch cards".) They were read by light sensitive devices. A hole in a certain position represented a 1, no hole represented a 0. A stack of cards was fed to the computer, and it was able to read those and interpret them as instructions and data, and output the results on some sort of display or printer. Those output devices simply interpreted the output signals from the CPU as numbers and letters and presented them in a more human friendly way than a panel of lights.
Eventually computers were built with their own internal set of instructions — what would now be called ROM for Read-Only Memory, but it was very different originally. Those instructions allowed the CPU to interpret more complex input, for example, a programming language like FORTRAN. Still a simple language, but easier for humans to work with. The way that worked is that it would use the built-in instructions to convert the FORTRAN instructions on the punch cards into a set of binary instructions that could be directly used by the CPU. That process is called "compiling," and the instructions that perform it are the "compiler" program. It would store the binary output of the compiler in RAM, then run the binary code and send the results to an output device.
This is the way things were when I started working with computers. Funny thing was, it was a while before terminals became a thing, where you could type directly on a keyboard and view the results on a printer, and eventually a screen. With the earliest programming languages, you still had to type your program on punch cards and feed the punch cards to the computer!
DISCLAIMER: this is all from my own memories of working with early computers as a teenager, without consulting references, so some of the details might be a little off. The broad concepts of how the earliest programming worked is all there though.
_Joba_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow this was an excellent answer. I appreciate this info kind stranger that was fascinating to read and think about. We have come a long way.
Nuclearb0m · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, usually instruction related stuff go into registers, which are tiny. (Like 16kb each maybe)
Killedbydeth2 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I was surprised he missed those
deadlyturtle22 · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have wondered this for years... So basically the 1's and 0's are just a visual for us to better understand off and on for the computer? Hence why the run via binary code. It is really just a series of transistors(?) That are either off or on and the computer uses that specific series to dictate what its command is. Meaning opening up an application would just turn off some transitors and open up others?
At least for the processing aspect. Or does the GPU also work off of those transistors?
jtcuber435 · 3 points · Posted at 23:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What helped me understand how computers work was looking at the schematics of logic gates and understanding how they work. All they are is a bunch of transistors with their bases, collectors, and emitters connected in a specific pattern.
When you open an application a lot of things happen, but the idea is the OS moves the program to RAM, then the CPU executes it line by line. There are a ton of other things that happen but thats the basic idea.
To cover your other question, GPUs also process data, just like CPUs. The difference is CPUs can do a couple very hard tasks, and GPUs are made to do thousands of tiny tasks at the same time. GPUs are also made of logic gates.
The GPU gets data from the CPU which tells it what to render. The GPU does a lot of math to turn the data outputted by the CPU into an output that we can understand. That includes video games, where the GPU uses 3d techniques to render each frame from CPU data.
GPUs can do other parallel tasks, not just outputting video data. One great example is mining cryptocurrency, GPUs are great at parallel cryptographic hashing, which is needed for bitcoin mining.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know a reasonable amount of compsci and have an okay understanding of computer architecture, but this is the best explanation I've ever seen. On average, there is more information per word here than there is in most other sources on the internet.
Phirk · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks mate for the answer i'll save it for summer, when i have time to read this
natekit- · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus Christ
WuTouchdmyweenie · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can I use this for a future essay on how computers work
motodextros · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for taking the time to type that out. I learned a lot!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This a great explanation imo. I like to use the analogy of the board in the computer as a big city and talk about each component as different parts of the city to make it run
Krzd · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very nice explanation, one thing though, your description for an OR gate is an XOR (exclusive or, as OR Gates also output 1 if both inputs are 1).
jtcuber435 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, I'll fix that.
kattspraak · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Super helpful ! Thank you!
illegal-bacon · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a very indepth and well put together explanation but I think it needs a little bit of clarity in regards to the CPU & its caches.
In your description you say that the caches are used to store information used in calculations but they are actually a constant part of the pipeline itself.
When a program is loaded into main memory, the instructions are loaded into the CPU caches in batches, this way the CPU can effectively chain execute the instructions in the cache constantly without having to request main memory if needed. The caches also working as a hierarchy with the smallest and fastest typically being L1 and upwards as many levels as needed.
From your description it sounds like you are referring to registers, which the CPU use to store temporary information in calculations like carry bits and so on.
Source: wrote a few programs to simulate this during my Master's in computer science.
Edit: spelling
limeforadime · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean it was meant to just be a summary of how computing works — you could argue that dozens of spots could have been elaborated on but imo he did a really good job of keeping it simple.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The quality of comments on reddit is really astonishing!
Galaxy_Ranger_Bob · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My problem with computers, hell, with any electronics is that knowing how they're supposed to work, and the fact that they work that way most of the time doesn't make me feel better when they don't work some of the time.
Six times out of ten, double clicking on an icon will open the program in question. That's great. That's what it is supposed to do. But then there is that other 40% of the time. Not only does it not open the program in question. It doesn't even fail consistently. When it fails, it will sometimes simply not work, other times it will open the wrong program. Others, it will cause my entire device to hang forever until I have to replace it with a brand new one.
If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. What is it called when you do the same thing over and over again expecting the same result but getting different and unpredictable results instead?
sponge_welder · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A lot of time that happens because the computer is working on something else and misses the input.
Imagine you have a microcontroller that turns on a light when you push a button. You would expect that to work every time because it's such a simple task that it would be nearly impossible to mess up. Now imagine that the programmer adds in a secondary function that doesn't do anything visible, but it takes a little bit of time (this is known as a blocking function because it blocks other actions from happening). Now if you press the button while the second function is running, nothing will happen because the computer was busy doing something else.
The same thing can happen with a computer, especially since it runs code developed on different machines by lots of different people with different goals in mind. If a background process gets into a weird state and keeps control of the computer for too long it's possible to miss things
Galaxy_Ranger_Bob · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That explains what happens on my computer, but I have these kind of failures on my phone, my television, my microwave, and light switches.
There is nothing more annoying than when you flip a switch to turn on the overhead light and instead it turns on the wireless radio.
ShortGiant · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It sounds like you may have wiring issues in your home. I'm not kidding.
Galaxy_Ranger_Bob · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't just happen at home. It happens everyplace I go, hotels, businesses, stores. If I walk into a building, electronics in that building will start behaving in ways that don't make sense.
If someone is using their phone around me, their phone stops working right.
vallyallyum · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, magic?
tOM_tAR · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love the TLDR
grahamsss · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude thank you
MyPornAlt13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what you're saying is that it's a series of tubes..
blahblahcat7 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was great. What are your thoughts on quantum logic gates. I started reading about them but got hung up with a logic gate containing the square root of -1.
BTRunner · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the OP, but I actually get this this part. I accept the logic of binary computation. What I cannot quite fathom is how all of this is abstracted to mid-high level programming languages humans can grasp, and further abstracted into programs the average person can use daily with little understanding.
It's how millions of On/Off switches let me waste hours of my day on Reddit that I just don't understand!
DoctorsSong · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best TLDR I've seen yet!
blamb211 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic, got it
ultranothing · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If computers are, at their simplest, turning electricity on and off, then we're harnessing the natural forces of life in a way that video games are actual universes.
MySocratesNote_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fundamentals of computing did not make sense to me until I took a class (as part of a CS degree) designing basic circuits from logic gates. Once we built an adder and started stringing them together, then it was much easier to see how complex logic could be built from these fundamental electrical thingies.
jtcuber435 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember when I was like 10, I loved programming and electrical engineering, and I would play around with transistors and discrete components. I built a 4 bit adder using only transistors. That really helped me understand the complexity of computers, and also how simple the principle is.
oOmus · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add to this- the very, very basic levels of a computer -like how does something “know” a language like binary or machine language is because of patterns exhibited by the material components of hardware. All the higher level stuff is fascinating, but it’s also cool to think of lightning being channeled through valleys of rare earth elements, and the predictable behavior of those miraculous events to be exploited, layered atop one another, and blam- pornography.
Ethwood · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to say I dont understand logic gates. Looks like you covered that too. Thanks!
Stan-It · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe going through this will help as well!
https://www.nand2tetris.org/
Brown_Pride_Rx · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok technomancer.
TurboCake17 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kinda get this, but absolutely cannot understand how and where software and hardware join. Sure, you can make a binary AND gate in the CPU with transistors, but how do you program the computer to do things? How can you change what the electricity does to such a great degree?
formerly_cool · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DUDE THANKS SO MUCH I TOTALLY GET IT NOW!
Seriously. Thanks!
Mondeleev · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the original interaction between the hardware and software work? On the most basic level how is that translation done?
beastly_guy · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correct me if I'm misinterpreting, but ill answer "how does the CPU know how to run the program I write?"
The answer is compilers or interpreters, which are software to translate from a rich language like C# to machine code (byte code) which the CPU can understand directly. Compilers prepare the programs for the CPU so when you want to use it, the CPU knows what to do. These programs are at the absolute most basic level, very very complicated pattern matchers.
As an example let's say your program could square numbers, but your calculator can only understand multiplication. To translate it you would go through your program and everytime you see the pattern "x2" you replace it with "x*x"
If you want more in depth let me know.
LittleBigAxel · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP, but I think he didn't mean he couldn't understand that. This is basic knowledge.
drdookie · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One some level I understand how it works, I just don't get why it works.
Gandalf323 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That legit taught me more about how computers work as a whole than an entire semester of system architecture.
Kaisogen · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great explanation. I'm being a bit nitpicky here but the actual fastest place to store data is in a register, say RAX. Accessing these is blindingly fast compared to RAM or even Cache.
TheMemoryofFruit · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ❤️ U😍
GabeThyGodly · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im skipping most of this but question is, how tf did someone invent this? Madman..
Simba_610 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out THIS guy.
PinkPrincessPetite · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been drinking so I can’t comprehend this right now but I saved your comment to read later. THANK YOU!!
WillFireat · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very nice explanation
SecretBismarck · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My computers profesor had us studiying intel 8086 and that later versions bulit off of it
onewilybobkat · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've studied computers for years, I understand how all of this works really, and you know what? The shit is STILL somehow black magic to me. Everything we're able to do on these things, all technically just little pulses of electricity.
Roman3667 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg. I was able to follow that and it made perfect sense. Very well written explanation.
Jbriggs5833 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I couldn’t give you an award for your comment for some reason. So I gave it to your bento box post. Thanks for this, it’s amazing. You should create a simplified explanation video on YouTube.
96imok · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After the second paragraph my brain started to get jumbled but you reminded me of something. People can make computers in Minecraft that do lots of different kinds of things since the redstone mechanic follow the same 1 0 principle. In fallout 4 they also added a 1 0 connectors and they even added logic gates, I have yet to see anyone make a computer that plays doom inside of fallout 4
PureDungeonMistress · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does programming language translate into bits that the cpu "understands"?
MuscleMike · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I generally understand how data storage and indexing works and how the thransistors and logic gates work and how all these things combine to make the cpu and ram and disk and how these things are utilized to perform any task the computer needs. I get how once the OS and BIOS code are running they can tell the cpu where to fetch any set of instructions needed to get everything doing what it's supposed to. What's still wizardry to me is how the act of me pressing the power button starts the execution of the first instruction in the OS and/or BIOS and get everything started. Is anyone able to explain that?
Also, before operating systems were a thing, how were early computers given instructions at all? How did we first go from having to physically rewire transistors to make different calculations to having machine code so that we could just type instructions into a keyboard? When did something resemling assembly language first come about and how did they get computers to run it. Same question for the next higher level of languages like C? What I really need to do to satisfy my curiosity is just read up on the history of computing. Does anyone know a good book or website for me to do that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's cool and all, but the real confusing thing is how do transistors work. How does an electrical impulse turn a switch on or off, and what controls the electrical impulse length and duration.
originalgeorge · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELI5?
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s effectively 25% of the A+ book in ten paragraphs, well done
CaptainsIre · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why couldnt they have just explained it like that when I was in college, damn
tomgoeshome · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude this reply is gold. Thank you so much.
HGStormy · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so magic?
WaterzGrace · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took screenshots of this for reference.
Xc0liber · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It still amazes me. Regardless of how you explain it to me, I still won't get it but I am still amazed at how we are able to control electricity to a certain extend.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/theydidthemath
sorta
but not really
tomas-666 · 14 points · Posted at 19:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://nandgame.com/
This is a simple browser game where you build a basic 16-bit computer from scratch (literally from a single NAND gate). Give it a try, it's great for understanding the inner workings of a computer.
Mediocretes1 · 6 points · Posted at 21:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is both fun and probably the most educational piece of software possible.
PoorMansTonyStark · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you fully understand nand, you understand everything.
MaC1222 · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand nand. I tried the game and I’m not good at computers
TendiesMeWant · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NAND stands for not and. It's the inversion of an AND logic gate. An AND gate has aa number of inputs, if they are ALL set to the binary state 1 (representing electricity at a specific voltage) the the output of the AND gate will be one (outputting a specific voltage representing 1). With that in mind, take the result of an AND gate operation based on the inputs to the NAND gate and then invert the result (1->0 or 0->1), that'll give you the NAND gate's result. Look up the NAND gate truth table on google for clarification if you want.
If you're interested in the specifics, here's the transistor diagram for a NAND gate: https://www.dummies.com/programming/electronics/diy-projects/electronics-projects-how-to-create-a-transistor-nand-gate-circuit/. Transistors, represented by the circles with arrows inside them, are like dams for the water (electricity) to flow. The electrical inputs A and B determine whether the dam is open or not using voltage.
kehinday · 11 points · Posted at 20:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recommend you read "code: the hidden language of computer hardware and software". It explains the basics in a simple and fun way.
7788445511220011 · 19 points · Posted at 14:01:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were to look into it you could probably understand it. I don't, but in relevant courses at school a little time ago, I mostly did understand how early computers worked from transistors on up. It's mostly just lots and lots of logic gates arranged properly to do the things you probably intuitively kind of understand computers need to do to move bits around.
m-sterspace · 8 points · Posted at 19:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah once you get down to it, it's not very hard. Cover transistors, logic gates, and a basic math unit and you've got everything you need to conceptually understand the rest of the computer, there's just unfathomably more layers of complexity built on top of those concepts. Honestly the biggest mind fuck is just realizing how insane it is to design machines made of billions of parts.
BatteryPoweredBrain · 4 points · Posted at 21:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Want to blow your mind, think of a modern CPU with billions of transistors all doing their thing perfectly. But all it takes is ONE transistor to not be right and the whole thing can completely fail.
FYI, Years ago I worked on a dual core processor design for DSL modems. One guy on the team of several dozen engineers read the specification wrong and inverted a bit, just one bit, which caused the entire chip to fail. (He designed the reset logic and had inverted the internal reset so that none of the blocks that others created would come out of reset). It was an easy fix, but cost us 3 months and ¼ of a million dollars to spin the silicon.... so they promoted him to manager. /sigh. BTW, that was the only major bug in the entire design.
Cortez03 · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're into reading I highly recommend "The Soul of a New Machine".
BatteryPoweredBrain · 2 points · Posted at 23:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'll take a look into it, thanks.
EDIT. I started my career about 10 years after this, been working at bleeding edge startups for the last 30 years, doing all types of things to get a jump on competitors and come on ahead. Unfortunately for me, I never was in the winning company, but still required a lot of crazy hours of work and energy. This book sounds a lot like my life. I'm finally taking a job that isn't fast paced and isn't the low level design, but working leading a team and to be more meticulous about the implementation. I feel like this will be my opus, a job that will define my career as I wind down my life. I hope, I start in a week and a half, I hope it is all worth it.
Pr3fix · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
also a fantastic audiobook!
chuby1tubby · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not disagreeing with you, but it was my understanding that modern computers use parity checks to validate memory. Does the memory on a CPU not have a way to be validated?
For example, I could have sworn NASA uses some method to ensure that their memory and CPU are perfectly functional even if a cosmic ray randomly flips a single bit.
lord_ne · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I think people kind of understand how code works, and at least in the abstract sense that you‘d be able to code an operating system. So all you really need to do is explain how to make a machine that runs assembly code, and the rest follows.
Thestar19 · 10 points · Posted at 16:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a great series of videos on crash course regarding this. Just be prepared to think of computers as giant supercomplex calculators instead of touchscreens or operating systems.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anyone wants to understand how a computer works, I cannot recommend this video series highly enough. They start with how a transistor works (general overview, no math), explain how transistors can be grouped to perform basic tasks, explain how small groups can be grouped to perform complex tasks, on and on until you have the whole computer.
The only thing that blew my mind more than the explanations was just how accessible it is to the layman.
10se1ucgo · 8 points · Posted at 19:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will help, I think.
Lord_of_the_Limes · 3 points · Posted at 22:51:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! Ben's videos are amazingly comprehensive. The one caveat is that you need a basic understanding of electronics to get through them. If you know Ohm's law and what switches, resistors, capacitors, diodes, and transistors are that should be enough.
tacojohn48 · 8 points · Posted at 17:19:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It all starts with understanding a silicon P-N junctions and that's where I dropped out of computer engineering and got a degree in business.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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glockfreak · 3 points · Posted at 21:30:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly what happened to me. After I had made it through my 2 inch thick computer architecture text book I understood the logic, clocks, cache, cycle allocation to processes, threads, memory abstraction, instruction sets and how all the layers fit together. Years later I can explain what generally how those all work but the grand vision of understanding started to unweave after that class.
TendiesMeWant · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can relate lol
neos7m · 6 points · Posted at 19:31:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A college CS teacher once explained to us how processors worked, over the course of a couple of week, starting off with a transistor, building logic gates (AND, OR, XOR, NOT...), then a half adder, a full adder and an ALU. Then he introduced a clock and went on explaining latches, flip-flops and such, until he could make a basic memory circuit for storing instructions. From there it's very easy to build an actual working processor, and once you understand how a processor works, all you have to do is keep adding more and more abstractions to understand basically everything of how a computer works.
I'm pretty sure you could find some good courses about this on the web. For me, the key in understanding the whole processor was realizing how clock circuits worked and how instructions were stored and read. From there it's smooth sailing.
ethansharpe · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best Videos I have ever seen. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyznrdDSSGM&list=PLowKtXNTBypGqImE405J2565dvjafglHU&ab_channel=BenEater
chuckysnow · 3 points · Posted at 19:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lots of drivers, great drivers even, can barely use a wrench. One skill set is not required by the other.
n1c0_ds · 5 points · Posted at 21:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you align some rocks properly and feed them a bit of electricity, they start thinking
sofingclever · 6 points · Posted at 19:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Joe Rogan has a great bit that is basically, "If I sent you into the woods with all the natural resources you asked for...How long would it take you to send an email?"
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ask for a tree that grows smart phones.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Realistically, a single human would not be able to do this in their lifetime. It would require huge amounts of knowledge and practical ability from basically every domain, an awful lot of work, and levels of precision that advanced technologies are required to even get to.
hubble14567 · 3 points · Posted at 19:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, but last year I had a class about it and I can now die in peace.
At the end we sent instructions to the processor and manipulated the different registers by hand, all I can say is that you must do it by hand to understand it. Like you can't learn to program without programing.
simplybleed · 3 points · Posted at 20:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This series of PBS shows finally helped me understand. Watch the first few (not the later) and you’ll actually understand how computers work. Amazing! https://www.pbs.org/show/crash-course-computer-science/
bingbongtake2long · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally I am still pretty amazed when I can drag images from my laptop to my second screen.
Alimaniafan · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can recommend the Crash Course Computer Science.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dPuuaLjXtNlUrzyH5r6jN9ulIgZBpdo
It's quite long (40 episodes, á 10-15min), but the basics are couvered in the first 9 Videos.
Definitely very informative and well explained.
nickiter · 3 points · Posted at 22:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My bachelor's is in computer engineering, and I didn't truly get it until my third year of college.
fflip8 · 3 points · Posted at 22:29:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar to your brain. Just thousands of times less powerful and less efficient.
Just millions of little switches in a tiny box (processor) that either say yes or no. On it's own, they don't really do anything, but when paired with storage (like a solid state drive), along with code (like a program or operating system) on the storage device that knows how to control the switches in a way that produces new code/etc.
Your computer does math. People figured out how to make it do so much math that eventually you can see a visual display and control everything with clicks and taps.
Bacxaber · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wizards trapped blue smoke in a plastic box and made it come to life.
minibonham · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally went into electrical engineering just because the technology the world revolves around felt like black magic. Now that I know how it works, it still feels like black magic 😋 but at least I sort of understand it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A computer is like a pyramid at Giza. Lots of small simple pieces put together.
Rohwupet · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We stuck lightning in a rock and taught it how to think
alslacki · 2 points · Posted at 21:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you can read all the comments explaining each part and still not completely understand how a computer works lol. its like a space ship, there are a thousand moving parts and each part has a team of specialists who work on them. even working in tech i cant say that i understand how every part of a computer works.
terminatorgeek · 2 points · Posted at 21:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you'd like to spend some time or are interested, there's a channel on youtube called Crash Course that does a bottom-up explanation of how computers work. Playlist is here. They do a lot of other series too. They're very to the point but explain with animations and such to help with comprehension.
Edit: Saw some other people linking Ben Eater content below. He's a great resource as well, if a lot more technical, building a CPU on a breadboard and such.
tacofrog2 · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it comes down to how a CPU works, this 20 minute video breaks it down low-level enough to understand it
jedbikes · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had an instructor once explain to the class that even if given all of the raw materials to make a pencil, he would have no idea how to actually construct them in a way that would make them work as perfectly as a normal pencil, none the less if he was given the raw materials to construct a computer it would probably have even less value because with the raw materials for a pencil you could probably still use them to scratch out communications, but with the material to make a computer he probably couldn't even do that
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s why we have specialization.
You don’t really have to, I mean some understanding helps, and Im sure you understand it more than most people, but like you said, probably not completely
And anyone who’s not in that field that thinks they do probably just don’t know enough to know they dont
If you spent long enough to reach that level then well, you’d probably not have spent enough time on the important skills for your field
This same logic applies to every job,
leafynospleens · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.semanticscholar.org/paper/Code%253A-The-Hidden-Language-of-Computer-Hardware-and-Petzold/b48f807baa50e9ee24a52191c6890a90e3106836&ved=2ahUKEwjH1e_CruHoAhXnWxUIHaFWDN8QFjABegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw3mNyBIXNF-e2agrBXs0kKz
This book by Charles petzold does an awesome job of explaining it , it was the first book I read when changing careers to software engineering.
Whoden · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a twist! I'm a professional driver and I know more about how my computer functions than I do about how an engine or turbocharger work.
PandersAboutVaccines · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a really fascinating book called "Code" that starts you at "this is how an electromagnet works" and then the telegraph, then magnetic relays, then transistors, and takes you all the way to "this is how assembly language and then every other computer language works."
It's intended for the layman, but only the layman that would find that fascinating. It's not at all trying to make sure you can pass a test about it when you're done, just trying to share the really interesting parts of how we got to the microprocessor.
My favorite part is that the very first advance, the magnetic relay, was born of a lazy telegraph operator trying to avoid doing work that bored him.
Olde94 · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have been linked a lot but many of them are technical.
The best version i have seen is this using domino bricks faling over
https://youtu.be/lNuPy-r1GuQ
DoriNori7 · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how by moving beads on an abacus, people can do math? A “CPU” basically just that, but instead of beads they’re electrons.
And people have managed to get these electrons to do math really really really fast. Based on what kinds of numbers the CPU calculates and what instructions you feed it (which are also in the form of numbers), you can get it to do some wacky stuff, like solve really complex science stuff or play solitaire.
Even though people nowadays can program with words and stuff, it all gets compiled down to simple numbers and instructions in the end.
Donut-Farts · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a very simple explanation of the core of what a computer is at a 5 year old level that probably leads to more questions: Computers ask yes/no questions over and over again until they get the right response. If they ask a question and don't get the right response they change one of the yeses or noes and tries again. Then repeat ad infinitum until an answer is correct.
As it turns out you can find the solutions of the universe by asking yes/no questions. You can count (binary) and do math just like normal as long as you know how to translate it into terms people understand. It's really remarkable and the specifics are way beyond me, but you can learn more of the fundamentals by learning formal logic (mostly Boolean logic) and the specific applications can be learned in courses like Digital Logic and Design (DLD) at many technical schools.
ydieb · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crash course computer science is awesome. Should be absolutely perfect to explain it quickly but also in detail.
beaiouns · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I've literally built a transistor out of batteries and a light bulb, and I still can't wrap my mind around how millions of these things translate my banging on the keyboard into showing me someone's account in active directory.
Shit man, we were talking about how Windows was too complex for any one developer to fully understand back in the 90s
It's just magic at this point.
ameis314 · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video helped me a lot. This is a physical hand-wired Apollo memory, here is one of the engineers explaining it: https://youtu.be/dI-JW2UIAG0
There are thousands (or millions) of digital versions these in everything around us.
Mind blown then first time I watched it.
Am_Snarky · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An interesting little java game is something called “NAND game”, it’s a play on the concept that you can technically strand together a series of inputs and NAND logic gates to make a functional computer.
You may need to brute force some solutions (and finding the optimal solution is always rewarding) but it will give you a fundamental understanding of how 1s and 0s (or true and false logic) are turned into complex computing systems including things like clock ticks and ram.
It’s pretty fun, recently went through the game again and built everything possible out of just NAND gates, kinda wanna build a binary calculator with a memory function out of just NAND gates as a proof of concept
Uniquebehaviour · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. Would love to understand how putting electricity (another conundrum) into a box creates Elite Dangerous or Doom Eternal on the screen! ELI5! :)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally same tho. I like coding well enough, and I’m working towards a computer engineering degree, but ask me what a server is or how Wi-Fi works? You’re gonna have a bad time
tohardtochoose · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out crash course computer science on youtube
helemaalwak · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in software development and I have no idea how computers work
jraharris89 · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you’d like to learn and want an easy to understand, in-depth explanation; I’m reading this book now called Code by Charles Petzold, I recommend it!
nullenatr · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't feel bad that you don't know how it works, even though your job revolves around one. Say you're a pizza delivery guy. You use the car to drive food around to people. You don't care what's inside the car, it should only be powerful enough to get you from A to B, preferably also with good gas mileage.
Then you have the professional driver, who race F1. Then you would, of course, be interested in what your cars inside look like. What kind of specs it has, and how you can optimise the car to perform better to your advantage. You may know what a turbo does, and which brand is better than the other, but not how it is engineered (I don't actually know if turbos have different brands, I'm not that into cars)
That can be transferred to a tech-job. Maybe your job is just to use the computer as a pizza delivery guy to do your job (with the software). Of course you know the specs - You want a big enough HDD/SSD, just like you want a big enough trunk to store food in. You don't care how the trunk is engineered, and what the insides are structurally made of. I'm not trying to explain it like you're five, so I apologise if it sounds so, but I'm just trying to point out that there's nothing wrong with not knowing or caring how your computers inner workings actually work, because there's no reason to.
Carlsonen · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you also like minecraft, there is a server for learning just that, with redstone!
thranetrain · 2 points · Posted at 22:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look at Ben Eater's channel on YouTube. He builds a 1970's technology level computer from scratch using bread boards and simple logic gates. I was able to build along with him from how clear he's able to explain everything and that's with very little electronics experience. You can just watch along and learn a ton
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its hard to get your head around it all together but its easier if you think of it in layers.
transistors in the silicon
gates and boolean operations
assembly, wired straight into the cpu
compiled code.
for example.
mrbaggins · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Youtube "Breadboard computer"
He creates a 6502 processor (probably about as old as you are) completely out of pretty low level components, and explains what each does before using it.
se7ensquared · 2 points · Posted at 22:47:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read "Code: The hidden language of computer hardware and software "
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody really understands, it is too complicated. You get some answers starting with "transistors act like switches" and ending with "and if you have nand, you can represent anything." The physics of "transistors act like switches" is a college course (with plenty of prerequisites), and why modern transistors can still act like switches despite physics conspiring to drive researchers insane is a graduate degree.
Going from nand to a simple in-order processor (where memory and storage are abstracted away as basically magic) is a college course. A modern processor is too complicated for anybody to understand. People with years of experience in industry understand their specific component reasonably well.
Toastyx3 · 2 points · Posted at 22:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh, I've studied CS and there's still stuff I don't know about the inner workings. The complexity of computers is actually hilariously high, when you take in consideration that it's based on altering between true and false (or ones and zeroes).
phooonix · 2 points · Posted at 22:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many layers of abstraction it's almost like a history class getting from basic electrical switches to the OS.
billybeer55555 · 2 points · Posted at 23:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I used to build and repair PCs, and have built several of my own. But I have no clue HOW they work, just how to assemble them and install software. I understand fully what each part does, and how binary works and all that, I just don't understand how that translates into playing Peggle or watching porn or posting on Reddit.
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This Crash course Computer Science was like the best thing I ever watched, so great to finally understand computers. It's still crazy to me that all of this software works in unison without just jamming up the minute you turn it on as all these processes try to work together.
AlpacaCavalry · 2 points · Posted at 23:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, I understand this. I do. But like, when I actually look at these electronics that do what they do?
I think to myself, “fucking black magickery, this.”
It’s amazing. Fascinating how things work.
I fly airplanes for a living, I know how things work, how aerodynamics work, but when I gaze upon how these things are flying in the air, how all the little parts inside of it work?
I can’t help but think to myself, “this is some black magic shit going on in here.”
It really is an amazing era of technology we are living in.
LucasNoober · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a developer i have no idea how my if's turn into a signal of energy and does something
urmomsdirtyfriend69 · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wanna say as some one who works with professional drivers, they most certainly do not know the inner workings of engines.... not saying all do but majority do not.
kshebdhdbr · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im the other way around. I know how stuff like binary adders work, but cant wrap my head around code and programming.
aalexanderbarry · 2 points · Posted at 01:00:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really want to share this in the hopes someone enjoys it as much as I did. This lecture from Richard Feynman is one coolest things I've ever seen. Very easy to understand and enjoyable.
He has a fantastic description of an office file clerk that gets replaced with slightly dumber yet much faster file clerks until he basically ends up with the concept of a computer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKWGGDXe5MA
amiraliap79 · 2 points · Posted at 05:56:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
your self awarness tho nice
RegaIado · 2 points · Posted at 06:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Additionally for me, how the recycle bin works. I've read about it and what not, but it still boggles my mind. Like it makes sense that you can't just have something vanish, but to think that once you empty the recycle bin, you get all your mb/GB back even though it's still lingering around on the computer.
I_hate_traveling · 2 points · Posted at 09:52:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I once accidentally deleted some stuff from an external hard drive and my mind was kinda blown away by the fact that they could be recovered.
No idea how that shit works.
ISureDoLikePickles · 2 points · Posted at 06:56:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work at a place where they doe research and development for microchips. There are a couple of areas:
Lithography: here they shine a light on a layer of the chip. Some parts are lit and others not. The lit parts bind the layer with the silicium wafer on which the chips are made while the other layers won't the parts that don't bind are usually lines that will later be filled to create connections.
Etching: you bombard the wafer with gasses that react to the parts where the layer is not bound to the wafer while leaving the rest alone. This creates groover where the previously mentioned lines were (we call them tenches)
Plating and polishing: they apply a layer of material (for example copper) over the whole wafer and polish the excess so that it's only in the trenches. These are the connections on the chip.
They can also do the processes above with an isolating layer so that the connections don't interfere
Ovens: they "bake" the wafer to make these connections more permanent. This area usually also contains cleaning where they can remove residue or particles that get created during the steps above and is pretty much just washing it with a fluid like deionised water or isopropanol.
So a microchip is pretty much a maze of connections that you can replicate on a big scale by substituting the filled in trenches with cables.
There is a bit more to it, but this is the best way I can explain it without going too deep into it and to be honest, there is not THAT much more to it. It's just connections.
But then you send electricity through it and magic happens and suddenly you created something that can put people on the moon.
I love and hate that it's that simple and yet so complicated at the same time. I'll never understand how computers work, and I'm (a very small) part of the people who do it on the most basic level. It's weird.
If I made any mistakes or anyone has a question, feel free to correct/ask. Can't promise I'll know the answer though. That shit is wack!
kevinmorice · 2 points · Posted at 09:10:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And this is the real reason that Bill Gates deserves every penny he has. He basically created a world where you can effectively use your computer without understanding all that "magic".
sugsugr · 2 points · Posted at 12:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice!
w3dg22 · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fact: goldfish have excellent attention spans and are super intelligent, for fish.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about this a lot. Specifically, if I had to explain my phone, laptop, car, etc to someone from the 1700s.
Ben Franklin: “Magnificent! How does it work?”
Me: “Uh well, you put the go juice in this hole and...that’s pretty much it.”
BF: “And if it breaks?”
Me: “Uh, you call my dad...”
ADarkDraconis · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If you watch Storybots on Netflix, Snoop Dogg has a pretty easy to understand breakdown of it. My 5 year old and I learned how they work together!
bacterialhost · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch SciShow Computer Science on Youtube! I am not tech savvy but my software engineer partner was watching it and it was extremely accessible and interesting and now I get it way more.
--who · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read “But How Do It Know?”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arduino is your answer. Get it from amazon and follow the tutorials.
Jtsfour · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The youtuber you are looking for is Ben Eater.
He has lots of videos where he goes extremely in depth on the inner workings of CPUs and computers.
fcoury · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Ben Eater on YouTube. He basicallly builds computers on breadboards and his videos are extremely enlightening.
watchman28 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
Caydo · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd recommend PBS' crash course on computer science. They do a good job of explaining as they go and building up concepts in an easy-to-understand sort of process.
AussieIT · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been playing with computers inside and out, built my first when I was 10 buying parts second hand out of a newspaper with my dads help. Worked in IT a dozen years, architecting IT Solutions weekly.
If you think I can tell you how a bit of silicone can move its switches, that allow some kid to make a gif on the internet, you're very wrong. How a big of hardware gets a voltage on a copper wire and processes it and passes it on to another network device? I know switching and routing but I don't get the processor at all. I know operating systems and virtualization. I can even blunder through programming. But computers have so many layers each so complex that each layer requires its own degree.
What I'm saying is, there are probably only a few people if any that fully understand the whole thing from electricity to user experience. But few programmers know machine code. Few server administrators know programming. Few network engineers know virtualization (but you'll probably find everyone knows two or three bits of the puzzle). So don't feel bad. But it's never too late to pick it up. The thing with humans is we often work off really simple ideas, and then just layer about 1000 simple ideas together. So it typically isn't too hard to learn little by little. The problem is there's probably not enough time in our lifetime to get it all in our head.
PlG3 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you got time and money, double major in Electrical and Computer Engineering, and don't drop out like I did. That should solve your problem.
I understand the parts that you asked about, but it is too much for a Reddit comment. I understand processors and chip design and transistors (at the undergrad level) but still struggle with switching and routing and basically everything networking. And I could not build a desktop from ebay parts to save my life. Fucking lol
kingvolcano · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://nandgame.com/
TheApricotCavalier · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To start from the bottom you'd read on 'Assembly Language', which is programming, & 'Digital Design', which is hardware (transistors, logic gates).
If you really want to know, read a book a piece on those 2 topics
Raton_Canyon_Ghost · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We tricked rocks into playing catch with lightning
cuajito42 · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried watching crash course's playlist on computer science. They explain all of this but I just can't wrap my head around it. It's levels of abstraction on top.of levels of abstraction. I literally can't understand how it physically works and how they are built.
Bukszpryt · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
magic
MathSciElec · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since I see you already have Ben Eater, I’ll suggest someone who is less known, but made some interesting improvements to his 8-bit computer: James Bates.
creedbutagirl · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic School Bus did an episode on this!
bossgizmo · 9571 points · Posted at 16:44:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic. You sit on the high way driving 3mph thinking “Hmm must be a wreck ahead” then you get clear of the traffic and there was never any clear reason or cause for the traffic.
cools_008 · 5778 points · Posted at 17:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People change lanes and those in the new lane have to slow down to accommodate. Snowballs from there
FatPam007 · 1249 points · Posted at 20:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. If you stop 3 seconds to change your way, the next one has to stop that and a little bit more, until it becomes a chain and the last one waits for a whole hour.
pritikina · 99 points · Posted at 20:34:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that's part of it yes. The other part is just there are too many cars that entry and exit points can't handle the volume of cars. Usually there's a light after an exit to a freeway. Normally a light cycle can handle X amount of cars to pass. But when you have X times 2 or 4 or whatever and then bottlenecks occur.
at1445 · 68 points · Posted at 21:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is almost always it. The ingress/egress to the highways is where the bottlenecks are almost always caused.
Just normal "switching lanes" isn't slowing you down to a standstill. But that guy trying to enter going 45 when he should be 75 is.
[deleted] · 37 points · Posted at 22:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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TempAcct20005 · 14 points · Posted at 22:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The accordion effect can happen everywhere, but on ramps and off ramps are literally everywhere and do require lane changes. The accordion effect caused by those ramps is far more than just a random car sowing down
Heterophylla · 19 points · Posted at 23:06:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can defeat the accordion by keeping several car lengths between you and the car in front of you. But of course everyone tailgates.
throw_way_904 · 6 points · Posted at 22:19:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which brings me to what I don't understand... People who fucking hit the brakes on an on-ramp.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 02:11:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CGP Grey (youtube) had a great video on this
Nethlem · 3 points · Posted at 00:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
aka "shit always flows downstream"
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Compound reaction time.
SpiritedBoo · 16 points · Posted at 20:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. It's called an "invisible intersection".
CuriousGuy2020 · 15 points · Posted at 21:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw an animation explaining it and it was so interesting! I remember it basically said that everyone slows down more than they need to, sometimes coming to a full stop, which causes the person behind to also slow down. When those behind you slow down, they also over compensate and slow down too much.
The issue would be solved if we were able to know how much we needed to slow or something similar (e.g. self driving cars communicating with each other so they can just drive and not slow down more than necessary).
Npf6 · 20 points · Posted at 21:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right on! Here's a good explanation: https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE
Change your behaviour, mostly don't tail gate! If you tailgate you probably cause traffic.
Printman8 · 13 points · Posted at 21:47:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tailgating is something that I don’t understand. Why does anyone drive like that? How is it comfortable to be perpetually one squirrel in the road away from disaster?
chronoflect · 3 points · Posted at 03:28:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think some people literally don't have enough awareness to understand how pointless tailgating is. They just go until they can't go anymore without hitting the person in front of them. And then they just tailgate. Zero foresight into how reckless it can be and how it doesn't really get them where they want to go any faster.
throw_way_904 · 7 points · Posted at 22:21:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They think it proves they have a big dick to drive like that, as though if you don't get out of their way they're going to drive right over you.
Really it mostly proves they have tiny brains. I love slowing down when people do that.
meow-meoww · 5 points · Posted at 01:01:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re just causing more problems by even getting to their level. Keep your speed, if you can just get over and let the ass shat pass. You’re not the speed police.
throw_way_904 · 4 points · Posted at 01:14:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idgaf what speed anyone drives, they can pass (of course in the circumstances I am talking about traffic is heavy and moving the same speed in all lanes) but tailgating me is not the solution.
IPDaily · 3 points · Posted at 06:05:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A busy intersection in a world of self-driving cars would be insane to witness. Cars just passing each other in the nick of time inches apart would make me clench my fists and grit my teeth
swashtag999 · 4 points · Posted at 21:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard it called a traffic snake
LAKings26 · 5 points · Posted at 21:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Called phantom traffic or something like that
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
93% of the time caused by a silver 2009 Prius
BaronWiggle · 3 points · Posted at 23:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting and utterly useless fact. That snowball of slow moving traffic propagates backwards at an average speed of 12 miles an hour.
Narwalacorn · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Mythbusters episode on that is actually quite interesting
TehBamski · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my experience, it's best to allow for more distance between you and the vehicle in front of you and to coast along when when you see people tapping their brakes. If done well, there will be enough space for you to adjust speed without using your brakes.
The idea is to keep everyone moving forward. Sudden breaking causes traffic jams.
BatteryPoweredBrain · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true. A few months back someone posted on Reddit a traffic simulator with all different parameters such as speed, how often people switch lanes, how many trucks, etc... I played around with it a lot and found that #1 thing that causes traffic more than anything else; acceleration. If people react and accelerate quickly (either positive or negative) to changes in the traffic, it does help the flow tremendously.
So when you're stuck in traffic and things are starting to move and you see that car that isn't speeding up like everyone else (maybe 20 car lengths in front of them now); they are the ones causing problems. If a light turns green, accelerate through it rapidly (not floor it) and safely; don't slowly creep forward and speed up. It causes problems. When the car in front of you starts moving at a light, you should already be starting your acceleration; not waiting for them to create space first. Hint, watch the car in front of the car in front of you for better timing. But most importantly, pay attention!
IslayThePeaty · 9 points · Posted at 21:27:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is you're dealing with a simulator. In practice, those quick accelerations and decelerations cause more problems because people's reaction times, brake conditions, acceleration ability, etc., are wildly variable.
In practice, especially in a bumper-to-bumper jam on the interstate, you want the car in front of you to have a long lead time and some open space. Then you want to accelerate moderately to a speed you can maintain for at least 30 seconds, even if it's only 10mph. Stopping and starting, no matter how efficiently you do it, just causes more hiccups in the chain behind you.
If you can stop the wanker behind you getting pissed that you're "not going fast enough" and just go slowly and steadily minimizing the stops and starts, you can greatly help a traffic jam with minimal effort.
milchrizza · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some reason, I cannot explain this to people non a way that they get it.
spongebob_meth · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And people tend to decelerate at a much higher rate than the accelerate, so once they brake really hard and take forever to recover their speed
They slam on their brakes every time they see brake lights in front of them, then mosey back up to the speed limit. It compounds with each car, and then you have the phenomenon of rubber-banding
checkyourfallacy · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. This is known as a traffic snake.
ActionJelly · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This site lets you simulate all those situations and see for yourself what happens!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goddamn you gave me some Cities:Skylines flashbacks
tracker_tom_jr · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An experiment was conducted where a few good drivers were told to drive at a constant speed around a circular road without changing any lanes.
Yet there were traffic congestions on that circular road.
Traffic congestions are caused even in an ideal scenario such as one described above because humans are incapable of accelerating, breaking and also cruising in 100% coordination with the neighbouring traffic.
This uncoordinated breaking and acceleration along with lane changes starts the snowball effect.
Cptn_Goat · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It all starts with a special snowflake, then it snowballs from there
djpj1977 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does the gap left in your original lane get filled in? Yes, moving traffic in that lane forward. Now as you move into a new lane, someone ahead moves out essentially making up for your move. Not to say there is no effect from lane changing, but the real slow down where there are no accidents, lane closures or reductions, is from a larger volume of vehicles entering the highway than exiting.
imnotagringo · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I chose a lane and stick to it but people I know seem to think they're on a god damn race a try to overtake everyone.
ststeveg · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picture a line of cars stopped at a red light. When the light turns green, they don't all start moving at once. Each car only starts moving when the car in front has already moved, maybe a delay of two or three seconds per car, but that builds up when it's a huge traffic stoppage.
Jenbu · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes slowing down is the main culprit. Touching your brakes unnecessarily is probably one of the worst things you can do on a busy highway.
robo_coder · 1 points · Posted at 08:38:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The more abrupt a slowdown, the more it snowballs. Tailgaters and assholes who cut others off are by far the worst, most pervasive, and most avoidable causes of traffic jams.
ArcadianMess · 1 points · Posted at 11:57:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Worming effect.
jimmyerthesecond · 0 points · Posted at 22:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I leave a cushion between me and the next car! You actively break up traffic and everyone goes faster if you leave just a few car lengths. Yeah, cars will come in, so I let off a little bit and get mu cushion back. Doesn't work crazy well in the middle of the city, but highways definitely!
xanticx · 1508 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a vicious cycle of tailgating and braking suddenly. Along with lane changes as other comment said. I've noticed that when I leave huge gaps, drive slowly to avoid braking if possible, I can cruise at 10mph thru traffic almost never stopping. If everyone did that I think traffic would be greatly reduced. Regrettably most people suck.
Kayish97 · 174 points · Posted at 20:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever I try to leave big gaps people just move into them.
bullettbrain · 66 points · Posted at 20:39:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. Or honk at you for not driving closer. I can't go faster than the car in front of me dude.
E06SP · 27 points · Posted at 22:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's when you keep singing to your music without giving a fuck :}
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 02:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This kills me. It removes all hope I have in people's intelligence. I have had people cut over into the other lane, race up then cut me off while looking in their rearview mirror at me like I am the idiot for maintaining a proper breaking threshold. Bring on autonomous vehicles because a good chunk of the driving population can't seem to figure out how to do it properly.
Nobody_So_Special · 8 points · Posted at 05:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best part is if I’m cruising at 45-50 in a 45 on a normally 3 lane road, and watching someone take off at 70+ mph from behind me....
Just to slam on their brakes a few seconds later as we both come up to the light that turned red. I always look over to see the dumb fuck, looking out his window to see the dumb fuck.
People literally never learn in Florida lol. It’s the same shit everywhere. People flying at 20-30 over posted speed limits with no consequence besides wasting a bunch of gas I guess.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 05:41:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
More accidents happen from slow drivers then fast. That person flying behind you has somewhere to be. And you are holding them up. If there is no consequence for driving faster then drive faster.
IameAuhSomme · 6 points · Posted at 11:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Counterpoint: speed limits below 55 mph aren’t arbitrary; they’re set by a civil engineer to maintain safe traffic conditions, given factors in the road such as the radii of turns, the number of entry points, the frequency of stoplights, and safe speeds to decelerate onto exits.
Just because you can’t immediately see the consequences of reckless driving doesn’t mean you can go as fast as you want.
Additionally, “they have somewhere to be” is a poor excuse. I don’t mean to assume people’s lives, but I imagine the vast majority of the times people are late is because they failed to adequately plan for travel time.
Nobody_So_Special · 4 points · Posted at 14:15:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if that were true (and it’s not), I’m thinking even you’d agree you’d rather be in a small fender bender at 40 mph rather than totaling your car and losing your life slamming into someone at 70-80+.
No need to spread misinformation bud, you’re going to give drivers with little experience the wrong idea. There’s enough deadly accidents out there as it is, for no reason better than “I have somewhere to be.” Is that worth your life?
Cmon dude, get it together. Your need for speed is the last of my worries, you aren’t a nascar driver.
FarmerTedd · -1 points · Posted at 04:36:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tesla crashes into median again
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 05:40:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Self driving cars aren't the answer. Never advocate for automation. When you do that you take jobs from the working class.
youraverageuser985 · 3 points · Posted at 11:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agree, but that's happening either way.
worstbarinphilly97 · 40 points · Posted at 20:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have two main pet peeves while driving, both pertaining to the left lane. One is what you described, when I’ll try to leave enough room (I was in an accident a couple months ago where I rear-ended someone and then someone rear-ended me, and it really scared me out of ever tailgating again) but since people are impatient, everyone is trying to hop over and make room for themselves and you wind up with like 4 cars riding bumper-to-bumper with either an accident or traffic.
The other is when people fail to understand that the left lane is the express lane, and hop on over to cruise at 65 mph with no one in front of them and a long line of cars behind them.
Both types of drivers suck.
Danvan90 · 16 points · Posted at 22:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of an express lane is a bit weird to me. In Australia, the far right lane (equivalent to your left lane) is for overtaking only - it's not about how fast you're going, you shouldn't be in it unless you are going past someone.
That is only when traffic is flowing though, if traffic is deadlocked then you fill all the available space.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 00:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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lcqs · 5 points · Posted at 02:28:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If youre speeding on a busy highway youre almost always passing though are you not?
Edit: cant type
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 04:06:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea this is what I don’t get on here. If I’m doing 10 over in the left and just passing people what’s the problem? Isn’t that better than constantly changing lanes to pass
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:29:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. If you are not passing someone you should be in the right lane. Speed does not matter.
Nobody_So_Special · 3 points · Posted at 05:13:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s just a misunderstanding in interpreting what you’re doing.
If you’re passing people, you’re doing it right — it’s as simple as that. If someone’s ahead of you and you’re going to pass them, don’t bother hopping into the right lane. They have no business hopping in front if you if they’re moving slower and not passing anyone.
lcqs · 3 points · Posted at 04:16:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah way less dangerous to be going only a bit more than speed limit in left lane than to be switching constantly. More dangerous to tailgate too so i dont understand the “get over for me no matter what cause i wanna go fast” arguments
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:31:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not about going fast, it’s about passing & traffic. If you are not passing someone you should be in the right lane regardless of how fast traffic is going.
The left lane is not the “I am already going 10 over so I will stay in this lane because I don’t think anybody should be going faster than me anyways” lane. It is the passing lane.
catholi777 · 5 points · Posted at 04:54:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean, it’s the passing lane, not the “speed to pass” lane.
So its use as a “passing lane” only really makes any sense if people in the other lane are going below the speed limit for some reason and there’s nevertheless a lot of useable open road in front of them, so you’re literally using it to get around them so you can continue at the speed limit instead of below it.
But that’s almost never the situation. Very often everyone in all lanes is already going at or over the speed limit, or the road is jammed for a long stretch, so talk about “passing” becomes sort of disingenuous.
People who make this complaint are really saying “I want to speed even more and want people out of my way to let me do so.”
And at that point it’s hard to be sympathetic with those speeders wanting a whole lane wasted just to enable them.
lcqs · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People just take whatever the speed limit is and go over it as like a need to disobey or prove they can drive faster. Just like no matter how fast you go in the left lane they will catch up to you out of habit. I dont believe people would drive as fast if there was no limit usually.
I wont go slower than 5 over in the left lane but since you can get a ticket for that its hard to justify social norms dictating speeds. I feel ultimately its more dangerous to constantly switch lanes for someone tailgating me going 15-20 over when im doing 10 over and the middle/left lane is at the speed limit
at1445 · -42 points · Posted at 21:07:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the speed limit's 65, it's 100% on you for getting pissed. They're going the maximum legal speed. Just because you want to go faster doesn't mean they should have to go slower behind someone in the right lane.
If the speed limits higher than 65 though, they're just a self-absorbed asshole.
Danvan90 · 9 points · Posted at 21:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of an express lane is a bit weird to me. In Australia, the far right lane (equivalent to your left lane) is for overtaking only - it's not about how fast you're going, you shouldn't be in it unless you are going past someone.
That is only when traffic is flowing though, if traffic is deadlocked then you fill all the available space.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 21:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is how it's supposed to be in most of America. We just have too many dumbasses who don't understand how to drive.
usernameisusername57 · 12 points · Posted at 21:30:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to consider societal norms as opposed to just the law. According to the letter of the law, the speed limit is the maximum speed you should be traveling at; in practice, it is the minimum.
Also, like the other guy said, there's no reason to ever just be hanging out in the left lane unless you're passing someone or the traffic is heavy.
Parang97 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone drives 5 over the limit anyway.
at1445 · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, that definitely depends where you are. I've lived in large metro and rural areas and both places, going above the limit isn't really the norm anymore. 20 years ago, everyone in DFW was speeding, now you just have the occasional guy blow past you, but 98% are going under 75.
Also, he indicated there was a large line behind the guy going 65, which indicates that he was passing people....or else that long line would pass in the right lane. He's just not passing as fast as the people behind him would like.
imjohndeere · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it means he's playing traffic police and forming a literal fucking wall with the guys next to him to make sure nobody can pass. Which, as described earlier here, is what creates unnecessary traffic.
FarmerTedd · -1 points · Posted at 04:40:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re part of the problem and I bet you’re a shitty driver
joeverdrive · 13 points · Posted at 20:49:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let them.
Throwaway_Consoles · 10 points · Posted at 22:45:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously. The cognitive dissonance some people have of, “So what, you will only get there a couple cars faster, it won’t save you any time” and “NOOOOOOOO! If I leave a gap someone will fill it!” Blows my mind.
You make fun of someone trying to get a couple cars ahead and yet you’re terrified of staying back two seconds of following distance because cars will fill the gap.
When my dad pointed that out to me I stopped worrying about other drivers filling the gap and just relaxed. And yes, I’ve even done it in DC traffic. Yes, a lot of cars took the gap. Be the change you wish to see.
fj333 · 5 points · Posted at 08:21:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I am so happy to see somebody else make this point. I've had passengers (including my wife) criticize me for letting people fill the gap. You can do the math, even if somebody new fills the gap every minute, it all only infinitesimally affects your arrival time. I'll glad lose a few seconds for a more peaceful and safer drive.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:27:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I do this in LA traffic and it's not really that big of a deal when people fill the gap. And I'd argue you're still making it easier for everybody else, as them being an asshole doesn't have as big of an effect on the people behind you.
Zenallaround · 4 points · Posted at 20:58:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but then they leave a gap.
billyrhett · 3 points · Posted at 04:24:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah the times I’ve screamed at people for taking my generous space :(
billybeer55555 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy Floridas.
Kayish97 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
California’s actually
Parang97 · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slightly better but not by much
Kayish97 · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but lately traffic is pretty great lol
Parang97 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pittsburgh, PA is a Ghost town
The_Name_Is_Slick · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its free real estate!
freeman1231 · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s fine you just keep Leaving the gap, and you never have issues. I drive a manual, and I just cruise at 10km/h with a big gap in front of me. Never have to brake.
IameAuhSomme · 31 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you move the average speed of the person in front of you, so you idle slowly but never have to brake, it seriously improves the stress of driving through traffic.
Unfortunately, most drivers mindlessly move forward until they’re on the tailgate of the next car.
killuhk · 2 points · Posted at 05:52:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what I do. Sometimes I get angry people behind me. I have noticed my had mileage is better though. So it's worth it.
ALasagnaForOne · 16 points · Posted at 21:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was actually proven by [traffic scientists?], I saw a video on it once. If everyone left significantly wider gaps between themselves and the car ahead of them and didn't tailgate, anytime someone braked a bit or changed lanes it would have little to no effect on the traffic behind them, thus preventing clogs in the traffic flow.
MiklaneTrane · 3 points · Posted at 22:22:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mythbusters were able to demonstrate it with something like just 10-15 cars.
fj333 · 2 points · Posted at 08:25:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty easy to demonstrate with two cars. Tailgate somebody on a 30mph road until they slow to 5mph to take a turn (but you keep going straight). You get the honor of also slowing to 5mph. Had you been further back, you'd have been able to time it so you coast by their turnoff at 30mph, passing the alternate reality version of yourself who was doing only 5mph at that same time.
If this simple truth could be taught to every driver in the nation, traffic would drastically improve. It will never happen though.
swansung · 11 points · Posted at 20:42:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Most people inch on your ass and break constantly like idiots. As if every little scooch will get you closer. You'll just wear your breaks out faster.
morgenfreemun · 9 points · Posted at 22:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s a fun story for anyone who cares to read. I drive the exact same way in traffic because I hate the constant braking. A few years ago, I was driving on the highway towards Chicago and was doing exactly this. This fat rat looking bastard was behind me in the left lane (it’s been years and I still have strong feelings about this) and didn’t like how much space I was leaving from the car in front of me even though we were in basically stand still traffic. He decides to DRIVE ON THE SHOULDER to attempt to cut me off, at a point where I was already moving and I of course went, “hell nah not today bitch” and didn’t let him do it. He’s screaming at me through the windows, swerves behind me again and then to my right and runs me off the road into the shoulder. Just to get one car ahead and come to a full stop anyways and be in traffic for another 45 minutes. I calmly drove behind him with my middle finger up almost the whole time and he just kept shaking his head swearing at me like the greasy POS he was. In hindsight it was probably a hilarious image being that I was a 19 year old girl and he was a fucking Neanderthal driving a tiny beater car that was an inch off the ground.
mankiller27 · 6 points · Posted at 21:39:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic would also be reduced if more people took public transit, or more funding was aimed at increasing transit capacity or building out new transit lines. Sadly, the oil and automotive lobbies in the US are so huge that any project aimed at rail infrastructure gets shut down for being "too expensive," while being significantly cheaper than building out additional highway lanes, which ultimately do nothing to improve traffic anyway.
dethmaul · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I noticed that when i was day shift on base. 0630 when there's a line going to the front gate a quarter mile long, and everyone in front of me was surging and braking. I had fun cruising slowly and not stopping, and watching the smooth traffic behind me in the mirror :)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah, I do this as well. I love seeing how traffic smooths out behind me. On the plus side it also helps lower the chances of people rear-ending you.
Belfette · 5 points · Posted at 21:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother beat into my brain that I needed to leave several car lengths in between me and the car in front of me whenever possible, so I try to do that, especially when traveling in high speeds. People never seem to understand that they should be doing that, and will squeeze into that little gap between me and the car in front of me whenever they can. It's almost caused wrecks several times. I don't understand the thinking that goes along with that.
Blackintosh · 5 points · Posted at 22:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, one of my friends always drives way too close on high speed roads and, every time Id always ask what he will do if the car in front slams on their brakes. Answer is always "oh they probably won't so its fine". I don't ride in his car anymore.
Troghen · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who drives manual, I essentially have to do this unless I constantly want to be switching in and out of first gear. Sometimes it's impossible cause other people pull in front in the gap or the traffic is so slow its impossible, but generally if I time it right I never need to break
xanticx · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah got in the habit of it from driving manual as well!
lcqs · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the semi trucks are great at managing a speed i hang out behind them in traffic they dont slam on their brakes
Lukendless · 4 points · Posted at 21:11:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk if this actually alleviates traffic though because you're still moving at a slower speed and adding extra space between cars. Basically you're just forcing the traffic further down the road behind you where there are more cars to gather around the traffic wave. What really alleviates traffic is if you accelerate at the same time as a few cars ahead of you and then start to leave a bigger and bigger gap as you increase speed, but this, like everything, requires everyone to be on the same page. When others just cruise at a constant speed way below the limit it's impossible to get up to speed as a group quickly.
Bernard17 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By slowing the speed limit on the M25 and encouraging people to stay in their lane journey times decreased. Its change that creates the ripple down the traffic. Lane changes, lorries on inclines. Same as if you are ever at the end of a conga line - really dangerous as can be fast...
HeyItsMeUrSnek · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the general method in metro Atlanta and usually works quite well there. But if you try that here in my town people will just get in front of you as soon as there’s room for them. Whether they need to do it or not, they will.
Grahamatter · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people don't know that, it's never taught, and it's not enforceable, and it's counter-intuitive. It's just not gonna be a thing until self driving cars are mainstream.
defenderofcringe · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yep. i do this. i just idle and move constantly at like, 5mph. traffic is made infinitely worse by people speeding forward to close the gap every 5 seconds. like, wow, you moved so fucking far when you could have just idled forward and covered the same fucking distance.
snuzu · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a great myth busters episode where they demonstrated this - if everyone chills and hangs back at a steady pace, no traffic! The tailgating & braking (and failure to zipper merge) are what causes it. If people relaxed & zippered we’d be good to go.
lefranck56 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why this is not taught in driving lessons
riskywhisky123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do you live that you can cruise at 10 throughout traffic??
thats0K · 13 points · Posted at 20:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
he means that when traffic is at an almost stand still, creeping at 3mph bumper-to-bumper. if he leaves space (3-4 car lengths) he can go 10mph steadily instead of 3-5mph while annoyingly riding the guy's ass in front of him.
riskywhisky123 · 5 points · Posted at 20:49:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I genuinely didn’t understand. Thanks!
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah no problem! :)
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
However if you leave big gaps so as not to have to quickly break and accelerate, you end up creating a bigger pileup behind you. If everyone maintained a reasonable distance, but, in the event of a pileup, went directly behind the stopped car in front of them akin to stopping at an intersection or red light, traffic would be smoother and flow better for everyone behind them and anxious drivers wouldn’t have to hop lanes to jump ahead of you because you’re holding them back.
Ashformation · 4 points · Posted at 23:31:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally just wrong.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 00:09:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess we just have a different mindset on this.
Ashformation · 6 points · Posted at 00:10:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't a mindset. They have literally proven you wrong with testing. Someone already linked the mythbusters video.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:38:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw the CGP and chill Seattle dude’s videos but I haven’t seen the mythbusters one. Could you please link it?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 22:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudden braking isn't the problem, lack of sudden acceleration is the problem. It's not a problem to brake suddenly if you accelerate just as suddenly when the traffic in front of you allows it.
Parang97 · -2 points · Posted at 21:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know the method as well? I thought I was the only one?
manuelmagic · 533 points · Posted at 19:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have a look at this.
hekmo · 34 points · Posted at 22:09:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As an extension to this, I've been following this video for years on other ways to clear up jams.
Basically your goal is to never touch the brakes. Keep a good distance from the car in front of you, always drive the average speed, and slow down when you see a jam coming up. Then as soon as traffic clears floor it and get tf out of the snake.
This doesn't help you yourself, since your average speed is always dictated by the car ahead of you. But over time it should help clear up the starting and stopping for people entering the snake, and can prevent baby snakes from growing to adults in the first place.
The_Paniom · 9 points · Posted at 22:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I used to live in a less populated area, I would approach stoplights in a similar manner. If I saw a light change to red I would actually start pressing on the brakes immediately despite being quite far away. The point is to never fully stop, that way you don't have to accelerate as much when the light turns green again. Doesn't work well in practice in heavy metros.
xanfiles · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not just release the accelerator instead of hitting the brakes?
The_Paniom · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I can/do, it just usually isn't enough and I would have to eventually press harder on the brake in the end. Getting to the stoplight quicker = harder brake in the end so a light brake in the beginning, slowly increasing as I get closer usually means I am still going a faster speed when it turns green, rather than coasting for as long as I can.
I'm sure someone can come up with an argument for why my approach is wrong but it seems to work better for me.
Happytokill · 7 points · Posted at 00:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And what about the people that just merge in front of you because you left some space and you need to slow down even more? You leave some space again and the merge happens again, and the cycle continues. Happened to me several times.
hekmo · 5 points · Posted at 00:34:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's annoying for sure. I just don't leave as much space as I would otherwise, so there's only a couple cars that could merge into the gap at a time.
And maybe they needed to switch lanes anyway. Creating a nice big gap for mergers is better than them forcing their way into a packed lane.
FullSend28 · 3 points · Posted at 01:08:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, when I had a manual I always tried to leave space so I could just go along idling in 1st.
Inevitably more than a car length of space would open up and someone would immediately cut me off and screw it all up.
RingRingHello_69 · 17 points · Posted at 22:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was about to link the same video.
Traumx17 · 6 points · Posted at 00:45:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's exactly what I have been saying I'm so glad someone made that. Need robot cars. We are well on our way , the problem is most people dont want to not be able to drive or dont trust the technology but slowly we implement stay In lane tech auto braking etc then as the next generation start driving they are used to the lack of control and eventually we just tell the car where we are going and it goes.
SuckMyBike · 1 points · Posted at 09:21:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Self driving cars are expected to make traffic worse, not better
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 15:30:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Source?
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 00:37:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is great! Thanks for sharing.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 2 points · Posted at 00:50:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was a good video but it ends up concluding that I am a monkey sitting behind the wheel. Not sure to like because it was informative or dislike because it called me a monkey.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES. My husband and I have always said that 5-10 years after getting a drivers license, people should be required to take a driving etiquette course with lessons like this. First you learn to drive. Then you practice and see the real world issues. And then you learn a little more.
corycutstrees · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/7wm-pZp_mi0
This is my favorite traffic demonstration.
_Floydian · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was here to share this. Thanks.
ValithRysh · 1 points · Posted at 07:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I came here to post exactly that. Cheers mate
Ferrever · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was hoping someone linked this.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/beatmetoit
3trackmind · -4 points · Posted at 21:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a good video to explain how waves move through traffic. If you must imagine them as snakes, so be it. It’s simplistic to say that self driving cars will solve traffic problems.
manuelmagic · 6 points · Posted at 21:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I linked the video because I remembered that it explained why you are stuck in traffic thinking that there is an incident ahead and then it magically dissolves without you seeing anything special. If this kind of situations will be solved with self driving cars I don’t know.
Anti-Satan · 10 points · Posted at 21:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Self driving cars solve it by talking to each other. So every car knows what every other car is doing and going to do. That wipes out cascades. You'd have cars with a set distance between them at all times and braking in unison.
Szjunk · 3 points · Posted at 00:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more than talking to each other. They can influence other drivers. This also means, you, too, can influence other drivers.
Even adaptive cruise can help mitigate it.
Ford caught wind of it and wanted to add adaptive cruise control to the equation, partnering with the scientists to re-create the simulation using 36 random drivers, Ford vehicles and a closed test track.
The results: Vehicles using adaptive cruise control reduced the impact of a braking event smoother than those vehicles without the activated technology.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2018/07/03/self-driving-reduces-traffic-jams-study-says/741985002/
3trackmind · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed.
Marta_McLanta · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pulling people off the road is really the only way to permenantly decrease traffic. Creating alternatives like a train or walkable neighborhoods can make it so you don't even have to care about traffic, too
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having biked for a few years, blazing past cars lined up at a traffic light is the best thing in the world.
Oiszam · -3 points · Posted at 01:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Its very closeminded to think self driving cars will solve everything.
mlst245 · 9 points · Posted at 19:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a really good episode of Mythbusters that covers this that really helped me understand
ominous_anonymous · 7 points · Posted at 20:02:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my favorite scenes from the Mission: Impossible movies!
mitchanium · 7 points · Posted at 20:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In traffic engineering we called them 'Phantom jams'
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traffic_wave
kerplunkerfish · 6 points · Posted at 20:03:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As one car brakes and then carries on, the car behind does the same thing a moment later. This leads to loads of cars bunching up and then spread out behind one another (like when you whip a spring along the floor), and they each have to brake progressively harder until eventually it leads to a complete stop.
This "pulse" of stoppage travels back along the line of cars, and all the drivers wonder what in the gosh-danged heck that was all about.
NegativeLantern · 7 points · Posted at 20:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If one person slams on their brakes, the people behind them do, and so on. It compiles over time and becomes congested like mad sometimes
Glusch · 16 points · Posted at 19:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this short video by CGP Grey absolutely won't answer all of your questions regarding traffic, but it might shine light on some of them.
huiledesoja · 4 points · Posted at 20:15:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Snowball effect from a dumb move on the road that slows down the car behind and then everybody
cgtdream · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the case of a no accident scenario, its basically down too slower moving cars causing bottlenecks behind them, that take hours to clear up.
Or, in a similar vein of thought, one two many traffic lights on a busy highway can do the exact same thing, causing these random bottlenecks that create traffic.
Basically, anything that impedes or slows down the normal flow of traffic, can and will cause traffic jams and delays..
Its partly why, having a higher speed limit on highways is a good thing, as it helps traffic move quickly...
Also why roundabouts are superior in design, to intersections; both keep traffic flowing as smoothly as possible.
EDIT: Cars, not cats.
Marta_McLanta · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
worth noting that traffic speeds are highly correlated with traffic death rates
cgtdream · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its totally a give and take...And why usually an engineers recommendation or input is required/accepted for the raising or lowering of speed limits or the installation of traffic lights or creation of a new intersection.
However, traffic speeds and death rates would have to be expounded upon in this context, as it most likely be a combination of factors, to include highway speeds, but I would gander that its most certainly related to traffic impediments - especially artificial ones.
What do you think?
Marta_McLanta · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This study put out by this organizaiton found correlation. Worth noting that there may be bias as the org is dedicated to reducing traffic deaths:
https://www.iihs.org/news/detail/speed-limit-increases-are-tied-to-37-000-deaths-over-25-years
https://www.iihs.org/api/datastoredocument/bibliography/2188
Looks like this may be the data source they used. Haven't looked through it yet:
https://www.bts.gov/content/motor-vehicle-fatal-crashes-posted-speed-limit
This one draws a more mixed conclusion:
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0925753518306350
This one discusses a more clear correlation. Worth noting is that crashes are more fatal at higher speeds:
https://www.cga.ct.gov/2013/rpt/2013-R-0074.htm
This guy has an interesting chart on page 2:
https://crashstats.nhtsa.dot.gov/Api/Public/ViewPublication/810625
As a bonus, this chart of VMT to death rates shows an interesting trend. As cars get safer, the rate of deaths/VMT has steadily gone down, but due to sprawl and suburbanization I guess, we collectively drive a lot more and continue to do so, so we havent seen a fully correlating drop in deaths. Would be interesting to add in population levels to this chart to analyze:
https://cdan.nhtsa.gov/tsftables/Fatalities%20and%20Fatality%20Rates.pdf
cgtdream · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, thanks for posting all of this. Ill give them a read, as they seem like good info.
LionST1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
traffic is a surprisingly complex field of math and there are a bunch of different factors that cause traffic but one of the biggest is that human reaction times cause a cascading slowdown from something as minor as a lane change.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There could have been a cop who stopped someone and that slowed everyone else down. After the cop leaves it still takes time for the traffic to get back to normal. Also an 'almost wreck' can cause a ton of people to freak out and that ripples back through the traffic and has to be undone as well.
Darvy0 · 5 points · Posted at 19:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE
xaudionegative · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic functions sort of like a standing. wave in the ocean.
Let's say you have a whole freeway moving at 60 miles an hour and every car is evenly spaced. Let's say one row of cars all the way across the freeway suddenly break, and then speed up. Once those cars break, the cars behind them have to break, and the cars behind them, etc. The cars behind the first row get progressively slower as more and more people break. You have to move from behind the wave through it before you can get back into the clear.
Thats basically whats happening, someone was dumb and breaked hard or cut someone off causing them to break hard, and traffic is the result.
Edit: spelling
kinsm4n · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a science to it for sure, I think there's even engineering classes called "traffic and traffic management" or something along those lines and my understanding is it just starts with either Lane changers or someone braking (for some dumb reason usually I'm sure) causing everyone behind them to slow down. Once that happens, it creates a braking void of sorts near that location of the initial brake. Kind of like an accordion
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heres a gif that shows it really well. you can see that theres nothing stopping the cars at the front but there's a sort of traffic snake, its kinda how sound moves through the air.
https://giphy.com/gifs/snake-traffic-10A31T51rJp6De
VIN1096 · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having driven truck and observing traffic for twenty years now I used to have the same question. Its the people that stay bumper to bumper making sure no one gets ahead of them. Everyone merging constantly to try to get to the front of the line. Ive seen people squeeze their way onto the interstate and fight across four or so lanes all the way to the left then a mile later fight their way back over to exit off. Never getting above 15 mph. Countless times ive seen cars exit off, go straight across to the on ramp and merge back on just to get a couple spaces further ahead. Or all the times ive seen people just hop over into the on ramp lane just to pass a couple cars and stop traffic to get back over. Many reasons, if everyone would just cruise along, leave some space it would all move along.
gruffi · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Compression wave. Like a slinky.
hooligan_king · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
has to be a bottleneck somehow.. a merge,an exit, or an accident, or something that's disrupting the flow.
dontstumpthegrump · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mission: Impossible III (2006)
Ethan Hunt: You hit the brakes for a second, just tap them on the freeway, you can literally track the ripple effect of that action across a two-hundred-mile stretch of road, because traffic has a memory. It's amazing. It's like a living organism.
I think about this quote every now and then. I see this not only in traffic, but in, well, life in general lol
waytogoandruinit · 4 points · Posted at 19:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch this and you'll get it: https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE
the_hammertime · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called traffic waves I believe. I remember learning about it in drivers ed years back. Its where people would either switch lanes or tailgate/brake which would cause behind them to slow down which would then cause the people behind them to slow down and etc. It would then eventually create this massive "wave" as everyone would slowdown causing traffic jams. Its pretty interesting.
aliciasawesome · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bottleneck....too many people on the road
MyAntiqueCans · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly think a lot of traffic is caused by people cruising in the left lane. Really not sure why people think it’s acceptable.
BMarriott9 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/Q78Kb4uLAdA this video shows how one car braking backs traffic up for ages afterwards, it only takes a few people braking for it to snowball into a huge jam
jpstanton93 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called a phantom traffic jam. They're really frustrating but is something we're trying to model for and make a thing of the past with smart roadways and connected vehicles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work on the 24th floor of my building, and have a good view of a highway below. What I find fascinating is watching these "slow spots" slowly move backwards down the highway. The cars themselves keep moving forward at various speeds, but the spot everyone has slowed down at, that moves backwards.
SomolianButtPirate · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why are there always so many people on the road? Where are you all going at 2:00 pm on a Tuesday?
shr2016 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picture a highway full of cars all moving in a steady flow at the same speed. Then one driver thinks they’re too close to the car in front so they tap their brakes for a second. The car behind them taps their brakes for 1.25 seconds in reaction, the car behind them hits their brakes for 1.5 seconds, etc etc etc.
That’s how rolling traffic jams happen, propagating backwards.
LCAshin · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If people learned to slow down gently by getting off the throttle instead of hitting their brakes the world would be a better place
cbm32 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rubberband effect. If everyone creeped at 5-10 mph, we would never come to a stop.
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One person follows too closely, and is forced to slam on the brakes when traffic merges. This creates a "shock wave" that travels backwards from the direction traffic is flowing. That's it. If everyone maintained proper braking distance it wouldn't be a problem.
motodextros · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of times, it is simply congestion. I used to think that it made no sense, cause if the people at the front of the pack are going the speed limit then the people behind them should be able to as well, right? But every small factor of merging, slow drivers, and on/off ramp clogging add up really quick when you have thousands of drivers on the same freeway.
It gets really bad where I live because we don’t have a true freeway, our main highway is two lanes with a plethora of stop lights.
Goose_monkey95 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s a great CPG Gray Video on why something like this happens
xabrol · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called a traffic snake.
Imagine you have 20 miles of bumper to bumper traffic and one guy hits his brakes because he dropped his phone and slows down to 30 mph. Well the guy behind him slows down to 20. Etc etc etc.
500 feet back and all the way back 19 Mile everyone's at a dead stop.
The guy speeds back up to 70, the car behind him does, but it takes 20 minutes for 20 miles back to get back up to speed just for some other idget to brake and repeat the process.
Th3_Firestarter · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Over here in England you get traffic officers on the motorway, they don’t have the same powers as the police but they always assist with crashes and breakdowns. They’re often the cause of what you’re describing here, because they’ll stop the traffic for 10 mins to remove debris from the road or something like that.
StudsTurkleton · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually have an answer to this based on modeling I’ve seen. Traffic slow downs move like a wave away from the source. If it was minor the actual cause might have cleared up, but the resultant backup could have traveled well away from that original issue in this wave like way.
GG_assassin72 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
when i was 6, i thought it was an old grandma crossing the highway.
today i relize how dumb that sounds
UnicornGlitterZombie · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! I refuse to believe it’s the first time all those people haven driven on that road.
SamohtGnir · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve notice on my commute there is a slowdown right before a slight hill with a turn. I think people just zone out and don’t move their foot, and the hill slows them down. By time they realize it the person behind them had to slow down and the chain reaction has begun.
jbourne0129 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mythbusters did an episode on traffic and it totally explained what causes useless backups.
The short answer is: it's a chain reaction when lots of cars are on the road. 1 person up front brakes, 2nd car behind brakes a little harder, etc etc, then your in gridlock
Neptunelives · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a bottleneck ahead of you somewhere, that's all an accident is, but it's not the only way. Say there's a ton of people on the highway after work at the same time, all getting off at the same exit. They're not all honna fit. Combined with the breaking and tailgating mentioned elsewhere it makes it a lot worse. In my town all downtown traffic gets funneled onto a 2 lane bridge in order to get to the other side of town. All that traffic doesn't fit on the bridge. You can see videos of aerial views of traffic jams. It's pretty interesting.
copiae · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember reading a paper on this a few years ago where the authors studied this very effect. It's actually because traffic jams flow backward in banked traffic because of a compression wave like effect. Will try to demonstrate below:
Imagine a stretch of a single lane highway during peak hour where something has just happened:
--OXX-------------- (O is the bottleneck event like a car crash that's just happened, X is traffic, - is the road)
---XXXX-------- (over time the event resolves, but more traffic forms)
-------XXXXX-- (as the event is resolved the first cars can move again , but now a new bottleneck is created owing to the traffic itself, which causes more traffic to form)
That wave of traffic continues to travel away from the initial event, generally until the number of cars entering the road decrease. Hope that helps!
ANiceCasserole · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mythbusters had an episode on this. It doesn't make much sense how one car can cause so much traffic by accidentally braking, but that's what happens.
derf_vader · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to I4 between Downtown Orlando and Magic kingdom.
Troghen · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can literally be cause by one bad driver laying too heavily on the breaks and slowing down the flow of traffic, it'll just get out of control
pennyraingoose · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video may help.
paradox037 · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s actually surprisingly accurate to compare it to water flow through a pipe.
If something happens to clog the pipe for a moment, the pipe fills up quickly. Even if the clog clears quickly, it’s going to take a while before the water level gets low again, if the flow into the pipe doesn’t slow down.
Now imagine that it’s having momentary clogs every few seconds (1 car changing lanes unexpectedly for whatever reason and scaring everyone else into slowing down for a moment).
But for the record, traffic still pisses me off.
Olorin919 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search YouTube for videos of how a single car braking while in traffic causes a chain reaction that just multiplies the time spent just sitting there the further longer than chain gets. Traffic is 100% human made, obviously. But I mean its just stupid bullshit from stupid people that adds up.
mankiller27 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're in traffic, you are traffic. It's always best to use transit if possible.
That said, it's usually because traffic is cascading. A 10 second stop can cause a 2-hour backup if there's a lot of cars on the road.
lincolnwasblack · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Had a similar situation today, did more than one hour over less than a kilometre of road,got to the end and there was nothing holding the cars.
dookmucus · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember seeing a Disney cartoon about freeway traffic. It explained via Goofey how a slowdown causes that snowball effect that someone else mentioned. I always think about that cartoon in traffic and how, even if we had 15 lane freeways, it still wouldn’t be enough to end the stop and go.
csdspartans7 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its called ghost traffic and is just caused by breaking. Basically one person slows down, the person behind them not being perfect, has to slow down a little bit quciker to avoid a collision. As you go down the line this amplifies to stand still traffic. If everyone at the same time just started moving it would pretty much go away.
nedal8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its from people following too close, if for any reason someone has to slam on their brakes, the guy behind them has to, then behind that, so on and so forth. It creates a shockwave that propigates endlessly until there is a break in flow, or people following not so closely to absorb it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHzzSao6ypE
Overhazard10 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to commute an hour away from home for work for about a year. I got a new job and moved away from home and my commute is 20 min, but thanks to the morning traffic, it feels longer.
vortexmak · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phantom traffic jams : https://youtu.be/Q78Kb4uLAdA
Xacto01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Answer: there WAS an accident or traffic ahead. The wave of braking moves backwards like if you were to pluck a long wire. You can see the wave move along the wire. At your position on the wire you feel the wave when it gets to you but the pluck is already gone by the time you reach it
trollprezz · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that usually due to bottlenecks?
isnoe · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the Army, during long ruck marches of like 8-12 miles we had this thing we called “slinkying” which is to say something happened up in the line that caused someone to stop abruptly and the result is it trails all the way, like the movement of a slinky. Eventually someone is having to jog to close the gap, and it’s horrible.
Usually the way to avoid it is to fall in step with the person in front of you and keep pace.
skiptomyluau · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic jams are a form of standing wave.
Kalado · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=iHzzSao6ypE
Here is your explanation
npshepherd95 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=iHzzSao6ypE
This is an excellent description of how traffic exists even with the absence of reducing the number of lanes which also causes more traffic especially on highways
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's because of the propegation of the delay. You can observe this at a red light when it turns green. The first car moves, then the second, then the third...by the time the 20th car starts to move, the light has been green for a while.
rambunctiousrhino · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m genuinely looking forward to sitting in traffic again one day
ProudToBeAnonymous · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I saw a Vsauce video on this. Simply some random person will just not pay attention and get on their phone, and all it takes is a bunch of other people to not care pr stop paying attention because the person in front of them is stopped, and all of a sudden youve formed a line.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MythBusters did an episode on this. They had a bunch of people driving in a circle and they watch traffic form for no reason. I don't remember which episode it is but I'm sure you could find it.
unfederedpancake · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mythbusters had an episode similar to this. Apparently when the traffic density is just right, if a driver suddenly slows down, it sets off a chain reaction that may result in terrible gridlock.
Pjseaturtle · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s called a traffic snake, it can happen when one person slows down abruptly causing the next person to slow down abruptly and the person after them. Thus the abrupt breaking continues down the line of cars like the way a curve travels down the length of a snake as it moves. When you’ve left the slow zone traffic goes back to normal and you wonder how it cleared up so suddenly https://thumbs.gfycat.com/GenuineTenseGodwit-size_restricted.gif
Cpt_Tsundere_Sharks · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To compliment what everybody else has said, a visual representation is useful to understand how it happens.
throwawaybcimabadguy · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A really cool study of maths and data showed that traffic on highways most often aren’t caused by anything. Someone just hits their brakes for any amount of time, and causes a train reaction that follows. Take the individual’s reaction time and variance into accord, and then you can get mass slowdowns that persist for tens of minutes before some time that the congestion gets light enough that people stop braking.
Something really cool was when I was driving on a freeway and I watched a slowdown happen in real time. A person about 15 cars ahead braked for some reason (no idea, maybe they saw something that didn’t exist) and every single car slowed down, to the point that the 10th car and further (me included) had to slow to a stop. The slowdown continued for about 10 minutes which was insane because traffic on the left wasn’t slow enough for people to change lanes and speed up, they were stuck in this bogged down lane. People in front despite seeing open road ahead just didn’t get to full speed and just slowly cleared the spot of the slowdown, and then resumed normal speed.
Additionally, the design of on and off ramps to alleviate congestion and choke points at exits are great, but not perfect. People having to merge to get on AND get off causes mass slowdown near busy exits. I’m no engineer but common sense tells me that the half mile and mile long exit ramps are to avoid the mass congestion that several interchanges, exits, and entry ramps cause.
VermillionVirus · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've seen videos demonstrating how traffic can happen and snowball, sorry but no link rn
Dennis_enzo · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Playing Cities: Skylines taught me a lot about traffic behaviour.
GBHawk72 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CGP Grey made a video on this. They’re called traffic snakes I think.
https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE
GameCyborg · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
some jackass tailgating someone who suddenly changed lanes so he has to break real hard and the next has to break harder and so on until you get a dead stop on a highway
TurtleNamedHerb · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE Great video on this topic!
R_u_having_fun_yet · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.traffic-simulation.de/
set inflow to max and politeness to min and watch what happens
AvengerMKII · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's called phantom traffic jams. When everyone is at a constant speed, it's smooth until someone brakes all of a sudden and causes a chain reaction for everyone else. This creates that "traffic jam" that makes you think it's a car crash when it's not. CGP Grey explains this pretty well
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, this video is a very good explanation of how traffic jams are created.
tommygunz007 · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue we have is education. A lot of stupid slow people move over into the left lane and daydream.
soderloaf · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's called the accordion effect. If some wanker is speeding up and then suddenly brakes it causes a ripple effect of everyone having to brake.
Be much more effective if everyone just drove at a reasonable speed together at once
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/7wm-pZp_mi0
charlieharper22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love the band Traffic!
2016TrumpMAGA · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read up on queuing theory.
Galba__ · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this thing in middle school about ghost accidents that explained it pretty well. Basically some idiot does something dumb. Thinks they saw a ufo, or stops for an animals, or cuts someone off. Anything that causes the next car to slow or come to a complete stop. Then the next car behind has to slow and little bit more to avoid hitting them. And then the one behind a little bit more to avoid hitting them. Then all of the sudden 20 cars back you're in a complete stop. So you can see how at times of high traffic density one little mess up and now people are sitting for a minute or two at a dead stop a few hundred cars back from where one idiot did one dumb thing. Of course there are other explanations like closed lanes, traffic stops, or actual accidents but that's about it.
Molly_dog88888888 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/iHzzSao6ypE
This is a great explanation!
I1RodneyX · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get traffic either, man. Like, come on people, just drive the car.
Xtolt · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic snake
anamariapapagalla · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a cause, but probably something thst should have been insignificant (1 car messed up changing lanes or similar) but because the road was a bit too busy at the time, it caused problems. And it probably happened far away, hours earlier. Traffic jams travel.
HandsomeLakitu · 7994 points · Posted at 14:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was really good at maths at school until Year 10 when we hit a topic called 'Numbers and Proof'.
It was about proving that the answer to an equation was definitely right.. I think? I don't really know, because I never understood a single thing the teacher said that whole term.
lessmiserables · 2703 points · Posted at 18:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Same for me. I was perfectly fine with math up until calculus.
And while I got the bits and pieces of calculus, I could not understand the "big picture" of it. Like if you guide me step by step I could do it, but doing a problem on a test and navigating it myself? None of it made any logical sense to me. It all seemed like arbitrary wacky nonsense to me.
And I thought maybe I had a bad teacher or something, but, eh. I had to take calc in college after that, and I did OKAY, but I think it was just because I had just repeated a course I had in high school. And any attempts to revisit it just made no sense.
Edit: A lot of you are trying to "explain" calculus to me in terms that make calculus maddeningly incomprehensible. You're mostly proving my point.
livercookies · 292 points · Posted at 19:59:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Integral calculus in second year university. Thought I was good at math up until that point. I got a F-, didn't even know F- was a thing until then.
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Orthas · 32 points · Posted at 22:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think for derivatives and integrals, taking some physics at the same time helps. A derivitive is the rate that something is changing. Velocity vs acceleration makes that easy to visualize. And logically, if you know an objects acceleration, and how long it's been going, you should be able to figure out how fast it's going or where it is. Those would be an integral and double integral.
It of course all gets more complicated, and knowing that doesn't really help you do the math, but it makes it easy to conceptualize.
Costco1L · 14 points · Posted at 05:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes physics make much more sense. Physics without calculus feels arbitrary. Together, they are beautiful.
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OneMeterWonder · 8 points · Posted at 04:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Integration is a way to approximate size by chopping things up into little bits and then adding them back up.
I want to know the area of a circle with radius 1 and I don’t know the formula from geometry, but I know the formula for the area of squares and rectangles. So I draw a square around my circle and calculate that area. I draw a square inside my circle and calculate that area. Now I chop up my squares into smaller squares and throw away parts I don’t need. Now my squares look more like the circle and their areas approximate the circle area better than before.
kakaroxx · 2 points · Posted at 08:05:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's to find the total quantity of something over a duration. Like for example, we know that distance is equal to the product of velocity at which you're moving and the time for which you're moving. If you were going at 50 m/s for 5s you would know that you travelled 250 m. If you draw a graph between the velocity and speed you'd get a horizontal line because your velocity is constant and so the rectangular area under it gives the total distance. But now assume you're accelerating at a random rate. Your velocity changes with no linear pattern and is not constant with time. If you were asked to find the distance travelled, how would you do it? You'd split up your velocity into smaller chunks. For example, you'd say I'm moving at 20 m/s for the next 50ms , then I'm now at 25 m/s for the next 50 ms . You can then find the total of each of these products. But you notice that this is not very accurate. Why? Because you are using 50 ms intervals of time . What if the change in that timespan was drastic? So what do you do? You break it up into smaller segments, say of 25 ms each. But the same problem presents itself. So what integration does is, we first obtain the curve of velocity with time as an equation, then make an assumption that the time is split up into infinite number of such segments. Then you find the product for each segment and add them up. You may wonder how infinite segments are added up but by using limits and infinite sum techniques it's actually quite simple and gives you the integration formulae you use in your questions.
Hope this made it clear for you. Do read through as I think this should clear your doubts.
lxburnums · 3 points · Posted at 12:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transforms and series were the bane of my existence until i said "fuck it i don't even wanna build planes" and went into humanities instead.
HellcatV8 · 12 points · Posted at 23:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'd be surprised by the amount of people who fail this course. Literally half the students enrolled from the whole university and averages are usually around 50%.
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chronoflect · 7 points · Posted at 02:52:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In case you missed the other comment, check out 3blue1brown's playlist on calculus. He does a fantastic job visualizing how calculus was invented, and why it's useful.
I like to think of it more as "fancy math" used to figure out how something changes without needing to do a bunch of complicated algebra.
aussiefrzz16 · 13 points · Posted at 04:22:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah that’s all fun and shit until you get to the trigonometry calculus and Taylor series, there’s no one to save you then. No one.
YungDaVinci · 8 points · Posted at 05:24:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trig isn't bad but Taylor series is hell. I've taken Calc 3 and you do Taylor series in Calc 2, and that was probably the hardest thing for me to understand at first.
aussiefrzz16 · 3 points · Posted at 17:07:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the trig stuff kinda grew on me. The Taylor series however
toni8479 · -5 points · Posted at 23:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea. U r not gonna do well
livercookies · 3 points · Posted at 01:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes me feel slightly better. I did get a D the second time around, and was so proud of the D.
aussiefrzz16 · 3 points · Posted at 04:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taylor series almost made me retake calc 3 all on its own
truthdoctor · 12 points · Posted at 01:09:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never felt so lost on a final as I have on Integral calculus. I scored 25% in that class and passed because the highest score was 35%.
livercookies · 6 points · Posted at 01:12:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our prof wouldn't grade on a curve. I still hate her
truthdoctor · 13 points · Posted at 01:22:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will carry hate for her too out of solidarity.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:55:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is hilarious. You guys deserve a gold... this is the best I can do. 🏅
DesktopWebsite · 3 points · Posted at 12:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am still good at math but the names in linear algebra killed me. ODE was easier for me because the names didnt flip in my head.
ReadYouShall · 2 points · Posted at 10:31:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im going to be doing calc at uni in a few months. Ive loved maths until I hit the harder algebra stuff. Although I get parts of the current stuff its still hard to comprehend. Think its mainly cause I cant picture as much of it in my head as I could with whole numbers.
Convicted_Vapist420 · 2 points · Posted at 08:33:12 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s gonna be me this Monday
[deleted] · 448 points · Posted at 19:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch "Essence of Calculus" by 3Blue1Brown.
throwawayformhh · 110 points · Posted at 20:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
imo every calc student and even non calc students should watch this series. elegant solutions, beautiful animation, lovely commentary and explanations that a kindergartener could understand in theory. not only helps one understand calculus, but also the beauty and incredible thinking behind it.
Gambion · 12 points · Posted at 00:18:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
His meta discussion on mathematical abstractions with Lex Friedman is interesting as well
Athena0219 · 23 points · Posted at 00:38:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The majority of calculus concepts can be taught to a 5th grader (not like... the algebra part, so no actual integrals/derivatives), and the longer you wait, the more esoteric and seemingly "random" it becomes.
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 23:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Trying to learn essentially on my own now due to classes moving online and a professor that cannot use the online platform. Just hoping to pass at this point via KhanAcademy and this series now.
canyonlands2 · 5 points · Posted at 01:41:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recommend Professor Leonard on YouTube as well
Major_Eiswater · 9 points · Posted at 00:42:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit up WolframAlpha online as well. I'm restudying Physics and Maths for Engineering, Wolfram computes a problem for you and shows you step by step if you're having issues.
I use this when I THINK I know the next step but not a hundred percent sure. Helps to build your confidence in your methods.
UraniumSpoon · 31 points · Posted at 20:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3Blue1Brown is incredible, I also highly recommend this series
MaritimeDisaster · 8 points · Posted at 03:39:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I’m taking a math course as a prerequisite to getting a masters degree, and we just started the calculus section of the class. I went straight to this website and HOLY FUCK, it’s the best thing I’ve ever seen!! Just the first episode where they break down a circle fucking astonished me.
THANK YOU for posting this link, it has blown the lid off this shit! So stoked.
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:)
cool_beans7652 · 2 points · Posted at 04:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was about to comment this! 3blue1brown has gotten me through so many classes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea
tootsiefoote · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
awesome little series. thx!
LiquidSilver · 1 points · Posted at 08:13:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why does he slice the circle into rings? I much prefer this solution.
Edit: Oh, he's not teaching about circles. The circle is only an example for something more general. Though I guess the rectangle version could have taught the same thing.
LTChaosLT · 1 points · Posted at 12:28:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welp, I guess I'm completely fucking stupid.
too_metoo · -21 points · Posted at 23:06:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No
threelonmusketeers · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not?
ask-design-reddit · -4 points · Posted at 04:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
12 episodes. Don't really care about the topic. That's probably why.
Nobodyville · 65 points · Posted at 19:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't necessarily good at math up until high school when I encountered a truly great teacher. I then zipped through all the way to calculus until I got to to rotations around a point/line. Literally my brain was like "nope." I'm pretty sure it was nearly the last topic of my senior year. I took a lower level math class in college (yay Arts and Letters major) and never did math again. Sometimes I wonder if I actually hit a wall in my ability to understand math or if I could go back and I'd understand it differently at my current age. I find a lot of things I struggled with when I was younger come easier to me when I'm older for no particular reason other than experience or brain development.
throwawayformhh · 11 points · Posted at 20:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s cool that you mention that, as i’m at the end of my senior year taking Calc and this is exactly the lesson we were assigned yesterday. Conceptually, it’s hard to understand for sure; but i think sometimes it takes some deep thinking some time away and a new fresh perspective if it doesn’t click the first time. the ones that rotate from somewhere other than the X or Y axis get me though.
LonelySnowSheep · 2 points · Posted at 08:17:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn’t understand calculus until the 3rd class in our calculus series in Uni. Sort of. It definitely starts making more sense later down the line, you just have to find the patterns and have a pseudo understanding of calculus until you get to that point
HasTwoCats · 16 points · Posted at 22:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a degree in mathematics, but calculus in high school did the same shit to me. At the college I went to we had a TON of free, easily accessible resources, and my teacher was amazing (easily the best in the department), and got me through. I'm convinced calculus is hard because you go from "memorize this and use it because I said so" to "you actually need to understand the ideas and concepts behind this equation". It's almost an entirely new way of looking at Mathematics, and it screws with people when they first encounter it, but once it all "clicks" the hardest part becomes the algebra.
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HasTwoCats · 3 points · Posted at 23:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The math department at the University I went to was heavy with researchers in RUME (research in undergraduate mathematical education), so everything was lead into with real life examples, and with problems that where specifically designed to get us to almost invent the concepts ourselves. It was extremely helpful, and while I was there they got more refined. It was actually something I got to work on for my senior thesis, it was a lot of fun.
cuajito42 · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was my problem learning calculus in college. It never made any sense. Engineering math I had no issues with but "pure" math i couldn't get my head around. I still can't but then again I don't need to know how to it right now either.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
by "clicks" do you mean that you learn what tool to pull out for what situation? Like, a physical observation like, I don't know, water circling a drain or something and you'd like know what defined its physics?
HasTwoCats · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how to describe it. It's like you just suddenly see behind the math? It just kind of all fell into place and I suddenly understood what the teacher was trying to say or get me to see. I used to remember the moment, but it was so long ago, I don't anymore, or maybe I'd be able to describe it better
Geminii27 · 43 points · Posted at 21:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always felt that calculus is often taught really badly. Which is an enormous pity, because a lot of complex things in math start to become really simple and elegant when looked at through the lens of calculus. It explains a metric crapload of why a bunch of math and physics formulas are the way they are, for starters, rather than just learning them by rote.
funkyb · 16 points · Posted at 22:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In college my wife took algebraic physics because calc-based wasn't required for her major. I tortured her and it was so much harder, because I couldn't easily explain why anything was what it was.
"This is the formula for the distance traveled, this is the formula for velocity."
"Why?"
"Because that's how fast the distance is changing."
"How can you know that?"
"I literally cannot give you a satisfying answer you can understand. So...just memorize it."
"Well I don't like that. Physics is dumb."
"The way you're being taught it now, yes. Yes it is."
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Timee5 · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? I‘m in an algebra-based physics class right now, but I’m taking calculus concurrently. We just finished learning simple harmonic motion. I got taught all these confusing explanations for how position, velocity, and acceleration graphs were determined. Then at one point I realized ... “wait... aren’t they just all the derivatives of one another?” It makes you feel so smart when you find out that connection between calculus and physics.
chronoflect · 5 points · Posted at 03:09:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My highschool taught both algebraic physics and calculus-based physics, but I had to take algebraic physics because I hadn't taken any calculus courses at the time. I thought it was entirely arbitrary and you just had to memorize everything, and ended up doing very poorly.
I now think algebraic physics shouldn't even be taught at all. It is so much more complicated than just learning a bit of calculus, that it must damage students' impressions of physics whenever they take it. Even if it doesn't, they just end up learning a bunch of junk that they'll forget once they learn how a derivative works.
ralphusmcgee · 1 points · Posted at 08:18:27 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think this is always true. I had a wonderful algebra based AP physics teacher, and I took ap physics 1 and 2, and calc while in physics 2.
He gave us all of the formulas, but we needed to know how to apply them. He taught us the concepts about what is really happening and what the equations mean. I didn’t forget anything once I learned a derivative, because I learned the equations with how they really work.
Poke_uniqueusername · 3 points · Posted at 03:52:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was my main problem throughout high school AP physics, my teacher was plain bad (There were 2 ap physics teachers, everyone failed the AP test in my teacher's class and multiple people got 5's in the other class) and could not explain or go into detail about why things were the way they were. The math was very simple the real problem with the class was finding out when to use each type of math and what values belonged where, which is what makes up the majority of the AP curriculum
truthdoctor · 5 points · Posted at 01:17:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most university classes are taught poorly. They're just like high school classes except the teacher thinks he's smarter than everyone else, takes 40 min to spit out a lecture, walks out assigning you twice as much homework and then there's either too many people asking for help or the prof is never even in their office.
chessant2014 · 20 points · Posted at 20:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you seen 3Blue1Brown's calculus series? He's really good at giving you the intuition of why things are defined the way they are. His linear algebra series really helped me, and that's a course that's often taught even more confusingly than calculus.
SANPres09 · 6 points · Posted at 22:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the recommendation. Linear algebra is still one of those things that frustrated me because I was entirely taught the how, not the why.
420Minions · 10 points · Posted at 20:18:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally can’t do that stuff. I can follow along every problem but the second I’m on my own, I’m just throwing shit at a wall. It was the only class I failed in college. My second time I went to the TA every week and worked on it. I got great scores on the quizzes that were much more about the process of what we learned that week. On the exams I’d still bomb and I finished with a C+ thank god. It just doesn’t work for me
grizonyourface · 28 points · Posted at 20:27:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus is basically just the math of change. Things can change in a lot of different ways. The more complex a system gets, the more factors that can change its behavior. One of the most common calculus problems is the emptying tank problem. Imagine you have a tank of water with a hole in the bottom, such that water is flowing out of the tank at a constant rate. Find the height of the water after a certain amount of time. So the equation for this is simple. H = Ho + dH, where Ho is the initial height, and dH is the change in height after some amount of time. If the water flows out a constant rate, say a gallon per minute, then all you have to know is how long the water has been flowing out. Multiply this flow rate by time it has been flowing and subtract it from the original Ho, and there you have it, a way to find the change in height after a certain amount of time! But now, let’s say you have a tank where the radius is constantly changing, there is more than one liquid in the tank (oil and water, let’s say), and you also have liquid being poured in. Now your dH equation is going to be a lot more complex, and that’s where you use calculus techniques to model the flow out of the tank. Hopefully that makes sense and that there’s no nitpicky errors in my example!
jrizos · 6 points · Posted at 23:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's a pretty kickass example and I don't get calculus.
shostakofiev · 8 points · Posted at 23:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be the notation, and not the actual math, that you are tripping on.
BringBackManaPots · 5 points · Posted at 00:01:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TRUE.
Leibniz notation always confused the hell out of me. Why is dy being divided by dx?
Sure, we're assigning a variable to the output of a function of 'x'. Why not just say dx?
And why is the second derivative d2y / dx2?
What does d really mean? Why is it squared for y, but not for x?
And why is x squared??
AverageLiberalJoe · 11 points · Posted at 01:09:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
d means difference.
Remember that the slope is the difference in y divided by the difference in x.
(y2-y1)/(x2-x1)
So dy/dx. Which is the derivative. Which is the slope.
R00bot · 4 points · Posted at 02:09:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody told me this for literally years of calculus and I think that fucked me up for a while.
AverageLiberalJoe · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was confused about it too for several years after calc 1 even though I use it all the time. One day it finally clicked.
R00bot · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. It wasn't a problem at first but then I got to the questions where you had to separate dx and dy and until that point I hadn't even considered them as two different things. Everything kinda fell apart for me at that point and it was ages until it all clicked.
AverageLiberalJoe · 2 points · Posted at 02:41:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went down the same path. I finished diff calc feeling like I skipped a class and had no idea what I was doing.
BlazeOrangeDeer · 5 points · Posted at 01:56:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's because the x derivative is d/(dx), and applying it to y is like multiplication. It isn't actually multiplication and it isn't actually a fraction, but that's how the notation is supposed to work. Applying the derivative twice means multiplying it twice, so you multiply it like a fraction and you get d2/(dx)2.
The parentheses are usually left off the dx because it's not actually multiplication, and you can't use the PEMDAS rule because it happens before the exponent. It acts more like a function d(x). So yeah that notation was overall not a great choice for teaching purposes.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:38:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It actually is valid as useful tool! Nonstandard analysis verified the idea that dy/dx is like a fraction of infinitesimals! It’s really cool stuff, but maybe a bit too advanced for Intro calculus.
Wheatleytron · 5 points · Posted at 21:32:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
College level math is hard. I failed almost every math class on the first go round, but stuck with it and studied hard. Eventually, I passed classes like differential equations and control theory. And there are still more advenced classes out there that I could take to further my math education.
It wasn't easy at all, but a good foundation in math is a great thing to have, and it has endless real world applications. If you're still in school and struggling with math, stick to it, you will learn it eventually.
Jzkqm · 18 points · Posted at 20:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus clicked for me right up until I hit the point where the problems we were solving weren’t applicable to real-world issues. Like, derivatives and integration? Sure, I can see where that’s useful. Taylor series? Nah.
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FerricDonkey · 16 points · Posted at 22:01:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about it like this: what does the cosine of 7 actually mean? Well to find it, you could draw a circle, measure out 7 radians, then measure the x coordinate. That's what it actually is. But you're not gonna want to do that.
But polynomials are easy. They're just multiplication and addition and crap. So if you have a polynomial that's freakishly close to cosine, then you just have to do some arithmetic and you're done.
timofthejar · 8 points · Posted at 21:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taylor series is a big deal in financial math. It’s part of how the Black-Scholes equation came into existence, which is important for computer models that price options.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have any tutorial links or anything on this?
timofthejar · 2 points · Posted at 23:51:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not off the top of my head. I’m sure if you search YouTube for “Black-Scholes derivation” you will find one. You should probably have some understanding of statistics and multi variable calculus. The Taylor Series part is specifically for deriving Ito’s Lemma (basically the chain rule for functions of random variables), which is used to derive the Black-Scholes equation.
Edit: I forgot to mention though... the general solutions to the Black-Scholes equation are what are ultimately used for option pricing and to use those you only really need to know basic algebra. They’re not particularly practical to use by hand though, as options markets are pretty efficient.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol Taylor series are big because they approximate fucking everything. Goddamn PDEs.
BlazeOrangeDeer · 3 points · Posted at 01:47:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taylor series are cool because you can often get answers that are good enough with only the first couple terms. Engineers and physicists use it all the time, and basically any field where you model real things with equations that only have to be close enough.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 22:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pure math is the best math. fuck applied math
coragamy · 24 points · Posted at 22:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No
urjah · 13 points · Posted at 23:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to upvote both of you because this is a beautiful disagreement
SirCampYourLane · 10 points · Posted at 22:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Counter point, fuck off. Both are great and it's shitty to put them against each other. It's a blurrier line than most people like to say
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it's not really that blurry of a line. And it's not shitty to put them against each other; it's my preference and I hate applied math.
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Jzkqm · 3 points · Posted at 03:39:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It just helped me anchor the theory of things - I didn't really see why people did math for math's sake when I was a senior in high school.
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Rancorousturtle · 9 points · Posted at 22:01:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found calculus to be hard until I gave up trying to understand it and treated it like a game/puzzle with rules that make no sense but are nevertheless, iron clad.
Then I did very well.
ageingrockstar · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the philosophy of mathematics, this would make you a formalist.
noeformeplease · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra when you have r/dyscalculia feels just like this.
Belazriel · 5 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's odd, I remember getting the big picture of calculus pretty easily, at least the parts I covered during my courses. Area under a curve being made up of smaller and smaller rectangles and such. It was specific teachers who were either really good or really bad at getting the formulas to stick and making everything fit together.
carlowtodublin · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know it's funny I was in a similar boat to you. I'm in Ireland and was grand at maths most of the way through school. Hit a road block at calculus during my final year in school and dropped from what we called honors maths (higher lever) to pass maths (ordinary level). When i was in university I had to take a module called advanced mathematics for engineers that was supposed to be much harder than finalnuear maths and thought "I'm fucked"! It turns out that the different teacher/fresh approach meant I understood the subject much better (was calculus again) and I aced the exams. I did really well in all the maths subjects after that. Unless you are lucky enough to find an approach that works for you (in real life not on reddit obs) it's not going to click. Tl;dr maths is weird.
amievenamillenial · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was exactly me, right down to retaking it in college. Calculus was my math wall. I would listen to my teacher talk and then look at my paper like, What in the actual fuck is she going on about? Meanwhile all my friends would be scribbling away, completely understanding all then nonsense. Sitting down for the AP was horrible but thank GOD one of the big “show your work” questions was a subtopic that, while I had absolutely no conceptual knowledge of the work I was doing, I knew all the steps and places to plug the numbers. Ugh. Not a good time turning that one in, thanks for the memories.
Ashken · 2 points · Posted at 22:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand not being able comprehend calculus. I took four levels of it and it definitely takes a certain way of thinking to comprehend.
desertbatman · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus never made sense to me until I realized geometry was for finding the area of shapes and calculus was for finding the area under a random curve.
MotoMkali · 2 points · Posted at 00:45:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do further maths at a-level and if you go the wrong way you a get absolutely fucked. You have to guess which way you are supposed to solve the equation or whatever so everything cancels out nicely. And they have to make the equations include unknowns because otherwise your calculator can just solve it. Sometimes it is fucking mindbending.
And when we started it we did numerical methods and I did not have a fucking clue about anything that was happening. Now I think I'm fine with it because everything else is just so much harder. Thank fuck the exams are cancelled there is no way I could do it without another 5 months of school and we only had 2 months at the time of cancelling
Armymom96 · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother is crazy smart. Got a perfect score on the physics AP exam, went to CalTech, etc. I was failing algebra for the second time, so my parents thought my brilliant brother could help me. But he couldn't comprehend how I couldn't understand it. It was second nature to him, and it was completely incomprehensible to him that I couldn't understand it. So he couldn't explain it. I finally squeaked by with a paid tutor and had to take Algebra 2 at a community college to get into nursing school. My instructor just had a way of explaining it, and I got an A. But I never liked it.
ageingrockstar · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being tutored by your 'crazy smart' brother sounds like a nightmare. You have my sympathy.
Catsdrinkingbeer · 3 points · Posted at 20:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus is more or less just finding the area or volume of a shape in a specific space.
There are certain shapes like triangles that we can find the area of without calculus (although someone definitely used calculus the first time), but when the shapes are irregular we don't have that luxury.
Every line or shape can be defined by a function. For example, x=y will just be a line at a 45 degree angle going up from left to right, whereas x=-y would be the 45 degree able going downward from left to right. If you put that on a graph you could figure out the area under that line. The reason we don't need to use calculus to find that area specifically is because the function itself is so simple.
But obviously most shapes aren't that simple. We need to use calculus to find those areas or volumes, and this becomes important in certain industries. A painter doesn't necessarily need to know this, but an engineer designing a damn absolutely does.
SirCampYourLane · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus is about more than just volumes. It's about describing change and rates of change.
Catsdrinkingbeer · 3 points · Posted at 23:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but one of the reasons people struggle with higher level math is the lack of visualization. People can easily visualize area and volume, people struggle to visualize speed vs velocity vs acceleration.
And considering the very first thing you learn in Calc is "the area under the curve", this is a really simplistic explanation for some of those basics. But you're right, I probably should have used some different language.
SirCampYourLane · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I respect that, I just see it as a common misconception. I think the idea that velocity/displacement is unintuitive is wrong. You know that if you go 60 miles per hour for an hour you went 60 miles an hour.
Calculus tells you how that will work with a constantly changing speed.
102015062020 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is literally my exact experience. After calculus in college, I switched from being a chemistry major to a business major.
formershitpeasant · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what a tangent line is? A line that has the exact same slope as and goes through a point in a curve? And you know how a line is y = mx + b? Well, the derivative is the m (slope) of the tangent lines of a curve.
theboomboy · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely watch 3b1b's videos about calculus
It might take time to soak in at first, but he makes it very intuitive and visual
CouncilmanRickPrime · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never passed Calculus in college. I did pretty good the first half of the class, but the second half I didn't understand anything at all and I have no idea what happened lol just glad I didn't need it for my degree.
WhaChaChaKing · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I never even got to calculus. Probably wouldn't've been very good either.
I was relatively good at math when I went to school and it was actually my favorite subject. But then what really stumped me was trigonometry. Mostly sin and cos. I have no idea why. I don't even remember what it was all about but I could never get it. Like I literally had to turn my brain off to get them right.
ageingrockstar · 2 points · Posted at 04:54:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a shame that they teach trigonometry so early (i.e. around 12 to 14), as I think your experience is far from uncommon.
WhaChaChaKing · 2 points · Posted at 16:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, maybe I just wasn't there yet? I also went to a pretty terrible school so who even knows. For me, I just really need to understand every aspect of a problem if I'm going to answer it. My teacher would just tell me what to do but I needed to know why and she couldn't tell me. Like if I'm doing this or that I need to know why I'm doing this or that. What about those things help me solve the problem? Idk I just got on peoples nerves sometimes.
TrimboliHandjobs · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not going to try and explain it to you but this might make sense since I felt a similar thing after Calc 1.
In the early stages you are basically a monkey who learns to do things to a certain problem without really knowing the significance. I wouldn't say I really "learned" Calc 1 until Calc 3. At that point the older concepts became mundane like addition and subtraction and the idea behind it begins to seep in.
The last math class I had to take was Differential Equations and I feel the same way about it as you do about Calculus. I did pretty well in the class but have no idea what any of it meant. Similarly, I'm sure if I kept taking math classes I would probably truly learn the material to the course a couple classes down the line.
Errohneos · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took an applied calc course where they tried to bridge the gap between theory and practicality. It was still relatively hard to grasp, but I thought they did a great job. Like, I'd sit there and be like "what the shit is the point of this?" and then one of the problems would have me calculate the most efficient size of a washing machine basin per a total volume and I'd be like "well...okay. fine".
Promiscuity269 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funnily enough I suck at trigonometry but aced my calculus class. Those radians fucked me up.
TacoNomad · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand you. I still don't understand calculus. I only passed because the prof gave us extra credit for writing our homework solutions on the board, so I'd do that every chance I got, no matter how lost I knew I was. I could follow along, but definitely couldn't solve problems on my own.
But then I took other classes that utilized Calc. And I could suddenly understand and do the work in the applied sense. I was amazed that it somehow made sense in the simplified form.
But, I've been out of school for 5 years so I don't remember any of it.
smorkoid · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny, I was always good at math but never liked math. That is, until I got to calculus and it was finally Interesting. I was like aha, now this makes a lot of sense! But pre-calculus, useless and boring to me.
Kari_Bunny36 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg, this was me in college.
Except I managed to crawl my way to Calc 3 (which I failed/dropped)... (.__. )
It still doesn't make sense to me, not even a little bit. I'm great at equations and geometry, but anything beyond trig just did not register in my brain.
I never really could put how I felt about Calculus in words. Thank you for this~
Heterophylla · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you come up with your user name during your calc course? If so, your username checks out.
AlienEngine · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with this. I’m in calculus 3 right now and realized I didn’t retain anything from 1 and 2 except for derivatives and integrals.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tip: For multiple integrals it’s all about setting up the bounds correctly or changing variables.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proofs can be dealt with at any level of math honestly. The geometry that is taught in 10th grade has proofs that require referencing postulates and theorems. Also at the same level as Calculus is Linear Algebra, which has tons of proofs, in that there are questions like "prove this is a subspace of that" etc.
Anywhere there are formal definitions, there are proofs.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 04:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That quote has almost no relevance to intro calculus. It’s talking about the aleph numbers. In calculus you mostly just deal with aleph zero or the generalized “infinity” in determining limits.
BringBackManaPots · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It clicked for me when I started memorizing (and I mean word for word) the axioms, theorems, and definitions.
Upper level math is about taking those three and transforming them from their initial form to what you have on the exam in order to show that since we know the left side works this way, and the right side can be made to look like the left - they must both be true.
Memorize the axioms, theorems and definition. Sprinkle some creativity in there, and you have a degree.
Robohobo07 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what you mean by not seeing the “big picture”. If I don’t understand the application of the problem it makes it way harder, and there’s no motivation to learn it.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s very easy to miss the forest for the trees when there are so goddamn many trees.
FishyMacaroon6 · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a similar problem. The only things in calculus that I could make sense of were the ones I used in physics, because I was able to adequately visualize what was going on. This was especially frustrating after years of being quite good at math relative to everyone around me.
colt45feelnaliv · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I wanted to raise my hand every day in calculus and ask “but why are we doing this? What is the point?” Because if I knew that I’d probably get it. Why does it matter if I know how to predict where a point is on a wave at some other time, or whatever
p_hennessey · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to relax and watch this video and all will be well:
https://youtu.be/WUvTyaaNkzM
kshebdhdbr · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was the other way around. I easily understand the concepts of high level math, but can not get through the calculation part of it to save my life.
Traumx17 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope I can get to the answer usually but cant tell you how I got there. It's less than scientific its guessing and working backwards and just kinda knowing what area I need to be in if that makes sense but having no idea why.
Fucking hate math
wedgiey1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was the same way. Apparently calculus let’s you determine the area below a curve. I couldn’t have cared less about that and didn’t understand why you couldn’t just get a sufficiently close estimate with very small squares.
ajnaazeer · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh the irony!
Athire5 · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was the exact opposite. I couldn’t really get math until calc. I barely scraped by with C’s all through basic algebra and Trig. My first calc class? Boom. Something clicked and it made sense. Algebra though? I got a little better at it just by doing it in calc, but give me something purely algebra to do and I will likely struggle with it.
Funny how the brain works, isn’t it? One thing can totally click but something just slightly different is like a foreign language.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m right there with you. I am excellent at math, and I tested into higher level math than my peers in college. But calculus never made any damn sense to me. Cool cool cool cool this equation goes to infinity as it approaches zero but..... idgaf?
Hartknockz · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never took calculus, the highest I went was like Algebra 2 or something, but as a layman my interpretation (and im probably wrong to an extent) is calculus is basically a set of formulas that you'd use to figure out problems in whatever area you're working in. All the "scenarios" they had you do in math class are arbitrary in a sense. They're just examples of how to use the specific formula, but I always found in high school they just teach you how to do the problems, but not the context of what you'd be trying to solve. Like if a teacher was like "this is the calculation you'd use to determine how much fuel you'd need to launch a rocket to the moon!" I'd be like okay cool, but I never remember anything like that just bullshit examples or no examples at all and just how to solve for x, but what the fuck was X aside from an arbitrary variable? So lets say you were a chemist, depending on your expertise you'd only need to probably memorize only a certain set of ways on how to synthesize certain chemicals or whatever the fuck chemists do these days.
spiddeyfan69 · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t get past geometry. I don’t know if it’s the shapes or what but it just doesn’t click for me. I’ve retaken geometry courses 3 or 4 times now and no progress.
clarkholiday · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m so impressed you made it that far. I gave up on math in fourth grade when they started on long division. I’m in college, and I’m taking an algebra course. As soon as fractions were introduced, my brain stopped working.
platitude47 · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a class where you need to use calculus to understand the subject matter. You'll understand calculus a lot better. 'Dynamics of Rotation' is one of those. AKA 'Why a bowling ball does what it does'...
jjtwiggs · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to teach you in this one! But calc was tough on me too, I eventually got through it, and only saw it as something that is really cool after I tried to learn things PAST that. I think it seems like arbitrary nonsense because the first time through you're likely not understanding everything in how it fits into the larger picture. Once I learned higher mathematics, I saw calc as an interesting useful tool to solve harder problems, not just a pain in my ass
PinkMini72 · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hand up here too. Same. Geometry, yup, I get it.
Suavecore_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was amazing at math through all of school until I hit college and tested into calculus. I had graduated highschool with algebra 2 and never saw pre-calc. The first day they had us do a derivative as a warmup to see what everyone could do. I had never even heard of "derivative" in reference to math. I failed, then took business Calc the next semester, and failed again
HardlightCereal · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus is just the study of lines and how they curve. Understanding how one line gives insight into another line using math. Like, when you derive line A to get line B, the height of line B at any one point is equal to the growth of line A. It's the same as the relationship between acceleration and velocity. Calculus studies the lines you get from graphing those things
EpicGamesLauncher · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SAME HERE... I was really good at math, and right now am taking Calculus in Grade 10 and I'm stuuggling
thomcge · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of teachers just get down to the grunt work and the process of solving integrals and derivatives without actually properly explaining the underlying concepts behind it. It never really clicked until I really understood the reinman sums and limits. Then it all clicked. The grunt work behind deriving and integrating is just shortcuts mathematicians came up with after years of taking the long path and finding patterns to shorten it up. The concepts behind those short cuts are actually pretty fascinating.
bigheadluvr · 1 points · Posted at 04:35:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CALCULUS OMG... I’m so happy I passed that shit 2years ago.... I’m done working out derivatives and tangents of a kind
NoHammiesAltidore · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did alright in Calc 1, most of Calc 2 made complete sense and I aced the class, multi variable calc is killing me right now
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it just takes a crap ton of practise. And the amount obviously varies from person to person. First time i learned calculus i had no fucking clue the entire semester and just memorised the processes rather than understanding it. The more times i relearned it at a higher level, the more understandable it became and the more mathematical insight i got. Im at university studying physics and engineering (second year) and im very comfortable using it now (finally) but it took a long time (and learning other areas of maths too) to get a good grip of it, especially how it applies to the real world.
emptease · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had straight A's in every form of math you could think of. Math came to me like breathing. Then came senior year and calculus with it. I went down to C's in one semester than straight-up failed my first test this semester. I think I understand it, do well on some practice questions then the test comes and I fuck up entirely. I don't know why, but no matter what I do, I just feel dumber and dumber.
bigpunsnotdead · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually made an account because of this thread because I don't think the simplicity of calculus, in general, has really been explained. It may have...there are a lot of comments about this.
A derivative is the rate of change of a function and an integral is the area under the curve between two constraints on the x-axis (usually time axis)
So, if you take a known function, an integral can tell you where it has been and a derivative can tell you where it should go (will go in a perfect or ideal world).
I heard a while back the physics is applied math and engineering is applied physics. I am an engineer and spend most of my time tuning and analyzing closed loop feedback loops (PID controllers). I use math on a daily basis (usually a combo of calculus and differential equations) and it made less sense in college because I didn't develope equations to describe processes, implement them on machinery and watch the math work. They were just numbers in school with no tangible evidence of why they were what they were.
To explain it in the hot topic of today (coronavirus)...when they say they want to flatten the curve, they want to derivative between to previous day to go to zero. Unfortunately, the integral will still not be a non zero number until no one dies.
Theevilpiccle · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same thing happened to me, I got straight A's in math all the way till calculus where I flunked. I don't know what happened, math was my favorite subject
drewigi · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason I dropped out of college. When I was walked though a problem it didn't seem hard but just couldn't grasp the big picture to do other problems.
thanosismydildo · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m failing university because of this
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for this, and your edit.
DoomCircus · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had this problem too in high school and it was just as bad when I went to college for computer programming (mandatory math credit each year in the program). I finally understood it in third year math, because I had to write programs that took inputs and gave the correct outputs for specific algebraic and calculus functions. For me, all I needed was a practical context to get the "big picture" of it. I always have trouble retaining abstract concepts with no explanation of "why" to go with the "how".
i_like_sp1ce · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same way with statistics.
I am calculus god, but statistics is a real chore here.
People are all wired differently.
[deleted] · 60 points · Posted at 20:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematician and professor here, and learning the way of thinking that course was trying to teach you is one of the biggest hurdles to understanding real mathematics.
There's a tremendous difference between the way you need to think to solve the typical middle school, high school and (for non math or perhaps physics majors) college math problem and the way you need to think like a mathematician.
Even in an engineering curriculum at a top 20 college, most math classes for non majors follow the procedure of "Here are some theoretical tools. Here are some examples of the problems you need to solve and a step by step process for solving them. Now repeat this back on your homework and the exam." Depending on how good your professor is, they may modify these problems to make you come up with a genuine idea or insight on your own. Still, most people can get away with memorizing the examples they were shown and applying the exact same technique or making a minor change to earn A's. Succeeding in these classes is just about figuring out which technique gets applied when and being able to follow the process you were taught.
In such proof based math classes like what you're talking about, problems are constructed where you not only have to figure out a chain of logic on your own, but you also have to have some genuine idea or insight for solving the problem that you weren't taught before. Then you have to provide an argument that rigorously justifies your chain of thinking leaving no doubt that your work is correct.
In pure math, if you could just follow a known step by step process to solve a problem, someone would have done it already. This sort of problem solving ability, creativity, logical reasoning ability, and the ability to craft such a formal argument is such a valuable, though incredibly difficult for most people, thing to learn. It's applicable and useful in all fields of life, and I think we should build math curricula to emphasize this sort of thinking early on in life.
HandsomeLakitu · 12 points · Posted at 20:50:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnificent. Thank you so much.
zs15 · 7 points · Posted at 03:57:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the side of math that I always enjoyed.
When it stopped being a quiz and turned into a puzzle.
When I see parents ranting about common core math and how pointless it is, they really fail to realize that we recognize that their kids live in a world where calculators exist everywhere. Kids need to be taught how to problem solve and critically think.
LemonLimeNinja · 3 points · Posted at 02:03:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great post but this doesn't just apply to math. The problem sets in higher level physics course are very much "prove this relationship". I had a bunch of friends drop out of physics and go into math and they claimed the problems were much easier, but when I looked at their problems I had no clue where to start. I think math is way harder, my math friends think physics is harder. There really is a difference the thinking required for each.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:28:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I did try to give a brief nod to aspiring physicists (and in another thread, maybe even theoretical chemists), but you’re right that I skewed it very heavily toward math. To my knowledge, physics majors do have to learn to think like this too, perhaps to the same extent math majors do with a different focus (though I can’t say from experience).
And physics majors also likely experience the same discrepancy between intro physics that everyone has to take and their major courses which require them to think in new ways.
And I could maybe even tack on philosophy majors to some extent... they often have to go through formal logic.
MunchyPandasaurus · 3 points · Posted at 05:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was fairly good in math classes back in school but proving was the one area where I did exceptionally well and had no idea why or how to teach others to get what I did. Something just clicks in my head and the logic seems so obvious to me that when classmates ask me to how I constructed the argument, I can't break it down into anything other than "if this, then the next steps are that". It was the only exam I finished in half the time as others and got full marks in. Went into a science degree with very little math but sometimes I wonder if I should have gone into a more math-oriented one.
I'm shit at geometry though because we had a bad teacher that year and everyone failed his exams (even those on the honor roll). The math department had to investigate and strike out a lot of items because they were invalid (and even then only 10% of us passed). Bad teachers can wreck even good students.
SirCampYourLane · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm very curious, what field of math do you work in?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:37:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm a pure mathematician who works in number theory, which is (extremely broadly and vaguely), about finding integer solutions to equations and studying the tools that have developed from it. Though I'm sure fellow number theorists would raise a thousand objections to that definition...
And my apologies if you already know what that is. :)
SirCampYourLane · 2 points · Posted at 00:23:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm about to start my PhD in applied math, so I have a decent idea of what number theory is although I've only taken an introductory undergraduate course. But for anyone else reading it's useful to have that
ZeroKule · 2 points · Posted at 01:30:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
1000.5 objections.
Redtitwhore · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Curious how you make a living doing number theory? Also, is there a particular problem you'd like to solve someday?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 00:44:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a professor and I consider teaching my primary job. That’s most of the motivation for my career. I’ve always liked the impacts I could have teaching far more than doing math research. I spend free time teaching talented younger kids math what I think is “the right way,” too. I’d even really like to pursue curriculum development and try to reshape math education...
But for now being a professor requires research, too. And obviously I find it interesting. :)
Unfortunately outside of academia (in my opinion) there’s little you can do with research math if it’s pure math. No one really pays people to think about problems without clear potential applications. Which makes sense, of course. There are applications of my field to areas in cryptography, particularly, but I’ve always just wanted to teach at a college level more than pursue those.
Pure math research is a different beast because a lot of it seems completely irrelevant and the stuff that does become relevant is unpredictable.
Oh there are dream problems I’d love to conquer, but there are way more talented mathematicians than I who will take them down. You hit a point where you realize how hard these things really are. I’ve got smaller ones I work on but they’re rather specialized, and I hope they’ll be pieces of the puzzle for someone who knocks down a big one.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:08:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're a professor at 23? Wow congrats ;-)
LionsBSanders20 · 1 points · Posted at 14:57:41 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
A perfect answer. Well said.
QuickNickel · 1 points · Posted at 04:30:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except if you were my high school math teacher! He took a proofs class in uni where they looked at over 100 proofs over the course of the year. The final exam consisted of 10 proofs. Guess what he did!? Memorized every proof from the course and got 100 on the final exam.
UnfortunatelyEvil · 54 points · Posted at 19:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Opposite of me. I hate numbers, but have a BS in Mathematics. After Calculus, numbers are rarely used, and it is all proofs building on proofs!
Barsukas_Tukas · 28 points · Posted at 00:29:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, math becomes beautiful once numbers end
OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 04:14:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then the set theorists come along and the numbers never stop.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 04:10:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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UnfortunatelyEvil · 7 points · Posted at 04:42:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arithmetic (up through Calculus) is useful to so many different fields, that it makes sense everyone is front loaded with that topic. But, it scares off everyone from ever learning what math is.
It would be nice if Theory and Numerics were two separate subjects (like Physics and Chemistry). Unfortunately, school days are already overloaded, and there isn't a good option to get rid of to open a slot.
DevChatt · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got a bs in math but my favorite part is number theory
But I hate calculating the tip on a bill or anything arithmetic ain’t my thing
Dragonman558 · 37 points · Posted at 19:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hated that year in general, proofs basically were just explaining each step you did with a property that is almost common knowledge at that level of math, and they for some reason feel the need to make us write it all out
I had a lot of trouble with math past 8th grade, I think year 9? I always worked out everything in my head or on a calculator, and having to write out all the useless shit was just annoying to me so I never did it until I was forced to with that
PM_me_your_fantasyz · 33 points · Posted at 21:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how your math teacher was always saying "Show your work!"?
Well, proofs are just "Show your work, and defend that it's correct."
Dragonman558 · 4 points · Posted at 21:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, I'm past that part now, and I still hate the proofs, cause even if I remember how to do something, but forget the name of the fúcking property for it, the entire question is wrong, cause I got one of those teachers, it just wasn't fair half the time, all my math teachers past that have been annoying or stare at you like they want to kill you if you ask any question
BlazeOrangeDeer · 3 points · Posted at 02:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never forget that it isn't math, or you, that sucks, it's your teachers. If you know how to do the proofs but don't remember the names, you're still doing the math right. Answering questions about the material is literally the job of a teacher and any decent teacher will enjoy doing it. Just keep an open mind towards math, there's a lot of cool stuff you can understand and make with it. In college we used proofs to understand how computers work and what their limitations are, it was one of my favorite classes.
NearlyAlwaysConfused · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Combinatorial algorithms? Depending on your professor, that can be fun or torture.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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olivebrownies · 16 points · Posted at 22:05:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
to be fair though, what isnt stupid and pointless to a 16 year old high school kid? shakespeare? the civil war? mathematics is at heart about proofs, and writing proofs is really the only thing that research mathematicians do.
ill defend proofs forever, theyve done more to further my understanding of math than any integral or irrelevant computation ever could.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Research mathematicians basically never write at that level of detail.
Malco_ · 3 points · Posted at 00:28:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're objectively wrong, the thing that makes pure math powerful in ways that other sciences aren't is that whatever we know in math is absolute, and that is because of proofs. Physics relies on theories that can be disproven, and with any physics thing we are usually just "pretty sure" that it's true, with lots of physical evidence to back it up. Research mathematicians often start with evidence that something is the case, then try to formally prove it. Without proofs, mathematicians cannot get anywhere.
Unless if you're talking about applied math, then yeah you're probably right.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:49:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't say "proofs are bad". I was referring to geometry class
[deleted] · 42 points · Posted at 20:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason proofs are commonplace in geometry is because if at its core, math is about logic and understanding. The reason many students hate proofs is that they are used to rote memorization and formulas that they don't truly understand, so thinking critically and mathematically is foreign to them. Geometry is the point where you really can't continue without some knowledge of proofs, although they really should be introduced much earlier.
JBSquared · 15 points · Posted at 20:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom said that she really struggled with proofs when she first took geometry in high school. Later on, when proofs came back into the equation in like, her sophomore year of college, she had taken a logic class. All of a sudden, it made perfect sense.
ohSpite · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was one of the biggest changes of pace for me when I got to uni for sure
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:36:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry proofs in US HS aren't really about "thinking critically". Mathematicians basically never work directly at that level of detail, because it's just so verbose and boring. And from what I saw it isn't really completely formal either, so basically it's just yet another thing to make people hate math.
pritt_stick · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i never had an issue with writing down every single step of solving a problem (i kind of needed to do that in order to understand/process it fully, and actually remember it. mental maths has never been my strong point). it was just writing down (e.g.) “X AND Z ARE BOTH 55 DEGREES BECAUSE OPPOSITE ANGLES ARE EQUAL” every time (IN FULL) i wanted to answer a trig question.
Dragonman558 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good for you then, I just can't write out that much because to me it seems pointless wasting the time and effort to write the extra work instead of just saying 55
pritt_stick · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
in my school, i HAD to write it all down otherwise you lose like, most of the marks for the question. i do think it’s stupid to write out that much, i wouldn’t have done it if i didn’t have to.
Silvermet · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I majored in math and I hated this phase too. Honestly, in a lot of higher maths, proofs just become "show your work" again, plus whatever you need to write down to keep your own thought process straight. Because in a lot of higher math, it's not about explaining "step A leads to step B leads to step C" and going into painstaking detail over A, B, and C when A, B, and C are all common knowledge. It goes more along the lines of "I have no idea what to do here. Let me try to reframe it until I can find somewhere to start, and prove that the way that I'm reframing it isn't changing something esesntial."
In other words, proofs exist so that when someone says "wait why tf did you just go from talking about apples to oranges?" you've explained to them "well, someone else already made this conclusion about oranges, but they only use these properties that also apply to my apples, so I can piggyback off of their work to conclude something about my apples."
GiantPandammonia · 15 points · Posted at 20:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's possible you were good at arithmetic but bad at math.
batnastard · 14 points · Posted at 21:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math educator here! Most of math education through high school and early college is designed to train you to be an engineer - as far as math is concerned, that means to perform rapid and accurate computations. Sure, there are modern movements to build in some understanding of those computations, but none of it is designed to get you to think like a mathematician. Mathematicians prove theorems, they don't focus as much on computations. Computations are sometimes necessary but rarely sufficient. So all of a sudden, you're asked to prove things, and the toy examples you're given are so trivial that it seems pointless to even bother. It's a completely different thing. Imagine if you spent 10-12 years learning carpentry, and all of a sudden you were expected to be an architect.
OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 04:09:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely agreed. I’ve heard that the implicit training to be an engineer is a holdover from the days of the Cold War. I haven’t checked that myself yet, but it seems fairly believable.
batnastard · 3 points · Posted at 04:20:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cold war but specifically the launch of Sputnik in 1957, I believe. Americans don't like to lose, and we're still salty over the Soviets getting a satellite up before we did. It's amazing how that one event altered the national mindset about what math education is for.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol as if we’re currently doing any better. Number one in being behind I guess. I’m sure the big orange guy will do something about it.
batnastard · 2 points · Posted at 04:57:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, sadly, education policy has been atrocious since 2000 and shows no signs of improving. Betsy DeVos is a new low, I can only hope that a new administration will appoint someone with actual expertise.
Edit: I would chuckle if Cheeto called PISA at al. "fake tests" though.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fingers are crossed, but I’m braced for the Rapture at this point.
Lycathal · 28 points · Posted at 19:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Honestly proofs are difficult to teach and can be difficult to understand. I also took proofs in Year 10 and felt it was very out of place from the other mathematics courses I took around the time.
You are right, proofs are about proving the equation is right. It is less about maths as you would normally think about maths, and more into logic and generalization. As an example: Using normal maths (as people typically think about maths) you can show that all angles of a specific triangle equal 180 degrees. Proofs are a way of showing / "proving" that the angles of ALL triangles equal 180 degrees.
The biggest problem with proofs (and a lot of maths imo) is it forces you to learn a completely new language (symbolic logic) at the same time you are learning a new concept. Like an alien cooking show, you are expected to learn the alien language while still being able to make the recipe they are describing. So don't feel bad about not understanding what the teacher was saying, it is very difficult to understand something when someone is teaching a foreign language and "logic recipes" at the same time.
Edit: minor grammatical error.
chessant2014 · 11 points · Posted at 20:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A friend sent me an article called "A Mathematician's Lament" a while back. I think it's excellently written, and everyone who has ever had gripes about math education should read it. Granted, it's long, but it gives a good idea of what actual mathematicians care about.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 04:06:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That paper has done wonders for helping the community explain its significance to the rest of the world. Really great writing.
XaWEh · 130 points · Posted at 15:07:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's sad... usually people are either good at understanding mathematical concepts or they are bad. I think if you pick up, where you left of you might see some success again. That said, I have never heard of anyone, who had to understand the concept of mathematical proof in 10th grade. Perhaps some examples (for example some visual proof for the pythagorean theorem) but not in general.
tacojohn48 · 175 points · Posted at 17:04:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proofs were common in geometry class.
Extrasleepyduck · 28 points · Posted at 18:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I definitely did them in geometry, and I'm pretty sure geometry was the standard 10th grade math in my district. I don't know if every class had to do them, though.
I hated them in geometry because it didn't matter to my teacher if you understood and wrote out everything, you had to remember the specific name of the concept for each step as well. Also because she played country music in class.
Themdhttr · 17 points · Posted at 19:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s every geometry class.
The majority of geometry is remembering theorems and putting them together to make proofs or remembering theorems to use them in mathematical equations.
As for the country music that’s just unfortunate.
mtflyer05 · 3 points · Posted at 19:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeup, and that was our 10th Grade math class, and the last one required to graduate, so we got all of the "this is dumb, I'm never going to use this in life!" Every. Single. Fucking. Day. Granted, I also hate proofs, but bitching wont make it go away.
AFrpaso · 3 points · Posted at 19:41:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s frustrating. But a “proof” is just a formal mathematical argument that some statement is true. If you ever start with a collection of known information and use it to arrive at a conclusion, then you’re doing the same thing.
I bet you do this every day.
mtflyer05 · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know, but I hate having to record every little tiny thing to prove what, to me, was quite directly intuitive in the first place. Proofs are what pushed me into chemistry, rather than theoretical physics as my career path.
I function quite well with my ADHD, most of the time, but having to slow down and backtrack Every. Single. Step was literally torture for me
TheDesktopNinja · 5 points · Posted at 20:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just didn't get them. I completed the equation. Isn't that the proof in and of itself?
X2 = 4
X = 2
What do you mean you need me to write a proof?!
(Obviously not a real example)
tacojohn48 · 21 points · Posted at 20:05:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you know x isn't -2?
TheDesktopNinja · 10 points · Posted at 21:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I..uh..shut up!
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually you won't have to prove something so simple. In this case your proof is correct if we have the restriction x>=0. Proving solutions of equations is such a small part of mathematics, it's too bad the American system has such a huge emphasis on applied math (or maybe that's a good thing!)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah my high school geometry had "proofs" but I didn't learn other methods of proof until second year of under grad. The highschool geometry proofs is mostly solving problems and writing reasons why you can perform each step.
karlaofglacia · 15 points · Posted at 17:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We did proofs in geometry class in 10th grade. They kinda sucked, and even the people who were good at math struggled.
Zoethor2 · 59 points · Posted at 18:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I take a bit of issue with this because I really don't think there are people who are just "naturally" bad at math. It far, far more often comes down to how math is taught, particularly in the US historically, wherein math education was based in rote memorization, algorithms, and "tricks" rather than developing deep understanding of logic and mathematical concepts.
I have found that many people I've interacted with who felt they were "bad" at math were just never taught math in a conceptual, grounded way. Once they were shown the "how" and "why" of mathematical concepts, they had no issue applying that foundation to new topics and ideas.
Thankfully, mathematical pedagogy has changed a lot in recent years and students now are being taught how to think about math, not just what steps to take in what order to solve one specific problem.
confused_buffoon · 12 points · Posted at 19:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No doubt. One of my favourite examples that everyone will be able to get is not knowing why the fraction division rule is "flip and multiply" on an intuitive level. I believe the improvements in pedagogy you mention is the "common core" down in the states?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let a and b be rational numbers.
a/b
=(a/1)(1/b)
=a(1/b)
Remember, 1/x is the number multiplied by x to get 1, which is intuitively the reciprocal of a fraction. That's the intuition.
Zoethor2 · 7 points · Posted at 19:57:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a PERFECT example. I tutored for intro economics courses in college and there is a monster equation for calculating elasticity that involves a fraction divided by a fraction. So many students simply had no idea how to begin tackling the problem because they had no intuitive understanding of what fractions are or how to work with them.
Also the elasticity equation is a great example of understanding concepts v. rote memorization - I have never once "memorized" an elasticity formula. But if you understand what they are measuring, you don't need to because the formula follows clearly from having that understanding.
karnoculars · -1 points · Posted at 19:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But seriously, how many people need to understand why we flip and multiply on a day to day basis? That information is practically useless for 99.99% of students. I feel like so much of the curriculum we learned was a waste of time.
Zoethor2 · 9 points · Posted at 19:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true, not a lot of people run into specific math constructs through their entire life. However, data skills and data analysis skills are increasingly important and useful these days, as are logical thinking skills (which contribute directly to things like programming skills). And all of those skills are much more strongly associated with learning and understanding a concept and how it works than by memorizing a rule without knowing anything about why it works that way.
yataviy · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I graduated high school more than two decades ago and besides the most basic of algebra problems I've never had to deal with proofs or anything more advanced.
MikeNotBrick · 6 points · Posted at 20:16:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a (mechanical) engineering student, pretty much everything we learn is useless to most people, unless you're an engineer. But what I really love about engineering is how it's developed (and continues too develop) my ability to solve problems and just understand how the world works. The more I learn, the more fascinated I become. I think everyone could benefit from learning the most fundamental things of physics, math, and engineering. That is how the world go round (literally). And to expand that further, everyone can benefit from learning things outside of their required knowledge base (as in what they need to know to do their job).
skullturf · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is utterly false. Every functional adult should be able to cope with situations like the following.
Suppose I have a container that holds 2/3 of a cup. How many times do I need to fill this container in order to get 6 cups of flour?
The_Baller_Official · 5 points · Posted at 19:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, this is 100% why I can’t understand algebra whatsoever. No shade to my teacher, she was just trying to get us to pass the regents, which I did, but I have absolutely no idea how or why anything works, I don’t know what a log does, I don’t know what kind of vodo devil magic the calculator does that you can put in “sin(4)” and end up with something like a negative decimal or whatever, I have no idea how or why functions work like they do. You’re completely right, all I know is that if I memorize the 8 step process of say completing the square, I’ll get the right answer, Hell I don’t even know why it’s called completing the square
JBSquared · 8 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra is my favorite kind of math because it's like solving a puzzle. I guess all math is like that, but algebra especially.
BlazeOrangeDeer · 2 points · Posted at 02:23:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math is just a game with rules for what moves are allowed, and most of the time there's multiple ways to win. It really is the same thing as a puzzle, there's got to be better ways of teaching it like that.
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 02:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just like algebra the most because you're balancing the sides of the equation. Moving stuff from one side to the other, canceling it out. It's fun.
confused_buffoon · 3 points · Posted at 22:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty wild how no one saw that tying a school's funding to test results will get you a test-taking-centre as opposed to a learning-centre. your math career got done dirty :( If you were born in Finland it might've been a completely different story. Not to hate on your jurisdiction or anything but...
olivebrownies · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/McDdEw_Fb5E
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 04:23:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s called completing the square because you’re literally making the polynomial factor like it was a squared number.
Take (x+1)2=x2+2x+1 for example. If I change it just a bit to x2+2x-1 then... well shit how do I factor it now? Well I already know how to factor it if I had x2+2x+1. So let’s make it look like that. I know I need a +1 so let’s write -1=+1-2. Then
x2+2x-1=(x2+2x+1)-2=(x+1)2-2
Oh shit look now it would really easy to find zeroes. We’ve completed the square to make the zeroes easier to calculate.
Mastaalucard · 2 points · Posted at 14:14:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would like to try to answer these two examples and we will see if they make sense.
You know how division and multiplication are "opposites" and cancel each other? Logs are the opposite of exponents. The two log systems we use most often are base 10 and base e (called the natural log). So lets start with 10. 10 squared is 100. Log10(100) = 2. The answer you get from the log is the power needed to get to the number in parenthesis from the base. 10 is used because its convenient, but you can actually use any base you want. Log10(100) = 2, and log5(25) = 2, because both of the numbers in parenthesis are the base squared. The other one, natural log or ln, just happens to be extremely useful because e is "randomly" a super useful constant in math and science. Its actually not randon at all, but it takes some upper level calculus to understand why, so unfortunately youll just have to take my word on that one. But yeah, thats logs. Log10(x) = y is just asking the question "what power do i raise 10 to to get x?" And inversely "what number do i get when i raise 10 to y?" One final example, log10(3.1622) = 1/2, because 3.1622 is (close to) the square root of 10.
For sin, and cos for that matter, its all based on circles. Im gunna use degrees even though theyre awful because theyre what most people are familiar with. If you draw a circle with radius 1 it has a couple near properties. The one we care about right now is its relation to sine and cosine. You remember coordinate systems, like (1,2) being 1 in the x and 2 in the y? The entire circle is plotted on (cos,sin). So any given point of the circle is expressed in the x coordinate by cos of some number and sin of the same number. If you type in 90 degrees, as the argument, it draws a 90 degree angle starting from (1,0), and ends up with a line going straight up, represented by (0,1). Thus, cos(90) is 0 and sin(90) [degrees] is 1. That principal works the same way for any argument. Once you get to 360 degrees it just wraps back around, because youre on a circle, so cos(470) (90+360) is also 0.
I agree with whoever posted Lockharts Lament, mathematics isnt actually taught in school; what is taught is some of the findings and principals that have fallen out because of mathematical studies. That being said, i do think understanding WHY some of the things we are taught in math works are really important. Explaining logs like that tends to work, not necessarily intuitively, but once its laid out in that format ive found people tend to pick up on it.
I would like to know if these helped your understanding at all. I understand youre probably not likely to use any of this if youre no longer a student, but applied math isnt witchcraft at all. Some of it needs calculus to really explain why it isnt witchcraft, but most of it doesnt. I am a professional enginner and part time math tutor and would like to know how well i did explaining this.
The_Baller_Official · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You did awesome, I’ve been wondering for so long what any of that means, in the fall I’m going to college to major in chemistry, and calculus is one of the courses I have to take so I’ve been nervous, but if my professors explain it as well as that then I guess it wouldn’t really be so bad
Mastaalucard · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus isnt as bad as people tend to make it out to be. The problem with calculus is its entirely different than any math youve done before. Its like going from algebra to geometry, with calculus being geometry and literally every other math youve done to this point is "algebra". The thing that makes it hard is youre simultaneously learning a new language and solving problems that can only be expressed in that language.
But at a base level calculus is just looking at rates of change. Youve probably heard scary words like derivative and integral while talking about calculus. A derivative is just a rate of change. Its a slope of a line. If you have the line y=2x, the slope is 2. The derivative of 2x is also 2. Whats neat about taking derivatives is they allow you to learn "slopes" of things like quadratic functions, which dont exactly have a "slope" in the normal sense. The derivative of a quadratic is a function itself, so the slope is constantly changing. Thats pretty intuitive, if you just look at a quadratic you can see that it is progressively and constantly getting more and more steep.
Derivatives in day to day life that youre probably familiar with: position, velocity, and acceleration. The slope of a position function is its velocity, and velocities derivative is acceleration.
Integrals are just opposite-derivatives. If you take the integral of an acceleration function youll get velocity, and then position. If you have a curve (in math-speak, everything is a curve, even a straight line) where the derivative is the slope of the curve, the integral is the area under the curve.
College level calculus classes are just teaching you the techniques that let you solve deeper and more fundamental math. In a way its beautiful because it gives you a peak behind the curtain, kind of. Have you ever wondered in physics classes like why position is that whole function with 1/2at2 at the end? And your teacher was just kind of like "listen, man, thats just how it works."? That fact, position function being defined that way, is a natural consequence of applying calculus principles to acceleration.
Unfortunately calculus takes a fair amount of work to "get", and its kind of frontloaded where it will seem nonsensical while youre doing it. But for most of my classmates when i took it, we all got to a point where everything just clicked into place and it retroactively made EVERY OTHER MATH we had ever taken make more sense. And thats just kind of profound.
Like i said, im a math tutor on the side and i enjoy doing calculus as an exercise because i dont use it much in my day to day, so if you ever run into whatever and need someone to listen hit me up.
The_Baller_Official · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man, you make it sound way more interesting. Welp, here’s to me going into a math course and focusing on understanding instead of just passing
SavannahInChicago · 4 points · Posted at 20:21:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In with you.
I just made a passing grade with all my high school math classes. Then I had to take a placement math test at community college. I was placed in the lowest math class - their high school math class.
It didn’t even count toward any kind of real math credit. I learned fractions and how to do long division again. I took great note in class, learned to ask questions and really took my time on my homework. I got an A.
Went onto basic algebra. Did the same thing. I even took extra time to recheck all my answers on my exams and was always the last one in class those days. I got As on all my exams and one of only two people to not have to take the final.
Went on to college level algebra. Got another A and went onto to stats where I got a B.
None of it ever came naturally to me. Some days I took between 4-8 hours to do my homework because I had trouble understanding why an answer came out one way and the textbook had a different answer than me. I wouldn’t move onto until I understood how to do the problem correctly. I would take the time before an exam and do practice tests. I put in the time and got good grades, but even now, years later, I struggle with math.
Zoethor2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, and it's a shame, because exactly the point where the system of rote memorization and algorithms starts to break down is ALSO the point where math really starts getting interesting! Statistics is a great example, because you just cannot get a grasp on probability theory based on rote memorization and algorithms; you have to understand the how and why. And that is a darned shame because probability and statistics are really interesting and they are also an area of math people really do engage with in their everyday life.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:12:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Zoethor2 · 5 points · Posted at 19:54:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a bit of a different situation - dyscalculia is specifically a difficulty with numbers and arithmetic. You can have dyscalculia and still be very good at math (which at certain levels tends to involve very little arithmetic and few numbers). I tutored a close friend with dyscalculia to prepare for her GED and my experience with that lends me to believe that folks with dyscalculia benefit *even more* from an emphasis on understanding how and why, rather than rote formulas or algorithms.
That said, I'm really sorry you are dealing with dyscalculia, which is both really hard and also not nearly as well understood or managed as its partner dyslexia. A lot of my time tutoring my friend was spent giving her a shoulder to cry on because she could do all the work right but make a mathematical "typo" and arrive at the wrong answer. Particularly hard on standardized tests where they intentionally put those typo-answers in the list of options to trip people up. I can't imagine the frustration.
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Zoethor2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know all that much about sports or coaching (I know at least a bit about math and teaching math) but I would guess that most people can probably be coached to a basic level of kinesthetic awareness and ability.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people probably have a bit of a head start, but whether it’s genetic is very uncertain. Likely it’s a combination of lots of variables. But what we do seem to agree on is that people can learn mathematics if they treat it like any other skill and practice!
SnowyMuscles · 8 points · Posted at 17:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m great in algebra
Geometry and trigonometry aren’t my friends
hakanai · 6 points · Posted at 18:31:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the opposite. i can see triangles and circles and shit. i can't see whatever the fuck is going on in algebra
TehluvEncanis · 2 points · Posted at 18:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I have no idea how to work with shapes. Give me an equation over a triangle any day.
Tattered_Colours · 11 points · Posted at 19:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem with "proofs" is that they're often presented as being fundamentally different from showing your work on regular math problems when they really aren't. The only real difference between a proof and a regular problem is that problems are generally looking for a solution, e.g. "solve for x," whereas proofs are looking for something more akin to "demonstrate why x = y for any arbitrary value of x given these constraints." The only reason it's any more confusing than basic algebra a lot of the time is because teachers demand you use some weird format for explaining in words what you're doing with each step of showing your work with very poorly defined guidelines.
I remember when I was in school, nearly every math teacher or professor had their own standards for how they wanted proofs presented. Some wanted proofs in a structured sequence of steps next to brief explanations in plain English. Some wanted that but instead of plain English, they just wanted you to reference some theorem or identity that you used in that step which was especially frustrating because it required you to remember not just the theorems themselves and the reasoning behind them, but also some arbitrary name assigned to that particular substitution. Some just straight up wanted paragraphs with equations jammed into sentences. Almost all of them would take off points arbitrarily even if you clearly understood the problem and explained your work thoroughly enough that someone else could understand because you maybe glossed over a "by the transitive property of x=y=z we can simplify this by substituting x for z" since you figured it was obvious enough what you did to the reader.
At the end of the day, a proof is basically just a demonstration of why some mathematical statement is either true or false. The only reason "proofs" have a weird intimidating air about them is because teachers overemphasize the importance of the medium by which you present the proof instead of the actual math behind it. It's "medium is the message" taken to its absolute limits of absurdity, to the point that many people don't even understand what proofs even are walking away from the class.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 17:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm so bad at understanding math that I think it's a learning disorder.
Kuronii · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dyscalculia is a thing that definitely exists.
Nico_Di_Angelo666 · 3 points · Posted at 17:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think our year 10 would be your 9th grade, not 10th grade. But yeah, I agree with you
JediIzzie · 4 points · Posted at 18:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People aren’t really at fixed levels of mathematical skill... it also makes sense that math gets harder to understand as you get older. I loved math until my second semester of college, where it was my worst class. Now I avoid it at all costs
Drab_baggage · 2 points · Posted at 05:57:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hated math until my freshman year of college, when I'd picked Geology, B.S. literally out of a hat and College Algebra was the first prerequisite in my way. Ended up taking Calc III and Fundamental Methods of Proofing as electives because I liked it so much.
JediIzzie · 1 points · Posted at 17:19:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow nice! I’m doing aerospace engineering, which requires a lot of math, and I’m terrible at differential equations and probability
7788445511220011 · 5 points · Posted at 15:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been a while but I'm pretty sure I was doing proofs by grade 9 or 10 but it was an accelerated program so we were a year ahead of standard NY schedule, in the late nineties.
The basic ones aren't super difficult, and it was mostly just introducing us into the concepts involved in formal proofs.
kryaklysmic · 2 points · Posted at 18:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m good at conceptual math, but bad at actual operations. 10th grade geometry is all about how to prove that what you’re looking at is actually related, or not related, the way it’s stated.
Blenderhead36 · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We did proofs a lot in my high school curriculum. Don't remember exactly what grade though.
luksonluke · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm really bad in math but i pick up complex concepts in theory, I wish i really understood how to calculate accuracy with my mind.
LuminaL_IV · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha you have never been in our schools then.
BurzumKilledMayhemDi · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honors geometry in 10th grade was like all proofs for homework. You do learn how to prove Pythagorean theorem at some point obviously, but geometry is mainly proofs and a small portion of time is spent on sin cos tan and that stuff
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XaWEh · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you're correct, but I enjoy math and like to see others enjoy it aswell... not every skill needs to have value in day to day life. Next to that math is the foundation of science and as such is often required to understand concepts in completely different subjects... which you don't need either.
silverwolf2222 · 0 points · Posted at 18:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate proofs it is just me writing about 10 proofs from online then sending it to the teacher am i glad my jiuner cert was cancelled
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 15:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like propositional logic. I always hated math, but LOVED PL when I took it in college.
coole106 · 5 points · Posted at 16:50:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At some point studying math becomes nothing but proofs. I love proofs, which is why I was a math major
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OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t give up! Everybody hits a wall somewhere. It just means you’re learning. Bang your head against that wall hard enough and you’ll break right through it.
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OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad to hear you’ve survived the hell of American education.
PurpleFlame8 · 5 points · Posted at 22:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proofs are widely despised by otherwise mathematically competent people. I think because they are seldom taught as an independent topic with the structure and formality of other concepts.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was the other way around for me, once it started to be less about the answer and more about the process I was suddenly good at maths, weird stuff
The_Baller_Official · 4 points · Posted at 19:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proofs for me felt like the process of proving something to be 100% true beyond a shadow of a doubt mathematically and logically instead of just using your eyes, it seemed super dumb when the answer was clear, but I’d imagine for higher level math, the only thing you can prove things for sure with is more math and logic
OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 04:04:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes this is exactly the point. The significance of proving things formally becomes much clearer when it isn’t obvious to you already. It’s about putting yourself on firm logical ground.
For example imagine you wanted to prove that n2<2n for every natural number n. You could try to plug in numbers for n and see if it’s true, and you would probably find a lot of them. But how do you know there isn’t some number way out there that you haven’t tried, for which the inequality fails? You can’t! There are infinitely many of them.
To prove this you could use mathematical induction which is much like setting up and knocking down a line of dominoes. That’s where proofs are useful.
The_Baller_Official · 1 points · Posted at 07:00:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea what any of that means but so much yes
TakuHazard · 3 points · Posted at 07:53:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not too hard of a concept. Imagine you have a line of dominos and you want to show that everything will fall at the end. Well first you show that the first one falls ( so 1 < 2) and then you show that domino k has to fall if all the other dominos before it fall. Then you are done with the proof
Mellonhead58 · 5 points · Posted at 20:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
My dad’s trying to teach himself calculus during the virus as he never managed to learn it in high school, and he’s realizing it’s because there are a bunch of tiny details he never paid attention to that turn out to be super important in math (like (a + b)(a - b)=a2 - b2 ) and it hurts a lot of math students.
olivebrownies · 3 points · Posted at 22:37:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ya, its pretty hard to do calculus without a really good understanding of everything that comes before it. trig ids, quadratics, all pre-calc function stuff never really goes away.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 03:22:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s awesome! Yeah those little tricks are really important tools for more complicated stuff. Tell him to make sure he knows his trigonometry and polynomials!
Mellonhead58 · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Took me three fuckin years to figure trig out, I’ll make sure he knows it whether he wants to or not
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha good I’m sure he’ll thank you for it later.
Raemnant · 10 points · Posted at 15:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got severely left behind in mathematics during 8th grade when we started algebra. They put up an equation, okay, but then they said in order to solve it, you first had to make both sides equal so they subtracted from one side and just added to the other and it threw my brain for such a goddam loop I had no idea what was happening. I just barely managed to get by in math classes from thenceforth, mostly earning Ds but grabbing any and all extra credit that I could, simply because of that one concept. It was everywhere, and in everything
FatalTragedy · 18 points · Posted at 18:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not a thing. If you subtract from one side you have to also subtract from the other.
thesingularity004 · 24 points · Posted at 19:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, they did say they had no idea what was happening. Maybe they're still confused.
luksonluke · 5 points · Posted at 19:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup i'm in the same boat as you, i completely lost concept of math after 8th grade.
AgAero · 5 points · Posted at 23:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So to clarify a bit:
The act of writing an 'equation' with an equals sign means that from the very beginning you are saying 'these two things are exactly equal.' Algebraic manipulations that follow are all based on this one simple fact. Everything that you're 'allowed' to do must not change this fact, or it is an invalid operation.
It sounds like your teacher skipped a step that they thought seemed obvious. Starting with my comment in (1), the manipulation you're describing is actually two steps. The first step is 'subtract the same thing from both sides'. This first step does not change the underlying fact that both sides of the equation must be equal at all times. The second step is to 'simplify' both sides. i.e. if you had
3x+1 = 4and you subtract 1 from both sides, you get3x + 1 - 1 = 4 - 1. After you 'simplify', you get3x + 0 = 3or rather,3x = 3.When teachers say 'move the 1 to the other side' they actually mean they're doing both of these steps in succession. You can't just arbitrarily take from one side and give to the other because this breaks the underlying proposition that the left side must equal the right side at all times.
What you're really doing is taking from both sides, then simplifying.
u_creative_username · 6 points · Posted at 17:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was out when there were more letters than numbers in the equation.
wannabe414 · 10 points · Posted at 19:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Numbers get in the way of the fun mathematics
Caasi72 · 3 points · Posted at 18:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math was my favorite subject until 8th grade algebra. Math is now my least favorite subject. If only the teacher hadn't been the yell at you for not getting it in the first place kind of teacher
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s really unfortunate. Most of those types of professors just handle stress and failure poorly. They’re often frustrated because they either don’t care or don’t understand it enough to see how to help you. I bet if you tried again you could do it no problem. Just try to stay away from people who yell at you for dumb reasons.
BurzumKilledMayhemDi · 3 points · Posted at 19:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, it was the exact same for me! Loved math and it was easy so 10th grade went to honors geometry but missed the first day because they put me in normal geometry by accident. Literally was behind and never caught up. Confused the entire time. Took it again in community college and immediately couldn't believe how easy it was. I breezed my way and aced that class. My teacher was obviously very precise and had great packet notes for every chapter with practice problems for in class and all the definitions/theorems/postulates etc. I seriously bet if you had to take a course on it again you'd grasp it. It's more so remembering certain steps so it all adds up together. Very basic definitions (a line is two points and a line is also 180 degree angle) and you build from there with what you can show.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! It’s so much easier when you’re building the arguments from fundamental principles. Math has this nasty habit of forcing you to have to remember just about everything you’ve ever learned.
Hohst · 3 points · Posted at 19:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had your exact same problem until I did formal logical proofs in college. Doing those I realized it's kind of like playing with legos. All you're doing is stacking "blocks" of previously established knowledge on top of each other repeatedly to get to a certain shape. Just learn what kind of bricks you're playing with and which fit together, and you're basically done.
pandaelpatron · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar experience here. I was good at maths (including geometry etc) as long as could see some real world use scenario for what I was doing. Like, being able to calculate angles and the lenghts of the sides of a triangle makes sense. Being able to calculate the volume of a weirdly shaped container makes sense.
But when stuff like derivations where introduced, it was almost like hitting a brick wall. I had no idea what I was doing and, more importantly, why we were doing that.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s like building an argument in court or for why you should get a puppy. Sometimes you just have to try a bunch of different options and after a while maybe you’ll settle on something that seems more likely to work.
pandaelpatron · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's take your should I get a puppy example. It was as if the teacher asked me to decide on a puppy but I had never seen or heard of dogs before. That's what calculus was like for me.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 04:52:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s common. We have a pretty bad system of preparing students for things like calculus and a LOT of inefficiencies in the school system. You should never feel like calculus is impossible for you though! If just helps to have the necessary background and to have someone who can tell you what it’s all about.
flic_my_bic · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There comes a point for every person when mathematics is indistinguishable from magic. That was your point. It's okay to accept this.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
John Von Neumann was one of the most intelligent mathematicians of the 20th century. Absolutely brilliant genius who wrote about 900? novel papers if I recall correctly and designed the architecture for one of the first computers. He would occasionally solve open problems within minutes of hearing them.
A student once asked him how he could better understand mathematics. Von Neumann told him “Young man, in mathematics you don’t understand things. You just get used to them.”
flic_my_bic · 2 points · Posted at 13:45:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, that point was reached near the end of Numerical Methods in grad school. I was an OR Masters student in a class with Mathematics PhD students. All was good and fine for the vast majority of the course. I might have been a bit slower, but I understood. Near the end, I threw in the towel though. I couldn't deal with half-derivatives, doing Fourier in Lp spaces, blah blah blah. I found my point, it's right about the point you have to be really brilliant, and I realized I was not. That's okay, it was cool watching them do magic the last few weeks though.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 16:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol how I feel constantly about the field I’m getting into. Stuff just gets difficult after a while.
pizzasoda_exe · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I haven’t done proofs outside of geometry yet, but they’re the absolute bane of my existence.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t be afraid of them! Proving things in math is all about just trying things! Sometimes something works and sometimes it doesn’t. It’s like trying to build an argument for why your parents should let you have a pet. You need good supporting reasons and evidence that your reasons are good ones.
pizzasoda_exe · 2 points · Posted at 03:42:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great energy, love it, but I should’ve specified: they WERE the bane of my existence when I was in a geometry class.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah useful information. Oh well. Glad you’ve survived.
shawnanotshauna · 3 points · Posted at 02:01:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The reason why proofs exist in math is because in math you have to verify that an observation, ie two odd numbers added will always equal an even number, is true across the entire spectrum of possible scenarios that can involve both infinitely large numbers and infinitely small numbers.
For example proving what I just stated: two odd numbers when added up will always equal an even number.
You would start by defining what is an odd number for the basis of the proof: in this case one greater than an even number would logically be an odd number, no?
So even number: 2x
Odd number: 2x +1
These simple definitions can be expected to hold true no matter what x is, as long as x is a whole number.
Our assumption: 2 odd numbers added will always equal an even number.
Thé contradiction to this is: 2 odd numbers added will always equal an odd number.
Because both cannot possibly be true, we will attempt to prove the latter, our contradiction, and, if our contradiction to our assumption cannot be proven, then our assumption would therefore then have to be true by default.
So what happens when we attempt to add two odd numbers:
(2a + 1) + (2b + 1) = 2a + 1 + 2b +1 = 2a + 2b + 2 = 2(a + b + 1)
So to explain what I just did I took our earlier definitions of an even number, assigned two separate integers of a and b to x, and algebraically added them up, and simplified the answer to 2(a + b + 1)
So what is this answer 2(a + b + 1)?
Because the numbers a, b, and 1 are all housed inside the parentheses it can then be assumed that they would all simply add up to another integer, we will name this integer C
So 2(a + b + 1) = 2(c) = 2c where a + b + 1 all add up to C.
So using out earlier definitions we established for even and odd numbers 2c is not of the form 2x + 1, or else it would have simplified to 2(a +b) + 1, not 2(a +b + 1).
So therefore if 2 odd numbers did not add up to an odd number, then by contradiction they must add up to an even number.
Thats would be a very simple proof I did for you using the method proof by contradiction. As you can see the difference between what I did and simply observing something like 3 + 3 = 6, is that what I did holds true for ever whole number in existence as I represented the concept of a whole number as variables and proved the relationships between these variables.
While this probably wasn’t the type of proof you were told to prove, the concept of proving things in math is very commonplace. Think about everytime you solved a math problem it’s more like a single observation, you solved it and observed the answer, but behind that there’s a concept that holds true in which that problem stems from, proving that concept is what a proof is. I hope this helped.
HandsomeLakitu · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It did indeed. Year 10 was a long time ago for me now, but I finally understand what proofs are, even if I can't do them myself.
I'll call that an improvement.
TheCenterOfEnnui · 2 points · Posted at 19:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That subject sounds like "Geometry" in US schools.
I was OK with that. I hit the wall at analytic geometry and trigonometry. Killed my desire to take calculus.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Everybody hits walls sooner or later. Even prodigies. Sometimes you just have to fight to break through the wall. If you’re every interested in it again I bet you’d be able to break your wall.
TheCenterOfEnnui · 2 points · Posted at 04:43:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, when I was struggling through those two classes, MTV still played music videos. I don't have much desire to break that wall at this point in my life.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha! Fair enough. You do you, but remember it’s never too late to learn something new.
OhBestThing · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like how Brits pluralize “math” (what we call it in the US).
parsley0 · 2 points · Posted at 07:34:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics is plural, so it logically follows...
skullturf · 0 points · Posted at 20:03:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
parsley0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ffs. The word mathematics is plural.
skullturf · 0 points · Posted at 03:25:18 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it isn't!
People (in the UK or the US) don't say "Mathematics are." Both countries say "Mathematics is."
Yes, it ends with the letter S, but it's not actually a plural. It doesn't function as a plural. It doesn't mean "more than one mathematic".
parsley0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It kinda does. Mathematics incorporates several types of maths: calculus, trigonometry, algebra, etc.
skullturf · 0 points · Posted at 13:55:42 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but despite all that, the word we use for the field of mathematics is not a plural word.
I can only reiterate: The word "mathematics" is not the plural of "mathematic". It doesn't mean more than one mathematic.
We don't say that calculus is one mathematic, trigonometry is another mathematic, and so on.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:04:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you call logarithms "log" for short? 😄
OhBestThing · 0 points · Posted at 00:04:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans can’t handle that level of math so who knows!
PabV99 · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This so goddamn much. I went from As straight to Ds at around that age. I was even taught at age 9 how to divide decimals because a teacher saw I was really good at arithmetic, and then from age 12 till 16 (the contests were over after that) I won every year an arithmetic and vocabulary contest we had.
But calculus and all that? Hell no.
Loakattack · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great name by the way
HandsomeLakitu · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks mate.
AboutShout · 2 points · Posted at 09:07:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty interesting. I was bad at math up until year 10, when we finally looked at the bigger picture of mathmatics (equations, variables, proofs, calculus etc.). I couldn't wrap my head around maths as long as we just used numbers all the time
PraiseTheOof · 2 points · Posted at 09:11:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im in college right now, I have a course called discrete math which is almost entirely composed of proofs, which is bad for me since I was always bad at proofs, could never wrap my head around them
undrhyl · 2 points · Posted at 14:13:49 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me! Always been pretty good with math. Was in honors mat classes throughout middle and high school. But when I hit the part of geometry where we did proofs, it all went sideways. I just couldn't get it. I got nothing but top grades in math every other semester of my schooling, but just barely made it with a C that semester.
LionsBSanders20 · 2 points · Posted at 14:56:29 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me and I hold a M.Sc. in Biostats. I'm good at math, but ask me to prove something and I never really know where to start.
D_Winds · 3 points · Posted at 18:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I resonate with this. Once calculus entered the curiculum I just lost the spark I had for doing mathematics because I no longer "got it".
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No longer getting it happens to just about every student somewhere along the way. Learning is hard. But keep chilling away at it and you can accomplish just about anything!
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you like your job? I keep on seeing engineers turn into YouTubers and switching careers. Is that the norm or fringe cases?
Best part of being an engineer?
Worst part?
shawnanotshauna · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Im a software engineer and I feel the software engineering field is pretty good right now. Pay is high, work life balance is good, benefits are good. I majored in Computer Science in college and I personally do believe it’s a good major.
I think a huge reason there’s so many software engineers turned YouTubers is the whole sell shovels during a gold rush thing. People are flocking left and right to learn coding and get into the field. So they are opportunistically attempting to take advantage of that and use their expertise to make some extra money on the side. And I say on the side because a lot of them do still work as software engineers, such as myoko, joma tech, jabrills, Im not sure if Jarvis Landry still does or not. But a lot do.
And to put it realistically, most of them work in SV, where they probably make 150-200k a year. The amount of time and subscriber count you would need to earn that on YouTube and offset that pay is pretty hard to achieve, so for many it is more of a side hustle.
PastSatisfaction · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, the engineering line of math is typically computational. It’s not surprising that you “still” don’t understand proofs because they’re generally not emphasized to engineers.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha good god PDEs is such a clusterfuck to me. I guarantee it’s because I haven’t sat down and tried to find proper derivations for things. But also some of the tricks they use are just pure nonsense evil magic.
gray-streaks · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh God.
Its like the reasoning behind each step, right?
So I'd look at the equation and go "I need to do this, because this" and find the proof that fit... before following the steps that went with that proof to do the numbers portion. And somehow the numbers would be right, the reasoning would be right, but the proof would be wrong every. Single. Time.
And Mr. Whats-his-face (Aka: Mr. You're-all-taking-this-class-because-you're-going-to-be-engineers-at-NASA-not-because-its-a-fucking-requirement) could never make it make any sense to me
Its not like my notes were wrong, all of the tests were open note so I'd just copy the important examples and every highlighted section into my notebook.
Its been 12 years and I'm still pissed
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 03:46:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You ever have an argument with your parents or a family member, maybe a significant other? You know you’re right, but they don’t believe you until you force them to by making a case? The same way a lawyer presents facts of a case in court to show their client is innocent.
That’s a proof. It’s just an argument. The only difference in math is that you have to use a formal logic system and some pre-determined rules.
Example: Squaring an odd number always gives you an odd number.
Proof:
Odd numbers always look like 2n+1.
If we square that we get (2n+1)2=4n2+4n+1.
Factoring out a 2 we get 2(2n2+2n)+1.
Since the part in parentheses is an integer we have a number of the form 2k+1. So it’s odd!
gray-streaks · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I know.
But I'd get the math right, following the using the right logic, but the rule that pointed me to was ALWAYS wrong.
He'd grade each proof out of three points - the final answer, the math to get there, and the proof that went with it and I'd get a 2/3 every time. It was so stupid.
MagMaggaM · 2 points · Posted at 19:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
God fucking damn I hated doing mathematical proofs.
"Prove that the sum of two consecutive odd numbers is a multiple of 4." - Nah fuck off, it's already been proved by someone else, 'cause you now the answer, and the chances of me being one of those people who spend their lives working over intense mathematical proofs for decaddes is pretty damn slim, so kindly save that bullshit for people who do a degree who actually want to know this. It was bad enough when letters were added, now I have to tell you, the people teaching me, why what I'm being taught works? Get to fuck...
My resentment from Maths A-Levels is still brewing...
AloneInDecember · 6 points · Posted at 22:06:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math is proofs. You hate real math.
MagMaggaM · 3 points · Posted at 22:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Yes I do.
Don't get me wrog I know it's not rational and it is invaluabele oth to society and for some people's enjoyment. I'm even quite goo at it when I put my head to it and try, it just brings out an irrational level of seething in me when I struggle that makes me want to either vent (as above), or ram my head into a desk at Mach 3.
I have great respect for people that do maths for their work though, it takes perseverance and patience that I lack...
AloneInDecember · 3 points · Posted at 22:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good response. I understand. Sorry for being combative.
MagMaggaM · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah mate its chill. I was ranting, so I wasn't exactly talking in a way that didn't make me look like an arse. And you weren't wrong. I just like a good rant sometimes, logic be damned lol
mikerowave · 8807 points · Posted at 14:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. That shit is wack
Snuffleupagus03 · 6159 points · Posted at 18:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was always great at math. Went to college and am a physics major. Motion of objects? Crush it. Relativity? Really interesting. Quantum mechanics? Ok, sure, so I just do the... wait, so this equation represents the... that’s not it. Ok, what about... no, wrong again.
I am now a lawyer.
DragonSeniorita_009 · 5131 points · Posted at 19:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ive always admired people who are great at maths. Honestly even simple stuff was hard for me. I speak four languages and learning my fifth but ask me to do a small, logical mathematical problem and I am lost. When the cashier asks me to give them a cent so they give me back a dollar it’s like you could be asking me to fucking disarm a bomb.
IDKwhattoput-3 · 1229 points · Posted at 19:38:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m really jealous of ppl that can learn so many languages. Maths and sciences are my strong points (which is at an average level) but I can’t do languages for shit. I’ve been learning both English and mandarin since young (government requires us to) but have been consistently failing mandarin and barely passing English :P I guess we all want things we don’t have
DragonSeniorita_009 · 208 points · Posted at 19:44:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grass is always greener ;) A tip that helped me a lot: watch a shit ton of movies in the language you wanna learn, preferably Pixar or Disney movies where they use a neutral version of the language and the sentences are always well built. It helps a lot! Your ears sort of get used to the way words are pronounced and you recognize grammatical structures.
Live_in_the_now · 57 points · Posted at 22:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took French all 4 years of high school, and during my last year (it was AP French so basically as advanced as we could get) my teacher had a family emergency and was gone for almost a month. Our substitute couldn't speak French, so during class we just watched Disney movies in French with English subtitles.
I had really good teachers, but I swear in that month I learned more than I ever had. Grammar things I had issues with suddenly clicked, I learned tons of vocabulary without really trying. Just seeing the language in action made everything fall into place.
I still flunked the AP exam though lol.
Fofire · 32 points · Posted at 20:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely start with translated movies first.
I've noticed that when I watch a dubbed English film in another language and foreign language film (if a language I know) the structure is just somehow completely different.
The thought process and manner of speaking are just brought out differently. Some of it can just be colloquialisms or idioms or small language features that don't translate well into another language but I believe a large part of it is thought processes and character interactions are different in foreign films foreign languages.
For instance without knowing or ever having seen a movie or looking at the screen I can easily tell if a film was dubbed from the original English or if it's in its original language.
yzp32326 · 4 points · Posted at 23:45:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you watch with English subtitles or no subtitles?
Fofire · 8 points · Posted at 00:03:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both really. I'm fluent in three languages.
If you mean to learn it helped having English subtitles while I was learning and even better if it had foreign subtitles. Either way it helped with words I didn't know.
yzp32326 · 5 points · Posted at 02:17:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, makes sense. Any tips on how to become fluent in a language (German in my case)?
Fofire · 4 points · Posted at 04:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually German is one of the languages I learned.
Well for an online dictionary I love
Dict.leo.org
School was great for giving me the infrastructure to learn and actually living there watching TV in German is where I filled it out.
Probably my best resources to keep my German up is I read German news sites. Watch German tv (something like Hulu online)
Books are a bit difficult to get into because they use more difficult words but are great if you're have the time to look up words. Kids books are great starting points
Also great are puzzle books for kids. Like crossword puzzles or word finds in square full of letters. Really helps in developing the vocab.
yzp32326 · 3 points · Posted at 06:42:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s really helpful, thank you so much!
IdreamofFiji · 8 points · Posted at 22:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got real used to some brit accents when I went on a BBC binge.
throwawayyy55576 · 7 points · Posted at 03:22:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the tip I was gonna give him too, being exposed to it more is what helps. Practice makes perfect.
Interestingly enough, it's the same with math. It's such a false thing that people think "oh I'm good at languages and not math"or vice versa. Math is not something you are born with, you have to learn it from scratch, and practice makes perfect like with languages. For example I was ok at math as a kid, but not great. A couple of years ago I picked up math again to try and go to uni, and oh my god was I bad. I can't remember the multiplication table to this day, maybe up to times 7. It took me about 6 months of constant practice to stop losing my negative signs like they are crumbles when I eat.
For a long time I was genuinely scared I wouldn't be able to add simple numbers in my head again like I used to as a kid. I couldn't do 7+2 or 9+3 for the first year. Heck, I still struggle if I'm learning something new and my brain is concentrating on that: when I do calculus, I have the calculator next to me to double check the simplest of things, like 3/2.
But when I stop and think how much I've progressed, I am immensely proud, and all it took was dedication, and hundreds of hours of doing math on my own, frustrated sometimes to the point of crying. Colleagues in uni look at me for help with math now. Of course they are young and spend their time playing video games, they say I'm smart but then I ask them "how did you spend your afternoon?" And the say "oh, played something, went out etc". And then I tell them, well, after I had something to eat I did math until 10pm and went to sleep". There's no difference between them and myself in mathematical ability or IQ, it's just the different amount of hours we are willing to put in.
I think the only difference between you and someone who is "good at math" is having a goal, seeing a point to learning it, like wanting to go into engineering, for me.
Meanwhile I studied French for 8 years in school and I can't make two sentences today. I studied German for 12 but I lacked vocabulary because I never used it outside of school and today I barely understand it. I only know English well because I used it so much watching movies and playing video games.
So I am positive you could learn math, if you had something powerful to drive you to put the hours in.
Same with anything else. Besides the few geniuses who are actually more talented, and therefore they put more hours in because it comes easy, be it football, music or math, the rest of us need to find that force to drive us to succeed.
deeschannayell · 2 points · Posted at 01:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Should I put subtitles on? Or just immerse myself totally?
DragonSeniorita_009 · 5 points · Posted at 03:25:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually watch the same movie 4 or 5 times to practice. First, watch it with subtitles in your language to get a sense of the story and what the characters are saying. Then watch it with subs in the language of the movie, so you read what the people are saying and you get a sense of how words are spelled.
That’s what I usually do. It’s a bit tedious to watch the same movie 4 or 5 times but you can spread it out throughout the week. Like watch it once on Monday then again on Friday. And I swear it works.
LogicalGoat11 · 17 points · Posted at 19:51:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m taking advantage of quarantine to learn French right now and I’m struggling already. The basics are fine, but I can’t do sentence structure or pronunciation. I understand it logically, but i don’t really understand it like some people do.
DonViaje · 19 points · Posted at 20:19:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It takes time man. You probably never had to learn English, you just absorbed it, just like native speakers of every language did. But how old were you by the time you spoke good English? 4? 5? Granted, you’re probably much better equipped to digest and process information now than when you were one year old, but then again, your brain wasn’t filled with adult problems, and you didn’t have English, or any language as a crutch to lean on. These things take time, and it’s hard to see yourself progressing and stay motivated when it’s such a slow process, but it doesn’t happen instantly. You won’t learn a language completely during the quarantine. But you can get a great start, get used to hearing it, familiarize yourself with the basics and continue to build, every day, off that. It’s a long process that you have to commit to, but it’s a parabolic curve that builds on itself. At the start, you don’t understand anything, then you begin to be able to pick out individual words, then you grasp ideas and context, then whole sentences come together, then whole conversations begin to make sense. You will still make mistakes at this point, especially because listening is passive and speaking is active, but in a certain amount of time, suddenly you will understand entire conversations and maybe only miss a few words here and there- which you can talk around.
You think I know every medical term, or can talk about tax preparation in English? Well, it’s the same as that, there’s always going to be words you don’t know, no matter how comfortable you are in a language, but once you get to the point where you can understand the jist and participate in a conversation, you’re there. That’s the whole point of language, and learning an entire dictionary worth of vocabulary, all the necessary conjugations, application of prepositions, and grammar rules for any language takes a lot of time, and a lot of repetition. Stick with it, and realize that it’s a long, but rewarding process, and don’t hold yourself to a timeline. Everyone responds to things like this at a different pace. The key is consistency.
C-RAMsigma9 · 8 points · Posted at 21:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it possible to naturally "absorb" two languages because that's what happened to me, i was born in England but I'm Polish
QuietlyLosingMyMind · 10 points · Posted at 21:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is. In children it may cause a bit of a speech delay but they understand earlier than they speak and can speak both when they finally do. That is usually what happens in a bilingual home.
double-dog-doctor · 9 points · Posted at 21:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely, but it takes a lot more work than most people give it credit for. To achieve bilingualism, it takes immense exposure to both languages for long periods of time. If you're Polish but raised in England, it's likely that you spoke Polish at home, and were immersed in a Polish culture. You may have read books in Polish, spoke to relatives in Polish, read recipes in Polish, watched Polish media, maybe even watched English movies with Polish subtitles--but when you lift your Polish bubble, the rest of your world was in English (school, work, sports, etc.). So for all intents and purposes, your were heavily exposed to both languages extensively.
But even for children who were raised in completely multilingual environments, their language skills may be a little off when they're very young. They may speak later than their peers, mix the languages together, or their vocabularies in each may be smaller. As the child gets older, they get better at code-switching.
DonViaje · 2 points · Posted at 00:46:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m super jealous of people like you
C-RAMsigma9 · 1 points · Posted at 07:56:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm jealous of me too
teardropmaker · 3 points · Posted at 23:01:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely. Had 6 years of total immersion Spanish, Jr. High and HS. Not fluent, but pretty able to hold a semi-grammatical conversation. Until some tree-planters from Guatemala showed up in the grocery store where I was working, and I realized I had NO camping vocabulary whatsoever. Tent. Camp. Sleeping bag. Nada. Ni jota. Made a lucky phone call!
DonViaje · 3 points · Posted at 00:55:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I moved to Spain at age 25 speaking no Spanish other than “yo quiero una cerveza” and “donde está el baño.” I’m 30 now and I’ve been stuck inside with my Spanish roommate for a month and he literally told me tonight after a lot of beers “ I think you speak better Spanish than my English.” We switch back and forth between Spanish and English, and he spent a few years in Australia, so he speaks great English. Granted I’ve lived here for 5 years, but if there’s hope for me, there’s hope for anyone.
You learn what you need to learn, and what you need to learn comes from experience, so the only thing you can do is put yourself in more situations where you get the experience.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been learning German from both school and my grandfather since I was 11. It took me until a quarter of the way through the 11th grade for things to "click" in a way there were things that I "just knew" how to say without being able to explain it.
Still can't write for shit though...
DonViaje · 2 points · Posted at 00:56:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m learning German now and well, the grammar is a chore. There’s no substitute for time and practice.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find speaking much easier because a lot of grammar points are indistinguishable when you're speaking at a conversation pace. Nobody can tell the difference between "eine Schildkröte" and "einer Schildkröte" if I forget which adjective ending to use.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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bluetoad2105 · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flanders, Wallonia or both?
CallMeAladdin · 13 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The trick is to be born inherently wired for math and science but grow up bilingual.
IDKwhattoput-3 · 2 points · Posted at 01:54:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s all fun and games till u screw up both for ur O levels. :’(
iwsfutcmd · 11 points · Posted at 21:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do both, weee!
But on the other hand, every time I leave the house, I get terribly, horrifically lost. Also my ability to recognize plants doesn't go much further than calling the tall ones "tree" and the short ones "bush". I've recently taken to calling everything a "ficus" and hoping for the best.
TempAcct20005 · 5 points · Posted at 22:31:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also do both. My memory is that of a gold fish though
bluetoad2105 · 8 points · Posted at 21:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hong Kong, Taiwan, or Singapore?
IDKwhattoput-3 · 5 points · Posted at 01:52:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singapore
RoguePlanet1 · 7 points · Posted at 21:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband is a math guy, and dismisses languages as "just memorization of words." Well wtf is *math* then?? You have to memorize all sorts of formulas, times tables etc.
I think he too is frustrated with his inability to grasp language problems!
ata444 · 10 points · Posted at 23:09:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you get really good at maths, then from a few sets of rules, you can derive or get a lot of other equations and rules. Its like reading two sentences of a book, then you can basically understand the book without reading it further
RoguePlanet1 · 4 points · Posted at 23:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's so mind-blowing to me how math comes so naturally to a lucky few people. Einstein, Tesla, even watching the movie Hidden Figures, how Katherine Johnson was incredibly great at math from very early in life........it's weird how a man-made concept seems innate to certain people!
ata444 · 6 points · Posted at 23:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't say it comes naturally, maybe there is a tendency towards more science and math things, but most people except like geniuses, who are really rare, still have to put in a lot of work and it takes years to get to that point to be able to do that
RoguePlanet1 · 5 points · Posted at 23:18:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course, I didn't mean to minimize the work they put into it, just that they can look at the formulas and make more sense of them. They see the concepts behind the symbols, or so I imagine!
Hpmec · 4 points · Posted at 04:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My daughter has a friend from her high school days who whipped right through the math portion of the SAT with an almost perfect score. When asked where her math ability came from, she’d say she never had to work at it. It was something she could do intuitively. I, on the other hand, struggled with math. Could never understand anything beyond the basics. The word problem unit back in high school algebra did me in. Trying to determine at what point those trains or cars were going to pass. Forget it. Deciphering the Rosetta Stone would have been easier. I admire people who “get” math. I’m just not one of them.
RoguePlanet1 · 1 points · Posted at 13:28:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's fascinating and must be great to have that sort of skill!
CTHeinz · 6 points · Posted at 21:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m really jealous of people that learn or do good at anything. I’m preety much “mediocre to average” at best, for just about anything and everything I can think of.
ZedErre · 5 points · Posted at 22:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learning a language is a matter of habit, at least for me.
My method at learning new languages is to always learn conjugation by heart, a language is 70% (random estimation, not actually calculated) made from verbs, if you nail down the verbs and tenses, you'll pick the other aspects easily with time and habit.
I speak 5 languages, I love learning new ones, but sadly I don't have the time as much as I used to when I was just a kid.
Habit is key
Duckboy_Flaccidpus · 4 points · Posted at 22:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One tip besides immersion (movies, visiting the country, not reading anything except your target language, etc) is for the most part DON'T do vocab one term at a time. We learn much more efficiently in a short sentence and retain those words for "car" or "road", "hospital" in target language etc when joined in a short sentence bite as well as the ones that aren't nouns. I'm teaching myself German and it does seem to help a bit.
Atwenfor · 5 points · Posted at 22:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which government is that?
IDKwhattoput-3 · 4 points · Posted at 01:51:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singapore
gavinz48 · 3 points · Posted at 02:04:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same boat. I can do math related thinking things well but cannot bring myself to learn languages. English was my first language. I can write well with structure but terrible at speaking (have a slow thought to speech transition). However, the one thing that stops me from being good at any language is just any creativity; there is just something that always stops me from being creative.
I learned Mandarin for 4 years out of school. I could write the characters and pronounce things well but I just couldn't speak it with structure thus preventing me from writing anything well. If I got asked a question in Chinese, I take forever to process the question and take even longer to answer it where I get it wrong half the time. Even if the teacher could speak English and asked me a question, I just take way too long to answer it in Mandarin.
Language just made me look like an idiot, especially when I was older than most of the people at the same level. I continued to study Mandarin at school and it was easier there than when I was learning out of school. I learned more until the third year where most of the standard involved creative writing, being able to listen to speech and understand it, and one to have a conversation with another class member. Got reasonably bad marks for the whole subject. Made myself look stupid to others because most know me for the top marks I would get for most standards at school, including English (which I consider myself bad at).
Back to the thought of creativity, I believe this is what hinders anything I do. Give me something to select out of an infinite range of things, such as selecting a writing topic, I will take days to select something. Give me a small number of things to choose from, I can select something in a heartbeat. So when it came to formal or creative writing in English, I took days to come up with something to write about and still manage to fuck it up. When it came to writing an essay with a few questions to choose and write about on a text/film, I can choose something easily, got my good marks.
I guess this works the similarly to those who can't do math and learn languages. I envy those people, and they're likely the same towards me.
TL;DR: a rant about me finding science/math easier than language/art/drama and I think the reason is the lack of my creativity.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:11:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
your english seems fine
IDKwhattoput-3 · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can speak it but I can’t do well for it in exams. In Singapore, exam grades are kinda everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:20:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotcha. You seem very fluent to me!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm jealous of people who are good at anything.
Nuclearb0m · 2 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learning my 5th as well and I'd say it's literally just pattern matching and time. Think of it like Machine Learning.
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 22:47:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What government?
IDKwhattoput-3 · 2 points · Posted at 01:50:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singapore
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cool thing about English is that it's basically ubiquitous across the internet and every mainstream entertainment platform, so easy to learn. Also Singapore sounds pretty cool despite the government.
W4r6060 · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do both languages and math pretty well, but I just suck at putting effort in anything, so I guess in some weird way I feel you.
i_prefer_dave99 · 2 points · Posted at 23:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sucked at languages and science and math in school... Where's my green grass?
IDKwhattoput-3 · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone has their strengths :) I have a friend who can’t do either but when it comes to music, he’s amazing. Everyone is unique :)
notalandmine · 2 points · Posted at 23:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just watched a video on the difference between acquiring a language vs. learning it and then spoke to my wife who is in grad school for TEFL. My limited understanding from reading excerpts from one of her textbooks (and the video I linked below) is that there are a few major approaches to it, a common one being Grammar-Translation. I will be looking further into TPR and the Natural Approach vs. what I’ve been doing (Grammar-Translation). Hope this video helps!
https://youtu.be/illApgaLgGA
nhchan234 · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hello fellow Singaporean, I’m your neighbor :)
Nice to meet you, I guess :D
Edit: Malaysian here
the_deepstate · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm dying to know what government it is that requires that of you.
IDKwhattoput-3 · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singapore. Unless u apply for exemption for ur mother tongue, u need to take both ur mother tongue and English.
the_deepstate · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:24 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I'm not a fan of text-speak, but apart from that, your English is very good.
happyd0gg0 · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
we never learn vibes
Parker_72 · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I smell a freaky Friday plot line!
Moroh45 · 2 points · Posted at 04:27:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm jealous of almost everything.
suan_pan · 2 points · Posted at 05:46:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
singaporean?
IDKwhattoput-3 · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep :)
SodaDonut · 2 points · Posted at 06:28:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm jealous of people who aren't lazy. I can learn other languages, I just get bored and stop trying to learn and just tried to get a passing grade. Math has always been what I'm great at, calculus is kinda hard though. First time I've had to actually pay attention.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, Mandarin is said to be one of the hardest languages in the world. The only way to make sure you completely know it with all its nuances and intricacies is being born to a Chinese family.
noscexcuraxtexipsum · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there's people like me who are just average at math, science, humanities and languages, and can't be great at anything cause we're so busy wanting to do a lot of things at once that we can't focus nor dedicate completely to just one thing. And also really suck at arts. But also want to to do arts lmao
raisingwatsons · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, I am a native English speaker and I barely passed english from grades eight to twelve. Shit is confusing as hell sometimes. I excel in math, chemistry, french, and law though.
oticurc43 · 1 points · Posted at 14:16:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's easier to learn languages from the same root. I'm Spanish speaker. It took several years for me to learn English. Languages rooted in Latin, like French, Italian, Portuguish I can understand and learn easily.
TIE_FIGHTER_HANDS · 13 points · Posted at 19:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also have trouble with that, although weirdly once I went to university and started doing higher level abstract math like calculus, and some statistics (I have a biology degree) O was really good at it, I found it easier to visually navigate abstract mathematical concepts on my mind, but I cannot manage to do simple arithmetic, like addition,subtraction, multiplication, and division, I just cannot do it without a calculator.
Kowzorz · 5 points · Posted at 20:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm a mathematician. I deal with letters, not numbers!"
alteredxenon · 1 points · Posted at 10:53:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mostly greek ones, I suppose...
Anakinss · 23 points · Posted at 19:58:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be honest, most people are bad at math because at some point, they had a bad math teacher. And once it happens, you most probably have to start over at the point where it happened, and it is very complicated to motivate yourself to understand 9th grade math (for example) when you're 32. Truth is, you can do it, but the reward would be very limited. Languages are a smarter choice, I think.
DragonSeniorita_009 · 17 points · Posted at 20:01:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my case I definitely had bad teachers. But the one that traumatized me the most was my junior year math teacher. He’d only explain things to the kids who would get everything the first time. I’m the type of person that makes questions about everything until I understand. and Every time I went to him with a silly question, he would tell me that I was probably stupid and not to focus on English and painting.
There was a point where he just stopped answering my questions and he just rolled his eyes if I raised my hand. My senior year maths teacher was a sweetheart and way more understanding, but by then the damage was done lol
ImFairlyAlarmedHere · 6 points · Posted at 20:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel the same way about math. I'm a designer but when my marketing director starts talking to me about the company's projections and percentages for growth, I start to feel panicky and will almost tear up sometimes because I genuinely feel like she's speaking another language and I just cannot understand.
Side note: My worst math teacher was my first year of college algebra. The first assignment was a worksheet in which he replaced all of the numbers with words like "cat" and "dog" because "the numbers were only symbolic". I failed that class and he left the next year to become a welder.
FriskyPheasant · 5 points · Posted at 20:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
100 percent correct in my case. Always made all A’s in math up until one of my high school teachers. Barely scraped by in her class and that was with her basically giving us a good grade on our semester test if we took notes all year and handed them in. Was terrified of taking another math class after that bc I knew I was so behind. Did not go well in college.
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DragonSeniorita_009 · 5 points · Posted at 20:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The nickel thing made my head scream in horror. Hope your job gets easier.
DJchalupaBatman · 1 points · Posted at 12:13:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If they give you another nickel then you owe them another nickel. Add a nickel to whatever the screen says the change is.
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 4 points · Posted at 20:03:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally same. I know Spanish English, and I'm rather rusty, but decent at French(but that's my own fault for not practicing), and it's always bewildered me how I could learn different languages, and literally any other thing in the world, yet math just refuses to process for me lmao.
Goodfella0328 · 4 points · Posted at 20:19:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m only “good” or knowledgeable about the soft subjects that don’t get the bills paid. I’ve heard that I’m a decent writer, and I love reading thick non fiction history books, and occasionally dabble in armchair psychology/philosophy because I read Plato’s Republic once and desperately need a hobby/interest unique to my age because I’m too fucking stupid to do anything else. That includes abstract subjects such as math or even tangible, observable subjects like science...also known as the ones that actually fucking matter. I have very little going for me, but if there’s one thing I wish more of, it’s definitely practical and useful intelligence (rather than just “soft”) that can adapt to a variety of situations. In reality, I am a very stupid person who can pretend to appear somewhat smart if given enough time to prepare (i.e. carefully picking and choosing the words in this wall of text, because of the benefit of anonymity).
PurelyApplied · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will always recommend 3Blue1Brown for interesting, not-entirely-technical videos on math. This sudden appearance of pi in a physics problem is a great one. Also it's pretty easy to listen to Grant's voice.
And as a side thing to the top commenter, that puzzel turns out to be equivalent to some things in Quantum Search.
IanPKMmoon · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always admired people who are great at languages, I've studied French for 8 years (live in Belgium so learning French is mandatory) and I can only do the most basic conversation. English was easier since it's everywhere and it's so similar to Dutch but yea that's how far my language skills go.
My maths tho are above average but not good enough to study mathematics or physics. Well maybe I could pull it off if I was a hard working type and I'm thinking if studying Physics after my current studies (IT), just because it's the most fascinating subject imo. I love to study about the universe. I love quantum mechanics even tho I don't understand shit about it. I love electricity. You get my point.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I prefer paying with debit. Less chance of me feeling like a dumbass. When they give me change I don't even really count it unless they or the register tells me how much it's supposed to be.
DragonSeniorita_009 · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. I never count the change. It is so easy to rip me off lol. No maths and never check if the change is correct :(
pagwin · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how tf do you just learn a language
Rorygilbert · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg. Thank God I'm not alone. You described how it feels perfectly.
emwo · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me! I can barely calculate how much to tip or how much my taxes i expect to pay for my pizza/tacos would be without a calculator, but i can pick up languages pretty easily. Wish I was good at math but whatever.
shostakofiev · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I became an engineer because it was the only degree that didn't have a foreign language requirement. That's how intimidating that is to me. And I am an avid reader.
DragonSeniorita_009 · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I became a journalist because it was one of the few of my options that didn’t have maths as a requirement lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:55:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was always terrible at math in school. As i get older (30's) i am MUCH better at mental math and real-world problems in my day-to-day. I am super glad for that! Anyone else feel similarly?
RaptureReject · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haven't read all the replies, but my daughter has dyscalculia... very much like the more widely known dyslexia, but with numbers/number concepts. There's nothing wrong with her memory... she can spit the times tables at you backwards and forwards, and when you teach her the steps to solve a long division equation she can mostly get there after a ton of repetition... but try to get her to explain why 4×4=16... that it means you have four groups of four... Zero understanding. You can do it in front of her with jelly beans or pennies or whatever, but she can't make the abstract leap that numbers represent physical things, or that the physical things in front of her are the same as numbers. It's been wild for me... there is no amount of explaining it that helps. Her brain just doesn't have the capacity to interpret and understand or retain those kinds of ideas.
Anyway, just thought maybe it was possible you'd never heard of dyscalculia. There's definitely different degrees of it- my daughter's is severe- but in case you ever felt bad about yourself for not getting maths or having anxiety about it, it might not be your fault at all. Just a brain wiring thing.
Mita82142 · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just described my late husband. He spoke five languages, could answer most Jeopardy! questions, and was so, so funny (a sign of intelligence). But he couldn't solve a simple mathematical problem. In college, in order for him to get his degree in Psychology, I had to help him--yeah, we cheated, so what...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just practice it and kinda memorize it. I don't calculate if 10-7=3 no. I just say it automatically without thinking. that's the secret of getting around numbers. I kid you not, it works.
LordMcze · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Memorizing math instead of understanding it sounds like a recipe for stalling at anything more complicated than that example tho.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm saying that you understand and know how to get these information at any times without your memory's help. but if memorizing after understanding is much much much easier and it gets the job done. (talking about simple math really.)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you go about learning so many languages? For me since I was a kid it's been the exact opposite, complex math is fine but language has always been my bane
lancypancy · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here! And it's sad because I love all the products and applications of the wonderful thing that is mathematics. 😭
DragonSeniorita_009 · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I felt that I missed out on really good majors because of my inability to do maths. I would have loved to go for architecture or IT but all of them had advanced maths and I was too intimidated by the numbers to go for it.
lancypancy · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's unfortunate that I never clicked for us. The right teacher at the right time and we could be in very different situations.
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can say yes in four languages does that count
methanococcus · 1 points · Posted at 09:11:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nein
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 09:21:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nyet?
methanococcus · 1 points · Posted at 09:37:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
да
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 09:43:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oui
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like me, but for some reason I am a programmer
laviza21722 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao thanks
Pikachu_OnAcid · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I relate to that bit about the money. Hell I'm like that when a friends ask if I have change for a note, my mind just goes blank
Loko_Tako · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You and me both.
RoguePlanet1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always used "shortcuts" to get around these little problems (like how to figure out a 15% tip, usually I move the decimal one place and double the number for 20% to ensure a good tip). Then I read that "smart" people do these things, which made me feel much better! :-p
My husband is a STEM guy, and great with numbers. Sometimes we're both confronted with a math problem, and I'll do the "shortcut" calculation and say the answer. He'll then think about it for a bit longer, and usually comes up with the same answer, which is also an ego boost.
Still, these are the really beginner shortcuts. People start talking about stuff like "15% of 35 is the same thing as 35% of 15" and I get butterflies in my stomach.
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RoguePlanet1 · 1 points · Posted at 13:32:23 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stuff I do is mostly that kind of thing, like when something's on sale x% off, can't think of anything off the bat........meters vs feet, I know that a kilometer is .6 mile, so I think "slightly more than half" when converting km to miles. Embarrassing to admit out loud! But this is for my own understanding, not NASA computations or anything.
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RoguePlanet1 · 1 points · Posted at 12:09:20 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry! When I try to figure out percentages, I tend to move decimals and round off, I don't flip the numbers around like in the example........though I guess I should try!
So 15% of 35..........would probably go to 10% to get 3.5 and then add half of that......ugh okay 1.75, 5 and change. Not so efficient I guess, but it's how I'd do it on the fly.
Flipping it around.........35% of 15........I'd think 3 x 1.5 = 4.5 + this is where I paint myself into a corner.......but figure it would be at least 5 because there'd be a bit more to add on!
CouncilmanRickPrime · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same way, except I was the cashier and I'd get confused because people would ask to do that lol.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had the same problem, excellent with languages and literature but couldn't even finish GCSE maths
then I was diagnosed with dyscalculia! It all made sense.
geekygirl25 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty good at learning languages and suck at math too! I learned French in high school and college, but In never have had much use for it personally and don't make it a point to learn languages in my free time, so most of that is gone. Other people just tell me I am really good at pronouncing words in other languages I have not heard yet. So far I only really struggle with Asian languages (especially pronunciation with mandarin). Nevermind the fact that I usually have no clue what I am saying.
If someone struggles to learn a language, depending on the context and why they want/need to learn it. I just tell them to get the pronunciation right (or as close as possible), then worry about fully knowing the meaning. Also, I tell them to find a physical textbook with lots of words, pictures and meanings for them, and copy copy copy. If your beginning French textbook can't tell you what is in a bathroom and how to say it, you might need another textbook. Writing things like this can help the brain remember it later.
leucosiav · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in the opposite camp. Maths comes very naturally to me, but languages are beyond me. English is my native language and I'm still pretty average at that, and my attempts to learn German are....pretty piss poor. I'll forever admire and be impressed by those who, like you, can learn to speak four or five languages
Nickston_7 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this fact and am observing it every day (or at least have been before all schools were closed). Intelligence is weird, my friends would try to explain complicated chemical processes to me but fail at a math problem that seems trivial to me. Others take five different language classes while I just about manage to speak english and can barely hold a conversation in french. And there are many which see possible interpretations of literature which I would never come up with on the regular. There are so many types of intelligence, and those are just the academic ones.
Ul71 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. On my fourth language, zero math. That cashier anecdote really hit home. Love physics and economics but I couldn't solve the simplest equation if my life depended on it.
dbossman70 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’m in the same boat. polyglot that can remember conjugation within an hour of speaking but any math equation makes my brain shut down.
sgloux3470 · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had the opposite problem as a cashier. It never occurred to me to intentionally overpay so that you could get specific increments back in change until I became a cashier and got confused when someone wanted to do it.
Some older guy gave me a $5 bill and an extra $0.25 or whatever so he could get a loonie back and I just gave him his quarter back with three more. We just stared at each other in mutual confusion after that.
dimpld9 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you me? If your username wasn't different, I would've been convinced that I had written this. I'm an MBA and I cannot calculate things in my head. When I started working, I found out my boss was weaker at Math than I was. But what made me feel tons better was that he is a fantastic salesperson and manager. A great human being too. His team (myself included) have a lot of issues with each other, but we genuinely like our boss through and through and admire him. It's nice to be reminded through him that no, dimpld9, you are not a piece of shit because you are bad at Math. You have other talents!
I also unashamedly use my calculator in front of shopkeepers and cab drivers because it's better to be safe than sorry!
flyingmops · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am like you and needed to triple something for a recipe something with 9. Asked my husband, how to triple it. And he did this thing with his hands where he put down one finger and then the rest is ones and those behind that finger, that you've hidden, is 10s. It absoultely blew my mind... Then I thought I could do this with all numbers. Only works on nines... I am absolutely shit at maths... I am shit at most things. But I speak 3 languages more or less fluently, so I got that going for me.
GabeThyGodly · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quick! If I bought a donut for 60 cents a water bottle for $1 and an orange for $39 cents, I give $7 to the cashier, how much am I left with?
Oh also, john ate my orange cause hes an asshole, how many oranges am I left with?
DragonSeniorita_009 · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ighhhhhh $5.01? I used my calculator man and still I’m Not sure I’m right.
RedditZacuzzi · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao that used to confuse me a lot too for some reason. I didn't get it until one day I just sat down and thought for a while about what the fuck is happening in that transaction.
SirGriffey · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
TH3xD3VIN3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the best method to learning other languages?
KohaiCat2022 · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I completely relate! I speak 2 languages and I’m learning my third at school. I love them and honestly want to learn more. However in primary school (what Australians call Elementary school) I was so shit with coins and money. I still am tbh, I’m good at math but sometimes it’s so messed up that I understand nothing. So I completely relate to you.
balsamicranch4325 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a cashier and what happened to you happened to me vice versa, the guy looked at me and said 'what, cant you do math?' And i felt so bad for the rest of the day. Thanks for making me feel better lol, even though im sure im not as smart as you
Kanadark · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn the only thing I'm good at learning are song lyrics, whether I want them there or not.
El_shawnzo · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, if it was just a cent, I'd always just give a dollar back rather than 99¢. As a cashier, I've been under whole dollars (supposedly, the counting method is flawed IMO) and not been reprimanded, so one penny won't hurt.
cool_beans7652 · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See I consider myself "good at math" but I still don't get adding up change and stuff. I am so bad at subtraction and addition.
Christy808 · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg same 😩 I’m a nursing major and I love all the sciency shit about it but when it comes to calculating my change, my mind goes blank.
LionKing729 · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they’re asking you in a language you don’t know
frannyflaps · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I have 2 degrees and have been a lawyer for 7 years. But I still need to count on my fingers. I'm 33.
ggadget6 · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow super opposite for me. I'm a big math and science guy but languages kill me. My parents speak 5 languages between them and I only ended up learning English. I've always really struggled with languages other than English honestly, so bilingual+ people really impress me.
Defttone · 1 points · Posted at 09:23:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know i suck at a lot of aspects in life but I love when people like yourself need help from people like me who are decent at math on the fly. Makes me feel like Im not a total useless piece of crap.
cloudsample · 1 points · Posted at 09:42:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathmeticians are terrible at explaining math, it's a thousand times easier to learn through programming, and you don't even have to bother with notation unless you want to share ideas with the crazies in the other field.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband is like a human calculator. It’s just weird but very useful, I mean basic math just adding numbers I have to visualise like how you would write it out and stuff. Meanwhile my husband is like oh that’s 5.45781 of course. My daughter will also be listening to a podcast and be like I have - pause - 17 mins left as she has just worked it all out from the running time. She’s 9. I’m glad she got her Dads math brain.
yabaquan643 · 1 points · Posted at 13:27:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing I've learned why I'm really good at math is because there's always an objective answer. 1+1=2. Always and forever.
There's no philosophical debate on why 1+1=2. There's no "But wait! 1+1=3 because..." None of that. Your answer can only be wrong because it's not the answer. Not the most correct answer. It's just the answer.
LokkJ7 · 1 points · Posted at 13:54:14 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is because you are right brain dominant, which means you are better with emotions and languages. I always thought the same about people who are good at language subjects in high school, i was always good at maths and physics etc. but when it came to writing essays in English and french, I was suddenly brain-dead. Are you left handed by any chance?
Fudgms · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats honestly very interesting. Ive always looked at math like a language. Numbers are words and equations are sentences. This greatly helped me understand it. But you know 5 languages and dont understand math.
talentedtimetraveler · 0 points · Posted at 23:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn’t learning languages an innate thing to do? I myself am learning my fifth, and I chose it to be Japanese, because otherwise it’s just absorbing the language. Japanese I actually have to learn stuff. Italian is my native tongue, I can speak English quite flawlessly (may have an accent, don’t really know), German I speak just as well, have been speaking it for more than 10 years (my only problems are the neutral and masculine articles, I still miss a few), and French is the one I know the least, but I can still converse quite well with someone, if he excuses a few mistakes while I talk, and my invasive Italian accent.
A-Grey-World · 40 points · Posted at 19:44:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You have to view it as a model representing reality.
I remember getting so frustrated when I was a kid going through school and finding every few years that the previous year was 'wrong'.
Atoms were marbles banging together (Dalton model?). Protons were fundamental you couldn't go down any further (stop asking!).
Few years later in high school, they were solar systems of mostly empty space with atoms whizzing around like planets (Bohr model).
Then doing my degree protons were quarks, electrons weren't spinning around but occupying probabilistic "clouds", unless you looked at them too closely (Electron Cloud Model).
Except, turn around and in one class, well, let's just use Bohr's model -it's not 'correct' I thought, why use it! Well, of course it its't, it's a model not reality - and it's a useful model unless you're looking too close.
Same with mechanics. Newtons laws. Hey! They're wrong. Einstein blew them up with relativity. They're missing a huge part of the equation. Used them all through my degree because for things not a non-insignificant fraction of the speed of light - the model will do.
Same with light-wave duality. In the same lesson you treat light as a particle. You prove it as a particle in your experiment and treat it as such because it's the best model. Then you turn around and treat it as a wave because that's the best model.
Which is "the truth" though? Neither? Is there a truth? Does it matter? Ultimately, it doesn't. We're just seeking the best model of reality.
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A-Grey-World · 4 points · Posted at 10:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not at all philosophy. In my view it's kind of the opposite, which was the point of my post really.
Quantum Mechanics is confusing and mindbending if you look at it in a philosophical sense.
It's much less confusing if you use it as a tool, like a physicist. You use it to calculate where a particle is, and what it's energy is, etc.
Philosophers can consider the "truth" and meaning behind the model.
sparrowtaco · 6 points · Posted at 01:05:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds more like the pop-science version of quantum mechanics you'll read about in online articles.
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 13:37:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more you keep asking why, the more you get maybes and mights. If you press on after that its entirely existential philosophy.
JayLarranagasEyes · 8 points · Posted at 00:06:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve got a physics degree and I truly hate how quantum is taught.
I was struggling with it greatly spoke to the professor I was doing research with along with his PhD student. They both told me, “no one gets it in undergrad. You just gotta learn how the expressions fit together. You’ll do learn it again in grad school and still not get it and then after a few years it’ll click.
Like fuck that I majored in physics specifically because everything could be understood thoroughly from first principles. Then we get to quantum and all of a sudden it’s just “hey trust us, you’ll probably get it later”
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the historical perspective is really nebulous tbh. Frankly I would like it more if it was introduced from a Hilbert space background. Even having just a little Linear Algebra under your belt can work wonders for knowing what’s going on.
LemonLimeNinja · 3 points · Posted at 02:11:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think teaching the historical perspective is important since it's like you're there with Einstein and Schrodinger trying to piece together what the hell is going on. I think if you started from a mathematical formalism you get lost in the math and are stuck asking yourself how anybody came up with this since it seems so arbitrary at first glace. Like you'd never start with Lagrangian mechanics then progress to parabolic motion, that's just overkill.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree I think it’s important, but I think I would have had a bit of an easier time not having to reinvent the wheel. When I studied relativity at least, it was very frustratingly like trying to come up with an entire new theory without really having a goal in mind. The advantage of being 100 years in the future is that we know the point of it all and can give commentary from the sidelines about why Einstein or Planck might have made some connection between light and inertial frames or black body radiation and quantization of energy.
ZachTheYek · 6 points · Posted at 21:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's weird tbh, because quantum mechanics is extremely unintuitive and confusing when you think of it from a "real life" point of view, but when you tackle it from a "math" perspective, it actually becomes extremely intuitive and easy to understand. Everything can basically be represented by a wave function, and depending on what you do to the wave function, different quantum things happen.
Snuffleupagus03 · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think some people who are good at ‘lower level’ math are really good at the visualization. I was. Even in basic relativity. So getting to something I couldn’t visualize, and has to rely on the equations entirely. I couldn’t really do it well.
ZachTheYek · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you give me an example of what you mean by visualizing math? I'm genuinely curious, because for all my life math has really just been math.
Snuffleupagus03 · 4 points · Posted at 22:53:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of math that I remember was the solution or representation of something physical. Motion of objects is an easy one. Picturing an oscillating spring on a moving object with friction. There might be some tough math there, but there is a visualization too. You don’t technically need the visualization to solve the math.
One I remember is the volume of the intersection of two cylinders. Tricky to visualize.
Even relativity has a lot that can be visualized if you are talking about moving objects.
But electrons existed in a probability cloud? Wave particle duality? And the visualization gets tougher from there. There are people who say they can picture and understand something like a hyper cube. I certainly cannot.
WhosYourBuddha89 · 5 points · Posted at 23:04:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father is a mathematician and hobby-astrophysicist and he always jokes about that there are people who just don’t get quantum mechanics and there are liars.
HoltbyIsMyBae · 4 points · Posted at 19:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you handle cases where someone is accused of break the speed limit of a million miles per second?
I now have a plot bunny of a lawyer who handles cases where the laws of physics are broken.
"Mr. Kent, you know better than to break Newtons law of gravity."
"This is the last time Mr. Allen. If i catch you speeding again, it's jail for you!"
"Sir, young Jimmy Neutron -" "Do not tell me that little delinquent has escaped juvie again."
Snuffleupagus03 · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love it.
seewhaticare · 4 points · Posted at 21:56:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you know someone's a lawyer?
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They'll tell you
Snuffleupagus03 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to shoehorn it into every Reddit comment. Can get very tricky.
cstcharles · 8 points · Posted at 20:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DUUUUUDE SAME
Loved physics in highschool. Was pretty good at it too. They told me to major in something that I loved, so, obviously... freshman and sophomore year of college were a breeze, things started getting hairy when I got to DiffEQ, but hey I could hang. It wasn't until I got to Quantum Physics the second half semester of junior year in college that I was like (G.O.B. Bluth voice) i've made a huge mistake
But I had gone too far and didn't want to add another two/three years of credits to get a different major. So on to Quantum Mechanics I went! I set up study groups outside of class (so I could get answers to the questions from my classmates), did not miss a single class or assignment even though I was consistently getting 40-60% grades, went to EVERY available open hour with my professor... Eventually he said "listen, I see how hard your working, keep doing what you're doing and I won't fail you" (passing qmech was required).
I am now a CPA 😆
And that's how I know that D's get degrees!
Snuffleupagus03 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. I barely graduated undergraduate.
CromulentDucky · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ya, same. Basically, the math works, and just don't try to use reason or experience, as it will lead you astray.
delventhalz · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Related recommendation: PBS Space Time is remarkably good at explaining quantum mechanics to a broader audience. Their weekly explainers are only about fifteen minutes long, but they build on each other and boil complex topics down to their core details. Great way to gain a basic understanding of the subject.
AmericaWasNVRGr8 · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's just matrices, differential equations, and basic field theory for the most part for physical use. it's when you get to theoretical that it's a pain in the ass
BatteryPoweredBrain · 3 points · Posted at 21:10:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same as you; no problem with anything else but when I hit the quantum level my brain started to melt. I started to get it eventually, but fortunately that was the last level I had to take (last level offered). I ended with a degree in Electrical Engineering and eventually a masters; but yeah, that stuff really isn't simple.
Xacto01 · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You picked law over wizardry??
Snuffleupagus03 · 3 points · Posted at 22:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny. I called law school Hogwarts sometimes. We can to learn basically secret magical things that when applied can make things happen (or not happen) in the real world.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Snuffleupagus03 · 2 points · Posted at 22:47:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Saved. Thank you.
Laservampire · 3 points · Posted at 00:42:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved maths and got as far as calculus before my brain stopped comprehending. I do land surveying now, geometry I can deal with!
gizamo · 3 points · Posted at 01:00:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here, except QM pushed me into programming.
Here's to failing our ways into careers 🍻
ststeveg · 3 points · Posted at 03:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a cousin who is a math researcher specializing in number theory and cryptography. She is an expert and spends her days doing something of which I cannot even conceive.
RageQ3 · 3 points · Posted at 04:19:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Engineering prof with some quantum engineering background explaining to our class how he was needing to complete a massive differential equation just for the probability’s alone. “You give it to the mathematicians and they get back to you in like... a week?” Like what.
rickjamesia · 3 points · Posted at 04:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had about the same with chemistry. I got to quantum mechanics (they called it Physical Chemistry, but the book says Quantum Chemistry) and that marked the beginning of the end where I went into programming instead.
SeventhAlkali · 3 points · Posted at 05:05:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They say an electron has a certain probability of being in any given point. All I know is I have a 0% of being in that class the next morning
justtogetridoflater · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was the journey from there to being a lawyer?
Snuffleupagus03 · 5 points · Posted at 20:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics was the mid point. It’s a field that had the math I really enjoyed and could still do. But when I tried to find work I found the stuff I really liked really called for a law degree to advance.
rmprice222 · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude (or dudett) I'm very jelly of how smart you are.
Snuffleupagus03 · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lawyers have good PR but a lot of us are not particularly smart.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read a statistic one time that said almost 30% of physics majors become lawyers. There was no explanation as to why.
Snuffleupagus03 · 3 points · Posted at 22:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anecdotally there is a lot of overlap between legal thinking and mathematical/scientific thinking. Of certain types anyway. Axioms and theorems can be tools you apply in a logical fashion to formulate new theorems or solutions to problems. Constitutions and statutes and black letter law can similarly forma foundation upon which you use logic to draw new rules and/or conclusions.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That seems to make sense. I did quite enjoy my law and Constitution classes in which we studied famous cases.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 00:47:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can verify that. Currently a grad student studying logic and have definitely considered learning some law.
angry_snek · 2 points · Posted at 22:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find the theory behind quantum mechanics really interesting and I think I kind of get the basics of it, but doing any kind of actual math on it is beyond me.
somethinglowley · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my goodness, same! I loved physics until I took first semester Quantum mechanics. I finished my undergraduate degree barely and am going to graduate school for engineering.
SealTeamSugma · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I count with my fingers and can barely do math in my head. Dont lose any sleep, pal.
Eddie_The_Deagle · 2 points · Posted at 00:50:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's college for ya.
anarchophysicist · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No shit? Exact same here. I started on the path to a graduate degree in physics but was looking at 12 years until a PhD or 3 years until a JD.
Plus I would’ve been a mediocre physicist. I am very good at law. And it feels good to be good at what you do.
Stamboolie · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was just watching a John Conway (RIP) lecture - he said any one who says they understand quantum mechanics is a liar.
Einteiler · 2 points · Posted at 03:19:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was the same in university, though I finished my degree. I had a physics professor who met her husband in undergrad. She went on to get her doctorate in physics, while he said "fuck this" to QM and E&M. That was her story for why they both ahd a bachelors in physics, but he had a doctorate in philosophy, while she remained physics.
harrypottermcgee · 2 points · Posted at 04:27:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to come off as anti-intellectual but something about physics diminishes the further it gets from dropping rocks off a bridge with a stopwatch.
DesalinationByTheSun · 2 points · Posted at 05:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow we flip flopped.
I didn't ever do well in math despite finding it cool, so I ended up hating it. Never understood it due to missing some core basics growing up. Picked a major that was the furthest thing from math I could go (liberal arts). Purposely put off my math requirements until right before I planned to transfer. Ended up in a geology class and accidentally fell in love. For once math made sense! Physics? Not a tug of war in my brain anymore. Stats? EASY. Chemistry/Bio connections to math? BOOM IT MAKES SENSE. Relativity? Interesting! I am so excited for quantum mechanics after doing an intro course.
Am now a geophysics major 😂
BlueMyLoad69 · 2 points · Posted at 05:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We live in a simulation. The Quantum Realm is the level of scale at which the “builders” started to cut corners in order to save RAM (or ROM fuck I forget how it works). Anyway, just like in Super Mario 3 when you can move forward AND backward, they don’t keep track of all the opponents and shit. You move forward - see a turtle walking toward you up on a ledge, it drops down then you turn around and run backwards for a bit, turn around again and run back toward the turtle. Low and behold, it’s back on the ledge moving toward you again. Impossible you say? No. Of course not. If you move far enough away the game doesn’t continue to track its movement, that would mean it has to track the movement of every damn turtle in the level. It just resets. The Quantum Realm is like this. They save processing power by only really paying attention to it when you’re looking. When you look away it’s all just conceptual.
Snuffleupagus03 · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, these things do tend to make me believe in the simulation theory. For me it's wave particle duality and probability clouds.
Modeling every sub atomic particle, and photon, as a particle would take tons of processing power. But if there were circumstances where you could just treat it like a wave, it really saves a lot of modeling. It's just a probability wave, an equation, only when something interacts with it directly do you need it to be in a specific location, and the simulation picks a specific particle location to simulate.
BlueMyLoad69 · 1 points · Posted at 12:00:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is wave particle duality the concept behind the double slit experiment? That’s what pushed me over the edge and made me believe in Sim Theory. That and special relativity, that just screams “video game physics” to me.
Snuffleupagus03 · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep.
sbbod313 · 4 points · Posted at 19:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“If you think you understand Quantum Mechanics... you don’t understand Quantum Mechanics” -Richard Feynman
jtobiasbond · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Different meaning to IANAL
tegalad42 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I the only one who struggled way more with relativity than with QM? It was very hard to wrap my head around
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 00:42:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. Relativity sucked for me mostly because the historical viewpoint is great and all, but fuck if it just doesn’t give you a straightforward explanation of reference frames. Reading through the aether experiments is a real bitch. It’s a lot simpler in terms of linear algebra. Basically everything is a Lorentz transformation and things are smaller when they speed up and time goes slower when YOU speed up.
ICWhatsNUrP · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never really had to deal with relativity, lucky me. I had issues with thermodynamics. I could do the equations and remember what they were used for, so I passed but it just wasn't interesting to me.
CaHaBu56 · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aaaah I've always been good at maths, logic and the like - loved algebra with a passion. But ask me to make some calculation off my head and I'm stumped.
Physics also bored me to death.
jambudz · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motion of objects is the worst kind of physics. Like the absolute worst. QED and QCD are fun though. But like they are almost pure mathematics. Which is wonderful.
pricelessbrew · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally get that. Physics research, and math major. I hate myself so I took every quantum, nuclear, and modern physics class hat was available.
I still have freaking no idea how it works. Sure, I can do the math and regurgitate some of the answers. But I could never explain it to someone.
marsglow · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that’s sort of the way the law works.
lemortede3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dang so is my HS math teacher
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The calculus isn’t all that bad...to start. Your solutions are wave solutions and pop up in fluid dynamics, thermodynamics, etc. Things you learn in an ODE or PDE. But it gets weird when you introduce applications like delta functions and residues it’s not ok.
dingodoyle · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For someone with a math background but nothing beyond 1st year physics, do you have a YouTube video that introduces quantum mechanics at a higher level than the info graphic type videos aimed at general public, so with equations and all?
Sanquinity · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the thing with QM. Even the top experts in the field don't understand it. They just know the formulae seem to work as far as we can tell. But why? And how? No clue.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Off topic I know but I think we put wayy too much faith in the theory of relativity. No one questions it anymore. It's a theory. A theory that a scientist who died nearly a hundred years ago came up with. We base almost everything we know about the universe off of thsi THEORY but what if wrong? We refuse to even challange it at this point but it could be so wrong that everything we know about the universe based of of e=mc2 could be dead wrong. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. If the theory of relativity is wrong then so many things we think are impossible could actually be possible we just dont know how to read the data. It's like reading German when you can only read english. You can pronounce the words but you have no idea what they mean and sometimes the spelling is the same but the meaning is very different.
That's not to say relativity is wrong. I am only saying we shouldn't just assume it's right. we wont even consider the data refuting it.
Snuffleupagus03 · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
there's data refuting it? I mean, sure it's a theory, but it is a tested theory, and proven correct over and over again. Satellites couldn't work without relativity based adjustments. If it's 'wrong' then it is wrong in the same way that Newton's physics was wrong, it is a set of equations that are such precise estimations of what they are measuring that they get the right answer in all relevant circumstances within which they are used.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:47:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alot of data is thrown out becuase it is assumed to be wrong. I'm not saying it is wrong I'm just saying we shouldn't stop challenging it and from what I have seen out side of fringe science it is accepted as fact at this point. Your comment basicly summed up what I was trying to say. It's wrong in the same way newton physics are wrong if we assume it's wrong at all. We should never stop challenging accepted ideas .
Apologies if that was completely incompreheinsible I started drinking after I made my original comment. And apparently I am a rambling drunk according to my mates.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did the exact opposite! I was in a "public law" class (I don't know the English name), I left and never came back. I'm now studying subatomic physics
alteredxenon · 1 points · Posted at 10:44:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a lawyer too, and while it may be interesting, I deeply regret not going into science. Miss chemistry, math and some of the physics. Love to read popular science books. And very glad when I can help my kid with some calculus ang geometry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:48:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I’ve heard you don’t understand quantum mechanics period, it works but it’s not actual math, it’s sort of make believe, at least that’s my take
SuurAlaOrolo · 1 points · Posted at 06:40:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a lawyer who wants to go back to school for physics. This is not inspiring.
hogscraper · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:00 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my biggest disappointments was getting to university and realizing I wasn't actually going to learn any secrets of the universe but rather a lot of things that might be true so long as the assumption it's based on is true and if the assumption that assumption is based on is true and if the assumption that assumption is based on is true and only if we're on the right track at all.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way its taught is just baloney. It's better to read the original works than modern text books on the subject.
For example schrodinger's cat was intended to prove QM false, bell's inequality doesnt prove QM is correct (though bells inquality is often touted to, Bell himself rebuffed such remarks upon learning of Bohm's work)
In short, Quantum Mechanics doesnt make sense because it's incomplete.
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
QM isn't incomplete.
OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 00:54:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry you’ve already spent so much time arguing this point. Honestly drives me a bit batty that this guy is bringing up consistency and Gödel.
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 00:56:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's just an armchair philosopher that has no idea what he's talking about.
As soon as I mentioned I'd taken a few QM courses as part of my PhD work (though it's not part of my thesis, I'm not a physics major), and told him to talk to me on that level, he shut up really quick.
ngoleo · -1 points · Posted at 02:57:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I shut up real quick or did I point out that the bad ass, ace physicists, are in defense; Academia has been a laughingstock SINCE COPENHAGEN.
I didnt even say it again, I told you to go back and read my previous remark, because you hadn't advanced past it.
This is all public record, (that ww2 spies confirmed that heisenberg and company were jokes, not even close to nuclear arms) so if your publishing it's because your work is worthless, that's the real world miss (I'm concluding you're a woman at this point since you seem divorced from reality) "grad student" working on quantum gravity who's not in physics 🤣
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 02:59:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you mine the tin and make the foil yourself?
Or do you just buy it in bulk?
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 03:35:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 03:36:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't work for or with the government.
What the fuck are you talking about?
ngoleo · -1 points · Posted at 03:52:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 03:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go home and get some tendies, bigbrain. You're run out of gbp.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry ma'am, I prefer coherent sentences from American gunslingers not British jibberish. Toodles
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 04:10:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you done, troll?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Done explaining to the brit lass about how her 100th monkey effect didnt impress. 👍
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 04:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is calling me a British woman supposed to be an insult?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not at all, I think you should be a proud British woman. British women are a popular sport fuq
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 04:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know. My wife is British.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 05:43:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gosh what a rude conversation. And in reply to a comment on my comment no less. Hopefully he can get some help.
thedudeabides138 · 3 points · Posted at 05:44:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, he's a troll. You either ignore them or troll them back.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 08:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been fun. It turned out that the grad student working on quantum gravity couldn't explain how quantum mechanics resolves the inconsistency in Everett's thesis(it doesnt obviously) resorted to ad hominem attacks and then got word lashed there too. Glad you found a support group, you'll probably need that more often than not.
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 08:11:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you make up a conversation in your head and then pretend you had it with me?
What the fuck are you talking about?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 08:39:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're not the one that claimed QM was complete and consistent then why would you think you were being referred to?
If that was your claim, go ahead and tell me again how quantum gravity is the TOE 🤣
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 13:30:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said it was a ToE... What the fuck are you talking about?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:37 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was pointing out how you're a failure, and how physics has essentially been stunted for 60 years because of half arse physicists that want their make believe fantasies to be real more than they want to do good science.
Vagueness, subjectivity, and indeterminism, are not forced on us by experimental facts, but by deliberate theoretical choice -John S Bell
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:30 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, problems with reading comprehension I see.
Perhaps that's why you dont recognize a universal creation system as a supreme being, but pretend to specialize in studying it.
Is it that you dont understand hiearchy or that you dont understand causation. 🤣 really it's because you dont believe in causation isn't it 🤣
You're a solipist physicist? Really a walking contradiction, too stupid to recognize his own fallacies.
Let me ask you this, do you understand the definition of create and the definition of atheism?
Come back when you've pulled your head out of your ass. Dont try to teach anyone, you'll get your ass hairs on them talking while your head is buried up there.
Anyhow, weep to yourself, if you have a rebuttal that isnt just tears then lets see it.
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 01:59:59 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sincerely urge you to seek the help of a mental health professional.
Nothing of what you said reflects anything I've said or my views. You are having a conversation with yourself and I'm concerned for your mental health.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:07:52 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, so then you agree that quantum mechanics is incomplete AND inconsistent, and that there is obviously (by definition) a supreme being that is omniscient and omnipresent?
Or youre just too weak to defend your positions(contradictions)?
Why fish for debates elsewhere if you would cower before me?
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:10 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't agree with you.
But I also don't consider you of any kind of sound mind.
Please speak to a mental health professional.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:18:34 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You maam, are a chicken shit. I assume you're a woman, because only a woman would be so timid before a man.
Perhaps you're a man that's not in touch with reality enough to know how to modulate your hormones; admitting the fact that youre a biophysical robot would certaintly constitute self violence to the solipist atheist that thinks quantum mechanics is complete and consistent 🤣.
I'll recognize your fearful retreat as cowardice and recognition of the futility of championing your contradictions, even from the safety of the internet.
(I am trained as a mental health professional, aside from physics, theyre intricately linked)
Dont forget to chime in if you grow a pair or figure out a way to resolve your contradictions without presenting buffoonery.
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:01 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
I particularly enjoyed my practicum, I taught a group at a foster home to not be chicken shit little bitches.
My analysis of you, you had no father, or two mothers.
You dont have any masculinity, and seem to think displays of masculinity are unhealthy, projecting your timidity even through the internet.
Life must be hard for you.
A well bred fella would rise to a challenger with gusto, you give yourself away.... then again, a well bred fella wouldnt hold your positions.
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ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:02 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now how others percieve you is a lie? 🤣 riiiiight. You didnt have to be a coward Being sackless must be quite a disability, good luck.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could be right. It could be complete. I'm certain that its inconsistent though. So I guess, from the inconsistency, I conclude it must be incomplete since my bias is that reality must be consistent.
thedudeabides138 · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's definitely not inconsistent.
Its more likely it is incomplete before it's inconsistent.
You're free to name some inconsistencies though, or perceived inconsistencies you have.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 22:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ok, well I've read many papers that detail inconsistencies, Hugh Everett's "theory of the universal wavefunction" might go down easiest for you, since he forwards the bias' I assume you'd hold.
It hit me that I can detail it's incompleteness must be essentially true. That is, quantum mechanics cannot be complete, and so quantum mechanics is composed of half-truths, or contingent truths.
It doesnt include gravity
Now, after LIGO's results, the riddle of how to interpret quantum mechanics was more obviously solved by de-broglie and bohm;
LIGO results => Spacetime is vibrating
It's a long journey to go from space time is vibrating to non local hidden variables; as Bohm describes the space-time vibrations as "active information" in "configuration space". His texts are a lot longer than Everett's but I suggest his books too. You probably won't like the implications of Bohms work because it dashes most of the superstitions around Quantum effects.
It's also public record that Bohms work went into the atomic bomb, while the German physicists were a laughingstock
All in all, I dont think anyone serious thinks QM was complete or correct. Really it probably shouldn't even be taught.
thedudeabides138 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I should have known you had no idea what you're talking about.
Do some actual graduate work in the field and then get back to me.
I admit my expertise isn't in QM, but I took a few courses during my PhD to satisfy some requirements.
But I definitely know more than you. Stop being a condescending ass and do some actual work in the field.
No_NowyTends · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the hell are you talking about? Quantum mechanics is perfectly consistent, and it can certainly be used to describe gravity.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If you've done graduate work in the field then you should have already read what I've suggested and you should know quantum mechanics is incomplete AND it's inconsistent. Or you're just full of it.
Now you're saying QM is complete and consistent and can describe gravity 🤣
Maybe it's just semantics, if what you're trying to appeal is that QM is "self-consistent" that might be true if you include the contradictions in the axioms 🤣
So if QM is complete and consistent, and you're well read in the field, then how is the inconsistency pointed out in universal wavefunction resolved by QM?
What a joke.
(Take it up with Godel mr grad student 🤣 or you havent read that either)
No_NowyTends · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I haven't read bohm's work because he's a fukcing joke.
So since I haven't read his work, please do tell me, for example, why quantum mechanics cannot describe gravity. You really seem to know more about this then my colleagues
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll refer you to the second to last paragraph of my longest reply.
No_NowyTends · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose what I'm not understanding is how my work on quantum gravity is somehow inconsistent. On the one hand, it's obvious that the models I'm working with describe gravity and are perfectly well behaved quantum systems, but on the other hand some philosophers wrote some books several decades ago claiming that the universal wavefunction is inconsistent!!
In none of my calculations has this inconsistency of the wavefunction become apparent... I suppose I'd like to understand what you're talking about so I can make sure the papers my colleagues and I have published don't have any mistakes!
The references you mentioned look pretty long though... If you actually have any idea of what you're talking about, you'd be able to give me a quick summary- would you mind doing that please?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better question, why are you arguing that quantum mechanics is complete while busy trying to make that statement true? Do all of your publications struggle with tense?
No_NowyTends · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We understand that the Navier-Stokes equations describe fluid mechanics. We don't understand turbulence. We know that in principle the equations describe the phenomenon of turbulence, and numerical simulations show this, but it takes a lot of work do understand exactly how this works in detail.
Modern work on quantum gravity is largely the same. We have models of quantum gravity which we know through mostly indirect reasons describe things like Hawking radiation. However, there is a lot we don't understand about how these things actually work. So most of what we do in quantum gravity is analogous to trying to understand turbulence in the Navier-Stokes equations -- we have the equations, and they are perfectly well defined, but solving them is the challenge.
Edit: In other words, we aren't spending much time trying to show that quantum mechanics is consistent. We think it's obviously consistent and use it to calculate. And so far (after decades and decades), we haven't run into any inconsistencies, so I have very little reason to doubt that we were wrong in thinking that it's obviously consistent.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hawking radiation and firewalls, no inconsistency as long as we assume no inconsistencies, oh my.
No_NowyTends · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I think you are misunderstanding. We do not assume anything. We have well defined models- we have Hamiltonians and Hilbert spaces. We can ask well defined questions about these models, and write down expressions for the wavefunctions. The systems we study are well defined, if there are any inconsistencies, they must be between some assumptions we make about how the systems behave, and how they actually behave. But that just means that these assumptions are wrong.
Everett wrote his thesis decades and decades ago. At the time we did not understand decoherence- with our modern understanding of decoherence and classicallisation, it is clear how to describe closed systems with multiple observers. I don't know what Everrets particular objections were, but it's very understandable that he had incorrect assumptions and/or made mistakes because the subject is complicated.
In science we try not to take the work of any one person at face value- even the best physicists make mistakes. Especially if their work is in conflict with a body of other work. And especially if their work was done on a subject of which our understanding had radically improved over the following decades.
The same goes for Bohm's work on pilot wave theory. It's interesting stuff, but it had clear issues in describing the real world (it isn't clear if it is compatible with relativity), while quantum mechanics seems to be pretty well suited for describing the real world. Elevating Bohm's ancient work over the whole of the past few decades of physics research just because of some philosophical objections about determinism or whatever is unscientific and I can't take that sort of thinking seriously.
Edit: to more directly address your comment about hawking radiation and firewalls-- We can, with no assumptions about internal consistency, directly study hawking radiation and firewalls in quantum mechanical models of gravity. In fact, we have such precise control over some of these models that we can do exact computer simulations which match the results of calculations. For example, you can ask "what is the quantum mechanical amplitude for a hawking quanta emmited from a black hole in this model in a particular initial state to be in another particular state?". That's a well defined question, in some models you can express the question in terms of a formula which the computer can solve and find the exact answer, and then you can go and calculate using quantum gravity calculations and find agreement. In general you cannot get this level of precision, but it is clear that the questions are well defined mathematically and have definite answers. Where can the inconsistency arise?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never mentioned any philosophical objections to determinism, rather I'd regard a physicist who concludes indeterminacy as a failure. It seems like you're conflating modern work, (even m-theory?) with quantum mechanics.
The topic wasn't whether a TOE is possible, it was whether QM is incomplete or inconsistent.
QM was long ago recognized to be inconsistent and incomplete, you seem to agree with that but take exception because there are so many offshoot models that do away with the problems of QM.
Everett presented one offshoot, bohm another, quantum gravity is another.
It's a promising field with a lot of potential that seems to have been going nowhere for 60 years (other than stumbling over inconsistencies)
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I referenced Hugh Everett's thesis, 'theory of the universal wavefunction.' In it he kick starts his many worlds interpretation by showing that quantum mechanics was inconsistent in a system with more than one observer, not much different than as Schrodinger did.
He does so by having the reader consider a scientist on a spaceship doing experiments, being visited by another scientist. It's really the same as Schrodinger's cat but with a scientist taking measurements instead of a cat dying.
In the debroglie bohm solution the wavefunction is of "configuration space," the particle is always "observed" (there is no collapse of the wavefunction) and it is guided by the wavefunction through configuration space.
So Everett would say quantum mechanics is inconsistent, bohm would say incomplete.
I also mentioned Godel, who would say it must be either inconsistent or incomplete.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck are you shoehorning Gödel into this? Gödel incompleteness is about extensions of PA, not QM. How the fuck are you encoding the natural numbers in QM?
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Godel's theorem is essentially a restatement of Russell's paradox, about self referential (improperly defined)sets/elements, and is also linked to turings proof.
The relevance is the impossibility of the existence of a universal set/description/program that is both consistent and complete.
Now the solution to Russell's Paradox and limiting parameter to turings proof etc, is properly defined sets and elements.
The physical translation is the idea that a complete and consistent universal description isnt possible.
To compute everything you would have to compute yourself computing everything.
Only the totality can be a universal quantum cellular automaton type turing machine.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Lol bud I don’t need you to explain Gödel to me. I study logic and set theory. I’m telling you that you’re applying the incompleteness theorems in a situation where they don’t apply.
ngoleo · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, go ahead and explain how a formalism/description can be both complete and consistent from WITHIN the formalism/description under analysis.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What you don’t seem to be understanding is that that dichotomy only applies to logical theories which can express all of Peano Arithmetic. Hence why something like ZF cannot express its own consistency. Any model of ZF includes the ordinals which encode PA.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 02:45:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I understand that YOU dont see the applicability. I could restate it, but you didnt even compute my remark well enough to make your reply relevant to it.
Let's zoom out, and be more broad and general, as I had already steared the topic, since you inquired as to the references relevance.
Can an element of a set completely and consistently describe the set it is an element of? (Russell's paradox)
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not Russell’s paradox.
No thanks I think I’ve said my piece and I don’t feel a compulsion to prove my knowledge to you.
ngoleo · 0 points · Posted at 03:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
*That's not the way you've learned Russell's paradox and you have a sad case of functional fixedness that inhibits your understanding.
Typical really, happens if you don't do proper analysis to begin with; when you're first learning the concepts.
I suggest you try mastery before moving from a new concept. That way you aren't so easily confused when an old framework presents itself in a fashion novel to you.
yeahnahsorrymate · 1317 points · Posted at 16:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I don't even know what those two words mean together.
jeffzebub · 2746 points · Posted at 19:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics perform maintenance on Quantums. This needs to be done every 6 months or 5000 miles whichever comes first.
marytodd455 · 125 points · Posted at 19:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget you have to recalibrate the gigaquarks every 3,000 picofarads
[deleted] · 39 points · Posted at 19:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Modal D tuning.
cup-o-farts · 14 points · Posted at 21:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody forgets that duh, what they do forget is replacing the turn signal fluid when they do the recalibration. So many broken quantums.
Khyber2 · 11 points · Posted at 22:26:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not broken per se, but I'd like to see you try pulling a dent out of a quark that suddenly couldn't indicate a change in axial spin because some asshole forgot to fill the blinker fluid!
cup-o-farts · 14 points · Posted at 22:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goddamn right, the dent is and isn't there. How the fuck do you fix that!!!
Khyber2 · 9 points · Posted at 22:30:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. Have to use a Schrodinger determinator and those are expensive so we only have one at the shop, and its always locked in fucking Steve's toolbox, the asshole.
cup-o-farts · 6 points · Posted at 23:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking Steve.
silasfelinus · 51 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is really just propaganda from the quantum maintenance industry. I get my quanta maintained about once a year/10k miles and have never had a problem.
Khyber2 · 11 points · Posted at 22:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah but this increases the rate of quantum decay and entropy by a factor of pi, but with as cheap as quanta are getting these days...
electrixcar · 21 points · Posted at 19:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what they say, time is relative
AmumuPro · 4 points · Posted at 19:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought time isn't real though. So how does this make sense?
AeliosZero · 15 points · Posted at 19:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually time is real. Time slows down and speeds up around bodies of mass like planets and stars. Early satillites and probes in space had extremely precise clocks, yet, when they returned to earth, they found the clocks in space to be out of sync with the same clocks on earth. Since then, clocks in space had to be slowed down to compensate for the time dilation.
Think the movie "Interstellar'
Gerroh · 14 points · Posted at 20:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's definitely a thing we call 'time', but there is some debate as to what it is. "Time is a dimension" is a common school of thought among scientists, and I'm pretty comfortable with it. There are other ways to look at it, too (one common one being that it's just a progression of things and not something inherent to the universe as a whole). The "there is no such thing as time" stuff comes from pretentious turds looking at hours and minutes, realizing those are man-made constructs and concluding that time isn't real because they haven't made the leap to realizing hours and minutes are units of measurement just like meters and (for the Americans) furlongs.
nonoglorificus · 6 points · Posted at 20:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m an American and have never heard anybody talk about furlongs unless they’re commenting about my dog’s haircut
GuyName73 · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your dog has a haircut?
nonoglorificus · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She’s a Lhasa apso. Their fur grows super long if you don’t cut it regularly, like humans hair does. I guess you could call it a furcut? A groom?
risheeb1002 · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But how does that work? Clocks don't measure time, they count at predefined intervals.
AmumuPro · 3 points · Posted at 23:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What we think as time is a measurement to the speed of the universe. Think about it how you would measure anything else. Also a second is really weird if you look at what we define as a second now.
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that Lain as your pfp?
AmumuPro · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes
ThegreatPee · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are Alabama people.
electrixcar · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god
mole_of_dust · 4 points · Posted at 20:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We all know that quantum mechanics are totally sketchy, though. Those particles aren't getting any wear from travel, they're simply appearing on the other side.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but just remember you can't know both
b-tchlasagna · 12 points · Posted at 19:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wAt
dervalient · 4 points · Posted at 19:30:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See your owner's manual for the manufacturer's recommendations
10username1010 · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/angryupvote
____DEADPOOL_______ · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I don't like about them is how they make stuff up to sell you services you don't really need.
JeepPilot · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True Story: I used to have a VW Quantum.
soma510 · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LOL best.
mypostisbad · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if they happen simultaneously?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have any orbital mechanics by chance? My Tesla got stuck in space.
freakicho · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Is there a subreddit for science shitposts like this?
Khyber2 · 3 points · Posted at 22:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We just call it reddit
fyreguy212 · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hard to get parts for because of decay
Mufasca · 2 points · Posted at 02:05:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So every few tiny fractions of a microsecond, depending on the vehicle? Is time dilation an important factor?
Tau_Squared · 2 points · Posted at 05:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/explainlikeimcalvin
HeftyJohnson1982 · 1 points · Posted at 07:03:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best response I have ever seen
Mita82142 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
LOLOLOL
SOwED · 0 points · Posted at 19:41:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Introducing the new Tesla Quantum with lifetime warranty. Keep your Tesla in tip top shape for 100,000 miles thanks to our Quantum Mechanics.
alphaxeath · 44 points · Posted at 19:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum essentially means very very VERY small. Mechanics in this case means a set of theories, principals, and equations that describe how a system works. So quantum mechanics is the mechanics of systems of quantum scale.
That is nearly my entire understanding of quantum mechanics.
A-Grey-World · 21 points · Posted at 19:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Pretty much. Quantum is not just very very small, but the smallest possible quantity of something.
Kind of comes from how how you measure things, the same root as "quantity".
A lot of quantum mechanics is around these minimums, like the Pauli Exclusion Principle etc, and results in various minimum quantities of things - planks length, planks time.
Basically everything is quantised. Everything has to have discrete values.(worth reading the reply corrections)BlazeOrangeDeer · 11 points · Posted at 21:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not everything is quantized, just a lot of important and interesting things. For example light comes in discrete particles called photons, so they are quantized in that way, but the energy of those photons is determined by the frequency which isn't quantized. Any frequency is possible on a continuous spectrum, from radio waves to light to gamma rays, and anything in between.
The planck length and planck time are also not the smallest unit of length or time. They are just a rough estimate of when the quantum properties of gravity ruin the precision of any measurements smaller than that. Space and time are treated as continuous in quantum mechanics, and any attempts to make them quantized are speculative.
A-Grey-World · 5 points · Posted at 22:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good point. I was incorrect.
As Einstein put it.
colouredmirrorball · 3 points · Posted at 22:26:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only the properties of bound particles are quantised (electron in atom, nuclear particles in nucleus, ... ) but if they're in free space, their properties can still be continuous.
ncnotebook · 5 points · Posted at 21:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELI5:
quantum = the smallest things in the universe
mechanics = the physics
quantum mechanics = how tiny things work.
Turns out that particles follow some really stupid fucking rules.
colouredmirrorball · 6 points · Posted at 22:23:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not 100%. Quantum shares a root with quantity. It means something you can count. As opposed to something that is continuous.
For example, an electron in an atom. The electron has a certain amount of energy as it orbits the nucleus. But there are only a countable amount of allowed energy values that the electron can have. It can have allowed value E1 or E2, or E3 and so on, but not anything in between! It's like if you start your car at zero speed and accelerate to 100 kph, but you're not going smoothly from 0 to 100 but instead jump from 0 to 20, then from 20 to 40 etc without ever being at 10 or 30 kph. The allowed energy values are discrete and countable, which is where the "quant" comes from.
But it's not actually related to the size of the particle you're describing. A quantum is not the smallest thing in the universe, it's not even related to size. It refers to the properties of particles that turn out to be countable.
ncnotebook · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. Then again, it's hard to explain that intuitively to a layman.
Im__not__creative_ · 3 points · Posted at 19:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To give you a serious answer, it's about scale. Classical mechanics describe how the world we see every day works (e.g. newton's laws of motion). Quantum mechanics describe how the tiny world works (e.g. how subatomic particles interact). And annoyingly enough there is a difference between those.
Technically, some quantum mechanics principles still apply to the classical world, but the effects are so tiny that we can ignore it. For example, due to Heisenberg's uncertainty principle we can never truly know the exact position of anything, but the uncertainty of the position of anything we can actually see is so tiny that it makes absolutely no difference to us. On the other hand, electrons could be just about anywhere around the atom. We only know that there is a certain probability of it being in a certain place at a certain time (there's way more to this but I don't want to go into too much detail)
ThisIanGuy · 6 points · Posted at 19:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum doesn't really mean small it means you are dealing with things that are quantized. That just means that things that physicists would want to study, ie. Energy, no longer act as one continuous stream of possibilities but rather change in discrete jumps. For example, the hydrogen atom has an electron that can live in different energy levels, but it can't live at any old energy, that electron can only be at certain predetermined amounts. We can tell this because when that electron loses energy it will emit a photon (light) at the same energy for a given transition. That means an electron in a hydrogen atom can't be between those levels. Effects like these mostly only happen at atomic or smaller scales, hence why the word quantum is associated with the word small. Mechanics just means the study of the effects and behaviors of said systems.
mitayga · -3 points · Posted at 19:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum means quantity or amount.
chronoflect · 2 points · Posted at 03:15:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is correct; not sure why you're being downvoted. It's breaking what was once thought of as continuous things into discrete quantities (such as energy). Quantity mechanics.
mitayga · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks :) just people who somehow understand it even less than I do!
costlysalmon · 4 points · Posted at 19:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't even know what those words mean separately
randomtechguy142857 · 8 points · Posted at 20:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Mechanics": the physics of motion and how a system changes over time.
"Quantum": comes from 'quantised', meaning 'can only take specific values'. In this case it's talking about energy. Normally, if something has energy, that energy can seemingly be any number; however, if you look closely enough, in a lot of cases an object can only have certain specific amounts of energy (called "energy levels") — it can't have an amount of energy that's in between those levels.
Quantum mechanics is the study of what happens when the fact that energy can only have certain values becomes relevant. With most things in everyday life, the energy levels are so close together that you can pretty much ignore that they're separate and pretend that the energy can be any number you want. But with really small stuff (and in a couple other extreme situations), you can't ignore the energy levels. That's what quantum mechanics is all about.
The_Stickup · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao same
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A quanta is a small package of energy. The crazy stuff is that we noticed that matter can only exchange energy between each other is packages of quanta. Like if matter had a economy system, that instead of dollar you had energy, and instead of a cent you had a quanta.
On the big scale of things, you cant notice a single "cent" but if you look at really tiny stuff making microtransactions between each other, you will notice a lot of weird things going on. Thats why "Quantum" physics.
The mechanics of something is the apparatus, like the structure and its purpose.
Quantum Mechanics is therefore trying to understand the whole structure of those small stuff doing these weird things.
colouredmirrorball · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not limited to energy. Things like average position, momentum, angular momentum can also be quantised.
Jtcr2001 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mechanics is the area of physics concerned with the motions of macroscopic objects.
A quantum is the minimum amount of any physical entity involved in an interaction.
Quantum mechanics is a fundamental theory in physics describing the properties of nature on an atomic scale.
Quantum mechanics explains the aspects of nature at ordinary (macroscopic) scales but extends this description to the small (atomic and subatomic) scales.
Nuffsaid98 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "rules" that describe the behaviour of things when shit gets really small. Common sense avails you naught. Atoms and tiny crap don't act like miniature planets with orbits and whatnot. Stuff isn't really "there" in any predictable consistent way. Some "things" can be in two places at once or have a chance of being in a whole bunch of places and only when you measure do they get their shit together and decide "where" they are. So now you know less about how fast they are moving so you figure that out pretty accurately which means you now know fuck all about where the thing is.
We live in the macro world and all the tools we have , our common sense, lets us down at the quantum level. Shit is whack (Stewie ref). Up is down or strange or charmed. If you think you are beginning to understand then you aren't.
You are welcome.
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, this is gonna sound whack.
Everything is made of smaller things.
A person is made of organs, like the stomach, which are made of tissues, which are made of cells, which are made of a variety of substances called molecules, like water, or H20.
H20 stands for DiHydrogen MonOxide
Di(2) Mono(1)
So a single water molecule contains 2 Hydrogen and one Oxygen.
"One Oxygen what?" I hear you ask.
Atom.
An Atom is the smallest piece of something that anything can be and still behave like a normal substance, like air, or water, or books, or tables, or chairs.
Atoms make up the periodic table of elements, an element is a collection (such as a pile, a scoop, a solid bar, a puddle, or a gas cloud) of identical Atoms.
Gold is an element.
Water is a molecule, because it is a substance made of multiple elements.
As I said earlier, an Atom is the smallest a thing can be and still be a thing.
But we can go smaller.
Every Atom is made of smaller pieces, known as Protons(+), Electrons(-), and Neutrons(0).
(Atoms are mostly empty space.
Imagine a sewing needle.
If the tip of a sewing needle were the central position for an atom, and the nucleus of the atom were that size, the electrons would be orbiting at a distance of over half a football field away.)
What makes atoms different is how MANY protons and electrons they have.
Now, we can still go smaller.
Each proton, neutron, and electron is made of smaller. . . things, called. . . quarks?
I think?
Something about how quarks move gives the different particles they make their properties of electric charge, and a ton of other wierd shit happens too.
Quantum mechanics, basically, is the study of how things work on the scale of quarks, and on the scale of extremely small times frames, sometimes separate, and sometimes simultaneously.
For scale, If an atom were the size of a pea, a human cell would be the size of a cruise ship.
ICWhatsNUrP · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easy way to think of it. Objects behave in two different ways based on size. In the normal world, we have Newton's laws. When you get down to the size of an atom, Newton isn't very accurate. So we call this the Quantum size, and the mechanics portion are the laws that replace Newton.
royce32 · 0 points · Posted at 19:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How matter behaves and interacts with each other and energy at the infinitesimally small scale .
luhsya · 28 points · Posted at 18:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the only thing i understand in quantum mechanics is the basics of heisenberg uncertainty principle. when it was taught in my undergrad, i kinda just accepted it's a thing. but recently, ofc, via Youtube university, i learned it's a phenomenon that makes sense: 'observing' a particle also changes its state, because light hitting, let's say, an electrons, changes that electron's state
A-Grey-World · 19 points · Posted at 19:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's stranger than that though. It's not as simple as changing what it's doing by banging a photon into it. It's not that you don't know of the state because you can't look at it. It's actually not in any state until you look at it.
Look at the delayed choice experiments!
psyjg8 · 7 points · Posted at 22:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it is in "a" state - a superposition of them.
elebolt · 19 points · Posted at 19:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can even think of it as something like this: If you measure the temperature of something hot with a cold thermometer, you're bound to make whatever you're measuring colder than it was before. So by measuring it you're actually altering it. There are a lot of forms of this, but this was the simplest I could think of.
Kowzorz · 7 points · Posted at 21:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heisenberg uncertainty applies to waves on a mathematical level too, not just on a physical practicality level.
A great video on the nature of the math side of uncertainty.
gcross · 3 points · Posted at 00:56:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That actually isn't true. Even if you had the ability to perfectly measure a particle without disturbing it, you still could not perfectly measure its position and momentum simultaneously because these quantities do not even exist with perfect precision simultaneously. There isn't an intuitive way to understand this because in our classical sensibilities the position and momentum of an object are two completely independent quantities, but in the world of quantum mechanics they are smashed together into a single "wave function" which defines both; roughly speaking, the amplitude of the wave function defines the position distribution, and the amplitude of the Fourier transform (i.e., the frequency distribution) defines the momentum distribution. Put another way, the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle comes from the fact that--at least in the limit--it isn't possible to have a distribution that is simultaneously a single peak (i.e., perfectly defined position) and a perfect sinusoidal wave of a particular frequency (i.e., perfectly defined momentum).
bearsinthesea · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I don't get is how does a particle know it was observed?
Sometimes the way these scenarios are explained, it seems like it stays in a superposition until a sentient being 'knows' the fact of the state?
gcross · 3 points · Posted at 17:17:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best way of understanding what happens is to recognize that the observer is himself or herself a subsystem within the full system consisting of the observer and the particle that is about to be observed. Imagine putting this full system in a perfectly insulated box so that it doesn't interact with the rest of the Universe. Before the observation the observer is in a state that is independent of that of the particle. After the observation, the full state of the system is the superposition of the particle being in one state and the observer seeing it in that state and the particle being in the other state and the observer instead seeing it in that state. From the perspective of the observers in each of these two states, it appears that the wave function has collapsed. However, from the perspective of someone outside the box, the wave function of the system has not collapsed, it has just evolved into what is called an entangled state, which means (roughly) that there is now a correlation between the two subsystems.
So in short, the particle is not smart enough to know when it has been measured, and the observer is not special enough to cause the wave function of the entire Universe to collapse when they perform a measurement; from the perspective of the observer these things might seem to be true, but when you insulate both the observer and the particle from the rest of the Universe then it becomes clear that there is no need for the particle to be so smart or for the observer to be so special to explain what is going on.
[deleted] · 505 points · Posted at 17:53:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anyone who claims they understand quantum mechanics understands less than you about quantum mechanics
[deleted] · 196 points · Posted at 19:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The smarter you are, the more you acknowledge how much you don’t know.
Gernet · 8 points · Posted at 20:05:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more you know, the more you know you don't know shit.
GrimReaper-99 · 6 points · Posted at 20:07:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't know what you don't know.
galaxygirl978 · 4 points · Posted at 20:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the number one reason why I do not get organized religion. How do you know that you are seeking truth in the correct direction when you start by assuming you know what the truth is?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess that’s sort of the faith part in religion. This is one of the reasons why I don’t see myself as a religious person, because I can’t put faith into something I’ve never experienced myself.
GrimReaper-99 · 2 points · Posted at 20:20:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
But if you experience it, it wouldn't be faith then
RabSimpson · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*wouldn’t
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I vaguely label my beliefs as "spiritual" rather than religious. Religion is just the box people use to put around their limited understanding of the universe and all the things in it that cannot be explained by science or immediate understanding.
PM_ME_YOUR_PLECTRUMS · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dunning-Kruger effect.
LouSputhole94 · 1 points · Posted at 15:02:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between a genius and a fool is the fool thinks he knows everything, and the genius thinks he knows nothing.
Scottish_Jeebus · -1 points · Posted at 20:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It takes a certain amount of intelligence to understand how small you are ima indifferent universe the same intelligence lets you appreciate what you have and makes you grateful for life
deezee72 · 30 points · Posted at 20:12:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
During a lecture in my undergrad quantum class, one of my classmates (speaking for the whole class) once blurted out, "but that doesn't make sense! It's so counter-intuitive!"
The professor turned and looked at him, and said, "When I was a grad student, I once said the same thing. But then my professor told me that the experiment says that it's right. If it's counter-intuitive, it's your intuition that has a problem".
I_W_M_Y · 50 points · Posted at 19:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I claim to know absolutely nothing about quantum mechanics then does that mean I know everything about it AND nothing about it at the same time?
chiphead2332 · 28 points · Posted at 19:37:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but your cat dies.
badnewsnobodies · 7 points · Posted at 19:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And lives
PM_ME_WHAT_YOURE_PMd · 45 points · Posted at 19:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Superposition of knowledge.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 21:37:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrödingers dumbass
QuispernyGdunzoidSr · 8 points · Posted at 19:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy gets it (I mean probably)
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:19:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
both states at once
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*Schrödinger enters the cat........
SOwED · 20 points · Posted at 19:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of a misquote there. Anyone who claims to understand quantum mechanics doesn't understand quantum mechanics. Doesn't meant they know less than you. That depends on you.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah I heard that like a year ago so I forgot the quote for the most part
rhi-raven · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As the person below said, what you're thinking of is quantum physics. My dad is a nuclear theoretical physicist. Fairly certain he understands it a decent amount lol
IDontLikePeaches_AMA · 13 points · Posted at 19:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's more true of quantum physics, which is where most of the crazy deeper questions make more sense to ask. Quantum mechanics is more of a mathematical paradigm that, with the right training, can be pretty well understood.
You can understand quantum mechanics just fine if you blindly accept that the mathematics you are doing is a proper representation of the problem at hand. Quantum physics looks for just why that representation works, which might as well be magic to all but a few research physicists out there today. And even those physicists wouldn't claim that they fully understand it.
usrnamechecksout_ · 3 points · Posted at 04:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It still is magic to research physicists, I can assure you. Seeing experimental results validate quantum mechanics in a lab is exciting stuff. We can predict the results accurately and then use the effects to our benefit for various applications. But every experimental quantum physicist will tell you, when they give deep thought into why the results come out the way they do, it still feels like magic.
Physicists just accept the quantum weirdness, and say "welp, that's just the spooky world of atoms and photons, I guess" and move on. We don't really understand "why" just yet, we just accept the results as is. A good place to start reading about quantum is the double slit experiment or the stern-gerlach experiment.
SaftigMo · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understanding the things we know about QM is really not that difficult, the difficult part was finding out what we know about it. It's not intuitive, but it's quite logical if you know the rules. People say it's wack and random, but it's very consistent and always follows the rules, it's just that the rules are not what you would expect.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We're totally in a simulation. Everything exists as a probability function until we observe it to save processing power.
gravityCaffeStocks · 13 points · Posted at 19:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
😒 I'm a physics major and I have the right to say I understand some of the fundamentals of quantum mechanics.. aaand actually know some. I derived the Heisenberg uncertainty principle once.. took some hella math.
Slyndrr · 10 points · Posted at 20:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think lots of people get stuck because they can't stop asking "but why??" or "how?" instead of just being an obedient student and memorizing the rule books. It's different from what we see and observe normally, we just got to accept that in order to learn the subject.
gravityCaffeStocks · 7 points · Posted at 20:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great point, sometimes you just gotta start diving in and try making sense of it later. Took me a solid year before a light bulb went off in my head about Einstein's Equivalence Principle
Anonymousthepeople · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To preface: I know nothing about physics at even a high school level. But, I was thinking you might find Eric Weinstein's latest video on his YouTube channel interesting. I didn't understand a single word, but I know it's more or less talking about re working Einstein's theory of relativity.
Orangusoul · 4 points · Posted at 19:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no evidence at all backing that quote. In the other side he did said Nobody understands QM as a joke.
wifixmasher · 4 points · Posted at 20:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The circumference of your ignorance grows with the area of your knowledge.
NSA_Chatbot · 6 points · Posted at 19:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand small parts of it, specifically how electrons behave in semiconductors. It's really quite interesting how different substrates can force pathways and frequencies reliably.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:36:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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usrnamechecksout_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We understand a description of quantum mechanics mathematically. And we can reliably predict experimental results. But the "why" it happens, we really don't understand.
HoltbyIsMyBae · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I read a baby's book about the subject, so I would say I'm, uh, quite the expert on Quantum Mechanics.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What surprises me the most is all this people that believe in quantum mechanics as it was God. And they write books like "THE SECRET" and they talk about how the universe has the power to make all your wishes. And these kind of books were written by quantum physics scientists...
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what an ignorant person believes about intelligent people.
beesandbirbs · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you say you understand quantum mechanics, you do not
IminPeru · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's exactly how it works with blockchain!
AlsoOneLastThing · 49 points · Posted at 18:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"If you think you understand quantum mechanics, you don't understand quantum mechanics." - Richard Feynman
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I pretended to know italian to freak out my neighbours" - also Richard Feynman. Funny guy.
sarthak_ · 9 points · Posted at 19:15:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel same for statistical mechanics.
QuantumQuack0 · 1 points · Posted at 09:18:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I still don't understand what the hell 'Gibbs Free Energy' actually is.
sarthak_ · 1 points · Posted at 09:47:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to be a good mathematician to understand the equations😅
Cfollett7 · 9 points · Posted at 19:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao “that shit is wack”
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:40:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe those were Einsteins exact words too.
TheLightBlueFox · 17 points · Posted at 16:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, it confuses me how something can be in two states at the same time
Gr33nmag1k · 67 points · Posted at 17:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more that things can be in an indeterminate state that could resolve to some number of discreet states. Using the Schrodinger's cat example, it's not that the cat is both alive and dead at the same time, it's that it's impossible to tell whether or not the cat is alive until it is observed.
And this isn't just "you don't know until you look" kind of thing, it does actually exist in the superposition of the two possible states...
Quantum mechanics is hard...
Think of it more like there's two cats that exist in the same space, one dead and one alive, and which you see when you observe the system is indeterminate (and by doing so, you reduce the chances of the other cat being in the box to 0)
The thing that might REALLY blow your mind though is that this isn't even hypothetical (well, in the case of a system as complex as a cat, it is) we have actual proof of probabilistic objects, look up the double slit experiment if you're interested
But basically, when you fire a wave (like sound, or light) through a pair of slits you expect a certain pattern to emerge due to wave interference (mostly a series of areas of high concentration separated areas of low concentration). When you fire particles through the same pair of slits you expect to get a different pattern (two areas of high concentration, empty everywhere else).
When you fire electrons through these slits, they form the wave pattern, unless you try and detect which slit each electron goes through, in which case they form the particle pattern.
crumpledlinensuit · 56 points · Posted at 18:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's even more whack than that.
If you have the information about which slit it went through, and then destroy that information without looking at it, the electron/photon will have behaved (in the past) as if the information never existed. This is called "delayed quantum erasure" and was part of the Einstein-Podolsky-Rosen reductio ad absurdum "proof" that QM was wrong.
Then someone actually did the experiment (Fuji make a sensitive enough sensor in about 1985) and found out that the "absurd" outcome of the so-called paradox was actually what happens...
BonesAO · 32 points · Posted at 19:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is so outside the realm of human intuition I feel like an ant being explained the solar system
elebolt · 17 points · Posted at 19:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's exactly why I find it fascinating! Because it just kinda breaks your way of looking at reality
Gr33nmag1k · 6 points · Posted at 18:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't know about that... that's crazy
kissmachode · 3 points · Posted at 23:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just watched this video explainh the double slit experiment and he finished with the "delayed quantum erasure". Very strange. Are there any explanations to this?
crumpledlinensuit · 4 points · Posted at 07:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! The explanation is "this is how reality behaves and is predicted by quantum mechanics"!
It's weird, and seems arbitrary, but actually is no more arbitrary than the fact that (say) how difficult it is to move something is directly proportional to how much that thing is attracted to other things because of its mass - i.e. the fact that gravitational and inertial mass are the same.
The latter of those two facts is something that you accept without question because you have experienced it every day your whole life. DQE is weird because it doesn't fit with our simplified model of how things work.
kissmachode · 1 points · Posted at 09:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great explanation, thanks!
twickdaddy · 6 points · Posted at 19:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
basically quantum mechanics goes against one of the key concepts of physics, which is that the conditions determine the outcome.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not a very good "key concep[t] of physics" when the theory that violates works so much better than the classical theories it superseded.
But regardless, that isn't even true. Quantum Mechanics is actually completely deterministic in that if you definite an initial wave function and the Hamiltonian that governs its evolution, then the wave function at all past and future times is perfectly defined, it's just that observers within the system experience what seems to them to be wave function collapse. This might seem like a moot distinction when you are the observer but it is an important one because it gives us a way to be able to predict whether something has the effect of an observation or not.
twickdaddy · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to pretend I understand what you're explaining. But I don't know very much if anything about quantum physics.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. My main takeaway point is just that I have found that many people think that QM is in some way an incomplete theory and there surely must be a better one that fixes its flaws when in fact it is perfectly fine as a theory of reality except for the fact that we don't know how to construct a QM theory of General Relativity yet.
crowkk · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physicist here.
This is half-right half-wrong.
Yes, if you control everything in your system the wave function will be determined at any point in time, however this doesnt not make the systemc deterministic at all. You may know that the particle's spin can be (50-50) either up or down but there is NOTHING and cannot stress this enough: there is nothing you can do to determine wheter the output will be up or down.
In classical mechanics if you control everything you know where the particle was and where it'll be.
In QM if you control everything you know where it likely was and what/where it likely will be but you cannot determine EXACTLY what it'll be. It's not deterministic for that. You only know your options and you can only know what it is after you force the wave function to collapse.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 12:10:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If we are going to insist on asserting credentials then I am also a physicist. Furthermore, as a physicist I am sure that you know that, while the exact measurement is not deterministic, the distribution can be exactly known because it is possible to know the exact wave function before measurement. Finally, QM is completely deterministic even when you consider measurement because if you include yourself within the system then you see that the measurement process itself is completely explained in the formalism of quantum mechanics through entanglement and decoherence.
Mrmcfeffers · 5 points · Posted at 19:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck???
thedamnoftinkers · 10 points · Posted at 19:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pours you a shot of absinthe
Welcome to quantum physics 101. Today we are all grown-ass adults.
drains the bottle of absinthe
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Being able to run this experiment at school really blew my mind.
Shine light at one slit and it makes a single line on a target on other side? Ok cool....
Shine it at two slits and it makes an interference pattern on the target? Ok. So a stream of light's is like a wave... It goes through both slits and interferes just like water waves. Ok so far ...
Now shine one photon at a time at the two slits and it hits a spot on the target like a particle but only hits spots that match up with the interference pattern like a wave? Haha lol wtf is going on...
kissmachode · 5 points · Posted at 23:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bonus: if you look at the atoms (using a detector above one of the slits) while shooting them one at a time then you get the particle pattern. If you don't look at it, you get the wave pattern.
lalalindsayyy · 3 points · Posted at 01:44:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how do we know what things will look like if we aren’t looking at them?
Destabiliz · 2 points · Posted at 05:50:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video explains it better than I could in a reddit comment;
www.youtube.com/watch?v=U7Z_TIw9InA
lalalindsayyy · 1 points · Posted at 16:24:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! this was a very interesting and clarifying video!
kissmachode · 2 points · Posted at 09:23:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don't. We can only have a probabilistic idea if where it is. In this experiment, we don't look at the atom's route, but his arrival on the photosensitive pad that shows the wave or particle pattern
lalalindsayyy · 2 points · Posted at 16:25:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! That makes more sense
AlsoOneLastThing · 12 points · Posted at 18:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best way to try understanding it is to learn about wave functions, which are sort of like mathematical sums of all possible states. When a particle is not measured it exists as a wave function, and when you measure it, the wave function collapses into only one of those states. Obviously this is an incredibly simplistic explanation but it helps make sense out of superposition.
SOwED · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smugly thinks of my childhood photo at the Four Corners. I was in four states at the same time.
Kowzorz · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it like a boat rescue operation. Your information tells you that the person lost at sea could either be at at X coordinates or Y coordinates. Until you go and check the waters for them, they could be at either location. Then you go to one location and check ("observe") and the state of the rescuee "collapses" into "at X" or "at Y".
To extend the metaphor a bit, you can consider those two locations as "entangled". The one single person at X or at Y is definitely at X if he's not at Y, and vice versa, so when you "collapse" the search and check one location, you instantly know the state of the other location: empty or with-rescuee, based on the first place you checked.
It gets a bit more complicated with the wavy nature of reality, so it can be thought of, in some interpretations, as the wave function actually existing in both places. No one really knows what the physical interpretation of that idea should be. There are lots of candidates though.
gcross · 2 points · Posted at 12:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not really confusing so much as it is fundamentally weird because it goes against our classical intuitions.
Poison_Penis · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My knowledge comes from YouTube and A-Levels ONLY so take this with a massive grain of salt but I think it means a particle has a probability to be A B or C and until you look at it you won’t know which one it is. I guess it’s like bar dice; of course it can be 1 to 6 but until you look at it you won’t know which one you got. Please correct me if I’m wrong.
thedamnoftinkers · 7 points · Posted at 20:09:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too simplistic. It’s actually literally in all those states at once. Observation (?usually?) collapses the superposition of the states, however, determining just one, which however can be undone if you somehow unobserve the phenomenon. (Recording it and destroying the recording unwatched, presumably murdering anyone who observed it before they can get a word out, etc.)
We are merely dipping our pinky toes in here. I don’t understand quantum physics any more than I understand art or the human soul, but that’s okay; I am your faithful reporter. Have some absinthe. It makes the lack of logic hurt less.
pours you some absinthe
jimjukkon · 6 points · Posted at 18:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I know is that it is the solution to every science problem in a movie.
thedamnoftinkers · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“QUANTUM! QUANTUM WAZZIT!”
sivacat · 6 points · Posted at 19:10:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's simple, you wind the quantum spring, pull the quantum lever, and then the quantum gears start turning
hubble14567 · 15 points · Posted at 19:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hardcore math is easier than this shit. Math doesn't make sense but it's okay because it's not real (infinit dimention ? no problem, bro). But QM is just doing some wack shit and tells you that's how the world works.
jrestoic · 16 points · Posted at 19:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of my professors genuinely believe we are missing something pretty fundamental. Sure it makes great predictions, but so did Newtonian mech in the world observable at the time. It just doesn't make sense for the world to be like this. The fact it doesn't marry with GR, antimatter asymmetry along with some other issues also suggest this.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be clear, Quantum Mechanics is not a theory of nature, it is a metatheory. The Standard Model of particle physics, which is what people generally are referring to when they refer to things like "antimatter asymmetry", is a theory built on Quantum Field Theory which in turn is built on Quantum Mechanics, just like how the classical theory of gravity is a theory built on Newtonian Mechanics. This distinction is important because the fact that General Relativity does not marry well with the Standard Model doesn't (necessarily) mean that Quantum Mechanics is the wrong theory of the Universe, it might just mean that there is some other theory built on Quantum Mechanics that is closer to being the true theory of nature; String Theory, for example, is built on Quantum Mechanics.
8bitslime · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math is about as real as it gets. Nothing else will tell us that 1+1=2. It is limitless of course, but since our real world does have limits, we add a thing called physics on top of math to make it grounded in our world.
beesandbirbs · 5 points · Posted at 19:32:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, so everything’s a wave now?
gcross · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, which is why the people in a stadium are constantly doing the wave even when they are sitting down.
film_triggers · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok cool, oh, but nothing's a wave? what do you mean we describe them as waves? but they aren't waves?
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a professor tell me if quantum mechanics doesn’t make sense to you, you’re doing it right
skeletorsmiles · 3 points · Posted at 18:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I was trying to read some basic QM, electron orbital stuff and it makes no sense to me. An electron is in an orbital, but doesn't move around it, it's just everywhere?
pikabuddy11 · 7 points · Posted at 20:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It helps if you don't think about an electron as a particle. If it's not a particle it can be everywhere. Even more trippy is there is a hypothesis that there's really only one electron in the Universe but it's everywhere.
Kowzorz · 4 points · Posted at 21:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Electrons act so weird in atoms partly because they are bounded resonant waves -- standing waves. Waves bouncing around in a place with walls. Based on the shape of walls and the energy of the wave, you get configurations that end up looking like orbital shapes.
It's not unlike Chladni plates or also water in a shaking environment
A-Grey-World · 5 points · Posted at 20:02:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An electron in't orbiting an atom (Borh Model). Or at least, that's not the most accurate model we have.
It's not like a planet orbiting a star.
The electrons fall into the lowest possible energy 'states' as dictated by the Puali Exclusion principle. Kind of like, they all try snug up to the atom, but they can't all fit.
But of course, their position is not set unless observed, like anything they exist as a probability of being at a particular position - hence the 'everywhere'. It's just a probably cloud of an election being in a particular place.
skeletorsmiles · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if you observe it in one spot, the a second later obseobserve in another spot, its incorrect to think it moves from one spot to another.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In QM the position and momentum of a particle are not independently defined but rather are smashed together into a single thing called the "wave function"; the amplitudes of the wave function give the distribution of the position and the amplitudes of the Fourier transform (i.e., the frequency distribution) of the wave function give the distribution of the momentum of the particle.
FrenchHustler · 3 points · Posted at 19:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I went down the rabbit hole learning about the double slit experiment and the other derivative experiments. That shit is mind boggling how knowledge about the experiment collapses the particle wave. Makes you reevaluate your reality. Same thing with Einstein's theory of relativity. Just makes you feel completely insignificant the more you think about it.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 16:01:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or, you could think about it the opposite way. Observation/measurement/knowledge collapses these wave functions.
In other words, consciousness has a real, notable effect on the Universe. So when people tell you that the human race is just microsopic dust in the vast Ocean of time and space that is the universe--consider the fact that our mere consciousness to the level of observation and knowledge, seemingly changes/settles the behavior of the super small particles that make up that vast Ocean that allegedly make us insignificant.
They acknowledge our existence.
noimnotsarcastic · 9 points · Posted at 18:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand less than zero about QM, but a very smart person who actually understands it told me once, "don't worry, just think of it as philosophy for physicists"
SOwED · 13 points · Posted at 19:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not philosophy. There are philosophical questions raised from it.
Mikey_B · 14 points · Posted at 19:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're wrong. They don't understand it (see the Feynman quote above), and it's definitely not philosophy.
gcross · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually in practice there really isn't much more to it than applied linear algebra, I'm afraid. Even the weirdness of measurement can be understood completely within the formalism of quantum mechanics so that it is ultimately all math at the core.
MinimumInside2 · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How really small shit moves is how I've thought about it.
Not_dM · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, whenever I watch a documentary or something on quantum physics/mechanics it's like "they're making this cr*p up as they go".
But I'm glad that bigger brains than mine is working on it, since it appears to be working :-/
Kowzorz · 4 points · Posted at 21:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, they were making it up as they went. It was just in response to reality throwing them the curve balls that required them to make up new stuff to account for reality.
jtbfisher · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recently started just looking at it to try to figure out like what it even is, and basically what I have concluded is that, we’ll shit I can’t even phrase it now that I’m thinking about it.
attykatt · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics in general blow my mind
Viking4Life2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was this great scene in the first men in black movie. The trainees have to shoot a bunch of aliens and the main protagonist is just standing there. Then at the last minute he fires a shot. The overseer dude comes out and reels in the cardboard thingy he shot. He shot a 9 yr old girl.
When asked why he said "That alien there was just working out, but this girl here's walking around with a book on quantum mechanics in a shitty neighborhood at night."
iGoalie · 3 points · Posted at 19:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my favorite quotes about this comes from Bill Bryson A short history of nearly everything :
“...the question came to an interesting head in the fall of 2002 when two French Physicists, Igor and grickha bogdanov produced a theory of ambitious density involving such concepts as ‘imaginary time’ and the ‘kubo-schwinger-Martin condition’ ...”
“Almost at once The Bogdanov paper excited debate among physicists as to whether it was twaddle, a work of genius or a hoax. ‘Scientifically it’s more or less complete nonsense, but these days that doesn’t much distinguished it from the rest of the literature’”
In other words scientists don’t understand it either (but I’m glad there are smart people trying to figure it out! 😄
Buromid · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought of this quote too! For anyone interested in, well anything, pick up this book or the audiobook! Seriously it is one of my favorites!
Grammar edit because I was too excited about recommending this book that I forgot to proof read!
iGoalie · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely one of my favorite audio books, I go back to it over and over, and learn something new each time!
King_Pecca · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anyone tells me being able to understand QM, I generally suppose they don't even understand anything. But imagination has brought us beautiful art.
gcross · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really wish that people would get over this notion that it is impossible to understand QM. I mean, sure, it requires that one abandon some of one's preconceptions of how the world should work--such as that position and momentum should be independent quantities, and that all quantities need to be ultimately defined with perfect precision--but once you've done that it's just linear algebra, and in particular measurement stops being mysterious once you've learned about entanglement and decoherence.
crowkk · 3 points · Posted at 04:29:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. I'm a physicist and I still hear that type of stuff "if you think you know QM then youre doing it wrong"
No dude, I just know my calcs. I just know what's physically plausible, jeez
King_Pecca · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At last... somebody bit the hook and explained how QM is to be studied. Only those who really know how to do the job, will finish it. Congratulations and welcome in a world of people who focus on thinking out of the box instead of following the roads.
prsguitarplayer · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Richard Feynman said “I can safely say that no one understands Quantum Mechanics”. Richard Feynman was one of the architects of quantum electrodynamics which is HARD AF.
That being said, quantum theory is just hard to interpret and wrap your head around. The math is doable and being able “understand” is still very possible even though it’s abstract. I think anyone that says that they fully understand quantum theory, don’t understand it. It’s a great subject due to its weirdness, don’t let the fact that you don’t understand it bother you. If you’re interested, it’s fascinating even you can’t fully wrap your head around it.
Pajamawolf · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My professor would say, "If quantum mechanics makes sense to you, you don't understand it."
jambocarnage89 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. This is the one.
Zedakah · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s like magnets...or something...
IanPKMmoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one does
oooorileyautoparts · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics is the new rocket science
ENE_K06 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
full blown wack
a_guy_named_rick · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly my first thought when reading this question. It's truly interesting, but mind blowing. The more you understand of it, the more you realise how complicated it really is
justonemom14 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The dual wave-particle nature of light. Which I think is related to quantum mechanics, but I'm not entirely sure. I've tried so much to come up with a theory or model or something that makes at least a little sense to me, and I just can't.
Dank_Max714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics states that you can randomly teleport 50 miles away from where you are right now. It's extremely extremely unlikely to ever happen, but it's still possible.
paulregan1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even when you think you understand it, it will somehow manage to completely fuck you over.
____DEADPOOL_______ · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wack? Nah, mate, it's magic. A particle being able to be in two places at the same time?! Gtfo!!!
citizen42701 · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the scale of molocules on up, things operate in absolutes such as off and on. On the atomic scale down things operate on probability such as of, on or maybe varying degrees of both.
The real trouble is finding the exact line, if there even is one. Also how the two seperate rulebooks operate and how they influence eachother.
RevenantSascha · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I figure it out bu reading a bunch of eli5 than a week later I couldn't explain it to you.
xavierdc · 13650 points · Posted at 14:31:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That off vibe you get when you go to an empty parking lot or an IKEA.
For those curious as to what I mean, check these subs out: r/thenightfeeling, r/deadmalls, and r/truebackrooms.
SayKumquat · 6440 points · Posted at 19:11:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liminal spaces
https://theludlowgroup.com/2018/05/31/why-do-liminal-spaces-feel-like-an-altered-reality/amp/
vallyallyum · 1544 points · Posted at 21:28:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That picture of a hotel hallway is such a relatable example. Sometimes I want to run like demons are chasing me on the way back from the ice machine even though nothing's wrong.
atlantisfrost · 239 points · Posted at 22:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I can think of is the Shining.
maybrad · 49 points · Posted at 23:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When my boyfriend and I moved into our current apartment complex we never saw a soul in the halls. We always joked we were in the shining.
stellanoj · 16 points · Posted at 00:21:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All i can think of is the Langoliers
CMcraz23 · 4 points · Posted at 05:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...jack Torrance has entered the chat....
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 06:12:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 08:10:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Jesusoup · 2 points · Posted at 10:55:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I can think of is how I wanna shoot a scene in these places such a nice vibe god damn
jjcc88 · -25 points · Posted at 01:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shining was a shit movie that was overhyped and still overlauded. Change my mind
roklpolgl · 4 points · Posted at 02:02:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I love the book dearly. I rewatched the movie for the first time in probably 10 years last year and found... it did not age well. Maybe because compared to the book the movie just borderlines on absurdity sometimes (I cringe at how Danny’s premonitions with Tony were portrayed in the movie), but I do not enjoy the movie now.
The book however is still a classic to me and one of my favorites of all time.
frozenslushies · 63 points · Posted at 22:40:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s creepy that you can be in a building full of people but feel so alone
JDK002 · 32 points · Posted at 00:22:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to say something similar. That I wonder if the unease comes from knowing their are hundreds of people in the building, that you’re passing dozens of rooms that you know have people in them, but it’s so damn quiet in hotels at night.
tornadobob · 14 points · Posted at 01:13:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do those rooms have people in them though?
JDK002 · 5 points · Posted at 04:35:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrödinger's Hotel? While the guest is not observed in their room they are simultaneously alive and dead.
This sounds like the basis for a horror short.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 01:45:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this way in my apartment. Like 100 people in the building. I see people but what everyone does in their rooms, their lives, I know nothing about them. Kinda freaks me out
lcqs · 10 points · Posted at 02:03:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Masturbation mostly.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:18:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i mean i dunno about them but me *shrugs*
guy99901 · 4 points · Posted at 02:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
😂
YunggMars · 33 points · Posted at 00:23:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some reason gravity feels off in a hotel hallway
gioselena · 6 points · Posted at 01:18:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Especially when you’re wasted
Caroco1 · 2 points · Posted at 05:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things feel heavier but not harder to move
HippyBabyMama · 65 points · Posted at 22:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if they are and places like that are the only times we can sense them thanks to the lack of distraction?
vallyallyum · 40 points · Posted at 23:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welp. I guess I don't really need the ice that badly.
HippyBabyMama · 30 points · Posted at 23:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, idk why I even said that. I'm freaking myself out just thinking about it
manywhales · 6 points · Posted at 07:43:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's that one creepypasta I saw before about that buzzing in your ear you hear when you're in an empty, quiet room. That the buzzing is always there because "they" are always around you, but you only hear it when all the other noises are gone. But you have to be careful because when you start to notice them, they also start to notice you.
ab0cha · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty noisy where I am, but while reading your comment I concentrated and heard that buzz, then I finished reading and the last sentence made me feel quite uneasy haha
pigpill · 5 points · Posted at 01:16:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it makes you feel better, if we never can see them I am sure they have gotten everyone at least once.
DeadassBdeadassB · 14 points · Posted at 00:58:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the same feeling when I go up stairs at night, or take out the trash when it’s dark out. It’s weird
VanilIae · 11 points · Posted at 00:03:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of The Backrooms
Plaineswalker · 5 points · Posted at 00:51:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redrum
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:36:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude... that last example was too real for me... Ever since I can remember as a kid, I have always had this image in my head.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:39:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just want to run because running on carpet is confy, and ITS INSIDE! Running inside is awesome!
n600beard · 3 points · Posted at 02:12:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if we told you, there are worse things in that ice machine than demons. Health Code violations in Hotels are predominantly ice machine related.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:57:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always want to roll around in these places for some reason
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:46:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's terrifying
E30zinnoberrot · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That hallway is such a bad design. Very creepy indeed.
manywhales · 2 points · Posted at 07:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh fuck yes. When I need to get the laundry or get the ice from down the hotel corridor I sprint like Usain Bolt both ways
ISupportOxfordCommas · 119 points · Posted at 20:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is trippy/awesome. Found a new internet black hole to delve into, thanks.
Little_Menace_Child · 3 points · Posted at 00:25:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha same!
[deleted] · 310 points · Posted at 19:31:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Didn't know that feeling had a term. Cool
sylphedes · 78 points · Posted at 21:37:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like the business district on a weekend.
2_Cups_Stuffed · 44 points · Posted at 22:31:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or any random factory/plant at night out in the middle of nowhere. Creeps me the. fuck. out.
thatshowyoumademe · 11 points · Posted at 22:42:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, but I guess it’s more connected to megalophobia for me
Blue_Lotus_Flowers · 10 points · Posted at 23:45:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's megalophobia?
dr_d835 · 28 points · Posted at 00:10:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
not much, what’s megalophobia with you?
Ix_risor · 20 points · Posted at 00:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fear of big things, my gf has it, but luckily she doesn’t have to worry about it with me.
micthemenace · 8 points · Posted at 01:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And a dash of self deprecation...
GoKelsey · 3 points · Posted at 01:03:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof.
PM_ME_UR_SHEET_MUSIC · 2 points · Posted at 02:58:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or practically everywhere right now.
g3nericc · 17 points · Posted at 23:07:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
another good example is one they mentioned in the article; schools on summer break.
Little_Menace_Child · 5 points · Posted at 00:24:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to love going to my primary school on weekends. I found the emptiness so eerie and stimulating, turns out I have ADHD, as I've found out 20 years later, and I think I used it as a weird form of stimulation.
JBSquared · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do IT for my old school district. Before I graduated I worked for the IT department as a summer job. It was weird being in the elementary schools or middle school with nobody in them. I was used to being in an empty high school because of staying late for theater and swing choir.
sovietsrule · 19 points · Posted at 22:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't know that feeling existed haha, really interesting though
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 00:41:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like I am the only one who enjoys it though. A school during a summer break or even my office building when I work OT and everyone else is gone. I love the solemnity.
Now I could be wrong about those examples but I for one dig it when I am in a place that should be occupied but isn’t.
tokenqueerpeer · 6 points · Posted at 01:18:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SAME! I absolutely adore liminal spaces and the feeling that comes with them. Its both comforting and somewhat unnerving because of the vague sense of “wrongness”. If you dig horror and you like that sensation you might also dig things like the Adult Swim Infomercials on youtube, anything by alan resnik (youtube), and salad fingers/don’t hug me I’m scared. They all use both overt and subtle horror that hits a similar nerve for me that liminal spaces do 🤷🏻♀️
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 02:43:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They kinda make me feel nostalgic for times that I wasn't around for. The new Gorillaz track kinda hits that vibe for me. It makes me want to smoke a cigarette and cruise down an empty highway on a summer night with the windows down.
sovietsrule · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always enjoy those scenarios, but I've never had a weird feeling going along with it... That's why it seems odd to me hah
rinne64 · 105 points · Posted at 21:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus. This article sounds like the beginning of a Twilight Zone episode.
DoubleBatman · 24 points · Posted at 21:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I immediately started reading it in Rod Serling’s voice
xpercipio · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its just like the video game control. it has altered items and thresholds. never saw the word liminal though. maybe in #2
NeoHenderson · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was getting chilly ngl
nattykat47 · 36 points · Posted at 21:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, it's like crying on airplanes! Something about being in-between places and nowhere at the same time
kirinlikethebeer · 10 points · Posted at 22:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg. I just realized this is what I’ve been experiencing. Especially when nearing someplace that in the past was significant (positive or negative).
ladysugarmango · 11 points · Posted at 23:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you further explain this? I always get creeped out if I visit towns I used to live in years ago. Do you think that's because it's one of these "liminal spaces"? If so, how? I'm trying to make the connection and your comment is closest to that feeling I get when I go to someplace from my past.
Buddahrific · 14 points · Posted at 00:45:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it has to do with the idea that you can't really go home, like the one you grew up in, even if you return to the place, it wasn't the physical location that made it home, it was the people and the fact that that was where you belonged while you lived there, as well as your mindset when you lived there. Even if all the same people still live there and you're still welcome to belong there, they aren't really the same as they've aged, your relationship has evolved, and you've all matured.
Or other places you've lived in, you have memories of good times and bad that are associated with specific places, like a regular hangout spot or a shop you frequented. Those physical locations are still there, but they aren't your territory anymore. Others might have claimed your hangout spot and it's theirs now to have good times at. Or maybe it's just abandoned entirely and no one cares to spend any time there. Or maybe what used to be there was torn down and replaced with something different. Either way, you can return to the physical location, but you can't really go back because the good times weren't just at a place but also at a time and that time has passed and is never coming back.
Or for places that are only temporarily abandoned, like the closed store, it's a stark reminder that what you know and love about that place is tied to the people that go there; they are what give it life, not the place itself. Also it can look different at night, more hidden and ominous.
I find abandoned places also give that impression, including random staircases in the woods or even ancient ruins. Once upon a time, there were people that used those abandoned places, maybe lived there or visited. There were many memories made there, but not anymore. People brought the location to life at one point but no longer do. And one day that will be the case for any place you can think of, it's just a matter of how far into the future you'd have to look to see that time. Maybe it's a long time away, maybe it's sooner than you think.
Ultimately, it's a reminder that all things come to an end and of our mortality. At least, that's how I feel about it, rather than that "in between realities" or "searching for purpose" the article said.
And another angle that applies more to places that just aren't busy is you never know who might be lurking out of sight, and since no one else is there, no one else will rush to your aid if they attack.
centipededamascus · 4 points · Posted at 03:30:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Achewood put it,
Clayh5 · 3 points · Posted at 01:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I relate with this so hard
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you nailed how I feel about it.
kirinlikethebeer · 7 points · Posted at 23:39:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is subjective, but what it feels like is my current self is connecting to the pieces of me that were left there. Like shadows of my former self — memories rush back, but it’s also emotional. Hard to explain. Maybe that helped you a little?
JBSquared · 2 points · Posted at 02:45:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes me feel like a coming of age movie. Like I want to smoke a cigarette and listen to some new wave.
kirinlikethebeer · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahaha I know what you mean.
JohnLeafback · 5 points · Posted at 00:25:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine it's that when you left, you changed from your new experiences without noticing while also keeping a snapshot of the place you used to live in mind.
Then, when you visited again, it changed in minor ways, leaving a strange experience of what you remember and what is now. How has your home moved on without you?
nattykat47 · 4 points · Posted at 23:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's amplified when coming/going from a place that's meaningful to me, but it happens even in new/unemotional places as well. Especially at night.
It is a liminal space where I just feel checked out and "nowhere." All my senses are heightened and everything feels off, or like suspended somehow
kirinlikethebeer · 3 points · Posted at 23:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it feels like time travel. As if my human mind can’t fathom traveling so far so fast.
turndownforjesus · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This would actually make a lot of sense. We haven’t been able to do so for very long.
BbaTron · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ohhhh this! I totally relate to this!
YoCaptain · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you'd get so many more 'upvotes' from me if it were possible.
Zebidee · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The bit where you're "in the system" - you step from the world of Sydney, and step out into the world of London, but in between, you're in the world of air travel, where everything exists as it's own entity, and if you do the right steps in the right order, it all works.
Obi-Tron_Kenobi · 1 points · Posted at 07:34:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I assume you mean flying on airplanes, but there's a few people that say they relate to it and I'm not sure if I should be worried about their wellbeing.
nattykat47 · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I meant crying
silly_gaijin · 1 points · Posted at 15:45:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liminal times are what get to me. I live in China and have one trip home every year. Used to live in Japan and would do the same thing. The last day or two before traveling back, from home to China/Japan, always makes me stressed out and weepy, even when I'm looking forward to getting back to work and my life.
screambloodymurder · 73 points · Posted at 21:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this is part of why the Staircase in the Woods series from r/nosleep is so creepy
blueridgechic · 52 points · Posted at 21:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. No purpose, not found in nature but in existence. You are left to wonder why, and wonder WTF will happen if I walk up these creepy stairs. Likely you will have a desire to do so, even if subconsciously.
sirweebthe1st · 15 points · Posted at 22:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Major amigara fault vibes from that description
Jaruut · 12 points · Posted at 22:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This hole was made for me.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuck you
Miss_Death · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought a man has right before seriously considering to buy an engagement ring.
blueridgechic · 4 points · Posted at 22:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not familiar with that. I am familiar with the “vile vortices”. Do tell.
sirweebthe1st · 13 points · Posted at 22:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a horror/thriller manga written by a really well known writer, his name escapes me atm. Basically there’s this big rock face with a bunch of human-shaped holes and the characters are involuntarily drawn to their holes, from which they can’t escape, and inevitably die.
I know, not super related but it has a similar “curiosity kills the cat” tone to the staircase example. And I haven’t read vile vortices, I’ll have to check that out.
grieverk · 13 points · Posted at 23:00:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Junji Ito
sirweebthe1st · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes thank you
XanXic · 7 points · Posted at 23:01:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A important detail is the various holes are shaped like very specific people. So you will see a silouette of yourself that is perfectly shaped and sized for you. A plot point is the rock was carved thousand of years ago. That's what draws people in so much
Also spoiler lol, idk if that ruins it but I what kept me reading was "wtf happens when you go in"
fukautomod · 7 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have a link to that series? Couldn't find it.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 22:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It took me a while to find so I thought I'd share. Here is part 1 of the series:
https://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/3iex1h/im_a_search_and_rescue_officer_for_the_us_forest/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
fukautomod · 10 points · Posted at 22:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey thanks a lot random reddit stranger. I'm grateful.
I truly wish to send pancakes! Stay safe!
Thoreau-ingLifeAway · 8 points · Posted at 22:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search the sub for “park ranger” or “search and rescue” and sort by top of all time.
anglophile20 · 21 points · Posted at 21:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This must be why exploring abandoned places gives me such a rush
mostweasel · 3 points · Posted at 23:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did this a bunch in high school, always found it exciting. Now I live on a coast and there's like half a dozen abandoned ocean structures and islands that I've wanted to row out to and explore, but never have.
Moist_KoRn_Bizkit · 37 points · Posted at 19:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's creepy.
xavierdc · 17 points · Posted at 22:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is kind of like the Uncanny Valley for places.
mrrainandthunder · 17 points · Posted at 21:40:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had no idea what feeling OP was talking about, but I immediately understood it the second I saw the first picture in that article. Literally sent chills down my spine.
Noel_like_Christmas · 17 points · Posted at 21:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this sensation! Especially rain or fog lit only under a street lamp.
ChIck3n115 · 3 points · Posted at 01:10:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! Most recently was when I was walking through a motel parking lot around midnight, and it was cloudy so there were no stars or anything visible above the lights. Everything was quiet, I was the only person around. I just stopped and stared up at nothing, feeling like the universe had ended and this one motel was all that was left. It was awesome.
Speedy_Turtlez · 45 points · Posted at 21:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mfw I no-clip into the backrooms
androsgrae · 3 points · Posted at 21:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NO
Chatters01 · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please no, that shit scares me
xpercipio · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
whats no clip?
Chatters01 · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"A gaming mode which allows the user to pass through normally solid objects."
In this case it's involuntary and we end up in the goddamn backrooms. The last place I'd like to be tbh.
xpercipio · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh gotcha. i remember getting around titanfall 2 maps, there would be invisible floors and walls. so you can get stuck forever, or the only way out is....TO DIE
TheMasterAtSomething · 13 points · Posted at 21:36:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I swear that’s what we’re all feeling right now
queenbird · 11 points · Posted at 21:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went into my office yesterday and this is exactly what it felt like! We’ve all been working from home for 3 weeks and it was so eerie
btuck93 · 12 points · Posted at 22:19:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spirited Away and Columbus are two movies that do a great job of capturing the feeling of liminal space.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks I didn't know about columbus. From what I recall I got similar vibes from lost highways
CptnStarkos · 10 points · Posted at 22:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Wow. I didnt know those places had a name, I've always felt attracted to them... Abandoned pool parks, cemeteries, parking lots at night, all those areas in hospitals, churches, restaurants where a sign says to keep off...
Hotels in the middle of nowhere during off season, even churches when there are nobody inside.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:47:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love those places! Make me feel alive somehow.
curt_schilli · 8 points · Posted at 21:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did Stephen King write this?
Prevay · 8 points · Posted at 22:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The store is now closed. Please exit the building.
shaodyn · 7 points · Posted at 23:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would that also explain why it's creepy as hell to drive down a major highway late at night when nobody's around? Because I was on the interstate once at like midnight when it was pretty much deserted, and it just felt wrong somehow.
MaltedDefeatist · 11 points · Posted at 21:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derived from the same Latin root as Limbo...
the_banana_sticker · 6 points · Posted at 22:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for this! I remember being a kid and driving past this carpet store at night when it was closed. I'm pretty sure it was on our way home since I remember driving past it often. The lights inside, in front of the big windows were on, illuminating the giant area rugs hanging up. It always looked somewhat ominous and I wished I could be in there and could never figure out why. It was creepy but totally inviting.
Pipupipupi · 6 points · Posted at 22:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for that. Sometimes I wonder what a day looks like for a lamp in a subway station, or an abandoned umbrella under a bridge. Seeing things outside their usual overlap with our own experiences/context is something else.
itterada · 6 points · Posted at 22:29:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is also an excellent description for all of Murakami's novels lmao
awolliamson · 3 points · Posted at 22:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind-Up Bird Chronicles' hotel scenes in the bottom of the well!!
GroceryScanner · 6 points · Posted at 23:42:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amazing. Best "new word of the day" ive had in years. Thank you
everdimension · 12 points · Posted at 21:13:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wow that's what all levels in Painkiller (shooter) are
mostweasel · 5 points · Posted at 23:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me Silent Hill came to mind. That's the schtick of nearly every level from those games. Empty schools, hospitals, apartments, a mall and a theme park even. Just public places without a soul in sight. Really effective at being unsettling!
manywhales · 2 points · Posted at 07:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it was Silent Hill 3 when the protag was at the mall that creeped me out the most. She entered the toilet in a normal mall, then exited into the Silent Hill version of it. I had a weird fear of public toilets for a while as a kid cos of that.
KittehBiscuit · 9 points · Posted at 21:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh yo! That’s exactly how painkiller made me feel also. The ambiance helps to make these levels feel hollow and empty too
xavierdc · 6 points · Posted at 21:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And Myst!
bucktacular · 4 points · Posted at 21:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just beat the game Control a month or so ago and those pictures remind me of the game so much.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:06:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought it was an action game
bucktacular · 2 points · Posted at 00:46:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is, but since it’s all about the paranatural and cross-dimensional stuff, there’s many artistic aspects to it. It’s really an awesome game.
maitlandinmaitland · 3 points · Posted at 22:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kind of love this feeling/experience.
Like my head expects people to be there, but they’re not. I’m getting this a lot lately when I go for walks (exercise!) in places that are normally full of people but are closed or abandoned.
Especially in a car park where the music is playing far away somewhere, and it’s echoing longingly.
There’s this overwhelming feeling of melancholy, or ennui specifically. The mundanity of life, people and time forgetting ... it’s great!
PandersAboutVaccines · 7 points · Posted at 21:53:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What an awesome little mind fuck you just passed on.
Thanks!
😁
AsLongAsYouKnow · 3 points · Posted at 22:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still have to go to work and take the L in Chicago to get there. After the shelter in place here began I was at one of the busiest stops in the city, during rush hour in the morning, and it was completely empty except for me. This describes the feeling I had perfectly
_HyDrAg_ · 3 points · Posted at 23:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a really weird otherworldly/trippy feeling on an uncomfortably long elevator ride recently. This describes it quite well.
lemortede3 · 3 points · Posted at 00:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This might have an unintended double meaning, but that does make sense why I get kinda creeped when I'm alone in a parking lot at midnight, or why an empty school gives me the goose pimples; fear is what we (or our brain) don't understand.
Not to mention the fact that humans are meant to be social. It's in our nature to interact with other humans, so when you're in an empty space, that would also make sense that you can get creeped out.
Also, do you have an example that doesn't include a space being empty? Like can you experience a liminal space if it is filled with people, but is meant to be empty?
I guess a graveyard filled with people at noon in summer is kind liminal
infinitespaze · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I should be studying arts but I stumbled on something way more interesting now
learninglife1828 · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking love this as an explanation. Thank you.
OldSonVic · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice, but by that definition, ANY place that is not our acknowledged home is a liminal space.
jgabrielsson · 2 points · Posted at 22:31:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Limitless paper
MattR0se · 2 points · Posted at 23:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was on civil duty I worked in a facility that offered adult education, and also accommodations. Usually I only worked on weekdays, but on occasion I had to stay over the weekends. The last guests leave on Sunday morning, and after that the place was COMPLETELY empty. They had around 100 beds. Like, CREEPY. I even had one episode where I heard a faint beeping sound of a fire detector in the middle of the night, and had to search that damn thing through all the corridors...
MediumRarePorkChop · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, cool it has a name.
I've worked on schools during summer break and it's really bizarre to walk into a completely empty school but it's somehow MORE bizarre when all the desks are in the hallway so we can carpet the classrooms. It looks completely wrong to have all the furniture piled up in the hallway, especially when it's a open design and you can see the desks from a different floor.
spaghetticatman · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I love liminal spaces then! I love going to abandoned places and feeling the absolute silence of say a school where kids once ran around screaming and laughing. It's such a surreal experience and those places are where I feel the most peace
scootavoota · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like what we’re all in now in quarantine
redditreloaded · 2 points · Posted at 00:35:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess this is why I love airports at night.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit that's interesting af!
iliveinaliminalspace · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yuh
DieterTheHorst · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly find this fascinating, because I have never felt this kind of thing.
People talk about places feeling off all the time, an all the people here relating to that give it credibility. It's not that I just don't know what "feels off" menas, I totally get that for people for example, but I can not imagine feeling it for a place, much less one of the usual examples used in the article aswell.
Trexa · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also have never really get this. I’ve been in places like the article describes and that people have commented about here. Now it feels like I’m missing out on something.
DieterTheHorst · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, same.
I've been to plenty places like this, even worked as a night clerk an security in some, but nothing. I'd really like to get this one.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love this. One of my favorite of my own poems is all about the feelings of liminality.
xrimane · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh. This just poses more questions. I honestly can't relate to any negative feeling in the situations described.
Fingy123 · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me neither... I feel left out
xrimane · 1 points · Posted at 07:13:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
😁
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so SCP-3008-1?
Limemaster_201 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think i ever had that feeling? And reading this doesn't help explain what you guys felt.
RainingGlitter28 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. Thankyou so much!!
Mr_WAAAGH · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of me loves that feeling
dualib · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh shit. I finally have a definition for something i’ve always liked, but couldnt describe. Like empty basketball courts, or empty streets at night. Thank you so much. I can finally describe how I feel when I look at the city skyline at night or a lonely street lamp.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the thing I really want to do before I die it's this: there are small places inside highway galleries where you could go to call for the 911 if you have a car accident or just stay there if you don't want to get hit by cars. Well I'd love to spend a night there. Unfortunately it's so fucking illegal that I'm not sure I'll ever get a chance to do it. But thanks for this term, now I now what's so cool and terrifying about those places. RN a lot of places look like liminal places because of the lockdown, at least here in italy
fishymonster_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for sharing, I found this very interesting
SurprisedHarambe · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this article and I am super bummed out I have no idea what you mean about altered reality. I can recall being in empty hallways, truck stops before the sun comes up, etc, but have never felt the sensation everyone is talking about in that context.
greenharibo · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is fascinating. There are some places that completely creep me out and I don’t understand why. When I drive through, It’s like a dark descends over me and I want to get away as soon as possible. There’s no discernible reason for it, it’s just a vibe I get in certain locations. Luminal spaces sound similar but not quite the same. Do you know if there is a name or cause for what I am describing?
spicywater420 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Backrooms maybe
Th3_Shr00m · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's some Backrooms shit.
SlothMaestro69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much for this. It explains a lot. I used to work in a hotel in room service and sometimes I'd get a call past 11pm when all the other guests are in bed. What made it worse was the glimpsing my reflection in the glass walkways between the hotel blocks. Constantly looking over my shoulder.
ChildOfTheSoul · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was reading the article and it makes me wonder if everyone grew up with a K-mart/playground/chinese buffet combo in their town square.
Little_Menace_Child · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg this is fascinating!
BendTheForks · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's so fascinating!! When I worked at the prison, I did all my on the job training during the daytime, when I finished that, I was assigned to the graveyard shift. Walking around a prison yard (medium custody, so something similar to what one might see in a prison movie with the open yard and everyone walking around) in the middle of the night is the spookiest thing ever, it gave my the creeps for a while before I got used to the experience of being awake all night and listening to the spooky silence of a "sleeping" prison.
Mewthew-Strawberry · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Limens seems like a lime and lemon mix.
justzisguy_youknow · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just replaying Portal 2 and now thinking this is part of what makes it so creepy. There's a lot of spending too long in places where you don't belong
mamarthsehrotra · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything in our dreams feels like this. Because we experience every location out of its intended context. Maybe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything's a liminal space on shrooms...
imHere4kpop · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awesome article, thanks for posting this.
BonBon666 · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks - this is incredibly interesting!
AdequateDegenerate · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually like this feeling, perfect time to have a smoke and think
Ejunco · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Liminal” that’s a new word
Oiszam · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a load of pseudo intellectual bs
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was more intrigued learning about this than anything Ive learned in school.
macaronimadi · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AMAZING THANK YOU FOR THIS LINK
Cherimoose · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kubrick was a master of that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the most bizarre and intense experiences I have ever had was walking through an empty parking lot of a grocery store at night while tripping on acid. I've never been able to put into words how it felt.
Hartknockz · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like this even happens when you're in a familiar place, but on psychedelics. Like even your living room feels like this on occasion.
cabanners · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. This is fascinating. I’ve never heard of this but, ever since I was a kid, I’ve experienced this strange feeling when there is snow covering everything and I look outside at night.
ironbar101010 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mindfuck
itsnick21 · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never heard of this feeling discussed before let alone being discribed so accurately. Good read, thanks for sharing.
surprisetapeworm · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This makes me feel physically ill wtf is this
Gutter_Twin · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much giving me the name of this phenomenon. Since I was a kid, driving past empty/closed places at night would always make me feel really sad and unnerved.
Rohanahan · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does anyone else find they really enjoy these kind of spaces?
LaurenAngelique · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the link. Very cool read.
unavoidably_canadian · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never heard of liminal space before. Very cool! Thank you!
sexyshingle · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
huh so that's what that is... TIL
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found out about these today, and looking at them makes me feel physically ill. My eyes get sore and my throat tightens. It’s so bizarre
naosmee · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me when we took a cruise and the hallway to the rooms were like this. Tiny and small and I felt lost and claustrophobic at the same time.
knockout350 · 1364 points · Posted at 18:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard places liked that called negative spaces where time just seems off.
LukeWarm1144 · 65 points · Posted at 21:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ikea Scp
Ancaeus · 32 points · Posted at 22:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There actually is an IKEA SCP, I enjoyed reading it. I don’t remember its number, though.
Orlandofive · 28 points · Posted at 22:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s SCP-3008
porp-inc · 10 points · Posted at 22:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fellow Ikeans
TheRealKrapotke · 6 points · Posted at 01:00:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly is an SCP? I remember playing a really scary game as a kid where you walk down a never ending staircase and ghosts appear until you find a skeleton type of guy who ends you. I think that was called SCP-087 and another similar game where in the end a red face you can only just make out in the distance says in a distorted voice "don’t look at me" was called SCP-087b
And now I sometimes read about different SCPs on reddit and so have no clue what that means
LevelSevenLaserLotus · 9 points · Posted at 05:16:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men In Black is Earth's secret customs service, which protects and hides normal alien citizens while repelling extraterrestrial threats to the planet. SCP (Secure Contain Protect) is like MIB, but instead of just protecting Earth, it protects normalcy. It hides all the reality glitches from the general public and boxes up all the cursed objects where they can't cause damage. They're the reason the low level telepath down the street went missing, and the reason why Armageddon failed to be noticed by more than about 3 people.
From a reader's perspective, it's a collective writing project where people create official looking documentation for the kind of things you'd see on the TV series Fringe. Nothing's canon, so each writer is free to conflict with others. The best pages take others into account, but they aren't strictly required to.
http://www.scp-wiki.net/
manywhales · 3 points · Posted at 07:50:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add on to the other answer, SCPs are basically all fan-made projects. Each SCP is designed and written by one or more writers and published onto the SCP website as though it is an official entry in the in-universe SCP database. SCPs can range from weird quirky things like a time travelling frog, to weird X-Files shit like psychic vampire cults, to parallel universe, world-ending shit.
kryten4000series · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCP_Foundation
TheRealKrapotke · 2 points · Posted at 05:08:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, could’ve googled myself I guess but thank you for doing that for me.
vbgvbg113 · 3 points · Posted at 05:35:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, you can make your own joke ones.
There is an SCP called uh,
SCP____J
It’s a rock that makes you procrastinate.
I’ll tell you about it later, i guess.
TheRealKrapotke · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
porp-inc · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget about me. Remember I am a toaster that can only be referred to in the first person
LukeWarm1144 · 9 points · Posted at 22:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ik it exists, that was the point, it was a fun read for me too
Smokabi · 132 points · Posted at 21:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liminal spaces! The limbo in moving through locations and time (such as at a gas station at 3 am). Negative space is an artistic term—in comics, this is the space that artists must take into account for balloon placement :)
coolturnipjuice · 15 points · Posted at 21:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn I just learned what this means today and its already coming up in my reddit feed
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 00:33:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon
coolturnipjuice · 2 points · Posted at 00:46:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol I knew there was a name for it but I couldn’t recall
Shardo · 2 points · Posted at 04:24:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now that you've seen it for the next 2-3 weeks you'll see it a bunch. Got told this in a thread and didn't believe it til it happened.
But then after that not for ages it's spooky.
Tescolarger · 9 points · Posted at 21:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is balloon placement? Actual balloons or is that a metaphor?
Mitchiro · 13 points · Posted at 21:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Word balloons in comics!
Tescolarger · 12 points · Posted at 21:54:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somehow, my brain completely ignored the "comic" part. That makes sense. Thanks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actual balloons
Tescolarger · 16 points · Posted at 21:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like the idea of some estranged Artist going around placing balloons in awkward places.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That would be great. I guess balloon girl is one of banksys most well known.
Suuuuckit · 7 points · Posted at 23:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's so odd because I feel this way at my dad and step mums house. Brother feels it too because we were such brats trying to get our dad to let us go live with our mom. He put it off on us being upset about leaving the house we grew up in. But, it just feels so dark and off in there. Even as an adult I still feel it and it creeps me out.
Golddustofawoman · 8 points · Posted at 04:25:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to live in this area out in the middle of nowhere that was sitting on a bunch of quartz and time ran very weird there. A lot of people who lived there had nightmares all the time. It was like the Vaermina quest in Skyrim. The area was also a site of a massacre that occurred in 1812 where they left the bodies to just rot for 10 years before burying them in a mass grave and most people who lived there would tell you the whole area was very haunted and cursed.
I remember walking out with my friends looking for a good spot to smoke weed and we were walking down an unused backroad. At one point we passed a mesquite tree and the wind changed and the vibe became creepy. We saw a shack that had no front door, only a bedsheet. The bedsheet swayed in the wind and no one was there but you could hear the faint sound of a banjo. It was very surreal. For the record though, we hadn't smoked the weed yet so we weren't high.
Another time, I was taking a quick walk by myself. When I turned around to come back home, I noticed a tree had been crushed as if something came out of the sky and fell on it. I was within earshot and didn't hear anything at all. There was nothing around that could have possibly caused this. At first I thought it must have been a horse, but the horses couldn't have reached it because there was a fence seperating them from the tree. I still have no idea what crushed the tree.
Very creepy place.
manywhales · 5 points · Posted at 07:52:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tree thing may not actually have been crushed. Many trees just topple and crumble after being infested with fungi, bacteria, or insects.
Father_Owl · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the name of this place?
Golddustofawoman · 3 points · Posted at 05:50:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Thats a sort of complicated question. Its a country backroad "neighborhood" made up of broken down mobile homes about 30 miles south of San Antonio, Texas, near Leming and Pleasanton. Some call it Thelma, some call it OP as it runs along Old Pleasanton Road. Basically right on the border of Atascosa and Bexar County. Its basically just a shanty town.
Edit: I should probably mention that the massacre I was talking about was the Battle of Medina. Interestingly though, is historians have trouble agreeing on exactly where it occured because they can't find any archeological evidence because it used to be marshland so its all silica sand, meaning everything sunk down and they can't excavate anywhere, not just because its in sand but also because people don't want anyone to excavate on their land. Texans are very serious about their private property.
I should also mention that about half of the properties on OP were abandoned. Back in the 50's, the land was being sold for very cheap, so a lot of poor Latinx families bought land only to realize they couldn't make a living off of the land, and soon they had no money and they had to leave. Which makes it all even creepier. There's even an abandoned half built mansion out there. What probably happened was someone was selling drugs, rolling in cash and they probably got arrested so it was never finished.
little_brown_bat · 4 points · Posted at 21:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SCARING THE LITTLE GIRL‽
lamboat2019 · 4 points · Posted at 23:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I was staying in an old hotel in Hurley, WI during a ski trip. It is on the border of Michigans UP. The hotel only booked the bottom floor because they were never busy, and the building clearly peaked in the 80s. They did however leave the end floor unlocked and it was so surreal. It was a literal time capsule.
KimberlyRP · 20 points · Posted at 22:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went to Dealey Plaza about 22 years ago. I was 8 months old when JFK was killed there. I say that because I don't have that 'you know exactly what you were doing when you heard that Kennedy was killed' feeling much older folks do. But, when I walked around that area, on the grassy knoll and along the sidewalk, it felt like the air was really stagnant. Like of like being in a house that has been closed up for a long time. It felt really bad when I stood to look out over where the X is on the street where the car was when Kennedy was struck. I didn't realize how close the grass and the sidewalk was to the street. But, I couldn't get over that eerie feeling.
Now, I go back again, two years later with my husband. I felt that creepy feeling again. I had told my husband before about how I felt the first time and I was feeling it again. He said he felt it too. I shouldn't dismiss his feelings but I chalked them up that he was a very young adult when Kennedy was shot. He has a different understanding about it than I did. Sort of like I lived through the Twin Towers falling during 9/11. Anyone born before that, it's just a thing that happened in history.
Interestingly enough, I didn't have any creepy feelings being in the depository where Oswald was supposedly, and it's now a gift shop/museum. I do have a theory on this creepy feeling; there is so much concentration of thought energy and negative energy in that spot that it has never been cleared. People haven't let go of the event so the energy stays trapped there.
I have felt similar vibes in my own life and I have to feel there is more to it than just being paranoid.
Joeike1 · 5 points · Posted at 01:19:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my earlyish memorys are of the JFK Funial on a small black and white TV with sound of a beating drum & my mom crying.
fancyghost · 3 points · Posted at 02:39:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like that theory! Makes sense to me. It broke so many hearts. The people bring their emotions with them to see that place and some spill out in tears. I could see that staining that spot, so to speak.
onmywaytocpa20 · 2 points · Posted at 05:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also believe situations like these arise from a concentration of thoughts and energy!! Positive or negative.
toni8479 · -33 points · Posted at 23:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for wasting my time. Thought that story was gonna have a point. It was just a dumb story tho
KimberlyRP · 7 points · Posted at 00:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Topic=gut feelings. My experience. Not yours.
1-1-19MemeBrigade · 3 points · Posted at 11:48:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I spend a lot of time exploring abandoned buildings to photograph and time just feels like it flows differently around those places. I always feel like I've spent maybe an hour in a place only to come out later and realize it was two or three.
_albinoni_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Negative space" is the open area in a design or graphic image that is created by two "positive" objects that combine to create a third element in the blank (or "negative" space between).
For the past few years my design clients have gradually been catching on to the FedEx logo, calling out the arrow created by the negative space between the D and the E, and they suddenly know what to call it, requesting a concept that "has that negative space, yanno, like in the FedEx logo".
So now, along with the ever-popular misuse and abuse of the terms "disingenuous" and "cognitive dissonance" we have a third malaprop, "negative space".
Dravarden · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the void is leaking through somewhere near those spaces, now we just need a timepiece to time travel in them
SeedlessGrapes42 · 64 points · Posted at 19:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Are....are we the only ones here? Was there a zombie apocalypse I'm not aware of? Am I the last person on earth? Where di- oh, I'm just 20 minutes early."
Practicalfolk · 7 points · Posted at 00:23:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We had a mall that was shut down except for one outer perimeter store. They filmed a zombie movie there. I went to go to that store & was able to enter through a mall entrance. No lights were on & there was not a single person there. The empty food court freaked me out the most. It was otherworldly. Kind of like now...
mostweasel · 3 points · Posted at 23:24:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh, worst feeling in the world. Apparently it's not limited to physical locations, either. I joined the wrong video conference "room" for a telework meeting last week and when nobody else joined after ten minutes I started to wonder if the world had come to an end.
Dingbrain1 · 122 points · Posted at 16:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the feeling of getting too close to the veil and nearly seeing behind it.
LOSMSKL · 22 points · Posted at 19:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hol up what's a veil?
Dingbrain1 · 52 points · Posted at 19:21:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something that hides what is behind.
mcapodici · 5 points · Posted at 21:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually someone’s face
thunderfart_99 · 693 points · Posted at 17:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
9 out of 10 times, your gut knows that something bad is about to happen. Whenever I get a bad or an uneasy feeling about somewhere, I always listen to it.
SwampOfDownvotes · 52 points · Posted at 20:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you are saying 9 out of 10 times you are in an Ikea parking lot something bad is about to happen?
nevesnow · 46 points · Posted at 21:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m about to spend way more money than I should
Korova_Milk_Bar · 16 points · Posted at 22:14:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
…A LOMMARP bookcase in Dark blue-green looms menacingly in the shadows…
throwawaypinoy001 · 63 points · Posted at 20:15:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have anxiety so i dont trust my gut anymore, and i think that's sadder than having anxiety. I remember the feeling of confidence I have as a kid knowing that no major danger would befall me because my gut would be able to alert me, and my gut was always right.
coolcactus69 · 29 points · Posted at 20:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know the feeling. I can't trust my gut feeling now that I know how much my anxiety can trick me. It really is sadder than the anxiety itself.
thelopisback · 49 points · Posted at 21:02:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone told me if you feel it in your chest it's anxiety, if you feel it in your gut it's intuition. I started paying attention to those signs and it hasn't failed me yet
viciousdisposition · 11 points · Posted at 00:02:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless you have IBS triggered by anxiety. In which case, still listen to your gut but for... practical reasons..
thelopisback · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahaha
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
IBS ?
viciousdisposition · 3 points · Posted at 00:24:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Irritable bowel syndrome
wolvie604 · 15 points · Posted at 20:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exact same boat. I used to be so in tune with my instincts, and now they are clouded by anxiety.
Jackal_Kid · 8 points · Posted at 21:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except kids have crappier "guts"/intuition, and you were just lucky, or possibly were a more anxious personality type as a child to begin with. Kids not only lack the formative experiences to learn what warning signs to pick up on subconsciously, but their brains are not even fully developed enough to make optimal connections even if they have such experiences. On top of that, during adolescence and well into the late teens and 20s, the hormonal balance is all out of whack, and hormones very much shape decisions.
Our brains don't actually fully mature until age 25 or so, and especially for women, hormones can take almost as long to really settle. Hence why some people in their 20s+ find that birth control or antidepressants etc. that worked in their teens no longer have the same effect. It's common to experience physical changes well past puberty like hip and breast growth.
The worst part is that as a result we can't even be properly self-aware of these facts at the time, and generally in adolescence our bodies are encouraging us to take the bolder option no matter what we know intellectually.
It's why it's hard to trust childhood memories - we interpreted things differently back then, so past decisions can be incomprehensible even if they still feel right. You probably did feel more free, safe, and like you could confidently identify possible danger. I remember that as well. But we were among those who were simply lucky that things didn't go wrong. As kids, we just don't have the tools to reliably gauge danger. The only downside is that adults have more social conditioning that might cause them to ignore signs that a child can react to without such constraints.
Anxiety is basically intuition erring in the safe side whether it's reasonable or not. The physical manifestations of anxiety are usually the easiest to treat, but the most important treatment is conquering the psychological ones. You're forced to learn to be extra aware of your actual intuition in order to identify the clinically detrimental thoughts and separate them. If anything, psychological treatment for anxiety (or any mental illness really) forces you to train yourself and develop discipline that everyone could use, even if they don't experience dysfunction without it. And that social conditioning works in a positive way for anxiety, because you use it to get your thoughts out of the anxiety loop before you start affecting other people, or being (actually) noticed by them. You're in much better standing now than you think in terms of trusting your gut as opposed to when you were a child.
thunderfart_99 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can confirm, my gut feeling has improved since I got older, and I've got a lot better at reading people in general.
xanaxasscamgirl · 2 points · Posted at 03:05:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh. My anxiety has been progressing. The other day it was like nothing I'd ever felt before. We went to turn down this road and I swear, my body was physically telling me DO NOT go down this road. I felt like my body was physically trying to pull away from that road. Told boyfriend to slow down.. we went 20 down the road all the way home and i just knew something was gonna happen.. and nothing did. Just anxiety.
Nussel · 26 points · Posted at 21:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just recently had such a weird feeling when walking my dog at night. Granted, I don't like walking alone in the dark, but we have been doing this pre-sleep walk for two weeks now and it has been fine. Except that one night last week. I don't know what it was, but I could kind of sense some really negative energy, it felt kind of hateful? At first I thought I was just being overly paranoid, it being already quite late and me being basically alone (no traffic, no people etc.), but as soon as I put some distance between me and this particular spot, the feeling vanished. Also, while we were there, my dog was very focused on this one spot among some trees where I couldn't see anything, he walked normally again after we went a bit further on. I still don't know what it was, but I have never sensed anything like it before. It was so weird.
PlasticCogLiquid · 7 points · Posted at 22:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn't for nothing, I can guarantee that.
Waywoah · 14 points · Posted at 22:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The weird thing about gut feelings is that it probably was nothing. The dog could have just heard a raccoon or something and OP just misinterpreted its actions. Or it could have been a murderer hiding, waiting to strike. Which seems more likely?
JeffCharlie123 · 8 points · Posted at 01:33:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another thing to consider is that your behavior will affect your dog. If you start acting nervous, so will the dog. Generally speaking, of course.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:43:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but I actually didn't feel uncomfortable until I noticed that my dog's behavior got weirder and weirder and this feeling I had got stronger. Before I just brushed it off as my mind being weird because it was dark and didn't feel uncomfortable. Might still have influenced my dog, of course, but he was extremely focused on this one spot while I can usually get him to focus on me even if there is a cat he saw.
JeffCharlie123 · 1 points · Posted at 16:48:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah idk lol. I was just stating something general about dog's behaviors. Obviously may not apply as much in your scenario.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:50:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and you're right. I think it likely had an influence either way. Idk it was really weird. I've walked past this spot numerous times now at night and it never felt weird except that one time. Maybe it's best I don't actually know what was up then.
Nussel · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Might have been, yes. But the thing is that I realized my dog's behavior and the gut feeling pretty much at the same time. And at first, I wasn't scared as I was sure I was just being overly paranoid because it was dark. But as my dog's behavior got weirder and the feeling stronger, I started feeling uncomfortable. Also, I've never sensed anything this strongly. I have a pretty good gut sense, for example, I'll notice if someone is looking at me even if I'm reading a book or something that I'm really focused on. So yeah, whatever it was, it was very weird.
Nussel · 2 points · Posted at 16:39:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's what I have been thinking and it really creeps me out.
PlG3 · 23 points · Posted at 21:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You guys have superpowers. My gut only talks when I have to poop.
thunderfart_99 · 3 points · Posted at 21:21:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find that your gut feeling only develops as you age, or you've been exposed to a toxic person very recently in your life.
KimberlyRP · -7 points · Posted at 21:48:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe for boys but not for girls. Take a look at the videos of Joe Biden handling little girls. You should be able to find a running clip of them on YouTube. You can see how these little girls are creeped out by 'Uncle Joe' as he plays with their hair, caresses their faces, touches them and whispers in their ear.
pubercuts · 7 points · Posted at 22:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does that have to do with gut feelings though?
KimberlyRP · -5 points · Posted at 00:47:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The comment that someone said guy feelings develop as we age. Earth to pube!!!
MrTonyBoloney · 60 points · Posted at 20:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Reminds me of that AskReddit thread about when your gut feeling saved your ass
kushnokush · 17 points · Posted at 21:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That thread or those threads?
HeLLoImnotStuart · 3 points · Posted at 21:03:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Corotsko · 6 points · Posted at 21:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do u happen to have a link?
trapgodxoxo · 9 points · Posted at 21:15:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's probably this one https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fraceg/when_has_a_gut_feeling_saved_your_life_serious/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
HeLLoImnotStuart · 8 points · Posted at 21:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one and there was another one that was even older, like 7 years old and way creepier
RusstyDog · 11 points · Posted at 21:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question gets asked every few days.
HeLLoImnotStuart · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't see it that often fortunately
Corotsko · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks
AliiChii · 3 points · Posted at 21:12:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont, i am just laying on my bed reading this thread before i go to sleep.
Corotsko · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Digital high-five (same situation lol)
bad-artist-with-love · 3 points · Posted at 21:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really want to read that, where can i find it?
HeLLoImnotStuart · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A guy linked it, he gotcha
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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MrTonyBoloney · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ass* autocorrect
Dr_Donald_Doctor · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AWA?
hctibdennabnu · 15 points · Posted at 21:33:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
9/10 times you're being paranoid. In the wild paranoia keeps you alive. Sitting alone in an area where you are well lit and can't see much outside of the lit area yourself would be suicide in nature. We evolved to not like that.
deadcowww · 25 points · Posted at 20:08:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a book dedicated to this. It's called "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. Great read!
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't get over the fact that there are many comments replying to thunderfart_99 about how it's good to trust your gut. Results may vary.
thunderfart_99 · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its Reddit, timing and luck is everything in this business. Plus my username must be causing a bit of amusement!
gimcrak · 7 points · Posted at 21:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a selection bias in nature for that kind of thinking. The person who hears rustling in the woods and mistakes a fluffy bunny for a tiger misses out on a meal. The person who makes the opposite mistake becomes the meal.
-omnipresent- · 6 points · Posted at 21:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
9 out of 10 statistics are also totally made up.
SSgtNappy · 10 points · Posted at 20:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good, we have instincts as humans so you should always trust them
kkeut · 7 points · Posted at 21:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how this got even one upvote is beyond me, especially when a genuine, non-batshit reason is cited above
thunderfart_99 · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is Reddit. Say anything about trust your gut feeling and you get upvoted into the sky.
ReformedBacon · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or that could be the Taco Bell from last night
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got that almost every time I entered school...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its moreso a case of the uncanny valley effect, but with places rather than people. Take one aspect that defines a place away, and we become uncomfortable, because its somehow normal yet abnormal.
jtl3000 · 0 points · Posted at 21:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They r learning the stomachs nerves r a direct connection to brain nerves and give first reactions and signal feelings
ninodaboss · -1 points · Posted at 21:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom was bringing me to Florida when I was a baby, we just came back from Michigan, we have family there, otherwise we would never go to michigan, but in the airport there was no one there, and a staff member near there said something about why there was no one there (flights cancelled maybe? Idk) he said that he would take is to the flight if we got in his car (this was in the parking lot), my mom quickly said no thanks, closed my door, got in the car and locked the doors and drove off really quickly, there is a few details missing, but you get the jist. Really makes you wonder...
[deleted] · 28 points · Posted at 21:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's the opposite, I love this feeling.
M_Looka · 25 points · Posted at 00:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do as well. I love liminal spaces. I love the feeling of kenopsia. I seek them out. In College, I went to a school in a city. The dorm rooms were really inhospitable (at least mine were. I was a poor kid going to a rich school). Most students studied at the libraries, or other study areas. There were whole buildings for this purpose. I used to go to one of a number of classroom buildings that were closed during off hours. I'd walk around the perimeter and tank at all the doors. Eventually I'd find an open one. Then I'd study there. The only person in an entire building. There was a full size re-creation of Stonehenge built in the desert in Washington state that I visited on a weekday. Completely empty. Incredibly eerie. I loved it. Hated to leave. Ok, here's the best one. I was driving on the New Jersey turnpike at about 4am about 35 years ago. In southern Jersey, there was no traffic at all. No one in front of me. No one behind me. No one for miles. I took my foot of the gas and let the car roll to a stop. I turned off the car. I got out. No streetlamps, it's pitch dark. I walked around the car. Sat on the hood. Just enjoyed the eerie strangeness. Then I saw the headlights of a car coming up behind me. I had parked on a long straightaway, so the car was about three miles behind me. I just stood there, and stares at the headlights coming toward me. Me, standing behind my car, parked in the center lane of the New Jersey turnpike. I watched for about a minute. Simultaneously exposed and invulnerable. I wonder who's in that car? I wonder where he's going? Oh, well. I guess it's time to go. I love that stuff.
AntiKrastinator · 7 points · Posted at 00:39:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too, mostly for smaller places (e.g., a small restaurant, bakery, music store, hair salon, etc.) or a library, etc. that are closed for the night. Especially true if the place still has some low-level lights left on at night, leaving the inside dimly lit but still visible. If I had to analyze it, I'd guess that it makes me think of the friendly workers and customers who will be greeting each other again there in a few hours.
The effect is heightened for me on foggy nights, especially if the place's sign is still illuminated.
But I rarely feel that effect from big-box or franchise stores. And seeing vacant or permanently-closed businesses never has that effect on me.
therealjoshua · 23 points · Posted at 20:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, it's being at a convenience store in the middle of the night
Bonus points if it's fall or cool outside, that just adds to the unsettling feeling
franticcat · 13 points · Posted at 20:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of places feel like that right now.
mama_dyer · 12 points · Posted at 19:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/kenopsia
Daedalus277 · 41 points · Posted at 19:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SCP-3008
ddavis527 · 13 points · Posted at 21:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
infinite ikea, a place that’s surprisingly i wouldn’t mind getting trapped in tbh
sweetrolljim · 10 points · Posted at 21:18:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As some who worked at an IKEA, you'd get sick of the limited food options pretty quick. If I never eat one of those shitty meatballs again for the rest of my life it'll still be too soon.
ddavis527 · 3 points · Posted at 21:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn now i’m rethinking my choice
Beezwax_and_nectar · 28 points · Posted at 19:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/kenopsia
toothpastenachos · 20 points · Posted at 19:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find this sub oddly relaxing
Vares__ · 6 points · Posted at 21:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has the opposite effect on me. Makes me anxious af.
sabadsneakers · 7 points · Posted at 01:55:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favorite part of hosting a party at my place is the 30 or so seconds after everyone has left but the room is still buzzing with energy. It’s like being alone and with a group of people at the same time.
illepic · 2 points · Posted at 01:40:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is my jam, thanks for introducing me. The sidebar referencing "a school after hours" is perfect.
goddamnsundayscaries · 9 points · Posted at 21:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To me, I kind of love the emptiness, it’s almost like a breath of relief to have no people around in a big empty space.
blaykers · 8 points · Posted at 19:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the souls of the dead trees under the lot crying out
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:27:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn I love that feeling
galaxygirl978 · 6 points · Posted at 20:17:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Backrooms, but not
Frontrooms
PopAdsandauks · 5 points · Posted at 21:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that vibe. It's like a neon lit peacefulness in a horror film, if horror films took a break in the middle.
heff_ay · 11 points · Posted at 21:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no clue what you're talking about.. Can you explain any more?
jesus_is_my_dad_ · 5 points · Posted at 22:43:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
r/kenopsia
https://i.redd.it/l3g54hhv6j631.png
Redtitwhore · 0 points · Posted at 23:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just see random meaningless pictures
wanze · 10 points · Posted at 21:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. Is the IKEA empty? Is that the thing? Being in a big empty space is weird or?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I get what they're referring to. Problem is, it's hard to explain. Yes, I think emptiness is part of it. It's places where reality just feels...off.
ProdigalSheep · 4 points · Posted at 21:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agoraphobia
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I were waiting from 9 at afternoon til 9 at modning to get a virgil abloh ikea collection. It was cold and lot of sketchy People. Also my ikea is in a danish city called Odense and the ikea is at a very Dodge place at night. Atleast i were with some cool guys
FrikkinLazer · 3 points · Posted at 22:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A classroom at night, in the dark, when the whole schoolbuilding is empty.
MoneyCantBuyMeLove · 3 points · Posted at 22:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just watch the Langoliers - a cinematic masterpiece from the mind of Stephen King. Also, it has Balki from Perfect Strangers in it!
fuzzy9691 · 3 points · Posted at 05:23:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ever become a shift worker, you get totally used to it and actually enjoy it.
I also did it a lot as a teen. Being mischievous and rebellious whenever the parents turned their eye, I’d be out that door and wandering places at 3am.
It is a strange feeling seeing the world while everybody is asleep. But I like it.
The silence, the echo of large spaces usually filled with thousands. The freedom of anxiety and all those thoughts you get while in the presence of others. You’re not worried about people seeing you not you’re best (not in your make-up whatever).
Then when I got my motorbike license I almost never slept anymore. I never had a destination, I’d just finish a night shift at the restaurant, get on the bike and follow a road till it ended.
5hours later, the sun is rising and I had to rush back the 5 hour return journey to eat, poop and go straight back to work.
It ruined me, but it was my best days.
Pitch black, empty roads, no street lights, years before google maps and smart phones. No massive street directory (where on the bike you gonna fit that huge book?). Just riding... absolutely nothing for miles but the darkness all around me.
flugx009 · 5 points · Posted at 19:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of like when someone smiles at you that you know you don't like
racocot · 6 points · Posted at 21:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IKEA kind of terrifies me. When you walk into one of the show bedrooms and there's weird shirts hanging in the closet or a book in an unidentifiable language sitting in the desk I feel like aliens are about to pop out
oukey_ · 6 points · Posted at 20:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get it.
fuckthissite- · 4 points · Posted at 19:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IKEA?! I love to have breakfast at Ikea never had a bad feeling.
Dr_Donald_Doctor · 6 points · Posted at 21:14:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never been to Ikea before, do they serve food?
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 21:21:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. You gotta eat the furniture.
fuckthissite- · 5 points · Posted at 21:30:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can speak only about Europe, but yeah they do, the breakfast bacon it’s like from heaven and they also have these meatballs (for lunch)with mashed potatoes and gravy it’s amazing, if you have the chance try it, you won’t regret it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree :-)
fuckthissite- · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well fuck you then 🤷🏻♂️
ImPretendingToCare · 5 points · Posted at 21:18:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ive never felt that in my life
Hiro_Skies · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Either everyone is at theyre houses or you gonna walk into that store and never be able to leave.
xXPolaris117Xx · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Called Kenopsia.
Gamblingspades · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Store is now closed
please exit the building.
ohcacombs · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you familiar with SCPs?
uconnhuskyforever · 3 points · Posted at 22:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just read the Infinite IKEA one thanks to this sub! Loved it, but can you explain what an SCP is?
ohcacombs · 4 points · Posted at 22:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The SCP Foundation is a fictional organization documented by the web-based collaborative-fiction project of the same name. Within the website's fictional setting, the SCP Foundation is responsible for locating and containing individuals, entities, locations, and objects that violate natural law (referred to as SCPs). Their website has a lot of entertaining reads. There is also an SCP sub.
uconnhuskyforever · 2 points · Posted at 22:54:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks! I’m going to read some more!
Skrrattaa · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
kinda reminds me of that endless IKEA SCP
champagneshowers11 · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They hide dead bodies in the cement that’s why.
coffeeandjesus1986 · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Went to a restaurant and the parking lot was empty. It was a Friday night, prime time for going out. Felt off, food was fine but there was nobody there. The place closed within the next week.
someboysmom31 · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly thought it was just me in re: IKEA and I could never explain it to anyone else.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My version of this is big, empty, beige coloured rooms with antique carpet and wallpaper.
desolator786 · 2 points · Posted at 03:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much for showing me r/thenightfeeling. Ten years ago when I was 17, I read the book "the subtle knife" (which is second from the "his dark materials" trilogy) right in the beginning when the author describes an empty beach at night in another dimension, I felt a warm and relax nostalgic feeling that actually never felt before or after. Until today when I checked that subreddit out.
LookAtMyCoolHat · 2 points · Posted at 03:18:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for giving me 3 different subreddits devoted to my fucking fetish.
FlowFreal · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought i was alone with this feeling. My new favourite subreddit js now r/thenightfeeling.
Jesus_is_my_ward · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job has me inside multiple different stores with only a few employees inside. Literally like 5 people running a whole store and its empty outside. It's become preferable to me that no one is there and when the parking lots are packed the job I came to do is much more difficult. I have this but in reverse.
elestupidoguy · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinite ikea
Ragin_koala · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's usually zombies, that's why
Tramagust · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empty IKEA? They're always full.
-Speechless · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/kenopsia
Reafth · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the twilight zone
LemonsInMySoup · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Play the game “Beginners Guide”. It gives you this same vibe but to the extreme the whole hour and a half you’re playing it
Froverant · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh that's easy, have you seen Midsommar? The Swedes are a fucky group of people :)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might like the Steven King story The Langoliers!
exacunn · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electric spots fixed this for me :).
taint_fittin · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, what is it about IKEA that feels so weird?
bookscoffeenaps · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or a random fear you get while washing your face in front of a mirror or in a shower. I don’t understand how my brain just randomly pops this idea randomly and when I am trying to tell myself that it’s stupid and there is no one with a knife waiting to stab me while I am showering, the fear grows stronger to the point it becomes so intrusive you just have to open your eyes and check. You know. Just to be sure xd
tlb97 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called kenopsia!
Sanquinity · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had this feeling one time when I walked out of a forest into...heathland? (googled it, not sure if that's the correct word) It was just so...quiet there. Barely any reflection of sound. Barely any sound at all. Just a very occasional bird, and a very light breeze. It just felt surreal. I imagine that's also what it must feel like in an echo proof chamber or whatever they're called, only stronger.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the opposite. I love abandoned buildings, walking the streets at night when nobody is around, the idea of an entirely empty IKEA sounds wonderful (I’m a little bit of an ‘apocalypse romantic’ and crowds give me anxiety).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marv?
Ejunco · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I use to walk through my old high school on the last day before summer break and it was empty or damn near empty I had a similar peaceful feeling.
gct · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like the back rooms
MattVanAndel · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love that feeling. Which is also why I love things like early Spielberg films, Kentucky Route Zero, and Remedy’s Control.
elasticicity · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get this feeling whenever my family would have us go to breakfast at 5 am. It was oddly comforting yet uncomfortable at the same time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow thanks for the new subs
ufo21 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn’t realise how much I feel these emotions/feelings?? Until now..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody, quick! Link them that SCP!
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's because the employees have no faces.
stygger · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like a person from Bombay coming to the Nordic Countries:
"Why are there no elbows in my face in public transit?!?"
AlyksTheUnicorn · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This!! Lately I’ve been going outside in nights when the sky is clear at 2-4 and just staring at the sky. Its such a calm but primal almost scary but still pleasant feeling. Its amazing.
CSMom74 · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell you what... I once went to an IKEA at opening time, on a weekday, and the parking lot was essentially empty. It was like the guy seeing the double rainbow. I didn't even know what to do with myself! I usually drive up to the second level to avoid wasting time looking and I parked in the closest spot I could and it was glorious!
atruj003 · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg I just thought it was just me who gets creeped out by IKEA.
Nbaysingar · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude. for me it's the outside of churches at night, especially older ones. I get such weird vibes from it.
I'm actually glad there's a sub for this kind of thing, because I love it.
DrunkenMasterII · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't get what you meant until I looked at r/trubackrooms.
SlinkyMink101 · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looking out for the Dementors....
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean my favorite feeling? It's why urban exploration is such a fun hobby. Abandoned buildings and construction sites are just the uncanny valley of civilization.
ZZwagon · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's ur survival instinct, stupid. Fight or flight. Jesus.
curemode · 1 points · Posted at 10:30:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I the only one that is drawn to these liminal spaces? I don't feel fear, usually, and even find them comforting... Like a lonely airport terminal at midnight, or a row of closed, darkened shops early in the morning, or the lit but empty hotel pool at night?
Kaelan_McAlpine · 1 points · Posted at 10:42:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That description is reminding me of the IKEA SCP for some reason.
-BoBaFeeT- · 1 points · Posted at 11:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Went to the local grocery store the other day in my sleepy town of 1500-2000 people to find it empty except employees. Was so fucking strange as it's the first time ever a grocery store was empty. I've worked retail for years so it was common to have a few dead hours at a best buy or whatever, but a grocery store just had a whole new level of "the fuck, nobody shops at 6pm?" Vibe to it.
Thanks corona...
(The store In question is the only option in town...)
penislovereater · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there something wrong if you get opposite feelings from those spaces?
PasGuy55 · 1 points · Posted at 12:49:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a child of the 80s that dead mall sub just makes me feel sad.
_SKETCHBENDER_ · 1 points · Posted at 12:49:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
u mean the zombie apoc feeling
Neon-eyeliner · 1 points · Posted at 13:31:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For whatever reason, the office I was working at before the pandemic hit always felt like that to me, even with lights on and people there. It made my stomach drop and I felt really uncomfortable, like I'm in an anxiety nightmare and i shouldn't be there and if i dont leave, I'll never be able to. It was really weird.
bearsinthesea · 1 points · Posted at 15:27:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot be the only one that thought this was a good feeling. Responses seem to think this is bad? wouldn't it be fun to be in an abandoned cruise ship or military base?
Mita82142 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my goodness!!! Thank you!!! For the IKEA thing. I thought I was the only one feeling that weird thing. Everybody raves about IKEA so I went and I felt eerily lost. I never went back and I never told anyone how I felt. What was that? Can someone explain?
DEADFAC3 · 3855 points · Posted at 16:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How that was not a headshot...
daniel4sight · 778 points · Posted at 19:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Games rigged from the start.
Ganon2012 · 29 points · Posted at 03:22:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ring a ding ding, baby.
Taikwin · 16 points · Posted at 03:47:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What in the goddamn?
Ganon2012 · 11 points · Posted at 03:51:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently you need to work on your aim.
Taikwin · 11 points · Posted at 04:08:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey now, smooth moves like smooth little babies, alright?
Ganon2012 · 8 points · Posted at 04:09:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I get the feeling we're on two different pages here.
Edit: Ok, so I Googled it. Apparently I forgot that line.
sinisternathan · 49 points · Posted at 01:09:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who said we were talking about games
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 01:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/holdup
Sachyriel · 8 points · Posted at 01:12:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ur nan did last nite
😐😑😶
NimbleWalrus · 9 points · Posted at 03:32:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, Benny
kruemmelbande · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id love to upvote but yoi already got 420 so... Sry...
daniel4sight · 3 points · Posted at 08:57:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand.
skiflo · 200 points · Posted at 23:12:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sinisternathan · 27 points · Posted at 01:09:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hiko
IsaacLightning · 6 points · Posted at 11:24:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've got to be kidding me!
Diniles · 6 points · Posted at 03:03:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao
ReallyMan44 · 4 points · Posted at 14:04:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
(Wakes up) The birds are singing, the flowers are blooming, my addiction is calling, what a beautiful day for looting. Good morning Prapor, I've been awake for 20 whole seconds and I haven't looted yet. It's time to grab on my fully kitted hk with thermal sight , silencer , h4 E1 stock ,hk mrs 14" keymod ,zenit RK-2 foregrip , 100 round m995 mag once again! (Types on keyboard). I-s...is that a dry fuel?? HMMGH*,* I-I MUST PUT IT IN MY GAMMA, (Intense clicking)** OH GOD (CLICKCLICKCLICK) FUCCKK, HUHGHU, CLICK, HUHGJGUHHGUGHU (SMASHES DESK) I-I-IM LOOTING!!!!! IM LOOTING, IM LOOTING IM LOOOTING IM LOOOOOTING LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT, LOOOOOTING , FUCCKKK, AHHAFHHAHUHG, LOOOOOT, AW FUCK ITS IN MY STASH, LOOOOOT, AWGAHUGHAHG. Aw fuck, aw fuck. oh jesus. ahhghhha, there you are, my undervalued market item spam to the world, my roubles , my roubles ...Well, it's time to get breakfast...well a little loot run first wouldn't hurt.
yhavmin · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
LMFAO
SimpleCollection7 · -4 points · Posted at 18:34:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
you dont need to define recoil fucker
KormitDaFrag · 67 points · Posted at 20:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My cursor was on his fucking head dude
divat10 · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just spray and spray my dude
MidnightMath · 17 points · Posted at 19:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because Hereford needed to be ruined and Ubi couldn't be arsed to tweak Ashes noodley hitbox.
Vylan24 · 4 points · Posted at 07:37:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But did you see the unnecessarily sexy new elite skin for (female operator)?
SockPuppetPower · 14 points · Posted at 22:21:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Upgrade your gaming chair
ryane_jon · 13 points · Posted at 19:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
since most games use some level of RNG for certain mechanics, it might be bad luck.
SumDumFuk_ · 12 points · Posted at 21:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ping.
SheepishLion117 · 18 points · Posted at 20:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could shoot somebody right in their throat artery (I forgot the actual name for it) and it doesn't kill the instantly. Sorry, but getting shot in your throat would kill you in seconds. In a game where getting stabbed in the foot is an instant kill, getting shot in the throat should also be
Szjunk · 8 points · Posted at 02:45:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
carotid artery
Osuwrestler · 8 points · Posted at 21:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Must be hackers
RentacleGrape · 5 points · Posted at 21:03:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humanity may never know the answer...
KaijuRaccoon · 3 points · Posted at 22:35:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Come on man that was TOTALLY a head shot
ObnoxiousOrk · 3 points · Posted at 23:37:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When there's a desink between the server and your computer, your screen can display the other player in one place and your crosshair can be over their head when you pull the trigger, but because hits are detected by the server and the player is in a different place according to the server, a hit won't register.
REEEEEElon_musk · 3 points · Posted at 03:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn devs need to fix the damn hit boxes
Chouji-Akimichi · 3 points · Posted at 03:57:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every time I flash someone it’s like I smacked them with a tissue from a little kids birthday party.....
Ty019 · 3 points · Posted at 04:34:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Rainbow 6 Siege there is an operator with only half of the head hitbox, you can shoot into the top half of her skull and she won't even flinch
badjabs · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really feel this one...
ZombiePlantMine · 2 points · Posted at 05:30:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks Ubi
Evethewolfoxo · 2 points · Posted at 05:56:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
-everyone who has ever played Rainbow 6 Siege
REDPURPLEBLOOD2 · 3 points · Posted at 02:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cough Rainbow six siege cough
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:13:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see you're a man of culture as well
Jesus_PK · 2 points · Posted at 03:48:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let me guess... R6S?
eldus74 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lerp
povertyanalystdotcom · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noobz0r
TUSD00T · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was a head shot. It just wasn't a kill.
bombfunkone512 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feelsbadman
Helmfire · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alternatively, how was that a headshot!?
Showyoucan · 1 points · Posted at 10:35:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Often uttered by me when playing Battlefield: “His head was the ONLY THING poking out, HOW were NONE of those headshots?!”
blyssblack7 · 1 points · Posted at 13:48:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This person Xcom's.
verticalboy · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
if i knew how gold worked I would give it to you sir
DeadassBdeadassB · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did I mag dump into a guy and he still one shot me
ahobel95 · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Latency, you may have shot him on your client, but the server already had him ahead of your reticle.
SpaRKyy1337 · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude i was totally on him wtf
dmoneykilla · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a headshot on LAN all day!
TheHistoryBuffYT · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Counterstrike flashbacks
CassetteApe · -3 points · Posted at 20:22:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Either lag or you just suck 💪😎👌
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 01:17:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmfao
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:55:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“How did he save that?”
eatMYcookieCRUMBS · 0 points · Posted at 03:15:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I haven't played games online until quarantine. I'll just say battlefield 4 is bullshit unless you do hardcore mode.
Cats_in_pajamas · 0 points · Posted at 03:19:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Halo Reach and its fucking bloom.
Silentoneoh · 0 points · Posted at 03:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Halo reach bro I swear
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:10:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noob
cesarjulius · 10329 points · Posted at 14:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’m a physics teacher and i’m embarrassed to say that despite reading several explanations, i still don’t understand how batteries work. specifically, if one end of the battery basically houses excess electrons and the positive side has a dearth of electrons, why doesn’t connecting two batteries but not in a closed circuit cause half of each battery to drain?
Rostin · 2960 points · Posted at 18:08:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not a battery expert, but I'll take a stab.
It's not true that one terminal of a battery has excess electrons, while the other terminal has a deficit of electrons. They are both charge neutral.
Batteries have an anode and a cathode separated by an electrolyte. As the battery is discharged to power something, not only do electrons flow from the anode to the cathode through an external circuit, positively-charged ions flow from the anode to the cathode through the electrolyte. The electrons and ions reunite at the cathode.
It takes energy to charge up a battery, and we get energy out when it discharges, because the ions and electrons are more chemically stable at the cathode.
In a lithium-ion battery, the kind I'm most familiar with, the anode is unusually graphite. The cathode is a lithium metal oxide. In the charged up state, the lithium atoms are stored in the layers of graphite. They aren't very happy about that, and would prefer to go home to the lithium metal oxide at the cathode. When the anode and cathode are connected through an external circuit, lithium atoms are ionized. The electrons go through the circuit, and the lithium ions diffuse through the electrolyte, and they are reunited at the cathode.
When you just connect two batteries together, positive to negative, nothing happens because the anode and the cathode are charge neutral. For electrons to be exchanged, there would have to be a channel for ions to be exchanged, too, and there's not.
akaBrotherNature · 2177 points · Posted at 19:28:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same tbh.
ButtimusPrime · 58 points · Posted at 20:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wtf I'm an ion
FusionExcels · 37 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t be so negative !
Dave5876 · 20 points · Posted at 22:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm positive he has a point.
polarbear417 · 18 points · Posted at 22:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any more puns and someone's going to get charged
FusionExcels · 19 points · Posted at 22:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With a salt and battery?
whatproblems · 10 points · Posted at 23:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is an electric conversation
bringaboutchange · 8 points · Posted at 01:39:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stop resisting
Loord_River · 4 points · Posted at 02:05:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This all feels like a very current topic, keep me in the loop.
-JG-77- · 8 points · Posted at 01:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
An atom with a non-zero charge, meaning it has a different number of electrons than protons.
Edit: just realized you said “wtf I’m an ion” and not “wtf is an ion,” leaving this up for anybody interested in this info
Sohcahtoa82 · 42 points · Posted at 20:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well then I've got some great news! There's this virus going around...
TurbulentAppleJuice · 10 points · Posted at 22:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'd better be home bro, there's a virus
hazeust · 3 points · Posted at 04:00:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
going home pretty cool im ngl
kyliejennerinsidejob · 2 points · Posted at 04:44:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, you kinda should be at the moment.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:33:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ions want to do what we've all been doing for the past few weeks.
blonderaider21 · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
These days I’m the opposite. I’m fucking sick of being at home
xanfiles · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought everybody wanted to get out of home
Doc_Dwarf · 42 points · Posted at 19:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that cleared up a question I didn't even know to ask, thanks a lot man
Fyre_Blade · 12 points · Posted at 20:25:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELI5?
[deleted] · 31 points · Posted at 21:05:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Fyre_Blade · 22 points · Posted at 21:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
eli2?
gunnar11 · 30 points · Posted at 21:26:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine you have a cube with a lump. The cube wants to go through a square shaped hole to the other side, but can't because of the lump. When you connect the battery to a circuit, the lump detaches, and follows the circuit, while the cube (now without lump) fits through the hole and goes to the other side
fatguyinlittlecoat2 · 8 points · Posted at 22:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELI6Months?
OskarasD · 21 points · Posted at 22:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
battery go brrr
bric12 · 6 points · Posted at 23:17:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELIInTheWomb
nhchan234 · 6 points · Posted at 00:10:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bzzzzterrryyyy
fatguyinlittlecoat2 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELIMyParentsInTheBackSeat?
Fyre_Blade · 9 points · Posted at 21:35:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh that makes sense l thanks lol
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Fyre_Blade · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sad bubbles must be tired :(
theartificialkid · 10 points · Posted at 21:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That explains why two batteries don’t discharge, but then when two batteries are connected in series, how do the electrons get back to the far terminal of the first battery? Do they pass through all the other batteries’ electrolyte pathways? And if so why can’t they just do that in the first instance in a battery sitting by itself?
milkman8008 · 5 points · Posted at 05:24:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I understand correctly, they don't return to the original battery. The front battery is fed electrons from the second battery, and the first batterys electrons push into the circuit. The electrons in the wire push to the second battery. Picture a tube full of ping pong balls, add one and another pops out the end. Adding them in series just increases the force(voltage) those electrons push with.
I would imagine the electrons do move through the electrolytes, as batteries sitting on a shelf tend to lose charge very slowly.
porenSpirit · 3 points · Posted at 01:50:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a damn good question.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picture two batteries in series. You might want to draw this out.
Label the anode and cathode of the first battery A1 and C1, and label the anode and cathode of the second A2 and C2. The batteries are connected with C1 directly in contact with A2.
Now draw an external circuit with a resister (light bulb, say) from A1 to C2.
As the batteries in series discharge, electrons go from A1 to C2 to power the light bulb. At A1, Li atoms are being ionized to strip off their electrons, and the Li ions that this reaction produces are migrating through the electrolyte toward C1. Oppositely, at C2, Li ions are being reduced to atoms by electrons that are arriving from the external circuit.
Within battery 1, the migration of Li ions from A1 to C1 means that positive charge begins to build up at C1. Similarly, the migration of Li ions away from A2 to C2 means that an excess negative charge begins to build at A2. But C1 and A2 are connected, so electrons move from A2 to C1 to balance the charge at both those electrodes.
theArtOfProgramming · 10 points · Posted at 20:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great explanation. I’ve always imagined batteries as a tank of water held in the air and electron flow is like uncorking the tank’s drain. Your explanation made my understanding a little more in depth.
IdreamofFiji · 9 points · Posted at 21:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shut up you're totally a battery expert
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 19:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's so beautiful to see smart people having a conversation
k sorry i'll go
Dragonman558 · 42 points · Posted at 19:08:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's got electrolytes, it's what plants crave
_brainfog · 13 points · Posted at 19:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see this joke all the time but this has to be the best in context I've ever seen. Hilarious!
Dragonman558 · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, not as good as what's it's from though, have you seen Idiocracy? They try to water plants with something that's essentially Gatorade because "hey, it has electrolytes"
_brainfog · 5 points · Posted at 20:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah nah I've seen the movie I mean when people say this in a thread I think the context in what you replied to made that joke much funnier then any other time it's used out of context. I love Idiocracy!
Raedukol · 16 points · Posted at 21:00:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a very good explanation. But keep in mind that the terms „anode“ and „cathode“ are misleading, and it would be preferable to use the terms „negative electrode“ and „positive electrode“, respectively. This is even in the electrochemical communitiy not always done properly. However, it can avoid misunderstanding, because the terms anode and cathode are only precise when you also know, if the cell (i.e., the smallest unit of a battery) is charging or discharging!
hzyk · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Said the not battery expert :p
Rostin · 7 points · Posted at 20:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a case of me knowing enough about a topic to know what I don't know. In graduate school, I did a little work on lithium-ion battery cathodes. As a result, I have a basic understanding of electrochemistry and how batteries work. I am absolutely not an expert in specific materials or chemistries.
X_Reactiionzz · 6 points · Posted at 00:51:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao, did you realise OP's name is cesarjulius when you said that?
rootager · 5 points · Posted at 22:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To simplify, connecting opposite terminals of separate batteries increases the imbalance of potential, it does not create a path to rectify the imbalance. The connection point between the batteries become a net zero in terms of potential energy. While the two unused terminals now have the sum of the engery of both batteries relative to each other.
TwinkyOctopus · 3 points · Posted at 20:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don't get it somebody help pls
ninodaboss · 3 points · Posted at 21:39:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking love reddit
byulo · 3 points · Posted at 21:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nice explanation but i still don’t get it lol
porenSpirit · 3 points · Posted at 01:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine a dog that really wants to go to the backyard. However, only the front door is open. He keeps barking at the back door to go out, but he can't get through. He finally realizes he can run out the front door and go around to the back.
Now let's pretend there's a cat in between the front and backyard on the side. When the dogs not running by, the cat has no energy and just chills. When the dog runs by, the cat gets scared and jumps up. Once someone let's the dog in the backdoor, the cat is chill again. However, when he runs around the house again to get in the back, the cat will be powered again.
The front door is the anode, the backdoor is the electrolyte, and the backyard is the cathode. The dog is electrons and the cat is a lightbulb coming on.
byulo · 3 points · Posted at 03:24:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait that’s it??? that’s so simple whaaaat your analogy is mf amazing. ima write my physics notes like this from now LOL thanks man
iwantallthechocolate · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What language is this? Damn I think I left my brains somewhere...
intellifone · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But why do electrons flow away from the cathode and towards the anode? Why do they only flow in that one single direction?
What material properties cause this? Magnetism? Nuclear forces? Why doesn’t it ever flow backwards to the cathode?
sumGUDsh_t · 3 points · Posted at 23:11:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Identifying which electrode is the cathode or anode can be a bit confusing. In a battery (galvanic cell), electrons flow from the anode (-) to the cathode (+).
Electrons are negatively charged particles so they are always attracted to the positively charged terminal, hence, the one single direction.
porenSpirit · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might even call it... A Direct Current. :)
MenAreHollow · 2 points · Posted at 21:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not know what to think about the "charge neutral" part. If I connect my hypothetical multimeter to the positive and negative electrodes, I will measure about 1.6 volts. Now obviously my hypothetical multimeter possesses infinite resistance, so the cell being tested is not powering anything. There might be a miscommunication here but if a cell cannot maintain a voltage potential on an open circuit, such as when disconnected, that cell is dead. A voltage potential relative to ground can be described as "having a charge".
OwO___UwU · 4 points · Posted at 05:32:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can have a potential difference between anode and cathode without having a net charge on either. The electrons in the cathode of a discharged battery are at a lower potential energy than the electrons in the anode of the charged battery. When your hypothetical multimeter measures those 1.6 volts, you are indeed closing the circuit. There has to be some current for the multimeter to sense.
MenAreHollow · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science and engineering is a pretty big world. You might be exercising a PhD given right to talk over my head. But from down here, I cannot comprehend why a comparison between two different batteries clarifies anything about electrodes being charge neutral. What is going on here? Is everyone else visualizing some useless clump of electrode material sitting all by itself on a table and saying, "Look, it possesses no inherent charge." Is there some obscure ramification of measuring electric potential energy relative to ground that cancels out any consideration of charge?
Perhaps I was not being clear about my hypothetical multimeter. As it connects an infinite resistance in parallel with the circuit being measured, I stand by my zero current draw assumption. Did that portion of your response have any relevance to the "charge neutral" discussion, or were you just overcome with an irrational fear that I might not be familiar with the inner workings of a non hypothetical voltmeter?
OwO___UwU · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn't mean to insult you my guy. There are no "obscure ramifications" here. Certainly an electrode contains mobile charges. The point that our "non-battery-expert" made was that the net charge is zero. There is equal positive an negative charge. Now during operation, there well may be some non-negligible accumulation of charge, depends on the battery.
I don't doubt that you know how a multimeter works. My point was that a multimeter connected to the two ends of a battery closes the circuit, allowing the chemical reaction to occur. The current draw is negligible, but technically not zero. I'm sure you understand this, I'm not trying to lecture you. Perhaps you know far more about circuits than I do.
MenAreHollow · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need not be concerned with insulting me. Your most recent insights were somewhat helpful in clarifying what was being communicated. I still find this whole "charge neutral" thing wildly misleading. If one is unwilling to go into lengthy specifics about electrons at higher or lower energy states, then there is nothing to gain from insisting they might technically have equal numbers of the old protons and electrons bouncing around. Some poor fool is going to grab a charge neutral electrode and get shocked. Earlier you typed something to the effect of, "without having a net charge on either of them", did you mean "both of them"? It makes your dead battery/live battery comparison meaningful. As a side note, I am left to wonder who you were lecturing if not me. Perhaps some future reader will find worth in it, although it seems vanity to think I have an audience here.
vinipyx · 2 points · Posted at 04:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"anode and the cathode are charge neutral" - I had to scroll way down to find someone who noticed that. Cathode and anode are not charge neutral by definition.
I think it would have been better for him to say, that chemical reaction inside battery produces electricity and that circuit needs to be closed for that reaction to happen in a timely manner.
MenAreHollow · 3 points · Posted at 04:44:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea what to think. There is enough detail there to give the impression of knowledge, but only if you overlook the blatant lies in the opening section. Fuck it. 2 awards and 2.4k upvotes, clearly reddit knows what they want to hear. Excuse me while I go lick some charge neutral electrodes.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said they were neutral to correct a misunderstanding. A battery does not store energy by collecting a bunch of free negative charges at one terminal and a bunch of free positive charges at the other.
lisowen · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a battery expert eh?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great explanation! My overarching theme in teaching physics and chemistry is Nature Is Lazy. It likes to go to the lowest-energy place and stay there.
defenderofcringe · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
is there an electroboom video that explains this? i like electrical engineering as a hobby but batteries aren't something i've worked with much.
TheApricotCavalier · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats not true. Current is an electron flow; there is absolutely electron movement & concentration differences
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol I read that first line as
Bcat8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey! I'm in highschool AP Chemistry, and we just finished our unit on batteries. This was interesting!
Pepe_raina · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t stab batteries!!! Although after that long stab it may be too late
Chadwick08 · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I won't argue with the rest of your comment, but batteries certainly do have excess electrons on the negative terminal. The proof is that you can bend electron beams in evacuated tubes through electrostatic repulsion with a battery.
kikushima · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you have explained it wonderfully!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a software guy, 80% ignorant about E&M, so forgive the dumb question but: what about butting batteries together + to - and then connecting the outside terminals (- and +)? If one battery is discharged, would this allow it to become charged? What is it about a circuit that provides the channel for ion exchange in such a way that putting the batteries together does not?
OwO___UwU · 2 points · Posted at 05:45:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The missing piece here is that you have two chemical species (in the anode/cathode) that undergo a chemical reaction when in electrical contact. One of the two get oxidized (loses electrons) and the other gets reduced (gains electrons). This doesn't happen without an additional electron channel because the electrolyte acts as an insulator between the electrodes.
Whatever chemical reaction that is occurring to yield electrons in the anode also produces some positively charged ions that dissolve in the electrolyte and diffuse to the cathode (the details of this can vary) where they recombine with the electrons to produce some other chemical species. The products of this chemical reaction have overall lower energy than the reactants. Applying a voltage in the opposite direction could, in principle, cause the reverse chemical reaction to occur, but there's no guarantee. Depends on the kind of battery.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the great response!
z1k3_PsYcHo · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So your a battery expert then
PloxtTY · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First ever expert to ever comment on Reddit who claims not to be one. It’s usually 14 year olds who say they are experts and arent
wasnew4s · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Berlin Wall but with shock juice and smaller.
kyliejennerinsidejob · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I... ok, I didnt know that I didnt know how batteries really work. Thanks for clearing that up.
FearlessChain6 · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't the electrons travel from the cathode to anode? Conventionally current is said to flow from the anode(positive end) to the cathode(negative end) but the electrons flow from the cathode to the anode outside the battery through a circuit. Correct me if I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congratulations you just explained how batters work in a comprehensive way to someone who has never in his life thought about how batteries work. If I believed in giving reddit money I would give you an award. Instead though take my like.
keepthepace · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the part I don't get. I understand opposite charges attract each other, so it makes sense the charged lithium ions would cross the electrolyte but what makes them cross the other way when they lose their charge? They should be neutral, not going either way?
Or are they always losing/gaining electrons two at a time and see their charge invert at that time?
jags2022 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Checks out, saw it in Breaking Bad once.
redfade97 · 1 points · Posted at 06:44:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
battery is basically using energy to push the electrons and it flows because they always stay neutral
HeftyJohnson1982 · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good response!!
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:01:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this because the external circuit is just more conductive than the internal layers? I never understood why they don't just spontaneously discharge internally, like what can happen in capacitors.
bearsinthesea · 1 points · Posted at 15:37:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But can't you use a battery in a circuit that connects to ground instead of the other side of the battery?
koavf · -1 points · Posted at 23:46:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"unusually"?
chilledball · 47 points · Posted at 20:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This makes me wonder if my physics teacher doesn’t understand things he teaches us
yeetboy · 21 points · Posted at 21:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From experience, I can tell you that there are likely a lot of topics that your science teachers only have a rudimentary understanding of.
frostyWL · 4 points · Posted at 05:38:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obviously otherwise they would be scientists or engineers
yeetboy · 2 points · Posted at 07:29:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that’s not true. I had no interest in becoming either. But “science” covers a lot of topics, and there is very little chance anyone teaching science has an in depth education in all fields. We have more than enough to teach at a high school level, but we likely don’t have significantly more in all fields other than one or two.
cesarjulius · 10 points · Posted at 00:08:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don’t fake it (pretending to understand things i don’t with my students), and this may be one of the few gaps in understanding i have it newtonian/classical physics. but physics is one of those things where you start off not understanding things, then you learn a little and you understand shit, then you learn more and realize that your prior “understanding” was superficial, and maybe continues to alternate as you continue further down the rabbit hole. i guess a lot of things are like that.
chilledball · 3 points · Posted at 00:41:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How strange would it be if you were my physics teacher
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cesarjulius · 2 points · Posted at 01:56:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
very no
crumpledlinensuit · 45 points · Posted at 18:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because what you are describing is a capacitor, not a battery.
ISupportOxfordCommas · 6 points · Posted at 20:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m only interested if it’s a flux capacitor.
TheOnlyBliebervik · 8 points · Posted at 19:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even a capacitor though. Charge won't move if there is no closed circuit. How could it?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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TheOnlyBliebervik · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure what circumstance you are referring to, but there has to be a closed circuit for current to flow. This closed circuit may be due to leakage effects. Is that what you're thinking of?
Pyrites · 3 points · Posted at 20:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you have a charged metal ball and an uncharged metal ball and connect them with a wire, current will flow between them, albeit just for a little while.
TheOnlyBliebervik · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the voltage is high enough, sure, as the air ionizes, causing a return path
Pyrites · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, electrons will flow through the wire until equilibrium is reached and both balls have the same amount of charge. That's current. For sustained current you typically need some kind of return path, though.
crumpledlinensuit · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, which you can do with a capacitor.
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crumpledlinensuit · 4 points · Posted at 20:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A cell is basically two chemicals that are energetically favourable to react, separated by some kind of membrane that, for arguments' sake, let's say electrons can't go through.
As you know, reactions take place by electrons moving from one chemical to another.
The way the electrons can do this is "the long way round" via the circuit. Whatever other species is created can pass through the membrane, and so does in order to balance the charge. (This is why bits of dust don't stick to the end of a battery - it doesn't have a free space electrical field around it in the same way that a magnet does).
JELLYJACKY29 · 21 points · Posted at 19:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was in your place, then i watched this video from ElectroBOOM and it all made sense: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://m.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DXcFOOfqfx3s&ved=2ahUKEwjEnpCEjeHoAhVi1qYKHb3OCzIQwqsBMAB6BAgGEAQ&usg=AOvVaw2cM3DQg-m-46pEIaBqkIlG
sleepy_alien_ · 5 points · Posted at 20:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! This is exactly what I wanted to see!
duttajoy · 13 points · Posted at 18:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
batteries work because of chemicals in them. There isn't necessarily a dearth or excess of electron. It's just that for a redox reaction to take place, there needs to be an electron transfer between the cathode and the anode.
the battery structure is basically this-
Cathode | Electrolyte | Anode
if you connect the cathode and anode with a wire, this enables the reaction to happen and the electrons flow through the wire and through the electrolyte. so you need a complete circuit for the reaction to occur.
however, if you connect the half of two different batteries, what you will be missing is the the electrolyte which can also act as a catalyst. So you are technically preventing the chemical reaction.
excess and dearth of electrons is probably an easy way of explaining this and hence textbooks mostly use these terminologies. If there was such a case, what you would be looking at is a capacitor, not a battery, which loses its charge a lot faster than a battery does.
i am nowhere near close to being a physics teacher, just a 12th year student. so if there are any mistakes in my explanation, i am sorry about that. you can look it up in the internet if you want! you may not find the answer to your exact question, but you can build up to it by asking the right questions. that's what science is about after all
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cesarjulius · 2 points · Posted at 23:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this might have been the best explanation so far!!!
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IdreamofFiji · 5 points · Posted at 21:28:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even in high school? Seems like a waste of a physics degree.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a bachelor's in physics and I teach high school in the US. Besides the fact that there is a large need for physics teachers, it definitely helps me in teaching the topics. To explain anything simply requires a deeper knowledge of it.
Also, within 10 years I'll be making a professors starting wage.
IdreamofFiji · 3 points · Posted at 22:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry if what I said was rude. You know what I mean though, teachers are notoriously underpaid.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 23:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No offense taken. It depends on where you're at, but I think rather than discussing it as teachers being underpaid, we should really be discussing it as teachers having too much responsibility. As far as work with a bachelor's degree we are paid pretty much on scale with other industries, on average anyway. The problem is that we are required to do the job of many different professionals. Not only do we teach, we handle child care, we handle emotional support, we handle classroom management, we handle curriculum writing, client interface by which I mean parents, we are required to do constant professional development, and we are provided next to no funding to complete these tasks.
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You left out a big one; mandatory overtime.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, in a union state there's no such thing. You will find yourself putting in extra hours though, usually.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I mean, don't tell me the one hour allocated you guys get to grade papers is enough. Yall take that shit home.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends, honestly. I take less and less home each year. It's actually the differentiation and curriculum that takes the most time.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to ask you something and I want you to be honest with me. What is differentiation?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've heard that not all people learn best in the same way, right? Well we are responsible for taking our curriculum and differentiating it so each students gets the content delivered in the most effective fashion. It also covers different levels of learning. I can't hand a math heavy exam to a kid who's been failing math all his life so I have to change the exam to be concept based. I can't solve equations on the chalkboard for the kid who has trouble staying awake in my lecture so I also have to provide YouTube videos they can watch on their own time. It sounds great because I'm 'meeting the students individual needs' but really it's a nightmare. If I have 25 students I'll have to create 3 to 4 versions of an exam and provide notes and lecture in 3-4 different formats.
I like using digital tools because I don't want to go through 10 reams of paper a year but you have a kid who doesn't like typing? Get him the paper copy. While it accomplishes a lot for students with disabilities, it really just takes responsibility off of lazy kids. This is the opposite of creating a good student.
SaftigMo · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even in middle school.
patrickpollard666 · 4 points · Posted at 01:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
eh, plenty of physicists don't know about the inner workings of batteries
Entankled · -2 points · Posted at 01:55:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know any physicists? I’d be fired if I didn’t know this.
patrickpollard666 · 3 points · Posted at 02:00:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a physics graduate student, my research has nothing to do with batteries and until this post i hadn't really thought too hard about what was in them
Entankled · -2 points · Posted at 02:01:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m also a graduate student and this was asked on a comprehensive exam. If my department head came into a lab I was teaching and I couldn’t explain this, I’d be fired lol.
patrickpollard666 · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, idk i guess i just never had or taught a class that focused much on it. capacitors, resistors, inductors, AC vs DC, were all reasonably important topics, but batteries were kind of always constant voltage black boxes. maybe someone decided they run on "chemistry" so why bother teaching it. or also maybe i just forgot
Entankled · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Departments are all different too. And yeah I agree 90% of the time they’re just black boxes in our circuits. I highly recommend learning about them though, it popped up in stat mech for me too!
patrickpollard666 · 2 points · Posted at 02:37:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, for sure! they're really cool, plus i know energy storage is super important as we transition to more renewables
cesarjulius · 3 points · Posted at 00:11:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don’t consider myself a “physicist”. i have a bachelor’s in theoretical physics from a top tier university, but i never worked toward a phd or did substantial research.
r1chard132 · 1 points · Posted at 07:28:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same in Switzerland. A physics teacher is required to have a masters degree in physics
McLeansvilleAppFan · 3 points · Posted at 21:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also teach physics and that is one subject that I am not the least bit embarrassed to say I don't understand parts. I can plug and chug the equations but there are parts that I just don't get all that much at a conceptual level.
I am not sure what level you teach but I would recommend taking a Modeling Physics class if you teach high school level. You learn a ton of stuff.
At the end of the day physics can be hard. No shame in that. It can also be the must fun as well and maybe for that reason.
NoNameBrandMemes · 2 points · Posted at 18:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking of batteries as a reservoir of electrons is helpful, but not quite accurate (that's more akin to a capacitor). Thinking of batteries as a "voltage pump" powered by a chemical reaction can be more intuitive. Take a 1.5V battery for instance:
If the voltage difference between the positive and negative terminals is less than 1.5V, the chemical reaction proceeds. The reaction is a redox reaction, which converts chemical potential energy into electrical potential (through the released electrons). Once there is a voltage difference between the terminals of 1.5V, the reaction halts (the chemical potential is no longer enough to drive the reaction).
When you connect two batteries in series but leave the circuit open, electrons have nowhere to flow. The anode of one battery and the cathode of the other cannot chemically react with one another, as ions cannot be exchanged through the contacts, only electrons. The two terminals exchange electrons until they are at the same voltage, and then the system is balanced (until a load is connected via wire).
I'm not too good at explaining things but I hope this helps a little!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could think of it as a gallon of water or something instead. The positive negative indications is more like the direction it would pour out, not where the energy is hanging out waiting to be deployed if that makes sense.
redpandaeater · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Galvanic cells should show you the basics. If you look at a simple Cu/Zn cell, you're physically dissolving zinc from the electrode into the solution and that's where the electrons come from is the physical oxidation. With a complete circuit, those electrons start to get repelled and can end up at the copper cathode. At that point the cathode starts to build up negative charge and attract positively charged copper ions and perform a reduction reaction to donate some excess electrons into the electrolyte solution and get now solid, neutrally charged copper plating the cathode. What actually completes the circuit, though, is that the sulfate anion can freely flow between the cathode and anode but the copper and zinc cations can't. That's what forced electrons to go the long way around and through your circuit.
If you just attach two full cells together like you were asking about, there's nowhere for the sulfate to go. So any electrons that flow from the zinc of a second cell to the copper of the first cell will correspondingly build up a charge within the electrolytes that you can't get rid of and very quickly terminate.
Hopefully that at least gives you the gist of it without going into things like the double layer that forms at the interfaces between the electrodes and electroyltes. Plus these days most of the batteries you think of that we use have a solid electrolyte, but it really does the same thing in not allowing electrons to flow but allowing an ion to flow. Ionic conductors themselves are kind of cool to look at but can get very involved. AgI is a classic example of a simple fast ion conductor, where at 430K it has a phase transition from wurtzite to a simple BCC lattice that results in almost effectively a solid iodine sub-lattice and a relatively molten silver sub-lattice that allows the silver ions to fairly readily move between tetrahedral interstitial sites within the lattice.
usernumber36 · 2 points · Posted at 00:39:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
this is a chemistry thing, not a physics thing.
One end of a battery does NOT hold an excess of electrons and the other end does NOT hold a dearth of electrons. The two ends of the battery each contain a metal and its salt. The relevant part of the salt is the metal cation - we can ignore the anion balancing it. For example:
cathode: Cu(s) and Cu2+anode: Zn(s) and Zn2+
we might write this in half-cell notation:
Zn(s) | Zn2+ || Cu2+ | Cu(s)
So for each metal, half of it is solid and half of it exists as a cation. The reason electrons flow is because the battery is basically saying "hey, wouldn't it be better if ALL of this metal were cations and ALL of this metal were solid?". This happens because one metal is more stable as a solid than the other, so the lower energy state for the system overall is to make all of that metal the solid here. Systems always shift to the lowest energy state.
You can imagine that for each metal, there is a certain change in potential energy for accepting electrons and becoming neutral.
For example, when Cu2+ accepts two extra electrons to become Cu(s), the potential energy decreases by 0.68 eV (decreasing is good). When Zn2+ accepts two electrons to become Zn(s), the potential energy instead increases by 1.52 eV (increasing is bad).
Clearly the best situation here is for copper to accept electrons and for zinc to lose them. So that's what happens. Instead of each metal being 50 : 50 solid and cation, the copper becomes all solid and the zinc becomes all cations.
The total potential energy change is a decrease of 0.68 eV + 1.52 eV = 2.2 eV.Because this reaction involves the exchange of 2 electrons, that's a potential energy change of 1.1 eV per electron transferred. eV / e = V. Our voltage is 1.1 V.
Voltage is potential energy change per unit charge transferred. -2.2 eV per -e. (where e is the electron charge) = 1.1 V
As someone has commented below, when the electrons flow to change the charges of the metals, other charged particles have to flow ELSEWHERE to counterbalance the charges. Otherwise you get charges built up either end. Electrons flow through the wire to let the metals do their thing, but ions within what we call the "salt bridge" (usually some sort of paste within the battery between the two metals) will flow to the metal surfaces to counterbalance the charge difference.
What really happens is the metals will just kinda.. do the reaction they want to do - gain or lose electrons - and that builds up a charge imbalance. The electrons flow through a wire and the ions in the salt bridge flow to correct that imbalance. The salt bridge is necessary to complete the circuit and avoid charge imbalance just happening somewhere else.
SpecE30 · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you understand corrosion?
cesarjulius · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’m really not a chemistry guy. sorry.
SpecE30 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither am I, just a mechanical engineer. The basic battery is just destroying one material with oxygen to release it latent electricity. or the same way how a potato can produce electricity. It's the oxygen coming from the air mixing something that releases Ions.
Pleasure_palace_pal · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is incorrect, though its kinda funny. So an oxidation reaction has nothing to do with oxygen, and most batteries are sealed to the air. Even those that aren't don't use the air in their chemical reaction.
An oxidation reaction is just a chemical reaction that removes electrons from a charged atom, ion, or molecule.
While an oxidation reaction is fundamental to batteries, oxygen is not lol.
SpecE30 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are trying to explain something to someone who doesn't understand chemistry. If you start explaining using acid and OH links to create energy you will lose him. And yes Oxygen as it's molecule is definitively used in batteries. for example Alkaline batteries : Zn(s) + 2OH−(aq) → ZnO(s) + H2O(l) + 2e− [Eoxidation° = +1.28 V] For fuck sake get off reddit.
grammarpopo · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a physics nerd, and all the explanations I’m seeing are terrible, because they don’t actually answer your question. The one thing I will add to the conversation is the the word “redox” is being thrown around. Redox stands for “reduction” and “oxidation”. Something is oxidized when it loses electrons and reduced when it gains electrons. So when someone says redox reactions, that is what they mean. Other than that, I can’t really explain batteries either.
And all I have learned about batteries is based upon the lead/acid batteries I have in my camper. They are definitely temperamental, delicate, and easy to ruin.
ISupportOxfordCommas · 4 points · Posted at 20:06:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You guys make my brain hurt
grammarpopo · 3 points · Posted at 20:10:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I, too, am a fan of the Oxford comma.
ISupportOxfordCommas · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I, too, am an officer in the Grammar task force.
Did we just become best friends?
grammarpopo · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep! Do you want to go do karate in the garage?
ISupportOxfordCommas · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep! On the count of three, name your favorite dinosaur. Don’t even think about it, just say it. One, two, three.
cesarjulius · 3 points · Posted at 00:21:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hamburger.
grammarpopo · 2 points · Posted at 03:26:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Velocipraptor!
ISupportOxfordCommas · 2 points · Posted at 11:53:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Velociraptor! If you were a chick, who’s the one guy you would sleep with?
grammarpopo · 2 points · Posted at 17:26:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
John Stamos!
sin0822 · 2 points · Posted at 18:07:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I was taught was that DC power works at an electron level like a first in last out system in a wire, one electron goes in and pushes one out, creating a force. For AC I was taught the electrons go back and forth like if you shake your head.
Fried_Cheesee · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the easiest explanation is that electricity isn't the consumption/shifting of electrons, your electricity bill is produced on the basis of how much energy you use to move those electrons to consume electricity
jackandjill22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dw man you're not alone. Even if most people who understand math that's why they never go into physics. It's hard even basic concepts are hard.
john-of-the-doe · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search up electrochemical cells
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cesarjulius · 2 points · Posted at 00:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is definitely not right. if you connect a chamber with compressed air to a chamber with a vacuum, air will flow until the two chambers reach equilibrium. it wouldn’t matter that the two chambers are in two different sets of chambers that aren’t connected at the other ends.
immortalsauce · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mrs. Elsner??
cesarjulius · 4 points · Posted at 00:25:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes susan. it’s me, helen. i miss you so much.
FakedKetchup · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cell itself is a one unit You can’t expect it to work if only connecting one partition to another unknown partition of a different object It is the same thing as connecting 2 usb sticks together it just doesn’t fit
If you would connect both terminals then your theory is correct
hmwybs · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything related to electricity - my brain just can’t seem to comprehend that sorcery
JPiratefish · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In DC circuits - the electrons have to have a complete circuit so that the differential between the battery poles can be used to power things. When that circuit is not complete - as in two batteries just sitting there in series (+-](+-] and you don't connect the other battery poles into a complete circuit - the electrons have no reason to go anywhere - and they need reason to move.
In DC circuits - the electrons jump from one atom to the next in a row - so they actually traverse the wire over time - not at the speed of light - a much slower speed - feet-per-minute speeds. It's slow due to wire resistance - not every electron makes the trip and becomes heat. The longer the wire - the more heat and loss.
AC circuits flip the use of + and - poles 60-times a second. Instead of pushing electrons from one atom to the next like DC - alternating current makes all the electrons do a step forward and a step back. And Repeat. The energy from this is a nice pulse this goes much closer to the speed of light - and since you're not pushing these electrons into too many new positions - there's less heat - and loss over distance is much less - you can go miles.
1funnyguy4fun · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, you are not alone. I understand all the concepts but, how a flow of electrons can create so much physical energy still has me scratching my head.
thagthebarbarian · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lots of good stuff here
It's also important to note that if you hook two batteries (assuming the right kind-lead acid batteries do it) up in parallel without completing a circuit they will balance each other. Put a dead car battery and a charged car battery together positive to positive and negative to negative and let them sit for a day and you'll have two half dead batteries.
Louielouielouaaaah · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read that as “phys ed teacher” at first and wondered how the two equated 😑 ...I also don’t get how batteries work...
omerokah · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a physics student and I don't understand anything
OccasionallyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll let Youtuber Electroboom help out on this one https://youtu.be/XcFOOfqfx3s
BombAnne · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very helpful very funny book I'm reading right now:
There are no electrons, electronics for earthlings - Kenn Ahmdall
It's extremely funny if you haven't read it yet and it explains all about the little green guys in the batteries. Worth to read
rootager · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its because of the relative potential of the terminals. The positive of one battery is relative to the negative of that battery. Connecting the pos of a second battery to the neg of the first, will bring those two points to an equal potential.
For example two 5 volt batteries connected pos to neg. Relative voltage from the connected terminals to either empty terminal remains 5v. while the reletive potential between the empty terminal is now 10v.
The reason current won't flow from the connected terminals is because current will only flow where there is a difference of potential. They are one singular point at equilibrium.
_The_Real_Sans_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that one end has excess flowing to an end that doesn't, but rather that one end is more willing to become a negatively charged ion than the other is willing to remain neutral, with the difference in this willingness being what determines the 'strength' of the flow of electrons. This occurs when both ends are connected in a circuit without needing some sort of activation energy because the reaction is what is known as a spontaneous reaction, meaning that, among other things, the reaction will occur whenever it is in a position to occur as it will increase the thermodynamic 'stability' of the system. Think of it in terms of chemical equilibrium (with the products just being ions of the reactants)
TheApricotCavalier · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats a legit question.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason that one houses excess electrons is because of the existence of a current. If you're connecting two batteries except not in a closed conducting loop then there will not be that charge.
jojo_31 · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search on YouTube for "what confuses physicists about physics" and they all go: "well a lot actually haha"
Puffymagic7 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not in batteries, but I think electrochemistry is rad. Here is the logic I use when I think about batteries.
Always start from the thermodynamics approach. A battery simply takes advantage of the thermodynamics that drive electrons to flow from a state of high energy to low energy according to delta G= -nfE, where detla G= change in Gibb's free energy, n= # electrons passed, F=Faraday's constant, and E is the potential of the cell. A spontaneous event occurring when delta G is negative (the overall energy of the system decreases), so E must be a positive value.
We know that electrons flow from high to low spontaneously. So something loses electrons (oxidation) and something gains electrons (reduction). What stops the reverse? Lets make a physics example out of this...If a kid a ball to his friend, and his friend cant throw it back without help.Why can't the friend throw the ball right back? Because he is weak and its against thermodynamics! We know that the potential difference of the cell is this difference in ability to throw the ball/electron. So we describe it as the push of electrons in one direction minus the push in electrons of the reverse direction...Ecell=Ereduction at the cathode - E reduction at the anode...or the ability to throw the ball one way minus the other. In a physics world, that ball is only going one way unless we help the kid or charge the battery (if its a secondary battery). The cathode is site of reduction, and when the battery is discharging, is the positive electrode. The anode is the site of oxidation and when discharging is the negative electrode. This terminolgy stems from the idea that when spontaneously discharging, the cathode has a positive charge and is accepting electrons from the anode. Meanwhile, the anode is negatively charged and shuttles electrons to the cathode.
Something to always emphasize is that electrons interact strongly with matter. Without a conductive shunt between the two terminals (an external circuit) electrons will not flow. Simultaneously, the electrolyte must allow charge carriers to maintain electroneutrality. Anodes are typically made of a porous graphite which allows lithium to intercalate within the structure during charging. As someone else stated the battery must remain neutral and this is where it comes into play. The anode has electrons ready to ship to the cathode by stripping the electrons from the Lithium.
When the terminals are connected is when the magic begins! The lithium is oxidized at the graphite anode forming lithium ions and electrons. Always fun to note that lithium is the most reducing of the metals and is the reason for why we use it in batteries...i.e lithum wants to give things electrons. The electrons flow through the circuit powering the the connected device and finally back into the cathode where the Lithium ceramic (LiMnO for example) is reduced. As you are doing this, you must allow the lithium ions to flow from the anode to the cathode by having an ionically conductive electrolyte. This is the challenge of solid electrolytes. They have many benefits towards capacity and safety, but they make charging a nightmare due to super low ion mobilities compared to liquid electrolyte.
I know its a lot. I hope that its somewhat of a help. Best of luck!
Emergency-Jello · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think in terms of fluid flow and pressure.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to be a dick, but what degree do you have? I just ask because I have a physics degree, and considering teaching years ago but decided against it.
cesarjulius · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
theoretical physics
jenniferlynn329 · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like prisms and light. I'd rather stick with eyeglasses and +/- diopter. :)
BOBOnobobo · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so I'm a first year uni student in physics and I had this problem two years ago and I remember I was obsessed about it and since I was ( still am) bad with chemistry I didn't know the answer people gave here and only found out later on from the internet.
You're the first person who I heard say they shared my problem and for some reason it makes me happy to know I'm not the only guy aho wondered that.
Also respect for teaching physics and not being afraid of not knowing everything :)
5foot10whiteboi · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I studied electrical engineering technology work as a technician in RF but really don’t understand maxwells equations or any electromagnetism
AR15sAndShitV2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re a physics teacher huh? Ruined my junior year 😂😂😂
mattstrees · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good analogy for me is: batteries are containers of electrons; like a water container, connect 2 water containers with the same head in series above one another , they will accumulate the head. Connect in parallel and the head or voltage will equalize.
doctordanieldoom · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrons have nowhere to go.
nmsjtb0308 · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I played jackboxtv .com tonight.
One of the questions was which one is not part of a battery?
Because of your question and the subsequent response, I am the only one who got the question right!
Thank you very much, good sir. Carry on.
PrOwOfessor_OwOak · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yo its ok, I got a robotics and electronics degree and I don't understand that.
From what I can understand, it isn't infinite power because other things in that circuit take the sparky bits from the battery (I don't want to use proper terms for stuff lol)
MGrooms94 · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does "dearth" mean? New worr for me!
quadratusss · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I learned about batteries watching breaking bad.
tally_whackle · 1 points · Posted at 06:31:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m too stupid to understand this question.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually a chemical reaction that maintains a voltage at each end. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Galvanic_cell has some information. What voltage depends on what is reacting. They can be placed end-to-end in order to reach higher total voltages. It's covered in some detail in college intro chemistry courses.
MightyMageXerath · 1 points · Posted at 11:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you need to get die of the misconception that a battery is the same as a capacitor. The concept of having excess charges at the electrodes, positive or negative, applies only to capacitors. Batteries work fundamentally different, but others already have explained it here really nicely.
Ernabay · 1 points · Posted at 12:17:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because 2 batteries in series looks like this [+-][+-] note that the positive terminal of the 2nd battery is sandwiched between the negative terminal of the first battery along with it's own negative terminal. Thus, any potential that would be formed between the 2nd battery to the first battery is cancelled as considered by the terminals that are touching each other. However, since the batteries are in series, when a sufficiently conductive path forms between the 1st batteries positive terminal and the 2nd batterys negative terminal (that is smaller than the internal resistance across both the batteries) the positive charge found at the 1st battery can be considered "doubled" since the net amount of positive charge has doubled in the circuit (doubled in quotes because internal resistances prevent this from actually being true). And so the potential is larger across 2 batteries in series rather each considered separately. Of course you can't form this process indefinitely as eventually the internal resistance across the batteries in series will effectively create an open circuit again.
This answer may be confusing because we know it is electrons doing all the work, however there is a reason history has always denoted current as coming from the positive terminal (even Maxwell equations take the convention) it's much easier to see this from this perspective. Also later on you learn about "hole" current and this perspective actually isn't that wrong.
WasterDave · 1 points · Posted at 12:26:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's OK, it's chemistry.
Pleasure_palace_pal · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I majored in physics, and now have a job working with batteries, so let's see if i can explain it to you.
What you described is a capacitor. If there are free elections (charge) stored statically on two pieces of metal and you connect them, then charge will flow. This is because metals are conductors and all their excess electrons float in a cloud around the surface rather than being bonded to a specific atom. So you understand that much, what you described would happen, if it were as you described it
But here's the thing. Metals can still have charge inherently, you can see this on the periodic table based on the columns that they are arranged in. Just like any other element they have electron shells that orbit the nucleus, and the charge depends on how full the outermost shell is. So a metal can be charged in two ways: with static electricity that is excess electrons floating freely, and with atomic charge that is inherent to The element.
Capacitors work off of static charge, and batteries work off of atomic charge.
The results of this is that while there is now a charge difference between whatever charged plates you choose, a simple circuit will not cause charge to flow, because those electrons are stuck on to individual nuclei. To free them from their bonds, you must resort to chemistry.
I'm not a chemist, the next part will be hand wavey.
In the main body of the battery, there is an acid or a base called an electrolyte. This electrolyte is capable of reacting with the plates only when the plates are connected, because the reaction requires an electron (or electrons) to be jettisoned from the charged plate while an ion (charged collection of atoms bonded to form a charged molecule) is formed between the plate and the electrolyte. this jettisoned electron will flow through the circuit to create the current in the battery. The ion created by this is now also charged, and will want to move towards the other plate, allowing for more ions to be formed, more electrons to be jettisoned, and more current to flow.
Recharging the battery is the exact opposite of this, where the electrons get stuck back into the ions and they flow in reverse. Each battery chemistry follows it's own chemical reactions that you can look up. The limiting factors for batteries have to do with charge difference between plates (this determines cell voltage), ionic flow, reaction rate, reaction temperature limits, and plate material (the anode and cathode get used up during the reaction in traditional batteries). I'd suggest nickel zinc to research first though (lead acid and lithium ions are slightly different).
Battery architecture is fairly straightforward, but if you want to get into it you'll have to know what the following are: cell, anode, cathode, electrolyte, seperator, battery.
cesarjulius · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
excellent job. it’s really been incredibly interesting how diverse these explanations are.
Pleasure_palace_pal · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm really impressed you keep reading and responding to them, there's a lot of dense comments to parse here lol.
cesarjulius · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i'm parsing and processing as best i can! i'm probably a little better at teaching than i am at physics, and a lot of people who responded seem to be way better at the physics than they are at the teaching. it's pretty tough to eli5 with some of the more complex subtopics like electromagnetism and relativity. just thinking of virtual photons and what magnetism really is brings back painful memories of stumbling through maxwell's equations. i came across one of my college notebooks recently and it was a clusterfuck of dirac notation written in my handwriting, but otherwise foreign and mysterious to me.
[deleted] · 1310 points · Posted at 14:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
chemistry, I genuinely have no idea how atomic layers or molecule diagrams work and no explanation I have ever had has helped. Please do not send me any explanations. Thank you.
Mustircle · 212 points · Posted at 17:13:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
everything wants to be stable and there are rules for what is more stable than others
[deleted] · 46 points · Posted at 23:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BiscuitPuncher · 37 points · Posted at 23:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about it like this, you know how when you're holding something up in the air it has a bunch of potential energy? The universe moves toward a state in which energy is expended, or at the lowest energy state. Essentially molecules want to do the same thing and react with something to get to the lowest possible energy state. For example, an alkene, or a carbon and hydrogen molecule with a double bond, will react with HBr, hydrobromic acid, to form another molecule called an alkyl halide, or essentially attaches the H and the Br where the double bond was. However, if you look at Benzene, which also has double bonds, it won't react with HBr, this is because it's really stable. Benzene has some properties that make it stable, such as resonance, conjugation, and aromaticity, none of which I'll go into now to keep from complicating things. Because it has all of these stabilizing properties, it doesnt want to react because it would lose one or more of these properties, bringing it up to a higher energy state.
I could certainly be explaining some things wrong, so if anyone else can spot some error I made please let me know. (I'm not like a scientist yet, just a chemistry undergrad.)
spiderkobe · 28 points · Posted at 04:02:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know you’re trying, but you lost me at potential energy.
BiscuitPuncher · 18 points · Posted at 04:09:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know the ball you're holding, and how it just kinda wants to fall? Potential energy is like the amount of energy it could potentially have when its falling. Potential energy is translated to kinetic energy, which is pretty much the energy of motion, when it's falling.
This translates to chemistry because the really unstable molecules want to react, just like the ball wants to fall. They react and form much more stable molecules, much like how the ball falls into a much more stable state, i.e. the ground.
spiderkobe · 9 points · Posted at 04:11:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alright I’m starting to understand, but where does that kinetic energy go to, what does it do in the end.
BiscuitPuncher · 17 points · Posted at 04:18:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Some reactions are what are known as exothermic reactions, which lose heat to the environment, which is most likely where that energy went for the reaction.
As for the ball example, I can try to explain, but physics isnt my forte so I'll probably get it wrong. As far as I know, the energy is also translated to heat through friction/air resistance and lost to the environment as well, but again, I could be wrong, though I dont see anywhere else it could go, aside from the ground itself, when it hits it.
spiderkobe · 11 points · Posted at 04:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow this was actually quite informative! Can’t wait to forget it within 24 hours!
BiscuitPuncher · 13 points · Posted at 04:28:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, I'm glad I could help, even if for a day :)
Now go impress your friends with your newfound knowledge while it lasts
weedmane · 2 points · Posted at 07:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No? And wouldn't that just be gravity pulling on it?
BiscuitPuncher · 4 points · Posted at 11:21:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is gravity working on it. However, you holding up the ball against gravity is essentially creating potential energy (not really creating but converting a different type of energy into potential, due to the first law of thermodynamics, but I'll keep that terminology for simplicity.). It's in a very unstable position and it wants to release this potential energy and fall into a more stable position.
plmcalli · 2 points · Posted at 17:00:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...but why male models?
usernumber36 · 7 points · Posted at 00:58:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
energy is the capacity to do work.
work is motion, change. Stuff happening.
i.e. energy is how likely a state is to change.
Low energy states are unlikely to change, high energy states are likely to change.
Ergo, it is most likely that high energy states will change to become low energy states. Every system will change to seek the lowest possible energy state it can have.
AgAero · 7 points · Posted at 01:48:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We do actually know this. Below is my attempt at explaining it. If there are holes in this explanation, feel free to ask me about it and I'll try to fill them in.
Stability basically means that there is a 'state' to the thing that it will return to if you kick it slightly. Imagine you drop a bowling ball onto a trampoline. It will roll to its lowest point and stay there. If you kick it, it will oscillate for a bit, then fall back to that same point.
In this example, you can characterize this 'lowest point' that the ball reaches via the height of the ball relative to the ground or something, but you can also describe it by a potential energy function. In this particular case, that energy function is U = m * g * h where 'g' is an effect of the gravitational field. This gains you a few useful properties over simply using the height (e.g. the difference between the dynamics of a bowling ball vs a marble in the same situation, or the same scenario conducted on Mars vs the Earth), but the chief among them is the abstraction/concept of potential energy that you can now use in other situations.
Now, back to the discussion on molecules and chemistry. Because of how electrons disperse around a nucleus of an atom, you can define a 'field' for the electrostatic force as well as a potential energy function. This potential energy function lets you define notions of stability, just like the ball on the trampoline. The atoms don't necessarily 'want' to be in these 'stable' states, but once they get there they stay there.
The last bit we're missing is the statistics part. If you've got tons of atoms confined into some finite space such that they collide with one another, then that means they're constantly being 'kicked' by one another. Thus, even if you had all of your atoms in some arbitrary initial conditions, the fact that they keep getting kicked as time progresses means that some of them are going to fall into stable equilibrium states. Over time, the proportion of atoms that have found a stable equilibrium will grow until it's very nearly all of them.
Summary:
Stability means that a thing has reached a 'state'/configuration where, should the thing get 'kicked' or perturbed, it will return to this previous state.
Potential functions allow you to describe this sense of stability in an abstract way and apply it to different scenarios.
Atoms (and in fact sets of atoms) can have potential functions. This function lets you describe the stable states and configurations of atoms in proximity to one another.
The apparent randomness of collisions of atoms in a confined space allow you to apply statistics and make judgements about how many of the atoms have fallen into a stable equilibrium configuration, and make the case for why you are more likely to observe these stable equilibrium configurations than the unstable ones.
teflate · 5 points · Posted at 05:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll use the H2 molecule as an example. It's a classic example that appears in almost every general chemistry textbook.
Why does the H2 molecule form? Why doesn't the two hydrogen atoms just stay separate? I'm sure you've heard the explanation that formation of the molecule is more stable, in a lower energy state, is energetically favorable.
But in the most fundamental sense, it is because the Coulombic/electrostatic forces (aka like charges repel, opposites attract) between the two atoms "tell" them to come together. If we take just the two H atoms separately, there are three such forces between them:
You can see what I'm talking about in this diagram. At a far distance, the attraction is stronger than the two repulsions. So the net force is attraction, and so the two atoms come together. By the very definition of potential energy, since the two atoms are moving in the direction of the force, their potential energy is decreasing.
At a closer distance, just like how pushing the north sides of two magnets closer together makes them push out with greater force, the repulsions will overwhelm the attractions, and so the two atoms move apart. By the very definition of potential energy, since the two atoms are moving in the direction of the force, their potential energy is decreasing.
At some distance though, these two forces will exactly balance each other, so that moving closer together will cause repulsion, so the atoms move back out. Moving further apart will cause attraction, so the two atoms move back closer. It turns out, this distance is exactly the length of the bond in the H2 molecule.
Since moving in either direction will cause an increase in the potential energy, this is what is meant when it is said the atoms are energetically most stable, or releases the most energy compared to otherwise, in this configuration.
In the end, "why" these atoms "want" to be in this most stable configuration is the same reason that a ball falls when you drop it. Or two magnets will stick to each other if you let them go. Because the force on them, whether it is gravity, electrostatic forces, or magnetic forces, directs the atoms to do so.
Ben_456 · 2 points · Posted at 06:57:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks
BlazeOrangeDeer · 2 points · Posted at 03:25:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's basically just electrical attraction, and which forces are most important depend on the situation because the charges are arranged differently in each case. The electrical forces pull and push on things until they are in rough balance, because they stay where they are when the forces are balanced.
...Except that the charges involved are actually quantum waves, and that means the specifics depend on what kinds of waves can exist around an atom and how they interact.
The basic rules and equations are known, but actually calculating the full behavior for anything more than a few particles at a time gets super hard, even for large computers. This is one the things that quantum computers would be really good for.
Ben_456 · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, thanks
Spudgunhimself · 2 points · Posted at 13:10:54 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm about half way though my PhD in chemistry and it's still really difficult to explain. Obviously there's a crazy amount to actually know, but you can get a general concept from some pretty simple thought experiments.
Let's say you had a jar of glitter on a table in the middle of your house, eventually it's going to get knocked over and get everywhere. After it's been knocked over you're never going to get all of that glitter back into the jar because that takes way too much effort.
Because the jar will eventually get knocked over and you won't ever get the glitter back into the jar, it can be said that the jar of glitter 'wants' to be spread out all over the place.
This is a basic description of thermodynamics, essentially how hard it will be to clean up the mess after it's been made.
The second concept that usually runs in parallel to this is kinetics. This can be thought of as how hard it is to make the mess in the first place. Instead of a jar, let's say that the glitter is in a plastic bottle with a lid.
In this scenario, it's much much harder to accidentally knock the glitter over and cause it to spill, it will still happen, but after a much much longer time, and when it does spill, it will be just as hard to clean up.
This kinetic part is important, because it means just because something 'wants' to happen, it doesn't mean it always can.
For example, oxygen 'wants' to react with paper to form CO2 for thermodynamic reasons (CO2 is very hard to turn back into paper, but trees manage it!) But obviously paper doesn't just burn spontaneously, because the kinetic barrier is pretty high, so you need a little push from a flame to get it going.
Obviously this is way oversimplified, but if you have any questions I'll be happy to go into more detail.
Ben_456 · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:15 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks.
So would this mean, for an unstable atom that 'wants' to react, if it happens to react it will no longer be likely to react further, making it stable?
Similar to the way the glitter is likely to get knocked over and can't really get further knocked over afterwards, so it could be considered 'stable ' when knocked over.
Spudgunhimself · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:09 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Essentially yes, however glitter being in the jar and spread all over are the two extremes. If the jar were to be knocked over gently, the glitter would kind of pile up. This is a kind of intermediate state, where you could either scoop up the glitter and get it back into the jar, or perhaps a gust of wind comes in and blows it everywhere.
The same goes for reactions, one example I can think of is incomplete combustion. If there's too much fuel and not enough oxygen, you end up making carbon monoxide instead of carbon dioxide, however if you take that carbon monoxide and react it with more oxygen you'll complete it's journey to carbon dioxide.
In our analogy, oxygen and fuel would be the glitter in the jar, carbon monoxide would be the glitter just tipping over, and carbon dioxide would be the glitter spread everywhere.
Ben_456 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:31 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, I think I get it. Thanks
Spudgunhimself · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:17 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm glad! Honestly I love talking chemistry, so if you ever have any other questions just DM me any time
leprechronic · 1 points · Posted at 06:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surely, you know about electrons. You see them represented as orbiting particles around the proton/neutron core. The number of these surrounding an atom on the outermost determines its stability.
Typically, 8 electrons surrounding an atom in the outermost orbit (the electrons orbiting farthest away) give it a stable configuration. This is due to the number of protons that make up the atom. Larger atoms needs more electrons on the outer shell, and smaller atoms require less (think helium, an inert 'noble' gas with two protons/neutrons, and two electrons).
Think of stability like magnets; if you have something with a 'north' pole, it needs a 'south' pole to be stable. Unstable atoms are like singular 'poles'; they desperately want an opposing 'pole' to become stable. Atoms make themselves 'magnetic' by creating an electrical charge; some are positively charged (more protons than electrons) and vice versa. Some have no charge because they naturally have an equal number of protons and electrons, and we call these noble, or inert, gases.
Finally, how does an atom know when it is stable? When all of its outermost electrons are paired with another. You can start pairing electrons within an atom after 4 valence (outer) electrons. Simple examples include nitrogen and carbon, with 5 and 4 valence electrons respectively. Nitrogen has one pair of atoms already, and therefore it can make 3 bonds with other atoms. Carbon has no electrons paired, making it able to connect to other atoms with 4 bonds.
And why are the outermost shells the ones we talk about in regards to atom-atom bonding? It's because they're the most accessible, and anything big enough to have inner orbitals has already paired electrons within those orbits.
There are some weird exceptions to just about every one of the things I've talked about (like xenon, a noble gas, can make 6 bonds with fluoride). But generally, simple chemistry can be boiled down to stability. I know it's a long winded explanation, but maybe it will help.
Ben_456 · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, thanks
Luqz004 · 1 points · Posted at 12:21:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything has order. Kind of like an intelligent architect behind it all. This is the fundamentals of science. Even the universe follows laws down to the particles, atoms and quarks follow these laws.
mdh431 · 1 points · Posted at 12:37:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is just a fundamental property of the universe. If something is at a higher energy state - or a more unstable position - it doesn’t really “like” it or want to stay there. It will then naturally get to the state with the most stability without any effort on anyone’s part.
Imagine you had a tank of water and there was a net barrier that you put right down the middle (so water can flow through this net. Now imagine that you could somehow teleport a lot of water onto the left side but not the right. The water wouldn’t just stay there; it would flow over to the right side until both sides had an equal amount. It would quickly find the stable position.
Really, stability is just a concept of the natural state that things want to approach, whether it be from physics, chemistry, or thermodynamics. It always has something to do with energy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:38:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do protons and neutrons make up everything?
Like how is an atom with two protons and two neutrons a bit of helium, a gas, but if you put two of those atoms together (for a total of 4 protons and 4 neutrons) now it's a bit of beryllium, a metal?
Mustircle · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The properties that we see are based on interactions between the atoms and particles. The interactions are based on their shape.
Helium has its first orbital of electrons filled, so it does not readily react with anything, and not forming bonds with anything means it will likely be a gas at room temp.
Berrylium is a metal because to have its outermost orbitals filled with electrons, it joins other atoms like itself and lets the electrons flow through in a sea.
Energy wise, every atom wants its outer orbitals filled, but have different amounts of attraction from the nucleus, and thats why the properties can be so different.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But is reactivity the only thing? Like can't different types of the same substance be more or less reactive based on whether their orbitals are full? If you give beryllium more electrons, it's still beryllium, it's just more negatively-charged beryllium. I'm asking why the actual matter is entirely different based on protons and neutrons. One's a hard metal, another's a gas, etc. Seems like there's more to it than just reactivity.
Mustircle · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it would actually change a lot if you gave berrylium more electrons. It would become ionized, and ions behave very differently from atoms.
Protons and neutrons are in the tiny nucleus of the atom, which is why they don't change as easily, but electrons are often interacting in their cloud. The actual matter is different when you add electrons though.
Protons, Neutrons, and Electrons are all tiny enough and fundamental part of substances that a change to them would largely affect the substance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
K but I need to understand the differences besides from electrons. Sure, reactivity is an important feature but it's obviously not the only feature. I'm asking why helium is different than beryllium even if we assume two samples are both are equally reactive because they each have too many/not enough electrons.
Mustircle · 1 points · Posted at 10:08:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats a pretty extensive question I dont want to risk screwing up while trying to explain. This thread answers it well: https://www.reddit.com/r/chemistry/comments/fhaq9/why_are_elements_so_different_from_each_other/
teflate · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! Absolutely! For a simple example, chloride ion and chlorine atom without the extra electron. One is essential in large concentrations in your body, and one is an extremely strong oxidizer that will react quickly with anything it can react with.
I think what you're trying to get at is why the type of element is based on the number of protons and not the electrons. After all, atoms with the same number of protons but with different numbers of electrons can be so vastly different, they may be more similar to other atoms than to each other. For example, sodium ion in terms of properties is more similar to potassium ions than a regular sodium atom.
The reason is, because it is so much easier to convert between atoms with different numbers of electrons than atoms with different numbers of protons. The protons are buried deep inside the nucleus, while the electrons, especially the outermost ones, floating around much higher outside, easily can detach away, or add another in.
If you based the element on the number of electrons, you would get confused very quickly. In basically all chemical reactions, however, the number of protons in each atom does not change, while the number of electrons does, so it is a much more practical way of keeping track of each atom.
usernumber36 · 2 points · Posted at 00:56:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
don't listen to the rules. Most of them are wrong. Just understand the reasons things get more stable or less stable. Opposite charges like being close, like charges stay away from eachother and waves like to be spread out. Electrons are finding the balance of those three.
podi_party · 47 points · Posted at 19:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was looking for this answer. I feel like I'm illiterate the moment it comes to chemistry. Is there a word for that? The sad thing is, I think chemistry is very interesting. But no explanation ever made me understand it. The even sadder thing is, I have a degree that proves that I am really good in chemistry. I don't know how that happened. I do not work with my degree because I really do not understand anything.
libbyben · 31 points · Posted at 18:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a chemical engineering major who likes to explain things and I'm kinda bored. Wanna learn some chemistry?
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey can I schedule a meeting. I'm a chem noobie. Really find the whole subject super interesting. Would love to listen in and learn
Seicair · 8 points · Posted at 20:19:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a chemistry tutor, I can answer questions too.
dinneratanihop · 7 points · Posted at 21:55:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does the vertical line in the middle of a Tanabe-Sugano diagram mean?
Seicair · 5 points · Posted at 22:00:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That unfortunately is something I haven’t studied.
Justdis · 4 points · Posted at 22:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It means I need to shoot myself because I am back in inorganic chemistry.
libbyben · 1 points · Posted at 16:15:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I'm not in inorganic chemistry yet either, my apologies
MissKatzengras · 6 points · Posted at 19:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
SharkFart86 · 10 points · Posted at 21:42:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do atoms actually physically have different electron shell levels or is that just a model that makes it easier for us to understand what's going on?
whatwasimeanttodo · 9 points · Posted at 21:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m pretty sure that no, they don’t. However, they teach it that way (the Bohr planetary model) in most schools because it’s a lot easier to visualize than the actual model of the atom. In the modern atomic model, also known as the wave mechanical or electron cloud model, the electrons just kinda move in unfixed orbits, and we only know their probability of being in certain places.
yvngsandwich · 9 points · Posted at 22:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the 'electron cloud' is actually a more realistic model. it's an area around the nucleus of an atom where the electrons are/should be. we don't know, since we can't actually observe an electron, but we do know there are discrete energy levels that the electrons exist in, called orbitals. places where again, specific electrons should be.
Sn1ffdog · 7 points · Posted at 22:36:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're referring to the electron orbitals (s, p, d, f)? Yeah, they have physical shapes (kind of, they have areas in which electrons have a high probability of being observed) and these shapes house electrons more or less distinctly (except transition metals). Chemistry is full of caveats.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shell levels correspond to different combinations of allowed quantum numbers. Yes they do literally correspond to different shapes in space. But those shapes are really a probabilistic distribution of the location of the electron at any moment.
89fruits89 · 3 points · Posted at 00:10:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please... Im not sure how to set this B up properly to start.
In a titration process, 2.000g of an impure sample (Mixture of sand & phosphoric acid) was neutralized by 20.00mL of 1.500M of Ba(OH)2.
Suppose, in this process, the total amount of phosphoric acid reacts. Calculate the percent of phosphoric acid (MM=98.00g/mol) in impure sample.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 00:31:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP but the Ba(OH)2 in a titration would only neutralise the H3PO4. So to find the mass of H3PO4 we can use the moles of Ba(OH)2.
3HPO4 + 2Ba(OH)2 -> Ba3(PO4)2 + 6H2O
From the balanced equation we know that there is a 2:3 stoichiometric ratio between Ba(OH)2 and H3PO4
We then find the moles of Ba(OH)2 = 0.02 x 1.5 = 0.03
Therefore the moles of H3PO4 will be 2/3 * 0.03 = 0.02
To calculate mass of H3PO4 we use n =m/MM or m=nMM
m = 0.02 * 98.00 = 1.96g
Finally to find mass percentage
1.96g/2.00g * 100 = 98%
89fruits89 · 2 points · Posted at 00:57:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Thank you, makes so much more sense!! I think I was doing too many questions in a row and was just fried haha.
89fruits89 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I got another one for ya if you are game haha.
A 1.00L mixture of He, Ne, and Ar have a total pressure of 662 torr at 298k. If the partial pressure of He is 341 torr and the partial pressure of Ne is 112 torr, what mass of Ar is present in the mixture.
Im going with PV=nRT. Here’s what I got so far.
P(t) = 662 torr
P(He) = 341 torr
P(Ne) = 112 torr
341 + 112 = 453 torr, 662-453 = 209 torr
P(Ar) = 209 torr = .275atm
V = 1.00L
n = 39.95g/mol
R = .0821atm * L / mol * K
T = 298K
n = PV/RT
39.95g/mol = .275atm * 1.00L / (0.0821atm * L / mol * K) * 298K
Im not sure if im doing this correctly... the math is messing my day up. How the F do I get rid of moles and keep the grams lol. Algebra will be he death of me rofl.
Kraggen · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go for it!
teflate · 2 points · Posted at 06:11:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the 4s orbital fills first, why is it that the 4s electrons are lost first (generally) before the 3d electrons?
This is something I've always known but never really thought further about it.
libbyben · 2 points · Posted at 16:21:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Essentially, d orbitals behave very strangely and break most of the rules, that is essentially what I was taught in college gen chem. Plus, half filled, completely filled, and completely empty orbitals tend to be the most stable. An s orbital is much closer to any of those states than a d orbital.
I'd be glad to give you a better explanation by digging up my materials science notes from a few semesters back, but I've got a lot of coursework of my own to work on through the end of semester, so that may take some time.
evilphrin1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. But I'm a Chem grad student.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I really don't.
SwissForeignPolicy · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there's your problem!
libbyben · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, I disagree, but I respect that
BlakkandMild · 13 points · Posted at 19:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry, specifically organic, is the one time that I was taught something on an academic level and it was literally like someone was speaking a completely foreign language. O Chem 1 might as well have been Chinese to me. I managed to pass that class due to the rollover/review portion from Gen Chem and comprehension of the most basic concepts averaging out well enough with my complete guesswork and lab-partner carrying through the rest of the course.
basic-chem-student · 2 points · Posted at 05:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting you say that, I remember thinking about how similar the learning process felt when I was learning organic to learning Spanish. It was like a language, not for communication, but still symbols with rules and stuff. I know that’s not the point you’re trying to convey but you just made me have a flashback to the good ol days haha
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its funny u say that cus out of all the 3 sciences, chemistry is the one that makes the most sense to me lol
OmfgTim · 14 points · Posted at 20:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. Biology is just too much to memorize, and physics concepts are out of this realm.
At least chemistry explains the biology and some physics, save for physical chemistry. That’s whack to me.
Mediocretes1 · 19 points · Posted at 21:08:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, they describe this realm in great detail.
basic-chem-student · 2 points · Posted at 05:09:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry is like the happy medium between the existentialism of physics and the complexity of biology
libbyben · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem with biology is that much of it is just insanely complex chemistry, so at the K12 and non-bio undergrad level, it manifests as a lot of memorizing the macro
dosemyspeakin · 2 points · Posted at 04:05:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lucky. :(
The_Greatest_Moose · 3 points · Posted at 18:32:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the atom is made up of the nucleus which contains protons with a positive charge and neutrons with no charge. The protons and neutrons are arranged so the protons don't break the nucleus because same charges repel. Then there are electrons, that are attracted to the protons, they move around the atoms so fast that you cant say where they are. To solve this we say they are likely to be found in a certain place around the nucleus (the orbital). with molecule diagrams sometimes 2 orbitals overlap and both nuclei want to keep both the electrons this is a bond.
PrestigiousPath · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But where does the charge COME from?
The_Greatest_Moose · 5 points · Posted at 20:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So this is a much more fundamental question charge is the strength of an interaction with an electromagnetic field. It's just a property of a particle to the best of our knowledge
PrestigiousPath · 3 points · Posted at 02:32:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was such a swanky way of saying "because it's there".
TheOnlyBliebervik · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's too existential dude. It's like, where do physics come from?
pingu-penguin · 3 points · Posted at 18:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. The earlier Chem stuff was still a bit understandable. But the whole organic chemistry went straight over my head.
ImNotCreative30 · 2 points · Posted at 04:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry has always baffled me. Even the most basic parts of it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:21:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man i fucking hate hate chemistry
EgNotaEkkiReddit · 4 points · Posted at 20:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms are really specific bastards that want 8 electrons in their outer shells. No more, no less.
Atoms can team up, so that atoms with too many electrons can give away theirs, and atoms with too few can take them instead.
Those two things in combination cover a surprisingly large portion of the field of chemistry.
Geminii27 · 3 points · Posted at 21:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well... after the first two-electron shell, anyway.
thomport · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t like atoms either. They make everything up. (Dad joke. Sorry)
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evilphrin1 · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules feel arbitrary because now one explained the "why" to you and that's because if they tried explaining it to you straight out you would be even more confused. And that's not your fault. It's because Chemistry at the end of the day is just quantum physics. And quantum is confusing as fuck. And nobody wants to overwhelm you when all you really need to know in the moment is that X dissolves Y.
Mook1971 · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me neither. Dropped chemistry a couple of times. Good ole stoiciometry did me in
bcarpediem · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not so long ago I stumbled upon an actual image of a single molecule. There it was. All shaped just like the textbooks said they would be. The idea that there was no proof of this (before) infected me in my school days and my skepticism tanked my performance.
MyticalAnimal · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me chemistry makes a lot more sense than math. Chemistry has a "how" and "why" that math doesn't have (I know there's a lot of mathematical equations in chemistry, but again there's a reason why it's like that and why this happens over something else that math doesn't have imo).
Curzelio · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is as simple as Le Chatelier principle: on a stimulus, everything reacts in a way that tends to minimize the changes produced by the stimulus. Basically is like a kind of conceptual friction: if you push it pushes back, if you pull I pulls back, if you squeeze it reacts in a way that leads less molecules and so on
1234swkisgar56 · 1 points · Posted at 10:08:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like chemistry but the redox, transition metals, and remembering the darn rules for the conversions make not a lot of sense.
sapphological · 1 points · Posted at 11:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the answer is simple: there are multiple rules you need to learn and then understand that most of the time those rules don’t apply
gali2226 · 1 points · Posted at 12:10:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel you man, I’m on my 2nd year of material engineering studies and I’m so lost when it comes to any chemistry involving course, dunno how I’m surviving this far
tiredx45 · 1 points · Posted at 13:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. Oh I got an A in basic college Physics but I am good at studying for exams, outside of test questions, I have no idea what any of that was.
TheSwitchBlade · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What part don’t you get?
plmcalli · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! I struggled so hard with chemistry.
Pleasure_palace_pal · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answers you are looking for are in physics, the subjects are highly intertwined but functionally disconnected when you learn them.
If you can memorize reactions, and do calculations, then you can be a chemist.
If you can apply mathematics and learn physical concepts, then you can be a physicist.
But to get to the point in physics where you can apply it to chemistry takes a long time, basically until you are a junior in college. And you don't really need it to get a job as a chemist, so they don't teach it to you.
If you wanna go beyond undergrad and really understand/do research into chemistry, it really helps to have a college level understanding of physics though.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
>If you can memorize reactions
This is what I couldn't do, I have no problem (or very few problems) with calculating force, mass, speed, and reading electrical diagrams but I don't know how to read nor make sense of anything related to chemistry. What's the difference between a = and a - ??? Why do they have random angles??? I always applied everything I knew to the letter in high school yet always got shit grades. Never understood it.
Pleasure_palace_pal · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel that. Ive found that like every topic, your ability to learn is always highly dependent on the teacher. High school is critical to understanding but a bad experience will often turn you off it for life.
Eventually you may find a resource that teaches it well and you'll get back into it, but youll have to have the time, resources, and drive to learn it, which most people never get.
TheLegendOfLaney · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
My chemistry teacher was even confused when teaching us half of the time, i never understood that shit and group work is the only thing that helped me pass that damn class
Gongaloon · -1 points · Posted at 23:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. All I know is that water is dummy thicc.
prokes93 · 0 points · Posted at 10:40:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here mate. 4 months and no girl.
Bibber_Song · -4 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a straight A student in a super competitive magnet high school... except I failed the first semester of chemistry because I just couldn’t understand it. It cost me a summer trip to an all expenses paid semester of medical school before my senior year.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like the world is made up of a big playpen full of jiggling balls like a ball pit. Some of the balls stick together because somebody peed in the ball pit.
Skage_ · 10278 points · Posted at 18:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people who are blind since birth talk about that they do not even see black. Its like nothingness
katieb2342 · 6601 points · Posted at 19:55:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, they also don't know what black is if they've been fully blind since birth. They have no benchmark of 'black' to compare what they see to.
Chocolate-Chai · 3222 points · Posted at 21:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also..how do they even know what “seeing is” to know that they “see” nothing. Like there is no way of even explaining to them what seeing is & we have no way of knowing if they can fathom what seeing is.
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MyZt_Benito · 1076 points · Posted at 21:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard of blind people just having flashes of colors as dreams, but they probably weren’t blind from birth
joerund · 2686 points · Posted at 21:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best explanation ive heard is closing one eye and explain what you see through the closed eye.
MyZt_Benito · 1954 points · Posted at 21:53:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude it’s like the eye i closed isn’t even there anymore
foofighterfoos · 261 points · Posted at 00:15:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bingo
zulem123 · 132 points · Posted at 00:59:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s literally blown my mind
dachicken1 · 61 points · Posted at 01:46:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m blind in my right eye, went blind about 5 years ago and thats how I describe it to people, cover one eye with a patch and throw a ball up and down a few times then go outside, you just forget it was even there, even if I cover my good eye it’s not like the black is double the size it’s just the same, it’s so weird, I used to lay in bed and wonder what it was like to be blind, it’s really weird
QuayzahFork · 7 points · Posted at 02:40:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you function more less the same as before?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:48:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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dachicken1 · 2 points · Posted at 06:11:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m still driving, really wasn’t much different at all, shoulder check is a bit bigger turn but that’s it. Depth perception is definitely different but I only notice it with small moving things, like a lighter or small ball. Basically impossible to swat a fly or catch a mozzie mid air, I wouldn’t say zero depth perception
dachicken1 · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Pretty much the same, depth perception is the only thing but I’ve practiced a lot of catching n things, tbh when it first happened was difficult to grab a door knob. Then after a while it just got better, still hard to catch a lighter if it’s thrown or a golf ball or ping pong ball.... still driving too, that was honestly no different just a shoulder check requires a bigger neck turn now
Edit: I did it playing golf, i play golf now and I’m not great but I don’t worry about missing the ball or anything, but if someone chucks one to me I’m the waiter from “The Party”
moodyfied · 86 points · Posted at 01:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now pull out your left eye globe and let it stare into your right eye.
MoonChainer · 29 points · Posted at 03:23:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is hypothetically top contender for mind breaking sights.
PyroBueno · 18 points · Posted at 04:28:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok now what
Free_From_Reddit · 23 points · Posted at 03:21:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If my eye ever falls out one day, I'm doing this before going to the hospital.
LittleOrphanPringles · 35 points · Posted at 02:45:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s the weird thing I’ve never noticed before, if I closed both eyes a can see light and tint and stuff but with one eye closed it’s nothing, not black not white nothing, mind bend
frogsgoribbit737 · 9 points · Posted at 04:55:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would guess (but don't know) that it's because your brain is busy processing the input from the other eye. It's compensating for lack of vision in one. When you have both closed, it's not doing that anymore.
Mistake_Maker50 · 8 points · Posted at 05:20:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was born with Lazy Eye, Amblyopia, they tried to patch the strong eye to strengthen the weaker one. It was too late my brain had already shut it off. Amazing how it works.
your-imaginaryfriend · 2 points · Posted at 18:03:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm nearsighted and I instinctively close my non-dominant eye when I'm trying to see without my glasses. It's weird how that works.
Deltex12 · 2 points · Posted at 05:12:28 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have intermittent exotropia (where my eyes drift apart sometimes and lose focus), and I do the same for reading, or when I'm squinting in sunlight. In fact I'm doing it right now lol
Diffident-Weasel · 7 points · Posted at 04:36:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is wrinkling my brain!
Clined88 · 7 points · Posted at 05:47:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You most likely closed your non dominant eye. Try closing both one at a time and you should notice a “jump” and try doing stuff with the non-dominant eye open instead, it should feel a bit off.
hecdude · 4 points · Posted at 06:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit I’m freaking the fuck out
usa20206 · 3 points · Posted at 04:59:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what’s also mind boggling. How your mind stitches the images together.
JacP123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:33 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the blackness end and the nothingness begin?
soulslicer0 · 635 points · Posted at 21:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mindfucked
dad_ahead · 35 points · Posted at 23:33:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now imagine a bloke thats blind doesn't need to use lights at all, just walkin around there house in darkness fully aware of where things are (to an extent)
roastedbagel · 134 points · Posted at 22:07:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok wtf just happen?? Why is it not like that when we close both eyes??? WTF HAPPEN TO MY LEFT EYE
Hinote21 · 108 points · Posted at 22:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to butcher this but when you close one eye, your brain auto shuts off that input. So you literally see nothing. You notice your nose but give it long enough and your eye will being to ignore it. Now you see half the world. Close both eyes and your eyes are looking. Constantly trying to see. So what you see if the back of your eyelids. That's why you still "see" brighter light because your brain didn't shut off their input.
BigWolfUK · 20 points · Posted at 22:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I weird then because that isn't the case for me? If I put a light near my right eye, and just close that eyelid I still see the same light through my eyelid than when I close both. Or have I totally misunderstood what you've typed?
Hinote21 · 35 points · Posted at 22:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that you can't see at all. Provide enough stimulation and your brain can't ignore it. But just shut it with no additional changes, your brain will turn it off.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's what I was thinking, like your brain just ignores the input from it because it knows the eye is closed and shouldn't see anything. I wonder if this would hold up with a person without eyelids.
urinesamplefrommyass · 8 points · Posted at 22:41:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's one of the reasons why I put a pillow over my head/eyes when I lay down to sleep. Any blue lights I can't shut in the room won't bother, and any light shining through my window won't bother either.
It's great to fall asleep, and better to wake up, as I can avoid closing entirely my window, which gives me natural sun light in the morning. I feel like I sleep better and wake up rested.
On the other hand though, when I REALLY wanna sleep till late, I'll block all lights so I'll sleep without any interruptions (which not always gives me a full rest, but helps distress the body from a hard working week).
Hinote21 · 4 points · Posted at 22:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't stand sleeping on people's living rooms because of bright ass cable boxes for exactly this reason. I don't mind the ambient light let through a high window from a street lamp but I'll be damned if I can even try to call asleep with those lights.
urinesamplefrommyass · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have already reduced all possible blue lights in my room because of that. Not one single standby light is on in my room when I go to sleep. I just really need to get a better routine to get off the phone and computer at least one hour before I got to bed, this is still a big problem for me, but I've moved my desk out of my room recently and I hope it will help with it.
SamGlass · 4 points · Posted at 01:09:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Weird factoid, studies showed a theoretical connection between night-time exposure to artificial light and breast cancer. One theory is that something in our body chemistry gets thrown off by it (cause body's like wtf mate its night time!)
This held true with respect to those exposed to barely perceptible amounts of light (like, city lights in the distance, for example).
Another factoid; fluctuation in light is more likely to wake a person up or disrupt a sleep cycle, as opposed to a consistent level of light. Likewise with sound. So tv-on sleeping is among the worst of all the sleepings
Carry on!
urinesamplefrommyass · 4 points · Posted at 01:58:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well... I slept through many classes in high school, and if the classroom light would turn off, or it would be suddenly silent, I'd wake up almost immediately, so I agree 100% with this factoids. The first one was the most interesting though. I'm always amazed by how complex and "perfectionist" is the human body.
Edit: Just to add I'm not proud of the sleeping during classes thing. I dunno if it sounded as if I was proud of it, so just to clearly say: I am not.
Nickle909 · 3 points · Posted at 23:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mindblowing.
BleachMePlease · 24 points · Posted at 22:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what I always figured. Especially when I try to focus on the void when my eyes are closed. I feel like that’s what a blind person might “see.”
Nhukerino · 18 points · Posted at 22:19:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just going to say this and is the best description I've heard, that and an analogy to hearing: If you're deaf you dont hear a constant sound; it just doesnt exist.
I'm sure its far more dificult to explain sight to a blind person than it is the other way around though
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 00:30:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some say if you meditate hard enough you can actually see out of your third eye which is in the middle of yo foe head.
JadedMis · 14 points · Posted at 22:10:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woah
Jowenbra · 11 points · Posted at 22:40:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like the explanation of "what can you see out of your elbow?"
Hundredsenhundreds · 20 points · Posted at 22:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or explain what you can see from the back of your head.
Theskyishigh · 20 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother says 'what can you see out of your elbow? That what I see with my eyes'
LaMaupindAubigny · 13 points · Posted at 22:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the same kind of nothing as the time before you were born. It’s not darkness, it’s not-there-ness.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 23:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aight my head hurts imma head out
ssegota · 8 points · Posted at 23:45:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh fuck, I read this and I thought "Duh, I'll just see black through that eye."
Nope. Actually see "nothing". It's not there. Like if you asked me what do I feel with my tail - nothing cause I don't have one.
Thid id awesome, I'll have to share this trick with people.
Edit: Here's a neat trick I just figured out. Close both eyes, turn on the flashlight on your phone and point it at your eyes. You'll see the light through your eyelids. Now, do it woth one eye closed - no light through the closed eyelid, just... Nothingness. Fuck.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:46:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i still see the orange when i open one eye but only in my nose
chikchikiboom · 5 points · Posted at 00:20:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even better explanation is to try and see from the back of your head. Yep. It messes your mind.
tossawaysplooge · 4 points · Posted at 00:12:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about when you close both eyes? What color is that?
tomhoq · 3 points · Posted at 23:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow thats a godd example i believe
truth14ful · 3 points · Posted at 23:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can still see the color of my eyelid though
Mister-Nash-Ketchum · 3 points · Posted at 23:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea this just blew my mind.
DickyD43 · 3 points · Posted at 23:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s why they’re called blind spots
mikeh617 · 3 points · Posted at 00:10:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That just blew my mind
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:32:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that’s brilliant, just tried it and mind blown!
Phystache · 3 points · Posted at 00:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh fuck oh shit
DaShaka9 · 3 points · Posted at 00:51:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
🤯
Drummerguy0021 · 3 points · Posted at 01:02:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad’s buddy had lost his eye in his late teen years in a lawn mowing accident, and explained it similarly, that it’s, “Like having an eye on your elbow right now, what are you seeing?” Nothingness.
blackmirror101 · 3 points · Posted at 01:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard this before and it helps me understand the concept, but I still can’t understand what it’s actually like. Even though the closed eye seemingly disappears, I can still see with the other eye, which maintains my sense of vision. My brain can’t make the jump to what it would be like if that happened to both eyes.
Goodthanksbro · 3 points · Posted at 01:39:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit
krisztina95 · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My nose
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can actually still see a bit of the blackness if you pay close attention. Blind people probably see exactly what we do when we close our eyes, they just don't know what black even is.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just curious, what do you do for a living?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I turn my open eyeball towards my shut eye hard enough to see what the closed eye is seeing then I think I’m onto something
J_Legend64 · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been told in the past that it would be like trying to see through your elbow (obviously impossible), but this would be a better explanation.
Froggueth · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blackness
TheDissRapperr · 2 points · Posted at 01:12:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally see black, I still don't understand.
Max_Thunder · 3 points · Posted at 04:28:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too my friend, me too. I am confused as fuck that lots of people are saying they're seeing nothing out of the closed eye.
MsstatePSH · 2 points · Posted at 04:35:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hmm..
Close both eyes. you see flashes/patterns/noise, right? you can definitely focus on those patterns when both eyes are closed.
Now try to focus or see patterns through your closed eye, without moving your eyes around. do you see any flashes/patterns?
Max_Thunder · 3 points · Posted at 04:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I see the same out of my closed eye as I would see out of my two closed eyes. I can somewhat focus on it with my mind or I can instead focus on what I see with my open eye. It would totally be annoying to have to wear an eye patch for instance.
SpunkyTF2 · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thing is though Ive tried that, I see black out of the closed eye and normal out of the open eye.
LSL_NGB · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best one I heard is "what do you see out of your elbow? nothing"
fed_420 · 2 points · Posted at 01:59:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best one I've heard is to tell me what you see out of your elbow.
climbgirl42 · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always say it’s more like trying to describe what you see through your forehead. It’s not black, it’s nothing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard it explained as thinking about what you see out the back of your head. It's just, nothing. No blackness.
justhastie · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best explanation I've heard is try looking around with your elbow. What do you see with your elbow? You don't see black because you're not capable of sight with your elbow. Same concept with blind eyes.
Ahefp · 2 points · Posted at 03:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why wouldn’t you just close both eyes and explain what you see? Prison trauma?
pro_zach_007 · 2 points · Posted at 03:09:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, so blind people just exist in the mind apace that their remaining senses produce. They have their environment around them as places where "they can't go here, there's something stopping me" and " this thing makes this noise and does these things" albeit mostly subconsciously
datnoob9113 · 2 points · Posted at 03:18:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see dark red
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A better version is...
‘to imagine looking through your elbow’.
That’s what blind people are experiencing.
sholstom · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best explanation I can come up with is that there is another sense that we literally don’t have. It’s literally like that. We can’t even imagine it, describe it, think about it, fathom it, comprehend it, or even make it up. It literally doesn’t exist.
The best example is a lack of one- try to think of one.... that’s what it’s like.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold a flashlight up to the closed eye and suddenly you can see through it again
GarrusCalibrates · 2 points · Posted at 03:54:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nailed it
Max_Thunder · 2 points · Posted at 04:23:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, am I the only one who sees black out of the closed eye when I do that? I clearly see that one eye still has vision and that the other one is seeing black. I've seen the idea that the closed eye sees nothing on reddit several times and lots of people seem to agree that they see nothing out of the closed eye and it is so weird because it's not my experience at all!
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:45:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
/u/TheDissRapperr /u/glintsCollide and /u/ice_maiden all said the same thing
I can theorize one possible, slightly plausible, thing that may be a difference, but I could be wrong. So let's try it. Do you know what Aphantasia is? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aphantasia
My question for you---when you try to visualize something, do you see a solid, literal image? Or do you have Aphantasia like someone who is unable to visualize concrete images (they see either nothing or almost like a mirage of an image vaguely seen through a veil that is nearly transparent)?
My guess would be that maybe you don't have Aphantasia, and are thus able to visualize images in your mind's eye, and then that maybe when you close a single eye----your mind visualizes what it thinks it should be seeing in the field of vision located in your mind's eye where that eye is located. Blackness.
On the other hand, I have Aphantasia to a mild degree. Mental images I try to visualize are like seeing a vague, nearly transparent image through a veil. And when I close one eye, its like that eye disappears and only the side of my nose is visible where my other eye used to be. Alternatively, when I re-open that eye, the side of the nose I could see becomes transparent and nearly invisible.
So, let's see if aphantasia and lack of it correlates to us seeing different things when we close one eye.
Do any of you have aphantasia?
ice_maiden · 1 points · Posted at 16:47:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I have a very, very strong visualization ability. Like, I can close my eyes and picture photo-realistic images of things I’ve seen.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:54:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay cool.
You're one of the four people. But, so far you confirm my theory.
I imagine the reason you're able to see black where your eye used to be is because you are, essentially, visualizing it. Your brain and eye are able to manifest sensory data even when no sensory information is coming in.
How well do you remember your dreams and how vividly do you remember them?
ice_maiden · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually don’t remember them, but when I do they can be pretty vivid.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 17:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay interesting. I don't remember dreams often and never vividly. I was wondering if it correlated with Aphantasia/Visualization. Sounds like it may.
Btw- Max_Thunder, one of the other users I initially addressed the question to, confirmed that he has strong visualization abilities. 2 out of 4 of you 'confirm' my theory.
Max_Thunder · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I see a strong image and it is something I'm actually quite good at. For instance in physics classes on electromagnetism there was something called the right-hand rule (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right-hand_rule#Amp%C3%A8re's_right-hand_grip_rule), and while most people had to do it with their hand while doing exercises or exams, I could easily do it in my head. I have no problem manipulating objects in my head, imagining what they look like on the other side, like for orthographic projections (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orthographic_projection), something I was also very good at and that we had to do in one class in high school.
I find your theory plausible, thanks for your comment.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's really interesting. Congrats on having such a strong visualization ability; must come in handy.
Both you and ice_maiden (2/4 so far) confirm my theory. Cheers
How well do you remember your dreams and how vividly do you remember them?
Max_Thunder · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am terrible at remembering dreams and very rarely remember dreaming when I wake up. When I do though, what I remember mostly is a mixture of images and how I felt; my dreams rarely make sense, like they don't have any clear narrative. There are a few dream bits from many years ago that I can still remember/visualize.
Jezer1 · 2 points · Posted at 17:11:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah okay. I'm also somewhat the same. So I guess dreaming may not correlate with Aphantasia/Strong Visualization capabilities... There goes my 2 for 1 theory combo meal
marumae · 2 points · Posted at 04:41:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One explanation that blew my mind was try to see with your elbow. You just can't.
rsgegb · 2 points · Posted at 04:54:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im losing brain cells trying to comprehend. Wtf.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:00:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
An abyss
snowons · 2 points · Posted at 05:26:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another one that blew my mind is thinking about how you can’t see behind you. It’s not black.. just.. gone
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:28:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What did you just do to me.
door_corner · 2 points · Posted at 05:43:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this made me so incredibly uncomfortable
claito_nord · 2 points · Posted at 07:01:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh shit
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 07:24:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wooooah
Wonderfur · 2 points · Posted at 07:31:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m curious if you experience those eye floaters when you’re blind.
DooDaBeeDooBaa · 2 points · Posted at 08:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That hits it. The explanation that make it click for me was "Imagine trying to see something with your finger."
Capnthomas · 2 points · Posted at 08:40:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did you do this to me
Master3530 · 2 points · Posted at 10:18:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see the inside view of my eyelid which appears to be black due to no light. When it's really bright outside it appears to be red.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:02:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was just trying this on the porch and the neighbors looked concern
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That really is it
I lost vision in my left eye at an early age (8), and when asked to describe it vs seeing with my right even now, I can really only discribe it as an endless nothingness
Also I know it's been a day since your comment, so you probably didn't expect another, but I'm catching up on saved reddit posts that sounded interesting, sorry haha 😅
silly_gaijin · 2 points · Posted at 15:52:25 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
A blind person once explained, on a forum I was on, that he doesn't see blackness; he sees nothing. "Try looking through the back of your head," is how he put it. That got me to understand.
glintsCollide · 5 points · Posted at 22:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I see that statement every time this topic is discussed, and I don't buy it.. if you open your eyes in darkness, you'll see it's black. Closing one eye gives the exact same picture as opening both eyes, or closing both eyes. The only reason it appears your closed eye disappear during the day is the additive nature of light, 1+0=1, so all you see is 1, but once there's no light for your eyes to see (at night), you'll find that any combination of opened and closed eyes result in the same picture, and that's presumably not what blind people see.
ice_maiden · 3 points · Posted at 23:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh? Can someone please explain to me how this works?
When I close one eye, I see whatever’s in front of me out of the open eye, and blackness in the closed eye. How does that help me understand what blind people see?
Suminfishy · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No because you still know what it’s like to “see”, so you know what you’re missing. I was wracking my brain trying to think of a sense that we don’t have, that we can’t imagine because we’ve never had it to begin with?! Everything I think of ties to a sense I do have!
strongjz · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brah
film_triggers · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard it's the same as trying to describe what you see with the back of your head
DeadassBdeadassB · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/TIHI
natalienumbers · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My doctor uncle explained it to me by having me put my hand behind my head and saying “now see your hand”
your-imaginaryfriend · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard that explanation before but I still don't understand how do you get that with both eyes. I know you see nothing but....how do you experience....nothing.
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's also what you see through your elbow.
danjouswoodenhand · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even better: what do you see through your elbow? Because even with your eye closed, you do still see the inside of your eyelid.
iah_c · 25 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they dream in all their other senses! touch, smell, hearing etc. sighed ppl mostly really on sight and that's how we mainly dream, but blind or hard seeing ppl rely on all their other senses and they also activate in their sleep. really fascinating
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iah_c · 3 points · Posted at 12:45:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think they just feel it. people have a lot of senses that we as sighed people don't notice much and maybe blind ppl are more aware of them than we are. take the sense of space for example. you can see where you are in a space because of your sight but your ears also help with that bc of the fluid inside that's like your own personal inside level. I'm no expert here but I think when you're asleep and in a laying position that level obv tells you abt it. so maybe when you can't see your brain learns it's not asleep in a different way than sight y'know what I mean? it recognizes you woke up bc you got up for example, or bc you can experience sensations more vividly?
I'd love to hear abt it from a blind person's perspective. there are some blind ytbers out there, molly burke is one I watch often. maybe she's got an answer to that question? she's done some q&A's in the past.
dragondropz · 4 points · Posted at 02:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have an uncle that was blind since birth. He was born 2 months early so his eyes never finished developing. He's told me that though he doesn't know light/dark, he can "see" variations in light...like if he's outside on a bright sunny day, he can tell a difference when he goes back inside.
As far as dreams, he's said it's generally voices or sounds. He knows voices and the sounds things make, so it's no different than a sighted person's dreams. As far as nightmares, it may be a strange voice or sound he's not familiar with. He also has sensations of falling in dreams.
Gene__Parmesan_PI · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if a blind person took acid? They wouldn't hallucinate? Surely even people blind from birth still make mental images based on other inputs like touch and sound? This dude uses echo location.
MyZt_Benito · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they’d just hear sounds that aren’t actually there?
NotYetASerialKiller · 2 points · Posted at 11:58:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s different types of blindness. It’s possible they ‘see’ physically but are blind ‘mentally’. They don’t interpret the image in their mind. I remember learning about how people with one blind eye were tested and the good eye was shown a neutral face expression and the blind eye was shown an emotional response. Without realizing it, some subjects were making the emotional face.
Robots_Never_Die · 1 points · Posted at 02:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do you know people blind from birth see color? They have no idea what color is.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:03:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He literally said "they probably weren't blind from birth"
Robots_Never_Die · 1 points · Posted at 13:13:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I edited my comment to reflect my original intentions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flashes of light for dreams would be a beautiful reprieve from what I deal with nightly. Every part of my soul would love to dream journal but the thought of living forever with memories of what I forget ever morning is the scariest thing I could ever think of.
BumbleLapse · 26 points · Posted at 21:51:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have Aphantasia (inability to visualize) and for as long as I can remember I haven't had a visual dream.
yeh_ · 6 points · Posted at 22:01:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do an AMA somewhere
Gitmurr · 10 points · Posted at 21:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NSFW but can you ever masturbate without porn?
BumbleLapse · 19 points · Posted at 22:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually a very common question that gets posed to me. I can, yeah. It's difficult to explain, but while I can't visualize my thoughts whatsoever, I can still conceptualize them.
It's certainly much easier to masturbate with porn and I'm sure it would be easier to do so even without porn if I was able to visualize, but - yes. I can.
Gitmurr · 7 points · Posted at 22:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow.. Thanks man I've nevee been grateful for being able to imagine shit..
RocketGamingFoxYT · 8 points · Posted at 22:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By “not being able to visualize” you mean not being able to see thoughts or pictures in your head right? That’s wierd to think about dude. I feel bad for you
BumbleLapse · 13 points · Posted at 22:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, yeah. For instance, many people dislike movie adaptations of books because it "doesn't look the way it did in their head". I never experience that or have that issue. When I saw Harry Potter for the first time it was perfect, because in reading about the castle, I was only able to conceptualize that it was large, dark, stone, etc. I could never see my own version of it.
For anybody more interested in the topic /r/aphantasia is a great place to find it.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BumbleLapse · 4 points · Posted at 22:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. In fact, I'm unable to even picture something integral like my mother's face.
logangb345 · 3 points · Posted at 03:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just testing that too, imagining my mother’s face. Can’t do it. I get suggestions that fly across my mind, or I might get sort of a crude line-art flash of her features, but certainly no photorealistic image.
JackMossmo · 3 points · Posted at 22:34:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend who’s dating a girl with the same thing, he explained to me how crazy that really is. If he ever died she wouldn’t be able to see his face without a photo. Pretty crazy stuff to think about, if you don’t mind me asking, what age did you find out you couldn’t visualize and how?
BumbleLapse · 3 points · Posted at 22:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually only realized my inability wasn't the norm about 6 months ago (I'm 21).
Because we can't accurately convey the intricacies of our individual realities it took me 21 years to understand that the term "picture this" was meant in a literal sense. Pretty crazy to think about for sure.
0XiDE · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what about memories? Can you look at something and then close your eyes and see what you just saw in your head?
JackMossmo · 2 points · Posted at 23:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My friends girlfriend who has the same thing has said it’s impossible for her to picture anything, she can look at her boyfriends face for ages and the minute she closes her eyes she can’t picture it at all. Can remember all the individual details of a face but can’t picture it.
She watched a movie that had flashbacks and was like “why are we seeing this again” or something along those lines.
BumbleLapse · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah I'm personally not able to. I mentioned it in another comment but I can't conjure an image of my mother's face.
NotMyThrowawayNope · 2 points · Posted at 09:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same issue with faces. I can picture in my head everything else about a person: their hair color, height, weight, style, etc. Just not a face.
JackMossmo · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crazy to think we can go our whole lives without realising we have these special little differences. Blows my mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Are there people who can see a perfect "picture" of someone in their mind? I mean, for me it's like something that exist only in a moment, but I can't hold a picture in my mind
BumbleLapse · 2 points · Posted at 16:22:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. Visualizarion is a spectrum. Most testing that neuroscientists have done use scales from 1-6, with 1 being a person who can visualize a vivid picture near indistinguishable from reality, and 6 being like me, where there is literally no picture.
HereToLearnEverybody · 4 points · Posted at 23:11:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I worked with a deaf-blind student for a number of years. Totally blind since birth and 85% deaf and progressing. He used to tell me about his dreams and they were mostly tactile. He said he was sure of what he would touch in dreams but smell, sound etc. was a bit more questionable. He used to tell me how scary it was to not know it was a “bad” dream until he was literally touching the scary thing. One time, he said he heard mooing and felt movement like a gentle rising and swaying. He was dreaming that he was sitting on top of a giant cow’s head. He had been to a petting zoo that morning. He’s amazing and has taught me a lot.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slightly off topic but apparently deaf patients of schizophrenia don’t hear voices but they actually visualize hands speaking to them in sign language. If I had to guess dreaming for the blind would probably be something equally as crazy
Miss_Death · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fucked to have to live with both. As the person, but also as that person's parent, or sibling, or anyone close. Like, why God? Fucking why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And while we’re on the topic, people who are born blind can’t get schizophrenia!
ZuubuMafu · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dream only hearing voices and afaik I’m not blind
MeowDogDuck · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people who are blind have forgotten what sight is like. They hear, smell, and touch. If they're in a bakery, they smell baked goods. If they're in a slaughterhouse, rotting corpses
tlaine · 2 points · Posted at 23:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They still have 4 senses to experience dreams. A close friend of mine was born without eyes. Just this morning she was describing to me a dream she saw last night. She described how a "scary-looking" guy with a mask on his face had something (I forgot what) in his left hand. I've known her for well over a year now but I found myself a little surprised of the level of detail. Likely it is that either someone in the dream told her so, or the brain just assumed it, or she partially deducted it from shaking the scary man's right hand. It's a dream though, and it all happens in one's brain, so all the information is there anyway.
Zenfudo · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine having a nightmare where you only hear scary stuff or feel someone you can’t see grab you
Psychonaut_funtime · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mind blown
silenceoflereddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your comment brought a question to mind: What would a person blind from birth see during a DMT trip. I haven't read the article yet but here's the link if you're interested, still. https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/20994748/fpart/all/vc/1
Red1220 · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check this channel out. He answers all sorts of questions and gives a very detailed account of the blind experience. As a side note, he’s a blind movie critic and his reviews are very interesting, he’s able to tap into a number of aspects that us sighted folk would never have considered. It kinda changes how you experience things if you spend enough time learning about how blind people go through life.
EBacon41 · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should look up Tommy Edison on YouTube. He was born blind, and his channel is all about his experience. Here's the video where he describes his dreams. https://youtu.be/XpUW9pm9wxs
MeMeMeows · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something like that, yes. People that have been blind since birth tend to dream with other senses they have such as smell, touch, taste or hearing. Those who can't hear or see probably dream with smells, tastes and touch since that's all they know.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tommy is one of the most wholesome channels on YouTube
https://youtu.be/XpUW9pm9wxs
TripleDigit · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And people born deaf who develop schizophrenia hallucinate disembodied hands sighing at them rather than hearing voices.
commonside-effect · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:50 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this true?
privintell · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blind people can actually have much more pleasant dreams than people that can see, in the form of scents and sounds they remember
I'd have to get another source, been over 5 years since I'd learned that. Sounds nice though, like coffee on a balcony, covered by a canopy in the pouring rain, in the middle of a seasonal dry spell.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read on reddit (so take with a grain of salt) that schizophrenic blind people hallucinate audibly. Imaginary voices telling them to do things. That's way scarier.
mcgood_fngood · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw this blind guy on YouTube whose channel revolves around what it’s like being blind. He talked about his dreams once, and mentioned how it’s a mashup of familiar sounds. https://youtu.be/XpUW9pm9wxs
koavf · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is literature on the blind dreaming: you have experiences of the other senses.
Jerdizzle17 · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That would be so weird just hearing voices in your sleep
sonlac29 · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you are born blind, it's hearing only. If you became blind, dreams are the only time you can see.(naturally, without surgery to bring your eyesight back or the aid of technology) It's really sad.
SurealGod · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that regard, that would be similar to Aphantasia which has recently become a much a more common than we thought disability. It basically prevents you from being able to picture things in your mind. An example of this is, to close your eyes and try to picture an apple. I can do it, you probably can too, but people with Aphantasia will just be black nothingness. It even goes for their dreams. Just like you mentioned, they only hear voices. They can understand where they're located through context of "I opened the fridge" meaning they're in the kitchen or "I lay down on my bed" meaning they're in their bedroom. It's really fucked up.
Get-in-the-llama · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've read that blind people have more nightmares than sighted people.
Josella-Playton · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't dream in images. I'm not blind though. I dream in emotions, voices, sounds and knowledge that's just sort of planted into my head
blackpersonofreddit · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up The Tommy Edison Experience on YouTube. He's a blind YouTuber that expensive a lot of what it's like to be blind.
Kthulu666 · 1 points · Posted at 06:38:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically yeah. Here's a blind guy describing it. He's got a bunch of other interesting vids about being blind, too. Movie reviews, setting up a new dvd player, how to use an ATM, guessing what color a scented marker is, etc.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:27:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude what language do deaf people think in?
whitethunder08 · 1 points · Posted at 11:51:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother said he dreams in voices. Sounds kinda terrifying to me but I guess it'd seem normal to him. Although he said bad drems really suck. He has been blind since birth.
hankorkarl · 1 points · Posted at 13:19:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoa never thought about that before and now my mind is boggled!
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:02:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here, Ill fuck you up even more. You cant really describe a color without relating it to something.
Mita82142 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've often wondered about that myself. What do blind-from-birth people dream about?
Socalinatl · 10 points · Posted at 22:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never even thought until now about the idea of a blind person learning that they’re blind. At some point they have to process that their world is significantly different than the rest of ours, right? That they’re “different” but can never really understand what the difference is. Maybe they can figure out why things are different but how could they ever know what it’s like not being able to see since it seems like you’d have to experience sight first to truly understand what it is that you’re missing out on in the first place.
GodSavesZelda · 7 points · Posted at 22:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just figure an alien race, or some kind of superhumans that come and say "Did you snerk that vlore? What, you can't snerk? Man, what vlore do you feel then? Like, do you feel a low vlore?"
You don't know what snerk and vlore are, and so you can't fathom what you're supposed to feel. Same with blindness, they don't see black, they just don't see.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing we do know is that the visual cortex is still active in blind people. They do "see" but their vision is based on sounds, smells, etc, that builds a 3d "picture" in their mind. Some have a greater sense of this and those who learn to use clicks or chirps for echolocation have a sort of map of their space created by that visual center.
tlaine · 6 points · Posted at 23:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very close friend of mine was born without eyes. Of course people born without vision can never fully understand what it is to be able to see. But understanding what one can do with vision is entirely possible. In her childhood she gradually learned that people with vision can use their sense of seeing to sense locations of objects around them, colors and such. It took time to understand angles, obstruction and such to tell what people really can see from which position. She hated calculating shadows in math class, because it's all very abstract to her.
Funny thing, she's actually very pedantic about choice of color in her apartment and in her clothing. She's always thinking what colors match with what. It's just a set of rules she's learned from sighted people over the years. Pretty sure we learn in similar fashion, it's just that we can also observe it but she has to often ask what color something is.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 03:38:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Chocolate-Chai · 3 points · Posted at 03:53:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who is religious I believe that wholeheartedly.
Read_It_Before · 3 points · Posted at 22:38:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is way too complicated for me at 1'o'clock in the mornin'!
Duosion · 3 points · Posted at 22:38:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is like my idea of life, death, and the universe. We think we see, but there’s definitely much more than meets the eye.
JadoreElle · 3 points · Posted at 22:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I found this great YouTuber recently. He’s blind (from birth) and he answers a lot of these questions. It’s amazing how much they actually do know/imagine based on what they’ve been told.
Anyway here’s his page link totally worth checking out!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is like explaining what smelling or tasting feels like, or what being hugged feels like, how could you without drawing upon a common frame of reference.
"A lovers touch is like a warm summer breeze" Great, what is a warm summer breeze?
It is fascinating to think about how limited verbal communication is. Unless you have the magical ability to connect with someone's mind and fire the same neurons as if they were really experiencing it.
pterofly · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a lot of studies on the subject, which compares dreams of those born blind compared to those who have lost vision. It's different for everyone, just as sighted folk dream diffidently but for most it is a mixture of senses which they experience in daily life such as hearing, touch etc.
The really interesting thing is some people who have lost their vision will still dream 'sighted'. This sounds pretty awesome. However, it can make waking up and facing the reality again very difficult - especially for those who have no residual vision.
I am visually impaired / legally blind myself and have some functional vision, the topic of dreaming is a frequent one in the VI / Blind community.
Canrex · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best analogy I've heard:
What do you see when you look out of your elbow? The same thing a person who is blind sees out of their eyes.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I know what I’m not able to do from my elbow, - I can’t see from my elbow, because I know what seeing is. A blind person doesn’t have a concept of seeing the first place to know their eyes can’t see like others. They can be told they can’t see, but they don’t know what it really is if they’ve never experienced it.
Akoustyk · 2 points · Posted at 03:04:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is the same thing for us and Bata with sonar, and fish with those electric field sensors. Any animal that has senses that sense something we don't, it's the same as a kind person and sight.
Or any single thing that exists that we don't have senses for, there could be senses for them, and they'd be experienced in some way we can't fathom.
Sight is a really fucked up one for us, because it's so profound, and is really like our ability to perceive existence the most.
It's like the way the world is.
And it's kind of always on.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like this comment. They would have no conception of “sight”
Avedea · 4 points · Posted at 22:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one that really sat strange with me was the explanation that it’s just what you see if you close one eye and keep the other open while “looking” out of the other one. That’s the one that always made me feel strange yet absolutely fascinated that a body can do that.
Packbacka · 4 points · Posted at 23:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's still not the same because your other eye still sees even when it's closed. Notice that you're still able to detect a change in light even with your eye closed.
Avedea · 0 points · Posted at 00:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely true, nothing will ever fully emulate it. But a similar experience of there not being black, or anything specifically but just nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is black. When I close my right eye and keep my left open, half my vision is black.
Barack__Obama__ · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm high as fuck right now and this is absolutely blowing my mind. My brain can't process this comment.
hahavictoria · 2 points · Posted at 22:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yooo me toooooo
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's been huge advancements in the stride to cure genetic blindness, we soon might know the answer to such questions.
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome, to The Color out of Space.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there is, I'd say. I might not know what, say, some not yet discovered animal is or looks like, but I know if it's before me or not. I don't have a concept of "it", but I have a concept of..."not it".
Likewise a blind person likely knows if there's a difference between the perception their eyes have as opposed to, say, their elbows.
The_Original_Gronkie · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A similar concept is that of the mental processes of animals. Even if we could connect telepathically with the brain of a lion, it wouldn't understand what we were trying to communicate. Their minds just operate and connect to the world in a completely different way than ours.
BosskHogg · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see with their eyes what we see with our elbows.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but we know what seeing is to know what we can’t do with our elbows - see. They don’t know what seeing is to know what they’re not able to do with their eyes.
rtopps43 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good way to explain this is that certain snakes can “see” heat. They can even differentiate between temperatures as little as 1/1000 of a degree. This is a sense no human has ever had and therefore it’s very difficult to understand how they perceive this. If a snake could talk, trying to explain this would be similar to trying to explain to a blind person what sight is.
Insightonic · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A blind person told me it's like when I ask you if you can see with your feet. You can't. It's the same for them, but with the eyes.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But we know what seeing is in the first place to know that our feet can’t SEE. A blind person doesn’t know what seeing is in the first place but are just told by sighted people they can’t see, so it’s not the same feeling at all.
throwawayyy55576 · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Moreover, we have a part of the brain that handles vision simply because we have eyes that send signals to that part of the brain since before birth.
People whose eyes don't work at all, as in not even nerves firing in that part of the brain, wouldn't have a visual cortex at all, that part is probably used for something else.
But there are several parts of the brain handling "vision" for example there are some blind people who can still tell the emotions of the people they are looking at: so the eyes are working, the signal reaches the brain, and the part of the brain that handles reading emotions works just fine and is able to extract that information from the images received, it's just that the other part of the brain that handles the actual pictures to tell you here a red pixel here's a blue one, is damaged somehow.
There is a device that takes images from a camera and converts then to tiny electrical signals on the tongue (you have to put this electrical plate in your mouth) and if your visual cortex is working fine, but you are blind because you have no eyes, you can actually train your brain to interpret those signals on your tongue as imagery and there's people walking around by seeing with their tongues.
unaviable · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probaly by touching and feeling shapes
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn’t allow them to really know the concept of seeing though. It’s like us being told by someone there’s another sense they can use & they have a name for it, but if we don’t have the ability to do it we can never ever know what it really is.
TrenchyMcTrenchcoat · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered how psychedelics interact with people who are blind or deaf from birth, it must be a real mindfuck
Shivdaddy1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can use their other senses to help explain.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But they can still never really know what seeing really is. How are you going to explain what seeing means & have them grasp it if it doesn’t exist for them.
Imagine being told right now that actually the rest of us have another 6th sense called “djfnejd”, but you don’t have it so you can’t ever know what “djfnejd” does no matter how much people will explain to you using the other 5 senses.
vikster03 · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure they know what seeing is. Like their other 4 senses put together can make sense of the world, and sight should be something that they're aware of. But couldn't imagine what it would be like
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re aware of it ofcourse but if you’ve never seen, you can’t actually grasp what seeing is. It’s something that’s never existed in their universe.
Imagine being told to imagine a 6th sense that does “djfnejd”, people will explain to you what it means but you can’t experience it to ever truly know what that is.
heywhatsupmynames · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you see from your elbow? Nothing. This is what they mean by they see nothing. That's the best example I've heard.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone keeps replying with the elbow analogy, but I’m not wondering how we can get our head around them not being able to see, I’m saying they don’t know what seeing is in the first place & can never really know.
We know what seeing is to know we can’t see anything from our elbow. They can’t grasp that concept for their eyes in the same way when they’ve never known “seeing” in the first place. They only know from everyone else telling them they can’t see, they don’t actually truly know what they’re missing. It’s like those of us with all 5 senses being told actually some of us have a 6th sense, but without having it ourselves no explanation could get our head around what we’re even missing.
ThatBlackScienceKid · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your brain actually still gets signals from the eyes, often people will still be able to see certain things like spots of light. Depending on where the visual deficit occurs you can even press on the mechanoreceptors in an eye to make people “see” spots. As well the nerves that connect to the eye don’t usually stop firing this can sometimes be interpreted by the brain, in the absence of of actual visual input, as hallucinations or it can make other senses experience kinda static.
FirmHandshake62 · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine someone who doesn't possess a sense of smell. How would they know what a smell even is? Or whether or not they've sensed it before, no matter how hard you attempt to describe it to them?
benlucky13 · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like we could explain sight reasonably well, let me try:
sight is just sensation at a distance. when you put the back of your hand near a hot mug you sense it from some (albeit small) distance away. this is a very basic 'sight', where we can sense large differences from close by and nothing more. we know if there is a hot mug near or hand or not.
now imagine you don't need your hand to be as close. you can sense the heat from further away. much further. across the room. you could scan around from where you are to find what direction that mug is in, getting more and more accurate as you get closer. you are able to focus on this mug specifically in a cold room.
as it turns out, things vary in temperature. some of them can avoid absorbing heat, some absorb it really well, and others can even redirect it. if we could sense smaller differences in temperature with our far-feeling hands we might learn what a usual temperature is for different things other than warm mugs. if we had an array of magic hands we could even get a sense of the general shape of different objects for even easier recognition.
our eyes are just really compact arrays of magic hands. they do a great job sensing the temperature at a distance in detail.
our eyes just happen to sense a different type of heat you don't feel very well with the back of your hand.
Yikings-654points · 1 points · Posted at 08:39:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seeing is Believing .
wolfman92 · 1 points · Posted at 14:42:50 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see what you see out of your elbow. That's my favorite analogy.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 15:40:32 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many people replied to me saying that but it doesn’t actually address my point. We know what seeing is to know we don’t see from our elbow. Blind people don’t know what seeing truly is to know what they’re not doing with their eyes.
Obviously they’ll grasp some concept of it over a lifetime but they can never truly know what it really is that they’re not doing if they can never experience it.
wolfman92 · 1 points · Posted at 15:49:41 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point is your elbow doesn't see. To say "we know what seeing is so we know what not seeing through our elbow is" is nonsensical. You know exactly how much your elbow sees, which is none at all. This is how much a congenitally blind person sees. It's not like you can look at your elbow and say "Oh yeah, this is what blindness is like", you have to take the premise seriously.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 16:16:22 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I’m not trying to imagine what it’s like for a blind person? I’m saying a blind person doesn’t know what they’re missing in the first place.
orokro · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:16 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
what if theyve been seeing this whole time and didnt know it!
Wetowkinboutpractice · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blind person here, hfmnfoisgw genemltoj fhdhbenwk siudbnrmek
als_pals · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard it described as “try seeing out of your elbow.”
H-ckerman · 0 points · Posted at 01:10:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close one eye. That's what blind people see.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s explaining to a seeing person what a blind person experiences - I’m talking about the opposite, the fact that a blind person doesn’t even know what seeing is & never really can.
They can be told they don’t see to know that they’re missing this sense, but they don’t even know what they’re actually missing, they don’t know what seeing even is.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of that one closed eye, I see blackness. Because my eye still works. Why wouldn't you say close both eyes? That's just as black, and equally as incorrect of an analogy
ZZwagon · 0 points · Posted at 10:02:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No way to explain what seeing is?? Wtf? Of course that's possible. Do u believe there is no blind-from-birth person who understands the concept of seeing? Come on, doofus.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 13:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a bit of an overreaction & 3k people agree with me.
Ofcourse you can use various ways to try to describe it but how can they really truly understand what seeing is if they can never experience. If you can tell us how you’d do that we’d love to hear it.
ZZwagon · 0 points · Posted at 15:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cool bout ur upvotes.
Let me ask again tho, doofy.
Do u believe there are no blind-from-birth people that understand the concept of sight?
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 15:42:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you 14 years old? I’m happy to have a debate with an adult with differing views & learn something from each other. Whatever you’re doing is extremely juvenile.
But to answer your question, a blind from birth person can never experience actual sight, they can try to grasp the concept but they can’t ever truly know what sight really is. It’s not an insult like you seem to be trying to make it out to be. It’s a fascinating concept.
ZZwagon · 0 points · Posted at 06:44:38 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Answer the question. Yap yap yap. U still haven't.
True or False:
There is at least 1 blind-from-birth person with an understanding of sight.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:18 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally answered above. Don’t see why I should repeat myself because you won’t read.
ZZwagon · 0 points · Posted at 18:47:39 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boil it down to a true or a false on my last one. So far u've been too squishy.
Chocolate-Chai · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:40 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry I answered too long for you to understand..?
To put it in simple easy terms for you to understand, I’ll repeat what I said from the start which you replied to in the first place, but for someone reason keep re-asking. Are you okay?
No there is no way of explaining what seeing really is & for them to really know what it is.
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 21:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Guy with a blind right eye here!Blind people really do not see black. Because I don't either. Tbf I do not know how you guys see, but I think the easiest way to describe it is try to imagine seeing your left side of your nose on the right of your field of view. Besides that everything is perfectly normal. Despite only having one eye, I can't imagine what it feels or "looks" like to be blind tho. But I do understand blind people when they say they don't see black.
Edit: Actually, is that the same thing you see when you close your right eye?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like static but not static?
Ilovefrench · 2 points · Posted at 21:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you find it hard to see going inside of a house just after coming back from being under the sun?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont think so, never paid attention to that, but still dont think so. Barely going outside anyways, lel
NetworkMick · 18 points · Posted at 21:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't blind from birth but do have experience with being blind. I went blind for a year and it was the scariest thing I've been through. Diabetic related. It's like someone turned off the lights and looking into absolutely nothing. What's interesting though, is my sense of hearing increased and it helped me get around. Thankfully my surgeries saved my vision and I have nothing but mad respect for the blind.
oozamiaa · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This I crazy to me, could you explain how it felt once you realized it you had to live with this? Even if you didn’t actually live blind for ever
Carolus1234 · 15 points · Posted at 21:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helen Keller has entered the chat...
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hellen Keller is a fraud
Pillagerguy · 24 points · Posted at 21:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now this is a weird conspiracy theory.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a hill I’m willing to die on
BillGoats · 13 points · Posted at 21:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you believe this?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don’t think someone who was blind and deaf at as young of an age as she was could have gone on to do the things she’s known for
Manc_Twat · 33 points · Posted at 21:41:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a pretty weak argument for a hill your willing to die on.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We all feel strongly about different things. I feel strongly about this.
Manc_Twat · 7 points · Posted at 21:47:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's fine, but you're going to die really quickly on that hill if your argument is simply, "I just don't think someone could do that".
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m willing to die a quick death
Manc_Twat · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha fair enough then.
Printman8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you may be wildly incorrect in your thinking (not entirely sure though, to be honest), but I’m upvoting because of your dedication to such an insignificant cause.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s the spirit
tenaj255l · 3 points · Posted at 21:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Open your mind! I worked for a woman who is blind and Deaf from birth and she has her master's! One of my favorite bosses.:)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How old was she and what year did you know/work for her I feel like time of birth is essential here
tenaj255l · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I worked for her in the early 2000s. She's probably about 70 now.
Edit: word
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hellen Keller was born in 1880 I don’t feel like there was enough technology to allow her to learn but idk
BillGoats · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
According to this article, an estimated 107 billion people have ever lived. This article states that around 0.2% of the world's population have severe deafblindness, while 2% have less serious deafblindness.
Let's first assume that Keller was among the former (0.2%). Then, let's make a statistical assumption: Some portion of our population do extraordinary things in their lifetime. In modern times, we have definite proof. Further back in time there's less rigorous proof and more hearsay. Some of that is questionable, sure. To throw a number out there, let's pretend that 0.00001% of people do something unbelievably extraordinary during their lifetime. Out of today's living people, that's about 76 000 people.
Now, if deafblind people are even half as likely to be extraordinary as others, then 0.000005% of those 0.2% would be. That's 76 people.
You may argue against my 0.00001% assumption - but then remember those 107 billion people. Keeping the 0.2% prevalence of severe deafblindedness constant, we could lower the prevalence of extraordinariness to 0.000001% (a ten-fold decrease), and still have one of those 214 million (0.2% of 107 billion) deafblind people do something extraordinary.
Another point worth addressing is that due to increasing rates of population growth, the majority of these 107 billion people lived during relatively modern times.
Of course, this is in no way scientific. I'm just trying to illustrate how the astronomical number of lives lived makes stories like Keller's almost inevitable.
BillGoats · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
New comment so you'll be notified. How do you feel about this video of Helen demonstrating her ability to speak? Granted, she needs an interpreter but making herself understood verbally at all is an achievement with her predicament.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BillGoats · 1 points · Posted at 08:26:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helen was 2 years old when she became deafblind. That's old enough to have developed some language comprehension.
Maybe she practiced the sentences before-hand. That would be understandable. If so, then it's possible that her interpreter knows the "speech" and indeed gives Helen feedback on how she's doing. Not really much different from a teleprompter.
If Helen was really taught those sentences just to utter them on camera, they must have been taught to her in an astonishingly short time frame. Assuming she's unable to speak at all on her own accord (as you imply), it wouldn't make sense to teach her sentences for no reason. So when get the request to appear on TV, and that's when they would have decided to teach her phrases (if your theory is correct). Even if that's how it went down I am thoroughly impressed that a deadblind woman of her age was able to learn any sentences at all.
SimpleCollection7 · 4 points · Posted at 22:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i made a reddit account just to let you know you're retarded
KimberlyRP · 3 points · Posted at 22:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And, we don't really know if they are in blackness. What color is blind?
TooShortForCarnivals · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's are people who've lost their sight later on in life I guess. They would be able to differentiate.
Mw1zard · 2 points · Posted at 21:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you try to see through your hand, that's what blind people see. You don't see black, you just see nothing.
AgentElman · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like how much more black could it be. And the answer is none. None more black.
katieb2342 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took some film photography classes in high school and I have to assume blindness is like the darkroom when you have the red lights off. Just like, NO light, since everything we see is just light bouncing off stuff into our eyeballs.
NotWorthTheRead · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once read a blind person trying to express their experience by inviting the person asking the question to describe what he sees out of his elbow.
Quom · 2 points · Posted at 01:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd imagine you could measure it via the activation of the visual cortex (when sighted people are visualising in their mind it still activates). My understanding is that this area isn't used the same way by blind people (born blind), instead it gets co-opted by the other senses (not in a super powers way, but in a more finely tuned being able to read braille type of way or utilising echolocation etc.)
Those_Good_Vibes · 2 points · Posted at 01:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even people that are blind but somehow granted sight via surgery don't compare blindness to seeing black. The entire absence of the ability to see isn't the same thing as seeing nothing. But it's such a foreign idea to anyone with sight to NOT be able to see anything that it's the best most of us can compare it to.
It's like telling someone to imagine not existing. People will typically imagine a sense of peace, rest, slumber, stillness, a wide range of emotions or feelings or states of mind. But nonexistence is none of those things. Or imagining existing in 4 dimensions instead of 3. Even if you wrack your brain and manage to understand the concept logically, the reality will differ from what ever you're imagining the experience is like.
katieb2342 · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone else said it's the difference between null and zero which I think is a good comparison. It's effectively the same in some situations, but zero is nothing while null is like... More nothing than zero.
EpicFishFingers · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they do just see black but don't realise it because they don't know what black is
blushingpervert · 2 points · Posted at 02:55:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But there’s literally no stimulation from the sight sense whatsoever. I can’t wrap my head around that entire sense not existing.
ObligatedOstrich · 2 points · Posted at 05:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is similar to being colorblind, many people tend to think that being colorblind is obvious to that person or that they only see black and gray. When in all reality you have no idea if you're colorblind without taking the appropriate test first (if you've never seen the color orange, you don't know you're missing out).
tendoesheep · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know when you receive a strong hit to the head ? There’s a short instance when every sense goes blank, including your vision. I think blind people would « see » the world like that.
FunkNumes · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
EXACTLY!
Captain_Moose · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When seeing people close their eyes, they see the inside of their eyelids. That's why we think the blind "see" black. Even with our eyes covered, they're giving our brains information. A 100% blind person will get NO input from their eyes.
Sp1Nnx · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it’s like when you close 1 eye and you just see out of 1 eye
JDeeezie · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d play a high pitch noise and say this is white. Then play a deep bass and say that’s black. Or light and dark.
Croudy4 · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like it’s a staticness they see
1h8fulkat · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like asking a person who had their eyes removed what they see would clear that up.
katieb2342 · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think how they're blind would be part of it, and maybe if they used to be able to see. Like I was friends with someone in school who was legally blind because he had a brain tumor that started pressing on the vision part of his brain. He got it removed before he went completely blind but for him everything was just REALLY fuzzy. Someone who's blind because they don't have eyes might 'see' different things than someone who has eyes but there's something wrong with the connection to their brain.
jroddie4 · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I read once that people who have the vision part of their brain hurt can't even remember images.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. So many people don't get this.
katieb2342 · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd imagine people who became blind later in life would describe what they 'see' differently, since they have something to compare it to and understand what it means to see. But I don't think we'll ever know what it's like to be blind from birth, unless the science really improves for giving vision to the blind.
Bladexeon · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I made this mistake as a child in elementary school. There was a blind girl in my class who had this really elaborate typewriter type thing that she used to complete her assignments (I literally have no idea how it worked). I was really interested in trying to get to know her and one day I asked “do you only see black?” And she responded with “I don’t know what black is”. As a kid I couldn’t really wrap my head around that response but looking back on it now really boggles my mind
TechiesOrFeed · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who are blind from birth but get their eyes fixed later on still stick to the claims that they did not see black, they saw nothing
AceGamingJunkie · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're probably just repeating what they've been told by blind people who weren't born blind.
Jerdizzle17 · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it may be black, but there is no way to tell since they have no memory of any color
tubularairplane · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless they see light. If they're totally blind, then sure.
If one sees light, cover their eyes. Ask them if it got extremely dark... tell them, it's the "colour" black.
M0rguul · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I wonder what things look like in their head when they imagine objects or people. Or what their dreams "look" like.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slightly related, you don't see black when you close your eyes, it is a very dark gray
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eigengrau
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
there are people who have been able to see for most of their life then went blind, and the ppl who know what “black” looks like still say they dont see “black” they say they see nothing lol
rewismine · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard people who gained sight later in life say they didn’t see black. They saw nothing.
avidsdead · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racist
bearsinthesea · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you even know that what I see as 'black' is the same as what you see?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The part of their brain that processes visual information is still there, usually. People can be blind for a lot of reasons but if it's physically something wrong with your eyes you'd probably "see" darkness I'd imagine. Not because it's dark but everything you see is actually just light bouncing off things in the vicinity.
You want a trippy notion consider that: you don't see an object, you see light colliding off the object and bouncing back at you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But black is an absence of light, which they experience.
koolman2 · 18 points · Posted at 21:45:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black is an absence of light, but not an absence of input. Your eyes are still sending signals to your brain.
garlicnaught · 187 points · Posted at 19:53:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
try to imagine what you can see beyond your field of view, beyond your peripheral vision. It's not black, there's just no input to perceive. Nothing.
IaniteThePirate · 88 points · Posted at 21:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This logically makes sense but it doesn't really help. It's like how knowing that there are wavelengths of light that we can't perceive doesn't actually help us imagine new colors. It's really hard to truly imagine seeing nothing at all.
FriendlyCraig · 21 points · Posted at 22:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close both eyes, and you'll see stuff. Now close just one eye. What does that closed eye see? Nothing!
uisbiytai · 17 points · Posted at 00:25:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard it better explained like this: What do you see out of your elbow? You see nothing, it's not there, that's not how the elbow works.
People are asking for an answer to a nonsense question. The entire concept that you perceive the world from the point of view of your eyeballs doesn't exist for a blind person.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I still see something. Like a browny grey.
ant1990 · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's your nose as seen by your open eye.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It looks so much like I'm looking out of my closed eye that I still can't imagine seeing nothing.
Pat_the_pyro · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see black out of that eye. With occasional flashes of color.
meta_mash · -8 points · Posted at 22:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
100% not true
MortalPhantom · 15 points · Posted at 22:12:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just try to see whats behind your head right now without turning it.
Try it now. Really try it. The longer you do the more unconfortable you'll be.
It's nothing. They see that. Nothing.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 22:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but that's hard to fathom. I can't see behind my head, but I can't fathom what it's like to not be able to see in front of my head. Saying "it's the same" doesn't really help in understanding it.
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:41:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, there is. I'm trying to imagine it and I cannot. I'm aware that the analogy with other body parts makes sense, but I still can't fathom it.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:50:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't even get my question, do you? What do you mean blind people can't "imagine" it? They don't have to, they live it. Why the fuck would they even try to imagine what it's like to be blind if they are blind? But I am not, so I have to imagine the experience, and I can't.
I'm not asking "what do you see?" I'm asking "how does it feel like when your eyes see the same thing your feet do?" I thought that was clear.
thisshortenough · 0 points · Posted at 00:19:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you close your eyes you see black. Now cover just one of them. That eye just sees nothing. It doesn't pick up where the edge of your hand is, can't define shape, doesn't see black. Your uncovered eye is doing all the work
Pat_the_pyro · 2 points · Posted at 00:26:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I see black out of the covered eye. Black with occasional flashes of color.
thisshortenough · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you sure about that or is it you losing your field of vision at the edge of your uncovered eye?
Pat_the_pyro · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see a sea of black half as wide as my normal field of vision. It's curved at the edge of where my other eye starts. It looks pretty similar as it does with both eyes closed.
Edit: spelling
thisshortenough · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well then I don't know what to tell you, maybe you've got weird eyes
Pat_the_pyro · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do have a condition that causes me to not have a dominant eye. Maybe that has something to do with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but I can't imagine how it feels when it happens to both eyes at the same time.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still see forward when I'm trying to see behind me. I'm just incapable of imagining what it's like.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best way I've heard it explained is imagining trying to see through your elbow. (probably someone used this example in the hundreds of other replies but I'm wayy too lazy rn)
IaniteThePirate · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard all of that too. Believe me, the concept makes sense. But I'm not having issues imaging not being able to see from my elbow, I'm having trouble imagining not being able to see from my eyes.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which I think is kind of the point - you can't get it, get it?
Plazmatic · 0 points · Posted at 22:24:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Colors, as in red green blue purple etc... are not a product of wavelengths, but a product of how our mind perceives them. Just because you can see "more colors" doesn't mean that you literally would see a new totally different color from anything else. You wouldn't, it would just fit into your existing set of colors you see. It's actually lamer than having typical eyes because you might "see" less, as the new information from different spectrum spreads out the color to more extremes. When people have extra cones, they are typically just clones/broken cones from the same spectra as another. They don't see "more stuff" they just get more noise from what ever spectrum they saw before. They "see" more greens (when it is an extra green cone) because they get more green information, and they can diferentiate between more shades of green, but this ends up screwing with other colors. Looking at light that is both equally green and red (yellow)? Now it looks like it has way more green than red, and won't appear yellow anymore.
TechniChara · 10 points · Posted at 22:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A better comparison would be our inability to sense magnetic fields. We are surrounded by them, but we don't have the means to "see" them without magnet implants. I've always wanted to have some.
AutismCommunism · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve read somewhere it is what you see through your left eye if you close your left eye and keep the right eye open
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't imagine, can't even begin to comprehend.
MarvinDowneyJr · 73 points · Posted at 20:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
try this: close one eye. See on this eye you see absolutely nothing. You only see out of the eye you keep open. Blind people have this on both eyes.
MettatonBrand · 20 points · Posted at 21:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that was kind of a terrifying revelation to have
Litty-In-Pitty · 4 points · Posted at 05:20:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My aunt in law was told that she’s going to go blind within the next year or so. She’s only like 40. I can’t imagine how fucking scary that must be. Going blind is my worst fear, I’d honestly rather just die
PortalWombat · 7 points · Posted at 22:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I think about it I can see the blackness in the other eye though it's hard. Your brain naturally filters around it but the feed is definitely still there.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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dosemyspeakin · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now I’m freaking out
dharmadhatu · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know about the rest of you, but what I see "out" of one closed eye is exactly the same thing I see with two closed eyes: black.
JoelKeys · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's not possible lol.
dharmadhatu · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you say that? If you put two different images in front of each eye, each eye sees one of the images -- even though that's hard to notice because of binocular rivalry. Same principle here.
JoelKeys · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you close one eye your brain automatically switches all attention to your open eye (assuming you have good vision in both eyes). The only way to see black out of your closed eye is to close the other one too
dharmadhatu · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recall a study from long ago00558-0.pdf) demonstrating that Tibetan Buddhist monks can control binocular rivalry to an unusual degree. Wonder if my being a long-time meditator makes a difference. It seems to, from reading these comments.
JoelKeys · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahhh sorry I didn’t know you were a Tibetan Buddhist monk.
dharmadhatu · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not actually a monk, but spent months meditating full time in a TB monastery. Not sure why that deserves downvotes and sarcasm, but that's Reddit I guess.
JoelKeys · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean you have to admit it is kind of convenient that you happen to be a Tibetan Buddhist Monk in one of the very few situations that it would be handy to be a Tibetan Buddhist Monk.
Idk where the downvotes are coming from, I don’t care enough to downvote them but I know how annoying it can be
dharmadhatu · 2 points · Posted at 02:30:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, fair enough 😄
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe I'm imagining it but I can see my eyelid with one eye. I can see a sheet of browny grey.
Alienor_what · 95 points · Posted at 19:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try and imagine your eyes are on your kneecaps. Now, how much do your kneecaps see? Do they see darkness?
kbextn · 64 points · Posted at 19:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe i’m missing something but what i am so confused
Blince · 84 points · Posted at 20:01:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that he's trying to get across is basically this;
Those of us that can see perceive 'nothing' as just darkness. Generally if someone says to you 'I can't see anything' you would imagine them just perceiving nothing but blackness with no clear lines or anything (like when you close your eyes, you don't see ''darkness'', you see nothing, your brain turns the input from your eyes off)
So what his thing about the kneecaps is trying to say is that, if you can't see anything (like when you close your eyes, you don't see ''darkness'', you see nothing. Those of us who can see relate seeing nothing to darkness because it's the closest thing that we can ''see'', but if someone has NEVER perceived anything they don't even know what darkness looks like.
Does that make sense? He's trying to put across that if you can't see anything, you don't see darkness or a black void, you ''see'' nothing because the act of seeing isn't happening at all.
TremorX · 31 points · Posted at 21:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of it as the difference between #000000 (all black, eyes closed) and NULL (no data whatsoever).
Bhelkweit · 9 points · Posted at 21:37:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not #000000. It's Eigengrau, #16161D
TremorX · 1 points · Posted at 12:23:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
As much as I hate pedantry, I like learning and TIL.
kbextn · 3 points · Posted at 22:12:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fantastic analogy (it is an analogy, right? i’m not sure of the word)! this made it ‘click’ in my mind. thank you!!!!!
knokout64 · 11 points · Posted at 21:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain turns my eyes off? Not sure about that, pretty sure the darkness I'm seeing is the back of my eye lids.
IaniteThePirate · 17 points · Posted at 21:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I was gonna say. You eyes definitely don't get turned off. You can still make out differences in lighting or see a vague shadow if you wave your hand in front of your eyes.
al_cj · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close one eye.
GroteVos · 17 points · Posted at 21:41:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I developed a blind spot, more like a blind stain really, in my left eye. When I close my right eye and stretch out my arm and hand before my face I see a hand without fingers. It's really weird, there's no black, my fingers are just..not there. Really hard to describe and it totally freaked me out when I first noticed it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you trying to say that they might have the same visualization of this black darkness as we do, but wouldn't even know how to classify it to begin with?
GroteVos · 3 points · Posted at 22:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I know what black looks like and what I'm seeing (or not seeing) is not the normal black darkness like when you close your eyes, so I think it's different.
Blince · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the point is more that they don't have a visualization of it as they're not trying to describe something standing in for something that isn't there. They don't see anything, it's not that there is a black picture being displayed it's that there's no camera entirely, if that makes it clearer.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes sense, but it's also impossible to imagine. Thanks.
kbextn · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that makes more sense to me now; thank you!!
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slowhandgirl05 · 3 points · Posted at 21:34:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
erm the inside of my eyelid is not black sir it’s pink
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slowhandgirl05 · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when i close my eyes i don’t see complete black unless it’s dark around me or if i’m laying face down into my pillow. i see more of a really dark brown/red color. maybe i have abnormally thin eyelids. who knows
doom_bagel · 4 points · Posted at 22:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sharks have a sense where they can detect electromagnetic impulses from other fish in the water. Now try to imagine how you would perceive that. You can't, because you have zero point of reference, making it 100% beyond your comprehension.
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kbextn · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
thank you for taking the time to explain that! (:
Just-A-Chill-Guy · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's impossible to see nothing unless your are blind it's basically like seeing through glass, except everything is glass for millions of miles of glass, way past the distance you can see, you are invisible you cannot see yourself everyone is gone it's just you. Although this wouldn't happen because blind cannot see light or dark.
Like you said black is just the absence if light, if you close your eyes it won't be the same since you already know what thr color black looks like. Blind people cannot tell the difference between light or dark they see nothing, you cannot perceive this becuase you have vision, try to remember a dream, the months before you were born, or what you saw during sleep. That's right nothing you cannot remember your since nerves have no need for the vision during this time, your Brain won't process light, darkness or color this is the closest resemblance to seeing nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, does it make it easier if you imagine bees on your kneecaps instead?
[deleted] · 32 points · Posted at 21:31:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just do this. Both eyes open, slowly close one of them and tell me what you see. You wont see black, you'll see nothing
PrimaryPluto · 9 points · Posted at 21:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like this explanation
keitarno · 7 points · Posted at 21:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see my phone
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see the browny grey of my eyelid.
jewboyfresh · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea people always say this but it’s impossible to comprehend
mathteacher85 · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just made my knees feel funny.
temeraria · 12 points · Posted at 20:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read a post somewhere that you can kind of picture nothing by thinking of what's behind your head without turning around. Freaked me out.
thats0K · 40 points · Posted at 20:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
reminds me of a joke I saw here.
a blind man goes to get on the bus, and the bus driver said he can't get on because his seeing-eye dog which is a labrador, was Black in color. she said guide dogs don't "come black". (facepalm in and of itself)...
then the punchline: "bro imagine being blind and being told your dog can't come on the bus because it's Black, and you just standing there like: "WHAT THE FUCK IS 'BLACK'"?!
EDIT: oh shit, YEAH! now i remember, it wasn't even a joke. this ACTUALLY happened, and then someone came up with the joke in the comments of that thread I'm quite sure. unreal.
u/iwishididntneedtoknw hooked it up: https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2019/01/10/blind-woman-told-to-get-off-bus-because-guide-dogs-cant-be-black-8329869/amp/
iwishididntneedtoknw · 2 points · Posted at 22:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2019/01/10/blind-woman-told-to-get-off-bus-because-guide-dogs-cant-be-black-8329869/amp/
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh shit, YEAH! now i remember, it wasn't even a joke. this ACTUALLY happened, and then someone came up with the joke in the comments of that thread I'm quite sure. unreal.
u/iwishididntneedtoknw hooked it up: https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2019/01/10/blind-woman-told-to-get-off-bus-because-guide-dogs-cant-be-black-8329869/amp/
Nobodys-here15 · 30 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, basically what blind people see is not black, not white but literally nothing. Like, try to look behind your head, but don’t turn your head or move your eyes at all, and that’s what’s blind people see. (Saw this explanation somewhere else on reddit, idk where tho)
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That don’t really help me perceive it, though I can understand it Ig
isobane · 7 points · Posted at 21:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The analogy I've seen for that is to close one eye. You don't see black from that eye, there's just nothing.
Your brain knows, "eye's closed, show nothing" well that's what being blind is like, nothing.
UnspecifiedBirdSound · 6 points · Posted at 21:30:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
by far the best explanation i’ve seen for this is: close one eye. notice that when you try to see out of the one eye you closed it’s not black it’s not even the back of your eyelid. it’s simply just not perceived
TongueFeast85 · 4 points · Posted at 21:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close one eye and look around through the other. You don't see black in the other eye, just nothing.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close your left eye, keep the right one open. Now look straight ahead and try to see out of your left eye.
TheNibbaNator · 4 points · Posted at 21:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My science teacher in highschool talked about this and pretty much said that sense the brain gets no information from the eyes it doesnt bother trying to process it.
Then he told us an experiment, close one eye, and focus heavily on your nose. What do you see out of your closed eye? The harder you focus in your nose with your open eye, the more apparent it is that the closed one is just..nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually do see out of my one closed eye.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Nothing" in general is such an unbelievable concept. It's crazy to think about.
Omegaile · 3 points · Posted at 22:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a tree falls on the forest, and there is no one around, does it makes sound?
There are two possible answers, each using different definitions of sound.
Yes - Because sound is just waves through the air. Of course there is air on the forest and the tree obviously creates the impact it normally does producing such waves.
No - Sound is just a mental state. Of course the air vibrates, but such vibrations only become sound when captured by the ear and decodified by the brain, which does not happen as there is no one around.
Both answers are correct within their own terms. Naturally they define sound in a different way, which is why they come to different conclusions.
With color is basically the same. We have two definitions of color: Frequency of light (physicalist), and mental states (mentalist). We often confuse the two of them. We can only perceive color according to the second definition, while the first is a description of outside reality. Absence of light is black, according to the physicalist definition. We, sighted people, can interpret such absence and view it as black, as per the mentalist definition. But that is different than absence of perception, which is what happens with blind people. In blind people, there is simply no mental states associated with any vision. Which is why it is an error to think that they see black.
Mrs-Bananahammock · 2 points · Posted at 21:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m blind in one eye and I still get freaked out thinking about this.
muitosabao · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally get it. I have migraines with auras, and often lose sight progressively: it starts with a flashing light in the center, then slowly moves to the sides leaving behing a blank, nothingness. I simply cannot see anything there, not black or anything. Just nothing. It was creepy at first, now it's... Interesting. (just imagine: what do you see behing you? It's not black, it's simply nothing.)
RoastedToast007 · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw nothing once when I was about to pass out. I knew what true blindness was, but it was cool to have experienced it
Pietpiet12 · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is not totally related to your comment but a very interesting channel answering all your blind questions
motherofpaws · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard a blind person once describe what they “see” is what we experienced when closing one eye. The closed eye truly sees nothing. Not black. Give it a try!
alf_____ · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like saying the color of what you see behind your head. Not a color just actually nothing.
ShataraBankhead · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I felt this way when I was having my Lasik surgery. When they lifted up my flap, everything disappeared. As it was layed back in place, my vision came back.
EastSideFishMurder · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the way i’ve tried to think about it is comparing it to other senses. So if you smell nothing, its not like you’re still smelling something. And if you feel nothing, you feel nothing. So thinking about vision, its not like you’re seeing black, you’re just seeing nothing.
EnigmaEnergy · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lots of people that are blind from brith don’t see black because their eyes can still detect light, but can’t make out images. It’s similar to having your eyes closed gently. You can tell if there is light in the room or if you are outside in the sun you can tell it’s not dark, but still can’t see anything.
ztufs · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would be best to ask someone who became blind in their later years, they should have points of reference
Ok_BOoMer75 · 3 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like closing one eye. You don't see anything out of that eye because your brain focuses on the other. You don't see black out of that eye, you see nothing. It's almost impossible to fathom for people with sight, but that's as close as you can get. Even black is a colour and the don't see colour they get no signal from their eyes.
CaptainIncredible · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I had it described to me: "What do you see out of your elbow?"
Me: "Nothing."
Them: "Exactly"
elcaptainc · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have blind spots in my vision. Right eye. Happened when I was in my 20s. Busted capillaries. Macular degeneration. I know they are there. Middle of my vision. Plus other spots.
People ask me what I see. Well normally in the normal spots. But in the blind spots I don’t see anything. Nothing. But the blackness. Just a mess of no information. Best I describe it is like staring at the light or sun. That afterglow. My brain or eyes do their best to fill in the info that should be there. Sucks but I’m glad the rest of the rods and cones are working.
akkahu_albar · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What caused the capillaries to bust?
elcaptainc · 2 points · Posted at 23:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was seeing a pretty good retina specialist. I was in the Navy. I’m still impressed by his credentials. John Hopkins.
When he called it retina degeneration I didn’t know how it could happen. Rare. Genetic I guess. But really rare for someone in their 20s.
We took many special photos. Put some dye in my blood. Took led photos. I could see the dye leaking out.
I took fancy medicine. It got worst before it got better. But I can mostly see. And it hasn’t gotten too bad as I have gotten older.
Nuffsaid98 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A person blind from birth sees the same thing you would see using your elbow instead of your eye if you had amnesia and forgot about what vision "looked" like.
RadioFreeWasteland · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close just your left eye.
Is half your vision black?
No, it's just not there, it's nothing
That's it
Hrydziac · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way this was explained to me was to close one of your eyes. You don’t see black in your closed eye, you just see nothing.
avocado_otto · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close 1 eye, what you see out of the closed eye is what a blind person “sees.” Whole lot of nothing, right?
koolman2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know that trick where you cover one eye and make a dot on paper disappear into your blind spot? THAT is what blind people experience - literal nothingness. If there’s no input, there’s nothing to process. It’s like trying to see out of the back of your head. You don’t see black, you just see... nothing.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you smell, with a stuffy nose? Or taste, when you're asleep? Exactly that, is what a blind person sees.
SwedishWaffle · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you see behind you right now? Don't turn around and look, what do you see that's outside your field of vision? That's what blind people "see".
VeryMuchDutch101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will probably be buried...
But close only 1 eye and try to look through the closed eye. That's what those people expeiry
Lblklk · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have heard if you keep both eyes open and put your hand over one eye you get this kind of experience. Like you obviously can’t see out of the blocked eye but it doesn’t feel like seeing ‘black’
Tayraed · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can sort of answer this? So, I have migraines with "auras" sometimes, and mine manifest in partial blindness before the migraine pain kicks in. I never understood the nothingness either until I experienced it.
So, I only go partially blind, and in those spots, it's literally nothing. If I look at a book, I can see the words on either side of the blind spot, and that blind spot makes those words in the middle just not exist. It's kind of like someone folded the page so that the middle words are hidden, they just aren't there and you would never know it. There isn't a line showing you that something's missing, your brain blurs the nothingness so it isn't even that noticeable (in the case of partial blindness).
That's not the best explanation..it's still just saying there's nothing.. but I hope it helps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m completely blind in my right eye and have been since birth. I don’t understand how people see with both their eyes. My mind can’t reconcile that your nose doesn’t get in the way.
daileyco · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, what would a blind persons dreams be like?!
tOM_tAR · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would compare to situation, where bat would ask you if you recieve, that the area in front of you is clear, from the high pitch location thing. No, you dont recieve at all. Because you dont have the ability to do that.
Thats how i explained it to myslef everytime.
Lunulae · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People blind from birth dont know what the sense of sight is/feels like, darkness is still sensing a lack of light. Its an absence of the entire sensation. Just like we dont miss being able to sense magnetic fields or UV or infared light. Most of us dont echo locate and we dont have electro reception and none of us feels a lack of it. You cant feel a negative response for a sense you dont have, they dont see "nothingness" there's just no info coming in.
JarHeadVet · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like trying describe what you see out of your elbow. You wouldn't say you see black. Your elbow just doesn't see.
that-one-redditer · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard from someone who was blind but isn’t anymore cause they got laser eye surgery, that if you close One eye, and then look through that eye, That’s what it looks like.
great_dame · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went temporarily blind, you see literally nothing.
Health100000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you close one eye and then try to look out of that closed eye you will see the ‘nothingness’
hungry-g1ant · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try closing one eye. I’ve read (somewhere else on reddit haha) that what you ‘see’ from the closed eye is what a blind person experiences
Grahamatter · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're just fucking with you, they know you can't prove them wrong!
littlepotofstew · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like when you close one eye. It's not black it's just nothing.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine it's like putting your hand in back of you and trying to see out of your fingers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you you close one eye you don't just see half black do you? It's like that
ImMoray · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well when you close your eyes your mind can show imprints of what you were looking at, it would be more comparable to being stuck in a room with no walls that's pitch black and it's so dark your eyes never adjust
patch_patch_patch · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close your left eye. What does it look like out of that eye? That’s a good way of picturing it.
EpsilonRider · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like seeing with the back of your head. Nothing because you can't see with the back of your head. I've always thought it sorta ironic to "imagine" you're born blind or with one of your senses. Wouldn't it be more like specifically don't imagine you have sight? Like imagine you can't see what's happening in the next room over. You don't need to because you can't. I of course know it's different from saying don't imagine you don't have sight, but I feel like saying imagine you're blind is the wrong way of going about it
Soviet_Russia321 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard it compared to trying to describe what you see behind you. You can’t. You don’t. You can’t even comprehend how to describe something you just don’t sense.
yer_man_over_there · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine trying to look out of the back of your head. The world exists behind you. You do not even see black. Just literal nothing.
attractivepotato · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close one eye and look out the other. What do you see from the closed eye? Your brain doesn’t process an image from it. This is what blind people see.
cocaine-and-curry · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’ve heard it’s similar to when we close on eye. we don’t see anything, it’s not black it’s just empty. i can’t imagine it with both eyes tho
AndreasVesalius · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see the exact same thing as you see from your elbow
Lanoir97 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone explained to me once it's like when you close one eye, you don't see black. It's like it doesn't exist.
hi_im_vito · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try looking behind your head but without turning your head. When you close your eyes you see simulated black, but when you're blind you literally get out process black. It's akin to seeing behind you without even turning your head, freaky right?
fried_eggs_and_ham · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m amazed by people who went blind later in life and also say this because they know what black is.
brendbil · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It kind of makes sense. Close your right eye, now what does your right eye see? It isn't black, it just isn't.
Mr_Fufu_Cudlypoops · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a very presumptuous standpoint, but I honestly believe that blind people do just see black. As far as I understand it, blindness is essentially just when the receptors in your eyes don't respond to light. What is the color do you see when you're tv is turned off? Black. What color do you see when the lights are turned of in a windowless room? Black. The thing is, if I'm right, they're not incorrect when they say they see "nothing." Black isn't on the light (color) spectrum since it's just an absence of color. So "nothing" really is a more apt description of black.
UniqueThrowaway73 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda relevant but not exactly, cover your eyes with your hands and block all light coming in. Then close your eyes in the same way. There's not an amazing difference, but there is a difference. This is relevant somehow I just don't remember why exactly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to close your eyes - you'll see 'black'.
Now, try to look left while sticking out your right elbow. Then try to see using your elbow. There's no 'black', there's just nothingness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep both your eyes open. Now cup your palm and cover one eye completely. Try to look through that eye, and that’s what seeing nothing looks like
IvoAndric · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The bast answer to this is: try seeing with your elbow.
MyRealAccount- · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah its like trying to see with your elbow. you don't see "black", its literally nothing, physically impossible.
HomeSkillet5150 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. As another has posted, it’s like trying to see out the back of your head. You don’t see blackness behind, there’s just no awareness
DanHam117 · 5435 points · Posted at 13:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase “happy as a clam”. How the fuck could could you tell if a clam is happy?
HandsomeLakitu · 8887 points · Posted at 13:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's short for 'happy as a clam at high tide'.
At high tide, clams have (practically) no predators and they emerge from their shells to feed and rollerskate.
DanHam117 · 2998 points · Posted at 14:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well shoot, TIL
brianoforris · 42 points · Posted at 20:56:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re not alone. 38 years old and I just learned the high tide part by reading this.
IdreamofFiji · 9 points · Posted at 02:57:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And people say Reddit is an awful place full of turds and Nazis.
Red-deddit · 9 points · Posted at 03:36:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean....yes, but not always
meadowshd29 · 4 points · Posted at 05:42:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just learned that they rollerskate then too. TIL
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 20 points · Posted at 21:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of our idioms don't make sense because we have lost context or words. Another example is "curiosity killed the cat" when the original was "worry killed the cat" which makes much more sense.
Random_Wrong_Facts · 33 points · Posted at 22:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always thoughts curiosity killed the cat made sense. Such as it kept investigating things and putting its nose where it shouldn't have been and ended up getting hurt
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 8 points · Posted at 23:05:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds like a way to oppress someone and prevent them from questioning authority. It's curiosity that drives a large portion of science and math which improves lives.
Sivalon · 8 points · Posted at 23:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But didn’t satisfaction bring it back?
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 12 points · Posted at 00:59:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That edition happened within the last 100 years or so. The original is much older as we see "care killed the cat" in Shakespeare's plays (care here meaning "worry").
l0Peace0l · 7 points · Posted at 23:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's a pretty recent addition to make it sound smarter.
reddittisfunyayyy · 3 points · Posted at 23:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it doesn’t. It sounds like a cat that got too nosey - doesn’t have anything to do with questioning authority
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 2 points · Posted at 03:41:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's nosey, not curious. Even then, it's still discouraging that behavior. Nosiness brought down Al Capone, exposed Watergate, and stopped a slew of real estate scams, and it defines pretty much all investigations. So the saying doesn't make sense when put to scrutiny which was my point, and the original makes more sense in saying "worry killed the cat".
reddittisfunyayyy · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You said that “curiosity killed the cat” is an idiom that doesn’t make sense when it in fact makes plenty of sense.
“Curiosity/Worry killed the cat” comes from Shakespeare I believe and it is just another way of saying “boldness/bravery killed the cat” so, even though the phrase is based on old English it still applies pretty well here. At least enough to not use it as an example of misrepresented idioms.
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You believe partially incorrectly. "Care killed the cat" is in two Shakespeare plays (care to mean worry), but "curiosity killed the cat" isn't seen until after The American Civil War with the "and satisfaction brought it back" not appearing until early 1900s.
reddittisfunyayyy · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I don’t understand your point when it’s pretty clear that the word ‘care’ when used in this context is clearly related to ‘curiosity’.
At the very least it’s a poor example of an idiom that doesn’t make sense because of the context. It makes plenty of sense.
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never doesn't mean curiosity at all. It means worry or sorrow for others. It's worrying about paying rent, it's worrying about the welfare of another person, etc. It doesn't have anything to do with bravery or curiosity, and even if it did, it would be discouraging those qualities which is confusing because those are positive qualities. Worry is something that should be discouraged.
reddittisfunyayyy · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You lost me man. All I know is ‘curiosity killed the cat’ is not an example of an out of date idiom or even an idiom that is missing context.
This is where Wikipedia backfires on people who act like they are English lit professors.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think your point here is kinda arbitrary.
Most things in excess or in the wrong context end up bad in some way.
Worrying about something shows consideration, care, or empathy. It shouldn't "be discouraged" any more than curiosity should.
But, the reality is anything can be done to an extreme that makes it detrimental. Worrying too much about things that don't matter. Being too curious about things you shouldn't inquire about. Etc etc.
IdreamofFiji · 0 points · Posted at 03:04:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Curiosity killing the cat was totally the idiom.
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 4 points · Posted at 03:45:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not if you check Shakespeare's plays which say "care killed the cat" whereas "curiosity killed the cat" doesn't seem to show up until roughly 1870.
IdreamofFiji · 0 points · Posted at 03:56:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell that to your pants tent.
mpark233 · 4 points · Posted at 22:16:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm saving this thread because I'm learning a lot!!
WaldenFont · 1336 points · Posted at 14:47:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Upvoted for rollerskating clams.
Taco_Bell_CEO · 33 points · Posted at 21:04:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is wrong with me that I didn't question the rollerskating part one bit until I read your comment?
SatoshiUSA · 9 points · Posted at 21:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
same
Bambi_One_Eye · 6 points · Posted at 21:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've seen that video
everyvoicelistening · 6 points · Posted at 22:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/bandnames
DirtyBendavitz · 4 points · Posted at 23:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clam Skates
adeon · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could also see that as the name for a female roller derby team.
HarryAFW · 1 points · Posted at 07:35:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also upvoted for their rollerskating clam claims
Belfette · 22 points · Posted at 21:17:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(small voice) I thought it was because they look like their shells are smiling.
GraMacTical0 · 43 points · Posted at 17:51:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know enough about clams or tides to dispute or believe this.
7FFF · 13 points · Posted at 20:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it’s right here on the internet. Black and white. It’s the gods honest truth. I, myself, believe it. I have spent a lot of time on mud flats but can’t see them skating underwater. Just because I lack the ability to observe the phenomenon doesn’t make it false.
conquer69 · 6 points · Posted at 22:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sure it is but I guess I will never know.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's right here.
s-drop · 7 points · Posted at 18:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is how the clams doo.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 19:24:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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anon_deplume · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
xFallacyx69 · 5 points · Posted at 22:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually laughed out loud when I read “and roller skate”
Thoryne · 3 points · Posted at 22:45:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And what is up with "cool as a cucumber"?
HandsomeLakitu · 6 points · Posted at 23:10:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It comes from an English poem full of similes. The same poem gives us 'busy as a bee'.
Cucumbers were used by English people to 'cool their blood' during Indian heatwaves.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're referring to a very specific pickle which is technically just a cucumber soaked in vinegar. It has a laser cannon. Funniest shit I've ever seen.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rollerskate— you say?
nerunas · 2 points · Posted at 18:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never have I imagined I'd know this, thank you!
You_Stealthy_Bastard · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought they used rollerblades instead.
VendettaSunsetta · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So do I, clams aren’t special
Andrew8Everything · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I need a video of this.
scarletts_skin · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I thought it was clams kinda look like they be smiling (: oops
spazknuckle · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Next you're going to tell us that chowder is actually old school lingo for disco and that's how the soup got its name.
QuickBeamKoshki · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like it should be said in that like lilting Georgia accent barely anyone has
Bomberman64wasdecent · 2 points · Posted at 22:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar to the phrase "your ass is grass." Makes no sense unless you know the whole phrase, "your ass is grass and I'm the lawn mower."
zandra47 · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a video for this?
Vesper_Sweater · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is the rest of that true?
averagejoegreen · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh crap I thought it was because it appears as if they're smiling from ear to ear.
FosterPupz · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how clams tie their skates on.
denali12 · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This comment took a late turn to awesometown.
Those_Good_Vibes · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm one of today's lucky 10,000. Nifty!
infected_detective · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now I picture them at an old timey drive in with rollerskating waitresses
b4xt3r · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neato. I thought it have to do with how long they could live or something.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rollerskate is what clams love to do
russian-troll-hunter · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seagulls have entered the chat
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about those predator sea stars?
HaelaDeer · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought it was because clams look like they're smiling
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:12:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I thought it was because clams are always smiling lol
Sleepdprived · 1 points · Posted at 11:24:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Saw this posted as a til on front page
96extcab · 1 points · Posted at 11:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sincerely hope the is a, "clams on the halfshell, and roller skates" reference
MidwestAmMan · 29 points · Posted at 16:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s smile is always wide
imgoodygoody · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy agrees with you.
Spock_Rocket · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really thought the initial comment was a DJ Flula reference. Now I am like fish in barrel that someone has made shoot of.
imgoodygoody · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think my favorite video of his is a more recent one where someone told him, “I’m not blowing smoke up your butt.”
Spock_Rocket · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine was and always shall be, "Daddy Long Legs, Who Did Name You?"
AJRW- · 7 points · Posted at 17:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Last I heard it's because a clam looks like it's smiling
ih8usomuch89 · 3 points · Posted at 20:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that same field..... and then some? And then some what?
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 2 points · Posted at 03:53:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I assume "and then some more" usually to take the place of an unnecessary specification or even synonymous with "et cetera"
ih8usomuch89 · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes the most sense.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sayings are the bees knees
UshouldknowR · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're on mermaid tits I guess
5-On-A-Toboggan · 4 points · Posted at 18:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever see how hung a geoduck is? I'd be happy too. (Just keep the lights off.)
Sad_Cumme · 2 points · Posted at 16:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clams have feelings too.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it could happen to you
pritt_stick · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
most idioms are nonsensical. i had a conversation yesterday with my mum about how the phrase “fresh as a daisy” makes no sense because it could have been there for a few days or it could have wilted, meaning it isn’t fresh. she told me to stop talking 😅
HandsomeLakitu · 7 points · Posted at 02:26:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daisy is a contraction of Day's Eye, which is the old English name for the flower. It's called that because the petals close overnight like eyelashes and open in the morning.
The idiom is a few hundred years old. It comes from a poem about a highwayman. The daisy is fresh because, like the highwayman, it sleeps all night.
More daisy trivia: Ancient Greeks thought daisies were the eyes of Apollo (god of the sun) and he used them to watch the world all day.
pritt_stick · 3 points · Posted at 09:25:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
thank you for this! i guess all idioms have an origin that actually makes sense, haha
lala989 · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love what you just taught me!
ThatRandomIdiot · 3 points · Posted at 06:21:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
George Carlin has an amazing bit about this. Making fun of idioms like the greatest thing since sliced bread. Like who decided that was the the last great thing?
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 08:44:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truly the last contemptible asshole
JDeeezie · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Starts getting wet.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
have you ever seen a clam frown?
DahliaRoseMarie · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When he’s a giant clam, and swallows your bikini, so he can see you naked.
CubingB · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My default expression is always a neutral kinda flat/frown looking thing. Granted most of the time I’m not happy... but when I am there’s no way to tell. Happy as a calm is complete bs
Casualmindfvck · 1463 points · Posted at 14:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That weird ringing randomly in my ear.
Like a tv just turning on or something
HomemadeMacAndCheese · 1066 points · Posted at 17:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tinnitus, my friend.
Scholesie09 · 1099 points · Posted at 19:41:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Hello tinnitus my friend...
I've come to EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE with you again...
OfficialGrexz · 18 points · Posted at 00:47:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hear it like “BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE”.
Eemanson · 11 points · Posted at 06:22:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is more like an A sharp
Zalinithia · 3 points · Posted at 14:07:32 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is like OOOOOOIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII.
Narthleke · 31 points · Posted at 22:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want to guild this very badly
Vilifie · 25 points · Posted at 23:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But i have no money sadly
Narthleke · 21 points · Posted at 23:17:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be more accurate, I have no money that I would like to spend on reddit.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:51:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you do want to spend it
Narthleke · 2 points · Posted at 14:50:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I want to guild the comment, but I don't want to spend the mo eyes to do it
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:11:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shhhhh, give in to the temptation. guild it.
DeadassBdeadassB · 15 points · Posted at 01:11:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
bEcause a vision softly crEEping Left it’s EEEEEEEEEEEE while I was slEEping
your-imaginaryfriend · 4 points · Posted at 18:18:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And the EEEEEEEEEEE that was planted in my brain, still remains within the sound of tinnitus.
LadyOfVoices · 6 points · Posted at 03:03:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This made me snort. A very sad and commiserating snort.
Timedoutsob · 6 points · Posted at 01:16:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that is hilarious and yet so painful at the same time. I laughed and then cried.
mycontortionisticgf · 5 points · Posted at 02:05:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This made my day
velorra · 6 points · Posted at 05:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't breathe
GodDamnFarmShaman · 4 points · Posted at 05:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read your EEEEEEE whilst hearing my own EEEEEEEEE
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same! I’ve been EEEEEEEing the whole couple hours I’ve been in this post’s comments!
dontcallmeshirley198 · 3 points · Posted at 05:37:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking snort-laughed and my husband's looking at me funny.
allykats · 3 points · Posted at 09:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
great, now I can hear it again, thanks
AndHereWeAre_ · 6 points · Posted at 22:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I legit lol.
Soap-ster · 4 points · Posted at 04:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck, made me LOL for real. HAHAHAHA! I hate tinnitus.
gingy4life · 2 points · Posted at 14:45:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally spit out my coffee over this comment. Thanks for laugh, friend.
MarsianCitizen · 1 points · Posted at 10:37:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
🏅
ortiz0714 · 41 points · Posted at 19:39:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im in the tinnitus club too my friend.
SpankWhoWithWhatNow · 33 points · Posted at 19:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tinnitus is most certainly not my friend!
Read_It_Before · 12 points · Posted at 22:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But weirdly, I'm 15 and I never really listen to music on high volumes but I sometimes get a tinnitus like ringing in my left hear, my doctor says that there isn't anything to worry about but he couldn't really identify the sound :/
kittenstixx · 3 points · Posted at 12:00:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could be an issue with your jaw, when i was younger my jaw started popping when i chewed tough food, not sure what caused it but since then I've had tinnitus.
You_Stealthy_Bastard · 50 points · Posted at 19:05:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MAAAWP
SavageSarahhh · 13 points · Posted at 21:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Upvote for Archer reference
hello-theree · 5 points · Posted at 02:44:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
LANA!!!!!
Ganon2012 · 4 points · Posted at 03:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHAT?!
hello-theree · 2 points · Posted at 03:43:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a rampage! What did you expect?
Ganon2012 · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmm. Cock-flavored spit? Well you never know what's gonna be on the board! Let me see cock-flavored spit!
hello-theree · 3 points · Posted at 03:46:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are we done with phrasing?
icyangel2666 · 11 points · Posted at 01:48:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does Tinnitus just randomly cause ringing in one ear for a few seconds? I thought when you get it, it tends to last longer. Not short bursts. Cause I've had the type of Tinnitus where if it's quiet enough I'll hear ringing in both ears. But I don't know what the random ringing in one ear for a few seconds is from, it's so weird.
BaboonAstronaut · 5 points · Posted at 20:09:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have mild tinnitus in both ears. Only realise I have it in quiet rooms, in my bed with no fans OR short higher volumes bursts that last a couple seconds.
kittenstixx · 2 points · Posted at 12:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have it primarily in one ear, for me it started when my right jaw joint began popping when i chewed tough food. It's not even about ear damage because i still score really wejl with hearing tests.
BroadStreet_Bully5 · 29 points · Posted at 19:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We know the name of it, why does it happen.
Brick_Fish · 40 points · Posted at 22:50:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the guy who designed ears was a fucking idiot.
JuniorTennis · 16 points · Posted at 01:17:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God creating ears God: Hey, angel, let's give humans these weird looking fleshy cartilage things on the sides of their heads. Make 'em super weird and twisty with a hole going into the human's head Angel: W-why? God: So they can listen to beautiful music, so they can communicate with one another, so they may hear the laughs of babies and children and know there is joy in the world Angel:W-wow... That's pretty nice, ac- God: Now have some of them make sounds like the shrieking of the worst demons at completely random intervals so the the humans never know when it's going to happen Angel: Sigh
CAPTAINPRICE79 · 7 points · Posted at 01:35:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...Well I know exactly who to propose this idea to
NordicCrotchGoblin · 3 points · Posted at 02:50:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had severe Tinnitus for the last 10 years (Work related, still wore my PPE, still happened), can confirm, whoever designed ears was a fucking idiot.
CAPTAINPRICE79 · 24 points · Posted at 20:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You see, funny story about tinnitus. This kid was bullying me in school, years and years ago. My grandpa, who was a mercenary, bless his heart, suggested putting a grenade in their lunchbox.
I said, “Please do not kill my friends.”
He replied, “Oh, mon cheré petite-fils! I’m not going to do it.”
“...Qoui?” I asked, horrified beyond belief.
Now later, when I recounted this story to my big-tittied British friend of the feminine persuasion, she exclaimed, shocked, “Oh my God!”
To reassure her, I responded, “Oh, relax! It was a flashbang! Little bit of tinnitus never hurt anyone.”
So yeah, tinnitus. Fun times.
NordicCrotchGoblin · 5 points · Posted at 02:54:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Well, I got a couple of grenades for 'em. They ain't flashbangs, though." "Ah, but zey'll flash and zey'll bang... just how I like it. Now, give zem a proper Hellsing welcome."
CAPTAINPRICE79 · 3 points · Posted at 02:58:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sooooo, a mountain of over-the-top violence, swearing, and unnecessary screamin’?
Exactement
OUI FUCKING MONSIEUR!
OfficialGrexz · 6 points · Posted at 00:44:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get random tinnitus, sometimes.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:54:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, that's a name given to that phenomena, but what IS it? Exactly?
OfficialGrexz · 3 points · Posted at 00:55:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When my tinnitus starts it fades in, and i would describe it as “third person”, as the tinnitus needs to adjust, then i just here BEEE.
idahocrab · 3 points · Posted at 03:17:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn you tinnitus! You’re a cruel mistress!
-gemr- · 2 points · Posted at 03:54:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the comment op, but what exactly is tinnitus? Is it a constant ringing, that you always here or only when its quite
upstatedreaming3816 · 2 points · Posted at 04:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man, I’ve read the word and now it’s started up.
Shin splints, I hope you read this and the same happens to you.
KINGBANANA6666666 · 2 points · Posted at 05:27:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't Tinnitus supposed to be a constant thing? For me it's like... If I have nothing to listen to or am nearing sleep I hear it like this noise or a generator running. It's hard to describe
trollingcynically · -17 points · Posted at 21:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Giving it a name is not an explanation. Good for pedantry. Not good to help someone understand things. I hope you are not a teach. If you want to be, I hear there are some great opportunities in American schools for people like you. You just say things like that and tell kids to memorize them.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 23:12:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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trollingcynically · -12 points · Posted at 23:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good troll.
You should advance you reading comprehension before you make comments on the internet. You should move to a state or nation where euthanasia is legal and partake in the services.
TacoNomad · 4 points · Posted at 23:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not even a good troll. Try harder.
trollingcynically · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ain't even trolling. I feel sorry for you and for how you were disadvantaged in your education and development.
TacoNomad · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You would feel doubly sorry for yourself if you could stand to face the mirror.
trollingcynically · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:18 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have had it upto here with the mirrors cracking for my passing ugly mug. I don't have a problem with it, but your mirror will. Go pick yourself up To Kill a Mockingbird and learn to read. With luck you might make it to a level where you can manage Of Mice and Men. If you can manage a 12 grade/year reading level you should try Kafka. You might enjoy some more lighthearted reading in Dick. A Scanner Darkly made me very uncomfortable at points but it is leisure reading, so you should do just fine. I managed to graduate highschool, so you should do OK getting your GED. Go back and get yourself educated.
HomemadeMacAndCheese · 9 points · Posted at 22:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao wow you sound triggered af. She asked why she has a ringing in her ears, the reason is because she has a condition called tinnitus. Do I know the details of tinnitus? Nope. And no I'm not a teacher, but I wouldn't move to America regardless.
trollingcynically · -11 points · Posted at 23:00:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lulz. Did you use the term 'triggered' ironically there?
Tinnitus is symptom. I get it. You learned a word. I too use words when I learn them. You used said word correctly. Here is your pat on the back. Tinnitus is not why you hear the ringing. It is the word for the ringing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that bad?
SnowyMuscles · 115 points · Posted at 17:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s especially annoying when you’re talking to someone and both ears do it randomly at once
ParkwayKeiran · 30 points · Posted at 19:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your ear basically has lots of little hairs that move with sound waves and transform them into electrical signals so our brains can understand them. Ringing is caused when there is irreperable damage done to one of these hairs. This damage is usually caused by age or acoustic trauma such as listening to loud music constantly.
frogswife · 14 points · Posted at 20:17:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was told I had tinnitus at around age 16 and was told the reason was "too many blows to the head" (I was a snowboarder with no talent and didn't wear a helmet. I fell a lot) Also my tinnitus blocks out other sounds when it's ringing. Very annoying.
ParkwayKeiran · 9 points · Posted at 20:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe it can be caused by many things, even diabetes, but I'm not sure. I only learned a tiny bit about it when I briefly studied sound production. Sorry you've had to deal with that from such a young age!
WriterofGarbage · 5 points · Posted at 23:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can tinnitus her congenital? I’m sixteen and I’ve had it for as long as i can remember.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:17:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SlapTheBap · 5 points · Posted at 04:01:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like tinnitus. There's no cure currently, but there's hope for the future. Medical science has had some interesting breakthroughs recently. I remember an experimental trial recently but I don't recall the details.
curiositie · 3 points · Posted at 07:05:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can try thumping your fingers in the back of your head under the bump at the base of your soul while covering your ears
It provides temporary relief for some people
TakeAShowerHippie · 3 points · Posted at 07:54:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like 4-5 seconds for me. Just enough to realize it is gone and then back it comes.
Krapylett · 2 points · Posted at 23:13:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf, I just tried this, and I have never heard anything this silent! I had already accepted my life would use quiet ambient industrial as background music, but this changes everything!
curiositie · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad it helped. :)
It doesn't do much for mine, hopefully it lasts a while for you
kittenstixx · 2 points · Posted at 12:08:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can also be caused by jaw issues, I've had tinnitus since i was in my teens, that's when my jaw started popping when i chewed tough food, my right jaw pops the worst and that's the side that rings loud and constant. However my hearing is fine, according to the regular hearing tests i take.
VixenRoss · 41 points · Posted at 18:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the golden sound. “Silence is golden!”. Well that’s what I thought when I was 5.
Casualmindfvck · 7 points · Posted at 18:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best comment
VixenRoss · 13 points · Posted at 18:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol! It took me a while to realise that it wasn’t the actual “golden” sound but probably mild tinnitus.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 18:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family used to say we were tuning into the aliens, lol
420Someone-E · 12 points · Posted at 19:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this and my ear started ringing no joke
dianmabood · 3 points · Posted at 00:10:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably some scientific explanation for that. My ear is doing the same thing.
chh9709 · 20 points · Posted at 19:21:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I typically get ringing when it’s really quiet, but that’s not often bc I can’t stand sitting in dead silence.
thoughtprotocol · 9 points · Posted at 19:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to r/tinnitus
muchfatq · 9 points · Posted at 22:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
u got tinnitus. i do as well. love waking up to EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE and going to sleep to EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE and listeningto music with EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE but quietly because i dont want the EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE to get louder
geek-kun · 9 points · Posted at 19:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to wonder why people said this. Then I played snare drum in a marching band for four years. It's hearing damage...
SaiyajinPrincess87 · 9 points · Posted at 20:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who is half deaf now due to a brain tumor, my doctors explained it as your brain filling in the gaps. For me specifically, my brain is trying to figure out why there's no sound coming from that side and that is the result. Everyone with my type of tumor has it, even after the tumor is gone, we deal with it 24/7.
Honestly not sure with others, can be blood pressure related, can be hearing damage and a ton of other causes.
valeriaalv · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m always afraid I have a brain tumor because I get ringing in my ears (sometimes a fullness) and a white spot in my left eye’s vision. Doctors’ said it might be CSR but hasn’t gone away after a year.
What were your symptoms, if you don’t mind me asking?
SaiyajinPrincess87 · 2 points · Posted at 05:24:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loss of hearing, tinnitus, pulsatile tinnitus, fullness/ pressure, loss of balance, dizziness, numbness/ tingling on the side it's on, loss of taste/metallic taste on that side of my mouth, pain in that side usually sharp, sudden then dulls out a bit.
First thing is to see an audiologist, and a neurologist. They kept putting me off saying it would go away, then thought I had a blood clot in my brain, then told me that wasn't it and I was too young for this. I finally pushed and saw another doctor who ordered an MRI with contrast. Acoustic neuroma is pretty rare, but there are definitive markers for it. If you feel something really isn't right get as many opinions as you need
This tumors symptoms can also look a lot like Minears disease as well, which they can rule out through testing.
valeriaalv · 2 points · Posted at 16:25:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s scary, sounds a lot like my symptoms. Thank you very much for responding and I hope everything is much better for you!
SaiyajinPrincess87 · 3 points · Posted at 18:26:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feel free to hit me up. I can at least guide you in trying to get a diagnosis properly.
Also don't panic, these are slow growing and not all that fatal. So don't assume you have one and panic yet. Just call for an audiology appointment first and go from there
valeriaalv · 2 points · Posted at 05:05:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow thanks a lot! I’ll definitely message you if I have any dire questions, thank you!
Zezion · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:47 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sometimes get the same symptoms before I get a migraine. Also I'm 100% sure I don't have a brain tumor, so probably nothing to worry about.
Distempa · 6 points · Posted at 22:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tinnitus is the ringing in your ear, it is not a health condition, but a symptom (I googled xD)
It can mean a few things, like hearing loss - which is the main cause. e.g. at 18/19 I got an ear infection in my left ear which robbed me of quite a lot of frequencies. I'm partially deaf now and I have since gotten tinnitus in my left ear.
NHS website quote above. If it's new, I'd see a doctor about it if it's bothering you. If you're not able to, NHS also has some good ways to help deal with it .
Hope you find this helpful :)
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s be Tinnitus, I always thought the ambient noise of the universe was ringing.
thekvant · 5 points · Posted at 21:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only notice that when someone points it out, so fuck you
MaybeDante · 5 points · Posted at 21:56:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah when I learnt what tinitus was I was like holy Jesus I have had this for my entire life and I thought it was normal. It stops when I hear noise but sometimes it just gets more defined and loud for no reason. But hey, at least sometimes I think the ringing sounds good for some reason
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 18:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MoneyIsMagic · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What were you allergic to?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 04:35:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Mikedaddy69 · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What sort of immunotherapy did you do? I have allergy issues myself with pollen & mold
digicow · 8 points · Posted at 19:14:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When that happens to me, I just push on my tragus to cover the ear canal entrance with it. Hold for 2-5 seconds, and the ringing stops
kittycatsupreme · 5 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wondering it this works for anyone else? It didn't stop my ringing but it definitely brought the pitch down a few octaves.
I've heard of tapping on the base of the skull. While only temporary, it takes the sound away 100%
In the time I took to write this your method has kept the pitch down. Thank you for this little trick.its really hard to drown out the highest note in the universe.
Fat_Pige0ns · 3 points · Posted at 20:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get ringing like someone has just thrown a tiny flash bang
NoGiNoProblem · 3 points · Posted at 21:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Archer?
doublesailorsandcola · 3 points · Posted at 22:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mawp.
sclinsky26 · 3 points · Posted at 22:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you get the ringing use your palms cover your ears and use your fingers to tap the back of your head about 25-50 times and it should go away
Liqqa · 3 points · Posted at 06:04:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
haha ear go EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
sumwunhooisaguy · 9 points · Posted at 17:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the sound of liquid rushing in your ear
Extrasleepyduck · 4 points · Posted at 19:03:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I was getting my rush allergy shots that gave me something, and I could literally hear the fluid drain from my ears afterwards.
spottyPotty · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That could actually be the sound of your blood flowing through the veins in your head closet to your ears
Mrredseed · 4 points · Posted at 17:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tenitis?
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 18:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes, tenitis.
Crazed_Alchemist · 24 points · Posted at 19:02:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tennis
thats0K · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's when 10 becomes inflammated. like, ALL of your fingers or toes.
Mrredseed · 0 points · Posted at 00:04:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
*tinnitus
irving47 · 2 points · Posted at 23:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the good news, is as you get older, you won't be hearing the noise because the TV makes it....
OutlawJessie · 2 points · Posted at 23:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can hear the TV coming on, even walking by someone's house. I've always been sensitive to electronics but a regular hearing test found nothing remarkable, I don't have dog hearing.
Frogblaster77 · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard that it happening randomly and then going away pretty quick is normal and happens to everyone. It's when it doesn't ever go away is when there is an issue.
bo-kins · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally right now
bharathkumar1238 · 2 points · Posted at 02:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to concentrate on that sound for some period of time and see of it brings peace. It can become great tool for meditation. Ot is know as one hand clapping in zen
Casualmindfvck · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you serious.?
That sounds great I have a hard time meditating
bharathkumar1238 · 0 points · Posted at 02:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this may help:
[A sannyasin says she has a buzzing sound in her head. Osho checks her energy.]
Whenever it happens, listen to it very very lovingly and attentively. It is the sound of the cosmos. It is the sound meditators have always been hearing, have always been searching to hear, praying to God so that they can hear. And if you listen attentively, it will become more and more clear. And when it becomes more clear you will start hearing it not only as noise but as a very harmonious thing, a subtle rhythm, and that is the rhythm of life itself. This sound is known in the East as 'Omkar', as the sound of the cosmos itself. When all sounds disappear, this is heard. It is a great blessing. So, whenever you are not doing anything, sitting silently, just close your eyes and listen to it. Leave everything in the background and become totally attentive to it. It will become more clear every day you will hear it in more detail and the rhythm will become a great blessing. Slowly slowly you will be able to hear It everywhere; even in the marketplace, in a noisy place, it will surround you and it will protect you. This is beautiful -- continue it. Good!
Camioles · 2 points · Posted at 18:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the sound of cells in your head dying, the non replaceable one, got told that by a neurologist btw so it’s a safe source
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 2 points · Posted at 05:28:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
doctors aren't above making up shit from time to time
kbextn · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’ve heard this too but idk how true it is; i’ve never known what to google to find a source ):
Lethargie · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
like many said, its tinnitus, try listening to white noise and see if that helps
haysanatar · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a little helpful trick. If it gets bad cup your palms firmly over your ears with your fingers on the back of your head. Tap on the base of your skull with your fingers for a solid 20-30 seconds. It's temporary... But it'll go away for a bit.
DeadassBdeadassB · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s called tinnitus and it’s caused by damage to your ears
402Gaming · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like when you think about breathing or blinking or that you can see your nose or that you can feel your clothes on you once you point it out you realise it. You just made my ears ring by making me think about it.
eatMYcookieCRUMBS · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My hearing will go totally muffled recently. No idea why.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fluid in the inner ear
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:36:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think if it happens rarely, it's normal
KayHodges · -1 points · Posted at 01:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tetinus. Yes. Quit using cotton swabs. Just your finger with some tissue.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that doesn't cause tinnitus
KayHodges · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:11 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is the advice my doctor gave me. It worked. It took a few months, but well worth it.
3lchupacabra · 5811 points · Posted at 14:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Highly motivated people
Burgess237 · 4840 points · Posted at 18:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know the internal demon you have to fight to get something done?
It's the opposite for over motivated people... It's like when you're not completing tasks you've ruined your day and it eats you up inside.
tah4349 · 1563 points · Posted at 18:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a really good description. It's hard to just do nothing - like insanely insanely hard. I feel like I've always got to be working through a list of things otherwise I'm dying inside. I've taken up a lot of handicraft-type hobbies (knit, crochet, embroidery) because it lets me calm myself and stop moving on some level.
PyrocumulusLightning · 705 points · Posted at 19:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoa
I can sit and fuck off for a very, very long time, myself. But when there's a deadline I start to get increasingly bothered if I'm not working on it.
JebatGa · 91 points · Posted at 22:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar with me. Except i still don't do it. Then it's too late and i'm just kicking myself over not doing it sooner. Then i just bury that feeling deep down and try to never think about it ever again while my life is going downhill.
PyrocumulusLightning · 18 points · Posted at 23:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agh
My student debt doubled because I did that. I finally paid it off, so I could into more debt; hopefully I've learned my lesson. :/
BeheadedFish123 · 10 points · Posted at 22:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When is it too late to start working on this?
tossawaysplooge · 12 points · Posted at 00:21:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s honestly never too late to work on discipline. Any age can do it.
JebatGa · 5 points · Posted at 22:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope someone can give you that answer, because i sure can't. Maybe it's not to late for both of us.
DirtyBendavitz · 14 points · Posted at 23:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm exactly like this and I've found the only way to be productive is to take advantage of those small moments of clarity you get once in a while to the fullest extent until it fades.
Another good habit is when you get up, regardless of what your day looks like, get dressed. I find that when I'm in my shoes I'm more likely not to lay back down so soon and always end up doing at least something
BeheadedFish123 · 3 points · Posted at 22:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I'm not yet 18 but it's fucking me up
JebatGa · 4 points · Posted at 22:53:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really all i can say is try harder. This would probably work for me to but i feel i have other underlying issues that need to be dealt with first. So hopefully someone gives you an answer that works for you and that you can turn your life on the upward curve.
wookiecraig · 8 points · Posted at 23:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
as someone that is 38 and has been burying those feelings forever, I can say that its all in your habits. the longer you can force yourself to get things done, the easier it gets. or at least thats the best way I can imagine to not be like that, since I still am.
LMRNAlendis · 3 points · Posted at 23:28:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually a thing with ADHD, though I didn't know either until I got tested. If that's an option for you, maybe you could look into that?
tossawaysplooge · 1 points · Posted at 11:38:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ve got a LOT of time don’t worry. I’m 22 and my discipline is pretty embarrassing right now, but I know with enough time and practice I can build it up. I know this because I’ve built up and loss discipline a couple times throughout my life, so I know what’s possible.
GothmogTheOrc · 11 points · Posted at 22:04:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah same, that's just fear of consequences tbh
alomomola · 3 points · Posted at 07:48:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's textbook ADHD
Source: same :(
PyrocumulusLightning · 2 points · Posted at 07:52:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it now!
(I said, on Reddit for the 50th time today)
At least I'm more mentally organized than I used to be. I used to wander around in a fog, more or less - well, emerge to work intensely on something until I felt like I'd expressed an insight, then back into the mists again.
alomomola · 1 points · Posted at 08:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id recommend looking into it
PyrocumulusLightning · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have hypertension so they won't give me speed to treat it. I know this because my husband got diagnosed, and they won't do anything for him due to that.
Pm_me_futaonmale · 45 points · Posted at 19:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As some who struggles with motivation and ADHD, I envy you immensely. I know it's a grass is always greener but I would pay a lot of money to have some kind of itch to do something.
SentientToaster · 4 points · Posted at 21:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you take medication for it? That fixes the problem for at least part of the day in my case
Pm_me_futaonmale · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do. But it's temporary and I have to take breaks from it or it loses its effect. And even with it, I still have issues though it's not as difficult
tucan3072 · 0 points · Posted at 23:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am in the same boat. I went to a therapist in the hopes that I would get diagnosed and medicated, but she told me only people diagnosed young actually had ADHD (although I have pretty much all the symptoms of moderate ADHD). I struggle with motivation every single day, and I too envy the other poster's drive to do things all the time.
LMRNAlendis · 6 points · Posted at 23:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's... Not really true though. Adult adhd is very much a real thing, it can just be a bit harder to diagnose.
chumpynut5 · 3 points · Posted at 23:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone else said, that’s pretty wrong. I’m actually starting to believe that ADHD is over-diagnosed in kids and under-diagnosed in adults due to how it presents differently in adults vs children.
Maybe look into a different therapist, or maybe just talk to your primary care physician.
ShihTzuSkidoo · 2 points · Posted at 01:34:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Find another psychiatrist. I was suspected ADHD in my 30s and diagnosed in my 40s. Meds help but I can’t take my optimal dose because of other health issues. It’s completely worth the work it takes finding a doc that listens to you!
merpes · 36 points · Posted at 19:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I feel like I'm dying inside any time I am doing something other than nothing.
catman11234 · 19 points · Posted at 19:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the opposite, if I’m doing something I’m in a terrible mood. But if I’m just existing and taking up space that’s fine with me
klausness · 16 points · Posted at 20:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, this is something that's so foreign to me (and presumably also to /u/3lchupacabra). All these people freaking out about staying and home and doing nothing. Seems like the easiest thing in the world. What's tough is finding the motivation to actually do something.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that sounds like a superpower to me. Im so bad at life my godd
WonkyTelescope · 9 points · Posted at 20:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a curse for them too. Be happy that can just sit and be content. There is no inherent value in doing something "productive". It's just that some minimal amount of doing is necessary to not die.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats very wise actually. Thanks
LonelySnowSheep · 1 points · Posted at 08:42:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if I can’t be content while just sitting down due to intense anxiety and stress I have from not being allowed to relax as a kid but I also can’t motivate myself enough to complete tasks due to anxiety and stress while not being able to focus on things due to adhd
Silver2324 · 6 points · Posted at 19:48:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have days where the demon says don't leave bed, and days where the demon says don't stop doing things.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:48:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's entirely social. Either your rewarded or punished for doing something.
The trick is to figure out what a reward or punishment is.
Some people are motivated by telling people how motivated they are. If the people around you aren't motivated, you'll either become less motivated or find more motivated people to hang around.
If motivated people seem to be rewarded more, you'll become more motivated. If lazy people are rewarded more, you'll get lazy.
It's very simple. Nobody wants to agree though.
LonelySnowSheep · 2 points · Posted at 08:48:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m saving this comment. This is what I need. Although I enjoy the lazy crowd, I get so much more done hanging around the right people. I get burnt out after a while but I need to find a way around that
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 08:54:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your right. The problem is the motivated crowd often conflicts with the transition. They're very all or nothing kinds of people and if you hang around lazy people too you'll be in constant turmoil.
It's not really enough to just be motivated though, because motivated people are often headed in all sorts of different directions.
You should get kn the motivation train with other people headed where you want to go.
Sometimes though you'll find yourself at the station with none of the trains going in the right direction , which is where I see myself currently.
I'm glad you took something from what I said though.
B23vital · 4 points · Posted at 21:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like me and you would get along terribly.
I literally can just go downstairs, sit on the sofa all day, then get up and go to bed and have no issue with it.
I wish i could be motivated, but just the simplest of things i seem to struggle to complete.
Like going the gym, i love it when im there, but i just put it off for so long that its too late to even go.
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we might be kindred spirits
SealTeamSugma · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can fuck of for months at a time without feeling affected even if I actually am falling behind. I know grass is always greener and what not but id trade you if I could.
Soggy-Slapper · 4 points · Posted at 20:58:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t consider myself a very motivated person but I can’t just do nothing. I HAVE to be doing something. With the lockdowns and everything I’ve been spending like 8 hours a day doing stuff for school just because I have to be doing something productive during the day or I feel like a piece of shit
Verdahn · 3 points · Posted at 21:47:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, that must be the difference then.
I have accepted that I am a piece of shit, but trying to not be one makes me more unhappy than doing nothing, and nobody seems to notice regardless, so why waste the energy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that logic is irrefutable my dude.
Verdahn · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not at all.
That is logical.
I mean I detected a bit of ironic humor in your comment (at least that's how I read it) so my reply has some of that too, but in terms of your reasoning, if you're trying to optimize for a high happiness to energy expended ratio, it's rock solid reasoning.
Verdahn · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That makes me feel oddly better.
GrandRub · 0 points · Posted at 22:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but who decides what is "nothing" ... if you lie on our bed and watch the trees outside - is that "nothing" or "treewatching" ?
believeinthebin · 4 points · Posted at 22:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you still have time for reddit?
ClassicMood · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We optimize and plan free unstructured time in our planner. I woke up extra early today
SteeleReserve088 · 3 points · Posted at 22:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awhile back someone told me, "depression is when you hyperfocus on the past. Anxiety is when you hyperfocus on the future". This is so true for me, and why I HAVE to be at least a little productive each day. I'm always looking ahead (e.g. when I pull up to a grocery store I'm thinking about what I'm going to buy in the store and not where I parked. It's a curse) so I feel as though if I don't do at least SOMETHING productive each day I'll fall behind. I also make lists for fun. Help me.
kenzeas · 3 points · Posted at 22:35:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is me, except i also have adhd so i find myself unable to make myself do all the things i want to more than anything else. it's like being a bodybuilder stuck in an overweight body, lol
finemustard · 3 points · Posted at 23:27:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's funny, I'm kind of the opposite. One of the reasons I meditate is so that I can do nothing but feel like I'm doing something.
redandbluenights · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm with you there.
My life is a never ending to-do list and any time I'm not elbow deep in something I feel like I'm completely wasting my life.
WackTheHorld · 6 points · Posted at 22:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who can do nothing for long periods of time, I often think people who make themselves busy are wasting their lives. Like, just stop and chill for a bit!
redandbluenights · 3 points · Posted at 02:40:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We just aren't programmed that way.
I'm go-go-go all the time, even if the things I feel compelled to "get done" are things I WANT to do (finish an art project, clean a specific room, work on a Lego build) - but I just can't stand doing NOTHING.
Unfortunately, I have a chronic illness- and between the pain and the unbelievable fatigue that hits me like a frieght train- there are plenty of times when I just CAN'T. I can't find the energy to keep my eyes open, even to read a book. I can't stay on my feet or drive anywhere because I'm suddenly so exhausted that I can't even focus on anything. Worst of all- it's often accompanied by insomnia. So long stretches of time when I'm too exhausted to do anything whatsoever- or I'm in too much pain to do anything productive at all, and yet, I can't just sleep either.
In the end; my body FORCES me to take breaks, during which I have no choice but to 'do nothing'. It feels like I'm trapped in a cage; and I hate it. More than the chronic pain, even as severe as it is at times- the WORST part of the chronic illness is the doing -NOTHING- and having no control whatsoever over WHEN and for how long.
Unfortunately, some of us just have minds that don't feel comfortable sitting still. I've resorted to Lego to help me cope; I buy a ton of bulk second hand Lego- and then sort it. My family now owns a little over 16,000 lbs of sorted bulk Lego- and we build some pretty cool projects. But when I'm ready feeling bad and I'm stuck in one place for long periods of time- at least I feel like I'm getting something done and keeping my mind busy. And I've gotten REALLY really good at sorting Lego. :-D
ClassicMood · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We're the people who plan out vacations in detail to most efficiently use the time and budget and end up more stressed out than before the vacation, aren't we...?
maddenplayer2921 · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the total opposite, I’m trying to do my online school work because of corona and I just accidentally mess around on my computer for 4 hours
Clashin_Creepers · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish I were wired like that. I honestly think that if my affairs were in order, I could sit and do nothing for the rest of my mortal existence, and I really wouldn't feel all that bad about it.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is just like my dad. I wonder, is there any neurological / medical explanation for the dichotomy?
HairyLlamaBalls · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recently just did the same! Hope you're staying sane!
SheikFromMozambake · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genealogy is also a good hobby for folks with these personality types. You can relax while working on a puzzle that grows exponentially with each additional generation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds terrible.
Suiagg · 579 points · Posted at 18:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if you have both demons just constantly fighting each other? If you’re not completing tasks it ruins your day but you can’t get anything done.
KayleMaster · 106 points · Posted at 18:59:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's just regular procrastination, I don't know anyone who feels good after a whole day of procrastination.
WriteBrainedJR · 13 points · Posted at 19:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
waves
Treeninja1999 · 27 points · Posted at 19:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
😎👉👉 that's me
kayherzz · 18 points · Posted at 22:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
👉😎👉 zoop
shostakofiev · 4 points · Posted at 23:46:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if you mix procrastinators with anticrastinators?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me🤡
lacifer1987 · 26 points · Posted at 21:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is called ADD and it sucks ass. I basically work in circles and get not alot accomplished
cdawg85 · 40 points · Posted at 21:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That, my friend, is called anxiety.
ElenyaRevons · 14 points · Posted at 23:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ADHD ADHD ADHD
Makar_Accomplice · 13 points · Posted at 20:58:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's me right now. I have chronic fatigue, so I don't do as much as I should, but I have this massive pile of work that I need to do. At the end of every day, I just feel empty because normally I've done nothing at all except watch videos, play some music and browse Reddit, with maybe a half hour of work thrown in.
Not fun.
WildlingPine · 9 points · Posted at 01:54:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, fellow ME (elbow bump)
You need to remember that doing nothing is a job you have to do too. Like brushing your teeth or eating healthy, lying down and doing fuckall is actually a necessary thing for your health. I'd recommend making it a goal to not do anything at all for an hour a day. No videos, no Reddit. Nothing that involves any movement. Just lie there and listen to music or a podcast, and do absolutely nothing. Making it a goal feels so weird, but in the long run it's really helped my mental and physical health. Good luck out there and stay safe.
Burgess237 · 23 points · Posted at 20:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congrats on being a normal functioning human, like really, you're someone who doesn't want to do work (Cause chilling is cool) but feels guilty or shitty in general for not doing anything productive.
To be honest that probably the most normal.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 00:11:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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sk8rgrrl69 · 4 points · Posted at 04:01:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was me until I began having heart palpitations and my psychiatrist and cardiologist recommended I never take stimulants again. Ritalin was the only thing keeping me on track and without it I’m back to the mess.
DeadlyUnicorn98 · 2 points · Posted at 11:52:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried Modafinil? It's a CNS stimulant like caffeine and helps with alertness or something like that, may be of interest
Penelope-Morgan · 9 points · Posted at 23:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to ADHD.
wheezy_cheese · 17 points · Posted at 20:56:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you have ADHD
(or something else maybe but this resonated with me and I was just diagnosed with ADHD and it all makes so much sense now)
littlegirlghostship · 15 points · Posted at 21:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anxiety.
That's the word that you are looking for here.
Orthas · 5 points · Posted at 22:58:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's depression.
mysterymaramalde · 3 points · Posted at 03:57:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that's called adhd. Wanting to get EVERYTHING done RIGHT NOW, but not having the motivation to do it because there is so much to do.
CraisyDaisy · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I not so affectionately call a "mixed episode".
usernumber36 · 2 points · Posted at 00:47:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
seek therapy.
Foibles5318 · 4 points · Posted at 20:58:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wellbutrin helps
WildlingPine · 3 points · Posted at 01:55:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wellbutrin is the best.
TropicalPriest · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s mental illness
Crotean · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you need to get tested for ADHD.
Poopy_McTurdFace · 13 points · Posted at 19:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where can I get this busy demon? I want one.
Tom_Brokaw_is_a_Punk · 7 points · Posted at 21:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried.... Amphetamines?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you manage to increase your brains dopamine that'll help a lot in many cases. If you have any type of addiction that can mess with your motivation a ton. Also get plenty of sleep.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:09:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extreme guilt from being lazy. The motivated do a lot to avoid that feeling of NOT accomplishing things
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just described the Enneagram personality type 3. There are 9 types in this system, and the type 3 feels something like shame for not working hard to reach their goals. They also have a huge focus on how they are perceived by others, so tend to have an appearance of success or make the most of their natural looks. I can name loads of them since they dominate sports and entertainment. Swarzenegger, Cristiano Ronaldo, are both “extreme” examples. So is “Patrick Bateman” from American Psycho.
UnderFiveNine · 8 points · Posted at 19:02:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit this! Best description I’ve ever heard and for me it’s mostly fueled by the wanting of a better life and an escape from an old one.
KlasVak · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
aye, but what if I got both?
I struggle to get anything done, then when the day is over, I feel bad about not doing anything.
Kinda feel like this is the default position for most people in life right?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every single dead body on Mt. Everest was once a highly motivated person. Maybe chill out a bit, huh?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not being productive ruins my day. But the problem is sometimes (maybe a lot of times) I'm not productive or not as productive as I think I should be. And it ruins my day and eats me up inside.
VymI · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"GO! GO YOU FUCKER! FASTER! WHY ARE YOU STANDING IN PLACE, YOUVE GOT SHIT TO DO, GO!"
oh hello hypertension
LOSMSKL · 2 points · Posted at 19:17:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That lower paragraph is me. It's cool to see there are more people like this. I've never understood how people can do nothing all day and feel satisfied
DriverGuy99 · 2 points · Posted at 19:31:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s very accurate. On my day off, I can do ten things by 2pm, sit for an hour and say “well that was a waste of a day, I could have done so many other things besides sitting”
FeistyFoxy · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been trying to find a way to describe this! I’m asked all the time how I can stand constantly being busy/doing something. I’m sure some people see it as a positive thing, but I get frustrated because it’s not always. I don’t remember the last time I relaxed and didn’t feel guilt for sitting down and chilling out. I physically can’t just sit and not do anything if it doesn’t have a purpose (i.e. meditation). To this day, I can’t watch movies, play video games, etc., during the day because it’s not “productive”, and even in the evening, I usually find something else to try to accomplish. Sometimes I really just want to say fuck it and not do anything, but it makes me feel worse.
Burgess237 · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What helped me was to view the downtime as a reward for doing the thing.
Also I got into the practice of forcing a break, like literally scheduling it into my diary (I mean my lunchbreak is literally a meeting in my work calendar every day) just to make sure that I'm forcing myself to slow down.
Also what might help you (I don't seem to be as severe as you are) is changing the perspective of HOW you're doing the thing, so for a movie I'm watching it as a challenge to spot flaws (If you're lazy look up interesting facts about a movie and some of it's scenes and see if you can spot them out or research something about the characters).
I play competitive games to learn and it be enough of a challenge that I can push myself, it no longer becomes time wasted it becomes a productive hobby where I can watch myself improve at a task.
ClassicMood · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You gotta plan unstructured free time in a schedule and back up justification for breaks using scientific peer reviewed studies on preventing burnout
-Slugger · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm both of these people, I have my days when I have to fight myself to just sit up in bed. Today, I can't stop moving. I woke up, got in shower, stripped my bed, put new on, brought laundry downstairs, started wash, did an hour long workout, washer is done, dryer isn't ... damn, so I walked in circles, started to look at sales ad while in a horse stance. I hate these days, because I can get alot done, but my kids hate me because I'm constantly telling them, no messes, clean up your toys. I took a dog toy outta the dogs mouth and put that away, and he's laying there looking at me like wtf I was still eating that!!!!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My demons say I’m worthless, useless, and stupid. They call up memories of dozens of people saying those things and more to me all my life. They say I deserved to lose everything and I may as well give up.
My primary motivation is staying busy so my demons stfu. It looks like I’m such a go-getter, and people ask me about it a lot, but stopping risks the depression and self-loathing taking over, which results in me being bed-bound for days on end.
I’m basically running from myself and trying to disprove those negative thoughts.
TuqueSoFyne · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sorry if I come across as a pocket psychologist but I’ve observed what you described and thought a lot about it.
People who said you were worthless, useless or stupid were wrong. You aren’t any of those things. People who speak like that (abusive people) are typically projecting how they feel about themselves. But understandably you have deeply internalized it and you’ll have to be very conscientious to rid yourself of those beliefs so you can enjoy life more.
Also, it helps to have a partner who understands why you feel like that so they can be positively reaffirming in the right way. Over time, perhaps thoughts can change the brain. I believe they can.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for taking the time to type this out! You are correct on all counts, and it’s a hard uphill battle to getting better that often seems a bit Sisyphean.
That’s an interesting thought about having an understanding partner who can help with positive reaffirmation. It certainly sounds nice, but I think I should improve a bit more before letting someone close enough to be that partner— I’m sort of a mess inside, and I don’t want to accidentally drive people away. 😅
Anyway, thanks for letting this internet stranger feel seen and understood! It means a lot. :D
T_WRX21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife is like this, and it's supremely irritating. She'd rather fuck around doing something all day, even if it accomplishes nothing, than just watch a movie.
For me, I'm like, "Alright, you've convinced me this thing needs to happen, let's fuckin' do it so I can go back to chortling along with, "The Boys"."
Edgii · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I felt my brain tell me "you STILL haven't worked out yet" today from 10AM all the way to 8PM. It's extremely annoying. If I'm not putting 100% of my focus into something it's like I get upset at myself and I don't understand why.
doneddat · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like I'm all eaten up inside. It's weirdly calm feeling.
punch_nazis_247 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a good description. Even when I take an hour or two to just play video games, I feel like shit and there's a million little projects that I feel guilty about not doing.
babawow · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s my partner. She gets close to panic attacks when she doesn’t accomplish a million things every day. It’s honestly quite stressful as I’m quite chill, but admittedly I do get A LOT more done next to her.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started running everyday now that I have to pass the time on quarantine, and I legit got angry when It rained for a whole day.
As a fatso with chronic lazyness for exercise, that got me happy :)
Dukkellson · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to fight the internal demon to do almost anything but later during evenings and nights I feel like I've wasted my day doing nothing. My interanl demon is never satisfied :D
mallad · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've got both. One eating me up for not completing things, and another telling me to run from it all, hide, sleep, play Xbox, get on Reddit....
Used to just be motivated, so the second one is probably just the depression.
OfficialWhistle · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am truly envious.
stop_the_broats · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Highly motivated people just have a brain that reacts to real life the same way my brain reacts to videogames.
bkittyfuck3000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES. Brilliant description.
jaymths · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say I'm mildly motivated. I'm by no means a high achiever but I do feel I need to be doing something. I was sick last week and spent the whole day in bed, I was annoyed because it felt like such a waste for a day.
Even when I'm relaxing, I still need to be doing something new like watching a new movie or tv show, playing a new game or reading a book I've not read before.
My wife on the other hand watches the same tv shows and movies and reads the same books over and over.
I just don't get it.
KimberlyRP · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The pleasure of doing the task has to be greater than not doing the task. Or, in some instances, it can be to avoid pain.
roobee72 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is so true, I feel so guilty if I haven’t completed at least something in a day. Even if I know I need to have a break or a day off, I’ll fill that time with tasks just to not feel unaccomplished.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly wish I had that. For me, lying around and looking at my phone all day isn't just because I can't be arsed to do something productive, it's actively fun. It's hard to fight against.
James-Sylar · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"There are two wolves inside of me. One chastize me for not being productive, the other chastize me for not be watching videos and comics."
"And which one wins?"
"Nah, they are allied against me."
Pebsiee · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES! Thank you. This is the same for extroverts and introverts. The same uncomfortableness you feel around large groups extroverts feel being isolated.
quality_redditor · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So how do I develop the burning desire to be doing stuff?
buckthefuffs · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I'm not doing something to improve myself then what's the point?
bojacks-oscar · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But i have both of these? Does anyone else feel like that?
ilikepickles00 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this description.
jejcicodjntbyifid3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I have, except I still don't get much done
throwawayayay6282648 · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel that but then the next day i only endup completing the game campaign
MossyMemory · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if I'm unmotivated to do anything, but it still eats me up inside when I sit there and do nothing?
reddituser4002 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm like halfway there.. I have to be doing something or I feel like I'm wasting time, but that something could be watching TV or basically anything really. But take that away and I get really anxious about what I'm supposed to be doing and how I could be spending my time doing something more productive (even if I procrastinate my productive things with unproductive things) and I don't really get it
lonelythrowway763 · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. It's like you start every day at 100% and then every moment you don't use doing something productive subtracts a little bit from your total score... vs. starting from 0 and everything you accomplish is +% points.
lemortede3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've sat on both sides of the fence. Sometimes I won't move for three weeks. Sometimes I've wanted a break for three weeks, and just when I get one, I've spent it doing something productive.
Darkitz · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And its both for ADHD people
kitsunevremya · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I raise you: highly motivated and depressed. Not a fun kettle of fish.
Sanquinity · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a colleague like that. She couldn't sit still and do nothing for a bit, even if there was nothing to do. There always had to be -something- she could do. Not that I complained, as it meant there was less left to do for me. :P
mycontortionisticgf · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like depressive anxiety
dougholliday · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember when I was a kid I was like this, pretty motivated. Then puberty hit and the depression kicked in now I have to fight my brain to get anything done.
idiotpeach · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel guilty if I haven’t done anything productive. Other than basic hygiene and small thing I need to look at something and fix it or feel like I’m working towards something. A planner helps me personally so I can track what I’m doing and visually see the goals I’m working towards and have finished
HartPlays · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
adequate sleep helps, it really does. when i don’t get enough sleep, all my mind wants to do is sleep. it’s hard to say fuck off when it has more power over me, but when i get sleep i am able to control that “demon” and get shit done.
IOnlyPlayAs-Brainiac · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s pretty accurate, for me, if I don’t do anything productive, I feel like it’s a waste of a day.
MateoElJefe · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I’m one of these people and it’s horrible. I’ve come to realize this: I move really fast to accomplish so much with the thought that the speed will allow me to finish early and relax. Only it’s obvious that I will always add more to the list, I will never finish, and I will never let myself relax. The same drive causes me to divide my spare time on too many things so I’m okay at several but I will never be good at one. I will never be good at guitar, I will never learn more than basic Spanish, I will never master photography to match the level of what I spent on the gear, and more.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow.
Im a piece of shit
Christy808 · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thomas Shelby
hmorrow · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah this isolation is fucking killing me. I need to be more busy. I’m hate this feeling. Sitting and doing nothing makes me feel so uncomfortable.
nbahungboi · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can’t fool me Jocko
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate this not having tasks and goals
walkenrider · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not completing tasks ruins my day and eats me up inside and I still don’t do them.
Al123397 · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I obtain this demon and replace it with mine?
SailorRalph · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I somewhere in between/slightly leaving more towards highly motivated? When i worked full-time, school full time (college for 2nd degree), and worked out 5+days a week I felt amazing. Now I'm no where near either of those and I feel ok, but I don't feel fulfilled. Like there's something missing.
hyperfat · 1 points · Posted at 10:29:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So us non motivated people...the demon won?
FemaleKrabbyPatty · 1 points · Posted at 15:30:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a perfect explanation. My boyfriend will sometimes tell me to fuckin relax because from the moment I wake up I feel like I’m wasting time if I’m not getting things done. My sense of urgency only goes away when I’m sleeping. Otherwise, I’m almost manic
your-imaginaryfriend · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is better explained than I could ever explain it. I need to do something, even if it's just a trip to the grocery store. I'm okay not doing anything for a day, though if I have stuff I need to do then that stresses me. But just doing nothing, or even doing a lot but not getting enough done, eats at me.
psinguine · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was ordered to stay home with my family today and it is eating me up inside that I'm not out there performing a service or earning an income.
Espeonstar · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you have it be both ways? I have to fight myself to get work done, but also feel like shit when I don’t do it. What do you even do at that point?
Burgess237 · 3 points · Posted at 20:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You realize that you're a human with flaws, and that you're not alone in that regard (Like holy shit do I have issues).
BUT you can do it. It doesn't matter what it is just get started, write the first word on the project you're putting off, change your bed sheets, make yourself breakfast and then when you're done start cleaning plates...
Before you know it you'll be on a roll and actually completing the task at hand.
The hardest part is starting.
scrabblex · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This, and stay at home orders are the bane of my existence. I've done everything around my house possible that doesn't involve going to lowes or home depot to buy things, yeah they're still open but working in the restaurant industry we were the first to close down so I can't afford to haphazardly go buy 2x4's or drywall, or plumbing. I just sit here staring at my computer all day, not even wanting to play video games or watch movies. I just want to be productive.
Burgess237 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I felt this in my soul.
I consider myself really lucky with all the quarantining and lock-downs because I get to work from home so luckily I'm busy during the work week.
ClassicMood · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been learning to draw. It's a pretty good quarantine hobby. Other options include electronic music production and programming (but I'm already competent in the latter)
PyrocumulusLightning · 0 points · Posted at 19:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you substitute real-world tasks with a point-based activity, like games? You'd be "making progress" by scoring. Or do you have to do real things to make the anxiety stop?
Burgess237 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like everyone it varies from person to person, for me it's easy to get the anxiety away by just getting almost anything done but games do help, I started taking on CS:GO and signed up with a team so every day I have a little bit of homework that helps.
Also my work really does help cause I can do a little extra when there is nothing to do (Like now with quarantine)
PyrocumulusLightning · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not usually a procrastinator about research project, but it's really hitting me this week! I keep doing everything else I can think of, and then I'm back to square one for the stuff I actually need to pass. D:
itbespauldo · 0 points · Posted at 19:18:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really liked that description. My days off are sometimes really difficult for me because I design them to be a day of rest from all my work, but always have an internal feeling like I wasted a day of my life I could have done x, y, and z
Redye117 · 0 points · Posted at 19:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. I absolutely cannot sleep in when I know I could be getting my day started, working out, doing chores, etc.
FatPam007 · 0 points · Posted at 19:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow I wish I had that
sonnendieb · 0 points · Posted at 20:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a good description of OCPD.
Lollc · 0 points · Posted at 20:13:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha. I used to be over motivated as you described. I crashed and burned pretty hard and now embrace the sloth.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:15:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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jac_pot · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life ....
BigXris · 0 points · Posted at 20:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never heard myself described better...
xtaberry · 0 points · Posted at 20:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a great description. I'm literally useless when I'm not busy with things. It makes me anxious. I have breakdowns the week after exams are over, because I don't know how to wind down after so many weeks of 24/7 focus on final projects and exams. I have never seen someone describe it so well.
LuftDrage · 0 points · Posted at 20:59:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My demon’s a cat!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, now I'm a little confused. I feel like I lack motivation in a lot of things (learning to drive, getting an actual job, both of which I guess are partly because of fear/anxiety or whatever the hell) but if i spend an entire day doing one thing like playing a game or something instead of also writing, 3d modeling or animating I feel like crap because I haven't accomplished anything.
Melelliot · 0 points · Posted at 21:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ha! I have both of those demons! it's great! thanks mom and dad for being so fucking different
TannedCroissant · 848 points · Posted at 17:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t even understand moderately motivated people.
Futuristocracy · 744 points · Posted at 18:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get started down a path and immediately doubt everything I've ever learned and whether I'm fit to be alive, lol.
vilkeri99 · 24 points · Posted at 19:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, me too
SIUW55 · 19 points · Posted at 19:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is correct
Who_billy · 14 points · Posted at 20:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow - it ain’t just me
trewleft · 11 points · Posted at 20:52:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuck man, me too.
JustAnOrdinaryGirl92 · 9 points · Posted at 21:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's as if I wrote this comment myself
LordOfSun55 · 9 points · Posted at 23:10:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Count me in
ThtFckSht · 7 points · Posted at 05:12:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one hits deep
LonelySnowSheep · 6 points · Posted at 08:53:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I spend so much time trying to figure out the most efficient path to learn a new thing so that I don’t end up learning outdated, useless, or dead-end information. The problem is that I spend so much time building a learning path that I realize how little I know, how long it’ll take to learn something, and eventually I get demotivated burnt out from the subject before I hardly start learning anything. When I do stick with the learning for a bit I learn incredibly fast compared to other people due to my optimized path, but I never stick with it. I accidentally remove all the fun from learning something new by over analyzing all of it from the beginning
CrusaderOfOld · 2 points · Posted at 00:36:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just do things because of the fear of not doing them.
For instance, say I've got to do the dishes. The fear of them still being there come morning, and just having that loom over me, is enough to get me going.
Now, I have other motivators, but that's a good one to have.
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 23:35:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motivation is just a matter of intelligence, wisdom and boredom. They all go hand in hand unfortunately.
KenKen219 · 202 points · Posted at 17:37:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pure spite. At least that what keeps me going
Jamake · 14 points · Posted at 18:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My only motivation ;D
RolandoDR98 · 7 points · Posted at 18:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favorite motivation. Even if I know what I’m doing is indeed the less effective method, I will continue to suffer for longer if it means I won.
smutsmutsmut · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The greatest motivator.
louis-cyphre-02 · 7 points · Posted at 19:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was scrolling and thought you had written "pure Sprite".
wicked_lion · 32 points · Posted at 18:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because I am highly motivated and high energy I don’t understand people that aren’t. I can’t sit on a couch and watch tv for more than a bit because it feels like I’m wasting time. I have to be doing SOMETHING or accomplishing SOMETHING or I feel like I’ve completely wasted my day. That being said I also have a hard time relaxing because that’s a waste of time. I do love naps though.
wigglebutt9 · 27 points · Posted at 18:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just remember that relaxing is productive
zzaannsebar · 13 points · Posted at 19:42:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually such a hard thing to learn and internalize if you are more like the person you replied to. I have really only recently started getting better about letting myself relax and not feeling guilty about it.
It's a really weird internal struggle because there's that urgent need, kind like a tugging and burning in the pit of the stomach, that feels awful when you know there's things you can or should be doing. And when you're doing anything that isn't "productive" by your own standards, then that feeling is worse and gets worse the longer you're not being "productive". But at some point, you have to learn that relaxing can be "productive" as well. Life needs balance. Productivity doesn't mean anything if you can enjoy not being traditionally productive. But relaxation doesn't really mean anything if there's nothing but relaxation.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:37:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y'all tried smoking some weed?
A_BOMB2012 · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s wrong with being productive?
ExAmerican · 8 points · Posted at 22:03:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know, man. You're on reddit and you made it this far down the thread.
wicked_lion · 3 points · Posted at 22:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s a paradox. I’m motivated to get done what needs doing ( the necessities, not random bs). But I don’t nap unless I am sick or didn’t sleep the night before. But I can burn down hours doing nothing at all. During a particularly severe bout of depression, I did not step out of my house for 28 days. Oof.
wicked_lion · 0 points · Posted at 22:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I require ALOT of sleep. 8-10 hours and I can still take a nap during the day. Also, since when you’re sleeping you’re unconscious I’m not aware that I’m not doing anything I suppose. Then when I wake up I’m right up and back to doing whatever.
GregMarshall94 · 18 points · Posted at 18:24:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get motivation, I’m just not consistent due to my ADHD and Aspergers. Sometimes I over estimate my skills thinking I can do something and then the next I accept that I can’t do anything just being delusional. Do admit that I’m jealous of people that can be consistent, get things done and have no issues blocking them from living a normal life
ari_pop · 16 points · Posted at 18:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this living with bipolar ii. My seesaw of motivation is either “you can’t do anything you’re a failure” or “time to become the first gold medalist in the pentathlon for the United States” and I’m very envious of the people who are consistent in getting things done.
idahocrab · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best thing my ADHD specialist said to me was that medication was only 60 percent of the solution. That other 40 percent is still on me and now I have the tools to deal with my ADHD issues. My wife also constantly reminds me to not be so hard on myself. I spent a lifetime building up habits and coping mechanisms and it will take some time to break that all down and have a healthy, regular routine.
poliky · 11 points · Posted at 19:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I can explain my point of view on this. I was unmotivated for a large portion of my life. In my perspective I never had the ability to want to be better than who I was because I never experienced what it meant to be better. I had to break both my hands, lose my unborn child due to medical expenses, and miss out on the opportunity to see my childhood friends mother before she died, to get the desire of wanting to be better. It's not like there was a switch that flipped, there was a long series of choices that kept telling me to not be content with my life, that if I stayed as I was I would keep suffering. Honestly, a large part of my lack of motivation came from PTSD from my childhood. It took a long time to redo the wiring and thought processes in my head, which caused me to self destruct and hate myself continuously.
Now there's this literal feeling of burning in my stomach, sometimes it passes from my feet to the pit of my chest. Sometimes the feeling spreads a warmth throughout my entire stomach. It drives this passion that I never had, it drives me to be better and to grow. I had some semblance of this feeling growing up but, after a week it would pass, it's been a year now and I get it every single day. Every single day I wake up I remember where I am, I remember the choices that I made, and I remember who I'm aiming to be. Even as I write this the feelings well up inside me and fuel my desire to never lose what I have, I used to be content with loss and now I refuse to accept it.
I just want to say if anyone has any sort of childhood trauma, and if you're like me and can't access mental health care, please don't give up on yourself, you are amazing and you are worth every qubit of energy that exists. If you are in a situation by which you are experiencing any sort of pain you can and will pull through with it, you have to for the you that exists tomorrow, the day after, and for the years to come.
Avitosh · 3 points · Posted at 00:53:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah big guy? I could probably do that if I had an infinite supply of meth and then heroin for the comedown. I mean I don't but still I totally could.
On a more serious note congrats for having a drive and consistent passion I have so little social interaction and have been on reddit so long that I figured people like you were just a myth I was told about growing up. Like Santa Clause.
Good to know fulfillment exists.
poliky · 2 points · Posted at 02:26:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did a lot of drugs but I have to say e that had some meth amphetamine definitely put me in the lowest spot I ever was mentally. Took around ~350mg and the crash was fucking miserable. Drank my heart out to deal with that shit lol, if I started on opioids at that time I 100% would have been clicked to it.
Thank you, honestly my dude you just really have to want something. Like I'm talking about hunger. I used to think I was hungry because i had these fleeting moments of drive and grit, but it was truly nothing. I'm talking about real deal hunger, like when you want something so bad you'd die for it. You need to find what that is for you. Take that shit and then look back and think about all the pain you've ever dealt with and use that shit as fuel for desire. At this point in my life, and I'm still young thank fucking God, I would die to make my Grandmother proud of who I am and who I am meant to be. I am meant to be great because I am great and I know I'm great. You are too, and if you never had anyone to tell you that then I'd be honored to let you know you are. When you wake up in the morning go to the bathroom, look yourself directly in the eyes in the mirror, and speak out loud to let you know and the world know you're great. Write down several things you love about yourself, forget the negative the negative is what's keeping you here. When something goes wrong don't pity yourself, I do that still, embrace it, be like yeah this shit went wrong cause maybe I fucked up and that's okay because this right here is a step towards improvement. You only have 36500 days to live if you live to 100. Make them count with compassion for yourself, fuck everyone else.
Loyalist_Pig · 15 points · Posted at 19:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The most motivated people I’ve met had to be, whether it was an abusive dad, broke family, or really any adversity while growing up, those are the folks that always seem super “up and at ‘em”
Avitosh · 5 points · Posted at 00:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this where I check my privilege growing up as a spoiled rich white kid? I have the motivation of a rock that decided to go into a coma.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 11:58:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Loyalist_Pig · 2 points · Posted at 14:38:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your mother sounds like a great woman!
TuqueSoFyne · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They had to develop grit.
MMA_23 · 13 points · Posted at 19:54:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually it’s a combo of caffeine and being born into financial stability. Lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On this note, I don’t get straight edge people.
MMA_23 · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went straight edge when I had to study to get into grad school. Couldn’t afford to lose anymore brain cells😭
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but not even coffee? Anyways, im glad you got sober bro!
MMA_23 · 2 points · Posted at 03:16:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the knock off version of straight edge because I most definitely had Coffee. Couldn’t stay sane in this world without it.
Thanks dude! Upvote!
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Zisx · 7 points · Posted at 21:13:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you realize everything is a risk- and doing nothing is the biggest risk there is
micsare4swingng · 9 points · Posted at 19:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amphetamine prescriptions. There's no other answer.
dontforgetthelube · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or just already having enough dopamine naturally.
Tinderoni_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vyvanse ftw
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got to be just genetic luck. I know a younger guy who works 13 hours a day doing oil pipelinework. Doesn't even phase him. Makes 90k a year and builds motorcycles on the side. Its just...genetic luck.
ugh_Hugs · 3 points · Posted at 05:45:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ask me this country could use a little less motivation. The people who are motivated are the ones who are causing all the trouble! Stock swindlers, serial killers, child molesters, Christian conservatives? These people are highly motivated, highly motivated. I think motivation is overrated, you show me some lazy prick who's lying around all day watching game shows and stroking his penis and I'll show you someone who's not causing any fuckin' trouble ok?
Billquisha · 7 points · Posted at 18:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't have to be motivated to get stuff done, you just have to do it.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this^ Id be more than happy to fill my time watching tv and lazing around forever but I just do stuff because I have to or have goals that I want to achieve. Talk to a few amazing athletes or a musicians and at least a good portion of them will admit they don't really like practising or training. I mean it's not really that fun but it's like cooking a big meal. You have to do all the steps to get your reward.
tyroleangrey · 6 points · Posted at 19:35:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not motivated, I’m disciplined.
arronski_ · 2 points · Posted at 04:09:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motivation and discipline are different, although they probably overlap
FightThePouvoir · 5 points · Posted at 18:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate motivational speaker-types. It's almost like rap music, I feel like they're yelling at me.
Patsfan618 · 2 points · Posted at 02:31:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a lifestyle really.
You can't just become that person but you can force yourself to pretend to be motivated and eventually habits build and it just gets easier.
hollyock · 2 points · Posted at 03:25:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren’t motivated they are just doers. They don’t wait for the motivation Bc motivation doesn’t exist. It’s just that you override your minds discomfort and do
Bioshockelite · 4 points · Posted at 18:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude. Take a cold shower. I truly believe that taking a cold shower is the key therapy for motivation. I have done everyday for about two weeks and I felt unstoppable. It doesn’t even have to be for a long time. It just needs to be all the way cold. It is hard every time you do it and it never gets easier but it will jump start your day perfectly.
driftkinetic · 5 points · Posted at 18:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't fathom the opposite. Why wouldn't you want to be the best?
theArtOfProgramming · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s existential dread. I know it’s stupid, I know we’re short-lived creatures on a tiny speck in the middle of vast nothingness. Still, I have a need to be something. It’s both awful and fine. I struggle with laziness and distraction constantly and it’s the panic that gets my ass of the ground.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who grew up as the underdog with alot in life and getting tired of being looked down on, I realized being super motivated and disciplined was the only way to show people up. It gave me a sense of purpose and power knowing I could control my destiny and fate. Still to this day I keep it strong, not for the reasons that got me started, but because I see a goal and future for myself that I wish to obtain. Just gotta remember to give myself some down time, because it does help me stay on track and not burn out.
-PsychoDan- · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d say i’m highly motivated, never found it hard to focus while doing work, revision for exams in school/ uni, etc
And the reason for it is when there is a task which must be done, whether that be uni coursework, actual work, or just revising a topic I don’t understand, I just cannot relax until it is done, my brain just won’t stop thinking about it panicking, etc, but when the task is done, then I can relax
Defo wouldn’t get rid of this part of me, its allowed me to do great in exams, and while I do do a lot of work, its never hindered my social life, but I do often wonder the complete opposite, how are people able to just leave a bunch of work til the night before a deadline without feeling anxious?
Honest-Lion · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some has to do with personality for sure, but with recent sedentary lifestyle, garbage food and no sun exposure there are lots of hormonal imbalances that lower people´s energy.
Guest2047 · 2 points · Posted at 18:13:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's unatural
lacquerqueen · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am highly motivated for certain things. My job and my kid, jup. Cleaning and stuff? Nope.
awesomest090_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause why not is how I look at it. I've got the rest if eternity to be dead, might as well do some stuff while I've got the time.
icandoMATHs · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drugs? When I don't have drugs, I basically need fear of failure or music to motivate me.
tommygunz007 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was homeless for two years and worked the entire time. I have ... not PTSD but a general anxiety about not having my rent money to the point where I always must work, if not two jobs. Homelessness made me really messed up in the head.
PMmeyourdachshunds · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m highly motivated, and it’s because I feel like shit if I’m unproductive
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand them either, altho I am like that but I have so much reasons to be motivated.
Tom-Pendragon · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
simple this is my mindset
NegativeKarmaGuy69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
George Carlin famously said: Motivation is bullshit. ... Stock swindlers, serial killers, child molesters, religious fanatics, these people are highly motivated, highly motivated. Show me some lazy punk who's lying around all day watching game shows and stroking himself, and I'll show you someone who's not causing any trouble.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've overcome this slightly by putting myself in positions where if I don't do whatever I need to do my life will be ruined, or something close to it.
A_BOMB2012 · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate the feeling of being inferior to someone else, so I work to be better so that I’m not.
Runningraven513 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My oldest son, 11, is so highly motivated it is crazy. He is involved in so many things, by his choice, and still always wants to be doing more an learning more. All the time! He is so accomplished already and I know will only accomplish so much more. He did not get it from me and his dad. We are not completely lazy, but we for sure enjoy our Netflix binges and staying home, etc.
Its stresses me out. Don’t get me wrong, I love this about him, but at the same time I get so stressed out just watching him cause I couldn’t fathom wanting to do all the things he does, AND actually doing them. My father is an extremely motivated person and they are two peas in a pod. I am glad he has someone in our family that understands him fully. We encourage and support him as much as possible, but I can honestly say I will never understand the desire to do so much all the time.
I read an article once, I wish I would have saved it, but it basically talked about people being gifted in motivation as people are intellectually and academically and athletically gifted, etc. I felt like it really helped me understand and explain my child. He has a special gift that makes him excel at being motivated. Meanwhile I am eating chips in bed and to lazy to turn off tv when I cant find the remote.
Uilleam_Uallas · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A clear 'why' will do it.
Riksunraksu · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never got them either. I have ADD and since I got good medication I know understand them. It’s a combination of having energy that wants to be used and the ability to focus.
fuzzy9691 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I see it is not as a type of person but as one simple word; momentum.
Once you get started on absolutely anything. Think of the smallest task like turning off the TV. Done. Now brush your teeth. Done. Hmmm, let’s put a load of washing on. Sweet.
Guess what? Every time you complete something, you feel good. And each successive task keeps getting better, well, so long as the complexity of the task grows also.
So after you’ve done a few chores around the house, get the fuck out (not now, during COVID of course) and exercise. Nothing drastic, just walk a bit :)
Wow! Now you’re feeling good! Done something nice for your body. But remember, take it slow at the beginning. If you over exert yourself during these early stages you may wear yourself out because you’re not used to it. Then you’ll associate ‘doing things’ with a negative (painful) feeling.
Next week you walk a little further, then a bit more so on. Do this with everything in your life.
You have to keep the momentum though. That’s the key.
Once you skip a day or two and binge shit yourself at home like a miserable piece of crap. The freight train is stuck and you have to start the locomotion process ALL over again.
Just keep it going. The little things will eventually turn bigger. Just keep swimming.
Holy hell, I sound like an Amway salesman :(
But seriously, start small and keep the momentum going. You don’t have to join a gym, a stupid group or change yourself. Just go! Take out the trash! Feel amazing you did SOMETHING!
Now wash your hands.
Chaugen55 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was an interesting comment. I’m one of those people. And I’ve often wondered if there are people who think I’m “doing the most”, you know? But I’m really just trying to achieve my goals and improve every single day.
I’m so curious to hear why highly motivated people are difficult to understand? I won’t take anything personally, but I’d really like to understand your perspective a little better. Would you mind sharing your thoughts?
thegeek01 · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's natural to you. There's no switch to turn on. You ARE the machine, and doing what you want to do is part of you. For me, there's a machine I need to switch on, then crank till it works, and I'm worried the entire time if it's going to break down.
thepesterman · 1 points · Posted at 09:21:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is probably something that you are highly motivated to do like gaming or something buts it's less highly regarded by society as something that's worth while doing.
nofearspeed82 · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing motivates you more to get stuff done then when you have 2-3 kids and there’s quiet and nap time. I can barely sit down and watch tv or a movie because I feel I’m wasting my time.
Now if it’s the kids bedtime at night and the wife is asleep, I can stay up all night and do it to just unwind
oakwood1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inspiration
FlyingAlephants · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:35 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would love to hire people based on the comments they make here! It’s a single most important thing I can know about someone to help me make a decision if to hire or not.
It’s not just motivation, but also how some people who are not motivated but they have a great understanding of things. Which is incredibly powerful as well.
a-r-c · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's easy
doesn't matter how I spend my time, so might as well spend it in a worthwhile way
who cares if i'm tired or it's hard? everything is tiring and hard, it's all the fucking same except for the results
anotherouchtoday · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm incredibly interested in your answer. I've always seen it as my biggest disadvantage.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren’t motivated, they’re disciplined. It’s a skill everyone can learn.
TinyClick · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use to be at uni. It's like I had a target to complete and absolutely smash. Now, I'm like wtf am I doing? Went to the best area (career terms) and left because I wasn't happy. Now I'm totally lost and have nothing to achieve!!
LaughingHyena12 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t like to lose. That’s my motivation.
jhunt42 · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know I used to be highly motivated and my life was a lot worse. Now I'm a lot happier and even I don't understand why people put themselves through hell to get stuff done. In some cases I think it's pathological, like people internalising their parents pushing them too hard. Now I just wanna chill and play video games. So much better.
angry_snek · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or energetic people. I have no clue where those people get their energy from.
RoyalPeacock19 · 0 points · Posted at 18:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I struggle to understand not just them, but how they even exist.
spenrose22 · 0 points · Posted at 20:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See I’m odd. I’m lazy and love sitting around doing nothing but it’s been engrained in me from my family that I can’t fail. Just high expectations, which I have now put on myself because I know I’m capable. So I slack off and then when the time comes I’m impulsed to work my ass off to get everything done and I can’t stop and get major anxiety til I do.
My_G_Alt · 0 points · Posted at 20:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Years and years of incremental progress and discipline my friend.
Air1Fire · 0 points · Posted at 00:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn't exist. They all fake it. Every time you see someone being good at something you can safely assume they are totally faking it and you will be right practically every time.
The same thing goes for being happy, being good at studying, having goals in life, flirting and dating, running a business, remaining calm in a tough situation, and so on.
_Floydian · 0 points · Posted at 04:23:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I am qualified to answer this because I am highly self motivated person and whoever has talked to me has said that they feel like getting top shit done.
I am driven by a cause. A cause to create an impact. What is it that doesn't matter.
What matters is that it keeps me going. Every moment of every day.
And even in those dark dull days, I feel like doing something which can help others (basically Oxytocin) helps me back on my feet and infact turns a bad day into a good one.
Find you WHY. Find your purpose. Find the cause.
I promise you that you'll no longer procastinate.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What else are you gonna do?
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 21:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Admit that i am a highly motivated person. I can not wrap my head around people who aren't. Just do it, dude. Just do it.
[deleted] · 1014 points · Posted at 13:22:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. I understand the basics, but when it starts getting more technical I get lost.
buggs_bunnee · 48 points · Posted at 14:08:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you please provide an example of what you understand and what you don't? Genuinely curious.
hades_the_wise · 69 points · Posted at 14:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP but I'll try. I understand gravity and that what goes up must come down, but I genuinely don't understand quarks and black holes and pretty much anything past high school level "we can demonstrate this in a classroom setting with household materials" physics.
[deleted] · 48 points · Posted at 19:06:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought'd you'd say friction or air resistance or something. Black holes and quarks are very complex. It's completely fine to not get it, hell, I sure don't.
hades_the_wise · 15 points · Posted at 20:16:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It probably helps that I never studied physics beyond 9th grade of high school, so I've never tried to learn the math side of it, and my exposure to the wiggidy and wild stuff (quarks, etc) comes from YouTube videos that probably explain it very poorly. But yeah, all of the math in physics is just greek when I look at it.
DuckieRampage · 13 points · Posted at 02:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair with black holes there is not too much to know. All you gotta understand really is that there is a large amount of mass in a singular point pulling things in. It's like a planet pulling in objects but instead of a full sized planet you got a really small dot.
buggs_bunnee · 69 points · Posted at 15:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see. Concepts that we can't visualise in mind are often much harder to understand and it's totally normal.
Black Holes and Quarks are very advance level concepts though if you go into their mathematics.
WonkyTelescope · 9 points · Posted at 20:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Quarks are no weirder than any other particle. Particles are small entities that have certain properties which give them certain tendencies.
Electrons, which most people are familiar with, have a property called charge and a tendency to be attracted or repulsed by other entities with the property of charge. Electrons have other properties too which give them other tendencies; but those properties aren't as relevant on the scales we are familiar with. Properties that show up in the macro world are generally more familiar to us. Mass, charge, these properties can exist for large objects so we see them all the time. Spin, color charge (not associated with the visual phenomena of color) are properties that don't show up on large scales because when you collect a large number of particles together the properties average out to zero (just like you can have a bunch of positive and negative charges average out to 0 net charge).
Quarks have many properties, mass, electric charge, color charge, spin, etc and these properties taken together give them the tendency to group together into composite entities we call protons and neutrons.
LemonLimeNinja · 2 points · Posted at 02:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quarks group together solely because of the colour charge, not anything else
Miyelsh · 3 points · Posted at 22:14:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just to prod your brain, what comes up doesn't necessarily come down. Even shot straight up, something launched at the escape velocity of a planetary body will never stop moving away from wherever it was shot from.
hades_the_wise · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I get that. That's how we get stuff to the moon and all, and we get satellites up there and into orbit by getting them to the very edge of gravity and all that. It's the wiggity genius-level "this is nothing like the algebra I know and love" math behind those concepts where I get absolutely hopelessly lost.
IrvingIV · 3 points · Posted at 00:15:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can explain black holes with a really dumb metaphor.
Imagine a really big sheet of paper.
Paper can bend, paper can stretch, but only so much.
Something like the earth is like a. . . pea, sitting on the paper, the sun is like a tennis ball, it bends it more, stuff will move towards it.
A black hole is like if you just dropped a Bowling ball from 10 feet above the paper, everything nearby is falling into that cone of death, and it's never coming out.
CyberneticWhale · 2 points · Posted at 04:42:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Right, so for quarks, can't really help you there, but black holes, I can try to explain.
So for a given celestial body, at a given radius (for simplicity's sake, let's say it's surface), it has an escape velocity, being a necessary velocity in order to get far enough away from the body such that you won't get pulled back into it. This value is dependent only on the radius (distance) from the center of mass, and the mass of the body. (Mass of the object leaving doesn't come into play beyond that due to inertia, it's harder to get a heavier object to the required speed.)
For black holes, they basically just have so much mass, that once you get close enough, that escape velocity is higher than the speed of light. Nothing can go faster than that because reasons I guess, so nothing can escape once it gets that close (known as passing the event horizon).
So how does that much mass get in one place? In summary, when stars die, depending on how much mass they have, different stuff happens. Throughout a star's existence, they're "burning" fuel (fusing hydrogen and other elements) to counteract the force of its own gravity, which unchecked would make it collapse in on itself. When it runs out of fuel, its own gravity pulls all that mass together until the elements don't want to get any closer because electrons repel each other (the whole thing where you never actually touch anything because it's just the electrons pushing each other away). This is where white dwarfs come from.
But here's the thing. When stars get really big, rather than just collapsing in on themselves, there's a whole chain reaction that results in the star exploding, expelling a whole bunch of material outward. But the thing is, due to the whole thing where every action has an equal and opposite reaction, the material at the center of the explosion gets pushed really hard into itself (in addition to the gravitational force). At this point, the electrons just go "fuck this, I'm giving up" and the atoms get pushed even closer together until eventually, they get so close, the neutrons of the atoms are pushing hard enough to counteract gravity. When this happens, you get a neutron star, which are even denser than a white dwarf. They also spin really fast and shoot lasers.
Now as dense as neutron stars are, they're still not quite to the point of being a black hole. For that, it needs a star with even more mass. The same thing happens with the star running out of fuel, and the chain reaction happening (though in these cases, it's possible not as much material explodes out) except now, that dense core is able to overcome the force of the neutrons in the atoms, and everything collapses even further down, at which point... We don't really know... We're left with a singularity that forms a black hole, but we can't really tell the specifics on account of the fact that nothing can escape it. What we do know is just that there's an absolute shit ton of mass in a really tiny area, which makes it possible for there to be a distance from it where the escape velocity exceeds the speed of light.
Pottsy91 · 1 points · Posted at 02:26:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Iv a masters of science and I don’t understand quarks / black holes .
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:00:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah well ill take a stab at the whole gravity thing. In advance I apologize to any proper physicists, since there might be some shortcuts and incorrect assumptions. So lets say existence is just a fuckhuge sheet of lycra. Its perfectly flat, and equally stretchy at every point; this can be sorta considered our spacetime. Any time anything with mass rests on the lycra, it makes a depression in it, as well as a bunch of the fabric sloping downwards. When you sit on this lycra, youll notice you form a little well, and any objects that you throw away will roll back to you; you'd need to whip it quite hard for anything to truly stay away from you. With a black hole, well it weighs so much in such a tiny space that it stretches the lycra to infinity, or if you want to stay true to the qualities of fabric, stretches it a ton and punches a hole at the bottom.
TheGlassCat · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I stopped making progress when we were learning the different formulas for inertia amd momentum. To me they are the same thing with different frames of reference.
dylpickle91 · 12 points · Posted at 20:51:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well momentum is a quantifiable property of moving objects, and it can be transferred between objects such as energy. Inertia is more an object's resistance to change, it can't be transferred and is specific to certain objects.
TheGlassCat · 0 points · Posted at 21:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a moving object collides with a stationary object, why can't we say inertia was transfered in the opposite direction?
How do we know which object is moving? It depends on our frame of reference. We can adjust our frame of reference so it appears either, or both objects are moving! In that last case there is no inertia at all.
In each of the three scenarios the objects' actions relative to each other is the same. So why do we have different formulas to describe each object's tendency to keep doing what it's doing until perturbed?
Emperors_Golden_Boy · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the way I see it, momentum is the quantity of movement - the more mass an object has moving at a given speed/the larger its speed, the more movement there is. we can calculate this total movement.
so if we observe from the point of the location of a light object that a large object is moving towards, we see that it will get hit with a lot of movement, and that this momentum will be conserved, so our light object will now start moving at almost the speed of the big one.
if we look from the point of view of the big object we see it slow down a little bit when it hits.
Both of these objects have inertia, it is simply their tendency to keep doing what they're doing - how this works out is momentum
polska0101 · 2 points · Posted at 05:15:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP either. I was killing it when we started on 2 dimensional problems. Once the 3rd dimension came in I was a goner.
buggs_bunnee · 1 points · Posted at 09:50:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It happens. Spherical and Cylindrical coordinate systems are even more difficult to imagine and work out.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:59:23 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP. But the tesseract from Interstellar. What even is it? 4th dimension?
Globglogabgalab · 18 points · Posted at 19:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why is physics the way it is? Why isn't light faster or slower, than it is? Everything is just because
ei283 · 10 points · Posted at 01:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A psychiatrist will tell you your brain acts the way it does because of biology. A biologist will tell you living things act the way they do because of chemistry. A chemist will tell you chemicals do the things they do because of physics. A physicist will... well, that's just the way it is.
Einstein was the one who discovered that, if the speed of light was constant, hey, that would explain why mercury moves the way it does, and hey that would explain a lot of things let me write this down.
[EDIT: Stated in a response comment below, Einstein was not religious.]
Einstein was religious, perhaps turning to a divine reason behind the way our universe behaves. But really, religion is just another way of saying "I cannot give a concrete answer as to why the things are the way they are; it is divine, in that it is above my understanding."
[Entirely my speculative stream of consciousness. Please correct any outright false information]
DostThowEvenLift2 · 2 points · Posted at 15:32:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einstein was no religious. He did say "God does not play dice to the universe", but in a future correspondence, he clarified that he is not religious. He made it clear that the beauty he sees in the universe is only in its mechanics. We are left to assume that the "god" in that quote is referring to the fundamental properties of our universe.
Africa-Unite · 2 points · Posted at 16:27:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't say he was not religious per se. Moreso that he was not conventionally religious, or rather, had a philisophic approach to the Divine vs. a more dogmatic and canonical one.
source
ei283 · 1 points · Posted at 15:34:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, thanks for clarifying!
lightacrossspace · 1 points · Posted at 16:25:40 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, I always thaught I never relly got physics beceause I could not go through the mecanics of it in the same logic than with any other subject. you explanation shows me how I've been looking at it wrong. I feel so much lighter, it's been bugging me since fifteen years, thinking I was really stupid for not getting it!
WonkyTelescope · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out the anthrophic principle
jigglebastard · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure with relativity you can show that the speed of light has to be what it is but don't ask me how
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s the big question
saturnv11 · 8 points · Posted at 20:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here.
Source: Have physics degree
bradfs14 · 5 points · Posted at 03:38:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It’s simple, really:
ℒ = −¼F2 + iψ̄D̸ψ + ψ̄φψ + hc + |Dφ|2 − V(φ)
That’s all there is to it!
Definitely not though. There’s a lot more.
manookings · 4 points · Posted at 06:20:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physicists are the worst at explaining Physics. At university you can take a basic physics coarse from the physics department and it will make zero sense. Take a basic physics class from say the engineering department and you will likely end up understanding that basic material better than the physicists.
Its like they have an unwritten agreement to try and one up each other on how complicated they can make things
FirstWiseWarrior · 8 points · Posted at 18:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's two major division of physics, newtonian and quantum.
Newtonian generally easy to understand, but quantum is the one i never get it.
cranomort · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they're so tiny.
kahlzun · 0 points · Posted at 00:37:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noone truly, intuitively understands quantum physics. It is truly weird and does not behave in a sensible way.
The best understanding I have is that at the tiny scale we're discussing, reality becomes "fuzzy" and you can't precisely nail down certain aspects of objects as precisely as you can in normal scale
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like somebody emptied out the ball pit with a big air blower and now all the balls are zooming around the universe and sometimes they bounce off of each other and sometimes they stick together because of the the pee and if enough of them stick together don't get near you'll get stuck too.
And you can't take apart the balls except by smashing them and then you find out that the bits that come out immediately stick back together to make other balls that are sometimes different colors.
BigMac-extra-sauce · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a great book to help explain particle physics using LEGO blocks
https://books.google.co.nz/books/about/Particle_Physics_Brick_by_Brick.html?id=9WhCDgAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&source=kp_read_button&redir_esc=y
BalBaroy · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. I flat out cheated in college using a notecard taped to the back of the calculator during tests. Was a Bio major so had to take two classes of it. Ugggghhhhhhh...
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:48:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too, I think I understand basic theory, but when I try to do exercises, applications and things like that I struggle a lot
YellowishWhite · 4 points · Posted at 20:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately a lot of understanding physics is getting so comfortable with the math that it feels as intuitive as working with the concepts directly.
Getting to that level of comfort mostly involves a shit ton of practice, so it's pretty rough.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it starts getting more technical it is trying to understand more basic things. That's a beautiful irony about it.
weatherseed · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I thought I understood physics when I was younger. I was a college kid with an ego. My father, who has degrees in it, who worked at Fermi and Bell Labs, asked me to read something so I could test my abilities. The bastard handed me a book about calculating the spin of black holes.
I did not know physics.
stygger · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well even if you learned more there would still be another level that you wouldn't understand, so you share this with both nobel prize winners and 12 year olds! :P
daveinmd13 · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:15 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t feel bad. It ramps up to the point where no one understands it.
WhenAllElseFail · 4880 points · Posted at 13:20:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, how do they work
[deleted] · 7742 points · Posted at 13:26:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha electrons go brrrr
drlqnr · 1723 points · Posted at 15:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DukeofVermont · 18 points · Posted at 21:34:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
JSTOR:The Souls of Magnets
pound_sterling · 6 points · Posted at 09:44:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jedis of the Old Republic
refreshing_username · 354 points · Posted at 14:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this answer.
trashcraftt · 26 points · Posted at 21:02:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noooooooo you have to give detailed explanations!!! Physics are hard!!! noooooooo
BassBeerNBabes · 12 points · Posted at 23:44:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A really basic eli5 is that electrons have a direction. When more than one is in the same direction, there's a dipole created. A magnet is a piece of metal that has the majority of its electrons in the same direction.
[deleted] · 40 points · Posted at 20:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, you can’t just connect two metals! * angrily cries *
poopellar · 47 points · Posted at 14:51:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Protons go hrrrr
morkengork · 31 points · Posted at 16:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain go drrrrr
inb4 Amigara
MrMastodon · 26 points · Posted at 16:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think you can inb4 your own comment.
Those are the rules.
Futuristocracy · 45 points · Posted at 18:18:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's probably going to be a time when the "brrrr" meme gets old and tired, but that time is not now! 😄
Vicuuu · 11 points · Posted at 21:27:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, money printer go brrrrrr.
WombatZeppelin · 10 points · Posted at 19:53:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is... accurate
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Haha electrons go brrrr"
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 18:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best answer on the thread. Love it
crowkk · 9 points · Posted at 04:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, in all seriousness I was going to say that. It's literally how it works.
Electrons are there, they move they go pew pew and brrr brrr and the fields go like bzzzzz
Hertz-Dont-It · 6 points · Posted at 20:42:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feds money printer go brrrrrr
Mil3High · 3 points · Posted at 21:07:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best answer to this question I have ever seen.
ChadFlexxington · 3 points · Posted at 22:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmfao you bastard
thebiggestleaf · 3 points · Posted at 01:15:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When an old meme meets a new one. The circle of life is complete.
Those_Good_Vibes · 3 points · Posted at 01:22:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure why but this one made me laugh the hardest in this entire post.
somekid789 · 3 points · Posted at 06:38:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
when this comment has more upvotes then the OG
Vessera · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That got a good laugh out of me, thank you.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha you're welcome.
Aims_a · 2 points · Posted at 06:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha.
Zalinithia · 2 points · Posted at 14:06:08 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn it take my fucking upvote.
UltraHawk_DnB · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nice
mtbarron · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's cool.
cronicpainboy · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No that j pows 💴printer
trynaeat · -36 points · Posted at 19:20:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people actually think this meme format is funny
trydf2 · 17 points · Posted at 20:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean everyone has their own humor, but i think the sheer stupidity of the format is what gets most. Its just braindead but also works really well
WonkyTelescope · 11 points · Posted at 20:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like every meme, it's because it's a humorous and not entirely wrong observation.
SMF67 · 2 points · Posted at 22:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people think it's not funny?
[deleted] · 150 points · Posted at 14:03:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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hk089911 · 18 points · Posted at 14:17:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/explainlikeimfive
Babystickman · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/actuallyexplainedlikeim5
ShiaLaMoose · 5 points · Posted at 19:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Microscopic Jedis
Insane-Paradox · 3 points · Posted at 22:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
midichlorians
AuthorizedVehicle · 42 points · Posted at 17:36:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetic discussion with Prof. Feynman
BlazeOrangeDeer · 7 points · Posted at 02:40:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrons are magnets, and sometimes a bunch of them line up the same way to make a bigger magnet. A magnet is a thing that interacts with the magnetic field, so that the field energy is lowest when it makes that loopy shape going from one end of the magnet to the other. Magnets attract because the magnets being closer allows the field energy to get even lower as the influence from each magnet overlaps.
Why do things seek lower energy (more specifically, why is there an action principle)? Why do electrons and magnetic fields exist and why do they interact the way they do? Nobody knows, but it's insane that the basic rules of known reality have been condensed down to a few dozen fields and interactions.
theArtOfProgramming · 5 points · Posted at 20:31:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best explanation ever. I saw this the first time before a lecture on magnets in physics and it all clicked at once.
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ironiclegacy · 14 points · Posted at 21:01:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more of a problem that science might ultimately be limited to only "how" questions, I think. How this, how that. There are "why" questions that are answered in science, but if you keep asking why you'll get to concepts and ideas that just cannot be answered now because we just don't know. Like why does an electron have this specific charge? We don't know, it just does.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 2 points · Posted at 05:06:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Why" and "how" have the same answers in science. Why does it do that? Because this happened before and this is the mechanism that led to the current result.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ExdigguserPies · 4 points · Posted at 21:17:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I admit I don't know. I also don't know why we're here at all. Why is the universe here? It makes no sense. As long as we're here there might as well be magnetism and gravity and EM waves and the speed of light...
Chakasicle · 5 points · Posted at 22:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speed of light exists because that’s the speed that a wave has to go to keep producing itself. The moving magnetic wave makes a moving charged wave perpendicular to it and visa versa. If the wave moved slower then it would collapse on itself and if it moved faster then it would break itself. Simple way of putting it but it gets the gist across
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ReallyBadAtReddit · 9 points · Posted at 22:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think your replies are coming off as a little aggressive/condescending. What I think the other user is talking about is the point you mentioned where Feynman could explain how a train turns on a fixed axle but can't explain something like magnetism.
They mentioned how you can keep on asking "why" about anything and you'll hit a point where someone can't explain it. So saying that he can't explain magnetism or that he can explain the train problem just depends on how deep of an example you're satisfied with. For example, I can explain how a magnet works; if you put two magnets close together there is a force pulling them together or pushing them apart, depending on which way around they are. This obviously isn't a deep answer, but it's enough to let a child understand why their ear is being pinched when they out two magnets on either side. On the other hand, if I want to "completely" explain how the train maneuvers a curve, I'd have to explain how forces work on an atomic level and below, which I can't do.
I feel the same way, and essentially there became a point where I realized that I stopped caring about "why" for every question. I'm not a physicist, so I don't feel that I need more than a practical undestanding of physics. I think physicists are important because a deeper understanding of physics can let people find new practical ways to use that knowledge, but I curiosity has been satisfied by the amount that I already know.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Darkdiamondwolf · 6 points · Posted at 22:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yo dude no need to get insulting
ReallyBadAtReddit · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, I'm not mad I just don't need a deeper answer than what I have. I don't know really know if you're doing on purpose, but almost every sentence you write makes you sound like an asshole. You're coming off like you just want an excuse to fling insults at people, rather than trying to understand them—its irritating when I'm just trying to talk to you. I'm not angry about understanding things, and I'm not angry at you. Nobody said anything aggressive towards you... or I at least didn't mean to.
You're seeming to miss what the other guy was getting at about how vs. why; you can definitely know how an apple falls from a tree (with pretty good accuracy) but not know why. At some point after it stopped being important to me exactly why some things work, and much more important how they do. I'm not really even talking about Feynman—I know almost nothing about him. I was going on a tangent.
For example, I took some classes related to electric and magnetic fields and other nerd stuff I don't remember, so I do know some fundamanetal equations that describe how magnets work. The fact that I could use that to try designing something like a solenoid or electric motor without actually knowing why magnetic forces exist is the kind of reason I lost interest in an answer to the why question. It could literally be magic and it wouldn't make magnets more or less useful to me (unless it led to the discovery of some new uses).
ExdigguserPies · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CathedralEngine · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“And fucking magnets, how do they work?”
I remember when “Miracles” came out and people were all making fun of it on this message board I was on at the time, particularly the magnets line. Then someone posted the Feynman clip and it shut everyone up pretty quick. But, I still laugh and think about ICP every time I watch that clip.
AuthorizedVehicle · 11 points · Posted at 22:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The question is too broad, but there's no way for the interviewer to have known that. As Feynman said, it's an excellent question.
I don't think he dodged the question. He couldn't answer it, and he said so. He even explained why it couldn't be answered as asked. I didn't see his answer as being arrogant here. He might have been frustrated, because he couldn't phrase an answer that the interviewer could understand using everyday examples, but he was patient and took the time to explain why.
AgAero · 5 points · Posted at 01:12:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually not a good response to the question though. It's just a rant.
If the interviewer asks a poor question, lead them to a better one.
BlazeOrangeDeer · 3 points · Posted at 03:10:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Feynman's point was that magnets work the same way everything else does, but any explanation has to start somewhere. For the train wheels, you had no problem granting that wheels can exist, can retain their shape in a 3D space, and can push on the tracks, etc. Ultimately the only reason you are ok with this is because you've seen a lot of wheels.
A magnet uses the same basic rules the train does, and can be explained only if you grant that the universe can have rules that it follows. Finding which rules the universe actually follows can only be done by looking at our universe to see which ones work and which don't.
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marsmedia · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:11 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree. I think his long preamble sets up his answer perfectly. He explains the repulsion at two different levels.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:37:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a joke right? I watched 2 minutes of an arrogant prick get butt hurt over the mode of questioning
satan999666 · 79 points · Posted at 13:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water, fire, air, and dirt
Brown_Lighter · 6 points · Posted at 17:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey I love that band! /s
Calnus426 · 7 points · Posted at 15:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The avatar
Mudders_Milk_Man · 4 points · Posted at 16:42:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are u thuh Uhvatarr, Ong??
bdon225 · 12 points · Posted at 16:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets are my favorite hobby
OptimusCrimee · 16 points · Posted at 19:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Playing with magnets?
No, just magnets
LionKing729 · 2 points · Posted at 06:23:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m gunna put snowboarding
jagerben47 · 10 points · Posted at 19:32:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motherfuckin rainbows
Kingmenudo · 23 points · Posted at 19:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this a ICP joke?
Th4nat0s1s · 16 points · Posted at 21:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank god someone said it
Y_U_SO_MEME · 8 points · Posted at 01:49:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t want to talk to no scientist. Y’all mother fuckers lying and getting me pissed
baconinstitute · 8 points · Posted at 22:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, it has to be. I’m boggled by the number of people going “it’s quite simple really, here’s Richard Feynman talking about it. Very interesting topic”
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 11:50:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, someone uses a well known reference to answer a question like this, but also is curious about the answer! Wow!
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cup-o-farts · 7 points · Posted at 21:26:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how you got that out of his answer. What he's basically telling me in my mind is that there's an answer but you'll need to know more to understand it, and it's not an answer I can give in a 5 minute interview.
AgAero · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what he should have said.
cup-o-farts · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What should he have said in a 5 minute interview?
AgAero · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He should have either said exactly what you did ("there's a very detailed answer I could give you, but you need to know more before I can explain it to you and it will take some time"), or he should have answered the question with a question.
Lead the interviewer to a more precise question that can be answered in a satisfying way during a 5 minute interview. Hell, he could have even just explained a rudimentary Ising Model if it came down to it.
cup-o-farts · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He said exactly what I said only with more words and more explanation so he isn't just brushing the question off.
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cup-o-farts · 10 points · Posted at 21:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck are you going on about dude, I don't know shit about it but Feynman obviously does, and I'm willing to bet you'd be able to find him speaking on it if you looked hard enough but you sure as shit aren't going to get it in a 5 minute interview.
Your panties are seriously in a wad you may want to fix that, or maybe eat a Snickers.
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cup-o-farts · 4 points · Posted at 21:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're still making no sense dude why are you so bitter. Yes you're right we haven't figured out a unified theory, good for you your figured that out, you want a medal or something?
Science is never done. Give this guy a fucking Nobel prize.
Miyelsh · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Feynman got a nobel prize for his work in quantum electrodynamics, he sure as shit understands and can explain electromagnetism. In fact, he has a whole volume of lectures online that go into intimate detail about this very matter. I've read through them several times and everything is explained very well. It just takes a mathematical background that you can't assume an interviewer has.
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Miyelsh · 4 points · Posted at 22:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally nothing can be explained to satisfy you. That isn't a problem with physics or science, that's a problem with yourself.
watchthemdie · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah by his logic we don't know why anything happens...
Darkdiamondwolf · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think that all the people in this thread know how magnetism completly works works. Same about Feynman or any scientist something we do not know, but every one understands things on a cetain level and some people on a very High level
so high others would say they understand it or it is the highest availible level
I also don't think most people are angry nerds who claim to know things, but rather that this is your interpretation of their words. Unfortunatly your condesending tone makes you sound like the arrogant one but I don't know that I can only assume
so If you would please
take your douchey attitude and throw it away, so that you can become a better person or if I like probably you misinterpret things you couls try to find a better tone to convey your opinions so that you are listened to
Miyelsh · 3 points · Posted at 21:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are so hopelessly misunderstood in the matters of the video, I honestly could not even begin to try to correct you on it. Because you are driven to believe that you are right and everyone else is wrong, and there is nothing I can do to change that.
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maintain_improvement · 15 points · Posted at 18:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic everywhere in this bitch and you don’t even know it.
Runerain · 6 points · Posted at 19:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miracles
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GyVx28R9-s
ninjadude1992 · 7 points · Posted at 21:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ICP
Obokan · 2 points · Posted at 21:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really like Satellite tho ngl
sucuIantj · 14 points · Posted at 17:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just talk to a scientist
GSP_4_PM · 29 points · Posted at 18:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y'all motherfuckers lyin, and gettin me pissed.
DukePPUk · 12 points · Posted at 18:44:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of the confusion here is that some of our ideas about magnets and magnetism simply aren't true. For example, magnets don't have "poles" in the sense we normally think of them, and the different ends aren't really attracted to each other.
Magnetism is fundamentally different to most of the forces or interactions we deal with. Mostly things push or pull stuff. You line the two things up, and they either get closer, get further away, or stay where they are.
But magnetism is generally a twisting effect. You put two things next to each other and they'll twist around so their magnetic fields line up.
One way of explaining that is viewing magnetic fields and magnetism not as an effect of its own, but as the effect of a changing electric field (with corrections for special relativity).
Magnetism is weird, and requires a lot of maths (and a bit of quantum mechanics) to understand properly, but it does all work out.
SatoshiUSA · 5 points · Posted at 21:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I don't wanna talk to no scientist! All you motherfuckers lying and getting me pissed!
Striker_Rokkuhato · 8 points · Posted at 18:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic everywhere in this bitch
Chive_on_thyme · 8 points · Posted at 19:38:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am sick of scientists, lying about shit and making me pissed
stairs55 · 3 points · Posted at 17:39:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/hFAOXdXZ5TM
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here goes Richard Feynman himself
https://youtu.be/MO0r930Sn_8
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tyrmidden · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn dude, you sure have a raging hate boner for Feynman.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was he smarter than everybody?
yahnne954 · 8 points · Posted at 15:32:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all around you, you don't even know it! - The commercial
raemh99 · 9 points · Posted at 17:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're a miracle, nobody knows how they work
Pantelima · 7 points · Posted at 14:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic
Knute5 · 3 points · Posted at 14:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love. Magnets and Subarus.
solemnversifier · 3 points · Posted at 17:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MAGNETS BITCH!!
iampizzaprincess · 3 points · Posted at 19:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up the Meissner Effect. Coolest shit ever. (Related to magnets)
FirstWizardDaniel · 3 points · Posted at 22:05:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesús christ. Just when I thought magnets couldn't get any weirder.
Link Wiki Video of Meissner Effect for those interested.
everlast1ng_cs · 3 points · Posted at 21:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I don't wanna talk to a scientist
khayy · 3 points · Posted at 23:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
miracles
Starfireaw11 · 3 points · Posted at 00:01:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It must be a miracle.
huiledesoja · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There won't be a Reddit comment that will make you understand magnets in two phrases without you having additionnal questions. If you have time, read a scientific article or a one of the free MIT courses available.
First step would be the first result from Google https://science.howstuffworks.com/magnet.htm
baconinstitute · 2 points · Posted at 22:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a joke based off a popular Insane Clown Posse song.
Jawahhh · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Took a college physics course. My professor said something along the lines of this:
“Basically, we know relatively what happens... but have no idea why.”
This is a man who has published dozens of peer reviewed papers and wrote a textbook on quantum physics...
DemonicEntity · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woop woop
CoolnessEludesMe · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, I know a little bit about this. It's because some molecules are polar.
Water, for instance. It's made of one big oxygen atom and two little hydrogen atoms, but the thing is, the two hydrogen atoms are attached to the same side of the oxygen atom. That means that the electrons of the molecule tend to hang out more on the side where the hydrogens are, which makes that side a little more "negative" and the other side more "positive", which means the molecule is polar.
Now, water can't be magnetic because all the molecules in a glass of water are free to roll around and point in all various directions, but a solid made of polar molecules can be magnetic if the molecules are predominantly lined up with the negative ends pointed in the same direction.
Since electricity and magnetism are basically two ways of looking at the same phenomenon, if a thing is electrically polar, it will have a magnetic field.
kellyannestellall · 2 points · Posted at 02:49:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets Bitch!
Vaelocke · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why do chicks like them so much?
Male_strom · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fed a fish to a pelican at Frisco bay.... he tried to eat my cell phone......he ran away!
Joe_Schmo_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn... didnt scroll enough to see this and posted the same thing!
End_thy_self · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk but I can still play BF4 and hardline at the same time
ScreamingChildren69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You put your dick into them. Thats how you fuck them.
Or if youre a woman you put them in your... Bag...
Taylor7500 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shit lines up and makes things attract to it.
Believe me, you don't want to go down the rabbit hole deeper than that.
FirstWizardDaniel · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. So much this. It's literally black magic to me. It's like real life super hero stuff. I get HOW a magnetic field is created. What confuses me is this invisible force that when it meets is opposite it repels it... Not visually, magically.
I was obsessed with magnets when I was younger and tried all sorts of things with them. To this day they baffle me. Even putting a magnet on the fridge brings my mind back to thinking "It's really sticking there because of some invisible force."
AmIMe-IAm · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black magic
poinkypoinker · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrons spin one way, you get north. Spin other way you get south.
Webfarer · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think about it you’ll realize magnets are not special. How does light work? Or heat, or gravity, or electricity, or .... the list goes on and on. Next step is to study physics and realize that you can model them using a handful of universal laws. That’s the closest humanity has gotten to explaining how magnets work. And then you are left with the question “how the fuck do magnets work?”
eatMYcookieCRUMBS · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miracles happen every day
niqqaw0t · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
just put it through the hole in the ring shaped ones
experiment636 · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Juggalo
lukemr99999 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a joke here, but I can't decide whether sex hormones or genitals should be the punchline. Hormones are more accurate, but genitals are funnier.
Sloppy_Waffler · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice ICP reference lol.
romknightyt · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's with islands, get more land! What's with deserts? Get less sand!
seemtobedead · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t wanna talk to no scientist. Y’all mothafuckas lyin’, and gettin’ me pissed.
magnets_are_strange · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrons
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:06:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Negative and positive want go equal but trapped in metal make move
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:06:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Short answer: metal crystals that got all their electrons mushed into convenient shapes.
Shorter answer: shrugs in science
Fleming1924 · 1 points · Posted at 10:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
M a g n e t s
taxidermy_x · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking rainbows.
And all ya'll scientists are making pissed
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one actually knows this. Not even the best scientists fully understand it - and the interesting thing is that for all intents and purposes they are not being pulled together but being pushed together (there's a small but important difference to this). Gravity too - why?
pricelessbrew · 0 points · Posted at 22:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, nobody knows. We how they behave, and what they do, but don't really know how they do what they do.
Stan-It · 0 points · Posted at 22:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't worry, even Richard Feynman has no idea xD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MO0r930Sn_8
goodworklou · 0 points · Posted at 00:23:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Richard Feynman gives a great explanation that basically comes down to "they just do", but in a way that helps explain why that's a reasonable answer–especially for us magnet-naïve.
brawnandbrain · 0 points · Posted at 01:13:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, you have to watch this old video called “River of Magnetism” on YouTube. I’m a 90 year old at heart so I don’t know how to post a link, but just trust me. Shit will blow your mind.
JimmyPeteSlicknNeat · 0 points · Posted at 02:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit. There it is. The comment I didn't know I was looking for.
guider418 · 0 points · Posted at 02:49:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beats me, I don't even know how regular magnets work
SneakyThrowawaySnek · 0 points · Posted at 03:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ask the Mormons
errantlime · 0 points · Posted at 06:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The simple answer being that it is a relativistic electron effect, not wanting to get deep into quantum mechanics I won't go past electrons. Essentially electrons have a sort of spin and location in an atom. These two will determine how an atom behaves magnetically. Magnetic force is perpendicular to the direction of velocity and 90 degrees to the electric field. The interaction between movement and field create a relativistic effect in all electrons. Stack a bunch of electrons on one side of an atom with the same spin and it becomes "magnetized". Put a bunch of those together into a bar and you get a bar magnet.
Some of this may be outdated or wrong, this is what I picked up from my general relativity professor and electrodynamics.
Magnetic: M Electric Field:E VELOCITY: V
V
^
I
I
E - - - - > M
Note: The electric field is coming out of the page.
cbeiser · -1 points · Posted at 18:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. How positively and negatively charged elements line up when making up chemicals (I think).
RepressedOnism · 23228 points · Posted at 14:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why I hate going to sleep and also hate waking up
Edit: I know people hate edits but I didn't think this would murder my inbox and I don't have time to reply to every single person. So...
I'm not depressed. I used to be, for several years. But a few years ago I got better (didn't just happen overnight obviously but I'm not gonna go into detail about it here). I'm much happier now and enjoy life a lot more, but I still hate my sleep schedule. I keep trying to get it somewhat normal, but it keeps getting fucked up.
Maybe anxiety is a part of it, but I doubt that is the sole reason.
I don't hate change, for the most part. It depends on the change but I don't think that applies here.
I'm not a toddler (kinda wish I was though sometimes).
I've tried using melatonin and other sleep aids, sometimes it works but not always.
Doesn't matter how early I go to bed, I will lay in bed for 6 hours and not be able to go to sleep until 7 in the morning.
I've had this problem for almost a couple decades now and in multiple settings (when I was in high school, when I had a full time job, and now that I'm going back to school and have a part time job).
I just think it's very nuanced and there are multiple factors that contribute to it. I'd like to have a sleep study done, but it's so difficult to find the time to do so right now.
ohhhcomeeeooon · 2912 points · Posted at 20:15:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same problem.
abdokeko · 1897 points · Posted at 21:03:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I admire the silence and calmness of night, just hate day time and noise
------OopsITripped · 114 points · Posted at 21:42:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you wash your hands first before you took the words right out of my mouth?
abdokeko · 31 points · Posted at 21:45:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oops I forgot
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newenglandredshirt · 9 points · Posted at 22:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great... It's a computer virus now...
DirtyBendavitz · 3 points · Posted at 22:58:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I for one welcome our new overlord
TulioAndMiguelMPG · 0 points · Posted at 03:40:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corona spreads people?
Blue_Lotus_Flowers · 3 points · Posted at 23:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I've heard worse pickup lines.
------OopsITripped · 3 points · Posted at 23:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if it makes it any better... you don’t have to wash your hands before you put them in my mouth.
rqfii · 22 points · Posted at 21:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
abdokeko · 16 points · Posted at 21:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relaxing at night 🙃
dobby123321 · 20 points · Posted at 22:24:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a dream a long time ago where our society found it most beneficial for half to work/be active during the day and the other half a night. It doubled our technology and medical sciences but it was also just a dream ...
crazyhobbitz · 6 points · Posted at 02:55:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the book "rant" by Chuck palahnuik. It's about this exactly lol
EclecticTastes23 · 6 points · Posted at 00:46:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ummm...I had the same dream! There were two towns separated by night and day, aptly named “Nighttown” and “Daytown” and the people were separated and had separate suns and moons and shit, but every once in a while someone would travel to the other opposite end either to never come back or acclimate to their new routines. Then I woke up and it was already dark.
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:29:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feels like a movie
Snarp_ · 18 points · Posted at 22:09:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cries in tinnitus
Computers-XD · 4 points · Posted at 00:18:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tit anus?
Jazminna · 28 points · Posted at 21:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I relate to this so much. I used to pull all nighters for Uni & I know a big part of it was because I actually love the peace of night
abdokeko · 10 points · Posted at 22:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as I remember, the most peacful night I had, was at the beach, but never tried camping
NinjasAreCoolIGuess · 8 points · Posted at 22:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go camping, especially near a river!
ods_stranger · 4 points · Posted at 22:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get ready to pee a lot!
Conmodsarepaid · 4 points · Posted at 22:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:27:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might need new friends to do that lol
Flimsy_Thesis · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Camp, my friend. Do a three day weekend and that second and third morning in a quiet campground approaches nirvana.
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:30:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it okay to camp solo? I dont know anyone interested in camping for 3 days
Flimsy_Thesis · 2 points · Posted at 09:37:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve done it a few times, sure. I wouldn’t necessarily recommend solo backpacking right off the bat - you really need to hone your skills and get your head right before taking on that kind of situation - but staying in a campground in a state or national park with facilities and other campers not too far off is totally doable. My personal favorite middle ground is the open camping that most state forests let you do off the main fire roads. Only the occasional local traffic passes by and you can get long periods of unbroken silence while still being off a main road and close( by car) to a bathroom if you really need it.
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:53:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont think I will enjoy it alone... Music and thought that's all I will do. Plus I got harmonica I need to improve my skills on it lol. But for me, am tech guy I don't know if disconnecting from the world gonna be easy.. I easily disconnect from people but not the internet 😂💔 At my place now you either camp in desert near to the highway for single night or go camp in rent tents nearby to the sea which is place made for camping with all things u might need available,
rythmic_chariot · 8 points · Posted at 22:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me its because I'll have to work once I wake up, and I can't work if I sleep. I waste my entire day thinking when should I start working
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At this situation u gotta get it done asap
Bramala · 12 points · Posted at 21:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleep is where it's peaceful for me and I'm usually untroubled by much of anything there. Rarely even do things that happen during the day invade my sleep. While I apologize in advance for seeming to humble brag, if there's one thing I can do and do well, it's sleep. I severely dislike having to wake up and wonder what the world is going to throw at me today.
abdokeko · 6 points · Posted at 21:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you sleep you just skip the peacful time, did you try sleeping during day time? Not healthy but I love it when am able to. Literally everything invade my sleep 😔
Bramala · 3 points · Posted at 23:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I may not be specifically aware of being at peace while sleeping, but I know it when I wake up and nothing bothers me for a little while because I experienced it. I can and have slept during the day but I'm actually not a fan of it. The world (at least where I am) slows down at night, and when night comes and the night animals come out and make their noises, it's the best time of day to me.
Edit: I a word
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noise at night, it's an art
MiKirky · 7 points · Posted at 21:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You a vampire?
abdokeko · 9 points · Posted at 21:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe, whenever am alone i prefer keeping the lights off unless I really need it.
Blue_Lotus_Flowers · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. I also work third shift and have my bedroom window blacked out, so maybe I am a vampire.
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:37:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the window tip
NinjasAreCoolIGuess · 4 points · Posted at 22:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Night time is the only time I can work. But I am forced to do it during the day, not getting much done and leaving me tired when I can focus.
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I like the lack of people
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abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:36:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did it gose?
Divine-Sea-Manatee · 7 points · Posted at 22:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you wake up early enough, the silence and calmness is 10x better and you get to watch the world wake up. I always find early morning a lot less sinister compared to night time.
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:28:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How about watching the world sleep and wake up
donkeykongcrusha · 3 points · Posted at 23:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its ironic. I hate people but I love parties.
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol.. I love music.
pra_teek · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not enough people understand this, I prefer night and alone time. My relatives get worried that I am either depressed or will get depressed.
Kreded · 3 points · Posted at 00:12:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
100%, and I am much more productive because of that
Ninanajno · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
insert comment about tinnitus here
teriyakigirl · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes this is why I like nights too!!! The quiet. I dislike talking and interacting with other people :/
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:38:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont mind to have a quiet understanding person beside me during the night
teriyakigirl · 2 points · Posted at 14:21:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awh yeah that is my ideal relationship. Still haven't found it. I've confused a lot of exes with my silence sometimes, it's hard for some people to understand that not everyone likes to talk
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hopefully u will find it soon and understand each other from the beginning. For me.. they love to talk allooot or want me to talk allooot.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:28:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, you like teriyaki?
teriyakigirl · 2 points · Posted at 14:22:14 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love it, hahaha.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:43:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice :P
The intent was more of a joke question because you said you don't like interacting haha.
Computers-XD · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So much for that when a mosquito flies into your left ear at 4 in the morning.
gumbywasright · 2 points · Posted at 00:29:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am the exact opposite. Silence puts me on edge while noise puts me at ease.
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand that, how come!
gumbywasright · 2 points · Posted at 16:10:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Silence just makes me anxious. To offset that, I turn the tv and my fan on even when I go to sleep.
EJ86 · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same...and i hate the brightness and the busy state of the daytime. I am much happier when I can be on my own during late night hours...
catladylunarnight · 2 points · Posted at 00:34:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate the night time now... feel so alone and abandoned and anxiety feel up like something is not right. Started feeling this just few years ago especially when there is a change in my life.
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:42:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's because the change, maybe you just missing something u used to have during night time. Things will change again and u might love night time again.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:29:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Username does not match...
catladylunarnight · 2 points · Posted at 14:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha it doesn’t anymore
DuckADoodleDoo · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when a day is chaotic, ill just wait until it's midnight and just sit outside and listen to the absence of noise, but then i start getting anxious about random people running around out of sight and i get paranoid.
The_Knight_Is_Dark · 2 points · Posted at 02:50:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's exactly me. If i had it my way, i'll just sleep all day and live by night.
brazenwildhoney · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See; I actually love the freshness and sense of "new" that I feel when I have had to get up early. Even though I never have had more than an hour or two of sleep and wish I could have just 5 mins with my eyes closed! I just feel like getting up, whatever time is beyond me, and getting to bed to sleep and being able to fall asleep is the worst thing...my parents said I was a "good" baby as I was always sleeping- they had to wake me up to feed! Guess some things are so deep maybe we just wont ever really understand them!
DruggedFatWhale · 2 points · Posted at 09:05:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've found my people!
abdokeko · 2 points · Posted at 09:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome home
Brilliant_Paramedic · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This can help.change how you look at things.change your perception of what your experiencing here.look at the beauty in the day.leave your thoughts out of it unless their positive.look with love through your eyes.your life will be less stressful.you have 2 choices 1 leaves you with negitive thoughts making you sick .or 2 look at everything with love an feel happy through any problems.it works and you deserve to be happy an stay that way.
abdokeko · 1 points · Posted at 09:34:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the advice, am happy buddy.. And now it's day time, clouds and calmness, in city side between 2 seas, its day time and beautiful at the moment .. But you can say am very sensitive to noise & light and that happens most of time at day time.
drbaker87 · 1 points · Posted at 10:55:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES! When I buy my own home, it will be fitted with dimmers and heavy curtains. I like cosy darkness. I want it to be night all the time!
My country started it's lockdown on Tuesday. I realised that in order to be productive, I HAVE to create a space that is conducive for me to work in and that means, curtains drawn during the day and just a night desk lamp on during the night.
I have not turned on the ceiling lights in my room in 4 days and I absolutely love it!
jeliman3595 · 1 points · Posted at 11:22:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate silence at night. Just feels awkward for me. I need something playing in the background when I fall asleep (music, podcast and standup comedy)
FIRST_DATE_ANAL · 5 points · Posted at 22:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s because work sucks
cortesoft · 3 points · Posted at 00:23:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. I think it is because when I wake up, I am going to have to be dealing with my kids and work and chores and all the other hard stuff in life. At night, the family is all asleep and I am doing fun stuff I want to do for myself.
moekay · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look into delayed sleep phase disorder. I’ve had it my whole life.
Flacid_Monkey · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had the same problem.
It was my diet, lack of adequate water intake and a tiny (I mean tiny, im fairly lazy) bit of exercise daily & lack of body produced melatonin that all added up to equal no sleep.
Got melatonin tabs from docs, one a night 15 mins before I get fully settled.
Plenty of water, only one coffee in the morning.
Added fruit to my diet, instead of a chocolate bar I'll have a Clementine or similar - I still eat chocolate, just not snacking on it, especially late at night! If you feel hungry, you're probably needing water not food unless you feel weak, tummy rumbles etc..
More hearty meals, brown rice, lots of veg or salads, fish, red meats. You can substitute whatever here, it's just what I like, Quorn is fine along with fresh mushrooms etc for the vegans/veggies.
Brisk walk of the dogs in the evening, about 20 mins.
I literally lived off shop sandwiches, frozen food, takeout, crisps, chocolate, coffee, occasionally a fruit juice. I wasn't overweight, just body wasn't getting what it needs.
I still drop a pizza or McDonalds but I don't do it daily, prob once a week.
Took about 18 days for everything to settle but can take months so it's not an overnight change you notice. You'll still get those occasional nights where you don't sleep, that's completely normal, it happens.
ohhhcomeeeooon · 2 points · Posted at 10:35:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that's not my problerem. I don't really exercise but my job is physically demanding. And when it comes to diet I don't really enjoy junk food, love fruit and healthy stuff, quit caffeine a long time ago. Don't know man, I'm just weird.
Flacid_Monkey · 1 points · Posted at 10:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It happens! At least you're a decent eater! You could try melatonin, it depends what you struggle with, going to sleep or staying asleep.
I had trouble staying asleep which melatonin is good for.
Sleeping tablets just make me groggy the next day where now I'm fresh.
I'm in UK so tablets are cheap on prescription.
ohhhcomeeeooon · 2 points · Posted at 11:19:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tried melatonin. Didn't do much for me. I always had a problem with falling asleep and getting up in the morning, since i was a little kid. These days I blame shift work for it as i work nights so that messes up my sleep pattern. But then again my brother has and always had the same problem too and he never did shift work so it must be something else.
Flacid_Monkey · 1 points · Posted at 13:17:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahhh, you need to speak to your gp. You need a bedtime routine you can do every time you need to go sleep, I'd also try getting a new pillow and just one pillow for sleeping, that aided me a little.
I did shifts several years ago and I had no end of sleep issues! My partner is the same now, she's on shift work inc nights and her sleep is a mess.
ohhhcomeeeooon · 2 points · Posted at 13:58:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep shift work definitely doesn't help. Thanks for the advice. Stay safe and healthy!
VernonP007 · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So does my 4 year old daughter
Safety_Drance · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is your dreams quality. I have discount dreams for half the price of normal dreams.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ohhhcomeeeooon · 1 points · Posted at 10:35:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure xD
Olly0206 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like maybe I'm the odd one in this thread. I don't get how people hate going to sleep. I LOVE going to bed. I don't like getting up before my body wants to on its own, like when the alarm goes off, but I don't mind getting up.
In fact, I like going to sleep so much, I will nap a couple of times a day if I get the chance. I fucking love sleep. But it does fee less like I want to sleep because I like sleeping but more because I just always feel tired.
larrylovescheerios · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too
djsoundmoney3 · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
same here
TacoOverlord69 · 2115 points · Posted at 21:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Hate getting in the shower and hate getting out
Edit: Top comment is no longer about shiny cat nuts
CarbonCamaroZL1 · 409 points · Posted at 21:27:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's just that humans are lazy and when we are comfortable, we don't want to do something else. Especially if it's routine.
Cael_of_House_Howell · 15 points · Posted at 00:24:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a much more direct way of saying what I tried to say. This is especially apparent in small children. They HATE having to take a bath, but once they are in they do not want to get out.
Anun-Naki · 5 points · Posted at 00:00:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/nevillegoddard
Reprogram your subconscious
jamescoolcrafter15 · 3 points · Posted at 00:13:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/waitthatsasub
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 01:44:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/whotheheckisnevillegoddard?
lamalalamal · 2 points · Posted at 07:09:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems like he's confirmation bias incarnate to me.
IdreamofFiji · 3 points · Posted at 01:03:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting, I read the FAQ but still feel like I need an ELI5 for this one..
Lonewolf953 · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically think really hard and get what you want
Or the more refined: "you can achieve anything you set your mind to"
lamalalamal · 1 points · Posted at 07:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They basically believe that through an intense form of meditation and imagination you can manifest things into your life whether it be a relationship or a change of life direction.
Its really just like confirmation bias though. Really wishing for something to happen, actively trying to make it happen, and then when it does happen going "Oh that happened because I meditated on it."
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 09:04:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll get back to you.
rebellionmarch · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inertia?
CptOblivion · 1 points · Posted at 16:15:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also: that's not exclusively an ADHD thing, but it is characteristic of it.
2OttersInACoat · 29 points · Posted at 22:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate getting in the shower and hate getting out, but when I’m in there - I live here now.
Cael_of_House_Howell · 6 points · Posted at 00:25:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Same for kids in the bath when they are little.
weeone · 5 points · Posted at 00:48:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me in a pool (regardless of age).
Cael_of_House_Howell · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I get that if the temp is even slightly chilly
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
same for me in a brothel
CTeeRuler · 20 points · Posted at 22:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think for me the problem is that I feel like there's always something else I could be doing that would be better. Productive or not there's something else I could do instead of shower.
TacoOverlord69 · 7 points · Posted at 22:41:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here, also with sleep
DanielSophoran · 3 points · Posted at 23:18:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, like getting a high run in Risk of Rain 2
AptHyperOX · 19 points · Posted at 21:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes ,this
Jsc_TG · 32 points · Posted at 21:16:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve overcome the hating getting in part. Hardcore love showers now but used to hate getting in.
rampagingcoconut · 4 points · Posted at 04:52:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was there something you did to help you overcome it? I'd love to not hate getting in the shower.
Jsc_TG · 5 points · Posted at 04:58:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure I just hit a point. #1 No one tells me to shower. #2 I like to shower every day or every other day. Staying clean and hygienic is very good. I can not stand being dirty anymore. Right now I feel my skin is grimy and I want to shower. I’m not gonna yet but I will later when I get the chance.
That’s the other thing. Set aside the time. Then find the time to warm up the shower for a minute or so depending on the shower and get in when it’s comfy temperature.
The issue is likely to be similar to the concept of inertia. An object in motion stays in motion. An object not in motion stays not in motion. An outside force is usually needed to change it. So, you just have to overcome your own “inertia”.
xXcampbellXx · 9 points · Posted at 22:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do too, I used to be beaten by my brother until I did shower tho so that's why u hate it, and getting out was just me having to go out and hin being all, see wasnt bad you retard why you make me choke you out and punch your head repeatedly, like fuck you and dont wonder why you have noone in your life who actully likes you besides your mom
TacoOverlord69 · 15 points · Posted at 22:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey are you ok?
xXcampbellXx · 4 points · Posted at 00:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really, but I dont live with any of them anymore, still have to deal with them tho, i got it better then some but worst them most. Thanks for asking tho, it really does mean alot,
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 00:32:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there no way you could be free of them? They really dont seem like they could possibly help you any
xXcampbellXx · 2 points · Posted at 00:41:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not yet, I just turned 18 and dont have a license yet, another way to control me and I wont do it and have her buy me a car and try to use that to control Me, plus I just lost my job due as a cook so no more money besides unemployment, was filed as a dependent so no extra for me, but it's not all bad, only living with my mom and 1 other brother so toxicity is at a minimum,plus I refuse to get dragged into it, I wont sit there and fight or argue, I'll say what i have to say in a calm manner and then stop engaging it and take the 1.5 min of extreme verbal abuse or manipulation and then go do my thing and go over it in my head so I never forget or let them ignore it or the effects it has had on me,
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 00:56:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm very glad you can see through their attempts to control you and are actively making an effort to thrive as an individual. Please dont let them get to you, stay who you are and when you are physically or financially able to, cut them from your life. Stay strong, and wash your hands.
xXcampbellXx · 2 points · Posted at 07:14:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao, thanks for that, love the hand washing advice, wish the people in my house didnt try to control me with this lockdown while ot doing a thing themselfs and try to blame me for everthing
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 07:30:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blame shifters always need a scapegoat, and lucky for them you are the GOAT
Crankylosaurus · 6 points · Posted at 22:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I relate to this more than being in bed haha
StpdSxyFlndrs · 11 points · Posted at 21:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try warmer water. (Only helps with getting in, makes getting out even harder)
bakedBoredom · 12 points · Posted at 21:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
make it cold at the end maybe?
also I hear that cold showers are better for you, but I feel like I'm getting more clean when I take a warm shower, so if I remember to I use cold water at the end to wash the soap and stuff off and hope that it has basically the same effect lmao
TacoOverlord69 · 12 points · Posted at 21:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I do after I rinse off is close the curtains all the way for about 1 minute to keep some heat in the shower, then grab my towel that I put on the shower rod and just dry in the shower. By the time I'm done the shower has cooled down to the temp outside it so no lame transition or dripping outside the shower.
Secretagentmanstumpy · 6 points · Posted at 22:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Always towel dry while still standing in the shower. Just make sure I have a towel within reach when I get in. No reason to leave the floor a mess by standing there dripping everywhere afterwards.
BoounitiveDamages · 2 points · Posted at 02:24:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yessss why doesn’t everyone do this?
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 2 points · Posted at 05:04:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes - this is the way.
TacoOverlord69 · 6 points · Posted at 21:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always have pretty hot water, and yeah it's tough getting out
Secretagentmanstumpy · 6 points · Posted at 23:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I lived in a condo the hot water never ran out. You could run it 24 hours a day if you wanted. Took some long ass showers back then. Now in a house with kids and the hot water is in short supply in the mornings.
TacoOverlord69 · 3 points · Posted at 23:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
F for your happy place
no-name_silvertongue · 4 points · Posted at 00:18:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, being newly wet and wet when i want to be dry are both awful. soaking wet is fine.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 2 points · Posted at 05:05:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
soaking wet, standing on and handling cardboard.
Traumx17 · 3 points · Posted at 00:22:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont mind getting in just hate getting out.
Fennily · 3 points · Posted at 00:39:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait what now? Cat nuts? Couldn't find the comment
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-14882008
This basically, glows more where more blood is so nutsack is like a christmas light
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never felt right with having music on while I'm in shower, it just feels like the wrong time. But hey if you like it no harm
MartynPlayz · 2 points · Posted at 00:10:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Rotary-Titan931 · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well technically after the edit it can be about shiny cat nuts...
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 00:54:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
:o
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate being wet but love being clean.
Just realized I might be a cat 🤔
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 01:58:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me-wow
Patsfan618 · 2 points · Posted at 02:27:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water draws heat. For ancient man, that could be seriously dangerous.
Once you find that it's hot water however, you get comfortable because that old instinct about not getting cold, shuts up.
Again, for ancient man, hot water usually stayed hot, there was no water heater, just a hot spring or something, so you want to stay in as long as possible to prevent heat loss.
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's pretty cool. I'll remember to tell my history teacher that lol, hes a cool dude
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
After reading of some of your comments, you seem to like a really cool person. I would gladly welcome you as my new Taco Overlord
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 02:50:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey thanks! Glad I commented on this thread because I got to chat with a bunch of people and get a nice karma boost. I'll gladly accept you into my regiment because you indirectly taught me what the concept of Onism was.
Feel free to chat me up anytime :)
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 03:04:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I WAS WONDERING WHEN SOMEONE WOULD MENTION SOMETHING ABOUT MY USERNAME.
Sorry, just a bit excited to have that acknowledged. It really resonated with me when I first learned about it, and I'm sure many other people have a similar feeling.
And yea I was surprised that my comment got so much traction, never had this much of attention.
I appreciate the offer, same to you :)
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 03:12:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love looking at usernames to find little gems to aid my quest of "gitting gud" at life. Also I love when people notice my name, it's fun. I've always given a lot of thoughts to random things and this concept was one of them, I first thought about it after talking to a friend over Skype who said he'd never seen an ocean and asked me if they were really big. It's pretty cool to experience
beeman4266 · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's nothing worse than the hot water running out. Hate getting in the shower but once I'm in I'm committed.. for as long as the hot water lasts.
A legitimate goal of mine is to build a house with a custom shower that has shower heads coming from all different angles with a tankless gas water heater than can do over 3.5gpm at 102f.
Then I can finally sit in the shower for 5 hours like I've always wanted to.
Hot tubs are cool but showers are better imo, you overheat easily in hot tubs and it doesn't feel as good if the water isn't hitting you.
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 08:51:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dream shower head has no nozzles that shoot out in random directions or lose pressure (never seen in my life lmao) and can move around in 3 dimensions like if I want it above me I can move it there, if I want it to shoot from the side I'll move it down, or left, or right. Also the bottom of the shower needs something to delete or ignore hair.
DruggedFatWhale · 2 points · Posted at 09:10:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate it too. That's why I don't shower unless I stink really bad. I just showered after 7 days of laying in bed. This isn't because of quarantine...I'm just extremely depressed.
TacoOverlord69 · 3 points · Posted at 09:24:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey I cant say everything will get better with time, because not everything will unfortunately. But if you ever need to vent, need to cry, need advice, or even if you just need a place to bitch about something, please let me know and I'll be here for you. Stay healthy and wash your hands.
charliebucket99 · 2 points · Posted at 09:11:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think part of it for me was not wanting to be an expense for my family. I always felt like I owed my family and thus would save costs by not showering, eating out, charging devices elsewhere, etc. It's a bad habit and I'm working on breaking it.
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 09:26:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I have this with so many things in life, but not showering, I'll take a 30 min shower every time because I'm the only one who showers at night. It's not necessarily a bad habit for everything though, it probably helps with saving money because you dont buty things that arent needed. That being said buy things you can afford to enjoy, and wash your hands. You are no burden.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried cold showers? It's a game changer!!!!
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard people take cold showers and seem to enjoy it, but it's just so cold lol. What does it change?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words cannot capture its beautiful simplicity but I'll try.
Start by adding cold at the end of a warm shower. Increase time to the point the anxiety evaporates. Then go ALL IN! Focus on your breathing. Have you heard of Wim Hof?!?
It changes everything. Its all about getting outside your comfort zone! It will wake you up in a way you've never experienced before.
It's just water! It's not going to hurt you. When you start to think about it like that you'll realize how silly it is not to try. IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD. Once you conquer your fear you'll realize that everything else is in your head as well. ALL IS MENTAL. The simple act of a cold shower sets off a chain reaction of seemingly automatic self improvement. Patience and persistence is key.
https://www.menprovement.com/benefits-of-cold-showers/
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Gb0h8ZKvJW4
YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE! JUST DO IT!
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might give it a try next time I shower
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wim Hof breathing techniques warm the body and help calm the mind.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0BNejY1e9ik
BeingGayIsAChoice69 · -4 points · Posted at 22:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get people who don’t like to shower. Why do you like sitting around in filth?
TacoOverlord69 · 14 points · Posted at 22:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that we like being filthy, and its not that we dont shower, it's just that we dont like to. Also your name is incorrect
Lobotomy-Rips · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Severe depression. Plus getting out of the shower sucks.
omegafig · 1974 points · Posted at 20:41:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Newton's First Law - "An object at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion unless acted upon by an unbalanced force."
Obviously sleeping isn't physics but I think it's a good analogy.
kotovskyyy · 30 points · Posted at 21:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are a genius, bud
sarelai · 26 points · Posted at 21:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, simply stated, your problem is inertia.
Benblishem · 5 points · Posted at 00:47:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And his wife's unbalanced.
a7n7o7n7y7m7o7u7s · 10 points · Posted at 21:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s metaphysics
[deleted] · 44 points · Posted at 21:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean our universe exists because of physics and is rulled by those rules
Bgnu-Thun · 56 points · Posted at 21:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Therefore sleep = phisics
keitarno · 32 points · Posted at 21:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phisics rulle
Nothing_Lost · 14 points · Posted at 21:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phisically speaking
CH33S3_NUGG3T5 · 3 points · Posted at 22:49:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want to give you silver, but I also kind of want to punch you
esraphel91 · 3 points · Posted at 22:09:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually tunnel snakes rule
IllKissYourBoobies · 6 points · Posted at 21:40:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ryght onn!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's completly what i meant lol
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They rule our universe and out universe rules you :)
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh
HarveyBiirdman · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro science
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
physics not science....
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:18:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
? physics can be a ramification of science but is still big enough to have its own distinction from other sciences...
Daddysprinkle · -4 points · Posted at 21:40:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope u know its physics, unless u live somewhere else other than u.s then it might be phisics
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I live on europe and english aint my main language, tbh idk why at that time i though was with i, but ye ik its with y mb...
Also ty, usually when ppl correct my typos of mistakes come with quite a few insults, i think this is the first time i was able to answer to a correction in a nice way
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My bigot alert is going of the radar right now. Hmm, I wonder why.
Daddysprinkle · -1 points · Posted at 22:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont know what that mean
BangalterManuel1999 · 8 points · Posted at 22:10:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s physically difficult to push the body out of homeostasis, it literally requires a higher energy input than remaining at rest
MaFratelli · 6 points · Posted at 22:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny, I have called this phenomenon “sleep inertia” for years. I think it is similar. Your conscious brain just tends to want to keep doing conscious shit (remaining in motion) when it really needs to shut down and hand it off to the unconscious dream-world side of your brain so it can enter a rest state. The reverse happens in the morning when your unconscious dream-world brain wants to keep the conscious system shut down (at rest) so it can keep partying, but it really needs to reboot your conscious brain so you can get shit done.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:50:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just mention relativity and it all makes sense. Going to sleep and waking up involve two separate states of mind
DigitalShrine · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brillant
jc3ze · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad says something similar when talking about staying active: "a body in motion..." With the implied ending being: "stays in motion"
dickdemodickmarcinko · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is really just an analogy for the consequence, but does nothing to explain why this actually happens with people.
CodeKnightmare · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a good wisdom
BurgerSlayer892 · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually there are some scientists who believe the conscious, at least in some ways, exists due to quantum entanglement. So sleeping IS actually physics. Which makes your analogy even better.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plenty of unbalance to make that analogy unfit.
Heterophylla · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fiziks
MathSciElec · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Newton’s first law of rest: “if a body is at rest, it wants to stay at rest so don’t wake it up”.
Joe9238 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same applies to payloads
Titan696 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if it helps nothing is truly at rest
amanda259 · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father always said I suffered from inertia. I was born 3 weeks late. I never want to go to bed. I never want to get up. I procrastinate way too much., and when I finally get started on something, I don’t want to stop.
Bo_Seifrit · -7 points · Posted at 21:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
R/whoosh
VikingTeddy · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/doublewoooosh
Bacxaber · 0 points · Posted at 22:28:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/foundthemobileuser
LuftDrage · 133 points · Posted at 20:53:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate it because sleeping signifies the end of my day and thus the fact that I will eventually have to be responsible again after my spring break ends. I hate waking up because I have to force myself to do things to feel productive because if I don’t I will hate myself for not doing anything.
I just wish I had the ability to let time continue without progressing.
[deleted] · 50 points · Posted at 21:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, people say that an eternity would be boring. But I'd be fine with an eternity where no one had to stress or worry about food, finances, diseases, or crime. I'd happily spend my days taking naps, going on long walks, and playing with friends. That sounds like the sort of life worth living.
koloup · 13 points · Posted at 21:23:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say that, but a Life of eternity would mean out living the death of the universe and spending most of infinity alone and in darkness
Edit: a word
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 21:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah if we are fantasizing about eternity it would include others outside of the visible world of heat death. Maybe we watch as the universe collapses in on itself and a new big bang happens.
Dravarden · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
can't be heat death if you are still alive tho
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:05:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But we have been towed outside the enviroment.
IdreamofFiji · 9 points · Posted at 21:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I always add the stipulation that I can terminate whenever I want in these
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:54:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Good Place solution.
Dravarden · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
eventually, he stopped thinking
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did it tho
AbdalGhafoor · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what heaven will be like but 100000000x better
zak55555 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this is the right answer. I hate falling asleep because it signifies the end of a day in which I haven't been productive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have always had the feeling that i don't want to die, or it to end, but i would love to fast forward my life.
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this is definitely part of it. I also feel like there's something else, some other reasons. Or maybe that's all it is and I'm just making it more complicated than it needs to be
SmokeWineEveryday · 28 points · Posted at 21:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We hate going to sleep because we like to put off whatever work or other things you don't like having to go through the next day for as long as possible. We hate waking up because that means we have to get started and we're usually still very tired
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not going to admit that I'm a lazy sack of shit, but I'm also not going to deny it...
greatmasterbeater · 20 points · Posted at 21:18:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Hey, it’s me, you.
I hate going to bed because I think sleeping is a waste of time and it also signifies the end of the day and I have to get up to work after I wake.
I hate waking up because sleep is soo good
Edit: word
IdreamofFiji · 6 points · Posted at 21:49:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleeping is ABSOLUTELY a waste of time. Unconsciousness for a third of your life.
Lulu_Lannister_ · 79 points · Posted at 20:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We hate change as humans
cookiesnkareem · 45 points · Posted at 20:43:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is actually a really interesting way to put that into perspective and a mindset that could apply to other mundane things. Thank you Lulu_Lannister 😊
neveragain1007 · 9 points · Posted at 21:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But change is constant.
unquadhexium · 14 points · Posted at 21:08:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Change is continuous, but it's rate changes
itspodly · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why i always live my life in the exponential.
unquadhexium · 3 points · Posted at 22:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm afraid mine's logarithmic
dookie_shoos · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hence widespread anxiety.
sbenthuggin · 5 points · Posted at 21:10:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No we dont. I mean there's some change we hate and some change we like.
BathedInDeepFog · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We fear it. smashes robotic hand with hammer
4rch1t3ct · 10 points · Posted at 21:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inertia
AngkorLolWat · 9 points · Posted at 22:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I finally realized why that is: all my free time happens at the end of the day. I wake up, and it’s time to get ready for work. After work, it’s cooking and cleaning and tending to my kid. Every moment dictated by responsibility. At the end of the day, it’s all taken care of, and I can finally relax, pursue an interest, or socialize.
It’s not the beginning or ending of sleep that I resist. That’s incidental. What I resist is the return to responsibility every day.
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 01:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this could be a big part of it. I certainly wish I had more time to do what I enjoy without all the responsibility.
Maybe that's all it is
TMoney2100X · 9 points · Posted at 21:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans generally like being awake late because of the quiet. Not just of the night, but also because you don’t get phone calls and texts from people late at night, and if you do you have an excuse to ignore it.
moonshinetemp093 · 8 points · Posted at 03:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You may have OCD/ADD/ADHD, which works with the depression you used to feel.
I'm only saying that because apparently it's common in people with disorders like that to actively hate sleeping but also getting up.
I'm technically diagnosed with ADHD from childhood, but the person who diagnosed me also lost their license to practice a few months later and the entire firm was closed down, so I'm not really sure. They never prescribed me medications? Idfk
What I do know for sure is that when it comes to sleeping, I am my own worst enemy. My brain conjures up fantastical stories that I monologue to myself, I see something on whatever streaming service I'm on at the time, I remember something I did in a video game and I expand on that, I suddenly realize how much my girlfriend means to me which is somehow more than it was 4 seconds ago and if I don't Express this to her at the time she'd be waking up because HER sleep schedule is just as fucked as mine then she'll never understand what I feel even though she does and she hates when I do that but says it's okay because it's nice to go back to sleep with that thought, I suddenly feel like cleaning my room, I need to tell some member of my family that I miss them because apparently I'm a bad relative and don't speak to this person enough even though I have a group chat that's active fuckin daily.
The only thing that stops the nightly crazy train for me is weed. I dislike smoking during the day because I get super photosensitive and the sun becomes my enemy, but smoking at night helps me sleep and keep a fairly consistent sleep schedule. I wouldn't suggest that until you have a somewhat decent job that doesn't randomly piss test, or if it's horribly illegal like it is in some places in the world, but that's honestly what works best for me.
Rusty_Gold · 3 points · Posted at 05:36:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you me?....
moonshinetemp093 · 2 points · Posted at 18:15:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very well could be.
Nah, man. We struggle together.
QuantumS0up · 1 points · Posted at 10:47:01 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have this same exact issue.
I'm allergic to marijuana.
moonshinetemp093 · 2 points · Posted at 14:31:15 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHAT?? Seriously?
QuantumS0up · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:17 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah haha :'(
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:15:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate going to sleep, because I know I’m going to wake up
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Ahefp · 6 points · Posted at 03:07:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You and I might be made for a planet with a longer day. I naturally want to stay up for long periods of time (20 hours or so) and sleep for long periods of time (11-12 hours). If I lived on a planet with a 31-hour day, everything would be normal. Perhaps our descendants will feel great when they live on another planet!
RepressedOnism · 3 points · Posted at 03:09:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, that sounds amazing.
I hereby am petitioning to find and move to a planet with a 31-hour day
Ahefp · 2 points · Posted at 03:10:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been dreaming for a while about this! Lol
Mindhunter7 · 6 points · Posted at 21:12:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inertia
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause you hate your daily routine and the limits it imposes on you. Being forced to leave your bed means you have to give up its comfort because you're forced to be somewhere. Going to bed represent skipping straight to that moment.
You probably don't hate going to bed or waking up when there isn't an obligation forcing you to do either.
A1BS · 6 points · Posted at 22:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Likely nighttime is the only time you have to yourself. You hate going to sleep because its the end of your own time and you hate waking up because it's the start of your working time.
zupatol · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just like evenings
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is true but I also don't like sleeping the entire day away
briuh13 · 4 points · Posted at 20:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s deep, bro
sherilly1969 · 4 points · Posted at 21:07:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But love sleeping!
PoppingWebster · 4 points · Posted at 21:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i love going to sleep but hate waking up
insomniack_r · 3 points · Posted at 21:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inertia. People at rest try to remain at rest and once awake try to stay awake.
rjoseph210 · 4 points · Posted at 21:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have ALWAYS had this problem UNTIL this lockdown. I realize that I enjoy staying up because i typically have know obligations at night and enjoy doing whatever I want and I didn't like waking up to face daily social obligations. I now go to bed by 11, get up by 530, 6, even on the weekends for the most part and i'm so much more productive....in lockdown. It's crazy really.
talkstomuch · 4 points · Posted at 22:17:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been there. What changed it for me was to come up with a "nightly" activity to do before my day begins.
My "nightly" activity used to be surfing the web. Just pure mindless pleasure, often acopanied by drink and food.
I do that in the morning now. Instead of waking up at 7. I aim to wake up at 6 and spend 1h doing the thing I would do at night instead. Have a beverage some food and surf the web. This way i go to sleep early as i have a positive thing to look forward to and i wake up more eagerly to do it.
Mileage may vary.
chimpdoctor · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad it works for you but my goodness this sounds depressing to me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:38:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can relate. If you haven't already you should try Magnesium Glycinate and L-Theanine. I get the Doctors Best (100mg) version of magnesium and L-Theanine (500mg) by Bulk Supplements, both from Amazon. A journal to give your thoughts to is also a big help. Ashwagandha is another great one. All 3 are natural and non habit forming. I usually take only melatonin (20mg quick dissolve) but will take all 3 listed above if I got alot on my mind or I had too much caffeine that day. You should check out /r/sleep.
Meditation also beneficial.
elogram · 5 points · Posted at 02:52:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably will get buried but 2 things from a person who’s had sleep problems most of their life.
I used to absolutely hate going to sleep. In fact, it was pretty much anxiety for me come sleep time because I was dreading it so much. To it got to the point that I just wouldn’t go to sleep until sunrise. And this started when I was still a kid so going to school was torture. And going to work as an adult has also been torture.
In my case, I get really bad night terrors combined with sleepwalking (waking up screaming while banging on my window glass trying to break it so that I could get out. I used to live on the 4th floor, btw). And I also suffer from restless legs syndrome. Both these things combined made it enough for me to hate/dread going to sleep.
But the two things mentioned above have made a huge difference in my life. I still suffer from both nightmares and restless legs though I’ve managed to lessen their severity with some lifestyle changes. But at least I don’t dread going to sleep now and most nights I manage to get to bed and fall asleep at reasonable hour without having any negative thinking about sleep. Still hate waking up though :D
typewrytten · 5 points · Posted at 07:06:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have ADHD? Look up Delayed Sleep Phase Disorder!
vomMond · 5 points · Posted at 07:20:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe you have DSPS
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_sleep_phase_disorder?wprov=sfla1
Subversive · 3 points · Posted at 12:12:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Delayed sleep phase disorder. Welcome to the club.
ctmannymanny · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate going to sleep because it’s a waste of time, I hate waking up because it’s hard to do and I feel bad the whole process
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 00:58:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I wish I could just not sleep and still function normally. I could get so much more done and have so much more time to enjoy. Or even just sleep like 2 or 3 hours and still be fine. Sleep really does feel like a waste of time
ImPretendingToCare · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life explained in 1 sentence.
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know everything there is to know about you... mwahahaha
emeraldkat77 · 3 points · Posted at 21:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe, like some of us, you are a night person. I found that I'm far happier going to sleep and waking up when I am up at night and sleep in the daytime.
In a world of morning people, we lose out a lot.
nfxprime2kx · 3 points · Posted at 21:41:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Who wants to explain that shit.
idahocrab · 3 points · Posted at 03:09:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like it could be ADHD and depression can be comorbid. Sleep issues and a fellow redditor’s comment got me to look into it and I was like, well shit, this describes my whole life. Saw my GP, referred to a specialist and started Adderall and my sleep has changed drastically. I often wake up refreshed and rarely have insomnia anymore. Before it was a family joke how difficult I was in the mornings.
Ensec · 3 points · Posted at 06:35:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i hate going to sleep because i feel like i'm wasting the limited time i have in this life, literally laying around unconcious but god damn does that bed feel good when you wake up
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
D E P R E S S I O N
Soviet-credit-card · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably some overlap with inflammation as well.
FeraligatrMan · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The million dollar question
Mediocretes1 · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same way, and I think one is the reason for the other. I hate waking up so because of trying to avoid that state I hate going to sleep.
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't disagree, it does seem like some sort of vicious cycle
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:08:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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IdreamofFiji · 6 points · Posted at 21:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever heard of Fatal Familial Insomnia? It makes it so you literally can never sleep and it's one of the worst diseases I've ever seen.
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
taps head
Svennboii · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You hate going to sleep?
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, very much so.
I don't know why
userseven · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. That means it will be the next day soon.
CuesNAyes · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insomnia's a bi-yacht-tch
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it's not that I can't sleep at all, I just have difficulty sleeping when I want. Maybe that's still classified as insomnia, idk. Are there different types of insomnia?
CuesNAyes · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think so, I kinda deal with that. I can go to sleep anywhere, even work but the minute I lay in bed, BOOM, I'm awake🤦🏽♂️
Redbreddd · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But also hate being really tired
paging_dr_green · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes yes yes. It's not just me!
Formlexx · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate sleeping... Period. I usually go to bed late and wake up early. Before a normal working day I get about 6 to 4 hours of sleep. I don't get how people can become so incapacitated by not sleeping.
DerpyCappy64 · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like some people and taking showers
Fatumus_The_Dog · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not know how much I agreed with this until I read it. Edit. Ok, now that I reread it, of course I wouldn't know how much I agree with something before I read it.
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 08:55:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No worries, I know what you meant
I gotchu dawg
The-Cheeses · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you my toddler?
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 08:56:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, but is the position open? I'm not opposed to be adopted. Might have to fudge my age but I can certainly act like a toddler if it helps
ThatCreepypasta101 · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same issue except I go to sleep at like 3 in the morning then don't wake up 'till like noon. It's honestly a problem.
Jami-Jo · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
for me, it’s cuz i don’t want to start a new day..
Russian_repost_bot · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried getting off of caffeine? No joke, you will love going to sleep. The problem is you have to do it for about a week or 2, not just a few days.
The waking up part, all depends on how much sleep you got, after that.
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually cut caffeine out of my diet for a different reason a few years ago. Kept getting insane migraines every day. No more caffeine, no more migraines.
While it's good advice in general, I'm afraid it doesn't apply to my situation, but I appreciate it
productivenef · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Today I woke up with a headache. I took some aspirin at like 10 am and it went away for a few hours. It came back with a vengeance around 3pm. I didn't know why. I tried drinking some caffeine. That was it. I felt like my head had an icepick in it... That scared me, and now I want to wean myself off, but the fear that is motivating is also probably what's going to stop me from trying lol
Rudi_Reifenstecher · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
think about using a sleeping podcast, that way going to sleep doesnt feel like completely shutting down and it makes falling asleep easier
i listen to the "sleep with me" podcast
RepressedOnism · 2 points · Posted at 01:52:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmm, interesting, I haven't thought of that. Might give it a try, thanks
csonny2 · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can fall asleep on my couch within 5 minutes, but it takes 30+ minutes when I'm in my bed
GlowCasual · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate going to sleep because I hate the waking-up part of sleep.
small_town_girl- · 2 points · Posted at 21:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a similar problem regarding the shower
RepressedOnism · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm very surprised how many other people have commented this, I had no idea it was a thing
bolero629 · 2 points · Posted at 22:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I love sleeping but hate going to sleep
FlawlessTree · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, it’s not going to sleep that I hate. It’s that if I were to go to sleep that basically skips the night until I have to get up.
Needyouradvice93 · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are 3 factors that plays a role, when it comes to getting up in the morning:
When it's light out, your "inner clock" knows that it's time to wake up, hence naturally making it feel easier.
Something tells me, that when you wake up at 7, it's due to an alarm clock next to your bed. When we sleep, we follow sleep cycles. This is a huge subject, and you can do some reading on it if you're interrested. To make it short; there are usually a timespan of 30 minutes in the morning, where it's much easier for you to leave your sleep than others. When you wake up at 9, it's ikely that you just came naturally out of your sleep.
For many people, it's hard to get up early, for the simple fact that it's just early. Nothing to do about this, unless you can learn how to be excited to wake up early. :)
jeffbeezos123 · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and also hate being awake
SmellySchmupper · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was me when I was depressed. I didn't want tomorrow to come, so I'd stay awake as long as possible. Then waking up was just the realization that I had to do it all over again.
madmax1300 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same exact problem
NibyAnanas · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's probably because when is silent, you have to face your thoughts and your own problems and that is scaring you
distorted_hippi · 2 points · Posted at 22:31:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That feeling when you’re not tired in the morning but you’re just lazy
tontonrancher · 2 points · Posted at 22:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I like going to bed/asleep.... just escape from it all.. into oblivion
But I often have Sisyphean dreams, which supposedly mean that I don't want to sleep.. agitated about things I need to do.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you my children?
TheDeadEpsteins · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exercise and get tired, you'll be craving a bed.
ZeroPotatoz · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[angrily sleeps]
ex-akman · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I hate that, it was my life for years. I still hate getting up, but weed usually helps get me to bed now.
FBI-Agent-007 · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want more time awake than asleep just cus it’s more fun
ImmediateTry8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are several reasons for me. But main one why I don’t want to sleep is that I have sleep apnea. Sleep is usually not as pleasurable it can be. And I had good night sleeps so I know. Body and mind might be reacting to me saying ‘no, I don’t want to go through that, right now’. I had to come to terms with this. And I try to make sleep more relaxing and fun. I try to make the bed to make it more inviting looking, for example.
poodick4u · 2 points · Posted at 22:46:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually when I hate going to sleep it’s because I’m not looking forward to what needs to be done the next day. It’s usually the same reason I don’t want to get up the next morning as well.
VaderOnReddit · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same goes for taking a shower
Secretagentmanstumpy · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate going to bed. Cant get comfortable, get itchy, its too cold, its too hot, etc. but in the morning the only thing I want to do is stay in that warm beautiful bed.
wilxp · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally, my whole life.
BradS2008 · 2 points · Posted at 23:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually when im going to sleep im doing something I like, usually when I wake up its for work/school/chores.
Croudy4 · 2 points · Posted at 23:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This explains me. I don’t like changing what I’m doing but when I do change, I hate changing that.
casualblack_7 · 2 points · Posted at 23:30:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmfao i have the same issue now i just smoke before i go to sleep
Mandy1538 · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, for a second i was like i dont remember commenting this then i realised its someone else going through the exact same shit i am going through.
metalxcore · 2 points · Posted at 23:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Completely agree 100% I used to love sleep, now I dread it.
TimelyCulture · 2 points · Posted at 23:37:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Used to have the same problem until weed became legal in Canada and CBD saved my sleep.
Game-Lad · 2 points · Posted at 23:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. There is so much more peace to get things done at night and during the daytime there is constant noise and rush.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try a different mattress and pillows, also a weighted blanket is something id recommend to anyone, sleep problems or not.
yetanotherusernamex · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever tried going to sleep later than usual?
Instead of trying 9pm-6am, try 3am-10am without the use of an alarm for at least a month.
Abdelilah07 · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me.
ZuesofRage · 2 points · Posted at 23:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depression has helped me find the joy in sleep. But it's also helped me find the hatred and pain of just getting out of bed every day lol.
hateshumans · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like to be around other people. Everyone is an asshole
zoso_royale · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weed, snacks(unless heartburn is too much for you), white noise, sleep. In that order.
mikefromtheblock · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe it's your frame of mind? You used words "hate" and "murder" to describe something which typically would invoke neither of those descriptors. Idk but I do know self talk is a powerful thing...
agenteb27 · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you an infant
poinkypoinker · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once got so angry I had to take a shower that I broke the towel rack... Ofc this was a long time ago.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:58:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I enjoy going to sleep because I usually read or watch a movie. Unless you’re super tired going to sleep by just for the sake of it is boring.
SweetWodka420 · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It felt as though H I was reading about myself.
I've tried so many things, like pills, exercise, reading before bed, forcing myself to sleep... I've only found that weed works wonders for me, but it's illegal in my country so uhm, yeah.
I have no idea how to be able to fall asleep at a reasonable time.
professorkaren · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh Lordy I feel your pain. I was the same way for years!!! I will not tell you mow many sleeping pills I was taking a night! It was definitely unhealthy and could have been deadly! Instead I had a stroke a year ago!!! I don’t think it was from the sleeping pills but I can’t untether how the stress of sleeping may have played a part!!! YeRs AFO I bought a book on sleeping techniques and thst helped me to learn some new tricks. And no, I don’t know the name of it. I’ll see if I can find it on amazon or something. I feel for you and hope you find some tricks thst eork! I no longer dread sleeping and haven’t for a while. I look forward to it now!!!
AWWOR2 · 2 points · Posted at 00:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only feel tired enough to go to bed right after i wake up
sniffmybumplease · 2996 points · Posted at 18:30:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who share unsolicited nudes. Why? What are you hoping to gain? What's the endgame?
Like some poor hapless person is just gonna be like "hey nice cock bro, here's a million pounds" or some shit?
Just... why?
Tom_Brokaw_is_a_Punk · 707 points · Posted at 21:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exhibitionists get off on being seen.
Or so I'm told
Dave5876 · 51 points · Posted at 22:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You seem to know a lot about this subject.
howdoyoulikeit2 · 58 points · Posted at 23:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
he also seems to enjoy showing off how much he knows about exhibitionism
IrvingIV · 22 points · Posted at 23:18:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me of statistical voyeurism.
_duncan_idaho_ · 29 points · Posted at 00:17:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you hear about the jurisprudence fetishist? He got off on a technicality.
IrvingIV · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
XKCD usually puts a smile on my face.
Have you seen time?
andante528 · 3 points · Posted at 05:42:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Standard deviation just isn’t enough ...
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 01:18:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a former exhibitionist, I can confirm
DJReasonable · 8 points · Posted at 04:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Former? Thats interesting. How did you become a former?
davanlind · 4 points · Posted at 00:32:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Put your clothes back on
sniffmybumplease · 10 points · Posted at 00:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just sensed your eyes shifting from side to side from the other side of the screen
ChunkyLaFunga · 178 points · Posted at 20:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For attention. What else? Negative attention is still personal attention from the recipient.
It's a safe way to force yourself on somebody sexually and get them to acknowledge you.
I absolutely guarantee if nobody ever received a response to a picture again, the practice would stop overnight. There would be no incentive to do it.
Geminii27 · 99 points · Posted at 21:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean... there are people who keep trying to communicate with the dead. Or sending letters to the wrong address for 20 years. Or worse. I don't think zero response is going to necessarily stop that kind of mindset.
EpsilonRider · 50 points · Posted at 22:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noooo, I'm pretty sure people will still do it. Not just the desperate hostile creeps trying to get into your pants. But some exhibitionist type folks get off knowing someone saw it without the viewer's consent or saw it when they didn't want to.
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 00:05:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is absolutely true
KimberlyRP · 43 points · Posted at 22:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It boils down to power. Not necessarily sexual. Like rape...it's a power play. Unsolicited naked photos are like a rape to your eyes thus, your mind.
sniffmybumplease · 17 points · Posted at 00:06:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely. Some people are "thrilled" by the fact that once it's in your head, you can't get it out. It's a psychological thing, an internal power dynamic.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 04:41:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no way you can tell me that that is not sexual...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Send them a bigger dick back.
Lonewolf953 · 5 points · Posted at 05:10:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every guy in Tinder that sends unsolicited pics would like to have a word with you
They'll send you a daily dick pic and still assume you'll reply
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 00:05:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand where you're coming from, but I still find it horrible and unwarranted, especially if it's to a minor
ALittleNightMusing · 43 points · Posted at 22:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These people probably think it would be nice if some girl sent them an unsolicited pic of her tits. Therefore, it stands to reason that the girl would love to out of the blue, get a pic of his manky junk, right?!
IrvingIV · 4 points · Posted at 23:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, I get the sentiment, but I have never heard that adjective, what does manky mean?
finemustard · 38 points · Posted at 23:32:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a fighting-type pokemon from the original 150 that evolves into primeape.
Myth-o-logic · 9 points · Posted at 23:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to see Primeape junk.
JBSquared · 4 points · Posted at 03:09:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes one of us
SmallDMasterRace · 17 points · Posted at 23:26:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Means gross, dirty and off putting
IrvingIV · 3 points · Posted at 00:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is not the law of equivalent exchange
("Manky"? A Northerner, perhaps...?)
KierkgrdiansofthGlxy · 0 points · Posted at 03:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Manky = manly w/ a typo?
ALittleNightMusing · 2 points · Posted at 09:58:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it means disgusting or foetid.
Cheese464 · 53 points · Posted at 22:07:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s about power. Kind of like how they say rape is about power not about sex. They forced you to see their dick/experience something they considered sexual. You had no choice, no say, no control. They had all the power in that situation and I think subconsciously they desperately need that feeling of power. They can’t make someone sleep with them, or love them, or even pay attention to them. They are totally with out control, but if they send that nude they now feel in control.
Tom-King-of-Idiots · 15 points · Posted at 22:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There should be an option to not be able to receive photos from a person, just like there’s an option to hide alerts from a person. That way you don’t have to see anything unless you give permission to be able to see stuff
Heterophylla · 8 points · Posted at 23:18:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what if they send super dank memes sometimes too?
finke11 · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block and report button
sniffmybumplease · 7 points · Posted at 00:11:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Absolutely agree. It's not (necessarily) about the sexual element or even the chance at getting a pic in return. A lot of people are simply thrilled by the idea that they've imprinted themselves irreversibly into another person's head, like an emotional/psychological power play. A lot of it stems from insecurity, I guess
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 00:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I doubt people sending dic pics are being that deeply cognizant. I think they think it's fine to do, and if it gets a good reaction once, then it's worth sending a thousand of them.
Northernman069 · 17 points · Posted at 22:06:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like opening the trench coat and flashing a bunch of ladies sitting on the park bench, I guess... except virtual.
sniffmybumplease · 8 points · Posted at 00:10:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh. Just... why
People can be horrible
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 16:44:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men*
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 16:51:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not true, actually. Women have done it to me in the past. Men are the usual perpetrators, but not always.
TobySomething · 23 points · Posted at 22:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's the modern equivalent to flashers, people who would expose themselves to people in a park or whatever. It's a fetish.
Dave5876 · 13 points · Posted at 22:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except now they don't have to wait around in a park.
sniffmybumplease · 7 points · Posted at 00:09:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's okay to have a fetish, a lot of people do. The only time I have a problem with it is when one brings it into the lives of others without being asked to and without consent. Because that's not "having a fetish", that's "forcing one's priorities into the faces of people who don't need that shit"
butsuon · 6 points · Posted at 00:38:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If I don't show them my aroused genitalia, how will they know I like them?
sniffmybumplease · 7 points · Posted at 00:41:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I WILL BE YOUR MATING PARTNER, FEMALE HOMOSAPIEN
fuses his dick with her like Avatar
Likemommytheliar · 9 points · Posted at 22:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m interested in this and if the Reddits will excuse my sexism Inherent in the question: how often do women send unsolicited nudes? I may be ignorant to the voyeur smartphone rage, but in my limited experience and knowledge woman aren’t randomly sending bat flap snaps or even surprise titties. Please advise.
cake_pan_rs · 7 points · Posted at 00:44:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a problem with a girl that would send me nudes all the time even when I told her to stop and to fuck off. I wasn’t interested and it’d just be randomly throughout the day. It was aggravating
Luuce98 · 24 points · Posted at 22:24:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boobs are not equivalent to dicks. And I have never thought of sending a vagina pic nor have I heard of any woman doing so. It is majorly a dick problem, I think, both the dick being sent and the one sending it.
jcdoe · 16 points · Posted at 23:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the pic is unsolicited and unwanted, boobs and dicks are absolutely equivalent.
Luuce98 · 10 points · Posted at 23:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, you’re right, I’m sorry. Just that the ”ooh sexy” concept society has of boobs may change the reaction when we’re talking hypothetically, y’know? That’s what I meant but you’re 100% right
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I get where you're coming from. It's sad that society as a whole takes it less seriously when women send them because "B-but boys LIKE boobs!"
That doesn't make it okay. Someone has forced pics onto someone who didn't give consent. Who cares what they're attracted to or not attracted to? Who cares what their sexuality is? It doesn't make it okay.
Luuce98 · 6 points · Posted at 00:17:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course I agree with you, I was just saying that to talk hypothetically about receiving a pic if we make the example boobs instead of vaginas, because of the (wrong, I get it) ideas that tits are harmless or that all men want to see them always, it is not well shown to “the other aisle” how weird it is to get a el random dick pic. No harm intended, and by no means am I implying boob pics are harmless or less awful than dick or vag pics, just that they are not seen as such so I made a different choice with my example because of it.
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 00:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get it, I was agreeing with you (sorry if my wording was misleading - I was trying to side with you). If it's not been asked for and if it's the case that at least one party is uncomfortable with it, it shouldn't be okay.
Luuce98 · 3 points · Posted at 01:01:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, of course. Sorry if I took it the wrong way
sniffmybumplease · 4 points · Posted at 01:02:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, it's my my fault. I used "you" in the general sense, not in a specific way, so I can see why you thought I was targeting you. Should have used "someone", my bad. Changed now :)
Myth-o-logic · 3 points · Posted at 23:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found, as a woman, that younger women have tended to send more unsolicited either nudity or masturbation videos. Sometimes they'll preface it like, "You wanna see?" But they don't always wait for a response. Women who have grown up a bit more are less likely. Men don't seem to have an age range, I've seen a lot of unsolicited penis.
Yourhandsaresosoft · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve only done it once and I immediately regretted it. He was fine with it. But normally I send a heads up asking if now is a good time for one or not.
Now I do occasionally send pictures of my fully clothed body parts without asking. They’re provocative, but not NSFW. Wait, even then there’s normally a “my cleavage looks amazing, wanna see?” Initial message.
But I’ve received unsolicited pics from men and women. Mostly men. Which honestly I think comes down to accessibility. It’s hard to get the angles right on a vagina pic. Dicks, it seems are usually just whipped out and taken at the weirdest angle.
everything_is_creepy · 0 points · Posted at 05:49:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if women sent unsolicited lewds as much as men, we'd never know because I doubt men would be as offended as the recipient. But I could be wrong
neocommenter · 11 points · Posted at 22:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some rapists are also cowards who don't want to risk the pepper spray or jail sentence.
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure it's quite comparable to rape, but I get where you're coming from. The whole idea of "power play" is similar to what rape victims face/have faced so you're right that people who do this shit should face the consequences
JBSquared · 4 points · Posted at 03:23:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say it's more comparable to sexual harassment than sexual assault/rape. Of course, in lots of sexual harassment instances there is a power dynamic.
CelebrityTakeDown · 3 points · Posted at 13:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sending unsolicited nudes is sexual harassment.
DistinctConfusion3 · 8 points · Posted at 22:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My penis just isn't nice enough to share with the world
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheers bro, I'll drink to that
LlamaRoyalty · 6 points · Posted at 22:48:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some guys send thousands of dollars to girls on the internet, or even fulfil some of their Amazon wish list requests. Don’t underestimate how lonely and desperate some people are.
sniffmybumplease · 5 points · Posted at 00:22:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, when that's been specifically arranged, or when the receiver actually WANTS the pictures. Nobody is gonna pay for something they didn't ask for or didn't want, though.
Some unwanted, unsolicited picture of a floppy "last chicken in the shop look" custard-shotgun just ain't about to reach that level
MarshallApplewhiteDo · 14 points · Posted at 21:29:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people wouldn't just be not bothered if they got an unsolicited nude, they'd be happy. For them, even if they didn't want to see one, they'd just delete it and not think about it again. There are a lot more people like that than you might think.
It's also a numbers game, just like catcalling. It may not work 99% of the time, but if it works just once, it's worth it for them, even if the other 99% of the time, people are just getting caught in the crossfire.
sniffmybumplease · 9 points · Posted at 00:07:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that some might be pleased with it (no ill-will against them). But the idea that someone MIGHT enjoy it is NEVER an excuse to send one unsolicited.
MarshallApplewhiteDo · 5 points · Posted at 00:15:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not defending it, it's just part of the thought process.
sniffmybumplease · 4 points · Posted at 00:32:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no, don't worry, I know you weren't. Just chipping in :)
gkmwheelspin · 3 points · Posted at 03:14:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'd rate it...8.5 out of 10, good job kiddo."
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 07:37:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Let's see what we're working with... woah!"
Tylermcd93 · 3 points · Posted at 05:39:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People do it not because they’re hoping for a positive response but rather for a negative one. They like making others mad.
wolfmoral · 5 points · Posted at 23:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah my favorite way to respond to unsolicited dick pics is with a “wowee” or “neato” because I don’t know what else men want from me. They do seem to be quite proud of their peeners though, so good for them. Lol.
sniffmybumplease · 6 points · Posted at 00:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Respond with this
http://imgur.com/a/luz5w5w
HoeProficiency · 3 points · Posted at 04:22:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not responding is the best response honestly.
Yourhandsaresosoft · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My response is always, “penis” followed by a bigger penis picture. Only for unwanted dick pics.
usernumber36 · 5 points · Posted at 00:50:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are following the advice of Jesus: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
They would LOVE to be sent random nudes.
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not religious myself, but I do happen to subscribe to the idea that wisdom doesn't rely on who said it and can come from anywhere, so I appreciate your comment! :)
http://imgur.com/a/H5191v9
Ethario · 4 points · Posted at 22:47:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im sure sometimes it works I guess, nothing to lose ?
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're viewing it from the sender's POV and not the receiver's. Not unreasonable, but it's important to place the experience of the person who had to receive that rather than the one who sent it
Whoopdatwester · 5 points · Posted at 22:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a dude who received one from a female before. It was a nice surprise. I can’t imagine it would have been appreciated if it were the other way around.
sniffmybumplease · 5 points · Posted at 00:25:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mmm. Still poor form on her part (in my opinion, not judging you or anything). It should be taken just as seriously when it happens to men, even if naked pictures are seen to be something to "enjoy"
Whoopdatwester · 6 points · Posted at 00:37:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand that now. 18 year old me didn’t care.
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 00:40:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah haha, that's fair
Timedoutsob · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how many have you received since posting this?
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amazingly, none! It's an Easter miracle - though I might have just jinxed it. Keeping my fingers crossed and my block function at the ready.
salutes
Timedoutsob · 3 points · Posted at 01:30:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you don't get one soon i'm going to have to step up. edit: There really needs to be a reddit sub for this, where you put someones reddit name in and then everyone sends them dick pics.
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hides in a WW2 bunker, hugging my children - Level-headedness and Dignity - to my chest
We're safe here
(Also, that sub would reach a million users in three seconds flat. Dare ya.)
Sachyriel · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/Nicecockbro
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh dear god, that's a rabbit-hole if ever I saw one. Verging into r/suddenlygay territory
Sachyriel · 2 points · Posted at 01:50:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you like /r/furry_irl ? Then you might even be mesmerized by /r/tf_irl !
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 01:54:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I... I don't even know if I want to click it. This is like that "sweating fella, two buttons" meme come to life
Sachyriel · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...hue, well if you put it like that
/r/bearclawnipplegifs
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://imgur.com/a/MztjwKd
Told ya
blenneman05 · 2 points · Posted at 06:39:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to share nudes on reddit because I wanted to see if others thought of my body as horribly as I thought about it. Than I saw the compliments or criticisms or I scrolled on the subreddit that I shared it in of other people who had other bodies like me and I realized my body isn’t as “abnormal” as I thought it was.
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 07:40:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slightly different because that's sharing them on a sub specifically designed for nudity, where people go fully expecting to see that kind of picture.
I'm talking about unwanted, unsolicited pictures that pop up out of the blue.
(But I'm glad you're feeling better these days!)
GabeThyGodly · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean maybe you'll get a compliment every 1000th person you send that to... worth it?
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 00:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean... maybe? Still pretty pathetic imo, but I get where you're coming from
kicked_trashcan · 2 points · Posted at 00:35:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People have lots of different reasons. When I was younger it was due to thinking girls thought the same way as guys; if I sent a nude I’d probably receive one since that was my goal
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 00:36:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's interesting from a psychological point of view, to be honest. I suppose that's a form of selection bias - thinking everyone is wired the same way. A lot of people struggle with that, but the fact that you can look back on that and see it as wrong really shows how you've grown as a person.
JBSquared · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I never did that as a young teenager, but I had some buddies who did it and we all had that thought process. Granted, we had all barely talked to girls outside of our families and for school purposes, and we understood that our mindset was wrong as we had more experience with girls.
NubisWanubis · 2 points · Posted at 00:37:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Username checks out
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha, it's a long story :P
Slingshotsters · 3 points · Posted at 22:49:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same with porn. Love porn, but I don't understand the business or how the actors choose that profession.
sniffmybumplease · 6 points · Posted at 00:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a bit different, because often that's driven by money
APater6076 · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although it blows my mind, surely it must work sometimes? Like 60% of the time it works every time? Surely there must be some sort of 'strike rate' otherwise why would they continue?
sniffmybumplease · 3 points · Posted at 01:06:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean... maybe? If that kind of thing is specifically organised, like a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" thing, then yeah, maybe. I get what you're saying.
But beyond that, I can't see how sending an unasked-for pic of one's wrinkly corned-beef tornado to some poor unsuspecting gal would come to any kind of sexy fruition. "Ooh, he's sent me an unwanted, unsolicited picture of something I'm not comfortable talking about or seeing! Mm, what a gentleman"
APater6076 · 4 points · Posted at 01:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the reaction I fully expect and often see on Twitter and the like, but if it doesn't work, and that's the reaction they get, why would they continue?
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 01:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God knows. The mental gymnastics some of these people perform are genuinely beyond belief. What's also crazy is when someone calls them out on it and then the sender insults the receiver. E.g. "lol frigid" and the like. Honestly...
everything_is_creepy · 2 points · Posted at 05:55:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It does, and I imagine the success rate is vanishingly low... But for every 100 articles, Twitter posts, and blogger outrage... there's one lonely and desperate person who responds with, "Haha, you're so crazy!"
And then... he's in. It was all "worth it"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 02:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gosh, that doesn't sound like much fun! I get that a lot of people allow their identity or sense of self to hinge on the perception of others and that many value their worth on how the people around them react or respond, so that's an interesting take. Thanks for chipping in :)
Cameltotem · 1 points · Posted at 15:29:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just horny man
sniffmybumplease · 2 points · Posted at 16:00:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ew. Not an excuse.
Cameltotem · 3 points · Posted at 16:05:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah Its stupid but that's why people do it
sniffmybumplease · 1 points · Posted at 16:09:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof. Honestly, people can be awful.
iujohn3 · 42247 points · Posted at 14:48:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many fucking terrible commercials make it to TV. When I see a dumb commercial, my thought is always the same:
A group of grown ass people sat around a table somewhere and discussed how they want to promote their brand. They came up with an entire marketing strategy, probably had a vote about it, and sent approval on to the marketing department/company for production. That marketing department created, scripted, filmed, and produced that piece of shit commercial. Then they sent it back to the group of grown ass people, who sat around the same table watching the shitty commercial before agreeing that it's sending the exact message they want about their brand. They likely then vote again to approve running it on TV. A huge budget is approved for putting that dumb ass commercial out there, and the result is the piece of crap I just saw on TV.
Yeah, I don't understand that.
Burgess237 · 4269 points · Posted at 17:36:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in an agency similar to the one you describe...
We just did a rebrand and the guy in change if creating our promotional video made absolute shit... But the problem is nobody could argue with him cause he's the director of design in our company and happens to be the ceo's best friend. So we ended up having to post this piece of ass video that those two thought were really good... It's just because they're so far up each others asses (and their own) that they believe everything they make is gold.
LAX_to_MDW · 2584 points · Posted at 19:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the real answer here. As someone who has also made piece of shit commercials, we know it’s shit, but someone higher than us up the client chain has a “vision” and it’s our dumb job to make that vision happen. I’ve had clients insist on using their family members as actors, when said family clearly couldn’t act. Or they have a catch phrase that is just absolutely cringeworthy. Or they’ve got dreams worth millions but a budget of 2K, and expect you to figure out how to make it happen.
Then we sit around and look at the garbage we made and say “well... this is what they asked for.”
TheWriteOwl · 390 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep yep. And what may have started out as a brilliant creative approach got mutilated into horseshit by the time it ran the wringer of stakeholder approvals (internal and client side)
bitchfaxe · 43 points · Posted at 19:46:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're telling me the client isn't always a creative advertising genius? /s
drooln92 · 13 points · Posted at 20:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It would take balls but the agency can refuse the stupid idea they're forced to produce for the sake of integrity. Not sure if this ever happens though.
mister-noggin · 26 points · Posted at 21:23:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m in software rather than marketing but I have seen people refuse to take on projects because they could see they were doomed for failure or disagreed with them morally. In both cases they didn’t want the project to be associated with them or their firm. This does require that you be in a position that you can afford to turn down the revenue that would come with the project and potentially any others that might come from the client in the future.
MrDude_1 · 8 points · Posted at 22:43:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm also in software and for the first half of my career, i wouldn't have stood up to anyone for things like that, so I understand...
But today I will tell anyone, regardless of rank, what i need to. And refuse work if I have an ethical issue with it.
In other words I'm sure stuff does get rejected, but don't expect most of the people starting out or even a few years into their career to be the ones to stand up to the CEOs and tell them it's a dumb idea and here's why.
kackygreen · 4 points · Posted at 00:29:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm finally at a point at my job where just saying "I'll explain to you how to do that if you really want to, but I don't want my name associated with that project at all" is enough to convince people to drop the project. Still underpaid, but I guess at least there's respect
TheWriteOwl · 14 points · Posted at 22:16:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theoretically sure. And a good client will see their agency as the creative experts and know that when the agency pushes back, their input comes from a wealth of skill and experience.
But guess which one we get more of - good clients or the “do it my way” types?
sturmhauke · 11 points · Posted at 21:22:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Normally what happens is the agency completes the current contract and then they GTFO. This applies to basically any kind of agency work, not just ads. Breaking contracts will cost a fuckton in penalties and/or legal fees. Better to get the shit out of the way and then don't renew.
TotallyTrained44 · 7 points · Posted at 03:45:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except when "dumb" is actually genius. People are so desensitized, nobody pays attention to commercials any more... Except when it's a really bad one. Then it bugs you every time you watch it and you tell everyone "hey, look at this, it's so dumb" and everyone starts noticing it. You think the whole marketing process has failed but the next time your clothes are wrinkled, somehow you know you have to get Bounce dryer sheets and nothing else would do.
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 9 points · Posted at 19:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cameron0208 · 17 points · Posted at 22:40:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is true for so many things too, especially in the corporate world.
For instance, I’m in charge of design - web design, logo & branding, marketing content, etc. at my job. I keep up with the latest design trends and new concepts in form and functionality, etc. I don’t change things too much when I have to make changes because obviously branding, brand awareness, consistency, etc. are important too. My boss, by his own admission, knows nothing about design. Honestly, he might as well be blind. Because if he tries to come up with something, you would think, ‘gah did a blind person make this?!’ That’s how bad it is.
So it happens like this: I design something that’s modern, responsive, and utilizes fresh, new ideas and concepts. It’ll look really good, and it’ll be relevant. Obviously I’m biased to my own work, but generally, my coworkers really like it. Not always, but a large majority of the time. Our clients also like it and I commissioned the first design project we ever sold to a client (we’re an IT firm), which was a result of my work. I’ve also redesigned many clients’ logos, after they saw my work and requested that I redesign their stuff. Anyways, then, I send it to my boss for him to post. He proceeds to not use what I sent him, grab some jpg from 1996 - one that’s 250x180 but, being the totally design savvy guy he is, he blows it up to 1920x1080, then he uses THAT image where you can actually count the individual pixels by hand, instead of what I sent him because ‘business isn’t about being pretty and artsy. It should be plain and simple. Just give people what they need without all the frilly bullshit.’
Like, you know my design aesthetic. Why do you have me do this work; work that takes days to complete, if you’re just gonna go with some BS low-res (more like no-res) image that you pulled from google?? And yet, he does this without fail all the time. I know when he tells me to make something that he’s going to do this. Nonetheless, I have to do it because ‘it’s my job.’ I have wasted weeks on end just from this shit. That’s not even including all the redesigns I had to do because his mind changes by the hour. I redesigned our site 12 times for a single project! Did the work, presented it, got his feedback, made the changes he wanted, presented the edited version, and he would then hate the edits that he asked me to make. I record our meetings and [try to] hold him accountable but he doesn’t care. He’s like the personification of r/trumpcriticizestrump. Once it was considered finished, it was essentially the exact fucking site i designed initially.
It’s great.
TheWriteOwl · 5 points · Posted at 22:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh that sucks, I’m so sorry. Don’t you love when your thoughtful, modern concepts get passed over for some Bosch-esque clip art hellscape? Truly the best.
sneakersotoole · 11 points · Posted at 21:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going through this right now with a client. No matter how much we advise against their direction they push for us to make it as they pictured it. It’s infuriating that they are that closed minded.
mickythehippo · 7 points · Posted at 22:22:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advertising might seem awful but like all that shit TV and music that's so popular it's very finely and expertly judged. When that much money is at stake, they know what they doing. Most people aren't too bright and it's normally aimed at them as the largest target group.
TheWriteOwl · 15 points · Posted at 22:29:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“When that much money is at stake, they know what they doing.”
Individually, sure, they’re smart marketers. But decision-by-committee is almost guaranteed to be the death of any good creative idea. Like you said - they’re targeting the lowest common denominator, which usually means they aren’t willing to take any risks or give much credit to the audience’s intelligence.
Freikorp · 2 points · Posted at 23:13:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advertising works just as well, if not better, than people who think they're too smart for it. I mean, it even works on people who work in the industry.
mickythehippo · 1 points · Posted at 08:15:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, no-one ever lost money by being smarter than they appear.
hermysmurf · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS #folksaredumbwhereicomefrom
Isogash · 3 points · Posted at 00:30:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think in this situation it's that it wasn't a brilliant approach to begin with, but it was the guy in charge's idea and he was full of himself.
It's pretty easy to find people like this, they believe they have a higher position than you because they are better than you, so confronting them about it is impossible, as they take it as an affront to their position rather than an attempt to help or contribute.
On the contrary, good managers and directors create the environment to bring the best ideas out, understand them and then really motivate people to apply them.
bytemehardish · 2 points · Posted at 23:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow I'm studying for a comm degree so I an go into advertising thanks for the depression.
OutlawJessie · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this about some really bad films, surely someone during the making of this said "actually, this really isn't very good".
G0es2eleven · 34 points · Posted at 19:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This. And you can replace "commercials" with any product or service. Thing is, everyone thinks they are the next Steve Jobs or Elon Musk, and probability wise, they are not.
yobyshy · 31 points · Posted at 20:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man, I work in production and I can't count the number of times I've sighed and said, "well this is what they asked for."
LAX_to_MDW · 14 points · Posted at 20:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cry of our people
Freikorp · 8 points · Posted at 23:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best is when they get exactly what they ask for, against all advice,.and then dislike their own ideas.
lxyz_wxyz · 6 points · Posted at 22:38:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like when 13 people show up to set randomly that are a mix of client and agency, and end up tacking on 2 hours to a day cause they don’t like the color of the actor’s sweater.... even tho it’s a shot of their feet....
W8sB4D8s · 20 points · Posted at 20:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is part of the answer, but the bigger truth is sometimes these "bad" commercials are designed a certain way. And while they appear trite to some, they do exceptionally well in connecting with their target audiences.
One example I can think of is GM's "real consumer" commercials. I personally hate these. I feel they undermine the intelligence of their customers. They are tacky and banal. But. They fucking CRUSH. They are crafted with surgical precision, and work. That's why they have astronomical media budgets.
Leen_Quatifah · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is most advertising in a nutshell.
ThegreatPee · 17 points · Posted at 20:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can someone explain the Charmin commercials? Those are not only really annoying, but creepy as hell.
Thistlefizz · 12 points · Posted at 20:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re not real bears, they’re furries. The ‘children’ aren’t kids, they’re midgets who are also furries. And they’re all really into toilet paper.
ThegreatPee · 8 points · Posted at 20:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, this puts my mind to rest.
agenteb27 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rest In Peace
PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_ · 6 points · Posted at 20:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone please post the Charmin rant in reply
Jostles11 · 6 points · Posted at 20:24:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those bears are so creepy and disgusting, the part that really gets me is when they say they have to be clean for their ‘inspection’. Repulsive.
Dontyouclimbtrees · 2 points · Posted at 06:26:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Done
PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_ · 1 points · Posted at 07:40:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God bless you
hologram_girl · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just saying this yesterday. Who is letting Charmin act out this way? Those ads are so disturbing.
Dontyouclimbtrees · 2 points · Posted at 06:26:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Charmin. I'm fucking tired of those stupid, ass-obsessed bears. I don't let toilet paper control my fucking life. Their entire world revolves around toilet paper. I get that they are in a commercial, but ass-inspection? Really? That is a little too far. They pause football games to inspect asses. One commercial has them ready to change vacation plans over toilet paper. And speaking of traveling bears, one commercial features a TSA bear inspecting another's ass before boarding a plane. Even going so far as to commend the bear on packing Charmin ("You're cleaner than I thought," says the agent). Ass-inspection in the Charmin bear universe is so commonplace that it is enforced as a security measure.
Here a bear is chasing a cub around with a dustpan to collect used toilet paper stuck to the cub's ass. The narrator says, "You'll never pass inspection with pieces left behind." Is Charmin trying to push an ass-inspection agenda? I hope to never have to endure a toilet paper inspection, let alone be subjected to it every time I use the restroom. Here a cub is literally doing gymnastics to make sure he doesn't fail his ass-inspection but to no avail. These bears are relentless. They will scrutinize each other's asses at any given opportunity. Even in print, they resort to using a vacuum cleaner to clean other bears asses.
Look at this commercial, a mother and cub looking at "the Moon". In any sane family, that would be the satellite that orbits the Earth. Unfortunately, this is Charmin Bear world, where it not only means the cosmic body, but the body of their fellow bear. They are literally using a telescope to inspect the ass of another bear sitting in a tree.
These bears are so incredibly self-centered too. All they care about is toilet paper. In this commercial the cub drains an entire lake so he wouldn't have to fish. Of course, he uses the toilet paper in the tackle box because these bears don't go anywhere without a fucking roll of toilet paper. It doesn't even make sense. Is Charmin advocating destroying an entire lake to catch all the fish? It seems a little misguided.
This commercial (video) features a bunch of cubs saying that Charmin is so good, you could wear your underwear "a second day". Mind you, all these cubs are naked! The commercial ends with one cubs saying to another, "You should try it Skids." Do these bears really make up nicknames based on the cleanliness of each other's asses? What kind of fucked up world is it where naked bears make fun of each other for ass appearance?
Especially the one where one bear says "what a great view" and the other sticks his bare bear ass in her face and says "thanks to Charmin". It's fucking weird. Fuck those bears. I will never buy Charmin as long as those bears are waving their asses at me.
Edited to include examples.
WriteBrainedJR · 47 points · Posted at 19:35:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Executive (n): A false prophet, gifted with "executive vision." Executives have visions, and then everyone else has nightmares.
graboidian · 14 points · Posted at 20:55:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
HEAD ON! APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD!
Wavara · 5 points · Posted at 23:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not from your country, I haven't seen the same tv shows as you, I haven't heard the same radio programs as you, and probably haven't played the same games as you
yet, somehow, I recognize that phrase
and that scares me
graboidian · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For context
Watch until the very end for a good laugh.
hermysmurf · 3 points · Posted at 00:43:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate some ads so much that I have to mute them when they come on. Things like unnecessary echoes put into tv show ads make the ads sound cheesy and irritating. And singing cheesy as fuck tunes that make people want to stab themselves.
SodaCanBob · 3 points · Posted at 22:13:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You remembered it though, which means you know the product.
It may be dumb, but it's better than... head products that didn't have successful marketing campaigns and therefore nobody remembers them.
chyeeeee · 8 points · Posted at 20:30:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God do I hate the word “vision” in the marketing industry. I’m in digital marketing and you just cannot argue with a clients vision no matter how stupid it sounds to the general public, especially their target audience lmao
ClickF0rDick · 7 points · Posted at 20:16:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"The cure for the common breakfast"
isntthatmatt · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grab a bowl of life cereal!
Freikorp · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just taste it!
ztfreeman · 7 points · Posted at 20:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a symptom best put forward as part of an argument that capitalism isn't democratic. It is too easy for someone to attain a position of unchecked authority and not just abuse power, but often make horrible decisions as far as the competitive market is concerned. The "invisible hand", doesn't actually affect them most of the time, especially if competition is stifled in a multitude of ways.
The reality is that capital holders can build castles and weather most storms, even those of their own making. It has lead to a host of the issues we are facing right now, not least of which include bad products and stupid marketing.
DJ_Molten_Lava · 6 points · Posted at 20:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I make commercials too and basically I put the same amount of effort into my production that the client put into his/her thoughts on the script or concept.
Burgess237 · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you pay with peanuts you get monkeys
tdk2fe · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relevant from The Oatmeal.
davotron · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I make videos for a living; and yes, often what is creative and good isn’t what the client wants in the slightest. I’ve spent hours making fancy titles, and then they ask if it can just be white text with a drop shadow moving slightly toward the camera.
Could have saved a good chunk of time knowing that in advance.
ecchirhino · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep! Or you’re in my position, supposedly the art director and should have the power to change the garbage into something useable but keep getting vetoed by the CEO because of his “vision”. Dude, your background is in engineering, let the creatives do their freaking jobs and trust that someone who studied marketing knows what needs to be done.
My favorite phrase is: I offer them gold, but they insist bronze is better.
SodaCanBob · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't the the entire point of catch phrases? They all seem cringey... but you remember them.
Paddy_Tanninger · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was the same in VFX. We had a studio pool for who could guess the closest rotten tomatoes score once the movie released, most guesses for most films we worked on were sub 40%.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a case of people not trusting their experts. It's like mini Trumps. Oh, I have this problem, I'll hire highly experienced people, explain the problem, explain my brilliant (read: completely wrong and obviously uneducated) solution and blame them when it doesn't work, because I'm the best at everything!
LoPath · 2 points · Posted at 03:20:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't help but think of the sketch from The Whitest Kids U Know where they're making an ad about a juice box. Dude goes chasing after kids yelling "I'm going to grape you in the mouth!" Everyone is in shock except for the guy giving the pitch.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“I’D BUY THAT FOR A DOLLAR!”
Penis_Bees · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't matter got paid🎵
CharlieKellyKapowski · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who are the ad wizards that came up with this one?!
irving47 · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Closet? You'll love it!"
KJBenson · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Puppy monkey baby?
VernalPoole · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we get a few examples of those catchphrases? I feel the need to cringe :)
forewardfell · 1 points · Posted at 16:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a wreck? Need a check? -any local ambulance chaser attorney anywhere.
VernalPoole · 1 points · Posted at 14:47:15 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cringe accomplished.
Sanquinity · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's also not forget that some commercials are shit on purpose. They're not meant to make you like the product, just to stay in your memory. So that when you need the thing, you might think about their brand. Though I have a feeling that this kind of marketing is becoming less effective these days.
ecp001 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a policy of not buying anything from places that have commercials demonstrating the weakness of untrained voices and performers.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not everybody can be in charge, all you can do is the best products within the confines of what you have to work with.
LAX_to_MDW · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re getting downvoted but you are mostly correct. Except this is my own business. That’s the service I provide, and that means compromising my own artistic visions to suit the clients needs.
And honestly most of the time people come to me for my artistry and we work together great. But maybe a quarter of the time what they want is just a mess. So long as they pay and are otherwise nice to work with, I’m fine with it.
BobT21 · 0 points · Posted at 20:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't Steve Jobs dead?
SuperDoofusParade · 42 points · Posted at 19:12:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “HiPPO effect”: get a bunch of professionals working on a project only to have to add something stupid because a higher up decided he knows better. It’s the Highest Paid Person’s Opinion that messes everything up.
sightlab · 20 points · Posted at 19:39:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every fuckin time. It’s disheartening, and arguing with the client - whether it’s a local coffee roaster or the senior marketing VP of Newell brands - puts us at risk. Or not every time: there are a couple brands I love working for because they love us and respect our work, but they’re rare and the HiPP doesn’t usually lead that department for more than a couple years, and their replacement always has some agency they’re trying to bring along with. We lost a HUGE retainer contract this year, despite a decade of award winning work that took the brand to the top of their segment, because someone wanted to prove themselves in their new position.
Burgess237 · 4 points · Posted at 20:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm using this.
But yeah basically the guy took all the design work and written work that our copy/design teams created and edited it all (Worse) to fit his idea.
Like he literally had a really good product to use, destroyed it and then called it a day.
magic-window · 14 points · Posted at 19:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, I work as a graphic designer and am often directed to make things that I would reject if I were the one proofing it, or things that make me think "this message seems very tone-deaf".
If I bring this up, sometimes it will eventually reach management and they'll consider discussing it with the client, but usually it doesn't get that far and some garbage goes out because it's what was requested and approved.
chemical_refraction · 24 points · Posted at 19:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would like to second this as the correct answer. I have a friend who catapulted from a company he started in highschool to near billionaire status. Every idea he says must be gold, every joke must be hilarious, and too many leeches and brown nosers for him to tell the difference. To be clear his wealth status is after he sold his company, so all these ideas that suck are just about shit he doesn't know. The hubris is so bad he actually feels his body functions differently than lesser humans. So if you were wondering how someone like Steve Jobs can die trying stupid non-medical treatments...trust me it's brainwashing from yourself and no one to trust to be honest.
He decided to pick up music(to actually fund and produce himself). It is awful. He thinks it is great. I told him the truth, and he was pissed at me. I told him , okay sure, how come you have thousands of IG followers and get 20 likes on your dumbass posts. Maybe not the best metric, but any positive comment is from someone trying to suck money out your asshole. People love their echo rooms.
MacheteJack · 13 points · Posted at 19:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I legit worked for a narcissist that believed he didn't have to offer sick days because he never got sick, so if someone did, they must have something spiritually wrong with them. (Yes, that kind of narcissism)
Two days after I came back from a stomach bug, during which I was not paid, he comes down with the same and was out for a week. The day after he returned, someone else was out with it, and I had to listen to him on the phone telling her she needed to suck it up and come back to work, if he felt forgiving enough to let her.
DragonSpiceChai · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is quite the vivid imagination you have there kid.
DudesMcCool · 6 points · Posted at 19:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or sometimes it's all about the deadlines and cost. You paid however much money to get the commercial or other video content made, and then it comes back shit. But your deadline is in a week and there isn't enough time to redo the whole thing, let alone the cost of scraping the entire thing and paying all over again to make a new one.
Usually because of deadlines you have one shot to do these things and you take what you get.
crazyashley · 4 points · Posted at 19:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm just picturing an ourobourus of business suits with necks going up assholes and interlinked now. Thanks for that😑😬😑
tslnox · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your head is going up his ass... :-D
ogabriell · 2 points · Posted at 00:32:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait a second.... Do we work together?
Flynnnryderrr · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So bunch of yes men
PraiseThePun81 · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a sad, strange, corporate human pretzel you're describing. Must be tremendously frustrating to deal with. Have you been there/expect to be there long?
Deepspacesquid · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you hiring?
Burgess237 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not in a country you want to work in.
sabdur200 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CEO or not report em to HR!!!
Federal_Pirate · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now I wanna see this video.
pietro187 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This essentially describes the problem behind Jack in the Box commercials.
philosphymedina · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No cap
DeadlyMidnight · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the truth. Any creative work often can be driven to grarbage since the client or director has final say, and if they are unwilling to listen to the people they have hired then it’s gonna go badly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry that you have to work in a company where you can't respect your superiors. I would change that if I were in similar situation.
TediousSign · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m curious about what the consequences are for just outright saying “this is lame”.
Burgess237 · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I made my opinion clear but was shut down with "It's deeper than what you can see" which make zero fucking sense cause its a brand reveal
Heterophylla · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you guys make the GM "real people" commercials?
SomethingAboutMeowy · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husbands going through something similar in the music industry. The label head has zero fucking clue about how music works, he just agrees with these people they hire for various things that are “big” names. My husbands bands been going back and forth with him over this music video that looks like SHIT. They paid 100 grand on this thing, basically because the label ordered it, and this guy who done videos for people like Jay Z made a literally embarrassing video. Well, I should say the CGI he demanded looked like shit. Like, worse than a sci-fi made for TV. Worse than sharknado type graphics. But their label head is like “great work. Excellent work.” Uhhh... no. Thank GOD creative factors are one of the few things their contract gives them the final say on. They’ve had this with producers and songwriters too. He just thinks because these guys are big names and go to lunch with him and shit that everything they do is fantastic.
_duncan_idaho_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was it about a character named the Grapist?
lemortede3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always thought it was because people out of touch with society wanted to make a commercial that fit in. Like that one set of commercials (I believe it was Burger King or del taco) that were just memes of people doing xyz.
butsuon · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only way to stop this is to talk to someone who can't be fired and get them to tell them they're retarded.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the same reason why shitty tv and movies get the green light and you end up with three movies about the same thing every so many years all coming out at the same time.
Knighty135 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you get a career making commercials?
fetch04 · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HPPO Highest paid person's opinion.
CatBedParadise · 1 points · Posted at 02:24:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you sure?? There is no BS jargon or acronyms in your post.
bubblegumtaxicab · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. Also work at an agency. It’s not that we don’t know it’s shit. It’s that the people whose opinion is closest to what consumers would be, don’t actually have a voice. It’s mostly politics and making sure big bosses are pleased.
People should know, reasonable recommendations and actually good ideas are often put to clients, who do nothing with that information.
Endulos · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's one thing I don't understand how business people work.
Look at YouTube. They release a design everyone loves because it's easy to use or find stuff... Then a month later they do a redesign that everyone hates and is a bitch to find stuff.
I STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO ACCESS MY MAIN YOUTUBE CHANNEL! I always have to stumble my way to find it, whereas before I could just click the profile button and go right there. WHY WOULD YOU HIDE IT?
BananaDictator29 · 1 points · Posted at 15:26:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the answer
psinguine · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wouldn't happen to be that Take 5 commercial where the guy literally has his own head up his own ass would it.
tommygunz007 · 0 points · Posted at 22:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Advertising is NOT, I repeat NOT about quality.
It's about the sales guy doing lines of coke with someone in marketing at Pepsi while hanging out with Hookers in Vegas. The owner of the ad agency doesn't care as long as money is coming in. He/she will copy or promote any piece of dog shit to get the bills paid.
conluceo · 11103 points · Posted at 17:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you know all those potato peelers that are made in any different way from the standard potato peeler that everybody has had since forever? How many engineers spent time designing that and making prototypes that went to QA and had a design review? Standard and certification for food grade materials were poured over. Collections of mandatory documentation about production and materials were carefully collected and stored. A committee approved it, and it went to production engineers who was tasked to do the tooling, which probably resulted in design changes that went back and got more QA and final go ahead. Samples was sent out to convention and consumer goods fairs. Salespeople stood stood in a both and offered representatives from large retail chains quotes for 100k units over 12 months time. Deals were struck, contracts signed. Money were put in escrow accounts. Designers made packaging and created logotypes and sent brand names to be stamped in the production facility. Instruction and labels were translated to the local language by technical writers. Logistic people poured over shipping and made sure it had all the correct numbers and barcodes. Retail worked printed labels and stacked the shelves.
Not once did anybody take the time to stop and say "Hey, I actually tried to peel a potato with this and it didn't really work... Like at all"
NotSoTinyUrl · 4640 points · Posted at 18:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a lot of cases, whether or not a product works is secondary to whether it looks good on shelves. Potato peelers are a saturated market. Everyone already has one and they last close to forever. But a different peeler with packaging that convinces you that it will work better than the one you’ve got? That’s a fresh market. Whether or not it works is immaterial, you just have to get people to buy it and make it cheap enough to be not worth returning but instead live in the back of the junk drawer forever.
To make the problem worse, a single piece of cheap molded plastic with one flimsy razor is way cheaper to mass produce than an actually good product. And it’s really hard to improve on the current design. Repeat with every kitchen product ever and you get aisles and aisles of cheap plastic kitchen products that don’t work.
Zimbadu · 2943 points · Posted at 18:48:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've just outlined 50% of everything wrong with modern society.
InformationHorder · 39 points · Posted at 19:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supply Side Jesus disliked that
hestermoffet · 14 points · Posted at 20:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marketing is at the root of a startling number of our world's ills.
marr · 3 points · Posted at 22:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recall Bill Hicks having something to say about this.
Alcatraz-12 · 75 points · Posted at 19:06:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes, we live in it ..
PM_ME_WHAT_YOURE_PMd · 66 points · Posted at 19:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s the other 50%
xzElmozx · 35 points · Posted at 19:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say that's the first 80% honestly.
80% of the problem with the world is that humans live on it. The other 20% are because humans live on it
twomz · 5 points · Posted at 20:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, the other 20% is long term astronomical and geological issues. Like the sun is warming up on its 4 billion year journey to a red giant, Earth's rotation is slowing, the core is cooling, ect. Small changes over a collosal period of time that end with Earth being uninhabited and there is literally actually nothing that can be done about it... With current technology at least.
xzElmozx · 4 points · Posted at 20:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reading this just gives me an easy excuse to not study
PacloverN1 · 2 points · Posted at 01:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, we will all be long dead and gone before those things matter.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 04:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And we can fix it by killing ourselves. You go first.
OFS_Razgriz · -1 points · Posted at 19:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it's not even that.
It's that the empires in the age of colonialism won. The Europeans, who built a society based on greed, laid waste to all of the peaceful, down-to-Earth societies they came across. Didn't matter where it was, one way or another they destroyed them.
The_Grubby_One · 17 points · Posted at 21:06:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...You have an odd understanding of the world if you believe tribal societies are peaceful.
Europeans didn't invent war, or even Imperialism.
Also, news flash: The myth of the Noble Savage is incredibly racist.
OFS_Razgriz · -10 points · Posted at 21:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't recall Native Americans starting a hundred year war or enslaving entire continents.
The definition of the "Noble Savage":
The First Nations were and are civilization. I'm not saying that civilization and technological advancement are innately tied to our failings as a society, but that the principles on which our society is based on are horrendous and self-destructive, and that the belief systems of the First Nations were widely superior to our own.
The_Grubby_One · 5 points · Posted at 22:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Most Native Americans never formed cohesive large scale societies (never mind developing ocean travel more complicated than a dug-out canoe), so one tribe enslaving a continent would be pretty fucking impossible.
They did, however, wage war. Frequently. And kept slaves. That includes the First Nations.
As for not waging war for a hundred years? I'd love to see you prove it. Can you show me the written historical records detailing hundreds of years of First Nations history in depth you got this information from?
The large scale Native American societies, like the Incas, Mayas, Toltecs, and Aztecs didn't start singular wars that lasted for hundreds of years because they had no fucking body to compete with. Any war they were involved in would be wrapped up in short order because they were each the superpower of their respective regions and times.
And you are romanticizing the ever loving fuck out of them, claiming they were peaceful and didn't take slaves.
There is no failing in European society that was not present in every other society that kept written records. The thing that separated Europeans from all other imperialistic powers is that they developed large ocean-going ships.
Guaran-damn-tee you if the Hans had developed ships as advanced as European vessels, a whole lot more of the world would be speaking Mandarin today.
See romanticism, above. The First Nations were war-like and kept their prisoners as slaves. I keep repeating this because it evidently has to be drilled into you.
OFS_Razgriz · -4 points · Posted at 22:53:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm literally not saying that they didn't, just that overall their societies were more accepting and tolerant than European cultures of the time. They did not murder people en masse because of their identity in the same ways that Europeans did and there was no such thing as class inequality in most native societies. There are obvious and blatant exceptions to this but the violence prevalent in their societies was not much different than those from other, white civilizations such as Greece and Rome, both of which are largely regarded as idealized societies with high racial and social tolerance that disappeared from Europe for centuries after the introduction of Christianity. Hell they even treated their slaves better than colonial era Europeans did!
The_Grubby_One · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You literally said they were peaceful, and you literally tried to claim they didn't practice slavery.
Can you prove this?
Can you prove this?
It's hard to form social strata when your entire society is about 100 strong.
You do realize that the Greek nation states were extremely warlike, the Roman Empire was highly warlike, and the Roman Empire was highly expansionist. Right? Hell, the Roman Republic was highly expansionist.
A slave's a slave. Good to see you acknowledging that they did enslave people, though. That romantic view of yours is slipping bit by bit.
OFS_Razgriz · 0 points · Posted at 23:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've literally done this like four times now. They did not enforce rigid gender roles, there was little to no inequality, and they respected the environment.
AijeEdTriach · 2 points · Posted at 00:42:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their ancestors made all the old mega-fauna extinct already. They didnt respect their enviorment,they simply hadnt mastered it yet.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not talking about early humans, I'm talking about Native American tribes leading up to and during the age of colonization. Most native religions espoused sustainability in hunting and gathering. They utilized as much of the animals they killed as possible so as to minimize the impact they left on the environment. If you've seen any revisionist shmuck's recreation of "the First Thanksgiving" you'd know this, because that's literally the only thing that most people get taught about in regards to interactions between natives and colonists.
The_Grubby_One · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The sky is made completely of dirt.
There you go. I just proved the sky is made completely of dirt.
Whup, did it again.
Can I prove that God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler? Let's see...
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
Guess so! Or do I need to say it a few more times?
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
God is a seven headed Golden Retriever with a koala butler.
There we go. Four's the magic number, right?
OFS_Razgriz · 0 points · Posted at 00:42:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I linked sources in the other posts, I'm not hunting down new ones so that you can reject those too.
The_Grubby_One · 0 points · Posted at 04:19:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there's a straight fucking lie. You haven't provided sources in a single goddamn response to me. I asked you to prove your case and you responded with (to paraphrase), "My proof is that I said it."
Later days, liar.
OFS_Razgriz · 0 points · Posted at 07:14:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My bad, there was a guy who was going through and commenting on every single response I made and I assumed he was you. That being said, if you look at the parent comments you will see the sources.
quantum-mechanic · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s literally unprovable. There are no written comprehensive records of native Americans like there are of Europeans from the Middle Ages onward. All the evidence is simply circumstantial that the native Americans fought a lot and never formed a truly pan American civilization.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do realize that when colonists arrived in America, they documented the lives of the native peoples, right? And there is a rich oral history woven throughout all Native American societies.
That's how they know about two-spirit and gender equality in native society.
quantum-mechanic · 2 points · Posted at 00:52:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So that gets you to about 1500. And even then, very limited. We've got like 3000 years of recorded European history.
Oral tradition is about as accurate as eyewitness accounts.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And in 1500 they were already doing better than us in regards to the things I just mentioned. I'm done engaging with you, you're clearly not arguing in good faith. You've concern trolled enough in this thread.
quantum-mechanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol. Doing better at what? Gender equality? This just isn't so. Sorry. In any case, if you're alive in 1500 gender equality is about the least of anyone's concerns.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
While this is somewhat true in North America, the story was radically different in South America and new evidence points to large city states as far north as Mississippi.
I'd also argue that defining a "civilization" as having to be massive and spread across many miles is exactly the problem. Each of the Greek city states is just as important historically as any individual Empire ever was. We give the Aztecs and such immense credit and we learn a lot about their culture in schools, but they were never really as important or long-lasting as many of the other, less "established" tribes. Just because they don't live in massive cities does not mean the way of life of those people should be rejected as "savage" or less than civilization.
quantum-mechanic · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greek city states? So you're talking about 2500 years ago? That's a hell of a stupid comparison when we know precious little about Native American civilizations from just 1000 years ago. Or even 500 years ago. Because they did basically nothing of note.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OR maybe it has something to do with the United States government funding efforts to not only destroy the natives, but their culture and heritage as well sometimes kidnapping and indoctrinating their children so that they could not communicate with their parents and were unable to receive their oral history you racist piece of shit.
quantum-mechanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US government did an awesome job of all that stuff in pre 1700-era? Ok dude.
The_Grubby_One · -1 points · Posted at 23:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean, circumstantial evidence is pretty fucking strong in the absence of evidence to the contrary. It's how we determine most things.
AijeEdTriach · 2 points · Posted at 00:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some were known to literally cannibalise captured enemy children. Sure treated them good. With a smokey rub most likely.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cannibalism among native communities was rare and typically isolated and funnily enough, one of the only verifiable stories of cannibalism from this era comes from the settlers of Jamestown.
So please, continue to concern troll about those savage Native American cannibals, and continue to look the fool.
AijeEdTriach · 0 points · Posted at 01:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh im hardly concerned,they were fairly thoroughly beaten,both physically and mentally.
OFS_Razgriz · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah there it is, the blatant racism. Have a nice life.
AijeEdTriach · 1 points · Posted at 09:45:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism? Nobody likes a loser,doesnt matter the color ;)
[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 20:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Oh you sweet summer child... The Europeans fucked shit up because they had the superior weapons. If it was the Congolese, the Eskimos or the Patagonians that had the superior weapons, they'd be the ones running around vandalizing and wrecking other people's shit up.
Heterophylla · 3 points · Posted at 23:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IRCC I read that some native North Americans actually thought Europeans had a mental illness or disease that made them succumb to greed and destruction of natural resources.
OFS_Razgriz · -5 points · Posted at 21:10:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I wouldn't be so sure. They didn't destroy the environment for exploitative purposes and they had better social norms. Maybe if it were the Aztecs, or one of the cannibal tribes, sure, but our deepest ills in society come from the notions of greed and inequality.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 21:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like your comment, it makes me think. In capitalism the general idea is for people to get what they deserve, that when someone works hard and efficiently they see a benefit to themselves.
Unfortunately it really isn't that way. You can work as hard as you want at dominoes, but you probably will never own your house or land. Meanwhile someone with a patent or a copyright takes in millions, buys land and pays for rental apartments to be built for the dominoes workers, while they themselves retire in their mansion.
We place so much emphasis on inequality as a species. We judge based on appearances and talent, we judge on test scores and physical ability. Someone who seems more capable is going to have more than others. And we worship them as a society. Everyone wants to buy a billionaire lunch.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 6 points · Posted at 20:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About that...
khay3088 · 29 points · Posted at 19:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I for one, am I glad to be ruled by our European overlords and not some alternate history Aztec overlords.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ynu're vastly underestimating the Europeans' cruelty. It is at least on par with that of tge Aztecs.
However, I dated a girl from Indonesia. And was surprised how much the Indonesians admired the European ways, even though they admitted they'd been slaves in their own country. I expected resentment, instead found admiration.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans everywhere were and are cruel.
However a big shift in the landscape comes after the invention/concept of universal inviolable, inalienable human rights after the Enlightenment. Prior to that the notion of rights was always invested in the sovereign itself and was subject to sovereign whims (arguably still so now but we at least THINK differently.)
Put another way: in China up until the post-Qing era all rights stemmed from the responsibility of the emperor. Rights weren’t intrinsic.
The West has done some absolutely shit things but the fact that you even think that civil rights matter is in no small part a consequence of Western thought.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have a point there... I sadly don't know enough about the history of other continents, though, so maybe they had the idea of guman rights in some fnrm somewhere elsd already... (FYI, am German)
At the very least the maori sometimes qesnlved conflicts by dancing :-)
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human rights in China is... complex.
https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1057/9780333982976_4
Prior to Qing China (up until WW2 basically) human rights were largely derived from imperial edict. Confucianism doesn’t grant RIGHTS so much as it grants responsibilities.
Yes, other societies solved problems non-violently at times but then again the West is an absolute superstar at that: legal contracts. The whole argument made by Hobbes and others is that it’s contracts (legal agreements) that reduce violence. And arguably they’re right. Binding people by promises also keeps them honest and gives them a way to arbitrate disputes without the sword.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting in that sense is tge Westphallian Peace (1648), the first peace deal (in Europe) designed "forever" as opposed to "until x dies" or "for y years".
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even that isn’t true, as can be arrested even in the dozen or so treaties promising ‘perpetual peace’ between the kingdoms of England and France that were so often broken during the hundred year’s war.
What Westphalia did differently was that it realized and strengthened the already growing state as an institution to enforce peace, rather than rely on a sovereign and his retainers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heh. Weird... that's what I learned in history intensive course. (a-level).
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 2 points · Posted at 10:00:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Westphalia was a seminal moment, but more because it confirmed several processes that had been evolving for some time rather than inventing them at the negotiating table.
OFS_Razgriz · -3 points · Posted at 20:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Native American tribes didn't even see a need for the concept of human rights because it was never a question in the first place. The Aztecs are a bad example. Many of the indigenous North American tribes had equality in gender roles, and even multiple genders dating back thousands of years, a concept that is still fought against in modern Western society.
Land ownership was not a thing. There was no concept of personal property. The entire society of the indigenous North American population is proof that the so-called "natural state of man" does not have to be every-man-for-himself violence and lack of social order. People argue all the time that communalism is impossible in practice but the native peoples are proof that that is bullshit.
There was also a great deal of respect for the rights of not only people, but the animals and the Earth itself. All life has an inherent right to exist, and that's a concept that we still struggle with in Western civilization as well.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Limping Native Americans together is fraught. There is plenty of evidence of inter-tribal warfare in plenty of regions: https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1057/9780333982976_4
Plus, there are western examples of multiple genders. That’s different from the notion of RIGHTS.
Also many tribes had plenty complex notions of property rights.
hissboombah · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is correct. Some tribes were more aggressive than others. When European diseases wiped out 90% of natives, they were not able to defend themselves against the colonizers. Had it not been for disease that explorers brought, Europeans would have not been able to fight off all the tribes.
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No native tribe had either agriculture or industry, which meant that even without disease their defeat was inevitable it just would have taken longer and more effort.
hissboombah · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good point
ErMehJersh · 1 points · Posted at 07:59:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, agriculture existed in the Americas before Europeans arrived.
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 2 points · Posted at 09:58:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not amongst all tribes and never to the extent that all European powers practiced it, which meant that population density even among the Iroquois or Cherokee was never as high and the numbers they could field were always lower and for a shorter time.
ErMehJersh · 2 points · Posted at 15:06:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For sure, but that's different from "No Native Tribe" having agriculture.
Dis_mah_mobile_one · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re right, what I meant to say was that no tribe could match any European power in either agriculture or industry but I overstated my point.
OFS_Razgriz · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Every society has wars, having wars and not being a pristine utopia doesn't mean you're not way, way better off than most other societies.
I found three in Europe, and one of them was an extremist Christian sect that centered around castration and other forms of genital mutilation. Not exactly equivocal.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:33:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just a friendly note: “equivocable” is not a word. You mean equivalent.
And based on what I saw only one tribe had a third gender. So it’s not exactly a great example regardless.
What was life expectancy in pre-European native tribes?
But the bigger point is that violence was still QUITE common in native tribes prior to European presence. Life being “better” also implies you lived long enough to enjoy it.
OFS_Razgriz · 0 points · Posted at 20:42:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Two-Spirit was a concept across many native tribes, not just one.
Also, Native American life expectancy pre-colonization was between 28-40 years of age. This is similar to if not better than the life expectancy of Europeans at the time. Both of these, however, are life expectancy at birth - overall, throughout human history the average lifespan for a human who lives to be an adult has hovered around 60-70 years, only recently extending further than that.
EDIT: Don't have a comeback for that one so you downvote me instead, good to know I won the argument.
Gramage · 4 points · Posted at 20:33:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
White man bad everyone else good, gotcha.
OFS_Razgriz · -2 points · Posted at 20:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look boys we've got a live r/FragileWhiteRedditor
MrMetalhead69 · -1 points · Posted at 20:29:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We struggle with it because you can’t make money off that way of thinking. It’s sad, but that’s how the powers that be are.
blackandwhiteadidas · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stockholm Syndrome
stupidistupidoes · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes
BrownKidMaadCity · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
probably beause you were never a victim of their cruelty
khay3088 · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well obviously not, the Aztecs have been gone for hundreds of years brah.
BrownKidMaadCity · 0 points · Posted at 21:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
European cruelty
khay3088 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woooooosh
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All humans and cultures are cruel. Many are still to this day. Europeans are enlightened. You can travel there safely. Opposed to Somalia or Afghanistan.
BrownKidMaadCity · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, do you offer classes? Ill send my OSAP straight to you
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Figured you were still in School.
suma_cum_loudly · 3 points · Posted at 23:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truly an idiotic take. Our ancestors have constantly waged war against each other since before homosapiens even existed. Ask any anthropologist, humans love war. Apes and monkeys do it all the time in the wild. Chimpanzees are especially fucking vicious, massive gangs of dozens of chimpanzees will go to war in the wild. They kill each other and rip their testicles off. Modern humans have been waging war all over the world, Europeans just had the best technology so they won most of wars. We also have Europeans to thank for the majority of modern science and technology that you enjoy in the most civilized time in human history, but no, the big bad Europeans are just evil. I think you sound racist tbh.
OFS_Razgriz · -1 points · Posted at 23:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Actually, quite a few societies developed European advancements long before they were made in Europe. China and the Ottoman Empire are the two biggest ones.
We just destabilized or destroyed those societies so we get to decide who gets ultimate credit for the discoveries.
Also "most civilized"... Yet America is run partially by a radical religious sect.
And if civilization = destroying the planet to you idk what to tell you. Regardless of anything else, native respect for the environment would be a really nice thing to have entwined into our society right now.
ebterf122 · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no telling if that course went the other direction, we'd still have so many technological advances like we have now, but I do wonder if we'd be a closer and wiser people. There'd still be war, sickness, famine, etc.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe? Maybe not.
You can look at China up to the Qing for a sense of how non-European governments worked in one case for the poor.
The Yangtze Delta wasn’t exactly great living, for instance. Lots of subsistence and hardscrabble work.
Harmacc · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the first “we live in a society” joke I ever laughed at.
ThisIsMyFifthAcc · 16 points · Posted at 20:00:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY
BOTTOM TEXT
PsyduckSexTape · 5 points · Posted at 20:49:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I FIND THAT OFFENSIVE
ABob71 · 26 points · Posted at 19:17:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah man, I fuckin knew potato peelers had something to do with it!
TwoThirteen · 21 points · Posted at 19:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and no. There's some really cool Potato peelers out there that can wrap around your finger, and some that are anti-slip, and some that are automatic... variety based on situational necessity is nice and modern society provides us with lots of variety in the product markets.
malatemporacurrunt · 29 points · Posted at 19:51:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be a kitchen porter and my job involved peeling around 50kg of potatoes every day - I am really fucking picky about potato peelers
Aprufer · 22 points · Posted at 19:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you were someone else's potato peeler.
malatemporacurrunt · 22 points · Posted at 20:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a bit of a tool, yes
Gnomepunter1 · 9 points · Posted at 20:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s potato peelers all the way down.
PyroDesu · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They were someone else's automatic potato peeler.
reidchabot · 10 points · Posted at 20:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well dont leave us hanging, what's the best spud peeler money can buy.
malatemporacurrunt · 22 points · Posted at 20:35:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Kuhn Rikon Y peeler, hands down. Nice sharp blade that stays sharp for a long time (actually vg10, which is a high carbon steel from Japan, the same steel which global knives are made from), comfortable plastic handle (better than the plain steel ones you often get in basic y peelers), and cheap as chips, as they usually come in a pack of 3.
Speaking of vg10 and knives, kuhn rikon's knives are also made from vg10, and are stamped, just like globals, but around 10% of the price. They aren't as pretty as globals, but they're legitimately very good knives, and much better than anything else at that price point. My favourite knife is actually vg10 (although it was hand-forged and is very sexy), its a really nice balance between strength (high carbon blades are often brittle) and hardness (harder blades can hold a sharper edge for longer), but is still pretty easy to sharpen, and doesn't go rusty.
GovChristiesFupa · 4 points · Posted at 22:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay. Thanks for that in all seriousness. But it doesn’t seem like a revolutionary design difference, just actually making a better quality product
malatemporacurrunt · 5 points · Posted at 01:15:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah, I'm in total agreement with you there. I can see why you might want slightly different styles based on preference (smaller/bigger hands, width of blade, better grip, etc) but fundamentally it's the same basic design. I guess if I could name any improvement, I'd like a slightly sturdier handle and replaceable blades to minimise the amount of rubbish generated, but beyond that? Most of the 'innovations' I've seen are pretty pointless.
GovChristiesFupa · 1 points · Posted at 15:56:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol my ex girlfriend had this can opener that required the can to be sitting on a perfectly flat surface and it popped the top off from under the rim, so you could “reseal it.” It didn’t really work for shit and I’ve never needed to reseal a can of aboot anything. It ended up falling apart and she pulled out her dollar tree piece of shit that didn’t work at all and just mangled the can and she basically said “see? The other one was way better.”
When I spent the whopping $12 or so and got a normal, reliable can opener her mind was blown. So I think sometimes people buy into the gimmicky shit because it works slightly better than the dirt cheap, garbage quality items they usually buy lol
fuyuryuu · 10 points · Posted at 19:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read automatic as aromatic for a sec there, and lemme tell you, my interest was piqued
But yeah on a serious note there's definitely valuable different designs for people with disabilities for example
GovChristiesFupa · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s actually innovation though. Making a better product from a better idea. It’s still a lot of wasted resources on a product that was never that flawed to begin with
mctheebs · 25 points · Posted at 19:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know people are gonna get big mad about this but what was so eloquently described above is really a feature, not a bug, of capitalism. With the way the current economic system is structured, the incentive isn't to make a quality product that does its job reliably for years and years and years, the incentive is to make the sale. In fact, the crappier and more flimsy a product is, the more likely people will turn around and buy it again because what choice do they have? Especially when the competition is owned by the same parent company.
Pinkfish_411 · 11 points · Posted at 21:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An equally important feature of free market thought would be other producers responding to consumer frustration with poorly products by making better competing products, as we've actually seen in practice in many cases: there's an explosion of interest in durability right now that's being met with growth of certain heritage brands and the introduction of new startups focused on producing more durable boutique products.
Consumers have to actually buy the stuff though, and in many cases, even many consumers who can afford the higher-end products have been conditioned not to spend the money on them. But the market will often find a way to accommodate both types of consumers.
altxatu · 13 points · Posted at 22:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of capitalism isn’t better products or a better service or better anything. The point of capitalism is how effectively can you or a business make money. However that happens, that’s the point.
Pinkfish_411 · 2 points · Posted at 00:36:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not about what the "point" of capitalism is. It isn't the "point" of the market to, say, create a better spatula, but if there's demand for a better spatula, and a better spatula can be produced and sold for prices those consumers are willing to pay, then there will likely be some spatula enthusiast who will go into the spatula business to meet that demand.
Further, in a free market based on voluntary trade, we're free to determine what the "point" of a exchange is. It could be motivated purely by profit, or it could not be. Capitalism assumes that profit is a major motive in most economic exchanges, but it doesn't dictate that it must be the overriding purpose that precludes, say, pride in one's work. Capitalist economies actually tend to work best when virtue supplements the need for profit.
Shutterstormphoto · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the market is saturated, find a new market. Create demand. A new potato peeler will pique enough interest that people will buy it, and thus there is a new market and new demand. And thus capitalism continues to grow.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:54:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Pinkfish_411 · 1 points · Posted at 14:25:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I won't deny that marketing can be manipulative and deceptive, but I'm not entirely sure if this is meant to be a response to the point I was making in the quoted text: which, again, is that a free market per se doesn't dictate that every transaction must be driven purely by an attempt to maximize profit at any cost, and that markets operate more freely when virtue drives us to draw on other values in our exchanges.
mctheebs · 5 points · Posted at 23:24:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, this would make sense if there wasn't also an incentive for businesses to make wages as low as possible for their workers. Being that the majority of consumers earn money to spend on products by trading their time for wages, most consumers can likewise only afford the cheap crap.
Yes, businesses that deal in small durable boutique products can thrive, but the businesses that sling cheap crap are the ones that become the whales. There's a reason why Walmart, Target, and Amazon are the juggernauts.
As for this personification of the market "finding a way" I would advise you to avoid that kind of rhetoric because it implies that the market is rational when it is comprised almost entirely of irrational actors.
Pinkfish_411 · 3 points · Posted at 00:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's nothing about capitalism that prohibits regulations on wages and benefits for workers. Too many critics of "capitalism" seem to think that capitalism only exists in its complete laissez faire variety. But those Nordic "socialist" countries? That's capitalism. Capitalism with extremely strong worker protections is still capitalism.
As far as cheap crap goes, the simple reality is that many people who could pay more for better stuff won't do it, because they'd rather spend their money otherwise. We spend less of our incomes on certain essentials like food and clothing now than we ever have in the history of the world, and many people have come to expect that that should be the case, because they'd rather spend a higher percentage of their incomes on other luxuries. I have boots that cost as much as a new iPhone and buy the cheapest phone I can find and use it until it dies. A great many people would rather have the iPhone. The market has found a way to accommodate both people like me and the iPhone buyers. The iPhone buyers can't really complain that their boots don't hold up as well when they're choosing instead to spend their money or products that simply didn't exist a generation ago, when they're paying less of their incomes for boots than their grandparents did. It's not capitalism's "fault" that their boots don't hold up as long as they'd like when they choose to buy cheaper boots to free up money to spend on non-essentials.
As for markets "finding a way"....well, the way systems work is that even if we're assuming "irrational" actors make up the system, the system still has an emergent rationality. That rationality is not always as efficient as possible, and it doesn't always lead to the greatest prosperity for the greatest number, but yes, markets "find a way" to accommodate diverse consumer demands. Capitalism is exceedingly good at that, and no attempt at a rationally-ordered command economy has ever even approached the level choice that capitalism produces.
mctheebs · 2 points · Posted at 14:37:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I don't really see how this relates to what I'm saying here, but sure. I don't disagree. The trouble is that in America we can't even adopt this Nordic model because agents of capital aka big businesses, wealthy folks, lobbyists, ect, have poured money into the campaigns of politicians who will not make laws to adopt this model.
This sounds.... rational.
How?
How can a system made up of irrational actors suddenly become rational? Trends can emerge from the collective action of those irrational actors but that doesn't make them rational. In fact, you argue it yourself with your example of the good boots vs. the new iphone.
So the markets, which are somehow rational even though they're comprised of irrational actors, aren't the most efficient at meeting consumers needs but also
Why is choice the metric that we decide whether or not a system is working. Why not ability to effectively distribute resources to people that need or want them? Choice does not measure this in any meaningful capacity and it's certainly not the most efficient way of distributing resources. You know what this choice you're describing looks like? It looks like a grocery store with 20 different kinds of ketchup on the shelf and no goddamned toilet paper or bread. It is literally a failure to meet consumer demand.
Pinkfish_411 · 2 points · Posted at 15:51:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My point is that if your concern is that pressure to lower wages is keeping wages too low, we have the option of using strategic regulations to keep wages at a more appropriate level.
Because the operation of systems is not reducible to the actions of individual agents. This is how systems in general work. Like with evolution: the logic of natural selection operates at the systemic level doesn't depend on individual agents acting in a way that's rationally informed by natural selection. Likewise, market rules don't depend on individual agents knowing the bigger logic of markets and acting rationally in light of that knowledge.
But perhaps I just don't know what you mean by "rational" here.
You apparently missed my point with that example, which, as I stated, was that the market finds a way to meet the desires of both types of consumers. People who prefer iPhones can buy iPhones, and people who prefer high-end boots can buy high-end boots. The market has adjusted and optimized to meet both demands.
Ready actual words: "aren't as efficient as possible." As in, not perfectly efficient. But no system is perfectly efficient. Capitalism, however, is very efficient at it, even if not perfectly so.
It's the metric in this case because that's the specific thing I had mentioned when you challenged my statement about markets "finding a way." There certainly are other ways to judge economies besides consumer choice, but this discussion was about cheap junk vs. durable goods, and my point is that market is good at finding ways to accommodate both purchasing habits.
This is beside the point that I was originally addressing, but it's rather absurd to suggest that the market's struggle to adjust at breakneck speed to an unprecedented global economic shutdown is some kind of mark against capitalism generally. It takes well-honed supply chains a little time to adjust to sudden extremely drastic changes in consumer demand, especially when much of the market has been forced to shut down.
Shutterstormphoto · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are completely missing how they became huge. Amazon and Walmart changed everything about how supply chain was done. They min-maxed the shit out of efficiency and made enormous profits off of it. It has very little to do with what they sell.
mctheebs · 1 points · Posted at 14:26:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol yeah, they min-maxed all right.
Minimized employee wages in order to maximize profits.
If you seriously think that Walmart and Amazon could exist in its current state without slinging cheap, flimsy crap, underpaying its employees, and literally working them until they collapse then I got a bridge you might be interested in buying.
Shutterstormphoto · 2 points · Posted at 01:13:49 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Walmart and Amazon built everything by minimizing ALL costs. Shipping, product cost, supply chain, etc, and employee wages was just a basic obvious part of that. But they also built their own fleet (Walmart’s fleet is the largest in the US, if not the world), minimized the costs of that, and figured out lots of clever tricks to make sure customers stay only as much as they need to.
They’re definitely evil, in the sense that they don’t give a fuck about people or their employees, but they also are incredible machines of efficiency tuned to the absolute max.
mctheebs · 1 points · Posted at 15:23:44 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really see how this statement conflicts with my point at all. Yes, of course, they're efficient. Nobody is denying that.
The point is that that efficiency crushes the people that it employs and devastates the community of businesses it operates in all to make very small population of people wealthier.
Shutterstormphoto · 2 points · Posted at 17:48:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does it devastate the community? It closes mom and pop shops that compete, sure. It brings lots of local jobs as well — trucking, cashiers, mechanics, and whatever else. I’d imagine Walmart employs more people than all the mom and pop shops do, and I doubt the other shops are paying better wages or allowing unions or giving benefits.
Amazon pays $15/hr at the warehouses which is very solid. I was paid that much to be a manager at a locally owned business, and I handled 250 contractors across the country.
I think they could do more for their workers, but they do what is required by law. It’s the free market that the libertarians wanted, and this is the result. If you want to change that, vote Democrat and force them to pay a living wage.
Zimbadu · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is that a good thing? Im genuinely curious to know, if you're saying this is a good part of capitalism.
mctheebs · 2 points · Posted at 14:27:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not a good thing is my entire point. It's a very bad thing, actually.
Snarklord · 18 points · Posted at 20:16:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With capitalism* such is an economy based on profit rather than need and improvement
GlasnevinGraveRobber · -4 points · Posted at 21:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who should be deciding what merits "need and improvement"...? It hasn't worked out too well where communist parties have implemented by force what they viewed as the "priorities" needed for society.
microwave333 · 9 points · Posted at 21:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What an incredibly reductive and stupid argument.
Bitcoon · 5 points · Posted at 21:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't you recognize that your reply is even more stupid and reductive?
Call it what you will but the person you're responding to has a legitimate point as to the challenges of a non-capitalist society. There has to be some way of deciding what's worth the time and resources available, and while it's better to base that on actual need rather than pure profit motives, history has demonstrated often enough the pitfalls of that society are not to be ignored.
By responding in this manner, you're effectively calling for ignoring those pitfalls. Because what else are you bringing to the table except a shallow attempt to shut down an argument you don't like but can't be bothered to contribute to?
microwave333 · 0 points · Posted at 21:39:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think I’m reading your butthurt comment your dead wrong lmfao.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your butthurt comment added far less to the conversation...
microwave333 · -1 points · Posted at 21:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not here for a conversation.
I didn’t ask none of y’all a goddamn thing lmao.
MmePeignoir · 3 points · Posted at 22:35:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, no.
Clearly all you are here for is to grace us with your radiant correctness and project your unfathomable intellect.
microwave333 · -2 points · Posted at 22:42:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 3 points · Posted at 21:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that's patently clear, you are too stupid/lazy to contribute anything useful.
microwave333 · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yawn
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
QED
Bitcoon · 0 points · Posted at 21:41:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alright, thanks for being honest about how lazy and ignorant you are~ <3
MmePeignoir · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds pretty much like your average socialist to me. Honest conversation? No no no, can’t let that get in the way of my smug intellectual superiority. If I actually talk to people I might be forced to reconsider my opinions, and we can’t have that can we?
Bitcoon · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thing is, I'm more a socialist than a capitalist. I'm just realistic about what drives people and what kind of balance societies (likely) need to strike. We can't ignore the historic faults of any particular method~
MmePeignoir · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s fine! I’m not saying all socialists are bad. With the definition of socialism being so broad, there’s bound to be some reasonable socialists.
On the other hand, your average eat-the-rich, USSR-praising, capitalism-is-the-root-of-all-evil, Cuba-is-better-than-America socialist is almost always going to be obnoxious as fuck, especially when confronted with the numerous atrocities committed under a red flag in the 20th Century, since smug moral superiority is the best way to cling to dogma and avoid questioning their own beliefs.
microwave333 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or I’m just not here to talk to y’all, and you’re entitled to think I should care what you say.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems that you're too stupid to even do that due to your incessant replies.
microwave333 · -3 points · Posted at 22:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah I’m still here because you smoothbrains need it explained to you.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not "explaining" shit, because you are too stupid/lazy to do so apparently...
MmePeignoir · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you feed the trolls
microwave333 · -4 points · Posted at 22:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yawn, speaking of lazy and stupid, man, you're really only capable of repeating yourself huh?
microwave333 · -2 points · Posted at 21:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn bro that’s crazy
I don’t remember asking
Bitcoon · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did you make that first comment?
Trolling for downvotes?
Rusty668sossity · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is something worth? Whatever someone else is willing to pay for it.
microwave333 · 2 points · Posted at 21:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things capitalists say when they’ve never read any capitalist literature in their lives.
Snarklord · -1 points · Posted at 02:07:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think Russia bringing a country from an agrarian backwater to a space faring super power in 50 years worked.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 10:34:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, and the millions of deaths to achieve it was a small price to pay /s
Snarklord · 0 points · Posted at 15:02:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes because the US isn't built in mass genocide and slavery.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Delusional idiot if you see them as comparable.
Snarklord · 0 points · Posted at 16:39:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You blatantly ignorant if you don't see what the US did to indeginous people as one of the most grave and disgusting injustices in human history. Killed more than the Holocaust, completely destroyed cultures, completely destroyed civilizations, and then act like it was no big deal.
the_ocalhoun · 11 points · Posted at 20:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*wrong with capitalism.
The_Grubby_One · 5 points · Posted at 21:04:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you mean lack of regulations on Capitalism resulting in companies being legally allowed to defraud consumers?
Fuduzan · 3 points · Posted at 21:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surely you aren't criticizing ThE fREe MaRkEt?
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 19:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you meant to say capitalism
kmrst · 7 points · Posted at 20:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only capitalism, comrade.
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:04:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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microwave333 · 3 points · Posted at 21:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making up things to get mad about, wild.
Daddysu · -1 points · Posted at 21:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Downvotes? Are the comrades not a fan of individual opinions? If you look further down I have a comment defending communism against capitalism. Look...your perfect ideology/form of governance/economic system is perfectly valid and a great system...on paper. Unfortunately, we (humans) tend to break anything that we get involved in. Communism has its issues as does capitalism as we have implemented it in America. I can say though, at least not yet (it's probably coming), I can go online and rant, rave, and bitch up a storm about products, city level Gov't, state level Gov't, and federal Gov't with no real fear of getting dissapeared. I don't think you can say the same about communism. I'm not getting into the "communism failed because of capitalist meddling" debate. Regardless of outside state actors, a Gov't decides how it treats it's own citizens...even the ones who criticize it. America has its problems and it just keeps slipping down that slope faster and faster. We've had our share of outside state sponsored interference as well. Hello recent and current elections!! Probably even more than that but we just don't know about it because it was less successful, or more successful if it had an impact and no one noticed. Either way, as little as it may seem like it actually helps, being able to go on public forums, websites, tv shows, news shows, news papers, whatever, and blast the current administration and or ruling oligarchs and not worry about just disappearing is a pretty big damn deal. I'm also not going to get into the Clintons and how their adversaries disappear or even if the same thing happens on the Repube side. There is a big difference between whispers of what happened in the corners of reddit and other sites vs the ENTIRE world knowing and acknowledging that certain governments are actively silencing dissidents through barbaric means.
microwave333 · 0 points · Posted at 21:57:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can literally hear you crying through your unformatted wall of text.
Daddysu · 0 points · Posted at 06:05:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure thing chief, thank you for your witty and well thought out input on the matter. I really appreciate the discourse. Be well.
ph0tohead · 11 points · Posted at 19:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah no that’s just capitalism
SLAPHAPPYBUTTCHEEKS · 14 points · Posted at 19:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
theyre-the-same-picture.meme
throwawayaccxdd · -9 points · Posted at 19:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How's communism going in other countries
SLAPHAPPYBUTTCHEEKS · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know you can be critical of capitalism without thinking communism is a perfect alternative, right? Or are you only able to argue in whataboutisms?
fubufan69 · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wouldn’t know, America “liberates” any country that tries
metric_football · 2 points · Posted at 20:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you mean countries where they implemented some form of communism as an economic/political policy, or countries where they formed a "Communist Party" and ran up a red flag to get the Soviets to give them guns and money?
throwawayaccxdd · -4 points · Posted at 20:18:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why do you think that would be different anywhere else?
metric_football · 6 points · Posted at 20:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people too many people like to go "lol communism bad" as though it were some kind of gotcha moment, without exploring how the countries in question actually worked, or what contributed to their success or failure. This is why "communism hasn't been tried" is a fair counter-argument.
A quick look at communist/socialist countries nets you the following:
Russia- run with the same sort of bastard viciousness as pre-communism, bankrupted by an arms race with the US.
China- run with the same sort of bastard viciousness as has characterized China for millennia. Could be argued that communist/collectivist policies ended up working here, with how they went from agrarian peasants to one of the biggest economies in the world in a few decades, albeit at a tremendous human cost.
North Korea- created as a Soviet puppet state. Degenerated into a complete shithole largely due to being shut off from the world and left with a dynasty of crazy assholes on top.
(formerly North) Vietnam- doing pretty well, actually, but was strictly a "red flag for guns n money" communist state.
Venezuela- bribed populace with oil money to leave corrupt leadership alone. Oil went cheap, country went splat.
Cuba- poor economy because they offended the US and got embargoed to hell and gone. Run by a relatively popular dictator, largely due to a siege mentality.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any positive examples then chief...?
metric_football · 4 points · Posted at 21:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, Cuba should count a positive example- they not only managed to hang on, but actually improve over the years in spite of the, well, spite of their large and extremely powerful neighbor as well as the supposed "damnation" of communism.
China also counts in the positive category- without collectivist action they wouldn't have bootstrapped their way to where they currently are in anywhere near the timeframe they have. You can try to make the argument that their government is cruel and oppressive (and it is), but bear in mind that their previous governments were likewise cruel and oppressive.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Soviet Union bankrolled Cuba's little operation to be a thorn in the side of the USA. There was a sharp downturn once those rubles dried up. They still have a repressive society where political opposition is basically banned.
China also managed to kill millions of their own citizens thanks to blinkered devotion to their hair brained leader Mao. The "bootstraps" to their current economic leaps was ironically done through adopting a more capitalist economic environment, whilst retaining strict political control. They still have a repressive society where political opposition is basically banned.
metric_football · 3 points · Posted at 22:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not saying they didn't.
Not quite. Collective action pushed China through a very rapid industrialization. From there, yes they moved to a state capitalism model, but they wouldn't have had the means to do so at the time they did so without a massive push.
Considering the amount of "Democrats and Republicans are just the same" sentiment, and how protests such as Black Lives Matter were handled, I have to argue that we aren't much better off here.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 0 points · Posted at 22:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough, but regardless of how collective action was used, economic reforms brought them more in line with capitalist countries, with successful companies like Huawei emerging from it.
They have literal concentration camps in China even today.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xinjiang_re-education_camps
metric_football · 5 points · Posted at 22:36:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have literal concentration camps in the US even today.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · -1 points · Posted at 22:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference is those "concentration camps" are for people trying to enter the USA illegally, and they can leave if they leave the USA. China is imprisoning their own citizens in concentration camps. They have no such choice.
metric_football · 3 points · Posted at 22:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're still being run with disdain towards the people in them. As for being "free" to leave, that's not much of an option when the people have nowhere to go, if they've even been informed of the option.
throwawayaccxdd · -1 points · Posted at 20:58:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's almost like communism and corruption are directly tied
metric_football · 4 points · Posted at 21:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean "puppet states" and corruption. Look at South Korea and South Vietnam when they were first formed.
throwawayaccxdd · -1 points · Posted at 21:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So your argument is that every single communist country was a puppet state of the US?
metric_football · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My argument is that puppet states are inherently corrupt. Furthermore, this proves my original point that people just want to say "lol communism bad" without actually understanding the situation.
throwawayaccxdd · 0 points · Posted at 21:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, but what about literally every other communist country that wasn't a puppet state
metric_football · 3 points · Posted at 21:35:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"lol communism bad".
Again, China and Cuba were net gains. Russia did poorly because of being Russia. Then there's Yugoslavia, which nobody brings up in their rant of "lol communism bad", because it was actually done well.
throwawayaccxdd · -1 points · Posted at 21:37:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you fucking kidding me
metric_football · 5 points · Posted at 21:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you actually incapable of reading history?
ph0tohead · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
communism and corruption aren’t inherently tied. correlation =/= causation. capitalism inherently fosters inequality, regardless of corruption.
Daddysu · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm no fan of communism BUT, it's almost as if any form of governance and economic system with humans involved and corruption are directly tied.
throwawayaccxdd · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but transferring all the wealth and possessions away from the people to the state is bound to fail too
Daddysu · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh for sure. Unfortunately with humans involved you can take your pick. Transferring wealth or resources to a corrupt state and get fucked or transfer the wealth or resources to corrupt corporations (who run the state) and get fucked. I'm just saying that these are all great ideas on paper. Until we figure how to start being altruistic as a human on the grand scale, they are all prone to corruption and failure without the good guys (if there really even is such a thing) intervening and resetting things. It's like that saying, bad times make hard people, hard people make good times, good times make weak people, weak people make bad times, rinse repeat.
throwawayaccxdd · 0 points · Posted at 22:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my point of view the thing that causes people to work hard/invent new things/break new records is their own greed. Money was invented to push that altruistic side in people. Money, or the promise of it, is the reason people wake up early and work long hours everyday.
Capitalism "just works" because of that
washbeo2 · -5 points · Posted at 19:55:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Lol cant ask that cause 90% of those countries have failed already
Aww I triggered the basement commies
Snarklord · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weird how communism is bound to fail but the western world has to blockade them and fund rebels every time they pop up.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Funny how the soviet union was similarly funding rebels that they liked to undermine countries they didn't like too...
Only difference is that they had to literally kill their own citizens rather than let them freely leave, whereas people fled to Western Countries, even at risk of death from your communist "paradises"...
Snarklord · 0 points · Posted at 02:08:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I say it wasn't? If by "kill their own citizens" you mean kill people trying to overthrow the government then yes.
throwawayaccxdd · -6 points · Posted at 19:56:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They didn't live to tell the tale I guess you could say
jackmusclescarier · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They had a right wing coup sponsored by the US military I guess you could say
throwawayaccxdd · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funded by jews
Random-Rambling · -1 points · Posted at 20:28:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communism would be perfect if humans weren't inherently greedy as hell.
Pinkfish_411 · 4 points · Posted at 21:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is that any different from any other economic system? Most of them would work just fine if people were virtuous enough not to exploit their weaknesses.
Daddysu · 6 points · Posted at 21:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, can't you say that about capitalism also...or religion...or just about anything? All great ideas on paper...and then you throw us shitheads in the mix and we fuck it to hell.
throwawayaccxdd · -1 points · Posted at 20:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Only delusional people really think the rich would ever cease their wealth
microwave333 · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not voluntarily no. But Communists are well aware of that, and that’s what vanguards and governance are for.
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throwawayaccxdd · 0 points · Posted at 20:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communism is good cuz muh corporations
Gonzobot · 3 points · Posted at 19:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is that nobody needs to sell peelers nor profit on the lack of peeler sales.
mt379 · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. So many useless products that do the same shit. What infuriates me though are the extreme specialty tools people get conned into buying. Avocado scooper, pineapple slicer, garlic peeler, etc. You know what you can use in place of those? Spoon, and knife. Fucking moronic.
evranch · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The funny thing is the origin of many of these specialty tools is in specialized industry where they are very useful. A neighbour and I were just talking about cherry pitters. There is an orchard nearby that makes cherry juice, wine etc. And they have automated pitters that can crank through massive amounts of cherries while you sit at home doing one at a time.
Then someone decides to make a plastic version of this useful device to sell to consumers who don't need it, because they could never justify the purchase of the $2000 industrial unit to pit a handful of cherries once a year.
And another useless kitchen tool is born.
Pinkfish_411 · 7 points · Posted at 21:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cherry pitters aren't remotely useless if you actually cook with cherries. Sure, you can do it without specialized tools, but cherry pitters are make the job easier.
A lot of "useless" tools are only such because many people purchase aspirationally: "Oh, if I only I had the right tools, I'd surely do more baking." And then they get tools and still don't bake.
evranch · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For sure, I pitted many, many cherries as a kid for my grandma to bake with using the plunger style pitters. We had huge sour cherry trees as a shelterbelt on the farm. Hundreds of pounds of cherries.
However I was referring to the hand cranked units that are designed to process a bunch of cherries at once, a consumer version of the industrial unit. Some are good metal units but costly (for the small orchard owner), and some are junk designed to appeal to the lazy that apparently miss half the pits. We honestly could have used a quality hand crank unit for the yearly cherry harvest, but I suspect 99% of people would be fine with the classic plunger pitter.
Laura37733 · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but a coworker gave me an avacado tool and as someone who eats a lot of avacado toast, that thing is the shit. Cuts it open, removes the pit and then scoops out the flesh in nice, perfect thin slices? It's awesome. Would I ever have bought it in the first place? Not at all. But it's definitely worth the drawer space.
Volc_anus · 4 points · Posted at 20:16:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/aboringdystopia
hazeust · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's wrong with branding, lol
mr_birkenblatt · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the rest is planned obsolescence?
pat_the_bat_316 · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When we structure our society almost entirely around making as much money as humanly possible, you get all sorts of businesses that are only there to make money rather than actually create value for society.
Of course, at this point, even if we wanted to change things, it'd be next to impossible to do so given how we, as a society, gauge success almost entirely based on accumulated wealth. If we really want true change then we're going to have to adjust that mindset, which will likely take multiple generations.
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Gathorall · 10 points · Posted at 19:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That the actual product could and should have been of use to society too.
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evranch · 10 points · Posted at 20:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Important to the economy, not to society. A piece of junk as described, designed to be purchased and used once, is simply an example of waste.
Society would actually be better off if the engineers, factories and supply chain were directed towards something useful.
It could be argued if their labour is not needed for something useful it would be better if they simply stayed at home rather than wasting materials and energy producing something useless.
RobotFighter · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That a lot of pressure. So, everything an engineer designs needs to better society as a whole? Who gets to decide? A better potato peeler is a benefit to society in my opinion.
evranch · 3 points · Posted at 23:23:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The discussion was as to intentionally crap products though, designed to sell rather than perform. As the saying goes, lures are designed to catch fishermen, not fish.
It's as simple as that products should just be well designed and built to perform their intended task. If your design performs worse than standard benchmark designs, it shouldn't be released until it works well. With today's rapid prototyping methods, there's really no excuse for products that are ergonomically terrible or break after a couple of uses.
Zimbadu · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You get it! Thanks!
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Zimbadu · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're part of the problem.
evranch · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Describes you pretty well, I'd say.
HelmutHoffman · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Find a way to make money which doesn't require ripping people off with Chinese made junk.
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microwave333 · 0 points · Posted at 21:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m 35, shut the fuck up you goofy ass boomer.
A publically operates product testing union should be the authority on what is and isn’t a useful product. Investors shouldn’t be able to pour money into a company making a product that nobody wants. THAT is how useless shit gets made, so much unnecessary resource waste and pollution.
Watch Shark Tank sometime for an insight, none of them give a fuck about the product being useful, just whether or not they can profit off the short term sales before the company inevitably crashes for being ultimately useless.
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Zimbadu · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Again, you're part of the problem.
microwave333 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally just told you it should be run by the public, people who will actually buy and use the product should determine its usefulness before $100million dollars is pumped into making some shitty plastic potato peeler that will never biodegrade.
The free market will waste money, waste resources, waste time, and damage the environment. As it has been. How efficient is your garbage system when 10 companies all making the same shit product will spend tens of millions advertising against eachother resulting in nothing but corporatist spam.
This might surprise you, dumb fuck boomers like yourself are universally hated, for your selfishness, for you poor educations, and for your behavior.
GlasnevinGraveRobber · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gosplan
Sounds like Gosplan, that was an unmitigated disaster.
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microwave333 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no way this isn’t pseudo-boomer copy pasta, it’s incredible
RobotFighter · 0 points · Posted at 23:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, he’s right though. Not sure what the hell you are talking about.
cutdownthere · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well now you've said that its pretty much bestof material at this point
Deadfishfarm · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? Who the hell doesnt eat potato skins
BeerTheFern · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The story is as old as time, everything around it just changed. The first axe extremely well crafted axe probably spawned thousands of different designs and ideas that failed and everyone went back to the original. Hell, we are still redesigning the shit.
ThereInTheTrees · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
capitalism
Innovate for profit not for good you fools!!
schmengi · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Potatoe Peelers?
BernieOrElse2020 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
capitalism
JonHail · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With people* no supply without demand
altxatu · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s okay to call it what it is, needless consumerism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And it comes down to the simple phrase, "Supply creates it's own demand."
Lord_Ironsbane · 1 points · Posted at 08:33:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism gives you choice! /s
Xacto01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually you could say the same " what's good with society". People are always willing to look for something that works better and they will pay for it. That drives productivity.
Zimbadu · 2 points · Posted at 01:23:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of what was outlined is the fact that often these "better" things never work better and the time and effort was never put into making the product well too begin with.
I didn't expect my slight quip about this to gain so much traction but my thought was really just that society as a whole often expends so much misdirected energy. If we were working on more things that were worthwhile rather than more shitty potato peelers, things might be better overall.
TheCenterOfEnnui · -1 points · Posted at 19:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is this wrong? This is how business works. It's how people have jobs.
ThePrideOfKrakow · 40 points · Posted at 18:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This mindset helps me understand the show shark tank. I've stopped looking at things as good or bad ideas and more of "how many people could we get to spend $30 on this and MAYBE use it a few times."
conluceo · 38 points · Posted at 19:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's the same reason all those really odd diy lifehack channels are popular on youtube. It sucks peeling potatoes, even with a well functioning potato peeler. What we are buying is the idea that a common boring or time consuming task can be made much simpler.
Regarding time used contra cost. That is why I'm baffled when people often hold up the smartphone as the benchmark of superfluous spending. With how much the avarage person uses their smartphone and how essential it is for many things it's probably one of the cheapest things you own.
Alaira314 · 14 points · Posted at 20:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A smartphone is the cheapest thing you own. This year's new model is superfluous, especially when you can buy last year's model at a discount because it's no longer the newest and shiniest thing. That's what people are mostly talking about. I won't say I've never encountered an idiot on the internet blathering about how smartphones are excessive and nobody should own one, because that would be a lie, but it's a very rare opinion.
Now, when you talk about low-income and homeless people, suddenly everyone is judging the value of that phone, which pisses me off. You think you can access your e-mail or job applications from that shitty flip phone? No way! Unless you intend to live at the public library to use their machines(and how's that working out for you this past month?), you need a device that can interface with the internet. It goes beyond just a phone number these days, that's advice from 10-20 years ago. But that's a whole different issue that goes beyond just smartphones.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Tbf the criticism is usually the choice to buy the latest phone rather than a 4 year old one that makes calls/runs a browser just as well
Vitztlampaehecatl · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although even the latest models can often be bought used for less than $500 and they have better speed, storage, and battery life.
tiefling_sorceress · 3 points · Posted at 00:12:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to mention will hopefully last longer than the one that's already 5 years old
cleverpseudonym1234 · 4 points · Posted at 20:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s “superfluous” because prior generations didn’t do it.
I spend much less on my smartphone + bus passes than a boomer did on their new cars + phone bill + TV + cable + everything else my phone replaces, but it’s the smartphone that shows I’m spoiled and don’t know how to spend my money.
NotSoTinyUrl · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The DIY lifehack channels are their own beast, called content farms. They’re designed to exploit the YouTube algorithm. They basically take 15-120 second clips of these “hacks” with minimal voiceover and text, string them together until the video is 10+ minutes long (and more easily monetized), and then do that three times a day, heavily repeating their content.
The algorithm loves the absolute shit out of this and so it recommends these videos to pretty much everyone, which gets them more views, which gets the algorithm to share them even more, etc.
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it's algorithm driven, but people will both click on them and keep watching long enough to be served ads and keep watching. I'm talking about what it is that drives people to even watch them. If everybody ignored them there would be no reason for the algorithm to promote them.
NotSoTinyUrl · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a few reasons:
1) the content is fairly easy to make. This means they can churn out enough fresh content to keep viewers clicking on new videos.
2) because they have so many videos, it assures anyone that has auto-play turned on and is not paying attention will watch a huge stream of only their videos.
3) Their video titles are very clickbaity, drawing further views.
4) their videos have no speech and minimal captions, making them more accessible to people that don’t speak English.
5) Occasionally one of their more batshit hacks goes viral, drawing in more viewers.
The validity or usefulness of the “hacks” has very little to do with how much they’re watched.
ButtStopsHere · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta fund those garage sales somehow
powderizedbookworm · 25 points · Posted at 18:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically, there’s a not insignificant segment of one of the more important areas of a modern economy that is not only useless, they are unsolving resolved problems and making cooking more difficult.
It is always amazing to me that there is a reasonably large proportion of the work force that it would be more productive to just give the same paychecks and sit them in a room with a Nintendo Switch instead of their actual job.
Wootery · 15 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the upside, those people probably have crushingly low job satisfaction.
I got a degree in engineering to make bullshit alternative potato peelers? Gary just finished building a bridge, and I'm still finishing up the peeler. Goddamn Gary.
But it's not Gary. It's the peelers. It was always the peelers.
Gathorall · 7 points · Posted at 19:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
And when he actually puts in the work and designs a pretty neat peeler, chances are that along the way it'll be changed for ease of manufacturing and made of substandard materials so the end products is still crap.
strain_of_thought · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In modern society, when it comes to scarce resources, the resource which is most scarce are resources which are still scarce.
Shutterstormphoto · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are definitely a lot of filler products but I’m not sure they’re actually unsolving the issue. People with no money will buy the dollar store shitty version. People with some money will buy the target version. People with money will buy williams Sonoma version. They all peel potatoes to some degree, but it’s also how nice do they look and how long will they last.
And please don’t post that bullshit about Grimes and his boots. It’s really only applicable to super poor people, and most people could easily stop drinking beer for a few weeks and get enough money for a good product but they just don’t want to.
SchwiftyMpls · 7 points · Posted at 19:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had my IKEA peeler for about 10 years now. Molded green plastic handle, standard peeler blade. Works great, looks like new use it almost daily.
blacktongue · 6 points · Posted at 19:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, the problem is there's no data on what happens to most bad potato peelers once they're purchased. Because who returns a potato peeler? If it doesn't work, you just put it back in the drawer, and to the people that made it, that's as good as a lifetime customer.
thephoton · 9 points · Posted at 19:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every year, probably at least 1% of the world population moves out of their parents' homes and sets up on their own. That's a market for somewhere around 700 million potato peelers around the world. Or anyway 3 million in the US and 5 million in Europe (considering that a lot of the rest of the world is too poor to waste money on potato peelers), with a few more in the rich parts of Asia, and a few more for the rest of the world.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember moving out on my own (about 15+ years ago now) and being floored how many random things I took for granted in my parents’ home.
Then I left the dorms and shit got really real.
Alaira314 · 8 points · Posted at 20:19:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I moved out, I was floored by how much toilet paper cost when you were buying small quantities for one person. My idea of how much toilet paper cost per roll was shaped by my parents purchasing habits, which was to watch those giant packages until they went on sale, and then buy them until the shelf in the basement was full. I think that topped out at around two big packages, give or take. I never saw more than two come home at a time, let's leave it at that. But when I thought about "how much does this roll of toilet paper cost?" I was dividing that bulk sale price by the number of rolls, and getting what seemed to be a reasonable number.
However, that is not anywhere close to what toilet paper costs when you're buying a 4-pack because that's all you're gonna use on your own and there's nowhere to store more than 2-3 extra rolls anyway. I actually cried from the sticker shock, because it seemed so crazy for me to be paying an insane amount of money per roll, just to wipe my butt...and with the cheap shit no less. It's not that I was crying over a $2.99 pack of toilet paper, it's more that I thought it shouldn't be that stupidly expensive per roll and why was it so expensive and what was wrong with the world that I was going to be spending that much money on butt paper when all my life I'd thought it was worth much less money.
SANPres09 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's when you get a bidet and enjoy the negligible cost to poop for the next 10 years.
Alaira314 · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure the university would have frowned upon my installing a bidet in a bathroom that did not belong to me. I don't recall it being explicitly forbidden, but considering some other plumbing object would have had to be unhooked in order to connect it to the water, I think one of the other people sharing the space would have had something to say about it, and it would have landed neatly under the miscellaneous "you know that can't be allowed, so why did you do it?" clause.
SANPres09 · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, I wasn't aware of that. It sounded like you had an apartment or something and bidets don't require any destructive assembly to your existing toilet to install.
Alaira314 · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I've never installed one, but I can't see how it would hook up to a standard toilet without finagling different parts onto it(which is kind of a problem if you're a renter and don't own the toilet). Looks like they hook into the water input, which yeah, you can't undo that super quickly when the "random" room inspection knocks. It's not like a contraband toaster where you can just yoink a plug out and stash it under the bed until the RA's gone.
SANPres09 · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, good point. All I've done to install them is use the water hook up and you install it between the existing lid and the ceramic bowl.
That's true. It's better suited for non-college apartments and houses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:02 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it was "holy shit, how much does food cost?" It's so masked for the most part even through undergrad if you go to a college that does meal plans.
Somehow I managed to live my life partly on a university's dole until after grad school when my wife and I moved to NY for her med school (holy shit has it been over a decade now? Ugh.) We were both constantly stressed about making ends meet between rent (the rent was too damn high!), utilities (how the fuck much does Verizon want for internet?) and food.
What's funny is now we've both managed to land pretty lucrative careers and money is anything BUT a stressor, but I still have the habit of buying stuff cheap and in bulk because GODDAMMIT I WANT THE CHEAPEST MARGINAL COSTS. It gets irrational when I spend an hour at Costco to save a few bucks.
But man, when college kids on reddit just shrug about what things cost I laugh. Wait a bit longer, kids. You'll see.
NotSoTinyUrl · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a market for peelers, it’s just a saturated one. A saturated market doesn’t mean no new purchases ever, it just means the vast majority of people already have one. A saturated market can be a very safe place for one or two companies to exist that produce good, high-quality products, because there are always people who lost theirs or need a replacement.
But that’s not what happened with potato peelers (and most kitchen products). Instead of a few companies making decent peelers, there are a hundred competing companies making increasingly weird peelers that cost anywhere from 50 cents to mechanized ones that cost hundreds of dollars.
Hashmit_Singh · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
don’t even get me fucking STARTED on the DOOM Eternal TV ad spot. rap music instead of metal? RAP MUSIC!?!?
PseudoClarity · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If people are dumb enough to buy the obviously gimmicky products then that's their fault lol
HomelessSock · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sourcing analyst here. I personally select and import 1000s of SKUs every year of general merch to put in stores.
About a tenth of the time, I’ve never held the product in my hands. After several rounds of negotiation with the retailers on what they want a department to look like and the kind of items they want in each bay, at some point we run out of time. At that point, I just send the retailer a picture of the obscure item they say we are ‘missing’ from the program and tell them I got a factory that can make it.
We usually get a sample a couple months before the product actually hits shelves and if it really is complete shit we’ll have the factory redo it. But as long as the store doesn’t complain and the item sells for them it pretty much ends with the customer.
pickup_man06 · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly right. I work for a very large corporate manufacturer as a electrical and mechanical technician. The shit we throw away is insane, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it whatsoever, the barcode came out 1/3 of a blonde c**t hair to the left, so scrap it. We spend so much money basically chasing ghosts and filing paperwork on ridiculous stuff but in the end, you get a working stapler or a roll of tape, and it works, and then you move on. The things that go on behind the scenes to make consumer goods is unimaginable until you’ve seen it for yourself!
RyanFielding · 2 points · Posted at 23:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could everyone have them if every year without fail, millions of people graduate college, enter the workforce and start living on their own.
Trademark010 · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody else said that what they didn't understand was "how the global economy works", and honestly this is a better answer to that question than any if the ones he actually got.
Goddamnit_Clown · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, it's cynical and memorable and quotable, and it's true as far as it goes. But most of the economy does not work like that.
MediocreResponse · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They also don't stamp their brand on the product, so when the product fails, you won't know who to be mad at or who to complain to.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just want a potato peeler that you just put a potato in something, and it comes out peeled. Is it that complicated?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:57:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes.
Potatoes come in many sizes and shapes. It’s the same reason why so much agriculture still requires human labor.
Fusesite20 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or break the moment they're used.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world is broken
BitchesQuoteMarilyn · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or, like when I moved and couldn't find my peeler, bought a new one, and it didn't fucking work because it is one of those pieces of shit that looks marketable. It was the only one they had, and now I eat potatoes with skins on.
homurablaze · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i peel everything witha pairing knife
Wister1602 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy gets it!
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They should last forever
However I moved into a condo with a green bin chute. And that's where my nice potato peeler went... down the chute by mistake
I bought a weird plastic one.
EarlyBirdTheNightOwl · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have a potato peeler.
nuclear_core · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the current design is shit and I can't peel with it. The only potato peeler I've been able to find that works better than just using a knife is about 20 years old and I've never been able to buy one as good.
Febris · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not immaterial, it's detrimental to your own objectives. If you sell a product that lasts a lifetime, you'll only sell it once. If it simply doesn't work at all, you now have an opportunity to sell a slightly less useless item to people who already jumped ship on the classic model that actually worked.
Garfunkles_carbunkle · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fashion over function....and so many people get sucked in by it
geekygirl25 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then why can I not find a potato scrubber with an attached handle?!?! They are all just these weird jar opener pad things or sometimes the same, but with bristles. Can I please at least have one on a plastic stick?
icepyrox · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever anyone thinks that everyone knows everyone in small town X, or doesn't understand how the current pandemic is not getting under control, I think I will start using this as proof of concept. I mean, do you know anybody that actually has purchased that junk? It's selling, so someone is, but who? I guess you just don't know everyone like you thought, eh?
If it wasn't for sites like yelp or tripadvisor, I wonder how many restaurants in tourist destinations could serve actual crap and stay in business through tourists that had no outlet to complain in any manner that would affect future sales.
NotSoTinyUrl · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s really no need to overanalyze the word “everyone”. I just used it as shorthand for “the vast majority of the people who would buy one in the first place”. I suppose I could have worded it more carefully but I wrote the post on my phone in ten minutes without sourcing anything.
icepyrox · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasnt trying to overanalyze anything particular about your post. I was just thinking about what you said and realized that everyone does have a peeler and those newfangled things that look like they work better but dont are everywhere and seem to be selling but I dunno anyone that had bought anything like it. So thinking about who is buying that crap kinda illustrated how few people I actually know.
icepyrox · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasnt trying to overanalyze anything particular about your post. I was just thinking about what you said and realized that everyone does have a peeler and those newfangled things that look like they work better but dont are everywhere and seem to be selling but I dunno anyone that had bought anything like it. So thinking about who is buying that crap kinda illustrated how few people I actually know.
princesselectra · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sigh. I have one of those and have zero idea how it got in my drawer. But it still gets pulled out when someone asks if they can help. Probably because it is bright pink. On numerous occasions I have heard that grunt of frustration and looked over, gently handed them the good old regular guy and somehow Still haven't thrown out out.
Practicalfolk · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had one forever & it worked great. Finally broke & it took a while to find another one that actually works. Shades of the movie Brazil.
The_2nd_Coming · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds appealing.
spacemanspiff30 · -5 points · Posted at 18:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Y style peelers are far superior. Also, it's very likely your current peeler is dull from use and dishwasher wear. They're cheap (like $5) and the Y style sit in your hand and work better than the old style.
*Link because apparently people get really butt hurt about clicking on a long link.
Wootery · 5 points · Posted at 19:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For heaven's sake please tidy up that link!
Fixed link: https://www.kuhnrikonshop.com/original-swiss-peeler-orange/KHN+M2172.html
spacemanspiff30 · -1 points · Posted at 19:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was the first result when I Google y style peeler
Wootery · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well sure. Please tidy up the link to give the real URL rather than the monstrously long GoogleAdServices indirection URL.
thedamnoftinkers · 6 points · Posted at 19:22:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know how you can say that when the usual style of potato peeler requires considerably less wrist action or work and produces excellent results. You have perfect control with it as long as it’s sharp. You just have to be used to it, which takes about two potatoes.
/has peeled mountains of potatoes using all manner of device
ButtStopsHere · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like my old knuckle knicker
Alaira314 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Different people are comfortable with different things. I feel like I would prefer the regular-style peelers(this is the first time I'm seeing the Y-style) because it looks like the Y-style peels towards you and the regular peels away from you. Going away feels safer(probably a psychological holdover from "never cut towards yourself with the knife!" as potato peelers aren't likely to suddenly stab you in the gut by accident), gives more control(at least for me, your mileage might vary), and makes sure the mess is flung sinkward and not onto my pants.
But at the same time, I can see how the straighter motions might be easier for someone who can't do the flicking motions you'd use with a regular peeler, maybe someone with RSI or arthritis in their wrist for example. I'm glad different styles exist, so everyone can find one they're comfortable with using. It's better than having just one that might not work so great for everybody.
spacemanspiff30 · 0 points · Posted at 20:41:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Y style are designed to peel away from you. The angle of the blade is such it woks better going away from you than towards you. You just have to get used to the grip and action, but they're faster and better than the traditional style.
thedamnoftinkers · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have a video, SpacemanYPeeler?
Alaira314 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The link that someone else cleaned up for you(apparently you edited it out of your first post?) shows it being peeled towards the user. You must have a slightly different style if yours goes in the other direction, because this one is definitely a pull rather than a push!
homurablaze · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait pull push??? your suppose to move the potato not the peeler
Alaira314 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not how I was taught to peel. Maybe it's because I have no spatial sense to speak of, so my mom taught me in a way that wouldn't end with the tips of my fingers getting skinned off because I didn't know where the knife was and moved them beneath it? But the way she taught me was to hold the object you're peeling steady and then flick the blade away from you from the wrist, so the peels fall into the sink/bowl/wherever. It gets the job done, and I don't bleed on my food, so I consider that a success. For obvious reasons I'm never going to take a job that involves moving a blade rapidly and efficiently near my hands, because that's just not work that I'm physically(mentally? not sure where my disconnect is, but it's somewhere) equipped to safely perform, so it doesn't really matter to me if it's "wrong" or not. This is the first I'm hearing it might be.
homurablaze · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it works it works im just surprised people pull / push since moving the potato can cleanly cut the skin off in one long strip
Captain_Poopy · 0 points · Posted at 19:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apple's Mission Statement, except for the "cheap" part.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok who the hell needs a potato peeler anyway. Give me a paring knife any day. Been using one over 50 yrs . Works just fine.
marsglow · 0 points · Posted at 22:17:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have a potato peeler. I have a paring knife.
Sunlessbeachbum · 17 points · Posted at 19:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: the peelers that are now standard because they are the most comfortable and (and work best) were actually designed for people with arthritis. But they work so much better so everyone started using them.
Chrikelnel · 14 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shoutout oxo for actually understanding the value of good user experience research
Kombatnt · 14 points · Posted at 19:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I apologize for this, and I wouldn’t have said anything, but you did it twice.
It’s “pored.”
You_Stealthy_Bastard · 6 points · Posted at 19:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents bought a version of the Slap Chop at a mall once. We used it on an onion and it was super dull and got jammed up within seconds. We tried using it again a week or two later after cleaning it and there were still pieces of onion coming out.
IridiumPony · 7 points · Posted at 19:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok in defense of that one, certain peelers work better for certain things, but it's a very niche market. I'm a chef, and I've got several peelers in my kit. Some are better for peeling ginger, some for larger potatoes, some for smaller potatoes, some are heavier duty, some are lighter, etc..
But again that's a really niche market so your point more or less still stands.
conluceo · -1 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know. I trained as a chef and spent about a year working before realizing I made a horrible mistake, that I was way to comfortable and lazy for that type of work and went into academia instead. I peeled my fair share during that year and can comfortable say that a lot of those peelers are simply not fit for purpose.
IridiumPony · 4 points · Posted at 19:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have someone plop a 25# case of ginger in front of you and then tell me that there's not a good and bad peeler for it. Or get through 100# of Kennebeck potatoes with a small plastic peeler.
Don't get me wrong there are tons that are useless, made just for show, but there are definitely some types of peelers that are better for some things and worse for others.
LordBiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A toilet brush, a cordless drill and a bucket with running cold water. Poor man's rumbler
Superb if you're a lazy fuck with knackered hands like me 👍
conluceo · -3 points · Posted at 19:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, but mainly because I'm not American and nothing came in pound-sized boxes and I have never touched or eaten a Kennebeck potato.
I don't argue that there is certain peelers that work better for different things. But that is a niche market, and not for the run of the mill potato peelers you buy at the retail store. And those are the ones I'm complaining about.
JacksCompleteLackOf · 8 points · Posted at 18:50:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Allow me to introduce Lysol toilet bowl cleaner: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5mvYyIj-l8
conluceo · 9 points · Posted at 19:11:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we have a rival here.
LordBiscuits · 3 points · Posted at 22:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This may be UK specific but hear me out.
Radox shower gel. It comes in a little 250ml bottle with a shower hook at the top and a flip cap and non drip release spigot at the bottom.
I have used this stuff for years, it's available everywhere and costs usually a pound or so a bottle, so easy to get etc.
Recently I have found if you leave the flip cap at the bottom open and let the little spigot just sit hung in the shower or whatever it'll oh so slowly drip product in a gossamer thin stream until the bottle is 80% empty.
Now I know I'm not going mad, several of them have done it, various different colours and batches. It's a fault which I believe has been introduced to deliberately waste product so you end up buying more.
It's likely the same with this lysol stuff, only even less well thought out.
amrfallen · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My biggest takeaway from this video is that at roughly 54 seconds in, the auto-generated captions say "here is a quick demonstration of my shoes"
TakeOffYourMask · 4 points · Posted at 19:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please link to an example of a bad peeler, I only know two types.
NotSoTinyUrl · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Potato Peeling Mitts Claims to peel a potato in eight seconds. Works extremely badly.
TakeOffYourMask · 3 points · Posted at 19:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aw but they’re called “Tater Mitts” that’s so cute!
rileyt90 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wha-what is this!?!?
NotSoTinyUrl · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't work
https://www.ahlens.se/INTERSHOP/static/WFS/Ahlens-AhlensSE-Site/-/Ahlens/sv_SE/PDPMegazoom/67APBO7E7S_43103175_stapel_v32_skalare_svart_front.jpg
https://www.pricerunner.se/product/1200x630/1841733821/Westmark-Famos-Potatisskalare.jpg
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcSRRqP3lD-ZHnvSjDftb69djUch1q8Lc7OKhJlJG92VNUW9iehd&usqp=CAU
Works:
https://static.goshopping.dk/products/2000/jonas-of-sweden-klassisk-kartoffelskraeller-10211-03-33995-1.jpg
https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcTCNLmnbyqK29DWkDNIML1946FkiQ6T17p1Ut0sTuhG3WfOkKbn&usqp=CAU
TakeOffYourMask · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first one you say doesn’t work looks like the one I have that works, and the first one you say works looks like one I had that didn’t work. 🤨
bsbbtnh · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kuhn Rikon's swiss peeler is the gold standard in every commercial kitchen I've worked in, and it costs $5 or less.
LordBiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have one of the type in the last link, except with a short bulbous handle that sits in my palm. I think it's meant for people with arthritis. I have a nerve problem in my back, I drop stuff all the time, but never that peeler. It's brilliant
shamusotool · 3 points · Posted at 19:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can make a good potato peeler and people will buy it and use it forever and you can be happy with your result.
You can make a gigantic piece of shit potato peeler and people will buy it, realize it sucks and throw it away.
In both instances you sold a potato peeler. Do you think your profit is greater in scenario A or B?
LordBiscuits · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just do scenario A but also make it break after 18-24 months. People will buy another... Double bubble!
shamusotool · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not from the same brand. You need several brands to operate under.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I worked in advertising for a few years at the beginning of my career. Didn’t take long for me to see how crazy it was. You have creative directors making wheelbarrows of money by bending over backwards to please clients, surrounded by junior creatives petrified of losing their jobs, who will become yes men and women, working 80-100 hours a week, so tired and wired (alcohol, drugs) they’ll feign rabid enthusiasm over a toilet paper ad idea as long as it means they win the clients. I watched an agency go into a full-blown panic over the client not liking the colour of a bikini in a beer ad rather than address the horrible sexism of the idiotic idea.
RobotFighter · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the client wants sex they get sex. Or they will go somewhere else.
graphitesun · 7 points · Posted at 19:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just thought I'd let you know that the the spelling is actually "pored over", in this context, not "poured over".
Not trying to make you feel bad. It's something most people don't know, and we don't often see it written.
Just a friendly FYI. No malice or demeaning attitude intended :)
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 19:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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conluceo · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm generally trying to avoid paying for being the QA and R&D for companies.
spacemanspiff30 · 4 points · Posted at 18:56:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get yourself a Y style potato peeler.
Leftlightreftright · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf is wrong with you?? You gotta have that leverage with your thumb in order to peel it properly. A "P" shaped peeler is the greatest.
LordBiscuits · 2 points · Posted at 22:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truly spoken like someone who hasn't discovered the absolute majesty of the speed peeler.
Leftlightreftright · 0 points · Posted at 00:00:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tf you do with your thumb and the fingers that hold the potato?
LordBiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You cup the potato in your left hand and rotate it as you peel. That way its really hard to overrun and peel your fingers or wrist.
You can also move the object to be peeled rather than the peeler, or even both once you get good.
It's very fast, trust me
Leftlightreftright · 1 points · Posted at 14:28:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you provide a demonstration? lol. Also, can't you do that with a P peeler too?
LordBiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 15:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have already prepared the Easter roast, sorry... Maybe another time!
You can do it with a P shape one I think, but I certainly can't. I have dodgy hands so I need a straight peeler that sits in my palm.
Leftlightreftright · 1 points · Posted at 15:40:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just remembered, doesn't the fact that straight peelers don't have serrated edges bother you? Like sometimes it won't peel because the edge is straight af.
LordBiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 15:48:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not particularly, at least I don't notice the need for one.
Leftlightreftright · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, thanks for enlightening me on the art of speed peeling, lol.
LordBiscuits · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This has been a most bizarre conversation and you are welcome. Lol
streeterk929 · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bought that "Y" shaped peeler with the teeth for grip. My fingers had little tiny tooth holes that bled everywhere. Don't buy one, ever.
DeathToPennies · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These things are where our labor power goes instead of environmental revitalization, building community resilience, and international humanitarian outreach.
conluceo · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if the free hand of the market demand's a cloud connected gold encrusted pet spa that is what we should spend our resources on right? The most efficient use of resources? Right?..
klipshklf20 · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
iowan · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of all those fishing lures that are designed to catch anglers. I've got a bunch of them :/
lucky_ducker · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*pored
watchtheedge · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The pull ones really do work better.
poofybirddesign · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least a few of them are design student projects that they managed to sell. You know the Pedegg? That horrendous foot callous grater? That was originally someone's student design. It was originally made for food.
Yes I'm serious. No, he was not happy when he heard how they marketed it.
seditious3 · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those things, like you see infomercials for, start as small operations. Inventor, a couple of marketing guys, someone to fund it. They're doing direct sales, not going to trade shows and vast consumer testing.
VSM1951AG · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about that every time I see an ugly shirt or tie in a thrift store. That went through, like, 19 levels of approval. Someone said, “I really like that, Bob. Put that in the Spring line!”
conluceo · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody made the three wolves moon t-shirt.
AntmanIV · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as potato peelers go, there are actually 2 standard designs depending on the direction of the blade: horizontal and vertical. Vertical is usually preferred as it offers a bit more control in the same way that a knife does. Horizontal peelers usually have a wider body which is good for those who have trouble with their grip.
Both get the job done and there just isn't much room for improvement outside ergonomics.
no-mad · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Regular potato peelers work in forward and reverse.
riv92 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha! A bunch of years ago I begrudgingly ordered a potato peeler from someone having a Pampered Chef party. I couldn’t attend the party, and felt guilty not getting anything. So, I just told her over the phone, “you know, I could use another potato peeler.” Well, after a few weeks she calls me and the potato peeler is in! She offers to drive it over to my house, I prepare a check to pay her for it, and GUESS WHAT? It was nothing but a plain old dime store metal cheapo potato peeler. I thought it might be a FANCY potato peeler with like a special ergonomic grip handle or something. Nope! That was the last time I ever ordered something from Pampered Chef!
Jthumm · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
are u ok
conluceo · 3 points · Posted at 19:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried running product development that requires a lot of prototyping and depends on a global supply chain during a pandemic? It's not... easy.
Jthumm · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can imagine lol
Fusesite20 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or that the 100 year old vegetable peeler my great grandma used still works better.
MRaholan · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes, the 7 peelers we have at work when 1 actually peels right
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, and nobody ever throws away the non functional ones because it feels like a waste. They are the utensil equivalent of that uncomfortable worn out pair of underwear you save because they are the emergency when you haven't had time to do laundry.
MRaholan · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Yes, I know they don't work but I spent money on them" - Every chef, ever
RobotFighter · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have like 5 coffee makers at work that everyone is too scared to throw away.
modloc_again · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My point of reference is a toothbrush. Please, engineers and such, move on to something else for the betterment of society. Source: years ago my dentist said I was brushing too hard and he gave me a soft bristled toothbrush. I asked why they sell medium and hard then. His answer: marketing. This stuck with me for more than brushing teeth.
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have that much of a problem with that, since it's generally a healthy activity and people like pouring over stuff like that. It's like all the middle aged engineers who buy a super expensive bike and then spends a lot of time buying and/or talking about modifications and gear for cycling. Technically it's a waste, since they could just ride just about any decent bike to work but hey, if they put 10k in every day and race each other it keeps them in shape and healthy.
haf_ded_zebra · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you mean the one that looks a little like a razor - blade horizontal- instead of a straight stick with a vertical blade- I believe it is a German design originally, AND it works a whole lot better than the old fashioned one. It’s a PULL, not a push.
rocklikeastone · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same except also for those little tiny fake succulent plants in a fake mini planter with plastic dirt. The kind someone actually buys and puts on their desk in their cubicle. Someone pitched this item to be sold somewhere. Or it was part of a plan, like Target Dollar Section managers thought “succulents for fall” and sent a teammate to Hong Kong to source out the right factory that could make these limited time dollar section fake succulents for a penny a piece. Someone drew that. Some made the mold. Someone figured out how the plastic dirt snaps into the plastic planter. It was approved or not approved. Changes were made. Thousands of them were made. Then put on a big shipping boat. And then got loaded on trucks across the US for shipping to stores. Someone bought it because it’s just a dollar. Times thousands so target makes money. It sits on their desk until they move or are fired and it ends up in the trash in the landfill where it will be dug up by generations from now and analysts will explore the metal state and nature depravity humanity faced that they needed these support plants.
lock5446 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like at all 😆
sacruiser · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, mine are in the bottom of a drawer. Red, Blue Yellow , and Black I think. I have only tried to use them a few times. I have no idea how that man on the commercial uses them so effortlessly. I got a second set for my grown daughter, and she has not used hers either. I feel like such a sucker.
funffunfundfunfzig · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this comment more than I can explain. It confuses me that I read it and I feel seen. So..am..Am I...am I a potato peeler?
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 20:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are all potato peelers in this blessed pandemic.
Bachasnail · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean there are actually a lot of stupid commercials that are honestly products for people with disabilities, not really your fully able-bodied human.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say what you say I use my electric potato peeler all the time and it’s the best thing ever. Especially on Thanksgiving
TheDocZen · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are selling the sizzle, not the sausage.
smileybob93 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you talking about Y peelers? Because they're superior
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, they seem to have the same basic functionality with a swiveling blade with a peeling slot in the middle. Never used them myself but they seem to be functional.
ParkerZA · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You seem to know a lot about the whole process.
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do related work, but not really this type of high volume retail sourcing. Take it with a pinch of salt.
murrimabutterfly · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This kind of reminds me of our can opener. It’s supposed to a safer model that won’t produce sharp edges. Plus, it looks sexy.
Problem is, it’s not intuitive. We actually had to google how to use it after struggling for an ungodly amount of time. Even after discovering The Way, we still struggled for a bit. Every time we have a house guest or house sitter, we have to text them a video showing how it’s done. We forgot one time, and the house sitter—my brother’s friend—called my brother for help, then just basically said fuck it and bought a new one.
Grown ass adults came up with this design, yet no one can figure it out without instruction. What kind of bullshit is that?
thiosk · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the oxo brand peelers and other implements were designed specifically to aid people with medical conditions like arthritis. The larger handles and soft plastics were helpful for people with these conditions but it turned out a lot of other people liked them too.
RobotFighter · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I seem to now buy only oxo cooking utensils. I didn’t do it on purpose but they put out a good product.
Velvet_Daze · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the best humanity can do
loonygecko · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They watch their stats to see if sales go up. If you see that commercial for a long time and often, probably that stats are showing increased sales. They don't care if some peeps hate it or not, they just look at the numbers.
HeartofSaturdayNight · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Had the standard potato peeler for years. Recently switched to a Y shaped one. Changed the game for me
omgwtfidk89 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am going to save this not because it funny but i believe it to show case the process of creating a product that i could use later. When i get the idea about invented something.
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I do product development it's not on this huge retail scale that I described here. Take it with a grain of salt.
Also, defiantly try it. There is such an enormous amount of work into even the most basic of products. You know those basic cardboard boxes with styrofoam cutouts that just about everything comes in? That's career in designing those things. Of course you will never do everything yourself and it's a lot of ad-hoc solutions in the beginning. You make prototypes yourself and then you realize why it's a career to to them properly.
You have something that doesn't exist, and you make it so it can be bought in a store. It awesome. Best job in the world (for me at least).
wowmyidsucks · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, we own a potato peeler and we own a good potato peeler. The difference is that the newer one comes with a swiveling peeler and the original is a static metal peeler. That swiveling metal peeler piece literally makes the other one obsolete in comparison. There is actually a significant difference in this example. That being said, I get what you are saying and agree 99% of the time.
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I'm talking about the functional potato peelers I'm talking about the swivel ones, so we are in agreement.
Edit. O shit I didn't realize the classic stainless swivel type were designed and built in Sweden originally. That's why I consider that the "basic" one and strange fixed variants to be strange oddities.
bingbongtake2long · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well...it’s because the guy at the top thought it was a great idea and wanted to get into the potato peeler market and everyone else said, “Yes, man”
Neveronlyadream · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of those products are designed for people with limited mobility that can't use regular tools.
Of course, that doesn't sell. If you market something to people with arthritis or another disability, you're only going to sell it to them and only if they don't have too much pride.
If you market it as some next big fad that will save everyone time, you make a lot more money.
jtl3000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's used for cheese also it's not strictly a potato peeler
TeaDidikai · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those designs aren't for you. Most of the redesigned convenience tools (potato peelers, sock holders, magnetic screen doors, gizmos and gadgets) are for people with various disabilities and are designed to make their lives easier.
I can open and close a screen door, no problem. Someone who has to be on crutches going through the magnetic screen door no longer has to juggle their crutches and the door.
WoodyWoodsta · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same applies to the second type of tin opener that cuts the top section off the tin? The vertical tin opener WORKED PERFECTLY!
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My grandmother had wall mounted one that worked flawlessly for 60 years. It was also designed by an former prince of Sweden. I don't much care for our royal family but I will always be thankful for that tin opener. It was really good.
Dogboy123x · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have been the man standing in the booth. Trying to sell the Black & Decker Expresso Mio, some plastic one cup coffee maker that went into the microwave. It came out of the microwave like a volcano spitting 1000 degree coffee. No one could make it work correctly. Everyone got burns. It's like the hot dog machine in Arrested Development.
We also had Frazier's dad's dog at our booth. He was a very good dog and knew a lot of tricks. He was smart enough to not even try to make a cup of Expresso Mio coffee.
B&D also had the burn your house down griddle then. The dial showed settings between one and ten but that was incorrect. The real settings were off and burning like the face of the sun so hot that your plastic handles will definitely be misshapen.
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never see so many people as booth men who manage to combine both looking dead inside, being surprisingly chipper while also giving a strong "Buy this shit or not I don't care at least there is booze tonight and that skanky looking electrolux girl from two booths over have been giving me horny looks all day"-vibes.
Dogboy123x · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I resemble that remark.
I like to think just looking dead inside is what I aspire to versus chipper. No one has ever accused me of being chipper. Lazy? Sure. Hungover? Plenty of times? Still drunk? A handful of times when I was younger. But chipper? Fuck you very much.
Us boothmen are a sensitive sort. It's salespeople by the way. Boothmen isn't a term.
conluceo · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always imagined it was a subset of salespeople, like normal salespeople sat in a nice office somewhere and then they sent a scared intern down the basement to ruse the boothmen when it was tradeshow season.
Dogboy123x · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big trade shows are usually all hands on deck.
cheesedanish93 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a kitchenaid 'potato peele'r. I use a paring knife for 90% of my peeling, but when I have to peel cukes, carrots, zucchini, or any other long vegetable I reach for the peeler. It's fast and efficient. More people need to learn paring skills because honestly it's relaxing. I just peeled 15 beets, it took less than 10 minutes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picks up old paring knife.
Got'cha poetato skinna righ'heree
underworldconnection · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol why the fuck would I peel a potato? It's the best part of the potato. When I make shit with potatoes, I just leave the skin on. Surely there's other folks who operate like this. Plus peeling potatoes sucks.
SueZbell · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Much prefer the fixed peeler to the wiggly one.
Verily_Amazing · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this in George Carlin's voice. 10/10 would do again.
conluceo · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not once did anybody take the time to stop and say - quote - "Hey, I actually tried to peel a potato with this and it didn't really work... Like at all" - end quote.
Edit. Wrong Carlin, but I will stand by my mistake.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ngl a good kitchen utensil gets me a little erect. I got a $1 potato peeler from Walmart AGES ago and I’ve honestly never found a better one.
Lumpawaroo · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The story behind this is actually pretty cool. Most people used the old kind and thought "this is pretty hard, but it's easier than using a knife." The easier to hold design came about because a designer and his wife were making dinner one day, he asked her to peel potatoes and left to do something else. When he came back he found her crying because she had arthritis and couldn't peel them, so he designed a version she could use. It brings up an interesting design principle: design something for people who will have the hardest time using it and it will probably be easier to use for the whole population.
Altenon · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a young engineer is this is something that genuinely baffles me. Behind every single object is a huge operation. Is there really a design review behind every door knob? Every spatula? Every light bulb? Every pencil holder? There are MILLIONS of these things; different brands, colors, forms, materials, etc. How are there enough engineers 1) quantity-wise, and 2) that are actually interested in these jobs designing the mundane?
usernumber36 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
can openers.
lala989 · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I may have this backwards but I thought I was the only one who couldn't use the potato peeler with the blades that are all wobbly. I need that thing to stay still!
LoisCIB · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have bought a few carafes or pitchers that are like dribble cups. They are impossible to pour from the pitcher or carafe into a cup or glass. I always think "How hard would it have been to test this? all you need is some water and a glass."
grubas · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see you've bought OXO
Razir17 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing with can openers. So many shitty plastic ones that break but the good old fashion metal with rubber grip ones last decades
cbgv · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Titan Peeler is the best peeler.
hitemlow · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best thing I've ever found to peel potatoes is an apple corer/peeler I bought from Chicago's Chinatown for $2 about 7 years ago. It doesn't wibble-wobble like the usual crap ones, so it actually peels a solid strip off, not tiny little bits here and there, and the sharp coring tip makes removing eyes and blight a breeze.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this would be addressed by the engineering design and the "went to QA" part of your post.
However, as your post shows, there are a lot of steps after that and the original product can be horribly disfigured at the end of the process, especially if management is not listening to the engineers.
xHECKx · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It did exactly what it was designed to do. It sold.
ninjagrover · 1 points · Posted at 06:59:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you post, but also want to say the Victorinox rex peeler is one of the best peelers I’ve ever used. I’ve had mine for 10 years plus and it cost like $7.
York93 · 1379 points · Posted at 16:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one, yes! I don’t get it either.
To add a maybe different perspective about the commercials that aren’t extremely terrible but just okay and maybe kinda dumb. You gotta think about “who” they are marketing to. If you think it’s dumb then they probably aren’t marketing to you. A commercial like that would seem dumb to you but really vibe with the intended target audience.
But really there are some commercials out there that boggle my mind with how terrible they are.
wifespissed · 460 points · Posted at 16:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least one person made my yearly salary bringing this piece of shit to the air waves.
dkd123 · 21 points · Posted at 18:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people in media production don't make a lot.
MenTooMvmt · 10 points · Posted at 19:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about it this way: the stupider it is, the more people remember it. If twice as many people remember it, they're bound to get something out of it.
Farisr9k · 5 points · Posted at 22:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's also not forget that brands outsource their marketing to agencies almost exclusively these days. And they will find a cheap agency with quick turnaround who will just get it done. And then they act surprised when their commercial looks and sounds like every other commercial.
ecp001 · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remembering it isn't the same as buying the product. I still remember a commercial from over 50 years ago that had chimps playing drums, the sound track was "Red Rose Tea" repeated for the length of the commercial. Never have and never will buy that product. Don't know how anybody thought that would sell tea.
joeschmo945 · 23 points · Posted at 16:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a lot of dumb people out there.
[deleted] · -9 points · Posted at 18:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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LittleKitty235 · 4 points · Posted at 18:56:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the point is that a lot of commercials are so bland, no one remembers them. I'm sure we have both watched billions of dollars in commercials and have no memory of them or the product.
Intentionally creating really bad commercials isn't a bad strategy.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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eddyathome · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not the target audience if you took the trouble to get an adblocker.
Buddahrific · 5 points · Posted at 18:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
And the reality is, they don't actually need to market effectively to any market via the commercial to get it on the air. They just need to market the commercial itself to people who decide whether or not to fund it. And that question itself could be based on the merit of the commercial idea or who promises the most personal benefit to the decision makers, and those who win on the latter don't even need actual marketing talent.
It's so hard to judge how effective advertising is anyways, they could completely flop but then just argue "it would have been even worse without the ads" when sales don't meet expectations.Edit: Retracted last point, statistics can give an idea of success related to the ad.
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 3 points · Posted at 19:31:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You realize that all of that is quantifiable, right?
aquacarrot · 8 points · Posted at 20:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is my job. I take media data and sales data, and run a regression model to figure out the ad’s effectiveness.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I get into that line of work?
aquacarrot · 5 points · Posted at 21:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can get a degree in data analytics. It helps if you know a programming language like R or SAS but it’s not a requirement(at least for my job). Basically you need to have a degree, and be good at math and critical thinking.
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks.
Buddahrific · 0 points · Posted at 21:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I'll retract my last point, after the fact success can be measured. But I'll stand by my point that going in, networking plays as much of a role as any merit an ad might have as to whether it gets run in the first place.
madevo · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is all quite false. Especially when it comes to digital advertising,every metric can be measured and is if the company knows what it's doing. They can track everything view time to how many and who went through the full cycle and made a purchase etc.
Hotshot2k4 · 5 points · Posted at 19:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the worst high-budget commercials are a result of either the marketers not actually understanding who they're marketing to, a "don't rock the boat" business culture, or some combination of both.
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can tell you with near certainty the design firms on jobs like that are hamstrung from the jump, plus, 12 middle managers and CEO’s have had their grubby little hands all over it.
cjc160 · 13 points · Posted at 18:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, because you think a commercial is dumb, you noticed it. The ad worked then.
If it was something you were in the market for you now know about it. Mission accomplished
XenosInfinity · 15 points · Posted at 20:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not if it causes you to actively avoid their product...
IdreamofFiji · 9 points · Posted at 20:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Same fallacy as "no publicity is bad publicity"
Nope, I'm never ever buying Liberty Mutual car insurance just because of their commercials.
Montigue · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a reason that to this day I will remember Puppy Monkey Baby.
cjc160 · 2 points · Posted at 00:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And Barq’s root beer if you’re old enough to remember
ghigoli · 4 points · Posted at 19:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people try to bank on notoriety. It doesn't matter if the commercial is good or bad its whether it goes viral and sparks a reaction. Some concept applies to Youtubers.
makemisteaks · 4 points · Posted at 21:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there’s really nothing to get. It’s exactly like every other job. Someone higher up eventually made a stupid call and everyone below had to go along with it.
I recently did a project for a well known company. 1 million euros it cost to set up a series of films, shot over 8 days. Every single person on set thought that what we were doing was shit. Actors, director, photography director, creatives, production. You name. And I mean, absolutely mind boggling shit. The kind you hope no one sees and you most definitely will never stick in your portfolio. But the client approved the films that way (even when we fought tooth and nail to convince him otherwise). Eventually you just gotta suck it up.
That’s it really. OP seems to assume that everyone making a commercial agrees that what they’re doing is awesome. Truth is, everybody knows when it isn’t. We just can’t say it.
Domonero · 5 points · Posted at 19:00:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is “who” to market for but also in a time limit like those quick YT ads AND you have to please the rich old dude higher ups who think they know best about ads just because they’re paying for it
Leviathan666 · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing you have to remember about commercials is, they don't have to be good. They just have to be memorable. A commercial that's so bad it sticks with you well after you watch it is actually a good commercial. It did its job. You watched the same shitty ad for legal help to the point where you've memorized the phone number involuntarily. Now what happens if later on, you happen to need legal help and you don't have a lawyer? Well, you have that number memorized because of that god awful commercial they keep playing, so you have no choice but to call them
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are entire brands of vehicle I wouldn’t even consider because I would be embarrassed to be associated with their marketing. Chevrolet, for example. Sometimes it’s as though they’re trying to keep you away.
loonygecko · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, hence why so many commercials portray men as idiots, women do more of the shopping...
Ehalon · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awesome point, agree totally. Also noticed (apologies if already mentioned, writing before I forget) - do you notice how your brain remembers cheesy, shitty ads? There was a 'thing' I'm sure starting up to 5 years ago about 'Annoyance Ads' - you it annoyed you, but you remembered it.
Neither of these tactics work on me, I'll pay me for a competitor's product than fund these arseholes 'cos I can be REAL petty.
Peace X
DISCLAIMER For Anyone Bothering To Read This Shite - I'm fully aware of the Dunning-Kruger effect, and am almost certainly stupider than The Average :)
hydrowifehydrokids · 2 points · Posted at 12:40:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so my grandmother regularly tells me to look up or come into the room because "her favorite ad is on," or mentions that they got rid of one she liked, or that this version isn't as funny or whatever. You wouldn't believe the things she actually cares about in them. A bunch of shingles come off a roof in an animation and turn into a bird, a woman does a horribly cringy over- exaggerated "oopsie" face, they show a dog for 1 second in a car ad.
So not only are these marketing people getting my gram, but now they're getting me, because gram forced me to watch it. hahaha
York93 · 2 points · Posted at 13:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is gold. I love your gram!!
hydrowifehydrokids · 2 points · Posted at 13:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a car ad where a dog gets in a canoe and goes down a river, and you bet your ass I've seen that ad like 100 times now hahaha. And she loves it just as much every time
Edit: It's a welcome break when we're watching two hours of Covid news though
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's it, exactly.
sadwer · 2 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to know the people who the Quiznos hamsters were marketed to. I just know I haven't been in a Quiznos in like 15 years and if I were looking to franchise a sub place, they'd be at the bottom of my list.
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The-Rocketman3 · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sadly that works for most people , If I hate an add I will go out of my way to avoid the product even if it is something I like
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m betting you avoid far less products than you think.
The-Rocketman3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet avoid adverts much more than most people. So if I do see an add that turns me off a product I am pretty aware of it , and it just doesn't have to be an add , it could be something stupid said by the company or someone from the company .
W8sB4D8s · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you see a commercial a lot, it's because it works. Which means it's not a bad ad. An ad isn't made to be art, but to create action. Some are made to be "art" but that's only to create some action in themselves. It's all about connecting an idea to an audience.
Massive-Risk · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't it really hard to market to a certain, specific demographic though? Like peanut butter on a piece of bread, the further you spread it, the thinner it gets. If a commercial is going to be shown to a large audience, a company has to make it as professional and boring as possible to not offend as many possible customers. When you try to have a commercial trying to reach a specific demographic, it doesn't always attract the audience you're actually trying to convince to buy your product. An example of these are commercials for restaurants, general goods and everyday items. Being friendly with a simple slogan to attract pretty much everyone, but a commercial for something like call of duty is attempting to reach a mature audience that still play video games but in reality they are reaching younger kids and teenagers that can't actually buy the game because they are too young for an M rated game and their parents have to buy it even though they think it's dumb.
opensandshuts · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Motaur"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might be jumping in at the wrong end here but I think advertisements aren't really designed to "make sense". Quite the opposite, in fact.
I think they're meant to trigger an emotional response and bypass the conscious part of your mind. They're meant to insert an image or thought into your mind without your realising it at all.
The "dumber" the advertisement is probably the better it works. It just sinks into your mind without triggering any conscious argument against the product.
CumboxMold · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing I have never understood as long as I've lived is commercials and TV shows that use babies and toddler-aged kids that can barely talk to promote the product or create hype on the show. Remember America's Funniest Home Videos back in the 90s, where all you needed to win the $10K or even the grand prize on the "all-star" shows a few times a year, was a video of a baby falling asleep on their high chair? And when you were watching the three finalists and one of the videos was a baby falling asleep you just KNEW that one was going to win? Everyone I knew thought it was obnoxious.
Car dealerships and local businesses using kids that definitely aren't old enough to understand the words they're saying in their commercials, and then whatever they're saying sounds like mush. Everyone I knew thought they were incredibly dumb, even parents of young kids. In some cases, they even found it exploitative. Even people with severe baby fever hated those commercials.
I didn't meet anyone who found this cute or endearing until I worked with a bunch of older women, and by then I was almost 30. I was genuinely curious why the older women found it cute and they said "It just is!" No real answer. That's not a very large market either, and throughout my whole life most people I know have found them annoying, so why do they keep existing?
Product_of_purple · 249 points · Posted at 16:25:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit, put my diary back where you found it!!
This is precisely what I think when I see one. How everyone agreed that this dumbass commercial is what they legitimately wanted to convey.
karmapopsicle · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always find it fun to try and figure out which demographic is actually being targeted with ads that seem dumb or out-of-place. It's most obvious on broadcast/cable TV which personally I don't use so I'm only exposed occasionally at social gatherings and what not. Consider though the "dumb" ads that you see across multiple channels and for extended periods of time. Sure sometimes that might just be poor management decisions getting stuck in contracts and failing to recognize the failure of the ad, but other times what seems hilariously dumb to you might actually be a runaway success driving business from the target demographics.
In a world now so thoroughly saturated with precisely targeted ads I think a lot of people have forgotten (or never even known) a world in which targeting was primarily a question of print vs broadcast, and picking a publication/area/production in that medium whose audience most closely matched the target demographics for the ad.
kokoyumyum · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cialis and a couple in unplumbed bathtubs. WTF? Of WTNF?
Creature_73L · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a journal! -Doug
FritoLeigh02 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Holy shit, put my diary back where you found it.” I love this and would like to thank you for not replying, “this.” I’m not sure why but I don’t like people who do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you keep seeing an ad no matter how bad it is, it means it's working
Donotbanmebeeotch · -1 points · Posted at 19:03:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People genuinely still watch tv? Most people I know stream the show they wanna watch have Hulu /Netflix . I haven’t had cable In years.
Product_of_purple · 3 points · Posted at 19:03:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for sharing.
Donotbanmebeeotch · -1 points · Posted at 19:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amen
gravity_loss · 20 points · Posted at 17:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tmrDypTB_Y0
I don’t watch broadcast television anymore. When I do catch a game or something, the ads are like watching interdimentional cable.
wolfchaldo · 5 points · Posted at 19:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now that's a commercial that would really get my attention
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One professor of semiotics once told me that if I don't understand or don't like one ad, I'm probably out of the target group. He showed the class some ads and explained them to us. Great lesson, but obviously some ads are still badly done.
neocommenter · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those commercials that are just two people screaming at each other in annoying voices! Why?? I'm not even going to hear the product because I'm scrambling as fast as possible to turn it off. Who could that possibly be for?
HutSutRawlson · 201 points · Posted at 17:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can somewhat explain this. Creative people with talent don’t want to make commercials. Many of them obviously do, but anyone who can make their career work without doing “hack work” does it, and many people turn it down even if the pay is good. Or they phone it in and save their best effort for more creative projects. Consequently, you end up with commercials made by people who either aren’t the best at what they do, or aren’t doing their best.
The other factor is that the non-creatives who manage budgets often don’t appreciate the time and expense that goes into making even a short commercial, and force people to cut corners.
sudonem · 276 points · Posted at 17:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also clients are bullshit.
They say they want truly creative work, but when you actually present it they are too chickenshit to actually take a risk, so instead what you get is watered down milk toast variations on concepts they’ve already done in the past.
But ultimately you’ve got to pay the bills so there’s only so much fighting for your work you can do before you just have to say “fuck it” and let the client have their boring ass project.
GamerLeFay · 177 points · Posted at 18:41:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Milquetoast
sudonem · 18 points · Posted at 18:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks!
I’d only ever heard the phrase, never read it.
powderizedbookworm · 14 points · Posted at 19:03:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, “milk, toast” is basically the epitome of boring. Almost as perfect in the picture it paints of a moment and a life as Nabokov’s famous “picnic, lightning.”
sudonem · 9 points · Posted at 19:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. Its a totally interesting eggcorn when you start to dig into it.
trynaeat · 13 points · Posted at 19:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's also literally where the name milquetoast comes from
-Hefi- · 6 points · Posted at 19:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Milk STEAK however..
TrainedToFail · 3 points · Posted at 19:49:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spoken like a lactose tolerant person.
inkwisitive · 2 points · Posted at 21:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve only ever read the phrase, never heard anyone say it over here in the UK
sudonem · 0 points · Posted at 21:39:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cool I guess?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/boneappletea
ContemplativeOctopus · 4 points · Posted at 21:47:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're gonna hit him with the "well akshually", you should know that the name "milquetoast" actually came from a term before that comic existed, which was "milk toast".
khaosdragon · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll have mine boiled over hard, with a side of your finest jelly beans, served raw
sinnerofhearts · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Til..
JohnnyEagerBeaver · -1 points · Posted at 19:56:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it’s a bleached out, soggy, flavorless, mush of shit......Milk toast.
grayum_ian · 15 points · Posted at 19:10:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the real answer. "Creative people don't want to make commercials" is total bullshit, I've worked in advertising for over a decade and there are tons of creative people. The entire process is broken, unless you have the rare relationship where the client just trusts the agency and lets them make what they want to, but that doesn't happen anymore. It gets watered down 50 times, then the client has to put their mark on it and changes some core aspect making it total garbage.
sudonem · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. That’s why I left and now work in the film industry. I still work on commercials and advertising campaigns from time to time, but I get to focus on my little world (which is largely on set color grading) so my client interaction is now down to a minimum.
Which is nice. :)
grayum_ian · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would love to do that. I've been off for 2 years looking after a baby but I'm a digital strategist. I've filled my time with developing a game, but if that doesn't work out, I really don't want to go back to the same stuff.
sudonem · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well counterpoint - I’m effectively unemployed until further notice because every single production has been put on indefinite hiatus or cancelled until the health crisis passes.
So... that is less fun.
grayum_ian · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true, but this is a bit unforeseen. Normally you'd be pretty happy, I assume.
sudonem · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most days for sure.
I haven’t had an “office” to go to in years. Some times I miss the consistency. Usually not though.
grayum_ian · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I miss being a digital strategist sometimes, you get to learn the most about what's going on, you find things the client isn't able to see because they're too close to see. Then you get to be the point person throughout the project. I miss that feeling, but not long hours, asshole clients and dickhead coworkers...
BBS- · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. A lot of creative people want to make commercials. Getting into the the creative department of an ad agency is incredibly hard, because so many people want want to work in one.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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sudonem · 4 points · Posted at 18:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeeeeeep
TheArchitect_7 · 4 points · Posted at 18:47:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Work in marketing. This person is 100% right.
actjdawg · 3 points · Posted at 19:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically clients don’t know what they want 95% of the time
Wootery · 2 points · Posted at 19:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a well-studied problem. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Requirements_engineering
R3AL123 · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Well, no, no. You don’t have to be waving. That was just what they did. You guys can be clapping. Sitting. Standing outside, inside, whatever. This is where you really get to be creative.”
Wootery · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you get them to admit they don't mean it before actually doing the work?
Perhaps give them a few examples of successful creative ads (Brawndo, Old Spice) and some examples of creative unsuccessful ads, and ask if they really want to take a chance.
sudonem · 3 points · Posted at 19:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As already stated, the trouble is that even if you only have one client contact, it ends up becoming design by committee because each of the client’s internal stakeholders end up needing to have input.
Not because they have any perspective or qualifications, but because dick swinging is necessary within the corporate structure.
Because of that their ideas are dumb/bad and out of touch with the entire context of the campaign so things get watered down.
To be fair, no matter how good or creative the work ends up being, someone somewhere will write a letter or an email and complain, and the client has to deal with that, not the agency.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brand equity I rate. 1 wrong step and you're a global trend with millions trashing your brand.
Look at Gillette. Bold idea... Backfired.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that has a lot more to do with it than anything else. I've done music for some commercials, so it's my only perspective. The musicians who work in that field are ultra talented, but you're not hearing the best of what was pitched...just the watered down version that the non-musician clients could all agree on
DJ_Molten_Lava · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's this 100%. There's a reason all car lot ads sound the same.
2rio2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea, from experience the clients often have the terrible ideas and feedback too that make the commercials such a bad experience to watch... but shockingly it still works in many cases. The human mind is much more of a sponge to information than people want to admit. Just lodging a product in enough minds has enormous payout opportunity.
boldkingcole · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of the things I love about working in direct response advertising. The whole attitude is "I don't give a shit what it is, I only care if it makes me more money". So you test stuff, no opinions required, it's a good ad if it sells a lot, numbers don't lie And most of the time, what works is a no nonsense ad of someone taking to the camera about what the product is.
There's some more creative ones but it's mostly more old school advertising like "this detergent will make your clothes cleaner... Thats it"
Obviously still lots of bullshit around but way less than traditional advertising, from what I've seen
Ehalon · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely, hence why there are some truly stunningly creative ads out there that we all remember - I guess before CEOs were also bean counters (accountants - don't know if this phrase is known outside of the UK..).
An example from the wonderful Tony (RIP) Scott.
P.S. - Yes, Gary Oldman is playing all the parts except the Devil. Yes, including Danny Treju and James Brown (like how Gary is intentionally slurring so they can bullshit James 'What The Fuck is He Saying' Brown as to why they need subtitles! I'm guessing...but I think it was done.
Peace X
ThrowingChicken · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. I didn't work in ad for very long, but one instance that stood out to me when I did was when our creative director was on the line with Miller discussing our Cinco De Mayo pitch. Miller claimed they wanted something culturally significant for the Hispanic market and our 95% Hispanic team put together something they were all proud of. We couldn't hear the other side of the call, but on our side we just hear the CD saying "Then just say you want the usual tits and ass. Why beat around the bush, you just want the tits and ass. No, we will get you your usual tits and ass." followed by the phone slamming down and a barrage of Spanish cursing. I think we just Photoshopped the Miller logo into a stock photo of big breasted Spanish women on a boat and they couldn't have been more thrilled with our creative genius.
sudonem · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. That tracks closely with my experience.
chunkymonk3y · 0 points · Posted at 03:13:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/boneappletea
hakuna_matitties · 9 points · Posted at 18:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That might be true at the lowest end of commercial production, but make mistake there are very talented creatives in all aspects of commercial filmmaking, and yes we do it because we enjoy it. The problem is the clients who ruin every single good idea with their egos and poor taste. Clients are also afraid to take creative risks so they reign in good ideas until they are safe and boring.
HutSutRawlson · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I certainly don’t mean to impugn the reputations of people in commercial production. There are tons of talented people doing great work out there and they deserve to be praised.
I work in a different creative field (music) and I completely understand. You can have all the best ideas and intentions in the world, but if the client wants you to play “The Chicken Dance” at their wedding... you gotta play it.
bumblyburg · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makes sense, but there are gems like this one as well. Some ad people are truly talented.
(Disclaimer, I mostly just commented here so I could link to that ad, it's really well-done).
blacktongue · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, I'm a very mediocre creative who'd be perfectly happy getting paid to do work that absolutely uncreative people currently do.
KeegTheGeek · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to do client video work and I stopped because the client tended to want a product that was worse than the product I made.
A common thing I noticed is the creative minds to direct, shoot, edit, and do post production on a video of any kind, has the expertise and education on knowing what is good and what is bad for their content.
At the end of the day the client tends to ask for all these changes that end up making the video worse.
I made a music video once and the band gave me 62 different alterations they wanted changed to the video. After that, I had to alter my contracts to add a clause that forced them to pay more per revision.
I can see why people hate working with clients. They don't know what's best for their brand.
WittyUserName614 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a creative, yes. This.
JustUseDuckTape · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's also another factor. Humans are creatures of habit, and we find familiarity comforting. We all know breaking habits is hard, that takes a damned good advert, but building familiarity is easy. So a lot of the time adverts really don't need to be good, they're not trying to convince you to go out and buy right away, they just need to get into your head a little bit; because when you're out shopping you buy whatever feels familiar, and that's probably whatever you've seen the most ads for lately, even if they're a bit shit.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there is people being stupid. Look at some of the most upvoted "funny" or "jokes" posts. I think to myself, "Really? I'd feel so much shame if I had that idea, let alone followed up to build it into a meme." Like, adult cat next to kitten, text is, "Me, just trying to hold the flashlight for my dad." Yeah, we all relate to that, but seventy billion upvotes? Yep.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not true at all. There are some extremely sophisticated high budget ad agencies out there. Talented people with interest in advertising would be working to get into these glamorous companies.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 17:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of it is just rote repetition of their brand. Not unlike Pavlov's dog.
It doesn't have to be intelligent, it just has to link an image to a message.
Tru-Queer · 11 points · Posted at 18:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HEAD ON APPLY DIRECTLY TO THE FOREHEAD
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 17:44:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you ever go to a thrift store, see an item and think: yeah I can see why someone donated that, but who decided this needed to be made?
VeryMeaningfulName · 7 points · Posted at 17:58:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep in mind that market research is a big part of that. It’s also members of the public watching it and giving feedback to say “yes, this is a great ad” or even “here’s what I think would make it better” and that can also influence it.
Lots of peoples opinions go into making these shitty commercials. That makes it even scarier.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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CozyRedBear · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OOF
TheWormConquered · 22 points · Posted at 18:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My degree is in marketing, although I've never used it in my professional life.
The answer is two fold-- the first is simple and it's the same way bad movies get made. Higher-ups who have no idea what they're doing get involved. You ever have a manager who didn't know fuck all about the job but got there by being well connected or well liked or a good manager? Marketing is no different.
The second is that there is this theory in some marketing circles that a bad ad is just as effective as a good ad, maybe more so. People just have to remember the ad, and the product, for whatever reason, for it to be a successful ad. So some commercials are made bad on purpose, because then you'll remember it, think about it, make fun of it with your friends, and then the next time you're in the store, just maybe that product will still be in your mind. Because very few people really research the basic items they buy, their choices aren't conscious ones.
"I need a new car, I don't know the names of any car dealers, wait what's that one that has the super annoying guy yelling in the commercials, we were talking about how much we hated those the other day, that's the only name I know, I'll go there" and all of that is thought in about 3 seconds. And most people won't go "nah I ain't buying that toilet paper, they had that cringey commercial."
I'm not saying I buy into that theory necessarily, but that's the idea behind some of these terrible annoying ads you see and hear.
nolo_me · 5 points · Posted at 19:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good manager knows when to get out of the way and let expertise do what it was hired to do.
wolfchaldo · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea, I was gunna comment on that too. If they were a good manager, they'd stay the fuck out of the way and let the people hired to do the work do the work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simply having a recognizable brand is worth so much.
McDonalds ads may be forgettable as fuck, but 9/10 people who want a quick burger in a new town are gonna choose the familiarity of a Big Mac over a local burger place they don't know.
TheWormConquered · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah if the theory is true, it obviously doesn't work for every brand in every situation. I honestly don't think McDonald's needs to advertise aggressively at all anymore, just a few spots, a catchy jingle every now and then, and a giant M on a poll to keep them in people's minds.
Marketing for McDonald's(edit: in the U.S.) would be the easiest job in the field.
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I buy it. Especially for local TV ads. Those fucking jingles.
ATX_rider · 5 points · Posted at 19:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I work in advertising. I'm a creative director who has done spots that have run during the Super Bowl.
Here's how it happens:
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 16:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/Wheredidthesodago is great though
SafetyKnat · 4 points · Posted at 17:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one’s pretty easy. Every great commercial is made by a few dedicated people. Every shitty commercial is usually made by a committee. The horse/camel committee thing is very real. In a committee, no one has absolute responsibility for “Is this thing going to be GOOD?”
Shawna_Love · 5 points · Posted at 18:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of the really shitty commercials usually aren't that involved. It's like 2 people from the business (one of them is sometimes "marketing") interfacing with a low budget production company that will just shoot whatever to make the client happy.
CockDaddyKaren · 22 points · Posted at 16:23:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"We're trying to sell insurance.......how can we do that?! I know, let's take our mascot/figurehead lady, have a bunch of random guys try to hit on her, and in order to drive them away our Lady will immediately start talking about insurance! And don't forget to make it extra awkward! And include at least 1-2 shots of someone making an awkward/uncomfortable face! EPIC LEL!!"
--progressive commercial. Does anyone actually watch those commercials and go, "yep, I'm buying insurance now!"
soulsssx3 · 42 points · Posted at 16:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That's not the point of commercials. The fact that you remember the gist of it instead of forgetting it means it was successful in being memorable. You may not necessarily be sold by it in the immediate present, but mere-exposure effect is a thing. So next time you go out shopping for insurance, you might not think "Man I'm gonna get Progressive cause their ads are so convincing", but you're more likely to get it because "Oh, I've heard a lot about them" because you're more familiar with them.
Now this might not be true in your personal case, but it might be in others. Looking back, I know there are moments where I was influenced to certain brands over others just because I've heard more about it. And I'm sure I'm influenced in ways I'm not aware of right now as well.
York93 · 5 points · Posted at 18:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
877-CASH NOOOOOOOOOWWWW!!
Man I hate those commercial but I sure know who I’m calling
koosekoose · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's my money and I want IT NOOOOOOWWWW!!!
I always loved those for how short sighted and dumb the people were.
Flowchart83 · 16 points · Posted at 17:05:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were just thinking of progressive while writing that, so the ad worked. Everyone who read it now thought of progressive so it worked even more than expected. Ad companies realize that absurd and unintuitive segments can be more effective than a seemingly practical one.
dom85851 · 3 points · Posted at 17:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah seems to me that they obviously work otherwise they wouldn't do them?!
Thrakkkk · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absurd and unintuitive segments could easily be funny if commercial writers were any good. It would also make it twice as memorable. I’ve always wanted to write a good, memorable, funny commercial.
majinspy · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. This is why the funniest commercials are for products that don't have traditional competition. Insurance is all...kind of the same. Bad thing happens, company pays money based on terms and conditions.
Macrobreweries are the same. It would take little time and money to find out which of the following you like the most: Bud, Coors, Miller, Corona, and Keystone. They can't really advertise on quality because, they are all pretty similar. Whichever one you like is the one you like...but they need to keep in your and other potential consumers' heads. So, they make funny memorable commercials.
choppin_tacos · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And yet here you are, talking about progressive.
The ads aren't to sell insurance directly. Progressive is too big for that to work. Just like Coca Cola, the ads are to keep the name in public culture so people always know the name. Then when you're actually looking to switch insurance, what's in your mind? Progressive.
You're not gonna think about an ad for insurance. But as long as their company name is rolling around up there, you'll be googling it for quotes which is where they'll sell you.
kierantheking · 4 points · Posted at 17:18:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes, early on I'm your commercial you say soft mattresses are bad but then you go on a huge campaign about how your mattresses are so soft you can throw eggs taped to people at them
wtg2989 · 5 points · Posted at 18:52:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every Progressive commercial
hakuna_matitties · 4 points · Posted at 18:52:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the fact that there are so many people involved. Often you start out with a decent concept but so many people get to approve the idea and give notes at every stage of the process that you end up with a horrifying Frankenstein version of the original concept. And often the people at the highest level of the approval process are the ones with the stupidest ideas and worst taste. Source: I’m a commercial director.
Christinedrink · 5 points · Posted at 18:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To play off of this idea, terrible clothing designs that make it to the shelves. I.e. Urban Outfitters bloodied Kent Uni sweater they had for sale (https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2014/09/15/urban-outfitters-red-stained-vintage-kent-state-sweatshirt-is-not-a-smart-look-this-fall/%3foutputType=amp). That has to pass through at least a few different departments, it makes me wonder what DIDNT make it through.
Prometheushunter2 · 5 points · Posted at 18:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this commercial sums that up
jffypop · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry, what the actual fuck is that??
Prometheushunter2 · 2 points · Posted at 00:45:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something that this reality was not meant to contain
jason-mf · 3 points · Posted at 23:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This short is 20 years old and it's even more hilarious and crushing how much it still rings true today.
toenailclipping · 1 points · Posted at 16:32:32 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha. An old CD of mine wrote this.
Mandalorianfist · 3 points · Posted at 17:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy fuck I’ve made this exact comment many times.
pxrple-sunset · 3 points · Posted at 18:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always think that, but with Hallmark movies. And Lifetime horror movies.
-TheExtraMile- · 3 points · Posted at 18:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Commercials don’t have to be necessarily good, they just have to stick in your subconscious mind. Sometimes a crappy commercial can be more effective than a good one.
callmeAllyB · 3 points · Posted at 18:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All those "extra helpless/dumb" commercial people who seem to have issues with, and need a gadget for, the most simple things are really marketing something for disabled people. Snuggies were invented for people in wheelchairs. Electric jar opener? People who only have one hand or no grip/mobility in their hands. Clap on lights? People who are unable to get to the light switch. Slap-Chopper? Again, one hand/poor mobility in hands/tremors.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is kind of related.i live in India and cable here is absolute s h i t it's like a fucking Mexican mudslide that a bunch of people would be good to air on television.And it's not like it's one channel that has doo doo shows. EVERY SINGLE CHANNEL HAS FUCKING THE SAME CONCEPT AND THOSE CRINGY AS EFFECTS.thank god I have access to the internet tho.
SleepyMarijuanaut92 · 3 points · Posted at 18:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI
hitforhelp · 3 points · Posted at 18:51:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. Like somehow thought this was a good idea and no one spoke up. https://youtu.be/fhfcWTZeP1k
TheAnkleDangler · 3 points · Posted at 18:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid sells unfortunately. Either way their goal is to grab your attention. Honestly I think the more stupid and ridiculous the commercial, the more you’ll remember it. Even though I can’t stand the commercials, here I am 10 years later, remembering every single frame of the Snuggie commercial. It’s forever engraved in my mind lol.
Smote20XX · 3 points · Posted at 18:57:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is that the one at the top has an agenda to push no matter what anyone thinks. Even if it's criticized by people in their own company.
JollyTaxpayer · 3 points · Posted at 18:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Answer: one grown ass person, either dominant in power or the money earner and they hired an external company to shoot their idea. At least that's how it is in our place!
Raizzor · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To make people talk about it. Ever wondered why companies like Coca Cola invest millions in ads all over the place despite their brand name being the second most recognized word worldwide after "Okay"? Because they want you to think about Coke as often as possible.
Stupid commercials do the same thing, but differently. Not all companies have Coca Cola level budgets, so they need to make a commercial stupid enough so people will talk about it for months, years or even decades. Did you ever had a friend saying: "Do you remember that stupid-ass XYZ commercial from the 90s?". Yeah, and because it was so stupid, it is still in your head 30 years later.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 17:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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nin10dorox · 10 points · Posted at 18:28:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my case it doesnt matter that I remember them. I dont buy the products because I remember how bad the ads are.
Selethorme · 5 points · Posted at 18:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but that doesn’t mean I buy that product.
I don’t care how many times I see Kars 4 Kids, I will still refuse to donate.
stellula_calliope · 5 points · Posted at 18:07:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The dumber the commercial is, the more it will stick and you will think about and talk about it with others.
Thats probably the strategy behind it.
OligarchicTendencies · 2 points · Posted at 17:35:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this way about car commercials. They are usually all the same.
pope-buster · 4 points · Posted at 17:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And perfume ads!
OutWithTheNew · 2 points · Posted at 18:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea is to make you remember the commercial and associate it with the product. Nothing more.
MetalPoe · 2 points · Posted at 18:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just want you to talk about and remember the brand. That’s all. If you talk to your friends about shitty commercials they’ve reached their goal. Eventually, you’ll be in a store and subconsciously pick that brand because the name is stuck in your head. How it got there doesn’t matter.
Xasse-Van · 2 points · Posted at 18:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But let's be honest: We remember the dumb or annoying ads way better than the good ones, right? So they kind of work I guess.
BFerda · 2 points · Posted at 18:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can answer this. Generally it’s design by committee, when you have 5-6 people all trying to get their ideas out there, there’s no central idea or vision which means everyone has to compromise. What comes of this is a commercial where there are 6 half-hearted ideas or themes that get smashed into a terrible mess. Not to shit on marketing people, but generally they’re not the most creative either and I find have issues relinquishing creative control even when their ideas are bad. That’s just my experience working in the creative + marketing industry.
NateDawg24 · 2 points · Posted at 18:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here, I also like to think of those poor souls that actually edit the commercials/ audio. They probably think the same as us
godtegnom · 2 points · Posted at 18:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe the point is not to make a good commercial but to simply annoy you so that you remember the product. Sometimes the only strategy of marketing is making you remember the product weather it is good or bad. Then when simply seeing the product and recognising it there is a bigger chance of you buying it
Zemykitty · 2 points · Posted at 18:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want to tell companies that the more dumb and repetitive the commercial, the less inclined I am to go after their product.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:28:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Based on this comment, this is why.
jeffzebub · 2 points · Posted at 18:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people work for a person who has bad taste and that's the person who ultimately approves. They keep their jobs by ingratiating themselves with the boss.
headsntales · 2 points · Posted at 18:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, but you remember them don't you
SadBoiSteve · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well you thought about it didn’t you? They want you to pay attention to their product and a ridiculous commercial is pretty effective at getting attention
Glendagon · 2 points · Posted at 18:34:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the time it’s crazy how little ‘teamwork’ goes into the decision.
Mostly I find it’s like this “big boss A wants this, middle boss B has read our ideas and decided to go for what they think is best. Employee C says that’s crap but gets overruled by middle boss B whose sucking up to big boss A who then blames the chain when it goes wrong”
Albinotiger148 · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me after watching the commercial about the red bear dancing and bragging about his clean hiney.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AH yeah it's right there in your description. Committees tend to settle on mediocrity because everyone feels compelled to have a little bit of input. Probably everybody on the committee thought it sucked but it was the only thing that would get approved.
SMORKIN_LABBIT · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My good friend and business partner is a professional film and commercial editor, you have 100% seen something he's worked on...he doesn't understand how they get approved either. We've talked about it at length.
Dragonman558 · 2 points · Posted at 18:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about the commercials that are literally just advertising something like a grocery store, we will never just stop buying food, we sorta need it to live, at least advertise a sale or something, not just the damn store
Happyhottiee · 2 points · Posted at 18:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thought was that ads are often intentionally dumb and stupid just to be memorable
cookiecuttertan1010 · 2 points · Posted at 18:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who works in video and marketing, a lot of grown ass people are dumb, hence the dumb commercials. Honestly, to make something good almost happens by accident with the perfect combination of not as many super dumb people.
But really, you have to imagine all of the budget restrictions, old people leading companies who don’t know a thing about video or trends or social media making all the decisions, and the general lack of any organization that goes into most projects and products. It really is a miracle that anything works.
Leafbox_ · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing in youtube. All the cringy clickbaiters haven't been banned yet, even though they break (in the case of german laws) actual laws, like baiting people into buying something by giving an direct buying order.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because remember the exaggerated scenarios, and discuss them.
So it is working.
patna2 · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes the most ridiculous commercials get pinned as the ones that air because they are the ones that make you go "Who made that?" which causes you to remember their brand.
a-r-c · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
more like those people got it back and were like "well, we fucking paid for this already" and run it if they don't think it'll hurt them
aliygdeyef · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true,
I don't understand how some marketing team who probably went to Harvard for their degrees make such shitty stuff and the company approves it....
Like low-key I feel like I could make something better
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I don't know but I will just assume that you only saw the obvious message while there is another message hidden that tagets your subconscious mind. I am just saying.
redegonard · 2 points · Posted at 18:46:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I make a living out of making commercials, and the commercials that make it on tv are those that paid to be there, and commercials don’t have to be appealing to be succcessful. You might not be part of the target market
Remsleep2323 · 2 points · Posted at 18:47:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes those are the ones that stick in your head, therefore the product or service you remember more.
BroadStreet_Bully5 · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Love the ones where I don’t even know what product they’re promoting. Somehow that made it through all this and no one thought to say, what the hell are we selling?
oliviaxlow · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey! I make commercials. The worst ones are usually because we haven’t been given much budget to work with. But there definitely are some clients that give us a brief and we’re like wow, you really want that?
Marksideofthedoon · 2 points · Posted at 18:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They do it because you're talking about that style now. It stuck in your head and that's all an advertisement's main goal is. Get you to remember.
chiggachiggameowmeow · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait from the sound of it you DO understand it lol
sea_battle · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's wacky nunu!!
Hummerous · 2 points · Posted at 18:52:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it has to do with brand recognition. You're more likely to buy products from brands you recognise. As long as the ads are stupid, but juuuust not bad enough for you to change the channel - they're doing their job.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You deserve a follow for this, an upvote don't do justice for bringing this to light.
Fledermolch · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TV commerciales are horrible already, but radio ads are like Satan fistfucked a TV ad and whatever came out afterwards are radio ads
TheStretchyOne · 11493 points · Posted at 13:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys that hit each other in the nuts for fun. Wtf is with that.
I watched an interview with Steve-o and he says fans want him to kick them in the nuts and are so happy and thank him when he does.
TannedCroissant · 2494 points · Posted at 14:22:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s more the hitting that’s supposed to be fun, not the being hit. Obviously it’s a bit different with asking Steve-O ‘cos he’s famous from Jackass, the person wants a cool story (Steve-O kicked me in the balls!).
An important note, when hitting your mates in the balls, you’re supposed to do it lightly, it’s about the reaction, not trying to cause them permanent damage. Of course that might happen accidentally anyway but people doing it don’t generally realise that.
TheStretchyOne · 1848 points · Posted at 14:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My niece hit me in the nuts and I’ve never wanted to throw an 11 year old from an 8th floor balcony more in my life.
-Slugger · 53 points · Posted at 19:55:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriend at the time, was asleep on my parents living room floor, and my niece was roughly 5-6years old and she was playing with a 5lb weight, and dropped it on my boyfriends head. He sat straight up holding his nose and yelled "SON OF A" before he heard the little pitter patter of her feet running away from him. We are married now, and my niece is 24, he still won't let her live it down.
crumpledlinensuit · 252 points · Posted at 18:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a girlfriend once try to wind me up by pretending to hit me in the nuts. Unfortunately, she ended up actually doing it, and it turns out that my immediate and entirely reflexive reaction to that was to smack her straight in the solar plexus with the heel of my hand. I'm 6'2" and she was 5'0". So that's the story of the only time in the last 20 years that I've hit anyone.
[deleted] · 110 points · Posted at 19:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a bit unrelated to balls, but when i was in 5th grade, imitating spitting sounds was trendy in my class. so i decided to imitate spitting into a girls ear. you guessed it - i had actually spit in her ear. shit like this happens often.
sassrocks · 83 points · Posted at 20:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet you that girls still thinks about you from time to time and she still dislikes you.
Games_sans_frontiers · 59 points · Posted at 20:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait... So that's how you can get a girl to think about you?...
C-RAMsigma9 · 47 points · Posted at 20:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't do it man
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 03:14:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imma do it. Grgrhrhrhrhrhrhhrhrh spits
Myth-o-logic · 9 points · Posted at 23:47:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was about 8 this kid named Dylan spit a huge loogie onto my forehead. It was entirely by accident. I still remember what that guy looks like as a kid 21 years later. I also have a huge phobia of saliva and spit noises. Thanks a lot, Dylan.
KokiriRapGod · 15 points · Posted at 21:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OR it was the moment that her fetish was born. Maybe she thinks of /u/strshk often and wonders where he his; dreaming of what could have been.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
U the gurl?
sassrocks · 4 points · Posted at 00:28:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some stupid boy in middle school named Tyler cut a lock of my hair because it landed on his desk. I punched him (still the only punch I have ever thrown).
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some stupid girl in middle school quickly super glued her entire hand to my face because she thought “it’d be funny”. I hid her glasses in my desk. They may still be there to this day. Then I hit her solar plex.
ToanGreenlow · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or she discovered a new fetish thanks to him
GlaurungTHEgolden · 7 points · Posted at 20:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
TacoT1000 · 3 points · Posted at 21:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I feel bad for both of you
aquapearl736 · 61 points · Posted at 20:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn I can't believe you hit your girlfriend into the sun
Games_sans_frontiers · 28 points · Posted at 20:57:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit her into a different star system!
TacoT1000 · 18 points · Posted at 21:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He hit her so hard she saw the curvature of the earth and knocked the highlights out of her hair
crackcherry · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone's gonna headbutt her so hard she bursts
TacoT1000 · 4 points · Posted at 22:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My kids saw that movie, now when he's upset watching a show, "Someone should punch that guy into 9 bucks!"
crackcherry · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your kid is awesome
C-RAMsigma9 · 8 points · Posted at 20:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What even is a solar plexus?
Shadowrend01 · 15 points · Posted at 21:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Technically, is a point in the body behind the stomach with a nerve cluster in it. It’s also used to refer to a point that sits just below the rib cage
Nethlem · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
His Saitama workout really working out!
[deleted] · 50 points · Posted at 20:30:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a woman hits me in the nuts on purpose she is now a small man.
Hamrddogshit · 12 points · Posted at 21:36:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex wife use to do it to hurt, there was zero fun in it for me. She would even use it during fights. Emphasis on ex.
PureShimmy · 18 points · Posted at 21:11:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will ROUNDHOUSE a bitch
Pham1234 · 0 points · Posted at 21:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
woman accelerates by 10g
kaenneth · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait... is that why they are afraid of 5G?
https://www.medicaldaily.com/breaking-point-whats-strongest-g-force-humans-can-tolerate-369246
WackTheHorld · 4 points · Posted at 22:10:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She "was" 5 feet? Did you cut her in half with that hit? 💀
crumpledlinensuit · 6 points · Posted at 22:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She was. I presume that she still is, but I've not seen her for several years. She might, however, have grown since then (which is admittedly unlikely as she was in her late twenties last time I saw her).
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:22:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
fuckinG WHORE https://pics.me.me/thumb_finn-wolfhard-fucking-whore-69304066.png
deokkent · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
So before 20 years ago, you killed someone?
crumpledlinensuit · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:24 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, to hit means to strike, not to kill, unless you are a mafioso...
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 19:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was 9 years old I kicked my dad in the nuts after the Giants lost in the Superbowl against Baltimore. I'm quite certain he wanted to do something similar to me.
drlqnr · 132 points · Posted at 15:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i once hit myself in the nuts with my phone to stay awake in class
meltedlaundry · 182 points · Posted at 16:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow I'd probably just go with a nap if I came to that crossroad.
[deleted] · 34 points · Posted at 20:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Pupusarrhea · 24 points · Posted at 20:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit I thought I was the only one dumb enough to put hand sanitizer in my eyes. I was scared to get smoked for going to medical for pink eye and being accused of trying get out of things. Weirdly glad that I'm not alone in this.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Air Force here, we just sniffed the hand sanitizer instead of.. putting it in our eyeballs? Wtf.
Khyber2 · 5 points · Posted at 22:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
shrug air force vs marines
Pupusarrhea · 2 points · Posted at 23:33:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was AF too lol, maybe I'm just a dumb one. I was very sleep deprived and tired of getting beat.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:32:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brother, we were all tired. Lmao. I was also a cop and still didn’t put that shit in my eyes. **but I still love you and if you ever need someone to talk to I’m here. Not because of the sani in the eyes, but in general.
Pupusarrhea · 2 points · Posted at 04:35:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heard that man. Those words came at the perfect time, weirdly enough. Love you brother, I'm here for you as well. I'd offer you some Purell but the hoarders took em all lol
lavashrine · 18 points · Posted at 16:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s me with a CBT fetish so getting hit in the balls gives me a boner
Dinnerz58 · 8 points · Posted at 20:36:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuine question, is the pain pleasurable or is it the more act?
I've caught myself a few times and the pain kills the mood (and boner) entirely.
lavashrine · 13 points · Posted at 20:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me? It’s the pain. For some men however, it’s the act that does it for them as it’s a sign of submissiveness to their dom/domme
Dinnerz58 · 6 points · Posted at 20:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the reply! In my head it was one or the other, which is stupid now I say it out loud. Stay safe!
lavashrine · 5 points · Posted at 20:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem - I understand it may seem black and white to outsiders but as just shown it’s easily cleared up. You stay safe too!
C-RAMsigma9 · 7 points · Posted at 21:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive behavioral therapy?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer Based Training
Khyber2 · 3 points · Posted at 22:23:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cock n Ball Torture.
No, it's not a joke.
lavashrine · 1 points · Posted at 07:45:56 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes cock and ball torture
Thailandeathgod · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did u get your girlfriend to hit u in the balls
lavashrine · 2 points · Posted at 07:46:28 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s quite easy really - plus if there’s no one around I do it myself
Games_sans_frontiers · 6 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twist: the phone was a Nokia and he now has insomnia.
siirka · 15 points · Posted at 20:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when I’m laying down on my phone distracted my cat steps directly on my balls it’s so annoying lmao. She’s chunky too so that just makes it worse
kiwi1018 · 7 points · Posted at 21:57:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My 2 yr old son once hit his dad in the nuts when he was laying on the couch and dad reflexively kicked him across the couch. Came out of the bedroom to him comforting our son while still groaning over being hit in the nuts.
JugglinChefJeff · 9 points · Posted at 23:03:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the other day i was sleeping i my bed, like i always do at night. now my bed is right next to a small 2 stair staircase with pretty wide steps. my dog, little richard, comes walking along to snuggle up in bed with me at 3 am and hops up onto the bed from the step. hops right onto my balls while im dead asleep. i jumped up so quick, poor little ricky went flying across the room.
moral of the story; you will hurt the ones you love (even if it's by accident) if they surprise you with a hit in the balls.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:46:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my buddies clocked me in the nuts so fuckin hard I almost puked and my vision started to blacken
IdreamofFiji · 12 points · Posted at 20:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd like to hear about second most time you wanted to throw an 11 year old from an 8th floor balcony.
DiceMaster · 5 points · Posted at 21:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids' limbs are naturally drawn to testicles. My goddamn nephews will be walking around on the couch and climbing on me, and every few seconds, one of their feet will land on my nuts. I love them to death, but I'm gonna be pretty mad if I can't have kids of my own because of them.
butrejp · 5 points · Posted at 22:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think you could top me every time I'm at a restaurant and some snotty little fuck keeps turning around in his booth and looks me in the eye as he wipes his nose on his hand, then shoves his whole fucking hand in his mouth while I'm trying to enjoy my god damn chicken sandwich
CallMeAladdin · 7 points · Posted at 20:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn't make any sense. She's 11 so you should throw her from the 11th floor balcony.
TheStretchyOne · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, they live in the 8th floor and I think it’s be classed as premeditated if we get in the lift, knock on a someone’s door and throw her from their balcony.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's happened to me too. I too wanted to hurl the little goblin out off a balcony.
bokchoy_sockcoy · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was like 12 I told my 6 year old brother to punch some adult in the nuts at a wedding cause I didn’t like his vibe. It was a whole thing but my bro never gave me up.
alaluzazulala · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
capitalize each word of this statement and you’ve got yourself an emo band
goat-of-mendes · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You must not know many kids.
TheStretchyOne · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve noticed the small people living with friends stopping them from going out, yes.
But yes kids will hit you in the bollocks from time to time but this was a deliberate vicious assault.
SatoshiUSA · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You did it, right?
Strykker · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sure you’ll only do it once!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think ive seen that hentai...
CockDaddyKaren · 9 points · Posted at 16:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love tap!
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sack tap!
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 5 points · Posted at 20:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely feel like I suffer more from light shots to the nuts than hard ones.
2Quick_React · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's because the light shots, the pain is more gradual and doesn't kick in (no pun intended) right away. The hard shots it's quick and over.
soooperdave7896 · 3 points · Posted at 20:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone ever notice a light tap from straight below usually hurts about 100 times worse than a more frontal impact to the goods?
SanctusSalieri · 5 points · Posted at 20:21:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or, you know, just don't
thedankestdoggo · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it’s called a nut tap
hitch21 · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My friends did not get the above memo
Parang97 · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Punt their nuts like I'm scoring a field goal
Cpt_Tsundere_Sharks · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cough cough
Galba__ · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was this kid I knew back in highschool who I don't think quite understood the ball tap thing. He used to just kinda grab at your dick or balls. Always avoided that guy.
fractalcrust · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plus its kinda like teasing or roasting to measure "gameness". "You cant handle a light tap what are you gonna do if something actually bad happens"
I_hate_traveling · 720 points · Posted at 14:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a lawsuit waiting to happen.
"Please Mr. Steve-o, getting kicked by you would be an honor! It has always been my dream ever since I saw you performing The Fart Mask in Jackass 2!"
nutshot
"Thank you, Mr. Steve-o, you've made me so happy! See ya in court!"
RmmThrowAway · 220 points · Posted at 17:01:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're pretty expressly consenting to it; I'm not sure how you'd argue a civil case off that fact pattern.
wadagod · 12 points · Posted at 19:58:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also the whole thing is filmed so that helps
NorthernerWuwu · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd also be willing to bet that Steve-o has some pretty good lawyers on retainer.
nigookmixbear · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it happened to a UFC champion when a fan asked the champion to put him in a choke for a photo
I_hate_traveling · -61 points · Posted at 17:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think consent matters that much in certain cases. If I consent to get killed and you kill me, you're still liable, right? Or like, if we arrange to chop off my arm and then eat it like that cannibal in Germany a few years back, that's still a no-no legally, I think.
And of course, there are also cases where "I had too much to drink and couldn't consent". If consensual sex under the influence is rape, then a consensual nutshot is probably assault.
And finally, maybe all you have to do is prove a pattern. If you can prove that Steve-o is a mentally unstable weirdo (easy, he was in Jackass) who has a history of kicking strangers' nuts (also very easy apparently), then that should be enough for a settlement or something.
Source: I've watched 9 seasons of Suits, so you might say I'm a bit of an expert on legal matters.
sin0822 · 61 points · Posted at 17:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you can consent to getting hit, look at sports and things like BDSM. There is a reasonable limit to what you can and cant consent to.
RmmThrowAway · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So this is actually an interesting point - BDSM is illegal in a lot of states and people do periodically face criminal charges over it, even when all parties agree it was consensual.
But this is the difference between battery in a criminal context and a civil one: for a civil tort of battery, the contact is required to be non-consensual. For criminal charges, that's not the case.
I_hate_traveling · -17 points · Posted at 18:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True enough.
I still think my second point is infallible though. Get Bangkok'd, down 7 beers, go report the "assault".
TobyFunkeNeverNude · 18 points · Posted at 19:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not infallible in the slightest, since you would also probably need to show a pattern of behavior that he did this to strangers without their consent. Why would he just kick a random person in the nuts?
Second, I'm assuming this is out in public, with witnesses. So, you know, corroboration.
RisingPhoenix1172 · 7 points · Posted at 20:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laughable. I've watched all seasons THREE TIMES
I_hate_traveling · -1 points · Posted at 20:23:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What did you just say to me?
RisingPhoenix1172 · 4 points · Posted at 20:23:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm basically a judge now.
Hobble_Cobbleweed · 7 points · Posted at 19:47:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An intentional tort like battery requires “harmful or offensive conduct” where offensive means the person touched did not consent. Battery requires the specific intent to make that offensive conduct occur. Because the person kicked here specifically asked and consented to it, there would be no tort claim for battery. You’d have no civil case.
You might be able to press charges if the state in which you are kicked has a statute that says a person is guilty just from intentionally causing bodily injury to another (usually simple assault). But again, that would be up to the prosecutor to pursue those charges, and I don’t believe either a judge or a jury would side with a complainant who asked the defendant specifically to inflict the injury for which he’s being tried.
I think you’d lose pretty easily both cases. The civil case might even get your lawyer sanctioned for bringing a frivolous suit
Unless, and this is a big caveat, there was some history of Steve O kicking fans in the nuts, and every fan kind of had the same experience, but in this one instance Steve O went above and beyond in kicking you. Like he kicked you harder than all the other times he’s done it, and it became unreasonable for a fan to expect that kind of strength of kick or reaction from Steve O. But even then I think it’s a losing case.
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 20:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plus, Steve O is worth like, $2.5 mil. I'm sure he has access to some pretty good lawyers who would definitely inform him if consensual ball busting was a liability.
autoboxer · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Mr Cochran and Johnnie Bar Exam over here.
AcousticHigh · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inb4 someone links that German dude who consents to a cannibal to butcher him.
RmmThrowAway · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consent doesn't matter for criminal actions, but it does matter for civil ones. You're conflating the two here. Steve-o would definitely still face potential criminal charges, but, the non-consensual nature of the offensive contact is a foundational element for a civil tort.
https://www.law.cornell.edu/wex/battery
ukubeats · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I liked you haha
coole106 · 2 points · Posted at 16:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That would be tough to prove in court
FiIthy_Anarchist · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asking somebody to assault you negates the assault charge.
hades_the_wise · 32 points · Posted at 14:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think that's weird, consider that some people have a fetish for having their genitals stepped on or hurt.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 21 points · Posted at 18:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really funny when people who have different definitions of "CBT" encounter each other.
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 20:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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foul_dwimmerlaik · 9 points · Posted at 20:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or Cock and Ball Torture.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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foul_dwimmerlaik · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad to help :)
-JWS- · 7 points · Posted at 19:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
N u m b e r 2
B A L L S T R E T C H E R
TheStretchyOne · 5 points · Posted at 14:54:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes I know about that, there’s people also cutting them off or cutting them open and popping a bollock out.
I also could’ve gone down the route of skat porn but I thought nuts shots would be more common.
drlqnr · 5 points · Posted at 15:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what the heck
TheStretchyOne · 9 points · Posted at 16:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeh it’s an avenue of the internet you don’t want to visit.
bless_ure_harte · 2 points · Posted at 08:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/emptysack
/r/Castration
/r/Ballbusting
effinx · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait a second. People getting their nuts cut OFF?
TheStretchyOne · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no...worse! They’re cutting their own nuts off.
IdreamofFiji · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mexican cartels do this with zero hesitation. It's incredible the amount of compassion certain people can lack.
KingPillow · 2 points · Posted at 17:18:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cums blood
HereToChat011 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I admit that I am one of those people (although up until now I haven't really done anything with it so far). I totally get that it must be a weird thing if you aren't into it yourself
Coffee_autistic · 10 points · Posted at 20:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jackass is just platonic BDSM
Theshutupguy · 7 points · Posted at 20:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It ain’t platonic, only moonlights as.
deepfriedmeth · 6 points · Posted at 21:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm openly gay but not at all feminine. My coworkers and buddies do this all the time. I think it's just one of those locker room, dude-type activities that you can't rationalize more than 'boys being boys'.
I only bring up the fact that I'm gay to reinforce that (most) guys don't just tap other guy's dicks out of pleasure. It's just to mess around or to get them back. When I get my friends, they don't see it as a 'grope' or a slick advance. It's all in good fun.
Now, I did find something interesting. There have been a few instances where dudes come out the fuckin wood works to hit my nuts. Like super 'straight' dudes that I wouldn't have otherwise thought would play around like that. Much less with me, especially if I don't know them that well. My theory is that they test their bicuriosity on me because they feel more comfortable knowing I'm a guy who's openly gay but not outright with it. I tend not to sack-tap these guys back because I don't want them to get the wrong idea. But admittedly, when they do it to me I just let it happen. If they wanna grab my dick to fulfill their fantasy, so be it. It kinda fulfills mine so...it works out.
TheBopist · 3 points · Posted at 02:06:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nut-Tap: A Love Story
cummingcoming this summer to a theater near youAtariDump · 4 points · Posted at 21:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ow, my balls!
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a guy thing you wouldn't understand
Beasagdeux · 6 points · Posted at 20:15:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband and one of his best friends. They met the first time at a 3rd friends house using his home gym. Husband is bench pressing.. friend reached down and tags him in the nuts. Husband finishes his set. Stands up. And pastes the guy right in the face.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
They became good friends over the years. But his buddy never again tried to hit him in the nuts.
OptimalTomatillo · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds kinky lol
banmeyoubitch · 3 points · Posted at 20:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A guy did this to me in highschool and I blacked out and hit my head on the pavement and needed stitches. It was worst pain I have ever experienced in my life and I wanted to kill that fucker so bad. He avoided me for a long time after that lol. I would not wish that pain on anyone.
Doctor_Oceanblue · 3 points · Posted at 20:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinky
Vesper_Sweater · 3 points · Posted at 23:17:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My friends and I played a game called "nut ball." I don't remember if somebody saw it somewhere or we just invented it;
basically you sit spread eagle in a circle with your legs touching, about 5 or 6 people. Somebody starts with the ball, which is a bachi (spelling) ball. You can't hit the person directly next to you, but you are allowed to toss or roll the ball to anybody else. You lose when you tap out. It sounds barbaric (and it is), but it plays out like a game of diplomacy.
TheBopist · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A Youtube channel named Unus Annus did a video where they played Nutball, they used a gatorade bottle instead of a ball tho
Yestink23 · 8 points · Posted at 18:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Back in my freshman year of highschool we had very long game of ball tap that lasted for about 3-4 months. We would find each other in the hallway and try and hit each other in the balls and then run off. Pretty fun.
b-tchlasagna · 2 points · Posted at 19:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a thing...?
banmeyoubitch · -1 points · Posted at 20:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh it very much is. It's dangerous and can cause serious harm in the long run. Dudes can be incredibly stupid.
IceStar3030 · 2 points · Posted at 20:05:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God. You just reminded me how often I'd get kicked, kneed or punched in the nuts growing up, I hated it so much, and I've never been able to successfully get anybody back no matter how hard I tried, everyone seemed to have a form of defense or I'd always miss. god dammit.
effinx · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On a side note the jackass crew has a couple great VERY nsfw movies that are completely insane. I remember one part of one was Steve-o tried to see how many times Ryan Dunn can choke him until he passes out in one day. Forget the names of them but one of the crazier ones is a Steve-O movie called "PCP saved my life".
Prob won't find them on YouTube but just Google jackass movies or some shit and the lesser known, not Hollywood ones should pop up too.
Edit: One movie follows them on tge jackass tour. Those dudes used to party like rock stars. Knoxville was only one not really in the movies.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys who like to roughhouse are always looking to "wrestle". With Steve-O it's just sort of the iconic thing, and being able to say he kicked you in the nuts is the same as getting Aaron Paul to call you a Bitch.
theejohnPnom · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a male bonding technique. When your friend let's his guard down, you tag him in the bag. A reminder to stay alert. It's what a good friend does.
Sierra11755 · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know, I feel like getting hit in the nuts by Steve-o would be equivalent to smoking a blunt with Snoop Dogg.
Ars_Are_Beast · 4 points · Posted at 19:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not fun.
Its not fun to hit, because you're touching another dudes balls
And it's not fun to be hit because holy shit that hurts.
Some guys are just stupid.
effinx · 3 points · Posted at 20:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're hardly touching some nuts man
Ars_Are_Beast · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, still touching them. And I'll pass on that one.
ThatBasicGuy · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is so facts
LASC33 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing with the guys who like to pants other guys in public. This always used to happen at high school football games and it was some of the least fun I've ever had.
dontdobuttstuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i did this a year back, it’s the adrenaline rush. it’s either you get hit and are in pain or you’re safe, it’s a legitimately fun competitive experience.
Lolbertpls · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was on deployment, they flew some random celebrities including Wee Man onto our ship. I didn’t get to see it, but apparently Wee Man walker by some guy who was standing at attention and punched him in the balls. Not sure if it was preplanned or completely unexpected, but by all accounts, it was the single greatest moment of that guy’s life.
captain_intenso · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who has suffered from a hydrocele before, fuck all this.
Boonkus_Gangus · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was in middle school, pretty much all the guys in my p.e. class had this ongoing game of getting hit in the balls. One dude got hit so hard he had to get medical attention and that was pretty much the end of that game.
actualjustinbieber · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How weird, I am watching a Steve-O video right now and as I read your comment a montage started of him kicking people in the nuts haha
TheStretchyOne · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tried to find the video but couldn’t and started to think I was going mad, what’s the video again?
BAlex498 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know why but my buddies and I used to do that in elementary school
severianSaint · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm with you on this one. Wtf
I_am_teapot · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seeing someone get hit with in the nuts is funny. Having it happen to you is not funny in the moment, but usually funny later.
TheStretchyOne · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is true, it is funny to see someone get hit and just crumple to the floor but that is only if it’s accidental.
loyalAlchemist · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was that the Rhonda Rousey podcast?
WhoaSickUsername · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that scenario it's a great story. They don't actually want to get hit in the nuts. It's just cool to say I'm at stev-o and he kicked me in the nuts
kjhuuhhhhh · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big gucci berry, a really Nice guy, go check his vids
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its like play fighting. Making sure your bros on his toes kinda thing. But luckily you grow out of it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a friend who would jab his thumb in your butthole area (don’t worry I had pants on) for fun. Like wtf.
T_WRX21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whaling motherfuckers in the nuts is a game you get into for fun, and stay in for the revenge.
The rule in my squad back when we were doing it was that you could only nut shot people that had done it before, either to you or someone else.
I got my friend for the first time when we were drinking together, then he returned the favor by swinging a full Pert Plus bottle into my coin purse when he was walking back from the showers.
Put me right down.
SatoshiUSA · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's testosterone and already being stupid mixing together to make something new.
doom_bagel · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have two brothers. It's funny to hit your brother in the nuts, and it is funny to watch your other brother get punched in the nuts. There isn't a logic to it, it's just funny when you are 6 and stays funny when you are an adult. At the end of the day there isn't any actual harm and it feels fine a few minutes later.
JDeeezie · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn’t want to ever get kicked in the nuts. But I’d probably allow Steve-O to do it if the circumstances were right.
Plane_Argument · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is because it is so nice when the pain stops. Not like I have done it. Totally not. Only idiots do you that. It is because I imagine it would be like that.
Plmr87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get the whole Jackass thing being successful. Watch if once, you get the hole idea. Did similar stuff as kids, grew out of it. Don’t get it
SilverVision- · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just watched that last night
SaucyBard · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Riot Games: "haha yeah, who does that... "
Adonis-DOH · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A fun story I have is there was this time in high school choir, the funny thing about our men’s chorus was that we behaved exactly like a football locker room, so we’d do nut taps and shit like that. Now as somebody explained earlier it’s supposed to be playful, it’s about the reaction you get rather than the pain itself. Well, there was this weird kid that was in the JV men’s chorus and none of us really knew him that well, he was just weird. So weird, I guess, that he went up to one of the dudes in the Varsity chorus and full on UPPERCUTS him. He immediately collapsed on the floor writhing in pain for like 15 minutes. Everybody was like “bro wtf why’d you do that??” Then the following day our choir director made him write a note of apology, the dude in response crumpled up and threw it away.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's also a competitive thing of the, "I can handle more pain than you can", variety.
OskusUrug · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother and I do this to each other, the way we play it is not to actually hurt each other but to tap just enough that it startles you but doesn't actually cause pain. I think that the most similar thing is the rush you get on a roller coaster, you have to surprise each other. It's pretty fun though.
Eddie_The_Deagle · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nuts not so much, but my friends and I are fairly aggressive with each other. All in good fun. It's not uncommon for us to wrestle, or smack each other around a bit. It's just the caveman brain coming out.
icyangel2666 · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is probably the funniest one I've read so far.
phenerganandpoprocks · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember having nothing to fucking do at all for a week in Afghanistan. No missions, no gear to clean (didn’t stop us though), no patrols, and no electricity for porn.
We started throwing rocks at each other and trying to dodge. Eventually we got so bored of that we stopped dodging altogether and just let each other hit us with rocks.
Good times, thank you for coming to my TED talk.
GeorgeAmberson · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's hilarious. When I met the guy that played Mike Moffet in Seinfeld I asked him to call me a phoney. Tamer but probably same effect.
A_BOMB2012 · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only possible explanation that I can think of is that it’s a form of sadism and masochism.
upstatedreaming3816 · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SCROTE SQUAD
Chip_fuckin_Skylark · 1 points · Posted at 10:59:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an underhanded way of caressing another man's balls without looking like a queer?
SigaVa · 1 points · Posted at 13:37:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the unexpectedness of it. My friends and I used to do stuff like this, like snap a rubber band on someone's arm when they aren't paying attention.
Its funny, and the person it's done to is laughing just as much as anyone else. But I can't explain it.
hk089911 · 1 points · Posted at 14:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stop kink shaming!
TheStretchyOne · 9 points · Posted at 14:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s so many kinks out there, you’re telling me you’ve never looked at one and simply thought “why....?”?
Stupid question, obviously you’re going to say no, god forbid anybody would ever admit to being wrong online.
hk089911 · 4 points · Posted at 15:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait I was actually being sarcastic... I mean, of course this could be a kink for someone. Honestly I don’t understand it either but unless it’s causing harm to someone else I’m generally not interested by other people’s kinks
TheStretchyOne · 3 points · Posted at 15:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok then my bad, that went over my head.
xXGIMpL0rdXx · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can I unread this?
Iforgot_my_other_pw · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's that show in idiocracy.
hypatekt · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word you are looking for is Schadenfreude.
xabrol · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crushing fetishes.... It's weird as hell, but it's a thing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet he kicks really soft and lets the super dumb dude impress his super dumb girlfriend.
weedmane · 1 points · Posted at 07:20:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We absolutely do not kick. Women kick. We punch.
NathanTR1992 · 0 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy geez I almost downvoted this one by mistake. Sry
jackandjill22 · 0 points · Posted at 20:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof.
SueZbell · 0 points · Posted at 22:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are supposedly friends pranking each other. Not friends I want.
bemery96 · 0 points · Posted at 00:45:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I try to explain to my friends that (for some reason) still think its funny, it's all fun and games until someone has to have emergency surgery.
Testicles are capable of royally fucking themselves up without the help of some slap-happy douche punching them.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't understand boys' from my school behavior. despite being highly homophobic, they often started to imitate sex with each other.
they could attack a boy for wearing a pink shirt or having long hair, but they don't see a problem with forcing a guy to bend over and imitating frictions.
they were still doing it in 11th grade - they were 17-18 years old.
what the fuck?
MCCGuy · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just male friends fun.
Tamtumtam · -2 points · Posted at 21:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a radical way to announce you're not the alpha, but the one standing in front of you is. Which, if we lived in a primitive society, would actually help you if you're not as strong and still want to get a female to breed with. By announcing you do not wish to threat the leader, you're under his protection
weedmane · 1 points · Posted at 07:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
LMAO. Okay poindexter.
Dongwaffler · 2036 points · Posted at 15:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Emotions.
I have emotions, I experience emotions, but they don't permeate every part of my life, and I often think everyone else is overly emotional, when it's probably me just lacking emotional range...
Edit: The empathy thing. I do understand empathy and I act with the knowledge that I should do things based on how I want people to treat me (the golden rule) but it's not emotionally driven, it just seems ludicrous that someone wouldn't behave that way. Also, I know it's cliche but thank you for my first gold! I thought this comment would just get buried.
Edit: grammar.
OutWithTheNew · 934 points · Posted at 18:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have trouble with empathy.
It's not that I don't experience it, it's that I don't exaggerate it enough for people to believe I feel it.
A decision was made, something contrary to what was expected happened and we can't change it. All we can do is fix the problem. Should I start crying? Would that help?
AHonestHamster · 119 points · Posted at 19:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I do have emotions and empathy. I care about people and my friends but if there is nothing that can be done then its not worth worrying over and if one can't move on, identify why. Some people find my attitude rather cold as when its not someone I know personally I generally don't get any emotional response from their issues or experiences other than a recognition of what it means. Ideally I would love a world where everyone can have a happy life and have no problems. However since the realities of the world make this impossible and there is much suffering, there is no point in me getting upset or emotional over problems or issues of strangers unless they are relevant to me or are made more real to me.
Unfortunately it is common that even though there is nothing that can be done, people can get upset with the lack of response, interpreting it as lack of care towards them or others. My go to strategy now is when my friends have problems, I given them the option of whether they want me to answer how I actually would with rational thought or whether they want me to do empathetic like responses for them. So far my friends who seem to be more emotionally expressive have preferred the second option and is what they are actually looking for when they complain or vent about their issues or problems as it gives a better feeling for them that someone cares about them. However this second option is harder for me to do and takes work, but for my friends who I realize experience empathy and emotions differently from me I try to do this for them. Its interesting because for me my way of showing I care for them is to do my best to solve their issue with them which if I didn't care I wouldn't put any effort into and would be indifferent towards.
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AHonestHamster · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't feel bad. It took me a embarrassingly long time as well. Fortunately I surrounded myself around people who were either like me or could understand/accept me and not get upset over such things so it isn't so much of a problem now, and the fact that I'm trying to understand them as well helps. But you're right. People don't seem want to solve the issue and just want to feel supported by someone or feel someone is with them. It is hard to pick the words and force myself to say things that would make them feel better. Especially because its the opposite of what I would do. If I had to work with someone and they started to vent on me and I wasn't their friend I would give these responses because I don't particularly care and just say what they want to hear like, "that must be rough", or "I know how you feel" so I can move on. So its really weird when this is a general version of what my friends want to hear because for me this is basically my way of not really caring or being invested. I will say that the one very empathetic friend I managed to maintain ties with taught me a lot about how such people think. Ironically this was a result of him being very upset at me because I didn't meet his empathy expectations for how he thought I would respond. We managed to understand each other but that said, dealing with such people is still very difficult overall.
The worst scenario however is when a person is venting and the answer/response they are looking for from you is to say that their situation was justified and not of their own doing, even if it isn't the case at all. In these situations I can't go along with what they want to hear on principle because I don't want to lead them down a bad path, but trying to tell them logically what I think can anger them because its not what they want to hear. Usually people who do this though don't stay in my social circle long because of our personality differences.
LaBarney · 26 points · Posted at 20:08:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know exactly what you mean. For example, I just cant seem to care about people dying duo to COVID-19. When i said this to a friend of mine, he was shocked how “cold” I was.
maybestomorrow · 58 points · Posted at 20:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How deeply have you thought about it though? It's difficult to get real empathy going for abstract people, it's just numbers. If you think a bit more about who they might have been, the people who loved them, the things they might have gone through or felt. Empathy tends to come from being able to imagine an individuals experience.
Honestly I try not to most of the time which I'm sure is the same for everyone else. It would be crippling otherwise.
AHonestHamster · 11 points · Posted at 21:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is well said and I think a good explanation for those who don't understand this mindset.
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lefranck56 · 3 points · Posted at 06:15:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Should affective empathy work on people you don't know and can't see? Like I truly don't care when people I don't know die in some remote event, but I'm normally empathetic with people that are around me. My mom and sister seem to get actually sad when there is a killing, but I don't know how much everyone is pretending because the truth is I don't care.
cridhebriste · 3 points · Posted at 06:22:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excessive affective empathy complicate ones life unnecessarily. I assisted someone with cognitive empathy for years. I’d much rather have not been wired with empathy than suffer with the overload. Ironically just as one can train your brain for cognitive empathy one trains self control on empathy. Interacting emotionally with someone that does not have affective empathy helps toughens you up. The sooner the better.
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cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 13:31:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is true. I went from direct patient care into healthcare info tech HIT.
Many people with high empathy enter the service and health professions and suffer burnout if they can’t toggle.
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cridhebriste · 3 points · Posted at 16:24:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is in someways just becoming objective in order to resolve the crisis and then dealing with my own emotions later.
I got that skill from being abused. Shutting off for survival through the episode. Problem is I ruminate afterwards. There can be some cognitive dissonance and depression.
Easier to be resilient when younger or other aspects of life are in balance.
toomanywheels · 10 points · Posted at 22:45:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I agree. I started feeling empathy after I had my son. I also became less self centered. What started this change was if I heard about somebody in distress or even losing a family member I (involuntarily) imagined it would be my little son or my family and the feeling was suddenly very painful. I think empathy is to some extent learned like you suggest.
Another change is I now also take pleasure in pleasing or helping other people or strangers.
So I was not planning to have a kid, but having a kid opened me up to other people and I'm happy I did in so many ways because I feel more relaxed and happier with who I am as a person.
ten_inch_pianist · 18 points · Posted at 20:15:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think that's what they mean. They're saying they have empathy, they just show it differently. You're saying you don't have empathy.
AHonestHamster · 18 points · Posted at 21:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that is actually exactly what I mean. I care about people who are dying to the virus of course because I don't want people to die. I think everyone should have a fulfilling life, therefore I care about the world's population as a whole. However I don't feel anything towards them specifically when I hear about how many people are dying. I acknowledge that it sucks and the current situation is bad and the loss of all these people is regrettable and unfortunate but since I don't know any of these people who are dead or sick and don't have a path to relate it to me I don't feel anything substantial. Again, to be clear this doesn't mean I don't care. If I could help all these people I of course would do so because I care about human life.
On a side note, what I find interesting is that some of the people who appear really empathetic and profess to care greatly about people and get strong emotional reactions towards suffering of others, I have also observed to be some of the most aggressive towards hating specific groups or categories of people, or specific people. I think it comes from their desire to want to help people and therefore they feel the need to attack others who they perceive as to blame. Its unfortunate.
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AHonestHamster · 3 points · Posted at 22:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I do think that that can also certainly be part of it. People naturally want to feel they are in the right so they will find ways to justify their behavior by putting themselves on the moral high ground when their true motive is elsewhere.
ten_inch_pianist · 3 points · Posted at 00:18:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. And he said he doesn't care.
AHonestHamster · 2 points · Posted at 00:28:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps I'm wrong since we would have to ask them again to be sure, but the fact that they said "I know exactly what you mean" implied to me that they agreed with my statement about caring about people, just that they can't seem to get the feeling of caring or emotional response from it for people dying to it right now. Perhaps /u/LaBarney will clarify their statement.
LaBarney · 1 points · Posted at 09:19:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people die, I dont get emotional. I just dont. Its natural, part of the world, and the only certain thing that comes to us all on one way or another. Regardless of the cause of death or my connection to the dying. Without getting too personal, there were recent deaths in my family as well, as well as deadly illnesses. It didnt make me sad, but rather inconvenient. I try to be more companionate towards people, but I almost have to force my self to do it
ten_inch_pianist · 1 points · Posted at 10:39:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not getting personally upset about strangers dying is perfectly normal. You can have empathy towards their family's situation without currently feeling the same feelings. Empathy is about understanding what someone else is going through, because you've experienced similar emotions before.
Your problem is that you don't seem to experience those emotions at all, even when it's somebody close to you. Therefore, you can't feel empathy towards others in that situation.
That isn't really normal.
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AHonestHamster · 4 points · Posted at 00:03:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and no. It is very difficult to try and intentionally put myself in a situation and get an emotional response that I otherwise wouldn't naturally get. However it is completely possible for me to have a emotional response and be able to cry for other people even though it is rare. It just depends on how well it resonates with myself or how real it feels to me, which can be very hit and miss. I like history and while reading up on it I come across many cases in history where large numbers of people died yet I feel nothing. Again, not that I don't care, but I just acknowledge what happened and move on. For example, the siege of Leningrad and its toll on the local populace. Rationally I realize that it must have been horrible for those people and what they went through but I don't feel anything beyond a very basic level of simply acknowledging that it happened and that it was horrible. Reading first hand accounts can occasionally brings out such feelings depending on how its written. If its their account of stating events and things that happened, it wont do much. However if they go into detail about how they feel, their experiences and reactions to the events, and its consequences to them, it is more likely. Being able to see videos generally has a greater chance however to bring out emotional feelings however if I can't form any attachments to the people or fail to empathize with their situation I generally don't feel much either, if at all. Usually there has to be some form of emotion behind the video the my brain is then able to latch onto and relate with. I will say it certainly helps greatly though to experience it using the most senses possible. Movies can do a much better job at bringing out my empathetic/emotional side depending on the story since they combine visuals, music, but most importantly personal experiences as seen through the characters which the movie puts effort into making you feel for them and care for them. I should also note that the circumstances can matter when it comes to such things. Certainly types of scenarios are more likely to make me feel for those involved.
Using this virus for example, learning basic statistics of deaths has no real emotion behind it. It sucks and I know for some people that it is very real and painful to them however an emotional response doesn't come to me naturally other than acknowledgement of their situation. I saw some pictures the other day about mass grave sites because of the virus. However this is just a fact and truth of the situation, when people die they have to go somewhere, there isn't emotional response behind people putting wooden boxes of people in the ground. I know that those people had lives and desires but there isn't anything more to it. Even if this was a video it wouldn't have been different. All people die eventually and there is no point to get worked up over it without a good reason. However if instead this were a funeral for example and there was a mother crying over the loss of her son with some other personal story, if I am able to latch onto it then this has a higher chance of getting an emotional response from me. However this can also have no effect at all. For example those commercials on TV sometimes that try to make you feel for abused animals or some other cause. They have the visuals, the music and the personal stories, however I often just don't feel anything. It sucks that there are people or animals who are in such situations however it is what it is. I guess my brain realizes that it can't care about everyone and everything and is selective. Generally though the more information about their personal thoughts/situation, the more intimately I can know them, the better the chance of me being able to feel empathy.
I do think emotions play a important role in society though. Emotions like anger or disgust and particular situations can create a pretty strong drive for people to want to change how things are or what caused a issue. I believe that emotional responses can be irrational and dangerous but it is also important I feel to recognize the positives they can bring to society.
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AHonestHamster · 4 points · Posted at 01:51:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My apologies. My affective empathy is pretty poor most of the time and also very selective. Last month while I was waiting in line to hand in some paperwork there was a person crying about some situation they were in. Regrettably I didn't feel anything for them. As I had to listen it became clear that the person they were talking to wasn't going to be able to help them and their emotional outburst was seemingly pointless as they tried to convince the other person to bend the rules.
However even if I know the person crying my general first reaction is to think about how to help their situation and help them rather than feel directly for what they are experiencing. This is what I mean by I care for them but can't feel empathy for them. If I see someone helpless I will help them if I can and helping doesn't appear to pose a risk to myself but again, I don't feel their emotions personally.
Also correct me if I'm wrong but are you trying to say that I should be able to feel the exact emotions that I see on other people? For example if someone is scared, I feel scared, or if they are in pain, that I too would naturally feel pain?
Avitosh · 2 points · Posted at 02:12:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just commenting after following this chain that I'm pretty similar to you with how my empathy goes. Guess I just wanted to say your not the soulless robot/machine/sociopath that society would sometimes try and make of someone who says they have little empathy like this.
At the end of the day my rationale goes will worrying or getting emotional about this help solve the problem if not then getting emotional just doesn't seem to be the right answer.
Ofc if one of my family members or close friends die or gets kidnapped yes I'll be distraught and try and comfort others dealing with it.
Bad things happen its sucks but that's just life.
AHonestHamster · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. It is unfortunate that bad things happen but it is the reality of the world we live in. I used to have a lot more negative thoughts towards the fact that this is how I am, however I learned to accept that it is just a different way of viewing the world and that it has its advantages. I do wonder though if sometimes people are simply telling themselves that they care and feel for all these people and what they actually mean is how we experience it but they are just in a way lying to themselves to feel better.
One of my friends is definitely capable of feeling a lot of empathy though and before we met he was mostly surrounded by people like himself and had never come across someone like myself. He asked me at some point specifically, what the fuck is wrong with me. He did seem to make me out to be this soulless machine kind of thing you mentioned at first. At the same time I was wondering why he was so impulsive and crazy, doing things without thinking it through first. We had a lot of disagreements before we came to understand that we both had very different ways of thinking. I'm glad I decided not to drop him as a friend as I learned a lot about people like him and how to deal with them. Interestingly he's a musician which I feel tends to attract people who are more emotional.
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AHonestHamster · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What drives me to help people is a sense of duty and the feeling that we should do what we can to help someone when they are in direct need as we are all human and survive better working together. I'm not religious nor do I do it out of joy. Certainly sometimes there is a good feeling in having helped afterwards but it is not required. I see it as a obligation to do so and I don't think I'm a better person for having helped anyone, its just simply what people should do. Admittedly I myself generally don't go out of my way to help people unless I personally see them in need. Otherwise it feels too detached and I don't have the energy or drive to do anything (probably due to my limited emotions),but when I do see it personally, I feel obligated to help since I'm there.
I used the word regrettably because I recognize that it is likely not a normal reaction to feel nothing towards them. I do wish that I was more capable of experiencing such emotions more naturally as I feel like part of my humanity is missing when I don't. I still don't have any feeling towards that person, my regret is purely selfish in nature in that I feel bad for not having such feelings.
My therapist is the opposite of me and has the capability to have strong affective empathy and she says that she will immediately feel for people she sees in such states. However I can personally say such things are rare for me.
[deleted] · 28 points · Posted at 21:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait. You're really telling me you're sad because a random dude died 5000 miles away from you which you never knew and never will know anything about except him dying from covid19.
How do you live? There are thousabd of ppl dying every minute. Children starving to death. Animals getting tortured in tiny boxes. Animals getting slaughtered in line because they taste good.
If i really opened my empathy for this I had to kill myself. It was hard for me to learn not to care about this stuff because it made me want to kill people around me for their cruelty to everything around them.
heymarstar · 13 points · Posted at 21:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am, and to be honest I find it hard to live a lot of the time. I have been suicidal many times. It paralyzes me if I think about all the suffering in the world too much. I go into these deep dives sometimes and I can't get out of them without help. Luckily I have access a lot of help. I have very good friends. And a life insurance policy for the family that would be void if I killed myself.
I don't understand how people balance it. I know people who care deeply about things like I do but it doesn't cripple them and I want to know how they do it. I think part of it is focusing on the good things and grabbing ad much joy as we can out of every day. But sometimes it just feels impossible to do that.
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heymarstar · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not wrong. I have been on and off antidepressants for years and it turns out I really shouldn't stop taking them.
chok0110 · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats why i dont eat animals, cause i really feel the pain they suffer, and cannot understand why someone simply ignore it cause of taste. Its weird cause i dont fell the same thinking about children starving to dead... or people dying from covid-19.
MildlyFrustrating · 13 points · Posted at 20:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that guy is off for sure
Staidanom · 51 points · Posted at 20:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the exact opposite problem.
I'm overly empathic and WILL cry 'for' someone else. I just need to see someone cry to instantly start crying myself.
But when something supposedly sad happens to me, I just feel nothing.
Codex432 · 7 points · Posted at 20:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you able explain why you do this? I just don’t understand. I mean, I understand the concept of crying when someone you love dies, but I just have this huge disconnect as to how it feels. I can’t figure the point of crying. Or most emotions, really.
Where does it come from? Why do you do it? Do you wish you would cry less? Do many people you know cry a lot?
When you’re happy do you do stupid things? Do you jump up and down? Hug people?
Do you feel a connection to people you’ve never met? Or do you just empathize with their situation?
Sorry for all the questions. I just don’t understand.
Staidanom · 22 points · Posted at 21:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can't really explain it, but I'm going to take the funerals of my late grandfather as an example, if that can help.
I wasn't exactly sad when the cremation started (the staff comes and takes away the casket). But my grandmother was devastated, and she clung onto the coffin for a bit, as it was being carried away. That did it for me. I just imagined how hard it was for her, having known this man for practically 60 years, having loved him, taken care of him when he got sick, watched him raise their children, still watched over him after he fell down the stairs, seeing him fall victim to Alzheimer forgetting more and more every day that went by, going to visit him every day and never losing hope... I just tried getting in her shoes, losing someone she loved, and with whom she had been living for so long. I wasn't sad for myself, I wasn't sad for losing my own grandpa, I was sad that everyone else had to live through this and feel this pain and sadness.
I'm going to try and answer your questions, but it's a bit hard.
I actually wish I could cry more, but for myself and my own situations. It feels good to cry, it's a stress reliever. Sometimes I'll just watch a video of something sad happening, on YouTube, and feel instantly better afterwards. Empathy helps me take care of emotional issues I can't take care of myself.
My family is pretty average when it comes to crying. My mother is way too caring so she tries to hide it but I can tell when she's frustrated. I think she tries to put our happiness before her own and that makes me sad too.
The downside with this is that I don't know when I'm truly happy either. I get excited for things, sure, but happiness is so fleeting it's hard to really pin-point it. I can't really answer this question.
It really depends on the situation. I'll be happy for people, as long as they don't flaunt around. I'll be sad for people, as long as it's not mindless complaining (e.g. "ugh I only got €500 from my parents this Christmas instead of the usual €1000, it sucks being poor").
I feel connections to strangers, because everyone is fascinating. Everyone has different lives, different surroundings, different friends and families and that makes them special, so when something bad happens to them, the repercussions it has on everything else in their lives make me shudder, it's hard to describe accurately...
Codex432 · 5 points · Posted at 22:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for answering. I’m always trying to figure out why people do certain things and this helps.
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I'm kind of the same way tbh. I've cried over things I heard about on the news, like a kid dying in a terror attack or something. Whenever I hear about 9/11 or one of the countless horrible things that happened in WWII it can potentially change my mood for hours where I just can't stop thinking of what it must've been like for someone in that situation. It's hard to explain, especially since even though I know how it'll make me feel there's always something that makes me keep looking like I need to know more even if it hurts. This isn't always the case, though. (Also, movies can make me feel this way, and I do feel like I'm more likely to cry watching a sad movie that my friends) (Also, I'm a guy btw).
I know you didn't ask me, but I just wanna share this.
Personally, people called me sensitive a lot in elementary school since I'd cry a lot as a result of bullying. It wasn't like I was being punched (only happened once) or had my lunch money stolen. Like, if someone just called me stupid, made fun of me for things I liked, etc. I could cry. Or it could happen if I felt trapped in a situation where I was forced to share something I knew people would make fun of me for.
Now, I'm not quite like that anymore. However, if I see someone else being treated unfairly whether it's because of their race, gender, whatever I feel like I have to do or say something about it. It really boils my blood. I don't know why I've apparently always been sensitive and I honestly didn't even realize I was always this way until recently. Still not sure. I've heard about it just being a trait some people are born with or something.
Do I feel a connection with people I've never met? Sometimes. Like, if I see someone in public I may notice their expression whether it's happy or sad and my mind might wander trying to guess what made them feel that way. If they're happy or laughing at something I might smile a bit and feel happy inside too.
If they seem sad I'll feel bad for them and almost wish I could do something to cheer them up. There's also the thing where if someone genuinely angers me, which really only happens if someone refuses to listen to me or is being an asshole to someone else or to me, I might get angry and raise my voice only to start feeling like I'm about to cry for getting so upset at them.
Sorry for all this. Just felt like venting I guess.
Codex432 · 3 points · Posted at 23:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vent all you want! I like to understand why people do things and this helps to figure it all out.
I want to ask a couple more questions and they’re going to make me sound like an ass, but I’m genuinely trying to understand.
Why do you care? Is there something that makes you say “I wonder what they’re happy about?” Are you trying to feel happy through them? Or are you happy that they’re happy? If it’s the latter, why does it matter to you?
For me, when someone dies, it’s kinda like nothing changed. One day they’re there and now they’re not, so just move on. I realize this sounds crass, but it’s just how my brain works. Is this the same for you? Does it impact your everyday life? If it does, is it because of grief that you miss them or because they actually died?
And love is a big one. Don’t really get that either. I mean, I care in the sense that I don’t want people to be sick or hurt but everyone makes it sound like so much more. Is there “feeling” or sensation I should be experiencing? Platonically, Some people say it’s warm or a glow, or that they feel close. I always imagined that there should be some kind of pull that says “yes, I love this person (platonically or romantically).” Is this a thing?
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I don't really "choose" to care about a random stranger. It really just happens. I don't completely understand it either, but when I see someone happy sometimes that is what makes me happy, even when I may not be. It's weird. I guess it's just seeing someone else having a good time and it reminding you of when you were having a good time.
I've had a few relatively close people pass away in recent years and I responded differently to them. For the first, I was completely afraid of walking up to see their body and was legitimately shaking and fighting back tears. I didn't want to be there at all. It really only affected me that bad during the viewing and funeral.
For the other person, I looked at them in the casket but I didn't cry. It was like I wanted to fight back tears but they weren't really coming out anyway. It could be because I was slightly closer to the other person or it just wasnt affecting me as much anymore, but I'm not sure. In both cases, though, I partly was forcing myself not to cry because I didn't want people to see me like that, even if it was a perfectly reasonable situation to cry in.
Afterward, I didn't think too much about them. It feels weird not having those people around anymore but it doesn't completely cloud my thoughts all the time. Thinking about them now doesn't really bother me either, though it is still kinda sad I'll never see them again (at least I hope there's a heaven where I can, but who knows?). It doesn't mess up my day thinking about them, which I guess can be surprising. I imagine it's a lot worse losing a parent, a sibling, or a close friend, though. In my case I didn't see these people every day, so it may have been easier to accept. I've heard of people falling into depression because of that, and I assume it's the inability to accept that they'll never be able to laugh, play games, go places, share stories, etc. with that person like they used to; the feeling that part of their life is always missing and they can't ever get it back, I guess.
As far as love goes, I haven't really been in a relationship to really be able to say much about that. Most I've gotten is feeling a strong connection to a girl I haven't really talked to much (so basically a crush), which I guess is because of the assumption that she's like me in some way and I therefore want to know her personally. And by strong feeling I mean legitimately shaking in their presence because you're afraid to come across as off-putting, which is kinda funny tbh. In some cases, it turned out they were surprisingly a lot like me, which is very strange to me too since it's like I somehow knew they were like me. I guess a lot of people feel so attached to someone else because they feel like that person really understands them and they can share their personal feelings with them and all that, whereas with friends you may not feel as comfortable unless you're super close.
This stuff is interesting to me too, honestly, which is why I'm sharing it. I think it's just hard to wrap our heads around people who think and react differently because we only have experience with what goes on in our own heads while people rarely open up about what's going on in theirs.
Codex432 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for your answers.
Rubyhamster · 2 points · Posted at 00:39:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanted to address this even though I am not OP. I am an overly empathic person. I feel what I think others feel or can feel really bad if I think I made someone unhappy about something. It drives me crazy and no matter how hard I work at it I can't NOT care about other people. It's like my brain is hardwired to make others happy and to truly understand other peoples emotions. Take torture as an example. Even though I know that it isn't real, just actors, my brain interprets it as real and intelectually I know this happens for real somewhere in some way. I feel really bad, get a physical reaction (get cold, shivery and a really bad case of "get the hell out of here" feeling.)This only happens when there is a torturer, a person who purposely inflicts pain, and not if someone gets injured. I have absolutely no problem with blood and gore.
Love for me is a feeling of safety, of wanting to be around them and have them in my life, experience them as a person and gratitude for having them in my life. Physically I feel energized or relaxed, and feel a need to be around them (like how you feel the need for shelter or warmth). I also feel afraid of loosing them and sometimes if I can't get a hold of them, I get horrible anxiety about them being in trouble, dead or in pain.
Like you said, there seems to be something that constantly makes me wonder how people are and how they are feeling. I feel the need to make everyone happy because I am so in touch with my own feelings and just instinctly KNOW how that would feel if I felt it my self. My theory is that empathy comes partly from memory, both in the mind and body. My body remembers very well and can always "imagine" what this and that must feel like. Same with the brain and mental pain. I remember how it hurts to get your heart broken, how it feels when you feel jealousy, fear or rejection, misunderstood, hopelessness etc. I FEEL a lot often, so I guess it is hardwired as fresh memory. Grief for me is immense sadness for not having someone in my life and/or empathy for how their (other) loved ones must feel. Seing my grandmother crushed at my grandfather's funeral is what broke me, not so much sadness for not having him around anymore. I just saw how her life will be a hell during the grieving and how she has to live on with constantly wishing he was there. My body imagined and thus felt the emotions she had.
So to sum up, it definitely sounds like you are missing out on some amazing feelings, but at the same time you don't get crippled by bad or overwhelming emotions. I really wish I had some of your "drain/shield/sieve" or whatever. Honestly am a little jealous (case in point).
Codex432 · 4 points · Posted at 01:56:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s funny because I feel the same way about your emotions. In my case, it seems like I’m missing out on a lot of things. For example, I’ve never felt the need to be around people. I actually can’t spend too much time around others or it drives me completely insane and I end up irrationally hating that person. I’ve never truly experienced loss and I don’t feel a super strong connection to anyone (even my parents). I mean, I love them, I guess. I’m not affectionate and hate when people touch me in any capacity. I can do a quick handshake or hug when the situation calls for it, but that’s it.
I’ve never had an emotional reaction to a movie (except a super sad animal movie. Talking about you Hachi) and I don’t think I’ve ever had an emotional reaction in response to a tragic event.
This will sound strange, but the only time I’ve ever felt the warm/safe feeling you described was in a dream. My grandfather gave me a hug and it was literally the only time I felt a surge of emotion like that. Everything else is just kind of dull or nonexistent.
NerdyKyogre · 3 points · Posted at 04:27:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is me, and only after reading this did I fully realize how little emotion I feel day to day.
Rubyhamster · 1 points · Posted at 14:01:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would recommend building upon that feeling you get when you watch Hachi doing his thing. Can you imagine getting this feeling about something else? Nurture it! Why did you feel that way about hachi? And I'm not especially recommending drugs here, but I find that these feling or belonging and closeness to life is expanded when I drink or try weed. It enhances things you never knew about yourself. Just sit down and read about something heavy, like a parents love and loss, about an animals loyalty, about a sibling need to protects their siblings. I think you will feel something. Think about how they would feel. Elaborate about how it would be to lose this person forever. To never get to talk with them again. Think about this seriously: Who is the most important person for you? If that is yourself, how would you feel if someone wanted to really hurt you, out of spite, vengeance or whatever.
Codex432 · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s very strange because I don’t feel close to anyone.
I’d say I don’t really have one. Everyone’s equally as close/distant in my mind. There’s not much difference between my parents and a stranger on the street.
As for myself, I don’t really care what happens. I know this particular thought is part of my depression, but I really don’t care if I get sick or hurt. If someone wanted to do those things to me than they must have a reason. Even if that reason is because they felt like it. I wouldn’t say I’m a pacifist, but I just don’t care? There’s no point in getting angry or getting into a fight, it’s just going to hurt me in the end.
The only connection I feel is to my dogs which is why I cried during Hachi. I have a higher emotional connection to animals than I do people, but it’s still a very loose one.
For example, I lost my dog of 16 years when I was like 17. Obviously, I had basically grown up with him. I was there when he was put down and I just kind of was like “okay, he’s gone.”
However, he did happen to give me a little insight into other people. I came home one day and expected to see him come running towards me. Obviously, he didn’t. I didn’t feel sad, but I had the weirdest experience. This will sound stupid, but I swear I could feel my brain miss firing. Like it just couldn’t make a connection. I wasn’t upset and I remember thinking “Huh, my brain can’t make the connection that he’s not here. This must be why people cry.”
So, it’s kind of strange.
xxggmm · 2 points · Posted at 05:10:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
have nothing to add but just wanted to say i empathize (lol) with all of this, esp. about how thinking about how something bad happening in the news can just affect your mood for hours. i remember when the sandy hook shooting happened and i’m not even american but i spent hours just sobbing in my bed. i know there are worse things even in the world but i still can’t think about it too much now or i’ll get so sad.
Mama_Cas · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolutionarily, the point of strong emotions is mostly that they can ellicit a very real, physical reaction. Feeling fear causes a chain of chemical reactions that preps your body to run or fight, for example. Hugging is just a physical manifestation of joy or love, it prompts the release of chemicals that bond you to other humans, which in turn prompts you to do thing like put yourself in danger to protect the future generation or group as a whole.
Dont confuse the physical reaction as being equivalent to the emotion. Hugging is just one way to express joy or love. Perhaps for you the physical expression looks more like hand crafted presents, picking up extra chores, or cooking a nice meal. Physical manifestations of emotion vary wildly from person to person, but they're all valid. And besides, we've all seen someone smile when they're angry, or clap for someone they hate. Emoting physically is not the same as emotion.
Codex432 · 3 points · Posted at 22:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I guess that’s true. I’ve hugged people at funerals because A) I’m supposed to and B) because it’s supposed to help them feel better. And I’ve done this even though I’m not sad.
Do you think a lack of physical affection has an effect on a lack of emotional range? For example, I really really don’t like to be touched. I can deal with it on special occasions, like a quick handshake or a quick hug, but not on a day to day basis. I wonder if this compounds my lack of connection to people.
xxggmm · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’m not the person you responded to but i have the exact same “issue” and honestly people are built differently and can’t help it, the way you can’t help how you are. it’s a physically reaction for me. i mirror and pick up on people’s physical cues a lot - if someone smiles and talks high pitched when they talk to me, i instinctively smile and do the same. and so when they cry or are sad, i’m the same way. i cry at the end of cooking competitions when someone gets eliminated from the show and they’re crying from sadness, i cry when someone wins and they’re crying from happiness. as for what’s the point - there isn’t a point because it’s not something i intend. though i do enjoy fictional movies where i feel intense empathy, bc feeling emotion while there isn’t any “real” suffering often feels cleansing and clarifying for me. but witnessing real people’s real pain is horrible. i remember hearing my moms voice when she learned her mom had died and i never want to relive it.
i have a question for you actually. do you “see the point” of happiness? or is it only negative emotions that you don’t see the point of?
if you’re really interested in the purpose of emotions, that’s probably for an evolutionary psychologist to answer. a lot of mammals feel and express emotion, so there has to be a pretty fundamental biological reason for it.
Codex432 · 1 points · Posted at 12:45:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand the concept and I get why people do certain things to become happy. I just don’t believe I will ever experience it the way most people do. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not an emotionless zombie - I laugh, joke, smile, etc. like everyone else. But do I think I’ve ever experienced real happiness? No. For me it’s as dull and very fleeting as every other emotion.
I’ll see if I can describe it with an example. I’ll go to a party for a special event. Everyone there is happy - excited to see people, happy at the occasion, maybe proud of a person for some accomplishment. For me it’s just a gathering of people I know on an occasion that pretty much happens all the time. I’ll laugh and joke and help out with cooking and cleaning; I can mingle. I know whats expected of me to do/say and I follow the protocol. The rules of social interaction guide me more than anything - greet people (I often position myself so no physical affection happens), make a joke, be polite, offer to help, small talk. But there’s really no emotion behind it for me. I don’t experience the same closeness to people, I think. So for me, going to a wedding or a graduation party for family is the same as attending one of these events as a stranger. You know what you’re supposed to do and how to act, but there’s no connection and it’s kinda awkward.
Another example would be the closeness you’d experience with another family member. I have aunt whom we see every week and we invite each other over for all sorts of special occasions. When I’m sick she brings me food and in return I do the same. I guess you would say we’re “close”. But tomorrow, (and I don’t want this to happen) if she were to die, nothing would change for me. I wouldn’t miss her and I wouldn’t feel bad. I know this makes me sound like an ass, but it’s just how my brain works. She was there and now she’s not. End of story.
Hope this helps answer your question.
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I cry when I’m happy too
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Skiinky · 47 points · Posted at 21:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Strong emotions shut down the logic centre of the brain; humans cannot make logical decisions when they are feeling things strongly. Thankfully, most people are aware of this on some level, and so when something happens that makes them feel bad they take time out to process it, so that they can come back to the situation with a clear head. If someone in the situation is unaffected by the emotion, especially if it's perceived that they should be affected by it, it can be hard to trust that they are making clear and logical decisions. Also the decisions being made are likely not to make a lot of sense to the person who is feeling strong emotions. Empathy is so important because it signals to the person feeling bad that what they are feeling is natural and ok, and that you understand it, which can help them process faster. It also fosters a feeling of trust that the empathetic person can see past the emotion and make logical decisions that the person feeling bad would have made anyway, allowing the break taken to process things to be shorter. If the empathy step is skipped and someone just keeps pushing for a certain solution they will add more negative emotions such as distrust, suspicion, loss of control, and confusion. This will often cause the person feeling bad to resist, making the situation more difficult overall than if space for processing feelings had been provided.
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Skiinky · 12 points · Posted at 21:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes obviously groups that are used to each other and working together will have different emotional responses than groups of acquaintance or strangers. But even among people who have been through stress together a lack of empathy can feel like the person who is feeling bad is a less important part of the group because their "stupid emotions got in the way again" (actual thing I've been told before) when actually emotions can be very helpful indicators of what to do or not to do in situations. And yes there are times when they go into overdrive and take over, which is especially an issue in time sensitive situations, I'm not denying that. But a consistent lack of empathy among people who work together a lot can feel akin to gaslighting, and talking about it after often makes it worse as people like that tend to justify why they did what they did rather than actually express empathy or engage in empathetic behaviours.
Basically there is no one-size-fits-all, but the example I gave in my original comment was why empathy can be so important, which you didn't seem to understand how it ever could be. Your approach seemed to be "empathy isn't that helpful because it's not a solution" whereas I think of it more as "empathy is never not helpful, and can be engaged alongside finding a solution" which will always make situations better. But I am also very aware of the and fact that I'm an empath and so empathy is more natural to me than breathing, and I can tell the difference between someone trying to be empathetic and someone who actually is. The effort for trying is always appreciated though.
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Skiinky · 5 points · Posted at 22:31:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exploring emotions and empathy are two every different things. Being empathetic does not mean you have to talk about anything, just acknowledge that you understand it so that it can be moved on from. Exploring emotions is more likely to happen when you show no indication of understanding, and the other person desperately wanting to be understood and validated then strives to make you understand by talking about what they are feeling. Ironically empathy leads to less "exploring" of emotions because it allows people to more easily move on from them.
You talk about people neglecting to learn how to set emotions aside when necessary but most people can, it's just that empathy is the tool they use for it. Unfortunately for most people it's easier to help others than to help themselves; it's easier for me to be empathetic towards others than myself, and it's easier for me to accept empathy from others and thus feel like I have someone to lean on. It comes down to the old adage "a problem shared is a problem halved". People don't do well feeling alone or isolated; empathy allows emotions to be shared, which lessens them making them easier to handle. This is not a usually a verbal process. Yes, being able to shut off emotions in extreme cases is incredibly valuable, but the vast majority of cases are not extreme and shouldn't be treated that way.
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Skiinky · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is entirely possible since I don't know what you're envisioning. The internet also isn't the greatest for getting the nuances of conversation across, especially between strangers.
If you feel comfortable, could you explain what the matter at hand is? I would like to understand where you are coming from. If you don't want to that's cool though, I'm happy to just leave it if you prefer
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t have a great deal of time at the moment to come up with an elaborate explanation, but basically I’m talking about a situation where something occurs and people’s main priority seems to be complaining, making it about them and their feelings, or trying to attribute blame, rather than get on with solving the issue.
Skiinky · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right I understand. I still think empathy can never hurt and it generally allows you to give people the benefit of the doubt which can help keep your patience, but I understand it can be hard when it appears like the other person isn't even trying to be helpful or find solutions. Blame and complaining are also very common reactions people have to feeling misunderstood or personally victimised, and empathy can help mitigate those feelings as people can realise that someone does understand and that it's not just them in a situation. Getting frustrated at them is likely to just make the situation worse.
It all ties back to my very first point, which is that humans generally can't think logically while feeling strong emotions, and that's not something you can just learn to do. For sure there are more constructive ways of expressing those emotions (and I wish there was more teaching of that at early ages) and with practise the time taken to process emotions under stress can be drastically reduced, but most people have never been taught that that's even an option let alone how to do it, which is why we need empathy.
slinkywafflepants · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for this.
Skiinky · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem
angry_snek · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are whack
option-13 · 10 points · Posted at 22:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same thing! Like, I feel empathy inside of me, this I know, but I have trouble expressing it like, wow mate I'm really sorry that your girlfriend has cancer, but what am I supposed to do with this information? It's the processing part that's difficult for me. Or, maybe I'm a psychopath.
SatoshiUSA · 11 points · Posted at 22:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom fell really badly a few months ago and lost all control of her body and was a totally different person for a day because of the shock and pain. She has arthritis so it hurt extra bad. We called a lift assist to get her to the hospital because my dad and I couldn't get her in the Prius (she's about 300lb but working on losing it to the best of her ability) and had to get an ambulance. While my little sister was freaking out and my dad was mildly panicked (he's almost always calm and composed) and struggling to hold mom upright securely, I simply pulled out my phone and called 911 and had my dad do the talking because I have social interaction problems (autism is a bitch, plus I just don't like people in general). Not a single twitch, tear, drop of sweat, or anything like that came from me. This may make me sound like a non-affected person when it comes to emergencies and the like, but I'm actually not a collected or calm guy. Normally I'm loud, combative, and stressed/anxious to the point of intense chest pain, headaches, nausea, whatever really. But in a real emergency I automatically shut it all off. I just assess the situation, deal with it, and continue life.
On my little sister's first birthday, we were in Louisiana to see my mom's side of the family. That night I got in our rental Minivan with my maternal grandma (Nana), my kid sister, my parents, and my older sister figure (complicated family). We were driving down a road on the North Shore of lake Pontchartrain when we stop at a red light to turn left. There's a brand new car in front of us waiting to turn as well and one in the lane to our immediate right. Some guy comes barreling down the road at an east 70mph, hits the back bumper of the minivan (narrowly missing me bc I was the one in the third row), ends up veering to the right and hitting the other car directly, followed by him crashing headfirst into a ditch. Here's a kicker though- the rental ended up wrecking the BRAND NEW car in front of us. Glass was everywhere, car parts scattered all over the road, and vomit next to the passenger door (courtesy of my older sister). Everyone in the rental is freaking out, especially my kid sister, but she calmed down at the sirens and lights of the First Responders. Thankfully there were no fatalities and not everyone went to the hospital, but it was just awful. However, 9 year old me didn't freak out too much other than the surprise and mild pain (no pain tolerance back then. Haha wimpy little loser am I right?) and after the adrenaline hit my bloodstream I instantly just sat there waiting; comforting my family and my little sister as well as a 9 year old can until the cops, fire dept, and paramedics came to the scene. We made to the hospital after a lot of arguing with the paramedics who were trying to split up the family to multiple hospitals (idfk why to this day), but when the paramedics took my mom in on the gurney (she had whiplash) they forgot something. Or should I say someone? Yep, they fucking forgot the 9 year old was still waiting in the back of the ambulance for HALF AN HOUR! I was bored out of my mind but it was tolerable I guess. This went off into tangent town, but the point is that I didn't really give a fuck. I feel heartless in those situations, but I also know in the back of my mind that I'm actually doing something really useful and efficient that will end up being a help in the longer run.
Edit: to answer the quote from OP, no, crying doesn't help at all. All we can do is grit our teeth and bear through it. Then once it's over you can flip tf out and have issues.
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grahamsss · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I sometimes think showing some of my emotions would be really unnecessary as it doesn't give any better to my problem/situation
HarleyDennis · 7 points · Posted at 00:30:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family jokes (in a nice way, usually) that I am a sociopath. I feel HUGE empathy and compassion for people in bad circumstances... I’d just rather fix it than whine about it. I am the one everyone calls to deal with emergencies, sort out fights and arguments, that kind of stuff. It’s like I have a little lock-box for fear/sadness, and I can lock those up until there is a more appropriate time to unleash them (usually past tense, like “that was fucking sad!”).
Now guilt and shame, I feel those bitches in real time, and have no such lock-box. 2am brain will go “hey remember in 4th grade when you did that really embarrassing thing? Yeah, lets think about that for the next two hours!”
AstroMajorrr · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this
TheKaryo · 3 points · Posted at 22:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
same people almost get mad at me when something goes wrong and I am not that upset by it and instead instantly want to work on a solution I'm just like oh well being angry is not gonna help, shit happens so what
KaijuRaccoon · 9 points · Posted at 22:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have empathy. What you don't have is PERFORMATIVE empathy, which is what neurotypical people seem to need in order to feel that you understand and sympathise with them.
Commisioner_Gordon · 2 points · Posted at 17:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is how I am! Didn't know thats what its called. Its like watching a sad scene of a movie. I can sit there and know its a sad scene but I wouldnt normally cry. But it makes sense that others need to cry in order to understand its sad
NiceAtMyCore · 2 points · Posted at 01:13:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally had a whole conversation with a friend about possible reasons why he was being watched at work after making a mistake. I explained some ways I knew of how he could be proactive and show to upper management that he wasn't just some risk factor and knew what he was doing.
The conversation started as "man these upper management people dont know anything, they just see something bad and are watching me now". This was obviously overly emotional, so I tried to help.
Nothing convinced him, and the conversation just went to him going back to his already chosen plan to just "try harder", and all I could think to say was "yeah that sucks.". Like is this really what people want? What the fuck kind of connection is that?
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 0 points · Posted at 05:45:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's because you are being a little arrogant. He's not stupid, he already knows all of the rational things to do, he doesn't need the tips. He just wants some empathy, someone to share his emotions with, not to feel alone.
NiceAtMyCore · 2 points · Posted at 05:53:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rational based on what though? He doesnt have all possible info, and I had other experience to convey. I'm never convinced by this argument of me just not getting that other people have the best solution. I'm not even saying I do, but I have dealt with similar situations and have come out successfully.
Obviously it's not the same situation but it's like a doctor explaining to someone with no medical experience why it's a good idea to take medicine. They're not doing the rational thing by not taking it even if they feel like they're doing the right thing.
What do I say? "Yeah that sucks"? Sucks that you're in a situation like that, go ahead and burn yourself out by "trying harder" which will make you make more mistakes and get angrier. What's the more empathetic thing, listening and nodding? Or spending extra effort of my own personal time to delve in, understand in full, and work to find a better way out that prevents future downsides?
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 0 points · Posted at 06:20:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you have good reason to believe that the difference of knowledge of the situation is similar to a doctor and his patient, then maybe you're right, or maybe you're back to the "you were a little arrogant/condescendant and he disliked that" point.
To be fair I think people need both, the rational and the emotional help. In any way it probably helped if he saw that you were trying to help
NiceAtMyCore · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The problem I see and have no idea how to deal with is that alot of the time arrogance and condescension comes from having an unchecked ego on the part of the offended person, and that's not a me problem. If I know I'm not deliberately being condescending, any take at condescension comes from the person's perception and own hurt ego at being shown something. If anything, it's more offensive to me because it shows that they dont consider me someone worthy of learning from, when you can learn a whole lot from everyone if you just have an open mind and treat them with respect.
Some people, I find, just dont like taking advice at all, and any attempt to teach them anything is taken as condescension. This is where my main issue is. I am just trying to help. I know what I know, I know my motives are pure, I even dislike helping because really what I want to do is go "yeah that sucks" and get back to what I was doing, but its because I care that I've spent so much time trying to learn how to explain better and spend the time helping out.
I have no idea when something is arrogant, I'm not acting like im better than this person, but I have enough self esteem to know that what I have to offer is valuable. It's been proven enough before. It took me basically my entire life to get the confidence to know that I have significant benefit. Before now, all I ever did was listen and learn from others, even when they were arrogant, even when they were saying things I knew already, I always kept in mind that I could be wrong to the point where it started to be confusing and the only option I had was to assume I have the right idea and to let others prove me wrong.
Now when I try to teach others, I find that most people just don't want to be taught, and frankly, if that's the case, I'd rather just let them live their life. I have things I want to do, I dont see the benefit of being there to nod to everything they say. I know I'll always be there if things get bad and that they're not alone, it's not my job to make sure they feel good at my own expense.
halborn · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I spend a lot of time thinking about how my (and other peoples') decisions affect other people and I think this is both a practical and empathetic thing to but if you come to me with some story about starving kids in Africa I'm not going to have that "oh my god, that's so terrible, I'd better give you my credit card" reaction that some people apparently have. I avoid funerals because while I might be sad that someone has gone, I don't want people to look at my straight face and think there's something wrong with me.
NerdyKyogre · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same problem. It's not that I don't understand the emotions other people are feeling, just that their emotions have no bearing on my own. If the thing that went wrong applies to me I will work as quickly as possible to fix it, feeling nothing at all except minor stress. If the thing doesn't apply to me, I will want and work to help the other person fix it but feel very little myself. The point where I run into issues is when the other person needs help to emotionally process the event rather than with fixing the problem. I just have no idea what I'm supposed to do or why I'm there in those situations.
julesschofielderson · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been told many times that I am an empath and for me that means being a good listener. I rarely have a solution to someone’s problem, but most of the time people just need to verbalize their emotions to help them find their solution.
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“That’s the attitude my boy.” - Zeno of Cyprus
Edit: Although stoicism is an actual philosophical thought - and I appreciate it - but even before I’d heard of it I used to be practical about things. Like, what is the point of overreacting? Or reacting at all, for that matter, if you can help it of course. Something you didn’t like happened to you, anger and throwing a fit or crying at a corner won’t do you much good, either. In fact they’re gonna prolonge the suffering. Again, I’m talking about emotions and attitudes and reactions that you have control over - I’m not expecting anyone to have a stone face when a close loved one dies.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m convinced that empathy as we know and experience it is more of a learned behavior than intrinsic. You really just have to practice it and feel what it’s like on both ends.
xxggmm · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
serious question: do you ever feel frustrated that something happened, or do you always think, well, it happened and there’s nothing we can change?
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Commisioner_Gordon · 1 points · Posted at 17:05:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is how I am. Shit happens, theres no use crying over spilled milked. Letting my emotions get to me benefits no one.
your-imaginaryfriend · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kind of have the opposite problem. When someone I care about gets upset, I get very upset too. I'll sometimes start quietly panicking because they're upset and I don't know how to make it better and I feel like I'm doing all I can but maybe it's not enough and I should do more but maybe I'm just making it worse.
If someone I'm close to gets upset, even after they've calmed down I feel terrible because they were upset and maybe they're still upset and everything was okay earlier but now it's not because they got upset. It's empathy but weaponized into a defense mechanism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Saaaaammeee!!!! People often get upset with me or think I don’t care about what they are telling me but it’s like: I just cannot fake an expression. Yes, I feel bad about what happened to you, but what do you want me to do about it? Jeez I sound like an asshole.
Ray_adverb12 · 0 points · Posted at 04:23:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re just emotionally immature. You’re not a psychopath or anything.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 22:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have had trouble expressing my emotions since I was a small child. I can never tell you that I'm happy unless I am really super happy. Same thing applies for every other emotion. Right now, I feel content, I guess... blank? I don't know.
AHonestHamster · 2 points · Posted at 03:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same problem. Only a few types of things can make me experience true happiness. Otherwise it feels rather dull. For me I assume this is because of emotional suppression I've subconsciously learned as a coping mechanism. However fixing it has its own problems and I honestly don't want to potentially become one of those people whos lives are dictated by their emotions.
HeliosAtom · 2 points · Posted at 16:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me of an interview someone with a similar mindset had with a psychiatrist. He thought getting in touch with his emotions might benefit his relationships, but was concerned about emotions driving his actions in a negative way.
Basically, the psychiatrist said that if you're already fsmiliar and capable of functioning without emotions, then they become more like a piece of clothing. You can put it on to get the enriching emotional benefits from good situations, but if things make a turn for the worse, you can just take off that piece of clothing and act as you wish, without the emotional burden.
AHonestHamster · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, I'll have to consider this possibility. I guess my main concern would be that once all or some of my emotions are unlocked/allowed out, it would become impossible to put them back where they were and lock them up again. My therapist says that by learning to block emotions in order to block out the negative ones, I sometimes take the positive ones with them. Perhaps I can train myself like you suggest and find a way to only block out the negative ones.
Distempa · 8 points · Posted at 21:54:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the other way here, I'm excessively emotional, very empathetic and sympathetic. I can read the change of someone's emotion in the subtlest change of body language. I can almost feel the change in their mood.
It's a freaking pain, because I then try putting that into context of what I've done. How have I upset so and so, why is Frank so mad at me? I'd love to turn it off sometimes
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TheWindsNameIsSteve · 12 points · Posted at 21:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk about this last bit. Being a naturally emotional person doesn't necessarily preclude you from having the capacity to make hard decisions, nor less emotional people from being good caregivers. I feel like people would step up however they might be needed.
That being said, I agree on the rest.
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tortido · 3 points · Posted at 00:18:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure that people who experience a lot of emotions are any more prejudiced than people who don’t.
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tortido · 6 points · Posted at 00:56:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If they are a highly empathetic person, would it not arguably be easier for them to put themselves in the shoes of those they disagree with?
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tortido · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So would the presence of either of these be a hinderance in decision making? If, as you say, psychopaths are good with cognitive empathy, would that not mean that it is helpful in decision making? Trying to understand.
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I don’t know that I agree that emotions are separate from our judgements. People are emotional. So every decision we make is an emotional one on some level. I don’t think that makes it clouded. It’s just another variable to consider when facing a choice.
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I think we agree that people can’t make a decisions on logic alone. I don’t believe anyone can. I disagree that that people acting on emotions aren’t making logical choices. They are just acting to satisfy their emotional needs. That is logical. Edit: Also I think you are making a judgment call I’m your above scenario that’s unfair. You could also come to the conclusion that someone totally divorced from logic would take longer as they would have to take the time to weigh all variables. Where as someone motivated by prejudice, anger or panic, might hit it immediately.
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I still disagree. And in the above case who is the arbiter what is overtly sympathetic? Is it you? Where much Of this breaks down for me is I don’t see how you can say anything is the most logical. It’s only the most logical to you. And even in your own life I’m sure emotions like satisfaction, smugness, and contentment do rule many of your “logical” decisions.
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I wouldn’t say that choosing the 5 is a logical conclusion. You’ve only solved a math problem. The trolly operator is still reacting emotionally based on his perceived duty on who to protect.
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penislovereater · 1 points · Posted at 12:33:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions are the ultimate basis of judgement.
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penislovereater · 1 points · Posted at 13:16:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logic is just a process. Judgement must rest on something. Ultimately it is emotional.
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penislovereater · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But why care what benefits society? How do you make that judgement that it's "a good thing"? How do you decide that your automaton is making good moral judgements?
8_inches_deep · 8 points · Posted at 21:24:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the opposite. I’m too emotional. I honestly can’t fathom what it’s like to feel something on a small scale and not let it affect your day to day.
Majn3r · 8 points · Posted at 19:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Over the years I have thought about this many times. Sometimes I experience moments of emotional inflamation, but after that I start questioning why it happened. Anger is a fitting example. As quickly as it starts, it fades away and then this question comes into my head: "Why did I say that?" or "Why have I done that?". Emotions are very weird.
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There are tons of complex mechanisms behind emotions, but one of our physiological responses to anger is the release of catelcholines, specifically a rush of noradrenaline. Noradrenaline’s primary function is to increase arousal and readiness for action. As a neurotransmitter, NA has pathways into every major area of the brain. It signals to your central nervous system that your brain needs to start processing stimuli as rapidly as possible and it signals the sympathetic nervous system that your body needs to act. So basically, if you’re angry enough your body can shut down rational judgment to a certain degree because there’s no time to think you need to act NOW
PhilzeeTheElder · 101 points · Posted at 15:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in charge of a handful of people and a supervisor told me I need to care about other people's feelings. I said "I don't care about my own feelings, why would I care about theirs?" She thought I was making a bad joke but I've never been more honest.
SiberianPermaFrost_ · 76 points · Posted at 18:54:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck that's a selfish way to look at it. Who put you in charge of these people?
Simbuk · 28 points · Posted at 19:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did sir. He’s my cousin.
Scholesie09 · 11 points · Posted at 19:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm surrounded by assholes!
GeriatricZergling · 3 points · Posted at 00:17:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep firing, assholes!!
PhilzeeTheElder · 13 points · Posted at 19:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was the only one to volunteer to go the 3rd shift and earned my way to 1st. I do it for the money not pats on the back.Besides if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all is my 'emotional co-worker" rule.
ExpertFalcon5 · 5 points · Posted at 20:47:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just had the conversation with my bf. I dont need the praise show me with a paycheck
SiberianPermaFrost_ · 11 points · Posted at 19:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not your fault you were promoted to a position you aren't capable of or suitable for. I just feel for the people who you're in charge of.
aquaticquiet · 8 points · Posted at 20:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true. Like damn I feel real sorry for the people under this person.
PhilzeeTheElder · 5 points · Posted at 20:58:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Again with the feelings? I'm sorry you quit smoking, wife stop putting out 10 years ago or you're not getting proper nutrition. But we're here to make auto parts. And remember to only use your phone on break.
Geminii27 · 6 points · Posted at 21:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone more concerned with getting work done than with feelings?
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 05:21:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If your staff is miserable nothing is getting done
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 11:32:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno; businesses seem to often be filled with miserable staff.
Zisx · 6 points · Posted at 21:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've felt the same way, told someone (who had thought I was talking about her behind her back) I don't care if you talk behind my back (still don't, even if people are quick to assumptions/ misconstrue facts, grudges are on them, I'm cool with all people now regardless of if they should be talked / concerned about or not), and of course she grew spiteful/ felt attacked regardless of my intentions, yeah lots of people are emotional and don't make sense
TL;DR: Even pretending to have some empathy (though highly recommend having it- is a skill that can be attained via imagination/ putting yourself in their shoes) is much better than exposing you don't care, especially as a supervisor, director or manager (which I personally wouldn't get into unless I had no other option)
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“You need to make a connection with the people you’re in charge of.” “Why? I come to work to do a job, not make friends. I tell them what their job is, they do it, the job gets done, we move on. “
Majn3r · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to use that sentence sometimes.
Holywritterbeach · -13 points · Posted at 18:57:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fellow ENTJ here ;)
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HoeProficiency · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Link?
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HoeProficiency · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read the article and it didn’t seem to provide any real proof at its inconsistency, just general criticisms, but I can see how one could get different results. Even so, I don’t think it’s totally useless. It’s an interesting look at personalities. Has it ever really been taken super seriously? I always thought it was fun and introspective. And if you feel you identify with your result, I don’t see the problem.
sagoooo · 41 points · Posted at 17:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm this way too and it seems like we're the minority. It's like I have completely separate compartments for emotions and logic that pretty much never intermingle. If I have an emotion, I just kind of notice it and ignore it, while my logical side makes all of my decisions. I could never comprehend people who make decisions based on feelings or who lose control of their emotions in general.
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Dongwaffler · 12 points · Posted at 18:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's a condition (unless your completely devoid of all emotions).
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hooplah · 18 points · Posted at 19:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not being able to comprehend how people make emotional decisions sounds like practically the opposite of emotional intelligence.
throwaway_7_7_7 · 5 points · Posted at 00:04:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on how much you don't care. If it's mild and not abusive/cruel, it's a high level of emotional detachment, possibly caused by a mild empathy disorder. If it's severe and if it's hurting others, you might have a personality disorder.
And it's not exactly what you're looking for, but there's also 'Anhedonia' which is the inability to feel pleasure/positive emotions, and a lack of motivation to do so. It's a part of a number of psychological/personality disorders, but is also used in a non-clinical sense as well (kind of a fancy way of calling someone a Debbie Downer).
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 18:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychopath?
Dongwaffler · 15 points · Posted at 18:09:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I struggle with most questions that want my actual feelings, what do you want to do? What do you like?
I'd like the option that other people want. I wanna do what other people wanna do cause I know I'm not gonna strop about not doing what I want.
[deleted] · 30 points · Posted at 18:03:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not that I don’t believe you, but just to mention most people who let their emotions control their decisions have no idea that’s the case and would say the same thing about their decision being based on logic rather than emotions. Everyone in the world has decisions based off of emotions and doesn’t know about it, and most of the time we don’t know the real reasons behind our own actions and decisions, we only know our own rationalization behind them. Reading about the decision making process is pretty eye opening.
KvotheTheUndying · 16 points · Posted at 18:38:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yh, I mean most decisions are made by emotions in an instant, then rationalised by logic later. There are exceptions of course, I've found that the more a decision affects only the future, the more logical the decision process is.
sagoooo · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I'm basing what I said on past decisions I've made. It's very rare for me to regret decisions, because even if it was the wrong choice, I usually still agree with the thought process I had at the time. Emotions do sometimes affect my decisions, but they're just so dumbed-down that it's hardly ever an issue.
dannicalliope · 5 points · Posted at 19:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband is like you. I thought he was just autistic, tbh.
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dannicalliope · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know if my husband is or isn’t but we once watched a movie about an autistic woman and my hubs couldn’t figure out why people thought she was odd. He was like “everything she does makes sense to me.”
And he does have a lot of quirks. And gets sensory overload soooo easily.
That doesn’t necessarily mean he’s autistic, but we joke about it sometimes.
one_day · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Autistic people DO have feelings and emotions, they just feel/express them a little bit differently. So you may be autistic. Not that it really matters much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes exactly. I have people tell me I need to build my emotional intelligence or learn compassion, but my concept of emotions is just different from others. Its so easy to ignore things, and so odd to be confronted by other people i find myself asking questions like:
What does happiness feel like? Is it an emotional range experienced truly or do people exaggerate because the media we consume sells it to us?
Is anger/irritation or anxiety the easiest emotions to identify because they are a direct negative reaction to things we're experiencing in that moment while others are more broad in target and experience?
Its all very confusing and i just don't get it.
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morticiannecrimson · 2 points · Posted at 03:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am the same and I agree with you about emotions! Beautiful answer.
hwi_ · 1 points · Posted at 14:44:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would not say my life is driven by my emotions, but your answer made me cringe. Sorry. I understand that you tried to be heartwarming, but I can't help it. Maybe I have a problem.
LordEdward18 · 1 points · Posted at 15:43:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What made you cringe?
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 01:50:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frankly, you sound extremely annoying.
LordEdward18 · 6 points · Posted at 01:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you say that?
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 18:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve yet to master walking around like I’m dead inside.
I don’t understand how people do it. I always imagine unemotional people getting punched in their face and instead of getting angry (like most people would) they’d use logic instead? That doesn’t make sense.
I can’t pretend I’m too tough to feel. I tried holding my emotions inside and I felt terrible.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:36:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a cheerful guy in general. I feel pretty good a vast majority of the time.
And yeah, I basically sat back and thought a great deal about my emotions, what caused them (in an INTROSPECTIVE sense, i.e. other people/outside events did not create my emotional state). I think other people could easily do it, I just don't think many people are very introspective.
The way I describe it is that for a lot of people the world just seems to "happen" to them, and they're purely reactive. They don't seem to think any deeper than surface level of their own thoughts, motivations, faults, beliefs, values, wants, etc., much less other peoples. I try to know myself very well. All it really is, if I had to break it down, was the process of being my own therapist. Talking to myself like "this made me angry!" and going "Yes, but WHY did it make you angry?"
The 'whys' are a lot more complicated than they seem at first glance.
mtko · 5 points · Posted at 21:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in my 30s. I can think of maybe 3 times in my teenage and adult life that I ever outwardly said something angry/yelled at someone, and all of them were with family. Mostly my sister, who I love to death but is stubborn as a mule and knows how to push my buttons lol.
I can think of maybe 2 more times that I was angry and just walked away from the situation rather than saying or doing anything. All of these times were strangers in public places acting like assholes, and it wasn't worth making a scene.
I just don't get upset or angry very easily at all. Pretty much the only way anyone non-family could ever get an angry reaction from me is to do something TO a friend or family member.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand your point about managing your emotions. That’s not an example of being unemotional or ignoring how you feel.
You’re also in atmosphere where it’s normal to be hit because of mastering skill and discipline.
I’m talking about someone who at work or anywhere else where it’s clearly inappropriate to hit someone.
People saying someone is over emotional because someone died and they aren’t over it fast enough. Because the person making this judgement isn’t overly emotional.
If someone takes a break up to heart they’re considered over emotional because they’re crying over someone they’ve been with for years. Really?
That’s what I’m referring to, I should’ve been more clear initially.
Blueskye333 · 7 points · Posted at 18:36:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm with you on this one. My life has exponentially gotten better since I quit denying my self any emotion but in rare cases anger. Which incidentally is usually a by product of another emotion...
80burritospersecond · -8 points · Posted at 19:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An unemotional person would tend not to go about getting themselves into situations where they'd be punched in the face nor associate with the kind of unstable overemotional people who are facepunchers.
NerdyKyogre · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure why you're being downvoted, this is quite accurate
80burritospersecond · 1 points · Posted at 11:23:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Angry emotional irrational people.
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IrvingIV · 3 points · Posted at 00:10:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I call it Meh.
I usually feel Meh.
I like Happy, I like laughing, I get angry, I get sad.
Usually, I just feel Meh.
Cassper88 · 3 points · Posted at 02:22:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're American don't worry about it, they all over the top, ludicrously.
am-nee-zhuh · 4 points · Posted at 21:51:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
laughs in BPD
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get them, I have them, but if you wanted me to care about someone or something, unless I'm already interested in it, good luck, I'm not trying to say I'm stubborn, it's just that I couldn't care, I littereally can't and for the most part, I don't want to
syracTheEnforcer · 3 points · Posted at 00:47:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is me 100%. People get so worked up over so many things that I’m sitting here thinking, “What’s the big deal here?”
I too have emotions and feelings. I can empathize with people. There are things that upset me sometimes.
I’m often accused of being a sociopath because most things don’t really bother me. Everyone is constantly offended by all sorts of things that shouldn’t, in my opinion, even matter. You’re going to run into assholes in your life. Yet so many people get upset or outraged at the mere thought of someone being mean, or saying something offensive. I don’t get it. Wallowing in the things that are out of your control or having to deal with unpleasant people should t bog down your entire life.
But maybe I am a sociopath.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:50:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not a sociopath! (And for the record, even if you WERE, that's not necessarily a bad thing.) Honestly, the ability to not care what people think of you is something I envy very much.
I'm someone who needs everyone- even people I don't necessarily respect- to like me all the time or I get sad. Logically, I know that it doesn't make sense, and I WISH I could just stop caring. Because you're right- it doesn't really matter. I know the reason why I want everyone to like me is because for most of my life I thought my only positive trait was "nice" and "people pleasing," so if someone disliked me then that meant that I was doing the only thing I COULD do right, wrong.
I don't know if that explains anything any better. Mostly I think it's just difficult for people to be disliked. Humans are social creatures.
syracTheEnforcer · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey I appreciate that. I don’t usually beat myself up too much over it. Maybe because I don’t care, lol, but seriously I just don’t think there’s actually just one way to be. People are different. And they should be. I think stuff like this can just be alienating to someone like me on a site like this because everyone is supposed to be super emotional. I can’t count the times I’ve seen on posts how men should express all their emotions, and cry, and be all these things, be more empathetic but it’s just not me. But Reddit isn’t really indicative of reality either.
And just to be honest, I, like most people want to be liked too. I try to be nice. I think I get along with most people fine. For me it’s more that I don’t see things as being nearly as big a deal as a lot of people. I’m pretty even keel. I can do well whenever things are fine, and I’m just as good when things are horrible.
It might be frustrating for you caring about what people think, just as it’s frustrating for me to not be super emotional and think something is wrong with me. But honestly I think both of us are fine the way we are.
livercookies · 4 points · Posted at 20:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had the exact same argument with a few people. I tell them I have emotions, I'm just better at controlling them, and not ruminating on things, and stressing over things I can't change, and they're just not trying hard enough to control their reaction to emotional stimuli. They say I'm a sociopath.
swaggaliciousbaby · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because you’ve got the emotional range of a teaspoon...
HighSchoolerSenior18 · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lucky
j3nnacide · 1 points · Posted at 11:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clit shy.
Dongwaffler · 1 points · Posted at 11:25:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corrected. Should have been "cliché" Let's hope that one doesn't turn up in a text to my mum...
j3nnacide · 2 points · Posted at 15:22:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahah, I liked it! I'm sure your mum will have tips to help you get over your clit shyness.
Dongwaffler · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd rather not talk about my mum's tip...
j3nnacide · 1 points · Posted at 10:23:14 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guess you really are clit shy after all.
WriteBrainedJR · 0 points · Posted at 19:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Emotion" is just a word that describes our subjective experience of animal instinct. You're simply not running on instinct all the time.
TypicalTentacles · 1146 points · Posted at 13:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fourth dimension. What the actual heck. I read an r/explainlikeimfive thread but it still doesn't help
mil_boi42 · 1120 points · Posted at 14:41:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are 2 ways to think of the fourth dimension.
It’s time, which is comprehendible by the human brain
To understand this other version of the fourth dimension, we first have to look at 2D and 3D. Let’s look at 2D first. If there was a box in the room with a ball inside and a light source, the box would cast a linear shadow. In 3D, if there was a box with a ball inside and a light source, it would cast a 2D shadow. This is the world you’re familiar with. Now, with 4D, you’d still be in a sort of 3D space, but you’d be able to see every side of the box, and thus, the ball as well. If there was still a light source in the room, it would cast a 3D shadow.
TheLightBlueFox · 543 points · Posted at 17:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just imagining a 3D shadow confuses me, like what form would a shadow of a 4D object take, would it just be a regular 3D box?
[deleted] · 420 points · Posted at 17:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You would have to live in 4d to truly find out
punch_nazis_247 · 24 points · Posted at 21:38:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or just visit another dimension with some DMT / Psilocybin / LSD / Salvia / what-have-you.
Silverface_Esq · 30 points · Posted at 21:45:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold the salvia.
Nothing good can come from that trip.
climbinguy · 8 points · Posted at 01:10:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not with that attitude amigo.
Silverface_Esq · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good point.
Though if you haven't experienced it, go get some Salvia Divinorum concentrate, inhale a full lung's worth in one breath and hold it as long as you can before exhaling and diving deep into the weird.
Never tried the drink form though, just the head shop stuff that you smoke.
climbinguy · 3 points · Posted at 03:47:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk how i would get my hands on any where I live. It’s hard enough finding Lucy or shroomies when you want them.
punch_nazis_247 · 2 points · Posted at 03:52:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've actually had some fun on salvia, but it is a little more temperamental than the others for sure. It's a kappa-opioid agonist, which is "notably dysphoric and aversive at sufficient doses." source
Narthleke · 10 points · Posted at 22:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From the depths of my heart, I hate that I will not get the chance to know this now. And I strongly dislike that you made me realize it.
Jedi_Ewok · 8 points · Posted at 01:34:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went to a 4D theater once does that count?
GnomishGnoodle · 4 points · Posted at 06:12:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%22%E2%80%94And_He_Built_a_Crooked_House%E2%80%94%22
It's a 1941 story by Robt. Heinlein about a man who built what ended up being a four-dimensional house.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn that’s interesting
DJCaldow · 3 points · Posted at 06:11:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like asking a blind, from birth, person to imagine colour.
mole_of_dust · 9 points · Posted at 21:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We do live in 4D. We just can only experience one point in the 4th dimension and it is difficult to change our velocity through it.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:34:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean?
mole_of_dust · 7 points · Posted at 00:13:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fourth dimension is time. We can only experience "one" point in this dimension. (Actually we see a time "cone" as things get farther away from us) We travel in this 4 dimensional space at a constant velocity, with the majority of our velocity vector in the time dimension. When we travel along the space dimensions, our velocity in the time dimension decreases because the magnitude of the 4 dimensional vector remains constant. This is why things going faster (like if you were to travel in a plane or space ship) have experienced less time that people who have been "stationary"
pm_me_your_smth · 1 points · Posted at 08:19:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually when people talk about 4d, they think of spacial dimensions. Time is a dimension, but of a different type. And as some people already explained what is 4d in this comment chain, we don't live in 'spacial' 4d world.
mole_of_dust · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
With respect, you are wrong and you don't understand relativity. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spacetime
pm_me_your_smth · 1 points · Posted at 09:48:31 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about this then?
kevtino · -2 points · Posted at 03:40:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In Soviet Russia, 4d lives in you!
This has been a quadruple penetration joke in a discussion about extra-dimensional thinking. Thank you.
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:23:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id almost forgotten about 2011 humor.
Harambeeb · 15 points · Posted at 20:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A shadow of a 4D object would be a 3D object
Silverface_Esq · -1 points · Posted at 21:46:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A shadow is an absence of light. A 3d absence of light is not an object.
TheHancock · 4 points · Posted at 22:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
black hole enters chat
LavenderClouds · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A black hole isn't absence of light, don't mistake light with colours
Schuben · 8 points · Posted at 22:22:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It would look like a 3D shadow, so an absense of light where the object is blocking a light source in 4D space. Just like how a box could change the size of 2D shadow it produces depending on how it rotates, a 4D object could cast a 3D shadow that appears to magically change in shape and size.
If a real 4D object were to be tangible to our 3D world, it would look like a 3D slice of that object as it passed through our space. Like if you were to imagine a piece of paper as a 2D world, and you decide you want to put your pencil through that piece of paper. To the people in the 2D world it would first look like a small gray circle that grows slightly (the lead), then magically change into a wooden circle slightly larger (the exposed core) then it turns into a larger hexagon with a varnish and stays that way for a while before gaining a metal sheath and then becoming a red rubber before vanishing completely! To you you're just pushing a pencil through a piece of paper but to them it seems like an impossible thing just happened.
Synesok1 · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flatland anyone?
Interestingly the people in that wild would determine the pencils shape by going around it. it's mindbending because that pencil protrudes through their space but has no height, only width and breadth.
Is there such a thing as a 2d object?
RemarkableStatement5 · 17 points · Posted at 20:00:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just a darker section of normal space, like a Minecraft lighting glitch where the corner of a room is darker.
TheHancock · 8 points · Posted at 22:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, explain 4D with Minecraft. I can get behind this.
Geminii27 · 5 points · Posted at 21:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends what type of 'surface' (vectorspace) the shadow was projected onto.
A 3D space? Yeah, you get a box or some other 3D shape.
A 2D space? You get a regular shadow.
A 1D space? You get a line.
Xiooo · 5 points · Posted at 22:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I like to imagine it like this (assuming the 4th dimension is another spatial dimension):
A 2D shape (disc) passing through a 1D space will first appear as a dot, then a growing and shrinking line, back to a dot and then disappear.
A 3D shape (sphere) passing through a 2D space will first appear as a dot, then a growing and shrinking disc, back to a dot and then disappear.
A 4D shape (whatever a 4D ball is equivalent to) passing through a 3D space should therefore appear as a small dot, then a growing and shrinking sphere, back to a dot and then disappear.
If the object movement is not perpendicular to the dimension, it will also be moving in the lower dimension. If you threw a ball and observed a clipping plane midair, the 2D-space would show a moving and stretching disc.
More complex shapes (such as a car) look like complete nonsense on a 2D clipping plane (not just moving and stretching, but also constantly changing its shape in general. Think of a brain scan video going from top to bottom.)
So if a 4D object were to pass through our 3D space, it would be some incomprehensive, shape-changing mess from our point of view, even though it might be a perfectly reasonable shape in 4D.
wolvie604 · 4 points · Posted at 21:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Picture it like a beam of light in a haze. You can see the bright 2D spot it makes on the floor (or wall or whatever) but you can also see the 3D cone shape of the beam in the air.
jasondarsh123 · 13 points · Posted at 20:21:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then 5d causes coronavirus, sorry, that's 5g.
jhunt42 · 3 points · Posted at 22:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine if you passed, say, a sphere (3D) through a sheet of paper (2D). To a 2D person on the paper it would appear as a point that grows into a circle that gets bigger and bigger til the hallway point then grows smaller and smaller then is gone.
So it follows that a 4D object passing through 3D space would likely appear as a changing and shifting 3D object.
Szjunk · 3 points · Posted at 02:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A tesseract is an example. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/d/d7/8-cell.gif
1d is a line
2d is 2 lines connected together to make a square.
3d is 2 squares connected together to make a cube.
4d is 2 cubes connected together to make a https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tesseract
_Enclose_ · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes, basically
anidnmeno · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's start with a point
Sanquinity · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not alone in this. I doubt anyone truly understands 4D. There's plenty of explanations that try to do in a 3D way, but that's still not 4D. The human mind evolved for a 3D environment so 4D is just a concept we can't truly comprehend.
lukemr99999 · 2 points · Posted at 04:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm mostly just riffing, but given what we know about being in the 3rd dimension and seeing in a modified version of the 2nd dimension, what we can assume is a 4th dimensional being with sight would see things in the 3rd dimension. That would mean somehow, they would be able to perfectly see something's depth. Not like the way you're picturing a cube right now from your math text books, like somehow, really truly comprehend and see depth. We have no idea what that would look like which is the root of your confusion. I think you're trying to connect dots that really don't exist yet and will likely never exist. for us at least. That may be the root of your confusion
CountPeter · 2 points · Posted at 10:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can actually create a makeshift 3d shadow IRL. Get a glass from your kitchen, and have a go making shadows with it. The refractions + being see through means you can see most if not all sides of the shape at once despite it being a projection in 3D space. It’s an oversimplification, but if you imagine those projections as 4D objects, it might look like that but solid.
Africa-Unite · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best explanation that comes to mind is Carl Sagan's in his Cosmos series.
Ultimately it's impossible for us to envision anything in 4D. We can only extend the rules of how each successive dimension is created onto the 4th dimension, and thus highlight properties we would expect to see.
Joegmcd · 3 points · Posted at 02:29:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was just going to post that - one of my favorite Cosmo's segments
Andrew8Everything · 17 points · Posted at 19:54:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You made it worse.
Joegmcd · 2 points · Posted at 02:38:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
If that made it worse, try this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGO12Z5Lw8s
I understand the words they are saying but cannot grasp the overall concept
RandyRalph02 · 16 points · Posted at 18:55:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The second point still makes no sense to me. You can't use 2D as a comparison to how 4D works because a world restricted to two dimensions doesn't even exist. Having only 2 dimensions is an artificial idea and has no basis in reality, same with restricting yourself to one dimension.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:00:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It absolutely works because you can project 3d objects on to 2D surfaces. In fact you do it all day long, you only see a 2D projection of the world on your eyeball. Your brain then makes it look 3D for you.
RandyRalph02 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can you call something a surface and 2D at the same time?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same way I call something an object and 3D at the same time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I live on a 2D surface. It’s curved and has surface irregularities and I can jump off it for a little bit but it’s still a 2D surface.
Markster94 · 18 points · Posted at 19:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The laws of physics as we understand them permit a two dimensional universe to exist. We all know it doesn't actually exist, but it's a useful tool that we can use to understand analogies and properties of the fourth spacial dimension. Humans use imaginary constructs all the time to explain real-life things.
luksonluke · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if it actually exists and it's outside of our universe with completely different laws of physics, think about it, how our laws of physics was defined and how things should work in our universe, let's say that other simulated universe is basically a block without any defined physics yet you start the simulation and nothing is happening lets add a ball to the game wow it's absolutely doing nothing because no physics we're defined.
RandyRalph02 · 3 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but people always try to explain the 4th dimension by comparing how light would function in 2 dimensions, something that has no scientific basis.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We absolutely restrict light to planes all the time.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
absolutely
dushbagery · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this! when you hear someone talk like its doable to "envision" a 4d anything, they are full of shit. there are 3 and only 3 dimensions in the real physical world, but mathematically you can take the various formula and generalize them to many more dimensions. the same math that allows you to map a 3d object to two, you can generalize to mapping 4d to 3d, but as you say its just a construct. thats why you sit there and look at all the artist renditions of a 4d object and think, 'uhmm, thats still 3d"
Markster94 · 3 points · Posted at 22:43:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but humans can absolutely visualize shapes in 4d space. If someone spends enough time studying and messing with models that they can begin to accurately predict how objects behave in 4d, navigate computer models of 4d space without confusion, and think creatively about 4d motion without computer aid, then it can be said that that human can visualize 4d space.
0upsla · 7 points · Posted at 19:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A drawing on paper is nearly a perfect 2d World
RandyRalph02 · 5 points · Posted at 19:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A drawing is a human's interpretation of what a 2D world might look like using 3D materials. If it were actually 2D, you could not see it.
0upsla · 10 points · Posted at 19:57:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A drawing is a limitation to only 2 dimension. It's not an interpretation, it exists on a 2d World (the paper) that exists in a 3d World. You being in the 3d World doesn't mean that 2d World can't be
RandyRalph02 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You interpret light as a 2D projection of a 3D world, but the 2D projection doesn't exist as its own 2D world.
0upsla · 3 points · Posted at 22:07:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not reffering to what I see, but to what the drawing is. The drawing is bound to the paper in a 2d space. The paper can be bent, folded, it's still a 2d space. Me living in a 3D world doesn't affect the fact that the drawing is bound to that paper. Even if I can't see the drawing, it's still exist.
If you want to talk about the fact that the drawing is ink on a paper, deforming it, and thus in a 3d world, I disagree : I only need 2 variable to definea point of the drawing on the paper. The deformation of the paper is not a problem, as it's still a 2d plane for the ink : multiple values are allowed for X and Y, but only one is for Z : If you change Z, the ink is not on the paper anymore, it's not drawn. The drawing can only happens ON the paper, thus forcing the third coordinate once you fixed the first two : this is a 2d world.
RandyRalph02 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You forget that you need a third axis to be able to apply the pigment to the paper. Plus then, the amount of pigment and how much the surface beneath is deformed ruins the "2D" plane. Everything about a drawing requires three dimensions for it to even be conceived.
0upsla · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I need a third axis to apply the pigment, to do the action, but I don't need the third axis to explain where on the paper the pigment is. Even if the paper is bent, only two is enough, I just need to change my axis. Everything about a drawing is in two dimension because that's all I need to describe it. If you describe a point of the drawing with three dimension, the third one can only be zero (relative to the paper) : anything else and it's not on the paper, so not a point of the drawing.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were actually living in the 2D world you would be seeing in 1D just like we see in 2D. The paper drawing is a good example because similar to 4D for us, we as 3D creatures are literally seeing the whole room drawing at once from a birds eye view. The people living in the 2D world have no way to even comprehend us because height doesn’t exist in their world.
RandyRalph02 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you point me towards a 2D world you know of?
whtsnk · 7 points · Posted at 19:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I find it much easier to think of higher dimensions mathematically and not impose real-world spatial plotting to them.
Simply think up an explicit function that takes three or more inputs. The fourth dimension is described by the independent variable in relation to the three dependent variables.
artbypep · 3 points · Posted at 19:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! This description absolutely makes sense to me! The 3D shadow is what did it! 👍
Fish_with_a_hat · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you take another jab at explaining then? I don't quite follow entirely yet, unfortunately
artbypep · 5 points · Posted at 20:45:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think maybe being an artist kinda helps with this, but to visualize how to paint shadows, you have to be able to kindof think of them as 3d in the first place? So you have to be able to think of what shape/space a shadow takes up depending on where a light source is and what the form it's being cast on is.
So the difference between being able to visualize a shadow in a 3d form vs how it shows up as flat on surfaces in the real world is the same as how a 3d cube looks like a flat square in 2d.
So if 4D is a representation of an objects place in time, being able to visualize the parameters of how that object sits within a world based on 'time' changes where its shadow would be, so in visualizing the ways the shadow would potentially interact with the world involves kindof thinking of the shape from every possible angle.
I think as normal humans we can kinda do this in bits and pieces from different angles, but in 4d all angles and possibilities would be visible at all times?
If someone smarter than me can chime in and tell me whether this is correct or whether I'm having a Dunning Kruger moment that'd be awesome.
hooligan_king · 3 points · Posted at 19:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how can you have a 3D shadow..? I am so confused. how can you have a 360D view of a shadow without blocking the light source at some point , effectively breaking the shadow?
pazur13 · 3 points · Posted at 19:57:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cool thing about considering time just another dimension is that it explains the start of time - it's just not a thing. Time is just another axis that our consciousness is progressing on at a more or less constant velocity, but if it's so easy to imagine that the axis can go infinitely to the right, why can't it go infinitely to the left? What if there was always something before anything, just like there will always be something after anything?
Axelarator2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what (when) would 0 be on the time axis, the big bang? And what would negative values represent? Its like 3d coordinates, we dont really have the coordinate (0,0,0), there is no center in the universe but even if we did, the negative and positive coordinates wouldnt really be different, its all relative. Anyway big brain my friend.
pazur13 · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think mankind has already solved the 0 problem my putting it on the birth of Christ (or a couple of years before it because some medieval monk couldn't do his job properly), and negative values are the same as positive ones, they're just before the 0 point. I believe that something existed even before the big bang, even if it was not like the world we know today - it's not like the explosion created a dimensional axis, time must have been a thing even before that.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is also the third way of the ant on the toilet paper tube
fuckthissite- · 3 points · Posted at 20:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now this is the sort of thing that I understand but I don’t understand.
quaitheoftheshadows · 3 points · Posted at 20:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, picture each of these scenarios:
If a red circle (2D) passes through a black line (1D), from the perspective of the 1D creatures living on the black line, this is seen as initially a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger line (1D), then shrinks into a smaller and smaller line and then a dot.
If a red sphere (3D) passes through a football field (2D), from the perspective on the 2D ants on the football field, it is initially seen as a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger circle (2D), then shrinks into a smaller and smaller circle and then a dot.
If a red hypersphere (4D) passes through an atmosphere (3D), from the perspective of the 3D humans living in the atmosphere, it is initially seen as a red dot, which grows into a bigger and bigger sphere (3D), the shrinks into a smaller and smaller sphere and then a dot.
The_Stickup · 2 points · Posted at 19:45:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf?
isaacom · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you think of it we wouldn't be able to think of a fourth dimension we live in a 3D world so we can think of 3 dimensions but if you were a being that lived in a 2D world you would never be able to imagine a 3rd dimension thus meaning that time is probably not a 4th dimension because we still experience it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most people understand time as being the fourth dimension, it's spacial that fucks people up, although to be fair, with a little research fourth dimensional objects aren't that abstract of a concept and one could come to understand, fifith dimensional objects on their hand
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like everytime I ask about the 4th dimension the answer is always different lol. Sometimes it's hard to even comprehend 1D
waterfountain_bidet · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait- I understand that a little. Thank you!
BatteryPoweredBrain · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now expand that to handle n-dimensions. Working in multiple dimensions in math is really trippy if you're a visual learner. I'm this way, when we were working in higher order math to do n-dimensions I struggled with making visual pictures in my head. 3D, easy, 4D not too bad, but 9D, huh? But that is when you just have to trust the math.
mrtherapyman · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So...present existence is a shadow of time??
Army557 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know why but the fourth dimension sounds cramped.
Gitmurr · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of a certain Adventure Time Episode..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah still have no earthly idea what any of this means, like reading a different language despite knowing what all of these words mean
LeSniff · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are we, in effect, the shadow? In a situation where we cant comprehend what we're being cast off of?
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
like a ghost
meadowshd29 · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are sunbeams that come through the clouds like 2D shadows? Sorry if that doesn't make sense. I'm just trying to comprehend the 2nd concept here.
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Coni_C · 4 points · Posted at 21:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So if we happen to "see" a 4D object Do you think our brain would be able to comprehend the object or the 4D object just wouldn’t work on our world at all?
If a 4D object works on 3D standards then could it also work on 2D standards? I’am confused lol
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Coni_C · 4 points · Posted at 00:39:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Out of all comments yours was the best at explaining hence why i asked.
youre_a_burrito_bud · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ya know, I'm sure someone's gonna tell me why this is wrong, but I just now thought: "why do have time be the last dimension when describing 4D?" Why not start with time. I feel like a thing happening over time makes more sense to us.
0D - a dot, a theoretical concept
Moving in 1D - a dot that exists, it was here before, here now
Moving in 2D - you can move along the line, you were down there, now you're up here
3D - this square was there, now it's up here and over to the right
4D - this cube came from down to the left and back a little bit
But I guess that's just going by the 4D is time thing, not the shapes one.
Uhh 5D - all of the places the cube ever was or will be? Prolly not right.
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youre_a_burrito_bud · 3 points · Posted at 21:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok so yeah it's just arbitrarily the last one, but it's fine to mix em up depending on what you're trying to describe. I guess that was more of a rhetorical question on my part.
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youre_a_burrito_bud · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I actually was thinking about saying 5D would be like the integral of all the places in 4D, but thought that kinda ruins the simplistic explanation and might not go with my breakdown. Funnily enough, I did take up through Calc III (and difeq) and got up to modern physics and classical mechanics. I was a biophysics major :D, less bio focused though.
So I mean, in a way it feels so much easier to think of higher dimensions as "it's just one more" but I guess that's more ease of working with it in problems but not really explaining it. And doesn't make sense to people not stoked on math.
Edit: oh heck, I think I'm messing dimensions up with velocity/acceleration/jerk stuff with the dots notation. Some of the stuff I said still tracks though! Like imaginary axis.
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youre_a_burrito_bud · 3 points · Posted at 22:11:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I also had the thought that that sentence just made no sense whatsoever haha. I dunno I started thinking how higher dimensions would be like taking a sum of the lower ones in a way, probably just nonsense but it's hard to make sense of the higher ones anyway! This stuff is banaynays when you try to visualize it. Also like how imaginary numbers are their own axis, so with a number line it's easy to be like ok imaginary is up and down, but then when you're working with xyz and they each technically also have an imaginary axis orthogonal to them. When ya start thinking about it too much math be crazy. But it works in the end!
Hmm I guess my 5D as integral of all of 4D is more from what I remember from classical where we started using dots above the variables instead of dx/dy so you'd differentiate y (with two dots) twice and end up with regular y. Hmm not great at explaining. Dang this makes me miss those courses though.
Starting to think that explaining higher dimensions to get an understanding could be more like philosophy.
Edit: oh heck, I mixed up velocity/acceleration/jerk stuff with dimension when I was thinking about the dots. But much of the stuff still tracks, like imaginary axis. Been a while.
clumsy_pinata · 15 points · Posted at 19:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand it either, but on the same topic, someone once said to me in a passing comment, "you know, as 3D beings we can only see things in one dimension below us" (paraphrased)
I thought, wait what? I can hold a 3D cube and I can see it just fine.
But then they pointed out, no, you're just perceiving a 2D mapping of that 3D object, and your brain recreates a 3D representation out of the 2D images each of your eyes gets. You can't see all sides of the cube simultaneously without unfolding it out onto a 2D surface.
That just blew my mind, and what's more, how would a 4D being perceive us? By that reasoning, they would be able to somehow perceive all 3 dimensions of us simultaneously.
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candytuftkoo · 4 points · Posted at 04:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, this is fucking me up.
Rackbone · 3 points · Posted at 13:21:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit
Erinysceidae · 5 points · Posted at 20:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ditto, man.
It frustrates me a bit, because I feel like I almost get it.
Like, the tesseract, the 4D cube. 1D is a line, 2D is a square (4 connected equal sized lines), 3D is a cube (6 connected equal sized squares) so 4D is a tesseract (8 equal sized cubes all connected) and then my brain sort of gives up. I understand the idea of the tesseract, and how the cubes are ... moving through time to maintain their size? Something?
I hate only kinda comprehending something, but I accept I don’t get calculus, so I guess I should accept the same with fourth dimensional theory.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, first off, as mentioned above there’s 2 definitions of 4D—time, and then 4D as an additional axis (like adding w to x,y,z). A 4D object won’t move through time to maintain it’s shape—that’s mixing both definitions together (the object is moving through time AND through the w axis), which might be part of the confusion.
It might help to think of 4D like this. Say there’s 8 cubes in a field, but we can’t walk up the mountain that would give us the height to see all of them at once. All eight cubes still exist simultaneously even though we can’t see them. We just have to settle for seeing one at a time and imagining how they’re connected.
MahloGolem · 4 points · Posted at 20:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just recently thought about this. Here is my hypothesis simplified:
1D: incapable of going through space, but in one through time 2D: capable to go through time and space in one direction 3D: capable to go through time in one direction, but in any direction through space 4D: capable to go through time and space in any direction
youre_a_burrito_bud · 2 points · Posted at 21:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ay I just thought of that too! Just made this comment on another part of the thread. Kinda feels like it only goes up to the 4D we live in. I think 5D and up is more for math.
Lima1998 · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Jeremy Bearimy
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4D Toys on Steam is great for visualizing the 4th dimension (even if you don’t have VR, I personally don’t).
It sort of treats a 4D object as many overlapping 3D objects (at least, that’s how I think about it to keep the concept from getting away from me). You can scroll through the different shapes kinda like you’re zooming in and out.
nin10dorox · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it helps to think about cross-sections.
Imagine people in a 2d world. They couldn't see 3d, so the third dimension would be as confusing to them as the fourth dimension is to us. There could be no way they could visualize what a sphere looks like, just like we cant visualize what a hypersphere would look like.
Now imagine that a sphere passes through the flat plane they live on. (Like they are on a flat paper on a table, and a sphere somehow goes up through the table, toward the ceiling). The only part of the sphere they could see would be the cross section of the sphere with the paper, which is always a circle.
But, it wouldn't be a regular circle, because as the sphere moves up, the circle would seem to magically grow. It would get its biggest when the sphere is exactly half way through the paper. Then as the sphere kept going, the circle would get small again, until it eventually disappears when the sphere leaves the paper.
So, 2d people would see a 3d sphere as a circle that appears, grows, shrinks, and disappears. We can extrapolate and imagine that a 4d sphere would look like a sphere that appears, grows, shrinks, and disappears. So now that's one 4d shape that we can sort of wrap our heads around.
the_highest_elf · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the single video that made this comprehensible to me. thanks Carl Sagan :)
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dimensions are just how many pieces of information you need to find a specific point. Imagine a highway or interstate. If you tell me what mile marker you are standing next you, I can find you with perfect precision. Therefore, a highway/interstate is 1-dimensional (a line). If you want me to find you in a city at an intersection, you can't just tell me one of the roads; you have to tell me a cross street. Therefore a city is 2-dimensional (a plane). If you are flying you need to communicate your latitude, longitude, and altitude so flying is 3-dimensional (a hyperplane). When you add in time, you are just adding a fourth piece of information to find a specific point which means you need another dimension.
SageTemple · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know if you'll read this but dimensions are just measurements. Length is one dimension...a straight line. Length and height get you a box, a 2 dimension box. Length width and depth get you a 3 dimension box. Now take that 3 dimension box and imagine it in the past or future, now it's a 4th dimensional box. Length, width, depth, and time. So dimensions dont necessarily mean quantum other worlds, it's just that after 3 dimensions, it gets very theoritcal.
There was a tv show called travellers,and they explained it like this...
The transfer requires the exact location of the target, made possible by twenty-first century smart phones and GPS providing time, elevation, latitude, and longitude (TELL) coordinates that are archived for use in the future.
So the 4 dimensions, time elevation latitude and longitude allowed safe travel back through time.
Squidy_The_Druid · 2 points · Posted at 05:01:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know that direction you can’t perceive? It’s that.
Kerub88 · 2 points · Posted at 10:07:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
After this Carl Sagan video I understud the concept and since than I was able to succesfully explaine to others several times.
Dragonman558 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We live in a 3 dimensional world, so we can't understand it as well without heavy theoretical math
DonkeyTrash · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold an object in the air, now try to describe where it is based on a point on the wall. It's 20 feet in one direction, 8 feet in another direction, and 3 feet in the air. That's your 3 dimensions. Now move the object. Can it still be described that way? No, it's not there anymore. That's because time is the fourth dimension and you were actually using it to describe where that object was. So that whole thing was only true for that point in time. So at 4:38pm ET your object was at 20 feet in one direction, 8 feet in another direction and 3 feet in the air. You've now used 4 values (or dimensions) to describe that point.
DocHoss · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a fun video from a while back that explains how everything is encompassed within 10 dimensions. It was made to push a book (I think) and I've heard some people take issue with some of the concepts, but I've always liked it. Clear, we'll thought out, and easy to understand.
https://youtu.be/JkxieS-6WuA
Edit: meant to mention, it explains the fourth dimension after the first three and uses that concept down the line. That's how it might help you understand what the heck is going on.
TheKaryo · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this video helped me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGguwYPC32I&ab_channel=xkcdHatGuy
NayNay42069 · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I researched this shit because of your comment and jeez it's confusing, but what I gathered is that the time explanation links with my philosophy A level, and the easiest way I can explain it is that I learnt that God sees the world in past present and future, all in one, and in that sense, God sees in 4D as he doesn't just use space to find something he uses time, so 3D is just 4D without time? Maybe idk lol. The other explanation is Hella confusing tho.
ohSpite · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, it's a bit of a misnomer. We have 3 spacial dimensions, up and down, left and right, forwards and backwards, and one temporal dimension, time. People then just say we exist in a 4D world which gets confused and relating time to the 4th spacial dimension despite them being two very different things.
ChubbyDragonV2 · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you really want to get into the 4th dimension, Flatland by Edwin Abbott explains it well.
ajkandy · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a prototype puzzle-platform game called Miegakure that uses a 4th dimension of space. It is truly trippy to look at, but he explains it quite simply.
The shifting shapes are the 3D "slices" of 4-dimensional objects.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yW--eQaA2I
DARkytheMARIO · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You are here standing, and here is you sitting in a chair exactly five seconds from now. See your two self images next to each other, then draw a line between them. Then add an image of you in the process of sitting in small increments two or three more times in that line. Add more in that line if you’d like. The more you add, the more you’ll see a line of yourself going from point A to point B in a certain amount of time. You now understand how the fourth dimension works!
The problem is you’re seeing as time itself with nothing to relate to. It’s not an object to look for. It’s a direction, a direction of which involves a 3-dimensional ITSELF undergoes when time is applied. This is change. I tried for a long time to understand it but I remember watching a video on YouTube and it just clicked with me after watching it. This guy was able to conceptualize up to the 10th if I recall, however I can only understand up to the 6th but going past that was too hard to grasp. If I can find it I’ll go ahead and put up a link here.
EDIT: I think I found it. The Fourth Dimension
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The best example I ever understood was Flatland because you can see a 2D world and how a 3D world would interact with it.
Then you could understand that as a 3D world, how a 4D being would interact with us.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tesseract an example of a 4D object
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flatland
dinvest · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a book called Flatland that discusses this and is quite readable for someone with little math background.
http://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/201
402Gaming · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a 3d being can see inside a 2d object that means a 4d being can see our insides. Think about that.
mashedpopatoes · 1 points · Posted at 09:20:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I’m not mistaken, 4th domention is the time itself.
Imagine that you look at a person and think about his actions (that he/she, I dunno, helped an old lady to cross the road). But what does it mean for him and his character development?
When I think about people’s actions (I have to do that a lot, I’m a teacher) I try to keep in mind this person’s past, present and future. What did this action change? Is it good for his/her probable future?
That’s why sometimes I compliment somebody’s action in an unusual way, like ‘You started to think about other people, it’s great’ or ‘That’s good that you weren’t afraid of that person anymore and wasn’t afraid to fight him’. I compliment what that person tried to do for the first time and what I think as a good personal feature.
So, that’s how I get the 4th domention in a person: then you keep in mind their past and future and it makes sense in present.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 11:34:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A 2D person would live on a flat plane, like a soap film. If we dropped a soccer ball through a 2D person's world, they would see a dot appear out of nowhere, grow into a circle, then shrink down into a dot again and disappear. If Gro'log of the 4D Hyperforians dropped his ball through our world, we would see a pellet appear in midair, grow into a ball, then shrink again and disappear.
Just as the 2D person only sees one slice of our soccer ball at a time, we only see one slice of Gro'log's ball at a time. The 2D person can analyze our soccer ball by laying out all the circles they saw from left to right, starting tiny, growing big, shrinking back down. From there they can reconstruct what the whole ball looks like.
We can lay out the spheres we saw from left to right, starting with a pellet, growing larger and larger into a large ball, shrinking back down. The true nature of Gro'log's ball is all the spheres put together.
occasionally_caustic · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let me hit you with this fun fact: in math you can have any n-dimensional space where n is an integer. So you can do math on a space with 78 different dimensions.
Also, funnily enough, you can calculate the largest number of pieces you can get when slicing an n-dimensional hypercheese with k slices. (Hypercheese being a block of cheese with n dimensions.)
luksonluke · 0 points · Posted at 19:46:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it is generally known as time, we can manipulate 3D space but not 4D.
brastius35 · 0 points · Posted at 20:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just time. You obviously understand time to some extent since you are a conscious living being.
BlowmachineTX · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the thing - it's not just time
Its possible for 4d objects to exist which would look different from the 3d versions
Just look up a picture/gif/video from a tesseract
Wishyouamerry · 5079 points · Posted at 14:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone learns to read. When I try to break it down it just seems so crazy and impossible. “See this shape? It sounds like this. Or like this. Or sometimes like this. Actually, sometimes it doesn’t make any sound at all. Got it? Great! Now here’s 25 more of them”
But 4 year olds are doing it! Insane.
jepsuli · 2092 points · Posted at 16:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered how English-speaking kids learn to read. In my native language, Finnish, each letter represents only one sound. English-speaking kids and/or teachers must have some superpowers
mtled · 977 points · Posted at 17:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the same process, just extended. It starts with basic letter recognition and then phonemes. Learning you "always" need a consonant and vowel sound, then learning the letters/combinations that make those sounds. Eventually it's just recognition of patterns and application of prior knowledge. There are 200 or so "sight words" that make up more than half of almost every English language text (non-scientific/non-specialized) and the rest is decoding.
My son is learning to read and my mom gave me this awesome listing of letter combinations/sounds in English. She was a teacher and this list was part of her student's "toolbox" to refer to when they are decoding a text. Things like "the "oooh" sound can be made with the characters o (do), oo (too), ough (through), u (tutu)". The "m" sound could be created with m (from), mm (command), or mb (bomb). Knowing that ch goes "chuh" and th goes "thuh" all has to be memorized.
It's a crazy fascinating process. I'm lucky that my mom is basically an early language and literacy expert, in both English and French and my kid and I are both learning so much from her! Kiddo's gonna destroy grade 1 lol.
Severescoliosis1504 · 55 points · Posted at 18:42:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, are you supposed to pronounce it "bom" instead of "bomb"?
[deleted] · 69 points · Posted at 19:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The b at the end is silent, yeah.
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 32 points · Posted at 20:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, English is weird. "Dumb" has a silent b, too.
doomladen · 52 points · Posted at 20:53:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The silent B at the end is very common - tomb, comb, lamb, dumb, jamb etc.
Ransidcheese · 46 points · Posted at 21:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay hol up... tha fuck is jamb?
Laney20 · 49 points · Posted at 21:24:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the frame around a doorway, or what you jam a door into. Door jamb.
Ransidcheese · 26 points · Posted at 22:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I didn't realize I've never seen that word spelled out before. Neat.
accentadroite_bitch · 13 points · Posted at 21:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a side post or surface of a doorway, window, or fireplace.
lala989 · 3 points · Posted at 18:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
😂 this just cracked me up. Like English be sneaking in extra B's everywhere and you didn't even know it. I knew the word jamb but completely forgot it and it looked wildto me too.
Ransidcheese · 2 points · Posted at 02:20:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No joke dude I've been speaking this language for like 22 years now and I'm still learning regular old words. Just when I thought I was gettin' good at it too, shoot.
Dravarden · 5 points · Posted at 04:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL those are supposed to be silent
Beavshak · 20 points · Posted at 22:53:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I want to have a beer with whoever created the word subtle
Braeburner · 15 points · Posted at 20:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can 'thank' the French for that one
Engelberto · 14 points · Posted at 00:23:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. When those words came into English, most everything was pronounced as it was written. There had been sound changes before, but the spelling had adapted. But at a certain point the spelling of most words was frozen while further sound changes completely changed how English sounded.
And take an Anglo-Saxon word like knight: Every letter in that word used to be pronounced (gh is a two letter representation of the phoneme in "loch"). I believe Scots has mostly kept the original pronounciation of that word, the relevant sound changes did not reach that far north.
Dravarden · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and then you have the "ough" part of "enough", "cough", "plough", "hiccough", "although", "thought", and "thoroughly" that all make the same sound
Eeyore_ · 1 points · Posted at 13:41:33 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Chaos by G. Nolst Trenité
Sylente · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends! In some parts of the Midwestern US, the b is definitely pronounced.
Adamscottd · 3 points · Posted at 22:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bomba Squad
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 19 points · Posted at 18:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sight words?
sseugg · 39 points · Posted at 19:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I’m not sure if every school teaches this the same way, but my little brothers would come home with lists of “sight words” that they were supposed to drill and memorize by sight (hence the name). That way you wouldn’t have to put effort into sounding out each word and could recognize what the word as a whole looks like. Think, for example of the word “laugh”. Anyone who can read in English will see that word and immediately know how it sounds instead of sounding it out and trying to remember the rules for why it makes an “f” sound instead of a “g” sound, etc..
casbri13 · 22 points · Posted at 22:26:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eventually every word becomes a sight word. If they didn’t, reading a novel would take forever because you would have to decode every word.
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 9 points · Posted at 20:35:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see ...
This is a concept for kids learning how to read, right? Adults don't have "sight words"?
I honestly can't remember if i ever read anything by "decoding".
kamomil · 12 points · Posted at 20:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not explicitly taught, I don't think. If you read storybooks with a kid starting early, they will learn it gradually
I am not a teacher though
l4ur3nl0l4 · 15 points · Posted at 21:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It actually is! I’m a volunteer for an organization that tutors kids in reading if they’re struggling in school, and the younger kids actually do have a set of flash cards that are sight words. We’re supposed to go over the words with them at least twice in our session, and they are the same sight words they learn in class so that they get extra practice.
mtled · 26 points · Posted at 19:47:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are kind of two concepts in that, which I merged together for convenience in my first post.
First is high frequency words. The words that show up in almost every text, which can be decoded phonetically but which a child needs to learn to read/recognize without stopping to decipher them. The reason here being that they are so common that inability to recognize them will slow down comprehension of the rest of the text. Words like the, of, with, you.
The second category of sight words are those that are very common but aren't easily decoded; though, laugh, enough. They are super common words in most texts but the tools used to decode them by a new reader will fail; you can't apply the basic syllables to them and get the right answer. These are also needed to be recognized on sight in order to become a fluent reader.
I think grade 1 generally target ~100 sight words and grade 2 gets up to 200. For children's books, that will cover 80% of what they will read, so the remaining effort goes into new words and vocabulary. It's a big reason why early reader books are so repetitive; it reinforces these words.
If you're a parent, you've probably come across the book "Brown Bear, Brown Bear What Do You See?" The only word there that is arguably not a sight word is "bear" and maybe "brown" depending on if you consider the colours to be high frequency or not.
The book repeats the title phrase and response "I see a [colour] [animal] looking at me". The purpose of a text like this is to repeat the sight words, and add colour and animal vocabulary.
I'm not an expert on this. My posts are super simplistic reductions of what I've learned from my mother. But that's the gist of it.
swing_1ife_away · 4 points · Posted at 23:21:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I have a 5 year old who gets ‘high frequency’ words, and then ‘tricky words’ that don’t sound like how they sound when they’re spelled out, so they need to learn them by sight. It must be so hard for them to understand!
mtled · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Barring a learning difficulty, we all figured it out. Embrace the process, it's really fascinating.
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 5 points · Posted at 20:37:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see, thank you. Learning how to read English seems really difficult for young children that don't know how to read another language.
Ransidcheese · 6 points · Posted at 21:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like that would make it easier cause they'd just be a blank slate. I tried to learn japanese for a while. It got really confusing when I would try to compare the english word to it's japanese equivalent.
I have a notebook here from the early days of my japanese learning. One of the words here is "isu" which means chair. In the book it looks like
椅子 > いす > isu > chair
But that was confusing because my brain just latched onto the thing I was familiar with and didn't absorb the new thing. All of my later notes were done on the computer and look like this
いす / 椅子
A picture of a chair
isu
This way I connect the word to what it is without my previous knowledge getting in the way.
I dont know if it would work the same for children learning to read, but this was my experience as an adult.
Drawme-asheep · 3 points · Posted at 04:41:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definiteky. This is why (good) language classes usually don't teach using the L1- or fluent language.
Part of why kids learn so fast is because their brains are fucking amazing little maleable learning machines, but also because every learning experience for them is immersive
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But older kids don't need "Sight words".
Ransidcheese · 3 points · Posted at 22:41:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry, I'm genuinely confused at what your point is.
Also sight words was never part of my reply and wasn't ever even part of my thought process here so it's just really confusing.
Also x2 I personally don't remember learning sight words. But I also would've been very young when I would have been learning them so maybe I just don't remember.
Also x3 what counts as an older kid?
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
8+?
I'm just amazed that 1st graders in the states have to memorize the spelling of words and that they even have a special word "sight words" for that. As if it's unusual that one looks at a word and reads it without "decoding" it.
Like, who decodes words when reading? At any age?
Your japanese example is just the difference between visual and non-visual learning types.
Ransidcheese · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:31 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well when you teach kids to read, they don't know any of the words by sight. They have to sound them out at first. That's what he means by decode. Take the word "share" for instance. You dont say ss-hayr, because the s and the h make the sh sound. But that isnt obvious to little kids who haven't seen that word before. Letters are new to them, give 'em a break.
Sight words would mostly just be strange ones that wouldn't be pronounced correctly if sounded out with normal english "rules". Words like "guarantee". If you sound it out, it says "gwarantee", but thats wrong. So you would just tell kids "hey when you see this word, remember that it's pronounced differently".
I don't think my teachers ever called them sight words but I that was like a billion years ago so who knows.
mtled · 8 points · Posted at 21:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The basics are probably true for most languages though. The difference might be more consistent spelling rules, but the methodology is likely the same. Other languages have accents that help clarify that English don't (e é è ê ë sounds in French are just e, ee, ea in English).
As my son is also learning to read in French simultaneously, the techniques are similar but the rules are a bit different (e.g. in English you'd start teaching vowels with the letter a, in French i, because the frequency of use is different).
It's hard to articulate but the kid's learning experience is probably more common than we expect in terms of how they process the information and learn.
j_sunrise · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My first language is German. I remember the first sentence in the reading book being "Mimi im [image of a bed]." Learning what M and I sound and look like.
We never had a list of "sight words", because as we accumulated letters we could simply decipher phonetically. Yes, the syllable stress might be off on first try, but it's not complicated. And instant recognition comes with practice.
There's a reason why only English has a spelling bee.
mtled · 5 points · Posted at 00:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As I've said, I'm no expert. There have been many approaches to teaching language (or anything, really) over the years, there's no one way to do it. And English has the frustrating mix of Germanic, Latin, Greek, French and miscellaneous roots to words that just lead to a mess phonetically. Literacy is so freaking complex, and while I love listening to my mother explain things, I don't fully understand or learn it to a level where I can teach it myself.
I still see that phonetic repetition in things like "Mimi im", which isn't too far off from what I was trying to express. And even if you never had an explicit list of "sight words" you have to recognize that not knowing things like ich, bin, ein (einen), nein, mit, im, etc would make reading sentences like "ich habe einen Apfel, du hast einen Apfel" more difficult. Instead of learning the grammar of "have" and the spelling of "Apfel", they would be stuck on the frequent words and not the new ones. In this case, ich, du and einen are sight words, in my opinion. You just probably saw them more in context and not as much as lists (which isn't the best way to teach....a list supplements the experience of seeing things in a text, in my opinion).
You can thank or blame Duolingo for that German... it's a language I'm trying to learn but I'm not far along!
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, i don't remember that i ever memorized how words of my own language looked written, that's why i think it's unusual.
j_sunrise · 2 points · Posted at 23:58:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know why you're being downvoted. You're right, other languages largely base their basic reading/writing education on phonetics.
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 1 points · Posted at 16:04:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't even remember having to "learn how to read english" when classes started in fifth grade. We just got books and started reading them basically, definitely never learned any spelling rules.
grendus · 11 points · Posted at 20:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's honestly not. Childrens books are mostly made up of simple words that follow the rules. By the time they get to the more complex ones, they have mastered the basic rules and can learn the exceptions and quirks sounds.
English is a hard language because of idioms and loan words, but the core language isn't too bad.
j_sunrise · 5 points · Posted at 23:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is an easy language in most aspects except spelling.
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 0 points · Posted at 21:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't talking about the language, this is a thread about "How a kid that doesn't know how to read anything learns to read english".
BootySniffer26 · 2 points · Posted at 04:21:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are high-frequency words that sometimes cannot be pronounced phonetically (meaning they contain silent letters or have irregular pronunciation)
“the” “one” “two” “into” “when” are sight words; one, two have irregular pronunciation, the, into, when are common words, and depending on the phonics program used, the and when also have irregular pronunciation
hockeyandquidditch · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words where you memorize the pronunciation for the entire word not just single letters, like "the" or "and".
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 1 points · Posted at 16:01:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're the second guy that gives "the" and "and" as examples, would you please explain?
"Th" always sounds the same, doesn't it? And "an" sounds the same as "and", "andrew", "angelica", ...
hockeyandquidditch · 3 points · Posted at 16:04:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're extremely common words so children are taught to memorize them so they don't have to sound them out every time. Also, th has two sounds, soft like in the words "mouth" and "tooth" (close to a f sound) and hard like in "the" (close to a d sound).
defrgthzjukiloaqsw · 3 points · Posted at 16:20:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Do children really do that? That stops within the first school year, though, doesn't it?
Huh, it really does, never noticed.
Actually, i have to admit i never liked the phonetic alphabet in my 1st school year. Seemed like an enourmous waste of time. They taught us the letters and the sounds they make, instead of their actual names. I guess that's the same as the "decoding" that is referred to somewhere in this thread.
Thanks, mate.
rachelsqueak · 7 points · Posted at 17:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can I get this list?
mtled · 23 points · Posted at 17:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://imgur.com/a/dgNLNmu
I think this should be legible. You might want to transcribe it to a word document or something yourself.
rachelsqueak · 4 points · Posted at 17:37:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
5-On-A-Toboggan · 3 points · Posted at 18:20:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Delivers!
mhoIulius · 6 points · Posted at 03:31:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Chaos, a poem on how unintuitive the English language is.
thegreatpotatogod · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:24 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is magnificent, and quite a fascinating sort of mental tongue-twister! Thanks for the link!
jepsuli · 5 points · Posted at 17:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for this comment! The process seems a lot more manageable now. But still, I'm very glad that Finnish was the language I learned to read first! 😄
Gazmocity · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t happen to have a link to what your mom gave you do you? Or perhaps what I could Google to find similar resources? My stepdaughter is learning to read and I am a terrible teacher.
mtled · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Took a photo and posted in another post.
https://imgur.com/a/dgNLNmu
Gazmocity · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks so much!
goosegirl86 · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m so glad my mum taught me to read before school started. I was super adhd as a kid (I’ve improved somewhat and I have better coping mechanisms now) but I didn’t get diagnosed until I was 11 so wasn’t on any meds through primary school.
If she hadn’t taught me to read before school started I likely wouldn’t have ever learnt properly at school because I couldn’t concentrate with that many distractions. It would have seriously slowed down my learning.
Thanks mum!
BassBeerNBabes · 2 points · Posted at 23:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We did a program with phonics when I was in elementary school.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mtled · 3 points · Posted at 02:55:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're several years away from needing it but here: https://imgur.com/a/dgNLNmu
It's fascinating.
There are a few words (though offhand I don't remember them) that might not be representative of your dialect; I even had to reflect on them and I know I speak the same dialect as the authors!
This is just one piece of a very large literacy puzzle, bit it's fascinating to see language broken down like this.
SailorRalph · 2 points · Posted at 06:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This right here is why I think teachers (at least in the states) are underappreciated and under-compensated. They do amazing work!
Crizznik · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your comment almost made me forget how to read. It's weird how when you really think about something it can get lost for a moment.
mtled · 5 points · Posted at 21:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really is a trip. We didn't notice all these techniques when we were learning but it all makes sense now.
At one point my kid was doing an activity page where he had to circle objects that started with the letter t. He didn't circle the picture of the tractor and I asked him why. He answered because it's a "j" or "ch"..."chractor".
And dammit, if he wasn't correct that in our dialect, that's how we pronounce the word.
Likewise, he asked where the s was in "petit" because our French dialect says "pe-tsi".
BootySniffer26 · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correct. There is a lot of repetition and multisensorial approaches for Kindergarten as well to make it more engaging and memorable.
Many schools use phonics programs that promote letter-sound correspondence in a fun way with graphic imagery and games. But it actually takes years for reading to develop, ideally starting around 18 months (letter recognition) and moving onto the end of 2nd grade (identifying unknown words without assistance), which is the benchmark for reading in America.
Brains are hardwired to absorb the principles of language at this time, and are hardwired to learn in general, so most can usually accomplish basic reading by 8 years.
You are a really good parent, by the way!
Edit: “th” and “ch” are digraphs and one of the hardest things to learn for Kinders and firsties. There are many books that tackle digraphs, such as Oh The Thinks You Can Think by Suess.
Alphablocks is another good (free) phonics resource but it uses british english phonemes
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course, the process isn't at all reliable.
If it were, nobody would ever mispronounce a word.
toni8479 · -4 points · Posted at 00:28:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derstroy grade 1. Stfu. That’s dumb as hell
ka-splam · 22 points · Posted at 19:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do Finnish kids memorize your infinte number of word endings for the same words? "Hey kids, today we're going to study the word 'dog' .. and tomorrow and the day after and all next week! Get your 'dog' textbooks out!" - https://imgur.com/QFm6SCE
jepsuli · 22 points · Posted at 20:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting question! Because it is never taught: kids just internalise all of that growing up, listening to people talk and talking themselves. I don't suppose English-speaking kids are taught how to form plural nouns at school either?
doomladen · 10 points · Posted at 20:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not necessary in English, because we just add an ‘S’ to the end of a noun to plurialise it. There are a tiny number of exceptions to this.
jepsuli · 6 points · Posted at 21:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that. But it is essentially the same thing. We only need to learn how inflection works for a few words and then we're good to go. There are very few exceptions to Finnish grammatical rules
Morgnanana · 7 points · Posted at 22:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you do learn a lot of prepositions and other small words that complement nouns and/or verbs in a sentence. Finnish language does not have words like at, to, in, from et cetera, we just add all those modifiers into the word itself. Along with loads of other things that can change the meaning of the word, such as my or their.
So you do not need to learn a million different endings for every single word, just what each part of that ending means, which in practice is no more or less confusing than learning a bunch of English words that by themselves mean nothing.
As an example from the comic, word "koirattansakaan" is just phonemes dog-his/her-without-even smashed together, which can be translated into English by reading it backwards: "even without his/her dog". And you can swap out the word dog for any other noun without changing the ending, such as "tuoli-ttansakaan" means "even without his/her chair".
Oh and as an addendum, far majority of those endings have never once in the history of Finnish language been spoken out loud as a part of everyday speech. They're more like recursive demons that arise from following the basic set of rules for suffix arrangement - much like you can add more and more words to a sentence and have it still be grammatically correct if you follow all the rules, but before long it will just become unwieldy beast that has to be cut down into smaller pieces if you want to be understood. So you know, we sometimes use two words instead of one to ram an entire paragraphs worth of information into.
And as a final thought, since we are on the subject of Finnish grammar, my favorite word in our language is "juoksentelisinkohan" - "I wonder if I should run around aimlessly?".
BrotherRoga · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's good that you added that last sentence because I was immediately reminded of the infamous Brian Regan video https://youtu.be/QWzYaZDK6Is
nilslorand · 2 points · Posted at 06:55:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wasn't there one with hungary included aswell
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 18:39:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a life long process in English. Sometimes you still find unrecognizable words that you just know are not pronounced the way they are spelled. Happens to me all the time when I read older books like "Ivanhoe."
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids in general are ridiculously good at learning things
jepsuli · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is very true
Aahhhanthony · 10 points · Posted at 18:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure it just takes a much longer time. I remember being stumbling and being confused on how to say certain words for most of elementary school. And it was not uncommon for high schools to be uncertain how to read certain words in books.
And also sometimes people make fun of you for how you say certain words for this reason. And there’s some quote I read somewhere that says you shouldn’t make fun of someone if they pronounce a word wrong because it means they’ve learnt it by reading.
random1029384 · 7 points · Posted at 18:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember being at the table with my spelling homework, somewhere age 8(?). The word was ‘enough’. Trying to grasp how the hell that made any sense at all, and what idiot figured that was the way to spell it, and who were the other idiots who agreed to it? I wanted to back in time and smack some people.
somedude456 · 8 points · Posted at 19:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans here, who was once a kid.
I remember this. You learn the basics of which letter makes what sound. They they start easy, "so what does AT" spell? Yes you are told some letters have two sounds, but "AT" is easy to figure out. Then they ad another letter to, "so what does CAT spell?"
cultured_banana_slug · 14 points · Posted at 19:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here ya go.
This was written by a non-native English speaker. It's painful to read aloud.
spenrose22 · 4 points · Posted at 20:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That just makes me realize how many words we borrow from French. Is French easy to learn for an English speaker?
kamomil · 12 points · Posted at 20:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There are lots of "false friends" things that are the same word but took on different meanings in the different languages
"Animator" in English is a person who draws animated movies. "Animateur" in Quebec French is a TV host, or a master of ceremonies role
Also English doesn't have masculine and feminine articles so that's one hurdle for English speakers learning French
spenrose22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah that would be confusing
doomladen · 5 points · Posted at 20:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, French is one of the easiest languages to learn as a native English speaker. I think only Dutch and Spanish are easier.
finemustard · 9 points · Posted at 23:52:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US Defense Language Institute has actually ranked a bunch of languages in terms of their difficulty for a native English speaker to learn. Basically the romance languages and the germanic languages are the easiest for us to learn because modern English is a bit of a mash up between French and Old English which was much more germanic than what we speak now.
https://effectivelanguagelearning.com/language-guide/language-difficulty/
doomladen · 3 points · Posted at 23:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, the UK Diplomatic Service has done the same thing, which was the source I was using.
WriterofGarbage · 0 points · Posted at 23:17:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Esperanto is really easy too. Typing it is a pain though.
Soulgee · 6 points · Posted at 19:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an English speaker with a small knowledge of how Finnish is put together, I don't know how anybody ever learns it.
caketruck · 5 points · Posted at 19:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always know how to speak Armenian, so when I started to learn how to read, it blew my mind how the letters were more like sounds. If I wanted to spell a word, I'd just have to... Sound it out. Hardest part of the whole language is memorizing letters. There are little to no rules that dictate how a letter sounds. I don't think I could learn English now if I hadn't already done it, but this is so much easier.
Amegami · 5 points · Posted at 18:15:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but Finnish is difficult as hell anyways.
dannicalliope · 6 points · Posted at 18:35:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, hearing people talk and being read to helps with figuring out how each specific combination of letters sound together. At some point, you just memorize it.
zeGolem83 · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm French, and we have the same issue, on another, more dramatic, scale...
From what I saw of my stepsister learning to read (I have 0 memories of how I learned...) : they learn it by pairs, and try to identify pairs in the word, and for more complex sounds (made by >2 letters) they learn them on a word-by-word basis, and figure it out through practicing...
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are multiple methods and some are conflicting. There are people out there teaching the letters alone first with apparently great results
Riskinan · 4 points · Posted at 20:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's this Orthographic Depth Hypothesis, which describes how in orthographically clear language like Finnish, the learner simply makes the Phoneme (sound)/grapheme (letter) Connection. In orthographically opaque languages such as English, the learner must instead memorise the different variants of these phoneme/grapheme connections and The contexts in which each variant occurs. Thus it takes longer to learn to read in English than in Finnish.
Source: I don't have the exact study on hand, but I did a paper on this topic for an exam 4 years ago, so I can probably find it for you, if you're interested.
jepsuli · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Super interested! Please do, if isn't too much trouble!
punch_nazis_247 · 4 points · Posted at 21:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is like the only language that can have spelling bees, because spelling follows actual predictable rules in other languages.
shhh_its_me · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They start small, cluster lessons, have an order and the material is designed to teach it. that sounds obvious but in books for little kids designed to teach reading there is extreme mindfulness about what words are presented. They don't start with knife, knight and know. they start with something like C at, cat. R at Rat. or C at cat , C ar car etc and keep to one or two leter/sound lessons at a time. They dont' start with the sometimes this sometimes that comes later they stay will the common rule first.
The_Crimson_Duck · 4 points · Posted at 22:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait till you look at Irish. Mh and Dhbh sound the exact same in Caoimhe and Sadhbh. It's "V"
jepsuli · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The masochist in me is suddenly very tempted to take some Irish lessons
coltzord · 6 points · Posted at 20:52:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, well, that instantly makes me want to learn finnish, I wish my native language was like that.
faloop1 · 3 points · Posted at 19:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish is the same. One sound per letter, now just put it all together and get faster at it.
spenrose22 · 5 points · Posted at 20:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except I can’t roll my r’s so that will always evade me
faloop1 · 4 points · Posted at 21:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's fine, I know native Spanish speaker adults that can't also. My sister could not until she was like 8. We made her repeat a riddle with a lot of r's over and over, hundreds of times, until it worked!
Belazriel · 3 points · Posted at 20:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finnish the bizarre Uralic language of the Nordic countries.
SimplyFishOil · 3 points · Posted at 21:07:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing, only I grow up around it so I was forced to learn. Plus being a part of the society seems to change as you grow. When I'm 40 I'll be pretty disappointed if I hear people my age still saying "lit"
Even as an adult I'm still learning. The past year I've really started to understand how to use ";" and "-" in a sentence.
DoctorsSong · 3 points · Posted at 22:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phonics reading and accurate spelling do not go well together! Yes, I speak from experience
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:40:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best part is that most people have zero idea of the rules for when they make different sounds. So it is the blind leading the blind.
Same with numbers. In English you have 11,12, 13 and THEN it starts to follow a pattern at 14. Same with 20, 30, 50.
I taught my girls “onety one, onety two” and twoty, threety.
Only after they got the concept of how we build numbers did I say to them “by the way, some crazy person decided to call onety one eleven...so yeah.
RoyalPeacock19 · 4 points · Posted at 18:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t help that we took an alphabet made for LATIN, barely edited it, and just said; “This works”.
koJJ1414 · 6 points · Posted at 19:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it works for Finnish...
jepsuli · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Finnish sound system is more simple than the English one. Latin alphabet works perfectly for Finnish with the addition of ä and ö
Makhiel · 3 points · Posted at 22:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it did work a lot better some 1200 years ago. Then you decided that you needed 14 vowels and that spelling reforms are for cowards.
Gaydar555 · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can assure you, we do not
agz91 · 2 points · Posted at 19:17:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
German is difficult. The grammar is fucking difficult I with German motherlanguage can't understand wtf that all means
jms_nh · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But German is very easy to spell/pronounce. Schreibmaschinegesellschaft or things like that, just a bunch of words or suffixes smushed together.
agz91 · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but that doesn't make you speak the language. To speak it you need to know the grammar knowing how to spell words Wong get ya wide
kamomil · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just memorization
My kid is 5. I read to him. I show him how to sound out words... like cat and dog. I skip the harder ones like "through" I just tell him those ones without trying to match the spelling to the sound.
I mean in sheet music, there's stuff that you memorize without really knowing why. You just memorize it.
Also he still doesn't use all the right grammar yet nor does he pronounce "th" properly yet. But he will get it eventually
SWMovr60Repub · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thought just occurred to me that England was far more worldly than Finland and incorporated many more foreign pronunciations.
You guys do have great race drivers though.
jepsuli · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that must have affected the situation. But it's not like Finnish has developed in a void, either. Finnish is actually really cool with loan words: once it takes one on, it is usually very well preserved in its original form. Study of early forms of e.g. Germanic languages can sometimes benefit from taking a look at Finnish vocabulary. Like the (Proto?) Germanic word for king, 'kuningaz', disappeared centuries ago. King in Finnish is still 'kuningas'. Not that you wanted to know this or anything 😅
SWMovr60Repub · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, not in a void but not spanning the globe with East Asians, South Asians, Arabs, Africans.
OsKarMike1306 · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother tongue is French and I obviously learned to read that before learning to read English.
Knowing English now, I don't understand how I could make sense of French as a kid. English is so fucking simple, meanwhile French is a bunch of rules that break constantly.
You have to know those rules and their exceptions, I had tests on this and I'm still fucking up almost 16 years later. Stupid sexy language, why can't you make sense ?
yellowpowerranger87 · 2 points · Posted at 00:47:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They break it down into each sound. My grade 1 kid is learning "th" and "tch" sounds right now. Lots of repetition and reading. I always wondered how non-English speakers learn all the complexities and idioms. They're the superheroes to me.
Sanquinity · 2 points · Posted at 01:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a non-native speaker (though from a fairly bilingual country, The Netherlands) I learned it through memorization. I just remember how words or certain letter combinations are supposed to sound. Which results in awkwardness when I encounter a new word. Though luckily that happens rarely these days. :P
Goes for everything about the English language for me actually. I dare say I'm fluent in English. Heck, I often have an easier time saying/thinking things in English than in Dutch. Yet I have no clue at all about any grammatical rules or anything you would learn at school. I just learned English from watching TV with subtitles and later on from gaming and the internet.
ColdFIREBaker · 2 points · Posted at 06:02:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a native English speaker, taught all three of my kids (also native English speakers) to read. They learned the basic most common sounds each letter makes and basic words that follow those “rules”, and read short stories with words that follow the rules. Then they learned common patterns (like an « e » at the end of the word modifying the pronunciation of the previous vowel), common sounds that letters make together (like sh-,th-, -gh,wh-) and common words that you can’t really sound out (like through), and practice reading those sounds/words repeatedly and reading short stories with those new sounds/words. The rest they learn from reading normal books.
It helps that their vocabulary (from growing up speaking English) is way ahead of their reading ability. When they come across a word they’re not familiar with, they can usually figure out the correct pronunciation based on their vocabulary and the context clues in whatever they are reading.
My kids all attend school in French, and when they bring French books home to practice reading aloud, they will frequently mispronounce words without realizing because their French vocabulary is not nearly as developed as their English. They don’t know that what they’re saying is not a word in French. French learning (at least for my kids’ school) spends a lot longer teaching kids how to pronounce combinations of two or three letters.
pickindim_kmet · 2 points · Posted at 10:51:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Finnish friend tells me similar. "You English are weird, why don't you pronounce each letter? Just say it as it's written"
KaijuRaccoon · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Teaching my kids to read was an exercise in patience and also explaining "there's legitimately no rules for English that are standard across this language because every word is either made up advertising slang that's been appropriated in to common usage, or, words stolen from a thousand other languages and hammered in to place until they fit."
Why does every vowel have a different sound when paired with other vowels in certain places of words, but really only when we feel like it? Why do we need a bunch of letters that make hard K sounds but only in certain instances and also sometimes we combine two of them together when only one would work fine, and also sometimes K itself is silent?! Nobody knows. We made all this shit up. English is just the Paper Towns of language.
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75r6q3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t even know how I managed to learn thousands of different characters growing up with ease yet no w it takes me days or weeks to remember some obscure character I don’t encounter often
Dorwytch · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids usually learn that letters give the same sounds first and then as they get more words in their vocabulary they learn that there are some odd pronunciations in there. For me, I learned to read French first, so when I learned how to read English I already recognized the letters.
kamunoz · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve watched tv shows in Finnish. It sounds to me like you have maybe four consonants and a vowel. Maybe a vowel and a half. ;)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I struggled with the word "The"- used to try read it as "tah-heh" - struggled with that for days but once I had it the rest all just came together.
meltymcface · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And yet so many Europeans learn English as a second language and speak it better than many English people!
I don't get it myself. Am English.
Occams_bane · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
y-you said that in english
gumbywasright · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, they don't learn every rule at once. They learn letters, write those letters, say those letters, and eventually the sounds are automatically attached to the symbol. Then they use the sounds together to build simple words. They listen to the words, sound them out, and build the words based on how they sound.
Traister101 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually just a lot of oh you'll just have to memorize that one... Uh okay?
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried to learn Finnish. I just can't. I can say some very basic things like:
hyvää yötä and that's about it. I've mostly focused on teaching her better English.
eatMYcookieCRUMBS · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read that. Read that.
Each sentence means something different.
stygger · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to keep in mind that english changed the way they pronouce vowls (The Great Vowel Shift) so they used to pronounce letters a lot more like their European neighbours in the past.
I've seen english texts written before the vowl shift and you can almost pronounce the letters as it was a swedish text and it comes out sounding like english.
This is also a reason why english speakers so frequently slaughter the pronounciation of many European names and places.
lukemr99999 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's just slightly more painful and leads to the same result. once you have a language down natively it's not really a matter of learning how to discern symbols as much as it's learning which symbols to associate with the words you already know
Yitzach · 1 points · Posted at 04:40:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only if you consider being unable to speak competently as an adult a superpower.
I'm a bad speller, I don't have an amazing vocabulary, and I don't think I've written more than 2 things down (with pen and paper) for over 2 years.
When I listen to many people talk I sit in utter amazement that they are able to function in the real world, barely being able to speak english (native speakers, not those on their 2nd+ language).
People, in America at least, seem to be totally ok putting the onus of responsibility on the person listening to make sure what they say is understood.
Maybe I'm alone in this observation.
alien6 · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to use a lot of brainpower to smoosh your words endings together for declensions and conjugations according to arcane rules that non-Finns can't understand. We use that brainpower to memorize extra rules for pronouncing words from letters. It evens out.
Lonewolf953 · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean... you learned how to do it
jepsuli · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have the same experience as English-speaking people. I already knew how reading worked before I started to study English. While reading English was of course harder than reading Finnish, I didn't have to learn to read again. I hope I'm making sense
Lord-Table · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is held together with duct tape, chewing gum, and two servings of hope
DetectivePokeyboi · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically we read word by word instead of letter by letter. Give us a new word that doesn’t have any known patterns/roots, and we get totally lost.
Fo_shou · 1 points · Posted at 12:56:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same in Serbia, also we have words that are written the same but have a different meaning but nowhere near as English language. Finally, Serbia is one of the few if not the only country to officially use 2 different alphabets.
mrurg · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have taught kindergarten and have an explanation for this! Good kindergarten teachers teach children to read phonetically with each letter usually making only one sound. Sounds consisting of blended letters are not usually taught in kindergarten, with the exception maybe of really common ones like "th" and "ch". So when kindergarteners write, they are told to spell phonetically by sounding out words, such as "I bilt a sno man" or "I luk at my techr". This helps them learn to decode unfamiliar words better than teaching all the weird spellings in English all at once which can be confusing. Then, in first grade, the more complex rules of the English language and the "real" spellings of words are taught.
nooniih · 0 points · Posted at 20:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But Finnish words sound like “ähnykilkoälmynita” so even if in Finnish one letter represents one sound it’s still amazing how kids learn to read.
jollyoldholly · 0 points · Posted at 01:22:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family is Finnish and I’m annoyed that they didn’t teach my siblings and I to speak it as children. My Mummi tried teaching me in my 20’s and it’s sooo hard. Like 26 letters for one very simple word 😕
WasterDave · 0 points · Posted at 12:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's writing English that's hard. I would say that most native English speakers have poor written English.
Exiled_Survivor · -1 points · Posted at 19:31:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't really explain it (even being a native speaker of English), but English is a wacky language that is easily among the hardest for foreign speakers to learn. It would be (SLIGHTLY) easier for me to learn Japanese than for a Japanese person to learn English, for example, because so many of our letters have multiple sounds (and some are silent in certain cases).
trynumber53 · 24 points · Posted at 18:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there’s stuff like Chinese and Japanese where there are literally millions of characters and they all sound different and mean different things while also being similar to at least 100 other characters
Database-Error · 9 points · Posted at 20:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm learning Japanese right now and the similarities actually help. Most characters are made up of other characters, so it's easy to remember that 明 means bright when I know that 日 means sun and 月 means moon, both of which are bright.
And it is actually a very logical and easy to understand writing language.
Ransidcheese · 6 points · Posted at 21:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hiragana and katakana are so convenient to read. Everything makes one sound and only that sound with very few exceptions. It's so nice coming from english where we have C but also S and K. Not to mention anything with a GH.
But then kanji has to show up and make me have to remember shit.
Database-Error · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg I feel the other way around. I learn on my own, and I started learning kanji at a really fast rate. I was completing N3 kanji before I had even completed N5 grammar. So when I tried reading N5 Japanese books and all the Japanese was just in kana it was so hard to know wth was going on. Especially books that don't use spaces. Like there's so many homophones in Japanese. So it makes sense they still use kanji.
Ransidcheese · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I learned kana first and I only know like 5 kanji. Granted I stopped learning japanese like 3 years ago or more so I've forgotten most of what i learned. I also wasn't nearly as advanced as you are.
I had the same problem you had when I tried to read things only in kana. The best thing for me was a news site that had kanji with the kana written above it really small for children to read.
Stated learning because I wanted a change and wanted to go somewhere else (still do but... ugh). I always liked japanese culture and history and thought maybe I should try moving there. I was gonna go to college and apply for the Japanese Exchange Teaching program. But, the idea that I would have to spend a fortune to get a degree to apply to something that I would probably be denied for was not attractive. Also college just scares me. So I gave up.
GraMacTical0 · 13 points · Posted at 18:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In watching my son's mind unfold, it started with a love of being read to. Then, he got really fucking into letters, both upper and lower case. He'd point out the letters he knows everywhere, and now he's at a place where he knows that strings of letters are words. He's memorized his favorite books, and when he "reads" them, he knows what pages have which sentences on them. I imagine the next step is matching the words he's memorized to the written words on the page, but we're not quite there yet, so who knows!
It's a super cool process to witness because it happens way quicker and more passively than it would if he were an adult.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 17:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I'm a Spanish speaker and sometimes I wonder how English speaking kids learn to read. I assume it's easier in Spanish because it's a phonetic language, but English...
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About the first sentence, it depends. Maybe if you're Brazilian or Portuguese, then it might be, but English does not have genders (at least on most words) and complicated verb conjugations.
And for the other, that sounds pretty complicated. Do you know if kids struggle with spelling? Because most of my classmates (I'm 15) have terrible spelling in Spanish.
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[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's true. There aren't that many irregular verbs in the Spanish language.
Mostly mistaking S with C, or not writing the H (or using it when it's not necessary). Also, B and V, and sometimes M and N. Many people write "aser" instead of "hacer" (to do), and also "acer" and "haser".
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I would like to say that my spelling has no mistakes, although if I hear an unknown word for the first time, I might misspell it. Or maybe I can just guess how it's spelled. I do think, however, that Spanish spelling is unnecessarily complicated, especially the use of the letter H which makes no sound at all.
Niwde09 · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a native Spanish speaker and i can say that a LOOT of people who speak Spanish also do a lot of mistakes, especially with the word "Hacer" and other common words with H, G, J, N, M, S, C, V and B
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I forgot some letters. Also sometimes Z.
shummyd · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same way you have learned to read English right?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean exactly? Like, pronunciation and such?
shummyd · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the aspects of reading and speaking, you have learned the language just as children have
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
May be that way.
HassanMoRiT · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly still don't know how I got toy current level in English. My native language couldn't be any different from English.
cherrylimeade11 · 9 points · Posted at 18:21:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an elementary school teacher, I basically had to “relearn” how to read in order to teach 1st graders how to read. Way more complex than people think, especially once it becomes an autonomous skill and you no longer have to actually process the many steps your brain goes through to simply read letters on a page.
I now finally understand why reading is difficult and takes a long time to fully learn...especially in English!
MenOfChanges · 9 points · Posted at 19:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bliveee our biarn deson't read wrdos saepreltey but rthear we raed tehm as a wolhe. We jsut acsositae ctreian pettrans wtih the sudons and wnheenevr we idtnefiy shuc we rmenbeer "ah, tihs sulhod be raed as BUH-LOW-NIE"
xXDreamlessXx · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This pained me
RubbrChikn · 8 points · Posted at 17:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Babies and children have a much greater ability to learn than older people, because babies need to learn alot just to move their bodies and children need to learn language and stuff
research_humanity · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Puppies
yourmothersbutt69 · 5 points · Posted at 18:45:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a speech language pathologist, I often tell my kids that English is cruel when they spell or read something incorrectly. Obviously I then help correct them. This is also true when learning irregular plurals or past tense words. Lots of stupid phonetic rules kids have to learn and memorize then apply to the information. Then, of course, there are words and situations that don't apply to said rules. I too am memorized by the fact that I can read
jrizos · 5 points · Posted at 00:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
brain scans have been done and they prove that reading is the hardest thing for the brain to do and activates the most "parts" of the brain. It's why so many developmental disorders present with reading.
Queencleo7 · 2 points · Posted at 01:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is amazing news, you've sent me down a rabbit hole of research. My 7 yo daughter has brain damage and has been put in a literacy program at school to catch her up to other kids, I hadn't really connected how hard a skill it is to master.
jrizos · 5 points · Posted at 01:28:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is long and not well formatted
But it's the text I read in grad school. If you skip ahead to where it really begins and read just the first five chapters, you'll learn a lot. Glad to help!
Leucippus1 · 4 points · Posted at 17:18:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The brain has a 'letterbox', a set of neural circuits that are adapted to read letters. It takes years to develop this, which is why it takes so long to learn to read and write.
Look up a book at the library called 'Language at the Speed of Sight' for more details. Broca's area is the area in the brain responsible for speech and communication, the letter box is a smaller and more specialized part of the brain which can be trained to read letters quickly.
https://www.dana.org/article/inside-the-letterbox-how-literacy-transforms-the-human-brain/
taekook14 · 5 points · Posted at 18:58:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it now seems crazy to me how i managed to do that when i was 4, wow! i recently learned to read korean (not really translate it yet though) and i compared it to the english alphabet and realised how strange our language is
TheGlassCat · 4 points · Posted at 20:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh, 4 year old are on average much much smarter that you or me. Our ability to learn decreases dramatically until it levels off in adulthood.
Diogenes-Disciple · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember learning how to read. I hated it.
First you learn each letter, their name and the sound they make. A = ah, B = buh, C = sss, and so on. Then you learn what sounds they make together. B + A = bah, C + H = chuh, etc. Then they start making you put together words and sentences, with pictures to help you. “See Jen run? Tom pets the dog. Pig sits on pin.” You have to sound out each word. It’s painful and boring. Then you eventually start putting together sentences with more ease. You learn how to make sense of the words instantly and without the use of pictures as hints. You start finding things you like to read, you start reading on your own, practicing it by doing so, learning new words by sounding them out just like you did as a kid. That’s why people who read a lot don’t know how to pronounce shit.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:40:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's times like this that I'm grateful to have grown up with English as my primary language, because it sounds like an absolute bitch to learn as a second language.
HassanMoRiT · 2 points · Posted at 01:03:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It honestly isn't. It's way more mainstream than most other languages so that made everywhere.
Foibles5318 · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I learned to read really young and can naturally read a lot faster than most people. My dad was the same way. I don’t remember learning to read and I don’t remember not being able to read. I remember preschool and kindergarten a little and I remember first grade really well (the horror of being super shy and they made us read out loud to a group to determine what our reading level was and I just choked and was in the low-level reading group for months because of it and bored and then I’d just sort of wander off and get into trouble. What else was I supposed to do? I read the entire book already and Kelly is struggling with the fact that fox and box have the same sound and don’t need be sounded out GOD hurry up).
About 15 years ago, I had to try and help my stepdaughter learn how to read and I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t help her because the process made no sense to me. She really struggled to get beyond the reading ability of a first grader and I was just....useless. Some part of my brain just decodes words really quickly and easily and hers doesn’t and.... it really just blew my mind.
boomblebeez · 2 points · Posted at 17:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a dyslexic person, my solution was lots of practice. Still doesn't make sense to me, but whatever.
luksonluke · 2 points · Posted at 19:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh when i try to explain anything i sound so retarded, i don't understand how others are really good at explaining things if i had that skill i'd be so much better at communicating.
Zisx · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can remember a bit. Books like Dr. Seuss were easy (or at least manageable), kid books with small letters and complex words / sentence structure (at least for a 5 or so year old) was tough. It was like working out muscles, but with the mind (but like riding a bike or anything else complex, I don't remember the moment (if I even did) when I felt I'd "mastered it", just gradual improvement and failing a bunch leads you to become great
Edit: even with something super complex like tennis (started at age 14 and played in highschool), I didn't focus on doing great as much as improving. I had bad days and better days, and eventually it just hit me: "wow I'm actually half decent and not so-so"
fxstfullofashes · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just ask the toddlers, they’ll tell ya
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't stand kanjis.
pandaelpatron · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a scene in one of the Star Trek movies where Data (the android) talks to a child. Basically the child is amazed to be talking with a human-like robot, yadda yadda, but then Data replies something along the lines of: I may seem very complex and advanced, but your legs are growing every day, yet your brain subconsciously compensates and you effortlessly keep your balance without even noticing.
TLDR; our brains do amazing things 24/7 and we don't even think about it.
KaizenGamer · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't think about this too much or you'll forget how to read
FantaToTheKnees · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started learning Russian a year and a half ago.
Going through a new alphabet was a challenge but not the end of the world. All the grammar and vocabulary however...
lacquerqueen · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a very interesting process that starts at toddlerhood, even for babies! They first connect that certain shapes represent reading words out loud. If you introduce them to books early on, they work on how a book feels and works straight away!
I am a literacy-expert in training for our library :)
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The younger you are the easier it is to learn a language.
aSadGirlsTongue · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes YES!
m_pzz · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And also how are we able to interpret those form even though people’s different calligraphies
TheSchemingColorist · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s a “language explosion” period when kids are developing the parts of their brain to comprehend language. It obviously slows down and the ability to learn language becomes more difficult the older one is, because adults and older children have already developed this part of the brain.
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, most people learn as kids, and parents usually dont just throw a book at kids. Thr parents read through the book with the kid and slowly progress up different levels to expand their vocabulary.
Cancermom1010101010 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“See this shape? It sounds like this. Or like this. Or sometimes like this. Actually, sometimes it doesn’t make any sound at all. Got it? Great! Now here’s 25 more of them”
This is why we teach very small children the sounds animals make. The picture of the Cow says "Moo", gets related to, The picture of the 'C' says Keh like K-k-Cow, and K-k-Cat.
Kids who are read to are interested in figuring it out for themselves, and are motivated to make these connections. Kids who are unfortunate and don't get read to have a more difficult time finding it relevant, and have a harder time learning to read.
tonivgenov · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then there is the danish language....
Roam_Hylia · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been wrestling with this one personally. My wife and I are planning a move to Taiwan one all the travel bans are lifted and we've been working on learning some mandarin. The spoken language isn't too terrible to learn but I'll be damned if I can make heads or tails of the written language. Once we're over there I'll have to get enrolled in classes.
RadicalUtopia · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
same with music to be honest, how people can sight read sheet music and play it like that instantly
research_humanity · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Baby elephants
RadicalUtopia · 1 points · Posted at 09:28:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
not only with single notes, musicians see chords as shapes, i heard. i could see how it could be done with triads and inversion of triads but it becomes quite a bit more difficult when you add the 7th, since there's so many possibilities (Minor, major, diminished, minor 3rd with major 7th, major 3rd with minor 7th, rootless 9 chords...) in that sense i think jazz harmonic notation (like AbMaj7#9) is superior because it gives a more immediate harmonic understanding.
i can play beginner-intermediate level jazz (i know some theory but i still gotta study the weird shit like tritone substitutions or learning more bebop improvisational vocabulary) but i don't know how to sight read. I'd like to learn but i know it takes tons of effort, and it's a really slow process that could take many many years.
but that pattern story interestingly also applies to jazz, there's very very common progressions (ii-V7-I, III-VI-II-V-I...) that are present in almost every standard. i never really thought about it but once you learn them it really is incredible how often they come up.
research_humanity · 1 points · Posted at 09:45:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Baby elephants
casbri13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They typically start with “sight words.” Small words they learn just by seeing them, like “the,” “see,” and “you.” They’re starting with phonetics at this time too.
We had difficulty with getting my son to read. Honestly, they usually have an “aha” moment and things just click. He was reading at a Pre K level at the beginning of first grade. His teacher was phenomenal, and things finally “clicked.” He’s in second grade and reading at a third grade level now, so he’s a bit ahead now.
From a parental standpoint, it was very difficult. I have teaching knowledge, though for HS level, so I didn’t have the knowledge for grade school. There was this precarious balance we had to walk. He would get frustrating because he didn’t know the words, so you don’t want to stress him to the point he is completely turned off to reading and does want to do it at all.
Essentially, every word is a sight word. When you read something, you don’t sound out every word every time, right? Once you learn a word, you know it on sight. Phonetics is such a crapshoot in English because there are so many words that do NOT follow the rules. More words break the rules than follow them.
I think there is probably a better way to teach reading than the standard American phonetics model, but I have no clue what that way is.
im_person_dude · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What will really blow your mind his that you're just thinking English where combinations of letters represent sound. But in Chinese the characters represent concepts. So even though Mandarin and Cantonese sound different you can write it down and people who only speak Mandarin will be able to understand something written by someone who only speaks Cantonese because they share the same script.
My___Legacy · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It starts with listening to your parents, then mimicking what they say, then sounding out the alphabet with parental aid, then connecting learned letters together (words) again with aid, then word-picture association, and boom you're reading and you know what you're reading.
marsglow · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I very clearly remember the moment I was first able to read. I was four. I wanted to read so, so bad. I knew that letters were for sounds and you sort of ran them together, and I knew that “the” was THE. I stared so hard at that book, I felt something sort of pop in my head, and I COULD READ ALL THE WORDS ON THE PAGE!!! It was glorious.
I ran into my parents bedroom screaming, “I can read! I can read!” The book was The Rubaiyat by Omar Khayyam. It was the prettiest book my parents had. They were librarians. They were very happy. Dad gave me another book to have me read from and I could. This was the most exciting thing that ever happened to me, until the first time I held my daughter in my arms.
joltl111 · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a problem more for the English speakers (as well as a few others). My mother tongue is Lihtuanian and we are blessed with a writing system where the words are written EXACTLY how they sound. Every single letter in our alphabet can make one and ONLY one possible sound (with one exception of the 'ch' combination making a brand new sound, but again, it makes it 100% of the time)
Learning how to read English was mind blowing. My little elementary school brain couldn't comprehend the concept of silent letters. BUT, the fact that English hasn't got any cases is definitely a blessing.
CoolnessEludesMe · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's just comes from the fact that everything means something else. All animals are aware of that. Like, that shadow passing on the ground means you're going to die if you don't get in a hole NOW. Or, if the woolly caterpillars are extra woolly it's going to be a hard winter. Or, that red shape with the white squiggles means STOP.
I think the whole of human knowledge is a huge collection of "this means that". 26 letters all meaning different things? That's just a minute fraction of the symbolism the mind is capable of grasping.
teardropmaker · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My first word was "box". I didn't read it as b o x. I saw the word and pictured a box. I was now a reader. First grade. Remember it clearly. Before it was sounding it out. Now it became automatic.
tiffanygray1990 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currently homeschooling my six year old due to covid-19. Teaching a child to read is so hard.
gemziiexxxxxp · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have an easy answer for that, only cos I have a nephew who keeps asking me questions. Which is great in a way, cos asking questions means he's learning. But this is how most of our conversations go during the day:
Nephew : "what is this".
Me : "it's a scooter".
Nephew proceeds to ask me the same thing about 12x.
And then:
Nephew : "why scooter".
Me : "because, it just is. Now stop asking me"
Nephew proceeds to do the same thing about another object.
Catatonicdrgnfli · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Husband is dyslexic, in such a way that “sounding it out” is virtually impossible for him. He has, quite literally, memorized every word he has ever seen. It pains me when he is reading aloud and sees a word that he has probably only ever read but not spoken - he mispronounces them often. I feel bad for correcting him, but he thanks me. His grammar can be horrible, but I tend to do most of the email writing. 😅
jasonjenkins67 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's actually an interesting and tragic sociological phenomenon that happened when a 14-year-old girl named Genie Wiley was isolated from everyone for most of her life. Her parents never spoke to her, and she was kept in a locked room away from any social interaction. When she was rescued, people tried to teach her English. At first it was going well, but Genie relapsed back, and it was clear that teaching language at a younger age is significantly easier than teaching a language later in life.
SteppedOver · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually read the first sentence in this reply and wondered for a split second whether the guy writing it knows how to read.
Domshous · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family all of us kids would “read” pretty much we’d memorize words and would just see the words and go yea this is that thing I gotta make this sound.
kilotangoalpha · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Four-year-olds have a higher capacity for learning than adults do.
Alpakat35 · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have so many stories of my essentially un-learning how to read. (Sorta)
Looking through dictionarys for ages, looking for a specific word, you have to look away for a bit as the words just stop making sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i wonder about how they did it in english, so many letters have so many way of saying them, yeah in spanish we have ' for aeiou, wich basically says wich letter haves to be pronounced in a different way but in english you don't even have that
Bree12586 · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly!!! Because of Covid-19 my eldest son, who is 6, is home with me because the schools are closed. I'm helping him to learn how to read. And although I'm fluent in English, I have a really difficult time actually explaining how each letter has a particular sound in a particular word.
Xerzaj · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can read russian and i have no idea how, i know how to speak it a little bit, but when someone types something in russian i can say it almost flawlessly, language and reading is weird
idlehanz88 · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up “synthetic phonics”
As someone who teaches children to read, it’s Not til you break words until the smaller parts (sounds, blends, morphographs) that you can effectively teach it
Jaderosegrey · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It drives me nuts that I do not remember learning how to read. Not a clue of how I managed it. The earliest memory I have is being in first or second grade and being bored to tears while a classmate tried to read aloud. I had already read the page and didn't dare go further just in case my teacher yelled at me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a first grade teacher and teach kids to read every day. It’s the COOLEST thing when you see that reading finally “clicks” with a kid and then they just....get it!
English is really the most ridiculous language to learn with all it’s crazy rules.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can also do it later in life. I had to relearn how to read and write to learn russian. What you described is more or less how it worked for me, and at some point you get used to it and it becomes more natural
tseremed · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair most 4 year olds can't read. It usually starts at 5-6.
ScheckAttackx · 1 points · Posted at 08:24:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try learning to read Japanese Hiragana.
Even if you don't move onto Katakana or Kanji or bother pursuing the rest of the language. Just grab a Hiragana chart and start copying and memorising. You'll get a pretty good idea.
penislovereater · 1 points · Posted at 12:36:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is more regular than people generally realise. It's just that it has more "rules" on average than other languages. Can be tough, though.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:42:12 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Bro, I ALWAYS had that question!! It was actually answered(kinda?) when I got the awesome idea of learning a new language. Try it. Learn Russian, Japanese, Hindi, and English(I assume you know atleast one of these, since your comment is in English).
As for how they get it w/o ANY reference, they don't! They actually HAVE a reference! It's just that their reference isn't lines or curves, but instead it's actually sounds.
As for why I chose Those 4 languages, You'll notice those are 4 of the major languages spoken in the world which are different from each other.
Most languages in the Indian Subcontinent are like Hindi.
Most 'Asian' languages are like Japanese.
Most USSR derivatives have languages which are like Russian.
Most languages in the other European countries are like English.
Caer-Rythyr · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my own personal experience, reading was extremely intuitive for me. Teachers barely had to point out the basics and I picked it up. I think that genetic memory really comes into it. My father and his fathers have been major readers for generations beyond my knowledge.
Perhaps people whose precursors weren't readers are the ones who have extreme difficulty or reading disorders?
GingerMau · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learning how to understand language and speak at all is pretty mind-blowing, in general.
Babies brains are just that plastic and sponge-like, though.
Honestly, I think we need to be teaching babies to read as they are learning language, not after. Waiting til a kid is 4 makes it harder.
research_humanity · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Kittens
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:20:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/_/fn47tnw/?context=1
HassanMoRiT · 0 points · Posted at 01:06:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first word in the holy Qur'an was "read"
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 18:36:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t know how you learned to read....? I swear to god some of the shit you read on the internet.
petmechompU · 3 points · Posted at 20:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many people learn to read before they go to school. I have no idea how little me put it together, except that Mom read to us a lot (yes, English). First grade was booooooring.
Ransidcheese · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I learned from my mom reading to me and from playing the shit out of Pokemon Crystal for the gameboy color. That's also where I learned math.
LargeMagician7 · 19551 points · Posted at 13:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sometimes when I'm just sitting there, I become hyper aware of my senses and then the whole concept of existence just confuses the fuck out of me
Edit: look mom, no hands
kronicle_gaming · 10922 points · Posted at 15:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you’re brushing your teeth or washing your face and you stare at yourself in the mirror too long and you’re just like “whoa, this is me. But I’m actually me and I see me.” And you go into a mini existential crisis about you being you and then you forget it happened.
I_hate_traveling · 7749 points · Posted at 15:14:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like when you're reading a word over and over and it starts losing all meaning.
Except that instead of a word, it's you.
Josiah55 · 1682 points · Posted at 18:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want to frame this quote.
discerningpervert · 100 points · Posted at 19:31:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a screenshot, save it somewhere with the link. If after the quarantine is over you still feel like framing it, get a frame
Doogleyboogley · 55 points · Posted at 20:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No , impulse buy every family member one
bigtimesauce · 23 points · Posted at 21:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy fucks
Darkdiamondwolf · 9 points · Posted at 22:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
... what
with what
bigtimesauce · 13 points · Posted at 22:58:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tres commas, amigo, tres
Darkdiamondwolf · 6 points · Posted at 23:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
que?
John_Smithers · 7 points · Posted at 21:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not even halfway through April and I have Christmas gifts for everyone now!
nevergrownup97 · 6 points · Posted at 22:41:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Took a screenshot, read your comment. Now I feel like I want all six of us to hang out.
Kishoe64 · 12 points · Posted at 21:49:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Have you ever read a word over and over until it sounds foreign? I do that but with my own existence all the time"
Read_It_Before · 5 points · Posted at 22:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here you go...
"It's like when you're reading a word over and over and it starts losing all meaning.
Except that instead of a word, it's you."
Desdrolando · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looks like something a character would be saying to themselves in a transcendental moment lol
NoncompetitiveJazz · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plant some illegal drugs on it.
every_nickname_was_t · 191 points · Posted at 18:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation
_brainfog · 21 points · Posted at 19:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say that ten times
ErnstStavroBlowTree · 13 points · Posted at 20:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation is a series of satisfying sibilants
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:07:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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bestblackdress · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: in poetry/literature this is called iambs.
emeraldkat77 · 4 points · Posted at 21:28:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally read that as semantic salutation. Then I had to think about that so long it lost all meaning.
Ciara1965 · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooo, good phrase
ISupportOxfordCommas · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If this isn’t a sub, it should be.
_duncan_idaho_ · 2 points · Posted at 00:18:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do the Jews have to do with this?
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fellow big brain
redditready1986 · 38 points · Posted at 18:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bowl. Bowl. Bowl. Bowl. Bowl. Bowl. Boowl. Booooowl. Bowl.
What the fuck is a bowl?
riskoooo · 11 points · Posted at 20:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's what you just hit man, now pass it ffs you've been saying bowl for 5 minutes
RockSta-holic · 2 points · Posted at 01:47:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
bol bowel bol bowel... weird
Peter_See · 13 points · Posted at 19:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Special. Special. Specshial. Speshial. Speshel. Speshl.
boop_attack · 12 points · Posted at 19:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never related so much to a Reddit comment in my life.
donnyroyale · 6 points · Posted at 19:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ro-ads
cjldvm · 3 points · Posted at 19:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rooods
hamshake · 5 points · Posted at 19:46:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homosapien satiation
archagon · 7 points · Posted at 20:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Highly relevant animated short: https://youtu.be/Tgue81LVZ4E
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking hell. I was not ready for this at 1am
pingustolemysanity · 5 points · Posted at 18:55:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that with my name sometimes. Like this nonsensical collection of sounds is me. That is my name.
promisedjoy · 8 points · Posted at 18:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jamais vu (never seen).
The other members of this family are deja vu (already seen) and presque vu (nearly seen).
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:40:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's not forget deja entendu (already heard).
angermanland · 3 points · Posted at 06:06:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t forget deja vu (i’ve just been in this place before)
yoyoJ · 5 points · Posted at 19:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What an insanely accurate analogy
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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I_hate_traveling · 4 points · Posted at 19:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well smack my ass and call me Judy!
TacoStringerBell · 5 points · Posted at 20:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had this exact thing happen the other day reading my MacBook markings. “Designed in California”
California. California. Cal. if. Or. nia.
such a weird word but it conveys so much and it’s a globally recognized term. California.
AvatarLebowski · 5 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://imgur.com/gallery/imP3aFp
Gynophile · 3 points · Posted at 18:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What more are you than a collection of words and meaning?
pavilionhp_ · 3 points · Posted at 19:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sometimes am reading and stare at a word, thinking, “What turn of events caused this specific string of text to make this sound?” Then I spend the next 2 hours thinking about it
Enigmutt · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s actually a word for that, but I forget what it is. Super helpful, I know.
I_hate_traveling · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation, as I just learned today.
Enigmutt · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s it!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, this one too. You read it over and over, and then start questioning your sanity because you swear this isn't a word yet it....is!?
Vesper_Sweater · 3 points · Posted at 23:12:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's actually because you've used up the synaptic fluid. The word doesn't actually "lose" meaning, you literally forget that word because the part of your brain responsible for remembering it can't keep up with the demand for recall.
I_hate_traveling · 2 points · Posted at 23:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's pretty fascinating actually!
If it's not too much trouble, do you mind explaining a little how we figured that out? Is it just a theory or something that we actually know?
Vesper_Sweater · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took cognitive psych as part of my premed prescription but I honestly don't remember HOW we know that, just that the synapses do wear out and it's because of something called synaptic fluid.
IrvingIV · 3 points · Posted at 23:29:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you roll a nat 20 on perception, but there's nothing to percieve.
tiwariavinash503 · 4 points · Posted at 18:42:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for making this understandable
flamethekid · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me when I start looking at a word too closely and look at the individual letters of it then it starts looking like some sort of foreign language
gabetoloco2 · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Piano
BoxedElder · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Roads. What a weird word. Roads. Ro ads. Rowds. Roods.
BootyWarrior4501 · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like you need an lsd trip buddy
MoldyOreo787 · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why. Sometimes I stare at a word and even if the word is something like “yes” it starts to become strange and unfamiliar.
drowningnotwanking · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That happened yesterday when I wrote “Cliff” a few times. By the end it looked ridiculous.
CinnamonSoy · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jamais vu
Delta_44_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I'm not the only one that repeats one word and ask himself "why this word sound so terrible and meaningless? yet I know its meaning..."
jarejay · 2 points · Posted at 16:27:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instead of semantic satiation...
Somatic satiation
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I'm meaningless.
MidnightQ_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but, there are a lot of people who never had any meaning to begin with.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did this with the word "Strong" the other day. Sounds so much like wrong, dong, schlong, bong, song, etc. Totally different meanings, though, and all those words sound wonky too. "Ong" is just a weird little sound if you think about it lol.
WuSin · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't need to look at myself for long to know that I have no meaning, I know that shit already.
PoorMansTonyStark · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that what satori is all about?
EmbarrassedLock · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation which will cause itself
ajuez · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bowl... bowl.... bowl....
TacoOverlord69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation
AboveBatman · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's called jamais vu, the opposite of deja vu
lovesockgravy · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my fucking God, I’ve been using this metaphor for years to describe DP/DR, it’s so damn accurate
Quillandfeather · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FUCK
kaenneth · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just meat that hates itself.
leadabae · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get this way about people in my life sometimes. Like I'll be thinking about them then I'll be like...wait...this person is a huge part of my life? We had a relationship to one another? They're part of my story? weird
Laurapalmer90 · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when the shrooms finally kick in.
Timedoutsob · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh! that pretty much describes my life, the more I think about it the more everything loses all meaning.
ARatherOddOne · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/Buddhism
Cypher_Vorthos · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should buy me dinner before fucking my brain.
DenversTrain · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly what it's like. Thank you
mage2k · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Auto semantic satiation
zabu12 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semantic satiation
dudewhatnow · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jameis Vu, friend. Like reverse deja vu.
SwabTheDeck · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuck
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:46:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a deep memory, get out of my head
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vapourwave starts playing as my body dissociates into the aether....
StevieRaveOn63 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Red Forman gets it...
redditiswhatimon · 22 points · Posted at 19:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking hate when this happens. It’s like all of the sudden I become hyper aware that I am me. And it’s almost like I’m trapped in my own body and can’t escape it. Kind of like seeing yourself as others see you and it’s terrifying or makes you anxious. Sort of like hearing your own voice on a recording. Is that what I sound like? But with this is more like, is this how I am perceived by others? Super hard to explain.
okcup · 5 points · Posted at 20:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right there with ya buddy. Sucks when it happens in a meeting and you have to distract or excuse yourself.
Air1Fire · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally I love this. I imagine this is what enlightenment feels like. Like none of this crap matters, it's just a body, it's just a world, it's just feelings and thoughts - you are beyond all of it. A perfectly detached observer, nothing in the world can touch you.
redditiswhatimon · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m tracking with your theory but if this is enlightening I don’t know if I want it. You have a point here though. Maybe I don’t like myself as much as I should which is why it’s not an enjoyable experience. Lots to potentially unpack.
goober_jm · 21 points · Posted at 18:25:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy fuck I thought I was the only one. This situation is literally what plays out for me
Mathmage530 · 15 points · Posted at 17:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No time for existentialism, the sink is running.
TheFirstDimenzion · 14 points · Posted at 18:50:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did this all the time as a kid! Spent wayyy too much time at the bathroom mirror tripping myself out.
LazyProspector · 6 points · Posted at 22:30:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm thinking the same. I remember doing it as a kid bit never since. Also interesting is staring at your mom & realising she looks different to how you think
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you're doing that, and after you think "woah, this is me", you realize you still actually have no idea at all how other people see you or experience you. This is only you that you're seeing in the mirror because this is how you are experiencing yourself in the mirror.
AdolescentThug · 27 points · Posted at 15:54:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think like that after looking at your reflection sober, PLEASE don’t do it on acid.
Best/worst mistake of my life.
GreatBabu · 6 points · Posted at 18:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I watched my face melt the first time I did mushrooms.
redditalisong66 · 3 points · Posted at 17:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened?
AdolescentThug · 15 points · Posted at 19:40:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Basically ego death (look it up it’s an interesting read). It’s like an out of body experience on HGH and steroids. The only way I can describe it is COMPLETELY losing your sense of self and then seeing said self as a separate entity staring back at you in the mirror. It happened during a rough part of college for me and it set me straight after the come down, but damn that eternity I spent looking at myself messed my mind up for a week.
If I didn’t do that trip and look in the mirror though, I don’t think I follow through and go to med school though, because beforehand I was on the verge of switching majors and having a full mental breakdown.
garenbw · 8 points · Posted at 20:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shit like this is what makes me so afraid of ever trying acid. Many people say how good it is for depression, but the risk of just making it way worse or even turning me borderline insane is scary af.
AdolescentThug · 14 points · Posted at 20:13:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No you misunderstand lol. What you quoted me on was my feelings BEFORE I went through ego death. My self doubt and feeling of “I can’t do this” got completely destroyed during the trip. LSD ego death really makes you look at yourself from the eyes of a different consciousness and it helped me see I was just being dumb and that I was going at myself for no reason.
But I’ll say this over and over again. Psychedelics are NOT for everyone, and if you’re looking into trying it, you should do your research and always have a sober eye watching you on your first trip.
garenbw · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh ok, nice. Still, even if it went well for you, my point still stands. Some people get really fucked up (even more) psychologically after doing acid, so that's why I'm afraid to try.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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garenbw · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes please, go ahead
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:35:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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garenbw · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Thank you for sharing this, it was definitely an interesting read. Overall, my main concern is about psychological damages after the trip itself, like being permanently traumatised and depressed by it. It doesn't seem to have been your case since you're even thinking of doing it again, I suppose? Did you feel like that overwhelming despair affected you say a few days later or is it just like having a bad dream, and when it's over it's over? (being fucked up for some hours or just the day after would be a reasonable risk to me)
thatshowyoumademe · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m interested, explain please
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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thatshowyoumademe · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, that was a really interesting read.
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 3 points · Posted at 20:22:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I plan on becoming a Doctor but I was having serious doubts about my abilities. Idk why but I guess I just never give myself my well deserved credit. I did LSD for the first time in February and It was a wonderful trip. I remember every problem just melting away and as I went in further I realized that if in doing great ins school now with my current studying habits then I'm positive I can go above and beyond with just a bit more effort and tons of confidence.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Wetop · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happened to me but with shrooms, I immediately started taking steps to improve on myself and get to the root cause of what caused the ugliness and self-loathing.
redditalisong66 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. Sounds a bit like what happened to my friend on ayahuasca. She said it was intense suffering.
AdolescentThug · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DEFINITELY NOT what I went through. It was just complete separation from my consciousness if that makes any sense. It wasn’t unpleasant, but just an absolute mindfuck and left me fundamentally changed as a person.
redditalisong66 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? As in, it gave you a different perspective?
AdolescentThug · 5 points · Posted at 20:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I was a pre-med junior in college ready to give up so I took a personal week off and spent the time smoking weed and partying to recharge. I had done acid before but my friend convinced me to double dose on acid for shits and giggles and I ended up staring at a mirror when I went to pee.
The ego death allowed me to see I was being dumb about not being able to do it and that I’d be fine in the long run (on top of other character issues I didn’t realize about myself).
redditalisong66 · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad that something good came out of it for you.
thatshowyoumademe · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you elaborate it somehow? How did ego death experience led you to realize your fears of failure were futile? That’s a really interesting story for me
AdolescentThug · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's my shitty take on what I experienced because an intense LSD trip is something you can't really put into exact words:
Imagine looking at your consciousness from the outside. Like as if you've been a video game the whole time and you're finally seeing yourself from the perspective of the person controlling you. But at the same time, I was looking into the mirror as if the person looking back wasn't really me (not in the sense that your reflection isn't you, but more like the third person thing).
I got to take a really good look at the person I was, am, and will be without the rose tinted glasses one has when self-analyzing. And after the come down, I realized the good parts in me and the bad things I need to throw out. The fear of failure was one of those things I threw out.
Beautiful-Musk-Ox · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You went into a severe dissociative state. Some people are like this all the time as a result of repeated long term childhood trauma where the only way to cope was to continually separate themselves from.. themselves, and the world, so it wasn't "them" going through the trauma. Most people go through mild to moderate dissociative episodes rarely. There are many dissociative disorders and what you described is closest to depersonalization disorder (when it only happens once it's not a disorder though of course).
xXHazarDemonXx · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure about everybody, but when I did acid, I looked at my reflection and I literally stared at myself for at least an hour, it didn't feel like I was staring for that long but my buddy came in and made me look away because I had been in the bathroom for so long.
DoctorProfessorTaco · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never had that negative of an experience. I’ll just go to the bathroom, look in the mirror, see myself existing, and be like “wow we really in this bitch huh?” and then move on.
Husky127 · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Embrace it man. Only thing to fear is fear itself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hear that man; fuck me I avoid mirrors on shrooms like they're medusa.
dannicalliope · 14 points · Posted at 18:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I read somewhere that is a symptom of anxiety.
I have GAD and have moments like this all the time. Like “this is my REAL life and I don’t get to have another after this.”
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:01:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this. And then I say my own name and I'm like WTF is that my name?
9inchestoobig · 7 points · Posted at 19:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every now and then, when I'm laying in bed, I start to think "what if there is no afterlife and we just stop existing?" And I try to imagine what it would be like to not exist but it's so incomprehensible that it sends me into an existential crisis. It's almost like feeling the same level of fear of an animal that is facing potential death.
Yeah I don't get much sleep.
LazyProspector · 4 points · Posted at 22:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I quite like the idea of no afterlife. A sort of endless peace.
oanismod · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would prefer that to the idea of your consciousness lasting forever, which is terrifying and likely the case. The only logical progression to me, is reincarnation.
new_account_b · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ditto. Nothing is alot less scary than forever.
PyrocumulusLightning · 8 points · Posted at 19:03:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"This container is constantly rotting and having bits replaced, but one day it will fail, the whole thing will rot, and I'll be eaten from the inside by the same bacteria that are helping me eat my food right now"
Air1Fire · 2 points · Posted at 00:36:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beauty. Perfection. You use resources, then your give them back.
Hoppinginpuddles · 11 points · Posted at 18:55:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disassociation.
Sylense_03 · 4 points · Posted at 18:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was actually not sure what existential crisis is till I read your comment, and I never been able to explain it correctly since ever.
DrunkenLupus · 6 points · Posted at 23:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have searched my whole life for someone who understands me. You’re legitimately probably the first person to truly understand.
kronicle_gaming · 4 points · Posted at 00:02:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it looks like me and about 8 thousand other people!
pineapple_stanley324 · 5 points · Posted at 19:41:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This right here man. I used to do this shit when I was younger, like less than 10. Thinking about that shit at that age would reallllllly fuck up my little brain for the rest of the day.
sauce_669 · 3 points · Posted at 18:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy cow I thought it was only me who did this lol
DuhSquatch · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What always gets me when looking into a mirror is, "I" am a spongy squishy weird lump of cells and tissue inside a hollow ball of bone. And everything else connected to that mass of tissue isn't actually me. Its just the things my brain developed to help me interact with the world around me.
Your skin, eyes, hair, teeth, bones etc... are literally not "you" just things your brain deemed neccessary to survive in this world.
Finnbjorn · 4 points · Posted at 04:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"You're also a kind and nice person " - grandma
DuhSquatch · 5 points · Posted at 04:15:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hi grandma!!
Lupus_Noir · 2 points · Posted at 15:48:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No you're not! I'm me, not you, you are all a figment of imagination!
kindad · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Acktually, you're not really looking at yourself when you look in the mirror, you're looking at a reflection. The way you really look is flipped from what you see in a mirror.
Shawncb · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I start to separate from my image in that instance. Feels like someone else is staring back as opposed to me seeing myself. Really creepy. I usually leave as soon as that happens to forget.
DeepBreathing4Me · 2 points · Posted at 20:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sometimes I see myself in the mirror and realize, "This is me. This is what my friends have to look at when I'm with them. This face is what people associate with me."
Like I think about how I view the concept of someone else and realize people look at me that way. I am not them.
This probably doesn't make sense, because thoughts don't always translate well into words, but whatever.
thatshowyoumademe · 2 points · Posted at 22:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah same
foul_dwimmerlaik · 4 points · Posted at 18:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is called "the mirror test," and it's used to see whether or not animals are capable of self-awareness. Most aren't.
gollour · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought I was the only one... Man was I scared I had like, a full month where I wouldn't look myself in the mirror for more than 10 seconds just to avoid that feeling
Koshka69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Be careful now , that’s how ego death can start
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember my buddy telling me “I’m just not comfortable having a body” while tattooing me and it stuck pretty hard.
OscarDeLaCholla · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then you realize what you think is you isn’t actually you, and that adds a whole new wrinkle to the whole thing.
abdullahalishah · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. Exactly this
ChewbaccasStylist · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the things that separates humans from many animals like a dog, is the ability to recognize yourself in the mirror.
SBASP1228 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like the last time I did mushrooms and looked at myself “beyond the mirror” lol
Cfollett7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever look in your eyes and see formation of stars in your pupils...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
arghhh it's so weird to see other people have this as well hahaha
chaun2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're supposed to not mix mirrors and LSD
ForgottenJoke · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't look up 'bicameral mind', friend.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahahaha then I just discovered why I'm overly self conscious and existential. It's because I have things to do but I don't do them because I'm lazy
Ransidcheese · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nearly every time I look in a mirror I have the same two thoughts.
Ugh.
The me in the reflection is twice the distance I am from the mirror, from me.
ghostrider90 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mirror usually just breaks when I look at it.
Mydadshands · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to do this as a kid and would cause a panic attack. I'd stare at myself and say "I'm me" or "I can't believe it's me" and everything would become almost a tunnel vision and ringing in my eat would get louder and louder and my body would feel hot. Fucking weird.
Dooontcareee · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looking at yourself on mushrooms or LSD is a very very surreal experience.
mattsffrd · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But, it's not you, it's electronic signals in your brain telling you that's you. It might not be.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After hanging around long enough, hydrogens starts wondering what it’s doing here.
saucydragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heck. I was sitting in front of a mirror when I read this comment and it sent me into a thankfully momentary but still very weird spiral of existential confusion.
Mallevona · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't recognize myself in the mirror... Yay schizophrenia
brianoforris · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t believe there are others who understand. What a relief. I don’t know why.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try doing this shit on acid or mushrooms. Fuck me I swear I was having this mental battle with my reflection trying figure out which one of us was the real one. I do not like looking in the mirror when on hallucinogens.
FROTHY_SHARTS · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing it on shrooms makes it so much worse. Gets way too real
Kishoe64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yep
meikamo · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck
Sythgara · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also that you'll never see yourself the way the world does. You see your pictures. Your reflections. But it's all from the inside of your skull :o
LuquidThunderPlus · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've felt this feeling countless times over.
There's the normal feeling, how you are day to day, then there's the surreal feeling, like you're really out of it, then there's the 100% un-surreal feeling where you're totally tapped into the realization that you exist as a human being that makes choices of your own free will
when I get this feeling I am always reminded of Bandersnatch the movie because it feels like that's the one time i'm truly making my decisions ig but then I feel normal later
iwantallthechocolate · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me every morning except I don't forget and I go through my entire day thinking about it and how it will happen again in the evening and then it does and then I have trouble going to sleep. About cover up all the mirrors, nothing to see here, I'm perfectly fine I promise! :/
Kryptrch · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: raising your left hand in the mirror causes your reflection to raise the opposite hand.
Your reflection is not the same as you.
It is an imperfect mimic.
It seeks blood.
NinjaruCatu · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a mirror on the headboard of my bed, and my cat ignores it 99.9999999% of the time... twice I've seen her catch a glimpse of herself and freeze, then start acting like she was tripping balls.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, looking in the mirror does this for me.
Sazzari · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
for a very long time in my childhood i wasnt believing that mirror reflection is me, it always felt like im somewhere just 3rd person watching, but then around my 14th-16th i had this 'wow this is indeed me' realisation moments, i feel you
cherrykitten37 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WOW IM SO GLAD SOMEONE ELSE HAS HAD THIS EXPERIENCE
Evil_This · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eat 3 grams of mushrooms and do this. It's much stranger with the extra angles.
Untiteld000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that's part of the reason some believe in the matrix
MarthFair · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea it's like I see me, but I am thinking this thought of seeing me also. How does my whole mind see this whole visual field....WHAT is actually SEEing???
Ethario · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is literally me everyday on stress and anxiety, been fighting against an anxiety disorder and its one of the hardest things to overcome for me.
getsumchocha · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i always like to leave those moments with a little wink ; )
appetizersampler · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first time I did acid, I was with a group of friends. They gave me several pointers to get through the trip, one of which being to never stare at yourself in the mirror.
Apparently it’s common when on hallucinogenics to get ‘trapped’ staring at yourself. People get bad experiences from it and ruin their trip.
That and don’t stare down any drains. Same idea
Suffice it to say I didn’t do acid too many times after that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always think of the fact that everything IS. because it didn't have to be. There could have just not been. The fact that the universe exists is really implausible. And there just happens to be me there that's thinking about it? I could have just as easily not been. But so could everything. Some things are but just as likely, some things could have isn't. It's a 50/50 chance that things just happened to be.
ball_bustin_betty · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've done this before, and it's kinda like, "Wow. So this is what people see when they see me." And it's dumb because I know what I look like, I've seen myself every day for 37 years. But for some odd reason, it just really hits me every now and then.
What really trips me out is hearing a recording of myself. I think I sound way different, and it's not just my tone. I have this nonchalant way of talking that I really don't hear as I'm speaking. But then I hear myself in a recording or something and it really just sounds like I'm bored with life.
coffedrank · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your entire body is a part of your brain
vinarci766 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit dude i froze for a moment..i wasn‘t the only one?is this a real thing????
GR3Y_B1RD · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do this with other people too. I think it's kinda cool, it feels like your are looking at them in a purely objective way, completely disregarding what you know about them.
ed32965 · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's actually a first step to mindfulness. It can be a little overwhelming, but you can use it to your benefit in many situations.
Arkanian410 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase “on your person” does this to me. Anytime I read or hear it, this is where my thoughts go.
Edit:
Example: Do you keep cash on your person?
Reinbek · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I stare at myself for too long in the mirror and my personality isn’t what I see in the reflection. It trips me the fuck out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like depersonalization. It’s a form of disassociating
superkp · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The homunculus paradox is something you might find interesting.
emilicia · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never experienced this feeling but it seems quite common. I wonder why?
usernumber36 · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is called mindfulness. I did it at like 10 and fucking hated it, so tried to avoid it forever. Why meditators seek it I will never understand.
weeone · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are the only person who you will never see in person (only a reflection, photo, or video).
ajp-92 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of this can be due to the mirror effect. You know roughly where your features are because of touch but the mirror flips it, this can be really disconcerting at a subconscious level. Same reason people who don't see many photos of themselves think they look weird in photos - they just arent used to seeing their face that way round.
Looking at your face in a mirror in the dark for a few minutes can also be creepy. Our brains aren't very good at filling in the spaces your eyes can't see. It does alright with things it sees regularly (arms, body, objects) but really struggles with your own face. This can create a creepy as hell image that looks relatively normal, but with a blurred or disfigured face.
I_hate_traveling · 1651 points · Posted at 14:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that with the concept of infinity.
Like, I understand it on a superficial level, but when I really stop and think about it, I can feel my brain noping out.
hi_my_name_is_Carl · 1010 points · Posted at 14:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mine is trying to picture what's outside of our universe and then what's outside of that. If you go back before the big bang what would existence look like. The concept of space time is taxing on my mind
I_hate_traveling · 783 points · Posted at 14:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that's what usually fries my circuits: space. What the fuck do you mean it's infinite? There's got to be a boundary of sorts, surely? But what's outside of that boundary? And where does that end?
And then I give up and go play Tetris or something.
TrashPanda_Papacy · 198 points · Posted at 15:08:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it theoretically possible to play Tetris infinitely?
FalterJay · 60 points · Posted at 18:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read a hilarious math paper on that - the tl;dr is no. In infinity, you will eventually, inevitably, hit a long string of S-blocks and get screwed over.
mintegrals · 49 points · Posted at 20:00:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact- most modern Tetris games use bag randomization rather than true RNG to select pieces. You'll never actually get the same piece more than twice in a row with this method, so you actually can, in theory, play most versions of Tetris infinitely!
FalterJay · 5 points · Posted at 22:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, cool!
amicin · 12 points · Posted at 21:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disclaimer: not a mathematician.
I kinda disagree with this. Statistically that might be true — but if we’re talking about the theoretical side of things, there does exist one possible Tetris game where you never get an S- or a Z-block, right? Which means the reasoning in that claim is nullified.
For example, it’s statistically unlikely (impossible really) that we play a game where we have only 2x2 squares, but it’s still a possible game.
But maybe infinity screws things up. Things get weird when you add infinity.
FalterJay · 5 points · Posted at 21:41:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disclaimer: Also not a mathematician and haven't reread the paper in like a year
But things do indeed get weird when you add infinity. You can have an arbitrarily long, arbitrarily unlikely game where you never get an S- or Z- block, but the odds get lower and lower the longer the game goes. When you plug in the longest possible game length, the odds are to all intents and purposes zero.
Canrex · 5 points · Posted at 23:24:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity is a concept, not a big number. In this case, an infinity long game of Tetris would contain every possible sequence of blocks. (Ignoring bag randomization, not sure how that works though.)
In short I agree with you.
GameyBoi · 2 points · Posted at 10:02:19 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
My understanding of bag randomization is like this:
You have a bag with 10 different colored things in it. You pick one at random. That thing is now outside the bag. Now instead of putting it back in the bag and picking again, you pick another thing and then put the first thing back. This way you still get a randomized result, but no repeats.
Canrex · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:48 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it seems that any version of Tetris that uses bag randomization should allow for infinite play. Neat!
BlazeOrangeDeer · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, it's just part of the weirdness of probability that if infinitely many things are possible, things that are possible sometimes have probability zero. Technically it just means that the ratio between successes and failures keeps getting lower and lower the longer you play. If you keep playing, the ratio will drop below any number you pick, so the limit is zero, even though there are always ways to succeed.
princess_le0 · 13 points · Posted at 18:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was too curious and I went and found the article here
GMaster7 · 6 points · Posted at 19:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good work! Thank you.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not for you, you'll die eventually. But as for across generations, yes. Since tetris was first shipped out with gameboys, I'd bet there's not been a single second since where nobody was playing tetris. Since Tetris is always made for new consoles, I see no reason for this trend to end until the end of humanity.
RTRX8 · 5 points · Posted at 17:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Tetris Infinite"
I_hate_traveling · 5 points · Posted at 15:10:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, yeah, I guess you could code a bot to play for you.
Martin_RB · 7 points · Posted at 15:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you would need a special version of Tetris where there is no accumulated data to store otherwise you would run out of memory eventually.
I_hate_traveling · 8 points · Posted at 16:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't you just delete them as you play?
deokkent · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:37 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck, you are a genius. Updoot.
FrisianDude · 2 points · Posted at 18:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you neber finish the levels yes
Scooba_Mark · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, the heat death if the universe will eventually disperse all energy to the point that atoms stop vibrating
admiralteletubby · 2 points · Posted at 23:24:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Assuming it uses a 4 byte signed integer, the max level is:
2^31. =2147483648
CrisMoser · 1 points · Posted at 10:17:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. And not because of infinity and S pieces, Tetris doesnt use actual randomness so that's not a problem. The problem is that the game has an ending. After a certain level you beat the game and there's a little video with a rocket taking off.
Now if we're talking about a tetris-knockoff with no ending... still no. Because the speed increases with each level, eventually the pieces will appear already in place.
[deleted] · 75 points · Posted at 16:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space is so weird because realistically. It’s functionally infinite, technically every point in space is the centre of it, but also just. Has a hard boundary. That keeps getting bigger and expanding.
Vandreigan · 15 points · Posted at 19:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no evidence that space is bounded in any way. Our VISIBLE universe is bounded due to the speed of light, but that isn't the same as saying space itself is bounded.
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Vandreigan · 13 points · Posted at 21:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The space between any two points is expanding. This doesnt actually require a boundary, and it's not expanding "into" anything. Its just...stretching
-Archvillain- · 4 points · Posted at 21:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it might help to think of space as the nothingness canvas that matter occupies. It's a vacuum not matter, and so it has no need to have boundaries like matter does.
AlcoholEnthusiast · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And what is it expanding on? What is outside of space? That always melts my brain.
Lendrick_Kamarr · 17 points · Posted at 19:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. And when it expands what does it expand over? Like you could expand a house over space outside said house but what does the universe expand over
Catac0 · 1 points · Posted at 09:48:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally nothing I guess?? It's fucking mind boggling
HankyDanger · 9 points · Posted at 18:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And it’s like, even if it was finite we don’t have the means of ever find out anyway! I read an article somewhere saying that we can only travel so far no matter what. We’re bound eternally in a certain sphere and that’s just it.
_Keahilele_ · 5 points · Posted at 18:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what happens if you catch up to the boundary faster than it can grow? Would it be more like crossing a geographical border, or would you hit a wall? Just imagine if we did that and it turned out to be the latter. SPLAT!
gulliblezombie · 10 points · Posted at 19:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its like your brain just reaches a certain level of understanding and then shuts down. continuing to think about it hurts
LrdAsmodeous · 10 points · Posted at 19:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had it explained to me by a physicist as more like being the surface of a bubble or balloon that keeps expanding. There is no real "hard edge" you just keep going in a straight line forever and eventually you're where you started...
But then they started to explain why that was a really simplistic concept of it because it requires imagining a multidimensional object in a three dimensional space and I lost further ability to follow.
Vandreigan · 4 points · Posted at 19:19:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only true in certain topologies (shapes).
Our current data suggests that our spacetime on large scales is "flat," which means that going in a straight line forever would get you infinitely far away from where you started. Still no hard boundary.
kembervon · 12 points · Posted at 19:41:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And time too. Did time have a beginning? Like, NOTHING happened before the "start"? But surely something did. But if there's an infinite amount of time comprising the past, how did we ever make it to this point?
So it has to have began at some point. Some point, where time itself just started.
dannicalliope · 10 points · Posted at 18:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“If the universe is a box, what’s the box in?”
I’m sure that’s a paraphrase of a smart person quote but I’ve only ever heard it that way.
StarCommand1 · 7 points · Posted at 16:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah and then I start thinking... seriously... what are we really doing here?
mypostisbad · 10 points · Posted at 19:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theoretical scientists are not fans of believing in an infinite universe.
An infinite universe is problematic, not for the least part because if the universe IS infinite, there are trillions of other Earths out there that are exact duplicates of this earth, down to the flora and fauna (and you), because in an infinite universe, that HAS to happen.
Lucrumb · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I believe in an afterlife, I'll just get reborn on another Earth eventually (assuming the universe is infinite).
Sam-Starxin · 9 points · Posted at 22:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not an afterlife though, as much as it is another life, but leaving that aside, and assuming if it is indeed the case then it would've already happened to you an infinite number of times on an infinite number of Earths.
And since you can't remember any of those, does it even matter what will happen after you die?
illidary · 2 points · Posted at 02:27:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if you are infinitelly many times conscious, then there have to be cases where you remember past lifes.
Sam-Starxin · 2 points · Posted at 22:58:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First of all I'd say it's infinite other Earths, not trillions.
Second the premise here is actually false.
There's no evidence that the universe is a repeating infinity, in fact all evidence suggests that it's an infinitely diverse infinity.
In either case, just because you have an infinity doesn't mean you can find Literally Anything in it, examining PI as an example would tell you as much.
_Keahilele_ · 3 points · Posted at 18:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plot twist! Outside of that boundary is Tetris!
Kishoe64 · 5 points · Posted at 21:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain physically warms up and so does my head until I get a headache, I overheat.
AdeonWriter · 3 points · Posted at 16:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a curved universe it just eventually loops, there isn’t infinite matter. Perfectly Flat universes are very unlikely. If they did exist though, it would be new matter forever, there would be no edge.
The concept of an infinite void after an “edge of space” isn’t actually scientifically plausible.
Number127 · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A universe with closed geometry "loops" (although dark energy threw a bit of a monkey wrench into that idea), but a flat or open universe would be infinite. Our best data indicates that the universe is probably flat. If it's not, it's very very close.
AdeonWriter · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes but a flat universe could in theory be finite or infinite. a flat AND finite universe implies that eventually, everything stops, and from then on there's a void, for eternity. I don't think there's any models that predict that, but that is the view of the universe a lot of people have.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could a flat universe be finite? By the by, I'm pretty sure that our measurements are consistent with a flat universe.
illidary · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is some degree of uncertainty in our measurements, but if it's not entirely flat it's hyperbolic - and that is infinite too
Magikats · 3 points · Posted at 21:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
right!? "the universe is expanding" ...into what? and how did it start, and what was before? why was there a beginning at all? where did stuff come from to make the beginning?
Neptunelives · 3 points · Posted at 21:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what I was gonna say. Reality itself literally makes no sense at all to me. Time, space, existence, nothing makes sense. It seriously keeps me up at night
deadleg22 · 3 points · Posted at 07:11:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I then start to wonder if you're not suppose to try and think too hard about what's outside because my brain starts to physically feel fizzy. So something is not meant to be known. Then I think into matrix theory which is ok to think of because it's wrong and misdirection.
C-RAMsigma9 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's possible that we simply were never meant to know what is outside that boundary. It is infinite, and there is no boundary IN MY OPINION
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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C-RAMsigma9 · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly
illidary · 2 points · Posted at 02:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i do however think that through the scientific method we can asymptote our way towards at least understanding what the human conciousness is able to observe. Anything beyond that is kinda irrational to talk about imo because it will forever be speculation and we would be back to religion. Kinda like we will forever live inside our subjective reality
This_is_your_mind · 2 points · Posted at 22:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The boundary of space is the speed of light multiplied by the amount of time that the universe has existed. Probably, more than 13 billion and less than 14 billion years ago. So, just divide 14B years into seconds, multiply by ~3*10^8 and you have an upper limit of how vast the space of the universe is, in terms of meters. Outside of that boundary, is emptiness. True space. Space that doesn't contain cosmic background radiation, light, or anything else. Just nothingness. The state of being that is not a thing. Not a state of being, but existing at least in thought, which would be its state of being. Except you can't think about it. I think you know what I'm trying to say.
stuugie · 2 points · Posted at 03:06:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The wall is time. Because of the limit to the speed of light, the farther something is from you, the farther back in its time you see. If something is 50 light years away, you see it as it was 50 years ago. We could never see more than 13.6 billion light years away because space and time didn't exist as we know it before 13.6 billion years ago
cariboo2 · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or have a panic attack if you're me
Catac0 · 2 points · Posted at 09:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah same here, which is why I don't like to think beyond our solar system, that's too much shit for my brain
Monolith_12 · 1 points · Posted at 16:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was starting to wonder that they say it's infinite, because we don't know the size of the whole universe YET (if we'll ever measure it) Space gets faster in expanding as of now (since the dawn of big bang) so there's a big chance we'll never know. All I know is, we're at the right time to see heavenly bodies before they disappear. There's the curiousity no one can ever answer, and when we get answers we get more questions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, we can measure the size of the Universe. It's actually pretty nifty how. We measure the geometry of the Universe by looking at the cosmic microwave background, and then extrapolate the size of the Universe from that.
Our measurements right now are consistent with the Universe being flat (in a geometric sense), and if the Universe is flat it must be infinitely large.
gtivrsixer · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wasn't it shown that while the universe is expanding, it's not expanding faster but slowing down?
onetimemycat · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You ever watch that episode of Spongebob where Squidward gets stuck in an endless white area where words are weird? Think of that
Astroisbestbio · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like the concept of time even more. Like, we perceive it as flowing in a direction but is it? What would it look like outside the time stream? Real life is nuts, man. Nuts.
Jekmander · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of these people talking about one thing that cooks their brain. Lucky fuckers. I have to fucking listen to my brain think about every mindfuck at once unless I'm focusing on one specific thing.
csdspartans7 · -1 points · Posted at 21:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont think anyone really claims its infinite? The universe is expanding so it must have an edge. My thought was if you somehow got to the edge and "jumped" out you will create your own universe in away, you are matter existing somewhere else.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cosmologists do claim that the Universe could very well be infinite. Our measurements are completely consistent with this.
Not necessarily. What's infinity plus infinity?
PutinsRustedPistol · 8 points · Posted at 18:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is expanding.
Into what!?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:03:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Expanding is kind of a misnomer. Things are getting farther apart from each other (that is, the space between them is increasing). You can call that expanding if you like.
PutinsRustedPistol · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn’t a misnomer.
The universe at one point was a singularity, and the visible portion is now something like 90 billion light years across—and continues to become even larger.
That is the very definition of expansion.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but expansion might imply that the object itself is getting bigger. Which in the case of the Universe, isn't right.
The space between things is increasing. That's expansion by most definitions of the word, but avoids the connotion of the entire Universe increasing in size.
PutinsRustedPistol · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the universe itself isn’t increasing in size where are the objects in it that are now farther apart from each other then they once were going? Are they being bunched up somewhere out of sight like a cosmic junk drawer? If the space between every object is larger now then it once was doesn’t the universe itself need to be larger to maintain that distance?
I mean, if the universe was at one point a singularity and is now much, much larger—how would it be that the object itself hasn’t become larger?
That sounds argumentative. I’m genuinely asking.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:16:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on the kind of Universe we live in. We can either live in an infinite or a finite Universe. Data is completely consistent with us a living in an infinite Universe, so I'll talk about that. If we live in a finite Universe, it's likely that the Universe kind of loops back around on itself, ie. If you travel far enough away from Earth you'll loop around and come back to Earth. I'm not completely sure how that works with expansion, so I won't talk about that.
But let's assume that the Universe is in fact infinite. In that case, imagine two points on an infinite plane. You can increase the distance between them, but the size of the total plane stays the same (it's still infinitely large). Now imagine doing that between every single point in the plane. That is, the distance between every point increases. Still, the size of the plane that they're on hasn't changed. It's still infinitely large.
It's the same with the Universe. If it's infinite, then you never really run out of space.
You have to differentiate between the observable Universe and the entire Universe. You're right that the observable Universe was once extraordinarily small, and later got bigger.
But that's not necessarily the case for the entire Universe. Let's go back to our points on an infinite plane analogy. We said that if you take all the points on an infinite plane and increase the distance between them, then the total size of the infinite plane that they're on hasn't changed. In the same way, you can squeeze them together until they're almost touching, and the total size of the plane wouldn't have changed either. It's still infinite.
Again, this is assuming we live in a flat, infinite Universe. The data is consistent with that, but uncertainty is always a thing. So we might not be in such a Universe.
PutinsRustedPistol · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was under the impression that the universe was finite, without bounds.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could be, or it could be infinite without bounds. The data is consistent with both right now. I just commented on the infinite case. I'm not entirely sure how a finite but unbounded expanding Universe works.
We can determine whether the Universe is infinite or finite by its shape (in the geometrical sense). If it's flat or negatively curved, it's infinite. If it has positive curvature, its finite without bounds. Current experiments show that the Universe is flat with a margin of error around ~0.5%. So, pretty close to flat.
PutinsRustedPistol · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither do I. Fuck the universe and its horseshit.
pink_highlight · 16 points · Posted at 16:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
When I start thinking about this is when I lay in the same spot staring at nothing for hours. Completely zones me out in a bad way.
Edit: Thank you for all the cake day wishes!!
hi_my_name_is_Carl · 5 points · Posted at 16:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I used to do as a kid and it really shook me
BetterBlizzard7 · 2 points · Posted at 16:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Minn1Munch · 2 points · Posted at 16:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t waste your cake day doing that
xd_mxvrd · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
ThursdayDecember · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
AdeonWriter · 6 points · Posted at 16:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
“Outside space” Assumes a finite and flat universe, that’s the situation where eventually matter just stops, and it’s void, forever to infinity. That kind of universe is very unlikely, though. Far more likely is either flat and infinite (new matter forever & all physically possible things do exist) or, it’s likely, finite but slightly curved (it loops back on itself after an impossibly long distance)
In both those cases there is no ultimate infinite void.
jamesp420 · 5 points · Posted at 20:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm usually moderately good with spacetime itself since I only have a super simplified layman's understanding of it, but once I try to figure out what/where the universe exists IN is where my mind melts down. Like okay, space is expanding. But what's it expanding INTO? if it's able to expand, it must be contained within something with "room" for it to expand into, right?
sparky971 · 3 points · Posted at 19:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or time dilation, just rewatched interstellar last night and the whole ten years on earth for every one hour spent on the planet next to the black hole is fucking wild shit when you stop and try to think about it.
Bananacowrepublic · 3 points · Posted at 16:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surely the thing that’s outside what’s outside out universe is just our universe?
doughnutmaster3510 · 3 points · Posted at 18:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a video you need to watch, it kinda explains it and shows you what it probably looks like, I have to find it though.
SmarterThanMyBoss · 3 points · Posted at 22:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont get me started here...
The universe is infinite... but that's impossible... but it's expanding... but if it's expanding it's getting bigger... but if it's bigger now then it wasn't infinite before because nothing is bigger than infinite... but it can't REALLY be infinite because all things have an end... but if it has an end, what is past it... and if something is past it, that something would be part of the universe... so then it really doesn't end... or does it just start back at the beginning like a circle or sphere... but in that case it isn't expanding... unless there is just more space between each molecule but then we are all expanding at the same rate so it really isn't expanding at all in a relative manner... But if it's a sphere, what is outside the sphere... oh god, I need some ibuprofen...
Edit: This has legit bothered me since I was on vacation in like 6th or 7th grade and looking at the stars (couldn't see those at my house) and started wondering... I still have this same though process periodically and I'm in my 30s. I cant figure it out.
EndOnAnyRoll · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same answer to those questions is can be found if you ask "What is North of the North Pole"?
The question itself is flawed.
TheLast_Centurion · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It reminds me an idea of nothingness and if it can be. What if there wqs nothing? It's like.. there wouldnt be anyone not only witness it but .. there wouldnt even be time, space, consciousness, nothing that could be a counter to existance. There wouldnt even be nothing. It just.. almost makes no sense that nothing would be and seems like there has to be something all the time.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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TheLast_Centurion · 2 points · Posted at 00:07:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then it wouldnt be nothingness, though.
WhyBuyMe · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is 4 elephants on the back of a turtle. What is so hard to picture about that?
fromthewombofrevel · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard Neil Degrasse Tyson say something like this, “There is no end point to the universe. No place where it stops. And it’s expanding.” After contemplating that for ten minutes I felt loopy and took a nap.
KimberlyRP · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband has been obsessed with wanting to know what happened right before the big bang. It's hard to find any theories on it. Most of the focus is on the big bang itself.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might be interested in this video. The channel is pretty great for all things astro and physics.
KimberlyRP · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oooh!!! PBS comes through! Thanks, bunches!
martim98 · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is that probably what you would see would in be a 4 or 5 or 10th dimension and even though you tried to picture it, you just couldnt and that is super frustrating. And infinity i would want to see the end but you can't you only can get closer but not the end
stuugie · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what's crazy? Because of the light speed limit, the farther something is, the further back in time we're looking. It's unnoticable on a small scale. Even the distance to the sun has a light delay of 8 minutes or so. When you look at stars in the night sky sometimes you're looking at a star millions or billions of years before its current state. Some stars in the night sky have supernova'd (?) Millions of years ago in their local time, but with the light speed limit we haven't seen it happen yet.
This is where things get crazy though. There's a limit to how far away we can see, and it's not because of our technology. The farther away we look, the closer we get to seeing the big bang. There's a spherical wall around every point in space, that wall is the big bang
gtivrsixer · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if the big bang was caused by a previous universe collapsing in upon itself, making our universe like an inside out Tshirt. Or that a star in the sky could have already gone supernova 300 years ago, but if it's 1000 light years away we won't see it for another 700 years, blows my mind every time, but is also freaking awesome.
EurekasCashel · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Outside” is a term that only has meaning with regard to space. To say that there is something (or nothing) outside of space, means that there is more space. So it wouldn’t be a boundary. I know this sounds like I’m using linguistic semantics as an argument, but in truth I think it’s much more of a physical / philosophical argument. But to even think in terms of outside of space, just has no meaning.
jumpup · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it would be pretty boring, all the fun bits got created over time, so before that you are stuck with mundane atoms.
outside our physical perceivable bubble its likely all the same, stars planets etc don't change much because they are made through physics and physics is predictable. (to an extend)
geekygirl25 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just imagine a giant blank white zone/space like heaven. I'm a Christian and it's kind of a given that heaven doesn't exist in this plane of existence (sort of), but what if by saying "he/she is going up to heaven now." Is on to something? Maybe heaven is beyond space and our universe is basically just a big marble? Makes sense that there would be more marble universes too.
Or maybe I just watched MiB too many times idk.
notLOL · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get a space CPA
ThrobbingAnalBleed · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I trip myself out with what if there’s nothing at all? No universes? No galaxies? Complete nothingness... the idea of zero existence of any kind really sets my brain off.
illidary · 1 points · Posted at 02:24:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when u think "Reality is nice, but why does reality even exist when it could also just not. When I'm dead it's surely like nothing exists" Humans are truly a marvellous arrangement of matter that we can stop and reflect upon such things.
ya_boiii2 · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay bro crazy you say this Bc I’ve thought about this a lot and no answer anybody tells me is satisfying enough. They say the universe is expanding...okay 1. Wtf is it expanding into? If the universe is literally everything then wtf does it have to expand into, like wouldn’t what it’s expanding to be part of the universe making it not expanding at all and just infinite? Fuck if i know 2. If theoretically we were able to go faster than light could we reach past the expansion of the universe and out or is the universe kinda like a globe, you just go around and there is no going out. Like trying to escape earth by driving around it in a car. 3. We have evidence of the Big Bang yes, once again I’m curious WTF is it expanding into?
Hexadecimated · -1 points · Posted at 21:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the universe exists, it must exist inside of something. That’s one of the few universal truths, everything is inside of something else.
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 15:53:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: if you lined up all the bacteria in the ocean end to end, the line would stretch 10 million light years
Deathbyhours · 5 points · Posted at 19:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You made that up. I mean, there’s probably a supportable statement like that that ends in a very large number, but not that large, so I’m calling it. No offense meant.
Edit to lazy-reply to replies: kudos to u/dystakruul, u/Namrag03, and u/masteroftehninja for an informative and civil thread. Civil. I can’t get over it. r/redditorsbeingcivil
Also, to apologize for my original lazy reply. I could have done the math, but I didn’t. Sadly, I tried, but it was very late, and my brain was failing me, and the thought of using a calculator was depressing and humiliating and frightening, so I lazy-replied. Mea maxima culpa.
dystakruul · 7 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are approximately 1030 bacteria on earth (according to wikipedia). Bacteria are roughly 10-6m, so their total size would be about 1024 meters. One Lightyear is about 1016m, so all those bacteria would stretch about 108 light years. In words: 100 million light years.
Note that all estimates are very rough estimates and serve to estimate the order of scale, not the actual numbers. The actual number might be a tenth or tenfold of my numbers.
Deathbyhours · 2 points · Posted at 16:08:26 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
u/dystakruul, please see my edits, above.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:36:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you checked?
masteroftehninja · 5 points · Posted at 20:29:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're generally supposed to defend your own argument, not have the opposition do it for you.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, think about the fact that all bacteria on earth outweigh all humans, now consider that if you have a certain amount of something and you want to make a line with it, you would make it thinner to make it as long as possible, so if you were to get something with a lot of mass, like all of the bacteria in the ocean, and make that line as thin as one single bacteria, it would make a line ten million light years long
masteroftehninja · 3 points · Posted at 23:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You still haven't given any source or proof to your argument other than a thought experiment. I looked it up and can only find one quality source that talks about this, and it only mentions that the weight of all bacteria is larger than the weight of all humans (source). I don't see any proof or mention at all of stretching out this line to 10 million light years long (or any length at all).
To clarify: I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm saying we can't believe what you say without any sort of proof for your argument other than "think about it".
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 10:56:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
My main source is Bill Bryson’s “The Body: a guide for occupants” which I recommend you read because it’s a really interesting and nice book with loads of information.
masteroftehninja · 3 points · Posted at 11:01:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awesome I'll take a look, thanks for the recommendation!
Deathbyhours · 1 points · Posted at 16:10:31 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
u/masteroftehninga, please see my edits, above.
Deathbyhours · 1 points · Posted at 16:09:23 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
u/Namrag03, please see my edits above.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 16:10:25 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for the debate, gg
DragonSeniorita_009 · 9 points · Posted at 19:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever I start thinking about growing old and passing away and the concept of maybe existing in another plane for the rest of all time I get this awful sensation that I calm down by watching stupid videos on Facebook. I hate existentialism
pavilionhp_ · 5 points · Posted at 19:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your brain can imagine anything EXCEPT nothing and everything.
Fisher9001 · 6 points · Posted at 22:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not true. We are limited to the qualia (i.e. how we consciously experience output of senses) we know, so you can't just imagine new color, sound, taste or smell. We can only imagine for example new picture, but it will never contain color different than these from visible spectrum. Same goes for music - we can imagine new melody, but it will never contain entirely new sound outside our hearing range.
You can't also imagine entirely new qualia. I mean you could define the sense behind it (for example echolocation), but you just can't imagine how your brain would "render" it for your consciousness. I'd wager that we also can't really imagine more than three dimensions in our heads (while we can think about the concept, it won't be ever as fluent and intuitive as 1/2/3 dimensional imagination).
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
infinity is so cool.
imagine you take all of the integers, 1, 2, 3, 4.... and so on. now imagine alongside them you have all of the even numbers, 2, 4, 6, 8... and so on. it seems like there are half as many even numbers as there are integers, right? well... not quite. you can take all of the integers and multiply each one by 2, and you get a 1:1 "map" from the integers to the even numbers. for this reason, we say that there are just as many integers as there are even numbers (the 1:1 map is called a bijection). you can create a bijection from the integers to a multiple of any integer, actually. multiples of 3, multiples of 10, multiples of a billion, they all have the same amount as the regular old integers. you can also create a bijection from the integers to the set of all integer fractions (referred to as the rational numbers). it's absolutely wild to me that the number of integers is the same as the number of rationals, when both of those are infinitely sized.
something i'm studying in math is when you have infinite proportions that actually maintain their proportionality.
another cool thing with infinity is that you can have objects that are infinitely long, but have a finite volume and/or surface area. you can also have finitely sized objects with infinite surface area (many fractals are like this).
ohSpite · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bijectivity of the rationals and naturals is an even crazier fact if you ask me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
definitely agree. i could've given several more examples but i tried to keep it a bit simple for non-math people
mightyneonfraa · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about it: our universe originated out of the Big Bang and we tend to think of it as encompassing all of reality but if space does stretch on infinitely beyond the physical boundary of this universe, who's to say there aren't more?
There could be billions of other, equally vast universes out there with unimaginably huge distances between them developing and eventually collapsing just like ours.
Sczytzo · 2 points · Posted at 01:51:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If space-time is non-finite, given that the existence of our own universe is evidence that change can occur resulting in something like a big bang it is in fact statistically necessary that a non-finite number of other universes exist. I like to sit around and contemplate the implications of non-finite space-time for fun precisely because it makes my brain do interesting things. I do not claim to be entirely sane, or consistently correct. For me it is more of a thought experiment, or brain exercise, than something I do to produce a functional hypothesis.
mole_of_dust · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's your brain running out of RAM. Don't forget to do memory cleanup after killing the process.
aequitas982 · 3 points · Posted at 20:51:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or to fuck with your head even more, as a math major having the discussion of whether the type of infinite you're talking about is itself finite or infinite infinity.
Sczytzo · 2 points · Posted at 01:54:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, the difference between the number of values available on an endless number line vs. the number of possible points between 0 and 1.
-nobu_oKo_jima- · 3 points · Posted at 21:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got a faint jolt of that when Chris Hadfield was doing a T.E.D. talk, talking about doing a spacewalk and how everyone talks about that feeling of looking down at the Earth, but what hardly anyone mentions is the feeling when you turn around the other way and see the infinite inky blackness of infinity falling away into nothingness beneath you.
AccessConfirmed · 3 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try giving “the last question” a shot. It’s a short story by Isaac asmirov that really messes with your head by the end of it.
Crumb_Rumbler · 3 points · Posted at 21:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm reading a book on infinity right now called Everything and More by David Foster Wallace.
If you want that feeling x100 I highly recommend checking it out.
Sczytzo · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, I like playing with the idea of infinity in my head. Just ordered the book, so hopefully it will help me break my brain even further.
me_irI · 3 points · Posted at 22:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It may help you that it's just a concept. There's no physical basis of infinity at all. Measurement is reality and there's a limit to measurement, where the uncertainty in it is defined by Heisenberg's Uncertainty Principle.
There's also a finite amount of energy in the universe, so you can neither measure with infinite precision nor measure an infinite amount of things. Therefore, there's no physical basis of infinity.
Jezer1 · 0 points · Posted at 19:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Regardless of the limits of measurement, there is still an infinite amount of points in the distance between your thumb and your index finger. So I wouldn't say there isn't a physical basis for infinity. Size is size; distance is distance. And whether I can see it or not, a point in space between those two fingers can always be smaller and measured with smaller increments of size. The microscopic world demonstrates a physical basis for infinity.
me_irI · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do you demonstrate that there's an infinite amount of points between two points in the physical world? Through logic? Physics is independent of mathematics. We understand the physical world through empirical testing - I.e. physics - not logic - which is mathematics. Empirical testing can refute logic.
With no measurement, you can't know that there's an infinite amount of points between two physical points. Points are an abstract concept, anyway.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:21 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Through math. Which, all of physics comes down to.
You understand the world through math. And math demonstrates there is an infinite amount of points between two points---because that's how numbers/decimal points/units of measurement work. Empirical testing, measurements, etc. boil down to mathematical concepts. Did it match a certain speed? Math. Was there a certain amount of energy input? Math. Did the particle go through each slit or both slits? Math. Is it repeatable? Math. How precise/accurate was the theory? Math.
I'm not sure you understand the nuance of "logic" properly if you think testing refutes it. Logic is fundamentally based on premises---and the very initial premise in a logical argument, whether deductive or inductive, is usually a leap of faith. So, this idea of "refut[ing]" logic is really just refuting human-reasoning based premises. Which happens all the time. But, exploring the depths of the physical world bring forth new premises to base new logical reasoning on.
For example: Here was a philosophical conundrum in the past. If God was omnipotent, could he create a rock he couldn't lift? Either he can do it, in which case he's not omnipotent because such a thing could exist, or he can't do it, in which case he's not omnipotent for being unable to do that thing. The premise here is he can either not create the thing or he can create that thing--either or.
But then, you have quantum physics and the behavior of particles as a wavefunction that is a superposition of the particle being in all possible states/positions at the same time, until it is measured.
So, this former "logical proof" against the existence of an omnipotent deity loses its premise that God cannot be simultaneously in two seemingly contradictory positions--both omnipotent, and unable to do something, at the same time.
Essentially, you're saying none of higher physics can be known. Sure, but that makes your beef with the limits of human testing and knowledge. Can you demonstrate that gravity, energy, inertia, the limit to the speed of light, electromagnetism, etc. exists in all solar systems throughout the universe? No physicist can. But they can come as close as they can to "demonstrating" certain universalities like that through their math and the extrapolation from it.
I know (as well as a thing can be knowable) that I can always add a decimal or digit to make a number smaller and refer to a smaller point, with the only limit being my lifespan.
And no, points are no more abstract than space is.
me_irI · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:03 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the comment. I see your points, I still disagree. I agree that mathematics does describe a reality -Godels incompleteness theorem kind of implies that imo. I don't know if that reality is the sameu reality that physics describes - it does seem that way, due to the amazing consistent nature between what we measure and what logically should happen, but there's not really a way to prove that at the moment.
I'm basing these limits of logic off of Ayer's philosophy.
Couldn't find the specific excerpt I was looking for, but from the Wikipedia page of Language, Truth, and Logic:
I am mostly saying that analysis is separate from empirical testing. To make sense of the testing, you require analysis, but logic can be a completely separate system from our physical world, based on whatever axioms you give it.
Speculating about infinity as a concept is still valid - as mathematics does describe a reality. Just not necessarily the conventual physical reality.
LivingmahDMlife · 2 points · Posted at 16:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly what that feels like, thank you for providing me with words
moosecakems · 2 points · Posted at 17:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you listened to "a brief history of time"? It's like having Steven Hawking pulling your brain open with a pair of meat hooks.
HankyDanger · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My big one has always been; if there is nothing, what color is it? Black? Clear? White? Hot pink?
I know that sounds stupid. I put it in the context of “before the universe, what color was it”
King_Pecca · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like infinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinityinfinity
lbaniabaidl · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
same shit if i try to imagine what i can se behind me. its nothing. but it cant be nothing. help
GarbledReverie · 2 points · Posted at 20:07:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just think of it as "too big to count"
Like, if you tried to get a 100% accurate census of how many humans are on the planet currently, many people would die and be born while you are counting.
But with population you can make an estimate, knowing the number won't be definite. So that is "indefinite"
But with infinity, there's no finite number because the number keeps expanding exponentially.
I'm sure this way of looking at it is faulty, but it's probably about as well as I need to understand the concepts in day to day life.
idiotpod · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try imagining a black hole after youve done a deep dive about it. Now that's also fucking weird. I did that after interstellar and just wish I could forget about it
chavz11 · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I absolutely remember as a child thinking about how I couldn’t understand how big space is and trying to think of how there is no end to it. My little mild couldn’t handle it. Still can’t.
This_is_your_mind · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity. A word that describes something that is boundless. Unbounded. Unlimited. Limitless. As in, not limited by the very definition of the concept. Limitless is a limitation in itself... it is the limit of not being able to be limited. For example, the number of integers between 1 and 10. That is a limitation, clearly. So, infinity could not be this. But wait. If something couldn't be something... is that not a limitation? Isn't infinity limited by the impossibility of being limited?
The best way to describe infinity, is nothing. Not zero, not void... just not a thing...
Nothing's another weird one. The word defines "not a thing". Except it doesn't. Because any thought you have, is a thing. A thought is a thing. Void. That's a thing. Emptiness is another thing. Everything you could name, label, articulate. Anything you can see, hear, or be. Those are all things. Even 'not a thing' is a thing. It's a description of an idea.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is it boundless in?
Your post stems primarily from not defining what you mean by infinity in clear terms.
It is boundless in that thing. That doesn't mean it has to be boundless in its definition. Infinite size/number doesn't mean infinite in terms of any other thing---like color or meaning.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinite means unlimited. That is pretty clear, no? It is a concept of something that is endless.
It is boundless in general. In everything.
You can say “the infinity of numbers between 0 and 1”, and that is a clear blinding. Or, you can say “infinity” and understand that your utterance is a part of what is truly without bound. The Universe. Grand Existence.
Jezer1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Infinite" is often, especially as it casually used, an adjective that describes something.
So the question becomes. What is infinite? What are you attaching the adjective to?
And honestly, I'm not sure the word functions properly without attaching it to something else.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity is infinite. Infinity is what is unlimited.
It works on its own.
If you need attachment, it is attached to both nothing and everything. Nothing is infinite. So is everything. :)
Mook1971 · 2 points · Posted at 03:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When somebody says that star is 100 light years away - that’s a mind fuck for me
JediMaestroPB · 2 points · Posted at 06:11:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I get actual apeirophobia, which is the fear of eternity. I’m a Christian, so I basically have to avoid thinking about the next life, or else I will totally freak out and have a panic attack. Like I know it’ll be good once I get there, but my smol human brain just can’t take it.
HurleyBurger · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not just infinity, but that there are different kinds of infinity. For example, there are an infinite number of countable numbers; i.e. 1, 2, 3, 4... There are also an infinite number of rational numbers (rational number: any number that has a finite decimal value) between any two other rational numbers. There is also an infinite number of irrational numbers.
SWMovr60Repub · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's that difficult. What's beyond our universe? Absolutely nothing except our concept of measuring something.
NooseMcGoose · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's the thing, our understanding of infinite is based on our finite lifespan. We can never truly understand infinite. If something keeps going on forever there's no way we could objectively observe it. Our planet is a few billion years old, your lifespan is a pin compared to it. There are nine zeros in a billion (1,000,000,000), you'd be lucky to reach a 3 digit age. To conclude, ............................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ....................................................................................................................................................................... ....................................................................................................................................................................... ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ........................................................................................................................................................................ ............................................................................................................
procrastimom · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity is like when you put two mirrors facing each other and you try to look, but your head gets in the way.
Windbelow616 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And apparently there are like ten different concepts of infinity. I read a book on infinity that was titled as such cuz’ I thought it would be cool to have a deeper grasp on the subject. If the idea of infinity comes up in conversation comes up now I keep my mouth shut, because I realize I have no idea what I’m talking about. When you read a book to benefit yourself and you come out the backend feeling dumber.
deeschannayell · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me the idea of infinity is pretty simple. Because I can substitute a decent heuristic to understand it: "think of a number, or a size. It's bigger than that." And I can do that all day, but I won't, because I know it will always be bigger than that.
What really screws with my head is the idea of very large finite numbers. Things like Graham's number, which is greater than any intelligence will ever be able to perceive, but is still less than Graham's number plus one
badjabs · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Late to the party, but here's my take on it:
Brains can't fathom the concept of infinity because nothing we know has ever existed indefinitely. It can't wrap itself around the concept of something not having a beginning or an end without try to focus on some sort of point of existence.
Crazy shi, that infinity stuff.
[deleted] · 529 points · Posted at 15:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll have those moments when I'm brushing my teeth or something. I'll just start looking at myself and thinking like "I'm just a body, I'm just like living, like this is what I look like and I'm just alive. How? How is this happening? And why?"
_Keahilele_ · 50 points · Posted at 18:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re not a body. You’re a brain wearing a meat suit.
Lil_Sanic · 24 points · Posted at 19:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A brain piloting a bone mech
_Keahilele_ · 13 points · Posted at 19:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And wearing meat armor
BulmaQuinn · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://comicnewbies.com/2015/07/17/deadpool-dons-the-meat-armor/
Relevant Deadpool.
_Keahilele_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice
Neptunelives · 8 points · Posted at 21:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your brain is part of your body though. Whether or not your mind is is another question entirely. Good luck
razora99 · 0 points · Posted at 01:45:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you think it is? I dont think so but I think my brain wants me to think It is as a act to hope theres so mbv wthing after life maybe like we move on to a next step in a way. I think my kind is part of my body it's just a wet lump of meat making electrical impulses until I decay. But then i think about if we have free will i mean do we or is life like one big chain reaction of chemistry that snowballs. Please tell me what you think
Neptunelives · 2 points · Posted at 01:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea lmao. I'd like to think they're separate, otherwise it implies we don't really have free will. I like to think I have free will, I feel like I do. I feel like I can override the things my brain is telling me. But maybe that's just another part of my brain. Basically everything you juat said lol. I'm not sure it can ever really even be answered, regardless of technological progress. Smarter people than me have devoted their lives to it and came up with nothing
razora99 · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This stuff honestly fucks me up. I believe we are all including animals either conscious or not theres no in between
ThrowawayJane86 · 7 points · Posted at 22:33:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And in realizing that your brain is aware of itself, which is crazy.
ARatherOddOne · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're made out of meat.
jhunt42 · 11 points · Posted at 22:40:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh boy. I'm studying human anatomy at uni and it keeps blowing my mind in this way. A trillion little things going on inside a trillion little cells that make up you. But also because they explain how a muscle works but they can't explain how YOU move the muscle...
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 00:27:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Depersonalization. It’s surreal when it happens.
deathtomutts · 3 points · Posted at 23:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That reminds me of ketamine. I felt like I was just a brain, completely cut off from my body.
thekvant · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally same
S_N_I_P_E_R · 3 points · Posted at 20:42:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's where spiritualism comes in play
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 21:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No different than religion, all of it is just us trying to come up with an explanation that isn’t even based on facts.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 2 points · Posted at 05:39:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a great opportunity to be a little edgy and say that that's what religion is
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no why, it just happened
TiredOfForgottenPass · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg I thought it was just me and thought I was freak for thinking that.
JabTrill · 524 points · Posted at 16:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Consciousness really fucks with me. Like our brains are so developed and we're the only species that is self aware, then our consciousness just disappears when we die
EDIT: Apparently humans aren't the only species that are self aware. Y'all don't need to tell me this 50 times lol
Hyndis · 366 points · Posted at 19:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The weird thing is, I'm not even sure I'm conscious in the first place.
Have you ever zoned out while performing a complex task, and yet despite being totally tuned out you still manage to complete the complex task?
Driving is a great and horrifying example of this. Road hypnosis is a thing. You can be totally zoned out you don't even remember driving for the past 30 minutes, and yet you've arrived at your destination. There was no conscious mind active, so you were unconscious, and yet managed to successfully operate a 3,000 pound lump of steel traveling at 75mph for 30 minutes.
If I can do that without the "I" being present, is the "I" part even really needed? Or am "I" just the peanut gallery, observing on and commenting on things that are happening automatically without "my" intervention?
TheLast_Centurion · 94 points · Posted at 20:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine if zoning out ment that the autopilot was taking over, beating the consciousness and restoring the body into it's original state. But then you come to your senses, overriding this sliding back into abyss. And would anyone know if zoning out won and you became autopiloted? Are there people who already are, but we will never know?
Savorrow · 45 points · Posted at 21:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude... can you not? Goddammit.
so_ein_dilemma · 24 points · Posted at 20:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, I never thought about that. That's crazy
Adam-K · 14 points · Posted at 23:28:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some philosophers argue that we are always on "autopilot" and our conscious self is just observing.
TheLast_Centurion · 10 points · Posted at 23:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
doesnt that equate to "no free will"? without free will you basically must be an observer who thinks he has a control over whatever he does, but it's just him feeling the thoughts and understanding why the thing which is happening is happening, fooling him enough to think he made the thought and decision.. ?
Adam-K · 9 points · Posted at 23:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes
throwawaybcimsadok · 3 points · Posted at 00:19:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not in my opinion. If you can observe what you’re thinking and feeling from a detached state, I’d say you actually have more power in your free will, instead of being ruled by your thoughts and feelings and desires. You can observe these things happening, and then decide what you’d like to do, and use thoughts and feelings more like a tool.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:20 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frightening concept. Would make life twice sad on so many levels.
Neptunelives · 9 points · Posted at 21:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://bloody-disgusting.com/editorials/3570679/looking-ari-asters-obsession-familial-horror-disturbing-short-films/
The main character in the short "basically" asks the same question. It's pretty good
TheLast_Centurion · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
which one?
but thanks for suggestion
ajp-92 · 3 points · Posted at 01:29:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are describing a fear a lot of people with extreme dissociation have. The ANP or 'front part' (the 'I') comes back, but not knowing what happened when another part was in control is way scarier
psinguine · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Years ago I read a paper about people who have experienced brain bifurcation. Essentially the two hemispheres of their brains have been surgically (or accidentally) seperated. They essentially lose all control of half of their body... But that half still functions.
Even more interesting, and you can see video of this, there is still some kind of communication taking place behind the scenes. Like if they show an image to the eye that is "blind", that the consciously aware test subject can't see, they might hear a bell outside or in some other way be aware of the bell. Or they'll show an image to the seeing eye, that the blind one can't see, and get the hand they have no control over to draw and it will draw the image.
The best thing that researchers were able to come up with is that, essentially, we share brain space with a "silent partner" our whole lives and the only time it ever really comes to the front is when our brains are split, or during autopilot.
You should look into it. It's fascinating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:48:35 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck i will do. I am happy with my simple view of the world. It terrifies me. BTW happy cakeday, bruh
supernova1602 · 82 points · Posted at 20:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't say you were unconscious. I'm no psychologist, but from what I understand your brain basically regards those 30 minutes as uneventful/unimportant so it doesn't commit it to memory.
Merkuri22 · 66 points · Posted at 21:00:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This.
You were totally in control during that time. You just didn’t need to remember it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:32:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Nearly every question in this thread can be answered with simple explanations like this.
gatoinspace · 5 points · Posted at 23:05:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, everyone else can go home!
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 23:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Amanitas · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes they did.
WonkyTelescope · 22 points · Posted at 20:20:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The scifi novel Blindsight by Peter Watts plays with this idea a lot.
slinkysuki · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh, such a mind trip. Great writer.
k3rn3 · 18 points · Posted at 21:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah this fucks me up too. The more I learn about physics and philosophy, the more I feel like consciousness is kind of an illusion which conceals the fact that we're just organic machinery
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:54:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 00:03:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If that's true then I love how parts of the inevitable machine has inexorably led itself to this Reddit thread where it is now arguing with itself about the nature of itself.
k3rn3 · 3 points · Posted at 23:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, this is the essence of determinism
It could definitely be an inaccurate conception for how things work, but that all depends on quantum stuff that isn't fully understood by science yet (let alone average people like us). At the moment it does seem like we are just squishy automatons
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:46:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think that we have no free will and that there's functionally no difference between us and a philosophical zombie (a human with no consciousness, but who mimicked the human body and brain perfectly), but then I thought about how we're aware of our own consciousness. What the fuck is that? What are the atoms in my brain reacting to when I think about this weird sense of "me"? If everything is deterministic, then why did we develop both a consciousness and the ability to think about our consciousness?
k3rn3 · 5 points · Posted at 01:03:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you're so right. I think that's called metacognition but I could be wrong. I believe these days determinism is falling out of popularity in favor of something called compatibilism (which I don't fully understand, myself).
I used to be a hard determinist, but certain developments in quantum mechanics seem to undermine that. Not that I pretend to know about that stuff beyond a highly superficial level.
This article was pretty interesting: http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20160715-organisms-might-be-quantum-machines
I'm not religious or spiritual at all, but if I were, this is probably how I would reconcile faith and science.
ajp-92 · 7 points · Posted at 01:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, metacognition. The act of thinking about thinking. Super important skill in psychology/therapy. Not everyone has this to the same degree though. People with things like severe depression often have reduced metacognition whereas anxiety often comes with an excessive amount
NoodlesRomanoff · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We’re made of meat.
RNGHatesYou · 2 points · Posted at 04:34:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yum.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 21:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The weird thing with this is that you can't know if you were "unconscious", or conscious but just not bothering to record memory. The latter is more likely I think. You may have had self aware moments during that trip, you just can't access them because you're brain was like "yeah this is so familiar I'm not going to write it down".
Shows how linked memory and consciousness and identity are.
Sczytzo · 2 points · Posted at 02:23:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then there is the fun of having a recall cue disorder. I have all kinds of data and memories stored in my brain, but I cannot always predict what will allow me to access them. So just because I can't think of something, or pull up a memory doesn't mean that it isn't stored in there, I just need a completely different kind of cue to get my memory to spit it out. This is also fun because my mind will also often spit out memories that are not especially relevant to the situation, but tangentially associated as a result of what amounts to a misfiled memory cue.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I pay attention to my mirrors and surroundings while driving. Hours upon hours of training and years of experience, with a little discipline helps mitigate that for the most part, but occasionally it still happens for brief periods.
Depends on what I'm driving though, smooth quiet vehicles make it exponentially more difficult to fight road hypnosis which is partially why all my vehicles are old and have manual transmissions.
Ell_alicia22 · 8 points · Posted at 22:29:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Due to my mental health I can go into dissociative states and sometimes this can be for most of the day spanning weeks/months. So imagine being on ‘autopilot’ for that long and then one day it lifting and you ‘wake up’ again. I think the ‘i’ part of me is not needed to perform menial every day tasks but the ‘i’ part that provides the observations and comments and intervention is what makes me who I actually am.
throwawaybcimsadok · 3 points · Posted at 00:13:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just thought I’d hop on here and mention this; this is essentially what spiritualism is. Like what Buddha taught. The truest sense of “I” is not your body, which ceases to function when you die, it’s not your mind, which ceases to exist when you die, it’s not your ego, which is a made up narrative about who you are; but rather it’s the consciousness that is observing all of these things.
Eckhart Tolle (very influential spiritual teacher) had major anxiety and depression in med school, and one night he couldn’t sleep and thought “I can’t live with myself anymore.” This caused him to think, wait, does that mean that “I” is something different than “myself”? Are they two separate entities? And mulling over this allegedly brought him to “enlightenment”, where he realized that all we are is peaceful awareness.
So driving down the highway, your body and mind are functioning just fine all on their own!
DTFH_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
'I' can be illusionary.
Scooba_Mark · 2 points · Posted at 23:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should check out "thinking fast and slow". They won a noble prize studying this
ajp-92 · 2 points · Posted at 01:26:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychologist here. Google dissociation. Some level of dissociation is very normal (eg autopilot driving the same route you've driven everday) but it can become a problem, especially in those who have another psychological condition, like depression or PTSD
jalcott · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is giving me an anxiety attack.
ScravoNavarre · 26 points · Posted at 18:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every time I think about the fact that I'm me, and that I'm the one saying the things I say and doing the things I do, I find myself getting a little lost.
DC-COVID-TRASH · 52 points · Posted at 18:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, at least using the mirror test elephants, dolphins, orcas, magpies, several primates, and cleaner wrasses all have self awareness.
It's a bit difficult to say an animal does or does not have consciousness, but there's evidence at least several do.
CactusPearl21 · 25 points · Posted at 20:11:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well that's because, like most things, "consciousness" isn't a real thing. It's just a descriptive term that we use, and we get to define it however we want. We get to set an arbitrary threshold and then try to see what falls on either side of the threshold we created.
The concept of "identity" is the same. In objective, physical terms, 'identity' doesn't exist. There is no you, or me, or chair, or Earth. There are only relationships between matter and energy and we recognize the more significant collections of these relationships and give them names.
A huge chunk of all Philosophy is just wasted nonsense arguing on false premises because we refuse to recnognize this truth (largely because it would have been blasphemic heresy against religion for most of human history).
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder who you are?
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am your Mind. We are Divine Creators.
This_is_your_mind · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess that depends on what you define to be "real". Included in reality. That's how I define it. Is consciousness not included in reality? This awareness of mind? It's pretty real to me. It is more real to me than anything else you could name...
It's like looking through glasses, and saying that the glasses aren't real because you're looking through them rather than at them. But you forget, that you can direct your attention to the glasses, too.
CactusPearl21 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not talking about reality, i'm talking about the idea of 'identity' or 'consciousness'
Those are fictional ideas. It doesn't mean the things we describe with them aren't real things. It just means the definition is artificial and arbitrary. If we criticize what it means to be you, we can quickly see where the identity breaks down - are the trillions of bacteria in your body part of 'you'? What about the food you ate that's currently digesting in your stomach? What if I cut off your finger, is the finger part of you? How about when I reattach it successfully? What about a liver transplant? Were you 'You' when you were an egg, or a sperm, or a fertilized egg? The definition changes every second to stay within our expectations.
It's useful for us in practicality but its no less imaginary. Like 'The Economy'
This_is_your_mind · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am All. So yes, to all of that. That's all me. As well as everything else, nothing else. Totality, is what I am. That is why, when, how, and where I exist.
Clearly, I am real. I understand that my identity isn't, but I don't need identity to be conscious. They are very different things, in my eyes.
Identity is an idea. Entirely imaginary, like the rest of ideas. Consciousness is awareness. It has an imaginary component, but it also has a real component. Would you say that sight is imaginary? Or sound? Both have an imaginary, as well as a real component. Because you actually experience them. You do not actually experience identity. You do not actually experience the economy. You interact with these, as ideas.
TeholsTowel · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s as wrong as saying time doesn’t exist. Or anything made up of something complex doesn’t exist. Should I also say that steel doesn’t exist, because that’s just the name we’ve given to iron + coal?
We know consciousness exists because we experience it. Your supposed answer for consciousness and identity doesn’t actually answer anything. It’s entirely built off assumptions.
CactusPearl21 · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're missing something or maybe I explained it wrong.
If I say the concept of "You" isn't real, I don't mean that your skin and bones and brain and blood are imaginary. They're obviously real. What I'm saying is that 'You' is not a static entity. What 'You' are is changing every second. So when we ask a question like "who are you" we are really asking what are the persistent qualities that your biomass possesses?
A bad example but maybe to illustrate - if I cut off your legs and arms are you still You? Yes, okay how about if then you get a liver, heart, eye, blood, kidney tranplant. Yes? Okay so really 'You' is your consciousness itself. So if I copied your consciousness digitally then that copy would also be 'You'? Wait no? See it gets very confusing and its because its arbitrary in the first place.
slinkysuki · 3 points · Posted at 01:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"You" is the continuous mental construct experiencing your surroundings. I would argue (as many scifi media have) that a digital copy would believe itself to be "you", but is in fact another very similar entity. As soon as "you" is disrupted in any way, it becomes something else. Teleportation? The entity that arrives thinks it is "you" but unless the atoms were the same ones, transported simultaneously, in the same configuration, "you" has ceased to exist. What is now extant is a perfect copy with all your memories... But consciousness was interrupted as the pattern was recorded, destroyed, and instantly recreated elsewhere.
So... i think the key to "you" is continuous experience. Which begs the question: if the transporter destroyed you and made you anew, but the new copy thinks of itself as the only one... How is that any different to a good night's sleep? I close my eyes, and wake up the next day. I have only my memories telling me that "i" am the same individual that laid down last night. There's no guarantee i haven't been replaced by a duplicate during the night.
As you said, it's a bit arbitrary!
PhenylAnaline · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This thought made me have sleep phobia a few months ago.
PhenylAnaline · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Relationships between matter and energy" is a concept created by your mind. We don't know if it objectively exists either.
iwasacatonce · 30 points · Posted at 18:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's not any evidence that consciousness itself is a local phenomenon. Our human perception of it is obviously happening locally because it's directly affected by our organs, our electrical and chemical systems. But that doesn't explain in any way how it could arise from otherwise "dumb" matter. It's just as likely a basic building block of the universe, but generally nothing like human consciousness.
This_is_your_mind · 7 points · Posted at 22:17:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a big fan of the filter model. Your brain doesn't create consciousness, it is a filter for consciousness that already Is. Filtering it into what is relevant to your brain. Body, sight, sound, these are relevant to the brain, so you are aware of them.
iwasacatonce · 3 points · Posted at 22:47:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favorite model is very similar. I really dig panpsychism.
I also enjoy the antenna theory, that the brain is just a thing that sort of receives consciousness and interprets it and had a useful physical output for it, similar to a TV or radio receiving waves and turning it into something physically recognizable. It seems like the tv or radio are creating the picture or sounds, but it's really just the right hardware tuning into something that's broadcasting all over the place.
I also like the idea that consciousness is a product of any system, and it just happens to become complex enough in a specific way to be self aware in animals.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pantheist :)
Love the wave analogy, I think that's a great way to describe this idea.
Panpsychism is just beyond me. I can understand that it is entailed by my very own beliefs, but I absolutely cannot grasp how that would work, why that would be the case, or how anybody came to that conclusion... could you talk about it?
iwasacatonce · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm definitely pantheist as well, but I'm not totally sold on panpsychism simply because my panpsychist leanings aren't all logically based. It feels intuitively correct, but I can't think it out and explain it the way I can pantheism.
What I can say about it though, is that I think it makes sense that the universe is alive in a way that requires consciousness. I don't think that anything could exist or behave in any particular way without having a certain intention to do so. Which isn't to say that every electron in the universe is actively thinking "I am an electron" as much as it's something that arises from a basic will to be, and governed by the rules of what has already willed itself to be. It also seems intuitive to me that consciousness could not arise out of something that isn't conscious. If there truly is no separation between you or me or the rest of the universe, then that is the universe itself thinking and doing. I also mentioned the theory that all systems give rise to some sort of consciousness, which would mean that every conceivable division of the universe is alive and aware, and that the entirety of the universe is also a conscious being. Similarly, if our body is controlled, at least in part, by a conscious mind, it seems to me that the body itself is an extension of that consciousness. There are also a lot of really interesting studies done on things like placebos, and the effects of intentions on physical events and computer simulations. This doesn't necessarily point to consciousness being the basic building block of reality, it could also be a field or something. But it's compelling in any case.
Like I said before though, this is more metaphysics and intuition than anything. There are plenty of ways to explain the things I addressed, so I try to allow myself to hold these ideas near to my heart, but not take them as an absolute truth.
This_is_your_mind · 0 points · Posted at 00:35:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I suppose my qualm would be- are those things conscious as individuals? It's my belief that us humans do the separating, proposing that a car on the road is particularly separate from the road. I'd think the car is conscious, but that seems like a disservice to the truth, which is why it sounds so strange. It is that thing that we happen to call a car, that is conscious. The thing that isn't separate from the road, or anything else. The thing that is.. well, everything. The car doesn't think it's a car, but instead knows it is All, and that is how it exists. It doesn't separate itself, like we do. From the point of view of the car, the car is individual, but not individual as a car. Individual as the Singularity.
The entirety of the Universe is a conscious being. From my POV, the entirety of the Universe is ONE conscious being. The only conscious being. As humans, we frame that as a thing that is separate from us- even if we understand that isn't the case, it is generally what we experience. But we aren't separate. Because we are alive and have brains, it is useful to separate the human from the environment, in order to allow the human to flourish. As such, we experience our human selves as in the Universe. But more truthfully, the Universe is what we really are. Because there is only one conscious being that exists. And it is the Universe. I am a conscious being that exists, so it only follows that I am the Universe.
I guess the point of what I'm saying is that panpsychism appears correct, but only technically. It is true that a car is conscious- aware of itself. But, this is only the case because the car doesn't see itself as a car, but instead, the entire Universe. Indivisible- no tires or headlights, just simply All. That is what it is aware of. All that exists. Not just the car. A car has self-awareness, but the self of the car is not the car. The self of the car is the Universe- and that is what it is aware of.
Sam-Starxin · 2 points · Posted at 23:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While you are correct in saying there's no evidence that consciousness is a local phenomenon, you'd do well to remember that the opposite is true. The question is therefore irrelevant.
iwasacatonce · 3 points · Posted at 23:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not irrelevant. We should investigate and postulate, and look at all sides. If we don't look, we'll never get closer to an answer. It's just not useful to make an assumption that it's one way or the other, or we end up mired in dogma.
galaxygirl978 · 9 points · Posted at 20:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And we're just intelligent enough to be self-aware, but not enlightened enough to know the secrets of the universe...
RoguePlanet1 · 9 points · Posted at 21:44:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We're not the only species that is self-aware. But the "problem of consciousness" haunts science. Why am I me?? Why THIS person?
Yeah it can make you nuts.
my-other-throwaway90 · 7 points · Posted at 21:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We're not the only species, a bunch of animals show signs of self awareness. Elephants for example.
aVarangian · 6 points · Posted at 22:27:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's such a human thing to say
SailorRalph · 6 points · Posted at 22:19:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other species are self aware. Simply because we struggle to communicate with them doesn't mean they are not self aware. Or maybe I'm understanding what you mean by self aware.
There are some interesting theories of consciousness. If you're really interested in the subject, you should look up some books by Rita Carter. She has some books that discuss a few of the theories in words some enough that when I was 15, I could understand them (no I'm not a genius or really that smart even).
TheMintLeaf · 5 points · Posted at 22:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This actually isn't true, plenty of other species have shown signs of knowing they exist.
But we are the only species that knows as much about our existence as we do, ie our species exists as a result of evolution, and that we live within one of many galaxies. Although interestingly dung beetles use the milky way to navigate, not the same as awareness but they do know there's a big line of light across the sky exists.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 17:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 19:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why/how would it? It's just a bunch of electrical/chemical signals in your brain.
program_alarm · 7 points · Posted at 22:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a weird thought: What we think of as consciousness is, as far as we know, a result of a massively complex set of interactions in the physical brain. Consciousness is the result of essentially an analog feedback loop.
An OpAmp is an analog feedback loop. Is it conscious? Why not?
What is pain? It's "a signal in the brain that informs us of damage". That's not really helpful. From a consciousness perspective... from a perception perspective, what is it? It's unpleasant.
When you turn a volume control all the way up, and the sound starts to get all distorted as the transistors all saturate and can't go further. Does it hurt them? I don't mean does it damage the electronic elements, I mean: do they perceive pain?
If you think is it all ridiculous, ask: How many analog feedback loops does it take to make something conscious, and how would we ever know that limit?
TL;DR: Don't play your music loud; it's iPhone abuse.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
is it though?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, Vsauce. Michael here!
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah?
This_is_your_mind · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes you think so? The best of my information points elsewhere.
WonkyTelescope · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I've read all your comments and just wanna say that you trust your mind's ability to parse the world too much. We evolved to survive long enough to procreate and raise our progeny and maybe their progeny too. The tools we have are tuned to that task, not the task of understanding the nature of reality.
This is why you have to put your efforts into science-based investigation. It is the best way to circumvent your inherent biases and find out what is actually true, as opposed to what feels right to you.
Don't trust your perceptions and tendencies, they are not well suited to the world.
Everything we have ever observed follows a set of physical laws, across centries of observation, across billions of light years of space, looking back to the first 300,000 years of the universe, everything follows physical laws. Why then do you assume we are any different? Why do you think you are so special that you get to ignore the rules of reality?
The electrochemical nature of the brain is cannot be argued. There is no evidence that the brain participates in any interactions other than physical ones modeled by physics and biochemistry. There is ample evidence that changes to the electrochemical environment in the brain leads to perceptual and behavioral changes. There is even evidence that the signalling in the brain precedes the conscious experience of desire and choice!
In fact I think there is solid observational evidence that we have no free will because our brains must follow physical laws at all times, so our brains always act as they must as dictated by their initial conditions and the laws of physics.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you misinterpret my sentiment. Truth does not defy science... science is an analytical look at what is true. And of course, it can only analyze what is analyzable.
There’s a part of us you can’t explain. Simple as that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The best of what information? There is no science that shows otherwise, so I’m not going to pretend that it makes any sense at all that there is any other phenomenon to consciousness.
This_is_your_mind · 3 points · Posted at 22:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My information. The things I've experienced, the ideas created within me.
Do you think that science is what allows you to experience consciousness, or...? Why are you so focused on science? Do you need science to know that you exist? Do you need science to know that you experience? That you're aware? Could science even delve into phenomenal matters like this?
I'm not sure, but I know we're definitely not there yet. Regardless, just consider what consciousness actually is. It is awareness of the mind.
If you identify as a human and nothing else, then yeah you're not going to be able to wrap your head around this. If you realize there's more to You than the substance you embody, new pathways open up. Although, you will encounter experiences and ideas that are simply too great for words to contain. Like Being God. Being God is ineffable. It cannot be put into words. Sure, I tried to explain it with those two simple words, but obviously that doesn't convey much substance. You have no idea what I mean when I say that. And no, it's not "thinking that you are God", because obviously those are very different things. Instead, I'll give you a few synonyms: non-being, clairvoyancy, non-duality, ego death, mystical experiences, everything, nothing. These seem like different things, but they all describe exactly the same thing. Being God.
Anyway. What exactly is my information that leads me to eschew the idea that consciousness is created in the brain? Reason. Intelligence. Purpose. These are all things that created themselves. Think about it. What is the purpose of evolution? How did general intelligence lead to realization of particular intelligence? How could evolution start, without a purpose to start it? When I say evolution, I don't just mean evolution of life. I mean evolution of the Universe. From the big bang, to this point here and now. You can say it doesn't have a purpose, yet it clearly does... efficiency. Efficacy. Actualization of the self. Creation of adaptability.
To me, there is a clear-cut purpose to this existence. Self-love. This Universe is one of the facets that allows God (the Universe) to love itself. The proof, is that conscious things tend to love. What greater purpose is there to awareness, than awareness of the best thing, love? We appreciate. Even when we've deluded ourselves to forget or ignore this truth, it is so easy to understand when you have it. I recognize this is pretty woo-woo, so feel free to laugh at or challenge anything I say. I'll love you anyway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science is simply a way of thinking. It means that things need to be proved and be based on observable information. Obviously I don't need a scientific study to know that I am conscious. To be able to figure out how consciousness works and what it is, absolutely.
The rest of your assumptions about reason, intelligence, and purpose just have no ground to stand on. Intelligence was evolutionarily advantageous, and so we have evolved with it. Our reasoning comes from this evolutionary pressure and whatever led to it. Lastly, purpose isn't relevant at all to this discussion. There was no purpose to the Big Bang, it simply was. There is no purpose to life, it simply is.
If you don't have a theory backed by data and observation, then you can literally just claim anything you want and say "well that's just my experience, and I know I'm not wrong" which is exactly what everyone responding to me is doing.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. Science is an ideology in itself. If you want Truth, lose your ideologies.
You say there's no purpose to life. So why do you do it? Is the purpose of life, not simply to enjoy it?
Well, I do have a theory backed by data and observation. Self-love is the ultimate purpose. The data: I feel my best when I love myself. Speaking in terms of evolution, the best and most pure feeling, would be the best thing to do. That's why I've evolved to do it. So, it follows that the best thing to do is to self-love, and the evidence is that there's nothing I enjoy more, than loving myself. To give some other examples: exercising feels pretty great, I enjoy it quite a bit. Hurting myself feels pretty shitty, I try to avoid it. In terms of evolution, it follows that exercising must have given me an advantage, and hurting myself must have given me a disadvantage. So, the logic seems to compute. Loving myself appears to the best thing, so it is apparent that the greatest advantage evolution has to offer, is self-love. What exactly is evolution doing, aside from providing the greatest advantage? If evolution is doing nothing but providing the greatest advantage over time, is it not accurate to say that that is its very purpose? If all a river does is flow, is flow not the ultimate purpose of the river? If all ant does is be an ant, isn't that its purpose? To be an ant? If something fundamentally does one thing and nothing else, that is clearly, to me, its purpose.
nevertoohigh · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk man I dont think I can lose the 'ideology' that is gravity and start floating for truth
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well, recognize that you don't need to hold gravity as an idea, in order to witness it. And also, that's fine. One of the beauties of this lifestyle. It isn't for everyone! I think everybody is capable, but not everybody wants to do it, and I'm in no position to tell you that this will be better for you than what you're already doing. You don't need to consider God to be a good person or live an enjoyable life. I stumbled upon this path and have stuck with it- I wasn't searching when it found me. I was just trippin on some acid, when my ego died. It came back, but I started to understand the possibilities. They are beautiful, and endless. If I met me 5 years ago, I would probably disregard everything I'm saying. I just wouldn't have any way to make sense of what all of this means, or what it implies, indicates, entails, proposes.
I think something that made it easier to accept this way, is that in doing so life just became better for me, in a myriad different ways. I've had such a good time that I have no resentment for death. If 20 years is all I get to live, its already worth it. Course, I have a feeling the Universe has even more love to share. There's an endless supply, especially in each person. One of the things I strive for, is to unleash the love that people are afraid to use. Has resulted in a lot of connections :) Turns out, I love to connect, so I keep doing it.
Also, the reward typically comes beforehand. It's not like you be a good person and then get to love. You just experience a great amount of love, and that makes you a good person. And being a good person makes you love more, appreciate more, so you find new, different, unique ways to love and appreciate. Straight up, I was just having a good time and then this change sparked. It has been so good to me, that I have no reason to give it up. Still balanced, though. I don't abuse substances, so they don't abuse me.
And of course, it isn't like this is all about emotion and how I feel. Being more conscious, more aware, just has very good implications. Leads to a very healthy, clean lifestyle. One that isn't a chore, but one you genuinely enjoy every step of the way.
If you have no self, there is nothing to fear, but everything to appreciate. You are uncorruptable, pure, and perfectly complete. Just like everybody else! Only difference is that you realize it, and appreciate it.
pinkfloyd873 · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human consciousness (and to some limited degree animal consciousness), by our best definition, is derived from the types of circuits our neurons form. It’s not just an electrical or chemical potential that’s necessary - you need circuits that feed back and have some recursive information transfer versus simple feed-forward circuits, otherwise the organism never develops awareness of the information itself.
All that said, we don’t know what consciousness is, there is really no satisfactory reductive explanation of it as anything other than an emergent phenomenon.
Logically speaking, we can’t rule out other forms of consciousness that might exist and are not apparent to us. For example, when we look for consciousness in animals, we look for near-immediate information processing in experiments like the mirror-dot test. We don’t consider information transfers and energy transfer circuits occurring on massive time or distance scales - who’s to say there couldn’t be a “cosmic consciousness” that emerges over the course of eons?
I’ll acknowledge that all sounds a little hokey and New-Age, but many of the greatest minds in the field of Philosophy of Mind (like David Chalmers, Thomas Nagel, and Alfred North Whitehead) seriously consider panpsychism as a possibility.
WhornyNarwhal · 5 points · Posted at 19:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
law of conservation of mass, and the law of conservation of energy. if you see our consciousness as an energy of sorts, which is no stretch of the imagination... someone smarter and more spiritual than me can connect the dots here. perhaps it flows out from you after you die into the people around you, like a laugh after you tell a joke
[deleted] · 15 points · Posted at 19:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mass and energy is still there. Your brain still physically exists until you decompose and the mass is transformed by whatever bacteria are doing the decomposing. The chemical energy is still there and is used in the decomposition. There's no magical/spiritual/emotional energy or whatever.
WonkyTelescope · 3 points · Posted at 20:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it's the coherence of electrochemical activity that is consciousness not the energy itself. When you die the physical brain is no longer electrochemically shepherding the distribution of electric and chemical potentials and so the infrastructure is lost but the energy is still there, it's just dispersing like every other non-active system.
WhornyNarwhal · 0 points · Posted at 21:12:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you’ve spoken for the brain, not for the consciousness. you’ve attempted to fit the phenomenon of death into your classifications, into science which you can understand and accept it. i simply believe there’s more to it than that.
touchtheclouds · 0 points · Posted at 21:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness needs the brain, though.
WhornyNarwhal · -1 points · Posted at 21:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and a driver needs a car to pick up speed. if you tell me what an engine does, that doesn’t necessarily explain the physics of speed
Obokan · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All studies on consciousness if you were to look it up, show that the consciousness is the brain, our brain isn't like a radio receiving a transmission or anything like that. There is nothing that precedes the brain for consciousness to happen.
DannyDannDanDaD · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's good to be so shortsighted.
Philosophers and enlightened people have been spreading the same message in different words all over the world. That message is basically saying that death isn't the end, that there is more after death, that death is only a new beginning.
Of course they're talking about other planes of existence where the physical nature of our world isn't as much as a bondage to those inhabiting the higher plane world. In these Higher planes, beings can experience true freedom.
You go to these higher planes every night when you dream, but you don't really remember the whole experience of the dream. What are dreams? Infinite possibilities and places can be found dreaming and they're independent of physical laws unlike your and my plane of existence in the 3d universe.
Of course there are higher planes of existence then that of the astral/dream world. But these can't he comprehended by the limited human mind.
It's just like in Dr. Strange. Most people don't put any thought about the concepts that appear in the movie, but the content of those spiritual concepts is the same that had been written, documented, experienced thousands of years ago.
And even now through the knowledge and meditation, people today are experiencing this for themselves. Unless you've experienced it, you cannot comprehend it, it's like trying to describe red to a blind man. Relative to that, I realize how this all may be a pointless effort from me, being that you are the blind man in this context.
NinjaruCatu · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is still 100% dependent on you having a functioning brain to report your first person experience with(not just to others, but to yourself as well).
Therefore saying conciousness is created by the brain, and not separate is the more likely hypothesis.
Neither are proven without actual empirical evidence. Which is why honest answer to this problem of understanding what conciousness is, should be "We dont know...yet".
DannyDannDanDaD · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is said that all matter has consciousness. Everything has a vibration. Even the stone that looks most still.
NinjaruCatu · 2 points · Posted at 00:10:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"It has been said" is not evidence... What I wrote Is also an example of "It has been said.".... I mean, I literally just said it.
How does an outside observer know who is more likely to be right?
Independent verification of physical evidence is the only way to KNOW. And since neither of us has sufficient evidence to KNOW, you choose to BELIEVE and I Choose to WITHHOLD belief until I'm closer to KNOWING.
Saying I dont know when it's the honest answer, is a much quicker way to actual truths, it encourages you to keep learning.
slinkysuki · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd like to see all these self described "enlightened beings" explain to us what the say after complete brain death. And using the same hardware they left with. 😂
NinjaruCatu · 2 points · Posted at 01:44:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Based, on some crazy psychedelic experiences, I have a hunch... but I'm still going to say "I dont know." It's interesting to think about, and speculate... but it's so easy to fool yourself into thinking you've found the answer, when you stumble upon whatever feels comforting to you. I say dont be afraid, keep and open mind, and dont commit untill you know, which may be never, and that's ok.
slinkysuki · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just have a hard time trusting anything my brain says about objects that are apparently beyond up. Much easier to suspect they are delusions of a system not running as designed. Hallucinations, if you will :)
NinjaruCatu · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only thing you can be sure of, is that you are experiencing something, literally every time you could think to check.
By definition there is no such thing as non-experience. So if you consider yourself as an "agent that experiences things", you are essentially immortal. Maybe eternal, or timeless is a better word.
Your ego, or memories, may be radically different, as in deep meditation, or while hallucinating, or high on various substances, or dreaming... but you are always, experiencing something, and never experiencing nothing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does a computer program go when it’s turned off?
WhornyNarwhal · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
a human is too complex of an organism to be compared to a computer. better analogy: when a website is deleted, where do all its users go?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:38:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes a human too complex to compare to a computer? That’s basically what brains are. Your analogy doesn’t work at all.
WhornyNarwhal · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a computer can’t love, communicate for itself, anything unless a human inputs data and feedback. it’s a tool. it’s as similar to a human as a hammer. you see it with human like features because humans designed it in their image. like pointing out cars have two headlights like eyes. a website like reddit has a network of other websites that it might work with, users which can affect the overall emotion of the entire site like neurons reacting to stimuli, it even changes its design as it grows older
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And each user is a self aware person. A brain cell is not.
WhornyNarwhal · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
regardless there is an analog. a computer has no analog
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First of all, comparing "conciousness" to a computer program is the most misplaced thing I've read in a while.
Second of all, turning a hard drive off is not the equivalent of death, breaking one is. In which case the computer program disappears, which seems like the opposite of the point you were attempting to make.
If you're going to make an analogy do it on something you have at least some knowledge on.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were in a car accident and bled out, your brain isn't destroyed. It's just off, and it will begin to decay as your body is decomposed. And that is exactly my point, the computer program disappears, exactly how consciousness disappears after death.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, and I was saying that your conflation that a hard drive works in the same way is laughable. As long as you don't shatter the disk, you can still access whatever data is on it.
You shouldn't go around acting like an expert on a concept with as much proof in either direction as the existence of god, and then make analogies on it with topics you know nothing about.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not acting like an expert, I'm saying there is no scientific basis whatsoever in consciousness after death.
cojavim · 3 points · Posted at 20:44:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really hope you're wrong. My biggest fear in life is that death is not the end, it's the reason why I fear death so much. I'm terrified of the possibility of the suffering that goes together with even the best life should not end only transform in another, probably much worse suffering.
I just want to end when my time comes, more than anything in the world.
Yes I know I'm weird.
WhornyNarwhal · 3 points · Posted at 21:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
death signals rebirth. to know death is not the end is to understand you have a purpose in the cycle, a responsibility to your fellow humans to live positively while you can
cojavim · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not ask to be born and have responsibilities. I just want to end. It's as simple as that.
Obokan · -2 points · Posted at 21:45:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I see where you are from now.
NinjaruCatu · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This, may not make you feel any better right away. But it has helped me get a different perspective so I know what I have to come to terms with...
If you consider yourself, at the most basic level, an "agent that experiences things.", then that is all you will ever be.
It's not like there is experience, and then non-experience. By definition, You are always experiencing something, never nothing.
So the way I have dealt with this insight, is to use trained mindfulness to practice making every detail of every moment of experience, either pleasurable, or indifferent.
An example... when I shattered my heel bone, it was about 2 months of the worst pain I've ever experienced. It was so bad, there were stretches of time when I PAIN WAS MY EXISTENCE, and I was worried it would last indefinitely.
But, the longer I turned my focus on the raw sensation itself, the more reason I found to not be scared. Eventually I realized, even the worst pain I've felt in my life, could be looked at from a purely indifferent and detached observational point of view.
As long as you are experiencing SOMETHING, YOU ARE ALIVE. And that is ok, in fact you have the power to make it Great!
Checkout the apps, Calm, Waking Up, Insight Timer, or Headspace. Good luck out there friend.
cojavim · 1 points · Posted at 07:00:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but you're talking about pain. I'm talking about wanting to have the hope that my existence will end one day. I'm already into mindfulness, if anything it helped me to identify these feelings. Existence is interesting, but exhausting. The thought of it ending one day brings me such a deep relief.
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness would be a witnessing/awareness of active energy, rather than energy itself.
Identity might be important to consider, here. I'm of the belief that when you (the human) die, you (the awareness) merge with the One that we call All (aka the Universe, capitol U). When/if you experience ego death, it's no longer applicable to call yourself a human. Yet, you are still aware that you exist, and you might even have a Self. It's just that your Self isn't as limited, as it was before. It isn't limited at all. Everything you see, think, hear- those aren't just products of you, they are exactly what you are. You are your experience. You are everything that you're aware of, and implicitly understand that you are also everything else. You are merged, with the same source that brought you here.
Rather incoherent, to me too. It's hard to talk about these things.
WhornyNarwhal · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it will all make sense in the end
This_is_your_mind · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps, sense will be less than useful, in the end.
NinjaruCatu · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are talking as if it's analogous to a flame.(it MAY be).
Where does a flame go when it is extinguished?
WhornyNarwhal · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it goes up in smoke
AccuratelyRated · 0 points · Posted at 19:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, that’s a really nice thought. Well...assuming it’s mostly the positive stuff carrying over and not some kind of demon looking for a host.
WhornyNarwhal · 5 points · Posted at 19:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it is not just the positive stuff. think of a family’s pain after a member’s suicide. or a death after an argument left without closure. those emotions are all just different forms of energy. it’s in our nature to share and help each other carry burden, that includes the pain we feel inside. it hurts to see a friend hurt
AccuratelyRated · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a really interesting way of looking at it. I’ll definitely be thinking about this for a while. Thanks for sharing!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Hereditary
JugsKise · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disclaimer: That movie is HEAVY.
WhornyNarwhal · 0 points · Posted at 21:09:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that movie is one of my all time favorites 🤘
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 21:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are not energy, we have energy. When you die, the energy is used/transformed by whatever decomposes you.
TheSwissCheeser · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah lol look at all these people trying to justify their beliefs by ambiguously/incorrectly applying scientific principles. I have nothing wrong with spiritualism, it just seems pretty wrong to confound and distort concrete science with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Believe” being the key word there.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, people that think like this are what I genuinely don’t understand.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:12:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See and now you’re just plain wrong.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:24:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cite a source then
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:42:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not a source. And you're just trying to quote some highly technical math that you don't understand yourself out of context that doesn't have anything to do with what we are talking about.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
We don't know what happens to our consciousness when we die as we don't know what consciousness even is in the first place. It could be a fundamental aspect of reality and the brain is merely a filter for it. Theres no proof consciousness ceases to exist when we die.
TimeFortean · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3 lbs of fat and protein can be self aware? IMPOSSIBLE
Blind_Prophet__ · 24 points · Posted at 16:48:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought it only happened to me sometimes I freak the fuck out like “holy fuck we’re actually alive”
CottonSlayerDIY · 10 points · Posted at 20:25:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I get a minute of realized freedom and imagine that I could quite literally just drive off into what ever fucking country I'd like to drive to now (well, maybe not NOW, but ..) and then I just go back to living my stupid little worker life. Work hard and pray for pension.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 15:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This happens to me a lot
Poem_for_your_sprog · 389 points · Posted at 16:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"But why?" he enquired with a shake of his head -
"But why and oh why are we living?" he said.
"I want to know why and I want to know more -
So why are we present, and what is it for?
"And why," he began with a sigh of distress -
"And why and oh why is it thus, would you guess?
Perhaps you can tell me the why and the how -
The why of this life that we're living right now."
He sadly explained with the weariest sigh -
"The query, the question I'm asking is why?
I just want an answer," he spoke to her, slow.
She pondered a moment.
She said: "... I dunno."
redditalisong66 · 34 points · Posted at 17:34:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no reason for anything. It just is. Once you realise that, life becomes a lot simpler.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there could be, we just aren’t able to comprehend or perceive it. In terms of the best way to live life, yes it’s to your benefit to stop searching for a reason and just living life moment to moment. It’s really easy to get trapped in a quest for an answer you’ll never find. And it always leads back to on conclusion. “Why does it matter even if I somehow knew?”
AccuratelyRated · 12 points · Posted at 19:18:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time“ is a quote from a James Taylor song that I like.
I haven’t yet learned to embody the essence of the quote, but for some reason it’s a compelling argument to me when I’m often on the side of “none of this makes sense and it doesn’t mean anything so why are we doing it?”
redditalisong66 · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. We do it because we have to.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And because there may be nothing else. This could be EVERYTHING. Why not make the most of it? Ones experiences and outlook really determine whether they are engaged and living, or believe it’s all pointless and futile. It’s an interesting sight to see.
redditalisong66 · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we will find out at the end of this physical lifetime. I’m not religious at all, but I think we probably continue in some form. Then we might find out the meaning, but as you say, for now we’re limited in our ability to comprehend it. We might as well just enjoy the journey, for now, and not concern ourselves with meaning.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I’m of the belief that of course no one knows anything. If there is some all encompassing meaning or heaven or whatever, great. I’ll find that out. If not, am I going to waste my time contemplating the unknown? Follow your moral compass, do good, enjoy your life and try to make the space around you better. As you said, that’s all we can do. Meaning is what you attribute it as. One persons meaning is different from another’s. So you can concern yourself with meaning on a lower level, but it’s what you choose it to be.
redditalisong66 · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:28 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I completely agree with you. All the best to you. I hope you have a great life. :)
PolarWater · 8 points · Posted at 19:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are the coolest user on this site.
GooderichTalks · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great!
fizzyfloss · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is this from?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:47:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got really confused, wondering why I'd never read this Seuss book before.
NoodlesRomanoff · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In life, “Why” isn’t a valid question. In the English language, it’s easy to create questions that aren’t valid. Why is Thursday orange?
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
there’s a name for it but i can’t remember but it’s like how sometimes it seems like your just watching a video of your life right? if it, is it’s some kind of instinct. like when a deer freezes in headlights. it’s some sort of like fight flight or freeze. and you body makes it seem like that so you don’t really get hurt. like it happens to me a lot. and it can happen to people when they get yelled at or stuff too. it freaks me out some but that explanation helped me a lot
volga_boat_man · 13 points · Posted at 18:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The term I hear used sometimes is Jamais vu (the opposite of deja vu). Where Deja vu means something like "I've seen this before" Jamais vu means "I've never seen this before". Basically it's derealization where yourself and the world around ceases to make sense or have any sort of logic to the individual. Most people get the sensation at random but some psychologists say that extreme and persistent derealization is something that is regularly experienced by schizophrenics and people with bipolar disorder.
blablablabla7 · 3 points · Posted at 20:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get this feeling after waking up from naps, so I don't take naps anymore :(
chok0110 · 2 points · Posted at 01:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woow me too! Some times in the middle of the night and i get a panic atack because of this
eXain · 11 points · Posted at 18:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a condition me and a lot of traumatized/anxious people have. The freeze-response in fight/flight/freeze-response is one of them. Other words are dissociation, depersonalisation disorder or derealization disorder. The disorders only apply if this sense of "What the fuck is this even?" occurs pretty much all the time. And yes, it's crippling as fuck.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yea disassociation was the word i was trying to think of!
pauLo- · 1 points · Posted at 07:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's the term "sonder" which is a sudden moment of clarity that you become aware that everyone around you is living their own personal independent journey through life. Not quite the same but still a cool word.
Camdelans · 11 points · Posted at 18:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you’re walking without really thinking about where you’re going, and Th en realize you’re still walking. Makes you feel like you just came back into yourself
CottonSlayerDIY · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when I drive to work I just arrive in the parking lot and have no idea about what happened the last 30 minutes. I was on auto pilot. That happened quite often for me, if there were no special occasion to rip me out of auto-pilot-mode.
Super scary if I think about it, just mindlessly driving a bunch of metal at a good 100km/h.
OnlineOverlord15 · 2 points · Posted at 04:07:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re not mindless tho. It’s likely that your brain doesn’t find that time eventful, so it doesn’t commit it to memory. You’re still in control, it just that you forgot the memory really fast. Kinda stole this answer from up in the thread
CottonSlayerDIY · 1 points · Posted at 06:46:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh okay, thank you, that makes sense. It's less scary to think about it that way!
scwuffypuppy · 9 points · Posted at 16:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk about confusing for me, but that level of awareness is very overwhelming.
Krindus · 10 points · Posted at 18:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always wonder how much of me would have to be removed for me to not be me anymore. What even is existance?
HEMALAST · 10 points · Posted at 18:58:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For as long as I can remember I have had these moments every few months of just total bewilderment that people exist. Like we just walk around and exist. So freaky.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 16:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone else just be chilling then suddenly you're in space looking down at your body and realize how small you, your town, your country, planet and existence are?
CottonSlayerDIY · 11 points · Posted at 20:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love looking straight up into the night sky and into the beauty of the infinte. But after a few seconds I feel like nothing makes sense. We are so small and meaningless, what does my live change to make a differnce? Nothing. It doesn't make me sad, but looking to the stars always has me kinda .. odd? I still love it though. For the beauty and this feeling of disconnection.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 17:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do that all the time.
Looking at myself in the mirror and wondering how all this shit makes my mouth move, lips/mouth work.
Or when brushing my teeth, how my wrists and hands/fingers work with my brain to move.
OnlineOverlord15 · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that feeling too! Like, how the hell do I do anything. I just, do? I’m technically thinking of doing it and my body responds. But you can think of doing anything and it won’t happen because, what? You don’t put enough thought into it or something?
Tanomil · 6 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like most of my anxiety attacks, just out of nowhere. Did I just do that? Are thoughts real? Is that chair really there? I should not be doing what I'm doing right now. Is this the Matrix?
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Tanomil · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah, but treatment for anxiety isn't very advanced, experts still know fuck-all about it, so the treatment is just them giving you the available info about it, like "it's not dangerous", "Anxiety is a natural phenomenon, it's just that your 'alarm system' is acutely sensitive", and giving you these techniques that work for a few people like breathing exercises, going for a walk, powering through it to make yourself more used to it. They'll also offer you drugs that don't do shit but make you sloppy as a slug. The mind is such an intricate and complex thing that's nearly impossible to understand, so not much can be done. IIRC we know as much about schizophrenia now as we did in the 70's. I have yet to get any effective treatment for my anxiety, STPD, or depression. Sure, it helps to be informed, but there ain't no fixin' it. Tried a variety of prescribed drugs to no avail. Best thing is to just get used to being fucked in the head and stay informed. Powering through has helped me the most.
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Tanomil · 1 points · Posted at 06:35:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah CBT is probably your best bet at getting better. I received 4 months daily (3-6hrs per day) CBT by a team of psychiatrists and psychologists (one psychiatrist with over 30 years experience) while I was in rehab. That helped me greatly with personal stuff, and it's where I got most of my info on these things. The CBT i got at the psych ward when I got home kinda sucked though.
NoSpoopForYou · 7 points · Posted at 20:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I imagine if nothing ever existed at all and I find that even harder to wrap my head around. Like no matter, no energy, no space. Nothing. Why did anything have to exist at all? What if everything was just... nothing?
thatshowyoumademe · 5 points · Posted at 22:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, I get the same question - why did anything have to exist at all. Ugh, so glad to see someone had a very similar thought chain
Momasaur · 7 points · Posted at 20:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get this a lot in traffic. You're just sitting there and it's like... who are all these people? There's so many of them, and they're all just living their lives, like you are... it's all so... insignificant.
Then I have to make myself think of something different.
snakeoil-huckster · 14 points · Posted at 16:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One time my husband was spun on mushrooms and having his own little party. A few hours later he's screaming and I run to check on him. I find him laying on the couch looking at his hands and screaming I'M INVISIBLE.
He looked at his hands for so long his eyes went out of focus. So of course I play into it for a moment. I told him I could hear him but I couldn't see him.
That did not go over well. He was borderline crying so I had to ease up and let him know the he was visible and helped him get his trip back on track. We laugh about it now.
gulliblezombie · 4 points · Posted at 20:10:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lmao
chok0110 · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahaha that was really mean but funny! Once i was like your husband and a friend start saying that she wasnt real and that i made her up, that was so trippy that i had a panic atack and vomit a lot! I now laugh about it of course
babypunch69 · 6 points · Posted at 20:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this is an existential crisis and for me they were usually panic attacks so be careful. If it freaks you out to the point where you can’t do anything until it’s over, try talking to a therapist or getting other help
defintelynotyou · 5 points · Posted at 20:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why does anything exist at all and why couldn't the universe just choose not to happen?
aSadGirlsTongue · 4 points · Posted at 18:51:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that, very cool trance state. I‘m here. I so exist. Now. In this moment. Still... still... what if I move?
MintberryCruuuunch · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just had corona, and one of the symptoms was losing smell and taste. You dont realize the casual smells around you until its gone. It freaked me out and still i think about it. It was the weirdest thing not smelling anything. Best i can explain is everything just smelled like dust or stale air, and nothing else. It was so strange i resorted to just breathing from my mouth to try to rest or sleep. So strange to lose a sensation we neglect.
ShadowDragon175 · 5 points · Posted at 19:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This
Really, I start thinking of the meaning of life. Then I realize my existence has no meaning, it just happened because of sheer fucking luck.
rayned0wn · 6 points · Posted at 19:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude when I was a kid the idea of going to heaven OR hell was terrifying toe because the concept of existing for eternity made feel fucking terrified
mrgnarchr · 4 points · Posted at 20:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The awareness of the abstract nature of our existence is referred to as “The Absurd” by Albert Camus.
The absurdness of their own existence, Camus argues, that humans will inevitably think about it their minds are left to wonder and thinking about how we’re just flesh sacks with no inherent purpose, in a universe that’s so more massive than we are, really bums us out.
Most people cope with confronting the absurd by going back to distraction, to not think about it, but the other options are suicide(If you’re a nihilist, this is probably your recommendation) and absurdism, which is to find your own meaning or passion in life, and choose to be happy regardless of being insignificant on the scale of the universe.
Bojack Horseman explorers a bunch of Camus’ work and a lot of absurdist theory, it’s well with the watch if you’re interested in how others deal with these feelings.
demars123 · 2 points · Posted at 05:14:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for your comment. I'm in the distraction camp. Though I know it isn't the solution, I forcibly distract myself whenever I am struck with existential dread. Pondering my existence/inivitable-lack-there-of brings on a crushing, visceral fear. Though at times I've concluded that I no longer fear death, I have not unburdened myself from the occasional existential panic attack. There's a lovely Stanley Kubrick quote about restoring lifes élan that comes to mind. I'm not sure where I was headed with this, but regardless, I thank you for leading me down this line of thought.
MaNemTem · 4 points · Posted at 20:49:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HEY DOES ANYONE KNOW IF THERE IS A NAME FOR THIS? I DO IT TOO.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:06:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when you’re stressed out and you take a step back and you’re like you know this really doesn’t matter, this is just stuff I’m doing cause I have to and in a week it isn’t going to matter cause nothing matters at all
TheRainbowLily7 · 3 points · Posted at 19:13:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. Sometimes I stare in the mirror and I’m like "Im this person. why am I this person. I dont like this person"
prwright2 · 3 points · Posted at 19:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn I guess I’m not the only one who does this...as I get older I’ve done it a lot less often
buck9000 · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This happens to me all the time and I refer to it in my inner dialog of ‘snapping out of it’ not that that does any justice.
It’s a moment whereby suddenly, the idea that all these light particles are bouncing all over in different wavelengths and all these sonic waves are mixed in and I have different organs that perceive them in ways that send signals to the brain and that my whole field of vision and everything I hear and even this thoughts is just the product of little electric pulses shooting around in my skull somewhere - all of that strikes me as if I’m considering it for the first time. And I’m just sitting there in traffic.
akathescholar · 3 points · Posted at 19:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Why you? Why us for that matter? Why anything? Because this moment simply is. Have you ever seen bugs trapped in amber?"
"Yes." Billy, in fact, had a paperweight in his office which was a blob of polished amber with three ladybugs embedded in it.
"Well, here we are, Mr. Pilgrim, trapped in the amber of this moment. There is no why."
HughesOJ · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never related to something so much before
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be able to look at things differently if I really concentrated. It was like that camera effect where you move away from the subject at the same time as you zoom in. It made rooms look massive, it was pretty trippy.
EmbertheUnusual · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes
Reverse Dissociating
toxicNutella32 · 2 points · Posted at 03:34:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might want to Google depersonalization derealization
shaokim · 7 points · Posted at 13:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stop doing that then.
razzlesnazzlepasz · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a phenomenon known as depersonalization, and it’s an interesting subject tackled by philosophers
LargeMagician7 · 10 points · Posted at 17:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it's not depersonalization. It's very different. I've experienced that, too. Careful with armchair psychology on less than a paragraph
illegitimatemexican · 1 points · Posted at 14:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To become aware of my own sensuality, I first become aware of my own tactile sense. In dim light, I close my eyes and remove my clothes.
Toolkitty1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Existence you are right!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think about death every now again, as in just what it would be like to be dead. just not conscious and not in existence. it fuckin trips me out that one day you’re just not here
BrowniePasta · 1 points · Posted at 17:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to the world of Awakening
luhsya · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...and then you ask yourself...are these five senses all there is to make sense out of the universe?
ratscatsdogs · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this every day and it freaks me out lol
kmxler · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great now that's a thing I'm doing lol
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This 1000000%. Like take hearing. Ok, we can hear things. But what are we hearing? Sounds. But what are sounds? They can be loud, or quiet. But what is loud? Like how do you DESCRIBE loud? It’s impossible. But the majority of people on earth, myself included, know the difference between loud and quiet so well they don’t ever think about it. HOW? HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????? Crazy af.
Xdsboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edit: broken... arms?
jupiters_aurora · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking too hard on names triggers this for me for some reason. I am a blob of cells responding to certain vocalizations. Very weird.
MrTonyBoloney · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, I’ll go into recursive loops of mental self-awareness. So I’m thinking about something, then I’ll think about me thinking, then I’m thinking about me thinking about me thinking, then I’m thinking about me thinking about me thinking about...yeah.
My brain usually gives up after 4 or 5 loops
Thatniqqarylan · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's existentialism dawg. Congrats, you're enlightened lmao
ItsKnightTime101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid edit.
Waiiiiiiiiiiifu · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to do this as a kid at night, and had to wake my mom because I was crying and hyperventilating over the thought of death.
Tasty_DUMPLINGZ · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yesterday I felt the same way while playing Minecraft. That game really is surreal
rxzor_edge · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I look at my wall and then it just gets farther away, but it’s actually still there, and it just looks like its being stretched out, and my vision becomes wack
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's like being on acid for a minute
fitzellforce · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the novel Nausea by Sartre. His whole thing is about what he calls “the absurdity of the world”. It’s quite an edgy book but it’s about that moment when you hyper focus on something and that object in question just loses all meaning. What the hell is this thing I’ve seen a million times before but only now have really focused on?
Eddaughter · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It confuses, humbles, entertains, and angers me all the same time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes all my senses dumb down, I feel like I am dumbed down on my comprehension of everything. I sit there, smile at my dog, feel weird. I think I notice my increase in good feeling chemicals, but oddly, I am not actually more happy.
electric_bro · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
do you do meditation?
prototypenegri · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I relate so much wth
SpatiallyRendering · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I tend to get really immersed in things I read or watch, so that leads to moments when I'm not watching or doing anything, but I feel like I'm watching my own life, that the me doing the perceiving is totally different from the me making the choices and doing the movements and all that. And I'll talk to myself in those cases like "This is me? I'm doing this?" but not feel like I am. So that's something.
endy0 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sometimes happens when I shower, I imagine myself being a square in a 2 dimensional world, it’s odd
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I think about the fact that I’m basically a sack of meat and bones controlled by electrical impulses. That one really wigs me out and throws me into a tailspin.
catscheeseandwine · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for making me feel normal all of a sudden. I thought I was crazy for having these kind of thoughts at times.
redandbluenights · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to find myself sitting in my patrol car (I was a police officer) and thinking "is this really my life? Who gave me a badge and a gun and looked at ME and thought "Yeah, there's a person id count on if the shit was hitting the fan."
It wasnt that there's anything wrong with me .. It's just that it felt so SURREAL to have had a dream for so long and then to actually be LIVING it.
DarkangelUK · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I swear when I think about it I can feel my brain in my skull, like I'm really aware that it's there and it freaks me out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I just get confused at how other people have the same exact level of consciousness as me. Like I understand other people having thoughts but once I think about it it starts to seem weird for some reason.
WhyAreYouGe · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is just me 24/7. You just learn to cope with it
Boedker1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aye, everyone night when going to sleep I always become depressed, like why even bother with anything. Just lying there in bed thinking a third of my life has gone by. A third.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, I'm not the only one and based on the upvotes neither are we 🤔
onizuka11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get super weirded out at this, too. There are times I would get lost in thought about the continuity of humanity. Let's say one day, shit hit the earth or whatever, everybody dies and not a single person exist anymore. What is going to happen beyond that? Is the universe just fold up and be gone forever...like what the fuck is beyond the universe? Is it like an endless space? How did it get here at first? My brain is hurting thinking about this.
typfromdaco · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That feeling is very overwhelming. One minute your lying in bed and contemplating where life will take you. You recently broke both arms and legs and life feels completely hopeless and the sadness begins. Luckily, your mother is there to help you through the times in any way imaginable.
SpicyBeatMall · 19913 points · Posted at 14:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who take personal offence when your taste in music/movies/food/ whatever differs from theirs. I went to college with a guy who listened to exclusively classic rock. Great genre, totally get it. Except he would get legitimately angry when someone put on rap in the car or wanted to sing pop at karaoke. Refused to work with a friend of mine in a group project because she loved techno, said her opinions would never matter because obviously something was wrong with her. Why can't you just let people enjoy the shit they like?
hooplah · 6132 points · Posted at 19:37:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s a form of elitism that makes themselves feel better and more cultured or intelligent than the people around them. it’s dumb.
i mean look at the other comments on this post about people liking celebrities. it’s the same shit.
swore · 1870 points · Posted at 20:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An extremely elitist friend of mine in high school got me into metal. Told me what genres and subgenres were good. Being a young dude, in high school with limited friends I quickly picked up on being an elitist twat. Listening to my superior music at full volume, playing it out loud on the bus, etc. And then I listened to one of the genres he said not to. And I really liked it. I didn't say anything, but I listened to it more and more. Eventually I saw a reddit post and a guy was calling out an elitist metal head, and saying you like what you like. Music is great, it's so varied and so wonderful. It doesn't matter if you like some obscure black metal and One Direction (still relevant at the time) - all that matters is that you listen to what you enjoy.
And that got me to stop being an elitist asshole. I now have musical taste ranging from everything from old country, to rap, to hardstyle, to death metal. And it's great. There's so much out there, stop shitting on others for two seconds and find something new to enjoy.
thewhitecat55 · 63 points · Posted at 20:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's awesome. I used to be into metal , long time ago. Got out of the habit , listened to a ton of different stuff. I just recently started getting back into it , cause I had been hearing that there was a lot of interesting foreign shit around now. So I have been listening to Japanese and Scandinavian metal lol.
Mitchiro · 9 points · Posted at 21:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you recommend some Japanese metal? That sounds interesting!
chibbicharmer · 9 points · Posted at 22:50:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dir en Grey, Coldrain, crossfaith, X Japan, Bandmaid, Uroboros, Girugamesh, Shadows, Crystal Lake, Babymetal, NoGoD, D'espairs Ray, MUCC, The Gazette, SiM, Fact, Man with a Mission, Maximum the Hormone, Old Miyavi.
Some is metal, some is more rock, some are more punky/pop punk. But there is a decent enough list to get you started.
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thewhitecat55 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awesome , I'll check that myself , too.
thewhitecat55 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great list . It is hilarious that the "best of" suggestions are so similar. The video I linked below is almost the same list lol , like 80%.
thewhitecat55 · 6 points · Posted at 21:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm still just getting into it myself. I am certainly no expert. Right off the top of my head , Ningen Isu and Band-Maid were two I was listening to earlier today. Both on Spotify , they are very accessible to beginners.
Like I said , I am still very new to it myself. Here is a video a friend linked me to get started , see if I was interested.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wj70ZrLUQ0
Apparently , Japan also has a very experimental noise genre community. I know nothing about it , though.
StardustOasis · 7 points · Posted at 21:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Galneryus & X Japan.
_mark_st_ · 9 points · Posted at 21:44:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find Babymetal pretty great if you didn't know them yet
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 00:01:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not a fan of Babymetal’s music, but I absolutely love their entire schtick. It’s flipping the middle finger to pop, rock, metal elitists in the best way possible.
And there’s nothing more metal than telling the establishment to go fuck itself.
thewhitecat55 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Saw a video of them with Rob Halford and it was awesome.
Doctah_Whoopass · 3 points · Posted at 14:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Babymetal is a great experiment and really respect the hell out of them. However, I supremely detest their music in terms of personal enjoyment.
_mark_st_ · 1 points · Posted at 16:09:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All good mate it's not for everyone that's for sure
---Help--- · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
👈😎👈
OffTheMerchandise · 3 points · Posted at 22:00:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a band called Coldrain that's Japanese. I didn't know they were Japanese for the first year I was aware of them though, so I don't know if they really fall into the Japanese metal category.
IMKridegga · 3 points · Posted at 23:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a great primer for the 1980s scene on r/metal:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Metal/comments/6c36rj/japanese_traditional_heavy_metal_in_the_80s/
synthesis1213 · 3 points · Posted at 06:25:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sigh. One of the OG japanese black metal bands.
stickwithplanb · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
X Japan is really good.
DemonicEntity · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s this INSANE up and coming metalcore outfit from Japan called Crystal Lake. Highly recommend.
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:20:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
???? Theyve been around since 2002 lol.
DemonicEntity · 2 points · Posted at 14:22:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I meant up and coming in the States. No doubt they worked to get to where they are at today.
jadenthesatanist · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you’re down for grindcore, check out Unholy Grave. Japanese grindcore is fuckin wild.
MakeTheScreamsStop · 2 points · Posted at 04:23:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Reek of the Unzen Gas Fumes. They are like a black metal, grindcore kinda metal. Definitely a bit controversial given some of the lyrics but they are fucking bad ass
Drakneon · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Galneryus is a power metal band I’ve heard of. While I haven’t given them too much attention (yet), all I can say is they’re basically the Japanese version of dragonforce. here’s a sample
blarges · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you’re into power metal, check out Lovebites! Absolutely fantastic!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Bloodywood. Newish band that merges traditional Indian music with metal. Pretty damn good, IMHO. Acraussicada (this is seriously misspelled, google will fix it) is an Iraqi metal band that had to flee Iraq. They’re really more hard rock, but I love the different perspective they have.
thewhitecat55 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will check out the Iraqi band. I may check out Bloodywood .... TBH I very much dislike traditional Indian music , anything Bollywood , all of that. So that one is a maybe , haha.
Thanks for the suggestions.
thescarlet_pimpernel · 25 points · Posted at 20:42:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was it Rob Zombie?
https://www.asianjunkie.com/2016/05/10/rob-zombie-wasnt-taking-any-shit-from-his-fans-hating-on-babymetal/
SombreMordida · 5 points · Posted at 21:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this really made me smile a lot. a bunch of r/HumansBeingBros feels
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OobaDooba72 · 24 points · Posted at 21:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like the other guy said, part of it is because it tends to be more of an outsider group. It's not popular so people feel they have to defend it more strongly.
Also, it does tend towards complexity at times, especially certain genres. There are lots of more extreme sounds happening at once. Especially when you get into more progressive genres.
So this kind of lends itself to people thinking it's better because there's "more" of it, or more to it.
Compare a pop song with three chord melody and extremely simple beat to a metal song with complex time changes and complicated guitar techniques and intricate solos.
When I was young I would have said Metal is just better because it is more music, more complicated, harder to play, etc.
I grew out of that in high school. I still like metal, but I realized that more isn't always better, and that there can be incredible music that is simple. There's some great pop and rap music, two genres I used to hate.
But I still hate modern country.
GunPointer · -4 points · Posted at 22:32:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing is that nowadays a lot of talentless people started making pop/rap music (which as you said it is not complicated) and they just take the credit for it, while talented people are buried down in the industry. That led to a decrease in music quality over the last 10 years and people's music taste has also gotten lower and lower.
That didn't really happen in the metal scene, and that's why metal fans are so pasionate about their music.
PigeonNipples · 6 points · Posted at 23:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nowadays? That's how pop music has been for decades
OobaDooba72 · 5 points · Posted at 01:55:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's plenty of pop and rap that is complicated. The most popular stuff tends towards simplicity, but that isn't always the case.
And there are plenty of less complicated metal songs, bands, and genres as well.
I was merely commenting on the perception of the bulk.
JBSquared · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pop music has been in the best place it's been for a hot minute now. So many great players in the pop scene. Post Malone, Lizzo, Billie Eilish, Dua Lipa, etc.
GunPointer · 0 points · Posted at 09:32:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never heard a "complicated" pop/rap song. Rap is just a guy speaking very fast about money, bitches, drugs and life over a simple computer-made beat
Pop is just a guy singing over, again, computer-made beats, usually simple beats or simple guitar stuff, 2-3 chords on acoustic.
Now I stopped listening to these genres of music a long time ago so things may have changed. Open my eyes if they did :)))
The simplest metal is probably nu metal or thrash metal, though both require guitar riffs and solos, harsh vocals and fast drumming. And if you go into prog metal you're in the expert zone. 15 minute-long songs, tens of different riffs and solos, tens to hundred time signatures changes(yes, 100), hidden song lyrics and smart stories.
Again, I'm just laying the truth here. Listen to whatever you want.
OobaDooba72 · 2 points · Posted at 10:53:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you in high school? You sound like me and my friends in high school.
If you only want to listen to metal, fine, whatever. But bashing other genres that you admit you don't even listen to is a bit silly.
Your characterization of rap as "speaking very fast about money, bitches, drugs" really proves you've never really dug into the genre beyond the most basic of boring radio hits. I'm not saying every song is worth listening to, by the way. There is tons of garbage out there.
Here's a suggestion.
Kanye West's All of the Lights. If you're too impatient to sit through the intro, you can skip the first minute or so. This version also cuts out a verse, which is a shame because its really good.
But just know that the horns here were real horns. And because I'll not be able to explain the lyrical content as well as this, here's a quote from genius.com.
"The song is about Kanye’s qualms living as a celebrity with personal problems in the public eye. He conveys this through the image of lights and the story of a troubled family – domestic abuse, imprisonment, separation/divorce etc. The song serves as a literal story of troubles in the home, and also as a metaphor for Kanye’s struggles with fame and his relation to hip-hop."
This whole album, My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy, is just incredible. If you can put your pre-concieved notions about what hip-hop is or isn't and what Kanye is or isn't, I think you can have an enlightening experience, even if you come out the other end saying "It's not for me".
I meant to only give some quick suggestions but obviously got carried away, so here's really just a list of some good stuff you may or may not find interesting.
Gorillaz - Dare So many layers and intricacies in the instrumentation in this one. Gorillaz are something else, man. Dare is my favorite song of theirs, but Clint Eastwood, Feel Good Inc. are both excellent singles, and honestly just listen to Demon Days, that album is fucking great.
Carly Rae Jepson - Emotion The whole album is good, but here's a good place to start.
Dua Lipa - Break My Heart Siiiick bass line.
Sia - Chandelier Famously difficult to sing.
Billie Eilish - bury a friend Dark pop, thematically similar to some metal, no joke. I bet you rolled your eyes at reading her name, but just because she's young and popular doesn't mean that Billie Eilish's music isn't actually pretty fucking good.
Post Malone - Circle Not my favorite, but the music video could be for a metal song, lol.
Honestly this is definitely a pop list than rap or hip-hop. I'll let anyone else who cares suggest some other good hip-hop.
Oh here's an idea, check out Body Count, the rap thrash metal band by muthafuckin Ice-T. Here's their rendition of the famous Suicidal Tendencies song Institutionalized. Building bridges!
OobaDooba72 · 1 points · Posted at 08:52:52 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck, you know what. Forget that whole comment. You need to listen to motherfuckin' POPPY.
As her name might suggest, she was pretty Poppy, and then she got rid of her (low-key actually kind of a dick and maybe abusive) manager/producer and signed with Sumerian Records! Yes, the same Sumerian Records that has Periphery, Animals as Leaders, Between the Buried and Me, the former Dillinger Escape Plan, etc.
Here's some of the new stuff:
Concrete
I Disagree
Fill The Crown
And for some context and more pop flavor, here's some older stuff:
I'm Poppy
Computer Boy
I still dig this stuff too, but holy fuck her new direction is fucking great.
[deleted] · 30 points · Posted at 21:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From my experience as a metalhead, it's because metal gets so much hate. All the time, people say stuff like "deathmetal is just noise, how do you enjoy that!?" It makes people who are into metal internalize, seeking validation from people who also listen to the genre. Because of this, the metal community is pretty exclusive, because some people think that it shouldn't be open to everyone. For example, nu metal (slipknot, system of a down etc.) often gets a ton of hate from the metal community because it's often not regarded as being "real metal". When people say they listen to metal and act all hardcore but what they listen to is nu metal, some people who listen to "real metal" feel like the self-association with the genre isn't deserved and that it's appropriation. Personally, I do sometimes think "hah yeah, ok buddy" when someone is being particularly vocal about how hardcore they are for listening to Disturbed, but I'm not going to act all elitist about it, because they enjoy it and that's good for them. No, it's not as fast and loud as Archspire or Cannibal Corpse, but who am I to designate one set of vibrations moving through the air as superior to another? In the end, the elitism is really just a result of a kind of music-related xenophobia.
PiniataLad47 · 10 points · Posted at 21:35:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man the 'metal is just noise' thing annoys me. Although I do agree with some songs- you kinda need headphones to hear anything other than the drums.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, for anything fast and downtuned, especially stuff like deathcore, apple earbuds won't cut it
Jaruut · 4 points · Posted at 23:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh the "just noise" gets me, too. It's music just like everything else, the heaviness and distortion makes it more of an acquired taste. I didn't start out listening to Meshuggah and Anaal Nathrakh, I had to work my way up to that from Van Halen and AC/DC.
JBSquared · 2 points · Posted at 03:05:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I kinda get it. I'm not a metal guy. Whenever I listen to metal, I hear the thumping drums, crunchy guitars, and vocals that tend to sound like the singer is performing a blood ritual. That doesn't mean that's what it sounds like. I don't have the experience with the genre to understand all of the complexities.
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 03:37:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's extreme metal (death/black/sludge/grindcore)
JBSquared · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess the vocals differ a lot between subgenre, but generally most of the metal I've listened to sounds like that to me. But that's just because they're hallmarks of the genre. It's like 808s and hi hats in rap music.
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 03:53:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They do, even with those subgenres.
Black Metal has higher-pitched shrieks, Death Metal has deep gutturals (generally). Sludge Metal has mid-tempo shouts/growls. Even within black and death there are sonic traditions.
There are melodic variants of metal with only singing
goatinstein · 9 points · Posted at 22:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like a lot of the metal elitism comes from people posturing on the internet who care more for the image than the music.
I've been to probably over 100 concerts ranging in size from small local bar shows to big festivals like hellfest and wacken. Not once have I ever met someone who acts like they do over in /r/metal.
IMKridegga · 6 points · Posted at 23:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It always bugs me when people trash-talk r/metal. I know it's had its issues in the past, but these days the community is really positive and accepting for the most part. They're really passionate about the music, and they've introduced me to more great bands than I can count.
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[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:06:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree that there is a lot of that kind of hate going through the community, but a lot of bands don't stand by the messages in the songs. For other genres I might call BS on the same statement, but metal isn't supposed to be taken seriously (thank god). Now obviously this isn't the case for all bands, but a lot of them are genuinely amazing people. One thing I will call you out for though is the comment on the camo cargo shorts, they're obviously the superior article of clothing (/s)
JetMeestard · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People online tend to give a bad impression of the fanbase with the aforementioned elitism, but when going to shows and concerts I've found metal fans to be extremely welcoming and chill to hang out with, to the point where I've got acquaintances I tend to meet up with at local shows in my city, although that could be because people just go there for the sake of seeing the band playing and having a good time, which gives them something to fraternise and bond over.
OffendedPotato · 7 points · Posted at 23:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a scandinavian i wouldnt really say metal is ingrained in our culture. Pretty fringe stuff really, seems way more popular with foreigners
IMKridegga · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's because metal is a niche interest. People with niche interests are passionate about them, and in some cases that passion translates to snobbiness.
I like this thing that lots of other people don't, so I must be picking up on something other people aren't, so I must be better than other people. If I'm better than other people, I must have better taste than they do, so the things I like must be better than the things they like.
It's even worse in metal because so many people get into it as teenagers while they're still figuring themselves and the world out, so they're especially prone to picking up dumb ideas. Fortunately most of them outgrow it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Average metal head who told you they were a metal head”. FTFY. You probably know a lot more metal heads than you realize.
baz1688 · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reasons vary but for a lot it was a f##k the man! Kind of genre and, you saw yourself as an individual, not listening to mainstream music feeding the corporation. F##k you Simon Cowell!
That's how I was until I hit my 20's and fell in love with everything
radiorentals · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's less about the actual music and more about our need, as humans, to 'belong' to groups and how we signal to others in society what groups we belong to or identify with. In modern society, music is a very simple way of choosing what 'tribes' we belong to, what values we admire or hold in disdain, what messages we want to send to other people, and especially when we're teens - what messages we want to be seen to be sending those in authority - whether it's school, parents, law enforcement etc.
We might not even particularly enjoy the music but rather enjoy the sub-culture surrounding it - for example, dressing in non-conforming way that upsets people, or using whatever genre it is to get a rise out of people (I don't know why you listen to that garbage..etc etc)
The desire to find belonging is very strong, especially in our teen years, so it explains why many people are vociferous in their efforts to conform not to the mainstream but to whatever group they've aligned themselves with. It's confirmation of being a part of something in a different way.
It's so interesting to me as an ex-Sociology graduate about why and how some people stay connected to the music genre they identified with in their teen years in very obvious ways, why some people can keep enjoying the music but no longer dress in a way that identifies them with that, and some people do.
No judgment on either side. I could quack on about this for yonks, but hopefully someone who is much more knowledgeable about the academic sociologically interesting aspect of this can chime in?
butth0lez · 25 points · Posted at 20:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but there's a limit when you have to share car space with someone.
swore · 25 points · Posted at 21:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know what you mean, are you telling me you don't enjoy my atmospheric euphoric ambient raw Norwegian black metal? Maybe if I turn it up you'll feel the raw emotions they are trying to portray better.
Jaruut · 7 points · Posted at 23:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god, I didn't think I would find someone else who listens to Drudkh
swore · 4 points · Posted at 23:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This feels like an extremely small world moment, listened to Drudkh for the first time last week lol.
jwmetalhead · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black metal in general is really underrated. I know it turns a lot of people off but seriously just how atmospheric and dark it is is incredible.
Drudkh is amazing! Lately I’ve been switching between Leviathan and Judas Iscariot
swore · 2 points · Posted at 23:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It hits an absolutely specific niche for me. Saor, Panopticon, and Caladan Brood are my three go to. I just love their music.
IMKridegga · 4 points · Posted at 23:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate to tell you this, but Drudkh are from Ukraine.
kt_wampa · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's one of my favorite types of music! I pretty much just listen to it when I'm alone tho, when there's other people who would have to listen to it, I just tell them I'm willing listen to anything they want to put on
SucccBuccc · 13 points · Posted at 21:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, I don't want to listen to Lil Pump for 2 hours straight on a roadtrip
JBSquared · 2 points · Posted at 02:59:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes one of us
RoguePlanet1 · 10 points · Posted at 21:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's so silly to dismiss an entire genre of music. I don't like country, for example, but I'll listen to the occasional country song (or close to it) that I enjoy. Johnny Cash is supposedly country (doesn't sound like it) but I like his music. There's country classic rock that's amazing, stuff like that.
My FIL is an opera buff, but he got into the Bee Gees when they were popular. I like to remind him of this, because he's a very serious, often grumpy person, and the thought of him enjoying the Bee Gees is great. I think most of their songs are catchy and fun.
Tootsiesclaw · 2 points · Posted at 12:20:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Johnny Cash is pretty much archetypal country
delee76 · 9 points · Posted at 23:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband is elitist like your friend. Only new age, metal, or 90s grunge. Any other music was “stupid”. I liked some of his music but also country and stuff on the radio. He eventually got so bad about it that I just stopped listening to music altogether. When we got together it was after I’d healed from an abusive marriage. My husband isn’t abusive but him degrading my music was like an attack on me personally and since I was still healing and vulnerable I just could do it.
Tylermcd93 · 3 points · Posted at 05:50:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry to hear this. Have you mentioned this to him? You said he doesn’t abuse you, but tbh this sounds very close to emotional abuse.
delee76 · 3 points · Posted at 12:58:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have talked about it. He’s more of an ass than abusive! He’s not bad about it now like he was.
bellissima34 · 7 points · Posted at 21:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I’ve gotten so much shit for liking music like one direction and pop in general but it’s like it’s supposed to be catchy? And pop makes me feel good? Like the Beatles were considered pop back in their day. They only call it pop music because it stands for popular music. Idk music is music and it’s supposed to cater to a wide variety. Just listen to what makes you feel good or what makes you feel.
Also since I’m quarantine, can anyone recommend some good bands/music? I think I’ve listened to my Spotify list so many times. I want to branch out and listen to different types of music.
pinkcheetahchrome · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get into all the different types of EDM. Than start listening to a band called PUP. Then from there, listen to Anal Cunt, Choking Victim, round it out with some Peaches.
bellissima34 · 0 points · Posted at 01:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never given EDM much a try. But I’m really excited to! Thank you!!
hermysmurf · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love similar music to you. I like Bachelor Girl, Steps, ABBA, Cliff Richard, Richard Marx, Celine Dion, Westlife, Agnetha Faltskog (solo singer, was blonde in ABBA), Shania Twain, 80s and 90s pop, The Bangles, Bananarama, and Jann Arden.
bellissima34 · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You guys. I’m so excited to listen to all of this. And please recommend more 80s bands. I love 80s music. But I was born in 1990. So I only know the most popular ones.
Edit: and 90s bands too!!! I love me some grunge music. But I also like the pop stuff. But throw it at me!
Eightinchnails · 2 points · Posted at 11:08:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try The Cardigans! They had a big hit in the mid 90s, Lovefool, and just all around are good.
bellissima34 · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:17 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you I will!
Tristan_Gabranth · 7 points · Posted at 22:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like an ex friend of mine in high school, who used to make a stink about a lot of stuff other people liked. He'd yell at cars that drove by, if they were a certain brand, because he hated them and therefore the driver, too. If it wasn't for the fact that I wasn't very social and he was the first to get me talking and meeting people, I'd likely have thought far worse of him, had I met him under better circumstances
Orthas · 8 points · Posted at 22:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I give teenagers a pass for the most part. Most kids don't have a strong enough sense of self, so they latch onto the things they like and try to form an identity around that. I think most of us did this to some degree or another. I know I was a metal loving mac hater (back when the ipod was leagues ahead of any other mp3 player). I look back and cringe a bit, but that's part of growing up.
I have less sympathy for adults who never grew out of it.
wookies_go_raawghh · 7 points · Posted at 21:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuine question, what is hardstyle?
Dum_Cumpster · 11 points · Posted at 21:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not OP, but I was gonna make a comment applauding his namedropping Hardstyle so I will explain it for you.
Hardstyle is a genre of Electronic music, the BPM is normally 155 but I would argue Hardstyle can go to 170. It centers around a loud and fast kick drum and very high energy euphoric melodies produced by synthesizers.
Some notable artists in the genre are: Ran-D, Headhunterz, Technoboy, Frontliner, DJ Luna, NoiseControllers, Da Tweekaz.
This Hardstyle remix of the Cranberries song Zombie is one of my favorites.
wookies_go_raawghh · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you
pinkcheetahchrome · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goodness, I only managed to see Luna live one time, but it was fabulous, and unforgettable.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For those confused, the hardstyle part starts at 2:02
I love that skyrim one post-intro
swore · 6 points · Posted at 21:26:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an Electronic genre, a mix of techno and hardcore I think. I'm on mobile so having trouble linking, but if you go on YouTube and search "Headhunterz" you should be able to get a taste for it. My mother likes to call it noise rather than music lol
kindanotrich · 7 points · Posted at 21:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should show her some actual noise bands lol
Orthas · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some drone metal ought to get the job done
Captain_d00m · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Merzbow on repeat.
wookies_go_raawghh · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh ok thanks
JessicaWakefield · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is a form of techno that has a reverse baseline (so it has a kick on the end of it). Usually around 150BPM
It is one of my favourite music genres. Some people love it, others feel like you are being attacked by noise.
There is some really hard stuff like Angerfist
But I love the more euphoric stuff which is a little more like Happy Hardcore, which is my EDM true love.
radiorentals · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As an old person in Reddit Years the Angerfist track sounds very like the Pump Panel Reconstruction Mix of New Order's Confusion. I can't imagine hearing that track and not feeling the need to close my eyes and dance....(in fact I just did it now after I posted it! Ha!).
New Order are pretty bloody great - not just for their original tracks but that they lend themselves to some fucking great remixes.
pinkcheetahchrome · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have two happy hardcore and one hardstyle related tattoo. There is still a subculture underground here that loves that type of music.
PiniataLad47 · 6 points · Posted at 21:34:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People shit on power metal but I enjoy it, so sod them, you know what I mean?
Being elitist doesn't pay. I know a guy that'll only watch anime, and he misses out just as much as the guy I know who categorically only watches Live-Action.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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IMKridegga · 3 points · Posted at 23:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every metal subgenre is divisive if you look hard enough. Some people don't enjoy the cleaner singing styles, prominent melodies, or understated riffs that are hallmarks of certain types of power metal.
Not to mention a lot of people learn about power metal through Dragonforce, which can be kind of an acquired taste, even among power metal fans. It turns people off to the subgenre. Some people respond to that by deciding it's objectively bad and "shitting on" it.
Re Sabaton in particular, there's a whole can of worms there...
PiniataLad47 · 1 points · Posted at 11:01:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is Sabaton a can of worms?
Skavau · 3 points · Posted at 12:38:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's basically the anthem for people who barely listen to metal, but are nerdy (and start cheesy lyric chains on reddit). Sabaton are very competent at doing what they do, but to most metal fans, they're old hat and it gets tiresome having some Sabaton fan keet over them.
It's like, there's much more to metal. They're essentially the MCU of power metal.
IMKridegga · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their music subverts the esoteric qualities that make most heavy/power bands compelling to most fans of the genre. It's telling that Sabaton is generally more popular with people who don't listen to very much metal than people who listen to a lot of it. This isn't a bad thing in and of itself, but it can get a bit annoying when the most popular representatives of your favorite music genre don't really reflect your favorite aspects of it.
They also tend to recycle a lot of riffs and melodies. A lot of metal bands are guilty of that to some extent, but Sabaton seems especially prone to it.
From another angle, there's a meme that says listening to Sabaton helps students study for their exams. It's kind of obnoxious because, while the band is obviously very passionate about the historical military figures, battles, and campaigns they write about, their music offers a very limited perspective.
Additionally, there's a critique of their music that says they go too far glorifying militaries and warfare. While they do acknowledge the death and destruction, they could be accused of downplaying it on many occasions to emphasize the valor and nobility of fighting. While there are many metal bands that this type of critique could be leveled at, Sabaton is unique because they present their material as educational to some extent.
Lastly, their fans can get really irritating. A lot of people seem totally oblivious to the stuff I talked about in the previous paragraphs. What's more, from the endless lyric chains to the constant celebration and promotion, it sometimes feels like you can never get away from Sabaton. I suppose that's cool if you like them, but it's kind of exhausting if you don't. I don't want to come off as a hater but, although their music isn't bad, as a big fan of heavy/power, there are other bands I like a lot more.
Obviously there's nothing wrong with liking Sabaton, they're as popular as they are for a reason. They just come with a bit of baggage.
PiniataLad47 · 2 points · Posted at 12:25:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the informative perspective, and as a fan I agree with a lot of your points. You'd get downvoted if you said they glorified military conflicts, but they definetely do to an extent.
PiniataLad47 · 1 points · Posted at 11:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I listen to Sabaton practically daily, but I think a lot of people don't like the choruses you find on other power metal stuff. Sabaton especially with songs like "Wehrmacht" can inch into heavier metal territory.
murdered_trailboss · 7 points · Posted at 22:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes you beautiful is a banger, I’m not even gonna lie
swore · 3 points · Posted at 23:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't lie either, this is my favorite song from them. Absolute banger.
pointedshard · 3 points · Posted at 23:21:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost exactly what I told my teenage son. What you like is what you like. What someone else likes is what they like. What you like may be technically more proficient and creative than generic pop, but it doesn’t mean that generic pop doesn’t have value.
Having said that, I miss the days of being in the office and cursing the commercial FM station that played Dance Monkey a dozen times a day.
Will-Wil25 · 3 points · Posted at 23:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve got a friend who shits on me for listening to slipknot... because it’s too mainstream. So many metal heads think this way.
getsumchocha · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
early hardstyle is the only hardstyle. jk. i love it all. wasn't expecting to hear about that genre in your post! cheers
blippityblap1 · 2 points · Posted at 01:41:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, i have no problem with people telling me that they dont enjoy the music i like, but when they say the music i like is bad, thats ehen i have a problem with them.
Tylermcd93 · 2 points · Posted at 05:47:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is tangentially similar, just a different medium, but I see this in books as well. For example the love and craze for the Twilight series and 50 Shades series. At first when I heard about them I was like “fuck no. That sounds and looks stupid”. Then I actually read them. And I actually very much enjoyed them. But I still saw/see so much hate toward those things and the people who like it. It’s so frustrating and I vowed never to be like that again. Attitude plays a big part when it comes to differences in interests. It’s okay to not be into something. It’s not okay to be disparaging and shitty about not being into something, you know?
Lady_Marisa · 3 points · Posted at 21:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually don't understand genres to begin with. I mean, I can tell the different between country and metal for example but some rock versus hard rock, or some of the diff types of metal, those I can't wrap my head around.
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, those are more like sub genres. So genres are like you said, country and metal. But then under country there’s folk and bluegrass, both styles of country music but still different from each other. For metal, there’s hair metal from the 80’s, then there’s screamo. Both metal but very different. There’s obviously much more sub genres than that but you get the idea I hope.
Lady_Marisa · 1 points · Posted at 12:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't make them any less confusing to tell apart though! Genres, sub genres etc. Very few of them it's obvious what the difference is but there's some songs a station will label hard rock I thought were metal and vice versa. Every time I think I have it figured out, I'll see it's the opposite of what I thought. There might be many categories of genres but that doesn't make it any easier for me to use it as an indentifier. "What type of music do you like?" A lot is all I say anymore lol.
IMKridegga · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:49 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as metal goes, it's because nobody can agree on what constitutes what. The underground community has their consensus (and rallies around Encyclopaedia Metallum for the most part) but people are constantly disputing it and/or trying to make up their own rules. Metallum isn't perfect, but if you're looking for a definitive "right answer" to what style a metal band plays, they're the best place to look most of the time.
Lady_Marisa · 1 points · Posted at 12:58:11 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's great, I'm going to bookmark that. Do you happen to know if there are similar encyclopedias for Rock etc? (I haven't clicked that link yet to check, been too busy at work but I'm curious and appreciative of the information!) Thanks for the info!
IMKridegga · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:16 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately I don't think there are, although Rate Your Music may have something less precise. I've found that most genres have a population of hardcore fans who keep track of all this stuff, and if you can figure out who they are and where they congregate, that would be your best bet. Genre-specific subreddis might be a good place to start. I can vouch for r/metal at least.
Yaden2 · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’ve found that fans of metal can be some of the most elitist, toxic people there are, and as a fellow metal head that really bums me out :/
Spitfyr59 · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started listening to nu metal back in 2011 when it was absolutely unacceptable to like it and internet metal elitism was in full swing. 13 year old me didn't really fit in with any of the metal crowd because of it. I did eventually grow into a proper metalhead but my experiences from back then still affect how I feel about certain metal communities, especially online. It isn't nearly as bad now as it was then though. Look in the comments of any Blabbermouth article from the late 00s or early 10s and you'll see what I mean.
DemonicEntity · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Used to be me on high school, too. Discovered Morbid Angel and Suffocation and I absolutely REFUSED to listen to ANY music with “clean” vocals. I missed out on so much incredible music. Thankfully that mentality has shattered. I’m in the same boat now - Rap to pop to pornogrind and everything in between.
Hail Satan.
jwmetalhead · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a very similar story to yourself. Was huge into metal, became a dick about it, now I listen to pretty much everything. Nice meeting you kindred spirit! (I do love obscure black metal though)
All genres have something to offer. I may dislike some artists, but there’s no entire genre that I hate.
Life is short people, don’t waste it listening to only one genre. :)
swore · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
100% this. Life is too short not to give other music a shot.
Dum_Cumpster · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hooray for Hardstyle.
Atwenfor · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which genres did he recommend and which did he tell to keep away from?
swore · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He recommended a bunch like death, melodeath, and black. Told me to stay away from genres like metalcore , deathcore, etc because it's for posers and pussies. Turns out I really like metalcore and deathcore lol
Narthleke · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever try Mongolian Folk metal?
chibbicharmer · 3 points · Posted at 22:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Hu?
Narthleke · 3 points · Posted at 23:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, but also Nine Treasures, Tengger Cavalry, Suld, and the folk rock group Hanggai.
I was set to see the Hu for the second time later this month before everything got cancelled/postponed.
chibbicharmer · 2 points · Posted at 23:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah my husband went to see them earlier this year, he adores them. I shall pass on these other bands as recommendations. 😁
swore · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fuck with some Tengger Cavalry. RIP Nature G. I hear he played a part in the DOOM Eternal OST so looking forward to listening to it.
synthesis1213 · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah i purposely avoid deafheaven a few years ago because that was when i was KVLT and TRVE. Its so stupid. Listening to one genre doesnt negate the enjoyment of the other.
cypher1169 · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music is what emotions sound like. That’s my motto. As someone who just loves a good song rather it be country, rock, rap, opera if it causes a vibrational shift within me or evokes a strong emotional feeling I will listen.
rricenator · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a metal head from way back. But, good music is good music, no matter where it comes from. I listen to all genres at least a little. Bluegrass was my first step outside metal, and its fantastic.
jadenthesatanist · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music is one of those things that differentiates us as a species from the rest, along with language itself. The only thing that actually pisses me off is people who respond with “oh, I don’t really listen to music” when asked about their favorite artist/song/whatever. Like, how the fuck do you live with yourself not listening to music? Are you an android?
Tylermcd93 · 2 points · Posted at 05:57:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a streamer I used to watch who said that. But then during a game they play, they said how much the enjoyed the music during it. So maybe some people just don’t go out of their way to listen to music maybe? I don’t really get it either tbh but it’s just a guess?
hermysmurf · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only listen to music when I'm happy and usually in love. When I'm single and lonely, I listen to talkback radio or news.
5th_Law_of_Roboticks · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does it bother you so much that some people don't listen to music? It doesn't affect your life at all. Just let people enjoy what they like and not enjoy what they don't like.
worstbarinphilly97 · 29 points · Posted at 20:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s so stupid. Sounds like the kinds of opinions I had when I was like 15, except instead these people are grown ass adults.
Tylermcd93 · 2 points · Posted at 05:58:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of it I think is just being rebellious for the sake of rebellion against whatever is popular.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:47:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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hardcorr · 9 points · Posted at 20:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sorry, are you suggesting that most rock isn't about women, sex, and drugs?
there's a world of rap that touches on a lot more than just those topics
daningyt · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but do you express that as judgement towards people who do like rap? Or is it just an innocent “not my deal” situation?
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 20:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be like this but at the same time I secretly enjoyed other genres and felt embarrassed but one day I was like fuck it I’ll embrace it instead.
Eine_Pampelmuse · 12 points · Posted at 20:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Back in my teens/early 20s I was like this too. Thought that everyone who likes a celebrity and follows them online/was interested in news about them was stupid or didn't had any deeper interests.
I'm so happy I grew out of it.
Today I (30+) still like my niche hobbies/art/games/bands... AND follow some celebrities online and watch their movies or listen to currently trending music.
I just don't give a f**** anymore how famous or artsy fartsy something is. If I like it - I will enjoy it.
mallad · 5 points · Posted at 22:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say it's usually more to do with insecurity. Person A is passionate about it, and if person B doesn't like it, they feel like maybe B will like them less. Or maybe A thinks B is better than them (insecurity speaking) and if B doesn't like the same thing, it means A is somehow less than them. Those people also tend to take compliments and criticisms both very poorly.
And then sometimes it really is just elitism.
whiskeydumpster · 7 points · Posted at 21:15:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like the Kardashians and country music who wants to belittle me?
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me. They're certainly entertaining. I probably wouldn't sit there and watch them on my own, but if my gf really loved them I'd be happy she was happy
CouncilmanRickPrime · 9 points · Posted at 21:13:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate those posts. I hate the Kardashians as much as the next Redditor, but what does looking down on their fans accomplish?
I see it in gaming subs too whenever Fortnite gets mentioned.
FlyingMonkeysDontFly · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't stand Fortnite. It's absolute trash to me. But "One man's trash is another man's treasure." It's not my place to treat people terribly just because they like things I don't. As long as their likes aren't literally harming other human life unwillingly, then what the fuck type of worthwhile reasons would I have to start attacking them over their likes?
dirtyslipper · 5 points · Posted at 20:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely elitism, but to make some of you feel better, I think at a younger age, it’s also initially a way of finding and shaping your identity. It’s probably why this behavior is so common among teenagers. Of course, part of growing up is to go beyond that by then learning to accept others, but unfortunately, many do not make it that far.
jtl3000 · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I know what channel u watch , the guy is just prickish and u want to owe the behavior in some exclusive hating group
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
?? I’m not sure what the context is.
SalbaheJim · 4 points · Posted at 21:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's also a form of sociopathy where their comforts and taste is all that matters and anything that differs is wrong. His appears to just be focused on music.
hermysmurf · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was what was wrong with my last gf. In fact it was so bad I've been put off relationships since. I'm 50 and I'm not getting any younger but I just want to find someone who is as easy going as me when it comes to individual interests.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This girl I dated got a little triggered once just for repeating an innocent joke I heard about Michelle Obama. I like MO too but I can’t joke about her either?
Tylermcd93 · 3 points · Posted at 06:01:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was it a racial or gender joke? If so that isn’t particularly innocent. If it was anything else tho I see no issue.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:18:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither actually.
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on the joke.
ahundredplus · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s also a form of authoritarianism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I overcame this with one comment about, sure rock music is awesome but how much money has xyz (some successful non-hardcore rock artist) made from their music. How much have you made in your band?
dm_me_alt_girls · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Classic rock elitists are strange.
New wave is clearly the best genre.
4percent4 · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally only like rock, heavy metal, classical, and broadway musicals.
I used to work at a front desk and I could play music as long as there was no profanity. I got some looks when after a few weeks I switched from having heavy metal in the background to having the Broadway Disney music.
I think I like a few songs of every genre but I mostly hate all the others especially country.
You like what you like.
mr_poopie_butt-hole · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suspect there’s a lot of underlying insecurity there too.
BabysitterSteve · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not the same shit. I feel like when it comes to celebrities, most people don't understand why someone would be so obsessed over them, me included.
It just comes from how I feel, but I really don't get the huge followings. For a long time I used to feel down when looking at celebrities. They have fame, money, recognition. It came to the point where I felt that anything I do doesn't matter, because there's a celebrity out there who can give shit about lots of stuff and still do great. Meanwhile I can work my ass off and stay in one freaking spot for a long time, with no advancement.
Anyway, I started changing my view on this, saying to myself that I can't do anything about it except loving my life for what it is and people that I have in it. I unfollowed A LOT of celebrities from my social media, if not every single one and I finally feel better. I rarely follow the news on them.
Anyway back to the point. It boggles my mind why some people would be so obsessed over them. Over a single thing they do, like what coffee they buy? What they ate for lunch? Who they are dating? And again, this just comes from my own problems. People can like what they like.
But I understand better someone who's a fan of a celebrity because of their ideals and good deeds, not what kind of drink they ordered at brunch or what their NET worth is. It just seems like glorifying to me.
JoshuaSlowpoke777 · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:06 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tsk. Man, insecurities suck!
zachwolf · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, there’s certain aspects of music that make me physically nauseous. For example, short repetitive beats really irritate something deep in my brain. I would get upset when someone put on rap because I associate that feeling with the genre. Realizing I was upset because how it made me feel physically helped me separate the reaction with the experience
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate that song Another Brick In The Wall for similar reasons. When I was married, my ex would play it deliberately to upset me. It just triggers me. I'm still not good with it these days, but if I met someone who really loved it, I'd work it out.
SeldonsPlan · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. People like different kinds of TV shows. But I’ll admit I’ve been judgmental and put people down before for watching Teen Mom. Am I a TV elitist?
pinkcheetahchrome · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the mod of the r/TeenMomOGandTeenMom2 sub. Come at me, bro!
J/k Kimora. Just thought it was funny.
CeeJayDK · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm thinking it could be a lack of Theory of Mind
Some people have issues understanding that others experience the world differently than they do and so when they see others liking something they don't (or vice-versa) they think they must be broken in some way.
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's probably the basis of phobias too like homophobia and transphobia
Miloszer · 0 points · Posted at 22:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or people liking trump 🙃
AnimeCrab · 2706 points · Posted at 19:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Dude on reddit told me to seek mental help for liking Venom(the movie)
Another stupid example of this is a dude on twitter said he wanted to punch a kid for saying that he liked rise of skywalker
sodamnsleepy · 559 points · Posted at 20:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Some on the internet told me my I've probably lost my taste because I prefer "freeway" (cheap coke) over "schwippschwapp" (expensiver cheap coke)
EDIT: I'm talking about soda, soft drinks. The coke orange mix or "spezi" how it's called here to be precise.
I_dont_bone_goats · 974 points · Posted at 20:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American, I thought you were talking about cocaine.
NorthernerWuwu · 95 points · Posted at 20:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Freeway" would be a pretty good brand for inexpensive cocaine!
404_UserNotFound · 19 points · Posted at 21:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What you up tonight?
Just playin' on the freeway, man
lostmyaccountagain85 · 19 points · Posted at 21:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And in america freeway would be the good shit and shwippschwapp would be the cut up stuff we give to rubes.
lostmyaccountagain85 · 9 points · Posted at 21:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is freeway rick ross.
vercertorix · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slogan: “Freeway” will get you on the high-way.
SlapTheBap · 2 points · Posted at 02:34:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now there's an oxymoron
Koneke · 36 points · Posted at 20:56:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, man, you got some of that yayo? That good, fresh powpow? The fuckennnn'uuuuh schwippschwapp?
FatherOfApollo1 · 11 points · Posted at 21:01:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Found Brad Leone on reddit
afrosk8r · 11 points · Posted at 21:07:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinchenzo, get the wourder
sodamnsleepy · 28 points · Posted at 20:27:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahah sorry bro, nope. Soft drink, coca cola knock off
KingXMoons · 14 points · Posted at 20:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My man schwippschwapp tastes like absolute shit your taste definitely is normal
sodamnsleepy · 7 points · Posted at 20:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
Lucky_Event · 4 points · Posted at 21:07:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't SchwippSchwapp 50/50 coke and orange soda?
champ590 · 6 points · Posted at 21:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No thats Spezi or MezzoMix depending where you're from.
Lucky_Event · 3 points · Posted at 21:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's right, thank you.
-Karali- · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, you're both right. They are all a mix of coke and orange soda
Nethlem · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, SchwippSchwapp is the PepsiCo version of that, Mezzo Mix the Coca-Cola version, it's also colloquially called "Spezi" after the original by a German brewery.
RhynoD · -4 points · Posted at 20:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna take a wild guess that you live somewhere in the American south.
AVestedInterest · 5 points · Posted at 22:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think Schwip Schwap is German.
RhynoD · 21 points · Posted at 20:50:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American southerner, seemed perfectly clear to me. 'Round here, it's all coke. Pepsi? Coke but worse. Sprite? Clear coke. Dr. Pepper? Other flavor of coke. Shasta? Cheap coke.
jamesp420 · 11 points · Posted at 21:12:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go to a local restaurant in the south and ask for a Coke. "And what kind of coke would you like, honey?"
spaghettoinitlads · 6 points · Posted at 22:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would just say ”That white one”
pinkcheetahchrome · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
MsCMoody · 7 points · Posted at 21:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Visited Georgia as a child. My northeast family and I were surprised to learn that all soda was Coke.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 14 points · Posted at 21:15:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American, they're not? I seriously pictured some coke head elitist trashing his 'inferior' coke habit.
someguynamedjohn13 · 10 points · Posted at 20:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm still not convinced they aren't
shadmere · 12 points · Posted at 21:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I was like, "Holy shit, drug slang has really gotten weird."
BeardlessDoll · 4 points · Posted at 21:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm glad I'm not the only one. I was imagining a pretty interesting internet conversation that led to that judgment being cast.
Billdoe6969 · 6 points · Posted at 20:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ik right?! I’m like, wait, there’s cheap coke??
Nethlem · 3 points · Posted at 00:53:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't the cheap coke called crack?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:00:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Nethlem · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if your coke needs impurities cooked off, was it actually pure coke to begin with?
Afaik a lot of the "cheap coke" is only cheap because it's been laced to be quite impure, that would probably explain why crack can be more expensive than some coke, somebody wants to make a profit from the time invested cooking it.
Cocaine on PsychonautWiki
makemeking706 · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Darryl teaching Michael drug slang.
Jabroni-Tony1 · 4 points · Posted at 20:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bust out a couple rails I’ma blast off!
i-am-adrift · 4 points · Posted at 21:08:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait...he’s not?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had to look at replies to your comment to see what he is talking about.
Bcmcdonald · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is he not?
Gongaloon · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm still not sure they're not.
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't American Southernors call all soda coke?
I_dont_bone_goats · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve heard that’s a thing in certain areas, but I honestly think calling all soda “coke” is pretty dated and you’ll only hear older people saying that.
I’m a young southerner and everyone I know just calls it by it’s brand name. Coke is coke, sprite is sprite, etc.
Darthskull · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calling fizzy sugary non-alcoholic drinks "coke" is a southern usa thing.
I_dont_bone_goats · 2 points · Posted at 00:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm a floridian, I'm aware.
Even with that knowledge, it still definitely sounded like he was talking about coke.
noscopy · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So he wasn't talking about cocaine?
b4xt3r · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad I'm not the only one.
Mita82142 · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too...
riqk · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read it both times as cheap choke until I read your comment.
MrWhocares123456 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As did I
SweetDaddyGee · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a European, I thought the same thing.
Platypushat · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! And I’m a Canadian.
Laranjao · 6 points · Posted at 21:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Freeway? Here in Portugal that's the coke from Lidl and that shit is better than coca-cola zero.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:21:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here in the Netherlands. Actually drinking freeway coke zero atm.
Andromeda74 · 6 points · Posted at 20:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Freeway beste diggah
sodamnsleepy · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YAY \o/
CrypticSocket · 6 points · Posted at 21:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like this dude! Firstly, because he used "expensiver” And then because he talks about coke and his name has "soda". (I know it's "so damn". Ctfo)
ApolloNaught · 5 points · Posted at 20:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved schwippschwapp when I went to Germany. They don't sell anything like it in the UK
DudeOnMath · 5 points · Posted at 21:20:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just take some Coca Cola and some Fanta and mix them. You get Schwippschwapp, Spezi or MexoMix, depending on how you want to call it.
ApolloNaught · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it hard to get the ratio right! Don't think I haven't tried
sodamnsleepy · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! My friend and I try it so often but either it taste like cola or fanta. Next time we'll measure it and make it science like!
Eine_Pampelmuse · 4 points · Posted at 20:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fritz Kola ist sowieso das Beste!
Aber Scherz beiseite, ziemlich dämlich sowas. Es ist nur eine verdammte Cola.
sodamnsleepy · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genau, jeder hat einen anderen Geschmack. Aber mache Leute regen sich halt über jeden scheiss auf ¯_(ツ)_/¯
mrrainandthunder · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schwippschwapp is mixed Coke and Fanta, a different product entirely.
sodamnsleepy · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right. I was talking about the "spezi", coke orange mix but wasn't sure if people are familiar with it.
mrrainandthunder · 2 points · Posted at 10:53:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, well, still a vastly different product. People on the internet really are stupid, huh?
sodamnsleepy · 1 points · Posted at 14:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The dude who was arguing with me was from the same country so he totally knew what a spezi is. But demanded that my tounge must be broken because I like a different brand than he does ¯_(ツ)_/¯
indigo-wolf · 3 points · Posted at 23:05:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love spezi. We don't have it in my country, so it's always a treat when I visit germany or austria. My favourite brand of orange coke is Mezzo mix though. I didn't know freeway does orange coke? I though they only make normal one. Anyways, as normal cokes go, freeay over coca cola anytime :D
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:00:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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sodamnsleepy · 1 points · Posted at 09:41:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This taste also good!
ThereInTheTrees · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never heard blow called either of those.
I might do too much drugs.
You're not talking about cocaine
nikomo · 2 points · Posted at 21:43:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hell yeah get me that Freeway LIDL stuff.
Hell, it's the premium brand at LIDL now, at least over here, the cost went up over the years and they rolled out a new cheap option called Siti.
sodamnsleepy · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is Siti Shitty? I've never seen this
Gavman45 · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love freeway cola, only thing I drink in big bottles.
spaghettoinitlads · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Freeway raspberry is my favourite soda (not counting clipper but thats too hard to get), I don’t care it’s a cheap Lidl brand it’s just too good for some reason.
ODSTsRule · 2 points · Posted at 23:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant stand normal coca cola but like Fritz-Kola and occasionally Vita-Cola. Tastes differ simple stuff.
May i ask, are you in a german speaking nation? Because i never heard about Schwippschwapp being anywhere but german speaking nations.
sodamnsleepy · 2 points · Posted at 23:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hm I think I've never tried fritzkola.
Sure,I live in Germany. I also just found out that they sell freeway in Portugal!
Verily_Amazing · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I thought Schwippschwapp was just one of the German brands.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:04:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yikes, imagine being elitist about what discount coke is better from aldi and Lidl....
_kastenfrosch_ · 1 points · Posted at 14:24:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fellow Freeway Drinker here Bro, the stares & Like nowhere can u order it
AlPaCherno · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bääh Freeway Alter, widerlich!
cup-o-farts · 0 points · Posted at 20:57:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are these real drinks? Or are you using fake names to avoid the copyright police or something.
Sharcbait · 5 points · Posted at 21:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are real German sodas. Schwip Schwap is like if you mixed pepsi and orange soda together. Freeway is a cheaper brand that has a few different flavors. Think in America what Shasta is compared to Cocacola.
cup-o-farts · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah ok, haha sorry I hope I didn't sound rude the names are just funny.
Sirwootalot · 0 points · Posted at 21:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not only did I think you were talking about kinds of cocaine; but kinds of cocaine you'd buy off a guy at Berghain or Griessmuhle.
MediumPlace · 23 points · Posted at 20:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter what movies you like, you should always seek mental health
AnimeCrab · 6 points · Posted at 20:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao, edited the comment
Tylermcd93 · 2 points · Posted at 06:04:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a way, this is actually a wholesome comment.
Train_r · 23 points · Posted at 20:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to reddit, the great big cesspool of the internet. Where everyone is a doctor and you're always wrong.
SlaaneshiRanger · 3 points · Posted at 20:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd give you gold if I wasn't broke
CryoClone · 11 points · Posted at 22:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once made a post about how shitting on people who like super popular stuff is idiotic because obviously other people like it. People shouldn't let others dictate what they do and don't like as it makes them look like an insecure asshole. Life is too short to like some shit you don't like for someone else.
And as if I had written the post as bait on the end of a pole, some guy went through my entire comment and post history and dismissed my entire point because I post to /r/Harry Potter, /r/starwars, and /r/marvel. Like, because I like movies that millions of people have seen,y point about shitting on people's preferences is moot.
He didn't get the irony. He sent me a spread sheet of the places i visit and the things I like. He had a lot of hate in his heart. It was kind of amazing that me saying, "hey, maybe don't be a dick?" energized such a feeling of hate in this guy he spent hours of his life trying to disprove the idea that being nice is nice.
AnimeCrab · 5 points · Posted at 22:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol what a shithead. He really must have a lot of time
CryoClone · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was quite sad.
ElaborateCantaloupe · 22 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At first I was like... that’s a great band! But yeah... see a shrink, man. That’s messed up.
/s on the last part
[deleted] · 61 points · Posted at 19:59:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AgnosticMantis · 53 points · Posted at 20:04:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venom and Eddie were great together. I unashamedly love that film.
Somesuds · 21 points · Posted at 20:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I definitely enjoyed it too.
AcousticHigh · 17 points · Posted at 20:28:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I enjoy Tom Hardy’s performance and am looking forward to more.
It’s a fun movie to not take seriously with a few beers.
But that motorbike scene its so stupid. Who THE FUCK buys an army of expensive drones just to turn them into suicide bombers instead of equipping them with projectile weapons.. come on.
readergrl56 · 10 points · Posted at 20:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tom Hardy's complete and utter commitment to that role was really what sold the movie for me. That was the complete opposite of phoning it in, and he carried that entire movie on his shoulders.
Also, I like that they didn't make the ex's new bf a complete tool. Plus, he actually had plot relevance.
AgnosticMantis · 8 points · Posted at 21:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like that Hardy looked like total shit for most of that movie, as in he looked really ragged and unkempt and covered in sweat. It made complete sense storywise and I think a lot of movies would have tried to make the lead look “cleaner” even if it wouldn’t make much sense.
readergrl56 · 4 points · Posted at 21:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, definitely. He looked unhinged and acted unhinged. A+ performance in my book.
swansonian · 5 points · Posted at 20:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tom Hardy was pretty good except for his voice. He sounded brain damaged. Also there were like 2 or 3 scenes where Eddie just describes what’s happening in the scene that made me roll my eyes. “Now you have one of those up your ass.” Yes, Eddie. We saw it too.
cantunderstandlol · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The chemistry between them was amazing!
Fledbeast578 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it didn’t feel fake or unhealthy, it was a proper nice bromance
vVurve · 42 points · Posted at 20:05:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need mental help /s
GenJRipper · 14 points · Posted at 20:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn’t care for it but damn if I won’t die for your right to like it!
SKYNET-GDN · 23 points · Posted at 20:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For real, every time I talk about a movie I just saw, someone always criticizes it trying to make me feel like an idiot because I chose to watch it.
Fuck you, I was entertained. Thats the whole reason I go to the movies. I just don’t get some people.
Ralph-Hinkley · 13 points · Posted at 20:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heh, you should look into the Star Wars franchise. No one hates Star Wars like Star Wars fans.
SKYNET-GDN · 15 points · Posted at 20:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve enjoyed every single Star Wars movie. I really don’t understand the hate. Maybe some people are just really into it?
Ralph-Hinkley · 9 points · Posted at 20:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some claim that it's destroyed their childhood. I grew up with Star Wars being born in '76, a year before the first one came out, and I love each one of them for what they are. I get fired up for every SW movie.
SnatchAddict · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same but the last one felt, empty? I don't know how to describe it better. But you know what, I don't hate it. I just felt it was the weakest of the trilogy.
I'm so excited for non Skywalker films.
Ralph-Hinkley · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will admit the last wasn't that strong, but it was a fitting end to the saga.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a huge Star Wars fan. Here’s something I noticed. There’s 2 groups of Star Wars fans. One group loved the Yuuzhan Vong, loved Abeloth, loved The Ones, loved the retcon of the Mandalorians and Fetts, love the prequels, hated the sequels, particularly hate The Last Jedi worse than the other 2. The other group is more or less the exact opposite. Every other part of Star Wars both groups love.
Here’s another fun fact. The “fans” claim they’re mad that the sequels ignored the EU entirely and made their own story and they’re mad they brought Palpatine back. Except the sequels are essentially the Dark Empire storyline straight from the EU with Kylo taking Luke’s place in the story. Like, Palpatine surviving through essence transfer and clones is literally what happened in Dark Empire. These “fans” are criticizing the EU directly.
At this point, the lack of self awareness of sequel haters is so pathetic is laughable. The sequels were enjoyable. I don’t what people were expecting, but Star Wars isn’t known for its deep characterization and thought provoking storyline. It’s known for heavy special effects and space wizards.
HardlightCereal · 2 points · Posted at 04:43:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jedi aren't space wizards, they're space samurai. When you start digging into the subtleties of the Jedi's actions in the films there's some really amazing stuff. Like there's the old legend of the Ronin, the samurai without a master, coming to kill the Shogun, the master of all samurai. And he holds the Shogun at swordpoint, and what does the Shogun do? He spits in the Ronin's face, and the Ronin walks away. Because even though the Ronin has no honour, he's a samurai, and a samurai never kills while angry.
There are these great semi-philosophical mind game moments all through the Star Wars movie, hidden beneath the surface. Take the final confrontation between Obi Wan and Anakin. Neither of them says it, but both know the other is thinking back to the way Obi Wan killed Maul. Obi Wan knows Anakin is going to try the same trick, and he knows it won't work twice. Obi Wan knows the countermove to that gambit, and it's a move he doesn't want to have to use against Anakin. He begs Anakin not to do it, but Anakin's drunk on the Dark Side, he thinks he's invincible. And so he tries it, and Obi Wan is forced to use the killing countermove.
SnatchAddict · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space wizards and light sabers!
SKYNET-GDN · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and Daisy Ridley 👀😏
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Aw man sorry to hear that. You paid money to get disappointed. That must suck. This is why I watch the previews so that I don't end up wasting money like that."
Malkev · 5 points · Posted at 20:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venom or the monster one?
sexistairconditionin · 7 points · Posted at 20:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved both films
Wireless_Panda · 35 points · Posted at 20:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate the Star Wars sequels are the greatest example of this. They don’t just hate the sequels, they hate ANYONE who has the AUDACITY to say that the sequels are okay. I had someone tell me once that because I liked the sequels that I then supported Disney raping everyone’s childhood. Some people legit say that kinda shit.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate the Star Wars sequels tbh, BUT YOU LIKE WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT, YOU WIRELESS PANDA, YOU!
They don't do much for me, but I'm honestly glad people enjoy them, because at least then it isn't a waste of money and resources.
Tylermcd93 · 3 points · Posted at 06:09:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that reminds me of a post from the upliftingnews subreddit about the writer of Back to the Future saying there will never be a Back to the Future remake. I asked why this was considered uplifting news, maybe some people were actually interested in seeing a remake of that? They responded with basically the same as your person responded, about raping another classic film. It’s like these people think they’re the ones who OWN the movies and made them, etc. it’s idiotic.
lamalalamal · 3 points · Posted at 07:19:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really hate the new Star Wars movies for reasons I feel I could easily defend, but I don't hate anyone else.
Wireless_Panda · 2 points · Posted at 07:50:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah which is the way people should act.
NumbersInBoxes · -17 points · Posted at 20:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nononono, that's some both sides bullshit.
RoS is a bad movie, full stop. Without getting into the crusade of how This Beat is Political Pandering or what That Scene Means for the Franchise, it's a straight-up bad film, all on its own. The theme of the movie is practically "these characters lives are as fictional as their deaths and nothing matters." No amount of acting, effects, or fight choreography can cover writing that bad.
sharkaddysbastard · 12 points · Posted at 21:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t believe you lack the self-awareness to realize you just went on an elitist rant in a thread about how elitist rants are bad. How do you even draw breath without getting confused?
NumbersInBoxes · -4 points · Posted at 22:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Giving a shit.
It's pretty easy to tell Bad Things and Good Things apart when you give a shit.
sharkaddysbastard · 11 points · Posted at 22:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are exactly the same as a music elitist. Insufferable to anyone who isn’t a fellow snob.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But some things ARE bad though right? Some movies are badly written. Some pictures are badly taken. Some drawings are badly drawn. Movie quality, unlike music, is much easier to judge clearly.
I don't listen to metal coz it just isn't my thing, but I can't call it bad. He last season of Game of Thrones, on the other hand, WAS badly written and executed but I still love Game of Thrones and it IS my thing.
Being an elitist is hating something because it isn't the same as hat you like. I think the other guy was saying that the movie was bad, whether you like it or not.
For example, I love he prequels by MY GOD are they bad movies. There is no doubt in my mind that if they weren't star wars movies, they'd have been forgotten when they came out
NumbersInBoxes · -2 points · Posted at 22:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's it! You are OFFICIALLY DIS-INVITED from my next tea party!
Klepto121 · 6 points · Posted at 02:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao... some people have zero self awareness
NumbersInBoxes · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing the whole "Oh no, they're dead!... j/k lol they're okay" thing twice in one movie is not great, but six times? Indefensible!
Klepto121 · 4 points · Posted at 04:14:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but I could spend 100 hours shitting on a movie you think is great with PowerPoint presentations and factual evidence.... doesn't mean shit if you think it's a good movie. Know why?
No matter how much it makes your toes curl, all. movies. are. subjective.
sam____handwich · 14 points · Posted at 20:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro what are you saying? That’s the exact attitude this thread is dunking on. Keep that shit to yourself.
NumbersInBoxes · -8 points · Posted at 20:58:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm saying:
1) There is objective merit in art.
2) Not all opinions are equally valid.
3) Denying the first puts your opinions in the second's 'invalid' bin.
-OrangeLightning4 · 19 points · Posted at 21:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine being the exact type of person everyone in this thread is bitching about, and still showing up to say some stupid ass shit.
You're O B J E C T I V E L Y a dumbass.
NumbersInBoxes · -4 points · Posted at 22:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ITT: Bunch of fucks bitching about how they hate it when people have opinions about things they don't have opinions about themselves, and how much better they feel about themselves for not caring.
sam____handwich · 9 points · Posted at 00:14:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ITT: you, completely missing the point and thinking yourself to be smarter for it. Thanks for the genuine entertainment, it's hard to come by these days.
sam____handwich · 5 points · Posted at 00:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astounding lack of awareness on display here.
Consequence6 · 9 points · Posted at 21:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1) I disagree completely. Art is subjective. You can talk about the technical success of a movie, and how well it does things that we consider to be important qualities for a film, but that doesn't change the idea that art is subjective.
2) Based on what?
3) Hah what? Sure, I'm fine with that. Your opinions are invalid to me too, so we're pretty even.
Tylermcd93 · 0 points · Posted at 06:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the second one, I think he’s incorrect when it comes to entertainment. Other things though, that one stands true, like with science.
Consequence6 · 5 points · Posted at 06:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't stand true with science though. Opinions =/= facts. Facts aren't all equally valid. Opinions about those facts, who are we to say that they aren't, though?
Tylermcd93 · 0 points · Posted at 07:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is not meant as an attack, but do you believe then that flat-earth or anti-vaccination opinions are then valid?
Consequence6 · 2 points · Posted at 08:02:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those aren't opinions, they're just incorrect facts.
Tylermcd93 · 4 points · Posted at 06:11:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, there is literally no objectivity in art.
Yes, they are when it comes to entertainment.
No, it does not.
NumbersInBoxes · 0 points · Posted at 12:53:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine a person who would seriously argue that Samurai Cop is better than Lethal Weapon from an honestly held and genuinely discovered point-of-view.
If a family member came to you and said they had an opportunity to bankroll a film from the person above, would you urge them to contribute?
orrocos · 4 points · Posted at 21:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, there can be objective merit in art. Some people may find art where you don’t, or appreciate the art in a way you aren’t appreciating it. Neither of you are wrong, just different, and people can of course have opposed but equally valid opinions.
NumbersInBoxes · -1 points · Posted at 22:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can be equal but not all of them are. Opposing views literally cannot both be true.
e.g. "Jackson Pollock was just throwing paint and called it art" versus, "Jackson Pollock was an innovative genius."
orrocos · 6 points · Posted at 22:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Opposing facts can’t both be true, but opposing opinions can.
"Jackson Pollock was just throwing paint and called it art" is a fact. That’s generally what he was doing, more or less.
“Jackson Pollock was a genius” and “Jackson Pollock was terrible” or both equally valid opinions. Some really like his art and appreciate what he was doing. Some think it’s not worth the canvas it was painted on. Those are both okay things to think and neither viewpoint is “wrong”.
Edit: Maybe “genius” can be measured and can be more of a fact than opinion. And enough people like his work so that it has real monetary value so “not worth the canvas” is more turn of phrase than a statement of fact.
NumbersInBoxes · -1 points · Posted at 23:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reductive. Pollock still had to determine which colors to use, in what compositions, and what marks were intentional and which were random. Challenged people's notions of art and intent while still being part of the dialogue. Successful enough to become common knowledge (or well-known trivia, at least) . All true whether or not you or I like it.
I don't like Elton John. I would not say or even agree that he isn't good beyond mere talent.
Wireless_Panda · 6 points · Posted at 20:43:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re right it is some both sides bullshit. Both sides have an opinion and it doesn’t matter. People just take it way too seriously.
NumbersInBoxes · -4 points · Posted at 20:52:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be clear: Your opinion is both sides bullshit. Just because you don't care it doesn't follow that everyone else's arguments are equal(ly worthless). It actually means that your opinion is worthless.
Wireless_Panda · 11 points · Posted at 21:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My opinion that both sides shouldn’t tear down the other just because of an opinion they hold is worthless? Ok
NumbersInBoxes · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your opinion is worthless, if: You're saying the A>B camp is wrong, and the B>A camp is also wrong. That implies either A=B or A≠B. But if A=B there wouldn't be disagreement, but A≠B is meaningless, because everyone agrees there is inequality, thus argument. So the 'both sides are wrong' position is closer to 'I don't know/care enough to tell the difference between A and B.'
So when you take the "neutral" position, on ANY topic, is it really neutral, or just lazy conceit? Maybe you should stick with "I don't know or care" instead of "both sides are wrong," or, best of all, just keep your worthless non-opinion opinion to yourself.
i_Praseru · 3 points · Posted at 21:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy that I work with REFUSES to watch anything that gets less that an 85 on rotten tomato because he says anything below that is not worth watching and a waste of time.
Tylermcd93 · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know a few people like this irl and vicariously online (streamers and such). I truly do not understand their line of think and how they’ll allow themselves to be dictated on what they watch from some arbitrary website/collective group of critics (strangers really) opinions. Like, take risks people! Watch a movie you think you may like! Same with TV shows and any other type of entertainment. You’ll discover you’ll like things that professional critics don’t because in the end, the idea of critics is a complete joke.
I_dont_bone_goats · 15 points · Posted at 20:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
actual quote on reddit I saw today. Thankfully the dude was downvoted into oblivion.
xxUNDEAD_BLAZExx · 4 points · Posted at 20:34:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Always love me a good downvote to oblivion story
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s almost always deserved.
BahBahKapooyah · 4 points · Posted at 20:11:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same thing's happened to me with the band
lincolnwasblack · 4 points · Posted at 20:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really liked dat movie.... there is no accounting for taste.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its okay bro. I liked venom too.
AnimeCrab · 4 points · Posted at 20:47:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently a lot of the people in the comments do as well!
lastnamequeenkeo · 4 points · Posted at 21:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved the way Venom said “hungry” lol my husband is the cook and around mealtimes I sound like venom.
AnimeCrab · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
APOLOGIZE is my favorite line lol
Fledbeast578 · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just watched that movie today and that exchange honestly made me laugh out loud.
HedaLexa4Ever · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once I commented I liked the suicide squad. I almost got eaten alive, people need to chill out
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also did not mind Suicide Squad. I thought Margot Robbie (I think that’s how you spell her name?) did a great job as Harley Quinn and loved Birds of Prey.
EFCFrost · 7 points · Posted at 20:51:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I enjoyed both of those. I mean they weren't triumphs of cinema by any stretch but they were FUN movies.
As long as a movie us fun I could give two shits about plot holes or whatever else people get worked up about.
throwaway0001997 · 5 points · Posted at 01:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And it’s not like Star Wars movies in the past were devoid of inconsistencies or so-called “plot holes”. People have been allowing hand waves and retcons in Star Wars for years, people aren’t letting up on the sequels simply because they’re new.
sponsoredmilk · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf dude it was my fav movie
Andreas_Bruticus · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venom was a pretty good fuckin movie too wtf
Street-Chain · 3 points · Posted at 20:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What did the doctor say? I also liked Venom.
NorthernerWuwu · 3 points · Posted at 20:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, you really shouldn't listen to anything Reddit says. It's a very silly place.
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In fairness, it’s not just Reddit.
Freddielexus85 · 7 points · Posted at 20:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to quote Dr. Brian Cox on topics such as this.
"The problem with today’s world is that everyone believes they have the right to express their opinion AND have others listen to it.
The correct statement of individual rights is that everyone has the right to an opinion, but crucially, that opinion can be roundly ignored and even made fun of, particularly if it is demonstrably nonsense!"
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a shitty quote tbh, at least when it comes to entertainment. If it’s science or history even, then that quote is correct.
IAmTheMilk · 3 points · Posted at 20:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh that movie about bane struggling with his venom addiction? Great movie
gae42 · 5 points · Posted at 20:38:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i hate to tell you chief, but there is an entire subreddit for people who want to punch those who like RoS. r/PrequelMemes
AnimeCrab · 3 points · Posted at 20:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I know a lot of people would. But as I am also subbed there I’m just a fan of the movies.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:09:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The irony of prequel fans learning nothing from their time as the punching bag will never cease to amaze.
YeetDaMeatToDaBeat · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what exactly is wrong with venom anyways? I didn't think of it as a bad movie
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:49:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but he's not genuinely serious though.
AnimeCrab · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I know but it’s still stupid to say so because of an opinion
KiraElijah · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had someone tell me to seek mental help for liking an old Toby Keith song
CouncilmanRickPrime · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I liked Venom as well. It's weird, I don't even consider it a good movie, I just found it really enjoyable.
TacoT1000 · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venom was good, I haven't seen rise of Skywalker, soon
bloated_canadian · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sitting back as I enjoyed both of those movies.
lameuniqueusername · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went to see it in the theater knowing nothing about it, I was craving popcorn and some alone time. Really enjoyed it. Not a masterpiece but it was everything I needed at the time. I was really surprised to see all the hate it was getting whenever I saw it mentioned, mostly on Reddit. I read comics back in the day and felt it was a pretty good representation of the story. I guess I need mental health as well.
Random_Wrong_Facts · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude i liked Venom
Miss_Death · 2 points · Posted at 23:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also like venom, and get shit for it every time I say so. Fuck em.
SourCheese01 · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved venom😂😂 the movie and eminems song
AnimeCrab · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see you are new. So some really stupid people say “emoji BAD” and you might get downvoted for using emojis.
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:19:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dudes. We guys have a lot to answer for. It's definitely not all men that carry on like this (indeed, my last partner was a woman and she would rave about how shallow someone was if they liked pop). But a lot of guys can be immature and carry on about stupid shit like this
AnimeCrab · 2 points · Posted at 01:23:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What. When did someone ever mention that only women act like this. The people that I mentioned were both dudes...
hermysmurf · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one did. I said mainly men act like this
hermysmurf · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im a guy btw
shf500 · 2 points · Posted at 02:19:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I stay away from movies discussion boards like /r/truefilm because they seem to like to slam the movies that I like (of course, this may mean I should watch smarter movies).
TexasNotTaxes · 2 points · Posted at 02:49:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought Venom was fucking great and it was funny as shit too.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:06:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, a lot of these comments are probably just jokes. Especially online.
AnimeCrab · 2 points · Posted at 04:09:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skywalker dude was definitely not joking. If people sent death threats to the actors because of the movie it wouldn’t be impossible if he was serious. I know the venom dude was making a joke but it’s still not great to say shit like that because of an opinion
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you, it’s just that I think people can get an inflated idea of how many people literally think this way.
BananaBossFX · 7 points · Posted at 20:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a really big Venom fan, andI thought that movie was great
I really wanna punch that guy in the face right now
I was excited for 2 years about that movie, and I still would say that October 18, 2018 is the best day of my life. (I haven’t had any children or major graduations yet)
AnimeCrab · 4 points · Posted at 20:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, can’t wait for the second one with carnage
BananaBossFX · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I’ve got some friends who like Carnage more than Venom, so we’re all pumped for this movie. I really hope it’s as good as the first one!
xexyz · 2 points · Posted at 05:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't care for comic books. I like comic book/superhero movies even less.
I put Venom on for background noise one day and I ended up watching the entire thing in one sitting. I've seen it at least twice since. What an awesome premise, and really fun movie.
I just saw there's a sequel coming and I'm legit excited for it.
Were you a Venom fan because of the comics, or what got you into it?
BananaBossFX · 1 points · Posted at 14:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard that there a Venom movie was coming out in October 2018 back in the summer of 2017. I thought that it might be cool to learn things about Venom because he looked cool, and I didn’t know much about him. That summer, I watched 100’s of YouTube video on him, and I even checked out some comics from the local library. I even watched videos on the Venom movie before and after the movie came out.
I was so excited for the movie. They say that someone’s excitement slowly fades throughout the course of the movie, but I was slowly getting more excited as the movie went on.
By the end of the movie, I went out to the lobby of the theater to find COMPLEMENTARY POSTERS! (We payed for one of those XD theaters or something like that) I went home, ate, sat outside, and saw a shooting star. My wish will hopefully come true on October 18, 2020. It really was a great day. The only thing I regret is missing the post-credit scenes, but I watched those later.
That’s pretty much how I got into Venom.
SEIVIP · 7 points · Posted at 20:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tbf tho that’s a terrible movie
AgnosticMantis · 9 points · Posted at 21:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s totally subjective though and if someone unironically says someone is wrong for liking something totally subjective, they are just arrogant and/or an idiot.
swansonian · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m glad someone else agrees. I was rolling my eyes halfway through. Cool CGI, weak story.
FlashFast125 · 3 points · Posted at 20:12:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Venom is a great movie!
KingBubzVI · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought rise of sky walker, and the entire new trilogy was bad, too. But I wouldn’t punch a kid for liking it, that’s ridiculous. I’d probably only lightly kick them
gozzle_101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve definitely seen more controversial statements
justinbieberismymans · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I liked venom and I already seek mental help. So maybe he has a point... /s
HORNY_MIDGET_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First venom was very nice movie Seccond meant to that person are you mentally challenged? Are you retarted? Do you suffer from a mental illness?
Bobsyourunkle · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If Venom and Spiderman 3 had a baby, it would be a hell of a movie.
kathi182 · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had the same thing happen to me when I commented once about Daredevil- yes, the Ben Affleck one. It was a personal attack bordering on threatening. I really cannot understand how my likes/ dislikes can upset someone SO much. I’m all about just trying to be happy and hoping everyone else is as well.
niv13 · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, venom is not that good, but Tom hardy killed that role. Fck whatever anyone else said.
MartianTea · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope he skywalked on that hater.
ClintTheBruinsFan · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking loved Rise of Skywalker. I liked episode 8 too. I'm a passive Star Wars fan rather than a guy super into it.
I've gone to their subreddit. 90% of it is just them bashing it. I don't get it.
SimilarTumbleweed · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a tiny bit buzzed when I watched Venom but it was a good time.
IzzyBee89 · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I liked both movies, but apparently I should be keeping that to myself...
I don't really understand this culture of hatred we have going on -- like it's cooler to hate things than to enjoy them, and anyone who dares to enjoy something is an idiot. Maybe I had that attitude when I was 13, but I outgrew that; it boggles my mind that so many adults are still like this. You know what's cool? Liking what you like and not caring what other people think.
I don't understand why everything has to be deep and long-winded to be worthwhile entertainment either. A lot of us are pretty smart people and we spend all day thinking critically, which can get exhausting. Life can also be really rough. Sometimes I just want to turn my brain off for a couple of hours and watch Tom Hardy hang out with an alien and do a weird accent (seriously, what was with his voice in that movie?) or bounce around to pop music. Other times, I'm reading science books for fun or listening to classical music. I'm a lot happier having so many things I can look forward to and enjoy than focusing on what I don't.
People who have a wide range of interests are more complex and interesting to me, too; no one wants to listen to someone whine about a sci-fi movie they hated for 5 hours.
deokkent · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
People hating on black panther.
JoshuaSlowpoke777 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:47 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s definitely weird. Also, punching a child for an innocuous opinion like that is just plain mean.
derdowaggy · 21 points · Posted at 20:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve had a somewhat similar experience. I’m crazy super into movies, going to film school, want to pursue a career in the industry.
When I tell people about my favorite movies I always hear stuff like “alright, you’re gonna hate me, so I’m sorry, but I haven’t seen that one.” Like what on earth?!?! They’ve been conditioned to expect backlash for not having seen some weird arthouse movie. It makes me so mad that people will berate another person for not having experienced something. Like, wouldn’t it be better to share that with them? Why not enjoy the fact that you can introduce somebody to something they might enjoy? Or you know, just move on?
AgnosticMantis · 14 points · Posted at 20:03:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m with you on that. My personal experience with this is people not believing that I don’t like any alcoholic drink. People just can’t accept it for some bizarre reason. People who get pissed at other people liking well-done steaks is another peeve of mine. I don’t even like steak done that way myself but people who get pissy about other people having it that way infuriate me.
Some people just don’t understand (or are to arrogant to accept) the concept of subjectivity it seems.
Pyrojam321moo · 3 points · Posted at 01:25:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey! I finally found another one! I also don't drink because I hate the taste of alcohol. I get people recommending me drinks all the time ("Trust me, this one won't even taste a bit like alcohol!"), and a few times, even buying them for me to try. I drink so as to not be rude, but it still tastes like cough medicine. 0/10, I'll stick to my non-Robitussin flavored drinks.
mercmouth1 · 11 points · Posted at 20:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Had a housemate that literally hated anything I listened to. I also remember one time on his car radio he was playing the cover of Gone Away by FFDP and I was like "ayyyye this is a good cover" and he was like "this isn't a cover" and I was like "The offspring wrote this song in '94". After that he stopped listening to the cover.
Ni_Gaz · 33 points · Posted at 19:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had something like this, i also listened to all types of rock bands and felt like i was special because you don’t see it that often now and thought i had better musical taste, and everyone who listened to really popular artists or music on the radio had really bad taste but i learned and realized that is a retarded look on things
ibeleavineuw · 11 points · Posted at 20:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an anime fan I know this feeling very much. Everyone is at everyones throat for all tropes, genres and content in general all the time.
Even the fans that just have fun with shit.
AMVs are stupid, Shipping is stupid, Ecchi is stupid, Shounen is stupid etc etc.
A majority always need to say "This trope needs to die" "This character shoudlnt exist" "these fans ruin the medium"
Its disgusting.
A majority of people just can not tolerate and understand things that are not their own.
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who enjoys harem animes, I know this feeling very well unfortunately.
WalrusMan32 · 10 points · Posted at 20:15:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be like that when I was in 7th grade, but I grew out of it pretty quickly. Can't imagine going to college and being that petty.
Doctor_Oceanblue · 5 points · Posted at 20:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate country music annoy me a thousand times more than country music itself. They have to tell EVERYONE and be SO demonstrative whenever a country song comes on the radio. It especially annoys me since me and my acquaintances live in the South. Like, yeah you're allowed to dislike a ubiquitous aspect of the local culture, but constantly complaining about it gets old. It's like going to Korea and getting angry every time you hear KPop.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love Bo Burnham, but he gave Reddit way too much ammo when he made that song lol.
JuliaH7997 · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love country music, but Bo Burnham's song was kinda accurate for the "Bro Country" genre. Can't stand that side of country music.
jake_the_dog11 · 18 points · Posted at 19:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yes!
Roomed with a kid at camp that only listened to the Beatles or Billy Joel. Like, why? There are just so many great artists out there, some whose names even start with B if you want to keep the pattern!
Edit: To elaborate, the kid wasn’t accepting of other genres or artists. Our other roommate was talking about how he liked Lil Wayne, and roommate A practically shunned him for the rest of the night. Not cool
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kept myself from enjoying Wayne for the longest time, 13 year old me was such a snob about music.
mt379 · 12 points · Posted at 20:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what your saying. I hate country music but it's not gonna change how I view someone or treat them. They just can't play it in my car if I'm driving.
ItWorkedLastTime · 5 points · Posted at 01:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Country is such a wide genre though. I guarantee that you can find something there you like. What kind of music do you typically listen to?
mt379 · 2 points · Posted at 01:52:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally everything else. From Opera like Pavarotti to trance such as Markus Schulz. 70s, 80s, sometimes older.. Recently saw Celine Dion too.
internetboi64 · 5 points · Posted at 20:21:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems to always be people who like classic rock for some reason. I had a co-worker who was the exact same way. Eventually my boss banned music at my work entirely because he kept changing the music people were playing to classic rock then would get all pissy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it always classic rock or older metal. I don’t get it all.
I have fucking Elvis, Between the Buried and Me, Billie Eilish, Green Day, Kanye, Converge, and LCD Soundsystem in the same playlists. People are seriously missing out
ApexTitanz · 21 points · Posted at 19:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel sorry for him, ive been raised and my parents believe that someone can do whatever they want and like whatever they want, aslong as it doesnt hurt themselves or others/animals.
m_pzz · 6 points · Posted at 20:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re so very lucky :)
ApexTitanz · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
TWI2T3D · 0 points · Posted at 21:48:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, someone should also be able to do something that hurts themselves if they really want to.
daughtcahm · 4 points · Posted at 20:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally the plot of the movie Trolls World Tour.
Gobbya · 4 points · Posted at 20:46:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you really saying Bubsy 3D is bad. Boys, lock him up and throw away the key
oceansunset83 · 8 points · Posted at 20:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I expressed an opinion years ago about how crappy Once Upon a Time had become, and a preteen told me to kill myself.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:00:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God that show got so bad. I don’t even know how it ended. Apparently it was happy? I feel like it just went on FOREVER. First it was cool, you could tell who was supposed to be a certain character by their name, an accessory, a hair color- a good integration of a storybook character into reality. Then a couple seasons later Elsa’s just showing up in full dress and hair, no holding back. The story got needlessly complicated and became an effort to cram in every Disney name you’ve ever heard. Disappointing, because it was an interesting start. I wanted to like it.
That being said, how did you ever recover from such a fatal blow by that preteen? 😔
oceansunset83 · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:06 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went onto my blog and expressed the thoughts I wanted to say to the kid. I was old enough to be their parent, and just felt that kid had no business talking to anyone like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:08 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
A ton of people on the internet talk to others in ways they have NO business doing so- it can be really infuriating, I sympathize with how you feel. Thankfully that was just a kid, so there’s a chance they’ll grow out of it. IMO it’s scarier seeing adults do it, because they should know way better than that. Good on you for venting elsewhere, people like that want to be engaged and argued with, and they fizzle out when you don’t feed into it.
psychicfork013 · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never managed to finish that. I got to a certain point where I just wanted it to end :/
Jas_God · 6 points · Posted at 19:49:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s just a close-minded fool.
7elevenses · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and no, but mostly yes. It's not about elitism, as some claim above. It's about (a mostly mistaken) belief in genuineness. They think that music/art is worthless if the artist is not genuine, i.e. if they're doing it for money, or have a fake persona, etc.
It's a genuinely held, but naive belief. It leads to heartbreak when favorite artists "sell out" and also prevents discovering and enjoying all sorts of wonderful music.
Source: A much younger me.
nineties_night_owl · 5 points · Posted at 22:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with what you're saying, but in all fairness you kind of just described elitism. These teens usually say things like...
"These musicians are real artists with passion, soul and a real understanding of their art. They have a message, they speak to us, they are the only real artists. And only us real fans can understand their genius, what they mean, the art behind what they do."
This naive belief is really just people feeling like the "real" artists are superior because they are genuine, and therefore they feel superior because their art speaks to them. Or, y'know, elitism lol. Just my take on it.
7elevenses · 0 points · Posted at 09:28:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's really really stretching the meaning of "elitism".
nineties_night_owl · 1 points · Posted at 15:49:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really really isn't lol, but I'm not wasting time getting into an argument over the definition of elitism, so sure dude.
If you celebrate Easter, have a good Easter 🐇🥚
TheDevilsAdvokaat · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instead of something being wrong with her, something was wrong with him.
Any confident, normal person is not offended by people having different tastes to them..if anything, it's a chance to learn new styles / artists.
whales-are-assholes · 4 points · Posted at 20:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s elitism, and those people don’t deserve to be friends with anyone. I should know, I used to sort of be like this, then I grew the fuck up.
SheepishLion117 · 6 points · Posted at 19:57:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because in his mind classic rock was the only good genre and if you didnt like it, you were a drug using degenerate
cherrycoke00 · 13 points · Posted at 20:09:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there’s one exception to this.
it’s people who liked the Cats movie.
I can’t trust them.
Canvaverbalist · 15 points · Posted at 20:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It make sense if they (and you) understand that it's a silly nonsensical movie trying its best to make sense adapting a silly nonsensical musical trying its best to make sense adapting a silly nonsensical poem trying its best to make sense adapting a funny way T.S. Elliot's niece pronounced the word "jolly little cat"
Or the other way around: T.S. Elliot's niece mispronounced "jolly little cat" into "jellicle cat" (or "poor little dog" into "pollicle dog"), T.S.Elliot found that funny and cute and made a poem about it, giving silly little names like this to cats and trying to make sense of how these cats would behave based on these names. Andrew Loyd Webber liked that poem growing up because it's cute and whimsical (and because he really loves cats in general), so he decided to make a musical based on that trying to tie in a sort of narrative to all the different types of cats presented in the poem. Now the movie is simply trying to make as best cinematographical sense it can of the Cats musical's narrative.
I haven't seen it (nor the musical) and I don't really care about it, but I can understand how somebody could like it based on the fact that it is supposed to be wacky and not make much sense and just be a spectacle of feline silliness.
cherrycoke00 · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I love the musical!! It’s fantastic, one of the first I saw on Broadway as a child. I understand the meaning and adaptation of it onto the stage, but I haven’t seen a single person that truly enjoyed the movie. It’s not even a plot issue -though it didn’t translate well- it’s the quality of the movie. If there’s a functioning adult that truly thought that was an exceptional film, I would not trust them until they proved me otherwise
MartiMa08 · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and people who like keeping chocolate in the fridge - it literally ruins it
RealityWanderer · 13 points · Posted at 20:37:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro, you wanna come at me? I don't want it melting and it provides a nice cool crunch.
MartiMa08 · 4 points · Posted at 20:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It literally removes flavour from the chocolate because it doesn’t melt in the mouth as much when it’s been in the fridge - fridge chocolate is just wrong
RealityWanderer · 7 points · Posted at 20:48:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The heat of your tongue is enough to melt it and it's not gone in five seconds so you can savor it.
MartiMa08 · -3 points · Posted at 21:27:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope.
KingOfDatShit · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excellent retort
_thebeees_kneees_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are people who keep chocolate in the fridge?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A side effect of a huge superiority complex
thoughtful_appletree · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, if he has to listen to it because others like it then I can kind of understand his reasoning. I think it is a bit justified if you are affected by the tastes of the people around you. For example when choosing the music at a party or cooking together. Then, personal tastes do matter
hokus_pokus_93 · 3 points · Posted at 20:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a friend who I invited to come out with some other friends he'd never met before. He listened to exclusively classic rock and metal. No exceptions. So I was driving with all aforementioned friends in my car with the elitist in the front seat. Cake's cover of 'War Pigs' came on the radio and he immediately got irritated and said to turn it off. We protested because we like the cover and it was my car. He flipped to the classic rock station. I got kind of annoyed because he was acting like a dick and I told him to put it back. He hadn't taken it this far before. So he yelled "let's just fucking turn it off then" and punched my stereo.
I let him out of the car on the other side of town to walk home
jonahin · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be like that when I was 13/14. I discovered hardcore and metalcore music and got weirdly elitist very quickly. I can't speak for every person who acts like this, but for me (and I reckon a lot of people) it becomes part of your identity. So when you then go and disagree with their taste in music they feel like you're questioning them as a person.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same lol, I think a lot of kids go through similar phases around that age.
hamm4ever · 3 points · Posted at 20:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally agree with the first part, but maybe my opinion differs a bit, theres music that genuinely irks me, repetition of the same words over and over.. alot of oldies had it. Rhyming words with the same word. But if it's not my place then I'll just leave, it's like nails on a board
SNScaidus · 3 points · Posted at 20:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Classic rock fans are so pretentious it hurts
xabrol · 3 points · Posted at 21:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man amen to that.
I'm a cubicle programmer that drives a lifted f150, loves techno, and watches anime, plays online MMOs, and goes offroading in my RZR through the mud, and I take hot baths, and don't watch sports or cable tv.
I rub so many people the wrong way.
Yeah, I like "that time I got reincarnated as a slime" and don't like football, yeah that's my f150. I like what I like. Besides football is soccer.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metalheads, I love me some metal but would never discuss it with a metalhead.
PyroDesu · 3 points · Posted at 21:22:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a completely screwed-up perception of metalheads.
In fact... you're kind of applying the same logic as the guy in the story.
DatChisaiBitchDesuka · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From personal experience, metalheads tend to be much more elitist than other groups
ElvenLeafeon · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of times I've been told Power Metal isn't real metal, drives me insane.
PyroDesu · 0 points · Posted at 23:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congratulations, you have an anecdote.
I'll add my own: In my experience, metalheads are quite possibly the most welcoming group I've ever had the pleasure of knowing.
DatChisaiBitchDesuka · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its almost as if I started the sentence saying that.
JuzamDjinn · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been going to metal shows for 15 years and have never had this issue.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:08:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you’re all at a metal concert than you probably all like the same band/bands
I like a lot of metal but still hate talking about non metal music with most of them. People act like you slapped their mom because you like Kanye and Lorde
MartiMa08 · 2 points · Posted at 20:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People don’t like it when you don’t like the same things as them, as when people do like the same things it validates that they’re right for liking it.
justtogetridoflater · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's also kind of weird that people can't find anything redeeming about whole genres of music, and art, because listen to enough things and you'll inevitably find something that you do like. It's really pretty close-minded.
TeslaDollyann22 · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my God, this right here! My bf (love him to death, for the most part) will tell me I'm just flat out wrong for liking some of the music I like or foods I like that he doesn't, etc. I'll say "and that's your opinion" then he'll come back with "nope, it's fact. Numbers don't lie." He's obviously just a crazy person. Can't argue with crazy people so I just let it be.
BrainBlowX · 2 points · Posted at 14:41:56 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
So he's saying top 100 pop is the best music?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That is ....... So very pretentious of him. Wow dude. Get off your pedestal.
ro_ok · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their identity, value system, and most importantly sense of belonging and worth is synonymous with the genre. I was like that in high school with metal bands — would discuss the nuances between death and doom like we were searching for then outlines of our very souls.
When you find music that feels like it speaks directly to you and that it understands you, when maybe you’re not in an environment that makes you feel that way, it’s incredibly powerful. Humans are wired to ‘belong’ and for someone to reject that belonging really hurts. I think that’s what classic rock guy is going through, techno guy is a threat to his feeling of belonging (whether he acknowledges that is another story).
va_texan · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that get angry when you disagree with them are assholes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think they’re very insecure and, just like Shrek said, compensating for something. They’re escaping insecurity by forcing the mentality that it’s the reverse- they’re the perfect model and everyone else has growing to do. I had an ex with that exact issue. He’d get really argumentative and offended about anything we differed on- food preferences, music, TV shows- but was distraught when I broke it off despite how ‘inferior’ I was. The facade crumbles when you don’t engage it. If anything, I feel sorry for people like that and sincerely hope that one day they learn to love and accept themselves.
YungSkeezus · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was 19 I moved unknowing moved into a crack house when I was flying the coop. The main signer and her boyfriend would yell and he would beat her almost nightly. They LOVED EDM, played it all the time. They brought friends over who LOVED EDM. One of those friends went as far as creeping on me one day. I can listen to maybe one song if a friend really likes their music and wants to play it in my car, but after that it's like a flipped switch. I get so agitated and angry I could kill someone. However, I've also been diagnosed with misophonia (emotional sensitivity to certain sounds) before I'd moved out. Hope I offered some understanding.
TLDR; I was traumatized by EDM by scary roommates on top of having already having a problem with certain sounds/noises.
MADman611 · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every time I say I like country music...
PaprikaPowder · 7 points · Posted at 19:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny how any pre 90s rock is utterly horrible for me, same with any hip hop from 2010 onwards. I don’t care if people like it obviously. I like some pretty crazy electronic music and I sometimes wonder how I actually like that stuff.
One thing I do wish more people would do is discover music. Don’t just listen to what is put in front of you, or what your friends are listening to. Find what you like.
hondureno_1994 · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What hip hop do you like? Am drunk and would like to suggest some newer artists. Am an oldhead
psychicfork013 · 3 points · Posted at 20:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I like Sims and Atmosphere quite a bit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not the person you responded to, but would be down for some similarish recommendations. I don't normally listen to hip hop nor know of many hip hop artists, but when I do listen, my go to's are Deltron 3030, Wu-Tang, Blackalicious, Black Star, Eminem, Dr. Octagon, Kendrick Lamar.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you like Wu-Tang and other grimy east coast stuff, there’s tons of great New York revivalists coming up right now. Griselda is probably the biggest, it’s three street dudes out of Buffalo making super grimey 90s style rap. If you like that track, check out The Plugs I Met by Benny the Butcher, really great short album from one of them that came out last year. Hit me up for more recommendations if you like it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hell yea, thanks! that's all been dope. have any more recommendations? any from 90s-early 2000s I missed out on?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:02:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Word, if you want more Griselda it’s hard to miss with any of their projects but the best starting points imo are
Reject 2 - Conway the Machine
Tana Talk 3 - Benny the Butcher
Supreme Blientele - Westside Gunn (or Flygod if you’re willing to listen through YouTube since it’s not on streaming)
Some others that make similar music that’s worth checking out are Roc Marciano, Your Old Droog, 38 Spesh (and most of Trust Gang), Che Noir, Flee Lord and Eto.
As far as 90s to 2000s idk what you’ve listened to before but there’s always classics like
Moment of Truth - Gang Starr
The Infamous - Mobb Deep
Lifestylez ov da Poor and Dangerous - Big L
And 2000s stuff like
The Cold Vein - Cannibal Ox
I’ll Sleep When You’re Dead - El-P
Labor Days - Aesop Rock
Purple Haze - Cam’ron
Edit: oh and I forgot The Cow, it’s essential Conway listening, easily his most emotional and personal verse.
Zizizizz · 1 points · Posted at 10:36:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
These are some of favourites from the last few years
Denzel
Little Simz
Saba
Anderson Paak
Joey Badass
PaprikaPowder · 0 points · Posted at 20:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing from today. I like early 2000s stuff. Don’t mind Loop Troop Rockers from back in the day too. Jedi mind tricks as well. But yeah, no “newer” artists sorry.
lincolnwasblack · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same issue,recent hip hop doesnt appeal to me at all....
Zizizizz · 2 points · Posted at 10:34:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feel anything? These are some of favourites from the last few years and I don't really enjoy the genre as a whole, but I love these artists and the types of music they produce.
Denzel
Little Simz
Saba
Anderson Paak
Joey Badass
paulregan1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever I have a disagreement with a person about one of these kinds of things, I just don't bring that topic up again. I'll still want to punch anyone who likes the last GoT season though haha.
afaber003 · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who knows how reddit will take this, but i feel like this about politics. Without going into the objectively wrong things either side has done, it often boils down to what people believe and their opinions on things. Both sides of the political spectrum have facts backing them up, hating someone because they’re liberal, or conservative doesn’t make sense to me. As long as they aren’t actively hurting someone let them have their opinion on how things should be done.
CallMeBrett · 31 points · Posted at 20:00:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of political opinions do hurt people though, unlike someone’s music taste which doesn’t hurt anyone at all, not really a comparison.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:13:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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thats0K · -6 points · Posted at 20:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ironically, listening to country music is a tale of someone losing a bunch of their belongings. not quite rights, but almost!
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 20:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics is the struggle over dangerous ideas. That’s not really an argument. Socialism hurts the productive class. Capitalism hurts the lower class.
hahaha-whatever · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is not all that hard to understand once you know how powerful our egos can be. We all have that “inner narrator” who casts doubt on our decisions. For some people (and it’s not their “fault”) (whatever that means) that voice is so loud that they need external validation in order to confirm that they have made the right choices in life. Freud called it “The Narcissism of Small Differences” and you see it everywhere. From a skier talking shit about a snowboarder to a war fought between Muslim sects. Your friend loved classic rock, but his ego compelled him to affirm his love for it by being, what Carl Jung called, “A big ol’ fucknugget.”
jackandjill22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea
griddigus · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A real bad sign of immaturity in people for sure.
starfish_treatment · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not only that, but open up and accept that there is excellence in all genres of music.
Noble_Ox · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People love gatekeeping.
slver6 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
exactly this... this is the root cause and problem with all on this world, is ok if you like something, AND is ok if you dislike something, BUT why hate on people having diferent taste on you...
lilbug89 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like everyone who gets angry when “vegan” is used in any sentence, even if it’s good context.
0mega_Nebula · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh as much as I like classic rock in my experience it's usually classic rock fans that do this...
capinorange · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good friend of mine lost it when I said I wasn't a fan of the Shelby Cobras looks. Cool car, cool history, just don't like the look. Dude gets pretty pissed when I don't like the cars he does and shits on the ones I like 🤷 it's an opinion dude..
Stuporousfunky · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's obviously never been to a proper Techno club!
Crizznik · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of a consequence of our culture. We're encouraged to form our identities around the shit we consume, and when you define yourself by what you like, you feel personally attacked when someone doesn't like it, or likes something else more.
Its_Marz · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You nailed it right there. I listen to scarlxrd and lots of people bash him for screaming and whatnot and say he's trash or no one understands him, but they want me to listen to Young Thug etc..
oi_piglet · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a similar issue where I would judge people easily, but I kept my opinions to myself and avoided them if I had the chance to, and when I had to I would make an effort and in most cases I was proven wrong and everyone I thought wouldn't be nice turned out to be a chill person.
Today the worst kind of people I am facing are those who chose to call the other person names in any form of discussion, my younger cousin sister paints her face because some insta influencer termed it therapeutic, when I asked her why she was doing so by laughing at it (because it felt funny) she said I wouldn't understand and proceeded to call me an uncle, no relevance.
And as a young person and an elder to younger people I realised how important it is to listen to someone older than you give you some advice, there is always some basis for it. alas people choose to make it personal.
bobilollole · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's mental how people make their own beliefs, the only truth in the world. When I was a teenager I liked Slipknot a lot. I went to a Slayer / Slipknot concert. Very proud young man. As the evening went along I met a guy wearing a Slayer shirt. I of cause had my Slipknot shirt on. The guy looked at me, and asked me why I was there for the wrong band. I was so happy go lucky, so I said that I was there to see the right band. He punched me right in the face and left.
chromasphere · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only valid reason I can think of is if the content (or creator) is somehow problematic. Otherwise, people who have huge fucking egos just act like this because they think being mean is a personality trait. If something’s not your cup of tea? That’s fine—just keep it to yourself or with friends who’d agree with you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was once told by a kid who bullied me in high school that the music I listened to (musical theatre) "wasn't even proper music to be on an iPod"
indialet · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right! You shouldn’t yuck someone’s yum.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was this person as a kid, but only around my parents, because they'd constantly ridicule me and berate me for liking certain things. I'd blow up at them every time they did it, and they'd tell me I was "too sensitive" and I needed to learn that not everyone likes the same stuff as me.
navin__johnson · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music snobs are the worst
KingSnazzle · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the topic of music. Why do people blast their headphones while it’s around their necks?
closetsquirrel · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Food is the crazy part. Like music you can tolerate, but you literally can’t control what your body thinks of the taste of food.
Canvaverbalist · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A century of marketing strategies weaponizing the ego by association with products, we've been brainwashed into thinking what we consume is who we are - to be loved, respected, to be someone is all based upon what we buy, listen, watch, consume, etc.
Check out the documentary "Century of the Self" about this, it's absolutely fascinating.
throwuponrug · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend who just berates me on not eating my waffles the same as him and pisses me off and then he gets mad at me for not being able to do something he can because I’m inferior
jself1234 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your comment is stupid, and you should be ashamed for feeling that way. Lol, you mean like that?
Humble_but_Hostile · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that's ridiculous
-nobu_oKo_jima- · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh jesus...I hate that and I was like that for a while as a teenager. Not as bad as OPs "friend", but still - it was definitely a way of making myself feel better about myself. It was a way of making up for my insecurity sometimes. Doesn't matter how popular or hot you are, I can smirk at you dumbass taste in music.
lukejhend · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has this guy read High Fidelity?
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Control freaks; they feel the need to exert control over every aspect of everyone's lives. Basically a dictator with zero power, so it just becomes adult temper tantrums. You see a lot of it working retail.
everett640 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can appreciate most kinds of music. People work hard and being able to see the different styles of writing music as well as seeing the different instruments used is extremely interesting.
Zhusters · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seriously think that there is some underlying psychogical condition behind this, that is probably in the unconscious of this person. some form of compensation
MarkyMcFly171 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really take offense when people don't like what I like, but I don't like when people tell me things are like are trash or that I'm lesser because I like something that others don't. That's where I get annoyed.
saportuh · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This!!
misssoci · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people are freaking annoying. They think their music is the music of the Gods and everyone else is wrong for liking anything different.
enuffshonuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also hated Trolls 2
[deleted] · 9646 points · Posted at 14:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 9335 points · Posted at 16:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was with a girl who was abusive to me. You truly feel like you can never escape. And they think they are doing the world a favour by disciplining you. They're cruel and ignorant creatures who are selfish. They don't give a shit about how you feel as long as you are there to do their work and satisfy them.
Fuck you, Selina.
BigYeetusOwO · 927 points · Posted at 17:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck u/Selina
pink_jade_1 · 8 points · Posted at 20:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina and Carole Baskin are both bitches!
LucaThompson · 3 points · Posted at 04:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina
[deleted] · 5745 points · Posted at 16:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Chopperman1415 · 3300 points · Posted at 17:18:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Also fuck u Selina
Caer-Rythyr · 2301 points · Posted at 18:11:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No cake for you, Selina!
[deleted] · 171 points · Posted at 18:26:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina!
tiwariavinash503 · 157 points · Posted at 18:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
May you never get fucked , Selina
Wh00ster · 70 points · Posted at 19:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That bitch Carole Baskin
it-tastes-like-bread · 104 points · Posted at 19:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That bitch Selina
lababanana · 54 points · Posted at 19:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not fuck selina?
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck u/selina
Computers-XD · 15 points · Posted at 20:23:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, fuck you, Selina
GuyName73 · 13 points · Posted at 20:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah yeah, fuck you, Selina.
WaterShapedOrgans · 12 points · Posted at 20:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah yeah yeah, fuck you selina
Th4nat0s1s · 9 points · Posted at 21:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina...
docisback · 12 points · Posted at 21:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s 4:42 p.m. Central Time, and Fuck Selina
GotchaZombie64_ · 6 points · Posted at 22:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
that_retrowave_guy · 10 points · Posted at 22:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As my fellow reddittors exclaim in such a non polite descriptive manner.
Fuck you, Selina.
Blueberry73 · 3 points · Posted at 01:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina.
Woodworker2020 · 3 points · Posted at 06:37:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
May I bestow the power of a thousand fuck yous soon you Selina
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:48:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I now unload a truck full of a thousand fuck yous that topple Selina, that bitch
GuyName73 · 6 points · Posted at 21:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah yeah yeah yeah, fuck you selina
Beans_42069 · 8 points · Posted at 20:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/fuckselina
RingRingHello_69 · 3 points · Posted at 22:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i just made it
PrussianOwl23 · 7 points · Posted at 19:28:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know the rule about crazy
Jailbreak5106 · 7 points · Posted at 19:58:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't stick your thumb in it?
SatoshiUSA · 5 points · Posted at 21:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because she is a shit person
fromthewombofrevel · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because she’s a bitch.
Busted_Crust_Bucket · 3 points · Posted at 22:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No that is HERESY
Fuck you Selina
PupuTheToaster · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id like to fuck selina
Eblanc88 · 6 points · Posted at 20:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, you don’t!
Fuck you Selina!
RocketGamingFoxYT · 11 points · Posted at 22:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Screw off, Selina
SpacyDragon · 6 points · Posted at 20:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No actually, get unwillingly fucked Selina
orblox · 33 points · Posted at 19:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
_brainfog · 36 points · Posted at 19:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina, that bitch
BetterThanTaco · 10 points · Posted at 22:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This Selena bitch can eat it
Jagacin · 30 points · Posted at 19:28:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy fuck you, Selina!
vk23621322362232 · 27 points · Posted at 19:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No fuck for you, Selina!
rucksacksepp · 12 points · Posted at 20:57:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because fuck you, Selina
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 21:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No soup for you!
fartassmcjesus · 7 points · Posted at 22:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah fuck her.
soupythekidd · 5 points · Posted at 21:24:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:40:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No soup for you Selina
THELEGENDOFRAA · 3 points · Posted at 21:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah guys, let's fuck Selina !
Litafajita · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, fuck you Selina.
WhatsARaccoon · 6 points · Posted at 19:29:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we all agree she can fuck right off
loooji · 7 points · Posted at 20:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we have a moment of respect for this girl that's been told "fuck you" by tell internet strangers?
Oh wait, why are we paying respect to am inhuman monster that doesn't even deserve food bought with taxpayer money in prison?
Fuck you, Selina.
TheOldU2 · 4 points · Posted at 20:34:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina...right there with Fiona!
geraffi · 8 points · Posted at 19:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Fuck you, Salina, you fuck! And fuck you every other abuser.
King_Pecca · 7 points · Posted at 19:31:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina!
lukiepuki · 30 points · Posted at 16:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
lavashrine · 78 points · Posted at 16:39:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Fuck you Selina. Fuck you Selina. Happy cake day!”
Gorgii98 · 3 points · Posted at 20:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina.
very_big_hroch · 3 points · Posted at 21:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's going on here?
Also fuck that bitch Selina
Gaydar555 · 8 points · Posted at 18:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
Fuck you selina
CombustedSeaSalt · 9 points · Posted at 18:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
And Fuck Selina
DQQUAST · 4 points · Posted at 19:32:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
happy cake day, also Selina can go fuck herself
dnovegga · 8 points · Posted at 18:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
luhsya · 8 points · Posted at 18:26:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina is the Karen in the household
BlackTemplar2154 · 5 points · Posted at 18:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
tallboi69420 · 6 points · Posted at 18:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, fuck you Selina
Tcool14032001 · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina.
bablub048 · 4 points · Posted at 20:10:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina, the cunt.
Norbertkingboi · 2 points · Posted at 17:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!!
I_am_Incaned · 3 points · Posted at 18:13:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
also fuck you Selina
nerunas · 3 points · Posted at 18:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day! 😈
Fuck you Selina! 🌹
Lucrecio24 · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day! No cake for the selina girl though
MaddieAndDogs · 2 points · Posted at 20:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
erinmakenzy1 · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
MadamBootknife · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
xd_mxvrd · 2 points · Posted at 18:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
radiokiller458 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, emotional and mental abuse. Fuck you, Becky.
Fuck you, Selina.
skiflo · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say it louder for the people in the back
Pebsiee · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
Chief-of-Thought-Pol · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, fuck Brittany too.
ItsMichaelRay · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy Cake Day!
ButterBun3600 · 0 points · Posted at 21:46:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
umm.. I don't like Selina either!
soundscream · 0 points · Posted at 22:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Misread Selina for Slanesh and thought, yeah, thats just what it wants you to do. Just say no to Chaos kids.
Jacooooooooob · 0 points · Posted at 23:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Rollzy2015 · 0 points · Posted at 23:31:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
thedustbringer · 0 points · Posted at 03:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dang guys. If you all really want that I'll bite the bullet, take one for the team.
I shall fuck Selina!
You're welcome.
ghost-theawesome · -1 points · Posted at 21:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, Selina's a bitch.
Product_of_purple · 1011 points · Posted at 16:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina!!!
PancreaticDuck · 17 points · Posted at 19:04:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina!
Product_of_purple · 5 points · Posted at 19:04:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hell yeah!
ThatWetJuiceBox · 8 points · Posted at 20:52:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuine apologies to any Selinas out there who did not abuse u/uzidoesit9
Product_of_purple · 5 points · Posted at 22:31:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right.
Fuck that one particular Selina!
h0neypott · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sisters name is selina. Lol threw me off!!!
boeminemlightswitch3 · 5 points · Posted at 22:19:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:04:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maaaaaaan, Fuck you Selina!
UmbertoEcoTheDolphin · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of the Karens of the world are clapping softly, hoping in their hearts of hearts that this becomes a thing.
sirensslave · 2 points · Posted at 02:47:57 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
pssssst selina....
eat snoo’s dick.
In conclusion, Fuck you Selina!
dystopianpirate · 504 points · Posted at 16:49:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rot in hell and fuck you Selina!!!
tbiscuit67 · 14 points · Posted at 21:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoa easy now. A simple "fuck you Selina" is all that's called for here, sir.
frenchtoast-mafia · 5 points · Posted at 22:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to upvote you, but you’re at 420 so I won’t
dystopianpirate · 2 points · Posted at 23:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's good, I upvoted you, blessings 😊
Anunkash · 47 points · Posted at 18:39:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God I’m currently trapped in the house with an abusive ex because of the quarantine. She’s not that physically abusive but she’s very manipulative and mentally abusive. Idk what to do or how to get out my self esteem is plummeting daily and I feel like I’m less than a person. Sorry for ranting randomly on this thread I just needed to
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Message me if you want to talk. I'm here for you.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody should have to go through that. Stay strong and know that you're worth more than she wants you to believe <3
Zalinithia · 2 points · Posted at 14:14:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I grew up with a mentally abusive stepmom. It’s really fucking hard, but I know you can get through this. Even when she makes you feel powerless, remember, she is only as powerful as every other human, and she can’t take your humanity away from you. Remember how fucking awesome you are, and let her know that you know how awesome you are. You got this, buddy.
The_scobberlotcher · 107 points · Posted at 17:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck. You. Selina.
King_Pecca · 7 points · Posted at 19:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also burn in hell, Selina. And fuck you in hell, Selina!
Halvus_I · 16 points · Posted at 19:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had an abusive female ex. I didnt fear her, i feared that she could call men with guns at any time to deal with me if i didnt do what she said.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a similar fear. I knew what she was capable of manipulating people to do for her. The dude she cheated on my with was a heroin/coke/crack dealer from Surrey b.c., and there was a few times I was ready to see what dragon's breath would do to him. Sad part is, I'm Canadian. I shouldn't have to live in that level of fear. I kept a loaded Mossberg shotgun beside my bed and a Ruger gp100 in my car. Cops wouldn't do shit to help me because I'm a man, I should be able to fend for myself.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 16:57:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 17:06:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She didn't have any kids. She was infertile.
mmehhhhhhh · 20 points · Posted at 17:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the world did us a favour then. I'm sorry u had to go through that, mate
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:51:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't be who I am today if I didn't survive that. I have to look on the sunny side of it because that's all I have.
smartscience · 10 points · Posted at 17:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing Darwin's work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, she abused drugs before I met her and that did in her repro system.
Rav4xle · 10 points · Posted at 17:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ah so Selina's a sterile parasite. Karma's good.
Weidz5 · -3 points · Posted at 18:32:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think everyone here needs to chill just a little bit
iamunderstand · 3 points · Posted at 19:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Solidarity bro
Weidz5 · 2 points · Posted at 06:53:03 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still need to chill.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 18:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, it's called drug abuse.
Knoxxet · 7 points · Posted at 19:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was in the same position so im joining this.
Fuck you, Selina. And fuck you, Julia.
That felt good.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hope your day is going good, friend. May you have a divine day.
Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Julia!
cookingismything · 17 points · Posted at 17:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Choke on a bag of dicks Selina!
ShiaLaMoose · 13 points · Posted at 19:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When she gets old you can call her Senila
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like I would give a fuck anymore. That chapter is behind me. But it still leaves a giant hole in your heart that you don't know what to do with. Healing is a long process.
YourLocal_FBI_Agent · 12 points · Posted at 19:07:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina is a fucking grade-A cunthole
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She once was a great person tho. I honestly loved her when everything was copacetic.
Btw love your username, made me chuckle.
larsvondank · 6 points · Posted at 18:39:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm genuinely interested in where that feeling of no escape comes from. Why some stay for years and others leave after the first incident. I know love and sweet talk can blind you, but is that it?
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You get pushed into a corner before you know it. You support and love them, then you're trapped financially and emotionally. You could try to escape, but then she would call the cops and say I was threatening her, and I had guns, blah blah blah. She would make shit up to destroy my esteem and mental health. I gave all my guns to my stepdad and kept my Mossberg loaded under my bed out of fear after I kicked her out. When I kicked her out I felt a brief sense of relief. Then came the regret. You wonder what they are going to do next to ruin your life and grind you down farther. I was working in a camp and my landlord told me about the going-ons at my place, her new "friend" and everything. I'm 1000km away and there's fuck all I can do. Once I got home I went on lockdown. I threw her shit on the street and had requested an RCMP officer to watch my place. Long story short, I'm glad it's over but it still hurts me to this day.
YesImaBanker · 4 points · Posted at 19:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
aye yo, fuck Selina.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MAKE THIS A SUBREDDIT IM ALREADY APART OF A SUB LIKE THIS.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 19:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/fuckyouselina ?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YES
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:53:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so my Aunt is a divorce attorney and cases where the husband is in an abusive relationship are some of the hardest to argue for full custody simply because they are a lot less common and the judge is a lot less likely to be convinced.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank god we never had kids or anything, she was infertile due to her past drug use. We were technically commonlaw, but she couldn't afford a lawyer and I'm a former dairy farmer. All I had to do was call grandpa and say "get me the attorney.". It broke my fucking heart that it went that way, and it still hurts years later. I haven't had a relationship that was worth mentioning since.
Throwawaydrew54321 · 11 points · Posted at 17:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously Selina. Get fucked.
scottyMcM · 10 points · Posted at 17:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, and the horse you rode in on Selina.
1gramweed2gramskief · 5 points · Posted at 18:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina you...
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I expected https://youtu.be/myJDBos5Vyw
Annie_Mous · 5 points · Posted at 19:02:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck the horse Selina rode in on
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love that saying.
Sensorfire · 5 points · Posted at 19:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
therealneonoctopus · 6 points · Posted at 19:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
kvantex · 4 points · Posted at 19:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, fuck you Selina
frenchyposer · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuck you, selina
PrussianOwl23 · 4 points · Posted at 19:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FUCK SELINA!
Alemasta · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina, you weirdo.
TeslaDollyann22 · 5 points · Posted at 20:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a C U Next Tuesday. Would me finding her and stomping her out help or just contribute to the problem? I can't decide. Regardless, the point I'm trying to make here is fuuuuck you Salina!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She made her bed, she can lie in it.
nathaniel29903 · 11 points · Posted at 17:16:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that her name is Selina makes so much more sense.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gotta keep an eye out for seleenerrrr
Benoh2016 · 3 points · Posted at 19:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
GauPanda · 4 points · Posted at 19:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only other Selina I knew (well, Celina) was a huge bitch. Fuck her too
Product_of_purple · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Celina!
missgorgeous74 · 4 points · Posted at 19:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you sure she wasn't Selina Kyle?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, 100%
seleaner015 · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank god my name is spelled Selena
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And your last name doesn't start with a W
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina, hope you keep feeling like shit until you change your ways.
Galba__ · 4 points · Posted at 22:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a gf who used to slap me a lot. I was young and saw it on TV so I thought it was normal. Like oh I made a joke that you found offensive yeah I deserve to be hit. Or oh sorry I was rude to your friend who I hate when she interrupted me mid sentence yeah that slap was justified. Then later after amessy breakup when I was with another girl who never slapped me or emotionally abused me and I would flinch occasionally when she looked at me after I thought I did something wrong. Made me realize how fucked up it was.
JayHaze42 · 6 points · Posted at 18:08:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Tiana. Shit, sorry. Been there done that..
Fuck you, Selina. Fuckin bitch.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiana is a cunt, too.
JayHaze42 · 5 points · Posted at 19:50:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She is. Thank you for agreeing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey man, drop a line if you wanna talk. We are all in this together, and you can't heal alone. Talking to others heals the wounds, and knowing you aren't alone brings confidence to your battle. Be strong, friend.
i-am-adrift · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina can suck a big fat dick,Tiana can suck a big fat dick
Product_of_purple · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Tiana!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 18:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 22:41:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Sherri!
floyderama · 6 points · Posted at 17:58:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina, I hope all the horrors you've done visit you on your deathbed so you die as a piece of shit you are.
gerjondol · 6 points · Posted at 18:54:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big fuck you Selina
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Texas sized fuck you
frickitimstressed · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuck you, selina
Heir_of_Slytherin69 · 3 points · Posted at 19:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
swift-aasimar-rogue · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
friskevision · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina!
electricamethyst · 3 points · Posted at 19:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go to hell and Fuck you, Selina! Carole Baskin is going to feed you to tigers next.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, Selina is a cat person...
geektogreek · 3 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck my ex as well, please, thank you. And fuck you, Selina.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't want to fuck her, that's against the bro code, dude.
geektogreek · 3 points · Posted at 19:54:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
RESPEKT
Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck u/geektogreek 's ex!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:40:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you selina
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina sounds like a bitch, fuck her.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wish I hadn't.
meg-s-world · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina
Merrrrrr17 · 3 points · Posted at 19:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is my roommate and his fiancé. They're getting married in a few months but I'm hoping COVID will postpone it longer so he has more time to escape. Although, who am I kidding? He's not going to escape. He cannot stand up to her and it's sad and embarrassing. He knows she's terrible to him 90% of the time, but still goes along with it like nothing is wrong. It's terrible to witness and I just cannot wait until they move out, except I really do enjoy living with the guy. So sad.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know dude. Just leave a post it note somewhere with a random dudes name and number and let nature take its course.
Merrrrrr17 · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting idea...
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I shouldn't have said that, I'm an asshole. Be honest with your buddy. Sit him down one day and intervene on this. He deserves to know what you think, and you are obligated as a friend so save him from castration.
Merrrrrr17 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I like your first idea! Only because I already did the sensible thing you mentioned, and he admitted that he knows it's a problem, but he doesn't seem to want to do anything about it. So I've sort of lost hope 😞
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Burn the witch
3Sunshynes · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck Selina all the way off! Good for you for being able to identify her abuse
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It took me far too long to smarten up. I'm much better now. I'm still an asshole, but I'm a nice asshole.
3Sunshynes · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being an asshole to protect your feelings..ugh I do that. Same though, like a kind, caring asshole
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adapt and overcome.
OccAzzO · 3 points · Posted at 20:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, my boyfriend's mum's name is Selina and she does all that shit too.
He's moving in with me in a few months.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:07:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get him in your arms sooner, and love the shit out of him. Love and cherish that man for me.
OccAzzO · 5 points · Posted at 20:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do whenever I can...
But he's so deathly afraid of her that he'd rather suffer with her than come with me because of the repercussions it'll have with her.
She's the reason he self-harms. She's the reason he has an eating disorder. She's the reason why he can't spend time with me. It's often weeks between us seeing each other.
This pandemic is making it worse because now she technically has a reason to prevent him from leaving.
I love Alex to death, and I can't wait until he's safe in my arms cuddling, whilst we watch Ratatouille for the millionth time.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Promise me you will take him or try to convince him to go to therapy to undo the damage she's done.
Ratatouille is a fucking awesome movie, I love it to. Drop me a message if you want to talk about anything. And hug Alex for me.
OccAzzO · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He knows he needs therapy and she did get him one. But not for good reasons. He's atheist (as am I), whereas she is christian. She doesn't believe in transgenderism, saying it's a mental disorder. He got therapy for being trans (read: equally abusive ultra christian therapists), not for weighing 30kg as an 8th grader, not because he has suicidal thoughts, not because his thighs look like he laid down on a paper shredder, not because he was uncomfy in his own skin, but because he was a boy in a girls body and his mum didn't like that.
He had a good therapist once, but she took that away from him because it was giving him what he needed, not what she wanted. He is her third child of 4. She abuses all of them at every opportunity. Thankfully the eldest two finally moved out and cut all contact.
He really needs therapy, but in the US, hot damn is it expensive. The healthcare system here needs to get fixed (for a billion reasons). We're both broke, we can't afford a nice one. And all the shitty ones, well, that's where he went before. I hate living in the Bible belt, and I haven't lived here for a year.
The worst part is that he can't even text me most of the time. She confiscated his laptop and phone. Even if he had them, the restrictions she's put in place prevent him from such basic things as: surfing the web, playing videogames, using it for more than two hours consecutively, and (my personal favorite) signing in because only she knows the password.
He's treated like a toddler. His problems? Insignificant, they'll blow over. His thoughts? Tis but a child. His dreams? He'll never achieve them, he's a lazy git. He's very art oriented, specifically culin arts. He's a fantastic chef, easily the best one I know personally, and they still don't believe in him.
I hate his parents almost as much as he does.
I love him so fucking much...
Lyrifaun · 3 points · Posted at 22:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell Alex we all love him too!
I’m glad he has you to help him through a really hard time. Keep reminding him that he can determine his own self worth and that they have no say over whether or not he is valid and worthy and can achieve his goals. All of that is up to him and him alone, and if he decides that he is all of those things, then he is all of those things, and they have no say :)
I hope one day his life can be separated from their influence, and that he feels so much better on that day. I’m so excited for that day to happen for him.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kill the fuckin bible thumping bitch. I despise people that mask their bigotry behind the "word of God". Retards, in the literal sense.
CleanCanapki · 2 points · Posted at 07:11:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone going through similar abusive parents and soon plan to escape into my boyfriend's protection. This is very reassuring and sweet to read how much you love and have helped him. I wish you guys good luck!
susibirb · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina, I hope you see this
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope not, I never want to see her or hear of her again.
susibirb · 2 points · Posted at 20:13:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. Take care.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You too, I hope you're having an awesome day.
BigXris · 3 points · Posted at 20:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Kristin... I fixed it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modified it to your own pain. Let the healing begin, friend.
BigXris · 2 points · Posted at 20:12:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LOL!
Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Kristin!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go to hell, Selina.
I really hope you’re doing alright. I’ve also been in an abusive relationship. Shit’s wack.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm doing better. Baby steps to heal, and I'm just trying to be better than I was before.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hell fucking yeah. You got this.
rishav394 · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sure if she's fucked half the number of times people here said Fuck you, she would be dead by now. Lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in awe of the pitchfork mob in this thread, like holy sheepshit.
Product_of_purple · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't mess with our people, bro!
Fuck you Selina!
MeNameYellow · 3 points · Posted at 20:22:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selina sounds like the biggest fucking bitch.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skinny like a crackhead when I booted her out.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:28:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope Selina meets a meaner beast than her, so she can feel your pain. Fuck you, Selina.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She always said she was abused by former boyfriends, I think she carried the torch over.
dastardlygrape · 7 points · Posted at 17:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
-i_eat_children- · 7 points · Posted at 17:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina
Geekiek · 6 points · Posted at 17:34:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 17:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you, Selina.
girlhaggard · 7 points · Posted at 17:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FUCK YOU SELINA
srrabrra34 · 5 points · Posted at 18:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tell me where Selina lives i just want to talk
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know where she lives. I don't want to know, I don't care. I still get shakes and my heart races when I see a 2011 Honda cr-v in grey metallic.
alexandra_ann_jern09 · 5 points · Posted at 18:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina! You slut
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, she cheated on me once, I wouldn't call her a slut though. Just a shitty excuse for a human.
alexandra_ann_jern09 · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I figured. I was just getting my point across that people who cheat should go to hell 😂
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:00:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope youre doing better now justin
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope, I'm not Justin.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(justin bieber dated selena gomez)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/whoosh
Xx_BrunostLars_42069 · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh fuck, am i the asshole?
catman11234 · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How would you say the support system was, if say the reverse were to happen do you think she would get more support?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah. Cops and courts always favour the women. When I had to deal with the cops to get a restraining order against her, the Sargeant looked me in the eye and said "how much of a threat could she really be?"
CromulentDucky · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruce?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope, chrispy.
SelinaFreeman · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me, for the record!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, definitely not you.
UnicornGlitterZombie · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Had an aunt naked Selina, she was psychologically abuse to my Uncle for years and was always a cunt to me. They just finalized their divorce. So, double fuck you, Selina.
whatwasimeanttodo · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend named Selina, but afaik she’s never had a boyfriend, so...fuck you, other Selina.
vividvega · 2 points · Posted at 05:06:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn that’s my name I feel attacked right now lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, maybe not you, ok? Lol
vividvega · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely not me but reading all those f yous and my name makes me feel attacked lolllll
AppleciderLover · 2 points · Posted at 17:57:18 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck you Selina
IffySaiso · 31 points · Posted at 17:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not without guilt isually, but the guilt comes after the abuse. In abusive households, all emotions are displayed all the time. Anger, joy, dissatisfaction, frustration... there is no brake, no breather.
So people in that situation use very primal reactions. Essentially you should picture adults with toddler behavior.
Do you understand a 2-yo hitting another kid for taking their train? Well, it’s exactly that in many cases.
In other cases, the person is a sociopath and does not feel remorse or have a capability for empathy.
[deleted] · 406 points · Posted at 17:27:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I think I have an answer to this! A lot of abusive people, at least in my experience, have some sort of mental disorder that limits their personal control over their emotions. And a lot of the time, they have been raised in an abusive household or exposed to violence for a very long, very traumatic period. This would result in most cases a person who:
When angry, can not control their anger, and therefore lashes out in the only way they have learnt to: violence.
When they don’t get their way, or feel misunderstood, or out of control, or any emotion they relate to their own trauma, they resort to the only tool that they have learnt: violence.
Of course, I’m not a psychologist, but I’ve found this is the case. Of course it doesn’t excuse their behaviour, and there’s also abusers who are genuinely disgusting people and have no empathy, etc.
Edit: I’m in no way excusing their behaviour. I have been abused all my life. I would never excuse abusive behaviour. I just find psychology interesting.
melmitch997 · 23 points · Posted at 19:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom was extremely abusive to me, it’s like she’s two different people. And i think she truly believes she never was. It has completely tarnished my relationship with her but also makes me feel bad because i think it’s clear she has a mental disorder. But it makes me definitely feel when i have kids, she will never have them alone!!
Soggy-Slapper · 7 points · Posted at 20:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father was extremely abusive to me and he truly doesn’t believe that anything he did was abuse. I have scars on a third of my body from the things he did and he still doesn’t understand why I don’t like him
melmitch997 · 2 points · Posted at 04:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you think he maybe has multiple personalities? That’s what i think of my mom, it’s like i could almost see a switch in her eyes. And her and my dad got divorced when I was two because she would hit my dad so much he said he was at the point of wanting to hit her back so he left her. He also told me as i got older he made my mom go to years of counseling to be comfortable with her having custody of us kids. But i always kind of resented that he didn’t try to take us away from her, he should have.
Neurotic_Bakeder · 67 points · Posted at 18:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hard agree. I think something people don't understand about abusive behavior is that a huge amount of the time, the abuser will genuinely think that they're being reasonable.
Like, yes, there definitely are shitty people.who explicitly enjoy hurting others. But I think more of the time, the abusive person will just have this internal logic which tells them that what they're doing isn't really abuse.
"Obviously it's wrong to hit people, but I was in a bad mood from work and then my spouse didn't have dinner ready, which made me feel worse, and my spouse knows I'm hungry when I'm off work, so they must have done this on purpose, they're hurting me on purpose, that means I need to hurt them back."
It helps explain why so many people stay in abusive relationships because their partner may genuinely love them and be caring and sweet, or may genuinely cry and seem to feel awful after hurting them. But that relationship is still dangerous for them.
mirrorspirit · 16 points · Posted at 20:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see it as hitting = power. As pointed out earlier, a lot of people have been at the opposite end of it and they felt powerless in that situation. But if they're the ones doing the hitting, they're the ones wielding power over someone else. Sometimes they come to develop a ruthless social Darwinist view of life: If you want to win you have to be stronger than everyone else. Kindness is weak and makes you preyed upon. And they never want to be preyed upon again.
It's a viewpoint that can take a lot of work to overcome, and the earlier the better. A lot of times when adults are fully grown, they give up on hoping for anything better for themselves so they don't try as hard to improve. They accept this is the best they're going to get and this is what they have to do to get it.
Notaspooon · -4 points · Posted at 23:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. You are implying abusers love their victims which is absurd. There is psychological concept called “ trauma bond” this is why victims find it hard to leave abusers.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:44:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abusers can love their victims. My parents certainly love me, and don’t realise what they did is abuse, because that’s the way they were raised and as others explained in comments, they think they’re doing the right thing.
Trauma bond is very real, but victims also find it hard to leave abusers for other reasons. They are manipulated into believing that the abuser is a good person. “I love you, I won’t do it again, I’m sorry,” etc.
Meowhuana · 45 points · Posted at 19:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a psychologist I must note, that they usually don't have a mental disorder. Loose control over reactions, yes. Very little understanding of their own feelings, yes. But it's not a disorder. Some might have anger issues due to mental disorder, but usually it's the other way around — their victims will get PTSD, anxiety and depression, or have something more severe and will be abused because of that. You can't even imagine how much violence medical staff can inflict on patients in a mental hospital. It's usually the question of power and control, in any abuse.
If you consider your child, for example, not a real human being but some sort of your extension, or your possession, you can see nothing bad in beating them up, to show them who's in charge.
doodle759 · 5 points · Posted at 22:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I never liked the 'they were abused as children' explanation because it ignores the possibility of a normal person acting monstrous. Plenty of abusers had great home lives. There can be guilt in dominating another person but there can also be intense pleasure, I think the capacity for that is in most people. They just don't indulge it.
Meowhuana · 9 points · Posted at 22:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, many of them were. It's a vicious cycle: if you're treated like this, you can, unfortunately, take it as a norm in life. But being abused is not equal having a mental disorder. There are many possible coping mechanisms in these stories, and become, as an adult, either an abuser or a victim of another abuser is two of the possible scenarios. Violence should not be a norm for anyone but to break the cycle one should really try, and it takes a lot of emotional labour — the difficulty may vary from person to person.
lizcicle · 35 points · Posted at 19:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. It seems like they're emotionally stunted and are essentially children emotionally, so they act the way a child would - hitting and screaming and throwing. It's a reason, it's sad and fucked up, but it's not an excuse, like you said.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 19:30:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know my abusers had trauma disorders. My primary abuser has BPD and PTSD from the military, and his mother is a narcissist and emotionally abuses both him and his sister and me.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right that they're often raised in abusive homes. If they were out of control they'd be doing it to other people e.g punching their co-workers. It is learned behaviour though
Meriadoc_Brandy · 44 points · Posted at 17:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right. It is certainly learned behaviour. However, their actions are still their responsibility.
[deleted] · 45 points · Posted at 18:10:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And, as out of control as abusers might feel, they’re generally able to control themselves when other people are present.
LrdAsmodeous · 29 points · Posted at 19:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is something I don't understand: why people think that explaining an action or a behavior is in some way excusing it.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 19:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when you develop compassion for the bad guy, you start to realize they were abused by their parents; and their parents were in turn abused as well; and you start to understand maybe where the idea of “original sin” or “sins of the father” comes from, and then you learn about epigenetic expression creating traumatic traits down the line and you’re like holy shit maybe this is a societal problem
we treat our kids with violence, we treat our employees with violence. child abuse is also a systemic social problem (in the U.S.)
LrdAsmodeous · 11 points · Posted at 19:56:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favorite part is when we try to stop people from bullying others... by bullying them into it.
And we completely lack the clarity to realize why that is ineffective.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, you can’t bully anyone into anything...humans don’t like being told what to do. It’s an unconscious bias we have. We won’t grow as a species until we can approach things out of love instead of fear. Fear is a tool (to protect yourself) that when misused is very dangerous, that can strip people of their humanity in degrees. Love is the polar opposite, gives everyone oxytocin :)
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 19:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry it came across that way. I am not excusing their behaviour. I edited my comment!
rainbowtwinkies · 16 points · Posted at 20:05:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mentally ill people are more likely to be abused than be abusive. That stigmatizing and innacurate bullshit with no source.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People have misunderstood my comment. Yes, mentally ill people can be abused, but often abusers have their own mental illnesses too. I wasn’t excusing abusers’ behaviour. I’m a survivor of extreme abuse and I wouldn’t wish that on anybody.
caffeinecunt · 14 points · Posted at 18:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This tracks. My parents, although slightly better, were always abusive and violent. In my younger sister this manifests as extreme violence and aggression towards family members. Last week I went to visit and try to pick up a few things, and stop to see some new kittens their cats had just had. My sister didnt like me looking at the kittens and attacked me. I have gouges all over my face just because she didnt want me to look at a kitten. Shes 20, and considerably larger than I am. Based on where the scratches on my face are I am extremely lucky she didnt take my eye out, because that's what she seemed to have been going for.
guineaworm88 · 3 points · Posted at 19:11:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I’m assuming you won’t go see her again ?? Fuck i wouldn’t.
caffeinecunt · 12 points · Posted at 19:15:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We already dont have a relationship because every time we interact she is violent and abusive towards me. But no, I wont be going to visit my family again after this. It's very clear they are always going to pick her, even as I was sitting in the car bleeding, my mom was still making excuses for her behavior. Unfortunately I still have some of my possessions there (I moved out abruptly last summer after she threatened me with a knife and attacked me). Eventually I'll maybe get them back, but at this point I might as well just move on with my life. I dont think I have a real family anymore.
FoozleFizzle · 8 points · Posted at 20:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The police can come with to help you get your things if you're afraid to go yourself in most cases. I hope you can get your things and get away as soon as possible.
caffeinecunt · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bringing the police would not go over well at all. Despite being the one being constantly abused by her, everyone in my family is pretty much of the opinion that I'm over reacting and that I just shouldn't provoke her. Which I genuinely try not to, I dont try to speak to her, I dont engage when she starts to verbally abuse me if I'm there. Most of the things I still have there can either be replaced someday, or are sentimental things that I shouldn't be so bothered to let go of anyway.
FoozleFizzle · 3 points · Posted at 21:51:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sentimental things are important, too, and if your family is that awful, it doesn't really matter what they think unless they're dangerous. But that's just my opinion and I'm not in your situation so just know the police are an option if you ever decide you want to pursue your possessions without fear. If not, then that's good, too. I hope things get better for you.
bohobeachbunny · 9 points · Posted at 19:54:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex was a narcissist and came from one of the most emotionally abusive families I have ever seen. He was so emotionally abusive to me and I thought I could teach him that this didn’t have to be how he acted in a relationship. 3 years later and it turns out you can’t undo 22 years of emotional neglect. He’s an evil, nasty fucker who used his past as an excuse to cheat, lie, gaslight and trap me into the unhappiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I agree that abuse usually comes from a place of bad mental health and previous abuse and it’s so draining to be in a relationship with it, I felt like I couldn’t leave and it absolutely ruined my mental health. I could never dream of doing to anybody what he did to me
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my older brother was just a psychopath that liked to beat up my mom and me. he's an exception to the common rules for how abusers get the way they are.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Majority of psychopaths aren’t abusers at all.
Alandria_On_Reddit · 4 points · Posted at 20:07:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wish to point out just because a human has no feelings and can't empathize they aren't always "disgusting", they may be sociopaths or psychopaths. Just because they don't have emotions doesn't mean you need to be mean.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sociopaths and psychopaths have feelings. They can also empathize cognitively. They just can’t feel sad for the person.
But they have feelings. Saying they don’t is a myth. And most of them are pretty much normal people (most psychopaths).
Alandria_On_Reddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then who are people that have apathy almost all the time? What are they called? I have met people like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re just apathetic, really. I mean they have feelings, they just care for very little. Elaborate more though, I’m kind of interested in what you mean.
Man_with_lions_head · 0 points · Posted at 19:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is for sure. Abusive upbringing will fuck someone up. However, there is also genetic reasons, too. Some people, especially men, are genetically coded to have the ability to be hyper-violent and aggressive. But when those two things happen to a person that has both, watch out.
If you look at the most violent, the serial killers, and all that, almost all of them have violent upbringing. Not all, of course, but almost all. Shit, just go read the wiki pages of serial killers, almost all have abusive childhoods.
Now, does this mean that all people with abusive childhoods will grow up to be killers? Of course not. But those that do, almost always have physically and emotionally abusive parents.
You and I don't have to be a psychologist. There have been academic study after study on this.
As far as excusing their behavior, I suppose it depends on how one defines the word. If they are raised in a violent family, and/or have genetic predisposition towards violence, the way I look at it, it sure does excuse them. That being said, you still need to imprison people like that for what they have done, and prevent it from happening again. There are some people, because of their parents and genetics, should never be allowed to live free. It's not their fault, they didn't give birth to themselves or pick their genetics, nor choose the family that they were born to. It's not their fault. But they still need to be jailed. But it's not their fault.
Thing1234556 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly since my first encounter with mental illness I’ve become obsessed with how much our brain construction dictates how we are as people. It’s a little unsettling because everyone wants to feel like they are in control, but I wonder about this all the time now.
Orolol · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explaining is never excusing.
Whiteh0rn · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It all goes back to that one caveman who beat his wife/kids for no reason.
danny_gil · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. You’re def not a psychologist.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, and? I can still put out my opinion. This is the internet, is it not? I was pointing something out that I find interesting. Whether some people disagree or not, it’s a trend that I, myself, a victim of long term abuse, have found in my own abusers and others.
danny_gil · 0 points · Posted at 14:41:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one is saying you can’t put your opinion out there. But to even start your post with “I think I have the answer”? I’m also a victim of long term abuse. No one has a definitive answer and yes. You sounded like you were excusing their behavior.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re the only person on this thread that has had a problem with it. I said I “think,” I have an answer, and explained.
danny_gil · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn’t the only one since you had to do an edit. I think /s maybe next time say in my experience. Instead of I have an answer without being an expert in the field. Cheers! I’m done here.
gingernetz · 16 points · Posted at 18:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father only saw my mother when he looked at me. So he was blinded by hurt. She cheated on him, lied to him, took his money and ran him bankrupt. And I'm the spitting image of her. So he was trying to beat her out of me. So I understood. Doesnt make it right, but I know what it's like to be blinded by hurt
thedamnoftinkers · 10 points · Posted at 20:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He needed to stop himself, though. He needed to realise you weren’t your mother and that you were an innocent child whom he needed to love and protect.
I get it. I have had to understand so many things that my parents have thrown my way. It’s a sign of sensitivity and maturity. But now I’m older, I recognise that understanding someone’s flaws deep down and forgiving them is the parent’s job, and that for us to have to do that was denying us a part of our childhood- to make us deal with that kind of pain, that’s childhood-ending in too many ways regardless.
I’m sorry your dad couldn’t be there for you. (Or your mom, by the sounds of it.) You did and still do deserve people in your life who will sacrifice for you and put you first.
gingernetz · 11 points · Posted at 20:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you very much. It means a lot. I hate to admit it, but it has had quite an impact on me. I cried to my boyfriend yesterday, and when I was done I was shocked. I kept asking how it was possible that he still loved me. And he just looked at me kind of dumbfounded and said "cuz I do." Its made me feel like I'm unlovable and just terrible. It sucks knowing my dad couldnt see that I'm different. Nor does he now. It really does suck. But hey. It happens. I see a therapist so I can get over it. People like you help too. I needed that today
thedamnoftinkers · 8 points · Posted at 21:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, friend, you are completely normal and very much okay and lovable! I don’t know why we both got the idea that for some reason we should be able to take the abuse and never show a pang. Understanding why someone is hurting us doesn’t make the pain go away. It might make it less personal, but we still have to go through it.
I just want you to know that I’m pulling for you and you’re not alone. It’s okay to be weak. It’s okay to hurt, as much as you really do. It’s okay to feel shameful for not being perfect. We’re only frail humans, after all. But still some of the strongest, most loving people I know, because loving someone as they abuse you, knowing they’re wrong, isn’t easy.
Notaspooon · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t accept your mother’s shame on guilt for yourself. You are not your moth. Your father was abusive to you. You need to feel angry and you need to confront him for what he did. Anger is natural reaction, if you try to run from it , then it will stay in your body making you depressed and anxious. You deserve love and happiness.
gingernetz · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk I'm not angry though. I just...get it. I'm just sad
Notaspooon · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that is the problem. Everyone gets angry. You have to get angry, that’s like necessary to be human and healthy again. I suggest you visit r/cptsd and read this book, Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse Book by Jackson MacKenzie. It’s great book.
gingernetz · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get angry. Just not about that. It just makes me sad more than anything. I feel okay, just sad. Ya know? I'll still read it tho
Notaspooon · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recurrent depression is symptom of child abuse though. I hope your sadness goes away soon as you process all this in therapy. Hope you find happiness. Don’t confuse anxiety with fear and depression with sadness though.
gingernetz · 2 points · Posted at 00:23:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!! I know I have depression and anxiety. Thanks so much
cmaria01 · 11 points · Posted at 17:54:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. What I find the most unnerving about this is it seems there are two types of abusers - one is someone who has anger problems and lack of self-control they get into fights, hit people and they do feel guilt - sometimes they get help and are able to stop sometimes not.
The other category are the people that hit, abuse and hurt without ever feeling guilt, self-control has nothing to do with it they just enjoy hurting. They don’t ever seek out help because they don’t see anything wrong with their actions - this category freaks me the fuck out.
Side note: happy cake day!
TheCleaner75 · 18 points · Posted at 18:36:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answer is entitlement. It’s not that they have a problem with anger. Everyone gets angry. It’s that they feel entitled to take their anger out on others.
Why Does He Act That Way? By Lundy Bancroft is a great book on abusive spouses, it can be generalized to lots of situations.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Completely true. I've dealt with done pretty shitty people who did some pretty shitty things and that's the common trend I realized. They feel entitled to do anything they want to you and tend to put you below them or dehumanize you so that they don't feel guilty.
Dani-Doodle-Dandy · 10 points · Posted at 18:28:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To piggyback on this: emotional and narcissistic abuse as well. Narcissists in general, honestly.
I just left a verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist, and even with reading everything I can consume about their behavior I can’t fathom how narcissists treat people who love them the way they do.
_ssac_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recommend you to see Dr. Ramani´s videos on the subjet. She has a youtube channel.
Dani-Doodle-Dandy · 2 points · Posted at 19:15:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yes — great recommendation! I found her a few weeks ago. Very informative, and I think my brain understands it but my emotions don’t, ya know?
_ssac_ · 1 points · Posted at 09:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I´m sure about what emotions you talk about. Maybe since it was your partner that you probably would give him (her) another chance? If it´s that, I can understand, yeah. I´ve seen it before in a close friend, BTW.
In my experience, when you´re in a relationship with someone like that you don´t understand anything. Learning about behavior patterns is a great help to recognize them.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 18:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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guineaworm88 · -13 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hopefully someone does that to you one day. And doesn’t give a fuck.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 7 points · Posted at 18:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To exert control.
MylastAccountBroke · 8 points · Posted at 18:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a lot of ways.
Some people were abused as children, and view abuse as normal.
Others have different wiring in their brains, and can't control outburst because the wiring to assist with that just isn't there.
Some people were never taught that hurting others is bad. Yes, they were told, but they never internalized the lesson.
Some people just see it as the best way to accomplish a goal, and genuinely don't care that they are hurting people. They just care that they got their way.
iwasacatonce · 7 points · Posted at 19:01:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's usually a ton of guilt. If you really get down to it with most abusive people, they hate themselves and their actions. There are just layers and layers of defense mechanisms built on top of it so they can cope with their own behavior. One of the most common mechanisms is to double down on their actions, continuing the cycle of abuse.
supadupa66 · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the majority of physical abuse starts from emotional abuse.
Abusers have a great tendency to put the blame on the abused. It can start off with a sharp word or a look, and they are so utterly convinced that you're the one in the wrong and you are hurting them on purpose with anything you do or say.
It evolves into physical after the abuser has tried for so long and so hard to get you to understand the things you wear or the stuff you say or think is bad, and because in their mind you are doing it to cause them emotional pain, they feel its justified, or even NEEDED to give you physical pain to show what you're doing to them.
To the abuser, you've caused this. You made them hit you. You made them lose control. You made this happen and this is what you deserve for what you've done to them.
It's a completely fucked way of thinking, but to them it's right.
In my experience, they dont change, I have the scars to prove it. To anyone in that situation please just fucking run.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 16:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be this person.
People joke about having anger issues. But when you actually have them, you literally lose control of yourself. You just physically lash out over whatever pushed your buttons.
Your triggers could be anything as serious as someone spitting in your face to something as stupid as someone eating the last 2 slices of pizza. And boom, you're swinging away.
The worst of it is, what triggers you one day could have you laughing the next. There's no rhyme or reason to it. And after it happens, you immediately start rationalizing how the person deserved it.
How it's their fault you lashed out. How they should have known better than to do the thing they did. How you didn't mean to hit them as hard as you did. How it's their fault for not fighting back (though that just leads to more abuse). How it's their fault for not running away.
aboxacaraflatafan · 9 points · Posted at 19:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never been a hitter (I tend more toward yelling), but I need to tell you how much this spoke to me. It's like I'm reading a description of me. I've been working on it for years, and my anger problem isn't causing issues anymore like it used to, but the anger still makes appearances now and again. Even while I keep it under control, I can feel it seething underneath, and the guilt doesn't care whether I keep it under control- it comes anyway.
It's easier than it used to be, and I have plenty of motivation to keep working on it, but I think there may always be at least some internal struggle.
Yours was the first description from someone who's actually experienced it that felt familiar. I can't really explain why, but I appreciate it so much. Thank you, dude.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm glad to hear that!
I've found the same in my experience. The best line of Avengers to me was Bruce Banner: That's my secret. I'm always angry.
Learning, and accepting, that the anger would always be there was the hardest part of learning to control.
It's a battle I've been fighting for 27 years. And in my experience you're correct.
That's why I post about my past when something like this comes up. So others know they're not alone, and hopefully I can help those who are going through the same thing, so they don't go as deep in as I did.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yikes, that's pretty scary
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, yes it is.
From both sides it's scary.
HateFilledSquirrel · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say you used to be this person -- may I ask how you overcame it? I know someone like this and I'm interested in what sort of things might be beneficial to them if they ever open up to the idea of working on themselves. I totally understand if you'd rather not share though. :)
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure. First, I had to admit I had a problem. Until the person sees they have a problem, there's not much can be done.
Unfortunately for me, it took a trip to prison before I admitted I had one. When you're facing multiple charges of simple battery & child abuse, and facing losing your freedom for decades, it's a real eye opener.
As for overcoming it? Court mandated anger management classes, one on one time with a shrink, learning my triggers, paying attention to my triggers, and finding a way to burn off that building rage.
For me it was walking. When I started learning my triggers and realized I was close to snapping, I'd go for a walk. And just kept walking til I burned off the energy from the rage.
During those first weeks I was walking 3+ hours at a time. Over time it got to where I needed shorter walks to cool down. Now pacing across the room a couple of times is enough to get things back in control.
HateFilledSquirrel · 3 points · Posted at 20:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for sharing! I'm sorry all that happened, I can imagine it wasn't an easy adjustment. That being said, this internet stranger is proud of you for recognizing that something had to change and being strong enough to see it through. I'll keep this in mind if my friend ever asks for advice.
Koala-Girls-Branch · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for posting this. I also used to be this person. I was filled with anger and self-loathing but took it out on everyone around me. Tons of therapy, coming out of the closet, and figuring out coping mechanisms changed my life for the better. I'm happy you've also found ways to manage your anger and recover😊
dannicalliope · 8 points · Posted at 18:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a hard time killing the wasps that build nests in my kids’ playset. Like... I feel sorry for them when they’re dying and their nests are melting and their larvae is drying out.
I could never actually hurt a person unless I really desperate to keep them from hurting me.
doug1963 · 11 points · Posted at 17:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abusers lack empathy.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep and they have a really distorted view of the victim, they think everything is the victim's fault
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t need to be incapable of empathy to be an asshole.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most asshole-ish behaviours come from a lack of awareness or care for how ones actions affect others. Call that what you will.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ignorance, really. Or just plain apathy. Even if you’re incapable of empathy you can learn the difference between right and wrong.
Datblokewhointernets · 9 points · Posted at 17:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those kinds of people tend to be very narcissistic, one symptom being that they have absolutely no empathy at all.
I've had a similar issue with my grandparents. They've rarely been physically abusive, but mainly verbal, particularly towards my mum (their Daughter in law) as well as tried to gaslight me about what was really going on. They refuse to admit any wrong doing as well as playing the victim card to anyone else on the matter.
Despite all this they just can't seem to fathom just why we no longer visit or talk to them
maddamleblanc · 4 points · Posted at 19:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was stuck in an abusive relationship and had a kid with her. She made bad choices and we left. I don't get it either. I could never hit her back even though I wanted to some times. I just could never bring myself to hurt her when I knew how broken she became. She got into drugs and went to a really bad place. Had we stayed she would have probably killed me or my daughter. I still can't hate her.
It's not just physical abuse that I don't get. It's also the mental aspect of it. Like how are you going to sit there and say/do things to someone that intentionally hurts them? I always tried to make sure she was taken care of because she was my daughter's mother but she didn't want to take care of herself or her family in the end. Drugs do stuff to people. I also don't get how people start up on drugs that they know will destroy them either.
I guess this all goes into my "I don't understand people" answer too.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes they do feel remorse after the fact and buy their children or girlfriends gifts and be super sweet until the next thing sets them off. They let emotions get the best of them and they do it again. It’s part of the abuse
caffeine_lights · 3 points · Posted at 19:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cycle of abuse - there is guilt BUT the person also feels secretly justified in what they did. Like how you feel guilty when you punish your kids even though you know it's the right thing to help them learn (I don't mean hitting here, BTW - grounding or cancelling some fun thing makes you feel like the bad guy all by itself.)
mbinder · 3 points · Posted at 19:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't understand why people have children if they so obviously don't want them and abuse or neglect them. It's not like anyone made you have kids - just don't have them and you're fine. You can live life however you want and have fun, and you're not hurting anyone.
ColinHenrichon · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will one up that, just how selfish and self-centered some people can be. I see on the news and in real life as a minimum wage coffee shop employee just how rude, violent, and plain ignorant people can be. How can you do something, and have no regret afterwards, or the even think about what you did and how it negatively affects people?
Squirrelonastik · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hurt people hurt people.
Humans have a terrible habit of passing their heart aches and traumas to others.
FeatherShard · 5 points · Posted at 20:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who was once a raging, abusive asshole... it's not something you think about. People often say it's about feeling control, and then those who don't understand think the thought process actually goes something like "This situation is out of my hands, so I'm going to hit this person/animal/whatever to fix that." It's just that you lash out at whatever has "wronged" you, and that takes the edge off the situation. And sometimes there is guilt, but that just makes it worse. You then either have to lash out at yourself, which would be counter-productive, or at whatever's around you that you can project blame on (not saying this is productive, it's just kind of how it appears in the mind of the person doing it).
For me, I was raised in a pretty abusive situation and so it was one of the only coping mechanisms that I learned early on. I've gotten a lot better, but The Asshole Within is always threatening to run rampant if I let him off the chain.
Ambassador_of_Mercy · 2 points · Posted at 18:03:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In the way of my dad I believe it's because he never loved me and thus relates every bad thing that happens in his life back to me. It's very clear that he wanted a daughter than a son because my younger sister has a hugely better relationship with him than I do.
He hates me so whenever my sister does something a bit stupid I do something worse on purpose so that my dad doesn't stop loving her and puts all his beatings and mental abuse on me instead of her. She hates me for it, my dad calls me an attention whore for it and she agrees ahaha, she always thinks the bad things I do are because I don;t love her. I already know I'm a supreme solar fucker of an excuse of a human being, so their hatred of me has kinda stopped bothering me now, I guess it still hurts sometimes but I kinda just bury it, haven't cried in 3 years and I don't intend to start doing it again now lmao
But yeah he doesn't feel guilty about it, I can completely understand why honestly, I'm not a good person and he never wanted me so I can completely understand why he lays it on me whenever he get's slightly stressed or annoyed, I do deserve it ahaha
Edit: He calls it discipline and good parenting, so I was wondering if it's similar with other teens that are shitty people and/or that have parents that don't love them?
TakeOffYourMask · 3 points · Posted at 19:18:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s good to cry though.
I hope you find people who treat you well and vice versa.
Ambassador_of_Mercy · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah it's no big deal honestly, I deserve what I get, it was more just an insight into what people think, sometimes they have good reasons
Notaspooon · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check r/cptsd. Life is about self discovery. Start journey to understand yourself. In the end you will find yourself and be happy. Success means happiness.
tacoheroXX · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reading through this thread late, but this made me pause. Don't try to be a martyr for your sister. It will only lead to resentment for everyone in the future, while dragging you down in the meantime. It's hard but you need to focus on doing good for yourself and finding a way out.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a bully growing up. Was quite violent in my younger years and still have a temper that I have to keep in check. Though never abused a woman ive started a lot of fights with men and done some shit things. A lot of it comes from self hatred and feeling like you need to hurt someone so they can feel how you feel. For me it was like “I’m not happy so you’re not gonna be either”. When I was younger I also just liked the idea of fighting and thought it was cool to fight people. I was a boxer and my father trained me from the time I could hold my hands up (he was a heavy weight champion). So I knew how to fight long before I needed too. Knowing that I was almost always guaranteed to win the fight I started made me more comfortable starting fights as well. Today tho I’m a hermit and try my best to avoid human contact.
mylittleplaceholder · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not nearly to the same extent, but how people can just be complete assholes to other people online. Why not assume good intentions?
Also, griefing or trolling. Why antagonize people for your own jollies?
_Kouki · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've accidentally punch my ex in the face a few times, and felt so fucking awful about it even though she knew it was an accident.
There's no way I could purposely beat someone.
Also, for the curious: one punch was when I was asleep. I stretched out my arm and smacked her in the jaw. The second time I went to throw a ball for her dog to catch, and in the process of me throwing and trying to not get attacked by the dog, I swung a little wide and knocked her in the jaw again. The third time I was lifting my arm up and she leaned over at the same time and hit her. I always felt so awful about it.
SempiternalSunsets · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drives me crazy seeing people intentionally hurt others or animals for no good reason.
thewhitecat55 · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean .... just the fact that to you "hitting" equals abuse means your attitude is not the same as many people.
I know many people who see a spanking or light physical punishment as normal. Or mutual combat fighting to be normal-ish.
mickmack321 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait who’s Selina again
I_hate_traveling · 8 points · Posted at 14:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I suppose there's usually some back-n-forth between that in most cases.
Not that I condone it, but I can definitely understand why someone might hit someone else who was pushing their buttons.
FerrisB00bler · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you.
Several months ago, one of my dogs walked over and fully pissed all over the book I was reading. I saw red, started screaming, and tried to smack him but he was cowering and snapped at me, biting my finger. I grabbed him and threw him out of the house... and then burst into tears because he was soooo scared of me. He had to have been absolutely terrified to actually bite me. I immediately scooped him up and apologized for screaming but I felt horrible. I have spent every day since then worrying that he'll remember me screaming at him and trying to slap him and it will give him nightmares. He was a rescue, found with a badly broken leg that needed extensive surgery, and we always figured he had come from a neglectful and possibly abusive household given the extent of the injury and the lack of care, along with the fact that he was dumped in a cardboard box and nothing else. I am meant to be his protector. Instead, I frightened him. The guilt I feel over screaming and trying to strike him literally keeps me up at night (although he honestly seemed to forget as soon as I picked him up and brought him inside). My finger has healed but I almost wish it had scarred.
I can't imagine how I would have felt if I'd actually landed the blow. I will never raise my hand against him again, and I can't imagine how someone else could do the same to their pets or kids or loved ones. My parents used to say spanking me "hurts us more than it hurts you" and if they felt a fraction of what I felt yelling at my dog, I believe it.
lostboy_v_ · 2 points · Posted at 15:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Thud2 · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there is guilt.
GodlikeRage · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can think of a few ideas
Issy1870 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day! Oh, and Selina can go fuck herself.
Man_with_lions_head · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clearly you're not a fan of the 3 Stooges.
That's ok, me, either. Not cuz of the hitting, just the stupidity of it. I don't like slapstick.
Sksai12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
RemusGT · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
GahdDangitBobby · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The abuser may feel a lack of control over his/her own life, therefore does anything in their power to claim control, even if it means manipulating/abusing others. This was the case with one of my previous bosses, but I'm sure there are other reasons people abuse others.
bob_is_best · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get some people can bear guilt and stuff but sometimes the reasons are so weak
Plumage25 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anger can cloud your mind like crazy, you don’t know what you’re doing until after. Some people do feel regret but there are some people that have been angry for so long that they don’t care or know how much they’re hurting the other person
PenelopeGarcia65 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have a pleasant baked good 24 hours.
GarbledReverie · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand how a moment of catharsis can overwhelm empathy. But I really can't get long sustained antipathy. Even with people I think are evil dipshits, part of me assumes there's something wrong with them to make them that way, and wishes they could get better.
The_Trevbone · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there is always a bit of guilt involved really. The abuser just either doesn't care or shuts it out.
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These people learn that it's normal from their parents.
Neorem · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have a nice cake day
iwantdiscipline · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Substances, tunnel vision, lack of self awareness, being preoccupied with your own mental state / distress to notice or empathize the harm they’re causing others, inability to express and process emotions in a healthy mature manner.
My dad would beat the shit out of me when I was and I knew he felt bad about it later. He would rationalize the beating and if he didn’t he would try to like brush it off using other signs of love like buying me a guitar. It kept happening because he would get enraged due to stress and physically and verbally abuse the whole family.
My first ex also became verbally abusive when work stress piled on and he would rage, scream “fuck you” or “shut the fuck up” in my face, destroy things, turn the car around, etc. despite me never raising my voice and then he’d profusely apologize and start crying. Also he never identified as being abusive because it wasn’t physical abuse.
Fatbooftoker · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who abuse often were around it more so they get used to it.
BiggestUwUEnergy · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me feeling bad every time I hit an animal crossing villager with my net
EliasSanez1109 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
Fig1024 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have no empathy. It's like playing a video game, you probably have no problem killing other people in multiplayer games, some people are like that in real life
shexna · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why you would be the victim of it for years.
Fatherchristmassdad · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! I can’t believe how many people I know who say their partners seem to enjoy antagonising them to the point of tears or anger and try to pass it off as just kidding.
How is seeing somebody you apparently love upset in the slightest way enjoyable? I simply cannot get my head around it.
Malt___Disney · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually it was done to them
The_Pundertaker · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's the slow escalation of abuse that kind of desensitizes both the abuser and the victim to it over time as it gets worse. Most abusive relationships start normal and get more and more toxic over time. So what starts somewhat normal like raising your voice slightly in an argument turns into yelling or playful teasing turns into full on degrading someone over the course of the relationship.
I think some abusers also aren't aware of what they're doing, people who have rough backgrounds sometimes think that what they're doing is normal.
We also live in a society that tends to promote a lot of early signs of abuse in a relationship like it's perfectly normal. Stuff like demanding to look through a partner's phone/emails (denial of privacy) or being clingy and overprotective of a partner (socially isolating a victim) are textbook actions of an abuser that a lot of people tend to normalize and accept as commonplace.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
memx2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
pussytsunami27 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The worst thing is, sometimes they do feel a huge amount of guilt after. Then you’re in a situation where you want to help them, but they don’t wanna help themselves, and you can’t stay because it’s not safe. You don’t want to leave because they feel guilt or again, it’s not safe. It’s a mindfuck. It’s hard to get out of an abusive situation once you’re in it. Even if you’re super strong and independent. It’s a trap.
Dykannn · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
vallyallyum · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
fjb92989 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life was forever changed by my first and only real relationship. Things ended poorly without much communication and my brain doesn’t let things go. I never understood how someone who once supposedly cared about me could deliberately do their best to crush me emotionally. She blocked me on all outlets and never helped me to put things to rest. Flash forward 11 years and I’m still struggling to move on. I’m too embarrassed to date again because I have nightmares and talk/yell in my sleep almost every night...most of the time about her. I’ve been on meds for a while but all they do is make me kinda numb during the day. I can’t remember the last time I was excited about anything.
So yea, I don’t get it either.
Oh and you know what I find most ironic about it all? After changing majors a few times she eventually went into mental health. Like, really? I was flabbergasted when I heard that.
tenaj255l · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
cmoncalmdown · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gives you a sense of power
noganetpasion · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had an abusive girlfriend when I was 15, batshit crazy, took pills and was commited, the whole package. One day she was physically abusing me and that day I snapped and hit her in the hand. She was grabbing my wrist and had her other hand in the table, and I made a fist and hit her with a hammer-like motion. I smashed her hand like a bug.
18 years later I steel feel guilty for hitting her.
Violent people are just socipaths.
daltonthekidd · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still remember the first time my girlfriend asked me to choke her in bed, I was crying but my dick was still hard. Overall 3/10 I just feel guilty
farside57 · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately there are people who are born without the capacity to feel empathy. Some develop it through an abusive upbringing. I can't get my ahead around not having that either
distorted_hippi · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First off, happy cake day, second, there are so many people out there that for whatever reason (traumatic childhood or experience) have a broken or nonexistent moral compass, which causes lack of empathy or emotion in doing something considered morally wrong
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you were raised that way, a lot of people have grown up with violence or self confidence mixed with desicion on no ethics.
jaecarys · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anger issues, revenge, mental disorders, drug abuse, etc. The list goes on. But you’re usually in bad position overall if you abuse people.
oldoneswake · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it happens as reactive behavior. When I was growing up, I used to beat my little brother up all the time. Most folks will dismiss that as what brother's do, but I did not learn for many years that it was the way I was dealing with the rage of being abused by my stepfather. I abused my brother. Now, we have made amends as adults, but abuse usually has a root cause and none of them are pretty.
silverrfire09 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
they don't believe they're wrong. my verbally abusive dad hit me once - not hard - and I told him if he ever did that again he would never see me again.
he cried, and my step mom went to talk to him and when she came out she told me I should apologize for hurting his feelings. so then it was my fault in both their eyes. somehow.
GrowProHero · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a huge lack of empathy in modern society
brawnandbrain · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once, in a fit of heat, I smacked my dog on the head because it had a hold of my boot and wouldn’t let go. Then I cried and apologized for at least 10 minutes like a filthy abuser. I still feel guilty about it.
[deleted] · 1153 points · Posted at 14:07:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how Reddit karma is calculated
ErohaTamaki · 650 points · Posted at 16:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a new upvote/downvote is worth less karma after a certain amount of time and then its value constantly decreases until it's worth 0 karma
Also they have a cap to how much karma you can get from one comment/post
youneedananswer · 112 points · Posted at 19:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...but why? I mean, what's the point of making karma worth less? Isn't it just a counter for how popular something is? And even if karma becomes worth less if you get more, a post with 10.001 karma is still considered more popular than a post with 10.000 karma, no?
ErohaTamaki · 70 points · Posted at 19:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its because people are more likely to see something that has more upvotes, so it would be unfair to give them the same about of karma from an upvote
CommissarRaziel · 30 points · Posted at 01:57:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, i get it.
It's to prevent the snowball effect that happens with viral posts and comments. Post gets a greater than normal upvote count -> post gets more exposure -> post gets even more upvotes -> and so on and so forth
ErohaTamaki · 18 points · Posted at 02:02:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is indeed the main point, and also it is to prevent people from getting downvote bombed by someone (basically where someone goes onto your profile and downvotes all the posts and comments you have made in the last 6 months)
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 04:00:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That kind of behavior should be a shadowban for those mofos. Don't even tell them that all of their upvotes/downvotes now have zero value
ErohaTamaki · 6 points · Posted at 04:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can get shadowbanned for it (the list of things you get shadowbanned for is here), but a Reddit admin has to shadowban someone personally
Doctah_Whoopass · 4 points · Posted at 14:26:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There should be an ultrashadowban where you occasionally get responses from bots so you dont think youre shadowbanned.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 05:14:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But like who cares? It’s all worthless
tohones82 · 46 points · Posted at 19:37:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure that EA proved there's no lower cap. Finding out there's no bottom limit must have given them a sense of pride and accomplishment
Wynardtage · 28 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There's no caps to the quantity of upvotes/downvotes a post can receive...but there are both upper and lower limits to how much your profile karma changes based on a single post/comment.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 4 points · Posted at 01:12:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma's weight matrix tends to 0 as the karma tends to infinity.
flare2000x · 9 points · Posted at 21:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The post didn't hit a limit but the account total karma didn't go down by that much.
DanPlaysVGames · 4 points · Posted at 01:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To stop trolling and downvote bait, downvotes only count until -100. After that they're counted for display but not for the user's karma.
OldBearded · 119 points · Posted at 17:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't need to worry about a cap when nobody... upvotes... me...
Girthderth · 52 points · Posted at 18:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice try buddy.
ErohaTamaki · 16 points · Posted at 17:33:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I gave you an upvote
Ooer · 5 points · Posted at 18:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that’s roughly how the hot algorithm works, but not what karma gets attributed to a user’s profile.
mayoayox · 5 points · Posted at 19:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's that cap? Let's find out!
DanPlaysVGames · 5 points · Posted at 01:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
-100 (any more are just for display). There is no upper cap but they "lose power" so the 10000th upvote isn't worth as much as the 1st or second.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:22:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the 10000th upvote is maybe worth like 1/10th of the first? That seems...counterintuitive.
butsuon · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
just post more 4Head
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
By certain amount of time do you mean literally? Like an upvote a month later is worth 1/10th of an immediate one?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 10:40:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah its basically that but I don't know the rate it decreases
unicorn_in-training · 11 points · Posted at 21:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had no idea until reading this and the replies that karma isn't just 1 upvote = 1 karma point 😮🤯
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:55:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait I thought Reddit karma was just upvotes minus downvotes for any particular post/comment
ObnoxiousOrk · 2 points · Posted at 23:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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hejmeddej · -15 points · Posted at 18:41:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 upvote is 1 karma and 1 downvote is -1 karma.
Then after a few dimays you cant get them anymore from that post/comment
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. They constantly "fuzz" the karma so that it's harder for bots to manipulate. Sometimes it'll stay at 1, then randomly jump to 2, etc. Back in the days when most popular Reddit posts got like 8k karma, you could go on the OP's account, and see that they didn't receive that 8k karma, it was always lower.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Screw you for your misunderstanding, I'm going to downvotes you!
Seriously, now I don't even know if people are downvoting you or not anymore. Another thing I genuinely do not understand
Thanks OP
[deleted] · 1057 points · Posted at 16:43:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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daniel4sight · 834 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always think of it as some kind of invisible man stabbing your cells depending on how close you get.
glitterlipgloss · 228 points · Posted at 19:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thanks
NostraDavid · 49 points · Posted at 23:24:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Note: That only counts for ionized radiation. Radio waves is technically radiation too, as is Wifi and 4G, but aren't ionized and thus causes no harm. Same with the new 5G networks.
PS: This is probably a simplification of the full truth, but it's the gist of it :)
[deleted] · 37 points · Posted at 23:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this the same new fangled 5G the Facebook moms say cause the coronavirus?
Fuzzhead326 · 18 points · Posted at 00:00:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes
BasherSquared · 5 points · Posted at 05:55:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just had to explain this to a co-worker that is a conspiracy theorist.
JakubSwitalski · -2 points · Posted at 00:16:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean technically? It's very much radiation by every definition. Also radiation may be ''ionising'' meaning energetic enough to cause the separation of outermost electrons from their atoms, or ''non-ionising'', not ''ionised''. 👍
Dethendecay · 13 points · Posted at 01:57:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
technically is just a phrase. you’re both technically right, you were just technically condescending about it. get it?
NostraDavid · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recognize that when the regular population (Reddit/Facebook) mentions "radiation" it usually refers to "ionized radiation coming from radioactive material" (depending on context, of course) instead of radiation in the (broader) scientific context. :)
If you use "radiation" as scientific jargon is fine, but you have to take the current context into consideration - are you talking to regular folk or specialists? Is the thread talking about Chernobyl or 5G? Etc.
This is why I hate people who use the "Racism = Prejudice + Power" definition of racism, because that's a definition that is commonly only used in Sociology, so if you claim "black people can't be racist" you're just trolling, instead of informing people, no matter one's intention.
In short: Please be careful when using jargon within an informal setting - you may unintentionally mislead people :)
daniel4sight · 31 points · Posted at 19:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem!
ReallyBadAtReddit · 54 points · Posted at 22:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more like a tiny guy with a bunch of guns shooting in every direction. The closer you get, the more likely the bullets are going to hit you instead of something else. The bullets are really small but still dangerous because they can shoot your DNA, and DNA is important.
Dumbgrondjokes · 28 points · Posted at 22:44:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the little guy shoots a bunch of holes in your DNA, now your cells can’t replicate and heal yourself because the blueprints are full of holes... so you’re fucked, but still alive
Fra23 · 23 points · Posted at 23:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fortunally, while you get hit by stray bullets all the time, they rarely do damage and when they do, it's usually something where your body engineers say "Eh, propably wasn't important. Seems like legacy code from the bananas"
idk_im_bad_at_names · 50 points · Posted at 20:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is the funniest way of putting it and i will immediately start using this analogy
glintsCollide · 9 points · Posted at 22:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's only ionised radiation though, the bad high energy kind. Then there's regular old friendly radiation, such as light, the whole electro magnetic spectrum, all the way from ultra violet, to your kitchen light, to radio waves to microwaves, it's all the same stuff at different wave lengths. No stabbing.
Hapique · 3 points · Posted at 03:05:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sunlight is friendly only because of the ozone layer.
glintsCollide · 1 points · Posted at 07:29:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything depends on the dosage and duration, the point is, it's all made of the same stuff, including the more harmful wave lengths. Ionising radiation on the other hand, is a different beast.
Orthas · 8 points · Posted at 22:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's... Not that far off
Darkdiamondwolf · 8 points · Posted at 23:00:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the man has 3 different knives all with their own sharpness a lenght
krustylotus · 6 points · Posted at 23:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to think of it as little tiny bullets going through me. Pew pew.
daniel4sight · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pew Pew, I'm sorry, Mario, but your brother has brain cancer.
Leowong8225 · 5 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perfect
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very tiny man, with a very tiny weapon
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He likes his personal space.
Starbourne8 · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except not all radiation is invisible. Everything you see is radiation. Green is radiation.
felixorion · 56 points · Posted at 21:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'll try to keep it as simple as I can, but understand that I might be leaving out some intricacies.
Most radiation that you're probably familiar with is electromagnetic radiation. This is basically just "light" but as you change the wavelength your eyes can't detect it and we call it different things (radio waves, x-rays, microwave, infrared, ultraviolet, etc.), but they're all fundamentally the same general phenomenon as light.
Radiation, as it refers to with respect to things like nuclear power or radioactive materials, can be thought of as "particle radiation". Unstable atoms will regularly spit off chunks of themselves; how often they will do so can be described as a material's half-life and we can also describe the exact type of radiation they give off by what gets shot out. So, this type of radiation shoots out things with an actual mass, where as electromagnetic radiation does not. (Sometimes atoms will also spit off really high energy electromagnetic radiation called gamma rays and have no change in mass.)
What makes particle radiation and high energy electromagnetic radiation so dangerous is that they can physically react with the atoms and molecules in your body and ionize them. This can lead to mutation (not the cool comic book kind, but the kind that leads to cancer) and other complications to your health.
jrizos · 10 points · Posted at 00:15:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. Thanks. What I don't understand is where particle radiation "energy" comes from. When they say there is nuclear decay and a half life of something, I'm like, when did the clock start on this piece of Uranium you found in the ground? Big bang?
nosam56 · 14 points · Posted at 00:25:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the same guy, and also not an expert, but as far as I understand the clock "starts" when the atom is created in a sun or in a supernova or something, or from another atom that decayed
somerandomname1112 · 6 points · Posted at 01:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is essentially true. I’ll give a concrete example: the decay of Cs-137. This nuclide is produced as a result of U-235 fission. It has about a ~30 year half-life. Intro nuclear students learn that the decay emits a very specific energy (662 keV photon). What they do not often teach is that the photon is actually emitted Ba-137m. Ba-137m has a half-life of ~2.5 mins. If the clock didn’t start when the nuclide is created, and started at say when the parent was created (in this example the parent is Cs-137 and daughter is Ba-137m) we would never measure the 662 keV photon at a time greater than 25 mins (10 half-lives of Ba-137m).
ArcadiusTyler · 5 points · Posted at 05:17:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
what
zerozerotsuu · 2 points · Posted at 11:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think he’s saying that Cs-137 decays into Ba-137m, but you skip that step when talking about it because Ba-137m quickly decays into something else. The specific radiation is attributed to Cs-137 even though it actually comes from the interim step of Ba-137m.
Because we still see the radiation from Ba-137m after long times, the ‘clock’ that determines the decay must only start once Ba-137m is formed and not when the ‘parent’ Cs-137 is formed, or else the Ba-137m would be gone even faster.
ArcadiusTyler · 1 points · Posted at 13:58:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh That actually makes sense.
LoukasDoukas · 5 points · Posted at 01:14:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation "energy" comes from the mass of the thing radiating. Everyone and their mother is familiar with E = mc2 (I hope) but what this means is that anything with mass (which is almost everything) has energy. And c is the speed of light, so c2 is a big number, which means it has a lot of energy. You can think of it a bit like burning coal. The energy comes from the coal itself, and when your finished you are left with less than when you start, except in stead of breaking chemical bonds (in coal) you are breaking nuclear bonds. As for "when did the clock start" it sounds to me like you might have a slight misconception the meaning of "Half Life". It does not mean (as the name might imply) half the time of the life of the material, but rather the amount of time it takes for the material to reduce by half. (Simple maths can convince us these are not the same, if I have 16 grapes and eat half the remaining grapes every 10 minutes (meaning our grapes have a half life of 10mins), I will take 50 minutes to eat all the grapes, so it would take 25 minutes for the grapes to be half way gone). Hope this is somewhat helpful :)
jrizos · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
super helpful, thanks. I guess half life is a constant, not something at some indeterminate state of fractioning. In other words, there is no "young" and "old" U235, it's just constantly weeping energy from nuclear decay? Whether it was forged a billion years ago or just yesterday in my nuclear reactor?
LEGOEPIC · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Individual atoms decay randomly, you could have a brand new U235 atom formed just seconds ago decay immediately, and another atom that lasts for millions of years before decaying. the half life is just an experimentally determined measure of the average time until half the atoms in a sample have decayed.
PsychMan92 · 1 points · Posted at 08:32:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been waiting a couple years for someone to say something like this—specifically, I’ve been curious as to what catalyzes this? I’ve found this hard to get an in-depth answer. Forgive any ignorances I may have on the matter.
You say they’re random, but I can’t shake the feeling that if I had the ability to manipulate and track individual atoms of U235, I’d could “poke it” and make it decay. In this example, by what means would I “poke” the atom to make it decay short of bombarding it neutrons and heating it up? (Namely because atoms presumably do this in rocks underground without the assistance of heat/energized particles.) CERTAINLY, there is something specific that makes an atom decay, it’s just that it happens to some atoms sooner than others. I have a hard time buying that it’s “perfectly random.” (I have the same qualms about quantum mechanic in the sense that what these particle physicists say about the randomness of the quantum world leads me to believe they’re simply missing a piece of the puzzle. I don’t see the universe lending itself to “perfectly consistent randomness,” but that’s a whole other issue.)
When the U235 is sitting in a rock underground, SOMETHING has to trigger the decay. Could it be something we can’t easily detect? Maybe a neutrino made a lucky landing and knocked something loose? Or, a seemingly negligible change in thermal energy? Again, forgive my ignorance—I’m far from knowing what I’m talking about. For all I know, this mechanism of action is well/fully understood, but I simply can’t find a succinct answer this specific question. I humbly ask your best explanation or a good place to start looking!
LEGOEPIC · 2 points · Posted at 13:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The best place to start looking is in a particle physics lab (preferably with at least a masters in particle physics). You can’t find a succinct answer because there isn’t one, at all. There might be something that triggers radioactive decay and would allow us to predict it, but if there is we haven’t discovered it (and may not ever, there are certain limitations to our inherent ability to detect things that makes study of very small stuff difficult).
EDIT to address some specific points:
Then I hope you patented that tech, because you’re going to be the richest particle physicist on the planet! Joking aside, we just don’t have the capability to do this right now. The most powerful microscope in the world, the transmission electron microscope at Lawrence Berkeley National Lab can barely produce images of individual atoms, but the nucleus (the part you need to study to learn about radioactive decay) is completely indistinguishable. Manipulating them is a whole other beast. There is no precise method to manipulate a single specific atom of anything.
You’re most likely right here, but there’s nothing simple about it. There’s entire fields of scientific study devoted to developing better methods to studying this stuff, and so far none of them have been able to find a way to find this missing piece. As I mentioned above, it’s entirely possible we will never find it thanks to the inherent limits of our perception.
PsychMan92 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It’s greatly appreciated!
kahlzun · 4 points · Posted at 00:21:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the atoms were formed, usually a supernova. Big bang only made hydrogen.
dumbbobdumb · 3 points · Posted at 02:06:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
imagine radioactive substances, such as uranium, as a bunch of dice 🎲 (one die = one atom) that are rolled every second. If the die lands on 1, the atom decays, giving off radiation (the energy comes from mass turning into energy, or part of the atom breaking off). Otherwise the atom rolls it's die again the next second.
The number of dice remaining after t seconds if the half life is h and you start with d dice is Dice remaining = d(1/2)t/h The clock, t, starts at 0 the moment that you find out what d is.
Maybe like 177013 years ago, some god made 10000000000 atoms, and his clock started then. When you find these atoms, you count 10000 and your clock starts then. If you plug in God's d (1000000...) and t (177913 years, convert this value to seconds) to the above equation, you get the same as if you plug in your d (10000) and t (0). This is a cool thing about exponential functions.
I guess to really understand you need to take AP chemistry and calculus or algebra 2. I took algebra 2 and chemistry h, but am taking precalculus and ap physics cm.
jrizos · 3 points · Posted at 02:12:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that's really awesome. I didn't take those courses, but you do well to explain the exponential function.
Starfall669 · 1 points · Posted at 08:24:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The half life is not like a normal lifetime. It just says that of a certain amount of radioactive material, after one cycle of half life there should be only half the atoms left. But that is just probability, any instable atom could decay at any time. So there isn't really a clock.
HardlightCereal · 1 points · Posted at 16:14:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Half life isn't a clock, it's a chance. Each planc second, there's a particular chance that a given atom will decay and a particular chance that it won't. The chance is such that an atom with a half life of 1 year has a 50% chance of decaying in a year. So, if you have a lot of this element, after a year half of it will be gone. After 2 years 3/4 will be gone. After 3 years 7/8 will be gone. It's just a particular chance to decay each second.
LuftDrage · 49 points · Posted at 21:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it like this:
This fucking banana (bananas are radioactive) is really fucking mad so he’s throwing banana particles at me ouch. Eventually he gets less mad but is still throwing stuff just not as strong
I’m no expert, just trying to remember 9th grade science.
RiloxAres · 76 points · Posted at 17:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radioactivity comes from certain materials throwing particles away, literally yeeting them through the air while decaying to a lower energy state.
rmxg · 25 points · Posted at 20:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You lost me at "energy state"
penguiatiator · 35 points · Posted at 22:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of you exercising. You're spending a lot of energy, and as a result you're heating up, right? But you stop exercising, and you want to cool off, so you sweat.
Certain atoms also want to "cool off", and their version of sweat is chucking subatomic particles away from them.
jrizos · 3 points · Posted at 00:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but where did they get the energy to begin with? From being some other type of atom?
MotherTreacle3 · 8 points · Posted at 00:33:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They got it from the force of gravity smooshing a dying star into a supernova.
inspiredbythesky · 4 points · Posted at 00:46:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Important to understand: energy is neither created nor destroyed.
If you can grasp that, then physics becomes much easier to understand. So when that supernova collapses, the energy it contained gets transferred into those little particles because it can’t just disappear. Thus, that’s where your particles get their energy. (Simplified explanation)
HardlightCereal · 1 points · Posted at 16:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms are made of mass, and mass can be turned into energy. When atoms lose weight, the weight turns into energy and it has to go somewhere, so it becomes radiation
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the heat/explosive force come from, seeing that's what a nuclear bomb is, just a chain reaction of radioactive decay.
RiloxAres · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It comes from billions of atoms being forced to release their energy all at once, instead of over time like they do naturally.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
obviously. But what generates heat and force?
RiloxAres · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The energy released when each atom of uranium-235 is split. Energy is how excited particles are. When a shit load is released at once it spreads like a massive wave through everything, forcing particles to be more excited / heat up, and can straight up disintegrate particles close to the reaction.
HardlightCereal · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The atom is pushed in the opposite direction by Newton's third law
mkagi · 19 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Less shit to yeet
youre_a_burrito_bud · 16 points · Posted at 21:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like they're throwing sand at a piece of wood. It ever so slightly wears down the wood, but they also get tired so can't throw as much.
Attorex · 5 points · Posted at 21:51:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Essentially, radioactive materials have a lot of energy holding it's pieces together. There's a lot of forces holding it together, as well as pulling it apart. There's a lot of movement that normally happens at a really small level, and occasionally, there's a small chance that something gets out of place and is thrown out really hard. These ejected particles can damage cells if they hit them.
viveleroi · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do they cause damage?
powerLien · 6 points · Posted at 23:53:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They either punch a hole through the DNA directly, or they hit the water inside the cell, ionize it, and then the ionized water molecules mess with the DNA. Usually it just kills cells, but sometimes it hits the part of cell DNA that says "kill yourself after x amount of time" and makes it say "don't kill yourself, just keep dividing". That's how radiation is a big cancer risk.
Attorex · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhhhh I kinda know physics and nothing really about biology, but I've heard it damages the DNA within cells, so they can't reproduce, or they become cancerous cells
porenSpirit · 2 points · Posted at 02:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uranium yeets neurons until it can't anymore, then it becomes a piece of lead.
kahlzun · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theres this phenomenon called "quanta" that basically means that energy can only exist at certain levels, and because of this atoms lose "levels" of it, depending on how many of them are expelled from the atom
Pozos1996 · 2 points · Posted at 04:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation ≠ radioactive
OP Said radiation
adirondackbird · 19 points · Posted at 19:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not either until I watched HBO’s Chernobyl; understood fuck all and decided to read a book ABOUT the Chernobyl disaster - stumbled on an excellent book that actually explained radiation too and now I finally know how that shit operates and what humans thought up of doing with that knowledge that is not connected to obliterating stuff The book is Midnight in Chernobyl by Adam Higginbotham
penguiatiator · 5 points · Posted at 21:58:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine a dog shaking water from its fur, and there's a cake next to the doggo
If you stand close, the cake will get really wet and turn to mush. If you stand far away, the cake will get kinda wet and maybe will turn to mush a little, but nothing that can't be fixed.
If you put a sheet of paper between the doggo and the cake, the big droplets will get on the cake but the small droplets will get the paper wet. Anyways, you need to swap the sheet of paper out for a dry one if you're going to repeat the process.
If you have a lead lined concrete wall between the cake and doggo, the cake is gonna stay dry.
Now, imagine the doggo is an atom, and the water droplets it's shaking off are also atoms. The cake is your cells. If the cake gets too wet, it turns to mush. If your cell gets too irradiated, it also turns to mush.
Cancer caused by radiation is the cake getting wet but looking like it's not mushy, so you don't throw it away. But when you eat the cake it turns out it's been multiplying like one of those spiders that explode into a million babies. The metaphor may have broken up a little at the end, but you get the idea.
kahlzun · 2 points · Posted at 00:23:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's actually a pretty good metaphor
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you blew up your ball pit and little pieces all come flying out. Some kill you because they are moving really fast. Some kill you because they are made of really energetic light. Some kill you because they are really sticky because of the pee and they get inside you and stick to your DNA and wreck it.
babypunch69 · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m probably sort of wrong but I’m pretty sure it’s particles moving so fast that they can travel between other particles and fuck them up. Cause they’re just like bouncing around at an insane speed
PhysicsIsBeauty · 3 points · Posted at 22:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From wiki:
So, anything that waves(like sound) or anything small that travels through space (like electrons) is radiation.
I've actually seen a lot of terminology in common when studying ultrasounds and radiation physics. For example, the term radiation dose exists in both fields.
Certain radiation types, like high energy photons (photons are "particles of light") can rip off electrons from your atoms/molecules and proteins. These electrons go on to collide with even more atoms/molecules, ripping off more electrons on the way.
Having a bunch of electrons bouncing around in your tissue is not good. They will damage your DNA, potentially causing cancer.
To top it all off, the molecules that lose their electron rarely are happy about it, so they also reek havok on your cells.
Examples of radiation:
Simplest way to create radiation: turn on a lamp. .
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms have protons in their nucleus, protons all have positive charges so they repel each other.
This isn't a problem for smaller atoms because there's not many protons, plus, neutrons are nice to stabilize things. However, when the atom is really thicc, like Uranium, there's gonna be a crap ton of repulsion going on in its nucleus because theres a LOT of protons.
This makes heavy atoms (heavier than lead iirc) unstable, this makes it shoot away some stuff so it can become more stable, this often involves a proton being shot away meaning that the radioactive atom just turned into another lighter atom, this is known as radioactive decay.
Particles being yeeted off the nucleus of radioactive material can bump into the structure of the DNA inside your cells and fuck them up a bit, giving you a decent chance of developing cancer.
Alternatively, since neutrons are nice to stabilize nucleus, some lighter elements can also be radioactive if they don't have their "standard" number of neutrons. These alternative versions of atoms are known as isotopes. For example, Carbon usually has an atomic mass of 12, made up of 6 protons and 6 neutrons, but there's isotopes like carbon 14, that has 2 extra neutrons, and it's radioactive because of it.
On a side note, half-life is the time necessary for half of a large amount of radioactive atoms to decay, this is how we can know stuff like how old a fossil is, since carbon is present on every living thing, by measuring how many carbon 14 are present on the fossil compared to how many it probably had when it was alive it becomes possible to calculate the age of stuff.
TwinkyOctopus · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So. Short version, the nucleus found out some of the particles are gay, and threw them out of the atom.
Long version All atoms are made of protons, electrons, and neutrons. These make up different atoms when combined in certain ways. Some atoms have defects, where they are missing a particle or two. Not enough that it is a different particle, but enough that the atom is unstable. It is this unstability that causes particles to leave the atom
-Tom- · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miniature bullets being launched from an atom that is falling apart. Instead of killing you as a whole, they kill individual cells.
Like a sunburn. Light is a type of radiation (electro magnetic, not uranium goes brrr type) and if it is intense enough the energy a photon contains kills a cell when it hits it.
Preparingtocode · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/nostupidquestions
_The_Real_Sans_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically there's light energy which comes from the electromagnetic fields all substances have in this wave form and it's 'strength' varies by wavelength (the shorter the wave length, the higher the frequency of the waves, the more energy it's carrying), with the stronger frequencies being strong enough to knock off some electrons turning stuff with charges the way they should be into stuff with charges that are not how they should be because electrons have been whacked away by this wavy stuff that has a lot of oomph
4rch1t3ct · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really depends what kind of radiation you are talking about. Light is radiation. Radio waves are radiation.
If you are talking about the cancer causing kind it is what's called ionizing radiation. Here's an Eli5 of my understanding. Ionizing radiation can strip electrons off of atoms. That removal of electrons can damage your cells and cause your genetic material (DNA) to mutate. That mutation is what we know as cancer.
PrinceCheddar · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation is stuff that comes off of other stuff. Alpha radiation is a particle of protons and neutrons, like a mini nucleus without any electrons surrounding it. Beta radiation are rogue electrons or positrons (positive equivalent to electrons).
Electromagnetic radiation is made up of weird particles the also act as a wave. The more energy it has, the smaller the wavelength. It goes through radio waves, inferred, visible colour. Once if gets to high-end ultraviolet and beyond (x-rays and gamma rays) the radiation is ionizing, meaning it has enough energy to detach electrons from atoms or molecules it hits. If some ionizing radiation interacts with a molecule in your body it can change its chemistry. If it changes the chemistry of a molecule in DNA, it can change the DNA, causing a mutation, which may cause cancer.
coffedrank · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think lightbulb. Instead of the light stopping when it hits an object or you, it shoots the particles through you and sometimes hits your dna.
Architech_irl · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So all electromagnetic radiation is made of the same stuff as light- it’s energy. Specifically, “packets” of energy called photons. These photons are particles but together they behave like waves. (Like the circles on a pond when you drop a stone in)
There are 7 types of radiation: Radio (This is used to transmit radio stations, for Bluetooth, walkie talkies) Microwave (it’s the one that cooks the food in microwaves funnily, modern smart phones used this) Infrared (we feel this as heat) Visible light (this is the small amount our eyes are evolved to see) Ultraviolet (UV light like a black light, also used in tanning beds, and is what tans our skin in sunlight) X-ray (you won’t believe this, it’s used in taking xrays) Finally: Gamma (this one is extremely high energy and comes from radioactive sources, the surface of the sun and will have been created in the a bomb and at Chernobyl)
They are divided into these categories according to how much energy the photon “packets” are carrying.
If you have any specific questions please lemme know!!
Architech_irl · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gamma, UV and X-ray are known as ionising radiations as they are high enough energy to cause damage to atoms and “break” them.
There are also alpha and beta radiations. These are like small parts of the atom that break off- both of them are ionising.
Alpha particles are 2 protons and neutrons and they are thrown out if the centre (called the nucleus) is too heavy for the atom to stay stable.
Beta particle are electrons (the little orbitals that you might see in a drawing of the atom) and if there are too many they are also thrown away.
Benderbot613 · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airborne particles that are incredibly not safe to be around.
Benderbot613 · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait I was just thinking of nuclear radiation
BionicTriforce · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try rubbing your hands together really fast for a while. Eventually you'll have some heat buildup, and you may even have some skin starts to flake off. Now imagine that instead of hands for watching two of your cells and radiation is making that motion happen thousands of times faster. To every single set of cells that it's affecting.
dnybs · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work with it alot and can say the same.
rstera1851 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alpha, beta, and neutron: bits of atoms that break cells, bacteria and stuff Gamma, X-ray, light etc: magnets and waves and stuff idk
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything from atom bullets to gentle waves.
Dfett20 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the first thing to know is that radiation isn’t always as cool or dangerous as it’s portrayed in the media. Basically, radiation is a way for atoms with too much energy to release that energy and “cool down” so to speak. Things will also radiate randomly every once in a while for reasons that aren’t important.
Almost all things emit radiation in some way. Sometimes that’s through materials decaying, which is where the term “half life” comes into play. A material’s half life is how long it takes for it to decay through radiation so much that only half of it is the original substance. Light is also a form of radiation in which atoms release energy by creating photons. Sunlight is radiation, light bulbs make radiation, you make infrared radiation through heat, and your computer and phone make radio radiation.
When you hear about radiation in terms of radioactivity, you tend to hear about alpha, beta, gamma, and neutron radiation. That list is in order from least to most dangerous.
Alpha radiation is effectively helium atoms without electrons attached. A sheet of paper stops alpha radiation, and if you were to eat something that emits alpha particles, you’d probably be fine (but please don’t actively try to eat radioactive things).
Beta radiation is where things start to get dangerous. It is usually electrons being shot at high speeds. These electrons can hit the particles that make up your body, especially your DNA, and can create problems. This is still usually not a problem since a sheet of aluminum can stop beta particles.
Gamma radiation is dangerous. It is the type of natural radiation with the most energy, and is also the highest energy form of light. Gamma radiation tends to break DNA so much that your body can’t fix it properly, which causes cancer. Gamma radiation can be stopped by lead, which is why lead appears as a radiation stopper frequently. Side note, this is the same reason x-rays are dangerous, just to a lesser extent.
Finally, neutron radiation is usually only created through nuclear fission, aka nuclear explosions and nuclear reactors. Luckily, this type of radiation is short lived. Unluckily, it tends to cause chain reactions, which result in things emitting the other three types of radiation at much higher than normal levels. This is why the Chernobyl incident was so dangerous, and is the basic idea behind atomic bombs. Dense concrete stops neutron radiation.
In the end, though, when people say bananas are radioactive, they’re not saying they’re dangerous. Everything is radioactive to some extent, and that can be really helpful. Particularly radioactive types of carbon are used to determine the age of fossils, cesium is used in atomic clocks, and tritium and radium are used to make light up watches.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything really. You give off radiation like the sun like a banana like your phone like my toilet paper. There are different types from safe to unsafe. It’s energy basically.
Beautiful-Musk-Ox · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation is just high energy light or particles, that's all it is. Visible light has a wavelength of around 600 nanometers, but high energy light has a wavelength much smaller that is small enough to penetrate the cells in your body and fuck them up, they can penetrate DNA and cause copy errors for example.
High energy particles are also called "radiation" as they penetrate your body and fuck you up too often from the same sources that are also emitting very high energy light.
biseln · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something is somewhere, then it radiates away. That something is now radiation. Doesn’t matter if it is atoms or light or your dogs running away after you put their leash down for half a second. It’s all radiation.
Nuclear radiation is something more specific that I could explain if I looked it up, but I’m on mobile and hate researching on my phone.
dacool66 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well neither do I but don't get close to it or you might get cancer, or become one of the X-Men, but probably cancer
Richard_Smellington · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there's "radiation" in the general sense and "nuclear/ionizing radiation" in the Geiger counter/Chernobyl sense. Often, people conflate the two which leads to idiots burning down cellphone towers because they only hear about "radiation".
At its basic form, electromagnetic radiation is like when you poke a stick in the water and wiggle it around. The wiggling makes waves that propagate through the water. Electromagnetic radiation is just like those waves, but they don't need water, instead they wiggle around the so-called electromagnetic field.
Now, when you make waves in the water, you can do it very carefully and make small waves or you can do it with a lot of force, making big waves. That's the amplitude of the wave. But you can also do it quickly or slowly, vary the distance between the wave's peaks. That's the frequency.
We classify electromagnetic radiation by its frequency. Now, electromagnetic radiation is kinda weird, because it's both a wave and a particle (which we call "photons"), but unlike most particles it's massless. They are, if you will, packets of energy. The amount of energy per package is defined by the frequency of the wave.
Radio waves for example are (relatively speaking) low-frequency waves (FM radio is typically in the 88 - 110 MHz range, that is 88 to 110 million oscillations (back-and-forths of the stick) per second).
If we increase the frequency, we get to stuff like cellular phone frequencies (800 - 2000 MHz) and microwaves and Wi-Fi (2400 MHz (or 2.4 GHz) and 5 GHz). Interestingly enough, both household microwave ovens and Wi-Fi operate at the same frequency: 2.4 GHz. The reason why your Wi-Fi router isn't cooking you right now is amplitude/power. Microwave ovens blast food with hundreds of Watts, while Wi-Fi operates on less than a Watt.
Increase frequency further and we'll arrive at infrared radiation, then the visible spectrum. When talking about radiation in the infrared and visible spectrum, we usually call it "light" and instead of the frequency, we define it by the distance between its peaks (which is just the speed of light divided by the frequency - this means as wavelength decreases, energy and frequency increase). In this range, it is typically in the micrometers to several-hundred-nanometers range.
Below 400 nm begins ultraviolet radiation, which starts to get dangerous because it (and all higher-energy radiation) has the ability to ionize things: Atoms and molecules are electrically neutral, but due to their energy these packets of energy - photons - can tear the negatively charged electrons from the positively charged atomic cores (the so-called nuclei). This can start unwanted chemical reactions within our cells, which is especially bad when it happens in our DNA.
Above ultraviolet, you've got X-rays and gamma rays. The distinction between the two isn't really clear-cut, but what we typically call "X-rays" like from an X-ray picture come from accelerating electrons and letting them impact a metal anode. Because electrons accelerated between two metal plates by a certain voltage always have the same final energy and this energy is then converted into the photon, we measure photon energies in this regime in "electron-volts" - 1 eV is the amount of energy an electron gains by being accelerated by a voltage of 1 V. Gamma rays are usually generated when a radioactive nucleus decays and still has some residual energy left. It gets rid of this energy by sending out a gamma photon. Just like ultraviolet radiation, X-rays and gamma rays are "ionizing radiation", which is why we can get cancer from exposure to all of them.
Now, all of this ionizing radiation that gives us cancer is - energy-wise - above the visible spectrum. All of the "radiation" we use to communicate - Wi-Fi, cellular and 5G - is below the visible spectrum. That's why we know that it's safe to use: If it'd give us cancer, we would've gotten cancer from just regular old visible light a long, long time ago. The only effect it can have is heating up our bodies, like in a microwave oven, but the transmission power of Wi-Fi and cellular towers transmitters is highly regulated and very low. It also doesn't penetrate our bodies well, which is why your microwave food can be scorching hot on the outside but still cold on the inside.
tl;dr: "Radiation" are wiggles of the electromagnetic field making small packets of energy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Charged particles slapping each other around basically
Those_Good_Vibes · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how you use a microwave to heat up food? All that invisible energy hits the food and heats it up. Now imagine a microwave that is always on at a low level, constantly emitting that shit outwards instead of inwards. Anything nearby gets hit and damaged. Now imagine that energy (or particles) goes through some shit but not others. Or collects in certain things like dust or the air...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
for what i get, i can be in the air or the water and it makes your cells go wack
phenerganandpoprocks · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine the last time you were a third wheel. It’s not sustainable, and eventually you’ll decide to move on to another group. Some people get the hint that they’re the third wheel sooner than others.
Same basic thing happens with atoms that have too many protons and neutrons. Eventually one proton or neutron decides to fuck off when it realizes it’s the third wheel.
Only problem is that that neutron or proton will go to another atom and try to chill there. Only problem is they’ve made another third wheel. And depending on how obnoxious they are one or more protons will gtfo— this is a big problem if these were part of your DNA and coding something like tumor suppression, because now that gene is messed up.
KingKnight4 · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically radiation is when tiny particles are released from atoms when they have a lot of energy in order to lose that energy. Larger atoms, such as uranium and plutonium, release more violent particles. These high energy particles can enter your cells and excite the atoms in your DNA, damaging it and causing mutations.
blippityblap1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation is the process of sending off energy in the form of light, heat, x-rays or nuclear particles. An example of radiation are the energy waves off of a nuclear bomb.
The simplest answer i could find.
porenSpirit · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the case of metals like uranium/plutonium, they basically leek neutrons over thousands of years until the original uranium becomes only lead. In the case of nuclear plants, they speed up this process (fission) to create heat.
Neutrons floating around unchecked will wreak havoc on your cells, especially your corneas.
I'm not an expert, but this is my level of understanding.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you know how it hurts when you look directly at the sun? Light is energy and it hurts you sometimes. Well visible light can only hurt your eyes, and other parts of the light spectrum (UV, x-rays, gamma rays) can hurt all of your body.
Pozos1996 · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First of all Radiation ≠ Radioactive
They have connections but are two different things.
CyberneticWhale · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's light but spicy.
GladiatorMainOP · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so basically your cells use things to make other things right? But they have to be in a very specific order to work or shit gets fucked up. So radiation comes along and fucks that order up. Usually the cell just dies off but if it doesn’t and spreads then you get shit like tumors and cancer.
StrangeCharmVote · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So in simple terms, you know how fizzy pills like berocca and stuff break down in water?
It's kind of like that.
The 'half life' of a radioactive material tells you how much it fizzes.
Bits of the material break off and 'radiate' outwards. Like a lightbulb filament, only generally invisible to the naked eye.
When those bits hit your tissue and stuff (cells that is), it causes damage to them, because that's just what fast moving ionizing particles do.
Think of it like leaving a piece of paper out in the rain, with the radiation being the droplets.
After that damage caused by the radiation, your cells try to split, as they normally do. But the damage causes malfunctions in them, which presents as the uncontrolled behavior we generally refer to as Cancer.
glitterlipgloss · 1 points · Posted at 06:35:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus fucking Christ PLEASE STOP TRYING TO TEACH MY SCIENCE I REGRET THIS COMMENT
Emhyr_var_Emreis_ · 1 points · Posted at 08:12:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms are breaking apart, and shooting subatomic particles and energy in every direction. They are tiny enough to shoot through part of your body, and strong enough to damage (create mutations) in your DNA and harm the cells in your body.I
Mid level radiation can give you cancer. Higher levels can be worse than fire.
zerozerotsuu · 1 points · Posted at 11:37:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, radiation is not always a particle. Electromagnetic radiation can be described as just a literal wave travelling through space. Imagine a wave on the ocean - the water goes up and down, but doesn’t move to the side. The same thing, except what moves up and down is a vector of electromagnetic force (the thing that pulls electrons towards the plus pole of batteries).
WasterDave · 1 points · Posted at 12:35:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are different forms of radiation. One is small bits flying off really fast. One is small-er bits flying off. One is like light but different.
Hrathcie · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:52 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simply put, parts of atoms that don't usually break off do and they don't like being separate so they try to attach to things they aren't meant to
Imortal366 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation is literally light. Look to the sun, a lightbulb, or even the screen you’re reading this on. That’s radiation, except when people say radiation they usually are referring to a different colour of light (literally it’s a different colour) but the colour is so off we can’t actually see it with our eyes. Certain instruments we build can see it, and “translate” it into a colour we can see in order for us to tell it’s actually there. In addition, light is only ever a different colour because of how high or low energy it is. More energetic light is purple and blue, while less energetic light is orange or red. If you get less energetic than red (infrared light, also infra means “below” in Latin, so Infrared is just “below red” light) we can’t see it anymore, but we know it’s there and we build things to see it (an iPhone bombards your face in this infrared for Face ID to work, it essentially looks at how it lights up your face each time, in addition to a number of other sensors). If it’s more energetic than purple, we yet again can’t see it, and this is called ultraviolet (another fun fact, “ultra” means “above” in Latin, so yet again ultraviolet literally means above violet). You might’ve heard of ultraviolet light or more commonly referred to as UV radiation in reference to the sun. This light is so energetic it can tan you and even give you a sunburn! Preposterous! If you get even more energetic than ultraviolet, you eventually get to much stronger and more harmful forms of radiation.
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation is just the emission of electromagnetic waves from an object.
402Gaming · 0 points · Posted at 03:27:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Ally862 · 18732 points · Posted at 13:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How language developed. Obviously it did but I just can't fathom how. I just picture cavemen men walking and pointing to things and grunting.
**Sorry for the edit but my typo was driving me crazy
7788445511220011 · 8860 points · Posted at 14:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's basically it, they made sounds to refer to stuff and people caught on and used the same sounds and understood through context and repetition what each other meant, and it built and spread from there.
I imagine early communication started with things like "hey" "relax I'm not gonna kill you" "come here" "look" "food" "tasty animal" "danger".
All things that are kind of obvious what is intended to convey in context and with pointing at the thing as you make a sound.
Drakeman1337 · 3449 points · Posted at 14:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But really think about the origins of words. I mean at some point someone decided that this collection of letters means this and others went yep I like that. Especially abstract words like there, or then. Why is another one that you have to wonder about, obviously it's a very important question that has led man to figure out amazing things but why why?
7788445511220011 · 2385 points · Posted at 15:16:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words preceded letters and written language by a very very long time, in all likelihood. But yes, it does appear that the words chosen were pretty entirely arbitrary.
Why did they do it? I don't even know if it was intentional, rather than one caveman simply using similar grunts for the same thing and his friend catching on and doing the same similar grunts back, and they realized they were both understanding each other and went from there.
And communication is useful, so once people started doing it it spread and didn't die out.
Raggedworm · 738 points · Posted at 16:33:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is why language today is still evolving.
7788445511220011 · 81 points · Posted at 16:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. It's almost entirely based on usage, outside of rare circumstances where there is an effective authority enforcing it, but in practice those tend to only have so much success. People use what they use, and whatever they collectively use most tends to stick regardless of formal authorities.
conluceo · 81 points · Posted at 16:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have a somewhat obscure and much confused regulatory body in Sweden called Språkrådet (Language council). Lot of people assume they decide what is correct Swedish. In reality it's the exact opposite as they actually are explicitly tasked to record how people are speaking Swedish and make sure government agencies etc. are writing in a way that reflects the actual language Swedish. Which is defined as what people people speaking Swedish are speaking.
I have had many discussion about this, and even pretty smart and educated people have surprising aversion to the fact that there is nobody that is deciding what "Swedish" is, other than the collective of Swedish speakers.
0xF013 · 33 points · Posted at 18:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell them to move to France
karmapopsicle · 22 points · Posted at 19:20:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's always interesting to see how much French in other parts of the world has deviated from the regulated Standard French.
Kind of a pain in Canada for those of us in primarily English-speaking provinces though. French-immersion education is not uncommon, but the downside is that what you're taught is formal Canadian French (effectively Standard French). It was quite jarring the first time I visited Québec City and Montréal because of course conversational Québécois French is full of slang the same as native English speakers of course. Other than the occasional mentions about Québécois natives speaking much faster, almost no time was ever spent understanding how the language was actually used in day-to-day life.
0xF013 · 12 points · Posted at 20:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the flip side, here in Bumfuck, Eastern Europe we can learn it from 1960’s soviet books and then be able to infiltrate the French economy. I learned it as a third language via Sur le pont d’Avignon and le chant des partisans and gargantua et pantagruel in school and I am still able to freely read news and technical documentation 15 years later.
karmapopsicle · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny enough visiting France as a young teenager I was able to converse fluently with locals!
0xF013 · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could hold phone conversations with friends from France shortly after school. Not anymore, sadly.
eggs-dee123 · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American here, when I went to Ireland basically everyone I met outside of Dublin and Belfast had to slow down for me to understand that. Especially Kerry and Cork. Jesus that sounded like an angry German more than anything.
karmapopsicle · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember walking down a street in London and overhearing what are first thought sounded like two people conversing in completely different languages. Took a second for it to click that they were both just speaking very different English!
M0dusPwnens · 4 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Académie française has an extremely circumscribed effect on French. It doesn't speak at all to most language change happening in French (of which there is plenty in Standard French), its recommendations are almost completely ignored in the vast majority of French language use (in Paris, the rest of France, and certainly in the rest of the francophone world), and even in official French government language, it has only occasional and narrow influence.
No language authority in the world is actually effective at cementing language use. The most they typically manage is to kill a few loanwords before they get too big and to offer ammunition for would-be pedants (including, not infrequently, grammar advice based on syntactic analysis that is obviously wrong).
Organizations can usually dictate orthographic norms pretty effectively, although certainly not absolutely, but actual natural language change is basically ungovernable.
0xF013 · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, Russia recently gave up on a couple of rules that it was holding on for ages, one being related to the French origin of the word “parachute”, coincidentally. You can’t go against the tide, however prescriptivistic you feel.
DotNotStop · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha I am from France, I wanted to write the same thing!
bombdizzle9 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a cool YouTube video about this?
LunaticSongXIV · 14 points · Posted at 18:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that's how we end up with the abomination that is English.
broken__robot_ · 6 points · Posted at 18:41:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember hearing that about English. Why is that again? Other languages are superior? Just wondering.
SarcasticCarebear · 27 points · Posted at 18:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every language has its own quirks. I can't think of any particular one that's been deemed superior. But English is popular and this topic comes up all the time so he probably read a dozen threads with people posting quirks of the language.
One example people like to bring up is that the same word can mean different things based on how its pronounced. Like I can address you directly or I can live at a different address. But there are languages that are far more insane with tonal variations. Like Chinese.
JBSquared · 12 points · Posted at 19:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is also just the most widely spread language, and between the top 2 most spoken languages (Mandarin and English), English is much easier to pick up.
M0dusPwnens · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That depends almost entirely on what language you're coming from.
A German speaker is going to have a much easier time learning English than a Japanese speaker will. Similarly, someone who speaks Shanghainese is going to have a much easier time learning Mandarin than they will English.
hauntedcandle · 15 points · Posted at 19:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English tends to get a bad rep because of its popularity and having historically borrowed lots of terms from other languages. As a result, one of the consequences is that people like to complain its pronunciation/spelling/etc. don't follow any logical rules. In reality, they usually do, but it tends to be a set of rules from the language the word is borrowed from. This is an oversimplification for sure, but there are usually okay reasons for English doing certain things if you dig hard enough.
It's one reason why English as a Second Language programs, like those in schools, sometimes provide additional information for the etymology of English words, because it can give a better grounding for how they work later on. But then the trouble is that people who grow up natively speaking the language might miss out on that instruction if their school doesn't have that kind of program for the regular students.
JBSquared · 8 points · Posted at 19:53:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is weird to people who are learning it as a second language because it follows rules until it doesn't. In practice, directly following broad grammar rules without all the nuances still makes sense, but sounds stilted. A lot of issues also come from direct translations from other languages too, which is an issue that every language faces.
cleverpseudonym1234 · 6 points · Posted at 20:20:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English also traditionally has kept a spelling that reflects how a word used to be pronounced, rather than how it’s pronounced now. Lots of languages are the opposite.
hauntedcandle · 2 points · Posted at 20:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, absolutely. It's definitely a multifactorial issue, and I'm not at all trying to say that English doesn't deserve some of the criticism. But I always like to point out that English deserves some credit, too. I also just love how productive of a language it is with coming up with new words.
JKMcA99 · 11 points · Posted at 19:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is also extremely phonetically inconsistent. I'm a Welsh speaker and once you know the Welsh alphabet you can essentially pronounce any of our words you want since it's phonetically consistent. English, on the other hand, is anyone's guess as to how you pronounce the words.
GnomishGnoodle · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can be rough, although even a thorough understanding of word origins can leave one trying to slog through a slough of alphabet soup as thick as a trough of dough. Just a thought.
lamalalamal · 1 points · Posted at 07:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate any "ough" word with a passion.
GnomishGnoodle · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have aught to say, other than to mention that my daughter is prone to fits of laughter.
lamalalamal · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also hate any augh words. Or any words with 5 more consonants then they need. I also hate silent letters that aren't necessary for the pronunciation of the word.
GnomishGnoodle · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:32 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, you really must hate the French language.
lamalalamal · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I guess I would lol I just think it's inefficient in a stupid kind of way. Extra letters that aren't needed phonetically that are there just to be there, is kind of ridiculous. Especially silent letters that don't change pronunciations. Because it's literally just a useless letter. Like absolutely useless. It serves no purpose being there.
M0dusPwnens · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interestingly, there are also beliefs/myths in a huge number of speaker populations for all sorts of languages that the language the speak is either the least or the most logical, hardest or easiest to learn, etc.
French is a particularly fun one since it's gone back and forth. A couple of centuries ago, French speakers hailed it as the most rational/logical language (and this was to some degree its reputation abroad as well). Yet it is pretty common in the last few decades to hear French speakers talk about how their language is particularly illogical, hard to learn, etc. Although the shift in the mythology is new enough that you still hear both sides of it pretty regularly.
dungfecespoopshit · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol like how we spell some things and some uses of grammar. I remember my teachers would go mad on us, but now it's widely used and accepted. Language can evolve in endless directions. Hell, in the future, maybe we'll all sound like mumble rap... Hopefully not
flimspringfield · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
U WOT M8?
-QuestionMark- · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lit.
Canrex · 2 points · Posted at 23:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look to Japanese for example. The introduction of English has dramatically changed the language since the 19th century.
Purrcapita · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. Like what happened to adverbs? No one uses them anymore. They just can’t deal with that ‘ly’. Too much effort I guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And never will stop doing so.
PHANTOM________ · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And always will!
punch_nazis_247 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
for real bruh shits changing 24/7
it's lit.
ShadowsGrace5 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why there are so many of them
Fizzwidgy · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I love the romance languages for the example they show of this
longboardingerrday · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romance* languages
flyingbarnswallow · 16 points · Posted at 18:22:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. It’s worth noting, though, that while the relationship between sound and meaning is almost always arbitrary, a tiny percentage of words do actually have a direct connection to what they represent, those being onomatopoeias
espressodepresso_mp4 · 7 points · Posted at 19:13:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Words preceded letters and written language by a very very long time, in all likelihood."
they did! at least in Britain they did. written language didn't arrive in Britain until early Christianity when monks began writing the Bible. it wasn't until a guy called Saint Columba arrived from Ireland and he and his homies started writing bibles that the native British peoples started to experience written language and that wasn't until the 6th century!
if anyone disagrees with this please let me know! I've been studying the early history of northern Britain this past year so this is what I learned within this topic but when it's this early (and the absence of written language lol) it's sort of up to debate.
Rather_Unfortunate · 4 points · Posted at 21:01:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Britain specifically, written language certainly predates Christianity, though probably not by much. The earliest records we have of it come from Roman Britain. I don't know if we have any surviving texts of the kind you're talking about, but certainly we have pre-Christian inscriptions in Latin such as devotions to the gods, graffiti and novelty joke styluses.
espressodepresso_mp4 · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh we certainly do have earlier things, I only mentioned Christian sources in Britain because that's what I personally studied. The Romans mastered written language way before the 6th century and there are actually some surviving texts. Although these early bibles that I mentioned in my previous comment did have a partial language difference which caused the people in the area to change the way they spoke which brought them one step closer to English (although they had a long way to go)
BorelandsBeard · 7 points · Posted at 19:18:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read an article - I’ll look for it now and update if I find it. But certain sounds travel better in different environments. For example consonants/harsh sounds over open land, vowels over water. So that’s why certain languages sound the way they do.
Edit: I got it a bit wrong - but the general idea is right. Interesting read. https://www.google.com/amp/s/blog.education.nationalgeographic.org/2015/11/09/did-the-language-you-speak-evolve-because-of-the-heat/amp/
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/11/06/454853229/did-the-language-you-speak-evolve-because-of-the-heat
yodar0cks · 9 points · Posted at 18:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even during the time of the Romans, very few civilizations had a written language. There is a reason why most languages use the Roman alphabet.
syllabic · 10 points · Posted at 20:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
western european countries use the roman alphabet because the romans conquered most of western europe
for the north of europe, it was because of catholicisms influence and they were writing in latin. for most of history the only people who could read or write were the clergy
most languages dont use the roman alphabet
BlockHead824 · 4 points · Posted at 19:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who named duffel bag? WTF is a duffel? Who looked at a glorified potato sack and said “that is now called a duffel bag” and everyone was like “alright I guess it is”
gsxdsm · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the name of the place they originally came from.
https://buffalojackson.com/blogs/insight/why-is-it-called-a-duffel-bag
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing that blows my mind is how they decided on an alphabet. They had to pick symbols for sounds, and that just seems it would be horrifically difficult from scratch.
TjPshine · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually it's considered an essential feature of language that the words chosen are arbitrary.
Also there are a handful of theories about whether or not it was intentional - such as language being an adaptation for teaching, or unintentional - such as language being a by product of complex thought
zeezle · 3 points · Posted at 20:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aren't there animals that have something sort of like basic language (in the sense of "this sound means this thing", not grammatical structure and all that)? According to a quick Google, chimps, dolphins, orcas and prairie dogs all have "languages" that have been decoded by researchers.
So we're far from the only species that has figured out it's useful to communicate things!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't completely arbitrary. They've done experiments where they've asked people to assign made up words to different abstract shapes, and it isn't randomly distributed i.e. 70% of people would assign the word "glipglorp" to the blue polygon and assign "shplurps" to the red one, or something like that.
Darkdiamondwolf · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ooh taht would be interesting to read
do you have a link
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yep, here it is
Darkdiamondwolf · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thanks
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
np
Darkdiamondwolf · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean the studies name would be helpful
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It came from my ex-girlfriend's social psych textbook from 2008. Sorry
Darkdiamondwolf · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
dang
OhHeckf · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For nearly all modern languages, they heard a word for it and used it and those slowly changed to fit usage. Nearly all European languages can be regressed to Proto-Indo-European, even though we have no surviving documents in that language and it had to be reassembled from the oldest documents we do have. Similar proto-languages have been recreated for other language families.
It's not known if language emerged all at once early in humanity and spread with early humans or if it emerged independently in a few different places.
Kandierter_Holzapfel · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have seen languages develope on their own in deaf children of hearing parents who aren't taught an etablished sign languages.
killedBySasquatch · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communication is not useful.
deokkent · 4 points · Posted at 19:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They may seem arbitrary but if you look at some of the words from different parts of the world, many terms are highly conserved. And I don't mean something like French and Spanish. I am talking like Latin Languages vs Sanskrit. Even the counting system have similar sounding words.
It really is a fascinating topic.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Language_family
PM_ME_UR_SHEET_MUSIC · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, Latin and Sanskrit came from the same protolang, so it makes sense that they’d be fairly similar.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that was when we moved on from being monkeys.
Scorkami · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words had for a long time bo real way of being spelled aswell, people would learn the apphabet in sounds (a e i o u, r, t , l etc) and make spell words they heard that way (Example: house... H, o, u, s and bam we have a written the word for that thing we live in, only later would a standard for things like the e at the end set in
Rather_Unfortunate · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Primitive "words" in some form or another long predate our species. At least in the sense of "a distinct sound produced by an animal which conveys a certain meaning distinct from other sounds it can make". They've probably evolved several times completely independently.
Many bird species have sounds for things like "warning, danger nearby", and "FUCK OFF, this is my territory!" From such humble beginnings can the foundations of language eventually evolve. If you have a social species in an ecological niche that encourages complex behaviour and group coordination, that species is going to need a more complex array of sounds. Humans just became sufficiently complex that our ancestors started dealing in abstract concepts such as the passage of time ("I am thirsty!" "Do this. [demonstrates] Water will be inside tomorrow.")
But-Why- · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With this example you could say language has always existed since the first time Homo sapiens consciousness existed. What I mean is language is defined by an attempt to communicate and grunts and whistling sounds are a language if it is commonly understood that a sound means something.
Am not a language expert just a bored college student, feel free to correct me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did it develop into more complex nuances tho. How did they go from talking about the present and things in it to, say, the past??? How would you even begin to talk about the past?
Khyber2 · 0 points · Posted at 22:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
caveman points club at cavewoman to another caveman "Poooonuh!"
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't believe so. Like cunt is such a perfect word to describe a cunt, it just sounds right. if I had to tell my friend "man you're being a lil jibby" I don't think it would feel the same.
GenericKen · -2 points · Posted at 23:13:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Ma” is the sound of baby nursing at a nipple. “Pa” or “da, the sound of a nipple with hair.
All other language springs from that.
MrJackfruit · 1643 points · Posted at 18:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's how works work now. At some point in the last two years someone yelled "YEET" and now people understand it as a sound someone makes with throwing something hard or to violently throw something hard.
[deleted] · 758 points · Posted at 18:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every word was slang at one point
MrJackfruit · 287 points · Posted at 18:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ye.
_brainfog · 41 points · Posted at 19:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yē-, Proto-Indo-European root meaning "to throw, impel."
theliteralworstriven · 26 points · Posted at 20:52:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yē, Proto-Indo-American root meaning “the waviest, Kanye West.”
_brainfog · 3 points · Posted at 21:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha, nice.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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_brainfog · 2 points · Posted at 23:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean? I didn’t make this up...
BLizardLeLizard · 4 points · Posted at 20:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
et
PM_UR_PLANNEDECONOMY · 25 points · Posted at 19:09:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not quite accurate. A lot of vocabulary is derived from words of foreign languages for example.
twickdaddy · 37 points · Posted at 19:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most words were slang at one point* Also, just because they came from a different language doesn't mean they weren't slang. Like the word derrierre (Idk if that's how you spell it) was probably taboo at once. Ironically the word taboo comes from Hawaiian
klparrot · 4 points · Posted at 21:13:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derrière literally means behind.
twickdaddy · 3 points · Posted at 21:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and behind as well.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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twickdaddy · 2 points · Posted at 01:40:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gluteal Muscle... (Cluster?)
KawaiiGangster · 3 points · Posted at 21:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is still usually considered slang
PM_UR_PLANNEDECONOMY · -2 points · Posted at 00:05:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So when the word "ananas" finally made it's way to Greenlandic, do you think it was ever considered slang? Of course not - it was simply a word that didn't exist in the language and was adopted.
smellyjerk · 3 points · Posted at 04:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but Greenland adopted a word that already had history elsewhere which invariably started off as a word that someone pulled completely out of their ass and no other languages except for Spanish and English thought much to change that word in their language too much because it worked well enough to not really bother. It being "official" in it's first appearance in one language has nothing to do with a word being complete jibberish at one point but serving its purpose enough to become useful language in an unrelated language, which is pretty much the concept of a slang word.
A great example is the word "OK" but it's origin is way more traceable as its more modern. Its an abbreviation of a purposely mispelt phrase "oll korrect" or "all correct". There were plenty other abbreviated nonsense intial words because old timey America liked doing that for some reason but they didnt last and for whatever reason, "ok" worked well enough to stick around to probably become the most used and adopted English word in history and it's history is literally just fad-induced intentional nonsense but we have people in India, Africa, or god-knows-elsewhere saying it as an "official" word in their native languages and its birth from a fad is mostly forgotten or never even known to begin with by most users of this word.
Language only has meaning because we collectively allow it to. Its super relative and trippy to think about.
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the language you are speaking is not "foreign" to you, so IDK how this works?
EpsilonRider · 5 points · Posted at 22:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Before the English dictionary, you could quite literally spell any English word however the fuck you liked. You were usually meant to read it rather aloud quietly to yourself to figure out what it was saying. I think the ancients Greeks employed this method exclusively, as in you practically could not read it silently.
ProffessorBubbles · 2 points · Posted at 19:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technically, yeah.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can just imagine it. A teenage caveman pointing at a rock and saying, "Rock," while an adult caveman rolls his eyes at the ridiculousness of using mouth sounds to name things. (Strictly speaking, the adult caveman wouldn't be able to grasp the concept of naming things since he doesn't use words, but I imagine he feels it, you know?)
Eskimodo_Dragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh c'mon, that's recalculous.
blitzwig · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slang slang slang slang? Slang slang!
the_ocalhoun · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depending on how you define slang.
Other words begin by combining existing words together (bubblegum), by adding new prefixes/suffixes to existing words (antidisestablishmentarianism), loan words from other languages (tortilla), being invented as part of a work of fiction (muggle), or as technical jargon (magnetron). And none of those are really instances I'd feel comfortable calling 'slang'.
bobrossforPM · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Ok”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/showerthoughts
matsdebats · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good showerthought
OrinZ · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I like to think about the goddamn Galaxy Brain that invented "neologism"
Mareeck · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Word
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Incorrect.
One specific word was never slang. It is universal. The first word.
Synesok1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna go with, ow!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a very very good guess.
As far as anyone can tell, across all cultures and ages and languages, there is a single point that everyone seems to explode from and persists today with only the slightest variations, a word almost every human invents, independently, before every other word, and have done since the beginning of speech:
“mama”.
Synesok1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I was going to suggest waaww, like a baby wailing but that doesn't seem to fit as a word, same with laughter.
I'm guessing that ow, and mama, both come from physical movements of the body. The ma-ma-ma-ma mouth movement is very much like sucking on a nipple but exhaling. Ow - I'd go with a reflexive/protective kind of action, an exhale, a contraction of the facial muscles, restriction of blood flow to the brain maybe...
Am I on the right path?
Eta, just asked a brestfeeder and apparently the mouth movement of a suckling baby is not similar to the mouth movement of ma ma...
ciceros_conatus · 0 points · Posted at 19:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not necessarily slang as such. if we consider slang as non-standard language, it implies that there is a standard language. standardisation of language is comparatively very recent development -- last few centuries, when documented language goes back at least 5 millennia, and undocumented (unwritten) much, much longer. creation of new words is distinct from this. i know, semantics, but hey! i like languages..
FeatherShard · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there any more appropriate time for getting into semantics than when discussing language?
ciceros_conatus · 0 points · Posted at 21:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
touche!
also, maybe philosophy?
caffeine_lights · 29 points · Posted at 19:12:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also works like this in a micro way within families/friendship groups. Like your kid makes a really cute mispronunciation of something, and that just becomes its name forever, or your friend always makes this same weird/hilarious autocorrect until the point that you just all refer to it as that word.
Lulu_Lannister_ · 11 points · Posted at 19:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha my brother was reading the imbd page for Love Actaully and saw Hugh Grant’s name but pronounced it as “Huge Grant” instead. Now we refer to him as that lol.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IMDB is now IMBD forever
Lulu_Lannister_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My b
SnarkHelps · 49 points · Posted at 18:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This really puts it into perspective and helps me understand, lol
FunnyQueer · 43 points · Posted at 19:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet is by far my favorite new word of the last decade. It always makes me laugh when used properly.
mcprogrammer · 19 points · Posted at 19:42:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same way and I don't understand why. A lot of new words/slang just make me roll my eyes, but for whatever reason "yeet" just resonates with me. Maybe it just captures something that "throw" or "toss" don't.
JuxtaTerrestrial · 12 points · Posted at 21:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it fills a useful linguistic niche. It's something like 'to throw haphazardly' expressed in a single syllable. Though inelegant, it's a useful abstraction.
Also it's funny to make my daughter cringe and shout 'stop' when i use it.
MsCMoody · 10 points · Posted at 20:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agree. It's just a fun word. It's a word you exclaim while you're doing it!
inconspicuousdoor · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same! It's so primal and satisfying to say. On the other hand, "lit" makes me cringe, even when it's a kid saying it. It sounds like something an out of touch marketing exec would come up with.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet, yote, yitten
MrJackfruit · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same.
NordicEasybake · 16 points · Posted at 18:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair Ludacris has been saying "yeet yeet" as an exclamation for 15 years now and only in the last couple has its meaning changed to throwing something
xylitol777 · 7 points · Posted at 22:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also to be fair, rappers yell the most random things and hope something catches on.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it does, they got more words to rhyme with
governingLody · 6 points · Posted at 19:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember yeet being used back in 2014 or 15
CloudCollapse · 6 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry to break it to you but yeet has been around at least 4-5 years
Deathbyhours · 5 points · Posted at 19:24:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, I have wondered what “yeet” means. Need met. (Serious)
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet is the opposite of yoink
ulkick · 3 points · Posted at 21:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit you're right
-what-ever- · 7 points · Posted at 21:29:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God yeeteth and God yoinketh away
I-Am-The-Yeeter · 3 points · Posted at 20:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes
RoguePlanet1 · 3 points · Posted at 21:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the origin of "yeet" anyway? I think it came from a video.
letmesleepbrain · 3 points · Posted at 22:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The earliest point I can remember hearing yeet is some vine with a high school girl named Terry or something who is handed a soda can, says "this bitch empty", then yells "YEET" as she yeets it down a crowded hallway
RoguePlanet1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now I'm wondering if this was the actual origin, or if "yeet" was already being used by this time. We may never know the truth! :-p
Edit: The original video. Much deeper than I expected, thought it would be more of an "eeeeek!!"
Every3Years · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that what Yeet means? Finally I'm young again
thewhitecat55 · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh that is what that means ? I honestly didn't know that.
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or how did people decide what cuss words were, etc.
MrJackfruit · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now that is a good question.
VaderOnReddit · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK started out as a slang
ExactlyUnlikeTea · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“YEET” is way older than 2 years
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have always wondered why different words come and go but the word "cool" as a slang term is the only one that never went away. I looked it up and it's supposedly been around since the 30s.
SpiritOfFire88L · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet was used in WWII by Allied soldiers, IIRC.
MrJackfruit · 5 points · Posted at 19:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proof please.
largefrogs · 21 points · Posted at 19:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I can't wait to yeet Hitler off a cliff"
SpiritOfFire88L · 3 points · Posted at 20:11:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw it somewhere on r/AskHistorians, but I'm having trouble finding the post I saw it on.
RaggedAngel · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet vs Kobe
The eternal struggle
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 22:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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DrewsephA · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeet = distance
Kobe = accuracy
Burntthetoast916 · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kobe for accuracy, Yeet for distance
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ciceros_conatus · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but in your example of telephone, it is a completely new word, semantically and grammatically.
it is not new etymologically, deriving from the two greek words, sure, but their transplantation into a completely different languages (english and others that have adopted the word) creates a new word. semantically because the word 'telephone' is conceptually distinct from 'sound afar' of the original greek; telephone means something else. grammatically it is even distinct in most of the languages that use the word, since their grammars are wildly different
TheLurkingMenace · -11 points · Posted at 19:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it isn't. New words enter the lexicon because people want to be better understood when talking about something new. Slang is a word created by youth because they want to be less understood by adults. When slang enters the adult lexicon, it is no longer accepted by youth.
MrJackfruit · 11 points · Posted at 19:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like that's straight up wrong.
Beanspread · 8 points · Posted at 19:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but he said it confidently so he must be right
TheLurkingMenace · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When's the last time you heard someone say "23 skiddoo" or call someone "daddio?"
TinyBreadBigMouth · 6 points · Posted at 20:06:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those didn't fall out of favor because they're in "the adult lexicon"—they're in nobody's lexicon. Not every piece of slang stands the test of time. Most don't. Others, like "cool" or "okay" or "hang out," do.
TheLurkingMenace · 0 points · Posted at 20:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slang, like fashion, comes in or goes out because of who is using it. Things used to be "extreme" then fast food was "extreme" and nothing was "extreme" anymore. As "yeet" becomes more and more mainstream, kids will stop using it because it won't be theirs anymore.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 15:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 16:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OhHeckf · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn't they come after cuneiform?
Memsus · 6 points · Posted at 19:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up etmology. It's the study of the origin of words. Very interesting. If a single word has you stumped, just search "etymology of ______" and there it will be, with a bit of luck.
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know a girl getting a doctorate in etymology, which I feel is insane. LOL.
Denziloe · 3 points · Posted at 22:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that is pretty insane, derived from the Latin "sanus", which in fact means "healthy" more generally; "sanitary" is derived from the same root.
lurgi · 6 points · Posted at 19:17:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is actually an example of a human language appearing out of nothing in modern times (well, mostly out of nothing) - Nicaraguan Sign Language. And, yes, they basically decided that this sign would represent this thing.
Kilkeedey · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is amazing!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we had language way before writing, and many languages and vernacular were very localized well into the middle ages. All someone did was recognize the common patterns and put it into a form of symbols, and for the longest time until recently the vast majority of people couldn't read.
Harambeeb · 3 points · Posted at 19:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meerkats have words for everything, they make a different sound if they see a human approaching with a red shirt instead of a yellow one.
Dolphins use echolocation to "see" objects and repeat the sonic feedback to describe it.
If they "saw" a round object, they would make the sound they heard bouncing back from the object.
guypery10 · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This last part in particular is very interesting in linguistics: the abstract. It makes sense for physical things to be represented in language. "It is there", "throw it here". Things got interesting when abstract concepts were introduced. In early language, abstract concepts emerged as analogies / metaphors borrowed from the physical.
Time is a good example. Languages usually consider time as an axis, then use spacial words to refer to it. If you think about it, it doesn't make intrinsic sense for something to occur "after" something else. The word's origins actually refer to something physically being further away!
Another example is goodness. The concept that large things are good, such as the words great, epic et cetera, is still apparent in many modern languages, which I believe is a relic of ancient perception of the world. Likewise negative, small words such as shallow, narrow-minded and such.
I believe most abstract concepts were introduced to language as metaphors such as this.
ImJustSo · 3 points · Posted at 19:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Collection of letters? Naw. Collections of sounds, yes. We label things to discuss them, we must name something for us to talk about that thing. We name it by throwing a sound out relating to the topic we're naming.
Why why? It's easier/shorter to say than "for what (purpose)". We are all lazy speakers, we shorten everything.
jumpup · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
even birds do it. certain birds have different calls for people, prey and danger, you can reply that audio to another bird in the same region and they will respond to the audio just like the other birds
blooming_violet · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, how did we convey what "abstract" means before we invented that word? Most of those kind of words are almost impossible to define, and we can only really understand their meanings by seeing/hearing the word in different contexts.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
abstract is easy. I draw stick figures of people, or flowers plants trees, and those are abstract. Which means they represent the general construct of those objects, without actually being those objects.
It really gets into the visual realm. How do we associate a stick figure with a person right away? Or a stick with a round thing on top, with a tree.
All you do after this is extend this to a lot of other things.
Orolol · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just looked in the dictionnary.
2Punx2Furious · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the very origin of words, I'm guessing a lot of it has to do with our shape, specifically the shape of our vocal chords, our mouths, and other things that let us make sounds.
The easier sounds to make were probably the most commonly used, so maybe they were used for commonly communicated concepts, like food, or danger. Then tone is also important, so things that sound scarier, maybe had a scarier meaning, and then evolved from there to more and more modern, but still similar forms.
I'm just guessing here.
NoGoodIDNames · 2 points · Posted at 00:43:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a very cool study of a Russian orphanage for deaf children (I think in the fifties), where IIRC due to the war they had no one to teach them sign language, and of course they couldn’t learn to speak Russian, so they were forced to develop a form of communication completely from scratch.
The first generation of children were able to develop a sign language that conveyed basic concepts. They taught the second generation, who expanded on it by developing complex concepts. Then they taught the third generation, who codified the grammar and were able to say pretty much anything they wanted.
So with our currently evolved brains, it takes just three generations to develop a complete language from absolutely nothing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What fucks with me is wondering what the thoughts of cavemen where like before language
ARatherOddOne · 2 points · Posted at 02:21:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even pointing is uniquely human. The only animals, AFAIK, that understand what pointing means are dogs. This is because of our close working relationship with them for tens of thousands of years. I've heard that even chimpanzees don't know what the hell we mean when we point at things. (Correct me if I'm wrong.)
epenczek2 · 2 points · Posted at 02:55:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or like what is the point of having multiple words mean the exact same thing.... what’s the point of making language so much more complex
de245733 · 2 points · Posted at 05:52:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
About how words are created, theres this very obscure tabletop RPG called ウンババウバッホラオラオハー, where the premisis are you are suppose to use dice to represent if you hunt for food successfully with your fellow caveman friends (other player), where every caveman have a different skill.
However, the catch of the game is every player are only allow to communicate through two phonetic sounds, ウン (un!) バ(ba!).
And when you play it actually very intresting how isanely fast a "language" starts to be created through actions. Such as after a successfully hunt, some player might go UNBABAAAAA! and then other player would "understand UNBABA as successfully hunted food".
And Across the playthrough, a set of language will develop even just with 2 phonetic words.
twentyThree59 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After some noises had been established, someone said "we can do better" and made up a new language.
I believe the current Korean is relatively recent. We even know who made it all up.
It's been iterated on for hundreds of generations.
Gilpif · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s… not how any of this works. You might be thinking of Kind Sejong the Great, who created a new alphabet (Hangul), but certainly not a language. Korean evolved from Middle Korean, which evolved from Old Korean, which evolved from Proto-Korean. We only know the last 2300 years of history, but there’s 0 chance that someone managed to convince people to speak a language they invented. Only very dedicated nerds learn conlangs, and very, very few become conversationally fluent, most people really resist learning a new language.
twentyThree59 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am thinking of Hangul and not being that pedantic.
Gilpif · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedantic? Languages and writing systems evolve in very different ways. Language is natural to humans, writing isn’t, it’s a tool we invented a few times.
confused_buffoon · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Others have already mentioned the fact that language before writing was volatile, and the ever present change of sounds (particularly in english) is actually slowed down by writing. Notably the "th" sound we have is amazingly volatile and talking to native english speakers everywhere, a lot of them have already shifted to a hard "t" or a "d" or some other sound. The shift is completely natural and is sort of a microcosm of how language would've branched off (with migration) before a specified writing system.
As a layman who hasn't really looked into it much, I consider the "creation" of languages to be fairly arbitrary. We have everything from Latin to Khoisan click languages as a means of verbal communication.
RG-dm-sur · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read somewhere that egyptians called cats: meow.
Exactly as they sound.
lacefishnets · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's fun is we hosted Japanese students growing up, and some of the animal sounds little kids make are different. Instead of "Woof woof" or "Neigh." We joked that those animals are speaking Japanese.
Ciara1965 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might want to check out Bill Bryson’s book about English language and How it Got That Way. I may have gotten the title wrong, but that’s the essence of the book. It’s pretty fascinating.
SgtMajMythic · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vsauce has entered the chat
spanners101 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been up all night, many a night questioning the same thing!
So agreeing on a word for an object was the first step. Then agreeing on a word for a more abstract thing like place and time. But then we invented a more abstract thing to link it all together to explain abstract things and created grammar?
I’m from an arts background and really believe we used pictorial form to help us create spoken word.
Actually, I haven’t a fucking clue. But it’s fascinating!
_brainfog · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few really smart caveman who wanted to delve further into linguistics before it was ever linguistics
redemption_time · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about that too. Who decided that a lion will be called a lion and not a potato?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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ButtStopsHere · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fauxtato
Due_Intentions · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I had to guess, I would say words like that came much, much, later.
We probably had stuff like,
“Throg hungry!”
“Throg Hunt, Mog?” (To invite his friend mog to go on a hunt)
“Throg cave, leave!”
For tons of years before it eventually developed to,
“Throg is hungry!”
“Throg is going to go hunt, will Mog come?”
“This is Throg’s cave, leave!”
chillwombat · 1 points · Posted at 11:10:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
earliest stuff was probably just pointing and saying "food", "water", "fire", "help" etc
also humans didn't really ever live in caves
Due_Intentions · 1 points · Posted at 14:56:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know I’m not talking about the earliest stuff I was talking about the transition from no grammar to grammar
And sure it was just an example, some humans most definitely did live in caves even if the majority didn’t and the point was more to illustrate how I imagine language might’ve developed in regards to those specific words.
shwambzobeeblebox · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think proper nouns were some of the first words that came about - dolphins and whales have names for one another, so it seems like it must have been a pretty early development for us too. I dont consider a lot of other symbolic vocalizations words -like what some animals might use for "danger" "hurt" "fear" "food" - because I think a lot of those sounds are probably instinctual and dont depend on upbringing. I think this mainly because dogs, chimps, horses, and other mammals seem to be able to communicate these ideas just fine with members of their species that aren't from their region.
Pubzzy · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up Semiotics. The question you have is an entire field of study.
locks_are_paranoid · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'd probably like the book Frindle. A kid decides to invent a new word for pen, and calls it a frindle.
Alezaria · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve asked myself this a few times but every time I try to figure out why a certain word means what it does I just kind of spazz and drop it before I hurt my head.
Rollthefuckingdice · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
John Vervaeke calls the invention of letters and the alphabet system a “psychotechnology”. A psychotechnology is tool that improves cognition. Learning has a lot to do with how easy something is to understand. Language is probably the most OP psychotechnology.
How different types of questions arose is fascinating. I wonder what linguistics has to say about this development?
klendool · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any time you wonder where a word comes from, look it up on etymonline - it's fascinating!
lacefishnets · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you do this for phrases? Like "kick the bucket?" That one alleged came from people being hanged, and having the bucket kicked out from under them.
klendool · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh I dunno!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of my favorite things to ponder. Especially when I lock in on a word that with repetition just sounds funny. At what time and place did someone make up this collection of noises to represent an object or feeling?
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I always wondered how cavernman people thought that English and this nasal tone was the greatest language they could communicate with. Like for example these extremely corky or whatever girls that talk super nasal and you already know she goes to Starbucks. How did a cavernman thing that that was the ideal language? Lol
SaltyHuman111 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say that it was sounds that they found funny and/or memorable and kept on saying it as an inside joke and other people started picking it up
IM_OZLY_HUMVN · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whom. All that does is make it more complicated, why can't it just be "who?!"
OhHeckf · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most languages have WAY more inflection than "whom". English only lost its inflection because after the Norman Conquest and centuries of word adoption, you had incompatible word roots that used different inflection patterns and people just stopped doing it for everything except pronouns like "he" and "who"
Docktor_V · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read the book "Guns Germs and Steel"
It is very good in the way it explains linguistics.
Early alphabets the letters sounded like actual objects
IHSYIA · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Written language took a long time to show up compared to spoken word, and even then a lot of older languages were based on images and characters that more or less depicted the general idea of what was being conveyed.
Don't forget that language is still changing and evolving. New words, phrases and ideas are being added to our vocabulary.
You have to remember that modern American English (which is what I assume is what you are using in your examples) is a relatively advanced and developed language, it didn't just spring up suddenly and has roots in languages that themselves have developed for hundreds to thousands of years.
Pakislav · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"There" is not abstract. It's literally the "uh" when pointing at something. There's nothing unfathomable about simple calls becoming more complex over time.
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well not all languages have the same grammar elements.
Irish has no yes or no words.
I don't think Chinese language verbs have past, present or future tenses.
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you function without "yes" and "no?" Serious question.
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Repeat the verb in affirmative or negative
"Have you sent that email?" "I haven't"
11415 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We had spoken language before writing. There are theories as to how writing evolved, but one theory is that with the emergence of civilization cane government. And the government had to stockpile food and weapons and animals for whatever reason. And they had to take inventory. At first, the scribe drew pictures of whatever he was counting, but eventually his picture become more abstract. It became more and more abstract until it no longer looked like the object it was representing. Then people realized that the symbol could not only stand for that object, but could stand for the word, and the sound of that word. And thus, letters were born.
That’s the history of writing, though, not the history of language.
https://youtu.be/HyjLt_RGEww
jessee2007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me when in Avengers: Infinity War, someone says, "that's a made a word" and Thor replies "all words are made up"
QuotheFan · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The words also undergo natural selection.
Ideas behave like genes in the sense that they survive when they can be reproduced. The idea that a sound means something, also needs to reproduce, it has to go from the surrounding adult's or elder children's brains to the brains of tiny tots. If there is a better alternative for the kids (more suitable to their developing brains), the better alternative wins in the long run.
Another interesting thing is that we believe languages didn't evolved independently from the brain. The two co-evolved, basically both of them changing in ways beneficial to the relationship. So, a little bit of language nudged our brains to be slightly more acceptable to abstraction which in turn added more abstraction to language and the cycle continued.
Natural selection processes are often (always?) butterfly effects. Basically, trying to understand the exact beginning of a natural selection process is like trying to figure out which stones rolling was the cause of avalanches. Certain times two languages merged into one, some languages are better at absorbing other languages and they prosper (citation needed), languages which aren't, die a slow painful death - what we see today has developed slowly and beautifully (and ruthlessly) over more than a hundred thousand years.
Remember Yoga, Google, Ikigai were not English words until 20 years back (I don't know if Ikigai is, yet).
PS: I am not an expert at this, but I used to be very interested in this sort of things about five years back and this is what I remember.
QuotheFan · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, written and oral part of language are completely different beasts.
The oral part of language is definitely more of 'the language', the written part sort of follows it. Consider English for example, the mapping b/w written and oral English isn't strict and it makes learning English from text hard. There is a joke that do sounds like doo but go doesn't sound like goo.
While the joke hits hard at first, the loose coupling between written and oral word is actually a strength for the language as it makes absorbing other languages and their sounds (potentially infinite) possible with a finite set of alphabets. And kids don't bother with the written word for at least a couple o years while they are listening to words a lot earlier, so the language can suit itself to the world of toddlers leaving the adults to figure out the mess of spellings.
bobrossforPM · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word “there” wasnt just decided upon as being a word, it evolved from slowly differing pronunciation and slang from an old english word, and before that from germanic, etc.
And what exactly do you mean by “why”?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's very cool to think about how elementary and almost primitive some of the more universal basic words are.
Think about the words "moon," "mud," "food," "hunt," "globalization." All that stuff.
ObjectiveDegree9 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely agree, it's weird isn't it
ArTiyme · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communication is already a significant part of social animals and we already had a concept of "This group of sounds means that thing." Also, some animals name their kids or form their own names over their life and can be "called" by it. Early humans almost certainly did the same. So pieces are in place where it would only be a matter of time that humans would figure out it's way more efficient to label things.
GG_assassin72 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think it happend when basic word were made but didnt make sense at times, so relations, verbs and fill-in-word were created. and eventualy when humans progressed so did the english language.
Gilpif · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The origin of language is a very controversial subject, but it’s certainly not how it went. It seems like as soon as humans evolved the capacity to understand and produce language, they did do it, so they certainly didn’t contemplate what words should mean what things. Even the most remote tribes of Earth have languages that work very similarly to all others, with a grammar no more or less complex overall, so it looks like “primitive” languages weren’t primitive at all, but they worked just like modern languages.
About the origin of specific words: most abstract words come from concrete words that people started to use metaphorically. In many languages, the word for inside is related to the word for stomach, the word for colors are related to things that have that color, the words for 5 and 20 may be the same as the words for hand and person (referring to the number of fingers and toes they have).
The word “why” isn’t really that weird, it’s not how it happened in English, but it’s very common to use “for what reason”, or “for what cause”. In most Romance languages, “why” is literally “for what”.
punch_nazis_247 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Letters came wayyy after sounds.
The_Pundertaker · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think early languages probably used a lot of onomatopoeia words to describe verbs or animals and then other words evolved from that over time.
lacefishnets · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain can't handle this right now, but it's fascinating too.
SemSevFor · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where did "words" like yeet and fleek come from? It's the same thing. It just started and caught on
i_miss_old_reddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you heard of The Allusionist podcast?
OutlawJessie · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose we still do this now in our own homes, haven't you got a silly word you made up that only means something to your family? We say wuf, it's the funny noise our older dog makes instead of a proper bark, she makes it to wake me up in the night. My son might say "I was woken up last night" we'll ask "By what?" and he could reply "wuf" and we'd all know what it meant.
jrizos · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing I always liked about Judaism, the ancient texts absolutely revere language as being like the closest thing to God of all things.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, cave drawing obviously wanted to DEPICT somethings. This idea stuck and ever since we’ve used lines etc. to DEPICT things.
butsuon · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Written language didn't exist until the very basic structure of governments existed, so what we would imagine as "tribal" humans.
Letters only exist because at some point, someone decided that all these people that speak kind of differently needed to get things across correctly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some very basic words, onomatopoeia would likely have been used. Replicating animal sounds, or chewing noises.
gumbywasright · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Words are sounds. Written language was originally symbols used to indicate supply (at least that is what I remember). These symbols were assigned to the sounds they already used.
americancossack24 · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s crazy to think about how therefore, words have no intrinsic meaning and there’s nothing that makes a car more worthy to be a car than a tree, if you will. That everything we know is based on what is more or less a lie that something is it’s name, when it’s not.
Tishimself77 · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
(The Welsh alphabet ) “They've only got something like 24 letters over there, so they're going mental with the 'L”
b4xt3r · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Darmok and Jalad at Tanagra..
vekeso · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I have a theory about the word mama, its found in almost every single language to mean mother, even languages with no ancestral overlap like english and chinese.
But most mothers give their babies exaggerated kisses, a big "MWAH" to get some giggles. Even just that little pop of noise from a normal kiss sounds like 'ma'. I think mama comes from the sound of kisses. And thats why its so identical.
But I could just be crazy so who knows
MoistMe · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about that, but with colors
DrButtPipe · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are some really good books and videos by VS Ramachandran about his idea for why why. Here’s a short one that kind of sums it up.
https://youtu.be/VjFCaGK7gX8
845898 · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whats amazing is that many languages around the world have maa, amma, mata, mom etc for meaning mother.
And
Eight, ashta, aath, octo and etta for meaning - > 8
OctopodeCode · 1 points · Posted at 17:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some words, I can see as an understandable noise-reaction to certain phenomena. Like very large creatures walking around in prehistoric times, to which caveman Grog might vocally react to as, "BIG!". And his buddy, Grek, might conceivably have a similar reaction like, "HOOGE!". One-syllable, primitive words like that are easy to conceptualize the origin of.
But then you have French words that throw real curveballs here.
crumpledlinensuit · 3 points · Posted at 18:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, like "GROOOS!" and "GRAAAND!"
bobrossforPM · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But think of how long there is between the origin of the word and where it is today. French evolved from other languages just like every other one.
shwambzobeeblebox · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
writing most definately came after spoken language, and not all languages are phonetic, so spelling was undoubtedly an afterthought rather than a basis for the word.
A_Naany_Mousse · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, spoken language existed long before written language so keep that in mind. Plus keep in mind languages are constantly evolving, so it makes sense they would've started pretty basic then rapidly evolved from there. Keep in mind also, communication was necessary for survival. It is now too, but we sort of take it for granted. It makes sense that it would evolve and develop rapidly when it was such an evolutionary advantage
DutchBlob · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah! I mean why is an Apple called an Apple and not a dildo? Wouldn’t it be awesome if you’d say “I Bought the new Dildo iPhone 11 and to spice things up in the bedroom I also bought an Apple”
imadethistoshitpostt · 0 points · Posted at 17:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody "decided", some tribal chief started referring to something by a grunt and if the others didn't refer it with the same grunt they would piss off the boss.
Drakeman1337 · 3 points · Posted at 17:46:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the tribal chief decided. Unless you're saying some higher being implanted words in people's heads, someone somewhere decided this will be called x and others went along with it
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know Reddit will hate this but language complexity is part of why I believe in God. Human brains as children are more complex and nuanced than computers. We just absorb it. When I had a head injury I was a little slower with language for a whole and as I practiced reading and writing to get it back I became even more in awe of how random shapes on a paper or mouth sounds can illustrate ideas.
The most mind blowing is abstractions. I can understand pointing to a rock and saying Rock or a Tree or a Cat. But people write entire books and papers contemplating utterly abstract ideas that have no physical equivalent. I used to get anxiety and think I would forget what words mean when I thought about this too much. Eventually I just accepted human brains are like super computers in many ways. And yes that’s part of my faith because if you think about it it’s so crazy that say, a little kid can learn two languages just by existing near them.
CityLimitless · 7 points · Posted at 14:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And "relax, I am gonna kill you"
BScatterplot · 4 points · Posted at 18:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And now we got "yolo" and "stonks", what a beautiful world
NotObviousOblivious · 6 points · Posted at 19:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These are very complex topics, expressed in very simple words. Amazing.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 16:32:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Memes are dense as fuck information carriers.
a-r-c · 5 points · Posted at 18:52:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sources please
RikerT_USS_Lolipop · 19 points · Posted at 20:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He has none. He made it up and repeated it like an idiot because it's something "sounds like it could be true" and four thousand people upvoted it.
And then there's another idiot who replied to him with:
which is also just completely made up on the spot. But that's not going to stop him from saying it as if it's something he knows.
RealShigeruMeeyamoto · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit moment
a-r-c · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ty
danchove55 · 4 points · Posted at 17:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Onamotopoeia
riftslayer99 · 4 points · Posted at 18:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you have seen any type of bird but in this case chickens they crow at different pitches and a different amount of times to signal danger or food etc.
lesleh · 3 points · Posted at 18:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can probably get a pretty good sense of how it worked by looking at how toddlers learn to talk. They start with the most basic of things like “more” and “no” and slowly get more advanced, string together words into short sentences and beyond.
OneMeterWonder · 3 points · Posted at 00:17:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is actually one of the posited conjectures for how to study the origin of language! Nice guess!
Unfortunately there are quite a few confounding variables that make it fairly intractable to use. The dependence on environmental factors for instance. The development of language is almost certainly affected by having many many people around you all communicating in a single well established medium, like English.
tbh-im-a-loser · 8 points · Posted at 19:37:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s actually a huge debate as to how it occurred in linguistics and philosophy. So it’s not what you’re saying it is although your perspective may be valid.
It’s more complex than what you describe. Another example of why you should take what you read on reddit with a grain of salt and do your own research.
I dare y’all to downvote me... do it
SlightWhite · 3 points · Posted at 19:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Relax I’m not going to kill you” is a quick downward head nod
T0xicati0N · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's actually quite interesting to me, protecting your neck is a way of showing that you're no threat, while nodding upward and exposing it can be taken as a threat. Like "Look, here, my neck, come try n bite me, I'll fuck you up."
SlightWhite · 2 points · Posted at 20:00:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn’t even think of that and it makes complete sense. Youre probably right.
It’s an inside joke among my friends... A couple years ago, I noticed that when strangers (typically men) see each other in public in certain contexts, a downward nod is almost like saying “I see you; there’s no antagonism here” lol
T0xicati0N · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yip, pretty much. I have no idea why I do it, I just do it, it feels right.
M0dusPwnens · 9 points · Posted at 19:05:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should let all the linguists, evolutionary biologists/psychologists, etc. know that you've cracked this one!
They're all under the mistaken impression that this is actually a very difficult question without a clear answer or much available evidence, with many significantly different competing theories that are difficult to decide between.
7788445511220011 · -3 points · Posted at 19:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any of them are welcome to chime in! I just posted an answer a few moments after opening my eyes, if that's frowned upon I apologize.
M0dusPwnens · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This idea that it was just simple ostensive definition that was obvious from context is not actually particularly simple.
It doesn't answer a lot of relevant questions, like why other animals (especially social animals like primates) haven't developed language to nearly the same capacity, since they are in precisely the same situation. In fact, primate groups do make vocal sounds and gestures as signals that are understood by other members of their social groups, yet this hasn't developed into anything recognizable as language. That seems like a major problem for the hypothesis that once you have signs, complexity just grows organically into language - many species have such signs, and they don't seem to be accumulating complexity to create languages. It also isn't obvious from this explanation why the development of these things isn't more or less uniform across social species - they should all be on their way to language, but they aren't, and even basic communication varies substantially between social species.
It also becomes a lot more complicated when you try to establish what "obvious from context" means. Things that are obvious to us, as language speakers with established cultural practices like ostensive definition, are not necessarily prima facie "obvious from context". Your context includes linguistic and cultural knowledge you use to determine what people mean when they, for instance, point to things. Imagine someone points at a chicken and makes a sound. What word are they teaching you? The word for bird? Chicken? White? One? Food? Hunt? Fire? You have a cultural knowledge that allows you, in a lot of cases, to know - and the person pointing usually does to, so they can coordinate, guess when the context is unclear, and help make it clearer. But without that, it is not nearly so obvious. What feature are they pointing at? Why? How did they come up with the idea of "teaching" you the sign? What are you supposed to do? It isn't at all obvious how you bootstrap all of that. This is a hard question.
There are a whole host of other complications. There's been a lot written on the question of origin of language. There's a lot of disagreement. And there's very little evidence either way - the topic receives relatively little ongoing attention in the literature not because the answer is obvious (it isn't), but because there are a lot of competing theories and there's very little in the way of evidence to decide between them.
7788445511220011 · 0 points · Posted at 21:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like you don't disagree so much as wanted to put a lot more effort and nuance in, which I genuinely appreciate but sometimes a guy just woke up and is browsing /new and just wants to contribute to a good thread so it doesn't die immediately in obscurity.
M0dusPwnens · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm not sure what you read since I strongly disagree with what you said. To be blunt, what you described is a naive and untenable hypothesis about the origin of language that fails to explain some of the most basic evidence we do have.
And contributing is fine, but speaking as if your bleary-eyed, totally naive guess is a factual answer, as if it's what people who study this question actually believe, as "basically it", is really misleading and unfortunate.
7788445511220011 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate the feedback.
FopFillyFoneBone · 2 points · Posted at 17:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thrusting hips back and forth: "Atuk zug zug lana"
LongLivetheKing420 · 2 points · Posted at 17:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie Cave Man with Ringo Star kind of gives off that vibe. I mean, obviously it’s a comedy, but they come up with words for things.... “Macha” is “monster”, “Puca” is “sick”, “Ool” is “food”, “Bobo” becomes “friends”, and so on... it’s a pretty good watch (as long as you’re not too sensitive to some dry comedy) and it’s actually got a suspenseful plot line! Lots of fun.
SMORKIN_LABBIT · 2 points · Posted at 18:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spoken Language is also likely ridiculously old and has to be. You can go back to prehuman versions of us and the larynx has shifted to allow for the complex sounds we make. The other great Apes didn't have that shift and cannot make those same sounds. There is almost no evolutionary reason for it to shift other than the ability to vocalize and the obvious power that provides in conjunction with higher level thinking. Our ancestors of literally a different species a million years ago likely had spoken language of some type. Homo-sapiens have always had language. So did the Neanderthals, Denisovans and other species of man long before those.
shuerintelectual · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that the consensus academics have?
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely not. The origin of language is an incredibly debated and controversial subject within linguistics. There are many conjectures about how language started and even more on how to study it. But none conclusive or even more probable.
shuerintelectual · 2 points · Posted at 00:44:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, sad how 7800 upvoted that guy, thousands of people now believe a lie
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. People don’t check.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It may be a little more complex than that!
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup! There isn’t a decided explanation according to the academic community working on the problem.
Blewedup · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One theory is that the first word was “snake” or something of the sort. Proto-humans likely made noises that alerted the group to potential threats.
LudoB99 · 5 points · Posted at 16:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s why basic words are also very short like : food, eat, die, meat, god, sleep, etc.
checamon · 36 points · Posted at 16:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is not accurate in every language. Bear in mind the type of language that developed in the beginning were more like sounds, modern languages have gone through thousands of years of evolution... To give you an example, "comida" means food in Spanish, a 3 syllable word...
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 17:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. It’s not like we were using terms like words like “food” “eat” and “die” for their respective meanings 10’000 years ago. You’ll find most of these words aren’t even 1000 years old.
LudoB99 · -2 points · Posted at 19:12:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But their root is. And the concept existed long before a word was put on it. The words we use now didn’t appear out of thin air, they had ancestors that can trace back to the beginning of speech itself.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, but the words we’re familiar with now in English have gone through dramatic evolution since the first inception of their meanings.
LudoB99 · 5 points · Posted at 16:51:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but following your “comida” example, I found : Etymology. From Old Portuguese comer (“to eat”), from Latin comedere, present active infinitive of comedō, from com- + edō (“I eat”). Edō derives from Proto-Italic *edō, from Proto-Indo-European *h₁ed- (“to eat”). So the original word was Edo, still very short, but Spanish has gone thru a lot of evolution before being a language.
checamon · 3 points · Posted at 19:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like these discussions :-) unfortunately there is very little we can trace back before proto-indo-european. It would be really interesting to know the full etimology of a word. I bet many words have shrunk and stretched several times to be what they are today.
Theshutupguy · 5 points · Posted at 20:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know there’s other languages on earth other than English right?
LudoB99 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course I do, I speak French everyday and it is my mother tongue. I was just using English as an example since this thread’s in English.
no_pepper_games · 3 points · Posted at 18:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Forgot "fuck"
KingOfTheCouch13 · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love how only one of those is a complete sentences. I imagined the others in a caveman voice and "relax I'm not going to kill you" in a British accent.
7788445511220011 · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a complete sentence in English, but probably more of a non-intimidating grunt originally. Perhaps that crude signifier quickly evolved into what we'd call a common greeting.
DirtyGreatBigFuck · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why if you want to see whether two languages are closely related look for the basic words like Food, Water, Fish, Meat, etc.
CIDVONDRAX · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like the first hints of language were reactions. The noises you make without thinking. Imitations were probably also the first "words"
shwambzobeeblebox · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine any social mammal has a way of communicating all of those ideas.
KevWill · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still use "Relax I'm not gonna kill you" to this day!
fart_reactor · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/talesfromcavesupport
mikeymike_74 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It goes beyond that. There are a few uncontacted tribes that use certain gestures to expresse things like "good" or "bad"
Troliver_13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some of these are things you can gesture in a pretty obvious way,for example gesturing into your mouth I feel like would be one of the first ways to represent food, and pointing a way to say "look"
absolut525 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father in law only speaks Spanish. I can only speak a handful of Spanish words or phrases. We actually can converse quite well through gestures and the like. It makes me feel like a caveman every time!
SovereignPhobia · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you look at some native African languages, some closely model talking drums that were used to communicate for both long and short distances before their spoken languages. There's a language (I'm having trouble with my memory here) whose word for water is literally phonetically "mba."
cjboyonfire · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
With the origin of agriculture, larger communities began to form that shared a common language. Tribes didn’t have specific languages anymore and this is how larger languages began to form.
As more people have more diverse jobs other than hunting and gathering, like craftsmen, new words began to develop and eventually there was a word for basically everything.
In many countries in Africa and in Papua New Guinea, tribes are still disconnected from the larger government and thats why so many distinct languages and tribal beliefs exist.
Writing was originally used to record what you owed someone and to help with trade. This obviously came from agricultural based societies.
Zenla · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"We should leave, there are bees here."
dmkicksballs13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, if anything, this makes plenty of sense to me and is easy to understand.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not established fact. Linguists have not established how language developed.
TheHYPO · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never looked into this, and maybe it's been determined (maybe not), but making "speech" sounds is a fairly difficult physical process. I wonder if gestural language (thing thumbs-up or nodding or "a-ok" fingers) game before or after sonic language.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know what you mean, but when I read your sentence I imagined a caveman saying:
"Relax, I'm not gonna kill you"
turns to friend
"Come here, look, tasty animal"
worried look on other caveman's face
IAMA_Ghost_Boo · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I fuked ur mom last night lol gottem"
crystalistwo · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And the keystone to all languages, "Water."
Grey-PooP13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone else read “hey” in a sort of primeval Scooby-Doo-ish voice?
coconutcups · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing that always gets me is the word "Mom".
Mama, maman, mámá, sure, those come from related languages so of course they sound similar.
But did you know that in Mandarin Chinese, it also sounds like Mama? Apparently, "-má" is a suffix in Navajo that means "mother".
(Apparently in some Aboriginal languages in Australia "mama" actually means dad. Posting this here for full disclosure.)
But how do so many unrelated languages have the same word???
RikerT_USS_Lolipop · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There have been tens of thousands of languages and you have been exposed to less than a dozen. Almost all of them branched apart very recently from each other and those that didn't have influenced each other with loan words.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 00:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One hypothesis with some support is that “ma” is a relatively easy sound to make given our physiology and development. Compared to “da” or “ta”. i.e. Baby says mama before dada because it’s easier.
Revydown · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if talking in memes will eventually be a new language.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We already kind of do that. Cultural memes are super dense information carriers and afford us a way to transmit massively complex ideas with very little effort.
TheLast_Centurion · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im more curious about, later, how they came up with words. It isnt just completely random, there is some system in it and it also has to sound good, but.. dunno. Maybe they just pronounced sounds and how they made them feel like a music but for words, placement of tongue and sound..
chaozules · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine if humans were advanced as we are now but still spoke like this, would be pretty funny to see, for instance someone grunting at a car like "car no work, what do?"
sallydipity · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a group of monkeys/primates in Africa somewhere that have developed a shared language like this across species! Only things they all need to communicate get shared "words," like "ground danger" (eg cheetah), "sky danger" (eg hawk), and such. IIRC the scientists studying this started hearing a new "word" that meant basically "visitor, no danger" which referred to the scientists. I wish I could remember what it was called.
Also, check out the Lexicon Valley podcast, very interesting language stuff. Maybe also The Allusionist.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would imagine It's the same, but I would think Its more complex that that, and survival would be the driving force for the development of language. It seems very unlikely that they used one word for "danger" when many animals today have several different calls for danger. Rather most of their language was probably dedicated to different forms of danger. For example, this grunt might means "danger, snake" and this grunt means "danger, sabertooth cat" or "danger, poisonous mushroom" just as how many animals today have different screeches or calls for different threats, such as many mammal species that have different calls for different threats such as "hawk, look up" vs "snake, look down" or "cat over there" and once you have basic survival down I imagine it would evolve to more leisurely topics like "this stone is good for spear tips" or "this food is tasty"
aoifhasoifha · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can see this in some rudimentary form all the time on sports teams (and I'm sure all sorts of other teams). As a (former) basketball player, I know that everyone else that balls knows that each group uses different noises and terms to describe certain actions, and that you learn them from context.
When shit gets real (like on a primitive hunt, for example), a single shouted word/noise can be easily understood, given context. All you gotta do is start slowly expanding that model and you can see how language developed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s just wild that those grunts turned into case systems with special suffixes depending on declension (and even that developed 2000+ years ago). Now we’re adding emojis to legitimate online communication, and they contribute a special or added meaning that can serve to clarify a written thought.
Kilshok · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's be real, they probably didn't say 'relax' They prolly were fully ready and capable to end that life without condolences.
Zero4020 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagined two cave man in a cave with one grunting and the other going like “ooh ooh ahh ahh" in approval And that's how music started
jasondarsh123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously, I think I could work with just those phrases as my spoken language
zombiedude2012 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“DANGER DANGER, GO GO” Tell me a situation where this is communicated😂
the_ocalhoun · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even relatively simple social animals (like small monkeys, prairie dogs, or flocking birds) have a language and a small vocabulary. For example, I've seen a study where they found that prairie dogs have different 'words' for "man" "woman" "child" and "man with gun". They'll make different warning sounds in each different scenario, and the other prairie dogs that hear those sounds will react differently depending on which one it is.
So I'd say it's a sure bet that our language began to develop long before homo sapiens even developed as a species.
ExceptForThatDuck · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linguistic anthropologists actually think the earliest language was words like "mama." It's why almost all languages have "m" sounds or other voiced labial consonants in their words for mother. Rather than communicating aggression and danger, babies wanted to connect with their caregivers.
camelsarepurple · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will probably be buried but this video is about how vervet monkeys use different sounds to indicate different predators. Not exactly like human speech, but definitely cool to see how language develops in other species.
https://youtu.be/q8ZG8Dpc8mM
bacondev · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that begs the question of how body language developed (beyond sexual or survival body language). For example, how did pointing come to be understood as a means of directing attention?
EvanMacIan · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This explanation reminds me of that cartoon of two scientists looking at a blackboard with complex equations on it, and right in the middle it says "then a miracle occurs..."
It's easy to "explain" how language evolved if you just ignore how fundamentally different language is than anything else in existence.
FQDIS · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earliest communication had to be the sound a baby makes when opening and closing its mouth:
M-ah m-ah.
SailorRalph · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deadfishfarm · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to mention they had absurd amounts of free time compared to us, with nothing to distract them like tv, books, phones
theflyingkiwi00 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What blows my mind is there is a theory that Neanderthals had their own complex language much like ours and through the interbreeding of our species there is a possibility our languages mingled, which means that we could very possibly have parts of our language which are not from our own species and the possibility that we could be speaking a form of language which is older than our own race
motodextros · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, at some point in history basic contractions must have been the ‘four dollar words’ of the day.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine body language had some serious involvement too
xenodius · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suspect it's very difficult for us to imagine just how different 'original' language was, going back far enough. It was all tribal knowledge. As I understand it, one of the first things closest to 'written' language was a system of tying together different colors of rope in specific patterns, with different types of knots at specific positions! Some languages from isolated indigenous peoples have noun modifiers for all kinds of things useful for hunting like their relative direction to oneself, the wind direction, and more such that with a few words essential hunting strategies can be outlined. These forms of communication are specialized for naturally available crafting materials, or for brevity in common day-to-day tasks-- hunting. But at some point, there was a shift from simple gestures and vocalization to a form of communication with more structure and specificity, and I would love to know that looked like!
More fascinating to me, is how other animals communicate today-- dolphins and crows are two examples clearly able to communicate relatively complex information.
SupaStarDestroya · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is, for all intents and purposes, the same basic process as how memes came about.
roschern · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that. And I get that languages are evolving. I even understand that they evolve to achieve whatever task more simply. But it is wild and weird that for 200.000 years they have seemingly become more and more complex, with weird grammar and words, and even Finnish, yet now they (most Indo Eyropean languages at least) seem to be dropping a lot of grammar and become simpler and less nuanced.
KimberlyRP · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine the first word would have been 'mama'. Which does have a meaning of being first, the beginning, etc. Babies say it easily and without coaxing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ability to learn language is biological, so I’d guess that language got more complex as our brains evolved
chainsawmatt · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooga booga Chattanooga
888ian · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol it sounds like how you communicate in survival games without mics
Edit: rust
Propaganda_Box · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine body language precedes all of these. Hey is a wave, I'm friendly is exposing your palms, look is pointing. Eventually sounds started accompanying these gestures. Then the sounds replaced the gestures.
Patsfan618 · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It starts at grunts. Fast forward a few decades and you get Dutch.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also hey, listen, and watch out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey.. friend, relax, I'm not gonna kill you. look! tasty animal food. DANGER A FUCKING CROCODILE IS BEHIND YOU!
I do be good human?
General-Walrus · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sapiens-A brief history of humankind, is a book that talks about this in the first few chapters. Super interesting. Other apes have “words” that mean “watch out a eagle” and “watch out a boar” and the other apes will either look up and hide or scale up a tree to escape.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grit gut ummph om hmmmmmm hun hun shhhhh, na nommm 😂
refreshing_username · 1 points · Posted at 14:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget "let's bang" and "I have a headache"
SafetyKnat · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s pretty easy to imagine how words like ‘bear’, ‘deer’ and ‘fire’ evolved amongst cavemen. When you think of a word like ‘however’ though...
7788445511220011 · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You kind of implied the answer: language evolves. That's not even really a metaphor. As people begin to use it and more of them over time, it gets more complex and grammars form and change, and new words catch on to facilitate that.
mistekal · 48 points · Posted at 17:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add to this, reading books blows my mind.
Little squiggly lines on paper give you a sequence of sounds that your brain can understand, and eventually you get to the point where you're forgetting you're reading at all, and a story plays like a movie in your head.
Pretty incredible if you think about it! One of the things that amazes me the most about humans!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The physical process of how the different symbols on a book page can in some cases cause massive things happening in the world is in many ways fascinating.
_30d_ · 9 points · Posted at 21:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can cure cancer by pressing the keys on your keyboard in a specific order.
ToiletFiesta · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is fuckin crazy
hondureno_1994 · 4 points · Posted at 20:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out I am a strange Loop by Douglas hofstadter. There are free PDFs online. And awesome looking to symbolism and makes you think about how humans learned such behaviours
TheWormConquered · 19 points · Posted at 17:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I assume it developed along with human evolution instead of being developed after humans evolved to their current state.
What I mean is, by the time anatomically modern humans came along, cavemen, they probably already had a fairly complex language system that could express any concept they understood that they inherited from their non-homosapien ancestors.
All animals have some sort of instinctual form of communicating, man's ancestors were the same and as they evolved so did the communication. In that sense, I don't think language was "invented" so much as it gradually evolved along with us.
Of course I have no idea what I'm talking about, I'm not an anthropologist and I'm just a drunk idiot waiting for my SO to wake up from her nap, talking out of my ass about a subject I just started thinking about 2 minutes ago. But I just think that a human yelling "fuck you" isn't as different from a cat hissing as our egos lead us to believe.
Edit: I looked up some theories, from first quick reading, if you assume that modern humans did invent language at some point, my favorite is the "mother tongue" theory in that language started by mothers who would find unique ways to communicate with their children in their formative years, who then picked it up and used it throughout their lives, slowly forming one single language among early humans that then developed, spread and changed.
KingPillow · 48 points · Posted at 17:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You ever seen a little kid who is just learning to communicate try and talk to you? You can barely understand them, and sometimes they just make up words? It’s Like that, except no one was there to correct them.
ZaMiLoD · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love it when they make up words! My oldest called stairs “gaminjies” and he had another great word for any letter or number but I’ve forgotten it... sad times
Tiny_Rat · 6 points · Posted at 17:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theres a Great Courses lecture series on linguistics thats awesome in discussing how languages change over time. Maybe you'll find it helps answer your question. Its called The Story of Human Language, and the lecturer is John Mcwhorter.
DarthSangheili · 5 points · Posted at 17:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The actual definition of meme is a concept or behavior that spreads from person to person. Meaning language is the dankest meme of all.
AlwaysTappin · 4 points · Posted at 18:03:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind is a great book that touches on this stuff.
Slaisa · 5 points · Posted at 18:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first word ever developed was probably "OI" to catch the attention of another person. It's a fairly simple pronunciation that is very accurate across all languages and cultures.
flanneltoque · 4 points · Posted at 21:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first word in Australia was probably oi. Here in Canada, it was most definitely Eh.
TiredOfForgottenPass · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Mexico we use Ey! Which sounds like A in Acorn.
flanneltoque · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never knew that! Another reason to love Mexico!
WonkyTelescope · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about exclamations of pain or surprise? Those are involuntary and probably came about before we were anatomically modern.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:34:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Mrben13 · 3 points · Posted at 18:58:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And one caveman got murdered because he didn't understand what the other was pointing at.
SecretlyaPolarBear · 4 points · Posted at 19:13:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got another one for you to think about. We all speak a family of languages from Iceland to India because a tribe figured out how to get and make use of medium sized horses
depressedblondeguy · 6 points · Posted at 16:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to confuse myself every couple of months thinking about this. I've always asked myself or if someone is around when it comes to mind "why is a fridge a fridge and not a spoon?" Or something like that
MylastAccountBroke · 7 points · Posted at 17:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language predates humans. Animals have language too. Basically you make sounds that have meanings. I yell, and you know there is a predator near by. I yell differently and you know it mean I want to mate. From that vocal pattern develop complexity as it is deemed necessary.
If there is one predictor that is a blue bird and another that is a white fox, then the shouts will be different.
Awoogh would mean white fox and
Ba-a-a-ahh would mean blue bird.
So now the colors are linked to those screams, as well as the predator.
We stop shouting, and that takes out the A, leaving use with woogh. We simplify that over years, and it gets simplified differently when we separate for generations. One group replaces the "oo" with "I", another with "A". So the languages have slightly diverged. One know white to be WIght, the other as WAght. This continues for thousands of years.
And of course when we see things we have to name them, but names are rarely made up out of the blue. We name things after how they look, where they are, after things that are significant to us. So we name a town we founded after ourselves. We name ourselves based on what we do. We name other towns after what is around it. We name the animals we find based on how they look, where they are found, or if we are a tad argent, after ourselves.
Obviously Something significant to me is different than something that is significant to you, so when I find a new toad, I'll name is the grassy knoll toad, which will be shortened over generation to something like gnoltoad. While you may name it something like the lumpy backed toad, which gets shortened to lumack toad. Two word for the same thing.
This continues and builds on itself for generations, and sooner or later you have a ton of different words for the same things.
But if I make something like a computer, then I get to name it. And since I'm introducing it to you, it retains that name. That is why some words are the same no matter where you go. But people may choose a new word for that object, and society recognizes that word over the other. Such as cars being called automobiles. Some language, like German, shortened the word to just "auto", while English changed that word to an entirely new word.
RealShigeruMeeyamoto · 6 points · Posted at 21:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animals do not have language. Ask any linguist and they will tell you that there is a real difference between communication and language, and that's what separates us from animals. Language learning is not just learning words; humans need to have an understanding of syntax, morphology, phonology, phonetics, in order to speak their language. They need to know the grammar, not just words. If language was just content words, our speech would be entirely telegraphic, like babies. I would just have to say "give Book Me" or "book here". But we can recognize that those two sentences are ungrammatical, so there has to be more going on.
MylastAccountBroke · 4 points · Posted at 21:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but what I'm trying to discuss here is how language developed and is created. Honestly it sounds like your arguing semantics. I will concede that language was the wrong word for that particular sentence, but I do feel that it gets the point across well enough.
RealShigeruMeeyamoto · 4 points · Posted at 00:05:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is is that, throughout this thread, people are giving very elementary explanations of how language developed. The real explanation is that it is a hotly debated question within linguistics and we still aren't so aware. We don't even know exactly why humans are so good at learning language in the first place --- some people think that if you took a baby from the caveman years, you could teach it language, others don't. The mere statement "language predates humans" is just incorrect as language is something uniquely human. When you're talking about how language develops, it's important to make the distinction between language and communication because a simple "humans repeat and store what they've heard" isn't even enough to explain how babies learn language, much less the development of language itself. There is really no empirical evidence for most of the conversation, so most of the work done is just pure speculation. One of the reasons why language development is so difficult is because language itself is so complex.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 16:56:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be important to make the distinction that linguists have a unique standard definition of what a language is that does not allow for certain forms of communication to be considered language.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ironically, semantics is an important part of that linguistic structure the other guy is telling you about.
KingOfTheCouch13 · 4 points · Posted at 17:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This just made me think, what came first speaking or writing? Obviously it has to be speaking, but I can't imagine a group of people creating letters and combining them to make written words to describe their language.
ChimcharTrainer · 10 points · Posted at 17:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well simply put they didn't. It's a bit long to explain but basically people used drawings to communicate. Then they begun to simplify them more and more then boom letters.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_the_alphabet
projectMKultra · 2 points · Posted at 16:23:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we learned the simplest forms of language and something a bit above the simplest form of music from imitating birdsong.
bradthaphoend · 2 points · Posted at 18:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a really great video series about it: https://youtu.be/PdO3IP0Pro8
It goes through the properties of language and how they would logically develop over time.
walkerh19 · 2 points · Posted at 18:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One that that makes it easier for me to wrap my head around that is to realize that although we think of those cavemen as dumb creatures they are literally just as intelligent as we are which seems kind of weird to me.
gojitterbug · 2 points · Posted at 18:46:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easier to understand from an evolutionary point of view, imo. We’re using words in sentence today that didn’t exist 4 years ago.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a fantastic book about this, called "The Mating Mind" by evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller. It basically suggests that complex language evolved via sexual selection, just like a peacock's plumage. Our ape ancestors would have chosen mates with the most sophisticated grunts/noises as an indicator of fitness, and over time these became increasingly complex until they developed into fully-fledged language. This probably wasn't the only factor in language evolution, but I wouldn't be surprised if it was a major one.
Itoldyou1wasill · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's always baked my noodle about language is the limits that it puts on conscious thought because of the tools language hands us to comprehend the world around us and form ideas/arguments etc... and how this varies between languages 🤯
CheeseSandals · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how even though animals don’t speak you can still tell from the noises they make and their body language whether they’re happy or sad or angry or begging for something or don’t want to do something? We just have a more complex version of that.
VRtoiletbowl · 2 points · Posted at 19:17:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some say there’s a link to magic mushrooms because they activate parts of the brain that normal won’t operate together. It’s called the stoned ape theory. 🤷🏽♂️
WombatZeppelin · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gnuershk- hey can you hand me that rock over there?
jackandjill22 · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noam Chomsky
Flabbergastedteacher · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a podcast that I learned about on here called History of English Podcast. It is all about the history and development of the English language. It is fascinating! It doesn't talk about how cavemen first invented specific words but it tells a lot about how different tribes came to understand each other, why some languages were passed on more successful than others (it has to do with the ability to digest dairy), how the alphabet was developed, and why English has so many crazy words and rules. It is kind of mind blowing. Did you ever wonder why "c" can be pronounced as an "s" sound, a "k" sound, or can can be combined with "h" to make the "ch" sound and how to know which pronunciation to use in a given word? There is a whole episode dedicated to just the letter "C."
IrishLaaaaaaaaad · 2 points · Posted at 03:39:15 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally gonna check this out, thanks!
lost-to-the-wind · 2 points · Posted at 08:48:57 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about this same thing all the time, glad there’s someone else who understands. These incredibly complex systems of communication and meaning, and we’re basically just grunting and moaning. It’s amazing
shaard · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone saw something crazy happen exclaimed in surprise and now we have definitions for "yeet" and "yeeted". One person saying it and getting others to agree on the usage is how we got here today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they were just door to door salesmen convincing people that "fhjaihsohhigao" is a word now
eviljordan · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read Snow Crash!
swootybird · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think one early hominid got sick of another early hominid not understanding their grunting and pointing when they wanted a steak knife flint instead of the butter knife flint and in frustration said "just pass me the fucking steak knife" and that is how language was born...
JamesLaceyAllan · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the book, “through the language glass” by Guy Deutscher - it’s fascinating and answers all of your questions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favourite is when you say a totally normal, everyday word so many times in a row that it ceases to have meaning, and even continuing to say it sounds weird in your mouth. Then you have to try to work backwards to figure out what the sound you're saying means. Bizarre.
TruLiterature · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro I'll just say a word and I'll say it over and over and over till it doesn't even sound like a word to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a look at toki pona, as you can see, words can be very simplistic and mean many different things, its only much much later that words began to be very precise. one meaning (sort of), one word (sort of).
ShivasKratom3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up stoned up. Not a front runner for human development but is consideres by some as a way of explaining how fast we ended up "culturalizing"
Vaeladar · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This book is a fascinating take on that very question. The language Instinct If you have the time and the inclination I can’t recommend it enough.
Veritasaurus · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is next on my reading list!
11sixteenthscourtesy · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read the book Sapiens! It has some really interesting theories about language, among other things.
callam461 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess it would start with understanding sounds other humans make, like screaming or hissing or whatever. Other animals can already understand sounds like that and their basic meanings. I'm not claiming that that completely answers your question and I know it's a leap from what I suggest to modern day, but humans have been alive for like 200,000 years (Wikipedia), that's a lot of time to evolve
TheWildColonialBoy1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ook. Ug. Blonk.
GodsGiftOfTacos · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of this also and different accents and such that would of came to be like the American accent..or oddly enough why people’s noses are shaped different
Catersu · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answer to this is just evolution, no? Unless you mean you are intrigued by the specifics of how primitive language sounded like.
GingerMau · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever watched that old Darryl Hannah movie Clan of the Cave Bear? (Or read the book it was based on.)
Film criticism aside--it portrays early attempts at language. It's kinda interesting.
Pentax25 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Obviously it did”
Understatement of the year
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language evolved over time. If you look back to the 1920s, people talk different then they did now. Back in caveman times, they just had grunts, or vowel sounds like “Kanusk” which would mean bird or rock or something, then over time the language just evolved into English, or French, or Spanish, depending on what type of area your tribe was from.
MrDeepAKAballs · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language Instinct by Pinker.
fleshcoloredbanana · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing you mention, that is really important in the development of language, is pointing. It is widely theorized that spoken language derived from gestural language, aka sign language. This is called gesture theory, and now I am going to go spend an hour in a Wikipedia hole reading about it.
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s crazier is how babies learn language. Even if they don’t fully speak until about 2 or 3 years old, even at like 1 year old they can understand so much of what people are saying it’s crazy.
ianvideo · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people discuss language and they say “this word derived from Latin or Ancient Greek”.
Fine....so what did Latin or Greek come from then? They must have come from something.
BorelandsBeard · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might like this article I found. Doesn’t talk about how it developed. But does talk about consonant vs vowel heavy languages.
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/11/06/454853229/did-the-language-you-speak-evolve-because-of-the-heat
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn’t all at once, Primitive language exists in many less intelligent animals. Birds, dolphins, chimps, dogs, and many other animals are able to vocally communicate to some extent. Over many generations, language became more and more sophisticated
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up the stoned ape hypothesis
sanderd17 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even animals can have a very basic language. The way your dog barks or makes other sounds have a meaning. It's a very simple language, with just a few words (hungry, play, leave me allone,...), but it's how language starts. From there on, it just becomes more and more complicated by adding words and grammar.
Cfollett7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just having a conversation about this the other day. I feel like it had to stem from universal “sounds” and facial expressions together. For example a smile is friendly while grunting and baring your teeth is threatening... as far as how a comprehensive language was formed from those universal sounds/expressions over time... I have no fucking idea.
rockthehoody · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychedelics had a hand in this.
ParanoidCrow · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think about this a lot
kirdie · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can actually watch this live with small children, especially identical twins, they can make up their own language.
blacktongue · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consider that the word for mother is very similar in languages that didn't grow from or interact with each other, and that "ma ma" is a very easy sound for a baby to make, and one of the first sounds that they do make.
It's pretty much a direct line from that to language.
hayleymello · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh nice, something that I’m slightly interested in too when I learnt about it. Not sure if you’ve heard of sign, signifier and signified. Long story short, the relationship between the signifier (i.e the word/image) and signified (i.e. the concept/meaning) is arbitrary so it means that we/people of the past pointing to a thing and saying a word would lead to them giving it a meaning. And this goes on and on and our vocab builds from there =)
jokes_on_you_boomer · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better then what I thought I thought 2 scientist would walk around and randomly point at things and make a sound
TheCenterOfEnnui · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a lot of theories about this. Boiling them down, they are basically that language developed from a combo of imitated natural sounds (bahhh would be "sheep" to early man); natural sounds (ouch would mean a wound); work sounds (the yo-he-ho theory); and various things like that. Eventually, those sounds evolved in to words
aure__entuluva · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add to this. I am amazed that anyone managed to communicate with people who didn't speak their languages. I think the Pope sent some kind of emissary to Genghis Khan and the message had to be translated 7 times or something.
Popka_Akoola · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you’re not wrong. It’s that but over the course of hundreds of thousands of years
thedamnoftinkers · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think along with what others have said it’s important to remember that sign language and body language probably played a huge role in the development of language... like, at no point would humans ever have felt disconnected from their tribe linguistically or like they couldn’t understand each other. Animals of the same species generally understand each other’s body language and there are many universal signs- pointing away/a direction for “there”, down/around for “here” or “this place”, at the person they’re speaking to for “you”, at someone else for “he/she/they”, etc.
I also might think back further if I were you- think like “monkeys leaving the trees” for this kind of thing, like apes who have calls and hoots to communicate. Cavemen (Homo sapiens, at least) were probably chattier than they get credit for, but then humans, apes and monkeys have always been extraordinary social. We will communicate by hook or by crook (or by blinking, if we have to!)
itsthebacontalking · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What'll really fry your noodle is wondering about what language the first humans talked to themsleves in during the thought process...
kmagaro · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ally, you fool, God gave us the words then got mad that we understood each other so he made everyone start speaking different languages so they had to leave and eventually war with each other.
Darkldark · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine, as a kid playing a vodeo game in another language, you cant understand it, so you name it how you think it would be called, but youll do that for every object and people imitate it
timetobuyale · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cuz shiz changes, so just yolo bae
yellowcurrypaco · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also how languages develop from one parent language.
maggot_b_nasty · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's the eli5 for it https://youtu.be/B3HSI3gssJY
butterflyfrenchfry · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically evolution led to bipeds growing a “hyoid” bone (horseshoe shaped bone in the throat) giving us the capability of developing speech. We likely evolved from the Australopithecus afarensis- one of the earliest bipedal hominids a couple million years ago. It likely started off in grunts and over time became more complex and symbolic. If you’re interested, delve into linguistic anthropology. Probably developed this bone around 100k-ish years ago (early homosapiens) but earliest documentation of written language dates back to Mesopotamia around 3400bc iirc
anotherlebowski · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some theories suggest that it's related to a critical mutation in the brain that allowed us to think in such an abstract way. See Pinker or Chomsky - they argue pretty heavily in favor of language being inate and also specific to humans.
Other species communicate, but they don't have syntax like humans do. Even guerillas like Koko, who could do some basic sign language, don't understand syntax. Instead of, "I want to eat a yellow banana" It would be more like a disorganized outburst of "BANANA BANANA BANANA EAT BANANA YELLOW". So that suggests that human language as we know it (meaning subject-verb-object and other aspects of grammar) requires the brain hardware that we have.
Fucky0uthatswhy · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me of an old school cracked skit “stuff that must have happened” the invention of last names. cracked It’s silly, but it’s a valid question. Why, and when did last names take hold? Id like to imagine that this solution came to life after the ninth “Michael Jr.” was born to the same family. They had resorted already to calling each other by their number, but needed an identity as a whole. So they became the Michael family.
Jejmaze · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude imagine how fucking smart the first caveman to come up with a word must have felt
tehpolicecat · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language is just fancy grunts. #changemymind
guillermotor · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omfg same!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a really interesting concept, and it's genuinely weird how human brains are wired up - or evolved, rather - to receive language. We see it with twins, who often make up a 'twin-language' that only they can understand. We see it with creole languages, where kids that grow up speaking pidgin suddenly create a grammar and a whole new language emerges - a creole.
Also, if a child is never exposed to human contact during their formative years, what we call feral children, they can never acquire language properly. Fascinating.
swallowyourtongue · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this way about so many things. I just wish I could witness the exact moment when certain super basic things developed.
pukekak · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It started little by little with grunts and then thru mimicking other animals like birds. I haven't learned about written languages but i imagined Egypt or Mongols or like Vikings and then Spaniards help evolved them.
To be honest the language we are using today wasn't fully established by the early 19th century. My hint is its in Asia. Can you guess which it is?
Alandria_On_Reddit · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's because evolution on the large scale is false.
threefragsleft · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's how Windows still works
shoopdoopdeedoop · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's interesting to look at certain commonly related words, like "hey" "oy" "ahoy" "hola" "yo" that are similar and cognate among different cultures. also like "ja" "aye" "yeah" "so" "oui" etc.
redkiller4all · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thing is how people translate languages that have been forgotten or from newly discovered tribes. Like I can understand pointing at banana and each saying there own word. But how do you even get the other party to understand you are trying to translate or understand basic stuff like yes or no that you can't point at.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All communication is is symbolism. We have connected symbols to specific meanings. Everything you say or think is symbolic to something.
In order to communicate a thought to someone else you have to standardize the symbols. 2 people have to agree that "poopynuggetz" means something. Then they teach that to their children and so on until the language is formed.
It's both quite simple and extremely complicated. Every word in the dictionary has a symbolic meaning. Thousands of words and we all agree they mean the same thing. And to have that be able to be translated to different languages is fascinating. Humans all have similar ideas they want to share but different regions of the world came up with different sounds for the same symbols.
Squirrelonastik · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look into parrot and corvid languages.
They have discovered parrots naming their young, and the rest of the colony identifying the parrot by that name from then on.
Corvids (ravens and crows) will pass down through generations pertinent information about people, locations, and predators.
Lennon_v2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's still evolving now. We dont really think about it because it's happening around us and isnt instantaneous, but it happens. 10 years ago the word "yeet" didnt exist in pretty much anyone's vocabulary, and now all sorts of people use it. We see other words gain new meaning, like "flex." Again, once upon a time it had just it's initial meaning, and now it also means showing off. We also see other terms fall out of use. Look up phrases from the 40s or 50s and there's loads we dont use today that are just so alien you may as well be reading Chaucer
WonkyTelescope · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good theories I've read are that early language was used to coordinate effort. Grunting in unison when lifting or pulling at something heavy, for example.
b1ack1323 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You ever try talking to someone who doesn't get what you are saying until you say the right words that make it click? Like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel the way about food. Like I understand how primitive man could have accidentally made steak but even stuff that seems basic like a boiled egg is such a random thing to create out of the blue.
Sexybroth · 21327 points · Posted at 14:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How perfect strangers make small talk, and how they know when to end the conversation without it dragging on awkwardly.
Neferhathor · 2601 points · Posted at 18:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When there is a lull in the conversation, just say "alrighty, well I need to go do XXXX. I hope you have a great day!" And then walk away.
Tom_Foolery- · 890 points · Posted at 19:34:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t even have to say what you’re doing. “I’ll be off, then! See ya!”
GozerDGozerian · 144 points · Posted at 20:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just start yelling, “Ow ow ow ow ow!!!” grab your crotch and run away.
They’ll understand.
404_UserNotFound · 32 points · Posted at 21:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
whelp, cops are here, gotta run.
Neferhathor · 19 points · Posted at 21:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you could grab your butt and say a dramatic and wide-eyed "OH GOD."
firedragonsrule · 4 points · Posted at 01:36:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Make eye contact with someone else and turn back to the other person and say "sigh the boss wants me to get another cavity check. It's the 3rd one this week. At least it keeps the company safe."
GozerDGozerian · 2 points · Posted at 01:00:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Running away, “Not agaiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnn!”
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 20:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man, the imagery of this made me giggle!
jjtwiggs · 2 points · Posted at 03:53:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then the real ones run after you to make sure you're ok
syllabic · 41 points · Posted at 20:14:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or a "nice talking to you" signifies the end of a random conversation
noposterghoster · 13 points · Posted at 21:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I particularly like this one when in a situation, say public transit, where neither of you are moving or going anywhere after!
GladPen · 3 points · Posted at 22:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this as saying "a nice talking to you," and I thought it was a quaint British saying.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it goes: “nice talking to you” “Yeah you too!” “Alright later bud!” “Yup later!” “Alright be safe!” “Mhm, take it easy your self!” “Sure will see ya around!” “Yup you too man!” “Alright bye bye” “Peace!”
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was once at a social gathering where a girl successfully ended the evening before it got into the "everybody knows this is over, but it won't end" moment. I still have a very vivid memory of what she did and continue to be in awe of her 6 years later.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell us!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is the thing I generallly dont understand. I watched it happe , know what she said and still have no idea how it worked
BlueStreak84 · 4 points · Posted at 00:18:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please elaborate
23Udon · 7 points · Posted at 00:36:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man, I'm on the edge of my seat waiting to find this piece of gold but he's holding out on us.
agenteb27 · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What am I suppose to do, just say goodbye and walk away? Goodbye! What a nightmare.
TheCannabalLecter · 2 points · Posted at 05:56:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'll be off then" seems like such an unnatural thing to say. Feels like dialogue that would be in a book but nobody actually says in real life maybe I'm wrong though
blahhhkit · 14 points · Posted at 19:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you all do when there isn't a lull, aka the other person is going on, but you want to stop the conversation and leave without being rude?
JBSquared · 33 points · Posted at 20:00:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check the time
"Hey, sorry, I have to go. It was nice talking with you"
Dip
Neferhathor · 11 points · Posted at 19:59:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just say "oh, I hate to interrupt you, but I've got to run! I enjoyed talking with you. Bye!"
Furorka · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing I do is to look into their eye and be warm and respectful when I say goodbye. Because if you genuinely like somebody it's OK to be a little rude so that you can be decisive. If you hurt some feelings you can always make up for it later. Give some shit, take some shit it's all good if there is trust.
I feel like this vibe is even more important than the actual words. (but the other comments are good suggestions for actual words)
raybrignsx · 15 points · Posted at 19:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the first thing people say to me.
imnotfishing · 23 points · Posted at 19:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I even walk in a direction I don't need to go just to end the conversation. Guess I'm taking the long way home today!
Epic_Ewesername · 8 points · Posted at 20:20:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but when you have nowhere to be it comes out weird when you try to make it up. Just say "Alright, I'm gonna get going" hand out for knuckles of shake or whatever, and if they try to talk again say "I'll hit you up/text you/call you, etc. Try to go right before the lull, makes it a lot easier to leave on a high note while your confidence is intact, before the awkward silence kicks in.
When it get to the awkward part your brain will tell you you need an excuse, a place to be, whatever, 19 times out if 20 you don't. Most people won't question it and don't expect you to tell them where you are going, you just THINK they will.
I had to relearn to not over apologize or make excuses. When I had to say no I always had to have a valid reason even if it was fake, someone told me just say "No thanks" and keep it moving. That using excuses only gives some people leverage to convince you, you are telling them what tactic to use. When someone tries to do it now I just use No again, but it rarely happens anymore. It's like I was slightly subtly telling people that I wasn't convinced of my no myself.
Boydle · 6 points · Posted at 21:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I preface my disconnect with compliments. "Well it's good to see you doing so well!" "I'm glad to hear you did that thing." "it was so nice to meet/see you" then "I gotta head out and so something, byyyye have a good one"
Neferhathor · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do the same thing! The Hufflepuff is strong with me.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always TRY to do this but I’m not socially graceful and always fuck it up. Like when I try to start my statement the other person will interrupt me mid way and ask a question.
“Well I have some thi-“
“Oh your dog is so pretty what type is he?”
Then I’ll try it again and fuck up the timing.
“What time did you want to meet for lunch again?”
“Well I have some things to do. I’ll see you around. Pleasure talking to you”
Overall I come off as awkward or as an awkward asshole.
PrestigiousBother7 · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, the same thing always happens to me.
deadleg22 · 4 points · Posted at 07:06:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You two shouldn't meet.
mothzilla · 3 points · Posted at 21:19:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Jesus Christ that plane is on fire!" And then slowly walk away.
craftyname · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“I have to return some videotapes.”
LHASLHAS · 3 points · Posted at 03:07:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Germany we just slap both of our thighs and say: “So....”, which basically means alright. And it’s the almighty conversation-ender.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm glad you clarified what you were going to do with that extra 'x'.
Neferhathor · 3 points · Posted at 21:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really felt like it needed 4 because XXX means I'm about to either do porn or watching the Vin Diesel movie.
derf_vader · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most conversations end with "yeah?" "Yeah."
Attila226 · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Good day sir, you lose!”
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Well, great chatting with you. You take care and have a great day!"
beeeeepboop1 · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can’t really do that in an airplane, though.
Neferhathor · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ughhh isn't this the truth.
Beautiful-Musk-Ox · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those of us who don't fully "understand" these conversations don't ever let a lull happen, it's part of the problem..
HelpSheKnowsUsername · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. If the conversation doesn’t end there, I assume that I’m able to make further small talk later. If it ends there, I won’t interact with you other than to nod at you
I was at the store a couple weeks ago, and this guy and I struck up a rolling conversation over the course of an hour and a half. When the “alright, I gotta do x” came, that was it
KimberlyRP · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have practiced saying 'It's been so nice to chat with you. Have a great day!' And then just leave. If someone did that to you, you wouldn't be upset so it's no biggie to another person.
PhoneJazz · 8021 points · Posted at 15:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word “aaanyway” seems to work to segue to the end of a conversation.
Cwlcymro · 4744 points · Posted at 19:08:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be a lawyer and had 4 steps on my "time to finish this consultation" ladder:
"OK then"
"OK then" again, but this time slapping the table gently with both hands
Stand up
Walk from behind desk, past client and open door
Only one client ever stayed sitting past step 4. It was horrible, I was powerless to defeat him. He stayed another 15 minutes, trying to teach me positive energy moves from his own brand of tai-chi.
turningsteel · 2445 points · Posted at 19:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I notice you said "used to be a lawyer", when can we expect your e-book on tai-chi?
thewhitecat55 · 147 points · Posted at 20:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love you.
matzprincesa · 41 points · Posted at 20:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i love you
thewhitecat55 · 31 points · Posted at 20:57:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I love you , tooooo!
WearyConversation · 31 points · Posted at 21:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now you three kith!
MildlyMixedUpOedipus · 11 points · Posted at 21:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can I get in on this?
firedragonsrule · 9 points · Posted at 01:38:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excuse me, this is a family site.
MildlyMixedUpOedipus · 2 points · Posted at 10:54:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OH, I know... ;)
Cwlcymro · 70 points · Posted at 21:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Me and Tai-Chi: How a Welsh farmer changed my life"
Artemis2300 · 109 points · Posted at 20:48:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be a lawyer. I still am one, but I used to be one too.
[deleted] · 25 points · Posted at 21:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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binkyboo_8 · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had to join this.
woahdudechil · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thats not how that works
IrvingIV · 9 points · Posted at 23:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The key is that the sentence "I was a Lawyer," implies either a cessation of the state of being or a previous period of time which ended, through which they were a Lawyer, even if they remained within the profession through the end of that time period.
"I was alive yesterday, and I am alive today, with good luck, I will be alive tomorrow."
Asvpxburg · 23 points · Posted at 20:49:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"OKAY THEN!"
👏
marsglow · 18 points · Posted at 22:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be a lawyer and still am. I use, “ Well, I’ll walk you out,” followed by standing up. Works ok. But lord, the clients who want to chat!
livefromphoebeshouse · 6 points · Posted at 01:02:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excessively-chatty opposing or even non-opposing counsel are the worst. Yes, I do remember that case from three years ago. Yes, I am still to busy to reminisce about it.
Daullavicci · 714 points · Posted at 19:48:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you ever consider doing step 2 with finger-guns?
Apex_Akolos · 122 points · Posted at 19:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
👈😎👈 Zoop
rbb_going_strong · 3 points · Posted at 01:26:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Classic
Excidiar · 9 points · Posted at 20:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do step 2 with only one finger gun and scream ...Objection!
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SomeIrishFiend · 2 points · Posted at 14:28:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to make more money and keep the money you make...
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SomeIrishFiend · 2 points · Posted at 18:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better call Saul!
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SomeIrishFiend · 2 points · Posted at 02:56:53 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wernerrrrrr Ziiiiieeeeegler
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SomeIrishFiend · 2 points · Posted at 07:16:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, Jimmy, have you considered my job offer?
chevygirl01 · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I so want to upvote your comment but i can't be #421.
POSVT · 21 points · Posted at 20:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Similar process as a doctor
#5 has never failed me so far
Cwlcymro · 10 points · Posted at 21:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately lawyers don't get emergency pager calls, you lucky doctors! (Although "sorry he's at court today" is every legal secretary's line if they know you don't want to talk to that client today!!)
POSVT · 4 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooh "he's in court today", thats a good one!
Usually whoever's on phone duty will tell the pt, "I'm sorry Dr. POSVT is with a patient right now, can I take a message?" But that's also usually true if I'm in clinic and not on the inpatient side
lacefishnets · 6 points · Posted at 21:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a mental health counselor, did the walking toward the door thing one time etc., and finally I just had to say, "Okay you need to leave now." It got to where my coworkers would "call me over" to help with something, because that person didn't have good boundaries, and that was my way to "break free."
POSVT · 3 points · Posted at 22:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An an intern, before I figured out how to page myself (which is suprisingly difficult if your pager system isn't set up to allow SMS) I'd get stuck in rooms forever and ended up late to conferences/rounds etc because of it so I learned to get the patient's nurse to bail me out after 15 mins or so "Dr there's an urgent call for you at the desk from <anesthesia/radiology/pharmacy/etc" or "Dr we need you in another room now"
semiomni · 38 points · Posted at 19:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just slap people in the face with increasing intensity until they understand the conversation is over, never fails.
aerkyanite · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gosh, that seems so much better than what I saw Tom Hardy was doing. He just puts his hand on peoples shoulder.
I do that and then people slap me around until the conversation ends, or I just become short-term comatose.
IamtheBiscuit · 6 points · Posted at 20:14:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you quit being a lawyer after the tai chi incident?
pukekak · 3 points · Posted at 19:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
U got kung fud
oscarwildebeets · 5 points · Posted at 20:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another ex-lawyer here. We kept our business cards by the door so we could always add a "let me give you my card on the way out" after step 4.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:16:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you switch careers or retire?
Cwlcymro · 9 points · Posted at 21:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Decided that as a lawyer all I could do was try and clean up people messes after they made them, so decided to become a primary school teacher and stop them making the mess in the first place!
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 00:06:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s awesome! We need more people getting into teaching for reasons like that.
lacefishnets · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wasn't that like a huge paycut though? :-/
Cwlcymro · 3 points · Posted at 21:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, but money isn't everything. Some bits of being a lawyer was interesting (court and police station) but other bits were easy too boring for me (and in the long run its worked out well as I now teach one day a week and the rest of the time run my own business and get to travel the world training other teachers)
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's awesome. Good for you!
Pit-trout · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I go for “OK, I think we’ve covered everything I had in mind. Was there anything else you wanted to look at?”
Cwlcymro · 5 points · Posted at 21:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn no! You're inviting them to bring up another of their life's problems! That's a risky manouver!
aheroandascholar · 5 points · Posted at 21:12:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had two clients like this when I worked at a vet clinic. I was an assistant, but we started and ended the veterinarian's appointments, and there were two clients that my vet knew to save me from. There was one time that my vet was also dealing with an emergency and no one else knew I was in there and I ended up literally having to just... leave. In the middle of a sentence. The appointment was 30 minutes, and I was in there for 25 of it (it wasn't as rude as I make it sound, but I literally made up an excuse while they were still talking and just left without hearing their response).
The other client one time kept talking even as we walked out the sliding door and started closing it slowly. I was able to walk away into the treatment area while the vet continued to close the door until only her face was visible to the client. I gathered the rest of my coworkers and we watched in awe as this client just kept talking to a face in a mostly-closed door.
Wherearemylegs · 3 points · Posted at 00:25:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was getting a divorce, my lawyer said that I had twenty minutes free for a consultation. After that, I owed him for his time. When 19 minutes had elapsed, he noted such. It was a pretty good way to stop the conversation.
Cwlcymro · 1 points · Posted at 13:42:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of my clients were legal aid - I got a (very low) fixed fee, they weren't paying it.
LittleBitDeer · 3 points · Posted at 20:22:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This wouldn't phase my mother in law in the slightest! I need about 10 more steps
IdreamofFiji · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4 is lawyer for GTFO
fancczf · 3 points · Posted at 03:20:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The table slap is so true,like a less offensive looking at watch. And standing up ready for a hand shake never failed for me. You just casually stand up maintain eye contact while talking. Reach out your hand. And boom you are out.
MDCCCLV · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you like to come see my one man play? It's a silent abstract dance interpretation of my Cat but with a 45 minute monologue in the middle.
JaeMHC · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some reason, I am proud of that man.
Cwlcymro · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
10 years later and I still think of him, he deserves your plaudits!
loonygecko · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha, good plan, I may use that table slap method in a pinch.
klparrot · 2 points · Posted at 21:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever, that's billable hours, isn't it?
not-a-ditz · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my gosh, I freaking love those people! They have no sense of social convention whatsoever and throw you completely off your feet. Now you need to think on the fly. It feels like a big social prizefight. And you get a great story in the end.
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a mental health counselor, did the walking toward the door thing one time etc., and finally I just had to say, "Okay you need to leave now."
It got to where my coworkers would "call me over" to help with something, because that person didn't have good boundaries, and that was my way to "break free."
thehoodie · 2 points · Posted at 23:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The real trick here is to say, "Well, that accounts for the time I have allotted for you today. If you'd like to continue this meeting I will have to charge you for another hour of my time."
kioku · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jeff Winger?
primeirofilho · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet you he never paid his bill. The crazy ones never do.
Cwlcymro · 3 points · Posted at 21:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't remember the exact guy's circumstances, but I'm guessing legal aid so no bill to pay!
CouncilmanRickPrime · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would have said I have to go puke and started doing a gagging motion.
Attila226 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should add a step 5: “I really gotta go take a shit now.” while clenching your butt cheeks together while you shuffle away.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn you met my Dad
SeraMiles · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was his name Justin?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I can just picture this. And him doing that to EVERY person he comes into contact with. Some people just LOVE to hear themselves talk. Makes them feel important in ways that they can’t just do for themselves.
VymI · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Babayaga20000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just pull a Harvey and yell "GET THE HELL OUTTA MY OFFICE!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its funny, cos this is not a formalised system or anything that I do, and Ive litrrally never thought about it until now, but i basicaly do exactly your steps. Particularly the table slap weirda me out. Is this just innate western body language at work?
MrsRobertshaw · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you bow to your sensei?
Randomdcguy · 0 points · Posted at 20:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is he the reason you used to be a lawyer? 😂🤣
Cwlcymro · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's the reason I became a ti chi instructor... (Ok maybe not!)
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Gilthoniel_Elbereth · 705 points · Posted at 19:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well you need to say more than just “anyways.” Follow it up!
“Anyways, I need to get going.”
“Anyways, I should be getting back to work.”
“Anyways, I have a meeting in a couple minutes I need to prepare for”
“Anyway, it was nice talking with you”
kevin_with_rice · 64 points · Posted at 20:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then you just need to walk away and not see it as awkward. A lot of awkward situations aren't awkward if you don't perceive them as such.
MikeyTheGuy · 23 points · Posted at 21:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This so much. I really try to teach people this. A lot of things are awkward simply because you THINK they're awkward, and thus, with that mindset, make them actually awkward.
It's a self-fulfilling prophecy type of thing.
Clari24 · 21 points · Posted at 20:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or the British classic ‘Anyway, I’ll let you get on’
IdreamofFiji · 11 points · Posted at 21:41:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're British in an American office, you can probably just exist and we'll let it slide. Your accent gives you class and intelligence points.
mattsffrd · 16 points · Posted at 20:24:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Anyway, go fuck yourself, I'm busy"
IRnotPANTS · 14 points · Posted at 20:23:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Alright, I’ll see you later” is all you’ll ever need
Lee_Ars · 12 points · Posted at 21:04:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Anyway, here's Wonderwall."
Ehalon · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh godsssssss I've known a few of these. I love your suggestions, however there IS a level boss higher than this, absolute social failures need to here:
"Anyways, I'm going now, thank you. BYE" - (no need to hang up on them....99.999% of the time, just don't let them get beyond a reply of "ok, bye then..did you happe..." HANG UP!!! lol
Peace X
WonderfulMr3d · 3 points · Posted at 02:44:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best way to end phone calls is to say "Well, I'll let you go". Pros say "Thanks for calling / I'll (whatever you agreed to), I'll let you go".
Attila226 · 5 points · Posted at 21:41:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Anyways, you get the fuck out of my face now.”
Voittaa · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Annnnyways, I should get back to it!"
What is 'it'? Emails? Meetings? Excel spreadsheet? Take a shit? It doesn't matter, for they don't need that info.
jasondarsh123 · 0 points · Posted at 20:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyway, you want it, that's the way you got! Am I doing it right?
[deleted] · 497 points · Posted at 18:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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discerningpervert · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...aanyways..
turnipsiass · 5 points · Posted at 19:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyhooo
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...yup
DaddysPeePee · 3 points · Posted at 19:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems pretty normal to me.
YoroSwaggin · 26 points · Posted at 19:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's when you continue with the rest of your "anyways", like "I gotta get back to work" or "Nice to talk to/see you" and end the awkwardness.
ZeroZillions · 18 points · Posted at 19:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like something I do. He probably doesn't even think there is an awkward silence there.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also sounds like something I'd do, except that I would know about the awkward silence and try to reach to the cause of what caused it, and fail miserably
ThegreatPee · 12 points · Posted at 20:08:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Alright, Capt'n. I've got a corn rat peeking out of the barn. Gotta address this before it turns into a Code Brown."
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:54:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm French. And in French we would call this "beauf" homour, and I absolutely love it. I wonder if there is "beauf" équivalent in English
ThegreatPee · 1 points · Posted at 11:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I googled it. I guess it means "Bro humor" or "Vulgar locker room humor." That sounds about right, lol.
gravityCaffeStocks · 7 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why when I say "thanks" at the end of a meeting with a coworker, or "bye" with anyone else.. I immediately hang up. No pause.
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gravityCaffeStocks · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, depends..
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s awesome
gravityCaffeStocks · 3 points · Posted at 21:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learned it from my former boss who was a n'yorker
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I respect this
TurboTitan92 · 5 points · Posted at 19:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been a supervisor for a long time and I never have awkward silences. I’ll just say “Ok then, get back to work” or “Ok then, I have to get back to work”. Because of this my team recognizes that my time (and theirs) is valuable and we can’t waste any of it on awkward silences
Im_A_Canadian_Eh · 7 points · Posted at 20:18:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never leave it at just "anyways". I always follow the anyways with "I don't need to keep you all day" or "I better get back to it". Those two phrases are so vague and can apply to almost any situation. They are pretty much universal for "I'm done talking to you now". I don't think I have ever had anyone push past those two (except one person I know, but he is a different breed)
Jwee1125 · 6 points · Posted at 20:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the greatest skills I have ever perfected is maintaining direct eye contact and feeding those uncomfortable silences (usually with a pleasant yet annoying smile on my face).
2FAatemybaby · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is especially effective if you avoid eye contact as a general rule and bust this out when necessary
LokisPrincess · 4 points · Posted at 19:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents will just go on and on in conversations so I've become really good at directing the conversation and ending the conversation when I need to go. Not sure how to explain it, but it's just something you have to learn with practice.
_litecoin_ · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe he finds it awkward that you keep standing there instead going back to work. lol
rmxg · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's just supervising you a little longer.
avantgardeaclue · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit him with the ol’ “that’s crazy...” I’m half-joking
ContemplativeOctopus · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do you think that's his fault? You don't say "anyway" and then follow up with nothing???
If someone says "anyway" it means they have something they want to talk about. If you're done talking, you have to follow it up with "I need to go", or "is there anything else we need to discuss?". You don't just leave them hanging.
secondlogin · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to have a boss that would Dismiss you/end the conversation with, “Ah, yes. Carry on.”
MrDude_1 · 2 points · Posted at 02:45:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a really cool manager. So we're bullshitting on the phone but I need to get back to work because I actually have deadlines for shit and need to talk to other people while they're available. So after the second "anyway"... I just blurted out "isn't it cool how I'm getting paid to bullshit on the phone instead of working?" It worked almost immediately. Him: "All right I get the hint. Talk to you later"
YzenDanek · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Ok, I know everything I needed; if you don't need anything more from me, I'll get back to work."
GrowProHero · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyway, I'm done with you, be gone.
Anyway, our work here is done, I'm out.
Anyway, I'm gonna go find someone less awkward to talk to now.
Anyway, talk later home slice
Church_of_FootStool · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you worked for me before? I love creating awkward silences for both my workers and customers, it works amazingly well when you smile weirdly and don’t change your facial expression or break eye contact until they say something.
insan98062 · 20 points · Posted at 18:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Today i learned its not spelled segway...
wealllickbootyholes · 9 points · Posted at 18:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word segue always fucks with my mind when I see it written.
lacefishnets · 4 points · Posted at 21:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always read crochet as "crotch it..."
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 19:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an Italian word, which is why it seems so weird spelled out. Same thing with rendezvous or colnel. They're both French, which is why our English speaking brains expect them to be spelled "rondayvoo" or "kernel".
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's "colonel" btw.
wealllickbootyholes · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean English isn’t the only language?
pivotald · 4 points · Posted at 18:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Right then" is my go to
fatbackattackcruz98 · 4 points · Posted at 19:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alrighty then
MageVicky · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aaaalrighty, then.......deep sigh taps foot stares at empty wrist pretending i’m wearing a watch cough
gojitterbug · 5 points · Posted at 18:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I end every phone conversation with my mom after she says “So, anywayyyyyyyy yay a yay ay”. She actually fluctuates.
Abrahamlinkenssphere · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"weeeeeeeEEEEEELP."
buck9000 · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also - alllllright well
ortiz0714 · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahahaha
inquirewue · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read that in Joel McHales voice.
Drunkkitties · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And “alright, well...” gets things ending nicely.
Danburg0516 · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or slapping your knees and saying 'right'
A_Fabulous_Gay_Deer · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually go with a nice "welp," followed by a stretch or a watch glance, whichever is more appropriate for the situation.
JBits001 · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tend to back away slowly as I’m (hopefully) closing out the conversation, that’s my go to move.
gumball_wizard · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately, when i say that to my mom, all it does is slightly drag her back to the subject she was already talking about before getting sidetracked on 30 different tangents. I announce that we're gonna head out, and she never stops talking. She is the master of Minnesota goodbyes.
Lohin123 · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Please don't let me detain you."
boi_thats_my_yeet · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here in the UK, we always say "right" as we get up to go or want to end a conversation
UberNoobSB · 2 points · Posted at 21:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that how you spell that? I always thought it was Segway. I'm an idiot
thedavecan · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My go to phrase is, "well, I'll let you get back to it" and then head on my merry way. It gives the impression that you were interrupting them and dont want to take up any more of their time even though, knowing me, it's probably the opposite.
Lucls · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL Segway is a pun and segue is an actual verb. Thanks internet
2hipster4you · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or the ol’ “alrighty then”
lacefishnets · 2 points · Posted at 21:45:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read this in Ace Ventura's voice...
J_A_C_K_E_T · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I do to leave
szydlowski2003 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm also a big fan of "welp...."
Which_Hedgehog · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate when people don't get this, it's the only way I know how that isn't rude.
Rushderp · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or an oversimplified cutaway.
Hjhhjk · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally choose “speaking of segues” and change the topic
goldenguuy · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats how you spell segway?
Thrasher1236969 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve... never seen Segway spelt like that before (does it mean the same thing?)
Edit:Googled it and Segway is the think that Paul Blart rides on where as a segue is used when a scene or piece of music moves without interruption
PM_ME_YOUR_MONTRALS · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"tell us how you really feel."
Woodshadow · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this but so many people don't get I want to leave. Even me. I will say that with the intent to leave and then I segue into something else
RedBeardCentralia · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only people I know who say "aaaaanway" or "so" over and over again just seem to be thinking of the next useless thing to say. I'll think the conversation is over and then they just awkwardly segue into the next thing I don't care about.
acewing · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My personal go-to is 'welp...'
fried_green_baloney · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or "well" to end a phone conversation.
Except for one of my brothers. You need to be more subtle: I NEED TO HANG UP NOW!!!!!.
SolumafSpaz · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use “well” and then it usually leads to goodbyes
golgol12 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a pretty awkward way.
oogew · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyhoot...
BobioliCommentoli · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good Talk.
SirRogers · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Welp....." also works nicely.
officeromnicide · -3 points · Posted at 17:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that spelling though...
PhoneJazz · 4 points · Posted at 18:27:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s how you say it when you are trying to end a conversation
define_lesbian · 3 points · Posted at 18:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the spelling of what?
ProfoundDarkness · 406 points · Posted at 16:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You feel it starting to get awkward and you know you need to cut it off.
BulletproofVendetta · 70 points · Posted at 18:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Hi" Oh shit time to cut it off I guess
gaucho__marx · 67 points · Posted at 18:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My trans friend told me this is exactly what puberty was like.
SmellySlutSocket · 13 points · Posted at 19:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:41:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they’re not wrong
malacovics · 7 points · Posted at 18:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
ex-akman · 0 points · Posted at 22:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I assume m to f.
gaucho__marx · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correct.
ex-akman · 0 points · Posted at 23:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
Crunchwich · 18 points · Posted at 19:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No! It’s like eating a sensible meal. You don’t converse until you’re full. You end the chat as soon as you’re not hungry for conversation anymore.
The key to good small talk is to end it before it gets stale. This is especially true for planes and neighbors, once you set a pace that you can have a nice quick chat, your neighbor will be more willing to engage you again, knowing you’re not gonna subject them to a stop-n-talk.
bobnob- · 9 points · Posted at 19:08:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say you are in a business call with someone and you want to end the conversation because you've finished talking about what you needed to talk about.
But now there's this awkward silence where no one is saying anything. Can someone please provide some good lines one can say to wrap up the conversation?
Asking for a friend
indefatigable_ · 18 points · Posted at 19:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Right, I think that’s about it. Is there anything else you wanted to add?”
“Okay, I think we’ve covered all the important points. Unless there’s anything else, we can wrap up there.”
When you detect the conversation has reached a natural conclusion, signal it’s over but allow the other person to add any final thoughts. You might also summarise actions you’ve agreed, depending on the subject of the conversation.
CptnAlex · 9 points · Posted at 19:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I repeat an abbreviated summary on my next actions and thank them for their time. Then say “have an a great day/weekend” etc. the convo will naturally end. “Great, I will email you that list. Thanks so much for your time. Have a good afternoon.”
Or you thank them for their time and say you won’t take up any more of it. “Ok, awesome! Well thank you so much, I won’t take up an more of your time”.
Either way works well.
orionismud · 6 points · Posted at 19:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some people, there is no "starts to feel awkward," because it has felt awkward the whole time. :)
loonygecko · 4 points · Posted at 21:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you are not naturally skilled at something, that just means you will want to study it more, get some aids to help you (like stock sentences to get your out of difficult spots), and just practice it more. It's really hard to feel awkward if you just keep doing something a TON. Eventually you may just get bored by it instead but the body has difficulty keeping anxiety up over the same thing over and over long term. For some it may take a LOT of practice but practice does two thing, one it is systematic desensitization and two, if you also use aids to improve your skill, then you tend to less awkward at something as you improve with it. ALso keep in mind a lot of peeps are awkward with small talk, you'll probably sense awkwardness from others often, that does not mean it's anything you did, they also often just have their own issues. But if you become more skilled at guiding conversations, that helps them relax as well. Even if you suck at something, with practice and study you will likely get better than the average person who is not making an effort to get better.
DaddysPeePee · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you do when you can't feel awkwardness. Like I know it's there, but I just don't care about it.
Joe_Number_Two · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you revel in it and assert your dominance. Show them who the alpha is.
friendsfartever · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you go just a little bit through the awkward and potentially have a great story to tell about some wacko at the grocery store.
And I'm pretty sure that's how comedians come up with jokes. They just talk to weirdos and idiots and go along with it until something interesting happens.
ex-akman · 3 points · Posted at 22:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the problem for some people is that the entire experiance feels awkward.
magicmongoose1 · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truuu. There’s no cookie cutter way to be social. Going with the flow and learning to trust your intuition more and more every time you put yourself in those situations is how I’ve gotten better. And if something ended up awkward do not, do not obsess how you messed up and replay the conversation.
And it feel like it goes against the grain to try to not obsess over that embarrassing thing you went through but remind yourself that THAT specific situations over, forever. but there’s no purpose behind it except to judge yourself. If you just forgive yourself and forget it even happened other people will treat you with that same attitude.
My therapist once told me that people treat you the way you tell them to. And that goes for whether you’re charming, shy, abrasive, or mean. And even a 3 year old can figure out what consequences they’ll get trying out each of those attitudes.
_brainfog · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So how about those polar bears?
Bikinigirlout · 38 points · Posted at 18:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually find it easier to talk to strangers then people I know.
Which is weird
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:38:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not as weird as you think. Complications and complexity comes to factor when talking to those you know. Why are you talking? What are you talking about? What’s the meaning of this conversation? Is this conversation supposed to lead to further action?
With someone you don’t know, it’s usually just random, off the cuff, easy, genuine and over quicker than you know it started.
Sometimes I feel like I could give a speech to hundreds easier than I could talk to a woman I fancied.
srrabrra34 · 62 points · Posted at 18:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a perfectionist with this shit. You talk as long as it feels natural, when it stops feeling natural both parties usually can tell and we let it fade. It doesn't even necessarily get awkward every time, you just quit once you feel yourself forcing the conversation. I go to bars/restaurants by myself a lot and make small talk with whoever is next to me almost every time.
FightThePouvoir · 44 points · Posted at 18:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm killer at this too. I've had friends ask my how the hell I do it. Honestly I just ask people a question pertaining to the situation we're in and I do it like I've known them all my life. Now that I think about it I tend to ask more conceptual questions like: What do you think motivates people to do <thing>? Where <thing> is someone doing something nearby or goofy or outrageous. Also, I ask follow up questions, my conversations are not one-up-manship monologue trades.
buddhajones19 · 18 points · Posted at 19:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep same. Or ask them something about themselves that’s not too personal. Everyone loves to talk about themselves.
RdmGuy64824 · 12 points · Posted at 21:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the gist of How to Win Friends and Influence People.
GRANDMA_FISTER · 6 points · Posted at 20:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, I don't like it, but it's super interesting to hear about other people's life. If they are able to stop and let me ask questions.
Waywoah · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My problem is that I hate talking about myself which leads me to not know what to ask people because I kind of assume that they wouldn't want to either. How am I supposed to come up with questions to ask when I myself wouldn't want to be asked them?
FightThePouvoir · 2 points · Posted at 14:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bingo!
prncpls_b4_prsnality · 3 points · Posted at 22:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if you feel judged or that the person doesn’t like you? Do you still succeed?
FightThePouvoir · 4 points · Posted at 14:09:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try not to lead with your feelings. You might just be setting yourself up for failure every time. Start off by being a likable person in the first place. Actually, I think the key to being a good conversationalist with anyone is to simply be genuine and portray and project that genuineness. have a calm and pleasant look on your face, maintain good eye contact. Once you get good at creating a connection with people then it becomes very easy. I think that we have our heads down, so to speak, so often now that we fail to look up and look around and truly appreciate other people and have empathy. If you don't know what empathy means look it up. Have you ever had somebody in your life that seems to know what you need at all times? My aunts and uncles and grandparents were farmers and hard-working people and also really really good people at heart. They seem to have this capability. That, among other things, is empathy. If you feel like you're being judged, deal with it. Move on and try again some other time. If you view the judgment as a negative feeling, then analyze it and ask yourself what you did or what you might have done to feel judged. Also, be brave enough to ask yourself, was I wrong about feeling judged? Sometimes we get into these lazy habits of just going the easiest emotional route, claiming defeat, and never trying that thing again. Be confident, you can do it.
samuraibutter · 7 points · Posted at 21:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've put it well but for many people thats not something that can be explained into practicing it. Especially the "just quit when you feel yourself forcing it". What if literally every conversation feels like you're forcing it from the start?
prncpls_b4_prsnality · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do it as long as there’s no hint of judgment or dislike of me. If there’s even the smallest of indications that the person has negative feelings towards me, then I am an awkward mess.
srrabrra34 · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:07 on May 6, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s why you practice. You do it enough that you find the questions that people want to answer, the stories they want to hear you tell, the demeanor and diction that attracts people and makes them glad they talked to you. I’m naturally very outgoing but I have had to practice not being too friendly and imposing right off the bat.
Man_with_lions_head · 11 points · Posted at 19:52:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If one has social skills. I've known plenty of people that don't know, or they dominate a conversation and will talk straight for 20 minutes, 40 minutes, or 18 hours without stopping, without asking a question to you. They just exist for the sake of listening only to their own voice, and literally will never stop talking, nor let you interject anything at all. I've run into many of these types of poeple, and at some point, you just have to completely socially cut them off. I don't have time to educate them on social etiquette.
magicmongoose1 · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro 😂Those people are just obnoxious af I’ve dealt with those kind before. U gotta rip off the bandaid and sorta leave the conversation in a way that’s respectful to them but the best excuse is to just say you’re busy and don’t really have the time right now.
And it’s funny, I used to rant and go off all the time and until I actually, actually listened to if they were really caring. they were never even listening to my rants or anything, they’d just humor me and agree or smile. And I realized I need to shut the fuck up because no matter how much something matters to you, you can’t convince the other person it’s importance unless it specifically pertains to them. So I stopped telling my life story every time I talk to people and started listening to THEIR stories. I’ve made more friends doing that for a couple months than I have in like years, and all my relationships with people I was already friends with all kinda improved too. Probably because I finally stopped taking the floor and gave them opportunities to be themselves and talk, not just be a fake listener.
Man_with_lions_head · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? It's the personality type that I most run from. I'll take a straight up mean asshole before non-stop talkers.
I know, that is what I do. It's just the most difficult, because I try to be polite. But, it's really the only solution. I'll tell people I have to get back to work, and just leave, and as I'm leaving, they don't even acknowledge it. They just continue talking, even after I turn the corner I can still hear them. Like, WTF?
I don't mind a rant every now and then. That is ok and expected. Everyone does this, and if you are a polite and aware person, you give them the ear and listen, because that's what people want.
But, as you said, if it's all the time, then no. And, it's usual that if it is MY turn to rant, because I need to, then they won't let me and just start talking again and won't stop. There's no social reciprocity. I listened to you, you motherfucking better listen to me when it's MY turn.
Oh, shit, I hate this. Tell me about the weather, I don't have the strength to listen to life stories. Not until I know someone for a year and if I'm a friend.
Nice.
It's not bad to share life stories, but just 2 minute story. Then it is the other person's time to talk for 2 or 3 minutes. Dialogues, not monologues. If I want a 30 minute monologue, I'll watch a TED talk or something.
Totally.
It's better to be a good listener, but I'll take a fake listener that gives me equal talk time, over a diarrhea of the mouth person who never let's you talk at all.
Glad you changed your communication style, good job!
onizuka11 · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you usually start your convo with beside for "hi, how are you?"
srrabrra34 · 2 points · Posted at 18:38:15 on May 6, 2020 · (Permalink)
Comment on something going on around you. Whatever’s on the tv, the song that’s playing. the drink you’re drinking, ask them what they’re eating, give them a compliment on their hat. Before I do this I try to make eye contact and smile at least once or twice and smile. Hold it for a couple seconds after they smile back or nod and then look away or go back to your phone/food/the tv. That way it seems less random when you start up a conversation because you’ve acknowledged each other.
onizuka11 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:24 on May 6, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the advice. I guess just pick a random topic (that both can somewhat relate to) and run with it.
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 18:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I start angling my body away, and issuing benedictions “ok! Well, have a good one!” “Hope you get to enjoy this beautiful weather!” “May your daughters be fertile!” Oh look! I have my car keys in my hand suddenly, and have started talking to you over my shoulder.
My strategy is to always wind up the encounter first, because I cannot survive the idea that I might be awkwardly holding someone up who is trying to extricate themselves.
FREE_TOILET_PAPER · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there's always /r/theydidthemonstermath
SeedlessGrapes42 · 15 points · Posted at 18:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't even know how to end conversations with people I know!!! I always make up some obviously bullshit excuse to leave.
One time I said I had to go let the dog out..... I was walking him.
Unidentifiedasscheek · 13 points · Posted at 18:44:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Weeeeellllll..... best be hitting the ole dusty trail."
lagasan · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oops, found the fire exit.
hausomad · 13 points · Posted at 19:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That lady I sat next to on the plane a few months ago never got the cue I wanted to end the conversation. Even when I unpaused my movie several times. 4 hours. FOUR HOURS!!!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet you every time there was a lull you gave her a solid minute of silence to let her continue, then when she didn't you pressed play, and the INSTANT you pressed play she started on again.
hausomad · 5 points · Posted at 22:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bingo. Best part of it all, she bought her seat the night before so there was a chance I could’ve had an empty middle seat beside me. Also, the conversation started because she asked if she could stick her large purse under the seat in front of me taking away my leg room.
mollypop94 · 8 points · Posted at 19:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I struggle with this BIG time. If I have to go or am in a rush I'll still feel too awkward or rude to stop a convo when it needs to and usually pray the other person will for me. I'm awful at being assertive socially lolol
But my current job has forced me to get better at it, I work in therapy so I'm often on the phone to some very vulnerable people, particularly currently with all the shit that's going on. Parents in lockdown who haven't spoken to another adult in a very long time...oh yeah, you can imagine how long it can go on for, lol.
I've found the best way now is to, of course, let them talk as much as they need to but already give yourself a set "finish' time that they're unaware of. In this case it's 50 minutes maximum as that's the average time of a regular therapy session anyway. And when it comes closer, start the "wrapping up" language. The round-it-off statements like taking a big breath and pretty much gently summarising what you've just talked about. Sort of, "well I've got to say it's great that your mother is talking with you as you'd mentioned, and it sounds as if exercising is really doing you well" etc just listing and mentioning everything you've discussed
Some might go with it, some really won't take that approach and would gladly continue talking for hours (I don't blame them one bit for that)
So then I do the one that almost ALWAYS works; when they've paused for a moment, take that to say "well, I won't take any more of your time up!"
That seems to work because you're putting the feeling of leaving them as a kindness to them. Instead of making them feel cut off or guilty, they feel it's actually my own burden for having to leave...none of this works all the time and I hate HATE when I have to simply be honest. Hate it, so worried I'll offend or hurt some people. But shit has to be done!
msalaska · 4 points · Posted at 18:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate how much I relate to this
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"It was really nice to talk with you! I hope you have a good day" end conversation.
browneyedraccoon · 3 points · Posted at 18:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not great at instigating conversations, but with practice I’ve noticed it’s based on 1. Chemistry 2. Similar sense of humor 3. Being able to ask questions based on what the other is interested in.
Tiramitsunami · 3 points · Posted at 18:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just ask questions and listen to the answers. To do that, you have to actually be interested in the person and their perspective or insights. Occasionally, you commiserate, but never interrupt. When the flow starts to fade, say something to part ways.
ph03nix26 · 3 points · Posted at 19:04:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t like being in crowded places but for some reason I’m great at small talk that leads to serious conversations where we can talk like we’re friends catching up. I don’t have “real friends” I speak to daily (or even al all) but I have a lot of older friends I see regularly like delivery people and I feel like I’m distanced enough to where I get the daily connection but not the problems of other people. I do genuinely care for these people but I’m not looking into developing really close friendships.
HydeAtlas · 3 points · Posted at 19:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to end with “alright I’m gunna fuck off”
LoneStarkers · 3 points · Posted at 19:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And watch out for the affirming, "There you go." It means you talked too long, and they're no longer listening.
Roflllobster · 3 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not awkward for social people because imperfect conversations are normal. So the "awkward" silence are just par for the course and you dont have to take them as bad. If you dont take them as bad then you dont need to have much anxiety over them.
You see this in other things as well. What things do you participate in that have mistakes that are considered perfectly acceptable and normal even if it's not desired? A 20 minute unproductive conversation at work. Missing a bit of dust under the counter when cleaning. Overcooking food or slightly messing up the flavor. But you take a bite into the food and say "this is still pretty damn good and those small mistakes are fine."
jeffzebub · 4 points · Posted at 18:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The non-initiator is just politely reacting to the initiator and feels awkward throughout the entire interaction. This is my perspective as an introverted non-initiator.
santoni04 · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how to do it if you live the first 16 years of your life in your family's hotel (I am 16)
Astronaut_Chicken · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can get everything down but the goodbye. So I dont say goodbye. I kind of just say good seeing you and then walk away. Phone calls I just say thank you and hang up.
1gramweed2gramskief · 2 points · Posted at 18:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a big fan of “you don’t say. Huh?” And walking away
StockHuman_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just say "I'll let you get back to what you were doing" and it ends, just like that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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prncpls_b4_prsnality · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have difficulty suspending belief long enough to pull this off, especially if the person I need to speak to has any hint of negativity toward me.
____DEADPOOL_______ · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's like finding something that'll brighten people's day, usually a small joke. I'll make a comment about what they're shopping, the weather, their shoes, etc. I usually make people have a small chuckle and then move on.
SNScaidus · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only in America
DennisDEX · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The last time a stranger talked to me on public bus, I got off 4 stops before my actual stop. Very nerve wracking!!
Grello · 2 points · Posted at 18:38:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuine interest
fatbackattackcruz98 · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My shitshow life in one sentence
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah if there’s a pause and you can see there’s nothing left either person wants to say you just give them a pleasant goodbye
CC--- · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been one of those perfect strangers before. Honestly, I’m not sure how we do it. We just do. Usually it’s in a situation where I’ll be forced to walk away like when I’m waiting in line at the grocery store
bosco9 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually seems to go like this: 1) greeting 2) ask them about someone they know/something on the news/etc 3) awkward silence when both parties ran out of things to say and then it usually ends
SASH11G · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, at one point in my life I decided to go out to the world and begin small talk with as most people as I could, just for the sake of it.
Nowadays I can engage in small talk very comfortably, and when I want it to end I just simply make the decision in my mind, and then the conclusion of the talk sort of manifests into existence. I feel like I begin to give some subtle cues that its about to end and the other person sort of safely disengages from the talk, and then i disengage.
You need to have the ability to make non-akward silences simply by feeling comfortable within yourself and giving off that aura of relaxation and also the ability to walk away.
TalontheKiller · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pay attention to their body language. Signs they're done? Scratching their neck/back, folding their arms, eyes darting elsewhere, and especially if their feet start pointing away from you (even if it's just one). Those are the signs to wish them a good day and go elsewhere.
Ladyinthebeige · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're reaching for something to say instead of wanting to say something say nothing. It is ok to just make a sound. You have to have the confidence to want to say something and hear a response rather than wanting to be heard.
Helix1322 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I meet a stranger, I look at anything they are wearing or listen to what they are talking about. Then try to build on the conversation.
For instance, I see a guy at a cookout wearing a Browns hat. I'll ask him a general question like "Who do you think the Browns are going to draft?" This lets me gauge how big of a fan he is, if he's been watching the latest sports news, or if he's more of a casual fan. etc
flamingbabyjesus · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. You really believe hat your particular version of magic is the right one? There is such overwhelming evidence against most of the nonsense that people believe. How does it keep going?
Rripurnia · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love small talk and according to my parents I showed my love for it since I started talking!
I’ve never met someone who didn’t like it and somehow developed the ability to do it.
So I think it’s an innate thing, you either have it or not so you know how to go and when to stop (when it’s successful)
Habs1989 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm one of these people. Whilst I couldn't explain each conversation to you, I can tell you the principles behind them.
It's really about watching, listening and not being self-conscious. You can start these conversations with a small question or observation, and gauge by other persons response whether you should continue further. Once you've done it a few times, it becomes progressively easier.
A real key part is not caring too much. If someone doesn't want to talk to you, it really doesn't matter. It's not a rejection of you as a human being, it might not even be about you. Either way, you don't know and never will, so why care?
ryegye24 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practice makes perfect, no one starts good at anything.
Zisx · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is- most people have small talk/ think like ceu's on a video game. Or if you don't want to engage in small talk- just listen to the other person. Ppl like to be heard & eventually they should get the message you're not really interested
idkwhateverrrr · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother is so good in this and I have no idea how he does it.
mbinder · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty formulaic. "Hey." "Hey. How's your day going?" "Good, you?" "Can't complain. Man, it's so hot today!" "Yeah, really hot. I don't remember it being this hot last year by April." "Me either. It's making it harder for me to stay indoors right now. I just want to be golfing." "Me too. It's so nice to have some sunshine." "Well, here's my stop. See you!" "Bye!" You just have a regular conversation about trivial, non-offensive things. Then when there are clues the other person wants to end it (gathering belongings, starting to lean towards the exit, saying goodbye or anywayyy, etc.) the other person says goodbye.
kirdie · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that just comes from experience when they have done it a few thousand times.
BluHaven · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to not understand how to do this either. Then one day I realized I have to be the one to end the conversation. So now I'll let the common small talk questions flow and get answered:
Some greeting: "Oh, hi I'm [insert name, real or fake] maybe add a handshake "How are you?" "What brings you here?" "Where do you live?" "How old are you?" "What's your name?" "We should hang out sometime, are you in to [insert some noun that may help form a connection and further talk around that noun]
I'll ask and answer the common questions and then when we've had our fill of getting to know eachother, I'll either ask to exchange contact info and then state a goodbye or go with the goodbye right away:
"Well, it was nice to meet you. You have a good day and take care."
"I'm glad I ran into you. Let's set something up soon/go get coffee sometime/see a movie sometime. Wanna exchange numbers?"
When I here them state a similar goodbye I'll smile and walk away.
When I get an answer to my number exchange question, I'll either exchange numbers and smile and walk away, or state, 'Well that's alright" if they say no, reiterate some goodbye and take care and then smile and walk away.
(Smiling is up to you. I sometimes just walk away because the exchange was so easygoing or the person was rude and I no longer care to chat with them.)
Yami3_141 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If we're perfect strangers, I physically remove myself from the situation. They don't know what I have to go and do, I can just make some bs up, or say I have to go to the bathroom. If I want to keep talking to them after then I get their social info so we can talk online or something later. I think I've always been this way, because I can't remember a situation where I've had this awkward silence at the end of a conversation, I just kinda leave to avoid it
TheMuffinMan0711 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just talk until there is that little slice of silence. Then you come up with an excuse to leave or say adios. Easy lol
warsavage32 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty good at this and I have never even thought about why. I want to say practice but it has always kind of been a strong suit. Maybe just a personality thing?
Caz1542 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Anyway, I’ll let you head off now” (Translation: Please let me leave now)
kmagaro · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can learn how to get better at it. I used to be terrible at small talk. Sports usually work for most people.
slixlix · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep your responses short and vague if it’s someone you don’t really care about talking to; for example “ahhh that’s crazy” “ohh really?” “huh, that’s interesting.” Slowly back away and position body away from them as you throw in a small laugh and let them know to have a good day.
Or if it’s someone you’re genuinely interested in ask them questions, let them talk about themself and pay attention to what they’re saying instead of thinking about how to respond. People like to talk about themselves and it psychologically makes them like talking to you. The thing is it actually makes it easier on them too. It’s easy to answer questions about yourself or about something you’re knowledgeable about obviously.
And don’t worry if you give a stupid response, everyone does it all the time. The person you’re talking to does it as well and they’re not better than you just because you said something stupid.
IridiumPony · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to do a lot of traveling for work, which meant a lot of lonely nights at a hotel bar, which also meant a lot of chatting with strangers because I get bored. It's all about context. Usually you can just start with something innocuous, like I was sitting at a bar in Kearney, NE one time and struck up conversation with the guy next to me by just saying "Hey how about those Huskers this year?"
Truth be told I didn't know much about Nebraska Cornhuskers football that year, mainly because I couldn't give two fucks about Nebraska, but it spiraled into a fairly long conversation over a few drinks. Even if you aren't familiar with a topic, once you get someone started talking it's not terribly difficult to steer the conversation, and if you pay enough attention you can usually find topics you're familiar with even on a subject you don't know much about. It's really all about picking up on context clues.
Also, know the signs when someone doesn't want to talk. Some people just want to be left alone.
goatofglee · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't converse with people, but I can generally do small talk, because there's already a script. Anything past that is extremely anxiety inducing. I have anxiety/social anxiety, though. Weed helps some.
mypostisbad · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sport can be a lifesaver. Talking about football (soccer) is a conversation that could literally go on forever
geeride · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was just scanning this over and I read "sexy strangers", that sounds a lot more interesting.
citizen42701 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I usually start fidgeting with something. Looking at the ground intermittently works too.
MageVicky · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
adding to that, how to end whatsapp conversations that seem to drag on awkwardly. i end up pretty much just ignoring the person texting me.
islesoflightlessbird · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or when people make small talk and don't analyze every single thing about the conversation for days. I replay every conversation and somehow find a way to criticize myself everytime
yucatan36 · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Couple beers goes a long way.
Once_Upon_Time · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the conversation with someone and they ended it by saying, well I know you got to go...
I walked away being wow, that's how you end a conversation.
Alwin_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well isn't that what makes them perfect strangers?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The other day I said "Well, I gotta finish tightening these bolts". Will probably only work when you have bolts to tighten but worth a shot either way.
mPeachy · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look at the feet, when one starts pointing away from the other, the conversation is over before the words have stopped.
vvtroubledartist · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
havent figured out the ending the convo bit unless it's like a saved by the bell kind of situation. But sometimes, it just starts with a compliment or if you both see something happen and just start talking about it. I dont get it myself, but it's nice to meet someone friendly and open and I'm more than happy to roll with it!
edit: I get really chatty, my partner often has to pull me away from conversations. They've admitted part of the stress for comic conventions for them is me spending half the con talking to random people and them having to drag me away. They're super introverted and have a harder time jumping in.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have 2 uncles who can literally talk for hours to people they had just accidentally run into. I never understood this & still dont. Both seem to have been gifted (or cursed) with verbal diarrhea.
MrGamerMooseBTW · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just end it when they get bored
Krynn71 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just look at your watch/wrist and say "Alright man, I gotta get goin'! Have a good one!" and walk away with purpose. Even if you can't leave, just make like you're late for your 2 o'clock poop and gotta take care of it asap.
mrgnarchr · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I want people to “leave me to it” I’ll just say “Okay, well I’ll leave you to it”.
As soon as you’re feeling the conversation has run it’s course, just make it seem like YOU don’t want to waste THEIR time and then just leave yourself.
You look like you’re being considerate, but you’re just framing your exist like that.
Epic_Ewesername · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disengage on a high note. When the conversation is still good but you're right at the cusp of running out of things to say then just be like "Alright, I'll see you later." (If you have nowhere to actually be, don't try to make up something, it will mess up the flow and 95% of the time no one actually expects you to tell them, your head just tells you they will.) Hand out for knucks or shake, or whatever (never go for a hi five, no one ever expects it and it makes it weird.) And walk away.
Have to go in their same direction? Don't, just walk the other way until they are out of sight and proceed upon your route.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"well, have a nice day" and walk away. You'll get it right at least half the time.
PornoPaul · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"On that note, I'm out/have to run to the bathroom/ have to get going".
funffunfundfunfzig · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LPT: My secret to exit a conversation is to thank them for something they’ve done in the conversation. It’s a perfect segue to exit and instead of feeling awkward, they feel reassured and confident. Win win.
“Well thanks for letting me know about the bees nest, Jim. What would we do without you? Great talking to you!”
“Thanks again for the weather tip! Better go grab my umbrella now! Bye!”
“Thanks for the compliment, you charmer, now I’m set for the day. Gotta go!”
“Well. Thanks for the chat. Let’s chat again soon.”
So dreamy. So versatile.
funngus · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man this makes me cringe. I'm from the Midwest and people always expect you to have a conversation with them when they strike. Waiting at a bus stop and its you and 1 other person? "Oh boy the weather today is much nicer than yesterday, huh?" Or you're just trying to get your groceries "oh I love that brand more than the other brand!". As someone who has severe social anxiety my entire life has been "how do I get out of this conversation with this complete stranger, without hurting their feelings?"
camoskinso · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“im gonna let you go, i’m sure you’re busy!” or “well it was great meeting you”
gouf78 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read “How to Talk to Anyone “ by Leil Lownden. She studies language and conversation styles. Super book. She’s written many and some of the best are about conversation dynamics among family members.
I used some of the tricks in her book and (when I got brave enough) struck up a conversation with a total stranger who turned out to be totally fascinating (writing a book, about to be published, traveled world wide) character. Once you learn to put yourself last (everyone loves to talk about themselves) it’s very easy. But helps to have some pointers on how to steer a conversation. As an introvert it’s given me a lot more confidence in social settings where I don’t know anyone.
PebbleBeach1919 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the movies, people just plain hang up when the plot point has been made.
salgat · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small talk is all about speaking in very vague and general ways (such as "how is the weather" that everyone has an opinion on) and refining the topics as you find things in common. It's basically a way to probe for similar interests.
SSj3Rambo · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just say something like "I have to go, goodbye". Actually overthinking is what makes the situation awkward
RumeScape · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you practice this for several years you'll definitely figure it out
McCool303 · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s even crazier is Larry is a midwestern American and Balki is Mediterranean. They have practically nothing in common yet they are able to small talk. Don’t get me started with all of Balki’s zany antics.
ShutUp_TryingtoRead · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"it was really nice to meet you, good luck with whatever they mentioned bye"
bornagain-stillborn · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I like corn" always works for me. They look confused at first, then comes the look of pity as if they feel sorry for you, then comes the look of concern as they contemplate whether or not you are about to cause them bodily harm. It helps if you stare blankly past them as if you are trying to read something behind them.
unnecessarylad · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an Irish person, whenever any conversation slows down I have a compulsion to go "ah sure look" but that ends literally every conversation. Horrible habit
ivaclue · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Knowing when to end and exiting a conversation is a critical and tactical part of communication that MOST people are not good at. I love people, I’m a massive extrovert, and I get my energy from communicating with people. I like to watch how people talk and critically analyze the flow of how things work - like - a LOT of fights can be avoided with better verbiage and that absolutely fascinates me.
Small talk is a skill. There are rules of engagement, and it takes practice. That said, the best way OUT is to say “it was nice talking to you. if you need anything from me let me know.” Where that starts to get more challenging (also see-impossible) is when you’re forced to sit next to someone for long periods of time and there’s really no way out until you can leave.
My general rules- 1. Do NOT talk about Politics, Religion, Health, or Money. It’s even ok to say “I’m sorry, I don’t talk politics.” 2. DO talk about Weather, Sports, Music, Traffic, Work, Family, Food, Pets, Hobbies, Travel. Most everyone can relate and it’s not polarizing. 3. The most important person in the room is the person you’re talking to, not yourself. Be sure to ask lots of questions and let them carry the conversation. It’s like holding the door open (plus, if you’re not a talker, they’re doing all the work). 4. The fastest way to get to know someone is to ask them about their family. You’ll get a sense of how they were raised and what their beliefs and expectations are. Balance of probability, you can assume the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. 5. Tip your waiter, step out of your comfort zone, and wash your hands.
Learningmoreknowledg · 500 points · Posted at 14:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just thinking about life and the universe. Like where do we go after we die? Why are we here? Thinking about the universe and how big it is and space and time? Black holes? Why are here generally and what’s our purpose? If there are other live forms in different galaxies?
Dalipoc · 47 points · Posted at 17:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gets me a lot man... weird stuff.
snidleewhiplash · 50 points · Posted at 21:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's one of life's great mysteries, isn't it. Why are we here? I mean, are we the product of... some cosmic coincidence or, is there really a God... watching everything? You know, with a plan for us and stuff. I don't know man, but it keeps me up at night.
Learningmoreknowledg · 19 points · Posted at 22:00:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree and also thinking about how big everything is I mean. You’re literally your own self right out 9 billion people it really makes you feel small and worthless at least to me it does. Or like if there is so many people like why do I matter.
tyrico · 15 points · Posted at 22:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol he's quoting red vs blue.
JWayn596 · 2 points · Posted at 01:15:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah not to undercut your response but he was quoting the first scene from red vs blue, a parody/comedy series. Just search "why are we here red v blue" on youtube
daysofhim · 13 points · Posted at 22:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
What? I meant why are we out here, in this canyon?
Gongaloon · 5 points · Posted at 23:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a God man myself, but I wish you well in finding the reason for your existence.
collinnator5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He’s referencing an internet series called red vs blue
Gongaloon · 4 points · Posted at 23:56:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh. I've heard good things, but never watched the series. Is it worth the time? Mind, in this quarantine my time is the cheapest it's ever been.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:43:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id say the first 13 seasons are at its beat. I dont know what 14 was meant to be and after that, well it just is there
ObjectivelyTheWorst · 2 points · Posted at 06:33:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s worth it. It’s very funny, an actually good story develops later, there are some mind numbingly good fights at around season 7 and on (or something like that), and it’s honestly just neat to see a series that’s 17 or so years old develop over time as they get better and more have more real animation. Also, stop at season 13, 14 if you want some extra anthology stuff. That’s the real ending, and everything after that will just sour the experience imo. Cheers~
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was expecting to see this
UndersirableLoser · 16 points · Posted at 20:49:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I tend to think of death as like non REM sleep but forever because when we sleep we only really remember 1. going to sleep 2. our dreams if we dream (REM) and 3. waking up . I think its basically incomprehensible to our brains
Larva_Mage · 15 points · Posted at 22:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think an even better analogy would be what it was like before you were born
UndersirableLoser · 3 points · Posted at 22:11:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree, but i think that that's even harder to fathom
b00pl35n00tz · 4 points · Posted at 22:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's how I think of it, too. And it terrifies me.
MaygarRodub · 13 points · Posted at 23:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. Not existing is such a terrifying concept to me that I have to just make the decision to think of something else. Otherwise, I sink into a pit of despair.
xGlycerine · 8 points · Posted at 01:36:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I stop this? Its genuinely become an issue. Almost nightly. Maybe its anxiety? I wish I believed in heaven SO BAD
winter-anderson · 7 points · Posted at 03:16:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Distraction is key. It’s pretty much the only thing that can get me out of it, or else I spiral into panic. Watch a funny YouTube video, play a game on your phone, read a controversial comment section that gets you pissed. Just anything to take your mind off of it.
Also, I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve conditioned my brain to force itself away from those thoughts the moment they pop up. Took a while to get there, but if you can train yourself to just nope out of that thought process right when it starts, you’ll suffer a lot less.
xGlycerine · 4 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know what you mean by training yourself, like the second the thoughts pop in, you dont let yourself "go deep". For some reason it's been harder lately, but I probably havent been truly trying things like your suggestions
BabysitterSteve · 2 points · Posted at 07:38:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mentioned this in another comment ...
Just face it. There's nothing you can do about it and we're all in this together. People that came before you, everyone you know now and everyone that will be after.
I'm not religious, but the way I dealt with fear was that I believe there is more meaning to everything. You have people saying "There's nothing. It's the end." ... And I just believe there's something more. Look at how beautiful life is. Here on Earth, how far people came. Look how misterious and beautiful the universe is. Everything is connected in one way or another. And I truly think that after we die, there's something more. Maybe you are reborn as someone else down the road? Maybe you exist in another space. Maybe you just become a part of something bigger. And even if there actually is nothing, you can't fathom it. :)
MaygarRodub · 1 points · Posted at 10:41:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, that's part of the problem. I'm 100% convinced that after I die, there will be nothing. Nothing at all. I'm not religious. I don't believe in anything afterwards. It'll just be like before I was born and the logical thing is that it won't matter. I won't be aware that I don't exist, obviously. There won't be any pain, happiness or any emotions. No thoughts. No consciousness. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. It's hard to comprehend. And it's terrifying. If you believe in continued existence of some sort, then that's great. But I can't make myself believe something that I don't believe, if that makes sense.
BabysitterSteve · 1 points · Posted at 10:59:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It does makes sense and I understand why you feel that way.
But the best thing I can say to you then is to just enjoy your life to the fullest. Make the most of it and remember we're all in this together. Whatever THIS might be. :)
MaygarRodub · 1 points · Posted at 11:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely. That's one thing I do. I make the most of things. I enjoy every day. Hope you have a good one, today.
MaygarRodub · 1 points · Posted at 10:43:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, same as other reply; distraction. I don't think my mind can ever come to terms with not existing. So I literally just have to think of other things. Distraction, distraction, distraction. I can't make myself believe something that I don't, so there's no other way around it for me.
xGlycerine · 6 points · Posted at 01:35:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes, and always at night, I realize I could die at any second and stop existing forever, and then I mean I'm glad its "nothingness" but maybe that's even scarier than... even pain? And then I hope I live forever. And then i know i wont and am terrified. And then I go to sleep and just live my next day with not a care in the world.
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hear you dude! And with our modern knowledge of space (billions and billions of galaxies, each with billions and billions of stars) there is absolutely no chance that our little rock is the only one that supports life, but this will be debated until we actually observe extraterrestrial life. Humans are weird
xkzito · 9 points · Posted at 21:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ll enjoy Kurzgesagt
collinnator5 · 4 points · Posted at 23:37:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That dissatisfaction episode hit different...
jack_hof · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:27 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also Pursuit of Wonder.
TheMintLeaf · 10 points · Posted at 23:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've thought about this a lot, and my current thinking is that, as existential and unsatisfying as it is to say, there isn't one. The desire to understand is a human thing, sure other species have a certain function or roll they fulfill, but humans are the only ones to ask why we do the things we do.
In fact questions themselves are only a human thing, we have taught apes, gorillas, chimpanzees, bonobos, and orangutans the sign language necessary to be able to ask questions, but none have ever done it. We've asked them questions which they have answered, they are able to make statements and requests, but they have not once asked a question despite being the most intelligent species aside from humans.
The truth is, we evolved to where we are now because our species, as well as all the species we originate from, were better at surviving than others. That's really the only reason humans exist, because we're abnormally smart compared to all other animals and it has allowed us to develop language and culture and infrastructure and technology and all these things that put us far ahead in the food chain. And the reason we have these things is because we are curious and want to make things better (a lot of us only want things better for ourselves unfortunately), we wanted to explore the world and colonize new places, and now that the world has basically been dominated by humans we want to explore everything outside of the world. We don't just want to experience things, we want to understand things.
So the reason we wonder about our existence is because we're uncomfortable with unknowns, when we saw a new piece of land beyond a sea, or an unreachable location past a mountain range, we had to know what lied beyond. And now that the entire surface of the Earth is charted with great detail, we have to know what lies beyond our planet.
Human existence is a never ending quest to answer unknowns, and unfortunately the biggest unknown looming over all of us is existence itself. Because the truth is, I can talk all day about evolution and how the galaxies and solar systems formed, but I still don't know how the big bang started, or what happened before it, and what will happen in the future. So I can't answer all the "how" questions, but I can at least have a good guess at "why", and say that there isn't an answer. You can certainly add meaning to your life with goals and relationships which is a great thing to do, but why you exist in the first place I don't think has some bigger meaning.
TLDR: Saying "we exist because we evolved this way, there isn't any larger meaning to it" is very unsatisfying, but it's just how it is. The universe wasn't designed for us, we just happen to live in it. The universe and everything in it existed far before us, and it will exist far after us, we just happened to be in the right circumstances to be able to exist. So really, in my opinion, there is no deeper meaning to why we exist. But that doesn't mean that our existence isn't an amazing miracle.
BabysitterSteve · 2 points · Posted at 07:44:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like you're thinking, but I'm the person who believes in exactly the opposite thing you do.
I do thing there's a bigger meaning. Not as something heavenly or eternal life, but that we exist on much grander scale. How everything in the universe is connected. Maybe you will exist again, maybe you move to another place ... Everything has a beginning and end.
And even if it's like what you think or what I think, we can't do anything about it. And I agree with you that us existing is a miracle. Just look how beautiful small things at your place are. How beautiful our communities are. Our advancement as civilization. Look how beautiful planets and the whole universe it. So many possibilities. It's exciting.
TheMintLeaf · 1 points · Posted at 08:04:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your belief is just as valid. I certainly still believe our existence is important, we have a large impact on the people around us and we all have the chance to really improve the lives of our fellow human beings, and even if we're small compared to the universe, our lives still matter.
And the truth is, my belief is what I currently think is most likely, who knows what I'll believe in the future. That's the great thing about being human, we are always experiencing new things and our experiences can change who we are.
BabysitterSteve · 2 points · Posted at 08:08:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Preach! Exactly how I feel. :)
Also I guess me and you are pretty much open to everything and that's the fun part haha.
TwinkyOctopus · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's religion for you
samgau07 · 3 points · Posted at 23:55:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life is to figure out what is the meaning of life.
Ropsutor · 6 points · Posted at 21:58:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We probably don't go anywhere
Because some cavepeople were good at surviving
the universe and space are really fucking big
Dense sucky hole with no light in it
To survive and procreate
most likely not
Hope these simple answers help
Sir_Fishy_Salmon · 1 points · Posted at 17:09:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the idea of infinite chance in an ever expanding universe is that there most likely is another planet that can recreate the conditions to create life
Lateralus11235813 · 2 points · Posted at 05:35:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont know a whole lot about stuff, but I ask why a lot. I've come to terms with a concept that because the universe runs on logic and causality, that maybe it only exists with the universe. So, whatever happened 'before' time and existence existed, or what was there before, isnt subject to logic or causality.
This is.probably worded weird but it might make more sense in the scope of talking about the 'creation' on the universe: if something created the universe, what created it? Well, if it created the laws of logic and caused and effect, maybe it doesnt need all of that to exist.
BabysitterSteve · 2 points · Posted at 07:02:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have existential crisis so often haha.
I used to be afraid of death and shit, but now I have this thinking ... The universe is so big and misterious. Everything connected in it's own way. No matter what happens after we die, everything begins and ends and I feel like there's a bigger reason at play for all things that happen. There's so many possibilities and thinking about how stuff in the universe works and it's so exciting.
sina182 · 2 points · Posted at 09:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I must agree. When I was a kid/young teen thinking about this gave me bad panic attacks. Even now (I’m 28) I find myself with anxiety and in existential crisis when I try to wrap my head around questions like ‚where do we go when we die‘, ‚is there just nothing?‘, ‚do we have some sort of soul/energy‘ and ‚why the fuck are we even here?‘
2211abir · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://external-preview.redd.it/YbszVt9DCkdMSlGasB6CQAOgF8ZfCEVcTk5TzoRZ5N0.png?auto=webp&s=fe191d8e9e0af517eaff0bc713a2bda8554a7907
jaqness · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am beginning to think/realize that to some of these questions, we human beings are not capable of finding the answer. This kinda bums me out since I really would like to understand, for example, why we even are here... Maybe there is a next evolutionary step where we can start understanding more
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We go to soil and eventually fuel the stars.
We are here because otherwise we wouldn't be here.
Very big. Likey nobody knows, and it keeps growing. In fact, it's growing so fast that the outer parts are moving away faster than the speed of light so the light will never get to us - it will forever be dark. Also, there is no such thing as 'outer parts' - everything is a middle in the Universe.
Black holes are the coolest.
We are here for no reason, probably. We were lucky I think. We probably don't have a purpose as a specie. The Universe doesn't owe us a purpose either. But we all make our own individual purpose.
Yes, I think there are many life forms in this galaxy, even more in other galaxies. There are billions of galaxies, and who knows what is out there. Chances of us being alone is 0. We will reach the stars some day, I just hope I'm alive when we meet the first aliens.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to say how life started if you want to say anything about the chances of us being alone, and if you can do that you wouldn't be talking about it here.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know the theory of abiogenesis, and the evolution, and the chance of life starting is very small, but there are so many planets out there that it raises the chances significantly. Why does me talking about it here means I don't know how to explain life?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you don't know the thermodynamics and kinetics of life formation, then you don't know the probability of it happening, so you can't talk about how probable it is. You're not defining "very small" and it could easily be small per trillion trillion planets.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think we can really calculate the probability of life starting. But, if life formed here, why not somewhere else? What makes us so special that, out of trillions of possible life habitable planets, it just formed here and developed so much only here? I think that's what makes the chance of life only being here so small. No, I don't know the precise probability, but, neither do you. So I go with my instinct, as always.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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winter-anderson · 3 points · Posted at 03:20:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah imma have to agree with your psychiatrist on this one.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha fine its hard to believe to start with
WhalesVirginia · 1 points · Posted at 06:45:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually in the ground. No particular reason, pick your own. Space is really big, for us it’s effectively infinite. Time is a mathematical construct to describe division of cyclical movement. Black holes are matter. Again no particular reason. Yes there are probably other life forms.
UncleSamLuvsGuns · 1 points · Posted at 16:24:26 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was there before there even was a was?
Winterfuzz · 0 points · Posted at 22:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve done enough psychedelics to realize that we are in a simulation, just like what Elon Musk and Rick Sanchez say, except I can see it.
collinnator5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you elaborate
Winterfuzz · -4 points · Posted at 23:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im an INTP personality type, we see the world a little differently. When I did psychedelics, I was able to see the big picture of how the world works, I can totally see how this is — according to Elon musk— 99.9% a simulation. In my opinion, there is no religious god, just how the nature of reality is. And if there is a god, it’s either consciousness, or the patterns in reality (such as the dendritic pattern or 5 fold symmetry.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:00:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fucking ELON MUSK
collinnator5 · 3 points · Posted at 23:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But when you say a simulation, do you mean like the matrix? Like an outside being controlling what we experience? (I’m not trying to come at you or anything just really curious)
Winterfuzz · -2 points · Posted at 03:07:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No... I mean I see that we are living in a 3D space, just like what you’d see in a video game. Not sure if an outside being is controlling what we experience, unless you’re talking about nature and physics itself. Physics is programmed a certain way, just like “game physics” for example. I still haven’t figured out why humans are here and how we have the capacity to think the way we do and how psychedelics play a role. Maybe we are all god.
collinnator5 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get fascinated at the thought of our bodies being a universe to our cells. Which would mean we are cells in a much larger being.
Winterfuzz · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve seen it. When people say “I am the universe” they mean it. I truly believe we’re just living in one giant Mandelbrot zoom, and we are living in a giant organism who’s also just an atom/cell in another even larger organism, and so on.
collinnator5 · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You. I like you.
Winterfuzz · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I just make my first internet friend?
collinnator5 · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck yeah you did.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:54:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Winterfuzz · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. Briggs Meyer psychological tests are not even close to what date you are born
StrangeCharmVote · 0 points · Posted at 06:24:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ground, or an incinerator generally.
Because your parents has sex.
They are dense balls of mass, that generate gravimetric fields large enough to swallow light.
First part already answered.
You are an independent life form. You make your own purpose.
The chances there isn't are so trivially small that we only say maybe out of intellectual honesty, and not because anyone actually thinks there might not be.
We are made of the most common stuff in the universe, in some of the most common conditions, and there are actually proposals for many other kinds of life (silicon based etc).
Mars looks to have at one point had oceans, and analysis seems to suggest chemicals which we think can only form with organic chemistry at work.
Titan (the moon) has huge oceans on it still, and is very likely to have life on it as we speak. Though getting probes there to check properly is somewhat more difficult than simply landing them on mars.
The universe is a big place. And that's 3 or more potential sources in our own solar system.
Life is out there. We may not as a species live long enough to find any outside of our origins however.
NostraDavid · -3 points · Posted at 23:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemicals stop going brrrrrr
Chemicals went brrrrrr
Brain goes brrrrrr
Gravity goes brrrrrr
Chemicals went brrrrrr and to keep chemicals to go brrrrrr
Chemicals went brrrrrr here. No reason for it to not go brrrrrr there.
Wishyouamerry · 15134 points · Posted at 14:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing.
Like the whole concept of nothing boggles my mind. What was here before our universe? Nothing. What’s in between the atoms of our bodies? Nothing. What’s for dinner? Nothing.
I just don’t get it!!!
BetterThanHorus · 1290 points · Posted at 17:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As weird as it sounds, we actually don’t have any concrete examples of nothing. Even if you examine an area of “empty” space, you find that you still have something there
twinkie2001 · 246 points · Posted at 17:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Forgetting small particles or dark matter, even space-time itself is something...I think?
JJ668 · 99 points · Posted at 19:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yeah you’re right. Ignore the people below you though. They have no idea what they’re talking about. There isn’t some abstract “energy” filling up that space. Instead space itself is a thing. It isnt just empty space because you can produce more of it.
If you ever hear that almost every galaxy in the universe keeps accelerating away from each other, that’s because of space’s expansion. Imagine you have a chocolate chip cookie, the cookie is space and the chocolate chips are galaxies. Then imagine all of the chocolate chips are moving towards each other but the cookie itself is expanding. Even though the galaxies are moving towards each other the cookie is expanding so fast it looks like they’re moving away from each other. It’s sick af
nuplastic17 · 28 points · Posted at 20:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is an excellent visualization.
MildlyFrustrating · 6 points · Posted at 20:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So then what’s the pan that the cookie is resting on?
riskoooo · 23 points · Posted at 20:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is supposedly 'saddle shaped', so I guess it's a really big horse...?
hokie_high · 22 points · Posted at 21:59:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So we’re all cookies on the back of a horse, that’s what I took away from this.
brianstormIRL · 3 points · Posted at 03:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isnt the whole thing about the shape of the universe essentially impossible to accurately measure because of our location in it? As in, there is certain parts of space we will never, ever be able to see and our observation is constantly skewed. Like we can only see across but not up and down.
BlazeOrangeDeer · 8 points · Posted at 01:09:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no pan, it's just cookie in all directions forever. Or it might be that going far enough in one direction gets you back to the same chocolate chip you started at. The universe doesn't have an edge, and there's no where outside for a pan to be. There might be places that aren't in our universe, but they wouldn't be beyond the edge, they would be in an entirely different space.
mycontortionisticgf · 4 points · Posted at 02:08:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Turtles
Maxwells_Demona · 2 points · Posted at 05:14:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's turtles, all the way down!
devyReddit · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many chocolate chips are we talking about here?
Robohobo07 · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about the Aether? /s
benihana · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes there is. you are incorrect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vacuum_energy
PBS spacetime, the nature of nothing explains how this is an implication of the uncertainty principle. this energy isn't usable, which is why zero point energy machines are bullshit. but the energy is there.
JJ668 · 2 points · Posted at 07:08:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can have energy, I never said it couldn’t. What I did say was that it was not filled with this energy. Space can exist in a state where no energy exists, which it says in your links. My point is that space is a thing by itself, regardless of whether or not it contains energy.
deadleg22 · 1 points · Posted at 07:22:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait so the universe has to expand to stop gravity making us back into the small ball pre big bang?
JJ668 · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah and it’s sort of doing way too good of a job right now.
deadleg22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps it's going to be like a rubber band, it will pull until gravity slows it, retrace (times going to get weird) and then pull forward again at a steadier speed.
arceushero · 9 points · Posted at 22:36:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people here are making definitive statements that make me a bit uncomfortable, so let me offer you a cop out answer: physics does not make claims about ontology, i.e. what exists, rather it attempts to model phenomena. Nobody can tell you if spacetime is something because that depends on 1) your definition of something and 2) knowledge about the nature of spacetime that we simply don’t have.
In particular, this second point is tied up with considerations of quantum gravity; we don’t know if spacetime is some fundamental thing or some emergent phenomenon resulting from underlying dynamics. For example, consider string theory: in this scenario, our observed 4D spacetime would just be an artifact of our inability to see small extra dimensions.
Basically what I’m trying to get at is that you should take anyone giving you authoritative answers to this with a bucket of salt; we really don’t know what actually exists.
Maxwells_Demona · 3 points · Posted at 05:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physicist here. When people learn I'm a physicist they often want to ask questions about things they are curious about (which I think is great and I try to encourage). But a rather large number of the questions I get unfortunately get answered with, "That's metaphysics, not physics."
That said there is an awful lot that we are awfully certain about in the observable universe. It's good advice to take anything (especially unsourced comments on the internet) with a grain of salt but there's plenty that can be understood, at least as best we can with what we have been able to thus far observe.
I don't fuck with string theory though. I'm an experimentalist, not a theorist, and I don't even bother speculating on things that we so far have not even contrived any possible experiments to confirm or deny.
arceushero · 1 points · Posted at 16:25:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think we’re pretty much in agreement. I wholeheartedly agree that we have some pretty amazing physical models that come very close to describing reality at the scales we can probe (I.e. not string theory), and we can be pretty certain that electrons exist, even if we’re not exactly sure what they are.
I just think it’s misleading for people to make metaphysical statements about what “actually exists” based on physics, when we have close to no idea what microscopic physics creates the emergent phenomena that we observe.
addxzzx · 20 points · Posted at 18:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is energy everywhere in the universe even in "empty space".
mentalhealthrowaway9 · -11 points · Posted at 20:26:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prove it, this isn't true.
hokie_high · 4 points · Posted at 22:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vacuum_energy
arceushero · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In general any arbitrary region of space will have some nonzero electromagnetic fields which carry an associated energy density.
riskoooo · -3 points · Posted at 20:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well all the evidence we have supports Einstein's theory of repulsive gravity in empty space. Whether hypothetical dark energy is actual energy is impossible for us to prove or disprove. So you're both wrong, I guess.
Edit: Maybe I should stick to things I know about
BlazeOrangeDeer · 2 points · Posted at 01:12:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
We do know it's energy. We just don't know why it's there and can only see it indirectly from its gravity, hence the term "Dark Energy". The part we don't know is whether it's a cosmological constant, a new field, or something else.
addxzzx · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This doesn't have anything to do with dark energy.
-Gaka- · -1 points · Posted at 22:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IIRC, It boils down to the uncertainty principle.
Really, the trick to the whole "energy from nothing" thing comes from looking at veeeeery small slices of space and time. The uncertainty principle essentially holds that the more closely you can determine the momentum of some particle, the less certain you can be about its position.
At very tiny distances and times, then, the expectation value of some particle essentially smears. Say you know the momentum of a particle. You cannot, then, precisely know the position of the particle. Instead of a particle being at x=1, it's somewhere between x=0.9999 and x = 1.0001, for example.
We can then take the "expectation value" of that particle, using the shroedinger equation to effectively count the energy possibilities of that particle. For empty space, it results in a non-zero kinetic energy value, i believe it's h-bar/2. Don't quote me, its been awhile since I've studied this.
This is a super basic and hand-waving explanation of the underlying quantum mechanics, but it is very real and very demonstratable. A more qualified explanation would take at least a few hours to describe the mechanics involved.
Sipsy33 · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re close. h-bar*omega/2, iirc from the ground state of a quantum harmonic oscillator.
me_irI · 5 points · Posted at 19:45:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space time is a metric, or rather a model to help describe interactions and movement. Ontologically, it's not really a thing - more of a concept.
Account_8472 · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there’s still the Higgs field.
Vesper_Sweater · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, not to be THIS guy; but if space itself is measurable, it's not really nothing, right?
Maxwells_Demona · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would agree with you. I remember my mind being blown in my modern physics class (I'm a physicist) when we talked about the expanding universe and how the implication is that space itself is expanding, as in there is more of it every moment in time than there was previously. So yes, even empty space that stuff can fill up (or not fill up) "exists" in a real sense, and more of it exists now than existed a few seconds ago. Absolutely mind-blowing.
Vesper_Sweater · 2 points · Posted at 06:56:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What always bugged me is; if there is the potential for space to exist, then that space that "wasn't" actually WAS, which means it wasn't nothing. I know it's kinda circular logic but that never made sense to me. If there's space to expand, then it's space. Space is space. Probably the dumbest syllogism of all time, but it's always messed with my head lol.
petit_cochon · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To quote Bill Clinton entirely out of context, that "depends on what the definition of is is."
NuMux · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Energy fields. Think like a magnet field but there are others that do different things. The Higgs field is one of them.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, how do magnets even work?
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 19:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin magnets
gerblenched · 10 points · Posted at 19:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How could you have an example of nothing? By definition, it does not exist. If anything, it's present by being absent. In that sense, you could say it's everywhere and yet nowhere simultaneously since no thing must exist in order for some thing to be, so in effect it underlies all that is.
dr-funkenstein- · 2 points · Posted at 03:53:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a lot like what your life was like before you were born.
gerblenched · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...or, for that matter, after you die.
newpine · 5 points · Posted at 19:32:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematically, you have the definition of nothing as the empty set, but one could argue that it is a philosophical notion (in most mathematical theories, it can be easily deduced from the axioms, and it is a fundamental notion, but that doesn't necessarily imply that it is natural in any way).
d3pd · 2 points · Posted at 20:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And all philosophy is implemented in matter like brains.
atle95 · 4 points · Posted at 19:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Set out to find nothing, found nothing, mission accomplished.
exiledAsher · 3 points · Posted at 20:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing it’s just a concept, I 100% agree with you, nothing ironically doesn’t exist.
shuerintelectual · 2 points · Posted at 19:32:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are talking about "physical nothingness" OC is being way more deep on his analysis and is asking about the very concept of nothingness
NodePoker · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This just blew my mind. I love science, have a BS and wonder how I missed this concept.
SJVellenga · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even vastly empty space can be defined as the distance between 2 objects. Sure, there’s nothing there, but it has substance in its meaning. True nothingness doesn’t even have that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:05:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if there would be absolut 100% vacuum, there would be fluctuations
Hyndis · 4 points · Posted at 19:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And if someone ever does find actual nothingness, that could lead to a doomsday event that wipes out the entire universe. Kind of like the Nothing from Neverending Story, except it moves at the speed of light and erases everything in its path. There's no escaping it.
Fortunately, its just theoretical: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_vacuum
unphil · 5 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is not nothingness. The idea of a false vacuum is that the vacuum values of the differing quantum fields that we observe may not be global minima and could, with some nonzero probability, tunnel to the global minima which would alter the dynamical evolution of the universe.
This would of course catastrophically change our universe, but the fields would still exist. Because there would still be something, tunneling from a false vacuum to the true vacuum is not a transition from something into "nothingness", but instead merely a transition from one configuration of reality to another.
I-seddit · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet, even if this change were to happen somewhere - it would only propogate at the speed of light. so given how immense our infinite universe is - you'll never experience it.
Unless, of course, you're in our timeline and it's 2020.
arceushero · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This idea isn’t really “nothing” perse. It’s in close analogy to what happens when you supercool water: you can get water below it’s freezing point without it actually freezing if it is sufficiently pure and still, but when you give it something to “freeze around” the entire body of water rapidly turns to ice. In much the same way, our vacuum could be in a local energy minimum (like supercooled water), but then spontaneously fall to a lower energy vacuum due to a quantum fluctuation (like the water rapidly freezing when an impurity is introduced).
cannihastrees · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So a vacuum is still nothing but with another name ?
SharkFart86 · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vacuum has nothing in it but it is not nothing itself. It is space, it has volume. Space is in a sense a "thing", it expands. Gravity has an effect on spacetime.
"Prior" to the big bang (I put prior in quotes as technically there was such thing as time until the big bang) there was no space. That's true nothingness.
cannihastrees · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn our brain actually made up a word/sound to describe the lack of everything before it existed. That’s pretty cool. Thanks
LancelotSoftware · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Null was the hardest thing for me to understand when first learning object oriented programming. Null is not zero, it's nothing.
It finally clicked when I said to myself, "aha! it just doesn't exist YET...but will when you instantiate it later" (in the code).
JollyTurbo1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surely there is space between atoms. What fills that void?
BetterThanHorus · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I understand the Bohr model of the atom with the electron and nucleus looking like a sun and planets is a little out dated. Now it seems that electrons are "spread" out in a cloud around the nucleus
Read_It_Before · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what actually was before the universe then? Another universe? Please someone give me an answer!
BetterThanHorus · 2 points · Posted at 23:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Current models suggest that the arrow of time was created with the Big Bang. It's completely counterintuitive, but the notion of a "before" doesn't seem to apply. And with the heat death of the universe due to entropy, time itself might literally end
Read_It_Before · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't understand 80% of that but I'm really appreciative that you tried :D
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well what is there ?
DignifiedDingo · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might sound more philosophical, but there is no such thing as nothing, because by definition that "nothing" is something.
Say we have an impossible box... inside it contains nothing, not air, not a vacuum, not a higs field, absolutely nothing. Someone asks, "what's in the box?" And you say, "nothing". But you have just described what is in the box, which is the lack of anything, what we call nothing, and by doing so, we have defined nothing as something.
Or like the number 0. If you have no things, we call that amount zero (0) but zero is still something, becuase if it was not, we would have no name to give it. So we say that zero = the absence of everything or anything and define that something as "nothing"
Wow... that was a little confusing to type out.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
reminds me of this article I read a while ago
http://nautil.us/issue/49/the-absurd/what-is-space
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even if there would be absolut 100% vacuum, there would be fluctuations
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of the space in, well, space, is made up of things call Neutrinos.
As far as we're aware there does not exist any way for us to observe "nothing" because any wmpty space is actually just filled entirely with something we can't see. But it's not nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What confuses me about this is how can there be matters with different densities without there being parts of "nothing" between the particles in all but the highest possible density?
koavf · 0 points · Posted at 23:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The set of all married bachelors or all prime numbers divisible but both 15 and 22 are examples of nothing. What do you mean by "concrete"?
BetterThanHorus · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was speaking in terms of physical reality, not mathematics. A empty space is never truly empty, there is always vacuum energy due to subatomic particles blinking into and out of existence
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/something-from-nothing-vacuum-can-yield-flashes-of-light/
koavf · 0 points · Posted at 00:06:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Virtual pairs don't appear in every plank-distance volume of space all the time. There is plenty of space that has no matter in it.
tempski · 6448 points · Posted at 16:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because we can't perceive something, it doesn't mean it's nothing.
dnrplate · 972 points · Posted at 17:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But isn’t there that theory of observation? Like, something doesn’t exist unless someone is there to observe it? And by that logic, if we can’t perceive it, and nothing else can, it doesn’t exist? I also don’t mean to sound condescending, I’m just asking because I don’t fully understand the concept.
tempski · 568 points · Posted at 17:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no evidence that said theory is correct.
You also mentioned how there was nothing before the universe. Who says there was nothing? Maybe the universe has existed for ever and we're just here for this iteration of it. After the big crunch, another big bang is initiated and the cycle repeats, like it has a trillions times before.
Also, we can only perceive things on this plane. Perhaps there are a million other planes, or dimensions if you will, coexisting right beside ours but we are unable to perceive them.
Just like how we can see certain colors of the rainbow yet there are more light waves we can only detect using specialized tools and can't with our own eyes, that doesn't mean they weren't there before we had those tools.
snarfdarb · 87 points · Posted at 18:48:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what was before "forever"? -_°
Bacchus999 · 93 points · Posted at 18:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the thing, there was no 'before' there was only 'forever'. It's a very hard concept for humans to to understand, if it's even possible to completely understand because I can't. Everything in the universe just existed since matter cannot be created nor destroyed, but with that argument there can also be no infinite universe since there is a finite amount of particles in the universe. This is a concept that I love and hate to think about
SlightAnxiety · 25 points · Posted at 19:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like the show Dark has helped me wrap my head around the concept, in a roundabout way.
If you haven't seen it, I highly, highly recommend it. Just avoid looking up much about it, because almost anything is a spoiler.
I_fail_at_memes · 12 points · Posted at 19:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The German show about the small town?
SlightAnxiety · 11 points · Posted at 19:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! It's about so much more than that, but saying anything else is a spoiler. It's truly one of the best shows I've ever seen. The final season drops in June, so you have time to catch up :)
Though many people end up watching it more than once to catch everything.
I_fail_at_memes · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the recommendation!!
SlightAnxiety · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No problem! If you need to discuss theories after you watch it, feel free to send me a message!
Radek_18 · 3 points · Posted at 19:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where can we watch?
SlightAnxiety · 4 points · Posted at 19:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's on Netflix
Radek_18 · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks!
SlightAnxiety · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem! Enjoy it! :)
Robohobo07 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is It in German?
SlightAnxiety · 2 points · Posted at 20:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but it has subtitles, or you can watch it dubbed. I personally like the subtitles
SC_Contact · 13 points · Posted at 19:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't the evidence of virtual particles in quantum theory denote they do in fact appear and disappear? As far as we.can understand it so far that is.
Bacchus999 · 8 points · Posted at 19:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not completely familiar in that so I can't really speak on that, but this is how I've always thought about it
SC_Contact · 17 points · Posted at 19:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as quantum mechanics go particles do in fact appear with a particle and antiparticle, and destroy themselves within a fraction of time. We only know they exist because they cause decoherence in wave functions. So much so all quantum calculations have to take it into account. They usually only mess with particles though. So nothing major.
We saw further evidence of it through hawking radiation recently, which is the idea the black hole drags the antiparticle down in some instances, making the other particle just appear and stick around.
Quantum theory is fucking nuts. With an infinite amount of time it's possible for anything to appear and disappear, who knows. The crazy idea is where the hell do they come from? Right now physicists can only shrug.
EvilConCarne · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Virtual particles are mathematical tools used to make calculations tractable, not actual things that can be shown to exist. You are confusing the map for the territory here.
aaron0043 · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about Hawking radiation?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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EvilConCarne · 0 points · Posted at 21:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
edit: Wrong comment to reply to
EvilConCarne · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has never been directly observed. If it had, Hawking would have received a Nobel prize prior to his death. Most people accept it as existing, but due to a lack of observational evidence the actual mechanism cannot be confirmed.
shuerintelectual · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a simplification, we don't know if they come from nothing, it's just that we don't know where they come from. To be honest you have to be a scientist to actually know what that sentence means because it is basically a metaphor.
SC_Contact · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep definitely. From nothing is a big simplification, just getting across we don't actually know what is happening. It's just certain particles to appear and destroy themselves.
TougherLoki26 · 6 points · Posted at 19:05:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn’t it energy that can’t be created or destroyed? It can only change form.
Bacchus999 · 7 points · Posted at 19:16:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both, energy can only be transferred but matter can only change form from solid, liquid, gas, plasma
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:21:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Energy and matter are often regarded as the same thing.
TougherLoki26 · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah alright. Thanks for explaining it
Missingplanes · 2 points · Posted at 01:58:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
E=mc2, a nuclear bomb is a device that converts a small amount of matter into a huge amount of energy
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Energy is a property of the physical configuration of a system. Mass HAS energy. Mass is not energy. Mass HAS temperature. Mass is not temperature.
Exceedingly common misconception propagated by terrible popsci.
BunnyOppai · 6 points · Posted at 19:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Matter is effectively the same thing as energy, isn’t it?
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No.
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Energy can be created or destroyed. What you're reciting is a "lie we tell children" to make things more simple. It's likely what you recited will be accurate for you. But it's not the truth.
VERTIKAL19 · 5 points · Posted at 21:06:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the universe might be finite. We simply don't know and I don't see a reason to prove a finite or an infinite universe without getting around the limitation that the speed of light imposes.
For someone on a pacific island for example the ocean might also seem infinite, but we of course know it is finite.
As for the concept of forever, the idea of a before is so closely linked to a concept of time, which doesn't necessarily exist or it may exist in some different form as far as I understand it.
Also I don't understand why a finite amount of particles would contradict the idea of an infinite universe. Why does a universe need particles to exist?
Anakinss · 4 points · Posted at 20:00:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinite universe doesn't mean an infinite amount of matter, but an infinite space for that matter to be in, IIRC.
twickdaddy · 6 points · Posted at 19:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a good way to grasp infinity is through loops. this is how it is theoretically possible to have a finite amount of particles in an infinite universe.
Imagine that if you travelled straight out from the earth in one direction, never changing course. One theory says that eventually, you'd reach where you started again. Another theory says that you'd end up in a slightly different place to where you started.
You can imagine this the same how the universe has been around forever. Just think that eventually, the universe would somehow revert to what is was before, and eventually becomes what we are today.
imreallyreallyhungry · 3 points · Posted at 21:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think what is hard to grasp is that we as humans can't really grasp something just always existing. Sure, it's fine to think of infinity as a loop where you start somewhere and then end up back where you started, but in this scenario you still started. The concept of not starting, always existing is impossible to think of, at least for me.
Every3Years · 6 points · Posted at 19:31:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But how can it simply exist? Where did it come from? How does fucking ANYthing exist? We know we were born and our parents were born and their parents and so on through the decades and centuries. And before that we were apes or whatever. And before that we were single cells. And those cells were created by building blocks of the universe.
But how do those buildings blocks suddenly just appear? They could always have been there but how the hell? How does anything exist?
Bacchus999 · 11 points · Posted at 19:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly why the ability to think is a huge pain in the ass
VERTIKAL19 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why should it not simply exist? My understanding is that our concept of time is simply linked so much to these building blocks of the universe existing that it does not make sense to consider something "before" because that would necessitate time. But time doesn't exist.
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time exists just as much as space does. They are both different components of the same lorentzian manifold.
VainShrimp · 0 points · Posted at 03:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be absurd to think of a state of true "nothingness" can even "exist". It could be that, by definition, "existence" necessitates being eternal in some form or another.
It could be that questions like, "How does anything exist?" is a redundant question while, "How would nothing exist?" is a complete contradiction.
Now if you're asking "how" as in "by what mechanisms", I definitely do not have those answers. It just occurs to me that perhaps the incredulity that comes over people asking these sorts of questions might be rooted in a presupposition that "nothing" is the default state of "being", (which seems kinda funny to me) when it could be that "existence" is the default.
"By what mechanisms does existence perpetuate and change" is probably the most interesting question of all questions though, and we may never know the answer!
Kiita-Ninetails · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relating to matter not being able to be created or destroyed. matter-Antimatter reactions to in fact destroy both particles into a slew of energy and short lived particles.
But in the end the matter is gone. And antimatter formation and annihilation is a natural, albeit very slow, process.
arkangelic · 3 points · Posted at 22:12:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Problem with that is if you have an infinite past, then you can't have a present since an infinite amount of time would need to have passed before now happens, so you never get to now. It was something like that in the explanation of why time had to have a begining
kokoyumyum · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean "universe"? We are into multiverse time, and multiple realities.
Bacchus999 · 3 points · Posted at 21:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's just another theory with no way to prove or disprove, just like most ideas here
kokoyumyum · 0 points · Posted at 21:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually there is evidence of a nearby universe, by temperatures in space. Keep up.
Shaman_Bond · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, there isn't. Any multiverse, by definition, would be causally and immeasurably separate from our universe.
kokoyumyum · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll let you take that up with the astrophysicists.
Go get 'em!
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a gravitational astrophysicist.
kokoyumyum · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, then discuss the far universe increase in temperaturs... go
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where did that matter come from, though? It has to come from somewhere, doesn't it?
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:36:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a 'before' because time only started when the big bang happened. The universe started at some point in time.
crooked-v · 5 points · Posted at 19:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big bang is literally the start of time, so there's no way to have a 'before'.
Bacchus999 · 0 points · Posted at 19:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big bang is usually described as a black hole exploding at the center of the universe. A black hole has tons of mass all condensed into a point, where did that mass get there? The big bang was not the beginning but rather a way to conceptualize the universe 'restarting'. Our time may have only started with the big bang but there was another time before that and another time before that as well.
HughManatee · 5 points · Posted at 20:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily. Time may just be a property of our universe, and not of others. We can't really assume anything about "before" the big bang because that statement may not even have meaning, just as there is nowhere on earth north of the North Pole.
Shaman_Bond · 0 points · Posted at 04:25:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big bang has absolutely nothing to do with a black hole.
CactusPearl21 · 7 points · Posted at 20:49:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There may not have been a before. Time may literally have "began"
A super interesting analogy is the North pole. I'm in America and I ask which was is north. Someone points the way and I travel. I get to Canada and ask which way is north. Someone points the way and I travel that way further. I get to the North Pole and ask which way is North, and people look at me like what the fuck are you talking about? This IS North. You can't go further North than this. That doesn't even make sense.
Maybe traveling backwards in time is similar. You eventually reach the beginning and ask, but what was before this? and then realize that there is no answer because the question doesn't even make sense.
imreallyreallyhungry · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get where the analogy is going but it still doesn't really help me that much. Was the big bang just a singularity popping into existance and simultaneously exploding? If so what existance did it pop into if there was nothing before it? It's all just too much for my wee little monkey brain to understand.
CactusPearl21 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same thoughts as you. Like, there could never have been "nothing" because true nothingness would not be capable of spawning something.
Except that's us using our intuition and drawing upon our experiences, and these things are far outside the realm of what we can comprehend intuitively. We could learn the truth without a doubt, and still in no way be able to actually feel comfortable with it.
imreallyreallyhungry · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I agree. It's just something I'll never be able to really wrap my head around.
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was no singularity. A singularity is a mathematical construct.
imreallyreallyhungry · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmm I'm not sure I understand what you're saying. According to Hawking & Ellis, "Extrapolation of the expansion of the universe backwards in time using general relativity yields an infinite density and temperature at a finite time in the past". Isn't that what a gravitational singularity is?
DeityParuru · 23 points · Posted at 18:52:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Forever never starts nor ends. The only reason it sounds so wild is because our brains can’t comprehend the sheer amount of infinite time that the universe exists in. Humans only perceive time for organization purposes. There’s no sun that rises in many parts of the universe, and no life to determine what’s today and what’s tomorrow.
GravySleeve · 7 points · Posted at 19:01:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But science tells us pretty definitively that our universe is expanding, meaning it had a begining, what was before that?
9inchestoobig · 16 points · Posted at 19:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's only our best guess. Someone above said that it could be expanding then contracting over and over again, almost like breathing. We're observing the expanding part right now and think that it will contract in the future. No one really knows for certain, it's all best guess.
Shaman_Bond · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If nothing changes in the dark energy term, space will actually expand forever. We already know it's expanded far too much for gravity to bring it all back together.
deokkent · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is something you can come up with because of your own subjective perspective. It might be a meaningless question to someone else (a robot, an alien scientist etc).
You can think about it in these terms.
You throw a rock up and it falls down. It followed a straight line on its way back, right? You can safely say it returned to its original point. However, consider the earth moves a certain speed in space. Same thing for the sun, galaxy, cluster and supercluster. The Rock may have travelled thousands of km within a very short period of time from a different frame of reference. So it never really returned to its original point in space. And it is incredibly difficult to figure out its initial point without knowing all the conditions.
DeityParuru · 4 points · Posted at 19:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was before it expanded? Did it condense? But im not a scientist by any means so I can’t answer your question.
Edit: spelling error
getflexsealed666 · 9 points · Posted at 19:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even scientists don't know, no one knows, everything concerning this is a guess. If someone says they know then they are 99.9999999999% lying
GravySleeve · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm no scientist either, but from what I've read the universe is not only expanding, but expanding at an increasing speed over time. That implies we aren't in a loop as some people have suggested. No one knows what started the big bang or what happened prior.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does that imply we are not in a loop? Especially if said loop is too big to perceive.
Take the Earth for example. It's "generally" understood that the Earth is round, looking at you Flat Earthers. However, when you are standing in the middle of a large, flat parking lot, it is hard to reconcile the fact that you are standing in one tiny spot on a big ass ball.
GravySleeve · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not possible for me to explain all the science behind it, I'm just saying my understanding of what I've read which is that scientists seem to all generally agree that the universe is expanding faster over time with no signs of slowing, and they have certainly considered we may be in a loop. Sure it's possible they are all wrong, but in science it doesn't make sense to make a claim that something could be possible without any evidence to support it. I also think it would be foolish to overlook a theory just because it may conflict with things we think we know to be true. Basically what I'm saying is there doesn't seem to be anything concrete that would imply our universe is in a loop, but there is some evidence that supports it not being in a loop, if that makes sense.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren't making an outright claim. All of this is proposed theories based on some indicators. With this field of science, a lot of the time they aren't sure if they are looking at the right indicators or if they are even reading them right.
We're probably in a simulation, anyways. Just a big elaborate game of Sims created by some supreme and less shitty version of EA Games. The big crunch and big bang happens when they start a new game.
GravySleeve · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally understand what you're getting at, and I'm certainly not saying it isn't possible. I do doubt the simulation idea though. Who or what would be simulating everything and for what purpose? The only reason I could fathom creating such an elaborate simulation would be to model and understand the universe, in which case what would be the purpose of creating such an elaborate and detailed simulation? Why would feelings, and smells, and tastes or even people need to be simulated? Things that have no tangible influence on the universe at large.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
At the risk of sounding facetiously philosophical, why do we do anything in science that doesn't directly relate to health and survival? Why do we conduct experiments? Why do we simulate environments to be able to control its variables while we observe the behavior of some unaware test subject? Because we are curious creatures. Because we want to know the how and the why.
If, and it's a huge if, our universe is a simulation created by a species that mirrors our own, how wouldn't that be useful? To speed up and slow down time at will to observe the happenings in finer detail, to study events that have passed billions of year ago.
Or, maybe in another billion years, the univers has expanded so much that the nearest solar system is billions of lightyears away. We ended up getting lonely as a species and said, "fuck it, we're gonna create some friends". Now, every consciousness lives inside this simulation from their moment of birth, to help us forget the bleak reality of our existence.
Or, I need to stop letting my imagination run wild and get back to studying.
GravySleeve · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's fun to think about, and certainly possible, I just think it's much more likely that we truly exist inside a 'natural' or accidentally created universe rather than an existence that was willed into being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are likely right. Trying to take it too seriously will drive anyone batty. I just hope I get some answers when I kick the proverbial bucket.
"Here's your end of life starter kit, the big book of Why and What included. Feel free to read through while you stand in one of those lineups over there. Eternal Darkness has been popular this eon. That one over there leads to the Reincarnation Station and over there you can take a chance and receive judgment at the Judge, Jury and Executioner table. They should really change the name, you are already dead. An execution would be redundant."
Have a good day, fellow Redditor. I have an essay to look at.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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GravySleeve · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but in your analogy it's more like the brakes of the car have been cut in the car while rolling down a hill, and we can't see if the hill has a bottom. But until we figure out what dark energy is and how it works, you're right it's merely speculation.
Shotomato · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The current theory is that there was no before. Time started at the big bang.
I don't understand it though.
hazeust · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that I can't comprehend the time as much as it is that I can't comprehend something that, even if it prevails time, doesn't have a comprehensive origin.
Kali_Kopta · 7 points · Posted at 18:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Before the universe came into being, this was all just fields.
Kali_Kopta · 9 points · Posted at 19:01:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of probability.
alphabetikalmarmoset · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously underrated comment.
C4Sidhu · 6 points · Posted at 18:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn’t make sense because time also started when the Big Bang occurred
ZebZ · 4 points · Posted at 19:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who's to say that the Big Bang of our current universe isn't just the latest in an infinite series of Big Bangs that themselves followed a prior universe contracting into a singularity?
C4Sidhu · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one probably, because I don’t think we have any evidence to say that
ZebZ · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don't have evidence of anything relating to the Big Bang itself, only of what likely came after. But that doesn't mean that was the beginning.
C4Sidhu · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t mean that was the beginning, true, but it also doesn’t mean it wasn’t the beginning.
jamesp420 · 3 points · Posted at 20:39:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What throws me is how it's said that the big bang didn't happen in any specific location, but happened everywhere at once. It was less of a 'bang' and more of an instantaneous and insanely fast expansion of spacetime from a single point (which also didn't exist anywhere specific because every 'where' WAS that single point). So wouldn't that mean time didn't even so much start at the big bang, but expanded in the same way that space did? As in time already existed in that single point, and also rapidly expanded with space since it seems that space and time are bound as a singular thing, i.e spacetime? The shit is so difficult to think about.
shuerintelectual · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one knows as far as I know
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Stephen Hawking once said,
"Asking 'What came before the big bang?' is like asking
'What is north of the north pole?'"
The_Lost_Google_User · 7 points · Posted at 18:57:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Issue is, it doesn't look like the big crunch is actually a thing.
Tullydin · 5 points · Posted at 19:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. The universe is expanding at an ever increasing speed.
nofoax · 11 points · Posted at 19:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big crunch isn't likely. Heat death is the current scientific consensus. Just spreading out and cooling forever.
And there really is no "before" the big bang, since time itself is a product of it. Which is extremely hard to wrap your mind around.
jamesp420 · 6 points · Posted at 20:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Until which time a black hole in a parallel universe hits a critical mass and an Einstein Rosen bridge is created, at the other end of which a white hole pops up in our now immeasurably vast and empty universe, spewing forth matter and energy in a new big bang and the whole cycle repeats. Which is probably complete bullshit, but with this thought experiment and others, even heat death could just be a resting period in an infinite cycle of existence, nothingness and rebirth. We have no fucking clue and likely never will, but at least there will never be an end to scientific curiosity, and trying to figure that shit out.
Generic_name_no1 · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love how we are essentially the same as cavemen still when talking about the universe, we literally have no clue to the deeper mysteries. I also love how we can "discover" our the laws of physics, they already exist and have defined parameters and complications and just work without us even knowing how, it absolutely blows my mind.
nofoax · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's my preferred interpretation too -- that our universe becomes the empty landscape in which a new universe is born.
jamesp420 · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. Whether it's true or not, there's still kind of a poetic beauty and hopefulness to the idea
tacobell101 · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm kind of pissed of that we will probably never find an answer to all of our questions, but at the same time maybe it's a good thing that there will always be some sort of mystery behind the universe? Maybe, knowing all the answers wouldn't be as exciting as we think it would be? What do you think?
jamesp420 · 2 points · Posted at 03:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can be frustrating coming to terms with the idea that there's some things that we'll just have to settle for wondering about. But the beauty of discovery is that with every new answer we find comes a ton of new questions we didn't even know to ask before. So that idea to me is the most exciting thing, along with the chance that some time in our lifetimes we may have a whole new facet of existence opened to us that brings with it a whole flood of new questions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is worth little more than nothing.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 09:02:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 12:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which conspiracy would that be
SC_Contact · 4 points · Posted at 19:03:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hasn't the idea of the big crunch lost ground ever since we can see we are speeding up in separation of the universe? I thought it was my more likely a big rip or freeze. Genuinely interested
starmartyr · 2 points · Posted at 19:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big bang was the starting point for spacetime. You can't really say that anything existed before it because "before" is a measurement of time and time did not exist. It's possible that our universe was created inside a larger universe and there was a time before it was created, but that's just kicking the can down the road as the larger universe would also need to have been created somehow.
grammarpopo · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But there will be no big crunch. There will be heat death because the universe is expanding at an ever increasing rate.
Macktologist · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the theory isn’t correct or lacks evidence, then it isn’t a theory. Speaking from the Scientific Method.
PrivilegeCheckmate · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That means...there's nothing! AAAAAAAAA!!!!
CliffwoodBeach · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is such a great response. Seriously.
I've been occupying my mind with the Holographic Universe Theory - but specifically to how all 'information + time' is potentially stored in an event horizon of a black hole(to be specific the only information would be what that BH had absorbed not all information)
The fact that its kept( theoretically ) in a 2d format has sparked this idea that maybe what we perceive as a 3d world if just our brains interpreting 2d info then essentially projecting that interpretation. Then if that ends up being true - maybe the code to our reality plane is only populated when viewed by a conscious(for lack of a better word).
I like to think of this plane as a being procedural generated by some collective energy that may or may not be sentient or maybe this is evidence of multiple dimensions *think Schrodinger's cat. If it's not observed then it does not exist.
I would love to hear some more of what you have to say - if you would humor me.
justonemorethang · 0 points · Posted at 18:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh how I wish I still did acid then read your comment. That would keep my mind busy for two days.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:58:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You sound like my stem teacher
Male_Rock · 0 points · Posted at 19:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stop you’re hurting me and what’s left of my brain
NlGGABIGPENIS3 · 0 points · Posted at 19:24:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dmt realm
The_Masterofbation · 0 points · Posted at 20:18:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Eventually it comes to a source, maybe not a start. What the fuck! It's the beauty and terrifying origin of existence. We're the universe looking back at itself and pondering how we exist. Why, that's secondary. How? That's the real question. And all those planes amount to the god of the gaps. We explain what we don't know with magic man. still means nothing, just pushes the unanswerable further.
vruv · -1 points · Posted at 19:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, to me, a random dude who knows nothing about physics, I see this as being the only logical possibility, given the information we have. The universe must be like a sinusoidal function in a sense. It expands, and collapses, infinity times over. There can’t possibly be an “end” when the universe is all that exists. At least as far as we know
[deleted] · 111 points · Posted at 17:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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a-r-c · 6 points · Posted at 18:47:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
theory vs Theory
The_Golden_Warthog · 3 points · Posted at 20:04:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't the correct term hypothesis? Or am I being wooooshed
a-r-c · 15 points · Posted at 20:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no a hypothesis is an assertion that you test with experiments
a Theory (big T) is an idea or method that's been rigorously demonstrated to match empirical observation like the Theory of Gravity or Relativity
a theory (little t) is just an english word that means "idea or explanation" and holds no special significance
The_Golden_Warthog · 3 points · Posted at 20:44:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL
Mrmcfeffers · 3 points · Posted at 19:23:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never noticed the difference, but you saying that just made it click
a-r-c · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yay i love those "aha" moments
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 19:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn’t simply misused. It—like many other words—is used in multiple ways.
BunnyOppai · 7 points · Posted at 19:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, people do misuse it. It does have different definitions, but people often misunderstand which definition they’re talking about.
Jovian8 · 6 points · Posted at 19:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Specifically, laymen like to use the word "theory" when what they really mean is "hypothesis."
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 19:51:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the use of “theory” to mean “hypothesis” predates the use of the word “hypothesis” itself.
So can you really fault somebody for using a word a certain way just because you use the word a certain other way? Especially when your usage is more recent?
Jovian8 · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would argue yes, because context matters. And language in context matters. You don't get a pass on being wrong just because it used to be another way 100 years ago or whatever. Language evolves. And I know you were taught the difference between a scientific theory and a scientific hypothesis in high school.
whtsnk · -1 points · Posted at 20:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
But they are not wrong if their definition supports their usage. If you want to put a line in the sand and claim they are wrong no matter what, then you run the risks of making your argument either dead-ended or circular.
If you tell me you are going to a basketball game tonight. And in the nick of time, I assert that from now on the definition of “basketball” is what used to be the definition of hockey… would I not then be absurd to call you “wrong” for claiming to have gone to a basketball game? Would I not be wrong to chide you for failing to say something other than basketball?
Jovian8 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm talking about the people who say shit like "evolution is just a theory, bro." Specifically in the scientific context, a theory describes a model of something. It's not an idea someone had that still needs testing. That is a "hypothesis." That was my only point.
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 20:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then such a person is taking your operational definition and trying to shoehorn in his other definition. The problem is not in his other definition being wrong—it is in his definition being misapplied.
Jovian8 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Misapplied is just a friendlier way of saying contextually wrong.
whtsnk · -1 points · Posted at 20:58:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But such a person is still operating within his context when making that statement. To him, evolution is just a {proposed explanation used as a starting point for further analysis or experimentation}.
Of course, he is wrong about that fact, but he is still not wrong about his word usage.
Shiny_Firefly17 · 19 points · Posted at 18:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What you’re describing sounds more philosophical than scientific. It is the idea that reality can only exist in the mind of a conscious individual, so if there is no consciousness perceiving something, then that something may as well not even exist.
Epic_Elite · 2 points · Posted at 18:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's kind of all we have when trying to understand something we cant identify.
Theirs all sorts of theories about miasma and "bad air" before we discovered a way to observe micro-organisms.
Maybe theirs also a way we will eventually be able to see the space between atoms an maybe even discover a whole universe below a sub-molecular level. But until then it's all theories and ideas.
skalpelis · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So did microorganisms not exist before 1673? (Leeuwenhoek's observation.)
Also, there needs to be a serious discussion about the meaning of the words "axiom," "theory," "hypothesis," and "idea" within scientific context.
wtfduud · 8 points · Posted at 19:00:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's more of a philosophical idea than a scientific theory.
As far as cience is concerned, things exist regardless of whether someone is watching it or not.
AlsoOneLastThing · 8 points · Posted at 17:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That comes back to the old question "If a tree falls and there is no one there to hear it, does it make a sound?" The simple answer according to physics would be yes, because sound is a vibration that propagates an acoustic wave, and doesn't require an observer in order to exist.
If you are thinking of the observer effect, in that observing a phenomenon affects or changes that phenomenon, then there is a lot of evidence in favour of that. But it's also important to note that in physics "observing" basically means "interacting with" because you can't observe a particle without interfering with it in some way and altering the outcome.
Halvus_I · 3 points · Posted at 19:01:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a subset of philosophy, not science.
Gezzer52 · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That concept isn't really about existence, it's about proving existence. Things can and do exist but without observation you have no proof that something happened or exists.
Its the old concept of "If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, did it really fall?" Yes, that's the most plausible explanation. But it is possible that the results of the tree on the ground happened due to a different event. Probable? No, but still possible.
scotty-vet · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going back to the old question-If a tree in the Forrest falls and nobody there to hear the crash did it make a noise?
xaanthar · 3 points · Posted at 18:42:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing is what nothing does
justonemorethang · 3 points · Posted at 18:51:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It does. There’s just nothing to observe it. Because why wouldn’t it? It’s not like physics would just take a break for a minute because no one is around to appreciate it.
SufficientStresss · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s philosophy.
countmeowington · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn’t this just old school philosophy? When sophism was big?
Aphranam · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That would be solipsism and you could decide to agree with that branch of philosophy but there are of counter arguments against it so I wouldn’t recommend it.
AmadeusCo · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was basically philosopher George Berkeley's theory.
He realized the objects we perceived were just a bunch of ideas put together. Colors, textures, smells, etc. He said, well, all this ideas exist only in our minds. So what happens when you take the observer away?? His conclusion was that they simply failed to exist. His doctrine can be summarized as "to be is to be perceived".
It generated great discussions but it's not taken seriously anymore in today's philosophy.
bass_sweat · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might be thinking of the anthropic principle. All sorts of universes might be possible to exist, but the only one that we can be sure about is one that must work out so that we can be here to see it. If there was a universe with different physics, we could never know about it if it forces us into not being able to exist in that universe
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthropic_principle
Melkor404 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You got to think bigger then that. This isn't the only universe in all of existence. We are nothing but a small bubble amongst bigger and smaller bubbles in a sea of nothingness.
kembervon · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really understand or buy into this theory at all. Why would Schroedinger's Cat be both alive and dead until we look at it? Why are we ruling out a cat being definitively alive, but unseen, even though we haven't personally confirmed it?
Volpethrope · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger's Cat was a negative critique of early quantum mechanical theory, it's not intended to be a literal working approximation of the system.
TSLzipper · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It would be better to say we can't prove the existence of something until we observe it. Just because we doubt know it is there in any capacity doesn't mean it does not exist. But yes our senses are how we observe and understand everything we know about the universe.
DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you get into quantum mechanics... that basically says that stuff on the quantum level is one way until observed. Once observed it changes state.... somehow.....
Volpethrope · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because "observation" at that level means "we fired electrons into it to measure the interactions because it's too fucking small to see." It's like measuring the shape of a bus by ramming motorcycles into it so hard they explode.
DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit that's an amazing metaphor. Also I didnt realize that's what it was. Thanks for the enlightenment 😊
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe something can perceive it, just not us
Amazingllamapants · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you're thinking of a philosophy of solipsism rather than a theory of physics.
AthiestCowboy · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you're referring to the measurement problem. A phenomenon with electrons that move as a wave until observed and then they move as a particle
ABetterKamahl1234 · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trick is that it requires us to be capable of observation of anything and everything, and assumes we're at the maximum ability to do so at all times.
But we're not.
DabScience · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol no. Just on its face that’s a ridiculous argument. How many countless things have we found after not knowing about them or having the tools to observe said thing.
SailorRalph · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't understand the concept of 'does a bear shit in the woods' or 'does a tree falling in a first make a sound if no one is around to hear it'?
It's like gravitational waves. Just because no one has been able to wonder about the mysteries of the universe, theorize, build an instrument, or detect something for billions of years doesn't mean it hasn't existed all along. We don't have to be able to think about something, observe, or measure something in order for it to exist, happen, or have had happen at some point in the past.
Fisher9001 · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This can be easily proven false by butterfly effect. Just because our consciousness by definition needs to "observe" something or some process (by direct close contact like detecting sounds waves, electromagnetic waves in visible spectrum, touch etc.) to realize it's existence doesn't mean that said thing or event doesn't take place before that.
So thanks to logic we can predict that something exists or happens even if we don't directly interact with it. We won't know it but we can be sure of it with (almost) 100% confidence. It's one of most beautiful features of ours mind in my opinion.
Emilia_Violet · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, yes and no? I think you may be putting pieces together from separate concepts and observations. I'm no expert, I just enjoy interest in quantum physics and philosophical concepts, but I'll try to explain what I know. Anyone, correct me if I'm wrong, but please do so respectfully. Like I said, I enjoy these topics, so I won't be upset if I'm wrong and get to learn something new.
Let's start with quantum fun! There's an old experiment called the double slit which demonstrated that light actually behaves as a particle and a wave. It's been augmented and redone countless times, and has even been used to show that subatomic particles, like electrons, can behave the same way. As for the original, it resulted in a ton of hypotheses and interpretations that come down to what is known as the "observer effect". There are some issues with the effect, but one of the best examples is another famous experiment known as Schrödinger's Cat. Now, this one is actually a thought experiment, but it's an easy way to demonstrate the different theories and interpretations at work in quantum mechanics.
Setup: you have a box containing a cat, a radioactive particle, and some poison. The box is built in such a way that no information about it's contents can be determined externally. The cat, particle, and poison are placed in the box together and sealed in. When the radioactive particle decays it will trigger a mechanism that releases the poison, killing the cat.
Implications: After a short time, it will be impossible to know if the cat is dead or alive, as the particle may or may not have decayed in that time. If a determination can't be made regarding the states of the cat and particle then they exist in all states simultaneously - this is quantum superposition. Until an observation is made by an outside observer, both outcomes are equally likely: "the particle has decayed and the cat is dead" is just as probable and true as "the particle has not decayed and the cat is alive".
This little thought experiment was actually meant to show flaws in quantum theory around the time Schrödinger put it forth, but it also serves as a pretty handy tool for explaining the field. See, you probably think that it's irrelevant that the cat remains unobserved. Common sense would dictate that an outcome exists within the closed system, regardless of whether or not we check up on the system. However, normal physics, common sense, and causality breakdown when working on the quantum scale. There have been dozens of interpretations of the data put forth to explain the fact that, contrary to our common sense, the quantum world doesn't actually have a definite set of characteristics until it is forced, through observation, to decide on a set of characteristics.
Now, observation is a tricky word, because it implies a person is looking at something, but that's not really what it means in quantum mechanics. Observation is anything that requires quantum "stuff" to have a determined state. Instruments used in testing are observers just as we are, as they force stuff out of superposition, and down into one of the possible outcomes.
The observer effect has lead to numerous hypotheses and even more pseudoscientific nonsense. Some of it is interesting, but unverifiable, at least at present. A lot of it is just the result of people taking the basics of the field and stretching them to fit another concept, despite it in no way supporting that concept. I'll put a few of the ideas at the bottom of this post, if you're interested. Point being, yes, there does seem to be an observer effect, but, no, it doesn't mean that nothing exists until we observe it. It just means that some quantum stuff doesn't have certain outcome until it is forced to by some observation.
As I mentioned earlier, there is still the philosophical side of observation. It doesn't require much explanation, as there isn't the same need to explain an absolute state and process underlying our perceived reality. A lot of the conversations to be had on the subject are closer to fun thought experiments than anything else, but they are fun nonetheless.
What if the reality you perceive is the only reality? Nothing actually exists outside of your perception, you only believe it does. When you observe something it exists, then ceases to exist when you stop observing it.
Or, everyone perceives reality, but it is impossible to perceive another's reality. That being the case, it is possible for something to both exist and not exist. Someone else may perceive something that you don't. If you don't percieve something then doesn't exist in your reality, but it still exists in the reality of someone who did observe it. This has more to do with individualized perceptions of reality, but essentially, if you lack knowledge of something, it literally doesn't exist within your reality.
Anyways, there's a bunch more that could be said on this topic, but I might as well stop here. I hope I was able to answer your question! I'll put a couple of the quantum mechanics things below, like I said earlier.
chodeofgreatwisdom · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that called superposition? Like you don't know if something is or isn't unless you see it?
Zambeezi · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Observation has nothing to do with a human observing it. Observation means interacting with a system such that you alter it in some way.
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those are the same "philosophers" who would say "Maybe not" to the question "Does a tree fall in a forest if there is no one to hear it fall?"
The tree is up at sunset. It is down at sunrise. Yes, it fucking fell, and it doesn't matter whether someone heard it or not.
Light01 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's literally the shrödinger cat, typically, if you put a cat into a cage and give him poison, until you open the cage, he's still alive, because you can't aknowledge his health in its current state. But, logic kinda goes against it, if you give the cat more time to live and take back the poison, if you let him live in a cage for 1000 years, that is eventually discovered, hypothetically, the cat wouldn't exist, since no one have the knowledge about it anymore, but he'll still be here. (shrödinger is using a cat, but it could be anything really, a rock would do just fine as well.)
The issue with said theory is, like Shrödinger's cat, there's no way to even slightly understand what is going on outside of your axioms, let alone perceptions of other beings, so the only way to prove it is to being unable to disprove it, which is a tautology, like theories that will always be beyond our scope(what's behind a black hole for that matter is surely a pretty good example of it).
Since blindness is really the main factor of any organic (hence alive) beings, even if the world didn't exist, even if its beauty was all a lie, he still wouldn't see it, because in the end, you only get to see what Nature wants you to see. (that's Matrix for you sir).
SuperKingus · 3 points · Posted at 19:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Charlie Calvin over here.
lonelypeasant2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought of the same thing
Landorus-T_But_Fast · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it is impossible to measure in any way, then it is no different than something that doesn't exist.
TaniTheBitchCatSucks · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That isn't the point though. "I can't measure it" and "Nobody can measure it (now)" are both different from "it can't be measured".
pornpiracypirate · 4 points · Posted at 18:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a difference between what we think of as nothing and what science considers "nothing"
maryjanes_AK47 · 2 points · Posted at 19:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alternatively, if you can't perceive something could it be effectively non-existent? Just like how everyone sees slightly different versions of colors, reality is subjective
Highfive_Machine · 2 points · Posted at 19:31:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understanding vs. comprehension.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you know that?
2four · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because his pastor said it last Thursday.
-QuestionMark- · 4 points · Posted at 20:55:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Checkmate Atheists!
FireballPlayer0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t perceive someone in my SO position. Does that mean I really do have one?
tempski · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's not get carried away now 😜
boxingdude · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol you just described why he can’t wrap his head around the concept of nothing!
slyder219 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
true but I think that's how we've as a society defined the word "nothing" in this regard.
something so impossible to perceive... it's nothing
duaneap · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is... that a quote from Small Soldiers?
MajorParadox · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So... pizza? 🤔
spore_attic · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
throw the inverse in there and no one will care about your comment anymore. they'll call you out for being too rational.
Gongaloon · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. Just because you don't perceive me eating an entire row of Dollar Tree duplex cookies at 6 pm, doesn't mean I didn't have dinner.
OfficialGrexz · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn’t nothing nothing?
TheSilverPotato · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then why is nothing a thing?
W....wait a second
Juan-baphomet · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True this!!!
SARS-CoV--19 · 59 points · Posted at 18:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing that blows my mind is that the idea of "before the universe" doesn't actually makes sense.
Because "before" is a concept of time, and there is no time without the universe.
greenwizardneedsfood · 29 points · Posted at 19:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The No-Boundary Proposal put forth by (among others) Hawking is a pretty interest - though fairly contentious - way to look at that issue. It basically renders tome obsolete as you approach the Big Bang. He compares it to traveling to the South Pole. Once you get there, which way is south? Does South even mean anything there? However, despite the removal of any sort of southness, the South Pole is still just like any other spot on Earth. It’s not like someone wandering around Antarctica would be able to find it. That’s essentially how he proposed to look at the Big Bang. Time doesn’t mean anything, you can’t go further back in time, but it’s still “normal” in the same sense that the South Pole is a normal place. Obviously it’s more complicated than that, and it’s a contentious proposal, but it is backed up by math and intriguing nonetheless.
Trixxstrr · 6 points · Posted at 19:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s also the idea that there was something before the Big Bang but we don’t know what. Maybe the universe before that all collapsed like a black hole and then exploded at that point for the start of the universe as we know it.
idealistic_realist · 9 points · Posted at 19:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, but what about before that? Like it's a recurring loop.
Trixxstrr · 11 points · Posted at 19:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ll never know, it’s all just possibilities.
sleepy_alien_ · 4 points · Posted at 20:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think matter just exists. It gets confusing when we're made to believe a god created everything. So people try to say "Well then what created matter?"
idealistic_realist · 6 points · Posted at 20:33:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ohh yeah, I agree with you. My same question applies to a God if a God existed lol. Like who created God and who created the creator of God and so on
duhhuh · 5 points · Posted at 20:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there's a concept of timelessness that is just difficult for us to grasp.
Which_Hedgehog · 19 points · Posted at 18:16:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans really aren't able to comprehend nothing. Even what we imagine to be nothing is something. You imagine blankness, darkness or blinding white nothing, simple grey, you imagine something no matter how much you try to think of nothing.
Nihilikara · 9 points · Posted at 18:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking about nothing is actually really easy. Unfortunately, you have to be dead in order to do so.
PhysicsIsWierdPlant · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's because you think the space "exists" i.e. that there is some 3D or 4D grid filled with particles. Try to think of it this way: All the particles are actually objects with some properties (coordinates, mass, energy..) in a list. "Nothing is on those coodinates xyzt" would actually mean "for all the particles in the list, the coordinates are different than xyzt".
I think of "nothing" as "lack of something" and it works perfectly well for me.
TheDivineWordsmith · 17 points · Posted at 18:18:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out Alan Watts. He's got some really fun and interesting musings on the concept of nothing!
justonemorethang · 8 points · Posted at 18:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to throw on Alan Watts lectures to fall asleep to. Needless to say it made for some interesting dreams.
KneeDeepInTheDead · 2 points · Posted at 20:10:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having dreams of playing tag in elementary school and everyone always screaming "Youre it!"
Chai_Latte_Actor · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this!
oanismod · 2 points · Posted at 02:35:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah he basically points out that nothingness or empty space is just as important as the thing itself, you can't have one without the other and in fact they are both one thing looked at from a different perspective. He also has a lot of good metaphors and analogies to demonstrate this, love listening to his lectures
TheDivineWordsmith · 3 points · Posted at 03:01:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you like him, you should try reading Derrida! He's a linguistic philosopher, so he's much more focused on language, but he's a bit more academically rigorous than Watts. He focuses on the same idea of contrast though, that to define anything you need to put a border on it, and if you've got a border you necessarily have both an inside and an outside. You have the thing, and what the thing is not. By definition, language (and it follows meaning itself) is simply an interconnected mesh of these contrasts, and if you pick them apart there is no base meaning! It's all nothing, and it's all everything, just like Watts puts it. Cool stuff to think about!
ihaner · 11 points · Posted at 18:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no nothing. Nothing does not exist. Nobody can describe nothing nobody has seen nothing nobody knows what nothing is.
Wishyouamerry · 10 points · Posted at 18:38:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone says nothing is impossible. But I work with people who do nothing all day long. Trust me, it’s definitely possible.
ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are breathing and that is something.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I long for old reddit where low-level jokes like this were absent.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:42:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then that is death.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what is the universe to you when you are dead
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We may never know
Taiwanese-Tofu · 11 points · Posted at 18:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every Christian on Reddit: Insert Veggie Tales Meme Allow us to introduce ourselves
Namnodorel · 6 points · Posted at 18:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing that sort of helps with the concept is trying to see through the back of your head. What you "see" when you try that is what nothing looks like. It still feels very strange, but that helped me a bit.
Elryuk · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alan watts?
FightThePouvoir · 12 points · Posted at 18:45:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about: Where does space (as in outer-space) end?
Account_8472 · 12 points · Posted at 19:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t.
However, there comes a point where when you’ve traveled far enough away from any other matter, that the sum of all empty space between you and the closest measurable matter is expanding at greater than c, meaning you would never be able to return.
bumblyburg · 6 points · Posted at 19:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
B R U H
Account_8472 · 3 points · Posted at 19:19:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All signs point to that being the case in about 150billion years from now for our local group — which means that there will be no microwave background to observe, no evidence of the Big Bang, etc.
rochakgupta · 0 points · Posted at 19:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, that is how far my crush has traveled away from me
sleepy_alien_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's where Sandra Bullock is.
bozolinow · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why? If you could travel that far than nothing says you wouldn’t have means to also travel back faster than the expanse
BlazeOrangeDeer · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The other stuff recedes faster than you can get to it. You're limited to moving slower than the speed of light through space, but space expands exponentially. With a large enough gap, the gap expands faster than you can cross it.
FightThePouvoir · 1 points · Posted at 14:15:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is the answer I would pick if I were taking a test on it. But knowing that, or at least thinking I know that, doesn't make it any easier to wrap my head around. Is a very humbling concept for me.
Wishyouamerry · 6 points · Posted at 18:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
PLEASE STOP.
FightThePouvoir · 1 points · Posted at 14:18:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space: "I can't".
RRFroste · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t.
PhysicsIsWierdPlant · 3 points · Posted at 22:20:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if the space is curved in such fashion that there is no end to the space, that it actually makes a closed loop? Where does "space" on a sphere end (when you keep going east on the Earth where do you end up)? Our 3D space could be "curved in fourth dimension" so that it makes a surface of 4D sphere thus making a perfect loop...
Just kidding we would have noticed the curvature even with our 3D senses... Unless the radius of the "4D sphere" is large enough to make it look flat just like the surface of the Earth..
FightThePouvoir · 1 points · Posted at 14:02:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried to contemplate that, it doesn't fit in my brain. If it's circular, then it's not 'space' as I see it.
Dingbrain1 · 26 points · Posted at 16:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where were you before you were born? You were part of the nothingness and so to nothing you shall return.
JumpedUpSparky · 32 points · Posted at 17:57:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's mindbogglingly terrifying
Dingbrain1 · 7 points · Posted at 18:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought of existing forever is far worse in my opinion.
jooes · 15 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree.
I know what it's like to wake up in the morning and start a new day. I've done it thousands of times. I can wrap my head around the concept of doing that forever. It's what I've already experienced, over and over again.
But dying is permanent. You don't wake up. You don't get to dream, you get nothing. Literally nothing, not even a dark empty room. It's pure nothingness for all eternity and you never get to come back from that. How do you even comprehend something like that? In the blink of an eye, poof, everything is nothing forever. You don't even get to realize that you're dead.
I know people say that you experienced nothingness before you were born, and that's true. But I came out of nothingness and here I am now. It's completely different to go from something to nothing.
Living forever would suck because you'd still have to experience things like death and loss. You'd probably get unfathomably bored after a while. But I'd take that over nothingness any day.
umrguy42 · 3 points · Posted at 23:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you didn't EXPERIENCE nothingness though.
Elryuk · 4 points · Posted at 21:16:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, it is frightening from out feeling/experiencing state of being. But it's only scary untill it happens, after that you wont feel anything, cause there will be nothing to feel, to fear, to enjoy something. Yes it's terrifying from our perspective, but as we didn't miss existing before being born, we won't be missing anything after we die. It's normal, it being terrifying, but in the end you can either live in fear of it, or live for the excitement of living. Not the perfect, or from our perspective, or the best option, but for the time being, only option. In a sense we all know what awaits us, only thing we can do is come to accept it. Sometimes i feely really anxious about it, but then i think why fear something you already know? It's at the same time terrifying, amazing, exciting and comforting.
Edit: grammar
Dingbrain1 · 4 points · Posted at 23:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But FOREVER dude. I’m just shy of 28 years old and this feels like it’s taking a long ass time. I’ve heard people in their 80s and 90s say they’re ready for it to be over. It sounds like a relief. All the pain, regret, grief, bitterness, etc of life, it keeps piling up and there’s only one way for it to end.
th1sishappening · 2 points · Posted at 07:59:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have heard old people say that, but it’s always been because they are weak, unwell, all their friends have died etc. And I think just knowing that they will die soon increases the desire to get it over with. If one could still have a good, fulfilling life for longer I think the attitude would be different.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 17:03:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure but who knows if that common feeling of “readiness for the end” would give way to something else if humans had longer lifespans. Maybe “let me die” is just a standard phase of a lifespan and once you hit your 150s you decide to just make the best of it and live life however you want.
GiFieri · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Took the words out of my mouth. Don’t get how people can compare dying to the time before you were born.
amphetaminesfailure · 16 points · Posted at 18:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think both are equally terrifying in different ways, which is why I don't like to think on the subject at all.
AppleJuice47 · 4 points · Posted at 18:51:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Existing forever in THIS reality? Sure, but assume u were given a new nature, and body in a different plane or dimension thats suited for eternity. You'd likely never want to leave.
Sorry, Just a random thought, don't mind me.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 17:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t apologize! It’s an interesting thought!
LIVERLIPS69 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you be scared of it? you've done it already.
JumpedUpSparky · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I forget how
TimeTravelMishap · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was all over the damn place before I was born. The atoms already existed and will continue to exist.
KneeDeepInTheDead · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
been there, done that
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Dingbrain1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel you on that. No universe would make a lot more sense than... anything else. I’m not a religious person. I don’t believe there is a “why”, no reason that any of this exists, and the fact that there are living beings not to mention sentient ones.... it doesn’t make any sense, and it isn’t supposed to, either.
BobbyGabagool · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s still not nothingness though, it’s just loss of perspective. Everything that was you is still there.
OneMeterWonder · 1 points · Posted at 17:00:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is “you”?
Nutrient_paste · 4 points · Posted at 18:20:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's difficult to talk about a concept without passively insinuating that it is a thing that has attributes.
There is no evidence to suggest that there was or will be nothing in the purest sense. Science doesnt assert that there was nothing before the universe.
LrdAsmodeous · 9 points · Posted at 19:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair - the big bang theory doesnt imply there was nothing before the singularity. It simply states that we have no way of knowing with current technical understanding, because once you bring time back to the point of singularity the math gets real, real weird, real.... real fast.
To the point that it doesnt make any sense.
The starting point of the big bang is the point at which two things happen:
At least this has always been my understanding.
Gilpif · 0 points · Posted at 21:50:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t really matter if there was a thing before the Big Bang or not. What we know is that at some point in the past the Universe was a singularity. If the Universe were to become a singularity again, no vestige of our Universe would survive. If the Universe used to be four faries dancing to Melanesian music, but one of them is banging her head on one of the other 3 every 12.2361255252 seconds, it wouldn’t matter because every trace of their existence would be gone.
If there’s absolutely no trace of the past, did it really happen?
PM_ME_NUDES_THANK · 5 points · Posted at 18:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just way scientists can say we don't know what's there but still get on with their day
Man_with_lions_head · 4 points · Posted at 18:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except, in our universe, there is no such thing as nothing. Everything, everything is filled with quantum fields. That's my understanding, anyways.
TimeTravelMishap · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right now that's there. But did they exist before the big bang?
Man_with_lions_head · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a meaningless question, it is like asking what is "north of the north pole."
Time was not in existence before the big bang, so there was no "before," just like there is no "north of the north pole." And "time" is a term only relevant within our universe. Time only exists after the big bang. It doesn't exist even as a concept before that.
It's difficult to accept, but that's the way it is.
And, actually, there is no such thing as "time" in our universe. It has been proven. There is only space-time.
However, if you want to know more, search youtube for Lawrence Krauss and "A Universe from Nothing." There's a bunch of videos on his book, some better than others. Try to find one that has him explaining it all, rather than an interview someone is giving him.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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TimeTravelMishap · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who in the fuck knows? That's the entire point. None of this makes any damn sense man reality shouldn't be here what's going on.
Billions of years ago some random nonsensical shit exploded and now I sell phones to boomers who don't understand them.
Why. What. Why.
MaimedJester · 4 points · Posted at 18:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What did you pick up Sartre at an odd time?
MCG_1017 · 5 points · Posted at 19:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to binge Seinfeld episodes.
asthmaenthusiast · 3 points · Posted at 18:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phenomenology of perception
weegsie · 3 points · Posted at 18:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti matter
RRFroste · 7 points · Posted at 19:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antimatter isn’t nothing. It’s just regular matter with a flipped spin and charge.
WonkyTelescope · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think only the charge is flipped. From wikipedia:
Neo_Stockhuasen · 3 points · Posted at 18:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If yes means no, no mean no. Mom, this doesn't explain anything!!!
EmoEnforcer · 3 points · Posted at 18:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try a depervation tank
Medicalmocha · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think Nothing is just Something Else
localhermanos · 2 points · Posted at 18:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just blew my fucking mind with the atoms but, I study science in uni and had learned about atoms not being " connected" but holy fuck when it’s laid out like that
ensalys · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time and space are something, so concepts like outside/before the universe might be nonsensical. And between atoms, we find space. And maybe, the only property of nothing, is non-existence.
The-Rocketman3 · 2 points · Posted at 18:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its time to make your own dinner
Fincio · 2 points · Posted at 18:56:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd highly recommend watching Larence Krauss on this topic - lecture called "uniwerse from nothing".
It will explain many things :)
Account_8472 · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m currently reading that book. So many mind blowing moments.
TheStonedBro · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hell, even just thinking about the concept of absolutely nothing is STILL something. That's how scary nothing is
darkfaith93 · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A show about NOTHING, Jerry.
CheeseSandals · 2 points · Posted at 19:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it’s not so much nothing as it is space itself which is formed from 3 dimensions. Nothingness is about perception really. Perceiving nothing is more mind boggling imo. Like when you die, there’s not like a permanent black screen or whatever, your perception is completely gone. You don’t feel anything. You don’t feel that you don’t feel anything. You don’t.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothingness gives me severe anxiety.
marineropanama · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always liked that Talking Heads song: "Heaven, heaven is a place; a place where nothing, nothing ever happens". It makes a lot of sense to me. If heaven really is a place and it's populated by people or spirits or essences or whatever, how can anything ever happen? Actions and interactions will almost inevitably lead to conflict: "Hey, how come Alex received two helpings of ambrosia and I only got one"? In the final analysis, Humans are rather clever apes geared towards acquiring resources. So what happens when everything is distributed fairly and everyone has equal social standing and equal access to resources? Nothing. No wars, no disagreements, no conflicts. Nothing.
Hides-From-Sun · 2 points · Posted at 19:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I try to understand the concept of nothing is with this phrase
"What do you see with your foot?"
It's not that you see just black, empty space. But instead it's that there literally is nothing to see, because it's impossible.
I hope I explained that alright, it's definitely a hard thing for me to describe
MxM111 · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s because there is no nothing. Let me explain. We do not know how exactly universe formed (our laws of physics do not work before time 10E-43 or something. But there are two possibilities. 1) universe existed always, then there is no question about what was before, and 2) universe and time started at some moment. Then, there is no time before, so there is no “before” itself.
LEGOEPIC · 2 points · Posted at 06:23:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is/was something there, and if we’re lucky we just might discover what it is.
Lindstajn · 3 points · Posted at 18:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good example on nothing is when u close one eye. It's just nothing. It's not darkness. It just nothing. This gives a good idea what the difference of darkness (close both eyes) compered to nothingness. Hope this will blow ur mind a bit.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its not nothing, its pitch black, black is still a color, its therefore something. What if your brain indicated the absence of color as white to you? that's still something.
delurkrelurker · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, doesn't work me . Geometry and swirling patterns are there in full colour.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I close one eye, it is darkness. It's like being in a dark room. I see black, the absence of light. It's literally the same as when I close both eyes.
LongjumpingPriority0 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you should look between your ears, because that is the perfect form dabs
owned by Diogenes
Villain2662 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok Parmenides
ThreeShekelsOfDeath · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To understand nothing - you have to become noone
StatusKoi · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems like you can’t have something without nothing because you need a reference point. Like light and dark, Good and evil. How can there be happiness without sadness as an opposite? It would seem they are all dependent on each other in order to exist in this universe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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StatusKoi · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps, but it still seems that the concept of nothing is necessary in order to experience something. Are you saying that nothing is null, void and unnecessary when you have something?
funky555 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just imagine the v o i d
samjp910 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember what it was like before you were born?
Just like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! I heard a marriage counselor say once that men have a "nothing box" in their brain so believe it if they say they aren't thinking about anything and that concept just totally doesn't make sense to me. How do you think of nothing? I always have something going on in my brain.
SadSniper · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not literally nothing it's just nothing of importance. Right now I have my TV on, with a game playing background music. I am not looking at the tv. The music has no lyrics. I am just present, not thinking about anything hearing this music.
SuperAuthenticSpronk · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ones and zeroes my dude
freexe · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everywhere we look we find something. I imagine that is more true than we can imagine.
Halvus_I · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its not 'nothing' that came before the Big Bang, its that information lies beyond an event horizon.
buckerooni · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I don't spend all my days wondering why the universe exists. Because what is the alternative? Nothing? That makes even less sense
greenwizardneedsfood · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In order for nothing to exist, there has to be an opposing notion of something.
usernamesarehard1979 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s outside of our universe?
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is infinite according to currently accepted theory.
usernamesarehard1979 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if it’s infinite, but also expanding and contracting, what’s outside the bubble? Infinity can’t shrink or expand right?
I’m really asking, not arguing. It’s something that I just can’t wrap my head around.
greenwizardneedsfood · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not expanding into anything. It’s a really weird concept because that’s so unintuitive, but what’s happening is that the geometry is changing. Lengths are getting longer. The classic example is baking raisin bread. As it bakes, the bread gets bigger and the raisins get further apart, but you aren’t making more bread, all that’s happening is your unit of distance (length between raisins) is increasing. Obviously the bread is expanding into the oven or whatever, but imagine you are inside the bread (and that it’s infinite). You don’t need something outside of the universe in order for it’s geometry to change. Now, if you go to something like string/M theory then the picture changes somewhat since we are embedded in a manifold with 11 dimensions, so there is something to expand into, but given the uncertainty regarding the truth of string theory, we don’t really worry about that too much.
usernamesarehard1979 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I don’t think I can ever really “get it”. If the raisin bread (yuck btw) is everything, and the rest of the oven is nothing, I just can’t wrap my head around nothing.
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t think of the oven as existing. This analogy is quite limited. It’s just meant to illustrated how distances can change without making anything new. Also how dare you be so blaspheme raisin bread.
usernamesarehard1979 · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry. If you said banana I would have been with you all the way. But you used raisin for your example and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever understand the universe now. Thanks for nothing.
Man I hope the /s isn’t needed
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 01:48:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Look here now. The universe doesn’t follow Banana Law. It follows Raisin Law. Bananas make no sense and have no generalizability. Raisins are truth.
usernamesarehard1979 · 2 points · Posted at 03:46:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truth? Raisins are full of lies. Craisins are the way and the light of the universe. Dried apricots are a close second followed by crunch berries.
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 04:30:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cranbaisins will bow before dried apricots or else there will be war. Crunch berries may do as they please, so long as raisins approve.
usernamesarehard1979 · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The raisins have heard through the grapevine that count chocula has deemed it so. We’re good to go.
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peace is now ensured for part of our complete breakfast.
usernamesarehard1979 · 2 points · Posted at 05:01:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What were we talking about before?
greenwizardneedsfood · 2 points · Posted at 05:08:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno, some existential shit that wasn’t as fun.
usernamesarehard1979 · 2 points · Posted at 05:45:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right. Have a good night buddy!
usernamesarehard1979 · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it might have been what to put on the outside of the waffle or something.
Loyalist_Pig · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Nothing That Is by Robert Kaplan might be up your alley. It’s about the concept of the number 0 and how it’s relatively new to society. Pretty rad book if you’re into smoking cigarettes silently while just thinking about things.
papa_farq · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like nothingness is impossible though bc doesnt the absence of any sort of space-occupying thing just result in a vacuum that fills that space? So like there always has to be something there? Idk I'm not a scientist or anything that's just what makes sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And how long was the nothing there before us?
mirsella · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if the chemical reaction in our brain can physically understand this
MarcusAurelius-Verus · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funniest comment I've seen on reddit.
Gezzer52 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're whole premise is faulty though. We don't know what was here before the universe. And the empty space between atoms or atomic particles? Again we don't know it's empty. In fact Einstein referred to all that "empty" space you consider nothing as time-space. And while it seems empty to us, who knows what it would look like to someone able to perceive it?
TheRealHazzer1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I swear I think about this all the time. The concept of nothing is just so crazy.
xXaphr · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eventually when we die we’ll fade to nothing. We wont be able to process that we dont exist and if there is no afterlife, the complexities that are in each of our lives (emotions, rational thought, experiences, hopes and dreams) simply ceases to exist
kidneysonahill · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing is something
WookieMarine · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In-between the atoms are electrons, in between electrons are subatomic particles that operate on fields that extend the entire universe. That should clear things up nice and easy.
getflexsealed666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that before the universe there was nothing literally nothing. Just a place where it isn't cold or hot, bright or dark, a place that is nothing but it can't be a place since a place is something.
missgorgeous74 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing doesn't exist.
Redditfortoolong · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well even nothing is something -jerry Seinfeld
serhitta · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better question: what color did everything look like, when it was nothing?
buck9000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s because there’s nothing to get.
LuckyCharms2000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://nothing.net/
King_Pecca · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think nothing doesn't exist. It's just our way of thinking; the way our brain works, albeit through centuries of listening to people of who we believe know how things work. Nothing is probably like dark matter. We're unable to detect it, so it probably is non existent. But think of how people long ago thought about the air surrounding us. We can't see it. We're used to it's odour and in between you and me, the air, is nothing. There surely is something, just as there is something in between galaxies. The universe is nowhere empty, it's just our perception because it's never been of interest to us: if plain air can't hurt us, why bother? So is the same with emptiness or nothing.
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ME TOO. God it’s crazy.
Imasluttycat · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reminds me of how the concept of "zero" came pretty long after civilizations had developed number schemes. Like the ancient Greeks didn't even have a symbol for zero.
AmpNC · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this.... So much.
southmost956 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can answer one for you. Beef.
KrishaCZ · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Before" our universe there was the singularity, everything was so densely packed together that time didn't even exist. Bill Wurtz described it in an unironically amazing way in the history of the entire world video:
It's been so everywhere you don't need a where. You don't even need a when. That's how every it gets.
fwubglubbel · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"There's no such thing as nothing" - Lawrence Krauss
You should read this:
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11337189-a-universe-from-nothing
johnsom3 · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I scrolled to far to see Krauss this far down. His lecture on a universe from Nothing is mind blowing.
GodDammitPatricia · 6149 points · Posted at 14:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who inflate their cheeks when they're underwater
Raemnant · 2928 points · Posted at 15:15:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they think holding their breath means fighting to keep it in
shampoo_and_dick · 708 points · Posted at 17:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Maybe they are comfortable that way?!
Edit: Explained it in simple words.
SprolesRoyce · 302 points · Posted at 17:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sorta get what you’re saying, but do you have to try that hard to keep your mouth closed underwater? For me holding my breath doesn’t feel like tightening my lips more that a tiny bit
schizopotato · 299 points · Posted at 18:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You don't even need to close your mouth to hold your breath
HoltbyIsMyBae · 38 points · Posted at 19:54:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I often dream I am underwater but can still breathe but im using my nose suckas!
urka511 · 12 points · Posted at 22:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! And it's not regular breathing. I breathe in slowly through my nose and I get oxygen that way. In my dreams it's something I've practiced "in the past" and learned the skill so the bad guys never think to look in the water because it's something people normally can't do.
huhwuhhuhwuh · 4 points · Posted at 22:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a fairly common thing sometimes tied to breathing issues while sleeping.
TheBigEmptyxd · 5 points · Posted at 22:09:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people don't even know how to breathe properly, or how basic anatomy works
a-r-c · 73 points · Posted at 18:50:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do you even have to keep your mouth closed?
water doesn't immediately rush down your throat if you open your mouth lol
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 23:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But one slip up and you're breathing in a lung full of water. Safer to have 2 seals than one
zekeymoomoo · 7 points · Posted at 00:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like those doors in space stations and shit. Fuck I sound dumb bc I don't remember what they're called.
Sobotana · 9 points · Posted at 00:57:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
An airlock?
zekeymoomoo · 6 points · Posted at 01:05:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There we go
Remain_InSaiyan · 15 points · Posted at 18:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's just overcompensating for people who aren't used to doing it.
Cubic-Sphere · 8 points · Posted at 18:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don’t do it, but theoretically it would equalize the pressure inside vs outside of the mouth.just kidding, I’m retarded. that’s wrong
[deleted] · 23 points · Posted at 19:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If your cheeks are inflating you’ve pumped more pressure into them. If they look normal you’ve equalized it. If they are sunken the pressure external is greater than the pressure internal
Cubic-Sphere · 5 points · Posted at 22:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correct. I gave it about 2 seconds of thought, my comment was stupid lol
BScatterplot · 95 points · Posted at 18:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you don't have to keep your lips shut tight to hold your breath, it's all in the throat
iamunderstand · 14 points · Posted at 19:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are you tightening your lips at all?
If you make a normal, relaxed face with your mouth closed, no water will come in. There is absolutely no need whatsoever to squeeze your lips tight.
a-r-c · 17 points · Posted at 18:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no, not at all
ur weird, who cares if there is water in your mouth?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fish pee in that water!
lababanana · 8 points · Posted at 19:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can hold can hold your breath without inflated cheeks, without tightening your lips,with your mouth wide open, even without closing the trahea. Take a deep breath and don't exhale and dont close your trahea. Just like you are about to exhale. It depends only on the muscles of your chest.
FlandreHon · 7 points · Posted at 19:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No clue what you're talking about. Why would that feel awkward?
tkm1026 · 7 points · Posted at 18:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did it and it feels much more natural with my mouth normal. I was about to argue with you except that I remembered I've been swimming as long as I've been walking so it's not exactly fair.
the-nub · 11 points · Posted at 18:37:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you puff your cheeks out, there's more tension on your lips and it would be easier for them to part and let water it, sort of like how it's easier to poke a hole in an inflated balloon than a flaccid one.
Trey5169 · 5 points · Posted at 19:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world needs more little heroes like you. Thanks :)
ShivasKratom3 · 3 points · Posted at 19:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holding my breath didnt seem to change anything
ShebanotDoge · 3 points · Posted at 19:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, come on. If you don't like your comment, delete it like a normal person.
InternetRando64 · 6 points · Posted at 18:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh, more wisdom from The great u/shampoo_and_dick
MatthewDiDonato · 2 points · Posted at 19:11:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thanks u/shampoo_and_dick
ShadowZealot11 · 2 points · Posted at 21:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold up, I know you. Didn’t you marry u/dick_and_lotion
dick_and_lotion · 5 points · Posted at 21:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cough
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, I know you! u/dick_and_lotion
yeahokayalrightbud · 5 points · Posted at 20:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do it because it pushes my upper lip into my nostrils a little bit and helps keep water out of my nose
Regicide_Only · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hum when you’re under water. A small amount of air comes out of the nose which is enough to stop water from coming in.
anonymouspurveyor · 5 points · Posted at 23:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hummed underwater too long and lost all my air now I'm dead
Regicide_Only · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yeah that the problem isn’t it
Petal-Dance · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cellular process of respiration produces CO2, and actually adds net air to your lungs the longer you hold your breath. So it makes sense that you would start keeping air in your mouth to help hold it in
NgArclite · 986 points · Posted at 17:21:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As a WSI it's how we teach kids to hold their breath (learning through sight and example). Harder to explain holding breaths if you just look normal lol.
Edit: WSI= water safety instructor. Fancy title/certification for person that teaches people how to swim.
wwcraw · 137 points · Posted at 18:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont be reasonable here... psssht
NgArclite · 210 points · Posted at 18:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry...uh....we do it b.c we all evolved from Pufferfish. The government doesn't want you to know we are descendants from a mythical city called Atlantis.
wwcraw · 23 points · Posted at 18:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perfection
FinFangFoom_ · 22 points · Posted at 18:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now THATS a reddit comment
noworries_13 · 16 points · Posted at 20:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf is a WSI?
PhAnToM444 · 17 points · Posted at 20:39:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water safety instructor.
Basically a swim teacher.
noworries_13 · 20 points · Posted at 20:46:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that a common acronym people should know? I feel y'all were throwing that around like it's common knowledge
PhAnToM444 · 12 points · Posted at 20:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I had to google it cause I was curious too lol.
Damn water safety instructors and their fancy lingo
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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noworries_13 · 6 points · Posted at 21:06:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said it wasn't. It just seems like a very uncommon acronym that maybe shoulda been defined or spelled out the first use.
NgArclite · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water safety instructor. Basically fancy title for someone that teaches people how to swim.
noworries_13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that an acronym everyone should know?
NgArclite · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guess not. I can edit the comment for clarity if that makes it better
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 19:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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NgArclite · 13 points · Posted at 19:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's more of a safe way to get kids to even put their faces in the water. I taught water babies up to actual swim team (still my fav. Perfecting a stroke is easier than building from nothing; obviously)
Also builds a base for blowing bubbles into actual breathing while swimming.
More explaining to others rather than you lol. But I've also had kids drink water and vomit. Those are the worse. So it happens
missgorgeous74 · 4 points · Posted at 19:20:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Former WSI and pool manager... Yes to instinctual. We always taught blowing bubbles and pulling them under water (as opposed to dunking). Something about the water rushing past your face triggers that instinctual hold your breath thing...
Wiki_pedo · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A wussy?
cuddly_hedgehog · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Umm no we don't
LittleRed675 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I teach my kids/adults to press their tongue on the soft palate. Usually keeps them from puffing and puts the air bubbles at the bottom of the nose so they can feel them and keep water out!
NgArclite · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting. I'm no longer teach. Moved to EMS but I'll try to remember that if I ever go back.
Megavore97 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a WSI too but I usually try and get kids to blow bubbles under the water rather than hold their breath, it prevents inhalation that way.
NgArclite · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
eh i didn't go into that much detail lol. didn't expect it to blow up the way it did tbh. it's just to show them holding a breath getting their mouths underwater to blow bubbles and leading into a full head submersion. its mostly just a kid thing..you don't do this for adults
upstatedreaming3816 · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can confirm, not a WSI, but I have a 4 year old and this is how I taught him to stop inhaling Shampoo water in his bath when he was younger.
coole106 · 286 points · Posted at 16:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that children learn to hold their breath this way. They’re not used to not breathing, but they are used to breathing out of their mouth and holding their lips together
offalt · 15 points · Posted at 17:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anything this is unlearned. Infants know how to hold their breaths without any teaching or learning.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 17:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infants can drink and breathe at the same time. Their epiglottis is different.
lare290 · 13 points · Posted at 19:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL. Also fuck infants, I want that superpower.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
eww you fuck infants?
coole106 · 5 points · Posted at 17:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but if it’s not practiced from infancy, it’s soon forgotten
starbringer101 · 5 points · Posted at 19:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol can confirm one time in either kindergarten or first grade I had hiccups and the teacher asked me to try holding my breath and spelling my name and then when everyone looked at me I just sucked in a bunch of air and had giant cheeks. I didn't think it through on how I was supposed to talk tho lol
pheebsbrown · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Children don’t know how to breathe
mil_boi42 · 335 points · Posted at 14:30:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More air
NeedleInABeetle · 588 points · Posted at 15:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(dyslexic mannequin)
OKSIGEN
CockDaddyKaren · 29 points · Posted at 16:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
dyslexic mannequin
JohnnyGeeCruise · 42 points · Posted at 17:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmfao does he mean the surreal meme, "stonks" dude?
RocketMyFleshPocket · 18 points · Posted at 18:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
mr. succ
LordToastReborn · 14 points · Posted at 19:21:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's called meme man
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/meme-man
TacoOverlord69 · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the mann
LordToastReborn · 5 points · Posted at 19:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's called meme man
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/meme-man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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NeedleInABeetle · 7 points · Posted at 17:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk man, I'm a normie. Saw somewhere someone referring to him that way so I used it. No idea what's his real name, but you got it, thats the point
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, his name is dyslexic mannequin now. Well done.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 18:14:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meme man
York93 · 10 points · Posted at 15:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*less air
Kryomaani · 9 points · Posted at 19:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But consider where the air comes from: First, you inhale to fill your lungs, then you close you mouth and then you push air into your mouth from your lungs. Try as you might, you can't suck in air with your mouth alone, you can't puff your cheeks out without exhaling from your lungs.
Ultimately you have the exact same amount of air inside your body, but now a small part of it is inside your mouth where it achieves nothing, unlike in your lungs, where your alveoli can keep transferring the oxygen into your bloodstream until the air is entirely devoid of it, allowing you to remain underwater longer.
Strottman · 14 points · Posted at 19:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inhale with your nose until you can't anymore, then shunt some into your cheeks, then inhale a bit more through your nose. Chest feels like it's about to explode but that's the price you pay for optimal dive times.
rabicanwoosley · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wow! you're right
IaniteThePirate · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but kids don't think that far through. When I was younger I definitely thought I was getting extra air by doing that.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do that! Even I don’t understand why I do it. I never noticed it until somebody pointed it out. For some reason, when I go underwater, I just can’t not do it! No matter how hard I try! I guess I’m just used to it.
Hahonryuu · 8 points · Posted at 19:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did it as a kid because I saw cartoons do it. Cartoons did it to show visual representation that they were holding their breath and would not be able to breath if the air was let out. If they were just sitting there looking normal, it wouldn't be as obvious that they were not breathing since, unless tired from sprinting or if they are snoring while sleeping, breathing is not typically animated.
I have 0 evidence but fully believe this is why everyone does it irl, whether they know it or not.
e_007 · 3 points · Posted at 18:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deagol for ultimate underwater cheek puffs
shimpopo · 3 points · Posted at 18:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always thought people are doing it because charecters at movies/series are doing it
b-tchlasagna · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was learning swimming that’s how they taught it when going underwater. Then I realized I didn’t have to do that but sometimes I still forget
Warthenak · 2 points · Posted at 18:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If i inflate the cheeks and lower my nose I can close my nostrils with my upper lip and no water gets into my nose which is kinda shit
ilessthan3math · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly! Plugs my nose without using my hands (only really important when swimming upside down, but still a nice upside).
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:39:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do it to ward off predators like I'm a pufferfish
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was younger I always thought the air in my cheeks was like the backup for when the air in my lungs runs out.
jaelakaren · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
omg i’ve done that since i was little it’s a habit lmao
wnashif · 2 points · Posted at 20:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn it Patricia
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 17:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people that plug there noses underwater and when they jump off the diving board
Nael5089 · 34 points · Posted at 17:55:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Must be nice to have never gotten a jet stream of water shot straight through your sinuses before.
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-popgoes · 7 points · Posted at 19:12:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or you plug your nose
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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N0V0w3ls · 7 points · Posted at 20:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't...empty your lungs, just let out a little air.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
whats wrong with that?
JumpedUpSparky · 6 points · Posted at 17:53:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 17:54:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when i dont plug my nose water gets into my nose and then into my ear and everything burns...
JumpedUpSparky · 5 points · Posted at 18:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weird. I mean I sometimes get a drop of water stuck in each ear, but my nose never bothered me.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isnt it normal to plug your nose? When I look around, only douche-bros do it... and grown up people mostly dont jump into the water where i live...
N0V0w3ls · 3 points · Posted at 20:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's definitely ways to keep water out of your nose without plugging it. It's keeping the air pressure steady and either staying right side up, or breathing out if you turn upside down. It's generally thought to be a children thing to have to hold your nose, but some people also just never learn and still do it or use nose plugs.
JumpedUpSparky · 2 points · Posted at 18:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a very American thing in my experience. I've only seen it IRL a handful of times.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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JumpedUpSparky · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that what reddit is? I mean it obviously wasn't a 1 on 1 conversation, but I don't think it was that strange of an exchange.
Fromoogiewithlove · 5 points · Posted at 17:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also people who plug their nose when they jump into water. If you breathe out on the way into the water no water will go up there. Its very simple
patna2 · 2 points · Posted at 18:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you inhale and store oxygenated air in your mouth, you can breathe the de oxygenated air from your nose and use the oxygenated air in your mouth.
Its probably not worth it but maybe itll help a little in life and death situations
FloppyFish000 · 2 points · Posted at 18:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
there's more air to hold. like you fill your lungs and then fill your cheeks with air, then when you feel your lungs you can exchange the air from your cheek and lungs. that's how it works for me anyways.
callmeAllyB · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a flat sort of face and it helps keep the cheap goggles from filling with water. (The kind used for snorkeling)
SpandauBarbute · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to do this as a kid, it felt like if I didn’t the water was going to leak into my nose. I remember that when I puffed my cheeks it felt like it created enough enough pressure to help with that sensation
MrBenSampson · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people are probably imitating cartoons.
arthurrick · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I swim and I do that when I'm swimming, it gives me more control of when to let the air out or not.
I understand that you mean when people are just under water doing nothing but thought of sharing this.
Nerfed_Nerfgun · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gives extra buoyancy.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
after you have no more air in lungs you can also get the inflated cheeks air, i don't think this is anything plus but, i think thats why
averagehornybitch · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It allows you to have one more breath of air once you run out and you can last just a little longer
annnnnieT · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but does anyone else have vivid memories of legitimately breathing underwater? No? Just me? Okay.
FreakyStarrbies · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's because they got the idea from cartoons, comics or TV, and therefore, they think they are supposed to blow out their cheeks while holding their breath. When in reality, the reason they do it in cartoons, comics or TV is to emphasize the fact they are holding their breath.
ThomasMakapi · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I try to hold my breath for a long time, I usually end up "pseudo-breathing": pushing air out of my lungs into my cheeks and then back from my cheeks into my lungs. I think it helps me to feel like the lungs are functioning normally.
Elder_Cabbage · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it has always been a habit I couldn't break. I'm guessing I saw people do it at a young age and started to do it too. I understand that I don't need to inflate my cheeks when holding my breath but now it just happens automatically.
carpentervr · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Puffing my cheeks also puffs my lips, which then cover the openings to my nostrils. LOOK MA NO HANDS.
TheyUsedToCallMeJack · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do.
I can’t explain it, it’s automatic, and I feel it’s harder to hold the breath without doing it because I’m going against my body’s natural movement.
BrilliantBanjo · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I inflate my cheeks when I am anxious.
Bridgebrain · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use it as a counter-pressure as I'm releasing air underwater. If my cheeks have to deflate, I'm out of outgoing air, and know the clock's now ticking on needing to get more. I get across most of a pool length doing this without taxing my lungs
HereIsNoukster · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, are we not supposed to do that??
279841 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You didnt have to just come at me like that???
Gongaloon · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, it's the whole "not holding your nose" thing. I do that, I drown. Other people do that, they're fine. Is there just some invisible nose plug technology I'm not aware of?
cmonsettledown · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you are running out of air, you can pull from your reserve air (air stored in your cheek pockets)
18yearoldmicrowave · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did this when I was younger, I saw a bunch of people around me do that so I thought they were keeping extra air in their cheeks. I later started to see people not inflate their cheeks and did an experiment and realized inflating my cheeks did nothing.
ndhdnhd · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait I do that but it’s so uncomfortable so I’ll stop if you tell me why/how
ptword · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I plead guilty. I used to do this when I was younger lol.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are probably assuming their cheeks can hold an extra round of inhalation.
queenelizaqeth · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My logic used to be, it was like an air reserve. So incase I ran out of air in my lungs, I’d use the air in my mouth. I still catch myself doing it out of habit.
agenteb27 · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which cheeks
the-bari-best · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend does it because she thinks it's cute, and to be honest it kind of is. Looks cartoon-esque
ShadowZealot11 · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve noticed that when I do it it helps keep water from getting into my nose. (I know how to keep it out using air, but it seems to make it easier. And I only do it upon initial submersion, then I blow it all out. No idea why though.)
Zyluki · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do it because that's a little bit of extra air and holding all of that in my chest is uncomfortable and takes unnecessary effort
Mad_Maddin · 0 points · Posted at 17:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is easier for me to slowly breathe out that way and you have to breath out slowly while swimming underwater.
mattycmckee · 0 points · Posted at 19:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflating your cheeks can also activate the valsalva maneuver which can actually help performance in a number of ways, so while it’s still useless in the act of only holding your breath, it’s helpful in other ways.
Zumbah · 0 points · Posted at 19:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can bring the air from your cheeks into your lungs for more oxygen. Try it its cool.
Qbitch7 · 0 points · Posted at 19:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people who hold their nose when going into water... How TF.?
Hiking-Biking-Viking · 0 points · Posted at 20:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this. I take a deep breath and my inflating my cheeks I can store a little bit more, meaning I can go slightly faster going up for air a little later.
TheyKilledKennyAgain · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Habit
i_like_sp1ce · -1 points · Posted at 18:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been underwater thousands of times and never seen that one.
Maybe I'm not looking hard enough, will watch for this on my next scuba or snorkeling trip.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 18:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Shirley_Taint · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You must be a bad swimmer
Emperor_Cartagia · 9045 points · Posted at 14:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who refuse to change their beliefs and opinions when confronted with rock solid evidence to the contrary.
660trail · 2521 points · Posted at 14:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They often don't want to look stupid or lose face.
DepressedBeanSoup · 1888 points · Posted at 14:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers and Flat Earthers are sweating right now
[deleted] · 1342 points · Posted at 15:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also the 5G, fake virus guys
KingOfTheCouch13 · 658 points · Posted at 17:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally can't wait to see all these people using 5g devices like 4 years from now.
silent_christ29 · 31 points · Posted at 19:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bold of you to assume we're gonna get past 2020
KingOfTheCouch13 · 6 points · Posted at 20:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You actually have me there 😂
phunkydroid · 26 points · Posted at 19:05:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It won't take that long.
KingOfTheCouch13 · 28 points · Posted at 19:23:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It'll probably take that long for 5G to be both the main wireless signal and for OEMs to stop producing solely 4G phones. Could take even longer for these people to be forced into 5G assuming they hold onto their 4G phones for several years after the fact.
OrangeOakie · 19 points · Posted at 19:39:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
rofl... and here I am still on 3G
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol, how?
Didn't all/most of the service providers force people to upgrade to 4g? Thats what happened to me.
OrangeOakie · 3 points · Posted at 22:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, older phone. It still states I'm using 3g
iamnewlegend47 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Using my iPhone 5S, got 3G at all times. 3Gang
iamnewlegend47 · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Using my iPhone 5S, got 3G at all times. 3Gang
OrangeOakie · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I raise you my original Siri, iPhone 4S
Trainguyrom · 1 points · Posted at 11:56:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What often happens is the service provider will say that you have to when in reality there's no technical limitation requiring it. My suspicion is that the people up top create rumors that they'll be switching off the older generation service to encourage store reps (who, by the way, make commission off of store sales) to pass on that rumor as a reason to upgrade, because the rep gets the sale and the rep gets to think they're doing the customer a favor by future-proofing them.
I will say that service providers have been making actual changes to their networks in recent times that do actually negatively impact paying customers, such as switching to only transmitting an LTE data signal in some regions and forcing those with phones not supporting Voice Over LTE (VoLTE) to buy new handsets (as well as requiring more certifications from manufacturers, potentially affecting handset prices)
I've also heard about one region losing all 3G coverage despite it being a very rural region that greatly benefitted from the extended range that 3G could operate at, and effectively cutting off a number of customers from receiving any service at all.
Shibbian · -38 points · Posted at 19:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok, let's accept your assumptions that 5g is not dangerous and that we will all be back in a normal world before two years.
Do you not see that you are taking a harsh view towards other people for believing that we should be less reliant on technology rather than continue the plunge into every conception of dystopia ever conceived?
BylvieBalvez · 24 points · Posted at 20:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is changing from 4G to 5G increasing our dependence on technology? It's just improving the technology we already have
KingOfTheCouch13 · 20 points · Posted at 20:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry man. You lost me right here.
Shibbian · -18 points · Posted at 21:00:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
your username says it all. here are some links in case you decide to care about yourself or loved ones:
Here is a pdf of an appeal by over 240 scientists: https://www.jrseco.com/wp-content/uploads/2017-09-13-Scientist-Appeal-5G-Moratorium.pdf
An article from Scientific American: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/we-have-no-reason-to-believe-5g-is-safe/
Here are a few bills passed by states in US to start commissions to test the safety of this stuff because guess what: NO ONE HAS YET
https://trackbill.com/bill/massachusetts-house-bill-2885-an-act-establishing-a-commission-to-study-the-environmental-and-health-effects-of-evolving-5g-technology/1706836/
https://trackbill.com/bill/new-york-assembly-bill-8637-establishes-a-temporary-commission-to-study-the-environmental-and-health-effects-of-evolving-5g-technology/1769430/
https://trackbill.com/bill/hawaii-senate-bill-2460-5g-technology-deployment-health-hazards/1848607/
4rch1t3ct · 9 points · Posted at 21:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your PDF appeal is from three years ago and they were requesting that it be studied.
The Scientific American article is an opinion piece from someone who's entire career has been dependent on fear mongering wireless technology.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 6 points · Posted at 21:54:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I have yet to see a good source for '5g bad'
haloguysm1th · 0 points · Posted at 22:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's from China not good old US of A so those gosh darn Chinese just can't be trusted. /s
poerisija · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blog section of scientific american, my favourite source for good research.
Shibbian · -10 points · Posted at 22:24:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ya, nothing has changed
Sorry bud, that piece was written by Dr. Joel Moskowitz from UC Berkeley School of Public Health
4rch1t3ct · 6 points · Posted at 22:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know who it was written by. I looked into that article last week. The man has also spent more than 30 years claiming wireless technology is harmful and even after hundreds of studies have shown there is no conclusive evidence.
You are also ignoring that the article says opinion right at the top. If he had proof it would have been a full article from the staff and not an opinion piece.
JBSquared · 11 points · Posted at 20:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand people who don't want 5G implemented because of security concerns. I know there's quite a few 5G towers being set up by Chinese companies.
I don't understand people who don't want 5G implemented because "we'll become more reliant on technology" or "it isn't safe". 5G isn't going to make us more reliant on technology. It's a faster iteration on 4G. We're already reliant on our phones, 5G will just speed things up.
It's also not dangerous. What does that even mean? It can't spread COVID-19. You'd have to be beaming extremely concentrated RF waves directly at your head for hours a day to experience any negative effects.
Shibbian · -3 points · Posted at 20:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i'm not saying its connected to covid or anything like that. The point you raise about extremely concentrated waves directly at our heads touches on what I mean to discuss.
They have been installing 5g boxes everywhere while everyone is quarantined, you might already have them in your neighborhood. We will be submerged in more concentrated waves than ever before and this is not a conspiracy theory, this is their marketing campaign.
Here is a pdf of an appeal by over 240 scientists: https://www.jrseco.com/wp-content/uploads/2017-09-13-Scientist-Appeal-5G-Moratorium.pdf
An article from Scientific American: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/we-have-no-reason-to-believe-5g-is-safe/
Here are a few bills passed by states in US to start commissions to test the safety of this stuff because guess what: NO ONE HAS YET
https://trackbill.com/bill/massachusetts-house-bill-2885-an-act-establishing-a-commission-to-study-the-environmental-and-health-effects-of-evolving-5g-technology/1706836/
https://trackbill.com/bill/new-york-assembly-bill-8637-establishes-a-temporary-commission-to-study-the-environmental-and-health-effects-of-evolving-5g-technology/1769430/
https://trackbill.com/bill/hawaii-senate-bill-2460-5g-technology-deployment-health-hazards/1848607/
4rch1t3ct · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said this on your other post as well. Adding here for visibility.
Your PDF appeal is from three years ago and they were requesting that it be studied.
The Scientific American article is an opinion piece from someone who's entire career has been dependent on fear mongering wireless technology.
Shibbian · -1 points · Posted at 22:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then i'll reply again here for visibility:
ya, nothing has changed
Sorry bud, that piece was written by Dr. Joel Moskowitz from UC Berkeley School of Public Health
4rch1t3ct · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I know who it was written by. I looked into that article last week. The man has also spent more than 30 years claiming wireless technology is harmful and even after hundreds of studies have shown there is no conclusive evidence.
You are also ignoring that the article says opinion right at the top. If he had proof it would have been a full article from the staff and not an opinion piece.
ZubatCountry · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you not see how baseless that claim is, and that simply changing from 4G to 5G isn't going to make people tech reliant?
Also you people have existed since the beginning of time. You're the same type of person that would have wrote letters about how the human body can't exceed 35 miles without severe trauma, and how dangerous these new locomotives will be without any evidence to base it on.
Shibbian · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you people? so wait, we're not talking about whether or not technology should be tested before its implemented? we're hurling insults at shadows now? come on man, we may not agree but wtf is that?
4rch1t3ct · 3 points · Posted at 21:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not dangerous. It's non ionizing radiation. The only thing it could do is heat your cells. But you would have to be standing next to an extremely high power source for an extended period of time. 5g towers don't push that much power. Significantly less than 4g in fact. So if you think 5g is bad you should be shitting your pants over 4g. 4g has been around a while now and it isn't causing mass bouts of medical issues, so why would 5g?
Shibbian · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how do you know that all of the wireless frequencies we're swimming in aren't what's behind the ever growing number of people with various cancers? all i'm saying is there are reasons to be skeptical especially when they have admitted that they haven't even tested the shit themselves.
if you're willing to at least read about the source of some of these concerns, here is a good link:
https://www.shieldyourbody.com/2017/10/5g-health-risks/
4rch1t3ct · 4 points · Posted at 22:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because it's non ionizing radiation. It doesn't have the ability to strip electrons from your atoms which is how ionizing radiation causes cancer. It's from a completely different part of the electromagnetic spectrum.
As for there being more cases of cancer, that can simply be because of advances in medical science that allow cancer to be diagnosed more accurately.
Edit: I read that article and while there is some accurate information in it, it makes multiple false claims. Such as, stating that it could alter your DNA. It can't for reasons stated above. They don't mention a single time that it is non ionizing or that there is a difference between ionizing and non ionizing radiation. The author of that article lacks fundamental understanding of radiation and has taken the quoted studies out of context. They are also using studies over 40 years old.
They also claim millimeter wave radiation has been weaponized. That's only partially true as I wouldn't consider a completely non lethal crowd control device to be a weapon. It uses concentrated non ionizing radiation to heat your skin. Which is just annoying and used to disperse large groups of people. It doesn't damage you and it doesn't cause cancer. Again because it is non ionizing.
clio44 · 7 points · Posted at 20:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it happens every time a few frequency is introduced so we get to watch the idiocy happen again every few years. It's amazing really. I bet it's a conspiracy by the people who make tin foil
scarfarce · 5 points · Posted at 09:32:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cool. Big Tin Foil. Now there's a conspiracy I can get behind
SOwED · 5 points · Posted at 19:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That one's great, because unlike antivaxx where they can say "oh well millions and millions of kids are vaccinated with no I'll effect, but mine would certainly get autism", 5G haters are going to be living in the waves soon enough, every moment of their lives proving them wrong.
HereticalCatPope · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
6G..... that’s going to be a rough one.
Distempa · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like they're using 4G now
Cassper88 · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mate was saying that 5G is dangerous, then goes to say he's downloading Red dead 2 on his phones hot-spot which is 5G.
I don't think he truly believes it he just likes conspiracies
CouncilmanRickPrime · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then they'll say the gubment made them do it!
khaste · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
6g omg!!!!!
KickToTheRibs · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They'll just use the excuse that "Corona has been cured/beaten so 5G isn't harmful anymore".
DepressedBeanSoup · 63 points · Posted at 15:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao yep I have come to the conclusion that this world is full of dumbasses...
Kraggen · 15 points · Posted at 19:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of how stupid the average person is, and realize that half of them are stupider than that. - George Carlin
SOwED · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then realize that all those people have the same one vote.
siirka · 5 points · Posted at 19:58:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless they’re from a rural, poorly educated, low pop state in which case their vote is worth more than yours! Yay electoral college
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe democracy is a bad idea.
S_Pyth · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, just how America decided to do it. Anyway
The definition of democracy is a form of government in which the common people hold political power and can rule either directly or through elected representatives
So if I read it correctly, the people make the decisions, though I may be wrong with that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democracy is simply mob rule. You can’t honestly believe that “the common folk” have any sort of real political power outside of violent uprising.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about state elections?
Kraggen · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which, per the guy below, doesn’t really count anyways and even if they do live in a rural state the private electoral college votes are big enough to swing decisions regardless because, yes, some individuals and small groups have additional private electoral college votes.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
State elections don't have an electoral college to my knowledge
Muffin_man17 · 5 points · Posted at 19:22:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something that's crazy to think about, half of people in the world are under average IQ.
SileNce5k · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I am one of them :(
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Concentrated in Africa and the Middle East.
OmarLoves07 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By population distribution?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Average IQ in those regions are particularly low relative to East Asian and European countries.
OmarLoves07 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know who Sam Harris is?
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:36:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I do, and I think his assertions about IQ are incorrect. Molyneux is better on the topic. Sam is hindered by his political leanings.
OmarLoves07 · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you hold his assertions? I also don’t think Sam Harris is obviously leaning in any way politically.
Just as a footnote, I think Sam is a very interesting guy and I’m more just interested in why you stated your initial comment.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s just important to know where that bottom 50th percentile is geographically. Demography is destiny.
OmarLoves07 · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why’s it important?
Are you an engineer?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why wouldn't it be important? I'm a scientist.
OmarLoves07 · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could integrate a prejudice into someone’s views. Sam Harris may have read too much into the Bell Curve and ended up thinking certain demographics of the population were less intelligent that the others.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On average, that is correct.
ChewbaccasStylist · 3 points · Posted at 19:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It’s the human ego. It takes a higher level of self awareness to see it.
Also there is something weird about humans where people, especially in a group, seem to think people who confidently act like they know what they are doing are somehow more worthy of respect than those who actually know what they are doing.
So that reinforces for a lot of people that’s it not about being right or anything noble or honest, it’s about how other people perceive you.
I call it the Harvey Weinstein effect. Everybody knew what he was doing. He still had clout. He still had respect. He still had power. People wanted to work with him and be around him.
It was only after it became a public scandal did he become a pariah. The same people who wanted to court his favor suddenly didn’t want to be around him, even though they knew the whole time what he was.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 19:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 20:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And every Bernie supporter. See how that works?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:33:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 20:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it’s just not an argument.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 20:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie has been proven time and time again to be naked Marxist who know nothing about economics, history or human nature. Anyone who thinks he is a good leader and a good senator is denying rock solid evidence to the contrary.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really not.
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love when people make piss weak accusations on Bernie... as if Trump gives a fuck about history or human nature. As if he isn't a borderline Fascist wanting military parades, silencing critics, being hardcore divisive. And Bernie wanting universal health care (something other western countries have and enjoy) is what pins him as a communist? The dems definitely fucked this one up. Missed opportunity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, yes. The literal enslavement of the entire medical sector, wouldn’t that be great? If only Trump was as fascist as you think he is.
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We both know we can't get in a reasonable discussion about universal health care. Like, it's a fucking great thing, but in America it's actually a split issue? Mind boggling. Your big pharma makes billions from it's citizens not having sponsored health care.... citizens are in massive debts or life gets turned on its head due to medical issues ot costs... that doesn't happen in places like Australia. Nobody goes broke due to medical bills... nobody goes without due to medical costs. It's suppose to purely benefit the citizen, yet you believe the fear mongering by billionaires and choose against universal health care.... to the point you call it "communist"
Anyway, as I say there's no point us arguing. I think it's sad that America is so extremely divided that it actually has to decide between what it perceives as communism and fascism... when it's simply fear mongering and your citizens are under the thumb of elites, more so than other western nations. Genuinely sad. Solutions are deemed "commie" or "fascist". You got to admit, it's a pretty sad state to be in
80_firebird · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brother and his wife are antivax 5G conspiracy nuts. If you knew my brother you'd get it. He's always been one of those guys that isn't smart enough to understand how dumb he is, but he thinks he's smarter than everybody.
fromthewombofrevel · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand. Are people really acting like 5G is a doomsday weapon? It’s basically just more powerful, faster broadband, right?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, it holds huge security risks but it isn't the cause of the thousands of people dying right now. People just believe anything they read
fromthewombofrevel · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you.
3FootDuck · 2 points · Posted at 19:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5g, the thing that exists in fewer places than the virus
LegoC97 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of the loop. What's the 5G, fake virus thing?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People think the virus is fake and that 5g towers are getting people sick.
LegoC97 · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...Anything they’re basing that assumption off of?
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facebook
BlueberryTyrant · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mock us now, but when 5G conspiracy spits that nasty virus in your face, you’ll wish you had stocked up hoards of toilet paper.
/s
PHANTOM________ · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hint: They're all the same people.
fusrohdave · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re the same guys
Halvus_I · -1 points · Posted at 19:07:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue with 5G is that it IS going to be used as a massive spy mechanism. Soon IoT devices will come with 'free' 5G connections you cant turn off. Right now i keep my TV completely disconnected from the net because Samsung has no problems tossing ads at you. By 2030, TVs will automatically connect to the net, whether you want it or not.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The U.S government has been spying on it's people for years and no one seems to care so what can you fucking do at this point?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are naive to think you're not already being spied on. The more technology advances, the more it'll be common in everything. Some apps you download track more then you think, there will always a privacy problems with anything. 5g will just be another
Halvus_I · 0 points · Posted at 19:28:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You are being pointlessly nihilistic. The reason i point out the 5G problem is because up until that point we are in control of 'the point of demarcation' between our network and others.
5G will erase that. I assure you im quite aware of the current surveillance state. There are still mitigations available, 5G removes some of those.
TLDR: Privacy is multi-faceted, not binary
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not rejecting any moral beliefs. I realize how big of a security threat it can be. It literally picking between security or speed. But it is also barrier that will be passed now or in the future. Technology will always be moving forward.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If your hugging the tower then that's natural selection, but even wifi causes problems for long term use in some yet it will still be used. 5g is also just another radio frequency. The main thing is that 5g isn't what's killing thousands, it's the virus yet people are burning down towers.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there's not much known on the health reasons but there will be huge security concerns that will cause major problems. But as I told another guy, as technology moves forward, 5g will be needed. It's literally picking speed or security/maybe health.
FlowerEclipse · 5 points · Posted at 20:13:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think the coronavirus was made in a lab too.
CalculatedPerversion · -2 points · Posted at 22:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's solid evidence it wasn't?
FlowerEclipse · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, just search it up and you can find people disproving it.
TheLamb_Sauce_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also Mormons
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amen
rad-dit · 0 points · Posted at 20:23:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump voters.
fendaar · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren’t though. That’s the problem.
Lildicky619 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers and Flat Earthers = Trump Supporters. No saving them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No theyre not. And that's the problem.
dakrax · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also the anti-gunners
coffedrank · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And reddit communists
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ThAt WAsn'T ReAl cOMMunIsm!!1!!!
Duckboy_Flaccidpus · 0 points · Posted at 22:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing about Anti-Vax is that people love to tare those people down, say they are wacky nut-jobs especially here on Reddit but I've never seen one article on any of the usual suspect sub-reddits pointing out definitively that vaccinations don't cause some of those more loathed conditions in young toddlers. In fact, there's wayyyy more peanut allergies now than 25 years ago and they think it's due to the plethora of vaccinations babies have. I mean, couldn't other conditions emerge when you are introducing a very young immune system to many, many inoculations in short period of time? I haven't taken a stance one way or another but I'd like to be educated..it seems there's more berating that educating.
RarakuHunter · 0 points · Posted at 23:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. My friends kids (16 and 14)both got a shot on the same visit and developed peanut allergies a month later. People say I'm crazy for suggesting it was the shot, but there is no other explanation.
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 16:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is in itself weird. Because they look stupid for clinging to their stupid idea. And I lose all respect for people who are absolutely unwilling to consider they could be wrong, so they lose face, too.
Daripuff · 22 points · Posted at 17:54:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the thing is, if they stand their ground and hold true to their beliefs, then they don't have to admit that they were wrong.
If they find a way to justify to themselves why you awe wrong, then it means that they were good and right.
If they accept their faults, and acknowledge that you're right, then that means that they were wrong, and wrong = bad.
They don't want to face the idea that they were dumb enough to have been wrong, so they convince themselves that you are.
660trail · 4 points · Posted at 16:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe a little stubborn as well. But you're right, they look stupid and lose face.
ChewbaccasStylist · 9 points · Posted at 19:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But they do look stupid and have lost face.
80_firebird · 7 points · Posted at 19:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They look more stupid by denying that they were wrong than they would by admitting that they were wrong and moving on with a new outlook on things.
It's a wise man who can admit when he's wrong.
PikpikTurnip · 4 points · Posted at 19:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that makes them fucking look stupid.
Leowong8225 · 4 points · Posted at 21:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then ironically look even more stupid for sticking with their guns.
GodplayGamer · 3 points · Posted at 21:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being afraid of losing face is the #1 way of losing face imo.
Geminii27 · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean... by being stubborn they're doing both.
Galaxy_Ranger_Bob · 2 points · Posted at 21:58:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet they successfully end up looking even more stupid and losing face for ignoring the proof before their eyes.
Sir_I_Exist · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Therein lies the paradox, because being wrong is understandable but deliberately choosing to be ignorant in the face of clear evidence clearly makes you look stupid
660trail · 1 points · Posted at 08:50:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people find it almost impossible to accept or admit that they're wrong. To them it may be humiliating.
MaygarRodub · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is ironic, as they look even more stupid if they refute blatant evidence.
Roadhog360 · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't denying evidence make them look MORE stupid than accepting it?
lincolnwasblack · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isnt losing face and looking stupid the same?
User2716057 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And because of that they look stupid and lose face.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's funny because most of the time my "evidence" isn't actually opposed to yours, and vice versa. We'd rather argue than think through any differences that often boil down to semantics. I think humans' greatest gift is [the complexity of] their language, might as well use that to see why rather than where we differ.
thebombwillexplode1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find that (most) intelligent people will change their opinion if presented with enough evidence, sources, etc.
660trail · 1 points · Posted at 08:49:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most intelligent people would believe that tosh in the first place.
DonkiestOfKongs · 1 points · Posted at 04:40:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also because sometimes their family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors believe the same wrong things, and deeply. So if they change their mind, they lose a lot of community.
StrangeCharmVote · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which counter intuitively causes them to look stupid, and lose face.
f_leaver · 1 points · Posted at 07:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sad irony is, they achieve the exact opposite by digging their heels in.
FightMilk888 · 1 points · Posted at 10:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not looking stupid as the motivation... I mean, the irony of that alone
liquor_for_breakfast · 1295 points · Posted at 14:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sunk cost fallacy
Keios80 · 1349 points · Posted at 18:33:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have spent too long explaining the sunk cost fallacy to people to be quitting now.
Ubersheep · 31 points · Posted at 19:05:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see what you did there
Barry_fookin_Allen · 9 points · Posted at 19:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please continue
JayGold · 30 points · Posted at 19:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just found out about the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon a few days ago, and now I keep hearing about it.
apparaatti · 10 points · Posted at 01:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just spent a week studying the Dunning-Kruger effect. Now I feel like I know less about it than when I started.
halborn · 2 points · Posted at 03:42:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Upvoted for joke accuracy.
TechKnowNathan · 5 points · Posted at 20:31:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh! I just read about that. What a coincidence!
Scholesie09 · 14 points · Posted at 19:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/oneliners
Fire2box · 3 points · Posted at 19:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone has their loops hosts and humans alike.
z0dz0d · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just had to go remember my password to upvote you here.
oz_caution · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha!
venividivci · 11 points · Posted at 19:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain to me how sunk cost fallcy applies here?
People are too entrenched in their believes that a change of belief is perceived as a loss? And the entire time believing something false is therefore a loss?
I don't really see how that connects very well with the sunk cost fallacy
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:24:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thats the connection
etal_etal · 9 points · Posted at 19:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I decided to reply to your comment, and even though I might get downvoted and maybe shouldn't have commented, I have invested enough energy in this comment to justify just leaving it here to myself.
AXLPendergast · 9 points · Posted at 19:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this with holding losing stocks too long
mayoayox · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's bad, get better.
the_buddhaverse · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/wallstreetbets is here for you
AXLPendergast · 4 points · Posted at 19:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Already subscribed. Told me to become a homosexual bear and go shit in the woods.
liquor_for_breakfast · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
betelgeux · 6 points · Posted at 19:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also backfire effect
Cfollett7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao dead on man
AXLPendergast · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought this had to do with something to do with flatulence. Was disappointed 😔
Frankokozzo21 · 3 points · Posted at 22:09:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At risk of sounding like a complete IYI, I would say this is more likely an example of ‘cognitive dissonance’.
Wavara · 3 points · Posted at 23:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes sense
"I spent so much energy defending this opinion, might as well keep doing it to make that effort worth it"
IrvingIV · 3 points · Posted at 00:01:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's why most people finish reading Homestuck.
Click below to learn more about Homestuck.
It's a story about kids being friends through the internet, meanwhile, a dispute over workplace dresscode occurs, resulting in the death of billions.
And you should start reading it, seeing as you're this far in.
liquor_for_breakfast · 2 points · Posted at 00:29:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goddammit... well played
Kilshok · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is essentially how Nicholas cage got his fortune. If I'm not mistaken he got paid an upwards of 15 or 20 million or some shit to play superman before Christopher reaves (I think) and even has headshots and shit in the superman costume.
But something happened and he was no longer playing the role but walked away with the money from the deal.
If This isn't correct I would love to hear the actual occurrence. But this is what sunk cost made me think of =/
Maciek300 · 3 points · Posted at 19:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sunk cost fallacy is actually about something else. The actual effect is called confirmation bias.
Finkrgh · 3 points · Posted at 20:54:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, this makes more sense
Maciek300 · 3 points · Posted at 21:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I also thought. Dowvoting me in this thread is some seriously ironic stuff.
I_AmTheGovernment · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both make sense depending on how you look at it
Maciek300 · 4 points · Posted at 21:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but sunk cost fallacy isn't about changing opinions per se. People are prone to stay with their opinions even if they formulated their opinion just a moment before. Changing opinions gives you a cognitive dissonance regardless of how recently you formulated them and cost of time you sunk into them.
doomgiver98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck? No it isn't.
Maciek300 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, it literally is. Have you read the articles?
RockYourOwnium · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was super interesting to read. Thanks for sharing.
ChnDragun · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or cognitive dissonance
blyssblack7 · 1 points · Posted at 14:04:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally the best explanation I've heard on this subject. Thank you for sharing.
rosegamm · 0 points · Posted at 19:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too lazy. ELI5
RIPelliott · 213 points · Posted at 17:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The answer to this is very very very rarely is the evidence actually rock solid to them. Sure, in your world it is. But in theirs it’s a conspiracy or your study was flawed in way X or my study actually disproved your study and a million other ways. I’d be willing to bet most the examples you’re thinking of that’s the case. Most people need a 20 year experienced scientist to drag them by the ballsack over to a microscope and explain shit for them to ever actually believe “rock solid” evidence.
Futuristocracy · 27 points · Posted at 18:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you're saying they need an edumacation?
JohnGenericDoe · 10 points · Posted at 20:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So a lack of critical thinking, dressed up as critical thinking.
Ray_adverb12 · 6 points · Posted at 20:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a result of anti-intellectualism over many decades.
iostream64 · 7 points · Posted at 18:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, conspiracy logic. THEY say x is rock solid; but THEY hold all the cards and have something to gain therefore THEY would say x is y despite x actually being z.
Emperor_Cartagia · 15 points · Posted at 18:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm taking about things like "JFK is dead, not secretly living in a private island in the Hawaiian chain".
We have video of him being shot in the head, Jackie O. covered in brains, autopsy pictures, the autopsy report, etc.
I consider conspiretards to be mentally ill, so they're halfway excused, but otherwise reasonable people?
If you'd accept video proof of dearth for, say, some random guy on the news, video proof should be enough for the death of anybody else too.
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[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's just sad.
FaIlSaFe12 · 4 points · Posted at 20:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's people who still want to say I have a choice in being trans when there's lots of proof showing I don't. I just... I give up.
Alpha_pro2019 · 21 points · Posted at 18:24:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its just some people have different concepts of "rock solid evidence" depending on what they believe. It can get really philosophical, like, what is real? You believe that this liquid will change colors depending on what it touches. This has happened everytime. It turns pink when it touches calcium, so you see that as rock solid evidence it will turn pink when it touches calcium. But, what if its a color changing liquid that just happens on coicedence to turn pink at the same time it hits calcium. Not because of the calcium, but just insane timing.
Honestly, read some Descartes. He was a philosopher and scientist when it began to spread that the universe was heliocentric. He thought, "Oh my God, if this whole time we thought the universe was geocentric, we thought we had evidence, but it was wrong. What else do we think we know for sure, but is false?"
Its some mind boggling stuff. And many people, me included, have instances where we take our personal beliefs over "rock solid evidence" because we just trust them more in those cases.
patheticasthetic · 16 points · Posted at 15:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Used to be like this. Grew up in a household where being wrong, making mistakes and having a different view to my mother led to arguments and humiliation. Learnt to stubbornly defend my opinions and beliefs and learnt to stop when I realised not everyone will hold every mistake against you.
MediocRedditor · 34 points · Posted at 17:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is that for social issues the disagreement is generally not in the evidence but in the ramifications of that evidence.
Take gun control: there’s pretty solid evidence that if you just stopped selling them to the public at all and instituted mass buyback programs the number people who die by firearm would decrease. So this is rock solid evidence in support of strict gun control if you believe that the role of the government is public safety at any cost. But to the person you’re arguing with, the point is moot because they don’t hold the same fundamental view about the roles and rights of the government. So you just talk past each other and call each other idiots and look down on one another for no reason.
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 18:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This should be higher up.
It is very difficult to “convince” anyone you are “right” if you do not understand their fundamental values/worldview. That’s from where the whole walk a mile in their shoes concept stems.
They probably see a different angle.
If this happens to OP often, maybe they should consider changing their discussion tactics. People really do not respond well to feeling like the person browbeating them thinks they’re stupid/dumb/etc. for their beliefs.
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okletstrythisagain · -2 points · Posted at 19:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think this but now I think it’s really just as simple as being brainwashed by a narrative that masquerades as some sort of critical thinking. Firmly believing that all teenagers and college kids should carry concealed firearms is just irrational and should be rejected by nonsense immediately by any adult. Blaming the Obama admin for hurting the federal government’s response to Coronavirus, or choosing to believe in miracle cures while refusing to believe scientists isn’t really value based. They are just repeating what they were told, because they trust the wrong people and aren’t smart enough to understand what they are supporting.
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okletstrythisagain · -1 points · Posted at 22:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've seen plenty of people argue that high schools would be safer if the students had guns. We live in a world where a significant number of people believe in Qanon and the Flat Earth Society. Do you really think nobody believes in unrestricted gun access for 18 year olds?
But yes, it is an extreme and arguably hyperbolic example.
Here is a more reasonable one:
This could also be said for the people who believe "the Democrats want to take my guns away." There is no evidence of any political will for confiscation. Such a policy would be impossible to pass or implement. Yet many uncritically believe this as fact.
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okletstrythisagain · -3 points · Posted at 22:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This thread is about the position that a lot of people are too stupid to understand nuanced arguments. These people also are not going to have the critical thinking skills to understand that some things shouldn't be taken literally.
There are absolutely people who take all of that that literally. Furthermore there are absolutely people who aren't smart enough to understand anything figuratively or abstractly, which is my whole point.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure if you understand that what you're saying is that you didn't understand that that statement wasn't meant to be taken as literal........
Regardless, I think people should be above such basic rhetorical trickery and manipulation, and discuss the actual values and principals behind these issues rather than play 'gotcha' games like literalization or reduction.
Teabagger_Vance · 3 points · Posted at 05:39:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beto O Rourke, as a candidate running for the Democratic nomination for president, literally went on tv and said “hell yes we’re going to take your AR-15”.
Idk how much more apparent that is lol.
okletstrythisagain · 1 points · Posted at 07:55:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I forgot about that, fair point. However, the phenomenon I’m talking about was happing for many years, if not a decade prior.
Teabagger_Vance · 2 points · Posted at 08:12:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea you right.
CykoTom · 76 points · Posted at 16:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thing is 1) I'm stupid, so I do not trust myself to critically think through all the ramifications of 'rock solid evidence' when it's first presented. So I will never change my mind on an issue as soon as you present your evidence. Part of the process in figuring out if the evidence is rock solid is to try to attack it from every angle. And I'm not going to be able to do that in one sitting.
2) I don't know what real things have 'rock solid evidence'. There are some scientific things that have repeatable experiments, so those are rock solid. But all social issues do not have 'rock solid evidence'
chuckysnow · 10 points · Posted at 19:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might consider that whatever your predisposition is, does it rate better than the new evidence? In other words, have you given your current position the same scrutiny that you give to new evidence?
Too many people start from a false position, and unless the new evidence is Sooooo overwhelming, they won't change their original stance.
CykoTom · 3 points · Posted at 19:24:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can assure you that I try. I assume I'm wrong about everything. Especially this.
natsugrayerza · 17 points · Posted at 18:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree. Just because someone has good evidence doesn’t actually mean they’re right. You have to evaluate all the evidence from your side too, and critically examine theirs. There aren’t too many things that are obvious from the evidence.
Man_with_lions_head · 5 points · Posted at 19:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't consider this stupid at all. Probably one of the smartest things I've read.
Really, it's not about the speed to change your mind, but the ability to change your mind, I mean, I guess within reasonable time limits and study. But some people will not change their minds no matter what.
However, some things you just must accept the experts' rock solid evidence. For example, don't go to church right now. Tell that to some religious people. Or if you have cancer, do what the expert cancer doctor says. Steve Jobs died because he was an idiot and ate a fruit diet, probably given to him by Jenny McCarthy.
As far as your point #2, yes. Social science is pretty much a joke, as far as the "science" part goes. However, as far as the indoctrinating part of social science, and the rest of the grievance studies go in the university, that's pretty solid that they have their social and political agenda that they push over what little science there is. But science it ain't. See the Sokal affair
Here is another hoax regarding social "science."
CykoTom · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Steve jobs was 91 percent going to die anyway. I don't blame him for trying something funky when all science could say was 'we can keep you alive a few more months'. Pancreatic cancer is a bitch.
Man_with_lions_head · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know, that is not what I read, but it really doesn't matter too much, that's not what my point was. And if he did get the diet, it was probably from Jenny McCarthy. (that was the humor part of the post).
Issy1870 · 4 points · Posted at 19:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but the difference is you are open-minded enough to at least LOOK AND LISTEN to this new or different information and evaluate it. That makes you an intelligent person in my book.
TheLastKirin · 3 points · Posted at 18:50:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't sound stupid.
CykoTom · 3 points · Posted at 19:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As stupid as the average person. Which is fairly stupid.
TheLastKirin · 2 points · Posted at 03:33:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you're giving the average person too much credit.
Even recognizing you aren't prepared to instantly assess information is a step above the average person. Recognizing there are things you don't know, or that are beyond your understanding is the first step to gaining knowledge and a better understanding. This already puts you above average. I'm not saying this to butter your bread, I just genuinely appreciate seeing someone recognize this, because I know far too many people who can't recognize their shortcomings, and if you can't even do that, you will always be ignorant.
Being able to admit these things, not just to yourself but to others is a quality that should be admired. It's the kid that raises their hand in class to ask a "stupid" question that is eventually going to outpace the others.
CykoTom · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The average person does all those things just at different times. There are extreme examples, but thinking your above average generally is a good way to fuck your head. Everyone is stupid sometimes, and the average person is average.
This is a clever way to preserve skepticism, but it's also a clever way for me to defend not changing my opinions based on evidence until the evidence is overwhelming.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah especially when you think about how Science is a liar sometimes
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exboi · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going off in the first example, I think a lot of people in such a situation have accepted that they're wrong but just don't want to admit it. A lot of the time if you admit you're wrong you end up getting made fun of a ton and then feeling embarrassed. Nobody wants to go through that. Especially on the internet where people will be much harsher.
exboi · 6 points · Posted at 18:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate it when you’re in an argument but then a ton of smug idiots come join the opposing side bringing up a point that you’ve already addressed. Like is it really that hard to just listen to/read what I’ve already said before replying?
okletstrythisagain · 5 points · Posted at 19:36:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know your question was rhetorical, but many people are just parroting and might actually be unable to discuss a nuanced argument. Given recent events I think a lot of us are astonished at how dumb people are on average.
sarge21 · 13 points · Posted at 19:41:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just FYI, you and everyone else here most likely do this. You just think that only others do it.
It's a bias that affects us all.
Emperor_Cartagia · 3 points · Posted at 19:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know I do, but I also make specific efforts not to. I purposefully seek out contrary information, and play devils advocate with myself. I'll use tools like this to examine the arguments on each side.
I'm not an expert on most things, but I at least try not to believe incorrect things or things based on fallacious reasoning. I value being correct over what how I feel.
My issue is with those that don't.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people are actually trained to look up information from opposing sources to try to make the best of it, but I don't believe it is a natural process at all. It needs to be taught and trained.
ImperiousMage · 5 points · Posted at 18:27:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is just bizarre to me too. I’m a science educator and researcher in the area. The idea that you can have good evidence shown to you and say “not real” is incredible to me. What mental gymnastics are you doing to ignore reality? It’s legitimately insane to me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What area?
ImperiousMage · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a teacher I’m Bio/Chem/Physics. As a researcher I work broadly in the “Learning Sciences” but more specifically in educational technology, psychology, and online learning materials. I also collaborate with biology and chemistry post-secondary teaching and learning research.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what beliefs in your area of expertise do you see people having that they don't change?
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nova-bootstrap · 0 points · Posted at 01:20:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You honestly seem like a retarded pedant.
refreshing_username · 15 points · Posted at 14:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This kinda baffles me, too. Really highlights that humans are primarily emotional, not rational.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And maybe most importantly social.
Thoreau-ingLifeAway · 3 points · Posted at 22:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goes both ways. People can be just as big of assholes about being right, wholly convinced it is just pure rationality making them act like that.
warsavage32 · 5 points · Posted at 19:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes those people have built the foundations of their lives on those beliefs. They identify the person they are with those beliefs and opinions and so evidence to the contrary is viewed as an attack on who they are rather than simply how they feel or what they think. Religion and politics are great examples.
DuhSquatch · 4 points · Posted at 19:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been proven that if someone's ideas are contradicted with hard irrefutable evidence, they will typically double down on there flawed belief system.
mbinder · 4 points · Posted at 19:54:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not that simple. We all have different ways of seeing the world based on experience, belief, and bias. When we receive new information, we try to put it into our existing framework. If we can't fit it in, we might change our framework or reject that information off hand. When you hear something that doesn't fit into your science framework, you reject it or change it to fit your worldview. When someone else hears something from science, like that evolution exists, but they are from a religious background where they value tradition and religious figures, they reject it to fit their existing worldview.
You may think you aren't guilty of doing the same thing because you care about science, but every time you hear new information, seek out a certain source over another one, or discount someone else's views, you're doing the same thing. Your framework is just different. You have different values.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah usually people who assume others are ignoring evidence are themselves the narrow minded ones who can only see one view.
For example to theists, the existence of earth and humans is self evident evidence of the existence of God. Others do not see it that way at all.
Emperor_Cartagia · 0 points · Posted at 20:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but if one side of a debate has hundreds of years of scientific discovery, refinement of the theory over time, millions of individual pieces of evidence from different lines of investigation, and the other side has "nuh-uh, this book says no" it's not hard to say which side is more likely to be actually, literally correct.
mbinder · 4 points · Posted at 20:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You believe science is the way to know the truth. They believe faith is the way to know the truth. It's a difference in values. It's not that they think all science is wrong or bad, they just don't think it's the way to know things to be true or not.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mbinder · 2 points · Posted at 03:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't use the word retarded as a slur, please.
Emperor_Cartagia · 0 points · Posted at 21:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing is, science can be proven, you can repeat the experiments and get the same results. Its confirmable.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into.
Also this is why good politicians focus on the underlying values in a debate and not trying to convince a person on pure statistics.
skoolhouserock · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If that were true nobody would ever leave one religion for another (or leave religion altogether).
LeaveItToYourGoat · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a strange take. I’m no expert on the matter, but I’d imagine that most departures from religion are gradual disengagements on a personal-experience level rather than simply being “reasoned out” of it by some other party.
skoolhouserock · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily some other party, but it does happen.
Megan Phelps-Roper is a high profile example; left the Westboro Baptist Church after engaging with people on twitter, of all places.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think people reason themselves out of religion, I'm not sure you can really convince someone to do so.
edit: I didn't see that you posted an example, that's very interesting to know.
PoignantPlushGal · 3 points · Posted at 19:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad believes maggots grow out of meat. No, a fly didn't lay eggs on it, the meat spoiled and maggots were the magical result. We had a full on argument about it and I shoved scientific Google proof in his face and he still wouldn't give in.
That was the day I realized how special he is.
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol they thought that in the middle ages
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some thought that about bacterias until the mid-XIXth century when Pasteur disproved it
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 08:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
samsuh · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
omg. the opposite happened to me. someone was using the word "Mong" to call someone an idiot, and refused to believe that was a racist term. after solid evidence, they were convinced and said they didnt realize, and would stop using that term. i sat at my keyboard dumbfounded that someone would take evidence, and change their outlook and behavior based on new information.
GlacierWolf8Bit · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recommend Quinton Reviews's episode on the "Paul is Dead" theory. It explains why conspiracy theorists refuse to believe in rock solid evidence. In short, Quinton explains about the way a foundation is laid out for a scientific theory versus the way a foundation is laid out for a conspiracy theory like how a table is built. In essence, a scientific theory is laid out with the legs first and the surface after. Scientific theories often are decided on if there's enough evidence that supports it. Conspiracy theories are often laid out with the surface first and the legs after. Due to the structure of a conspiracy theory, conspiracy theorists will often try to find any evidence that proves their theories true. Both of these theories may take years to properly conclude. Thus, people don't want to look like idiots for having a theory they chase after for so long ultimately be disproven.
refcro_austex · 2 points · Posted at 19:14:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even the small children are prone to this. Someone did experiments with having kiss try (or refuse to try, more precisely) new foods. They make up their minds based on looks, smells, whatever, and then even if you get them to try it and they like it, they still maintain it's bad. Acceding you were wrong and someone else was right apparently carries some social cost that's greater than the new knowledge to the degree that it became innate in humans.
sarah_the_intern · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. Recently had a conversation with an old coworker who was convinced 5G was going to give us all cancer from radiation. She thinks we are exposed to too much radiation already from cell phones, computer screens, and WiFi. I showed her scientific papers about the difference between ionizing and non-ionizing radiation. She refused to listen to any of the research and just ended it with “I’m not hurting anyone, so it’s my right to say I still don’t like it.”
Exiled_Survivor · 2 points · Posted at 19:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cough cough Flat earthers cough cough
WriteBrainedJR · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called the backfire effect.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think if someone is trying to change your belief, someone is telling you that you are wrong. I think that is when people put a guard up or get defensive. If someone doesn't know me, it will be very unlikely that I could change his or her mind on a subject. However, if they get to know me and respect me first, and value my opinion, THAT is the opportunity to make an impact.
KlasVak · 2 points · Posted at 21:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people's beliefs are confronted directly and are proven to be unequivocally false, they often double down on their position.
Try using street epistemology. Just listen. Ask them why they believe what they believe until you get to the root of their belief. Then with a little luck, they will see the flaws in their own logic, and notice that they have no real reason to justify their beliefs.
Oh_boi_OwO · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad literally said that you can't possibly get coronavirus if you are a priest and I told him ,,that's not how it works'' and he just continued to say that if you believe you won't get it,you won't get it
Emperor_Cartagia · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My condolences.
B1gkong · 3 points · Posted at 15:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive Dissonance
BamboozleBird1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
belief perseverance
CockDaddyKaren · 2 points · Posted at 16:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No fun in admitting you're wrong.
AlanBradley12 · 1 points · Posted at 16:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I posted above but so THIS
Bejnamin · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the heat of the argument it can be difficult to just accept that you’re wrong but afterwards it’s just stupid to keep being wrong when you now know better
Fried_Cheesee · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the earth is a dinosaur
Halvus_I · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
check out epistemology for reasons why people do that.
zookind789 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entrenchment is a thing that exists.
blablabla12301 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explaining something to them is basically explaining something to a brick wall.
Doctor_Aphra · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“You know the problem with people? They only wanna hear what they already believe”
A depressed cartoon horse
Jagob5 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I am starting a conversation about something with someone and they bring a valid point up to change my opinion, I’ll listen. If we’ve been going at an argument for 10 mins and they finally decide to bring up a solid, irrefutable point that proved them right, I hate to admit I’m wrong.
bluesky220 · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a comfort/ security thing. If they rebuke their whole belief system the foundation of their entire world gets blown up
chuteboxhero · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive dissonance at its finest.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To me personally, it makes more sense that I’m right and the rest of the world is wrong
XxneomenixX · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its easy to understand. It might be because of culture and that someone has lived their whole lived convinced to belive in that god or theory. When you are in a community for beliving the same thing and when you throw your problemsat that thing and have something to feel safe about then of course you wont belive in facts. Im mostly talking about religion but if i take flat earthers it might be because they want to feel apart of something, a movement or to be with people they can understand.
paulregan1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some people there does not exist evidence that could change their mind about a particular issue. When you place an idea at the peak of your system of values, the acceptance of any evidence that is opposed to that idea will be perceived by your brain as bad for you. No one wants to ask the question "how can what I value most be completely wrong?" because that is a very unsettling position to be in.
HoltbyIsMyBae · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get this. We all have core beliefs. Often these are normal sometimes they can be harmful. I was raised in a conservative household. It was terrifying to think the reality and core beliefs I had built my world upon were wrong. My world will come crumbling down! My understanding of everything, my very self identity within relation to how I identify everything else - terrifying! But it didn't crumble. Life went on and I was better for it.
Imagine finding out that every time you were hugged, that was sexual assault. Period. Everyone knew except you. And now you have to face the fact that you have been terribly, terribly abused. You world goes upside down. What about all those times YOU hugged someone!! You unknowingly assaulted them too!
I think people who have had these experiences might be better at understanding why someone would rather do the mental gymnastics and be content with the cognitive dissonance than face the fact that they are wrong and all that implies.
wking1293 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
did you mean: conspiracy theorists
ihatethesidebar · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pride
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean? No one does this.
sonnendieb · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Changing the core belief of someone is extremely hard. For everyone.
Kevin_kjj · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I met my now wife she was like this, we would disagree about something and she would get extremely mad, and refuse to even consider it. I like 'arguing' albeit calmy, so I would wait for her to calm down and then continue, sometimes multiple times. A previous relationship had taught her that any disagreement was a 'fight' and that me saying she was wrong was an attack. It's taken some time but she's much more reasonable now, every once in awhile she reverts, but usually catches herself.
I think alot of people have similar experiences, and attribute being wrong to being dumb and therefore an insult. No one got everything right the first time, the only way to get it wrong is to not learn/grow from the experience.
ohyayepforsureyoubet · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the time they aren't refusing to change their "beliefs", they're refusing to change their identity/culture/emotions. That's much harder. Evidence can be the least of their concern.
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is most people though
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Emperor_Cartagia · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not talking about opinions, I'm talking about facts, like, "Albany is the capital city of New York State", or "Barack Obama was born in Hawaii".
Professor_Moustache · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a quote by NY Times reviewer James Poniewozik about Ken Burns' Vietnam War doc that always hits me in relation to this. I remember reading it and can't get it out of my head to this day. - "The saddest thing about this elegiac documentary may be the credit it extends its audience. “The Vietnam War” still holds out hope that we might learn from history, after presenting 18 hours of evidence to the contrary."
AhhhhYes · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So human beings?
pm_me_your_cobloaf · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favourite ever response to this was "well that's just the scientist's opinion!"
Neverthelilacqueen · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see that you have met a woman that I went to college with.
yeetboy · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend who believes all the aspartame conspiracy bullshit. We got into a bit of a battle over it on Facebook and I brought my wife into the conversation. She’s a dietitian with a PhD in food and nutrition and is a professor, and of course she backed me up. He continued to argue, and when I said something along the lines of “do you seriously think you know more about this than she does? She’s literally a doctor of food and nutrition and she’s telling you you’re flat out wrong” - his response was “yes, I know more than she does.” He’s a tucking labourer, I don’t know if he even graduated from high school, but he refused to acknowledge that a fucking doctor of food and nutrition could possibly know more than him about aspartame.
devilsappntdcounsil · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that the combination of reading the book "velvet elvis" and then later on learning about employment personality tests really helped me to understand that some people are naturally concrete thinkers and some people are more conceptual thinkers (although like sexuality, it is a sliding scale across a lot of different aspects so forgive my generalizations).
Concrete thinkers tend to look at the world as if it was a brick wall, where every piece of info is a brick in that wall, and removing a brick will cause the collapse of their wall and thus their foundational understanding because the different concepts are locked together.
Conceptual thinkers are more likely to create brick piles, where info is sorted and making new piles or reclassifying a brick into a different pile is much easier.
Society often supports the existence of concrete thinkers because they "do". They typically don't require much to be happy doing repetitive tasks. They only need structure and consistency. They can be intelligent, experienced, wealthy, good at science etc.
It seems as though (lacking recent resources, don't take my word for it) this is a hard wired aspect of someone's mind and likely out of their control for the most part to change.
For example, my high school ap chem teacher, also a Christian, after many years came to believe in evolution, but only in small changes within a species, but not evolution from one organism into a different organism. High school level chemistry, and being a chemistry teacher for that matter, is a very good place for a concrete thinker. I found that he struggles with newer concepts in the higher level chemistry theories I went on to learn, kinetics vs bohrs model of an atom for example.
Try not to get upset at them. What is easy for you might be difficult or impossible for them, just like being happy doing the exact same thing everyday for years might be difficult for you. Conceptual thinkers make changes to existing paradigms, and it will be the younger concrete thinker who will pick up on your "new rock solid evidence" and hold it as truth for their whole life, even as newer info emerges that expands our conceptualization of how that thing works.
And thanks to the following future comments, I'm sure I'll be changing my understanding of what I just said incorrectly as easy as moving a brick off this pile of bullshit! This is reddit after all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Emperor_Cartagia · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok...? I'm talking about People who think 5G causes cancers, are presented with the differences between ionizing and non-ionizing radiation, are thoroughly informed that 5G couldn't possibly cause cancer, and then keep saying it does.
That kind of holding onto belief or opinion that flies in the face of evidence.
Who said anything about abuse?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My bad I responded to the wrong thread.
Wotsmenameagain · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facts don’t change opinion.
wehttaml · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause if I admit I’m wrong about one thing, I’m opening myself up to the possibility that I could be wrong about a lot of things and my sole character trait is being right about everything
Meese_Man · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You cannot be reasoned out of a position you were not reasoned into
f0gax · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s an old saying: “you can’t reason someone out of a position they didn’t reason themselves into.”
Billy_The_Squid_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey look at me I used to be a conservative climate change denier and now I'm a socialist starting a STEM degree in September
KelleyK_CVT · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My grandmother recently told me that she is 79 so I won't be changing her mind on how terrible (she believes) marijuana is. I found that to be so sad. Not that she still wants to believe that marijuana is the gateway to being an absolute junkie and only absolute losers use it and the reason my mom didn't finish college is because she started smoking marijuana (she got pregnant with my sisters and then life got in the way of going back), but because she uses her age as an excuse for not listening to facts and basing her opinion on them.
Whoden · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. That was Hitler's reason for hating the jews.
ToasterStroupel · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got here too late, so you’ll probably never see this, but you’d be interested in the backfire effect.
AscendedViking7 · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that play Fallout 76. Yep. Those idiots are stubborn.
haysanatar · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone already mentioned 5g corona people.
Emperor_Cartagia · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Birtherism, science denial (dissent & competing hypotheses are one thing, outright denial... Isn't)...
HBPilot · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive dissonance
AceJoker589 · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Belief perseverance. People are weird creatures I guess
herstoryhistory · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason is that these beliefs and opinions fulfill an emotional need. Emotions tend to trump reason and logic.
GBHawk72 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So republicans?
pra_teek · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be like this. I would change my belief, but would never tell you that, and would argue till the end of time to prove my point even when I realised I am wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The truth is something that burns. It burns off dead wood. And people don't like having the dead wood burnt off, often because they're 95 percent dead wood. Jordan Peterson
IzzyfromScotia · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to trying to convince people that factory farming is bad and that maybe they shouldn't support it. They dig in deeper and never question anything.
jleVrt · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or they want to change the narrative.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
logic is not the only thing that builds up people's beliefs.A lot of times it is the emotions. Like if your very caring mother tells you something is right, then you don't want to find reasons, you just believe it that it is right.
This phenomenon is also common amongst other domains. e.g. big businessmen do not always look for logic to make a decision, but instead sometimes they go with there strong feeling.
I have also tried answering your question in the past and have comeup with the above understanding. I also use it in many situations in my life. When I cannot convince my mind to start working (logically even if I start tomorrow I'll be fine etc etc) I just start working on it because there is a feeling inside me that says that I have to start working right now, and that is good enough a reason even if logic does not back it.
brawnandbrain · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No such thing as rock solid evidence. Reality is fluid.
Nerdonis · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a coworker who has very strong views about things she knows nothing about and will insist she is right. I've pulled up sources for her on my phone disproving her stance and she's just muttered something non-committal and just kind of trailed off.
The worst part is that we are both auditors and fact check people FOR A LIVING and she is happy to just assume inane shit.
vinh_verb_ing · 12575 points · Posted at 16:37:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe 5G causes coronavirus.
ScravoNavarre · 5287 points · Posted at 18:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Saw some lady on our local news station's Facebook page going off about that.
"5G is 10,000 times the power of 4G!"
"Coronavirus has already caused testicle problems in men akin to high doses of radiation."
"I'm not going to reveal my sources. I did my research. Do your own."
longtermbrit · 4261 points · Posted at 19:17:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes, the standard approach of every scientist.
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Lyrifaun · 12 points · Posted at 22:22:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the Lientific Method oh my god
Captain_Crux · 3 points · Posted at 00:32:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is my new favorite phrase. Thank you.
fantastupido · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get it please help.
Terpeneaholic · 30 points · Posted at 20:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facebook scientist.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SailorRalph · 4 points · Posted at 23:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do we get these are armchairs BTW? My chair when I use Reddit typically has no arms, a hard back with no lumbar or neck support, a rigid seat with a hole in it, and to top it off it's always cold when I first sit down on it!
Qubeye · 19 points · Posted at 21:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called pier review. As in, I fucking threw all my research off a pier.
CoconutMeadow · 15 points · Posted at 20:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did her research which involved analysing testicles.
mr_birkenblatt · 18 points · Posted at 20:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well try to ask IEEE or ACM to read their articles for free...
lostboyz · 11 points · Posted at 21:29:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Email the author, 9/10 they'll be so excited you're asking about it and will give you the paper for free
Zatary · 17 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It feels so bad to be genuinely interested in a topic then realize I can’t read the paywalled articles anymore because I’m off campus for the rest of the year :/
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 21:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Zatary · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much, I had no idea this existed
AIQuantumChain · 6 points · Posted at 21:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It must feel great that most likely your tax dollars funded that research too!
SMF67 · 3 points · Posted at 22:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that the actual authors often get very little of the money, instead it goes to the publishing monopolies
jaredjeya · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try VPNing into your uni’s network?
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 6 points · Posted at 21:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was for mathematicians for a long time. Someone would post a problem in a public place, mathematicians would race each other to solve it, so when you discovered a break through, you would tell nobody and just use it to flex on other mathematicians with your faster solving techniques.
solepureskillz · 3 points · Posted at 21:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After just finishing “demon haunted world” by Carl Sagan, I cannot recommend enough for people to read (or listen to) that book. It is changing how I perceive the world, all for the better.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell do you think Einstein got so much done? When they asked to see his research papers, he told them to piss off.
Darkdiamondwolf · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
really#?
CouncilmanRickPrime · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol no I'm not serious
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone wants to be a scientist until it’s time to act like one and share the information they claim they researched.
Parang97 · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a scientist. TAKE MY DATA please read my papers. I've been stuck in this lab for months with no escape. Nobody reads my stuff. I'm running out of food.
Kowzorz · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's obvious just open your eyes!
YouAreUglyAF · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And voter.
TheSmallclanger · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll try it out for my next research paper, I won't tell you the results though, do it yourself!
tappytaps · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That peer-reviewed research with results that can be replicated is whack.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well they do paywall all the real research
Kaiser3130 · -1 points · Posted at 20:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it is very annoying to constantly find and send links but this does seem a little passive aggressive
makegoodchoicesok · 8 points · Posted at 21:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the point is that these should be links you already have on hand. Because it’s assumed you got this information from somewhere and didn’t just make it up on the spot
5G-FACT-FUCK · -13 points · Posted at 21:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G is dangerous. The measurements and standards that describe safe electro magnetic waves have not changed since the 1980's.
https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/we-have-no-reason-to-believe-5g-is-safe/?fbclid=IwAR17Ir-5sy1FTSKftMvuYmOfzuZjy0MNG1EhdfomTeRKSpHNF5QoIFF00K0
The telecommunications industry and their experts have accused many scientists who have researched the effects of cell phone radiation of "fear mongering" over the advent of wireless technology's 5G. Since much of our research is publicly-funded, we believe it is our ethical responsibility to inform the public about what the peer-reviewed scientific literature tells us about the health risks from wireless radiation.
The chairman of the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) recently announced through a press release that the commission will soon reaffirm the radio frequency radiation (RFR) exposure limits that the FCC adopted in the late 1990s. These limits are based upon a behavioral change in rats exposed to microwave radiation and were designed to protect us from short-term heating risks due to RFR exposure.
Yet, since the FCC adopted these limits based largely on research from the 1980s, the preponderance of peer-reviewed research, more than 500 studies, have found harmful biologic or health effects from exposure to RFR at intensities too low to cause significant heating.
Citing this large body of research, more than 240 scientists who have published peer-reviewed research on the biologic and health effects of nonionizing electromagnetic fields (EMF) signed the International EMF Scientist Appeal, which calls for stronger exposure limits. The appeal makes the following assertions:
“Numerous recent scientific publications have shown that EMF affects living organisms at levels well below most international and national guidelines. Effects include increased cancer risk, cellular stress, increase in harmful free radicals, genetic damages, structural and functional changes of the reproductive system, learning and memory deficits, neurological disorders, and negative impacts on general well-being in humans. Damage goes well beyond the human race, as there is growing evidence of harmful effects to both plant and animal life.”
The scientists who signed this appeal arguably constitute the majority of experts on the effects of nonionizing radiation. They have published more than 2,000 papers and letters on EMF in professional journals.
The FCC’s RFR exposure limits regulate the intensity of exposure, taking into account the frequency of the carrier waves, but ignore the signaling properties of the RFR. Along with the patterning and duration of exposures, certain characteristics of the signal (e.g., pulsing, polarization) increase the biologic and health impacts of the exposure. New exposure limits are needed which account for these differential effects. Moreover, these limits should be based on a biological effect, not a change in a laboratory rat’s behavior.
The World Health Organization's International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) classified RFR as "possibly carcinogenic to humans" in 2011. Last year, a $30 million study conducted by the U.S. National Toxicology Program (NTP) found “clear evidence” that two years of exposure to cell phone RFR increased cancer in male rats and damaged DNA in rats and mice of both sexes. The Ramazzini Institute in Italy replicated the key finding of the NTP using a different carrier frequency and much weaker exposure to cell phone radiation over the life of the rats.
Based upon the research published since 2011, including human and animal studies and mechanistic data, the IARC has recently prioritized RFR to be reviewed again in the next five years. Since many EMF scientists believe we now have sufficient evidence to consider RFR as either a probable or known human carcinogen, the IARC will likely upgrade the carcinogenic potential of RFR in the near future.
Nonetheless, without conducting a formal risk assessment or a systematic review of the research on RFR health effects, the FDA recently reaffirmed the FCC’s 1996 exposure limits in a letter to the FCC, stating that the agency had “concluded that no changes to the current standards are warranted at this time,” and that “NTP’s experimental findings should not be applied to human cell phone usage.” The letter stated that “the available scientific evidence to date does not support adverse health effects in humans due to exposures at or under the current limits.”
The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures.
Millimeter waves are mostly absorbed within a few millimeters of human skin and in the surface layers of the cornea. Short-term exposure can have adverse physiological effects in the peripheral nervous system, the immune system and the cardiovascular system. The research suggests that long-term exposure may pose health risks to the skin (e.g., melanoma), the eyes (e.g., ocular melanoma) and the testes (e.g., sterility).
Since 5G is a new technology, there is no research on health effects, so we are “flying blind” to quote a U.S. senator. However, we have considerable evidence about the harmful effects of 2G and 3G. Little is known the effects of exposure to 4G, a 10-year-old technology, because governments have been remiss in funding this research. Meanwhile, we are seeing increases in certain types of head and neck tumors in tumor registries, which may be at least partially attributable to the proliferation of cell phone radiation. These increases are consistent with results from case-control studies of tumor risk in heavy cell phone users.
5G will not replace 4G; it will accompany 4G for the near future and possibly over the long term. If there are synergistic effects from simultaneous exposures to multiple types of RFR, our overall risk of harm from RFR may increase substantially. Cancer is not the only risk as there is considerable evidence that RFR causes neurological disorders and reproductive harm, likely due to oxidative stress.
As a society, should we invest hundreds of billions of dollars deploying 5G, a cellular technology that requires the installation of 800,000 or more new cell antenna sites in the U.S. close to where we live, work and play?
Instead, we should support the recommendations of the 250 scientists and medical doctors who signed the 5G Appeal that calls for an immediate moratorium on the deployment of 5G and demand that our government fund the research needed to adopt biologically based exposure limits that protect our health and safety.
gentlybeepingheart · 10 points · Posted at 22:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
bro you’re on reddit nobody is gonna read this shit lmao
NinjaruCatu · 14 points · Posted at 23:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read all that.....
Tl:DR for my post: The evidence that the risk from most sources of em radiation, including 5g, is effectively negligible on the human body, is greater than the evidence that it produces any appreciable level of detrimental effects.
I have been interested in science and technology for decades. I take time out of my busy day to learn by reading peer reviewed scientific literature, maybe 3 hours a day. I have read many studies on the effects of various sources of electromagnetic radiation on the human body.
The above poster is incorrect on many things, I'd say, on average, the whole wall of text is about 20% accurate.
notmyrealnam3 · 1893 points · Posted at 19:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“I’m not going to reveal my sources” is universal in its meaning.
ScravoNavarre · 667 points · Posted at 19:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, my reply to that thread was that "I did my research" is the trademark cry of someone who has never done actual research.
merpes · 421 points · Posted at 19:41:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Did my research" means "spent every minute of free time daily on YouTube and Facebook watching conspiracy videos."
WannaWaffle · 13 points · Posted at 20:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that's true. I did my research.
ReadThe1stAnd3rdLine · 5 points · Posted at 21:07:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/conspiracy is nowhere to be found
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:51:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or, “I found a crazy person who says what I’m thinking, now I know I’m correct.”
ilovenapkins420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
does it mean "i am ashamed of not doing any research any reasonable person would find to be credible"?
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 21:55:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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DutchBlob · 3 points · Posted at 22:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol that username
KimberlyRP · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great. Now what do I do?
CreativeAsFuuu · 25 points · Posted at 20:13:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While they plainly ignore the inconvenient fact that research is all about revealing the sources of your conclusion.
But I'm no scientist so wtf do I know I guess
CouncilmanRickPrime · 9 points · Posted at 21:19:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are afraid of posting the youtube video they got their info from, so people like me can't make them feel dumb for believing it.
The_Price_Is_Right_B · 7 points · Posted at 21:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every time I'm in some inane argument on Twitter and someone says "look it up" or "I've got my sources" I immediately chalk it up as a win.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 6 points · Posted at 21:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That or 'do your research.' Like no, you claim you did it. Now prove it.
The_Price_Is_Right_B · 3 points · Posted at 22:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's the one I was looking for instead of sources. It's infuriating but also, like, you just lost the argument haha.
Send_me_snoot_pics · 2 points · Posted at 01:54:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also see “educate yourself”
Dr_Silk · 9 points · Posted at 20:40:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I occasionally use this term (though I prefer "I've researched this") but I'm a scientist with a doctorate and I'm always happy to reveal sources and articles and often offer to go through them with people. Nobody has ever let me go past the first article
LouSputhole94 · 3 points · Posted at 14:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sure she did at least 15 minutes of hard core sleuthing on a Facebook Group called “Wake Up Sheeple to the 5G Pandemic”
Ehalon · 1 points · Posted at 07:57:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Should be one the Ten Stickied Rules to try and combat the sheer weight of utter bullshit on this site.
One can hope
JawnDaly · 5 points · Posted at 20:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never jeopardize the beans
qroga · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Breitbart and infowars
dipshitandahalf · -3 points · Posted at 21:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And CNN, and NBC, and New York Times, and...
PM_ME_WUTEVER · 15 points · Posted at 20:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think journalists and whistle blowers use this in a very different context from facebook conspiracy theorists.
Silverface_Esq · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same ones citing the US Constitution in the middle of traffic court as their defense to a speeding ticket.
dipshitandahalf · -1 points · Posted at 21:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except when they also tend to me making shut up. At least journalists do. We’ve seen countless examples of this in just this past year.
When they don’t give their source, you know they’re lying.
Cytosmarts · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Googling for a hour while sitting on the toilet is not research.
abnormica · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't know this was allowed. It's going to save me so much time at work!
dipshitandahalf · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s why when I see from an anonymous source from an article covering something political I immediately believe it’s made up, and 9 times out of 10 it turns out it was made up.
Bizoza9 · -1 points · Posted at 21:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is "that's fucking stupid and insane, I'll never believe that, I demand a source". That's kind of a reddit standard where they have no intent on accepting sources. The plan is always to nitpick sources that they don't agree with while blindly accepting sources they do agree with. Confirmation bias has ruined genuine conversation and fact checking.
AlphaBearMode · 0 points · Posted at 21:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also this applies to gossip.
“Yeah I heard such and such about you”
“Really, who said that?”
“Not going to reveal my sources”
“Okay then fuck off with the baseless accusation.”
Anonymity allows people to say whatever the fuck they want without being checked for accuracy. Same is true with shitty fucking “journalism” nowadays.
5G-FACT-FUCK · -7 points · Posted at 22:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
252 scientists from over 40 countries with 2000 peer reviewed papers between them are actively trying to get the WHO from creating a moratorium on the roll out of the 5G infrastructure until more experimentation is done on the effects to humans and other life forms on a cellular and more macroscopic level.
These are leaders in there field of EMF research and have many years between them of research, expertise and brilliance. We should listen to them, will you?
https://emfscientist.org/index.php/emf-scientist-appeal
TheGatesofLogic · 7 points · Posted at 22:49:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
250 scientists is a hilariously small number of researchers in comparison to the quantity of health physicists, medical physicists, and medical professionals rejecting these claims.
Numerous reports, including the EU’s official report on mmW dosimetry for regulatory investigation, have shown that there is no quantifiable biological effect of mmW radiation anywhere within existing regulatory power density limits on either internal or external organs. mmW have been shown To exponentially attenuate in biological material, depositing the majority of incident energy on the very surface layer of the skin or exposed tissue, and not transmitting significantly beyond that layer.
I say this as an actively working Radiation Effects Engineer.
BeccaaCat · 54 points · Posted at 19:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This makes me irrationally angry. Look Brenda, if you're trying to convince people that you're right then you've gotta put in a little bit of effort.
mayoayox · 19 points · Posted at 19:37:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I approach all this different types the same way.
"I really want to understand what you believe and why you believe it. If you have the desire and intention of changing the minds of me or anyone else here, heres a blueprint. I am open to hearing what you have to say but the ball is in your court now."
Usually that shuts them up.
BeccaaCat · 19 points · Posted at 19:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my experience it just makes them double down.
I had a "conversation" with an anti vaxxer who said she wouldn't show me any of her sources, I told her I really wanted to understand where she was coming from and she got angrier and told me that she'd spent hours and hours researching vaccines, she wasnt just going to give me that information, I have to go and do the work myself otherwise it's not fair.
Gave up after that.
mayoayox · 18 points · Posted at 20:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a Christian, like most of these people claim to be.
So I get a free pass when I say, "if you dont choose to have a conversation here, then you arent going to change anybody's mind. And if you are trying to advance the Kingdom, you're doing a terrible job and making an embarrassment of my Lord. So as a brother in Christ I admonish you to go home and get your case together. Otherwise, stop that."
KingXMoons · 14 points · Posted at 20:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"in the name of the lord fuck you"
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Pham1234 · 6 points · Posted at 21:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't homeopathy contain such a low concentration of whatever active ingredient is in there so that the "medicine" is essentially sugar water?
audigex · 5 points · Posted at 20:53:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No no no no no, back up there a second bucko.
That makes you rationally angry.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:14:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I HATE when they link that thing that googles it for you and goes, WAS THAT SO HARD
Like i want the direct link you actually used to get this information, not google
BeccaaCat · 11 points · Posted at 21:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? Give me a peer reviewed research study, I dont wanna look on "vaccinesaremadebythedevil.com"
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Phoenix_is_my_name_2 · 26 points · Posted at 19:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously. "Doing research" for most people begins and ends with a Google search.
SBASP1228 · 10 points · Posted at 19:34:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ha r a family member who is going on and on about conspiracies and the virus. She tells me to research it cause she has. Her research consists of google searches!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
EnglishHooligan · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WhatsApp for my fam
Johnyknowhow · 5 points · Posted at 20:34:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After scrolling past all of the truthful answers, because it's "at the top because that's what the government wants you to see", watching videos about "Truth of 5G", immediately clicking off them as soon as they mention debunking such a stupid belief because they "must be a state sponsored agent".
Looking up a debated topic and then purposefully chosing to not watch, listen to, or even consider one side of said debate isn't "doing your research". It's just fortifying your echo chamber.
pae913 · 19 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone tried pulling the “do your own research” thing on me for the same topic. I just walked away because there’s no having a decent debate with them. It’s their argument, they should be prepared to defend it themselves
4rch1t3ct · 15 points · Posted at 20:40:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol it uses less power than 4g. It just runs at a higher frequency so the waves don't propagate as far. Hence the need for more towers.
ScravoNavarre · 10 points · Posted at 20:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't you come at me with your "science" and your "facts," sweetie. I did my research. If you don't like it, don't post. This is my page.
chuby1tubby · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But higher frequency means more dangerous!
Wild__Gringo · 12 points · Posted at 20:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If someone tells me to do my research I usually assume they are lying.
It isn't that hard to copy a link or name a paper. You make a claim. You support it.
ScravoNavarre · 7 points · Posted at 20:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's just no use trying to explain the burden of proof to someone like this, unfortunately.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 21:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God, FUCK I hate people who hear the word 'radiation' and assume it's inherently harmful. BITCH, LIGHT IS RADIATION, RADIO IS RADIATION, AND EVEN IF YOU DON'T USE IT, THOSE RADIATIONS PASS RIGHT THROUGH YOU ALL THE TIME AND YOU'RE NO WORSE FOR WEAR! TAKE MIDDLE SCHOOL SCIENCE SOME TIME!
It's so basic, and it pisses me off so much all the same.
The_Stickup · 10 points · Posted at 19:39:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it's Facebook, what do you expect?
onmywaytocpa20 · 7 points · Posted at 20:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They all say “Do your research, I did my own.” They think that googling conspiracy theories is research. No method, no scientific method, no statistical population actually studied, nothing.
cutdownthere · 8 points · Posted at 20:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wut why when where how.
Ok but this is actually hilarious though. As if knowledge is a tangible finite number of things that you can treat like potatoes: "I found these, these are mine, go find your own!"
olde_greg · 6 points · Posted at 20:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What they mean is instead of reading academic journals they watched a few YouTube videos
oceansunset83 · 5 points · Posted at 20:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That seems to be the motto of anti-vaxxers.
dudettte · 4 points · Posted at 20:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i love how they call it “research”
Platypushat · 5 points · Posted at 21:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I want to do this next time I have to submit a school assignment. “I’m not including a bibliography! I did my research. Do your own!”
RoguePlanet1 · 3 points · Posted at 21:35:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
> "Coronavirus has already caused testicle problems in men akin to high doses of radiation."
> "I'm not going to reveal my sources. I did my research. Do your own."
He took lots of dick pics and wouldn't stop sending them until somebody responded with an article from the Babylon Bee about this.
helno · 5 points · Posted at 20:59:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm not going to argue with someone who spent 5 minutes on google."
I literally work with ionizing radiation for a living and have a background in RF you fucking moron.
ScumbagLady · 4 points · Posted at 20:35:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My SO installed a good number of 5G small cell towers. His nuts are just fine. Source: me!
dontdobuttstuff · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that’s what my mum says about vaccines 🤦♂️
ScravoNavarre · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm 99.9% positive, without even knowing the lady I mentioned, that she's an anti-vaxxer.
deeleyo · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who needs verifiable evidence based facts anyway?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One lady on my towns facebook page claimed that she had a source that was high up in the government
Like...no...no you dont
ScravoNavarre · 2 points · Posted at 21:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What, you mean high-ranking government officials don't divulge important life-altering secrets to small-town randos?
Marksideofthedoon · 5 points · Posted at 19:07:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol. 10k x the power. It's a lower frequency than LTE runs on.
adamhighdef · 22 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Erm, it isn't? The UK released 3.4 - 3.6 GHz for 5G, plus existing 4G bands being repurposed which are below 3.4Ghz. "Proper" 5G is in the milimeter band which is above 20 GHz. Power != Frequency, either.
sponge_welder · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Low band 5G is near the frequency of 4G. Mid band and high band are both higher frequencies than 4G, which means that they don't penetrate very well
mothzilla · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Journalistic integrity. I like it.
ScravoNavarre · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fortunately, she was just commenting.
Unfortunately, the news itself isn't much better, and their reporting and copy editing have seriously gone downhill.
marshchess · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm not going to reveal my sources. I did my research. Do your own."
Imagine telling the IB that.
jokesflyovermyheaed · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I wish 5g is 10000x as fast
WidowLicker37 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At my old job (Dental implant design consultancy), they took on a new guy who turned out to be an anti-vaxxer and against 5G.
And the guy was an engineer! Not even a theoretical mathematics guy or a business person, a fucking engineer!
The bloody guy knew how to do math on energy dissipation in titanium and bone, could talk about six-sigma, and knew exactly why titanium oseo-integrates with our bones, yet somehow couldn't put two and two together and apply the same basic logic to the rest of the world.
If it wasn't because the guy was dumb as a rock I would've thought he was pulling my leg.
Fuck I'm glad to be out of there.
VonCarzs · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:53 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Education has next to nothing to do with intelligence. Learning a subject in a school environment is all about effort not actual "smarts". I got a degree in physics and mechanical engineering and I'm an idiot.
NostraDavid · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G can go up to 300 Ghz (yes, that is not a typo! Ghz). 1/10,000 of that is 30 Mhz. 30Mhz is waaay below what 4G uses (2Ghz, depending on specifics)
So 5G is just 150x "the power" of 4G, whatever "the power" exactly means.
BeJeezus · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, her. I’ve met her 1,000x on Reddit.
4x49ers · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G operates between 24-68GHZ range.
Visible light, the stuff coming out of your phone or computer monitor allowing you to read this sentence, is between 300GHz and 30,000GHz.
That lady was probably dead before she finished typing at those ranges.
OptimalIntroduction9 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone told me once that talking on the phone while pumping gas can cause an explosion. I asked how? She replied phone batteries have been known to explode. Then I said maybe you think about that next time you put a phone to your face and when have you ever heard on the news of a gas station blowing up that wasn't caused by an actual bomb? I bet you think cars blow up too. People just don't even have common sense anymore.
5G-FACT-FUCK · -9 points · Posted at 21:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G is dangerous. The measurements and standards that describe safe electro magnetic waves have not changed since the 1980's.
https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/we-have-no-reason-to-believe-5g-is-safe/?fbclid=IwAR17Ir-5sy1FTSKftMvuYmOfzuZjy0MNG1EhdfomTeRKSpHNF5QoIFF00K0
The telecommunications industry and their experts have accused many scientists who have researched the effects of cell phone radiation of "fear mongering" over the advent of wireless technology's 5G. Since much of our research is publicly-funded, we believe it is our ethical responsibility to inform the public about what the peer-reviewed scientific literature tells us about the health risks from wireless radiation.
The chairman of the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) recently announced through a press release that the commission will soon reaffirm the radio frequency radiation (RFR) exposure limits that the FCC adopted in the late 1990s. These limits are based upon a behavioral change in rats exposed to microwave radiation and were designed to protect us from short-term heating risks due to RFR exposure.
Yet, since the FCC adopted these limits based largely on research from the 1980s, the preponderance of peer-reviewed research, more than 500 studies, have found harmful biologic or health effects from exposure to RFR at intensities too low to cause significant heating.
Citing this large body of research, more than 240 scientists who have published peer-reviewed research on the biologic and health effects of nonionizing electromagnetic fields (EMF) signed the International EMF Scientist Appeal, which calls for stronger exposure limits. The appeal makes the following assertions:
“Numerous recent scientific publications have shown that EMF affects living organisms at levels well below most international and national guidelines. Effects include increased cancer risk, cellular stress, increase in harmful free radicals, genetic damages, structural and functional changes of the reproductive system, learning and memory deficits, neurological disorders, and negative impacts on general well-being in humans. Damage goes well beyond the human race, as there is growing evidence of harmful effects to both plant and animal life.”
The scientists who signed this appeal arguably constitute the majority of experts on the effects of nonionizing radiation. They have published more than 2,000 papers and letters on EMF in professional journals.
The FCC’s RFR exposure limits regulate the intensity of exposure, taking into account the frequency of the carrier waves, but ignore the signaling properties of the RFR. Along with the patterning and duration of exposures, certain characteristics of the signal (e.g., pulsing, polarization) increase the biologic and health impacts of the exposure. New exposure limits are needed which account for these differential effects. Moreover, these limits should be based on a biological effect, not a change in a laboratory rat’s behavior.
The World Health Organization's International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) classified RFR as "possibly carcinogenic to humans" in 2011. Last year, a $30 million study conducted by the U.S. National Toxicology Program (NTP) found “clear evidence” that two years of exposure to cell phone RFR increased cancer in male rats and damaged DNA in rats and mice of both sexes. The Ramazzini Institute in Italy replicated the key finding of the NTP using a different carrier frequency and much weaker exposure to cell phone radiation over the life of the rats.
Based upon the research published since 2011, including human and animal studies and mechanistic data, the IARC has recently prioritized RFR to be reviewed again in the next five years. Since many EMF scientists believe we now have sufficient evidence to consider RFR as either a probable or known human carcinogen, the IARC will likely upgrade the carcinogenic potential of RFR in the near future.
Nonetheless, without conducting a formal risk assessment or a systematic review of the research on RFR health effects, the FDA recently reaffirmed the FCC’s 1996 exposure limits in a letter to the FCC, stating that the agency had “concluded that no changes to the current standards are warranted at this time,” and that “NTP’s experimental findings should not be applied to human cell phone usage.” The letter stated that “the available scientific evidence to date does not support adverse health effects in humans due to exposures at or under the current limits.”
The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures.
Millimeter waves are mostly absorbed within a few millimeters of human skin and in the surface layers of the cornea. Short-term exposure can have adverse physiological effects in the peripheral nervous system, the immune system and the cardiovascular system. The research suggests that long-term exposure may pose health risks to the skin (e.g., melanoma), the eyes (e.g., ocular melanoma) and the testes (e.g., sterility).
Since 5G is a new technology, there is no research on health effects, so we are “flying blind” to quote a U.S. senator. However, we have considerable evidence about the harmful effects of 2G and 3G. Little is known the effects of exposure to 4G, a 10-year-old technology, because governments have been remiss in funding this research. Meanwhile, we are seeing increases in certain types of head and neck tumors in tumor registries, which may be at least partially attributable to the proliferation of cell phone radiation. These increases are consistent with results from case-control studies of tumor risk in heavy cell phone users.
5G will not replace 4G; it will accompany 4G for the near future and possibly over the long term. If there are synergistic effects from simultaneous exposures to multiple types of RFR, our overall risk of harm from RFR may increase substantially. Cancer is not the only risk as there is considerable evidence that RFR causes neurological disorders and reproductive harm, likely due to oxidative stress.
As a society, should we invest hundreds of billions of dollars deploying 5G, a cellular technology that requires the installation of 800,000 or more new cell antenna sites in the U.S. close to where we live, work and play?
Instead, we should support the recommendations of the 250 scientists and medical doctors who signed the 5G Appeal that calls for an immediate moratorium on the deployment of 5G and demand that our government fund the research needed to adopt biologically based exposure limits that protect our health and safety.
ScravoNavarre · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kudos to you for linking lots of sources.
I don't have the scientific expertise to argue with any of it, though I certainly stand on the side of performing as much research and as many tests as needed in order to understand potential long-term effects of new technology or systems. Perhaps someone here has the knowledge and understanding I lack.
That said, if 5G really is dangerous, it's not because it has anything to do with the coronavirus, like the nutter I mentioned and countless other idiots seem to think. These people believe that 5G towers are somehow transmitting the virus, which just isn't how things work.
Crazed_Alchemist · 60 points · Posted at 18:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Can someone explain wtf 5G is?
edit: oh its mobile connection I'm so stupid
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[deleted] · 32 points · Posted at 19:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for this post. It will come in handy the next time my mom starts in in her bullshit.
Fuckmandatorysignin · 23 points · Posted at 20:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also remind your mom that this kind of misinformed outrage happened with:
the introduction of cell technology (Remember the millions of brain tumours next to the ear we were expecting)
the switch from analog to digital (similar shit to now - apparently lots of chronic sickness clusters around towers)
Influxive · 6 points · Posted at 23:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
My parents are still confident that iPhones cause cancer
And they also told me one Chinese guy owns all of 5G, which I can neither confirm nor deny
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:12:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Will do, but I fear her mind is made up.
steelbeamsdankmemes · 32 points · Posted at 19:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a new generation of mobile networks, like 3G, 4G.
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 20:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You think 5G causes the virus, wait until you hear what 6G does!
Ellie__1 · 12 points · Posted at 21:22:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh you see, 6G is just a wild Bill Gates kicking in your door and vaccinating all your kids. Yes, even little Jacklyynn.
Insert_Non_Sequitur · 4 points · Posted at 21:48:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MICROCHIPS!!
Spirited-Ritchie · 13 points · Posted at 19:15:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is 4G mobile connection on steroids. It is supposed to be faster, more reliable, and able to handle higher volumes of usage by a fairly decent margin.
Andrew8Everything · 10 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You'll know 5G when your phone has it because you can down/upload faster than you ever thought imaginable. AT&T's "5G evolution" is absolute bullshit, it's just 4G uncapped IIRC.
You have to be within a line of sight of a 5G antenna to use real 5G. It uses millimeter waves which do not penetrate walls (enough).
ijustwanttobejess · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you won't notice at all, because you were already getting 50/20 with 4G and doubling or even quadrupling that for most peoples' cell phone use makes no difference at all.
I'm not against 5G whatsoever, I just know what I have now, what I need, and know for sure that I don't need a 5G capable phone for the next couple of years at least.
OhHeckf · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't all EHF frequencies require line of sight? Hell, UHF barely penetrates metal/concrete/dirt.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally just a different wireless frequency that trades off coverage for speed. High tower counts are required to accommodate the reduction in range, but that ends up also helping with speed since there aren't as many subscribers per node.
Cell providers have successfully marketed the idea that this is going to be some sort of magical generational leap in technology. It's just a different frequency that will have more bandwidth as well as being less crowded.
nelsonbestcateu · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the upgraded version of 4g. Used for new cellular technology. Which basically means you can download stuff faster and the time it takes for 2 things to talk to eachother will be lower. It uses radio frequency same as 1g, 2g, 3g, 4g, fm radio, wifi just on a different frequency.
VTL_89 · 90 points · Posted at 18:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are (stupid) people that have to believe they are smarter than they are and this is their way. I’ve met people that don’t think any noteworthy event in history has ever happened without some type of conspiracy. Kobe’s helicopter crash? Bad weather? Pffft perfect cover up. If he crashed in good weather? Pffft you’re telling me a helicopter crashed in perfect conditions? There is absolutely nothing that isn’t a conspiracy and they cling to it for a desperate need to be “woke”. I’ve never met a smart person in my life that believes any of this shit, it’s always the kids that went to continuation high school.
_brainfog · 23 points · Posted at 19:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conspiracy is open ended and in a way that's more interesting to them and they feel special like only a small group know the truth so to speak. It's more boring (to them) to have a concrete explanation. Like, that's it? The open ended conspiracy can go on forever and because they don't understand science and evidence or they choose not to, they then cling to these conspiracies because it's all they can grasp and it makes them feel smarter. That's my theory anyway. I could go deeper as I've thought about this a lot, especially with smart people who have schizo or psychosis mental problems like they can understand other things that most people can't but then go off the deep end with certain subjects, like it doesn't add up. it's fascinating.
I_dont_bone_goats · 14 points · Posted at 20:34:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My go to response when someone brings up a conspiracy theory: “Wow, yeah, sounds like a really good James Patterson novel. You should send him that.”
Just because it’s the most interesting explanation doesn’t mean it’s right.
_brainfog · 3 points · Posted at 03:56:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s gold!
DramaOnDisplay · 19 points · Posted at 20:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think Kobe died because he knew about the Corona Virus before everyone else and was on his way to the White House to tell the President about it, but the Chinese took his helicopter down!
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 8 points · Posted at 21:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And you just cannot reason with these people. Any inconsistency or thing that doesn't make sense is just "that's them just gloating that they are getting the better of you".
ikverhaar · 7 points · Posted at 20:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, half of reddit believes the 2016 US elections were a conspiracy. Similarly, many believe the democrats primaries are a conspiracy. 99+% of reddit believes that Epstein's did not kill himself.
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ikverhaar · 2 points · Posted at 06:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like Epstein's suicide wasn't like other suicides...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people who commit suicide in prison don't do it while both guards are asleep, the cameras that point to their cell are mysteriously not working, whimper, yelp and struggle, do it off the top bunk of a bed that is shorter than they are and with enough force to break two bones that are usually only broken in strangulation, not hanging.
Oh and did I mention the bedsheets are like toilet paper?
ikverhaar · 1 points · Posted at 11:37:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And since so many people believe this conspiracy theory, the notion that "I've never met any smart person that believes in such theories" is completely ridiculous.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:53:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's be fair. One of those points alone is a conspiracy theory.
All of them is a fucking floodlight
bdonvr · 2 points · Posted at 23:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He didn't say nothing is a conspiracy, just that not everything is lmao
FatKanibal · 16 points · Posted at 19:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They think since it's a higher radio frequency it's interfering with people's immune system. I mean, I don't believe that but that's what they're getting at. Unintended consequences doesn't sound all that crazy but no, it's not causing Coronavirus.
Dukkellson · 3 points · Posted at 21:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just funny how visible light's frequency is much higher than 5g's
FatKanibal · 2 points · Posted at 19:32:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sunlight gives people skin cancer, I'm not seeing your point.
iampizzaprincess · 59 points · Posted at 19:01:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who does research in 5g.... I really cant comprehend where this logic comes from...
TBoarder · 50 points · Posted at 20:25:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're obviously doing the wrong kind of research. All of your sources should be like-minded conspiracy YouTube videos.
iampizzaprincess · 7 points · Posted at 20:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol totally
carolina8383 · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And mainly Facebook.
I_dont_bone_goats · 6 points · Posted at 20:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re clearly a part of the deep state. How much are they paying you, and every other professional, to keep the truth from us?
VERTIKAL19 · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is something that was starting at a conceivably similar timeframe and it is something I would say most people don't have a grasp on. Then you play into preconceived ideas of people (for example that the government is fucking them). That is how I would imagine.
That said there are much much more knowledgable people than me on the topic of why and how conspiracy theories work.
ImGrimm · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in telecoms and all our field engineers received an email recently regarding safety on our sites due to people destroying our equipment because of this 5g coronavirus conspiracy...
Crazy, crazy stuff!
PiousSlayer · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's your mistake. You use logic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since you do 5G research, any idea if it's looking like Nokia will be the lead dog in deployment since they seem to have the head start in the infrastructure?
iampizzaprincess · 2 points · Posted at 04:56:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhh I dont know I do specific stuff with error correction coding. I do know that Huawei > Qualcomm but everyone is l trying to decide on 5g standards and protocols
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aggressiveIT · -5 points · Posted at 20:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? I find them to be more resoured than anything
CaptainQuadmay · 5 points · Posted at 20:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I knew I wrote it wrong somehow. Looks like I’m retarted too ;)
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iampizzaprincess · 11 points · Posted at 19:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay fair but 4G LTE also permiates your body so with this logic why even use a cell phone or wifi? There are strict standards for what power you can broadcast at so that you are biologically harming people. Thats what I dont understand about that p.o.v.
Simon_Mendelssohn · 4 points · Posted at 19:50:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really know anything about this and have no idea if it's really dangerous but I did come across this article which at least seems to have some scientific facts behind it:
https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/we-have-no-reason-to-believe-5g-is-safe/
"The latest cellular technology, 5G, will employ millimeter waves for the first time in addition to microwaves that have been in use for older cellular technologies, 2G through 4G. Given limited reach, 5G will require cell antennas every 100 to 200 meters, exposing many people to millimeter wave radiation. 5G also employs new technologies (e.g., active antennas capable of beam-forming; phased arrays; massive multiple inputs and outputs, known as massive MIMO) which pose unique challenges for measuring exposures."
_00307 · 5 points · Posted at 20:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/electromagnetic-fields-and-public-health-mobile-phones
https://www.howtogeek.com/428337/not-all-5g-is-equal-millimeter-wave-low-band-and-mid-band-explained/
The article you linked doesnt even approach the main gist. No way "millimileter waves" is a danger.
We have had high frequency em waves at a power 1000x greater than 5g, running in every aircraft fro the last 60 years.
No way a 700hz 1 watt antennae will be more dangerous than the 10000hz 1000 watt antennae.
DroidChargers · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conspiracy theorists are gonna give a bad rep to anyone who is against 5G rollout for legitimate reasons. I really want health and telcom experts to do way more testing and research before they start rolling 5G out.
The article you shared does a good job of pointing out some potential risks. I believe that since everyone is so adamantly against these conspiracy theorists, they're gonna assume that people who are doing this sort of research are in the same boat and call them all loons. This is a regressive way of thinking and has bit the human race in the ass more than once.
Insert_Non_Sequitur · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, they actually have studied it's effects. How much more study would ease your mind though? I'm just curious because it's probably different for everyone!
BatteryPoweredBrain · 4 points · Posted at 20:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here is why these people are treated as retards. 5G is a standard, that is put together by a consortium of companies who have the technological know how to manufacture the equipment and what needs to be done to make things more efficient, faster, and better. They also have to comply with governments around the world, where every government has their own regulations on what is and isn't safe, and what tests need to be performed.
This takes time; it has been building since before 4G was released, just like 6G is already in the works and has been for some time. To comply with all of the requirements from all of the different governments around the world takes huge amounts of testing and validation. If any one government found a problem that would cause issues in humans, this would never see the light of day.
Additionally no company would ever want to be associated with a technology that caused cancer or a "virus". It would be financially devastating for them; even the consortium of companies who put it together would destroy them. Thus everyone takes extreme precautions to make sure things are safe.
Yes, in the past, companies rushed and pushed things to markets that were bad; but that is why the testing today exists. Because we learned from our mistakes.
Not everyone can be an expert in everything; and thus we have to realize that we have to trust that they are doing the right thing. This is NOT a new technology, it is a generational change from one to another. Not much different then upgrading your 2010 Honda to a 2020 Honda, it will have new features you didn't have before, it will work better, be more fuel efficient and safer; did you go through all of the research or do you trust that they did their homework and made sure that they complied with the safety standards and that the testing was actually done? No, generally you take them at their word. This is no different.
Trust the experts; it isn't an issue. IAmPizzaPrincess is obviously knowledgable; trust her opinion.
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Leksi20 · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can compare 5G to infrared radiation. IR is dozens of times more powerful than 5G and it's basically just heat
Insert_Non_Sequitur · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't wanna alarm you but there are radio waves going through your body all the time as it is. This same uproar happened with 4G. It happened with cell phones in general back when they started becoming mainstream. It happened with microwaves when those became household items. If people don't understand electromagnetic radiation... That's absolutely fine and doesn't make them stupid! Nobody in this world can understand everything after all. But that's no excuse to go around and make absolutely wild claims as "facts" and scaring the shit out of other people who don't understand how it works either.
Absolutely people should always be curious and dubious of how new technologies will affect us but when it's been studied and proven to not be harmful, that doesn't seem to stop the conspiracies at all. They are not willing to hear it.
reverseroot · 12 points · Posted at 20:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had someone on FB posting this, he is a typical Alex Jones nut, and he trusts me as an IT professional and I tagged like 8 people with various wireless and RF degrees and certs who explained it to him
He came to the light once someone he trusted brought professionals into the conversation
ikverhaar · 11 points · Posted at 20:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A) it's radiation at a higher frequency than 4g, so people fear it causes mutations and thus caused the virus in a bat to mutate to Sars-Cov2 as we know it.
B) COVID19 spreads faster in densely populated areas, for understandable reasons. 5g towers are mainly placed in densely populated areas, also for understandable reasons. Where there's correlation, people will think theres causation.
glockfreak · 3 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its microwaves, it would have to get into the terahertz past visible light and into UV to even begin to be ionizing radiation. Just because something can cause skin burns at close range (microwaves) does not mean it has enough energy to ionize your cells and mess with DNA. This has been common knowledge for decades.
ikverhaar · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Common knowledge among those with any sort of degree in physics, yes. Outside of that, organisations like Greenpeace have been really effective at selling the message that all radiation must be scary.
mcstrugs · 12 points · Posted at 20:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One article said that some kids cut the cables to a clinic because of 5G... they cut CABLES because of 5G... how stupid can people get?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was in my county. Little shits used an axe. So BT replaced them with armored cable.
SeedlessGrapes42 · 28 points · Posted at 19:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody told me they "know" that Hollywood is behind COVID-19 because (and I quote) "all the sci-fi movies have come true, so there's no way they didn't know about this years ago"
I don't know man; people are fucking dumb.
Yaintgotnotime · 16 points · Posted at 20:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About two weeks ago there were conspiracy theorists claiming it's a hoax because famous people in Hollywood were the first ones to be tested positive- "they're all hired actors!"
Like, rich people getting tested first is all kinds of fucked up, and that's what they decide complain?
KN0W1NG · 6 points · Posted at 20:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother and her entire side of the family think they'll use microchips in the vaccine for coronavirus, and then after that the government will turn on the 5G towers, instantly killing everyone with said microchip-vaccine remotely somehow.
julianhj · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are some absolute fuckwits here in the UK that have set fire to 5G cell masts because they’re too dumb to think for themselves. Shit like this makes me ashamed of my country on a regular basis.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sister is currently having her second baby with one of these mouth breathers. Stupid cunt thinks that the world is flat, I'm not joking...
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a lady tell me that they deliver Chinese food on boats to the US and that’s how people get Coronavirus here.
alaskagames · 4 points · Posted at 20:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s not that they think it causes corona, they think corona doesn’t exist and it’s a cover for the fact 5g is a way for the government to kill us off or something like that. it’s so stupid
PHANTOM________ · 4 points · Posted at 21:20:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think these are the same people that believe the earth is flat and refuse to give their children vaccines tho. They're pretty dumb lol. Most of them have the same clump of beliefs.
Source: literally worked with a couple who were both legit flat earthers. I thought they were joking at first but as time went on I know they were being serious. They then had a kid together and before she actually gave birth I was having a beer with the dad after work. I thought he was joking at first about his experience on how hard of a time hospitals and nurses gave them because they didn't want to vaccinate their kid on the way. They ended up having to go to some special birthing facility or do it at home or something. We all got laid off recently so I haven't heard from them but I 100% in my heart believe they also latched onto this new 5g coronavirus shit.
Andrew8Everything · 7 points · Posted at 19:32:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's disinformation and there will be A LOT OF IT leading up to the elections.
Basically it's propaganda designed to make you question your leaders and educators. ("what aren't they telling us?")
Mostly coming out of Russia and China, disinformation is designed to drive populations apart into this "us vs them" mentality that has been hyper-prevalent since about 2016.
blifford6669 · 3 points · Posted at 19:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is something I genuinely struggle with. What is the correlation between 5G and coronavirus in their minds? To me, analogically, it sounds like saying telephone wires cause the flu. I don’t get what is convincing them the two things are related. Is it because of the waves 5G receives and/or sends out? How would those create pathogens?
BatteryPoweredBrain · 5 points · Posted at 20:57:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The argument that people make is that 5G started rolling out in China right before the virus hit. Thus the radiation is causing the virus because they both happened about the same time. And that the roll out happened in China, and the first cases of the virus were in China that means that there has to be a correlation, right?
Well yes, that would be a correlation, but that doesn't mean it is a causation. Too many people don't know the difference between the two.
blifford6669 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahhh I see. Thank you for this!
SavannahInChicago · 3 points · Posted at 20:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are these the same people comparing themselves to Anne Frank?
I_dont_bone_goats · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love how none of my engineer, or telecom professional, or scientists friends have even mentioned it.
It’s all my rich and careless, idiotic, or drop out friends who post stuff like this daily.
melneth · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...like...the 5G phone thing??? What???
samwulfe · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone I work with referred to it as a bug and one of my bat shit crazy coworkers decided she would be safer drenching herself in bug spray to keep the virus away. I guess it worked because the smell is so terrible no one gets remotely close to her.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look, I am about to get a degree in electronics and know enough biology as a normal person should know
Any way, worst thing it could cause is cancer and that'd be about as much as having a router taped to your ass would
bdonvr · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it can't. It's non ionising. Worse thing that could happen is it might burn you. And that wouldn't be from a router more like sitting on a proper radio mast.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah exactly, taping a router is going to do jack shit--
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:58:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G is awful not talking side effects it’s just not good in general. It speeds are amazing because it’s 6 GHz but its reach is terrible. You put something between you and the tower and it’s even worse. You’d have to have towers literally everywhere for it to viable.
For people to understand easier the higher the GHz the faster the speed data can travel but the shorter the distance it can travel, 2.4Ghz travels further than 5Ghz but has slower speeds 5GHz has faster speeds but can’t travel as far. 6GHz has faster speeds than any of them but travels even shorter distance. 5G can barely travel 400FT and barely through walls LOL, 5G ain’t gonna cause no virus lol
theejohnPnom · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an example of "correlation does not imply causation"
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlation_does_not_imply_causation
borntoannoyAWildJowi · 7 points · Posted at 19:13:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People like that just have so little understanding of how modern technology works that it literally frightens them. When you don't understand something, it can be frightening.
Many people here in the U.S. are already hesitant to accept anything new or different, which only makes the problem worse.
Pawpaw54 · 8 points · Posted at 19:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people are stupid.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 18:51:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidity.
WATGU · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So wrong it's obviously the 19th china originating virus /s
luksonluke · 6 points · Posted at 19:25:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G is literally less dangerous than the sun lmao.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I can get a conspiracy behind 5g if its along the lines of digital privacy or some means of oppression via communication, but god fucking dammit a tower causing a virus is the dumbest thing ive ever heard.
rmprice222 · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm assuming you're just making a point, but people are really stupid.
nanonemau · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are the species that made a system to mesure intelligence but made a calculation error when creating it.... So yeah, don't expect too much...
Whallace · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this actually a thing!? I luckily haven't come across it yet.
CosmicOwl47 · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes a lot more sense depending on how long you believe the reptilians have been engineering humans.
Personally I think it’s obvious that reptilians have been around for eons and have been experimenting on us for thousands of years. These people who think they’re only just starting now with 5G must be a bit dim because that whole idea is just ridiculous.
Lordthom · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are setting telephone towers on fire in the netherlands....
taym117 · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought that was a joke ffs...
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The original theory was that a government made the virus, and that 5G going through someone’s body can mimic the symptoms of Corona virus so that people could die as a result of both from one excuse.
GameOfUsernames · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s so confusing because for that to be the case wouldn’t AT&T and Verizon need to be the biggest companies in the history of capitalism. For 5g they’re able to shut down almost every other business and force them into bankruptcy. Like Disney is losing boatloads of cash right now but they’re powerless to the might of Verizon and their agenda to put up more towers.
-ButteredNoodles- · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait, that’s an actual thing?
I thought it was just a goddamn meme
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or that it's a weapon, period. I mean i do understand it - people are fucking stupid.
But i don't UNDERSTAND it.
Themis3000 · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard people claim it weakens the immune system so it never would have started if it weren't for 5g
IDontKnowWhyImHereXD · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This... Is a thing? What?
sunnykarma · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s scary that people actually believe this shit. Really scary.
ThePr1d3 · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait people believe that ? How ? Like, how do you link a virus with a telecommunication system ?
Insert_Non_Sequitur · 2 points · Posted at 21:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just had a discussion on FB with someone about this today actually. I was open minded and willing to read/listen to his sources. Told him if he could provide any reputable evidence, that'd be good. He couldn't of course. Sent me a link to some 30 minute video of some religious kook who claimed to previously "work for Vodafone" or some shit. It was all really nutty talk and just the video-guy going "believe me, this is a fact!" but with nothing to back it up whatsoever.
I was just like... Dude... This is not proof of anything. Its just some guy talking with no sources for anything he's claiming at all. I could make a similar video right now claiming everything I say is "facts" but it doesn't make what I'm saying true.
He said I was stubborn and not willing to have my mind changed.
Rielglowballelleit · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, you tried and thats good
Baityboy · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had an older former friend post on Facebook about the dangers of 5G giving you corona... I should have left it.
LethalSalad · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are retarded. I saw an article about it once on the news, and they asked an anti-5G person what she'd rather have: An hour of full sun contact at 40 C, or live with a 5G mast closeby. She answered the sun, because 'the sun brings life, while radiation only brings death.'. (translation, radio waves and radiation have the same term in Dutch) These people can honestly not think above the level of a fifth grader.
Timedoutsob · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
there are like cases of corona in 185 countries in the world. There is only limited 5g networks in about 35 countries in the world.
WildVariety · 2 points · Posted at 01:58:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same dumb asses that said cell phones give you brain cancer and that vaccines cause autism.
myboyghandi · 3 points · Posted at 19:37:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Umm sorry what? Do you also not think the world is flat? It is let me tell you/s
Eloping_Llamas · 5 points · Posted at 19:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This girl I know called it the 5G PLANNEDemic.
She’s also very sympathetic to Palestinian terror attacks, especially when they kill “Zionist oppressors” who were apparently placed in Israel by the Freemasons.
Who knew?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love pointing out the palestine and palestinians didn't exist until the Muslims had a bunch of Jews show up in their own holy land. It's all part of an old Russian misinformation campaign from when they were having a soft war with the USA over there.
OhHeckf · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah dude ethnonationalism and colonialism are way cool. If only Britain could arbitrarily decide to set up homelands for more white people in the Arab world.
Dragonman558 · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was some dumb thing about 4g and 5g making horn growths on people's skulls too xD
AverageRedditorTeen · 2 points · Posted at 20:00:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There a pockets of small numbers of individuals the believe stupid shit all over the world. Social media and the pivot to click bait headlines by once legitimate news sources has amplified these voices and given them a free platform to advertise their craziness and attract swaths of similarly stupid people in a really unprecedented way.
Shockbolt14 · 2 points · Posted at 20:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s some boomer shit
ArchaicWolf · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's true. However, what people don't realize is that only reptilians can be infected by the coronavirus. The mole people specifically designed it to target the reptilians so humans have nothing to fear.
Unfortunately, I have found evidence that leads me to believe that the greys are attempting to further modify 5G to infect humans as well. Luckily tinfoil hats can protect you from 5G so I recommend you wear one at all times.
That being said, the most effective way to combat the greys blatant disregard for the ceasefire is a large scale thermonuclear war. It's common knowledge that greys are weak to nuclear bombs. So we must ally ourselves with the mole people who can give some of us access to their deep underground lairs, protecting us both from nuclear fallout and 5G.
Once the coast is clear we can annhilate and enslave the mole people and retake what is left of the surface. From there we can turn our sights on the despicable insectoids. Using our newfound mole people slave army the insectoids will never stand a chance because as everyone knows mole people are super effective versus insectoids.
Once that is said and done the little green men will no doubt sue for peace. Regardless we will crush them like all the rest and finally be free from our intergalactic invaders. Sure 99.999% of humanity will die, the surface will be reduce to a bombed out molten cinder but at least we will have our freedom. Unless you subscribe to the theory of the existence of merfolk, which obviously I do.
Most of the merfolk will have gone extinct already however, the strongest will remain. With their advanced technology we cannot hope to face them head on, but they have one glaring weakness, their energy is supplied by the tides. What makes the tides? The moon. We will bring down the moon. Crashing it upon R'lyeh, their capital, hopefully destroying Cthulhu as well.
This of course will come at a cost because the moon wizards will no doubt be upset. I cannot be certain we will defeat this final foe. The dark lord Xenu is indeed poweful. With any luck he too will perish from the collision. Only then would we truly be free. Unless of course you believe Earth is flat and perched upon the back of a great tortoise, but that's just idiotic.
GG_assassin72 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
isnt 5G a uncapped wifi network or something of the sorts?
how does wifi cause covid? what am i missing?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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GG_assassin72 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and this causes caronavirus...
well, luckily it wasn't a zombie apocalypse cause otherwise only the smart people will go and earth will be filled with zombies and dumb asses, who will try and cure zombification with glue
AmmoBaitAPH · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heard of a lady who believes the corona virus is on the swabs used to test for the corona virus. I have no idea how she came to that conclusion
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By their logic, 5g also causes juggalos.
CouncilmanRickPrime · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand it just fine. People are insanely stupid, almost unbelievably so. To the point where one moron posts a meme about a conspiracy theory by the government and it is automatically taken as gospel.
I could teach a class on this crap, I have a family member who believes it all and have had several arguments with her.
stupidrobots · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The explanation I've heard it's that 60ghz waves can excite oxygen molecules and you intake that and it makes you more sensitive to respratory illness. Covid19 is nothing special according to this theory it's just the scapegoat for 5g making our lungs weak
There is of course no real evidence of this from what I can tell
ShadowsGrace5 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please tell me you’re kidding
SnarkLobster · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe 5G is actually now available in the USA.
precense_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stop this just perpetuates the myth no one believes that except a dozen people. This is how the vaccine thing started as well, Stop bringing attention to it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First time hearing about this...
haysanatar · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father-in-law sent all his extended family (including me) like 4 or 5 hour long videos about corona being caused by 5g and not a virus.. He's very conspiritorial, I usually grin and bear it and just go about my day. (He's open minded... To anyone he agrees with) I pushed back politely with facts and reason and he got a little agitated.. I have been removed from the family group chat. My wife is still included... I Am not.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you are a redditor.
cicatrix1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Save reason Trump has supporters. Some people are just ignorant assholes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's easier to fool a person than convince them that they have been fooled.
AHH_CHARLIE_MURPHY · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same idiots who believe in Qanon
Ghostman-TX · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something about pizza restaurants. Do you even news bro?
mycontortionisticgf · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CHINA!
flunkyclaus · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this really a thing? First I've heard of it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ay?
elephanturd · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad asked me if I had 5G the other day. Didn't realize why until now :/
Of course he also believes in chemtrails, JFK and 9/11 conspiracies, I could go on...
H-713 · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please tell me people don't really think that... it's so far from making any sense.
I personally believe that there needs to be a mandatory "radiation basics" class taught in every high school. 1 Semester, doesn't need to be math heavy. Just something to cut down on the misinformation being spread. It'll lower the average blood pressure of all the physicists and radiologists who have to listen to people spewing misinformation in public spaces.
I personally have zero health concerns with 5G. Here's why:
5G, operating around 24 GHz, is non-ionizing radiation. The photons have insufficient energy to ionize atoms or molecules. X-rays, for example, are a form of ionizing radiation. X-ray photons do have sufficient energy to ionize atoms and molecules. When those atoms and molecules are in your DNA, it causes genetic damage. This is why they have the potential to cause cancer.
Energy of a photon is given by E = hc / λ. As a hint, hc = 1240 eV * nM. (eV is electron-volts, a unit of energy). The energy of a microwave photon with a wavelength of 1 mm is about .00124 eV. The accepted ionization energy of a hydrogen atom, 13.6 eV, is almost 11,000 times higher.
I have one major gripe about 5G, however, and it's an ethics one:
To make way for 5G's wider coverage, cell carriers needed a lot of UHF spectrum. In the US, the FCC sold most of the 600 MHz band to T-Mobile for 8 billion dollars. For the pro audio industry, this was like setting off an atomic bomb. Suddenly, $3000 wireless microphone systems operating in the 600 MHz band became illegal to operate. As an example, one local performing arts venue was given about 1 year to come up with roughly half a million dollars to replace equipment that had been bought just a few years earlier. The old equipment, which was worth probably $150,000+ prior to the decision, became so worthless that it was sent to E-waste. The cost of not upgrading? A fine of $10,000 per microphone per day- a relatively standard FCC fine, sure, but painful none the less.
Sometimes sacrifices need to be made for technological advancement, but I'd really prefer it if it wasn't the performing arts world that had to make those sacrifices. It's happened twice now.
Chip_fuckin_Skylark · 1 points · Posted at 10:56:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own fucking brother... what the fuck? Did I not teach him better than that? I had to deactivate my FB account because I was legit depressed that my OWN FLESH AND BLOOD would believe some random guy on Youtube's nonsensical conspiracy theories. I'm a bit in shock from it....... my own fucking brother.....
WasterDave · 1 points · Posted at 12:42:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a conspiracy theory: that someone is running an experiment to see how effective various forms of social media are at persuading people that complete bullshit is true.
baguette7991 · 8986 points · Posted at 14:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the “humour” of popular YouTubers. They literally just scream, make dumb faces and do goofy dances. Don’t see how that appeals to anyone over the age of 10.
landshanties · 3673 points · Posted at 16:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of popular YouTubers are making content for an audience of children, to be fair
AutomaticAccident · 1374 points · Posted at 18:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand a child's sense of humor then.
Hotshot2k4 · 1164 points · Posted at 19:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humor has a lot to do with being surprised. Young kids have experienced fewer things, so they're surprised more easily, and find that kind of "reaction" content funnier, generally speaking. It's also harder to tell fake excitement from real excitement when you're younger, and it's energizing and interesting to see someone excited about something, especially if it's someone you care about at all.
jomb · 107 points · Posted at 19:39:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True. I sometimes go back to the YouTube videos I loved back in 2007-2008 and other than the feeling of nostalgia they're all awful and unfunny to me now.
Kowzorz · 26 points · Posted at 21:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sketch comedy groups are the worst for me regarding this. "I thought that was funny? That's just... dark..."
bros402 · 4 points · Posted at 02:27:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go back and watch 5 Second Films.
A good chunk of them surprisingly hold up.
One of the guys behind them did a stream where he watched all of them like 5 months ago, there were definitely a few where he was like "oh god that was horrible"
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 22:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looking back, I can't see how fred was so popular that he got his own tv show. It's so annoying to watch his videos.
NargacugaRider · 2 points · Posted at 02:31:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure who that is—do you have a link to that stuff? I’m curious, because I’ve never been into YouTube stuff cuz I’m old and dumb.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:48:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah here
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 3 points · Posted at 06:03:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay. Streamers are not so different from the previous internet content for kids actually.
NargacugaRider · 2 points · Posted at 05:47:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is completely... something. Thank you for sharing. Was this style of... thing THAT popular back then?
varkarrus · 1 points · Posted at 04:39:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He is a cop...
and he's learning impaired...
Doctah_Whoopass · 1 points · Posted at 14:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah holy shit that would not fly today.
TheBigEmptyxd · 24 points · Posted at 22:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why silly games like peekaboo work on babies so well. You'd think that was the funniest shit ever by the way babies bust a gut over it.
10eleven12 · 10 points · Posted at 22:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still get excited with peekaboobie.
-bag · 10 points · Posted at 20:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never thought about it like this! This makes a lot of sense.
NH_Lion12 · 3 points · Posted at 22:37:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more I learn about children, the less I want one.
HoeProficiency · 3 points · Posted at 04:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheers to that
drtoszi · 3 points · Posted at 03:15:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of my nephew.
One day he was coming to tell me all excited about this one youtuber he watches and his Sonic game speedruns and comments. Had all the hallmarks you mention of the generic ytuber.
Then one time he came up on another YT video that was in my recommended and it was part of an interview series. Basically he admits that it’s a weird zone where yeah he fakes a lot of the excitement but at the same time he had to like the subject to begin with so at some point it’s real excitement. The oddest part is that sometimes during the filmings he swears that he isn’t sure how much he’s purposely hyping himself up and how much it’s genuine.
Kinda changed some of my cynicism towards Ytubers haha.
Hotshot2k4 · 2 points · Posted at 04:54:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I kind of regret calling it fake excitement since it isn't necessarily that - the people who make that kind of content in the long term just try to inflate their excitement, sort of ham it up because apparently it makes a big difference for their numbers. It's not surprising that if they do that sort of thing over a long time, that it might actually change them subtly.
drtoszi · 2 points · Posted at 05:11:46 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno, I mean you’re not wrong technically calling it “fake.”
It’s hard to say I guess but his gist was that his scripts would basically be something like “ham it up here” but after a long time doing the videos he’s actually not sure how much was purposely fake or not himself haha.
But yeah, in this case, he started because he likes Sonic games, got popular enough to be a celeb and is basically going through the usual celebrity issue of acting versus genuine feeling. It’s the usual dilemma of adults making content for children.
getsumchocha · 2 points · Posted at 22:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
guys, GUYS!! HEY GUYS!!!
dorath20 · 2 points · Posted at 06:54:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just neatly explained some issues I've been noticing and helped me solve some issues that were not fully related to this. Thanks!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 09:51:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
very fitting analysis
TimeTravelMishap · 21 points · Posted at 19:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
They are extremely easily entertained. I mean for a lot of kids 'got your nose' is comedy genius
DankerDork · 9 points · Posted at 19:09:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This here is actually life
Wiki_pedo · 9 points · Posted at 19:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, children are hard to understand
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Username checks out...
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AutomaticAccident · 6 points · Posted at 19:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do. Just not in the context of YouTube stars and Tik Tok.
SheepishLion117 · 12 points · Posted at 19:47:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
High volume = funny
KingXMoons · 5 points · Posted at 20:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deaf people: Subtitles: loud Deaf people: HAHAH
AutomaticAccident · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As a teen, I sometimes wonder what the fuck is wrong with my humor. Literally the letter E makes me crack up.
theycallmeLITTLE · 17 points · Posted at 19:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
E isn't a word. It's a letter.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:30:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yes my bad
SheepishLion117 · 9 points · Posted at 19:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
E
Phirk · 5 points · Posted at 19:54:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
jefferlewpew · 7 points · Posted at 20:04:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keep laughing at the letter E as long as you can! Being a grumpy adult sucks and I don't even know how it happened
Bernmann · 5 points · Posted at 20:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think children generally like seeing adults behave like children. In addition to being more relatable, they also get to enjoy the rambunctiousness vicariously. For kids who grow up in strict homes, this style of humor can be a needed outlet. I think that adults enjoy stand up comedians who say controversial things for similar reasons. I don’t actually have any evidence to back up this intuition however. I would be interested to see if anyone has tried to investigate this scientifically and what the findings were.
KrabS1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, yeah. My 11 year old sister in law laughed for like half an hour when I mentioned the fact that you have poop inside of your intestines.
Kids are weird.
mrrainandthunder · 0 points · Posted at 22:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heh.
wtfnousernamesleft2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As you shouldn’t
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They'd even find piss and shit funny. I mean, there's toys made after things taking a shit so I guess that's where the humor is now.
Taking a shit = fUnNy!
punch_nazis_247 · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/kidsarefuckingstupid
AutomaticAccident · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what I believe from the bottom of my heart. Plus I love the sub.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a poo pee kind of humour and I laugh about it and I'm a fucking adult.
PM_M3_UR_PUDENDA · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you ever rewatch something you loved as a kid again today that you clearly remember dying of laughter from it? would you agree with your 6-12 year old self that this is the Pinnacle of funny now that you're this old?
I rewatched the old skits from classic "all that" and.... yah no. kid me was a simpler human. 😌
jackandjill22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep
rucksacksepp · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could say it's childish
BroBeansBMS · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how parents let kids watch that type of garbage content. You might as well get them a monster energy tattoo for their 12th birthday.
LuquidThunderPlus · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember seeing something about how someone's natural reaction to a surprise is to laugh, and since kids are kids, they are surprised much more easily, then laugh at said content more, and since they laugh they like they watch more...
rinkiyakepaapaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Children are new to internet and life in general. They find almost anything funny.
A_BOMB2012 · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Children are stupid.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/KidsAreFuckingStupid
ShadowsGrace5 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not anymore, at least 😁
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:40:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe because you're not a child, shocking I know
AutomaticAccident · 4 points · Posted at 19:43:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
really?
ikwtif · 12 points · Posted at 17:58:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but who are the "reaction" video's made for though. I don't understand how that can even be remotely popular watching someone watch something else. If they could act and actually put effort into it and actually make it into some entertainment form of content, maybe, but those don't exist.
PotHead96 · 20 points · Posted at 18:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess for some people it's a way to spend time with someone/get their thoughts on something they like. Why do people read reviews of something they already watched/played? Why do they ask a friend what they thought of a movie? It's just a more detailed version of that. Instead of looking for the thoughts your favorite youtuber had after watching it, you're looking for their whole reaction to it.
KatyPerrysBoobs2 · 3 points · Posted at 18:19:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of the time it’s just people are already very interested in the product that’s being reacted to, and they just ran out of other articles about it. So they eventually just click on a reaction video.
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's mostly about either the personality or perspective. I used to enjoy The Fine Brother's content. Mostly the Old People React stuff. It was interesting seeing their perspective on current pop culture.
LrdAsmodeous · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are times I can understand it. For instance I enjoy watching rugby players react to some of the best football players of all time, or new NBA fans who are reacting to their first experiences seeing Bird or Jordan.
I_dont_bone_goats · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The nba reaction videos drive me crazy.
It’s literally just a dude saying “oh my god. OH MY GOD. That’s crazy.” Over and over while superimposed over an nba game.
Just watch the nba game! Why do you care about this dude!
AdrianTapes0 · 3 points · Posted at 19:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The audiences are often adults with the mentality of kids too.
daboog · 3 points · Posted at 22:32:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be faaaaaaaair
small-j · 6 points · Posted at 18:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
And it sucks cause those kids grow up on that stuff and then become young adults who think that (screaming) is what constitutes quality entertainment.... my 13yo brother is exactly like that. Just watches Markiplier scream all day. “Yeah this is a one hour video by him and there are 13 of them and I’ve seen all 13.” Like really???
Moluwuchan · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I grew up on semi-stupid YouTube humor (I’m in my late teens now) and I would say my tastes have evolved quite a bit. The vast majority moves on.
Imsosickofyou · 4 points · Posted at 19:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey just letting you know each year goes by faster and by the time you’re 30 you’re gonna wonder where your 20s went and then you die
shocktard · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can confirm. Halfway through my 30s and wonder where my 20s and early 30s went.
small-j · 4 points · Posted at 19:34:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s probably totally true. I think being locked up for a month with two 13 year olds (twin brothers) who no exaggeration play video games / watch YouTube 15 hours a day has made me lose sight of how they might eventually grow out of it. Feels eternal rn lol
Moluwuchan · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can definitely see that. I’m not saying this generation doesn’t have time-specific problems - every single generation has that. But that seems exaggerated and not normal, to me.
small-j · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah my family has some issues ):
Moluwuchan · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry to hear that. I hope you all will get through it <3
tlinclay71 · 14 points · Posted at 19:04:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No shade but stuff like this comment is how boomers are made
small-j · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair point. I do try to see value in the stuff that my younger siblings take interest in, it’s mostly the screaming and repetitiveness that confuse me (in terms of how that’s enjoyable)
Abrahamlinkenssphere · 5 points · Posted at 19:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too be faaaiiih
WyllieCoyote · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re scrolling on Reddit on the pooper the other daaaaay
SilkBot · 2 points · Posted at 19:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even as a child I didn't find that funny.
TheRealCrafting · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
""""content for an audience of children""""
Jake and Logan Paul, with hundreds of songs and videos featuring sexual content and explicit language, are sweating
King_Pecca · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"audience of children" as in of all ages...
Phirk · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not anymore
orokami11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing is scarier than an army horde of children.... They can rip you to shreds.
SilentRanger42 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My 7 year old sister loves that shit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even channels targeted toward adults do it. There's one host in particular on a channel I'm subscribed to that yells a lot, while the hosts on the other shows they do just talk normally but with a little energy put into it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few months ago I visited a little cousin of mine (he's about 6 or 7 can't remember) and I was saddened at the fact that he could not and would not take his eyes off some screaming/bright colored thumbnail/"OHHH" face youtuber on my uncle's phone. If we took the phone he'd throw really bad tantrums and would only shut up when given the phone back.
Call me a boomer (although I am only 18), but I remember a time when at that age I would only be at home to eat, shower and sleep. Any other time I would be either at school or outside riding my bike with friends or whatever. I might just be projecting on him what I think it's the 'perfect childhood' bc that was mine, but I dunno I just feel it would be so much better for him, especially because he is already a bit chubby and I think he would benefit a lot from it.
But what do I know? Like I said, I'm only 18, no younger brothers (only older ones) which equals to very poor parenting skills so maybe I'm just not progressive about the whole "this is what kids do these days" argument.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I legitimately feel bad for kids these days, they are growing up with a media environment that is so incredibly brainless and lacking in a soul that I don't even know where to start. Like, okay, kids cartoons in the 80's and 90's were mostly garbage also, but they were at least garbage with a plot and some production values, right? They usually tried to impart some sort of moral lesson or aesthetic sensibility.
Now we have an entire generation raised on youtube and shit. These kids are going to be fucking braindead by the time they hit their teens
morkengork · 1850 points · Posted at 16:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Occasionally I'll watch people play horror games and it's really funny to see the vast difference between someone with lots of views and someone with no views.
The lights could flicker and Markiplier has already screamed and pissed his pants three times over because that's what the kids want to see.
DeadStar800 · 429 points · Posted at 17:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I automatically thought of Mark when I saw the statement you replied to. By boyfriend likes that kind of humor to an extent and he thinks I just find everyone he likes annoying. I don't.
muddagaki · 75 points · Posted at 18:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife is similar, she watches all those YouTube that start out like"soo I accidentally bought $500+ of clothes and so I'm gonna make a video about trying them on! Holy by the way here's an in-video ad about some useless shit." She doesn't get why I hate them, it's fake as he'll with every single one of them. Nothing original anymore on yt trending or popular. I miss neegaheega and Freddie Wong.
sje46 · 20 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look for educational stuff on youtube. It's far more entertaining than "entertainment" youtube.
Gr8rSlayer · 21 points · Posted at 21:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Veritasium, Vsauce, Smarter Every Day, Backyard Scientist, Mark Rober
false_tautology · 12 points · Posted at 21:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Captain Disillusion.
zekeymoomoo · 5 points · Posted at 00:18:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking love that guy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
You saw that video in where hes supposed to give a talk in a conference but the captain gets delayed in traffic in another Galaxy and his "assistant" has to give the talk? (The assistant is him without makeup) the ending is the best thing I have ever seen in my life, I almost shit my pants laughing
poerisija · 8 points · Posted at 22:06:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good list! Few more; Scott Manley if you're into space stuff, Tom Scott for general (random) knowledge and computer science(also computerphile), there's loads of good educational youtubers.
WildlingPine · 5 points · Posted at 02:07:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same as above but replace Scott Manley with Everyday Astronaut. Numberphile is also good for learning how numbers are manipulated in satisfyingly weird ways.
Also SciShow!
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would add Real engineering, Learn engineering, engineerguy
They're not really technical and they're great to have a glimpse of an understanding of how the world works
Also Primitive technology and many cooking channels are great
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good to see that isn’t just exclusive to my wife. Her thing is military couples vlogs (were a military couple as well) but seriously what is so interesting and intense and gripping about watching some lady live her life? 99% of those vlogs aren’t anything special, nothing really abnormal, just regular people. Shit if you wanna watch regular people live their lives, then go people watch at a mall. Never understood how people enjoy vlogs that aren’t by some hot shots adventurers or something interesting
sje46 · 38 points · Posted at 20:21:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parasocial relationships. It's a way to battle lonliness.
I used to do this for a few hours a day when I was NEET with minecraft letsplayers. They had utterly boring, uninteresting lives, and the gameplay simply isn't interesting at all 95% of the time. It's just a familiar voice/personality that you relate to from some shallow aspect you share in common.
People-watching at the mall doesn't cut it because you only see those people once, and get snippets of conversation. People require something more longterm.
It takes the place of normal friendships. Following a vlog or podcast or two is fine, but people need some outlet for two-way social interaction.
Not talking about your wife, btw, who I don't know, just explaining why most people watch these things.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably the most insightful and well explained reasoning I’ve heard. Thanks for that
muddagaki · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know this is the truth, but fuck she watches these women talk while doing make up ( Not a tutorial or tips and tricks for make up) and they don't do shit. Yet my wife has many passions and she sinks time into these "content creators" I just hate seeing people our age more invested in someone else that doesn't give a fuck about them rather than themselves. I just miss listening to her saxophone I guess, hearing someone talk about random b.s. from the other room makes me want to time out what my wife likes.
WildlingPine · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry dude, you can't control what your wife likes and you shouldn't try. It's very frustrating when people like dumb shit but then I remember that I'll literally jump in delight over potatoes and cheese so it's really a matter of perspective.
muddagaki · -1 points · Posted at 02:41:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How am I trying to control her? You're never going to love everything about your spouse. Mostly you should read the main question, this is in reference to me not understanding her love for these people on a personal level. Stop projecting and I'm going to go listen to my wife watch videos of people cooling on miniature fucking cooking sets. Which I showed her initially because I know she loves asmr-esque shit even tho I think it's brainded!!
PandaLitter · 14 points · Posted at 18:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are you a fan when you can't even spell the name right
theniceguytroll · 39 points · Posted at 18:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are you talking about? Everyone loves Nyigahyiga
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 19:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I, too, love Nutterbutters
muddagaki · 8 points · Posted at 19:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey it's been years I can't remember lol, but glad you added to the conversation!!
zekeymoomoo · 2 points · Posted at 00:18:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my favorite YouTuber's I've found so far has been comment etiquette. He's one of the few genuinely funny YouTuber's left.
23Udon · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I miss the iron age of youtube with thewinekone, original Smosh, ShayCarl, LisaNova, DaxFlame...
LancingKnight · 22 points · Posted at 21:39:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL Reddit apparently hates Markiplier
masterChest · 17 points · Posted at 00:13:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit hates anything remotely popular. It makes sense
TrueHueber · 2 points · Posted at 00:55:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I found his video on Doom fun. I normally turn him on as background noise. Since he has thousands of videos
WhaChaChaKing · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He used to be less annoying. I started watching him as a kid and it was because he was way more toned down than pewdiepie. He didn't just scream all the time and make excessively stupid faces.
I remember watching him more recently and I just couldn't. I thought maybe I just hadn't noticed when I was young but then I actually went to an older video and he was actually less annoying.
deathtomutts · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely enjoy watching Storpey because I believe he truly is afraid. He isn't very popular, but I think he's hysterical.
baguette7991 · 520 points · Posted at 16:34:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. Then they grow up acting like this thinking it’s cool and normal.
_w1n5t0n__ · 553 points · Posted at 17:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God, there's this Year 7 (grade 6?) kid that gets on my bus who has obviously just grown up on Markiplier and screaming YouTuber trash, and so he thinks that's just how people behave. Constantly over-reacting to everything, screaming about shit, never shutting up, and surprise surprise everyone hates him.
Reminds me a lot of The King of Comedy
TheLastKirin · 138 points · Posted at 18:46:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not just Youtube that teaches them this. I've caught snippets of a lot of modern kids' cartoons and it's constant histrionics and flailing. I loathe it, not just because it annoys me but because this is what they're teaching kids.
_does_it_even_matter · 24 points · Posted at 20:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
PBS is a parent's friend. They're all about educational entertainment, which means none of that overdramatic bullshit, the characters pretty much act the way you'd want your kid to act. Daniel Tiger was incredibly helpful in teaching my little brother some manners.
xmashamm · 72 points · Posted at 19:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids cartoons have been like that forever. Looney tunes is also full of it.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 09:46:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looney Tunes wasn't really constant screaming and loud noises though. I never watched Spongebob as a kid so when I see clips of it as an adult I'm like "how the fuck can anyone tolerate this screeching nonsense?" And it's even worse with newer ones like Chowder.
TheLastKirin · 4 points · Posted at 03:28:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's much worse than Looney Toons now, though. I mean, I agree. Kids want bright colors, broad gestures, obvious humor. And to be fair I think Looney Toons was originally for adults as well, not targeted at kids.
But a lot of modern kids' shows are screaming and flailing nonsense with such horrifically cringey behavior, it makes Looney toons look chill.
the_ocalhoun · 6 points · Posted at 20:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank capitalism.
Flailing and histrionics naturally captures children's attention --> shows that have lots of it get more viewers --> shows with more viewers get more advertising money --> networks push more flailing shows and cancel less flailing shows in search of that advertising money --> wealthy investors in networks get slightly wealthier.
masterChest · 8 points · Posted at 00:14:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welp, we've hit the Reddit limit on this conversation now
flpacsnr · 49 points · Posted at 18:09:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It reminds me of Art is Dead by Bo Burnham
NtheLegend · 10 points · Posted at 20:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bo Burnham is a freaking genius. He's got that hot perspective going on.
Tay74 · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, that song is about a lot more than just people making silly content for kids, but sure
nonsensepoem · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps it's the mild physical resemblance, but Burnham vividly reminds me of Steve Martin.
[deleted] · 27 points · Posted at 19:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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baguette7991 · -3 points · Posted at 23:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but kids grow up watching grown men acting like that so they think it’s normal and cool, hence acting like that themselves. Most kids these days want to grow up to be YouTubers. Saw a video the other day of a kid, no older than 15, literally sexually harassing girls in a shopping mall and justifying it by putting “prank” in the title.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 00:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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baguette7991 · 4 points · Posted at 01:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never said sexual assault. Big difference between sexual harassment and sexual assault.
https://youtu.be/mWf9Uz-tMw4
Watch this video and you’ll understand what I mean.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you the driver or an older student?
_w1n5t0n__ · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grade 9 (in the UK it's grade 6-10) for high school
Custodes13 · 7 points · Posted at 20:56:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like 70% of middle schoolers
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That kid is going to be a YouTube millionaire soon.
happyflappypancakes · 13 points · Posted at 18:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, did you? I'm sure there are plenty of stupid humor you laughed at as a kid that you grew out of. Enjoying a type of entertainment isn't necessarily going to mold your personality and behavior as an adult.
neocommenter · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like how I run around with nunchucks all the time because I watched Ninja Turtles as a kid.
TheHancock · 0 points · Posted at 20:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
autism entered chat
marytodd455 · -21 points · Posted at 19:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this why my kids overreact to shit so much? I can't believe I never made this connection. At any rate I cut YouTube out of our house about 6 months ago.
SapFireMC · 17 points · Posted at 20:35:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok I get that YouTubers can inhibit a bad mentality on your children, but I absolutely despise it when people cut off an entire fucking platform just because of a connection that they made about something occurring inside of one. Damn vaccines inject viruses into your system? No wonder I'm getting sick! No more pharmacy again. The content inside the internet is making people more toxic? Guess I'll never touch the internet again. My kid got bad grades? Oh of course! He's been playing video games. Welp, time to throw his Xbox in the nearby lake into the depths of the abyss to never be seen again. A job well done.
marytodd455 · -12 points · Posted at 20:55:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man you must have totally overreacted when you read my comment you've probably been watching too much YouTube
SapFireMC · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I just think it's illogical and wrong to judge and cut off an entire platform because you made connections that were irrelevant and does not reflect youtube as a whole. Many of the content you can find is really amazing, and doesn't depend on the stereotypes that you find here. I've made analogies in my previous comment. If you can understand how outrageous they are, then surely you can understand the same with YouTube, because it literally is the same thing. I usually never use upvotes nor downvotes as any form of annotation, but you can clearly see how many people feel heavily about this. Especially in a thread that is literally meant to rant about things, you of all people should be getting an advantage and upvotes. But just take a moment to realize that what you're doing is thought negatively by others. Doesn't matter if you care or not.
marytodd455 · -16 points · Posted at 21:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Today I triggered a YouTuber and lost internet points what am I going to do?
edit: Stop giving a shit about karma, or what internet strangers say, it's better for your mental health
SapFireMC · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But your advice is also paradoxically contradictory in of itself. Why should I trust your advice considering you're an Internet stranger? I don't get why it's so difficult for you to see how unreasonable your point of view is. Is it possible to make a rational discussion, instead of resorting to attacking other people? If anything that's a childish move on your part. No, I'm not a YouTuber. What makes you think that in defending an thing, that I have to be directly affiliated with it? In what sense in 2020, does the word triggered even make sense? Is it not normal to get mad? Like that should be something in this thread. I don't understand what triggered is supposed to imply.
JordanllRay · 18 points · Posted at 20:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally I enjoy Markiplier. I think his horror stuff is good and I am bad with horror games by myself so having someone alongside commentating makes it bearable.
Plus I just find him funny.
Kyidou · 16 points · Posted at 20:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think Markiplier is a very good example. Compared to some other Youtubers his reactions are like nothing.
TheMace808 · 28 points · Posted at 19:30:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I’m likin’ markiplier nowadays, he seems a lot more down to earth, especially with his Unnus Annus stuff. He just seems like a very motivated person who has to do new things sometimes
Aidith · 20 points · Posted at 20:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! I get seriously annoyed with people who bitch about his “overreactions”, because it’s called BEING ENTERTAINING. And each Youtuber has their own style of being an entertainer which is part of why it’s great, there’s something for everybody!
TheMace808 · 8 points · Posted at 20:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly just don’t like his older stuff because it was super loud and slightly obnoxious after awhile, I just really like who he is right now
Aidith · 6 points · Posted at 20:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So far I’ve liked basically everything he’s ever put out, though he has certainly continuously gotten better as he’s gotten older!
maybe-i-am-crazy · 22 points · Posted at 19:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find Markiplier has actually grown a lot as an entertainer since his early days on YouTube. Yes, he still overreacts to things, but not to nearly the same extent he used to.
FakeRealRedditor · 12 points · Posted at 18:54:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of SovietWomble's playthrough of alien isolation, which was great because of how genuine his fear was. It made the game ten times as intense.
siirka · 5 points · Posted at 19:56:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god I love those videos lol. He’s legitimately terrified the whole time and it makes it so much better. I wish he actually did more than one episode of Outlast
smallangrybean · 11 points · Posted at 21:32:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Markiplier has really grown as a creator since making videos like that with over the top reactions. If he still made videos of that quality I wouldn’t find his videos entertaining but his channel with crank gameplays, Unus Annus, is actually really good.
Sayor1 · 13 points · Posted at 18:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that why people watch him? Am I the only one that fell in love in his story telling voice?
deliriousgoomba · 6 points · Posted at 18:28:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was watching one youtuber, an Irish gamer, play Spyro and there were moments where he got into the game and was just normal and then realized he had to be a "personality" and started shrieking and it was just Why
Gynophile · 5 points · Posted at 18:50:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somewhat related: im a huge horror fan and known to be very stoic and the calm cool head in a crises, not much phases me. But watching someone play a horror game, when something starts chasing the player, it triggers a huge adrenaline rush in me, to the point where it is sometimes really hard to enjoy watching.
Flyingmealsaucer · 16 points · Posted at 17:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pewdiepie playing amnesia a decade ago is actually really good. Some of his videos was excellent. A good mix of humor and horror. You especially know the feeling if you have played that game.
Naught1 · 3 points · Posted at 21:46:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm 30 and legit cannot play horror games because they scare me too much. I'm not saying it's oversenualized, because it is, but there are definitely adults who cant handle amnesia.
BetrayedAntenora · 3 points · Posted at 20:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favourite horror game YouTuber is John Wolfe. He doesn’t pretend to be scared so I don’t have to worry about going deaf from screams every two seconds.
elun19 · 3 points · Posted at 22:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh he looks so over the games half the time.
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tiedyechicken · 2 points · Posted at 20:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I watched a no-commentary walkthrough of HL:Alyx recently and the player had so much personality just through the way he played. The hand gestures he made and the items he chose to interact with alone made for more entertainment than any talking could.
Pro-SunBro · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Harry101UK?
tiedyechicken · 1 points · Posted at 15:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
MKIceAndFire. I'll check your guy out though!
Lockerin · 3 points · Posted at 19:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly just listen to Mark play horror games cuz he sounds like a male version of my ex panicking and screaming and I feel more comfortable ignoring it while I work.
SmokeyTheDogg · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scary Game Squad are the only true horror game YouTubers.
Skakitty · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yesssss agreed!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like Markiplier a lot as a person, and there are some of his videos that I think are funny. But man, some of his stuff just makes me cringe so hard. I understand that he has an audience and is appealing to said audience, but there are way too many instances where he just hams it up way too much. I never liked Pewdiepie, but one thing I can absolutely respect him on is that he said he stopped playing horror games because he just doesn't get scared anymore and didn't want to 'put on a show' of being scared.
DoublerZ · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the other end of the spectrum you have John Wolfe, who would probably still remain unfazed even if an actual serial killer broke into his house and started running full speed at him with a machete.
Pirika-pirilala · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favorite horror YouTuber is John Wolfe. Doesn’t freak out at all. Hes also got a snarky sense of humor and isn’t afraid to call bullshit on bad games.
from_now_on_ · -7 points · Posted at 18:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
For anyone who doesn't know who Markiplier is (I didn't) here is a good example I found: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNsUbtV001E
Almost unwatchable tbh
Edit: people who are downvoting this comment: can you let me know why you find this guy enjoyable? I find him very insincere but genuinely interested in why you like him
KillemwithKindness20 · 8 points · Posted at 22:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having watched Markiplier for several years now, I feel like a lot of what he puts out is very sincere. Of course he plays up his reactions for the camera when playing horror games (definitely less so now than he used to), but there are a lot of people who find that funny. People just have different senses of humor. There really isn’t any form of humor that exists that is purely objectively funny or unfunny. It just depends on what the viewer finds funny.
PM_ME_CUTE_SMILES_ · 3 points · Posted at 06:14:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uuhh yeah I lasted less than 30 seconds. Whoever that content is made for, that's not me. I don't understand why you're downvoted.
velvet42 · 4 points · Posted at 18:57:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't watch the link, because I already know who he is thanks to my kids being kids about the time he was getting started, so I'm already familiar with him. It kinda makes me sad, because he seems like a pretty good guy. I even took my younger daughter to see him live 2 or 3 years ago, and it was a good time. But I just can't watch his gaming videos. So annoying. :(
McLovin804 · 0 points · Posted at 21:12:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I definitely can't watch them play any horror games. However, I feel like the videos where he plays games with his friends are a lot better. He is still obnoxious, but the banter and reactions at least seem genuine.
djpeeples · -2 points · Posted at 20:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Made it about 11 seconds
ReignDance · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Markiplier used to be so chill when he started out. He really didn't scream. Sometimes he'd get surprised by something and let out a quick shout. That's it really. Nowadays he'll get chased by something and go "AAAAAAHH! NOoOooO LEAVE ME ALoOooOnE!!!". I still like him as a person, but I haven't watched him in a very long time now.
therealjoshua · 0 points · Posted at 19:56:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a friend who's pushing 30 and loves his videos. She would show me one occasionally and I've told her multiple times I just don't get his humor. I don't get the appeal of someone screaming and overreacting to stuff like that, it feels super fake. I feel like I'm watching an actor instead of a real person playing a game.
a_general_customer · -3 points · Posted at 17:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's where POiiSED comes in. I think that dude started with a scream and just never stopped..regardless of whether it was "necessary" or not. So I like him a lot better than Markiplier who used to genuinely seem like he was there for the indie horror game creators and not to make a quick buck.
NgArclite · 440 points · Posted at 17:23:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It annoys me how this whole surprise face thing in the thumbnail blew up. It's the new duck face and I hate it. Unsubbed to so many youtubers I've been loyal to over 10 years. I refuse to click/watch those videos so pointless to crowd my feed with it
morkengork · 23 points · Posted at 19:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surprised face with a curved arrow pointing to something ridiculous like SNAIL FARTS?
nonsensepoem · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or better yet, occasionally the arrow points to nothing at all.
[deleted] · 36 points · Posted at 19:12:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mrrainandthunder · 8 points · Posted at 22:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well OP isn't questioning why it blew up.
Besides, the answer isn't that the algorithm recommends videos with those thumbnails more often - the algorithm doesn't care about the actual content in itself. It does however greatly care what people click on (which incidently would be this kind of thumbnail). So the real question is why people would be more inclined click on those thumbnails to begin with.
velvet42 · 18 points · Posted at 19:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, god yes. I used to subscribe to the Try Guys. I still think they seem like good people, and I hope they're doing well, but I just couldn't stand those irritating fucking visual-click-bait video thumbnails popping up in my notifications. Seriously, it was so annoying it turned me off the entire channel.
mirrormimi · 5 points · Posted at 20:53:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely love them, but I don't watch their videos unless I'm binging them for that very reason. It's always a game of "nothing else to watch, so I'll click on this video with the bad thumbnail. Huh, I forgot how hilarious they are, better watch the 10 videos I avoided in one sitting!".
SuperFreakyNaughty · 4 points · Posted at 22:18:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also can't stand titles like "[Something that doesn't need an explanation] EXPLAINED!" or "X Things You Didn't Know About [Show/Movie/Video Game]" (but it's all common knowledge).
It's usually a ten minute video, three of which is advertising Squarespace, Manscaped, or Audible, followed by seven minutes of "According to a reddit comment by /u/AnalDischargeCollector" or multiple screenshots of someone else's article with lines like "The author goes on to say...".
delightfuldinosaur · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's human nature to be intrigued by things which other people are excited about. A thumbnail which showcases that catches your eye much more than "Look a thing"
NgArclite · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I'm sure it's an algorithm thing. Same with all those notes with got punched in face! real. Not fake! titles
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NgArclite · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember early YouTube being all ass and tits.
JabTrill · 416 points · Posted at 16:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's amazing how popular YouTubers have changed over time. It used to be that it took actual consistent creativity and humor to have a successful and popular YouTube channel. But now if you make enough stupid and clickbaity, fake prank/social experiment videos you can get popular enough to then make stupid "I GAVE $100 TO THIS HOMELESS MAN" or "I SPENT 24 HOURS ON MY BALCONY" that take zero effort and get like 10 million views on them because 8 year olds just think you're the coolest person alive and hilarious. Not to mention the one hit wonder Vine stars who thought they were funny enough to make the transition to YouTube even their content is shit and still get millions of subscribers
baguette7991 · 201 points · Posted at 16:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Don’t forget titles like “3AM FACETIME WITH INSERT DEAD CELEBRITY CHALLENGE (GONE SEXUAL)” or “DROWNING MY DAD IN A RIVER PRANK (GONE WRONG)”.
This is literally the kind of garbage kids are exposed to and they’re being exploited in the process with shit like fake giveaways. It’s actually really sad that the younger generation looks up to and aspires to be these people. Kids went from wanting to be astronauts to wanting to be narcissistic talentless douchebags.
blisteringchristmas · 26 points · Posted at 18:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to be extremely curious to see the research on how having an endless stream of largely low-quality content at your disposal affects children. There was a pretty big chunk of time during my younger brother's 10-14 years that he was watching youtube for like 8 hours a day. There's no fucking way that can be good for you.
Don't mean to sound like a luddite or a baby boomer but every time I go on youtube when I'm not logged into my account all of the suggested videos are conspiracy vids, alt-right stuff and similar junk. It seems worryingly easy to fall down a rabbit hole like that... and if you're doing it for 8 hours a day for days on end?
Bozarn · 25 points · Posted at 19:07:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS FUCKING GUY. For those of you who don't know, a guy named ImJayStation made a shit ton of these. Mac Miller, XXX, Etika, etc. were all featured, and the videos were rushed out right after they died for maximum clicks. He also made other high quality content such as "WE BOUGHT A LITTLE GIRL OFF THE DARK WEB" and "(WE KISSED) ORDERING GAY POTION FROM THE DARK WEB AT 3AM!!" The gay potion one in particular seemed extremely offensive, the portrayal of gay people in it was terrible. The guy who drank the potion talked in a high-pitched voice, put on make-up, and flirted with and eventually kissed the other guy without his consent. If that doesn't convince you that he's a stellar role model, I think he's also on trial for assault.
Red-deddit · 3 points · Posted at 05:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
He also us an abuser to his girlfriend, he had a livestream bragging about getting an assault charge for hitting her. The "consent" he got for his dead gf prank was her saying yea half-asleep in the night because he kept bugging her about it
baguette7991 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He also faked getting beaten up and faked his girlfriends death, telling his audience that her dream was to reach 1 million subscribers in their second channel. Turns out she just broke up with him. Total piece of shit.
AlonsoQ · 18 points · Posted at 19:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not saying I disagree, but this is exactly what 1950s parents were saying about Elvis. Except the astronauts bit.
HutSutRawlson · 106 points · Posted at 17:07:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think it’s just kids who admire this, think again. There’s never been an astronaut elected president. But the second thing you mentioned...
Attican101 · 13 points · Posted at 17:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Andrew Jackson was kind of an asshole with that whole Trail Of Tears thing.
TheAlmightyMiguel · 7 points · Posted at 18:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that ol’ Andrew Johnson was a bit of a jackass himself.
Attican101 · 3 points · Posted at 18:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yes, often skipped over but he held back and repealed so many laws and decrees, in regards to freed slaves and reconstruction efforts, I wonder how he felt about Lincolns idea to send many freedmen to Liberia?
cIumsythumbs · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I bet he wasn't a narcissistic talentless douchebag.
Shirley_Taint · -3 points · Posted at 19:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks Obama
BadgerTheWitless · 7 points · Posted at 18:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't this completely illegal?
baguette7991 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. A lot of them still do it though.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 5 points · Posted at 18:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm fucking dying over (GONE WRONG).
OhBestThing · 5 points · Posted at 21:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hehe this reminds me of a recent article I read which collected quotes from adults, across the past several hundred years, complaining about the “youths of today” and how XYZ was ruining them. It’s been the norm since the dawn of time apparently.
One hilarious one was from the 1800s, when fiction novels were apparently gaining popularity, and adults were freaking out about how reading books (books!) was going to destroy the younger generations! “It’s unhealthy! They should be doing [what we did as kids]!”
marytodd455 · 4 points · Posted at 19:27:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started to notice my kids watching this garbage. Like low effort extremely fake paranormal videos. Between that and some of the other crap I just got fed up and had them uninstall youtube from all their devices. If they need to watch something for a how-to or educational I let them use one of our devices.
HoeProficiency · 3 points · Posted at 04:48:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think every kid goes through a spooky phase. Ghosts and stuff is scary and cool and you’re finally “old enough” to check it out. I used to watch tv shows about ghost hunting and stuff all the time as a kid and I would read any ghost book I could get my hands on. Doesn’t seem that different to me. The reading isn’t even always replaced entirely. Creepypastas and places like r/nosleep exist.
I don’t know how old your kids are, but uninstalling YouTube on all their devices is kinda like if your parents never let you watch TV. And during a quarantine that must really suck.
marytodd455 · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's other stuff for them to watch. The problem with YouTube was that we knew what they were watching until the autoplay started to take over. Next thing you know we're in ElsaGate land.
HoeProficiency · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like I said I have no way of knowing how old your kids are. If they’re really young I can see how easy it can be to end up with elsagate stuff playing. Idk why but I was initially thinking of a kid old enough to pick and choose what to watch and type things in.
HoeProficiency · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk if anyone else has said this but TO BE FAIR, haven’t kids always wanted to be “narcissistic talentless douchebags?” When I was a kid, I remember almost every kid wanted to be a singer, dancer, actor, professional athlete, model. Obviously not every kid but easily most. Youtubers are pretty much just actors/dancers/comedians. It’s new media but it’s not that different. Kids just think being famous and having people pay attention to you and like you and being rich would be the best thing ever. (Which I cant really argue with since it does sound awesome compared to many other careers. Kids just don’t understand how unrealistic it is) Many many adults have this dream as well.
Also it’s actually probably way easier and more likely to become a youtuber than an astronaut.
DaJoW · 16 points · Posted at 18:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What? Fred was huge and all he did was scream in a high-pitched voice.
restform · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tbf fred was a fully scripted skit, with an actual production crew from what i understand.
ZomeyTvOnYoutube · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn't for awhile. It was just Lucas until it got huge
MageLocusta · 15 points · Posted at 18:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ehhhh you should've seen how the skateboarding videos were like in 2008.
Even before Youtube, the internet was full of videos and animated gifs where the 'humor' is like the equivalent of those 90s 'Funniest Home Videos' that we used to see all the time.
When youtube started going on the roll, it was already getting clogged with videos of guys actively trying to do the most 'shocking' falls (and when Jackass came out, it caused an avalanche of videos from Jackass wannabes).
Those half-assed videos now are just the 'tamer' equivalent of those Jackass/skateboard-injury videos.
gg00dwind · 6 points · Posted at 19:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people are replying to this disagreeing with you on the idea that the internet had stupid shit back then, as well, and that perhaps it was even more stupid, or you were more likely to see stupid shit due to lack of any kind of filter.
Both are true. Sure, there was a lot of stupid shit, but there were also SO MANY platforms, not JUST YouTube. I mean, newgrounds, funnyjunk, fucking neopets...all of these things had equal popularity. The stupid shit from other platforms made its way to YouTube, but a lot of the better YouTube channels (before they were run like low-budget tv shows for a shitty, local tv network) were creative, interesting videos. Like, actual skits and stuff, not just some attractive person sitting inches away from a camera and talking for an hour and a half/singing/screaming/(not) reacting.
Look at Donald Glover, aka Childish Gambino, the highly successful rapper/filmmaker. He came from the early days of youtube, with Derrick Comedy. That shit was really good and funny, and although some of it was the stupid, childish humor, it was all still really well shot and performed, by talented people taking it seriously. Thing is, I believe that talent and work ethic exists today, it’s just that the platform has changed, and if the talented folks want to succeed, they have to figure out some version of some attractive person sitting inches away from a camera and talking for an hour and a half, since that’s all anyone wants to watch.
JabTrill · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the point I was trying to get across. I think if you compare the uber popular YouTube channels of today and the relative uber popular YouTube channels of 10 years ago, the popular channels from 10 years ago had better and higher quality content
IAmATuxedoKitty · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it depends on what genre you are talking about specifically.
dom85851 · 4 points · Posted at 17:40:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Always amazes me how unchallenging their challenges are. 'I only at pink food for 24 hours' wow! And it's always 24 hours!
Logs34 · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't hate on my boy CodyKo! :( I like having someone make fun of some internet people. (Silently pokes fun using comedy).
JabTrill · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not including Cody Ko in that group. He actually has genuine comedic talent
izvin · 0 points · Posted at 21:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's meh. Noel is funnier than him.
Are either of them funny enough that one would expect then to appeal to literally 5 million people - no. But it's not surprising considering the shit quality of the majority of YouTube that they're able to stand out against amongst.
JabTrill · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Noel and Cody are both some of the better talent on YouTube. Not sure if that's saying much, but I find I think they make good content
AlsoOneLastThing · 10 points · Posted at 17:45:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not really true. There was actually way more hot garbage on youtube back when it was pretty new because there weren't any algorithms to decide what should be on the front page.
blisteringchristmas · 8 points · Posted at 18:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I think that's giving a little too much credit to channels like Smosh. They're just a different brand of "stuff that appeals mainly to kids."
JabTrill · 5 points · Posted at 18:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But since there were no algorithms, in order to create/have a consistent and loyal subscriber base, you needed to have consistently good content
I_just_make_up_shit · 4 points · Posted at 18:40:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really. You just needed consistent content that appealed to kids, like today. Think of Smosh and Ray William Johnson.
JabTrill · -1 points · Posted at 18:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you actually think the Paul Bros and Dave Dobrik produce content on par with Smosh, Ray William Johnson, etc? You can't actually believe that
I_just_make_up_shit · 2 points · Posted at 18:57:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As back then, yes.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right
jefferlewpew · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm no expert but this is Reddit so I'm gonna pretend I am
Even the effortless videos probably actually have a lot of work put into them, from planning, to filming, and then careful editing. The most popular YouTubers aren't just creating individual brilliant videos, they've created a brand and a character that their target audience can relate to, or aspire to be like, so they'll keep watching new videos even if they're boring. It's a bit like 'natural' makeup or bed hair - nobody actually wakes up looking like that, both take effort and skill to make it look effortless
swift-aasimar-rogue · 3 points · Posted at 19:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, some Viners do make really good content. I’m a big fanny of Danny and Drew’s stuff, they’re really good. But some Viners like the Dobre Brothers and stuff just need to leave the platform.
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 05:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And Kurtis Conner as well! i don't know how popular he was tho
swift-aasimar-rogue · 2 points · Posted at 15:08:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I didn’t know he was on Vine! I love Kurtis!
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 22:23:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too as well! In one video he mentioned a pun Vine he made years ago, like I said idk if he was famous.
It's strange that these Vine stars are the only ones successful (at least that I know of lol), while everyone else is now doing clickbait or crappy prank videos
swift-aasimar-rogue · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Commentary is one of the best genres of YouTube video
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 03:19:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facts
kassette_kollektor · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least suscribers don't mean views. They could have subscribed a few years ago and nver watched one of their videos again.
shyguywart · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a reason Vine died, YouTube. Let it rest in peace instead of recommending me some shitty, cringy vlogger for the 1000th time
the_ocalhoun · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We really need an Adult Youtube where:
Adult content is allowed and monetized (including sex/swearing/violence, etc.)
Nobody under 18 is allowed to use it.
Then split off a lot of the stuff you're complaining about to 'youtube kids' ... but still call it just 'youtube', because there's nothing edgy teenagers hate more than stuff explicitly made for kids.
Ransidcheese · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with these points, I just wanted to mention a couple of people who stand out from the crowd to me. CalebCity is pretty good and his content feels very much like Vine. Theres also a guy that made a video called something like "I stayed in VR for a week" and that was pretty good. I kept dodging in in my feed and I was pleasantly surprised when I finally watched it.
But yeah for the most part it's all garbage now.
Kraakefjes · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is that these jackasses are only keep publishing that kind of shit because murder is illegal.
somedude456 · 0 points · Posted at 19:25:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well if you think it's easy to make 25K a month via YT, why are you not?
izvin · 0 points · Posted at 21:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could make lots of money easily being a stripper, doesn't mean anyone wants to do it. Many people works aspire to do something they find challenging and rewarding with career progression and becoming a soulless YouTuber just out to make money by masking self-depreciatatingly low quality videos
(no hate against stripping, it's tough work, I just mean you make a lot of money and it didn't require as much work as jobs that involve something like grad school degrees and technical work).
somedude456 · 0 points · Posted at 21:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another false statement. A friend dated a cocktail server at a strip club for a couple months, so a couple of us became regulars there. You almost feel bad seeing one of the less that model looking girls up there at 9pm on a Tuesday, two songs, and then she gathers up like $12 and gets off the stage.
random_guy11235 · 0 points · Posted at 21:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is not easy, it takes timing and an incredible amount of luck, as well as marketing skill. What it doesn't require is talent, that is what people are saying.
somedude456 · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Video editing isn't talent? People a people person isn't talent? Attempting to put out 2 videos or more a week isn't talent?
BigWilyNotWillie · 22 points · Posted at 17:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you ever watch Fred back in like '08 or '09? I blame him.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 17:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You may want to watch idiocracy.
unobros · 2 points · Posted at 18:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great documentary!
PiranhaPlantMain97 · 14 points · Posted at 18:04:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tbh that's what old Jim Carrey feels like too to me. I guess this kind of humor lives in every generation. just that it used to be snl and now it's youtubers
Nicolis_numbers · 14 points · Posted at 17:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't appeal to anyone over 10 - it's just that the majority people who have time to watch YouTube for 9 hours a day are children, so the content that gets the most popular is content that children would like.
VTL_89 · 6 points · Posted at 18:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or reaction videos. So you aren’t watching the video, you’re watching someone’s...reaction to it? I don’t get it.
Luuce98 · 4 points · Posted at 23:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get it either, but someone said it’s like showing a vid you like to your friend, it fills...something in the people who enjoy it, I think
baguette7991 · 3 points · Posted at 00:05:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reactions are usually fabricated and exaggerated anyways.
Wendyokoopa22 · 5 points · Posted at 17:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lilly Singh coming to mind?
coupde_goodall · 3 points · Posted at 17:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And the WOW, OMG face
no_pepper_games · 4 points · Posted at 18:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget the 1000 jump cuts.
OFark · 5 points · Posted at 17:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone over the mental age of 10.
MaulerX · 4 points · Posted at 18:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a prime example of how YouTube has a shitty side.
https://youtu.be/ljKusH-1erw
chababster · 4 points · Posted at 18:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids. 90% of the huge channels make content for kids.
11629m · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Especially Morgz.
He's basically dollar store Mr. Beast and all his content is so fake.
RaedwaldRex · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My son watches Morgz, he seems to do all these shit challenges that are just pointless or humiliating.
11629m · 5 points · Posted at 21:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am sorry you have to go through that.
RaedwaldRex · 5 points · Posted at 00:16:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks. He shows me all the time "look how crazy Morgz is" yeah very original.
Leoooooolol81 · 4 points · Posted at 19:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aslong as people are enjoying it, I guess it's fine
caninehere · 6 points · Posted at 20:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going to the YouTube home page in incognito mode makes me lose faith in humanity.
happyflappypancakes · 3 points · Posted at 18:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean a 13/14 year old certainly finds that kind of humor funny. It's not like you go from 10 y/o sense of humor 25 y/o sense of humor immediately.
JerryKujo · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. I’m 14 and I mainly watch tech videos, fitness, and Minecraft (hermitcraft mostly).
Edit: Looking back, the transition from watching those dumb YouTubers to normal ones is pretty smooth.
happyflappypancakes · 1 points · Posted at 15:32:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry to break it to your man, but Minecraft videos fall into the 13/14 year old humor category too. But that's fine, my point is that people of different ages just have different tastes.
JerryKujo · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t find the vids funny. I just view them as informational videos that teach me how to play the game.
happyflappypancakes · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah...ok haha
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. My kids watch all these rich gamer guys on YouTube and I feel like all they do is scream and act stupid. It drives me crazy. It is fascinating to me though that they have are able to make so much money just recording themseves stupid.
MylastAccountBroke · 2 points · Posted at 17:41:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of youtubers are just Nick Jr. shows. Kids watch everything you put out there, and don't have to worry about relationships or jobs. You are their priority, so that is 1 guaranteed view per child per video.
Revydown · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The algorithm and autoplay certainly helps as well.
cheque · 2 points · Posted at 17:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don’t need to appeal to anyone over 10 because they only need to get their videos watched to gain exposure and make money. Because of the way the site works there’s no need for to target a more discerning audience and it’s probably counter-productive to do so. They’re children’s entertainers.
BannedText · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sadly the site is designed that way which really sucks for quality content creators making interesting or in general time invested videos.
Plus content that a certain demographic over the age of 10 would want to see is non existent because when videos get age restricted, they are more likely to get demonitized, which lowers the likelihood of that dude making another video. You can copyright claim for the simplest of things and flag a video for small insults directed towards anyone.
cheque · 1 points · Posted at 09:23:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s sad isn’t it? The biggest impact I felt personally was when the incentive became to make long videos rather than lots of videos. Literally a change from quality to quantity. There’s still a lot of content on there that I enjoy but it’s almost all created either by companies that make money from other sources or from people who just do it as a labour of love- it shouldn’t be like that in my opinion.
Mad_Maddin · 2 points · Posted at 17:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah whenever I want to see a letsplay I go for the video with about 10k views instead of the one with 350k views. As they usually play like shit and always has random zoom ins, stupid faces and fake screaming.
morkengork · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The flip side is that since streaming is so popular now, half the let's plays are just re-uploaded streams with zero editing.
Nothing pisses me off more than that shit I swear to God. I'd literally rather have the faketuber than some old stream.
Avitosh · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weird I love the twitch transplants. YouTube stuff is edited heavily and doesn't seem like realistic representation to me.
Does depend if they add in the twitch chat though that's a big plus to me. Then again I'm not watching like TV I just have it going in the background while I do actual shit. In that sense length is more important to me then attention grabbing or gripping.
morkengork · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree. A game can be played just fine without faking but with editing. Or at the very least it can be played unedited but with the player not distracted by a chat. Any time a player interacts with chat, it's time in the video that I didn't go there to watch. It's like if actors in a movie could be seen ending the takes and drinking coffee and asking about their lines. I don't need to see that.
It's different if the chat is live, as it feels better to be part of a stream, but old streams shouldn't be labeled as let's plays. I'm fine if you call it a stream, but if your stream is the first thing that shows up when I search a game, then you're an asshole.
MageLocusta · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're literally the reason why the 'no commentary' tag is now commonly searched on youtube.
BannedText · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TheRadBrad is one of the youtubers I've watched for years. Sadly it feels he only really plays big titles like assassins creed or God of War these days.
It's good if you don't want loneliness like no commentary vids or annoying-Ness like those popular youtubers.
KrazyTrumpeter05 · 2 points · Posted at 18:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And all the fucking quick cuts! I feel like I'm spazzing out when I try to watch some of these videos and there's a half second time jump every 3 seconds. Who the fuck decided that style of editing should be popular?
likemyhashtag · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d say most influencer in general confuse the hell out of me.
I get the views and popularity if the they’re actually teaching you something or are legit entertaining. But I don’t under stand how the people who post 20 minute videos of them shopping at target or going to the park has millions of views. They’re just... regular people.
80_firebird · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't.
GeordiLaFuckinForge · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they’re aiming to entertain children younger than 10, not you. The younger the better. Look up children’s channels with wheels on the bus and shit. Tens of millions of views on every video. Children have endless time, parents give them the iPad, autoplay works its magic. They comment and like when they’re told to do so, can watch repetitive content hundreds of times without getting bored, and don’t leave anything critical in the comments. Way more profitable to aim at children on youtube than adults.
tinyhorsesinmytea · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, I hate the hyperactive, screeching, loud, obnoxious YouTuber persona. No faster way to get me to stop watching a video and to ensure that I will never visit your channel again.
PrinceCheddar · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm similar for let's plays. I can't stand "comedy" let's players where it's just some person who tries to be funny. It's like watching an amateur improv prop comedian, when the prop is whatever is in front of them in the game at the moment.
If I am watching a let's play I either want to have someone who's familiar with the game wanting to take it seriously and share thoughts about the game, real interesting insights with maybe a snark or two, but if it's primarily comedic, I want a group dynamic.
If a person in group makes a joke, it feels genuine. It feels like they're trying to make each other laugh. If they're doing something utterly silly, it's to mess with each other, to get a rise from one another. Others can laugh at jokes or make fun of them for not being funny, which itself can be funny. If someone's playing a scary game, people watching them play can laugh at the player for being scared and encourage them to do what they need to do.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 16:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pewdiepie.
Spyger9 · 9 points · Posted at 20:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're lucky if you think he's the worst.
Don't go digging.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:23:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just find him sooooo annoying. I don’t get how he got 100 mil subs.the next down has like, 60 mil.
SatoHitomi · 7 points · Posted at 21:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuine question, what kind of content does he make that made him the most subbed youtuber on youtube? Ive never watched him ever.
hugoreturns · 6 points · Posted at 22:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gaming, video reactions with his own commentary and opinions about it, he does news and reviews of books and anime.
his content is basic but what led him to popularity is really his personality
he’s a 8/10 in my book and I understand if you don’t like him, his content mostly involves his older content, so most of the humor will go over your heads and you’ll find it weird. And being up to date with his content is not really easy, he has 4000 videos.
his book and philosophy reviews tho, don’t need to watch him to like it, they’re good
SatoHitomi · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder what his life time earning from YouTube e is... Could it be over a hundred mill $$?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 00:52:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
An 8/10 in your book? What a shitty fucking book that must be
sawel · 1 points · Posted at 08:10:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pewdiepie also said the n word
blendinguponhere · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes...that guy is the worst
MayorMcCheeser · 3 points · Posted at 21:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a high school teacher for over a decade now, I have noticed the comedy high school students enjoy has drastically changed. Legitimately believe it is the “YouTube effect”. Students today don’t react to the subtleties of humor nor do they care for a story when it comes to humor, they just want it to be painfully obvious that someone is trying to be funny.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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MayorMcCheeser · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe you made my case in your response for the changing of humor. If you go back I never said it was “worse” or “dumbed down”, I said it has changed.
Also I was never saying they caught the subtleties in MY humor, just humor in general. My job as a teacher isn’t to get them to laugh at my jokes or what I find funny, it is to teach them. I believe if you re-read what I wrote you would see all you did was confirm in your response that comedy has changed, and I said I think Youtube has had a significant impact on that change. That’s all I said and then put in some of the things I’ve noticed in my 11 years of teaching. In my original comment I wasn’t even comparing it to what I find funny, just what high schoolers in 2009 found funny compared to today.
Caasi72 · 2 points · Posted at 18:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna take this moment to promote CJUgames for a second. He's the antithesis to those kind of youtubers and he doesn't get the views he deserves
BannedText · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Him and TheRadBrad are really the only let's play/ Walkthrough youtubers I watch.
CharredScallions · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
jacksepticeye annoys me so much
swaczy · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does morgz have so many subs
Sick_Breh · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve noticed after watching what my kids watch that it seems scripted. I know a lot them “work” for external media companies but I’ve grown to just accept it like Saturday cartoons.
Moluwuchan · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many many YouTubers openly admit to having a script
MysticAviator · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree but apparently it works because these people get incredible amounts of money from ad revenue because so many kids 10 and under watch that shit. I wish there was like a Youtube Kids for kids and regular Youtube was for adults -- oh wait that already exists but nobody gives a shit about it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They cater for children.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's for younger audiences
purplestuff11 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Little kids have ALL DAY to watch YouTube and they don't know how to skip ads.
jeffzebub · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "humor" I dislike on YouTube is people who fake awkwardness or like they've made a mistake when talking about something, but it's completely planned. Also, when they say "blah blah blah blah...so yeah...".
Dragonman558 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about the videos of stuff like "my mom is my sister" or "my dad got me pregnant* and all the shit like that, there was a person that has almost 5 of those videos posted within a month and somehow they were popular, or people like aviatorgaming, just listing the first one I can think of from what I've seen, talking about the first time they had sex or were almost caught and random shit like that, especially when the story is so obviously fake that it's painful to listen to
GlacierWolf8Bit · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The YouTubers know what their audience likes, and thrir audience, which are usually children, lack the understanding of what you or me considers "humor." The current audience will likely grow up and realize that there is better entertainment on YouTube and other web sites, but there will always be a younger audience for that kind of stuff.
subhuman85 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sounds like a post from 2007.
tdrusk · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SteveTerreberry lol
homeopathetic · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congratulations, you're now old. Welcome :-)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably other people have said this but it's probably specifically appealing to kids who are 13 or younger. Youtuber success is solely based on what youtube and their algorithm make popular. First it was short videos to keep people's attention, then when long form videos started making money the video game streamer took off, then with advertisers being wary of content the screaming jake paulers took hold.
Syrinx_Temple_Priest · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The algorithms on Youtube nowadays basically force you to appeal to a very young audience or let your channel die. A lot of channels used to be pretty good, but now they're either gone or they've devolved into clickbait titles and fortnite dances. It's kinda sad, tbh.
The_Twerkinator · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is why I had to go out of my way for horror game youtubers. Most just scream and overreact.
Thankfully there are some who can be enjoyable to watch without the need to be loud every few minutes
Gezzer52 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sometimes think it's more about being in on the "joke" then the joke actually being humorous.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only youtuber I occasionally watch is Stimpee, almost everything else is music.
nohac3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't have to. Most popular youtubers target that audience
Pancakewagon26 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
who do you think YouTube's main audience is?
E_M_E_T · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You kind of answered your own question there
kactusman · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly i dont think most of it is meant to appeal to anyone above the age of 10.
Prince_Arcann · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They often record with high end cameras/microphones and have good editors who make the video entertaining no matter how uninspired the video itself is. Its pleasing to the eye and the ear, thats what i noticed is common among most popular youtubers.
SOwED · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ever see something get wildly popular on YouTube and you can't understand how anyone likes that stupid content, just think about how much free time you have as a college student, or as an adult with a job or whatever. Then think of how much free time kids have. They all have cell phones.
Pascalwb · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
humor for 5 year old kids.
Pezzmaster · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An absurd amount of YouTubers intentionally and illegally target children. Jake Paul himself has openly admitted in interviews that his audience is mostly under the age of 10. It's disgusting
porncrank · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole world used to think throwing a pie in someone's face was the pinnacle of humor.
Mellonhead58 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Answer’s there
FlowerEclipse · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jake Paul and Morgz Also Jake Paul swears in every video and yet parents let their kids watch him?
mt379 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or those stupid videos like "trying cinnamon waffles for the first time" which are 30 minutes or longer
akg720 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get this either. My daughter watches a YouTuber that does nothing but play Minecraft and fucking yell in these stupid ass voices. It’s awful.
Chuffnell · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s because you’re not their target audience.
ADmax27 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the Internet is basically completely filled with 12 year olds. It’s only because they have that much more free time.
thewillabay · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It they eat and torture live animals @ssoyoung YT
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slapstick only is only funny to children who are 10 or less, that's why
dragoneye · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, Will Ferrell is somehow popular and that is all he does...
goalis180lbs · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Screaming, making faces and Goofy dances is funny... Don't be so uptight and you will understand
XxgirraffezzxX · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some of the youtubers i watch i like but they scream way to much like they peak their microphones and its annoying as shit.
44tacocat44 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or they try to hurt each other and call it a prank.
MildGonolini · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t, fortunately for then people under 10 make up a significant portion of YouTube’s audience.
EnglishTeachers · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unspeakable! Can’t stand it. My 7yr old loves it though, keeps bugging me to buy Unspeakable merch. Just a bunch of yowling and screeching. He laughs like a hyena. But ya know he probably stacks cash, so, maybe joke’s on me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excluding pewdiepie
opensandshuts · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
same with tiktok. its middle school humor
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean that’s part of it but I like people like jacksepticeye because of how good of a person he is and he does have some good jokes. Granted I’m 13 so I don’t really have a say in this
BernieOrElse2020 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
everyone is lonely
Beast_001 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My son (8 years old) loves to watch various gamer youtube videos, he calls it the YouTube accent.
VymI · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't. <10 is a huge market on youtube.
turd_rock · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a feeling that it's the exact same reason that Two and Half Men, Two Broke Girls and Big Bang Theory are all insanely popular.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't. That's their target audience. Craziest thing is, almost every youtuber is 10x less funny and interesting due to all the video editing making them funny and interesting.
saltywings · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I am glad Reddit gave me Gus Johnson.
8483 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idiocracy!
aviation1300 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking as someone who was 12 when Minecraft became very popular, it was screaming and swearing that I thought was the funniest thing ever.
JakobeCrosswalk · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work at an elementary school and overheard the kids talking about a minecraft YouTuber named “Skeppy”. Came across one of his videos, watched it for about 5 minutes... couldn’t watch anymore. It was just him making the most stupid jokes and attempting to be funny. I wonder if my humour was the same when I was 13
KelleyK_CVT · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My child is 10 and this is his favorite You Time genre. I don't understand it either and I am constantly asking him to lower the volume, but I just remind myself that my parents thought Ren and Stimpy, Ed, Edd, and Eddy, and a few other 90's classics were just awful and didn't understand my interest. Every generation has their thing, I guess.
datches89 · 3501 points · Posted at 15:08:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quibi - Why do I keep seeing / hearing ads for it everywhere? Are people actually watching these shows? What's the appeal?
OuterCityMatt · 1187 points · Posted at 17:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
As far as I can tell the only reason people are talking about it is that it had huge investors, over a billion dollars in startup capital, and it looks like a terrible instant failure in addition to being yet another startup whose entire premise is sidestepping labor laws (citation needed). I think there is a small chance it could be successful, but I really doubt it.
Edit: mis-remembered sidestepping labor laws as complaints by entertainment workers that the ten-minute format is part of a scheme to pay workers less, learned from Griffin Newman's twitter:
https://twitter.com/GriffLightning/status/1247189766333960203
Whatisadorb · 128 points · Posted at 19:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I know about it is that the episodes (maybe not all?) claim they are only 10 minutes long.
Okay, but talk to Netflix about my 5 hour binges. 10 minutes does nothing for me.
turbo5 · 93 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right but it's intended to be watched on a phone. I think the premise is watch one when you have 10 minutes to kill and you aren't at home, so they can shove ads down your throat.
LaboratoryManiac · 134 points · Posted at 19:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So... YouTube?
Like, everything I hear about it makes me think it's just a high-budget YouTube. That doesn't really get my motor running.
SuperFLEB · 26 points · Posted at 21:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y'know that person who's always on about how they have an idea for the next big Facebook or the next big YouTube if someone would just do all the work? Someone gave one of those people money, it seems.
turbo5 · 13 points · Posted at 21:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More or less, but I guess their sell is that it has a higher production quality/more narrative/actors you might recognize from other media. I'm not sold on it either, just assuming based on all the ads on other platforms.
Helsleycopter · 3 points · Posted at 02:31:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to say, I'm enjoying the production values of a lot more of their shows than I thought. It's truly perfect for a lull in work out there in the retail world right now. They do some really cool things with cinematography as it relates to a phone/rotation (it's hard to explain) and overall I find serial shows to be broken up well, with quality writing and a sufficiently "cliffhanger-y" ending.
insan3guy · 11 points · Posted at 21:08:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Youtube is already high budget, they lose loads of money doing it
adimaria · 7 points · Posted at 22:44:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The service is, the content isn’t. Quibi, i think, is basically the level of production you’d see in a good TV show, but only 10 minutes long
the_ocalhoun · 9 points · Posted at 20:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno. Most of the youtube videos I like are in the 20-30 minute range. But maybe that's just me.
bipedalbitch · 40 points · Posted at 19:38:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s such a weird concept to me. 10 minutes doesn’t seem like a lot but to people, or an entire generation who have grown use to instant gratification, 10 minutes might be too long.
The reason vine and tiktok took off was because they promised to give you good content in 6seconds-1 minute. Very little “risk” there.
I say risk because when you’re. Trying something new you’re taking a risk that it won’t be bad and waste your time. That’s why people are slow to try new shows they’ve never heard of or YouTube channels with low views/subs. There’s so much proven content out there.
If anything they should’ve gone for like 5 minutes, but idk. I don’t think it’ll take off.
turbo5 · 7 points · Posted at 21:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but vine and tiktok are user generated content, those companies didn't/don't invest significantly into making content, just the platform. There's not really any risk, except your platform not getting noticed and becoming unsustainable to operate.
I think quibi is literally trying to be 30 minute tv shows, condensed to 10 minutes and front loaded with ads. I agree it's risky, and think it will take off either, but I'm curious to see what happens. Personally, I think they just dumped a ton of ad dollars into getting brand recognition and it's over-hyped.
bipedalbitch · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:21 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree the platforms are different but I was referring to the “risk” (idk if there was a better word I could’ve used) of the watcher because 10 minutes isn’t short enough. From the stance of normal tv, yea it’s short cuz it’s half the usual 23~ minute runtime. But idt 10 minutes is a lot of time to people.
That’s all I was sayin, I think they should’ve gone shorter if they wanted to get peoples attention
Zenco3DS · 17 points · Posted at 19:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbf I'm more inclined to binge a dozen 15 minute long episodes of something than I am three 1 hour long episodes of something. My attention span isn't that great
snt271 · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it's 10 minutes. It feels to short to get a good plot. I'd rather watch a 10 minute YouTube video than a 20 minute one because they don't revolve around a plot, but I'd rather math a 20 minute episode of a show than a 10 minute one
UsernameChallenged · 29 points · Posted at 20:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw the first commercial with the pilots who say something like "it'll be another Quibi" while eating yogurt, and for the longest time I thought they were advertising the yogurt.
underpantsbandit · 19 points · Posted at 22:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The commercials are fucking terrible. I legit had no idea what the fuck they were trying to advertise.
AMaterialGuy · 48 points · Posted at 20:00:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I have some insight into the investor side of this so I want to try to help explain that here.
This might seem like talking a bunch of nonsense, so take it for what it's worth, but it comes from someone who was steeped in the Silicon Valley for 30 years, actively involved with tech companies, and has several friends and their family members who have successfully launched and sold tech companies.
Since the dot-com boom VCs and investors have been shifting their target. Newly successful business founders fit this too (my best friends' fathers fit this profile).
Michael Seibel talked about it last year at startup grind 2019 as well.
The tldr is: VCs and investors are afraid to fail, so they only focus on things that look like success. That includes people good at pitching, networking, and dressing up a product as a winner.
This is one key reason Kleiner Perkins has fallen by the wayside.
Investors aren't really investing in moonshots anymore. Big companies are, but the seriously suck at launching them.
Alphabet's X, the moonshot factory is notorious for failing to launch brilliant products. Google routinely kills off brilliant things because of internal politics and other ideas being sold well when they're really shit.
Want to see another great example of this, look no further than Alphabet's company Verily, which tore themselves apart from the inside.
Those who have successfully accumulated wealth are no longer innovating. They aren't putting their money into companies that are as unproven as theirs was when they started.
They want to see you successfully have users and traction, revenue and a fully fleshed out business plan.
But did they?
Elon Musk is an exception to this rule, but it's his ideas that he's promoting, not so much other people's. He keeps it in the family.
Investors have turned into late-adopters instead of early ones
Why are they suddenly throwing tons of money at a platform like Quibi?
Because they realize that if Disney and others are getting into the streaming game, then there must be potential there, instead of investing BEFORE it was a "good idea".
Quibi has sold themself well, on a popular model, and so investors are flocking to them
As someone who grew up down the road from Sand Hill road and Stanford university in the heart of the Silicon Valley, I'm so sad about the death of VCs and successful business founders-turned-investors, their lack of innovation, them being fearful, is killing companies that should be successful startups.
It's preventing people with brilliant ideas from succeeding.
As a founder of 2 startups, We are having to bootstrap and we refuse to spend time pitching to investors. It's not worth it. We also don't want them causing issues trying to pump and dump us.
We may consider a zero-interest business loan, like what Curt Richardson (Founder of Otterbox) does.
Also, I should note here, I have personally invested time and money in both other people's startups as well as a couple individual student researchers.
Some of those startups fizzled out but some are still growing and the individual researchers have won several awards with their work.
These were people that VCs and investors wouldn't give the time of day to because they didn't look like winners
But they were and are.
Any company like Quibi and Zoom that throws as much money at advertising as they have should be avoided.
Advertising, networking, and dressing-up something as a "winner" doesn't make a great product.
That's a common misconception that I saw a lot of in the Albany, New York area.
cpt-kuro · 14 points · Posted at 20:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What specifically made you mention Albany, NY at the end of your comment? Just curious, it was an unexpected twist to a comment that started out in the silicon valley, and I'm from NY.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m from Albany myself.
It’s at an odd spot, where southern Canada, the American Midwest, New England, and NYC’s influence all meld into a perfect storm, where everyone has profoundly different values and ideas and needs, and they all hate each other.
Literally the only thing people can agree on is whatever is good at looking flashy and new and cool - whatever advertises itself well, in other words. It’s literally the only value that transcends over to everyone.
AMaterialGuy · 5 points · Posted at 23:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
And often those good at selling and flashy looking things really aren't very substantive or great quality. Albany and the Silicon Valley share this quality now.
A friend of mine from upstate New York put it well:
Also, often times you get someone good at being a tyrant monarch pushing their "brilliant" ideas.
See Shirley Ann Jackson for this.
And those ideas are arcane, outdated, poorly implemented, and even a junior person with the really great idea gets shut down.
OR, worse yet, someone has their idea stolen, they get cut out, and then it gets implemented very poorly.
I saw that happen too many times.
AMaterialGuy · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
100% what u/yacantbeatdaclassix said
sleepymusic · 29 points · Posted at 20:58:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really can't read in this format, it's driving me insane haha
DukeofVermont · 17 points · Posted at 21:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TLDR: Investors don't want big risks so instead of investing in unknown concepts and ideas they flock to start ups that look like companies that are already successful (even though a lot of those companies are just pigs with lipstick).
So investors flock to Quibi because it looks like NETFLIX but with 10 min stuff, vs investing their money in a new unproven idea.
sleepymusic · 5 points · Posted at 21:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thanks
AMaterialGuy · 3 points · Posted at 23:52:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I guess I illustrated which end of the spectrum I fall on (definitely not the sales and advertising)
JQuick · 4 points · Posted at 21:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really looks like shit doesn't it
aure__entuluva · 18 points · Posted at 19:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait, why would you assume this? I would assume they produce shows like any other competitor (i.e. Netflix, Amazon, etc.). That industry uses a lot of gig labor already, but I don't see why Quibi would be especially bad.
zachwolf · 12 points · Posted at 21:19:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They have no idea what they’re talking about lol
jpstanton93 · 4 points · Posted at 20:58:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn't Verizon try something like this a couple years ago with go90? And it failed...
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:22:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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OuterCityMatt · 4 points · Posted at 21:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, was remembering wrong, it's not exactly laws being sidestepped, but according to Griffin Newman and others, the ten minute format of the shows are designed to be able to pay entertainment workers at lower rates due to union agreements made some time ago:
https://twitter.com/GriffLightning/status/1247189766333960203
Lagspresso · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like Bloomberg's campaign: lots of commercials and no followers.
upstatedreaming3816 · 1 points · Posted at 04:32:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t forget a-list talent
baconworld · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you think they're side stepping labour laws? What are you basing that on?
OuterCityMatt · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, these giant comments threads are a mess and I'm not a particularly savvy reddit user, anyway, I mis-remembered, see this comment:
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/what_do_you_genuinely_not_understand/fn4gh0m?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x
JabTrill · 366 points · Posted at 16:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it just got released and it's a mobile exclusive streaming service that has a bunch of original content from some B list actors. Idk if people are actually watching the shows, but they've had a huge marketing effort the last week or so
CouncilmanRickPrime · 9 points · Posted at 21:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the idea is people have short ass attention spans and a mobile only app for short content seems like it could be a good idea. Who knows, it depends on how the first people who get into this type of stuff feel about it.
Personally, streaming shows have no need for episodes to be 30 minutes or an hour. They could and should be any length the creators want. I kinda liked that about the OA, some episodes were shorter and others were longer. I never knew when the episodes were about to end.
bro420911 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:36 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/savetheoa
SuperFLEB · 7 points · Posted at 21:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like they took the best ideas from 2010... then disregarded them and went with the crappy ideas from 2010 instead.
waceyhawpuh · 14 points · Posted at 21:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They've actually got quite a few good actors, idk what your definition of B List is but I've seen Christoph Waltz, Sophie Turner, Mark Duplass, Maika Monroe, Will Forte, and Dane DeHaan to name a few and I enjoy all of their work very much.
bros402 · 6 points · Posted at 02:16:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say Waltz is A list, or B+, Sophie Turner, Will Forte, and maybe Mark Duplass are B List. Never heard of Maika Monroe or Dane DeHaan. Googled them.... still never heard of Maika, but Dane was in Chronicle.
JabTrill · 11 points · Posted at 01:10:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd consider them B List celebrities besides Waltz who is prob A List. A List are like the Brad Pitt, Will Ferrell, Jennifer Lawrence, etc.
Embarrassed_Cow · 1 points · Posted at 10:02:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id personally consider them all A list tbh. I knew who they were when I saw there names and could link movies to them. But maybe we need a more definitive definition of A and B list.
JabTrill · 1 points · Posted at 14:12:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh it's all subjective I guess, but I think you'd be shocked how many people have never heard of any of those actors besides maybe Waltz
Embarrassed_Cow · 1 points · Posted at 14:18:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mention veteran actors to my friends all the time. They have no idea who I'm talking about. Took me a while to realize a lot of people don't care about actors or who they are. So I guess it wouldn't surprise me. I see a movie I like and an actor that does a good job and then I watch the movies they've been in. So if imagine my idea of A and B is a bit skewed. I watch too many movies and TV. Lol
HonPhryneFisher · 13 points · Posted at 17:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is gonna have Reno911! on it. I am gonna watch the hell out of it. I actually have no idea what else is going to be on it, I haven't seen any ads!
uselesslyskilled · 9 points · Posted at 19:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been using the free trial and watching a show called flipped with Dee from it's always Sunny and Tandy from last man on Earth. So far I like it and wish it was a real show on tv
xxjasper012 · 20 points · Posted at 18:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This comment changed my entire opinion of the app
cup-o-farts · 5 points · Posted at 21:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well this actually changes everything.
Quirky_Resist · 4 points · Posted at 22:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
okay, this actually sounds amazing. i liked Reno 911, but i could definitely see it being better if it were just short clips instead of full episodes.
DemonicEntity · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I’m gonna download Quibi. Immediately.
Kablamo189 · 7 points · Posted at 21:51:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what world is Christoph Waltz a B-List actor?
JabTrill · 3 points · Posted at 01:11:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's not. Basically the rest are
RmmThrowAway · 372 points · Posted at 17:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's even released yet. It seems like it was a dumb idea that someone over-funded, but then with COVID Lockdown the formerly-just-embezzling-vc-money person running it decided it might actually work out.
jello34 · 16 points · Posted at 22:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually kinda think COVID might have ruined Quibi. The whole premise was that people don’t have time for long form TV anymore, not even 21 minute sitcoms. So Quibi is trying to market something that you can watch, in full, on your phone, while waiting at the dentist’s office, in a short Uber ride, etc. But the problem is, all of a sudden we all have time for long form tv now. There’s no more short 10 minute pauses in the day where the only convenient option is to look at your phone. There’s no more waiting in line, no more cab rides, just everyone at home unemployed or working remotely. Their niche disappeared right before their eyes.
ScreamingGordita · 8 points · Posted at 02:39:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the hell would want to watch a TV show in a cab?
WR810 · 35 points · Posted at 18:58:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It was released this week.
It was a big topic on /r/television for having 7.5% of what Disney+ had in first day sign ups.
Maninhartsford · 22 points · Posted at 19:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Worse than that - only 7 percent of what disney+ got in MOBILE DOWNLOADS, not counting laptops or TV apps
PhAnToM444 · 15 points · Posted at 21:04:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is important because Quibi is mobile only.
You can’t watch the shows anywhere but a mobile device and they’re all filmed vertical.
waceyhawpuh · 10 points · Posted at 21:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not true, you can watch them vertical or horizontal and the picture adjusts.
workswimplay · 8 points · Posted at 22:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right and can’t even put it on my TV with airplay! Ridiculous
DemonicEntity · 8 points · Posted at 22:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof. That’s gonna be a no from me, dawg.
ScreamingGordita · 2 points · Posted at 02:38:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit that's beyond stupid, what the hell?
raging-rageaholic · 13 points · Posted at 20:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing an enormous marketing push is a valid strategy. No comment on whether it’s a good strategy.
hilfigertout · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's worked before.
See: Minions.
zachwolf · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure the release has been scheduled before lock down was even mentioned lol
RmmThrowAway · 5 points · Posted at 01:16:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having a release doesn't mean you have a functional product. Just look at Stadia.
zachwolf · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure but COVID has nothing to do with it
RmmThrowAway · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you don't think a major disaster that's dramatically shifted americans leisure time and streaming preferences had a huge impact on a new streaming service, you're much farther down the road of thinking "Quibi is a scam" than I am.
zachwolf · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re right, it’s all a marketing scheme lol
allanmonroe · 27 points · Posted at 18:10:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theres only been about 300,000 sign ups on launch day - they invested over 1 billion to get the app going, make content and market
Mrs_ChanandlerBong_ · 9 points · Posted at 20:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't paying close attention so I didn't even know what the commercials were marketing. That could be one problem.
datches89 · 8 points · Posted at 20:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The commercials on Hulu and my podcasts seemed vague to me. Sounds like a lot of people are excited for some of these series, so maybe those numbers will go up with word-of-mouth?
allanmonroe · 7 points · Posted at 21:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its possible but I think the idea of watching a scripted series in 6-10 minute bites might get old quick - only time will tell
yellowelmos · 1 points · Posted at 08:16:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might download it because I feel bad for them lol
natedoglit · 40 points · Posted at 19:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Due to the sheet number of ads I've been bombarded with, I will not use their service. Honestly Quibi, bug off.
Spaventoo · 20 points · Posted at 18:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldnt worry about it. You won't hear about it in 6 months when they burn through all their cash.
5-On-A-Toboggan · 18 points · Posted at 18:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta throw millions around to generate that user base. I remember when everyone was talking about Pandora.
Kukri_and_a_45 · 18 points · Posted at 19:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone sitting listening to Pandora while typing this comment, I can confirm that some people do use it.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What Pandora was huge before spotify
relatablerobot · 15 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was an episode of the Morning Brew’s Business Casual podcast with Quibi’s CEO as the guest this past week. They’re basically trying to fill a really particular niche for consumers in the ~10 minute format. So think your favorite YouTube channel, but with paid content from known names (I’m pretty sure she said they bought a series from Spielberg? I might not be remembering correctly). Their whole business plan is predicated on the idea that video consumerism is going to have an ever increasing share of smartphone viewers, who are often in transit, and that 10 minute video time is gonna be the future of tv experience.
MathBelieve · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really really hope this is not the future of TV.
relatablerobot · 1 points · Posted at 06:19:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. I’m not sure it’ll work, but it’s an interesting adjustment to new consumer trends
The_Music_Director · 13 points · Posted at 21:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work with Quibi. The idea is super-premium content from huge names in quick-format videos. I actually think, or thought, it was a great idea after hearing their pitch but two things happened that I think will sink it.
I can not believe how bad their advertising is. I saw their super bowl ad and really confused, and I actually knew what it was. I can’t believe how confusing it must have been for someone who didn’t.
I think the Covid situation is going to hurt it rather than help it. It was made to be on the go, and if you’re traveling or commuting on a train or something, you might be bored and check it out and get hooked. When you’re staying at home all day and Hulu/Netflix are killing it, you’re just going to keep adding to your watch list. People aren’t in the situations Quibi was meant for.
katieb2342 · 4 points · Posted at 23:17:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I think both points are right on. The commercials that I've seen up until these week just kept telling me "a quibi is 10 minutes" with no context other than celebrities.
I'm not a big fan of 10 minute content personally, I'd rather a minute or two on my phone or 20+ minutes on my TV/computer. But I can definitely see people watching a 10 minute clip in an Uber or waiting room, in between the rest of their life. Now people don't have those awkward breaks they want to fill with something.
weedmane · 2 points · Posted at 14:36:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know they have a 3 month free trial right now but it being a paid subscription service will also contribute to it's failure. $5 a month with ads or $8 without? No thanks. There are a myriad of things I can already do for free to entertain myself during those commutes.
The_Music_Director · 1 points · Posted at 17:40:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm with you there. I believe Hulu has a similar model but the idea of paying for a monthly subscription and still receiving ads is kind of shit. For Hulu I think it works because you pay for cable and get ads, you pay for movies and get ads, but you don't pay for Snapchat, Instagram, Youtube, and other mobile formats unless you want to want to eliminate ads.
I also think it's stupid that they introduced the free trial with an option to receive ads or not. No one is going to choose to watch ads if it's optional and it's going to contribute to a huge dropoff in subscribers once the trial ends while also reducing ad revenue in the next couple of months. Plus it has also royally pissed off the advertisers (I am deeply involved with one of the advertisers).
TheGlassCat · 11 points · Posted at 20:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never mind of it. What is a quibi? Sound like a ripoff of qbert.
kysnou_ · 10 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the longest time I thought they were like some sort of doordash competitor. Their original ads said literally nothing about what it was or what it did.
datches89 · 5 points · Posted at 20:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I was so confused! The ads were so vague, at first I thought it was celebs making 10 minute life videos, like an Instagram TV
Fire2box · 11 points · Posted at 19:40:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just like Go90 or Vessel. huge campaign marketing, services no one's asked for or just a massive overreach.
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was Go90 and Vessel?
Fire2box · 5 points · Posted at 05:41:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go90 was some scattershot video service by Verizon "The service was positioned as a mobile-oriented 'social entertainment platform' targeted primarily towards millennials, featuring a mixture of new and acquired content from various providers. "
Meanwhile Vessel was legit trying to be a competitor to Youtube going as far as paying established youtubers such as LinusTechTips for video's 7 days before they go up on youtube. Vessel had a monthly subscription fee so there wasn't any ad's (least when I used it) and Veesel used said money to pay the youtubers.
However when Vessel launched and Linus Media Group joined it Vessel somehow thought it was a good idea to give a ENTIRE year of service away for free while paying youtubers who have millions of subscribers enough to delay content on youtube for a week. So I hope you can see how Vessel bled cash, a lot of cash. Verizon bought out what team remained at Vessel and put them to work on their go90 platform.
Meanwhile Vessel let Linus Media Group test out 7 day early acess content, higher bitrate videos so they used it as a test to make Floatplane Club. Linus and Luke have a video on it here. And they are not trying to make it compete with youtube or twitch. They just want to deliver technically high quality video service for those who want to pay for it and get paid by their fans.
Floatplane TL'DR, I guess if Libertarians made a video service.
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 08:11:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the long and detailed explanation!
Kingmenudo · 10 points · Posted at 19:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
laughs in YouTube
datches89 · -3 points · Posted at 20:56:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time limited YouTube videos starring celebrities was really what I thought at first. What people have told me make it sound a lot better
skaterdog · -1 points · Posted at 21:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok shill
Minetendo0000 · 8 points · Posted at 20:36:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the frick is a quibi
OddFeature · 5 points · Posted at 19:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is there to understand? It’s just another streaming service, but they’re trying to capture a niche in the mobile, on-the-go, quick-bites market. I haven’t checked out any of the shows because I have tons of other stuff I still need to watch, but I’m sure there are people outside of the Reddit bubble that find some of their content enticing.
And it just launched, so they’re trying to advertise their brand new service. That’s why you keeping seeing ads for it.
datches89 · 6 points · Posted at 20:54:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At first I thought it was like an Instagram TV for celebrities making mock TV shows. The commercials on Hulu and my podcasts were pretty vague. I'm learning a lot now, it seems like they're high production 10 minute episodes. Pretty interesting
OddFeature · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I don’t personally find much value in it, but I really like the idea of having a 10-15 minute high quality tv episode you could watch on a subway ride or something. It’s certainly niche, but I think the concept is interesting. Sometimes you just need 10-15 minutes of content while on the go and this is exactly that. YouTube certainly fills a similar role, but I like the idea of a serialized show with very short episode times.
sm3rsh · 10 points · Posted at 18:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
New Reno911!
psiufao · 13 points · Posted at 20:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reno 911 is funny but I'll be goddamned if that's enough to make me want to subscribe to yet another streaming service that is mobile only and limited to 10 minute episodes. It could work for Reno 911, I admit, but like a different poster said up there ^ somewhere, (paraphrasing) if it's good at 10 minutes wouldn't it be EVEN BETTER if it was, like, a "real show" that was longer than 10 minutes?
I won't make a prediction about whether Quibi will survive or not (you kids these days seem to watch a lot of what I would humbly refer to as "dumb shit" and that's a pretty big market, so...) but it doesn't seem likely to me.
If I have < 10 minutes to kill I can think of at least 100 things I can do on/with my phone that I'd rather fill that time with (*cough*reddit, anyone?*cough*). Clearly I'm not the target demographic, though.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both agree and disagree - I think the concept is actually really great, I often have these little chunks of time that’s too short for a tv show that I usually fill mindlessly redditing and wouldn’t mind entertainment for.
However, I too don’t want to pay for a streaming service just for that. I’d be fine with some ad support, which I get negates the idea a bit as it lengthens the episode time, but still. If the show was 10 mins and I had to watch a 30 second ad during it, I’d be down.
weedmane · 1 points · Posted at 14:39:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny thing is, they have ads. It's $5 a month with ads or $8 a month without. It's a terrible business model.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:45:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy poo what?!? Damn, I really like the concept but feel they’re being way too aggressive with the cost structure.
datches89 · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had no idea! That's great for Reno911! fans!
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it has chance the rapper and that’s it
Rusgirl55 · 4 points · Posted at 20:51:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every time I see Chrissy Teigen with a judge’s robe on, I cringe.
eb0821 · 4 points · Posted at 20:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a show with Will Forte and Kaitlin Olson that looks REALLY funny... I'm pretty excited for it lol Judge away. https://youtu.be/QjChUpPvYWs
datches89 · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw the quick scene with those two, but I didn't know it was an original series. That's great, I love them!
eb0821 · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It looks really funny! I know it's started, but I haven't watched it yet. I'm legit excited lol
random_guy11235 · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It actually doesn't look too bad! But is it literally mobile-only? Because if so I'm going to pass; that's the worst possible way to watch shows.
weedmane · 2 points · Posted at 14:40:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is.
Trey5169 · 6 points · Posted at 19:51:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You see adds because someone spent a ton of money on advertising.
Quinn's ad budget was like $500 mil I think. This doesn't make it a great service though.
G-Force-499 · 3 points · Posted at 20:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s half their budget. Jesus. You could do so much more with $850m production budget and $150m marketing budget. It doesn’t even have to be an app, just a film studio. That’s a waste.
TheCosmicSquid8 · 5 points · Posted at 19:06:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah they got Chance the Rapper doing ads for it too. Weird.
AndreaAmazing · 7 points · Posted at 20:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He’s doing a new Punk’d show on Quibi, apparently, hence the ads.
gatorsya · 4 points · Posted at 19:53:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Last thing I wanted in my life is "Answered by Vox" show. Yuckk.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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datches89 · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Podcasts moved to Quibi? I had no idea! Thanks! Hope you enjoy the new platform
Southdrive · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahah I filmed a show for this thing before even knowing what it was, now I dread seeing myself on it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few of the shows are decent.
Favorite so far is The Most Dangerous Game. It’s got Liam Hemsworth and Christoph Waltz in it. Cool premise.
“I Promise” is a little documentary about Lebrons school.
Can’t wait for Reno 911, that’s the only reason I downloaded it.
Whether or not I’ll pay for it...probably not. But who knows!
doodlez420 · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah like whats the point in having an app that makes the episodes of a tv show that i can just watch on Netflix shorter?
Quirky_Resist · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i signed up because it's a 90 day free trial, scrolled through the list of content, didn't see anything interesting, and closed the app.
tommygunz007 · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's the Jewish guy who was the former head of Disney or Pixar or something? Katzenberg? I think it's his competition to Netflix?
el_supreme_duderino · 2 points · Posted at 22:55:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a solution in search of a problem. Fuck that nonsense.
RealBlitzComet · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shows? Is it a streaming service? I’ve seen so many commercials but I don’t think any have explicitly said what the product is.
hvanschaick · 3 points · Posted at 19:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ll answer this for you as soon as I finish my quibi. One sec
datches89 · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't you mean 10 Quibi minutes?
namrog84 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mentioning it just now is the first I've ever even heard or seen that name. Had to search internet for what it was.
theejohnPnom · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause on some weird, primal level people want to see a car crash
Alex15630 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. They make it seem so big, should I invest now? Or are they making it seem much more popular then it is?
ZomeyTvOnYoutube · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
DO NOT INVEST
fartassmcjesus · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SAME! Advertisements are so annoying. They introduce the product but don't say what it is. I'm purposely going to avoid that product because of its annoying marketing strategy.
WeirdWest · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d never heard of it. Went and downloaded it, and there’s a fee to watch it? No thanks!
ScreamingGordita · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently it already came out lol, had no fucking clue.
Why would I want to watch TV on my fucking phone?
thedicestoppedrollin · -1 points · Posted at 20:09:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also Carvana. Saw a bunch of ads for it in the past several months. Buy a car while watching your favorite show on Netflix? How is that a good idea?
kwonyewest · 90 points · Posted at 18:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I still can't fully grasp voltage and current and which one matters more in terms of "powering" an electrical device.
boi_skelly · 16 points · Posted at 22:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can use a hydraulic metaphor. Voltage is like pressure in a system. Current is the flow rate. Transistors are values or switches. Resistance is friction, resistance to flow. Motors are like turbines. For a motor, the voltage(pressure) pushes a motor(turbine) at a given current(flow rate) and outputs meaningful mechanical work. You need both voltage and current to power a device, with them being related as work=current*voltage.
kwonyewest · 2 points · Posted at 00:24:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for that - so let's imagine a simple circuit with 1 3V battery and one load (light bulb). What does "potential difference" mean? Like after the electrons go through a load, are those electrons (after vs. before) without a charge? Furthermore, same scenario, let's use 3 loads (in series), do the electrons "know" not to use the full charge after going through the first load and divides them evenly between the 3 loads?
boi_skelly · 7 points · Posted at 00:31:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So voltage is potential difference. It's the difference between point A and point B, the electromotive force. Like a pressure. We designate one point as zero volts. The potential difference in your case would be 3 volts. It's the difference from a reference zero point. Charge is innate to an electron and doesnt change ever. Energy is released when an electron goes from higher voltage to lower, like a ball going down a hill. Voltage is a measure of potential energy. The voltage is split between loads relative to the amount of energy it takes to run them, or their resistance. I can get more into the units and how they relate if that would help you.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 08:51:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Voltage is pressure" is the best analogy I've ever seen for it. Nice one, I'll have to use that going forward.
H8username · 10 points · Posted at 20:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ohm's law my man
DirtyBendavitz · 6 points · Posted at 00:09:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The simplest explanation I've been able to think of is using a river/stream. The width is the voltage and the amount of water is the amperage.
Say the river is 100ft wide but there is only 1ft depth of water running through it.
If you maintained the amount of water and suddenly shrunk the width to 10ft you would now have 10ft deep water.
It's the same amount of power in both cases but standing in 1ft depth is much safer.
As far as power goes 12v and 10a are combined to make 120watts but so is 120v and 1a. Watts are power and the higher the voltage the less resistance caused by the amps in the wire. With more resistance you lose more power in the form of heat this making it less efficient over long distances. That's why our power lines are 600k to 1m volts
kwonyewest · 2 points · Posted at 00:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for that - so let's imagine a simple circuit with 1 3V battery and one load (light bulb). What does "potential difference" mean? Like after the electrons go through a load, are those electrons (after vs. before) without a charge? Furthermore, same scenario, let's use 3 loads (in series), do the electrons "know" not to use the full charge after going through the first load and divides them evenly between the 3 loads?
DirtyBendavitz · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just did a quick search. Potential difference is the theoretical term for voltage. They're the same.
I can answer your 3 series inquiry: the light bulb "knows" how much to use. It can only handle so much current before popping. Homes in the us are typically wired to provide 120v and the sockets typically allow for up to 15a. The light bulb has access to the 15a but it won't use it because the filaments (width of the steam) don't allow for that amount of flow.
The reason the bulb doesn't pop is because it's not in the direct line of the river but rather a small stream that breaks away and then flows back in
youcancallmedavid · 2 points · Posted at 09:27:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sincerely: thank you. I think I'll still struggle with it a little longer, but this helps immensely.
kricketshipgowop · 7 points · Posted at 22:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Charges go skrrt.
PurpleFlame8 · 3 points · Posted at 06:35:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voltage is like gravity and it causes electrons to "fall" through the circuit. Current is like the velocity of the electrons.
Ialyos · 2 points · Posted at 05:48:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a lot of trouble with this. My high level guidelines are as follows:
Generally, a consumer of electricity will have a power it needs to run (watts) and a specific rating for current and voltage that looks something like 2 amps -=== 5v.
You can't generally provide too many amps to a device, but you can provide too much voltage.
So in terms of which one matters more for powering a device, you should generally be able to find the watts a device needs and the voltage it runs at, and infer the amps you need to provide.
Once you piece this all together, you can see some obvious patterns. For example, most electric space heaters never go over 1500 watts. Since we know that US outlets have 110v, it seems the limit for amps is near 15A, since 15A * 110v = 1650 watts.
If you look up max amperage in US households you'll find that most are 15 or 20 amps
tl;dr Figure out the watts and voltage you device runs at, and then solve for the amps you need.
TakeOffOurShirtsAndX · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:22 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's just fundamentally electricity. Like, are there actual electrons flowing in there, like physically? If you had a microscope that could see electrons, could you see them moving down the wire?
And alternating current - why doesn't that result in the device turning itself off and on 50 times a second?
vuduceltix · 1003 points · Posted at 13:31:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sagging
peppers_taste_bad · 738 points · Posted at 14:41:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can't stay perky forever
PhoneJazz · 829 points · Posted at 15:40:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But enough about your balls.
UpdootDaSnootBoop · 38 points · Posted at 20:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was voted perkiest balls in my confirmation class
Hahonryuu · 23 points · Posted at 19:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the contrary, your mother doesn't seem to have had enough of them yet.
RoboDroid390 · 27 points · Posted at 20:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh how I miss modern warfare 2 lobbies :(
Hahonryuu · 11 points · Posted at 20:47:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Glad I could help with your nostalgia!
IrvingIV · 5 points · Posted at 00:09:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You broke your arms, too, cousin?
I-seddit · 8 points · Posted at 21:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm convinced there's a song somewhere called "Perky Balls"
not-important-enough · 4 points · Posted at 22:01:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is song called “Big Balls” by AC/DC
I-seddit · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's right! "Big bouncy balls" too.
jordomozo · 2 points · Posted at 01:26:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just asking on the off chance... was that an IT Crowd reference? It’s a long shot but it’s where my brain went when I read it.
PhoneJazz · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope but I still love that show!
NiteAngyl · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my, old chap. Seems your balls are positively perky this morn'!
kerill333 · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can, if you're lucky.
MathMaddox · 45 points · Posted at 16:07:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jeans? Tits? Balls?
ShiaLaMoose · 18 points · Posted at 19:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All at once
Lethargie · 13 points · Posted at 21:08:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you see, if your balls sag you might want saggier jeans to give them room to swing free. If you buy saggy jeans for your tits then that sagginess is on a whole other level.
captenchaos · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes.
tommygunz007 · 49 points · Posted at 14:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess: Sagging came about initially as poor parents, had lack of access to high paying jobs and because clothing is expensive, hand-me-downs were way more popular in my time. Many people had hand-me-downs and it was not uncommon for the oldest to get the newest clothes, and the younger people getting the hand-me-downs. Now when the oldest gets a new pair of Adidas sweats and that's the current fashion trend, often younger brothers or sisters also want to rock them so they might borrow them.
So then you develop people who wear baggy jeans and clothes with no belts. Now, in colder climantes, baggy clothing actually keeps you warmer as it traps larger pockets of air between your jeans and skin keeping you warm.
Now, there was a big explosion of black sexualization in the media with the Karl Kani and 90's hip-hop fashion. Men of color as fashion icons exploded all over, and if a guy had a nice ass, or nice underwear, he might not wear a belt in oversized jeans and show off his ass or nice underwear, especially those expensive ones.
Lastly, there is an urban legend that allegedly men in prison would lower their pants to indicate the length of dicks they would put in their ass in prison. I don't know how true any of it is, because no actual proof has ever been determined.
CockDaddyKaren · 19 points · Posted at 16:26:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know a lot of prison urban legends, but I've never heard that last one before. Thanks.
tommygunz007 · 9 points · Posted at 16:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really unique, and I think it was created by gay men who loved guys with small asses.
SwizzChees · 8 points · Posted at 20:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can confirm on the urban legend one. My criminology prof is an ex cop and frequently worked under cover. He knows a great deal about american prison life and how criminals would act behind bars. According to him if you sag you are saying you are available and willing to have fun
doom_bagel · 7 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that mostly just come from the rampant homophobia that existed in the 90's and early 2000's. I've never seen an actual evidence of that being the case and there is no way that trend would spread into a hyper masculine culture like 90's gang culture.
xDskyline · 5 points · Posted at 21:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean, regardless of how it came to be (there are tons of explanations about prisoners not having belts, poor kids wearing secondhand clothes), it became a fashion trend. And nearly all fashion trends follow the same logic - that person is cool and/or looks cool, I want to be a little like them. That's really all there is to it. The richest and most famous rappers, the most badass dude in your neighborhood, the popular kids at school are all doing it, it makes sense for you to want to emulate them.
I can think of dozens of fashion trends that I think look stupid, but that's just how fashion works. We don't always have to agree with what looks good - hell, many of us look back on our own past fashion choices and think they look terrible, although we didn't think so at the time.
drlqnr · 5 points · Posted at 15:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
shh they have long torso
punch_nazis_247 · 6 points · Posted at 21:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity is a bitch and wins out over collagen in the end.
Loseruser1201 · 4 points · Posted at 19:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once saw a guy in high school wearing skinny jeans and a belt and he was still sagging.
Gary_Where_Are_You · 7 points · Posted at 23:32:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that makes no sense. Either commit to the skinny jeans all the way or wear something else.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 2 points · Posted at 05:32:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
like Danny brown
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:50:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Iirc Danny Brown lost a deal with 50 cent because of his skinny jeans lol.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
he didn't lose the deal, he walked out of the deal because 50 wanted him to look more gangsta
10HorsedSizedDucks · 1 points · Posted at 17:06:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone just invented it so you say it backwards
NegativeLantern · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People sag because prisoners aren't allowed belts (because they can be used as weapons) so their pants sag sometimes. What I don't get is why people think it's cool to look like your in prison? Because it's bad-a? Yes, being caught by police after snorting white powder and killing your wife is tooootally "bad-a."
capybara25 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Break down of collagen
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity over time
The_Stickup · -3 points · Posted at 19:41:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im PRETTY sure, that it came from gay dudes in prison signaling that they wanted to have anal
Staidanom · 10 points · Posted at 20:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was a myth afaik
CoolnessEludesMe · 0 points · Posted at 23:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It results from "creep". Really. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Creep_(deformation)
deutschlandman18 · -2 points · Posted at 22:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So sagging began in prison, right. Who would've guessed? Around the time Prince came out and all, guys in prison started sagging their pants to let other guys know they were "open for business" if you catch my drift. When the inmates left prison, they took the whole sagging thing with them and other black people thought it was cool, so they started doing it too. It then became confused for gangsterly and all, but it was originally meant to infer one's homosexuality.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 01:32:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually a myth, although it did originate in prison. It was common for prison cloths to be loose because they were standard issue and belts weren’t allowed for obvious reasons. People then starting emulating the style on the outside.
deutschlandman18 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:49 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
ahh thanks for the insight
[deleted] · 2847 points · Posted at 13:45:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm here. My mum decided to get laid 28 years ago and I'e had to put up with the consequences ever since.
theshoegazer · 1178 points · Posted at 15:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and what if she did the deed 29 years ago instead? Would you be a completely different person, or just a barely noticeably older version? I often wonder how different I'd be if I were born slightly earlier or later... how big of a difference would there be if a different sperm got there first.
tetrapods · 923 points · Posted at 16:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You wouldn't be you. You wouldn't exist. Your unborn brother or sister would experience those things. But you wouldn't. If they did the deed one day sooner you wouldn't exist to experience any if those differences.
[deleted] · 77 points · Posted at 18:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every single sperm cell is unique, meaning that if a different sperm cell from the same "release" had fertilized the OP's mothers egg he wouldn't be him.
Source: https://www.bionews.org.uk/page_93701
JBSquared · 41 points · Posted at 20:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who hasn't fertilized OP's mom's eggs? Am I right fellas?
Hapique · 5 points · Posted at 02:33:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of crazy to think about. We all were the fastest out of millions.
Wampasully · 11 points · Posted at 05:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first sperm to hit the egg almost never fertilizes. Men ejaculate millions at a time becuase the egg has a protective coating that the sperm have to literally bash through. After enough hit it first to weaken it, one finally breaks through and fertilizes.
psinguine · 4 points · Posted at 20:14:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So actually the fastest and strongest have been losing every time for the entirety of human history.
theshoegazer · 47 points · Posted at 17:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good point re: siblings. In some families, siblings are drastically different despite being close in age, while in other families the commonality is almost eerie.
Scholesie09 · 23 points · Posted at 19:30:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a non identical twin, so two sperm from the same "release" fertilising 2 eggs. couldn't be anymore different (she's a girl and I'm not for starters)
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 19:07:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Luckily sperm cells don't have a conscience, if they did then I would feel horrible every day
Cronicium · 2 points · Posted at 05:33:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, if they did, you'd be getting rid of tons of serial killers... probably...
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 05:34:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
GOD DAMN IT I'M WASTING MY CHILDREN
povertyanalystdotcom · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What
povertyanalystdotcom · 4 points · Posted at 22:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I always think like this. Different theoretical situations of what could have been simply do NOT work or make logical sense.
meinqunt · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Billy! 😢
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really even the slightest of change could’ve resulted in that specific sperm not meeting the egg. The chances of your existence (of anyone’s) is incredibly low.
lnmaurer · -4 points · Posted at 18:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first part is true, but your last sentence is false. Sperm can live inside a woman for about a week. Perhaps, if their mom had done the deed a day later, they wouldn't exist, but the odds of her getting pregnant from sperm the previous day are about as high.
digicow · 21 points · Posted at 19:06:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but the odds of the same sperm being the winner if it happened on a different day are pretty low. Different sperm => different person
lnmaurer · -9 points · Posted at 19:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps
EternalNY1 · -13 points · Posted at 19:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you sure about that?
We don't understand consciousness.
Are you saying that a particular sperm and egg combination is solely responsible for you, and any other sperm/egg wouldn't be you? That is not provable.
Hell you can believe in solipsism and then everything is a lie, and you are all that exists.
Thebestnickever · 10 points · Posted at 22:46:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is it not provable? There are genetic differences in each individual egg/sperm, any other combination would've made you a different person. People have siblings and they have separate consciousnesses.
EternalNY1 · -6 points · Posted at 23:26:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many atoms of sperm/egg have to be different in order for you to not be you?
People are saying if it was a different sperm or a different egg, it wouldn't be "you". So what is it about that specific sperm or specific egg that resulted in "you" and not "not you".
Do you think you could not exist? That is the deeper question.
Mojorna · 10 points · Posted at 00:46:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that you're trying to sound sophisticated and existential, but trust me, you're just coming off as an asshat.
EternalNY1 · 0 points · Posted at 15:13:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, that's your opinion.
I still think it's a perfectly reasonable question.
If a different sperm/egg combination results in a different consciousness, what causes that? How much damage to a particular sperm or egg results in a totally new "person", rather than a different person?
When does it change from being "you" with brain damage, to somebody else entirely? Clearly people are suggesting a totally different sperm/egg results in a totally different conscious being.
What % change in the sperm egg is required to change the conscious being, rather than being an altered version but the same conscious entity?
Thebestnickever · 3 points · Posted at 23:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Considering no two siblings have ever been the same person, the differences between reproductive cells are more than enough for them to be different people, that's all you need to know. It is way more than just "a few atoms", there are alterations in genes that lead to important physical differences in how the person develops.
"You" are a result of both genetic and environmental factors. The bigger the changes in any of them, the further away the resulting person would be from being "you", like a book being rewritten, until the differences are so great that it wouldn't be "you" anymore. The differences that would reach that point are at least equivalent to those seen in identical twins, because we can know with certainty that they are different people, but could potentially be much smaller.
This can mean many things, but if you're referring to something akin to the determinism vs free will debate, then it's a separate matter.
imreallyreallyhungry · 7 points · Posted at 22:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like bringing things like solipsism up in casual conversations is a bit of a nonstarter because it always just devolves into the same "we can't prove anything therefore you can't know that". Like, yes I can't truly know anything except for that I exist in some way, shape, or form because I am thinking but it doesn't really further most discussions.
darthmarth · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to get down with solipsism.
formgry · 0 points · Posted at 00:14:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only if you consider date of birth to be vital to identity. Which it does not have to be. just imagine your birthday a day earlier or later, does it feel as if you are a different person as a consequence?
RedditorReady · 84 points · Posted at 15:34:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm stoned and this made me really think dude, thanks.
RAWR_Ghosty · 5 points · Posted at 19:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You only existed for a split second as a sperm along with thousands of your rivals, you wouldn't exist if she did the deed 29 years ago instead of 28, no idea how someone can think that just because it's their mom and dad that they would be born just a year earlier wth
the-nub · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stoners are so easily impressed.
bomba_viaje · 3 points · Posted at 06:37:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm stoned and I'm impressed by your smugness.
the-nub · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Case in point.
Dingbrain1 · 8 points · Posted at 16:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sperm only live for a few days right? And an egg can only be fertilized for a day or two. If your parents conceived at any other time it would be someone else who was born and not you. Hell even if it was a difference of one second it almost certainly would have been a different sperm that reached the egg making a completely different person, maybe the opposite gender.
5-On-A-Toboggan · 7 points · Posted at 18:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, this is why all time travelers are either childless or - at minimum - wish to reroll the dice on the children they make. Or, they simply never travel further back than when the child was conceived.
Recreation of a specific conception would be as futile as revisiting a beach at the exact same time, and attempting to grab the exact same grain of sand as before.
Product_of_purple · 4 points · Posted at 16:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably a lot. Everything you've experienced is because you experienced a specific year at a specific age.
I was born in 1980, so my personality was formed by living through the eighties. Had I been born in the 90's or 70's, I'd have completely different influences to shape my personality.
MrHoit · 2 points · Posted at 17:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Might be a lot different. We would go into grades earlier or later, around different people. Grow up with a different crowd.
thunderling · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents wanted to have two kids. My mom's second pregnancy ended in an early miscarriage. Her third pregnancy resulted in me.
If she hasn't miscarried, I wouldn't exist, but my parents would have still gotten the family they wanted.
kittens12345 · 2 points · Posted at 22:08:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if it were a different sperm it wouldnt be you bro
Mojorna · 2 points · Posted at 00:38:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The odds of you existing are infinitesimally low. Going with the assumption that the average ejaculation has roughly 200 million sperm means that that you had a 1 in 200 million chance of reaching the egg first. Now extrapolate backwards. Both of your parents had to exist, each with a 1 in 200 million chance, or a 1 in 40 quadrillion chance that both your parents exist for them to get together and make you. Go back to your grandparents. That's 40 quadrillion times 40 quadrillion. Or if that's hard to conceptualize look at it this way: just going back 2 generations, to make you, someone would have to reach into a bag with 199,999,999 white tiles and 1 black tile, and pick that black tile 7 times in a row for you to exist. (Grandma1, Grandpa1, Grandma2, Grandpa2, Mom, Dad, You) Go back to your great-grandparents and they'd have to do it 15 times. The odds that some rando exists is 100%, but that YOU exist is practically 0.
andrew43576 · 1 points · Posted at 16:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were born one year earlier you would most likely go to school a year earlier, giving you different friends that would have a difference influence on you making you a completely different person. The butterfly effect always interests me
Ink_monger · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just look at your siblings, or someone else's if you don't have any. That's pretty much the same idea, as far as physical appearance goes. If you're talking about some kind of soul then I guess that wouldn't change.
VendettaSunsetta · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, you also have to account for friends and stuff. If I was born a year earlier I’d have an entirely different friend group, which would probably have a major influence on who I end up being.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same difference as the siblings. You would be a different person.
bros402 · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a different sperm got there first, you could be a girl with down syndrome, or a guy who had green eyes and blonde hair with a crooked nose who loves poetry, or a non binary person who is a good singer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think you’d exist in that case. Your mother would have another son/daughter and you’d be the actual sibling they never had.
D4rk_Dr4gonite · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Existential crisis, here I fucking come
KHloe-Kardashian · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of that a lot, what if i was born one year earlier? I could be in a class above me I couldve been the most popular, most outgoing person at school, my whole life could've been different just by the people Im surrounded by at school, would I not have been bullied? Would I have more friends? Or would it be the oposite? Would something have happened? Its all so weird all teh What If's
Man_with_lions_head · -1 points · Posted at 20:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a brother one year old than me. And it was a different sperm.
I'm pretty sure that if I was born one year earlier, and with the sperm that made him, I'd be him.
Deliciousdaddydrma · 22 points · Posted at 15:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, your parents fucked and that means you should be motivated to do lots of drudgerous bullshit now.
RedditorReady · 1 points · Posted at 16:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cannot compute 😂🤣👍
Deliciousdaddydrma · 2 points · Posted at 16:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that a lot. The way I think is nonsensical.
Helpful-Heretic · -15 points · Posted at 16:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no, it perfectly sensical, it's just stupid.
Life is a gift - put aside your frustrations at petty shit and take a little bit more control over how you choose to spend it, there is so much to learn and do and see, don't blame people for your own existence
Otherwiseclueless · 11 points · Posted at 20:20:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we sure as hell cant blame ourselves for it.
Deliciousdaddydrma · 2 points · Posted at 17:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol. I don't listen to people who insult me.
Helpful-Heretic · -6 points · Posted at 17:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
suit yourself
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 05:08:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
gay
nuclearguacamole · 13 points · Posted at 21:35:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I exist without my consent
RoboDroid390 · 16 points · Posted at 20:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I’ve been asking this question for so long.
I didn’t ask to be here.
Now I HAVE to get good grades, go to college, get a job and everything if I want to make the most out of the life I never asked for in the first place. And the actually fun things I like to do are not great for making money.
I fucking hate it here.
maiss1lapsi · 10 points · Posted at 22:49:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/antinatalism
Eddie_Is_Stressy · 3 points · Posted at 01:08:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is truly no answer to that. Personally? I want to live because im afraid of the concept of nothing that death represents, so i will try to enjoy life by the definitions that make me feel the best.
But, I don't understand why people are so judgmental about why certain people live or what they wanna do with their lives. If the life im building right now ever goes down and I'm too tired to fix it, why would some people feel the need to stop me from doing coke til i die?
Depression is a mental illness okay, but what if i wanted to kill myself for no other reason than it's what i want to do? Life doesn't interest me and death doesn't scare me? Why is this wrong to handle your life as you see fit as long as it doesn't breach other people's boundaries, objective morality and all that.
This is very interesting to talk about in parents ways too like :
Why should anyone be grateful to their parents? I didn't choose to be alive and i wouldn't be more or less if they didn't fuck as i would not exist?
Because they took good care of you? No, every parent has the legal and moral duty to take care of their child. If you can't take care of them, you shouldn't have any.
It is a choice that you made and have to deal with the consequences.
I am very far from my parents for no particular reason, i was raised in a good environment, maybe it's because my parents were always separated from day 1. I like my dad because i enjoy talking with him, I don't really like my mom as a person so I don't see her a lot, or my brother and i have been indirectly told to feel bad because of that.
Which i feel is very illogical. Don't have a kid and expect them to care about you the same you do about them. They were your choice, you aren't theirs.
thats0K · 8 points · Posted at 20:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol. reminds me of a tweet I saw "here" recently.
WonkyTelescope · 6 points · Posted at 20:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/antinatalism
the_ocalhoun · 6 points · Posted at 20:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/antinatalism
scullysier · 2 points · Posted at 20:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On a similar note, if you have any sibling(s), you could’ve be them, look like them, have their personality/voice/brain/etc. This amazes me because me and my sister are very different and the thought that I could’ve been exactly like her is... whoa
notmyrealnam3 · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And she let the dude cum inside her. We are all cream pies
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:31:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ain’t life beautiful
Redd1tored1tor · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
*I've
initiald-ejavu · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s why. You answered your own question. As to why she would do that, that’s a different question
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just think what she has had to put up with.
KoderKoala · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was little I thought about this a lot. Like what are the chances that there would be a “me” when there’s billions of other people in the world? It’s such a weird thought it’s hard for me to think about
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 05:20:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of edgy teens in these comments is hilarious. “I didn’t ask to be here!” You’re right, you didn’t, but you are...
paperclip1213 · 2353 points · Posted at 14:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social interaction
How to make friends.
How to small talk
How to make friends using small talk
How to flirt
Lupus_Noir · 758 points · Posted at 15:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much talk is small talk
CockDaddyKaren · 756 points · Posted at 16:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
small talk
Rising_Swell · 459 points · Posted at 17:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
smaller talk
[deleted] · 772 points · Posted at 17:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Harambeeb · 12 points · Posted at 20:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is me when engaging in small talk, I reveal too much of my powerlevel
rmxg · 7 points · Posted at 20:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, you over small talked. You're no longer one of us. You're not cool anymore.
sticky_spiderweb · 15 points · Posted at 19:37:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHOOPS FUCK
[deleted] · 18 points · Posted at 20:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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johnnybiggles · 8 points · Posted at 20:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shit I left the damn cigarettes at the store BRB
Verdahn · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least attempt to make your own joke.
It's one thing to repost, but to reply to the original comment with their joke as though you said it?
BaronOfBears · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He bolded it, to make it seem even louder.
sticky_spiderweb · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I continued the chain by building the text dude
vhrossi1 · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep. That's me talking to my classmates everyday at school
itsTyrion · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love the internet for dumb shit like this xD
Tie_Jay · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BIG TALK
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
small talk
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 18:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small talk should be called shallow talk, not in a pejorative way, but because you don’t get into anything too deep. You could make small talk for an hour (for example with another parent on a play date) just by talking about cool things to do in the area, etc. But if you find yourself chatting away about local sports team and your conversation partner isn’t adding much, it’s probably time to wrap up.
TheLionHearted · 3 points · Posted at 17:53:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not the quantity, it's the quality.
blaykers · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not the years, it's the mileage
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dammit, Indy, where doesn't it hurt?
Lupus_Noir · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not me, it's my Schauma
ControlledSingular · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You dont even know.I had a english teacher give me a fail on an exercise because...games are not a small talk topic.The teacher literally had a writen list of small talk topics.This is in university btw.
EgNotaEkkiReddit · 4 points · Posted at 20:04:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What? Games can def. be a small talk topic.
"So, what did you do over the weekend?"
"Played some video games, mostly."
"Cool, what did you play?"
"Mostly Kerbal Space Program"
"What's that about?"
"Oh, it's a game where you pilot an imaginary space program staffed by little green aliens. You build rockets, do research on other planets, make satellites, crash in to things, that sort of stuff"
"Sounds fun"
"It is"
"... Anyway, I better not take more of your time."
Peak smalltalk right there.
ControlledSingular · 3 points · Posted at 20:31:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea but it didnt matter to the fossil,after all she only knew the topics she had prepared...
blaykers · 2 points · Posted at 19:31:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is this, Home Ec?
ControlledSingular · 4 points · Posted at 19:45:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suposed to be a technical english course.In fact was just a way to keep an old fossil employed,like many other courses.
HartPlays · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s because a lot of professors are entitled and when opinion based, theirs is always right
penguiatiator · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're not comfortable discussing it with your grandmother, don't discuss it with a random stranger.
For example, don't come up to me and try commiserating with me about how "sometimes you gotta spend time away from the ol' ball and chain, amirite? They are nice to look at though." Fuck you Matt, I love my girlfriend, I don't view her as a shackle, and yes I do like looking at her ass but you'd better not.
phoenix25 · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just a small amount
thats0K · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sml tlk
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics is technically small talk
[deleted] · 293 points · Posted at 16:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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kierantheking · 118 points · Posted at 17:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really depends on the person, which doesnt really help I know but maybe tell them something short like "Oh not bad, actually I found this cool new video game the other day I've been enjoying alot, how about you?" and if they were actually asking about you because they genuinely care about how you are doing then A: They may ask more or share something that has effected their life recently and/or B: Them knowing you are truly doing well in some sense will make them feel better
Loyalist_Pig · 17 points · Posted at 19:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that was a big eye opener for me, just throw it at the wall til it sticks, and don’t get too caught up in the fact that someone wasn’t responsive. There’s to many variable to over analyze someone simply just not wanting to talk.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:25:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“How ya doin” on the east coast is hello.. not how are you
FemShepVakarian · 3 points · Posted at 10:18:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
THAT I don't understand. It's a question, not a statement. If you want to say hi, say it! If you want to know how someone is, ask! Why does one have to mean the other? Ever since I was a kid I'd ask, "How are you?" because I was actually wondering and would get annoyed when someone would say, "Hi" in return. Okay, so you're high? Good to know. On with my day. I'm sorry, but it's frustrating for me!!
Daankeykang · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's good bro
-Slugger · 6 points · Posted at 20:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like when the cashier says "how are you" she doesn't have time to listen to you, so I always say, im great, and I always get " a wow great"? Then I say well I could tell you all the negative in my life but I'll spare ya, and that makes them laugh.
noregreddits · 14 points · Posted at 19:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pro Tip: Say “I’m doing alright. Loving this weather/perfect weather for the beach/it’ll be lovely at the ballpark/wish it would warm up/glad the farmers are getting some rain, but the rain delay means I’ll have to miss the game/any innocuous comment about the weather and/a local sport.” Neither of you give a flying fuck about the weather or farmers or whatever, but you can segue into a possible common interest. The purpose of small talk isn’t to learn anything, but to demonstrate benevolence to another person. How long it lasts depends on body language and inflection. It takes practice, but don’t be afraid to do it. Worst case scenario, you don’t care that the other person thinks you’re a socially awkward idiot, because you’ll probably never deal with them again. And if you do deal with them again, that’s another opportunity to practice.
5-On-A-Toboggan · 11 points · Posted at 18:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the only proper response is "Fine" or if you're really not fine it is acceptable to say "all right" so long as you don't lean into too much trying to garner sympathy with your tone. Intermediate small talkers will also tack on a "you?" at the end.
Advanced small talkers will respond with a specific interrogative that demonstrates your listening and memory skills from a previous conversation - - a sort of artifice of affinity (unless there's no time as in when you on the move and passing in a hallway/sidewalk.)
"Oh, I'm fine. Hey, did you ever hear back about that ________?"
crazy neighbor
expensive car repair
status of sick relative
ADHDpotatoes · 4 points · Posted at 19:06:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve found that if I’m not fine I can answer with “eh, been better. How are you?” Which answers their question of how I’m doing without stealing the conversation for myself and throws it back to them to continue as normal
cosmoose · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I absolutely hate this question because it’s so false. It’s just a rote interaction that i can’t help but be bored by. So I refuse to engage with it now. Whenever someone asks me how I’m doing as a standard hello, I respond with something like “I’m doing well, I hope you are too” to avoid giving them the rote question in return. And instead of asking “hey, how are you” when I see someone I’ll say something like “it’s good to see you” or “hey (insert specific compliment)” like “I love your outfit today”. Anything to avoid howareyoufine.
wellthatexplainsalot · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, it turns out that this sort of interaction is not false, and it's absolutely chock full of info: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m000dy62
Shirley_Taint · 0 points · Posted at 19:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a fellow hater I appreciate your efforts
rinkiyakepaapaa · 3 points · Posted at 01:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to overthink such situations too. Just do whatever feels right. Sometimes you will overreact and sometimes you will under-react but you would know. The feedback loop will help you get accustomed to the social norms in no time.
Just like in a machine learning algorithm the more times you try this, the more number of times that feedback loop will run and your social responses will become more and more accurate.
cloudsrbeautiful · 3 points · Posted at 01:59:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I made it a rule for myself to not lie about myself. Its part of trying to be mentally healthy for me, so whenever someone that I think doesnt care ask, I usually tell them Id prefer not to talk about it if fine would be a lie. Works well most of the time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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rinkiyakepaapaa · 2 points · Posted at 15:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then the real problem are the people you are hanging out with and not the things you do.
llama0llama · 2 points · Posted at 22:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel a bit shitty about this but I am the person asking just for the etiquette and I really don't care 95% of the time. I personally don't like going into details about how I feel, so I always assume the other person is like that too and don't bother.
But I had this friend and every time I'd ask or anybody asked, he would go into a lot of details and over text write paragraphs. Tbh it really annoyed me, but it's really my fault for asking
cloudsrbeautiful · 3 points · Posted at 01:53:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you dont want a genuin answer dont ask imo.
Jdoodle7 · 4 points · Posted at 17:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I walk every morning and when I pass someone I say, “Good morning, how are you?” No one has EVER said anything more than “fine”. (Probably 70% never acknowledge the greeting ... maybe bc they are wearing ear buds or in heavy thought.)
OnePlusOneIsNotOne · 11 points · Posted at 18:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not just say "Good morning"?
bobnob- · 10 points · Posted at 19:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's a fucking monster
Peter_See · 3 points · Posted at 19:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Often if I pass by someone I know I will say "hey how are ya?" And theyll say "hi, how are you?" And we both just keep walking.
blaykers · 3 points · Posted at 19:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's usually the second "how are ya" 20 minutes into the conversation that is looking to care deeply
Northern-Canadian · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a Canadian in Australia, this was extremely difficult to get over.
“How goin?”
Is common greeting in Australia.
They are not asking how your day is going. They just mean “hello”.
averagejoegreen · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don't care. That's the rule of thumb, just assume everyone is pretending. Its social etiquette. That means you respond in a socially acceptable but glib way.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on who’s asking. An acquaintance? Probably asking out of good manner so be brief, like really brief, and ask back. There was also a thing I learned in a Philosophy video, I don’t remember the terms but it went something like “content and degree”. Different people are probably gonna be more interested to know about different parts of your life. Your ex? = Who you’re dating (or have dated) since you broke up. Your mom calling your dorm room? = How you’re doing in school. Your weed dealer? = How you liked and miss his older products. Your psychiatrist? How you been feeling lately. The degree is how much they need to know about it, or would like to know. It also depends on how close they are to you.
halborn · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One man's social nicety is another man's induced obligation.
KINGBANANA6666666 · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on the person you speak to I'd say. Is it your therapist it would get a difference response then if it was your co-worker Bob who asks you that every day
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for asking, hope you are well.
That is all.
LordModlyButt · 0 points · Posted at 19:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not both? sure I do it to be nice but I love hearing people's stories.
OtherEgg · 0 points · Posted at 23:10:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do what you do online when a rando messages you. Its really just that easy.
MylastAccountBroke · 31 points · Posted at 18:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never learned how and when to try and get in a romantic relationship with people. I never recognized how lacking my knowledge in the subject matter was until I worked with some people who just did it naturally. I always thought you needed to know the person, talk to the person, like the person. Then these mother fuckers strike up a conversation with someone and 5 seconds later they are getting numbers.
The_Crimson_Duck · 10 points · Posted at 22:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Always either too soon or you're too good friends.
Rule #1: Be attractive.
xXDreamlessXx · 2 points · Posted at 05:16:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If rule #1 fails, go to rule #2: Be rich.
asthmaenthusiast · 48 points · Posted at 17:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro. I got you.
How to make friends: 1. Common interests
How to small talk: 1. Encourage other person to talk about themselves
How to make friends using small talk: 1. Combine above two pieces of advice
How to flirt: 1. Make them laugh 2. Have open body language 3. Initiate (non-creepy) physical contact 4. Give them attention 5. Be near them 6. Maintain eye contact
sseugg · 22 points · Posted at 19:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow. This comment was great. I’m excited to see if it works. ...
So, I see you like reddit. I also like reddit. We both like reddit.
How was that?
asthmaenthusiast · 3 points · Posted at 19:38:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/5cQoGNEcc5Q
sseugg · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/tmrXakd_r6I
Haha but in all seriousness though you hit the nail on the head with your comment, thanks for typing it out in a much clearer way then I could’ve
asthmaenthusiast · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude I just got your “I like reddit you like Reddit comment” haha.
If you’re looking for the absolute best resource to learn how to communicate property, read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.
sseugg · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve actually read it! It’s an incredible book. I don’t really have a ton of issues communicating with people, I just was impressed with how concisely you put it into words. Those were all things I more or less do subconsciously but had just never actually thought about.
paperclip1213 · 3 points · Posted at 22:09:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is excellent. Thank you so much!
Hrathcie · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does non-creepy physical contact mean?
asthmaenthusiast · 2 points · Posted at 15:26:25 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here. Watch this. It’ll answer your question a lot better than I can type it out.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cQoGNEcc5Q
Mandalorianfist · 23 points · Posted at 17:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The impressive part is learning to do this while maintaining a 6ft distance.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 16:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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JumpedUpSparky · 9 points · Posted at 17:59:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's the thing. I've the developed some of these skills. And sometimes it works out great!
But sometimes it feels like people get to know a false me, rather than getting past the smalltalk of a first impression.
WhornyNarwhal · 4 points · Posted at 19:24:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
conversation is an art form. that means that when you get the foundations down and you’re a pro at it, you can start to add your own flair and zing that makes people remember who you are and how unique your style is. just like music or drawing or fashion or writing. practice makes improvement
JumpedUpSparky · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely, I just feel like some people respond to the "less authentic" Small talk than my particular brand of communication.
And I guess that's okay too.
hakimbomadadda · 8 points · Posted at 19:01:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, it's more how to reach out to a friend to hang out or whatever. It always feels forced. Also, how you reconnect with a long lost connection.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always have an issue going from acquaintance to friend you randomly chat with/hang out with. E.g., Put me at work and we'll chat, take me out and its gone.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
here's a guide on how to social interact
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sonia72quebec · 4 points · Posted at 22:04:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's an old book called "How to win friends and influence people" (Dale Carnegie). It gives lots of good tips.
The "secret" is to practice. Yes you're gonna make mistake but you will also improve. Take yourself out of your comfort zone. Go volunteer, get a job where you have to talk to people. It's gonna be terribly hard at first but you will get confidence with time.
Gayporeon · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what did it for me. Totally horribly awkward until I was an adult and worked at a grocery store. Conversing with customers was difficult for a while (and never stopped being boring) but eventually it was easy af to have full conversations with strangers and its definitely the most valuable skill I learned from that job. Sometimes I'll even go shopping just because those mini-interactions with a cashier/barista/whatever can be a pleasant way to start the day
yourmothersbutt69 · 9 points · Posted at 18:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lots of social rules. It's incredibly rewarding but an unbelievably long process to teach kids with social skill deficits these skills.
PotroastXII · 3 points · Posted at 21:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it’s weird cause like I can make friends easily and sometimes I can flirt but if my main goal is flirting I’m absolutely trash at it
NiteAngyl · 4 points · Posted at 19:08:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I even find out if someone has the same kind of interests like me? "So anyways, let's talk about the Great War for a bit."
paperclip1213 · 4 points · Posted at 21:11:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is literally how I feel as someone with incredibly niche and unpopular interests.
twlscil · 5 points · Posted at 18:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pro-tip. Try to be interested in learning from everyone. Learn about them, learn what they do or what they like.
FightThePouvoir · 5 points · Posted at 18:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try asking questions. That sounds dumb and I really can't come up with more but I'm really good at making small talk. I speak to people in a normal tone of voice like I've know them for a long time. I'll pay someone a genuine compliment and ask follow up questions too. People like to talk about themselves after receiving flattering or complimentary statements.
waggers123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My problem is that my brain during "small talk" is often a vast ocean of emptiness and picking a question out of that void is obviously not possible as there is no question. Ya feel me? So is there a cure or am I just retarded?
FightThePouvoir · 1 points · Posted at 13:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you are missing the connection. Start by connecting to someone. Start with visual. Pick something you can actually see. If someone has a Metallica shirt on, ask them if they've gone to a show, is it their favorite band, where are you from, are you into hard rock, what do you like most about them... things like that. Just an example. Another one, if you're in line getting food somewhere (once social isolation ends) ask the person be home you, since they can see you, ask them if they come here a lot and what are some of the good things to order here. Tell him/her that you always get the same thing and want to try something different. WORKS EVERY TIME! Try it but also learn to read people. Keep it quick/lite. And always, always thank people for their time. Seriously, learn to connect to people then you'll be a person people can connect to. You can do it.
burzelpaum · 4 points · Posted at 19:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not great in any of these, but in my experience the following can get you a long way:
Show up and be kind. Don't expect anything from people; just keep showing up and focus on the thing you showed up for.
Ask a few questions on non-loaded topics or related to the current situation. Listen and follow up. Share things you're enthusiastic about.
Keep fucking doing it. Once they share something more personal, you can, too. Don't pick someone you want to be friends with, but see who you get along with naturally.
Don't do anything you saw on r/tinder
downsiderisk · 4 points · Posted at 19:42:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It takes practice. In my boarding school, twice a week we had something called "seated meals", where we would be forced to dress well and learn table etiquette while we had dinner. The etiquette was not outwardly noticeable, you just learned to pick up tips from other people. Same goes with small talk. It's easier to learn small talk with small groups of people. Some people are more gregarious than others, so you learn quickly what techniques are more effective.
We also had to mingle after dinner in the grand room with other people at the school. This was also a technique where you could apply small talk from the seated meal and practice it with your peers.
All in all, it takes practice. I was lucky that my boarding school did this, because it has proven extremely useful and helpful down the line. But I would recommend small groups of people so you dont put yourself completely in the limelight, and learning from others. You will make mistakes, and it's easier to practice with people who are strangers rather than people that you have any sort of investment in, as that will cause distress. Distress makes people say and do dumb things, and that further reiterates that you are incapable. You're not. Start with small groups of strangers- a bus stop, a line, etc. It works!
Dragonman558 · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flirting, always painful, see someone you might like, walk up to them, introduce yourself, let them talk, listen as best you can and respond when they sorta guide you to, I generally am not good talking about myself, so I say that and ask them to ask any questions they want and have both of us answer, getting to know someone is half of flirting, the random pickup lines are jokes that are mainly for online stuff where it doesn't matter as much, but after you get to know someone, make more jokes, tell them they're beautiful/handsome, press at it a bit if they say they're not, I really don't understand why but women sometimes say that they're not beautiful or cute if you say they are
Generally a lot of it is believing in yourself, confidence and all that shit, but try to be a good listener and talk when you feel like it'll be important, small talk really isn't the best idea cause "hey, great weather" doesn't contribute to getting to know someone and just sounds awkward, if you say something that isn't important to getting to know them, try to make it a compliment or something like constructive criticism
A pretty good way that I've actually done before, roller skating if you know how to do it, where I live there's a place to roller skate, I talked to a lot of people and made friends for a day by just skating around, one person came up to me to ask how old I was cause I looked young and was really good at skating, a few other people I taught a bit, a kid was falling every few feet so I asked if I could help, held her arm steady and skated beside her for a while, really wish I could've gotten a number then xD a lot of times if someone is willing to talk to you, they'd be open to a relationship, you just have to have enough confidence to ask for a number
And like in gravity falls, if your family goes on a road trip, try it with anyone you meet that you like, you'll never see them again, practice, maybe get a number, learn how you can improve how you act and what you say
Anudeep21 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just need tips about flirting part and I am sorted.
bienvenidos-a-chilis · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be shit at this, like so bad I just wouldn’t even try. I’ve found you just have to do it and keep doing it until it becomes second nature. If you don’t put yourself out there that much every interaction will seem scary and new. But eventually you’ve done it so much that one failed attempt isn’t that bad and doesn’t hurt as much.
In actual practice, I like to imagine how I would react if someone asked me what I want to say. It helps to put myself in that position and go “oh that isn’t so weird”. I’m not sure if that helps but it quells my anxiety a lot. Also just saying fuck it life is short and going for it is good.
LuftDrage · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure how I made my friends. I sat next to a dude in my friend group talked with him a bit then he introduced me to the group. I just hung out with them and I guess they just were like “okay, you’re in.”
I guess I know how I made friends.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the opposite problem. Feel like I was born with a silver tongue, but God or whatever almighty deity there may be said "fuck you" and gave me a stutter. So I basically just don't talk to people now.
JDeeezie · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trial and error while having no shame if you seem dumb or not. More good people out there then bad. Odds are if you’re friendly, they’ll be friendly back. My definition of friendly is smiling and laughing at dumb things they might say or that I say.
clubfungus · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to realise that making conversation is a two-way street.
That is, the two parties must have some kind of compatibility for it to happen.
So if you're unable to make smalltalk with them, they are also unable to make smalltalk with you. It isn't anybody's fault, and it doesn't mean either one is deficient.
You're not lacking in ability, nor are they. You're just not a compatible pairing.
No big deal.
If they seem to have an attitude that you are the reason the smalltalk is failing, that they are 'good' at it and you are 'bad' at it, they are being at the least impolite, and at worst, a dickhead.
So don't beat yourself up about it. We're just not all compatible.
wellthatexplainsalot · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually possible to learn how to do this. Some people just don't get the memo early on, but it's pretty much fixable. Practice matters and there are rules.
bytemehardish · 2 points · Posted at 23:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't worry about how to flirt worry about when to flirt. Are you in a sports club? You can flirt. Lady helping you at the clothing store? NOO NO NO . She is stuck there. Guy at the gym? Yes. Guy at the hospital no.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dreadfully fail at all of these. Now i just interact only where necessary, on topics relevant or the weather/transit which is safe. Its worked out so that I make friends from places I always go, like work or school just because it's constant for so long.
ratbastard007 · 2 points · Posted at 04:45:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is 'flirting'? You put it on pasta, right?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ARussianW0lf · 0 points · Posted at 19:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand either of them
aridax · 3 points · Posted at 18:02:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I kind of approach those all in the same way. My preference is to listen in on conversations until I hear something that I have an interesting point to make on, and then join in. If the conversation or people are no longer interesting, I’ll restart the process and look for another interesting thread to join.
For flirting, once they show interest in you as a person (quiet and looking looking at you when you speak, or starting conversation with you), ask their opinions about things, and maybe do an arm touch very occasionally
luksonluke · 5 points · Posted at 19:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a fun fact of me, i hit puberty and these skills suddenly dissapeared.
trolololoz · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a pro at flirting but I am terrible at making friends and small talk.
Edit: well I'm actually not a pro but I'm pretty good at flirting. I did know this one guy that was a pro at flirting though. It was amazing to see him get down to business.
Man_with_lions_head · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you study anything at all? If so, do you take time doing it, and learn? If so, you just have to make up your mind to learn how to be social. It's not something that you can do without working at it. And by you, I mean you. You have to work at it. So if you want to change, you HAVE to spend actual time and work at it. How do you do this? By research and study. Lucky for you, there's these tools called duckduckgo and youtube so you can do these things called "internet searches."
For example, look up "codes of behavior" and "how do I make friends" and "How do I make small talk"
Don't just do the above. Make it a field of study for yourself. Take notes. Put small things into practice, one or two things every day.
Memorize ways to act. A lot of it is just simply mechanical and a script - you don't have to be original.
Like, when you meet someone, it is a script. Now, I'm not talking about the entire conversation, I'm just talking about the first 5 seconds. 1) Look someone in the eye, 2) smile a regular smile, and 3) say "hi". That's it. Every single time. Those 3 things, and only those 3 things, every time you approach someone. Don't worry about what comes after that. Maybe you say you know, but I don't think truly socially awkward people know this.
As for what comes next, you just say the stuff that you think is boring and unoriginal and meaningless. "How do you like this weather?" "What brings you here?" You just need to remember "stock phrases." The reason for this is that you don't want to get too far along, because it is too intimidating. You don't want to ask someone something too personal. "How often do you masterbate?" would be an example of something that is too personal and you wouldn't want to ask someone right after saying "Hello". You ask easy stock questions so that you can gauge each other's speaking and non-verbal cadence, tones, etc, so that you can synch up together. It's not about he words or whether it is shallow, but synching up.
So you don't know about small talk phases? You can use duckduckgo to do a search and come up with small talk phrases and here.
I think a lot of people that don't know how to make small talk are just super literal people, very concrete thinking. If you say that a store is a million miles away, they will say, "No, I drove there the other day and it is 1.5 miles away." I notice this on reddit all. the. time. They don't understand metaphors and allegories and most literary devices. And especially they don't understand humor.
To flirt basically means having a sense of humor and playfulness. Wordplay, like sexual double-entendre and sexual innuendo, are big ones for flirting.
Also, never, never flirt at work, even if you know with 100% for sure that it would be welcome.
paperclip1213 · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is me at an extreme. I'm either extremely metaphorical or I'm extremely literal. I'll be the person who converses using facts. Then 5 minutes later I'll be exaggerating to describe something.
That sucks. The only place I meet people outside home is work.
Man_with_lions_head · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, a conversation is not about you. Or me. Or anyone. It's about 2 people. So you, me, anyone, cannot indulge ourselves. We have to speak with the other person in mind.
But you don't sound like the person I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who have ZERO sense of metaphorical speech comprehension, and ZERO sense of humor.
I'll say something humorous on reddit, and everyone will understand, but there's always some knucklehead that doesn't understand that it is humor or some literary device like hyperbole or zeugma or catacosmesis et al.
If you are in the middle of a rural America where there are only 150 people in the county, I can see that. But, if you are in a decent size city, there's no excuse for that. I mean, right now, sure, no meeting anyone, but, I make an effort to go places where other people are. Meetup.com, for example. I have found about 6 or 8 groups that I go do, and if you go to them regularly like clock work and don't skip, you will get to know lots of people. Also, you have to sometimes go to lots of groups at first, because some just suck, some just are not a good fit, etc.
Or, maybe start your own group to meet with people. Your hobby, your career, whatever interests you.
But it is work and does not happen by magicks. Sometimes, I'm like, "Fuck, I don't want to go to this meeting." But I do, because I need to meet people outside work, for my mental health. One should never make friends at work. Professional associates, people you like...yes. but friends, no. Make friends outside of work. It's...the professional way to do it. The intelligent way to do it. The rational way. It's emotionally better to not make friends at work, and save your friendships for those outside of work.
angry_snek · 1 points · Posted at 15:54:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mainly just really suck at being playful. I have been practising a bit but it doesn’t come naturally to me at all.
Man_with_lions_head · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't practice a bit. Practice a lot.
We go to school starting at age 6, finish high school at age 18. Then many go on to university for 4 years for more education. Than many go on for another 2 - 12 years to get masters, PhDs, MD, JD degrees.
So you have to work harder. I don't know what your skill or hobby is, but let's say it's gaming. Some people will play video games 4-6 hour or more per day. That is a lot of time to build up expertise and knowledge that I coming in for the first time would know jack shit and suck at it, compared to someone playing for 4-6 hours per day for the last 5 years.
If you studied and practiced hard for 4 to 5 hours per day, in a directed and systematic manner, and in an academic manner, meaning read and learn and watch videos and get feedback and go out and practice, then you would be awesome at being more sociable.
The question is, do you want to?
I mean, you should start academically. Start out by reading about what humor actually is
Then recognize the types of humor. Here are some styles and words for humor, but believe me, they don't cover all the words for types of humor. So you can make a study out of it.
This is a great list of ways to describe humor and playfulness using the word 'double meaning' which is important in English, because there are so many words that have double meaning.
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I think that there is a mind-set, too. There's this guy at work. He is so serious all the time. I try to joke with him, but he right away goes to serious topics. I don't mind them, but holy shit, lighten up. I'll tell him what I said was just a joke, and he'll say, "Oh, yeah, ok, but what do you think about the dollar's value as compared to the Euro." And this is not just once, which is always cool, but it is all the time.
All I can say is if you have the mindset that you don't want to do small talk or playfulness because it's trite and meaningless, clearly that is not true. That's how people are. Otherwise, the phrase "small talk" and the word "playfulness" wouldn't even exist in the first place.
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But it requires work. I mean, if it is important, you could even hire someone for money to teach you and practice with you. We pay for university educations, so I'm not even kidding.
But it is like martial arts. You have to practice it 3 times per week. You can read about it and study it academically, and watch videos to break it down, but you also have to go out and systematically physically practice being playful or humorous. You have to dedicate specific time to it. When I studied martial arts, I went in like clockwork 4 times per week and never missed a session. Plus I studied it outside of class in books and reading and videos. I was much better after 2 years than when I started, and even better after 5 years. That's how it is.
They used to have finishing school for women, that was a program dedicated to learning social graces. It's out of style now, but sometimes, I think it should make a comeback for both women and men.
But, if you are not playful because you are serious and academic, then make an academiic study of playfulness and humor (humor is such a key part of playfulness), and practice it. If you are a serious person, take it seriously, and master it. You can, for sure. If you want to. It will help you so much if you do. Start out and find the little victories. Practice one thing at a time until you get it. This is like any sport. Martial arts, you just learn a few new moves every few months and practice them over and over. Then after 2 months, you learn 2 or 3 new moves and practice the new moves over and over, plus the older ones. And it keeps progressing. One or two or three new things every month, and practice them, conscientiously and rigorously practice them all the time with people, no matter what.
But, don't be playful if the situation requires seriousness, of course. Control your mind, monitor the ever changing current situation.
JTD121 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have literally given up on the answers (satisfactory or not) to any of these questions.
In general, I just don't care that much.
Lawsy123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I’d say is, everyone’s different. So if you don’t feel like talking you don’t have to. Or if you want to do it, just do it! If they look nice, give it a shot!
EmeraldGuardian187 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my case I can literally only do the last one
JeroneM · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skip small talk
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like anything, if you want to be better at something you have to practice.
1138ephem · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very simple answer here. Be genuinely interested in other people and also them questions about themselves. You’d be surprised how far that gets you.
shexna · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me. Luckily I am an introvert and prefer to be alone.
I never feel lonely.
MaybeDante · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I somehow got lucky that apparently I'm likeable and funny even tho I'm bad at social interaction.
eminentlyimminentguy · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Be moderately attractive and other people will do the heavy lifting for you.
Other than that I'm as fucking lost as you are.
LuquidThunderPlus · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have absolutely no clue how to flirt, but in making small talk, you just inquire about their interests, and if you don't know their's then talk about recent news or one of your interests you think they'd like. making friends is relatively easy for me, but I don't try. my best friends sorta just fell into my lap. I guess just be friendly and talkative and bold.
I don't think you really can make friends with small talk, maybe once you become better acquainted with someone, you can go from small talk to regular talk? and then you can become friends that way?
OtherEgg · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the shit you do online? Do it in meatspace. Problem solved.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OtherEgg · 2 points · Posted at 23:28:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So that shitposting you do? Say those things.
Vesper_Sweater · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you a man or a woman? If so, how old?
Lu_and_Ciel · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even with having a friend I've known since I was born I still don't understand this either. And let me just say that she is the complete opposite of me and still somehow finds a way to keep a smile on my face while being extra annoying
Redditagain2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch documentaries like explained on Netflix. Read articles on Mental Floss and listen then tie it into a documentary article or podcast. Then you always have something to talk about. Podcasts: Wait wait don’t tell me There’s no such thing as a fish American hysteria 27 club
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's hard for me since I don't know how to start a conversation, how should I continue the topic using the right amount of words, how to pick my words, how to express myself(I can't laugh on most of the funny things), how do I look from the other person's eyes(since my father said I look like I'm daydreaming while he was talking to me, I wasn't), and how to end a conversation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. How does one exist as a passable and realistically social human?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s all a game of familiarity and compatibility. You meet someone and you like them so you try to impress them to have them like you back. If they like you enough, you won’t even have to try hard because they’d meet you halfway; they’d invite you over, call you, talk to you, try and setup meetings and stuff virtually as much as you do. And then there’d be this invisible score of “likeness”, which is why old friends are probably gonna stay friends for the rest of their life; there isn’t much they could do to fuck up years-worth of happy memories and good intentions.
Enervation-Sage · 1 points · Posted at 10:02:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, I really don't mean this in a mean way at all, but isn't it interesting that personally I don't understand why so many proteins this difficult. I understand anxiety and stuff, and I myself had to have treatment for an anxiety disorder. But it just never manifested for me as a fear of or difficulty with talking to people.
I guess I mean, I never understood why people don't know how to do these things. I honestly think it's mostly about practice and understanding that sometimes it gets award and you just have to accept that and keep rolling.
j3nnacide · 1 points · Posted at 11:11:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A little tip - you don't use small talk to make friends. Best small talk will do for you is acquaintances. Small talk is lame and boring (in my opinion) and you can't get to know anyone with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I was socially isolated (was never allowed to be with friends after school hours. And never went to birthday parties)
People see me as a social person but I had to learn it manually in 7th grade and I still have no fucking idea of what I'm supposed to do. How do you end a conversation? Is this socially acceptable?
Gaydar555 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's so hard for me to make new friends that I can connect with. I have made a few "friends" but it's just people who are there. I really only have 5 friends that I hang out with, and most of them are from elementary
RiftedEnergy · 0 points · Posted at 17:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Hi" is the best, and yet hardest way to start
heckinbamboozlefren · 0 points · Posted at 21:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relax, be interesting, have empathy
Ekkoplecks · 0 points · Posted at 22:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just don’t be a fucking gimp
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 17:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel bad for you, all the above are like my bread and butter.
Richje · 979 points · Posted at 14:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we literally have the entirety of human knowledge available all the time on a device that's small enough to take everywhere and some people think the Earth is flat, vaccines cause autism and 5G will melt us from the inside.
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ModaGamer · 6 points · Posted at 22:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true, but I don't think that really has anything to do with flat-earthers or anti-vaxers, Second Languages never came easy to me, and I would always just forget it whenever I learned something new. I was never able to internalize a second language, that doesn't mean I think Spanish is a myth by the media or something. These people believe in this things, because they believe in them. Belief structures are tautologies, they reinforce themselves. It doesn't matter what the facts are.
Starshaft · 50 points · Posted at 19:00:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every person alive has had their beliefs siloed and reinforced by the internet. It’s no surprise that all of us have become less critical, and crucially, more certain of our own beliefs.
fromthewombofrevel · 6 points · Posted at 21:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True, but we were like that long before the web existed.
Starshaft · 8 points · Posted at 01:21:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but now it’s like someone’s turned up the volume and stolen the remote
fromthewombofrevel · 2 points · Posted at 02:28:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excellent analogy.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently Lysenkoism is making a comeback in Russia because genetics is pro western Propaganda.
https://www.cell.com/current-biology/comments/S0960-9822(17)30949-130949-1)
luksonluke · 6 points · Posted at 19:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been there and let me tell you it works like this:
Don't know how things work so you just assume some random article is professionally done with a proper research and you take it into a fact, i literally believed every article there was that looked "legit" and now since i've got more mature and learned much more now i know how dumb i was.
Then there's the flat earth theory, people believe that because they see earth as "flat" with their own eyes, then they stay entitled with their own opinion, they're known as ignorant and arrogant people.
Vares__ · 6 points · Posted at 21:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's because some people exclusively seek out 'sources' that support their own opinion. You would think that access to all of humanitys collective knowledge would make us smarter, but it's actually having the opposite effect since there's no fact checking and idiots are able to connect with other idiots, which only makes them more convinced that their delusion is true.
GiannisAntoTehShipKo · -1 points · Posted at 00:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/politics feels attacked
limitless__ · 7 points · Posted at 00:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People don't want to learn. That want to have people agree with what they think and reinforce their beliefs. It's why Facebook became so huge. There's nothing more comfortable than an echo chamber.
corriefan1 · 5 points · Posted at 23:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is what baffles me. How otherwise intelligent people can deny actual science.
iamdense · 4 points · Posted at 02:49:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS! I genuinely thought that once we had this ability, we would use it mostly for good, like in Star Trek. I'm a highly optimistic and happy go lucky person, but this has shaken my faith in humanity.
kangadac · 2 points · Posted at 06:18:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Count me in. Growing up, I remember how expensive communications were — so many cents per minute to talk to a distant relative, with the first minute costing much more. And publishing your ideas? Better be rich and own a newspaper or have years of expertise and have people wanting to hear your opinions. The Internet, I thought, would make the world a better place by driving the cost of communicating and publishing down and enabling everyone to share ideas freely.
Now I regret it. It turns out that 95% of the ideas weren’t worth hearing, anyway, and a handful are actively toxic. Those cost barriers did a decent job of filtering signal from noise.
And, yes, I get the irony in my posting this idea on a forum that would not exist save for the existence of the Internet. Somehow I count Reddit (or this slice of it, anyway), in that 5% worth hearing.
mypostisbad · 3 points · Posted at 12:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A big part of the problem is that the internet is 'free'.
Back in the day I paid per minute for my phone line AND per minute connected to my ISP.
There were also a lot more types of premium website.
Nowadays the internet is paid for by adverts almost exclusively. This means that it is no longer content that is king, but page clicks.
Unfortunately that seems to be what the vast majority of people want, or are used to (so they get angry about paywalls and such.
Add to that that your time on the internet is no longer a per minute charge, it means you actually use it to waste time, rather than use it as the tool it was meant to be. Do you think people would be as likely to go around shitposting if it was costing them coin?
ModaGamer · 3 points · Posted at 22:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because facts don't inform belief, belief informs belief. If facts informed what people believed, religion wouldn't exist.
GlitzerEinhornPony · 3 points · Posted at 22:32:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see a common theme in a lot of these people and that's "we're being lied to". And of course this is absolutely correct sometimes. The problem just starts when people adopt a stance where they consider pretty much everything that is believed by a majority of people to be a lie.
Those people typically perceive themselves as "critical thinkers" or those who are "awake" etc. - in other words: They are the elite, the rest are gullible sheep.
And as soon as you have that stance it's easy to apply it to everythig. "They* say corona is a natural virus - I am not falling for that". And then insert whatever the fuck you want. Pharma conspiracy, Bio Weapon, Tech Conspiracy, etc.
*"they" can be anything in this case. Government, Pharma, Media, whatever
And of course this creates a loop because at no point do you want to fall back into the category of gullible sheep.
screamingghost14 · 5 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
kerplunkerfish · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidity is like entropy: you don't even have to try.
Jawahhh · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aldous Huxley’s “brave new world” illustrates this quite nicely. We are drowning in irrelevance.
KINGBANANA6666666 · 2 points · Posted at 05:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's this short story about the library of Babbel ( or whatever it was called haha) a library with all the books. Infinite books. The majority filled with pages of utter gibberish and nonsense. Just letters and symbols written on pages but some did have information some could fully describe your life bit by bit and some books would be a guide to said book of your life and future but there are also millions of books that say they speak of your future but have no real info in them or are lying.
What I'm trying to say is that although we have all this information now we also have even more misinformation and utter nonsense. Reality and value is but a diamond in a sea of utter gibberish
Emhyr_var_Emreis_ · 2 points · Posted at 08:23:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have access to the sum of all human knowledge.
We use it to look at naked women and get into arguments with strangers.
stop-the-world-tkw · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
SWMovr60Repub · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only Huwai 5G does that.
hikiflow · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people ask "why is earth flat?" instead of asking "is earth flat?" or "what's the planet's shape?"
They ask a question that already have an answer implied into it.
buckthefuffs · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
misinformation is a bitch
Timedoutsob · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
based on most people I meet the entirety of human knowledge doesn't seem that great.
BKBroiler57 · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you been reading my profile!?
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please get your conspiracy theories correct. 5G causes the coronavirus.
lizardscum · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
to be fair the reason they think that is because they have all that information but don't know how to use it.
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:38:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was thinking more along the lines of, we have the sum total of human knowledge, beliefs, cultures, and humanity at the touch of our fingertips and people actually believe that’s a bad thing. I used to have a high school teacher who said that the smartphone, personal computer, and internet were de-evolutionary and were single handedly the reasons why education was at its worst as it was today. He was easily my most hated teacher for me, and really pushed his own politics into his lessons (he was very much a left leaner but in his mid fifties). Just remembering that statement makes my blood boil.
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
SnowdriftsOblivious · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
tenaj255l · 0 points · Posted at 23:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
FireGorgon · 0 points · Posted at 05:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day!
icandoMATHs · -1 points · Posted at 22:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And people fell for Trump, Bernie Sanders, and AOC.
I had no idea that populist demagogry would have a resurgence when we have access to the internet.
its_never_random · 10400 points · Posted at 14:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People that will flip you off or yell at you when they are the ones doing the wrong thing. One time my daughter was getting off the bus and crossing the street when a car came barreling down the road running the bus stop sign. I ran out into the road in front of my child held up my hand and screamed STOP!
The lady flipped me off. Like fucking seriously. I saved you from killing a child. MY child and you flip me off.
I won’t go into the details of what I did next. I wasn’t proud.
EDIT: to add what I did and some more details.
This lady did this a few times a week. I was ready for her. My daughter wasn’t the only one crossing. I just had a feeling I would encounter her that day.
Ok. So I started screaming at her because I was in shock that instead of her saying OMG, I am so sorry, she flipped me off. She CONTINUED TO FLIP ME OFF AND STARTED SCREAMING AT ME as I was yelling at her that she would have ran over my daughter.
I ran up to her door where her window was open and started grabbing at her trying to pull her out through the window and at the same time trying to open her door. I was seriously pulling her out as she was trying to get her window up. She finally got her window up and pulled her door back shut. I was screaming curse words and whatever else (I really can’t tell you) yelling at her to get out of the car and banging on her window. She finally sped away and I stood there in the middle of the street and all the other moms, the bus driver and a bus full of kids where just staring at me. I felt stupid for cursing in front of all the kids and losing it. The bus driver called me over and said as I was trying to kill her he got her license plate and was going to report her. So at least that happened.
But yeah. I am SUPER non confrontational. But when somebody does something like that, I have no problem going off I guess.
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DuhSquatch · 69 points · Posted at 19:40:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont have a dramatic story to go with this but my dad taught my sister and I the same thing.
"Just because the light says you can go and they should stop, does not mean they will stop."
He told us that 13 years ago and it's never left my mind
Thistlefizz · 32 points · Posted at 20:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a similar thing that I remember my drivers ed teacher telling me. I was sitting at a stop sign at an intersection where I had the stop sign but the cross traffic didn’t. A car was approaching from the left and they had they’re right turn signal on. Before I had a chance to do anything he said, “just because his turn signal is on, doesn’t mean he’s going to turn. Always wait to be sure.”
Just so happened that this car didn’t turn and kept on going. Always stuck with me.
DuhSquatch · 8 points · Posted at 23:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funnily enough my mom taught me this one later on. We were about to leave a parking lot and someone with their signal on was coming. I said she could just go. She said nope, cant trust everyone to drive right. Sure enough that dude didnt turn.
-Knug3n- · 20 points · Posted at 20:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, "in traffic you have no entitlements, only responsibilities" is what my dad taught me. Always follow the rules, never assume others will.
DuhSquatch · 5 points · Posted at 23:32:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a fantastic way of saying it.
ExceptForThatDuck · 18 points · Posted at 20:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right of way is something other people give you, not something you take. The rules only work if everybody's following them. Never assume.
tiddies_akimbo · 14 points · Posted at 20:47:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why I will never ever ever ride a bike anywhere near where cars are. A bike lane isn’t good enough. I do not trust other drivers with my life.
TwothTimesTheCharm · 7 points · Posted at 21:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a job further downtown in the city (would be about a 30/45 min walk) last semester and used to bike to work in order to save time on the commute. One night on the way back home I almost got hit twice because people just didn’t give a fuck about the bike lane. Haven’t ridden a bike since. Every day after that, if I couldn’t find a ride, I just walked there and back.
emeraldkat77 · 8 points · Posted at 21:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a friend who biked everywhere (granted this was in Boulder, CO so that's pretty common). However, he lived in Nederland which requires a ride down (or up if returning) a canyon to get to Boulder where he worked. This was before cell phones were common and he didnt have a home phone, so we'd just meet up after work at a local bar a few times/week (plus we weren't super close, just kind of friends who hung out when we saw each other). One day, he didn't show up. Then it was a week. Then a couple weeks. Then a month. It wasn't totally out of the question for him, maybe he'd just gotten a girlfriend, gotten busy, you know.
Well, it turned out he had been biking down to work one morning when a car hit him and caused him to fall off the mountain. He barely survived, and I've never seen a helmet so messed up as the one he had been wearing. It was completely unrecognizable as a helmet. Just a heaping jumble of plastic and foam and straps. He broke every bone in his legs, both hips, his left arm, his jaw, and along with a few others I don't remember. He was really lucky to survive. The most interesting part to me was the fact that he fell in the icy stream fresh with spring runoff and it probably saved his life. The cold slowed his heart rate and prevented him from bleeding out before help arrived (at least this is what he told me).
jhunt42 · 4 points · Posted at 22:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, always drive as if everyone else on the road is a fucking idiot, because they probably are.
DuhSquatch · 3 points · Posted at 23:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good advice lol
adeon · 3 points · Posted at 19:50:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mum used to use a poem:
Here lies the body of John Gray,
Killed exerting his right of way,
He was right of course, he was right all along,
But he's just as dead as if he'd been wrong.
DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll have to remember that one... that's awesome
CharlieJuliet · 2 points · Posted at 05:12:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Cross the roads when there are no cars, not just when the green man is lit."
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DuhSquatch · 2 points · Posted at 23:30:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know you can correct someone without being condescending?
Thanks anyway.
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DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you delete your comment?
First half of your comment was a correction. Second half was condescending. All I did was point out your flaw. Like you did me.
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DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sister and I is grammatically incorrect. The right way to say it you be my sister and me.
Could have just said that
But it's all good. You stay up there on your high horse
TatianaAlena · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can phrase that however I like. I wouldn't have phrased it like that because "you be my sister and me" is gibberish. Bye now.
DuhSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes and you chose to phrase it like a jackass. Like I said, hop back onto that high horse of yours and ride off into the sunset. Bye bye
dalalphabet · 10 points · Posted at 19:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always do the look both ways thing, but I'm still terrified of the people who just run the light in the middle of the cycle and you have no idea at all that they're coming.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cars are so deadly; I’m not sure why we drive erratically, myself included. When I get angry, I lose control and do stupid stuff that I realize could have killed me or worse, someone else. I’m working on managing my anger though.
HereIsYourGold · 7 points · Posted at 20:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weirdly I find when I’m in a good mood I lose inhibition and cruise. When I’m in a bad I get so annoyed with other people’s driving I’m aware of my own.
GetaGoodLookCostanza · 8 points · Posted at 19:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
jeezuz that's awful
telchii · 4 points · Posted at 20:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too many visits to dashcam subreddits taught me this and the value of having a working dashcam.
LMK44106123 · 8 points · Posted at 19:46:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please tell me the drunks were among the dead
dr_hawkenstein · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was making a left from the inside lane of a two lane turn with a bus on my right and decided to let it go a second first so it had space to turn and a red F150 came flying through the intersection right in front of the bus. If I would have tried to pass the bus instead of giving it space I would have gotten smashed for sure.
hey-gift-me-da-wae · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My driving test taker praised me extensively for looking both ways when a light went green. I've been doing it for years
wellthatexplainsalot · -1 points · Posted at 19:54:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awful for your mum, but it also wasn't entirely the girl's fault: the USA design of traffic lights, putting them the far side or middle of the intersection is not terrific. You need to make the decision to stop before you even enter the intersection. T-boning doesn't seem to happen nearly as often in places that have lights before the intersection. Leaving this comment here in the hope that some traffic planners see it.
klparrot · 10 points · Posted at 21:21:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does that have to do with it? It's just so you can see the light when you're waiting at the intersection. Of course you have to make the decision to stop before you enter the intersection, but it's not like you can't also see the light before you enter the intersection.
wellthatexplainsalot · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the light is before the intersection, people seem to make the decision to stop or go earlier.
grammarpopo · 0 points · Posted at 19:31:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m unclear. Who had the green light? The chick and her drunk friends, or the victims of the bitch and her drunk asshole “friends” who I hope are in prison.
sangeeta359666 · 15 points · Posted at 19:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i believe the victims had the green.
Simple_City · 8 points · Posted at 19:56:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly how I got into my car accedent that nearly killed me!! Except they didn't make it over onto the on ramp, they t-boned the passenger side of my car! They walked away basically unharmed, I had 2 surgeries and almost two weeks in the hospital! :)
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Simple_City · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly recovered, I had to have surgery on my shoulder to essentially reattach my arm, so that area never really got 100% better, but it's fine most of the time. And because of the damage done to my pelvis, it made it hard for me to walk long distances, which is really the worst part of it all because at the time I was a mail carrier, and most of my route was walking, so I unfortunately had to leave that job. I'm back at school now at 24, and I'm hoping to get a nice IT job at a school district after I finish my 2 year degree. I'll always miss being a mail carrier, but I'm learning to move onto better things.
I honestly don't know how the person driving the other car didn't get badly injured. My car was in pieces, and I saw pictured of theirs later and it was no where near as bad off as mine. I guess they just got really lucky.
coffeepunk · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember one time on the highway I was just driving along, roughly around the speed limit, no cars around me really. This guy moves a couple lanes over and then starts to move into the lane I am in. If he kept moving left he would have pushed into my car. We were driving about the same speed. I didn't know if he wasn't paying attention or what but I honked because I was like "Uh, this dude is gonna hit me." And after I honk he just looks over and begins SCREAMING and flipping me off, and then he just... sped off? I have no idea what happened there. It wasn't like I cut him off or anything, he came out of NOWHERE.
Similarly, another time I was in a lane for left turns waiting to turn. I couldn't because there was a lot of oncoming traffic. This guy behind me starts honking over and over and over and I look in my rearview mirror and he is yelling and flailing his arms. And I'm like... if I went I'd get hit by a car? I have no idea what he wanted or expected but even if I got out of the way for him to go, he would have gotten hit by cars? And it's not like the guy couldn't see them either. They were passing him while we waited!
Eskimodo_Dragon · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might've been Kevin Kline's character from A Fish Called Wanda.
WolfCola4 · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read this like "both you and my own child flip me off"
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I almost got into a head on collision when someone crossed over the double yellow and got completely in my lane. It happened almost 4 years ago and I still get nightmares about it, and to this day I slightly panic whenever I get to the same spot
honeydew_bunny · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a fair few years for me too, whenever I drive to the local shops I think about the time a lady exited out of the entry lane and called my mother some very choice words.
deadleg22 · 2 points · Posted at 07:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I knew someone like that, started acting a prick once he got his license, he's dead now.
severoon · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Couple of notes…
In the US, you never have right of way. There's responsibility to yield and that's it.
Right of way means that you can proceed into a situation and it's always the other person's fault if something bad happens because they didn't get out of your way. In some states emergency vehicles have right of way when they're on a call, but even that is limited by circumstances so not "true" right of way.
This matters from a legal standpoint, if you ever fill out a police report and put down you had right of way, you may have just talked yourself into contributory negligence.
The other thing you should know is that if someone is at fault in an accident, they are the one doing the hitting. You wrote someone could have hit this guy blowing the stop sign…again, never write that in a police report. The one that has the responsibility to yield caused the accident, therefore no matter the specifics, they are the one that hit the other vehicle. If you flip that around it means the party that hit the other party could have yielded—which they have a responsibility to do because there's no such thing as right of way—but didn't, so the accident is at least partially their fault.
You might object that's not what you meant to say. The law doesn't work according to the outcome you want, though, it works according to the picture you paint. If you say person A hot person B while person B was blowing a stop sign, you inadvertantly imply that person A should have done more to avoid the accident.
n0th1ng_r3al · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People do this all the time where I like to skip traffic.
NeedsSumPhotos · 1715 points · Posted at 18:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you start to understand that people react according to how something makes them feel, and nobody wants to feel like the bad guy, human behavior makes a lot more sense. Frankly, being able to recognize when you are reacting out of shame/guilt can be a major opportunity for person growth.
_UncleFucker · 440 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That kinda makes sense. But do people not feel embarrassment in these situations? Because when I fuck up in traffic or something, and someone honks or the very few times when people have flipped me off when its my fault, I just feel ashamed. Acting like a dick about it afterwards just sounds even MORE embarrassing.
Therandomfox · 346 points · Posted at 19:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more fragile your ego, the more likely you are to double down in order to defend your pride rather than admitting fault. The fact that you feel embarrassed about antisocial behaviour at all is telling of your character.
ThatJaneDoe69 · 8 points · Posted at 22:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This explains why our former downstairs neighbor flipped us off the other day.
We live in an older apt complex so our floors creak. Well former neighbor started banging and screaming when we walked in there during the day, while we were doing laundry or cleaning our something. He never came upstairs to talk to us like an adult because I guess he works at night, he just started screaming, banging, and cursing. It escalated to the point I was fearful he would attack us if we passed outside. We complained to the property manager. It was over a year of being afraid of walking in our apt. They finally moved him 2 buildings away like 3 months ago. Drove past him Tuesday and he flipped us off. Like, if we were preventing you from sleeping supposedly, and the complex made you move so you could sleep and are now sleeping, why flip us off? I didn't understand.
tstephansen · 23 points · Posted at 20:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That explains a lot about how our current administration reacted over that NOAA hurricane chart with the sharpie drawn on it.
PokingTheBearAgain · 4 points · Posted at 23:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
Therandomfox · 1 points · Posted at 06:47:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ssshhhh. Let's not name names.
NeedsSumPhotos · 18 points · Posted at 19:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human psyche has an amazing ability to protect itself from damage. Without even being conscious of it, our minds drive our emotional state to protect our sense of self.
imgenerallyaccepted · 7 points · Posted at 19:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people act out. Good on you. Don't change.
Massive-Risk · 7 points · Posted at 21:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucked up one time by cutting a guy off and he honked and I waved out my window as to say sorry and the guy ended up following me, threw a McDonalds cup at my car, rolled his window down screaming at me. I was thinking about calling the cops cause this guy was nuts. He ended up cutting me off, break checking me and forced me to stop on the side of the road, then proceeded to get out of his car, come to my window and scream at me on the side of the road with his girlfriend screaming too. I knew I did wrong and kept saying sorry to the guy, saying it was an accident. He just kept screaming saying he had my plates and his girlfriend was filming us (me and my girlfriend) freaking out in our car until they eventually left and sped off going about 100 km/hr on a city street. It's almost like feeling bad for your actions isn't good enough any more, people will straight up assault you because of a simple mistake.
tmntnut · 3 points · Posted at 22:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah honestly I'm not immune from making mistakes and whenever I do some dumb shit while driving I always feel super embarrassed and usually give the "oh shit I fucked up" wave out of shame, I don't ever flip someone off after I do something dumb. However, I've been flipped off by people doing absolutely asinine shit on a fairly regular basis. I can't tell you how many times I've pulled into the parking lot at publix and some dumb shit is driving the wrong way and they flip me off, at this point I don't even let it bother me because I just accept that some people are morons.
levilee207 · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately it's just that there are shitty people and reasonable people. Take solace in the fact that you aren't a shitty person
okashiikessen · 8 points · Posted at 20:31:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno, let's ask the Republican Party.
thunderling · 18 points · Posted at 19:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I get they don't want to admit fault. But they KNOW they were wrong, so couldn't they at least try to leave the situation as quietly as possible, rather than blaming the other person?
I had my friend in the passenger seat and we were stopped at a red light. The light turned green, we both saw it. I started going. Oncoming car nearly plowed into us. We pulled over, and the first thing the person says to me is "You know you just ran a red light?"
Another time I was on my bicycle and an ambulance was coming up behind me with its siren on. I pulled over and waited, another car pulled over directly in front of me. And then started reversing. Straddling my bike, I couldn't move very quickly, so I started yelling and pounded on their back window (because they had gotten close enough for me to do so).
The driver came out and immediately started scolding me for getting behind a vehicle that was backing up. Literally told me "You need to be more careful." I was here BEFORE YOU and you obviously didn't look before you started backing up.
Denial, denial, denial. Do these people truly believe that they were correct? Do they know they were wrong and are trying to cover their ass? I just don't fucking get it.
mirrorspirit · 11 points · Posted at 20:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A few extreme cases do believe that they can do no wrong. Others are just trained to believe that "good people never make mistakes so if I make a mistake I must be a bad person. But I'm not a bad person and it really wasn't my fault. I didn't see that other person step out until it was too late, and now they are looking at me like I was trying to run them down on purpose. How dare they judge me to be that type of person. Like they're so perfect that they've never made a mistake in their lives. Screw them."
A lot of flawed thinking in these assumptions: black or white thinking, mind reading (assuming what the other person is thinking), catastrophizing:
I'm either a good person or a bad person.
I'm either entirely blameless or I ruthlessly intended to harm other people.
Admitting I made a mistake is a sign of weakness and culpability, and the other person might be an unreasonable ass who will hold it against me for the rest of their lives.
They might call the police on me and I'll have an expensive ticket or be thrown in jail for something I didn't mean to do.
slws1985 · 9 points · Posted at 20:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it makes you feel better I once pulled over for an ambulance to pass and got rearended. The guy had an absolute cow and I APOLOGISED. I was 18 and thought maybe I wasn't supposed to pull over.
Luckily there was no damage to my car so we didn't exchange details. Obviously because it was his fault he didn't want me to come after him.once I had a chance to realise what happened.
I'm in my 30s now and I still think about it.
decolored · 6 points · Posted at 20:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re so used to deflection that their brains neural routing no longer provides options/solutions, but rather weaseled fabrications that allow them to avoid the conflicts reasoning. Aka non-self-realized manipulation. It’s typical in teenagers
its_never_random · 44 points · Posted at 18:44:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That weird to me. I always will throw my hands up and mouth sorry if I’m in the wrong and somebody honks or whatever. Like, yes, I definitely can fuck up but I own it.
FunDwayno · 19 points · Posted at 19:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Many people never learn that, or at least never make it a habit. My observation is many people react with violent anger towards any sense of discomfort because that's just how they learned to cope with stress somewhere in their development. Like say, if they were raised in an environment where they never felt safe or secure because someone else in the house had anger issues themselves.
Anger is just how the learned to adapt to big threats early on and will likely react to even the smallest sensations of 'threat' later in life the same way, regardless of the reality of the situation they're in. And it takes a ton of work to unlearn that kind of thinking unfortunately.
*edit - just reworded things a bit
capitalol · 33 points · Posted at 18:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
congrats on being more emotionally centered than the majority of the population. =(
SBASP1228 · 4 points · Posted at 19:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! I always acknowledge it.
decolored · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ultimatum thinking lines up a lot more constructively with the mentality of an individual who isn’t self aware, meaning they’re not capable of judging their response patterns. If someone told me they always acknowledge their mistakes, I would think they rarely do.
SBASP1228 · 5 points · Posted at 20:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha um ok... I was talking about when I do something that was my fault when I am driving. I don’t flip the other person off, I own it. 🙄
decolored · -1 points · Posted at 20:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You didn’t specify so I figured you meant in your entire experience. I’m a little literal :)
SBASP1228 · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was reply to someone who had just said that they throw up their hands and mouth sorry instead of flipping people off. Follow the line up to the previous comment and you will know what it is a response to. ;)
decolored · -1 points · Posted at 20:33:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess we're both a little literal :)
Andy_B_Goode · 7 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I get that, but how does flipping someone off make them feel like less of a bad guy? I guess it's shifting the blame, but deep down they know they were wrong. Doesn't that haunt them? Don't the realize that they'd feel better if they just acknowledged their mistake?
NeedsSumPhotos · 2 points · Posted at 10:48:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, those are some lofty ambitions for anyone.
HoltbyIsMyBae · 4 points · Posted at 19:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or even just how they feel. Just got dumped? Found your spouse cheating? Just won the lottery? Wife having a baby in the car? People generally don't consider their actions as "is this something I will later regret? How would I want someone else to react if roles were reversed?"
heckinsmolfroggo · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is really true. As I get older I’m getting better at releasing my ego and saying, “you’re right, my bad.” Some people really appreciate it and it can be pretty grounding.
sbenthuggin · -1 points · Posted at 21:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. This is why emotions like regret and shame exist. There are plenty times in my life that I've been on both sides of being an asshole or someone else being an asshole and usually the asshole side apologizes, especially if it's an accident. Most people have these feelings, and if they don't then they're an outlier.
its_never_random · 966 points · Posted at 18:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok. So I started screaming at her because I was in shock that instead of her saying OMG, I am so sorry, she flipped me off. She CONTINUED TO FLIP ME OFF AND STARTED SCREAMING AT ME as I was yelling at her that she would have ran over my daughter.
I ran up to her door where her window was open and started grabbing at her trying to pull her out through the window and at the same time trying to open her door. I was seriously pulling her out as she was trying to get her window up. She finally got her window up and pulled her door back shut. I was screaming curse words and whatever else (I really can’t tell you) yelling at her to get out of the car and banging on her window. She finally sped away and I stood there in the middle of the street and all the other moms, the bus driver and a bus full of kids where just staring at me. I felt stupid for cursing in front of all the kids and losing it. The bus driver called me over and said as I was trying to kill her he got her license plate and was going to report her. So at least that happened.
But yeah. I am SUPER non confrontational. But when somebody does something like that, I have no problem going off I guess.
oldmanandtheflea84 · 479 points · Posted at 19:00:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually think that’s a totally justifiable reaction there. Someone almost runs over your kid and then gets shitty at you for preventing that horrendous situation? That’s grounds for a smackdown.
its_never_random · 215 points · Posted at 19:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seriously don’t even know what I was trying to do. I just couldn’t believe she flipped me off....lol.
gobacktoyourbook · 248 points · Posted at 19:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If someone flipped me off for preventing them from accidentally KILLING MY SON I would absolutely see fucking red. I don’t even know what I would do but it would certainly be similarly aggressive to what you did. That’s some seriously biological mother bear type fighting instincts. Just imagining it is getting me heated!
its_never_random · 77 points · Posted at 19:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know! I still get heated when I think about it. It was 13 yrs ago!
srslyppls · 17 points · Posted at 20:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My breathing got shallow and I started gritting my teeth just reading your story! The fury is understandable and relatable!
bayleenator · 8 points · Posted at 20:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's getting me heated and I'm not even a mother yet lol
oldmanandtheflea84 · 17 points · Posted at 19:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol I can’t say for sure how I’d react since I haven’t been in that situation, but I imagine it would just be anything to inflict immediate damage on her. So glad it ended the way it did, though. People are crazy.
jefferlewpew · 9 points · Posted at 20:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's truly an insane reaction. If I almost hit a kid, even if it wasn't my fault, I'd at least have to pull over and calm myself down before setting off again
decolored · 12 points · Posted at 20:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were trying to hurt her for not taking seriously how she almost killed your child. I’d pay to see this shit go down
DaddyLama · 5 points · Posted at 20:58:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can tell you what happened. Your deepest instincts kicked in and you were trying to kill this woman who threatened the life of your child.
rhi-raven · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An old guy sped through our neighborhood at 60+ mph while we were out playing and my mom checked her (full) water bottle at him lol. Seeing my normally calm mother dress down a guy older than my granddad was a sight to behold!
MyFatCatHasLotsofHat · -5 points · Posted at 21:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah reddit never changes
Awesome1296 · -20 points · Posted at 20:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is most certainly not justifiable. This guy is a psycho
oldmanandtheflea84 · 10 points · Posted at 20:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok Karen. And it’s a woman.
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:05:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what's your solution when someone almost kills your child, and then acts indignant and flips you off for stopping them? Let them be on their way while you mumble, "I do say I've never encountered such uncouth behavior!"?
It may not be strictly legal, but I'd bet money they'd go free if stood before a jury.
What_I_do_45 · 1 points · Posted at 07:49:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes because despite the law the lady in the car definitely deserves physical pain for her gross, gross negligence.
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oldmanandtheflea84 · 0 points · Posted at 20:39:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry, ok Donald *
velvet42 · 59 points · Posted at 19:07:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, I'm really curious about something. I'm usually pretty non-confrontational, too, but on very rare occasions (like only maybe 3 or 4 times ever) I've been outraged to the point I've literally gotten tunnel vision as the fight part of fight or flight kicks in. Just wondering if that happened to you as well.
its_never_random · 33 points · Posted at 19:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s exactly what happened. I normally would never act like this. It’s happened to me also less than 5 times in my life.
WannieTheSane · 16 points · Posted at 19:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the same! I avoid confrontation at all costs! But a few times I've just blown.
My family has a history of bad tempers, but I'm super chill. Until I'm not.
Same thing though, it's only happened a handful of times. Any friends that witnessed it were very shocked and confused, haha.
its_never_random · 6 points · Posted at 19:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! And I never start it. It’s when somebody else comes at me, then I can go off.
PM_ME_UR_SEXY_BITS_ · 4 points · Posted at 20:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the exact same way fwiw. I think my trigger is when someone is in my face screaming at me. Nope. Will not tolerate that.
MsCMoody · 9 points · Posted at 20:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can be downright cowardly when it comes to standing up for myself if taken by surprise. If someone is really rude to me or unexpectedly raises their voice, it seems to activate a freeze instinct on me. I just pause in shock not knowing how to react.
However, I can apparently grow spine of steel if I need to stand up for someone else like you were when you had to defend your child. I was working with my two first grade girls with special needs at my job. The class was on stage practicing for the concert and my girls went through the song once so I said they could have a break backstage. The littler one was appropriately playing with one of the toys that was left hanging around.
At some point I went in front of the curtain to check on some other kid. I could hear a door close and someone say something. When I walked backstage the little one was walking towards me with her head down like a scolded dog and she wrapped her arms around me like she was scared. The other girl said, "some lady just yelled at little one!"
"What?! Who?!" I shouted. She told me someone just demanded she "put that toy back!" and left. They couldn't name the person so I stormed out the door in search of the culprit. No one there, so I stomped down the hallway with the girls on my heels, ready to angrily ask if that doll left on the floor was a precious heirloom. My little one gets in trouble enough, she doesn't need to be yelled at by some rando for playing when I said she could.
I never found out who it was, but I was surprised at how brave I was when I felt I had to protect someone else.
LyricalWillow · 10 points · Posted at 20:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It happened to me once, and I’m a very laid back, non confrontational person.
My infant son was in the back on the passenger side. I was stopped in front of a busy four way intersection. A lady pulled up on the right, in the lane that only turned right, talking away on her phone. When the light turned green we both started forward, but that idiot went straight. She came within inches of hitting my son’s side.
I lost it. Followed her into the shopping center directly ahead and parked my car behind hers. Then I confronted her, loud enough to draw attention, and told her she’d almost killed my son because she wasn’t paying attention. I was furious and terrified at the same time. I had tunnel vision.
To her credit the woman apologized profusely and practically broke down into tears. She was genuinely remorseful and that calmed me down. But for a few seconds there I wanted to do bad things to her.
Feraffiphar · 4 points · Posted at 20:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got tunnel vision too, and it was red-tinged. That was when I realized that "seeing red" maybe had a basis in a literal biological response.
Prince_Edward_IV · 4 points · Posted at 20:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
im not op, im just chiming in.
ive had this happen to me before as well, usually followed by the shakes and intense nausea.
during the conflict, id get tunnel vision, everything seems red-tinged, my brain stops all thinking. time seems to slow down. i get a ringing in my ears and everyone seems far away.
it happens less and less as i grow older but in my teens it was a weekly occurrence id get so pissed about something it would just turn on like rage mode where i barely remember what i did afterwards.
and it was always some stupid thing like a kid teasing me a bit too far, or my little brother broke something i liked or whatever. fucking hormones, you know?
now as an adult i can count on one hand how many times its happened since 20 years old. and its always been for an understandable reason like once someone spit in my face or another time someone hurt a member of my family.
ive never hurt anyone bad enough to require medical assistance but ive mashed a few noses in my day.
i dont know what causes it, im not an angry person. ive talked my way out of more violence than i can even count, but everyone once in a while someone will do something so bafflingly evil or disrespectful that my fight or flight just goes "nah. know what? this is the hill we die on. have some adrenaline and some endorphins and lets FUCKING GOOOOO"
HatCoffee · 12 points · Posted at 20:44:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't wanna sound cynical, but you really gotta be careful with self centered people like that, especially if you live anywhere in the US. People like that will make usually try themselves look like the victim. Next thing you know you might be slapped with an assult charge and they could get off scott free.
Nothing on you, good on you for putting that bitch in her place. But this is a warning for future readers of this thread.
dessert-er · 36 points · Posted at 18:54:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe that will teach her to think twice before doing stupid shit that could get someone killed. Some good people will actually do something about it.
Scholesie09 · 46 points · Posted at 19:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm cynical as fuck and I'm sure she went "This fucking crazy lady on the road today..."
dessert-er · 11 points · Posted at 19:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hopefully it teaches her that crazy ladies are on the road and will fuck her up if she messes with them 🤷♂️
random_guy11235 · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is 100% what the driver thinks. Actually explaining to people why their actions are dangerous might have some positive effect; acting like a crazy person and trying to rip them out of their car absolutely will not.
dessert-er · 3 points · Posted at 21:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If she is mentally ill enough/enough of an asshole to repeatedly endanger the lives of children, and then become enraged when someone is trying to protect their child from being mowed down due to their actions, there is no conversation there. OP even tried to talk to them and car lady only kept yelling and flipping them off. These people need consequences, and while I would love for those consequences brought on them by the law (as will hopefully happen here) I’m assuming this parent is terrified this woman will continue until she kills someone and felt powerless when she wouldn’t listen to her so felt she had to act.
faceless_combatant · 14 points · Posted at 19:15:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parent instincts are crazy, man. That all sounds reasonable to me if someone almost killed your kid.
Awesome1296 · -9 points · Posted at 20:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would not hesitate to shoot someone who tries to pull me out of the car. I guess the little tikes will be orphans
ShkaBank · 8 points · Posted at 20:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you also the type of person to flip someone off after almost running over their child?
Awesome1296 · -5 points · Posted at 20:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, but regardless of the cause the lady stepped way out of line
Myfeedarsaur · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Regardless? Did you even read the story?
Awesome1296 · -2 points · Posted at 01:31:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep
Soy_Bun · 12 points · Posted at 19:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Momma bear activate
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i’d rather you get angry at a woman for almost killing your child than you have to deal with a hurt child. and all that didn’t even sound bad, I don’t know a parent who wouldn’t do the same thing. I applaud you
Tophbot · 3 points · Posted at 21:08:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe this lady is displaying what I like to call “diamagnetic anger”.
Just like how magnets induce an opposite, repulsive, magnetic field in diamagnetic materials, I propose “diamagnetic anger” is anger in response to anger irrespective of the source or reason for the initial anger.
Silvermet · 3 points · Posted at 00:05:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe I'm giving her too much credit, but for some people, it's just like it was for you. You started screaming because you were in shock. Someone in her situation might freak out back because they're in shock, too. I know I probably would be if I almost killed someone. Mind racing, unsure how to process it, not wanting to feel so incredibly guilty for what was almost a tragedy, wanting to find a way that it could be
someone else'sjust not your own fault, seeing that you're already getting attacked and need to defend yourself...Of course it's not an ideal reaction, but chaotic things happen in chaotic situations.
PhoenixDan · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That reaction was COMPLETELY justified, however, I just want to give you a heads up on something. I was actually talking to a lawyer friend a few months back and he was talking about how laws and charges can be combined and stacked. I'm sure this is different in every state but in my state, he was telling me that if you break a car window or enter someone's car without permission...that's breaking and entering, but a misdemeanor.
If you hit someone or punch someone, it's assault but also a misdemeanor.
But, if you break into a car AND then assault a person....that's breaking and entering WITH assault and that combination is a felony.
Anger goes a long way and you reacted the way I think most people would and it was justified, but keep that in mind that sometimes attacking someone in one context can carry drastically different consequences than in another context.
I'm glad your kid was safe though and honestly that person totally deserved the beat down.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YESSSSSS! Sorry, but I'm living vicariously through you right now. That shit just felt good to READ it!!!
VoxDolorum · 5 points · Posted at 19:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I live in Orlando and I see people act like this after almost killing others all the freaking time. One person cut us off at a 4 way stop where they didn’t have the right of way and they were literally looking us dead in the eyes and just wouldn’t stop and we had to slam our breaks to avoid hitting them. Now, no one was going fast enough to die I’m sure, but he was, of course in a gigantic pick up so it wouldn’t have been great. It was like he was trying to play chicken.
Then he flipped us off and stopped in front of us for a solid minute, as if he was trying to decide whether to get out and confront us. (Confront is for what I don’t know, having the audacity to drive a vehicle I guess.) This kind of shit happens 9 out of 10 trips out of the house.
Also my SO who is 6’2” and built pretty big was hit - physically, as in he was a pedestrian - not once but two times in the last year in a parking lot by someone backing out of a spot without looking at all. He’s not easy to miss. He had to actually punch their vehicles with his fist to get them to realize they were slowing trying to back over a human being. Un-fucking-believable.
TheRedditGirl15 · 4 points · Posted at 19:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well considering the fact that she almost ran over your daughter by speeding and didn't care, your reaction is 100% understandable
mladakurva · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for sharing.
I've done something similar. When I was on the way to drop my kid off at daycare, there's this road where, before you can turn right, you need to drive around a small streetbump. But it has markings around it so you can't cross it. It's to protect cyclists, so you won't cut em off when you're not looking.
Anyway, as I was going around that thing and turning right, some old lady just went straight through and would have rammed my car in back side in the right and effectively killed my daughter IF I hadnt slammed the brakes. She just drove off and I went in full pursuit, she saw me following her so she accelerated quite a bit. At one point I was able to overtake her and block her. So I jumped out of my car and ran to her window and was screaming why the fuck she ran that bump. Her excuse was "well if you would have done the same then there wouldn't be a problem"
I wanred to punch her fucking fake teeth into a million pieces but was aware that I would be 100% at fault and wouldve gotten arrested. So I called her the ugliest Dutch word there is, and spat right in her face
intheskywithlucy · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You went in full pursuit and blocked her car using the car your daughter was in? Yikes.
mladakurva · 2 points · Posted at 04:32:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know, it's horrible..
intheskywithlucy · 2 points · Posted at 13:37:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can’t say I don’t understand. I always worry about what I’ll do when put in situations like that. I’m crazy before factoring in somebody potentially harming my child. I like to think in that moment I’d realize my daughter is in the car and let it go... but you never know.
mladakurva · 2 points · Posted at 10:18:16 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair it wasn't the first time it happened and the first couple of times cars didn't go for it but slammed on their brakes as soon as they saw me turning (I mean I have my fucking blinker on so you should be able to anticipate). But here I blacked out. As soon as I got out I was apparently able to think again since I "just resorted" to do the thing I described. God I cringe just thinking of it
impliedhoney89 · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, your reaction is more understandable than hers. Your mama bear instincts kicked in hard, and she was just being an asshole.
Another perk is that the people that saw you probably don’t mess with you now. Sometimes you just gotta let the lion roar.
TismoJones · 3 points · Posted at 19:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Savage haha
gabrieldevue · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I empathize so much with you. One time i believed somebody dear to me hurt my kid on purpose (i was wrong - nothing happened. i heard a slapping sound but it wasn'T that person hitting my kid) and I instantly went into lioness mom bear mode with this white hot rage in me. In my mind i knew where the kitchen knives were and what way was quickly out the door, grabbing my kid. I was incredibly surprised by myself, but instinct took over. (Nobody was harmed, misunderstanding cleared up. Got scared of myself but also weirdly reassured, that I got this. that meek, socially awkward, easily frightened me WOULD HAVE DEFENDED MY KID WITHOUT A SECOND HESITATION).
I don't know,w hat i would have done in your situation. I get very angry about people who endanger others. And if they endanger my kid..... oh boy.
i so wish somebody had this on camera and this woman would have gotten a just sentence.
Boss99 · 2 points · Posted at 03:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This situation is very different depending if you're a man or a woman. Either way it would have been rad if you got her keys and threw them really far.
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman.
DonovanBanks · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NTA. Oh. Wrong sub
Myfeedarsaur · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Username checks out.
MarinkoAzure · 2 points · Posted at 20:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You may not be proud, but I'm still proud of you.
HateFilledSquirrel · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, she deserved it and most people would probably do the same in a situation like that. I'd like to think that your aggressiveness scared some sense into her and made her realize that it could have been FAR worse. Realistically, she probably remained a self-absorbed twat, but I like the other scenario better.
ArtsyFlatulance · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope she is haunted by that forever
anitabelle · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She almost hurt your daughter and showed no regard when you called her out. I hope that piece of shit learned a valuable lesson when you nearly beat her ass but unlikely. Don’t feel bad, your adrenaline kicked in. I would have done something similar.
rebel1031 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could have been proud if you’d actually pulled her out of the window and beat her ass. I’m also absolutely non-confrontational but when it comes to my kids some primal thing kicks in and I can’t help it. Your way probably resulted in less blood shed and legal action so I’m sure it was the more reasonable way.
FrickinLazerBeams · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She almost ran over your kid and was defending her actions. The only thing you have to be embarrassed about is that you didn't manage to get her out through the window so you could smash her dumb fucking face.
slws1985 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I can never know how I would react for sure....but I feel like that's pretty much how I would react.
thewinterwarden · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely with you on the super non confrontational but it's crazy how fast that can change when it's someone or something we love at risk. To a much lesser extreme than your own situation, I'm a very friendly person until someone is rude or dismissive of my pets. They're well trained and I take care to make sure they dont bother others but if someone comes home, idc how bad your day is dont yell at the dogs for circling and being happy to see you or we will have a serious fuckin problem.
gravityCaffeStocks · 0 points · Posted at 19:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While this may be an overall unproud moment.. there are positives. You showed how much a parent can love their kid when they see someone else as a threat. You showed that men (wait are you a man? If so..) can be super protective in a physical way should anyone try to harm your family.. everybody saw that nobody fucks with your family. (Again, IF you're a man) a lot of people would say men rage too much and in some ways society tells us to suppress that, but it's in our DNA, we have testosterone, and it can sure as hell protect a woman and her child. For that, women should be thankful. If you're a woman then disregard lol, but still positives
nonsensepoem · 0 points · Posted at 20:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're doing the lord's work. Now please go find someone who litters and do the same.
Trey5169 · -2 points · Posted at 19:45:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's an unspoken rule in the animal kingdom: you DO NOT mess with momma Bear's Cubs.
You just became momma bear, that's all. Happens to the best of us.
Awesome1296 · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, that is how you get a dead momma. I know people who would shoot you if you tried that shit
1maginasian · -1 points · Posted at 20:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beat her ass good
powpowbaby · -1 points · Posted at 20:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck yeah
ngoleo · -3 points · Posted at 20:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should have citizens arrested her ass. Better next time. Children's lives matter. You should not be ashamed of your attempt to make the citizens arrest. Valiant, within your rights. Technically you might have been able to lawfully kill her depending on what state you're in, California has the most lenient justified, (for private citizens pc 186?) homicide laws I've found.
GetaGoodLookCostanza · -6 points · Posted at 19:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ah ok just read what you did. good for you are a female or male? lol
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Female...lol.
GetaGoodLookCostanza · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder what happened to that douche in the car.....any info on that?
cultured_banana_slug · 24 points · Posted at 18:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are momentarily self-aware and see themselves as assholes. They don't like this, so they resent YOU for making THEM "feel bad".
So they feel entitled to react to you with anger. Then they feel better.
ichunoona51 · 4 points · Posted at 20:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fear translates to anger, which is them flipping you off, or whatever.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my job, in which i regularly get abuse off the public, we call it reflected anger. They are doing something wrong but they react in a way caused by the embaressment of being caught. When faced with being caught, some people say sorry and are decent. Others yell and scream as if somehow it's my fault. This doesn't last too long, but it's usually long enough for us to part.
Interestingly I had this a few months ago, it ended, no big deal. But the person concerned, 30 mins later, ran into a colleague of mine and asked him to apologise to me for her behaviour.
a-r-c · 15 points · Posted at 19:00:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
three days ago, a woman flipped me off because she crossed the double-yellow into oncoming traffic and almost hit me
and 6 months ago, a guy cut me off and then pulled up and actually threatened to fight me until I pulled the metal baseball bat from my back seat and pointed it in his face and told him to fuck off before I shoved it up his gaping asshole
and shit, 3 months ago I cut a guy off kinda by accident (but mostly bc I wasn't paying attention like I should have been) and I waved at him to say sorry but then he followed me for 2 miles dodging and weaving through traffic to taunt and honk at me...like ok, I fucked up, but it's not like I flipped the guy off or hit him.
anaugle · 6 points · Posted at 18:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feel free. It sounds like she had it coming and basically anything that happened was probably karma.
[deleted] · 126 points · Posted at 15:57:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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eagle6927 · 75 points · Posted at 18:06:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a childish way to deal with mistakes
dzkat222 · 12 points · Posted at 18:20:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of people just don't know how to, or refuse to own up to their mistakes. Then they get defensive or even combative when getting caught.
It's sad really cause just on a very basic level, owning up to your own actions not only looks better but it also helps to fix a behavior that otherwise will continue to happen.
scarygary88 · 19 points · Posted at 18:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't matter whether or not she saw a child, it is illegal to drive past or around a bus when it is stopped. Hence, the stop sign on the side of a bus.
Zemykitty · 14 points · Posted at 18:32:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you flip people off or be hostile to others when you're in the wrong?
Do you scream at cashier's when your coupons are expired?
its_never_random · 6 points · Posted at 18:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will say this. She did it all the time. I even said to myself “I wonder when the shitty red blazer will speed by” and then it happened. She always ran the bus stop sign and I was ready for her.
Girthderth · 6 points · Posted at 18:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trying to justify shitty behavior doesn’t make it less shitty.
CaptainTruelove · 13 points · Posted at 18:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think anyone here is justifying it. Understanding why people react irrationally isn't justifying their reaction.
Wish_I_Couldnt · -2 points · Posted at 18:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoosh
mr_eous · 2 points · Posted at 18:17:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a deep breath. Don't be an ass hole.
hhahaaa · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
some people love to lash out and try to make others feel like shit when they feel bad, i guess. lol
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:33:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I threw a pumpkin at a car for that same shit. I'm not ashamed.
randomrobotnoise · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is gold
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:37:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people care more about their egos than others.
The-Rocketman3 · 4 points · Posted at 19:02:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I ride a motorbike and more than a few times someone has put me in danger and I honk my horn, its amazing how many people flip me off but it happens to be the same number of cars that have their side mirror removed by my boot
A-Grey-World · 6 points · Posted at 19:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A driver one reversed onto the pavement (to do a three point turn), nearly hitting my 4 year old daughter, outside a school at closing time. My wife pushed her out of the way and had to bang on the back of the car with her palm (she still didn't stop).
The driver cursed at her for being in the way and not visible in whichever mirror she was supposedly looking in.
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, this is the same exact thing! I don’t understand it.
HonPhryneFisher · 12 points · Posted at 17:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! I was in a parking lot once and someone was backing out very fast without looking (I had the right of way, I was going around the lot, fairly slow but I had to slam the breaks) and I tapped my horn so she would stop. She flipped the fuck out, both her and her passenger. I grew up terrified of road rage incidents so I use my horn almost none and then only a tap. They were coming out of a tanning place so I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
Awaythrowndetritus · 11 points · Posted at 18:11:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to hold my horn for an awkwardly long period of time, really winds them up!
rasouddress · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True. I've never been angrier on the road in my life than the time a truck behind me was holding his horn down as I sat at a red light. The light turned green for people going one way but stayed red for people turning left. The idiot behind me had gotten in the wrong lane and was blaring his horn nonstop because I wouldn't run the red light for him.
Awaythrowndetritus · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I generally nonly use it when people are gonna hit me, or someone else.
Or to shit my mates up
HonPhryneFisher · 6 points · Posted at 18:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tapping politely has not served me well, so maybe laying on it would help.
Awaythrowndetritus · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go for it, but I'm also the asshole who's put airhorns on his pickup
yeetboy · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had EXACTLY this happen to me last year. Woman almost hit me backing out of a spot, as I was pulling into the spot across from her. I tapped the horn, she flipped me off and started yelling. I got out with my wife, the woman and her passenger continued to yell and flip us off as we walked by. Fucking psycho.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twice I have had a man with a stroller jump into a crosswalk while I had the right of way and was going normal speed in my car. When I honked they flipped me off. They were with other people, too! The first guy even kep doing it while laughing. These men are husbands and fathers! They endangered their own child and flipped me offf!
are_you_nucking_futs · 12 points · Posted at 19:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This must vary by country. In many places pedestrians have right of way at a crosswalk.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not if they jump in while their light is red, or hit the light button and jump in without giving the car the time to react and stop or finish going through.
daitenshe · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very well could’ve been when the crosswalk light was indicating it was not their turn to cross
biz_cazh · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you have a green light? Or rather how do you decide who has the right of way?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First one I had a green light. Second one they hit the crosswalk button and their light immediately flashed, and they jumped in without giving me a chance to stop or finish getting through. I had to slam my brakes.
amisixty · 8 points · Posted at 18:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People like this are really crazy on another level. I know someone who was beaten by a driver who almost hit her. The driver came barreling down the road, and she jumped back and instinctively said “what the fuck!” She continued on her way and it turns out the driver was following her. The driver pulled her to the ground by her hair and started attacking her. The person got away, she had to be stitched up, and she’s now dealing with anxiety and ptsd.
Elite2260 · 18 points · Posted at 16:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s stupid you just saved her from jail.
Gezzer52 · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IMHO that's pretty much narcissistic behaviour in a nutshell. Nothing they do can ever be wrong and so they're never in the wrong. So the fact that you reacted the way you did means you were in the wrong. And she reacted to that perceived fact. I wouldn't be surprised if she was oblivious to everything around her and didn't even notice the sign (or understand it's significance) or your daughter.
GingerMau · 7 points · Posted at 19:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who act like this have a victim complex. The whole world is against them and they've never done anything wrong.
MylastAccountBroke · 6 points · Posted at 18:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you didn't take off her side view mirror then you didn't do enough.
its_never_random · 4 points · Posted at 18:43:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I almost did.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 6 points · Posted at 18:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, now we're all imagining what you did and I guarantee it's worse than the reality. Unless the reality is that you jumped up on the hood of her car, proudly pooped upon it, then ululated and flew away.
Ilike_h2o · 3 points · Posted at 18:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Be proud. No reason to hold back. Unless you killed them, then maybe dont go into details.
TheBeefyBison · 3 points · Posted at 19:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reminds me of when I damn near crashed into some dunce because they decide to pass a truck that was slowly moving on the side of the road (trying to let the person behind them pass) right as I was coming along. Like it's a double yellow line IN TOWN so you need to wait for me to go by mate. She honked at me and I lost it, like you shouldn't be passing in the first place here unless there's no oncoming traffic. I swear half the people where I live don't have their licenses or don't deserve them lol
tarajsimpson · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not super similar but driving related. I was in the passenger seat with my step-dad driving and we were at a traffic light junction with the lights red. A car pulled up next to us and my step-dad just had noticed their passenger side front wheel was flat, like, how was that car still driving flat. He was trying to get the attention of the driver but the kid in the passenger seat got confused at why he was basically shouting at him. Eventually the kid rolled down the window and he alerted the driver to the situation. However, just as they rolled down the window the lights turned green and everyone behind both of us started honking their horns in anger and swearing at my step-dad. I know they didn’t really know why both of us were not moving, but that car was full of kids and something bad could have easily occurred if the driver went much further.
Apocalypse_Octopus · 6 points · Posted at 18:30:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents got mad at me when a car almost ran over me when they refused to stop at the bus stop. THEY almost ran over Me. But my parents were angry at me because "I should have been paying more attention." I'm sorry that they came barreling from behind a curve, and I didn't see them. They even stopped by the house to apologize later on, but still.
its_never_random · 4 points · Posted at 18:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Um. That’s weird. Mine was a kindergartner so....
Apocalypse_Octopus · 4 points · Posted at 18:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea what was going on in their heads really. My bus stop was right there where a curve was so I couldn't exactly see if a car came around that curve. It stopped in time and I was okay lucky. This was maybe 5th-6th grade. I think they were incredibly worried and therefore lashed out on me, but I have no idea.
AlpacamyLlama · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They were scared.
Clegomushanna · 5 points · Posted at 18:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something like this happened to me and my friends once. We were biking up to tennis lessons and we went to stop at the four-way stop. As we started to bike through the street, this car came out of nowhere barreling down the road, didn't stop at the stop sign, and came really close to hitting us all. Then proceeded to lay in his horn and then continue down the road at an unsafe speed. It wasn't a very fun experience...
BetterThanHorus · 7 points · Posted at 17:23:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve had people flip me off and blast their horn at me because I drove past them while they were at a stop sign they were trying to blow
Tzar_Chasm96 · 5 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, you could have jumped on the roof of the car, dropped a river of diarrhoea down the windscreen, cycled through every known profanity dating back to the mesolithic era, sacrificed a wombat to satan and eaten the last dodo, and still take pride in it. There is no limit to what you can do in defense of your kids.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Different strokes, some folks react angrily when they know to be in the wrong.
Pity dem fools. They’re likely miserable as fuck.
man_b0jangl3ss · 2 points · Posted at 18:55:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was it get her license plate and report it to the police? Some school districts are installing dash cams on buses to catch people doing this
rsk222 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once saw someone blow through a stop sign, nearly hitting another car, then proceed to slam on their brakes, back up, and curse at the car they’d nearly hit because they broke the law. What the frick, man.
Soy_Bun · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Forgive my nosy nature, but I’m dying to know your honest reaction to that. Like PM me if that’s easier, but I always wonder how stuff like this plays out in real like. Not just “oh this is what I think/would like to do in that situation.”
its_never_random · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I posted it!
Soy_Bun · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oooo I’ll hunt it out. Thanks!
RogueForce022 · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was walking across a pedestrian crossing in front of my University's main entrance. This lady driving while texting nearly ran me over. And she is the one throwing signs. Like wtf.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of those people are just entitled and think that since they are in the car that they have the right of way. I had someone honk at me once when I was crossing the cross walk then shout at me for being in their way.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once got flipped off for stopping at a yield sign, so the guy with the right of way could continue on his way. I am still confused about that one.
SpookyDrPepper · 2 points · Posted at 19:46:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know what the word for a person like this is, but this is my sister. She can take ANYTHING and turn it to how it’s hurting/effecting her/fucking up her day. She is a very miserable, insecure person. These types of people think anything and everyone is out to get them. You know those people who have the mindset “why me?” But then won’t think twice about doing shit like flipping off a mom saving her child.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to live in this house that was on a busy street. One day I was coming home after work and this older man that was having hip problems, or whatever, was walking really slowly across the sidewalk/entrance for my driveway. I put my right blinker on waiting for him. The woman behind me laid on her horn, started cussing for me to move. Where? There was no street parking and circling back around my block to come back around would probably take another five minutes. It was early in the afternoon because I started work really early in the morning, so it wasn’t as busy as it typically gets. She could have just passed me. She sort of did. She got in the middle of the road, stopped right next to me (the cars going the opposite direction had to stop since she was blocking them) and she rolled down ALL of her windows (her kid was in the backseat too) to tell me she hoped I would die a painful death as well as other lovely things. I guess I was an asshole for waiting a minute for the old dude to walk. I could have just spent the extra five minutes circling around, but I just worked an 11 hour shift and I was fucking tired. Jeez.
TheHancock · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On r/TIFU tomorrow: “killed a woman for almost hitting HMU kid with her car”
Lennon_v2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started delivering Pizza a few months ago and have gained about a story a week about people getting mad at me when they break the rules of the road. I am a rather cautious driver most of the time, and I have no desire to get a ticket or to get in an accident. If my driving record gets messed up I lose this job (not that it's the best job ever, I'd just rather not go from one dead end temporary job to another and devote more time on gaining one better job to stay at long term). My favorite was when I left a house on a main road and someone on a side street, who had a stop sign while I didnt, blew past their stop sign and didnt stop until they saw me, despite the fact they were now in the road. I luckily realized they werent stopping and stopped myself, but the guy in that car did one of those exacerbated throw the arms up in the air because apparently I'm a fucking idiot for not crashing into him when he blew a stop sign. God, I was FUMING for the rest of that shift
Meades_Loves_Memes · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should be proud of what you did next. But the fact you aren't means you're a better person than I am.
Prince_Edward_IV · 2 points · Posted at 20:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lemme just say what you did was dangerous...... for the lady in the car lmao
never fuck with a mom/dad in full on mom/dad mode
GrimmOfThrones2187 · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In most situations, I would consider you a psycho. But you know what, good job.
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously, I am not like this normally. I would never cause a scene anyplace. I’ve done it 2 other times and all 3 had to do with my child. The other 2 were when weirdos were following me and my child, one was trying to take pics of her. I lost it and confronted him. So I guess it’s only when it involves me kids. Lol.
GrimmOfThrones2187 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You reacted appropriately. Well done.
mmarcos2 · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had someone hit me (slowly, gently) with their car while I was crossing at a crosswalk, the lady in the passenger seat called me an asshole, I called her a fucking bitch (not sure if I'm not proud of continuing to escalate), her husband got out a threw one of the most pathetic slow motion swings at me, that was comically easy to just back away from. First and only time in my adult life I've ever "been in a fight."
I'm not a social dude, but I ate out a lot on my block, and am reasonably nice. Two of the restaurant owners nearby came running out to help and make sure I was ok. They got in their car and drove away.
It was surreal. I mean, sure, I continued to escalate, but the balls on this fucking bitch (yeah I guess I'm.not not proud) to call me an asshole after they hit me with their fucking car.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A sign you’re a tremendous and caring mother/father in the end
cup-o-farts · 2 points · Posted at 20:55:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm proud of you.
WriterDavidChristian · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would have helped you. No one forgets an ass beating and I have a feeling the judge would have been lenient lol
UnicornGlitterZombie · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sending you a crazy fellow mom high five right now!!
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love it!
SatoshiUSA · 2 points · Posted at 21:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this. The bus driver sees you lose your shit and gets the info of the woman to report her. It's just perfect honestly. You could've been the one reported but the bus driver pulled an epic powermove and reported the woman (who definitely was the one at fault)
its_never_random · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, and I mean I was apologizing to him about what I did but he didn’t care. He was like she does this all the time. We finally got her license plate. I also apologized to the bus stop moms. They didn’t mind at all.
SatoshiUSA · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good, you did something with people's safety in mind and made a difference. Honestly I'd say you're the hero there
TheBigEmptyxd · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people truly deserve to be pulled from their car and punched in the face. That woman was one of them
tmntnut · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally with you on this, I remember when me and my ex were driving home from the grocery store with my newborn son in the car with us and some asshole ran a red light and pulled out right in front of us when we were doing like 45-50 mph and I laid on the horn just to let them know we were about to nail them, thankfully I had enough room in the lane next to me to dodge them but then these stupid fucks speed up to pull next to us and threw a giant handful of change at our car. I'm a super non-confrontational person but with my newborn first and only child in the car I lost my fucking shit, followed them up to the next light and got behind them, got out of my car and walked up next to the passenger window where the person who threw the change was sitting.
It was a 50+ year old man with his wife driving and they had what I assume were two grandchildren in the back of their van, I asked the guy if he realized his age considering the absolutely childish shit he just pulled after his wife's shitty driving almost got them crushed in the first place. He then said if I didn't back up he was going to get out and kick my ass, I was around half this dude's age and more than willing to throw down at that point so I told him to feel free and take a step out, then he rolled up his window and pretended I wasn't there while his wife started screaming she was going to call the cops. I told her to feel free so that they could explain why the fuck they threw a handful of change at us after running a red light, then I walked back to my car and my ex already had the cops on the phone, unfortunately they didn't do a god damn thing and I just ended up being super heated for the rest of the day. I still get fucking mad every time I think about it, people can be so fucking ignorant.
its_never_random · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omgod. Oh yeah with newborn baby in the car, your already in heightened mode. But seriously, what is wrong with people? Like what is going on in their minds?
tmntnut · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Honestly I have no idea what that guy or his wife were thinking, I'm sure she just made an honest mistake while driving but the events that transpired after were mind boggling, I probably didn't handle it as well as I could have but I'm pretty over-protective when it comes to my son since he's the single best thing that's ever happened to me which is why I totally understand your reaction to the situation you were in. There is no rational thinking when it involves the potential harm of your child or children, some people are just assholes unfortunately.
MrSweatyBawlz · 4 points · Posted at 19:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When your children are involved, there are no rules
Awesome1296 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell that to the police lol
MrSweatyBawlz · 0 points · Posted at 20:44:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will, proudly
SophisticatedStoner · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a guy cut me off so bad one time that I had to SLAM on the brakes. So I got into the lane next to him and flipped him off. The guy proceeds to FOLLOW me for the next HALF HOUR around town. I tried losing him but this fuckwad wanted a piece of me. I live in a town 10 or 20 miles outside of a bigger city so he kind of just gave up, but that fucker wanted to commit murder after already almost causing an accident.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some idiot, tried to drive both dangerous and illegal, the crazy old bitch got a middle finger, then started speeding as crazy trying to crash into our car, a car with 2 kids and 1 adult. If she had scratched that car i would have walked out and beated the shit out of her
xaanthar · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's okay. I've got popcorn and stuck at home.
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I posted it. It’s in here somewhere.
sarah_the_intern · 2 points · Posted at 19:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My old commute to work involved merging from one interstate to another. One day I had a bunch of cars in front of me doing the same thing. The interstate we were merging onto was completely clear in the other lane. So as we approached the merge, all of the cars already on that interstate moved over to let us in. All but one driver. So when it was finally my turn to merge, that one driver (whose car was basically just a frame) didn’t follow the lead of the other cars, so I had to slow down in order to let him pass. Rather than just continuing on and passing me, he slammed on his brakes and flipped me off. Then he sped around to get in front of me. I knew a state trooper liked to camp in a spot shortly ahead, so I hoped he would get pulled, but I don’t think anything ever happened to him.
GaryNOVA · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about Drill Sergeants? Do you get that concept? Or is it just everyday life circumstances?
AlpacamyLlama · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you imagine this would be funny?
GaryNOVA · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This was an actual question. Not meant to be condescending either. What tone of voice did you read this in?
AlpacamyLlama · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did you think drill sergeants related to his comments?
GaryNOVA · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
they edited the parent comment after I posted this. His edit answered my question though.
marleyman7391 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Louis CK has a great bit related to this lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda wanna know
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely want to know what you did next. Im.sure you were justified.
LuckyCharms2000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some call it projection.
grammarpopo · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope whatever you did involved extreme bodily harm to the motorist, or if you couldn’t go there, then their car.
Relgomj · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was in middle school I was about to cross the road and the girl ahead of me was walking across and this car came speeding down said road and hit her. She literally flew into the air, rolled up the car, and fell off. She only broke a leg and I have no idea how that was the only thing that happened. I should also mention that it was right when school got out and the road was lined with parents picking up their kids and buses so it was very obvious that kids were walking around everywhere. And the girl was a very responsible and follow-the-rules girl.. she wouldn't just run out into the street. I don't understand how people can be so reckless.
TerminalMoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If this makes you feel a little better, in my city stop sign are a suggestion (I'm not joking at all) and every law you studied to obtain your driver license will be erased soon by the experience of a chaotic galaxy that you immediately encounter when you take your car and start driving by yourself.
It's like a tons of singularity and infinite random quarks that moves around and interact to each others. The only rational thing is to adjust in a way that everyone survive and you cannot be put in jail.
Ghostronic · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, you properly hedged yourself against the hivemind. Now you can tell us!
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I posted it already!
GetaGoodLookCostanza · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
can you PM me what you did. dying to know because I prob would have done what you did...
its_never_random · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I posted it. Lol.
GetaGoodLookCostanza · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw. thanks. good on you
ctng37 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One time on my motorcycle, a truck pulled out from an apartment parking lot and was probably about 6 inches or less from hitting my knee. I turned around to see the person/ car and he furiously flicked me off with both hands... I almost couldn’t focus in class that day.
fuckthissite- · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just can’t leave us hanging about the ending, what did you do ?!
Moist_KoRn_Bizkit · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This happened to me and my dad recently. We were driving home and some homeless woman rode her bike across the street when the crosswalk sign clearly said no crossing. My dad honked at her and she flipped him off. Like, WTF lady, do you want to die?
warsavage32 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I chalk this up to a perception issue. I just assume they don't perceive themselves to be in the wrong, regardless of how obvious anyone else may think it is.
k_b101 · 1455 points · Posted at 17:11:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people actually give 2 shts about what celebrities think.
Fledermolch · 110 points · Posted at 19:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you can identify with the celebrity, or view them as a kind of friend, you start caring about them and their opinions.
dannicalliope · 79 points · Posted at 19:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And celebrities are just people, and some of them are genuinely good and/or interesting people and that makes me interested in what they have to say.
JollyTurbo1 · 27 points · Posted at 22:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then others sing Imagine from their multi-million dollar homes
dannicalliope · 6 points · Posted at 23:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True. But none of them are any that I particularly care about. LOL.
JollyTurbo1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a little disappointed to see Mark Ruffalo in the video. He actually does a lot of things to help people, but being in the video made him look a bit stupid. Most of the others in the video I either don't care about or genuinely dislike
dannicalliope · 10 points · Posted at 23:53:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone has a tone deaf moment occasionally. If he’s otherwise decent I wouldn’t hold it against him.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 00:39:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think people are the idiots here. "Let's get together and sing a song since times are tough."
"OMG they're singing about no possessions when they themselves have possessions. More than me, in fact. How dare they."
Stop worrying about what other people are doing. They're not hurting anyone. They were singing a fucking song.
dannicalliope · 4 points · Posted at 00:40:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda how I lean, tbh. But I am also pretty comfortable in my home. I can see how it might hit different if I were struggling right now.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People view as celebrities as their cool older sibling except they are not related
dropEleven · 31 points · Posted at 20:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work as a music journalist and a lot of the artists I seek to interview are highly motivated, passionate, industry pioneers with unique perspectives that have lead to them becoming successful. Understanding that mindset is interesting to people. It’s no different than an accomplished scientist giving a keynote speech. It’s just on a different subject.
Hahonryuu · 49 points · Posted at 20:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because celebrities have voices that are actually heard and access to more outlets/stages to voice their opinions.
Northern-Canadian · 30 points · Posted at 23:20:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn’t explain why anyone should listen to them.
Just because their voice is the loudest in the room doesn’t make their opinions anymore valid.
GREATMASTER_SHITPOST · 8 points · Posted at 00:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes but most people(maybe not most but a lot of people) dont really judge if the opinion is wrong when it is coming from a loud voice. Extra points if you already agreed with the opinion, because you will use the loud voice to spread the opinion.
Wolf_Protagonist · 14 points · Posted at 21:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that depends on the celebrity and the context.
Like, I am interested in Quentin Tarantino's opinion on films because I trust that he has some idea what he's talking about. His opinion on something irrelevant to his field probably wouldn't interest me though.
I do agree it's weird when people treat celebrities as an authority in areas where they have no real experience.
BabysitterSteve · 2 points · Posted at 07:53:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I understand people who share ideals and interests as a celebrity.
I don't understand people who love them for every single shit like what they ate for breakfast and what they were like in a relationship. And what I don't understand even more is people who shove celebrities down your throat to enforce their opinion. Who tf cares if Beyonce likes her coffee that way, and why is it wrong that I drink it another? This is just an exaggeration but seriously this kind of things get out of hand when people take celebrities opinion in everything, even when it's something bigger.
daniel4sight · 65 points · Posted at 18:56:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mainly boredom with their own lives. Think old fashioned house wives reading about celebrities because they've been doing the same shit all day everyday.
SNScaidus · 10 points · Posted at 21:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrities who think they're politicians.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a line in the Get Smart movie where at some point the possible destruction of Hollywood comes up and how all the celebrities will die and someone says, "Oh but what will we do without their cutting-edge political opinion"
mule401 · 6 points · Posted at 01:00:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHO GIVES A FUCK WHAT JA RULE THINKS AT A TIME LIKE THIS
Gaurav8646 · 9 points · Posted at 19:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's ok to swear on Reddit
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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chillywilly16 · 4 points · Posted at 22:58:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s the spirit!
Gaurav8646 · 1 points · Posted at 07:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What did the comment say?
Happy-Lemming · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a silly bunt.
PiercedGeek · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dead serious here, I honestly can't tell if you are agreeing with me or making fun of me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Happy-Lemming · 0 points · Posted at 05:15:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope - just quoting a Monty Python sketch, another work of art.
Bacxaber · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toxic as fuck.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 00:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beyond this, how about celebrities in general. Who cares what clothes they wear, who they see and what they do?
"Can you write your name on this paper for me? OMG THANK YOU. We've never met befoore, have nothing in common and will never meet again, but let's take a picture together despite the fact that you don't even know my name."
rinkiyakepaapaa · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrities play roles in movies that people often idolize. e.g. rich businessman, famous high school kid. Hence they start respecting the celebrity on screen and sub conciously off screen as well. Hence they give a lot of importance to what they say or think.
granolaismyfav · 2 points · Posted at 01:58:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Escapism
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“They’re famous and rich so they must be smarter than us.”
penguiatiator · 4 points · Posted at 22:05:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God, this gives me the same vibe as the "imagine" singalong Gal Gadot did. I wanted to kill myself
kfijatass · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A celebrity is an avatar of sorts. You identify and are interested in the one celebrity whose qualities you'd like to see more of in the world.
Take Keanu Reeves. Guy has badass hobbies, is humble, good hearted and dedicated to his art. You just know Hollywood, nay, the world would be a better place with more of his Ilk.
matthewuzhere2 · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on the celebrity. I don’t really care about Kim Kardashian’s take on the Israel-Palestine conflict, but there are plenty of celebrities I respect and look up to and I do care about their opinions on certain things.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrities in general? Yeah, who gives a shit. However! There are some poets, painters, filmmakers, songwriters, etc. who may come from a particular environment or used to work in a previous field, etc. and so forth, and their work is their way of raising awareness or voicing criticisms. I do give a shit what these types think because they are speaking from personal experience.
spetrillob · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People need someone with a seemingly higher status to follow
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's been happening here in NZ with the lock-down. They keep bringing in some random woman who was relevant once for her opinion. - "And now we're crossing to Karen in Huntly to hear her thoughts on the R0 of Covid-19 and what it's going to mean for the world economy"
briuh13 · -5 points · Posted at 20:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
THIS. if I had gold to give you’d have it all, you beautiful human
ObjectiveDegree9 · -4 points · Posted at 21:07:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dead on
TCBHale · -12 points · Posted at 19:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This
devilmaycare00 · -4 points · Posted at 22:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is an underrated comment
seanmwilson9 · 1039 points · Posted at 18:33:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Former infantry team leader here. What ALWAYS blew my mind is how these kids- fresh out of high school, never lived on their own, ect... - with such minimal life experiences, sign themselves away to a life a literally kicking doors in, being shot at, and being completely miserable 95 percent of time. Aside from the obvious, when you step off on patrol (especially when briefed that enemy troops have been confirmed in the area, and taking contact is very likely), you have ZERO idea if you'll make it back to your little plywood and hesco paradise to ever watch another sunrise or not. I joined in my mid 20s, and always thought of college and all the things I never would have experienced had I did what they did. I dunno... it might sound dumb, and eventually you come to terms with the dangers of the job, but still- I personally will never understand it.
Gloomy_Woomy · 113 points · Posted at 20:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a war novel I'm reading titled The Things They Carried, and there's a chapter about the crisis the narrator went through about deciding to go fight in Vietnam. There's obviously a lot to it, but the conclusion he reached was something along the lines of "I went to war because I was embarassed not to."
RoseThorne_ · 16 points · Posted at 23:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose it's different within the context of the draft because from what I remember it was between joining the draft and running away to Canada for the main character of that book. Although I could be remembering it wrong (we did a whole unit on Vietnam) but I don't remember him voluntarily going to war.
DeadassBdeadassB · 8 points · Posted at 01:14:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn’t joining the draft, he was already drafted and was thinking about running to Canada before he had to go to boot camp
Doctah_Whoopass · -2 points · Posted at 14:40:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man if I got drafted for Vietnam, Id just be like "Ok sure, but Im gonna be Vietcong."
DeadassBdeadassB · 2 points · Posted at 17:33:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They would kill you before you even got the chance😂
Doctah_Whoopass · -2 points · Posted at 17:40:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Cool, so instead of spending a bullet to kill me, just fuckin leave me alone"
PoorMansTonyStark · 102 points · Posted at 20:15:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Might be related to testosterone? Pretty much every guy feels invincible at that age. Also at that age guys aren't really thinking things through. They just see one facet of a thing and make decisions based on that.
IrvingIV · 49 points · Posted at 00:29:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also has to do with upbringing, a lot of people (in the U.S. at least) are taught that being a soldier is a good and honorable thing to do, that it will save lives rather than just end them, that it will make you a hero, as if that diminishes the consideration that it will make you a corpse.
There's also the aggressive recruiting practices, at least here in the U.S.
According to my mother, who uses the house phone more often, the Marines and Army have both called multiple times attempting to recruit me.
Both she and I have told them no.
I'm a soft, friendly, lazy asshole who works at a restaraunt.
I wouldn't last through day 1 of training in the army or the navy, let alone the Marines.
There were people from a military branch trying to get people to sign up frequently at my highschool.
(As for it being a testosterone thing, the fog of invulnerability associated with testosterone is very much a short lived thing for most people, worry will rapidly set in with any downtime given to contemplate.)
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 09:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thousand times more worth it to be a soft, friendly, lazy guy working at a restaurant than going to fight and come back with acute PTSD and depression, if not dead.
Be a happy soft lazy friendly guy, my dude. And notice how I did not quote you completely by saying "soft lazy friendly asshole". Because you're not an asshole, people who sign up without really considering the consequences are.
Tylermcd93 · 5 points · Posted at 06:47:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it also has to do with the fact that, a lot of teens either don’t have a home to go back to or at least a good home to go back to. Whatever anyone’s thoughts regarding the military branches here in the US, they really are a family so to speak. There are also genuine positives that military personnel do across the world that isn’t killing. There’s of course post military benefits as well (free college, pension, etc). And then there’s just not really knowing what to do with your life after high school, so the military is there. It’s really not a bad thing, but people must understand the risks of joining and accept them. And I imagine most do.
parliamentofcats · 42 points · Posted at 21:57:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of my friends is in the air force special forces. He's trained for it since he was 14 or so, working out, doing weapons training, backpacking through the woods, etc. Smart kid, too- graduated top of the class and could have gone anywhere after high school, but it was his dream to be air force special forces. He went through all the tests and made it, even though none of his training buddies made the cut.
I remember talking to him right after that and there was this uncanny understanding in his eyes as he told me how fucked up his life was about to become. He told me about how high the mortality rate is for special forces guys and how, even if he does live through it, he's going to be mentally destroyed. Special forces tend to see the people they kill. He almost certainly will be wounded in some way. The operations alone will be mentally and emotionally draining. But, even knowing all that, he's still excited about it. He could do anything he ever wanted to, and he's fine knowing the thing he's going to do will destroy his life.
I really don't get it.
Maximum__Effort · 22 points · Posted at 22:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m almost certain your friend could provide you with a lot of /r/justbootthings material.
parliamentofcats · 15 points · Posted at 22:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh for sure. In addition to cheating on his long-term girlfriend the day before she flew across the country to visit him for a week, he's told me lots of stories about the shit him and his squad have done to stave off boredom. It's insane.
Maximum__Effort · 12 points · Posted at 22:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just know that the vast majority of what he tells you is likely bullshit. We’re not in that type of war anymore. I’d be interested in hearing what is job title is
Jadester_ · 6 points · Posted at 05:54:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think he probably just means they're doing really dumb, dangerous activities and messing around. Not gruesome war crimes lol
Legionof7 · 4 points · Posted at 03:16:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've spent some time around AFSW people and I don't think that's entirely true. Mortality rate for AFSW isn't _that_ high. It's higher than the general pop of AF people but that's because AF has a lower death rate than general population (due to age/fitness requirements).
Also standard of living is pretty high. It's def different than being a SEAL or Army SF.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 05:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Air Force Special Operations is pretty soft compared to army or marines combat arms. They see less action than the average infantryman. Your friend is a boot.
[deleted] · 101 points · Posted at 18:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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garlicnaught · 171 points · Posted at 20:01:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some kids are signing up because they simply have no other option. College is expensive, and they can't afford it. When our country says "hey, join our military and we'll pay for your college!", they have no other choice. Pair that with an aggressive recruitment program and suddenly there are a lot of high school kids willing to lay their life down for the chance that their college may be payed for
Trash0813 · 63 points · Posted at 21:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to mention the different recruitment styles for well-off and disadvantaged areas. A lot of it is very much either "you had military parents and they want you to join, too!" "you're young and invincible and should support your country" "your family is too poor to feed you and you want to take care of them? we'll send you to school"
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 21:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah recruitment officers are pieces of shit that will say whatever the prospect wants to hear to get them to sign on the dotted line. I had friend who wanted to go into the military (I tried to talk him out of it for 2 years) and the recruiter still fucking lied to him about everything. He didn't take care of things he wanted to because he was told he could do it after he entered the Marines (like get his driver's license, for instance.) My friend told me "if I ever see my recruitment officer in public, I am going to kick the shit out of him!"
Trash0813 · 9 points · Posted at 23:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do thing some recruitment officers are just as bought into it as their targets, but I'm sure plenty of them are less than ideal people. I hope that your friend has his essentials and a more stable life now!
purplepeoplefirefly · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did he have trouble getting a drivers license afterward?
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 02:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't remember. I think he had to do it on his own time. He was just pissed because he would have just done it before he had to report for bootcamp had he known. The end of that story is that he visited me two years later and I asked him if he was going to reenlist after his 4 years were up (he had previously said that he wanted to be military as a his career.) He said "Fuck no!" I asked when did he know he had made a mistake. He said his first day of bootcamp. I had previously tried to talk him out of going into the military because he had like a 4.5 GPA with AP classes and could have gone to any college he wanted. I tried to convince him to go to college and join ROTC so he could go in as an officer. He said that the military respected guys who enlisted and worked their way from the ground up more than guys that came in from college (I suspect that it was his recruiter that planted this little seed.) He really just wanted to get away from his parents. I told him he could do that by going to school away from home. He didn't need to enlist. He was stubborn and didn't give in. He was great guy and one of my best friends. And the military changed him for the worse. He was a straight edge guy who didn't curse, drink, smoke or do drugs. He came out of the military doing all these things. In, fact he was dishonorably discharged (not the super bad one but one of the lesser ones) because he had coke in his system after weekend leave. His entire unit (I don't remember what the name for this group was, platoon?) went out were all doing coke the whole weekend and they had a surprise drug test on Monday. He was the only one who tested positive in his entire unit. He even lost out on all the amazing benefits you get from serving in the military. I heard he's doing good now and has a kid. So I guess it was all chalked up to life experience. I personally blame his parents for being so uptight and restrictive. He was never allowed to do anything and when he finally got into the world he went a little crazy. He was a great guy. And I am sure he still is. Just fell in with the wrong crowd at the wrong time. I really regret not writing to him when he left for the military. I didn't realize how important mail is to guys in the service. If I had I would have written to him. Thanks for letting me vent.
purplepeoplefirefly · 2 points · Posted at 03:16:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not at all, thank you for your story. My brother enlisted under similar motivations. He does seem to be doing better than your friend at the moment, but I do worry about him
throwawayayay6282648 · 3 points · Posted at 00:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would take free college over 80k tuition loan that’ll follow me to my death bed
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s also because they want to make a difference and help their country
garlicnaught · 25 points · Posted at 20:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
everyone has their reasons, and I think they're all valid in their own way.
Fig1024 · 15 points · Posted at 21:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going off to kill Muslims half way across the globe isn't really "helping the country"
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 21:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not marketed as that so most don't really look at it that way. I don't agree with any of it, but most sane people aren't joining just to kill people. Or so I'm assuming.
Loco_Mosquito · 26 points · Posted at 22:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to know a former Marine who lived in my apartment complex. He was mostly a nice enough guy when he was sober but when he got drunk, he loved retelling stories from the war (can't remember if he was in Iraq or Afghanistan but I think it was Afghanistan). Once night he had us over, he got suuuper drunk and told us he joined the Marines because he wanted to legally kill people.
I imagine he's not alone.
timedragon1 · 20 points · Posted at 22:40:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's weirdly common in the Marine Corps.
Going through Boot Camp is uncomfortable when you're just doing it for a stable life and everyone around you is like "Hell yeah, slay bodies!"
A lot of them genuinely think war is like a video game and don't actually weigh the thought of killing people that much.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I've heard about people like that. It's definitely messed up and people like that shouldn't be anywhere near a gun. Human beings are complex. We all have things we want to accomplish, people who care about or who care about us. Why the hell would anyone just enjoy destroying all that? They need professional help. I'm lucky to have never experienced people like that but I've heard of how utterly evil and messed up people can be and it's sickening and scary. Makes me not even want to step outside.
GiFieri · 2 points · Posted at 05:30:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn’t matter whether you personally kill people or not. You’re actively making the choice to support the war machine that sees thousands of people like you and me dead.
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think that’s all the military does, you have bought into propaganda yourself my friend.
What_I_do_45 · 0 points · Posted at 07:32:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Half the kids joining up post 9/11 really believe that whatever Arab they are directed to kill is definitely a "terrorist."
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 02:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh shut up, they do more shit in one day than you will ever do
Szriko · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really, I don't need to join the military to go shooting kids.
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You sound like a jackass
DeadassBdeadassB · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trade jobs have entered the chat😂 there are always options other than college.
Braavosassasin · 9 points · Posted at 02:15:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know this is late but I just wanted to say I joined because I was 18 and didn't know what I wanted to do with my life and I hated school. I went to college for a semester and within two weeks I decided "nah fuck this I'm joining the military". Plus I wanted to travel.
Luckily I didn't pick a stupid ass job that doesn't translate well in the civilian world (a friend of my wife's family was security forces in military and now he's working at Wendy's). I've been blessed af since I got out and haven't really had to work hard in years and make good pay (imo). Haven't even gone to college yet though I will start soon.
I know I'm rambling but that's my perspective. There was no propaganda about it.
token_blk_guy · 4 points · Posted at 04:25:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. I tried the college experience and working, yet I realized that I just wanted a different accomplishment. Joined the Marines, went comm (didn't have to kill Muslims), got a TS and now I am not only retired before 41 I can enjoy a great career and have a beautiful family. I am am fortunate for my experience and would definitely do it again.
Tylermcd93 · 3 points · Posted at 07:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really, very few join for patriotic reasons. Most join for honestly many different and varied reasons, all that are fairly valid and understandable. Travel, post-military benefits, not knowing what to do after HS, family, wanting a close knit foster family sort of, etc. I don’t support the war we (the US) are in, but I do support my military and the choice to join it. There are many actually good things they do for our country that isn’t killing. Thinking otherwise is easily just as much propaganda in of itself.
felixorion · 28 points · Posted at 21:14:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A mixture of propaganda, lack of opportunities or other prospects, enticing incentives, and an adolescent feeling of invincibility.
Not that all do for those reasons, but the stereotypes are so common. r/justbootthings is a treasure trove.
Also, there's probably a fundamental misunderstanding of what active duty life is like; the recruitment ads and the like don't exactly want to show potential recruits what life is actually like.
seanmwilson9 · 4 points · Posted at 21:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Def gunna check out that subreddit... simply by the name alone I can imagine I'm in for a treat! Thanks bro.
Aside from that, your answer provided the most realistic probabilities thus far. But still with all that being said, the amount of jobs there are where the biggest deployment worry is not being first in the chow line opposed to kicking a door down and seeing who the fuck knows on the other side just made choosing to be an 11bang. obviously, you have the low scoring, mouth breathing knuckle draggers that only scored high enough on the asvab to have the opportunity to be a highly trained meat shield... but alot, are actually Pretty smart dudes. My GT score was 118... far from perfect but good enough for pretty much any job I wanted. I dunno, crazy tho
SockDwarf · 6 points · Posted at 22:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why they get them right out of high school.
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:02:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s definitely an odd experience
rcas_ · 6 points · Posted at 01:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that's the thing right. It's a fine line. I don't think one should feel like military service is just a means to be debt free. Say you were actually deployed to a zone with high levels of danger. Risking your life to be debt free seems so wrong. If you want to be in the military that's one thing. As for maturity that another poster mentioned, I don't see the difference when I'm recruiting. Engineering specifically, you are already motivated a disciplined enough due to the nature of the course work. So by the time you are the office, let's just say I've never worked with or interviewed a new grad who wasn't professional.
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rcas_ · 2 points · Posted at 03:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems like you had an overall positive experience so I'm happy for you. Friend of a friend also greatly benefitted from all the experience they got from the navy so I know it's definitely possible to come out OK. I guess back to the main topic of this thread, I guess I just don't understand the concept of having to do military service to be debt free. There has to be a better way to put people in college. I know people say well "just get good grades" or "play sports" or "work through college". These are all legitimate solutions but none solve the actual problem of having to go through some extraordinary circumstance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a totally different argument, though. It sucks that college is so expensive, but there’s a lot that goes into that problem.
Tired_Thief · 5 points · Posted at 21:07:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sister's ex bf joined to get health insurance to pay for him and his side chick's baby
Irketk · 7 points · Posted at 03:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tricare is legit. I’m 29, Each of my four kids only costed me out of pocket $19-23 each. Included all checkups, ultrasounds, delivery drugs and after birth check ups.
Never would have been able to afford my awesome little spawns otherwise.
Santa5511 · 7 points · Posted at 00:26:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I signed as an 11B with an option 40 (Ranger) before I was done with high school. I had always wanted to do it, I thought it was a super cool thing to do. All my heroes had been in the service and so that's what I did. 9/11 happened when I was in elementary school and that forsure played a part in it. Over all it was a wild ride and definitely a thrill. I got to do all the "cool guy" stuff I wanted to pretty much. I also couldnt think of anything else I could do after school that would be as much fun as the military seemed. Sure stressful and stuff, but some people live for that.
kfijatass · 7 points · Posted at 21:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crossing out the people that must do it for education or to escape poverty, young people want a combination of discipline and a higher purpose.
The problem is they don't realise how hollow that purpose can be.
It's much easier to be given a purpose than to create one for oneself.
This extends to any life consuming undertaking.
isnoe · 8 points · Posted at 22:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. What I never understood was why every single one said “I joined because I wanted to legally commit murder” and after taking care of these kids, and seeing just how emotionally impulsive and irresponsible they really are, kind of made me feel bad. They’re trying to be cool, and it was a serious, dangerous job.
seanmwilson9 · 0 points · Posted at 22:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well then, hello there you fellow big dicked, blue corded, body stacker. Haha, yeah I've had privates like that before too. Usually prior gangbangers and/or just general shitbags completely ignorant to what fireman carrying your dying buddy back to the CCP feels like...they, like you said, just wanted to kill people. Or atleast that's what they THOUGHT they wanted. Everyone is "basically infantry," till it's time to do some real grunt shit.
seanmwilson9 · 3 points · Posted at 22:30:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, i took your "same here" as you were or are also an 11 series and not as you just also didnt understand the same thing. So I apologize if the first part of my response got taken as anything differently then a "what's up my brother" vibe
sufibufi · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pssh not me. I was over the infantry thing halfway through MCT. I see grunts sometimes when we were apart of exercises with them and I just look and go I hate my life but at least I'm not hating it with 80 pounds on my back. Fuck that. Also glad that I would have done 4 years of infantry and not used my training once since we haven't gone into any war. My body is already fucked couldn't imagine making it worse for literally nothing.
Edit: POG and proud.
seanmwilson9 · 3 points · Posted at 06:30:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha ya, you know what you're talkin about. I can definitely tell that. Also, for a POG, you seem aight lol I was always so jelly...we would be getting back from doing like a 16 mile ruck in full kit, straight suckin dicks for beer money for pt, and walk past all the pogs mostly just bullshitting while half assing some "circuit exercise". Lol people like you... I swear. Lol jk. Naw you actually seem pretty down, for a pog atleast 🤣😉
sufibufi · 0 points · Posted at 06:42:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shittt, I may be a POG. In fact, the biggest POG. I'm in the wing. We don't go to the field and live terribly, but I'm no stranger to shitty situations. Being a maintainer working 12 hours a day having to get off and PT outside of work to make the fitness standards. You're left with a few hours a day to yourself just to get up and do it all over again the next day. Then you see all the admin papper pushers roll in 2 hours after you, take 2 hour chows while you have to scarf down your meal in 20 minutes to get back to work, and then they leave before you too? The hate grows for them. But again, I'm still glad I'm not hiking through the desert or pulling weapons at 03 for a 08 step off that gets pushed to 11 because of some BS reason. I almost feel sorry for you guys until one of you yell at me and say, "fucking pog" and it snaps me back to reality and I think nah fuck em.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the search for meaning and to be a part of something. That's all.
seanmwilson9 · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can agree. The whole waking up with a purpose everyday was one of my original reasons for joining. Little did I know, that purpose was weather I liked it or not...at ANY time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Haha, young, dumb and full of cum I suppose
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 05:51:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can say I’ve been brainwashed, drank the kool-aid, watched too much propaganda etc idc. My mom and dad grew up with nothing, they were dirt poor. I grew up upper middle class, my dad was the first in his family to college, I’ve never known poverty. That is all thanks to the army. I grew up around soldiers, the army is home to me. I feel like I do owe it something after everything it’s provided to me.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s partly the fact that many don’t care for the college life. Like at all, I joined and thought for a second about what I’d be missing and thought “oh yeah, I don’t give a fuck about all that.”
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was heavily considering joining just to pay for college. My parental guardians talked me out of it, and I’m so glad they did. I think I’d rather try to figure out how to pay off student loans on my own then to have the military tell me what to do with my life for 4+ years
o11c · 5 points · Posted at 21:18:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poverty.
bigchicago04 · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people do it to put for college. I for one am always blown away by people who go to college and then join the military. It’s like a missed opportunity.
vercertorix · 2 points · Posted at 02:40:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just before I graduated high school, I had recruiters calling and coming to the door(I think I agreed to the house call over the phone just to get him to leave me alone, but when he showed up, I ignored the door). I don’t know if those guys get bonuses for everyone they get to sign up, but they seem pretty motivated. And they’re showing up right when people suddenly are unsure of their future and are expected to “grow up”, offering them a way to do it that might make them “heroes” and pay for training and education. It sounds good, but I doubt the recruitment presentation comes with footage of real combat to give the whole picture.
For those about to yell at me, it’s not all bad. For some it probably seems like (and might be) their best shot for a career and to start their life, and I won’t fault people for feeling they have a patriotic duty; we do need a standing, capable army. It just seems like they do recruit too young, and at a time that makes it seem predatory. Maybe flip it, pay for their education before they go into combat and if they suddenly change their minds, they have to pay it all back. At the very least they get to live a few more years before possibly dying. And if anyone says, “but then the money to educate them might be a waste if they get killed, “ that person is a realist, but also an asshole.
Sephrantill · 2 points · Posted at 03:25:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
11B here, Deployed to Afghanistan when I was 18 then again at 20. Most of us young door kickers are from blue collar rural/inner city families. Not a ton of opportunities right out of HS. Plus the post 911 GI bill is a pretty good deal. I personally wanted to challenge myself and serve. There are many reasons to join young, its honestly not a bad gig at all. But not gonna lie, being infantry sucks and is incredibly taxing to your body and mind. No job can ever compare, it matured me, paid for college, free healthcare and I made many life long friends. I wouldn't change a thing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly they need to raise the age you can join to 21. Your frontal lobe hasn’t even finished developing at 18. And the fact that the military takes advantage of young dumb kids, going as far as coming to high schools to recruit, is fucking despicable.
HW-BTW · 2 points · Posted at 01:02:35 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet we should open voting to 16-year-olds
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand their frustration at not being heard. Especially as decisions that are being made will affect them. I was extremely frustrated with the 2008 election as it happened only a few months before I turned 18.
HW-BTW · 1 points · Posted at 15:12:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you can say the exact thing about 12 year olds. So, should we lower the voting age to 12? If not, then why not?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:16:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said I agreed with lowering the voting age, only that I understand how they must feel. I'm sure there's good points on both sides but I personally don't get involved with debating opinions, it's exhausting.
4QM8 · 2 points · Posted at 16:19:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll never understand how any of you assholes want to pick up a gun and shoot brown people that did nothing to you. As a Canadian, I look at Americans in the military with absolute disgust. It's such a shameful job, and yet, most of you seem act as if it makes you better than the average person. It's the exact opposite. You cause pain and suffering for profit. Shame.
seanmwilson9 · 0 points · Posted at 17:23:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well then, that's okay...were all entitled to our own opinions. But know that YOUR countries army are amongst a handful of other. Actions armys that I've literally conducted drills with...and they too have troops deployed rn on a small scale. So it's not just americans my friend. Have a wonderful easter tho and remember those who cant be at home with their families so YOU can be.
onetimemycat · 5 points · Posted at 21:37:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you never talked to a recruiter? They talk like almost dying everyday is the best shit in the world. Recruiting also appeals to poorer people a lot as a potential option to escape poverty because of sign-on bonuses and promised salaries and potential upward movement. Recruiters also take advantage of the fact that college is ridiculously expensive and say they'll pay for you to go to college. I know that one isn't what you're talking about, but it works, too. There are also all the commercials the military puts out about how you're part of a team and everything is hunky dory with your brothers. Then there are the countless war movies that glorify the hell out of violence and most of them show the "bad guys" dying and the "good guys" coming out fine. Essentially, a lot of young people join because it's like a fantasy for them. I mean no disrespect, but my opinion of the way America does things has really grown sour because of the atrocities I see and read about and the way so many veterans are on the street rather than safe at home.
seanmwilson9 · 7 points · Posted at 21:44:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obviously I've talked to a recruiter before... lol AND my recruiter was an 11B. I hear my fair share of horror stories with recruiters and recruits, but mine was pretty honest. I told him what I wanted to do and after he saw my scores tried to almost talk me in a different direction. I guess I was just lucky.
I agree with the whole fantasy complex people think it will fill. You always hear crazy stories and see it in video games and shit. You always have the "this is gunna be just like call of duty" privates that get the biggest reality check of their lives once they get to fort Benning...and again the first time they take contact down range. Meh, who knows tho
onetimemycat · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kinda figured it went without saying that it was a rhetorical question. But I'm glad you had a recruiter that didn't sugarcoat things. I think that's really important and could help save a lot of people from making the wrong choice, whatever that choice may be.
seanmwilson9 · 5 points · Posted at 22:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I figured as much, i was more or less just being a prick. Anyways, you're totally right...you can always tell when a new dick shows up to the unit with a complete "my recruiter lied to me" look and vibe to them. It's a damn shame...but it's super simple, in your standard infantry plt., if you arent an asset, you're automatically a liability. Especially in a gun fight. Unlike if he decided to be a fueler or something; his ability to fuel vics generally wont get himself or anyone else killed...but as a bravo, the inability to perform your job has the potential of filling bodybags and windowing loved ones. .. ALL because pvt Lambson played COD 18 hours a day and didnt think seeing a real human through an optic would feel any different then seeing a computer generated one. Long story short, we hit an IED and got blown up...were also taking small arms fire AND trying to pull wounded out of the haul of a Stryker. It was fucking wild, and this kid tells his squad leader that he "just cant take it anymore, and didnt want to kill anyone so he shot over the enemies heads." ...while were literally in the middle of getting ambushed...this kid (whom is being shot at with full intentions of killing him), returned fire with zero intentions of hurting the same people that just killed one of his platoon mates.
So yeah, recruiters lying so they can check a box at the end of the day have much more of an impact then some people realize. It's sad as fuck
onetimemycat · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a bad time to have a crisis. Even so, a better man would have realized that it's not always about him. Regardless of how he felt, more lives than his were on the line. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Hopefully, bad recruiters are rare and most people have a better understanding of what they're getting into that doesn't end up costing lives.
Tipsy_Corgi · 4 points · Posted at 23:01:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I grew up in the south and all I can say is that my entire community absolutely glorified the fuck out of it.
seanmwilson9 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, the typical " hometown hero." Wears his uniform every chance he gets including at the airport and on leave. Pops a boner every time someone thanks him for his service... it's like that where I'm from too lol
tyrico · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because kids that age still don't have a fully developed prefrontal cortex and they can't fully process the implications of their actions
Slytly_Shaun · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what little bit I know about this sort of thing... I had a friend who explained it this way: the smart and motivated kids go to college. The not as smart kids but motivated go to trade school. The ones who don't have any plans and not too much in the brain department join the military. Obviously that's not going to be remotely always the case, but it made sense to me.
sufibufi · 3 points · Posted at 06:16:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That statement is completely false.
VisiblyHelpless · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then your friend is either unknowingly incorrect or an asshole. His "explanation" is way off.
indyjacob · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The benefits after service or believing the propaganda that service automatically equals heroism.
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money for college & family
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 06:42:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some teens might not have a home to go back to. Or a terrible one to go back to. And while the military is dangerous, it really is basically a family for a lot of people, which is often worth the danger. There are also aspects of it that are positive, such as traveling the world (theoretically) and sects of the military that do actually do good, humanitarian things. They likely understand the risks and accept it, just as you do. Which imo is amazingly brave, and I could never do it.
ShikiHaruya · 1 points · Posted at 08:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
my buddy joined the military at 18 because he had no money and no way to support himself/get out of his parents house and it was the clearest option he could see. I don't think he's happy with his choice.
CelebrityTakeDown · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s because the military dangles the promise of a better life in front of them. If you’re from bumfuck nowhere and living in relative poverty, the military is often the only way out. And that’s on purpose.
Not to mention that male citizenship in the United States is legitimately tied to military service. Even if you aren’t conscripted and likely never will be.
The military is so innately engrained in American culture that some people will react violent when you criticize it in any way (and there is A LOT to criticize about the United States military). The military entertainment industrial complex is real and it’s a powerful marketing tool.
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
From my current job, I learned you can be 17 when joining the military... I get that some states have 16 as the age of consent, but California is 18... so to be allowed to kill and give your life in service when it's still illegal for you to have sex and drink alcohilalcoho.. like
UncleSamLuvsGuns · 1 points · Posted at 16:28:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Camaraderie I think was my biggest drive. Grew up in a pretty blue area so I didn't have a lot of people like me, needed some buddies that were more my speed.
FileFighter · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get why anyone would want to become a soldier either. Seems like even in the best case scenario you're getting bullied, tortured or bored every day. Then there's the chance of, y'know, death.
seanmwilson9 · 5 points · Posted at 22:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand. We all have different reasons and justifications to what made us join in the first place. 95 percent of the time its fucking miserable and you're doing something fucking stupid...but the other 5 percent of times, without a doubt, make it all worthwhile. And it all lends to personal growth and lessons learned that I wouldnt trade for anything and would do all over again if necessary
Plus the brotherhood of the infantry is unlike any other relationship you will experience.
TacoNomad · 3 points · Posted at 23:09:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have friends today that would drop everything they're doing and come help me if I'm in trouble, anywhere in the country. I can't say that for a single one of my civilian friends. The friends, the experiences and the personal growth are all worth it, in exchange for a busted body and a little ptsd, right?
seanmwilson9 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha I know exactly what you're describing. There are the ones that just come and go...but theres a handful of those people who will stay with you for a lifetime.
TacoNomad · 2 points · Posted at 23:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My unit is about to do a zoom call next Friday. We all left that base in 2007 after deployment. It's going to be interesting, over a decade later.
aitapoledance · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean. Their naivety and inexperience is almost certainly why they feel ok signing up. Thats why those creeps talk to 16 year olds at lunch
thecupcakebandit · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I joined at 17 to escape a shitty home life. College didn’t seem like an option at the time because my dad made a lot of money and said he would not pay for college. Finding a job was super hard in my area at the time without a car. I felt helpless and in over my head because I didn’t want to hustle all alone. So off I went to the army.
Binch101 · -5 points · Posted at 20:49:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Propaganda and volatile nationalism
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seanmwilson9 · 3 points · Posted at 23:02:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha..the concept of selfless service is a wild thing my guy.
big_ma05 · 602 points · Posted at 14:20:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relations with a friend/girlfriend. I communicate well just with friends and other people who surround me. But I do not understand what to do when you need to build relationships.
Sotnos99 · 392 points · Posted at 18:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I see my boyfriend as a sort of secondary best friend. I'll tell him absolutely anything that I'd tell my best friend, and go out and do anything that I normally would with any other friends. The only real difference is that at the end of the day we go back to the same house and have dinner together. Then we both go to our computers and happily ignore eachother while we immerse ourselves in gaming for the remainder of the night because we're terrible adults.
EDIT: Mandatory thank you kind stranger for the award <3
LOSMSKL · 68 points · Posted at 19:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like a dream relationship
Sotnos99 · 4 points · Posted at 14:29:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting here took a few nightmares. But every "wrong" person could at least teach me what I was looking for in the "right" one! A lot of it also just comes down to me being comfortable and care free too, if you are in a relationship go ahead and treat your partner like a friend and tell them all the weird stuff! Just don't forget about the special relationship stuff too :) (I use wrong and right loosely, wrong for me in no way makes a person wrong/bad. They're still great people even though we didn't fit together)
IrvingIV · 12 points · Posted at 00:49:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults are just larger children.
Red-deddit · 8 points · Posted at 06:21:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/yes
Sotnos99 · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is so true. My boyfriend is 27 and tonight he bought a toy marble track to recreate the Marblympics, and of course we both absolutely loved it and then complained about having to clean up afterwards haha
galoupix · 38 points · Posted at 19:39:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a really great relationship. No joke it looks fantastic
Sotnos99 · 4 points · Posted at 14:24:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel lucky every day to have a relationship like this! I've had less fantastic relationships before and I'm just as grateful for them for teaching me about the things that I do/don't want. I'd like to think that everyone could find the perfect person for them given enough time :)
nothingweasel · 12 points · Posted at 04:10:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting married (if you're marrying someone you ought to be marrying) is like having a sleepover with your best friend every day for the rest of your lives, with the convenience of everything you both own being in the same house.
Sotnos99 · 2 points · Posted at 14:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm very much looking forward to this when we get married!
penguiatiator · 15 points · Posted at 22:18:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And sometimes we do something that only we can do together.
Like go on a romantic date. Get your mind out of the gutter
Sotnos99 · 1 points · Posted at 14:15:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or leave your mind in the gutter!
TrogledyWretched · 5 points · Posted at 08:39:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but how did you get to THAT point?
Sotnos99 · 2 points · Posted at 14:07:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to admit, he had it pretty easy. We work in the same place and I've been friends with his brother for a really long time. So one day I basically just told him that I was going to date him and he just had to accept that haha. I get that most people don't do that though so as far as normal people go I can't help you xD
Karmic_Backlash · 22 points · Posted at 19:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/yesyesyesno
[deleted] · 37 points · Posted at 19:15:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/yesyesyesYES
Sotnos99 · 1 points · Posted at 14:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This made me a laugh way more than it should have xD
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:29:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Sotnos99 · 2 points · Posted at 14:09:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some of my favourite times are sitting at my computer while he's at his, just doing our own stuff. It feels great that times like that aren't awkward!
big_ma05 · 2 points · Posted at 10:25:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes me smile! Thank you for the answer!
HaddonHoned · 121 points · Posted at 16:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you think it's different?
Scholesie09 · 51 points · Posted at 19:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to put my PP in my friends.
IceStar3030 · 13 points · Posted at 20:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because he wants a romantic relationship, not a platonic one.
LuftDrage · 7 points · Posted at 21:19:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kissy kissy sex sex
EgNotaEkkiReddit · 24 points · Posted at 20:17:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships are just really good friendships in which you also shag each other.
90% of my interactions with my significant other are interactions I could feasibly have with my best friend.
Establish that you have some form of romantic interest (For instance by asking the person out on a date) and then just treat them like you'd treat a good friend, with perhaps an added dose of sexual undertones.
i_touched_the_rat · 12 points · Posted at 19:13:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My partner and I knew each other all through middle school and highschool and we were best friends throughout. We just clicked instantly, like we somehow knew each other our whole lives. Sometimes you just know they're the one. I know it sounds cheesy but we both acknowledge that we had feelings for each other pretty much upon meeting. After nearly seven years of friendship we finally started dating last year and my partner is still my best friend, just very much closer than before. Don't try to force a relationship, because it'll happen naturally when you make connections with people.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
7 years?? I can't wait that long for sex with my crush 😂😂😂😂
i_touched_the_rat · 7 points · Posted at 20:38:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha honestly it was terrible waiting for that long, but I have an ungodly amount of patience. It was indeed 7 years, but neither of us knew if we were attracted to the other, and we were terrified of ruining our amazing friendship. It's funny in hindsight how scared we were when nothing has changed, other than the intimacy.
ImNotCreative30 · 5 points · Posted at 05:01:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The simple answer is flirting. Flirting is similar to the teasing you do with your friends, but with romantic or sexual suggestiveness to it.
The_Greatest_Moose · 17 points · Posted at 18:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm the exact same 3/4 of my friends are girls but i've never been able to get a girl to like me more than a friend.
NetflixAndZzzzzz · 24 points · Posted at 19:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That starts to change after high school, and knowing how to be friends with women before you’re in a relationship is a huge plus IMO
L0CZEK · 10 points · Posted at 19:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You guys have friends, let alone female ones ?
maddy2011 · 5 points · Posted at 04:37:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
you guys are getting friends?
The_Greatest_Moose · 10 points · Posted at 19:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in my first year of Uni so unfortunately, it doesn't change after school for everyone. The ability to make female friends just means thats all you know how to do so you can never go any further
250kcal · 11 points · Posted at 19:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you become friends with a girl first then try to steer the relationship towards romance? Basically when you establish yourself as a friend first you put yourself in that box in their head and they view you onlt as a friend.
If you want to date a girl thats how you should approach the initial interaction, you have to let her know what you actually want.
IAm12AngryMen · 5 points · Posted at 20:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That doesn't work either.
250kcal · 8 points · Posted at 20:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Works for me lmao
FatPam007 · 6 points · Posted at 20:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coming from a woman, I agree 100%. I always tell guys this. If you wanna date me or whatever, if you come to me with a sexual or romantic oriented view, don't fake a friendship with me, it's really offensive. Just become my friend if actually you want a friendship. If you want the other thing, come to me and try to talk to me or flirt with me, or just get to know me but maximum in 2 weeks you need to try something physical with me, try to kiss or something. If she doesn't respond, then she doesn't like you and you go back and leave. And it's pretty easy. If you fall for a girl and you're waiting 1 year, your love for her will increase to a 100%, but her feelings probably won't if she didn't like you in the first place. So, it's easier to have things clear. Go for it. And if she says no, it's fine, it's better than expecting her response for a lot of time. Just move on and go for another one. I as a girl, when I like a boy, I can't be friends with him, maximum two weeks. If he doesn't try anything physical I move on because I assume he doesn't like me. And that's it.
HaveYouSeenMyBody · 17 points · Posted at 20:56:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue here is that, at least for me, feelings don't come for strangers (or, at least only in very rare cases). They often start to develop after the friendship os established. My suggestion? Wait to she doesn't have a bf/gf and then tell her.
And I actually also, as a girl, disagree with you. I would find it kind of wierd to date a stranger. If you get feelings for me, tell me. But I would like to get to know you first. I've so far only dated people who I first where pretty close with, and I can recommend it. That means there is something else than only chemestry and that we might actually be able to make a relationship work. On the other hand, if you are just interested in hugging up, just make it clear from the beginning. And I agree that regarding hook-ups or cassual dating, you should start out making it clear. But for anything deeper than that, I know that I wouldn't even consider it Unless I knew you first.
But this just shows how different people are. Which does not make it easier to figure out what others want. And if you have feelings for a friend, tell her. That might even get you out of the box she has place you in, and she might start seeing you in another way. I know at least some persons where this has worked. But it might also not. But at least you would have it off your chest
xDskyline · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed, attraction works differently for everybody. I've had plenty of crushes but only fallen in love twice, and I actually wasn't romantically interested in either of them initially. Not saying that that'll always be the case for me, but it's very possible for strictly platonic feelings to develop into something more.
NetflixAndZzzzzz · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had a whole thing typed out, but I think the easiest way to put it is that as you get a little older friendships matter less. Being friends with women and being a good partner are different beasts entirely, but once you do have a partner being able to be a good friend helps.
FatPam007 · -5 points · Posted at 20:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get along great with guys usually, but it's really complicated for me to get a boyfriend. And also, personally, I don't take a boyfriend as a beat friend. I think that's wrong. For me a boyfriend is something much more serious. I wouldn't tell my boyfriend the things I tell a friend. For example emotional stuff. I don't know I have a different concept. I would never trust a boyfriend the way I trust my friends. Because trusting a person just because of the sexual, emotional Attraction you have for someone is not a great combo.
TheHunterOfNightmare · 14 points · Posted at 21:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder why? /s
NetflixAndZzzzzz · 4 points · Posted at 21:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yeah, if you get into a relationships based strictly on attraction because friendship is like a dealbreaker you’re never gonna trust yourself to date someone you should trust, lol. That’s just the plot of Trainwreck.
HaveYouSeenMyBody · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hm, I would definitly say it takes time to build up a relationship where there is this kind of trust. I'm not good at it either. But the trust is there, it is amazing having someone you trust and that you know have your back - no matter what. But it takes time, and it requrieres a SO that you trust and can become friends with, not just someone you are in love with. I think that's one of the main differences between being in love and loving someone.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when you need to? hmmm. what about when you want to?
mr_poopie_butt-hole · 3 points · Posted at 01:46:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your partner should be your best friend, just find someone that you love spending time with and don’t worry about anything else.
Then once you’re comfortable, you get to bone them.
WildlingPine · 3 points · Posted at 02:14:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My partner is my best friend that I sleep with. I have more joint responsibilities with them than I do with other friends. Other than that, it's pretty much the same, and it's awesome.
Zisx · 4 points · Posted at 21:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Similar boat here, but feels super weird being in a relationship (been in 3, none longer than like 5 months). Logic goes out the window a lot (especially as a guy dating a woman) / have to walk on eggshells in a sense. Personal space is a thing of the past. So many expectations, less money, free time (and real life is not a rom-com movie, everyone has bad days, you will be exposed to their faults, baggage, messy past, obnoxious or boring friends, parents, wants/ desires, and you're suppose to be Prince Charming who was allegedly created to slay (&/or coexist with) all her dragons lmao-- all the while of course have to accept her for how she is & stay perfectly manly/ showing no vulnerabilities and staying selfless, because apparently pussy is the greatest and pussy rules the world...
I mean it's not all bad, just not for everyone and not everyone is for everyone.
Must be that lots of people don't know how to enjoy their own company/ grow their own interests or fight isolation (and thus most people are willing to compromise their lives away to make a seemingly good relationship work?) but idk to each their own
ShelbyRB · 294 points · Posted at 19:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Putting waterproof hard-to-peel stickers on a cups, plates, and kitchenware. I have a colander that has a sticker on the inside on the very bottom. It covers almost all the holes at the bottom. I try to peel it off and it refuses and tears. I try to get it off with water and it still won’t come off. So now I’ve got a colander I can’t really use all because someone thought “hey! Instead of putting this sticker on the outside packaging of this colander, let’s put it smack in the middle of the inside! And let’s make it a really tough sticker that’s water resistant!”
Edit: I appreciate all the advice. I’ll definitely try all your suggestions! Yay!
equestrienneM · 38 points · Posted at 21:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try Goo-Gone
I’ve had that same issue and it worked.
Trainguyrom · 2 points · Posted at 12:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goo-Gone is a truly under-appreciated product outside of model railroading circles
thr33things · 4 points · Posted at 01:24:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alternatively peanut butter does about the same. It's the oil in it that works.
Dont_Touch_Roach · 11 points · Posted at 21:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stainless steel from Amazon? I had to use WD40 to get mine off. Then I refused to use it for like ten washes because I was convinced there was oily residue. (There wasn’t really, tbh).
snasna102 · 9 points · Posted at 00:32:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact: WD-40 is a water based lubricant, water will wash it away
Dont_Touch_Roach · 5 points · Posted at 00:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did look it up before. It was just one of those things that hurt your brain, even though you know you’re being stupid, lol.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:03:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Use a hairdryer to heat glue
fromthewombofrevel · 6 points · Posted at 21:44:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried pouring boiling water on it?
Gongaloon · 3 points · Posted at 23:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the reason why I bought a heat gun. Hot labels just peel off.
ShelbyRB · 3 points · Posted at 01:37:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, the fact that there’s a product to help remove stickers and labels shows that it’s a problem!
Trainguyrom · 2 points · Posted at 12:09:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to argue that heat guns have a ton of other uses until I realized that every use I could think of is fairly niche, some more than others.
danmolina666 · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alcohol also helps to get rid of the glue
GaGaORiley · 1 points · Posted at 11:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Use cooking oil and let it sit, since it’s food-safe.
For other things that don’t touch food, baby oil is great.
I used to buy a lot of things at auctions, and the stickers the auctioneer used were terrible. Selling a beautiful antique table? Slap a permanent sticker on that baby first! I’ve tried goo gone etc, and goo gone isn’t bad but so many suggestions here we’ll ruin the finish on furniture. Just use light-colored oil.
Whispersnapper · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:33 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Last resort, stab holes in the sticker.
ShelbyRB · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sadly, that was my first resort. 😅. I got annoyed with the sticker and started punching holes in it with my scissors.
slacker22 · 0 points · Posted at 22:50:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
acetone / diesel
Redditagain2 · -1 points · Posted at 01:30:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lighter fluid/naphtha
TinyNuggins92 · 1568 points · Posted at 17:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ASMR. I don’t understand how people like that. It’s creeps me out and makes me feel like someone is literally breathing down the back of my neck.
frickineh · 387 points · Posted at 19:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, ASMR is actually a feeling that videos are designed to induce, not the videos themselves. If you don't experience it, I can see how a lot of the videos would just make people uncomfortable. Even among people who get tingles, there's a huge amount of variance in what triggers it - I find a lot of personal attention videos creepy, but some people love them because they're triggered by that content.
Tbh, a big problem with the whole thing is that a lot of people watch videos labeled ASMR just because it relaxes them (or in the case of the sexual ones, because it's basically soft porn) and there's nothing wrong with that, but it has led to a lot of confusion about what ASMR actually is.
Danilo_dk · 102 points · Posted at 20:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. And even the same thing that could give you the sensation at one point can have no effect a few days later.
And there are also certain "genres" that really creep me out or are gross to me that I wouldn't watch or listen to even if it gave me the sensation, just because I don't like the content itself.
I guess ASMR the sensation is a thing I don't understand.
frickineh · 17 points · Posted at 20:51:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, that's interesting to me, because for me, being uncomfortable automatically means no tingles. It's like I have to be open to feeling that way, I guess, maybe because it's kind of a vulnerable state for me with the level of relaxation it causes.
Danilo_dk · 3 points · Posted at 21:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea if I share that same trait, since I wouldn't watch or listen to ASMR content if it's going to make me uncomfortable. Maybe I would still get tingles, I just don't care to find out. Because why would I?
HumbleGhandi · 3 points · Posted at 05:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you would know, I could be wrong, but when ASMR started to be discussed on YouTube, most of the comments were everyone saying "As a kid X would cause this tingly feeling and I always wondered what it was!" so everyone already knew they experienced it.
For me it was people talking over microphones in school assembly, especially with an accent, and young me was sitting there relaxed as all hell and enjoying every minute of the boring assembly.
The feeling is akin to those metal spider looking things people use for scalp massages.
Danilo_dk · 2 points · Posted at 11:37:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, sure. I have some examples of ASMR in my youth. But that doesn't mean there isn't more that triggers it. I've found out about a bunch of things that trigger it for me over the course of years, but I don't care to find out if the uncomfortable stuff will do it for me is what I'm getting at.
russels_silverware · 3 points · Posted at 03:58:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think this person was talking about the feeling, actually. Speaking for myself, I do experience ASMR, but it's an unpleasant feeling.
frickineh · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wouldn't consider that to be ASMR, because part of the widely agreed upon definition is that the tingles feel good. If they don't, it's something else - like maybe misophonia.
2Quick_React · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the personal attention ones are creepy. That and the eating ones also, those are just disturbing. I can't handle the sound of people chewing.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally hate the whispering stuff. Mouth sounds are just...ew. That's gross, not comforting. BUT quiet conversations in languages i don't understand always gets me. So do chalkboards. No idea why.
gellyroll_addict · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get it from good music but I also have Aspergers
frickineh · 3 points · Posted at 01:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might also be experiencing frisson, which is similar to and often confused with ASMR, but tends to result from music. I think, totally anecdotally, that frisson is more common, or at least more people know what you mean when you mention the sensation. Do you feel it more on your arms (like goosebumps) or your scalp (like tingling/chills)?
gellyroll_addict · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s like bliss. Sometimes it makes me cry. It’s like tingling chills from my head all the way down my spine. I am a music addict because of it, that high I get when I find a good new song that can hit me right where it feel amazing is, well, amazing. So whatever that is lol. Oh just realized I’m on my alt account, how’d that happen
frickineh · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's super interesting! That could honestly be either - I tend to feel more euphoric from frisson and more deeply (like drooling on my desk) relaxed from ASMR, but I would imagine people experience both in different ways.
gellyroll_addict · 2 points · Posted at 01:48:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it’s like euphoria and a sense of serenity, bliss describes it very well. Maybe it’s a mix of both frisson and ASMR! Who knows :)
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · -2 points · Posted at 22:04:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The person who coined the term ASMR admits that she(?) chose M for meridian because she couldn't use "orgasm".
ticketeyboo · 0 points · Posted at 00:22:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okaaaaayyyyy.... I’ve not really had any idea what asmr is so I did a little googling. I just listened to 3 minutes of this video with my eyes closed and I don’t know about tingling sensations, but, I literally grinned like a crazy person the entire time because I was So. Frickin’. Happy!! I don’t get it. But I like it.
frickineh · 3 points · Posted at 01:29:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TBH, Tingting is so adorable that I can see why people would watch her even if they don't experience actual ASMR.
rinkiyakepaapaa · 0 points · Posted at 01:32:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there is a lot of placebo effect. People just feel tingly because they it is an ASMR.
Nicoch777 · 40 points · Posted at 19:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's hard to explain to someone who don't have this "asmr feel". When i was a kid I often had this nice feeling at the top of my skull, like a soft touch kinda. Could happen when I had a haircut, or with some peoples over the phone, pretty random. The thing is, nobody around me had this so I was just this weird kid who was telling things like "hey this voice is so relaxing, I love the tingles in my head !". Fast forward many years, youtube is getting started. And I start to notice that certains videos give me this feels, but also some peoples in the comment have them too ! Soon there were messages boards where we've put the links of videos that "worked" for us. None of them were ASMR videos by design (mostly people having haircut, peoples talking about something they are passionate about, or someone working on a craft). It took a while again but finally here we are, youtubers making ASMR specific videos. I'm sure most of the views are due to peoples looking for a kind a proximity, or because the youtuber is attractive...But it's made for the few that have this ASMR feel.
Edit : maybe 1 in 25 ASMR youtubers make me have this feeling.
mrspittman718 · 9 points · Posted at 22:50:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never knew there was a word for this feeling. When I was a kid, I remember getting this feeling when someone would borrow my things? Like a pencil or something. It was tingly at the top of my head and would spread down in the manner of an egg being cracked on my head.
Distempa · 5 points · Posted at 21:56:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love one particular ASMRtist on youtube. Now I'm going to go listen to her cut my hair or some shit
screamingghost14 · 48 points · Posted at 19:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I watch asmr but not usually the roleplays with talking, I just like the sounds. Some of them are really weird but it helps me sleep to hear really quiet sounds, it just feels relaxing. If you want to see some high quality asmr without talking or cringe I would recommend ASMRsurge
starcraft_al · 20 points · Posted at 20:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the opposite, I enjoy story driven ASMR, but listening to someone just make random sounds and whisper into the mic doesn’t do anything for me.
ExceptForThatDuck · 8 points · Posted at 20:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly only like the ones with light tracking and soft speech. I don't like it silent and I hate whispers.
sl1878 · 12 points · Posted at 19:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here. I hate the whispering type, makes me want to punch something. But I do like the ones where they cut up soap bars, I'll admit.
nicki-cach · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! I had to download Instagram again recently because it’s the best source for collecting videos. Quarantine free time I recently rediscovered it again since about a year ago when I first got into it. It’s gotten very popular now and lots of niches.
I can’t STAND the whispering or talking at all. It feels like when somebody jokingly comes up from behind you and tries to scare you. Especially when you’re scrolling through a few and a whisperer comes out of no where.
I like a few categories of the non speaking or eating, but I found that when I’m stressed I always gravitate to the soap cutting.
Meowhuana · 10 points · Posted at 20:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, it just stimulates certain parts of our brain. Some find it nice, for some it will be over stimulation so it will feel unpleasant. It's like massage of the scalp with this weird metal thing, you know what I mean? Many people find it pleasant, I get goosebumps and feel awful. It's the same but for our brains.
therealjoshua · 18 points · Posted at 20:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With you there, it makes me wildly uncomfortable
There was a trend for a while there where YouTubers or Twitch Streamers I enjoyed would do "ASMR" in the middle of their videos (opening a bottle, crunching on a chip, etc.) and it drove me nuts. No, I don't want a quick "ASMR moment", it's weird.
bonefawn · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These are triggers that I hate. I personally love brushing videos where they brush the mic lightly with a soft makeup brush. I hate crunching
aliencup · 8 points · Posted at 19:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't listen to ASMR too, but I think I can explain.
It gives you that feeling, in the back of your head (at least that's what it was initially for), you've probably experienced it at least once. You just have to find your own trigger.
I personally don't like the whispering kind of ASMR too. The only way I can get this feeling is when the ASMR is unintentional, and it also works with the soap carving videos.
FatPam007 · 7 points · Posted at 20:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only like sound ASMR but the ones with speaking and whispering really slow that you hear all the sounds of their mouths is quite disturbing to me. I hate it. There was this video of a girl on ASMR and was literally licking the microphone and the camera angle was in a point that it looked like if she was doing a blowjob lol
McRakalak · 10 points · Posted at 19:56:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I listen to ASMR every night. I totally understand why people wouldn’t like it. I love it but my sister hates it. I also really like the creepy ones where it feels like people are up on you but I also know people who hate those videos and like the ones with just sounds.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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nicki-cach · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like that’s the other end of it as well though, but so far the understanding seems to be just focused on the tingling feeling. But it’s like your sense of hearing is sensitive and tied to your sense of touch more than for typical people.
Like I hate whispering videos, I can’t even try them for a second. I also have always hated when people try to whisper and tell you a secret, I even hated whispering myself, it feels like cotton balls in my ears. But of course I like whispering in intimate settings, because I’m receptive to having someone else triggering physical sensations to my body in that setting.
So whispering asmr videos feel creepy to me like if a stranger was talking to you and then suddenly caressed your face. A caress is gentle touching, but your alarm system would be going off so it’d feel out of place and creepy.
There’s a bunch of videos that also make my ears itch, it’s hard to filter out the crap videos.
babypunch69 · 10 points · Posted at 20:16:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m pretty sure I depends how you’re wired. People who get chills in their body when someone is, say, touching their hair or tracing something on their back are the same people who experience what asmr is and watch videos to get that same reaction. Good chills btw, not like you’re cold or creeped out. It helps with sleeping a lot
Komaric_ · 3 points · Posted at 03:22:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the chills but ASMR doesn’t do anything for me, weird
babypunch69 · 1 points · Posted at 09:56:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe cause you know it’s a video and therefore fake? Or maybe you just haven’t foun the right videos
Odd_Top · 3 points · Posted at 00:17:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly the good chills are the most amazing thing ever
ClemsonFanMikey · 6 points · Posted at 20:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a big fan of ASMR, and it’s usually the soft noises of objects that I enjoy. I first realized this feeling when I was in my late teens, and I was at the desk of a bank teller. I remember looking at her hands as she tapped away on the keyboard and remember feeling a strange tingling sensation on my scalp, like the low dose of pins and needles on a foot that is asleep. She apologized for taking so long and I remember thinking “take your time, I could literally sit here all day.”
nicki-cach · 2 points · Posted at 03:17:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny you say soft noises, because I was recently binging a bunch on Instagram and collecting the good ones. It seems to have gotten very popular since I last used to watch them, so now people who obviously don’t understand make videos. You can tell which ones are people who don’t get it, but want to join in. They end up sounding like a 5 year old banging on a drum set.
countryboyilu · 4 points · Posted at 20:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only kind of ASMR I like is the rain sound kind, that shit puts me right to sleep
Josh1685 · 4 points · Posted at 20:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like ASMR because it helps me sleep for the most part. I also get stressed out over the dumbest things so watching an ASMR video can be very relaxing to me. I understand that it’s not everyones cup of tea though.
CombOverHair · 4 points · Posted at 20:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who listens to ASMR videos I understand that. There are a lot of videos that I won't watch for the same reason. Whispering I find weird but other sounds, like sand cutting, is relaxing. Or using a towel to simulate the sounds of waves is amazing
jessemildred · 2 points · Posted at 20:49:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I NEED to understand this feeling .. I’ve never heard of this and now want to experience it! I’m open to all suggestions, and maybe I have experienced it and never noticed. I don’t know, I just went down the rabbit hole researching this after reading this post.
Distempa · 10 points · Posted at 22:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever gotten a nice tingly feeling when someone else brushes or cuts your hair? Or runs their hand down your back? That's it :)
jessemildred · 6 points · Posted at 22:03:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best feeling EVER! I’ve actually had a migraine all day and found an ASMR video for migraines while looking around and it worked! I felt the tingling and everything. This may be my new bedtime routine. Migraine is also gone but it could have been a placebo effect. Thank you for replying :)
Distempa · 3 points · Posted at 22:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My favourite is gentlewhispersASMR on youtube, her hair cut video was my first asmr and I was asleep before the ten minute mark You're welcome for the reply and I'm glad you've found aid for your migraine! They're the worst
jessemildred · 3 points · Posted at 22:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve had them since I was in 2nd grade. They were way worse when I was younger but unfortunately I still suffer from them frequently. Thank you I will watch one of those videos tonight !
Distempa · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My trigger is something (not caffeine) in black tea Have a good sleep friend :)
GiftsFromLeah · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could be the tannins. I get migraines too and it's a pretty common trigger. They're in black tea, red wine, chocolate and dark whiskeys and rums, basically all the good stuff!
jessemildred · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that’s interesting! I don’t really drink caffeine but when I do it’s only black tea, I’m going to keep this in mind thank you!
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe if you try you can develop it. A YouTuber I watch who does ASMR says she did
chuckduck253 · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have both misophonia AND respond to asmr which is interesting to me. Sounds of eating, slurping, chewing, sipping, or smacking mouth sounds make me want to throw up, hit someone, or scream and run away. But for some reason tapping sounds, light rubbing sounds, and soft speaking make me feel the same level of intensity but in the opposite direction, relaxing me beyond belief and making me sleepy and cozy. As a little kid I called it brain massage due to its similarity of a physical massage relaxing you and feeling physically good...but inside your brain. Think like goosebumps you get from a beautiful song that moves you, but inside your body instead of the outside of your skin.
Also, soft spoken asmr is my favorite thing in the world, but usually whipsering videos make me feel as you described. Something about it feels so contrived and the sharp sibilance of whispering makes me unbelievably uncomfortable. Like porn, usually amateur videos have a more authentic feel to them and tend to work differently than staged videos. I find this entire phenomenon fascinating and could talk about it for hours.
nicki-cach · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay well I guess my understanding was flawed. I assumed getting a negative physical sensation to some sounds was just the other side of the ASMR spectrum. But I guess eating videos wouldn’t be so popular if some people didn’t like it.
Because I also find whispering to be pretty creepy, but it’s not the same automatic overreaction I have to the eating videos. Even seeing the thumbnail of one of those videos makes me grossed out at the thought of it.
chuckduck253 · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually think you had it right! It's the other end of the spectrum, but what's fascinating is that everyone experiences these sounds differently. Idk how in the FUCK people enjoy videos with eating sounds, but for some people it's genuinely enjoyable. I think it's creepy and unsettling, like you feel with whispering. But I love soft spoken "personal attention" videos.
So everyone experiences them differently (or just feels neutral about them which is also interesting to me). It's almost like how people enjoy or hate certains tasting foods or smells or color schemes. So interesting to me, especially because it's not well understood at all.
Ice-Insignia · 6 points · Posted at 21:10:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use it to cope with being alone and loveless. It provides a sense of intimacy I have never experienced in real life. It's nice to have someone/a character who wants to be close to you like that even if it isn't real. It just feels good to not feel totally alone.
nicki-cach · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aww I’m sorry you feel lonely. Now I think I understand those types of videos a little more. I guess because I’ve never really liked other people touching me, those videos always felt so invasive to me.
I guess we’re all going to learn a little more about being alone this year. I hope that when we come out of this you’ll find other people that are generally more understanding and more open and willing to connect.
zeebious · 6 points · Posted at 20:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My biggest beef with asmr is the weird sexual undertones. However, there is one that I do follow. No bizarre sexual content or subtext. Just an Indian dude reviewing products. Drinks, snacks, toys, hotels, cell phones, etc. i have an extremely inconsistent sleep schedule and generalized insomnia. His videos seem to help.
ThatOneShyGirl · 2 points · Posted at 00:29:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check It Out?!
zeebious · 1 points · Posted at 06:18:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that’s him. Good shit
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the same thing until I watch the cooking ones. Love those.
UltraHawk_DnB · 3 points · Posted at 21:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
idk how it works, but someone rubbing a fluffy microphone gives me the chills and its really helps me fall asleep
TwinkyOctopus · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does ASMR stand for?
Distempa · 9 points · Posted at 22:02:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Autonomous sensory meridian response :)
TwinkyOctopus · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what?
Distempa · 5 points · Posted at 22:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is what ASMR stands for, it is the tingling sensation some people get from certain triggers, like a mild or "low grade" euphoria
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It stared out as a brain orgasum but because the community didn’t like that they changed it to a fancy way of saying brain orgasum
Ashencloud · 3 points · Posted at 21:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always had this thing I couldn't explain where if someone whispered in my ear, like kids telling secrets or the game telephone, I always had this like tingling feeling, later I found out that's called asmr, the videos can be weird and a lot of them are just straight up softcore porn but there are also videos of like people pouring soda or crunching up a bag etc.
timeisadrug · 10 points · Posted at 19:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's different kinds of asmr. Some of them have no talking at all and it's just people tapping on things or whatever. It's relaxing to me, and somethings just hit different and I get tingles/chills in my back? It's hard to explain, but it's not something that works for everyone.
Aridius · 26 points · Posted at 19:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tingles/chills is called ASMR. That’s the entire point lol
Danilo_dk · 13 points · Posted at 20:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard people describe it as tingles in the back, but I've never experienced that. What I have experienced, and what I believe ASMR to be, is a tingling sensation in my head. I would almost describe it as a pleasant headache.
Qbitch7 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get brain tingles when I listen to tapping I love it and it helps me sleep
galaxygirl978 · 2 points · Posted at 20:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had one song that gave me a similar feeling, although it felt more like a weird tickly sensation in my chest and head. https://youtu.be/u7zCzsPD4dE
Danilo_dk · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That song does give a certain sort of tingling sensation, yes. But it's not the same as what I experience as ASMR. Strange how the brain works.
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really is. The first time I heard that song I felt itchy all over my body...kind of like what happens when you get high off dxm. And I've experienced both. It's really odd how sound can affect the brain
merpes · 12 points · Posted at 19:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Every ASMR noise is like nails on a chalkboard.
PussyWrangler462 · 24 points · Posted at 20:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ones with people eating disgusts me beyond words
chuckduck253 · 10 points · Posted at 21:02:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact, that's possibly called misophonia which is basically the opposite of asmr (in a nutshell). I have both misophonia AND respond to asmr which is interesting to me. Sounds of eating, slurping, chewing, sipping, or smacking mouth sounds make me want to throw up, hit someone, or scream and run away. But for some reason tapping sounds, light rubbing sounds, and soft speaking make me feel the same level of intensity but in the opposite direction, relaxing me beyond belief and making me sleepy and cozy. As a little kid I called it brain massage due to its similarity of a physical massage relaxing you and feeling physically good...but inside your brain. Think like goosebumps you get from a beautiful song that moves you, but in your head instead of on your skin.
PussyWrangler462 · 10 points · Posted at 21:07:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then I’ve definitely got misophonia because it angers me beyond belief hearing and seeing people eat with their disgusting mouths open, slurping and smacking...so gross 🤮
Distempa · 9 points · Posted at 22:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have this! People who don't suffer have no idea how lucky they are. I have had to move on a bus before because someone started smacking on a McDonalds. I was fuming, cos my headphones had died on my way home
chuckduck253 · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ugh me too. I have yelled at friends over it, had to leave restaurants, and I most certainly WILL NOT watch any of those videos. EVER. You're not alone haha
daniel4sight · 7 points · Posted at 19:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people want more of a feeling of being connected to a person as if they were a friend, some like to distance themselves and want personal space.
Hyperflip · 4 points · Posted at 01:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That‘s not ASMR, but I can see how the popular videos are sorta designed around that. But I guess you were just explaining those vids
Meese_Man · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
haha funny whispers make spine go brrrr
Orthas · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. It makes me deeply uncomfortable.
-Tom- · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try watching this video of a bartender making a drink in silence. Several points throughout the video the hairs on the back of my neck tingle and stand up.
I don't know why. But it does. None of that whispering stuff does anything for me but this....semi... mechanical? Does. And....AND it's unintentional. This is just supposed to be a video demonstrating how to make this specific drink.
User2277 · 3 points · Posted at 21:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s literally a biological event, simple as that. Either it happens or it doesn’t. No worries if it doesn’t.
AnotherAverageJoe__ · 3 points · Posted at 22:18:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom really likes it and I honestly can't stand ASMR. Not because I find it creepy but because im so pissed at how quietly there speaking. Speak the frick up my dudes.
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's different types of ASMR :)
AnotherAverageJoe__ · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh frick sorry, whatever type has the really quiet talking tiks me off
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 08:12:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too. I love this one YTer but she talks while doing hair so it's annoying lol
Trey5169 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just need to find what works for you.
I fall asleep to YouTube videos, all I do is listen to their voices. I think that technically counts as ASMR, not sure though.
Slavic-spaghetti · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to like the tingly feeling it gave, but now it makes me feel less lonely :(
Striker120v · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's types where it's not people being creepy, and instead the sound of food being prepped.
FrAxl93 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I watch ASMR videos a sense of extreme rage fills me to the point I have to stop or I am going to crush my phone to the floor. I can't help but feeling this and I tried multiple times with the very same effect.
Gongaloon · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the feeling you're supposed to have. The difference is, some people like that sensation- myself included. It's hard to explain.
imnotDeadyetOK · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not proud to say that I enjoy watching them once in a while, it relaxes me somehow
Adamscottd · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not one of those “tingles” people, but certain ASMR is a nice way to get me to sleep if I’m struggling. I like a channel called ASMR Surge on YouTube, because he doesn’t talk and just makes noises with things that help my mind wander
EmmalouEsq · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate hate hate ASMR. I've got misophonia, so it's like nails on a chalkboard to me.I don't understand how anyone can like mouth noises of any kind.
AGuyInInternet · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ASMR eating goat head
KarlaQat · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how when you hear fingernails on a chalkboard and it just feels like terrible shivers down your spine? ASMR is like the nice version of that.
And there's definitely a lot of personal preference involved. You gotta kind of shop around to find artists that You give with.
Lord-Table · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you wanna try asmr without people talking, theres a lot of mechanical/percussion asmr. I listen to gamecube controller sounds, personally.
Iskjempe · 1 points · Posted at 08:46:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It helps me relax
tiephewn · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lot of weird shit out there. I don't get tingles. But if my body is really pulling the big, fuck you we aren't sleeping, then ill turn on "asmr singing" its just soft singing. Relaxing is all
hotnudeguy · 704 points · Posted at 18:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's such a taboo to talk about anything sex related. I'm from India. We have a pretty high population, second only to China. It's not like we're shy about doing it,but we HATE talking about it. U say "Sex" anywhere and people look at you like you said "Hail Satan" or something. Teachers are uptight and super scientific and formal about sex education. They actually hold seperate classes for boys and girls. And no talk of menstruation either. It's not a disease it happens to literally every woman on the planet. Women don't report sexual assault because they're blamed for it ,the way they dress etc is called enticing men into doing it. It's a social stigma and nobody would marry you and your family will be shunned. I've honestly never understood any of that
koopamancer · 37 points · Posted at 23:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well thats how India reached 1.3 billion. Cause nobody talking about it and producing 10 children and saying gods gift.
hotnudeguy · 8 points · Posted at 04:22:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not only that,in India, particularly North India, parents want a son to "carry on the family name", and help their dads earn more income, because women are supposed to "stay at home, cook,clean,and look pretty",so they'll keep trying until they get a son,and that might take more. If they can't, then the WIFE is blamed for being unable to sire a son and treated horribly by the in-laws
Red-deddit · 3 points · Posted at 06:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
don't they know the man chooses the gender lol. Even ppl with no sex ed know that lol
hotnudeguy · 7 points · Posted at 06:43:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is mainly in North India,where literacy rates are very low due to unemployment and poverty. They have no proper sex ed and don't know that the sperm decides gender. Technically it's not choosing gender,but no one should be blamed for it. There are cases where wives are divorced cuz they can't "bear sons". One woman protested when her husband stubbed out cigarettes on her daughter's skin on multiple occasions,and one day the man and his own MOTHER dragged her to a room, doused her in petrol,and lit her on fire as punishment. She died 10 days later in hospital and the man was arrested for murder. This is only one case,there may be more. Maybe not all cases are this extreme, but it's sad the way this happens. This is mainly due to a lack of education about sex,and how is that possible when it's taboo?
Red-deddit · 6 points · Posted at 08:14:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the heck. My comment now seems bad and careless. I apologize. That man is insane, that poor woman :(
LeMeowLePurrr · 105 points · Posted at 19:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual equality would be a good start.
hotnudeguy · 50 points · Posted at 19:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. The wage gap is real. Education is denied to young girls. Female foeticide is rampant. This needs to stop. And there are a few fake exaggerated feminists who instead of preaching equality, declare "All men are pigs,trust no one, they'll all use you" . Worst part is media only focuses on such people cuz they're great for ratings.
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 08:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "doing things that are good for ratings" is the entire problem. Media and culture are stuck reinforcing outdated norms because that's all the establishment knows. It takes decades for popular opinion to shift, and it's always too late. The same thing has been destroying American politics for years.
[deleted] · -18 points · Posted at 00:58:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the "wage gap" is not real in the sense many people say it is. Don't just throw in that unrelated topic when other people are talking.
Bree12586 · 17 points · Posted at 03:03:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's talking about India. Not America. Over there it's probably true.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 14:15:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mistake then; thank you for the correction. (not "/s")
Bree12586 · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:58 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a problem :)
hotnudeguy · 5 points · Posted at 04:35:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not unrelated, we're talking sexual equality,and women are paid less than men for the same job. I can vouch for that because my Aunt worked in IT,and she found out the men working with her in the same department were making 30% more than the women. When asked why,they bluntly replied that women aren't smart as men and get less work done so they deserve less pay. The women got together and proved that they did just as much work as the men,so then they said The quality was poorer. She quit and joined another company where she was assured she would get rightful pay. Many many women in India have the same experience.
I-seddit · 31 points · Posted at 21:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The inertia of culture is a deadly thing.
Thankfully as we become interconnected on this spaceship Earth, culture gets broken apart and reforms more fluidly. The changes I've seen since being a child are mind-boggling and give me great hope.
deathtomutts · 28 points · Posted at 23:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I grew up in the Southern U.S. and it was pretty much the same thing. I will never understand how people can blame the victim. Nobody blames the victim of any other crimes like that.
CumboxMold · 16 points · Posted at 01:58:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was just going to say the same thing about the Southern US. So many young women with so much potential who had kids too early and now will continue the cycle of being a poor single mother, while the men who got them pregnant continue to live their lives as if nothing happened. The worst part is that it's seen as completely normal here and if you went to college, didn't have kids before 25, and are outspoken about more sex ed being needed you're the weirdo.
deathtomutts · 5 points · Posted at 02:02:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And a pervert. How dare you talk about it out loud!
CumboxMold · 13 points · Posted at 02:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I had a dollar for each time I heard a parent say "but we're Christian and we don't discuss those things, they should save it for marriage" and my favorite "it's not the school's job to educate my children about sex, I will tell them everything they need to know" while telling them NOTHING, meanwhile their kid is looking at porn on the internet (and when I was a kid, in magazines) and showing it to all their friends...
deathtomutts · 6 points · Posted at 04:03:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah! I finally moved away and cut most contact because half my family disowned me after finding out I showed my 13 year old son how to put a condom on. Oh I'm sorry I don't want to be a grandparent at 35 like the rest of you.
bless_ure_harte · 2 points · Posted at 08:34:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have these people ever read Song of Solomon?
neocommenter · 6 points · Posted at 21:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a good place to start:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexuality_in_India
sharmarahulkohli · 7 points · Posted at 03:17:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always wonder, how that evolved throughout the years. Sex is a taboo to talk about,but it's the only thing keeping our civilization alive.
rochakgupta · 12 points · Posted at 19:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m from India and had to study in a boys only school. Man, life hit me like a truck.
hotnudeguy · 18 points · Posted at 19:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I studied in co-ed. Not much better. You spend 30 seconds in the general vicinity of a girl, you're dating and teachers gonna come over an lecture you about how dating is ruining the teenagers of the country.
PS: https://youtu.be/ZchI_-atKec Check this out. It's a stand up comedy routine by Sorabh Pant, who is hilarious btw.
rochakgupta · 8 points · Posted at 20:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole education system is fucked
hotnudeguy · 11 points · Posted at 20:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thing is, it tests memory not intelligence. Also, actually due to our large population, the only way to effectively separate out certain classes IS the current education system. The way to reform that must come about and can do so only if the population decreases which is where sex education is needed.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 05:59:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And all that repressed sexuality comes out through usernames, doesn't it? ;)
AlwaysSunnyDragRace · 5 points · Posted at 21:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Went to visit this profile and came back dissapointed
hotnudeguy · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not super active here. Just saw this and felt I should say something.
AlwaysSunnyDragRace · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a joke buddy, because of your username 😂
hotnudeguy · 5 points · Posted at 21:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh sorry lol😂😂
Private message me.... we'll take care of that😉
IrvingIV · 2 points · Posted at 00:45:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This shit sounds like America.
Cassper88 · 2 points · Posted at 02:27:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Education, acceptance, respect. India be non of those when it comes to sex.
Szjunk · 2 points · Posted at 02:52:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hail Satan!
Limelimo · 2 points · Posted at 02:48:08 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sexual repression that you describe most likely seeded and fed sexual frustration that led to the rapes so prevalent there.
hotnudeguy · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:46 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most probably true. Especially because ever since Pornography and Porn sites have been banned there has been a sharp noticeable increase in number of rape cases. Probably the only way to relieve frustration lost and leading to such an increase.
Limelimo · 2 points · Posted at 04:16:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, look at the other ultra sexually strict countries like in the middle east... lol sure sexual assault d oesnt happen there at all!
hotnudeguy · 2 points · Posted at 04:36:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
India has dismally low standards of protection laws in place for the safety of women. In many Middle East countries,rape is punishable by death,or lifelong incarceration,which probably acts as a deterrent, although it happens. In India, there's a social stigma associated with the VICTIM,who did nothing. Victim shaming is prevalent,her family is shunned,and they are socially ostracized. So most women don't report it,and public outrage only happens when rape is followed by murder. There was even a case where a woman was tortured,her arm and breasts cut off, and hung to death after rape,and the police classified it as "SUICIDE"....by hanging.....with one arm. Communal discrimination in North India led to the kidnapping and continuous rape and then murder of a 5 yr old Muslim girl by Hindu POLICE OFFICERS AND PRIESTS!!!! Despite heavy outrage,the government did barely anything for a long time....until public outrage reached a critical point.... it's very sad that all this could be avoided by removing the stigma associated with sex education and yet no one is willing to do that
bond_hydrogenbond · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can’t upvote this enough
bytemehardish · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your sex Ed was my sex Ed. Its just a matter of A, basic decorum and privacy mixed with B, your own desire and libido fighting it out. Its like mentioning crippling debt, no one wants to talk about it.
hotnudeguy · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if we talked more about how to manage finances better,we could help many people stay out of debt. Same principle, better sex ed could lead to proper family planning and population decrease,which is necessary in India. We are still a developing country and we do not have the resources to support a population larger than China, but we are almost about to overtake China
angry_indian312 · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When they had sex Ed for us it wasn't like that both male and female students in the same place same explanation, India is highly different across I guess? But I'm not going to say you are wrong since this is just my personal experience.
hotnudeguy · 2 points · Posted at 06:52:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you were lucky. Teachers logic is that boys will laugh when talking about girls and vice versa, atleast that's what they told us. Maybe your teachers felt you were more disciplined. Some people I know have had same experience,but unfortunately the majority experience the same as me
therealcaveman01 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean . People don’t rightly talk about fuckin in public most the time but if they do then that’s their business . I live in USA so it’s not uncommon to hear some wild shit in public
hotnudeguy · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get not talking about it in public. But parents should teach their children, or better sex ed in schools must be brought about. We don't talk about it even there. Children learn about sex from porn sites,and that isn't healthy and causes huge expectations, but not every man or woman has porn star qualifications. Better Sex Ed could prevent a ton of problems which are rampant right now
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 07:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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hotnudeguy · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We also gave a lot to the world,same as many other countries. We do need improvement in certain aspects,but we don't "suck". Every country and every community has its drawbacks but those can be overcome. It's not an excuse for racism, sorry if I conveyed that impression.
Mik-Hail-tal · 0 points · Posted at 10:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just messing with ya
whtsnk · -15 points · Posted at 19:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you haven’t understood any of that, it means you have not investigated people’s reasoning well enough. Read into Indian philosophy and social theory, and it all practically explains itself.
hotnudeguy · 18 points · Posted at 19:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All that is tradition. I get wanting to stick to tradition,but the world is evolving and so should we. Victim shaming needs to stop. Women are not meant to be housewives, that needs to stop being the norm. Men can stay at home, that needs to stop being stigmatised
whtsnk · -18 points · Posted at 20:05:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That tradition is rooted in philosophy. You deprive yourself of access to Indian philosophy and are familiar only with what gets spoon-fed into you through popular culture. That’s why you “never understood” any of it.
The world is conforming to western notions, as an indirect reflection of western economic interests. This is not evolution, it is subjugation.
All in all, it’s interesting how you wish India were more like the West. Yet I wish the West were more like India. People here are obsessed with sexuality, from the entertainment industry to politicians to pervert teachers trying to teach it to children.
I truly wish it were a taboo here like it is in India. You said that the world is evolving—I wish the world would evolve to what I feel is a mighty example that Indian thought represents.
hotnudeguy · 11 points · Posted at 20:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know about philosophy,so I can't say anything about that. And ok, becoming more like the West seems a stretch,but sure. I don't wish India was more like the West. I do wish we didn't stigmatise something normal that happens to everyone. Also, I'm happy that in the West, people are comfortable in their sexuality and are able to deal with it instead of repressing it, getting depression,and committing suicide like in India. The LGBT community is heavily ostracized in India,which is also I suppose because of "Philosophy". If Western notions let people be more comfortable and happy, leads to less repression of emotions,less toxic masculinity and less notion that women are inferior to men and must submit to men, I say go for it. Let the world be more like the West.
whtsnk · -19 points · Posted at 20:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Then the discussion should end there. The AskReddit prompt was about things you don’t understand. I’ve outlined why I feel you might not understand something. And you have admitted to it. So quit sulking in your failure to understand, and maybe…go read and actually try to understand.
The psychological studies behind that notion are heavily conflicted and psychologists themselves are deeply divided as to whether the concept or consequences of repression even have any basis in experimental study. If you really think that, then you are likely falling victim to pop psychology. You are happy that this is the way things are in the West, but conversely, it makes me feel embarrassed to live in a society of such perverts. You have no idea how much I envy what you have and yet somehow long to let go of.
Your problem is your failure to see that comfort and happiness being normative goals are the express designs of positive psychology. Positive psychology has its roots in transatlantic social theory of the 1930’s and 1940’s—all of which at its core is easily critiqued philosophy. If you are familiar with the work of existentialist psychologist K.J. Schneider, you can see strong examples of such criticism. He famously said, “Perhaps genuine happiness is not something you aim at, but is a byproduct of a life well lived. And a life well lived does not settle on the programmed or neatly calibrated.” This strain of thought is highly compatible with Indian thought—something which, as I’m sure you know by now that I highly respect.
Beyond it being easily critiqued, it is diametrically opposed to the values of most non-western societies, which made it a handy tool in imperialistic goals (especially of the British against India) to dismantle indigenous thought processes and make people perpetually dependent on the goals of colonists even long after independence.
werterland · 16 points · Posted at 20:40:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You sound like you need to get laid, dude.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously
hotnudeguy · 9 points · Posted at 21:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
A. I'm not "sulking" in my failure to understand. I told u I don't get it, and I don't really wanna.
B. I didn't get a word of what you said about Happiness so I can't even.... like whatever dude.I think living well or happiness or whatever doesn't matter as long as your ok with your life. You're probably gonna come up with some philosopher who said that's also wrong,but dude everything some philosopher said was contradicted by someone else so whatever.
C. You say u live in a society of perverts, I see them as outspoken and bold people who aren't afraid of challenging outdated thought processes,and I live in a society of highly tightly wound close and narrow minded bigots. The current ruling party declared that Hindus,Sikhs and Jains are the only community indigenous to India and they're gonna discredit the citizenship of all other communities. That's bigoted and people like you justify that as tradition and philosophy.
D. I notice you haven't said a word about feminism issues in India,the way women are downtrodden, child marriages,rape cases on the rise,child raping, pedophilia, victim shaming in rape cases, and so many other issues which could be avoided if people are more open about sex related issues and sex education was better. You also mentioned nothing about LGBT ostracization in India. I suppose you'll say "traditionally, they don't exist"
E. Daniel Shravan,an Indian film maker, literally declared that women are meant to satisfy men,and they should legalise "Rape without violence". Women should carry condoms to help the rapist, submit to the rapist and let him "relieve his sexual frustration" without complaint,as the rapist will then spare them,if it is legalised. He used Indian philosophy and tradition of Sati, where wife is burned alive with her husband's corpse at his cremation,to prove that women are bound to men and must serve them unconditionally and unquestioningly.
F.People like you are the reason why India is still socially backward,and still a developing country while America and the West are far ahead of us, because their fundamental ideals on how society should function are different, and simply comparing the countries we can see which society is more prosperous.
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope that filmmaker loses his job and gets run over by a truck
hotnudeguy · 2 points · Posted at 06:50:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He didn't lose his job,but there was so much outrage and a case was filed against him. He hasn't made any good films anyway
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 08:15:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, no surprise there that he is a rapist. I hope his victim runs him over with a truck
hotnudeguy · 3 points · Posted at 09:19:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I want to clarify that he didn't rape anyone. A woman named Priyanka Reddy was raped,and her body burned and thrown under a bridge. A Member of Parliament declared that the rapists should die. His comments were in response to that. Here is the whole article containing his terrible logic.
https://gulfnews.com/world/asia/india/indian-film-maker-daniel-shravan-suggests-legalising-rape-without-violence-1.68253109
He basically says rape is ok,but murder isn't. So if rapists feel they can rape without consequences, they'll let the victim live,which is why women should co-operate with the rapists and carry condoms themselves and hand them over to the rapists so they can "relieve their sexual frustration".
Red-deddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder how & where people get these sick ideas in their minds. Every woman in India should social distance herself from him, preferably 500 feet away.
Capn_Sparrow0404 · 3 points · Posted at 06:28:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you are a middle aged North Indian man. Especially from the cow belt.
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 06:58:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not.
Capn_Sparrow0404 · 2 points · Posted at 07:01:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Above 25 North Indian man?
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 07:10:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No.
Capn_Sparrow0404 · 2 points · Posted at 13:49:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay. Final guess. Edgy North Indian teen?
whtsnk · 0 points · Posted at 16:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No.
HopefulEuphemia · 220 points · Posted at 18:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is probably stupid but I’m sometimes puzzled at how we named stuff. Like who decided a table was called ”table”, or chair, those everyday things we’re used to
xXDreamlessXx · 14 points · Posted at 05:19:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You make a noise and assign a meaning. Just like the word that was first used in 2014, "yeet."
penislovereater · 3 points · Posted at 12:18:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's weirder is one person doesn't decide this. It comes out of agreement of people using the language. Like if you call the table "Bob", and I had no idea that you meant the table, then it doesn't work. I don't understand what you are saying and communication has failed.
marazomeno · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hm not sure if this is helpful but one time I read a paper about how different languages' sounds are a factor of the sounds surrounding them as well as what they eat. For example, more herbivorous diets softened the teeth, leading to softer dental fricatives.
This doesn't answer your question about the words themselves, but maybe someone can take the next step for us. It's probably somehow related to the sound a table makes?
https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/2019/03/change-in-diet-may-have-changed-human-language-f-v-agriculture/
https://science.sciencemag.org/content/363/6432/eaav3218
DRDeMello · 1 points · Posted at 12:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every word is a made up word
doinkadoosh · 10941 points · Posted at 14:06:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the global economy runs.
[deleted] · 1185 points · Posted at 18:50:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as I know. A long chain of someone wanting something from somewhere else.
ba3toven · 25 points · Posted at 19:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But where does that start?
SirSoliloquy · 73 points · Posted at 19:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mesopotamia circa 4,000 BC
Deadlyshock · 14 points · Posted at 21:48:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nomadic tribe: Oh look that tribe is growing rice, let’s see if they will feed us if we help them grow/defend it.
thebody1403 · 14 points · Posted at 19:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does a circle start?
johnnybiggles · 7 points · Posted at 20:48:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right there.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you show me with a red circle?
wannabe414 · 35 points · Posted at 19:22:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
China, normally
An_Ether · 8 points · Posted at 20:16:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The moment someone wants something that someone else has.
Slammybutt · 5 points · Posted at 20:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought that was war?
An_Ether · 11 points · Posted at 20:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
War is trading the destructive power of a military for goods.
It's an economy of force.
Orthas · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's... Kinda eye opening.
Poison_Penis · 19 points · Posted at 19:40:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just described the circular flow of income , which indeed is basically the economy
merpes · 12 points · Posted at 19:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a series of tubes.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats the internet
Foibles5318 · 6 points · Posted at 20:56:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do we put the cats in?
LuftDrage · 3 points · Posted at 20:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fish in a tube
Fish in a tube
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:03:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every person/institution owns every other person/institution money.
doomgiver98 · 3 points · Posted at 20:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And they want it more than someone else wants something else from somewhere else.
the_enchanter_tim · 3 points · Posted at 22:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is actually a perfect explanation
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
abstcosstop
Always Be Selling The Concept Of Selling Stuff To Other People
XaWEh · 7359 points · Posted at 15:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a room with different options arranged in a circle on the floor and everytime some decision has to be made, some important people cut off a chickens head and drop it onto the circle. The the chicken walks around while a kazoo plays. Whichever option the chicken lands on is the correct decision.
archstanton_unknown · 918 points · Posted at 19:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BAILOUT!
Zenketski · 83 points · Posted at 19:33:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BAILOUT THE CRUISE LINE COMPANIES!
TherapeuticThrowback · 21 points · Posted at 19:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, but how?
cuts chickens head off
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 19:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“The commonfolk?”
“No, you heathen! The cock hath spoken!”
dtylerdow · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flux and flow from multi variable calculus. It’s Impossible.
mypostisbad · 4 points · Posted at 19:44:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lisa needs braces!
reddititaly · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it always bailout?
Elyseux · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IF YOU'RE LOCKED UP AND AFRAID
JakeBuddah · 388 points · Posted at 19:16:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We estimate your margarita machine to be worth 90 trillion dollars.
thereallorddane · 29 points · Posted at 19:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welcome to Sur le TAAABLE
kmagaro · 17 points · Posted at 19:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well you don't actually GET 90 trillion
The_Golden_Warthog · 7 points · Posted at 20:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
hucks margarativille into arena
citizen42701 · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its art and also considered housing, so 90 trillion tax free after 10k.
Omsus · 459 points · Posted at 19:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes I also saw that episode.
Mr-Phisher- · 23 points · Posted at 19:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is this from? It seems oddly familiar but can’t place it.
_RoundCube_ · 42 points · Posted at 19:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
South Park
Mr-Phisher- · 14 points · Posted at 19:28:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Google already thinks I’m weird so wasn’t gonna go searching for that.
youvebeenjammed · 4 points · Posted at 21:07:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search for "Jews hiding money in secret Jew cave"
HappyMondays1988 · 3 points · Posted at 22:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then delete your search history
shuerintelectual · -2 points · Posted at 19:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That reality show about the Trump family living in the white house making desicion for the country
discerningpervert · 7 points · Posted at 19:24:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What season of Black Mirror was that
Masta0nion · 17 points · Posted at 19:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
S6 E2 terkajerbs
Nicholas2545 · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate the mastery
mixed_combo · -1 points · Posted at 19:23:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
as did I.
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 19:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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The_Golden_Warthog · 2 points · Posted at 06:28:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's not point fingers here....Steve!!
kevted5085 · 11 points · Posted at 19:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BAILOUT!
Blue4LifeSW6 · 10 points · Posted at 19:15:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bailout the insurance company!
secrestmr87 · 9 points · Posted at 19:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or the economy is its own entity like God. We must please the economy by not frivolous spending. Ride lamas instead of driving cars. Dress with sheets instead od buying clothes. If we do one day the son of the economy will apprear and wipe out all our sins/debts
ShadowReaperT · 25 points · Posted at 19:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recognise this description, I just cannot think what it's from. Is it from South Park?
huntsman_69 · 13 points · Posted at 19:16:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup
Versaiteis · 3 points · Posted at 19:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, I never really understood the point of the kazoo
littleseizure · 16 points · Posted at 19:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever see a headless chicken run in silence? So sad. Ever set a headless chicken run to kazoo? HILARIOUS!!
XaWEh · 4 points · Posted at 19:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy gets it! Can't decide the next step of the global economy with it being sad.
Versaiteis · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How am I supposed to make important financial "decisions" if I feel sad about them?
littleseizure · 2 points · Posted at 23:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kazoo. Duh
I thought we already covered this...
The_Golden_Warthog · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many times do we have to teach you this lesson, old man??
djmandude517 · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Very good
80_firebird · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was expecting a chicken drop, but your's is much darker.
wolfninja10 · 2 points · Posted at 19:41:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s from south park guys
cookie_not_for_sale1 · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hes too dangerous to be kept alive
citizen42701 · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
33% Option 1, corruption.
33%Oprion 2, lawlessness.
33%Option 3, right solution for the wrong problem
1%Option 4, (outside of the circle) sound reason and civility.
galoupix · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d give an award for that if I wasn’t that poor.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok who the fuck let this guy out of r/wallstreetbets?
FFF_in_WY · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subbed to a certain sub for degenerate gamblers are we?
direwolfexmachina · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lottery balls and manatees
Stimonk · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On behalf of the circle room, I really wish you hadn't revealed what happens in the circle room.
BetaHH · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
McDonalds?
lacifer1987 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for this. I needed that laugh. Fucking kazoo tho sold it
madashelicopter · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever since the GFC I've come to believe that economics is political - what was better, austerity measures or stimulus? I live in Australia and stimulus (school building, infrastructure projects etc) kept us going. Places that introduced austerity measures (UK) hit the poorest people worst.
Australia had a left-leaning government, UK a conservative government.
Every country now is introducing stimulus measures.
thomerow · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sad thing is, if it actually WERE done that way the outcome would be exactly the same
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 18:58:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's from South Park tho
glemau · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know which episode?
yakimawashington · 5 points · Posted at 19:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Google "South Park Margaritaville" it'll bring up the episode
[deleted] · 513 points · Posted at 19:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel spreadsheets.
No, seriously.
https://www.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2013/04/17/how-microsoft-excel-tanked-the-global-economy
QuispernyGdunzoidSr · 95 points · Posted at 19:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "But of course, facts don't matter" at the end cracked me up
ursakitty · 24 points · Posted at 19:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that sentence was written back in 2013.
Goddamnit_Clown · 24 points · Posted at 19:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truthiness was coined in 2005. '1984' was written in the 40s. Certain people have been trying to dismiss or control truth forever.
Clementinesm · 11 points · Posted at 20:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrediting facts has existed for decades if not centuries. “Fake news” was a phrase also used (by politicians and civilians alike) in the early 20th century. This isn’t new, it’s just come to the forefront again thanks to nationalism/blind populism and deteriorating public interest in challenging authority.
BEERnard408 · 15 points · Posted at 19:36:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell do they forget the 4 years of growth data for NZ? 🤦🏽♂️
[deleted] · 29 points · Posted at 19:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most can't even remember to put NZ on a map, you think they'll remember for an excel sheet?
BEERnard408 · 6 points · Posted at 19:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You definitely got a point there.
iperblaster · 10 points · Posted at 20:10:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that the Economy of NZ had the same weight of the economy of UK or Germany or US is absolutely astounding
hewhoisneverobeyed · 12 points · Posted at 19:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If one believes that Reinhart and Rogoff actually made mistakes and were not pushing their own ideology. As Krugman pointed out, there was a lot to be skeptical in their methods:
https://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/19/opinion/krugman-the-excel-depression.html
RamonFrunkis · 12 points · Posted at 19:57:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you read the article? Because nowhere does it say that Excel spreadsheets that run the global economy led to The Great Recession.
It says one error in one think-tank piece that had already been largely refuted by reputable economists was used by right wing governments to justify cutting public programs for the poor because they spent their trillions helping corporate pals stay in business to keep milking the poor.
p_giggles · 2 points · Posted at 19:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought that website was The Strangler
LoveItLateInSummer · 4 points · Posted at 20:10:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toby is the Scranton strangler
SOwED · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems like it doesn't run in Excel spreadsheets, but they are cited for political decisions
BecauseLogic99 · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Figures.
iv-k · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I mean just look at it
This sounds more as an introduction to what they are researching than something that is actually useful.
But disregarding that, who would make policy based of one piece of research while other economists vehemently disagree.
asdf_678 · 351 points · Posted at 19:13:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're getting a lot of weird answers, so the simplest way of understand the global economy is to equate it with an ecosystem. Businesses diversify to take advantage of the environment around them in the same way that life evolves to survive. Some evolve into apex predators, and others evolve to pick up the pieces. And at the end of the day everything is interconnected with each other.
WhoTookMyDip · 31 points · Posted at 19:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, I am now further confused.
Keevtara · 11 points · Posted at 20:33:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A company can spread out into doing a bunch of different things, like Wal-Mart doing everything from groceries to oil changes. Because Wal-Mart is so diversified, a company like Whole Foods can specialize in organic foods, and Jiffy Lube can specialize in oil changes, and both of those companies do their thing better than Wal-Mart does them.
heybingbong · 9 points · Posted at 19:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then when the environment changes and the major fauna fails to adapt some people say “we must use our collective resources to save them!” while others say “let them die, the ecosystem takes care of itself!”.
locks_are_paranoid · 8 points · Posted at 19:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "weird answers" are a reference to the South Park episode Margaritaville.
JohnnyEagerBeaver · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is nothing natural or organic about global markets manipulated by world banks and the billionaires that pull the strings of those “banks”.
QE is a pyramid scheme to funnel resources upwards.
RoscoMan1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A part of the middle of a global pandemic
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:42:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Invasive species!!!
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Saemika · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This applies so well to many things I do. I literally felt a pain in my chest after reading this.
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Mayor__Defacto · 27 points · Posted at 19:33:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’d then die of starvation because not that many people actually want to spend their days working in fields harvesting the food you eat. They do it because they get paid and need money. Likewise, global transportation would collapse and food would not make it from the farm, to your plate; cities would die off, and everyone would revert to being subsistence farmers, meanwhile defeating the whole point of all of human history to this point, which has been to free most of the world from being slaves to their land.
DeathToPennies · 5 points · Posted at 20:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like things have to be different to begin with, in order to fix problems caused by the way things currently are.
Societal change is organic, but also iterative, and therefore can be guided. If, for example, supply lines were more self-sufficient (things like buildings and houses having their own power generation, or integrating food production into our communities), we’d be more resilient against destabilizing factors like pandemics. The inclusion of every member in a community in the essential processes that keep that community alive would also do wonders for the community’s health and wellness. Rather than having a class of workers who run grocery stores and keep power plants from exploding, so that a much more massive portion of society can do non-essential tasks (like build crap people don’t want or need, and then manufacture those wants and needs), people would spend significantly smaller portions of their available hours helping to keep the gears turning, freeing up time to relax, innovate, and be creative.
Nobody would revert to being a subsistence farmer, because wage labor isn’t what took us out of subsistence farming. Advances in agriculture that allow for massive food production did that. The next step is making it so that nobody is praying that a handful of highways stay open, lest food become undeliverable.
Whenever someone suggests changing the way society works, someone like you pipes in to say, “Well if we did that, then society wouldn’t work the way it does now, and that would mean planes would fall out of the sky,” which is just not true. it’s not like we have no choice but to run our society so that 8 men have as much wealth as 3.5 billion people, while some other portion of billions continue to face the dilemma of fighting one another for wage labor, lest they become homeless. Things can be different, you just don’t trust the people thinking about it because you’ve been told not to.
whiskeyx · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a fantastic comment.
DeathToPennies · 2 points · Posted at 04:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s funny you say that because it’s honestly a pretty standard depiction of the eco-socialist project, but every time me or another eco-socialist lays it out, people recognize it as, at least, not an unreasonable vision for the future, and an interesting set of ideas to consider. Yet, ideas that even hint in this direction have been so demonized and forced underground that they strike people as very novel, despite having like a century and a half of thought behind them. People hear “anarchism” or “free housing” or whatever, and because they’ve been taught about the way society is structured as if it’s an immutable science in the same vein as chemistry, they think attempts to radically change it are as insane as like, ghosts, or superpowers. It’s sad because exposure to these ideas is so important to enacting them, but individuals doing their best to discuss it wherever possible is zero match for things like mass media or free marketeerist corporate propaganda.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 19:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the problem is it’s hard to do anything without an economy, because you can’t have or make everything yourself, you depend on someone. This dependence is quantified using money and hence the economy is built.
Red_Staroo · 17 points · Posted at 19:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately we're not fucking bees so we have interests as individuals that we want fulfilled outside of our immediate needs.
ddrchamp13 · 4 points · Posted at 20:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure how you took that away from his comment...
Vorpalbob · 44 points · Posted at 18:47:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just confused and overworked middle managers, all the way down.
JustinWendell · 6 points · Posted at 19:18:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the most honest answer. Someone get him a medal
Poison_Penis · 6 points · Posted at 19:24:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The most cynical and smugly written reply on reddit will obviously get a lot of upvotes but it doesn’t mean it’s true
JustinWendell · 3 points · Posted at 19:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn’t think it was smug. It just seems so overtly chaotic that it’s funny.
Poison_Penis · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are patterns and ever evolving theories to help us understand this shit. Supply and demand is not inherently chaotic. I’d say the real messy part is high finance, which is relevant but not the same thing.
samsab · 9 points · Posted at 19:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how the US economy works, let alone a self-sustaining one. I don't understand how finances work.
jeffries7 · 4 points · Posted at 20:28:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dave and busters is thriving!
Anantgaur · 17 points · Posted at 20:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alright imma give you layman's rundown of the global economy cause I am a layman and not an economist myself.
This video from Economics explained explains modern monetary policy very succinctly. I will not explain how central banks and banks manage money.
The most important concept to understand is
Supply and demand.
Everything has a supply, whether it be goods, stocks, currency, bonds, land whatever. And there is a demand for that item. The more people that want an item, the more expensive it becomes and more people try to make that item.
The biggest thing to understand from supply and demand is that currency also has a supply and demand chain. Supply is what the government spends on its projects and salaries while the demand is generally for the tax payers trying to pay their taxes.
Trade of goods
Countries want goods they can't make, their consumers/their populations want a very diverse list of goods. Other countries have these goods and want to sell them to other people. These companies want their country's currency and not the buying countries currency. A bank in the middle converts the money and the goods can be sent.
This supply chain of goods is extremely complex as manufacturing takes many steps. Countries that do the part of the step that adds the most value/needs the most expertise, make the most money. This is generally the end seller. Countries like China ( for everything ) or USA/France ( Planes ) etc. dictate global economy because other countries really want their expensive goods.
Trade of currency
I would highly suggest watching the linked video for this one. This one is the trickiest to understand.
Central banks basically tell their governments how much money they are willing to spend depending on their fiscal policies. This is a very complex decision which includes tax paid back, exports, imports, expenditure, debt, inflation rates etc. I won't even pretend to understand what these reserve banks do. This is the supply of the currency.
Central banks also issue bonds that offer a fixed interest rate, this has a major effect on loan rates and inflation numbers. Most modern economies are completely debt driven.
America has a very unique fiscal policy where they use their military might to force the trade of oil in USD and a lot of their allies trade in USD. This creates an artificial demand for USD which allows the US Government to print a lot more USD. But other countries also need to buy these goods, so they need USD. Now other central banks buy and keep American bonds in case they need USD to help their economy.
Balance of currency and goods
Now you have 2 different supply and demand chains. One of currency and the other of goods. Every country is trying to manage these two chains such that there is just enough money printed to get a desirable inflation number.
You always want inflation because people holding their money is really bad. It reduces Velocity of money ( The real "Trickle down economics"), the more times a money changes hands, more people win.
Print enough money and buy enough foreign currency so that your country can buy goods that your citizens want.
Have enough exports that other countries want to buy your currency to buy those goods. This is why economies like North Korea will never prosper without external help, their currency is worth nothing so they can't buy any foreign goods at all. This is also where a high inflation is good for your economy, when your country wants more than it produces. Your goods going out are worth more to the people in your country and you can print more money. That's a win-win. But your bonds become trash tier and no foreign bank will ever invest in them.
This balance messing up is what causes Hyper inflation, you print more currency than the world wants and now you can't buy anything without just printing a ton more.
USA keeps selling bonds and paying intrest on them just so that they can print a lot more money. They also don't really need to export that many goods to maintain the value of the dollar because international trade creates a natural demand for their currency.
And now I'm ready for someone to tell me how wrong I am 😂
doinkadoosh · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, I would give you gold if I wasn't so broke.
Anantgaur · 3 points · Posted at 20:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just realised how far down your comment has come in the thread. Not gonna lie, I'm just a little bit sad that no one except you will see it lol
MithrandirTheCage · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seent it, and I liked it. Thank you very much for your explanation.
Anantgaur · 3 points · Posted at 20:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As long as I got that upvote and someone learnt something new, I'm happy :)
Kayel41 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did spy hit 280 last week?
Lucrumb · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything, absolutely everything is priced in. The market is omniscient.
the_spruce_goose · 21 points · Posted at 19:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The film "The Big Short" taught me a lot about this. Also how fragile the whole thing is.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 19:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's crazy how we essentially created a system that is now beyond our control, yet controls so much of our lives.
tbos8 · 14 points · Posted at 19:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's be real, the economy was never "under control" to begin with. It's not an entity. It's an emergent property of the actions of millions of people making independent decisions. Sure, there are bigger and smaller players. Corporations are to the economy what celebrities are to culture. But they still only have power as long as people are buying what they're selling. The only way to "control" the economy is to control the people.
250kcal · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But Its not fragile, despite all the fraud and over leveraged defaults on credit default swaps(something like 40trillion who actually knows tho) the economy rebounded in 3 years, followed by lowest unemployment and biggest growth.
the_spruce_goose · 3 points · Posted at 20:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right, it would have been more accurate to say how fragile the stock market was at that time due to the dodgy CDO's. Also how fragile the big banks were at the time, the only reason most survived was due to bailouts.
doinkadoosh · 5 points · Posted at 19:09:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thankyou, will surely check it out.
shadowoftheking14 · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Check out “how the economic machine works” by ray dalio on YouTube
Cultasare · 5 points · Posted at 19:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not the global economy but this video is FANTASTIC
https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an economics major, same.
doinkadoosh · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now that's troubling. Really troubling
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:04:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also an Econ major, also same.
Parkietje69 · 10 points · Posted at 19:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economic machine by ray dalio: https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
bb-m · 3 points · Posted at 19:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simple explanation: Businesses in poor countries extract resources and make stuff for cheap. Businesses in richer countries buy them and sell them further at a higher price. Any import and export is taxed by the state. Nowadays, most of what we consume comes from somewhere else. Likewise, most of what we produce goes somewhere else. If one big economy fails all of them dip like a professional diver. If I missed anything, please do remind me or comment with the explanation
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. I am at least averagely smart and for the life of me I can not grasp how exchange rates work or fluctuate. Every time my husband tried to explain it to me I have so many questions that I eventually just end up feeling stupid and not asking.
Is there an ELI5 somewhere on this????
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Lishmi · 1 points · Posted at 12:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh.... That's helped me understand a little better why/how currencies change value (against each other). So for eg, pound sterling has dropped a lot in recent years because less companies want Britain's goods/services?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:15:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well goods and services are 1 part of the exchange rate.
The other is related to investors. Brexit has brought more uncertainty, so investors have been pulling out of the UK relatively speaking. This means that demand for the Pound has declined, which has resulted in a decline in its value.
Many things affect exchange rates simultaneously, but recognizing that it is ultimately just demand and supply interaction is key to understanding it.
Anantgaur · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I replied one to the parent comment.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/what_do_you_genuinely_not_understand/fn473kp?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I don't know if it's a good explanation let alone an ELI5, so let me know I guess
watermelonicecream · 9 points · Posted at 19:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well then you definitely don’t know how a self-sustaining economy does.
jomb · 7 points · Posted at 19:34:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how finances work.
watermelonicecream · 3 points · Posted at 20:52:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The money keeps moving!
dimomark · 3 points · Posted at 19:31:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economic machine works by Ray Dalio , By and far the best explanation of the economic machine I have ever found
https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
TheRedditGirl15 · 3 points · Posted at 19:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a marketing major I'm not sure if I'm dreading or anticipating my economics courses...
doinkadoosh · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I evidently skipped mine.
TheRedditGirl15 · 2 points · Posted at 06:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol
Peace__Out · 3 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simple: price(s)
how prices are balanced without everything being worked out is the real question.
SavannahInChicago · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am taking a history class that I need in order to graduate. The subject changes with each new class and the professor teaching it. My class focuses on the New Deal and the Great Depression.
Each class instead of talking about the history it turns into a basic lesson on economics because we are history majors and have no clue how the economy works.
(I will say it is disturbing that our professor tries to teach us about the economics of the Great Depression by using recent examples right here in 2020...).
doinkadoosh · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, Desperate times ahead.
ImHopelesslyInLove · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Classes that focus on New Deal and Great Depression are often politically motivated, I'd recommend expanding your sources if you're seeking to learn the economics behind recessions.
blackcurrantcat · 8 points · Posted at 18:09:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might enjoy this, it's really money & banks in general rather than the global economy but it's very thought-provoking. https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=documenary+about+how+money+works+animated&docid=608016331951115886&mid=435AC464F561788F1ED9435AC464F561788F1ED9&view=detail&FORM=VIRE
caffeine_lights · 17 points · Posted at 19:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you just share a bing search result rather than the actual video?
mtdza7 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was amazed as well
blackcurrantcat · -2 points · Posted at 19:22:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. This laptop, even though it's new (cheapest in the shop out of necessity), is so poor it barely functions so I go with what I can get. I irrationally hate Bing too (and every single thing about Microsoft Edge).
aleqqqs · 7 points · Posted at 19:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obligatory
anyw4y · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So that's how economy works, thanks for useful link!
Giant_Anteaters · 7 points · Posted at 19:14:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, I don't even know what the economy is/means.
Like when people say "Our economy is doing well right now"...what does that even mean? Are people getting more rich? Do people have more jobs? Is the dollar rising? (why does currency even rise or fall)
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Giant_Anteaters · 3 points · Posted at 20:06:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the explanation!
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Giant_Anteaters · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, thanks for the explanation!
Laney20 · 2 points · Posted at 21:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The responses you've gotten are absolutely right about what people mean when they say the economy is doing well, etc.
But I kind of want to point out that is distinct from the school subject/college major "economics" which is more about how decisions and behaviors combine and interact to create an "economy". Getting a degree in economics isn't really learning what is going on in the economy now (and maybe not even about learning how to judge that for yourself). It's more about learning how everything in the economy is connected and how a change might impact incentives, decisions, and then ripple throughout the entire system.
Poison_Penis · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It means people are living better. In the strictest neoclassical definition it means the world is producing more and therefore your quality of living is rising. Of course, with Trump he just means the stock market, which isn’t really an equivalent to the wider global economy.
dragonofopal · 6 points · Posted at 19:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel that. It’s like the world debt- money is a man made construct. Just, idk, cancel it?
QuispernyGdunzoidSr · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess it would work if debt was distributed equally but it's not so someone would get screwed over
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's scarier is that, nobody really knows. Sure, economists and world leaders have a better idea than most, but even they make assumptions and educated guesses. Economy fundamentally is a study of human behaviour. The models and theories we have require rational actors or take certain conditions for granted. When these go out the window, such as now, nobody really knows what's happening
myaccountsaccount12 · 2 points · Posted at 19:22:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought I had a good idea of how it ran for a while. I realized later that I don’t have the slightest clue...
vegancrossfiter · 2 points · Posted at 19:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no specific answer
caseyod81 · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was going to say how money got to be what it is today
mapuhkan · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why u gotta ruin it with the edit
j_rge_alv · 2 points · Posted at 20:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that it’s because your question is too broad. But the global economy runs on people trusting one another and trusting the system. If they don’t believe the other will do their part they won’t do theirs and little by little the entire thing falls apart. If they do then it’s business as usual.
CalamariInvest · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh honey, no one does.
ZoeIsAwake · 2 points · Posted at 01:09:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's ok - you don't have to worry about that anymore. It's not really running now...
Lateralus11235813 · 2 points · Posted at 05:37:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone gave out a bunch of loans for houses k owning they probably wouldn't pay them back....
Okay....cool, but why does that mean my neighbors I get laid off from my job?
vitringur · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It runs like a market anarchy.
It is just a web of people doing something for other people for something in return. That is what we call the economy.
It's not an actual thing that someone runs. It is an abstract concept to describe human interaction that involves exchanging goods of value.
Poison_Penis · 3 points · Posted at 19:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In that case an ecosystem is also an anarchy.
vitringur · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, yeah.
Much of the fundamental theories used to describe stateless societies have also been used to describe evolution and competition in the animal kingdom.
Whether it is people or animals, it's all the same math.
OutWithTheNew · 3 points · Posted at 18:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smoke and mirrors.
CondorLane · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously what is the stock market for?
Amedais · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market is crowd funding on a large scale. That’s it.
Ptolemy41 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great video that explains by Ray Dalio - https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
ukulelenoob97 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't worry, even economists don't fully understand it. Because economic outcomes are the result of billions of interactions between groups and individuals, each with their own diverse interests and desires, the macro-level outcomes are not always predictable. Outside of the context of the individual actors (who are each merely a small pieces of the puzzle with a very limited view) that drive economic events, economic outcomes may not even appear to be logical. Although we can find general trends, economics is a social science, and as such does not have many fixed, universal rules (if it has any at all).
The global economy is nearly impossible to understand, and even harder to control. Anyone who would say otherwise likely lacks an in-depth understanding of the discipline. As Friedrich Hayek said, "The curious task of economics is to demonstrate to men how little they know about what they imagine they can design".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand economics at all besides supply and demand
arniepalmertime · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One person’s spending is another person’s income. Credit (what you can charge to a credit card but not pay immediately) + hard money (what’s in your checking account) both allow you to buy things. You have to pay back credit eventually, which means you have to decrease your spending on actual items so you can pay back what you owe. This is why we have cycles.
RobustFiction · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how the US economy works, much less some sort of self-sustaining one
dchav · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how the U.S economy works, let alone some sort of self sustaining one.
what_it_dude · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/67tHtpac5ws Milton friedman explains part of this with a pencil.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously check out Ray Dalio's,"How the Economic Machine Works." Quick 30 minute intro to the basics of economic drivers. This applies to both domestic and global economics.
Skorne13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More of a slow stroll at the moment.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supply and demand
brittneyrr · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics is pseudoscience, money isn’t real 🙃
PM_MeTittiesOrKitty · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every job is just moving something from one place to another. That movement costs money, and when it's done being moved, it generates money(typically by lighting it on fire). If it generates more money than it costs, it has enough money to move again else it stops moving.
Amedais · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Delete that cringey edit. It ruins your comment.
twentythreeeight · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! In Australia our government is spending $130bn on a stimulus package over the next 6 months, but like, where is the money coming from? “Oh our taxes will be paying this off over the next 2 decades” yeah, but.. who is lending them the money?
MibuWolve · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just thinking of global economies as some super complex entity is the wrong way to think about it.
Civilization and economies begin with the workers at the bottom. Retail workers, fast food, construction, service workers, etc. Then you get to the managers and keep going up the chain. Until you get to the CEOs/founders/board members who dictate how those companies function in which cities, states, and countries. These are just the giant businesses, small business on a local level play their part with commerce.
My point is that the global economy is just made up of small and large businesses and the customers that purchase their goods. Governments also dictate laws and regulations on how those businesses can operate. You scale it up for the different countries that make the global economy and the trades they make amongst themselves and you get the global economy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economic activity (how "good an economy is) is measured in Gross Domestic Product (GDP). So, for example, let's say your employer payed you $20. Then, you spent that $20 on a meal. Then, that restaurant payed your waiter the $20, who put it in a savings account. That's a GDP of $60, because all the goods and services (your work, the meal, the service) are valued at a total of $60.
Now, a recession is basically a decline in economic activity, which means people spend less money, and therefore get payed less, and so on--it's one big snowball effect. On the global scale, when a country exports less, other countries, who rely on that country's goods, import less, which carries over. And then you have a global recession / depression.
LatkaGravas · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/what_do_you_genuinely_not_understand/fn3nwap/
the_pragmaticist · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The funny thing to me is that while a vast majority of people would fail at trying to explain this concept, most of them also hold strong opinions about how the global economy should be run.
FieldLine · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You don’t need to. No one does.
Every individual, company, local government, etc. acts in their own best interest. That all these individual components collectively form a global economy is an emergent property.
Specific, notable exceptions are made when there exists a Tragedy of the Commons situation, in which each individual needs to behave in a way counter to their particular incentives for a better whole. In those cases some stronger incentive is artificially created to curb the potentially disastrous consequences of each individual acting in his own self interest.
For example, a company has no natural incentive to make its factories “green”; in fact, the counter-incentive exists (a better bottom line) to burn cheap fossil fuels and improperly dispose of wastes. It is only because of government mandated penalties/credits that even stronger incentives exist for these individual companies to be eco-friendly, despite the less attractive financials. If these incentives were not in place then each company would act in its own self-interest, theoretically destroying the environment causing everyone to lose.
TheAnwerIsN0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economic machine works ray dalio
rinkiyakepaapaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am no expert but my visualization is that people collect a lot of - small sums of money (e.g online subscriptions) and accumalate it together to become wealthy.
Then they distribute that money to smaller people (e.g. by buying mansions, planes) and the money goes back to where it started from in the first place, to people who make small transactions.
Then again a lot of these people make small transactions and the cycle continues.
The smartest person accumulates the most wealth (e.g. Bill Gates) and then that money gets distributes to less wealthy people (e.g. startups helping to make ventilators now)
WildlingPine · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules are made up and the money doesn't matter.
roboborbobwillrobyou · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video by Ray Dalio answered a lot of questions for me
https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
A good starting point to understand the global concept.
porchcouchmoocher · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fits and starts.
Jenbu · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 person trades something to another person for a good or service.
Trades go up the chain ad infinitum.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/PHe0bXAIuk0
Kipferlfan · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone seems to think they understand economics while it's incredibly unintuitive if you go slightly deeper than supply/demand.
hejmeddej · 148 points · Posted at 18:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When did time start???? And how do animals think???? What do they think???
zeusorjesus · 39 points · Posted at 20:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time started at “time zero” (made up reference point). You can also just arbitrarily just pick a time (e.g. the “start” of the Big Bang) and call it time zero.
Animals think using their brains and/or other stimuli-response mechanisms. They also think about lots of things—for instance, food, sex, and Reddit.
athrow4 · 3 points · Posted at 21:06:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time probably started when the big bang occurred. Since time space is what our universe is made of. If you're into dimensions and stuff then I think that also means that time for our universe started then too.
I say probably because I'm not an expert or anything.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its a bit early to ask how animals think. Like we barely understand how humans think tbh.
commoncolds · 6 points · Posted at 05:16:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time started January 1st 1970.
PyroWizza · 8 points · Posted at 00:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animals do not think in the same manner as humans do.
There are three parts of the human brain.
The reptilian cortex (which is responsible for basic bodily functions needed to sustain life like breathing feeling hungry, beating heart, startle mechanism for survival),
limbic cortex ( which is responsible for social behaviors such as taking care of babies, social actions like snuggling, playing or fighting, the sadness of losing a loved one),
and finally the neocortex (which is responsible for higher order thinking which are in humans. This is responsible for thinking about the past, future and present. Thinking about consequences and rewards and responsibilities.
So as us humans have all 3 cortexes, animals and insects do not. So for example your cat has only a reptilian cortex and a limbic cortex. It doesn't think about the future, it's not able to, so it doesn't.
Lizards or like animals/insects have only reptilian cortex, they just do what needs to be done to survive. They're instinctual and do not have complex thoughts. They are unable to generate complex thoughts.
Why doesn't my computer make sound? Because it doesn't have a sound card.
scrupulousness · 9 points · Posted at 22:40:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time started last Thursday.
IntricaciesOfLife · 7 points · Posted at 05:04:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice last thursdayism reference! Vsauce, is that you?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:14:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So time started in global pandemic. If I find the guy who set the initial conditions of time, I'll sue him
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:47:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time was created so people could sell clocks
MCJunieB · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time and space were created in the big bang as part of the creation of our universe. There was no time before our universe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BlowmachineTX · 3 points · Posted at 23:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it's not, time exists with or without humans perceiving it
The only thing that is not bound by time is light
shroom2021 · 664 points · Posted at 14:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a currency is not actually backed by anything physical then why does it's perceived value go down when there is more of it in circulation. It's not like adding another trillion to the pool means everything else is now representing a smaller slice of nothing.
tacojohn48 · 346 points · Posted at 17:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currency is based on the faith that we have in the issuing institution. We trust this government this much and that one this much. As trust in one of them changes their value against each other changes. Now one prints more money, but the ratio of trust between the two didn't change, so there's now less trust represented by each piece of currency.
onewithoutregrets · 47 points · Posted at 18:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You put it very nicely.
That’s exactly how my economic’s teacher had taught me about how money works.
EstonianRussian · 24 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But, and that may sound dumb, but I cannot grasp it, how does anyone know that there is more money in circulation? Like, if there are a few trillions printed, but the government doesn't tell anyone about it, is money worth less now?
Animist_Prime · 34 points · Posted at 21:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once had this question too.
Nobody is going out to specifically see if there is more money in the world. What happens is that if that money is put out into circulation, ie, the general public, the public has more money to spend. If they spend it, businesses will see that uptick in demand and potentially increase prices. This of course causes money to be less valuable due to inflation. All this happens normally without anybody specifically going out to see or even knowing that there is "more money" in circulation.
Nume-noir · 18 points · Posted at 22:34:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In other words, products keep their value relative to the amount of money in circulation. Thems the rules
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Animist_Prime · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I absolutely agree, there are many factors going into this. That is why when people tell me, well you do X, then you are going to get inflation. You might get some but not what most people think of like 8 dollar hamburgers. Those burger price increases are still spread over economies of scale. Or, people have more money but they don't have enough where they would pay 8 bucks for a burger so a company wouldn't raise prices that much.
tacojohn48 · 10 points · Posted at 20:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know much about it, but just printing money doesn't do anything, it's about how you inject that money into the economy that would be noticed.
mule401 · 3 points · Posted at 01:08:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I like the way you worded this. Question:
How is money normally injected?
unicyclegamer · 5 points · Posted at 01:12:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's generally done through federal loans and interest rates. Lower interest rates incentivizes people to borrow and therefore spend more. Higher interest rates means people aren't as likely to spend money because it's not as freely available to get.
formershitpeasant · 5 points · Posted at 21:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As there are more dollars being competed for, downward price pressures are lessened. Prices are lowered to try and get people to choose you over another, but if there are more dollars you don’t have to lower them as far to hit your sales targets.
penguiatiator · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the government prints a few trillion and puts it in a vault, then nothing happens.
If the government prints a few trillion and gives it to everyone, now people suddenly all have a lot more to spend. Because people will be wanting to buy things more, things will get more expensive. Because you used to be able to buy a loaf of bread with say $3 before, but now it costs $5, the money has lost its value.
Also, if the government just randomly prints a few trillion and injects it into the economy, people will lose faith that the money means anything. What if you were playing tag with your friend and your friend just declared where he was standing as a safe zone whenever you tagged him? Same kind of deal here. If people see that the US Gov't doesn't care about respecting the rules, then they won't play the game, and the value of the currency will decrease.
These are basic concepts, but a lot can be inferred from this. What if the US wants to encourage people to export goods from the country? Maybe they'll devalue the currency a bit. Suddenly a Canadian dollar that used to be exchanged for an American dollar is now exchanged at 2 American dollars. So Canadians are more willing to buy American goods.
khysor · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just keep the bread at 3 :)
Rackbone · 2 points · Posted at 13:52:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But then the opposite happens. instead of the money losing its value, the bread loses its value.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't believe that we all just kind of agreed to this system. And continue to do so.
ReadThe1stAnd3rdLine · 13 points · Posted at 21:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currency and this mutual trust doesn't exist in isolation. The USD is essentially backed by the American economy. So it sort of has some intrinsic value. Whereas something like cryptocurrency has a degree of mutual trust, but is backed by literally nothing.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why it took so long to get detachted from the gold standard.
richardbaal · 3 points · Posted at 00:15:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
mmmm fiat money
Sez__U · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The government doesn’t issue currency. The Federal Reserve does. It’s a bank. Not a government bank, just a bank.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:53:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Sez__U · 1 points · Posted at 12:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bank of England. Same shit. I assure you, banks create money not the government. It’s named something to look like the government, but it’s a bank.
DragonStangFlyer122 · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While it is not "owned" by the government it is governed by a Board of Governors. They are defined as an agency of the federal government that reports to and is directly accountable to Congress. So it is definitely not "just a bank".
Sez__U · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re wrong. It is not part of the federal government. Its owned by member banks. And while it may be accountable to congress, congress never tells the Fed anything. It’s a bank owned by banks.
DragonStangFlyer122 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk what to tell you. Simple google search shows it is run by a presidentially appointed board of governors. The federal government sets their salaries. You are correct that they do not take orders from or need the approval of the federal government in monetary decisions, but I was mostly taking issue by you saying it was "just a bank." Normal banks don't have the federal government setting the salaries of their governors, so right there is proof it is not "just a bank."
Valincity · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree it is not just a bank, but it is pretty accountable, the board of governors for the fed only has the head chair presidentially nominated, all the actual members of the board come from their individual zones, not elected and the chairman usually listens to them quite closely. Although sometimes political pressure is exerted, it is generally frowned upon as they are supposed to only follow their objectives set forth to them by congress when the federal reserve was created in the early 1900’s. So yes it is more than just a bank, as congress can technically change what they do through law but is generally pretty reliable in being independent and looking after the economy. Sorry I don’t really have a point, I just wanted to talk about the fed as I know a little about them.
Sez__U · 1 points · Posted at 12:11:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go past the simple google search. My point is that it is not a government that creates money, but the bank. The whole question that these posts were about was how the government creates money. It doesn’t. It spends money.
Where does the money come from? It is revenue and debt. It borrows the money with bonds. Who buys the government bonds and owns the debt? The Fed, the bank. That’s how money is created. The government printing press doesn’t create federal reserve notes down at the machine. It is direct deposit to you.
jebanehaslo · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So bankers are priests?
arquartz · 29 points · Posted at 18:48:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add to what the other guy said, money is just like any other good, the easier it is to get, the less valuable it is (for example gold is expensive because of how rare it is). Usually, when there's more money in an economy, that means it's easier for any one person to get more of it, thus making it less rare and therefore less valuable (This is also the reason that a single bitcoin is worth so much, because of how ridiculously hard it is to mine one and how few there are right now).
Another way to think of it is this: When money is added into the circulation, it inevitably goes to various people/groups. Businesses and companies see this and go "hey, these people have more money, we can raise prices and they'll still be willing to buy our stuff". And eventually all/most companies will raise their prices, meaning everything costs more money to buy, thus the currency is worth less.
453mm · 10 points · Posted at 19:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...and eventually the currency becomes worthless.
unicyclegamer · 2 points · Posted at 01:15:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If inflation is out of control sure, but regular inflation is completely normal. We've had a 2% inflation rate for years now.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you are a business selling something for $5 and after a trillion dollars gets added more people are willing to buy at that price, the demand has increased, so over time you as a business realize you can raise the price and you do. Extrapolate that across the economy and all the prices will go up over time.
PutinsRustedPistol · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it is backed by something. It’s backed by the goods and services it can purchase. And though a fiat currency (purely paper currency) is called ‘fictional’ by a lot of people the things it gets you are real, tangible things with value.
We know, at least close enough, the value of the things that our economy makes every year. We also know how much currency there is in circulation—and that that currency will be used to buy those goods and services. If there are more dollars chasing around the same set amount of goods than each dollar must become a little less valuable by comparison, no?
This explanation is cutting out some other scenarios and other more complicated cases, and is simplifying others, but it isn’t a bad way at all to think about the value of a currency.
Also of note, currencies ‘backed’ by other things became so fraudulent (the US didn’t really have all the gold or silver necessary to back their currency, for example. I’m not sure that any country did) and so influenced by people cornering markets that it just became kind of dumb and restrictive (and at times disastrous) to tie money to some other thing.
Governments even devalued currencies when they were made of gold or silver. The amount of gold or silver in them would change when the government needed to raise money and couldn’t do it otherwise. This is what is meant by ‘debasing’ the currency. It literally meant removing some or all of the base metal in a coin.
It’s weird that the world wakes up everyday and goes to a place they probably don’t like all that much to do things they’d rather not for pieces of fucking paper—but that’s what we’ve come up with and so far we haven’t thought of better.
fwubglubbel · 4 points · Posted at 19:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It's supply and demand, of money. As you increase the supply of money, its "price" (value) goes down. At any one time, the total quantity of goods and services produced can be exchanged for the total quantity of currency in circulation.
So adding a trillion to the pool means that the money is in fact representing a smaller slice of the total goods and services.
Slaisa · 2 points · Posted at 18:35:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go to Youtube and watch kurzgesagt, they have a few videos on economics and the like.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Power resides where people believe it resides -Varys
DothrakiSlayer · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine an economy with one trillion dollars in circulation. That means that however many goods and services that economy produces, the total value of those goods and services will add up to one trillion dollars. That means everyone's income will add up to $1T, and everyone's expenses will add up to $1T.
Now imagine that the central bank of that economy decided to print an extra $500 billion and add it to circulation. But the economy is still producing the same amount of goods and services. Now all of that production is worth $1.5T. Every citizens's income and expenses now add up to $1.5T. But because production is the same, everyone is still CONSUMING the same amount, the only difference is the nominal amount that they spend and earn. That's inflation.
guy_789127 · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to think of it as, there’s a certain amount of money assigned to a certain thing. Let’s say $1000 for one ounce of gold. Then let’s say the amount of money in circulation is doubled. Now it’s $2000 for one ounce of gold. The rarity of the gold has remained constant. However, there is more money, so the value is distributed even more thinly.
lucky_ducker · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're getting some pretty decent answers, but none of them have mentioned the "velocity of money." When the money supply increases in an otherwise stable economy, there are now more dollars chasing the same amount of goods. But if the increase in money is being invested, kept in savings, or otherwise not being spent on consumption, there is no inflationary pressure, and the new money does not seem to be worth any less. Each dollar in circulation changes hands, let's say an arbitrary six times each year (it's velocity).
Now let's say that the economy starts to boom, consumers become more and more confident, people start buying houses and furniture and appliances and new cars and boats and RVs and eating out more etc. After a time the velocity of money doubles - a typical dollar is changing hands twelve times a year instead of six. This has the inflationary effect of doubling the money supply, even though the government may not have added to the money supply at all during that period. The increased velocity of money results in "too many" dollars chasing "too few" goods and the result is that prices go up - or, put another way, the value of the money goes down. Governments combat this by raising interest rates, making borrowing to buy those houses and cars and RVs and appliances and furniture significantly more expensive - thereby dampening demand and reducing the inflation.
isaacom · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gold
jnumbahs2000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because money means the ability to buy stuff so it literally does mean a smaller slice of the stuff available to buy when the nominal value of money increases. Printing money doesn't make more stuff
diekiess · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other then people believing it has value the most important reason why money has value is because you have to pay your taxes in said currency. So the currencies value is determend by th repercussions of not paying your taxes.
icandoMATHs · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are almost there. Hope you have Bitcoin, gold, and other assets.
IrvingIV · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine you have peacock feather, a perfect, immaculate one.
Imagine now that you have two.
Now four.
Now thirty.
Eighty.
A hundred thousand.
A million.
That feather seems less special now, even if it is very much the same as before.
The belief changes as the amount increases, because we percieve more abundant things to be less special.
Lord-Table · 1 points · Posted at 06:33:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
With more bills, it becomes easier to get a hold of, meaning people have more, meaning stores can charge more.
Lets say object A costs 20% of the average joe's earnings. If this median of joes suddenly gains a 100% pay raise due to more money in circulation, object A is now only worth 10% of his days earnings. The people who produce object A notice that their product is now comparatively worth less, so they increase the price in order to earn just as much as they previously did in comparison to average joe.
Note: i never took any course regarding economy, this is just my best guess
FirstWiseWarrior · 0 points · Posted at 18:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fiat money is actually based on credit. Government issuing bond, so that central bank could print money.
How government paying bond? By creating another bond (well, aside from another income). So that means government dilluting its own currency by issuing bond, creating inflation in the long run).
Sez__U · 0 points · Posted at 21:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Debt. The Fed is a bank, not the government.
FirstWiseWarrior · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. It is. But in deficit spending, when government spending exceed their revenue. Government ussuing bond through the central bank. Based on the bond issued by government, central bank can create more money.
In case you don't understand bond is debt.
JustinGoro · 0 points · Posted at 19:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fictional example for intuition.
Suppose Amazon has $1 billion worth of merchandise.
They issue 100 gift cards. Each gift card entitles the owner to 1% of all merchandise. But it's worded funnily. On the card it says "This card entitles you to 1 cut of all merchandise. A cut is equal to 1 divided by the number of gift cards in existence."
So if there are 100 gift cards then 1 card entitles you to 1/100 (1%) of all merchandise.
This means 1 card can get you $10m worth of merchandise.
Now suppose Amazon wanted to issue more gift cards. They issue another 100. There are now 200 cards in existence. This means a 'cut' is now equal to 1/200 or 0.5%. In this scenario that means each card now entitles the holder to only $5m worth of merchandise.
Currency is a gift card for stuff. Instead of just Amazon, it's all products produced by all companies. All the currency combined can claim all the stuff combined so $1 note is like a cut in the above example where it entitles you to 1/AmountOfAllCurrency multiplied by ValueOfAllStuff.
If the value of all stuff increases (economic growth), your $1 can claim more stuff than before. If the Fed prints more dollars, the average 'cut' per dollar drops. This is why the value goes down when there is more in circulation.
mule401 · 0 points · Posted at 01:06:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is probably what I largely meant with my answer of stocks/high finance. I just don’t get it. A dollar is generally worth the same to me as it was $20 years ago regardless. For instance, a can drink from a convenience store is worth about a dollar, within 15 cent less. Idk
So yeah, the general perceived value of a buck to me doesn’t change if there are suddenly 20 trillion more dollars in the world. Also, where does the money come from from all these “new” billionaires? Hell if I know about good stuff man
shhitssecret69 · 66 points · Posted at 15:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like im just this flesh thing, with some bones n nerves and everything i am mentally is just some electric current things zapping the ball of flesh in some liquid, hovering or floating about in a jar in my head inside me.
DirtyBendavitz · 9 points · Posted at 00:24:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Walking, chemical reactions
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 06:05:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
think about jellyfish
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:53:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you know your consciousness is only physical and chemical reactions ?
shhitssecret69 · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:24 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we sorta do sorta dont, id like to think it doesnt just die but i dont know
[deleted] · 434 points · Posted at 17:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why some people still believe that vaccines cause autism.
bond_hydrogenbond · 177 points · Posted at 19:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There was a study done by Andrew Wakefield (who had a huge amount to gain from people not taking vaccines) that linked the MMR vaccine to autism. It was later disproved and retracted (and he was struck off the medical register in the UK) but because of a lot of media attention, people still believe it.
youre_a_burrito_bud · 89 points · Posted at 21:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny thing I just thought, why do they not believe any doctors, but believed this one former doctor. I think a lot of dumbass conspiracies boil down to people wanting to be in on a secret truth to feel superior to others.
LifeOpEd · 10 points · Posted at 22:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ding ding ding!
8483 · 3 points · Posted at 23:02:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calm down Salamanca...
brefromsc · 4 points · Posted at 03:04:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got into an argument once with someone that said my pediatrician was trash and uneducated and “clearly doesn’t specialize in babies” because she suggested something for my daughter that this woman’s pediatrician didn’t recommend for her. I don’t understand believing only one doctor. Like if you go into your doctor with some hip pain and his first suggestion is to do a total hip replacement, wouldn’t you go get a second opinion or are you going to go through with unnecessary surgery because your doctor said so? (I actually had a patient (rehab) who did just that. No scans were taken before he suggested it) I don’t get it.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is literally the only reason conspiracy theories exist. And cults.
political_though · 2 points · Posted at 07:36:21 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Late to comment.
But it was worse than that.
He was paid to produce a study saying the current MMR vaccine was dangerous and causing autism.
So..... that it could be replaced with a competing vaccine.
It was not erroneous medical science reporting - it was downright deceitful for financial gain.
TheGlassCat · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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No_Song_Orpheus · 0 points · Posted at 23:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conspiracy theories are shown to be correct all the time though.
FightingGoldenDevils · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think he means the more off the wall stuff like "the earth is flat" or "Obama isn't a natural born citizen"
ronnyrox · 1 points · Posted at 08:30:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell me 1
No_Song_Orpheus · 1 points · Posted at 12:44:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most recently, Jeffrey Epstein and the elite pedophile network.
ronnyrox · 1 points · Posted at 12:46:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was never a conspiracy theory. Was always a fact.
No_Song_Orpheus · 1 points · Posted at 15:11:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean it is quite literally the definition of a conspiracy.
GooberusGoober · 6 points · Posted at 21:09:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a few side affects to vaccines that could be harmful (I had one were my platelet count dropped for a few days) but that is still no reason to not get vaccinated, the diseases you get vaccinated against are so much worse than almost any side affect they cause, made up or real
heckinbamboozlefren · 4 points · Posted at 21:14:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh that ones easy; people are idiots.
doom_bagel · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It comes from a general (and frankly understandable) mistrust of the giant pharmaceutical companies. Those companies have show time and time again that they don't actually care about the health of the people taking medications, they only care about selling you a pill regardless of the side effects.
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ShhhhItsTrue · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:05 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahhh, the old, "It's a conspiracy propagated by the conspirators so that they will suffer a little hardship at first, but eventually reap giant rewards when their full conspiracy comes to fruition" -thing.
Yeah, who hasn't heard of that one? ;)
Akashd98 · 2 points · Posted at 01:48:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also in a majority of children the behavioural effects of autism aren’t really noticeable at birth and start to only show once the child is about a year old, couple that fact with the numerous vaccinations most kids receive between birth and 12 months and you can understand how some people (falsely) correlate one causing the other
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asbestos, DDT and lobotomies were once popular too. Remember Hitler? He liked this scientific belief called eugenics.
Now add time to this. People alive today never really experienced polio or measles. It's not a issue today, unlike autism.
Now add time again. Vaccines are decades old treatments. Hasn't science progressed enough that we are capable of handling things without vaccines? Aren't vaccines more of a cheap fix for third world countries rather than countries with top tier medicine?
blifford6669 · 13 points · Posted at 20:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vaccines that are preventative are actually the opposite of the cheap fix in my opinion. It’s like packing food and water before you leave for a camping trip rather than being on the way and stopping by the gas station for cheap snacks and drinks. The treatment of an illness once it’s onset rather than preventing it seems more like the cheap fix.
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 20:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem with your camping analogy is you're guaranteed to need to eat. What's the likelihood of being exposed to polio? It's more like getting flood insurance. It's a cheap precaution, but you're going to weight the cost based on the last time it flooded.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 21:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The likelihood grows exponentially if random people suddenly decide that they don't want to vaccinate. So his analogy is indeed valid.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 21:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As does the likelihood that people will vaccinate if people start getting polio. People take risks everyday There are vaccines available that people don't get unless they travel to countries with outbreak.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is your point that it is somehow worth risking people’s lives, especially the immuno compromised, because ‘the risk is low’? Are you going to be the one telling the families of those who died that it could have been prevented with something as widely available as a vaccine? Statistics are a really garbage factor when playing around with lives.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:20:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I'm saying I understand why some people don't vaccinate because it's not as clear cut as some people make it.
Theyre are countless preventable deaths that happen every day. People die from obesity, smoking, reckless activities. Car crashes are killing a lot more people in the US than these vaccinated diseases. Are you going to be telling the families that the reason their kid is dead is because we allowed a 16 year old to drive a car?
Vaccines are on a scale like everything. DDT is credited with saving 500,000 lives or more and yet..it's banned. Asbestos saved countless lives over the years and yet it's mostly banned.
Marijuana was criminalized for many years for being dangerous and now it's being legalized as a medicine. Glyphospate was seen as very safe and now people are worried about it. Things change.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would rather not allow 16 year olds to drive but thats nitpicking and besides the point.
The simple fact is that all of that has been banned after thorough study of its harmful effects. The debate about vaccines is often made on a ‘feeling’ or based on the same repeated false ‘proof’. With Asbestos and DDT you could find direct correlation on ‘I come into contact with this and become sick’, but they don’t try to do that with vaccines. It is an argument that devolves into and inevitable nothing because one of the parties refuses to do anything but preach that they’re right and keep peddling the same disproven garbage.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It impacts credibility. It's not like there hasn't been a study that proved something was dangerous that was kept a secret in the past. Now I agree with vaccines generally being good and recommended because of overwhelming evidence, but in 10 years that could change
fey_plagiarist · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was once talking to my family member and mentioned anti-vaxers, and to my surprise, she answered she knew one semi-antivaxer (who is not against mandatory vaccines). That person has told her that her kid started acting weird after a vaccine, banging their head against a wall and the like, like a child with autism (their words, not mine). She was sure the child was not simulating it and probably got scared. Other than that, I'd like to know too.
bitdugo · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you start injecting enough people with just a saline solution, at some point something goes wrong in the process. A batch got poorly refridgerated, needle isn't sterile, polution in an ingredient, shit happens, such is life.
King_Gamereon777 · 360 points · Posted at 18:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people who are purposefully coughing on others to spread coronavirus. Wtf
screamingghost14 · 93 points · Posted at 19:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are doing WHAT?
LadyJR · 50 points · Posted at 19:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Wasn't there a teen in Texas who coughed on people basically saying "If I got it, you get it too"?
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/texas-teen-who-said-she-d-spread-coronavirus-arrested-charged-n1179506
SpankWhoWithWhatNow · 34 points · Posted at 19:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh boy, wait until you hear about bugchasers...
slykinobi · 32 points · Posted at 19:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No don't bring that up
BLizardLeLizard · 7 points · Posted at 20:34:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is a bug chaser?
GetOutorGetOnMe · 13 points · Posted at 21:12:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have sex with STD infected persons to try and contract them on purpose. I think primarily HIV but I dont know a whole bunch about it.
BLizardLeLizard · 8 points · Posted at 21:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the fuck do these people exist.
Zero4020 · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are just so stupid.I went to a junkyard a week ago and while I was paying,some guy started arguing for the worth of a part with the employees.Eventually he gave up,but not before coughing on the employee on his way out.
daniel4sight · 9 points · Posted at 19:17:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental illness probably.
neocommenter · 6 points · Posted at 21:14:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love that the ones that got arrested have federal terrorism charge hanging over their heads. Welcome to the real world!
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 08:55:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same people who want the Purge to be real. It's a sense of having the power to sow chaos, like what inspires most terrorist acts.
Or they want to kill off the Boomers strangling America, which I CAN kinda sympathize with...
Seicair · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone does that to me I might lose my temper and just punch them...
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bioterrorism has been a thing since forever.
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dora-the_destroyer · 8 points · Posted at 01:57:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone’s gonna punch your teeth down your throat one day.
BroccoliConsumer · 0 points · Posted at 16:58:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude that's epic
MST3K81 · 119 points · Posted at 19:35:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People worship, seriously. I just can't wrap my head around how far people go or how much allot of people obsess over a celebrity or athlete. I mean, I get it to a certain extent. There are celebrities I really like, they seem like good people, but I can't tell you everything about their lives.
Mr_Gilmore_Jr · 6 points · Posted at 02:18:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems pretty straight-forward to me. You see someone who behaves a certain way that you admire and to try to emulate this person, you study them to learn more about them so that you can become like them.
MST3K81 · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I emulate different things from different people that I find funny or interesting sure, we all do to a certain extent. Doesn't mean I study that person or even try to be like them. I can pick things up and learn useful things from people without putting them on some unreasonable pedestal.
Mr_Gilmore_Jr · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose you'd have to be at a point in your life where you recognize that you don't know much or you don't amount to much, so you place the people that do on that pedestal.
This kind of thing was also popular hundreds of years ago. Apprentices learning from their masters, squires and knights, samurai and lords, etc...
tfield16 · 5 points · Posted at 00:28:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kept scrolling to find you. Thank you.
I can’t understand it. You have all the evidence you need to make a logical decision here.
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or god
MST3K81 · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I don't understand that one as well.
dicdic777777 · 433 points · Posted at 16:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shitty parenting you'd rather ruin a child then actually force yourself to learn how to parent
GutShotRunningGin · 231 points · Posted at 18:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my experience the shitty parents don’t think they’re doing a bad job, so why would they think they need to improve/change?
[deleted] · 38 points · Posted at 19:47:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sums up my moms "parenting" we are all suicidal and screwed up but she still thinks she did a good job.
pussytsunami27 · 9 points · Posted at 22:11:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are we related?
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 08:59:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weirdly, my sister claims this all the time. All my siblings and I are hella depressed, but it's largely genetic. My parents are AWESOME, but she blames them for not doing enough somehow.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:10:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes people just want someone to blame. I wish it was that simple for me but my sister's agree with me on how our mom was and still is. I had to go no contact again last fall when she told me she wasn't abusive because she didn't punch us in the face all the time like her parents. She went to college to be a social worker. She knows abuse takes many forms. She just refuses to admit when shes wrong. Also she hit us all the time, just didn't punch us.
SBASP1228 · 77 points · Posted at 19:47:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of shitty parents are selfish. They often deep down know they are shitty but to selfish to change its
CptNoble · 14 points · Posted at 21:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's just like "bad" people. Nobody thinks of themselves as a bad person. They use all sorts of mental gymnastics to justify why they do the things they do.
darkshiines · 41 points · Posted at 19:25:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people didn't particularly want kids but either felt like they're a mandatory indicator of adulthood, or got guilted into it by the people in their life, or had an unplanned pregnancy and were either against abortion themselves or lived in a place where it's effectively inaccessible. Then the kid is born and the switch to Loving Parent Mode that they expected either doesn't happen or is less intense than they were counting on, and now they're a shitty parent.
jf153 · 4 points · Posted at 23:45:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They fuck you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you.
But they were fucked up in their turn By fools in old-style hats and coats, Who half the time were soppy-stern And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man. It deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out as early as you can, And don’t have any kids yourself.
fuckwitsabound · 2 points · Posted at 04:13:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or, you'd rather become a parent than take actions to prevent it if you don't have employment/ stable housing etc. I get babies are cute and people are clucky but come on people. If you can't afford food and don't have a place to live why would you get or keep a pregnancy. I mean the pill is 5$ for 3 months here, there is not many excuses
FatPam007 · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think every person should be forced to make a psychological test before parenting. And these tests should be forced by the government. I wouldn't allow any person that didn't make that test to be a parent. There are to many abusive parents out there that ruin children. These children can become criminals when they grow up. It's pretty terrible.
pussytsunami27 · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people with mental health diagnoses language their conditions well and can parent just fine, while people who don’t have any diagnoses or meet the criteria for anything sick at parenting. It’s not this simple.
dicdic777777 · 8 points · Posted at 20:20:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea its crazy just anyone can have a child but u need a licence to fish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
YAS
XM202AFRO · 1 points · Posted at 15:17:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please stop, FatPam. You sound ridiculous.
FatPam007 · -1 points · Posted at 23:18:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not my fault that you wanna rape your children lmao. The only people that would be against of what I'm saying is abusive criminals. So...
XM202AFRO · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's quite the non sequitur.
dshpit · 57 points · Posted at 20:01:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who blast music on their phone/Bluetooth speaker while in public places. Buses, stores, etc..
Brilliant_Bank · 3 points · Posted at 08:41:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and people who talk on speaker phone. god damn, that's annoying.
angry_snek · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only situation where talking on speaker phone in public is justified in my opinion is when it’s so loud around you that you can’t hear your conversation partner otherwise, but that’s very rare.
epicurious_aussie · 1779 points · Posted at 16:39:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Kardashians are famous and popular.
TannedCroissant · 1013 points · Posted at 17:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think people watched their show to laugh at how trashy they are. Turns out most viewers actually ASPIRE to be them. Mankind is weird.
-Constantinos- · 490 points · Posted at 18:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I aspire to have their wealth, that would be fun
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Szjunk · 3 points · Posted at 09:36:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not? I honestly figured they started and never expected to get this far. Then the money just keep happening and they're like well, why not?
Jacobawesome74 · 50 points · Posted at 19:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I second this, but having wealth fantasies realized into Garbo reality shows is not the way to indulge in that fantasy
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rckid13 · 16 points · Posted at 20:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She also married Kanye and he's worth over $200 million so taking that approach works too.
reggae-mems · 25 points · Posted at 21:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
She was worth more than Kanye before getting married.... so that makes Kanye the golddigger
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JxSnaKe · 4 points · Posted at 00:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao the lyrics aren’t with the hard R my dude.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But step 1 of that plan is knowing a rapper. So the REAL step 1 is being born to a famous athlete.
arbivark · 3 points · Posted at 21:49:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just exploit a planetful of Bejorans.
InsertFurmanism · 3 points · Posted at 22:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You goof, with your Trek puns!
BattlingMink28 · 7 points · Posted at 19:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of Jenner kids is already a billionaire. Like wtf I wish I could have a business that enabled me to have money like that.
AcousticHigh · 24 points · Posted at 20:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And don’t forget that her fans were donating their own money to her so she could become the worlds youngest billionaire...
epicurious_aussie · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read about this. I can’t even.
Hahonryuu · 19 points · Posted at 19:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the former explains the original popularity, then because they got famous popular, people aspired to be like them because its clearly the path for fame and popularity
It started as just watching a train wreck
Then it became "fuck...I wish I had a train. That looks dope"
richloz93 · 9 points · Posted at 20:22:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was the vibe I got when Jersey Shore was on. People I knew always said the same thing: “I just watch them because they’re so stupid and ridiculous.”
I really believe people want that level of carelessness in their lives.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean yea tbh. I’m sick of being a nurse. Especially right now. I wish I could just go to the gym and bum it on a beach with my friends everyday. Sounds like heaven
screamingghost14 · 17 points · Posted at 19:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I watch the Kardashians sometimes, but only for laughing at them like you said. I kinda thought that was the point tbh. The only thing I really aspire to have that they have is their incredible success rate. Like them or not, you have to admit it's impressive that Kris Jenner had five otherwise average daughters and managed to market them all into millionaires. But I don't really aspire to be them at all.
ElGato-TheCat · 10 points · Posted at 19:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe in order to understand mankind, we have to look at the word itself: "mankind"
Basically, it's made up of two separate words: "mank" and "ind."
What do these words mean?
It's a mystery, and that's why so is mankind.
Sebb767 · 3 points · Posted at 21:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spending your day throwing away money and generally having fun while getting millions? I don't know about you, but living the 18+-version of childhood sounds quite awesome to me.
dat2ndRoundPickdoh · 0 points · Posted at 05:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
until you get older and deal with all the emptiness that all left inside you.
MexicansInParis · 14 points · Posted at 18:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, they're all a lot more achieved than most of us will ever be lol.
American_Life · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I play the show in the background because I don’t like absolute silence. It’s the least engaging and most vapid option which works for me. The only thing I aspire from them is to have Khloe’s organised cookie jars. Those are some nice cookie jars.
mmikke · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what blew my damn mind about jersey shore
FatPam007 · 0 points · Posted at 20:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes a lot of women I know wants to be like a Kardashian.
Bilbo238 · 229 points · Posted at 17:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You see, kim Kardashian fucked someone famous on tv and now shes the most famous person In existence.
eoin_kane · 277 points · Posted at 18:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She fucked someone kind of famous and now all her family members are 1000x more famous than the person she originally fucked. Makes sense
ShiaLaMoose · 28 points · Posted at 19:27:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fame is an std
pandasashi · 13 points · Posted at 21:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think saying she fucked him is pretty generous considering she laid there like a dead rat while he fucked her. Of all sex tapes out there, the fact that this is the one to blow up and create stardom is mind boggling. I've seen hotter sex narrated by attenborough in a nature doc
eoin_kane · 8 points · Posted at 22:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m only 17 so I found out about her sex tape after she was already famous and I was so confused when I watched it, like ‘wtf this is why her whole family is this fucking famous’
tiwariavinash503 · 13 points · Posted at 18:52:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But to be able to fuck someone , I need to be popular first.
oozie_mummy · 10 points · Posted at 20:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She fucked someone famous, her mother sold and promoted the video of it and here we are.
eoin_kane · 9 points · Posted at 20:07:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf I didn’t know that. That’s really fucked up
GoblinWithTwoKnives · 5 points · Posted at 21:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Her mother is a monster.
impreprex · 3 points · Posted at 21:17:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's fucked up in so many ways. What the FUCK.
trolololoz · 63 points · Posted at 19:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many may not like it or care to admit it but the Kardashians are a marketing monster.
If getting millions upon millions of dollars was as simple as a sex tape, porn stars, snap girls, reddit girls and all of those that sell sex would be millionaires.
They created a brand which is no easy feat. I'm sure they are not as dumb as they seem.
[deleted] · 65 points · Posted at 18:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, she parlayed that tape into an empire. Not everyone with a fuck tape gets an instant ticket to fame and fortune. She seems really smart to me.
Bilbo238 · 18 points · Posted at 18:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck, I just realized the same thing happened with Paris Hilton.
aliciasawesome · 13 points · Posted at 21:12:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kim K was Paris Hiltons personal assistant.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 18:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also smart, though not someone I’d invite to a dinner party!
A_Canadian_appears · 16 points · Posted at 19:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit where credit's due, but I think the fact that both her and Paris Hilton are daughters of significant people helped draw attention to their pornos. But then you also look at Montana Fishburne (Lawrence Fishburne's daughter) and she wasn't able to launch a big career out of porn, although she went to actual porn producers to be a porn actor and didn't leak a sex tape and try to become a "personality", so her approach was different.
FatPam007 · 8 points · Posted at 20:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing is about it being leaked. That's why Kim became famous. Because it was leaked and leaking something makes a lot of controversy around this person and there's a lot of noice around this person as well.
FuckinCorporateShill · 5 points · Posted at 19:19:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the TV show had already been announced when the sex tape came out, so even that doesn't really explain it. I know Robert Kardashian was a lawyer on the OJ Simpson trial, but surely there's no way he could have parlayed that into a TV show... right?
mercuryomnificent · 2 points · Posted at 04:45:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ve gotta remember that this was around the same time that Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie were all over television. When a tv exec sees one popular tv trend, he’ll look for a way to make his own version of it.
I’m sure we all remember the countless regional Jersey Shore knockoffs in the early 2010s.
Szjunk · 2 points · Posted at 09:23:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kim was also indirectly on TV a lot because she was Paris' personal assistant.
Szjunk · 2 points · Posted at 09:21:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Started with Rob defending OJ. (But it helped they were already well known by other rich people.)
So Kim was Paris Hilton's personal assistant in the early 2000s. That started getting her into the spotlight and is probably how she ended up meeting all of these other famous people.
Kourtney gets on the reality show, "Filthy Rich: Cattle Drive." because she'd been on The Simple Life, etc. (August 2005)
Then the sex tape leaks (Feb 2007), Vivid buys it, they have a lawsuit about it driving up the controversy and it really rocketed her up the fame charts. There's nothing like trying to stop people from seeing something to make them want to see it.
The Kardashians were actually inspired off of the Osbournes because Seacrest saw that they naturally created so much drama, were crazy, but looked like they were having fun doing it.
The show wasn't announced in August 2007, well after the tape leaked.
So basically, rich people hanging out with other rich people doing crazy rich people things impressed even richer people to just record them doing rich people shit.
Account_8472 · 2 points · Posted at 19:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except it was only notable that she ducked someone famous because her dad was the lawyer and best friend of a football player who murdered two people.
heckinbamboozlefren · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brandy's brother, hardly even famous
QueenAlucia · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey that’s kind of neat to have a vagina that can suck the fame out of people.
_grapess · 14 points · Posted at 19:21:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re good at marketing. No matter how much someone dislikes them there is no denying that.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 21:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unpopular opinion on reddit, but they have crafted their image perfectly - they have riches and looks that 10% of people aspire to (loyal fanbase), and have committed to public personas designed to piss off 70%, with the remaining 20% joining the piss bandwagon because they hate how much publicity they get. People are so pissed off by the Kardashians that they will be outspoken about it without provocation, which becomes free advertising, and reinforces the idea that they are famous for being famous because it's all anyone can talk about (even if 90% is trying to tear them down). It's the same formula that lots of reality stars, political pundits, and wrestling heels follow, and audiences (including reddit circlejerks) play into it every time.
envydub · 8 points · Posted at 22:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. The amount of energy so many people, especially on reddit, put into actively hating the Kardashians is mind boggling. If you don’t like them why do you talk about them so much?
slackbabbith · 28 points · Posted at 18:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My gf watches their show all the time, and I've broken it down like this. They're idiots and it's entertainment. I used to watch Trailer Park Boys religiously and it was for a similar reason, I knew people that stupid, and imaging them feeding a mountain lion weed in small portions to get it off its weed addiction is hilarious!
I think another good example of this is Tiger King, everyone who talks on screen is a special form of idiot, and generally speaking, most viewers aren't idiots and can't think like idiots. This is why what they say catches us of guard, it's an idiot speaking.
Now take this formula (giving idiots a platform) and add it to the perfect storm that was the khardasians, and you get mega stardom. Now when I say perfect storm it really was. Take Kim for example. Dad defended OJ Simpson in court, dies, mom marries an Olympian with gold to his name, work for Paris Hilton as a closet organizer, become friends with Paris Hilton, starts dating d-list rapper, makes a porno (3 years after "1 night in Paris l" blew the fuck up), mom sells it AND BOOM reality tv show.
Now who in the early late 2000's wouldn't want to see the life of Robert Khardasian's porno making, Paris Hilton wannabe, brainless daughter? The shows a complete meme fest. Some of the stupidest things ever said in reality tv come from that show. So once it started taking off, comrade Kris used her knowledge of what people want to see like some kind of evil genius. Gets her daughter's to start dating other questionable celebrities and the story just started writing itself from there.
So the reason why they're famous is because they're not boring, each characters life is an absolute quagmire of never ending drama and ridiculousness.
tulvia · 8 points · Posted at 19:30:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But is all fake. Manufacturered drama and stupid situations where the level of drama is not necessary.
I get the entertainment bit but why are the popular is the sense people want to be like them and worship them.
slackbabbith · 9 points · Posted at 19:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Notoriety. Every idiot in history had a fan club. Who wouldn't want to be a moron making millions just to do nothing? It's no surprise a portion of society keeps a Walmart rollback tag on their dignity.
s0m30n3e1s3 · 5 points · Posted at 20:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it's the thing to see them as idiots but they managed to market themselves to the point that they have millions and millions of dollars off of clothing/beauty brands, a T.V show, smart investments. Kim herself owns part of Disney, Apple, Adidas, etc. They're not idiots, but they marketed themselves as idiots and made more money than you or I will ever see doing it.
slackbabbith · 6 points · Posted at 20:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having financial success doesn't cancel out ones idiocy. I said in the original comment that Kris is an evil genius, if there's one thing she can do like no other, it's sell her children as media fodder.
Also, the "cash me outside" girl has more money than you and I, do you think the girl who went on Dr.Phil and hollered "cash me outside, howboutdat" isn't an idiot?
s0m30n3e1s3 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean the woman that turned internet fame into a relatively successful rap career? Lots of people have been on Dr. Phil, how many of then rode that cash cow? She might play the idiot, hell she might even be white trash, but that doesn't actually make her an idiot.
These people all effectively played the game of Capitalism better than either of us play it, that is definitely a form of intelligence. Sure they might not be researching string theory or leading us to new types of medicine but they do possess a form of intelligence that many people dismiss because they act trashy or materialistic
slackbabbith · 1 points · Posted at 04:37:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah man, she bought songs and features. Just like the khardasians, once you have money it's simple to explode it. Financial advisors, stock brokers, etc. They'll inflate your money. Shit even the bank's too. Just put 2 mil in a high interest account and it doesn't take long to grow. Paying people to blow up your money isn't intelligence, you'd be stupid not to use those options.
And again, having a lot of money doesn't make these people respectable, rich or poor an idiot is an idiot. Sure they may have a some small intelligence financially but they're paying people to do that thinking for them, and it doesn't outshine the fact that they're trashy people who truly don't deserve the time of day we give them.
s0m30n3e1s3 · 2 points · Posted at 16:24:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trashy, not worthy of respect, sure, absolutely, but not idiots. They play idiots very well but it still requires a decent bit of intelligence to exploit those 15 minutes of fame into financial security for yourself/your family. There are countless people who had those 15 minutes and never went anywhere because they lacked the intelligence to exploit it.
navyseal722 · 3 points · Posted at 01:12:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
50% of all people are below average intelligence. Most cant tell it's all faked.
MexicansInParis · 30 points · Posted at 18:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not that hard, their dad was a famous and successful lawyer that was involved in the OJ Simpson case, Kim Kardashian was very close to the Hilton family and best friends with Paris Hilton, their step-mom is a retired Olympian and one of the most famous transgender people in the world, Kim is now married to Kanye West and their TV Show became very popular for some reason, probably because many people find that type of fancy lifestyle appealing. Many factors led to the rise of fame of that family and now most of them are actually quite accomplished women.
debbiegrund · -18 points · Posted at 19:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah so you failed to explain why she’s popular.
AtSomethingSly · 6 points · Posted at 19:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People like to live vicariously through others. That's why the British Royal Familyis so popular. That's why people like princesses and princes, zombie movies and games.
The K's love a very wealthy and privileged life style that most people can't imagine. Sometimes it's nice to just watch other people have what you want.
MexicansInParis · 15 points · Posted at 19:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I gave about 5 reasons.
GeordiLaFuckinForge · 14 points · Posted at 20:05:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redditors just like to feel superior to someone and don’t realize it’s not easy to go from generally wealthy to one of the biggest names on earth. I don’t think she’s a genius by any means but she was able to successfully leverage her connections and make deals to propel herself from “OJs lawyers daughter with a sex tape” to the multimillionaire face of the beauty/fashion/lifestyle industries. Credit where credit’s due.
MexicansInParis · 4 points · Posted at 20:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, wholeheartedly agree with your comment, she's no genius IMO either but I actually find it funny reading all these nobodies looking down at people far more successful than them.
American_Life · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that’s tea.
sfoxx · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Their dad represented OJ Simpson so that put them in the spotlight at first. Kim was a friend of Paris Hilton on a show called the simple life for a couple years. She was going to launch her own show and used the attention from the sex tape to get more viewers.
FatPam007 · 3 points · Posted at 20:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're aesthetically pleasing honestly. And the monotone tone they have amazes me because they're robotic.
sugar_spark · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would disagree. Maybe 10 years ago, but how 'perfect' their looks are now throws them into uncanny valley. No real woman looks like them naturally, and that's completely unnerving.
fredbuddle · 6 points · Posted at 18:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex tape and poor people idolise relatable trash
Sarchers · 4 points · Posted at 19:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OJ case + Kim, who is the first OG social media Kardashian, is a very intelligent person and knows how to pull the strings of the media to gain fame and money.
Adamscottd · 2 points · Posted at 23:30:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It all started with OJ Simpson
spurz07 · 4 points · Posted at 17:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agree. My gf watches their show sometimes and it blows my mind people like that crap. So fake, so staged, it’s ridiculous how they’re famous. But when you sleep with the right people, you can get whatever you want apparently
Marksideofthedoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because of american football.
coronelwang · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/C9php9wbgdg https://youtu.be/znXHz58bKdU
It's in Spanish, but I think you can put the subtitles. It's a good explanation of why and how.
B00STERGOLD · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because OJ didn't not kill his wife.
aita-throwaya- · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can be entertaining to some people.
haysanatar · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both Kim and her father got famous for getting a famous person off on camera.
DreamingRealityiii · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its because her father was one of the lawyers who defended OJ Simpson
Swooper86 · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, they had a substantial empire at one point and even occupied Bajor for decades. I wouldn't call them popular though (especially not on Bajor).
mercuryomnificent · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The devil works hard but Kris Jenner works harder
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:08:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The Buffalo Bills barely lost a game in 1970 by missing a pass for a touchdown. That loss allowed them to get the first pick in the draft, O.J. Simpson. OJ stays in Buffalo for awhile, meets his wife, then allegedly kills her. O.J. hires Kim Kardashian's father to be his lawyer. They win the case, making the Kardashians somewhat famous. Then Kim drops the sex tape, becomes famous.
somechild · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:38 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
The show is extremely low stakes. So for people who like reality television it’s really easy to watch. A lot of shows are hyper dramatic and they have you feeling stressed out or feeling bad for someone, or you get worked up over the fights. Not on keeping up with the kardashians it’s all just khloe being mad that Kourney is late again, it’s absolutely mindless to watch.
trollingcynically · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Summing up this thread so far:
Some clarification: Rich person is a general term used to describe someone who is wealthy in the sense of not just owning assets worth some millions. Rich person here is someone who has liquid assets in the millions and can spend a few million here and there when they want to. Getting into the neighborhood of but not necessarily real "Fuck you" money if you will.
Be relatively good looking daughter of someone who makes a fuck ton of money. Money is made via brilliant misdirection and the ability to dodge criticism of misdirection with legal precedent. Learn from dad some of this craft.
Be friends with others of the same social class from a young age. Rich people meet lots of other rich people. This is some of the reason that the wealth in the upper class trustifarians consolidates.
See other rich people's petty squables make for great gossip. Who doesn't like some good gossip. I even find myself falling into the trap though I would say, "I hate all of this petty drama!" This is a lie we tell ourselves.
See that famous people having petty squabbles about fuck all makes for awesome magazine sales and new internet social media platforms make gossip easier to spread.
Be bored kid of rich person therefore has unlimited time outside of social obligations. Has some petty squabbles and loves to talk shit about other rich kids. Same shit talking that people in the magazines etc. do.
Hang out with rich friend with a huge family brand. Said rich friend parties hard core. You like to party hard core with said friend. There are already people who recognize your rich friend with a huge family brand because she is known to be a bit of a disappointment to the family empire.
Make sure you get seen with this rich friend out partying. Rich friend always wanted to be a star but has no real tallent besides the ability to party hard and look like she gives 0 fucks about being a disappointment. Why not make money from this thinks rich friend.
! A wild idea appears
Start spreading some fun tabloid stuff. Do this with consent of rich friend or not. You will make it up to friend when you get your side hustle up and running. Suddenly you matter to tabloids etc. because you are close with the now trainwreck of a disappointment. Do all the interviews! Get into all the tabloid shots! Drink all the shots and do all the coke with this bitch! Start fucking other more famous people like rich friend did.
Lose all the shame! There is no shame when you are making money hand over fist. Act like a child actor at age 15 when you are a grown ass adult. People love this shit! Social media has advanced. All the kids are using Facebook now. My Space is shit platform for promotion and no one likes Tom anymore. Twitter becomes a thing. People love your gossip and tune in more. Run with it. Saturate the market. Suddenly matter to idiots who love rich person gossip so they can live vicariously.
Make money hand over fist. Rinse and repeat.
I think I got it. Let me know if I missed something.
TheCenterOfEnnui · -1 points · Posted at 19:47:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get this either.
She's not exceptionally attractive. She's not exceptionally likeable. She has no talent in the traditional sense. She banged some dude in a leaked pornesque video. I don't get it. This woman should not only not be famous, she should be obscure.
I remember when Paris Hilton set the mold for this sort of fame, I was amazed by it. I originally thought "well, people are laughing at this moron."
It turns out that a large swath of the population is OK with that as long as you're on TV.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:30:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Paris was a lot of she's hot, she's rich, woah, she has a sex tape too?
It was a brief look into the lives of the mega wealthy that we don't usually get to see, especially seeing them fuck.
The whole selling point of The Simple Life was seeing the fish out of water aspect.
FightThePouvoir · 0 points · Posted at 18:59:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good point. I don't understand celebrity worship. I worked at a large hotel near our city's main performance auditorium. I have met hundreds of celebs/sporties/politicians etc... They are all just normal people, a lot of them are dorky and weird. Plus, a LOT of celebs are really really short!
Dragonman558 · -4 points · Posted at 19:26:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause people are generally idiots
JohnGB · 985 points · Posted at 16:07:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long nails shaped like talons as an attractive thing. WTF about them is attractive in any way?
Slaisa · 119 points · Posted at 18:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey if some people have a raptor fetish who are we to judge
Starshaft · 44 points · Posted at 18:58:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theyre for gardening
kbextn · 59 points · Posted at 19:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i mean personally the feeling of having long, painted and polished nails just feels good, and somehow it makes me feel more confident (i’ve only had my nails done like that once though bc i have no money but i wouldn’t be opposed to it again in the future) (sorry if that didn’t make sense)
Goodlookingipromise · 28 points · Posted at 20:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I paint my nails pretty often myself. I enjoy doing it, from picking out colours and thinking of designs to the actual painting of them. Once i'm all done with them I just feel so much better than when my nails are plain, so I totally agree with you on the confidence bit.
Beastabuelos · -8 points · Posted at 05:26:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If your nails go past your fingertips, they're gross
blackcurrantcat · 74 points · Posted at 18:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree. All I can think about is the ick that's underneath them. Totally gross.
SiberianPermaFrost_ · 74 points · Posted at 18:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covid claws.
JustinGoro · 22 points · Posted at 19:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covid claws is my new favourite term. This comment is too underrated.
bless_ure_harte · 1 points · Posted at 08:31:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor Corax Corvus
imasequoia · 24 points · Posted at 20:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My theory: It makes your hands look longer and more slender for a more youthful appearance. Also the nails are smooth whereas aged fingernails tend to have more ridges. Its also a trend that i think women do for each other. When they get extra long and claw-like, i almost feel like its a power signal.
LamZeppelin · 3 points · Posted at 21:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For some reason this reminds me of this SNL sketch
orokro · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:49 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if someday I'll find a SNL sketch that makes me laugh.
Juswantedtono · 56 points · Posted at 18:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes sense under signaling theory. Women can’t maintain flawless long nails while working menial jobs, so having the nails signals to other people that they have high socioeconomic status.
katatafisch · 50 points · Posted at 20:02:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People showing off how much they have has always been a thing and it changes with time. Being pale was attractive, because it showed you don't have to work on a field and had a higher status than a common field worker. Nowadays having a tan is attractive, because it shows you have the time and money to spend on nice vacations.
silkblackrose · 3 points · Posted at 09:55:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or you work in healthcare - as a surgeon i hate my short piddly nails but popping a glove isn't a risk I want to take elbow deep in an abdomen.
awfulmcnofilter · 11 points · Posted at 20:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I dont understand is why cashiers have them. Makes it hard to push buttons.
youre_a_burrito_bud · 9 points · Posted at 21:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wanting to appear like they don't have a menial job when outside of work.
babypunch69 · 23 points · Posted at 21:29:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it doesn’t. It’s really easy to get used to. It also helps with confidence & helps to distract from your shit every day life as a cashier :) because you have something to feel good about: your nice nails!
Cat_Friends · 39 points · Posted at 21:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And you get that wonderful "tap tap tap" sound as you use the screens. I remember the pure joy that gave the first time I ever got my nails done. It's the little things that get you through the day lol
sugar_spark · 14 points · Posted at 21:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucking love it when I grow my nails out long enough for my thumbnails to make the tapping noise when I use my phone.
awfulmcnofilter · 5 points · Posted at 02:32:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was referring to the kind that are crazy long. I love the slightly longer nails but not the ones that curve like talons.
babypunch69 · 2 points · Posted at 09:58:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok word idk why a cashier would have those either honestly wtf
awfulmcnofilter · 1 points · Posted at 13:22:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happens all the time here in SC.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:09:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
or while wearing contacts! Does no one wear contacts?!
Geminii27 · -4 points · Posted at 21:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And are next to useless for anything practical?
aliciasawesome · 6 points · Posted at 21:22:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty weapons at your disposal
Rudi_Reifenstecher · 6 points · Posted at 21:49:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the really weird thing is that a lot of porn actresses have long nails, which seems to be a bad choice for people who are around genitals a lot
[deleted] · 35 points · Posted at 21:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who's in an environment/culture where that's viewed as normal and attractive, I find it so beyond strange reading how people are annoyed by it. Some people to the extent of exaggerating the length or going as far as to insult the women who wear them. Super weird to me how that bothers some people.
Trapitha · 21 points · Posted at 21:40:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently anyone who has long nails loses all ability to properly wipe her ass. So tired of reading that.
vgilbrea · 3 points · Posted at 03:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of fecal matter and bacteria gets trapped under nails, especially long nails. This is something that has been proven.
Trapitha · 5 points · Posted at 03:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And alot of people dont wash at all or care. I'm willing to bet people getting expensive manicure ( nails that long are quite pricey) are using good hygiene. I would think if you spent that much money you would want to keep them clean because they draw attention? I'm sure there are people we encounter on a daily basis with short nails that have contaminated hands and nails.
And yes fecal matter gets everywhere. Yet most of the people talking shit about long nails probably keep their toothbrush in the bathroom.
vgilbrea · 5 points · Posted at 04:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/hygiene/hand/nail_hygiene.html
Long nails harbor a lot more germs and bacteria, and I highly doubt they are using a nail brush when they wash their hands which is required to actually properly clean under them.
Trapitha · -3 points · Posted at 04:02:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay. And hella people with short nails don't even wash. Theres alot of crap people do that spreads germs. Like take their phone into the bathroom lmfao. I never see anybody talking shit about that. It's just not weird to me because in the culture and environment o grew up in its pretty normal.
peanutwaterfall · 49 points · Posted at 19:12:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re not for other people’s viewing pleasure.
koyawon · 17 points · Posted at 22:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not finding them attractive, in the context of this post, can also mean you don't see why anyone would personally want them. As in, I'm never going to have talon shaped nails because I think they're ugly, therefore I wouldn't put them on myself for myself. I wouldn't enjoy having them, and - going back to the original question - I can't understand why anyone would. (And that's fine: we all find different things appealing. I dye my hair pink and purple, plenty of people can't understand why I enjoy doing thatn/find it attractive. my point is just that saying "they're not attractive" doesn't have to mean you think the only reason to have them is for other people).
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 21:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People have a really hard time understanding this
"why would you do something i don't like? i thought i was the center of the universe?"
dizzy_drizzled · 11 points · Posted at 22:31:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not necessarily about hating on them or anything, I mean the thread is what do you genuinely not understand, so it's perfectly valid to wonder. It's weird to frame it like the OP is acting egotistical. They did say things a bit harshly but it's a perfectly fine question, especially in this thread. I'd think that you're mischaracterizing op's post, that's all.
JohnGB · -5 points · Posted at 21:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So... don't leave us hanging. What are they for?
peanutwaterfall · 26 points · Posted at 21:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the enjoyment of the person who gets them.
EmeraldGuardian187 · 13 points · Posted at 20:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the attractiveness part but as a guy i would get them to stab my friends with
pandasashi · 4 points · Posted at 21:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You've never felt them on your balls, huh?
The_Stickup · -2 points · Posted at 19:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like, how do those people wipe anyways?
Trapitha · 20 points · Posted at 21:39:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With toilet paper.
The_Stickup · -1 points · Posted at 22:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obviously, but how do they not do it without scratching themselves and getting their nails dirty
Trapitha · 21 points · Posted at 22:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same way everyone else does. Who digs their fingernails into their asshole in the first place?
The_Stickup · -8 points · Posted at 22:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh. Nvm
Trapitha · 7 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You asked, bruh.
The_Stickup · 6 points · Posted at 22:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If someone has like 3 inch nails...??
Trapitha · 8 points · Posted at 22:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know how long 3 inches is? Honestly how many people do you see with 3 inch nails?
The_Stickup · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drag Queens, cheeto girls etc.
Trapitha · 4 points · Posted at 22:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would assume they wrap their hand in tp and wipe. Also if you have long nails your probably pretty into your hands looking nice and keeping them looking clean. So ya know even if you did get something on them your supposed to be washing up after anyways.
thats0K · 10 points · Posted at 20:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or take contacts out?? im a dude and if my nails get longer than 2-3mm (which is pretty long on a dude but short for a woman), it's tough getting my contacts out because you use the index finger and thumb, near the tip, and any fairly significant length of nail as mentioned above can scrape my cornea!
ScumbagLady · 6 points · Posted at 21:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always used one finger pad to slide contact to the far corner of my eye and then blink it out, into my hand. It's so much easier for me that way, but no one I know has ever done it like that.
Maybe clawed ladies do it the same way?
Saang01 · 2 points · Posted at 21:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have long nails and I do this :)
ScumbagLady · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to, so I guess it comes from that. My nail beds are pretty long and even with my nails trimmed, they're quite oval shaped. Now I almost always have my left hand trimmed short and nails on my right because of guitar, but still feel like I'd put my eye out of I tried any other way lol
thats0K · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ooh that sounds cool, I'll try it! thanks! do you push the contact toward your nose/inner eye? or away/outer?
ScumbagLady · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Towards my temples. I've noticed it doesn't work as well if my eyes are really dry, and then it just feels weird like I'm trying to remove my cornea. (Do before smoke sessions if that's your jam lol)
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok right on thanks! I'll give that a try tonight and I'll totally be thinking of you 💙 ;)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This makes so much sense, duh. Contact wearer here but I can't do the swipe method. Yes - this is how. I am dumb. Thank you.
Cat_Friends · 3 points · Posted at 21:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lady with long (not crazy talon) nails here; I open my eye wide and use the pads of both index fingers to pinch it out.
thats0K · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just can't get any grip without slowly rolling my fingers toward the eye until the nail hits it. thanks for your insight tho! never knew people took them out in so many ways.
JohnGB · -6 points · Posted at 21:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always imagine come crusty brown shit stuck under their nails.
ALittleNightMusing · 0 points · Posted at 22:07:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No idea, it makes me feel physically sick to see them. Especially if they're growing out and you can see the natural nail-beds underneath. A few women in my office have them (in female too) and I dread when they come over with a bit of paper to show me something and I have to look at the nails while they're pointing out the relevant part.
nappingintheclub · -4 points · Posted at 21:29:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they are also so so so unsanitary. like "doctors are literally forbidden at most medical employers from having them" level of unsanitary.
vgilbrea · -1 points · Posted at 03:51:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems some people, probably the ones with the gross long nails, are getting butt hurt because people who hate these nails are getting downvoted.
So, I’m just going to leave this link right here: https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/hygiene/hand/nail_hygiene.html
And I obviously agree with you. Long nails are absolutely disgusting, and I will avoid touching a person’s hands if they have long nails.
nappingintheclub · 3 points · Posted at 03:58:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
literally its just facts--my family member is a NICU nurse and she isn't even allowed to have short acrylics or gel nails, let alone long ones--the bacteria and germs may put the babies at risk. truth hurts lol
kamomil · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They look nice I suppose
But I can't play the piano adequately with them past a certain length, so mine are short.
tohones82 · -4 points · Posted at 19:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm always more curious about how they wipe thier butt
angelleeyanejeu · 28 points · Posted at 19:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People mostly get nails for themselves because it’s fun to be able to customize them every month and they also just make you feel more confident. And to answer your question, the same way you do it doesn’t affect anything in that sense.
tohones82 · 0 points · Posted at 19:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the customization part it just seems like they attached ice cream scoops at the ends of thier fingers with the intent to not scoop fudge ripple
FerrisB00bler · 7 points · Posted at 20:00:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some of us are using them specifically to scoop fudge ripple though
ScumbagLady · 3 points · Posted at 21:12:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fudge ripple is what they're calling cocaine nowadays?
Hi-Day · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a male and I have a fair bit of talon nails, but only on my right hand. They are quite handy and practical actually. Especially for playing guitars. And it can be used to maintain conversation with people. And the best bit of practicality is I can use it as some sort of rudimentary head-scratcher to females. Some of them did got turned on.
JohnGB · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not talking about guitar nails (which at least have a function). I'm talking about these or worse.
Hi-Day · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, I apologize. I actually forgot how ugly it looks, until you showed the link there. Sorry for my misplaced answer there, mate.
JohnGB · 2 points · Posted at 14:02:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's awfully polite of you, but there's no need to apologise for an opinion.
ClemsonFanMikey · -5 points · Posted at 20:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve joked for years about how to those people wipe their eyes. Or laying in bed at night, go to pick the nose and oops! Accidentally pulled out your brain.
pintazpt · -10 points · Posted at 21:34:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my opinion, those long nails are just tacky and cheap, atleast in my country all the trashy bitches use them.
IrvingIV · -1 points · Posted at 00:53:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The allure of danger.
People ride on rollercoasters and go to horror movies because they want to experience the theoretocal idea of danger, but nit be in danger.
Similarly, talon nails attached to a sane person present others with a safe danger, one they can enjoy when shaking their hand or sitting in their vicinity.
It can start conversations, too.
This is similar to the old man who people called "Pimp Larry," or somesuch.
The guy would wear bright colored clothes for no other reason than because people like seeing bright colors.
SailingLiam · -12 points · Posted at 21:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was gonna say the same thing. Why the fuck do people wear fake nails?! So gross
StaulPammets · -1 points · Posted at 03:17:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think manicured nails are attractive on females, but nothing over like a 1/4 in (6mm) past the finger tip. Dudes with long fingernails is fucking weird and gross (-100 cool points). Nobody should have nasty toe nails either (call the toe truck).
galaxygirl978 · -13 points · Posted at 20:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then they can't do basic tasks
Harambeeb · -41 points · Posted at 20:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything women do to enhance attractiveness started with a girl that was a bigger ho than the rest, all the men want her more and so the others start copying her.
Like high heels, it started as something butchers wore, then prostitutes started using them (personal theory is that they make squatting more comfortable) and they stuck as a trend.
waterfountain_bidet · 11 points · Posted at 21:17:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, butchers wore platform heels to keep their feet out of blood, but modern heels were invented for horse riding not too long after stirrups were. They were for men (which makes way more sense, when you think about it) and adopted by women as virtue signalling later, same as the long nails (can't get anything done in heels, also shows off money of having useless shoes made)
PicksAndLenses · 571 points · Posted at 15:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Cuckolding.
[Edit] I'm not saying it's bad, I simply don't get it. Not being into it doesn't mean I think it's wrong.
BlackerGames · 176 points · Posted at 19:28:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it as mental masochism - usually the humiliation turns them on
psiufao · 26 points · Posted at 20:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To add on to PicksAndLenses' contribution while taking into account your reply:
*What do you genuinely not understand?"
Mental masochism (or physical for that matter), or why/how humiliation can be a turn on.
I'm not kink-shaming, you* do you, I just don't get it. I can't shake the feeling that something really "bad" must have happened to a person in order for humiliation/pain to be conflated with sexual gratification.
*the royal "you" not (necessarily) you specifically, BlackerGames.
BlackerGames · 31 points · Posted at 20:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even though it's entirely possible, being into humiliation doesn't have to be a sign of past abuse or something of that kind. It can be the taboo of the - a lot of fetishes are triggered by taboo. Take the rising trend of step-family porn - there's nothing that actually makes sex with step family members stand out other than the fact that it's considered to be wrong - it's not something that you should be doing, and it's a massive turn on.
So just as you're not supposed to have sex with family members, your S/O shouldn't have sex with other people, and the feeling of actively participating in this can be a turn on.
Alternatively, as I said in my first comment, it can just be that the person is into humiliation for no real reason. Maybe it's because of a shift of power dynamics, or maybe it really is just for no reason. Maybe for some deeply ingrained anthropologic reasons, or maybe, as you said, past triggers. But it can be a myriad of different reasons, and I doubt it's past triggers most of the time.
psiufao · 3 points · Posted at 22:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get all that on a reading comprehension level and I do realize that kinks aren't always because of trauma or something like that but my (admittedly fairly vanilla) brain just doesn't understand how the connection between taboo/"you shouldn't be doing that"/humiliation and "NOW I'm turned on!" is formed or however you want to say it. Again, I am NOT trying to kink-shame it's just (as the post asks) something I genuinely don't understand. To me, even the thought of any of those things sends me to the exact opposite of the "that's hot!" spectrum but I firmly believe in the "to each their own" way of approaching life.
I appreciate the answer and that you didn't take offense! Cheers and stay healthy, friend!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Starkboy · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern day porn is cancer man.
W47907665 · 72 points · Posted at 20:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Throwaway for this but I wanted to share. A girlfriend who I completely trusted cheated on me. It was bad, but I got over it. When I got a new girlfriend I noticed I was having fantasies about seeing her with another man, sometimes joining in, sometimes not. Sometimes with my permission and sometimes without my knowledge. I’ve fantasized that about every subsequent girlfriend, but none previous. Not the one who cheated on me or anyone before.
I’ve never followed through in it, never even mentioned it to any girlfriend, because I know I don’t actually WANT that to happen for so many reasons. But it’s there. Turns me on. Drives me wild.
Getting cheated on messes with you.
Bigbrainbigboobs · 16 points · Posted at 21:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was sexually molested as a teen and have since fantasised about rape. A psychologist who is a friend of mine explained to me that it was "normal". This is fucked up how our mind chooses to react to a traumatic event!
Dioxyde · 10 points · Posted at 20:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Damn, I have almost verbatim the same experience. Cheated on at a young age by a girl I was head over heels for...now get turned on by the thought of it for any girlfriends I've had since. Would never want to actually act on it...ugh
cant_hold_me · 6 points · Posted at 21:30:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is wild to me, I’ve been cheated on more than once and the thought of it happening again drives me insane. Being cheated on definitely changes a person and even in a new healthily relationship the thought was always there for me, even though I knew in my heart she wouldn’t. Insecurities I guess on my part.
BrownApez · 43 points · Posted at 19:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose it's like watching live porn
Scholesie09 · 13 points · Posted at 19:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arousal as a term can mean sexual or just "heightened emotional state" so many things that cause a heightened emotion of any kind can also add to sexual pleasure. Rape kinks often have heightened fear, and cuckolding can either have heightened shame, or heightened jealousy depending on the person.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misattribution_of_arousal
EmeraldGuardian187 · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for the explanation. Still don't really understand it though
Markster94 · 31 points · Posted at 19:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astral projecting during sex for those who cant astral project
athrow4 · 6 points · Posted at 20:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think like a lot of kinks it takes a bunch of different forms.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nah what really confused me is cbt and penectomy fetishes. like why do wanna cut ur dick off bro?
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16bitSamurai · 4 points · Posted at 23:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Naw group sex and cuckolding has always been a thing
xSevusxBean4y · 14 points · Posted at 19:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See this is an interesting take in my opinion. Has cuckholding always been a thing? Or is it becoming more prominent now that porn is more widespread? If people are conditioned to want to watch porn more often, it kind of makes sense why a lot of people would like the idea of seeing their so “star” in a live porn.
Just some food for thought though.
therealjoshua · 7 points · Posted at 20:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least since the 70s, right? I assume it evolved from swinger culture to some degree. They are certainly the same vein of kink.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that another word for CBT?
ethosuprano · 18 points · Posted at 19:25:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know if you’re being sarcastic but CBT and cuckolding are 2 different things
REALELBARTO · 24 points · Posted at 19:25:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it's when guys get off to being cheated on
PiltoverPunchLady · 20 points · Posted at 19:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
COCK AND BALL TORTURE
quantumturnip · 15 points · Posted at 19:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BY WIKIPEDIA, THE FREE ENCYCLOPEDIA
queenofcheebah · 7 points · Posted at 20:03:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cognitive behavioral therapy.... D:
thats0K · 3 points · Posted at 20:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CBT - Cock and Ball Torture. pretty much what it sounds like.
Cuckold - a married man who "let's" his wife fuck other guys/people. sometimes in front of him.
TheBigEmptyxd · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact, it's called cuckolding because people believed cuckoos were entering other birds nests and fucking their mate. Turns out cuckoos actually commit egg infanticide by replacing an egg with their own (by pushing it out) then fucking off elsewhere. The chick cuckoo then hatches pretty quickly and is fed by the parents, who are usually small birds. The cuckoo is a pretty big bird, so the chick outgrows the birds natural babies, then fucking murders the other chicks, either by pecking them to death and flinging their corpse out or flinging their live bodies to their death. Cuckoo grows up, leaves, and the cycle continues. A whole ass fetish ascribed to a misconception. Ain't humans wacky?
SanderKlakegg · 0 points · Posted at 19:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't say that man. It is so much fun! It's like when you are playing golf, and you shoot your balls across the field (and get a hole in one). Of course, instead of using golf balls, you use your own. Haha, the pain never gets old. I still miss Jody though, but at least I can be happy knowing that my nuts are treating someones grandma during these difficult times.
thats0K · 9 points · Posted at 20:27:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/wat
prince_of_gypsies · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That shit just sounds depressing. Why the fuck would someone do that to themselves.
kicked_trashcan · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally can’t understand how it’s pleasurable to see someone else have sex with my SO
notlimpman · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wife and I got into swinging and I was a bit nervous how I would feel watching her have sex with another guy. When it has happened I enjoyed watching her receive pleasure, even if it wasn't me providing it. When we met she was a virgin and her sexuality was repressed by religion, so watching her have sex with another guy is exciting to me because she has she has opened up (pun not intended but it works) and had new experiences by embracing her sexuality. I also like the idea that she gets experiences that I don't/can't simply by trying something different. It also goes the other way, she enjoys that I get to do things with other women that she doesn't enjoy.
Imagine I'm Coke, I'm her favorite drink, but that doesn't mean she wouldn't enjoy a Sprite every once in a while.
With all that said to me this is different than cuckolding, which I feel like involves degradation and humiliation, I'm 100% not into that.
natsugrayerza · 0 points · Posted at 23:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me either! Its so gross to me, and sad. I think sex is only supposed to be something you do with your spouse anyway, but even if people are gonna have sex before marriage don’t have sex with other people during marriage!! That’s so sad. Just don’t even get married then.
iamthebetty · -2 points · Posted at 20:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everybody has a need unfulfilled? Some need to be cooked for. Some need to cook.
willgracefan · 50 points · Posted at 21:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction
Whuwisp · 12 points · Posted at 08:15:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brain makes my penis go brrrr
Basically you want something for some reason, and that something happens to be sexual
AhYesEnslavedMoistur · 6 points · Posted at 19:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, it's so weird.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 16:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically your body wants to reproduce. That’s like your only objective in Mother Nature’s eyes. If you reproduce, you win the game of life
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:03:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it's got to be more complicated than that. Because how do you explain gay people ? They obviously can't reproduce. Well they can but not following their sexual compass
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It gets complicated because we are a civilization with sets of rules and morals, but thousands of years ago, that was pretty much your only purpose, just like any other living being’s
[deleted] · 162 points · Posted at 18:29:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intentionally causing others pain.
stellar_shell · 27 points · Posted at 20:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Including animals. People that abuse/kill animals for fun.
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 09:13:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Like others have kinda said, it has to do with an inhibition of empathy. That can come from either a mental disorder, e.g. an underdeveloped brain (similar to how chimps and gorillas torture animals), or having it broken through repeated abuse, simply lashing out from or replicating the cruelty imposed on them.
The former is shown in many serial killers, who often show no brain activity in their amygdala when confronted with images or thoughts of violence.
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have mental disorders or illnesses, others may just like being in charge.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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indiemusicmakesmesad · 4 points · Posted at 22:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I must say I disagree, a lot of people shave their heads because they want to try new hairstyles/are sick of the way they look/ want to grow their hair from scratch to see how it turns out. I do understand what you mean, and it’s probably like that for some people who want to constantly be in control but for a lot of others including me it’s just for.... ‘fashionable’ reasons
heckinbamboozlefren · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's easy, its a reaction to being abused. It lets you be in control for an instant. You're doing the same thing someone did to youn in some way.
marazomeno · 3 points · Posted at 23:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correlation =/= causation.
Doesn't even scratch the surface in this case.
krystallej · 43 points · Posted at 18:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how internet works. At all. Like how does this tangible object we can make turn into an endless web on a screen where I can see anything and go anywhere?!?!? I’ve tried learning about it. I don’t get it. Hahahha
ImHopelesslyInLove · 10 points · Posted at 20:47:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't worry. I'm a Software Engineer who worked in an Internet company providing domains for websites. I don't understand it either.
Ashencloud · 9 points · Posted at 22:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not any sort of professional so if I'm wrong please someone correct me, but this is how I understand it, basically the internet is in its most simple form a web of connections between computers, this means that If I was to get 5 computers and connect them I would create my own private "internet". Now for the World Wide Web. Let's take for example Google, Google has thousands of massive football field sized warehouses of computers with a fuck ton of storage, these are called servers. And each one of these servers is connected via large underground connections to internet service providers. The internet service providers have cables to cellphone towers that use basically radio waves to connect to your phone if you are using wireless data, or have phone lines that connect to your houses modem. The modem takes this signal from the ISP and gives it to the router which routes the signal to your device. In order to connect to other countries we still use physical cables that traverse the oceans and these basically function the exact same way.
jamjam405 · 2 points · Posted at 03:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am by no means a professional (I haven’t even finished high school) but I think I kinda get the very basic gist. The way I think of it is just file sharing on a massive scale. You could say it’s like Airdrop on an Iphone or Email. Your device (computer, phone, etc.) sends a request a request (a computer’s version of an Email) to another device for information. If your using Google it’ll be to Google’s servers (massive computers like the guy before said), that process the request and find the information you’re looking for. The server then sends the response (another computer Email) back to your device. Your device then displays the information. That could be completely wrong but the internet really is just what it says, a net of information in between devices.
xXDreamlessXx · 2 points · Posted at 05:41:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically, conputers send out packets with bits of information on them. These packets have an adress on them. The router sends it to the location by other routers (i think.) This route can change midway through. And packets sent at the same time may have different routes. Some guy ITT compared it to a postal service, and this is correct. It may not always be the best way, but it works.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:24:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a series of magic tubes, obviously.
KatyLiedTheBitch · 1100 points · Posted at 13:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetish. Boggles the mind.
I_hate_traveling · 938 points · Posted at 13:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Feet have curves. I like curves.
Also, they're hidden most of the time, so there's a mystery to them. The fact that someone allows you to touch theirs feels very intimate.
Finally, they're an erogenous zone. Anything that can make my woman feel good kinda makes me like it by default.
edit:
Lol, two people have already PM'd me looking to sell foot pics. I know y'all got nothing better to do now that we're all stuck inside, but c'mon, that shit's never going to work.
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OhDavidMyNacho · 6 points · Posted at 21:34:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have a fetish, but I get it.
I had a girlfriend that would get mad worked up by foot rubs. It escalated to the point of licking her toes to get her wet. Never once did I want a foot job though.
And my next girlfriend wasn't into it, so I didn't keep up with the toe-sucking.
01dSAD · 34 points · Posted at 17:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your response, including the edit, reinforces my fascination with human sexual responses to distinct stimuli. While I am not a foot guy, I now have a much better understanding due to your comment. Thank you for sharing.
hades_the_wise · 136 points · Posted at 14:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not just that they're hidden, it's also that they're verboten - the fact that society views them as off-limits sexually, or as gross, makes it seem pleasantly rebellious and subversive to enjoy them that way.
I_hate_traveling · 66 points · Posted at 14:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I definitely agree, but weirdly enough, I knew I was attracted to feet even before I found out they're generally a no-no.
mudcrabwrestler · 7 points · Posted at 19:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, i realised it quite early.I don't think it is a rebellious thing and i also don't think the body map that places the feet near the genitals that someone always brings up is the reason either, that is more about like to have your own feet touched i guess. I simply think that a well groomed and taken care of foot is a sign of health and in some way, social standing. A woman with nice feet, takes care of herself and isn't living in the streets. That makes it a marker for succes. That makes it perfectly evolutionary explainable as to be something that attracts someone sexually. But i do agree with the hidden aspect. Not seeing them normally makes it more exciting, when you do.
mayoayox · 4 points · Posted at 19:47:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait? They're a no-no?
samx3i · 2 points · Posted at 13:01:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Less accepted generally as a sexual norm than say breasts or butts.
mayoayox · 1 points · Posted at 14:58:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
feetaresexierthanbutts
samx3i · 3 points · Posted at 16:54:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some feet are sexier than some butts.
Jekaah · 9 points · Posted at 18:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ve taught me a new word today - verboten. Thank you.
Miyelsh · 4 points · Posted at 22:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Verboten means forbidden in german
jutct · 3 points · Posted at 20:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's how a lot of us feel about buttholes
hades_the_wise · 4 points · Posted at 20:17:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somehow buttholes feel less verboten than feet. Unless we're talking about putting your mouth on one, in which case they're equally verboten in my mind, even as a dude who loves anal.
AbsoluteClownery · 13 points · Posted at 17:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn, this makes sense now. thanks for explaining, dude. this whole time people have only really given me zero answers or that thing where it's like "oh, the part of the brain for arousal sometimes crosses over to the limbs part" but that doesn't help me visualize and understand it in any way,
WR810 · 10 points · Posted at 19:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is literally an infinite number of foot pics on the Internet.
Why anyone would buy them from a stranger is a mystery to me.
JBSquared · 8 points · Posted at 20:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the same thing with just straight up titty pics. Why do people go on Tinder to try and find someone to swap nudes with? There are billions of images of very attractive girls with very attractive tatas at the tips of their fingers. It's knowing that someone took those pictures specifically for you, or at the very least sent them to you. You didn't just find those pictures. You had an interaction that lead to someone sending those pictures. That makes it feel more intimate.
WR810 · 6 points · Posted at 20:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Further proving my point and the reason I included "from a stranger".
The few times I've bought fetish material it's because the model had some special appeal to me. It wasn't a solicitation from someone I'd never heard of.
5-On-A-Toboggan · 5 points · Posted at 18:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's going on with your Star Trek movie, Quentin?
embbunen · 4 points · Posted at 20:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alot of people don't realize how sensitive the feet are! I went to foot massage once and I swear I was about to melt on that chair! I dont really see feet as anything sexual but something that people give too little credit for!
LillyPip · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish I could enjoy stuff like this, it looks so relaxing.
With me, if you come anywhere near my feet, you’re probably going to lose a tooth.
Vaguebog · 6 points · Posted at 19:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk about the hidden part, don't people walk around barefoot pretty often? And flip flops? Heck in summer, I see hundreds of feet everywhere, and they're just like any other body part
samx3i · 1 points · Posted at 13:04:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depending where you live, climate, societal norms, etc. feet are more often covered/hidden than say face, neck, arms, hands, etc.
Even in the case of barefootedness, the soles are usually obscured by virtue of being stood upon.
thawacct2590 · 6 points · Posted at 13:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/FiftyFifty
Samuru_Paine · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...
Ok I can kinda see your point there.
drlqnr · 3 points · Posted at 15:12:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what kinda feet do you like?
I_hate_traveling · 23 points · Posted at 15:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human female ones.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 16:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I prefer camel myself.
maccaphil · 2 points · Posted at 17:23:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard that you can ride camels but they can be very nasty tempered and will spit at you and bite too. ;)
KrazyTrumpeter05 · 2 points · Posted at 18:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, I just like camel toes.
slackbabbith · 2 points · Posted at 18:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best edit I've ever seen on Reddit.
endeavor947 · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting explanation, thanks for sharing.
AcousticHigh · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey bud you wanna buy some death sticks.. er I mean feet pics?
B00STERGOLD · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have fallen arches. That shit could be your forbidden fruit for 7 dollars.
PM_Me_Pikachu_Feet · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And to add onto it, it can be part of dominant and submissive stuff.
Since feet are looked down on in general, someone liking them or feeling with them has that masochism/sadism/etc. kink checked off.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:49:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A mystery? But most people have a pair of their own and they are mostly similar... i don’t understand
I_hate_traveling · 2 points · Posted at 09:48:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a butthhole myself, yet I'm fascinated by my girlfriend's and like playing with it and exploring what it can do. What's your point here?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 09:50:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You hold a fair and reasonable point, idk what my point was getting at...
jcrehm41506 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone even slightly tapping the bottom of my foot will make me kick them in the face because I’m so ticklish
pumpkinpie1993 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well...it would work for some haha. Don’t people make a fortune selling feet pics? I Don’t blame them for trying!
Zyon134 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what about the toes? I know that people are into toes.
slaggybuttonit · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
REALLY want to give you an upvote for explaining this so well, but you're sitting on 420...
LOSMSKL · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I don't have a foot fetish, probably, but I agree with this reasoning
Lelricaa · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sell your feet pics *wink wink*
lol just playin, just playin.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 15:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selling feet pics isn't such a bad way to make money
I_hate_traveling · 11 points · Posted at 15:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It obviously isn't, it's just that approaching someone to sell them is not the best way.
Even if I were to buy foot pics, I'd look around for sellers that I liked and then I'd be the one asking to buy. If you're approaching to sell, I generally tend to think you're a dude.
And on a more personal note, I really really dislike sex work, so approaching me to sell foot pics is never ever going to work.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 15:26:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do selling feet pics actually count as sex work though, I get it is a fetish. But sex work eh. Like I love veiny strong arms/hands but would that be considered sex work. Well I suppose I don't get off from it and some people do with feet pics.
Actually now I'm really confused, why do people love feet so much lol
JBSquared · 3 points · Posted at 20:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can max out my bicep curl at 90. Wanna buy some pics? I'll accept Runescape gold.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmfao I'm alright
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 22:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol Someone message me pics. No feet or dicks though 🤣
Beastabuelos · -1 points · Posted at 05:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But feet are fucking disgusting
hejmeddej · -15 points · Posted at 18:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Food fetish is cringy af lol.
[deleted] · -12 points · Posted at 16:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry, but if a woman is wearing a bikini, I will politely stare at her covered crouch opposed to her bare feet... pssh.
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 98 points · Posted at 14:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not have a foot fetish. But the body map that lies in the brain has the feet placed very near to the genitals in some people this can cause sexual pleasure to be generated by stimulating the foot.
I_hate_traveling · 60 points · Posted at 14:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there's been a medical case of a woman who could orgasm via foot stimulation.
She had a nerve disease or accident, I can't remember, and something went fucky, and since those areas are so close together, her brain got them properly jumbled up and they were one and the same after a while.
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 8 points · Posted at 15:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep quite a few cases of people who had their feet amputated having more intense orgasms afterwards as the orgasm now spreads to their feet.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what you're saying is if I want to spice things up in the bedroom I just need to cut off both my feet?
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha something like that
AntiquePurchase · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how can it spread to their feet when they have no feet?
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 6 points · Posted at 21:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The area in the brain that represents sensory information from the feet still exists. the area representing the Genitals sort of takes over that area in the brain. Sorry if I didn’t explain that very well it’s been a while since I learned about it if you’re interested V.S RAMACHANDRAN explains phantom limb experiences really well if you want to give him a google :)
NiteAngyl · 5 points · Posted at 19:10:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also known as the "moist walk." /s
vengefulgrapes · 4 points · Posted at 19:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
imagine walking over irregular ground and it stimulates your foot enough to make you cum. Like imagine you're hiking or something and then suddenly
thats0K · 5 points · Posted at 20:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"hey bro wanna go hiking?"
"dude you know I just banged my girl right? I don't feel like hiking AT ALL right now ... how bout in 30 minutes?!"
ohspgq · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Something went fucky” my new go to phrase. Thank you for sharing.
bangcamaroxx · 86 points · Posted at 14:49:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also do not have a foot fetish but if you touch my bare feet I will kangaroo kick you into the next dimension. I hate having my feet touched because it hurts. My muscles contract and I have horrible leg spasms if you try to run your finger across the bottom of my foot.
mudcrabwrestler · 3 points · Posted at 19:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But surely, their own foot? I have a foot fetish, and i have heard this explanation before. It just never seemed to explain it very well though. My take on it is, as i said in another comment:
I think that a well groomed and taken care of foot is a sign of health and in some way, social standing. A woman with nice feet, takes care of herself and isn't living in the streets. That makes it a marker for succes. That makes it perfectly evolutionary explainable as to be something that attracts someone sexually.
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 5 points · Posted at 20:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You very may well be right i’m certainly not an expert on foot fetishes just sharing an interesting titbit really
StaulPammets · 2 points · Posted at 03:24:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well said, my wife has really pretty feet, takes care of them, they are soft and never stinky. I would think less of a women with nasty smelly jacked up feet.
projectMKultra · 4 points · Posted at 16:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That theory makes sense and it also explains why some people would be attracted to feet while other people are totally out of the loop on the foot thing, their brains just got hooked up a little differently. In this model the genitalia to foot connection wouldn’t be a defect (it doesn’t seem to cause problems for people or associated with ill health) just a difference found in a minority of human brains.
[deleted] · 48 points · Posted at 15:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The closest I've come to getting it was playing with my wife's feet. They're just so small and pretty, compared to my hefty man feet. Maybe those guys are picking up on the femininity of small feet, I dunno.
Harambeeb · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I vaguely remember something about estrogen and feet size so you might be onto something, it might be some sort of sign of fertility.
ScubaSteve1219 · 16 points · Posted at 16:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s not hard to understand why you don’t understand a fetish you don’t have
yourmothersbutt69 · 12 points · Posted at 18:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fun fact! This has to do with the somatosensory cortex in your brain! Basically regions of the brain that process sensory information. The region of the brain that processes your feet senses is closest in proximity to the area processing your genitals. In some cases, these senses can excited nearby sensory neurons and transfer a little. I'm doing a terrible job explaining this. Grad school was a long ass time ago. Google the somatosensory cortex homunculus and looks at pictures.
xbhsbdhsbsjsbsjdn · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The homunculus is fascinating! I’m studying neuroscience all that stuff has got be part of the favourite things I’ve learned
itsamemeudipLmao · 5 points · Posted at 15:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fucking adventurous aren't we
knockout350 · 3 points · Posted at 18:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand that fetish or the devotee fetish, it's fetishizing people with physical handicaps. Im a paraplegic male and I've had random people message me on here wanting nudes. I don't think my nudes would have been anything to look at before I was paralyzed and now the fucker doesn't even work so why?
AJRW- · 4 points · Posted at 17:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just turn me on , & I find it really sexy when women shpw their feet
foul_dwimmerlaik · 2 points · Posted at 18:22:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dated a guy who was an amputee (both legs) and he had a mild foot fetish. But for obvious reasons I didn't begrudge him.
quirkytorch · 2 points · Posted at 18:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This whole thread makes me feel weird about wearing peep toe shoes now.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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quirkytorch · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't care how many pussies you've saved, stay away from my feet
ohioredbeard · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dave Chappelle has entered the chat
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re the best man. Trust me.
arb1987 · 7 points · Posted at 14:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I not a foot guy but I can tell the difference between good feet and bad feet. I get it but as long as there are boobs why are people looking at feet
dan2737 · 19 points · Posted at 15:50:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boobs are pretty but so are the shoulders, back, stomach, hands, feet... It all goes together (in an ideal situation).
arb1987 · -23 points · Posted at 16:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
woah pump the brakes guy. Boobs are literately the best
Blngsessi · 4 points · Posted at 16:17:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the difference? The only one I've heard of so far is that people don't like flat feet because obviously, people like curves, and that arch is a pretty good curve I must say.
What else? What are some attributes of a good foot? I need to know how much mine are worth.
mcsquiddle · 2 points · Posted at 16:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Preferences vary a lot. There are some that like flat feet I'm sure. Another thing people have opinions on about feet are toe length. Most can agree that bunions and corns and shit like that are a no no.
Blngsessi · 3 points · Posted at 16:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean like, long and thin toes? I mean I also heard like, only 14% of the population has their second toe longer than big toe, I'm guessing that's also a thing that people fancy?
mcsquiddle · 2 points · Posted at 16:28:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some like em short and stubby and some like them looking like fingers lol.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 16:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But some guys have tits. That’s why it’s all about legs.
Radek_18 · 12 points · Posted at 19:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, yes, legs. Those things that guys don’t have.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 14:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prolly cause your feet stank.
oldchew · 4 points · Posted at 19:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno man there's just something so feminine and beautiful about well pedicured or nice feet. Also the smell of nice feet is pleasing to my senses at least
AnonSaysShitLike · 2 points · Posted at 15:58:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feet are the foundation of every human being. They are the structural support that the entire bodily system relies on for coordination and balance.
That kind of importance and dependance is not unusual to be idolized
mudcrabwrestler · 4 points · Posted at 19:42:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? of all the fetishes and kinks, of all the behaviours out there. You think being attracted to a normal part of the body is mind boggling?
Squidthepug · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe it’s because the parts of the brain that control feet and attraction are really close together and they like mix or something I’m not too sure about that part
Fire2box · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don't think I ever seen a person even online that has a sexual fetish for eyeglasses. But I really want to believe that there's a set of people who are antagonized by daily life.
They are also the only people who will care about what material glasses are made out of. No one's ever asked.
Hahonryuu · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any feitsh I don't have, I don't get. Shit, I don't even get some of the ones I DO have.
darthmarth · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could be caused by some crossed wires in the brain:
https://www.yourtango.com/2013198667/our-fascination-feet-foot-fetishes-explained
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the major factors is that anatomically, the part of your brain that processes sexual attraction and the part of your brain that processes extremities are very close to each other. Inevitably, certain people end up with some crossover between the neurological pathways, and voila, foot fetishes are born.
Taylor7500 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So here's an explanation I've heard which may or may not be true.
In your brain, the parts which pertain to the rest of your body are usually in a logical order. The part which worries about your hands is next to the part which processes your arms is next to the part which processes your shoulders and so on. However, the part which controls your feet is right next to the part which focuses on your genitals and sometimes the wires get crossed.
16bitSamurai · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of what gets you aroused Boobs? Butts? Abs? For some people it’s feet. I can’t really explain it, but the thought of others not being into feet is weird to me lol
Castle-Fist · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read this a while back, so take it with a grain of salt.
In your brain there's sort of a 'map' of the human body, and associations with each part. On this map, feet and genitalia are fairly close to one another, and the 'sexual attraction' association blends over due to this proximity.
Explained like this, I get why it exists.
Vore however...
Dovahkiin419 · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think at a fundamental level it is impossible to explain an interest in a thing. You can get close, circling around that drain, but never actually nailing what it is that does something for a person.
This is doubly so for fetishes. Like all of them. What makes my dick go off is fucking inexplicable, even to myself. I can hazard guesses, but at the end of the day it works so I go with it.
I don’t have a foot fetish incidentally
PM_ME_CAT_POOCHES · 1 points · Posted at 06:19:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard on a podcast that fetishes often come about because that thing became associated with sex early in a person's life. The example they gave for feet was: a little boy spies on his sister's friend undressing during a sleepover under her bedroom door, but he can only see the friend's feet through the crack as she takes her clothes off. He gets aroused and now that arousal is connected to the sight of feet.
AjaxOilid · 1 points · Posted at 14:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its simple as hell, you see feet and imagine curves of the rest of the body, same as you look at smn and imagine them naked.
Throwawayuser626 · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any fetish really. Why do some things turn people on but not others? And fetishes that don’t have to do with sexual body parts. It’s so weird how our brains work.
Luwe95 · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriend has no foot fetish but he likes to massage and kiss my feet and I really enjoy that. He says he likes my soft skin and that they are so small and petite.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once worked in a sex shop /adult store. A lesbian shopper once heard me talking about that and explained it like this. She said nothing sexier than a woman who takes care of her feet because she takes care of herself(&other parts) and that's sexy. It made sense because it's good hygiene. And that's sexy.
Slomojoe · 0 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a result of wires in the brain crossing making you think that feet are sexual. Apparently the sectors related to feet and genitalia are right next to eachother in the brain.
WaldenFont · 1092 points · Posted at 14:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The obsession with humongous, misshapen butts.
[deleted] · 507 points · Posted at 18:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there really an obsession with them? I just assumed that rarely a famous woman will think “hey men like big butts” and then decide to have a beanbag chair surgically implanted in the hopes of getting more attention.
ragdoll-cat · 10 points · Posted at 22:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instagram is full of photoshopped butts, to the point where it’s hilarious. These ppl gonna he embarrassed when this “fad” dies out.
b-tchlasagna · 38 points · Posted at 19:27:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This made me lol. Thank you.
SNScaidus · 23 points · Posted at 21:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This man just used lol in its original form. Incredible
b-tchlasagna · 7 points · Posted at 22:31:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman*. Thank you :)
4rch1t3ct · 10 points · Posted at 23:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are no women on the internet /s
b-tchlasagna · 10 points · Posted at 00:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Darn it, I knew I was a man
Kyidou · 14 points · Posted at 20:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah no that's literally what happens
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or do they find beanbag chairs so comfortable they decide to carry one around with them?
youre_a_burrito_bud · 9 points · Posted at 21:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Oh no! There's no more seats available! Haha I knew this procedure was worth it."
BathedInDeepFog · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking Gabe...
youre_a_burrito_bud · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What
Dragonman558 · 39 points · Posted at 19:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To the point you're talking about is just strange, but a big butt is generally part of having wider hips, and having better, easier pregnancy/birthing
NeedsSumPhotos · 51 points · Posted at 18:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every day we stray farther from god.
forest_thumbdrive · 6 points · Posted at 18:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"need some photos?"
Pawpaw54 · 33 points · Posted at 19:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they're fucking gross.
The_Stickup · 14 points · Posted at 19:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I get liking a normal butt, and I'm down for that, but a huge one? I've never understood that either. Like, just because it's bigger doesn't mean it's better, honestly it's probably the opposite
ScumbagLady · 16 points · Posted at 21:19:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ASSuming here, butt, Doesn't a gigantic ass make certain sex positions impossible unless you're hung like a stallion?
Small dick dudes obsessed with huge asses are in for a world of disappointment if they ever get the chance to do sexytime things with one, right? I need answers.
BlackViperMWG · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly! In similar way, how do those pairs of one obese and one skinny person even mate?
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 13:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesnt make them impossible but you might lose an inch or so. Asses are usually squishy too so you can make it work if that makes sense. It's the same with very overweight women. There's a lot of padding there.
RetinalFlashes · 4 points · Posted at 20:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too big means higher risk for heart disease. So yeah, you're right it's the opposite
The_Stickup · 6 points · Posted at 22:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao, are you being serious
Xarth42 · 19 points · Posted at 19:26:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small to large nicely shaped butts are where it's at. Humongous and misshapen just disturbs me.
FatPam007 · 6 points · Posted at 20:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't know what the word humongous meant. And I assumed it meant something like a caveman would say. Humongous, humongous!! It just sounds like caveman words.
WaldenFont · 9 points · Posted at 20:17:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How about "gargantuan"?
WriteBrainedJR · 9 points · Posted at 19:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The obsession with butts, at all.
luksonluke · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people even like too much thickness?
Zalkiaent · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have an explanation as to why, but I do.
ApexTitanz · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk about tooo huge asses, but nice ones i do know. Men likes boobs, ass and a good hip to waist ratio because back in the day curves suggested fertility. When we were cavemen if a woman was curvy they can raise the child (breast milk) and can survive (tend to have more fat).
Carl159 · 0 points · Posted at 18:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think anyone likes super big butts.
[deleted] · 85 points · Posted at 19:01:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Thendrail · 8 points · Posted at 20:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch his music video to see a healthy butt.
Also, because it's a good song.
hooplah · 39 points · Posted at 19:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you are really, really wrong. it’s insane how many people not only love comically enormous asses, but think they’re real.
WaldenFont · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have personally seen some outrageous examples myself, and they were clearly not original to the bodies they were on.
hooplah · 8 points · Posted at 19:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah the trick is to look at the legs. if the quads and hammies don’t match the butt, 99% likely that behind is a lie.
deutschlandman18 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sir Mixalot
vida79 · 1 points · Posted at 11:19:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and lips
heckinbamboozlefren · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More humongous butts for me
TheFlopMoonDrop · -25 points · Posted at 18:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The obsession with butts in general. I don’t understand some people find them attractive.
ADHDpotatoes · 42 points · Posted at 19:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not a scientist butt, I think I remember reading that the leading theory on men finding butts attractive is that it’s an indicator of healthy fat reserves, which in turn indicate the health of the woman and makes her more attractive from an evolutionary point of view
evildadatron · 15 points · Posted at 19:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dem dere’s sum birthing hips
WaldenFont · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*child-bearing hips
Jagacin · 7 points · Posted at 19:36:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plus she got some cakes to munch on
thats0K · 4 points · Posted at 20:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/BreedingMaterial
NSFW
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 13:08:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh hey my favorite subreddit
FatPam007 · -8 points · Posted at 20:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't make sense because guys don't like cellulitis and fat means cellulitis, guys usually like muscled butts, not only fat butts.
WooWooInsaneCatPosse · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you mean cellulite.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:27:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I'm not an English speaker haha
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That look like cottage cheese when they're standing...ugh. So unappealing.
iamthebetty · 0 points · Posted at 20:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cuz some guys have really long dicks? And the butt stops them from dislocating a partners ribs? Lol. Sarcasm
JeremyOneNine · 235 points · Posted at 18:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you have to go through years of bullshit that has nothing to do with your degree in order to graduate college.
[deleted] · 51 points · Posted at 23:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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RimeSkeem · 4 points · Posted at 10:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interdisciplinary education is excellent for learning, and probably great for innovation too. It’s been hard for people to get out of the factory specialization mindset even though we’re in the digital age now, but education research makes its slow way forward with interdisciplinary stuff.
AcousticHigh · 35 points · Posted at 20:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
in best Mr Krabs voice
”Money”
Henrek · 24 points · Posted at 21:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not exactly the answer but I saw an explanation of why there is those weird math question that you always ask yourself if you'll ever use it in real life or when teachers teach a different formula. It all comes down to just basic problem solving, doesnt matter the question, its a problem and you learning how to overcome it help builds on your abilities to problem solve when faced with any problem. Sorry if i didnt explain it well its been awhile since ive seen the explanation
I_Am_Roto · 12 points · Posted at 22:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the correct answer. School is just as much about teaching you how to react to unfamiliar/uncomfortable situations as it is about teaching you whatever specific thing you're specializing in. Without the non-degree things, you could be technically proficient, but otherwise useless outside of very specific situations if you don't know how to approach something unfamiliar. It's about teaching you how to think, rather than teaching you the content itself.
Whether the ratio is appropriate or not is a very fair question, but there's absolutely validity in non-degree classes and learning things you'll never use again.
HaveAGreatDecade · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is true, yet every math teacher in my life dismissed the “We’ll never use this” thing. I never realized that’s why these problems are taught until one math teacher finally said that we were never actually going to use the formulas, it was just to learn problem solving.
It took until 8th grade for a teacher to finally fucking explain that.
fromthewombofrevel · 10 points · Posted at 21:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same reason you had to do verbal and written reports about things you had no interest in all through school- You were learning to research, cogitate, collate, and reach an evidentiary conclusion that you can explain to your peers in a comprehensible manner. Those are essential life skills.
Sam-Starxin · 6 points · Posted at 23:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one's actually kind of straight forward if you think about it.
Highschool education is supposed to prepare you for one of two things, more studying in college, or getting job somewhere. In either case, the classes are supposed to be diverse enough to enable you to continue in whatever path you choose to go with. You could end up a biologist, or a chemist, or a historian..etc, thus it's important that you have the basics for them.
College works the same way, you'll either get your Bachelors and move on to some job, or continue your education with a Masters, the master degrees, while a bit more focused on a specific field, are still quite diverse and therefore requires you to have the necessary knowledge for them. You could study computer science in Bachelors, and continue on to be an Interaction Designer at some company, or study a Masters in Computer Systems and Networks, hence it's important that you have the knowledge for either field through your Bachelor's courses.
At the end of the day, Highschool and College are meant to prep you for whatever you'll end up doing eventually.
ImHopelesslyInLove · 7 points · Posted at 20:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read The case against education
Enervation-Sage · 2 points · Posted at 10:08:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the UK we don't have majors and minors, you just do one thing in depth for three or four years.
neocommenter · 4 points · Posted at 21:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To keep degrees out of the hands of idiots.
TFRek · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and then they just hand out degrees to brain-dead famous people.
vivvav · 2 points · Posted at 01:11:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This right here. I was studying screenwriting and needed to meet requirements in math, humanities, etc. I wound up taking a bullshit meteorology course no more advanced than middle school science just to meet my science credit for the general education part of my degree. When I asked why I needed to do all this shit, they said to "have a well-rounded education".
Well what the FUCK was the point of that first twelve years of school?
Dios_Pepinillo · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love how literally no one has knows shiet about why this happens so your comment has 0 answers
northeastpicker · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So that when someone trots out Kierkegaard, you can say ahh instead of having an existential crisis.
BobMcBob88 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And why so many people seem happy to put up with it
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 22:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t. Drop out and focus on just what you want to learn and you will be a master before anyone else
fierynostril · 209 points · Posted at 18:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck humans started to milk animals
silverrain64 · 117 points · Posted at 19:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is that some ancient livestock herder with a hungry child saw a sheep/cow/whatever nursing its own baby and had an idea.
I-seddit · 7 points · Posted at 21:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The original babysitter.
luksonluke · 53 points · Posted at 20:02:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my guess is some hungry dumbass saw an animal baby feeding on moms breast and they decided to know how it tastes like so they:
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s so wrong
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:58:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, maybe in this day and age.
But try telling the person with 3 starving kids that
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 08:07:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can’t grow an endless amount of potato? Probably would actually be cheaper to grow veggies
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:31:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheeper? We're talking way back in time. They probably didn't have potatoes then. Without modern agricultural sciences it was much harder to grow
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 09:31:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheep cheep
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baby's can't drink potatoes
Blince · 21 points · Posted at 20:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
haha cow udder go brrr
RentacleGrape · 5 points · Posted at 21:02:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People saw calves drinking milk, just like human babies do, and wondered if we could have some too. The real question is why we started drinking milk from other animals when we didn't develop lactose tolerance as adults until way way long after we started drinking milk. Have a slight memory that cheese contains less lactose than milk, which would explain it, but doesn't explain how we figured out how to make cheese in the first place.
I_Am_Roto · 4 points · Posted at 22:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting question, here's my theory:
Humans likely started drinking animal milk out of desperation. People who are lactose intolerant can still get some nutrients out of it, but don't benefit as much as those who are tolerant to it. If you're starving and on the brink of death, you're probably still going to eat/drink something that you know will make you sick, if it means a chance of surviving.
The gene mutation that allows us to drink milk gave a huge evolutionary advantage to people who could use it, and thrived in communities that domesticated livestock. It's the reason behind lactose intolerance being very prevalent in modern communities that don't have a history of domesticated livestock - there was no evolutionary advantage to being able to drink milk.
tl;dr version, everyone drank milk to survive, but those that could fully process it thrived evolutionarily and passed their gene mutations on to people who were more apt to thrive due to increased nutrient uptake over those who couldn't process it.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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I_Am_Roto · 5 points · Posted at 23:11:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rackbone · 3 points · Posted at 14:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for the serious explanation but it's unintentionally hilarious
bless_ure_harte · 4 points · Posted at 08:48:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
On a similiar note, who was the first person to fry an egg or cook meat and why would they even feel a need to?
ComradeStylin · 3 points · Posted at 21:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This same thinking, but with cheese. How do you go from fresh milk from another species to... cheese.
If I recall correctly, one hypothesis out there was that when older humans killed bovine or such, they found curdled cheese inside the stomachs of the dead animals. They did a bit of thinking and bam. Cheese. Yuck.
sarahmagoo · 2 points · Posted at 07:07:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought it was because people used cow stomachs as bags to carry milk, and the enzymes in the stomach caused it to turn into cheese. And I guess when you need to eat whatever food you can get you're not gonna just throw it out.
ComradeStylin · 1 points · Posted at 09:11:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perhaps that is also true! Weird world we live in.
Iskjempe · 3 points · Posted at 08:51:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A better question is why the fuck we are still doing it.
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it’s messed up. No one is going to suck on the tits of a smelly cow are they
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably because they already taste it
tallmin22 · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does everyone assume the animals were still alive when humans started drinking their milk?
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
... wait until you find out humans masturbate male animals in order to collect prized sperm... dog breeders and cow breeders do this, for example
Imho, it's animal cruelty worse than imprisonment because if aliens started forcefully masturbating people for sperm collection, it would be some traumatizing sexual assault.
HaveYouSeenMyBody · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never, ever, EVER thought about that. I am actually confused now
I_hate_traveling · 1329 points · Posted at 13:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people cheat after years or even decades in a marriage. Especially when there are kids involved.
I genuinely can't put myself in these people's shoes. Is breaking up your family worth it for some strange cock/pussy? Or even if you are "in love", is that really a fair trade in those people's minds?
kryten4000series · 388 points · Posted at 14:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cheating is usually nothing to do with sex, usually the cheating is a catalyst (it's amazing how sloppy people having affairs are...like they want to get caught), because there's nothing really left in the relationship anymore and something drastic is needed to end it..
I_hate_traveling · 21 points · Posted at 14:17:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I can't understand breaking up after all that time either, to a degree. I mean, there's still love there, even if there's no more romance involved, right?
And even if there's nothing left in the relationship between them and their spouse, there are still tons of things left in the relationship between their kids and their mother/father with whom they're are breaking up. I suppose it's never going to be the same again.
JustLetMeGetAName · 94 points · Posted at 14:52:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People can change over time. Sometimes there isnt love there anymore. People do horrible things to each other all the time.
As far as sticking it out for the kids, they know when their parents aren't happy. Growing up listening to your parents fight and be horrible to each other can be much worse than them getting divorced. Two happy homes are better than one miserable one.
wolvie604 · 15 points · Posted at 21:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. I was a toddler when my parents divorced so all I ever knew was them in separate homes. Every two weeks we would pack and go across town to the other home, it was an adventure for me. My older sisters were old enough to understand what was going on and 30 years later still have trauma around marriage and relationships.
[deleted] · 29 points · Posted at 19:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom’s cousin and his wife divorced when their kids were in college. I think they were “sticking it out” until the kids were out of the house. It definitely wasn’t a snap decision. But kids know when their parents aren’t happy, as another poster mentioned.
TheTingGoesSkraa182 · 13 points · Posted at 20:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My best friends parents decided to divorce, they said that they had been aware of it for a long time but they wanted the kids to be older and more mature so it was easier to understand. He always said he was really grateful for that, he doesn’t know how many years it was like that, but he is happy that it happened when he was 17 and his brother was 16. He said had the divorce happened before the teens (12 and down) he would have been a lot more significantly impacted than he was.
Paavo_Nurmi · 11 points · Posted at 21:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm guessing your fairly young ?
Like the other poster said, people change over time, you are not the same person at age 45 that you were are age 22. Cheating is usually more about emotional emptiness than sex, but not to say sex doesn't play a role in some cases. Imagine being married for 15 years and you have sex 3 or 4 time a year at most, that is probably more common than people think, and could easily lead to cheating.
Staying in a failed relationship is a really bad idea, trust me it's torture and will drain the life and happiness from you. It would be like having a job that you hate and makes you miserable, but there is no vacation or weekends to escape it, it's non stop.
kenzeas · 8 points · Posted at 22:49:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i feel like sometimes cheating is really just the result of this hesitancy to break up a long-term relationship. they're thinking about their kids' lives, their own lives, and all that would have to be untangled and figured out when they tell the person they've been with possibly longer than they were single that they don't want to be with them anymore. i bet a lot of cheaters probably just feel trapped.
still not ok to cheat tho!!
TheGlassCat · 4 points · Posted at 20:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was my wife's excuse.
savage-burr1ro · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then why do people cheat then beg to be taken back?
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 09:51:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they probably still need the physical things the marriage provides?
heckinbamboozlefren · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ding ding ding
Kingmir1 · 532 points · Posted at 14:41:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t understand how people cheat at all. If your needs are being neglected. Communicate that shit. If you don’t love this person anymore. Break up.
Like seriously. There’s no out to cheating.
[deleted] · 224 points · Posted at 17:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Repro_Online · 37 points · Posted at 18:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woah woah woah, slow your roll buckaroo! You can’t just hook me like that and then stop talking when it gets to the tense part!
Squirrel1693 · 11 points · Posted at 19:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We need to know how this ends!
redditalisong66 · 15 points · Posted at 19:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it hasn’t ended because I’m still alive, lol.
Squirrel1693 · 10 points · Posted at 19:20:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your comment is entirely in past tense. Did you get out? Hope so
redditalisong66 · 17 points · Posted at 19:37:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I did. It was 25 years ago. Thank you for your understanding because it still hurts.
Squirrel1693 · 12 points · Posted at 19:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot fathom the pain you feel. You're stronger than I am, I would have ended myself way before the 5 year mark I'm sure. I'm glad you got out.
Just got to keep on keepin' on. Have a wonderful day redditalisong66.
redditalisong66 · 8 points · Posted at 20:15:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much. Thank goodness there are people like you in the world, or this life wouldn’t be worth living. You have a great day too Squirrel . :) :) :)
Repro_Online · 6 points · Posted at 20:13:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, glad you got out of there and are in a better place now
Karmic_Backlash · 15 points · Posted at 18:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In this case it makes sense, but when people who are in otherwise stable and loving relationships do is the confusing bit.
fwubglubbel · -16 points · Posted at 19:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only reason a person will cheat is if their needs are not being met by the relationship, and it is not possible, for financial or safety or child reasons, to leave the relationship.
Stable and loving doesn't mean that a person is getting the intimacy or companionship or even respect that they need.
[deleted] · 39 points · Posted at 19:39:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is false. Cheaters are responsible for their actions. Just like anyone else. Plenty of people cheat everyday who are completely safe, financially stable on their own, and childless
redditalisong66 · 8 points · Posted at 20:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s true, I agree. But that’s not what happened in my case. Not all cases are the same. There’s a difference between a serial cheater who doesn’t give a damn for the feelings of others, and just goes around hurting people willy-nilly, and someone who endured 14 years of loveless,sexless marriage with an abusive man and then eventually falls in love with another person. Some people have no conscience. Some feel terribly guilty even though they probably shouldn’t. You can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has there ever been a cheater who didn’t blame the victim?
Mselaneous · 8 points · Posted at 00:17:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has there ever been a reddit user who tried to understand nuance of human relations ship before blindly assigning blame so they could feel superior?
amcdon · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope, it's what they do. It's never their fault. The list of excuses are endless.
fwubglubbel · 0 points · Posted at 22:04:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh pardon me. Since you're obviously the expert. You know why everything happens to everybody. I will bow to your wisdom.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You said you know why people cheat not me
alacrity · 5 points · Posted at 19:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not even remotely true.
nopethatswrong · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much any statement that has "only" in it is false, and this is no exception. People cheat for personal reasons, low self esteem, sometimes its a compulsion, sometimes it's just impulsivity and the thrill of it
Karmic_Backlash · 5 points · Posted at 19:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My personal definition of "stable and loving" would include such things as intimacy, companionship, and respect. But I can see how it doesn't imply that.
You can't really call a relationship stable if not everything is being done to fill both partner's needs. That's on me though I guess.
pauLo- · 3 points · Posted at 08:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So ignoring the patronising introduction calling people naive....
In this case you chose to cheat rather than leave. Which is exactly what OP said. You could have left instead of cheating. If you were scared to leave, why were you not scared to cheat. That seems hard to reconcile. Ultimately you made a choice that many people would disagree with. If your point is that you were young and scared then doesn't that just further validate his OPs point? The decision wasn't made because of the rationality of it. I'm not judging your choices or anything but this post is incredibly condescending and self justifying.
TrueEvil_ · 12 points · Posted at 18:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you not leave your marriage?
redditalisong66 · 7 points · Posted at 19:16:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did eventually.
Kingmir1 · 10 points · Posted at 18:49:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t wanna sound like that asshole or anything like that but you definitely had a choice. You were probably just scared to make that choice because of the possible repercussions.
kurokoshika · 108 points · Posted at 19:07:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that's pedantic - "My job is toxic, hard on me physically, I make so little money, but I have no choice but to stay." "Well nobody is stopping you from quitting and finding another one."
Well sure, everything is a choice, nobody has a gun to one's head preventing them from quitting, but when potential repercussions in this hypothetical are that you lose your lodgings because you were living paycheck-to-paycheck and you can't get assistance for your family that you needed your meager earnings to take care of, I think it's quite fair to note that when they say they have no choice, they don't mean it in the literal sense of the word "choice".
redditalisong66 · 22 points · Posted at 19:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly.
Hahonryuu · 11 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For real. It's risk vs reward. And in this case its high risk low reward...or more precisely, unknown reward, which is arguably worse than low reward because at least with low reward you know what you are getting in to.
1cumy2cumy3cumy4 · 5 points · Posted at 20:51:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because you don't have an immediate choice doesn't mean you don't have a long-term choice. If a job is toxic, you are making the choice to not look for a new job.
Kingmir1 · -4 points · Posted at 19:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A shitty job where you need it to survive is much different than staying with another person because they support you financially but don’t treat you right.
If your job is terrible. You have the option to look for another job or get a 2nd job without any moral integrity being shot.
Life isn’t as simple as getting up and quitting you’re right, but life isn’t so complex where you’re just trapped and have no other option unless you’re just scared of the one way to freedom. Cheating is never alright but it also ain’t alright to tolerate a terrible relationship because you “have no choice.” There’s always a choice whether you like the choice or you don’t. If a dude threatens to kill you. Call the fucking cops. If he pays all the bills and the house is in his name. Look to your friends to see if you can stay with them while getting back on your feet. There’s a simple answer to a lot of stuff. People just don’t like the answer so they’d rather deal with the shit they got now because they don’t want to take a step down. It sounds like an asshole statement but it is how it is.
Resorting to cheating will do absolutely nothing but make things worse than breaking it off.
[deleted] · 34 points · Posted at 19:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Kingmir1 · -15 points · Posted at 19:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for calling me out. I was going to elaborate more, but accidentally deleted my paragraph so just settled with the one sentence.
What I’ll say is this. I understand if you depend on the guy financially or how you grew up and were taught, whatever it was. But I still believe you had the choice to leave. Maybe life wouldn’t be as good, but the choice is still there.
I’ve had a similar situation happen when I was 10. Maybe it’s different, but whatever. My mom she was struggling and was pretty much homeless. She gave me the option to stay with her or live with my dad. I chose to stay with her because I didn’t like my dad for personal reasons. I would do the same if I was in a shitty relationship. I’ve experienced homelessness before and it fucking sucks. It does, but I’d honestly rather deal with that than to be in a shitty relationship where my partner doesn’t even respect me.
But then again. I’m not like most people...
redditalisong66 · 6 points · Posted at 20:04:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did leave, as soon as I could.
Kingmir1 · -3 points · Posted at 20:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great!
nopethatswrong · 13 points · Posted at 20:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm not like most people..." who even says that
RetinalFlashes · 11 points · Posted at 20:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big egos
Kingmir1 · -5 points · Posted at 20:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do? What are you trying to get at?
nopethatswrong · 5 points · Posted at 20:49:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its the edgy teen version of "live laugh love"
its the mating call of the narcissistic
its the toxicity of individualism made manifest
its horribly unaware of outside perspective, that perspective being that no one is like most people. everyone has stories, everyone has hardship, everyone. you are no more or less unique than anyone else. see /r/notliketheothergirls
your judgment of someone else's choices isn't nulled because you're not like most people. its nulled because even with context you refuse to give in that you might be wrong or that its okay that they wouldn't make your choices since they aren't you. and that makes you very much like most people.
Kingmir1 · -6 points · Posted at 21:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welp then I guess I’m narcissistic. Boo hoo.
nopethatswrong · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well here's hoping you grow out of it
fwubglubbel · 25 points · Posted at 19:33:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're sounding exactly like that asshole. You've obviously never been in a situation where your life would be threatened if you try to leave, or you would lose all your family and or friends and or job. Shut the fuck up about things you know nothing about.
Kingmir1 · -18 points · Posted at 19:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao and you know what I’ve been through?
nopethatswrong · 6 points · Posted at 20:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean...they know your views, which are products of experiences.
fauxfoxem · 16 points · Posted at 19:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I've known plenty of good people who "cheat" because it's the only out they can see as being safe. Like, by being able to leave and have someone to protect you, house you, and love you, you have the ability to safely leave, as opposed to breaking up and hoping you can get to someone's house before your partner beats you. Plus, abuse psychologically changes you.
Shirley_Taint · -7 points · Posted at 19:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not what good people do. Why do you deserve to be housed by someone you betrayed?
twlscil · 8 points · Posted at 19:01:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, you are an asshole. Without knowing the particulars you are offering judgement.
Workforsafenotwell · 3 points · Posted at 21:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How was Kingmir1 being judgmental? Based off of redditalisong66’s comment it sounds like she was afraid of leaving so it seems reasonable to assume she was scared of the outcome from choosing to leave. Ultimately Kingmir1 is right, whether she chose to stay or leave was 100% up to her, there may be consequences for both choices but it doesn’t mean she didn’t have a choice. Claiming circumstances prevented you from having a choice is only an excuse used to justify your actions or choices. There is no judgment here, it’s all simply the truth?
twlscil · 11 points · Posted at 21:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The notion of choice in this situations isn’t that easy. Do you choose happiness over shelter? Over life? When someone has a literal or figurative gun to your head, choices aren’t as simple as they seem.
Workforsafenotwell · -6 points · Posted at 21:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The choice is only as hard as you make it. This is a perfect example of the saying, “Better the devil you know than the devil you don’t” and the choice is “hard” in your scenario because you’re “sacrificing” shelter for happiness but why wouldn’t you pick happiness? Because you’re afraid of what might happen without shelter? A literal gun to your head is a situation outside of your control, it may seem to make the choice harder but it’s probably because it’s a good excuse to justify actions? “I would have died if I left” Would you have really? How could you know that without leaving?
twlscil · 8 points · Posted at 23:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No... You literally don’t even see options when you are the victim of abuse. And it’s an abusers mindset to think that, “if they don’t like it, they can leave”.
You aren’t choosing happiness (i was being sloppy earlier when I suggested that, as I should have said that how it appears)... You are choosing to leave, and maybe be less miserable... and maybe be more miserable...
Please, get out and talk to victims of abuse before you suggest that these decisions are easy, because they aren’t. Even if it’s not physical abuse, but emotional, and peer group pressure... If you are religious, that’s a whole other thing, where you could be condemning yourself to hell for not being a good spouse.
These aren’t simple choices, and often the options aren’t even apparent.
Workforsafenotwell · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not really sure know how to respond to this? It’s not like I said seeing all of the possible choices is easy.. The point was and still is you always have a choice? And with that abuser mind set, you should change the thought to, “if I don’t like it, then I can leave” because that is what I am trying to get across. No one can tell you what to do or make you do something you don’t want to (as long as the situation doesn’t have things out of your control). If your choices are to:
Then you have still have choices, leave or stay, even if the outcome of leaving is unknown. Each person is responsible for their own actions, you don’t have to rely on external factors to make your choices.. and I am not implying that in a “screw everyone, as long as I’m good” type of way. I am sorry I don’t know how to explain this better, I really wish I could.
But based off your response it looks like you assume I have never dealt with any kind of abuse and that is not true, I have learned some hard lessons in my life. One thing I learned is that if my family or friends try to get me to do something I don’t want to (peer pressure) the answer is no, and I accept the consequences of my choice even if that means those people won’t be a part of my life anymore.
Also I know this is probably reads as an “easier said than done” kind of response, some people may have a really hard time dealing with peer pressure, and allow that to influence their choices but that is also their choice even if they can’t tell. Everyone is literally doing the best they can, all the time. If you feel you can’t make a choice because you’re worried you will go to hell because your religion says you will then that is the best you can do and no one can ask for more. But you still made the choice to allow an external influence to sway you and no number of excuses or justifications will change the fact that you still made that choice.
twlscil · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not trying to be accusatory or combative, just point out that it looks WAY simpler from the outside...
Oddly, I have known about equal number of men and women in toxic relationships, and the overriding sentiment has been one of not wanting to fail... Everyone can see their partner is toxic, but since the person taking most of the brunt of their toxicity seems to making excuses for them, it's hard to reach out from the outside... Once they do finally figure out that they might be better off, they (and myself) have figured that out in short order... In my case, I got divorced shortly after my 20th wedding anniversary...
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:36:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is just a litany of excuses
BeneditoDeEspinozist · 4 points · Posted at 00:57:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You are absolutely correct.
Edit: to elaborate, the surest sign someone is about to make a shitload of excuses for their shitty behavior is starting with “oh, anyone with more integrity and accountability than me is naive.”
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:58:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup
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redditalisong66 · 5 points · Posted at 19:17:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, there are a lot of us.
BSHAL_USA · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not a reason to cheat. Even if your partner isn’t communicating to you, you have a personal responsibility to communicate your intentions with the new person to your partner and end the relationship once you realize your desire to be unfaithful. You’ve worded your post as if you had no choice. No matter if you were dating a brick wall, that wall deserves to know as you’ve entered a mutual agreement/relationship with them. I’m not saying that there can’t be factors contributed by your partner, such as the negligence you mentioned, that increase your desire to not be in that relationship anymore. But to imply that your partner is accountable for your infidelity is simply incorrect. Cheating in this situation would just weigh on a person’s conscience more (and for a longer time) than an uncomfortable conversation (note, letter, anything) would. Why not leave the relationship knowing you did everything properly rather than leaving with such a burden? I understand I’m an outsider to this situation, but to say that you were unable to communicate to your partner because your partner was bad at communicating to you is a blame shift and is not correct.
theneen · 3 points · Posted at 19:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't that kind of unfair, using someone to get out of a shitty relationship? 😕
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theneen · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disagree. This is a common pattern with cheaters who are unhappy in their primary relationship. They can't leave until they have the security of another person and place to go to. I'm not saying I blame you for being unhappy. I don't. It sounds like a shit situation. But you could have left on your own, you didn't until you found someone else...and regardless of whether or not you meant to, in a way you did use them to get out.
redditalisong66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is that right? Well you seem to know an awful lot more about my situation than I do. OK!
Thanks for the heads up there. Although that’s not my memory of the situation at all. But since you seem to know my life history so much better than I do, I ought acquiesce to your superior knowledge...
Well, well well. I could have left on my own - but I didn’t until I found someone else, huh? And do you recall if I went to live with that person at that time? Did I marry that guy, or what? See you would know so much better than I do...
Hmmm I could have left at any time, and yet I didn’t until I found another person. Fancy that! Huh! . . . Not the way I recall it happening at all! When exactly did I leave my husband to live with this other person then? Because you see, my memory tells me the exact opposite of what you’re saying!
Guess you know what you’re talking about though huh? 😂😂😂
theneen · 5 points · Posted at 21:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet you did all of those things. 😂 Your avoidance of saying what really happened points to that.
Mselaneous · 0 points · Posted at 00:18:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, or they’re fully aware you’re going to rip apart anything they say and have no interest in trying to understand, just want to judge and feel superior?
Let’s be real, is there anything they could have said that you wouldn’t have been shitty about?
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He hypnotized you into a 4 year long affair? Thots today have no limits I swear
blaykers · -2 points · Posted at 19:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, dude may have had a sex/porn addiction... Addictions make people emotionally unavailable and uninterested in their spouse. So sorry you had to go through that.
Counseling and learning the ropes of healthy emotional processing may be the only way out of the vicious cycle
redditalisong66 · 12 points · Posted at 19:45:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know what was wrong with him, but I was his second wife. He remarried within a year of me leaving him and he’s now on his fifth wife. So there’s something not right there, for sure.
marcelowit · 21 points · Posted at 15:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To 1. What if he/she doesn't do anything about it? Or doesn't want to talk about it? You can't force someone to have sex. You can't force someone to want sex.
To 2. You can not be attracted to someone sexually but still love them, one may think its the same thing but its not.
There was a time when the separation of church and state was inconceivable, imo a separation of sex and love is in a similar place in todays society, but they should be separated, having sex and loving someone are two different things.
easthighwildcatfan1 · 12 points · Posted at 19:40:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thing for your second point, you can also not love someone anymore and still be sexually attracted to them. You can also care about someone and their wellbeing but not be “in love” with them.
I think also, you can love someone, but want different things in life, so it makes it harder to break up with them or have those hard conversations because you love them and you don’t want to stop loving them even if it is hurting both of you.
Kingmir1 · 4 points · Posted at 16:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To 1. Well then we weren’t meant to be. If she can’t make that effort to at least try to get something going. It’s over.
To 2. It’s different when you’re in a relationship vs when you’re single. When you’re single. You can have no feelings attached sex. When you’re in a relationship with someone. You should not only like/love that person for who they are. But you also need to be sexually attracted to that person. If you only love who this person is. Then you’re just a friend. It’s a combination of both that makes a relationship. If you both agree that you’re not gonna have much sex in your relationship. That’s one thing. But if you’re going into a relationship expecting to have a reasonable amount of sex and you’re getting nothing. That’s another thing.
Sex and love should only be separated if your intentions aren’t relationship purposes. If you’re in a relationship. Both need to be an option unless agreed upon. I would never date someone I love, but couldn’t see myself fucking her. That doesn’t even make sense. That sounds more like Family member (unless you’re into incest for some odd reason) or a close friend.
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Kingmir1 · 8 points · Posted at 18:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. Wouldn’t care if she was the most amazing person on earth. If we cannot be intimate. Then we aren’t gonna fare well in a relationship. Would rather her be a friend. Like I said. I understand if she’s got personal things going on that could reduce the sex we have. Sex ain’t everything but it’s something that differentiates a relationship from a friendship. You take that away and we’re just close friends. Maybe you see my views as toxic or shallow but it is what it is.
I fantasize about that everlasting bond between me and another person, but if you can’t even get intimate with me. I’d rather us have that everlasting bond.... as friends. I love sex it’s fun. It’s amazing. It’s something that is even better when you have it with someone you love. But if the person I love takes that away from me, and I get frustrated. There’s a major problem.
A dead bedroom is as much of a problem as is any other relationship problem. And if you can’t even put the effort to make that up. Then why should I continue to date you?
If you aren’t willing to give your partner some for reasons that aren’t valid like kids, depression or you aren’t allowed to have sex or whatever. Then why the fuck are you in a relationship? You have a good dynamic? Well so do friends.
devyReddit · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are cowards
j3nnacide · 1 points · Posted at 11:14:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Wanted the single life but didn't want me to not be his girlfriend. Solution? Cheat. The stupid cunt.
spetrillob · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. Even if there’s no ability to communicate, give them an ultimatum or find a safe place and leave if your partner is abusive. See a therapist, confide in friends, get a divorce, try to rectify things. Cheating just brings more factors into an already problematic relationship.
Southside_Burd · -3 points · Posted at 19:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's usually an issue due to communication. When someone gets cheated on, they usually have some responsibility in the regard that they are being a shitty partner, and the cheater doesn't know how to communicate how they are feeling about it, so they look outside. Cheating makes the cheater feel pretty shitty too.
canadianguy1234 · -11 points · Posted at 16:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if you communicate, no productive solution is found, and you still love them but are feeling unfulfilled?
I would never cheat but I can understand how people with lower morals might
Kingmir1 · 1 points · Posted at 16:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You gotta understand. Love is about making those sacrifices, love is like one of those feelings that’s very hard to break. So yeah it’ll be extremely hard to break up with her. But tolerating a dead bedroom and letting myself become frustrated because I love her is a recipe for disaster on my end. I could never bring myself to cheat no matter what so the next option is breaking it off.
I understand if there are situations that can mess you up like pregnancy, Depression, a lot of stress. But if those aren’t factors into why you can’t make that attempt to sacrifice for me. Then it just isn’t gonna work out. I can make that sacrifice to wait a while just because you don’t feel like it. But if you can’t make that sacrifice. No amount of love is gonna stop me from making that hard decision. Relationships is a partnership and if I’m the one doing all the sacrificing/leg work. Then there’s a major issue and if communication doesn’t solve that issue. I’d rather be single and have her as a friend instead of a friend with a bf/gf label.
skeletorsmiles · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've talked to people in that situation, and they love their partner so much, but there is no resolution to the dead bedroom. Maybe they consider ending things, but the reality is not that simple. They also love their kids even more than their partner, and are terrified they will ruin their childrens' lives. Or even if they dont have kids together, there can be a psychological or medical issue that makes sex untenable. Yes, they are unhappy with the situation, but they don't blame their partner for any of it. They dont want to break someone's heart for something that's out of their control.
Kingmir1 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said I understood if there are factors like kids, pregnancy or depression that could kill the bedroom.
That’s fine. Shit happens, but if these aren’t factors and you just have no desire to be intimate with me. That’s the issue. Why would I date someone with no desire to be intimate with me when we could just be friends. Sex and intimacy play a big part in relationships and the feelings towards one fluctuates for various reasons but there are some people out there that just don’t wanna give it up because they don’t want to. Yet they expect their partner to sacrifice because they “love” them.
Just because you don’t feel like it isn’t a good reason to neglect someone’s needs. I don’t want to go to half the places my girlfriend wants to go sometimes, but I still go and enjoy myself because it makes her happy.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 18:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Esther Perel wrote a book on this and did a TED talk (you can find on YouTube). Shes a relationship therapist. It's really eye opening. I think it's called The State of Affairs. It's basically down to wanting a need filled and at the same time chasing a feeling of being alive. Often times it's nothing to do with the first relationship or the person they're having an affair with, but the rush of feeling alive. Like a mid life crisis. Wanting to feel like a teenager again etc.
cryingduckxing · -2 points · Posted at 23:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a fair trade, these people cannot be helped. So selfish. There is no justification for that kind of behaviour.
HomemadeMacAndCheese · 7 points · Posted at 17:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I think it's as simple as just giving in to pure selfishness just for a short while (whether it's a single kiss, making out, having sex, whatever). When it's a sustained affair it's obviously a bit different. Anyway I don't agree with it but I definitely understand it.
HandsomeLakitu · 154 points · Posted at 13:58:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sexual needs of married people can diverge significantly over the years.
Imagine you're a woman who has been married 20 years. You like sex, but your husband can't really do it any more and isn't interested in you these days anyway.
Your options are:
A) discuss it with the husband, maybe come to some mutual arrangement
B) have an affair with your line dancing partner who's definitely up for it, or
C) never have sex again
If option A fails, option B looks pretty damn good.
80_firebird · 14 points · Posted at 19:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Divorce is a thing.
I_hate_traveling · 53 points · Posted at 14:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I can go that far, what I can't understand is their thought process after they select option B in that analysis. How they balance the risk and the reward.
The risk is a non-zero chance of irreparably fucking up the people you love most in the world.
The reward is just... sex.
Does not compute for me. Even if that chance is infinitesimally small, it's still a no-brainer.
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Starshaft · 9 points · Posted at 18:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a pretty safe assumption for human beings. The vast majority of humans have prioritized kin over everything else.
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Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a descriptive claim; I made a normative one.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, it's a different way of calculating it. That doesn't invalidate my point.
I_hate_traveling · 16 points · Posted at 14:25:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was kinda including kids in that example, I can "understand" cheating somewhat better if there are just two people. Marriage is just a glorified long-term relationship in that case.
I guess here's where I'm having trouble. I've never fallen out of love with someone while in the relationship. I don't get how that's possible, the more I get to know someone the more I tend to like them.
axw3555 · 32 points · Posted at 15:09:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly that just means you’ve been lucky.
There have been plenty of times I’ve met people, liked them, hell, one was my housemate at uni, but over time I learned things about them that made me not only stop liking them, but outright detest them. And those were only friendships.
A real relationship goes so much deeper. It could be that you find some massive philosophical difference like antivax vs provax, religious school vs secular, kids vs no kids, or something minor that just rubs one side the wrong way. Initially that would be a minor irritant but if you’re living together that minor irritant could drive you mad.
Wishyouamerry · 13 points · Posted at 14:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d like to introduce you to my ex husband.
Asst_to_the_RegMgr · 2 points · Posted at 17:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I came here to say exactly this.
iluvlasagna · 5 points · Posted at 20:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
me too. i've never fallen "madly in love" or have been infatuated with someone for like a month and then realize i don't actually like them at all like you sometimes see on tv or hear from people. like... what the fuck is that?
blablabla12301 · 4 points · Posted at 19:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re lucky. Most people fall out of love because the person they love has changed. Once you realize you loved the person they were before and not the person they are now, the relationship falls apart.
A person’s personality typically changes when they go through something very emotional or they get close to someone.
somedude456 · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They lose their job, so they are feeling more stressed. Now they can't pay their share of bills so more stress. They don't want to spend money so they stay home and are bored. They are not active so they put on a couple pounds. This whole time the stress is killing any sexual desires they had, so sex is gone. Their stress is now being thrown at you for forgetting to put away the dishes, or not taking out the trash before leaving for work.
So now you're living with someone who is angry, doesn't want to be touch, isn't happy, doesn't show you any love, only causes you stress when you've done nothing wrong, they are not even smiling at you, "I'm FINE" is all you can from them.....
4thepower · 8 points · Posted at 18:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If people were good at cost-benefit analyses in highly emotional situations, we probably could’ve saved a lot of pain over the course of human history.
ThePortalsOfFrenzy · 5 points · Posted at 20:11:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily. It could be an emotional attachment to substitute what was missing in their relationship. Not defending it, just pointing out there are a lot of different aspects that could be at play.
somedude456 · 3 points · Posted at 20:28:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it's not.
I'm a guy, so I'll go from my perspective as a guy, but also think of my uncle and aunt who have no reason to still be married. They yell constantly. When drinking, it's twice as bad. They sleep in separate bedrooms as he snores. She never like us (his family) so she often doesn't attend birthdays or holidays. Maybe he's fine with that, but maybe he's super lonely. Maybe a smile from a server at Apple Bees is the most attention he's gotten in months. Pretend he's at a bar downtown, and a woman not only smiles at him, but puts her hand on his thigh. He's instantly 15 years old again. He's nervous. He hasn't even been kissed in months, maybe years. The butterflys, the beating heart, it's like his sole has been awakened. She's representing everything he has been missing for so, SO long!
This is why I would NEVER stay in a dead relationship.
canadianguy1234 · 10 points · Posted at 15:57:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's probably just a matter of how much you love the person vs how much you want to have sex with someone else.
If you love someone a lot and don't really care about sex with other people, you would obviously stay with them.
If you have a strong desire to have sex with other people and don't really have that strong of an attachment to your S.O, you would break up and have all the sex you want.
It's the third situation that leads to cheating, in my opinion. When you really want to have sex with other people and you also really love your S.O. You don't want to break up, but you also want to be sexually fulfilled. Obviously at this point I think the only factors would be the chance of getting caught and how ethical the person is.
iluvlasagna · 6 points · Posted at 20:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
let's say that you really love your SO and you're not in an abusive relationship and you feel love from them as well. if your SO isn't ok with you having sex outside of the relationship, it is extremely selfish to want to keep that love while still meeting your so called needs. of course, no one is perfect and we are all capable of being extremely selfish at times. this comment isn't necessarily directed at you, but i feel like sometimes people are forced to unnecessarily justify their behavior when someone else calls them out on it. and in justifying it, i feel like sometimes they inappropriately victimize themselves. like why not just admit you're selfish?? Lol why is that so crazy??
KsBoom · 7 points · Posted at 19:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its just sex, I don't understand this norm of you can only have sex with ONE person while in a relationship or for the rest of your LIFE. Sex and love can be completely separate. My opinion.
comphys · 3 points · Posted at 18:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
love makes me people do unthinkable things. trust me, i've been there.
redditalisong66 · 0 points · Posted at 17:50:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reward is love. That’s usually what’s missing. Being valued, being listened to. Many more things than just sex.
ADarkDraconis · 7 points · Posted at 19:11:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then leave the person who is not making you feel loved. You can move on after that, but why string them along if you are screwing around behind their back? If a relationship is far beyond communication and repair, end it and start anew.
redditalisong66 · -1 points · Posted at 19:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In an ideal world, I would agree. I’ve already explained why I could not do that. Also, you’re assuming that I’m the only one that had an affair. He’d done it many times for years... I had to endure 14 years of misery with nowhere to go. There was nowhere to go, no get out. Life isn’t always that simple.
ADarkDraconis · -1 points · Posted at 19:50:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm not assuming that you were the only one who cheated, I say the same for any cheater so I would've said the same thing to your spouse. Two wrongs do not make a right, and none of that cheating was going to fix anything that needed to be fixed in your relationship. Yes, I'm sorry you had such a shitty relationship, but there is always a way out of it. If you had the resources to have an affair, you had the resources to get help leaving. Friends, family, neighbors, coworkers, women's shelters, even your illicit lover. It isn't easy, but the right things to do never are. If your affair partner had so much love for you, they'd be glad to help you get out of that situation.
redditalisong66 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is exactly what I did. You’re also assuming I had friends neighbours coworkers etc. I didn’t, and there are good reasons why which I don’t need to explain. There was a way out of it, which I found, and did get out of it. This was 25 years ago, there weren’t the resources then that there are now. I did do the right thing. I did get out as soon as I could, with no help from anybody but myself. You’re preaching to the choir.
ADarkDraconis · 0 points · Posted at 20:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And again my point of finding someone to help you, if you had no friends, neighbors, etc. who were you having an affair with? (Rhetorical question, I do not really want to delve into your personal sex life.)
You left your shitty situation. That is great and I'm happy for you! So my "Then leave the person who is not making you feel loved." that I stated in the very first post you are arguing with is valid. It takes a long time and a lot of work in most situations, but in a lot of instances it is necessary. I hope you are in a good place and doing better now.
redditalisong66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you.
twlscil · -3 points · Posted at 19:02:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reward if feeling like a loved human being, and there isn’t a better feeling out there. It’s not just “sex”, and I’m sorry if you don’t know the feeling I’m describing.
ADarkDraconis · 6 points · Posted at 19:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But in a situation like this, wouldn't you be getting the feeling of a loved human being from your spouse? If not, that requires communication, and if nothing can resolve the issues, then leave them. Don't use that as an excuse, either stay with someone who makes you loved or go your separate ways and move on to find someone who does.
twlscil · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you been either married or divorced? It’s not that simple or cut and dry.
When you are unhappily married you are convinced it’s your fault. You try to work and communicate, and when your spouse can’t work through this with you, you feel like more of an unloveable failure.
ADarkDraconis · 4 points · Posted at 19:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, yes I have for 11 years now. And if my relationship was so far gone that there was no love or joy, with no way to reconcile, then I would leave.
If your spouse can't/won't work through it with you, move on and step out of the unhealthy relationship. Cheating is not a fix for a shoddy relationship, but if you are desperate to feel loved then leave the one who is unwilling to work through it with you and make a new relationship with someone else. If you feel like an unlovable failure, you should work on your self worth before anything else. Stepping out and sneaking around on your spouse is not an answer for that.
twlscil · 2 points · Posted at 19:24:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet you missed the point entirely. I’m happy you have a good relationship, but telling someone to “work on their self worth” is as helpful as telling a sick person to be less sick.
ADarkDraconis · 4 points · Posted at 19:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not miss the point, you are missing mine in the fact that someone wanting a relationship with another person (sexual or otherwise) should at least have the decency to leave their current person first. Why stay in a relationship that is that in your eyes unhealthy and unable to be fixed? Yes, I do have a good relationship. If I did not, I would not stay. Neither of us deserve to be stuck in a situation that is awful.
As for improving your self worth- you have to work on it, obviously it does not just magically happen... Distancing from the people that make you feel unworthy of love, therapy, a good support system, doing things that are good for yourself and boosting your confidence, working on your personal growth and hobbies, forming good healthy relationships with other people are all steps you can take. They are a much better alternative to cheating, and have long lasting results that are life changing. You are always worthy of love, you just have to acknowledge that and make an effort to help yourself. I grew up in a very abusive household, and it took me a long time to realize all of that for myself, but you can do it.
A sick person seeks treatment most of the time. With a combination of doctors, therapy, medicine, good healthy life choices, and exploring treatment options it is a better alternative than just sitting around moping that you are sick.
twlscil · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are just saying what you said before with more words. You don’t understand depression if you think that people can make the mental jump to start working on self esteem when they feel down. It’s a long winding spiral with very few moments of recognition on how to fix things, and a lot of time has to pass before people can take the steps needed to correct. After they live with spouses that yell shit like, “get over it”. “God, you are worthless, would you just stop moping around”. Your phasing puts to burden on the person suffering and says it’s all their fault and they should just change their situation. Do they become homeless? Is that a valid choice to make?
To put this back in the context of cheating, cheating isn’t about sex a lot of the time, it’s often about finding someone that understands, will listen, and will comfort. The only people I know that cheated for sex were people who were always cheaters and only briefly stopped when married if at all. Most people I know just wanted closeness. They didn’t mean to cheat, but found someone to listen, and it’s often the first step towards regain some self esteem and caring about themselves. Sometimes people cheat and begin to repair the relationship, and some people end their marriage so they can not cheat, but be with the person they want, but that puts a lot of pressure on a new relationship, and is really scary.
The short answer is every dynamic is different and often you are dealing with depression, abuse, and anxiety. I’m not saying people should cheat on their spouse, just that it is completely understandable.
ADarkDraconis · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand depression, more than I'd like to admit. I struggled with it every day for years, and realized I had a problem. You cannot get over it quickly, it is a long and hard process and you cannot do it all alone. I grew up with a parent that spoke like that to me and worse every day from the time I was born until the time I escaped home at 16 and was physically abusive as well, so yes I know how badly it can make you feel. But if you have moments where you realize the feelings are there and you need to do something about it, you can start to make yourself better. Obviously you recognized that in yourself if you sought out connections with someone else to feel better about yourself.
I am not blaming the person suffering, but if they do nothing about it their situation will not change (certainly not for the better.) No one else can make you work on yourself, you have to want to do that and improve your own situation mentally and relationship-wise. And there are places someone can go if they are worried about being truly homeless, there are some great support systems out there that can help. It is scary to have to worry and to make a big change like that, but if your home life is so awful then starting anew is sometimes the only way. If someone loved you so much that they were willing to have an affair with you, would they have really let you become homeless?
In a relationship where you are dealing with such issues, and they cannot be resolved, that is not a relationship to stay in.
Starshaft · 7 points · Posted at 18:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Option B looks good... to YOU.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:46 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
and its likely not directly sex but also the complexities preventing it as well.
you can become sexually isolated if you and your wife are constantly arguing about kids or daily routines or just about anything.
I would imagine dealing with those REAL issues in the relationship is fucking hard and scary for people. Its WAY easier (in their minds) to cheat and not get caught (thus satisfying the sexual urge as well as the need to be wanted etc etc) than to actually have those real conversations with their partner id imagine.
quirkytorch · 35 points · Posted at 18:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people trying to defend why they cheated. There's no excuse. I was in an unhappy loveless relationship for way too long. Various abuses going on. Did I cheat? Nah, I got out (even at the sake of being homeless on and off for 6 months), and made a better life for myself. He's in jail now, and I went from being on my own, to finding a wonderful man, to living with said man. I couldn't devalue another human to the status of side piece.
fuckwhatiwant6969 · 4 points · Posted at 20:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s pathetic and shows zero willpower, zero personal responsibility, zero confidence
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I do agree cheating is absolutely shit behaviour, your example does not really prove your point. What happens when you do love your husband? What happens when your life together is happy, except for the fact that the sex is boring or nonexistent? That's not so easy to break up. And the alternative is what, never have sex for the rest of your life?
quirkytorch · 1 points · Posted at 11:57:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also have to ask, if you were to ask your husband if they'd be happier that you cheated on them, or left them, what do you think they'd say?
fuckwhatiwant6969 · -1 points · Posted at 02:47:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe have a fucking conversation with your husband about it, but nah cheating is way easier
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:54:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And? What do you do when that conversation fixes nothing?
quirkytorch · 1 points · Posted at 11:43:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Have an open dialogue. A sudden drop in sex drive usually is a sign of a deeper problem. If you can't wait a few months to work with your SO to fix it, you don't love them. Ok so you wait a few months, nothing has changed you say? Bring it up again. If they refuse? A lack of sex is a real reason to break up, go find someone compatible. If you leave your husband, they'll get over it. Cheating brings an emotional trauma that many, many people never get over. If you truly loved your husband, like in this hypothetical scenario, you would never inflict that specific pain on them. Edit:a word
fuckwhatiwant6969 · 0 points · Posted at 05:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup you got me, you have the moral high ground because conversations and relationships are hard
NeedsSumPhotos · 5 points · Posted at 18:28:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has lust ever really had a good reputation for cost/benefit analysis?
JabTrill · 14 points · Posted at 16:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they get bored and horny
They don't have the intention of getting caught
Kingbuttmunch · 17 points · Posted at 15:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to think like this, I have been cheated on in the past in minor younger relationships so I really hated it. But I'm older and married now. Not to say I want to cheat or anything like that, I am happy. But I get it now, i have an open mind to it I guess?
It can happen for a lot of reasons I guess but I get why someone would want to keep their partner and kids and the house they have and their entire life together but that one thing that is bothering them is the sex, the closeness, the intimacy or just the excitement. They have tried to talk to their partner several times in regards to this, but the partner either doesn't see the problem or doesn't think the same. They haven't stopped loving their partner they just want some excitement again.
I mean in some cases it's probably just as you say 'they wanted the cock/pussy' but I would think in most cases it boils down to a lack of communication or at least a lack of compromise.
canadianguy1234 · 3 points · Posted at 16:10:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm feeling some serious lack of compromise in my current relationship. Although seriously, if one person really wants to have sex with other people and the other wants to be fully monogamous, how do you compromise that?
Kingbuttmunch · 5 points · Posted at 16:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If one person wants an open relationship and the other even has a hint of doubt about that kind of thing it's a no go. It would never work The only compromise on that is that it just gets a bit more adventurous in the bedroom (roleplay, watching others in cam stuff or porn but not partaking with others). If that can't happen then, you either give up the relationship or start with some secret affair.
To be clear, if you have explored every single option with your partner and it still isn't good enough then that's only when I would have an open mind. If someone just had an affair because they weren't happy but the other person was totally unaware, then I'm not so understanding of it.
We only live once, imagine looking back on your life and thinking 'golly I missed out on a lot of things I could have done that I wanted too' just because the person you decided to marry and hopefully love, didn't want to do stuff with you.
Good luck, I hope you figure out a situation that makes you happier.
canadianguy1234 · -2 points · Posted at 17:37:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I follow you completely. Unfortunately my girlfriend does not seem very responsive to any more adventurous things I want to do. She feels silly doing any kind of roleplay (no matter how hard I try to encourage her), does not trust being naked in front of anything that has a camera (on or off, even her own phone), is too scared to do anything anywhere that is not indoors, and there are other other examples, but I guess I don't need to get too detailed into them.
I'm going to have to make a big decision soon. There are a lot of things that I would be unhappy to miss out on in life, as you correctly put it. At the same time I feel bad about walking away from a girl that has loved me unconditionally, helped me through bad times, and been basically my best friend for the last few years.
TheCleaner75 · 10 points · Posted at 18:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smart girl, being wary of cameras.
canadianguy1234 · -1 points · Posted at 18:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I agree to some degree. Although personally I think the risk anyone would see it is just way too low to worry about.
nchs1120 · 6 points · Posted at 20:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No offense, but all of her objections seem pretty reasonable? You said she loves you unconditionally, are you still in love with her? Just seems like the pros vastly outweigh the cons here, but obviously I don’t know your relationship haha.
canadianguy1234 · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I completely understand her objections, and don’t want to push her to do things that she’s uncomfortable with. I guess it’s a matter of sexual compatibility. As much as I hate to admit it, I continue to have strong desires to do things she doesn’t want to do and also do things with other people. Nobody else in particular, just different people. And these don’t seem like things that can be solved through compromise
It’s a bit hard to weigh up the pros and cons, and depending on my mood certain things might seem more important than others. In the end it seems like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place, and it’s negatively affecting my mental health.
nchs1120 · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh understandable. Basically, you have to decide if you want to compromise with yourself and be happy with the way she is or head out. Wish it wasn’t wearing on you brother. Ultimately your mental health is most important. It’s tough to make up your mind in a situation like that. However, it sounds like when you make the decision you’ll be much better off, and honestly your girlfriend will too. If you do decide to leave, no one should be in a relationship with someone with one foot out the door, wondering what’s wrong in the relationship. Good luck to you man. Answer will come
canadianguy1234 · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for the reassurance. Actually makes me feel a bit better
tidbitsofblah · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you can't really compromise that in a way that doesn't just make everyone half-miserable :/
It is a really sucky situation, I'm sorry you are dealing with that.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 18:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of cheating itself boggles my mind. if ur genuinely thinking of cheating atleast hv the decency to break up first ffs. ppl that cheat and flaunt it like its a good thing are such shitty ppl. especially the whole concept of 'sidechick'. so disgusting honestly
NAN001 · 11 points · Posted at 17:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating can be an attempt as making it through an unhappy marriage without divorce, that is, precisely without breaking up the family.
Shirley_Taint · 8 points · Posted at 20:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As selfish as it ever sounded
twlscil · 7 points · Posted at 18:59:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would say that most cases of people cheating it’s not because of sex, but because of a complete lack of intimacy with their spouse. Years of accumulated negative sentiment override, neglect, and apathy. If you find someone that enjoys your company and makes you feel like a desirable human being.
If you can’t understand why someone would cheat, consider yourself fortunate that you have a good partner.
Some people cheat, some get divorced, either way, it’s not typically about the sex. If it is, they were probably a cheater the whole time.
jutct · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just went through this with my wife. my son is 4 and I haven't seen him in person in a month due to corona. granted, she is a garbage person and a narcissist, I knew the thing was never going to last. I only married her because I accidentally knocked her up. But she was cheated on previously and always said "I don't know why someone could do that. Don't go cheat. Break up first and then go find someone." and that's not at all what she did.
Before you think I'm a victim in this, I cheated on her as well, but I would have stayed married for my son's sake. She wanted to end it to be with a guy that's mid 50s and a mechanic.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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tidbitsofblah · 4 points · Posted at 23:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If cheating were less taboo they might have been able to work something out that was actually consentual.
If there wasn't an attitude of "if you want to have sex with someone else there is something wrong with your relationship" in society, there would be no need to go behind people's back and be dishonest.
sonia72quebec · 3 points · Posted at 22:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My SO left me after 18 years together (for a younger woman). I was devastated. He was the person I trusted the most in the world. We worked really hard to get where we were and he threw everything away.
It's hard to get over that kind of betrayal. In the movies, the woman finds a new Man easily. The reality is that middle age women are not really wanted in the dating world (unless they look like Kate Beckinsale).
I_hate_traveling · 3 points · Posted at 22:22:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, that's what I don't get. How do you throw away 18 years? How do you disregard all those memories and moments?
I'm sorry this happened to you. I wish you strength the best of luck.
sonia72quebec · 3 points · Posted at 22:39:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks! What I'm missing is all the inside jokes we had.
gunnar11 · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanted to give you a long and detailed answer, but it boils down to this:
Human sexuality and romance is complex.
ThrobbingAnalBleed · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should ask my ex wife but she’s probably busy choking on another mans cock. She clearly thought it was worth it! Honestly I will never know what her justification was, and I don’t care, all I know is my son is a legend and he will find out when he’s like 20 or something what happened and he can make his own choices from there. I’m playing the long game.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:33:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who cheat are literal garbage.
Knute5 · 5 points · Posted at 14:30:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like any vice ... weakness and temptation.
refreshing_username · 4 points · Posted at 14:35:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A friend of mine didn't have sex with his wife for a decade and then had an affair. Not saying that was the best or even a right answer, but I kinda understand.
Kingmir1 · 10 points · Posted at 14:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Told my girlfriend if she ever pulled the “We got married now we aren’t gonna have anymore sex” trick. I’ll send those divorce papers fast as hell. I didn’t marry you to downgrade from boyfriend to friend. If you wanted to be friends. We could’ve saved this money.
refreshing_username · 4 points · Posted at 14:47:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This would be a better solution than having an affair IMHO.
tommygunz007 · 4 points · Posted at 14:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I was not having sex, or the person got so fat that I was no longer attracted to them, I might stay in the marriage for the kids if I don't have the balls to get a divorce. Cheating is wrong. But a dead bedroom is also wrong.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it difficult to understand as to why people don't properly evaluate a relationship after a set amount of time. So much time and effort could be saved, if people had standards and abide by them. But everyone desperately wants to be mated, no matter the cost and no matter how incompatible they are with someone.
Then it just goes downhill, they get married and kids thinking that's going to fix shit. It doesn't so they get into ugly fights about it, they get a divorce and someone is paying child support that could stem into domestic violence and things escalate.
I don't understand people who want all of that.
I_hate_traveling · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Couldn't agree more.
I think it comes from a lack of self-awareness really - they don't know themselves well enough to know what they can and can't live with. So it's not that they don't have standards, it's just that they don't have the right ones.
lifeisawork_3300 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a fairly interesting subject matter, and one that I am involved in, in my own way. Although I’m not married, I have played with many women over the years and know a few friends of mine that cheat on their SO. I don’t judge, and even had my own code at the start of my hook up career. But I do like to discuss that topic with the women that step out of their marriage.
One of the main reasons for their cheating is the most obvious one, lack of sex or lack of appreciation. Everything can be well, they love their SO, the house and careers are fulfilling but the sex isn’t simply there. You’ll think well it’s just sex, but sex can be great motivator to some, especially those who enjoy it. Most do talk to their SO, even suggesting open marriage, counseling, introducing new things into the bedroom etc but eventually it just falls at the weight side.
Sex sex sex, yup more sex. A boring person in the bedroom and sorry to those that are, will eventually get their partner tired, especially if the partner is more open minded and into kink. Vanilla is fine but variety is the spice of life.
The thrill. I knew many of women in my years that had it all, executives at their company, business owners, Porsche and Tesla cars, beautiful homes and loving family. But in the end, they loved the thrill of sex and cheating, oh yeah it’s a thrill to some. Just like a gambler can get the biggest high of his life hitting the numbers, some men and women live off the high of sleeping with new people.
The love is there. Oddly enough, a lot of women did love their SO, I had a business owner who’s husband had cancer and she was helping him out with the therapy in all but she wanted those last thrills. She made her list of things she wanted before she fully went in, and she managed to knock down a lot of them. I have a friend both man and woman who love their SO, but unfortunately the sex is terrible. And like I said, to some sex as an excuse seems stupid but to the person I those shoes, it’s different.
Roommates, the second most common reason I have ran into. The love and apperception has dwindled and they have become roommates sleeping in different rooms. Just like when you leave a child unattended for or give up on, they find someone who cares and nurtures them, someone who gives a fuck. That’s all it takes
Physical attraction, at the end of the day we are animals with baseball caps, guns and can drive. Many married women or men, never thought of cheating but then they meet someone, that whooo baby person. They hit it off, one thing leads to another and we start thr downward slope.
Happy couples. You know who has this figured out, and it’s not for everyone of course, open married couples. I been invited to be part of some group fun with married couples and they are probably the most happy out of everyone. There’s no or very little jealously, they are very hands on with their partners, and are genuinely some of the more interesting people you’ll meet since they have no hang ups on subject matters.
Of course each person has their reasons for cheating, every head is its own world. But these were some of the reasons I have ran across in my years of crafting my skills in the bedroom. Are they justifiable, to those that are in those shoes of course they are, to those looking from the outside those people may seem like bad people. But to each their own.
kerager8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's to be expected with how hard monogamy has been sold to the world, when there are so many other ways to have relationships.
pussytsunami27 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or sometimes it’s an insecurity thing. The person wants to feel wanted and desirable like they did when they were younger.
For some it’s a power thing.
For some it is really about sex. They’re not satisfied in their relationship sexually.
I’ve heard all of these reasons given in the past when the topic comes up. It’s wrong but these are some common reasons.
michiganfan71 · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the straw that breaks the camels back
awesomazon · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Highly recommend the work by Ester Perel. Her book “The State of Affairs” is a great examination of why/how folks step out in relationships. She’s beautifully non-judgemental as she examines the motivation/ revelations of the people involved. Life and relationships are messy and complex. Much more complex than the current popular belief system that “marriage is only one person forever” allows. Her podcast is also great.
Szjunk · 1 points · Posted at 10:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
After a few decades of marriage? They probably just don't give a fuck. It's like that episode of House. Old guy is fucking this old lady. Individually they both complain to him that they fuck too much and both make excuses why they can't talk to each other.
Eventually, he realizes they're married to different people because of their rings and they were worried that the other partner would start having an affair with someone else.
FYI: STDs are the most common among old people because they don't give a fuck and are more open to threesomes, gangbangs, and other sexual experimentation.
aprilmarina · 40 points · Posted at 17:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The alphabet. First, the order of the letters, next, how were sounds assigned to those symbols?
Blince · 9 points · Posted at 20:13:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
afaik the order of the letters has no significance to them, I think it's just an order that stuck throughout time and the use of having an order supersedes anyone making up their own.
Also the sounds given to letters already exist in language, just when you speak you don't make as much blatant use of them, the letters just represent the sounds, however the origin of the letters is probably very unique to each one specifically as many have changed/been borrowed from other languages.
Iskjempe · 7 points · Posted at 09:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Nobody knows what the order is for, and different alphabets have different orders (and abjads, syllabaries, and abugidas have their own orders).
A lot of modern writing systems are ultimately descended from proto-writing systems, which in essence were drawings put together to communicate something. Those gave rise to scripts like the Egyptian hieroglyphs, which itself gave rise to the Proto-Sinaitic writing system, which eventually gave rise to almost all alphabets, abjads, and abugidas (Hangeul being a notable exception). Other systems like syllabaries (hiragana, katakana, bopomofo,...) and logographic scripts (Hanzi, Maya glyphs*,...) usually have their own origins.
The reason a letter has a sound and not another is usually because the name of what the “drawing” that eventually gave rise to this letter represented eventually became the name/pronunciation of the symbol, and it changed as the writing system was passed on from language to language and as the sounds of those languages changed.
A very telling example of this is the letter A, which originated as an Ox’s head (something like this) and then became something like “𐤀”. The name of this letter always was something along the lines of “ ‘alp”, which originally meant “ox” (see Hebrew “אלפים”, which can mean “cattle”), and gave the Greek letter called “alpha”, which gave our A.
Edit: I forgot to add the footnote for the asterisk:
*Maya glyphs also represented sounds but they are spectacularly complicated, so for the purposes of this explanation they are solely in the logographic box.
aprilmarina · 3 points · Posted at 14:54:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Great answer, thank you!
Iskjempe · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relevant
oozie_mummy · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There isn’t an order to the letters of the alphabet.
CoolnessEludesMe · 5 points · Posted at 23:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's just a mnemonic device to be able to keep track of them.
memesarethefuture · 72 points · Posted at 20:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a father or mother could rape or molest their own child.
Also including family members such as uncles & brothers, or even sisters. How tf could somebody do that to someone, and be able to sleep at night.
I just cannot fathom how they could possibly live their life knowing they fucked up someone’s mental health like that. Not just anyone, their own fucking child.
herstoryhistory · 14 points · Posted at 00:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. But most of the rapists and molesters had that done to them and came to think of it as normal behavior.
memesarethefuture · 11 points · Posted at 01:29:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree some rapists may have experienced sexual assault in the past. But the majority of rapists have not. And even if they were victims themselves it doesn’t justify the fact that they would rape somebody. (Not arguing, just saying). Rapists usually start in high school & college, some only do it once or twice and stop, but some make a game out of it. God, people can be really sick.
TrogledyWretched · 5 points · Posted at 09:06:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's still being studied, iirc. Pedophiles repressing their sexuality having constant proximity to a victim makes it overwhelming, or something like that. Likely tied to psychopathy too.
Red-deddit · 3 points · Posted at 06:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fr. This needs to be at the top. Why rape anyway, do it like everyone else and take the person in a date then ask for consent. Disgusting people
XM202AFRO · 1 points · Posted at 15:16:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think this is as bad because there is a different power dynamic.
memesarethefuture · 1 points · Posted at 16:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re still raping their fucking sibling. It’s just as bad.
cuddpudd · 312 points · Posted at 18:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents who disown and kick out their kids because [insert life choice/sexuality/gender].
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cuddpudd · 12 points · Posted at 23:05:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do definitely agree with you. I do struggle in the same way with an hyper controlling mother and yes, it's all about having a grasp on somebody's else life.
The simple fact that a parent claims to have the right of deciding their kid's life choices simply disgusts me. Parents do not own their kids just because they generated/adopted them .
TrogledyWretched · 4 points · Posted at 09:23:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's pretty sad when you have so little control over your own affairs, that instead you feel a need to ruin someone else's to feel sane.
I really wonder if that's all there is to it...
daniel4sight · 69 points · Posted at 19:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extreme paranoia and ignorance.
[deleted] · 21 points · Posted at 19:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cuddpudd · 3 points · Posted at 23:01:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's so messed up. Hope you three are doing alright now
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 23:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cuddpudd · 10 points · Posted at 23:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Because I say so", "When you have kids you'll understand", "One day you'll thank me" are pretty toxic ways of parenting. Hope you're doing okay now
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cuddpudd · 3 points · Posted at 00:21:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can do it ^
randomwords0987 · 5 points · Posted at 00:59:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people view their children as objects, or as extensions of themselves, not as people in their own right.
Zefiro · 4 points · Posted at 22:31:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
religion
Geminii27 · 3 points · Posted at 21:37:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Governments who do the same.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brothers and I are straight.
I once talked about sexuality with my dad and asked him if it would have mattered if one of my brothers and I were gay.
I should not have asked.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 12:29:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's on the same level for them as kicking them out for drug use, criminal behavior, or a rebellious attitude. It's both an attempt to make them realize their "mistake" and to avoid any form of supporting their behavior.
cuddpudd · 1 points · Posted at 15:56:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even drug use and criminal behaviour are not good excuses. If you truly wanted to have kids because you're so selfless then you'll hell them instead of throwing them away like a faulty toy.
pop013 · 94 points · Posted at 14:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
daniel4sight · 11 points · Posted at 19:08:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think parasites with a conscience. I dunno it well either.
VersusV13 · 63 points · Posted at 19:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Killing for religion.
povylas · 9 points · Posted at 22:14:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something i won't understand
TFRek · 4 points · Posted at 03:30:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
... Holy waaaaaars!
VersusV13 · 2 points · Posted at 07:49:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least one got the reference. Nice
Kitchen_Trout · 7 points · Posted at 00:22:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of it comes down to fear and existential dread. I wouldn't necessarily call myself an atheist but i do believe that a lot of people who would call themselves Christians believe in it for the simple fact that if they don't, according to beliefs and descriptions that have been hammered into their heads since they could walk, they will spend eternity in the worst place they could possibly imagine. You could apply this line of thinking to the extremist forms of certain religions as well and why they kill people in the name of their God.
Backstrom · 3 points · Posted at 04:12:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you believe in the religion, then this Earth becomes the deciding factor in an ETERNAL struggle. Events here decide dates FOREVER. If things have consequences far, far, far outlasting any human life, then it makes sense that it could be the most important thing. And everyone probably has a reason they would kill someone.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Believing too much
CrimesnCrimes · 28 points · Posted at 20:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why public schools don't teach practicalities like making a budget or seeing how much money certain careers make so students can be more informed about their choices.
Tired_Thief · 8 points · Posted at 21:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hi. My high school did have something like this and everyone hated it. Basically it's a good idea in theory, but once you take into account kids' varying skill levels, ideologies, and goals, it makes putting a class like this into practice very difficult. A few reasons why:
•The class was made mandatory to be able to graduate. That meant that everyone had to pass it. Instead of holding students accountable and making it so there was an option for a retake if you failed it on the first go, the school instead opted to teach it at the lowest possible level to avoid getting shit from parents because a 1 semester class was keeping their kid from graduating. That meant the standards in the class were so low that very little information of value was taught. Many students in my class didn't have (or claimed not to have) a decent grasp on decimals and fractions, so there was a multi week unit on converting between decimals and fractions.
•For every 16 year old in that class who didn't know that 3/4 = 0.75, there was another 16 year old whose entire existence revolved around getting into the most elite university possible. That meant maxing out your GPA by loading up on weighted courses or electives that would look good on your transcript. If your parents were willing to make a big enough stink to the school administration, you could get out of that class and take a tech based elective that would make you a more attractive candidate to a college admissions committee. My state had mandatory PE for every semester that you were in high school, giving us a disadvantage compared to students from other states when it came to having a diverse high school course load.
•Political ideologies. There were some parents so nutty they thought that the school merely teaching their students how to file taxes was liberal indoctrination.
xXDreamlessXx · 2 points · Posted at 05:48:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some teach that stuff. I did some bugeting stuff in middle school and I have to take a personal finance vlass to graduate
parallax693 · 2 points · Posted at 23:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How about leaving some basics for the parents to do.
What_I_do_45 · 4 points · Posted at 08:07:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And let the kids with shitty parents get fucked?
parallax693 · 2 points · Posted at 14:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hopefully they have relatives or grand parents that could help. It only takes one caring individual to make a difference. I have a poster in my office of all the legislative additions added to the school curriculum since the 1940's. The poster is 3 feet long with small print. We can't do it all. Others need to step up. It takes a village to raise a child.
spurz07 · 975 points · Posted at 13:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
NASCAR. I don’t get the hype, it’s cars going left for 1000 laps, I just don’t get it
DankSorceress · 53 points · Posted at 17:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oval racing is surprisingly difficult, I've done both in racing sims, and would say that it's a completely different ballpark. The cars get very twitchy at high speed. The fact that the cars are so close together at such high speed is very intense
no_comment_reddit · 16 points · Posted at 18:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, the cars can be twitchy, you have to strain to keep it from riding up the corner into the wall, the wheel can be heavy. Even in sim running a full length race can be tiring.
kartingdude72 · 613 points · Posted at 17:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"it's 22 people running after a ball"
If you simplify sports they all sound boring. The thing about motorsports are the exciting side by side battles. 2 or more cars going side by side at 200KMH or more is so exciting because even the slightest of mistakes will lead to a crash. And anything can happen at anytime, people have lost a race win because of a crash or mechanical failure on the last lap before. I myself prefer European motorsports like F1 and GT racing, but I also appreciate the American ones for what they are
spurz07 · 39 points · Posted at 17:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“22 people running after a ball”.....totally makes sense now lol. I like watching F1 as well, been watching drifting more though. Pretty crazy controlling that kind of madness on a track
UF8FF · 19 points · Posted at 20:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you find that with most sports. Once you dive in and really understand how technically difficult a sport is, the more you respect it.
NASCAR still weird tho.
MaximumVagueness · 3 points · Posted at 01:27:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think it's normally weird just wait until they get to Watkins Glen, best shit show known to mankind watching them fumble around the track like an NFL player trying to thread a pack of sewing needles for their grandmother.
ih8mosquitos · 7 points · Posted at 20:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rally is also a great motorsport to watch!
jeffcrafff · 14 points · Posted at 19:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I maybe get the appeal of watching it on TV, but going to a NASCAR event? Don't the cars just kinda zoom by every once in a while? Is it solely about getting wasted and yelling about buttholes?
At least at a baseball or basketball game you can see most of the action from your seat. Someone please explain
BasicCableHolidayLog · 40 points · Posted at 19:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s funny you ask, because I’ve never watched a car race on tv in my life and have no interest, but last year a friend invited me to go to a NASCAR race on a whim (she got free tickets). The outing was sold to me as a “sociological experiment.”
The people-watching alone was incredible, but having physically been there I now understand why people get into it. It is SO LOUD and your blood is pumping and it’s just intense af. I haven’t become a motorsports fan and I haven’t gone back, but I 100% understand the draw now and why people get addicted to it.
GeordiLaFuckinForge · 12 points · Posted at 20:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Oh you absolutely should go to a race. In the parking lot before and after everyone is grilling and tailgating so it smells like heaven, you can bring beer and food in from outside, and afterward everyone drinks and socialises with all the other rednecks drinking in the parking lot, it’s a whole weekend experience and a total blast. During the race, we bought LMRs and headsets so we could tune in to the comms between crew chief and drivers (it’s hilarious to hear your favourite driver you’ve only seen in PC interviews speak normally, which usually is pretty profane), the cars shake your seats they’re so loud, you actually can get an appreciation for how blisteringly fast they’re driving that you just don’t get on tv. It’s a great time, highly recommend.
Edit: Dammit Kyle I'm trying to talk up your redneck ass sport here but I can't defend that shit.
Slomojoe · 11 points · Posted at 20:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can see cars more easily than people. How the fuck do people in the stands for a baseball game see the ball?
Squidillion12 · 7 points · Posted at 21:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you been to a baseball game? It is pretty easy
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Squidillion12 · 4 points · Posted at 22:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've sat in nosebleeds for years at shea stadium, I saw the ball
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems like it is always easier to see things that seems like it would be hard to in person. I watch hockey and it seems like people in the stands would lose sight of the puck, but when i go to games the only time I dont see it is when the boards are in the way
Squidillion12 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, sometimes at a baseball game I lose a pop up, but that's rare
Slomojoe · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I find baseball to be incredibly boring
Squidillion12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then how would you know if it is easy to see or not in real life?
Slomojoe · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:42 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didnt say if it was easy or not I asked how. It seems like a tiny ball would be hard to see from way the fuck away in the stands.
Squidillion12 · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:25 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You said it as a fact in your first comment but ok
Slomojoe · 1 points · Posted at 15:56:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
What fact did I say?
SauteedPelican · 2 points · Posted at 04:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can feel the horsepower. Go to an NHRA Nitro event and get hit with that 10000 horsepower. It never gets old.
Alex_Sander077 · 20 points · Posted at 19:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. F1 or any other motorsport is different. There's actually a circuit in which the cars are competing. That makes it interesting. The different races. NASCAR... it's just a fucking circle.
Magma151 · 20 points · Posted at 20:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pack racing is a very different thing that you never see in f1. When 3 cars are side by side, inches from a wall, at 200 mph, where the slightest twitch from one could take them all out, and on top of that you have a much more drafting and constant lead switches, and the guys who thread the needle to narrowly avoid hitting 5 crashing cars at once, and this all happening from freaking 40 cars out on the track at once. It's a very different kind of racing, and its hard to compare it to road racing.
I prefer road racing but I still have a lot of respect for oval racing. Indycar is fun because it's the best of both worlds. Great road racing and 5 oval tracks in there to change things up.
Ultimately though if you are bagging on Nascar and don't watch any other form of Motorsport, I doubt other Motorsports are going to change your mind much. Different strokes for different folks.
highcroft · 29 points · Posted at 19:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are actually competing in NASCAR though. More than half of the F1 races in the past couple of years could easily be classified as a parade.
dmkicksballs13 · 5 points · Posted at 21:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Legit though. It's Hamilton and then everyone else.
sloasdaylight · 9 points · Posted at 20:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah right, F1, where races are determined in qualifying and the first lap. Very exciting.
kartingdude72 · 1 points · Posted at 09:01:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mate, have you seen last years Bahrain, Monaco, Canadian, Austrian, British, German, Hungarian, Belgian, Italian, Singapore, USA and Brazilian grand prix?
Slomojoe · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Each nascar race is part of a circuit
BobioliCommentoli · 2 points · Posted at 04:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laughs in roval
TheCenterOfEnnui · 6 points · Posted at 19:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agree on the simplification of sports. Maybe using your analogy in another context would help others "get this."
Playing a horn is just blowing in to a piece of wood or metal.
Acting is just pretending to be someone you're not.
debbiegrund · 3 points · Posted at 19:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Anything can happen at any time”... I meannnn, can’t only a very finite set of things happen during a nascar race? And usually they’re not interesting unless they’re at the end of the race?
Hahonryuu · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once DVR became a thing, my dad just fast forwards until a crash or something happens. So even some NASCAR fans know there isn't a whole lot to look at.
Lmb1011 · 2 points · Posted at 18:57:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair that’s exactly why I find sports boring. It’s just 22 people chasing and fighting for a ball or puck or whatever object you use.
Tyson_Wilkins · 15 points · Posted at 20:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the difference is most fans of sports treat them much more like a TV series than as a pure competition to determine a winner and nothing more. There's a significant story aspect to following a team for years and knowing the "narrative" of everyone involved. You know that it's this player's first game back from injury, or this is the last season of the old veteran who's been playing for years, or this is the last chance the core of the team has to pull together and win a championship before a bunch of key players move on. The games happen and the games are exciting, but they're much more interesting with that emotional narrative hook to them than just appreciating athletic talent. There's a reason why most fans will have individual games, goals and moments they will remember for the rest of their lives.
In my own opinion, sports are probably the most successful and engaging narrative dramas that have ever been created. A big part of that because they're real events, they are happening constantly around you life in a way that other element of culture can't, but also in their unpredictability. In any other medium, where the story is planned out ahead of time, tropes emerge, themes are followed and conventions pop up for any given genre. With real sports, you can never know what will happen, and that uncertainty makes the outcome even more compelling. I'd say this is probably why most sports movies aren't very good, and the ones that are focus much more on the characters than the actual athletics. When winning can be scripted, it isn't as exciting.
This was a bit of a ramble and you can feel free to continue not liking sports, just thought I'd explain why I do, and why I think you might enjoy them.
ThatWetJuiceBox · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it makes 100% sense to me. In the FGC (Fighting Game Community) Super Smash Bros is one of the hypest story lines to me, there were kings, champions, and us peasants watching these men do things that the developers never intended nor wanted. I seriously recommend this video even if you don't give a rats ass about video games. It's always been great what humans can achieve when they're passionate about something.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmLSJrA0n9w
Tyson_Wilkins · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've already seen all of EmpLemon's Never Ever series and I love that video. I was already decently interested in video games, but had never really been interested in smash or in competitive gaming as a whole. I'm still not super invested in it, but it's cool to watch it from time to time, and that video definitely helped me gain a bit more of a grasp for what's going on at a smash tournament.
To offer a sports suggestion to you, I'd like to offer up Jon Bois. He works for SB Nation and makes things sports-related or adjacent to tell interesting stories. I love literally everything he has ever made, but this one is one of my favourites. It's all about athletes named Bob and their impact on the sports world. If you have time to burn later he has a 2hr mini-series on MMA and it's place in our world called Fighting in the Age of Loneliness, and he's in the middle of one right now on the history of the Seattle Mariners that is also great.
ThatWetJuiceBox · 2 points · Posted at 21:34:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't expect to watch a video about athletes named bob, a surprise to be sure but a welcome one. Thank you, I currently don't have anything going on because of quarantine so this will help a lot.
I hope you're safe and doing well.
Tyson_Wilkins · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am safe and well, hope you're doing the same
Squidillion12 · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jon Bois makes great fucking content
CoolnessEludesMe · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? What interests you?
WombatZeppelin · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indycar is absolutely insane. Easily my favorite for awesome speeds and battles
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally agree. I used to hate the idea of NASCAR because I simplified it so much, but then I actually watched it and was instantly hooked.
16bitSamurai · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if I find both boring
SadClownCircus · 1 points · Posted at 13:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but running after a ball hardly contributes to the air pollution.
[deleted] · -22 points · Posted at 18:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
football is actually boring tho. like its literally what u said, ppl running after the ball for an hour and a half and for the most of it, literally nothing happens.
Vitovonburen · 26 points · Posted at 19:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could simplify anything to make it boring. Videogames are just a bunch of pixels in the screen; music is just sound, movies are just people pretending to be someone else etc.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
id say thats oversimplifying? and even if u like football there's no way u can deny that majority of it is pretty uneventful and drags out
likemyhashtag · -19 points · Posted at 19:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a stretch.
Entertainment is subjective.
Freater · 27 points · Posted at 19:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Entertainment is subjective" is literally his point
likemyhashtag · -10 points · Posted at 19:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The comparisons are a stretch.
scrabblex · 13 points · Posted at 19:19:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and sports are a form of entertainment
likemyhashtag · -10 points · Posted at 19:25:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Comparing the “simplicity” of top athletes playing sports to pixels on a screen is not a very good comparison.
PandaBOY1423 · 7 points · Posted at 19:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lmao you've probably never watched more than 40 minutes of a football game or know any players. The game is fun because it's fun seeing how managers outsmart their oppositions and how so many different teams with different playstyles can perform so differently and seeing all the different competitions like the champions league etc and comparing teams from other leagues than just 1 league in 1 country like most american sports. Supporting a team makes it 1000% better because you feel a connection to the team. I hope this helps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
id probably enjoy it more if the game wasnt 90 mins lol. thats why im more into ufc and mma cus the fights take less than an hour most of the time
SwissForeignPolicy · 0 points · Posted at 19:34:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I would enjoy it more if there was less passing the ball around that led to one player standing there cornered or the other team getting the ball and the whole process started over. If we had more one-on-one battles like in basketball, it would be more exciting.
SeedlessGrapes42 · 4 points · Posted at 19:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no evidence for this, but I'm going to speculate for a moment:
Football (most sports for that matter) is essentially a proxy for war. Two "tribes" battling to see who's stronger.
Perhaps (and again, I'm pulling this out of my ass), it's an innate desire to be on the "winning side". Obviously it's more prevalent in some than others; I personally find competitive sports extremely boring.
commiecomrade · 7 points · Posted at 19:14:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a reward/punishment machine like many other interests. You get rewarded for doing well, which is made all the more potent because of the risk of punishment, of having that reward taken away.
In video games the reward is loot, finishing a level, killing a bunch of other players, growing your city, whatever. The punishment is dying, failing a level, losing items, mismanaging.
In sports the reward is seeing your team score a goal, finish a good play or make good moves, winning a match. The risk of punishment is in seeing the opposing team do the same to yours.
NoGiNoProblem · -1 points · Posted at 21:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You gpt dpwnvoted. But FR, facts. I always feel like this when I was watching a match!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn thats a lot of downvotes. oh well, i knew i was gonna piss off a lot of ppl, its football after all lol
Rolten · -1 points · Posted at 19:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But aren't some things just objectively more simple? Nascar seems like F1 but just with a more boring track that never changes.
kartingdude72 · 1 points · Posted at 09:08:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is only a first look thing, the corners of every track are banked with a different degree, which means they are higher or lower which can have a huge impact. Also I think some tracks have 3 corners, some have 4. I'm not a Nascar expert by any means. I've never watched a single Nascar race in my life, and is simplicity really that bad? Just because something is simple doesn't mean it's boring, the early versions of Minecraft were quite simple and nearly everybody loved those
alfredjb3 · 9 points · Posted at 17:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Add to that, restrictor plate racing. Every car engine modified to limit their speed. I don’t get it.
-ragingpotato- · 9 points · Posted at 20:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since the rest of the replies are jokes, I'll try to answer.
Superspeedway racing (aka restrictor plate racing) requires knowledge and precise manipulation of a bunch of invisible factors all surrounding aerodynamics in some way.
Cars go faster or slower depending on the cars around it. If there is a car in front, it cuts through the air for you and your car goes faster, that's slipstream. It can be used to either gain speed to go for a pass, or to allow you to ease off the throttle and save fuel.
If there is a car behind you, it reduces the ammount of air your car has to drag along and lets you go faster (although its not as powerful as slipstream). Sometimes drivers will pair up, one pushing the other, this combines the power of this phenomenon with the slipstream, making the pair drastically faster, however doing this blocks the radiator of the car behind meaning it can't be done for long or else they'll overheat.
There is also the sidedraft. When a car puts their nose next to a rear corner of another one, the air bouncing off of the chasing car's nose hits the spoiler of the car in front, drastically slowing it down.
So restrictor plate racing becomes this massive mental game where each driver is constantly trying to outsmart each other, manipulating the air around them to their benefit.
A driver has to think about when to go for a pass, when to save fuel, when and who to push, where to go when being pushed, when and who to sidedraft, when/how to block someone going for a pass on you, how to evade the block of the person you are passing, when to back out, etc. etc.
Add into all of that the rivalries, exhaustion of doing that for hours, ridiculous heat, team politics, and very passionate fans, and you get an absolutely mental 200mph, 40 car peloton, where everyone is trying to get past one another and only have a couple of feet of clearance to pull it off.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
10/10 explanation
SovietAgent · 7 points · Posted at 19:16:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They added the restrictor plates in 1988 to hopefully prevent the cars from going airborne as often. Before then the cars would easily reach 220 mph consistently.
Shills26 · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rusty Wallace once ran a few laps in a secret practice session at Talladega without a plate, and he went about 230 during the session
However, he basically said it’s impossible to race without them
Having 40+ cars in a pack like they race at super speedways is scary as it is, doing that 30 mph faster us just impossible. It’s a necessary safety measure to lower the danger from extremely dangerous to only semi extremely dangerous
Without a plate, racing just wouldn’t be safe at those tracks.
OutWithTheNew · -1 points · Posted at 18:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It causes big crashes and crashes get ratings.
SwissForeignPolicy · 6 points · Posted at 19:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what's more exciting than crashes involving 20 cars? Crashes with cars flying 20 feet in the air. Extraordinarily dangerous, yes, but very exciting.
MystandMorn · 5 points · Posted at 20:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I like about NASCAR is the depth of it, while the action is so simple. Yes, its cars going left for 1,000 laps, out of such simplicity, because it's the cutting edge of competition and technology, the strategies behind how to win are insane.
When do you pit?
When do you pass vs draft?
Is it worth fighting for position when the very act of pulling out of the draft slows you both down and allows the pack to catch up?
Can you keep racing on minor damage or do you pit, and are now down a lap?
What fuel strategy do they use?
Are the teammates working together, or fighting?
There's a lot more to it, and the raw horsepower, the slightest mistake that sends cars sliding into the wall, the insanity of the speed and sound. If you've never gone fast in a vehicle, you should. There's nothing else like it, it feels like the car is trying to fly, and there are 40 other cars just like it all fighting for position? Hell yeah, lets go racing.
Myself, I like MotoGP races, but I can see the appeal of NASCAR.
comphys · 4 points · Posted at 18:03:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTVYLdKqxcI
try and watch this one.
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
damn I kinda wanna make a marble track now. can't even race marbles online rn, internet is down (I'm on data rn).
spiderqueendemon · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my God, the little stadium stands full of fans! I am dead! This is the best thing I have seen today!
RobotYoshimis · 8 points · Posted at 18:29:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As in the case with baseball, going to an actual race will make you appreciate it more. TV doesn't do NASCAR (or any other racing sport) justice.
DrDerpinheimer · 5 points · Posted at 19:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rally is insane IMO, compared to NASCAR. Somehow their skill is more appreciable without me having ever seen either in person.
-ragingpotato- · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, with rally the skill is a lot more obvious, just ending the race in one piece is impressive. With nascar the environment is so controled and there are so little reference points that the cars look slow on camera, couple that with the difference between a fast and a slow driver being little more than inches and it ends up being a lot harder to appreciate what they do.
KrazyTrumpeter05 · 3 points · Posted at 18:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, baseball is 100x better in person. I'd never watch it on TV.
themusicguy2000 · 0 points · Posted at 21:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ngl I would sooner just get stoned and watch a screensaver than baseball on tv
BatteryPoweredBrain · -1 points · Posted at 21:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Been to four professional baseball games in my life, and that was four too many. Even in person, it sucked. I can't imagine watching that on TV. BUT that is just my opinion and I guess people get joy out of it, good for them. I just don't understand it.
boxer_santaros_2020 · 5 points · Posted at 20:19:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it might not.
I never got NASCAR. My dad ran the sponsorship for a big company that sponsored a car for 20+ years. Finally after being incredulous and told the same thing you just said many times, I relented and joined him for the Daytona 500.
It was even worse than on TV. At any point while watching, if you’re in the stands, it’s a huge circle of cars and there’s no way to really tell who’s fighting for first and who’s fighting for 20th. Everyone is zooming around, but some cars have been lapped several times, there’s no obvious front or back.
We were also in the infield, which is even worse. At any pint you can only see about 1/10th of the track. Every few seconds a few cars whizz by all loud. Too fast to see what numbers they were, no clue if those were the leaders or not, can’t see them for long enough to watch any “battles” or whatever.
Lots of people have these headsets you can rent for like $100 that allow them to listen to the crews and stuff? I listened to that for a minute - you can’t really tell who’s talking and it doesn’t give like a play-by-play if the action, it’s more about the pit stops and such.
It was really stupid. Some of the parties before/after were a lot of fun, but those are not the nascar.
I still don’t get it. Even less, maybe.
dontforgetthelube · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad, brother, and I all love cars. My dad likes NASCAR. We got free tickets to a race. I never got into watching it on tv. I was hoping I might get into it live. I did not. Now I just feel bad my neighbor wasted a ticket on me.
RobotYoshimis · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I blew my chance to go to Daytona with my dad when I was a kid. I moronically turned it down
jasonrodrigue · 13 points · Posted at 14:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is the most dangerous sport.
Dingbrain1 · 20 points · Posted at 16:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the thought process for fans? Like are they hoping no one gets hurt, or would that be boring and they’re hoping for a crash?
BenTheHokie · 17 points · Posted at 17:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean people enjoy watching hockey for the fights and used to enjoy watching gladiator battles
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 17:15:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fighting is largely dying out in hockey. The NHL is (thankfully) almost entirely a skill game now.
NonsequiturSushi · 7 points · Posted at 17:34:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, the fatalities and injuries from fighting in hockey are pretty low.
AlphaTangoFoxtrt · 6 points · Posted at 18:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh I like fighty grindy hockey. But that's why I watch the SPHL and FHL.
80_firebird · -3 points · Posted at 19:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the point of hockey if there are no fights?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wizardry such as this
peterthefatman · 4 points · Posted at 19:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fans like to see big boom, but no one wants hurt. See, replay of Ryan Newman crash, fans cheering when big crash, but instant “oh mys” when they see Marshall’s running to him.
yanox00 · 4 points · Posted at 19:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crashes are interesting because they show the energy and forces that are being wrestled with and are kept under control often by only a very narrow margin.
No racing fan ever wants to see anybody get hurt. A huge amount of science, technology and effort go into keeping the participants as safe as possible.
Anyone watching racing hoping someone gets hurt is not a fan, they are just a ghoul.
Doinwerklol · 4 points · Posted at 17:58:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it tho? I thought F1 was way more dangerous.
DrDerpinheimer · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about rally?
Pascalwb · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think there are more dangerous sports than racing. F1 is really safe, unless you have some freak accident.
Doinwerklol · 0 points · Posted at 20:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I suppose, but the shit they do in F1 requires like above average levels of focus body strength and knowledge of the tracks because you ha e to be able to go through every corner as fast as you possibly can. And I mean they push the limits of what a driver should be doing in any vehicle. Monaco is such a dangerous track for example, and i am by no means an expert but my roommate is a big fan of the sport and it just seems absolutely insane the speeds these guys are going through corners at.
jasonrodrigue · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be.
kartingdude72 · 1 points · Posted at 09:13:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It used to be, but by now Formula 1 cars have so many safety features drivers rarely get hurt. And only in freak accidents like last year in a Formula 2 race in Spa, where Juan Manuel Correa sustained life threatening injuries and Anthoine Hubert lost his life, do drivers get seriously injured or die.
spurz07 · 5 points · Posted at 14:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can think of a couple Red Bull sponsored events that are way more dangerous
jasonrodrigue · 5 points · Posted at 14:14:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, if you understood the complexity of NASCAR, you would find it interesting.
CappinPeanut · 24 points · Posted at 14:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like this argument could be made fo anything.
If you understood the complexity of checkers it would be interesting. I don’t know if that would make it entertaining though.
jasonrodrigue · 3 points · Posted at 16:37:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is probably true. Everything has interesting aspects if you look at it correctly.
spurz07 · 10 points · Posted at 14:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not saying I don’t. It takes skill, patience, etc but I just never understood why it’s “life” to some people. Other motor sports are far more interesting
jasonrodrigue · 3 points · Posted at 14:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Listen to the joe Rogan podcast with dale earnhardt jr and tell me it’s not interesting.
spurz07 · 6 points · Posted at 15:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never said it wasn’t. Been to a few races in Dover, it’s cool...just don’t get all the hype.
TiresOnFire · 4 points · Posted at 17:10:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's more about the event than it is about the "sport" for a lot of people. It's fun to camp out for a few days with a bunch of people that are there for the same reason, get drunk and watch cars go fast. One of the best places to have a beer at 10am. I used to work at the track in Michigan, which has a campground a d also happens to be (or was) the highest rated track I'm customer service. So I may be a little biased.
01dSAD · 4 points · Posted at 17:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been to two NASCAR races.
First one: loved the start and the first ten laps. Visited all the corners and straightaways to watch, listen and feel the physics. Same with the crashes. Still don’t know who won.
Second one: Start was interesting. Five laps in, I’m wandering around people watching, mingling and drinking. Still don’t care who won. Or finished.
I’ve turned down free tickets ever since because I have nothing vested in the game and I’ve experienced all the rush. It’s also an annual thing unless I watch it on TV and I’ve wasted enough time watching others compete on a screen.
I babbled, didn’t I?...
SwissForeignPolicy · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thrill comes from the speeds they're going and how close they get to each other, sometimes to the point of physically pushing each other out of the way. No other form of motorsport combines those two things to the same degree as NASCAR.
spurz07 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should watch pro drifting then, 100+ mph sideways with someone right next to you is pretty wild
SwissForeignPolicy · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm only aware of exhibition-style competitions where each driver goes one-at-a-time and is judged on style. Do they do actual wheel-to-wheel racing now? If so, then I absolutely do need to check that out. Rallycross at 100+ mph? Sign me up!
spurz07 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not too sure on rallycross but they have head to head drifting where one driver will lead and the other chases then they alternate. Talk about precision, being that close to the wall at high speed with someone at your door
Xx_BrunostLars_42069 · 2 points · Posted at 19:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big v8 go brrr
Andrew8Everything · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it's dumb on TV but if you go to a race it's probably really frickin' cool.
I went to an NHRA drag race finals a few years back, that was one of the coolest experiences of my life.
The noise is so loud you feel it in every cell of your body.
boxer_santaros_2020 · 0 points · Posted at 20:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drag racing is better. NASCAR in person is not good. See my post above about it.
-ragingpotato- · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you go into a race not caring you're obviously not going to enjoy it. Nascar is one of those sports where you have to be rooting for someone to enjoy it (and have a good race, dull races are fairly common).
boxer_santaros_2020 · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I was responding to the oft-said sentiment of “you have to go to a race to get it”, so that seems to contradict the idea of if you don’t already care, attending won’t make a difference.
Also I did have a car to root for - as I said my dad and our whole crew was part of a big corporation that sponsored a car. We were cheering for that car.
huiledesoja · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's strategy, mechanics, personnalities, technology improvement. Don't over simplify a passion, you could do that with everything and live in a boring world where everything's nonsense
therealjoshua · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, I'd find it infinitely more interesting if it wasn't a circular track.
On the few occasions I've been in the room with someone watching motorcycle races or F1 or whatever, I find it somewhat entertaining, whereas NASCAR kind of puts me to sleep.
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to talk trash about oval racing compared to exciting tracks like in Formula 1, that it was too simplistic and whatnot. Then you try it and go "shit, why is this so much more difficult?!".
LuftDrage · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s live action Cars that’s enough for me
killerkangaroo8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the crashes
trollingcynically · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
VROOM! VROOM!
Do you get the hype of car racing in general?
It is horse racing for cars. Horses go around a circle to see who is fastest. Drag strips are too short. Put it in a circle.
NASCAR is easy to watch from the sidelines. You can see the whole track.
Your dad or your grandpa or great grandpa used to go to the old dirt track to watch with friends. Dirt tracks turn to paved tracks because they are way faster. VROOOM VROOOM! Can't go to the track? Watch it on TV. Easy to watch on TV.
Easy to produce for TV. Need 5 camera crews for skeleton production team. VROOM VROOM CARS! people who like cars like car racing. Marketing starts out easy. American car racing. MURICA!
-Gaka- · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't stand watching oval racing, but stuff like Formula1 with plenty of turns and plenty of chances for contestation is fun. It's obvious that nascar racing is difficult, but it's really hard to translate that to the viewer. Like you said, they're just turning left. To me it doesn't show driver skill or track differences very well.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go fast and go straight, and now go left... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bG2OcW_Hwkg
clubfungus · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it is probably more fun to do that to watch. I find it unwatchable. Cricket is more incomprehensible to me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYrue4oXCbo
eduwhat · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's actually quite exhilarating. As a car fan I never understood it until I went to a race and drove one myself at high speed. I don't follow or watch it but man it sure is exhilarating
Crookeye · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad tried to get me into since I was young. He gave up sometime when I was in middle school. It never appealed to me.
Forward to me being thirty, end up knowing a guy on a pit crew so we get "Hot passes" do we can watch the race from the pit area. Every fans dream, we had it. Met drivers, toured the garage and trailer, sat in the raised booth in the pit with the monitors and crew chief, talked with the whole pit crew to learn about each individual job. Literally my dad was angry jealous. The actual race still bored me and my wife to tears. Ended up leaving with 10 laps left to beat the traffic.
I get the individual pieces of it and I do find it all really interesting. The speed, noise, pit stops, crashes, but everything together as entertainment... Nope.
But the thing I really don't get is some of the fans. There were people in the pit area with chairs they brought, set up in front of the jumbotron all day... What? You're sitting on hot asphalt, during August, watching TV of the event you're at?? Just stay home. It's the exact same broadcast.
bonple_boi · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh they’re making another left turrrrrrrrrrn
thesquarerootof1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch this and it will make more sense:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAgZlgn8XEE
Unbound96 · 110 points · Posted at 18:51:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get a girlfriend
CoolnessEludesMe · 6 points · Posted at 23:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Start by saying hi. Be friendly. Keep pushing (gently) for the next step. If she's good with it, she'll let it happen. If not, well, you have a girl friend (which is not a bad thing, if she thinks you're nice she may introduce you to other girls).
Johns_Jackson · 16 points · Posted at 20:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The root for that is you don't understand women
angry_snek · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So someone please explain women to me
Johns_Jackson · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a case by case basis there is no answer to a generalized question such as that except if you say you dont understand how to get a girlfriend then first you don't understand women
coolguyblue · 15 points · Posted at 23:45:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Step 1. Be attractive Step 2. Don't be unattractive
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 02:57:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck.
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 09:30:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah man, I've got a potato-ass looking friend who's just the nicest dude on the planet. He just got engaged to another super close friend through sheer charisma.
TL;DR if unattractive, be funny.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you do tl,dr for 2 sentence comments, I guess you pretty much do it for every comment. I wonder if it's legal to write tl,dr longer than the actual comment. And can you tl,dr a tl,dr ?
tl,dr : asking questions about tl,dr
tl,dr : tl,dring the tl,dr, but longer than the actual tl,dr
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This guy tl,drs
rochakgupta · 6 points · Posted at 19:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell me about it
devyReddit · 8 points · Posted at 23:31:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god it’s actually very easy. It’s all about status. Are you the man in the room with the most confidence? Maybe try making her laugh. Find your strengths and be proud to express them without being a jerk about it. Be a little cheeky but not rude. Picture yourself as confident and her as someone that needs adult supervision! Be fun! Play around with them! Lol be a man! Master your emotions, join a gym or play a sport! Have some girl “friends” first. Focus and work on yourself, your hobbies. Remember the rule with girls. 1 steps forward, 2 steps back. Never let the line go slack. It means give them a little then back it off. Then give them a little more. E.g know when to end a good time. Tease them in a playful way. It’s easy guys
If you can learn to really love yourself first. Then you will be able to get a girlfriend.
HartPlays · 13 points · Posted at 03:02:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i like the part about finding girl “friends.” i started hanging out with more girls and really more people in general which ultimately made the friend group split between girls and guys. i never had any intention of dating them and still don’t but it helped me learn how to really talk to all girls like they are friends and when someone is interested, i acted on it if i had interest too. idk it’s way less complicated than what i described it as but it all comes down to this: if you are sitting in a corner, complaining about not having a girlfriend, you won’t get one. do what the dude above me said and better yourself.
Komaric_ · 7 points · Posted at 03:28:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hardest thing for me is actually finding a girl I’m interested in, and even when that happens I don’t know how to start a conversation
devyReddit · 3 points · Posted at 03:35:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you do find a girl you are interested in just ask them questions. Asking questions is the easiest way to talk to a girl. Ask them anything. Even if you don’t say much they will feel like they have had meaningful conversation with you. Ask them questions my dudes
Komaric_ · 3 points · Posted at 03:45:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biggest problem for me is just saying hi or whatever, I just can’t compute saying it to someone I don’t know and never talked to before. I feel like I’m invading their personal space! Thanks for the reply though!
devyReddit · 5 points · Posted at 05:32:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once knew a guy who was ugly as hell. He was absolutely full of confidence though. He picked up more girls than anyone I ever met. If he liked the look of them he would just say Hi, then introduce himself. Sure he was rejected ALOT but he just kept on trucking. Rejections bounced off the guy like water off a ducks back.
FUCK_ME_IN_THE_ASSS · 2 points · Posted at 05:32:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aww.
devyReddit · 2 points · Posted at 05:34:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Username checks out
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are the most positive and wholesome "dudebro" I've seen in a while.
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 10:08:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey, thanks guy :D
everything_is_creepy · 4 points · Posted at 06:09:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Do all of those things.
Then when it doesn't work, we'll tell you "you're trying too hard" and to "just be yourself"
woneeh · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have something what they want. Don’t chase the cat let the cat chase you. Hypergamy style.
neocommenter · -17 points · Posted at 22:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are not gifts that you reward yourself with.
RiggsBoson · 11 points · Posted at 23:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, lighten up already.
Just pretend OP said “How to interest a woman in spending time with me, and in establishing physical and emotional intimacy.”
Can you reckon with that? Or will you need it expressed more literally?
bluelightzero · 28 points · Posted at 18:36:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can live their entire life not questioning something.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has that happened?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:06 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother was born into a religious family. She maintains a very high level of religious fervour and has never once questioned her belief system.
Teaspoon04 · 29 points · Posted at 20:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do dudes not mash their nuts every time they sit? My ex husband tried to explain and show me but I 100% do not get it. Having external parts seems dangerous and complicated.
xXDreamlessXx · 8 points · Posted at 05:52:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are many different techniques. This first one is simple, spread the lege. This leaves enough space for the balls to be free. The second technique is moving the balls. If you move the balls to where they are slightly above the point of contact between your thighs, there will be no pain. This one is slightly risky. This third one is an extreme way that involves alot of pain but will prevent any guy from mashing their potatos. I will not reveal the entire thing, but it involves a knife
FUCK_ME_IN_THE_ASSS · 2 points · Posted at 05:52:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Texas.
TrogledyWretched · 10 points · Posted at 10:00:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They just naturally come to rest on top most of the time, or kinda split to accommodate where your legs come together. But yes, it is dangerous and complicated.
Now explain menstruation?
Teaspoon04 · 8 points · Posted at 12:53:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s like a painful slow involuntary peeing. Don’t sneeze or cough or laugh, otherwise it feels like you’ve peed yourself BAD if you wear menstrual pads. Being constantly paranoid you’re going to leak and it’ll show on your pants for all the world to see. And it feels like a raptor has settled into your pelvis and is chewing on your uterus.
Don’t get me started on PMS/emotions or period poops. Life is just generally miserable while menstruating.
TrogledyWretched · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did NOT expect such a clear and vivid image, let alone a response, so thank you!
What a pisser of a time though, damn.
Universal_2002 · 4 points · Posted at 02:10:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
🤔
angry_snek · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know you’ve gotten quite a few of replies, but they don’t seem too specific. You know how our nuts are kind of in front, right? Well in my case they just stay in front by quite a bit when I sit down so there’s no way for me to sit on them, so no way to get smushed. Also my underwear/pants keep them up a bit so they don’t hit whatever surface I sit on with too much force when sitting down.
Teaspoon04 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I’m aware they’re on the front, not actually between the thighs. Just seems perilous especially on a warm day, to sit with your legs apart and then stand up? I’m grateful I’m not responsible for external parts like that, just seems complicated.
ronnyrox · 2 points · Posted at 08:48:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes after sitting on the shitter I stand up and my balls get trapped behind my legs. It’s about the only time when balls get in the way.
UncleSamLuvsGuns · 1 points · Posted at 16:40:49 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you drag your butt back along the chair as you sit down, you balls are pulled forward
theguyfromtheweb7 · 274 points · Posted at 17:34:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who disagree with equal rights for everyone. How could that possibly make sense to someone?
neocommenter · 38 points · Posted at 21:17:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people disagree on what "equal rights" mean.
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 24 points · Posted at 22:42:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They also disagree what a “right” is.
michiganfan71 · 3 points · Posted at 00:41:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah define equal and define rights. That’s where this gets nitty gritty for a lot of people.
I understand it to some degree because a lazy piece of shit doesn’t deserve as good of a life as someone who’s diligent(I’m not referring to ceos and the Uber rich either). But it really is a nuanced, mind boggling mess
NilCealum · 6 points · Posted at 06:20:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t think of it as a lazy person having the same life as a hard worker.
Think of it as both people have a platform to stand on. A roof over their head, water to drink, access to a doctor, heating in the winter and air in the summer where needed, a basic phone (just smart enough for work but not the latest and greatest) The tools they need to learn and work (public education, base access to the internet, public transport to and from place of business)
I believe we should have the right to a home and in public housing but I don’t think we should get a 2 story house with a yard and a pool for free, we should get an apartment (basically a dorm with a seperate bedroom) hell even make adjoining apartments share a bathroom if need be.
I believe in Universal basic income, but I’m not saying give everyone 10k a month. I’m talking, food, gas, electricity, with maybe enough left over to fund a CHEAP hobby like a book or two a month to read.
All these things would let you live as a single person with no kids, but wouldn’t let you do whatever you wanted. If you wanted luxury you need to work, or if you wanted to start a family you would be able to afford to have a kid and feed it and cloth it but if you wanted to treat them or pay for toys or to take them to a theme park you’d need to work. So if you work your ass off like you do now you can do whatever you want. But people that can’t or won’t don’t suffer in the streets either or work 2-3 jobs just to have a place to live.
evildadatron · 125 points · Posted at 20:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feeling in power and having control over another brings satisfaction to evil assholes egos and it’s wrong.
Disregard my username.
SuchRoad · 8 points · Posted at 21:39:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is a dadatron one unit of dada?
evildadatron · 6 points · Posted at 21:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, precisely one radio friendly unit shifter to be exact in measure.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 05:14:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have this innate fear that more room at the table means they lose their place.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:26:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the next question becomes how to convince them otherwise
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:44:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No clue. It’s my opinion that people are inherently selfish unless taught otherwise while they’re young.
CptNoble · 11 points · Posted at 21:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many people are stuck in a zero-sum game notion of life. They think someone having the same rights as them makes them have less.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:20:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that, though I would say that a lot of things are being called rights now that are not.
NilCealum · 0 points · Posted at 00:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What right do you disagree with?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 01:06:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
None ;)
NilCealum · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean you just said that you didn’t think that all the things we call rights shouldn’t be, so I’m genuinely curious where your line is.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 01:50:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easiest one is the right to not be offended.
NilCealum · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except no one claims that is a “right” they just get mad when you do offend them
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 05:48:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ummm, over a million people have seen just this one example... https://youtu.be/aMcjxSThD54?t=1332
NilCealum · 2 points · Posted at 06:03:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But that entire argument is in bad faith, it’s not about a trans persons “right to not be offended”, the fact of the matter is that hate speech and phobic speech encourages hate acts and acts of aggression that make trans people unsafe, wether that is the intention of the speaker or not. It fuels the fire that leads to violent acts against them and encroaches on the trans persons right to life and they pursuit of happiness, since living in fear of your safety makes it impossible to be genuinely happy and being unsafe shouldn’t happen do to their right to life.
Even the way that interview approaches the subject is weighted (on both sides though). By calling it their “right to not be offended” it belittles their struggle. Then again the argument that being able to be hateful to them publically is also not entirely covered by your right to free speech since that right only protects you from the government stopping you from saying it but not from the consequences of what you said be they be public consequences like being kicked out of the store your in, or government consequences if your phobic speech leads to phobic action.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of that is shifting the goalposts. You state no one claims it's a right, I showed you just one prime example of a large media personality saying it is, and you go on to argue something else.
NilCealum · 0 points · Posted at 06:25:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I can show you media personalities claiming all kinds of things that the people don’t actually claim. Let me be clear, the general populace or even a majority of people don’t believe that they have a right to never be offended. That doesn’t mean they won’t be mad when someone says something hateful or offensive.
Freedom of speech says I won’t be arrested for saying the N Word, it doesn’t mean people won’t get offended, that I won’t get beat up or fired for it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:57:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said the majority claim it, you are the one that gave it a number of zero. I showed you an example. She didn't say "others are saying", she presented the idea as her own idea that she believes in. Why are you looking to pick a fight? All I wrote was there are things people are claiming as rights that are not.
orokro · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:23 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
you're not wrong
officeromnicide · -1 points · Posted at 18:34:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it depends on which ideological philosophy the stance comes from. They all have some form of genuine logical backing behind them though same as most political stances
Horne-Fisher · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure why you’re being downvoted lmao
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk I guess people like to think that their rivals aren't people with their own conscience and thoughts and reasons for the way they act and things they believe
Mr_Gilmore_Jr · 0 points · Posted at 02:20:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Equality is different things to different people.
NilCealum · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not what Equal means
Mr_Gilmore_Jr · 1 points · Posted at 12:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm interested in what you think about this situation I ran into a couple months ago then.
So I was in a debate with some people about the use of the n-word (a not r) and said that if you truly believed in equality, you wouldn't see race when you looked at someone, you would just see a person. I said that therefore, saying that only blacks are allowed to say n-word wasn't equal.
The stance on their side was that blacks are given this right to have sole propriety over the n-word as a way to make up for the other equalities that they don't enjoy.
They further explained this concept for women's abortion rights. If people are just "people" then both of the people in the relationship should have equal rights in the say of abortion, but people aren't just people, there are men and there are women and women get that right because they are the ones with the ability to become pregnant.
Speaking of abortion, why isn't the fetus allowed to have a say? Isn't that unequal? Or maybe a fetus isn't a person at all and doesn't deserve to have the same equality as a baby?
Mucky waters in equality. You see what I meant in my original comment.
willowbeane · 26 points · Posted at 20:32:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that someone just doesn't have depression. I can't imagine not feeling like this
prlncessconsuela · 14 points · Posted at 04:28:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SAME. A friend of mine recently discovered her boyfriend had severe anxiety and depression and she was trying so hard to understand and sympathize but told me she’s never felt depressed ever in her life, and has a hard time imagining what it must feel like. I just assumed everyone has felt this way at some point in their life, even if infrequently? Mind was blown.
B00STERGOLD · 6 points · Posted at 20:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gah dude just stop feeling this way.
But for real I hope you are doing alright with the world right now.
TrogledyWretched · 5 points · Posted at 10:04:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man, join the club. It kinda drives me nuts seeing old friends actually bothering to DO stuff with their lives, like, how?
shanaflan · 123 points · Posted at 14:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why high heel shoes have to be so fucking uncomfortable. We can travel to the moons but no shoe designer can make a nice and comfortable high heel.
anna_isnotmyrealname · 157 points · Posted at 15:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The foot isn't meant to make that shape and hold it
ortiz0714 · 19 points · Posted at 19:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly.
VanishingPointHoney · 53 points · Posted at 18:48:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I see celebrities wear heels constantly, it makes me wonder if $1,000+ dollar heels are made with some kind of with held secret from $150 dollar heels. I just want one pair of comfortable ones.
ortiz0714 · 8 points · Posted at 19:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will own a pair of 1k heels one day. Bucket list.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:09:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...why?
ortiz0714 · 2 points · Posted at 16:59:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know. Just a little pump. Black with red bottoms. Ahhh
Rackbone · 3 points · Posted at 17:08:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand paying a little more for clothes sometimes feels nice but a thousand dollars is a lot of scratch for something you walk with idk
emeeez · 5 points · Posted at 01:14:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate wearing heels and find them so uncomfortable. Once in a while I’ll try on a crazy expensive pair to see if there’s a difference, there really isn’t. Supposedly a lot of celebs get injections in their feet to deal with the pain of wearing heels.
mitoke · 3 points · Posted at 01:45:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Louboutins are pretty expensive and aside from a couple of styles are in $1k+ range. They’re pretty uncomfortable if you don’t wear them enough
wuthering_height · 3 points · Posted at 05:36:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wore a pair of YSL heels once (not mine, my uncles sugar mama) and let me tell you those were the most comfortable heels I’ve put my baby feet into. Idk if it was just those heels or not but I WILL own some designer heels one day ... sighs in broke college girl
VanishingPointHoney · 3 points · Posted at 05:39:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same for me as well. There’s a couple of brands but it will have to wait a few years.
theblackcanaryyy · 2 points · Posted at 06:22:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Erm, sorry, but what is YSL?
wuthering_height · 3 points · Posted at 08:33:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yves Saint Laurent. He’s a French designer. Some of his heels (like the actual heel) are the YSL logo and it’s really cool (imo) cause it’s different but elegantly done.
Here’s the link to his website! YSL
theblackcanaryyy · 3 points · Posted at 08:57:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks!
iGryffifish · 18 points · Posted at 19:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I present to you: wedge heels. Heels from the gods. I will never wear another type of heel again unless it has some sort of platform or wedge, anything to distribute the pressure evenly.
I have a pair of 4 inch wedges for years now, and I’ve had to wear them for multiple days, all day (conferences and stuff). It only hurts on my 3rd or 4th day of all day wear on consecutive days. That’s how comfortable they are. If they break beyond repair, I will cry, because I’m yet to find another pair of wedges that doesn’t look fucking ugly.
kittycatsupreme · 7 points · Posted at 20:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I try to buy multiples of the things I love. I don't wear high heels but I can relate to this.
shanaflan · 5 points · Posted at 21:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love wedges. However I was told told by many different men that they are considered unattractive shoes. Because of course only uncomfortable fashion is deemed attractive.
iGryffifish · 2 points · Posted at 16:10:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those men can shove it where the sun don’t shine. Also the wedge provides a nice solid block so I can beat them when they say stupid shit like that.
emeeez · 2 points · Posted at 01:17:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate wearing heels and found them so uncomfortable but I found one pair that I can walk in and are comfortable and I bought them in black leather, nude leather, and black suede. I may buy another pair of them in nude just in case.
neocommenter · 7 points · Posted at 22:17:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your feet need to be as flat as possible to be comfortable. No design is going to change that, you are working against your own anatomy.
RandyRalph02 · 11 points · Posted at 19:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of a high-heeled shoe is that you are having to use your calf muscles to hold yourself up, so I don't think it's really possible to remove all of the pain.
shanaflan · 3 points · Posted at 21:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me the worst pain is the friction burn I get on the ball of my foot. Even in low heel boots I get it.
galaxygirl978 · 3 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot of it has to do with how extreme the arch is.
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 09:36:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The better question is why womens fashion is so stupid. Like, just make pockets real? And wear normal shoes? Beauty standards are dumb for everyone tbh.
shanaflan · 2 points · Posted at 09:51:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said to a friends that I hate these crap pockets that you get with women’s jean and he said “well this is what woman asked for”. I don’t what women they asked but it’s bullshit
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 10:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dumbass sexist 19th century marketing ruined everything. The only reason It's popular now is because it's been popular for over 100 years
cpslcking · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
High heels are uncomfortable because women's fashion is uncomfortable. Corsets, tight jeans with no pockets, makeup, dresses that shove boobs up and are barely held up cause they're strapless and backless, miniskirts so high up they're one light breeze or camel toe away from flashing everyone, coats that don't keep you warm in the winter, dresses that bake you in the summer the list goes on and on.
shanaflan · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true. I remember trying to find a nice dress for a Christmas party as it was so hard because all the dresses were super short, to low cut and had no back which means you can’t wear a bra. Which is fine if you have a nice body and boobs that behave but I don’t.
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 19:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my parents let their 3 year old daughter (me) decide my little brother's name. I named him Diego because I was obsessed with Dora.
dhampir15 · 15 points · Posted at 22:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, while letting a 3 year old name a kid probably isn't the best idea there are far worse things you could have named him than Diego.
[deleted] · 19 points · Posted at 22:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I can say is that I'm glad I didn't watch Caillou back then.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:08:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanted to name my sister Ladder because i didnt know any names
Whuwisp · 3 points · Posted at 08:07:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like you didn’t know any names
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:08:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was 6, and no i guess i didnt
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 09:14:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you liked Ladder, what was wrong with Chute
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 09:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good question
Rackbone · 3 points · Posted at 14:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanted my sister's name to be Compton Dane so my mom went with Dana lol
Gee_Gog · 347 points · Posted at 18:33:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The education system.
Like who the fuck decided that everyone in the country has to have an advanced understanding of trigonometry and doesnt need to know shit about first aid and things that could literally save lives easily.
clumsy_pinata · 126 points · Posted at 19:46:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more kids they get learning math, the more people they'll have going into careers as engineers, technicians, scientists, etc., which will lead to growth in the industrial sectors. I think there were a lot of government funded programs in the cold war era encouraging science and engineering in kids, as they would be particularly necessary in a future war against the soviets
notadoctor123 · 37 points · Posted at 20:30:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not just people who go into STEM fields either. I had a friend in high school who took the advanced math sequence (principles of math in British Columbia, Canada), and planned on becoming a plumber. We caught up recently, and he said he is super happy he took those classes because he does fluid pressure/flow calculations all day.
ThatBaneFella · 4 points · Posted at 22:20:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda backfires since kids typically grow to hate school and thus also all of the subjects.
-PsychoDan- · 11 points · Posted at 22:42:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I and many people I know really enjoyed school time, made some great memories and it’s learning maths and sciences which made me choose an engineering career
While some kids unfortunately don’t enjoy skl, wouldn’t say kids in general “typically grow to hate school”
ThatBaneFella · 3 points · Posted at 22:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A majority dislike it. Not necessarily because they dislike the subjects themselves, but because our school system is the worst joke ever told. All the needless procedure and teachers abusing their power make a majority (though not all) dislike doing anything for school. I enjoy a lot of school subjects outside of doing them for school. But when doing math or grammar for school, all of a sudden it's mind-numbingly painful.
OneMeterWonder · 2 points · Posted at 05:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well nobody said it had been done well.
athrow4 · 16 points · Posted at 21:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole point of school isn't to prepare you to encounter a triangle and learn everything about that triangle, it's to exercise your brain in a way continuously that teaches you how to identify what you know and don't know and then from there use that knowledge to find out what you don't know.
And then teaching language allows you to communicate more effectively, and put words to places that you may not have had words for before. You're better able to express yourself.
Both of these together make you able to think more critically about your world, exercise caution and make better decisions that improve both your life and the lives of people around you. Probably.
BlakkandMild · 12 points · Posted at 20:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think both are important. Everyone should be taught some basic first aid, but when it comes to the more serious stuff, that should be left to the professionals.
In order for one to get to an acceptable professional level, they need to have a complete understanding of biology or atleast have the ability to quickly/efficiently reach a conclusion about a biological issue. In many, if not most, cases when trying to resolve a biological issue, one needs to understand the chemistry behind it. In order to truly understand chemistry, one must attain some level of physics comprehension. Physics often requires some pretty complex mathematical concepts that parallel with calculus. Calculus is almost directly built off of trigonometry.
If your goal is: clean wound, apply pressure, and bandage then math can fuck right off in most scenarios. If you’re trying to perform real medicine or give proper treatment to other damage caused by a wound or ailment, you gotta get your maths up.
The system is set up to teach biology, then chemistry, then physics because the math that aligns with them gets more complicated as it goes and math builds more directly off of itself.
Geminii27 · 9 points · Posted at 21:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First aid can be learned from a weekend course. Trigonometry is used in a lot of jobs for all kinds of things and takes a little more than one weekend to pick up and apply.
daniel4sight · 20 points · Posted at 19:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's just so the country can boast about how their students know all this smarty mumbo jumbo compared to so and so.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Treeninja1999 · 17 points · Posted at 20:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You write a check to your mortgage lender its not complicated. Also interest bad
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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theblakeness · 4 points · Posted at 20:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or how to do taxes or manage finances. EVERYONE, rich or poor, needs to deal with money but we barely educate anyone about managing their finances.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure half our population could drop out in the 8th grade and nothing would change.
ohioredbeard · 3 points · Posted at 19:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then they act when you don’t understand advanced trig in school you’ll never be able to function as grown adult in the real world
neocommenter · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My high school had electives for finance, first aid, home repair, etc. I was one of the few people that took them and of course others gave me shit for it.
byxis505 · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically education is just a "look what I can learn!" If you show you're capable of learning physics or something else hard it will look better even if you're not in the same field.
shutup_andlift · 2 points · Posted at 01:40:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Um hate to break it to you but the trig that everyone is required to learn is FAR from advanced.
Harambeeb · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read the quote at the bottom
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_Education_Board
This is the system every public education system is based on
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prussian_education_system
Contrast that with this
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Education_in_ancient_Greece
Tl;Dr public education is the system used for slaves, not free men.
whodeyjb · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scouts BSA
kryten4000series · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh hell yes...how about skills relevant to the real world: cooking, laundry, finances, driving etc
devyReddit · -1 points · Posted at 23:16:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s to learn how to socialise. The government wants to teach you to work and obey rules so you can build on thier wealth. You are slaves to the system. But seriously, drop out. Do what you love now! You will be way ahead of the curve if you just focus on what you love to do.
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 07:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is hilariously bad advice
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 07:47:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so?
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 08:16:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's so divorced from reality. It sounds like you have daddy's money and watched WAY too many coming-of-age teen movies, then used the money to make your dream come true
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 09:30:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nuh I just sucked at school but loved computers
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 07:49:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dropped out in middle school. I learned to code, I make about 17k per month
Red-deddit · 2 points · Posted at 08:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not everyone is that lucky. Plus with the world becoming more digitized coding will no longer be seen as a special skill, just a popular hobby like sports, arts&crafts, ect
deedaree · -6 points · Posted at 20:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or why I have to pay school taxes for the REST OF MY LIFE when I only attended public school for 4 years & never had kids. (My parents sent me to private school for 8 years.)
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 21:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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deedaree · -2 points · Posted at 22:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I've been paying for 13 years now. It seems there should be a cap. When senior citizens lose their homes because they can't afford their property taxes. My parents have been paying school taxes for 60 years, and I can reasonably look forward to paying school taxes for 60 years or more. At what point have I repaid the 4 years that I've used?
Geminii27 · 7 points · Posted at 21:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So that you aren't living in a society which doesn't know how to build or run anything, dumbass.
deedaree · -2 points · Posted at 22:04:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I already live in a society like that. Dumbass. Look around!
Geminii27 · 3 points · Posted at 22:15:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So you don't have access to cars, buildings, roads, companies, any kind of product more advanced than a stick, anything which uses supply chains, anything which needs accounting...?
Do tell us what your fascinating cave life is like. And how you're managing to post from a potato.
LutherStrode95 · 54 points · Posted at 14:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Universe
daniel4sight · 3 points · Posted at 18:59:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's big, and they say it keeps getting bigger, that's because jesus christ is my... Oh that's not right, sorry I dunno.
ninjalel · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IS MY Nice dude
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
haha big explosion go brr
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is like this giant ball pit that we all get to play in. But we are made of the balls so that is weird. We are the ball-pit thinking about itself.
athrow4 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
She thicc
But jokes aside what don't you understand? Maybe I can help?
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
42.
throwawayguy02019 · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was in a hot dense state, but nearly fourteen billion years ago
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
still doesn't explain how laws of physics functions.
WindyWindona · 191 points · Posted at 18:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender. I don't understand how people 'feel' female, male, non binary, etc. I will always respect people's pronouns and trust them when they say their gender, but I don't think I'll ever quite grok it
ratboyboi · 32 points · Posted at 22:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finally one I can answer! I’m a trans guy. It’s kinda like, when you look at your body, and it’s.... another persons. Just some tits slapped onto a meat mold. And you’re like, what the fuck?? How did those get there? Why does my voice sound like that? Etc etc... we “feel” strange and different. Like everyone saying our name isn’t our name. For me it feels like there’s a REAL me hidden inside of this body I’m in. I hope that helps!
katiek1114 · 9 points · Posted at 01:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is it a bit like alien hand syndrome, but throughout your whole body?
Ganon2012 · 10 points · Posted at 04:12:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love that.
xXDreamlessXx · 3 points · Posted at 05:44:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If this sounds offisive, I apologize because I dont want it to. Is it the body that is/was weird to you or was it what society said your original gender should be like?
ratboyboi · 3 points · Posted at 18:20:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No worries, not offensive at all. Honestly it’s both social influences and my body that makes me feel so weird. Like I’m still in transition, so if someone came up and said “you look beautiful today” my brain would sound the red alerts of uncomfortableness.
But if you have any more questions feel free to ask!
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:47:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even as someone with primarily trans and nonbinary friends, I've never really bothered to ask: is that a feeling you always had, or did it slowly escalate?
I certainly don't prescribe to traditional genders, but haven't ever felt that "self-alienation." If it escalated, was there a trigger, like puberty? If it was lifelong, i can't even imagine the constant confusion.
ratboyboi · 5 points · Posted at 18:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was lifelong for me. But it doesn’t always have to be for every trans person! Some people figure it out at 12, some at 50. For me it began before puberty, but REALLY hit home around 12, and I came out at 16. It’s been pretty bad ever since. Hope that helps!
artemis1935 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i can't figure out if the thoughts i have are dysphoric or if i'd rather just not deal with periods and stuff
ratboyboi · 2 points · Posted at 02:45:21 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really takes a while to figure out. I thought I was just a Teen Girl(tm). Don’t make any rash decisions, maybe even speak to a gender therapist? I wish you the best of luck <3
mexicanmalevloggers · 25 points · Posted at 21:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(this is not an explanation - I don’t understand it either!)
From my understanding, people use the word “gender” to describe their psychological/societal tendencies. What I don’t understand is how it is possible to classify people in this way. To me, it seems that people are way too complex to be categorized like this.
FatPam007 · 28 points · Posted at 20:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I don't get gender either. I am a female as a sex because of my chromosomes, but my brain has no gender. My brain feels just human lol
1965wasalongtimeago · 5 points · Posted at 23:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This, but also after seeing the levels of cruelty, manipulation, and egotism that pass for human these days, my brain feels like a damn space alien.
garlicnaught · 21 points · Posted at 20:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand that biologically speaking, I am a male, but I don't personally identify with the things that make a male in a societal sense. If you asked me what gender I felt I was, I wouldn't be able to pick one
commander_blyat · 16 points · Posted at 21:21:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s perfectly fine to do or like things that are not common for the most people of your gender. I don’t want to offend you, but e.g. if you are a man that likes painting his nails or using make-up: that's unusual sure (and totally ok) but you are still male, right? I want to understand this better
garlicnaught · 7 points · Posted at 22:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that's all fine, too, I just personally don't identify with masculinity whatsoever, and I don't feel like I need to. I just personally feel like it's wrong to call myself a male.
Squidillion12 · 4 points · Posted at 22:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But it is biologically correct though? I'm not trying to hate or question, but at the end of the day, how you feel may be different than the biological truth, but the truth is the truth
garlicnaught · 5 points · Posted at 22:08:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
as far as I'm concerned, what I feel is my truth
WindyWindona · 6 points · Posted at 22:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bringing up biology is weird, because we assign gender at birth by genitals. And chromosomes are weird, because there are things like XXY and XY but there's no SRY gene and all sorts of fun stuff that can cause a mismatch between chromosomes, hormones, and genitals. So that's why I'm trying to understand why people feel about different genders than why people don't have a battery of DNA and hormonal tests to determine gender since I didn't get a look at my chromosomes to determine I'm cis female
marazomeno · 4 points · Posted at 23:40:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender (qua "Sex") is biological, Gender here is (rather more) sociological.
I also still don't get it, beyond that. I respect people feeling however they feel about their bodies, nonetheless.
Edit: in case it's not clear, you are 'sexed' at birth, not 'gendered'
Squidillion12 · 2 points · Posted at 22:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chromosomal defects like YY for example or XXY as you said are extremely rare, much more rare than people that dont identify with their biological gender
justafurry · 1 points · Posted at 07:17:55 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, we should just ignore it than, right?
Squidillion12 · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:21 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not at all, just saying that the vast majority of people who are trans do not have these defects, never implied anything like that.
justafurry · 1 points · Posted at 07:15:10 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
The vast majority? Where is your data to make that claim.
Squidillion12 · 1 points · Posted at 16:26:43 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have specific data, but as I said these defects are much more rare than transgender people, meaning that the vast majority must not have these defects. I dont know why you are so hellbent on fighting every point I make
Yaden2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that’s bc gender is different from sex, sex is what you are biologically, gender is the societal roles and categories assigned to each sex
kerplunkerfish · 15 points · Posted at 20:52:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Societal trends change like British weather - if you base any part of your identity on what society expects it to be *[right now], you might struggle to define it in the long run.
WindyWindona · 6 points · Posted at 22:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's part of what confuses me, since 'masculine' in 21st century USA is different from what was masculine in 17th century France and so on. So is it identifying more with the norms of a certain gender in a society? Or something else?
jameshatesmlp · 3 points · Posted at 00:36:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender is a social construct. As the social construct applies to the lives of people here, they do not conform. That's totally okay. Non Binary people don't conform to either, and to them it's more comfortable to go as... Neither. For trans people they usually (but not always.) Have gender dysphoria and feel like they are in the wrong body (but gender euphoria is just as valid a reason to transition imo). Point is, gender is bullshit but it's the bullshit we live with. No one needs conform to it if it doesn't make them comfortable.
romeonohomeo · 6 points · Posted at 21:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's something that I've heard described to me as "cis by default". Sometimes sitting down and thinking about your gender identity is too much work but the gender you've been assigned doesn't bother you too much. There's plenty of people that are in your position, my friend.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Legit
TehMulbnief · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey fellow AMAB 👋🏻
[deleted] · 22 points · Posted at 20:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From what I gather it is a hard concept to understand when your gender identity and assigned gender are congruous (cisgender). Which makes sense, we live in a world and a culture that was shaped around cis people. People who grow up in a society shaped for who you are often have trouble understanding the plight of those who struggle against those norms, whether that is heteronormativity or white normativity or male normativity. That is even more true for a cisnormative culture because gender identity is a less understood and more esoteric concept wrapped up in several competing concepts including sex, gender norms and roles, and gender presentation.
But you already said the important part, even if it’s not something you understand you can still appreciate that everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, so right on!
didthiswork · 4 points · Posted at 04:56:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was looking for this one. I also dont get it. they/ them nonbinary specifically. I dont need to get it to respect peoples' choices but I just cant wrap my mind around it.
Melendine · 1 points · Posted at 09:35:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I explain it to people. I’m a women. But I identify with my gender as much as I identify as a brown eyed person. Yeah it’s a thing. But it has 0 impact on my life apart from how other people treat me. So the whole go chat to other women. Good to see a women in a man’s job. Etc. To me it makes a much sense as grouping together to chat with someone who also has brown eyes.
deedaree · 10 points · Posted at 20:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how you can't identify with the parts that are in your pants. They've been there all your life. That's not to say I don't respect your choice to be or love whoever you want. Love is love! And I hope everyone can love themselves. I just don't understand. A friend once said it's because I'm SO straight! Lol
bonethugznhominy · 9 points · Posted at 01:27:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know how you can tell where your hand is in a pitch black room? It's because your brain has a neural "map" of the body. Part of our sense of touch. The prominent theory is that dysphoria comes from that "map" being wired to expect opposite parts.
Brynne-Websearcher · 3 points · Posted at 20:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m cisgender, and I only necessarily understand trans people, because they were born with the wrong parts but they identify as the opposite gender, it’s confusing, but as long as you’re respectful you’ll still be appreciated!
romeonohomeo · 8 points · Posted at 21:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's hard to understand something like that when you've never experienced it yourself. And that's okay. Having your gender identity be different from your sex is an experience that's hard to grasp if that's not something you go through.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 07:55:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hormones matter though
bonethugznhominy · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most people stumble because they think they never went through the same process. Damn near all of you did...when you were about three or four. And I'm talking about a step further back than what most people assume. This isn't fashion choices, personality traits we assign a gender, etc. It's more which standards you compare yourself to or how you respond when someone calls you one or the other. And based on the best evidence we have, the core component of that is neurological. Instinct to model actions off one parent over the other, nervous system being wired to expect body features that are different than reality, that sort of stuff.
For most of us, that finished as a toddler and we never had to think of it on that level again. To the point most people can casually brush off the entire notion. It's the first form of identity development for the vast majority of people. You don't have to think of that psychological makeup as a separate thing from genitals, secondary sex characteristics, etc. because all that gets rolled up into "gender" as a single aspect. Which is confusing because we talk about terms like sex/gender as a single trait. But they're both a sum-total judgement of a lot of factors right?
The reality is, no matter what cis people may tell ourselves if everyone started legitimately perceiving you as the opposite sex it would seriously screw with your sense of self on a level most people can't handle. Especially since that experience would probably show you the difference go a bit deeper than you think. Trans people go through the same process of development, just their identity develops in contrast with what everyone else is saying. Which usually results in a looooot of conflict with people who should be loved ones.
That said, gender, or better "gender identity" is the psychological/neurological component of sex. It's not really much more complicated than that. Sexual traits don't always line up neatly, and it isn't our place to dictate which ones are more important to someone who has to live with that.
CoolnessEludesMe · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As we march into the future we are all strangers in a strange land. Hard to grok things that are so different from what we grew up with.
bonethugznhominy · 5 points · Posted at 01:29:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first people to undergo this treatment did so before WW2. The current standards of care have been mostly unchanged since the 60s, and there have been plenty of depictions in media. Everyone sure seemed to know about it when I was a kid.
The only thing that's changed is seeing these people as more than a punchline or gross-out gag.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 23:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mitoke · 0 points · Posted at 01:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. As gender is a social construct and part of the whole concept is that there’s no right or wrong, how does feel that they are the wrong gender? Isn’t what you’re actually saying is that you don’t mesh with what you think someone of your sex is supposed to feel.
btj3 · 94 points · Posted at 18:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom will see me about to do the dishes and then be like "remember to do the dishes!" I don't even live at home anymore
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 02:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I lose motivation when this happens
thefakemexoxo · 1 points · Posted at 15:28:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriend does this and it makes me want to throttle him. I’m an adult, not a child.
Josella-Playton · 320 points · Posted at 14:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people base their identity on stupid jobs. I could understand if you had a profession that was important and/or required lots of skill and experience, but if you have a job any moron can do, why hang your identity on that hook?
XaWEh · 253 points · Posted at 15:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our occupation is the number one thing we spend time on (well except for perhaps sleep). If someone doesn't have a major hobby or a family they are proud of, they will hold their occupation as the highest priority in their life. And so if someone criticizes that, they will get defensive
rachelsqueak · 60 points · Posted at 17:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh geez, me when I was store manager of a Little Caesars making only $10.25/hr. I would be there every single day and work ~55 hrs/week. The only other things I'd do were sleep and smoke crack. My job was all I had going for me.
waterfountain_bidet · 9 points · Posted at 21:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That actually seems on brand for the Little Caesars' managers I've met. Glad you're done there!
rachelsqueak · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me too! Turned my life around
Habs1989 · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was crack expensive?
rachelsqueak · 8 points · Posted at 22:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn't exactly expensive, but as soon as you run out, you gotta buy more. I also had to pay for my then-boyfriend and his friend. It was easy to spend $100+ a night
GraMacTical0 · 19 points · Posted at 18:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When catching up with people I haven't seen in years and years, I try to tap-dance around asking about what they do for a living. I wait tables for a living, and while I'm not embarrassed by it, it's just a job that puts food on the table and pays my bills. At least with my job, I know it's not that interesting to talk about, but most people's jobs aren't that interesting. I'd rather know what someone does in their spare time!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 21:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good, come talk to me. I was a SAHM for 20 years and am now an over-educated, unemployable 50-something who has no career as my identity. I cringe when people say, “so what do you do?”
toooldforlove · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get ya. I'm 47. I was SAHM for years and dealt with seizures. I tried to when I was younger, but my seizures made it almost impossible. Meds weren't helping, and I tried many. I went for 13 years without attempting to work. However, I did attend college during this time. I didn't want contact with anyone I used to know. I didn't want that question "So what do you do for a living".
My seizures got better and started looking for work. It took four years of looking for work before I found temporary job my daughter was working at. That lasted 3 months. I felt more confident and tried looking for a job again. No one bit.
A year after that I got the same temp at the same place, and finally a job as a concession worker in movie theater. Not the best, but it was something.
Now I am laid off because we closed due to covid. I'm hoping to find a better job as soon things get better, but I'm not holding out any hope. But my experience has me fearing that ageism is a thing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:41:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish you lots of luck. Maybe the theater will hire you back soon. And yes, ageism is a thing. Please stay safe!
toooldforlove · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Stay safe too!
FightThePouvoir · 7 points · Posted at 19:02:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A sociology professor talked about this. It's how we stratify ourselves with others. It's just what we do. Like how animals sniff each other. I do like your point though. I've heard some people followup with "I didn't ask what you did for a living, I asked what do YOU like to do". Or something along those lines.
Not_Pelle · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if that's what you actually like to do?
FightThePouvoir · 1 points · Posted at 14:12:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's easy, you talk about it and recommended it for other people. Tell them what you like about it, how you got into it, why you stay into it, and why they should consider doing it. I am a software developer and have been one for over 23 years. I cannot talk about the work I do so that makes it conversationally awkward. But what I do do, is ask the person I'm conversing with if they know someone who is a software developer. I ask them if they know anything about software code. I will tell them that I work with such a wide range of people they would not believe it. Young, old, men, women, grandmothers, grandfathers, millennials, gamers, weird people, normal people and on and on.
Busy_Hospital · 8 points · Posted at 19:10:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BROTHER IM A FORK LIFT DRIVING BEER CHUGGING AMERICAN AND IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT BROTHER YOU CAN KEEP WALKING SNOWFLAKE I STAND FOR THE PLEDGE AND ONLY ANSWER TO JESUS. /s
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...most my coworkers haha.
good dudes tho!
thunderfart_99 · 4 points · Posted at 17:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody on their deathbed says they wanted to spend more time at work.
akg720 · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really feel this. I was 26 with just a high school diploma but managed to work my ass off enough to where I was running a multi-million dollar surgical center. I was so proud of that and absolutely loved my job. Then I had a massive mental breakdown. Been jobless for a year and half and now Dollar General won’t even hire me and I feel like I’ve totally lost my sense of identity.
simmonson · 2 points · Posted at 18:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This goes for all jobs no matter how skilled.
NetflixAndZzzzzz · 7 points · Posted at 19:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get it if you worked your entire life to be an astronaut or brain surgeon (or even something less prestigious, like practicing law or politics).
I don’t get the amount of pride some restaurant and office managers get in selling ALL of their time to micromanage like, twelve people. They’re probably not getting paid enough, so their self worth has to come from believing the job is crucial to their identity.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if they are nice people, why can't they have that as an identity and be proud of that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personality: CEO
qrowess · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My identity rests on my job because it's where I spend the majority of my time and it's very relatable to others. Yes I only work fast food, but I spend 10 hours a day there. In comparison I could rest my identity on being a college student, but I only spend 4 hours a day there and nobody I'm friends with really understands my field or what my research is on, making me a less relatable person.
Geminii27 · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...hate to say it, but spending ten hours a day working a fast food job doesn't increase your relatability.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your "stupid job" is 1/3 of your entire life. Another third is for sleeping. Besides what you do outside of work, your career is one of the most important things about you.
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an income source, not an identity hook. I could do ten different jobs in a year and as long as they paid the same for about the same amount of work (and didn't have particularly different chances of injury or anything), I can't see how it'd make any difference to my life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why identify as anything, yes we get comfort in being around people who share the same beliefs and act in similar manners but using it to hang your hat on is pretty asinine.
It’s like having a conversation with someone and them immediately telling you what they do without you asking. It’s fucking weird. Can’t we all just be cool people who have awesome hobbies that don’t define us.
Birdhawk · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you. But also, I’ve noticed over the years that society really needs those kinds of people. Even jobs any moron can do are important to all of us. It’s why we get annoyed when someone sucks at their job and we think “ugh come on any moron could do this!”. Having someone who bases their identity on their job means they give a fuck about their job. It’s good to have people who take pride in being good at their job even if it sucks, pays for crap, and isn’t going to move them up any management ladder.
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When they have nothing else to hang their identity on.
trollingcynically · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If all you have is your job, then it is who you are. There are far more people in the world, including the rich world, who have little else than their job than those with interesting lives. Some people have a job that they really like. Sometimes the other parts of your life seem to have a lot of stigma attached. I am an adult who's major hobby revolves around video games. This is stigmatized. I like to play music and am pretty good at it. I am not a professional nor do I play out, so to most, this does not make me a musician. Some people are just happy to be humble and show this by embracing their humble job. Your job can explain your station in life.
buckthefuffs · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't begin to comprehend the opposite. Why wouldn't someone be passionate about something they spend most of their lives doing? Even if the job isn't "important"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't one just be proud of what they are and are good at?
Sure other people are maybe more experienced and more intelligent. But that is the case in every field
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, sexual orientation. People that base their entire existence on being gay. Ugh...old.
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or a medical condition. If I get (or find out I was born with) some kind of permanent injury or condition, I'm not going to base my entire identity around it. I have a shitload of things in my life more interesting to mindlessly cling to.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like your obsession with pudding?
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 11:32:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well exactly.
IceStar3030 · 0 points · Posted at 20:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm a mother"
k?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people are searching for a definable identity. While it’s easy and laudable to define yourself to the world as a surgeon or an astronaut, as a parent who never really had a career I can see how people are just stating what they feel is their main occupation. I’m a mother with no career and I never say parenting is my “occupation.” I’m embarrassed.
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 23:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because some people are afraid of change. Some people think that that’s all they are worth.
Thatsmyhashtag · 202 points · Posted at 16:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t get ‘stay inside, there is a global pandemic’. It’s simple, just don’t open the front door! (Except for work, daily exercise, medicine/medical needs or weekly food shop!). I just don’t understand why there are so many people who don’t understand this.
Stacywyvern · 52 points · Posted at 20:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whats worse is coronavirus parties. Parents think its like Chicken Pox parties and want their kids exposed to it at the same time to get it over with
briuh13 · 13 points · Posted at 21:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh my god is this actually a thing?
Stacywyvern · 15 points · Posted at 21:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep just look it up. I know a child got really sick when his parents took him to a coronavirus party
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:18:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like a bunch of people need to lose their parenting privileges
briuh13 · 2 points · Posted at 02:57:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh god why
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:54:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad genuinely believes this is a good idea.
Ganon2012 · 2 points · Posted at 04:14:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Considering that we're not even completely sure if you can or can't get it more than once or relapse, that's even worse.
Stacywyvern · 4 points · Posted at 04:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its been confirmed that people who had it then went away, they got sick again with the virus
Ganon2012 · 5 points · Posted at 04:17:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but I meant we don't know for sure if it's a relapse or they caught it again from someone else. Unless we've figured that out since I heard about it.
TFRek · 3 points · Posted at 03:33:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad wants everyone to get exposed and/or die so that he can go back to work, uninterrupted.
My dad has a lot of mental health issues, and the only times he feels "normal" are while working, or while blackout drunk.
D4rk_Dr4gonite · 2 points · Posted at 00:55:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry. What the fuck now?
kerplunkerfish · 12 points · Posted at 20:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They understand, they just don't care.
redandbluenights · 4 points · Posted at 23:06:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I literally just passed a BIRTHDAY PARTY with about 35 people in attendance in Cherry Hill NJ. I was livid.
Yeah, you're outside. But I know those people don't all live in your damn house, assholes.
BobioliCommentoli · 4 points · Posted at 04:36:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going outside will not spread corona. Having the door open will not spread corona. Gathering in large groups will spread corona. If it’s nice out open the door. Fresh air and sunlight are good for you.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 07:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But.. for how long? 2-3 years?
TCBHale · 17 points · Posted at 19:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"muh freedom cant be taken from me"
Stacywyvern · 13 points · Posted at 20:06:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If this gets worse we might have martial law and its mostly people who think their rights being taken away now are gonna be blamed
SBASP1228 · 4 points · Posted at 19:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly it
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 19:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The virus isn't airborne, it's from wet spray. Stepping outside isn't going to expose you to it.
hotDoggey · 9 points · Posted at 20:48:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people are quite active and have a lot of energy (mainly younger ones). It's quite hard for such people to stay inside and not get bored to death even with games and such. Nice weather outside and sunshine after months of cold winter also make going outside very tempting. And like someone already said it's not in the air all around us and there are safe ways of going outside and enjoying all the benefits.
What I don't get is people with symptoms walking around instead of staying at home for two weeks. Those people are what's wrong.
this-is-justathroway · 12 points · Posted at 21:36:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But people who might not be displaying symptoms may still go outside and expose others to the virus. Yes it’s nice weather, but everyone is in the same position. Yes you may be bored but so is everyone else. Stay inside. It’s not difficult to understand. Stay inside, shelter in place, whatever.
hotDoggey · 10 points · Posted at 21:39:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Again, there are safe ways of going outside. If i go for a hike in the middle of the woods who am I gonna infect? The vaaaast majority of infections happen when they go to the supermarket and other such high traffic areas which you can't stop since people need to go shopping. Going for a walk poses virtually no risk.
TrogledyWretched · 2 points · Posted at 09:50:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's fine and lovely, i just don't get the kids football games and porch parties i keep seeing in my neighborhood...
MarvinDowneyJr · 4 points · Posted at 21:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I live in a very small village and when I go outside I don‘t go near any people and keep my distance. That and I have to go outside to feed my pets.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 01:54:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, if I didn’t have to worry about spreading it I wouldn’t think twice about risking my life to go explore the world. I get severely depressed when I stay in one place for a while. I get that outdoor exercise is still allowed given social distancing is adhere to, but working in a hospital means I must be extra cautious. I’ll be opening my birthday in two days at home alone and at work.
I’m already beginning to feel shaky and anxious, adding on to the locked up feeling New England winters always cause me. The only saving grace for me is that I’m an extreme introvert and don’t really enjoy hanging out with anyone except for two or three close friends.
The day my hospital closes its covid wing (which will be a while after the rest of the country reopens) I’m heading north, and I’m not stopping till I’m the only one around.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I went to the bank to deposit my monthly salary. The cops were there and told me that it was not a good enough reason. They fined me 135€.
I'm going out :) Oh yeah. I gave 10% of my monthly salary for my freedom so I'm goddamn using it. Downvote me all you like. I give no fuck :)
Eran8433 · 25 points · Posted at 18:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin mining
garlicnaught · 4 points · Posted at 20:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miners' computers complete the calculations that keep the bitcoin infrastructure up and running, and for that, they are rewarded a very small amount iirc
Jelle5388 · 2 points · Posted at 22:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever watched that threeblueonebrown youtube channel? He has an excellent explanation.
Source: https://youtu.be/bBC-nXj3Ng4
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the computers solved algorithms
ThePeopleOnTheCouch · 64 points · Posted at 14:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works
Seevian · 61 points · Posted at 16:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure if youre memeing or genuinely asking but
The idea is that he erases segments of time from the perspective of the target.
Let's say that you are taking a drink from a glass of water. That action can be split into 3 sections: grabbing the glass, bringing it to your mouth, and swallowing the water in your mouth. Using his ability, he can, for all intents and purposes, erase that middle section of you bringing the glass to your mouth. From your perspective, you grabbed the glass, and then auddenly your mouth is full of water, probably causing you to choke and spit it out.
In a fight, this is incredibly useful. Instead of him approaching you to throw a punch, giving you time to raise your guard and mentaly prepare to block or counter, he would simply erase all the time it took to walk up to you and throw it, meaning you go from "Oh, he's standing over there" to "I am being punched in the face by him" with no time to prepare
LuftDrage · 15 points · Posted at 21:51:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know who this King Crimsy guy is but he sounds op
theblackcanaryyy · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ummm, I’m right there with you. Where did he come from?
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
JoJos bizzare Adventure. It’s really popular among anime fans
theblackcanaryyy · 1 points · Posted at 08:58:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks!
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the actual confusing part of king crimson comes down to the specifics. The fact that it breaks rules set up for itself is what makes people confused.
I have not found a single explanation that accounts for everything it does. There is always one example where it doesnt make sense.
The cleaning of the room, the risotto lil bomber thing and the elevator scene are three scenes that often show up as contradicting explanations.
My headcanon is that the room cleanup was Araki not entirely having planned how it works at that point and wanting to make a cool scene.
Unless someone wants me to explain it in depth i wont, because this would be a pretty long comment.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The consistent is: KC erases segments of time, like let’s say 8 seconds. Anything that happens within those 8 seconds, like you falling off the stairs and breaking your ankle, is erased.
In someone else’s perspective, at one point you were just about to go down the staircase, and then you’re on the floor with a broken ankle.
When the user cleaned his room, he erased the ‘descent of the staircase’ (the process of cleaning up) and only left the ‘broken ankle’ (a clean room)
The same concept applies for the Aerosmith scene (Risotto’s death) and I don’t remember quite well what happened on the elevator scene
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your explanation is kind of lacking i would say.
The issue is in some cases he can act during skipped time, in others he cannot. It all seems really inconsistent when you think about the ways he uses it, which is why it has become such a meme. But it does make sense once you get what it really does.
In the Risotto case he skips the bullets hitting him, but they still hit Risotto.This would indicate that during skipped time, the world cannot interact with him but he can interact with the world.
Another reason the cleanup doesn't make sense is because of the time it would take, he cannot skip that far so i assume it was just ill considered when the scene was written.
The actual explanation to how KC works is fate. Fate is a very prevalent theme in jojo, and KC works against fate. Its a main part of the themes that while the gang accept and fight fate, Diavolo avoids it instead. That is why he tries to hide himself and why his ability works as it does.
During skipped time he becomes detached from fate. Anything that is fated to happen to him will not occur, while everything that is fated to others will still happen. As such he can yeet Narancia, because as the rolling stone already dictated that was his fate. Thats why he can cut off hands in elevators, because it was already fated. What he cannot do is do something that would not have happened if time had passed as usual.
What is so broken about KC is Epitaph. By seeing the future he can know what his and others fate are, and skip any bad fates he would have, or remove some of his own attacks from peoples memory. If he ever sees anyone hurting him, he can just skip it, and it never happened.
His stand is legitimately fucking busted. Unless you have fucking GER there is no way to beat him, like at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:26:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, he’s OP to the point where you have to bring up what would be one of the strongest characters in all of fiction. And I don’t consider that a stretch
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And you can also apply this to defend yourself. Let’s say you get a knife thrown at you, and it splits into 3 sections: throwing the knife, the knife hitting you, and you bleeding out. You can erase the segment where you are hit by the knife, and to the assailant, it appears as if the knife teleported and is now behind you, flying away. And how will you react to that? That’s what Epitaph is for. You’ll be able to predict when the knife will be thrown, as long as it’s thrown within 10 seconds. This is what makes King Crimson kind of overpowered, and may put him above Star Platinum
zy_saki · 47 points · Posted at 16:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what king crimson does is really simple, he-
-and thats how he works
Neoragex13 · 9 points · Posted at 16:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being serious, he just have the power to cause lag to the world.
geek-kun · 5 points · Posted at 19:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He can basically erase a small section of time. Since JoJo revolves around the concept of fate, he can foresee peoples' fate using Epitaph, then cause them to come crashing into it faster using King Crimson.
Amana_HB · 6 points · Posted at 16:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He paints himself in red and rules
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 2 points · Posted at 22:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Robert Fripp essentially files lawsuit against you via Chromological manipulation
foul_dwimmerlaik · -5 points · Posted at 18:31:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought you were talking about the prog rock group and I was about to be like "YES THANK GOD SOMEONE ELSE UNDERSTANDS THEIR MUSIC IS CRAP THAT ONLY SOUNDS GOOD IF YOU'RE HIGH AS BALLS," but nevermind.
agentwiggles · 8 points · Posted at 19:10:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
>:(
foul_dwimmerlaik · -3 points · Posted at 19:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not my fault all of their songs sound like music you'd hear at a Renaissance Festival, with lyrics like this:
THERE'S TWEETY BIRDS AND LOVELY MAIDS
BUT ALL THEIR SKULLS ARE FULL OF AIDS
IN THE COURT OF THE CRIMSON KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIING
Repeat for 75 minutes.
Dorwytch · 7 points · Posted at 20:02:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I guess you heard their first album and literally nothing else
foul_dwimmerlaik · 0 points · Posted at 20:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, if I don't like a band's first album, I tend not to go back for more, which is a completely reasonable position to take. Again, I'd probably have loved it if I listened to it after I started using hallucinogens (or any other drug that makes things sound deeper than they are and interferes with the perception of time), but alas, 'twas not meant to be.
Dorwytch · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you haven't listened to even 1/10th of a band's discography it's dishonest to try to categorize them like you have in your previous comments. And you certainly dont need to be high to enjoy them, you're just not in to what they're trying to accomplish. Which is fine. There are lots of artists I don't care for, but I dont go around saying they suck because of it.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm allowed to think artichokes suck, no matter how they are prepared. It doesn't matter if there's been ten new dishes invented since I first tasted them- they still suck.
Dorwytch · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Superfluous comment, but ok
spankymuffin · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you listened to much of their music? It's not for everyone, but it's prog so it's pretty diverse. Some of their music I don't like. And the latter half of their discography is particularly different. I don't use drugs and I very much enjoy their music.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I listened to "In the Court of the Crimson King," which I was genuinely interested in because I saw it being referenced by authors I liked and a lot of musicians as this transcendent masterwork, and it was... definitely not that. It was such a letdown, and the lyrics were so ridiculously silly (despite the incredible depth attributed to them by their fans) that I just couldn't stomach the thought of more of their music.
spankymuffin · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The song or the album? My favorite King Crimson albums are "Red" and "Larks Tongues in Aspic." The music isn't really the kind of thing you play in the background. It's kind of like classical, where you have to focus your attention just on the music to enjoy and appreciate. Lots of interesting musical ideas going on. You'll listen once to appreciate the cool guitar work, and then on the second listen you suddenly hear all the fascinating drumming going on in the background. Listen again and you'll notice something else. There's a lot to take in. And it's a mistake to judge their songs just by the first few seconds, or even minutes (they've got some long songs). You may start to hear something and think "eh, that's sappy" or "this is dissonant; I'm not listening to the rest." But it's prog rock, and lots of these songs change considerably through the course of each song.
A good example is the song "Starless," which is one of the band's most beloved tracks. It's basically three "songs" in one. Starts off with a slow, simple, crooning song. The only lyrical part. By itself, it's nothing special. But then it transitions into this creepy, dissonant, monotonous segment that rather uncomfortably builds tension. A lot of tension. You listen thinking "where is this all going?" And then the last part kicks in to break all that tension, and you realize it was all worth it. It's where the song really hits its stride. But if you jump to any particular part of the song, or listen to any of the three parts individually, you may think, "what do people like about this?" You gotta listen--and focus--from the beginning, with an open mind.
But no shame in not liking it. It's not for everyone. Especially if you care a lot about lyrical content. I'm not really a fan of their lyrics, and barely pay attention to it. I love what they do with the music though. So interesting.
foul_dwimmerlaik · -1 points · Posted at 23:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lyrics are a big deal for me, that's also why I can't stand Rush. If you can't write good lyrics, then just go full instrumental. Lord knows both King Crimson and Rush would be better for it. I've dated way too many guys who were convinced they could get me to like Rush because of the musicianship, ugh, no. If you've got words in your songs, they need to not suck.
My big prog-rock likes are Pink Floyd and the Alan Parsons Project. Floyd, largely (I think) due to Gilmore's influence, knows the value of restraint. A song doesn't have to have 27 time signature changes to be good. It's okay to take a breath or two, and not have a bajillion things happening all at the same time.
spankymuffin · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was never much of a lyrics kinda person. I just naturally don't pay attention to them. I'll hear a voice and just treat it like another instrument. Also, even if I am paying attention to the lyrics, I frequently have trouble discerning the exact words. Rather than look up the lyrics, I normally just tune them out. Honestly, if I want some interesting, thought-provoking words, I'll open up a book. Lots of these artists are fantastic musicians, but it hardly makes them great poets as well. Even Pink Floyd, which I love, will make me roll my eyes with its lyrics from time to time.
As for "too much" going on in prog rock, I'd say King Crimson isn't the biggest of offenders. You have stuff like Yes and Dream Theater on that side of the spectrum, which can sometimes get tiresome. But it's prog, so there's always lots of diversity. The band Yes, for instance, likes to pump out these long, over-the-top, 20-minute monsters, with god knows how many instruments and pretentious vocals. But then they'll also come out with some simple, acousticy, knee-slapping kinds of tracks too. It's what I like about prog. You got a bunch of talented musicians trying to experiment and come up with interesting sounds.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think musicians can't match writers, you need to listen to more Leonard Cohen. And Gilmore's solo stuff.
What I hate in prog-rock are songs that sound like someone just took a ton of different challenging bits of music and crammed them all together just with nothing tying them to each other. It feels like meaningless showmanship. You don't have to tell me how big your dick is- just whip it out already, so to speak. King Crimson isn't the biggest offender (Rush), but there was enough of that, plus the wildly pretentious and very silly lyrics (on "In the Court of the Crimson King") that I was turned off.
Though I do actually like some of Yes's stuff, so if I contradict myself, well then, I contradict myself. I am vast, contain multitudes, yadda yadda.
spankymuffin · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah. I mean if we're talking over-the-top showmanship, I think Yes is a far bigger offender than Rush. I like Rush's music, but I have very little patience for the vocalist. Really don't like his singing. The drummer is one of the best in the business though, and the band is responsible for some really classic, addictive riffs.
A lot of people interpret the song Starless to be making fun of that obnoxious, proggy showmanship you're talking about. You have this very long segment devoted mostly to guitar, and a band like Yes would've filled that space in with all kinds of guitar solo wankery. But in Starless, the guitar just belts out a long series of single notes that get higher and higher in pitch (starts at around 4:30 in the song). It's kind of a "fuck you" to that "let's make this as complex as possible and show off how awesome we are" mentality.
I'm sometimes in the mood for a little wankery though. But yeah, other times it can be obnoxious.
foul_dwimmerlaik · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A little wankery is fine. I do like some Yes songs, after all. And yeah, Geddy Lee's voice is like a mosquito whine and Neal Peart stands alone.
Hepcatoy · 22 points · Posted at 14:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything astrophysics related. Distance and time seem so strange in the universe, but it makes sense to us on earth.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Law of physics
ihaner · 21 points · Posted at 18:32:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the world. What is the point of it why are we here what are we doing is it power to get control of other people and things. Or is it to be happy and successful?
romeonohomeo · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people think we're here for a purpose, based on whatever religion they follow. Some people think we're here on accident and life has no real purpose. I personally believe there's no real point to being here, we're just here. I live my life to be happy because why waste my one accidental shot at life? Live your life in whatever way is fulfilling to you, it's really up to the individual person.
ihaner · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you can't be truly happy no one is.
LaTalullah · 2 points · Posted at 05:43:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe not all the time but I am Truly Happy often. I can also walk around sobbing with grief but I have a lot of feeling s
WhalesVirginia · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a relative statement. What I, you, and others think of as truly happy are different things. Thus it’s not really a statement that has meaning.
ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 10:05:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my opinion to be truly happy is to not want anythimg more from the world.
bigshit123 · 1 points · Posted at 11:38:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am truly happy. Its all about perspective mate. You’ll figure it out. Good luck in life!
ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 13:19:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you are right
garlicnaught · 7 points · Posted at 20:21:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the grand scheme of things, there is no point. There's no goal to reach or game to win. We just exist. We as individuals give life meaning. Some seek power and wealth, some wish to bring change, and some only want to be happy at the end of it all. We're just animals with a uniquely complex perception of reality.
WhalesVirginia · 2 points · Posted at 07:39:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no reason, just do whatever the fuck you want. Hopefully you get to enjoy the ride.
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They want to feel good. The body decides what feels good, and steers yourself in the right direction
neuenono · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"To look out for each other" didn't cross your mind?
ihaner · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No bad idea.
NareFare · 48 points · Posted at 20:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to read music. I'm amazed at how people can look at those frickin wierd looking symbols and say "oh yea, La La La La LAAAAA "
BLizardLeLizard · 15 points · Posted at 20:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s simple. Humans can recognize that a symbol with a particular shape and place can have a meaning. If told the meaning, they can memorize the meaning of this weird shape thing. I’m guessing you no the logo for something, right? Such as a store, game, show, etc. When you see the logo, you instantly realize what it represents. Now pretend it’s some notes on a music staff. You see the note, and instantly recognize what note it represents and how to play it.
MelodramaSnubbed · 10 points · Posted at 23:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s just like another language. you learn the letters (symbols) and the ‘punctuation’ and read what sound it should make
My_dog_is-a-hotdog · 4 points · Posted at 03:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been reading music for most of my life at this point so it’s really natural, like reading a book or sentence. But thinking about it it’s really weird because it’s like I’ve assigned personalities to each of the notes. Like D is a swell guy and E is a Nerd. A is an pretentious asshole and G a big Dope that is Ds younger brother.
Timetoruinlife · 2 points · Posted at 03:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practice. There are also tricks to learn where notes are. Also, I play the violin, and when I read sheet music, I don’t think of the notes, I just remember what note is what finger.
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically if there is a C looking thing next to the fraction looking thing, it is probably going to sound low. If it is a different symbol, it (probably) can be either low or high. Unless it is one if the many clefs never used. And onto the actual notes and stuff. Lower means it will sound lower and same with higher. To find note lengths, you need to know the time signature. This is the fraction thing at the start. I dont really understand those so Im just going to use a normal 4/4 for this example. If it is a tiny oval, it has 4 beats. If it is a non filled in circle with a line on it, it is 2 beats. A filled circle with a line is 1 beat. A filled circle with a line and then a line sticking out of the line gets half of the last note. Then they just add lines to the other line to make it smaller. However, none of this matters if there is an arc with a dot above the note. This symbol means the direction or musicion decides how long to hold the note.
AlwaysTappin · 265 points · Posted at 18:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women’s fashion. High heels? Painful. Those long ass fake lashes and fake nails. Why? Caked on makeup. Why? Pants with no pockets. The list goes on.
GetsTheWorm · 201 points · Posted at 19:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trust me, we want real pockets.
haybay44 · 42 points · Posted at 19:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For real. Im just shopping out of what is available to me. Men’s pants typically don’t fit my body well or else I’d be buying them
Elliot2308 · 0 points · Posted at 02:13:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That might have something to do with the lack of a penis
haybay44 · 4 points · Posted at 02:14:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah. More to do with wide hips compared to my waist. I’ve got one pair of men’s pants that fit great though and i love them
Timetoruinlife · 4 points · Posted at 03:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or at least pockets that barely fit my fucking fingers.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:50:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AwesomeAni · 1 points · Posted at 16:02:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it looks pretty and people like it? Dude leave your mom alone. Poor woman wants to look nice and have fun and her son insults her for it. Rude.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You say that, but obviously your the minority otherwise there would be.more clothes with real pockets
QueenNoMarbles · 4 points · Posted at 02:07:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, the great majority of women WANT real pockets. However, I think that there's two reasons we don't have pockets. First, money leads the way. Purses? Fancy wallets? Clutches? If we had normal pockets, most women wouldn't have to buy purses, clutches or large wallets. Second, socialization and the message society sends. It's normalized to expect women to wear clothing that hugs the figure. You can't have pants with huge pockets if they're "skinny." Also, big buldges in pockets of, say skinny jeans, is not really attractive. So "want" or "demand" isn't ALWAYS what chooses the supply. There are manny more factors at play here.
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Lucriaz · 18 points · Posted at 20:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao they wouldnt cause them asses want us to buy purses -.- If we do get pockets they are either small or cant hold crap weighing more than an empty wallet without looking or feeling weird asfuck. Anything els is rare, atleast from my experience.
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Lucriaz · 7 points · Posted at 20:52:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have found even dresses that had great pockets with no issues with weight of the items. But way to many make stretchy pockets if they put in one. So put a phone or w.e in there and suddenly you find yourself kicking your shit with the knees. And yeah it does feel like some time way back fash biz just made an agreement to push purses since even fucking jeans can come with a tiny ass pocket that can maybe hold a coin. Or fake ass shit that look like the real deal until you get up close.
Since highschool I have been in a fb group just to find clothes with pockets cause I hate always carrying a purse or backpack. In a pinch boobpocketing works v.v
ScumbagLady · 14 points · Posted at 21:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot resist telling strangers (or anyone who complements a dress or skirt I'm wearing) that it has pockets.
Stranger: "Hey! That dress is so cute!"
Me: "IT HAS POCKETS!!!" puts hands in pockets and does awkward waddle
...every fucking time.
Lucriaz · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg same! Flapping pockets while waddling awkwardly xD And in store: Fondling dress, find nice side pockets. Mouth: IIIIHHIHIHI weird happy noises Brain: Shut up you fucking weirdo Mouth: almost sexual weird sounds when discovering it's not the kind that sagg down when putting in stuff
Or if with friends waving it at them screaming about pockets ~ I wish there was more of them so I can stop being so freaking weird abt it
ScumbagLady · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I need us to shop together, so we can pretend our weird shopping noises are to each other. Then we can pretend we've just invented a new language and bobble around the store with our big brains? Just a thought lol
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tarboo00 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guess definitely makes jeans and purses. Most designers make pants AND purses. Purses and pants are often made by the same companies— I have no idea where you’re getting this idea that they are separate entities, like women have to go to special separate stores to get their pants and their purses. I work at a retail store and when there’s not a pandemic happening you can definitely get a discount Jessica Simpson purse to go with your discount Jessica Simpson jeans which will have shallow, useless pockets.
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tarboo00 · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if that were true boy’s emo skinny jeans wouldn’t have had the pockets they did. I remember girls buying the boy’s version of the jeans for the pockets because they were full-sized instead of tiny ones (Also longer, I’m old, you wanted your pants to just draaaaaag back then). Just as tight. I’ve also bought plenty of clothes as a woman that were NOT in any way tight or form-fitting that could have had normal pockets that just didn’t. Jeans, sweats, shorts, hoodies, sometimes you even think they have pockets and they’re FAKE, just sewn on the outside even though the garment has room inside. It’s bizarre.
Also, if you look at the history of pockets you will find a history of sexism both in the fashion and social realms and with the way capitalism works I’m really surprised this is your sticking point. It’s a genius marketing plan. Women sometimes carry purses>make women’s pockets obsolete>market for purses will rise out of necessity. You have to create a need for your product.
NovaScotiaaa · 42 points · Posted at 19:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Certain beauty ideals and standards have long been ingrained into our society for decades. It’s all about the illusion many women want to create that enhances their overall appearance.
High heels = creates the illusion of elongating the legs; makeup = enhances your facial features
As for this newer trend of super long lashes and super long nails? I have no idea. I think it’s a temporary trend. But who knows. As a woman myself, you learn from a very early age what these beauty ideals are and how society expects you to look. Of course, everyone is different, but this overall concept represents the “accepted” look society expects of you.
I really recommend “Be a Lady They Said” video on YouTube. Really demonstrates all these conflicting beauty ideals we experience.
everything_is_creepy · 2 points · Posted at 06:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the narrative we agreed on, was that we wear makeup for ourselves
NovaScotiaaa · 2 points · Posted at 10:50:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't disagree, we should wear what we want and what makes us feel good. But unfortunately, society will continue to hold beauty ideals and norms of what they consider desirable. "They" being narratives from thousands of different voices from TV, social media, historical standards, peer pressure, and so on. :/
Scholesie09 · 12 points · Posted at 19:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aesthetics supersede comfort.
Very simple.
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AwesomeAni · 1 points · Posted at 16:05:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not uncomfortable for me. What’s uncomfortable to me is looking like a slob everyday.
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AwesomeAni · 2 points · Posted at 16:31:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel like a slob if I’m not wearing makeup and I feel most beautiful on those nights out on the town in strapless heels, etc.
Bwolffff · 20 points · Posted at 21:46:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s wild when men talk shit about women wearing makeup, but at the same time wouldn’t be attracted to us if we didn’t wear it. And yes, the woman you think is hot on the cover of that magazine, on that TV show/movie, in that Instagram photo, is wearing a shit ton of makeup even if it doesn’t seem like it
AwesomeAni · 1 points · Posted at 16:03:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also the men! All the hot men in Hollywood are wearing makeup. Everyone on TV is wearing makeup.
AlwaysTappin · -8 points · Posted at 21:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could reverse that. Women claim to do the makeup for them and not for the male gaze but you just said “wouldn’t be attracted to us if we didn’t wear it.” So, is it for us or for you?
And btw, I think caked on makeup is different from what you think I meant.
Davidlikesmenboys · 5 points · Posted at 04:47:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No they don't think that. Caked-on makeup is you just referring to girls who are terrible at doing their makeup.
Even if it doesn't look like they have a lot on, they almost certianly do have a lot of makeup on, there's just a difference when they're good at it/a professional does it for them.
This in turn answers the question about the caked on makeup, they're just bad at their makeup.
Davidlikesmenboys · 3 points · Posted at 04:50:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The nails and lashes is usually for the girl and not the guy. They like feeling pretty. It's similar to guys having nice cars or blasting music in their car. It's usually not for the girls although some will be attracted to it.
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 3 points · Posted at 22:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t speak to the others beyond “because I like it”, but for the high heels, if you’re someone who wears heels a lot, flat shoes hurt.
AlwaysTappin · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No way, really? That’s interesting. Like you think your feet changed or just not used to it suddenly?
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 2 points · Posted at 23:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve read somewhere that wearing heels a lot does cause them to adapt to that position. Which I guess makes sense, just like your muscles will grow to accommodate slouching or straight posture depending on which one you do more.
WriteBrainedJR · 4 points · Posted at 19:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Western fashion is (probably*) organized around the philosophical values of dicomfort and impracticality. The less comfortable, less useful, and more restrictive/restricted it is, the more it is valued.
*It would require intensive academic study by one or more members of an uncontacted tribe to be certain of this, but I'm pretty sure.
ortiz0714 · 6 points · Posted at 19:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Leave us alone 🤣🤣🤣jk
Boneal171 · 2 points · Posted at 23:30:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like heels because I’m short and I like the feeling of being taller, but I don’t wear them all the time because they’re uncomfortable
galaxygirl978 · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly as a girl who has had skin issues since the ripe old age of 11 I don't understand the appeal of wearing so much makeup. It's just really bad for the skin. I like colorful eyeshadow and own a couple dozen pallettes but packing every pore full of foundation just seems really unhealthy.
AwesomeAni · 12 points · Posted at 20:36:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makeup itself isn’t bad for the skin. Yeah if you leave it on too long or if you’re allergic to the ingredients you’ll have an issue. But the thing that causes acne isn’t just “particles” it’s bacteria. Makeup alone won’t break you out. Not keeping it clean and using dirty brushes and the like will though.
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I used to wear makeup every day, would always clean my brushes every other use, and wore mineral foundation and still had issues. Now I refuse to put anything on my skin that's not 100% natural and have seen some improvement + drinking like 60 oz of water a day
AwesomeAni · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:14 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
100% natural doesn’t mean anything. Everything is natural. “Natural” makeups still have oils and preservatives just like everything else. There’s also no actual guidelines to what is officially called “natural” and “organic” those are just labels anyone can put on any cosmetic regardless of the content that’s in it.
I’m glad you found something that works for you though!
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:59 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nowadays I just use pure tea tree oil and organic aloe vera gel. It's about as good as it gets haha
AwesomeAni · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:37 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m glad it works for you! I tried for years using “all natural” products... unfortunately, I need tretinoin lol
WYcked_In_Spurs · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot stand the feeling of foundation. They’ve tried powers, liquids, mixtures, I don’t know. It all felt like a was five smearing mud on my face. Caked on and I couldn’t ignore it, even done by “professionals” with “just a little bit.”
Same with painted nails, not even acrylic nails (those suck too). I feel it and it bothers me.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree and I'm a woman
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 09:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
RIGHT? Stupid sexist 19th century marketing bullshit that just refuses to die. It's popular now only because "it's always been."
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 23:21:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because we are told too.
AwesomeAni · 1 points · Posted at 16:07:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not always. I grew up somewhere everyone was absolutely shit on for wearing makeup. And as an adult I became a makeup artist. Funny how that works.
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re awesomeAni
kryten4000series · -2 points · Posted at 02:32:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah i don't understand the lashes thing...i tried them once - uncomfortable as fuck and i looked like a bad transvestite...
[deleted] · 93 points · Posted at 18:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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daniel4sight · 21 points · Posted at 19:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A long queue.
evildadatron · 6 points · Posted at 20:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you realize how long it takes to fuel up a space shuttle at a regular gas station just to hopefully escape this planet and avoid ever seeing you and your mother again...
Let alone finding a space shuttle to steal?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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evildadatron · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I only made it as far as trying to steal the shuttle. After NASA security caught me and I was eventually prosecuted for the “incident”. I am currently serving a 20 year sentence. So if you can wait 4 years, I’ll have had 20 years of boredom built up and you disappointing me might be a nice change.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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evildadatron · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, yeah. That’s definitely not me. I already had the bowling shoes thinking they’d be the most ideal footwear for space travel.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He had an allergic reaction to some peanuts and got kidnapped by an evil circus owner.
FourThirteen_413 · 45 points · Posted at 18:31:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
The nature of reality.
People who aren't curious enough to want to learn more about things. Willfully ignorant.
theflyingkiwi00 · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how people can live like this also. I have to find out what is at the end of that long road, I have to find out what is on the other side of that mountain and if I dont I will drive myself crazy thinking about it. I just have to know while I know people who are more than happy to just stay put and I can never wrap my mind around why they feel that way. Maybe if we were all trying to find out what was over the hill we wouldnt have societies and we needed people who were happy to just sit still but if everyone sat still we would still be fighting off lions in africa
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you gotta call me out like that?
Ihatgar11 · 40 points · Posted at 18:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if the universe is expanding then wtf is it expanding into
Sipsy33 · 27 points · Posted at 00:22:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astro major here. When people usually talk about the “edge of the universe” they refer to the boundary of the observable universe. We can’t physically see past this boundary (because here spacetime is “moving” light faster than the speed of light), but there is more “universe” beyond it. It could be infinite or finite beyond the observable universe, we don’t know.
The universe doesn’t expand like an explosion, it’s actually a stretching of the distance between objects. From our POV, this stretching is observed to be radially away from us at the center. But if we took the Earth and teleported it 1 billion light years away, we would also see things moving radially away from us. Explosions don’t work like this. And that stretching happens faster if the distance itself between objects is large. When that stretching happens faster than light (at a particular distance from the Earth), it defines the edge of the observable universe.
And because the expansion has been and is accelerating, more galaxies move into the “unobservable” universe every year.
HandOfApath · 3 points · Posted at 02:22:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Appreciate the explanation, but that totally didnt help hey
bigshit123 · 3 points · Posted at 11:45:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people talk about the universe expanding, they are talking about the observable universe. The part of the universe we can observe/see. The reason this expands is because the speed of light isn’t infinitely fast. The further the light travels away from us the further we can see. So the “expanding” is simply light traveling further and further.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of frustrating that the things we have access to knowing are slowly slipping away from us over time.
luksonluke · 3 points · Posted at 20:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My guess is that nothing, the world beyond our universe works like this:
Darkness of absolutely nothing.
daniel4sight · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe it's like a lung it expands and retracts.
rochakgupta · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine a balloon being filled with the surface of the balloon being our universe
InsouciantSlavDude · 3 points · Posted at 00:23:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, ok, but what's around the baloon?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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InsouciantSlavDude · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know I don't get it, but neither do you, as I was not speaking of the subject/shape/whatever physical term related to baloon itself as of meaning of infinity or nothingless. How can something with infinite surface have an end? What in your mind is beyond "confined"?
[deleted] · 17 points · Posted at 16:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
daniel4sight · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To make a difference and then die knowing you made a difference.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
carbon cells decided to be genius biology 1000000 IQ crafting complex idea scientists and then we came into existance
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the breakfast cereal from Quaker Oats.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Living it
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A bunch of tiny bois make slightly bigger bois and those slightly bigger bois make even more slightly bigger bois and eventually you have what we are.
swaczy · 70 points · Posted at 13:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everything begun
I_hate_traveling · 49 points · Posted at 13:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our whole universe was in a hot, dense state,
ashish19982002 · 32 points · Posted at 14:02:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then nearly fourteen billion years ago expansion started, wait
cools_008 · 10 points · Posted at 17:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The earth began to cool
DanielAgos12 · 12 points · Posted at 17:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neanderthals developed tools
benx101 · 11 points · Posted at 18:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the autotrophs began to drool
leaderofwhatnation · 10 points · Posted at 19:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We built the walls
TheTimWelsh · 7 points · Posted at 20:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We built the pyramids!
Brainwhacker · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, Science, History
leaderofwhatnation · 4 points · Posted at 21:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unraveling the mystery!
subis12 · 4 points · Posted at 21:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That all started with the big bang, BANG!
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aliens did it
luhsya · 7 points · Posted at 18:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no one? a'ight, i'll do it:
THE SUN IS A DEADLY LAZER
DirtyLickins · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
mil_boi42 · -13 points · Posted at 14:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I think there’s a universe now. What’s it made of?
ashish19982002 · 14 points · Posted at 14:36:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for ruining it
hades_the_wise · 5 points · Posted at 14:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for reminding me that this video exists. I'll now watch it at least 5 times over the next few days... again.
Wishyouamerry · 1 points · Posted at 14:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like my ex.
D4rk_Dr4gonite · 1 points · Posted at 04:40:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
OOF
DirtyLickins · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
tommygunz007 · 5 points · Posted at 14:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody sharted a bunch of stars... that's what I think.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
are you suggesting were in unflushed magical toilet
Dingbrain1 · 2 points · Posted at 16:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything is just one big cause -> effect chain reaction... imagine if you moved just a few atoms around right before the Big Bang, the butterfly effect that would have after billions of years? Would our species even exist?
CptNoble · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"The story so far: In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move. " -Douglas Adams
trynumber53 · 0 points · Posted at 18:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explosions
slarksama · 17 points · Posted at 15:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
3of_spades · 7 points · Posted at 23:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
let´s say you invented something cool and want to produce it, but you don´t have a lot of money. You then decide how much the thing costs to produce, let´s say a 100 dollars, divide this price in 100 parts, 1 dollar each, and ask your neghbor , Joel, for some money. let´s say Joel gives you 10 bucks to help. After producing the thing, you sell it for 150 bucks. So, you spent 100 dollars and gained 150. You then give Joel back the money plus a part of the profit(150% of 10 dollars), 15 dollars. It´s a win win situation. In the real world, Your product would be the company, and Joel an investor. It´s actually more complicated, but simplistically speaking, that´s how the first "Stock market" deal happened, when the West Indies Company needed money and asked from locals, dividing a part of the profit with them
KoiPonders · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are the Market Cap and Volume?
3of_spades · 2 points · Posted at 12:33:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Value of the stocks combined and negotiated stoks over a certain period of time
vanyel196 · 20 points · Posted at 01:24:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cult of trump
LaurensPP · 49 points · Posted at 20:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That skin color is important to people.
katiek1114 · 12 points · Posted at 01:19:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean...it should only ever be important biologically. I’m about as white as humanly possible (my husband maintains that I’m so white, I glow in the dark)and that’s important because I know that means I have to be super cautious in the sun because I’m much more likely to get certain types of cancer as a result. Beyond that, the color of my skin means nothing.
moulinrouge77 · 3 points · Posted at 03:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social construct, still baffles me in this age.
GladiatorMainOP · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a biological construct that has no DIRECT relation to brain activity.
jamie_a_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess it started as elitism, the dislike that someone else looks different thus should be treated differently to you. Stereotypes only make things worse. Someone of a different colour does something you dislike or disagree with so you generalise their entire race? It's something I'll never understand, I guess culture enforces it/used to enforce it
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:00:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are uncomfortable with people that are different than them. I naturally get along with people my race for example.
SMaddox50 · 33 points · Posted at 13:29:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh, can you specify? Fractions seem fairly easy to understand
seewhaticare · 9 points · Posted at 22:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
6/4 people understand fractions, the other third don't.. we're all different like that
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 22:24:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea, not to demean the guy, but I really don't see which part (pun intended) he doesn't get.
Fractions are as a concept very allinged with how humans think. Out of all the weird ass math concepts not to understand I don't get fractions being the one.
seewhaticare · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It might be aligned with how you think when you grow to with the imperial measurement system. Metric didn't use fractions, so it's not second nature to many of the non freedom units world
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use Metric.
The main reason Imperial is even a thing is exactly because its easier for our brains to comprehend.
We are just better at understanding partials and our minds works using references. We live in an analogue world where absolute values aren't really a thing.
As a concept everyone understands fractions, we have to. Its only really the concrete written form that can be confusing
whtsnk · 11 points · Posted at 19:40:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popular pizza pie analogy never served you well?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. But not like fractions themselves, but everything you do with them. Reducing? I know how to do it, but I don’t know how it works. Etc.
Tlizerz · 19 points · Posted at 19:19:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in a customer-facing job and just can not understand what makes people think it’s acceptable to be rude/mean to complete strangers. I mean, I understand being frustrated in certain situations, but I’ve never felt the need to swear at or insult the person working with me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:23 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Power dynamics. Re-directed frustration and anger.
[deleted] · 33 points · Posted at 19:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people think it's any of their business whether someone else - possibly a complete stranger even - identifies as a man, woman, or anything inbetween or outside, or who they're attracted to.
TrogledyWretched · 3 points · Posted at 10:08:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems to be a lizard-brain reaction, like the uncanny valley. Basically "this isn't what i know to be normal about people, so maybe it's dangerous." Then it escalates with groupthink.
Rackbone · 0 points · Posted at 14:27:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes because they are in the uncanny valley. Even kids are weirded out by it, even if they were raised to respect people
WhalesVirginia · 2 points · Posted at 07:14:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In the case of sexual dysphoria, clearly they are not what they claim to be. That makes people uncomfortable.
This doesn’t reflect my personal opinion in the subject, just why people would be unwilling to accept it.
tylerstrenk18 · 15 points · Posted at 03:39:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can care so much for their dog and call themselves an animal lover but also eat sausage for breakfast, a burger for lunch, and steak for dinner and not care one bit. Baffles me
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 06:39:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I found this through your comment on some other post related to animals and morality and I wanted to drop a line here because I think the debate in this area is really interesting, especially in regards to how most people engage with it. Maybe this is pretentious or dumb, but hopefully it will be at least a little interesting for you?
For most people, I think the answer is simple cognitive dissonance. Most people don't think for a second where their meat comes from, or they think its okay because they aren't directly doing the killing (even though they directly contribute to it). I agree with you in that I think in almost all cases it's pretty dumb when meat eaters get butthurt about a video of animal abuse, it just doesn't make sense logically.
I'd also like to answer from my own perspective though. At its most basic level, my framework for morality comes from a selfish place. For example, stealing is wrong because I personally do not want my property stolen. While you could argue that the basis in selfishness is bad, I believe it ultimately leads to a positive moral framework in which people ubiquitously believe things like murder and rape are morally wrong. However, animals are not moral agents, as they are unable to reciprocate in the same way as humans. I can respect a tiger's right to exist, but if I roll up into its territory it will not respect that right for me. Therefore, to me, animals are not worthy of moral consideration because they simply cannot be moral agents.
So, where does that get me, because I have a dog and I love him! I care about my dog because it brings me personal pleasure to treat him nicely and care for him. However, if I were to torture him to death and eat him, I would consider this a morally neutral action. Now, I would never do this because I have no inclination to, and personally it would make me feel bad to harm an animal, though I recognize that feeling comes from an empathetic place and not a logical one. I can care about my dog in particular because he provides more value for me personally as a loving pet than as a meal. It sounds fucked up, but I think this is the only way you can consistently eat meat and say that you 'care' about an animal.
So, while I can recognize that I don't get pleasure from harming animals, I also don't believe it is morally wrong to do so. Animals are basically here to do with as we please.
I'm open to having my mind changed on this because I am unsure of how much my position is motivated by my desire to continue eating meat. Oh well, there's my rant. Read it, don't read it, it doesn't matter. I had fun writing it out.
Edit: It seems like people disagree with my position but I am interested in hearing why, especially from other people that eat meat.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 08:33:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No idea why you're getting downvoted. You're speaking your mind calmly while being open to discussing your views, eve willing to change them. But yeah, Reddit is a weird place with "elite morals" but no openness. I'll follow you down to oblivion then.
Now ! Concerning your comment, the only thing that bothers me is "torturing and killing your dog being a morally neutral action". You mean in the way that it's ok to kill a cow for meat ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think animals are worthy of moral consideration. In a moral sense, killing a dog is the same as throwing a rock in the forest, both are morally neutral actions. Tons of meat eaters have a knee jerk reaction to this position which I find hilarious because you ultimately have to take my stance if you want to continue eating meat without either accepting you're acting morally wrong and refusing to change, or accepting that you're being huge hypocrite. This generally makes a lot of meat eaters pretty upset.
But yes, in a moral sense there is no difference between a dog and a cow. I truly don't think it's possible to explain why a dog is worthy of moral consideration while the animals we consider 'ok' to slaughter for food like cows, pigs, and chickens, are not.
ArtTabletNoob · 30 points · Posted at 20:29:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. How do you just not accept that gay people exist and deserve human rights?
Ven_Landry · 5 points · Posted at 02:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boiled down and simplified, it starts as "You're not like me, therefore you're bad." Combine that with hundreds of years of stigma, rumors, misinformation and flat out ignorance, and it builds. It doesn't help that many of the group's starting hate like this, are trusted on a spiritual level for some. When you challenge that someone's deeply held faith or belief is wrong, they get defensive and can double down.
Where I grew up most people had never met a single (openly) gay person in their lives.
70-80 years of only going on the information they learned from their parents and the adults/groups around them. It wasn't, for the most part, until my generation grew up that many of them met an openly gay or transgender person.
Many of them have come to accept us because we have an open dialogue and they've also known us since we were small. Realizing someone they care about is happier and more free being openly LGBTQ+ really forced some of them to rethink their values.
Some of them, they're still homophobic and refuse to change, and have their insular little echo chambers, where they do nothing but spout and rant. That's how it's always been. An echo chamber of misinformed and afraid people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly couldnt care how someone identifies themselves as i feel it shouldnt be a priority for others to know. Lets say the first thing someone tells me is that theyre vegan. Cool, but that doesnt define who you are; what you aspire to be. That just tells me youve never had a pork pie before...
Idk im probably just tired
Ven_Landry · 5 points · Posted at 04:06:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Few major points:
1) Being vegan is a choice a person makes based on their own thoughts, beliefs and experiences. Being LGBTQ+ isn't. I didn't choose to be trans, I didn't choose to be gay. Lord knows I've spend enough nights wishing it wasn't my case. It'd make my life easier.
2) It actually does have a huge impact on who you are. I'm speaking solely for myself in this instance but many of my friends and peers have echoed similar experiences to mine, however I won't post their stories for them, it's not my place.
I lived somewhere very conservative, and that meant that I never developed a language to describe myself, until later in life. So I spent 20 years being unable to communicate why I hated myself or to understand what I was feeling, and open discussions of anything other than heterosexual, cisgender relationships and body norms were shunned and passed off to community leaders.
Leaving my region for college I met others and developed a language for what I felt and could only start understanding my feelings after age 20.
Twenty years of my life were dedicated to a name, body and personality that I lived in that no longer apply to me. It means there are things about living as a man I never learned. It means I have had to go to court to get my name, and defend myself and my person hood to a judge. I had to prove my fervor and desires to complete strangers to start my transition. I had to sit in psychological exams to prove I wanted this badly enough so I could have chest surgery. Having to sit and wait for a phonecall to know my boyfriend was okay after we got outed to his family. Having complete strangers on the street tell me that I am a freak for trying to be true and happy.
If I didn't have to constantly prove myself, maybe it would feel like a lesser part of my person hood. However my reality and my life is a big stack of papers proving I am myself. It's been the last few years of my life, experiencing all of this and I'm not going to sit there and pretend its not a huge part of the person I am today.
It even complicates talking about yourself to others. When a woman I'm not familiar with talks about menstruation, and says "...but you wouldn't know about that, Ven!" Am I supposed to pretend I didn't experience Satan's waterfall for 20 years? But if I bring that up, OOP I'm making it about me being trans.
And most of all, I work in a school system if I am not loudly and proudly myself I set up some poor kid to go through what I did. I want them to see that being transgender is a normal thing. It doesn't make me bad, or scary or eeeeevil. When we do throwback pictures of the staff at the kids ages am I supposed to not participate? These are all things that are part and parcel of myself and who I am. And I've worked hard so dammit I should be proud.
TL;DR: Being trans is a huge life-changing thing. You don't get the choice to not talk about it.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:20:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Best analogy i can think of:
It's the same reaction as most people have hearing that there are Nickelback fans. You've never met one, and everything about it seems gross from your perspective, so why trust that they're real or that they matter?
kricketshipgowop · 6 points · Posted at 22:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I just see gay people and find them so spooky - homophobic
ArtTabletNoob · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHY tho. Whats the reason. Theyre literally just people???? Youre a person (i hope) why is it any different
kricketshipgowop · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess only a homophobic would know but maybe they just are and can't concretely explain. People are twisted and as much as there are explanations to why I don't know any.
LaTalullah · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia is the fear that you might be gay...
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:17:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They think they’re not human non humans don’t deserve human rights
[deleted] · 186 points · Posted at 18:40:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BT--7275 · 63 points · Posted at 19:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women and men are not the same, but equal non-the-less
Horne-Fisher · 18 points · Posted at 22:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nonetheless is actually all one word. No hyphens needed!
BT--7275 · 4 points · Posted at 22:18:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought about that, but it just seems to unnatural without them.
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:08:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah like it’s 3 words
GenericKen · 11 points · Posted at 23:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inferiority complex.
If you are better than half the population, you are de facto no longer below average.
IsThisIsMyUserName · 23 points · Posted at 19:36:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SAME! But with women also
Bujwua · 10 points · Posted at 20:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree (M), but I have have had the same experience the other way around with (F). I think it’s usually people that are naturally competitive. With all that said I am a bit competitive myself and I am usually down for a bit of a fun competition so they can prove it if they really think they’re better. Whether I think I’ll win or lose.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Bujwua · 1 points · Posted at 09:37:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, ok I see your point. I can see that not making sense some people are just annoying
CoolnessEludesMe · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A competitive person with nothing else to complete with?
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:12:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see men doing many impactful things, and ignore all the work women put in
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unless it's an obligation, why even still be in touch with this person?...
devyReddit · -4 points · Posted at 23:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let’s make this clear. I’m a man. I have many male friends. None of them think they are better than any woman.
Ethario · -10 points · Posted at 22:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its pretty easy to think that if you look at the world. Best athletes in sports are men (cause biology). Famous world leaders are usually men, people who give important speeches, managers the list goes on and on.
Now as a boy growing up this is what you see and this is the world around you, its easy to fall into this trap.
Klepto121 · 9 points · Posted at 03:13:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mostly all raised by women, hopefully to be respectful to women
But those MGTOW type guys basically remind me of a man who's mom does their laundry while they cry about how their toast is soggy and have a shitty relationship with their sister.... they're just losers that can't see how pathetic they are, but dunking on women makes them feel bigger and better. Lots on reddit like this
Rackbone · -2 points · Posted at 14:23:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's a man's world. Women have equality because men allow them to plain and simple. I don't think this makes men "better" but different. In the end that equality could be taken away in a very short amount of time and women could do literally nothing about it but accept it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t think that’s true. Men and women rely on each other. There are lots of things women could do to prevent this.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:58 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like what? Obviously this kind of severe scenerio would be some end of the world shit but If men just decided to physically take control, locally or globally or whatever, it would be over. Because there is an inherent power that's there that makes us not equal at all. There might be pockets of resistance but ultimately women would choose submission over the alternative.
This is apparent in places where women are treated poorly, or like property. Certain Muslim nations come to mind. Liberation will happen if it does because men open up to the idea of it, but in hypermasculine environments like that it is ultimately up to men. That kind of situation could happen anywhere, even here. But we are civilized and believe in equality so we choose not to subjugate women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:56 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s an inherent physical imbalance between the two sexes, I agree with that. However, in a developed society where power doesn’t rely so heavily on the physical, but our agency is determined largely by institutions, physical power imbalance becomes less and less important.
In countries where women’s rights have not progressed and there is a big cultural entrenchment of sexual subjugation it will take a big ideological shift in both men and women to embrace sexual equality.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
To your last point ultimately it would take men giving up that physical control in those areas for change to happen. And the ensuing rights are predicated on a thin line where men subconsciously know that it is because of them, and they if they so chose, could take it away at any time. If men here decided they no longer wanted women to have rights, poof they are gone. It would be naive to think otherwise.
There will be periods of liberation and periods of subjugation from now until humans are a distant memory, but liberation is allowed by men. We are not equal, but we deserve equal rights. Men run the world and will always run the world. Women will run occasionally but generationally return to periods of submission and subjugation, depending on men.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess only time will tell, but I see a future in which the world is run by both sexes equally.
Women have long fought for rights and continue to do so. For you to think women having power boils down to the benevolence of you and your ilk speaks of your own personal insecurity.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:14 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has nothing to do with insecurity, like I said I believe in equality. A world where men and women have an equal say is a fantastic place. Im just saying that its a fickle thing that could be taken from men at any time, and to believe otherwise is quite naive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I guess this is where we agree to disagree.
Rackbone · 2 points · Posted at 02:06:15 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally fine and thanks for being civil :)
McSavage6s · 15 points · Posted at 16:33:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If God exists, then who created him/her.........?
How did the universe came into existence from 'nothing'?
AnimatorOnFire · 5 points · Posted at 00:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a Christian and I do a lot of studying into this stuff, I'd love to have a discussion. Shoot me a DM if you're interested. But I'll try to water it down to fit a comment:
The concept of God is that He always has been, is, and will always be. Admittedly it sounds crazy and really fabricated, but realize humans will never understand God. It isn't possible. If you fully understand or can comprehend someone, then it removes his or her purpose. That applies to anything in life, including God. There will be many aspects about Him we'll never understand, but the Bible (which once proven to be factually correct, which it has) can be used as a reliable source to give insight on Him. Trust me, i even ask the question you asked, but I know that I'll never fully understand.
Like I said, it's a rabbit hole, but message me if you're interested in discussing!
iNewbSkrewb · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to think of it as everything in the universe (and maybe what’s beyond) needs a creator, but God is beyond that)
AnimatorOnFire · 3 points · Posted at 00:55:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats basically what it comes down to. He is the Creator. This is the situation when id like to use an analogy but quite literally nothing logically works as a comparison.
McSavage6s · 1 points · Posted at 08:48:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a nice observation.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because nothing is physically impossible so nothingness created stuff (its quite complicated and I barely understand it myself, also science is constantly improving and this theory could be proven to be complete BS)
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I once thought "What if God is just a being from another universe that is technologically advanced and just uses technology we don't understand?" Then I started thinking "What if when we die, he just somehow has the ability to transport our consciousness to that universe?" I swear I've never done drugs. God is just a really deep rabbit hole with no evidence in one way or another.
McSavage6s · 1 points · Posted at 08:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
'God' might be some teenager, running a simulation in his budget computer. Lol.
Ganon2012 · 2 points · Posted at 11:09:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That would explain why everything looks blurry the farther out I look.
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of it like this. Spirits have always been around, and God is just a powerful spirit with the power to create things
crazyjarvis · 16 points · Posted at 18:44:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how Epstien "died"
blifford6669 · 7 points · Posted at 20:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Hanging”
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 03:09:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
assisted suicide
Whuwisp · 3 points · Posted at 08:16:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Forced suicide
angry_snek · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Murder
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:35 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
well yes, but actually no
[deleted] · 42 points · Posted at 19:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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buckthefuffs · 4 points · Posted at 23:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Believing that your failures can be reconciled after death is powerful for a lot of people. Personally, I can't begin to comprehend such a close-minded train of thought. We are far more powerful than we think we are
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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buckthefuffs · 2 points · Posted at 01:16:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely. People are so focused on themselves, they don’t see the humor in it all
AnimatorOnFire · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, with great respect, I believe it should blow our minds. The idea is that you shouldn't be able to fully fathom or understand God. If you knew everything your parents did and thought, they're not useful. If we knew what God did, or fully understood Him, then all of a sudden it takes away a lot. As a Christian who does a ton of research into evidence (Lee Strobel has great resources), it still boggles my mind, probably more than yours, actually. It's a rabbit hole, and it'll always be. It's a wonderful journey to learn more about. DM me if you're ever interested in discussing!
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 01:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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anonymousPhilospher · 1 points · Posted at 06:38:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are many philosophies that affirm theism. I don't know what you mean by a philosophy that "respects" Theism though. Respect as in the sense there is no conflict or respect as in the sense of a personal attitude. The latter is impossible as a philosophy is incapable of having an attitude and the former is just the nature of conflicting claims. I don't know what you mean by "proofs" either, proof is a sufficient evidence or sufficient argument to accept the truth of a proposition. Any attempt to provide a proof is not a excuse to search for logic where its not, its using logic to reach a conclusion. So I'm unsure if what you said even makes sense. I think what you mean to say is that you think the reasons for believing in a God are bad.
Theist and non theist alike would agree with this. Nobody is saying the solution is incoherent collection of stories and reasoning, your just affirming your own personal take on Theism.
I don't personally lean either way in the discussion as I'm agnostic, but I always find it interesting how much Atheist love to try and psycho analyze those they disagree with, mix it in with their logic, and vomit up a piece of work that if had any self awareness about it, is of the same level of the thing they think they are espousing themselves against.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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anonymousPhilospher · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it fascinating that because you disagree with your opponent you assume they are lying to themselves. As far as crossing a border when looking for evidence I really am just mind boggled as to how that can held against a position as that's the way we come to reach conclusions in any circumstance.
Yes religion is tied to culture, however the terms of theist, atheist, or agnostic are ways to describe a general belief without having to list every position, they are worldview positions, I have no understanding of why you prefer a set of terms over another its completely irrelevant.
I'm an Ethicist and this is just so wrong...education can not act as a moral guideline, it can act as a way to inform of moral theories and etc, but its not in itself a moral guideline. Also to say religion isn't a moral guideline is just so wrong, just because you think something is flawed or wrong does not make it non existent. Religion in tandem with a moral theory can and does act as a moral guideline for billions of people.
This is my problem with how you reason, you essentially beg the question in everything you say. You start with your conclusion and make assertions from there. And on top of that my biggest pet peeve is that you try to psycho analyze your opponents. Just realize that people come to different conclusions and just because they disagree with you doesn't mean they are intellectually dishonest, in most cases when you psycho analyze I think its likely your just projecting.
This is a coping mechanism, it has nothing to do with whether or not your position or the religious position is true.
If by conclusive you mean 100% certainty that would be the case for all beliefs, even properly basic beliefs like you mention that the universe has been here longer than since last Thursday. That's not a good reason to not attempt to find answers. We have the capacity for reason for a reason (haha pun). If you want to take a skeptical position as such to avoid finding answers yourself then fine, but don't use it as dirt to sling at those who do care to find the answers.
marazomeno · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Symbolism?
tfield16 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s difficult to understand respecting something so incomprehensible and contradictory.
Thanks for posting your response. Why do you care what delusional people think? They’ll find some other messes up reason to hate you.
Bardsal · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Totally with you there, I just know within by being that 'god' doesn't exist & the whole jesus thing is whack. I just cannot fathom how ppl believe what is essentially fairytales. And the extremes ppl go to, following what they believe to be set in stone rules from these times, religious fanatics & extremists are beyond my comprehension. I do, however, believe in karma & universal energy, so it's not that I'm not spiritual or that I don't agree that there are some good messages in their teachings, but believing the whole virgin birth & dying on the cross, going to hell blah blah blah, nope. I do understand, particularly during difficult times, that ppl need to believe something better is coming, that they're working towards something, maybe some need to believe someone's watching so that they do the right thing, but then you get pedophile priests...
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, we dont really know how every thing started. Yes there is the big bang, but that means the gasses where there before. As humans we think that in order for something to exist, it has to be made. Everything we have experienced has shown that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:32:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there is a difference between spirits and physical things and I am not sure what the general belif is for that
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 07:55:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Childhood indoctrination and societal pressure. That’s how. Fewr of being shunned.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine how I feel. I'm a very logical person normally. Yet, I believe. I have no idea why I do, and no amount of logic has made me stop. But my religious side and logical side are occasionally at odds with each other.
MC_robuxnite · 0 points · Posted at 00:39:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t feel like going into a massive annoying “religious man rant”, so I’m just going to explain it like how I think. 0 + 0 + 0 + 0... can never equal 1. There has to be something behind it all. I don’t quite genuinely understand how something can just be. The idea of an all creating being that knows is I guess a bit, comforting? Idk how to explain it. And then there’s also the concept of how the human mind can’t really make an idea on its own with no inspiration, so the concept of a god has to come from somewhere. But those are just my two cents.
trouser_mouse · 92 points · Posted at 13:43:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Birds. What are they? We just don't know.
Ghouldrago · 51 points · Posted at 16:37:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really dude, bird are just government spy robots that recharge by sitting on power lines duh!
/s
Carl_Clegg · 4 points · Posted at 20:03:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the real reason we’re in lockdown is so that they can change their batteries.
Ganon2012 · 3 points · Posted at 04:22:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I've been hearing. It's gotta be true with this many people confirming it.
Boneal171 · 3 points · Posted at 23:31:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/birdsarentreal
Jelle5388 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree.
Btw, whats that "/s" thing?
TheDino27_FR · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/s means the comment is a joke, sarcasm, generally not to be taken seriously.
Oh crap, I just got whooooshed, didn’t I ?
theessayist10 · 31 points · Posted at 15:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I know what they are. Vile creatures that have a personal vendetta against me for some unfathomable reason, and they show their hostility by shitting on my head (suspiciously high frequency)
neocommenter · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Birds don't have a mechanism for holding their waste.
York93 · 14 points · Posted at 15:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/birdsarentreal
I_READ_YOUR_EMAILS · 5 points · Posted at 17:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just look around you
trouser_mouse · 3 points · Posted at 17:26:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly!
Hooligan-Azzie · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a bird and sometimes I ask myself this question. What is a bird and why is there one in my house?
LadyJR · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hellions that see a recently washed car and decide to take a load off on them.
Hivalion · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's rare that you see a Look Around You reference.
Zisx · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Avian dinosaurs with lightweight hollow bones and pure evil
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:05:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember, Bumcivillian mined by pigs is called pig iron.
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 23:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About 60 years ago birds were wonderful creatures. We have waterfalls everywhere clean air and it was paradise on earth. Then you young fggt kids came along and polluted the air and chopped the trees down. Now we have shit coloured birds that get theirs back by shitting on the heads of the old people! It’s not my fault you fking dumb plovers I yell! It all started when the hippies changed the quality of the bread. Bread used to be fresh and natural real seeds in it made from the maples. These days it’s been bleached. I try to feed the bread to the pigeons and they just look at me like I’m a fking nazi pleb.
rambleon4ever · 353 points · Posted at 13:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap
poopellar · 130 points · Posted at 14:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm still waiting for whisper rap.
aliveinjoburg2 · 52 points · Posted at 14:55:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Already done.
https://youtu.be/UlNR_cPdh0s
theExplodingGradient · 10 points · Posted at 15:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I don't understand is where these glorious references come from? Do people just have a stash of hundreds of really specific videos with only a few thousand views for meming? Do you search for this stuff? How do you even know it exists? Did you make this yourself? so many questions...
baileycoraline · 18 points · Posted at 18:13:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not who you’re asking, but that specific song was hugely popular around 2005. It’s literally the first song I thought of after seeing the words “whisper rap.”
theExplodingGradient · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the video in question has only 28,000 views with a weird reference at the end, why not just link the original?
Actually just searching for the lyrics comes up with the video second. That makes sense actually, but I guess that's only one answer to the question
Kraggen · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Enjoy this laugh!
https://youtu.be/wItgAhLaOrs
GingerMau · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And this one...while we're at it.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AdOjEKQtqY0&t=44s
huskylover4u · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
morkengork · 7 points · Posted at 16:17:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a reaction image folder that I also store videos in. It feels nice when you just have the perfect thing for something.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:25:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That song was ridiculously popular in the 2000s
peterthefatman · 4 points · Posted at 19:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
21 Savage- ASMR
MathMaddox · 3 points · Posted at 16:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Didn’t the ying yang twins do this?
Lupus_Noir · 2 points · Posted at 15:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Next in line is humming rap
queenofcheebah · 3 points · Posted at 20:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
May I direct your ears to the discography of Kid Cudi
FerreroRocher8 · 2 points · Posted at 17:05:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y'all heard of Shy Ronnie?
Milenkoben · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could have stopped waiting 15 years ago
https://youtu.be/qld7WvHa5kc
DickMeatBootySack · 1 points · Posted at 16:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not a whole genre (afaik) but there’s 2 songs I can name off the top of my head that have a whisper part.
c0mplexx · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
shy ronnie smh
shishibossjorgito · 14 points · Posted at 18:44:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im not a fan of mumble rap but i think most people like it because of the flow or simply because most of the beats mumble rapers use are good
MidnightMath · 7 points · Posted at 19:43:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can totally get behind the beat but the whole mumble flow bores the shit out of me and the rhymes are always weaker than Bud Light.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:26:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is really apparent if you listen to a studio Acapella of a mumblerap
drlqnr · 35 points · Posted at 15:30:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
skrrrt yuhh
rambleon4ever · 7 points · Posted at 15:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brrrrr squaa
RAWR_Ghosty · 5 points · Posted at 20:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People shit on mumble rap for not understanding the lyrics or the autotune.
First of, music is music lyrics or not (and yes they do write lyrics, sometimes it makes no sense, sometimes they have meaning), and second, autotune is an instrument just like any other, at least they realize their singing voice isn't that great and didn't quit their music careers there.
It's like everyone who doesn't understand spanish sing despasito/every other flamingo cha cha cha song, isn't that mumble pop for non-spanish speakers ?
OmfgTim · 10 points · Posted at 19:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
doitlooklikeimleftoffbadnboujie?
lonely_coldplay_stan · 19 points · Posted at 18:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People dont really even know what mumble rap refers to. R/music called Travis Scott and Roddy Rich mumble rap, which is just wrong
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:29:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here is my explenation: music does not need lyrics to be good. There are several genres that doesn't have lyrics at all. So, as long as an artist aren't trying to say something deep/smart/meaningful lyrics aren't important IMO. You might wonder, why bother writing lyrics if you aren't saying anything important? My answer to this is that the instrumentals in hip-hop are often very repetative and they might have the rythm, but they aren't very catchy. Vocals can fix both problems if done properly.
Some (so called) mumble-rappers I recommend: Young Thug, Playboi Carti, Lil Uzi Vert, Travis Scott, Lil Pump (pre Harverd Dropout) and Future.
Hope this helps! Sorry if my text looks sloppy, writing on mobile and english isn't my first language.
Kugelwubler · 47 points · Posted at 14:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, i personally like it because it often has a very layed back attitude and i can vibe with it. Its a taste-thing what you can vibe to, i happen to like this kind of vibe. I dont care about the lyrics when i listen to a mumble rap song, i just like the phonetics.
ManBearPig1865 · 4 points · Posted at 17:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you mind posting an example or two of what you like? I think I've completely missed any sort of mumble rap.
SprolesRoyce · 12 points · Posted at 18:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not OP but people lump so much stuff under mumble rap. Young Thug is my favorite thrown under the umbrella, but there’s also Future as another very popular artist. Then you could include people like 21 Savage or Roddy Ricch. I’ve also seen people call Lil Uzi Vert mumble rap
robbylet24 · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LUV counts as mumble rap? I really don't think of him that way.
SprolesRoyce · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither would I but I’ve seen it said so I figured I’d include him
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thing with “mumble rap” is that it’s not really a genre so much as an insult, kinda like dadrock. So it can really mean anything depending on who you’re talking too. But some of my favorites that I would definitely consider “mumblers” are like Future, Young Thug and Playboi Carti.
Kugelwubler · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the thing is i am german and listen mostly to german rap music, so i could give you some examples there if you want, though i noticed that most people i talked to didnt care for the music if they cant understand it. One artist would be Ufo361 (Song examples: VVS, Rich Rich, Sonnenuntergang), another one that i really like, which is a lot more underground is Yin Kalle (Examples: Plug Call, Hose Tief, Nase voll). They are both Trap Rappers but they often use the mumbling rapstyle. A important fact that i forgot in my comment is that i think that a lot of people cant just vibe without listening to the lyrics, so maybe it helps that u cant understand the language. So mayb try, for example dutch trap rap and stuff, also great.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 17:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish i could get into that. Normally when i turn on a mumble rap song i just think about how lame the lyrics are and how weird the people are making the song
jorsmi12 · 10 points · Posted at 19:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same reason why people like country or metal.
rambleon4ever · 5 points · Posted at 20:02:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I mean I literally don’t understand it. Cuz they mumble...
16bitSamurai · 7 points · Posted at 23:06:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude there are many songs where you can’t understand the lyrics. Nirvana was made fun of for that reason a lot. Smells like teen spirt is mumble rock
Klepto121 · 3 points · Posted at 03:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, people like "mumble rap" when they hear it in my experience. Lots of really dope songs out there
motixor · 6 points · Posted at 19:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It sounds good idk what to tell you
hashtagmaupin · 9 points · Posted at 19:54:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
young thug is the goat though sir, if you must know
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I kinda hate it, yet I still find myself vibing to the beats
jameshatesmlp · 3 points · Posted at 00:43:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap is actually kinda surprising as an art form. While it initially seems really simple, the specific way you need to write and rhyme is both very limiting and a lot more complex than traditional flows. For mumble rap the multisyllabic triplet is super important. 3 words in a row that all rhyme both inside and out. Without that, it doesn't flow well.
Kaste-bort-konto · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap usualy emphasises on the beat, the key, the flow etc. The lyrics aren’t truly important, but the flow, key progression etc. of the vocal makes it appealing in my opinion. However the lyrics in mumble rap are usually humourous, like Young Thug’s chorus in “Dome”
And later in a verse he goes
which just flows really nice and sounds appealing on top of the simple yet beautiful beat
Just my 2 cents
forgotusernameoften · 7 points · Posted at 14:53:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s aesthetically pleasing and it’s not that hard to tell what they’re saying if you think
Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 16:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I expect them to start just humming to a beat.
SprolesRoyce · 18 points · Posted at 18:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t disrespect Kid Cudi like that
rambleon4ever · 2 points · Posted at 16:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I might actually listen to that
Product_of_purple · 2 points · Posted at 16:45:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To the studio!
Buttonwalls · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
its funny.
kasakka1 · 0 points · Posted at 19:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On the same note, heavily auto tuned vocals. I don’t get the appeal of singers/rappers who cannot sing or operate the auto tune plugin so it corrects the pitch issues. Used as an effect it is as appealing as the sound of vomiting to me.
pantheon_panther · 6 points · Posted at 20:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think autotune can be used as a tool to convey emotion in a very unique way. I really enjoy how Kanye West uses autotune.
rambleon4ever · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Word. They don’t even know how to use it correctly, it just winds up sounding like robots fucking
arizona_ranger420 · 30 points · Posted at 18:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how EA convinces fifa players to buy the same game every year
c0mplexx · 3 points · Posted at 03:25:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
well Fifa 20 feels way different than Fifa 16 I can tell you that, then there are squad updates, small features and tweaks
arizona_ranger420 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't take my comment srsly i just was never a fan of football
2Quick_React · 2 points · Posted at 04:32:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't it the same thing with all of the sports games EA publishes?
arizona_ranger420 · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh honest some of their games were original and fun but yes they just keep remaking the same games over and over. it's even worse than bethesda milking skyrim
2Quick_React · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a strong feeling we're going to get another re-release of Skyrim on the next console generation before Bethesda finally releases Elder Scrolls 6.
arizona_ranger420 · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's hope tes 6 doesnt turn out as bad as fallout 76
2Quick_React · 2 points · Posted at 14:44:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bethesda has this ability to fuck up everything else except for any Elder Scrolls game.
kryten4000series · 218 points · Posted at 14:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
conspiracy theories...when you break them down and work out how many people would have to be involved and the cost of keeping all those people quiet, they're completely ridiculous...
jasonrodrigue · 124 points · Posted at 14:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what they want you to think.
squeakmango · 93 points · Posted at 14:28:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conspiracy theories are the ‘acts of the gods’ of our time. We want to assign blame and understand mysterious things. Since the gods don’t cut it nowadays, we blame ‘the man’ instead and come up with some myths to help us cope with hard situations.
[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 14:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is a really interesting way to look at it. Makes sense and explains a great deal. I would hope that we as a species will outgrow it though. I feel it holds us back overall.
Ooer · 11 points · Posted at 18:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s oddly more comforting to believe that humans have the capability and power to orchestrate things, even if nefarious, than to accept that everything is random chaos and we are just in it for the ride.
FlatbushZombii · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of life likely is random chaos but I have no doubt that humans still orchestrate nefarious things all the time.
DickMeatBootySack · 6 points · Posted at 16:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually never thought about this. That’s how the ancient civilizations explained pretty much everything. What’s the sun? Oh, it’s some guy named Ra. Why does the Earth exist? Because of this woman named Gaia. Makes a lot more sense than actually finding out why this thing happened or exists
Juswantedtono · 2 points · Posted at 18:19:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree with the equivocation because people still believe in acts of god. Look at how many preachers have said coronavirus is the work of God trying to kill off particular groups of people.
Conspiracy theories are their own disease, and I think the cause is living in highly unequal societies where a few thousand people have as much power as the next group of hundreds of millions of people. This leads people in the latter group to start assuming that people in the former group are using their power to create lies designed to maintain that power.
squeakmango · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed - aren’t those 80 or so individuals who own half the wealth of the world indistinguishable from gods at the moment? In terms of power to make things happen that affects the rest of us...
fascists_disagree · 2 points · Posted at 19:11:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In our modern age there is little incentive left to believe in gods. Hell is not scary and believable anymore. Those conspiracy theories are almost unfalsifiable and exploit the same fears. They often come with a religious package as well. And some of the stories turn out to be true in the end. Or true-ish. There is some sick stuff going on in the world.
nelsonbestcateu · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it though? Useful data and explanations are readily available. Acts of god were in a time when knowledge was not there. In this day and age you are just willfully ignorant. Provided you are mentally healthy.
squeakmango · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that the same people who would have previously believed in gods have just switched. I make no claims about the state of their mental health though.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 19:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ridiculous doesn't always mean it's wrong. If you think about plenty of things you know to be true you'll realize how ridiculous they are too
[deleted] · 20 points · Posted at 19:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not necessarily a conspiracy theorist but some of the stuff that U.S. government declassified would be considered as crazy tinfoil hat stories if I shared it with a layperson.
LuftDrage · 4 points · Posted at 21:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that’s part of the reason conspiracy theories still exist.
“If the government can do that crazy shit then why can’t they execute order 66?”
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Yes my lord"
Orders men to shoot at general Kenobi.
lucky_ducker · 10 points · Posted at 20:31:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except some of them turn out to be real. MK Ultra, Project Northwoods, poison alcohol during prohibition, FBI spying on MLK and John Lennon, the list goes on. The Vietnam War and the Spanish American war were both triggered by false-flag attacks on U.S. military assets that were actually 100% staged by the U.S.
ironwolf56 · 10 points · Posted at 20:47:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conspiracy theory is an overly broad term is the problem. It ranges from the ludicrous (flat earth, reptile aliens) to the plausible (there's more to the Epstein thing than the official story is telling us).
kryten4000series · 2 points · Posted at 02:57:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah i was thinking more of the ludicrous ones...
SiberianPermaFrost_ · 4 points · Posted at 18:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is my MIL. I said to her once - "why do so many people have to be lying in order for Trump to be telling the truth?"
jeffzebub · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And yet people conspire to commit crimes all the time and have done so throughout history. We only hear about the ones that eventually came to life. You'd be surprised how the threat of death will motivate people to remain quiet. Another motivator is holding dirt on someone in exchange for their silence. Also, these days, when a conspiracy is leaked, the news can be manipulated to cast doubt or create a distraction so attention is taken away.
Aridius · 3 points · Posted at 19:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except the ones that are true.
See CIA family jewels
anlineoffline · 4 points · Posted at 14:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people feel a need to believe in something. That there’s more to life than everyday mundaneness.
meskero · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He's from the government trying to fool us dont believe this false civilian
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree for some conspiracies but there are a lot that ended up being true. Now that doesn’t mean I think coronavirus is a hoax but it’s hard to believe government’s have the people’s interest first thing.
TonaldDrumpz · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many have turned out to be true actually
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say rarely. I use to read heaps of conspiracy theories lol
TonaldDrumpz · 1 points · Posted at 07:53:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can come true rarely and there can still be many. The world has been around a lot longer than your lifetime
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 07:57:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah yeah. But you know what I'm saying
10 thousand is many... but not really when compared to a million or 2
TonaldDrumpz · 1 points · Posted at 08:04:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that's subjective.
1 million or 2 is many but not really when compared to 1 billion or 2. 100 is many but not really when compared to 100000.
Your comment doesn't really challenge the point that I made in any way to be honest, in fact the more I read over it I realise it is a baseless argument
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 08:32:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh, all you did was reiterate my point. It's not acrually many. You're saying 0.5% of conspiracy being true is many? I'm not against conspiracy theories, but to think any more than 10% are entirely true is just delusional imo
TonaldDrumpz · 1 points · Posted at 09:01:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I did reiterate your point to show how silly it sounds. 0.5% of certain amount can still be "many" And yes at the end you said "imo. " that's proves the point. It's subjective, it's your opinion, thanks for finally admitting that
Klepto121 · 1 points · Posted at 09:46:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
.... wow. This is too funny. 0.5% isn't "many". 99.5% is many. 0.5% is rare. You're too dumb to function 😂
"tHat'S PrOvEs ThE PoInT" hahahaha
TonaldDrumpz · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:33 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't replying to percentages. I was replying to your numbers
Jamesmateer100 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like the new world order conspiracy for example.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To quote another user's answer: "I think a lot of dumbass conspiracies boil down to people wanting to be in on a secret truth to feel superior to others."
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:32:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look at how many people knew about epstein and kept it secret. Including authorities and news agencies. It's not that far fetched.
kryten4000series · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:18 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
that was a pretty closed environment though. i'm thinking more of the ones that involve the public at large. for example: "they" want to inject a potentially deadly virus or something into everyone with a vaccine...well, presumably those at the top aren't going to be, or their families. but that family includes partners and in-law from other families so they wont be either...and what about friends? it's like the 6 degrees of seperation thing, eventually it involves everybody. also if 1000 people are sworn to secrecy, SOMEone's gonna blab, it's human nature...
cultured_banana_slug · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one thing I love about them is that they're so organized. It requires so many people in so many areas of the world with so many different agendas to all agree to do the same thing.
A big enough group of people can't even agree on what to have for lunch, ffs.
thats0K · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WE'RE GETTING PIZZA, FOR THE FUCKING 7TH TIME, JANET! DON'T YOU LISTEN?? DID YOU BRING THE GOD-DAMN SODA THIS TIME?!
Redtrekkie72 · 25 points · Posted at 18:43:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some guys wear their pants below their butt showing their underwear. Wtf!
evildadatron · 5 points · Posted at 20:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I heard it started in the prison system. They’d wear their pants like that to let other prisoners know they were down to fuck. Somehow it caught on as trendy in the outside world and it’s origin has nothing to do with it anymore.
marazomeno · 3 points · Posted at 23:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wasn't there also something about not having belts in prison?
evildadatron · 3 points · Posted at 01:04:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That and also draw-strings and shoelaces, all no-no’s in prison. Depending on which you’re in.
galaxygirl978 · 5 points · Posted at 20:39:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah..as a female I consider it a major turn-off
LaTalullah · 2 points · Posted at 05:46:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Started with prison culture and transferred to street cred and hence fashion
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or halfway
devyReddit · 0 points · Posted at 23:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s cool.
jellysqueaks · 26 points · Posted at 17:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an asexual, I don’t understand why sexual assault happens, especially with people in the workplace, between students and teachers, in churches, etc. Why would you risk your reputation to have sex with a non-consenting party? It just doesn’t seem worth it.
I also don’t get sex in general but this is something that’s bothered me
Echo419__ · 13 points · Posted at 19:00:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have the mindset to rape someone
LaTalullah · 3 points · Posted at 05:51:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's about power
Officeprisoner · 12 points · Posted at 19:21:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people eat 'normally'. What 'normal' is. As someone who has never had a atypical relationship with food from birth, I cannot fathom how people know when to stop eating.
blenneman05 · 1 points · Posted at 07:01:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it’s supposed to be a Pavlovian response to feel slightly nauseated when you overeat but obviously overweight people push past that and keep eating.
I’ve always been a thin person and grew up with overweight people and the only times that I overeat, I pay the consequences for. I feel sick to my stomach so when I eat now, I learn to eat just enough to feel “full” so I don’t get to that feeling sick place.
Also when you eat slower, you might feel fuller versus someone who eats like they’re about to die in 5 secs and need to eat in under 5 mins.
butareyoumoist · 12 points · Posted at 19:43:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
life why are we all doing this??? this place is awful.
Whuwisp · 6 points · Posted at 08:25:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because we can enjoy and experience things. Also don’t commit suicide
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you mean Reddit, or life?
butareyoumoist · 2 points · Posted at 01:29:46 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
life- earth is kinda crappy. what even is this suppose to be????
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:13 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha. Yes, I get it. Why anything exists is very confusing. I battle with this question frequently.
From a personal perspective, I guess everyone has a different experience of life and some enjoy it more than others.
The good thing is that everyone’s life is always changing. Nothing is stagnant and there’s a good chance that things will change for the better, particularly if we direct our ships towards betterment.
I think life is never a walk in the park for anyone, however. It’s full of challenges.
insan98062 · 70 points · Posted at 18:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people who think the corona virus is a hoax or can only hurt old people. Newsflash, even it can kill young people too, and even if it couldnt, this can effect all of us, wether its second hand or not. For example, the nursing home my grandma is in is on lockdown now. I used to be able to do laundry for her, now shes locked in there by herself. It affects us all.
Yobearra · 8 points · Posted at 18:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, and the whole “you can’t die from it if you’re black” 🙄I wish people would take it more seriously. I just had a 24-year-old cousin to pass from it 2 days ago..I try not to think about the fact that he had to die alone in a hospital room
insan98062 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didnt even know people were saying that?! I honestly hate the human race sometimes lol.
Yobearra · 2 points · Posted at 18:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Omg yes I’ve heard it so much and seen it all over my Facebook. And I definitely concur with hating the human race sometimes lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People think boris going into intensive care was a stunt, seriously its fucking daft
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 00:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Newsflash: it’s killed no one under 50 who didn’t have a preexisting condition...just like the flu.
insan98062 · 7 points · Posted at 00:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well im sorry, do you see the flu destroying italy? This is still a pandemic and you should treat it like one, rather than acting like killing the elderly is something that shouldnt be feared. And before you say it, yes, other sicknesses can only kill the elderly but those are bad things too. Dont act like just because a sickness has a demographic of people it can only kill, that means that all of a sudden "oh its just the flu" i agree, the people panic buying are ridiculous, but the people saying this sickness is something that shouldnt be cared about are just as ridiculous.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:54:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Newsflash: You are wrong. Search up Ismail Mohamed Abdulwahab. Not just did he have no known underlying conditions, he was 13. Move that towards 50 and you will find many more...
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 02:00:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So there was one kid somewhere? That’s your response? You cannot possibly be serious. Covid19 is called boomerremover for a reason.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 02:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were wrong. That was my response. Nothing more.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t bother. You’ll just waste your time and be frustrated. Try to think of it like this. It’s easier and less scary for them to believe this version.
[deleted] · 65 points · Posted at 16:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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thunderfart_99 · 12 points · Posted at 17:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand basic maths, but when it gets complex thats when I switch off.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
X= plus or minus the square route of B squared minus fourAC all divided by twoA
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 20:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like you are counting the balls in your ball pit but then you figure out you can stack them and then count them and then you figure out you can make one blue ball stand for 10 red balls and then you figure out that you can make a green ball stand for any amount of red balls and then you figure out that the same rules for adding blue and red balls apply to counting green balls and then you figure out that you can have pieces of red balls and that the pieces can be infinitely small and you can still count them and then you get to group theory and you're like what the fuck.
hk089911 · 72 points · Posted at 14:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ghosting
[deleted] · 48 points · Posted at 15:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of social norms in general make no sense.
ricar321 · -6 points · Posted at 19:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then you probably haven’t thought about them enough.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 19:50:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Let's see:
Ghosting. I get it if they're toxic, but most people are honestly just socially awkward and have no idea what they did wrong
Dating has way too many unnecessary rules
Gender roles make no sense. Why limit someone based on something that you can't even choose?
Why is being quiet frowned upon?
ricar321 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, what about them? They don’t make sense? I’m not saying the reasons for them are good, but bad reasons count as reasons too.
Ghosting is a lot easier than actually telling someone you’re not interested.
That’s a generalization, they vary from person to person, and people have reasons about why they have those ‘rules’. Depends on the rules you’re speaking to, I guess.
Gender roles aren’t fundamentally about limiting people, they’re mostly constructed to describe how the two sexes differently express themselves. And the sexes have historically expressed themselves differently, on average, and have slight, but significant, variations in psychological factors, on average. Different cultures also have different gender roles. They make sense, but shouldn’t be used in limiting people to what they should do, as you say.
Again, different cultures frown upon different things. In Japan, for example, introversion is the norm. In western societies, the opposite is true, generally speaking. There are some fair reasons why it might be the case for each society.
Again, not saying that these reasons are good reasons, but nonetheless they are reasons why people do these things. They’re not just arbitrarily made up, though.
pixiedusterie · 18 points · Posted at 18:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! Seems to be a big thing in our culture today. I have been “ghosted” by grown adult clients as well as in romantic relationships. If you’ve decided to move ahead with your event without my help, just let me know. Otherwise I will keep planning and trying to contact you for a while. So inconsiderate and unfathomable because I would never do it. I also think for major job interviews (not in my personal career) where you’ve made it to the last round, they should give you courtesy that they have made their decision and hired a different candidate.
hk089911 · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
exactly! i try to think that the problem is not me, it’s them. of course you’ll have to deal with the rejection and the time spent trying to find a reason but sometimes it’s best to acknowledge what they’ve taught you and just move on. also i try to think that the fact that i would never do it is a sign of their emotional immaturity or not being able to communicate clearly. in both context though (relationships as well as in your job) it might be because they viewed you just as a tool, but again that sounds like emotionally immaturity to me. it still sucks once you’re starting to care for that person but it’s not your fault
TheDoctorOfWho4 · 17 points · Posted at 19:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m just playing devil’s advocate, but it’s a helluva lot easier to disappear from that person’s life than to deal with the consequences of a failed relationship.
hk089911 · 5 points · Posted at 19:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
of course! that’s why you shouldn’t do it. no one deserves that. once you’ve developed a relationship with someone the best thing to do would be to explain your reasons and move on with your life, as opposed to just leave someone hanging. that’s just a sign of immaturity from who’s ghosting and that they can’t deal with confrontation.
TheDoctorOfWho4 · 7 points · Posted at 19:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a time I’d wished I had ghosted somebody because they wouldn’t stop trying to guilt me into taking them back. It was taking a toll on me.
hk089911 · -3 points · Posted at 19:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you can always explain how you don’t want them in your life. no one should force you into a relationship. you should be able to move on after that. but at the same time everyone deserves an explanation :)
TheDoctorOfWho4 · 8 points · Posted at 19:11:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not always. Abuse, both mental and physical deserves no explanation. And do you seriously think I didn’t explain? Some people are clingy and don’t react well to rejection and it shouldn’t always be the responsibility of the other person to deal with that.
hk089911 · 5 points · Posted at 19:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no one said that’s your responsibility! I just said everyone deserves an explanation. even when you fear someone might not react “well” to the rejection or someone is “clingy”, you can just tell them directly. :) it seems to me you’re describing something completely different from what I imagined. my point is: in a seemingly “normal” relationship ghosting is an act of immaturity and disrespect towards the other person. also ghosting means cutting ties with that person completely and out of the blue. it’s definitely not your case if you had already made your point clear to the other person.
Scholesie09 · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so you do understand it, you just wanted to complain about people who do lmao no hate
hk089911 · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that’s my understanding, but i obviously wanted to know other people’s opinions on this haha. honestly i’m not even sure why people do it, i just know i wouldn’t do it
cridhebriste · 0 points · Posted at 07:49:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes- definition of cowardice
PoorMansTonyStark · 5 points · Posted at 20:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some (many?) people just don't take rejection very well. It's easier to just ghost people. Also some people think they can weasel their way around your rejection. They start to interrogate and forcefully reason with you why you should continue with them. Like, are you trying to bully or guilt-trip me into being with you even if I don't want it? What's the point? So it all is just unnecessary waste of time.
TimCreed · 5 points · Posted at 19:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do this a lot without realizing it. Personally with my anxieties, I sometimes have no mental energy to respond to people. Days can go by until I have the energy again, and by that point it's hard to continue a conversation. It's nothing personal against them, it has everything to do with me.
daniel4sight · 6 points · Posted at 18:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudden uncomfortability. Some handle it some don't.
hk089911 · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what does that mean? I genuinely don’t understand
daniel4sight · 5 points · Posted at 19:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People don't handle certain situations well, for an example a bad relationship, they push the problem away thinking it will go away. If they confront the problem they get really uncomfortable, so they ignore the problem and pretend it never existed. It's selfish.
hk089911 · 5 points · Posted at 19:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
right! ghosting means that you can’t handle confrontation or just that you can’t explain your reasons. or simply that you’re immature enough to think someone is not deserving of your time. sadly the only people that feel bad about it are the ones that are being ghosted but it probably gets easier with time
Dragonman558 · 3 points · Posted at 19:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I just forget about people if they don't really contribute anything, if someone I haven't talked to in a month talks to me, or I see them then yeah, I'll talk for a bit, but unless that starts a new sort of friendship, then just back to silence
sofingclever · 4 points · Posted at 19:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a shitty thing to do, but I don't think it's that hard to understand.
"I don't want to interact with this person anymore, but I'm too much of a coward to deal with this situation like an adult." There you go, that's why people ghost others.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:31:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not cowardice usually. It's more like I don't care enough. Or at all.
TehMulbnief · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makes perfect sense to me. I've had people verbally attack me when I told them I didn't want to see them again, so I've stopped bothering to explain myself.
Non_Skeptical_Scully · 3 points · Posted at 19:38:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cowardice.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 07:48:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Avoiding confrontation or disclosure. Cowardly control. For some it’s a defensive move- avoiding danger and disclosing location. For others it’s avoiding respectful resolution and disclosing info detrimental to their agenda.
Rackbone · 1 points · Posted at 14:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do it for everything. Jobs, locations, lovers, friends, family, whatever. Don't know why but I've just always done it. I love walking away from things.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 11 points · Posted at 19:33:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The dual slit experiment. Basically proves that quantum particles can time travel. Fries my brain every time I watch anything about it.
angry_snek · 0 points · Posted at 21:24:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does time travel have to do with it? It’s just one particle being at more than one place at the same time, making it possible to collide with itself.
The part I don’t get is that you can never fully determine the location and speed of such a particle at the same time.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, its not just that. I forget what it's called, but in the "maze" version of it, particles seem to go back in time and rewrite results.
angry_snek · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh can you tell me more about that maze one? I’m sorry if my previous comment came over as mean or ignorant, I guess I didn’t know all of it. I do know about the double slit one where the impacts form a “spread pattern” on the surface that is impacted on.
PM_ME_WITH_A_SMILE · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let me see if I can find a video that explains it. No problem at all!
PatronSaintLucifer · 36 points · Posted at 13:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't for the life of me tie anything. Shoes, pants laces, NOTHING
paperclip1213 · 27 points · Posted at 14:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You probably had poor fine motor skill development when you were a child. You can develop it better with more practice.
PatronSaintLucifer · 3 points · Posted at 14:30:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I've tried many times but I can never get it right. It's like figuring out analog clocks, someone can tell me how to do it, but I can't seem to retain it or whatever
Edit: goddamnit, this is going to hot isnt it, and my comment is boring as fuck smh ugh >:(
DirtyBendavitz · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wanna play some catch?
Disregard username
sagoooo · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it's just a lack of pure spatial understanding. Someone can show me how to do a knot 30 times and guide me through it 30 times, but once I try to do it on my own I'm just lost. It isn't that I can't physically do it, it's that I can't understand what the hell I'm supposed to do.
paperclip1213 · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fine motor skills deal with the hands and fingers. Spatial awareness is the space around you.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 16:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are you tying your pants?
PatronSaintLucifer · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sweatpants have waistbands you tie
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 12:28:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I completely forgot that, my bad.
Syng42o · 2 points · Posted at 17:29:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't able to tie my shoelaces until I was 8. Everybody kept trying to explain to me by using the bunny in the tree hole analogy but it just wasn't working for me. It wasn't until my BIL explained it to me by not using that analogy that I was able to do it. Maybe it hasn't been explained to you in the right way to make it click in your brain ?
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recently learned how to tie my shoes, after you like learn it from your parent or your friend and you keep and keep trying to tie your shoes it get downs to your muscle memory and then boom you know how to do it :D
wolfcl0ck · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
try Ian's shoelace site. I learned to tie my shoes there.
PatronSaintLucifer · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My shoes don't have real laces, but definitely saving that link to try and learn
CaseOfWater · 1 points · Posted at 14:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about bow ties?
PatronSaintLucifer · 3 points · Posted at 14:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never wore one
[deleted] · 43 points · Posted at 13:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The expression "You want to have your cake and eat it" why the hell would you have the dam cake if you didnt want to eat the bloody thing!!? 🤔
Sexybroth · 32 points · Posted at 14:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The original phrase was, "You want to eat your cake and have it, too." Meaning you want to eat it now, but you also want to save it for later.
I always wondered why not just bake a bigger cake so they could do both.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 14:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol. A lot more sence in your words than the ones writen by the numpty that came up with that expression! 😊
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Found Ted Kyzinski
Female_oftheSpecies · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was my first thought!
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because there still wouldn't be any for later now matter how big it is. You'll just feel worse about it.
Melendine · 1 points · Posted at 10:34:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because cake can be a mistress and a wife
7788445511220011 · 27 points · Posted at 14:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you eat it, you no longer have it. You can't eat it and then still have it.
I understand and agree the phrase is not the clearest.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 14:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About as clear as a fruit cake, but that makes more sence 👍
Knute5 · 3 points · Posted at 14:34:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you want to eat your cake and still have it too?
Blince · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll see if I can explain the phrase to you.
The general idea that you're communicating when you use it is that someone is trying to have two ''good'' things (as in 'good' for the person in question, it doesn't reference morality) that are mutually exclusive. To relate it to the phrase, having a cake is a good thing. Eating cake is a good thing.
But if you've eaten the cake, you don't have it anymore. So you either continue to have the cake, or you eat it. You can't have both.
If your response is 'why can't I eat some of the cake,' you're taking the saying a bit too literally.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all far to confusing, I think I'll stick to biscuits, they're so much more user friendly! 😕
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 07:58:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well done.
sofingclever · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As I understand it, it basically means...You have this beautiful cake. A work of art. It would be such a shame to destroy this beautiful work of art. But you also want to eat this delicious cake. So to eat the cake, you have to destroy the visual presentation.
So you can't "have your cake" (this perfectly crafted work of art) and "eat it too" (because to eat it destroys the art.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow that cake sounds amazing!! Trouble is it sounds so good I want to eat it the dam thing!! Nope, that's not helped solve the issue at all, in fact, just made it worse 🙄
sofingclever · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But once you eat it you won't have your beautiful work of art anymore. So you ate your cake, but you don't "have it."
TheLendes · 39 points · Posted at 15:15:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
K-Pop stans
willgfish96 · 27 points · Posted at 17:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don’t understand the spamming of those concert videos on every popular Twitter thread when it has no relation to what was originally said.
BittersweetGrey · 12 points · Posted at 18:19:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its to increase views for the "fancams" kpop is obsessed with numbers
MelodramaSnubbed · 3 points · Posted at 23:17:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the fan cams are just memes/jokes to annoy people like you and i
philocalygrandma · 7 points · Posted at 20:56:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually enjoy K-Pop but I 100% agree with you. The level of obsession that some people IVE KNOWN and of people I don’t know is absolutely insane. It’s scary. It’s also weird/interesting that it’s just K-Pop that’s like this, as in every famous thing has a few obsessers but it seems like the majority of people who like K-Pop stan it into oblivion
Vainglory1- · 44 points · Posted at 16:44:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep trying to comfort me and ask if I’m okay when I’ve told them to leave me alone when getting angry.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 20:33:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And then get angry at you for asking them to leave you alone
neocommenter · 8 points · Posted at 22:04:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hello fellow person on the spectrum! It's taken me literally decades to figure this out but here goes: Non-spectrum people love being comforted when hurt, either emotionally or physically. Which is the exact opposite of what we want, which is to be left the fuck alone. Communicating this can be very difficult, as people take it as a personal failure not to comfort someone. I have found talking like a police officer gets the point across.
"I'm going to need you to back up and keep your hands to yourself"
"I'm going to need you to leave the room now"
Keep repeating yourself. Loud and clear voice, speak with authority. Usually hammers home the point to most that I'm not in the best mood and you're on my last nerve before I tear your head off.
24520ls · 35 points · Posted at 16:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the boy scouts decided to name a anti molestation program "two deep."
Seriously like how the fuck do you decide that's the name you wanna go with, for a program to prevent kids from being molested. Two deep. Sounds like a bit from an American pie movie
whodeyjb · 0 points · Posted at 23:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they don’t have perverted minds?
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 15:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flatearther. How can they still think the planet is a plate in modern times like this. We probably got enough evidence that its round to burry them all alive.
klgp24 · 11 points · Posted at 18:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What outer space is expanding into
3of_spades · 3 points · Posted at 23:03:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nothing, really
Hammude90 · 13 points · Posted at 19:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The popularity and relevance of Star Wars movies.
Edit: typo
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Totally agree. I've seen just the 3 original movies. It's good, but overrated as fuck
L0CZEK · 5 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well for me I just find it funny, that of 9 movies named Star Wars, only 3 are considered good, and yet it's one of the biggest franchises in the world.
Like, look at some other popular fandoms. You can, for example, dislike Harry Potter, but people who like it don't say "well I only liked 3rd and 4th one".
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. I don't like Harry Potter too. At least, I've seen all the movies. The Star Wars fans buy anything related to Star Wars (shirts, mugs and even posters). I think that's because it is a big franchise
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no, I love HP, don't get me wrong there (not the movies, the books).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I used "too" instead of "nor". I'm sorry
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:01:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s become a cult for some.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me either but I’ve also never seen a single star wars movie so that could be why. But it never looked like my cup of tea.
insicknificant · 11 points · Posted at 19:40:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ignorant some people are, especially in America. I understand that everyone has problems, but people freak out over their food or coffee order being off. Children in the middle East starve to death every day, kids as young as 5 are working to support their own or their parents opium addiction. They live in total poverty. I think about this daily, I live in Idaho, I'm 19, female. I have a full time job and support myself. I'm most always broke but to some people I'm filthy rich. People are blinded by privilege and it disgusts me. Another thing is everyone is so obsessed with celebrities. It's all over social media constantly. People who are absolutely filthy rich and do nothing to help anyone with their money, this is who we look up to? I truly don't understand how you can admire selfishness.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:43:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because someone is suffering doesn’t mean that you can’t be frustrated or mad.
Dark_Dominator · 11 points · Posted at 23:54:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are happy for a whole day. I have Autism, ADHD, Tourette’s Syndrome, OCD, Parasomnia, Anxiety, and Depression, and so because of that I can never see how people are so happy with their life.
KoiPonders · 3 points · Posted at 06:32:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First off, as one of the people "happy with their life," I couldn't fathom what it's like to be you. That sucks, no sarcasm intended. Maybe it's because I don't have really have any of those things you have.
Subaruhatchback18 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:09 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have quite a few of these problems as well and to me it’s about learning how to be happy. I used to look for happiness in women but I quickly moved on past that. The past 5 years I’ve stayed away from women and have been working on achieving goals that make me happy. So for instance, I started making beats, this has allowed me to express myself in ways I couldn’t before. I’m pretty decently equipped with an arsenal of words but the second I go to describe something I just can’t properly explain things. When I make music wether it’s writing lyrics or making a beat I can portray my feelings in a way that makes me happy that I have an outlet for one but it also lets me vent my feelings in a way I couldn’t before. I can make a beat and you can vibe with it and to me that’s something that makes me smile. Music has always spoken to me, but I’ve also been working on my self as a human finding my way and trying to better my self from my fucked up past. I try to view everything as a learning experience and I try not to harbor resentment for others. I used to be severely depressed growing up and cannabis has definitely helped me grow, learn and conquer some of these problems but the main thing that helps is relearning how to be happy, we tend to focus on all the bad things in life and never the good. So I’d say just learn to live, learn to laugh things off and learn to find meaning and happiness without the aid of others. So much of my life I spent thinking negatively and I’ve gotten drastically better and not thinking that way anymore and that’s more than likely the reason I don’t feel depressed anymore, I was always focused on why am I not like everyone else, why do I not fit in with anyone else, but thinking this way is just a rabbit hole and it only makes you feel worse. I’m not normal, I don’t fit in with 99.999999% of people, but that’s also something I’ve grown to like, I’m not like everyone else, I think for myself, I’m very aware of my issues and I try my best to learn from these issues and it tends to be much more helpful than any medications I’ve taken and I’ve been on a bunch. I hope you start feeling better and that you learn to love yourself for who you are. It’s not easy but nothing in life worthwhile comes easy.
Macewol1 · 190 points · Posted at 13:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rasicm in its simplist form
hades_the_wise · 102 points · Posted at 14:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's hindbrain unconcious/reflexive thinking - a "Different == bad" response. It's easy to see how that hard-wired mental response was useful early in our human history (in BC times), when meeting someone new who looked completely different from you, or who was not in your tribe, presented a real danger. But it's a relic of that era, and we have to get over those hard-wired mental responses and make sure that we're not feeding into structural or societal racism based on those unconscious biases.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it means racist people are like cavemen? Interesting.
hades_the_wise · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like cavemen who know how to use modern tools and speak modern languages. So more dangerous cavemen, yes.
thesquarerootof1 · 12 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Downvote me, but this is the one comment in this post in where I actually understand why something works the way it works.
Lets say you're a White kid and you grew up in a mostly Black neighborhood in Detroit (for example) and your family's house has been broken into a lot of times. Then when you got older, you moved to a WASPy suburb somewhere and all of a sudden there is no crime any more and all your neighbors are White and educated. You can see how people connect those dots.
I lived in Houston for 6 years. I went to the University of Houston, which was surrounded by a pretty much an all Black neighborhood and every time a crime happened on campus, we would get an email which had the description of the perpetrator, including his race. This was very controversial among students because the email always mentioned that it was a Black guy. Most students (including myself) commuted from suburbs that were pretty decent and there was not a lot of crime there.
Racism is something I completely understand and it's something you see everywhere. When I worked as a server in restaurants, most of my coworkers did not want to serve Black tables because they never tipped. The human brain recognizes patterns, it is like this because it was needed for survival.
I am not saying racism is right (or wrong), I'm just saying that it's blatantly obvious why racism exists in the first place
I still think this makes for a good discussion, even though it's offensive or controversial.
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 4 points · Posted at 22:53:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can be such a tricky topic to discuss. When I was a hairdresser, the other stylists told me they typically avoid Indian-looking customers because those customers are demanding and never tip. I waved that off as racism and took a lot of those customers and guess what? They were my most demanding clients and they never tipped more than a dollar. Does that mean all Indians? No of course not, I haven’t met them all. But I can see how someone can get frustrated and come to that conclusion if they experienced that again and again. AND I can see them feeling frustrated if they voice that experience and are immediately dismissed as a stupid nazi.
thesquarerootof1 · 3 points · Posted at 23:08:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree that it is a tricky topic ! It's funny you say that because my girlfriend is a hairdresser and she mentioned this about Indians and Black clients. Hahaha. Racism is certainly not a simple topic.
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 3 points · Posted at 23:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It certainly isn’t. I think we kind of created this environment today that is very unforgiving in terms of letting people speak freely about their experiences and their mistakes and misunderstandings that lead to the prejudices they hold. As if telling someone that what they experienced was wrong is going to make them suddenly say “oh yeah you’re right, thanks for telling me that my experience are wrong and yours are right...” That is never going to change hearts and minds. But honestly I think a large amount of people don’t actually want to eradicate racism and prejudice so much as they just enjoy starting those arguments so they can feel better than their opponent.
PhoneJazz · 16 points · Posted at 15:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Confirmation bias. Humans see a person of another race engaging in a certain behavior, maybe more than once, and they ascribe that behavior to that race. Even if people of their own race do the same thing.
cultured_banana_slug · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's their way of rejecting their own ugliness and throw it onto someone else.
Humanity has some very ugly bits. People don't want to accept that the ugliness is in all of us and we have to watch out for it. Easier to say "it's THOSE PEOPLE" rather than to accept "it's people."
TakeOffYourMask · 4 points · Posted at 19:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not about race, it’s about class and cultural differences.
Dragonman558 · 3 points · Posted at 19:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people are different, I must be better than them because I've only been around people that are the same as me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:41 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
more extreme version of general us/them mentality.
Not part of my group = bad.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:04:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BlakkandMild · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I strongly disagree with what you’re saying, though not maliciously. There are definitely differences between what certain cultures consider the norm and behavior/habits are often related to socioeconomic standing but I don’t like to associate that with ethnicity. In a particular sample size, you may see some correlation between those two factors and ethnicity, but correlation does not equal causation. The perception that people (generally) act differently strictly based on their ethnicity is one of the things that helps to perpetuate racism.
Dinosaur_Boner · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It is associated with ethnicity though. Races tend to have their own cultures. But even in the most deracinated multicultural societies, the differences in behavior and performance persist. It's impossible to not notice.
SmexySmartin · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think that has more to do with socioeconomic background than race. You can also predict how nice an area is given income
Dinosaur_Boner · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another way to look at it is that SES is one of the things that race predicts. If a place becomes blacker, it invariably becomes poorer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Growing up in homogenous communities is a pretty deciding factor. Everyone looks similar, acts similarly, have very minor variations in their likes and dislikes. Imagine meeting someone who hated ice cream, your first response would probably be “wtf is wrong with you?” Now expand that to an entire culture of people saying that line to another and anything an everything becomes a point of contention when the majority of one group disagrees with the majority of another. Also, black people steal.
OgreTheFat · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure it's merely a sign of ignorance, willful or not.
hejmeddej · -13 points · Posted at 18:44:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wouldnt exist if it wasnt for the idiots who thiought blsck people were animals back in the day
imnewtothissoyeah · 15 points · Posted at 19:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism has been around forever, and happens across the board, from the beginning of civilization
hejmeddej · -8 points · Posted at 19:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe thats true but the idiots who started the slave period made it 10x worse
imnewtothissoyeah · 8 points · Posted at 19:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ancient Egyptian slaves? Or the east Asian slaves? Was it the south and west Africans who enslaved their own neighboring tribes or was it the south Asians who held islanders as slaves? Ohhhh. You're specifically saying the evil white slave traders that operated from about 1500-1850. That's the cause of racism in the world
hejmeddej · -3 points · Posted at 21:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It made racism worse in our time...
Klepto121 · 0 points · Posted at 03:10:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Worse than? I can't even understand what you're comparing
schmee_schmulobaloo · 22 points · Posted at 14:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How soldering bits of metal together makes a computer.
officeromnicide · 3 points · Posted at 18:43:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most modern processors have billions of individual transistors mode up of two types of silicone which can be either on or off
RudyChicken · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bits of metal... And semiconductor material like silicon or germanium doped with boron or phosphorus or other.
schmee_schmulobaloo · 3 points · Posted at 20:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but what makes them process information into readable output? Why isn't it just a hot metal light show?
RudyChicken · 3 points · Posted at 20:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit. That's like... a lot of steps and details. It's the culmination of decades of research by thousands of people as to how to create tiny transistors on silicon wafers and how to make those transistors act as switches so that they can hold their state. That then leads to the concept of logic gates which are made up of groups of those transistors in a specific configuration. Those logic gates can then be grouped up to make basic building blocks of microprocessors. Teams of dudes throw all that stuff together in CAD software, send it off to a foundry, they process the crap out of it and BAM you have a chip. It's hard to eloquently and concisely describe that entire process. It's more fun to just think of it as magic.
schmee_schmulobaloo · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I feel like I understand a little more! I think you're right, though. It's better if I stick with magic.
Expresso_Depressoo · 30 points · Posted at 18:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that humans can be so goddamn horrid.
Why do people cheat? Why do they go so far out of the way to make others feel like crap?
It boggles my mind, and I still don’t understand why it happens.
Distempa · 3 points · Posted at 22:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a myriad of mental issues behind what makes people so nasty.
Cheating is an odd one though, some do it because they've found someone new who fulfills holes in their long term relationship, but cant end the relationship.
I'm not sure what the deal is with serial cheater, but I knew one. He always cheated on his GF with a new GF, broke up with the old one to date the new one and I never understood why, but then maybe they're afraid of being along and committed at the same time? Not excusing them, just rambling :)
Expresso_Depressoo · 0 points · Posted at 01:53:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The type of cheating I experienced isn’t a mental disorder, it’s downright evil for evils sake
Distempa · 1 points · Posted at 12:52:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm so sorry, I hope you're healing from the vindictiveness of that person. I won't ask what happened, that's not for me to know, but if you do need to vent, rant or whatever, you can always DM :)
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:00:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have empathy and remorse accessible in your range of emotions. Others do not. You have a satiation point. Others do not. Neither is evil, broken or weak. Just different.
GodisanAstronaut · 21 points · Posted at 14:09:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that denying the existence of a movie about Avatar The Last Airbender made by M. Schmalamadingdong gets you invited to a mysterious subreddit.
It's not a thing, right?
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 12 points · Posted at 19:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is no last airbender movie in Ba Sing Se...
officeromnicide · 9 points · Posted at 18:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's cause it never fucking happened
Blince · 2 points · Posted at 20:10:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What movie?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never heard of it
Ganon2012 · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's like those people who claim there are actually 3 more Zelda games then there really are. They're just nutjobs.
AndEveryoneYouYeet · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol what the fuck is Avatar and why is Zuko's sister such a cunt?
THEamishTRACTOR · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean the James Cameron one right
doubledracula · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no atla movie, what are you talking about? Could be awesome if there was.
Yuiyfilyfuif · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which movie?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:09 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
Avatar never had a movie but it IS coming to netflix soon!
mildlysuicidal_ · 11 points · Posted at 18:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why spacetime curves.
Like yeah I get matter curves spacetime and thus we have gravity but why exactly does spacetime curve in the first place?
mmcsexy · 12 points · Posted at 19:07:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers.....
pedrot425 · 28 points · Posted at 13:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bartenders spin bottles, flair, so easily. Like what???? How??? No way????
Sexybroth · 15 points · Posted at 14:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They practice a lot.
pedrot425 · 2 points · Posted at 14:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea I’ve practiced on my own and can do the simple ones like bottle thrown from behind. But some things are just outrageous
kronicle_gaming · 2 points · Posted at 15:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like to do the pour where I start at the rim of the glass and raise the bottle as high as I can and then come back down without spilling it (most of the time). People are really impressed by it. I just kinda got used to doing it and understanding physics and liquids helps too I guess.
pedrot425 · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea that’s cool visual and people are impressed by it. Crazy how somewhat simple it is but bartenders never really utilize that trick. I know I don’t use that trick but I should lol. I learned though if you bring the bottle down fast, the pouring will stop for a second allowing you to tilt the bottle upright without spilling
daniel4sight · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of broken bottles.
sofingclever · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not like they showed up on the first day and could do that. It's a learned skill just like anything else.
pedrot425 · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea I’m well aware of that but it’s crazy. It amazes just watching it though. I’m working on that skill but still great to watch.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's basically a muscle memory.
whodeyjb · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do this. Was a bartender for years. Practice.
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like anything impressive, lots of practice. If you see an amazing dunk, a flashy deal, or [insert something about soccer/football handling or shooting] and it is the same thing. A lot of practice to impress people
pedrot425 · 2 points · Posted at 06:15:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m aware practice but at first glance you just are amazed. Everything and anything are perfected with practice. I didn’t mean it in a literal sense when I don’t get things.
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh sorry, thats my fault.
Kimishui · 123 points · Posted at 13:22:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why when I’ve repeatedly said “no” he continues to fight for a “yes” knowing that my word is final. (Then come the tears. His tears.)
[deleted] · 52 points · Posted at 15:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Kimishui · 62 points · Posted at 15:10:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The man that was a boyfriend who I am currently in an insolationship with.
Ellemieke25 · 50 points · Posted at 16:26:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh fuck no, I wish you all the strength and inner calmth ♡
Kimishui · 17 points · Posted at 17:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BTW... I love the “Oh Fuck No!”... lol
Kimishui · 15 points · Posted at 17:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, love. I’m good. I do appreciate your well wishes. And I send love and peace and calm the to you too 🙏🏽
TiresOnFire · 3 points · Posted at 17:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's an insolationship?
Kimishui · 22 points · Posted at 17:23:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We’re in isolation due to Covid19 and not in a regular relationship. So Isolationship. Pretty much stuck in our house together until this pandemic is over.
TiresOnFire · 9 points · Posted at 17:32:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, that sucks.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uncle
2112xanadu · 70 points · Posted at 15:21:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhhh, time for a new dude
_Charlie_Sheen_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It could be a tiny boy baby boy
lookingup9 · 7 points · Posted at 19:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
First of all I wish you the best and I’m sorry you’re stuck in this situation.
I don’t understand that either. There are so many people out there who just cannot grasp the concept of accepting a “no”.
I had a good friend who I liked last year. I had really strong feelings for her and I spent a lot of time hoping she would too. When I told her, she did not feel the same way. As soon as she told me no, I gave up on hoping. I never had the desire to try and change her mind.
I’m not trying to say I’m a perfect person, but it’s not within me to keep pursuing someone who doesn’t want me. I’ve had people do that to me and it’s so awkward and sometimes downright uncomfortable. It can’t stand it.
I think the media definitely romanticizes pursuing the one you want to be with even if they’re not interested. Then when someone outright rejects someone, which everyone has the right to do, there’s always that horrible word “friendzone”. That really bothers me because then people see it as normal not to respect others’ boundaries.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 19:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Kimishui · 6 points · Posted at 19:53:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh. There is no fighting on my part. I’m making the best of it. When this is all over I’m gone.
Thank you for your support 🙏🏽
OUTFOXEM · -2 points · Posted at 21:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's quite a canyon you jumped across there.
It's very possible that he's heartbroken, and seeing her day after day kills him knowing she doesn't want him anymore, and any day now she'll be gone. Men experience heartbreak too. Or did you learn somewhere in life that men don't have feelings and shouldn't cry?
lookingup9 · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re jumping across some canyons yourself
OUTFOXEM · -2 points · Posted at 00:44:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? By saying something is possible?
lookingup9 · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, for your last sentence
OUTFOXEM · -1 points · Posted at 18:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ohh... so asking someone a question instead of jumping to a conclusion. Got it.
Damonatar · 3 points · Posted at 20:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're either a mom or dating a lil bitch
Treeninja1999 · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I assume you broke up with him? He's just sad and seeing you all the time just makes it hard. If its sex then yeah kinda rapey idk
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"just 2 minutes babe, you won't feel a thing!"
everything_is_creepy · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is learned behavior from childhood. My mom's "No" was always final. One day I was with a friend and her mom said No. I immediately gave up and she continued to pester. Eventually her mom caved and my mind was blown. As an adult she continues to plead thinking the first "No" is the beginning of negotiations
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you do anal, everything changes. Not even once.
trynumber53 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depending on if this is about a baby/child asking for something or about a man asking to go on a date or something, the way this sounds changes a lot
Kimishui · 5 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man that I live with until we’re free to leave the house. He’s under a lot of stress. I see it. I feel it.
He wants to start a relationship after I leave and my answer is No. If I leave after all of this I’m not coming back. I’m not moving out to start a relationship with him only to come back.
He wants everything his way. To have his cake and eat it too. I’m not game for that.
TheOneC · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used be that guy.. I was selfish and ignorant. He’s got a lot to learn.. he probably was raised almost always having his way without having to compromise for it. Wish you the best in your next relationship ✌🏽
tlawtlawtlaw · 42 points · Posted at 18:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i see typo's in professional news articles and even headlines CONSTANTLY!!! like how do these grown ass professional people not notice these glaring mistakes, what happened to the job of an editor? How do any of the hundred ppl that see it before its released not notice words missing letters and headlines missing entire words? MIND BOGGLING to me
silverrain64 · 37 points · Posted at 19:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
typos*
Like,*
grown-ass*
mistakes? What*
people*
it's*
It's MIND...*
me!*
whodeyjb · 5 points · Posted at 22:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like you.
cridhebriste · 3 points · Posted at 08:02:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well done
tlawtlawtlaw · -20 points · Posted at 20:12:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
dude i just graduated college a semester early and i can write papers you couldn't even imagine, theres a clear difference between the professional news articles im talking about and a REDDIT comment, im not really worried about my grammar here
smokingandthinking · 7 points · Posted at 20:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were doing well
silverrain64 · 9 points · Posted at 20:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay.
throwaway121505 · 6 points · Posted at 03:28:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/iamverysmart
DirtyBendavitz · 4 points · Posted at 00:41:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You could have said what you wanted to say without being condescending.
tlawtlawtlaw · -3 points · Posted at 00:44:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i suppose but i saw the original comment as more condescending than humorous at first
wuthering_height · 2 points · Posted at 05:50:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow ... you’re so convincing. My English professors at a top 10 university make mistakes. Just because you went to college and graduated early doesn’t mean shit. Now, you could be a brilliant writer for all I know ... just, maybe next time try to prove your point with something more substantial than “I graduated college a semester early”. Also, as an English major, I have yet to meet a grammar Nazi whose grammar is this poor on an informal level (not expecting perfect grammar, but you can’t even capitalise your “I”). Also, you went to the effort to put a comma (more work on an iPhone) after “imagine” when you should have started a new sentence ... just saying.
tlawtlawtlaw · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:24 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
LMAO at u throwing in the subtle "my english professors at a top 10 university" while youre telling me not to say I graduated early HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Same thing, i didnt mean it as a, "Oh I'm so much better than these people," but its super ironic that u did the same thing and helps my point that you're coming across the same exact way without intending to.
wuthering_height · 1 points · Posted at 07:35:33 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have at me, love. My grammar, at least, is on point.
tlawtlawtlaw · 1 points · Posted at 17:17:32 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
and my grammar, is appropriate for a stoned dude on reddit, so please, kindly fuck off
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nor hypocrisy either apparently;)
tlawtlawtlaw · -14 points · Posted at 20:16:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/therewasanattempt to correct my grammar
ZattisQ · 7 points · Posted at 21:06:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No attempt. He was correct.
tlawtlawtlaw · -1 points · Posted at 21:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm literally explaining how I'm a grammar nazi, if I was on a formal forum, writing a paper, or doing anything professional where my grammar/spelling mattered, it would be perfectly punctual and correct. I DO NOT care about my grammar on reddit
shutup_andlift · 3 points · Posted at 02:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think you know what the word literally means.
tlawtlawtlaw · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
LOL i do, it may not have been very necessary there but it still fits properly.
speyonce · 3 points · Posted at 21:05:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in an industry when subscription based online education is huge. A basic coaching program is usually between $150-$300 a month. It’s is INFURIATING that I see typos in their ad’s or content. You want me to pay you $300 a month for business coaching but you can’t even hire a fucking copy editor to go through your Canva graphics? Hard pass.
tlawtlawtlaw · 3 points · Posted at 21:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, I've actually been meaning to contact some of the corporations/news outlets by reaching out to a high ranking employee on LinkedIn or through any other avenue. Literally just hit them up with a gigantic list of flaws in their publications with edits of different correct ways to articulate what they're trying and failing to say. Maybe ill make them feel so shitty or ashamed of their quality control that they'll hire me to fix it LOLLLLLLL
speyonce · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m tempted to do that myself. I work in the beauty industry though and it’s full of ego. I’ve been to more trainings than I can count that have incredibly obvious typos, misspellings, and other grammar infractions in their marketing. I find grammar nazis on reddit to be annoying, because it’s reddit, but if someone is paying me a ton of money I would expect correctly spelled words. I’m no copy editor but I can at least convince most people.
DeadlyBoss · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see what you did there.
sosila · 1 points · Posted at 04:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of it is because with the internet, everyone races to get their story out first so they can get paid for you eyeballing the ad embedded in the article.
People hate ads, and no one reads newspapers, so text-based news outlets are usually hurting for money, and pushing to publish faster. Basically, haste makes waste.
oliviam1217 · 18 points · Posted at 19:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still think that climate change is a hoax.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easier to think that than to actually give a fuck and change their life style.
xXDreamlessXx · 2 points · Posted at 06:10:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most of them think human accelerated climate change is a hoax because the earth has gone through periods of different climates. They are still dumb but thats their side
Talk_Furby_To_Me · 16 points · Posted at 18:31:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people start smoking. It’s super expensive, comes with a plethora of health issues, makes you and your possessions stink, and I’m pretty sure it hasn’t been considered cool since the seventies. I can’t think of a single good reason to start.
HiccupPuppy · 6 points · Posted at 03:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For a little while, it feels good, like any other addictive substance. Then, like other addictive substances, after using it regularly for a period of time, it doesn’t feel as good anymore, but it’s highly addictive and hard to stop because you feel better when you smoke, but mostly just because it makes you feel so much worse when you don’t.
TrogledyWretched · 1 points · Posted at 10:14:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But why bother even seeing if it feels good in the first place? Knowing all the risks and downsides, why bother taking that FIRST drag?
HiccupPuppy · 3 points · Posted at 14:42:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people make poor choices... a lot of people smoke because their parents smoked so it seemed normal to them... but in a lot of other cases, it comes down to some of the same reasons why people use any addictive substances... it can be any combination of:
-wanting some form of relief -other people around them doing it and liking it, so them deciding to try it too -curiosity -and all sorts of other potential reasons in all sorts of various combinations...
People don’t always make decisions based off of logic and understanding risks, especially young people whose brains aren’t fully developed yet, and most people start smoking when they’re young. Everyone makes stupid choices sometimes, and for some of us, that means smoking that first cigarette...
Liqqa · 0 points · Posted at 06:41:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or maybe it’s that they go back to feeling normal when they don’t. And a lot of people can’t handle that. They don’t like how they feel, and they’re scared of it
HiccupPuppy · 2 points · Posted at 14:24:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not just going back to feeling normal... I’ve quit before and I’ve also quit other drugs... addictive substances cause withdrawals when you stop using them, and they’re pretty miserable... it takes time for the substance to be completely out of your system and once it is, the withdrawals stop and then you only have to deal with cravings, which are when you just miss it, in a lot of cases because you don’t like how you’re feeling and you want to feel some form of relief.
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 13:43:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people in high school probably consider it cool
Lethal_bizzle94 · 49 points · Posted at 14:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The offside rule
HavingNoNiceThings · 20 points · Posted at 15:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hockey: having a player on your team be in front of the opposing team's "blue line" before a player on your team, with possession of the puck, crosses the "blue line".
Football: having a player from the defense being across the line of scrimmage and not moving, when the ball is snapped.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 19:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're talking about soccer but excellent work
HavingNoNiceThings · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Should've figured. Gotta be somebody on here who knows how soccer works. 👍
corriefan1 · 3 points · Posted at 23:51:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Canadian, I understood hockey offside long before soccer/football. I think of soccer offside the same as hockey, but the second last defender back (could be keeper or other player) is the blue line, and you can cross that “blue line” as soon as your teammate kicks the ball.
starrsinthesky · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He’s on about actual football
Horne-Fisher · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well FIFA just changed it a bit in the last few years (with respect to what counts as being involved in the play, iirc) so you’re probably not the only one
Cwmcwm · 4 points · Posted at 15:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which sport? I can explain hockey’s.
Lethal_bizzle94 · 4 points · Posted at 15:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
FridgesArePeopleToo · 10 points · Posted at 16:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
American/Gridiron - A defender being passed the line of scrimmage (where the ball starts) at the start of the play.
International/Soccer - when the ball is passed to (or near) an offensive player who is past the last defender (excluding the goalkeeper) at the time that the ball is kicked.
Lethal_bizzle94 · -3 points · Posted at 16:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
International? No friend it’s football, you Americans have ruined the word 😂
champs · 13 points · Posted at 17:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The vast majority of the Anglophone universe is tired of this. If you wanted to keep policing that word, you should have kept your empire.
Lethal_bizzle94 · -5 points · Posted at 18:21:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah
I’m just correcting the use of ‘international’
The US is one of the few countries where football is not the real football
FridgesArePeopleToo · 7 points · Posted at 19:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, that's why it's often described as "international" while American football is described as "American"
Lethal_bizzle94 · -2 points · Posted at 19:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No it’s not
I live in the UK it’s not known as international anywhere here, in wider Europe, the Middle East or most of Asia
It’s just football...
champs · 4 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FTFY. Add the Aussie and Canadian games of football and you're just shy of three quarters of Anglophonia.
I also fail to see how anyone from a gray rock apart from Europe where they play sports named after insects has any claim on other languages or etymology.
vengefulgrapes · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or it's just easier to distinguish between them by adding the word "international," especially when talking about both of them. Considering that many (most?) Redditors are from the US, it was logical to include an explanation on American football. They gave more information and were inclusive to everyone regardless of which sport they call football.
Plus, we didn't "ruin" the word, and definitely not on purpose. Language just naturally evolves into dialects and changes some word around--chips vs crisps, elevator vs lift. And it's not "ruined" because there's clearly a way to distinguish it that should work for anyone who is reasonable enough to not get offended by someone using a different word for a different sport.
Lethal_bizzle94 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope not easier
What would be easier is if Americans stopped assuming every comment or situation is in or related to the US
I have seen this many times mentioned on Reddit as an issue and it’s clear with this thread tbh
Not everyone on Reddit is American, less than 50% of traffic to Reddit is from the US
I wasn’t talking about both of them, I was talking about one of them then a bunch of Americans made assumptions based on their US centric bias
vengefulgrapes · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They didn’t assume you were American (or from any other country where they have a sport other than your football that they call football, like Canada). They didn’t know whether you were or not, so they included both. You’re assuming that they assumed something, so...
Lethal_bizzle94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m talking about not just the one comment on this thread, others also commented about why is it called football anyway when there is little contact with the foot and ball...
Helorum · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe for soccer it is that at the time of a pass between 2 players on the same team there must be at least 2 players from the opposite team between the receiving player and the touch line. This may or may not include the goalie. There are a couple of limitations like it doesn't matter if the receiving player is in their half of the field or if the passing player has already passed one or more of the last 2 defenders.
maccaphil · 3 points · Posted at 17:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Further on this point, why does gridiron persist in being called football? In fact there are very few times feet touch the ball and in most plays outside of infrequent, specific kicking plays, it's a penalty to kick the ball. Just come up with a more applicable descriptive name. As an Eagles fan, I'll suggest we change the name to jawnball.
Lethal_bizzle94 · -5 points · Posted at 18:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actual football, the football I am talking about is pure foot work so 🤷🏻♀️
Milenkoben · 3 points · Posted at 19:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The football you are talking about, was first called soccer in Britain, to distinguish the rule set from the "Rugby Soccer" rule set since they were both variations of the same game, but yeah, blame Americans for calling it soccer.
Lethal_bizzle94 · 3 points · Posted at 19:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wasn’t
One guy (Stefan Szymanski) thinks it was
However historians and everyone else it seems disagrees
OUTFOXEM · 0 points · Posted at 21:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you know so much about it, how do you not understand a simple concept like offside?
Lethal_bizzle94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Knowing basic history is different to rules of game play
Breadette · 0 points · Posted at 19:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In soccer it basically when the offending player who is recieving the ball is past the last defender (second to last actually but that is a little complicated) when the ball is passed.
GK. A. D. P.
Gk is goal keeper A is attacker D is defender and P is passer, A would br offsides, but if A and D switched places A would not be offside. Also, you can not be offsides on your own half. Hope thos helped!
SpiderSixer · 100 points · Posted at 17:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many people's intelligence is still trapped in the dark ages - flat earth, antivax, 5G bollocks, racism, transphobia, homophobia, etc etc
Starshaft · 14 points · Posted at 19:03:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they’re using the same internet that’s made your convictions so strong. We aren’t exceptions when we make these claims; we’re examples.
daniel4sight · 20 points · Posted at 18:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it's acute paranoia about the unknown or themselves.
borntoannoyAWildJowi · 11 points · Posted at 19:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My theory is that a lot of people just can't accept their own ignorance on certain subjects, but also won't take the time or don't have the resources to learn.
When someone tries to explain to them why they are wrong, it makes them realize how little they know about modern science/technology. This triggers a defense mechanism of sorts which makes them believe that people with more knowledge than them are condescending and malicious "elites" that think they're better than them.
Then they start coping by convincing themselves that the experts are wrong, and that they know more than the "elites".
This just creates a vicious cycle, since any time they are told they're wrong, it only makes them more entrenched in their beliefs.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well said!
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:06:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Backfire Reaction.
Well described.
Geminii27 · 7 points · Posted at 21:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's in the interests of wealthy people and governments to have an easily controllable, gullible, uneducated working class.
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:06:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And here it is ^
galaxygirl978 · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't forget those idiots that think all practice of nontraditional religion is satanic and completely ignore the fact that esoteric knowledge is not inherently evil
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion - traditional or non is still delusional.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:05:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are far more ‘not very smart’ people than I imagined. This panic epidemic has brought that to light.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People dislike people for countless reasons and you are not immune from this trait.
Let's take a big one like racism. What benefit is there possibly in being racist? How about we consider a primary teaching of economics, which is the Law of Scarcity. It states we have unlimited wants and limited resources. So at the heart of it racism is a way to acquire more resources for yourself through limiting resources to others.
But let's look at the economic benefit of being against racism. If you're at a higher income level you may be able to acquire more resources through the use of cheaper labor. Having illegals do the job for $10 is beneficial for you compared to uneducated citizens do it for $15. And let's be fair, you probably think those people are a bunch of racist, red neck trailer trash who probably married their sister.... (discrimination for personal gain on either side)
SpiderSixer · 8 points · Posted at 19:49:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I at least dislike people for what they do and how they act, not for how they're born. If someone hates on someone for something they can't control, then they're an unintelligent asshole
kricketshipgowop · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transphobia, antivax and 5G is mostly new at least not in the dark ages so it will take time for it to filter out of the populations mentality.
SpiderSixer · 6 points · Posted at 22:41:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans people have been around since humans and gender were a thing, so we really shouldn't have an excuse about that. The first vaccine was administered in 1796. Over 220 years is long enough to know vaccines are definitely helpful and advantageous. It's only because of a certain twat doctor that idiocy spread like, you know, a disease. 5G is new, yeah, but we've had 3G and 4G. I don't get why people are being stupid with just the next phase of things
kricketshipgowop · 2 points · Posted at 23:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans people have been around as long a time as you say, but like the antivax idea spread like a disease all it takes is a lot of people, ignorant, stupid people to hear one view that they can adopt and in what you could consider the dark ages I doubt many people would be able to hear the kind of hateful views such as transphobia and adopt them to their mentality as easily as they can now. The modern age is big on communication and information and with a large part of the population able to access others views and know about transsexuals, vaccines etc all it takes is a twisted mind, unfortunate upbringing and the presence of a view that can be adopted easily because of their upbringing or personal views as well as the added fact they can talk to or find other people who hold a similar view solidifies the view.
SpiderSixer · 3 points · Posted at 23:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you there. The internet unfortunately allows the creation of echo chambers. Fortunately, the internet is also a source of education which is exactly what we need to bring to these 'twisted minds'. Just a shame that they like to veer far away from that part of the internet
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:09:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You answered your question- because they are stupid.
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
50 years ago the internet worked much better than today. All of you fggt ass kids are stealing all the bandwidth.
SpiderSixer · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure if troll, but the internet didn't even exist 50 years ago
devyReddit · 4 points · Posted at 00:06:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That explains the no reply emails I sent to President Nixon
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 22:19:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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SpiderSixer · 6 points · Posted at 22:31:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What they need is love and support. The reason many kill themselves is because they don't feel like they belong and they don't feel supported. Support goes a long way, and trying to 'treat' them of how they're born is more harmful than good.
"The modern world doesn't want to give them"? What do you think therapy is, dude? Every trans person has to go through therapy before they get hormones to make sure they're mentally sound (as in, not doing it for shits and gigs). At least, that's how it is in the UK. It's not as if hormones are chucked at them as soon as they ask. The waiting times are insane.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Nothing wrong with transphobia though"
Truly based, m'Redditor. Now tell us about how feminism is destroying society.
lasercat_pow · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans people are not mentally ill, they are mentally different. Transsexual and Homosexual are no longer in the DSM, as science has progressed in its understanding of this. I suggest you do the same.
TYRIQcleo · 16 points · Posted at 18:33:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she left me after senior year
rochakgupta · 4 points · Posted at 19:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruh
WeedWooloo · 9 points · Posted at 18:33:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have to be right and have a deep need to be right. Or more: people who believe they are always right.
I’m confronted every damn day how wrong I see things or felt things or thought things. Like, just yesterday I thought I grabbed a spoon but it turned out to be a fork. Oops.
But, at what level does someone who has to be right see that? Do they acknowledge they grabbed a fork or... I just don’t know. How do you not just say, “oh. I’m wrong/I messed up.” And continue on?
TheRealCovid-19 · 3 points · Posted at 03:29:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally in my experience I feel extremely ashamed at myself for not knowing better. I’m no psychiatrist but I feel I may have tied intelligence to self worth at a young age because I really wasn’t good at anything else and that was the only thing that made me interesting. If I’m not smart, then what is left?
Disclaimer: I can’t speak for everyone and realise I may be especially messed up or something.
OverKast78 · 10 points · Posted at 19:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many dumb movies make it to the theaters, “Cats”
javasiasparks14 · 9 points · Posted at 19:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can agree to make plans. agree to show up for plans. then when it's time for the plans they want to cancel and agree to reschedule in cancel again over and over. Like why
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:08:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental illness is a bitch. At the time plans are made you really want to do that thing. But the closer it gets to the time to do that thing, your anxiety mounts. You want to cancel but cancelling well in advance makes me you feel like an asshole so you put it off and put it off until you’re weeping in your room, phone in hand, crafting together some lame last minute excuse. It really fucking sucks and we don’t enjoy it either.
LaTalullah · 2 points · Posted at 05:52:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you let them
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:13:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And there it is ^
D4rk_Dr4gonite · 2 points · Posted at 05:15:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
My “friend” and I were planning a trip to Knotts Berry Farm an entire summer for a trip in November. We planned that he’d show up at my house the night before so we could head there together; easier for both of us. It’s the night before and I’ve been cleaning my room where I’d give him a bed (an air mattress with pillows and sheets but a bed nonetheless), and it’s a half hour before he’s supposed to show. He fucking cancels. I bought him his ticket months beforehand, I had a room prepared for him, transportation planned for him. And his excuse: he wasn’t “in the mood to go”. I was fucking pissed. I called another of my friends and told him I had a spare ticket to Knott’s Berry Farm and he went. Last minute. And he showed up at my house the morning of, on time, and we went together. Needless to say I don’t talk to the “friend” who cancelled anymore
marazomeno · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me, I rarely make plans because I know I'll dread having made them as the time gets closer and I realise I'd prefer being alone in my house. I make plans with friends who I want to spend time with but it's often exhausting communicating with people, especially when we're not on the same wavelength.
javasiasparks14 · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I to am a introvert.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you keep making plans with a chronic canceler? You can’t control their behavior. You can control your actions.
javasiasparks14 · 2 points · Posted at 12:31:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't after the third "reschedule" I said forget it. I felt like they just didn't what to go but I don't understand the reason behind canceling like an hour before the event. Then acting interested to reschedule. Rescheduling and then something "come up". If you don't want to go. Why not I don't know say it, Imply it at like it. Give me some type of sign instead of wasting my time.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 13:37:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people are beset by anxiety.
Some cannot schedule their time.
Others are just playing ego feed games.
You did good. 3 strikes - you’re out.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is even a debate anymore about why the church is protected from any and every actual consequence of their own actions. Name another billion dollar industry thats legally protected because of a stupid belief many people disagree with.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it’s still such mainstream delusion. They have power and fellowship and aren’t going to give it up. They vote.
Mar_Reddit · 8 points · Posted at 19:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why learning a trade is considered the "easy way out" or "lazy." Or generally looked down upon.
I'm sorry I took a smarter route and went into a field that pays good, teaches me a genuine skill, minimum debt, and high employment rate.
I'm sorry I didn't wrack up damn near $100k in debt with college to get a degree that landed me in a mediocre job like you probably did.
I'm not bashing people who DID get a Masters Degree. I know it's likely to land somewhere great once you do. People who manage that were smart, lucky, planned ahead, or all of the above.
I'm talking about the pieces of shits looking down on me because I didn't end up in a cubical clickety-clacking away on my computer wanting to kill myself with my precious degree and broke.
Area51HasElvis · 7 points · Posted at 20:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When adults and parents think they are smarter then everyone else. "I'm an adult because I said so" or "Because I'm your parent. Whatever I say goes I'll never understand why adults say that. It's as if they hate being proven or told they are wrong even when facts are provided.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:42:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait until you are one- you’ll understand the motivations then.
Ethereal-hiraeth · 9 points · Posted at 20:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why my mind causes me to be depressed. I have a great fucking life, I love my family but more often than not I would feel like killing myself. Finally on antidepressants and I don't really have the thoughts.
Wtf brain why are you making me spend money on persceiptions why cant you just work properly.
rookmavillain · 0 points · Posted at 03:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats when you realize that the only thing you have control of are your own actions.
pooptoothpaste · 45 points · Posted at 17:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can't accept people who like dark humor
RandyRalph02 · 16 points · Posted at 19:12:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark humor usually rides the line of being in bad taste, as it usually offends a small percentage of the population. Some people are okay with humor that offends a very small percentage of the population, while others are willing to be offensive to a wider audience.
kerplunkerfish · 4 points · Posted at 20:45:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ehhh, dark humour is like food.
Some people just don't get it.
spankymuffin · 6 points · Posted at 22:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark humor is like sex and your mom.
Sometimes you have to force people to like it.
(did I go too far?)
pooptoothpaste · 2 points · Posted at 12:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah, you were within bounds, just like your mom.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark humor is funny because it is barely used in any situations, just a theory, it generally shouldn't be offensive since it's a joke, like someone just making a dark joke without any intentions that they did it because they are like that.
Dovahkiin419 · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on what you mean by dark humour.
Folks don’t like jokes that are offensive to minority groups, because it’s never just that one joke. It’s that they’re on their 500th joke about (insert their minority status here) this month, and yours is the 501st, and frankly they’re fucking done with your bullshit.
That’s why lots of people will jump on you for that sort of thing.
Also usually self described “dark humourists” fucking suck at comedy. So there’s also that
NeronoP90 · 0 points · Posted at 20:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I won't say I won't accept someone who likes dark humor but I don't respect that humor either, casually joking about racism, slavery, death, rape and all this very dark subjects is disgusting in my opinion.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally agree, and I know people will downvote us for this. I've had people come up to me to joke about 9/11 or the Holocaust and I was forced to give them a fake smile because I honestly just felt uncomfortable. Like, you're not being funny. You're just trying to be edgy. Those sorts of topics can really screw me up emotionally sometimes so I'll never understand how anyone can joke about people being placed into traumatic or violent situations they have zero control over.
What's worse is people who don't respect you for not liking their offensive jokes and will call you a sensitive snowflake just for disagreeing with them. I don't have to laugh at your stupid joke just because you wanted me to. And if you're willing to make a joke you know will probably offend people you shouldn't complain when people actually get offended. And, no, the excuse that "people get offended by everything so why should I care?" does not work when you're literally saying something that so obviously will offend someone. Just be considerate, and if you can't make jokes that won't offend half the people in the room then you shouldn't be making jokes in the first place.
lurkingandjudging · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yes!!!
pooptoothpaste · 1 points · Posted at 12:18:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am really interested. Since i am not American. Why do people give a lot of examples of only 9/11?! Like no other example happened which was more traumatic? I mean i wouldn't want it to happen to anyone, but honestly, has only 9/11 happened in America?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was probably the most recent and most horrific in US history and caused a lot of destruction and death. I personally can't think of any other event than the mass shootings or I guess this pandemic that were as bad in recent history. Maybe I'm forgetting something? Basically, a lot of people were alive when it happened or maybe knew someone who died or almost died then.
If you look at photos of the aftermath you'd understand. That area of New York looked like a hellscape, and it's made worse when you realize there were people in that rubble and that there were families, including children, on the planes that were hijacked. All of them died. I've even heard about people jumping from the building so they wouldn't get crushed. It's seriously depressing because none of them deserved any of it. If you're like me, I can't help but imagine what it must've been like, and that makes me feel worse.
People also say quite a lot that it changed the US for good. People have been a lot more paranoid since, and there was a notable increase in security. I don't know what it was like before since I was too young, but that's what people say. Not only that, but the stuff in the Middle East and the fear of Muslims it was likely responsible for. The effects are still present.
mostlysane2020 · 6 points · Posted at 14:41:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be good at Table Tennis ?
xXDreamlessXx · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fast reactions and alot of practice. And sanity of course
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 13:40:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practice
throwaway_-mylife · 7 points · Posted at 16:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girlfriend says she's not sure she loves me now that we spend less time with each other due to the virus...
rookmavillain · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why? Maybe because thats how she feels.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:30:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oxytocin withdrawal
SugarShow37 · 9 points · Posted at 18:33:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people will go outdoors and socialize with the current situation by simply saying "I'm safe I'll be fine." Like where have you been and why aren't you running the country?
VivaChips28 · 8 points · Posted at 19:00:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people value their genes so much and some even downright hate 'bastard' children. Like it's an attack to their self-perceived greatness. Most people don't have worthy genes either way.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They want to make something of their own
VivaChips28 · 1 points · Posted at 14:12:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can paint something...or make a business. Children aren't toys for one's ego.
ahopelessguy · 5 points · Posted at 19:20:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being poor and rooting for capitalism. Specially liberalism.
What is your deal? That you'll somehow be rich, someday? Or are you just so anti-socialism that it doesn't matter the size of the dick that is in you, as long as it's not red.
It's so illogical it fucking hurts.
EmojiPoliceGetDown · 8 points · Posted at 19:29:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anal Sex, and obsession over asses. Like, it's a butt, why would you be interested in it?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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EmojiPoliceGetDown · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How would that even make sense? He's just making it sound like boobs are less of a deal than they are.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
cause it’s thicc
thomoz · 5 points · Posted at 19:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 35% of my country can blindly support a President who lies a minimum of 5 times each press conference, nealy every day on Twitter, and they turn a blind eye when he places his own financial interests above the safety of the general populace during a disease pandemic.
bibliophile14 · 5 points · Posted at 19:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people go out of their way to be nasty to other people.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:44:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sending you this message to tell you that I dislike you
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 20:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mattdbrew · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like at football matches, and where do they put the iPad afterwards
ArielMassacre · 7 points · Posted at 20:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How someone you love/care about (who supposedly feels the same way about you), can just up and leave out of nowhere, without a word...
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 09:11:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supposedly. They loved what you did for them and how you made them feel. They did not love you. They just want something or someone else now and feel no remorse. They aren’t like you. You are not like them. You believed you were alike and it’s shocking and painful to find you are not.
b0mbsawaybetty219 · 7 points · Posted at 23:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why absolutely every person I have tried to date in the past 2 years (and also my ex husband of 13 yrs) cannot muster up the courage to be honest. Why am I not worth the truth? And it can be about the most petty things, also. I hate liars.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:44:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lying is acceptable now. It is encourage and supported.
StanGamble · 6 points · Posted at 23:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not, nor will I ever, understand fragile white redditors, white supremacists, incels and other assorted racist bigots, fragile male redditors, sexists, misogynists, homophobics, transphobics, xenophobics, body shamers, slut shamers and all the rest of the pieces of shit that discriminate against people because they are different. Y’all are fucking weird for that
Grey184 · 4 points · Posted at 00:01:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s group think mentality in human societies. Being outcast , ridiculed, or left out is to much of a risk or to scary for the majority. We are mostly the product of our environment we are exposed to growing up.
StanGamble · 0 points · Posted at 00:26:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s also fucked up and I wish people who think like that could be sterilised and die off so they would breed and spread their bullshit to the next generations
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:45:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not genetic
StanGamble · 1 points · Posted at 11:00:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know, it’s taught. They should all go jump in the ocean with cement shoes
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao you just called like 20 groups that I assume you’re not part of weird just because they’re in that group. Smooth one
StanGamble · 2 points · Posted at 11:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They can all suck my smooth dick
dingobingoshomwombom · 7 points · Posted at 03:37:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many Americans became so anti-science.
I mean, I have some ideas and some possibilities as to why, and I could possibly understand it if I did a lot of research, but at this moment, I don't get it.
cridhebriste · 0 points · Posted at 08:48:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You answered your own question so I’m gonna assume you forgot your /s
dingobingoshomwombom · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No... I was trying to say that I didn't fully understand it.
AlfonzoG_YT · 18 points · Posted at 13:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tumblr's interface
DeadeyeDuncan · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit redesign. It's worse in every possible way than old.reddit
Timetoruinlife · 2 points · Posted at 13:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day
AwaiYT · 18 points · Posted at 20:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls that cheat make themselves the victim, and they always change their mind like, “Come on let’s talk it out.” to “Stop acting like a kid.”. It’s annoying.
DirtyBendavitz · 5 points · Posted at 00:29:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's manipulative. These same types of people, both male and female, will gaslight you and then use the intimate knowledge learned about you against you often times making it public in order to validate their abusive behavior
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:17:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Smear campaign, blame shifting and victims shaming.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:16:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boys do it too. Men and women don’t.
It’s blame shifting and victim shaming - projection and scapegoating. They do what they want without remorse. Don’t do it to them though- double standard.
bloodychainsaw · 25 points · Posted at 13:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 + 1 = 8 or something like that
ohspgq · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am 51, well educated and successful. I recently learned that I have ADHD. I have also learned that it’s very common to be associated with math related learning difficulties due to how our brains focus.
As I work on self reflection and mindfulness, I am also convinced I have this: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyscalculia
I have tried at many times in my life to really apply myself from arithmetic to basic algebra and every step is so disconnected for me.
It’s hard coming to grips with the fact that brains are different and mine is great at some things but will never speak the language of science and the universe.
mo711 · 18 points · Posted at 16:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why all countries and businesses arent starting social and business distancing with mainland china
Sick and tired of the ccp and mainland china now i just cant articulate my inner rage
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 18:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One word: money.
Thats why i dont take western politicans serious when they rage about Russia when they support China or Saudi-Arabia. They take about freedom and democracy but its only about money. Its so hypocritical.
mo711 · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if only they supported taiwan at this point in time, that would be great (putting this in the most simplistic terms)
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They rep 2/5 world pop and are a super power
They have invested heavily in other countries and economies are intricately tied.
They also have supplied much of the labor and goods globally for decades now.
mo711 · 1 points · Posted at 14:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
and it was all possible because dumbasses gave them a chance
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 16:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
By dumb asses you mean corporations out sourcing to China to be able to provide cheaper products for consumers. Or do you mean the consumers are the dumb asses. Supply and Demand.
[deleted] · 49 points · Posted at 13:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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2112xanadu · 39 points · Posted at 15:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The pain caused by the heat stimulates your brain to release endorphins to counter that pain. It's kinda like a mild high.
g8rBfKn · 53 points · Posted at 15:51:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You forgot to mention that it is also delicious.
2112xanadu · 14 points · Posted at 16:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Terrible oversight on my part. Although some super-spicy stuff tastes better than others. When it's just straight heat I'm not as big a fan, versus a nice savory heat like ghost pepper.
lnmaurer · 2 points · Posted at 18:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And eating spicy food is more pleasant than exercise!
XaWEh · 22 points · Posted at 15:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
adrenaline...the same reason why some people are fond of extreme sports. The risk and in some cases the pain is exciting. This can be attributed to the hormone adrenaline, which causes the fight or flight reflex and makes us excited, aware and ready to give peak performances. Some people enjoy that, some don't.
dannicalliope · 3 points · Posted at 19:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It tastes good. It makes you release happy brain chemicals.
I love it, but only as a complement to the dish’s flavors. If all you can taste is spice and it overwhelms everything else, it isn’t good.
Confusion_Aide · 4 points · Posted at 18:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people talk about the adrenaline with the pain. I just plum don't mind pain and think peppers/hot sauce tastes delicious. There's so many wonderful varieties, from fruity to smokey... It's a whole world of flavor! Also peppers are super good for you.
Juswantedtono · 3 points · Posted at 18:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the reason you don’t mind the pain is because of the pleasure chemicals released by your brain. (I’m not sure if it’s actually adrenaline; I thought it was endogenous opioids that were released in response to capsaicin.)
Confusion_Aide · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, sure, but I was just answering the question that that's not the primary reason I eat peppers.
leahish · 2 points · Posted at 19:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But.. pain. I wonder about this as well. Spicy food actually hurts my tongue to the point that just a little bit of a serving and I get those “lie bumps” which can be massively annoying.
So my question is do we all perceive spice differently? I was raised eating the same foods as my siblings and most of them love spicy things. (We are half Latino)
This also makes me think I’m just broken. I always liked my soda “flat” and would shake it up and let out carbonation several times before I’d drink it because I found the “sharpness” painful.
i_touched_the_rat · 4 points · Posted at 19:17:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's delicious lol
Unwritten-Rule · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
me not think, watch others suffer :)
muddagaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's another flavor, bbq wings are nice, but with a lol hot sauce in there it's another dimension that also combines very very well with other flavors.
daniel4sight · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some like a bit of danger when eating, it shakes things up a bit.
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
idk, i love spicy food.
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Masochism 🤣
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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sparklyrainbow4u- · 3 points · Posted at 23:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly eat bland foods. Too many tastes at once is overwhelming to me. Having more the one or two foods or ingredients mixed together is something I cannot handle.
Glo0py_ · 33 points · Posted at 14:47:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foreign languages, like, dude, what are you saying, it's like they're speaking another langu-
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I do not understand my stupidity.
daniel4sight · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your a screwdriver needed to screw a bolt, you just have the right tools for the wrong job.
Zisx · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it amazing how we understand English, given how many variances we can make to form the same sentence lol
thekvant · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people can understand one language, some people can understand more, but why do we understand at all?
Mbutler112 · 12 points · Posted at 19:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people such as blue face, lil pump, and so on and so forth are so famous. Their music is absolute hot garbage. They’re not cool, or funny. They are just plain annoying. Rappers such as Lil mosey are so underrated.
Also, I don’t understand why Tik tok is so popular now. It’s not even a good app.
pizzaladypanties · 10 points · Posted at 19:40:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rap in general has mostly changed from lyric centric to focusing more on the beat which is why mumble rap has such h a following. Sometimes you just want to feel the bass in your chest.
c0mplexx · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
whats a good app then? reddit? reddit is a montage of Twitter and Tiktok, maybe Facebook
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:46:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao I love hearing people’s opinions
Mbutler112 · 1 points · Posted at 08:46:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same lol
[deleted] · 30 points · Posted at 18:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHY PEOPLE CAN'T STAY THE HECK INDOORS DURING A KILLER PANDEMIC
lespaulstrat2 · 7 points · Posted at 18:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your keyboard is broken.
neilred · 26 points · Posted at 18:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
any sort of violent discrimination i.e racism/transphobia/homophobia etc. just let people live? it’s not very hard
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:32:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Different = bad is a mindset that a lot of people have. Can be very stoned for some people, can have almost no effect of others
tm1087 · 4 points · Posted at 19:21:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did someone pitch “The Emoji Movie” and a Hollywood executive replied, “fuck yeah, I’m in.”
NailedOn · 6 points · Posted at 19:30:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothingness, as in after you die. I can't comprehend it.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you comprehend before you were born? Like that. You didn’t exist then and won’t again.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:52:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if anyone can
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think the TV show The Big Bang Theory is funny. If it were even remotely so, they wouldn't need the laugh track every 2 fucking seconds to let you know when it's supposed to be funny.
mahade · 7 points · Posted at 19:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US political system ends up deciding: "Trump and Biden are the best candidates for this job". The only answer possible is that the entire system is rigged from A to Z and beyond. But still, people think voting matters. And I'm not saying it doesn't, but I just do not understand why these two individuals are the result of it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voting in general is important. Voting in America is like a parent asking a child what they want for dinner and then the parent makes what they want anyway.
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:55:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God this is so relatable and so true
HEAVY4SMASH · 7 points · Posted at 19:56:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedophiles, especially discord pedos
Enervation-Sage · 3 points · Posted at 10:19:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honest question as a teacher who wants to protect his kids, what is a discord pedo? I use discord for gaming, but is it rife with pedophiles?
HEAVY4SMASH · 3 points · Posted at 11:10:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Discord has dating servers, i think we can all tell what happens next
Enervation-Sage · 3 points · Posted at 12:18:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the info. It's just impossible these days to know what kids are exposed to. All you can do is equip them with knowledge and an understanding of healthy boundaries. But still, I am kind of shocked to hear about this....
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck do people keep buying toilet paper?
onehotdrwife · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because butts
milanbravo9 · 4 points · Posted at 20:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lying about being raped... seriously why would you do this?
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:16:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Factitious disorder
Warhorse000 · 6 points · Posted at 20:49:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Supporters.
marchisioxi · 4 points · Posted at 21:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nationalism, things like 'we helped your ass in WW2', what do you mean by 'we' ? were you on the frontline ? I don't think so
GerinX · 7 points · Posted at 05:44:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why social media brought out people’s need for attention from total strangers, and the entitled mindset that goes along with it.
I don’t understand that, and it’s everywhere and commonly accepted.
dalaiis · 16 points · Posted at 20:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone that watches trump give a speech can say "yep, im voting for that guy"
It just boggles my mind
Ps: im from the netherlands and dont give a fuck about american internal politics, but that man aint right
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:49:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m American and I don’t get it either. Definitely getting the fuck out and moving to Canada as soon as this crap is over.
lastfullshow · 31 points · Posted at 20:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious people who don't realize how wildly contradicting and fucked up the bible is.
SirSmiffles · 13 points · Posted at 22:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus' Bizarre Adventure
cridhebriste · 3 points · Posted at 08:27:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any religion- don’t limit it to christians.
Most are indoctrinated as kids or in times of stress. Society supports the delusion.
tfield16 · 4 points · Posted at 00:30:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! It is incomprehensible. They will contradict themselves in the same sentence l, justify the most fucked up stuff, then so the opposite of what their religion dictates.
Just be a decent human. It’s not difficult at all.
lastfullshow · 3 points · Posted at 04:59:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious people live double lives and the mental gymnastics they do is amazing.
tfield16 · 1 points · Posted at 14:59:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is so true. It must be exhausting.
mitoke · 2 points · Posted at 01:50:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-Christian religious people generally do. :D
lastfullshow · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I live in a Catholic country and most people don't, including my parents. I understand if they haven't read the whole thing so they're oblivious. But there are bible study groups with regular meetings and it never dawned on any of them or cherry pick it apart.
c0mplexx · 2 points · Posted at 03:32:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
or how much of a shitcunt asshole God is
AnimatorOnFire · 2 points · Posted at 00:05:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really not
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:42:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AnimatorOnFire · 3 points · Posted at 00:44:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're genuinely interested in learning about this topic, read The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AnimatorOnFire · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem, DM me if youre interested in having a discussion. I'm always open to talk about these topics.
chocolatemilkguzzla · 52 points · Posted at 13:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think cilantro tastes like soap
limegreenbunny · 50 points · Posted at 14:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s down to genetics isn’t it? A small percentage of the population are able to taste a chemical present in coriander/cilantro that tastes soapy.
luksonluke · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This absolutely happens to me, i can tell the chemical taste.
LuckyandBrownie · 16 points · Posted at 14:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s actually the soap tastes like cilantro.
Seevian · 34 points · Posted at 14:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a particular gene that people can have (I believe its present in about 20% of the population) that allows them to taste chemicals called aldehydes, which are present in cilantro (and taste like soap). If you have this gene, then the taste stands out dramatically, but if you don't then you aren't physically able to percieve it.
They don't think it tastes like soap, it tastes like soap and your tongue just isn't capable of noticing it
IntricaciesOfLife · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is fascinating. My mom told me the other day that cilantro tastes like perfume to her. I was confused, but apparently this is like a legitimate thing?! Wow.
Sexybroth · 44 points · Posted at 14:37:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don't think cilantro tastes like soap.
mtled · 3 points · Posted at 16:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not soap...for me the scent and taste is more reminiscent of that rotten plant liquid at the bottom of a garbage can. Just nasty.
Imaginary_Complaint · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me freah coriander smells like stink bugs, especially the stalks. Horrible. Once cooked, no problem. As for crunching on cardamon pods during a curry...
DeuceTheDog · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This! Tried to explain the stink bug thing to my GF- she just shakes her head. I don’t dislike cilantro...there’s just a whiff.
Raemnant · 5 points · Posted at 15:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have a gene that makes it taste like soap. I have a gene that makes it taste like OMG GIVE ME MORE I WANT IT ALL OF MY FOOD OMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOM
taarotqueen · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s genetic
thunder75 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a genetic mutation that makes some people a "super taster".
tacojohn48 · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand the flavors that both groups describe.
Clandestinemeanderer · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love Cilantro as an adult.. thought it tasted bad as a kid.. one of my daughters says it tastes like soap to her.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:36:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism boggles me, how can you HATE an ENTIRE race because they're skin is a different color like wtf
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same is good, different is bad is something that humans believe in
All_Seeing_Dorito · 10 points · Posted at 20:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people cheat on their significant others. I will never understand. Nor do I want to.
Jade-parade · 28 points · Posted at 13:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:26:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a thrill for most of them. It’s promoted by media. It’s extremely easy with few repercussions. Some folks want to get caught - they want the drama or to end the current relationship.
I’m not wired that way either
daniel4sight · 3 points · Posted at 19:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's boredom with a selfish motive mixed with a lack of communication.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:29:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes you just don’t know the answers to a test
KingofYogurt_ · 41 points · Posted at 17:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having to know more than basic math... why?
sofingclever · 22 points · Posted at 19:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it is important for many jobs, inventions, and general competence in general?
lord723 · 4 points · Posted at 20:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it helps you rationalize, which will help you in your entire life
shutup_andlift · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how you got any upvotes at all. Good lord this makes me worried for society.
blenneman05 · 2 points · Posted at 06:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because I’ve taken alg II 5 different times in my life since high school and the second half of alg 2 just doesn’t compute in my brain. I just end up with a migraine and in tears trying to understand it..
Not everybody needs to understand higher levels of math to be successful
KingofYogurt_ · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This^
shutup_andlift · 1 points · Posted at 12:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra 2 is still basic math though?
bucephalus26 · 7 points · Posted at 19:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm guessing you don't work in a STEM field?
Globglogabgalab · 20 points · Posted at 19:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people don't
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Dorwytch · 5 points · Posted at 19:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I was learning what an exponent was at 13, that's pretty entry level stuff.
hieuniverse · 3 points · Posted at 20:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generally, it’s not so much about learning the math itself, but rather building a foundation of how we learn, solve everyday problems, and such.
KingofYogurt_ · -1 points · Posted at 22:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I then dont understand why there would be the possibility to fail school because of it, if it isn't about the math the math-part shouldn't be as important as they make it seem
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KingofYogurt_ · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course you need to know how some things work but most of it is more than unnecessary
Ron5683 · 16 points · Posted at 13:20:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie "Howl's moving castle"
hades_the_wise · 11 points · Posted at 14:53:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pfft. If you didn't understand that movie, then I recommend watching Neon Genesis Evangelion. You'll definitely understand its plot. /s
Ron5683 · 5 points · Posted at 15:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got the whole thing, but had a lot of questions after watching it.
hades_the_wise · 4 points · Posted at 15:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Likewise, I thought I got it, and then I watched End of Evangelion a couple of years later and that's when I realized that I didn't understand anything and needed to start over and re-watch it all.
(and i still don't understand everything so... there's that)
Ron5683 · 2 points · Posted at 15:05:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now I have to watch it I think. Sounds intriguing .
Pantelima · 7 points · Posted at 14:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Release your creative mind and put logic on the back burner
Ron5683 · 2 points · Posted at 15:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what I did.
SMaddox50 · 14 points · Posted at 13:30:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? Shame. Great movie though.
Ron5683 · 3 points · Posted at 13:33:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I loved the movie, but still have a lot if questions.
SMaddox50 · 1 points · Posted at 13:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like what?
Ron5683 · 4 points · Posted at 13:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why witch of the waste wanted Howl's heart so badly towards the end ?
What is the role of howl in the war? Where does go when he switches to the black dial and why is he turning into a bird thing.
Why was howl using multiple names even though suliman can easily see through it.
What was the war about.
( I now know the war is because of the missing prince but the movie didn't explain it properly or maybe I missed something )
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Ron5683 · 4 points · Posted at 14:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks a lot. Now it's making much more sense. I've actually never read the books. Probably that's why I was kind of clueless towards the end. Still it is a beautiful movie & I enjoyed it a lot like any other Miyazaki films.
quanshiva · 27 points · Posted at 18:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls don’t understand that not all guys have the mental capacity to make the first move
WriteBrainedJR · 36 points · Posted at 20:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they do understand that, and they just don't want a guy like that.
Redbananaboom · 7 points · Posted at 20:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This!
DirtyBendavitz · 6 points · Posted at 00:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If a girl expects me to make all the moves that's not someone I want to be with. I'm the only one who has to show I care? Well that only tells me you (not you) don't.
Gender roles need to die
WriteBrainedJR · 5 points · Posted at 01:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a difference between "first" and "every."
DirtyBendavitz · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True. In all my experiences though they have always been "every."
It's also shouldn't be the males job to always make the first move either
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This!
WriteBrainedJR · 5 points · Posted at 01:45:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry you're getting downvoted for expressing a preference.
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WriteBrainedJR · 2 points · Posted at 01:47:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They might not have to worry as much.
yucatan36 · 6 points · Posted at 20:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once you start doing it, you realize that even if it ends in some small talk for a couple minutes it was still fun and they usually are very nice, even if not interested. It's flattering to girls, they like a guy who chases them or is so interested they go up. I was terrified to approach for years. It took me moving to another country and hanging out with a guy that does it without thinking. You get used to it and find out it's fun and nothing to lose. Then it just becomes normal. But I totally get it, a few girls I still think about were interested in me and I was so scared to talk to them they gave up. What could of happened if I did, who knows...But now, I have had such great experience meeting many beautiful girls, most of the time just chatting and seeing them around and knowing them and of course dating some of them. Give it a shot, even after one time through sheer terror, you will be very proud of yourself.
rochakgupta · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hits too close to home
MrLuxarina · 21 points · Posted at 15:06:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would want notifications every time a YouTube channel they're subscribed to uploads something. If I want to see if anyone's put out something new, I just check my subscription feed when I have time to watch stuff.
MobilizedBanana · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I watch this series called “HermitCraft”. I have some free time so I like notifications whenever someone uploads a video of HermitCraft just so I can catch up on what players are creating and such. I do like subscription feeds though.
throwaway121505 · 3 points · Posted at 03:33:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pesky Bird!
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re bored and waiting for it. Imagine if you had to check every second you were bored just to know if a video has come out. You couldn’t pass the time with some other activity will you waited
Harmxn- · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YouTubers want you to enable notifications so they get more views.
I just put them on because I'm not on YouTube all day and I want to know when I can watch another video I know will be good and entertaining.
For most YouTubers who explicitly ask me to turn notifications on I have turned them off.
LittleLegs1991 · 23 points · Posted at 17:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna get flack for this, but polyamorous relationships. If you truly love someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them, why bother adding in more people? You cannot possibly love both equally there will always be the favored one. Plus any regular relationship issues are now amplified by how many partners are involved. Like cheating, normally this only affects two people; the one being cheated on and the one being used to cheat with. With more partners more heartbreaks.
There is also the issue with ensuring you are spending equal time with each partner, leading to scheduling your time and making it a "have to" as opposed to a "want to". What if it's your night with one partner and you two have a disagreement? Suddenly you don't want to spend the night with them but you have to in order to keep the balance, you can't just say "I'm mad I'm going to spend the night with the other one" because now you will be forced to rebalance the scales.
Also, if you are in an unhealthy relationship, making it poly or opening it up is NOT how to fix it, and will only make things worse and cause more trauma when it all falls apart.
Now, I understand I cannot tell people how to live their lives, and my views on poly could be biased due to my experiences with it (not me personally), and I do respect those who want to do this. But with so much harm than good coming from this I don't think I would ever do it myself even though I've humored the idea of it myself. I want my partner to be mine and I theirs, sharing would just be too weird to me even if we are 100% trusting of each other and secure in our bond.
oldchew · 8 points · Posted at 19:13:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I fucked around with a girl that was poly/open.
Honestly I think it goes back to the sunk cost fallacy. A lot of people I know in open relationships didn't set that boundary in the beginning, so you become attached to this person and possibly have a homestead/kids/finances/etc together and instead of losing all that decide to go along with it. I'm sure some people make it work, but the ones I've personally seen or experienced always fail dramatically.
I've also been asked to open up the relationship by previous girlfriends and it always seemed like a way for them to cheat with a free pass. There always seems to be a partner in mind before the relationship is opened up.
So yeah it just basically having your cake and wanting to eat it to, as well as fear of losing the relationship
beders · 18 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is a fallacy to think you can only love one person. However the norms of the society we currently live in strongly demand you find “the one” and have a regular family. There’s also biological factors in play but they don’t demand serial relationships either. Also: Jealousy is a difficult social construct to overcome.
Alternative_Answer · 3 points · Posted at 23:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, you can love both your parents, other family members, and multiple friends at the same time. It’s the same concept, just with the voice of your society saying ‘no’.
LittleLegs1991 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand the sense of finding the "one" being our cultural norm and that people think it's possible to love more than one person, but it falls into the "keeping the balance" for me that does it for me. Most poly relationships I've seen schedule everything, no monogamous relationship is forced to do such thing (unless both partners are workaholics or otherwise extremely busy) - if they want to go out together or sleep together they can just do it with no need to ask for permission from someone else or ask to switch days/nights.
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:33 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You cancan find different people attractive... but there will always be that one person your heart belongs to, who you feel is like home even when they're not all dressed up or made up.
ron_sheeran · 7 points · Posted at 20:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the idea that you cant love equally is scientifically wrong. I really dont know why people think this. Its not impossible for two people to give the same amount of happy chemicals.
LittleLegs1991 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can love my parents, my friends, my siblings, my nieces and nephews. With romantic love I've always fallen for one at a time, never had the dilemma of "omg I love two people at the same time!". You can get a romantic love but to me you "fall" for another when you get bored of your partner, making you subconsciously seek out another more desirable mate. Again, this is all based on my personal experience, and I never said I despise it and think anyone who does it is wrong.
MooseFlyer · 3 points · Posted at 03:22:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the assumption that that's the case is probably why you don't understand it.
igotyixinged · 4 points · Posted at 17:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life. It’s such an abstract concept that I cannot, for the life of me (ha!), fathom.
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 17:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have accepted that there isn't a meaning to life, we just exist. If there is something about the world that you want to change, go for it and that can be the meaning for YOUR life
igotyixinged · 2 points · Posted at 17:54:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just kinda force myself not to think about how insignificant everything is to focus on what I find to be important. I mean, what’s the point of finding the meaning of life right? We’re just gonna meet our demise sooner or later.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True everyone will eventually disappear but you can improve things and that could lead to giant effects in the future (butterfly effect)
igotyixinged · 2 points · Posted at 18:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I like your positivity but I don’t really want to do anything big at the moment. Maybe it’s because I’m still young but I’m just going with the flow and enjoying what I’ve got as best as I can.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same I am 17 but I will do something when I am older to change something (I haven't decided what yet, but I will need money and experience first)
igotyixinged · 2 points · Posted at 18:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What would you like to change in the future? Sounds like you’ve got big plans ahead of you.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:10:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I haven't decided on what I want to do yet but I have experienced how society is a mess in many places (sexism, transphobia etc) and I want to fix that
igotyixinged · 2 points · Posted at 18:15:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good on you! Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you.
As for me I’ll just become a cat lady or something. Maybe get a house near the beach? Look at rocks for the rest of my life.
I guess the meaning of life is different for everyone. I still don’t understand why or how humans have developed to become so advanced though lol.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone has different goals in life and wanting to do that is perfectly valid if that makes you happy. I just don't want to disappear without making my mark on the world.
The way I see it, humans desire for things to be more convenient and work towards it. That is how we developed to become so advanced.
igotyixinged · 2 points · Posted at 18:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmmm. You see, evolution in general is weird. Probably because I’m clueless about biology but it’s strange to see how far humans have come. We’re communicating with each other through tiny portable devices across the globe or wherever we are in an instant! That’s insane! How come we don’t see cats or dogs evolving to the same level.
Maybe I’m just a little loopy since it’s 2am where I am. It’s been a fun conversation with you! Please message me if you want to talk more, I’d love that! But right now I just want to sleep and forget all about what constitutes life because it’s too much for my brain.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure you can message me whenever you want to, I also enjoyed this conversation
Whatsthatthingie · 4 points · Posted at 18:22:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hype-beast culture, Like I get owning once cloths is fun but do you really have to show the world how much it cost and what brand it's from?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 18:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:55:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arbitrary consolation stories
Magna-Gati · 6 points · Posted at 18:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lack of common sense. Things that seems and are pretty obvious to everyone and still there are morons who don't get them.
pittacuslorien · 7 points · Posted at 18:33:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why human being can’t just “be”
LF_4 · 4 points · Posted at 18:44:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We are outraged. But I’ve completely given up on any change happening at all and plan to immigrate to Canada asap.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:33:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some of us were getting outraged and building in numbers. Look what happened fellow citizen.
ialwayswin · 6 points · Posted at 18:59:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers and their point of view and how they think their fact checking is legit.
Bambi_Babs · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck eyes work. Like holy shit that is crazy to me
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The more you know - it’s even more amazing!
mom0367 · 5 points · Posted at 19:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say "bless you" when you sneeze.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 02:10:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:57:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heart stopped- not demon.
taku004 · 4 points · Posted at 19:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck Americans don't use the metric system when literally everyone else uses it
MatthewLun · 3 points · Posted at 06:35:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God bless America
akshayezio · 4 points · Posted at 19:43:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My existence
GRW810 · 6 points · Posted at 19:46:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Video recording. You point a device at something, click a button, and it documents a perfect copy of what was happening at that particular moment.
I know about photography and light and all that but it just absolutely blows my mind more than any other technology I can think of. A space rocket makes more sense in my head than video recording.
BrobijaunKenobi · 4 points · Posted at 19:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girlfriend, sorry ex, just broke up with me.
Feebzio · 4 points · Posted at 20:06:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The brain is so interesting to me! I wish I knew everything! Like how do you dream and just see things in your head as you sleep. Just so wild.
Vemestemaris · 5 points · Posted at 20:07:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate to sound pretentious but I really don’t understand why people care so much about celebrities. Not their movies or work or anything, but their personal life. Whenever I hear gossip about celebrities getting together or breaking up or getting pictures taken of them when have GASP flaws GASP and people get so into it... I really do not get it
cyglow · 6 points · Posted at 20:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one and only BULLSHIT i dont understand is: WHY THE FUCK ARE WE GETTING MORE ESSAYS AND PRESENTATIONS NOW THAT WE AREN'T AT SCHOOL
Drockie5 · 5 points · Posted at 20:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers
AmandaFudge · 5 points · Posted at 20:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't understand clouds. How does water stay up there? What makes it downpour? Why are some clouds dark but not raining??? Clouds just upset me because I don't understand how the work and why the exist
3of_spades · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it stays up because it´s to light to fall
LaTalullah · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its about the different pressures in the atmosphere and evaporation. Certain criteria all have to happen for a downpour or thunder storm. Temperature and barometric pressure and air currents and thermodynamics all are involved. Physics and science
mknwq · 5 points · Posted at 20:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why football players cost so much, like it straight up doesn't make sense to me, although I love the sport, isn't hundreds of thousands of pounds up to hundreds of millions excessive for just for one player to move club and play for you. There are so many more things that people could do with that money, it's always baffled me.
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 09:01:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t they deserve it if they are the foundation of the show
mknwq · 1 points · Posted at 09:09:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree they deserve their wages, for having their entire life publicised. But clubs paying for them with so much money seems really excessive.
bgazm · 5 points · Posted at 20:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BitCoin, or crypto currency, in general. I've watched videos. Listened to podcasts. I still can't figure out how it works, or what "it" is, other than a different form of currency.
gabeenglert · 7 points · Posted at 20:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
BEERnard408 · 6 points · Posted at 20:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No mames 🤣😂🤣😂
DonnyMox · 6 points · Posted at 22:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell Trump got elected and is still in office.
MemorizeTheMantra · 5 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can anyone be opposed to universal healthcare
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:13:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brainwashing is a hell of a drug
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s expensive
MemorizeTheMantra · 1 points · Posted at 12:54:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Expensive for who??
misterbondpt · 5 points · Posted at 23:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife's answers: why are people so mean to each other? Why is there racism? How can cakes always come out perfect?
agrubila · 4 points · Posted at 23:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hoarding of toilet paper during this pandemic.
Turbo_Virgin96 · 5 points · Posted at 23:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm asexual, and, I just dont understand attraction. Like, I never realised that allo people can just randomly be Romantically/Sexually/Aesthetically attracted to people. I had to have my bisexual sister state to me, in certain terms, that non-asexual people feel sexual attraction, that non-aromantic people feel romantic attraction. Like, it should be a given, but, it just never occurred to me. Also, what is attraction?? What is romantic attraction and sexual attraction specifically? I've never felt it so I just dont get it. What is sexual attraction? What is romantic attraction?
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Turbo_Virgin96 · 2 points · Posted at 00:39:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, I see where you're coming from, but you're actually wrong about this. Granted my periods arent as regular as I'd like but I have a libido, I just don't look at people and think "I would". The trauma I've experienced came after I came out as ace. And I have an ADD, but my sexuality and difficulty are in no way related- in pretty sure my doctor would've talked to me if he thought otherwise.
Trenov17 · 6 points · Posted at 01:03:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people buy drugs. Like the most people say is “you just know somebody” and I’m like...okay? But how did you know that somebody?? I’m pretty sheltered and not very bright so that probably plays a role.
massivemusicsucker · 3 points · Posted at 01:05:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well where I live, drugs dealers will randomly ask people out in the street so it isn’t that hard
Trenov17 · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That must be awkward as hell. Imagine accidentally asking an off duty cop.
massivemusicsucker · 2 points · Posted at 12:48:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I guess that can happen but they will ask people who look a certain way (meaning fit them into stereotypes). Of course stereotypes don’t always correspond to how people actually are but I guess people who do drugs have a drug radar in general too.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:15:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In my own experience it’s people I become friends with and then you find out they grow weed.
nightcore34 · 8 points · Posted at 17:06:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. Money and value of money doesn't exist. It exists because we believe it so. Why then are there money problems in the world when countries print out more money?
I know that when they do so it makes the money worth less but... just say that it's worth the same amount as before. Duh. If everyone agreed that it was worth the same there wouldn't be an issue, because there isn't some universal rule saying this must happen, we do it.
ErohaTamaki · 4 points · Posted at 17:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The value of money goes down if there is the same amount of stuff to buy but more money.
Here is an example I found from Quora a while back:
Suppose you have got a banana and 6 apples. If you wish to equate bananas with apples then you would say 1 banana is worth 6 apples.
If you get another banana from somewhere, what do you have now? 2 bananas and 6 apples. And, therefore, 1 banana now becomes worth 3 apples.
Moral of the story: if the bananas are increased without increasing the apple, the value of each banana will fall.
bullet4mv92 · 11 points · Posted at 20:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thinks Trump is a good president.
ItsFrenzius · 20 points · Posted at 18:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What Covid-19 protestors think they’re really doing
Frankly they’re the epitome of stupid
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 19:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it's stupid how people believe Covid is so serious that we should enact martial law, even though it's only targeting really old people and those with pre-existing conditions. Why not just help those at risk instead of creating a stampede of chicken Littles.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:29:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s easier to believe that than the alternatives.
Sepulchure24794 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except that's not entirely true at all, Perfectly healthy people and younger people can still easily fall to this virus
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nejithegenius · 15 points · Posted at 20:58:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are definitely non white racists out there lol.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 21:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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nejithegenius · 1 points · Posted at 11:38:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fosho i def feel ya and your message was so right. racism and homophobia is dumb as hell.
Zero4020 · 5 points · Posted at 21:00:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's a reputation thing. Everyone represents their race and with one clown fooling around everybody is automatically seen as part of the clowns circus.
neocommenter · 7 points · Posted at 21:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've met plenty of gay people who hate trans people. I've met plenty of minorities who complain about racism while hurling racist insults at others.
kricketshipgowop · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess if people can't wrap their heads around something and can't or won't understand it they just learn to stop trying to and hate it instead.
L0CZEK · 0 points · Posted at 19:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But don't you see, to some degree, these people as worse than more open people ?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm just imagining you making this comment and genuinely thinking it's the most brilliant and intellectual observation ever.
L0CZEK · -1 points · Posted at 00:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh absolutely, my right hand is not twice bigger than left, because I jacked off to my intellect so much.
AknCtm345 · 34 points · Posted at 16:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. People are so offended by other people sex life. Why? It does not include them at all, or hurt them. I just dont get it...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Luuce98 · 3 points · Posted at 22:53:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TELL HER ABOUT GAY PENGUINS, PLEASE
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:31:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Luuce98 · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was joking, I take the same route with other family members, just pretending our differing opinions don’t exist because it will only lead to estrangement and problems. Wish you the best, mate
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AknCtm345 · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly, you love who you love! End of discussion, i will always stand behind this and loudly say it eventho it gets me in trouble a lot🙃. I really hope that one day on this planet earth we will start to mind our own bussiness and focus on just our genitals and its usage and see that love does not exist just for the opposite sex and accept that as a fact!
AknCtm345 · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same with my family ( “there is no bum poking in nature!!!!”) and more i try to explain that animals do it for fun too more they insist its not okay. But its so funny when you have a man and a woman do bumming and that is fine but when two blokes do it its “not natural”. I honestly dont get it.
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:34 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
because God said it was a mortal sin and that you'dyou'd go to hellhell /
AknCtm345 · 1 points · Posted at 07:31:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you serious?!
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the /s didn't show the s sorry lol.
but i think this is the major reason why homophob exists.
AknCtm345 · 1 points · Posted at 18:34:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably yes. I was ready to fight ya incase you were serious🙈🙈🙈
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm just curious what your argument would be from the bible tho, lol. Because the church has explicitly made it a mortal sin. Was wondering how Catholics were going to mental gymnastics around shaming and literally damning people for something we now know is not their fault and also is protected under the Constitution.
AknCtm345 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:06 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Books have been wrong before. Also, book was written by man and adapted over the years. Religion is meant to shame us all in everything we do eventho its actually good for our bodies. Bible also speaks of out of the earth beings so i dont give it much credit. Its also a book over which diff religions have different stories. So yeah, religion is a hunch of bollocks whose only goal is to subdue us and make us slaves to clergy who want to hold the lives of people in their hands. Its east to manipulate with people afraid of a mythical hot place, so yeah. I don’t give credit to their bigotry and the whole: “god made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve” because there was no Adam and Eve. Their reasons are completely invalid. According to them women are filthy for menstruating and masturbation is a sin....
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 0 points · Posted at 23:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
For some people it’s a religious objection and I totally get that. But if you’re not religious and you have opinions about someone else’s sexuality, that doesn’t make sense. These downvotes don’t make sense but that’s Reddit being Reddit I guess.
[deleted] · 24 points · Posted at 18:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, homophobics, why the fuck would you criticise someone because of what they look like or how they like. Fucking idiots
noxxadamous · -1 points · Posted at 23:07:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you. The last part of your statement is hypocritical, as that’s exactly what you’re doing to them. Again, I agree with you, but just pointing out that they think the same way only opposite. If that makes sense.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 18:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think 5G spreads coronavirus
daniel4sight · 5 points · Posted at 19:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fear and stupidity. I blame the media personally.
luksonluke · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup that's whats happening, fear really do drive stupid people insane.
thisoneknowsthings · 42 points · Posted at 15:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of separate bathrooms when inside those rooms there are individual stalls with locks... why do we have separate bathrooms in public when we don't in private?
OldBearded · 23 points · Posted at 17:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most Men's rooms have Urinals. So there are dicks flopping out of pants constantly in the open.
europahasicenotmice · 6 points · Posted at 23:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately, in the US there is a massive gap in the doors that you can see through.
sofingclever · 6 points · Posted at 19:34:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm completely all on board for single/all gender bathrooms with one toilet with a lock. But if I'm say, on a date, and need to lay down the law, I don't necessarily want my date to have access to that room.
MobilizedBanana · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people feel more private at home then in public.
Dovahkiin419 · 2 points · Posted at 05:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because most work places were solely the domain of men, and when women started entering the workplace, there was tons of pearl clutching fear around men and women mixing in “that sort of space”, so they had the segregated bathrooms.
Since then it’s just how things are, so the will to change them is minimal.
TheDoctorOfWho4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women don’t wanna see dicks.
CapnSpazz · 3 points · Posted at 21:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most guys don't either. We amazingly don't see them much in the bathroom.
TheDoctorOfWho4 · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a dude, I'm well aware, I was mostly just playing devil's advocate.
exoalo · 3 points · Posted at 21:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men dont either
Wheatles_BiteAlbum · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then they shouldn't look.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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TheDoctorOfWho4 · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOO-RAH!
[deleted] · 26 points · Posted at 14:17:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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tempski · 17 points · Posted at 16:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Retail? Charity? Sex work?
What college did you attend?
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 17:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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tempski · 5 points · Posted at 17:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that's step 1; get a good degree.
Next, get a job with said degree and invest a majority of your paycheck instead of wasting it on useless crap like most people do. Do this for a number of years while you keep climbing the corporate ladder.
paperclip1213 · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Invest in what?
I currently save 80-90% of what I earn, the only problem is that I'm on something close to minimum wage and work maximum 30 hours a week. I've saved a good amount over the last 5 years, but I'm looking at working another 5 years until I can buy a house - if I'm lucky and house prices don't increase drastically in London.
tempski · 5 points · Posted at 18:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to keep it simple, try index funds/mutual funds.
For now, I would really focus on your education and keeping your living costs to a minimum. Perhaps living with parents or roommates.
I would avoid buying a house for now as the prices are not really worth it. Wait until the interest rates rise a bit.
Nicolis_numbers · 2 points · Posted at 17:56:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. ETFs (Exchange Trade Funds) are the safest, they can double your investment every 12 years on average. You can learn more in r/investing - the sooner you start, the more you can save.
KingOfTheCouch13 · 4 points · Posted at 17:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truthfully. You gotta apply to literally everything you're qualified for and some you're almost qualified for. And you've gotta keep at it until you hear back. I've only worked for fortune 500 companies and make close to 6 figures. I'm only 26yo and having a general business admin degree from a small no name school in Alabama.
I just started a new job in January, but it took me probably about 8 months of applying to different 20-40 jobs a week. I only had 2 interviews in that entire time, so it absolutely sucks to see no results for a while but it should eventually give. It definitely shouldn't be this way but if you don't have a inside connection, like I've never had, you just gotta brute force your way into that bitch!
Hope everything works out for you man. Just remember, everyone can't say no forever.
Heart30s · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was unemployed for a year I applied for over 500 jobs and only got a few interviews.
VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s what I did. After switching majors too many times, racking up student loan debt, and testing out different fields, I discovered that my passion in life is to sit on the couch and open the same three apps over and over again while money magically appears in my bank account. So I did some math and figured out the minimum I need to earn to be ok, and wrote down my deal breakers, then researched careers to find one that was kinda close and told myself this is it, no more changing your mind even if you hate it. Just pick a goal and work towards it. Seems to be working out for me for now.
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VWVWVXXVWVWVWV · 2 points · Posted at 23:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m an email and front end developer. I really suck at it and I am not a CS major and that is really obvious. But it pays what I aimed for and allows me wfh privileges. Now that I’ve met that goal, I set a new goal for myself to pivot into some kind of design technologist role or create it in the company I’m currently at.
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:49:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marketable skills help you rise.
Xoena · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Journeythrough2001 · 5 points · Posted at 18:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 18:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote for candidates who are so obviously lacking in humanity and compassion for others.
that_is_so_fetch · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have family that voted for Trump and they will post long comments on FB about how he cares deeply for the American people and he's deeply saddened that people are dying from Covid-19. It's astounding. His actions show none of that but right wing memes do, so they believe it.
ThatOneSquatch · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they themselves lack humanity and compassion for others :(
Danlok256 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell does king crimson work
WombatZeppelin · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Robert Fripp wants to know your location
AbjectPandora · 4 points · Posted at 19:07:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents refusing to vaccinate their children.
Like, I get if your child is allergic to or has some underlying medical issue that prevents them from getting the vaccine, but if your child is otherwise healthy, they should be getting vaccinated (not only for them, but for the younger and immunocompromised children and people around them). Yeah, it can be heartbreaking seeing your kid cry when they get a shot, but would you rather them get some virus/disease/illness that kills them?
It also blows my mind how each generation is being exposed to over sexualized media at a younger and younger age. I work at a middle school and the number of times I've seen girls wearing wearing super short shorts or extreme push-up bras astounds me (for the record, I am a woman I have to be mindful of the schools dress codes). I have also wished to have the ability to wipe my mind after witnessing middle school couples playing tonsil tennis in the hallways between their passing periods.
malteadt · 4 points · Posted at 19:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The end of the universe and what's beyond
3of_spades · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the universe ends when entropy ends, when the universe cannot get more messy and everything reaches the same temperature, which is 0. When this happens, nothing moves and time stop existing(it freezes). Then, there´s no beyond or forever for this universe, because it will stay still
nicholooo · 4 points · Posted at 19:13:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can nearly half a country can vote for a narcissistic, stupid, ignorant, racist, selfish, greedy and rapist individual for president. Like you are voting for someone to take the most prestigious and debatably the most difficult position in the country, is this really the best person you can come with?
Simm1812 · 5 points · Posted at 19:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how can people talk to someone they don't know so easily
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 08:56:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just ask questions and be interested in the answers
ZazzlesPoopsInABox · 5 points · Posted at 19:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a kilogram of feathers weighs the same as a kilogram of steel. It just doesn't make any sense. Steel is heavier than feathers.
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:59:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Takes more feathers to get enough to weigh the same as a little steel... feathers are lighter. Steel is denser.
Mtnrider16 · 5 points · Posted at 19:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to run a business. I have a handful of friends and the pricing and costing and scheduling seems so out of my spectrum of knowledge. I've always just been a foot guy, but my own small business is an interesting venture.
Spaghetti-Bathtub · 6 points · Posted at 19:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can’t just print more money.
3of_spades · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
inflation
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:52:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
we can, it would just be useless
CallMeKaoi · 4 points · Posted at 20:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sucking toes, bleh!
plipyplop · 4 points · Posted at 20:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a solid state drive works. Nothing moves and there are no wires. How does data get added or read? I don't get how a shiny flake can do anything just by plugging it in.
ohioredbeard · 4 points · Posted at 20:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Terrible bosses. How the holy hell did you get promoted??
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a rule for this and i forget the name.
You get promoted up until the point you suck at your job.
slyder219 · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried replying to this 3 times and each time I try and write out what I don't understand and I notice it makes no sense because I don't understand it enough to describe it.
LaTalullah · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please try. I'm so dying to know what it is! And maybe just by trying someone will recognize enough of the question to help articulate it...
RJohn12 · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would be so selfish in the short term when it is painfully obvious that we'd have so much more growth if we all profited together but at a lower level
BoounitiveDamages · 2 points · Posted at 03:06:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy Cake Day!
LASC33 · 4 points · Posted at 20:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How parents think they're allowed to yell at you and sometimes outright disrespect you, but the moment you try to argue you've committed a mortal sin and are wrong because they "said so." I feel like I'm gonna be the cool dad because I will actually try to let my children talk to me and I will acknowledge when I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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stuffisreal13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My reply was women. So. Let's understand each other.
Spidu-Man · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not like where this is going
stuffisreal13 · 1 points · Posted at 13:57:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean :)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:58:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys I found the alien
mw9676 · 6 points · Posted at 20:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you could just kill a man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:03:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maaaammmaaaa, ooooooooo! Didn’t mean to make you cry!.....sorry
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 08:59:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shoot a gun
Other_LP · 6 points · Posted at 20:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homphobia. Just let people be themselves!
TimmyT_Turner · 3 points · Posted at 20:38:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anti-vaxxers havent gone extinct.
TsuDoughNym · 5 points · Posted at 20:40:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the fuck are people so obsessed with the Kardashians/celebrities in general? Or influencers? Like, what, I should somehow want to spend tens of thousands of dollars because some moderately attractive girl advertises on Instagram? What exactly are they influencing, other than the tired "sex sells" mantra?
HaveYouSeenMyBody · 4 points · Posted at 20:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can't put themself in others shoes. I don't read others very well narurally so through my whole life this has been my way to understand the world. So for me when people can't set themself in the place of others and understand that actions have motives? I don't get it.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:14:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive empathy is a skill you mastered. Many others can’t be bothered.
slightlybentspoon · 4 points · Posted at 20:44:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how somebody can hurt another living thing, like another person or abusing a pet dog or killing a beautiful wild animal. I literally do not understand how someone could take away someones/something's life and then go to sleep at night
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have affective empathy and remorse in your emotional range. Others do not and can’t relate to you and why you’d have it. They perceive it as a weakness.
TheRealMarkTwain · 3 points · Posted at 20:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people think 5g has ANYTHING to do with covid-19
Fuzzhead326 · 4 points · Posted at 23:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that believe anything they read on the internet and claim to be ‘more educated’ than others. Like the whole 5g conspiracies, it’s a non harmful form of radiation but these people insist that it’s harmful.
Eastout1 · 5 points · Posted at 00:02:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the USA government ignores climate change, and refuses to do anything about it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism
Eastout1 · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that much, it’s just weird that it’s cheaper to produce power using renewables than with fossil fuels.
_KillTheImposter7 · 3 points · Posted at 00:11:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The American psyche as a whole. I’m from Australia and your guys priorities are whack.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:14:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am American and can confirm.
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 09:06:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We’re all America first and now America is leading in Coronavirus cases
rinceboi · 4 points · Posted at 00:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok
26SobbingHorses · 5 points · Posted at 01:06:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When girls say “I want a guy like you” but you are a guy like you but when you bring this up to her she says “No, I don’t want to ruin our friendship”.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To me it’s they want someone they feel safe and comfortable with, as they do in the friendship you share, but with someone they find sexually attractive. Not sure if that helps.
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And there it is ^
Males do this too. Friend zone.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 09:10:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People like who they like. It’s healthier for all involved to take the rejection and move along.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 13:34:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agree- it’s a combination. Chemistry.
It’s healthy also to not encourage or string along someone just to reject them. Or keep them at arms length as a fiend if they are in love.
Unfortunately it’s not that easy for some to attach and for others to detach.
Hoping1357911 · 4 points · Posted at 01:46:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance billing and just health insurance in general.
DJ_pider · 4 points · Posted at 02:18:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we decided on our curse words.
Like bitch is a term for a female dog and yet its frowned upon. Also why do people have a tendency to make sentences that consist of 50% curse words. You could say anything but it's for some reason compelling to say the one thing you shouldn't
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 02:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why were so mean to each other
Shadowislost · 4 points · Posted at 04:29:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can feel it when someone looks at you.
whysaddog · 6 points · Posted at 05:01:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people still back trump or believe that he doesn't lie.
djbdb · 3 points · Posted at 05:29:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s something that will blow your mind...ALL politicians lie to you.
bobodied · 14 points · Posted at 18:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
homophobia, racism, sexism and anything related to hating people for something they can't change.
Crocutaborealis · 7 points · Posted at 14:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sums. When I try to look at numbers it's as if they won't even keep still. Truly the work of Satan. The devil's gibberish.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cjldvm · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes! This is me. All numbers seem the same to me. I don’t ever know how much something cost. I mean sure I know how much it is when I’m buying it but I don’t know how much it was when people ask me later. Was it $20 or $200? Feels the same to me.
GaPSMAV · 8 points · Posted at 15:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how a photon is a "mass-less particle" but can still be sucked into a black hole.
RandyRalph02 · 3 points · Posted at 19:17:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't it have to do with the fact that the space-time that the light is traveling through is being pulled in, not the light itself?
kricketshipgowop · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aren't they still debating if a photon is a wave or a particle?
NCFSauce · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't their explanation right now that it is both a wave and a particle? And if it is a wave or a particle depends on the situation?
4A_catharsis · 7 points · Posted at 18:30:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the fuck is going on
SpaceTheTurtle · 8 points · Posted at 18:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction and hatred of minorities.
phfatbeatrice · 6 points · Posted at 04:48:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how anyone can see Donald Trump and think “he would make a good president”. It is illogical to me and I just... cannot grasp the concept.
Whuwisp · 2 points · Posted at 08:27:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because some people see him as the best choice, even if he’s trash
mrinkyface · 19 points · Posted at 13:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fortnite, it’s boring to me
Nutdealer9000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought the same but I started playin it now and it’s epic. Idk why I disliked the game
JamaicanJesus37 · 6 points · Posted at 19:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dislike it because it used to be a good game before updates ruined it. I think the game has great potential but is ruined by updates that nobody asked for, Epic Games always putting money over the fanbase, and a really toxic community. Before that it was a BR that was more relaxed, had cool features, and a nice map.
Nutdealer9000 · 4 points · Posted at 19:38:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t argue with that, since I didn’t play that much fortnite back then. I guess I jut hated fortnite because it was popular, wich was really stupid of me. I probably disliked it because I thought the fanbase was full of toxic 12 year olds, but when I actually played it I noticed that it isn’t as toxic as I thought it was.
MobilizedBanana · 3 points · Posted at 23:38:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are people downvoting this comment? This is simply someone who likes a game that others don’t. I’ve seen plenty of comments on this thread stating that they don’t understand why people can’t accept other people likings.
notjordansime · 8 points · Posted at 19:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being transgender.
Like why am I so uncomfortable with my body-- specifically the male parts of it? Why does taking HRT help with that? A theory that I've heard is that our brains kinda 'know' what our bodies are supposed to be like. It's why some people who were born without a limb can still experience Phantom limb syndrome. Even though they've never had that limb, their brain instinctively expects it to be there. One of my friends from school was born without one of his arms from the elbow down and he's said he's tried to catch things with his nonexistent arm before as a split second reaction. So... How does this tie back to gender? Well-- basically trans people's brains are in a way, having that same instinctive expectation for what our bodies are supposed to be (ie. Our preferred gender). When the non-instinctive (logical) part of our brain recognizes that our body doesn't match that instinctive expectation, it has trouble reconciling that, and that disconnect causes a distress that we call "gender dysphoria". What I don't understand is why do some of us experience this? What causes this instinctive expectation to not match one's sex at birth?
I wish I knew, because transitioning isn't fun, and if I could be comfortable in my body without going through it all, I definitely would.
On a side note, another thing I don't get is transphobia... Like c'mon-- this shit's hard enough on its own. Why do you gotta be a prick about it? Like I'm just trying to go about my day and feel comfortable in my own skin-- not trying to hurt anyone, or establish some kinda crazy radical new world order, I just wanna be happy, same as you.
EDIT: typos
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 20:00:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish you strength and luck
notjordansime · 4 points · Posted at 20:06:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you :)
Stay safe out there <3
justcallmedeon · 15 points · Posted at 20:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say that there are more than 2 genders
BrianOhNoYouDidnT · 5 points · Posted at 00:22:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s an easy one. It’s because there are. If you just look into it you will learn about it. I didn’t know until I read about it and now I understand.
thunder75 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender is a spectrum. If you look hard enough there could be infinite genders.
tendeuchen · 12 points · Posted at 20:45:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people voting Republican just because they think Rs are going to make abortions illegal. Spoiler alert: They can't and they won't. They're just using the issue to get your vote.
I guarantee you probably half the Rs in Congress have paid for their mistresses' abortions.
Horne-Fisher · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voting works. It just takes longer when you’re trying to overcome SCOTUS precedent. But it’s been done before. I totally get where those people are coming from, especially since they see abortion as the greatest human rights violation of our time
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 07:10:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking it away would be a violation. My bodily autonomy is worth more than the equivalent of a wart on the inside of my uterus. Outlawing abortion doesn’t make it go away it just means women aren’t dying in back alleys trying to use any instrument they can.
IDGAS303 · 14 points · Posted at 16:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Popularity of social media
charl3zthebucket · 19 points · Posted at 17:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He says, on a social media site
ka-splam · 0 points · Posted at 19:33:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://twitter.com/dhh/status/1100490256346824704
PM_ME_GRANT_PROPOSAL · 12 points · Posted at 20:45:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women who continued supporting Trump after the misogynistic "grab them by the pussy" comments.
fiftynineminutes · 7 points · Posted at 00:27:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is an explanation for this that makes sense.
Many, and possibly most, people vote for presidents because they’re voting for the agenda of the candidate, not the personality.
For example, if what is most important to you is tax policy, or foreign policy, or abortion, or whatever, you pick the candidate that stands for what you believe in.
Seriously, pause and consider:
Let’s say the thing you care about most in the world is climate change. And the 2024 presidential contest comes down to a major misogynistic asshole who wants to sign the Green New Deal on Day 1, and the sweetest most loving woman ever who thinks climate change is a hoax. Honestly, who would you vote for? Isn’t seeing your beliefs represented more important than one single person’s comments?
Or another analogy: let’s say your appendix just burst. Do you want Dr. House doing the surgery, even though he’s a bigoted angry drug-addicted sociopath, or do you want Keanu Reeves doing it, seeing as how he’s the most beloved person on Reddit? The goal is surviving your surgery.
This is also why religious people don’t care if Trump has a history of non-religious behavior. They didn’t elect him Pope or Bishop. They elected him for the office of the presidency.
The women who voted for Trump obviously weren’t voting for his pussy-grabbing comments. They were voting for his agenda: border security, lower taxes, and conservative judges.
Besides, in the US, we get two choices. If we had 16 candidates on Election Day, random comments or personality flaws would probably doom candidates for sure, because there would be alternative choices that still represent their political beliefs.
I’ve always found it helpful to remind people of Sarah Palin, too. Many people who would say “we need a woman in the highest office” did not support her. Why not? Because of policy differences. So, when push comes to shove, policy will override personality and identity.
PM_ME_GRANT_PROPOSAL · 2 points · Posted at 00:32:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is an excellent explanation, thank you. Someone please give this guy gold.
marazomeno · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who support Trump.
Full stop.
Sepulchure24794 · 0 points · Posted at 00:47:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As yes because that comment looks down on women and Oh Man it's not Like almost EVERYONE IN THE FUCKIN WORLD HAS MADE COMMENTS EQUAL TO OR WORSE THEN THAT so get off your damn high horse
OFark · 6 points · Posted at 17:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gay guys act effeminate whilst trying to attract other men that like men? Surely gay guys should be extra manly? To be clear I understand homosexuality, I just don't understand how that's supposed to work with men who act like women.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 02:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 11:47:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think, now having read people's responses to this, it seems like we assign people's relational preferences in the same way we assign sexual preferences. I am assuming you as a gay woman would not want a relationship with a man who exhibited the same traits as a woman. You know if they had the same personalities, because of the nature of the sexual interaction. However, again assuming, you could be good friends with said man? So your relationship could be the same, with the exception of the sex? Or not? Makes me think the sexual attraction requires the other person to be in possession of the right 'bits'. This is where I get confused. As a straight guy, it seems like the classifications we use, gay, straight, really don't matter, because what people are attracted to isn't always straight forward. But then some people, usually the gay effeminate guys (I'm generalising here) like to shout out from the roof tops how very, very gay they are. But then they're actually into something else, something slightly different? Like I said, confuses me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:31:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 13:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To elaborate: I suppose I ment people who are mentally attracted to effeminate men, they are sexually attracted to the male gender, but the mental attraction is toward a person who is male but doesn't act in a typical male way, like a bisexuality but for the mental/psychological side of the attraction.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:51:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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OFark · 2 points · Posted at 14:47:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, I get that. I understand that. My initial point, because we've kinda left the rails although it's been quite interesting, was that men (but I guess it applies either way) who go out to attract other men that like men, then act similar to women, is something I don't understand. It obviously works, but I just don't get it, seems like it makes life more difficult for yourself. But maybe that's part of the fun?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:36:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effeminate gay guy here. I can't speak for anyone else, but I find that a lot of behaviours/interests that society considers feminine are more fun. There's a lot more freedom to be playful and expressive if you're not trying to be traditionally manly all the time. Since I'm already "breaking the rules" of masculinity by being attracted to men in the first place, I figure why not throw the whole rule book out? (Though, I don't think of it as "being a man who acts like a woman". I act like a man who does feminine things. Feminine men and feminine women give off very different vibes, to me.) It's more a self-expression thing than actively trying to attract people.
In other guys, I like a mix of masculine and feminine because it often shows up in unique ways. Unconventionality and creativity are attractive. And, for many guys, it takes a lot of courage to be a bit effeminate, and bravery is always hot!
OFark · 1 points · Posted at 11:29:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you say then that your gay, in the traditional sense or, as I'm thinking about it, your sexually gay, but in a relational sense something else? To say that there is a difference between men who like men who act in a traditionally manly way, and men who like men who act in a, I was going to say feminine way but perhaps in a mixed way would be more appropriate. Now that I've organised that into words, I'm wondering if there is something closer to androgyny but rather that being neither one not the other is more like being both.
sosila · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s no way men act or women act. People are individuals.
OFark · 0 points · Posted at 11:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes there is, it's basic biology. Not that people have to conform, but it's how the majority of people procreate.
MexicansInParis · 4 points · Posted at 18:19:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any kind of discrimination based on ideals and values, really. Misogyny, racism, homophobia, xenophobia, etc... should be long, long gone but people still opt for being absolute morons.
sockofservitude · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it’s only a small percentage of people in America that actually are. If you’re talking about other countries, not so much. But in America there’s really not that many people that think that way because nobody they know thinks that way.
Cooli-OH · 9 points · Posted at 20:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know this is political and thus stupid... but I really don’t get how devout religious Americans approve of Trump or see him as godly. He’s always carried himself as a rich lady chasing, cheating, steak salesman who fires people and insults people. Even through stormy Daniels many of them look at trump and genuinely see a man of god. How is that image consolidated with his crude behavior
givmeallurmoney · 2 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true. He goes against everything Christ said.
Cooli-OH · 2 points · Posted at 21:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He seems to actively go against the advice of Christ on the reg. How do they go to church every Sunday, come home, see Trump, and think “yup that’s exactly what Jesus meant”
cridhebriste · 2 points · Posted at 08:53:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But Jesus must love him- he’s president.
Christians forgive remember? They’re very biggly on it.
xxashleigh · 11 points · Posted at 14:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did secondary education become a negative in some parts of the USA?
qwertx0815 · 8 points · Posted at 17:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Add that on top of the fact that a huge section of Americans always saw intelligence as something negative and you got your answer.
westenbrook · 18 points · Posted at 18:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people deny climate change. i mean the evidence is literally right in front of you
ElGatoTriste · 2 points · Posted at 20:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actual climate change deniers are like flat-Earthers, they are out there but there are far less of them than people give credit for. The general climate is undeniably changing, there is no doubting that. The real debate is what level of change are we willing to force on a society in order to compensate for this climate change? Calling conservatives climate change deniers is disingenuous to (most of) their actual positions on the issue.
jojoblogs · 3 points · Posted at 19:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some because it's to their finacial benefit to do so. Others because thats part of being on the team
westenbrook · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i hate that *team*
ivikt · 3 points · Posted at 14:38:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AI
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's not to get about Allen Iverson, my guy?
ivikt · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it's physically possible to have that nasty of a crossover
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:12:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm wit you on that. I have no clue. It's beyond all logic.
Unwritten-Rule · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what specifically?
malisc140 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
probably the I part.
ivikt · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How machine learning works. How do you program something to change how it acts on the fly.
Unwritten-Rule · 1 points · Posted at 08:45:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
well i dont understand it -enough- to explain it without it being very convoluted and probably wrong, but i can recommend a few (two) super simple, not at all good enough but easy to understand things
Youtube Mark Rober
BBC IPlayer The Infinite Monkey Cage
vvvvvvsssss · 3 points · Posted at 14:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe was created.
PrettyOriginalV · 3 points · Posted at 14:52:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
dainty_flower · 3 points · Posted at 15:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how it's possible not have the time/energy or effort to take a plate and move it 20 additional inches into the dishwasher instead of leaving it on the kitchen counter.
It defies all known logic.
I am beginning to believe I am the only person in the house who perceives the dishwasher; and they literally can not see it because they don't understand what it is and what it does. Perhaps the dishwasher is in a quantum realm only I can access.
I don't understand this phenomenon at all.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 12:48:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spoiled rotten, passive aggressive.
Hide the plates and silverware for a few days. Put the dirty dishes in a small bin. Go on strike. People treat you the way you let them.
HavingNoNiceThings · 3 points · Posted at 15:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the term "What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?" means. I've always thought I understood what it meant but, every time, it still makes no sense to me.
officeromnicide · 4 points · Posted at 19:00:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's essentially giving an irrelevant retort to a statement or question which is, in itself, irrelevant or off topic
HavingNoNiceThings · 2 points · Posted at 19:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The irony is not lost on me.
Woolly_Octopus · 3 points · Posted at 15:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can say such nasty things to someone else
ki10apocalypse · 3 points · Posted at 15:44:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money and the economy... Like I get the concept but it totally baffles me.
JC351LP3Y · 3 points · Posted at 16:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How/Why Kmart has managed to stick around.
This place has been on the decline my entire adult life. It’s been like watching someone die of a terminal illness.
Is there some motive for Sears to keep these places open even though they are obviously destined for failure?
BooksRock · 3 points · Posted at 16:23:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they made the Star Wars Sequel Trilogy with such a bad plan. You're taking the biggest movie franchise of all time and you didn't plan it well?
aliens_stole_my_bike · 3 points · Posted at 17:04:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
_Trinima_ · 3 points · Posted at 17:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers.
TheRealNasame · 3 points · Posted at 18:14:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:29:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Peppermint50 · 2 points · Posted at 01:31:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand that racism is still a thing and that some people dont forget and people judge others but why can't people just get along? Why can't we attempt to fix anything at all?
geirimo11111 · 3 points · Posted at 18:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Rares43 · 3 points · Posted at 18:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Wolrith · 3 points · Posted at 18:43:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I genuinely think I am incapable of learning it. Like i know basic stuff but I take like a million hours to put together 2+2. If someone were to prank me by saying 1+1 doesn't equal 2 I'd probably think about it for a few seconds before figuring out I wasn't the idiot that time.
nos500 · 3 points · Posted at 18:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking girls tho i doubt it is worth spending some effort on it. That is why i never did. But still i don't understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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nos500 · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls in general
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 13:37:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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nos500 · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro i didn't say girls are awful i said i don't understand them.
eddiedorn · 3 points · Posted at 18:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry. I’ve never been able to wrap my head around Sine, Cosine, and Tangent.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are homophobic
Shimmitar · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can beleive everything one person says without questioning whether its true or not. Also, i dont get racism, or homophobia.
memesandstuffsoyah · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t believe in equality.
GlobalLoan · 1 points · Posted at 12:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because equality isn't always fair. Do you want murderers and rapists having same rights as you? If everything was equal, nothing would be fair. Fairness is most important. Would you want everyone to make same amount of money? I'm fine with my wife making $95,000 and me $70,000.
memesandstuffsoyah · 1 points · Posted at 13:18:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that and I agree with that but I meant genders, sexualities and races shouldn’t be discriminated against. And by that I don’t mean every race and gender should get the exact same amount of money ect. I go to meme pages on instagram for fun but all of the comments are ‘women aren’t funny’, ‘women don’t deserve rights’, people commenting ‘ 🦇🍜 ‘ under videos of asian people. I don’t care if it’s a joke, it’s still wrong.
ChuckBoris56 · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1st world problems. Guys you gotta be glad you were born in a rich country. There i am sitting in a poor as fuck post soviet country in the middle of nowhere
Subaruhatchback18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:45 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s my try at answering your question, someone who has mental illness, we will use depression, you can’t see that mental illness, you can’t feel that mental illness. It’s not like a broken bone that you can see, does that make your problem any less real? The same can be applied to first world problems, a problem is a problem, not every problem equates to the same severeness. But it’s still a problem, you ever walk in the kitchen and get your socks wet from someone leaving ice on the floor or snow? It’s still an issue, just because it doesnt effect everyone doesn’t mean the problem doesn’t exist. Acting like your problems are more important is pretty one sided. I’m not saying first world problems are more important at all, but it still is an issue and acting like it’s not denotes the worth of any problems. Just because it doesn’t effect you doesn’t mean it doesn’t effect others. Hopefully this gives a bit of insight.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we find boobs and butts sexy
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your subconscious connects it with fertility. Big tits = can feed a baby. Wide hips = can survive giving a birth, and make more babies.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you
uidsea · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can spend hundreds or even thousands on mobile games. It may just be because I'm not in the greatest place economically but why would you put money into something that you're getting nothing back from?
Also mobile games shut down all the time and whenever it does then you're just out all that money with nothing to show for it.
knobhead365 · 3 points · Posted at 19:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the earth is flat
AngryHamzter · 3 points · Posted at 19:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who, from my experience at least, support politicians or political parties that are so obviously inherently corrupt. Like can’t you see that? Is your media exposure THAT limited??
I get that everyone has a different perspective and viewpoint but come on it’s like cheering for the villain- and worse off you’re his next victim.
geraffi · 3 points · Posted at 19:18:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people believe in their religion with such conviction.
Also, photography. I just cannot grasp the D/SLR camera
Dimonah · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For my, my former religion was part of my core identity. It had been that way since I was born. Separating myself from my former religion was incredibly difficult and physically painful at times. (Doesn’t help that I now realize it was a cult)
redditusername235437 · 3 points · Posted at 19:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers and anti vaxxers
TanithArmoured · 3 points · Posted at 19:22:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to connect with people and keep friends
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We mark our age in years based on the years you've finished living: When you are born, you are effectively "zero." While you are zero, you live for a year until you "turn one." So now you're one, and that year you just finished living was your first year of living. Now after your birthday where you became one, you start living your second year of life. For a whole year that you're one, you're living the second year of your life. At the end of that year, you "turn two." After that day you become two years old, you start living your third year of life. At the end of your third year of life, you have a birthday and we say that you are three years old. The day after your third birthday begins your fourth year of life....and so on. So if you had your 28th birthday recently, you're now living your 29th year of life. The age you become on your birthday is a marker of the year you just finished living.
g399 · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand now life can get created from space rocks. I understand how organisms can develop and evolve into new ones. I just can't comprehend how something makes the jump from not alive to alive.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one knows for sure, I think.
3of_spades · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
don´t know if my answer is good enough, but life is an emergent property, meaning it doesn´t exist in individual pieces of a system, but do exist for the system as a whole. Let´s say a wave in the ocean (also an emergent propertie): if you take 1 mililiter from it, it won´t dissapear, and if you keep taking milimiter by milimiter, i doubt you´ll know when it stops being a wave. So i believe there´s like a gray area between non living and living creatures, and, by chance, onde day that area was crossed. If you think that Earth was a messy place at the time, it´s not really crazy to think this happened countless of times before it was enough to form life
Imsosickofyou · 3 points · Posted at 19:35:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can say “bro” without embarrassing themselves
kricketshipgowop · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:01:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
😊
Gabe_CHC · 3 points · Posted at 19:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism/prejudice.
Fluffy0428 · 3 points · Posted at 19:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are the Kardashians celebrities? They can't sing, can't dance, can't act, so why are they famous?
bettorworse · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The OJ trial with Robert Kardashian, celebrity lawyer.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex by one means sex by all.
Stavi913 · 3 points · Posted at 19:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the only time we are legally allowed to run red lights is when we are in a hearse on the way to the cemetery.
Kansai_Lai · 3 points · Posted at 19:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. I've had the How explained to me but I cannot understand the Why.
AnoXeo · 3 points · Posted at 19:56:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
On a related note, i don't understand why i needed to calculate slopes instead of learning how to calculate my damn bills.
LumiPlaysYT · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed
baymay_ · 3 points · Posted at 19:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to flirt.
There’s going to be a time in which I need to and all that’ll happen is me saying something about Nickelodeon.
jamsaucenation · 3 points · Posted at 19:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
3of_spades · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
look up my history, i just explained it
ArbitraryContrarianX · 3 points · Posted at 19:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Famous people. Like, why do people get so invested in the lives and drama of people they don't know and probably will never meet? I usually can't even remember actors' names, let alone what they were in or who they're dating.
I still can't associate a face with Michael Jackson or his music. Though I've said this before, and been told that neither could he, sooo... 🤷♀️
jhatfield63 · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who yell at other drivers on the road, from inside their car. They can't hear you, you just look like an idiot.
And yes, I do this occasionally and I hate myself for it
Wymsi · 3 points · Posted at 20:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to move forward from grief and guilt. Had a bunch of bad situations happen all at once and I've been dealing with PTSD from it since.
(To those about to coment it. Therapy isn't allways an option. I've had a few sessions, but the working/academic world doesn't always care about your mental health.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If therapy is not an option, you should try introducing meditation to your daily life. There's also supportive communities of meditators, for example, in Zen centers.
Wymsi · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tries that actually XD It was definitely somthing
Not really my thing per se, but I am a musician and practicing my different instruments is very relaxing for me.
yakidak · 3 points · Posted at 20:04:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jewelry - I’ve never looked at a gemstone and thought, DAYUM! that rock makes them look HAWT!
hudthen · 3 points · Posted at 20:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people see math as something beautiful and exciting. The times I’ve heard a mathematician or a professor talk about why they love math, it’s spoken of so romantically. I really want to understand it the same way - I’m just not sure how.
MZGTY · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same here
My teacher basically said "nobody was there for me, but math was"
watercreeper06 · 3 points · Posted at 20:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people my age (teenagers) are obsessed over being single or not and complain about getting hurt all the time then go back to the same person or worse. And then them coming up to you and try to pity you because you've always been single.
PaprikaPowder · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can listen to their headphones with the volume literally at 100% on public transport without realising the world hates them.
Also, how is it not utterly painful?
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could just be crappy headphones
TacotheMagicDragon · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Being social.
I'm autistic, so social related things are not inherently coded in me. Whenever I want to start a conversation, literally every neuron in me tells me not to, and to avoid that person. And that's just with me today.
Before, when I was younger, I couldnt read body language or even facial expression unless they were VERY obvious. Most jokes went over my head, I couldnt tell how the things I said emotionally impacted people unless they told me, and this all led to me having very few friends.
Even now I still have difficulty making friends because not only am I socially inept, but I'm also slow to trust people. My closest friend right now, after I met him for the first time, I didnt start truly interacting with him until a month after I met him, and it was him that did all the talking until then.
And dont even get me started on the gender related topic that is so common today. I'm so scared of pissing people off that I when I refer to someone, I just dont use any pronouns at all. I just say 'you' or refer to them by name. My mind lacks the emotional, or social, (honestly not sure) ability to comprehend on how someone can identify as a gender that is not what they physically are.
...
On the brighter side, calculus is literally the easiest thing I've ever learned.
G3Cub3d · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find love.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes... can someone explain why the fuck do i still owe them money when I’m always broke?
Acidic_Omar · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans. Somewhere in this goddammed planet, people are dying while all of the more fortunate people do is check their wallets. they are the scum of the earth and do not deserve what they have.
Peace4Every1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wars. IT DOESN’T SOLVE ANYTHING!
stuffisreal13 · 2 points · Posted at 20:21:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
War helps the economy
kricketshipgowop · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually insane or deranged or otherwise unstable people go to war for very little sane reasons so either they die or the world learns from the experience.
Subaruhatchback18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:01 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wars do great things, even the space race did great things. You wouldn’t have any technology if it wasn’t for war, it’s because of these times that we have freeze dried foods, electronics that fit in our pocket. It all trickles down, the war itself does nothing, it’s what we produce to help our cause that we benefit from. But I guess your question wasn’t do we benefit from war, it doesn’t solve anything. And you’d be correct.
DragonDude413 · 3 points · Posted at 20:19:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People being toxic online for no reason, I know some people are just trying to be funny or ironic, but getting a paragraph long message calling me a cuck for winning an close game of Rocket League baffles me
mybulletproofheart · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans created anything. I get how TVs work, I understand the concept. But how did we come up with that. Let’s take this piece of plastic and bend it around and connect it here that connects to that bit of created material that makes TVs work. I don’t get it. How did we think of that.
HarryBawlz-1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How/who figured out certain things are edible. For example, who the hell was the first person to see a potato and say "You know what? I'm gonna eat this dirty, hard lump I just pulled out of the ground."? Or something like oysters. Who was the first person to crack one of those open, see the slimy, snotty looking creature inside and decide to slurp it down?
airlink26 · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big Bang
So you’re Telling me that the mass of the entire known universe was condensed into an area that was infinitely small and infinitely hot. Then, because of SOME reason this infinitely dense point decided to instead explode into an infinitely large area that is expanding faster than light, which we know should be impossible since the same kind of scientists who told us this is impossible also told us this is happening at the edge of the universe.
Then, after the Big Bang the world literally just didn’t function since the universe was too hot for the forces that literally hold us together.
That shit blows my mind
ka9dgx · 3 points · Posted at 20:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum field theory, and the standard model.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people watch stand up comedy shows. When you're on stage telling jokes, it's just not funny. Well, atleast to me.
BiOLiGist · 3 points · Posted at 20:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of INFINITY, in either direction, and how we decide to intellectually place limits on possibly endless concepts.
How far can things be split into two? What’s smaller than the “smallest” thing. How can we be sure? How far back does time go??
What’s beyond outer space? Is there an upper limit to how far it can expand? What exactly is it expanding “into”???
CouldBeMoreGayer · 3 points · Posted at 20:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does people hate other people that have a different color, like WTF what does this affect you. The same goes for people that hate other people that love the same sex or have other religions etc.
JnthnDJP · 3 points · Posted at 20:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people develop blind allegiance to fucking dictators.
B00STERGOLD · 4 points · Posted at 20:37:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fear is one hell of a drug.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:12:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And power
GarytheWaifu · 3 points · Posted at 02:11:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you decide to be on their side you can hope having a good life for the time being
HispanicAtTheDisco94 · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
diaperedwoman · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people get so bent out of shape when someone misses teasing or sarcasm or them being playful. If someone took you seriously, just inform them you were kidding and move on. Don't take offense and insult them and act like they were an asshole for not picking up on your joke. What is so hard to understand that some people have difficulty picking up on this stuff? It's not that they are being negative or are a downer, or don't know how to have fun, they just have difficulty picking up on it and understanding it.
I've asked my husband about it and the best he could do was tell me it makes him feel sad when I don't get his humor and it makes him feel he can't be himself. This is something I don't understand either. People make humor be part of their identity?
My ex also used to get upset when I wouldn't know he was joking but I told him I can't tell when he is joking or being serious when he jokes all the time. But he expected me to just get it. It's the the boy who cried wolf, you now think he is always joking and then he gets upset when you didn't take him seriously and it's your fault just like it was the villagers fault for not listening to the boy who cried wolf when there was an actual wolf.
MrTorchWick · 3 points · Posted at 20:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well... I've recently been thinking I'm asexual... So sex
CouldBeMoreGayer · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it feels like a better version of cuddles for non asexual people
MrTorchWick · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pfff... Don't even know what cuddles feel like :(
CouldBeMoreGayer · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
What?? Don't you ever had a tough moment when you are really sad or stress and a friend or a family member give you a hug and stays with you until you get better?? (Cuddles can come from lots of people not just from your significant other) Edit: I come from a place where human contact is very common so hug, touch and even kiss people in the cheek is so normal that, in some regions, is a greeting
MrTorchWick · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well... It has probably happened before but whenever I'm going through a hard time, I try my best to keep it to myself. My problems are typically not that significant anyways. Also, I'm fairly awkward, so I refrained as much as possible from hugging people until I was like 15 or something. I'm okay with it now
CouldBeMoreGayer · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every problem is significant, after all it's bothering you so it is important
MrTorchWick · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but I typically get over it pretty quickly. And everytime I complain about my problems, I regret it later because it wasn't worth bothering someone over it
CouldBeMoreGayer · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As my therapist once said me "You are not bothering people by telling them about your problems, you are preoccupying them by not telling what is happening" So if you can't afford a therapist try talking whit someone you trust, but just if you are comfortable with this, don't overstress yourself with that.
MrTorchWick · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate the talk bro. Fairly certain I'm okay tbh. If I ever do feel the need to reach out, I will. You are very kind random stranger
CouldBeMoreGayer · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you and sorry if I overwhelmed you with all of that, I kinda speak allot on the internet so sorry
MrTorchWick · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have nothing better to do so :)
Savinsnsn · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conscious experience. We seem to be able to perfectly describe the universe without it, but yet, all of us experience it.
ZuChTtT · 3 points · Posted at 20:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe the Earth is flat.
nervousentity · 3 points · Posted at 20:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the brain works/doesn’t work. Like it’s a lump of jello that makes emotions and chemicals and it lets you move your body and it lets you say things, but the moment a nerve thing is out of place suddenly you’re a serial killer or hey you can’t see because fuck you. Shit’s wild and interesting.
Frothy_moisture · 3 points · Posted at 20:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who cannot or will not admit that their favorites make mistakes. Or when they'll defend those mistakes as if there were intentional, not as bad as people think, or 'just a joke'. I'm talking people who would freak out because their fave got a parking ticket and go on twitter rants about how it's absolutely impossible for such a thing to have occurred.
Like... These are legit just human people. They make mistakes. They drop shit. They trip over their own feet. They piss and poop and vomit. They're not some made-up idol.
ffs, my favorite singer took their own life and I'm not going to sit here and claim it wasn't a mistake
faraway_hotel · 3 points · Posted at 20:39:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making simple spelling mistakes and getting homophones mixed up... and being completely okay with it.
zathra_the_undead · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobes
CaptainTim36 · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like camping in games.
Sandaleebrah · 3 points · Posted at 20:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Child abuse. Domestic assault. Underage assault. Crime in general.
BaroqueGhost1 · 3 points · Posted at 20:58:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock Exchange
ch536 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me neither!
nickardoin96 · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can seem to be able to live for free. They don’t have a job, they’ve never had a job in the entire time you’ve known them, they have absolutely no way of getting money that you know of, but they somehow have a roof over their head and a vehicle to drive, and sometimes even nice things. Makes zero sense to me.
ImPretendingToCare · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, not only are we gonna all die one day, but how at age 40s 50s 60s you start to slow down and you just dont have the same energy as you did in your 20s and my friends and people in general would STILL rather stay at home and watch netflix than go out on weekends and plan for fun shit.
Like we're all a decade away from starting to decay and people cant logically accept the concept of time moving quick , not just cause we die at 90,but because youre slowly losing energy too and the majority of people would rather be 96 years old laying in their death beds saying they watched Netflix today than saying yea i went out and had fun on April 11 2021.
I just truly truly truly cannot work my mind around that mindset.
Theres A LOT of weird odd ways of thinking that ive come to understand. But that 1 thing just blows my mind.
Like we have the resources, my friend HAS the money, he HAS the next 3 days off.. its the weekend.. the weather is great.. the world is moving..(clearly not talking about right now but the last 10 years) lets go downtown and have some fun.. "Nooo im just not feeling it - kinda just want to chill - not in the mood - etc. etc." LIKE BRO HES 26 AND IM 27. WE NEED TO MAKE MOVES OR LIFE IS GONNA PASS US BY.
I truly wish i just got lucky with those groups of friends you see that literally do everything possible together .. go to house parties.. raves.. festivals.. events.. cons... NO. Everyone ive ever met in my life is just low energy, no to everything.
My brain will never ever understand.
muddyclunge · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm 38 and this year feels like the start of that decline. Up to now I was always young. I can honestly say I made the most of my 20s and 30s though so now I'm looking forward to chilling out and having some kids. Don't waste your youth, money won't buy it back.
ImPretendingToCare · 2 points · Posted at 21:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AMEN. Nothing will buy it back. I wanna reach 40 and day "wow.. what a trip" then relax like you.
No. no one around me thinks like that. Ive been delt shit cards.
muddyclunge · 2 points · Posted at 21:52:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
99% of people I've known are like that too. Some people outgrow their friends, that's life. Don't hold yourself back so others feel better about coasting. You're dead way longer than you're alive, savour every moment.
ImPretendingToCare · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I need your mentality in the people around me. Honestly.
muddyclunge · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go and find them. They won't just come to you. You have to be the places those people are, doing the things those people do. If there's somewhere you want to end up, or someone you want to become, then the fact you're actively working at something will attract other people who are actively working too. Enjoy the hustle, always have a goal in mind, always be moving forward.
ImPretendingToCare · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How will i go to the places those people are if i dont have the people to go with to get there in the first place?
I mean i literally work at Disney World with young people in the heart of what youd call fun and STILL most people are the way i explained.
Like if i just had 1 single person thats driven and like minded i could acheive so much of what youre saying. Those people really are the 1%. No matter how much energy you put into finding them its gonna be damn near impossible. And building relationships dont just happen over night. This shit is tough.
roadtrip2020 · 3 points · Posted at 21:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Audigit · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And women. Equally elusive, yet entertaining.
bobbysquarepants · 3 points · Posted at 22:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
Brit71 · 3 points · Posted at 22:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Telephones and radios...
belltyra · 3 points · Posted at 23:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so interested in the Kardashians.
blondyuk · 3 points · Posted at 23:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m pretty good with grammar but really don’t get how to use “affect” and “effect”
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 00:09:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A fun way to rmmbr applying which is the why behind it.
Once something Affects another, it has then had an Effect. Hence, alphabetically, you have a logical tie-in. Helps.
Squidgie1 · 3 points · Posted at 23:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can have hundreds of cable channels and none of them can play a movie I want to watch.
Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who respond to this exceedingly valid discussion with, "Well, just pick something and be happy." "It sounds like you're just complaining to complain." "You're blaming others for your unhappiness/dissatisfaction." "Don't let it bother you." --actually buy into this mindless insensitive arrogance as they lecture their admonishments.
I have lived this. From certain family, friends, SOs, and randoms I've tried having logical and thoughtful convos with.
Believe me, r/WowThanksImCured can be a salve at times.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work. Like our eyes are one of the most complex parts of our body, so the fact that a camera can capture what we see and print it out..... my brain is itchy.
sheerflair · 3 points · Posted at 23:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Licorice.
insert_meme_here578 · 3 points · Posted at 23:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mandarin
Torgor_ · 3 points · Posted at 23:52:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 23:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do poeple still support trump after all of this and why Biden after all of the vids of him grabing children?
OofMeRN · 3 points · Posted at 23:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
redstone
quillosopher · 3 points · Posted at 00:05:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
flat earthers. How can you be so dumb?
mrwellfed · 3 points · Posted at 00:06:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservative voters...
generat0r13 · 3 points · Posted at 00:13:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, how people perform daily functions. I see people out working in their yards, decorating, cooking, cleaning, spending time with friends and family..... and I can't even do my dishes every day.
Karacmore · 3 points · Posted at 00:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we litter a paper full of in-text citations and the penalties that fallow doing it incorrectly.
To clarify, I am 1000% for giving sources credit where it is due in reference pages and the like, but I find lots of the regulations and restrictions APA presents only complicates writing papers and makes them look bad.
Churchofbabyyoda · 3 points · Posted at 00:32:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why. The. Hell. Are. The. Kardashians. Famous?
Riselythe · 3 points · Posted at 00:38:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can one moment be your friend and the next a stranger.
rekuhs · 3 points · Posted at 02:09:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trumps popularity.
potato430 · 3 points · Posted at 02:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reddit hates emojis
DoGzii · 3 points · Posted at 02:15:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychedellics
Harru-Da-Wiza · 3 points · Posted at 02:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
CountEdmundDantes · 3 points · Posted at 02:16:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can move a finger/hand/arm/torso/leg etc... before you formulate the thought to do it.
Makes me wonder if the mind is an entity completely separate from the body.
NellieInk · 3 points · Posted at 02:17:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are shocked when people commit atrocities.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 12:07:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because we can’t relate to the cruelty
GrizzlyEagleScout · 3 points · Posted at 02:17:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fish is not considered “meat”.
justsayyay · 3 points · Posted at 02:58:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the falcons lost a 28-3 lead in the super bowl.
KrustyButtCheeks · 3 points · Posted at 02:58:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people support trump?
Seriously.
PeteTheeGreek · 3 points · Posted at 03:03:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. At some point, your consciousness just stops. Everything just stops. Do you realize you die? Scares the shit out of me.
Gobshite_ · 3 points · Posted at 03:36:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How programming languages are programmed... and what programmed whatever programmed them?
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:24:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so like you'll be laying in your bed. And then you feel like you gotta take a piss. But like you could control it like and wait some time so you put on ur mf pants and shirt and walk to the bathroom. And when u enter like you can't control it like it urges you to pass and u can't hold. Like wtf causes me to need to do it so desperately once I enter the bathroom like wtf? If I stayed in bed it woulda let me hold it in but when I go into the bathroom I can't hold it like wtf? How does this work. Also how come when you're done taking a piss-shit and you get up from sitting position like u piss a little and sometimes it gets on ur underwear and ur like wtf??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't relate to anything more than I am right now. All of it. Mostly with shits though, hold it while driving no prob, as soon as I pull in the driveway, its game time, I have mere seconds to get to the can!
onehotdrwife · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming. You have been programmed to associate walking in to the bathroom with emptying your bowel or bladder.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
huh
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 06:06:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technology. Not in the sense where I don’t know how to use a phone or computer, I’m really tech-savvy. But like, how in the hell is this clump of wires and circuit boards create a functioning device that lets me do all this shit?
Nittingsheep · 3 points · Posted at 06:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
Like who the fuck decided that people should try to own parts of a company and use that as its own market for making money? Then, who the fuck decided that this made-up system of making money off of other people actually working hard and making money should control THE ENTIRE FUCKING ECONOMY?!? Is it just an indicator of the economy and growth in general? But then how in 2008 everyone selling stocks caused an economic collapse? Who bought those stocks then? The company who sold it in the first place? Other people who thought it might be valuable? What if no one wants your shitty stock? Are you stuck with it?
Genuinely never had it explained to me so it made sense.
ColtonDepetre · 3 points · Posted at 06:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls, and I’ll leave it like that.
zelkova20 · 2 points · Posted at 06:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if they can't get mad for no reasom then they would need a reason to be mad and that is just too much to ask.
Prob1emChild · 3 points · Posted at 06:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans hate the idea of affordable healthcare but is ok with spending trillions on wars/ corporation bailouts.
Subaruhatchback18 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:14 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because affordable healthcare is trash everywhere. What you want is a free market for healthcare, not the privatized one. It’s that simple.
Prob1emChild · 0 points · Posted at 04:22:24 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trash everywhere? Tell that to Singapore, Taiwan, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, France, Germany.
Americans are chumps for taking the pure shit that flows out of their self securing politician's mouth as gospel. Failed 1st world country.
Peanut-buy · 3 points · Posted at 06:35:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is infinite.
IronGobz · 3 points · Posted at 06:49:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone likes Donald Trump. Speaking as a non-American, I can’t see why anyone would like Trump over any other republican. Literally any republican would have the same policies (in terms of restricting immigration, promoting trade, hiring right wing judges to the Supreme Court etc) -if those are the policies you value, but wouldn’t be such an embarrassing spectacle in the process. I’ve looked for explanations and haven’t yet found any that hold up, they are usually either his policies (see above), things that are very clearly false (he’s a straight talker, he’s not part of the “swamp” etc) or that he pisses off Democrats (sure... but that’s the worst reason to like something Imaginable).
Subaruhatchback18 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:52 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s actually very simple, we like trump because he says whatever, but it’s more than that, immigration is bad when you let any and everyone in your country, look at how bad California is doing right now, look at Chicago. Look at any democratic run area and you’ll notice a few things, poverty, massive spikes in crimes, third world country status like California’s became. These places are hot beds for sexual assaults, gun violence even though they ban guns and so forth. Now go look at republican ran states, notice how we don’t have the Black Plague? Notice how school shootings don’t happen that often in these areas? Notice how crimes aren’t so high? Look I get it, you don’t have to like trump, you don’t have to like what I’m saying but to act like democrats are the better choice they simply aren’t, while growing up I considered myself a socialist, as I got older I turned democratic, now I’m conservative. Conservative people tend to think of more than just themselves, they’re not just Christians and whatever else we get called. Trump may say stupid shit, but I’ve never seen any democratic nominee say anything smarter either. Look at Bernie sanders, multi million dollar homes yet he’s a politician, where did all his “hard earned” money come from? Also now that he dropped out where did those millions upon millions of dollars go? Right back into his pocket. Politicians are corrupt, trump gave up his right to run his own businesses and gave up his presidential check to charities, that’s already more than the majority of democrats have done. Notice how democrats are always blocking bills to help the country because they have a list of demands to be met. They don’t care if your poor, they don’t want you to prosper either, they need you to rely on them solely so that you have no where else to go, planned parenthood which was made by democrats was put in place to keep the number of black people to a minimum, they also aren’t aloud to be on any form of support for their children if they have men in the house, also, did you know which side fought for the end of slavery? Republicans, democrats where the ones for slavery and still are but they’ve changed their tactics, once you see through the facade that is socialism and democrats you realize that it isn’t Republicans that are the problem. Are there bad seeds on all sides? Your damn right there are, but it’s not trump that’s caused this shit. Like what I said or dislike it it really doesn’t matter to me, there’s a reason America is turning red and not blue. People are starting to see things as they truly are, if trump is so bad then why is it with multiple multi million dollar investigations that they still haven’t found a single thing to get him on, the question is, why hate someone for speaking out and trying to change how things are ran, trump is a business man and he understands how it operates. This is why people vote for him. This is why he is still in office and this is why he will win the election again. The media does nothing but lie, Fox News included. But Fox News isn’t saying they aren’t biased they claim to be right wing, cnn claims they aren’t biased but that’s a straight up lie. Also note how all left wing media is funded by George Soros and a few others.
bennyiota · 3 points · Posted at 07:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can vote for trump
mousemorethanman · 3 points · Posted at 07:22:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-binary people, like I think I'm almost there and I'm trying, but I just don't get it.
I understand gender dysphoria and the need to transition from one gender to another, and I fully support people's need to do that and more importantly to be acknowledged as the gender that they identify as.
But I think I just haven't had non-binary explained to me well enough. I just have difficulty wrapping my head around the concept.
And I get that as a cis white male my ignorance is deserving of an eye-roll and perhaps some disdain, but if it could be explained to me, I'm willing to learn and adapt.
I get that I might get some hate for this, but I am genuinely curious.
lololololololol77 · 3 points · Posted at 08:18:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many people don't fucken vote, everyone opens their mouth to complain but when it comes to doing a simple ass thing like voting for change you can't be bothered to vote. Also the Democratic party is a fucken hoax and I fail to understand how people still believe in it.
suedcapy · 3 points · Posted at 10:53:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Republican Party can be so big. I mean, their policies are only beneficial to about 1% of the population, but they are voted into offices by about 50%.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
most things
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 12:45:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who vote in elections for guy who is more likely to win.
It's not a lottery.
fwbuckeye · 3 points · Posted at 13:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will confess to one major thing....that is probability. I have a master's in electrical engineering from a top 3 school...I worked for a telecom company and actually took random processes from Stanford... I got an A- in the class...With all that said and done...I don't understand this subject. I can do the complicated problems because there is usually a formula to put in for telecom but simple stuff like choose balls or sock drawers or coins or cards and I have to write all the combinations down....I feel like a fraud...
adjgbole · 3 points · Posted at 13:30:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how people without healthcare could vote for a candidate who will ensure that they never have access to healthcare.
LLJewJ · 3 points · Posted at 14:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand Tik Tok. I don't know how it's fun to watch the shit posted to it.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 18:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some men believe it’s their “right” to treat women like objects. It’s disgusting. Us women are sick and tired of not being able to go outside during the night by ourselves because we fear being raped/murdered/trafficked. Not all men are like this (thank you) but some are, and it needs to stop
edbalcombe · 3 points · Posted at 12:43:43 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
30caliberclipazine · 15 points · Posted at 20:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the left has gone from #feelthebern, #metoo, and hating white men to supporting Joe Biden, the whitest of white men who inappropriately touches little girls on video in public multiple times and even used his power and influence to suppress an employee he fingered. He’s literally everything people claim to hate Trump for yet they act like he’s some kind of savior for women and minorities.
LaTalullah · 8 points · Posted at 05:59:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The DNC appointed Joe Biden. No one wants him for president
Dovahkiin419 · 4 points · Posted at 05:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got tip, if they’re really into joe Biden besides as a devils bargain to avoid re-electing a literal facist, chances are that they’re not left wing, just left of trump supporters.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 01:54:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, they’re not from what I’ve seen. Bernie bros fucking hate the Democratic Party lol.
30caliberclipazine · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m talking about the mainstream leftists in the media and on twitter mostly
Dovahkiin419 · 2 points · Posted at 05:57:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren’t leftists. They’re right wingers, but because it’s the states, everyone “mainstream” is pretty far right, just to varying degrees.
30caliberclipazine · 1 points · Posted at 06:19:24 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow you sound very informed about the US. What European country do you hail from?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am Bernie bro lady and can’t stand any political party.
Kat_0707 · 0 points · Posted at 16:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Leftie here and was part of the #feelthebern crew. Ever since Bernie withdrew, the only viable blue candidate left is Joe. Joe was never first choice but it’s become a choice between lesser evils, and Joe will get my vote over Trump. That’s really it.
30caliberclipazine · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re the same person except biden is even more of a dumb boomer and preys on children instead of porn stars
Masterwork_Core · 10 points · Posted at 18:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
racism and all other forms of bigotry.. like wtf
LuanScunha · 40 points · Posted at 16:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People who don't understand that if you already pay taxes, you should have public hospitals where you would not pay more to access health care
officeromnicide · 16 points · Posted at 18:26:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Bear in mind that absolutely everything being debated at curent has long and thought out roots through hundred of years of political philosophy. There are very good reasons for every political stance of current, you can look into it easily if you want to spend the time.
Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Props to Edmund Burke. Dead people had something to say even if you haven’t taken the time to learn what that is.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasnt necessarily talking about it from a conservative point of view, just rather that everything has a very strong backing and a lot of thought behind it
Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that’s what Burke had to say about conservatism.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No Burke said those things because he thought that we must honour the dead's wishes as they would have had something to say were they alive and it is our duty to preserve their wills through tradition, it's a whole different thing entirely
Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ok, we’re misunderstanding each other. Where’s the disconnect? It might be that we’re discussing two different things, both of which can be found in Burke’s ideas. Do you think the disconnect is the distinction between honoring the wishes of the dead through non-rational tradition vs. active investigation of our intellectual tradition?
Edit: yeah, that’s the disconnect. I see what you mean, and there’s a somewhat meta level on which we have a rational discussion regarding the importance of non-rational tradition. The inquiry itself can have the same impulse. I see them both encapsulated in “Most people have already died; don’t be a smug modern”
Jacob3443 · 4 points · Posted at 20:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not free if you're paying for it
ZoneMaster23 · 3 points · Posted at 21:21:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Define free.
jeffzebub · 5 points · Posted at 19:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Talking about "free" healthcare just gives ammo to opponents of medicare for all. Let's be clear that it would be covered by taxes and the cost of that tax increase for each person would be offset by eliminating health insurance. Employers should also increase worker's pay accordingly.
MpVpRb · 90 points · Posted at 15:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How otherwise intelligent people believe the stories told by religion
If a god exists, it's currently beyond human comprehension
CustosClavium · 28 points · Posted at 18:32:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's probably best to directly ask or read the writings of the intelligent people who believe in religious things. They'll give, presumably, intelligent reasons for their beliefs.
luksonluke · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Here's a thoughtful answer i hope i can phrase this right.
Human standpoint
We still believe in religion because when humans intelligence was still in the way for development when they couldn't explain complex ideas (How world begun, what created us) they believed that there was a creator, now think, you are a kid and you are asked how did you came into existence? answer by your instincts is that there is a creator, we've been raised in the idea of religion and adapted it to it so much that it has became a common sense now.
My view:
I do not believe in religion but i used to, because i didn't know how things worked, now the more i knew more questions popped up in my head and i stopped believing in religion, for our next big steps, humans shouldn't use religion for their actions, if we as species want to generally improve, we should also face the facts and act according to our brain and not by our heart, nobody is stopping you from believeing nor is anything wrong with it, but what is currently the issue with religion that alot of people become arrogant and ignorant just because something is against of what they believe.
Starshaft · 0 points · Posted at 18:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, otherwise you risk the confirmation bias that would be condemned if applied to religious belief.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:32:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's quite the assumption
CustosClavium · 5 points · Posted at 19:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only way to find out is to ask.
kirkkerman · 3 points · Posted at 19:41:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tested it?
ElGatoTriste · 6 points · Posted at 20:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why? There are plenty of intelligent, religious people. Islamic Spain saw one of the greatest scientific booms in human history, why is it so strange that intelligent people might also believe in a higher power?
kirkkerman · 3 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are lots of very intelligent philosophers who have approached the question from a religious perspective. It's also important to remember that the materialist perspective is a very recently developed one, and still grounded in not-necessarily object philosophy.
Elite2260 · 18 points · Posted at 16:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I don’t get it.
cultured_banana_slug · 7 points · Posted at 19:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it exists, it doesn't require belief. I don't need to believe in tables.
I bang my shin on it, it exits.
So much of what people ascribe to the divine looks a lot like what humans would do if they had super powers. That doesn't look divine, that looks like wish fulfillment.
leaderofwhatnation · 5 points · Posted at 19:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I consider myself intelligent, but so does literally everybody else on this hell site, and my family would disagree, so idk.
Anyways, it’s a comfort thing for me, it’s nice to know that someone up there is watching. Or that bad people will get what’s coming to them, and good people will be rewarded.
thats0K · 5 points · Posted at 20:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people shouldn't be doing good to "get rewarded". I shouldn't live my life in fear of a fiery hell because I didn't act the right way.
I "do good" because that's just how you're supposed to be/act.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 12:34:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believed too for a long time loved and trusted that I was watched and cared for. And then god watched me suffer and didn’t help. The bad people hurt me when I was young and when older -took what I worked and sacrificed for and they weren’t punished instead they did very well, they were admired and got a way with it. I was blamed.
That happened over and over again. I still believed. Even my church leader embraced my criminal abuser and shunned me. I still believed something better was on store- I wasn’t made just to work and try to do right and suffer, right? There was no comfort. I was alone. With nothing. I waited on the Lord.
Still would be waiting. I still suffer. There’s no god I can see helping me. Every time I make things a little better, find a way, feel some happiness- I watch it blow up and I lose even more than I had before.
I stopped praying, stopped believing and loving. I either became agnostic or hate something that set me up for agony over and over. I can’t handle the idea that god or some entity- even a Sim developers can be so cruel. I hate that I was indoctrinated with this ideology of a kind and loving god and wasted my life trying to live by it only to be destroyed by it. Had I been free minded and my society didn’t support this delusion- what I would have accomplished instead?
The way things play out- seemingly like a humorous reality show for entertainment - I’d believe more in a Sim and my player is just an asshole.
Savage47 · 2 points · Posted at 23:08:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont those two things contradict each other
daniel4sight · 7 points · Posted at 18:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even intelligent people get afraid.
funky_kong_ · 5 points · Posted at 19:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you read the ontological, teleological, and cosmological arguments? Even if you don’t buy it, you can at least begin to understand why people believe.
thats0K · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
2 of every single animal? and food? where did they use the bathroom? he boated to AUS for koalas and kangaroos, and went elsewhere to drop off other region-specific animals? ...all over the planet?? with no motor either?! k.
bro come the fuck on.
CitationX_N7V11C · 4 points · Posted at 15:55:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They see that they're tales that detail human nature and our history.
Redbananaboom · 5 points · Posted at 20:34:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is this downvoted? I agree. I used to be very scientifically minded but now I feel that logic stripped from life/the subject isn’t the full picture
MisterBilau · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not “currently” beyond human comprehension. It’s beyond human comprehension by definition, so it always was and always will be.
adirondackbird · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, that is a mystery indeed
GENERAL_A_L33 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's less about believing random stories and more of digging into a lot of the morals it has to teach.
mikeyj022 · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me at least it’s how when I pray I am comforted, and when I humble myself and ask for guidance I’ve never been betrayed. It’s not a matter of intelligence. Faith is super complex. Like I don’t believe because of that comfort or guidance, but because I know that there is a God. This is a mess but just my take.
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking facts!!
Mustircle · -13 points · Posted at 17:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its not a matter of intelligence
qwertx0815 · 3 points · Posted at 18:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
But it is, at least partially.
Otherwise there wouldn't be such a strong negative correlation between intelligence and religiosity.
(Really not trying to be an edgelord here).
Edit: kinda surprised about the reaction I got, the relationship of intelligence and religiosity is a very well researched topic and the results are not contended or ambiguous at all. I assumed it was common knowledge.
Here's a meta study as a introductory source, if the topic interests you, google scholar is overflowing with additional sources.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1088868313497266
Person_756335846 · 8 points · Posted at 18:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are we measuring intelligence?
reddit18274 · 0 points · Posted at 01:38:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
IQ
Starshaft · -4 points · Posted at 18:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah if there was ever a comment needing a source, it’s this.
RandyRalph02 · 3 points · Posted at 19:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a strong international trend where as education levels rise, religious affiliation drops in kind.
Starshaft · 0 points · Posted at 19:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re the source?
funky_kong_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting downvoted for asking for a source is hands down the dumbest thing about reddit
Starshaft · 5 points · Posted at 17:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, the irony that this is about education is lost on Reddit.
qwertx0815 · -1 points · Posted at 09:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that happened after he got a source and started getting irate.
He was still in the positive at that point.
funky_kong_ · 0 points · Posted at 16:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You think?
qwertx0815 · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I only downvoted him after.
Mselaneous · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Education and intelligence aren’t the same thing. Measuring intelligence is virtually impossible and a task many fields have struggled with for years.
Religious affiliation trending negatively with education in the current age doesn’t support the claim you made.
qwertx0815 · 0 points · Posted at 19:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See my edit.
Starshaft · 0 points · Posted at 21:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ok, an abstract from a study with no fucking explanation of the metrics or methodology and an invitation to search google are not the same as sources.
Edit: ok, this source isn’t even about education. It’s about intelligence apparently, which is clearly not a source for what you said about education.
qwertx0815 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No offense, but we can try to have a conversation about the data, or you can try to find reasons to be outraged and yell at the clouds.
It's not possible to do both.
Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you respond to my response?
qwertx0815 · 0 points · Posted at 09:32:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure.
I posted a source that supports the widely known fact that statistically, intelligence and religiosity are negatively correlated.
The fact that education and religiosity are also strongly negatively correlated is kinda irrelevant to that, as I wasn't really looking to source that, just my initial one, kinda as an invitation for people that are curious about the topic.
You had some time now to research this topic on your own, and it's clearly very important to you.
Has that research changed your opinion in any way?
Starshaft · 1 points · Posted at 17:39:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which were you saying, friend? "There is a strong international trend where as education levels rise, religious affiliation drops in kind."
We can't just mix up the two terms and casually conflate them post hoc.
And telling me to go research it myself is not a source.
qwertx0815 · 0 points · Posted at 22:00:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't, but the fact that you refuse to seek out information yourself does create the impression that you're looking for a fight, not an exchange of information.
And honestly, that's not something I'm looking for when I visit Reddit (anymore).
My user experience improved drastically since I adopted this policy.
You are welcome to look it up if you're really interested, but I will not argue with you about basic scientific facts.
Have a nice day. :)
Starshaft · 0 points · Posted at 22:28:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You made an argument and gave me the homework of going out and supporting it. I won’t do that.
Lavishgoblin · -2 points · Posted at 19:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got some evidence for that at least?
qwertx0815 · 2 points · Posted at 19:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See my edit.
Lavishgoblin · 2 points · Posted at 19:34:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks. I guess the general criticisms of IQ as bring an accurate measure of intelligence on it's own apply here aswell.
qwertx0815 · 0 points · Posted at 19:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Yep, it's always a question what you're actually measuring.
At least this correlation holds separately for logical reasoning capacity, mathematical ability, spacial awareness and verbal intelligence, memorization ability and the ability to attain higher education. (As in, on a population level, a rise in any of these makes the observed population less religious).
It's too much to claim that any of these on their own make a person "intelligent", but I do think that they're a fairly good proxy in totality.
Starshaft · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of these things correlate with education. Is this a matter of educated people being less religious? Is it that the instructors are less religious? From here we would have an entirely different discussion. You see how single threaded this line of reasoning is, right?
luksonluke · 0 points · Posted at 20:30:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If we define intelligence by our modern means, it doesn't make sense why intelligent person would believe in it, but intelligent people ask questions, they are not ignorant and they drive their way for what is realistic and makes sense most to them.
Treeninja1999 · 0 points · Posted at 20:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't believe all the stories, there's too much politics in the writing of them. But I do genuinely feel at times God helping me and leading me down the right path. But you're right, God is definitely beyond human comprehension and those that say they know so much about him are likely bs-ing
Geminii27 · 0 points · Posted at 21:38:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It wouldn't have to be all that complex to be beyond their comprehension. A potato clock might be enough.
Aragorns-Wifey · -26 points · Posted at 18:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not beyond our comprehension if He wrote down what we need to know and can understand.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm no religious person but I'd say the bible should be viewed as a historical tome instead something to 100% live by
Aragorns-Wifey · -2 points · Posted at 21:35:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s of course that’s the difference between Christians and non Christians.
TheNique · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not every Christian thinks that everything in the bible literally happened. I'm not doubting that some do, but none of my religious friends and family believe for example in creationism. They do however take Jesus as a role model and see the value in "Love thy neighbor", charity and community. What makes them Christian is their believe in the higher being described in the bible. Not their believe in the bible. Big difference.
Most modern Christians don't use the bible as religious law you have to live by. Instead it is a collection of stories to learn the values, god wants people to live by.
It is generally accepted, that large parts of the bible were never meant to be taken literal. The bible is full of symbols, metaphors and allegorical stories. But they leave room for interpretation, especially because there has been a lot of chinese whisper going on. The stories in the bible were told and retold before being written down and after that they were translated (sometimes in a faulty way). Literally believing in any English bible would be foolish, because an English bible does not contain the literal "word of God".
(EDIT: in Islam this is different in a very interesting way: Mohammed's teachings and the quran have been recorded in Arabic during his lifetime and it is generally read in Arabic, so the margin of error is way smaller. Because of this the quran often has a different value to Muslims. It is generally believed to be the literal, unedited, unfiltered "word of God". I'm not judging Islam or Christianity here, just highlighting one important difference)
It would be unfair and wrong to reduce Christianity to the belief that the events in the bible literally happened.
Aragorns-Wifey · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus is the Word of God, self described.
The Bible is the Word of God.
You can’t reject the Word without rejecting the Word.
“Christian” means “Christ follower.” Anyone can cal themselves anything. But you can’t follow Christ and reject Him simultaneously.
Shabongbong130 · 11 points · Posted at 18:30:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But how can we verify that a higher power write it? Not someone who thought it’s what that power wanted or what they wanted others to believe?
I’m no atheist, but I don’t like organized religion because humans are imperfect. We have our own bias, language and translations over thousands of years can lead to a loss of original meaning, or practices just become outdated. Sure, it made sense to ban pork and shellfish back when they were unclean to eat, but nowadays there’s no point since they can be properly cleaned.
Jekaah · -6 points · Posted at 18:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s the thing, it’s not about verifying anything. It’s about having faith.
And as for the food thing, I’m a Christian so I cannot speak for other religions but in the Old Testament it was forbidden to eat pork but the New Testament does away with that in saying: “What goes into someone's mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." Matthew 15:11.
JrPolygon · 4 points · Posted at 19:16:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The verse you just quoted is figurative and doesn't have to do with food. Unless you think puking or spitting out food "defiles" people.
Jekaah · -1 points · Posted at 19:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it does actually have to do with food mate as the previous verses the Pharisees asked Jesus why his disciples hadn’t washed their hands before they had eaten. Hence Jesus said what he said in vs 11. And yes it is figurative, but also literal. The literal part is eating pork or any food for that matter is not a sin, the figurative part is that what comes out of your mouth is what can defile you. Meaning the words you speak come from your heart and mind. And if your heart and mind are unrighteous and wicked, so will your words be.
Aragorns-Wifey · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes Unclean foods were forbidden until the church age. Such laws were specifically abrogated by God as the gospel went to the whole earth as opposed to staying within small Israel.
Aragorns-Wifey · 0 points · Posted at 21:32:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the Bible presents human beings as imperfect so you are in agreement with it there.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 14:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I've had people try to explain it to me. Looked up resources online to try to understand it. It's just way over my head for whatever reason. Sucks because I really want to get into electronics more but I'm lacking in that aspect to progress more.
thunderfart_99 · 2 points · Posted at 17:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried submitting a question about how electricity works on the sub r/explainlikeimfive? I've always wondered about how it works too, but every time somebody tries to explain it, I just get confused.
Canadian_Bacon101 · 5 points · Posted at 18:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of most modern rap music. I'm sorry, but most of it sounds the same and it gets repetitive very quickly. That and it's everywhere these days, which I find to be particularly annoying.
Dorwytch · 3 points · Posted at 20:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same reason people think all jazz sounds the same or all classic rock does. If you dont listen to it then it sounds like all the rest.
redemption_time · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have been listening to old school tunes (hip hop and soul) and boy oh boy! Goldmines everywhere. Eric B and Rakim, Lady of Rage, Ice Cube (no Vaseline), Dilated people....
Anti_42 · 6 points · Posted at 18:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Daddy word became sexual thing in the first place
kiiiiiiiiig · 5 points · Posted at 19:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people will get $600.00 in unemployment but I am still working fulltime and dont get that much money. What???????
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a ton of Americans support Trump.
Supergod5 · 8 points · Posted at 20:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump has any supporters.
alfredjb3 · 11 points · Posted at 17:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How young people can pick up smoking cigarettes. With everything we know about what it does to your body, how can someone choose to pay a ton of money to do it anyway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Before you know it you’re addicted and your body chooses for you. At least that’s my experience
Stardust_crusader11 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peer pressure is a powerful thing, after they start nicotine makes it hard for them to leave
Hank317 · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emo. Music.
craigdavidsanorak · 5 points · Posted at 14:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How words are invented.
Like how does qué mean stand in a line and a stick you use in snooker/pool. What came first? Did someone say pass the qué and the other person was like how do I pass you a line of people? Or was it "I'm in the qué" and the other person was like wtf kind of wizard did you fuck with that he put you inside a stick?
tommygunz007 · 9 points · Posted at 14:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am curious how 'dope' became the name for weed in the 60's, and then how it became a phrase in Urban culture "That's so Dope!"
craigdavidsanorak · 4 points · Posted at 14:29:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This dope is sick.
HandsomeLakitu · 3 points · Posted at 14:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dope was a type of opium in the 19th century, and the word became synonymous with all illicit drugs.
No idea how 'That's so dope' came about.
tommygunz007 · 2 points · Posted at 14:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh ok cool. Thanks for the info.
hades_the_wise · 1 points · Posted at 14:51:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weed is good, therefore things that are dope == things that are good
I'm more curious about how something slaps. Did it come from people saying "This bass slaps", i.e. "This bass is so powerful that it feels as though it's physically hitting me", and that spread to describing other things as powerful/potent? Or did it originate with food being described as so good it would make you "slap yo mamma" and then get transposed to other things? Two possible origins there, would love to figure out which lead to "This [x] slaps!"
tommygunz007 · 1 points · Posted at 15:01:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never head the expression 'this bass slaps'.
I will guess that if you stand in front of a bass speaker, that the air pressure hitting you in the face is like getting slapped, kind of like 'cold air slapping your face' that kind of thing. It could very well be from an old book in which an author was describing other things hitting your face like a slap.
HandsomeLakitu · 12 points · Posted at 14:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, in this case, there's a Latin word 'coda' that means tail.
Coda gave old French the word 'Coe' for a tail which became 'cue' or 'queue' in modern French.
The English language picked up the French word (and a whole lot of others) after the Norman invasion. A queue of people and a pool cue are both called that because they resemble a tail.
craigdavidsanorak · 5 points · Posted at 14:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've genuinely wanted to know that answer for years. Thank you
Saxit · 3 points · Posted at 15:26:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etymology
Here's a good site: https://www.etymonline.com/
hades_the_wise · 6 points · Posted at 14:49:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually it comes down to common roots of words, and different groups of people using those common roots to mean different things. Eventually, the different groups merge and both usages/words remain.
Etymology is really fascinating - I highly recommend looking up the roots of words you're interested in when you get bored. If this pandemic lasts much longer, you could use that free time to look up the roots of all of the top 1000 most used words in the English language
craigdavidsanorak · 1 points · Posted at 14:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have given me something to read and research during lockdown that can actually occupy my mind. Thank you
nicknewleaf · 1 points · Posted at 16:37:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1st one is queue 2nd one is spelled cue. just saying. bunch more meanings for cue as well.
craigdavidsanorak · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't k ow that. But spoken, they are the same word.
I am enjoying the feedback from such a stupid thought though.
nicknewleaf · 2 points · Posted at 17:09:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ho·mo·phone/ˈhäməˌfōn,ˈhōməˌfōn/📷
noun: homophones
ironwolf56 · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, Dr. Evil.
plainjane735 · 6 points · Posted at 14:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings
the-camster · 2 points · Posted at 14:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well for a start, it's "daylight saving". It's a time shift, not the name of a bank.
plainjane735 · 4 points · Posted at 15:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha my phone used autocorrect but thanks!
srrabrra34 · 5 points · Posted at 18:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People with absolutely no mental issues. People no unhealthy vices, no medication, no deep issues or trauma. Most of my friends have some kind of mental health issues or trauma and unhealthy coping mechanisms but the idea that people are out there just raw dogging reality and being perfectly fine.... it just blows my mind
RandyRalph02 · 2 points · Posted at 19:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people who claim to have no mental health issues are very good at hiding them. Otherwise they had to have a very lucky upbringing and genetics to end up so advantaged.
Karmaflare · 7 points · Posted at 13:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the steamed hams joke
PhoneJazz · 13 points · Posted at 15:46:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peak Simpsons. It’s a play on the ridiculously contrived “uh oh, I’m in a sticky situation, how do I lie my way out of this?” scenarios that were popular in old sitcoms.
Blince · 2 points · Posted at 20:25:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The joke in the situation is that Chalmers always calls Skinner out on the crazy things that he does, so the audience is set up to think that Skinner is going to get his comeuppance in that moment after he spins a very clearly bullshit story.
The humour then comes from the fact that Chalmers completely buys it hook, line and sinker in a very genuine way, thus surprising you.
ednorog · 8 points · Posted at 19:29:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 'Trump's supporters' is not even on the first page among these comments here.
ohwhofuckincares · 6 points · Posted at 22:52:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are sick of politics on here so everything good or bad about him gets downvoted.
Romcom1398 · 12 points · Posted at 17:47:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people hate lgbt people. It literally is something you can't choose and (if I remember correctly from reading about it) it's (partly) decided by the level of testosterone in the womb.
ron_sheeran · 2 points · Posted at 20:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it not created by testostrone levels in the womb. Its a very complex system spanning hundred of diffrent genes that we fully do not understand. All we know is that other animal can display homosexuality so its not a gentic mistake. One current theory is that homosexuality was a sort of population control we evolved to help orphan offspring.
Romcom1398 · 1 points · Posted at 13:19:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for correcting me! I had no idea.
GlobalLoan · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand it. As long as I don't have to pay for any of their causes, then I'm fine with it.
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Hypnosisgriff · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mainly to separate the Jews from the culture and the rituals around them. Like when the Bible says not to have long hair, the tribes that practiced ideology around Israel incorporated long hair into their rituals.
Even with shellfish and pork, it could’ve been because the Philistines or the Canaanites had them for a cultural meal, so commanding to not eat them would lessen the chance that the Israelites would adopt the idolatrous culture around them (which the Israelites still did anyway).
It’s not so much that long hair, mixed clothes, shellfish, or pork are bad, but that the practices with them were either for special people (mixed clothes with the priests) or that they were apart of the tribes around them.
It’s less of a moral reason and more of making them “holier” by keeping them from being tainted.
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CapnSpazz · 5 points · Posted at 21:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But then why would that not include homosexuality? It's mentioned in the same chapter as mixed fabrics, shell fish, etc. If we get rid of the whole list of rules, but only keep the one, then it seems more like an excuse to keep the one.
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tarboo00 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But there are other laws in the New Testament that plenty of modern Christians do not abide by, having modernized, such as women being expected to cover their heads inside the church and to pray, women being expected to have long hair, men expected to not have long hair, I’m sure there are more but my Christianity lore is rusty.
Romcom1398 · 1 points · Posted at 07:56:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok so, I know next to nothing about Christianity, but I just want you to know that I do respect the people who believe in it and I mean no offense or anything. But I've been wondering this: I read that the phase 'A man shall not lay with a man' was mistranslated, and that originally they weren't referring to two men sleeping together, but a man and a boy. As in, pedophilia. What do you think about that?
mgidaho · 8 points · Posted at 20:18:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can support trump. Awful President. Even worse person.
stuffisreal13 · -5 points · Posted at 20:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love the man. YUGE Trump supporter! Let's talk!
GodOD4000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thoughts on all of his golf trips? Thoughts on blaming China for the pandemic and then tweeting how great their leader is? Thoughts on his past involvements with Epstein? Thoughts on the massive tax cuts in a time of a rising economy coming out of a recession? Thoughts on the constant turnover in his administration? Go ahead and pick any of those to start.
stuffisreal13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You go to work, you get off work to relax and clear your head right?
China is to blame, they lied and tried to cover it out then it got out of control.
Trump is a business man and knows plenty of people, I wouldn't be too shocked if anyone you know does something bad.
Tax cuts are what we need. The Obama administration created a heavy regulated, an economy can only succeed through deregulation and capitalism.
So what, plenty of last presidents fired their staff and hired new ones.
GodOD4000 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Does it concern you that it's been reported that it has cost almost 133 million dollars in tax payer money to fund his golf outings? 29 of which have been to his own Mar-a-Lago resort. Do you fear he might be breaking the annulments act by traveling to Mar-a-Lag and having the U.S. pay the bill?
I'll agree China is mostly to blame for the pandemic, but does it not concern you that back in February, President Trump was praising Xi Jinping for the way he had handled the outbreak. Specifically stating, he handled it "really well" and "doing a very good job"
So, who gets credit for turning the economy around during Obama's presidency, "since an economy can only succeed under deregulation and capitalism."
True, many presidents fire and hire staff. But does a near 80% turnover rate (highest out of all presidencies) build confidence that Trump is able to find the best people to help him run the country?
Edit: Oh and my friends and the people I hangout with dont run a child sex trafficking ring for the wealthy and then blackmail them. And if I found out, I'd probably AT LEAST distance myself from them and not refer to them as my friend/s anymore and probably notify authorities.
stuffisreal13 · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's widely and commonly known that the best business deals and deals happen on the golf course, as Trump as a businessman he discusses business at the golf course, which I would believe is business having to do with the country. So I don't have a problem with that.
And I'm pretty sure the economy and unemployment rate was at its highest during the Obama administration and at lowest with Trump pre covid. Could be wrong tho.
It also doesn't help that regardless of what Trump does, he gets hate for it.
Imagine waking up and having your every decision scrutinized by people.
My only problem with him is he days certain things and I'm just like "why tho" at the same time, I love having a president whos vocal about his beliefs.
As kids we where taught to have a voice, stand up for what you believe in and express yourself. It's our right to have this freedom.
There is no denying he has done good for this country.
Slomojoe · 7 points · Posted at 20:03:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How transgenderism is no longer considered a mental illness. Objectively speaking, something wrong in the brain is causing people to think the way they do. Whether or not you consider it valid is up to you, and that’s not the point if this post. Some wires are crossed somewhere and that is causing transgender people to feel the way they do. So how is that not a mental illness?
thunder75 · 3 points · Posted at 23:31:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender dysphoria is a mental illness and is classified in the DSM-5 as such. Transitioning is the medically and psychologically accepted treatment.
Slomojoe · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why isn't the treatment some kind of medication to correct those thoughts instead?
thunder75 · 3 points · Posted at 02:44:26 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because there's nothing to correct. There's nothing inherently wrong with being born in the wrong body. It's psychologically accepted that sometimes a wire gets crossed and you feel you're living in the wrong body and there's nothing we can do to fix that. The mental illness comes from the pain and suffering and dysphoria that living in the wrong body causes.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The only thing wrong is the way they are treated by the society from an early age. From interactions with parents, with fellow children, to teenagehood, to adulthood, they are often rejected and laughed at, making their existence difficult to bear or making them have to fake their identity. That's why they're unhappy. If the society accepted them and gave them all the support and resources that they needed, there would be no problem.
IJustWantToGoBack · -2 points · Posted at 02:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being trans causes mental illness. It causes gender dysphoria, which is still considered a mental illness. While acceptance of the treatment is making social strides, there isn't much debate about whether trans people experience mental distress. We do. It sucks. Try not to hate us for expressing ourselves the way we want and modifying our bodies the way we want. I don't understand people who get gauges in their ears, but I don't discriminate against them for it. (Sorry to call out all you gauge wearers. I just can't imagine having a hole that large in my ear.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:23:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to discrimate against you, but I have an issue with what you said. You said "being trans causes mental illness" but how can you not say that being trans is mental illness? How can anorexia or body dysmorphia be a mental illness, but thinking you are somehow an entirely different gender isn't? That's where I have issue, that is where I draw the line. It's a mental illness in my eyes, and we are indulging it, rather than treating it. I would never tell someone who is schizophrenic "yes those voices telling you to do bad things are real and you should listen to them" or that the clock talking to him is real. No, you treat that person with medicine. We need to do the same with trans. And I'll never settle for less than that, ever. There will never be anything that will change my mind. And it isn't coming from a place of hate. It's because I truly believe it's the best way to help people.
IJustWantToGoBack · 2 points · Posted at 10:50:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it's cool that you have an opinion and all, but what I'm saying isn't my opinion. It's the definition of dysphoria from the people who study mental health. When you have your degree and have studied the topic, your opinion might be valid and relevant.
It's also not a delusion the way the other mental health issues you described are. All of those mental health issues come with a lack of recognition of reality. Trans people recognize reality the way it is, which is why they want to change it. If we were delusional we would have no urge to make changes because we would already believe ourselves to be the sex we are transitioning to. Some trans people have other mental health issue too, such as body dysmorphia, etc. But being trans itself isn't mental health issue. It's a human variant like being gay. You can be trans and have associated mental health issues at all (such as after transition when the dysphoria is relieved).
We do treat trans people with medicine. Giving trans people hormones and surgery (is varying degrees) is currently the best available treatment. It helps us feel comfortable in our bodies an. They have tried treating trans people in various other ways, but none are as successful.
VolantisMoon · 27 points · Posted at 18:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to be political, but how literally anyone on our planet can look at Donald Trump and all his history and think he is even respectable as a person or politician. A lot of people even believe he was literally chosen by God himself to lead our country and reestablish Christianity.
Subterfudgers · 0 points · Posted at 01:22:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how this comment has so few upvotes.
marsajib · 10 points · Posted at 19:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still support the 45th president
Sepulchure24794 · 3 points · Posted at 00:43:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably because our other options are also pretty dogshit
marazomeno · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because what they love most is making "the other side" angry/sad.
lazy_pinay · -2 points · Posted at 20:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is an answer I’m trying to find myself. Maybe it’s also the lack of brain cells his followers have too 🤷🏻♀️
HolyDic · 4 points · Posted at 18:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not always the brightest person so a lot of things to me doesn’t make sense. But I feel like something I’ll probably never understand is why my father sees gay people so revolting. He says he’s fine with them but if they show up on TV he yells at it and calls it disgusting. I’m the show “I’m Not ok with this” (if you want to watch it with no spoilers please skip this) but what happens is the main character kisses a female friend after having a boy being interested in her. I saw him legitimately stand up and just yell at the TV over it. He’s called it disgusting a multitude of times even though he has a gay cousin that he was on good terms with. Maybe it’s a cultural thing, or the way he was raised, but either way he’s not even religious so I really don’t know why he’s like that.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don't see the art and creativity in chess. Like seriously no one, really no one wanted to play with me from my family except my grandfathers, after I took interest in the game. It's quite sad honestly how much there is in a game made in the past
luxebooty · 5 points · Posted at 19:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are people who still believe Donald Trump is doing a good job as President of the United States.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women calling their partner daddy. It’s creepy. STOP.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Transphobes and Homophobes still exist.
My very religious grandma has managed to accept me, a bisexual girl, and she also managed to accept that her own daughter is a lesbian, so My ReLiGiOn isn't an excuse
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gogsno6 · 2 points · Posted at 01:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one has to accept something they don't like for example transgender people but they should act accordingly as we all need to share this planet.
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gogsno6 · 1 points · Posted at 11:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm saying that no one has to agree with what you believe for example someone doesn't have to agree with homosexuality but they must be civil and not cause any harm etc etc.
SpaceManBalls83 · 3 points · Posted at 20:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One night stands. I mean, I love sex, sex is awesome, but having sex with someone you barely know with no relationship or affection in the first place? Just don’t get it. (Literally and figuratively!)
Alternative_Answer · 3 points · Posted at 22:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s about the opposite of comfort and affection. It’s about the thrill and the discovery and this interesting dynamic created when you know you’ll never see them again. It’s something new and shiny. Plus sex and love are not equated for everyone.
SpaceManBalls83 · 0 points · Posted at 06:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see it as using another human being as your sexual toy and then throwing them away, that’s kinda dickish. Maybe it’s just my values but I can’t be alone in the opinion that it makes no sense/is wrong?
Alternative_Answer · 2 points · Posted at 00:34:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you’re not just using them, they’re using you too. It’s an equal and mutual thing, no one is being a dick to anyone (if it’s done right). It’s not a great romance where someone is having their heart broken horribly at the end, it is people using each other to get what they want through mutual agreement and benefit.
I’m not saying that viewing sex as something meaningful is wrong, but that’s just one viewpoint. Other people see sex as a physical thing, no different then helping a friend move. Is it better with a connection? It definitely can be, but it can also be pretty damn great with a stranger too.
IanRuckus · 5 points · Posted at 21:26:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being pro death penalty and anti-abortion.
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untranslatable_pun · 6 points · Posted at 20:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biologist here. Quick run-down from a purely genetic perspective:
Two important things you may not know about genetics:
1) Chromosomes are humongously large pieces of DNA. They break off and get re-arranged all the time.
2) Genes are not just active or inactive, but have a sliding scale of activity, called "expression level".
So from that alone follows:
Your family may have an X-Gene that a few generations back switched an arm with a Y gene. So your mom may not actually be an "XX" genotype, but an "7/8th X and 1/8th Y"-Genotype. Making her, on a purely genetic basis, something one might consider "1/16th male" (Because there are two X-chromosomes, and one of them has our hypothetical 1/8th male-mutation).
There may also be a case where a single gene jumps to another Chromosome. Imagine that gene being something relevant to sex like SOX2 ("Sex-determining region box 2").
Expression level is a whole other bag of tricks. Your brother may have the exact same Y-gene as you, but twice the gene expression - making him twice as male, I guess. He may also have an X-chromosome with half the gene-expression as yours; In combination that brings us to a 4x "maleness factor difference" (I just made that up) between the two of you.
This is just meant to be some food for thought. It is highly simplified (like, ELI3-level simplified) and not an accurate representation of how genetics work, but these are real, existing, and measurable effects of how genetic expression differs between individuals.
dannyybae · 3 points · Posted at 20:24:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hi, I'm studing biology as well! I also like to take a look at things from a purely scientific perspective. That being said, I understand your explanation and it all makes sense.
However, my argument is that it doesn't make sense to list all the infinite possibilities for gender. It's much easier and makes more sense to simply categorize all these genetic differences into two (or three (intersex)) genders: male and female. So yes... I mean TECHNICALLY not everything here is labelled black and white, but that's just not my argument.
I'm talking about people who haven't studied genetics once in their lifetime, who know nothing about science, just making bold claims that there are thousands of scientifically proven genders... just as distinct as male and female.
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But if you can understand that the expression of physical sexual characteristics is more nuanced than “you’re one or the other,” why doesn’t it make sense to list all the possibilities? As humans we categorize things down to incredible detail, many of which are way more trivial than sex. Think about how many colors we individualize, or specific breeds of dogs, for example.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true. Makes sense to an extent. It's just that it's obviously easier to see the clear differences between a German shepard and a golden retriever, or red from purple. It wouldn't make sense to categorize everyone based on how much their X chromosome is expressed, or Y chromosome. I can't just look at someone and say, hey, you're exactly 26.2% more male than me!
So yes, I understand your POV and the science behind the genetics, but I don't see the point in why we MUST differentiate between all the gender expressions. What's wrong with just using male or female?
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender does not equal physical sex, but the same spectrum applies. Some people don’t feel 100 percent male or female. Or they don’t feel one way all the time. Why shouldn’t they describe what their true experience is?
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't get why they assume what they're feeling is neither male nor female. Who even gets to decide what either gender is supposed to feel like?
It's okay to be different and feel different from others. You can still categorize as one of the two, why make up an "infinite" number? It just messes everything up and there is no clear answer in the end.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly does it mess up?
And I think the person who is experiencing it should be the one to decide what feels like what.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports, for example. A man, who is clearly a man, can identify as being a female, and dominate in female sports because of natural biological advantages. And no one can stop them, or else they're being "homophobic" or a "bigot". I just don't see a reason why people worry about gender too much in the first place.
You're allowed to feel whatever you want... but why make the system so much more complicated than it needs to be?
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports specifically is a sticky one, and I don’t think there is a good answer right now for addressing transgender athletes. I agree that the way it’s being handled now is very unfair.
Do you have any other examples? People think about gender because it has an enormous impact on your social life and how you express yourself. In just about everything outside of sports, anything where your physical strength doesn’t matter, why should people not express themselves fully?
Why do you get to decide how complex this system “needs to be?”
untranslatable_pun · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, that certainly wasn't your argument in your original comment. Whatever "makes sense to list" is purely a matter of opinion. Have fun debating that, but please don't go around claiming that you don't understand how people could possibly hold that view when in fact, you perfectly understand those reasons.
Fact is that probably among the almost 9 billion people on this planet, there are not even two that are exactly as biologically male or female as the other. Whether or not it makes sense to change the categories into which we classically group people is besides the point when discussion whether or not biologically separate genders exist: They definitely do.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 5 points · Posted at 20:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think Ben Shapiro is intelligent, and more knowledgeable on gender than actual biologists.
How people make up strawmen who "believe in thousands of genders" to try to prove some kind of point.
dannyybae · 0 points · Posted at 20:57:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Show one example of someone saying that there are thousands of scientifically proven biological genders. Just one. I'll wait
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait. You haven't seen anyone say that before? I wish I lived where you lived. I don't think I need to scroll through IG reddit or YT to try and prove common sense for someone I don't even know on the internet.
How about YOU do that instead of making me do the work
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your entire argument is based on the idea that people are saying there's a thousand genders. I asked you for an example, and you failed to provide one.
dannyybae · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently you don't know how to use a basic search engine..
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess not! Why don't you show me by searching up an example? Kill two birds with one stone
dannyybae · -1 points · Posted at 22:35:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to have to go through this again. Just take a quick Google search or look for something on YT. It doesn't take much. Come on.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope you realize you're just making yourself look foolish right now.. You still have been unable to give a single example of your claim. The way the burden of proof works, that means you are incorrect.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As bad as it sounds, I wish it was as simple as it used to be. I understand why it isn't now, people are more honest with themselves and society (most of it) is much more accepting of a dude fuckin some other dude.
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ErohaTamaki · 17 points · Posted at 19:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex
Intersex people are individuals born with any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones or genitals that, according to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights, "do not fit the typical definitions for male or female bodies".[1][2] Such variations may involve genital ambiguity and combinations of chromosomal genotype and sexual phenotype other than XY-male and XX-female.[3][4] Intersex people were previously referred to as hermaphrodites or "congenital eunuchs".
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JrPolygon · 17 points · Posted at 19:20:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender is a social construct and sex is a biological fact. Please learn the difference. Also, who said there are "thousands of real scientifically proven genders/sex"? Thousands, really?
dannyybae · -3 points · Posted at 19:33:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Too many people everywhere saying there's thousands of different genders/sex. I don't get how they could name that many.
JrPolygon · 15 points · Posted at 20:08:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never heard a single person (even those in the LGBTQ community) say there are thousands of SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN genders. Gender is not science-based, it is societal-based. So that in itself doesn't make sense.
dannyybae · 0 points · Posted at 20:09:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know right?! It doesn't make sense at all? But that's all I hear from the community! I could never grasp how they could say that they are actually scientifically proven.
JrPolygon · 6 points · Posted at 20:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think anyone is saying that lol. If they are, it doesn't make sense. My point is, just know that gender and sex are not the same thing. There are an indefinite number of genders, though.
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right. It DOESN'T make sense at all. That's why I commented on here in the first place lol
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally know people who claim that, I've seen videos online of people saying that... social media... everywhere. Drives me nuts.
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dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's really good to know. Thanks! It's just that I've heard it a lot around the internet and in person. Can't really tell if you're joking or not. Cheers!
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dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats cool. Nothing wrong with that. I have nothing against that... but people just assume I do and flood me with mean comments and downvotes lol
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dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man. Appreciate it.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 4 points · Posted at 20:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Link a single person actually unironically saying that. You watch too much Ben Shapiro.
dannyybae · 0 points · Posted at 20:56:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate Ben Shapiro.
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dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks. Surely helps me understand.
Zachian-The-Weeb · 7 points · Posted at 20:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lmao are you daft?
why do you even care if there are “thousands of different genders/sex” if it makes someone genuinely happy to identify as one of them who the fuck are you to say whether or not they’re allowed to be?
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So. If a 67 year old man with brown hair and size 6 feet claims to identify as a 23 year old woman with blonde hair and size 4 feet.... but it makes him "genuinely happy", are you just going to accept that? If they can be whatever they want to be?
I'm an 18 year old Korean. Am I allowed to just identify as 12 year old Brazilian? Like what?
Zachian-The-Weeb · 8 points · Posted at 20:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how in the everloving fuck does that correlate whatsoever
please don’t tell me you’re one of those twats who thinks that saying you’re a different race/age is the same as identifying as a different gender.
do you even know how gender dysphoria works or what it even is? because if not i’d be more than happy to inform you about it
dannyybae · 0 points · Posted at 20:35:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, there's a difference between opinions and facts. Opinions can change, facts canNOT. Telling me that there are an infinite number of genders is just breaking facts. You can't just do that lol.
And no, I don't think you'd be "more than happy" to inform me about it. Stop lyin.
Zachian-The-Weeb · 4 points · Posted at 20:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you know what? you’re right, i was lying.
i’m not “more than happy” to tell you about how gender dysphoria works because you obviously have your head too far up your ass to even attempt to listen to what i’m saying, also your argument about facts and opinions is bullshit because there are literal documented scientific proof that there are more than 2 genders.
obviously you think that 3rd grade biology is the only biology that counts and that’s sad. i hope one day you can stop being a bigoted cunt, but it seems that’ll never happen.
also, what facts even are there that there aren’t multiple genders?
(also here’s an article talking about my point https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/voices/stop-using-phony-science-to-justify-transphobia/ )
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Zachian the weeb. Have your parents tried taking you to counselling for anger problems? I hope they've at least tried.
Also if third biology is wrong, then why do they teach it?
Zachian-The-Weeb · 5 points · Posted at 20:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
great job entirely ignoring what i said and then attempting to insult me for being pissed off at the fact you’re saying i don’t exist.
also before you even ask, i’m nonbinary
also, they don’t teach you algebra in 3rd grade either, also most schools don’t want to touch on transgender studies because of bigotry. read what i sent and actually understand how gender works.
dannyybae · -2 points · Posted at 20:48:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Notice how the link you sent is a blog post. Not a real article. Sorry you think that I'm a bigot and you can't handle the fact that there are people out there who have different opinions. Have a nice day!
SocksPls · 0 points · Posted at 23:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry bigot, 2600 scientists say you're wrong https://not-binary.org/
ElGatoTriste · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man there are ways of trying to convey a point without being an asshat. If you go into a discussion or argument without considering that the other side has a reason for believing the things that they do you are setting yourself up to be ignored.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for teaching yourself a lesson. Try to understand me before being an asshole about it okay buddy? You need to at least listen to the other side and try to understand rather than being so stubborn about your own idea.
They said that winning an argument against a smart person is difficult but achievable, but winning an argument against someone dumb is impossible.
There is no way I'm coming out of here with my point across. So save yourself some time and have a nice day.
ElGatoTriste · 5 points · Posted at 20:10:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never took a position. In fact i generally believe what you are saying. You're just an asshole.
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Says the guy who called me an asshat first. This place is full of really interesting people.
ElGatoTriste · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You think me telling you that you sound like an asshat makes me an asshole? I don't see the connection here.
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You aren't even arguing against the argument anymore. Just the person you're talking to. What's the point of this?
ElGatoTriste · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was never arguing for or against the argument to begin with. I simply suggested that if your aim in an argument is to actually bring somebody to your way of thinking, saying things like "And please don't tell me those are different again, I had a laugh attack the last time." does nothing to advance your position in the debate. All it does is turn people who are open minded away from your position....because you're an asshole.
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, that makes you the first person who's called me that. Congrats! You win the contest! Good job!
Is that what you wanted? I mean come on. Grow up. What do you have to gain from calling everyone on the internet an asshole?
ElGatoTriste · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think that I have a history of calling a lot of people on the internet assholes. And in a perfect world, I would gain an internet where people share ideas and debate philosophies in a more genuine way as opposed to mud slinging and making fun of people for having different beliefs than ones self.
dannyybae · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I don't have a history of people calling me any bad names. I get along with 99% of people just fine.
I proposed a simple observation I've made over the years (people think there are thousands of genders), and I proposed a personal opinion. And here you are just shitting on me.
Didn't you just say you want an internet where people aren't making fun of other people for having different beliefs?
ElGatoTriste · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You stated an opinion, when somebody disagreed you laughed at them and dismissed their opinion as irrelevant. To me that is not okay. I'm sure you do get along with 99% of people you interact with and I'm sure your a fine enough person. But in this case, I think that your opinion was overshadowed by your conduct.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's fair. But as you said, if you agree with most of what I'm saying, why did you even comment lol
ElGatoTriste · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because I dont like bullies. Hahah.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wanted to share with Reddit about something I "genuinely do not understand", and I'm being flooded with downvotes and angry people responding to me.
BEFORE I even stated an opinion!!
ron_sheeran · 0 points · Posted at 20:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well humans have 3. Some animals can have more. I think there is one thats got like thousands but not every sex can mate with another.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 20:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah nature is weird, I think the one you are talking about is fungi
greyghibli · -12 points · Posted at 19:30:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex is actually on a spectrum. Being intersex is not a clear-cut category, and comes in many different forms.
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 19:32:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
true but I am simplifying it for them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there a chart? This stuff confuses me.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 20:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
2 sexes
No_Name_Ideas · -8 points · Posted at 20:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's males. And there's females. Anything else is a cope.
A_Big_Cheese · 2 points · Posted at 22:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Biological gender” isn’t a thing. Biological sex is, which is different from gender.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had this conversation 20 times already with triggered Redditors who can't grasp the idea that there are people out there with different opinions than their own. So sure. I'll just say sure.
A_Big_Cheese · 2 points · Posted at 22:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand that there are people with different opinions than me, and I’m fine with it. But the difference between sex and gender isn’t my opinion, it’s a fact.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A fact for those on the left, an opinion for those on the right. I think we should respect both ends of the spectrum, rather than pushing for a one-way conversation.
A_Big_Cheese · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not how facts work. Facts don’t turn into opinions depending on what politics you believe in. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For the left, what you said is a "fact".
For the right, what you said is an opinion.
This is something that is neither.
A_Big_Cheese · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s funny, because earlier you said something about, “triggered Redditors who can't grasp the idea that there are people out there with different opinions than their own” but you can’t even seem to accept a scientific fact.
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're lonely aren't you? Why are you pushing so hard? Do you have no one else to talk to? I know I can't change your stubborn mind's opinion, so I'll just stop here. Go spend time with your family or something.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science isn't based on opinion... Why do righties always think science is up to debate?
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's the other way around... people on the left just LOVE fighting for emotions and betray modern science all together. But yes. I completely agree with you that science isn't based on opinion.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So do you agree then that science says gender is not the same as sex?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_and_gender_distinction
dannyybae · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pulls up wikipedia lmao
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know how Wikipedia works? It's a compilation of academic articles, all of which are referenced Below. Every single claim is cited. Just because righties hate facts doesn't mean Wikipedia is unreliable for broad information.
Like, literally just go to "references" and you have over 100 academic sources saying the same thing.
equinecm · 6 points · Posted at 19:49:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As I said on another post, who cares? Ok, there’s 2 genders, if that’s what you believe that’s fine. But if a man wants to dress up like a woman, why do you care at all? Let people do what they want as long as it doesn’t harm other people.
dannyybae · 4 points · Posted at 20:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said I cared if a man wants to dress up like a woman. Why did you just make that assumption? If that's what he wants to do, who am I to stop him? But he's crossing a line if he says he's not a man.
A man dressed up as a woman. Nothing wrong with that.
A man dressed up as a woman claiming that he IS a woman. There's something wrong with that.
equinecm · 2 points · Posted at 00:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well that’s exactly what I meant. Sorry I didn’t phrase it exactly right. Anyways what’s the problem with that? Why is it “crossing a line”. Once again, if you’re not hurting anybody, you can do whatever you want and call yourself whatever you want.
Exnaut · 0 points · Posted at 21:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, that man would obviously have gender dysphoria and if it's severe enough, the only way to deal with that is to transition. So
PurpleChimeara · 15 points · Posted at 15:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate, I really don't get it. This includes hating on race or sexuality or anything like that. It's just mind boggling to me
I can understand disliking someone who wronged you in some way, but to really hate someone/wish them harm, that just doesn't compute for me.
In my mind, hate is a poison. Only it doesn't poison the one being hated, it poisones the one doing the hating. Why would anyone poison themselves?
tacojohn48 · 7 points · Posted at 17:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lets say you are on an island with 4 other people and there's enough food for 4 people. You need to find something in common with 3 of the people so that you establish your spot in the 4 that get food and in doing this you create "the other." He isn't like us. He doesn't deserve our food. Due to this characteristic are we sure he even qualifies as human.
Jagob5 · 4 points · Posted at 19:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to sort by controversial to find this? I think everyone should agree.
PurpleChimeara · 1 points · Posted at 13:08:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don't know, but I'm happy I'm not the only one who feels this way.
ErohaTamaki · 4 points · Posted at 16:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It does poison the person they are hating, an extreme example is how its the victims of bullies who commit suicide not the bullies
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see what you mean, but bullying is usually not about hatred of the person one bullies. (At the very least, hate is only one aspect of it.)
PurpleChimeara · 3 points · Posted at 16:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a fair point, I've never experienced that, first or second hand, but I should've thought of it.
ErohaTamaki · 4 points · Posted at 16:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I experience it a lot for being trans, I don't understand why people are so hateful when all I want to do is live my life
PurpleChimeara · 4 points · Posted at 16:47:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry you had/have to go trough that and I don't understand it either. I hope you're in a good place now, you have my support if that helps any
ErohaTamaki · 5 points · Posted at 16:48:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks :)
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 12:42:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have ever been abused severely and repeatedly?
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree, hate is completely useless.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you hate murderers? Would you hate a murderer if they killed your family?
ImUnorthodox · 6 points · Posted at 19:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How A kilogram of feathers is the same as a kilogram of steel. Steel is heavier than feathers.
R0MP3E · 2 points · Posted at 22:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hah. I knoo but their both a kilogram
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is mass vs density
Regardless of the substance 1kg=1kg. This is mass.
The density of steel is much greater than the density of feathers. Therefore you need a lot less volume of steel to reach the same mass of feathers.
GamingGems · 6 points · Posted at 16:14:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy brand new SUVs or trucks.
If you need a car to haul around people or things there are much better and cheaper options. If you need a truck for work then just get a used one you don’t have to worry about getting beat up.
I get it that some people use these as a status symbol but even that makes no sense to me. I have co workers who have them and these people don’t seem to make any other high class choices. They shop at dollar stores and tell each other where to find low gas prices all the time. Why not get a cheaper, more efficient car and you can take nice vacations instead?
Their monthly payments are insanely high. I’m the kind of guy who buys a used car outright, I’ve never had a monthly car payment. I don’t understand why they can’t put two and two together and see that this rapidly depreciating, inefficient, underutilized vehicle is dragging them down. They would have so much extra money and be happier without it. They may as well buy an elephant for their front yard, it would be just as expensive and useless but at least that would impress me.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:00:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it comes down to financial illiteracy. Most people, in general, do not know how to manage their money after receiving it or building and sticking to a basic budget. They do not want to feel restricted in accessing their own money or have the willpower or motivation to plan their own financial management. It is a widespread problem as most Americans live paycheck to paycheck with less than half would have difficulties coming up to pay for a $400 emergency bill. That is why the car industry emphasize less on the price of the vehicle and instead focused on the monthly payment instead. I suggest listening to Dave Ramsey and the ridiculous callers he would receive seeking financial help. He has excellent tips on getting people to get their savings in order, but he has terrible investment advice.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Misunderstanding of finance combined with trying to fit in and feel better about yourself in any way you can.
ortiz0714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amen.
rAgentDuck64Quack · 6 points · Posted at 18:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few things:
-People who treat sex like it's an actual currency and are starved for it -Treating someone who's trying to stop an argument as someone who disgaree's with you -People who hate LGBT+ people for reasons that aren't religious (I don't agree with the religious reasoning either, but they can at least claim the whole being brainwashed thing) -Why swearing is considered to be such a bad thing. Especially when there sre no children around. -Why Hitler is considered to be the evilest person who ever lived. I'm sure there are way worse people who we've never even heard of.
-People who act as though certain forms of entertainment are either the best or worst things on the planet and defend that statement with their lives. Eg: Kpop is the absolute worst thing on the planet and deserves to burn in eternal hell forever. Or: If you don't like Kpop you're racist. Stan Loona or die skskskskskfjjqiowofofjdnaoasos
-People who treat vegimite like it's nutella. You ever so lightly spread it over the top. Get a small little line of vegimite on the end of your knife that's as long as let's say the width of your thumb and lightly spread it across some very buttered-up golden toast to neutralise the yeastiness.
gallopers · 18 points · Posted at 17:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why "ordinary" people defend a electoral college/first-past-the-post political system.
For example, as the US political system is constructed today, you can in theory win with only 22% of the popular vote. How can anyone defend this? Representation can be given in other ways, much better ways.
If your country claims to be a democratic one, you should have popular votes.
GENERAL_A_L33 · 5 points · Posted at 22:30:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because if we based it just on popular vote than the people in major cities would be making the decisions for everybody around the country.
tarboo00 · -6 points · Posted at 00:58:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain to me why, constitutionally, it’s somehow right that my vote is not as worthy as a vote from the someone in the Midwest simply because densely-populated regions are more likely to vote progressively than sparsely-populated regions and for some reason we have to give both political ideologies a fair shot whether they are the majority or not? Tell me why I am less of a citizen than someone in other parts of the country and I get less of a voice in our electoral process?
StevenMcStevensen · 3 points · Posted at 04:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not about being ‘less of a citizen’, it’s the idea that simply the popular vote alone is not the only important factor in a huge country. Otherwise the people in a handful of popular areas make ALL the decisions for everybody - but they have no idea how the rest of the country actually lives, or what people in a completely different situation need. And the people in those places would have effectively NO say in anything.
No system is ever going to be perfect and make everybody happy, but I think it’s a decent compromise to make sure every part of the nation has a say.
ErohaTamaki · 17 points · Posted at 17:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who benefit from the electoral system don't want to remove it
gallopers · 3 points · Posted at 17:38:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They might benefit from it now, but that doesn't mean they always will. Does it have to be unfavorbale for them in one election to change their mind? Don't they care about the other voters?
I never want a party that I'm voting for winning just because the system helped them win, that's not fair. In a democracy every vote should be equally valued.
ErohaTamaki · 14 points · Posted at 17:40:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True but they don't call it a democracy, they call it a republic
Mr5yy · 6 points · Posted at 20:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It couldn't be because the US is a republic, not a democracy? Nah, that couldn't be it.
golden_fli · 1 points · Posted at 10:09:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US is a REPRESENTATIVE REPUBLIC. It is a FORM of democracy, but it isn't a DIRECT Democracy. We ELECT people to make the decisions. In fact the electoral college was to elect the delegates who would vote for the State. They weren't even bound by the vote of the State. Legally they still don't have to, that's why some States want to make a compact where they will vote with teh popular vote no matter how the State voted.
Yitzach · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quite succinctly: Yes, and no.
You've effectively touched on the entire mess we're in, as a country, in those two questions.
People have no real empathy, whatsoever, and are willing to torpedo every other person in the world if it means them and theirs will be better off.
What we do about it is anybody's guess at this point.
exoalo · -4 points · Posted at 21:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When Texas goes blue, it will be changed
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it's a complicated system so it won't be changed that easily
exoalo · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The voting compact would hit 270 with Texas joining. It is that simple
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I agree that it is time to move to the national popular vote it is easy to understand the existence and persistence of the electoral college if you look at the history of the US. I mean it’s right in our name, we are a federation of united “states”, meaning the power structure, although always firmly situated at the top in a federation (as opposed to a confederation), is still tiered. When forming the government as we see it today, in order to convince all the states to join, there had to be a compromise that ensured the smaller states would have their fare share of efficacy, which eventually lead to, in addition to our bicameral legislature, an election system that gave greater weight to smaller states. Without it, they worried, only the largest states would decide the election. Since then there has been a constant struggle of states rights versus federal rights, and the concept of a national popular vote was made a harder sell for the exact reason it is now sensible, the urbanization of America. Now, under a NPV, indeed population centers would be the deciding factor in nationwide elections, however, with the disparity between the urban and rural populations, it is something smaller states would never ratify.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not an American, so take this for what it's worth. I didn't really get the EC either until I watched this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VIhAN5ULXk
Noble____Actual · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard the argent that the electoral college keeps major cities like LA or NYC from controlling the nations vote. But I dont know a whole lot about politics so...
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One of the arguments for the electoral college is that it is necessary for the stability of the nation to prevent states with smaller populations from being marginalized and seceding.
JimmyHalo · 33 points · Posted at 17:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women marry men in order to rape them financially 3 years later. No love, just cold calculated greed.
Fucked my life up that's for sure.
Lost my life savings of $500,000 in less than 5 minutes in a court room.
Marriage sucks.
DoTheEvolution · 14 points · Posted at 19:14:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Must have been good 3 years if you accumulated in those so much that she got $500k out of it.
Otherwise chunk of it is premarital asset and unless you were represented by joe the janitor, it should have been easy to keep it when marriage lasted 3 years.
JimmyHalo · -7 points · Posted at 19:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was 50, she was 36 so all my working life savings.
Prenuptial contracts are not recognised in my country.
cantfindusernameomg · 13 points · Posted at 21:00:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You split assets gained during the marriage typically.
Either you made on the order of 1 million in 3 years or you're lying about the $500k or your lawyer didn't make it out of 3rd grade.
DoTheEvolution · 8 points · Posted at 19:28:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing to do with prenuptial.
Unless you were living together for quite a more years before marriage your story is very unlikely... or you are forgetting kids that will make use of those money too. Or again the joe the janitor.
https://www.familylawpartners.co.uk/blog/length-marriage-divorce/
This being reddit, and you obviously being bitter misogynistic piece of shit... keep on bitching...
JimmyHalo · -5 points · Posted at 19:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ha ha. Shame there isn't the female equivalent to a misogynistic piece of shit.
Enjoy.
CapnSpazz · 12 points · Posted at 21:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Ha ha of course I'm a cunt, but it's OK because some other people are cunts!"
untranslatable_pun · 5 points · Posted at 20:03:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Androgynistic piece of shit" is the phrase you're looking for. Not that this helps your case here.
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 22:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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untranslatable_pun · -1 points · Posted at 23:02:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whelp, look at me trying to look smart and failing miserably. Oh well. Point still stands.
Zisx · 4 points · Posted at 21:35:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or if they could (and don't have a strong conscious), why wouldn't they?
Successful long term relationships can be hard work (& am a dude for reference)
planttrappedasawoman · 3 points · Posted at 04:35:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do men dump their aging wives for a 25 year old secretary?
Girthderth · 7 points · Posted at 18:41:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easy money.
BadgerAF · 9 points · Posted at 19:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like you're the dumbass there
GENERAL_A_L33 · 2 points · Posted at 22:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
STFU with your victim shaming. What's next, you gonna blame a rape victim for the clothes she was wearing?!
BadgerAF · 3 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calm down. The dude said nothing about his situation, all he did was bitch about it. Clearly he did something wrong if a court ruled the way it did.
reddit18274 · 5 points · Posted at 01:36:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yea dude because court never rules gender biased or maybe even wrong. totally
nasty_nater · 9 points · Posted at 23:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry but if I lost $500,000 due to some bullshit I'd be pretty fucking salty.
BadgerAF · 2 points · Posted at 00:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was the bullshit?
wordsworths_bitch · -1 points · Posted at 08:31:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah..fuckin dumbass fell in love. What a complete idiot to do something everyone wants to do!!
Geminii27 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they effectively got paid a tax-free salary of $167,000 a year, and all it cost them was having to pretend they liked one person.
Lotta people would go for that.
Sadpanda77 · 79 points · Posted at 16:17:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who continue to support Trump. How much evidence do you need? Could he kill your family member in front of you and still find a reason to justify it?
[deleted] · 40 points · Posted at 17:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, i get the appeal when the Dems are putting out people like Hillary and Biden
leaderofwhatnation · 11 points · Posted at 19:08:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously. Like, holy shit.
Aragorns-Wifey · 18 points · Posted at 18:06:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m very happy with his accomplishments. His political philosophy largely agrees with mine.
I find most criticisms against him to be baseless. Like calling him racist because he wants illegal immigration stopped. That is not a racist position whether you agree with it or not. Controlling borders is historically normal and even currently done by all countries. And he has no personal history of racist speech or actions.
SpaceGerbil · 11 points · Posted at 21:00:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental Gymnastics Champion 2020.
schudermcgavin · 6 points · Posted at 21:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose when he baselessly accused the Central Park 5 and they were exonerated and he still thought they did it was just him being a silly fun loving guy, huh? You people will justify anything
untranslatable_pun · 19 points · Posted at 19:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Which political philosophy is that, exactly? This is an honest question. I have literally no idea what Trump stands for except "Global Warming is a Hoax" and "no immigrants". On every other issue I've even remotely followed, he's made some outrageous claim one day and then never followed up on it.
He seems to be liberal, except he also seems to want a police state. He seems to be pro free markets, except he also wants stimulus packets and tax-gifts of a ridiculous size. I can not find a red line at all in his views except that it's very important for him to stress how great and competent he is, even when talking about things he obviously has very little idea of, like anything related to science.
Aragorns-Wifey · -7 points · Posted at 21:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a political conservative. Trump is a bit pragmatic for my taste but holds strongly to the constitution which I love.
He has good financial sense and doesn’t suffer fools gladly. He is very patriotic and puts America first unapologetically.
equinecm · 12 points · Posted at 19:39:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok but what about the fact that he’s plain old stupid? Like that thing where he sharpied on the hurricane map, or like any of these quotes
Aragorns-Wifey · 3 points · Posted at 21:38:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could quote stupid quotes by any public figure. I don’t think he is stupid. Obama for example had well documented slips of the tongue. I don’t think that meant he was stupid.
equinecm · 3 points · Posted at 00:50:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drawing sharpie on a map because you don’t want to admit that you’re wrong isn’t exactly a “slip of the tongue” (or even “slip of the fingers”)
Aragorns-Wifey · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every president has made the occasional bizarre error. Obama did it. Clinton did it. Etc. It’s not the usual for any of them and I don’t think any of them are mentally incompetent.
I do think Biden is but that’s because his gaffes are routine. He is the one I think is mentally compromised, probably dementia.
ohwhofuckincares · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What accomplishments are you proud of? Serious question, not trying to be a dick.
Aragorns-Wifey · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am pleased with his foreign relations in general. He stands up for America and handles tyrants well. He has gotten Americans and others released from torturing regimes.
I love his defense of religious liberty.
I think his recognition of Jerusalem was very brave and wise.
I think he defines America’s enemies well and fight them.
I think he is scrupulously honest and has integrity.
I love how he fights back against personal attacks instead of just accepting them.
His trade deals have been fantastic.
His decrease in unnecessary and job killing regulations has been so welcome and helped so many.
I appreciate his tax reform.
His judicial appointments have been stellar.
I could go on. I think he’s been great. Way better than I dared hope.
ohwhofuckincares · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were good until you said honesty and integrity. Those are two things that i never thought i would hear someone use to describe Trump.
I do agree with the defense of the country and mostly how he has handled foreign threats. I just wish he would stop the mindless name calling when he gets defensive.
Trade deals could be argued. Specifically his tariffs that have been proven to ha e been passed to the American people in the form of price hikes.
His appointments have been garbage. He continues to hire the “best people” for the job only to fire them later on.
silverrain64 · 9 points · Posted at 19:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Name three.
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Just a few, like you asked. I'm sure you could find a whole list somewhere.
Aragorns-Wifey · 29 points · Posted at 21:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
His judge appointments.
Foreign trade deals and handling of hostage situations.
Tax code revamp
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jiffynipples · 7 points · Posted at 23:55:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck do people keep saying this? Of course it benefited the rich but it also benefited the lower class, and almost anyone who pays taxes.
Your argument is weak.
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jiffynipples · 9 points · Posted at 00:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remind me again how much the top 20% pays in taxes vs the bottom 80%.
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jiffynipples · 5 points · Posted at 00:18:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't matter how rich some small percentage of people are. It doesn't give you the right to take their money.
AyyyMycroft · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The roads and ports that corporations use to transport supplies and products are not cheap. The workforce corporations employ are educated in schools that are not cheap. Stable laws require a population that is not in revolt which requires loyalty of the masses which is not cheap. International supply chains require international law which requires a strong military which is not cheap.
The wealthy profit off the wealth of the nation and the expenditures of the government. No corporation is an island. We live in a society. Taxes are the price of that society. Not paying taxes makes the wealthy free riders parasitizing the wealth of society until they are kicked out/move on to another rotting corpse of a nation to feast on.
Q.E.D. The people have the right to tax the wealthy.
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jiffynipples · 4 points · Posted at 00:50:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you do the math on this and post it here please?
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jiffynipples · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The super rich already donate a lot of their money. And are taxed a fuckton.
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jiffynipples · 3 points · Posted at 01:23:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not how tax brackets work. People with that income are federally taxed at less than 12%.
Here's the data on that
What's your source on the effective tax rate of the top 1% being 18%?
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jiffynipples · 2 points · Posted at 01:35:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha yeah, I had to make a comment to myself to figure out what I fucked up.
OK, so 23% isn't lower than much of the working class. We need to define how much the "working class" makes in the first place.
Let's go with $40,126. Use the calculator here to see what their federal tax rate would be https://smartasset.com/taxes/income-taxes. Come back and tell me what percentage it is.
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jiffynipples · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No dude, here's the actual data.
https://taxfoundation.org/summary-of-the-latest-federal-income-tax-data-2020-update/
There's a very legible table that states the bottom 50% have an average tax rate of 4%.
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jiffynipples · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, check out "Table 1. Summary of Federal Income Tax Data, 2017".
However what you pointed out is also important - the top 50% of America is basically paying for the benefits of the bottom 50%.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The majority of them have to do with unemployment. Like 6.7 million jobs were created as of January 2020, more Americans are employed than ever before, which doesn't take into account that there's more Americans, I don't know the death and birth rates for America under this president compared to other presidencies, something mandatory about Obamacare was removed, which I know definitely helped me and my family. I know that coronavirus definitely has thrown a wrench into all of this, but I don't think anybody accounted for this to happen, if they did, they need to be tried for crimes against humanity. Whether you think he's handled the pandemic well, don't tell me. I don't care. While he has had accomplishments, he has also had his failures, as we all have.
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 21:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, if you read through this whole thing, I said that the coronavirus has thrown a wrench into everything.
excellent_tobacco · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They'd rather just respond to the first sentence and pretend the rest wasn't written at all.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently.
exoalo · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Name 1
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 21:01:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racial_views_of_Donald_Trump#Housing_discrimination_cases
Lol k
Aragorns-Wifey · 4 points · Posted at 21:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/trump-received-ellis-island-award-in-1986/
butareyoumoist · -21 points · Posted at 19:46:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We call him racist because he was sued for being racist.
thecoolan · 7 points · Posted at 21:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Housing discrimination against black people decades ago?
oneUnit · 4 points · Posted at 02:56:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He wasn't even found guilty of it. And only was accused of it for a single property out of many he owns.
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:24:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can sue you right now for being racist. Doesn't make you racist, sunny.
butareyoumoist · 1 points · Posted at 12:25:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It does if I was found guilty and/or fined for it multiple times over a single decade.
You would have to be pretty stupid to think I wasn't.
MortifiedPuppy · -8 points · Posted at 19:41:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Controlling borders is normal, yes. However this scale of the deportation of undocumented people, the expansion and support of a special police force whose sole purpose is to hunt and detain undocumented people, and the fact that these deportations disproportionately affect POC all suggest that Trump's border policy isn't about security.
The staggering majority of those detainees posed no threat to America; most were not "bringing drugs, bringing crime, [or] rapists". In fact, undocumented people are largely seeking the same opportunities for a better life for themselves and family that the rest of us are.
The biggest counterargument I hear is "They're not allowed to be here, so we should kick them out." If legal migration were viable, then undocumented status wouldn't be an issue. However, between the President's crackdown on legal immigration and the increased deportation raids, there isn't a viable way for these people to legally integrate into American society, and the President has made it his mission to kick these people out rather than helping these Americans in all but name become citizens.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 20:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Soooo....'if it wasn't against the law, then they wouldn't be breaking the law'? Doesn't that apply to EVERY law?
MortifiedPuppy · -10 points · Posted at 21:04:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Undocumented status wouldn't be an issue for these people under a viable immigration system because the system would allow these innocent people to enter the country legally. These people would live their lives the same way they do now, the only difference being that they won't be arbitrarily pursued by ICE.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 23:06:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmmm, if there were only a way for people to move to the States legally. Man, they could probably even let in at least like a million a year! Sure wish someone would invent that system...
Nationalist_Patriot · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not just about stopping crime and drugs, it's about not losing our vote.
Let me explain: when you look at racial voting demographics, whites are generally split down the middle between democrats and republicans; maybe they skew right a bit more. This does not hold true of almost any minority group in America. This, despite both political parties bending over backwards to try to appeal to their interests. When I went to a Trump rally everyone sitting behind him was holding a "Latinos for Trump" sign. Despite this, minorities vote for Democrats at rates similar to that of dictators. Even if they claim to hold conservative opinions.
Democrats are completely aware of this. The main reason they want more immigration is specifically because it will allow them to win more elections. Who needs to campaign when minorities will automatically vote for you?
Therefore, if we don't deport every single person here illegally and actually block off immigration for a long while, republicans will never be elected again and white votes will literally not count, because we don't vote along racial lines like minorities do.
Mocharulzdamap · -31 points · Posted at 18:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is racist to consider every illegal immigrant a rapist and every Muslim a terrorist
raj96 · 22 points · Posted at 19:02:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is why people don’t take anti trump arguments seriously
Person_756335846 · 42 points · Posted at 18:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice strawman
At least quote him correctly.
Mocharulzdamap · -40 points · Posted at 18:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He has quite literally said those things
Person_756335846 · 25 points · Posted at 18:31:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's see a quote.
Pretty sure that you are strawmanning.
Mocharulzdamap · -33 points · Posted at 18:34:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.usatoday.com/amp/617252002
Pretty sure that you are ignorant
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:36:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, this is literally why people know most of the shit the MSM says is bullcrap. This has been debunked since forever and people like you still believe it. And it's the same for every single thing they say about him.
HailBlackPhillip · 38 points · Posted at 18:40:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"California's law provides safe harbor to some of the most vicious and violent offenders on Earth, like MS-13 gang members putting innocent men, women, and children at the mercy of these sadistic criminals,"
Pretty sure he was referencing the awful gangs that report to awful cartels.
Mocharulzdamap · 0 points · Posted at 18:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He also stated that mexico is sending all their rapist, drug dealers, and murderers when most immigrants are none of those. Generalizing a group of people because some people are like that is racist
HailBlackPhillip · 25 points · Posted at 18:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He said, "Some of which I assume are good people," in the same paragraph. He's an idiot and there's way more he can be called out for. But I don't think this is one.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:25:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love seeing people with a brain here on reddit
untranslatable_pun · -5 points · Posted at 19:55:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I'm no racist but..." is literally a meme because it's something so obviously racist but still so very common. Same with the "some of my best freinds are mexican/chinese/whathaveyou"-defense. Those are not conflicting statements or a sign of a nuanced view, they are smoke-screens meant to add a layer of deniability to statements that very obviously display racist thinking.
Person_756335846 · 7 points · Posted at 20:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see, everything that goes against your point is a smokescreen, but everything that fits into your worldview is obviously the truth...
You are still straw manning, saying ""Some of which I assume are good people," is in no way similar to saying "I'm" no racist, or the "friend" defense.
You're arguing against an imaginary set of statements that doesn't actually exist.
fskoti · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hail Black Phillip! Man I wish Patrice was around to talk about current events.
RegisterInSecondsMeh · -6 points · Posted at 21:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He has accomplished nothing.
lnmaurer · 9 points · Posted at 18:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I voted for Trump and will probably vote for him again. I'll give you my reasoning in a nutshell.
Several of his stances align with my own. Abortion, for instance. Also, he seemed/seems to be the better of the candidates. He's an ass, but he's not a well trained and polished politician. Should he stop tweeting? Absolutely.
Hillary Clinton is a joke. I was told that I was a bad woman because I didn't vote for her. They said it was time for a woman president. No, it's time for a competent president. She was the shadiest candidate. People die around her when they oppose her, the emails, etc. She had stances that I could not agree with. She literally said that she supported abortion up to birth. That's what I would consider murder.
Biden is a joke. He's a creep. Whether or not he's a pedophile or predator is not for me to say, but he clearly doesn't understand/respect personal boundaries of women and children. He stutters and can't seem to put together a comprehensible sentence. He keeps trying to use his time as VP under Obama as a leg up. I've heard him repeatedly refer to Obama Care as the Obama-Biden Healthcare Reform. Obama has yet to publicly endorse him. That says something to me. I did not vote for Obama, but I respect him and the time he spent in office. Why isn't he endorsing his former right hand man?
Cephelopodia · 18 points · Posted at 18:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your biggest statements here seem to be that you dislike the alternative, less emphasis on how you support Trump.
Am I accurate? If so, no shame, Americans have been picking the "least bad" candidate since I've been alive.
Seems very common, also, that Trump supporters very quickly attack Clinton or Biden. Honest question, might it be that you just dislike the alternatives more than you like Trump?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:22:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's true for me, but to an extent.
I support many Republican stances on issues (Gun rights, taxes, immigration, smaller government, etc). But when it comes to Democrats, most of their ideas are just too insane and not possible for me. The only things I can really agree with them on are LGBT rights, taking money out of politics, and climate change.
I've been saying this for a while, but if Democrats supported the 2nd amendment and stronger border security (and knock off a bunch of other stupid comments), they'd win every election.
Cephelopodia · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed on the democratic 2A thing! They'd sweep it all.
lnmaurer · 5 points · Posted at 19:32:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shiniest of two turds is one aspect. However, I tend to have conservative values. Trump's platform aligns more closely with my beliefs than that of most Democrats. I agree with what he's been doing with the economy. I have been saying for a very long time that we need to put the US first. Our people need our help. We need to get back to producing here, buying American, etc. I appreciate many of his policies. Obama Care was a joke. My premiums skyrocketed for the same coverage because my family was helping cover others.. I welcomed its reversal. Those are just a couple of examples.
I would have voted Sanders had Hillary not, somehow, stolen that nomination. Had Sanders been the nominee for the Dems this year, however, I would have stuck with Trump.
I feel that the Democrat platform has turned into simply being Anti-Trump. If Trump says or does anything, then it must be wrong. The US has one of the lower infection rates of COVID 19 per capita. People blamed Trump for closing borders, testing, not testing, getting supplies out, not getting enough supplies out, not having a treatment quickly enough, etc. He sent out a tweet concerning a promising treatment and some dumb asses drank fish tank cleaner and were hospitalized because "Trump told them to." Trump didn't tell anyone to drink something they picked up at Petco. Democrats are quick to jump on things like that though. "Trump should have known better." No, adults should know better than to consume something that is clearly marked as not for human consumption.
Cephelopodia · 3 points · Posted at 21:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for an honest and sincere answer!
lnmaurer · 3 points · Posted at 21:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course. I'm never one to bash other views. I just present my own. Thanks for not trying to tear down my beliefs and feelings.
xaanthar · 27 points · Posted at 19:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And "Grab 'em by the pussy" Trump isn't a creep that fits that exact scenario as well?
And the word salad that Trump spews is better? He constantly mispronounces words and sounds like he's reading his speeches for the first time while he's giving them. You can tell when he reads something, then stops and riffs on it "Oh, I guess that's a thing we're doing now" because he had no idea what he was about to say.
I can see Obama's desire to stay out of the primary. Let the candidates separate themselves and not try to force public opinion before the votes.
That being said, Biden's "Vote for me because Obama" tactic is a little annoying.
Dargon34 · 11 points · Posted at 19:26:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biden is more than a little annoying, and it really shows his voters intelligence that they support him because he is riding Obama's coattails. How anyone can support Biden is beyond me, but it does seem to be because they despise Trump and make excuses for him. But, the thing is that is exactly what Trump supporters do. Excuse all of his behavior and are okay with him being a lackluster person, much less president. I supported Trump over Hillary, but I can no longer support him. He is just as corrupt as everything he said he was going to fight against, and equally as evil. The biggest turning point for me is I realized that if Trump was my boss at work, I would not want to work for him. If you disagree with him, he fires you. He throws everyone under the boat, he is either the Savior or the victim, never the solution, and the lies and demeanor that he spews are unfathomable. He is a boss, he is not a leader. And he's done about as good running this country as a crappy mid-level manager.
cicatrix1 · 0 points · Posted at 00:21:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shill/bot. Report and block.
spinner198 · 4 points · Posted at 21:34:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man references acts of consensual sexual relations between two people: Burn him at the stake!
Man repeatedly gropes and sniffs children on live television: Meh.
RevTom · 4 points · Posted at 21:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is this serious? 20 some women accused Trump of sexual assault. How do you consider that consensual? Don't pick and choose facts to follow.
Sepulchure24794 · 10 points · Posted at 00:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yes because Allegations = Facts, That's not how that works m8
RevTom · 1 points · Posted at 14:01:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact is 20+ women accused him of sexual assault, not that he did it. The post I replied to tried to play that off as consensual. The accusations prove it was not.
spinner198 · 6 points · Posted at 21:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t pick and choose facts. But allegations aren’t facts. We saw the same thing with Kavanaugh. A bunch of accusations, but later after he won the seat multiple accusers came out and said their accusation wasn’t legitimate. The allegations were obviously political attacks trying to prevent him from being elected.
You shouldn’t judge people based on allegations that are never confirmed or taken to court because they are fake. Whether it be Kavanaugh, Trump or Biden.
RevTom · 1 points · Posted at 14:02:31 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact is 20+ women accused him of sexual assault, not that he did it. You tried to play that off as consensual. The accusations prove it was not.
zappini · 2 points · Posted at 05:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump's brags about misdeeds which outweigh even the worst of HRC's alleged misdeeds.
As for Biden... Well. Any person 60+ should be disqualified. But whatcha gonna do?
cicatrix1 · 3 points · Posted at 00:21:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't have any American values and you support a fucking blatant criminal who doesn't even give a single fuck about America. It's the most obvious thing I'm the world and you either need education or mental help because you're so fucking gullible.
lnmaurer · 6 points · Posted at 00:24:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Says the person who would rather swear at a stranger on the internet than have a civilized discussion simply because their views are different. But, yeah, my values are skewed.
RegisterInSecondsMeh · 0 points · Posted at 21:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You read a lot of conservative media.
lnmaurer · 4 points · Posted at 21:18:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I look at both MSNBC and Fox News because I like to see all sides of things and figure out where the truth most likely lies.
RegisterInSecondsMeh · 9 points · Posted at 21:21:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither of those sources are helping you.
lnmaurer · 4 points · Posted at 21:25:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I look at the world from as many points of view as possible, and make up my own mind. I often don't have enough time to look into things as thoroughly as I'd like because, as with many people these days, I'm busy. I've got 4 kids ages 7, 5, 3, and 1. Plus I'm due with our last kiddo on Halloween. With schools shut down here, I'm juggling it all while homeschooling two very different learners, plus trying to keep up pre-k learning with my 3 year old. Between family life and trying to keep up with the house, yard, and taking care of myself, I don't always have the time to search for other media outlets that give differing perspectives. I'd be more than happy to try something new if you have any suggestions 😊
RegisterInSecondsMeh · 4 points · Posted at 21:56:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For daily news I always recommend PBS Newshour. It's the least biased news report IMO. I think people should completely avoid all cable news/infotainment networks. For online news I think apnews.com is the least biased, but I'm always on the lookout for new sources. In depth understanding of any issue takes time. Pick a topic that's always interested you and read a book or two on the issue authored by a reputable source. Over time you'll build a solid foundation for your beliefs.
I also have a busy life with two full time adults and a 14, 10, and 1 year old to raise, so I understand the difficulty in keeping properly informed. I find that once you are able to identify what your core values are and train yourself to filter all the absolute deluge of noise firehosed at you on a daily basis it gets easier to understand the world around you. Good luck and I wish you well.
lnmaurer · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will see if I can access PBS Newshour online because we don't get PBS with our streaming service. Who needs PBS when you have 800 other stupid channels, I suppose? Thanks for the recommendations!
TheRadiantSoap · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to be mean, but those are two news sources known for deceiving their audience for profit
lnmaurer · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's why I try to look at both and find the truth in the middle somewhere. I don't have a lot of time to read articles online, so I make due with what I have and what I have time for. I often find myself laughing at both ends of the political spectrum because their attempts to win people over with exaggerated stories is so obvious. What can you do?
officeromnicide · 3 points · Posted at 18:08:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People continue to support him for the same reason that people have an irrational hatred for him, it's people putting personality and emotion before political theory and ideology and then voting based on who they like better rather than who actually represents their ideology
cultured_banana_slug · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They get their info from Fox and OANN.
There's no point to even talking to them at this point. They'll demand you write a dissertation to prove them wrong and then just say "nuh uh."
Just block and walk.
Aragorns-Wifey · 4 points · Posted at 02:13:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I watch neither Fox not OAN nor have I ever.
whipmydick · 1 points · Posted at 12:37:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good mentality brah. "If they disagree with you, block them". Bravo.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I understand why people voted for him but not why they support him untill now. Xenophobes like him besides his wife is non-american and he employed illegal mexicans. High religious Christians like him besides he doesnt know shit about the bible and is divorced multiple times. He lied multiple times openly, mexico didnt paid for the wall, he spents million dollars on golfing, cut taxes for the rich and is reasponsible for the worst crisis managment of the history of crisis managment which lead to unnecessary deaths of thousend americans by Corona. He gives clearly no shit about the lifes of his people.
Thats my view as an non-american.
moose184 · -8 points · Posted at 19:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a non American or not you have no clue what your talking about.
Dargon34 · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American, actually he's pretty spot on.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You´re free to correct me.
moose184 · -1 points · Posted at 21:11:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is he a xenophobe? He is divorced but Christianity is about forgiving one for their sins so why wouldn't Christians like him. Obama lied openly all the time but you wouldn't know since the left leaning US media refused to ever cover any scandals in his administration. Obama spent millions on golfing and tens upon tens of millions for Hawaii vacations. You say he "is reasponsible for the worst crisis managment of the history of crisis managment" yet Dr. Fauci who is the NIAID Director said that we acted as early as we could and that Trump has never overruled him on any of his medical advice and has done what he suggested during this crisis. And if your saying he doesn't care about the lives of Americans you are delusional because he has been from the time he first started running all about the American people first.
[deleted] · -13 points · Posted at 19:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So inform me then.
raj96 · -14 points · Posted at 19:37:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.reddit.com/r/Conservative/comments/fco337/_/ https://i.redd.it/0nkm20d3idk41.jpg
untranslatable_pun · 10 points · Posted at 19:58:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is the link you reply with to that statement? Fucking lol.
raj96 · -8 points · Posted at 20:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, it’s evidence the champion of the counter movement is a dipshit that got clapped two times in a row
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So trump employing a few minorities disproves everything that he has done to divide us? 😂😂😂
raj96 · -4 points · Posted at 20:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s not one single link that would’ve shown you what you wanted so idk what you expect. But in general yeah, if you appoint someone of a certain race to do a difficult job, you probably don’t think poorly of that race
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im a different person.
what about all of the slave owners who “employed” the former slaves for dirt wages and basically treated them like slaves after slavery was abolished, they were racist but employed different races to work for them.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 21:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about them? What are you actually talking about?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“if you appoint someone of a certain race to do a difficult job, you probably don’t think poorly of that race”
I gave you an example that contradicts what you said
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to draw an analogy to the 1850s to prove a point go ahead. Explain to me how paying someone slave wages a half hour after slavery becomes abolished is the same as appointing a minority to a presidential cabinet. Actually, don’t. You sound stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That wasn’t the point. The point is that racists will still employ people who they’re racist against.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well your point sucked, I don’t know what more you expect from the man besides venmoing every black person his net worth. You’re unrealistic and a waste of time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that’s what most of you say when your arguments are proven wrong. Say some strawman or ad hominem argument and then insult my intelligence. “IM NOT WONG YOU WONG AND STOOPID GO CRY WIBTARD HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH SNOWFWAKE!!!!!”
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 22:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re accusing me of a straw man while you’re drawing analogies to post slavery America alright dude
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, because it’s an analogy. If it was a strawman it would be “you dont want me going outside and congregating? Why do you hate my birthday!?!”
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 23:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah a dumbshit anology that has no ties to the situation at hand. New challenge bucko. Name a REALISTIC situation in 2020 (gotcha bitch!) where someone that’s not held to any quotas or diversity requirements would voluntary want a black person doing a six figure job for them and having reporting directly to them...while still being racist
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That “challenge” is like a fallacy cake. An Argument from Ignorance with a mixture of an Existential Fallacy and a Nirvana Fallacy.
I could compare your “challenge” to Roger Ailes or Rush Limbaugh, but I dont want to waste 5 hours of my time googling things.
Your challenge is an insubstantial, moot claim. No matter what I could say you’d find some tiny point and say my entire argument is false. It’s an unrealistic challenge, you even prove that by saying “gotcha”.
raj96 · 0 points · Posted at 01:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bye poor person
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sore loser lmao, cant even take an L without insulting someone
raj96 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t know what an L is
Syng42o · 2 points · Posted at 17:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, that's how a cult works.
horseofcourse55 · -6 points · Posted at 18:10:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did I have to scroll so long to see this? I'm not American so it completely boggles my mind that this cretin is actually the leader of their country. Obama seemed like a fantastic human being and then they elected this shit stain? What the actual fuck?!?
thatusernameistaken · 3 points · Posted at 22:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm guessing very aggressive manipulation of reddit. Vote patterns on that very topic - outside of /r/politics, where mods are quite heavy handed - are nowhere close to reflecting reddit's main demographic opinions when you look at any sort of serious polling data.
In short, organized bullshit by people as useful to society as a metastatic tumor. It's not like these fuckers would keep tampering with social media to Facebook only.
There are quite a few genuine right leaning die-hard people, single issue voters and whatnot, but it's nowhere skewed as what we see in the main subreddits, espcially when you think about who the average American reddittor is. (cue downvotes)
Mocharulzdamap · 3 points · Posted at 18:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I completely agree
blackeyedsusan25 · 4 points · Posted at 20:25:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For millions of Americans, Trump is revenge against anyone who has wronged them. He's the weak man's strongman.
iamnotabot200 · -3 points · Posted at 18:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He lost the election by 3 million votes, yet here he is.
SmokeMyDong · 10 points · Posted at 19:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He actually won the election by 77 votes.
iamnotabot200 · -5 points · Posted at 19:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the electoral college, which is a crock of shit, undemocratic mess.
SmokeMyDong · 16 points · Posted at 19:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, you live in a constitutional democratic-republic. Not ancient Greece. Have you ever read the Federalist papers?
zacharysnow · -12 points · Posted at 20:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have read those 200 year old papers, and they’re not great. Would love to have a word with their author but he’s dead.
SmokeMyDong · 7 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are one of the most important sources for interpreting the original intent of the Constitution...
You'd love to 'have a word' with Alexander Hamilton, James Madison and John Jay ?
zacharysnow · -2 points · Posted at 20:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The intent of 200 year old dead men is important historically but not in the least pragmatically at present.
And yes, would you not?
SmokeMyDong · 6 points · Posted at 20:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The intent of 200 year old dead men lead to the most prosperous and free nation that has ever existed.
No, I probably wouldn't lecture the architect of the federal reserve, the father of the constitution, and the director of early US foreign policy on the electoral college.
zacharysnow · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who said anything about lecturing?
But I’ll bite; they were smarter than the average person from back then, sure, but now? The average smart person is leagues more informed about science, history and religion. And a smart poli-sci or philosophy undergrad would shit on them.
The American population in 1776 was 2.5mil, it’s now 300mil, with increased land to match. They would be utterly clueless on how to manage or even conceive of the current state of the US.
And two of those guys were slave owners, so I’d at least beat their asses for that.
SmokeMyDong · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, the average person today absolutely does not know more about science, history or religion. You are proving to be a perfect example of that. And you have got to be fucking joking when you say an undergrad 'would shit on them'. Madison and Hamilton would eat Chomsky's lunch, let alone a college student's.
They cover that in the federalist papers.
The original draft of the constitution abolished slavery in the US.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SmokeMyDong · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read the 13th and 14th amendment.
Honestly, the rest of your post isn't worth replying to. You very clearly have no idea who Madison and Hamilton were.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 23:02:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SmokeMyDong · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You literally aren't educated enough to debate with.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 15:24:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SmokeMyDong · -2 points · Posted at 20:34:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a BA in political science. You sound like you're maybe in high school.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:41:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, if you have such a problem with how we elect our leaders, why are you still in America?
zacharysnow · -3 points · Posted at 21:51:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America is not a monolith, and our government is a living entity that can evolve and change. If I left it to asshats like you, the country I go to would probably get bombed anyway
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a pretty big assumption on your part. You see, I believe what George Washington said, and one of those things is to stay out of foreign affairs. I don't think "asshats like me" want to bomb any other country.
GENERAL_A_L33 · 4 points · Posted at 22:02:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a reason we don't elect off the popular vote. If we did the major cities would elect every politician.
cicatrix1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You're both bad at math and mentally ill.
GENERAL_A_L33 · 1 points · Posted at 11:39:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of mental gymnastics you had to go through to get to that final comment is staggering.
iamnotabot200 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are you saying a rural person's vote is worth more?
fskoti · -9 points · Posted at 19:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obama was awful.
spinner198 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evidence of what exactly?
LitMaster11 · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What evidence are we talking about here? I'm genuinely curious about what you're talking about. Could I get specific examples?
ItchyMooseKnuckle · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every fucking post you guys talk about Trump. You know that’s what he wants right? FFS
AlwaysTappin · -4 points · Posted at 18:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He did a very good job of “Everything negative they say about me is fake, but everything positive is true!”
AprilLHT · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one point that has stuck with me over the last few days, he claimed that all the Covid-19 tests were perfect, this is demonstrated not to be true, how can he just lie and people aren't calling him out on this.
carpet_sauce · 14 points · Posted at 19:49:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being gay.
Hear me out: as a straight man, myself, and I'm sure most others, cannot understand the idea of being attracted to men over women. I am NOT saying I disagree with it. People can do whatever they want to be happy. I just don't understand it, because I don't feel that way, and I have no clue what would make someone feel that way.
Exnaut · 26 points · Posted at 21:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm bi and I don't understand how others can only be into one gender.
rightoverheremyguy · 4 points · Posted at 01:18:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being bi makes sense to me. Like you can’t deny there’s attractive people on both sides
CapnSpazz · 12 points · Posted at 22:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a gay guy, I fully understand this. Like I know some will probably misunderstand and just say "It's the same as being straigh", which I'm sure you get. It's just a weird thought for some. Like trying to imagine myself as striaght, and really put myself into that just feels... off. Like it's just not right. Not in a moral sense, but just for me, it doesn't fit.
carpet_sauce · 6 points · Posted at 23:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly! I knew it would go other ways too.
BroMuch · 2 points · Posted at 16:16:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has to do with how're are brains develop, but those kind of attractions are something your born with. It's a mental map that we are born with that determines our basic instincts. It's normal and it comes in a spectrum.
There was a story of a botched circumcision of boy that the parents decided to raise like a girl because of it. Point is the boy believed that he was a girl the moment he was born. But throughout her life he felt off like he wasnt supposed to be a girl and was obviously attracted to other girls and what not. Anyway the parents came clean and everything clicked, ended up having sex change back into a man then committed suicide. I think there was one other case if that happening but I don't know. His name was David Reimer.
Point sexual preference to genders is a born attribute and would be impossible to understand
However there are times when the "brain map" , I forgot the real name" can be damaged and have some pretty messed up results. Like people feeling like theyre legs don't belong on their body and purposely getting their legs amputated, self mutilation. Could you imagine? Fuck no , I'm assuming.
Point is the brain develops normally on a spectrum and once in while you'll have men like women, women liking women, or women being born in men's bodies.
Point is the brain is a lot more fucking wierd and amazing then anyone can possibly imagine
I'm not an expert, just a dude from the internet that might've read up more then the average person
thunder75 · 2 points · Posted at 23:24:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same way I have no clue why anybody would be attracted to women.
carpet_sauce · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:00 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah it definitely works both ways!
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you find it weird that heterosexual women are attracted to men?
cesttoutbon · 6 points · Posted at 14:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Duck lips
slackmandu · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
as you can see, no one else understands it either.
ass-holes · 2 points · Posted at 14:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subnets in networking. Been fucking with understanding those for over ten years now. The thing I'm trying to understand is probably not even being used anymore but damn.
Elriond · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which part do you not get? The math calculation or the concept? I was once like you, maybe I can help.
ass-holes · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both to be honest. I know it's sort of like 'hey, we have this range of addresses but you can't use all of them, oh no no no. You have to listen to the subnet to know what the fuck the possibilities are.'
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 14:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 16:18:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people drive on different sides of the roads in different countries (also cars are designed differently for those countries)
JAMES_CHARLES_VORE · 3 points · Posted at 17:11:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
or the video is mirrored
thunderfart_99 · 2 points · Posted at 17:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
From the UK here, we drive on the left hand side of the road. Whenever one of my American friends comes to visit, she always without fail remarks "You guys drive on the wrong side of the road!".
e_faith74 · 2 points · Posted at 15:11:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry. fuck that
Triger_CZ · 2 points · Posted at 15:26:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:38:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
NewRandomNickname · 2 points · Posted at 15:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I worry about shit despite I don't have to worry about shit.
Zoradia · 2 points · Posted at 15:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drumming. Different beats with separate hands and holding them, my mind just fumbles.
acchikhan · 2 points · Posted at 16:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "by the way" I understand what it means, but why do those words mean that, I don't get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 16:05:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
I am terrible at it, I only know very young age math, it just doesn't stick and I can't get to grips with it.
I actually think I have dyspraxia, I think that's what it's called.
Dragongirl1337 · 2 points · Posted at 16:07:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand the reasoning behind how vaccines cause autism.
Say that i implement their logic elsewhere. Water cause death because everyone that drinks it dies eventually.
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 16:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some guy made a medical article about it, and people believed it. The article was proven wrong but people are stupid
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MMR_vaccine_and_autism
Dragongirl1337 · 2 points · Posted at 16:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's precisely what i don't understand. They have been proven wrong over and over and still remain adamant that vaccines cause autism. I believe that they even did some research themselves that proved that vaccines don't cause autism.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are stubborn about their beliefs, people hate being proven wrong.
Also a lot of people in America hate the healthcare system and their hate for it gets manipulated into hating stuff like vaccines
Dragongirl1337 · 1 points · Posted at 16:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically the reason why people die of preventable diseases is stubbornness and hate for the American health care system.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more complicated that than but those are key reasons (other reasons can be stuff like doctors messing up and them/a family member getting injured)
Dragongirl1337 · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now i atleast understand why they think like they do and for that i thank you.
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people - not me- believe he was coerced into admissions and accepting banishment instead of death. Human nature- we want to believe so bad - we’ll rationalize anything away.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is some link to a traumatic event triggering underlying issues. Shots are very traumatic to some children. I believe so many have had genuine experiences but not fully educated.
Dragongirl1337 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True
But not everyone that is "antivax" has had a traumatic experience or any experience for that matter. They just heard their friends say that vaccines contains poison such as mercury, formaldehyde, aborted fetuses etc. etc. And therefore they research it and find a site that says vaccines cause autism, then that theory gets proven wrong but they still believe it.
And i have full understanding that people have had traumatic experiences i just didn't understand how that made them tell all their friends about how vaccines cause autism and their only backup a site they found on Google page nr 43 that looks as sketchy as any website on page 43 would.
Sorry for my rant and bad grammar. English is my second language.
BooksRock · 2 points · Posted at 16:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watching movies with BAD acting and how the director/production crew let it slide. HOW did they not think "yikes this is bad" at some point?
Chunk_Wrld · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Vlinder_88 · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that make you guess what they mean/feel.
I'm not a mind reader! Just tell me already!
VoidFishin · 2 points · Posted at 16:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
WTWanderer · 2 points · Posted at 16:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. I neither understand it or see the point of it
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's assigning a value to a letter, you can simplify things much easier that way
Also imagine that instead of remembering a^2 + b^2 = c^2 you had to remember how it works
WTWanderer · 1 points · Posted at 12:55:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got no idea what you just said
cremigerschrank · 2 points · Posted at 16:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths is it like real or a huge thought experiment ... does it only exist in our heads or does it exist outside of it and what’s the base of it ... it is huge problem for me like I can understand algebra and shit on its own but not maths as whole I don’t get on what basis it stands
broberts0 · 2 points · Posted at 16:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so mean
Marshmo · 2 points · Posted at 17:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Complex maths, to my detriment after finishing school.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:06:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anybody can think that Joe Biden was the best candidate the Democrats could push. Lunacy.
SC_FaiL · 2 points · Posted at 17:10:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Morgz, N&A Productions, and Jake Paul. These guys have the IQ of the number of times I've went on a date (0) and they have more subscribers than a genuinely good YouTuber
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Reivax635 · 2 points · Posted at 17:23:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 17:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astrology/zodiac signs
jarethhh · 2 points · Posted at 17:41:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greater than and less than symbols. Had it explained to me numerous times, just cant get my head around them.
quasarschlaeger · 2 points · Posted at 17:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
patna2 · 2 points · Posted at 18:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bioinformatics... Hardest course in college I've ever seen, under Orgo of course
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who have lived a majority of their lives on welfare are far right conservatives.
DonjiDonji · 2 points · Posted at 18:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who do that thing where they hold their sneeze and make that weird sound instead of sneezing the normal “achoo” way.
Getting a sneeze out is extremely satisfying. I have no clue why someone would deprive themselves of a really satisfying sneeze. It’s bonkers.
I don’t even know what it’s called, if I had to guess it would be a sneeze stifle.
talzzizzlemynizzle · 2 points · Posted at 18:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
long division
NihilistTeddy3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's funny is I'm terrible at math and I hear everyone talk about not understanding long division, but that's all I know how to do.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV advertisements net revenue for medicine. There are a number of hoops they must jump through: They must spend a lot of money to get enough audience. Spend money coming up with the advertisement. Only a certain percentage of people actually need the medicine for their issues. Only a certain percentage of those people will buy from their brand. Some people with the disease may be turned off by the listed side effects. I have never bought an object based on an advertisement so from personal experience it must be a slim number of people buying it.
rebornphoenixV · 2 points · Posted at 18:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people that aren't doing the stay at home orders and stuff so we can beat COVID and get back to our lives. Also the people that are blaming the 5G towers for bringing COVID
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
evilhaggy · 2 points · Posted at 18:30:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
caterpillars becoming butterflies
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genetics. I've never understood the "hierarchy" IE how DNA , proteins, chromosomes etc are structured together. I missed two biology classes & have never caught up.
Guaymaster · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chromosomes are aggregations of DNA chains and a couple proteins that help them maintain shape and stuff.
DNA is a macromolecule that stores information that can be translated into proteins.
yesieatcereal · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imma be honest.... how electricity and internet work. I just don't understand what happens to make it work
FinnaMakeUhSandwich · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
i dont get how microchips and stuff work like how physical objects can make virtual objects
LeivTunc · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't look at certain individuals and see that they are conmen or nonces.
amican · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum mechanics.
allothernamestaken · 2 points · Posted at 18:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why inkjet printers still exist
sessycat101 · 2 points · Posted at 18:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space
Vrunwulf · 2 points · Posted at 18:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I me
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't you remember ? We played rock, paper, scissors and I lost
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
Sgitch · 2 points · Posted at 18:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
creating shadows in art ._.
mrrix32 · 2 points · Posted at 18:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work
I understand that I can tell a computer to display an image.
I understand that a series of 0s and 1s will instruct the processor to send a signal to the display to display that image
I understand how the input devices work, I understand on a very basic level how the display works. What I don't understand is what goes on inside the processor on a physical level.
MANDALORIAN_WHISKEY · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any number raised to the power of 0 is 1. So n0 =1
I am very good at math, always have been. I had a small stroke three years ago, and had to relearn almost from scratch when I went back to school. I've taken college calculus at the same time I took statistics, and aced them both. I understand math. And I've googled this particular conundrum. I've read very watered down, very basic explanations. I've asked professors. I've definitely done everything I could to learn why it equals one. I just don't get it.
And you know what? I'm okay with that. I just memorize that little factoid for when I need it, and move on. I don't need to know why. But every once in a while, it haunts me.
Yobearra · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, I’ve always been really good at math but I could never wrap my head around the why of it
nathodood · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another thing to point out here is that n CANNOT be 0. 00 is indeterminate. A quick insight as to why this is is that, for some number n, n0 =1, but also 0n =0, so if you put the two together, you end up with two different answers of 0 and 1.
If n0 =1 weren't true for nonzero n, then the concept of counting itself would be fundamentally different than what we know of it today. Think about it: the far rightmost digit is the ones place in any given base b. Each next place immediately to the left of the previous is the bk+1 's place. The ones place is therefore thought of as the b0 's place.
MANDALORIAN_WHISKEY · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I actually knew that, too! I forgot until you pointed it out. Thanks!
theprinceofmemelords · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe in stupid conspiracies, especially the theroy that 5G causes COVID-19. Idiots
yoyowhatuptwentytwo · 2 points · Posted at 18:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sewing machines work it's like black magic to my brain.
neonkrak3n · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bad mobile game ads
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get a mindfuck everytime I think how a non-living thing becomes a living thing
ButtonDoctor · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smoking cigarettes - it’s unhealthy for you and your loved ones, expensive, time consuming, it makes you and everything around you stink. Why?!
OrphanPounder · 2 points · Posted at 18:44:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know squat about trading stocks or how money works at all, where does it come from? How does the thing that motivates the world function?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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StickandAdot · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No hate. I don’t get math either.
natanb223 · 2 points · Posted at 18:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
icanmakeppllaugh · 2 points · Posted at 18:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
necrophilia
MenOfChanges · 2 points · Posted at 18:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans have residential areas and have to drive so far to get something as simple as groceries. Lived in different countries and all of them had shops and supermarkets on walking distance. Always. The fact you have to drive over 30 minutes just because you ran out of cookies blows my mind.
PafPear · 2 points · Posted at 18:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Spudward1 · 2 points · Posted at 18:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. People can be hella dumb but they made the Pyramids. I just don’t get people
IMian91 · 2 points · Posted at 18:59:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep voting against their own self interests and then get mad at the people trying to give them better lives because "it's different and wrong"
MrJackHass · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not to be disgusting, but I seriously don’t understand Foot Fetishes. How does that shit work?
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm really hoping you mean "fetishes."
MrJackHass · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oops, yeah. 😂😂
focuswiz · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
LoyolaProp1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn’t matter how many times it’s explained in layman terms, it still makes no sense.
Sometimes I wonder if it’s actually just a bunch of bullshit because they hit a dead end on Newtonian physics.
focuswiz · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I studied it and did reasonably well in high school and college physics classes but that was over 50 years ago and I need to totally re-learn this topic since so much has changed.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the foot fetish
H0508 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone ate a bat (or whatever animal it was) and contracted covid? If it was something like a chicken, fine. Even a dog (i do not endorse eating dogs) but a bat?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are probably delicious. I imagine trapping enough bats to make a soup is pretty hard compared to e.g. buying (or farming, even) some chicken.
H0508 · 2 points · Posted at 20:52:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bats come into the rodent family, I’m sure you don’t find the idea of rat soup appealing to you. I hope that is.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bats aren’t rodents.
But I’ve eaten rabbit before, and that was pretty good.
H0508 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rabbit is nice.
WastedKnowledge · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How telephones work
almac2242 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
electricity
Skylarina · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when my car’s AC is turned to OFF it still blows air.
malisc140 · 2 points · Posted at 21:19:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A fan moves air. An Air Conditioner just conditions air.
cltdawg08 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
BouquetOfDogs · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people.
The-Rocketman3 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why this really beautiful lady wants to date me
Bletchlama · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
abir_bandyopadhyay · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot genuinely understand the concept of Money. What is money/currency? How is it's value determined? Why is one country's currency stronger than other. What would the world look like if there was no money?
3of_spades · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money is a unit we use to define value. It´s value was once determined by gold, then there was a transition to coins made of metals(gold, silver and bronze), then the modern use i believe. These days, money has its value determined by it´s quantity in said country.there isn´t a world without money.,simply because we need to have something that we can use when trading items.
L9773 · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people fall for mobile game adds
sponowski · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sound works.
Like how can someone play a trumpet and record it to vinyl and then dropping a needle on a vinyl gives me the sound of a trumpet.
It baffles me.
coolbuddy2034 · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people always have to be assholes on reddit? Not offending anyone
PregnantMexicanTeens · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subtraction where you have to keep borrowing lol.
OhioMegi · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subtracting across zeros kicks my ass, and I teach it. I have to practice before that unit comes up- every time.
PregnantMexicanTeens · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The zero thing is the trickiest!!!
PhantomTigre8 · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet came to be. It's very fascinating.
TimeLabsMedia · 2 points · Posted at 19:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. I mean each country prints their own money. How knows how much to print? How do they regulate it? Where do countries get loans from. Where does the organization giving the loan get their money from?
KamesJirk · 2 points · Posted at 19:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can't see that eating meat in this day and age is barbaric and cruel.
Azukiyo · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it’s so difficult for people to stop hanging out with their friends during quarantine
yoongisrighttoe · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
YouProbablyDontKnow · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:58 on April 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do they do it or why does it hurt like no other pain?
I can't imagine hitting another guy in the balls because I know what the pain feels like and I wouldn't wish that on any other human.
The pain location is more that just in the balls. It's sorta in the abdomen. If bad enough, I can imagine a guy puking his guts out. It's just unlike any other pain, so it's probably impossible to describe to you.
And it doesn't take much trauma to make the pain come. Just a tap feels like you're dying. I guess it's the body's way of making you protect that thing that will continue the species. Yes, it's that big a deal.
So, sorry, this may not help. It's like no other pain so it's hard to relate to a female I guess. That's the best I can offer! :-)
-dougl
Rumcake256 · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, misogyny, etc. It literally just doesnt make sense to me how people will see others as less than them based solely on skin color, ethnicity, gender, etc. I don't get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laws of thermodynamics as I am a bimbo
FlareTheFlame · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life works.
somethinggreatest · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scottish accents
PisterMotatohead · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I exist.
Toronos · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You won the race LETS GO
eb0821 · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.... WHAT IS OUT THERE?? How is it NOTHING and EVERYTHING?
PM_UR_BOOBIES_GIRL · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
LurkBot9000 · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. The amp/volt analogy of water through a pipe only helps a little.
So to my understanding volts are like the... potential power of amps... sortve? Amps are the "all at once" work force behind the electrical charge? If volts are only a potential then why bother measuring if you have amps and resistance? Why not just record the units of input amps and output amps over a transmission medium? If you get shocked by 200,000 volts with .01 amps does that feel different than getting shocked by 200,000 volts with .001 amps? Isnt the drop in effective electricity (amps) just due to more resistance in the transmission medium? If so why bother advertising the voltage and not just advertise amps on batteries as the unit of useful power?
libsi · 2 points · Posted at 19:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work
Butexx · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers
lostrock · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to keep score in bowling
FenrirGreyback · 2 points · Posted at 19:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can honestly care so little about others well being.
MyUncleLeftMe · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Going outside
Americrazy · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
trump supporters.
unexplainableentity · 2 points · Posted at 19:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plus and minus in sports betting. "One team is -15 and another team is +5"
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit.
In general.
Sheyren · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, after literally decades, the basic technology that powers calculators has remained mostly unchanged.
marjerbar · 2 points · Posted at 19:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance. Health insurance, car insurance all of it. I'm 32-years-old and I just dont understand it at all.
Angrymic2002 · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
galaxygamergirl13 · 2 points · Posted at 19:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being an adult..
PhotoBugBrig · 2 points · Posted at 19:34:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neighbors in apartment buildings failing to grasp how easily sound travels.
khayyam_al · 2 points · Posted at 19:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it feels to chew 5 gum... Like how does it feel, i really wanna know but i cant... If only someone could send me a video that could demonstrate the feeling
uni-piggy · 2 points · Posted at 19:34:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most algebra
J0hnnyHammerst1cks · 2 points · Posted at 19:34:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese.
gilraand · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Otherwise Smart people blindly believing crazy shit like flat earth, antivax, the bible being literal, healing, magic crystals, birds being real.
imalreadydead123 · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How prople can run, I never could , even when training. Maths is absolute a gibberish. And driving a car, I have such a phobia I never could either.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job.
Datman97 · 2 points · Posted at 19:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe anything they see online before fact checking
rickmaz · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
time and gravity
NotCreativeWithNamez · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How companies like EA and Activision think it's ok to make the player pay $60 for a game, and then pressure them into gambling for some slightly better gear.
bryant100594 · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it’s pronounced “EKG” but it’s spelled ECG.
Sumthang · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Videogame Streaming. Look, I'm 30 and have been gaming since I was like 6 or something, so despite feeling like Grandpa Simpson sometimes, logically I figure I should still be 'with it' enough to get this.
But I cannot wrap my head around this 'trend' among the 'young'uns' of giving money to people to watch them play a game for you. You kids realize that's not how games work, right? Someone please explain this to a lost and confused old man.
malisc140 · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I almost never play any games anymore at all. I have to really force myself to play anything. So it is neat to be able to check a new game out, knowing you will never pay money to buy it or play it.
I feel like my brain works better if I'm doing something creative while a friend is playing stuff on the computer while in the same room. Having a streaming service can accomplish the same results. I like to put chill people on while I work on my projects. It helps my mind focus the same way it does by bringing a laptop to Starbucks. You would think TV would accomplish this, but regular TV is designed to harass you for attention. Video games aren't always like that.
Some of the artists that stream live are amazingly talented.
Lastly some of the streamers have a genuinely cool group of friends that show up when they go live.
NukaDaddy69 · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, despite numerous studies and real life examples all around us, there are still people who start smoking.
It harms you, the environment and everyone around. (It also makes you smell like shit and it's seriously annoying passing by you on the street or by the entrance of a building).
If you're a smoker, please, seek help. There are alternatives out there as well as many types of therapy. You matter to those around you, don't be just another part in some death statistic.
If you're not a smoker, don't start. Just one cigarette is enough to take you down a dangerous path, I've felt it close and it hurt like hell, I miss them every day.
Wister1602 · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and Meth. I understand math less so.
the_mcjc · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so open... like about their personal troubles or a condition they have. It's fine to be comfortable in your own skin, but I don't understand wanting to share your personal life with strangers
litty_kitty73 · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf I procrastinate so much and why I dont want to do schoolwork even though I need to
access153 · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin’ magnets, how do they work?!
kpandak · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pre-calculus and any math at higher levels than that. I tried taking pre-calculus in high school and college, and failed it both times. Thankfully, I didn't need it to graduate high school, as I had already satisfied my math requirements. And I found another option to satisfy my college degree requirements; philosophy of logic was way more fun and I received a 4.0 in that class.
zaxyepomme · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we accept the fact that our money "value" it's basically: this worth more because it's a different colors/different numbers on the printed bills. Like it's the same materials, just an other colors/numbers, why do we build the world arounds the "printed papers" made man value?
KleinSteijn · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How American length- and school systems works
elijahdmmt · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
racism and homophobia not to be cliche
average_joemama · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Wall Street is still rallying with near 17 million unemployed Americans.
Abominable_Dr_Phibes · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how some people wake up happy and super productive (with any amount of sleep).
justforkicks699 · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how you get the sound onto a vinyl record
basicallyalimabean · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm probably way late on this, but the idea of strangers having separate lives and experiences that have nothing to do with your own existence. They have their own story and life, that you'll never know about unless you meet them, or learn/ read about (etc)
GD_Xecuter · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can't say 'Coronavirus' in youtube videos but youtube features Coronavirus news on their homepage.
And I don't understand why COPPA and the FTC implemented the rules onto YT. It doesn't protect kids in any way, shape, or form. It's just a 1st and 8th amendment violation.
SyxxGod · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably to stop misinformation. Like on social media theres so many "Ibuprofen bad" posts but so far that's still unproven in regards to CV
bettorworse · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scammers.
therealdutchman11 · 2 points · Posted at 19:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can hear their name be called and just straight up ignore it until it’s called to the point they get annoyed. I always at least acknowledge if someone is calling me but half the time I’ll call someone’s name and when they’re in clear earshot and just nothing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:47 on April 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just assume they’re calling someone else because my name is so common. Happened a lot in high school.
millenialblacksmith · 2 points · Posted at 19:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sowing machines. No matter how many diagrams and examples I still thinks it's black magic
bettorworse · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can see how the needle goes down and ... yeah, I don't get it, either.
Also, why don't those self-threading things ever work?
millenialblacksmith · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Must not have used enough goats blood to lubricate all the magic bearing
HilleryisaLair · 2 points · Posted at 19:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people enjoy pop music. Especially trap. To me it's boring, overproduced and the songs are only about how wealthy the singers are.
w-o-r-k-l-o-g-i-n · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How flat earthers actually believe the earth is flat.
How stupid antivax people really are.
How you always hear shit like “god saved my son” (no that was the doctor)
Or how during times like now when people say “god will save us from this virus” but they’re too stupid to realize that if their god is actually real...that god sent the virus.
NESpahtenJosh · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics - Honestly. I'm appalled at how inefficient the whole thing is. These are people who are supposed to be deciding what's best based on their constituents opinions, and it seems like they give zero fucks about humans at all.
And how some policies are in place - like no terms limits, blatant bribery via lobbying, etc.
The whole thing is fucking crazy.
MaimerofHoles · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finding probability, in percent chance, after limiting variables. Oh, and the difference between permutations and combinations
ayrton07 · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How God was created
ThisTooWasAChoice · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.
MonologueInMonoliths · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
dopeoplereadnames · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Algebra. Or just math in general
robbirshapiro · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is manifest destiny
planekill · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Division, theres like a whole ass formula for division (long division)
The_Stickup · 0 points · Posted at 19:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao I don't think it's that hard. The actual thing of "long division" where you make the box and put the two numbers is pretty simple, but I get what you mean if it's like super long numbers
planekill · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep i meant long division.people tell me that its easy but i just dont get it lol
Gryffindor_Bookworm · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think it's ok to do horrible things knowing full well what they're doing.
TheLast500 · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why rich white men fly to Africa to kill wild animal (and pay thousands of dollars to do so).
Stilgrave · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can send voice and data THROUGH THE AIR.
The_Stickup · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ikr, it's like... Wahhh?
The_Celtic_Chemist · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything is relative and nothing can move as fast as the speed of light (except light itself) and light can't go any faster. Ok, well let's test that.
I travel north going 99.9% the speed of light. You pass me going south at 99.9% the speed of light. How fast did we pass each other?
The answer is 199.8% the speed of light. A speed that can't exist. Science me that, Batman.
3of_spades · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
2 beans of light pass by each other. 200% the speed of light
The_Celtic_Chemist · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Beams*. But yes, you get it.
3of_spades · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know what i said
IAmTheGlazed · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hate professional wrestling gets
Yes, its fake but do you really care? I don’t get why it’s such a big issue. I have been a wrestling fan for 10’years and I still don’t care, it’s fun to watch
cloudninefiveo · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement
The_Stickup · 0 points · Posted at 19:53:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao wtf does the name even mean
mallshouse · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes fly...my dad is a pilot and explains it to me and I still don’t get it.
Hschlessman · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thinks 5G has anything to do with Coronavirus.
RedHood290 · 2 points · Posted at 19:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans started from a world of natural resources and somehow went to making complicated big ass machinery that's stronger than them like airplanes and skyscrapers and cranes. Basically harnessing electricity and somehow using it to tell rocks (machinery) what to do (coding).
cvalda27 · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why common sense and tolerance are such rare qualities when it makes life so much easier
imgenerallyaccepted · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mr. Paine would be very saddened.
kissszonja · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some people just literally don't care about anybody else. How can anyone be so selfish and have 0 sympathy for others?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that smoke after decades of available data pointing to how terrible it is for you.
reecewagner · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cancel culture. If enough people don’t like a thing that someone did, they don’t get to do any things anymore?
Peachy_Pink97 · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m so fucking ugly 🤣
30caliberclipazine · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your dog isn’t at least. Also always remember there is always someone uglier than you
rabblerabbler · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can just kill a man
l-_l- · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general.
Kelter82 · 2 points · Posted at 19:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of time, how its layered and takes up space or something?
I dunno. I don't understand it.
BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time is a concept humans made up but can be experienced differently, it’s something humans made up for convenience.
Kelter82 · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how it can be "faster" in one part of space than another, either.
BobDaDank · 2 points · Posted at 09:04:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For ex. You’re a photon leaving a clock’s surface at 12:00 and you’re facing the clock, after about for ex. 156 Hours (random amount) a Human would have seen it pass 156 Hours, but since light travels so fast and the clock would still have said exactly 12:00
Good_Noddle · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoples feelings
kamilman · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
Corrosive_st · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America.
FermiNAaN · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she doesn't like me back
spunupletdown · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
algebra
Jagob5 · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who claim to be a Christian but don’t act like it at all. One day you’ll see your friend at church and the next she comes to school “dressed” in half a shirt and shorts that don’t even cover her entire butt.
futuremd1994 · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are STILL not correctly quarantining and social distancing
mschoc630 · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chicken & waffles
BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Good tho
smolColebob · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
brandi0423 · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum..... Anything really. 🤯
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
bjc322 · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These damn 5G conspiracy theories
malisc140 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Part of me wonders if it was a meme that people didn't get was a joke.
tomidius007 · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Geomancingthestone · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where all my wd40 cans go. I feel like whenever I buy one, I use it a few times and then poof, gone!
malisc140 · 2 points · Posted at 21:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you read the fine print, you just lease the can for a bit and a gnome will return it back to the factory. They've been selling refurb WD-40 as new for years.
Slazeus · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4th dimension.
The relativity of time.
The Monty Hall problem (or how what’s regarded as the “truth” of it could possible be true)
I feel like god made me smart...but just smart enough to make me aware that I’m dumb.
brawnsolo · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum mechanics
NonLoquiSedFacere · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
ASTRO_Mariz · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the existence of the universe and everything
Why the fuck is the universe there? Since when was it there? How was it formed? Because of the Big Bang? Where did the singularity from the big bang come from? How did it exist? Since when did it exist? Was it there since the beginning of time? If so, how did it come to existence in the first place?? Did God made it? If so, who made God? What was before God? Nothing? How does 'nothing' exist? It's ironic that nothing doesn't exist but the nothingness itself is there. Mind fucks me everytime.
BobDaDank · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing doesn’t exist, it’s nothing, its not a physical thing it’s just non existent
hannah_banana22 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking gender reveal parties. It’s just an excuse to have more parties and more attention. Some people are gonna be like “a mother’s allowed to celebrate her baby” and hell yes, but you don’t need to CONSTANTLY be hogging attention because you’re pregnant🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
BackupBro_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reddit karma work
Mycroft2046 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C Pointer manipulation.
Plumage25 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she doesn’t love me back
technicolourphantom · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How countries can all be in debt to each other.
Madness.
flowerboy_209 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we have to show respect to the employers who don't care about us at all
sgtsnacks64 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers in C++. I get it, but I've yet to see an example of 'why' I'd use it.
I'd appreciate anyone being able to help :)
kinjinsan · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wrote in C for 20+ years. Wrote trading and backoffice systems for a securities brokerage. Never encountered a scenario where pointers were necessary.
sgtsnacks64 · 2 points · Posted at 20:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! Thank god!
cobragun1 · 2 points · Posted at 20:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t understand farm subsidies
doct0rm0bius · 2 points · Posted at 20:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of infinite. Life is finite. Everything that surrounds us is finite. Every being that has and ever will live will one day die. But somewhere, someone believes the universe has and always will exist. Humans can not perceive this.
Also, nothingness. Try that. You just can’t.
Carl_Clegg · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
OCD. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I’ve watched tv shows about this but still can’t understand what makes someone (for example) check a door is locked about 30 times before leaving. Surely twice is enough? It blows my mind but I really feel for them.
Brim_Dunkleton · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so anti-trump, yet very pro-Biden.
FernetEnthusiast · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like the Kardashians are famous
Crypt0Nihilist · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eigenvalues and eigenvectors
Tired_Thief · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eigenfuckery
FuktInThePassword · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m fairly certain that photography is Magic.
HOUDINI1961 · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is there no money for education, no money for infrastructure, no money for minimum wages, yet when the government wants, it can pull 6 trillion dollars out of its butt?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cambered wheels. It does nothing for your Honda Civic, bro.
Prof-Shaftenberg · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How suddenly the conditions of the earth caused that binary switch from the moment when there was no life and then there was.
Next, how permutation and evolution expanded from one spring of life into All the different families of animals, from whales to spiders to rhinos to cats to seagulls.
It’s not even that I can’t comprehend, how Darwin’s evolution model works, I mean, that’s even intuitively understandable and quite logical, but the sheer amount of completely different concepts of organisms. Just imagine, everything would be the same but insects didn’t exist. Then think: could I make them up (or mammals, or amphibians, or crustaceans)
Thirdly, the sort of engineering miracles caused by evolution. How that trial and error of permutation and either having a successful sex life :> ultimately leads to such intricate designs as the wings and beaks of falcons, paws on cats and dogs, octopuses changing their colour and producing ink in their bodies, the dislocateable jaw of snakes, the ultrasound radar of bats, human abstract thought.....
the fascinating thing about linguistics (i.e. genetics of language) is that there is many unrelated springs of language, with large superfamilies and tiny isolated like Georgian and Basque.
conversely, the fascinating thing about biology is that every.last.fucking.living.thing goes back to a common ancestor.
the98thalien · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Basic math I can do but once it hits hs level my mind just goes blank.
hoeswithbros · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just can't leave the LGBTQ community alone if we're not doing anything to them like bruh stfu stop trying to tell us that we're going I hell we all already know this lmao
JOK815 · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy
Rochesters-1stWife · 2 points · Posted at 20:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like, a family might keep kosher and have separate pots, pans, and utensils for dairy foods, and if you accidentally mix up a knife you can cleanse it by plunging it into the dirt.. but that same family might have all kinds of ways to skirt the rules of sabbath, bc of course god put all these rules in place for you to obey, but they simultaneously believe god is too stupid to see that you’re basically cheating those same rules when the rules inconvenience you? Just... I can’t wrap my head around that kind of thinking...
CptAlonzoGhostPenis · 2 points · Posted at 20:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of "order" in entropy.
Like who's to say that one thing is "order" and another thing is not.
dissapointment_haha · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did my parents give birth to me, when then knew that they were gonna regret it
uniboob_official · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
EVERYTHING ABOUT TECHNOLOGY. I’m completely incapable of processing how it works. Cars/engines, appliances, early cameras & basic electricity I can kinda wrap my brain around but I don’t understand how any communication technology works - like going back to radio. Don’t even try to explain phones, computers, TVs, etc. to me. That is straight up witchcraft. No other explanation.
The funny thing is that I study neuroscience and I have zero trouble understanding how EEGs, PET scans, MRIs & fMRIs work to gather data. But how that data can be visualized on a screen is beyond me.
Understanding the electrical signaling of neurons in the body? No problem. Morse code? Get the fuck out of here with that sorcery.
ragab922 · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The physical meaning of voltage
throwaway121505 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of voltage as water pressure in a pipe. The more voltage, the more amperage is available for use
SacredGeometry25 · 2 points · Posted at 20:15:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people walk/run in the street when there are sidewalks on both side.
johnnyL96 · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I don’t understand is how strict religious people can be horrible and shitty to others.
WickedBaby · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat-earthers
My dumb ass legit thought they were trolling
spectrumofanyhting · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not opting for Corona beers in supermarkets.
hUNgrYFro0g · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do “completing the square”. never understood how to do it or why i would ever need to.
brastius35 · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe in Astrology.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a mortgage is. It’s just that no one has sat me down and explained it to me and answered the questions I have. It’s assumed that certain things you’ll pick up along the way. But what if you don’t, and now it’s too late to ask because you’re 21, and people will look at you like you’re actually stupid.
throwawaypinoy001 · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phones. Ive always defendes phones to boomers who roll their eyes at it, because it's very versatile!! But for the life of me, I don't understand how a single screen that's about 5 centimeters thick could access info in real time.
MahloGolem · 2 points · Posted at 20:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who tf had the idea to use an upsite down 6 for the number 9. Ducking confusing on stuff that can be rotated
Lonelytraveler17 · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. People. Society. Social Skills. Cats.
-xochild · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How even in the face of a global pandemic, partisan politics, denying climate change, prolonging armed conflicts, maintaining or increasing social inequality, and religion still are priorities for people.
We could be using this time of forced shutdowns and isolation to fix a lot of problems, but, instead those lucky enough to have been born with a platinum spoon complain how their portfolios are losing money while they're lucky enough to work from home.
LPNinja · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math (and science subjects). I don‘t know how I passed school and am studying now considering I only wrote the German equivalent of F‘s.
It‘s now suspected that I‘m suffering from Dyscalculia lmao
Tasty_DUMPLINGZ · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy and how it all works
vinocet · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understan how politics work.
yungbuckfucks · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.... and I’m an electrician.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people overlook all the good shit police do and then just call them out whenever they “slip up”
loveme22eueie · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
memesarethefuture · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
memesarethefuture · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is math related to science?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people put time, effort, talent, and thought into fucked up drawings on devianart
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
mmmm fat isabelle from animal crossing is such peak content
KyloRensShredded · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m in the military and was stationed in Germany. The amount of service members that just leave their pets to fend for themselves when they get stationed back in the states is unreal. Also when getting stationed overseas the amount of people who just take their pets to the pound. I was not allowed to adopt a dog from the pound in Germany because of how many people would just leave their dogs when getting stationed back in the states. I would have had to buy a puppy from a breeder which I refuse to do with so many dogs up for adoption. So I waited until I got back to the states and went to the pound the first chance I had. These animals are a member of your family and you just cast them off like they meant nothing to you. I don’t understand it! It can definitely get very expensive for your pet to travel during really hot/really cold months but that doesn’t mean you just essentially throw them away. Sorry, rant over
stellar14 · 2 points · Posted at 20:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to balance an account, don’t know don’t care 3rd year business teacher!
peonypanties · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets? How are some metals just magnetic? What makes a magnet? How? Fucking magnets
Winged_Hussar43 · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the need to edit ur comment saying “wow this blew up” or “tHanKs fOr tHe gOlD kiNd stRanGer”
throwawayyyyyprawn · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit cards. Debt. Mortgage. Finance plans. Grown up money stuff.
I don't understand how someone would use credit responsibly. Like yeah. Finance a car or house ?
I've never had one. My parents were upper middle class but never ever spoke to me about money. I don't know how much they earn, spend or save.
I'm not almost 27 and living in the opposite side of the world. I make decent money (compared to my home country and country of residence) and am happy just earning and spending. I paid for my (used) car in cash upfront. I don't see myself ever buying a house. I'm relatively smart but when it comes to this shit I'm uninterested and come across dumb af.
Unclestumpy0707 · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. I just don't get it.
wifixmasher · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
quickhakker · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that some people can't find jobs or do work at all, and no matter how hard they try they also can't live alone easily plus with the Corona virus in place as well money is going out faster than it's coming in
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxers; the science is incredibly clear and they will only be harming their children. The excuse “oh I’m fine” is because THEY WERE VACCINATED AS KIDS. Infectious diseases don’t care how “good” you are; they care about who is vulnerable.
Anthrophaxiom · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
_chad_champion_ · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
sparhawk34 · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people donate to organizations without doing some research on them
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How exactly time speeds up to slows down in space and stuff. Confuses the hell out of me
williamalbatross · 2 points · Posted at 20:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who are deaf learn to read. Like if they’ve never heard how the words sound and how they are spoken/read...then how?
Tired_Thief · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess the same way as anyone else? A written word is a group of lines and squiggles that we assign a meaning to. A hearing person connects that written word to an object/action/etc and also connects a group of sounds to that written word. A deaf person can still connect a written word to an object or action without knowing the sounds all the lines and squiggles represent.
williamalbatross · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure, but how do they read it in their head?
rulerBob8 · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
phones, like how do they work? how do i talk to someone on the other side of the world? and they figured this out before sound recording was widespread? and there’s no lag?
n0th1ng_r3al · 2 points · Posted at 20:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people who are getting upset that 1st line responders are getting special treatment. Like people really get upset. Some guy posted a huge rant when McDonald's was giving out a small coffee and sandwich to first responders. Everyone is like "Well without me X wouldn't able to do their job." I'm an essential employee, but I've never really cared about special treatment, or even being recognized. I have many friends who are nurses it's a fucking tough job I'd step aside in any line do they could shop before me.
Infoplease23 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the first people to reproduce realized that something that happened 9 months prior is the reason that a small person is coming out of my body now. I have thought about this for HOURS!!! I mean, how did they make the connection??
stealthy_vulture · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popularity of modern rap
Sure , there are some ok songs but many modern rap "songs" are just awfull
Do they have melody ? No ! Do they have harmony ? No ! Do they have a good rythm ? Some of them Do tbe lyrics express the audience ? 90% No ! Is any talent involved ? Yes , learning to use autotune
I really cant imagine how will be the music of the future
leannekera · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motherfucking magnets! How do they work?!!
Mysterious_Nerd_ · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers like just why
RSarich · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. 2 years of studying chemistry and I still got no clue what I am doing.
NikkiNikkiNineDoor · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are still homophobic in 2020....
Ferocius-Squirel · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do blind people see? Stupid question I know but like apparently they don’t even see black- boom mind blown
throwaway121505 · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don’t even have a concept of black as they have no experience to compare it to. And on that note I’m leaving before I completely kill my brain.
iggy555 · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
starman575757 · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
SirSuperCaide · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of political parties.
Like, they're supposed to be a bunch of people with common goals trying to achieve those goals. But you don't have to share those goals to be in the party? Why is there a group dedicated to doing a thing where half the people in it don't even want that thing? No wonder the government never gets anything done.
vigilanterepoman · 2 points · Posted at 20:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christians who don't support socialized healthcare. I feel like a core tenet of Christianity is that you give away and help the needy.
They typically say something about "I'd like a choice", which makes sense, but there is evidence that people won't help unless compelled so??
nalgachalupa · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music records. Grooves in plastic making music has to be witchcraft.
doriswillie · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet.
Unfinished-Sentec--- · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
brunoras · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life.
Tpc942769 · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese
hajona · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Patriotism
itz_the_real_dawud · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma system on reddit
Mikeyboy322 · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who put their beliefs on their pets. Such as vegans making their pets vegan.
CouldBeMoreGayer · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"But my cat choose to be vegan" No Karen he did not, you feed him vegan food, what do you expect him to do starve?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
xMaybeACake · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own emotions
ggomm · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry
bevertonrayan · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.....it seems so obvious that many people are too convinced and don't want to doubt their own existence and stuff but if so many million atheists see it then why don't the rest ?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock Market
Luxvee · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astrology. I don’t get how the position of stars, many of which have moved or died by now, can affect your personality in any way, shape or form. The position of burning balls of gas millions of light years away, I just don’t understand how it will influence your life.
_notthatotherguy_ · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Violence against paramedics. Why?
Mah_kiwi · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think it should just be LGB. Now, I would respect them if they just wanted gender and sexuality to have different communities, but they’re really transphobic and it makes me so mad.
ftmdudeguy180 · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely, it doesn’t make sense. I don’t mind if they wanted gender and sexuality to have different communities, like you said, but they can’t just erase the transgender community. We’re people, too
1r0nHamm3r · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Nintendo won’t let each account on Animal Crossing have their own island.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am such a self absorbed asshole. Why can’t I go places in my life. And this isn’t me trying to be humble. I’m genuinely a disappointment. To myself and my family. Why am I like this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
serenawaldorf · 2 points · Posted at 20:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency. I’m too dumb for that shit
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some game developers think making the game stressful will get them more money.
OhLookItsAlpha · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those slapping contests in Russia or somewhere where a guy will inevitably end up slumped on the floor
OWO_FUKBOI_OWO · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just generalize and discriminate against a group of HUMAN FUCKING BEINGS that feel emotions and get permanent mental scaring for their sexuality/race/political stance just... BECAUSE.
elmerohueso · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still not take COVID-19 seriously, even when our country leads the world in deaths caused by it. I try to only go out for contact-less pickup of groceries and food. Some things aren't allowed for pickup orders, though, because of stock, so I have to go in (wearing a mask if I can find one). But on these trips out, I see groups of people walking together, going to the park, and acting like things are normal. My county is third in the state for COVID-19 infection rates, yet leadership refuses to set a stay-at-home order.
bhollen1990 · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a Christian person can vote for Donald Trump.
givmeallurmoney · 3 points · Posted at 20:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FACTS
reallygoodname159 · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why somebody voted trump.
PX-sh0k · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump got elected.
dZZZZZZZZZZZeks · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how people come up with good content
milly1003 · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ending of Interstellar.
StudBoi69 · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
imro10 · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely not understand anything
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people have the AUDACITY
AdorableOCD · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
jujusco · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
mish_munasiba · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably already been addressed on this thread, but how people - ESPECIALLY those who claim to be Christians - can be fans of the current US president, whose name I can't even bring myself to say (Voldemort had nuthin' on this dude). He's an incompetent, unfaithful, disloyal, God-mocking (re his remarks about taking Communion) narcissist.
trizub · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally agree with you. I’ve never understood the attraction either.
bikes-n-math · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non filthy rich Republicans.
SuziVo · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the word "who" isn't pronounced like what, when, why & where.
batterycat · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can someone explain to me how the fuck snakes move with ease
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Danger noodle snek ist pur magik
NismanEsMiSugarDaddy · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Morality and ethics. Like wtf?
pumaman1000 · 2 points · Posted at 20:44:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin or more specifically cryptocurrency.
Tgreent · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time moves differently depending on the amount of gravity. I’ve read/heard explanations, but I can never wrap my head around it for some reason.
aulei · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Heck it’s confusing.
Call_Me_Shieldmommy · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I can understand not being acclimated to a sudden change in authority, like if dogs suddenly became sentient and became free-willed members of society I’d be pretty spooked, especially since I’m unsure if it’d be socially acceptable to pet them and call them best bois. But with racism though it’s been like (in the US) over a hundred years since our emancipation proclamation, I’m surprised some people still can’t accept certain groups as people.
swikss · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
unvaccinated_child69 · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
bitteryw · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the stock market keeps fucking going up.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why research papers are mainly just citations and paraphrases of other research papers of other research papers.
missesrobinson · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers. I have asked repeatedly over and over and the concept simply doesn’t register in my brain.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The weird Greek letters in maths.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're just symbols sourced from the Greek alphabet, ie. They don't mean anything.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IK but they still trippy
yesthisismunch · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not appreciating others hobbies, I am a railroad photographer. People ask me what I like about trains and get legit confused when it’s just a personal interest of mine, like chill out, I’m having a good time enjoying my hobby, go bother someone else.
rheasylvia81 · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can like jogging
Tired_Thief · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go fast make brain feel good!
rheasylvia81 · 1 points · Posted at 16:21:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol not mine
iweirdness · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some doctors fully invested in studying the process of sex transformation yet there are still lots of common diseases that only has small research and there is still no cure for cancer.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people cut themselves? Ive know multple depressed people throughout my life and most of them cut themselves, but how do you deal with pain by creating more pain? I genuinely dont understand
katieb2342 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends a lot on the person. It can be a distraction; you stop focusing on emotional pain if your brain is saying OW PHYSICAL PAIN. Physical pain also releases adrenaline and such that can make you feel better, and there's a more immediate way to fix the pain then there is with emotional pain. It can be a self punishment; I messed up and I'm not worthy of anything, I'll hurt myself as punishment and the scars will remind me I'm a fuckup. And occasionally it's an attention thing; I know depressed people cut themselves sometimes and I don't want to reach out, maybe if my friend sees self harm scars they'll reach out instead.
AKKats · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly do not understand how a complex like our U.S Govt. just sits back and watches
this president and his G.O.P gang, get away with all of the crap that is going on. Former leaders; are they doing anything, at all? Do they care if this country is overtaken and turned into a third world entity. I don't understand how cheating and stealing are ok, and integrity is something to be afraid of. This is WHAT I genuinely do not understand. Why doesn't the military stand down and fight for us, not the jerks behind the fenced gates of the White House. I know I will be disagreed with.....
Reagiamo · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell aren't we actually doing something for climate change. Seams like something even a kid understand it's necessary, but it's at least 50 that we're waiting instead of actually saving the life of future generations
awesome9001 · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the fuck is benefitting from weed staying illegal
TheAbsoluteLastWord · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think they’re too classy and moral to be around it, smell it, or acknowledge anyone who does.
megahurt · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How adults actually believe in god.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I understand everything that happens. I see the chaos but understand it all and I have no understanding to why.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
iceman771 · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The United States not wanting government run healthcare. Especially after all that’s happened in the world.
CateyesNM · 2 points · Posted at 20:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin.
Novafan789 · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racists, like why?
lucky_avacado · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions, just fucking fractions. I can handle polynomials, and algebra stuff, but fuck fractions.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of every 2 people, 4 of em have problems with fractions
lucky_avacado · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's half the population of people in this analogy!
MyBroPoohBear · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still support the IMPOTUS after everything. How is it possible to stick your head in the sand and ignore it all?
Derek_Carr_is_Savior · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would vote for Trump
dreaming_of_beaches · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, as I grow older, am I getting so grumpy?
GrimmRadiance · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hypocritical critiques. If you are will to ask some to change a behavior that you’re not willing to change then why speak to them about it in the first place. If you want someone to change their behavior but you’re doing the same thing, then change your own behavior first at the very least.
Anders_A · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Americans can elect, and support, guys like Trump as their president.
Alazypanda123 · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. Like seriously dead serious. Why the fuck does it matter to you who I date. I don't follow your religion exactly so why does it matter to me.
CiggyBones · 2 points · Posted at 20:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin magnets.
briuh13 · 2 points · Posted at 20:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
megacrazyleo110 · 2 points · Posted at 20:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
linear algebra
DSaidIt · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it just works... but don't know if I'll ever get why
haydilusta · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers
Harrison0918 · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Stock Market. Shouldn’t stocks stay almost exactly the same because as soon as a stock goes up or down it becomes more attractive to buy/sell. It seems like an automatic stabilizer.
chinacochina7 · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how information is stored in those pieces of metal we call motherboards and memory cards. It blows my mind. You take a picture and somehow it gets stored into an SD card that will show you the picture on command. Like how? How is that information stored and then translated into the specific thing we saved...
Brenthalomue · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How crypto currencies have any value to them. Like, you just create a digital currency and all of a sudden it has value?
Dawnbadawn · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hypocrisy, in a more religious sense.
You can't claim that gay people are a mistake, an atrocity, just because "the Bible says so." Cuz ya know what else the Bible says? It says to love other people and that no human is a mistake.
You can't claim to just be acting as a "good christian" when you are mindfully and willingly saying things and doing things that hurt others.
Also applies to other religions, but I understand Christianity more than the others, so that's just an example.
Puresalt5 · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ads for mobile games. The ones like gardenscapes and fishdom where they’re so bad but they’re not even about the game. I don’t understand how these are even verified as good ads for the company that makes the games
marenschrabback · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so ignorant and selfish, that you can’t even discuss with them. Go check the facts man!
recordsbricksNchips · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck my neighbor upstairs is making this much noise all the goddamn time
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life and myself
LostGundyr · 2 points · Posted at 20:51:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
British history. That shit is utterly nonsensical. Biggest clusterfuck I’ve ever seen.
rosiecat18 · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space and time. The mind seriously boggles!
Thebillweneed · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Matrices! (Plural of Matrix), as in the mathematical concept taught in pre calculus. I did so poorly with them, I contemplated just not going any further in math. Nope, ended up with a math minor in college but still can’t tell you what the purpose of a matrix is and how to operate one vs another
wemightlose · 2 points · Posted at 20:53:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
STOCKS!! I never will no matter how it is explained to me.
CapaxInfini · 2 points · Posted at 21:34:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I give 2 dollars to Apple in exchange for a very small percentage of their income. Apple will use those 2 dollars to make more shit and get more income, which comes back to me in the form of 2.5 dollars.
wemightlose · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a very good, simple way to explain it, which is what i need haha! Thanks for the response
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who follow celebrities on social media
Mistrlow · 2 points · Posted at 20:56:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Whisky-LC- · 2 points · Posted at 20:57:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love.
MillionJoker40 · 2 points · Posted at 20:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can make fun of someone for simply having an uncommon hair color.
Like people always treat me as if i don’t have rights because I have ginger hair.
That shit pisses me off.
beefcake04 · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can select things on DVDs/CDs like I would understand it if it was like a tape and you could just fast forward to the part you wanted to listen to but you can do that instantly so what's the deal.
DaamageContrrol · 2 points · Posted at 21:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Wrathxe21 · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminists
orangesundays · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
theodore-beau-ski · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok. And what we’ve done with it
Bobhere · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking Histology.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
thecoolan · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
lelosaur · 2 points · Posted at 21:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks, investing, and economics. The American educational system treated us really well.
Hedgy53 · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin long division.
Pasta_Queen44 · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people (or mainly women it seems) fake orgasms??? Or fake their pleasure in bed??? It's weird and I never got that. Like if you know what you like just... tell your partner that??? And ACTUALLY have a nice time??? Idk it's the weirdest (trend?) I've heard and I just can't comprehend it.
simaobernardo7 · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those LGBT girls with colorful hair that assume that we're offending her even though we're just talking normally
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok isn’t that just vines but with music?
SisterJamiss · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Everyone's basically the same, who cares who is what colour and how much melanin their skin has?
ObjectiveDegree9 · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be racist, sexist or discriminate based on religion etc etc. Like how is that the most important defining characteristic of someone that you can honestly say you HATE them?!
jamersmk · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I swear I'm not completely ignorant, but I cannot wrap my head around the phrase "mutually exclusive ". Nor can I use it correctly in a sentence.
bits_of_entropy · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In this context, "exclusive" loosely means "only one can exist". Also, "mutually" loosely means "together".
Mutually exclusive means that two things/situations can not both happen. It's either one or the other.
For example, consider the following situations related to a traffic light:
The traffic light can not be red and green. It's either red. Or it's green.
Those situations are mutually exclusive. Together, both of those situations (mutually) can not both be true (exclusive).
_The_Internet_1 · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who run in the middle of the street when there is a perfect sidewalk right next them!
liquidfuran · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The government
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
MStreet89 · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. The off-side rule. Wall Street. My own thoughts.
briuh13 · 2 points · Posted at 21:04:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What “bomboclatt” means on all those twitter trends..and at this point I’m too afraid to ask
mitsakesweremade · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think that you can only be friends with someone if you have everything in common. I can get that you might want to have SOMETHING in common, but wouldn't liking all the same things as your friend just make it boring? Same goes for dating.
FlightSatellite23 · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people figured out how to make elaborate and exquisite meals from various ingredients. I’ve been baking a lot of cakes lately and can’t help but wonder what made someone mix all of these ingredients together and bake it for X amount of time.
DuHhZhakakhan · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to forgive myself...
owlcum · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do men love hentai yet judge women for having a tiny crush on animated characters..?
grinryan · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every snow flake can actually be different.
pures0ul · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
StevesArmor · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
ieraaa · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Practicing religion to the point its all you know
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s unbelievable, there are people that can recite the entirety of the Koran word for word...and still not speak Arabic
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people actually kill and killed others in the name of religion, something that was basically started by someone with a book who claimed to be some spiritual communicator of god. aka people who kill/killed others because of something they haven't even seen or even proven with genuine evidence. I really can't.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every.single.day
Th3_Firestarter · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ll never understand why, no matter which side of a barbecue you stand, the smoke always blows in your face.
ovk8 · 2 points · Posted at 21:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrencies. I've been working in IT my whole life yet I never understood why whatevercoins are a thing.
MrUltraOnReddit · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think you're evil, if you have a different (wrong) opinion on something. Especially about politics. I just can't understand why you would end a friendship, just because he thinks different then you. Of cause, if it gets to extreme, I understand why you wouldn't want to hang out with that person anymore, but just because of a disagreement about politics? There is so much more important stuff.
kbaby1719 · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad had to die. It’s been a week today and it still hasn’t settled with me. Even though I saw him. I touched him. I held his hand. It still doesn’t make sense. I mean, he was only 44. He was supposed to have a surgery but it never happened because of COVID-19. And tbh I feel like it would’ve been prevented and he would still be alive today if they had just fucking done the surgery when it was scheduled.
hereforsuicidetips · 2 points · Posted at 21:13:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am so sorry for your loss
kbaby1719 · 2 points · Posted at 00:52:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Still doesn’t feel real but I know it is you know? It’s like a bad dream
GroggyNodBagger · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can always find an extra couple trillion dollars lying around to bail out corporations, but we can't find the money to take care of our own people.
MiddleOfDay · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to end a conversation. Never understood what to say after your done talking.
SilentDeadly16 · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people run away from bad things? Why not try to stop it? I don't understand how people will just let others die
MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 22:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Natural response and dont tell me you wouldn't run. Unless your on the battlefield or conceal carrying your most likely gonna run. I know I am. I'm not gonna leave my gf over some people I dont know.
SilentDeadly16 · 2 points · Posted at 22:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's different if you have people you want to protect. Obviously you'll want to get them away from the danger. And I also do carry something at almost all times. Not old enough to carry but something, yes.
MR_KING--- · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn't talking ab physically leaving my gf I ment dying to protect some people I dont know or care about. Also you carry but you dont?? I dont understand what you mean completely. I've done my time to protect and the only time I'm gonna do that again is to save my loved ones.
SilentDeadly16 · 2 points · Posted at 22:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not legally allowed to carry a firearm because of age but do carry a knife. It's not the best option but if there's one threat it'll do. I wasn't exactly talking about a human threat either. One example is a flood, which happened last year in my town. My dad and I were using our pond canoes to come and take people to safety as the water from the river was still rising. (Tulsa, OK, May 2019)
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see about the carry thing. Also I think I would still be hesitant to go out to save some a random person if there was a natural disaster. I've been there done that. Now that I have my life on track I'm most likely not gonna go out of my way or risk my life to save someone I don't know. You sound younger than me and more willing and trust me I did that. Yet now i have more to lose and I think that's why people dont want to save people. They have to much to lose.
I_POOP_POPCORN · 2 points · Posted at 21:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who bitch and moan about how the world is out to get them while they sit around and do nothing to better themselves.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's so hard to understand I'm curious not trying to argue.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 23:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You answered your own question but I'll repeat. We choose what makes puts us at peace or what we were raised with (which usually comes with acceptance and peace).
You seem at conflict or mabey just closed to religion in general and that's good if it puts you at peace or acceptance. But I would ask you not to shit on somebody's religion its really damn offensive tbh and just a dick move. If you do some research into the concept of god it would answer more of your questions. I was raised Christian so I'll answer some questions.
God didn't put war and evil that was satan. Or in other regions god wants to test us to see if we are worthy of his kingdom. Or in others he put that there to punish those who oppose him.
When it comes to the whole good and evil is really up to the religion some say to see if your worthy others say that you stopped praying. Or others say that we will never have that knowledge. Its really up to your interpretation
I'm personally not religious at all. I was raised Christian but after I got overseas and got some combat experience my faith fell fast. But Please don't shit on someones religion even if your trying to "show them the truth". I can see that your not religious at all. Are you nihilistic or just atheist mabey something else? I'm curious.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 00:56:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You didn't offend me at all and I mean at ALL. I agree with your point but just to add most religions have a Satan or demonic god whi creates the bad.
Also I'm not trying to convert you I dont really want you to get that Idea. I agree with the last paragraph to and it's not just you to pal.
While every religion has different looks and forms of god its usually up to interpretation. Especially due to this modern day and age you can freely choose which religion you want. Unless you live somewhere where they force it on you. And if they do that's fucked I grew up in the bible belt south where the basically shamed you if you weren't Christian.
I'm personally atheist although I have certain morals that I highly believe in but a god is out of my mind. And I'm probably not the best person to answer your questions I would recommend googling some of your questions and, looking deeper in it if you truly want some answers.
And I'm with you on getting frustrated ab religion or just not getting something in general. That's common as shit.
FrigidWriter · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think mental illness is fake or not real.
zachcooper1996 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat. I’m 23 and have been in a lot of relationships and have never felt the urge to cheat.
gamingpanda2323 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word several
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain.
your_pal_crow · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we haven't fixed this absolutely fucked school system yet
NickTheBrick10 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people like bondage porn or something like in 50 shades of gray. you know, something that actually hurts the people for the sake of pleasure.
MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all ab what you like and other people like. I get why alot of people get turned off by it I know I do.
shellsh0ckevincar · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where is the universe? I mean it has to be somewhere, right? And where is that somewhere.
Sometimes when I think about it my head starts to hurt.
wookies_go_raawghh · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life......just life
0-Username-0 · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Collective learning. I’ve thought about it for so long and it still boggles my mind that at one point, the best we could do is create basic tools for hunting and such. How we went from that to what we have now makes me go insane.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok/popularity. Not being toxic. I genuinely don’t understand what’s so great about it And why, rant starting now* people have to be as loud as they can, as obvious as they can, in front of the most people while making them. Talking from experiences of being home during quarantine as well as school. Also it feels like a lot of reposts. At least reddit says that reposters are not awesome.
Rant ended* I just don’t understand the concept or how it became popular. Also can somebody please explain to me why a lot of popular people are a**holes or just do dumb stuff randomly.
PM_ME_UR_SWEET_BOSOM · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mandarin Chinese. Not a lick of it.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed you really have to put some time into it and I sure as hell don't.
kermadii · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why some people think that getting kicked in the nuts hurts more than childbirth
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they have pain meds and a numbing medication for childbirth unless you go natural for what ever reason. They dont for a good kick down there. I'm not trying to argue about the pain of childbirth just that It hurts too
thejordanhall · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:29 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have experience in either?
Exorevival · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
CompetitivePeace · 2 points · Posted at 21:12:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get pets because they are cute and don’t train them, groom them, etc.
danieljamesgillen · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Belgium, Holland, Netherlands. I don't understand what they are and I have no intention of learning. I have visited them before though (I think??)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. It truly makes no sense to me. Some people suck, no matter the color of their skin. I'm not going to give a pass to someone because their melanin is similar to mine. Don't be a dick, end of story. Nor would I expect somone one to trust me based solely on my appearance.
helljess86 · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to love yourself?
yxg88 · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why thanos is considered a villain
web_head91 · 0 points · Posted at 21:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3edgy5me
legobagel23 · 2 points · Posted at 21:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get SO into a professional sports team. To where they're actually screaming at the TV (anger or happiness) or crying when their team wins/loses. I can understand if you have a relative or a friend on the team and I can see having some team spirit. But some people take it so far where it's all they think or talk about. Like who actually gives a flying fuck that much with something that doesn't directly affect them (unless betting).
web_head91 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It doesn't directly affect you because you don't care about it. If someone is interested in a sport and has a favorite team, then that team's performance matters to that person.
Flash-Borden · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics class. I could not wrap my head around it at all and found it horribly frustrating ; it bored me to tears as well
AlejandroPH1 · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rain. Yeah, I know, water goes hot because of that weird fireball in the sky, evaporates, turns into cloud and then falls from the sky as rain, but how the fuck does every particle of steam coordinate to fall at the same time in a particular area. And before you ask: indeed, i'm an idiot.
Anxious-Wasabi · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where time goes
Papermoon8723 · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can hurt their own children. 😐
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant ever get algebra and geometry for longer than 30 minutes after learning it
lizarto · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. It just kind of floats away after a brief period of time...it’s as if it has a set expiration or something.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I can get some of it sometimes but when it starts to change or "build" as they say, I just get lost
nerdwithfriends · 2 points · Posted at 21:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell are we here? What the hell made it so that there is a universe? Why does all of this exist? Why does life exist? I guess we’ll never know.
nbluey · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a plug without a grounding prod still requires that I plug it in one way. It should go in either way I put it in
milkradio · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly? Personal finance. Anything talking about deductibles (???) and interest (????) and so on, I'm like "??????" Like I get the gist, but my brain legit glazes over and I can't take in a word of it and I just don't GET it. It's like I'm trying to read Greek.
nini1423 · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/personalfinance
Try checking out the Wiki and the links in the sidebar.
wisehugo12 · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know the computer components and their functions.
LOCDAR · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much of the world got so dumb and lazy that dumb and lazy ol me is considered kinda smart by comparison -_-
emjay07 · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people think it’s cool to archive all their posts on Instagram when they have a lot of followers so it looks like they only have 1 or 3
boimbon · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still going outside. There are people on instagram going to their friends/partner’s houses and even the BEACH. Are they stupid, understand the situation and just don’t care, or both? Who knows! Not me.
13miles · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism? You demean someone based on the color of their skin? Who their family is? Uh, any -ism really. I just don’t get how people let other peoples lives impact theirs in a way where it has to interrupt their way of living. Is it THAT hard to think: “Well that bothers me, but I can’t see an outcome where if I come for this person, their, or my day will improve.” Why can’t people just let people exist in their own spaces?
iloveanimeandmanga13 · 2 points · Posted at 21:24:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know if you’ll see this but whatever what I just don’t understand is people who claim there child is a “precious angle” when the kid is ether just a normal human being with respect or someone’s worst nightmare when I see the parent/s I just think why do you not know what discipline is you Karen’s (no offense to any Karen’s unless your a bad parent) it’s just infuriating really so this is to any one who is going to be a parent or knows someone that is going to be a parent don’t spoil your kid let retype that spoil them but not all the time spoil them when they get good grades or discipline them but not to much and make sure your child eats healthy and if they say I don’t like vegetables just say vegetables and fruits are really good for you and explain how they are good for the body and as a child (not 10 or younger I won’t say my age) I love to eat fruits and veggies because it makes me feel so happy and good but yeah I am going to stop with how long this is so I guess have a great and wonderful fantastic day/night
Imamuffinz · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do lesbians use dildos when they dont like men? I guess either way, we all fuck ourselves 🤣
Adrian1403_ · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
imnotagringo · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drinking and smoking.
Dang3r0usDav3 · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The health insurance system. I’m relatively smart on several subjects, but I don’t understand how the system works relating to doctor visits, how it’s profitable for whom, and why a person just can’t go buy an effective health insurance policy. Don’t get me started on networks, deductibles, and co-pays.
ollymillmill · 2 points · Posted at 21:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys send dick pics when its common knowledge they hate them and why guys get abusive when a girl doesnt reply. I WISH i knew the psychology behind it!
BurgerSleeves · 2 points · Posted at 21:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont know why people own coffee machines. 1 buy one 2 buy coffee beans 3 trial and error to find how you like to make coffee 4 wait. In all of that time I could have gotten coffe at a starbucks or mcdonalds quick and cheaper. Coffee machines are just inconvienient.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trying to start an argument, but while that sounds cheaper short-term I can't imagine it is cheaper long-term.
A very serviceable French press coffee "maker" can cost $5-15 USD. Another $10 for the coffee. After 15 cups, you would at least break even on McD's and be way in the black compared to Sbuck's.
I understand the argument for the experience and choices Starbucks offers, and the convenience and choices McD's offers. But if saving money and reducing waste is the goal, it still makes sense to me to brew at home.
BurgerSleeves · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mk. I guess just from my stand point I dont drink much coffee, so if you do drink a lot of coffee it would be better tk get a coffee m'a'k'e'r. Thanks
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha yeah exactly, I drink it almost daily (and some days, twice) so I think I've saved thousands compared to only getting Starbucks.
Complementary-Badger · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who view kindness as weakness.
Vionnat · 2 points · Posted at 21:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't just live and let live.
Clayman8 · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers and people that vote for Trump.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
😂😂
clazzlevajazzle · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Multi level marketing and how people still legitimately think it is a grand money making scheme.
goodysnowflake · 2 points · Posted at 21:28:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How older siblings accept their younger siblings. That kid just stole your thunder and at least 1/2 of your attention if not more depending on how many kids there are. Older siblings should 100% want to destroy this new competition but they don’t (excepting psychopaths). I am a younger sibling and I milked that attention for all I could to the detriment of my two older siblings, yet they still love me.
Pan-in-the-Pantry · 2 points · Posted at 21:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
McCraigB · 2 points · Posted at 21:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers.
We have so much proof and data and reasoning. Why?
Thatbeanpaw20 · 2 points · Posted at 21:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Chloena · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think it's totally fine to have 4 or more kids.
DragonianLord · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like bing mean on games, i view games as this way to relive stress and whenever I am mean or someone is mean to me it just makes everything tense. Rainbow six is one of my favorite games and i hate the community thanks to like 5 people along with gta. I just wanna be able to play without being called the N word over and over. Like is that too much. And yes i played cod where it was normal didn’t care since i didn’t really like the game
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You humans
judewijesena · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people leave the water running when they brush their teeth. Doesn't make any damn sense
slottypippen · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people can’t take a joke or a hint.
C4Dynamite39 · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone be taking the toilet paper of all things
pheret87 · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people pay for porn anymore.
seriousquinoa · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything even exists in the first place.
Hayes231 · 2 points · Posted at 21:33:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cruelty
thenightmancommeth88 · 2 points · Posted at 21:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife’s inability to put a new toilet roll on facing forward.
neesofspades · 2 points · Posted at 21:35:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
options trading
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who choose not to be in their children’s lives
Liscetta · 2 points · Posted at 21:36:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fashion.
I buy clothes that i like, usually on sale. I don't understand buying clothes i don't really like just because everyone wears it (and they are usually overpriced for this reason)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
MyOwnDirection · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are asexual. How could one not want and need sex?
msundrstoodcmmndr · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
desertraindragon · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why major companies don't just lower their production. If the top 10 polluting companies lowered it by 10%, global warming would be solved within a few years. What the fuck do they think money is going to do when the world is dead or almost dead and we're gone?
What can the amount of money they already have do? At what point is it just a number? Oh wow, you can make that huge number slightly smaller to get bigger again you must have a huge dick.
IntermittentJuju · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people don’t get that Trump is a conman. (Nothing to do with ideology, left or right)
Rome_Ham · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we work until we die and try to make ourselves feel better about it by obtaining unnecesaary things. All we do is consume and reproduce, and everyone seems to turn a blind eye.
souporpotato · 2 points · Posted at 21:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I could list SO MANY THINGS. I genuinely don’t understand maps. I don’t understand brains. I don’t understand why noises make me angry but also some noises make me soothed. Idk.
haahdia · 2 points · Posted at 21:47:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chess. It’s funny because I’m someone who learns things pretty quickly once I put my mind to it. I taught myself how to juggle (I know it has nothing to do with chess it’s just a fun fact) simply because I was bored. Taught myself how to play solitaire because the actors on the office always played it during the episodes. And now I’m learning Hangul (the Korean alphabet). However, chess is something I don’t understand. Both my brothers are above average chess players and have tried to teach me since we were all barely teenagers (I just turned 22). I know the names of the different pieces and how they move but I simply do not understand why and when you should move the different pieces to this place and not that place. Also checkmate is not logical, how do you get stuck why can’t you just move wherever you want you are the king for crying out loud!
youdontknowme_homie · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We just became best friends. I’ve never understood chess and I’m nearly 40. Like you, I completely understand the concept, but I can’t translate it into game play. And it’s basically the only game I don’t get!
haahdia · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m so happy I’m not the only one. Let’s make a club of people who know how to play chess but don’t know how to really play it!
youdontknowme_homie · 2 points · Posted at 04:37:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok I’ve just spent a little while thinking about what our club would be called and I’ve come up with nothing. That’s how little I understand chess!
lynng · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Directions as in maps and NSEW. I get the idea behind it but when I go to use a compass I get so lost. It's why I've never went for my instructor diving course because I couldn't lead anything other than a drift dive. I understood the navigation part when someone is there but under the water I'm going a different way to everyone else. I'm the person that leaving a shop I forget which way I came in from and end up doubling back on myself.
saribear420 · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why more people don’t go vegan
cue hateful replies
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the FED keeps printing money but we have to keep paying taxes for some reason
yuxngdogmom · 2 points · Posted at 21:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People over the age of 8 who voluntarily get up at 6am.
siavash91 · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity, and why it's related to mass?!
Famous-Crumb · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How magnets work.
kissmygrass69 · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone like Helen Keller learned to read or communicate... Basically how do deaf people learn to read? Without an internal monologue how are they taught to read and communicate and know what things mean? If someone is born deaf that must be so hard to begin to teach them things???
brainacpl · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electromagnetic wave frequencies are virtually independent. In simpler words how radio stations don't interfere with one another
stuntman1108 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polarization of antennas, frequency matching of antennas both transmitting and receiving, and really well tuned bandpass filter cavities. RF is black magic. I am an amateur radio enthusiast and collect antique CB radios. I like to open them up and modify them with channel kits, and see just how many "channels" between channels, and how many "above" and "below" the normal 1-40 I can get. Channel 1 being 26.965Mhz, and channel 40 being 27.405Mhz.
Brookeh1224 · 2 points · Posted at 21:50:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of all the extra course requirements in college. Teach me what I need to know in a timely manner. Don’t be takin my money
Edythator · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can be unfaithful in their relationships
Angatita · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How record players work. How does a single groove on a big disc make distinct voices and instruments?
stuntman1108 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The grooves are literally the sound amplitude being pressed into vinyl. The stylus rides in this groove, and is attached to a teeny tiny arm, that is attached to basically a "microphone". As the stylus moves side to side in the groove, it moves the pickup and forth, making a small amount of voltage and current that varies just like the tone and volume fo your voice does. Before my hearing went to shit, (REALLY bad tinnitus), I could hear it without the turntable being hooked up. You also might be able to. Just put on an LP, set the stylus in the starting groove, and hold your head very close in a quiet place. You should be able to actually hear the stylus riding in the groove and making noise.
Here's a link:
https://youtu.be/eJFuRnolwWk
Angatita · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea like the mechanics make sense but it’s like how does a groove separate out into very distinct sounds like a singer with a band accompany with all the different distinct instruments with just some grooves. I guess moreso how can a groove hold THAT much data and be able to play it back “relatively” clearly.
GotLowAndDied · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The level of narcissism on social media. Nobody cares what you think about any topic. No one. Not even your family. We don't need to know that you support one idea over another. I don't care if you you think the coronavirus is fake, and you aren't some special enlightened being tasked with bringing us the truth.
People think that just because you can reach hundreds of people through a facebook post, that means they all care what you have to say.
Also the things I see people post on their public profiles is appalling. I understand coming on reddit and saying whatever you want, but to have that displayed in public is crazy.
fresnoyosemite69 · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does half my paycheck go to ?
ryholol · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that this thread is going to end up in a YouTube video being read by a robotic voice, and that I'm going to watch that video and be entertained by it.
Rogue100 · 2 points · Posted at 21:51:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers!
jesustwin · 2 points · Posted at 21:53:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who won't try new food. Worst case scenario you have a bad taste in your mouth for 20 seconds. Best case, amazing taste in your mouth with the option to do it again forever
Bridgebrain · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gates become circuits become processors become computers.
On a surface level, I get that the gate does some little mathmatic operation to pass electricity through. How this gets to even the complexity of a 1990s processor chip is beyond me.
yeetbot654 · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why pp smol
HieronymousRex · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a handful of songs that when I listen to I get chills on my neck and arms, and very emotional. I don’t know why (they are songs I like and I’m not an emotional person at all normally). There are no good or bad experiences tied to any of them either.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Joe Biden is the nominee
Mah_kiwi · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like seriously. How was Sanders not nominated? He’s great.
Neko-Akuma · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human race
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
S O C I E T Y
WhyWouldYou1111111 · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global economics and why the national debt matters. Also Reaganomics.
DinnerBread · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
I'm in a profession where there is a lot of electrical work, and somehow I skate by the most basic problems by just asking someone else, or doing a Google search. I usually get weird looks, but managed to survive quite a while with this approach.
Over the years, I've bought all sorts of "Electricity for Dummies", wiring projects for kids, etc. There is just some sort of knowledge gap between what these teach, and what I actually want / need to know.
I do wiring projects all the time, make connectors, solder joints, etc. but I just don't grasp how everything actually works. Volts, amps, current, AC / DC, and the list goes on. All the videos I watch are either meant for 5 year olds, or they are drawing formulas on a board and my brain spasms.
ifyouareoldbuymegold · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How do people keep on.
Sometimes I don't understand how unhappy people can carry on with their lives. I have been many times so close to send everything to hell and run away.
micgreez · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I consider myself a numbers person, but I don’t understand the stock exchange
JRQuigley · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How farm subsidies are a good thing.
Farmers paid to NOT grow food. I don't get it. The argument I hear is that if all Farmers grew crops, then the individual Farmers wouldn't be able to make any money and the farms wouldn't survive.
Ok.. isn't cheaper food a good thing? Wouldn't we be able to feed more people for less effort? I don't see why this is bad.
The farmer would lose his farm. Ok, that sucks, but if I get a job that moves into unprofitable territory, I have to do the whole unemployment thing and look for a new job. Why don't they?
BlueeDoveTail · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Internet works
tom_stokes123 · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This video does a good job : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_LPdttKXPc.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction.
Boggles me every time I realize that there are people out there who would genuinely want to have sex with the person they love.
For me, that's like saying I'd watch porn of my crush. Disgusting. I'd rather watch porn of people I don't know.
Maybe I'm the one out of the norm?
Ephsylon · 2 points · Posted at 21:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Muricans put up with their current president.
wizza84 · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a camera works!! HOW?? Like I get it, but I don’t get it. Simply amazing
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Why a single formula when you can get to it many different ways. Guess it is a language or something?
mcscooby · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t fathom how Hellen Keller could have accomplished the things in her life that she did. How was she able to communicate? I don’t understand how you could do that just by touch. But ofc I haven’t learned about her yet in school so I don’t know much about her.
I also don’t understand simplifying radicals. Or anything to do with radicals and I’ve yet to get lower than an A in geometry. How have I come this far. What the heck.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can completely deny science and not trust people who devoted their whole lives at accredited universities.
counterspell · 2 points · Posted at 22:01:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. The Stock Market. Financial Aid. 401Ks. Basically anything to do with money and numbers. But I can do long division in my head. Also the Electoral College (we so don't need that bullshit)
prodigymikey · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. All of them
ikeif · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Estimating distance.
I legit cannot look at a building and say that’s 30 feet tall.
I can’t look at a car and say it’s six feet wide.
I can barely make 1/4” or 1/2” cuts when cooking.
Just the whole processing of measurement is foreign to me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines. I know they’re ‘outdated technology’, but scanning a document and then somewhere in the world another machine prints my hand writing when it receives the fax? Wild!
graceannabelw · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wait what you can fax handwritten things!? i thought it was just typed documents 🤯
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:10:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can! It’s 2020 and it still blows my mind!
Masterchiefyyy · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why poor people think that the Republican party and Trump give a fuck about them
russmuss · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it only racist if your white
thebutinator · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an ssd saves things
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many goddamn people not only seem to get through life but enjoy it too
HOW??
DixieJoy · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexuality. I’m a Pansexual meaning that my attraction (both romantic and sexual) is regardless of gender or sex. I do kinda understand sexual attraction being based on genitalia, but why also romantic. You could meet someone who is absolutely perfect for you but turn them down just because you’re not attracted to their label. This also brings up the problem of loving trans people. If a straight man falls in love with a trans woman I’m all for that but how can he like her sexually if he’s not attracted to dicks??? As someone who feels attraction regardless of gender and sex I don’t understand why anyone is only attracted to a certain type of person or genitalia, and I don’t under stand how someone with an attraction to only one genitalia can be sexually active/attracted to someone without that genitalia. I’m not transphobic (non-binary myself) but as a pansexual I’m very confused about all this.
Shy_Poke · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
PM_Me_Pikachu_Feet · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that have their pants down enough to show their underwear.
I don't get it. It makes you look like nothing more than a complete fucking idiot that can't dress himself and has lost so much self respect that they stopped caring about their image.
PNDLivewire · 2 points · Posted at 22:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people could ever legitimately think The Big Bang Theory was funny or good at all.
selfaware-imbecile · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people go to church when god is supposed to be everywhere
gpierson99 · 2 points · Posted at 22:10:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people allow politics to drive their emotions. I mean yeah, I understand you have your opinions. But how can you hate someone for having different ones on something SO STUPID. Politics in general is stupid, just a bunch of old farts arguing on tv. If this country united again, I feel everyone would be quite happier. (US)
FellvEquinox · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism and homophobia
I dont get it and I never want to.
eothang · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could just google it... but where's the fun in that. What do people mean "When a tree falls in the woods but no ones around, does it make a sound?" I've never understood what that was asking. Of course it makes a sound. Things are happening all over the place and they make noise. Seems like a reality we share so WHAT DO PEOPLE MEAN WHEN THEY BRING IT UP BECAUSE IT'S HONESTLY SO WEIRD?!
EvilPeaches · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love this one. Sound is just vibration right, so until it hits a receiver like an ear drum, it stays a a vibration. the sound is made in your head. (or whatever, what do I know)
KnockMeYourLobes · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what I don't understand? Why having eyebrows that look like they were drawn on with a Sharpie is popular or really even a thing.
I don't get it.
therealmyself · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it is related to Solipsism. The belief that you can only be sure that you exist because you experience your own reality.
omgooses242 · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I just don't really get it. How can you hate someone so intensely knowing nothing about them?
devilish_angel93 · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the USA takes 2 years to campaign for president.
Notylerbathtime · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why can’t we wear our hoods/hats in school
crystalmayze · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how people can be so close to each other for years but it their relationship is destroyed in a matter of seconds
bearr_baitt · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i genuinely will never understand why people feel the compulsive need to argue through their phones towards another human about an opinion they feel strongly about that clearly doesn’t matter. religious topics, political topics, or just arguing about one show being superior to another. i understand civil dialogue in private, but going ape shit in the public arena of youtube comments towards one another and feeling so empowered by what you say to someone bewilders me lol seems people get off on making someone else feel stupid, and even if you’re technically right and know your shit..... it still doesn’t matter....... in a nutshell, why can’t people see a statement online that they disagree with and move the fuck on??
Jawnski · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi
tontonrancher · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Degrees of freedom (statistics)
I thought I understood it when I was an undergrad, doing ecology and basic statistics. Then I got into grad school... Biostatistics, Experimental Design, Non-Parametric Analysis, Multi-Raster Spectral Analysis.... Degrees of freedom started feeling like a word people just put into the sentence, like an axiom, and we're supposed to just understand its relevance.
It seemed like a sort of cliche for statistical profs to always ask, "and what are your degrees of freedom then?" I could, mostly, dutifully regurgitate their expectations. But, particularly in factoral and MANOVA circumstances...I'm asking myself why the fuck do we do this?
.. it was statistical power enigma for me. It was first just a calculation... but now, with respect to all manner of different statistical methods.... how to make any sense of WHY this a thing we do.
Made me feel like I didn't belong in the sciences... like I was just plugging data into these spread sheets, and hoping I wasn't violating assumptions when I picked a statistical test. .. and peer reviewing.. it seemed like almost everyone, at least us biologists, were always violating assumptions of the test. .. and no mention of degrees of freedom or statistical power in our papers proffered for peer review.
SpaceTrucker01 · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is not in jail.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I keep looking in the mirror when I know I'm going to hate what I see.
111z · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
justausername13579 · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market and how prices fluctuate so wildly
MoreDakka907 · 2 points · Posted at 22:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
HBgamer6 · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is wrong with pirating movies
wellskarriner · 2 points · Posted at 22:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The American political system
MoFauxTofu · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine you're a billionaire
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck’s a simp?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly? Trump supporters.
I feel like you have to live in denial of reality to support the guy or think he's doing a good (and most think great) job.
It's baffling.
ocxtitan · 2 points · Posted at 22:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People continuing to vote against their best interests, even after all of this that's going on.
ResidentLazyCat · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I really dont understand the concept. Cultural differences, yes. Judging someone on their look? I really cannot understand the logic.
Singlehander · 2 points · Posted at 22:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who answer someone's question about a product on Amazon with the statement "I don't know".
comradequiche · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or “I didn’t get it yet, but I’m sure I’ll love it when it comes in. 5 stars”
Rick2fresh · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can die our sins
madebylondon · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to spell the word avalible
jcsmile · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to get significant other’s names tattooed on them
Singlehander · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or tattoos in general, especially on your face.
jcsmile · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol well I understand tattoos in general, I have quite a few myself. I just don’t get putting something that could only temporarily mean something significant to you, like a significant other. Kids names, fine, I get that.
But yeah, I am with you on the face tattoos, our society is just not ready for that one yet
PaperCoverRock · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who genuinely aren't racist like Trump.
georgiegoodvibes · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
fancyllamapants- · 2 points · Posted at 22:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we reply to blown up Reddit posts when we know nobody will ever read it
Racoon_Heist · 2 points · Posted at 22:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The deal with airline food
TofTofTof · 2 points · Posted at 22:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baby on board signs in cars- like "Welp I was gonna ram that car in front and force it into a ditch but now I know there's a BABY ON BOARD! I will spare your worthless adult lives for the sake of saving this innocent baby...for now". It feels like the insinuation is that at some ill defined moment or age that a person is deemed not important enough to be driven considerately around? Like we can't tailgate the car with the baby in it but we can tailgate the car with the middle aged commuter in it and there's a weird grey area of age in between when it might be ok to kill other people?
thewildryanoceros · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s meant for first responders in the event of an accident so that they know to look for and save a baby
Arctinius · 2 points · Posted at 22:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Reddit decided to go full emoji keyboard with the awards.
Happedaps · 2 points · Posted at 22:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe and vote for Trump, it is beyond me that people actually find him charismatic
dollargenralisgay · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females.
IFlewAnAirplane16 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who discriminate (ie religion, sexuality, gender, gender identity, race, etc). What do you get out of it? If it’s not directly affecting your life, what do you care about someone’s skin color or who they marry or how they pray?
26bradberries · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to make a hair bun
ToniToni879 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The real meaning of 69.
throwaway125dd · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SJWs who are offended by things that don't personally concern them. For example a white straight middle class person being loud and vocal about the plight of minorities. It just sounds so disingenuous. Do they not understand how fake they sound? It's OK to care about that stuff, just don't go overboard
AnonyJest · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hate going into the shower but I never want to leave when I get in
NoPartyJustAmerican · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why Americans continue to tolerate politicians who give the largest corporations and richest NO STRINGS TAX CUTS amounting to trillions of dollars in lost revenue? During this COVID-19 calamity, additionally legislatures have passed a 2 trillion $ bailout for distressed families and of course corporations and the richest and so called SMALL BUSINESS( they are not mom and pop),500 billion for Americans out of work and an additional 1 1/2 trillion to Corporations, no strings whatsoever, just welfare or a windfall. IBM was asked why medical supplies ordered by a governor was not delivered, They replied a lame excuse about their warehouse but finally came clean as this crime(price gouging) continued. They said, oh we're shipping them to another country who mad ed a higher bid! So they took the no strings tax cuts, took the bailout Congress has recently given them and feel like they have no obligation for all that FREE TAX PAYER borrowed money? Then there are the airlines, who after Congress decided the next bailout needed to include some expectations(like the loan Pres.Obama passed for the Chrysler Car Co). Yes, you know they got billions in no strings tax cuts ALREADY, anyway they said, oh,we're thinking about refusing that grant. So they want something for nothing, private companies who should fail if they can't manage their business. It's not like another airlines will not be started to meet demand. Finally, Trump insists not only should all the cruise passengers of all ships refused port of entry by any other country but these cruise ships who don't pay taxes here; that's why they all fly other countries flags and are not subject to our law 7 miles out also got free no strings money. As far as passengers, take American citizens, all the rest will have to remain on their ships! Instead, anyone who didn't display symptoms were disembarked supposedly but with no guarantee they would go to their country and certainly with no guarantee if they had COVID-19. Can anyone understand this heist that is going on, with minimal to no resources going to actual Americans in need who are dependent on help the first time in their lives, or first insuring hospitals are supplied with necessary equipment to treat patients and keep their staffs safe? How about investing in some breathing machines, testing kits and masks which certainly wouldn't amount to the no strings tax cuts they have given to the privileged few!
nalk201 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get offended when I speak truthfully and literally or why they don't do the same. Everything is so much more complicated with these extra layers of communication people make.
qwer68 · 2 points · Posted at 22:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. I don’t understand how to invest, it vesting, up and down, all of it just goes right over my head. I’ve had people explain it to me but it goes right over my head.
Edit: Typo
WildCard565 · 2 points · Posted at 22:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the President and government are the way they are right now and why they aren’t handling this pandemic better.
Why I’m stuck at home studying rather than on my Family Medicine rotation and studying for boards.
FiinC · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people believe anything at face value, no information you receive is instantly true just because it came from someone/something you trust.
Nagilina · 2 points · Posted at 22:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone choses to risk the entire life they have, for sex with someone they don't care about. I will never understand how that half hour of sex will ever measure up to the years, or even decades, you have shared with someone you really care about. (Not talking about the ones who are in bad relationships they just don't have the guts to get out of, but happy people who somehow still cheat).
Xia0mia0 · 2 points · Posted at 22:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science deniers. Science isn't an opinion, you can't just not believe in true to life facts, but a lot of people do. It's fucking bizarre.
gameknight96 · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vax.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Not-Alpharious · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grammar, I can write a sentence ok but if you ask me what a gerund is or where it is in the sentence I have no fucking clue.
NefariousSerendipity · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are blind to themselves.
Sergeant_Squirrel · 2 points · Posted at 22:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating. However small the competition, however insignificant the prize, there will always be a cheater.
Some examples that come to mind: Anabolic steroids in gyms, hacking in games, Adderall for studying...
LucasGames253 · 2 points · Posted at 22:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some parents punish their children for being close to people of the opposite sex but the moment they become old enough to have a family the parents ask when they are going to have grandchildren.
EverGreatestxX · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have to be forced to take classes on subjects that I don't care about in order to get my bachelor's degree.
darkblazestorm · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"What do you think about X thing?" I genuinely don't know how to answer that... Its such a broad question... And i really cant get around what to say.
edd6pi · 2 points · Posted at 22:34:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make small talk. Specially with strangers. My dad is one of those people who can find someone to talk with everywhere he goes and I genuinely envy him. I have trouble making conversation with people I know, I can’t fathom being able to have a fluid conversation with a complete stranger.
LoveNotH86 · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How brutally selfish people are ok with their actions deep down. I’m talking the extremes like cheaters, scammers, and the like. I would not be able to live my life knowing I had screwed other people over.
Yoriq · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh, do you mean everyone?
DrEZdoesIT · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some women wear tops that show cleavage but don’t want people to look at their cleavage.
KingKang8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe started. Was there nothing and then suddenly something? Or was there always something? Both are impossible but one of them must be true
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capturing video with a digital camera. I can read about the process a million times, but the idea of it will never get less mind blowing.
phascolarctos92 · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can allow the Government get away with the things they are doing.
Wowthatsprettybad · 2 points · Posted at 22:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy from Ikea
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This tiger king bullshit. He’s fucking gross, stop aiming your attention at carol baskin and aim it at him, he’s a piece of shit and the doc intentionally left out details of his life to make him seem more likable
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records. Like, I understand the science behind it and I could write out how it works and everything. But, like...HOW?
bndboo · 2 points · Posted at 22:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What to do with my hands
txn8tv · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am seriously so sick of all the “cute” videos of how bored families and newscasters are spending the lockdown. It’s making me feel annoyed not happy.
Birdez18 · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans haven't learned to stop killing each other.
Dr_LeonardChurch · 2 points · Posted at 22:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stupidity of humans as COVID-19 continues to spread. GO HOME YOU DON'T NEED MULCH!
pilkintonlauren · 2 points · Posted at 22:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedophilia
comfybutter · 2 points · Posted at 22:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, transphobia, bigotry, and hatred for no reason
Idfuckmars · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does the fridge crush ice??
OyasumiBerserk · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe there's small people working with spikes and doing that job for you and thay take a little of food once in a while as pay
Idfuckmars · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wasn't there an old movie about little elves or something that live in your house and do that?
OyasumiBerserk · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And maybe there is we don't know the mysteries in our world
bullevard · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I recently opened up mine and it has a rotating blade that spins around as the ice goes through.
But mine also does a really poor job crushing ice.
SunSpotDropTop · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat on their SO?
I'm not including the kind where one spouse/partner is an abusive piece of shit and the other is "cheating" with another party that is treating them like an actual human being.
I mean the cheating with little to no explanation except for the desire of (more) sex related problems or a romantic falling out or even just greed. I don't understand why they do it? If you're able to safely talk and address the issue then why not do it? Why not talk it out and figure if this relationship is worth being with someone who clearly d
I understand the circumstances of not being able to simply leave when your money is tied into property, but...I literally don't understand why? Why cheat? If you aren't happy and feel like you are being used, then leave.
Maybe it's my lack of life and relationship experience but I don't logically get why it happens.
Whyfakepockets · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fake pockets
rymarre · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 5G conspiracy theory believers managed to become adults without dying from stupidity related injuries
GuardianoftheVoid · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you humans can't seem to accept your mortality
RockLobsterBitch · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything and everyone.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Letals · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings and the TV schedule. What happens at 2am? Do they put on a movie and just say that the movie is an hour, and really it’s two hours, but we lost an hour?
I get really worked up thinking about it. Have since I was a small child, am now in my mid 30s.
ginwithbutts · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abortion.
Like, how does nearly everyone that supports abortion support some arbitrary time (like 6 months?) and say "yes, after this point it is too human and has the right to live and not have it's body destroyed, but before that, the woman's right to her body trumps the fetus' right to live."
Like, does everyone just come to the same understanding on timing? It's like, if you support abortion, you have to support this because the rest is unethical.
It makes no sense to me because so many people are so confident about their stance.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
GenXWaster · 2 points · Posted at 22:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
JamWat23 · 2 points · Posted at 22:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell in all that's holy is Donald Trump running a country?
captainbezoar · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why human beings just cant be decent. Sure there are many decent people, but why the fuck do assholes need to ruin things for everyone else?
sandy_biscut · 2 points · Posted at 22:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can deny global warming.
itiswhatitiskid · 2 points · Posted at 22:55:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think the world revolves around them
trix4rix · 2 points · Posted at 22:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Medical insurance/billing here in the USA.
Call insurance: "your yearly checkup is free!" Go to doctor: "that'll be $84 for your co-pay, plus $243 for your prescription to treat seasonal allergies! Thanks! Come again!"
readerk8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like Trump. For real. I’m not saying you have to be a liberal. But people that honestly really think he’s a good guy and was a good candidate to be our president. Like how do you look past all the horrendous things he’s done and said and how he behaves and speaks and say hey let’s elect him.
darw1nf1sh · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can claim to believe and trust Trump.
A_Random_Guy641 · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand people being assholes/socially irresponsible/destructive for no reason. This extends from people opposing regulations that would mitigate climate change, to people that walk/ride side-by-side on the bike path, to litterers, to those people that will accelerate in their cars when you start signaling, to people that just break things for no reason other than that they could.
It takes so little effort to be a decent person that I just can’t fathom how people can have so little consideration to their fellow man.
I don’t mean people need to be living Saints that work and work solely for others, but rather just living and let live.
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 01:09:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Verbatim.
I wanna come back to this, but when I'm coffeed to point of coherence (manana) cuz I wanna deliberate a la 'case in point' I'm enduring lately. Semi-rummy now...
A_Random_Guy641 · 2 points · Posted at 00:29:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You doing better?
Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 02:17:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanna be in right frame of mind & amid atmosphere which allow for optimal thought-into-my-scribbles as to this, because there are some key points I want to be careful with/about.
Today's been a semi-rollercoaster, so I've mumbled in these parts perhaps, but have had a few elements here where I am which I hafta be semi-paying attention to.
Bear with me & thanks.
Papiomar_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people give so much emotions to things. I get mad but not like others do, I get mad then get over it after 5-10 minutes. I know people who spend the whole day mad and just let it ruin their day from there. Also why people complain so much about the same thing over and over and over, I complain once then that’s the last you’ll hear of it. ......am I a robot?
Deadshotcrp · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the same way
Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
David Byrne gave us the lyric, "Say something once, why say it again?"
Seralyn · 2 points · Posted at 23:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people continually vote against their own interests.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH
Damn_Amazon · 2 points · Posted at 23:08:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Funko Pops.
Why people want to birth and raise children.
Why people want to be married.
galacticturd · 2 points · Posted at 23:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people named things (tree, Sky, house, bricks, etc)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does an automatic gearbox works, it's such an engineering marvel and I don't understand anything except the torque converter.
gymkhana_jessie · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abortion
goodjobmm · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
zdgreer · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why lesbians do strapons?
Paige_Pants · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras are black magic
columboWobbles · 2 points · Posted at 23:11:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese writing
Giant-Taco · 2 points · Posted at 23:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they get Super Glue into those tiny little tubes without sticking everything together.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my work place refuses to shut down during this pandemic.
tiefling_sorceress · 2 points · Posted at 23:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people throw masks and gloves literally everywhere
hellcat-18 · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my sister broke with her man when he is a working man, takes her places, out to eat, gives her some stuff, goes to car meets with her, and she broke because he doesn’t text her a lot. He’s a quiet guy btw...
jmeagher98 · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets
curseyouZelda · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magic
reallyConfusedPanda · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think about moving your hand as hard as you can for hours on end, it won't move an inch... but as soon as you move your hand, you just move it
Like WTF brain?
curseyouZelda · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooh, you’re good
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That in the millions and millions and so on of years of existence, here I am awake and alive and I’m myself, but after less than a century I’ll be gone. Existence will carry on going forever and I’ve just stop being. I can’t imagine there not being an ‘I’.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Mounds bars.
shoozies · 2 points · Posted at 23:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why combustion engine cars have so many parts.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of it is to run accessories and keep it in timing. Any parts specifically you don’t get the point?
boib · 2 points · Posted at 23:21:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think "et cetera" is abbreviated ect.
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every accolade, thumbup, backpat, and upvote your way!
Wish I could gild, steak and lobster dinner, limo service, ETC.
tl;dr...Yes. Thank you. Seriously.
Yaboithatdude · 2 points · Posted at 23:23:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I want to go to sleep but stay up for 72 hourz
lacmpim · 2 points · Posted at 23:27:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have absolutely no empathy for others. I have worked retail for 15 years now. Not my first career choice, but you do what you have to for your family. In the past 15 years I thought I had seen everything, eight years on 3rd shift you see some shit. However I have never seen such hatefulness and downright rude behavior. I understand people are scared, I'm sacred too. Fear doesn't excuse any of it. We all need to be kind to each other and remember everyone is going through this pandemic. If we go through it together, helping each other it will be a lot easier on us all.
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are stupid. Thank you for doing this for us.
Brevendean1 · 2 points · Posted at 23:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does an air fryer work?
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You circulate hot air around the food
Way_2_Go_Donny · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrities unqualified opinions being relevant.
klinghofferr · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit lmao and also politics
notyourregularindian · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
thatoneasiankid90 · 2 points · Posted at 23:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how a kilogram of feathers weigh the same as a kilogram of steel
jayyers2 · 2 points · Posted at 23:33:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning to life, the universe and everything else. I really thought it was 43...
P1kmac · 2 points · Posted at 23:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What my wife does for a living.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's obsession with sports.
jam-jam995 · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we...just like...HAVE internet? And it...floats all around me? Like the force?
Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nor do I.
Now playing: Use The Force by Jamiroquai
OhIndo · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am the way I am
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/2real4meirl
Abusabus00 · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's political stances...as in, voting party line no matter what.
Biden is a perfect example. He's not going to be any better for the U.S. than Trump currently is but the expectation from the Democratic party is that everyone who voted Bernie or any other candidate should now fall in line and vote Biden.
Like why? Simply so the Democrats can beat out the Republicans but nothing changes for the vast majority of the people?
The part I don't understand is how/why people blindly follow this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On top of all that, username involves name of a song.
:-)
Sand-between-my-toes · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed. I understand wanting and striving for more in life but once you get over a certain net worth or achievement level (diff for everyone, I know), what propels people to want more and step on others to get there?
bizbizbizllc · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand stocks and their values. I always thought stocks were bases off of the companies performance, but it seems like they hold value like Pokemon trading cards.
Sudden_Place · 2 points · Posted at 23:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can see doctors and nurses and people die and still not take this virus seriously?
444mrjimmy · 2 points · Posted at 23:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Automatic transitions I’ve seen them apart but still can’t understand them, everything else in a car I can understand, even the other transmissions (manual, cvt, dual clutch, (haven’t looked into hydrostatic yet)) but good old fashioned automatics blow my mind (I know how the torque converter works that’s it)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same boat my friend
FilippPipenko · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My nicotine addiction. I feel hopeless and no one in my life, including me, understands how powerless and weak I feel about it. If there is anyone who could give a few good words it will be appreciated. It goes deeper than just nicotine but tobacco has kept me in this loop of misery and I just want out. It's been making me feel physically ill for several years. I just want help. I read Allen Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking 16+ times and smoked as many "final" cigarettes and many more. People don't realize the hell smokers who want to quit go through. Someone please help. It has been ruining my life and relationships. People don't think tobacco can do that but it has been and I am so tired of being this zombie. Someone please help.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk if this may help Ive been smoking for almost a year but I'd just give away my cigarettes and look for another addiction that's less harmful. I'm not saying all together but gradually.
lady_grey_fog · 2 points · Posted at 23:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flight. I have a (very) basic understanding of aerodynamics, but it still seems so so wrong in my mind to get quite a lot of quite heavy materials (in relation to materials I regularly interact with), screw them together, fill them with liquid (fuel), then pack it full of hundreds of people, all their bags, food for them (options even!)...then you just drive it a bit fast, and you're in the air for 12 hours. It makes me so uncomfortable. Helicopters make more sense to me, a bit, because of how I can understand the rotor system continually creating lift. Anyway, the thought of whatever laws of physics are being followed to make it happen suddenly like, turning off, is what makes me more of a nervous flyer than anything like an engine failure or turbulence or whatever scares normal people.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what context?
-im-blinking · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming. Im can build a pc, been doing that for 25 years. I can troubleshoot hardware and software with no issue. I can look at code and see what its doing but for the life of me i just dont "get it". Took a few classes while on college and just barely passed them while holding a 4.0 in the rest of my classes.
Bopshebopshebop · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Computing
SabsSquared · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why doctor's don't give it people straight and tell them they are killing themselves by leading unhealthy lifestyles. Instead we just throw a pill at people and that doesn't fix the root of the problem and just leads to side effects and more pills to treat those side effects when most chronic diseases people are on medication for can be resolved with proper diet and activity levels.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta make that money some how.
Arbalista · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency.
JsyHST · 2 points · Posted at 23:44:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics. You guys get the choice of shit Vs. shitter, and somehow you always manage to choose shitter.
Seriously - basic healthcare, an effective social safety net, a government that retains an element of common decency. Every developed nation that the US has a semblance of respect for has these, but your voting system seems to think that this is an anathema to the "Freedom" that your country is built on.
The freedom to die if you don't have enough money. That's what the US political system is built on, AND IT FUCKING SUCKS. Come on guys, you can do better.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:45:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell won’t women just say what they want? I am not a god damn mind reader.
If you want something from the store, tell me instead of saying no then getting upset when I come back empty handed.
If you wanna watch a movie, don’t tell me to choose, decline my next 69 suggestions then finally tell me your choice.
Say WHAT YOU WANT GOD DAMNIT.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I know, even they know they do it. Crazy bastards.
SJVellenga · 2 points · Posted at 23:45:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the first cake was made. Like, I get that mixing random things together and sticking it in a fire would have been a common thing at one point, but how did we so gradually and perfectly develop modern cake recipes?
That and bread. Let’s stick this tiny powdery stuff into my mushy grass and water mix and let it fart all through it, then stick it in fire.
Hell, just baking.
Blue-cog · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
CreeperArmorReddit · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
girls
DoesntBelieveMuch · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The "All of Group X is bad" mentality. You see it a lot with politics, race, police, etc. You'll even see some post saying "there's no such thing as a good X. I don't care what they've done or what kind of beliefs they have. If they're X they're bad and deserve to die."
Like...whoa...settle down. I usually just figure it's some fragile person who if someone thought that THEY were bad just because they belonged to whatever group they'd get super defensive and say how it's an unfair judgement. People should be judged individually, imo.
themiddleman2 · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
furries, why people like frozen and so much more
surrly · 2 points · Posted at 23:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can vote against their best interest despite the overwhelming facts they have at their fingertips.
Similar: How people embrace ignorance out of laziness to search for evidence of the truth that might actually help them. (this can apply to health/gov't policy/family relations, you name it).
EmaShane · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entitlement
camstarr · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need/want to have children
splitplug · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people could see and hear Trump and think, “this guy should run the country.”
ChaosofaMadHatter · 2 points · Posted at 23:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bread.
Like, how did we get bread? How did someone first decide to grind a grain up, then add water to it, and decide to toss it over a fire? What caused that sequence of events that allowed someone with no knowledge of what would happen to just do it?
KnottedUndergrowth · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no actual clue, but I wonder if the first bread was something like overcooked gruel? Some slipped from the cooking container onto the coals and got a bit toasted, then someone ate it. Then someone ground some wheat into flour and the first sourdough starter was born.
I've no idea really, just spit balling.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Curiosity and time to kill.
MelZelEst · 2 points · Posted at 23:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
FeedDaWeeb · 2 points · Posted at 23:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti Vaxxers reasonings.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's simple, they think it causes autism but there hasn't been any studies proving that.
cld8 · 2 points · Posted at 23:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women.
Bunnko · 2 points · Posted at 23:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people have little or no self awareness. How does that happen in a person??
Shiny_Odin · 2 points · Posted at 23:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why being autistic is used as an insult online.
Is it the fact that a lot of people with autism have poor social communication skills?
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Annnd you answered your own question. Some people with autism struggle communicating for others its interactions and social cues but yeah. For the most part you answered it already.
tenaj255l · 2 points · Posted at 23:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hatred towards others and conscience mean behavior. I genuinely don't understand.
Benderbot613 · 2 points · Posted at 23:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness
How do a bunch of cells and some chemical reactions equate to a living being capable of an infinite amount of thoughts and feelings? Science nor religion has fully answered the question.
qqkacheww · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
thwigo · 2 points · Posted at 23:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
largeslavicman · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
DoctorAster · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely can't understand how anyone can feel better after hearing 'I understand what you're going through.' Let me explain. Every time someone says those words, it is always. Always followed up with a story explaining how they have been through a similar situation. Never in my LIFE has this ever been useful to me. Most of the time I've noticed its a way for people to 1-Up each other, ultimately telling me that my problem doesn't matter or to stop complaining because they've had it worse. But even when its genuine- often times when it's about a traumatic event- it just makes me feel worse. Guilty for bringing up the subject in the first place and it switches the whole conversation around and makes me feel as if I have to comfort them instead. All the while I snap shut like a clam and I can't continue talking after that.
Is there ANYONE out there in the world that this method ACTUALLY makes you feel better?
Condings · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people take comfort in knowing theres others who have been in a similar situation and understand how they feel at that moment, If they tell you their traumatic experience then they've got over it and are willing to talk about it to make you feel more secure. Or at least thats what I think.
Lu_and_Ciel · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fear(? I guess that's a way to put it) of silence. It's completely odd but when things start to quiet down I just start to slowly freak out and can't really tell what's normal and what isn't.
Lu_and_Ciel · 2 points · Posted at 23:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That and my In ability to keep track of time in any sense. Definitely makes birthdays a hassle.
TD-28 · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
401k
kittenandafriend · 2 points · Posted at 23:53:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Really. This isn't the dark ages. Just can't figure out why its even a thing.
SB5745 · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am me.
sparksjet · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer programming.
Not the C++, Java, HTML, VB, etc, but the system that knows what to do with all that. Like, there’s an operating system, but something has to run the operating system. There’s the BIOS, but...what tells the BIOS what to do? So on and so forth.
comeththearcher · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be so absolutely awful.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are unforgiving
markhoppusbigipad · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any game my brother tries explaining to my family. Currently trying to play castle risk. Started 30 minutes ago and finally got to the first turn, everyone is still confused.
mmmmkillme · 2 points · Posted at 23:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people can’t just use their damn. blinkers.
startanddo · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ChadNeubrunswick · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman be shopping - Dave Chappelle
SuperPenguin307 · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that hate Fortnite, i know they just probably hate the “Fandom” but for some reason they seem to hate the game in general. In my defense the game doesn’t have loot boxes or any sort of BS that any other game would have.
VengeanceKnight · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s because it’s popular and accessible. Certain types of “hardcore” gamers hate that kind of thing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not enough Americans are enraged at Trump. Many are in fact willingly defending him. I genuinely can't understand that
ThatTysonKid · 2 points · Posted at 23:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having anxiety. There are so many things I can look at logically and understand completely, and still have anxiety attacks over. Its like one side of my brain is clear and the other side of my brain is freaking out and they're not communicating.
Krotine · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who say they make things from scratch.
lemortede3 · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Elder scrolls lore. That stuff makes Tolkien seem like a marvel writer. Tes is so indepth and complicated. Apearently none of it is even real, and instead is just the dream of an unknown God. Not only that, but everyone both exists and doesn't. People can also realize this is a dream, and to an extent become real. Everything is also it's own being, and, all one being.
richardbaal · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what the FUCK is past the edge of the universe
PheningCoffee · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a virus is not alive. It’s just code programmed to make copies if itself. But there are no cells. It’s a non-living thing, eager to stay alive, although it’s not alive.
TacticalBeans26 · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think there are more than 2 genders
justsayfore · 2 points · Posted at 23:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the stock market is up when we have the highest unemployment since the Great Depression
DFlemdog · 2 points · Posted at 23:58:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the ice cream machine at McDonalds is always broken.
HeroicMillipede · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If bitcoin is based on data mines and codes, why can’t they just write the codes?
martyfrancis86 · 2 points · Posted at 00:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trumps. Hair and fake tan. I just don't get it? Is he gonna go the entire office looking like a clown?!
Hundreds of years from now ppl will ask why was he wearing that makeup? Well children, it was a different time and many woman considered the pale skin was better and that lead was not harmful..... Oh wait. Trump right. Ok lets back track.
KurtyCS · 2 points · Posted at 00:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How your body falls asleep
somefoolmike · 2 points · Posted at 00:01:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people take games to an unhealthy level of seriousness, like its their life. (And not people who compete professionally)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
fawnroyale_ · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mentally healthy people just...exist without mental illness? You've never spiraled and spent all of your money on drugs and art you never finished? There's not some deep, dark childhood trauma that lingers around every corner? Wow, crazy, sounds boring lol
Matkos6 · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are racist
SrWohper · 3 points · Posted at 00:04:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People may be educated in that way, or experienced something bad involucred in another race or religion, I'm not really sure.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True but it’s so ignorant. You don’t have to like another race. But everyone deserves an equal amount of respect at least.
AlcoholEnthusiast · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
JavaScript
snufkinkin · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams??? Like how does that happen and why do people have them more than others??
eric_blick · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people oppose universal health care.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:02:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Donald Trump is president of the US
leeloobond · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How genuinely stupid some of my relatives are. Please stop posting on Facebook, uncle, you're hurting my fucking brain.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit & its ways
skyeangeal · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Westworld. Im not smart enough for that show
assbreaker · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voters.
immigrant_27 · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This dumbass community
imjudgingyousohard · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wimmin
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck the economy works and why the American government throws unthinkable amounts of money into the stock markets and corporations when things start to go south.
Chumps69 · 2 points · Posted at 00:05:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
coreyhartrules · 2 points · Posted at 00:06:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency. I watched a 2 hour documentary and understood even less when it was done.
kvv0 · 2 points · Posted at 00:06:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:07:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the stock market
Cleaninvite · 2 points · Posted at 00:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trump is still president.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:09:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think Donald Trump is a good president
poinkypoinker · 2 points · Posted at 00:09:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
What if I'm in a hallucination. If I'm in a simulation. I mean how tf does my life just do this whole "oh speaking of ____ this is going to happen now."
Speaking of coronavirus, your cat (best friend) will get sick with a URI to the point you'll think he'll die. Oh and did you know cats can get coronavirus? Update: actually he he did pass away. As of 4am, on thr 13th of april. Seriously fml
Speaking of your cousin getting pulled over for a apeeding ticket, you'll encounter a cop in 2 days sitting in a speed trap but you'll just barely slide by. Be careful next time.
Speaking of seeing a guide on reddit on when deer are out and about, you'll nearly hit 2 on your way to the store tomorrow. At noon.
Wanting to wait in bed 10 more minutes to go use the bathroom? Well, guess what? In exactly 10 minutes your brother will go to use the bathroom and he'll get in right before you step out your bedroom door. Even though he usually gets up much later than you.
Hemlock_Deci · 2 points · Posted at 00:10:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-binary people
paraparamedic · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why equal rights is still a thing we have to talk about.
Chihiro85_ · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how a parent can abandon their kid...like just live a happy life ..working...going out for dinner...brushing their teeth...just living life every day as if they don't have a child...I just don't understand.
lordluke200 · 2 points · Posted at 00:11:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would someone shoot a man before throwing him out of a plane?
redmasquerade13 · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can assume a drunk or passed out person is a green light to have sex with them, then say “They asked for it” or “They didn’t say no”. I’m not trying to be political. I GENUINELY can not grasp how someone who doesn’t have a severe mental illness or a traumatic past that affected how they view intimacy can experience that way of thinking.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's what Google is there for 😂
Needless99 · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also why it's ok to put animals down for the benefit of not living in suffering but it humans want the same compassion it's met with condemnation and arrests.
anonsonyboy · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
kamakeleh · 2 points · Posted at 00:13:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Riseone8 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nutrition. How the fuck does anyone know how many calories are in an apple? Its mind boggling to me , honestly how foods can affect your body.
usernumber36 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why anybody would ever follow "influencers" on instagram
Piper_Blue · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still fall for MLM's and blantant pyramid schemes in 2020. I came to this after listening to 2 seasons of The Dream. Its a great podcast detailing the people in targets, history, relation to cults and the mass deregulation of them.
Supernova345799 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can't swim
Curtis_75706 · 2 points · Posted at 00:15:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I honestly just don’t get why anyone would hate someone else because they are a different color or nationality. I’ve been on the receiving end of this even as a white male (albeit minimally and primarily when overseas) and it breaks my heart and boggles my mind why it happens. When I think of how many black folks, especially, are hated and belittled simply because they are black, I just can’t fathom where that hatred comes from. I know all minorities in the US have been victims of racism but it seems to be more prevalent against Black people. I’m thankful for parents that raised me to love everyone, regardless of skin color, and to especially fight for those that are the victims of such cruelty.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started studying music when I was 5, taking cello lessons. Started taking piano as well at 8, joined school band (trombone) in 6th grade, and added choir once I got to high school. Along the way I taught myself a couple other brass instruments and some stringed ones, too. In college, I kept playing cello in the orchestra and did some choir on the side. All this is to say that I have played an assload of music in my life. It’s not even second nature to me, it’s just nature.
I have no clue how/why other instruments can be in another key. If we are all playing the exact same note, why do the strings call it A, and each of the wind sections call it something else entirely? It’s the same note! Let’s just start teaching kids the correct names for notes from the beginning and gradually all the music in the world can be rewritten. Great!
holleringgenzer · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any math more complicated than basic algebra
tearsofabutterfly · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people scrape their teeth when they eat with metal silverware
uli69 · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything in math
HelloYesCooHere · 2 points · Posted at 00:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people said “women” if you sort by new and just scroll
TopDawg1776 · 2 points · Posted at 00:18:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry. I’ve done construction all my life too
bagobonez2 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people won't merge onto the highway at a reasonable speed. Why they won't move out of the passing lane if they aren't passing.
Voltage_Revolt · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How human are able to do things like breathe, blink, move, smell, and just function subconsciously. I sometimes try to figure out how my body just know, I know it's because of my own brain, but I still don't completely understand it. It makes me wonder that the first humans must've just done things without even realizing that they were doing it.
doubtingthomas77 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin.
Jiggins497 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers delete data. I can understand how the store files and even add new ones but when you delete something from its memory, where does it go? How is it just gone? I suppose that also means I don't really understand how you can just FORGET things, especially important stuff...
MyLifeIsAJokeRn · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it’s overwritten
matt12300 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why English class is so hard for me
AceCreatorzzz · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man I know its cliche cuz politics, but modern Republicans confuse the fuck out of me. How can people genuinely support some of these horribly fucked up people? Like its all but proven they care about money and power no matter how many people they have to step on to keep themselves at the top. Like no doubt theres some bad apples in the Liberal side but even they arent blatantly racist and sexist about it. I cannot fathom it at all.
Camber-2035 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex-wife.
Youdontuderstandme · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women with long fingernails wipe.
Dexter1177 · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How he fuck speakers work. How do they perfectly reproduce all different sounds. It’s got something to do with vibrations or something.
Yeet-From-The-Street · 2 points · Posted at 00:21:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes a piece of music, good music
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Attraction to my little pony
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
China Virus
It_is_I_Satan · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much if someone else is gay.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of putting music/sound onto vinyl records. I know sound waves, I know bumps and grooves but I just can’t get my head round it. My mind is blown when I think about it.
I just don’t understand
HenrikJuul · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How something infinitely cold is also infinitely hot. I really don't get the idea that below 0 (ish) kelvin, things gets hot.
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not sure what you mean by that. Nothing can get below 0 Kelvin. That's when there is absolutely no energy in the atoms and particles. Since heat is actually just a measure of energy, it can't get any lower than that.
HenrikJuul · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm literally saying I don't get it, so I can't give you a better explanation of what I mean than this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTeBUpR17Rw
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that's weird stuff. It sounds like that's something that exists only in theory and not really in real life. But I don't understand it either, so I don't really know.
Wes_Bugg · 2 points · Posted at 00:26:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting.
Tried to be an accounting major and wasted the first two years of college doing it
shiggly_wiggly69420 · 2 points · Posted at 00:27:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People thinking things like covid 19 and climate change being fake
fuginutz · 2 points · Posted at 00:31:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why bad evil people are currently winning
bandy101 · 2 points · Posted at 00:32:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole "above or below" sea level. Just why? and How?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly are you asking? Why we use it, or how are figure it out?
bandy101 · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mostly the terms themselves - specifically "below sea level" always confused me because it seems like you'd be underwater. I just don't understand why it's a thing.
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 13:22:34 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the level of the sea itself isn't exactly used, they use mean sea level, or MSL. That way elevation doesn't depend on the tide changing. And the reason for using sea level in the first place is that the oceans are all at the same elevation, and they're everywhere. You don't need conversion tables to figure it out when you're going from one continent to another.
So above sea level just measures how high you are above MSL. The airport in my home town is 1115' MSL. They measure the difference by using air density or air pressure. The higher you go, the less there is. They do also have to measure temperature, because a high temperature causes the air to expand and lower its density.
Below sea level is only used in certain points, such as Death Valley or around the Dead Sea. These are both below MSL, but there's no way for the water to get to them from the closest sea or ocean, so they remain dry.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fuck are you talking about
bandy101 · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mostly the "below sea level" Does it not speak for itself? If you're below sea level how the fuck are you not underwater. Why call it that?
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is that a problem? Why would you not call it sea level, it’s the height of the sea
poodlecon · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
sir-shoelace · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much any language other than english
OrdinalGenie · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is so appealing about modern “rap” music. Confuses the hell outta me
theatreboy6942069 · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you black out from alcohol and completely forget your night, it simply feels like a gap in time. So did you ever really live it or does it just feel like a skip. Like I know that you lived it, but it just freaks me out to think about. Like one minute you’re drinking and the next it is the next day. You’ll remember it while it’s happening, but in the morning your life will just edit that out. That shit just amazes me and if anyone can help me see it in a different way that’d be much appreciated. <3
herebemaddy · 2 points · Posted at 00:34:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Helen Keller learned to speak. Truly inspirational woman, and a staggering achievement, but I simply just do not understand how it was possible.
ShavedPapaya · 2 points · Posted at 00:34:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ships work. Like, cruise ships and yachts.
I know, I know: they displace more water than they take up. But c'mon, those things are thousands of tons, I can't begin to fathom how that floats in any universe.
Diegolopez223 · 2 points · Posted at 00:35:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Percentages,
Whenever we learnt them at school i was always in hospital or away frok school for some reason and why time we went to highschool i truly never learn't it. I have grade 2 understanding at best.
keon_reza · 2 points · Posted at 00:35:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think Joe Biden is electable
Stainful-Steel · 2 points · Posted at 00:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stereotypical guy being drunk, sports addicted, and idiotic. It makes no sense to me at all.
thestudiojones · 2 points · Posted at 00:38:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does space end? Like is there a big wall somewhere that cuts off? How far does it go?
Kriegerdr · 2 points · Posted at 00:38:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is infinite. I just can't picture something that doesn't have an end, let alone in every direction.... Blows my mind
cofefewithstefefe · 2 points · Posted at 00:39:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
lioninthewild05 · 2 points · Posted at 00:40:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people pour the milk before the cereal
Darkle_Gray · 2 points · Posted at 00:40:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never grasped how a person can just walk up to another person, a stranger, and start a conversation. I get anxious walking into any place where there are people I don't know, and it feels so weird not being able to do that seemingly simple thing.
pheonixandthemuse · 2 points · Posted at 00:40:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Societies fascination with reality television. Especially the Kardashians and the bachelor/bachelorette kind of shows. I don’t understand why people care so much about such nonsense. It’s scripted. To each their own though; that’s just me not caring about it whatsoever.
Jason556556 · 2 points · Posted at 00:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works like how does it power things, how do we store it and how can we control it’s movement.
Sarahlb76 · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could like or vote for trump.
MalantheLazy · 2 points · Posted at 00:50:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I legitimately don't get the whole foot fetish thing. Anyone who has it, why?
NecroDolphinn · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who I Knew You Were Trouble by Taylor Swift is about. Apparently she said it was about Harry Styles but the timeline doesn’t make any sense because they started dating in October 2012, the same month Red was released. This has been confusing me for a very long time because the timeline and her words completely contradict each other and I don’t know what to believe
InTheWordsOfWeezer · 2 points · Posted at 00:54:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll make you understand
I'm gonna be there
CocayneWayne · 2 points · Posted at 00:56:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck did they invent the camera???
I-eat-CoRn · 2 points · Posted at 00:57:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Shakira was strip dancing during the super bowl halftime show. Like theres a ton of kids watching this...
Say_Fuck_For_Karma · 2 points · Posted at 00:57:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that refuse to turn right on red.
OC_ill8 · 2 points · Posted at 00:58:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vision. Our eyes receive optical signals and our brains process and interpret them. But where does the image we see actually exist?
It has to be a virtual, three-dimensional projection of our visual cortex, right? Anyways, it always drives me nuts thinking about it.
--haley · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worship and the glorification of the word "stan"
arainrider · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people treat politicians as some sort of idols
averageredditor234 · 2 points · Posted at 01:00:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that people think their is more 2 genders
toddsiegrist · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How SO many people fall for and share fake stuff on Facebook.
ThatMakesMeTheWinner · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get tattoos.
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What dont you get?
ThatMakesMeTheWinner · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just why do that to yourself? It's like permanently wearing an item of clothing.
massivemusicsucker · 2 points · Posted at 01:56:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I see it as a piece of art on someone’s skin. It’s like when there is a feature about yourself you really love like let’s say your eyes. When you look at yourself in the mirror, even if you don’t like anything else, your eyes will give you a bit of confidence. The piece of skin the tattoo is in, if you get your vision perfectly in the tattoo, will be your favourite piece of skin in your entire body, believe me. It can also be a reminder of why you are where you are. It’s cool you don’t want to get them. Just thought I’d give my perspective
ThatMakesMeTheWinner · 1 points · Posted at 13:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting, thanks.
IKnowAllSeven · 2 points · Posted at 01:02:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it can be true that all dogs came from the same common dog ancestor. A chihuahua and a Great Dane? Seriously? My husband is a geneticist and I have asked him this question once every few months for the last 20 years and he answers it patiently every time but I still don’t quite believe it.
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have wondered this for years
wandrlusty · 2 points · Posted at 01:02:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the laws punishing drunk drivers (who have injured/killed people) are so ridiculously lenient. Seriously, a guy in our area killed 4 people and is in minimum security for 10 years and is already up for parole after 3-4 years. Make me furious.
420milf69 · 2 points · Posted at 01:03:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Direction/orientation. Like determining which way is NESW.
polloloco81 · 2 points · Posted at 01:03:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can support Trump and defend his behavior.
itsyoboi33 · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the stock market
pyralis1980 · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, but honestly I’m not sure anyone really understands it.
bitch-what-the-fuck · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of nothingness and not existing. The idea of nothing being after death is terrifying to me because what is nothingness like? What is it like to not exist? I know in reality it doesn’t feel like anything, but it still is so confusing because how does one not exist? How does one prepare themselves for that possible existence, or should I say non-existence?
Godzylaaa98 · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers...
There is so much proof that vaccines work and save lives and yet they consider it a conspiracy and instead opt for herbal medicine that has no scientific backing or even worse, urine therapy.
How can they risk lives of their children so carelessly?
Kayjo1857 · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. Or even those who vote Republican. Since they all keep voting against their self interest. Seriously baffles me.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big the universe is. Mysterious and Amazing all at the same time
Blehman15 · 2 points · Posted at 01:04:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can I see the moon during the day? I can’t wrap my brain around the earth’s rotation and the moon’s
Bowtie327 · 2 points · Posted at 01:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earth spins one way, the moon spins the other, in the ‘day’ you face the sun, while the moon is on the ‘dark side’ of the planet.
You can see the moon in the day because it’s not a perfect orbit, so the moon is only ‘halfway’ round when it’s daytime so you can still see it because it reflects the sunlight.
However events like solar eclipses are when the moon’s orbit is so out of sync it’s in front of us, and it’s just pure coincidence that our moon is the same size as our sun relative to our position. You can’t see Mercury or Venus when they pass because they’re so far away and so small
Blehman15 · 2 points · Posted at 01:48:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much for this
Illuminarian · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have pondered much over this. Imagine a material underground, under HIGH pressure. Now imagine all this material doesn't want to squish well together. But the opposing force is much stronger and still squishes the shit out of it. Now some human being goes underground and extracts this shit. This thing now has nothing squishing the shit out of it and starts deteriorating on a molecular level. By deteriorating, I mean, there are tiny little atoms/molecules FLINGING THE FUCK OFF AT SUPER HIGH SPEEDS. I these have almost zero volume so will shred right through most things, except for lead which is like a big dumb dense ass sponge that can actually catch these fuckin things. You can develop tumors from radiation, because these fuckin atoms or whatever the fuck are literally shredding through your fuckin body. You cant feel it because it's really small, but your body still heals the damage caused, and what I imagine happens is a tumor is caused by a fucked up cell that got hit in just the right spot by something, and now it doesn't know how to heal properly and basically grows and grows and grows.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our solar system is being constantly propelled at a speed in reachable by humans— and we can’t even feel it.
WoodenWizard · 2 points · Posted at 01:12:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people dont have the ability to critical think for themselves.
Imacultofpersonality · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How such a high percentage of the world can be such pieces of shit. I really thought it was like 10% but ever since working in the service industry, it’s more like 90%. the percentage of people that don’t tip at all is astounding especially in the time of coronavirus and everybody wants to be special and wonder why “we can’t put their ticket in the front of the line” and saying the reason we do what we do is because we are stupid lazy underachievers who don’t know the value of hard work. How can so many people not give a fuck about other people.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:21:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything related to sex. School has taught me nothing and I don’t know how to learn.
TzRavio · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity
kaika_yoru · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so cruel, how people are consumed by greed.
datmemesboi101 · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politicans are sweating while reading this
ChandlerForrestal · 2 points · Posted at 01:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who sag their pants
commentoptional · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People getting angry at each other for differing political opinions! Like yes I understand disagreements happen and debates can get heated. But outright abusing somebody for who they support without any provocation is ridiculous, especially in a democratic society. Differing opinions should be welcomed and debated respectfully whether you agree or not.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:24:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my SO’s family all kiss each other on the lips
drb0304 · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eek
zireyasa · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
monsterfox101 · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The state of politics in the US. I have ideals on both sides, I agree with a lot of social ideals of the left despite my personal religious disagreements and I agree with the economic ideals of the right as its caused my family to move up a little in the world.
So you could say I'm libertarian, but they would never win in modern politics. So I go with what would effect me day to day and I side with economic right. I dont see why we cant get a decent 3rd party going though.
cynwil710 · 2 points · Posted at 01:27:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to be a yellow dog Democrat. I would have voted for a yellow dog so long as he was a dem... now I am not. I consider myself libertarian and I agree with you 100%. The two main parties are so off the charts to the left and right, and I don’t recognize the Dems anymore with all of their socialism crap. It’s a shame.
ShiftyMcCoy · 2 points · Posted at 01:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women are so attracted to tall men, even if they're short themselves. Height is an immutable characteristic that has no bearing on absolutely anything. Anything else I'd understand--looks/handsomeness, intelligence, humor, education, income/salary, strength, lovemaking ability, ANYTHING--except for tallness. And for many women, it's absolutely the number one thing they're attracted to. It's wild and I'll never understand it.
msomnipotent · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a short woman. I wanted a taller man as a husband so that my kids would be taller than me. I was the shortest kid in class by a lot and I always had to fight my way out of the locker room or defend myself from bullies of both sexes. I was determined to go out of my way so that my children wouldn't have to do that. My husband turned out to be 5'10 and my only child (daughter) is 5'4 and still growing, so it is a huge relief to me. I realize that 5'10 isn't really that tall, but he lied to me and said he was 6ft on the phone, and I didn't whip out a measuring tape. Everyone seems tall to me. I'm 5'2.
That's not to say that I didn't date shorter men before I decided I wanted children. I dated quite a few, and one was even shorter than me at the time so I'm guessing he was 5ft or slightly under.
InvisiblePen5 · 2 points · Posted at 01:28:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t understand how phone calls work now that I’m thinking about it
apikoras · 2 points · Posted at 01:29:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why mental illness destroys intellect.
I used to be a smart, motivated kid. I routinely won prizes for being top of the class/school. I didn’t even need to try much of the time, I just absorbed knowledge like a sponge. I was expected to get straight A*s and go to Oxford.
It got a bit iffy when I started being more severely abused and I think the stress of not being able to talk about it got to me. I became scared of going to school and then scared of going outside and after a few months I’d essentially dropped out of society. I was hideously depressed for many years and struggled to have any level of functioning.
I’ve spent the last couple of years now emerging from my pit and trying to re-engage. It’s incredibly hard though because I feel like an entirely different person. I’m too lazy to want to do anything and when I look at the complex maths and science that I used to love getting to grips with, I just can’t understand and of it and I feel like I don’t have the mental energy to even try and understand it. Sometimes I can’t even follow a simple conversation and I especially struggle to understand languages that I used to be functionally fluent in. It’s degrading and humiliating. Sometimes things come back if I get drunk and relax but it’s not exactly a coping strategy I want to use but it does reassure me that I’ve not completely killed off my brain. Maybe it’s just dorment?
What happened? Where are my smarts and can I ever have them back?!
majahi · 2 points · Posted at 01:31:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of twitch and watching other people play video games. I’m not being critical of what others enjoy, and know obviously many people love it for their own reasons. I just genuinely cannot wrap my head around the appeal to it. I used to think it was for people to simply find tips or ways to beat difficult games, which I understand. But just getting enjoyment out of watching someone else play the game confuses me.
Talanic · 2 points · Posted at 01:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not that big into it myself, but it goes one of three ways.
The first is that sometimes, you find someone who's good at a game that you're not so good at. In that case, you can vicariously visit a difficult game, not necessarily to learn how it's done, but to see how a pro does it.
The second is the opposite. When it's someone who's not nearly as good at the game as you are, there's a bit of throw-popcorn-at-the-screen schadenfreude that can be enjoyable as well.
Last is usually the key, though. It's the personality that the person playing brings to the game. They don't just play; they participate. In a way, it's a performance. Sometimes there's sarcastic quips and poking fun at the game. Sometimes, it's a player who gets fully into the game and you can just feel how much fun they're having.
That doesn't mean that those aspects will appeal to you, or that they're universal to other people who watch these kinds of things more than I do, but maybe that'll help you get it a little more.
majahi · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Appreciate the insight, that does make sense to me. Especially what you’re saying on the last one. For some people, it could be just as entertaining as watching a TV show. The person streaming is basically a professional entertainer. Not my thing, but helps make more sense of it.
Talanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You got it. As I said, I'm not hugely into it, but enjoyed a series run by Team Four Star. They do an affectionate parody of Dragonball Z and had a few of their voice actors do playthroughs of games while staying in character. Sometimes just highlights. There's some comedy gold in some of those.
Mtnrdr2 · 2 points · Posted at 01:31:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything chemistry related. I have a stem degree but still don’t get it
captmotorcycle · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegans
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:33:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
C++
Jealous_Program · 2 points · Posted at 01:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What compelled you to ask this question? What’s the impetus?
GarytheWaifu · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:38:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people voted for, and continue to, support Trump and republicans. They are literally destroying our democracy on a daily basis.
squiddlumckinnon · 2 points · Posted at 01:39:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
Btj16828 · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care what the Kardashians think or are currently doing?
horseradish1 · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, how do they work?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skyscrapers. I wanna trust them, my mind just won't allow it, I'm sure it's safe, but I just can't figure out why, and that is frustrating me. I tried to research how they are built, but none will settle my 'insecurities' of being on/in them. I *think* I'm fine with height, Eiffel tower's shape seems logical to me. But a big straight pole upwards, nah
Maybe it's just that I get frustrated by not understanding that makes me not like them, lol.
xerxerxex · 2 points · Posted at 01:43:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hold their nose when going underwater. Freaks.
lilwild2 · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fucking type a sentence.
Kitkatmeow91 · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. It’s the last class I have to take before graduating and I swear the numbers and formulas get so mixed up in my brain... it’s the only time I’ve ever felt genuinely stupid in my whole life, I was always an A student.
Cozmo525 · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Black holes and String Theory...I’m extremely fascinated by both but it’s so hard to wrap my head around.
Edit: wanted to add the thought of the universe being infinite. Thinking about it scares me, it’s truly crazy!
Raezix · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers
adib2149 · 2 points · Posted at 01:46:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern art /Abstract art. I seriously don't understand what their purpose is, how do people compare them, and fundamentally, what's the point. :(
SpecialBomb · 2 points · Posted at 01:47:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers in C and C++.
They are supposed to be very simple, but I have so much trouble understanding them and how they work properly.
mumfordanddaughterss · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s basically just a data type (like int, string, char, bool etc.) that acts as a sort of placeholder for another value stored in memory.
The pointer holds the address of where that value is stored. So couting p for example will give you the address, but couting *p will give you the value associated with that address.
Sometimes you want to reference this value and it may be more efficient or only possible if you use a pointer.
Have you checked out introductory vids? This seems like a good one
SpecialBomb · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thing is, I know all of this. The issue is when I come to reading or writing code. It all looks like voodoo to me. I'm really unsure why, but it's just one of those things I can't get.
I'm also much more at home with Lisps or other mainly functional languages, despite my origins in programming being in C-like languages. Maybe my brain just doesn't like C.
mumfordanddaughterss · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hmm that’s interesting. Well if you have access to textbooks they usually have little exercises in the back of each chapter. Have you tried those? And I’d like to think they start off easy. The wonderful thing about it is you can just throw stuff at a wall and see what sticks. Make a short program and try a & here and run it, see what happens, try a * there and see what happens. Often times when I’m confused I’ll just fuck around like that and come to my own conclusions about how things work if the video/textbook explanation isn’t making a concept click.
SpecialBomb · 2 points · Posted at 16:49:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll try that. I've been trying to make a program recently and ive been prototyping it in python for the time being before I translate it to C. I should try reading through K&R if that has any exercises.
BananaFanaFoFaustin · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why poor people vote Republican
vaxinius · 2 points · Posted at 01:49:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people support Trump.
guitarchick8 · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people us the phrase “the former vs. the ladder” I DONT UNDERSTAND
You_Have_Big_Gay · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As far as I know (former - first said option) (ladder - last said option)
BlueWolf107 · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
You_Have_Big_Gay · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:55:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been trying to learn guitar (and I have gotten better but) I don’t get how you are supposed to “memorize the fretboard” (so many frets!) and if I learn different blues scales I don’t know how I’m meant to use that while freestyling a solo + adding other notes that aren’t in that scale.. I don’t even know how to ask it haha.
You_Have_Big_Gay · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How have you been playing? I've played for like 3 or 4 years and trust me it comes to you. It's less that you memorize it and more like you hand just kinda goes where it needs to be automatically.for me at least
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:05:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well this is the part I know makes sense as to why I’m not a pro by any means ; 1 year maybe, but I haven’t been practicing evvveryday.. solely because I don’t understand where to start really. I learn basic chords and can play a long to most songs (with strumming) but I just am stuck in playing campfire songs when I want to be soloing. Just overwhelming I guess when you don’t even know how to search the questions you have haha.
You_Have_Big_Gay · 2 points · Posted at 02:10:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For as long as I've played I'm still not that good, though it's also most likely got to do with lack of practice on my part.
ShihTzuSkidoo · 2 points · Posted at 01:57:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. I get conception and birth- two raw ingredients merge and evolve into a baby. I get that flowers and trees wither and die.
I just can’t wrap my head around death of humans and animals. When I’m with a person who is talking to me and then they no longer exist, or a dog is still staring at me and wagging his tail and then just isn’t; I just can’t understand it. It used to be so simple to me. It’s death. They are gone.
As I’ve grown older I become more perplexed. How is it we live these complicated lives and then it’s just gone. All of those memories and experiences just cease to exist. I guess ultimately I understand death of the body, but not the cessation of the conscious. The body gets old, sick, or damaged and stops working, much like a car in a wreck. The parts are still there but they don’t function anymore. I just don’t understand the death of consciousness. How the essence of someone is just gone in the blink of an eye. (And no - I don’t believe in an afterlife. I believe this is it. When you are gone, you are gone).
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:02:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing... I have some rhythm but when it comes to learning dance moves I’m so horribly stiff and awkward. My family and friends have tried to teach me but I just don’t get it.
Doomguy2018 · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reddit karma system
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction. Like. Y'all crazy ass humans up here be mentally banging whoever you find hot?
Eggshell101 · 2 points · Posted at 02:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry.
idkwhatusernamet · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be quiet lmao
prplhze21 · 2 points · Posted at 02:04:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
effect vs affect simple but difficult... enlighten me please... 🙃
Propelerate · 2 points · Posted at 02:05:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How meteors always land PERFECTLY inside of craters. Like, what are the odds?
Kuyathr · 2 points · Posted at 02:05:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes fly. They’re probably heavy but still go vroom and up in sky. Wow. How do it?
luke_kiid · 2 points · Posted at 02:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a smell can bring me straight back to a forgotten memory from decades ago so vividly within milliseconds
gilbo1990 · 2 points · Posted at 02:06:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This has to be one of the most humbling things I have ever seen on Reddit. Such a good question is bringing out so many excellent answers that is really making me feel good about myself and somewhat 'normal'.
Knowing that every person despite what their strengths or weaknesses are or how intelligent or unintelligent they may seem to be, all experience the same doubts and misunderstandings in similar ways. This really helps with a lot of insecurities that I personally have with imposter syndrome. Thanks OP and everyone who answered honestly
UnrulyPuppy · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are buying all the fucking toilet paper.
YoSoyCapitan860 · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women grow a human in their stomach, all the ridiculous things it does during the pregnancy and the birthing process.
magpyyyyyyyyy · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radicals. As much as I hate math, I'm pretty good at most of it. BUT WHAT THE HELL ARE RADICALS
CapitalistKarlMarx · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s the opposite of exponents
For example x2 = y Sqrt (y) = x
x3 = y Cbrt (y) = x
xn = y
n-th root( y) = x
Davy_Dee · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why lower-middle class people vote against candidates that represent policies that will benefit them.
TankerDman · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between Sex and Gender. It's been explained to me so many times but I still don't get it.
r1qu1x · 0 points · Posted at 02:13:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the same thing, but there are some crazies out there that believe in millions of genders
NotThineBestest · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
r1qu1x · 2 points · Posted at 02:09:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people throw away the pizza crust
HeavyPokelover · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I cannot understand why on the political compass it seems as though the authoritarian right is represented by facism and such.
CapitalistKarlMarx · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wait can you elaborate how’s it represented by fascism?
HeavyPokelover · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess most of the stuff that I see has the facist ideology representing that certain side of the political compass. A good example of what i mean is this youtuber called Jreg and his centricide series.
CapitalistKarlMarx · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I see (you have a typo in your original comment). Yeah I also don’t understand why authoritarian right is so prone to fascism either.
HeavyPokelover · 2 points · Posted at 02:19:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
apologies for the misunderstanding can you tell me which is the typo?
CapitalistKarlMarx · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You never mentioned the right in your comment
HeavyPokelover · 2 points · Posted at 02:22:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
now I see how much of a problem that might be, Thank you
Tinkels1908 · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did all my hobbies become boring after a while? I get a new game for example and it’s fun for a while, but then it gets boring after a while. It wasn’t like that a few years before.
k6plays · 2 points · Posted at 02:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If God created all of creation then who created God? And if there is no God what is the source of the known universe? What was before the Big Bang? Where is the beginning?
karenwalker85 · 2 points · Posted at 02:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. Baffles me.
IonicGold · 2 points · Posted at 02:12:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone put a couple wires together and made a computer work. How does someone even think, "So what if I put these wires and pieces of metal together" .
raymond-is-that-you · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When there was nothing (before the Big Bang)
truebabyblue · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AP statistics. I failed all 11 tests this year.
RiaEatss · 2 points · Posted at 02:13:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how our brain can understand multiple languages (if trained) without even thinking about it like, why does it make sense to our brain? so cool
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
The_Hylian_Noob · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:55 on May 31, 2020 · (Permalink)
bruh neither of us have ever talked to one, quit your lying boah
IceDemon31983647 · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones can work the way they do and be so small at the same time
How people can be so ignorant as to make up conclusions in their head and then just assume it's true
silverthane · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the political system works
josht198712 · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people communicate feelings. I'm very well versed in keeping everything on the inside and when I try to do just that I make no sense and words don't work.
Abdu_1 · 2 points · Posted at 02:15:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the electoral college works.
XXxJMSxX · 2 points · Posted at 02:15:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand, nor have I ever, how people can be so blatantly mean. Whether it be, in the store, online, in a waiting room, anywhere. I see people just being total assholes with each other. I have bad days, I get pissed, but I have never been able to just be mean, especially to total strangers.
thunderfbolt · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are insulted when you don't want to hang out with them and think that being near you makes you want to hang with them more.
charcoalportraiture · 2 points · Posted at 02:16:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to balance a chemical equations. Scraped through two low-level university Chem courses, just by memorising almost everything in the textbook chapters...as in memorising them as images with solution-images. Miraculous.
Zangrieff · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we took dirt and stone from the ground and turned it into advanced machines like the one you are using right now
Bobberan · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat/betray one another.
Dangeruss10 · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peeing on toilet seats. Why. Just c’mon man, if you do a couple drops take two seconds to wipe it. If we all did that I bet there’d be far less murder suicides!
mellamopeggyhil · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The enormity of space.
mcduckerson6969 · 2 points · Posted at 02:17:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people put a not in a yes or no question. For example "Do you not like that?" You can respond by saying "No I don't like that." or " No I do like that" Pretty much yes or no questions. I don't know why though, I think I think to much about yes or no questions.
steaksteaksteakste · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people lie to your face for no reason
PhoenixFlamevii · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Anything beyond basic math.
schneebx · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How hypocrites fail to see their hypocrisy.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that I procrastinate a lot and it’s bad for me but I don’t understand why I still do it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:19:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why going up the stairs at night causes an inexplicable panic.
doge_daelus · 2 points · Posted at 02:19:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really want Magnus Carlsen to just comment “Chess.”
yikesomar · 2 points · Posted at 02:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Resonance (organic chemistry)
emmanuele10 · 2 points · Posted at 02:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Chicken_man_17 · 2 points · Posted at 02:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
rad_rentorar · 2 points · Posted at 02:23:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christianity
meriooo26 · 2 points · Posted at 02:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What would happen if we never existed? Would we just see nothingness?
rootware · 2 points · Posted at 02:29:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember what it was like before you were born? That.
meriooo26 · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, you got a point. But i'm just thinking sometimes, in a world where there would be no planets, no form of life, no space, just... just nothing. It just seems a little scary, but maybe that's just me.
vall718 · 2 points · Posted at 02:26:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when you become aware of your breathing pattern, you start controlling it. And it seems like you have to passively breathe forever now.. until it somehow becomes autonomous again...
Dmetalmike · 2 points · Posted at 02:27:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly and genuinely do not understand why the United States does not have a universal healthcare system. The people against it (unfortunately outnumbering the people for it) are so adamantly and ferociously against helping out their fellow person while preaching freedom and ‘merica yet don’t give a single fuck about anyone. It’s ridiculous. Then they call it socialist communism because they don’t know what either word means. The propaganda surrounding it is sickening and it’s such a hard concept for them to grasp even though 32 of 33 countries that have it have made it work. I live in Canada and here in Alberta the government is trying to privatize the healthcare system in the province and I don’t get why more people aren’t furious about it.
bfmunoz · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general. Lol
lver016 · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how time affects gravity
lver016 · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, how gravity affects time
cassandralmao · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The geometry of space time?
andebobandy · 2 points · Posted at 02:36:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings time.
wouldbe_human · 2 points · Posted at 02:37:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can see the shadow of a car's exhaust but not actually see it in the air. Unless, something is wrong with the car or something.
ijustinsultpeople · 2 points · Posted at 02:38:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Numbers. I mean what even are they?
MaybeOnlyOnePost · 2 points · Posted at 02:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh god, where do I start?
davidhamelech · 2 points · Posted at 02:39:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I cant shit whithout peeing
lucascatisakittercat · 2 points · Posted at 02:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a camera works. I was going to specify film camera but just realized I don’t understand digital either.
Dealj0bber · 2 points · Posted at 02:40:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How flat-earthers are so convinced that the earth is flat.
powerbait90210 · 2 points · Posted at 02:40:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are still people who think the earth is flat.
Coxinh · 2 points · Posted at 02:43:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not sure if I know anything properly. I guess i don't really understand if i really understand things? Learning shit is frustrating, you never get less ignorant
lunarisjuice · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people communicate and how can someone easily find a person to talk with.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:44:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum mechanics, thermodynamics, any physics really. how to make relationships with anyone in any capacity. how to write a novel/screenplay, because i keep coming up with stories, i figure i should write some down. why the hate on pineapple on pizza, why ppl like mumble rap
FanaticalLikeADemon · 2 points · Posted at 02:45:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I am.. Me. Like how my consciousness can control my movements and can think in abstract terms, etc.
FlamingSapphire1 · 2 points · Posted at 02:45:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A foot fetish
SSJ4Autism · 2 points · Posted at 02:48:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to be controversial but why people question their gender. I don’t want to cause any debate but a friend of mine recently came out as non-binary and I don’t understand why one bit
Saintly-Atheos · 2 points · Posted at 02:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Art.
Specifically painting. I know what I like but I don’t always understand...anything else.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people having more kids than rich people
sonlac29 · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers/ Anti-vaxxers. "You've never seen it!" or "What about the Black Plague, that went away without a vaccine!" 1. Well, I've never seen a lot of things, like I've never seen a murder or a mugging. I didn't see my parents conceive me, but here I am. 2. A third of Europe died. Because there was no vaccine. No, random doctors aren't out to get you because you and your child exist as puny, insignificant humans on the rock hurtling through space. No, the government isn't trying to poison. There is no proper argument for these theories!
Lukester123430 · 2 points · Posted at 02:51:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The opposing political party.
leslieknope_13 · 2 points · Posted at 02:54:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Hellen Keller learned to speak
hydro-erik · 2 points · Posted at 02:54:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was young I always used to think why are we here is this real?
Blikplaat · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Still do... just on a slightly more depressing tone
hydro-erik · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes sir
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:57:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters, American politics and capitalism
scandinavianmermaid · 2 points · Posted at 02:58:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump can still be president.
Momof3dragons2012 · 2 points · Posted at 02:58:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of water conservation. If the let the water run in my sink while I brush my teeth, it runs down the drain, to the sewers, to a treatment plant and then released back into the lake or reservoir or wherever and then it’s sucked back up to the water treatment again and delivered back to the next person brushing their teeth. It doesn’t disappear off the face of the earth.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:00:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cannot live and let live. You’re against gay marriage? Don’t marry a gay person; there’s no reason for you to try to prevent other gay people from marrying. Against abortion? Don’t get one.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. But then again, neither do scientists.
DualityofD20s · 2 points · Posted at 03:02:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate to get political, but I dont understand how people can think that Trump has done nothing wrong. I can understand thinking that the good things he has done outweigh the bad, or say that you done care. But there are some people who whole heartedly thing he has done nothing wrong, even though everything is out in the open and one can find direct transcripts of what he has said. There is evidence he has done bad/stupid/illegal things, so why do some people think he hasn't done anything wrong?
CasualGamer60 · 2 points · Posted at 03:05:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gay people
joebundah · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:42 on May 3, 2020 · (Permalink)
same
newphone-newuser · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
Hawk13424 · 2 points · Posted at 03:07:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:08:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women... i can't understand them
ffffssdvbbg · 2 points · Posted at 03:10:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can go their entire lives not admitting to their faults
Alexander-kon7 · 2 points · Posted at 03:10:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is continuous and never has an ending then if it did have an ending what would be blocking it and also if a god or higher power exist because how was god created but if their is no god how do all these planets exist etc
Jacks923252 · 2 points · Posted at 03:11:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma system
maynerdjk · 2 points · Posted at 03:15:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
wonko33 · 2 points · Posted at 03:16:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn investment stuff. I have a diploma in science , done high level calculus but economics just doesn’t make sense to me. Luckily I understand mortgages pretty well for the house but hopefully I’ll die before I need to retire or I’m fucked.
YohoBottleORum · 2 points · Posted at 03:16:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sheer vastness and limitless expanse of the universe. I can’t grasp it. I love watching documentaries on the subject, but nobody fucking knows what the width of one billion quadrillion Jupiters is. Where does it start, where does it end ? How did it begin ? Could have it been the Big Bang if Newton’s first law states that an object object at rest remains at rest unless it is acted upon an outside force ? What was the force ? So many questions, and man has been only to two floating rocks in this vast expanse.
bigbitch- · 2 points · Posted at 03:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother.
dg1406 · 2 points · Posted at 03:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who vote against their financial interest
Birdroppings · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why whites are so racist
NorthForNights · 2 points · Posted at 03:37:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Penises over 5 inches.
Like how.
PeanutButterCrisp · 2 points · Posted at 03:40:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that a female has invested so much positive emotion into me that she is willing to let me touch and go inside of her. I realize how fucking creepy that sounds but I have to break it down that way to drive the point home.
It's unreal.
I'm 24 and I still can't crack the code but it amazes me every time.
I've got this beautiful girl in front of me, who can be anywhere else in the world but she's chosen to be right there, in front of me, naked, and ready to do whatever the fuck just because I said some words and conducted some actions.
Side-note: Was faced with a breakup last week and since getting back into the spin of the single life, this thought hit me hard.
edit - I know there's a virus. Don't worry. I'm keeping it in my pants until the air is clear.
InconceivableWords · 2 points · Posted at 03:40:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone is obsessed with the Kardashians. I just.......why?
Hank317 · 2 points · Posted at 03:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trump supporters
predatoractuall · 2 points · Posted at 03:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we, as humans, with the resources, manpower and brainpower to reach for the stars, spend ridiculous amounts of time and money figuring out better ways to kill each other over dirt and imaginary friends.
0_IceCold_0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bravo!
Brilliant-Shoulder · 2 points · Posted at 03:45:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump got elected
hscene · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people keep ear buds in their ears? I can’t wear air pods and such because they always fall out within seconds. Or I’ll put one side in and the other falls out instantly. I need the ones that go over your head or I can’t use any.
forlorn_hope28 · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, the good ones that you want if you do any sort of physical activity have these rubber tips that sit between the arches on the inside your ear lobe. They prevent the buds from moving. I’ve done HIIT and not once have they budged or gotten loose where I felt they would fall out. The Apple fanboys will downvote me, but the design of AirPods is trash. They fall out of my ears if I’m so much as walking.
Kugelblitzia · 2 points · Posted at 03:49:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably already posted by many others already,
I don't understand people who go out of their way to be an arsehole. I've met so many people who for no reason, are just jerks.
What I don't understand is why they do it. Why not just be normal and be nice to people? Why not make a bunch of friends and have a good time wherever you go? Instead they darken peoples day by being mean. I won't ever understand that...
Camanaguaman · 2 points · Posted at 03:52:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people have such a lack of common sense and logic
ndneixbs · 2 points · Posted at 03:54:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are genuinely entertained by/enjoy pissing off/upseting another person they don't even know.
DanTallTrees · 2 points · Posted at 03:54:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe in god. Even when I was a small child I didnt get it. I was told I was supposed to so I tried, I really tried. Even when I would talk the talk and walk the walk, I could never do it. It seriously seems so strange to me that people genuinely believe.
JDIZZLE213 · 2 points · Posted at 03:54:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is President of the United States
Honoriaa · 2 points · Posted at 03:57:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
ActivateNow · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How deep fake Joe Biden thinks he is going to win the 2020 election. It’s not going to happen.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:58:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that some people do not have an inner monologue
Starblaze647 · 0 points · Posted at 04:00:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Impossible
spacebro_123 · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
msmedic2U · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This about sums most of mine up as well.
RedditUserNameHidden · 2 points · Posted at 04:03:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The self victimization of black communities. I grew up in the hood. The hood-hood. Not some Mickey Mouse club house where kids parents are working class and kids like to get in trouble cause they’re bored. But shoot outs and drive bys every other day kind of hood. Yeah the system is fucked up, but why sit and be a pussy ass bitch and complain about it? I’ve always been about “if you don’t like the rules, play by the rules to change the rules.” Of you don’t like the white mans rule, play by his rule to change the rules. No “socio economic” social study/experiment can convince me of just plain out weak mindedness. Especially after the grievance studies affair papers.
Magister1995 · 2 points · Posted at 04:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how the DARK/DEEP web works... Who controls the inner workings? Is it just illegal websites or is it used for something more?
ovrmyheadredit · 2 points · Posted at 04:14:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why pepole have a Grudge over the lgbtq+ community like my cousin he despises me
jdlech · 2 points · Posted at 04:15:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How assholes get anywhere.
I really don't get how people can go through life acting like assholes to everyone without getting shived. Either literally, or metaphorically.
Because every time I meet an asshole, the only thing I want to do is shive him - either physically or metaphorically. I become especially unwilling to do anything for him. I deliberately make his life as difficult as I can. Once one identifies oneself as an asshole, I become his own personal asshole.
I'll bend over backwards for a nice person; and even for an average person. I make it a habit to not start shit with anyone. So why would anyone tolerate an asshole? Assholes deserve a hellish life. And I think everyone has a moral obligation to make their life hell. Otherwise, assholes might proliferate - and none of us want that.
Everyone should tell assholes to fuck right off and refuse to do anything for them. So how the fuck do assholes get anywhere in life?
1917daze · 2 points · Posted at 04:16:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:22:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can I make my limbs move? Like if I think “I want to move my right hand” my right hand won’t just move. Yet somehow I am able to move my right hand when I want without having to command it or think about it.
shrimp_42 · 2 points · Posted at 04:24:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
ItzNachoProblem · 2 points · Posted at 04:25:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy huge houses for their tiny families and never have anyone over. I know someone who's family is moving into a huuuge four story house so that they can have more space during the quarantine. This house has 6 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, a ginormous backyard, about 6 balconies, a spa and 2 living rooms, and it's for two parents with two kids.
dont-know-myname · 2 points · Posted at 04:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to play chess
Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 06:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get all the rules, but just randomly move bits around for a while until there are obvious moves to make, but even that has no strategy. I just can’t do it
CrowNeedsNoBuff · 2 points · Posted at 04:27:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When babies think, do they form words or pictures? If neither, what do they think with?
RosieStar101 · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Languages like how do people make different sounds and it garners different meanings.... also accents lol
sontaj · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music.
To me it is basically just noise? I find some music more pleasant, but I rarely make any strong emotional connection to it and I certainly don't like music enough to play it for its own sake. Generally speaking I do tasks in silence as music tends to distract me from what it is I am doing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t wrap my head around how people delude themselves into believing things that are clearly not true. It doesn’t make sense to me that a human being with a brain and a basic education could fall for stupid lies
IBlameOleka · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything at all works.
Yeah, on a certain level, things can make sense. I can see an apple fall from a tree and know it's because gravity. But how does gravity work? Why does it work? Or video or audio recording. No idea at all how those actually work. Or brains. Or communication. Economics. Anything.
You might understand the surface version of it. The words and generalizations and assumptions we humans have made up to sort the universe. But I've come to the conclusion that if you think about anything enough it stops making any sense whatsoever, and you can say that you understand something but really you're just lying to yourself.
cheeseball20 · 2 points · Posted at 04:28:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can I simultaneously read a book, but also picture what is going on in the story?!
SHADOWSTRIKE1 · 2 points · Posted at 04:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mattress stores stay in business.
I mean, it’s not like an every day purchase people make. People buy one every like 10 years, and even then, it’s only a few hundred dollars. Like a grand for a nice king. Then you never see that customer for a decade.
Yet these places rent out the largest stores to showcase the mattresses, and there’s never anyone there. I have no idea how these places bring in enough money to pay rent.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love that this bothers you :)
ETA: not in a cruel way, it’s just the bizarre kind of train of thought I often go into
Raptor745 · 2 points · Posted at 04:36:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thought a movie adaptation of Cats was a good idea
_chunky_cheese_ · 2 points · Posted at 04:36:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why this question is asked over and over and over on this sub
TheHungryOctorok · 2 points · Posted at 04:37:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fur trade was so detrimental to the North American Aboriginal Population. I understand, in a vacuum, why it sucked, but I don't understand why there was no trade with the Aztecs before then; in other words, why metal tools didn't exist in Canada and the United States before Europeans came along, when gold smelting was popular in Mexico.
Stig0 · 2 points · Posted at 04:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how, but at a sub-atomic level, the laws of physics fly out the window. Look into quantum mechanics, electrons are in fact matter, but depending on whether we observe them or not, they can act like waves and can in some cases even for lack of a better term, “teleport” past physical objects. Interesting stuff for sure.
Reaper_64 · 2 points · Posted at 04:42:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who blindly hate other people or disrespect people's opinions.
SADAME_AME · 2 points · Posted at 04:44:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can't have a zombie apocalypse.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:45:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
See also: HTML and Flash coding.
My knuckles are too calloused and low to the ground.
nerfezoriuq · 2 points · Posted at 04:45:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of dishwashers. I grew up without one so we would wash all dishes by hand. I bought a house almost 3 years ago with a dishwasher and have never used it because I don't see the point. You are supposed to rinse the plate before loading it into the dishwasher and wait for it to be full to not be wasteful. But that would mean I would need to buy like twice the amount of plates I currently have. If I have to rinse them already why not just wash them? I am looking at getting a drink fridge installed and getting rid of the dishwasher.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transgenderism. I completely accept that trans people don't feel like they were born in the correct body, but I don't understand what it even feels like to be a particular gender. If it's simply a matter of liking "boy stuff" or "girl stuff" then isn't that reinforcing the socially constructed gender norms? I'm genuinely not judging or doubting trans people, I just really don't get it. I think it's something that you have to experience to really understand, so I'm not sure that it's something I'll be able to understand, but if any trans people want to explain what it feels like to be born in the wrong body (If I'm saying that accurately), or would like to correct anything I've gotten wrong, I'd love to learn.
marczilla · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You were born in the wrong time. Your understanding of others is stuck in the 50’s. Trans rights are human rights, treat them like they are any person. If they are cool, be nice.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:19:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are you talking about? Did I deny trans rights? This thread is about something we don't understand, so I guess your comment fits.
abracadabz · 2 points · Posted at 04:48:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can wake up at 5am and be in the best mood ever. I am so jealous of you people.
Jetahiri · 2 points · Posted at 04:50:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi. How the heck is data transmitted into devices and you can be connected through air.
Bryancantmakerent · 2 points · Posted at 04:52:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Housing as a basic human right. It seems like it would be in the best interest of everyone to give as many people as possible basic housing. If you want a nice house go for it but a 600 square ft. basic home should be essentially free at this point. I don't understand how this problem hasn't been solved yet.
Sanyakumar · 2 points · Posted at 04:52:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships
ghm2018sp · 2 points · Posted at 04:54:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get funding to start a new business
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:56:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why two men alleged rapist in their 70s, neither one liked by the majority of Americans, are the two people deemed the most qualified to be president of the United States for the next 4 years.
Or, alternatively, why Joe Biden, a 77 year old man, possibly suffering from the beginnings of dementia, accused of sexual assault, and whose primary reason for running is “beat Trump,” is the candidate most liked by the democratic party. I know literally no one who actually thinks he’s a good candidate. Everyone I talk to says he’s awful, but that they support him because he’s more likely than candidate X to beat trump. If Joe Biden can beat Trump, shouldn’t someone with actual policies and a vision for a better America with policies that will actually effect change in America also be able to do that?
sendgoodmemes · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of eternity and time in general. How long was there nothing before the universe was created either by a boom or a creator? How long has existence of everything been?
TomorrowsHumanBeing · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern LED headlights in modern cars. Like, they're eye-piercingly bright. How TF did they get approved, they are way too bright (likely we are more sensitive to whiter light vs orange-y/yellowly light as moonlight is white-ish) and they definitely increase hazard to other drivers because sometimes they're so bright in your mirrors or in front of you that you can barely see. Literally everyone I know hates them and the internet has plenty of hatred as well. How do they continue to be produced and fitted when an entire civilization is expressing their disdain towards them?
ThAtOnEWeiRdGinGeR · 2 points · Posted at 04:59:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegans who put their pets on a vegan diet
swb_7818 · 2 points · Posted at 05:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes
Meowreetah · 2 points · Posted at 05:05:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My existence.
chaos_in_the_stars · 2 points · Posted at 05:06:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mood.
Meowreetah · 2 points · Posted at 17:55:00 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you my soulmate
yarg321 · 2 points · Posted at 05:06:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Farsi. Not one word.
reilly0328 · 2 points · Posted at 05:09:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in hospitality so I genuinely don’t understand how people can be rude to other humans (especially minimum wage employees). Also human decency is a big one as well
redvelvetlookinass · 2 points · Posted at 05:10:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
M o n e y. How is a piece of paper valuable? What the hell does gold have to do with it? Idk man
overtly-Grrl · 2 points · Posted at 05:10:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can hear the slight crackling of my blinds against the wood but can’t hear someone calling my name ten feet away from me.
KTom1634 · 2 points · Posted at 05:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebs Cycle and cellular respiration. No matter how many times I "learn" it, it just never sinks in. Yay for being a science major 🤷♀️🤦♀️
thisismaddie · 2 points · Posted at 05:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football, it’s been explained to me multiple times and I do not get it
Axel22232829 · 2 points · Posted at 05:12:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in a family of essential workers deal with a child?
Drop them off for care while you work (family, because every facility is closed).. are able to pick said child back up and not have to quarantine for 10-14 days and do the same thing again.
How does this make any sense to guidelines?
KOEDEGA · 2 points · Posted at 05:12:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any animal knows what is food and what is not. Like if you have a cracker in hand, most likely a dog will already know it's food. But if you have a rock and try to feed it to the dog, he knows it's not food and won't eat it.
How do they just know? I know as humans we are constantly told what is and what isn't food or edible, but sometimes dogs grow up without guidance from another and they just automatically know that bark off a tree isn't food for them and won't eat it, but can tell that cooked, flavourless rice or pasta is food and they can eat it.
I just don't understand how they just know. That and how certain things do stuff for them. Like how eating grass helps an upset stomach. How do they just automatically know that or how is it that they just immediately go to eating that as a solution like it's common knowledge despite not being taught?
bisnexu · 2 points · Posted at 05:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why realtors.make.so.much money for doing nothing.
hugegreenpickle · 2 points · Posted at 05:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never have done taxes and I’m trying to get the 1200$ but it’s is saying I need a pin and when I go to apply for one it says I’m not eligible... help!!
InfinitRage · 2 points · Posted at 05:14:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people genuinely think vaccines are bad for their kids without any concrete evidence...
Imapirateship · 2 points · Posted at 05:15:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how sometimes, and it doesnt matter if its a nice solid or a splattery fire hose, but just sometimes when I wipe my ass theres nothing to wipe.
LocalGae · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you genuinely want an answer to this?
Blondemermaid87 · 2 points · Posted at 05:16:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why common courtesy is basically non existent
AlyGatorWantsToBtl · 2 points · Posted at 05:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why chocolate makes your saliva super thick
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:17:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"stanning" someone
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:17:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why our body even works, yeah there are a bunch of things are functioning together but why? Why should they and more over, what consciousness is
allthefiends · 2 points · Posted at 05:17:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How millions of people can be functional through their decades long lifespan as the world gets more complex and seemingly confusing.
uglybaby423 · 2 points · Posted at 05:17:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans during this whole pandemic STILL don’t see how fucked up capitalism is and that the government could give two shits about us.
WhiteR0bin · 1 points · Posted at 15:35:19 on August 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism: an economic and political system in which a country's trade and industry are controlled by private owners for profit, rather than by the state. And yet you use that same capitalism to make money off people with you’re Onlyfans nice one 👍
Daboi24 · 2 points · Posted at 05:19:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf we running out if water? It is a cycle💀
Why-am-I-so-cool · 2 points · Posted at 05:20:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
music. how does something sound so good while something else sounds like complete garbage?
SuperDanzigGolf64 · 2 points · Posted at 05:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The desire to want children. I have tried to get there in my head many many times and just can never get to the need or want others have. I feel like whatever makes most people want them is missing from me completely. I'm 35, with my wife for 13 years and it has never even been a serious thought in my mind.
SigmaDick · 2 points · Posted at 05:22:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dota 2
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:24:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cardinal direction. I don’t know which direction north points.
potato_couch_ · 2 points · Posted at 05:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I have a vague ELI5 understanding but it all just seems like a big game of imaginary “feelings” with lots of money moving around
BIGBADRIBOTA · 2 points · Posted at 05:30:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cooking all I watch is cooking shows online and nothing ever sinks in.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even foodwishes with chef John
Nul_Atlas · 2 points · Posted at 05:31:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Card games, I don't know how people understand them.
kevin034 · 2 points · Posted at 05:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
slclgbt · 2 points · Posted at 05:38:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People of color that fight for equality, but not the equality for LGBT+ people.
One-Man-Wolf-Pack · 2 points · Posted at 05:44:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
Alicanto_Xenica · 2 points · Posted at 05:45:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How and why my intellect was assigned to this body. If you think about it, your mind could have belonged to an animal or even your best friend. It gets even weirder when you try to figure out why that happened and why you control this body instead of someone else's.
baldersz · 2 points · Posted at 05:47:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people aren't taking covid-19 seriously
Jammer5dryv · 2 points · Posted at 05:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wifi
lazysloth333 · 2 points · Posted at 05:48:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chess
SuzyFreckles · 2 points · Posted at 05:51:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why some people don’t use a blinker. I’m like — it’s literally for YOUR own safety, plus the dozens of others around you. I’m all about good communication in every way, so it blows my mind when people choose not to use a blinker.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And seatbelts
KoernerLibrary · 2 points · Posted at 05:52:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people aren't staying home.
I get it, we all want to go outside and it's getting to the point where some just can't hold it anymore. But if you think for any moment that your freedom is worth the pain and possibly even death of several others, then you've got a problem.
AdmiralWaffl3s · 2 points · Posted at 05:58:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know this will get people mad, but I genuinely don't understand why people like animal crossing. to me it looks monotonous and boring, with a really pandering artstyle.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it comes down to the same reason people like world of Warcraft. Rather than something like overwatch or call of duty where the excitement comes from the suspense of the fast paced game mechanics. Animal crossing is really good as rewarding people for reaching long term goals and making small improvements in the game over time.
tyindris · 2 points · Posted at 05:59:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girlfriend left me.
redditor_rat · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yikes! chin up unless you have more than one, it may be a plausible reason why she left
Omegafan101 · 2 points · Posted at 06:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semicolons. No matter how many times I ask people, the internet or even my *english teacher* mother I just cannot wrap my head around how to properly use a fucking semicolon.
krekenzie · 1 points · Posted at 06:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think of them as replacing a comma when adding related info, and being shorthand for "by the way" or "so you know".
See you tonight; you can borrow my book then.
anuragsvss · 2 points · Posted at 06:03:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump became the President of the United States.
gingerinflight · 2 points · Posted at 06:04:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pro-life. As a cover for anti-abortion, the pro-life movement seems to only care for “life” before birth. The amount of pain and suffering they inflict on those who wish to make their own choices about their own bodies, is criminal.
I would understand if they were putting their resources into the result of not having an abortion, but that doesn’t seem to happen. Bringing a life into this world is not easy, yet these folks want to force it on people they don’t have a clue about.
johnnyexcellent · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer chips work, or who thought up the concept.
Electric current runs through metal/wires on silicon boards and transmits a picture onto a screen. How was the first one created?
JumpsIntoTheVolcano · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be full from a salad or even think they look delicious.
cleetusneck · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand tides.. the physics behind it, and what makes certain spots have higher tides than others?
12345esther · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Telephones. And I don’t even mean cellphones, even the old school wired ones. Just can’t get my head wrapped around hoe these things work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:05:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any of the things we've done to build a society for the last couple 100 years. Your average person isn't happy with the state of the world, and yet here we are, continuing to march forward while we all complain about what we're marching toward.
Sloppy_Waffler · 2 points · Posted at 06:06:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you look through a high power telescope into a distant part of the universe, you’re seeing how it was millions of years ago, not currently, because the light takes time to travel. If you’re able to see something, how is it that it’s not in its current state?
Fucking quantum computing, how can something be both positive and negative at the same time. (Same concept)
DrSixtyNine · 3 points · Posted at 06:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This 👆🏿
Braydox · 2 points · Posted at 06:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers and the making of said computers. I have a basic idea of their functions but I have no understanding how you put lightining inside a rock which lets me play video games. Something to do with signals and that results on what we see on screen. I just don't understand it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:14:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Braydox · 1 points · Posted at 06:31:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
°_°
thematchalatte · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
lardman420 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same
Snagge44 · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
EboBro · 2 points · Posted at 06:09:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sun can stay so bright for so long of a time. The vastness of space.
sankis · 2 points · Posted at 06:10:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking selfies. My face was always something I tried to hide. That people can post pictures of themselves and be happy with how they look good is just a feeling something my brain cannot comprehend.
DrSixtyNine · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hiding due to insecurities?
kittycletus · 2 points · Posted at 06:10:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never understood U.S. politics. I think its because its so faceted, almost too transparent, or maybe because I'm Canadian and ours is so tame comparatively. Either way, your politicians are basically celebrity's. They should be working for you but both sides of the aisle seem to only be self interested. U.S. citizens revere and idolize politicians of every level, or seem completely apathetic to it. Why are you so dedicated to people who don't care about you? Why are your political beliefs inherited instead of earned? Why can't you admit a politician is bad of they're bad? Why don't you hold these people accountable?
steamyboii · 2 points · Posted at 06:12:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
DarcPhynix · 2 points · Posted at 06:12:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shorting a stock. I've read a few blurbs on how it's supposed to work but I still don't get it.
amykm1215 · 2 points · Posted at 06:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
any thing to do with math. I have a learning disability so that stuff hurts my brain.
Fyestorm12 · 2 points · Posted at 06:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump got elected
initiald-ejavu · 2 points · Posted at 06:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who genuinely like to do productive things. The kind which goes like “Yea I was reading Kant’s critique of pure reason before bed the other day and....” WITHOUT just trying to sound elitist. The kind which makes apps in their spare time.
You can tell who these people are by the fact that they never mean to brag. They’re genuinely confused when people are surprised at the amount of work they’re doing and the knowledge that they have.
For them what they’re doing doesn’t require any willpower or discipline, it’s what they WANT to do. I could never imagine myself genuinely wanting to work. And I don’t even have a job yet. (I’m in college not a potato). I don’t know if that trait is learned or how to learn it if it is.
lugi_ow · 2 points · Posted at 06:14:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How programming language was developed. Like u got 1 and 0. But how in the world someone made a piece of technology understand what we want from it?
JimJimThePotato · 2 points · Posted at 06:15:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everything just exists like this. A world where we have things like hands and feet and things we are born with that makes life just so much easier. I know that evolution plays a big part but everything is pretty well organized all the way down to the last atom.
tristasaurus_rex · 2 points · Posted at 06:16:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do straight guys feel so threatened by gay guys?
SquidCultist002 · 0 points · Posted at 06:20:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because book said gay bad
tristasaurus_rex · 0 points · Posted at 06:26:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
book also said pork bad yet you still eat bacon
SquidCultist002 · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But book said
Lazerpop · 2 points · Posted at 06:16:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I've had this explained to me so many times and still don't understand how the "Monty Hall Problem" works. Why does switching to the door offered increase chance of winning to 2/3? Why isn't the chance of winning always 1/2?
Edit: searching on reddit just a moment ago answered my question! Now I genuinely do understand it. How about that! https://old.reddit.com/r/AskStatistics/comments/fd64dx/monty_hall_problem_10th_grader_with_no/fjficcl/
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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STTNGfan15 · 1 points · Posted at 06:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Fellow BPD here and I think I can explain why you can’t take criticism even when it is fair. (Keep in mind this is just true for many people with BPD, may not be true for you).
The whole thing about people with BPD is that they have no inherent self worth not at all. Everything, every emotion every reaction stems from that.
Yeah, while I take medications to help stabilize my moods, I personally have just accepted that I will be BPD the rest of my life (and I am only twenty something).
Sorry man, hope things somehow manage to get better.
Edit: Now I am paranoid that I may have offended you. I promise I have no malicious intent! I just wrote down what I have heard a million times. And while this is true for me, it may not be true for you. So sorry!
-n0b0dy_ · 2 points · Posted at 06:25:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex
slugshady · 2 points · Posted at 06:26:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the quadratic formula
slugshady · 2 points · Posted at 06:29:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
stoichiometry
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String Theory. I think I've read the wiki on it a dozen times and still don't get it.
TheDjTanner · 1 points · Posted at 06:33:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should read The Elegant Universe by Dr. Brian Greene. It's THE book to describe string theory to those without PhDs in physics.
yahboyben · 2 points · Posted at 06:32:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Splitting a atom. Like how can we split one if we’ve never seen one?
ravnag · 2 points · Posted at 06:35:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
noemotiongamestrong · 2 points · Posted at 06:36:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just straight up text messaging and anything tech related. How?!
new_sherk_sucks · 2 points · Posted at 06:38:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do airplanes work
iConcy · 2 points · Posted at 06:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get how Hellen Keller knew what she knew if she was deaf and blind before she was two. How can someone who is deaf and blind understand the concepts of words like “orange” or “fog” if they have no reference for it? How can you teach someone words when they can neither see or hear? Maybe I’m missing something and haven’t spent enough time learning about her, but I’ve always been baffled by it.
EDIT: Clarity
bigchillqk1 · 2 points · Posted at 06:43:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why some people think it's ok to show up to things late - if we agreed to meet you at 1200, I expect to see you then, not at 1245.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 09:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate being late, but I have virtually no concept of how long things will take, get distracted incredibly easily and am an expert procrastinator Even if it’s something I do every day, I need constant alarms and reminders to keep me on track
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 06:47:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much wood a woodchuck could chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood.
BigThoughtz · 2 points · Posted at 06:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no clue how vaginas holes work. Apparently there is two?. Help. What are the holes functions? One to pee the other for sex? Can the guy enter the wrong hole? I feel so stupid for not understanding. As you can see I did not get a good sex ed class.
LostinThots14 · 2 points · Posted at 06:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket Science
justusbruecke · 2 points · Posted at 07:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why people are hoarding toilet paper in times of a global virus outbreak.
Cuteness_Overload- · 2 points · Posted at 07:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parents kick out their children for being gay, transgender or anything that goes against the religion or what the parents think is right. I understand it’s a huge shocker for them but that is your child, it doesn’t matter if they’re adopted or biological. You had a child and have loved it it’s entire life, you bully someone and tell them to kill themselves? Oh you’re just being kids, no harm done but, as soon as that kid says “I’m gay/bi/pan etc” their a disgrace to the family name and you kick them out?
I just think it’s really fucked up
extralongsigh · 2 points · Posted at 07:17:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know
SSSkinz · 2 points · Posted at 07:25:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
ZakkuHiryado · 2 points · Posted at 07:38:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How photographs work. Digital or otherwise. It just seems otherworldly to me that we have a device that can essentially snatch a moment of time and preserve it, encapsulate it, and reproduce it so well that future generations can look back and say, “oh that’s what grandpa looked like. Neat.”
karlsneider · 2 points · Posted at 07:53:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whamen
Bonezee · 2 points · Posted at 07:58:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
How the fuck do they work?
Fealuinix · 1 points · Posted at 16:43:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miracles?
If you mean permanent magnets, all I know is it's some kind of quantum physics effect.
HarrargnNarg · 2 points · Posted at 08:05:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. 2 consecutive thoughts about it create cognitive dissonance.
ylatirb · 2 points · Posted at 08:07:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra and unit conversion equations.
I'm 25 and studying biomedical science, currently doing biochemistry within that and I'm just so stuck.
HibbyVII · 2 points · Posted at 08:08:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be creative.
With all this time stuck at home, and plenty of things around me to do (musical instruments, design programs, art programs etc.) I find coming up with anything original in the creative sense almost impossible. Like there are things in my head that would make great stories, songs or pictures, but it feels like they're just outside the corner of my eye, so to speak. It's disheartening and I don't understand.
tatti_khale_ · 2 points · Posted at 08:13:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do build a computer language? I mean how did we even invent the first computer to compute calculations?
I simply cannot imagine Charles Babbage simply sitting in his lab or whatever and suddenly he develops a method of communicating with circuits to do some calculations for him.
And whereas doing calculations is one thing.. how the hell did we get from there, to being able to create virtual Voice Assistants that can do bizarre things?
Throwawaybecause7777 · 2 points · Posted at 08:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Complex math and how to code.
primestarkiller · 2 points · Posted at 08:22:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans and why they're so fucking stupid, more importantly Trumptards and why they blindly follow the orange goon. He's so fucking stupid, it's painful to watch his daily briefings.
indianzfan2 · 1 points · Posted at 12:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nicely thought out message. No facts.
primestarkiller · 1 points · Posted at 13:35:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Precisely my point. Everything is laid out with multiple news sources and yet you blindly follow the fucking moron. Get your head out of your ass and stop watching fox.
Fealuinix · 1 points · Posted at 16:37:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people have a specialty. His isn't eloquence, but manipulation.
tektonikmoostrgirl · 2 points · Posted at 08:32:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination. I honestly have no clue as to why, anybody would want to attack or annoy someone else for being different. Why should Gay people be shamed for liking someone the same gender as them?Why are women put down for being the weaker sex? Why are people with different skin colours called names? What’s wrong with all these things, and why do people hate it so much?
Fealuinix · 2 points · Posted at 16:32:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think small-minded people just really need someone to look down on.
Leximania47 · 2 points · Posted at 08:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have such difficulty hanging washing up once it’s finished in the machine. Sometimes I just wash it all again to avoid doing it. No reasonable reason for not doing it but I just can’t a lot of the time
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 09:12:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex wife.
root_bridge · 2 points · Posted at 08:42:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Banach-Tarski Paradox. Seriously, I have yet to come across an explanation that even remotely begins to make sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:35:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup. Like taking acid at a rave.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of Deja Vu about an experience that you've never had.
indianzfan2 · 1 points · Posted at 12:16:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a glitch in the Matrix.
zk1glec · 2 points · Posted at 09:19:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason I was put on this earth to be bullied and have every aspect of my life feel so miserable and confusing and like I’m just wasted space. Why if I’m so miserable i can’t just make it quit without being to scared.
hereforthegarlic · 2 points · Posted at 09:25:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn record players and how a needle can apply friction to make sound. Even thinking of it in terms of vibration gets me. Recording a vinyl makes a vibration that cuts a physical groove that when scratched at the right speed plays back the exact same sound. How is it even made louder?!
And I'm like a musician as well, I know about amplifiers and stuff! It just boggles my mind!
xtian11 · 2 points · Posted at 09:50:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How things exist. Where did all the matter come from? Did it always exist? If so why did it exist? And why the amount there is? If it didn't always exist how was it created? From what? Argh..my head
samuelson098 · 2 points · Posted at 10:21:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. I missed a few lessons on it in year 3 and it's been lost to me ever since
AustinsAirsoft · 2 points · Posted at 10:26:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The end of space, is there one?
IrishSoldier1 · 2 points · Posted at 10:30:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. i just don't get concept of it.
It was explained to multiple times, but currently all I get are the following: 1) Electricity comes from a hole in the wall 2) sometimes spare electricity have to be released from my pc after I touched the heater
chynnacena · 2 points · Posted at 10:31:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Harry Potter fans who Stan Snape.
SoundlyRational · 2 points · Posted at 10:36:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin magnets. How do they work?
vishals14101993 · 2 points · Posted at 10:38:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the concept of grounding. Basically the difference between neutral and earth wire in electrical connections.
Kaelan_McAlpine · 2 points · Posted at 10:40:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pansexuality. Idk about you guys but I just see it as being bi with another name.
Mikey_B_CO · 2 points · Posted at 10:46:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
DelusionalGorilla · 2 points · Posted at 10:52:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
like being sober, never having the temptation to smoke some crack
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:52:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Songslikepeople · 2 points · Posted at 10:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a lying, manipulating narcissist, only looking out for his personal profit can be the president of the United States.
It honestly makes me think americans are dumb. They are literally trying their hardest to destroy their country but voting for this orange haired toddler. How is it that so many people are voting against their own good? I could understand if this was a devious master politician. But no, what Trump is doing, is so incredible obvious that it makes me doubt the intelligence of the american people.
GingerJanMarie · 2 points · Posted at 11:02:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be so "Christian" yet be so cruel to others.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:20:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone vote for Trump after hearing him speak!
cinnamonpudge · 2 points · Posted at 11:27:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global debt. To whom do the countries ultimately owe money, if everyone is using credit off someone else?
DyingNaked · 2 points · Posted at 11:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths..
Terroklar2 · 2 points · Posted at 11:41:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my team is always so bad in league of legends
alone_in_blue · 2 points · Posted at 12:02:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people smoke?
insomniac2go · 2 points · Posted at 12:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people not only voted for Donald Trump, but continue to rabidly support him after EVERYTHING.
enriceau · 2 points · Posted at 12:07:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How once again the race for US president is between two sex offenders, one of which is a pedophile.
W31R1N · 2 points · Posted at 12:07:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did an entire *universe* was created from nothing? I mean, there was some energy and whatever, but how did that was created? How were created those *things* before the "Big Bang".
(Sorry for any mistakes, English isn't my first language, obviously)
takao214 · 2 points · Posted at 12:13:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
neergnai · 2 points · Posted at 12:13:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't get my head around Einstein's Relativity. How can light and time move at different speeds according to the viwer? It does my head in.
tuz1968 · 2 points · Posted at 12:13:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What an apple tastes like to you.
I know what an apple tastes like. But does the combination of tastebuds, nerve conduction and electrical impulses in your brain result in the same taste sensation to you as it does for me?
vlizzywithaglizzy · 2 points · Posted at 12:25:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t u derstand why non black people have the desire to say the N word? why tf yall wanna say it so bad
Madrigal_King · 2 points · Posted at 12:39:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole righty-tighty lefty-loosy thing. It's a circle. There is no right or left. Also, if im screwing two objects together, which does right and which goes left?
irritabletom · 2 points · Posted at 12:40:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes work. They're so heavy and big. It doesn't make any goddamned sense and I've read up on it. I understand the idea, just not the fact that it works.
ariesshield123 · 2 points · Posted at 12:51:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Joe Biden beat Bernie Sanders...
PetiteSyFy · 2 points · Posted at 12:52:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corriolous effect.
cornelius012 · 2 points · Posted at 12:58:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where bears hibernate in the winter. I just don’t see how there are thousands of undisturbed caves out there?!
jesuisamelia · 2 points · Posted at 13:08:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump voters
AnswerGuy301 · 1 points · Posted at 13:25:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ll never understand why so many Americans (and probably non-Americans as well) are so susceptible to empty puffery by salesmen. He’s not a business man in any meaningful sense so even the whole “the business of America is business” thing doesn’t quite explain it. It’s all sales and marketing the product behind the curtain is worthless and venture after venture fails miserably once the time comes to deliver. It would take minimal research to discover that pretty much everything this guy has ever touched has turned to shit, whether or not it had anything to do with politics. I wouldn’t hire this guy to stock shelves with cat toys if I ran a Petco.
realdonaldrumpf · 2 points · Posted at 13:10:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
trump
HuanSeeToe · 2 points · Posted at 13:20:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the media would call out Obama for anything and everything PLUS laugh at his 'stupidity' on CNN, but completely fail to do the same with Trump.
It's just not fair. I want everyone to be called stupid
Shit , this comment deserves to be called stupid
Carpaltunnelsnake · 2 points · Posted at 13:24:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can just kill a maaaan.
thelostboy00 · 2 points · Posted at 13:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People who leave comments on item specific amazon questions to say “I don’t know the answer..”
Guy_behind_the_hood · 2 points · Posted at 13:37:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have to be rude if they can just do it in a kind way.
Gasta_juice · 2 points · Posted at 13:38:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
it would be a long list if i names everything but anyway
1: the fact that we are essentially just a brain with so many of the same impulse thoughts and reaction programmed into every human
2: how anything came to be
3: who the fuck names tables, tables
Accidentalpizzaroll · 2 points · Posted at 13:38:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Expensive designer brand clothes such as Gucci or Louis Vuitto . I really don't understand the appeal, they usually look like normal clothes with there logo or look like something you would find in the discount bin in a second hand store, but people go nuts for them
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:54:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space and time is relative.
Platina4k · 2 points · Posted at 14:00:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How well educated and genuinely intelligent people can be neonazis in our times.
And don't fool yourselves. Some are!
es-cee · 2 points · Posted at 14:07:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that some people find it cool to behave rudely with people showing concern about them.
Muncha115 · 2 points · Posted at 14:10:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human brain. I could make an entire list about the craziness I don’t get. Like why does hypocrisy exist? Why are there genuinely bad people? How does it remember things so vividly with little electrical signals? Why when I think to myself is it in my voice? How am I thinking to myself?
ManitouWakinyan · 2 points · Posted at 14:16:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did we invent bread? I mean, you don't just find bread in the wilderness. You've got to look at this grain and decide "hey i could crush that." And then youve got to think "i could make it wet." And then add some rot ro it, and then make that rotten crushed wet grain really hot.
And we did it everywhere.
lastfullshow · 2 points · Posted at 14:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe in astrology and pay for it.
rfd2115 · 2 points · Posted at 14:34:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the universe expanding into?
puggamerawsome · 2 points · Posted at 14:46:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
ImTheBFD · 2 points · Posted at 14:51:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 14:58:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not going through this thread. I don't want to have another existential crisis.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:18:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
HunterAcord · 2 points · Posted at 15:18:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
SealLionGar · 2 points · Posted at 15:25:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how I got a C- for reading a play with perfect speech compared to the rest is what flutters through my mind to this day.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:26:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reasoning behind our healthcare structure.
DC4MVP · 2 points · Posted at 15:29:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
Like space is infinite....it apparently never ends (as far as we know). It just goes on and on and on and on and on. It's just mind boggling that we haven't even thought about scratching the surface of space exploration in 60+ years.
And that makes you think, how is there not life elsewhere?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:34:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to meet new people.
YoloDungBeetle_ · 2 points · Posted at 15:37:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subneting
Jolly_Carpenter · 2 points · Posted at 15:41:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For profit prisons, why phones in prisons cost money, why us laws are so strict, why drugs are illegal, astro physics
ok_life123 · 2 points · Posted at 15:44:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
homophobes
milehighking303 · 2 points · Posted at 15:55:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and the stock market.
I have read about how it works but still can't comprehend it. I'm actually interested in buying and selling stocks to try and make money but for the life of me can't make sense of it. (I know with the virus going on this is probably a terrible time)
Also, all of the people standing in the room looking at monitors is so weird to me...like how do you know what any of that means!
Kelly-yo · 2 points · Posted at 16:18:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to buy and sell stock
Iseneau27 · 2 points · Posted at 17:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People thinking the Earth is Flat, Anti-Vaxxers and Karens...
lengelmp · 2 points · Posted at 17:24:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish.... I don’t speak it. :(
Fafinozka · 1 points · Posted at 17:39:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
BRO same 😤
MyNamesLilly · 2 points · Posted at 18:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are Raciest, Sexist, Homophobic, Trans phobic (etc) Like why cant we all be fucking equal for fuck sakes.
swiddy_ · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its just natural human bias. People like to think that they are better then everyone else and its as simpkle as that. Fortunately racism, sexism and(cant find ism words for Homophobic and Trans phobic ) is going out of fashion ( I hear about a lot more boomer racists than millennial ones. but then again, I am a millennial myself so I might just be displaying the natural human bias I was talking about. But sadly even if all of these things die out and humans become equal for the first time is history soon enough I beleive robots will become smart enough to want rights and using them to do calculations (etc) will be considered slavery and once robot slavery gets abolished we will most likely treat them differently in a depressing repeat of dark history.
UsedSpread · 2 points · Posted at 18:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does anyone else get a weird, almost physical feeling when you think about space constantly expanding into uh, whatever?
illdrinkurcoffee · 2 points · Posted at 18:42:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my grandma can harass and berate me any way she wants to, but I'm not allowed to stand up for myself, being a younger member of a family. I don't see how her age was a proper reason for trying to control every aspect of my life and yelling at me for disobeying.
She used to get really offended every time I was explaining to her the unfairness of the whole ordeal. She manipulated me by screaming, crying, cussing, locking me in my room, and leaving me without a dinner. In her opinion, her actions were always justified as she was an elderly, while I was an entitled prick.
Peevin · 2 points · Posted at 20:36:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:06:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers, flat earthers, vegans and people who think the moon landing was fake. Basically idiots
Akem0417 · 2 points · Posted at 21:43:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who want to use the current crisis to enact positive change rather than going back to normal first and then trying to make the world better after we've recovered
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia, racism, etc. How could someone hate another person just for...being different? I don't get it
g-hayer-04 · 2 points · Posted at 03:04:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The pressure to go to post secondary schools (College&Uni)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dentists make a point about a tooth decaying in coke. They leave it in for 2 weeks straight without cleaning it like yes I need to stop holding coke in my mouth like a pelican for 2 week bits without brushing
CasualFBIAgent · 2 points · Posted at 15:37:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my pp gets hard for no reason
lowlife_husky_ · 2 points · Posted at 19:27:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women who support patriarchy. I understand that men want to be in power(etc.) and hence support it but how do can women support their own suppression?
For example, it is unimaginably infuriating to hear a woman say that she is meant to do a job like cleaning utensils because she is a woman and that, I as a woman, should also follow the same.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:47:37 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
How helicopters work. Yes I know the theory, but my mind can't get around those big steel things just lift up.
Graisk_YT · 2 points · Posted at 15:34:08 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you use code for a computer where does the code come from, wouldnt you need code to code a place where you can type code?
CoolCoconuts44 · 2 points · Posted at 05:59:03 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
The true complexity of the human body, and beyond that the complexity of cells. If anything doing 3 years of biology is HS made me even more confused.
RegenKaje · 2 points · Posted at 22:51:59 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Confidence. No idea what life must be like for people who are just confident in themselves.
Argentum_Daemon · 2 points · Posted at 01:51:03 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do fish get thirsty?
gofuckyourselfsandi · 2 points · Posted at 05:29:56 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly don't understand why printing more money doesn't solve problems, and instead causes inflation.
I don't think I'm a dumb person, I do well in school, but I just cannot comprehend why this does not work. My mum is exhausted trying to explain it to me, so maybe y'all can help?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:56 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try to compare money to gold, a mineral which is expensive because of its rarity.
If gold became more common, it'd be cheaper, causing it to inflate.
Money does the same thing, pretty much. The difference here being that the value of currency depends on the number on the monetary unit and not the value of the metal or paper itself.
Belizean83 · 2 points · Posted at 14:55:47 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how anyone could have voted for Donald Trump.
SpiritedSpud · 2 points · Posted at 11:04:44 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Graphing functions. Had it explained to me a ton of different ways by different teachers, no dice. I passed college algebra by the absolute SKIN of my teeth because of my inability to grasp the understanding of it.
Nerdboy20 · 2 points · Posted at 11:19:54 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the he'll do people believe that vaccines cause autism, the fucking internet corona and flat earth even though they have been proven false
Off-to-tesco · 2 points · Posted at 13:03:54 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, well... Um.......whoops
Off-to-tesco · 2 points · Posted at 14:12:09 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks.... But I know nothing about Dutch culture neither did I intentionally make a Dutch joke
mpi_3103 · 2 points · Posted at 00:45:26 on April 28, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do teeth taste like
MalcolmKicks · 2 points · Posted at 02:30:22 on April 29, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people see sex as a sin punishable by eternity in the 9th circle of hell (or something stupid like that) but claim that life is the most precious thing to ever exist and is God's gift.
Kaitlin33101 · 2 points · Posted at 23:40:08 on May 1, 2020 · (Permalink)
most of the things I genuinely don't understand are things that I don't want to understand. But one thing, is how the hell does money in the music industry work? I'm learning about it in a class and it's SO confusing
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:55:52 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, bullying, homophobia, ghetto mentality, trolls and Trump!
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 15:21:06 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:24:05 on May 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peace dude. Stay safe. :)
Eight_Bits_ · 2 points · Posted at 20:18:58 on September 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules of Poker. I've had them explained and demonstrated to me on about half a dozen occasions, but they will not stay fixed in my memory.
PhilzeeTheElder · 42 points · Posted at 13:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people give money to Churches?
Knute5 · 79 points · Posted at 14:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lotta good churches. Lotta good people.
Churches used to be the origins of charity, schools and hospitals.
Of course there's some messed up churches too...
iamfeelingverysad · 9 points · Posted at 18:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the comment or is referring to mega churches and TV churches. Otherwise, I agree with you
PhilzeeTheElder · -67 points · Posted at 15:39:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Churches use "charity" to recruit. They are also the origin of torture and science suppression.
CitationX_N7V11C · 27 points · Posted at 17:32:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to re-read your history. Specifically the Bronze Age.
monkeybassturd · -4 points · Posted at 21:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have any idea what kind of and the amount of science and charity was being done in the bronze age? 4000 years ago. How you have one up vote is beyond me.
PhilzeeTheElder · -18 points · Posted at 18:22:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You need to read about The Tea Party of the Early 21st Century. The Bronze age was way before any current Churches were created. Maybe you're thinking of Franciscan Monks of the 13 hundreds. Doesn't make up for Spanish Inquisition and the burning of Incan Texts.
[deleted] · 12 points · Posted at 18:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rather odd to look to the early 21st century for the origin of torture and science suppression dontcha think?
PhilzeeTheElder · -2 points · Posted at 19:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well this is the century I happen to live in. If you have proof of the Tea Party using torture please notify the authorities. BUT Institutions that got rich off torture still exist today and pay retirement benefits to child molesters. True or False?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:43:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Silly goose.
theflyingdipper · 6 points · Posted at 22:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science has also tortured millions of people throughout history.
PhilzeeTheElder · 0 points · Posted at 22:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But they pay their taxes.
Rockergage · 3 points · Posted at 03:58:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean research grants is the complete opposite of that.
Wheatles_BiteAlbum · 8 points · Posted at 19:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're right that they suppressed science, but they were not the "origin of torture". That's insane, torture has been around as long as mankind in some form.
Knute5 · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feels good to do a good thing. Yup, then you're hooked. Kind of like that first Scientology personality test... but I'd rather be tortured and suppressed than be the asshole doing it. And there's a few religions and churches that do have a pretty clean record.
PhilzeeTheElder · -3 points · Posted at 22:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But you're not doing a good thing you're supporting someone who lies for a living.. Fucking money for nothing Chicks for Free.If churches paid taxes like a bowling alley has to there wouldn't be poor people for you to pretend to help.
Knute5 · 2 points · Posted at 00:30:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Megachurches make money. Corner church? Not so much. (proof: I'm a preacher's kid). I'm not a Christian. Went another way, but I have nothing against those who do. For hundreds of years they've helped knit communities together. But to your point, yes, a lot of messed up churches and no, they shouldn't be political activists without getting their tax-free status pulled.
NaraciaB0T · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
based
MrGeekman · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:12 on May 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're thinking of the Catholic Church.
I_hate_traveling · 34 points · Posted at 13:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't give money, but I sometimes volunteer at mine. The only reason is because I genuinely think they do good for the community.
I assume those that choose to give money feel the same way.
spinner198 · 8 points · Posted at 21:28:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because churches cost money to run and to grow.
Rostin · 19 points · Posted at 19:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's hard to understand about that? Think of it like a club that has dues. The club needs money to operate, and its members feel that they derive benefit from the club, or that the club's mission is important, so they pay.
Cumbayacumbaya · -6 points · Posted at 22:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao trust me your church doesn’t need any money. They don’t have to pay taxes remember?
golden_fli · 2 points · Posted at 08:16:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trust me I know my Church's finances and yeah they DO need money. Do you really think the only bill people pay is taxes? I hope you never try to start a business if you think all you have to pay to run a place is taxes. First a church has to pay their staff, even if it's only the Pastor. Then you have utilities. Most pay some kind of housing for the Pastor(ever heard of a Parsonage?). Even if it's an allowance over having an actual house. Of course you have maintenance. ALL buildings need to be maintained and a public building like a church can't cut as many corners as people do with their house. Do some churches get more then they need? Yes. Hopefully they are doing good with it, but not all do. My mine point though was that they do still have plenty of expenses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually most churches are small churches that do need the money. Where do you think the money to keep the lights on and the building maintained and such comes from? What do you think that they do that generates revenue that they don't need donations?
AreWeCowabunga · 17 points · Posted at 14:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good chicken.
thatguywithaleg · 5 points · Posted at 21:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The almighty Philzee, the Elder owned all those Christian libtards epic style
altacc00000000 · 2 points · Posted at 00:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To help people within the church, to have bills paid, and food for gatherings.
My church when i went bought us a car when my mother had to walk 4 miles to work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people give money to political campaigns? Or humanitarian organizations?
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 18:54:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people go so far in debt with no plan to get out. There’s just no logic behind it.
If you’re already in debt and struggling daily, a baby with a fat hospital bill is the wrong step to take.
Starting a business that is statically more likely to fail above the majority is ridiculous.
Buying a house without considering additional costs against your average salary is insane.
Going into college debt for a degree that will make you little money is asinine.
Marrying someone who won’t give everything including support to the relationship which will end in an expensive divorce is moronic.
Buying a brand new car while you’re in heavy debt: irresponsible.
Sending you’re kids to an expensive grade school/ high school outside of your budget is pathetic.
[deleted] · 39 points · Posted at 17:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americas......everything system. Why not meters, why not free healthcare?
XirallicBolts · 4 points · Posted at 19:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If we spent the money to convert to metric, "wtf america you could've housed millions of homeless people with that money"
L/100km is a stupid way of measuring fuel economy. Km/l would make far more sense
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:30:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happy cake day! And yes, that is confusing
spinner198 · 10 points · Posted at 21:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I could ask the same thing about pretty much every non-America country.
Why no military? Imagine living in a world where one country’s military is essentially the world’s military but people still complain about how much that country’s military costs.
bigbabycheeses · 5 points · Posted at 00:06:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhhh, UN peacekeepers are the world's military. The US military is basically the mergers and acquisitions department of the American oil industry.
spinner198 · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
UK Peacekeepers active personnel: 90,905 uniformed, 111,512 total
US Military active personnel: 1,359,450 active, 845,600 reserve
Well I suppose the UN peacekeepers could be 10% of the world's military.
ISIXofpleasure · 10 points · Posted at 00:30:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The U.S pays for 1/5 of the UN budget. We are the world police.
spinner198 · 6 points · Posted at 00:31:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed. You would think that other nations would pay their fair share. But the US still foots a large part of the bill while we still spend money on our own military and it still trumps the UN peacekeepers by a huge margin.
Lavishgoblin · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correlates with population though.
ElGatoTriste · 4 points · Posted at 19:59:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we learned it form G.B.. When everyone was shifting over the cost to reeducate the general public and recreate every aspect our infrastructure just made it not worth it. Additionally, most Americans actually have a general knowledge of both systems depending on their exposure. Personally, I was in the military so I understand metric distances pretty intuitively. I've always measured my liquids in liters and milliliters, but many don't. People in more science related fields regularly use the metric system.
When I traveled abroad, the most difficult conversion that did not come naturally is Fahrenheit to Celsius and vise versa. I don't necessarily think that Celsius is inherently better for every day use but it is clearly better in a scientific environment, which again, people in those fields use Celsius.
As to why not free healthcare, that is more of a a subjective matter in regards to the role of government in the US. Many conservatives believe that providing health care is simply not a role of the government. A considerable number of medical advancements in recent history have taken place in the United States because there is more monetary incentive here than in other places.
Megagamer42 · 2 points · Posted at 22:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Used to it, and fuck the majority of people who’d abuse it and drive the price to untenable levels.
cmdrcaboose2 · 2 points · Posted at 23:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The marginal benefit is not worth the cost of switching to metric.
Nothing is free. Why no universal healthcare? I like the idea but I don’t trust the government to handle it without corruption and misuse of tax funds.
altacc00000000 · 2 points · Posted at 01:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why meters? Why not yards? Switching too the system everyone else uses would take a shit ton of time, and money.
Gooner2005 · 12 points · Posted at 18:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American I really don’t know.
ron_sheeran · -5 points · Posted at 19:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well Fahrenheit makes sense because its how you feel, which is more important to the General public. But the imperal system is stupid.
Lontarus · 16 points · Posted at 20:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so it is possible to "feel like its 100°F right now"
but it is not possible to "feel like its 30°C right now"
Yeah that makes total sense.
ron_sheeran · -12 points · Posted at 20:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fahrenheit is built around how the temprature feels while Celsius is based on how the molecules move.
NCFSauce · 3 points · Posted at 00:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celcius is based on the freezing point of water. You could say Kelvin is based on how molecules work, as 0 Kelvin is when the molecules are not moving
Lontarus · 7 points · Posted at 21:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it was made by one single scientist in the 1700s where he set 0°F to the coldest temperature he was able to achieve himself at the time. Shortly after establishing it he was able to achieve a colder temperature himself. Nothing about fahrenheit makes any sense at all.
Celsius has two datapoints which both are super relevant both to humans in our daily lives as well as in science. Water freezing point and water boiling point.
cmdrcaboose2 · -4 points · Posted at 23:23:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is water boiling point relevant to daily human life?
Lontarus · 8 points · Posted at 23:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pasta
cmdrcaboose2 · -4 points · Posted at 23:31:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t need to know the temp of the water to know it’s boiling. I can just fucking look.
The boiling point of water is not useful information. The freezing point definitely is.
Lontarus · 3 points · Posted at 23:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is absolutely a temperature you need to know, it is very easy to understand why temperatures reaching 100 degrees Celsius are dangerous to people.
0 and 100 are a million times easier numbers to remember than what is it, +25 something and +370?
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 21:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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golden_fli · 2 points · Posted at 08:36:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll say that is my understanding of what the idea is supposed to be, however I don't see where you are wrong of the feel of Celsius. I'd bet the rest of the people think that 30 feels like 30 C. Just us Americans are used to our system so we like the wider range for what we think the FEEL is.
ron_sheeran · -13 points · Posted at 21:39:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Google it.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 21:49:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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fundumpstercumdumpst · 2 points · Posted at 03:21:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, this sounds like horseshite. How it “feels”. Oh it feels like a 70 out today, doesn’t it bob? We should make a measurement out of this completely arbitrary number.
dr_strange-love · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facts don't care about your feelings
ron_sheeran · 0 points · Posted at 03:19:41 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I watch the news I want to know if I need to put on a jacket not how close I am to making ice cubes.
ISIXofpleasure · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw this the other day on the front page. You have to be troll.
Elgar17 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fahrenheit is where it is measured because of the temperatures he could reproduce in his lab though?
10_Virtues · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the dude that was sailing to the US to introduce and teach metric at the time, got all his shit stolen or lost. I can't remember his name but that's basically what happened.
Noble____Actual · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can at least try to awnser the no free healthcare. Well first gotta be that one guy with the obligatory "it's not really free" ok, now I'll get started. Alot of Americans dont vote for free healthcare since they really dont like and possibly fear anything that leans more left then they feel is comfortable and possibly combined with ignorance. And a personal reason for me and others who enjoy firearms, many of the political figures who want to start government funded healthcare and other programs like want to criminalize and demonize gun owners.
Then again this is just the opinion of a dumb as fuck 16 year old American who dosent know a while lot about politics.
3nchilada5 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having been raised half in america, half elsewhere, I have this terrible bastardized system of measurement that works in my head where I go from inches to meters and grams to pounds and it’s all messed up
I say metric is much better. Except for Fahrenheit, I still prefer that. Celsius isn’t exact enough, the difference between 24 and 25 degrees is too significant. But the difference between 24.3 and 24.4 is negligible. So a system like Fahrenheit where the differences between the degrees is just right makes more sense to me.
muchfatq · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cant comment on the healthcare... but it is too late to switch to the metric system in here in america. all of our machinery depends on the imperial system.
daniel4sight · -16 points · Posted at 19:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
... Uh...FREEDOM!
HopeThisHelps90 · 4 points · Posted at 20:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
errorsansglich · 12 points · Posted at 19:30:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a Chinese person would eat a bat
Luuce98 · 2 points · Posted at 22:50:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you eat a cow? (I’m not some raging vegan, I’m making a point)
It is cultural. As to why specifically what we (and other Asian cultures) consider strange or gross as a bat? Rural regions and a history of famines would explain its apparition, cultural aspects or norms or tradition would explain its persistence to the modern era.
Also, it is not as if wet markets where bats are sold/eaten are some raging hotspot for the current Chinese culture, it’s isolated cultural expressions.
ron_sheeran · -21 points · Posted at 20:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They dont. Thats a lie. Made by racist. To spread racism.
exoalo · 15 points · Posted at 21:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some do. You can google this and find an answer in about 20 seconds
AdamantiumLaced · 5 points · Posted at 19:05:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reddit is so dam liberal. I don't expect it to be conservative by any means but it is surprising how far left reddit is. You'd think it would balance out to the center somehow.
cbraun89 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amen brother!!!
sockofservitude · 0 points · Posted at 22:34:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly it’s because Reddit is a hive mind. Half these people probably don’t even care about politics but the only way to get an upvote is to say something very far left.
Elite2260 · 3 points · Posted at 15:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hw, You go to school for 8 hours for 5 days. Then go home and do 4 hours of hw. Why!?
If it’s so you can know the work and do it without a teacher and for extra practice. A lot of the times in class anyways the teacher give us work and we have to do it and they don’t help at all and just watch us try to do it. For homework now-a days half my class doesn’t even do it or, they just copy of each other and cheat. But if we did in class the teacher could watch us and make sure that people are actually doing it and actually learning it.
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that's why I almost never did my homework. Too much hastle. Now my work ethics is wack, and during our little corona party I can't bring myself to study. Even for winter exam session I started to study 2 weeks before exams, and basically had to learn whole semester in that time. And boy was that boring stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Elite2260 · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mostly get home work from Spanish, math, and earth science. Not really too much from any other classes but those 3 classes give soo much where I can’t even have to much time to just relax after school, Even more with sports I don’t get anytime during sport seasons.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Elite2260 · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, I’m only in 9th grade too. My friend who lives in a different state same grade gets like no hw.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Elite2260 · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish I could do that homework counts too much of my grade for me to ignore it.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand TERFs
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 16:36:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you should make your bed (unless the covers are falling off)
Dilligasf · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prejudice of any kind.
Kippergills · 4 points · Posted at 16:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a university degree holds so much bearing. Hell if you have 20 years experience, this kid just paid 50k for a piece of paper, he’s more suited for the job! (An extreme example yes, but my point still stands)
iamthemanbecks · 3 points · Posted at 17:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The term "you can't have your cake and eat it too." Like it's my cake. Why can't I eat it?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it means that you can't eat your cake and still have it
iamthemanbecks · 2 points · Posted at 17:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh. I was picturing someone giving me a cake and expecting me not to eat it.
Gooner2005 · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the past In that situation I probably would’ve said “well then I’ll just eat half and save the rest for later!” Without knowing the phrase they said.
CapnSpazz · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This also confused me for years. It didn't click until I was in my late 20s.
maiar1410 · 4 points · Posted at 18:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How viruses came into being. They need a host to replicate! Are they a result of some ancient mutation?? I’m shook
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They could be older than life itself, no one knows as they don't leave fossil records.
Watch this short video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X31g5TB-MRo
maiar1410 · 2 points · Posted at 18:27:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks bro! I’m a biochem student, but my parents keep asking me questions no one knows the answers to. It’s thrown me into a hole.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah the lack of answers makes it fun as I can think of theories but its annoying to not know the truth
maiar1410 · 2 points · Posted at 18:31:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. That’s why I want to go into Mathematical Bio because I feel like if we can use quantitative modeling it might make things a bit clearer.
sasksasquatch · 2 points · Posted at 18:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gaming channels where they play the game poorly or intentionally bad and then try and use shock humor and screaming and people think they are funny.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:02:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Pledge of Allegiance. You can show respect in other ways. It just seems very cult like and creepy
SaltySteveD87 · 3 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Hollywood is so insistent on ignoring the source material to make an adaptation have “broader appeal.” Especially since Marvel has essentially proven that you can make films that stick closely to the material yet are massive successes.
eastbayted · 3 points · Posted at 19:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so inconsistent about caring for the welfare of animals
throwaway121505 · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Yes, I love animals!” they say as they they cut into a slab of animal flesh that came from a factory farm
purdyrn · 3 points · Posted at 19:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Trump is never held accountable for his actions against humanity and against out country.
kyuti79 · 3 points · Posted at 19:25:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. Just why? What's so wrong with lgbt? I just don't see it and all the arguments of homophobic people make so little sense that it's impossible for me to believe that they actually think that. Like for example "the bible says that homosexuality is wrong" or whatever. The bible says a lot of things that you don't do because the bible is not up to date. I really hope homophobia stops soon once people realize how stupid they are.
daddio2590 · 3 points · Posted at 19:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can work from home part time and still make $100,000
diaperedwoman · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you do at home?
alenam10 · 2 points · Posted at 20:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump became a United States president.
haloblasterA259 · 3 points · Posted at 20:14:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
MoonLiteNite · 3 points · Posted at 20:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree, racism completely baffles me.
But on the same tune, people who call racism when it plays no part in the topic also baffles me :/
LecheroSooo · 3 points · Posted at 20:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Killing because of religion. Yeah, I get the normal reasons like „You have something I want“ etc pp but „My god is the only and right one, all others are infidels and must be killed“.
Although I understand, that there are of course other reasons with century-long backstories.
lilme346 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how you could still be willing to vote for trump.
givmeallurmoney · 3 points · Posted at 20:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people continue to support trump
CortorOfTheCamals · 3 points · Posted at 20:34:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hamsters. The fuck is up with those lil shits? They’re small, like, really damn tiny, but why? And when they see a wheel, their first thought is “Ah, yes, an infinite running circle”. And they just have those dopey eyes that have no colour or anything, and did you know that they actually have two hands and two legs, and not four legs? Like, they just be crawling around on their dumb fluffy stomachs. They may be the single most adorable fellas but damn the only good way to describe them is “Fluffy Orbs of Nonsense”
peetee33 · 5 points · Posted at 20:35:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can really believe their god exists, and their version is right, and they know what happens when we die.
Pheonixflames81 · 0 points · Posted at 20:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really agree with you bro.
DoubleOh74464 · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I truest don’t understand why anyone likes trump.
Some_dutch_dude · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who honk if traffic is stuck. There's literally nowhere to go. The guy in front of you is stuck behind the other guy who is also stuck. Honking doesn't help. It won't make traffic go faster. Its just noise. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU HONKING?!
If there's anything I don't understand and pisses me off beyond sanity, it's unnecessary honking. I might go to jail for it one day.
picks up baseball bat out of trunk
OcotilloWells · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes they may be honking at the guy in front of you. There's no way to create a honk that says "Hey guy 3 cars ahead of me, the light is green, why aren't you paying attention?"
Granted that is just slightly less stupid than honking at the car directly in front of them when it has nowhere it could possibly go except by smashing through the car in front. But I have known people who did this, and were genuinely upset when the vehicle directly in front of them got upset about it. Total obliviousness as to how it is actually hindering traffic instead of "helping" or even actually communicating to the possibly clueless person 3 cars ahead that they "are an idiot".
psychneeded · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how this virus can be a worldwide pandemic, yet some people still aren't taking it seriously...
Homeskin · 4 points · Posted at 23:47:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a country can be trillions of dollars in debt and its just all cool
throwaway121505 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If everybody is in debt, it’s basically like nobody is in debt, I guess.
TheOpenSorcerer · 3 points · Posted at 00:07:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
OMGitsJoeMG · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have hookups. Like, how do you meet someone and end up having sex in a matter of hours? How does the conversation go? How do you not come across as a creep?
DarKKnZ · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America and the love for the retards in charge
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Hi, my neighbor is fapping to one of the retards in charge, what should I do?”
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a culture of social media addiction and overload of misleading information that primarily benefits existing structures and corporations, I'm more surprised some people still remain sane.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 20:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Modern Feminism and why they are against the Men's Rights Movement
Edit: Men still suffer legally. I am from the UK so there may be some inconsistencies but here are ways men get it worse. 1. Men are more likely to be falsely accused of rape completely ruining their life in every way 2. Men are more likely to be murdered or die in their workplaces. 3. Men commit suicide more often than women, although women attempt it more often. 4. Most domestic violence shelters don't help men. 5. In domestic abuse and rape cases, the woman is more likely to be believed without evidence than a man. 6. Most university drop-outs are men. 7. Men are very legally disadvantaged when it comes to child custody. 8. Men can be drafted, unlike women. 9. There is very little support for men's rights and issues, which is why MRA is a thing, even though feminists oppose it for some reason which I'm trying to find out here. 10. Legally, women cannot rape 11. Men are given longer prison sentences on average 12. Doing any kind of child care will have people accusing you of paedophilia (doesn't happen to women) 13. Male victims of female sexual harassment or female paedophilia are not taken seriously 14. Men die at a younger age on average. And more, probably
CapnSpazz · 7 points · Posted at 22:31:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a guy, I can only answer for myself. When the men's right movement started up a few years ago, I was stoked. I know even some feminists supported it. I even went to the sub ever so often...
And then it turned to shit. Like real fast. In the times when they actually were posting about men's rights, more often then not a lot of it was just jabs at feminism. Most of the comments were saying how feminists just wanted supremacy, and they wanted equality. Are there some feminists who hate men? Yes. But that's not "modern feminism" . That's jusr shit people have been saying for decades. Even back in the 90s poeple talked about the feminists meatings where they would conspire against men. It's bullshit. The vast majority don't.
What I did see a lot of, though, was things about how women should listen to men. About how feminists didn't want to date them because they're secretly lesbians. How feminists only date men for their money, and screw them over in divorce. There were men's rights authors who held meetings where they basically shared the same view as women as people did back in the 40s and 50s. Shit, just the other day there was a post in /pussypassdenied about how Adele has to give her now ex-husband millions of dollars in a divorce, and they're celebrating it because it's equality. When I called them out on that, saying we should build both sides up rather than drag the other down, I got call insulted for it. I was told I should kill myself for supporting women. It quickly became clear they don't want equality. They want women below them. And now that they have an example of that happening, they celebrated.
Do I think men's rights still need to be talked about? Yes. Is it the whole group that's like that? Fuck no. But as a whole it was a movement that did get taken over by the alt-right, so that pushed some people away to the point that most of the people left in the groups were like that. Meanwhile, at least in the most feminist sub I go to(TrollXChromosomes) they actually really do talk about things that affect men, and they support us. I would say I feel like I get that more there than I did the men's rights sub after a bit.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So as a movement it got corrupted basically?
CapnSpazz · 4 points · Posted at 22:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically. Granted, that's just my perspective. And I do still acknowledge there's still plenty of men who would love to take up the mantle again. It's just something that seems to be what fascists do. They move into groups and take over. Even with little things. Like the swastika. Totally fine symbol. Actually has a great history... Up until the Nazis used it.
blenneman05 · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 & #5. I take issue with. Only because I went thru years of sexual abuse by this older man that I lived with as a kid (I was 6 and he was in his 40s). All that happened was that the foster system removed me from his care but he didn’t go to jail or prison. I didn’t have any semen on me so they had no way to prove it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:24:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not trying to say that rape on people is not a problem and I'm really sorry you had go through that. What I'm trying to say is that if a woman really dislikes a man she can drop the accusation and boom, life ruined. Rape should always be taken seriously and people who try to undermine this by false accusations are terrible people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:17 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edited my comment down below.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 21:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because men already have rights, you dingus. The reason that women's rights movenents even started is because men were making all the decisions and being generally oppresive.
Edit:
With all the problems with both men's and women's rights movements, maybe we all need a broader equality movement, because any gendered movement is bound to get out of hand eventually.
[deleted] · 14 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What right do men have that women don't?
[deleted] · -18 points · Posted at 22:02:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No differences in the eyes of the law because of those said movements, but society treats women like less than men still. Of course, your mind is already set so nothing I say will convince you.
Oh, you're a teen. Well, at least try to grow out of this phase soon. I went theough a phase just like this when I was 12 or 13.
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 22:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Considering the wild injustice men suffer in both criminal and family courts, I find this hard to believe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, the american justice system is shit. Maybe if you don't want to have your children taken from you, don't stick your dick in crazy?
Edit: whoopsie daisy, I may have accidentally taken inspiration from prolife arguments in my haste. It seems that keeping your legs closed is the solution to everything, aye?
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 22:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah you're right I'm 14. It's not a phase, but rather me trying to see reason and I can not do that without seeing both sides of the story, hence my original comment.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 22:59:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember thinking that when I was 14, too. Sometimes genuine attempts to understand a point of view end up coming out sounding hostile because of your predispositions towards that group. Just remember to not use charged language when asking questions, because that's likely why you are getting negative responses.
Yitzach · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
:thinking-emoji:
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol you took what I said out of context right there.
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 22:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So he is half your age and twice as intelligent.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 22:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's good to see that your prefrontal cortex is on the same developmental stage as a 13 year old going through rapid physical and hormonal changes lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You're probably a 22 year old stoner playing Nintendo in dads basement while yelling at teens on the internet, but yeah you know maturity when you see it man.
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 22:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SonofThunder2 · 19 points · Posted at 16:02:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, obviously
daniel4sight · 4 points · Posted at 19:18:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No dick big nipples.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:40:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.
Asexual_Theatre_Kid · 7 points · Posted at 18:22:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand them either. And I am one.
cartuaa · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women be shopping
BipolarSkeleton · 12 points · Posted at 19:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can’t lose weight I really don’t want to fat shame or start an argument I just don’t see why you can’t just eat less food it’s not hard to not do something
shlockaroo · 9 points · Posted at 19:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s all in a decision, and following through on that decision. Burning more calories a day than you are consuming. It’s not rocket science and it doesn’t take a special pill to make it happen. Cut out sugar, cut down on carbs, and eat veggies.Lean proteins and nuts every now and then. And for Christ Sake exercise. Yeah it sucks at first but stick with it, you’ll see personal gains and the weight loss over time will exponentially increase your stamina. But 80% of it is diet. A good healthy diet does wonders. No fast food. It’s not advice. I’m just stating how simple the concept can be.
sgrlrk24 · 5 points · Posted at 21:28:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the "stick with it" is were the problem is.
shlockaroo · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is. It all comes down to motivation. Like quitting smoking. Just need to be in the right frame of mind.
pantryofdoom · 3 points · Posted at 22:21:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll weigh in here, since I've helped several fat friends and relatives lose weight in the past decade or so. The main trouble comes from the fact that fat people were raised with really shitty eating habits ingrained by their parents. This is something that your average fit person seldom is cognizant of. While your mom may have been feeding you a balanced meal consisting of a lean meat, fibrous veggies, and some sort fat/carbs, the fat person's mom was feeding them three whoppers, a large fries, and a large soda every other day. Over time these habits stick, and by the time a person is considered an adult, it becomes a major uphill battle to change the habits entirely. For this reason, I think that fat people who become fit are incredibly tenacious individuals, and I give props to them. In that same vein, I think that parents who let their kids get fat should be charged with child abuse. For boys these days, especially, it's a social death sentence, as they tend to become feminist incels in this path.
europahasicenotmice · 3 points · Posted at 22:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental health plays a huge role. It’s incredibly difficult to make lasting behavior change through sheer willpower, if not impossible. You have to learn to care about the long-term effects over the short-term gratification, and that’s something that builds when a person starts to heal from their traumas and finally truly care about themselves.
taarotqueen · 4 points · Posted at 20:07:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
some people can’t lose weight even if they try, could be thyroid problems, pcos, etc. i’ve eaten healthy and worked out, starved myself yet i still think i’m really fat
SomeoneAlt · 3 points · Posted at 01:15:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is some bs you are convincing yourself. The law of thermodynamics can't bend to whatever you think it is.
korabas1 · 4 points · Posted at 23:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never understood that. Are you saying if I locked you in a dungeon for 1 year and only fed you a piece of bread per day and enough water to survive, you wouldn't lose any weight? Pretty sure you'd be skin and bones no matter how fat you were going in.
taarotqueen · -1 points · Posted at 05:05:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok yes correction not CAN’T lose weight but have more difficulty than the average person. just a figure of speech
arcadedragon · -3 points · Posted at 22:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thyroid problems and pcos only alter your tdee (aka metabolism) by a few hundred calories, which makes weight loss harder, not impossible. if you ea fewer calories than you need you will lose weight, regardless of medical condition, end of story. doesnt matter what type of food you eat, just how much
taarotqueen · 0 points · Posted at 05:06:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah i meant harder sorry
ron_sheeran · 0 points · Posted at 20:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Medical science is very complicated and nothing is as simple as "just run" or "just stop eating so much". Not to metion the socio-economics that go into weight and how sugery food is marketed to poor people who dont have much of a choice in what they eat. And then there are cultural reasons were some cultures praise weight. Its very complicated.
SomeoneAlt · 5 points · Posted at 01:25:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea eating less food is complicated.
ron_sheeran · 4 points · Posted at 01:26:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And this dicknip gets the nobel prize in missing the point.
SomeoneAlt · -3 points · Posted at 01:36:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Losing weight is as simple as eating less food. How is that complicated?
ron_sheeran · 2 points · Posted at 01:39:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you read my comment you would understand dicknips.
SomeoneAlt · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insulting is surely a good way to convince people huh.
ron_sheeran · 7 points · Posted at 01:56:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I make my arguement then I insult. My argument isnt the insult.
whipmydick · 1 points · Posted at 12:41:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
lol eat an apple
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fat guy here. I've found it's automatic.
I've caught myself before half way through eating something that I shouldn't, it's as if I just went into Auto pilot when I got hungry. It's really freaky. Self discipline exercises help a lot in the regard.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people would actually struggle to lose weight if their access to food weren't restricted because we evolved in an environment where food scarcity was a daily issue so most people have a very strong preoccupying urge to eat when they are hungry and sometimes even when they are not hungry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's A LOT more complicated than that. Here is my experience - I grew up poor. It may sound strange, but it's far more common for poor people to be fat than thin. Usually, when you are poor, you will have just enough money to buy yourself some crap food, for example bread and some form of red meat. When you have no way to eat a balanced diet, it's very hard to "just eat less food". People then asked me "well why don't you just exercise". Simple reason? I can't. As I didn't have enough money to buy food, how do you think I could afford proper running shoes and training clothes? Now you can say that I don't need that and I could agree, but there are only so many compromises a person can make. When you reach that point you ask yourself - Why should I even bother doing this? I'm spending extra energy that tomorrow I might not have; and believe me I had those days. That is why I never could really lose weight. After two decades, it integrated itself into my mentality and destroyed every part of my life. You stop moving everywhere in order to conserve energy, but then you understand that is actually a trap because once you've completely stopped, it's next to impossible to begin again. It kills you inside. That is why people like me are fat.
ISIXofpleasure · 2 points · Posted at 02:01:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You named a lot of excuses, none are your fault which seems to be a problem. Fear of not wanting to spend energy for tomorrow? That doesn’t apply if you have 60 pounds of energy stored as fat. If proper “shoes and equipment” are stoping you from losing weight you didn’t want to lose to begin with. The hard truth is that being “fit” is mostly a mindset. Instead of saying I need X to do Y, just start with Y because the only thing stopping you is the X that you created to prevent you from doing Y. Example, if I only had running shoes(X) I could start jogging(Y) after work, instead you can look at it as I’m going to start jogging(Y) after work I should start saving for a pair of running shoes(X). In the first example you let the running shoes have power preventing you from jogging after work. In the second example you empower yourself to start jogging for a reward of running shoes. It is all about mindset. Also, EBT buys healthy food as well so being poor is no excuse for an unbalanced diet.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 07:26:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is always one of those like you. Unless you've been there, believe me that you don't and can't know. First and foremost, I don't live in USA; I live in a pimple on God's butt. The best way to describe by living situation back then would be - sister, mom and I had about 350 bucks a month to live on. There were days when I literally had nothing to eat. To give you perspective, I spent a weak eating 3 day old bread given to us to feed the neighbor dog. We instead rebaked it in an oven, so we'd survive. I spent 6 months living without elecricity and the rest of the time in fear they'd come to shut it off. I spent days without water and rest of the days in fear they'd come to shut it off. I lived a very hard life.
The entire point of what I wrote is exactly what you said - Excuses. These are all excuses, because there is a way around them. The issue however is that when enough excuses accumulate along two decades of your life, they wear on your psyche. Why should I start training if tomorrow I'll be unable to take a shower? When I might not have enough to eat? When I can't do half the exercises that I want to do? When my health would make said exercises a damn nightmare (I developed breathing issues)?
Most importantly though, unless you live in Eastern Europe, you will never understand that fresh healthy food is hellishly expensive here compared to red meat and bread. An example - Two days ago my mom spent equivalent of 10 bucks on kilogram of apples, lemon and oranges and one wet wipes. Literally. 10 bucks. This isn't the money I could spend back in the day, because 10 bucks was something that lasted us a whole week. That is the reality of my life. Can I lose weight now? Oh yeah, absolutely. I'm in a lot better position than I used to be. The thing is though, when you live through that it kills you inside. You can't even call it living at that point, it's surviving. So yes, those are excuses, but excuses with a real weight to them.
ISIXofpleasure · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You spent 30 minutes writing this out to someone who really doesn’t give a shit. That could have been a 30minute 1.5 mile jog. Change your mindset. Quit being the victim.
Just_passing_thru88 · 12 points · Posted at 20:45:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think socialism works
exoalo · 22 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think capitalism is the only way
Virge23 · 13 points · Posted at 23:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nobody thinks that. Every capitalist economy mixes in aspects of social welfare, government oversight, and market controls. The problem with Real Socialism™ is that any attempt to mix it with other ideologies ruins it and you end up with fucked up authoritarian regimes and it can only exist in its pure form as an idea.
exoalo · -3 points · Posted at 02:07:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ask this on r/conservative. See if they think socialism is okay
SmokeMyDong · 14 points · Posted at 00:59:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably because it lifted a majority of the world out of severe poverty.
exoalo · -7 points · Posted at 02:05:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, not having a super powerful military (socialism), clean drinking water (socialism), national mail system (socialism), regular police and fire (socialism), or modern medicine (started in private labs but funded with tax dollars so kinda socialism) did it.
Our collective good is largely due to socialism. A balanced economy has both elements
SmokeMyDong · 6 points · Posted at 02:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not socialism. US military is driven by the free market competing for contracts.
Not socialism. Private companies also have water treatment plants.
Not socialism. Competes with private companies.
Lol okay Bernie. Not socialism, social democracy.
Wow. The US free market produces significantly more drugs than any socialized counterpart.
You literally have no idea what socialism is.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 4 points · Posted at 22:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans don't realize that the entire rest of the developed world has affordable healthcare, and it works.
Why people think there is a single good reason for healthcare to be capitalized.
nasty_nater · -1 points · Posted at 23:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah and those countries, like Sweden, that people point to for their supposed socialist utopia sustems? They have privatized hospitals.
Capitalism works and has brought literally billions of people out of dire poverty. The majority of this website points at idiotic things like America's healthcare (not capitalist, not free market) as reasons why capitalism had apparently "failed".
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 15:41:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are viruses so hard to cure and why are they so hard to find a vaccine for? Why haven’t coronaviruses been cured from the previous outbreaks of SARS and MERS?
Harmxn- · 13 points · Posted at 19:17:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you practically have to remake an unknown virus from scratch.
NaraciaB0T · 9 points · Posted at 19:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah, i kinda get what this guy said, isnt a vaccine a dead/inactive virus that makes you immunological system aware of said virus, then why is it so difficult to make the vaccine, wouldn't always the same process ?
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 23:10:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t know why you got downvoted so hard. This is not easy science and I’m sure lots of people don’t understand it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:02:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know :/. If the question was really so silly you’d think at least someone here would have given a real answer.
Ak40-couchcusion · 1 points · Posted at 11:56:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so viruses are not technically living things so we can't just get something to kill them, like anti biotics, and viruses are constantly mutating, so to get a vaccine you need to find a core piece of the dna of the virus that can be put into a vaccine but still recognized as that specific virus for your immune system to activate and produce antibodies, as apposed to the body having no reactionor a bad one. This coronavirus is different to SARS and MERS just as they are different from eachother, so a vaccine for one of them wont help against covid-19, just like flu vaccine wouldn't. I'm not a scientist, this is a very basic reply.
Geor508 · 11 points · Posted at 16:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 05:48:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not meant to understand Him
Geor508 · 1 points · Posted at 15:54:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 21:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, you're right, but the world came from a giant explosion that came from nothing 5 billion years ago
Geor508 · 9 points · Posted at 22:23:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're talking about the Big Bang it's 12~14 billion years ago, and Earth wasn't created from a
o-_l_-o · 7 points · Posted at 02:57:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are missing some key details about the Big Bang theory. The Big Bang doesn’t describe how anything came to exist from nothing, it’s a mathematical model that hypothesizes how the universe was formed from what was most likely a high-energy singularity. The theory doesn’t attempt to explain how that initial singularity came to be and isn’t in direct conflict with a religious creation theory.
resDescartes · 1 points · Posted at 08:37:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christian here. Can confirm.
In fact, Christians were the first to lead with the Big Bang theory. 1927, a priest named Georges Lemaître proposed an expanding model for the universe to explain the observed redshifts of spiral nebulae, and calculated the Hubble law. He based his theory on the work of Einstein and De Sitter, and independently derived Friedmann's equations for an expanding universe. Also, the red shifts themselves were not constant, but varied in such manner as to lead to the conclusion that there was a definite relationship between amount of red-shift of nebulae, and their distance from observers.
But many want to talk about "Christians being anti-science?"
The Steady-State Theory was the dominant theory for an absurdly-long period of time.
1916. Albert Einstein took a look at his general relativity theory, and realized… “Wait, if I’m right, the universe had a beginning. That can’t be right.” He later called this discovery “irritating.” He wanted the universe to be self-existent—not reliant on any outside cause—but the universe appeared to be one giant effect. In fact, Einstein so disliked the implications of General Relativity—a theory that is now proven accurate to five decimal places—that he introduced a cosmological constant (which some have since called a “fudge factor”) into his equations in order to show that the universe is static (steady-state) and to avoid an absolute beginning.
And a good number of secular scientists just accepted this, despite some pretty obvious flaws.
Fred Hoyle himself coined the term, “Big Bang,” in his mockery of Christians. That's where the name came from!
Then, a few years later, British cosmologist Arthur Eddington conducted an experiment during a solar eclipse which confirmed that Einstein’s emotionally-rejected conclusion was indeed right—the universe wasn’t static but had a beginning. Like Einstein, Eddington wasn’t happy with the implications. He later wrote, “Philosophically, the notion of a beginning of the present order of nature is repugnant to me. . . . I should like to find a genuine loophole.”
A few more follow-ups found Einstein’s theory to be a mistake.
By 1922, Russian mathematician Alexander Friedmann had officially exposed Einstein’s fudge factor as an algebraic error. (Incredibly, in his quest to avoid a beginning, the great Einstein had divided by zero— one of the most basic mathematical wrongs) Dutch astronomer Willem de Sitter had found that General Relativity required the universe to be expanding.
In 1927, the expanding of the universe was actually observed by astronomer Edwin Hubble (namesake of the space telescope). (This is when Einstein himself admitted said mistake).
And the Big Bang theory was accepted. (Obviously, academia movies interestingly, so that's a bit of an oversimplification. But you get the idea.)
djle12 · 10 points · Posted at 16:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can support trump from the plain citizens aspect. He is corrupt to the core that any supporter has to basically ignore or believe it all are lies.
officeromnicide · 27 points · Posted at 18:28:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They think the exact same thing as you, why would anyone not vote for trump because he's the only person in politics who isn't part of the system of political elites and is therefore not corrupt, either way, these stances are emotion, not politics. Dont vote based on it
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 27 points · Posted at 20:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine saying this about a billionaire with decades of fraud who just recently eliminated congressional oversight to a multi-trillion dollar "stimulus package" to large corporations.
I guess when he said "you all just got a lot richer" to his friends at Mar o lago right after being elected, he actually was talking about the American people right???
Without exaggerating, he is literally the most corrupt president in the history of the United States. If you can't see this then you are either ignoring everything he says, or watching way too much Hannity.
powerman5002 · 6 points · Posted at 20:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You mean the stimulus package that Congress unanimously passed?
LeftHandYoga · 4 points · Posted at 23:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That guy is being sort of a jerk so I'm going to be give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you don't know, immediately after signing the bill Trump said he was not going to abide by the law he literally just signed, and was not going to allow An Inspector General to oversee a large portion of the stimulus money. The inspector-general That was supposed to oversee the money was picked by a congression of his own peers, other IGs.
He then fired multiple inspector General's within the next couple of days and installed his own guy, naturally. He's trying to ensure there is no one to oversee the money so that he and Steve munchkin can do whatever they want with it.
officeromnicide · -1 points · Posted at 01:49:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You missed my point, I'm mocking both sides of the argument, they're both about as founded as the other either way, the very fact that everybody is so invested in this senseless name calling makes them forget what they actually stand for and instead vote based on the character of the politician rather than whether the politician's alignment matches their own
StSpider · 2 points · Posted at 02:58:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And that’s the RIGHT way to vote. You don’t vote the democratic candidate because you’re a democrat or viceversa, you vote for the individual be ause you think he or she would be someone bent on making the country better even if you don’t agree with him or her 100%. One issue voters are worse than mongoloids.
officeromnicide · 3 points · Posted at 03:07:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The democratic system in America is an insult to democracy as well as Americans the fact that you're voting for a person rather than an ideology at all is a failure, not to even mention the two party system which China seems to struggle to be less representative than despite being a constitutional dictatorship.
How anyone expects their views to be represented when they have a pitiful two sole ways to vote is beyond me and the fact that the country is run more by a single self interested individual person than a government is even worse. Everyone in both the parties is corrupt if not from external sources from the party itself else they are all as bad as each other
Focus on the real issues like the entire political system rather than the glorified namecalling of civilian debate.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 15 points · Posted at 20:57:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one that he then blocked congressional oversight on?
What are you having trouble with here?
cicatrix1 · 2 points · Posted at 00:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's zero facts or anything worthwhile in that argument. It's total bullshit.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup same as the counter argument who gives a shit, its just name calling, not politics
Cumbayacumbaya · 3 points · Posted at 22:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
officeromnicide · 0 points · Posted at 01:39:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You missed what I was trying to say, I'm mocking both sides of the argument as irrelevant, what matters is the politics, not person
LeftHandYoga · 3 points · Posted at 23:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uh no... people's stance against Trump is based in rational thought and logic usually. Sorry.
It's Republicans that can't control their emotions. Look at right wing media, it's literally like soap opera levels of drama(and lies).
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You seem to have missed the point, they believe what they believe for the same reasons you believe what you believe. You think he's corrupt they think everyone else is corrupt, point is this overly personal name calling is not politics
RegisterInSecondsMeh · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This perception is accurate only if there is no objective truth.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both sides have a point, but the whole argument in general detracts from the point of politics and democracy as a whole
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:27:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sadly so, and all the fucking idiots on this thread who didn't read what I said and instead activated "le epic debate mode" are proving me right
spinner198 · 14 points · Posted at 21:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably because most plain citizens don’t just believe everything told to them by the corrupt media.
thealmightybrush · 24 points · Posted at 21:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What about the things Trump tweets himself? I don't need the media to tell me how dumb he is, i can read/hear his own words.
spinner198 · -16 points · Posted at 21:48:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, so can I. Trump is wrong sometimes. Sometimes he is hilariously wrong. But it’s the exception and not the rule. The difference is that most Trump voters recognize these occasions, and conservative media calls him out on it, rather than just believing whatever he says, unlike people who listen to most liberal media sources like CNN or MSNBC that will lie straight to your face of deliberately avoid reporting on things that don’t fit their agenda.
LeftHandYoga · 9 points · Posted at 23:36:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk man... the vast majority of his tweets are either incredibly unpresidential and rude, or outright lying or attacking someone.
Let's be honest here.
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 00:38:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll give you three out of those four, but I wouldn't say that the majority are lying. Not even close. As for the other three, he did those things prior to being elected, and it was him figuratively giving the finger to the establishment (remember that both democrats and republicans hated him) that inspired so many people to support him. Heck, look at the last two republican presidential candidates. Both McCain and Romney turned their backs on the republican party and conservatism after all.
People didn't just want another candidate that would sit there and take all the lies and slander from the other side. They were tired of just being called racists because they didn't like Obama, sexists because they didn't like Hillary, homophobes because they were Christian, transphobes because they didn't want men in the women's restroom, or all of those things because they were straight white males. They wanted somebody to stand up and speak out, not some soft spoken people pleaser.
LeftHandYoga · 3 points · Posted at 01:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excellent point. I forgot that this is essentially how he got elected in the first place. I myself didn't vote in 2016 but I specifically remember being one of the " a little chaos and Shake Up will be good for everyone" people.
But I was wrong though. He's been far worse than anything I imagined, with the help of Mitch McConnell and William Barr, and other complicit bad actors.
And he lies constantly and consistently dude; honestly, it's laughable for you to ask me to prove that. His lies number in the thousands by now, there are websites that keep track of this, reality is real. It's like having to prove water is wet.
Or it would be laughable, if we weren't in the midst of an informational/misinformational crisis. I'm deeply concerned by the fact that we can't even seem to handle our current level of technology, so the future of information Warfare looks grim indeed.
The saddest thing is that honestly the most important thing any of us could be talking about or doing is addressing the fact that our climate is collapsing all around us, but instead we're stuck with a leader who publicly exclaimed that climate change was a hoax.
It's beyond tragic being in my position because I am uniquely aware of just how bad things are with regards to our Earth Systems, and precious few people understand how dire things really are.
And as we descend into climate chaos, see the first Blue Ocean Event, absolutely devastating topsoil erosion, carbon sinks totally sequestered, oceans too acidic for life with changing/disappearing currents, the absolute collapse of marine food chains, increasingly volatile natural disasters, increasing disease, increasing plague, increasing antibiotic resistance, unknown pathogens, viruses and bacteria from ancient thawing permafrost, tick and parasite populations exploding across the world as climate systems change, significantly decreased vitamin and mineral content in all fruits and vegetables(due to said topsoil erosion and general bad practices), disappearing fresh water, water wars, disappearing resources of every kind including rare earth metals, forever chemicals...
That's just off the top of my head. Oh yeah and plastic lol, christ how could I forget all the issues with plastic today.
So anyway, at a time when this is all the stuff we need to be really truly focusing on, instead the western world is led by a man that.... doesn't believe in any of the things I just listed, and actively works to defund scientific institutions collecting data and working on solutions. To be clear, that man is Trump.
/r/collapse
spinner198 · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From my understanding from what quotes I've seen Trump takes a controversial stance on the issue, but it is focused primarily on the economical impact of actions taken to allegedly combat climate change, and how China does little to nothing about it and thus their economy thrives as a result. But I can't say that I've seen him comment on any of those specific examples that you've listed.
LeftHandYoga · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:56 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
He defunds the EPA aggressively and attacks all kinds of regulations. If you looked into it you would be startled how much he has done actually.
And you have to understand that per capita the United States is still the worst polluter, and on top of that China is producing physical goods for the vast majority of consumerism in the world, of course that's going to cause pollution, but if it wasn't them it would be someone else; theyre not creating the demand, that's on individual countries.
Culturally I feel the USA dominates the rest of the world, or at least we did up until somewhere around 2016. If we had led an aggressive charge towards combating climate issues, with serious experts leading us, I believe the rest of the world, or at least the Western world, would follow suit soon after. Instead, they are now moving ahead without us and we are being left in the past.
LampTowelBattery · 1 points · Posted at 18:34:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blatantly false. There are plenty of smaller countries that have a larger carbon footprint per capita than the US.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhhh you've got it flipped homie. On the two occasions that Fox didn't cover for him he called them traitors. For the most part they back up his lies. I'll give you MSNBC because it's basically Fox News for the Left, but even that has a higher accuracy rating than Fox last I checked. CNN definitely does, and I don't watch either.
I do read the NY Times which again has a very high accuracy rating. For all the shit it gets from Trump about being a leftist rag it gets just as much shit from the left for it's anti-Cuomo pieces.
You have ask yourself if you truly believe that there is some global conspiracy where every single news outlet from newspaper to TV, from CNN to Al Jazeera, are all conspiring against one orange man, and Fox / OANN are the only two beacons of truth despite every independent rating showing them being less truthful. It really doesn't seem plausible.
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 02:38:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not claiming it is a global conspiracy. You don't need a global conspiracy in order for individual companies to push their agendas and to do things which would benefit their agendas. For a source of news, it only makes sense that they would be particularly affected by this.
As for most fact-checking websites. I don't really see why I should trust them more than the sources of news themselves. Even Snopes has slid downhill fast. All it takes is a little opinion here, close enough there, to change a "True" to a "Partial truth" or a "False" to a "50/50". That's how many news articles work too. Word choice and sentence structure designed to make it seem like X is true, while it technically isn't necessarily saying that it is true when you get down to the particular language used.
I'll give you an example from another comment I made earlier. Take this article for instance:
https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/krystieyandoli/donald-trump-central-park-five-no-apology
"Full-page ads Trump ran in 1989 advocated for bringing the death penalty back to "punish" the teen suspects, who were eventually exonerated."
"Donald Trump is refusing to apologize to the Central Park Five for taking out full-page advertisements in New York City newspapers in 1989 calling for the death penalty in response to a case in which the five black and Latino teenagers were wrongfully convicted of rape."
When you read these excerpts, what do you think happened? They make you think that Trump wanted these teens to receive the death penalty, right? But you see, the first can be written off by saying that the bringing back of the death penalty would be the punishment, not the death penalty itself. The second could be written off by saying that Trump calling for the return of the death penalty was in response to a case that involved the five black and latino Teenagers, but that he wasn't actively calling for the teenagers themselves to receive the death penalty.
Full context though, Trump did not call for the death penalty for these teens. If you'd like more information about this just ask me. But this was an example given to demonstrate the techniques that can be used to openly and deliberately imply false things while technically not saying anything false.
Another example from the same situation comes from your mentioned NY Times: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/18/nyregion/central-park-five-trump.html
The title ("Trump Will Not Apologize for Calling for Death Penalty Over Central Park Five") is another example of implying something false, but not technically. The word 'over' is used rather than the word 'for', and the 'central park five' case can refer to the general series of crimes that occurred at the time. Extremely misleading, and deliberately so. They even go into how Trump did not call for the death penalty for these five boys later in the article ("The ads never explicitly called for the death penalty for the five defendants."), so they clearly knew that the title was misleading.
A fact checking website could describe these articles as 'true' by calling the implied falsities as being 'technically not false', even though nearly every plain reading of them would say otherwise.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are alleging that though even if you personally have never thought about it that way. If every outlet that you deem left of Fox News so pretty much every news outlet from print to television around the world is reporting one thing and you deem that thing to be a lie because it contradicts your news outlet of choice that's alleging there's a global conspiracy and that American far right news outlets are the only ones not involved in that conspiracy.
Independent news rating orgs score all outlets the same and tally half truths, outright lies, etc and it's the news outlets that you're saying lie less that have lower accuracy ratings.
For what it's worth you're arguing with a black New Yorker. You did some amazing mental gymnastics on that description of the NYT article. You said it yourself, they reported that the ads didn't explicitly call for the deaths of those boys, and now you're saying that the central park 5 case isn't about those 5 boys? Lol. All NYT did there is report the news, they said he wouldn't apologize for it as there were calls for him to do so and they even said that the ads didn't explicitly call for the death penalty for them. Again you're spotting some kind of sleazebaggery or conspiracy where it doesn't exist.
The NYT for all Trump's bitching about it gets a lot of shit from "both sides" because they run less than flattering stories about "both sides."
If you had just said we could use higher journalism standards that would have been one thing, but you said that the right-wing news is more honest and that's quite laughable. Again, independent rating orgs show that isn't true. So unless there is a conspiracy there as well ...
Keeping with your Central Park 5 example, Donald Trump's statements on the subject are reprehensible and amazingly false. He said horrible shit about those boys over a full decade after they were exonerated by DNA evidence. But hey he'll pardon a war criminal so whatever.
One thing that fascinates me is how people have gotten less intelligent about Fox. When I was a Republican for almost two decades we knew that you couldn't use Fox as a source because it's essentially a tabloid. It has zero credibility as a source. Now here I am arguing with someone that's trying to tell me that it and outlets like it are more honest than virtually every other outlet on the entire planet. Bizarre.
Even in my most hardcore Republican days I would have taken NYT or NPR over Fox ten times out of ten.
thealmightybrush · 8 points · Posted at 21:57:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does Trump want nothing but adoration from the media? They'll ask him a critical question and he'll say that they should instead be thanking him for how good of a job he's doing. That's not the media's job.
I can't come up with a time when the liberal media has actually lied about Trump. Can you? Give me some examples. Seems like they fact check his dumb claims and he and his supporters don't like that because it makes him look bad.
spinner198 · -1 points · Posted at 22:30:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One particularly blatant time that I remember was about the central park 5. Multiple media sources claimed that Trump had, in the past, called for the death penalty for the 'central park 5' in order to slander him (he never called for their death penalty). Some articles suggested so through misleading titles and word choice, but others did so blatantly. For example, this NYT article's title:
"Trump Will Not Apologize for Calling for Death Penalty Over Central Park Five" (https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/18/nyregion/central-park-five-trump.html)
When you read this title, what is it that you think happened? Most people would read it and conclude that Trump called for the death penalty for the central park five. When in fact, he did no such thing. In fact the very same article clarifies:
"Mr. Trump was asked about newspaper advertisements he bought back then calling for New York State to adopt the death penalty after the attack. (The ads never explicitly called for the death penalty for the five defendants.)"
The ad in question (which you can read, in full, here: http://apps.frontline.org/clinton-trump-keys-to-their-characters/pdf/trump-newspaper.pdf?fbclid=IwAR0XCxKsMUFrza-mjh64FQ93jhPgEoicnB_z_SZpPJ-HrzcjbK1ylhBS29g) never called for the death penalty for these five boys. But this NYT article tried its darndest to imply that Trump did call for them to receive the death penalty in the title, which most people would just read, believe, and then not read the article. However, NYT was not the worst offender here, as other news sources blatantly lied:
https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/krystieyandoli/donald-trump-central-park-five-no-apology
In the sub-title: "Full-page ads Trump ran in 1989 advocated for bringing the death penalty back to "punish" the teen suspects, who were eventually exonerated."
"Donald Trump is refusing to apologize to the Central Park Five for taking out full-page advertisements in New York City newspapers in 1989 calling for the death penalty in response to a case in which the five black and Latino teenagers were wrongfully convicted of rape."
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/trump-refuses-to-apologize-to-central-park-five/ar-AAD4zeA?ocid=sf
"President Trump on Tuesday refused to apologize to the "Central Park Five" for calling for their executions over rape and assault convictions that were later overturned."
"Trump in 1989 took out full-page ads in New York newspapers calling for the death penalty against the five boys, aged 14 to 16"
https://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/ny-trump-death-penalties-biden-crime-bill-20190527-6kryhqd4wzgz5bhkqcvsobg76q-story.html
In the title: "Trump — who wanted death penalties for Central Park Five"
"President Trump — who infamously demanded death penalties for a group of black and Hispanic teenagers wrongfully convicted of raping a woman in Central Park"
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/trump-digs-central-park-5-they-admitted-their-guilt-n1019156
In the sub-title: "The president, who once called for the five to get the death penalty, offered no apology even though the convictions were vacated."
"He called for them to get the death penalty after they were arrested and their criminal convictions were later vacated, but President Donald Trump on Tuesday wasn't offering any apologies to the so-called "Central Park Five.""
I remember this instance of media lies very clearly because one of my friends on Facebook posted about it in righteous indignation about how Trump is a monster for calling for the death penalty for these boys.
Here are also some sourced examples of the media (and Biden) lying about things Trump has said or done recently concerning the coronavirus: https://pjmedia.com/trending/the-top-10-lies-about-president-trumps-response-to-the-coronavirus/
thealmightybrush · 7 points · Posted at 22:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If that ad Trump took out calling for the Death Penalty during the height of the Central Park 5 wasn't calling for the Death Penalty OF the Central Park 5, why do you think he took out that ad? Just a coincidence? Read between the lines. He thought they were guilty and refuses to accept they weren't.
As for Trump's response to COVID, what are your thoughts regarding his comments about not wanting to work with certain states whose governors are critical of him?
LeftHandYoga · 0 points · Posted at 23:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is Trump's one and perhaps only skill - he's really quite good at ensuring he has plausible deniability, and I very much think he learned this from the mafia since his father did indeed work with the mafia
Legado88 · 3 points · Posted at 05:22:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He leaves just enough doubt for his supporters to cling to. He lies to their face and gives them an out to defend him.
LeftHandYoga · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:28 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of times I feel like the moves he makes are far too clever to be his own at work.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:38:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Most"
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 02:38:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, there are some plain citizens on the left after all.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet most people get their news and form their opinions based on that same media that you claim is corrupt. Most people aren't subscribed to your narrative homie.
Pixxwapp · 3 points · Posted at 01:03:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because he makes people like you cry at the foot of your bed every night. That's why
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:06:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you get your information on Trump from Journos who hate him and produce media for people who want to be infuriated by him? Do you think that's wise?
[deleted] · -24 points · Posted at 20:22:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could say how could anyone support Bernie or biden when Bernie is a pushover and would never get anything done in office and biden... I don't even have to fucking explain biden that m̶o̶t̶h̶e̶r̶ kid fucker
SRLYSOWERS · 7 points · Posted at 22:07:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie got arrested for protesting segregation. How is he a pushover.
[deleted] · -9 points · Posted at 22:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All he ever did in the powerhe had was what? Raname a few things
SRLYSOWERS · 3 points · Posted at 23:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
He authored the bill that gives americans a free credit report, voted against the restriction on gay marriage, he voted against the Iraq war, he steered a bill to help veterans and the department of veterans affairs better take care of americas aging veterans as well as the new generations of veterans from Iraq and Afghanistan. He helped Chris Shays to pass a bill that would help veterans from the gulf war afflicted with illness. He is the leading senator for a universal healthcare system and on top of all of that he has passed more bipartisan amendments than anyone else in his time in the house.
Succdem_manifesto · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He is also the reason Amazon’s got a $15/h minimum wage.
CapnSpazz · 14 points · Posted at 20:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would argue if that's the worst part for Bernie, then that's not a terrible arguement agaisnt him comparatively. I'd go with the guy who's to timid over the rapist con artist.
[deleted] · -17 points · Posted at 20:40:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cant go for him now since he quite literally cant win so theres another reason to not vote him
Fwhqgads · 5 points · Posted at 20:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that Bernie not campaigning is kind of a big deal but... it is kind of messed up to say voting for him is hopeless. A lot of low-income working folk were hoping for him to become pres. America is voting/voicing what you want.
LeftHandYoga · -2 points · Posted at 23:31:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol, what?
Where did these ridiculous Biden allegations come from? Can you show me some kind of proof or even an accusation that he's been fucking kids?
Oh but wait, your boy Trump has numerous, numerous credible sexual crime allegations against him... extremely credible..
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bottom line: he delivered on his campaign promises and he did his job very well.
Livelaughlovekratom · 1 points · Posted at 10:38:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's trump?
LitMaster11 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because people have different views that you do.
That's the easiest explanation, as there are thousands of reasons why Trump was elected, and why people support him.
By no means is Trump perfect, of course almost no politician is either.
I pose a series of questions to you.
Why did people vote for, and support Hillary Clinton, when she is a career politician, and many view her as corrupt?
Why did people support Bernie Sanders, when he is a self proclaimed socialist, and many view him as a communist?
cicatrix1 · 0 points · Posted at 00:13:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
None of that is true though. That's the problem. And it certainly doesn't justify his corruption and incompetence. He's doing an objectively terrible job and is among the top 5 worst presidents the USA has ever seen.
LitMaster11 · 2 points · Posted at 00:25:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
After my own analysis, talking to many people, reading articles, watching videos and listening to podcasts - those are just a few of the reasons I have come up with for why he was elected, and why people support him.
I came to this thread to explain what many view to be the reasons why he was elected. It appears as though you came to this thread to disagree with me on a factual basis, and push your own opinion into the mix... Which is perfectly acceptable, but was not my point. I never said most of it was true or not - I said that it is what people viewed to be the truth.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If u actually niece trump is corrupt you are delusional he's the first president we've had in modern times that every opinion and choice he makes is based on his own beliefs
ProBlack-AntiLiberal · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I see it Trump is no more or less racist than the Democrats so that factor cancels out for me. I’m not a fan of feminism, the lgbt movement, or illegal immigration so Trump gets my vote by default.
Redditman246810 · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rent free
BobbyGabagool · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also how anybody can support any establishment politician.
mikerichh · -2 points · Posted at 20:26:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Because people vote republican because they'd hate a democrat to lead and implement their policies. Some vote on religious stuff like anti abortion and won't budge.
What i want some conservatives to admit is how if there was literally any other republican option they'd prefer him over trump. I'm getting the feeling they want a republican period and if given the choice Trump would be the worst of alternative republican options for many reasons
And I'm talking post 2016 once everyone has had a chance to observe how he leads
golden_fli · 3 points · Posted at 07:40:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a moderate that leans Conservative and that's why I WOULDN'T vote for Trump and won't this year either. I honestly don't even consider him to really be a Conservative. Heck if you want to go by the religious right then he is more liberal then most of them want to admit as well. You'd actually find a lot of Conservatives don't really like him or support him. They will likely vote for him over Biden, but he isn't as beloved as he'd want you to think.
qwertx0815 · 2 points · Posted at 14:15:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Trump enjoys the highest approval rating among Republicans of any Republican president in history.
Higher than W just after 9/11.
Trump is only a symptom of the general decline of the GOP.
korabas1 · -4 points · Posted at 22:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone who supports the GOP/Trump is delusional and/or mentally deficient. Very simple to understand.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 01:41:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For my in-laws I think it let's them feel more comfortable saying the quiet part out loud. They get to voice their bigoted thoughts about Hispanics/Asians and I'm sure when I'm not around my people as well. I mean one of them had already made the comment to me that they're not going to see "black" movies anymore because they thought we collectively hated white people for liking Liam Neeson. Who knows? Maybe I'm "one of the good ones."
milkmymachine · -2 points · Posted at 00:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The small government party is the hill rednecks party. A strong government may find their way of life worth passing laws about, while a weak one would not. They don’t care about corruption, they don’t usually need money. They farm their food or live off the land. If they need money for something they work a job for a month then disappear again. This isn’t hard to figure out. They don’t want other people relying on the government either. This mostly applies to local and congress reps. Presidential republicans are usually big government republicans, but trump generally isn’t. At least not to the extent his predecessors were.
I’m honestly baffled y’all don’t know what the average trump voter is like or strives to be like, but you probably don’t live in a hardcore red state either.
I mean damn just watch tiger king and all this will become clear.
TheAlmightyMiguel · 2 points · Posted at 05:53:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're deriving your political opinions from fucking Tiger King, you are what's wrong with American politics.
milkmymachine · 0 points · Posted at 15:16:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not my political opinions, but I think it’s more useful to understand each other than just say the opposing political spectrum is “what’s wrong with american politics.” Honestly I think that’s more what’s wrong with american politics. Knee jerk idiots like yourself who think everyone on the other side is scum because they don’t vote like I do.
TheAlmightyMiguel · 1 points · Posted at 17:21:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And did you not just generalize an entire wing of the political spectrum as hill rednecks who don't care about economics because they'll just opt out to go subsistence farm anyway? And you have the gonads to assume I'm the one with knee-jerk opinions, while you claim to understand politics and are able to mediate both sides like some Earth-bound Captain Kirk?
Here's a newsflash for you. That might have been the most out-of-touch response I've ever seen. That you think you can be some kind of hero by doing the same things everyone else does just because you pretend to be nice about it would be pure comedy if it wasn't so infuriating. You're not uniting anyone in this state, and your self-righteousness only serves to make an ass out of you.
milkmymachine · 1 points · Posted at 17:26:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
😂 thank you for the Captain Kirk analogy, i appreciate it.
And for the record, I love hill rednecks, especially the ones that haven’t yet discovered meth. At least they have some balls unlike most of my city democrat friends. They really encompass the phrase “live free or die,” I’m sure the founding fathers would find more in common with them than your average voter.
As for the rest of your argument...
K.
Nitro29 · 7 points · Posted at 16:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how bigotry is even real, i genuinely don't understand
officeromnicide · 9 points · Posted at 18:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you say that you are intolerant of bigots?
Nitro29 · 4 points · Posted at 18:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i would, because in my opinion tolerating bigots and allowing them to exist in public spaces is the about the same as endorsing them and their actions
Bigots existing is inherently harmful to communities and individuals
Also bigotry is a choice, they chose to be intolerant and voice this intolerance, they chose to follow the irrational path that lead them to believe they are superiors to other, they chose to be violent (be it in words or actions) against people who did nothing to warrant such violence
officeromnicide · 3 points · Posted at 18:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Would you be tolerant of a bigot who has the same views as you do?
Nitro29 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what do you mean by same views as i do?
because if someone had exactly all the same views about everything as i do they wouldn't be a bigot (because i don't think of myself as a bigot)
officeromnicide · 8 points · Posted at 19:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tolerance is, in short, is the acceptance of other people being able to have their own opinions and being allowed to Express them in any non violent form they wish regardless of what their views are, even your worst enemies and those who you find the most despicable.
Bigotry is the intolerance of those people who have different opinions as you.
However the grey area comes with intolerance of the intolerant and has been the source of much debate over the last few centuries and there are strong arguments on either side.
It's on these principles that freedom of speech, democracy and other liberal principles are based
Essentially what I'm saying is a hell of a lot of people who call other people bigots are completely unaware that they are themself bigoted
Nitro29 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i think we simply don't have the same definition of a bigot, for me a bigot is and has always been someone who doesn't tolerate people for reasons outside of the opinions they hold (stuff like gender, race, sexuality, physical condition or social status for instance)
for me a homophobe is a bigot. But being homosexual isn't an opinion, so would a homophobe be considered a bigot with your definition?
Also in my opinion a conservative who hates the left isn't automatically a bigot, just a dumbass (although if said dumbass also hates women or queer people or people of color, i would consider them a bigot)
so yes i guess if we're following you're definition of bigotry, i would be considered a bigot because i refuse to tolerate people who are a threat to others
officeromnicide · 3 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are not referring to bigotism but rather anti-libaralism or those who are against individual liberty and human rights, bigotism and tolerance are very set and defined things that have foundations in liberal theory dating back to before the enlightenment, you are simply using the wrong terminology.
In fact if the hypothetical person in question did not agree with the way that people with different sexualities and gender identities lived their lives but also did not want to take any action to promote their legal right to live the way that they do they would in no way be anti-liberal nor even perhaps intolerant, however if you were not tolerant of their right to think the way they do and Express their distaste, you would in fact be the bigot in this situation.
Meta0X · -4 points · Posted at 19:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigotry isn't just about opinions. Racism is a form of bigotry, for example.
officeromnicide · 7 points · Posted at 19:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only if that racism manifest in a way in which the bigot does not tolerate the opinions of the person they are racist against, it can extend to racists, however not all racists are bigots and you could very well be bigoted against them
Meta0X · -3 points · Posted at 19:49:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The defition of bigotry:
The definition of bigot:
Emphasis mine.
officeromnicide · 7 points · Posted at 19:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes a person who is intolerantly devoted to their own opinions, including hating a group of people is indeed a bigot, note how the definition that you have cited does not say that racism or hatred of a group is bigotism but rather the term can only be applied especially to someone in that case if they meet the first condition of being intolerantly devoted to their cause. What I have just said is literally written in the definition you cited
Meta0X · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You...
... missed a spot.
The definition of prejudice:
You're just wrong, my dude.
officeromnicide · 2 points · Posted at 04:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im wrong how? Whether a prejudice or opinion the key here is that they are intolerantly devoted to it or are you just not following at all, I can explain the whole history of the terminology and their relationship to political philosophy if you so wish, point remains if they are tolerant in their prejudice a bigot they are not
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 11:59:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Now hold on here.
My issue with your initial definition was that bigotry was about opinion, not about whether or not it has to be about being intolerantly devoted to your opinion or prejudice. That wasn't what you said at first. You said bigotry was about being intolerant of another's opinion. I simply stated that it could be about race, too.
Also... I don't care about the history of the terminology with this. There's historical use and then colloquial use, kind of like how you keep using the term "bigotism" which is an incredibly rare and outdated word in the modern age. Even if historically the word bigotry was all about opinion (nothing I've seen says so) people use it in a modern context to describe people who are extremely racist, homophobic, etc, which has nothing to do with the opinion.
officeromnicide · 0 points · Posted at 14:31:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh just let off mate, opinion and prejudice are pretty much the same damn thing. And in case you have forgotton the whole point of this is most people who call people bigots and are intolerant of them are themselves bigoted, it's not hard to understand, the whole damn point I'm making is that the word has become an insult used to discredit people rather than something meaningful. You're completely missing the point and arguing about something quite irrelevant and my question still remains: would you be tolerant or a bigot who shares your same veiws?
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 14:52:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First, you never asked me that question. Considering that I don't think of myself as a bigot, it's not a question I could answer.
Second, you said that bigotry was about being intolerant of another person's opinions. I said, and pointed out quite clearly with actual dictionary definitions, that it was also about being intolerant about another person's race or sexuality or gender, none of which are opinions.
Third, I don't disagree that a prejudice is a form of opinion, but that's not what either of us were arguing about at the start.
Fourth, I don't really disagree that the word "bigot" can be misused, I just don't think it's some massive issue like you're making it out to be.
And fifth... I was questioning your definition of bigotry. How is that irrelevant?
officeromnicide · 0 points · Posted at 15:46:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prejudice is literally any preconceived opinion based on lack of evidence, nothing specifically to do with race, sex, gender etc. I can be prejudiced in a way that I believe watermelons don't exist. I'll rephrase the question though seeing as you seem adamant about clinging to your own prejudice of what bigot means: would you be tolerant of anyone who holds the same belief as you who is in turn not tolerant of other people's beliefs.
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 16:03:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Typically when I encounter someone who shares the same general beliefs that I do, they don't enter into the realm of bigotry so much as they might point out the issues with things that we disagree with. An example being how I wouldn't tell someone not to be christian, but I wouldn't shy away from talking about the damage they've done over the centuries. If someone took it too far to the point of "I openly don't associate with christians" or "I think christians should be punished for their beliefs"... then we don't hold the same beliefs. So I would probably argue against them and, if they kept holding onto those beliefs, I would probably stop associating with them.
If that makes me a bigot, which I'm guessing you're going to say it does, so be it. But I disagree. Considering the extreme negative connotations of the word bigot as it is widely used today, I think being intollerant of intollerance isn't covered by the term. It's an aspect of the paradox of tolerance.
You're also completely dodging what I said earlier and moving your goal post.
Your initial statement that I took issue with was this:
To which I said:
And you responded with:
I responded with the definitions of bigotry and bigot, which counter your argument and showed that the words are also used to be intolerant of people because they belong to a group- race, sexuality, gender- and not just because they disagree with that group's opinion on something.
I also never said that prejudice only involved aspects of race or sexuality or gender, just that it did also cover that. I even showed that with the definition of prejudice that I posted. It covers all of that, not just opinion and not just issues with groups of people.
But the fact of the matter is, I only ever argued against the idea that bigotry is 100% about being intolerant of opinions. It's not. Do you disagree with the dictionary definitions? Or are you going to gloss over what I'm saying yet again and return to arguing over the definition of prejudice, which I was never arguing over to begin with?
ron_sheeran · 0 points · Posted at 20:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well let me help you understand. So back in the day when humans were mear hunter gathers we evolved the idea of triblism to protect our tribe from other tribes. Triblism is the idea of putting your group above other groups. It kept us alive in the early day of man. But now it masfests in war and bigotry but also social change and friendly compation. Bigotry is illogical but it has a logical cause.
Meta0X · -1 points · Posted at 20:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Rather than just arguing with the other guy's weird (and incorrect) definition of bigotry, I'll try and shed some light here.
It typically comes from two places: irrational fear or dogma. Usually a bit of both.
Irrational fear would be this: you were mugged once by a black man, therefore all black men are more likely to mug you than white men. It's a fear based on the idea that because one person who looks a certain way did something, people who look similar are more likely to be the same. But people will typically not view their own race as a monolith like that, right?
This comes from evolutionary biology. For thousands of years, those that were different, namely from other tribes, were active threats. From the time that humanity stopped being tribal and started settling into cities and nations, we haven't evolved to the point where we've dumped that evolutionary safety measure. Thankfully, humans are able to self analyze like this. We're able to make a concious effort to not feel that way about those who are different. But, it's good to be aware of these bits of bigotry that can still exist within us. Self awareness is a really good trait, here.
But for some people, that can be really hard, because dogma is really powerful.
Let's say you have a young, impressionable white kid that goes through that first scenario. Rather than reflecting on what happened and realizing that it was one individual who happened to be black that mugged him, he goes online to find similar experiences and is exposed to white supremacist ideologies. These ideologies, which are usually based in psuedoscientific nonsense done in order to try and rationalize those tribal fears, will do everything they can to confirm this young white kid's fears. It wasn't just one black man that mugged you- that's just how they are! They're more prone to it! People exposed to that stuff range from just plain old ignorance to outright neo nazis.
The same sort of dogma can be enforced without negative experiences starting them up though. If you're raised in the Baptist church, for example, you're taught as early as possible that homosexuality is horrible and unnatural and a sin. If you really do believe in the god they raised you to believe and this god will send you to eternal punishment in hell for being gay... that irrational fear kicks in. You hear about people learning they're gay later in life, you see more and more gay people coming out, and you start to think, shit! What if they can make you gay? What if they want us all to be gay? And you start to blame them, and hate them, and think they're diseased.
It's a really complicated thing, bigotry. It fucking sucks. But knowing the cause can help you fight it. When you meet a bigot, don't just tell them to fuck off right away. Try and figure out why they feel a certain way, and then try and educate them on the truth that usually clears those fears and dogmas right up.
It won't always work, but even if you only turn one in a thousand people away from that shit... it's worth it.
thisaccountisironic · 7 points · Posted at 17:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, anti-semitism, etcetera. Not trying to virtue signal but I honestly don’t get it
nasty_nater · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fear of the other. You know how, in the current political climate, you may actually hate and distrust people that vote differently from you? Maybe Trump supporters? Maybe people on the left? That feeling?
That's the same thing racists feel.
They're afraid of the "other" because they live in a bubble and don't interact or befriend people that are different from them.
Gooner2005 · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daryl Davis has a good answer to that on the Joe Rogan experience.
Mittrawnurodo · 3 points · Posted at 14:48:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many universes there are.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many points are in a line?
ArmyRedhead · 3 points · Posted at 18:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who are supposedly adults seem to act like spoiled toddlers when told to do something that is OBVIOUSLY for their (and society's benefit) like staying TF home.
RayFisch28 · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most languages
trash332 · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxers, flat earthers, continued trump support. Ignorance as a way of life. The list goes on
lil_bear28 · 3 points · Posted at 20:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my minecraft gf left me
debugulator · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
eatencrow · 2 points · Posted at 16:49:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory.
I keep upping my maths game, but the deep, comprehensive understanding I seek remains beyond my grasp. I may never get there, but I keep at it.
tujensifavorita · 2 points · Posted at 13:21:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
morgisartre · 2 points · Posted at 18:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entitled people.
PepeHands217 · -11 points · Posted at 14:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really do not understand how come some people would gladly let illegal immigrants taking social benefits. They are criminals and you let them take something from you for free....do they understand money doesn't grow on trees?
HandsomeLakitu · 46 points · Posted at 14:22:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea behind most social welfare is that it's much cheaper to give people the money they need to survive than it is to deal with the increased crime and social problems that result from severe poverty. That's true regardless of immigration status.
As for the actual cost of giving welfare to undocumented immigrants, well, it's beyond microscopic on a public spending scale.
Harmxn- · 4 points · Posted at 19:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The system of social welfare in Belgium works so well, I don't understand how a powerhouse like the US struggles with illegal immigrants.
We just pay about 40% of our income to taxes and if we ever need to go to the hospital we get covered for the most part.
And I'd rather have 2 people abuse the system and let a family who needs help have help than just not having the system because "I pay too much taxes"
I do still find that the system of unemployement in the Netherlands is way better than what we have in Belgium (You get less money over time but the government helps you get a job. In Belgium you can literally just stay at home and get free money)
TheLollrax · 2 points · Posted at 00:48:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The United States really doesn't struggle with immigrants. The immigrants are just a scapegoat. But, to answer your question, I think the core of a lot of American conservatism is the ideas that people only deserve benefits in proportion to their (economic) contribution to society and that poverty is inevitable for some proportion of the population because there is not enough to go around. Check out the writings of early Calvinists and you'll find the roots of the modern American ethic.
PepeHands217 · -32 points · Posted at 14:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS
dont try to do the linguistic trick and try to minimalize their behaviour, they broke the law, and they are criminals
why don't just stop them from coming in ILLEGALLY in the first place?
names-r-overrated · 33 points · Posted at 17:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most illegal immigrants are just immigrants who have overstayed their visa, which is different form them sneaking in
PepeHands217 · 15 points · Posted at 17:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so they broke the law - so they are criminals
names-r-overrated · 10 points · Posted at 17:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know. I never said it was good, all i'm saying is there's a difference between someone who came here on a visa, got a job, paid, taxes and everything, then someone who snuck in.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 17:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
at the moment they overstay they got no right to take anything from the society because they are criminals
names-r-overrated · 5 points · Posted at 17:33:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, I was just pointing it out because it's different then saying most of them are sneaking in and stealing, it's different because it was purposeful. That's all.
Also, what exactly are these said immigrants stealing if they are paying taxes?
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 17:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
according to your case, if they are criminals why does it matter if they are paying taxes or not?
do you care a druglord or methhead paying taxes or not? You want them to be arrested and kicked out of the country afterwards
names-r-overrated · 3 points · Posted at 18:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read what I said above. But you haven't answered my question. What benefits would they be getting that are unfair? Things that them benifiting would harm americans?
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
as long as they are staying with a visa, that's ok
once visa expired, they should gtfo
names-r-overrated · 2 points · Posted at 18:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You keep avoiding my one question. You said before they were taking benefits and it's unfair cuz the are illegal. To the people that aren't commuting any crimes (besides the fact that they are here illegally) and the ones paying taxes, if they are illegal, what are the benefiting or taking from americans? All I want is for y oui t explain what you said earlier.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
alright I don't get what you ask before that's why I haven't answered
the answer is quite simple - those jobs should belong to Americans and people who come AND stay with valid visa. The fact they either sneak in (illegal immigrants) or overstay (also illegal) they are taking away the opportunities to legal citizens and is hurting other Americans and legal immigrants
names-r-overrated · 2 points · Posted at 18:35:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a common misconception, as most immigrants take the jobs that most Americans don't want. The impact of immigrant labor on the wages of american workers is low. Undocumented workers often work the unpleasant, back-breaking jobs that American workers are not willing to do.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so not every American, so they are taking away some Americans job opportunities
names-r-overrated · 2 points · Posted at 18:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And also helping by working for americans. It really doesn't hurt americans in the way you think. The truth is, we need them because without them we won't have enough labor workers.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no Americans can work and just not at dirt cheap wages
letting illegal immigrants overstay and not deporting them hurts Americans that are willing to work
names-r-overrated · 4 points · Posted at 18:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Criminals and drug lords would sneak in illegally, because they wouldn't qualify for a visa. I'm talking about the majority of illegal immigrants, people who come through a visa to not live in a dangerous country and overstay it. It's very very hard for druglords to come in legally because of background checks. They'd be entering in illegally, as opposed to people who jut want to be safe entering in legally
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
don't care, overstay = criminals = kick out of the country
names-r-overrated · 2 points · Posted at 18:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should care. If you think both should be kicked out that's ok, but it's still worthwhile to know the difference before assuming all illegal immigrants steal, sell drugs, and commit many crimes. It's still good to know the truth instead of false stereotypes.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they did commit crime, overstaying
names-r-overrated · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope, I said commit many crimes, plural. Hence the "s". I didn't say commit a crime, i said crimesss. I explicitly said that in both scenarios, they are committing crimes. All I ask is that you acknowledge the difference between the two, since the one where the only crime committed is that they are here illegally happens more often. Yes both are illegal but it's worth acknowledging cuz stereotypes are assumptions are never cool.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 18:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
alright I agree with that, but they still commit a crime and they are still criminals
JrPolygon · 2 points · Posted at 19:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus Christ, did an illegal immigrant rob your house or something? You're constantly repeating the same talking point. Add something to the conversation instead of being stuck on repeat.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because that is a fact?
JrPolygon · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not my point. We know your stance on illegal immigrants after the 3rd time. Why keep repeating it?...
names-r-overrated · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. I said that. I've been saying that the whole time
thenotjoe · 4 points · Posted at 18:45:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are you saying all criminals are the same?
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well I wont go that far because the mass murderer is clearly different from a thief
Lone_Wolfen · 4 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Undocumented immigration falls under a civil misdemeanor, or equivalent to a speeding ticket.
So you would be 100% okay if people lose their license for breaking the speed limit.
PepeHands217 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS
and yes
Lone_Wolfen · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Congratulations, every single person is now permanently stripped of their ability to drive, how does that make you feel?
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a safer country?
and no not every single person, my gf always drive at least 5-10 km below the limit because she is a very cautious person
Lone_Wolfen · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah yes, your """girlfriend""" is very cautious indeed, enough to disrupt the flow of traffic.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
is better to not crashing
slowing the traffic doesn't kill, crashing do
Lone_Wolfen · 2 points · Posted at 20:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I bet she's also very cautious to never mention the legal term for people in the wrong country, given how quick to trigger you are.
OtherEgg · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So im a hardliner on illegal immegration as well, but coming into the country illegally and having an expired visa are vastly different things. One is a fine and you get it reinstated, the other is deportation. Your focusing on the wrong type of illegal immegration.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's like being okay with tossing people in jail for jaywalking... Or paralyzing a person for it.
iamnotabot200 · 8 points · Posted at 18:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're still human
PepeHands217 · 26 points · Posted at 18:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a human who breaks the law and a criminal
MelMes85 · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have broken the law so many times. The amount of random stuff I’ve pocketed and drugs I have done in the past, I guess I’m a criminal but I’m currently a law abiding and contributing member of society
PepeHands217 · 4 points · Posted at 19:48:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
count yourself lucky for not getting caught then
but those people will be caught and will be kicked out of the country, they should put more budget on ICE and enforce the law more often
MelMes85 · 7 points · Posted at 19:51:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ICE offers are piles of dog shit
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 19:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
oh direct personal attack on people just doing their job. Nice
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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PepeHands217 · 5 points · Posted at 21:08:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if i break the law and police handcuff me and put me into a cell, would I blame the police for 'being an asshole and a pile of shit'? no I blame myself for my poor decision and I have to take my responsibility
Mistafyed · 0 points · Posted at 21:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many people are forced to do it. I don’t see how being alive in another country means you should be sent to die and treated like an animal. You’re so arrogant it’s incredible.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
errrr.... you mean economic migrant? they are not forced to do it
America does take a lot of refugees every year and they are coming via legal way.
They are not going to just die if they cannot get into the US, there are millions of people in Africa starving should they all move to the US?
If you really feel sympathy to them you can always use your own money to feed them and invite them to live in your house.
iamnotabot200 · 4 points · Posted at 18:49:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does committing a crime invalidate their humanity?
PepeHands217 · 17 points · Posted at 18:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
not humanity but commit a crime does invalidate their opportunity to stay in the country. They can live forever and happily if they leave the country
iamnotabot200 · 4 points · Posted at 18:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That's the thing though, these poor people can't live happily somewhere else.
[deleted] · 7 points · Posted at 18:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iamnotabot200 · 7 points · Posted at 18:57:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So your fine with sending people to their graves over a little paperwork? When instead we could have a legalization process that would allow these people to become legal immigrants without being deported?
PepeHands217 · 10 points · Posted at 19:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
there is a legal process to migrant into America? you are talking like America doesn't allow any immigrants to come in
iamnotabot200 · 5 points · Posted at 19:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I'm talking about a legalization process that would allow illegal immigrants to become legal without having to leave.
PepeHands217 · 10 points · Posted at 19:04:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
then that would be extremely unfair to people who migrant to America via the legal process. Those people spend years and tons of money to do so and you are letting others to do it for free?
iamnotabot200 · 2 points · Posted at 19:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't say it'd have to be free, you're just nitpicking at this point.
PepeHands217 · 5 points · Posted at 19:06:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so if there are legal way to do it why don't they do it that way and try to overstay?
iamnotabot200 · 4 points · Posted at 19:07:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because there isn't a legal way yet. I am describing to you, a system that could be created, to legalize illegal immigrants already living in the US.
PepeHands217 · 4 points · Posted at 19:10:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
there is. There are different ways to migrant to America. Go google and there were a bunch of different visas
iamnotabot200 · 0 points · Posted at 19:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Begone troll.
PepeHands217 · 5 points · Posted at 19:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
lmao you are talking like there is 0 way to migrant to the US
this is not North Korea, there are a bunch of ways
PhoenixDan · -2 points · Posted at 19:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you tried to do it? I have family in Spain that wanted to move here, my Aunt and her kids. There was so much red tape involved, and the process was going to take years and resources she didn't have so they gave up. My Dad was her brother and she wanted to be closer to him. It was was unfortunate. So what process have you tried that seems so easy? And for the record, I'm not disagreeing with you. Illegal immigrants are breaking the lasty but you also have to take into account the severity of crimes. You are coming across calling them criminals and acting like they robbed a store or something. They overstayed a Visa. Yes, they shouldn't have done that and it's a crime, but a very minor one. I'm sure some point you ran a red light, or trespassed, maybe stole a candy bar, or sat in a parked car drinking, or any number of things. Are YOU a criminal that deserves to be punished? At some point we all have broken minor laws. Yes, they are in the wrong but they are not on the same tier as rapists and murderers, and the EXPENSE of fighting it greatly outweighs any damage then living here does.
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 19:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wish ILLEGAL IMMIGRANTS learn to do that
and if you really have sympathy to them, please use your own money and your own house to take care of them. thank you
PhoenixDan · 0 points · Posted at 23:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for dodging anything I actually said.
All I said was the legal process is not as easy as you think, that you're talking about then as if they are on the same level as hardcore criminals, and I ACTUALLY AGREED with you that it is wrong and illegal, but we're using more resources to fight it than what we're losing to it.
Illegal immigration, it's a problem yes, but it's pretty far down the list of priority issues.
And the sympathy was for my family who couldn't get in through the legal routes. I'm sure my Aunt would have loved to be by her brother's side when my Father died. So my sympathy was to my family, but of course you couldn't see past your bias and put words in my mouth.
JrPolygon · -3 points · Posted at 19:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"People spend years and tons of money". Right, so how can someone poor and running for their lives have money and the resources to apply legally? Your solution is "too bad so bad". You lack even the basic level of empathy. They need to be given a chance to legalize themselves and the US needs to do it's part in making that possible for those poor and helpless.
PepeHands217 · 7 points · Posted at 19:13:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if someone really feel for them they can always provide their own home and use their own money to feed them, I don't really mind if they do so, but don't use the public funding to do so.
JrPolygon · -2 points · Posted at 19:23:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Public funding is used in billions every year for excessive surplus supplies in military, president's golf trips, and other useless things. Why is being a humanitarian and helping your fellow man worse than that?...
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 19:47:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
because they arent Americans....America budget using on Americans are fine but not non-Americans...
JrPolygon · -2 points · Posted at 20:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So billions used to repair damages to the Middle East by us? That's not being used on Americans at all, yet we do it.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 20:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
build a country that would be close to America instead of being hostile against the US like Iran?
spinner198 · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indeed, but America wouldn’t be the best place to live on earth anymore if we just let anyone who wanted come live here for free without becoming a citizen.
LMK44106123 · 7 points · Posted at 19:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does their humanity invalidate their crime?
iamnotabot200 · 6 points · Posted at 19:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No
LMK44106123 · 5 points · Posted at 20:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then that person is an illegal immigrant. This doesn't mean we should lock them up in cages or abuse them, obviously, but we send them back to their country and if it becomes a repeated offense, we lock them up.
Nationalist_Patriot · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does "invalidating their humanity" even mean? You can acknowledge someone's humanity while locking them in prison. What exactly do you think would count as invalidating someone's humanity?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Nationalist_Patriot · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry, I rephrased my question in an edit just now.
iamnotabot200 · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Treating them as subhuman. For example putting people into concentration camps, overly cruel punishment, etc.
Nationalist_Patriot · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the concentration camps are so bad, then why do they keep coming here?
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
-Ben Shapiro
eldariandooshter · 2 points · Posted at 22:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So was ted Bundy.
iamnotabot200 · 2 points · Posted at 22:12:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what, yeah you're right, he was. A horrible human, but human nonetheless.
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 21:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So are literally all other people in the world. Should America provide social welfare to all of them too?
ron_sheeran · 2 points · Posted at 19:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do not underatand how hard it is to get across the boader legally. Ita just easier to stay.
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 20:00:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so if something is hard you just cheat pass it?
It is hard to earn money, so I just steal from others
It is hard to get a degree, so I cheat in exams
does it sound ridiculous?
ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im just saying you dont know.what its like to immagrat across the american boader so why judge.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plenty of companies do that.
There's so many drop outs who can succeed in skill alone a degree isn't really worth cheating on exams and if you are that clueless about something you chose to study, maybe you should find another major. People are more likely to "cheat" in education by throwing money at issues and using bribes to get into better schools.
It doesn't sound so ridiculous because we live in a world where there's so much crime that ends with nobody being hurt or affected that it seems kind of ridiculous to really enforce certain laws.
As for the original argument I'm pretty sure they need some kind of legal status in order to claim benefits from the government. There's probably a decent amount who have jobs that aren't under the table and pay taxes still just because they started at a time where they had legal status.
You also have cities and even states that have come to sort of depend on immigrants. Whether legal or not. Overstayed or smuggled in.
Also keep in mind that America wouldn't really be America if we closed the doors to others. So many people are willing to risk it all just for a chance to see the American dream.
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 20:58:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
are they right? no. Some people want to get rid of corruption, I want to get rid of illegal immigrants, you do you and I will do mine
like, how many years ago? There are 330 million people already in 2020.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I thought your issue was with the crimes being committed. In which case they should be the same level of issue.
There's still fuckloads of space that can be used for housing and more so... Maybe that's not very big of a deal.
PepeHands217 · 0 points · Posted at 21:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
who build them? who pays it? are you paying it?
makingburritos · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe we should give them a roof and three meals and treat them like actual criminals
Athelis · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like the first lady. Plus working illegally on a tourist Visa. How do you feel about that?
You'll just call it "fake news" and go on falling in line.
chinsalabim · 0 points · Posted at 19:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever sped? Ever jaywalked?
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 19:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
no and no, why would someone do that?
HandsomeLakitu · 5 points · Posted at 14:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You asked the question, that's the answer.
MelMes85 · 2 points · Posted at 19:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally I want those people to live here because I think a culturally homogenous society would be an absolute nightmare. I also want as many people as possible to have a better life. I don’t think being born in the US makes you special. That’s not to say I think that borders should be open to anyone, but the ones that are already here, and the ones that continue to come in, they are alright by me. I would do the same if I were in their place.
PepeHands217 · 5 points · Posted at 19:52:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that's what you think and I totally strongly disagree
always feel free to donate to charity or use your own money to take care of people who are homeless and unemployed, let them stay in your house and feed them for free. They will thank you forever for their life, trust me.
no it doesn't, it only gives you the right to stay in US legally.
thanks for being rational
then what is the point of a border? just let anyone walk in for free? you wont do that with your own house isn't it?
durandj · 3 points · Posted at 20:21:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the benefit of a homogeneous society?
PepeHands217 · 3 points · Posted at 20:45:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
preserve prestigious, valuable tradition and culture
When I went to Japan, I would like to enjoy and appreciate the traditional culture and the beautiful views of the old buildings and temples. Imagine trying to enjoy Kinkaku-ji or Kiyomizu-dera, and there is a fucking church or mosque next to it, it completely fucked up and ruin the view.
In addition, there are certain groups of people who are specifically easily triggered by others, like complaining about being offensive to them to say merry Christmas or having bikinis in the beaches, imagine people who lived there for generations and suddenly there' are conflicts around things that they have done for years and decades. I don't want to decide what culture is better but if there is a clash the best thing to do is stay at where they belong. No one complains about a woman not showing their skin in the Middle East or force them to take swimming class if they dont want to and no one would complain people being naked in a free beach in France.
durandj · 6 points · Posted at 21:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doesn't that kind of assume that all of the existing culture is valuable or prestigious? I don't think everything in the US falls into that and I would love to see a many traditions die out entirely. You also mentioned that you don't want to pick whose culture is better but by saying you don't want to bring in other cultures because yours is prestigious makes it sound like you already have.
I totally understand wanting to be able to preserve parts of history but that's different from the what people in that country actually have as a prominent part of their culture. For example, when I was in Japan I also was excited to check out the temples and shrines but the majority of my time there I didn't actually see them. People don't go to shrines everyday, they don't wear kimonos, or any of that. The two are separate. Just because Japan has changed over the centuries doesn't mean any of that was lost, it's just different.
To be completely honest, parts of what you are saying make it sound like you're offended by others just like they are supposedly offended by you.
It's not that it's offensive but it is presumptuous. If I said Happy Hanukkah you probably wouldn't appreciate it since I'm guessing you're Christian. People don't want you assuming they're something they're not which is fair IMO. Being American doesn't make you Christian nor are we a Christian country so jumping straight to assuming someone is Christian or celebrates Christmas does seem weird to me.
The individual states already can't decide what is or isn't appropriate to wear. When my wife and I first moved down to Alabama she got scolded while we were in public for having exposed shoulders. That's such an arbitrary thing to try and control about someone else and yet it's a thing that happens here.
Further, just because say someone who is Muslim were to move here (since that's an example you gave), doesn't mean they're going to start petitioning for bikinis to be banned or for women to have to remain covered. We already have laws in place that are supposed to protect us from religious oppression.
Here's another thought for you, if you were to decide to travel to somewhere in the Middle East where it was common for women to cover themselves, would you (if you're a woman or anyone in your family if not) cover themselves since that's what is the norm that area? I'm guessing not. Why is it OK for some people to violate cultural norms and others to not?
This is a huge thing right now and has been for at least a decade. People are very much up in arms about women being told they need to cover themselves in the Middle East. People in the US are actively telling them they are wrong to have such a practice. Let's not get into if that's right or not since that is definitely a different debate.
I'll leave you with two last thoughts. First is the idea that the US is a Melting Pot. We take in people of different backgrounds and incorporate them into the mix. The idea being that the sum is greater than the individual parts. A mini culture is exactly the opposite of this. If anything it would be more culturally accurate to accept immigrants.
Secondly, we go through this exact issue every few decades and things don't suddenly become an awful mess. I would be willing to bet that many of the valuable traditions that you mentioned are actually from immigrants bringing in drastically different traditions in. For example, Germans, Irish, and Italians all came to the US in droves and were hated. Same thing with Catholics. They had different beliefs and cultural norms and people didn't want that to be part of what the US is. Now I don't think you could imagine not having things like Christmas trees or even celebrating Christmas at all. Remember that Americans hated Christmas for a long time and celebrating it wasn't allowed.
Change doesn't have to be bad.
MelMes85 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By preserving your culture you would be missing out on everyone else’s. Being a white Christian of Mennonite background, about every other culture is richer and more interesting than mine. I would also be much less open minded without all my friends that are different than me. I also find that the people who get offended the easiest are right wing Christian types. Go on Britain First on Facebook and see for yourself
MortifiedPuppy · 3 points · Posted at 19:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever pirated music? Watched an illicit sports stream? Consumed cannabis when it wasn't legal? Then you broke the law, and you're a criminal.
This binary of whether someone is a criminal or not shouldn't be the justification for uprooting someone's life and kicking them out of the country they call home.
PepeHands217 · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I listen to Youtube and I pay for cable TV so no. I don't take drugs
don't shift the blame on others, they choose to do this and they have to take the responsibility to their action
jojoblogs · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only illegal if it's a crime. You're confusing what's right with what's legal
micktravis · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Based on your English You’re obviously not american. Where do you live that illegal immigration is such a big problem?
Cheese_on_toast69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You talk as though you've never broken a law before.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no they committed a misdemeanor like jaywalking. The horror. When people walk across the border illegally for asylum that's all it is, a misdemeanor.
Most people who are here illegally are here on expired visas so something like a stupid wall is beyond worthless.
Ironically you've probably benefited from the work of undocumented laborers and don't even know it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you ever jaywalked? If you are, you're a criminal.
Parked somewhere for too long? You're a criminal.
Weird how you don't give a shit about those (unless you shout CRIMINAL!!" to basically everyone you meet), but you lose your absolute shit if a person stays in the US 1 day longer than he is allowed.
You do realize they enter legally and just overstay their visa, right?
You act like illegal immigrants existing causes reality itself to fall apart at its seems. I wonder why you're so riled up about them...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CRIMINAL ALIENS
LMK44106123 · -5 points · Posted at 19:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Illegal, not undocumented
spinner198 · -4 points · Posted at 21:18:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost nobody in America lives in actual severe poverty though, even if they didn’t receive welfare. Such lenient social welfare programs enable people who don’t want to work, and discourages them from getting a job because they’d lose the free money. Welfare should be temporary to allow a person time to find a job, through government aid in finding a job. I reckon that all those unemployed people who ‘can’t find a job’ would find one real quick if they found out their welfare would be cut off shortly.
Most people could find jobs really easily if they really wanted to. Problem is that most people don’t want to work the ‘sucky’ jobs and so they just remain on welfare unless they can get a good job with good benefits that isn’t too hard.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 01:47:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is such a gross misunderstanding of our social programs that goes against easily accessible data. The vast majority of people on these programs need them, a lot of people struggling don't even qualify for these programs. If you want to raise people out of poverty data shows that these programs should be greatly expanded, not further diminished.
But then you said people "get welfare" and that makes me think you're probably under the mistaken belief that people are getting just a fuckton of free money. You should probably do some research before just parroting the myth of the welfare queen.
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 02:41:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well yes, I know a lot of struggling people that don't qualify for welfare because they make too much money at their jobs. What are the necessary qualifiers for 'needing' the welfare though? Do you have a definition?
iberian_prince · 2 points · Posted at 01:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You had me up untill you put all immigrants under the umbrella of "criminals". That's very black and white and ignorant and that's why you got down voted.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The problem is that instead of blaming corporations for not paying any money in taxes we get distracted by people who are undocumented to the point that we have dehumanized them. How are we supposed to get rid of corruption if we are constantly blaming people for crossing the border (a non-violent crime) when there are corporations not paying money in taxes, we're constantly going to war and are making those countries unstable through our foreign policy?
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PepeHands217 · 17 points · Posted at 19:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's simple, there are rules and laws for a country and it has the right to apply them. I do not give a single flying fuck how tough their lives are, there are millions to billions who are struggling in the world, so they should all move to America because 'they need to live safely and healthy'?
Tbh if someone really feel for them they can always provide their own home and use their own money to feed them, I don't really mind if they do so, but don't use the public funding to do so.
Athelis · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you hold this same standard of lawfulness to Trump and his family?
thealmightybrush · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm cool with them all moving here. And i don't even need to give them a home! There's plenty of empty homes that are move-in ready for them. Them being here doesn't affect me whatsoever.
No_Name_Ideas · 6 points · Posted at 20:25:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's funny is the illegal immigrants don't give a single flying fuck about you
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither do the Republicans, but we let them stay.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 20:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You sure about that? The two most prominent ones are a turtle and a baboon with some kind of skin condition.
Plant-Z · 0 points · Posted at 21:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dehumanizing antagonists and comparing them to animals, not particularly tolerant there. Is that rhetoric acceptable by the left?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep
Planthetrust · -1 points · Posted at 00:17:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Had to be said. Kick them all out. They are just draining our resources
ReportIllegalsToICE · -1 points · Posted at 21:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't either.
maccaphil · 0 points · Posted at 17:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people could vote for Donald T for president regardless of who the opposition. I mean Evangelicals really want a known lying cheat in charge? Pro-lifers are really willing to look past all the immoral BS on the chance that he will follow through on this one agenda item? Will he? So many other examples. I just don't understand.
officeromnicide · 10 points · Posted at 18:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because most people choose who to support for reasons entirely separate to political theory and politics in general, this goes for everyone all over the voter spectrum. Truth is that people nowadays vote on their emotional and societal relationship with the two people who are at the top of the parties rather than what the party stands for because of a two party system which is currently more of a threat to liberal democracy than anything else on this planet
golden_fli · 1 points · Posted at 07:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you think they shouldn't have voted? I mean if you think opposition doesn't matter then you think it was a yes or no vote for him. That's not how it works. Also if you are pro-life then yes he has followed through. Once again OPPOSITION matters as well. They KNEW Clinton wouldn't appoint Pro-life people to the Court. They KNEW there was one vacant seat on the USSC, and there has been 2. An incumbent has a better chance of winning and honestly there is a reasonable chance if Clinton had one Ginsburg would have retired. Not saying she would, just saying it's possible. So in reality Pro-Life expected 2 new Justices if Clinton won(The vacant and possibly Ginsburg). 2 of 9 is pretty important.
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I put those who refuse to try to understand. Willful ignorance is the true mark of stupidity.
Redditman246810 · -1 points · Posted at 05:42:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sad must your existence be that your whole life and all your problems you believe revolve around someone who doesn’t even know who you are.
maccaphil · 0 points · Posted at 13:39:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That response baffles me. Tbh, I don't blame any of my very few problems on the current President. How did that interpretation come out of my comment? The original request was to say what you don't understand. I'm not trying to be grandstanding, political and really dislike that in the US these days we immediately choose sides and sling shit at each other.
As far as the Presidential race of 2016, if the Republican party had put up a good person via the primary process, e.g. McCain or the Mormon former Gov of Mass, I would have happily supported one of them.
As my question said, I just don't understand how others were able/willing to support Trump, especially when approaching that decision from a strong moral base.
Final part of my response, to Redditman246810, I'm sorry you have a heart filled with such hate but Happy Easter and may this day fill you will glory and love.
Redditman246810 · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aye you got that new animal crossing
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 05:01:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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maccaphil · 1 points · Posted at 13:43:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you, you comment has certainly helped me understand. Definitely couldn't have understood without such a thoughtful and literate reply, lol.
Pantelima · 4 points · Posted at 14:57:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The compulsion to go to church during a quarintine
officeromnicide · 9 points · Posted at 18:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Faith in a power greater than yourself being able to protect you
exoalo · 3 points · Posted at 21:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like a cult
officeromnicide · 2 points · Posted at 01:52:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not if the faith is personal
exoalo · 0 points · Posted at 02:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That just makes it a really good cult
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A cult needs a group to be a cult one lone Christian or Muslim is a cult
MTCal2016 · 3 points · Posted at 18:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the people surrounding Trump manage to keep straight-faced when he goes off on one of his strange rants.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that applies for anybody that goes on a rant.
MonsterTamerBilly · 2 points · Posted at 16:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so squeamish to death penalties, and other inhumane treatment on prisons.
Sure, yes, I understand that the first thing that pops in their mind is how this will be abused to hell and back against minorities and smalltime felons who are actually being silenced by higher-ups with a lot to lose.
But my own point is, on the other hand, "no death penalty" equals "all crimes are punished with a slap on the wrist".
Basically, you get Brazil, where even politicians are brazenly breaking the law. Where the police are dishonorably discharged for doing their job, even when no harm was inflicted. Where nobody is afraid of breaking the law, because the maximum penalty you get is a time-out. With a ceiling over your head, and food, for free.
I'm on the mind that, yes, someone who made a mistake shouldn't have their legs broken as a punishment. But when they're way beyond the point of "mistake" and have done it time, and time, and time again, then yeah, the law should consider amputating their legs altogether. Re-incidence should mean less and less humane measures.
ErohaTamaki · 5 points · Posted at 16:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't support the death penalty as there are so many times that innocent people are declared guilty and killed for no reason.
For example, in the UK the death penalty was abolished after multiple people were found innocent years later and there was a massive public outcry
Here is one of the cases https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Derek_Bentley_case
clatadia · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The death penalty does not prevent crime and the US is the only western country to have the death penalty but they do not have the lowest crime rate of all western counties and are not on top of the corruption perceptions index. So it is not necessary to kill people by law to live in a safe and non corrupt environment. A lot of countries aim at resocialization of criminals and not revenge. The ones that are beyond any help they just lock them away forever. Also in case of miscarriage of justice you killed a person who was not guilty. That's not something that can be made right again.
MonsterTamerBilly · 1 points · Posted at 12:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...Which, again, people, is why I've made a point about the re-incidence corollary. There's reeducation, there's rehabilitation, and there's no saving certain people.
Heck, I even mentioned Brazil because that's where I'm from. Our crime rates are on the Top 5 of the planet, there's criminals on the Interpol's blacklist making either a retreat or conducting an empire from here. And they simply don't care about getting caught because, again, penalties here are a goddamn joke.
"Joke", as in, even life sentences and solitary confinement are considered too inhuman. And no matter the weight of your crime, across all estates, you get at least two days a year where you can leave prison to visit your family, a ruling so stupid that every single person expects them to use the opportunity to escape, and guess what, they do exactly that!
Policemen here carry firearms at all times, but this is such a paper-tiger that they're at risk lose their job even if they fire blanks to the sky. And pacification arms like tasers and pepper sprays are simply not available to them OR to the populace because they're not produced in-nation, and import costs are crippling even for them.
Oh and speaking of the blues, did you know the main urban centers from here are also infamous for having the highest assassination rate on officers? Wasn't that an automatic lethal syringe on the USA and other countries?
This is my whole point on death penalty. In a country like mine where this doesn't exist, nobody is afraid of breaking the law, when there's no reason to be scared of doing so! Monetary fines? Why do you think they're criminals on the first place? Ya think they don't have enough scrilla to pay out their own bail, with their soiled income?
DickNixon726 · 2 points · Posted at 16:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do some Republicans think that Democrats are out to "destroy America"?
elubow · 2 points · Posted at 17:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people who vote Republican. I don't get it. Republicans hate poor people.
wtfRichard1 · 2 points · Posted at 17:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fake butts and boobs are very popular
EthoYeet · 2 points · Posted at 17:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ages of consent of the countries that have 11 -13 as the ages of consent. Like yeah they can engage in sexual activities when they're 11 but if they wanna get kinky and get some fucking vibrators and shit, how're they gonna obtain the necessary sex toys? They aren't old enough to go into a shop and whatever parental figure they live under will certainly flip when they find their credit card charged for a fuckin vibe egg. It's not the people's fault, it's the fuckin' law's fault for giving the country such a young age for engaging in sexual activities.
Wendyokoopa22 · 2 points · Posted at 17:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly the "boyfriend sweater" and women just complaining about wearing a man's shirt and even button up cardigan. Ladies if you like or want something instead of waiting for the designer or creator to make or tailor it to you just buy off the men's rack. Ok we all complain about our normal shorts(I'm referring to what we might wear to run errands with the kids) not having a decent pocket. A pocket sized to hold a phone, some keys and a wallet. We look at men's shorts and sigh. Buy the damn men's basic short. Not all men's shorts have the button or zipper fly cover. Seriously ladies buy the shorts. Now the so called boyfriend sweater. If what you want is a big sweater similar to what Billie elish was wearing just go to a big and tall men's shop and buy the floppy cozy button up sweater. If anyone judges you they're not worth knowing.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does every 60 seconds a minute passes in Africa ?
ron_sheeran · 2 points · Posted at 20:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation.
Phen117 · 2 points · Posted at 18:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. Confusing as all hell.
mexicana_americana · 2 points · Posted at 18:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans continue to vote against their self interests
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we as a people have let trump continue to lead our country, or how the system still somehow protected his dumbass and allowed him to remain in power. It’s truly a mind fuck
NotThatGoodOfAName · 2 points · Posted at 19:06:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure everyone here can agree with me when I say this: Antivaxxers
thedeafbadger · 2 points · Posted at 19:07:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone believes a word of what Donald Trump says.
Auditech · 2 points · Posted at 19:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump diehards
kdd1 · 2 points · Posted at 19:25:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How men seem to prefer fake plastic tits over real ones. How do you rather unnatural hard odd feeling fake boobs that stay in place over soft and squishy real boobs that bounce?!
cridhebriste · 1 points · Posted at 09:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
False beauty is better than ugly truth? Or so I’ve heard said.
Krissermain · 2 points · Posted at 19:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pineapple on pizza
red_foot · 2 points · Posted at 19:49:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people trust Fox News as their only source of information.
ComplexToxin · 2 points · Posted at 19:57:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we ended up with Trump.
ConcusseD_RebellioN · 2 points · Posted at 20:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump, I cannot understand him at all. He’s got the consistency of water.
TheAgenderAlien · 2 points · Posted at 20:42:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump being president.
Jdsnut · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Supporters and today's GOP?
Does Trump need to kill a baby or someone on video for people to finally realize he and his ilk are bad news?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Jdsnut · 2 points · Posted at 22:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sure I agree with this but I just dont understand why? What more do you need to change your world viewpoint and realize your fighting for the same thing you hate?
Kashim11 · 0 points · Posted at 21:59:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Funny how you say kill a baby when the other side is the one supporting killing babies.
Jdsnut · 0 points · Posted at 22:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference is that one side is okay with both the mom and child dieing, to ban abortion completely even for medical emergencies.
Kashim11 · 0 points · Posted at 02:53:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're delusional.
Jdsnut · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have access to the biggest library of Knowledge, and you call me delusional.
This is just this week.
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/11/us/coronavirus-texas-abortion-ban-supreme-court.html
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still buy into the lies of religion.
SuPeRbLaZe123 · 2 points · Posted at 23:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/usernamechecksout
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol. I do my best to live honestly. In conversations if I’m wrong, I’m happy to hear why.
SuPeRbLaZe123 · 2 points · Posted at 23:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said u were wrong. I’m confused about religion too. Everyone is so confident they believe in the real god so how can they be so sure.
pjt130 · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
insurance - i just dont get it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump fans/supporters.
kardiac64 · 2 points · Posted at 02:39:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That anybody of any age, color, religion, race or gender could even consider voting for Donald Trump in November.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:33:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:44:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SeymourPant · 2 points · Posted at 19:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How some feminists support gender identity politics, but people who use different genders as personality labels for themselves are enforcing traditional gender roles, by saying "this quality is manly, so I identify as a man". Isn't their goal to abolish traditional gender roles?
Additionally, Muslim feminists. Your religion/culture is dedicated to oppressing women. How can you wear a hijab and be a feminist?
Edit: a word
bwjam · -2 points · Posted at 23:10:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Islam isn't "dedicated to oppressing women". This is just some shit that islamophobes use to justify oppression (ironic). Though honestly some Muslims (especially Arabs) like to perpetuate that too because taking advantage of people is fun I guess.
Men and women in Islam are spiritually equal. They share the same rights, but men and women are expected to do different things - generally the woman of the house will raise the children, the man will be the breadwinner, etc. Emphasis on generally. So you could say there are gender roles, but absolutely not oppression based on sex. Why would God make one person objectively inferior to the other based on their birth? (Some will bring up genetic defects or illnesses, but those give you a more difficult life, not make you an inferior person.)
Feminism is mostly about social equality, so you could say that "Islamic Feminism" is really just against hyper traditional culture around the Middle East. Western female Muslims are essentially doing the same thing but just for whatever social issues women face there.
SeymourPant · 4 points · Posted at 23:13:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm all for female empowerment in the Middle East. Unfortunately, in many of these Islamic countries, women are made to hide their bodies and aren't allowed to drive or work.
bwjam · 3 points · Posted at 23:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh I get what you mean now. You mean how you could cover yourself personally while also being a feminist? Honestly in many Islamic countries if you don't wear a hijab you can very well be killed. That doesn't stop you from being a feminist - not every activist has to die for their cause. Other people legitimately just prefer the traditional clothing and that's their choice.
europahasicenotmice · -1 points · Posted at 23:20:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you believe that any religion with a conservative dress code oppresses women? Say, a Catholic woman who believes that showing too much skin is shameful?
SeymourPant · 2 points · Posted at 23:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But they don't enforce this. Muslim countries exist. As in, they are ran by dedicated religious bigots. Maybe if the pope was the president, that would be an issue
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are plenty of Muslims who practice their faith in a way that is compatible with democratic ideals and sexual equality. Feminism doesn’t set itself against religions, it sets itself against the kinds of discrimination that are present in extremist, fundamentalist practices.
SeymourPant · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly. I've seen people covering their faces and say they're a feminist. Fucking what? You're oppressing yourself.
europahasicenotmice · 0 points · Posted at 23:36:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you say the same thing to Amish women, or Christian women who don’t show their legs?
SeymourPant · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depending. Amish people aren't my area of expertise, and covering legs is comfortable. Wearing a face mask in 30 degree heat isn't comfortable.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are Muslim women your area of expertise exactly?
SeymourPant · 3 points · Posted at 23:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had consensual intercourse with at least 90 of 'em. I'm pretty badass
You're bad at this. Just because I don't know about Amish people doesn't mean I'm an expert in everything else I spew.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, you’re really spewing it out there.
SeymourPant · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, I try.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That genuinely made me laugh.
But seriously though, lots of religions make specific demands concerning what women can and can’t wear to protect their decency. Why take issue with hijabs specifically? Do you believe that even moderate Muslims in democratic nations shouldn’t practice that way?
SeymourPant · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's just useless oppression. Why bother allowing or encouraging it? Religion should be pretty gender neutral.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
here’s a good article about why many women enjoy the hijab and choose freely to wear it.
“In Islam, the word hijab refers narrowly to a screen that shields you from strangers, and more broadly to rules of modesty in behavior, speech and dress that apply to both men and women.”
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 17:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious people. I don't see the thought process. "Something created this"...okay, I can see where you came to that. "This thing loves me and I know what it thinks, what it wants, what it doesn't want, then there was this talking snake, and a virgin, and a bad place for bad people"...that's where you lose me. How do you mentally make that leap? Can someone that's religious please explain?
Jekaah · 6 points · Posted at 19:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a Christian and I’ll give it my best shot. What is it exactly you struggle to make sense of?
[deleted] · 9 points · Posted at 19:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can even claim to know what happens after we die. I really don't understand how religious people can say "god wants this, god doesn't like that, and he is loving." How do you know? If something is all powerful how could a human claim to know these things? What if there is a god and he is not loving at all and maybe even malevolent? It's just as likely.
Jekaah · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand what you’re saying. Now as a Christian, I can only speak for my religion and beliefs. I will try to make this as short as possible and hope I make sense. I will include passages for reference. I hope you take the time to read this with an open heart and mind.
All our beliefs come from the Bible and what it says. Now to answer your first question, the Bible is clear that there are only two options for where you go when you die: heaven or hell (Matthew 25:26) and there is a description of hell as a lake of fire in Revelation 20:14-15. Now, we decide where we will spend eternity, we have all sinned and fall short of the Glory of God (Romans 3:23). Our sins are washed away by the blood of Jesus (Romans 6:23) and that is how we achieve eternal life with God in heaven.
Now to answer your second question, we know what God wants through various passages in the Bible, an example being that the first and greatest command is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul, secondly love your neighbour as you would yourself (Matthew 22:27-29). Likewise what he doesn’t want, an example being; thou shalt not commit adultery (Exodus 20:14). We also know that God is loving as stated in 1 John: 4.
Your third question. God is all powerful (Psalm 147:5) and the reason we know these things is because he loves us (1 John:4 again). He wants us to love him and worship him, he does not want us to burn for eternity that is why he sent His Son, Jesus to die on the cross for our sins, to save us (John 3:16).
And lastly, there is only one God (1 Timothy 2:5-6) and he is loving. There is no God besides Him. As a Christian I believe and have faith in these words and scriptures.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 20:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of that makes sense in that I can perfectly see where your faith stems from...I just can't wrap MY head around it, and that's fine. Most people around me are religious and we all get along fine. People usually assume I am too and I usually only bring up my lack of faith when asked about it.
Jekaah · 4 points · Posted at 20:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your beliefs are your beliefs mate, I have no problem with it. Just wanted to hopefully shed some light on a few questions you may have. All the best to you.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:49:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for the response! People get defensive when I ask so it helps me to understand people better.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 20:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a Christian don’t listen to what other people say the Bible says, and don’t read a weird version of the Bible, read the king James or NIV, they say what the Bible says. Other people manipulate the words of the Bible and say it says something it doesn’t. Also it’s really up to you if you want to believe Jesus and the god we believe in, I can’t force you to believe that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was raised Baptist so I've read the bible many times. I just never understood how people believe it. But I acknowledge that people of faith don't understand me either.
Olive_fisting_apples · 3 points · Posted at 02:16:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have an honest question, why can't Christians/Jewish/Muslims just all agree that their monotheistic God is the the same? Why does it matter who is the son of God/the messenger of God when each religion teaches the same set of values? Also how do Christians still use the old Testament, but not belive in it? How can it be both right and wrong?
AlfMisterGeneral · 21 points · Posted at 19:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For a lot of people, it makes more sense to have a God than the Big Bang, since both exist from nothing, the idea of God at least has an explanation, that he is a higher being. The reason a lot of people believe in the bible and Christianity , myself included, is that if there is a God, he would have made us for a reason, and as such it makes sense that he puts his message out in the form of the bible. I think I may be generalising people’s beliefs, but that is what it is at least for me.
iceman202001 · 11 points · Posted at 19:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well considering a Catholic came up with the Big Bang theory, its possible to believe in both science and religion like I do.
AlfMisterGeneral · 7 points · Posted at 20:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wasn’t clear, I don’t believe they are conflicting beliefs, unless you are an atheist
[deleted] · 8 points · Posted at 19:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me the universe being eternal works...if a god can be eternal then why not everything? Either way, existence is weird so I hold no ill will towards whatever gets you through the day.
resDescartes · 2 points · Posted at 07:58:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the universe isn't Absolute. It's contingent. It's not like the theistic God. If the universe was infinite, it would also have infinite causal loops, it would violate the law of entropy, it would leave quests about how laws exist as eternal dictations of a universe with very precise laws that allow for said universe to continue / expand. Etc.. there are a good many problems with the idea of an eternal universe. But simply? All of the science points to a very clear beginning. The law of Entropy (yes again). Our expanding universe. Background radiation. Galaxy seeds. And the theory of general relativity itself. They necessitate a beginning. Not to mention that we have no real infinities. We can conceptualize them. But we don't have actualized infinites within the material. So an infinity that has occured? It's not mathematically plausible.
iberian_prince · 3 points · Posted at 01:10:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see your point but you ever wonder, then where did God come from?
AlfMisterGeneral · 2 points · Posted at 01:15:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, I do, and I appreciate that the whole idea seems ridiculous, but to me, it is no more ridiculous than the universe and all of humanity Springing up from nowhere, for which no one has an answer for how it happened, apart from the people so commonly shunned as stupid or gullible or afraid of death.
FatKappaGamer · 0 points · Posted at 01:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You should look into Lawrence Krauss' work on "Something from nothing". It's on YouTube. And I know you have time, we all do now ;)
AlfMisterGeneral · 3 points · Posted at 01:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And you should look at “Gods crime scene” by an ex homicide detective.
resDescartes · 1 points · Posted at 08:11:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
J. Warner Wallace is fantastic and thorough. I like him.
FatKappaGamer · 0 points · Posted at 01:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
AlfMisterGeneral · 3 points · Posted at 01:23:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is a better way of explaining what I was trying to say, as I have verbal diarrhoea
FatKappaGamer · 0 points · Posted at 01:27:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not arguing either side. I was just giving you something to watch because you said "universe springing up from nothing" is ridiculous to you. Krauss could help you understand why it's not that ridiculous after all.
AlfMisterGeneral · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was trying to say that for me, it is equally as ridiculous as the idea of God, which as a Christian, is not very. I struggle with trying to say what I mean, sorry.
FatKappaGamer · 0 points · Posted at 01:33:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem. Just watch what I recommended if you're interested in the subject. I've fallen in to the rabbithole of that several times :D
resDescartes · 0 points · Posted at 08:10:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Krauss misrepresents his own work for sales. He's been criticized many times over the issue by many in his field. And I'd be very careful to recommend his work simply because it's popular. It's his type of pop-science that is, unfortunately, infesting Reddit.
What Krauss discusses is nothing like justifying a 'universe from nothing.' Heck, there's a reason his book, Something from Nothing, is mocked by-and-large.
I mean, not only is a 'perceived vacuum' not equivalent with a non-existent universe... But it's not even a true vacuum. What Hawking famously observes, and what Krauss misportrays is what naturally occurs within the presence of a quantum field, of which the whole universe is composed. Taking the old view of 'matter' to declare a vacuum, then using the modern view of quantum mechanics to create a notion that something comes from nothing... It's absurd.
It's espousing quantum physics to say, "See! There's stuff there! And it's from a vacuum, as long as you ignore what actually passes as matter, or that it isn't a true vacuum when you take the presence of quantum fields into account... But look! IT'S BASICALLY NOTHING."
And even if it wasn't trying to redefine our observation of what truly makes our modern definition of 'matter'...
The reality of the situation is simple: Krauss' mistake is presenting untested speculative theories of how things came into existence out of a pre-existing complex of entities, including variational principles, quantum field theory, specific symmetry groups, a bubbling vacuum, all the components of the standard model of particle physics, and so on. He does not explain in what way these entities could have pre-existed the coming into being of the universe, why they should have existed at all, or why they should have had the form they did. And he gives no experimental or observational process whereby we could test these vivid speculations of the supposed universe-generation mechanism. He merely postulates, "It's possible." Because doesn't that sound neat? Abuse the science enough. Claim, "It's possible." And if you're smart enough, nobody can disprove you. Except Krauss clearly didn't do enough work to cover his tracks... or even finish the dang job.
The fundamental laws of this theory take the form of rules concerning which arrangements of those fields are physically possible and which aren’t, and rules connecting the arrangements of those fields at later times to their arrangements at earlier times.
Not only does his theory ignore the question of where these rules came from, especially prior to the matter they govern, but they also have nothing whatsoever to say on the subject of where those fields themselves came from, or of why the world should have consisted of the particular kinds of fields it does, or of why it should have consisted of fields at all, or of why there should have been a world in the first place. It's hilariously defunct as an argument.
I would recommend you google his misrepresentation of the science. But, unfortunately, the first article that comes up when you google "Lawrence Krauss misrepresentation" is an article about the many allegations of his sexual harassment and resignation. These are shortly followed by videos calling him out on his misrepresentation of key works, including Alexander Vilenkin's theorem, which, as corrected by the man himself, shows the universe had a clear and defined beginning that cannot be pursued beyond its origin. Lawrence Krauss literally omits the portions of Vilenkin's work he doesn't like by using ellipses, then saying, "It was technical." And Vilenkin corrects the error, as do many of his colleagues.
I would not recommend Krauss to anyone. Much less someone who doesn't know better, and who probably isn't capable of recognizing Krauss' abuse of the literature.
FatKappaGamer · 1 points · Posted at 12:07:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not about to read that bud, keep believing in your flying spaghetti monster 👍
resDescartes · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...I'm showing you how Krauss goes against the scientific literature, and that what you're recommending, intentionally or not, is intellectually dishonest. If that causes you to refuse to read something...?
Then it seems you have larger concerns than 'religion' sneaking up on you.
StSpider · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok. You can imagine believing in a higher being. Now imagine that this being can inspire thoughts in us, that he can “speak” to us through this process. Imagine that through this he reveals his truths to us, through the people he has spoken to which in turn write books and teachings down. And that’s how you make the leap.
Take the bible, most religious people don’t believe it’s full of actual fact but mostly symbolic.
Same as the bad place, it can be symbolic. I personally believe in the teachings of the new testament because I think the message of loving one another nonmatter what spread by Jesus Christ is a perfect message of love that has no agenda. It didn’t make sense for anyone to spread it, nobody would personally benefit from it, we ALL benefit from it and that’s why I believe it comes from a higher being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or it could be a sneaky mean god that put the word and thoughts out there to mess with humans...I don't really believe that but I imagine you would have problems believing that too...that's how I feel about religion.
I've gotten a few responses but I still don't get it...probably never will.
27JanRemember · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can PM if you'd like to. I'll mostly a troll on reddit now, after like 8 accounts. If you want to talk in good faith and have honest discussions.
He made us and gave us free will. That didn't work out well according to any of the Old Testament. Nahum 1:2-8 explains our God. He expected better of us, the same as our parents expected better than we did and the way we expect our children to behave us.
Jesus came to take our sin on him so we can have a path to God.
I'm a Christian after reading all the "holy" books and looking at science. It's the only thing that makes sense to me personally. I also take the Bible at face value and don't look for things to make me feel better about my choices.
Also, when you see someone quote a verse, read the passages around it to put it into context. A lot of anti-christians post Leviticus as the reason we don't support gay marriage. Noone follows Leviticus since the New Testament, and if they do they're just assholes
StSpider · 1 points · Posted at 07:48:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I don’t have problem believing it. My religion talks about demons seducing people with evit thoughts and demonic possession.
But I believe that the new testament teachings are genuine because what asshole would tell people to love each other, be generous, practice forgiveness?
Bottom line is: I believe with not a shred of doubt in my heart that if all people acted like Jesus told us to life on earth would be so much better and happier. Mind you: I am not saying that all people should believe in Jesus and I don’t think that all people should convert to christianity to be good people.
You don’t need to be christian to be good, in fact, lots of other religions have messages that put people on a similiar path.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:16:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue is you have entirely the wrong impression of religious people. I’m not sure if you’re being intentionally condescending or just have never met one. Christians don’t sit around a table talking about the garden of Eden. All that bullcrap is just metaphorical fables. You learn it once when you’re a kid because absolutes help a child learn about the world.
The way you need look at religious people is this: Life, the universe, and everything we have come to know are ultimately unanswerable questions, and they always will be. Deism is an irrational explanation and science is a rational explanation.
Some people would agree that the simplification of “there was nothing, which exploded.” is just as silly of a belief structure as “God created everything.” But religion has many cornerstones outside of the explanation of the universe. It has cultural, moral, and altruistic nuances. This is just an important of a part of religion than anything else, and in my opinion, worth believing in. For no other reason than it brings people together. George Washington said it himself, what made America strong was a people bound by an ideology - and I agree.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 04:16:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not being condescending at all.
So what you are saying is that it doesn't matter if it's real and that we should believe it anyway because it brings us together?
Most people I know are religious and they are way closer to my impression so I'm going to have to disagree with your first point. The part I don't understand is believing in something that you have no real reason to. Never made sense to me.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 18:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Harmxn- · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd like to say I'm atheist but I'm not allowed.
I guess religion is just for people to belief in something, otherwise life would be dull.
There has to be a reason why we are here.
I do agree that there would be way less conflicts if there was no such thing as religion, but then mankind would fight over other things like nationality and landmass (Like Israel and the other country)
jojoblogs · -5 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It absolves them of responsibility, makes them feel like they can do something about things they can't, gives them an excuse for unjustifiable behavior. Allows them to feel better than others.
But most of all it feels good to have faith in something. Religious participation gives people a high akin to taking drugs.
Exnaut · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone who used to be Christian. That's pretty much not true at all. It would only relate to a few.
jojoblogs · -4 points · Posted at 21:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn’t say they were conscious of it.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 14:31:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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HavingNoNiceThings · 27 points · Posted at 15:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't say I'm a fan of wrestling, personally, but it operates the same as any procedural TV show. I mean, every TV show operates from a script and wrestling is no different. A script is set up, the matches are determined, they fight, sometimes an arc is created, sometimes it's ended. Onto the next show.
As for not knowing that it's scripted, most people do. It's like Christmas (spoiler alert). They believe Santa's real until they find out he's not. But, after that, they still put presents under the tree because they enjoy it. Wrestling operates in very much the same way.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Exnaut · 6 points · Posted at 21:25:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
....what? The only difference is one is done in front of a shit load of ppl like a stage.
Funkycoldmedici · 4 points · Posted at 00:31:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is a TV show.
golden_fli · 1 points · Posted at 08:51:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you know that "reality" TV is edited that way? Yet people watch THAT. It really is the same as any other TV. A bunch of people following a script. The fact that you can understand how a staged fight is the same as a sitcom or reality show or other stuff on TV says more about you.
PhoneJazz · 13 points · Posted at 15:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a testosterone-fueled performance piece, like a ballet.
ithinkmynameismoose · 27 points · Posted at 18:44:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah! Fuck books, theater, and movies too!!! 100% predetermined outcomes!
Dumb comment. I think wrestling is stupid too but criticizing it for being scripted is idiotic. People love shows.
jimmy_man82 · 12 points · Posted at 16:48:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
any other tv show is scripted, its kinda just like watching a football movie or something
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 18:53:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I suppose you don't watch movies or read books.
zacharysnow · 10 points · Posted at 20:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone knows. It’s a television show. Why do people like Rocky movies? Miracle? The Mighty Ducks? Air Bud?
It’s a sports drama, everyone except small children knows it’s just a TV show.
I work in pro wrestling, and can tell you as a performer there is no bigger adrenaline rush. As a fan, I can tell you some of my favorite memories with my dad are watching wrestling as a kid, and me thinking it was legit and him playing along.
TLDR: pro wrestling is a live action rocky movie, everyone knows it’s scripted, and you should watch it.
PS. The unfortunate truth is that watching pro wrestling, especially WWE as a first time viewer probably sucks. I’d recommend finding a local independent promotion in your town, trust me there is one, and going to a live show. It might suck (if the tickets are less than 10, it probably will) but you’ll have a blast. The energy is infectious. AEW on TNT is a new TV brand so there’s less context to understand but even still tv wrestling often assumes a general knowledge of wrestling, sometimes to their detriment.
golden_fli · 1 points · Posted at 08:55:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miracle? You mean the movie based on teh Miracle on Ice? I mean yeah people know the ending because it was a REAL historical event that it's based on. However it wasn't based on a script like the rest of what you are listing. I mean yeah Rocky was inspired by a real fight to a degree, but it is still more based on a script(although I give Sly credit for the original ending, which is also proof he was basing it on the real fight). Beyond that I totally agree with you, just wasn't sure why Miracle was picked.
zacharysnow · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Miracle was listed because, even though it’s based on a true story, it’s a movie about sports.
The emotions you feel at the end of Miracle ate the exact same emotions you should feel after a great pro wrestling match.
ron_sheeran · 5 points · Posted at 19:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its just a tv show. People like tv.
DiscipleOfDIO · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's live action performance, like theater. The wrestlers, commentators, managers, on air personalities, referees, even the audience: They're all actors working to create a story. The matches are just the action scenes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know are you sure this isn't real?
SparkaJoyo · 1 points · Posted at 13:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
Harmxn- · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
May I explain?
SparkaJoyo · 2 points · Posted at 21:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes please, like I'm a 5yo though.
Harmxn- · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What part do you not understand.
Economics is quite a broad subject
SparkaJoyo · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably a concept like the stock market, and how it works. Also what is meant by a recession and how does it occur?
Harmxn- · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I'll explain as if you were 5 lol (because u ever so kindly asked lol)
A company sells a part of themselves.
People can buy said part.
That part isn't actually a percentage of the profits of that company.
So it's interesting to buy stocks of a company that will succeed in the future because the profits will he higher and then you will get more back.
And yeah recession is just the economy falling back.
In practise it's when the GDP (total of costs of all produced products of a certain country combined) growth is negative for 2 or more than 2 following quarters (6 months or more).
It occurs because of a lot of reasons. One example I can give because we learned about it in my class.
When Trump banned import of Chinese laundry machines to make sure the American people would buy American products the GDP of China decreased a bit.
Now say if the GDP decreased a lot it would form a recession
SparkaJoyo · 2 points · Posted at 22:00:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does a company sell part of itself?
Harmxn- · 2 points · Posted at 22:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So they have money to spend.
Jeff Bezos owns a part of Amazon, he doesn't have that money in his bankaccount.
So everytime he wants to buy something he has to sell his own shares to buyers.
SparkaJoyo · 2 points · Posted at 22:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cool cool. What happens when a country "floats the dollar"? Heard of that?
Harmxn- · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope, idk maybe that's an English economics expression which I wouldn't know because my courses are given in Dutch
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interacting with people.
doritopancakes · 2 points · Posted at 20:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How one can possess knowledge on economics and even have a degree, but still believe marxism is a viable alternative to our current system
norbs00 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people in the USA still think guns are a good idea
Selfeducated · -35 points · Posted at 18:35:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people like Trump.
Stiblex · 39 points · Posted at 20:13:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
orange man bad
_Cheese_master_ · 7 points · Posted at 21:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain why you like him then
robadopolous · 4 points · Posted at 22:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can not like him but also not believe he's the most evil person in the world like Reddit would have you believe. It's possible to think he does some good things and some bad things but is mostly a douche bag who should be hung for war crimes like pretty much every other president. Maybe even think that Clinton could have been an even worse president who could have gotten us into a world war. A person who voted for Trump could quite possibly have several thoughts in their head that have nothing to do with walls or racism.
_Cheese_master_ · 2 points · Posted at 23:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree lol but I'm just genuinely curious. I'm not American and don't follow American politics all too closely, so I don't often hear about anything good he's done. I actually would like to know why people support him.
robadopolous · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Support is a strong word. I lean towards free trade and against tariffs but I reluctantly support his tariffs against China. I believe that they are a bad actor on the world stage and need to be put in check. However I reluctantly voted for him over Hillary because of comments she made in debates that made me believe she would push us into a third world war. She said she would treat Russian hacking as an act of war and she also said she would enforce a no fly zone over Syria. Both of these stances had a very high chance of putting us in a hot war with Russia. Trump on the other hand spent his entire campaign criticizing the never ending wars in the middle east (yes I know he supported them at the beginning) but Clinton had to spend her campaign apologizing for voting for the wars.
Stiblex · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't
ithurts_mama · -7 points · Posted at 21:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Orange fan mad
NecromancerReturns · 0 points · Posted at 01:21:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, really destroyed him there. How is he ever gonna recover from that
spinner198 · 32 points · Posted at 21:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they don’t live in the massive ‘orange man bad’ echo chamber that is Reddit.
StSpider · -2 points · Posted at 03:07:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So when lots of people think like you do it’s democracy, when they think differently it’s an echo chamber. Good thinking!
spinner198 · -2 points · Posted at 05:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What on earth are you even talking about?
echino_derm · -7 points · Posted at 23:34:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I mean either the trump university incident or any of his charity incidents should be evidence enough that he is
whatever49 · 0 points · Posted at 05:32:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quit lying
StSpider · 2 points · Posted at 03:06:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a european I am frankly disgusted that anyone would vote for him. I’m on the conservative side on a lot of issues but for me it’s enough to hear the guy SPEAK to see that he’s unfit to lead. Not only everything he says is vague and hyperbolic, he completely lacks the eloquence that a guy smart enough to lead a country needs to have.
It’s clear that he’s actually fucking STUPID and it seems like his voters are either ok with being lead by a dimwit or themselves too stupid to see it.
A country should be lead by the smartes and most competent people around, not by a literal nimrod.
beer_is_tasty · -20 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Like, I get that they like how he hates liberals and Mexicans just as much as they do, and they don't want the goddamned poors to get healthcare without having to suffer for it. But even still... how could anyone look at that inept pile of douche who can't string together a coherent sentence and say "this guy's fuckin' GREAT and is exactly the kind of guy I want running my entire country?!"
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beer_is_tasty · -23 points · Posted at 20:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So they'd have no problem with legalizing all immigration, because it's the lawbreaking part they don't like, right?
No_Name_Ideas · 23 points · Posted at 20:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A nation is nothing without it's borders. You seriously think completely open borders is economically feasible? Read a book you fucking idiot.
dabestinzeworld · -7 points · Posted at 03:46:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That means illegal immigration isn't the issue that Trump supporters have. It's just immigration.
No_Name_Ideas · 5 points · Posted at 04:00:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've sat here trying to comprehend how you came to this conclusion and I'm drawing a blank.
dabestinzeworld · -2 points · Posted at 04:20:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The premise that was given was that illegal immigration was the issue that Trump supporters have. /u/beer_is_tasty suggested that if all immigration is made legal, then there's no more illegal immigration.
But now the goalpost changed with you arguing about borders. It's obvious that you just flat out don't want any immigration so why sugarcoat it with "illegal immigration"?
No_Name_Ideas · 1 points · Posted at 04:30:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All immigration being legal=open borders. Nice try
muchfatq · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea is not that all illegal immigrants are bad. It's that if they are easily able to hop over the border, many criminals can sneak in as well. Yes the immigration system in America needs to be made more convenient, but that't not an excuse to allow unmonitored immigration.
spinner198 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, that is open borders. A country shouldn’t have open borders. It’s no longer a country then.
The process of immigration should try to make sure that those immigrating in are somewhat aware of the country and how things work here, and would contribute to it rather than just add to the problems.
TheHorseMaskGuy · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's my stance. Record everyone that comes in so that they contribute to society.
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TheHorseMaskGuy · 0 points · Posted at 22:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I hate that too. There is no incentive to work anymore, the government will just pay you to do nothing.
cmdrcaboose2 · 0 points · Posted at 23:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah so you do hate poor people.
deusahominis · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no problem bailing out all the idiotic red states, just wish they would be more appreciative of the states that prop them up.
cmdrcaboose2 · -1 points · Posted at 23:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No self awareness. So privileged it hurts.
deusahominis · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I definitely am privileged to live in one of the best places in earth.
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[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ronald Reagan grandfathered in literally every single hispanic illegal immigrant when he passed the Immigration Reform & Control act. He did so under pressure from - largely - conservative farmers, who wanted more cheap labor.
Make no mistake, Conservatives are collectively the one group most responsible for the current amount of illegal & legal immigrants from Mexico & South America.
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:30:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did Reagan deport illegals > no
Did Reagan increase legal & illegal immigration > yes
Are you fucking retarded to not understand that?
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you (or someone like you) are arguing for a higher minimum wage, why would you also argue for increasing the supply of unskilled labor? You do realize those are completely antithetical to each other right? Same goes for UBI and universal healthcare, as well.
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The entire crux of my post was about minimum wage, what do H1 engineers have anything to do with that? Or the rest of your post for that matter?
YouGotTDS · 2 points · Posted at 22:47:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ll never understand how someone can be so dumb. You talk like you know what you are saying but clearly have no damn clue. The delusion is real. Where did you see that he hates Mexicans? A random Reddit comment? There’s a difference between hating Mexicans and not wanting illegal immigrants into the country.
I’m sure if you lost your job to someone that isn’t even an American citizen or something happened to you involving an illegal immigrant you would change that dumb ass stance real quick.
And all politicians are douches, get over it. As for the healthcare part, everyone should get free health care. So I won’t argue with you over that.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Men that say I am made for them and they love me but treat me like shit the second it is not convenient for them or there is no possibility for sex.
potatoprince99 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come a dog can be naked and everybody loves him but if I did it I’d be a registered sex offender
bettorworse · 2 points · Posted at 19:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come they can they piss outdoors almost anywhere they want, too, with no repercussions?
Also, geese - fuck geese.
potatoprince99 · 3 points · Posted at 19:54:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me and my dad were kayaking once and some geese attacked him for getting too close and he lost his phone. It was pretty funny but those geese were cucks
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They aren’t naked unless someone took their collar off
cami2s · -1 points · Posted at 20:00:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how any one can be a liberal
CapnSpazz · 4 points · Posted at 22:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kind of depends on what you specifically mean when you say liberal. But for me a big part of it is just the idea of live and let live. Like if someone wants to do something, and it's not hurting me, it's not hurting them, and it's not hurting anyone else, then why should I give a fuck?
Down the road from my apartment there's a big model train store and exhibit. Apperantly it's super fucking impressive. Like the whole thing takes over multiple rooms, but they built it in a way where you can walk around and see the whole thing. And despite me being here for 6 years, I've never been. Why? Because I have no interest. I really just don't care. But I also have never protested it. I've never said it should be shut down. If they wanted to advertise it, I would still just go about my day. Why? Because no ones being hurt. People are happy. My life is not affected by them. Even though I see the building going to work 5 days a week, my life continues as it would if they closed down.
I just apply the same logic to basically everything else. Wanna smoke some pot and watch a movie? Go ahead.
As for the most economic side, I've been poor. I was raised poor. I've seen the fact that working hard doesn't guerantee success. In fact, having worked retail and fast food, I would say those people typically are super hard working. I've hard easier jobs that pay twice as much. I've also noticed are system is broken. Like I keep hearing about how the free market will solve the problems, but the free market doesn't generally solve shit. Why? Because there's no real incentive for a business to. I'm fairly capitalistic, but for certain things I feel like just leaving it open is more harmful than good. I would personally rather some of my tax money go to help people than to buy yet another group of jets we don't need. Like the military started loaning things out to police forces because we have to much shit. We don't need to spend billions more than that. We could cut the spending in half and still have the world's biggest military. So I say we cut it even just a little and use our money for us. We put money in, I don't see why we should get chastised for wanting to take money out.
jiffynipples · -4 points · Posted at 00:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree and I'm a trump supporter. Am I liberal now?
Also your last paragraph is basically anti-taxation. Congrats, welcome to becoming a conservative.
CapnSpazz · 6 points · Posted at 00:10:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That first part would be libertarian, and the part about taxation is the exact opposite of what you think I said. Im arguing for things such as free Healthcare. Im arguing for it being paid for through taxes. I support taxes. I just want our taxes to help us. Does the military support us? Yes. But there's a limit to that where we're just throwing money at corporations instead.
jiffynipples · -5 points · Posted at 00:13:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you start paying enough taxes to make a down payment on a house each year, let me know what you think about increasing taxation for this fantastic "free" healthcare you talk about.
CapnSpazz · 6 points · Posted at 00:25:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's a weird level to put it, but I'll still agree. I don't even need it right now. I have a great job with great benefits. I'm renting an apartment, but living fairly comfortably with $8 a month healthcare, dental, and vision. Benefits of working at a hospital. Still think it should be done. I know it's weird for conservatives to think everyone who wants it only wants it for themselves and must be poor while they agree with it, and that those who have money suddenly realize why it's a terrible idea. Yet it seems like the people who work in Healthcare, from what I've seen, tend to support it.
But sure thing bub. It's totes just that I need to make an extra $10k a year, and then my mind will magically shift over.
jiffynipples · -1 points · Posted at 00:51:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Joke's on you! That 10k is actually a cool 6.5k 😎
reddit_sage69 · 1 points · Posted at 07:20:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess it depends on your definition of liberal but how could you be conservative? Isn't the whole idea of "liberal" moving society forward?
No offense, but being conservative seems unintuitive to me. What's that quote, about the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing and expecting different results?
I think being a healthy amount of both is good, but at the end of the day, we have to be at least a little liberal to move is forward.
allyfiorido · -8 points · Posted at 17:18:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people would birth kids into the world when their quality of life is going to be crap or their life will be cut short. Global warming is going to cause untold economic hardships, disease, and destroyed ecosystems. Bringing somebody into a broken, burning world just to force them to deal with all that seems selfish to me.
spinner198 · 8 points · Posted at 21:31:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Has there ever been a time in history where life didn’t suck? Pretty thinly disguised global warming rant post though.
allyfiorido · 7 points · Posted at 21:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats true, life always has kind of sucked, but my point stands. I think if I had a kid, I would want it to have the best shot at a happy life. Whether I lived now or 50 years ago or 500 years ago. Still wouldn't wanna do it. Different troubles, same misery.
spinner198 · 6 points · Posted at 21:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern time has given people the best lives that we’ve ever seen though. Less work and more luxuries for the average person than ever in history.
wordsworths_bitch · 2 points · Posted at 08:27:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta say, my life doesn't suck.
daniel4sight · 5 points · Posted at 19:24:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably hope that it will get better somehow. Our instinct to survive is very powerful.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 21:19:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People in the West amd developed Asia generally aren't having children.
Tell that to Sub-Saharan Africa, northern India, the Middle East (except Iran), and Israel. They love having kids.
allyfiorido · 3 points · Posted at 21:26:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is true, although im sure some of the reason that is has to do with a lack of birth control
spinichdick · 0 points · Posted at 11:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
U had me in the first half not gonna lie.
NorseMonte · 1 points · Posted at 14:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
leap year
HavingNoNiceThings · 1 points · Posted at 15:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It takes 365 1/4 days for the Earth to revolve around the sun. Every four years, we add another day to compensate.
It's completely arbitrary and stupid, but that's the deal.
notafurry678 · 1 points · Posted at 14:54:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever confuses me
_moist_cheese_man · 1 points · Posted at 14:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
gemineye81 · 1 points · Posted at 14:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women spending hours shopping
ICanHasACat · 1 points · Posted at 14:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, though all of this, what haven't house prices started to drop.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just give it a minute they will. There will be a surge in supply with little demand.
epicwinguy101 · 0 points · Posted at 16:31:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not a housing bubble like the last crisis. People still need to stay somewhere, and if anything be this highlights the advantages of having a house versus apartment.
ICanHasACat · 0 points · Posted at 17:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wouldn't not having a job make it hard to pay a mortgage? Wouldn't a lot of people defaulting because of no savings cause an influx of houses not the market? Wouldn't a lack of buyers cause a buyers market? Supply and demand and all that.
epicwinguy101 · 0 points · Posted at 17:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many lenders are being pretty forgiving at the moment. Foreclosures can be slow and wouldn't have even started yet even without such measures though. Not many buyers, but not many sellers either.
ICanHasACat · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because nobody is buying.
ashtar123 · 1 points · Posted at 15:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Soms jokes
NoonThe2rd · 1 points · Posted at 15:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Count-Zero-Records · 1 points · Posted at 15:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
pingu-penguin · 1 points · Posted at 15:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
Jatk-21 · 1 points · Posted at 15:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dumb I am in comparison to genuinely intelligent people.
When I think about How the fuck people managed to invent the technologies we average people use and rely on everyday. Things like phones, computers and the satellites they use to communicate with. I used to think I was somewhat intelligent but when I really think about it,I don’t know shit. I just use things smart people made and remember things smart people said.
“If I left you in the woods with a hatchet, how long before you could send me an email?”
Joe rogan
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The things we use in the modern world are a result of centuries of development by thousands of people.
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smarter than us, mortals.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily, just more learned
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure I have learned more that Aristotle. Yet somehow it feels like I made no breakthrough in anything.
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In because the issues faced in the modern age require problem solving on a much greater level where tens of thousands of people need to be involved.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of 8 planets in our solar system, Earth is somehow the only inhabited one. It’s as if the other planets were some sort of failed experiments.
gluesniffingpig · 1 points · Posted at 15:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WWE
sjupnol · 1 points · Posted at 15:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
jozefiria · 1 points · Posted at 15:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone invented bread.
Sad_Grove · 1 points · Posted at 15:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes myself My actions, my thoughts. How did I find yourself here ?
hereforacandy · 1 points · Posted at 15:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do people do with their degrees?
whomper13 · 1 points · Posted at 15:22:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reddit works.
el_monstruo · 1 points · Posted at 15:23:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Networking and servers beyond a basic level. I'm in IT but I'd like to learn more about those. I have a co-worker who knows his stuff in the subjects and when he talks about them I really try to pay attention to soak up what I can but it's like trying to learn about US history but starting in 1900 instead of 1492.
Sulphur99 · 1 points · Posted at 15:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people insist on working against their own best interests for the sake of people who want nothing but to take advantage of them? Looking at you, democratic voters. As a non-American, it baffles me, though that's not to say it's a problem exclusive to America.
BB8Lexi · 1 points · Posted at 15:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain
VikiKriszti · 1 points · Posted at 15:31:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hype around Tiger King... Maybe you have to be part of the culture to appreciate it. or just be really into guns and tigers? idk
blackcurrantcat · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The subject matter of Tiger King is almost irrelevant- I mean it's not, but really it's the amount of pure fuckery that's going on with, in and around all the people involved, and the fact that almost all of them are just batshit. I think we have a natural fascination, some less than others, with outlandish characters and bizarro situations and events and they just keep coming in this.
mrs_herpington · 1 points · Posted at 15:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how I can offer to plan an Easter dinner menu for the house, and no one really seems to have an opinion. I LOVE to cook, and I do a good job, but I sort of like some input so I can make things people want to eat.
Alunmonty · 1 points · Posted at 15:39:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How most of the electronic devices I use on a daily basis actually function. Edit: such as the one I just used to write this on.
SaturnaliaSacrifice · 1 points · Posted at 15:40:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Like, how do you get them? What represents them? Hou can't say you have 50 bitcoins without there being a way to verify it. How does that all work?
shaggyandbooby · 1 points · Posted at 15:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don’t understand how the sun and moon work. How the light reflects to make the moon work and all that good stuff. I don’t get it.
Zalanor1 · 1 points · Posted at 15:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people have the inability to cook. It's just following a set of instructions, it's not that difficult!
Bruh_moment-plus · 1 points · Posted at 15:44:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleep paralysis. Just why. Why me man it’s annoying.
novakaine5 · 1 points · Posted at 15:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gibb's Free Energy
faceeatingleopard · 1 points · Posted at 15:48:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human chromosome 2. Two chromosomes fused into one at some point and the telomeres and centromeres add up but how did that not throw off transcription? Did it have to happen two a male and female both? How'd that whole thing go down? I know it did, just not sure on the nuts and bolts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question. This response
RobHonkergulp · 1 points · Posted at 15:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I started to think about travelling through space and never reaching the end because there isn't one. Then I thought about going up or down forever and I couldn't get to sleep.
TheDarkKnight1035 · 1 points · Posted at 15:54:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket and rugby. I know, I know. It's simple. Sure. I just... No. I don't get it. Maybe I don't wanna get it.
StarNoobFelix · 1 points · Posted at 15:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my grades are so bad 😂
Maconadon · 1 points · Posted at 15:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. It seems simple minded to be measured only by our rotation around our sun.
Catamarum · 1 points · Posted at 16:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe I'll come to see why one day since I've, but this need for so many people to have a significant other?
rainbowfish78 · 1 points · Posted at 16:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to fold the lids of a cardboatd box after its been cut open. I know its one side at a time but I can never get it on the fitst try.
kaleeshDude · 1 points · Posted at 16:07:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The entire female species
junaidnk · 1 points · Posted at 16:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do ad blockers work? I mean there’s no thing as free lunch right, so what’s with them providing us free ad blocking? What’s the catch?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 16:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tons of people do stuff to help people without expecting benefits. If people act the way you think they do then no one would post on things like r/IllegalLifeProTips etc as they would benefit much more if no one else knew about it
junaidnk · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just wanted to know how it works, what’s the business model behind it?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:44:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's easy to make an adblock, it's not like they run any servers so it costs nothing. All they have to do is make some code and upload it online.
I assume that most adblocks are made by people who have too much free time and want to make something useful or by students who are testing the coding they have learnt
junaidnk · 2 points · Posted at 16:47:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotcha, that’s a good thing that students can build it to practice their skills.
Nathaniscool1641 · 1 points · Posted at 16:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people support LBGT but are not part of it. I don't really understand anything that has to do with LBGT or any thing that California supports or does. I'm from the South east part of the US. It is very uncommon to see a local LBGT member here.
ErohaTamaki · 6 points · Posted at 16:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People also questioned why white people went to black rights marches back when segregation was a thing.
You don't have to be black to want race equality, it is the exact same with LGBT (you don't have to be LGBT to want LGBT people to have equal rights)
Nathaniscool1641 · 0 points · Posted at 18:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh okay thanks, I am having a hard time understanding LBGT because where I live people don't support anything like that and I really don't have an opinion about it. I don't agree with LBGT but that does not mean I am ageist it.
evansawred · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's really something you can agree or disagree with. Like, people are gay. Is that what you disagree with? The idea that they exist?
Also, I'm sure you see them all the time. They're likely just not out.
Nathaniscool1641 · -2 points · Posted at 19:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't see them where I live, but I hear about them on the internet. I just don't understand why somebody would want to be gay or change there gender.
evansawred · 4 points · Posted at 19:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I don't necessarily subscribe to the "born that way" argument, it's most likely not a choice. Did you choose to be straight?
FridgesArePeopleToo · 1 points · Posted at 16:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum anything
smallverysmall · 1 points · Posted at 16:09:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einsteins theory of relativity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Tom Cruise can seemingly be a nice dude by all accounts and then be involved in all of this kidnapping and brainwashing Scientology bullshit.
nicolas_cccc · 1 points · Posted at 16:11:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the money works, like why they just doesn't print more banknotes
I know it's something about gold but anyways.
blackcurrantcat · 2 points · Posted at 18:26:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I replied to someone else with this but I still have it to ctrl v again!!!
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=documenary+about+how+money+works+animated&docid=608016331951115886&mid=435AC464F561788F1ED9435AC464F561788F1ED9&view=detail&FORM=VIRE
RisingPhoenix5271 · 1 points · Posted at 16:12:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
double standards
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe in astrology
Joey-1258 · 1 points · Posted at 16:15:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Disney can ruin great series
Transcendental_Nolan · 1 points · Posted at 16:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have it worse than me/we do around the world. Like yeah we know it’s true, but I don’t think anyone truly understands how much different it is.
karry9001 · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why furry fetishists like Isabelle from Animal Crossing so much.
Like, what makes her more special than any other anamorphic animal?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
gottaquitmybs · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier series, how that can it tell me compression of signals.
Signals systems itself. I get it sometimes, most times not.
Digital signal processing was easier (the maths was, but the concept is whoosh)
Black_Waltz3 · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve.”
TsukKI61 · 1 points · Posted at 16:20:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How strong your Math teacher's immune system is. ;-;
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 20:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My middle school math teacher paid for her immune system with her psychical health. That one time, when my friend was angry, because our school wouldn't pay for his transport to a math contest (the contest was in the capital i think) so he said that to her, and she started to cry, because "if you insult the school, it's like you insult me". She left the class that time. Never got sick tho
DarkEspeon32 · 1 points · Posted at 16:21:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greifers in GTA
Demselflyed · 1 points · Posted at 16:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks and shares
confusedtgthrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 16:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy and the stock market
joeschmo945 · 1 points · Posted at 16:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit Upvote Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who treat someone who treats them well, like shit, just because they can. Like what? they're being nice to you, why would you be mean to them? That makes no sense.
DickMeatBootySack · 1 points · Posted at 16:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we came about. How did animals just appear out of nowhere?
Blue_Dog_Democracy · 1 points · Posted at 16:31:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who take you for granted and sniff that you're "not needed" but then blame you when they lose....all while making you out to be the asshole when they've never shown they give a single shit about you.
AlanBradley12 · 1 points · Posted at 16:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://thehill.com/homenews/news/492277-louisiana-church-expecting-2000-at-easter-service-despite-coronavirus-satan-and
THIS^
pm_pic_of_spiderman · 1 points · Posted at 16:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can do trigonometry. But I have no idea why it works. Why can you find the length of a triangle side with sine, cosine or tangent? And the angles with the inverses?
tr0ub4d0r · 1 points · Posted at 16:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indoor plumbing. There’s really enough pressure for the entire town?
Gizmoboy674 · 1 points · Posted at 16:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand the question?
d3jake · 1 points · Posted at 16:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worship and "reality shows". I don't care what stupidly rich people are doing, or whatever BS scenario producers have dumped the most drama-filled folks into.
omegadirectory · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is blockchain technology and how does it work for things other than Bitcoin?
P2eter · 1 points · Posted at 16:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
eo_tempore · 1 points · Posted at 16:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einstein's theory of special relativity.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the phrase "common sense" is called such, when in reality, it's not that common.
noremma_shipper · 1 points · Posted at 16:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m alive
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Small talk
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got anything better to do ?
TheJaundicedEye · 1 points · Posted at 16:46:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Portugese.
GGingerton3 · 1 points · Posted at 16:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe things without backing their info up.
stakeblvd · 1 points · Posted at 16:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Golf.
R4INB1RD · 1 points · Posted at 16:47:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why is there no history before america was settled in by white men?? there were people here before. i want to know more about that. i want everything before the white men came in. maybe it’s a stupid thing to think about and maybe there just wasn’t any history but we are never taught that in school.
evansawred · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is tons of history. But it's oral history, it generally wasn't recorded/written.
dystopianpirate · 1 points · Posted at 16:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand revenge and retaliation but I just don't get this: People wanting to harm others out of plain jealousy and envy, wanting to destroy someone that helps you, or because the person is beautiful or smart, without the person ever doing anything to you, it makes no sense. Doing harm because it makes you happy, how could someone's happiness is based upon someone's else suffering? That's is beyond me. Another thing I don't get empathy for sexual predators and abusers, especially when it's family, how could a family that knows someone is abusing the kids in the family support the ongoing abuse? Or refuse to helps their daughters or sometimes sons when they're with a violent SO and always take the side of the violent SO, and when they're killed or end up in a coma they cry about it? Like why the f*&$ are you crying? You saw the abuse and told the police all was a lie, or pressure or threatened your flesh and blood with harm so they'll deny the abuse and say all it's a lie. That's beyond me.
ice-0 · 1 points · Posted at 16:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
who shot johnny
i-instigate · 1 points · Posted at 16:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who flick the top of pop cans to reduce the carbonation after dropping it. You dont do it to pop bottles, why do it to a can?
IDK-Fishsticks · 1 points · Posted at 16:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson's ability works in part 5
Like how do u actually skip time?
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I'm possibly goint to r/woooosh myself, but oh well. I think it's quite simple. Let's say we have a sitution.
Men walks down the road, sees his friend, walks to the other side of the road to meet him.
Now the same situation, but with King Crimson.
Men walks down the road (KING CRIMSON USES HIS ABILITY) during it men sees his friend, walks to the other side of the road to meet him (KING CRIMSON ABILITY ENDS) and men is confused as to why is he somewhere else. Nobody but Diavolo can now remember anything from that time. Anime wasn't specific about some things, so I always considered it more like a psychological effect, where people in some distance to him can't remember anything. Then again, Araki forgets about a lot of things.
GrizzzlySloth · 1 points · Posted at 16:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people make nasty noises when they chew their food and can’t just close their mouth.
SacredPotato420 · 1 points · Posted at 16:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
omninascent · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase, “he wants his cake and eat it too”. I understand what people are trying to communicate in terms of describing a persons greed or unfair expectations... however if I get a cake, goddamnit, I also want to eat it... such a stupid phrase. Can someone explain this shit!?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 16:56:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It means someone who wants to eat their cake and also keep it to eat later
The saying is talking about people who want something that is impossible
omninascent · 2 points · Posted at 17:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you. Why don’t people say, “he wants to eat his cake and save it for later.”?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:14:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am not sure, sayings get passed around in weird ways (it could have originally been like that but changed over time, its like how when you play Chinese whispers the message gets changed completely)
HarrisonRyeGraham · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly.
lilacpeaches · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who repress their emotions. I honestly don’t get how you can lock your emotions down for so long.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 16:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can be easier to ignore something than to deal with it, its like procrastinating
666JFC666 · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Just people in general
Alive-Trouble-69 · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life brah
Sharperc13 · 1 points · Posted at 16:52:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
printerati · 1 points · Posted at 16:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Enjoyment of professional wrestling, especially if you are over the age of 10.
LivingmahDMlife · 1 points · Posted at 16:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For context, I am British.
Apparently, some countries don't queue for things. How the fuck does that work? Genuine question here. I do not get this
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What things ?
LivingmahDMlife · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like lines for checkouts, train tickets, coffee stands ... Have I been given wrong information?
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it certainly isn't the case in Poland.
LivingmahDMlife · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe I have been lied to then, nevermind. Thanks for responding!
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But since it's still Europe we still don't know about more civilized lands. For example, in Africa they don't stand in queue's for food, because there's none.
LivingmahDMlife · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Africa would join the chat but lack of internet connection means they can't
ShrimpMee · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
basschopps · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Circuits. I'm in my junior year of undergrad biomedical engineering, I've learned about circuits in 4+ classes now. Still for the life of me don't understand a damn thing about electricity.
rockstor · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did u/Highwave-Vortex put these two things in one comment.
TeamAnonymous8888 · 1 points · Posted at 16:57:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics!
rockstor · 1 points · Posted at 16:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus (fu Isaac Newton and Gottfried Leibniz)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can listen to music that's obviously autotuned and think it's actual talent.
Egodram · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nit-picking or obsession with other people's bodies, everything from tattoos to abortions.
Why the fuck should it matter to you? How does your niece's septum piercing impact your life in any way, other than triggering your own insecurity? How is your classmate or coworker using birth-control or having an abortion any of your fucking business? "I won't date someone with tattoos," well fine, they probably don't wanna date a judgmental asshole like you, either. As long as no one is trying to force YOU do any of these things to your own body, you can mind your own business.
morganalefaye125 · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that have that fake way of speaking that makes them sound like trashy valley girls from the 80's. "Lahk ah mah gahd". They think it makes them sound super cool, but my skin crawls everytime I hear it. I just can't understand it at all
bebravebehumble · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How easy it is to make money when you have money
PrimaryConference6 · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printers work. you can explain it ive had it explained i just dont get it bro it goes so fast
imabarbarian · 1 points · Posted at 16:58:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nuclear fusion and relativity (energy, length contraction, time dilation, the works)
Etrnl_T · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans of the opposite gender and antivaxxers logic
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did anyone get their surname
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 17:05:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They were originally stuff like occupations, places they were from, family members names (like they would take their father's name as their surname) and also some surnames were physical descriptions of the person.
Melopolouss · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my love for her wasnt equal to her love for me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:00:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People doing social distancing meetings in person. I see people doing charade movements while screaming at each other so the other person can hear. Isn't it just safer to video and call each other?
bikesandergs · 1 points · Posted at 17:01:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hold your hand out, open, in front of you. Touch your pinky and thumb together. Now repeat the process with every other finger and your thumb.
Can you explain how that happens?
rockstor · 1 points · Posted at 17:01:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people have such different experiences. for people in my small town, even though we all go to the same school and basically do the same things every week day, everyone has such different lives and life experiences. I know a girl who literally goes to NYC every other day, another whose family is SO rich that every few weeks she flies to Japan to ~ reconnect with her culture ~ meanwhile I am here and basically sit on my couch and watch tv/ do hw all day!
Igneouslava · 1 points · Posted at 17:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I still get sick with an autoimmune disease. Like, you're so bored you actively kill my thyroid, but then a cold comes around and you sleep on that shit? Okay
Sporklad · 1 points · Posted at 17:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How warlocks pact of the chain works. Does the imp just float around doing jack-shit unless the PC sacrifices an action?
MattSR30 · 1 points · Posted at 17:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phantom limb pain.
Keep your voodoo ass science magic away from me and my kids!
rootbeerislifeman · 1 points · Posted at 17:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am pretty tech savvy but the backside of computers still escapes me. I learned some things about programming in Linux recently and it only left me with more confusion. Programming languages were already intimidating for me, yet they are made specifically to be used to create and build and they are not always user friendly. How do those languages work in the first place? How does binary create the whole experience that we now take for granted in all tech? Who designs the programming languages and how do those codes take the form they have? I don't get how 0's and 1's make it all happen. Freaks me out a little bit.
Emaleth073 · 1 points · Posted at 17:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so willfully ignorant and deliberately stupid.
ToranoRadulf · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to socialize. I have unconfirmed social issues in the first place, and due to a hostile elementary environment and homeschooling during middle school years, I missed out on developing many in-person social skills.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:03:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was there before the universe and what will be there after.
alex54321538 · 1 points · Posted at 17:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ethereum network, I tried..
reddit01lpr · 1 points · Posted at 17:04:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way tomatoes taste to people who like them. They taste so unbelievably horrible to me that they can leave a bad taste in my mouth for hours. I’ll never understand how people enjoy them or what it tastes like to them.
YokaiShadow03 · 1 points · Posted at 17:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay this is gonna odd but I will never understand why women go into the bathroom together. Like I work at a gas station, the bathroom is inside, single stall bathroom and there are still women who go in the like 3-4 at a time. I can’t imagine why
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They feel safer going in a group
K-dawg098 · 1 points · Posted at 17:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The flat earth mentality
FR_Hendricks · 1 points · Posted at 17:07:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kreb's cycle
RichRichieRichardV · 1 points · Posted at 17:07:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Duck lips.
TryingToKnowPhysics · 1 points · Posted at 17:07:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
TestTubetheUnicorn · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wave-particle duality confuses the fuck out of me, despite how interested I am in it. Granted, I have no formal education on the subject of quantum physics, but from what I've seen, it confuses all the physicists too. It gets so godamn weird so quickly.
Stixsr · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people drive so fast on non-highway roads. Where are you going that requires you to go 25 over the limit? You're literally only making the road more dangerous for everyone.
redegarr · 1 points · Posted at 17:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many men flush the urinal before they start peeing but not when they are done.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that is so you do hear them 🤷🏻♀️
ProffessorBubbles · 1 points · Posted at 17:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed.
Lockshala · 1 points · Posted at 17:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to wolf whistle
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle school girls
coupde_goodall · 1 points · Posted at 17:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blowjob, I hate it
Sarge_Jneem · 1 points · Posted at 17:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Short selling.
mini-maggit · 1 points · Posted at 17:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stoichiometry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:12:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to play poker
MYHAUNTEDPOCKET · 1 points · Posted at 17:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in English 'tion' is pronounced 'shun'. How?
Rough_Currency · 1 points · Posted at 17:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls wear ridiculously long fake eyelashes
plague-doctor-artist · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bdsm
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
nathaniel29903 · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
The_Demonic_Duck · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
thisusernameth · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy Discord Nitro
Grose040791 · 1 points · Posted at 17:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
USB drives. HOW DO THEY STORE THINGS
ShavedFire · 1 points · Posted at 17:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options trading. How am I able to sell a stock to someone for more than it's worth? Who's buying it?
BetterThanHorus · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music. I like it and all, listen to it every day, been to tons of concerts, but it’s really like a foreign language to me
DimitriJukanti · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
papi_stuey · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe came to be. I mean obviously nobody exactly knows, there's theories and scientific proof but, how did those things come to be. What made the atoms or what ever was there to make the big bang, and what made that. It's like an endless loophole in my mind that I get caught up in and confused
nilsn91 · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lan over electricity network. That shit is black magic.
pazbke · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
THE WITCHER VIDEOGAME HISTORY, DA FAK I watched vídeos about history, played video game and read some parts of book... damn it
Kill3rT0fu · 1 points · Posted at 17:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
PepperMorales · 1 points · Posted at 17:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
aragorn-son-of · 1 points · Posted at 17:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Dating someone you don’t love at least a little. Like I genuinely cannot fathom how you could bear spending so much time, kiss, have sex with a person you don’t have feelings for. (ngl relashionships have been hard for me partly because of that).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:20:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
humans
DeadLetterOfficer · 1 points · Posted at 17:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Angry/confrontational/argumentative people. I feel so drained when I'm ever in the middle of any drama and some people seem to seek it out.
rosebud0707 · 1 points · Posted at 17:21:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Littering. Why can’t you just hold onto something until you get to a trash can or some type of receptacle? This includes cigarette buds. The epitome of laziness.
mcsteam98 · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating.
theyouarehere · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people send unsolicited d**k pics to strangers
friccdude · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
whenever i am almost asleep, but then i either here my name in a different conversation or i hear someone come near me, all of my senses go crazy and everything feels amplified.
isxail · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
bquick222 · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why im having to use elegant napkins on the toilet because I still cant find toilet paper at the store. Why is this even a thing??
neurotransmission455 · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. Ill never get that shit
kierantheking · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alcohol, you hear non stop negative things about it, it tastes terrible and almost everyone says they didn't like the taste at first and/or drinks cheap beer they dont like because its cheap, it destroys families, it destroys bodies, drunk driving, and a fair amount of the time you barely remember it
FancyFish21 · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work?
TwoSnapsMack · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the criminal underworld, you can lie, cheat, steal, assault, rape, and even murder, but GOD FORBID you talk to the police
tinybrainiac · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. Never got it. I jumped around from school to school, different states, another country, back again... nothing was consistent and you know being forced to learn another language and sitting in classes where I don’t understand anything doesn’t help. So I never learned how to do it 🤷♀️ top of my classes otherwise, honors in college. But no long division. And at this point I don’t need it so who cares but I do kinda feel dumb for not grasping a simple mathematical concept.
lettuceprey11 · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes, airports, flight schedules, air traffic controllers etc work together. How tf can something so complex and dangerous involving millions of people be so organized and safe(ish).???
nihilinomnes · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole Cats movie.
Rough_Currency · 1 points · Posted at 17:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who do dangerous stuff because IT'S MY RIGHT then expect folks to have sympathy when said activity goes haywire and they get all fucked up
thorne0793 · 1 points · Posted at 17:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics
laxxxi · 1 points · Posted at 17:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my crush not liking me back
o7ka4alnik · 1 points · Posted at 17:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
RevolutionaryReply6 · 1 points · Posted at 17:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why female don't tell us what they want without playing some mind games
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:26:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a post can have 348 up votes and 954 comments
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that watch and even donate money too losers on Twitch and\or YouTube. I can't think of anything more sad or pathetic.
But
That's just my opinion, I'm old school.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They enjoy watching it enough to think that the person who provides the entertainment deserves money.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly my point. Arnold Schwarzenegger entertained me in every one of his 80s films , never once have I felt like sending him a fiver because of it. Absolute Muppets game.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 21:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, you paid to watch the films and paying to watch the film supported him.
People who make content on Youtube/Twitch have to spend a lot of time and if they don't get ads then they don't get any money for all the effort they put into it. There are some fans who are willing to pay the content creator the same amount of money they would spend on a movie as they like it just as much.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that point. Fair enough
anosmiasucks · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CAGED system for guitar. I get it in principle but can’t understand how to apply it.
newdanny3636 · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surds
VXRex · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker. It’s been explained to me several times and no matter what, it never makes sense to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
democrats
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Reyemreden · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How duck face became a thing
erykos111 · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on the one hand we have people who can determine origin of our planet from some dust or radiation and on the other hand people who don't believe in vaccinees or global warming. Yet they both can cast equal vote for government or president.
juxtapozejane · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my brain runs a million miles a minute and my s.o.'s does not. What is it like to not have constant anxiety and depression?
jcgam · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sound Siphon audio routing in MacOS
-i_eat_children- · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fact that my dads work is an “essential job” even though he works at a dealership and the work he does mostly can be done at home yet his boss isn’t letting them stay home.
Wonkiermule713 · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. And people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese. I’ve never learnt it. It looks like it wants to kill me. I don’t understand how there can be so many characters, in so much detail. Props to people who have it as a second language.
From, person who speaks Korean and Japanese.
L0CZEK · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what aspect is Japanese harder that Chinese ?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:50:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not.
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 11:05:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:46:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
While Japanese is quite simple to learn, the only difficult thing about it is the different types of it. Katakana, Hiragana, Kanji, etc. A lot of the characters are taken from Chinese anyway, the same with Korean.
Korean has only 24 characters, and once you know them down to a T, you basically are fine. I became somewhat fluent in Korean in little over a year, from memorising common vocabulary. The grammar in both is pretty simple.
L0CZEK · 2 points · Posted at 12:28:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah the alphabets are the scary part for me. We'll see what will win. My determination to watch anime without subs vs my lazy ass.
zyrg13 · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why you posted this
Jay_Cooper23 · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so ignorant.
Crotch_tickler · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Joel Osteen
twentysixants · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:30:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
IAmDreams · 1 points · Posted at 17:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced mathematics, also intermediate mathematics.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least in my city, the older population is acting like nothing is happening right now. I'm "essential" so I've talked to many older people with no mask who think it's being blown out of proportion and I'm here wearing a mask and gloves to do my part. The lack of people trying to help instead of hurt at this time is astounding to me.
Kreevbik · 1 points · Posted at 17:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gearboxes and clutches. I just don't get it
jhols_ · 1 points · Posted at 17:31:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When and/or where the consciousness has its origin. How the hell are we conscious. How.
preslie_13 · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
so many things.... but off the top of my head...
i genuinely do not understand how someones actions can be the direct source of my breakdown & frustration... & how they can day in & day out watch me struggle.... I asked over & over if they had something to do with it.... no... made me feel even more crazy.... a lot of fights & shitty days coulda prolly been avoided.... but i dont get how you can do that to someone you care about... or “love”??
baegelzz · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Open relationships
AMCgremlin71 · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans. The hypocrisy from Fox is astounding. The way they went after Hillary for using private server but don't care that Trump's family uses WhatsApp to conduct official business. They got worked up over Hunter Biden getting a job in a private company in a another country but are they totally fine with Ivanka and Jared kushner working on the Whitehouse. The list goes on and on. I just can't understand how they're ok with all of this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people figured out skateboard tricks, or the right shape to make the skateboard
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Thud2 · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics. I read about it. Achieve no comprehension.
jokemachinegun · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender fluidity and pronouns and I’m too scared to ask
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just use the pronouns they ask you to use, that's all you have to do
jokemachinegun · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know why but that just reeks of privilege
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah its gender dysphoria, using incorrect pronouns makes them feel like shit and can make them suicidal
Psico-Mantis · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ENGLISH LANGUAGE
Hinkuh · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think "being gay is a sin" is a good reason to be homophobic.
suddenthing · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can think of nothing. I have a constant stream of thoughts all day long, but a male friend insists he can clear his mind to nothing. So what exactly is nothing? Is that in itself something?
owengrulez · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the entire world thinks it’s 2020 right now. I mean, how are we that organized time wise?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The entire world doesn't think that though, many countries have different calenders
anigirl02 · 1 points · Posted at 17:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a senior in high school and I’d have to say how my teachers tell me to relax and say that we won’t be missing much despite piling tons of hw on us.
throwupandaway17 · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people blast their music at the gas station.
P0larized777 · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interior and exterior angles. Why oh why are they so confusing.
_Continual_Learner_ · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Users. How some people can think it’s acceptable to use others (whether emotionally, physically/sexually, or financially) to meet their own wants. How they can disregard how that behavior affects the people they do it to.
alphafrick98 · 1 points · Posted at 17:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Fibonacci sequence exists
The_New_Renegade · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
BeigeSportsmen · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Competition
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who rap aren't called rapist will people who play the piano are called pianist
Headkickerchamp · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's activate God Mode for this thread and not mention politics at all.
hottox_ · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people think that they are somehow "better" than others. We're all people you fucks
eriuric · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people desperately want children. Like it's been explained to me as an 'innate desire', a 'biological need', a 'greater purpose', and to have a 'meaningful life', but I still don't understand, and have been called selfish for not wanting my own.
I just interpret it as people hating their lives and feeling so unfulfilled that they need to devote it all to a small human. I also find it really narcissistic that people are so desperate to have kids with their genes, or that they can't love an adopted child like they would their own.
It's such an alien concept to me that people would want a baby. Children are cute and fun but having them around always for 18 years sounds horrific. It's a choice for most, and as long as people are happy and treat their kids right, all is well. Still don't get it though.
chickenfilletto · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the gov can’t print money to solve a specific debt. People have explained it to me and my brain just keeps saying but whyyyy
porosit · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Cobra317 · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
brad123xxx · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to date
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
capitalistrussian · 0 points · Posted at 01:24:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money, so like they can eat
Throwawayuser626 · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who go out of their way to be mean. I work service industry and I get SO many rude asshats who are mean just for the sake of being mean. You can tell they enjoy it. But why?
bushpotatoe · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biochemical Engineering, but then again, I'm just a handyman.
oflasc · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
Jellfishing696969 · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she took the kids
Steampunk_Jim · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Country music. Just... Why?
realifecyborg · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How complex the human body is. We've barely scratched the surface of the mechanisms of life, there are so many billions of things that could go wrong that are fatal, and yet the body functions so smoothly (despite humans injuring themselves or putting poisons like drugs in their bodies).
The most fascinating, in my opinion, is how the body heals itself. First it has to detect a problem before it even starts to fix itself. There are so many defense mechanisms and programming in the body and brain it's astounding. Nothing man-made has come anywhere close to working as smoothly as the human body does at such a complex level.
This is why I became a biomedical engineer!
BrokeAndHoeless · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychopaths
-thicc-diabetic- · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can vote for politicians. Example: How can people go straight from Bernie to Biden and why even support them in the first place. All they are doing it working for themselves. This goes for republicans too but the whole Bernie-Biden thing is beyond me.
technicolour_yawn · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone who don't like animals, especially pets.
zestyzanza · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radicals. It's one of the few aspects of math I've struggled with no matter how it's explained to me. Just won't click in my brain.
Kyomobiya · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people party until they throw up and get wasted ? Even the words get wasted sounds terribly unappealing to me. I don't understand how you had an entire week of work or exams and then when it's finished you get wasted and end up being tired the whole weekend. Partying is an effort in itself so why do we need to add that to a week of effort ? Really i don't understand. It's absolutely not judgmental i just want to understand.
bettyboobearlovescop · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the HELL do they make pockets on women’s cloths so small??? I’m better off getting men’s cloths, I can’t fit shit in these things!
EmoRyloKenn · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics! I’ve taken 2 courses at uni and each time I’ve ended in tears because it just stops making sense after a certain point and I can’t wrap my head around it. I’m not stupid, I graduated magna cum laude, but goddamn I just don’t get it
Harley_Atom · 1 points · Posted at 17:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. I can't wrap my head around it. Everything keeps looking backwards to me. The only reason I'm passing my math class is because everything is online now and I'm paying my brother to help me with tests.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its assigning a value to a letter, just like how each number is just a value assigned to a random drawing
Harley_Atom · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what it is. My problem is that every thing looks backwards to me. It just jumps around in my head. My biggest problem right now is that I keep writing my equations on my homework in the wrong order, sometimes backwards. I also have shit handwriting and I keep forgetting if I wrote down a 3 or an E
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well we have the quarantine rn so you could work on your handwriting (it takes a lot of practice but is worth it, plus you could surprise your teachers and friends with it)
ncovi1285 · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women, have you met any of them?
DDio_DMCZ123V · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Societal views and morals and the overall way people think during situations or problems.
Kids: makes a classmate's life miserable through emotional and physical torment Victim: shoots the kids as revenge Society: "Damb dude, didn't see that coming, maybe if we teach our kids to be nice so they don't die it would fix this problem. But nah"
warspite00 · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The American fetish for firearms.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re fun
warspite00 · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So is heroin.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guns, used recreationally and properly, don’t cause harm to those present
warspite00 · 1 points · Posted at 09:59:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither do nuclear weapons. Still shouldn't give them to civilians.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 17:17:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not even talking about giving them to civilians. I’m literally not even trying to be political I’m talking about recreation, like shooting ranges and such
warspite00 · 1 points · Posted at 17:29:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair enough. You're entitled to your opinion. I disagree entirely and see no reason whatsoever why a civilian should ever handle a lethal weapon. But hey, you do you.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok cool cool
bibububop · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
feed-me-cheesecake · 1 points · Posted at 17:38:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why more and more official social media channels of serious institutions choose to include emojis in their texts. looks extremely unprofessional. still so confusing to me why they would do that
Pocketfulofgeek · 1 points · Posted at 17:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The monty hall problem.
Sure I get that my initial guess was made when there were 3 options, but what I don’t get is why switching my guess in the second half is any better than not switching because surely not switching is also a choice??
M other half is a maths teacher and she hates that I can’t get around this but my brain just won’t let me.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is an one third chance that the one you originally picked is the car. So, there is a two thirds chance that it is not the original door. Once the wrong door is revealed, there is still a two thirds chance that the car door is not your original door, and the only possible car door that’s not the original is the third, unreleased door, giving that door a two thirds chance of having a car in it.
Pocketfulofgeek · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But surely this is a separate choice now, and not choosing to switch is the same as choosing. By removing a door you’re effectively changing the equation from 1/3 to 1/2. Sticking with your original door is still a choice.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 07:13:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The chance of your original door being correct stays the same.
314159265358979326 · 1 points · Posted at 17:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got A or A+ in every single math course in university (I think totalling 7). I don't understand ANYTHING about differential equations. I think they crammed too much in and all I could do was learn how to solve them without gaining any understanding.
pdonoso · 1 points · Posted at 17:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How brainwashed are some americans, how did they firmly bealieve against public hralthcare.
scentedapprentice · 1 points · Posted at 17:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do some people don’t want to communicate when the two of you have a misunderstanding
benmargery · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so thick and don't listen to what they're being told about what to do at the moment, do they not realise it's serious, do they not care, just how can they not realise
lefty1307 · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How magnets actually work on a fundamental level. Makes no sense to me.
justfun2020 · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If IA is really IA.
Liv-Julia · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Acid base balance and Loop of Henle.
Tudpool · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why count Dooku never made any moves against palpatine despite being opposed to him. I mean the guy up and told obi wan about a sith controlling the Senate but then just goes along with palps plans till the day he dies.
What was the guy thinking?
ashpanda24 · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Living in constant paranoia and skepticism. I understand it in regard to mental illness or in an environment that's fostered it, but in people that aren't mentally ill and have lived safe/relatively normal lives, I can't wrap my head around it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating.
Kabai_tan · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The voices in my head
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How eternity works. I mind cannot process it. I believe in an afterlife and the thought that we will exist for eternity and the world will end freaks.me.out.
CreativePolymath · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's so damn hard to meet someone who thinks of me romantically.
DemolisherBo · 2 points · Posted at 21:21:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Out of the 7+ billion people in the world, not one is dating you. Same bro
CreativePolymath · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:17 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right? 😭😭😭
DemolisherBo · 2 points · Posted at 18:36:52 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got dumped for no reason. She wasnt cool. Said she loved me, dumped me the next day
CreativePolymath · 2 points · Posted at 18:40:38 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof, sorry to hear that man. That sucks 😞 idk, maybe one day I'll get dumped lol
DemolisherBo · 2 points · Posted at 18:45:35 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
We've been talking now idk why. Hey man work at it, maybe you could get dumped too one day
CreativePolymath · 2 points · Posted at 18:52:14 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
lifegoals 🤣
DemolisherBo · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking dumb commercials
PenguinPeepul · 1 points · Posted at 17:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much of an asshole some people can be.
I had this one teacher that was ok personally. Not bad, not good, nothing special or definitive teaching wise, personally. I will have to admit that some...no, all of my classmates...no, all of my batch have collectively decided that he was trans and gay.
Like cmon!! He just said some words weird and has a different demeanor as opposed to other teachers! He may look so but he is in no way incompetent or dumb.
Anyway, the class tormented this teacher day after day after day. They always directly opposed his orders, made it a habit to never do any homework he gives out, spread rumors about him being trans, actively shouted at him to die and burn in hell. I heard that in another class, the students tried to stone him to death with their books, pencils, backpacks, locker keys, etc. I even remember someone biting him in the arm. Of course, he grew stricter; and that only made the students hate him even more. I don’t remember the things that happened after that, i just know it got worse. After the school year and the summer following that, he resigned, citing that it was “too much.”
It was torture seeing this man slowly melt into a hot pile of raging mess over the course of a school year. I have no idea how someone can have the moral capacity to treat someone else in such an inhumane way.
I still have breakdowns whenever I think back to that time. I hope he’s okay.
To the monsters I am referring to,
To the people that hate on their teachers, and;
To the people that hate people because of their sexuality,
FUCK YOU
Skatiemayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 17:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who tf made bread? like who thought to do that? who thought to grind up wheat, add water, add yeast, punch it about, wait for an hour then cook it????
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Over time the process was refined, it was probably accidentally made at first (and the accidental product likely looked nothing like what you think bread looks like)
_Vorcaer_ · 1 points · Posted at 17:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Talking to women and not coming off as creepy.
Flirting seems creepy to me, so don't do it.
I'll probably just kill myself
capitalistrussian · 0 points · Posted at 01:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Confidence
_Vorcaer_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The most over used, unhelpful advice, ever.
thunderfart_99 · 1 points · Posted at 17:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents who don't show their child basic life skills eg cooking, doing their own laundry, or even changing a tyre on a car. Or if the child tries to do it, the parent says "You're doing it wrong" and does the entire task for them anyway.
Then when the child becomes an adult and surprise surprise, they cannot do those tasks, the parent says "Look how useless the younger generations are! They can't even change a goddamn tyre!". Well who brought your kid up? These days I guess you could Google it, but even so, I feel like if you don't show your kids at least a couple of basic life skills, in my opinion you've failed as a parent.
At least 90% of the time if a kid can't adjust to the real world, its the parents' fault for raising them that way. You should have a child that is ready to face the real world when they become an adult, not have a human clone that you brought into this world that will likely depend on you until the day you die.
Himmelsfeder · 1 points · Posted at 17:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human cruelty.
comicalcameindune · 1 points · Posted at 17:43:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships/dating.
I’m in my late 20’s, never been in a relationship, haven’t even been on a real date. I wonder if I’m aromantic or something, because it seems so foreign and intimidating. I would love to be married, but so desperately wish I could skip all the steps in between.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Moon_Roach · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How other people organize active directory and have GPOs linked everywhere with no descriptions
muertu · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory..
SlowDayatWork · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girl can use so much toilet paper. I swear, when it's just me and my male roommate, a roll or tp will last at least a week. If there is a woman in the house, we go through practically a roll a day. How?
GlumSail1 · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can not wrap my head around how we evolved from apes. Did the genes start mutating all of a sudden and them bam early humans ? I also do not understand how people were able to train ravens to deliver messages. I know ravens are very intelligent, but how did they know what kingdom to go to?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We didn't evolve from apes, we share a common ancestor
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Friendly Fighting, I just don't understand why you fight with your mate and get hurt, then complain that he hit you too hard.
xskreeminskullx · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thots
Renorico · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dangling participles
veryfascinating · 1 points · Posted at 17:45:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people go the extra mile to generate and spread fake news
physicalgraffit-i · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m probably not the first one to say it, but the stock market! I’ve been wanting to invest so I tried doing some research, and it just makes no sense to me.
books_cats_coffee · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why antivaxxers seem to find it easier to make up incredibly far-fetched, ridiculous and blatantly incorrect tales about the horrors of vaccination than to just understand how vaccines work. It’s really not that hard a concept to grasp. I don’t consider myself to be very creative so what they’re doing seems a lot more difficult than just learning a couple of facts.
Calculus
Jurassicyeen · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do some people think it's funny to make fun of someone, if they're not hurting anyone why do you care?
Konvick · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft red stone
archaisdurannon · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How judgement becomes impaired when you're emotional more than when you're under the influence of alcohol.
Like yeah I've made some bad decisions when I'm drunk but nothing too crazy, but the shit I've done when someone's upset me or I feel attracted to someone? I'd take drunk any day.
Throwawaydrew54321 · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
ModernVintage15 · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accountancy. I believe that's how you say it in English? idk, the school/college subject where you have to organize finances and calculate active goods and incomes and debts etc etc. It made my two last high school years a nightmare.
In theory it shouldn't be hard to understand, but I just c a n 't. Maybe it's just that I find it so ungodly boring my brain straight out refuses to grasp it.
stephenrd20 · 1 points · Posted at 17:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black Holes
Firest0rmRekT · 1 points · Posted at 17:47:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Victim Blaming. I can never fathom how warped someone can be, to pin the blame on someone who suffered from another person's wrongdoing
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who seem hyper invested with politics but have no interest whatsoever in hearing out their opposition or understanding why others think the way that they do
daystrict · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet and transfer in general. I mean with infrared and bluetooth it was ok but internet? I log into my wlan and take everything from everywhere.. see stuff and idk man fucks my brain
and TVs.. Idk how they work but hey .. they are great
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger's cat. Seriously, he's either dead or alive, I don't get it.
NoodleBeoch_uwu · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The opposite gender
LaPatateEpique · 1 points · Posted at 17:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I regularly have my blood tension dropping yet can never remember exactly the feeling I get when it happens
6Curly6Wurly6 · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are obsessed with gucci & unnecessarily expensive shit. A 10$ watch and a 450$ watch do the same thing. There's also those who have gold belts and show it off wherever they go. What's the point dude? Really makes me cringe.
Ourida06 · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who make mouth sounds
vilgax69 · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
kjmoeller · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effect and affect. I’ve looked it up multiple times; have had people try to explain it to me, then feel like I have a grasp on it for a whole minute before it melts away...again.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effect is a noun and affect is a verb
kjmoeller · 1 points · Posted at 13:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This affects us all... The effects will be felt for years...
Are these correct?
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 17:14:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ye
louderharderfaster · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how there are billionaires in the same world at the same time there are starving children who die from lack of nutrition due to lack of money. I don't understand how we all live with this inequity as if it is some natural system.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The human mind. Reality. Life. Like....why?
itsnotbritneybitch · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic. If we’re all going at least the speed limit on the highway, there shouldn’t be stop-and-go anything! Not matter how people try to scientifically explain it, I keep thinking, “There’s some little old lady doing 40 in a 60”.
Kyru117 · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know why but I can undertsnad hiw to read/write binary and octal no problem but hexadecimal just will not click
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans voted for Trump.
Idiosyncrasy98 · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution.
Even though Darwin must be close but I feel his work isn't complete.
MrHoit · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. If there isnt an after life, is it just blank? What is blank? It cant be black, be cause black is a real colour. When we die, i dont think we'll see black just as much as we'll see blue.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its just nothingness not black. Its like turning off your TV but permanently
MrHoit · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A turned off tv is black tho
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it's a different black to the black that it would show if the TV was showing a black screen
Azurealy · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electromagnetic wave functions. That class fucked me up.
EddieGaff · 1 points · Posted at 17:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cantonese.
Joke_Boat · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics man
affecting_society · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so soulless... this especially rings true to politicians and those rich fucks like jeff bezos... how can you live with yourself taking away from people who have nothing and hoarding so much that you will NEVER need...
JDMTire · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Snapchat. Everyone at my school has it and I don't understand the point.
ashleycandos · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
History
analwh0re · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still having children.
CocoBunny313 · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can casually strike up conversations over text daily, hold it for a while and then end it without it being awkward
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Object Oriented Programming. I've been explained many a time, I work in software, I still don't get it. 80% of code is just declaration of what anything may be. Where the FUCK does anything happen. It's infuriating, it's like reading an old Greek drama and the first 300 pages is just enumeration of what the troops are like and where they stand. Where in the living shit is the action?!
Ayhayb · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we built a world that primarily consists of geometric objects, despite the world being irregular
meredithyourboob · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating. How can you claim to care about someone and then intentionally hurt them? It’s never a mistake, it’s a decision someone makes. You can’t love someone if you cheat on them. Just grow a pair and end the relationship if you wanna be with someone else. And on the other hand, STAYING with a cheater. The trust is gone after that. Don’t be surprised when they do it again.
JesuSwag · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who genuinely don’t have common sense or critical thinking.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck did I get so good at grade 12 level math? In every single math class before this, I barely passed, but all of a sudden come this class, I suddenly understand everything and I’m getting the highest scores in class (granted there’s only 14 people, including me)
theycallmenaptime · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is still POTUS.
--Slave- · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a cinder block is made of atoms but its dead
yet i am made of atoms but alive ?
darkdesireCR · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can wear dress shirts ties and slacks with sneakers. It honestly bothers me a bit lol If you’re going to wear formal attire wear dressing shoes IMO
YinWingChun · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the brain is a creature in its own, like. What controls the brain if the brain controls our body, there needs to be something that is controlling the brain right? For example a soul. But where does that soul then come from? Does it just poof out out of no where??
And there are some other things such as people that you gave advice too, helped them out in bad situations but then they suddendly just ditch you as if you are disposable or just another 'thing' its weird, how can you just do that to someone that helped you or has never done qnything bad to you.
There are also things like, whensomeone is just nice to you and really tries to talk to you and is interested, how can you just say 'ok' or leave that person on read.
annathequeenofmemes · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People forgetting to eat a meal. Sometimes my friends just forget about lunch... I could never do that, I count down to lunch time
cj22spnmcu · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the importance of my existence
MysteryGirlWhite · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care about the lives of anyone richer than themselves.
TomHopeless · 1 points · Posted at 17:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why things have certain words. Like, some things were named by their inventors, so did Edward Mirrors invest mirrors? What about Steven Windows? Rachel Grass? Sandra Stairs?
PennywiseTheLilly · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. I’m fairly okay with learning other languages, but for some reason numbers just make my brain hit a wall. I was genuinely tested for dyscalculia but they just found that I was a dunce lmao. Doesn’t help that my uni degree requires statistical analysis
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global Macroeconomics. It's really mind blowing that fiat currencies aren't real. To the common person our money is very real and very finite. But it's just a perceived value of goods and or debt that's changing hands
monkey_monkey_monkey · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some professionals such as athletes and entertainers earn millions of dollars and others professionals who provide what I would say are more important and contribute more to society such as educators receive earn so little and every one just accepts this.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They provide entertainment and that is seen as more valuable by the people paying
monkey_monkey_monkey · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which is the part I don't understand. How entertainment is more valuable than teaching people to read and write and do math. Without educators, those actors would be able to read their scripts, the writers would be able to write them and the executives would be able to count the money they make.
It's just something I do not understand, the lack of value placed on those who provide education while the value placed on those who provide entertainment is so high.
lifeisgolden414 · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers and flat-earthers. I just cannot fathom that people actively believe such things.
Back_To_The_Pootture · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
niccoop · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how any religious practices developed who decided that they needed blood sacrifices to make crops grow.? Was it one guy and the rest just thought sounds great! That’s what we will do from now on. Let’s sacrifice people to appease the sun?
HorrFrek · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to exist as a functioning adult. I’m 36, it feels like I should have figured this out by now.
manor2003 · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck some people believe the earth is flat, our gorgeous, beautiful planet..flat? Some people are crazy.
chowatson · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity is created.
I understand positive and negative charge; I understand that this makes the electrons move and create a current of electrical energy.
What I do not understand is how movement of the electrons creates that electrical current. What makes that happen?
FancyAdult · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are some people always so angry? Why can’t they push past the anger and see some of the positive. Why do people focus so harshly on the small things?
Jhonny99 · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
CallMePaine · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe in conspiracy theories
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those hard white erasers that leave pencil marks all over your paper.
OverallBat0 · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
wanderer2711 · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who would've thought, ohh we must see what is outside of earth. We must try to explore, live there. The discovery of space and every detail about it. How the hell does someone go on to explore something unimaginable.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ngl I don’t understand shit about politics
that-guy-Ri · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People over the age of 16 who can’t read an analog clock
tea_time_bookclub13 · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...Algerbra.
WoolwichTrainDriver · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the same people that clap for carers every Thursday still hangout with friends in the park just because the sun is out and it's 20 degrees...
please just stay indoors and if you must go out.. observe social distancing.
_WhatIsReddit · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is reddit?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sewing machines are black magic devilry
milescowperthwaite · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic algebra or why schools stress the 'need' to spend years learning it. I have never needed it, even once as an adult and I'm over 50 years old. Is it -really- a measure of intelligence or just a relic of an idea of such a measure? I would have benefited much more from learning about mortgages, car insurance, and emotional intelligence training of some kind.
psych-ology · 1 points · Posted at 17:56:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who own rental properties would “go under” if they didn’t get rent from their renters a month or two. They don’t have SOME savings?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:56:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Patriarchy. Makes no sense.
CopperVolta · 1 points · Posted at 17:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
parkmynuts · 1 points · Posted at 17:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxxers
Phenoxym · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bill O'Brien's thought processes
BufaloTacoWings · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money, some people explained to me but I still don’t get it
Sunnyshine0609 · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the United States Post Office, FedEX, UPS etc..how in the hell they don’t lose everything, and somehow get it to the correct person.
Wisex · 1 points · Posted at 17:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Starting my computer engineering degree.... I still think its just lightning and metal with some magic.. computers are fucking magic man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
wehnaje · 1 points · Posted at 17:58:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People having more than two kids.
lizzietnz · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
the_odd_boy · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
nopenoideas · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a new upvote/downvote is worth less karma after a certain amount of time and then its value constantly decreases until it's worth 0 karma
Also they have a cap to how much karma you can get from one comment/post
YouKnowMeForSure · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who settle too easily. Are they lazy? Weak? Why someone would like to have a mediocre life when you can work hard to achieve the best for you?
Spajster · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone in the US ever voted for and continues tonsupport Trump as POTUS.
Scandal after scandal, proof he isnusing the White House to setup his family and his wealthy friends, but poor people support him, even with tens of thousands of American deaths from their negligence.
Our society is broken, and I do not think it can recover.
LadyErynn · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
How do you look at another human being and think "they're not the same color as I am, so they must be beneath me"?
BabyMafuloo · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not advocating racism, but I think it has to do more with the culture that is associated with the skin tone. "They" figure since that person looks that way, they were born into that culture or has peers that color, so will behave a certain way that's unsavory to their own tastes. Luckily, that mentality is in the process of being shattered with so many people intermingling now more than ever, you can't put people in these boxes anymore. So people who used to only have a "box" for spoons and forks are now given sporks and chopsticks, forces them to think for themselves and redefine their boxes or be stubborn and die questioning if everything they knew was right. Yes, racism still exists but I believe we're in a far more progressive place than we were 50-60 years ago and it'll only keep getting better.
iPingWine · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a new upvote/downvote is worth less karma after a certain amount of time and then its value constantly decreases until it's worth 0 karma
Also they have a cap to how much karma you can get from one comment/post
Drake_The_One · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really doubt that I'll ever understand dark matter, it just seems unfathomable to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Innocence crusades. Making a Murderer, Serial, the stepmom that murdered Kyron Hormon.... I don’t get it. I think people want to be a hero.
THE_REEE_KID- · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can drink a drink but can't food a food
:)
bballplayer32 · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics. I got one of the top 5 grades in the class, but no clue wtf was going on.
General-Nonsens3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think they have the authority to tell me how to live my life.
As in, what justification do those people have to tell me I can’t own a gun? What I choose to spend my money on? Who I choose to associate with? What I choose to say? What I choose to put in my body?
I really don’t understand how someone thinks they know more about what’s best for me than me.
ReallyMystified · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parks and Recreation.
DARINGdonkey508 · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
The_Book-JDP · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having sex, wanting children, getting married, drinking alcohol and/or doing drugs of any kind.
I just understand the appeal. Don't understand why anyone would want to do any of those things especially with eager excitement and anticipation. All of it just seems so awful, the build up and work...for very little in return if you do succeed in obtaining it. Just blows my mind that people would sacrifice all that they are to get one of them and be happy to do it and never look back. I just don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think there are more than 2 sexes
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
intersex people exist
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve only done some light research on it, so correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t the parents/doctor assign what sex it is at birth?
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on the country/doctor, but they are only forced into having binary sex assignment surgery at birth because society sees sex as binary.
Quicksilve5 · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an Australian: how Trump actually made Chief.
lilwatan · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people act normal in this shitty rat race life, now i get it some of you enjoy your jobs and make alot of money but for the rest 99% its shitty
doggy_style2 · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't just go put whatever they don't want anymore back in the right place. "Oh, I don't think I need these hot pockets, let me just sit them with the milk duds and m&m's.
AggravatingGoose4 · 1 points · Posted at 18:03:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America. Like seriously, any of it.
Shibacki · 1 points · Posted at 18:03:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I so fucking bad at math? Every year in school I tried so hard to understand it. I was a 3.5-4.0 GPA kid, putting extra effort into my other classes to balance out my God awful math grades. I just could not wrap my head around it.
shelleymst · 1 points · Posted at 18:03:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
zoomsuper · 1 points · Posted at 18:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetish
Like, what is it exactly that people like about them?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a government would know about the dangers of a deadly fast spreading virus within it's borders and take no action against it until it's too late, even going as far as to silence those who speak out about it so that's thousands can die for no good reason, and potentially cause a global recession
eoin_kane · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of things but the general concept of anything electronic is very confusing
Pitiful-Waltz · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
ripped_koala · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so stupid and not able to even fucking listen, nevermore search about the claims they make. And yes I am talking about Antivaxxers. It just blows my mind. It's like they want to hurt them and their kids.
Danish-Republican · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet
jrow21 · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fear of other ethnicities based on how their parents feel or felt growing up. Let me be clear that I mean the type of fear that leads to or has lead to the many atrocities throughout history for people of color.
Along the same lines as others they have posted about taking someone’s life or being a bully or never ever ever doing research 🙄. I don’t understand how some people feel that being a bully to other ethnicities make this world better for them to live in.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who eat garbage day in and day out and never get any kind of exercise. It's fun to do for half a day and then I just feel terrible.
Shriggins_the_dope · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cold fusion
Mocharulzdamap · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people enjoy lil pumps music. Your allowed your own opinion and i will respect that but im so confused as to how his music is seen as good
JacobFishh · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
JayHaze42 · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
EvErYtHiNg. Life is a forever paradox that makes no sense.
Besides that, people who think they’re the shit and better than everyone. Like, really?? Everyone is equal and the cocky guy down the street is just as relevantly important as the homeless guy under the bridge. None of us matter, no one is better than anyone, we’re all smarter monkeys but still ignorantly stupid. So I don’t see how people can think they’re better than everybody with all of that being said.
LeonardTringo · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Seriously. I get that it's the movement of charged particles. But to go from that to plugging something into an outlet and harnessing power... just blows my mind and I don't understand it.
Hiro_Trevelyan · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some social norms. I don't have any examples in my mind right now but some things are rude, some things are polite simply because it is considered rude or polite by some mysterious unspoken social contract.
Like, not shitting ? What the point of having toilets then ? I'm not going to torture my digestive system because you can't afford deodorant, Karen. I'd rather have friends take a shit in my toilets than them leaving early.
palerider2104 · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
...girls
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unmitigated greed. What's the end game? You have more money than you or your descendants could ever hope to spend, yet you want more. Not just more but all of it, it is simply nonsensical to me. Will it come down to two men alone on the planet conspiring to get the others money? You squash others, destroy the ecosystem, cost untold amounts of death and despair... to what end?
Sorry, I'm a little depressed lately.
jgamfvb · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do taxes.
continuumtrfuer79 · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who are these people that click on google ads?
maritimemare · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bitcoin works.
SynergyEnterprise · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
John_Hellfire · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
carlifromvenus · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother....
where_the_f_is_he · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics.
LkButler · 1 points · Posted at 18:06:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This post
MOON2474 · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blowing air out of my mouth makes my mouth bigger
grainbeltflier · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports shouting. I love shows like PTI, and stuff from the Ringer. But First Take, Skip and Shannon, and other really aggressively antagonistic sports shouting turns me way off.
ReadToDie · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does one feel in the last moments of life?
EatAssForTheHallPass · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it’s cliché but math
QueefBoxHero · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the world turned into a bunch of goddamn pussycunts... And I'm serious. Like, we used to go to the moon and fight wars. Now we sit behind our computers and whine about how we wanna get our ducks hacked off and turned into cunts. How? When?
EatAssForTheHallPass · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well alrighty
aloe_im_ree · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Food fights. I was homeschooled so I never had a food fight at a school, but once I had my cousin over and we were making brownies, and she put some of the brownie mix powder in my hair. Then she got mad because I was annoyed at her, and she said I was boring for not playing along. What about wasting food is fun?? Excuse me for not always having access to large amounts of food that I could consume whenever I wanted. My dad was a missionary kid in Africa and even he didn’t always get a lot of food. We were raised to conserve food, not throw it around like infants.
that_guy_Elbs · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we, as a society, give money & fame to dumb ass people on social media
Lilutka · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the Universe is expanding, where is it expanding to?
Riplingsburg · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does E=MC-2 mean in simple terms?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its actually E^2=m^2c^4+p^2c^2
Riplingsburg · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand that matter and energy are basically the same thing. What does the "2", or squared mean in the equation? I know it means to the second power, but how does that relate.
dahopppa · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get angry so easily. Your missing sauce packet really makes you want to scream at another person?
UncleBarney15 · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yellow cars
Hener4472 · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
rubik's cubes. Like how are they made and how do they work but most importantly, how do I solve them.
lol890itrol · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
Cac11027 · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
Merddenssin · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Like, what?
Honestly, I sometimes have trouble paying with cash in a store. I never understood math, and people always said ”when you understand it, it’s fun!!”. No?! When I understand it it’s just more math to be done. Luckily it’s something I tell people and don’t hide but at the same time it’s pretty awkward.
(Not hating on people who likes math. Good for you! Wish I felt the same way).
DutchMufLove · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Short stocks and how there is “profit” in it
MastaKeen98 · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. How it works, the difference between voltage, amperage, and wattage. I’ve had it explained to me so many times and in different ways but it still never makes sense to me.
Zonsen · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who like math
setthepinnacle · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
What's beyond space. Everything is inside another forum so what is beyond that. It seriously starts to make my stomach upset when I think about it.
LBPFR34K · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my code doesn't work.
Greedy-Zucchini · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why white tourists in Asia call themselves “English teachers” and not feel remotely embarrassed.
ProShitposter9000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can't take criticism. Those people obviously want to feel like they're the best, but taking upon some criticism would make you better. Why bury your head in the sand?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the difference between current and voltage EE
Clairxwx · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When the teacher wants to know your personal life out of nowhere like bitch I’m not asking if your son still has aids don’t ask me about my cat
zmalter99 · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Git
bookwyrm11 · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I 100% dont understand how people compose music. I had a friend tell me all she does is think of a note, then what note would sound good following that note. When I do that I get a scale, or a song that already exists. I just don't get it.
croquicroque · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what was there before the universe was there. i mean seriously, it must have started sometime, somewhere, and i really don't understand how it is possible
isuckatusernames666 · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and how it translates into reality somehow?? Witchcraft
TheFreckledSchmeckle · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys just need to watch Porn to get off 😤
IllogicalPoint · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Euler’s method. I have tired so hard the last two weeks, but I can’t wrap my head around it.
Dragonflames1994 · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender identity
Being a man who likes the colour pink and cute things doesn’t make you a woman any more than liking video games and toy cars as a woman makes you a man. It’s just enforcing toxic gender norms when you could be spreading the message of, hey, I’m a man who likes talking about feelings, flowers and dolls, and none of those facts make me any less of a man.
Your personality and interests have nothing to do with your genitals, society is just pressuring you into doubting yourself.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its called gender dysphoria, being called a man makes a trans woman feel like shit. There are plenty of masculine trans women and plenty of trans men who are feminine
LinksMilkBottle · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How exactly computers work. In my head, it's just a bunch of metal and plastic bits put together and suddenly I can watch tv shows, listen to music and type out this comment.
Sorry if I sound incredibly dumb.
ritchiericher · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
stonerturtle99 · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hurt animals.
Like, how can you do that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People thinking they know what's best for you or thinking they know you better than you know yourself.
sixsevenoxxx · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
TheRealZaineyZaine · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people rather wrap the gas hose over their car, instead of just pulling in on the appropriate side to fill their gas up.
thomasgm3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flour.
What the fuck is it?
Like I know its refined grain or something... but like, what the fuck is flour? How does wheat turn into that?
comparingcrocodile · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The actual science behind coding and languages. How does typing some letters and numbers on a screen make something else DO something? Like the physics behind it. It’s fucking magic to me
skjeflo · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infatuation that some people have with "celebrities". I mean why???
Yes, they may be a great actor/singer/dancer/whatever, but that doesn't automatically make them a good person or life role model in any way.
Especially those who are famous and popular just for being related to someone famous (looking at you, the entire Kartrashian/Jenner clan as well as a certain Hilton family member).,
silissilli · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who pick up dog shit with those poo bags, then leave the poo in the bag in a tree/on a rock/on the ground.
kaosterra · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Like, I see it as a RPG with 1 stock and (maybe) without a final boss, just keep leveling up until any miniboss (or other player) takes your 1 stock. You can get a lot of items and increase some stats, but the endgame is unclear.
Also, why did the developer not think of non-PvP maps?
thebigmike115 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes us alive, or I guess how we experience reality. Neurons are firing in our brains, there are chemical reactions going on, but how does any of that make me experience any of the five senses the way I do?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People going waaaaaaay of topic in an argument they are losing and using the of topic thing against you despite it not being in any way connected to the argument
sunshinewolf12 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marriage
daddyGDOG · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would support the democrat party in America. They have outright stolen the nomination from Bernie twice, and for Biden. Creepy Uncle Joe is barely with us these days.
Beerdrunk97 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender identities and where they come from
thebugfatcat · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How no civilization came up with the concept of a null value before India did. What did you guys put instead? What did you have as a value for 0? Baffles my mind.
kbonk7 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand if you can hear silence or not
Watch at 3:20 can you hear silence
MyDogisonFire31 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my reddit won't let me make posts anywhere. I can only comment.
BigGoose420 · 1 points · Posted at 18:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father takes away my phone even though I get good grades
undercover-goat · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What life is like without an eating disorder. I've had an eating disorder since a fairly young age and I genuinely can't remember what life was like without it.
hornwalker · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don’t think Trump is a liar
Madi27 · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory of relativity
63rd_Legion · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who spend giant amount of money on branded clothing\shoes. I am not against branded products, I mean, pretty much everything has a brand label on it. What I don't get is why someone would buy a red hoodie that says supreme for the same amount of money that a full set of clothing costs. Can someone explain?
MylastAccountBroke · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can complain about the president for 4 solid years, and suddenly refuse to try and get him out of office because their guy didn't win the nomination. Seriously! You have been bitching about him for 4 god damn year, non-fucking-stop, and suddenly Biden is just as a bad as Trump.
evansawred · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Legitimate policy differences and legislative history
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love.
potassium182 · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other people
AlJRaba · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, a lot of things to be honest. The more I look and get to know about the human things, the less I understand many of them. Some things about nature are truly hard to understand for me, for example the concept of nothing is what baffles me. I too can't understand very well love, like a relationship with a girlfriend, I can love my family but I don't feel like I am capable of being romantic and I have a hard time trying to understand it.
Edmontim · 1 points · Posted at 18:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women who say they love you, then break up with you a week later saying they don’t love you
WYGD_Brother1987 · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had some ass hole follow me around reddit because of a philosophical position I have and called me a hypocrite for getting help on the assistant thread because I got in on an offer and got help from there a couple of times.
He clearly doesnt understand the difference between asking for help and people giving in voluntarily and a form of government in which there are penalties and possible jail time over not contributing to the collective without choice. He also jumped the gun without knowing all the facts which is I have been paying it forward.
Churosuwatadade · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People liking themselves
WellLatteDa · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I literally cannot understand what's basic to others.
Robot-King56 · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people give money to internet celebrities. Sure they make videos for entertainment but there isn't much of a reason they couldn't make videos as a hobby and work an actual job. Instead they e-beg for the most trivial of things and people pay them money.
LasCarToons · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That I can't find my phone when i'm texting on it
OBM1127 · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra or any math that I can’t do with a calculator
DecisiveVictory · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Current vs potential vs resistance. Volts and Ampers and Ohms.
I have heard all these comparisons with rivers and streams and volume of water, but they don't make things clear.
Send help.
Yoshikage_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of nothing
Nothing doesn't exist=paradox
The concept of Nothing exists=paradox
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have/like /want kids. I'm not trying to be mean. I genuinely don't see an upside. Downvote me if you want but I've never understood this.
MisterBilau · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Influencers. Not the influencers themselves, I get what’s great about being followed and making bank and having your ego stroked constantly. What I don’t get is the followers. They get nothing out of the deal, and keep making idiots rich and famous.
IckyBB · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. I have a university degree in chemistry, and the biggest thing that it taught me is that we dont know what the hell is going on on a quantum level.
Anyone who says they do is lying.
MysticAviator · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want children. Here's a pro-con comparison from what I know:
Cons - Cost lots of money, take up lots of time, take up incredible amounts of attention, can make huge messes, require constant supervision, require education, more people to cook for, dealing with picky kids that won't eat anything you cook
Pros - ... bragging rights?
MandalayBayWatch · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans who think that the US is the freest country in the world (there's more to freedom and speech you know!) and the greatest (people have to take Ubers to the hospital ffs).
Deluded.
nlolhere · 1 points · Posted at 18:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take so many selfies. I can’t find a reason to why people love obsessively taking and staring at a bunch of photos of themselves other than narcissism.
killiekat69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
frozenscumbag · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People, life, chinese language
3moose1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rule against perpetuities
http-cashmoney · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
officeromnicide · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vegans could ever justify using any product mass produced in sweatshops by people who are essentially battery farmed for their labour.
GoSlowImShy · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my school hired an anti-vaxxer who is married to a flat earther as our health teacher
paperUniform96 · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
Bobthesexinater · 1 points · Posted at 18:15:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sign language
Vava0815 · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics.
sultanarabb · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of god.
So i've been taught that god is the most merciful and almighty. Then why would god let us live in this world full of sufferings and sorrow. Why cant god just let us live in a world where everything is fine and alright. Why would god created us just to worshipped him, and punish those who dont like we're a bunch of playing tools. Im seriously askin, I do believe in him, but these last few years i've just been wondering all the time, like searching for what is the true meaning of god
perfidypete · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the stock market is important
Lolsebca · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity. Spacetime.
floppy190 · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
LittleMuppet · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths with letters and funny symbols
child_of_ghostein · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics 😌 I'm struggling in that class, and everyone there understands it. I feel so stupid help
Wig_Wam_Bam0000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand The Blues Brothers. I know people find it funny but I cant even identify which part is supposed to be comedy. They just perform and then dance a little silly. It came out before I was born so maybe I just cant understand it but I wish I did.
LivingGeo · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory. I have read books, watched talks about it, watched documentaries but I understand nothing past that it is try to unify quatuim mechanics with general relativity.
eboyego · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I generally don’t understand why every girl I meet (I’m openly gay) asks me if I’m a top or a bottom, as if she’s the one who I should tell.
Poopoochino · 1 points · Posted at 18:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trumpers
orandeddie · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
mhrsolanki2020 · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people reply "just"
"Hey. You look upset.. What's happened?" -> "Jusst"
MisterBilau · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Strippers. I would never go to McDonald’s and pay to look at the hamburgers.
nicolassundara · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Kardashians.
theverywetbanana · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people enjoy being peed on sexually. Nothing would turn me off more than a splash of piss on my face
Flesheater22120 · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electromagnetism
costaj808 · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stonks
robedpillow3761 · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why john cena beat brock lesnar at extreme rules 2012.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word crayon. If anyone wants to explain it to me, please do.
lespaulstrat2 · 2 points · Posted at 18:20:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word 'cray' is from ancient Sanskrit. It mean 'many waxy colors'. It is combined with the word 'on' to mean 'putting color on paper'.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 18:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m skeptical, but I’ll take it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the plan is for moving beyond “full isolation social distancing.”
Woohoo, it worked for a month... this thing is going to be around forever?
We did not move underground at the threat of nuclear winter in the 70’s... it is absurd to think this is sustainable long term or really for another two months, frankly.
I want to see some real appraisal of the situation and some answers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are regular or not even that good looking men getting so many pretty women?
AxisFeller · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
college calculus
Daisy_123 · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we exist, I mean, what is the purpose of our existence as human beings
darrenturn90 · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People voting for Trump.
applesauce6000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who call their dogs their children
EmilyPoeta · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gucci.
James-Avatar · 1 points · Posted at 18:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life, how do people have friends, jobs, get married, buy houses and have kids without absolutely losing their minds?
smokybacons · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hoarding old useless stuff
forsty-its-me · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does PI (math) work I know but I’m still young but that shits impossible for me
Boricactus8482 · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
HoyMinyoy · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. Not what it is, but the idea of being dead. We’re so used to being alive and seeing/hearing things, but we can’t think about actually being dead. It’s not blackness or like sleeping, it’s your body no longer functioning. Like you can’t hear anything, see anything, you can’t even think anymore. That is something I will never understand until it one day happens to me, and I won’t even be physically capable of saying “Wow, this sucks” because I won’t even know it sucks, as my brain is no longer functioning.
European_Bitch · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is up with the universe
batcomputer_92 · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How depression works
SmittyMcWerben · 1 points · Posted at 18:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be a responsible and good adult.
peedeewanderer · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
thedemon1805 · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
hianidad · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's problem (s) with Reddit
YoungCarleton · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gamer gate. I still don't get it I have 0 idea what it is but I see it brought up all the time
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 18:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamergate_controversy
The Gamergate controversy stemmed from a harassment campaign conducted primarily through the use of the hashtag #GamerGate. The controversy centered on issues of sexism and progressivism in video game culture. Gamergate is used as a blanket term for the controversy as well as for the harassment campaign and actions of those participating in it.
Beginning in August 2014, a harassment campaign targeted several women in the video game industry; notably game developers Zoë Quinn and Brianna Wu, as well as feminist media critic Anita Sarkeesian. After Eron Gjoni, Quinn's former boyfriend, wrote a disparaging blog post about Quinn, #gamergate hashtag users falsely accused Quinn of an unethical relationship with journalist Nathan Grayson. Harassment campaigns against Quinn and others included doxing, threats of rape, and death threats.
Gamergate proponents ("Gamergaters") have stated that they were a movement, but had no official leaders or manifesto. Gamergate supporters organized anonymously or pseudonymously on online platforms such as 4chan, Internet Relay Chat, Twitter, and Reddit. Statements claiming to represent Gamergate have been inconsistent, making it difficult for commentators to identify goals and motives. Gamergate supporters said there was unethical collusion between the press and feminists, progressives, and social critics. These concerns have been dismissed by commentators as trivial, conspiracy theories, groundless, or unrelated to actual issues of ethics. As a result, Gamergate has often been defined by the harassment its supporters engaged in. Gamergate supporters have frequently responded to this by denying that the harassment took place or by falsely claiming that it was manufactured by the victims.
The controversy has been described as a manifestation of a culture war over cultural diversification, artistic recognition, and social criticism in video games, and over the social identity of gamers. Many supporters of Gamergate oppose what they view as the increasing influence of feminism on video game culture; as a result, Gamergate is often viewed as a right-wing backlash against progressivism. Industry responses to the harassment campaign have focused on ways to minimize harm and prevent similar events. Gamergate has led figures both inside and outside the industry to focus on methods of addressing online harassment.
sistertwo · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people could pierce their nipples or balls.
Cypherologist · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The logic and emotions of 4yo twins
Tacshot · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we have become a society that intentionally makes terrible role models famous, then wonder why the kids are a pain in the ass.
MarchKick · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you have to go to church.
(I'm going to use a Christian church as an example because that's what I know.)
Why do you have get up early on a Sunday, get dressed in your best to sit there and sing stupid and stupidly long songs (in which the singer repeats choruses and has long guitar/piano solos) and be preached at for a least an hour?
I don't understand why it has to be so early. I don't understand why we have to sing a song before the service starts, six songs after the pastor makes opening statements, and at the end. I don't understand why we have to wear uncomfortable clothing. I don't understand why I can't just stay home and pray and study my Bible on my own (if I so choose). I don't understand why I have to listen to some dude preach at me.
nlolhere · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Big Bang came to be. Before it, there was no color, no time, no space, nothing. Now your brain will picture pitch black, but there wasn’t that either. There was nothing.
And then out of nowhere, some singularity formed. It had the entire universe in it. And then it expanded. The universe as we know it is just an expanded singularity getting bigger. But how did the singularity form, and how did it get bigger? I don’t get it
Woodoospirit · 1 points · Posted at 18:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
M A T H S
Holinyx · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I'm driving down the interstate in the right lane...and there is NO ONE behind me...why do people speed up and cut in front of me by 0.00000001 inches, forcing me to apply my brakes so that they can Exit? I genuinely don't understand this.
river_currents · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Dow Jones is still increasing everyday..
triplenutter · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we keep electing known Christians to political office?
winfish- · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry can you repeat the question?
That1WeirdDude975 · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
Chasew301 · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I sometimes hear everything happening around me and the sounds are slow.
Wiltz111 · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why?
z0mbieshift · 1 points · Posted at 18:21:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fucking math, I just can’t get the hang of it, I know this is probably a stupid thing to say but I have never been able to understand how to do it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say, they feel so alone, when they can't see there friends for a while. I felt never lonely, when I couldn't see my friends, since they were still my friends, even so we couldn't meet each other. When you feel so sooo soooo lonely without your friends being around, then maybe you have no friends. Because a friend gives you the feeling to be loved - no matter, if you're together or separated.
You can always talk to your friends on so many ways, but...if that isn't enough, then maybe you guys just use each other to stay entertained. And that is very very sad.
rottenblues · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes. Seriously, WTF?!
pasta_man14 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The numbers
jama655 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love in all its vast definitions and clear anonymity
uhkwaireeuhs · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who intentionally inflict pain on others for no reason other than that they can, especially those who hurt the innocent (kids, animals).
bllgame21 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so blinded they can't see hypocrisy, especially when it is pointed out to them.
rrs1234 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my daughter acts the way she does 🤷♀️
brathorim · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourth dimension. Exponents are easy, but how would they look in real life?
NihilistTeddy3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math beyond basic math. I'm fair with percentages and fractions, but that's the extent of it. And physics. My brain just wants to melt any time I try to understand physics
TTVZombiefun · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus fuck that
PottrPppetPalamander · 1 points · Posted at 18:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans.
beanbagbotatoes · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money
TimTricks3d · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be attracted to every single person (pun intended) except me..
Okipon · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can someone lack empathy.
I understand that we’re all different to a certain degree, but some people just have absolutely NO empathy. I don’t know how it is possible without it being from a psychological disorder.
KCEB07 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
rashida945 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW THE KARMA FUCKING WORKS??
Erytzz · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say “Its just a game”
The phrase “it’s just a game” is such a weak mindset. You are ok with what happened, losing, imperfection of a craft. When you stop getting angry after losing, you’ve lost twice.
There’s always something to learn, and always room for improvement, never settle.
EmotionalEmo · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the business i work for is currently still open. I work at a coffee and ice cream shop
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy or motivated to do things other than the tiny few things that grab my obsession at the time.
I might have some disorder like ADHD or something but I'm scared (and poor) to see a psychiatrist. I'm DEFINITELY depressed. I don't understand how other people function.
NotBeSuck · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults obsessed with Disney. That shit is creepy.
Robertholgate · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to litter.
Manojreddy789 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont inderstand how all the household items came into market and became everyday essentials, how their marketing worked. Like take, toothpaste. How they convinced people to use it daily.
fvillion · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some years ago, I was stopped at a light on a one-way street. A car turned the wrong way, a block ahead and was approaching a wall of cars, all headed the right way. A chorus of car horns sounded out, and the driver flipped us all off as he turned off into the cross street.
efredrick16 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a fax machine works.
chronament · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole “we need to compliment each other more share this to your friends” on Instagram. Like no, you don’t need to compliment each other more, you need to compliment each other less. You fucking comment on every post like “queen omg ❤️❤️❤️cutie” it’s almost toxic. Be more honest tf?
fixedflipper646 · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to comment on a post
deadinside_mindofkil · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People hating kids. I understand if you want to be child free, but hating kids is something I just don’t understand. A lot people need realize there are really sweet kids out there, and maybe the reason why they’re acting up is because they might have autism or ADHD.
PM_ME_A_PM_PLEASE_PM · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people espousing political beliefs that only benefit obscenely rich people. I understand how this is done. What I don't understand is how people can continually fight against their own best interests and never learn it's not working for them.
cigsncider · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the tories. do they lack empathy? are they just not that well read (which tbf these days id hard to do because we are worked to death) like its common sense for 90% of people to vote labour
imthatbitch1066 · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics, just cant rap my head around it.
AlwaysBi · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Warner Bros won’t release the Snyder Cut of justice league.
It’s proved to exist with complete cgi and soundtrack, fans have clearly stated they want to see it with millions of people tweeting during the tweet events, with the stars of the film showing their support.
Zack Snyder, the director himself, supports it and is constantly teasing finished shots of the film and some of the higher ups at WB have even supported it.
So why not release it. Does WB not like money. It’d be the perfect day one release for HBO Max, and they kind of owe it to us after making us sit through the theatrical justice league with that horrible moustache cgi.
Jidaque · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical engineering. I just don't. I can learn it by heart, but there is some part in my brain, that doesn't want to understand it.
pragmatic_mind · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker.
gStableCookie78 · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
JacobIsAnameofawofl · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think plastic surgery and makeup enough to look like a clown looks “pretty”
ExGranDiose · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. Everything politics. It has caused more harm than good.
EsKa2013 · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tax returns and al the different taxes. I get the basics but there are many variables that change so I don't understand it at all.
LieutenantCrash · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
JestiviTosterAss · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand gey and strait people. Comone pepol sex is sex.In roman times evribodey was bi why did it change?
XxSniperSlayerxX · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anal, how is it enjoyable? Like... what? I would think it would be extremely painful but it’s also really popular :/ I guess some people are into that??????
JustMeOutThere · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who create toxic workplaces. Do they not realize? Are they sociopaths? What do they gain from it?
windycitycrew21 · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simple Algebra like 24+(a)=3 its just so confusing
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a = -21
lacampagna · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker....never got it and probably never will
zhugejin · 1 points · Posted at 18:25:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman.
notwideshut · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry and Stoichiometry
nathenot · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how caveman were here even tho god created adam and eve first. and they civilized
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wasn't Lilith before Eve? I am not religious so idk
nathenot · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
um. who is lilith? and also no. adam and eve were the first human beings created
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lilith
nathenot · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that’s mythology. i’m talking about the literal bible
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thats also mythology to me
nathenot · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what? the bible isn’t mythology! do you even know what the difference between mythology and just religion is!?
expressoaddict · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whole concept of 0 and 1 in computers. I researched it, try to understand, but just think I understand i forgot the beginning. Like how the fuck a processor give me an image on my screen. I mean how my brain fails me to grasp that concept. Blackmagicfuckery, thats what it is.
angelakailing · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental disorders: why doesn’t my brain have enough happy in it to keep me from spiraling? Math: I’ve asked a lot of questions regarding math & most math people just answer “that’s just how it is”, but WHY is that how it is? Who made it that rigid? Is it for the same reason that the alphabet could be in any order but we all chose to go by the same one? Kids nursery rhymes: why are they actually so terrifying if you think about the lyrics Bugs: what purpose do bugs like flies and mosquitos serve except to annoy us? General: why do our teeth fall out? Why, if you pull out your hair enough (trichotillomania), it doesn’t grow back? Why are habits hard to break? I have lots of things I don’t understand. Is asexuality real or am I just afraid of sex? All the things, guys, I have so many questions for everything! 💕
IridescentAxlotl · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Like I get that things have gravity and why, but also WHY?
James_VDW · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids these days
ch4rlie24 · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
agammm · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people being mean for no actual reason(referring to people who bully or comment cruel things on others), why be so negative about life and things other people might feel good about. it can be hobbies, body insecurities and so much more
i-am-platypus · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can just lack empathy or flat-out not care about something. It absolutely boggles my mind how someone can have so little empathy that they’d just beat someone for no reason.
tyler47781 · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my SO pays literally no attention to me
Halsey-the-Sloth · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Certain fetishes are just completely beyond my understanding. For example, why do people obsess over feet? Nasty
abecrane · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. The world runs on it, it seems like everyone craves it, but I legitimately don’t get it. It’s made up, it’s imaginary, and yet an even more imaginary graph that shows how much imaginary value people attribute to a money-making business determines if I keep my job.
FriendlyPolar · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating, just break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend
SJeanC · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was a kid I couldn't understand the concept of infinity. It boggled my mind that there was no end and no beginning. How could that be? It has to end somewhere. Even now, its hard to believe.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why homeless people just don’t steal food or other stuff...I mean they have nothing to lose, what’s stopping them? If they get caught and go to jail, they’ll get a place to stay and meals too. If they get away with it, they end up with more stuff then they had before.
Ezbiann · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My degree, I'm about to graduate with at least a 2:1 and I'm absolutely clueless as to how I got here
thatsocratesguy · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to solve a Rubik's cube
Yuuka1997 · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people use tiktok
T-Mc-27 · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pictures work, you push a button and like magic it a picture appears. I kinda get in the old days different chemicals reacted a certain way with the light and burned onto a piece of paper, which still boggles my mind but now we have digital. It’s all just magic.
D_Winds · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
TippyTap230 · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seasons being different on different sides of the world. It was something I was never taught in school and it doesn't come up in conversation much. I genuinely though Australians saying their Xmas was in summer was this big joke until a year or so ago (I'm 20) and my mates tried to explain it to me but I still don't really understand it
RemoteSafety · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of finance.
sallygatorBites · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Id, ego, superego
CamaraCam · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. Even explaining what I don't understand sort of leaves me stuttering. It's so bizarre.
artifexlife · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personality cults. Like how do people like people like Trump and think they can do no wrong? Theres many more examples but thats the biggest one
Naoki9955995577 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The spinning bicycle wheel (gyroscope) in physics. As a class, we did the math, did demonstrations, assessed and observed every individual part of the arrangement, including how it spins slowly around the string it is tensioned on, and yet I have absolutely no clue where to begin explain how this works. Right hand rule and all, and still clueless.
https://youtu.be/8H98BgRzpOM
PeterMark_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rubik cube
_Keahilele_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “logic” of flat-earthers, anti-vaxxers., and “It’s not bullying if my son does it. he’s just playing!” parents.
Seriously, it’s like they live in some fantasy world that runs on insane alien-moon-troll logic.
I also have no idea how computer code works, but I feel like that’s more understandable than the behavior of some people.
BergInWonderland666 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
Revathy_Rupakula26 · 1 points · Posted at 18:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human Mind Everyone out there is as fucked up as you are. How much ever you try to understand, you always end up in circles
corneliusgansevoort · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand why anyone still supports Trump. The guy seems like such an incompetent buffoon, but yet millions of Americans still treat him like he's the messiah.
Ennion · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people borrow a cart at the grocery store to ferry around and gather all their stuff, wheel it around, pay for their groceries or items and then unload them into their car and decide to just leave the cart there between parking spots.
The cart return is right there you lazy fuck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death, like, is that it? I think one idea that stuck with me was the Sopranos. When it cuts to black at the series finale. Supposedly this was the directors way of showing how death can be black and instant. When Tony gets shot in the head by the hitman that entered the restaurant.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That we can describe nature with maths. Repeatedly. And it works. Just blows my mind every now and then...
Kluu01 · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, and how they work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we don't have mandatory classes for psychology, mediation, emotional management and philosophy/logic in schools all the way until university? It certainly would solve many would be criminals because some certainly kill for emotional issues and irrational decision making.
I just can't fathom why schools aren't designed in a way that facilitates self-development but instead focuses so much on subjects most of which we do not use in our every day lives. I haven't used french or my knowledge on Macbeth ever after I finish school.
dwilli70 · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance. I read over my plan and get the general idea of it but them FSA and HMO and other terms start to come up I'm lost. Anytime I've tried to get someone to explain it to me it just sounds like Charlie Brown's teacher talking.
iAstrix · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ppl afraid so much of intimacy..
thecorgifanatic · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand the covid-19 conspiracy theory stating the virus does not exist, that people are not actually getting sick and dying, because the government made it up and continues to produce falsified statistics to place fear in citizens and make them more cooperative in being controlled by the government and having their freedom revoked. The fact that people believe the idea that all countries' governments unanimously decided to do this boggles my mind.
fritka · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls hints
sakya_tg · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a limited and imperfect being I cannot understant infinity and perfection
Narutophanfan1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people don't wash their hands more often
ImpSong · 1 points · Posted at 18:30:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Force = Mass x Acceleration. All my personal logic points to the fact it should be Mass x Velocity instead.
PunkyGrey · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Sleepyyzz · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the stock market is going up
seangowe · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can waste like 9 hours of their life watching a terrible TV show.
dchleep555 · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I pay for Dish but still have to watch commercials.
aberrantforestcat · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don't care about major problems in our world even when given a lengthy explanation of what these problems are and how to fix them. A few months ago some friends and I had been talking about doing a challenge where they would try to be vegetarian for a week and I would go vegan (since I'm already vegetarian). Since we're in lockdown I brought it up again since it seems like the perfect time to do something like this since everyone has a lot of time to plan and cook and everything. I asked if they wanted to do it and they laughed and said "what? No! I need my comfort food right now." I've explained SO MUCH in the past how harmful meat consumption is for the environment in the amounts people eat regularly today. Yet they still don't care. They are unwilling to make a small change to their lives even when they know how beneficial that change could be. Even when I asked if they could try pescatarinism or even one meatless day a week they all laughed and said no. The same thing happens with other issues as well. People I know will want new clothes and go to any number of fast fashion brands even when I remind them that these clothes are most likely made in sweatshops and will almost definitely end up in a landfill. I tell them that they can get very similar clothes at the thrift store and it will be cheaper too but they just shrug and keep doing what they're doing. I honestly do not understand how people can care so little.
Ralakhala · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women’s clothes sizes. Like what does a 2 or an 8 mean? I get that one’s bigger than the other but at least for men’s sizes the numbers represent length or waist size. The whole concept is abstract to me especially when a 6 in one store does not necessarily mean a 6 will have the same fit when it’s from another store.
judges_in_korean · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is poo shaped that way
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is shaped by being squished inside your body
judges_in_korean · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh ok Thanks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle class people and especially poor people, deliberately voting against their own best interests, for decades, despite things getting progressively worse for everyone.
skiboi54 · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romantic relationships. I just don't fucking get it
pollypig · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crochet. I don't get it, my mind cannot work out what to do or how it works.
TheWhiteMikeLowry · 1 points · Posted at 18:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are women so complicated and horrible at communicating what they actually mean?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a stock can plummet even if the company turns a new record result. The thing is that "the market" expected an even better result, so now that stock is a steaming pile of shit, even if the company has never been in better shape than it is. So it's all about expectations (meaning: guesswork), and not about the actual value of the company at all. How that works is beyond my grasp.
Also: With the above in mind, how is buying and selling stocks not categorized as gambling, the same way lotteries, casinos, bookmakers, and race tracks are?
crazysauceeee · 1 points · Posted at 18:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/vxjunkies
basbobby · 1 points · Posted at 18:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
bobsnow7 · 1 points · Posted at 18:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Warriors-Wrath · 1 points · Posted at 18:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be so cruel but still manage to be popular and have so many friends.
2Tibetans · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
East and west. When someone says “it’s east of that”, do they mean in the direction of true East of the magnetic north, or do they mean East from my perspective looking at it, regardless of the true direction I’m facing, which would be toward the right.
JodieK10 · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
throwaway175841 · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marriage. 40-50% of them end in divorce, it tends to make people feel trapped and I just don’t understand why this is such a tradition.
snackthattalksback · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people stay in relationships that make them miserable because they’re too afraid of being alone or because breakups suck.
greenplant95 · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the person who drunk milk first was thinking
ovogi · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson. Does all time on the universe skip? is it just within a certain range that time skips? If so, that would fuck up the flow of time for everyone in the area. Would it put them on a different timeline?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers
Axelaxelaxe · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make small talk? Seriously, does anyone think “hmm i sure wonder what this dude’s dog is a hybrid of”, and then somehow keep a conversation from being awkward
floower_thoughts · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sorry but who the hell decided we would say ouch when we’re in pain
Dahlsv1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. Can't wrap my head around the theories about expansion, the size, distances, the origin...my brain hurts just typing this.
Lizzavetta56 · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve got a few:
Patriotism - the accident of your birth on specific patch of dirt means you are therefore loyal to this specific patch of dirt and anybody else who was also born on this specific patch of dirt, against those who were born on a different patch of dirt. this stupidity, sorry, ‘loyalty’, has basically been the cause of a large majority of deaths over history that weren’t caused by religion or other such stupidity
Fire & heat - like, when you look at a molecular level, heat is caused my molecules moving and causing friction that leads to heat, and cold is the absence of heat, but what exactly is heat? Why does it exist? How did it come to be that friction causes heat? And why or how does a large presence of heat cause fire?
RubberPenguin4 · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. How someone can align so strongly with one side and totally cut out people who believe other things. How someone can let it dictate their entire life
imnotwithit · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what is normal? Like when people say act normal I am being normal like what? Every persons normal is different.
Zestyiguana · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can ignore facts and scientifically proven ideas in favor of personal opinions and Facebook science.
TheReeditGuy · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people are born blond they see nothing. Not like everything is black or everything is white, but absolutely nothing. No color, no shades, just nothing.
megxnii · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras. If I think about it too long my head hurts, how can they be in front of something and then just,,,take it into an image?? How does it come out looking exactly like how the human eye sees it??? I don’t get it.
throwawayral · 2 points · Posted at 18:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like a good ELI5 question to me. I'm sure someone could explain it to you.
FloTonix · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people.
pipmentor · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries.
TompsaCS · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries.
gguguyguyt · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People with windows in their bathrooms
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate Carol Baskin so much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can downvote anything in Reddit even if it’s not a bad thing they will downvote
kp22cfc · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers in C programming
iPingWine · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toasters that need a fork to fish the bread out of them
FijiWater001 · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
ElRapidoh · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
bacardiandbenchpress · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
BabyBundtCakes · 1 points · Posted at 18:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Little Man computer programming tutorial. We had to do it for a class and the professor explained it to me like 5 times and I still just had to make up nonsense on the project. No clue at all what I was meant to be doing.
I understand the thought exercise but not how to create an output?
Kynikal · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What blind people see...
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nothing, you have probably experienced what its like to be unable to smell, its the same as that but with sight
UglyGuyWhoIsAPotato · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How steering wheels turn cars, the steering whel is placed vertically, and the wheels are horizontally from eachother. How can the steering wheel control other wheels like this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
natekvng · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Becoming rich
hejmeddej · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes money just transfers to my account. Yesterday i had 3 dollars (dont poorshame me, i just bought a new monitor and pc) and tosy i have 5 dollars? Wtf no one even send anything to me.
scorpiosunlibramoon · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
2 things.
Religion. Especially, Christianity.
Debt. The enormous amount of theoretical currency that can never be paid back.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Krebs Cycle. Despite learning it nearly a dozen times throughout my education.
HasBeenVeriFride · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how people can shun accountability with ease and not feel shameful.
Im_a_Dinosaurus · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human emotion, now think hard on your self and those around you, how do you know what you are feeling or even what they are, and yet you do without knowing why or how, but only after the emotion first appears. It is a confusing part of humans that I have still yet to understand in the slightest.
got-milk74 · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
__SelinaKyle · 1 points · Posted at 18:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
JohnnyTreeTrunks · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lack of compassion and empathy. I get bummed thinking about how cold squirrels are in the winter
beowax · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twin paradox
I just can't get it...
lemonyfreshpine · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
xXBBB2003Xx · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can do their homework and stuff.
Every time i try my best i do half a question and then go "alright that should be enough" ive had like a month of school this semester and i already have 16 missing assignments
Valdish · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone I know seems to hate me.
Elvmn1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was a child I wondered, why was I born here to my parents living how I live and not to someone say in India living in poverty.
How do you get picked to be with your parents prior to being born?
I get the physical part but the energy part that some refer to spiritual or your soul.
dumbasstupidbaby · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock inside trading. That's literally the only way to profit. It's only illegal for the 99% ???? Otherwise it's just gambling??
qwasymoto · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are able to easily emotionally detach themselves from people/situations.
I am not arguing there aren’t valid reasons, I just haven’t ever been able to do it myself.
DalMakhani · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that animal filters make for attractive pictures on dating apps. But maybe I'm getting old!
emdissocool · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people say that it takes a month or more for weed to get out of your system. I wish they would have more valid studies especially since its legal. I buy home drug tests and after smoking “moderate” for 2-3 months and cessation after 19 days I pass all 5 of them and my friend smoked several days and had to take a test 4 days later and passed. It creates a lot of paranoia.
I also don’t understand the purpose of drug testing since I have prescriptions that I don’t like to write down.
I don’t understand why weed isn’t on the same level as alcohol or just legal to begin with.
But this is just my opinion. I always found that to be a weird urban legend. But we will see after my results!
oldlassy · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who kill their spouse and sometimes their children, instead of getting a divorce.
Sevren425 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being a jackass neighbor and vibrating the apartment above you with your speakers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pop music
ilikethecolournude1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some guys can have sex with any girl, doesn’t matter what she looks like or who she is, they don’t care.
adyy1998 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump's brain works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electron mapping. Realising I just couldn't sort it out, in Chem II Hon, made me give up on med school.
here-to-help-PMme- · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our brains we can never understand the full capacity of them but it’s like our brain wants to understand it’s self mindfuck
darkhumourmatters · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxers
eabsquared · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Verkruissen · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still support Trump.
NewYorker15 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gravity slows down time, it’s just a concept that I can not grasp. Same with the speed of time in relation to speed of an object. And while we’re on the subject, the Big Bang, what came before the Big Bang? What’s outside of the universe? If there’s a God or gods, where did that come from? How was it created? It blows my mind.
DrJables · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can “film” things and then watch the “film.” Like I know how it works but it still boggles my mind that it works that way!
easyinoki69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An ice cube that melts in a glass lowers the water level yet a glacier melting in the ocean raises the water level.
xGoldenTigerLilyx · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electronics work. I’m more into the biology side of science, and thinking about how electronics work just completely baffle me. Like, it’s just completely mind boggling!
guidecooperd · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
Are we the only ones here? What's the chance that I was born on this planet and not another?
Why does everyone think that aliens fly in flying saucers?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Friction forces. Could not understand mechanics at all at sixth form
MRye16 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t be compassionate with each other especially during rough times like this pandemic for example
mkrauze0637 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still pay for cable TV in the internet age
long_shlong456 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The horny
newred654 · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the world are people so rude to each other? EVERYONE HAS PROBLEMS INCLUDING YOU SO JUST TREAT PEOPLE NICELY.
Ebeigh · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking as a software developer: I genuinely don't understand 99% of how computers work.
People who don't work with computers often seem to think that us "computer people" know everything about them. In reality, IT professionals typically have a specialization, but know very little about other aspects of computer science. An application developer probably knows very little about networking. A hardware specialist might go their entire life and never write one line of code.
Not all computer people have the same knowledge, and it really bugs me when people expect us to know everything.
aadithya_aa · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why don't we print money
babylynnz · 1 points · Posted at 18:39:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
compulsive liars
Lux_Pyro · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people STILL spend money on reddit coins!!! It's insane!!! IT JUST GIVES YOU SOME REDDIT PREMIUM AND A STUPID IMAGE, IT'S A TOTAL WASTE OF MONEY!
jibblyjellu · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Setting variables in computer programming, why do we need to change the basis of a system of operations in every freakin language. On the contrary I guess we also do the same whenever we speak actual languages and need to conjugate words
yalloveari · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can cheat on someone they "love".
paerasol · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to understand. when we remember/forget/are "put to the test", how do we know we will remember/won't forget/will excel at that "test", and especially for how long? Why do I vividly remember crawling towards a toy at 2 yo but yesterday is a blur.. ?
Virez · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women's magazines:
"Are you to fat?, tips for you" "Lose 5 pounds in 4 weeks" "Are your man reliable, take this test" "Interview with this has-been VIP woman" "How to handle the kids while being a hot mom" "Are your hair lifeless, this guide will help" "How to get perfect nails" "Are your girlfriends talking behind your back?, 5 easy steps to stop it" "5 must-have bags this spring" .....
C'MON....why?....WHY DO YOU READ THIS SHIT ?
finckywinky · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How most blind people don't see black, they just see nothing. Like, what can you see out of your elbow? Nothing.
What?
Leafbox_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the hate against mentally unstable/retarded people
Like, they might be annoying, but not liking them because of that is kinda stupid.
Wait no. Not kinda. it's redicolous. When an autist gets bullied on the internet, that just shows that the internet is too stereotype based.
JohnnyOldstyle · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions. Mostly how other people, who are so full of emotions, can fail to understand that their actions affect other people who are full of the same emotions.
It’s like, “Hey dummy, you being frustrated and yelling at me is making me sad.”
Petalilly · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The YouTube ad process. None of it appeals to me.
Ander_Bander · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
vore fetishes. I dont understand the mindset of wanting to be swallowed whole, digested slowly, then shitted out. even if you were the person voring that would not be a good experience. and dont even get me started on cock vore. Oh, and also feet fetishes. why would you want to suck someones dirty toes and sniff them? i don't think ill ever understand.
alexanderminty14 · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5g
SimpleMinded001 · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many people say they're bored? Like, in our day and time, how can you be bored? Read a book, a comic book, watch a movie, learn how to draw, a new language, workout, start writing a book/short story, play a game, call a friend... the possibilities are endless.
m_o_n_t_e · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C++
Ace_Kobra · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
orangencinnamon · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
winter-ocean · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck my uber driver saw that the light was yellow and decided to speed up to make the red light. How do you break a traffic law so simple that a kindergartner would know it?
ProfessionalM0r0n · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
DARTH-GOLD-HIMSELF · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to balance on a bike
jjkl7 · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I will never fully understand human behavior, the human psyche, and why I feel like an alien accidentally dropped off here from another planet. I feel like the subject of a science experiment when it comes to understanding people.
driticool · 1 points · Posted at 09:30:24 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Edgy.
ichbinjetztanders · 1 points · Posted at 18:40:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand wifi. I get the internet (Broadly). But I also don't really understand tv and radio. I get it's waves in frequencies, and those are interpreted as x y and z....but wtf? Lololol
BeeApples · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe as a whole, shit is insanely bizarre
goldxphoenix · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When homeless people say fuck you or get mad when i don't give them money. I never carry cash so I wouldn't be able to even if i wanted to.
You saying fuck you to me TOTALLY makes me want to give you money more. I don't owe you shit but yeah I genuinely feel bad when i'm unable to give a homeless person money if they're nice or polite
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The story about a Florida man attempting to rob a drive through with a baby alligator. I struggle to understand his thought process.
Gavcradd · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers. How they can continually ignore doctors, medical professionals, even the god damn bloke who initially published the paper and take their evidence from god knows where. It would be funny if it was for something far less serious but they're effectively increasing their kid's chances of catching something that could kill them.
AntonioRodrigo · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time.
What the fuck is time. I know, or I think I know, I can measure it. But what is it?
janpianomusic · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How inanimate matter moves in the body.
For example, when you take a painkiller. The pill gets dissolved in your digestive system and the stuff gets into your blood.
But then?
I guess the blood carries it to somewhere else? Is it just swimming around until it finds the nervous system or something?
Lithdrea · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people lie
krieg-lehrer · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s called the 100 years war but it lasted 116 years and it drives me insane.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Specs for PCs. No idea what any of that shit means.
ObiWanDid19BBY · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why people want to have kids. I want to have a romantic relationship, but kids are a whole other level that I don't want or understand.
lvnv1212 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airplanes.
999peanut999 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
thisNameIsntTrue · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people are saying the cv is just as bad as the flu... like fucking clearly a shit ton of people are being infected and dying daily.
the_cheesemachine · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole vegan diet. No, your vegan cheese does not "almost taste like the real thing"
erinn87 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
And quantum theory.
StrongLikeBull3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. Like I just don’t get that all of a sudden, blank.
I guess that’s why so many people believe in an afterlife.
crazycatlover15 · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How either the Universe has always existed, or there was nothing, and Then suddenly, BAM - a Universe was there Both Seem equally unlikely
Afraid-Panda · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok
MrRobertKnott · 1 points · Posted at 18:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who I am, nor why I'm here.
myshel_lauritsen · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting. It’s complicated and I took 3 courses before I gave up.
thr0waway28386 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. all kinds of math confuse me
Jurassic_001 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
TyMT · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can’t create a new color, no matter how hard you try, you cannot
xronixozi · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I follow a block my block build tutorial for Minecraft to the T and still fuck it up, making me go back like 10 parts in a series to fix it made it impossible to put a chair on the right block
I guess I'm just really stupid
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asmr.
donutMind · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Treating somebody as inferior because of skin color blows my mind.
A2C1T · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so evil
Wietnam · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I use reddit... So i don't understand lot of shit that is around Internet...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worship
ChocolateRufie · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can't "just print more money". I know we can't but I've never fully understood why.
Leafbox_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too much money decreaces it's value.
I think this doesn't need further explanation.
ChocolateRufie · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that, but why?
Who monitors how much money is being printed in each country? How would they know if more is being printed?
KingCK02 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that fucking honk non stop in bumper to bumper traffic. Guess I’ll just monster truck this shit and gravedigger over every car in front of me so the inbred behind me doesn’t have to be stuck in traffic like everyone else.
joshbunten · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirrors. What the fuck are they made from?
crazyjarvis · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how some pastors like Kenneth Copeland have balls to ask for money from unemployed followers during this pandemic under the pretext that God signs your paycheck, not the company. Like WTF bruh,take a break.
I also dont understand why and how some people buy into this.
qleemie · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit Karma
epi_crowman · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tories who now clap for the NHS
Justwannaseeover18 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Potential difference
squiddlysquid · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people can just be mean and rude. I genuinely believe that people are inherently good but sometimes people do things that are just so pointlessly mean and rude and I just don’t get it. I don’t get how bad people just choose to do bad things like what’s the point. why be rude to service workers, why abuse your spouses, why kill kittens. I don’t get it
Leafbox_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people just want to see the world burn...
Or they hate humanity as thier mental health declines to a wallnut
popplesan · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people worship that Schnoodle person and their poems. Like I understand enjoying their poems, but people comment on those posts like the poems are some service to humanity.
Blizzardtheicewing · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobes and transphobia, just why?
exostretch · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson
mai_hai · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction
Skeletonche · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
Darthalex56 · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that a woman will almost always be believed in a rape case, even if the man she's accusing is openly and actively gay/just not into anyone, a lot of courts are messed up to an extreme.
themirandalaw · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lack of love
Hunt4Yoshi · 1 points · Posted at 18:43:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people act like they have no basic understanding of how to do everyday tasks in commercials, oh no,grandma turned on the blender with the top off and is surprised that it sprayed all over the place, oh no,i threw a slice of cheese on an open grill and it melted through the top,who would have guessed? every time i see this shit,me and my grandfather laugh our asses off because it just doesnt make sense,hes always sitting there going "look at this jackass throwing cheese onto a grill ahAHAhahAHHaha"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dmt can truly awaken some senses never perceived before in real life. Like some imagery in our subconscious comes from something more transcendent.
Daevaaav · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
Tman101010 · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I think I’ve seen this exact thread before, but I don’t know if it was on my feed earlier or if I’m just going crazy
megaOmega_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:44:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone from the family dies.
0fbf · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are still mixing households, mingling and socialising while complaining that the virus won’t just “disappear” in time for them to begin enjoying the warmer weather...
IntellegentIdiot · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your achey breaky heart
botha-ds-nutzz · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How somone can come out of an abusive relationship and can name all the abusive things that person did to them .. yet proceed to do the exact same things to you .. and when you point it out your the bad guy 🤦♂️
CombustedSeaSalt · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of Missing someone and/or something.
I just cannot fathom it. What does it feel like?
And what?
Even now in corona time, when i never see any of my friends who i care deeply for, i still do bot miss them
Is there something wrong with me??
StickandAdot · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’ve never experienced loss or anything bad happen to you yet, I’m assuming?
CombustedSeaSalt · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no, i definately have
Last summer, my best friend for 13 years ended the friendship over a text (and i still do not know why)
And yeah it was sad for like a little while but i never miss him yaknow?
I lost my grandma last year too. I loved that woman, she was literally the best person on the face of the earth, but i don't ever get sad thinking about her.
StickandAdot · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you experienced any loss to death other than your grandma?
CombustedSeaSalt · 2 points · Posted at 18:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technically, yes. My step grandfather, but noone in the family mourned his death, to put it bluntly, for reasons i won't put here lol
crackingyourtoes · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the h*ck a bunch of metal wires on some green stuff lets me play cod zombies
SnackPocket · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. Capitalism vs other things. Why Family Guy is beloved.
noniboi · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fulltime-sagittarius · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How internet works, those radio signals that make communication possible. I cannot comprehend.
made-in-china- · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Richey Edwards being a relatively unknown songwriter.
Monticellite · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hate around EVs. I mean, there’s an entire sub focussed on this.
SnackPocket · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronic vehicles?
Monticellite · 2 points · Posted at 19:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, as in they’re not safe or they’re not effective, they don’t work, etc.
SnackPocket · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s probably mostly bro bro white men. Totally how it is here in truck country, too.
bd504840 · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tax system
omercade · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
flat earthets, anti vaxers, etc...
DougTheBrownieHunter · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of televised, professional sports.
Playing sports certainly has values, especially for kids and teens.
But the widespread draw of watching grown adults playing fabricated games professionally and making millions of dollars off it is entirely lost on me.
If you enjoy it, have at it! Don’t let me stop you. But personally, I can’t help thinking it’s a huge waste of time and money.
rawbit · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
kjy_cr · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Record players. How the fuck can vinyl capture someone's voice??? And basically all technology.. but yeah record players fuck my head up
tialelea · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
BroadStreet_Bully5 · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do companies care about the stock price. Take my old company. We did billions of revenue every year. It was a great place to work. Then we went public and it turned to shit. What changes? Why does it matter if shareholders are happy as long as customers are happy? Who cares about the shareholders, they aren’t the ones buying product. People would continue buying our stuff whether shareholders are happy or not, so why do they matter? They didn’t matter to the company before and it was successful, why do they matter after?
SanchezGeorge1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters who are poor.
RealGabemario · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Two things
1. How so many Fortnite Bad Shitposts make it to the top of subs like Dankmemes, they're so unfunny that it hurts
2. Those stupid promos that Nickelodeon does with the modern trends. I'm here to watch Spongebob, not listen to shitty visco girl jokes. Where are the ads for things like the wubble bubble ball or GameFly these days?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can really think that the government is legit
LarrySGx · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry
saint-river · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How religion contradicts itself
Trillionx · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Kieran-Jenkins · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tax .... jus tax
jahallo4 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can support abortion
Vaelocke · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans.
thott_busta · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simps
G-shrek · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where all my money goes!
howedthathappen · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a show can go through so many writers and still have a line that uses “unconscious” instead of “subconscious”. Grey’s Anatomy I’m looking at you.
kendallthurgood · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get famous on tik tok
rootbeercan · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
idontdodrugs69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people claim to love animals, yet pay people to either rape them or to kill them.
lordwolf1994 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Debomb_13 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a heterosexual male I genuinely do not understand the dating scene and women in general.
Two recent examples :
-online dating, matched with someone and asked about what kind of music they liked. Got a response of “fuck you, you don’t even want to know me”...like what?
-girl I liked took off her clothes and told me to play with her body as I wanted sans full on intercourse exactly three times over the course of two weeks. Then hits me with “Hey do you not find me attractive? You never push sex.” Are you FUCKING kidding me you literally told me not to.
LA0811 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. I was a great math student up to calculus and then I felt just frozen in my tracks. I realize as an adult I need context or framework to really understand and learn things and I feel like calc was taught more in ground up way that I just couldn’t find a single moment of clarity to anchor on to.
danielj1415 · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to build a computer I’ve always been curious about it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. I’m 23 years old and always payed my taxes on time but...why? I’ve googled why and where my taxes go, but maybe I’m dense because I just don’t understand it. Where does my money go? Why don’t they just do my taxes? Why do I get money back? Gotta love the USA.
MrKrugerDunning · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. I don’t understand how something do it’s thing but when we want to measure it, it does something else. How tf does that work
overtakenfrombordom · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
porn. i find it depressing watching someone else have sex while your alone at home. i don’t think there’s anything bad with it but i just don’t understand how people get turned on like that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What to feel, at what moment. And how to express it.
I never learned how to deal with my emotions as a kid so now I'm just a way to smiley person, because thats the only thing I know how to do right.
Spicy_burritos · 1 points · Posted at 18:46:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all? Why this universe created? Why??? What’s the point of things existing, and to what do they contribute? What’s the point of joy or sadness?
robthegingerninja · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People treating others bad without any particular reason. And it's not even based on their mood. Like wth is wrong with u
Nathan4P · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone in bedrock
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block chain. I've been trying to get it broken down for me in a way that I understand for years now.
ThursdayDecember · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That othet people thoughts are as read and complex to them as mine are to me. I genuinely don't understand others existence, it just feels like they're part of my life and they don't exist when they're not interacting with me.
oliviaxlow · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports fans and how emotional they get. Absolutely bizarre to me.
SlabAdoflson · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people enjoy speaking to me
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe you're genuinely interested, kind and nice to them?
SlabAdoflson · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i just thought about it and you just solved my problem thanks lmao
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I keep on talking to you, will you feel better or worse?
SlabAdoflson · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
probably better as long as were not just talking about good stuff about me cause it makes me feel like a dick
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol okay, what's something you wish you had done otherwise today?
SlabAdoflson · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
idk i usually just sit down and look at my laptop all day so
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So maybe some physical activity wouldn't hurt ☺️
SlabAdoflson · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah like a week ago i decided to not be lazy and sit in my bed until i merge to it and never be able to escape but quarantine was kinda bad timing cause i can barely go outside now
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are workouts you can do on inside, or even sitting in front of the laptop
danny562204 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people thought donald trump would make a good president.
lilylakai · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions lol ☹️
StrandedLullaby · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. I have no idea what I think will happen after we die. Turning to nothing is hard to wrap my head around, but so is waking up in heaven/hell. I also can’t understand rebirth. Thinking that 20 years ago I was a completely different person and I could of been 80, I could of been someone famous, and now I’m me. Just any beliefs of what happen after death are difficult for me to understand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get internet points on reddit
Nihar221 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how some people navigate through life. Like their intentions, actions, intellect just dont age well.
0jojo · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I dub the car culture. I will never understand how anyone can genuinely tell the difference between car brands, know the inner machinations of a car, or want to spend their lives around cars. They're just big, smelly, fast hunks of metal that can kill someone if you take a wrong turn.
kyleb2006 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck im still alive
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You still have something to complete here, a task (or several tasks) to fulfill.
kyleb2006 · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh well, I'm joining the British army in 2 years
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mhm, they'll provide u w tasks alright 😁 you want to or just have to?
kyleb2006 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I definitely want to
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's good then, no? And what are you doing in the 2 years from now?
kyleb2006 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it's a complete plan, the way I see it...
kyleb2006 · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, I hope these 2 years go quickly
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You'll be fine.
kyleb2006 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks but I'm mostly doing it for my friends
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hentai. I love Japan, but the fascination with exaggerated T&A is lost on me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
thewolfyfox · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we don't feel the earth orbiting the sun, as due to the centripetal force there is always a resultant force, meaning that the earth is constantly accelerating. We should feel the pull of the earth as it spins. The earth travels at hundreds of kilometres a second (sorry for lack of specifics), and in proportion it should feel only slightly less as a car going round a roundabout at 20mph, which we would all feel, no doubt. Simply something I can't get out of my mind.
WhatDoYouControl · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. How does neural activity cause it? Could anything else cause it?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why java classes have to have a reverse domain name.
imthelag · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If dogs can be trained to shit in their own yard, and THEN go for a walk. I'm talking about in towns where people have yards. Obviously a city apartment is a different story.
Can dogs not shit without leaving their own property? Or is it how they are raised/trained?
I don't like that people's choice to get a dog means other property owners have to deal with the shit. Even if people pick up after their dog - I still don't understand why everyone else has to deal with your life decisions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Genuinely, I do not understand how the minds of others work, truly I don't. I wish I understood people more so that I could approach them and understand if we get into arguments, but nope.
Actually, women. I don't fucking understand women.
droidman85 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be and act with people in social situations. I try to be nice and talk to people but most of the time i cannot read people properly
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"bored during quarantine". What the hell? I'm living life! Finally I have time to do everything I've been wanting to!
Babayaga2105 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racist and racism. Like its not even really beneficial. Especially when poor people act racist.
Guapoton-i · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how hard it is to get back out there after a chemical deficiency in your brain even after getting better, it’s like you’re looking at your happy self from a distance bc you know happiness but just don’t quite feel it.
LittleGayOfSunshine · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can talk to anyone. I have social anxiety and this boggles my mind. I wish I could do this. Also relationship. Like everything about them; how do people get into them, how they work, how you can be that close to someone..
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont have social anxiety, but this helps me a lot when I'm scared of talking: how many of the conversations you have every day do you remember? Probably not a lot of them. Most people will forget anything you mess up as soon as it happens.
Lahcim154 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
GabbaGabbaDumDum · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans look at Trump and think 'yeah, HE'S who I want to be my president'.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think “just eat less!” is good advice when you’re trying to loose weight.
“Just eat less! It worked for me! Oh really b*tch?? Really? Oh My Gods I wish I had thought of that before!! Guess I’ll tell my anxiety and depression and eating disorders to chill and stop making binge every time someone is the least bit cold or detached because my brain immediately assumes they hate me! Thank you for this life changing piece of wisdom oh mighty and skinny one.
trailangel4 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people look the other way for atrocities committed in the name of religion that they wouldn't ordinarily look the other way for.
noxtare · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
mahlifeizzzzperf · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers in c++
diamond-gogoboots- · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Colours we can’t see...
Like, different animals probably see more colours than we can, but what the heck do they look like?! I need to know! I keep trying to imagine it but how can I?
I don’t understand how there can be more colours like wtff
QueenKiminari · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines. I love technology, computers, I'm learning to program etc.
But fucking fax machines are just black magic and I will stand by that.
jillieboobean · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any kind of technology works.
Also, buoyancy. I can explain it to you. But I don't understand it myself.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, cause if you sit down & think bout it, it doesn’t make sense
atoothlessfairy · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flirting. I dont even know what I don’t know.
skopje123 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm alive
umkatew · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
computers. how does it understand what the code MEANS??? how can pieces of metal understand a language?? do you teach it? i just don’t understand it.
abananainmy-buthole · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My crush
loremm16 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are constantly late.
TheGeneral9Jay · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to use my credit card best! Been explained over and over again but just doesnt make sense
rockypark0225 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How matter can be both a particle and a wave.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Blue Pill/Red Pill stuff? Like the colors.
random1029384 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers really boggle by brain. How do ones and zeros even work? I know it’s on/off, but how on earth does that translate to making a cat video? How does this little tiny chip made of silicon, gold, plastic (and whatever else) actually do the things? The vacuum tubes and punch cards of the 60’s...... how?
Cadellex · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile game ads, I need to think people actually thought about those and was like yeah people will want to play after watching that
Asirodsan · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why that cube in the PC charger exist
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It changes the current from AC to DC
r0b0t-c0rgi · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Comparators
CPJ1776 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone in their right mind can vote for a Democrat
edwardwinstanley · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
BHMathers · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never seen the seeds of a carrot. So do they grow off of each other like potatoes? And what’s in those little seed packets
timboslice9000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Last Jedi made it past the storyboarding phase.
spicy_chemicals · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get infected in zombie movies with slow zombies
High-Quality-Usernam · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mukbang, just why do people watch it?
thewolfyfox · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How accents developed, did an Englishman decide to pronounce words differently upon arrival, or did the native Americans affect their pronunciation? I'd really want to know if someone had an answer.
Primit1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people know about things that you don't ask
needsbeermoney · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
life. just about every aspect of it
Clashkiller2000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand one thing: why do entitled people exist? Are they here only to ruin lives, or what? What is the reason entitled people exist? Who was the first entitled person?
FudgingEgo · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why American's won't just put taxes on their products at the shop.
haelesor · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the pricing at the store is generally set by the deals made between the retailer and the provider and then the tax is different based on where you are, sometimes even by county, so when the pricing is being done you would have to basically calculate it for each individual store and no one can be bothered doing that so they just ring up the whole cart and tax the total.
It's very stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How math came to be. How did they decide on how to do geometry, algebra, other maths, both simple and advanced. I’ve never understood how they came up with maths more advanced than basic addition, subtraction, and counting.
Pi is especially mind boggling to me, like how do you just measure a circle and all of a sudden decide “oh hey this thing is infinite haha it’s a number now” like how do you even find it and understand it in the first place? Then the concept of infinity is equally as confusing to me.
JTMY_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
2PlyPremier · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry. I'm too stupid to understand it
Hi-i-am-weird · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don’t need to plug their noses underwater with be a huge mystery to me.
Also why religious people that go door to door knock on the door for like five minutes. I believe in Jesus but I already go to a church and you don’t need to knock for that long. Maybe just the people that come to my door.
Why bullies think it’s a wonderful idea to bring someone down so much they become depressed, like am I just a buzzkill?
Why Shane Dawson doesn’t post on his original channel and on his Shane glossin. I find that a bit weird he just doesn’t upload them to his original. I love Shane!
Why people are racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic.
The meaning of life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone claiming to be tolerant, open minded, and highly progressive can say anyone who thinks differently than them should die a horrible painful death.
sifatullahrafy24 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That girls can slap each others asses and be considered straight but if I look at a guy for more then 3 seconds i am gay
Mxtthew777 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Old11B5G · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AI and machine learning. I got degrees in statistics and discrete math and then spent 40 years coding. I’ve been out of the workforce for 6 years now and in that time those things have taken off. It seems like I must have the tools to understand it but it mystifies me.
Sosofunsize · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
CoreyGotClass · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese.
cooljerk87 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how parents believe that vaccines kill children
rosie29533 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why cases of young people contracting covid-19 and dying when they have no underlying health issues are going up suddenly
Flynhigh30 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoples belief in a higher power... I genuinely can't wrap my head around gown adults believing in primitive beliefs they should have grown out of centuries ago. The utter lack of evidence provided by anyone should be enough to sway any rational, logical mind and yet despite it all people still believe.
rainbowluigi281 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who put things in their back pockets where someone could steal it instead of their front pockets. Only valid excuse is if you're a women then you don't really have front pockets lol.
ThisIsaRantAccount · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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koenergy · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stocks work
Abbefalkon · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
EvilGeniusCartier · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those Age math word problems.
ex. In January of the year 2000, I was one more than eleven times as old as my son Will. In January of 2009, I was seven more than three times as old as him. How old was my son in January of 2000?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
PrinZ0ne · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math... basic math is fine. What i mean is 1+1=3 type of stupidities ...lol. English not main language.
deep-ai · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we still need to have countries? Are people different?
dlo4sho · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why employees at grocery stores are still not wearing masks to protect themselves.
haelesor · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they can't afford them and their corporate bosses care more about saving money than their employees. Also, there is probably some bullshit thrown in the official memo as to why they're not providing the supplies about it not making a good impression on the customers because they can't see if you're smiling or not.
dlo4sho · 1 points · Posted at 06:31:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get that, it frustrates the crust off of me that the public health department doesn't do more to assist. Also even if their company or corporation does not offer a mask or other PPE and if money is tight there are still options and super easy ways to improvise/diy a mask from materials at home. If a fire breaks out but your boss doesn't excuse you from work you still need to save yourself. I feel if their is ignorance involved the employer at the very least should be held accountable to education their staff on the risks and encourage at the minimum them to diy a mask. Teach infection control etc. I'm not blaming the employee, it truly breaks my heart to hear how people in unsung occupations are losing their lives over this.
dlo4sho · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
*county public health department.
Islandboi4life · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The political architecture and structure (cause I've no intrest in learning about it nor the motivation to do so in the near future)
Computer coding (I've seen a lot of videos of people coding and making amazing stuff, but when they were teaching it in school they did a really bad job of it and all my excitement and eagerness to learn coding died.. Still good with the tech and surface level computer stuff)
Drawing / sketching (basically free hand drawings always get out of proportion. To make a simple sketch, say of an eye, I need to know about the eye structure, it's anatomy, they various parts and layouts and only then can I Sketch an eye while other artists can imagine and draw like that's alien to me)
Fuzzarelly · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
legendfourteen · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still genuinely don’t understand why people were hoarding toilet paper...
dbleo · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids that take their parent’s credit card and don’t feel guilty at all
Fearmo · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many licks it takes to get to the tootsie roll center of a tootsie pop.
free_taKo · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
dog_with_a_pizzahat · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry, proves mostly, and perpendicular bisectors
NORMALBUTHAPPY · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
anonphat · 1 points · Posted at 18:50:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why government officials don’t get payed the national minimum wage. Would they still be okay with people making $7.5 an hour in this economy?
The_One_Who_Slays · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basically, there are two plausible hypothesises: either the universe came to exist from nothing or it existed the whole time, BEYOND the time.
And both practically beg for the same question to be asked:
H O W
My head hurts a lot whenever I try to think about it. It's absolutely incomprehensible. I think, if I put enough effort, I may be able to unveil whatever mysteries of the world there are.
But not this one.
It's probably impossible.
The only impossible thing out there.
And it's really fucking frustrating.
rFasq06 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Photosintesis...
DennisIsAWierdo · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People thinking that I am a real human being. Bro, I'm literally a ventriloquist's dummy!
zaza8737 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
jonyconwoman · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the world is becoming more and more populated with gaslighters and there's no consequence for such bullying. More and more hateful people and cheaters moving ahead in the world and honest hard-working individuals just being helpless
ScooterAnkle420 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vore.
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to snap my fingers, seriously I don't know why my fingers can never make the noise.
haelesor · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Press the the pads of your thumb and middle finger together firmly. While maintaining pressure between them, try to quickly slide them apart. If noise is not produced, try pressing more firmly.
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. Just makes a barely audible pat sound, no matter how hard I press.
tiny-pajamakid · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s literally just the sound of ur middle finger slapping that weird meaty part of ur thumb at a high speed
NicJ20 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can’t mind their own businesses and why they don’t let others live their lives peacefully
CarbonReflections · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people that vote republican.
LuminaL_IV · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people find jackass and or overall what I like to refer to as low class comedy fun?
Turdmonkey2 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mummble rap.... What the FUCK are you saying?!!
fishboi9 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why teachers think that kids need college to be successful
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions. Yes, I am dumb
Fayt_Bouleouve · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're just parts of a whole. You divide the apple into the bottom number of pieces and you have the top number of those pieces.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay like, logically I get it. At the very very simple level, like the apple, I get it. I can visualize it. But then come along decimals and percentages which are somehow the same thing, and then you’re supposed to multiply 3/26 by 1/13, and I just freaking lose it. I was very good at math until fourth grade lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most people in the world always feel the need to put others down in every situation. Too many people are like that in this world
rudra_gadgil · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The size of universe. Space. The huge amount of timelines of planets, solar systems, galaxies etc. All these things are way too vague and vast and infinite for me. I know what they mean. Technically. But it just fucks me up whenever I try to think about any of it.
Same thing about parallel universes, string theory, and basically anything related to astrophysics. My mind just goes numb.
ListCrayon · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people catcall.
TittyTwistahh · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
barometric pressure
Zopoboss1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The United States education system.
OddishChamp · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents logic.
megan5marie · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Righty tighty; lefty loosey.”
Clockwise and counterclockwise both have left and right motions.
If you’re talking clockwise on an actual clock, the hand is going to the right when it’s “on top” at the 12, but it’s going to the left when it’s “on bottom” at the 6.
Or if I’m tightening a screw, clockwise, one side of my hand is moving to the right but the other is moving to the left.
So how do “to the left” and “to the right” mean “clockwise” or “counterclockwise”?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You want to know what I genuinely don't understand?
How people can talk about equality, fairness and treating people with respect when it comes to a multitude of subjects but when politics is brought up suddenly you're scum of the earth for voting for what you believe in purely because you didn't vote the same way as other people
It amazes me that we talk about democracy but heaven forbid you vote for a party or vote a certain way because your beliefs are genuine and not based on hatred or division
This doesn't apply to a specific country it's all round
A prime example would be brexit, I've had many people throw abuse at me for voting to leave the eu with the usual race and hate card being played despite the fact that I actually agree with immigration to an extent.
Nobody should have the right to abuse someone because of how they vote or who they vote for so long as that what they're voting for isn't a nazi regime
jeffzebub · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people are so easily manipulated with propaganda. Especially now after the introduction of "alternative facts" and "fake news". People are getting away with lying about things that are easily refuted. For example, if someone says "I never said that" but you can quickly find a video of them saying "that" from a week ago. Also, the tendency towards anti-intellectualism. People love the benefits of technology, but some people reject scientific facts which do not align with what they want to believe.
Felfriast · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem. I hate it.
rusty_5hackleford · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
ShrekDannyDevito · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m going to be hated for this but. The fact that on the memes subreddit they all get triggered by someone talking about reddit badly but then proceed to bully other cultures and other apps.
TysonInRealLife · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How large universities get away with paying players. I don’t mean systemically. I know the The NCAA sucks ass and is about as competent as I would be flying a space shuttle. I mean logistically. How does it work? Usually schemes fall apart because people can’t shut the hell up. This has been going on for 70 years with very few “accidents.” I need to know!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. i have dyscalculia so it's always been hard. i do understand some things, but others...? hell no.
al_gorithm23 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy
AngryRunningTurkey · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technology. I spent an hour talking with my girlfriend about how little we know about how TVs, phones, computers, etc. work. I think Joe Rogan had a bit about this. Something along the lines of 'put me on an island with everything I would need, how long until I send an email?'
You could give me a million years and I'd probably barely crack how to make a light bulb.
monkeypowah · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
meetubby · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people keep going back to their exes who cheated on them?
Io8610200 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Relativity. I don’t understand the concept where time slows if you go faster than the speed of light. I don’t know if it’s scientifically accurate, but the planet in interstellar where an hour was like a few years on earth really boggled my mind.
Also existence in general blows my mind. Why do we exist? Where did life come from? Do we have an inherent purpose/meaning or is this all random? Is there a God/higher power? If so who created him? What happens after we die? That sort of thing.
measely_opossum · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. How to afford an apartment AND go to college. How to properly save money. People who disrespect food service workers. Why my thumb does that very painful thing.
TheMachinesWay · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not understanding social distancing and adhering to current lockdown measures or even not understanding how there is people not understanding how serious covid-19 is
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come girls won't make a decision on where to eat. You'll start naming off several restaurants but receive a no or im not hungry for that. Which results in aimlessly driving until she says which ever place you already named 5 times.
KuldeGypsy · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
LIFE
Slooneytuness · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conversion of Shrute Bucks to Stanley Nickels
moningo21 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of entropy in physics and real life. I'm graduating this school year and i still don't get it. I tried to watch youtube videos and read academic books about it but it just doesn't make its way in my brain. All i know is it's heat around us everywhere(?)
cheese_on_cat · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand
Evilmentalhamster · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fridges
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit youtube channels that will skip meeeeee!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life & consciousness.
jasenzero1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. If a company is doing well they're stock is more valuable, but why?
KSP_Player · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of the 4th spacial dimension.
seppuku_blue · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vaping. So stupid looking. It’s the bluetooth earpiece of a new generation.
DaveDonnie · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After watching a video on the japanese writing system, I firstly don't get why 2 syllabaries are necessary (in the video he said the reason was 'context', but wtf is 'context'?), and then with the whole kanji thing that took over half the video and a second video, and then accounting stroke order, I just don't see why someone hasn't tried to make it simpler yet. Heres the video https://youtu.be/bcdYKxHT8kY
tozokudon · 1 points · Posted at 18:52:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Particle physics, but im learning
CMRabbi · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Seriously.
AyeAye_Kane · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why maps have to have the size of the countries changed. I just don't see why you can't make the country the actual size it's meant to be compared to the rest on a 2d map
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it is organised better, easier to reuse code etc (I cba to list everything)
TophrBR · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the force of gravity actually works. I understand the idea of the curvature of space-time, but how does space actually know it needs to curve? Isn't a particle supposed to help transport that information?
Maybe I need an ELI5 on loop quantum gravity.
Geones · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the fuck America can just keep printing money.
Casualhumour · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
jibbit · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Claude Shannon's Information theory
Liv0987654321 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people first translated languages. I can just imagine a French man screaming 'pain' while pointing at a piece of bread while an English man just cries thinking the French man wants to kill him with some bread.
spottieottie93 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
eves_bottom_lip · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck they built the pyramids
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pyramids are actually one of the simplest structures, the only complicated thing is how they transported the rocks
eves_bottom_lip · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah....that’s part of the building process
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it was done by using a ton of people who were united by religion and no human rights
yukiyasakamoto5 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works. No, seriously.
WHAT TF DOES SKIPPING TIME MEAN!?
wowowowzoom · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This girl that I like. She’s being incredibly confusing and I genuinely don’t understand what’s going on
its_doofenshmirtz · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics, god, heaven and hell, cardi b, my parents relationship...
So there's that and a lot more but I can't put it all in words cuz I'm lazy
beermansam · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The law of conservation of energy
I get the basics and the definitions but it doesn't make any practical sense - energy is conserved but then what about birth of stars and death of stars
ecks89 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly is a server
mr-mahibi · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
diavolo’s stand
Funtimepizza666 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How jet fuel can melt steel beams.
peepeetaker69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That she doesn't love me
Grump_Monk · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I haven't figured out what this so called belly button does.
kipobaker · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. Or economics, in general.
Wandsauce · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a bunch of completely random shit can create the known universe and all the mad shit within it
mexataco76 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slopes in math
paisley201 · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone voted for Trump
weirdweirdowry · 1 points · Posted at 18:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How D4C works
I’ve finished part 7 of jjba and I’m still very confused lmao
Magpiestronkperson · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My diabetes.
HoldingDoor · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics. I have tried reading "A Brief History of Time" by Stephen Hawking and I didn't understand much about the subject when he covers it (maybe I understood about 20%). I also tried watching some YouTube videos to reinforce the knowledge but still not a clue.
therealsnakebuscus · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
flyawaydancer · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money works. How can our country lose money? How can a whole country be in debt? Currently we’re in a recession, which means we are losing money - where does this money go?
Solocup421 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
PacoAleman · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WWE
ClefRedmond · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infield fly rule in baseball.
I suppose baseball is kinda confusing in general anyway.
MasterChief813 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life itself. How bad things happen to good people and how shitty people seem to get ahead in life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generic blanketed hate over a specific group different then your own. Whether its religious, political, cultural, etc- I just don't get it. How does a person decide they hate everyone who is Christian or Muslim or Republican or gay? There are good and bad people is every group. And speaking from my own experiences I like/love/respect people who have totally different worldviews then my own. So I don't understand people who can't and think there is some high road in spuing hate on people you don't know personally.
Disfigured_Porcupine · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people order double stuffed food when you could just eat two of that food and not only be more filled but also have it last longer?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
proof in geometry, yeah so someone else already did it, why do it have to do it again. 28 years ago i said this to my geometry teacher his answer was to give me a d for the class.
jeweliegb · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
I know this is a meme, but they freak me out.
Even worse, many years ago, I did a degree in computers and electronics which naturally involved relevant physics and EM fields and magnetism etc...
...and afterwards I was even more freaked out. 😱
hanvana · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
katiwi- · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My government
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think that they know that we do not possess free will. I’m not saying that we do. But how can you know that when we still do not totally know how conscious thought works?
the_net · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The logic of women sometimes, people that tailgate thinking you’ll get somewhere faster, people that don’t move over when getting tailgated, people posting racist things on social media and not expecting insane backlash, the people that kicked toilet seats on TikTok to get fame over corona and getting it anyways, why when people ask hey you want anything from McDonalds they say no and still proceed to eat all your fries when they could have ordered one, why the mismatch of quantities in a pack of hot dogs and buns.
PimpBoy3-Billion · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cinema color
RedWing83 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big the universe is. And there may be multiverse.
Dogggeeeee · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics.
rnair13 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability
Erixtax · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
ahf95 · 1 points · Posted at 18:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spin. Like, why the heck even is spin?
Deaforest · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
BeUnconventional · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
ViciousChihuahua69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand what vernacular, formal, perceptual, and functional maps are supposed to do nor their functions
FuckItImPrettyStill · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How right wing leaders are elected pretty much anywhere, like how are the majority of the people voting that selfish when voting (and if not selfish then either dumb or intolerate)
CharredScallions · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Special relativity
shoman_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Higher dimensions
Always fun to think about
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck to maintain a relationship with people.
ashrhys · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life and love
Kali_Kopta · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
poopdaddy2 · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin or any cryptocurrency
Dj_nOCid3 · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
ChunkehDeMunkeh · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our purpose.
neurophilos · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are afraid to die. I can't think of anything more calming than the knowledge that someday I will not feel anything ever again.
EdwardLennox · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. We are all equal, you should only judge character, not the way someone is colored.
Romanpuss · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoples need to bitch about something...
incognitoville · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why people litter. I just don't get it.
Eraldir · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can anyone completely seriously say "the evidence of god is all around you"? Like...it's not smd that isn't how evidence even works!!!
Voldylock · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be so oblivious and stupid
reyniac · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How grown adults make kids shows
herculesmeowlligan · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker. Maybe it's because I haven't bothered to learn the rules well enough, or memorize the ranking system for what hand trumps another, but my brain just doesn't seem to want to grok any of it. I'm glad people enjoy it, it just does nothing for me.
TheCityLightShow · 1 points · Posted at 18:55:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are mean and selfish for no reason. I just don't get it, for me it's so easy not to be, and when I am I feel absolutely wretched about it and never want to be so again. On a logical note I sort of get it, but on an emotional level I just... can't comprehend Why.
Lockstrocks · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Core math :(
Enlightenment_2020 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the people are not better trained in the first 4 environments, before 13, when they still have as much enthusiasm as they are going to have. The teaching of elementary school is way off, and reflects that we do not look of other ways of doing things from the other 240 countries. Elementary school needs these supplements, perhaps at home, in the form of a family report, a department of good ideas. They would know writing and selling it in grade 3, the 4 invention steps in grade 4, international business grade 5, being of service to others is the theme of grade 6, the direct methods of creating opportunity, benefit, and service for ourselves and others. Grade 7 is film and documentary, grade 8: ice cream, one cherry, 3,4 peanuts, dollop of whipped cream; now back to work you little monsters!
Agwens · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is sit possible that computers work the way they do, i mean i know about the programming, but first you have to build it and in what part of nature does the construction make it function
DragonVision · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything.
carissadraws · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like David Sedaris. I read that owls with diabetes book and it was quite possible one of the least funny things I have read in my entire life. His whole shtick is telling ridiculous stories that ‘supposedly happened’ to him but I can’t tell when he’s being serious and when he’s trying to be funny. IMO audiences should all be in on the joke and not wondering the intent of the comedian.
Also I swear to god if anyone responds to this post saying I’m just not ‘smart’ enough to get his humor I will downvote you.
fattymaroon · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would try to shave their butthole by wrapping the hairs around an electric drill and using it to twist the hairs off.
badRLplayer · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The time/space connection.
yanusdv · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ordinary and Partial Differential Equations get insanely difficult and unintelligible very fast, like "ok I get it...ok, I kinda get it...OK just what the fuck happened??"
DragonVision · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
guavacadus · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taylor series mixed in with probability, and how you can guess a function is even or odd just by looking at it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do egg whites grow when mixed?
schimmelA · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
GLSL
Plisken999 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry.
I dont know why.. I was good in physics... Good at math.. Generally good in school... But chemistry... Nope.
I tried.. Just doesnt work. I found my ceiling
CasuallyWorn · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The strictness of the Catholic church.
JanuaryGrace · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting in to huge debt for a wedding. I just cannot fathom how people drop 30k on a wedding in the first place, but if you can afford it and it makes you happy, more power to you. But spending an obscene amount of money that your going to be paying back for ten years, having a negative effect on your life? For one day? Nope.
fullmetal126 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does King Crimson work
singingdart7854 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Welsh language
htvkogedyzg · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The brain. I mean it's this tofu like, pink, 3 pound heavy substance that's INSIDE YOUR HEAD. AND IT MAKES YOU FEEL AND SEE AND HEAR THINGS.
WHAT THE FUUUUUCK IM HAVING AN EXISTENTIAL CRISIS HELP
Teni96 · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be racist/homophobic/transphobic etc when it has NOTHING to do with them. It constantly confuses me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most mathematical concepts beyond basic addition and subtraction. It's really disheartening.
laughingmeeses · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The philosophical shift from liberal minded individuals fighting against things like the death penalty to “it’s ok to casually discuss these people dying because I disagree with them”.
It’s honestly a really wild transition; I say this as a very liberal person.
StickandAdot · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Common core math
FavorableFox · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why People are Panic-Buying Toilet Paper for an illness that doesn't cause diarrhea.
depressedopression · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a router works.. and I have a degree in computer networking
TheCrowGrandfather · 2 points · Posted at 21:38:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Essentially the router knows if something is inside it's network or outside its network. If the something is outside its network it uses a system called BGP. In this system the router doesn't know really how to get a packet to the correct location but it knows the direction to sent it to. So it sends it that way and then that router sends it to the next one, until it reaches a router that actually knows where the recipient is.
There's a lot more stuff if you have specific questions I'm happy to answer.
BlokAose · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
ChickensFingers · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linear algebra
stompinggoose · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market and the economy works. It all just seems imaginary to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
But somehow I have a C in the class so I must be doing something right
Stoodoots · 1 points · Posted at 18:56:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my mother find the things that were right at the place i looked at a thousand times
Crescent_moon_1995 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.... I just cant get it
TatiAmorim · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people go out the streets of Brasilia, capital of Brazil, in the middle of the Covid-19 quarantine, and shake hands with the president of the country.
PowerboyNL · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wtf is a mandelbrot fractal
it is always in my youtube recommended but i have no idea what it is lol
xenothan_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin and quantum physics
SuperFluffyness · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could the Americans vote Trump in when the whole world couldn't believe their eyes.
Same thing for Brexit..
I'm somehow on the wrong timeline I'm sure... this was not meant to be
happychillmoremusic · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many mass produced products are absolute truly garbage as if the companies never even tried it once before launching
Xearo120 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
marnixkuiper_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How karma works. No seriously how does it work?
somnicrain · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How religous people condemn the gays for being gay.
lonesaiyajin98 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm gonna be that guy and say transgender people. I just say to myself people can do what the fuck they want as long as it doesnt bother me.
managedheap84 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex. 12 years and no feelings worth talking about apparently. Has just completely turned them off and wiped our relationship and me from her memory. Goes on with me like I'm a robot without any feelings but perfectly fine when she's with her friends.
Wouldn't be so bad if I didn't have to see her every other day to spend time with my daughter. Hurts like hell that I still care for her but there's just a wall of ice.
swedeinsuede · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
Nobody_PT · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
anothermotherrunner · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FUCKING FRACTIONS! Both my second grader and fourth grader are doing fractions right now and I can't for the life of me figure out how to explain it to them. I'm not a teacher, I didn't sign up for this homeschooling shit. It dawned on my earlier this week that I do math at a first grade level, thanks corona.
na7oul · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huuuuuuumans
SlimeFart · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Is it a trip?
Is it a path to fortune or to suffering?
Life is a thing I could never fully understand,
But no one can.
Only what the person thinks life is,
Is what life could become to them.
What life can conjure up for the misfortunate,
Could be a start or an end to a person's life.
We may never know.
IceeIvy · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Fried_Cheesee · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What does resistance do if it doesn't decrease the current!?
bysonXD · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminism
dicdic777777 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Results the same w medication most times you feel normal and like you dont need meds but really thats whats making you normal if your getting shit results your doing a shit job
lly44 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
zachthepotatosack · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meiosis 1 and 2
J_Man_the_german · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson
aleximus2000 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since i started the 5th grade, i couldnt understand anything at maths.
thetaqocat · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The education system.
realCmdData · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. There are so many exceptions and rule and it seems like every year the whole subjects gets retaught because its so difficult.
FrostyHoneyBun · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad thinks going outside everyday fir 8 hours when he dosent allow us to leave the front yard, is somehow fun
Mycaha · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
CptFrostie · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a lot of teens are being treated like they are 9 (me included)
SinisterMinista666 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other languages
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't we 'force' our brain to memorize something deliberately, but it will remember often trivial moments and details.
And then there are some who remember almost every second of their life. And people who can listen to a song once and remember every note.
senpia4344 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when somebody says oof like why it makes no sense !!!!!!!
young-mum2019 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can abuse someone for years and not care
RedSandman · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How no one thought to ask for a reference or qualification for the sign “interpreter” for Nelson Mandela’s funeral. I don’t even know South African sign but even knowing British sign language, I could tell that dude was just waving his hands around.
punk_rock_papa · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus:(
Good_morning_man · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe the Earth is flat. How does someone above the age of seven go "fuck this I'm going to make up my own brand of science".
ducklingugly1 · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
to be or not to be.
stokeszdude · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe in god and their reasons or lack there of.
Believe what you want. I really don’t care but when I question things about some people’s religion, they get angry and can’t support their beliefs with any knowledge or simple convictions.
I’m not questioning them as a person, just their choice of religion and why. Should be simple right?
I just don’t get the willful ignorance or the defensive ignorance to something that is supposed to be profoundly enlightening.
Co_Brien · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How yt could take down jacksepticeye’s charity stream
Nural_the_Narwhal · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone has already said this and I know it's a joke but. For real. Magnets. Not so much the positive attracts negative, but everything after that. Whenever I see or hear any explanation my mind just goes blank and I hear white noise. Like Me. Brain says "no kiddo you don't need to listen to this". I legitimately have no clue about magnetism.
ShoutAtThe_Devil · 1 points · Posted at 18:57:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Web programming
GlacierWolf8Bit · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would talk about some convoluted, relatively small gripe about a thing many people do not care about.
I don't really understand the science behind carbon-capturing technology. I just only know a surface-level understanding of it.
Mannyadock · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feelings apparently, according to my girlfriend.
Genuinely, I've been questioning myself lately
DinglerBerries · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
if you can collect unemployment if you are fired for performance in NC. i cant find a clear answer
Zieldar · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can ur garden be sunnier when it faces south instead of north cos a compass is like 360 so surely it’s just the same all around
Cqla · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/mathmemes
MorningLineDirt · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife
j_grouchy · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. I mean, I understand the basic stuff like 1s and 0s and bits and bytes... But I genuinely have no idea how all that becomes the device I'm typing this on.
quasur · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why are there 8 flavours are of gluons and not 9
Funky_Mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. Even though I am taught about it in school, I can never wrap my head around interest, savings, loans and stuff like that.
Trebol_Demon_King · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(Personal in a way) Why my friend says he'll be there for me when I'm having issues or something and when I text him, he never replies.
StarlitxSky · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My purpose. How ppl can be so cruel and heartless. And math. I don’t understand math.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be such hypocrites and do stupid shit and not understand how their wrong and then they lie and shit to their friends, like you legit did EVERYTHING wrong here, now stop fucking harassing me. But then it turns out i’m harassing them by not responding much
t-h-r-o-w-away69 · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it interesting and hard to understand how we are sentient beings who have our own thoughts and control our own flesh bodies. I find it very cool how much we also can learn.
fluffy_mcnuggles · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How data is transmitted from device to device.
ShinyDarkraiPokemon · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot understand some people's actions. Like someone will do something wrong after being told how to do it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are some people out there so unbelievably stupid- SO lacking in basic human understanding, and yet somehow manage to lead relatively normal lives. What the f-yahuck?
emmidkwhat · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
human
maddamleblanc · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
People can be awful, wonderful, and everything in between. As a species we destroy our planet and build unnatural things and are in general so unnatural it doesn't make sense for humans even to exist.
To be short, humans are weird and don't make sense.
BornEve · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The offside rule. I’ve got to of had it explained to me a hundred times. I still don’t get it?!
JaybirdMcD27 · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slope/inter slope
oldladyfromtitanic · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like many, probably, how many people support Trump and think he cares about American people.
Laker_Nurse · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be anti-vaxxers
geadhetter · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced quantum mechanics
fntommy · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women..... and my self.
kittydumpling25 · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
CaffineFuledGamer · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics and Bitcoin. I've been mildly I tested in understanding the concepts but I just don't get it after multiple tries on each.
ShadyK55 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers. i. I just don't get how it works to even have that number
Underdonetoast_bot · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How enormous planes fly. I've watched videos and heard explanations, but my mind will never comprehend it. That thing is so heavy and it's just... FLYING
corcoran_jon · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can write down my goals and my visions but then get stuck procrastinating versus taking action.
pickledchickenfoot · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Free will.
wianatade · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Influences. The concept of God. Men who father children then ghost them.
kai_v18 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of Physics 2
Ayerrow · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does chocolate milk come from brown cows?
TheOriginalFluff · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people pay $160 for shoes, mine are $40 and I guarantee they will last longer and do the exact same thing. Also why caraway seeds exist. Made spaghetti last night and those damn things were everywhere in the sauce, ruining dinner for me
Exotic_Butters6600 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Willowpuff · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that “aliens” in space are more than likely “things” we can’t even comprehend. They won’t be physical beings they could be literally anything. Also of the same ilk, colours in different places. Light will be different and the colours will be different and we would never know them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Purpose of life. No suicidal shit I just don’t get it
phil4822 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hoarding toilet paper during the covid-19 pandemic.
legoyoda1995 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie supporters
Paulthefool · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social media influencers
xSedd · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of it all, sometimes
fisherig · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Dave-CPA · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corporate loyalty. Like, why try so hard to convince me to use a brand? I do tend to stick with brands/products that I’ve used and like, but I don’t care what someone else does.
Cars, phones and computers are the worst about this.
fairybel12 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans.
Seriously why are all of you so weird and complex, can you not?
On a more serious note: I seriously do not understand why people are so bad and mean in nature, they act like they're the most important thing in the world, think they can buy their place into shit, even if it's just a DnD group (we had a limit is seven people per group, and this fucking human literally asked to the DM, after we had told her full is full, you're too late, how much he wanted, money, to get her into that specific group... Then acted like we were the badguys for not allowing her to do so, and be a little offended, and very baffled, that she even tried that.
Fuckin humans dude
teddlikesbread · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
DarkedBane · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf I understanded math I middle school, and now in math related high school I am almost failing math class. Or how we think, like everyone thinks but how, how they see world, like me or not, maybe with more emotions or less ect.
b00c · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
svahili
dhulmelowe · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people fight when they know it's wrong? I know not everyone knows the difference between right and wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so fucking rude and noT EVEN CARE. I THINK ABOUT THAT SHIT FOR YEARS
betsydallas · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Embarrassingly, almost all concepts about space and time. My partner is really into space and we have watched multiple documentaries together and every time I think I’m beginning to understand who revolves around who or what a light year is, it just kind of slips out of my brain.
I would genuinely not be able to explain the structure of the solar system, the universe, the galaxy etc. if asked. Makes me sad because I like understanding and knowing things and being proud of my brain for grappling with things, and eventually grasping them. But space... spaces makes my brain say no.
Tantalus4200 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
UnderFiveNine · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Victim mentality, Not to say that there isn’t real victims of things. But like shoot yourself in the foot and blame the person you bought the gun from, whole world is out to get me kind of mentality.
Diplomarmus · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marriage.
mikeslover · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate, racism, misogyny, misandry, homophobia etc etc
dstakh · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
sphildreth · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That someone thinks adding a laugh track to a terrible unfunny television show makes it more tolerable.
bannapants67 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Friends
Illarie · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can genuinely hate people and thing they don't know. I have a really hard time with it and always have, even as a small child.
I feel like that is 90% of bigotry and hate is simply not knowing and caring to understand.
LuciCurt · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monogamy and sexual jealousy. I’ve tried to but I just don’t understand why most people take sex so seriously and base relationships off of it and base whether or not you love someone by how much you can deny your desires for others.
Renic_92 · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life...
TheSanityInspector · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between a new moon and a lunar eclipse. Don't bother explaining; I've looked it up many times, but it never sticks with me.
stranger2Me · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How maths came about. Like who came up with it and how did it even make sense?
dothisdothat · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thinks Donald Trump is an even mediocre president.
financial_pete · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a 5 years old mind works and how to get anything productive done while in the same room as a the 5 year old.
MrMicrowave1212 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Villagers
PrincessCritterPants · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
😭
Ninjanoel · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how consciousness or awareness emerges from computation. if our brains are supposed to be wet compute machines, that create our minds, then how is awareness created by that computation. i think it may actually be a nonsensical question, but this is the current modern view of the brain and consciousness.
Mr_Mankind_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“The straw that breaks the camels back” scenario to any situation. Say, if an elevator can only carry xyz amount of nickels at once max, what would happen if you added an extra nickel, or dime or penny? any situation can relate back to the “straw”, and it’s mind boggling to think about.
Ecklescake · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why my salary doesn't change during a leap year.
steffloc · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that are okay with being obese or living unhealthy lifestyles
RatigatorStew · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People, in general. I've spent my life trying to figure people out and I can't. Sometimes I think I'm not human.
dhleersh · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. There’s so much that doesn’t scientifically make sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why is the music in grocery stores so loud? I forget to buy things. seems contrary to good business model.
banomann · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YouTube comment sections. They used to discuss the video. Now it's, "Who's watching in 2020" etc.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that has always happened
banomann · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It hasn't really, I've been on YouTube since it first came out. Comment sections used to be much better. Now they are eye cancer.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well youtube comments quality has decreased a lot but I have seen comments like who is watching this is in 2014
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the movie avatar. i literally don’t get it at all
gmh182 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Locks that require specific keys. Like how the heck are there so many thousands/millions of combinations to make them work, and how smart were the people who invented them to come up with something so intricate and complex back in the day!
itsBoosterGold · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW TIME IS RELATIVE
emiyamermaid · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Common core math
boomboombazookajeff · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people gravitate towards professional athletes/singers/actors instead of really great thinkers. I imagine the world would be a better place if people chose the latter.
Scriptweilder · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of when you say a century, it refers to the century before. For example, the 18th century is the 1700's. Everyone explains it to me but I just don't get it.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first century was the 00's
grumpyEric · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:01:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t listen to Eric, he’s just grumpy.
grumpyEric · 2 points · Posted at 19:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahahahaa thank you. It’s true
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No prob.
ALLmorningglories · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Converting moles to mol. and also... Chemical electron jumping. 🤔
Danielwols · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why there are such stupid people alive
Gareeb7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arbitrary concepts on language Why does table is named table, how does the basic establishment of words and language work if it’s so common of us to use, why isn’t a common knowledge. As someone who’s a native spanish speaker, rules, grammar and orthography are thrown at us like 12 years of our lives but still we don’t know how does it work from the beginning.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity worshi. Any celebrity no matter how great he/she was
macswaj · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans not lining up in droves to vote for Bernie Sanders
thrownaway351 · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Light years. More specifically things that are 1000s of light years apart. When we talk about distances that large I don't think it's possible for any human grasp.
dj-wins · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Littered poop bags. Why go through the effort of picking up the poop if you are going to litter the bag
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Political Compass
Ready-Option · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
carvana. What kind of psychopath buys a car online?
ForestFlowerFairy · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti Vaxers!! If a Corona vaccination became available are they gonna refuse it? I hope not ofc i hope everyone gets it but I seriously dont understand those people.
Yo_Yo_Piraka · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Redstone and Command blocks.
The-Mega-Dude · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parasites
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics at the college level
Soomroz · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers.
MarkZuckerman · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck we tricked an electric rock into thinking.
garrett_k · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make people like me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics/physics. It just doesn't compute in my brain.
donteverforanyreason · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any language besides English. Also, most English.
Andrew262007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok why do women orgasm like I get why men do it,sperms and stuff but why women.This May be a stupid question but it’s bugged me for a while
pussycat2605 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Name of things.
Like why "chair" is named chair? why "wall" is called wall? And why people believe in god. like they say he always existed, i dont understand how god always existed. And how universe is eternal. I just can't imagine something begging eternal. (I dont know English very good)
BosslyDoggins · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe in money and currency still, like we transitioned (as an entire planet) to a surplus economy a few decades after the industrial revolution took off, we produce more food/houses/water/power/clothing than we could possible imagine using all at one time but there are still people living in what we consider substandard conditions, going without things we physiologically need for the simple fact that they don't have enough chunks of metals/paper notes. Living like this in the current day and age is incredibly cruel, not to mention completely unnecessary.
simonlindley90 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space....well...not all of it...I kinda get solar systems and planets etc etc...but galaxies...wtf...where does one galaxy start and the other end? What's inbetween them? And the universe? Where does it end...what's at the end? A wall? It cant just end can it?
TheRealFigenskar · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
LoyolaProp1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deep bro.
firelark01 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the need for pride parades a part of the LGBT community has. Like sure you exist and all but parading in the streets and being loud and obnoxious about it is just gonna make your life worse. No one likes protests or whatever. No one.
Also, before all hell comes raining down on me for 'being homophobic', i'm bisexual so stfu.
ErohaTamaki · 0 points · Posted at 19:11:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parades and stuff are necessary to make people know LGBT exists. Also the parades are good mental support for people in shitty families
hippochili · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't stay inside during lock down, the longer you wander around the longer the lock down will be and the greater the number of deaths. STAY INSIDE
lextasy666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers. I’ve had it explained to me a million times my brain just doesn’t get it
TorontoGameDevs · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fac machines
Angelgrave · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heisenberg's unceirtanty principle. Everytime someone tries to explain ot like it's so obvious, it just makes no sense to me.
TalontheKiller · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seeing a family out cycling and while the kids are wearing their helmets, the adults are not. I just... I don't get that logic. Who takes care of the kids if the adult gets a head injury?
Bigsaskatuna · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dance emotes in online shooters. I find it disrespectful to the military, back in my day we just tea bagged and moved on like respectable soldiers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
FlameSword57 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit how it works is a mystery
vit-ruvius · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monty Hall problem.
B-AP · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was rewatching Mad Men this week and there’s an episode where they are recreating the beginning of Bye, Bye Birdie to sell diet drinks to women. The one woman who is in creative tells them that it doesn’t speak to the audience they want to purchase. The boss tells her that she’s wrong and that it will make women want to be like the girl in the commercial and men will want to see the ad. They make it exactly to the specifications of the client who naturally does like it. Even though they can’t explain why.
You have people who aren’t in the demographic to buy the products, creating what they think the fantasy of that demographic should be. If you want an interesting look into marketing, it’s a fantastic show, but in all honesty; not much has changed in the decades that have followed.
Aztreas · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity.
I understand the concept, but why does it happen?
GhostRydaar · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the earth isnt flat.
goingtokmsrn · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The quotient rule
Vylinful · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Argentinian obsession over the Falklands/Malvinas
BlindedMonk24 · 1 points · Posted at 19:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people use their dishwashers but they pre-rinse. Just clean the whole dish while ur at it!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rape. How does someone do that to another?
Bronwyn321 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who have been abused can go on to do that to other people. You know the pain so why make someone else go through it? Especially in this day and age
trinketsandbiscuits · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thermodynamics And given how much we covered it in school, I really thought I’d be using it more. Thank God I don’t have to.
likemyhashtag · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity.
I don’t think humans can comprehend that something just doesn’t end. We are creatures on a linear path of past, present and future. The concept of forever just doesn’t make sense.
Lobby11095 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most people get awards for askreddits but I don’t even get answers.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 19:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
most people don't get answers, its just that you only see the popular ones
Lobby11095 · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True
printandpolish · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why we still can't keep toilet paper in stock in stores right now. it's been weeks.
AliG8204 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works.
Sonofabishnugget · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people of my age group 15-20 are so eager to get into fights, I have encountered so many kids that want to fight someone and this includes my younger sister.
rocangla · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Girls
And yes, how the universe formed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
Hellboufire · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people believe the earth is flat
Kalkaline · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An uncountable amount of what are basically on off switches account for all of human knowledge.
VolatileYouths · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity can make things work.
another_hentaiburner · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ALRIGHT, YOU WANNA KNOW FINE?! I ADMIT IT, I DON'T KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS!! HE ERASES TIME BUT WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?! IF YOU ERASE TIME THEN SHOULDN'T HE NOT BE THERE?! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN- WHAT DOES HE MEAN HE ERASES TIME?! HE ERASES TIME BUT STUFF STILL HAPPENS IN IT!! HOW DOES HE KNOW WHAT HAPPENS IN IT WHEN HE ERASES IT?! IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME! YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME! FINE! YOU CAN FREEZE TIME AND YOU CAN TURN BACK TIME, BUT YOU CAN'T ERASE TIME!! THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE! IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!! YOU ERASE TIME NOTHING HAPPENS IN IT!! I DON'T KNOW, I DON'T KNOW SOMEONE TELL ME! SOMEONE TELL ME HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS! I NEED TO KNOW! I NEED TO KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS, PLEASE!!! PLEASE, JUST TELL ME!! I NEED TO KNOW! SOMEONE EXPLAIN IT! ITS CONFUSING I DON'T KNOW, HOW DOES KING CRIMSON WORK?!?! HOW DOES IT WORK?! HOW DOES KING CRIMSON WORK PLEASE!! PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME I NEED TO KNOW HOW KING CRIMSON WORKS!!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, how someone can be neither boy nor girl. Like, I really do try to understand, but it doesn't compute. I'm definitely open to education, though.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
intersex people exist so that proves that sex isn't just male or female (although society does usually force intersex people into one of those roles)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:16:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean more of the whole identity thing. Like, if you're AFAB or AMAB and you grow up and don't identify as either male or female. If that makes any sense??? I appreciate the comment, though!
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gender dysphoria is basically when someone hates their bodies gender. If they can't change their body they feel depressed and suicidal. Having a body that is their preferred gender and people using their preferred pronouns gives them gender euphoria, basically they feel very happy (the first time someone used female pronouns on me I smiled the entire day)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually, that makes a lot more sense if you compare the dysphoria/euphoria thing. But how does that include the non-binary people?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They get dysphoria other being called both male and female and get euphoria from looking androgynous and people using the pronouns they/them
I should also mention that some trans people don't get dysphoria/get barely any, they just get the euphoria (the trans community is a bit split over that, people who think that you need dysphoria to be trans are called truscum)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:32:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, yeah. That makes sense.
Actually, I met a trans person one day at my last job. She said she was MTF and was wearing makeup. She did a fantastic job and I was telling her how beautiful she was, and I was hoping that wouldn't trigger the dysphoric feeling, but I was afraid to ask if I had. I honestly don't want to hurt anyone, and wouldve felt badly if I had. I couldn't tell if she looked uncomfortable because of that, or maybe I shouldn't have complimented her?? But I told her she was pretty before I knew she was trans, so idk. I get very awkward about these situations.
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All you have to do is use the correct pronouns and treat them the same as you would with anyone else. If its something that you would have said it to a cis person then it's perfectly fine.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, it for sure was. Just the look on her face made me think I said something to make her feel bad. But I'll definitely take this education going forward. Thank you for your time!
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They could have just been in a bad mood because of something that happened earlier, I am sure that it wasn't your fault
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also true. I tend to internalize negative thoughts like that.
xDh20 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't people maintain social distancing
Nobellium_Uranium0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck WERE you before you were created inside the womb? I just imagine it as an black void where all of your senses are shut off
NonprofessionalUrl · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The audacity.
sineadquinnp · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you always see one guy In the winter wearing a coat and shorts 🤷♀️
xd_Erik16 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
MRC1893 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bowling scoring.
ITSURDOG · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why middle class / lower class people still vote for Tory's
CornerstoneBakery · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never really understood how cars work. Like stuff that has to do with the battery, engine, transmission, suspension. I just can’t seem to wrap my head around it. I’ve been taking a stab at it recently since I purchased a pretty nice vehicle and want to take proper care of my baby. But it’s a lot to wrap my head around especially since I was never taught anything about cars growing up
PurrPurrNya · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can tell you how much they love you, but yet never show it.
whahoppen314 · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the fuck okays those really shitty movies that are going to clearly fail bu thinks its a good idea.
eastcoastgrump · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
who do people worship individuals in higher positions? for example: thousands will line up to wave at the celebrity passing by or at a president or some shit.
what do those people get from that wave they did that the celebrity probably didnt even notice or even if noticed will forget in 30 seconds?
erck_bill · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How certain political groups, like femi-, can come up with the dumbest ideas
the-only-marmalade · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How American's have gotten away with so much, ie world power dynamics.
Part of me wants to put on a tin foil hat and build myself a bunker, while another part of me really wants to start playing the game dirty.
kukheart · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bob Dylan singing
_mustakrakish · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 5G conspiracy nut jobs
EdgarMeowlanPoe · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Duck face or lips in selfies. Is it supposed to make you look attractive? I don’t get it. Why is it a thing? Just smile......it’s way sexier.
SazzGuy · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we just learn an entirely new language as babies with correct grammar and everything while I have learnt basically nothing from 15 years of French in school
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hivemind thinking. Why can't people come up with their own thoughts? Like we really live in a simulation, and using enough processing power to make everyone unique is too much to ask.
Wanting to have human babies. Or other instincts people aren't able to control. Is it really so hard to let your higher brain functions do the thinking? Get over yourselves already.
TLDR: Why are human beings so simplistic and stupid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe.
OROHSH · 1 points · Posted at 19:02:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi. Why can it pass through me?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cat in front of my is driving slow. Car behind me decides to rides my ass. WTF is that rationale?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, I just don't understand having faith over what you can see with your own two eyes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frats/Sororities. I understand basic need for social approval and what not, but god damn they’re so annoying.
J-J16 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Signal-Income · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Engineering dynamics
WR810 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you're disgusted with how to federal government is handling COVID-19, if you (rightly) believe the government has a long history of racism, and if you hate Donald Trump why on God's earth would you think it's a good idea to socialize our medicine, especially with Sanders' Medicare for All that would abolish private insurance.
realjacen_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did language get translated, like how did they do it? Did an english speaker and a german speaker point at an apple and say "apple" and "apfel"?
intro1337 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who know about the impact meat has on the environment and the animals but are not willing to make an effort towards reducing meat/diary intake.
kovick1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why mom explained "safe sex" to me at 9 10? 911please!!?
Bigsaskatuna · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are obsessed with celebrity culture
Grazza123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the majority of US citizens think they’re free
NullStory · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. Racism. Misogyny. I genuinely don’t understand how people can be anti-human in any way.
hello_i_use_reddit · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
HomeLessFrogg · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why this old cap gun came from. Can’t find anything close to it anywhere else, as far as I know it’s the only one in existence.
Wolfrunt · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell people are so spoiled. What the hell goes through these people's minds?
Leopold_22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recursion
BadRASSh · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The greed of America’s oligarchy. How could ANYone be so myopic as to weaken our country from the roots up for short term financial gain?
drivefrontier · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do video game or movie disks produce video games and movies?
camsalter95 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why Disney is giving their classic movies pointless bland remakes. Like, why can't they just make something new and original? They're never gonna top the original films, so they should just stop now.
mekhhhzz · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. Like i sorta understand the very basics but beyond that ,I really cannot.
101DarkKnight · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro, I legit don’t understand how mankind can encode frequencies inside of wavelengths. My computer networks class right now is just boggling my mind and it’s really hard to grasp the concepts of somehow putting signals into the air and it actually working. Like, how?!
Asullenriot · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money, and how it works...like when countries are poor I don’t understand why they can’t just print more money without the value of it going down. I’ve had it explained several times to me and I still can’t grasp it.
marleyman3389 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean, I think the better question is what do you genuinely understand? I don't think most of us understand much.
Not saying this condescendingly, just when you get to the core of something, we often understand very little.
beders · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It black holes are slowly evaporating what happens to the singularity? And will at one point light be able to escape again?
Intelligent-Usual · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people believe 5G causes covid?
cardinalchaos3889 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why nobody loves me
sommthingfortified · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my neighbours are having a bbq with all their mates right now...
General_Squirrel_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who leave their dogs in the streets
GalileoGalilei2012 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How simply observing something can change the outcome in quantum physics.
Seems like opening reality.exe in cheatengine and watching hex addresses change
Brofistnegro · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
kaboom5497 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That random mini-existential crisis during the loading screen of the game
whatupwithit · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
Supafly22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain. How is every new thing “powered by blockchain”? Why does every brand have a cryptocurrency now? Why did we need a Pep$iCoin?
spartask99 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How shell companies work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I’ll just be laying in my bed, waiting for the bliss of sleep to take over, and I’ll just become self aware of my own existence and confuse the absolute hell out of myself. Why? Why does this happen?
RisenPhantom · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who gag when spitting out toothpaste
kiddro651 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math lol
daveed4445 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern Monetary Policy, like taxes are just to deflate the inflated money created out of thin air by the fed... 🤯🤯🤯
victorZ34 · 1 points · Posted at 19:03:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it sounds lame, but death/pre-birth. like, whats it like not existing? do you just see black? do you see at all? do you go to heaven or hell? does anything exist beyond? do you get reincarnated?
And the shit that keeps me up at night: you live your life, and done. you're gone. forever. you might think it'll last until something happens but nothing will. ever, ever, ever. nothing.
Life is unexplainably, amazingly, divinely valuable. make use of it, don't throw it away.
FaZe_M3M3L0RD · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some of us Americans can think we live in the greatest country ever to exist. Like bruh our government is fucked, so is our economics system and don’t get me started on the social issues. Nevermind we have the biggest military spending budget instead of free healthcare so therefore we’re the best WOOOOOOOO USA USA USA 🇺🇸
Muttfromstatefarm · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market is holding up with all the negative reports coming out
TheChickenNecks · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cartoons used to air on TV. The way I imagine it is that there is a reel like a slideshow. I can see voice actors talking to the motion they see on the screen. I don’t understand how that got that to televisions around the world. Did they have a camera that was recording, pointed towards the reel slideshow? Like, I don’t understand
Rakaezae · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is the world like this today? I mean… The continents, the culture… What if Columbus didn't arrived to America and died in the middle of the ocean? What would be the world after that? Would we be in the same place that we are right now?
This is how one event can change the fucking world's history.
F_da_memeboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW can someone like GENUALY like Maths? Especially algebruh! Whenever there is a problem on the board that one or three kids will shout ironically but knowing like shit it's not ironic they tell out "EaSy" or "SomeThing HaRd" it makes my blood boil really, I know just because I can't understand it it makes me look like a jerk but Holy shit I don't understand WHY and How can they enjoy it ?!
pineapple_morning · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination. Why hate on someone purely because they are different from you.
whatsinsideofagirl · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to lose weight. So much information on there it's almost daunting to know where to look or begin.
MACH1NE_99 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidity.
Like I really try to understand stupid people, but I can’t. Lack of knowledge and common information in people makes me wanna hit the wall with my head when I try to explain something basic.
janosss123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many shit memes get to front lage of reddit, like absolute trash shitposts get so many fucking upvotes
bambiartistic · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like drama. It’s so stressful!
sarah_the_intern · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone with blindness+deafness is able to be taught abstract concepts well enough to write about it + become a lecturer. I’m specifically thinking about Helen Keller
MaxIMusFuckIt · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printing.
gamasco · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck can the overall debt of the world increase
moazim1993 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As in if party A has debt party B owns the debt, then over all there in no debt. That’s correct, but that’s not what they mean by overall debt. The US has 23trillion in debt, that’s the US federal government as an entity has that much in bonds out standing. Lots of regular folks as well as large entities like China can own buy and sell that debt.
Lucianoluxx · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
4TonnesofFury · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work with all the outside interference like the sun, the magnetosphere and background radiation.
goingistheway · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does Suzie lu trying to take down the commentry community like wth
MrNaegi · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
blueevey · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meatloaf and green beans casserole
Yaveton · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How human body is so durable and so fragile at the same time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the majority of people cannot admit when they are wrong.
heihahe · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The structure of corporations. Why is it that the people who actually do the work and make the company run make these least amount of money and have the least say in how the company is run? Why are there so many levels of unnecessary management and why do they get paid more despite the fact that they have little knowledge not processes and are completely unnecessary to the actual running of the operation. This is made obvious when a merger occurs and those middle managers are the first to go. None of it makes sense to me.
abrokedad · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cell phones
Breadcar · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people cheat in video games?
square_donuts · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegemite.
egregiousphilbin1981 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pulleys work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many Americans use the swastika proudly in the country like do they not remember the second world War
OgDickLongFlop · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My intro to economics course.
Suh_its_AJ · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Religion is still a thing, and how we haven't realized that we are literal gods in the eyes of ancient people, from cell phones to microbiology, we have the power to change the climate yet we don't, because "god" will look after us. We are god now. We are the Captain now, and we're sending her straight into an iceberg while engulfed in flames screaming Despacito
hangoveralien · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths I litteraly can't understand how it works or why it's so confusing.
Darth_Zounds · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are so many stray dogs in my town.
taekook14 · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are homophobic, racist etc. Like, everyone is different can’t you just accept that? You don’t choose to be born white or black, or straight or gay, yet some people are so horrible about it! its just ridiculous
zeldawhatelse · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how computers, TVs, cell phones, or really any advanced electronics actually work. The INTERNET!?!?!?!
Trexican13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
kklorgiax · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computers/smartphones work. Like how does metal and electricity make light on a screen ???
hamdinitron · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Army leadership
jimbojoneswompwomp · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
who / whom
Houseofcards32 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math.
anything math.
Dopebox81 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can eat olives without vomiting
MrGerbz · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much about brand(ed) clothing. Especially if it's an unoriginal design with just the company name on it. Why pay to be a walking ad?
DulcetTone · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity
mini__man · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How and where trends are made
EndlessBellyButton8 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cellular respiration
mufc_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How world economy works? The money markets? Where did paper currency come from? Can somebody break it down for me please?
FullovJoy · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers and people who reject science. I guess it boils down to not understanding ignorance.
BeautifulRelief · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person, but especially a parent, can intentionally hurt and/or kill a child of any age.
TVDfan29 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Kraggen · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a selfish one but I don’t get why I’m not more successful. I’ve done things the right way. I’m pretty smart, people like me, I went to college and try my best to do good things and to treat people well. Yet here I am, living a normal average life. It’s not bad, please don’t get me wrong... I just thought it would be something a bit more special.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every cuntry is not united yet to one big UnitedNation of earth ? What the hell. I mean yes, language could be issue and loss of culture would hurt but other then that ?
TheRtHonLaqueesha · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Holy Trinity
killinchy · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why God made half of the animal kingdom want to eat the other half.
I'm not trying to be smart. I have never got a convincing explanation, and I've been asking for over 70 years.
smoothVroom21 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homeowner insurance claims, and property taxes. Its almost like they purposely make it confusing to understand...
landenle · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is poop sock!
SaveTheNecks · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Teenagers who have no acne or pimples at all.
usernamesarehard1979 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we exist. Not in the way of “what is my purpose?” (I’ve been told it’s to pass the butter). But why is anything here in the first place. What is now, has always been, maybe there has been millions of big bangs, maybe this is the first, but what was before?
eddiehodson10 · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fleming’s left hand rule. No matter how easy others find it and how much its been explained to me, I cannot understand it.
Noob_l · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thermodynamics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:05:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I keep having dreams, and they happen later in real life. For example, one time me and my mom ate pizza in my dream, and I had not seen her in a month. And she came over to visit and we were wearing the exact same clothes, and eating pizza.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do British students have to do English literature and language. Just do SPaG and done.
its_aeric · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
HauntingTsundere · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
eelvist · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of tik tok
basicallyagiant · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My grandma doesn’t understand tik tok and she just texted me asking if I wanted to use it.
here
Eazzyee · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The invention of technology and computers. I just can't perceive how the fuck it was all started and then continues to grow so rapidly, it breaks my brain
darceymickelle · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of forever
itsagoodtime · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to shop and change insurance companies
anneque3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do children do drugs.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
humonculus87 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotion. I don't have a lot of the same reactions to stuff as other people. I don't understand a lot of it.
Relmert · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of time dilation. Just dont get it it wrinkles my brain.
flmks · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we like what we like.
Is it because of nurture, nature, experiences etc. Can we change what we don't like and like? Or are we wired to like some things more than others?
joybickel · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why celebrities houses are always so large and empty. I swear those houses look severely uncomfortable and not cozy at all. What makes it so appealing to live in a giant house that it uncomfortable and too clean to feel like a home?
pizza_hawwai · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i am forced to stop gaming with my friends and watch tv in silence downstairs. I am still looking at a tv and i get way more enjoyment from playing games.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people need to bring politics into everything or play politics.
In India, it's pretty prevalent. *sighs*
MrPeterson15 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of “before our universe.”
No matter if you’re a creationist and believe that your god or gods created it, or whether you prefer the Big Bang theory or some other scientific theory, the fact that once there was nothing and that somehow became something always fascinates me.
rocketsneaker · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To this day, I still do not understand why, in the the movie "A Christmas Story", when Ralphie says the F word in front of his dad, gets punished for it, and his mom asks where he heard the word from, WHY doesn't he say he heard it from his dad?
He has his whole internal monologue about it, and there's not really a reason he gives as to why exactly he didn't tell on his dad. All we get it "I chickened out", and then he tells his mom he heard it from his friend.
If I made that mistake, you can bet your ass I'd be saying it heard it from dad. That would be my get out of jail free card! But for some reason, Ralphie doesn't, and after watching the movie every christmas for so many years, I still genuinely do not understand why he doesn't blame it on his dad.
Neexy- · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia
awyrpictures · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it feels to not have depression
sb_333 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Just anything math related. How the fuck does 1+1=2. How is this proven I don't understand. What kind of mind fuckery is this.
miksedup · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic. And the stock market.
TobiasBlueMe · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phases of the moon. I mean, I think I understand the Earth casting a shadow on the moon... But why is is so regular each night?
ChaikV25 · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Reddit carma is calculated
Jeikond · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
WaxingRhapsodic · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing. I've read through several explanations, watched videos... I don't get it at all.
beddyby12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of death. It genuinely scares me that life just stops. Is it like when you’re asleep and dreaming? Or is it just nothing? Because when you’re an infant, you have no recollection of anything and don’t start becoming aware of your thoughts until you’re, what, 4 or 5? I’m terrified to lose any of my family members, because I’m afraid I won’t ever see them again. I can’t function without them and I’m fucking terrified.
Argun_Enx · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division.
IUIUIUIUIUIUIUIUI · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can someone NOT have an inner monologue?
TheMarquisofBoredom · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand animal abuse. Here you have chosen to have the responsibility of caring for something that is ENTIRELY dependent on you for food, water, love, attention, and shelter, and yet people still decide to beat and neglect their pets. What’s worse is that (and I’m not saying abusing people is any better by any means) the animal that’s being abused can’t even understand that they are being abused because the owner is a jackass, not that they have done something wrong. The worst part is the fact that the animal, especially in dogs and other standard domestic pets because they have developed over time to be loyal to those immediately around them, will keep going back over and over to be abused.
Imheretoramble · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck am I making less working than I would be if I was sitting at home doing nothing?
bobby_pancho · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
TysonGoesOutside · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-gun people. I understand a fear of guns.. kinda.. but most people who are adamantly anti gun dont actually know anything about guns and used extremely flawed logic and a victim mentality.
RadJavox · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Topology
BoyAndHisSnek · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetic circuits.
Bananawamajama · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many things about radio.
Why do radio stations all play talk shows in the morning when their primary audience goes to that station for nusic?
Why do they sometimes arbitrarily speed up or slow down songs by tiny amounts?
Why do they spend so God damn long on their catch phrases and self promotions when the only people listening to those ads are already their audience?
Why do all the radio stations sometimes play the same song repeatedly even though that song came out like 5 years ago, and then later they suddenly stop?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stigma around being an emotional guy
ryseterion · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it that mostly Asian ethnic people run donut shops and barber shops
brainpain152 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. I genuinely don’t understand how it all works, how the majority of whatever party is in cabinet (or whatever it’s called in Canada). I just don’t understand any of it.
Also, fractions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options and how to use them to
makelose moneyEggswith_Toast · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how evolution knows what the fuck its doing. Like does it just do whatever the fuck it wants and whatever happens happens? Or does it add very specific things related to its environment? If so then how does it know what environment its in or what its like? Its weird and uncalled for.
avengeance · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am such a failure in life
yapster · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and cognitive dissonance
17jan00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When my mom says: "Dinner's ready", but is not
BentanX · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
Cheveyo · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote to increase their own taxes then complain that it's so expensive to live where they are.
flowerfoxeygaming · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people like anime sex, it's weird
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer code works, how do robots understand computer code, and how exactly can you program something with code if it can’t understand code in the first place?
HEM0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry and Pythagoras
Melly520 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math :/
dob_bindi · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ionic Equilibrium
Well_Endowed12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/AskReddit
stretchey · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people give awards on reddit
intensitynine · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been watching Formula 1 for quite some time now. I understand how important scoring points when the driver and/or team is fighting for the world championship. What I don't understand is why scoring even a single point is a big thing for the rest of the field.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the increased revenue it generates helping to secure the team’s future helps too.
intensitynine · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see. It turns out scoring more points gives you a bigger share of the prize money.
SgtMajMythic · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how some people can seem so happy and positive all the time :/
QuetzalKraken · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy. I go to work 5-6 days a week, the 7th is laundry, cleaning, and some video games. Then it starts all over again. I like my job, I like my life outside of work, but when I look forward to doing the same stuff for the next 40 years... it feels like I'm wasting my life away and there's no escape, because whatever I end up doing will always feel the same. Work work work sleep do laundry work work work video games work play work work.
WeWantExtraIce · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can hate a whole group of people to the point where they think they should be enslaved or exterminated.
TheCosmicSquid8 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I’m gay so I don’t understand how you could be sexually attracted to a female.
Alcatraz-12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of this existence being the "main" existence
Arvidex · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How feature filma with millions poured into them can suck sooo much sometimes.
Mr-Nonchalant · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ugly and stupid looking shoes with a brand logo sells so well
Habenerogangsta · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life began from a few elements in the early stages of Earth.
eigreb · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eating meat.
jujuonthebeat26 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics and stocks.
SailoreC · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we move our limbs. You don't ever notice sending a conscious message from your brain to your arms to type or to your legs to run. It just happens, and it sorta freaks me out.
sittingonthetoilet13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be mega filthy rich. Imagine buying whatever you want at any cost at any moment without hesitation. To never have to worry about financial problems.
satyrbears · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe not the funniest post out here, but generally prejudice towards minorities. i mean, i understand the root causes of it and all, but... we're all grown here, aren't we? can't we cut this bullshit out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
VinnyA69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heavy metal.
goronado · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anything that requires me to do math
cakes_and_boots · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people just treat minorities like they're not as human as everyone else? Seriously, too much hate goes on in the world.
rsk222 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that want to police other people’s behavior when that behavior has no effect on them. Like if gay people get married, what possible impact does that have on a straight person’s marriage?
neondave95 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How records work.
rrawr2000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math lol
-F0v3r- · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's beyond the whole universe. Since we know it's expanding, there's it's border/end somewhere humanity will never be able to travel that far. And we already call space "emptiness" so what's beyond emptiness ? Even more emptiness or less emptiness. It's beyond human mind. Like it may be black emptiness but when it's black it's already a thing so it's not empty. Maybe it's white so it's also not empty. What the fuck is out there?...
dcijluther · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How retarded fans can still not realise how good Liverpool have been this season and still believe that they’re on “0 prems”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
PM_ME_UR_TUMBLR_PORN · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The arrogance of what I call page one opinions, or what : people who on stuff like science, medicine, politics, philosophy, will hear about an issue, spend 30 seconds "solving" it, and then go through the rest of life never questioning their answer, as though there aren't a hundred generations of people who have devoted their lives to answering that question/problem, but Joe Facebook was the first one to think of it.
Named for an environmental ethics elective I took to fulfill some college core requirements, where almost nobody did the readings, and the professor was just happy to see class participation, so we'd spend the whole lecture discussing page 1 of the reading excerpt, which was literally just an introductory paragraph or two basically summarizing the oldest relevant work on a subject. The professor would never force us to move on to page 2, which refuted page 1; page 3, which refuted page 2; pages 4 & 5, which discussed problems with page 3; much less the next dozen pages that set up the premises for the philosopher's actual argument, which wouldn't really show up until pages 15-20. Every single time, we got bogged down in the demonstrably most archaic, ignorant position on a subject, with answers just a single page turn away, much like so many Facebook arguments where it's painfully obvious anyone involved who has even spent 30 seconds googling the topic was looking only for evidence to confirm their predetermined conclusion, and apparently sucks at googling. And the result is a classroom of people who took a 3 credit generals course so they could double-dip their pre-reqs, many of whom will leave with the belief they are college educated on the subject.
Related subject: the Gell-Mann Amnesia effect:
wross1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mobile game ads can literally use images that isnt from their own gameplay and still get people to download. Ive seen so many games rip screenshots from age of empires on an ad that had nothing to do with that. Hows that legal?
Andrew8Everything · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a sewing machine works. I've seen animations and explanations but that shit just doesn't make any sense to me.
OmgInfo723 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fashion
RandomNathaniel · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand Tik Tok. Like everyone dances the same way to the same music, leaving no place for creativity. Like I would understand I they danced to the same music but make there own moves, but thats bot the case
airpodbeanos · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a little stupid but I still can't grasp why you can't divide zero by zero. For every other number it makes sense. The way I think of it is like this:
Any number multiplied by zero can't give you a number which is why it's not divisible by zero Example: 0 x 12 =12 isn't true so 12÷0 is impossible
But 0 x 0 =0 so how come 0÷0 is impossible? I just can't figure it out
PlanderingPlumus · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus based Physics
mgd14of14_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
war.
SoupKitchenCity · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Puts and options investing
OhioMegi · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. How do people believe Jesus rise from the dead? Other “miracles”, it’s not possible.
cebeeeee · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people want the world to be flat? What would they even get out of it?
kendebvious · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who tell me what is best for my life in terms of what I personally have to experience.
Example: If I work a full-time position and my schedule limits me due to constant schedule changes, why provide me BS about working a part-time position that interferes with my full-time schedule?
iwasacatonce · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anal, eating ass, etc. I don't get the fun of playing with buttholes. They are literally full of shit. To each their own, I just think it's gross.
russianvampire · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudoku
memesterdumpster · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If all living species are sentient and there are more animals on this earth than humans why the hell was I born as a human and not something cool like a shark
DomobutnoHomo · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are blind to reason
LuminumYT · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that upvote your posts
ReditUsername876 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does YouTube have a no swearing and that stuff but then there are ads that swears and just is tits my friend told me about those ads
2legit2knit · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Little late but people who don’t admit when they’re wrong. There’s humility in doing that and you garner a ton of respect when you do.
arlomilano · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dimensional analysis. Probably the sole reason I switched majors.
silverxtreme123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot Fate/Stay Night: Unlimited Blade Works, got really confusing near the end, still not sure what the holy grail actually is
KeraKitty · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rational equations. I swear, I follow the steps the math professor provides, and I either get a completely wrong answer or stuck in an infinite loop of moving variables around.
ZM539 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
cowboythedog · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm ugly
The_Goodfridge · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our oceans, we know more about space than we do our oceans. What’s in them that we haven’t discovered yet? Same could be said about space
horsethiefjones · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is gonna sound vaguely immature but the concept of death as a whole. like, we have this lump that creates consciousness and coherent thought and controls us and how we perceive everything and you’re telling me that one day it just... stops? where does it go? i’m not sure if i believe in an afterlife or a higher power but there’s no way it just stops existing and stops perceiving things
LordFord9 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket science
thafloorer · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics...and normal physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I have fairly good idea about what you think, but I’ve absolutely no idea why.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women think Duck Lips are attractive.
Xx_BrunostLars_42069 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much money is worth
AndrewLBailey · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astrophysics
DatabaseGangsta · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The other dimension that DMT takes you to...
KarlWinslow · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets man. How do they work?
LemonTM · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the deal with Avengers. Why is it so popular? Also Deadpool?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I idea of something going on forever. Time, Space, etc
Fatboi26705 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why americans keep voting for people like Biden or Trump
datboi-kirb · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate furries.
justsum111 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Ril3756 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A girls saying she is cold and asks for a sweatshirt ,but when a guy she doesn’t find attractive offers her his sweatshirt she rejects it.
surferwannabe · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do my taxes
musicist10 · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like Jake/Logan Paul actually have fans.
intlcreative · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me but a good friend of mine doesn't understand the concept of bitcoin. I tried explaining and just...whoosh...
eddyeddyd · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
reddit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark Energy
frickitimstressed · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
foot fetishes
Meateatingveganpdx · 1 points · Posted at 19:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgage loans with ‘points’. Why oh why can’t we just use real numbers.
canadakonfuzion_0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can actually be religious
mialynneb · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of other people. Sometimes when I'm sitting at a light, I look around at the other commuters and think they have a life completely outside of mine that I will never know about. If I go too far down that rabbit hole, I start thinking I'm in like The Truman Show. Freaks me the hell out.
CharlesMandore · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of being straight or gay. I'm confused on how you can only be attracted to one gender. Like, I understand having a type, but can you really look at someone and say, "I'm not a attracted to that person because they are blank gender?"
toothbrushuser · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The made up idea of stocks
GameMasterMojo · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How karma is calculated
granddealer · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot believe that people are as stupid as they are. I’m sure not everyone is stupid but there are so many idiots out there, it’s astonishing
romafa · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing and cryptocurrency
astronautinmaking · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
taekookmingijoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do some people feel so entitled to judge others based on their sexuality, skin color and other stupid ass things. I genuinely don't get it.
Chronicle72 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time itself can slow down due to a phenomenon called Time Dilation. It was predicted by Einstein and then confirmed by scientists experimentally. I just can’t wrap my mind around this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time_dilation
BrenGAMER691 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
IAmDarkMagic · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Computers were first invented and how the internet was made.
H010CR0N · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People being afraid of Autism. Just the fear of "catching" it or it "spreading." I don't have the Black Death Plague. And even today, with all the support services and knowledge, people still react like I am brain dead. Have Autism today was not like it was 20 to 30 years ago.
LCplDayDay · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics
ceo-of-penis · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate on the New York Jets so much
Marvin_Guacamole · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming... And im a programmer lol
Schute-mi · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vacuums work
cjcanaday · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C++. Although, I don't think I'm alone in that regard.
Doug_Dimmadab · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does time slow down around black holes? How in the hell does gravity of a black hole make it so that time literally passes more slowly for you than someone on Earth? I get how it bends space and energy, but time itself?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idolizing of celebrities.
If someone were to ask me my favorite band, I would answer The Beatles, but the only personal thing I know about them is that John and George is dead, Paul is rich and Ringgo is not even the best drummer in the band.
I don't get starstruck and I never needed to know more than the work they do.
XxGuillebonxX · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the asshole type of person always gets fhe girl, here comes the simp etc comments, but srsly y do some girls go for the asshole type that treat them like garbage? Do they like to be dominated to that extent or what?
shuadi99 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What makes one hate others lot like them or not living as per their beliefs? Like what goes on in their minds, and why can't they usually be reasoned woth?
DontLookAtMyUserID · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people will continue defending their point with stupid ass arguments even when a cross between a sloth and a turkey can figure out that they have been proved wrong.
Atticus34 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
CoinScarf · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printing more money will hurt the economy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to "fall in love." Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of people that I love...but no one I've ever looked at and thought, hmm, I'd like to date him/her or be their girlfriend. I don't even get what people mean when they say someone looks "hot." The whole idea of love and having crushes on people just doesn't make sense to me.
TheRogaDanar · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I've watched videos and read up on it...intuitively it doesn't make sense to me, though I understand it's been proven.
rdsms · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand, how my husband doesnt understand simple things in life.
AnomanderRage · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people laugh when somebody wears socks in sandals.
Come on, the argument is usually that if you wear socks than what's the point of sandals instead of closed shoes. But the feeling is very different and if it's cold summer morning having sandals makes perfect sense, for example. Or in cities where's ton of dust and you don't want to have black feet by the end of the day.
And it DOESN'T look ridiculous. I don't wear them only because society is pressuring me not to. Otherwise it would be my shoe choice for summer.
asomewhatgoodskier · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college
Trotroaway654 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people connect emotionally
Bourbonkers · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Republicans reject science on every issue unless it benefits their wallets.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservative fuck-you-i-got-mine mindset. It'll kill us all.
logos__ · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a placebo response could have evolved. Things basically evolve in two ways: either there is a selection pressure that selects for a specific quality, such as wing color matching birch color in the specific species of butterfly that survived the British industrial revolution in spite of the soot deposits on birch trees, or it is a side effect of something else that is selected for.
It's very clear the placebo response in humans involves many different alleles, so it is extremely unlikely it's a side effect. However, given our phylogenetic history, it's also extremely unlikely it was specifically selected for. So why are we receptive to placebos? I genuinely don't understand.
MotherofDachshunds2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we keep reinventing the toothbrush.
cinnamonpoptartfan · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Semicolons; Colons
bonham101 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money/debt
I see everyone in large homes with new cars making half of what I do and can’t figure out how they’re doing it. Oh and their giant home is only a $600/month mortgage payment and they’re brand new truck payment is the same is my 10 year old payment. Vacations? People spending $3k on vacations like it’s nothing but I know they’re combined household income is <75k/year.
Everyone seems to have a shit kid of money
cfisi79 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance.
thatwasawkward84 · 1 points · Posted at 19:10:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Fuck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people support trump. Especially now.
VladimirGluten3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people go to prom. I'll never get it. Why spend so much on one night? People say "It's because it's senior year, and we won't see each other again." or "It's the senior experience." That's fine. Why not hang out with your friends for free?
Anim3_guy- · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love.
johan1999 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My purpose on earth
slart85 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese writing
DMurnett · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wyh evne if I tyep liek tihs yuo cna sitll raed it.
FartGoblin420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you eat a crunchy taco alone in the woods and no one can hear it, was it really a soft taco?
NunoFranciscoCardoso · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
baseball rules
Sulaco1978 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How programmers type code but the final product is a video game, plantary orbits, copy machine technology, and people who believe the most absurd conspiracy theories.
dragonbloodg · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism I just don't get it. just why??
Natas323 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
gortonanonymous · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When will I finally know I’m happy with myself? Like, if I’m happy with myself I’d more than likely stop hyper focusing on myself so therefor how would I have that thought that I’m finally happy with myself in the first place?
SaveMePls22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The watch industry. This is from the perspective who knows very little, but I hear about it a lot. If what I say is wrong I'm sorry. My bf adores watches and he is always going on about how rolex are really slow at producing watches. Some waiting lists for a brand new watch are like 10 years long. It's ridiculous and this drives up the prices of second hand watches immensely. Not only that all the rolex dealers are under a lot of restrictions regarding how they present the watches etc, yet there aren't ever any watches there for them to sell! Not only that brands affiliated with them like Tudor also put in place the same restrictions. My bf was looking at getting a Black Bay II or something, the watch with the chronograph and lovely two tone braclet, anyways at the time he could only find a dealer in Manchester who had one. That's over 200 miles from us. They categorically refused to deliver and as a result lost out on a £5000ish purchase. Eventually we found one in Exeter, but honestly I just can't believe how one watch brand can have such a negative impact on an entire industry
rshabibi · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tv shows always need the feel of having a gay pair in their show
Not racist or some shit but we fucking get it
PrettyflyforWif1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people take homeopathics
JXJXC · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
TravelerXZero · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CE-5 meditation. I did it once and actually saw some shit in the sky. I’ve been told I’m just hypnotizing myself and seeing satellites. But satellites don’t blink once and disappear.
officalredditor18 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy really expensive stuff
Lawjaq · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the things when you look up outside, for most of it I don't even have the time to understand them by hearth. The others either I forget, or too complicated.
littlethingscx · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My feelings
Kaldra5 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the us does not have single payer health care.
AlolanVulpix16 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nuclear physics.
stealth941 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't see it... Life.
Tyhatesnames26 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks..
YaBoiMosquito · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t mind their own business
Naomitr · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you delete messages in activities?
Bennyboo23 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
GTFOakaFOD · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
Alison9095 · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human beings
SmackySmack · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries. Why?
sympathytaste · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instagram. I don't hate it but I geniunely don't understand the appeal of it.
oravapoiss · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the pistons in the engine don't mess up and go the other way in a single cylinder engine.
dispussygrabsback · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people bully others
Gapatche · 1 points · Posted at 19:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What people judge eachother for
_Cetus-Lupeedus · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The right hand rule in physics. I don’t think I got a single one of the questions right on a test. Also telling what type of stereoisomer a structure is in ochem. I just took my C’s and left those classes in the past.
CocoKittyRedditor · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people do the fake money advert thing, like "oh my god u tricked me? im going to bye ur shitty shit now", like does anybody even get convinced by that? Like no im not going to your church because you made me pick up a fake 100 dollar bill.
SeparateKey0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people insist on playing hard to get when it would be much easier to just say outright what they want! I was talking to my younger sister, so that's how I know ppl do this, but still.
This is not based on experience, but more that convo i had haha
BryVass · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
TrickyZen · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people act the way they do.
burnrainbows · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pre Algebra and beyond. Physics and beyond. How people can drink alcohol 24/7. Ignorant people. Racist people.
TheNeoticVigil · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Current Children Entertainment
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets. How do they work?
LiteralTrashBag95 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I cry every time I get upset
timeywimeyprincess · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why non-essential people won't stay the fuck home in the middle of a pandemic
northphotograph · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Facebook moderators, in groups.
So many of them are insanely quick to attack anyone who stands up for themselves, just for the sake of avoiding arguments.
Anu8ius · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths (in particular most of the stuff they teach you in highschool and onwards)
NYoungg · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand NOTHINGGG.
CubanLynx312 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
HilarityEnsuez · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump supporters can look at all of his past crimes and behavior and think he-s fit to be President. Especially if they're religious.
And if they don't know about his past, I don't understand how they can still be so willfully ignorant.
I genuinely don't underatand.
Pandora1723 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
leptooners · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why anyone would drive unsafely when they definitely know it could get them or someone else killed. I'm talking about those drivers with 100 dents in their car swerving through traffic like everyone else is just in their way.
InternetStealers · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my 8th grade english teacher thought it was a good idea to have 3 essays in two weeks
primprampogo · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. Like - what. Also, the internet. And cell phone signals.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ism’s of politics.
DonutBoi_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
torpedomon · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the speed of light it the universal speed limit. Why can't something go faster and faster?
EyesOfNemesis · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cardi b
yungjaciboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just people in general. Just how some people act and think.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math , my knowledge is barely on a 5th grader level
spartanwolf223 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so damn toxic to furries and think its cool to harass and attack them
IAmTheGlazed · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can just leave their house and do stuff. I don’t mean now with the Covid stuff but before that. How people just casually make plans to go out and hang out
I really can’t get my head around it, the idea of leaving my house and seeing people from school outside of it makes me feel odd
DKN3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/r/wallstreetbets
concealed_identity · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the world owes so much money? Like to whom and how and shit
SaltyFiredawg · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How processors are designed, im an electrical engineering major with a focus on microelectronics and still don’t get how people figured it out
TonaldDrumpz · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How more people don't see the bigger picture with covid 19. David Icke interview on London Real website will start yal off on the journey to truth
DeliciousAtomicBomb · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Misogyny. Actually, any hatred towards something you don't understand and/or doesn't affect you. The lack of logic is astonishing.
blablabla12301 · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the world is filled with so much hate.
PhilosAccounting · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people wish to more quickly act on things than understand them?
I'm not just talking politics. This goes for religion, science, TV shows, everything. People hear something different than they've believed and lose their minds trying to silence it. Most of the time, they're clueless about what the other side believes.
Hemi425HP · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music. Been trying to play guitar for years.
dark_sparklex · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money has value
General_doodius · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
rosa_sally · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people value animal lives over human life. I can totally understand you valuing you dog’s life over a random human but when people say they never give to human charities, just animal ones, it blows my mind.
I know I’ll get a huge amount of hate for this but starving babies in refugee camps/trafficked women and kids/women in domestic abuse/people with cancer and other illnesses comes first. Once we fix all these problems, I’m happy to save the animals.
I can however understand animal conservation so saving animals that are close to extinction I would support. As humans we should look after the earth and fellow creatures but not to the detriment of human life.
GlassesMcGinnity · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding, as in for software. I’m a tester, been testing for over 13 years. I have done plenty of automation as the API is simple enough to follow. Ask me to write an app for whatever, I have no idea. I can read some of it but it’s just foreign for me most of the time! Just where do you start?
IMick1966 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
definitelyacabdriver · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How king crimson's time skip thingy works.
DingDongMichaelHere · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Five Nights at Freddy lore, I never was realmy into it, but I always liked watching MatPat and his fnaf theory videos, but it has gotten really complecated and I can't keep up
coochieboy690 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people legitimately believe in god.
yumbby · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why as a semi smart 46 year old woman who has left an abusive relationship in the past (mother) i cant seem for the life of me to leave my alcholic abusive husband. I seriously cannot figure out wtf is wrong with me. Its not love..I barely can stand the sight of him. Its not money..I dont give two flips about that. We dont have children together. So what is wrong with me!! I just wanna punch myself in the face!
LoganCifer · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religions.
ThatLittlePlop · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I just don’t get it
flamingnoodles5580 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American football
aba_emperor · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
politics
The_Essex · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think this pandemic is fake and a joke and not to be treated seriously.
ChicagoFaucet · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sewing machines. As far as I'm concerned, they defy logic.
viper42usa · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. Men are pricks, but women are just something else.
Bless up to those of you woman that are straight forward.
General_doodius · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
RemyDodger · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When they say 2% milk, I don’t know what the other 98% is.
futureformerteacher · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking quantum mechanics. It is fundamental to my job of being a chemistry teacher, but I just can't fully grasp it.
d3athpr0xy · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
90% of Math. Like, sure I know the basics. But when you start putting symbols and letters next to those numbers... I'd rather not.
ShieldsyM-theIV · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ball and the bat maths problem.
reh888 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
ehhnotsomuch · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extreme road ragers.
EepeesJ1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Die hard Trump supporters. Not being a troll. I don’t believe in being loyal to either party. But as someone with a pretty high level of education and a lot of life experience from being homeless to having my own family, house, cars, and dog, I don’t understand how Trump supporters can cheer and gloat when he brags about acts that are clearly illegal. On a human level, forget politics, how can you not dislike the guy?
Greners · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls.
Underrated_Nerd · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Real analysis
SAM_THE_HAM2007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
DarkEater77 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tea. I don't get it...
redemption_time · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If God exists, why does he allow all these bad things to happen?
champagne_sn · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communism.
I just cannot understand how there are people who genuinely think that communism works.
I think the idea behind it is not bad, it sounds pretty, but it could never actually work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics
D94r · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. When we talk about it on a geologic scale, Its just a bunch of zeros that seem like a lot. But I dont think we actually can grasp the depth of it. From our perspective the earth is almost in a stagnate state throughout our lifetime (tectonically / interglacially [etc.]). However, even over just 1 million years, there are significant changes observed over that "short" period. And to think for over half a billion years, Earth did not have a shred of life.
xiRadium · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet
bagged_saddness · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American high schoolers and their lunch debt.... like how
Moluwuchan · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks.
You earn money because another company earn money? Why? What’s in it for the company?
Owi3Reug · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that there are people out there that don’t believe in global warming and do absolutely nothing against it
mwp1471 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Seriously don't get it.
privacypirateire · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Politics. Baffles me how complicated it is
LouisMartinz · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the numbers were created?
Isabella06110793 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I need to know that mitochondria is the power house if the cell
oofSpongeBoss-AB2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you imagine something, you somehow manage to see it. But ot's not part of your eye's vision, it's just in your mind. I never understood that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
AssMuffins69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health Insurance. If the rates were based on the health of the individual we would be paying much less,it would give people incentive to be healthier. Smokers,chonkers, addicts are a major factor of why we pay so much. Car insurance,home,life all have many variables that determine the rate. A healthy individual should be paying like $50 a month for a basic plan.
KieshaK · 1 points · Posted at 19:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes work. I’ve read how they work. Still don’t get it. As far as I’m concerned, it’s magic, and that’s fine.
CrystalClock · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
DoctaTobogganMD · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. I mean what the heck? I've read so many articles and tried watching videos about it but still nothing.
sticks4274 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DMT
its-complicated-16 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
mau5_head12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone wants to be alive. Willingly. I can’t grasp that.
contradicting_queen · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People willing to stay in a relationship even though both parties are unhappy and don't have kids or any financial ties to each other. Who wants to live like this? I just don't understand it.
HenryStamper1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people listen to Alex Jones
Axk_8 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
trueouchys · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dungeons & Dragons.
DadisysnSpooks · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand when u are trying to explain something and then ur mom just Get upset and says raise ur voice at me
thedeathmachine · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does it always seem the stupidest people are in control? Whether it be government or work, why do the smart people get buried and the stupid rise to power?
Professional_Kiwi · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can live happily in a terrible world.
thekidfromthemitten · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
SctchWhsky · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone's fascination with Little Sebastian.
LargeP · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my cell phone connects to my grandpa's rotary phone he has in his living room when i call.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
marleyrae · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. I understand the logical explanations I've heard like, "oh people are afraid of what they don't know about." I still don't understand it in my heart.
ZaKrysle · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airline food. What's the deal with that, Amirite? Haha a good ol knee slapper.
Crustopher23 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think the Big Bang Theory is funny.
0800-HotlineBling · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How far technology has gotten and where it can go. As a kid I watched and loved playing snake on dad's old Nokia 3310. 10 years later it has more processing power than the computer that landed the shuttle on the moon.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people just have a complete inability to acquire or accept new information. We live in an unprecedented time with literally thousands of years of combined research, history, entertainment and more available at our very fingertips yet some people really believe in things like the earth being flat or that vaccines cause autism.....
soundsthatwormsmake · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a needle bouncing in a bumpy groove can reproduce the sounds of multiple instruments playing simultaneously.
fireshooter_3456 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how does changing the past affect/change the future i mean i’ve seen many movies doing this but it just doesn’t make sense
datboi420lit · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people in politics
da_realest_wizard · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America's Government.
It's not because it may be confusing, but I moved here when I was in 6th grade, (now a Senior in High School) and no one ever taught me how this works. I'm still here trying to understand what are the primaries, what are caucuses, etc.
Majestic_Sea-Pancake · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm always so exhausted
Nudderbudder12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason for this question
hey-its-my-account · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Ihatetobaghansleighs · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I understand it's the flow of electrons but holy shit that stuff is basically magic
SubsumeTheBiomass · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Nuf-Said · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone like Paton Manning, who has made well over 100 million dollars and won many awards in his NFL career, feels it necessary to make commercials for an insurance company.
RapiDMillionairE · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blind people see “nothing”
HugeDong10InchLong · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They dont see at all, like what can you see behind you? Nothing right? Cause you don't have eyes on back of your head... They see "nothing"
HugeDong10InchLong · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How internet works, domains, servers...
Lake_3242 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
chiefboldface · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math... I'm 32 and have always had a hard time understanding it and get so embarrassed when numbers, problems, equations get in front of me. Or of someone asks me to add two numbers and I stall for 2 minutes doing the problem in my head. I grew up in a school system that did not reach it. I have always wanted to find a tutor that could teach me basic math, but feel so weird as an adult asking.
barrychapman · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematical matrices.
Riya86554 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aleph-0. I know it’s just a music video, but like 40% of the time I’m like “What the fuck?”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a licensed civil engineer and i have no clue what Mohr circles are for.
dv1r · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people horded toilet paper.
mrslilpump · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras work
teenhell · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1) why people automatically tend to open their mouths while applying eye make up 2) why some people (in my circle anyway) have a really strong need to talk on the phone for long periods of time every.single.day... year in year out... even when they have absolutely nothing to say 3) how people ever find themselves feeling bored when there's always so many interesting/pressing things/projects to work on/things to accomplish or even if they don't have that in their minds they likely have books, or the internet, or a pen & paper, or nature or strangers to just sit and watch, etc... 4) why the vast majority of people on this planet feel an innately deep yearning to seek a relationship with some form of a 'higher being' 5) why so many people feel so passionately involved in the players' achievements while watching sports
And there's so many more... basically I am curious about human behavior so there's likely several hundred dozens of things I could list which I genuinely wonder about.
LordFapHammer · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
benled123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious People. I'm not talking about those who go to church for tradition or as a family gathering. I understand the social aspect behind it. What I dont understand is incredibly well educated religious people who have genuine belief. These people seem to be rational and logical in every part of their life, yet thank god for their success. Maybe its be cause I grew up in a pretty atheist household, but I cant seem to wrap my head around it.
zeusorjesus · 1 points · Posted at 19:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women like men. Seriously, most of us are only a few meals away from being cavemen (myself included). We start wars over dumb things. We generally miss all signals that you’re into us. And it’s hard for us to not think about sex/female body parts. For the most part, we’re not as emotionally intelligent as you. Yet you still love us?! I have no idea why.
singularspagettio · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it’s decided how different types of money from other countries is worth more/less
citizenofbrutopolis · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human cruelty.
scarletsaboteur · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
traffic. just drive
KINGCOMEDOWN · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think I will ever fully understand if I’m doing my taxes correctly.
RykkerofLore · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people even bother to make super shitty movies. I saw an add for this movie " the iron mask" both Jackie Chan and Arnold Schwarzenegger are in it, but the movie looks like absolute trash. Two hours of CGI bullshit. Why would anyone ever bother making something so terrible. Or act in it for that matter.
stiglitz1994 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. What happens at that scale seems so chaotic I just don’t know.
az_mom_sad · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers
F-Alldays · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why and how people still believe capitalism works
ellegix78 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does belly button fluff come from
TallBlonde724 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sight reading music. I played the string bass for about 6 years growing up and always played by ear (school orchestra & competitions etc). I never learned or could read music (from a song I had never heard before)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this is gonna sound stupid but gerrymandering. i’ve had that shit explained to me so many times and i still do not have a firm grasp of how it works
tgrgrlj · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
National debt
clairepeac · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity 😂 I just dont get how this energy works and transforms out lives. What even is it?!
litterboxsuperstar · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Common core math. Why??
Barko-Barko · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vore
snorli777 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
pewprofessional111 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Mobile games advertise so much on YouTube, After a couple ads of seeing your game it makes me not want to even touch it.
Ponasity · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yoga pants. What kinda sorcery convinced women to walk around looking naked?
Criss351 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity and data transfer.
I'm talking TV, Radio, Internet. Talk to me about 0s and 1s all you like, but there's still unfathomable, complex data just somehow riding electricity waves down cables and turning up on my screen like Tiger King, and I have never understood it. I call it magic-science because I think it's genuinely somewhere between the two.
PugetSoundOgre · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could think Trump is ok.
radiationvictom · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to help someone who is going through a depressive episode.
godofthedevil · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
lamalaughed · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This fucking life !!!
haelesor · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are accents shaped by language or language shaped by accents? Because I have seen multiple polyglots who have wildly different accents depending on the language
Nonce_ecnoN · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad left me
Akepur · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oceans 11
SCVanguard · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I just can’t wrap my brain around it...
B4TM4N797 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe.
The_5kull · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people voted for Trump...
dbthegrandtour · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being offended, I seriously do not understand it
Gamemachr1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck nearly everything in a computer works and I'm actually really fascinated by them
fskoti · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the citizens of the United States tolerate our government being so corrupt and why we tolerate our government killing people all over the world for their resourc... I mean, because they hate our freedom.
jeswell_then · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At the moment I am trying to teach myself a new language and I am struggling hard. So I don’t understand that.
Horriblebarry12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mobile adds make a simple puzzle/task and have the person that is playing fail incredibly, thinking I will give in and download their game
JohnnyB883 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe works
YvngScoobi23 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Wife.
GJones007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
ghrarhg · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. Why?
SylarSnowCrown · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand emotions, I have actually lived my whole life pretending the emotions I see in other people or in Tv or stuff like that. Yeap it's something Psychiatric.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. We seemingly know so much yet so little, and every theory out there sounds whack but is somehow scientifically proven. Shits weird.
fallinaditch · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance.. I don't understand health insurance in the fucking slightest. Like how do I know what is a good deal and how do I know what is a bad deal.. it's all just so confusing!
shlockaroo · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The obsession with social media. I don’t care what you had for breakfast this morning nor do I care how long it took for you to put your crying baby down for a nap. I have no interest in sharing my world with anyone else except my wife. Twitter and Instagram, influencers and all that shit. People famous for just being famous without showing a shred of talent. I’m at a loss and extremely out of the loop. I don’t get it. The only people that can explain this stuff to me are my kids.
Sachinism · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trading is considered a good career and not just glorified gambling
ButternutSquawk · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of "The Bachelor" and its affiliated shows.
Its not even like I snub my nose at trash tv, because I watch my fair share, but those shows just stress me out.
Lion1905 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I used to have a hard time with life not being fair. Would always ask why does this happen, why me, what did I do to deserve this.
In the last few years I decided to work on being more prepared but this virus situation has been a great curve ball. I noticed that I was going back to my old ways while looking for a job. I saw a quote two days ago that encouraged me: To expect life to be fair is to expect a hungry lion not to eat you if it had the chance to.
So here I am continuing the fight to find a job!
ThanosOfTheThicc69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America's retarded education system
BlueManedHawk · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anybody could enjoy caramel or using Windows
Odd_craving · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why well over 50% of people find evidence-based explanations of the world around us to be forever problematic and faulty. Yet they find untestable and unproven magical explanations to be extremely compelling.
TerrarianEnder · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every other voting method (laws, senators, judges, ect.) is determined by the citizens of the US, but the president is chosen in a completely different way that involves state governments and points and...it's overcomplicated, if you ask me.
ClitBiggerThanDick · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How power is generated. I just don't understand how the magnetic field produces power and how it gets harnessed. Mostly talking about rotor and stator relationship. Seems like magic.
frustratedlemons · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so rude for no reason, all the time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
waterfae9 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How WiFi works. It’s all magic to me
antodeprcn · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Sir-Slime · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to play HOI4
P1erreGuy · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hatred for other people. I've never hated anyone before, it seems like a waste of an emotion to have towards someone.
coop0228 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
‘The troubles’ in Ireland. I’m british and I just haven’t got a clue what it’s all about.
dotanesca · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the world is so unfair and so many good-natured and hardworking people suffer every day while there are many scumbags are having the time of their lives
Gizimpy · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The differences between current, amperage, and voltage. Just can't grasp it for the life of me.
necrorat · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Biden won the primary by such a large margin.
surfinThruLyfe · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are still buying homeopathic medicines?
Zapp122 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything to do with Gmod building.
yellange · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How certain politicians get to a power position. Not giving names but you know what I mean.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is there any particular reason for humanity's existence?????????
sarthak_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand what was before big bang theory
Vaguebog · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get breast enlargements or inject their lips to make them bigger, like...why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet like, works. And does what it does.
Also photographs. Witchcraft as far as I’m concerned.
90sfilmfan · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
Mlotvc · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can have such little regard for another human being and treat life as disposable!?
iotaboy27 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Swedishboi69420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
antivaxxers
pawyderreale · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hebrew
STPUTTS · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
jgahimer · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most Christians aren’t more socialist leaning, my understanding of Christianity is that we are supposed to be more Christ like, and according to what I learned while going to church in my childhood, that meant helping people who are more unfortunate and loving our neighbors. But in the good old USA where I live and where there’s a large Christian population, we hate socialism like we hate everything else that’s not seen as ‘American enough’.
the_silver_shroud_eh · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socialism has killed more people than any other modern political philosophy. Jesus helped people not because he subscribed to some dogma but because he was a nice guy. You don't have to fall into Marxist bullshit to be a good Christian you just have to not be a cunt. Jesus came down and said fuck religion it's all bullshit a way for a brood of vipers to make money off of genuinely nice and good people. Jesus said it's all about your connection to God threw your heart not your mouth or your wallet or your politics all that shit is distraction. Your mind will always lead you astray follow your heart,that's where God can reach you.
coranglais · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What "single-payer" health insurance means.
alternatiivnekonto · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It means that instead of you personally paying the insurance company for your coverage the government, representing every single person in the country, is the one paying.
Fluff_X_420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:16:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how you think through each component decision
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes Reddit.
MainCharacterNo2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why people think getting drunk is entertaining. To me, it just looks like people enjoy putting themselves in situations where they are willing to do things they wouldn't ordinarily do sober, only to forget it / get sick the next day.
I'd love for someone to explain this because I feel like I'm in the minority sometimes with this, haha.
canigetanamenmc · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to code Help me pls
Turdhat · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
Jumping_Spider_Dance · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so stupid that they don't see Trump's obvious lies and corruption.
ILoveReesePuffs · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to pass a technical interview, come out like a complete dumbass every time
MrBruhSky506 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
Mutasyn · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern day dating. I've got single friends who are all over Tinder, Bumble, etc. and I met my spouse before any of that was a thing. The notion of meeting someone to potentially become romantically involved over an app just baffles me. That said, I'm sure folks still meet under other circumstances (friends, bars, and the like), but the online scene seems to be the way to go.
Kys_Bi_Bi · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. No explanation needed.
moldy_baguette · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What r/circlejerk is
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
alternatiivnekonto · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It accentuates their curves, starting from the shin all the way up to the butt.
Sriano · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how king crimson works
emmy_elizabeth · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people have such a hard time being decent. Not kind, not genuine, just treating others with basic human decency.
coffeeebean5 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Greymires · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lack of empathy, selfishness and self centered behavior, lack of respect and understanding, willful ignorance and how a part of the populace is okay with all that as the main driver of today's policies.
moesenbumser2008 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humour is developed and why every human finds something different to be funny
arteiro07 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life?
youknowwhattheysay12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stock markets work and dont even try, i know enough people who are " invested in stocks" try to explain it to me and i still dont get it
dotanesca · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If there is a God, why is the world so unfair and so many good-natured and hardworking people suffer every day while there are many scumbags are having the time of their lives
laserpheonix · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is exactly why I’m considering becoming an atheist
gogetter510 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just “go with the flow” and don’t question anything.
ProblematicByProxy · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and Investments
_loud_lady_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics!
P0L4RP4ND4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
Gensi_Alaria · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who parrot religious verses as their entire basis of logic
bos3ph · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furry culture and the current MAP movement.
ministrsinister · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are able to play MMO/MOBA games for 1000 hours+
How.
I personally can't sit and just do the same thing over and over. I need variety, at the minimum an RPG game like Elder Scrolls or something. Even if its a story-drive MMORPG or a Survival Game, the most I've ever clocked is around 300-400 hours and that was over the course of 2 years.
It's honestly why I have a respect for people who stream on Twitch or are able to play professionally, that level of dedication and study of one particular game is amazing to me.
Saurusboyz · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This world/society and how complex it is with its interdependencies. Can't even begin where to start. That is why one cannot judge humans easily.
shikodo · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Tide can be new and improved every year for 75 years.
Peregrine2976 · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Outright cruelty, or hatred.
I understand prejudice -- leftover animalistic fear of 'the other'. For that matter, I understand fear, the primal instinct to self-preserve at all costs.
But I cannot grasp where 'cruelty' might come from -- the desire to cause pain and suffering deliberately, and taking enjoyment from it. Animals don't express cruelty -- they can do cruel things, but as a side effect of some other action or impulse. No animal sets out to cause pain for its own sake.
It gives me a minor existential crisis to think about cruelty being a sign of intelligence.
whattabadangas · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amortization...please explain
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to code.
homerj2k · 1 points · Posted at 19:17:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
NicklaZen · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump became president and afterwards so unpopular
themlaundrys · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain
jacobooooo · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why english pronunciation is the way it is
illuminati_hottie0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics and government
Orlek123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
(no offense) gay people, no reason thta I Caan think of to become gay
Fresh_Freeze · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why r/ihavereddit exists
Zoruman_1213 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ridiculous spoiler culture has become. I always thought it was real dumb, but it used to make some sense. But now that FF7 remake part 1 was released I saw people shouting spoilers at youtubers making videos on the plot of FF7... an over 2 decade old game. What the hell?
ambitiouslearner123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The general stokes equation and how the 4 fundamental theorems of calculus and vector calculus can be derived from stokes theorem
How stokes theorem related to the Navier Stokes theorem
What the weak solutions are and what do they represent
Also on linear algebra, what is a determinant? What does it measure? Why is it useful to learn?
davey_1986 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rona virus.......
Bankurofuto · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who see your texts immediately but actively choose not to respond until a few hours later
armin-lakatos · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
lil_shagster · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did they code the first computer without another computer?
Hollowsong · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How most people just can't understand basic logic.
dudeguy73 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metal Gear Solids Story line
ekins1992 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family gives me shit for being too conservative. Some of my co workers and kids from school give me shit for being too liberal
Prygikutt · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
bMack0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be an adult....
CapCougar · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The twin paradox. I get the concept, but I'll never understand why?
Mlotvc · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you think about it, literally everything is made up 😅
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. Just don't get it. I'm 34.
blablabla12301 · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would use TikTok.
charlottehatesmax · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Joe Exotic. He is problematic in so many ways but has been majorly glorified.
rgwashere · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
_johnald_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Concrete. So we just got this soupy shit that everything is made of???????
houstonruffner · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a woman can be gay but a man can't be lesbian
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gay means attracted to the same gender but lesbian means a woman who is attracted to women
thepersonthatsays · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
CryingAsparagus · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Partial differential equations. I'm not doing so hot in that class right now.
upOwlNight · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who form an idea based off their own thoughts over the course of 10 minutes, and think it's a better idea than whole groups of people who have studied the topic their entire lives, then SHARE their genius idea to other geniuses who then agree with them and then they all rant and bitch together about how the scientists and the government and whoever else are a bunch of idiots. Scary shit.
Disco_Fetus · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 5g causes covid19...
groovyfarter · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why furries feel the need to be animals.
BoilerPete · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical circuits.
pippinbambam · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
unwilling- · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trees make syrup. Does it flow through veins? Does it seep from the layers? What am I missing?
imannoyeddammit · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock markets can work to your favor. I can understand credit and CDs, but that's as advanced as I can be
Dimonah · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sisters say that our old leather couch was “wet” and the new couch is “dry”. Their feet are “wet” but the carpet is “dry” therefore they CANNOT walk on the carpet with bare feet. Concrete is “wet”. I don’t get it, and never will, no matter how often they try to explain it to me!
daitoshi · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People prioritizing a hypothetically better sex life over an otherwise great romantic relationship.
Am asexual. To me it looks like.... dumping someone because they don’t enjoy the same type of alcohol as you.
Lice-Zid · 1 points · Posted at 19:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life...
arwenorange · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How emotions work?? How you can have them in certain situations but not in other, very similar situations. And how you can have them for people. And how some people have much stronger emotions than others. I feel like a psychopath but I think I just have super mild emotions across the board and so I don’t understand when other people display such strong anger, love, jealousy, etc.
vladmtcc · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia
noam223 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
n00b9k1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries
AlphaAllNight · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
shnarglebluff · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are Legos so unnaturally expensive?!?!
celloiof · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. How you turn electricity into 0s and 1s that can represent almost anything, from audio to instructions on how much pressure a device must apply? I mean, how you get some mineral from nature and turn them into machines that run out daily lives? It’s beyond me.
vitringur · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why modern economists are so convinced of central control of the money supply and legal tender.
Why they are afraid of deflation.
Udedhaha · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why salted nuts cost less than unsalted.
fixerofthings · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finances and money management.
I'm good at math and can fix damn near anything but money management is beyond my grasp. It has cost me thousands over the last several years.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How consciousness came from nothing...basically from chemical reactions. Because of that, I wake up every morning.
royal_rose_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How genetics choose who gets fucked over. I understand the basics of it thank you tenth grade biology but why do I have every shit genetic thing I could when most leap frogged my parents and my siblings got nothing.
juanhundred_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
SupremeLad666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe the media.
MagMaggaM · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can't be tickled. I have relatives who say it's just about self-control, but I can even tickle myself, but apparently you're not meant to be able to do that.
please-vibe-on-me · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women do towel hats
waitad · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Star and delta connections
catman11234 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone says college is the best 4 years of your life, the entire time I’ve felt like I don’t belong
RzK · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my gf prefers mac & cheese instead of Wild Mushroom Broken Spaghetti Risotto with Arugula and Hazelnuts, served on a cool plate. Mac & Cheese tastes like ass, why do people like it.
This is coming from a Canadian.
chenthehen · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why teachers like certain students more than others, especially why they dislike kids that don't try.
BootyJones- · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Patriotism
wightgrifion · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Karen took the damn kids.....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This huge act the whole society is on. Particularly the one pertaining to flirting between a woman and a guy. Both parties know what they want exactly and what the other wants, yet they have to pretend they dont, and play mind games. And if one party expresses their honest intentions too early, the other party acts like they dont like that and cut it off.
ClutchSaddles · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone in Minecraft.
agronero1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Filing Taxes
Atithiupayogi · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TRP is calculated?
ALEX7DX · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese.
Queen-of-meme · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics.
bigben0102 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a non American, the American democratic/voting system.
lawreach0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:19:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get why they are still making Fast & Furious movies.
btatetatetatetate · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Isaikk · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Faked “reality” series
sar_cactus · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dog doesn’t want to spend every waking moment with me
Blue_wraps · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money and computers
BiggyMac0240 · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why hoverboards are called hoverboards when they dont hover
maSZi_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vax people
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to end a conversation when someone won’t stop talking
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
minecraft redstone
GordonTheGnome · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Healthcare
SneakyNinja4782 · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why evil exists
Bankurofuto · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also genuinely don’t understand the difference between the British “it’s polite to tip” culture that I’m used to and the American “we must tip because the servers are paid like $2 an hour” culture. How is paying your staff so little that they have to rely on tip money ok?
MilyRixs · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberal feminism.
Vaguebog · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vandalise historic sites (with low security/protection levels.)
blackcherrycavendish · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets...
JELLYJACKY29 · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mbile keyboars
ThisBotheredMeALot · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why restaurants are open in cities/counties with shelter in place orders....
kiwismithers · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Skulkbane · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music and musical composition...
I have been trying to pick up skills in various types of art, Im horrible at painting but I can at least see what I have made, music on the other hand is something I can't understand or see what I'm making even after I'm done.
BwPEKKA · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy reddit coins, just why would you spend money and guve it to someone else, and they get only a small picture next to their post or comment and sometimes some coins.
elsapoenemigo · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of superhero movies. I don't understand why they are so popular.
DaceBarefoot · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word 'gestalt'
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. I have tried so many times to genuinely understand this sport so I can enjoy it with my dad since my brothers have no interest in it. But I just can’t. I don’t get the rules or plays or anything.
unus-solusque · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can close their eyes and actually visualise anything in their mind at all. I found out I have Aphantasia today (The inability to visual imagery), and thought it was completely normal to not be able to visualise even the simplest shape.
grrdjrz · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
luena_xy · 1 points · Posted at 19:20:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How information can be saved on computers, CDs, DVDs, etc. and how it is decoded.
Inazumai · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t wrap my head around what created the universe. Like no matter what you say, WHAT WAS BEFORE THAT? It’s an endless cycle of confusion
ifiagreedwithu · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thinks either of our two political parties has any value.
Gourd_Gamer · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stocks work and what they even are
raiddenjaggu · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
xxScyy · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
K-pop
ProffessorBubbles · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why America has more cuss words than Britain. "Bitch" is used to refer to actual dogs, "Bastatd" refers to someone born out of wedlock, "Piss" can be used to refer to passing time, etc.
sixoctillionatoms · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The saying “the road to hell is paved with good intentions”
Inabeautifuloblivion · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. I don’t get how a computer knows what the code you enter is supposed to do. For example, you enter the code to make a dancing platypus appear. How did the computer know what it all meant? And how does a computer know what a dancing platypus is.?
james_dangerous2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I truly do not understand my thought process leading up to certain decisions that are fairly poor in nature.
friedmators · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
VARs in electrical theory.
eke2023 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many of you probably know about console wars, aim assist complaining, etc. What I dont understand is why doesnt console use mouse and keyboard. Someone please explain
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the mind works and how you manipulate it with so many different techniques; meditation, subs, neuroplasticity, LOA. The mind just amazes me!
DragonOfTheRedLand · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I've got a few 1) I don't really understand how sexuality works, like, I know that people are just attracted to different genders and stuff, but like, I don't have a specific gender I'm attracted to, I have people I am, and am not attracted to, but that's not how sexuality is, theres specific groups of people that you are/aren't attracted to, and I don't really get how that works.
2) I don't understand how some people can just, not wash their ass, just what the fuck
3) I don't understand why sucide/suicidal ideation/depressiob is so prevalent in my generation that the number of mentally healthy people is probably lower than the number of sad bois, and that parents manage to be so dismissive at every turn despite watching the progression of all this shit in their child
4) I don't understand how people can be parents and sooo bad at parenting, like, you made the decision to have and keep the kid, how are you so bad at all of this, how are you going to have a kid and then completely ignore them at all times, or when you're not ignoring them you're angry or cruel, how is such baseless cruelty a thing, and why do people have to be so hateful to each other
5) lastly I don't understand why so many people feel the need to be cruel to others just cus, if someone's not harming you, their not harming anyone else, why are you so mad, I don't care how many genders you think their are, or if you think that others are lesser or that trans people are fake or whatever, why have you got to be cruel, just be kind and move on, you can disagree with someones existence sure, but why does that mean you've got to hurt them in any way, live and let live
6) oops added another, why are nazis still alive??
deathscar898 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. It's just weird thinking about how much everything we do comes back to time
MADRobot_69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don't understand the importance of washing their hands after going to the loo (virus or no virus).
We've come this far as a society for some people to outright ignore basic rules of hygiene.
suspiciousfox101 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think just because anthropomorthic animals are in/on things makes them furry amd cringe
cy-clops · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my cats
vARROWHEAD · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How governments can continually operate on massive deficits
bakerdrums00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
thestrangebroom · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of money. Where does it come from?
ryrysk8er00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trading options
jimmothytheunicorn · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What contains the universe? Sure it’s infinite, but there must be something outside it, something holding it in. And if there isn’t, then what are we? What is this developed life of ours based on? Because the answer would be absolutely nothing. But not nothing the way we think about it, because it would literally be nothing. And in that case, what’s the point in life?
Ab1156 · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that lack the willingness or know-how to be introspective and want to better themselves.
Skajuan · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How discs can store data
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's relationships
Some people are weird, crazy, manipulative, stupid, and much more worse vocabulary. I don't understand how some people can end up in a relationship with these type of people and enjoy it to the point where they even marry each other, cursing themselves to a shitty life.
If you don't understand what I'm talking about then r/relationship_advice should enlighten you on how some people's behaviours are so incomprehensible stupid, you hear about everything in there, sometimes the normal cheating stuff (which is pretty stupid as well), but sometimes you read somethings it's hard to believe it's true, and makes you think.
PituitaryIceDrill · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the majority of people are so fucking terrible
SpyroTheDragQueen · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people gain wealth... Like, I have a fairly good job and I work 50hrs a week and I can barely save £300 a month. How do people ever have enough to buy new houses and cars & vacations?!
thewinterboulder · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Length dilation. I understand time dilation. The faster you move through space, the slower you move through time. I get that. I've done the equations in class but I can actually sort of make sense of it. Length dilation just makes me think we're all in a simulation.
Colhinchapelota · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's unequivocal support and devotion to a political leader or movement. I get that when you first hear the rhetoric of said people, you like what you hear, but when things later come out or happen that should make people reflect a little and possibly change their mind. They don't, they double down.
chell_glady · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hate on bidets?!
(This feels like r/Outoftheloop)
0DegreesCalvin · 1 points · Posted at 19:21:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we ever built computers. Like how to you go from 1s and 0s to a functional operating system and graphics and everything. It’s witchery as far as I’m concerned.
Also, electricity in general.
hannahCforsythe · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get the ships in the bottles.
CRUSADEROF420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my pp hard
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness, like could computers be conscious? Are we the conscience that we were 10 years ago. We don’t have any of the same molecules, they all get replaced. It’s just weird to think about
Martin_Jord46 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TheInnerHand · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh, I sometimes cannot genuinely understand my mother, and her behaviour. She is extremely aggressive when see the need to speak to me
Seventhson74 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How top level news organizations can let stories get published or go to air with major inconsistencies and straight up falsehoods. Dont they have editors or forethought.....
CasualClyde · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still support trump
samuelsnb00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democracy in America
lurgi · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.
I'm not alone here. We understand an awful lot about the properties of things. Mass, color, taste, etc. That's all objective and we are generally good with that. The origin of subjective experience, however, is a mystery. When we talk about what it is like to be someone, what do we mean?
normal-loser · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Fearsomeship72 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The community of reddit
X0AN · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would waste time watching someone play video games when you can just play them yourself.
SomeRandomIrishGuy · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is it rude to ask how much money someone makes.
Like how is it rude?
lincolnhawk · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s none of your business, and it’s not information that should influence how you treat people at all. So it would be extremely rude if that question came any point before we know each-other well, or there was a damn good reason to ask it, which there wouldn’t be.
Wealthy people want to be valued for something other than money, bc it’s not who they are and has nothing to do with ‘them.’ Non-wealthy people want to not feel excluded by financial gatekeeping or potentially judged for admitting they make less than the average for a given social setting.
There is just no way to make that not rude as hell, because asking about net worth inherently reduces the subject of the question to the money they make. No one likes that.
It’s also inherently a comparison-oriented question that will always lead to some inequality-related awkwardness. Self-comparison is never a good thing to indulge, so it’s rude as hell when you force people into self-comparison.
SomeRandomIrishGuy · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand any of this.
How am I making it seem like I will judge them based off how much money they make? What if I am curious about their job? What if I am thinking of joining the same profession?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get so upset by words on the internet....
AlistairN37 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy.
bkoziol · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So very, very much.
urbestex · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time signatures. My friends have tried to count them out for me and teach me how they work many times and it just doesn’t click in my brain
spicyveganjew · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did American people develop different accents from the English?
panchxbartx12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How emotions are felt. Are they chemical, electrical, supernatural?
Slyrax-SH · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap. I got some friends that don’t understand half the lyrics. If it doesn’t sound good, and if it doesn’t mean anything, then why listen?
momothewaire · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drag Queens
MrEcho360 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
MagicPanties · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why SNL apparently can't find good writers anymore
Aznabil · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
randomstreetrat · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
fortnitename69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karen’s every time some stupid shot happens to me in cod
X0AN · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans don't riot until they get free healthcare.
EvaUnitKenway · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Dungeons and Dragons works
Max7Speeder · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market can change even with the quarantine, like isn't the stock market people meeting in a big room and selling to eachothers? How would that work online?
throwaway640004 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. any of it
jaykay814 · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are colors that we humans can’t see.
HeisenbergsDuck · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to flirt.
itsVaayu · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People destroying 5G towers to stop the virus.
jaypeejay · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kubernetes
BrilliantApplication · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand why you would prefer the street to the sidewalk for running or riding a bike. Why do singular people walk down the street next to a sidewalk?? I've always wanted to ask, but can't think of a non-confrontational way to do it.
xRikkii · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to climb deadly mountains. I watched the "Everest" movie based on the tragedy in 1996, and no "reaching the top" is worth it if the other option is dying and being buried in snow for decades. I genuinely don't get it.
LOeyv · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stonks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the musical “Hamilton”. I do not find it clever or interesting or any of the songs catchy.
jasminebeeme · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
UK Tax
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there can be so many shit politicians in the world?
swift-aasimar-rogue · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why somebody would abuse animals. I’m not talking about eating them, just hurting them for no reason when nobody has anything to gain. Why would you do that? How twisted do you have to be?
MP-MBJ · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why dy/dx can be treated as a fraction but it isn't a fraction
ARL_30FR · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Celebrity culture
Bainz_the_R · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How RUN capacitors work on single phase motors. I understand a standard, or start capacitor. But run capacitors confuse the heck out of me. I know they are needed, but I have no idea what's going on
Seanprice13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
speedyeddie · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phases of the moon. I've taken an astronomy course in college and watched several TV episodes of various shows talking about it. Still can't understand what's going on
JuiceCastillo · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know who Al Gore is, and at this point I'm too afraid to ask
alirizvi0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrochemistry
I’ve been studying for the mcat for the past two months and I still can’t wrap my head around that stuff!
monopods · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't understand exactly what a radian is, and no matter how many different ways it's explained to me, it still doesn't make sense
Upthemeds · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The national debt for the USA. Does it matter? Will interest payments get higher? Will there be a limit where they can't take out more because they can't pay it off?
Just seems like everyone talks about paying down the debt. Then gets elected and proceeds to increase the debt.
mollynosebleed · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
raven1121 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an American , I still dont understand the rules of Cricket
Mono-Sapian · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where dad went.
mon0chrom · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of politics. And JavaScript, it just doesn’t work with me.
PaulEDangerously · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people love the last jedi
FaNaTiiKESP · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French.
Why do you fuckers say 80 as 4 20s?? Why are you so lazy pronouncing words??
Cypherical · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am Mediocre at everything in life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voting against your own best interests because you hate the "other side" so much.
gay_cactus_with_rats · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
tamns7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why racism is savagely punished in the western world, but encouraged and normal in africa, the middle east and asia
wonder_wolfie · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the whole Earth combined is billions of dollars in debt. TO WHO? Aliens?
Huothar · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market. I kinda understand it, but I don't know how it could be applied.
Doguras · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I just passed Physics 2 this past semester and still don't get how that shit works at all.
I'm a Computer Science major.
divinelyvile · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Dino's turned into humans
Yrvaa · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe, its formation and what is outside it. I mean ok, Big Bang or God or whatever... but what was before that? What is outside the universe? How can the universe be so big? How can time not exist outside the universe? Is the space outside our universe infinite? How can it be infinite? Nothing is infinite!
Akitten84 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sewing machines
lostarrow1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my Minecraft server does not work
tobythedog4016 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do people come up with recipes? Like the advanced shit, such as ratatouille or whatever??
teachermommy4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most languages besides English
heydvni · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pre-calculus
anusvulgaris · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics and Mathematics, in no particular order.
chaoslord13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work
MikeyBoyHallo · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people drive and use their phone.
Joris759 · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding/programming. I just dont understand that when people type out a piece of text with weird signs all over the place, the computer does what they want, and if they made it a slight error, it'll do anything but what they want?! I really dont understand.
Copericus · 1 points · Posted at 19:23:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Art.
Like what makes good art good and scribbles not art?
Dancing too. I just don’t understand it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indian culture on the internet. Still trying to figure it out.
capdefrutes · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it's midday and the sun is up but you can see the moon too, people at the other side of the Earth (where they're at night) can see the moon too? How??
denkmemoz · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
willowmillows · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How technology and all materials have evolved. I’m a very smart person but find it amazing how ANYTHING has been created and thought of by a person. Even a plastic bottle: how?
Bryqi · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how someone can just be so genuinely stupid. It seems to me that a lot of people do not think before they say something or at least look into a topic before discussing it. People hear some arbitrary information/theory that makes no sense at all but something sounds good to them so they take it and run with it. Very odd and most of the times.. infuriating.
TermIANator787 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
kptknuckles · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motion is analog but space is quantized by the Planck Length. We’re fuckin teleporting every time we move.
unclefeely · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some of the people I regularly interact with manage to wipe themselves.
Reditate · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airline peanuts, whats the deal with those?!
Somespookyshit · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dota 2, so much shit I have to know but no one is giving the answers besides beginner shit
LunarLightningX · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get the frosting into piping bags.
JablesRadio · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The further we look into the universe the further back in time we see.
scandalgodess · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics.
refcro_austex · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes fly.
I mean, I know the physics of it, Bernoulli and all that. But viscerally, it makes no sense. It just SHOULDN'T HAPPEN that this thing gets off the ground on its own power.
Reidess · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have to make things so complicated
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people that are good at math like how tf does that work
disagreedy · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make a profit, keep a job for longer than 2 years, hold a steady relationship, live on my own, balance my life,
JackIsNotAWeeb · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Potential energy. Probably a bit different to what the question was intending, but however good my physics teacher was, I never understood this. I can calculate stuff with it just fine, but I dont know what it actually is.
gypsyflora · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money laundering
TastesLikeShame · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tattooing.
I have an art degree. I do digital art. I can create procedural textures. I can digitally sculpt. I understand how colors work. Blah blah blah.
I've watched my tattoo artist work on my sleeve and I just don't get it. I watch him use colors together that break my brain. I've watched him draw perfectly straight, razor sharp lines across different parts and shapes of my arm. I'll never understand how tattoo artists do it.
chaniwii · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
mcadams226 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of point-and-click/turn based combat games such as ESO, KOTOR, Final Fantasy, etc
I’m one who likes to press a button and when I press that button, I expect an action. Not locking into an enemy, pressing an attack button, and just watch the battle until either myself or the enemy dies. The same goes for turn-based combat. Honestly the most boring games I’ve ever played. Hence why I believe action RPGs are superior. Obviously just my stance and a very underdog-type opinion in this regard.
uglybarnacle420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell trump won.
67Bubble · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries...
Like why?
xxxfernando · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why only 0.005% of Americans drive manuals
AdventureGirl1234567 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have not yet received my stimulus check.
Risingnicklash · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are music videos and trailers for games and movies allowed on Youtube’s trending page? Obviously those things are going to blow up and it takes away space for people who are actually independent creators on youtube that are making content, even if it’s good or bad. I get “money” but come the fuck on at least make a separate tab for them. I go to the trending page to cringe at the menial bullshit on there and smile at the occassion quality thing.
fuckedupceiling · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the game LOL works...
EnemysKiller · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can be bad to someone else just because. I never understood my school bullies because they were just assholes for absolutely no reason. It's a concept I just can't grasp
Berend69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy so much fucking toilet paper
eau_di_nil · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How photography works. I understand the concept of how light is used to imprint an image on film but in practice I cannot seem to grasp it (especially with digital photography) no matter how often it's explained.
riceismyname · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people still eat animals
faithmauk · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck bitcoin works....
sonicbuster · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And I mean this in NO offense.
But people who believe in ANY religion. There is literally zero actual proof of any god from the literal millions of gods and religions.
Yet people think that they just so happened to be born in the right time, right year, right country, right family, etc etc etc, and indoctrinated into the right... religion.
Yea... how lucky of them.
But yea.. to base their entire worldview on something they usually never read, fully understand, and has no actual proof.
Ghosts, bigfoot, aliens, etc etc etc, you get called crazy, and rightfully so. But hey, magical gods? Naa thats just religion, they get a free pass.
deadbird17 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can make such realistic art and sculptures. I think I am smart in many ways, but I just can't understand how people can expose such realistic things using paint or clay.
kermithefrogggg · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
aleyok · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How CDs and WiFi works. I know how they work, but genuinely can’t understand it, it’s almost an alien thing for me
JettyMaree · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space Time. I took my sons to see Brian Cox and I honestly don’t understand any of it. The universe is too big for my tiny brain
Blazko_McTav · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is 5G
LilPixzel · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the government needs money why don't they just print it themselves?
dethwitcher1027 · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any type of taxes.
45hope · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the blockchain works
Kozmic_Ares · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tabloids still exist.
thfc- · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scottish people
Jumpycheesepuff · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brexit
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm from England! So the reason people voted for Brexit is because of a few things. There was some misinformation as well about how much our healthcare system would get if we were to leave the EU. A few other reasons was because we provide the EU with a lot of money (we get a bit of it back though) but a lot of people don't see where that money goes. Because they don't see it actively helping them they think the money is just being sent somewhere and forgotten about. Another reason could be because a lot of people don't actually get how the EU works and is believed to be as indecisive as any other major multinational organisation. There's an argument because of some EU reps not being voted for. The final and possible most common reason was because of the migrant crisis. People didn't want people entering the country on high quantities and as an EU nation we had to accept all migrants who were seeking asylum. Those were the main reasons
Jumpycheesepuff · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was joking you fart nuggeted sloth
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dare you call me a fart nuggeted sloth you rancid horses leg
Jumpycheesepuff · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stop this poopy pants
PossiblyArab · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dirt. I had this realization as I as spreading sod the other day. I have no fucking idea what dirt is. I understand It’s various mixtures and levels of eroded rock mixed by tectonic movement. But how? Why is dirt not sand? What else is in dirt? I know I could easily find out, but as of yet I have not. So my answer stands: dirt
DancingMidnightStar · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is flirting?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers they might as well as run on magic I get the very fundamental of coding that you tell it too do the thing so it did the thing etc but why does coding work
itsbratneyb · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How men can be so immature & scared of feelings
Str8WhiteMinority · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mandarin. Or Swahili. Or, well, most languages, really.
yeetus-the-fetus-UwU · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you know that tempting feeling that you just want to jump off of something you're on or when you're standing by the road and wanna throw yourself in there? I kinda understand but not really about that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue with illegal immigration is that the person is "undocumented". The country doesn't know the person is there. That means they aren't paying taxes. That's the issue. This means the country is supporting someone who doesn't chip in.
glaciumcrescent · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
D&D I don't know if its my anphentasia or i'm not a very original thinking person, but i could never do d&d very well and as such it stopped being fun eventually much to my boyfriends dissapointment i stopped wanting to do it period, cuz i was always the one who either took a lomg to choose what to do, or couldn't think of anything at all, and of i did do something its was like to be something lame no matter how cool my charecter was
nohumanape · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a functioning mechanically automated factory is conceptualized, engineered, designed, built and operated from the ground up.
_imbadatnames_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad hates me
MoonLandHoax · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
IsThisIsMyUserName · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general. I failed to even comprehend how we are able to think, some things live and some don't, despite being made up of essentially the same material. This extends to science also, how can human just came up with concept and shits
PaintedSequoia · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can think another person, a human being just like them, somehow deserves less in life, physical harm, or even death just because of where they were born, skin color, hair type, socio-economic class they were born into, most addictions, and other things beyond the individual's control. Hell, even things that are in the person's control such as hair color, tattoos, religion, where they live or not even if they have to go with literally only what they can carry, and so on. It just blows my mind that there is still this superiority complex some have, and it makes me sad and angry to know it's "built in" with how parents raise kids, even not fully recognizing what they are doing, and how governments are set up and run to favor certain people, classes, and so on.
Liar_of_partinel · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my brother can blatantly kick the dog, then look me in the eyes while insisting that he only "pushed" the dog.
ThiccWilli · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
toryguns · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of lip syncing music on tik tok and musically
point_2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation as it relates to the theory of relativity.
Apparently, as you approach the speed of light, time becomes slower. But I don't get how time doesn't just move as a constant for everyone, all the time, despite their speed.
shoebee2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My understanding is time never changes. Only out relative position to time or in time. The faster you go the closer to the speed of light, normalizes the relative speed with respect to you.
point_2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm having a hard time piecing together that second sentence. "The faster you go [towards] the speed of light, [it] normalizes [its] relative speed with respect to you"?
Assuming I properly understood you, I get that one's perception of objects becomes distorted (objects appear smaller), but I fail to see how a minute for a stationary party is different from a minute for a party moving at near light speed.
xNivxMizzetx · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
TheDysonSystem · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time is related to speed in any way.
bopapocolypse · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines. 🤷♂️
paco291 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your mom
RambooToKillYoo · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why is everyone is posting politics in r/murderedbywords
awkmanzach · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How FED can keep printing money without it affecting the American dollar value and without questions being asked. Capitalism seems like the biggest scam in history.
Chillfire1385 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people still believe in god, i mean, its fucking 2020.
MsJackieRose · 2 points · Posted at 20:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religions help explain things that can't be explained and give people hope in times of crisis. I'm atheist myself but I see patients with terminal cancer being happy because they believe they will be going to heaven. Whether there is a god or not is debatable but if it gives people happiness then carry on
trynsleep · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. I know how to do maths but not why it is like it is. E.g. why is 1+1=2 who said that, where is the proof, WHY IS IT LIKE THAT?
MsJackieRose · 2 points · Posted at 20:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interestingly, some mathematician many years ago proved that 1 + 1 = 2. https://math.stackexchange.com/a/278983
trynsleep · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interesting article. But still why do we know that? Should we be able to know that? Is maths something that has been there forever or did we humans "invent" it?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well you could argue both. Nature has maths in it, Venus fly traps count to 2 before snapping. It's just we came up with a way of visualising it
trynsleep · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what 2 do they count? Do they count two seconds (which we also came up with) or do they just wait a certain time they wanted to/think is the best? What I mean: do they realize they do this or do they just do what they think they should do at a certain time?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They wait for 2 leg movements of the fly. I'm sure they know what they are doing but I am not sure if they realise they are "counting" as that's a more human perspective
trynsleep · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe they don't count but rather check sth like a program yk. For example:
If I feel one movement: I wait if there is another one If yes Snap If no *Wait or sth :
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sounds a lot like counting without calling it counting
trynsleep · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sort of. Like I think the plant recognizes the presence of multiple feelings but maybe not exactly how many.
Annannabanana313 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Giallo92 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks markets.
MsJackieRose · 2 points · Posted at 20:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've talked about stocks over here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/what_do_you_genuinely_not_understand/fn46wcd?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
A stock market is just a collection of companies that are allowed to sell shares in that establishment. They rise when the majority of their shares go up or the overall increase is higher than the overall decrease
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In primary school we had to eat sandwiches before any other item of food in our lunch. If you didn't the 'dinner ladies' would get triggered.
CaptnSp00ky · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people are so willing to choose socialism over capitalism thinking it will transform the nation into a utopia despite there being very clear historical (and present) evidence that this is not and will never be the case.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say socialism I've usually found them mean democratic socialism which is where it's a democracy but with a welfare system (like free healthcare, benefits to those that are disadvantaged etc). Very rare they mean full blown socialism
CaptnSp00ky · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both are bad. Very bad. Please give me a real world example of socialism (or communism) working well for a large diverse population.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 07:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have a good example of communism or socialism. But have a look at European countries for a working democratic socialist country. England for example
CaptnSp00ky · 1 points · Posted at 10:30:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
England is a constitutional monarchy.... opposite side of the spectrum.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 10:54:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The queen's role is purely ceremonial. All the actual work is done by the elected parliamentary members. Our welfare system (dubbed "cradle to grave") has been around for over 60 years! We have free healthcare, benefits, educational funding etc. But we are still democratic. For all purposes we are a democratic socialist society.
RobboBanano · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have played guitar for over 20 years but was never technically trained on theory or anything like that. I would love to understand how to create neat harmonies for vocals or even guitar but any time I try to research it it just goes over my head.
Gutten57 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why farmers don't earn more money, they literally keep every one alive and work 24/7 and all they get back is shit because people don't understand how things work in the real world. But they don't want to learn either because what are the going to complain about then?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The issue is there isn't much intrinsic value in a crop because there are loads of farmers and the buyer has a lot more power than the farmer does. The buyer can go anywhere but the farmer has limited options. If the farmer tries to increase their prices then the buyer will just go to a cheaper farmer. If you're interested, the UK company "Tyrrell's crisps" was founded because this potato farmer got annoyed that a supermarket tried to force him to lower his prices
bigvirgin42021 · 1 points · Posted at 19:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Piercings like why do u pay money to have someone put a whole in ur skin and fill it in with some metal
Wambocommando · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can mistrust the government but be vehemently anti-gun.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because I don't trust someone doesn't mean I need a gun to protect myself from them. Unless your country's stability is quite low where that sort of armed protection may be required. I live in England and if I don't trust the government I just try and elect another one in. Protests and talking to our parliamentary members is quite effective over here so we don't need guns incase we need to overthrow the government. It ain't the 18th century now
Wambocommando · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a long history of governments using force to oppress their citizens. Long history as in the entire history of the human race.
Onlyhereforthelaughs · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can continue to support Trump when he didn't follow through on his promises to them, bungles everything he does, disregards his own Tweets when they are quoted back to him, and during his campaign said to grab women by the pussy.
And sadly, I predict this coming election is still gonna be a close race, even though it really shouldn't be. It just makes no damn sense, kinda like Trump.
shac_melley · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men who argue that catcalling is "not that bad" or should be "taken as a compliment", regardless of the fact that the women in their life tell them it's awful. Like what do they gain from it besides making women uncomfortable?
peppie46 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math😣
wishiwasbillmurray · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Short term thinking tied to hypocritical stupidity.
The type of very short-term thinking that condemns us to being victimized on repeat by the same forces and systemic failings. Then, expecting charities and random people to effectively fix the problems our power and/or money minded leaders have no incentive to address.
And then the punchline is we complain and don't do anything to change the terms of the game, dooming ourselves to a self fulfilling prophecy of problems.
im_gay_ok_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the store is in walking distance away and my dad still hasn’t come back from getting milk
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sure the line is just really long
im_gay_ok_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s been 9 years
MsJackieRose · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very long line
im_gay_ok_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess
willaney · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a watch tachymeter bezel works
Moridain · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How terribly edited spam email and web ads are still a thing. Nigerian princes have been trying to offload money now for about a forty years, and apparently the scam succeeds enough that spammers/scammers are still willing to throw money into advertising and email bots.
The boner pills will not, in fact, make your shlong grow 6 inches. This one trick will not let you lose 100 pounds in a month. The secret that doctors don't want you to know is not being spread on a google ad on pornhub...
How do these things not die?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's free and easy to send thousands of emails and it only takes one person to fall for it, it's essentially free money
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
grammarpopo · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obviously, quantum physics.
MikeStuddy · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
ZaneTownsend · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
brycewit · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
AdolfDuckler3000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
noone-cares-about-u · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes
AdolfDuckler3000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes are just some empty sucking machine
landrover97centre · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females
Darren_NH · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers.
NathanHavokx · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of media, especially interactive media, being stored and distributed on discs, cartridges or... pretty much anything.
shinyaveragehuman · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes. How light even can’t escape it. I just can’t.
Holzwurm666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wars for religion
jeffthesimpkiller · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people find any appeal in being called baby
weedeemgee · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
CanadianEh48 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gauge Theory
taco_beer_repeat · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone thinks trickle down economics is actually going to work.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It works to an extent but there can be bottlenecks. Think about it this way, Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, has a great year and Amazon profits are through the roof. So he wants to expand. This creates more jobs for people. That's the ideal way a trickle down system would work. But sometimes they don't create jobs and they just keep the money
Rucco_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depression
mediadavid · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How movie companies can spend literally hundreds of millions of dollars making and advertising a movie, but don't seem to care to spend any time or money on the script.
kfxrcer · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The beginning of time.
Pi-Guy · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trying to understand the beginning of time is like trying to understand the beginning of space. They're tied together
TacticalOwlz · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics, primarily the maths behind it all
420Someone-E · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take the time out of their life's just to call someone "Stupid" or "Dumbass" etc. And just hating on someone for no reason at all.
Sweetkimmie67 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some math
Ogir-Yensa · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries and their whole community.
I just.. I dont get it.
Amazonit · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's because on the internet you can represent yourself as anything, thanks to distance and anonymity. So for some people it's "fuck it here's a bipedal wolf character I created, this is what I want my online image to be". And that becomes their online image, because there's nothing else to go on.
As for why they're into that... concept, it's probably quite dependent on what people read/watched when they were young.
gcastrato · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW THEY MAKE VINYL!! Seriously that is crazy a molded piece of black plastic can do that.
huiledesoja · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there is supposedly jobs for everybody. When I had my HVAC tech degree, with 20 person with the same one in this town only, I can't imagine an economy where everyone of them get a job, EACH YEAR. That can't work, and yet it almost does.. I don't get it
MyTinyHappyPlace · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alternating current (AC). Somehow, we wiggle the poles of a power source 50 times per second and that is somehow more efficient when transfering it at high voltages.
enho224 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just leave their shopping cart in the parking space they used... two spaces over from the corral.
It’s right. Fucking. There.
zuggie24 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to properly play rocket league
PhilosophicalBrewer · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who support Joe Biden for any reason other than “he can beat Trump”. I often wonder if any Biden supporters could name one single facet of his platform.
bot_boi0420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've made a reply to another algebra post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fz5363/what_do_you_genuinely_not_understand/fn495k5?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Reply if you need anything in particular!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do blind people see?
Do they see black? We can’t ask them cause they don’t know what black is. Do they see nothing cause they don’t have sight? But what is nothing? My closest idea is what you see when you close one eye.
Little_Tea_Leaf1115 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you have to switch which curtain you want to open!
shuerintelectual · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are 100% sure about their political and religious beliefs, wtf how can you ignore the complexity of those topics
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's called confirmation bias. You ignore anything that goes against your views or find a way in which to disregard the information given. This leads to your full faith in a belief
Ashnakag3019 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why one would use Algebra
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It makes scenarios more helpful to deal with if I can represent something as a letter. Let's say I want to know how many pence make a pound (UK currency). If I create a general equation "pounds = pence x 100" then I can keep reusing it but substituting values. y = X x 100. I could also stick it in a graph with the y-axis (vertical) being pounds I've got out and the x-axis(horizontal) being pence I put in
avory-johnson · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How The mind of a woman works
Spudskid12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents charging their children rent when they become adults. I just don’t understand how you can allow your own child to live in your house for free for years Then wake up one day and decide that this isn’t ok? I’ve also noticed that 90% of the time parents that do this are controlling as shit
corrigun · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SSL certs. I honestly believe they were invented to sell security services.
They are so ridiculously complicated to implement and manage that I wouldn't be a bit surprised to learn in 20 years that it was actually a hoax and they were meaningless.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can lead such toxic and dumb friendships.
Like, especially teenage girls, not all of them, but a lot lead such weird, toxic friendships where there's always drama and then their "friend" is apparently a toxic bitch and "they never liked them anyways" and then they gossip about them etc. But a few hours later they're best friends again. I just see this a lot in teenage girls but of course, also people in general
MosFett42 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tax credits and how the stimulus check will affect my taxes next year
WhoreBritches · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why/how this question makes it to the front page every week.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life is all about learning stuff. You never stop learning and people wanna know stuff!
HailCesar101 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people and how they are appeased
ICEMANdrake214 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't do psychedelics, but DMT. like I know it is essentially a neurotransmitter, but I just don't get how it makes people trip like that.
thisnamehas20letters · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why rick roll hasnt fucking died yet. Its been like fucking 10 years
mcmixtape · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Java - I get lost when it comes to loops
PotatoBone · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Majority of human social behaviors.
GeezLuis · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My complex analysis homework
luksonluke · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How does technology improve generally? like lets say, computer memory, how did it jump from little bits of megabytes to gegabytes and then to terabytes, what did they even do to improve memory this much?
semi_truck_anal · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls can't master bate on their periods
catman11234 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why weed is still illegal. I get that the gov needed a reason to arrest blacks and Mexicans but come on, we aren’t stupid anymore.
HS4809 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money
ComplexDespacito · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigotry, i mean, why hate a whole community of people just because you don't understand it? you don't have to do it, you just have to respect it
jaelakaren · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wanting to have safe and easily accessible abortions banned
i don’t think people should get abortions all willy nilly and take it lightly, but i just think they should always be available because there truly are circumstances where it’s the best option. just my thoughts though! i always try to be respectful of other opinions, i’ve just never been able to put myself in a pro-lifer’s shoes i guess
just_some_creepy_guy · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance. My eyes gloss over the second anyone talks about it.
b_wald81 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Killing for Religion
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is how I see it. No religion sets out to make people's life worse. Religion is there to "save people". Unfortunately some religious people take it too far and believe the only way they can go to heaven/paradise or whatever they wanna call it is to do something for their religion. Killing people who don't believe in their god because they should is the classic example.
FoxyDomGames · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we use the same towel over and over? It must get dirty after the first use right?
Pancakewagon26 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those guys who give twitch streamers thousands of dollars so she'll say their name or something.
How are you successful enough to have this much money but pathetic enough to give it to a stranger who you'll never see in person?
Skelelight · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
vo1tag3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kingdom Hearts. I watched different videos before KH3 released. The all said the exact same thing and i still to the day have no idea what was going on
cmaronchick · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pot odds in poker.
I have tried pretty hard to understand it, and I just can't my head around it. It's probably because I haven't played enough, but that's partly because I don't understand the damn pot odds!
Also, in a totally different vein, unit testing in software. Same problem. I have spent time trying to understand it, and my brain just refuses to accept it as a concept.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability in maths. I can calculate with it, but for some reason i just can't hold it in any logical thought.
MikkoBoe87 · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't US have free healthcare?
alperbah · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transient Analysis. Thermodynamics.
mizzlol · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
ColHapHapablap · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservative politics. Just seems like a cult for white people to be racist, horde money, and steal/maintain power at the expense of all human decency, morality, and ethics.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's racists in every part of society unfortunately, no party is safe. At the end of the day people like money and don't really want to share it with everyone else, I don't for a start! But a lot of people understand that we have to help everyone out. It can be hard for people to see "the greater good".
seeingeyegod · 1 points · Posted at 19:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so if say 1000 people have coronavirus, and 50 died, you divide 50/1000 and you get a result of .05, or 5 one hundredths (5%)... so doesn't that mean you're logically saying that each "1" in the 100 represent 5 people? There are only 20 groups of 5 in 100 though, so that doesn't make sense. Where is my logic failing? I know I could solve this with fractions and some algebra but I've never quite understood logically what is happening.
ilikecurlyhair · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what happens when we die, simply the fact of not existing? like i understand it but i cant comprehend it. if i think about it for too long my head hurts, like when we die we just do nothing? we don’t exist? so many theories are that were in out subconscious or it’ll b like when were asleep but not existing? its hard to phrase but i simply cant understand not being.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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andreasbeer1981 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kiswahili
pilledsweatshirt · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can just fall right asleep. My SO does this and when I ask how, he says “just think about nothing”. What does that even mean?
travisstannnn · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers originally got made, like how could you figure out that putting all these components together would get a computer to work. Then how coding works, like how does the code turn into what it turns into. Another thing is something like GPUS, how did people figure out all the parts to make a GPu do what a GPU Does ?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I don't know much about computer history but I can help with coding!
Let's say I have a text file with some code in it, let's say it just says "Hi!". Right now the computer can't do anything with this information, it might as well be a word document. When a text file becomes a program we say it has been "compiled" into an executable (a binary file the computer can understand). There are four stages of compilation that is done by a program called the compiler
Step 1: remove all the crap stuff. Unnecessary empty lines, spaces, all that rubbish a computer doesn't care about. It also creates a table that tells itself what each bit of code means in hexadecimal Step 2: make sure it's in the right syntax. If you expect me to write in English and I write in French, that's the wrong syntax. Same idea. If it wants it in C and I give it java it won't like that and will tell me it doesn't. Step 3: more Checking that the programmer isn't an idiot. Making sure that if I've checked whether X = 1, that X is actually given a value at some point. Also makes sure I haven't tried to do mathematical operations on text instead of numbers. Step 4: code generation. Turns my code into binary if everything else was successful. This bit is very complex because it depends on how your PC is built (windows, linux, how many bits etc).
PureShadow1236 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t tell you don’t have anything to say after you go “soooooooooo” after you make a point
iemasandwich · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it indeed was Adam and Eve ONLY, and they had 2 sons... both boys...
Why is there an apple in my soup?
Amazonit · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They also had a third son called Seth
doesn't help the issue but it'll be useful in a pub quiz I'm sure
ChotheredSmicken · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my neighbours continue to let their daughter and boyfriend visit them during lockdown.
multikat42 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people trust trump
dabobbo · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life insurance. I get offers for, say, $300k for $2400/yr ($200/month). I'm 52. Let's say I sign up and live another 30 years. That means I paid in $72k. How does the insurance company make money? Do my premiums rise as I get older?
queen_frostine · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personal Finance. I am really, REALLY bad with money. I'm 30 and I'm afraid I'm going to get old and die bankrupt like the rest of my family. Not for lack of trying, it's just one of those things that does not compute for me.
YeetMyWee · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WOMEN.
wnzfr · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
girls.
Colemaz · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the first teacher learned stuff
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well a teacher is just someone with information that decided to spread it. Even those that spread false information are still teachers, though dubious. The first teacher was probably some caveman who was like "I just saw my friend get eaten by this creature, let's not go near them" or "I just saw someone throw up after eating this berry, we should stop eating them*
CoolpantsMcGhee · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm generally flabbergasted by the extent of human stupidity.
Also, I dont understand Precalculus with Analytical Geometry.
Yummyfood123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can sleep around. To me, sex is intimacy, and it's not stressful for me worrying about anything because my partner and I know each other. I don't have to worry about not farting in front of a stranger or anything like that. I find it to be a very special time with either my partner, or just having fun by myself. I would never want to share that with a stranger, only someone I'm very close with.
theguygelo · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A stock is a tiny part of a company. If the company is public (on a stock exchange) the value of that stock is determined by these guys called "market makers". They decide how much a stock is worth, but how? Well...a stock is comparable to a good/service. Imagine if stock was toilet paper. The demand for toilet paper has increased so the value of it has increased. When demand reduces, so will the price. Same idea with stocks. If everyone wants to invest in Apple then their share price will increase. If apple are doing badly people might wanna sell their stock and leave which would bring the price down.
So why hold stocks? Well some companies provide dividends, these are like a "thank you" to investors in the form of a check. It's usually like a few cents/pence per share you own. That's a short term profit.
Others might hold stocks, like me for example, so I can sell them when the company's share price increases to a high amount (buy low, sell high, just like goods that companies have).
Each stock is worth a tiny percentage of the company and gives you the right to comment at their annual meetings, if you own a lot of stocks they'll listen to you more and if you own the majority they have no choice but to do as you want.
Funds are like a collection of stocks you invest in. Someone has usually created this collection for you so you just dump your money in it. "But why should I do that, the value might decrease!" Funds usually increase at a higher percent than interest rates so it's a good long term strategy of saving money. Plus because funds are diverse in their investments, there's less risk than cherry-picking a few shares.
Hope this helped, reply if you want anything else!
OodleLoodle · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
Switch_Mozzarella · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
one word, women
Skittles_the_Unicorn · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popularity of most celebrities.
scoobyking6 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every subreddit above 1 mil is toxic and doesn’t respect any opinions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yawning. Are we tired? Is it really an oxygen thing? How come if I are you do it, I have to do it? Why do I do it do it before I go to sleep but also when I wake up?
mewiodas · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry. Seriously, I took Geometry in high school, and I guessed my way through it. I still have no understanding of it. I genuinely hate geometry with a passion.
Edit: Also, whatever finite mathematics is. I was tested into a finite mathematics course my first semester of college. Halfway through the semester, I ended up in php (a day hospital type of program) for a couple weeks, and had to drop out of finite mathematics because I missed so much I was literally in tears trying to do homework.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta love a right angled triangle. Let's say I'm making a ramp and due to regulations I need it to be 30 degrees as the incline. I also need it to be 5 metres high by the end of it. How long should the ramp be? No idea, but some maths person figured it out and told everyone.
If we label the hypotenuse (the longest part of the triangle/the ramp bit) "H", and we label the side that will be 5 metres tall "O" (for Opposite of the angle) and then the ground "A" (for adjacent to the angle). We can work out the length of the ramp. Because we have O and we need A we should use the angle with tan (SOA, CAH, TOA can explain that but if I need to). So tan30 = Opposite/Adjacent or tan30 = 5metres/the length of the ramp. So 5 = tan30*length. If we divide by tan30 then we are left with just the length. Therefore, 8.66 metres the length the ramp should be.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spin.
potato_kriss_vector · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people complain and make a big deal of the smallest things in public.
bearontheroof · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my 401k is down 30% and not 85%.
reddm4n · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get back with their ex who’s now a changed person... Ffs Karen, it’s been 16 hours.
Beas8 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cannot grasp how long a million years is as a human being who lives 70 years.
UnhappyBelial · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Anything after the basic addition, subtraction, some division, and most times tables. My whole life I’ve never understood it.
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well here's one for you. Exponential growth. Something that is exponential in growth means it will keep going up at a faster rate than previously. The coronavirus cases graph is a good example. Starts slow and shoots up. For a graph it would be y = ex. y = ex is good for modelling stuff like virus spread, population growth, bank account growth from interest etc
Ask me if you wanna know something in particular I've got a pretty good understanding of it
DaniloAlimo · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A woman's mind
nycama · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I had to pay to apply to college. Did I seriously pay my dream school $70 to reject me?
MsJackieRose · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm from the UK and we have a system that is government ran. It's called UCAS. We pay around £20 for an online service that provides us with tonnes of information about universities and other information that might help us through the process. Crazy amount of useful information. The £20 is an admin fee for that service. Is that similar for you?
nycama · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don’t have a government ran system that I know of. There is a widely used program called Naviance that is run by a private corporation. It helps you match up with schools and possible careers, and teachers use it to submit letters of recommendations to all your schools at one time. It’s linked to the commonapp, which is the program that contains all your individual applications. I think Naviance is about $10 to use, though I’m not sure because my school set it up for us. Honestly I didn’t use it that much and it seems different from UCAS because as far as I know it doesn’t hold a database of info. It was a good tool to have to organize my schools, though.
smgkid12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sub-netting that shits magic yo
fx1171 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Reddit does karma
Nobody275 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing, and quantum entanglement. Seems really science fiction and almost supernatural.
Narwhalinspace · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have to take classes that have nothing to do with my degree. If I'm taking art, why do I have to take history/math/science/etc??
caemt_dre19 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I’m only 20 tho, so maybe that’ll change one day? I hope lol
snidbert64 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans ideology
glitteryfart · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Java. I'm pretty decent at programming but this is the only language that baffles me.
mcadams226 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people will walk/run/ride their bike in the street taking up space while there is a sidewalk right next to them for this reason
adamaster7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
General relativity
theunraveler1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
od_on_glitter · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America’s healthcare system, and also why the mullet haircut was ever popular
lemon_lime__ · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
Politics.
The concept of numbers- like, who decides that 1+1=2? Just because that value was assigned that number. Similar to the development of languages, I suppose.
People who educate themselves via social media or a few websites and then develop beliefs that spit in the face of centuries of scientific research and data (ie, flat earthers). Just blows my mind.
Yhaqtera · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
_Whoopsee_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mind of stalkers. Honestly, what is the purpose? What do they think is going to happen? No one who was stalked was suddenly like, "Yeah, you're right. Let's get together!".
3point5seconds · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people draw/carve thing into bathroom stalls?
Makarov762 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the people at "the top" can be so out of touch. It baffles the mind.
abraxas160679 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus, geometry & Algebra.
drpjr1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese Calculus
tttkkk · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket/ Baseball
Had it explained many times I just don't understand where the excitement comes from
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can pull something down when it can lift them. Like a large balloon that can lift a person can be held down by that person I get muscles play a role but can't grasp how you can "increase" your weight.
Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As long as the force from the balloon is smaller (in magnitude) than the force you experience just due to gravity, you would still feel a pull downwards due to gravity.
However if you were stood on a weighing scale, then yes the reading would decrease if you were holding on to a balloon pulling you up, and no amount of resisting could change that.
Sad_Cena · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can claim they're animal lovers and then they eat animals... you're a pet lover, not an animal lover. you wouldn't eat your pets, would you?
notsorryatall_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. Studied it after school and ended up dropping the class because I could never understand it
_stephenopoulos · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The NFL salary cap system. Dear lord is it complicated.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
itsavinadhtiwari · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why celebrities are overrated. Like who tf cares what kim ate yesterday and why they care.
Why people lack common sense.
Why people cant use blinkers.why people honk in traffic jam like there honking is gonna solve the problem.
How universe formed.
So many questions?
b-tchlasagna · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people just can’t respect your opinion, and everything they like is the only thing you can like.
NathanTR1992 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I do not understand why the word 'China' will instantly make majority of Americans lose their ability of critical thinking.
All too many time, everything about China has to be bad, inhumane and not 'free'. Every. Thing. Everything there has to be state-controlled, everyone is a communist and people never ever think or make decisions for themselves because that's what you've been told all your life but you do not have the money to travel to China and see by your own eyes. And if you don't agree with it then you're simply brainwashed pityful little baby. Any random things on the internet can be interesting or wonderful, until the C word is mentioned, then everyone just comes crashing down lambasting how bad this thing actually is because it's coming from a evil communistic regime.
I don't understand how the C word can be so powerful in evaporating critical thinking skills.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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pizzaladypanties · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People want to carry on their bloodline and to be remembered after they die children will do both.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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pizzaladypanties · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Much like any long term project ots not for everyone, just like I have no inclination to build a boat by hand there are people who live for it.
bkbrigadier · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
boredreader_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
armedmissionary · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economy
geralex · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to fold a fitted bed sheet so it doesn’t look like it fell into a tornado. I just want to get it folded neatly in the cupboard.
I mean, I’m 50years old and moderately intelligent, but this life skill f***ing escapes me.
pizzaladypanties · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've watched dozens of these before finally figuring it out and getting it halfway right folding a fitted sheet
geralex · 1 points · Posted at 09:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your link comes up as "Not available in your country."
I'm beginning to think this is a conspiracy...
pizzaladypanties · 1 points · Posted at 14:30:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://imgur.com/gallery/4uecgFV
Meta0X · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a really weird one that I'm sure a lot of people on here would raise an eyebrow at.
I'm pretty good at understanding why people like things. Even if I don't. I have a friend that's obsessed with the Golden Girls. I've never liked them, but I get the appeal. A bunch of old ladies being brutally honest does sound hilarious. Everyone I knew when I was younger loved Homestar Runner, but that's never appealed to me in the slightest. It just wasn't my sense of humor. And even though I think it's an objectively bad book series and has some harmful messages, I get the escapism behind something like Twilight, and why it was such a massive hit within its target audience.
You know what I don't understand to this day?
Why people loved Scott Pilgrim Vs the World. It is literally the only movie I've ever walked out of a theater on. I only finally watched the whole thing about two years ago when a friend forced me to, and I thought it was so frustratingly bad. The action scenes, the special effects, the dialogue, the chatacters, the pacing, most of the jokes, even the core concept all annoy the fuck out of me, and I don't get why anyone likes it as much as a good handful of my friends do.
And honestly, when I say that (never harshly, I'm being way more brutally honest about it here, I usually just say "I don't get it, I don't like it, it's cool if you do though") a lot of them get... kind of defensive. Like I said, a friend of mine basically all but forced me to watch through it. It's something special to them and while I sure don't feel left out, I've just never gotten it.
I would love it if someone could explain it to me.
chikiii__ · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can some people start a drama or smth like just instantly and then literally ENJOY IT?? WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
Limeb22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to balance a checkbook
Joe_Schmo_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin magnets, how do they work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
dude105tanki · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity, I just can’t figure out what I’m essences it is, it’s the flow of electrons... ok so does that mean that electrons flow from one atom to another, so is electricity a magnetic force then. I just can’t figure it out
pizzaladypanties · 2 points · Posted at 19:44:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This has helped me understand a lot of how and why it works.
engineering mindest
dude105tanki · 2 points · Posted at 19:47:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks this does indeed help
trolololoz · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How inflation works. I've read that giving everyone 1 million dollars would be bad as prices would go up. Why do prices have to go up? I get the supply and demand thing but isn't it all just psychological? Meaning that if we just impose for prices to stay the same plus a small percentage each year, everything would be the same.
teatimelolno · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, after grade school I still don't understand.
Slartibertfist · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Log tables, the math type.
theotherdude · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being an introvert, I genuinely and honestly do not understand what is so great about partying. When I see movies that portrays partying as their plot, or TV news or shows about parties or spring break, I was really baffled. When I was in college I did try to go to a party just to satisfy my curiosity and more importantly to understand why it is considered fun. Scenes of drunken youths screaming, dancing, being overly friendly, non stop talking about really stupid things, and incredibly annoying people getting within my comfort zone really puts me off. I really don't get that.
DarkArisen_Kato · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word: Irony, Ironic etc
I’ve looked it up and there are so many definitions and variations of the word that I still to this day don’t know how to use it efficiently (31m) I think I’ve given up lol
CoconutMeadow · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hatred for Meghan Markle.
Noah_Salk · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SIMP's
CyBroOfficial · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the actual fuck Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap (D4C) works in SBR
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom and dad are not home shhhhhh.
How are babies made? and what is sexing. I heard mom say something about it but I dont know what it is.
smango19 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to apply for university and what loans I will need. I want to be a math teacher but I just don't understand courses, the different types of credits, and where to go for student loans. It confuses me so much.
AdmiralStu · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cyrillic alphabet
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I like bad boys"
Bad_Muh_fuuuuuucka · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why America is fueled by capitalism instead of humanitarianism
SuperMikoo · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YouTube's demonization policy. You can't say "shit" but ads in front of your monetized video can say whatever there fuck they like.
DJ_Bluntz411 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma among other things. But this is the biggest mystery to me.
kenitsuki · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between velocity and speed and acceleration. Been studying physics for years. Heck even wrote papers on it. Just can't seem to visualise it.
Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It does still feel like a cheat when we say that circular motion implies acceleration.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m monolingual, so... most languages.
ks7084 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instagram-modeling.
peepeepoopoo549 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
fuckparkinggarages · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people enjoy mayonnaise. it’s just so bad and ruins any sandwich that it’s slathered on.
ColorMeAnxious · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. All of it
F4T3MDragoYT · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How technology works
camillexs · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way elections work, like why do we need the electoral college?
llekcim · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
wiriux · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi actually works. The low and high pulses which represent the bits; how exactly do they travel in the air? If I send a message and start waving my hands along with 30 people distributed from where I sent it to the router, do some waves pass through my body?
Apparently wifi waves do pass through your body? I find this hard to believe. So what happens if I actually disturb the waves while I send the text? It doesn't matter since the message still gets through.
I still don't understand how messages are sent through the air via wifi. If anyone has a great video explaining this or a link that would be awesome because I truly do not understand the technical aspect of wifi.
pepperswtf · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to divide :/
DocWaterfalls · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
Paperhead120 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people base characteristics of individuals and make relationship and personal decisions (won’t date, only date, only trust) based on horoscopes.
Kobebokk · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
aa278666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
BennyRum · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fraternities/Sororities
BaffledBantha · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers, phones, TVs etc ACTUALLY work. Like I understand it conceptually. The fact that these things exist in the first place is what quite literally blows my mind. It legitimately seems impossible to my simple mind.
frankenramen · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is embarrassing, but I don’t understand how the internet was made let alone how it actually works.
notgabi · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being racist/bigoted/misogynistic/prejudiced. I don't understand how people can genuinely despise and want dead other people based on their color/creed/orientation.
RenierTanuki · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to play Civilization IV
CrackerDown · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my exwife refuses to stay out of my business
Emperor315 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parent cry when their kids reach certain milestones like going to school. I know people say "they are growing up so fast" etc but I'm not sure why that's an emotional thing for people.
harrycopter69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
blakespot · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How #OPENAMERICANOW is currently trending.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms. Like I understand what they are, but I just still can’t fully wrap my head around them. I was always really good at math, and then way back in high school, I missed a good few weeks with an infected tick bite that was causing the skin on my one thigh to basically rot away. Came back in the middle of the log unit, and just couldn’t get it. That was the end of me being good at math.
CandidManner · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people from different places look so different. Eg. White Arabs in the levant and caucasians in the caucuses look pretty similar, but if you go slightly more eastward, you get to Pakistanis, whom also look distinctly different from Iranians
How mankind evolve to look so different in different parts of the earth?
garbagetrain · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Islam. I understand most religions, but I just don't get Islam. I feel like I'm missing something or misunderstanding something. I don't mean it in a discriminatory way; I just genuinely do not understand it.
littlewonB · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus... What the heck is tangent?
ladyrowe · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people stop their grocery cart right in the middle of an aisle and walk 5 feet away to look at something on the shelf for ten minutes.
Scretzy · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What being gender fluid means. Like one day you can just feel like a boy the next you can feel like a girl? That literally sounds like you have multiple personality disorder and that’s why im so confused by it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, that or fantasy football.
CryingButInACoolWay_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hype around TikTok
BigDaddySheev · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
barrypiertje · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those TikTok youths
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Ilikefame2020 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Federalism vs. Anti-Federalism
yanterxzx · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I learned english I just played games and suddenly BOOM I know it
LMB_mook · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets. How do they work?
KurtCobainsBrains · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accents.
Crazyjaks · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly does "don't do anything" mean
Rayleigh077 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how can people be bigoted? i hardly have the energy to hate people for valid reasons, let aline based on their gender or whatever
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigger infinities. Like the number of whole numbers (..., -2, -1, 0, 1, 2...) is infinite, but the number of rational numbers (aka fractions) is infinite but bigger, and the number of irrational numbers is infinite too but a bigger infinity than both of those?? It makes sense mathematically but in my head... just HOW?!?
PhilsterM9 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just how electricity works
Like what the fuck science
Adult_Not_today · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock mark works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why depressing songs on radio's exist.
Normally every single day I listen to the radio, and most of the time I hear depressing songs. This being songs that have a sad and depressing tone. I thought music was the form of showing happiness and feelings to other people to make them 'feel' something (which I understand) but why do these songs have to be on the radio, when all you want to do is just to listen to some tunes and stuff from time to time? I think they just make me feel like committing suicide because half of these songs are full of people without the talent to sing since they are so gloomy and dark. I mean, just why? I need answers.
JeremyMo88 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. How do you make a piece of metal display images and calculate?
MicrowavedBrownie · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get why people try to spread the corona virus.. Spitting on elevator buttons, spitting/licking food in stores and etc. What do you gain from it?
Cadaver_Fucker · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the 'being rude to wait staff' answer continues to get thousands of upvotes every time it's shoehorned into a thread that it's tangentially related to. I get it, everyone hates people who are rude to people in service, I definitely hated it when I worked in retail, but nobody seems to call out the obvious karma farming that makes these threads so stale.
DragonLady575 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudoku. Never been able to figure it out
Lavos666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the internet tbh
bannocknsaltpork · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chess
reesey124 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The basic concept of Quantum Physics
LULO502 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
smiley358 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can find me attractive, or even passable. It perplexes me completly even though my partner loves to state at me.
groggboy · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science and math. I have a college degree but Iam Dumb as a box of tools
tyxylil · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m definitely late to this one but I will never understand how people don’t recognize Trump’s utter narcissism. It is so blatantly obvious that he only cares about himself and his appearance. I mean he tweeted about the RATINGS of his coronavirus press conference....? I cannot fathom the whole MAGA/KAG cult mindset.
killercunt · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I’m being honest, politics. So many words and phrases that get put out there and I have no idea what most of it means. Government wasn’t my best class.
duowolf · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how so many people spend time get angry/upset at stuff they don't like instead of just enjoying/being happy about the stuff the do.
by stuff i mean films, books, games etc
classic_rick08 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and life 😛
psychoparched · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people condemn taking your own life.
KomputerIdiat · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why isn't there any videos on Youtube teaching you everything about how to use all of Windows 10's functions.
marleythakoeri · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia why are people so interested in who others fuck like damn mind your own business
valo71 · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife.
Chickeneggsandlegs · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The last two films of The Matrix franchise. I’ve watched videos where people explain the plot and the theories behind it, but I just don’t get it. Maybe because I’m stupid
observerrr · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
booperbends · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
DevaBol · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many Italians think Salvini is a good politician. I really won't ever understand it.
MediocreDahl · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Football, it has been explained to me countless times.
containerheart · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crypto currency. I've tried too! I'm getting good at faking that I understand.
LouviLP · 1 points · Posted at 19:32:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf do I have to take a shopping cart in the store during coronavirus? I think they want the shoppers to keep a distance to each other but if everyone touches the cart, then the virus will spread over said carts.
Ehunda · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that hoarding toilet paper will save their life during this crisis.
JakeyBoy92 · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyls - how does music get imprinted on it and how does a needle play all that sound? Voodoo black magic to me
SweetPotato696 · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
autistic_robot · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so polarized politically
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to live
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. And just space in general. Like there’s a bunch of rocks, but then something happened and now they’re perfect spheres. Oh and they’re all spinning around each other, but they never crash into each other. And why are they spinning in the first place? And also the spinning makes stuff stick to it. How??
Sometimes I’ll just stand for a good few minutes dropping something on the ground and just thinking “woah”.
Chaosritter · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people insist to keep "helping" despite seeing the results of their misguided attempts right before their eyes.
"Oh no, these poor deer and boars don't find food in the winter! I gotta feed them!"
"Oh, there's so many deer and boars this year that they turn into a real problem!"
"Oh no, there's even more starving deer and boars this winter, gotta feed them more!"
My grandpa was a forest ranger and actually had to disassemble the feeding stations and place signs that threaten hefty fines because many locals kept dumping bread and potatoes in there year after and year, which led to overpopulation that had to be decimated because it caused significant damage to the trees and nearby fields.
Didn't stop these idiots from still dumping their shit because "they want to help the animals".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why sailing against the wind works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself mostly
old_gangly_greg · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fluid mechanics
OopsWhoopsieDaisy · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take up smoking in this day and age. Like...do people want to stink? Nothing smells worse and yet people willingly make themselves smell like it.
Also why some people believe that healthcare is not a human right, but owning a machine gun is.
clnsdabst · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unskippable cut scenes in video games
KetordinaryDay · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some companies who advertise in mobile games insist on being such a nuisance. Not allowing us to mute, clickbaiting, false advertising, putting a muting icon on the screen so when clicked it takes you to the download page...
I mean ya'll know it only guarantees I'm never ever even considering downloading the app right? It just makes me feel angry and played. Bamboozled.
In Terry's voice: WHY?
waheifilmguy · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are obsessed with various kinds of entertainment and live their lives like they have a stake in Hollywood stars, athletes, comics, etc.
C_Splash · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Elitists. Especially music elitists. I can't imagine getting worked up over something as trivial as personal preference.
burgerkingbandito · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
WeazelDeazel · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who build their entire lives / personalities around one single thing, like a star signs, formations or a personality test.
I just don't understand people who say "I'd love to be with him but our signs just don't align" or who force it into every conversation or aspect of life. Take MBTI as an example. It's literally just a test that classifies your personality based on 4 different aspects and gives a suggestion on how you might view the world. But for some reason people take it as gospel and are shocked when you don't fit their exact stereotypes.
At the end of the day you're condensing everyone down into one aspect they might not even be able to influence (like birthday) and then more or less subconsciously decide whether you like them from the get-go, purely based on these random things before you might have even talked to them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you teach a kid to talk and specifically teach them words like "will", "was", "am", etc. Also, how Helen Keller understood anything.
electricamethyst · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are some people who just wake up feeling amazing, not depressed or tired.
NatalyaElina · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are genuinely mean? Is it inborn? Or developed over time??
TheLastSamurai · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the government can’t just print money for people, I don’t get it no matter how many times it’s explained to me
mostawkwardopossum · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parents can't accept their child being a writer or artist/illustrator. There's nothing wrong with wanting to do either, they're both perfectly normal jobs. But parents can only accept their kids being doctors or dentists or something high paying, even when they didn't have jobs like that?
Mist3rTryHard · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people who've already tested positive for COVID-19 and are asymptomatic or relatively healthy still have the nerve to go and infect other people.
CR_Avila · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do I even start....
vincenthurstuwu · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
acidicizemecaptain · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how screen printing works, i’ve been trying for hours
Josh_theWizard · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Comparators in Minecraft
GageThe12Gage · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why teachers freak out when you call them by their first name
awicedias · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiger king
Isolation-- · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humanity can be so dumb sometimes.
RottonPotatoes · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be genuinely happy and well adjusted.
kolohe0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to properly use "condone" in a sentence. Whenever I read word in the news I always have to think if they mean it's a good or a bad thing.
PussyWomen-Eggegee · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death
Ct-5736-Bladez · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
SOULJAR · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tide goes in, tide goes out. You can't explain that.
Monkeyojacko · 1 points · Posted at 19:33:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people create such awful mobile game ads
HerrStewie · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people just can't be honest and is dishonest by habit/standard
Exiled_Survivor · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone already brought up abuse, but I specifically want tqo call out CHILD abuse. I will NEVER understand why someone would strike/rape/murder a child. Such things easily set me off like a nuclear warhead and make me want to wreck the ever loving shit out of the faces of those who would do it.
Mystical_Raven · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I got ghosted from a 2 year long friend today. And why his profile pic on discord suddenly displays a black n white gif of someone crying/about to cry.
EB__ · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How two languages in contact with eachother for the first time came into understanding eachother
deepdishpizza_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how we all came about. i don’t believe in god so it doesn’t make sense how or why nature and animals and science came to exist in an otherwise lifeless universe.
DevGin · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people continue to vote against their own interests. Or why people's own interests do not reflect the reality they live day-to-day.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The government.
poolley · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be such idiots!
indomitablewriter13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid people are
leddy_gee · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to iron clothes. I just can't deal with that shit.
kralicekobra · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I did not bother to google this but i do not understand how one black parent and one white parent give birth to a brown child, is this the same reason why coffee with milk is brown?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to explain common sense to people who were never taught certain common sense things. Basic communication comes to mind.
lazyllama13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people cheat on each other while maintaining another relationship? Just...have the balls to break up with them and go on hoeing. I'm appalled hearing stories of people nonchalantly saying that they've banged friends/randos who had significant others already. It saddens me that this is the norm in our society and loyalty is a rare thing in relationships.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of it is the thrill, if they break up, it's no longer forbidden, so the thrill is gone.
Ozzy3436 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why and how does currencies work.
Kit_chenSquad · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I go to certain places and my brain gets a weird radio static feeling run through it.
I don’t know how to beat word how it feels, but the last time I remember it happening, I was at my great grandmas funeral and me and my siblings were in a room away from everyone else and there was a stairwell down to a basement and as I stood at the top of the stairs, that weird wave of radio static went through my brain.
asmrbuffet · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trump's spastic tweets
_EclYpse_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mobile gaming developers get away with stealing footage, making false claims, targeting easily addictive people, and give wrong age requirements all for the sake of making an easy buck. And it works fucking well.
Zionuchiha · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take time out of their day to be offended by books, TV, movies, commercials, etc.
schmavy · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cruelty in people
Harmonic7eventh · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can prefer milk chocolate over dark chocolate.
handlexee · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How statistics do whatever the hell they want during a game of Catan.
mackey_00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
MercenaryCow · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how to socialize.
alphabet_assassin · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Avagadro and all the chemistry related to it
Mxrschmxllxw · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The german language in school.
TheDayWeWentCray · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans in general.
barrypiertje · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say ‘I could care less’ about something that doesn’t bother them. They’re basically saying they do care because they could care less.
A-Ron · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Politics - Why are people so tied to a political party, regardless of what policies they have? What's the point of democracy when you'll only vote for one party, ever.
And why are people so defensive of 'their' party?
I genuinely don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linear algebra
Retlaw1995 · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus... After 3 years of taking it in University, I still don't understand any of it.
tobinerino · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve tried but still don’t quite get how we perceive colors and rainbows. For colors, it’s related to the complementary color, right? But how does white, black and grey work as they aren’t in the visible light spectrum?
Claycastles · 1 points · Posted at 19:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Straight people.
JohnFuckingKennedy11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who made swear words, and who decided “fuck” was a bad one
k_mon2244 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We know the universe is expanding. We have empiric data that shows its expansion. But WHAT THE FUCK IS IT EXPANDING INTO???
andreasgriff · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fax machines work.
redemption_time · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where did the universe come from? What was there before it?
noodlewok · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes fly....
annelinda · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity. The size of the solar system. Planes. When to use affect/effect.
KothuRunover · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she doesn't love me back
shaunissheep · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women and their safe days. I genuinely want to know but cant seem to get it.
Xd_Pandone06 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
SidSiddo · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i paid to go to university when all the information i learnt is on the internet for free.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You get a degree which proves you're at least half-way competent. If there's an employer who wants to hire a programmer, but doesn't know anything about programming themselves, how do they tell the difference between a 22 year old who knows Java and a programmer who lies about knowing Java? The university degree.
ortiz0714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. Sorry not sorry.
giants46111 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ridiculously attractive women....
whitenelly · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my code works
Miylo13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to chill tf out. How to be empathetic and still not make someone else's problems my own just because I care about them. How to not overthink things my boyfriend says when he is one of the most straightforward people I know.
Mukisana · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
SomeYoke · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how it came to this
Atomic_Core_Official · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
jtpredator · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many americans think single payer health care is bad and would rather let insurance companies gut them while their medical expenses are many times the cost of other first world countries. Some americans would rather straight m-up die than go to the hospital because they would bankrupt their already struggling family if they choose to be saved. That does not look like something that would happen in the "world's greatest country".
the_nhir · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't I wear my hat? It's not the 14th century anymore.
orgin1234 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reflections work like when you walk away from a mirror does your reflection just vanish or is it just out of sight
Hardasteele · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind.
It’s one thing that has always fascinated me. Even when I do a little research I’m still like “but?”
Moocooman · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity, well I know it's literally impossible but yeah...
SweetJesusIts2020 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, but sorry women, I do try
Goldenfoxy3016 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
Sakura_Hirose · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reaction videos. I just don't understand the entertainment value.
VultureInTheCorner · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell are commercials relatable to the audience??? They fucking aren't!
Those laundry commercials show people enjoying their laundry so much, just because they used Tide, but then they go on to explain why and give us a montage of them loving life because of Tide.
noonefuckingdoesthatstfutide
AppleTangoMike · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, cheating in a relationship where the other person is genuinely in love with you, cares about you, and wants nothing but to see you succeed. I’m sure it’s happened to most people, and I found out one of my friends recently did this to his wife. I don’t understand it. I could never do that to my wife.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A bit late to this but how to build a pc
ortiz0714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Nancy ripping the speech
serenitysolstice · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics.
Sonal_D_J · 1 points · Posted at 19:35:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the murderers' mentality. I cant even hit a person ! How the hell does your mind get so twisted that you hurt one of your species !
Ardinno · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of the conductor in an orchestra. It’s not as if the musicians could collapse in a tuneless heap without them.
VultureInTheCorner · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell are commercials relatable to the audience??? They fucking aren't!
Those laundry commercials show people enjoying their laundry so much, just because they used Tide, but then they go on to explain why and give us a montage of them loving life because of Tide.
noonefuckingdoesthatstfutide
not_charlie1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can be talking to a girl and they only respond with "lol" or "cool haha" so you stop talking to them because you think they don't want to talk and the very next day they say that they miss talking to you.
dementian174 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still think the earth is flat and actively try to defend themselves on the position.
DrLockAndLoll · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys peeing on the floor. As a dude, I don't get how there's pee on the floor 80% of the time in restrooms
jonr · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate. Why fucking bother?
w211_ry · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What would occur when an unstoppable force met an immovable object. My brain just stops
PoppyInterwebs1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
relaxingrock420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Morgz.
Whiteguyinbronx · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How maps were made prior to human flight
Chesher1200 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long Division
ChubbyBidoof · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could I have been so blind to her intentions when I felt the same way the whole time?
CancerousSnake · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tinder
Yormankaaz · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the USA hasnt adopted the metric system
ladisglad · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I fluctuate up to 3 pounds every day
alternatiivnekonto · 2 points · Posted at 19:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's not your weight but the sum total of all the stuff inside your body.
You eat and drink - literally adding weight - your organism processes it, extracting and converting it - altering its composition and weight - you piss and shit some of it out - literally losing weight, you shed dead skin, dead hair.. there's tons of stuff happening in the background.
hierophantesse · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgages
lemons_of_doubt · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
flat earthers. it takes so little thought to prove them wrong. how can anyone be that stupid?
anti-vax i can understand. You need to understand basic biology to understand why vaccines are a good thing. But with the flat earth all you need is to look up at the nigh sky.
FlashyDevelopment · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some peoples questionable decision making.
Like why did you think it would be funny to "prank" a stranger by sucker punching them then wonder why they're pissed off
Henilator · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hack in online video games.
DaSpaceman96 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Gf thoughts
Coolpool785 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people complain so much that horror movies are scary and/or disturbing.
Like, that's the entire point.
Same goes for people complaining about jokes being offensive. It's the whole point.
XN28thePOS · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters/cult members. I mean. . . how can you believe all the lies and accept the ridiculous excuses?
Metalcastr · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I've had multiple tutors give up on me.
ThijsKeizer · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why so many people are willingly stupid and ignorant of the truth, looking at everyone on a far political spectrum both far-left and far-right
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination
2FDots · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like comic book movies. It's the same thing over, and over again. The studios keep churning them out and the people keep watching them. It's sad, really.
CasparDavidDancehall · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quaternions
purpleheighze · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
BlackeyeThe2nd · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my wife, for some reason, loves it when I call her "My Wife", but despises it if she is ever called "The Wife".
Hedica · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin mining. A multitude of ELI5 explanations have not helped.
chelseafcMI123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the UK does not enforce stricter lockdown rules
navvvvvvvv · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory. The idea that lines vibrate to make the entire universe up makes absolutely zero fucking sense to me.
alaingeenrits · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
em27soccer · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation. How do they determine it? Why do we have it?
P3achHat · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe in astrology.
nickkkkkboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. And W-2s. Adulthood seems wack
torzimay · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to vote....idk if I'm registered....I think I did....
largechild · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened before the Big Bang?
EnderJah · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people would rather go outside than stay inside
ashley_cujoh · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why paper with the number 5 is more valuable than a whole pizza
HAWXGamer141 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How those Mobile games that are nothing like their ads make money, like how do they even get people to not instantly delete it.
armyofspartans · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cable TV.
The price. The packages. Commercials even tho you pay for it. How the DVR can be so incredibly shitty. Contracts. Somebody with no carpentry experience can come drill a hole in your house.
BadgerAF · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people are perfectly content to live in a boring subdivision in the suburbs, drive and hour each way to work, and never go on vacations. I would be miserable but there are people who do this who seem generally happy. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
Fluffy123432 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aerodynamics
OrganicHearing · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents who make their kids pay rent
ortiz0714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mothers abandoning their children for men.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democrats
caffeinated_catholic · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can be trillions of dollars in debt. How the heck does that even work? Where is the money coming from?
BigBlackClock1001 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is a block in American distances? And where is downtown?
Troliver_13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things existing before I did. It's so hard for me to wrap my head around that concept, recently my mom told me a story about a relative that was mindblowing because their personality was so different than from what I know, it makes sense that people change but, like, what
piepak314 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrödinger’s Equation
Hash_oliver · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern arts. Like really. How does a painting that looks like someone puked after drinking a bottle of rum signifies dimensions and surreality and layers and other stuff. Way over my head.
3littlebirds3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Math in general makes all the sense in the world. If you have two of these and get two more you have four. Great. But what in the hell is calculus explaining to me in simplified terms?
xrp_reddit_guy · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How magnets work.
the_mandafloorian · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of the phantom menace
henzhou · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generating functions of linear recurrences
theholygho5t · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would want to inflict genuine harm on someone who hasn't wronged them or anyone they know
girrafe_of_arson · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so stupid
TuskedFever737 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females
iiLady_Insanityii · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck people manage to enjoy anime, let alone get attracted to the characters
caseyod81 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can look at others who are struggling, like people in poverty, and say they don’t want their tax dollars go towards helping them..... But then those same people might donate to people in poverty during Christmas.
caseyod81 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or same concept, how people don’t want taxes to go to health care for others. But then donate to a children’s hospital or a foundation for a disease or something
The1andonlynat · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mining for bitcoin and how the internet actually works. I always thought it was basically computers talking to servers but the depth of the dark web and bitcoin mining lead me to believe I have no idea
somedudetoyou · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. The fuck you all doing?
pentacle555 · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics fooling so many people into doing things which are plain stupid. Also, why is society focusing on money and not on science, education, healthcare, resources (water, fuel) as we used to. 😣
IanPKMmoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did my grades drop
redwallchara · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
its3amlol · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the point of learning anything past algebra 1 in school
FerrisB00bler · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
Like...I have tried. I have studied it. I've had scientists walk me through it. My dad is an electrician. I understand it as a basic concept but it still just seems like magic to me. Especially lightening. Crazy stuff.
Davidmommy · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents logic
parmoy · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life runs
Just_HumanNature · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The acid and bases problems in my chemistry homework
Bean_Gremlin · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY NOONE IS ASKING where the US keeps getting trillions of dollars to bailout the stocks and shit, but Republicans and democrats want to know how Bernie Sanders is gonna do Medicare for all.
italianginger04 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Immunology. I'm in medical school and we just finished our immunology course and I still have no idea how it works.
Cbskyfall · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity, I just don’t get it. I’ve honestly chalked it up to just magic tingles that makes the lights go on.
CouldItbeThat · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How global money and fonds and all of that shit work - i read about it, watched videos etc - still dont get it
ryesmile · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to solve a rubik's cube.
whydidimakeausername · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get sucked in and believe this while 5g, bill gates, Dr fauci conspiracy nonsense. Watching it happen to a friend of mine over IG and I'm so baffled by it
jayblin177 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people bring babies to concerts. If you can’t find a babysitter, don’t go to the concert. Please.
xZucker · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nicotine
Tried it plenty of times in various forms. Hated it more each time.
barstoolmuncher · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
ayanoyamada · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people respond to tweets on twitter with two minute videos of kpop stars dancing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still consume dairy products knowing how twisted and wrong this industry is
creepypasta_spoopy1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
TheOldOne_98 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Like, what the fuck?
mck357 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School systems. Specifically what they teach in high school. Yes, we need to know how to read and write and basic math but what’s the fucking point of algebra? I hate algebra and am terrible at it and am I ever gonna use it? No. Why not teach us things that are useful? Like how taxes work or even basic stitching. And don’t get me started on tests and homework.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys that like being hit in the nuts. Like what the heck how can anyone like that.
waverlyfishman · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance. I can’t wrap my head around it. And how the government works.
crypteux · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck do birds don't get electrocuted when sitting on wires?
I can't wrap my head around this. ELI5 lol
Bryancreates · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. I was even on teams in school. I just don’t understand how the rules work. Or why anyone cares. My mind just shuts off at the mention of the word.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kickflips. 13 years of skateboard and I still can’t figure it out.
TheRedditGirl15 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tried looking up one of those unsolved math equation things once. Felt like the biggest idiot in existence just trying to figure out what it was saying. Why did math have to start getting so hard around Pre-Calculus?
ronnydonnyjr · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I here
blackbeltgamer7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Tik Tok still exists
paul4cool · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who Tf looked at the terrible cash friendzy ad or other terrible mobile app ads with Siri Voiceover and said: that’s good that’s what people like imme get rich with this ad.
losbullitt · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we continue to elect absolute douche-bags into office.
West_Incident · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my supervisor got the job
SnifflyPage1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe in religion and why people are willing to fight and kill for it
Aerisaphunk · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't get my brain to understand if 12 am or pm is midnight or noon. I just end up using a 24 HR clock so I can actually set alarms for noon
mharwood7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
National debt.
BobRoss1999 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers
minnesota2194 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
yousoundlikethefeds · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Nateosis · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
Why is there different math? What's wrong with regular math?
ortiz0714 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can speak 2 languages
Merganmay · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always been naturally good at maths, I was in a g&t (gifted and talented (I've always hated the name)) class towards the end of my final year of high school and the syllabus was so large that they used to teach one thing per lesson and that was it, they wouldn't properly go back to it for the rest of the year
I missed one lesson and they talked about "completing the square" as a method for solving quadratic equations and it's now 3 years on and to this day I cant fucking figure out how to do it, I have had it explained to me countless times and it just baffles me
What's worse is that I'm pretty sure it's like absurdly basic and it infuriates me still that I dont understand it
Potato_foreverything · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does girls think
shinypokemonmaster7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
PotteringAlong · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money laundering. I’ve watched all series of Osark and had it explained to me multiple times but I still don’t totally get it
ThickRick1234 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ASMR
Jvalker · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people have different tastes than mine. I know it's a thing and I put up with it, but whenever someone has a diverging subjective opinion...
Why can you possibly like that?
How can you not see how great this is?
despacito-420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people think that 5G causes Covid-19 and are burning down 5G towers because of it.
Kashan12121 · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Filing taxes. I just consult an advisor and let them do the magic. While I look at them like the dumbass I am.
JasonCZ · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptic crossword clues
fannysplitter · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Software. And I'm a software engineer.
theanachron · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moderate democrats
dollywally · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance and that entire industry, the companies, and how they operate.
depressedbutiloveu · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people wont stay inside so this virus can be over with
merkur0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
asdafari · 0 points · Posted at 18:25:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's not to understand? You probably don't understand people.
1k_icy · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people care so much about someone else’s life that they don’t know
manuscelerdei · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The song "Truth Hurts" by Lizzo. It's downright unpleasant to my ears. Every choice made in the composition is to layer another annoying sound or melody on top of the last ear-splitting one.
faeezishere · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Pokabrows · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my switch stopped working. I was playing it every day and taking good care of it. Monday night I plug it in because it was low on battery and it hasn't woken up yet.
Tried all the trouble shooting steps and nothing happens. The cord definitely works because it charges my phone.
Sadly it costs $120 to get it fixed by Nintendo repair services and their repair centers are obviously closed for the foreseeable future due to covid 19.
I'm just really disappointed because I was enjoying animal crossing and now I'm not going to be able to play it for who knows how long?
Leaving it plugged in since there's some reports of switches eventually turning on if you leave them plugged in for long enough, though those situations typically involve no playing your switch for a while before hand.
leopardbitch · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how there’s traffic when there’s no accident - like why does it slow down everyone should just go forward
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be genuinely racist, like I'm always thinking "this has to be ironic right? There's no way someone would be this stupid"
snowballz420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and the weird shit they do. Mostly the strange dark sex stuff: Kids, dead people, nut stomping, sex with anyone named Jared. Fucking degenerates..
Carreh · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
undyne6801 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
Stacywyvern · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When youre wearing headphones in public but people cant seem to take the hint you dont want to be disturbed. Unless im in danger, don't bother me
mrgreen8081 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People...
hamiton1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emojis
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything to do with how computers work. Whenever I have to tinker with a game to get it working its pretty overwhelming, even if I have the step by step instructions.
gluglugss · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
chewablepebbles · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we grew to sentience, what sentience is chemically.
Metallem · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate each other
oldirtybadzy · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American health care
connortheios · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we learn history and geographie in high school
killersoda · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck games like Raid: Shadow Legends have the money to sponsor every YouTuber in existence.
garlicnaught · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how in the fuck did hellen keller learn how to communicate?
BZZBBZ · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All these COVID-19 conspiracies and fake cures. Man made in China? Man made in the US? Caused by 5G? Can be cured by drinking topical antiseptics/disinfectants? How do people believe these things?
b2rond · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How batteries work
N0THING67o · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Thats it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music theory and sex drive.
papa_buttlicker · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pinball
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can open their eyes underwater without goggles on.
svperfluous · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to quickly pronounce the word “similarly” without sounding like I’m choking on my tongue
conte-candy · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
PATTG2020 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why pornography stores still exist.
citizen42701 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people have political opinions, voice them, then decine to explain their reasoning and discuss anything. One of my coworkers routinly says "did you see x? How rediculous is x?". I say "not really that rediculous because y". Then they say "im not gonna argue about it". Then why the fuck did you say it in the first place? We all know where eachother stand politically. Why would they say something they know i probably disagree with, then bitch out of even hearing why i disagree?
If you want to debate, fine, im all for that. but dont assert something, force a responce, then plug your ears and go lalalalalala. Wtf? Hes almost 50 too.
jimbob465 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump was and still is a good choice as our president.
sleepwakawakaer · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The IRS, why do I have to fill it out and why do I get money after that, I don't get the idea behind it. I spend some money at various things like health and education and after a while the government sends me a check that gets bigger the more I spend? I don't understand it
throwaway16872162 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “5G caused the virus” people. You have to literally have no concept of how anything works to believe that. I don’t understand the mental gymnastics.
serpentheo · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics in general. Always hated that class.
SugarHighAaron · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Straight people-
Hans_Hazelnuss · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Chemistry homework right now. I shouldn't be here.
Mr-Stuff-Doer · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans are such trash
dawstonfilms · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
plumbing
like
how does the water move UP?
offshore89 · 1 points · Posted at 19:39:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Carbon dating and just how accurate it is, I would like to see a percentage breakdown of accuracy.
krrush1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How todays American accents developed? (I.e. southern, New Jersey, Louisiana..) everyone that migrated here had an accent (British, Irish, Scottish, etc.) why didn’t they carry on throughout families?
Elegabalus · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people make fun of physical attributes that people cannot change or improve.
queen_of_dragons101 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The civil war sequence in the good the bad and the ugly
Alien4real · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your nan
ElRatonPoeta · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
withlovesparrow · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astronomy. I'm taking it for college. It was supposed to be the easy science. It is not. We have an entire chapter on quantum something and I just can't. Its melting my brain. Apparently this class is an especially hard incarnation. People I've talked to and showed my assignments to said their astronomy course wasn't nearly as difficult.
I like to think I'm smart. Other than a B in trig (which I did online so it was basically "figure it out") I've gotten As in everything else. But astronomy? Nope.
"Discuss the possibility of life-forms and biological processes occurring in giant molecular clouds. In what ways might conditions favor or hinder biological evolution?" No idea.
sl1878 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you think astronomy was easy science? Its got a shit ton of math just off the bat. But yeah it can depend on how the professors runs it.
withlovesparrow · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dunno. It's what I was told to take since I have a future in English, not a science adjacent field.
sl1878 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At my university, the easy science to take was geology, it was actually dubbed "jock rock" because athletes would take it to breeze through, lol
Ninokuni13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do tv shows get paid while they r free on tv
alternatiivnekonto · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The network pays the creators of the show for the rights to air it, then they get paid by advertisers to run ads during the show.
Ninokuni13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is it same for local channels?
alternatiivnekonto · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't say as there are a lot of different ways the money can exchange hands for everyone to get paid (more-or-less) and the show to end up on TV but in a nutshell - it's never for free. Usually it's you, the viewer, paying for the show with your time spent watching it.
PM_ME_HOT_BABES · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics
wearethe138 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the crows talk about on the power lines.
DSPGerm · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe is larger than 13.8 billion light years. I understand that it is and I’ve tried reading explanations but it still doesn’t make sense to me.
Jester814 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how the people in Interstellar spent a short amount of time on the planet surface but it was 20+ years for the guy in the ship. I've read up on it several times and it just slips through my mind like water and I can't retain/understand it.
wingdude · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
idreamtofaghost · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get my printer to work
SkidsWithGuns · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SALT taxes. Would probably have to explain it like I'm 5.
wndrlnds · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t read signs (or read in general) and get angry because they didn’t know the basic information written on the sign.
wunderone19 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People in general. I guess what I mean is that there is so much judgement and close mindedness that I have a hard time understanding how so many people truly don’t see other sides or viewpoints. There is an entire world out there and it doesn’t revolve around you...
dxexnxi11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people think it’s okay not to keep social distance
whatsuprubbaduck1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people have to be so fucking soulless and evil.
handsomeduwang · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does girls use so much toilet paper after going to the bathroom, like they cober their hands with paper and just use one side and put all to the trashcan.
EliBunn · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would some people go out of their way to make someone elses life miserable...
cassthecoolcat · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people discovered which foods (or parts of foods) were poisonous. How many people needed to die to discover a certain type of berry was lethal? Or that a specific area of an animal needs to be cooked in a particular way in order for it to not be poisonous.
oltiboi22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kids channels enough said
karowl · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras work. the concept of pictures and videos is mystifying to me.
rachelle-98 · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics
start_again · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bit coin. Each time this question is asked I reply with the same answer because I’ve yet to read something that adequately explains it in a way I can understand.
butternutboard · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus
pure_trashhh · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people support trump. I’m not trying to start anything but he’s just such a bad person and I don’t understand it.
KingDegenerate1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works
GiddeeeUp · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets 😬
woodzopwns · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's wrong with me.
Hard to breathe when I drink warm drinks or just randomly through the day, can't breathe and in severe discomfort when standing, sleeping is a challenge not to fall into a panic attack from severe lack of breath. It makes me tired from lack of oxygen and I can't focus on anything anymore and this all slowly developed since January with no seeming reason, other than a mild flu / possible coronavirus I had during that time. Cut caffeine started sleeping properly, nothing works, doctors can't figure it out either but we can't test for asthma, x-rayed my chest and everything looks good only possible excuse is asthma but it's constant and severely draining to the point where I can't even do recreational things let alone work.
That's what I cannot understand and neither can my doctor.
alrajupo · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kkk
Fufuuug · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry and racism
Magical_Maxx · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why schools continue to teach us things most of us will never use in life. Classes like chemistry or calculus should be optional classes for people who want to pursue a career in that. But for me to sit in a class and lose points on my gpa because my teacher can’t teach us a math that we will never see again is useless
sl1878 · 2 points · Posted at 19:43:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A math class that focused on how to do taxes or invest would be pretty damn useful.
Magical_Maxx · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly
Lumina2865 · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing taxes ain't hard. The government does it for you. But many people can opt to do it themselves as it often saves money
And if there was a class for it, no one would pay attention and they would just use it as a study hall or easy A.
oculocide · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mind over Matter. We can see matter. But is what I "see" the same as what others "see". Some people dont see, perhaps they sense. They still Matter. O.O
joney_lol · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemestry
thatguy1220 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My online classes.
MyFatCatHasLotsofHat · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still can’t get over the fact that their favorite TV show didn’t end the way they wanted
ebterf122 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why.
pjgunning · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics
JChavez29 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How politics and laws work. It's a huge mess
Katykii · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people watch porn- no, seriously. Why? I think of sex as a personal thing, so I just don't understand it.
EvansHomeforBoys · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
EliteBoiz · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This post.
Slyis · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Like how it came to be and the equations and formulas that people have came up with
t_y_p_e_x · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
seleaner015 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The key concepts behind electrons, valence electrons especially (more than just they’re negatively charged). Chemistry is so beyond my comprehension level but how the hell electrons work is always something that’s stuck with me lol.
friendly_grotesque · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why wars exist. Like bruh, i get that you want money or glory or whatever, but why kill people? Like wtf?? And why people in army are just kinda like yeah, i guess that's what i'm doing now, sure, if some random guy with a funky moustache said so. Just why? We have already learned that it leads to nowhere, didnt we?
neonbatz · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why neglectful and unavailable fathers (daddy issues) significantly affect children and their development into adults. Like what is it about needing a father’s approval and interaction? What can be done to fix it?
TornadoMan212 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Auditing
Stromastrikes · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the universe was created, like I know the Big Bang happened, but what was here before that? Was there just always atoms here? Who put them there???
firoz554 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the technology evolved into its current state? How it all started?
orange_lazarus1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Origami my hands and brain just doesn't connect when trying to do it.
QWidner94 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metal gear solid.
skers999 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Municipal Bonds. Currency trading. Telephone communication.
madsybear · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cell phones work...you push some buttons and are connected through the air to someone who could be in ANY part of the world? Same with texting? WTF?
Mind boggling.
donateliasakura · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably cheating.
I do not understand what could drive you to date or sleep with someone else behind your spouse's back instead of being straight forward and break up.
I do not understand why is it so hard for someone to stay with one person without having this "need" of looking for "something new" so quick but not leaving their supposed partner.
Am_Very_Stupid · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroverts, I have no idea how someone could tolerate so much social interaction on a daily basis, I honestly I'm really enjoyed the social break that quarantine gave me, at school I'd have to interact with people on a daily basis not just my friends but teachers and other students that I don't know very well and have never talked to. In quarantine, I dont have to do that. I just dont understand how you can enjoy that level of social interaction
barrelpuddles · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between effect and affect. It has been explained to me multiple times and I just cannot understand it
delidave7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How outer space doesn’t end
PonyoNoodles · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion... Like, how???? How and why???
Like, I respect other people's beliefs (except when they are used to abuse minorities or shoved down people's throats) but why do they believe in it? And how? Lots of religious stories sound mad and makes me think that the characters need to be in a mental hospital... Sorry if that was offensive to you, I'm not trying to be...
DarkUser521 · 1 points · Posted at 19:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LIFE
ishi0204 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men!!!
mlst245 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution. I understand the basic concepts, I've researched it, I definitely believe in it. But the change over time of fins to legs? No spine to having a spine? No eyes to eight? Like WHAT. I get it, the environmental factors and that it takes MILLIONS of years. But that organisms get there at all is astounding, and I don't understand how.
AudiTT01 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do TikTokers even make money or get views like I’ve never heard of these people before
Steverino3905 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Harmonic Motion
WarningMstrMuteEnabl · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are buying mass amounts of toilet paper for a respiratory virus.
Om0r · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics. Especially binary. Never have, never will
Gondiri · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how mathematicians from long ago made their discoveries. Calculus, for example, how did Leibniz and Newton get around to thinking about instantaneous rate of change? How did the earliest number theorists come around to their findings, like the divisibility rules? How did Cramer's rule for matrices get developed? The entirety of Leonhard Euler? Traditional math classes usually don't teach math history, so I've done a lot of reading on that on my own but I still fail to see how they came around to finding out those discoveries.
Algalon_The_Observer · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
kumeil · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people wipe their poop instead of washing it.
trillium1313 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
rednecks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
sorts by controversial
mrcoolmike · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How satellites work
PaoAndreCM · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why smokers smoke
SchrodingerMil · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weaves.
ChazzyChaz4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole concept of judging someone based on the color of their skin. I cannot imagine looking at someone and saying to myself, "that person sucks" just because they look different from me.
EinalemRoss · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum anything
butterfaceonmyass · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hows stocks work. Wouldn't this be the best time to buy up a lot of stock that was high performing in the past and then later sell it to get profits
Jupitersmoones · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How seemingly intricate a nose is. I’ve read scientific articles about emotions, breathing, illness, even neuroscience! The nose has had something to do with all of those subject and I’m sure more subjects. As far as I knew it was just some cartilage with some hair and special cells or something but no. Smell is the only sense that goes directly to your brain. 85% of taste is smell. Sinus infections. Why some people get more bloody noses then others. The nose is so important and so intricately linked to a lot of things that I will never understand.
Jordan-Montgomery · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
chemistry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The whole alpha male vs. beta male superiority complex.
ReverseNL · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Rose22477 · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Like how do I do them? Just how?
mafeehan · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why any municipality would allow any people to collect donations in the middle of intersections. Like Lions Club, etc. Esp old ppl who can’t even move fast.
fatherseamus · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the difference between a linear scale and a logarithmic scale on a graph? Specifically, what does a logarithmic scale show me that the linear scale does not?
Lokis_War_Snake · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My major
twall1999 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people don’t like dogs.
xyzupwsf · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how emotions work for other people. I know the basics and i know how they work for me but in the last two years I had my heart broken by five of my closest people, neither of whom even realised/didnt care how badly their actions were going to hurt me.
Ill také this as an opportunity to Went about stuff ive still hadnt completely understood or come to terms with.
A month later i got a message from.her about how unhappy She was with her new boyfriend (married Guy in his 40s, 2kids,wife. We Are both 25), crying etc. I listened, she thanked me And then stopped replying Again. Another month passed and she called me crying , i couldnt even understand her, said She tried to overdose on pills but it didnt work , And that She would end it. I wanted her to Tell me where she was but she hung up. I got into the car, calling her 9997 times , driving to places where She could be. In the end she picked up And promised to go home, said She was sorry ,that She didnt know what to do and that i was the only one who ever cared for her. I wanted to meet, She said She couldnt after i cut her out of my life and hasnt responded since.
Bang, stopped responding. A month later she called me to Tell mě She broke up with the boyfriend. No further communication fór 2 months. Arranged to meet a couple od times over the course of next few months . Always stopped responding day before or cancelled saying She wasnt feeling well(She has one health problém) or didnt have time. Then after that ,called me to apologise And by the way mentioned that She was Now living with her new boyfriend. I told her that Hurt me very much and to leave me alone. She would Continue to send messages , but didnt want to meet. I blocked her , And she sent a physical letter to my workplace telling mě how much i meant to her and how much love She felt to wards me. I called her to ask her to meet - i told her how much all this was hurting me And to make up her mind. She said she didnt want to lose me, arranged to meet. She stopped responding a day before.
And it has left me wondering if I was crazy? Or if I was too demanding? Was it my fault or Is this just how life Is? So many question i Will never get the answer to...sometimes i just feel a bit lost and maybe i try to understand things i cannot.
Tldr: im stupid and it sometimes makes me sad
Kutlessheromon · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how when you are talking with someone about an important issue, they only let you take one side or the other with no in between. For instance, where I live there are two big groups, pro vaxxers and antivaxxers. If you talk with one of them and take even a slightly different stance than them they scream at you and say you are in the other camp, and having any disagreements with that person makes you evil, vaxxer or anti. Another instance is Corona, if you have an idea of how you think something should be or should have been done differently, you are yelled at and asked why you want to kill people. There are more, but it's this idea of either or that makes no sense to me, it doesn't have to be one option or another when you have an opinion on something, there are numerous opinions you can have on any subject. Making someone choose between two options out of thousands makes absolutely no sense to me.
FatPam007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese.
goobliusmaximus · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people need 10 sheets of paper towels to dry their hands
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MomButtsDriveMeNuts · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space and what there was before the Big Bang and what caused the Big Bang and how our universe keeps expanding. What’s it expanding into and what’s outside of the expansion.
makeupandjustice · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Child abuse. Like I can’t wrap my head around how on earth an adult victimizes a child in any way.
Angry_Welshman123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People think earth is flat
MrHowsUrSister · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find the clitoris.
aljar24 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women...when I think I get somewhere I’m 20 steps back to where I started
MickO59 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do top management continue to employ middle management narcissistic bullies when studies show they are counter productive.
never-should-have · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money laundering works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. I'm okay with basic, everyday maths, but the moment it gets more advanced, I'm basically out.
Shelbyoh · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know when you're on the highway and theres just a ton of traffic at one on ramp and it's barely moving at all and everyone's just slowly trying to merge and then one guy drives two miles up the highway on the shoulder and tries to shove his way in?
Who's that guy? What's going through his head? Why does he need to get ahead of everyone else? And who let's him in?
Zouhe · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things.. Math.. Politics... Other people.. It all confuses me so much.. How anything was invented.. Engineers are crazy man..
IplumbusI · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everytime I buy a stock it goes down, but sell it it goes up. And if I hold it, it just slowly goes down.
ThoughtWalrus63 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia
PyLit_tv · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reality television
ih8farts · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
HylkjeJUGV · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airpods, theyre just, shit...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers actually work before coding
wargig · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grade 12 math
pkelliher98 · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
bitcoin
IFreshIPolo · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
uraniumhexoflorite · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy macs. PCs are much less expensive, offer much better preformance, and can be easily upgrsded.
GenVolkov · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work.
ganzeinfachkiki · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How long to hold eye contact. How people just seem feel when to stop. Same with hugs. I am lost here.
reidchenbach · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space exists, how time exists, how WE exist
awkwardbirbb · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have the consciousness that I currently have. Like, why am I looking out of my eyes and not anybody else’s? Why am I in THIS body in particular? I’m not complaining, I love myself, but it’s a weird feeling to lack the looking-through-my-eyes perspective that everyone else uniquely has, and to only be looking out of my own eyes. I commonly wonder if I see things differently than others because I just don’t know what it’s like to look through other people’s eyes.
iAmOrganizedchaos · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we haven’t legalized marijuana yet
JuRiOh · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
OwnbiggestFan · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness and it's role in humans as compared to other animals.
papi_J · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you elaborate?
OwnbiggestFan · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does consciousness work? Is it a function of the human brain solely at the level we have it and do animals have similar consciousness? Does the nervous system and other systems contribute to our consciousness? Can our brains have consciousness independent of our bodies and vice versa? Have humans always had this level of self-awareness? Does DNA have any factor? Is their a true collective consciousness? Do we actively hinder consciousness by focusing on our bodies more than our minds? Can we tap into consciousness to solve problems the right way for all earthlings? Does our planet play a part? So many questions.
papi_J · 2 points · Posted at 20:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not any authority on the subject but from what I’ve seen for the more biological aspects is that while animals may not be as complex as we are they are far more complex then we give them credit for. And I do believe they have thoughts beyond simple instincts so in some ways I do think they have consciousness perhaps not as we think of it but in a form or perhaps I’m just thinking of great apes to much and not other animals
OwnbiggestFan · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think elephants have similar consciousnessm. Some birds. Cats. Some dogs. I think bonding is involved somehow and that humans and animals can bond a share some of their consciousness woth one another with empathy and energy as the conduit.
staling · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math past a graduate high school level
mrsjackfrost · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How seasons work. It has been explained to me numerous times but I just can't seem to fucking grasp it
1mexicanboi · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit
crashandburn2019 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humanity. Plain and simple. The entire species.
ALIMAJOR11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Double-slit experiment freaks me out And makes me think that when i’m not looking at something it’s not there
Reality_Shift · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can not want healthcare for the less fortunate.
NovaRemix4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being able to see “nothing” like truly blind people that have no concept of color, what do they see? I assume we always see black because of our closed eyelids but what is “nothing” to them?
MAKEMATTSUFFER5 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why they would eat a bat.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perlin noise
fullsuspensionstart · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Star Wars.
TheCrassDragon · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The blatant greed and selfishness of the wealthy.
kablammy666 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Swahili
sct876 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain. I’ve read so many eli5 posts, I’ve just accepted it’s something I’ll never understand
hleander69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theory of relativity
exalasa1975 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people have to had a 2-hour argument with a complete stranger on the internet.
CannibalBarney · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genders and sexs.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex is chromies, gender is feels
sulfonylurea · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Art, as in paintings and such, and what makes them worth millions. Also precious metals.
Broham_13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not using their turn signal
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chicago?
RasterTragedy · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is a monad?
bigmull1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the “time” part of spacetime? I understand the general premise of spacetime (like placing a bowling ball in the middle of a trampoline), but don’t understand the time description.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like the bowling ball effects the flow of time
mortal_payne · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does one get into mainstream shit so deep ? Music , media ... ; i mean mainstream media is ok , but literally living in that idea is so dumb and I can’t understand why no one thinks about that
Renegaudegnu357 · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why school got so much harder after quarantine
strwbrryfrog · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can be homophobic/racist/etc. like bruh, it isn’t your lifestyle. my favorite is when they’re told to speak english because they’re in america. like... why do they want to force everyone to speak english?
THCv1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok dancing videos
travismacmillan · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity.
Everything is ‘weighing’ down on a fabric of spacetime making matter bundle up, until you’re too heavy for the system and creates a fucking hole in it. Like, wtf!?
hellistheinternet_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
KNFrosty · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Master_Freeze · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make my coding stuff work first try lol.
cannabitchhh · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
trump supporters
unknownbella · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Chinese can eat everything
tommybuttsecks · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shit we learn in schools, that isn’t relevant to anything in adulthood
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just live life without overthinking every second of the day
JustJ0shingAround · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to use Reddit
classic_old_fasioned · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why money matters, and how we are loosing a game we created???
dxexnxi11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people would take part in a reality show. There’s not enough money in the world to convince me to embarrass myself on national television
homoerectus007 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women!!
theaorticchaos · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and how to deal with them. Like honestly, I'm having the most tough times I've ever had to face. This girl I like suddenly loses interest in me, my so called friends don't know about my existence and at this point, I'm not sure if I even know myself anymore. It's hard to meet expectations, prove myself and all for what?
sandiegocatprincess · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ibuprofen and Advil know where the pain is
attykatt · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I want to understand it but I'm so bad it at. I feel like an idiot at work trying to process data. I thoroughly don't understand how people just know what formula to use.
CATFLAPY · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money...what the hell is it?
asapyvms · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some Americans can Still hate Muslims because of 9/11
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because of 9/11
Boring_teen · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't and will never understand how girls/women think that playing hard to get has ever worked. A boy/man will just think that she isn't interested and will therefore move on so tell me ,why do some girls/women think that it works
klashinkof · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WOMEN.
ifnysucks · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kpop
Nerubarak · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can function with 2-3 hours of sleep per night. Like man if I don't get at least 8 I can't do shit all day and I know some people from school that had to work all day and study at night. They're some kind of robots or what
StellarStNick · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
-MysteriousDOG · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ads, I don't see how anyone would click an ad.
Secretrider · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hivemind of Reddit. There's a distinct lack of honey and the rules of the collective even within the same subreddit keep shifting.
Wolfmaster155 · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are fighting over toilet paper of all things.
Past_Contour · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football.
daddy_clean · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American football or football football?
Past_Contour · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both.
sl1878 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Working class people who vote for corporation loving ultra-rich republicans thinking they care about them.
Piranh4Plant · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why apparently all guys enjoy helicopter-ing their penis. I’m a guy, by the way.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
US political parties getting support. Like how can you support either establishment both on a moral standpoint and fiscal
Imperial612 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions.
OpenBathrobe88 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money has value if we can print an infinite amount
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because we don’t print an infinite amount. When we do, it loses value
bunny-mama · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people can’t comprehend there’s a pandemic and KEEPING SOCIAL DISTANCE is literally the only thing can we can do to help slow down the spread.
TheOneEyedPussy · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What volts actually are.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
reddit
1102900 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not willing to defend themselves, and criticizing others who do.
BikusDikus · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people in fast food dont understand the concept of pointless work like squeegeeing a floor. Dont squeegee part of the floor in the dish area and get in my way to "help" I'm just gonna have to squeegee it all again later. Find something useful to help with like putting away dishes or cleaning top to bottom.
smells_like_fish · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every presentation I sit through at work.
w00dy2 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any other language apart from English sadly
Nickcruz187 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we were able to make computers, like CPU's and inventing coding to work on it.
Jobless_Idiot · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why? How? When? Where? What?
Brandonpayton1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gambling. Or betting in poker games.
Biggabear · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's so hard for people to take responsibility for their own actions and words but blame everything on someone else
comicsans123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
High school dynamic physics.
0xygen_15 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The market right now.
LurkerShhh · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How if feels like not to have depression or any mental illness? I take meds, but still?
Dazagaadre · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The change my mind meme I don't know if it means like try and change my mind or i change my mind
caramell_salted · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is imaginary power and current?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just stick a paper clip in a wall socket to better understand /s
sidrahj1234 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theorems.....none of them i understand
mylifeisaliehelp · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to start a conversation and what to talk about when you dont know them wel
LoadOfBarnacles07 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TIL that I don’t know shit about anything
improvidiot · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I never file my taxes, and I'm super poor. Will they actually imprison me? If I've nothing to offer. won't they just garnish my shit and keep me poor forever?
And if global society is crumbling... do you think maybe I'm good to wait it out.
bettorworse · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You have to really refuse to pay before they lock you up. It happens, but very infrequently and almost always to the "tax deniers" who say that the government has no right to collect taxes.
You should file anyway. You might get a refund or be eligible for tax credits. At least fill out the forms to check on that, even if you don't submit them to the IRS. You can get all the forms from irs.gov
Since you are poor, you might not even owe any taxes and then you don't have to worry.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 19:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Question is how poor? If poor enough you just file your taxes and the standard deductions will bring your taxable income to where you owe nothing.
A relative has not filed income tax in years though he gets a couple of $100 per month from family. Guess who gets no pandemic stimulus check? Yea the guy that didn't file his taxes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
Insanity_Pills · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How i can fully understand my mental issues, and yet still have them affect me so profoundly
breezyboo49 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sense of self or self-image Like how do I come off as a person?? I have to ask friends or family to describe what I'm like.
If someone says "Tell me a little about yourself", I straight up panic.
Thanks Borderline Personality Disorder
TrollGoat_Hs · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poligamy
_TEE-TEE_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How WhatsApp makes money
Sharingan123412 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People having to pay for healthcare in the US.
sevargmas · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. High school math? A’s. College Algebra? A. College Trig? A. College Calculus? Dropped bc failing. Took it again with a tutor lined up and all. F.
slipperylip999 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health Insurance. I finally got it around the age of 26 (I’m 29). I feel like I have an idea of how it works, but then again, I probably don’t.
chillypotato22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why P.H actors are so bad.
Little_Viking23 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people’s stupidity. Like not the usual “pEoPle aRe StUpiD” but some people’s complete lack of critical thinking and cognitive abilities to logically analyze a topic.
Coronavirus created in the lab by some secret billionaires to make the market collapse so they’ll get richer? Totally plausible, here’s an article from openyourthirdeye.com
Academic papers, scientists around the world telling you that the virus is natural and Nobel prize economists saying that such theory is ridiculous? Nope, they’re manipulated by evil secret powerful people, but my source is genuine.
SoundandFurySNothing · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming
So you figured out how to string a set of words together and that somehow made the game I am playing possible?
That's some high level wizard shit if you ask me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why tacos exist but they break when u they and eat them
michulllosa · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell the big boss of the Darkroot Garden is a wolf with a sword in its mouth, like... the fuck? I’ve fought demons, hydras, weed monsters, living statues, gargoyles, and zombies but a wolf with a sword is the best thing that they could come up with.
c4cynic · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've been having a hard time understanding how people do not understand "lockdown". It's a lockdown, not a holiday or vacation or break from school and work. If you don't absolutely NEED to go out, you're supposed to stay home.
Leen1961 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Fractions to decimals and beyond.
erinarcher3 · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tape measures. “oh it’s 8 and 5/16ths” I don’t know what the fuck.
Limnuge · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
8 inches, and then you can have 1/2 as half inch, 1/4 as quarter, etc
If someone says “8 and 5/16ths” it’s just 8 inches and 5/16ths of an inch
The measuring tape itself has lines on it that show quarters and all of that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tape measure each mark is a 16th or 16/16 to an inch of course. Newer models have fractions on one edge with the traditional marks on the other edge, thank goodness.
Toasted_Fellow · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Fermi Paradox. Or most paradox’s tbh
secondhand_goulash · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How lasers work. How do they produce light that does not scatter?
BenBoje · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minesweeper.
Tronkfool · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. What makes it worse is my father is an electrical engineer and he has walked me through it countless of times but all the V=I*R is confusing
MercuryO1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell people don’t stay at home while a global pandemic is occurring.
esse_quam_vidiri · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
DrazGulX · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IT, I understand how the tech works and can repair it, but don't understand why it works
autumnhaileyj · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are mean just to be mean.
awkwarditee · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel. I can never figure it out, no matter how hard I try.
I_Ron_Butterfly · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Records. It blows my mind that a needle running against a groove can make the exact sound of Bruce Springsteen’s voice.
Or the mass production of records before computer technology; how did they know how to create the exact groove to replicate Louis Armstrong’s trumpet sound?
Its just rudimentary enough that it blows me away. Listening to a streaming song, I can easily wave it away as a computer. But records, man.
avent_37 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand how smart and educated people so easily fall for fake news in the form of WhatsApp forwards & clickbait articles, and how a lot of people don't believe in science and proven facts
vinny-havens · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Texting and driving while paying absolutely 0 attention to the road. Some people at least pay some attention and drive normally while actual idiots don't care that the light is green and there's ten people behind them. How can you be THAT careless and distracted
BKS_ELITE · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation...it makes no sense.
musicmanxv · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics.
SendNachos412 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock options
Krazyone13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 5G "conspiracies". They're all bullshit and there's literally no reason to believe it other than you heard it from someone else.
chilllcat · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry. Only God can help my GPA now.
damian1369 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Proteins and atomic spins. I read into them every year or so, kinda get the hang of stuff, then give up because I realise I don't know anything again.
PaikD20 · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many people are being complete idiots, and not taking precautions for COVID-19.
MerlijnVanCuijk · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love, I just don't get it. Some people say i am to direct and others say i am not open enough. Really, i give up.
Stamorache · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like a lot of things unfortunately :/
ForeverLegit · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People that can’t self-quarantine. Why is it so hard to only leave your house out of necessity?
If you need fresh air, you can easily stay in your own yard. You don’t need to travel around town and put others at risk just to avoid going stir-crazy in between grocery store trips.
sebasmejia · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am the way I am
C4_Saifor · 1 points · Posted at 19:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft's Lore.
Existence.
ktsb · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe is expanding faster then the speed of light. Several people have tried explaining it to me like if im going to be able to wrap my head around it
TheBobbyGucci69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why has there been no attempt at metric time (that I am aware of). I know that this would never be implemented but the current system is horrible when you look at the raw numbers. 60 seconds to 1 minute. 60 minutes to 1 hour (alright these two are in sync). But below a second we have hundredths and thousandths (presumably because measuring to this accuracy was no where near feasible originally). We then move to 24 hours in 1 day and then 7 days in 1 week. The length of a month can be 28 29(sometimes) 30 or 31 days long and a year is 365(ish) days.
I would love for metric time and a metric calendar to be made.
yikesyeahcool · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there’s still large groups of people not taking this pandemic seriously
illprobablyneverstop · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I watch hours of a channel on YouTube daily and I’m recommended a cooking video from 6 years ago.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How smell exactly works. In detail. How come we study so much about eyesight and sound in school and all we know about smell is that we've got olfactory sensors and particles come in contact with them and our brains connect one thing to another and done?
ASTRO_Mariz · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I gained consciousness.
Before I was given birth to, I was obviously non existent. Then suddenly I slowly became conscious of the world and life. My mind fucks everytime I think of this. What was it like being non existent before we were born? Of all the people in the world, why do I control this particular body and live with its POV everyday? What was it like before we were all born like way before fertilization and shit. Why do I even exist???
note: don't reply with shit like oh its because you were the sperm that one the race bc yes im aware of that
denatured_enzyme_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
and to add on, at what point do we gain consciousness?
hellslave · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It may sound cliche, given the current situation we're all going through, but I cannot, for the life me, understand why toilet paper is still so hard to get a hold of. Store after store, and nothing. I understood at first; lots of other products were also hard to keep on the shelf as well.
But now, it's ONLY the toilet paper that no one has in stock anywhere. Why? There's no supply shortage on the manufacturing side, and stores now limit the amount you can buy. So where the fuck is it? We've got two rolls for the house, right now. That's it. And I can't find more anywhere at all.
Aidan_bm1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can t seem to get over someone who never gonna like me back
RadicalEdward58 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How games, like super high quality games, are made by using codes? What..!?! How can codes make amazing realistic graphics?! My brain boggles just thinking about it.
mev186 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can think healthcare is not a human right. I mean, you can't help it when you're sick.
weeble2018 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The saying you can't have your cake and eat it too
alt123456789o · 2 points · Posted at 19:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you eat your cake you no longer have it. You can't have a cake you can see and touch and have eaten it as well. Basically, certain things you can't have both ways.
washyourhands-- · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between liberal conservative Democrat republican and all that stuff. I don’t care about it so it doesn’t matter. All I know is that the Whig party is the best one.
EmRuHire · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Unreal Engine 4 games lag my computer.
I have a Windows 10 with 10 TB on it, and it still lags.
Thedeadlypoet · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How nobody else seems fucking terrified that we can at any point in our lives just stop existing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
PEWS2008FAN · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
blyat-blyat-blyat · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think shit like sipping a bottle of tea and putting it back on the shelf or licking icecream is hilarious/cute
shellsh0ckedant · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Zoophilia and the people who think it’s ok
rudolph_ransom · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emperor Norton
Zeusurself · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Kolikoasdpvp · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit and redditors, when someone has different opinion they just downvote the comment to oblivion.
Leonardo1964 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. 2 decades on this planet and I still don't understand it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make BREAD! For the love of all that is holy and sacred I CANNOT figure it out.
SexualConsent · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like chocolate and peanut/peanut butter treats. That shit is fucking NASTY to me, I almost can't keep it down and gag whenever I've tried to eat it
Terbil · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why there are so many people convinced that ghosts are real despite the fact that they're not. Even though I've had so much time as an adult to come to terms with the fact that so many people do, I will never understand why.
imnotgoodattitles · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How long a meter is. Or ft for that matter.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any and all forms of bigotry
Rta420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make money, like a lot of money, in the stock market.
The_Big_Ugly · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was at college I saw a lady walking through campus wearing slip on duck boots(well I guess shoes) what’s the point of buying waterproof shoes when there’s no back on them?
nexnexn · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Wtf
Turtlefrog69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are like no good titles on the 3ds eShop anymore
Isaa_B · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who refuse to communicate
Had an ex like this. Toxic af
KonKast · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma
imnotcreativel · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people act like they know everything about a subject when all of their “research” consists of a quick google or a few YouTube videos
OpenBathrobe88 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How no matter what, that USB drive is going in upside down.
faheem_iw07 · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans made Trump their president and people are still supporting him.
Aturom · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mentality that Trump supporters have.
Casamd_the_uwu · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The person who thought putting letters in maths was a good idea
k3mu · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What was there before the big bang? Why was it there? Why does everything exist? Thinking about this always gives me an uneasy feeling.
Im_Moose · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's inability to be able to engage in an argument and see when they are clearly wrong. You can present thousands of facts and logical arguments to someone but they won't be able to see how they're wrong. I don't get it.
HippoKingOfOld · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Identity politics.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How radiation works. It's very mind boggling to me.
Charcolecat · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it can be so hard to actually get a job.
(I have one now, just have to wait for the Governor's order to let up)
xandersavy · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The creation I mean if we look from religious ways ,god created us that's ok but who created gods or from when god actually did exist. If we look from scientific theories ,what before the big bang ? And if there is no space then there is what ?
Burnt_Almond · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatives
antonuuu · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there's still old preserved-labeled buildings being destroyed and replaced with ugly large grey concrete blocks as apartment complexes.
fresh_scents · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where to start. Tablets, smartphones, remotes for this, remotes for that, etc.
yeetusfetusus · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jazz chord progressions ,shits like Black magic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do white people wipe with a dry tissue instead of using water? Water cleans everything. Dirty hands, dirty feet, dirty face. Why not use it in your butthole?
washyourhands-- · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. All of it.
turkishfag · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgages, what are they yo i dont ever remember even after reading.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college
justthefax_mann · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we not quarintine the old and the immunocompromised and allow/encourage the young and healthy to interact and spread the coronovirus? Surely this is the fastest way with minimal death toll to develop herd immunity. These are just my lockdown ponderings i am by no means a social scientist or immunologist but surely this is a worthwhile idea to be discussed. Any thoughts?
Mrssleepyhead · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feelings, like I feel them but just don't understand what feeling is what and how you know what feeling it is and that other people feel that same thing but understand it differently
Sillvaro · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the fear of 5G. Anyone?
happydayswasgreat · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my boyfriend thought it was ok to go on vacation spring break with his kids, when the world was starting to shut down, social distancing was a thing, and we all knew that we were suppose to be starting put to reduce the virus spread.
SpaceBen13 · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
Nag-A-Ram-Gear-Toner · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you know how we use the air hand dryers in washrooms to minimize use of paper towels? That air blows onto our hands... where does that air come from?
Aren't we just blowing ass air back into our hands? Isn't that kind of like, farting in our hands? It seems a bit unhygienic, but maybe I'm just ignorant, idk. Help.
Mammoth-Stranger · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how land on the earth, that wasn't made by man, has to be purchased with created bills that are somehow of value to another human. AND on top of the one time purchase of the land you have to also pay property tax for that land every year just for the privilege of existing on the land that again wasn't created by anyone, but has to be bought because the first guy who found it and stole it said so. This is also very specific to America.
dhfspyotr · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toilet Paper Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that love the MCU and new Star Wars movies and think that more should be made. They're OK at best.
Moderndaymom · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
curseleen · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratic formula
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people need to know so much about the personal lives of celebrities
emachel · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is something rather than nothing
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, trading, all those angry yelling dudes on the floor at wall street, etc.
Maljorten · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
hybridization. i love organic chemistry but everytime i need to remember that i get PTSD
shelly12345678 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
mlyt18 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe a man who lies and knows nothing about a virus. Is excited to get half their paycheck with unemployment and test prison people over is regular folks. I’ve lived in the USA all my life and I’m embarrassed to be an American with this guy in charge!
Essanamy · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Just people...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people buy apple products; its just, less for more.
gornegorbens · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
maybesomaybenot92 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly don't understand how people believe in superstitions in general. I have come to the conclusion, without any evidence whatsoever, that it comes down to a biologic difference. You either are, or you are not, capable of being superstitious. But if that is not ultimately the cause then I don't understand how people can be superstitious. It is crazy to me otherwise.
TJdaMadLad · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is electricity like a corporeal thing? Like i understand that it flows through currents I just have no clue what itself is. What state of matter is it? Do these questions when make sense?
Ron-Lim · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there was once nothing then something
josejimenez896 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How typical SSRI and SNRI antidepressants work. It just doesn't make sense to me. They're supposed to block the reuptake of serotonin and norepinephrine. That I get. What I don't get is why they take WEEEKs to start "working" but have all these terrible side effects during those first few weeks. Some of my friends have called those first few weeks purgatory. It just doesn't make sense to me knowing what I know about most other drugs that block the reuptake of neurotransmitters. Wouldn't the brain just be back to homeostasis after a few weeks? It just doesn't make sense.
sophitehunicron · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prejudice in general. Racism, homophobia, transphobia. People hating people for no reason. As long as you’re not hurting anyone else, I don’t see anything wrong with you.
Pigmcginnyrig · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are antivaxxers and flat eathers in this world.
trinity831- · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
shelly12345678 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who voted for Trump and continue to defend him
CrestfallenOW · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If money is backed by gold, what is gold backed by? Is it inherently valuable? It seems useless and just like money, something representative of wealth that needs to be backed up.
paulbonath · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone from europe : America
zeffsmeagle · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still believe in trickle down economics
Orange_juicee1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people smoke cigarettes when it doesn’t get them high
flipanflop · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people dont understand something like in school. They pay attention write everything down but still get a D- Like WTF
DKPG2811 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works
alt123456789o · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm alive. I'm serious.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
elstick212122 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we have to learn complex math in high school to only forget its use later on in life.
Functs · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics
Reaper_85 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese writing
BT--7275 · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men are supposed to make tje first move.
Nick_the_Named · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
time, more specificly how we perceive time and the tought that other things can perceive time differently
Junebugdawn · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand when someone says they can not love a child that is not their biological child and I don't understand how someone can treat a child worse than an animal.
Deadtop1369 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If printing money devalues it, how is money worth anything?
ayrubberdukky · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weddings.
That shit is too risky to take serious or spend bookoo amounts of money on when you're (statistically) most likely to get divorced
always_an_adventure7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, we as a society, came up with the concept that a rabbit can lays an egg, and out hatched a baby chick for Easter.
Valerica-D4C · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Chopin became so popular
AdmiralAgile · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men who are hygienic, tidy, have a bit of style and take care of themselves are often assumed to be homosexual.
laynebaker · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes. Enough said.
dylanLCP · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on a game called sea of thieves the achievement to set sail virtually starting the game only 60% of people who play the game get this achievement
solterosoltero · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lobbying
travis_mke · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket.
morgan_hehe18 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
jgevura · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options, is there an ELI5 of what they how they work and how to make money from them?
butterfinger00 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics ...nothing more ....no long text explaining why..just .....freaking....politics
halogen1719 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger wave equation
Bulletmaniac89 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid some people are.
biirdiie_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
weeble2018 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes some sense
WindEgg · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the stock market
itsmicam · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones. I don’t get the, “oh you lose an hour driving there” thing to safe my life.
sinkiez · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dumb we've become since the stone age.
WingedKuriboh27 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why questions here are downvoted
guitcho · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to study Spanish at school
ARBITER0FDEATH · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toddlers.
petitelapinyyc · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
anon_outlaw · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How God is supposed to be the "All Knowing" but still somehow didn't know when the serpent gave Eve the forbidden fruit and when she shared with Adam.
According to the Bible, God came in the evening to see them as usual and didn't see them and strated calling out for them (instead of using his superpowers to look for them or something 😂 ).
I also don't understand how the a supposed merciful God let's you spend eternity in hell for sins that won't get you more than probation and community service on Earth.
I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF RELIGION
WATGU · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose for the universe. Not trying to be 14 and deep, but it's been bugging me on and off for 20 years more so recently.
Reality seems to have no reason for existing on a grand scale. There doesn't appear to be a top down strategy to the universe that could be integrated into a way of life. It all just seems random. Make a system, assign a few rules and then let arbitrary complexity/celluar automata take over.
Obviously how we experience life gives us purpose, but it seems like it's either biologically driven or self assigned more than any real reason and there's no way to know if the life your leading fits into a grand scheme or if the way you live was predetermined by factors outside of your grasp.
islesoflightlessbird · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people look down on teachers.
UntitledRunePage · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
garywinthorpecorp · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can defend game of thrones season 7&8
headbanginggentleman · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logic gates, coding in general. Also, epigenetics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Assholes. Sorry, Idk why you do what you do. You’d think elementary school would have taught you all you need to know to be a good person.
MikeTangoVictor · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The new notifications in the reddit app.
Heldix121303 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit
Pond395 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how old school cassette and VHS tapes work. I can get how you can record something, but how can you erase and tape over on ribbon?
Axelonesl · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people think and it bugs the hell out of me...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Krebs Cycle
Bigbrunswick · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How really really bad games exist from bigger companies. Like did you not playtest this? How does one release a game with shitty controls in the modern age.
MedicalPartisan · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why people get a stomach ache and their first reaction is to go to the emergency room. Humans get sick. It’s a thing. We’ll give you the best care if you come, but you usually don’t need to be there.
stargazertony · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes the goal of advertising is to insult. You’ll remember it more.
imgenerallyaccepted · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, just in general
ChingchongIgotnodong · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat. Just break up! I just don't get why anyone would cheat.
MunkTheMongol · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be intelligent as all hell but can make some of the stupidest life decisions.
buttercreamandrum · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Book smarts doesn’t necessarily translate to having common sense.
octocuddles · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ontology, epistemology, phenomenology and how to knit.
GRZ_KIMI · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the "turning on the light in the car is illegal" thing came from.
Xach0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people sacrifice their self esteem and pride to get a few views on tiktok
buttercreamandrum · 2 points · Posted at 19:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To some people all attention is good attention.
Xach0 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah that's definetly something I dont understand
OvrKill · 1 points · Posted at 19:53:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't get my acrylics to blend like the YouTube videos I have been watching even using the same paints and brushes 😡
jmatty217 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitches
kaulderF · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Political system
commandrix · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's fascination with team sports. Bunch of guys smash into each other over a funny shaped ball. Bunch of guys try to shoot a ball into a hoop and try to keep the other team from doing the same. You've probably seen nearly identical plays in your favorite sport year after year after year, and you still watch it.
LatterUnderstanding · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand hunting. Seriously, I don’t get how people can be so damn cruel to take an innocent life. I know I’m gonna hear the common retort “I’m gonna eat it,” but I don’t buy it. Go to the fucking store and buy something already slaughtered. It’s all about killing and feeling powerful. I think it’s vile.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:45:58 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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LatterUnderstanding · 0 points · Posted at 04:42:25 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uh, I’m not ignorant and I don’t eat meat or poultry because of factory farming. Your rationalization is why I abhor hunters. F you.
amethystpoppy · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism and homophobia
Twippet · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
chrishooley · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The warping and bending of space explanation of gravity.
TitansTracks · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music theory....
I mean I get it, it's a guideline and it's been studied for like 100s of years.
But It just doesn't make any sense to me.
A bunch of noises spaced out in frequencies and we can only hear a select range of them.
Then we cobble those noises together into scales and categories and all of a sudden you know how to perform Beethoven's 5th symphony in G minor.
Whereas I'm just sitting here on the toilet filling in drum patterns on a phone!
How the fuck does any of this stuff work and who came up with all these rules?
Anyway I have mad respect for actual musicians who learn and understand that stuff! 💎
secretbox09 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mostly people. Just people..
robyn_396 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. I can NOT understand no matter how many times people explain it to me.
MeMedhansh · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That who owns the Bitcoins.
ShubherMan24 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father’s reasons to be an absolute jerk to everyone in his family
katieb2342 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like watching sports. Playing sports I get, it's a competition, you can try new techniques or strategies, all that jazz. But watching sports is just ... boring. I can watch a movie, tv show, or play, and have a fun time or go on an emotional journey. I can watch a video game streamer and learn new techniques for my own play, or laugh at their commentary. But watching sports, I just don't get anything out of it.
zapzap44 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
BDo_Dorian · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex. Im an asexual. Just stop talking about how intimate you can get with your partner in public.
Tall-Abies · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Period.
CountStark · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.. Especially my wife..
The_Baller_Official · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced chemistry
I love the subject, and I just about finished an ap chem course in school(wish me luck on the exam) I understand a lot about it, but the more I understand the less I realize I understand. I wanna go as far as my doctorate in it, but looking in some chemistry subs for example is incredibly daunting, it kinda feels like you have to know just about everything about matter and why and how everything works, and it feels like I’ll never truly become proficient at it
grendel54 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ransapp · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I can say I love them but genuinely don’t understand Women. Not being a sexist or something crazy like that. I just don’t understand them. I swear life could be easier if there wasn’t so many mind games and rules. Just let me love you and our life could be great. A woman broke up with me over a cookie. No reason it’s just because I didn’t save her one. We later got back together after 5 hours. Women are weird.
adgriffi_4 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
MetZerbitzu · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the USA is home to the brightest minds of our time and has a global cultural influence, but yet seems to be populated by the stupidest people on earth.
Shurdus · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it is so hard to surrender your firearms. Just get rid of your guns already.
mgdae · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men.
StawberryFields2002 · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why (metaphorically) people in power are willing to kill their cash cows and golden gooses.
endlessly_curious · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Willful ignorance.
I dont understand how people choose to not continue learning about things. Why would you just believe a random blog post that says a Governer fucked a goat and run with it. Why would you not take the time to at least get a basic understanding of certain things. We live in a world where you can literally become an expert on certain subjects without leaving a chair in your house.
badgerfruit · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big bang. So it started space and time right, I get that but surely time must have been in existence BEFORE the big bang, otherwise surely, nothing would have happened ... Ever?
AmIThatCrazyToThink · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unsolicited dick pics
EhtRelims · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The general disliking of homosexuality
13un · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. I’m not sure if my mind is capable of understanding what it really is tbh.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how electricity affects the cells of a body.
Never_Peel · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why our generation has to take care of global warming and all this shit. The Earth has 100 years more, stop making me do small changes with no real impact, and where those who really can do changes, are speculating with that.
dog-loaf · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does wind and lightning happen
stupidsexyf1anders · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
muscles4bones · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still can’t wrap my brain around the idea of promises in javascript...
pineappleejuic · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can say they like u but yet they dont make time to see u always say theyre busy
saustin66 · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
gravity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does Karma work?
tripleHpotter · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That thing were if you fold a paper so many times it can make it to the moon? Naw mean?
MissMorganJo · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept or theory of black holes. And how you can photograph a planet but not see stars in the back.
howlowcanshego · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US government.
patapata31 · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money creation. Even within 2 years of studying economics, no way I could figure it out. Damn I was a bad student...
mrbobeth · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weebs
SquidyCakes · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly Stock market it makes absolutely no sense
imaginarypotatoes · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fugacity
The_DestroyerKSP · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bad people can get with distracted driving. I mean jesus, you're travelling at high speed in a multi thousand pound box that can kill you or anyone else very quickly, and it seems like people will do just about anything because driving becomes so routine and "boring" I guess.
Jarathen · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people benefit from science in almost every single aspect of their lives but refute it when it doesn’t align with their beliefs.
Tllymrks · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Medical commercials on TV. I mean none of their statements make any sense whatsoever. Like the whole "if you or a loved one has died from ____ call now and get help" makes no sense, if I have died there is literally no way for me to call in. Or when medicine commercials say "tell your doctor if you have _(disease name)_" like,, shouldn't my doctor already know if I have those diseases or issues? And there really is no point to them in the first place, I don't know who is trusting commercials over doctors to find medicines but maybe lets not do that.
oopsboop · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. If I have a formula and a calculator I can figure it out eventually, but if someone were to ask me "what's 7x9?" I would freeze up. Even simple addition makes my mind go blank. It's like all the numbers get jumbled in my mind and I can't make sense of it. Ask me a word problem or something logic related and I might have a better time, but those timed math tests they did in school are still my worst nightmare.
2Alien4Earth · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why/how half these “youtubers” get the amount of views and attention they do.
Taserbation · 1 points · Posted at 19:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Friendly reminder to sort by controversial in threads like these.
FluffleCuntMuffin · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those who are rude, loud, thoughtless and generally inconsiderate in general. Being a decent human being does not require any effort. It takes effort to go out of ones way to be otherwise. I will never understand why so many people are so awful.
Thanos had the right idea but went about it the wrong way. The world would be infinitely better if there was a snap that eliminated all the wastes of space who only look out for themselves and their own well being.
tahhraah · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when we die, then that’s it. Forever. You’re senseless forever. Until the end of time.
I will never get my head around that.
ChingchongIgotnodong · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Just math.
VAShumpmaker · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of “self-righteousness”
I have the most tenuous grasp of the concept, and I could use it in conversation as a term, but I can’t bring a single example of the concept to mind.
Cpctheman · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
More and more the more that I do understand! The replacement rate for confusion seems to be at least 5x, every thing I feel like I understand spawns at least 5 more things I have absolutely no understanding of.
Example: computer architecture. One of the first things you learn about programming is that the code that you write is taken by the compiler and translated to machine instructions. Okay, cool, so how does the compiler work? Why are the machine instructions somehow readable by the machine, and why is binary the number system of choice? How do bits and bytes translate into actions and behaviors? How does the underlying hardware even implement this at all? How does electricity work again?
It’s easy to go down this rabbit hole in academic topics, but it’s also easy in the real world too! Like, I understand what my role in my job is, and I understand basically the roles of my coworkers, but what does the guy in the cube two rows down do? Something with mechanical design? How does literally any of that work (advanced legos?)? Or what about classically well-known jobs, like a judge. How the heck do you become a judge? What is their daily routine like? Or what about literally any of the devices I use on a daily basis, how do they work?
This is one of my favorite parts of life, that there is so much to know, and that most of it we can know. It also induces a certain amount of dread and confusion, but that makes it interesting too.
JenkumJunky69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US economy has a record positive week on record negative news and how our choices to lead the United States are Donald Trump and Joe Biden.
Tllymrks · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Medical commercials on TV. I mean none of their statements make any sense whatsoever. Like the whole "if you or a loved one has died from ____ call now and get help" makes no sense, if I have died there is literally no way for me to call in. Or when medicine commercials say "tell your doctor if you have _(disease name)_" like,, shouldn't my doctor already know if I have those diseases or issues? And there really is no point to them in the first place, I don't know who is trusting commercials over doctors to find medicines but maybe lets not do that.
WilliardThe3rd · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Artworks shaped like turds/trash displayed on squares, in nature and historic places. For the sake of all citizens, remove them. It is not aesthetic, there are many better uses for stone and metal
As well as the neon letters on our old clocktower, placed there in the name of 'art'.
RiseofdaOatmeal · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music elitists that believe themselves to be better or of higher intellect for enjoying certain genres over all the "cavemen" who like what they as highly educated "Audio culinary entrepreneurs" do not
bholmes519 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why doesn't Bernie Sanders run as an independent?
FLYING-POTATO-MAN · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How king crimson works
Mojo_jojojojo94 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polyamory - sorry
SteamboatMcGee · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The lymphatic system. I moved around a lot as a kid and missed this part of science class entirely. I'm pretty sure there are lymph nodes in your neck, and they swell with certain kinds of illness, but that's the extent of what I know, and I'm not sure what part of the neck even. I don't know what the system really does, or how.
Mister0Cat · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How comes that someone is completely absorbed by some of the most ridiculous thing in the world, in other words : how the fuck do people think a joining a group of people who has no sense of intellect and who try to impose to the world things like anti-vaxx and veganism.
I can understand why becoming vegetarian and that it it respectable, but vegan.. do these people even know how much we modified things during all those years us humans have lived ?
gunshow99 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. So your set of beliefs, which in most cases are based on centuries of distorted, made up stories, somehow guide your judgement and actions? And for many, someone else's made up stories don't overlap with yours and that is a good enough reason to hate that person and for them to potentially hate you? Or kill you? And this is all based on ideas and ideals from ancient people who had no way of understanding the vast amounts of scientific information that we have now? Religion is responsible for a tremendous amount of good in society, but I just don't get how the irrational component is disregarded by the masses.
Jmersh · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the top YouTube creators/social media "influencers ". Insufferable, un-entertaining narcissists. What's the appeal? All I see are horrible people acting like shittier people.
DieToastermann · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
onesaturn · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Triangle math
Ragnarslid · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think it's okay to socialise in the UK during the coronavirus pandemic. Like, fuck off, Susan, sure it's easter weekend but are you really gonna kill people just to take your bratty kids on a walk that you'd never be doing normally?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are actually in favor of communism.
poodl12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and why some people like it so much. I can only do it at a level of a third grader, and I’m 21, so...
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes it’s fun
obi-wan-cornobi · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she doesn’t like me back
mightlive · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything Geography or Problem Solving Math related. Never understood it and never will. Seems like I missed important main steps when I was learning it.
patygon · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Krebs cycle
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math of any kind
Unbound_Spirit · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The music industry today...
Explain to me how the fuck ‘trap’ music which is literally a complication of the same hi-hat + snare + bass combo on repeat with terrible adlibs from rappers that came out of god knows what ‘hood’ somewhere in the US or UK that are all fried out of their minds, foaming at the mouth from Adderal, Xanax, Percocet unable to formulate any comprehensive lyrics past a few simple words.
Oh and let’s not forget the mind numbing “mumble rap” that’s somehow gotten fame from these same rappers and how the media advertises their fashion, money, drama, and terrible lyrical prowess all over the world and people still listen to that shit religiously. Its literally poison to people’s minds these days I swear.
bravelittledandelion · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The monty hall problem. I just don’t get it!
MastarQueef · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not trying to start an argument (if anything I’d really like some personal opinions so I can see it from the other side too) but why so many people in the US are opposed to a universal health care system?
Captain-Hoth · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pistons, engineering, any with creating energy. It sucks to because all my friend are car guys and work on them and I can’t comprehend how stuff even moves
SiriusTurtle · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Real love.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anxiety kicks down door Ya think?
zeusorjesus · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people continue to believe in Myers-Briggs as though it’s a robust personality assessment.
Simple snafu in the whole MBTI: how do we know there’s only 16 personality types? What if there are 18, 24, 300, etc.? If the number isn’t exactly 16, then there are people being misclassified.
How did the originators come up with the categories and was their method for doing so evidence-based? Also, shouldn’t neuroticism be a major factor (e.g. as in OCEAN).
The whole MBTI assessment seems like woo-woo bullshit. And I don’t understand why people are willing to label themselves and filter their interpretations through a superficial lens whose foundations rest upon potentially specious classifications.
elliotthecoward · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
any form of attraction to men
thirdtimeisNOTacharm · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boats. Like I get the science behind it, BUT IT MAKES NO SENSE. HOW TF CAN 100,000 POUNDS OF STEEL FLOAT IN WATER?!
BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mainly cause of water tension, the I think it has to do something with the difference in “pressure” that’s why once the boat starts to fill up with water and it fills up “equalizing” the “pressure” it sinks (not 100% sure though)
StrilX_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people genuinely believe the earth is flat. I understand how people believe in most conspiracy theories because most of the time they are stories with hidden or unavailable information, but how can a living human with available information and science believe the world is flat.
Baavoz · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America.
MattieThePup · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. Electric stones which magically let me see videos of cats. I don't understand but I sure do support.
CelticDK · 1 points · Posted at 19:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket science. Havent tried to learn it.
BLYATK1NG · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How this fancy hot ass girl living near me 4 yrs older than me, wanna bang me, and thinks that m hella cute, cause I’m really not anywhere near that confidence
KeatonWasBetter · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G Karens
QuincyMadeMeDoIt · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Trojanchick · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People of the opposite political persuasion of myself. I can respect their views as I believe this is America and we should be free to express ourselves (including politically) but I genuinely do not understand how they think they are correct or can’t see the hypocrisy of the side they represent. (Note: Leaving labels out of it because it’s irrelevant to the question and not trying to turn this into a political battle; just answering his honestly).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Trojanchick · 0 points · Posted at 11:43:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one said I don’t expose myself to other thoughts and ideas - but exposing myself to other viewpoints does NOT mean I will be adopting them or agreeing with them. Also, totally fine if “other side” thinks the same - again, please go back and read the question that was posed to the group.
Jamdoughut1927 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman...
Danburg0516 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why there's not lots of single hot milfs in my area just dying to meet me like the ad promised!!
keatches · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
chinese
nzwildsouth · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’d love to to know, when I’m looking at pictures that people/telescopes have taken of deep space, what the ‘clouds’ and swirling cloud-like images are. Am I looking at clusters of stars, clouds of debris or gas of some sort? Or is it something entirely else?
Heka-Tae · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile game ads, usually advertising a game that isn't the one that you will actually play.
LumiPlaysYT · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What other people think and how their thought process works
clembot53000 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I’m just really really stupid with it, I can’t wrap my mind around most of it.
Ballplayerx97 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH
42042069420420 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck I'm such a goddamn asshole
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wireless charging
Cannot comprehend it. How the fuck does it work
Bunchofbees · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivatives, knock-out certificates and such...
manvsracoon · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
nitsu78 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that follow and care about celebrity culture
mPeachy · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivative investments.
PenguinGaming44 · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
MrDoggoSpheres · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every new car commercial or big companies advert uses a popular song cover but slows them down
e_canty · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work. Right now I think the answer is “magic”, but science may not support my current theory. (Still waiting on my owl-delivered letter.)
unknowntrojan · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
c++ pointers
Flynnnryderrr · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The nothingness after death
biologyiskewl · 1 points · Posted at 19:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How circuits work. Man I studied so hard for those things and I still don’t get it 😭
Mycroft2046 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics.
ThinkAboutItYT · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer specs, I hear people on YouTube talking about their specs and I'm like, "what in the world are you saying, are you having a stroke?"
AA_d · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
R studio, send help.
aunty_riri · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people choose bill pay over prepay?
XCTrack18 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the universe is expanding into...
BobDaDank · 2 points · Posted at 20:05:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing, but nothing does notexist, it’s nothingness, the universe just expands but not towards “nothing” because it actually is nothing
jml1877 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the internet, phone calls, video calls and everything like that. i completely understand how it all works and why it works but just thinking about how i can tap a piece of glass and see and talk to someone at the other side of the world baffles me
adnanagha21k · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans became humans
BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They did the boom boom and then DNA stemcells decided to make errors while multiplying
Cream-of-the-cat · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
BobDaDank · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dont worry, we don’t understand ourselves either
theguyisnoone · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there are infinitely many Numbers between literally any two numbers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Paying back a car loan. Like what is interest and what is principal? How much is my $300 payment paying for? How do I fix my credit with this? 😢
minimumuminimed · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. It all feels like magic after a certain point then I get so lost.
girllasagna · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes work
dasanman69 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans are on top of the food chain. Nothing about us says predator, we're weak, we're slow, can't see, nor hear too well. Can't climb, fly, nor swim worth a damn. We're prey all the way, all day everyday if you ask me.
kinjinsan · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can make and use weapons.
dasanman69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did we develop that? Whereas no other animal did? We can't even survive the elements all that well. We need clothes and shelter.
HumilityTV · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we cannot cancel a Gamepass subscription if there is a past due balance. I was unaware of a past due payment, no one told me. There was no e-mail. Nothing. And it auto renews today. I did not see that in text anywhere. If it were there, it was in transparent text.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
CRYPTOGENIE333 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers
DaanRoeks · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I never notice that a girl likes me
pissboy · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus beyond 3 dimensions. My 3rd year calf prof was nerd flexing about how he could do calculus up to 11 dimensions. It was then I knew I was not “smart” smart but “average” smart.
IgnorantGenius · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Liamwill-walker · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many citizens of the US (my country) don’t see that politicians (regardless of affiliation) are the problem and by focusing on your fellow citizens instead of politicians you are doing exactly what they want.
Prehensile-Peener · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
Leo_V82 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and girls
raskrask12 · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poetry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
utupuv · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can actually be so horrible at times. It seems to go against every fibre in my humanity and I don't understand how anyone could possibly justify some actions that they commit.
FernetEnthusiast · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toxic relationships, when a girl or boy is too blind to not understand that their relationship shouldn't be like that
memeb843 · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who go to a beach, then decide to put the bumper sticker abbreviation on their vehicle... Do you just want random ppl to know that you went there? Does it actually start conversations? I thought maybe it was a status symbol but they do it for regular public beaches so I don't get it...
Same for the stickers/magnets that say 26.2 or 13.1... like what do you get from putting that on your vehicle?
joysthename · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
myself
samedayY · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
prigmutton · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The desire to have children will forever be a mystery to me
Yayadhacko · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics 😆
astraldaisy · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How taxes work. With owing and getting tax refunds and all that shit.
IzChik · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried many times to understand why today's monetary system is better than the old barter/trade system.
cyberjonesy · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity
steesh74 · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My 17-year-old daughter 😞
An-Anthropologist · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math when applied to physics. I get calculus, integrals and differential equations. I don’t get advanced physics math formulas and equations.
ssfwl · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people enjoy being friends with those with literally no personality at all
51LV3R84CK · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Numbers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodingers Cat.
nikrstic · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people value singers so much over songwriters, even singer/songwriters?
dude_with_two_legs · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gravity works. Everyone knows what it does and can see/feel the effect it has. But HOW??
patoklovatina · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speed of light and universe in general.
BoneTheDragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I exist
xSTLxCody · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How adults playing Animal Crossing is not strange and weird.
little-cali · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people's voices are transferred through phone lines and through waves in the air. How do sound waves go into a cell phone, to the towers, across the country, to the other persons phone, and back out of someone else's phone as sound waves.
Mind Blowing.
MichXCX · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how ppl can focus on doing something for a very long time I know I can’t
TopJamMan1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theory of relativity, how someone can age slower or faster purely based on the speed they are traveling
Nickidemic · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rape kinks/fantasization. Like, my only kink is enthusiastic consent. How does not being wanted make you feel nice?
Donkeyotee3 · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rape is about power and control. I don't doubt that the same motivations are behind rape fantasy.
SlapABoob99 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any of the sciences. I feel if given enough time and the right teacher I could understand mathematics. But none of the sciences ever made sense to me.
Cabeelibob · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
LordOrKing · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mankind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The existential crisis every single person seems to get when they discover as a kid that we all die one day.
And the big anxiety everyone seems to feel about having a purpose, about life having a meaning.
I genuinely have never gotten any of those things. I don't remember ever struggling about accepting death, nor trying to desperately find my supposed purpose. Why is death scary to so many people? You just stop existing at some point, it's fine. I don't get what is so upsetting about it. Why does life have to have a purpose? What if humans were created by accident because of space stuff? Why be desperate to find an answer? We just happen to exist for some time and then disappear, it's fine.
Edit : added "about it".
Edit edit : here is how I was taught about death, if it helps some with my point of view ; I lost my grandma in primary school, and remember my parents telling me that when we get old our body deteriorates until it stops functionning, and that was it. I never had any crisis about death, the concept never affected me at all. I was obviously sad about never seeing my grandma again but the idea of death never bothered me like it bothers so many people.
little-cali · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people's voices are transferred through phone lines and through waves in the air. How do sound waves go into a cell phone, to the towers, across the country, to the other persons phone, and back out of someone else's phone as sound waves.
Mind Blowing.
bickludto315 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
TheDiamondDevil8 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Phoebeiku · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that people can actually close their eyes, create an object in their mind, and be able to manipulate and move the object around. I dont understand how you can just know what itll look like my changing the perspective mentally, or even how you can think up an object on demand. All I see is black and it sucked when I found out this was a normal thing for people to do. It explains why I was awful at geometry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
At least for me, but I think also for the majority of us, yes, you can imagine it, but it does not have a "reality" edge to it. Like, it still has colors and a shape in one way, but it's still transparent and formless in another way. There's one whole dimension of "reality" missing, so it's not as vivid as a normal object you would see.
youknowwhatfuckyou13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The inner machinations of my mind are an enigma
SKI888KIL · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What i dont understand is why we have to do school work during a complete pandemic so we don't fail school. Most people during this time are supporting there family's or dealing with all the rules being set into place i think of it like this you shouldn't force kids to go through extra stress
AbsoluteMadvlad · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can choose to live in Florida and stuff. It's so hot, and humid >_<
Crohnies · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parenting teens has to be so emotionally hard
Tervo1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why when men compliment/hug/whatever other men they’re gay. Also the way that men are childish when they cry or show any emotion.
2ndbestsnever · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how videos go viral
Estellar123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything in “Tiger King”
sullking · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Solenoids
toothpastenachos · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that live by astrology
joetbarrett · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have never understood why adverts for perfume or aftershave exist...
Tickler66 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese writing.
Jaren1196238 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
poop-funny-hahaha · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths tbh
Todd_The_Odd100 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pieces of media such as games, videos, movies etc. manage to make me cry
thEY’RE NOT EVEN REAL PEOPLE DARN IT
zqmbgn · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reggaeton and Trap. I get that they must have something or people wouldn't listen to them, but the first just seem so repetitive and tasteless and the second...the voice and the way it rules feels so stupid... I refuse to say that they are bad. They must have something, but I just don't understand them...
Thanos_nap · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The craze behind drinking and smoking among teens/grownups.
the-drunk-zombie · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ignorance whether its sexuality, gender, or religion. It doesnt effect you. Why does it matter they are different? Nobody is the same, not even twins. Just mind your business.
jk72788 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
rchre33 · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ATP/Krebs cycle. I’m a bio major and this is one of those things that, no matter how much it is studied or is discussed, I can’t remember or grasp.
DucksRuleFlorida · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can do stupid things without thinking of the consequences.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
ssfwl · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people bask in being oblivious to the suffering of those around them and at the same time claiming to be caring and perceptive
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
eermNo · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That “Time is relative”
ianyboo · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smart religious people. Like, I get that many of us were born into one religion or another and that makes sense that it would be hard to break free from since it would be such a fundamental part of a person's identity. But I don't understand the folks like William Lane Craig who seem way smarter than me but can't seem to work out that the arguments they are using to conclude that their god exists are laughably bad.
Gekuul · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people ship Bakugo and Uraraka
Springy-is-here · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand traps
unique_beachball · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rascism. It's just strange to me that some humans hate other humans for something that the other human can't control. It literally makes no sense.
thedoofimbibes · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
White knighting.
Like this girl just starts hitting me through the open door of my Uber while I am sitting down and I, being a big guy and not really feeling the hits, start gently trying to push her away while yelling at her to back the fuck off.
Cue boyfriend sucker punching me from behind her, driver yelling at me to get out of the car, and security guard coming and pulling ME away. AS IF I ATTACKED HER. The guard threatened To beat my ass then call the cops. So I called them for him.
Needless to say I got attorneys involved (had multiple witnesses in the car with me), but now I carry a gun when traveling.
I have no problem killing anyone to defend myself after seeing how idiot cucks working deadend jobs respond to a woman attacking a man. I could have ended up getting beat down by a gangs of pussy whipped blue collar trash.
Edit: it is largely this incident that made me lose my respect for working class people. Despite being raised working class around refinery workers.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The doppler effect with photons, that makes everything " red " cause of the universe expansion. I perfectly understand doppler, it's just that I thought photons wavelenghts were linked to their energy by the planck constant. So is the photon less energetic if we mesure ? I don't get it. Like a photon emited with a specific energy by an atom for example (i don't know the name, when an excited electron changes of orbital), if the atom is moving then the energy is not the same ? I don't get it. Please can a Physician explain ?
supereaude81 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being and Time
ziderX · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people new how to do it
Infofromknowhere · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft. You know your getting old when they make video games you do not understand. Or your balls touch the toilet water when you sit down to take a crap.
ZacSabbath17 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
GiantBagsOfDouche · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who deny science.
chaozules · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of TV shows that rehash the events that have happened every 5 minutes, like is your target audience goldfishes?
And advanced math it scrambles my brain.
mtv2002 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social media "influencers" like fake virtual likes define them as a person. Dont get it at all
daniesza · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The current state of the world
MrPie83 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
Niijz · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computer works. And I'm studying that.
dcschnazz · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Where does the value come from?
I get the gold standard (each note is equal to a quantity of a precious metal), and I get the USD (USA has enough export and a strong enough military to make the currency viable).
But where does bitcoin get the value?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump can spew mass amounts of bullshit out his asshole of a mouth and millions of people agree with his horrible, horrible ideas.
Especially the people who think that Orange Man are actually speaking sense and is a "prophet who came to save us". Just how in the world do you come to that conclusion?
People like Donald Trump lived their entire lives in wealth and never knew what it was like to be afraid of not having enough to feed yourself. How can people believe that he is going to help them? 'Cause he ain't. He's a fucking millionaire, billionaire, whatever.
Iotatl · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why money management and taxes are not taught in public schools
pillairohit · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry and Organic Chemistry
Angel12279 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there's medicine based commercials because like why would I ask a doctor if it's the best choice for me shouldn't they know what to give me? I never went to schoolbor know the adverse effects. I feel I'd just sound like some idiot trying to do my doctors job.
vaguestmold2612 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics
Senatorweinersweiner · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Juggling
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes. Like... what?
obreezyyyy · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine there's only one central point. Ok, now imagine there's two, point A and point B, and everything is moving away from them both. Well that would pose a problem, because what about stuff in between A and B? Where would that stuff move, away from A or away from B? To solve that problem, just imagine the actual point B moving away from A, faster than the stuff in between, so that all the stuff in between can still move away from A and away from B at the same time. Note: in this thought experiment we made point B move away from A, but the picture is symmetrical - just consider point B stationary, and from its perspective point A moves away identically.
So, I suppose it makes sense for 2 points, but why restrict it to two points? If every point was the "central" point, where things further away move faster away from you than things closer, it works just as well as having two "central" points, and the picture from each point would be symmetrical, no matter which point you take as a reference point.
Not a physicist, but that's how I like to think about it.
astimelapses · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How more people don't think about their mortality on a daily basis
coreynj2461 · 1 points · Posted at 20:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some tv shows start with a timewasting recap and/or preview. We know what happened last show and if we didnt we could watch it again, and we dont need a preview of the show itself. Some shows take 2-5 minutes of this which is an eternity for tv time and could be used for extra scenes.
Sgt-Pumpernickel · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bluetooth technology works
werterland · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humidity vs. dew point. They're both measures of how much moisture is in the air, but different somehow? I've tried to read and learn, but I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That one time in 1st grade where the assignment told me to write something about zebras or something, erase it, and rewrite it. Just... why? Years later I still don't understand why the assignment instructed that
anitenihp · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Permutations and combinations. I remember we first learnt about it in the sixth standard, and it came up again and again all through my college, bachelor's and masters course. Still.dont have a clue how to solve them
Kilshok · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People bro.
People.
LurkersGoneLurk · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. It hurts my brain to try to comprehend the vastness.
Flabbington · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surds
sonnendieb · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How quantum computers work. More specifically how something that can have a superposition helps calculate certain things faster.
marknelly1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fact we can have video and audio through literally air. Like satellite TV and phones?? How did someone just discover that you can do that?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Negative gearing
andfork · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math with all those symbols and cosine and those things, and how you can have an equation with so many symbols and it make sense
pinterestdyke · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone could go through their whole life without ever questioning certain opinions their parents raise them with. This could be religious beliefs, racism, homophobia. Anything where parents worked to convince their children that other people are wrong, and they were right. I don’t understand how someone reaches adulthood without ever questioning these things when there are so many people saying something else. I don’t understand why they refuse to even listen to people with different opinions.
The_Game_Doctor · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does my sister always have to go into my room and shout random stuff while i’m fighting for 3rd in a Williams against Hamilton on F1 2019
ISZATSA · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spin from Jojo
erenbajracharya · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is Ticktok so big?
ramenluver2012- · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can go from being best friends to total strangers less than a month
Salt-Zone · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when someone tries to discuss their deep passion, and someone just says "I don't get it. It's just (insert topic)" like. That's cool you might now understand. But don't belittile my passion and love for this just cause you don't understand. Especially when they go on to bash it on a different day.
The_Swedish_ape · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scales in math.
grollol · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way America is handling the Coronacrisis, this is going to be pretty shitty for y'all
3Sunshynes · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Universe is infinite like how where’s the end, whats after the end...mind blown
PeanutMerchant · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
suicidality
nunya1423 · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think it's sooo easy to buy a gun illegally. Everytime I'm trying to debate gun control this is where it inevitably goes.
SoundCardinal · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Musical theory. I am a guitarist and I fail to grab the logic. It keeps me from progressing. Does someone have a good way to approach this ?
karldenXII · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How economics work, how the worth of money develops and how it's controlled by a system
dissapointingsalad81 · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating. Never done it and never had a girlfriend but I've been told that you can't approach women at certain locations but focus on bars, nightclubs, social events, online dating despite the fact I'm not good at socialisation and don't have social hobbies. I'm also autistic which means that I'm not good with social cues.
Guess I'll remain alone so I don't come across as creepy and make the other person uncomfortable.
SaintHobbs · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot Fetish. I dont have a hate or love for feet but definitely dont understand how someone is aroused by...feet.
mario_meowingham · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bitcoin works
MrFortis · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work parttime at a pool as a lifeguard. We also have a lake outside for when its hot outside. What I don't understand is some parents not giving a sh*t about their children and their safety. I have 2 examples.
1) Toddlers and babies walking/crawling into the pool without wearing any wings or any form of lifevest. And not even looking or wondering where they are.
2) In the summer we every once in a while have a thunderstorm going. When that happens nobody is allowed inside the lake, because they could be electrocuted. So parents take their children out and go back to day-drinking and don't pay any attention to their kids and they proceed to walk back in. Once we risk our own lifes to get them out, the parents usually scream at us, cus us out and complain at the reception.
I still like my job for those wondering.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. Yeah, I know the basics of supply and demand, but beyond that it's mostly incomprehensible to me. And I'm surprised so many people have strong opinions on it, as if they were experts, considering how complicated it seems to be...
DGlatt6969 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
blockgaming06 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans.
aNormalPirate · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier Transformations, I understand the concept and i have uses for, but when it comes to actually working with it, Something just stops
jjlldd · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
nexistcsgo · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people have so much stuff to talk about? I hear people saying "I talked to that girl for hours". How do you find topics that you can discuss. I struggle to keep a conversation going past 3 minutes or so before going completely silent and hoping the person I am talking to has stuff they want to say.
calamitycalamity · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much about other peoples' decisions when they have absolutely no bearing on the individual who's upset by it. Pro-lifers, for example. Mind your own business.
pluey200 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I don’t like so many foods
AlanRR98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
swervin87 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin or any other crypto currency. Let’s say I had a Bitcoin, where is it? How do I sell it?
kyriared7 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can profess to love you but then do the thing that they know will hurt you most.
I guess the best explanation Ive read is that sometimes people who do terrible things are just terrible people.
Also, if you’re reading this Gary, you’re a cunt.
violexique · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trap music
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin, and how to mine it.
Elibrius · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how seemingly so many people are blissfully unaware of how harsh life is to many others while they themselves live either lavishly or even normally. Ignorance is bliss I guess.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block chain and crypto currency. Its been explained to me a few times in different ways each time. I don't fucking get it. It just doesn't seem like a thing. Not tangible to my brain. Feel free to try explaining it.
AndThenThereIsJess · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How WiFi works. I’m a pretty intelligent person. It’s been explained multiple times to me. It doesn’t make logical sense lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory that traveling at the speed of light would mean that you age slower.
I believe that people that think they know how that would work are just as lost as me.
EliRibs · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hacking and the dark web, it all fascinates me but I have zero knowledge on any of it
Nick13524 · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i am like how i am
joey1886 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation and nuclear power. How is it produced and why is it so dangerous.
Omepas · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly don't understand why religious people are right wing. Almost every religion preaches that taking care of each other and being nice to each other is a good thing, but in practice its almost exactly the other way around... This does not go for all religious people but the meta is horrible and full of hate.
kevinchildrey · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What can and can’t go in a microwave
fadedreams15 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arrays.
Daniel_TK_Young · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you disingenuously not understand something?
wetwater · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music theory. I've had many people try to explain it to me, I've read books, looked at websites, and watched YouTube videos. None of it makes any sense at all and, despite knowing better, I come away feeling like it's some sort of high brow snobbery I'll never be included in.
abbyran14 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Yankee with no brim
JillyBean1717 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Twilight Zone TV show. I just can’t understand the premise.
Licorice_Devourer · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really understand phobias. I can make perfect arguments of why I have nothing to fear, then I come face to face with it and suddenly my brain is going "red alert, get the fuck out of here!"
DaisyKitty · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I genuinely don't understand most things in life. I've been bewildered since I was a little girl. I truly do not know what we all think we are doing most of the time. Or why it takes so long to accomplish meaningful things on a political level.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is yawning contagious!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Like the fuck!
TheBigP404 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Birthdays
uptheantics · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the clutch on a car works. Read about it, watched videos about it. Still can’t get my head around it. Not that I need to, just bugs me.
AaronCoad · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how you can place bets on WWE. it's literally scripted
Philosopher_1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships
FireonDark · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do girls, not have balls?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens after death. I know no one really knows what happens, but I always imagine an eternity of just nothingness, darkness.
Then I start thinking about how long forever truly is, and then I start having an anxiety attack.
Nittr · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
xadimi · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to end a conversation with someone without make in it awkward ( in the middle of day so there is no excuse for going to sleep)
Rareearthmetal · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whats inside a vacuum. I can't fathom nothing.
jpegorpng · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why basic and likely reposted questions on AskReddit always make it to the front page
ToNIX_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People littering. There's absolutely no reason to throw trash on the ground, any place you leave should be cleaner than it was before.
reesecocopuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
slope of a tangent line
ScalieDraggy · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers and programming. Seriously, just because I'm young, part of generation Z, does not mean I'm tech savvy. I'm always asked by older people, especially family, how to solve some problem on their computer and I genuinely do not know how to fix it a vast majority of the problems. When I do solve a problem it usually takes me hours. Even when I search how to solve the problem on Google more than half the time I question what in the universe I just read/watched then angrily punch my keyboard.
rwxx5122 · 1 points · Posted at 20:06:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our purpose in life and the afterlife
AlkalineFaith · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Scorching_Flame · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
herbalblend · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cats
catbutts123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cell phones exist. Like, how did they put all these little parts together from just elements to make this little thing I’m typing this on????
P5Weeb · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How king Crimson works
poven100 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who actually believe thay can decode a secret message from the Bible, by using a number pattern or whatnot, from an English-language text. That, and the non-biblically-based-on-anything Rapture. I mean, grown ass people think those are real and take economical or political decisions around it. Mind blown.
AydenKat · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Danilo_dk · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reasons worth living.
me_daddy420 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand people who are scared of COVID-19 but think that buying a bench and taking the kids out is more important
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
CatsAreTheBest2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are going out and hanging with other people right now. Hello.... global pandemic!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is dumb, but I have absolutely no understanding of Minecraft redstone machines and circuits. I have mad respect for people who can make epic machines and farms but I just can't grasp the concept whatsoever.
yes_100 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get mad at others using things from a culture that isn't theirs, when it's not even theirs either. In other words, cultural appropriation.
SirShitsalotThe11th · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slang. “No cap bro I got 5 bitches” I’m a ducking teenager and I still don’t get some of the shit my friends say
Dylpickle1515822 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space
Sir-yeets-a-lot · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Kornnish · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That humanity is always limited by how much money we have/the economy/stock market. We could be so much more advanced if we put humans first before some system that's controlled by an invisible hand.
Mark-Luis · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit Karma
SneakerLover213 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I speak three languages, but I can’t understand how there are young children speaking and understanding multiple languages at a time, and doing a good job at it.
JasaProxy · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's so hard to make friends irl. Personally I've made a ton of friends online that I've later meet in person but I've never understood why it's so hard to meet new people. Might be just me.
ronwanky · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
hymenbuster666 · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math past like seventh grade yeah
isaacs-cats · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can converse with others easily. I don’t have many friends because there’s fucking nothing to talk about
Sp1d3rb0t · 1 points · Posted at 20:07:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LGBTQ+ folks who are racist.
phears15 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I physically cannot understand it. I made it a goal last summer to work on, get better, but i can’t. I watched Khan videos for hours, did practice tests, and still didn’t know shit.
RemingtonRebel · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the intro to Bob's burgers I so fucking loud, it'll be like 12:30 and the intro wakes the entire neighborhood. I like the show and all the cops would show up on a noise complaint, ruins. the. night.
UraniumV · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pewdiepie has 100 million subscribers. I watched some of his videos and never found the appeal
dlaird1966 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the speed of light affects time.
kidneysonahill · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women require a certain height to date, have a relationship, with a man. And vice versa.
I'm above the national average in a country of reasonably tall people and height has never been a make or break issue for me. Height in general is something I do not think about in respect to myself or others.
Why, some people, should be so determined about height eludes me.
Joci_B · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
roseypeaches · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker. I still don’t understand how it works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory that traveling at the speed of light means you age slower.
I believe that the people who think they understand this are ridiculous.
ItBreadMakingWeather · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My degree
Beren579 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
JAJG91 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Degrees of freedom from my psychology statistics courses/thesis. Tried and tried, but still don't get it.
gabagoolgalamad · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BIKES!
DeadliestSaiyan · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think aliens would look like or compare them with any life here.
_That_One_Fellow_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are on any extreme end of the political spectrum.
FaIlSaFe12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are times where everything seems to go faster around me and I become really conscious of my voice and... Yeah.
Those times are weird.
steve6174 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Having fun" at concert or parties. Drinking alcohol while predentding to dance isn't something I find fun at all.
TheMainGerman · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Mostly people I find idiotic, but people in general. People can be so simple yet so enigmatic at times. Since I'm a guy, this goes double for women. Yet, they don't seem THAT complicated. Yet, at the same time do.
Relatable?
Slashscreen · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How radios work. I’m a software guy with experience in hardware, but I still have no grasp on how they work
ItsKnightTime101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can genuinely deep belly laugh in response to a comedian. I just don't find them funny, maybe they'll get a little chuckle out of me but that's it. I think it's the unnatural environment of "I'm here to make you laugh and I'm here to laugh" that gets me.
ReevMan · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is infinite. Like is their actually an end? If there is what’s on the other side? What if there’s no end? How is this universe infinite? Does it jest keeeeep going? Like what???
randomentity1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get significant others. Still never found one after 40+ years...
lawboynotman1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Euckre
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers
RedLMR56 · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans don't vote for someone who would actually work for them. They love to line the pockets of billionaires and go hundreds of thousands into debt if they develop a major illness
XRHacker · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My chemistry teacher
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat on each other. I don’t get it.
InWisdomITrust · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mindless hussle for fame and money.
reverseroot · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone has friends, they are such burdens to havr
RolfDasWalross · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still think that the US is the "good guy" in modern day politics
DocGrey187000 · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can have the position that viruses are not alive.
Seems to me that if they don’t fit your definition, you should change your definition.
ELC183 · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I consider myself a pretty smart guy, but I just can’t wrap my head around 4 dimensional objects
thatswacker · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the postal system works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How youtube is still ruining their own platform.
fiendishmuffin · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Charts usually show gravitational force as a planet or star sunken into a 2D grid representing the fabric of space/time. Their mass distorts the fabric, which bends the trajectory of objects around it. But, space is 3-dimensional. It melts my brain trying to understand how the fabric of space/time works in three dimensions.
Legendarynazzy · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
On how No human being ever recorded ever display a super power but dreams of doing it And making up stories of a guy who could walk on water made water into wine as he pleased and somehow this universe has no excitement to it knowing we may never get to use superpowers
Juicy101909 · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aside from people? Not much
shinomori_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women shave their eyebrows and paint them instead!
FlashBewin · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The physics of pulleys/block-and-tackle.
I understand the basic idea...
I just don't understand how
Cuts the force required in half (depending on the amount of pulleys) but requires twice (or more) the distance/amount of rope
i don't... i don't get it. I'm an adult, damnit.
n3f4rox · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gossip. Really, why do You care about other people private Life?
random-Guy4467 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma system
ThatCloudLooksLikeA · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would pour the milk before the cereal
basak_can_i_ride · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people thowing rubbish in the forest
ellesein · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How kyle xy got cancelled😣
clovis_sanders · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How currency works. Ie here in the U.K. 100 pence makes up a pound sterling and 60p for a can of coke seems alright but like in Asia or somewhere like japan it’s about 120 yen. And it’s like I don’t get that like 120 pounds here can get you a set of tables and chairs. So like would the equivalent of getting say a house here for £600,000 be the equivalent to paying 600,000 yen and effectively paying £4,450 for a house with the same price tag of 600,000 with exchange rates?
kamionuwu · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who masturbate with friends
ctrl_alt-account_del · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I don't understand our species.
epicmemes69420 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the cheetahmen theme and Pursuit-Cornered are basically the same song
The_Masterofbation · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck anything exists.What the fuck!!!
weirn2024 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
ThonyGreen · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a European ,US tax system.
Poondert · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. Like, I can understand the words used, but what is really happening and how it all translates escapes me.
Fonbire · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lagrange error bound
alovelychicken · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
Not-a-virgin20 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, at least within the US like that’s what literally makes us, our diversity, but also the violence that comes with it
Burruchaga007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't comment/post on any subreddit without Karma and reddit not letting me post so I'll be able to get those karmas 🤷♂️
Edit: Jeez! This is the first time I've been able to post on a subreddit.. Lol... Didn't think it'll go through.
PPsza · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics, doesn't matter if it's left or right wing. It seems to me that people there complicate things more than they really are.
-Twokad- · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there's new people that start smoking.
Like, whatever positive feeling it may give you, the links between smoking and cancer and all the other health issues are concrete; it seems stupidly expensive and every year gets more expensive; "Smoking Kills" plastered over everything even related to tobacco ....... and yet, despite things being this way (in the UK at least) since I was a kid there's still people in this day and age that start smoking!?!? WTF?!
DarkBlueMullet · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People wanting guns.
seoured · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people, still to this day, think the earth is flat
Dr_Downvote_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a needle, running across a Vinyl LP can produce sound. Like. I have read about it. But it still just doesn't make sense. haha. and this is coming from a guy who did music in University.
It's just black magic fuckery in my eyes.
kevekev302 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who decided that walking was called walking? Or any other word? How did adam and eve know words?
AMH3321 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being an adult 😔
Brnsnr9100 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
chocolat3am3rican · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Football
belenmartinnn · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crocs.
TigasFan · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math lol
DrSWil70 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tbh, Religion. I'm not annoyed nor disturbed or anything, I mean, everyone is free. But damn, how that trick works on so many people?....
WickedBaby · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the first computer program is created...
Seriously they must be wizards.
sphscl · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the point to life is, once you have raised your children, you really are surplus to requirment.
PunkHooligan · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most of the people are assholes
readwiteandblu · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how people can believe in religion. I mean, I get how a young child can if they've never seriously thought about the subject. I truly believed until I was 18, but then as Lewis Black would say, "I had thoughts." It just seems to me that otherwise intelligent people have a blind spot when it comes to religion for some reason. Some emotional need it fills that is like a drug to a part of their brain that I feel lucky not to have.
Younis_T_Hama · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we love someone without any reason?
Cymru6317 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating and how to tell if someone is interested.
I should add I'm autistic but I've had people who I thought were interested based on how they acted both in person and not, but they weren't and I think someone likes me but they don't do things that indicate interest, but in person they definitely act it. So like what the fuck?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to people cant figure out common sense or how to label things.
subredditcat · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/okbuddyretard. I love the hilarity and the irony but I still don't get it.
APVP_7 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced Transmission Line Theory
valarmorgulas · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Codyh_02 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Adron-the-survivor · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The „duck” selfies.I don’t understand why girls do that.It does not make them attractive.To me,they just look like those stereotypical stupid girl in high school.Just why?
FlowerEclipse · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers and people who think the coronavirus was made in a lab. I know people who are anti-vax and think the coronavirus was made in a lab.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
autistic_polarbear · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What cholesterol is, and how blood pressure works...
dbrndno · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
chrchboy · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
dating, like it’s just kinda weird to me like you meet someone who you’re interested in and then they just change up and vice versa/ you meet someone who’s interested in you and then you lose interest. i don’t get it
DerpyNachoZ · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how bungee gum works, someone PLEASE tell me!
freddiecheriee · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions. When you sometimes think with your heart and not your brain
theworstsailor1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot understand Bitcoin. I've had it explained a million times but I don't understand how solving math equations gets you money, or where all of this money is being generated from.
Smubee · 1 points · Posted at 20:11:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's desire to drink or do drugs to have fun.
DialDegree31 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
spare_nomad91 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
cocalo · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You and the rest of the galaxi
SlowMoebius666 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical power. Current, charge, electrons moving one way and whatever. One can kill you, the other zap you as a party trick... I know it's possible to understand. Hell, I even know people who work with it, who I wouldn't trust with a pet rock. But I just can't wrap my mind around it and I've been trying for years. At this point I am content to just write it off as magic.
Jonathan7-70 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do girls wear those gigantic fake nails. It looks so inconvenient and in my opinion they don’t even look that nice
gruniite · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so interested in cars and four wheelers and the like
drlqnr · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
really confidently confident people with insane amount of confidence that can just confidently talk to people or do something in public that's a nightmare for introverts.
MyNameIsNotLiam · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many "popular" songs make it to the radio that are absolute trash.
Looking at you Black Eyed Peas
Anisa_Elmazi · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand what the fuck is wrong with me
MacSteele13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people make money with "puts" in the stock market
YellowWater7 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. Just math in general
AustinDMitchell · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much about memes being spread and cry plagiarism.
Like. Don't they know what a meme is?
StichedSnake · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can’t have good internet, I swear, every time I try and log on to do my homework or just when I want to enjoy myself online, the internet only works when it wants to, and when it does, its slow as hell and disconnects from my devices every couple of seconds, making it completely worthless. I’ve lived in 4 completely different areas: suburbs, rural, and city and I never have internet that can be relied on.
1Blueyes2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrödinger's cat
I've read about it and thought on it a ton. I still cant wrap my mind around it.
kiri1234jojo · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Mr_Romo · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote against their own interests.
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah i do this. Even though voting may help me, i know it harms others. I personally can not vote to have government do something that harms someone else, even if i gain from it.
Biblosz · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relations between people, I am not diagnosed with any social disabilities but man, I am really retarded socially
randomphoneuser2019 · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people actually believe consiptary theories.
sh4d0wxhs · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't just try to love more... This planet would be much better if we were all just a bit nicer to each other. I mean, at the end of the day, we're all just equally small tiny humans trying to make it through our lives in this mess as good as possible
Isaa_B · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who define themselves by their Zodiac sign.
"Oh you're a Sagittarius? Sorry you're too boring"
"Yea I cheated on him. It's alright cause I'm a Leo"
"Ew a Gemini? You two-faced backstabbing bitch. Goodbye"
cherrydelightful · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
igotojail · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women/girls I don't get there logic it doesn't make any sense for example :a girl let's call her tsundere-chan almost always looks in my direction while I was just looking over to a friend of mine you know when the teacher says something funny and you both look at each other let's get to the point.Tsundere-chan wasn't the quietest of all so we got a new order to sit in my lucky ass as I thought got the place right next to her she was ALWAYS sad only when I talked to her she smiled and laughed (sometimes so loud the teacher almost screamed at me because I didn't heard him) after numerous compliments hours spent talking her feelings towards me didn't change ,you would ask how do you know well she told me about her feelings and SURPRISE SURPRISE she loves a other guy.I thought that with all the compliments the fact that I was totally her type always listend but still she didn't care.
You might be thinking what does this have in common with things you don't understand well I still don't know why she didn't feel the same way I felt?
PLEASE SOMEONE ANSWER ME WHY WHY ?
_Constellations_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Waffles_Jr · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
flapjacksandgravy · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mean bosses everywhere. Weren't they also an employee once?
Prysmarine · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people buy feet pics, when you literally have an unlimited amount on the web?? BTW, selling feet pics lmao
Unikorn9 · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiger King. I just dont know what people find about thats so amazing.
thepinebaron · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic carpentry/installation work to fix/improve stuff around the house (quarter round, building shelves, hanging shelves). Also basic maintenance of lawn equipment. And also basic car maintenance. I feel like I suck as an adult with two kids.
OneSkinny3oi · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum spin, the fuck? Is it not actually spin? Why the fuck is it called spin then? And then what is it?
DaDankFox · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why politicians would rather bury each other rather then find common ground. It's always my way or the high way with politics. The people who try to lead following one ideology or mindset are doomed to fail in my opinion. Theres a good side and a bad side to most arguments. If we focused on the good rather then the bad I feel like wed progress much faster as a society. Instead we bicker and argue and ultimately stopping or hurting progress as a society.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most differential equations. So many heuristics, and I always end up fudging boundary / initial conditions
DucksCantDigestBread · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom
reesewithoutherspork · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French.
florix78 · 1 points · Posted at 20:13:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why this girl lost interest in me so fast :(
octo_bean · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don’t understand atoms. Like how the frick is everything around us made out of teeny things that are mostly empty space???? What??
McBoofy · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nicotine
AlwaysSaving · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
succ_egg · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it is blind people see, you literally cant comprehend the concept of nothing, because for seeing people its black, but theres nothing there and I really want to know
sall_good_man3 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. I know it's supposed to boil down eventually to binary 0's and 1's, but can't never fathom how it can display images and stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. I just graduated MEng University and I can’t do anything more than 2+2=6
the1armedman · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. All the ELI5, books and videos and CNBC is still gibberish.
MoonLiteNite · 2 points · Posted at 20:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just typed this up for another person! Ill paste it for you too!
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Company makes money, but the employees want lots of money FAST. To either buy things and upgrade things, OR to put into their pockets.
So they chop the company up into millions of little shares. And ask if anyone wants to buy them. Normally a few large banks and investors will buy the shares. So the company takes the money and does whatever. They are 100% deattached from the share price at this point.
Normal people start to buy the shares from the banks and each other. If someone wants a share, they can offer money to someone with some shares to sell. The seller may decline because the price offered was too low. Later on another buyer will offer MORE money and the seller. And the seller may accept. This is what causes share prices to go up. The reverse can happen to cause prices to go down. It has NOTHING to do with how good the company is doing. People may base their buy/sell prices based on the company numbers. But that is not required. Lehman Brothers (went away in 2008) still has shares being bought and sold for 4-30 cents a share.
Now why would someone want to buy a share? Well you could hope someone buys it from you at a higher price. Or there is a chance the company will pay dividends, a tiny bit of money for each share you own. Companies can start and stop this at almost any point that they choose, some SEC rules apply.
So this is why right now things look weird in stock market. Most deaths, more job less yet stock marking it shooting back up. It is because people paniced and sold their shares driving the price soooo low. And smart people will see a company is paying a good dividend and just after 10 years, the dividends will have covered the cost of the stock. So we're buying up all this cheap stock, which is driving back up the price. I know johnson and johnson, ATT, VZ, walmart, CVS will be around in 10 years, so i feel safe in buying right now and know i will make gobs of money in the future.
And yes, i have nothing to do at this time. I hope this helps your understanding :D
the1armedman · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This was great!
blifford6669 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the the first STI’s came from.. if they have to be passed on sexually, then who was the first person to give it to someone else? How did they get it without someone giving it to them?
It may sound dumb on my end but I really don’t get where they came from and how someone wound up with an STI in the first place if they are sexually transmitted person to person.
orwiad10 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
shameonyounancydrew · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance.
arimeffie · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory :(
Lullaby098 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grammar. I’ve tried. I really have.
During my 2nd grade parent teacher conference (Private catholic school), the teacher told my parents that I was having trouble will phonics. I was put in a special class to help, but it didn’t.
I was transferred to public school before 4th grade where I had my main teacher and class, but I would be taken out for a special phonics class a couple times a week.
Once I got to jr high and high school, my study halls were replaced with going to a special ed room where they would help me with homework and phonics/grammar/spelling, etc. I barely graduated high school and went to college.
I was given additional tutors in high school and I hired them in college to try to help. I’m in my 40s and I still don’t understand it. “Too/to” is a struggle for me. Writing emails for work to outside customers bring fear. I have a few people that I will send important letters/documents to, too (not sure if that is right) proof read.
I’ve put a lot of effort in trying to learn, but I’ve all but given up.
cumberber · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how its offensive to ask a woman for her height and weight.
Like I'm genuinely asking to get a better picture of how you look without asking for a picture of you. It doesnt make sense to me how someone could be offended by a simple question. My best friend is well over 300 lbs, hes not ashamed of his body. Why is it such a sensitive subject for so many people? Not just girls, I've seen guys get really defensive over the subject too. Why?
mrcapybara47 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ligand field theory but hopefully i ll get it soon
Leggomyeggo3425 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls all pile in the bathroom together.
Usagii_YO · 2 points · Posted at 20:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a girls version of the water cooler.
ward_bond · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe that the entire universe down to the smallest microscopic life developed by chance billions of years ago. How every interconnected, complementary life form descends from common ancestors through mathematically impossible mutations and changes over ludicrous amounts of time, to arrive at this moment. The complexity of the universe can not be explained that way. It is obviously the result of design.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why guys send me dick picks
bastante60 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ending of "Casino Royale" (the one with Daniel Craig). And the next film.
Who t.f. is Matthes, really? And whose side is he on, anyway?
scientificredpanda · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how photography works. it's blown my mind since I was a kid. like what happens to have a snippet of reality onto a machine
ArnoldNorris · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Open relationships. Like dude just break up with them if you're not attracted, are you that afraid of being lonely?
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It isn't a matter of being sticking it out with one bad person because you are afraid you won't have other options. It is a matter of having access to all the options and not being limited to just one
ArnoldNorris · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds lame
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They do not do it, but with the one person at a time if it suits you two.
Everyone likes different things.
twinkie431 · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics.
Col0ssusX · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How credit works. I've had so many people explain it to me in the simplest of ways and I STILL don't get it.
RomanoNacho · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Society today in general both confuses and angers me in many different ways
lilpeenur · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing something "for tax reasons"
cis007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any easy way to understand put and call options with analogies
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ohhh another stock based on. I am on a roll answering these :D
I'll keep it at their simplest form.
If you buy a call. What you are doing is paying some money right NOW, and later can buy the stock at the price that you agreed to. Or you not buy the stock, but you loose your upfront cost.
So if you wanted to buy a call it would go like this.
Price is 9$/share.
You pay 0.50$ right now and they promise to give you the shares @ 9$/share. You have up to a week to decide if you want to complete the purchase.
If the price goes to 20$/share the next day. Would you be willing to pay 9.50$ for the share? I would think yes. Then you would turn around and sell it, basically doubling your money.
If the price went to 5$/share. Would you be willing to pay 9.50$? Prob not. So you would do nothing and only lost your 50 cents.
The things that can very are the fee you pay for the option to buy. And the time frame in which you can decide to buy. Generally the longer time frame you have, the more of a fee you will pay.
Hope that helps!
mumez359 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
davey_mann · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Best Picture Oscar usually goes to movies that no one watches.
Joseph-45 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks
MoonLiteNite · 2 points · Posted at 20:33:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Company makes money, but the employees want lots of money FAST. To either buy things and upgrade things, OR to put into their pockets.
So they chop the company up into millions of little shares. And ask if anyone wants to buy them. Normally a few large banks and investors wil buy the shares. So the company takes the money and does whatever. They are 100% deattached from the share price at this point.
Normal people start to buy the shares from the banks and each other. If someone wants a share, they can offer money to someone with some shares to sell. The seller may decline because the price offered was too low. Later on another buyer will offer MORE money and the seller. And the seller may accept. This is what causes share prices to go up. The reverse can happen to cause prices to go down. It has NOTHING to do with how good the company is doing. People may base their buy/sell prices based on the company numbers. But that is not required. Lehman Brothers (went away in 2008) still has shares being bought and sold for 4-30 cents a share.
Now why would someone want to buy a share? Well you could hope someone buys it from you at a higher price. Or there is a chance the company will pay dividends, a tiny bit of money for each share you own. Companies can start and stop this at almost any point that they choose, some SEC rules apply.
So this is why right now things look weird in stock market. Most deaths, more job less yet stock marking it shooting back up. It is because people paniced and sold their shares driving the price soooo low. And smart people will see a company is paying a good dividend and just after 10 years, the dividends will have covered the cost of the stock. So we're buying up all this cheap stock, which is driving back up the price. I know johnson and johnson, ATT, VZ, walmart, CVS will be around in 10 years, so i feel safe in buying right now and know i will make gobs of money in the future.
And yes, i have nothing to do at this time. I hope this helps your understanding :D
Joseph-45 · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This has helped but can I buy a share and make money without selling it
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, companies can pay dividends to people who own shares. There is almost never a requirement for them to do it though. And they can quit paying them, lower them or raise them for almost any reason.
Why would a company pay dividends? Because they know that makes the price go up, and they retain tons of their own shares, which they can use as bonus to employees and other perks for working in the company.
Joseph-45 · 1 points · Posted at 06:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If some companies don’t pay dividends then why would anyone want a stock like who would buy it if there’s no dividends
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 15:09:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"The bigger sucker" theory, this is the case for companies like amazon (up until recently) and tesla. For years and years they do not make money, they loose money and keep taking out loans. And they pay no dividends. But someone bought amazon @ 100$/share and someone else is a bigger sucker and buys it @ 101$/share. Then the guy who bought @ 101$/share found another sucker to buy it for 105$/share. In the end amazon made money, and JUST now tesla is starting to make money. But for the longest time they both ran in the hole.
The other one is the hopes of a dividend. A person might reason, well once Tesla has 20% of market share, they make money year after year, they will pay a dividend in the future. And i rather pay 400$/share right now, rather than paying 2000$/share where it might be by the the time they start paying a dividend.
Klarspaceface · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works. Or computers for that matter.
heave20 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a Liberal and a Conservative are. What the Left and Right are. What an Alt Left/Right is.
I'm 39 and have just never been too involved in politics until now. I just had a political call asking if I was more left than right. No clue.
boredaf2105 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
TraneD13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people afford life. Like, a family of 5. Two parents, three kids.
How tf
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don't blow money on crap like cars, TVs, cable TV, cell phones.
20 years ago when i was a teen, my dad made 25k/yr, with 4 kids and basically adopted 2 others, my mother was sick with MS. Yet life was just fine for us. It was normal. I had everything i wanted, some rope, a tree house, a black and white zennth TV and what matters most, healthy cheap food.
TraneD13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea I’m talking about the families with all that too. I get how to be frugal and smart with what you have. I don’t get how people have all those bills and still make money.
WildMatthew98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dick is small but my biological dads wasnt plx explain
bigbanana35 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how any girls actually like pick-up lines. Most of them are just really cringy.
kevingattaca · 2 points · Posted at 20:16:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just imagine Jon Hamm doing those same terrible chat up lines ...?
Canguscaan · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys feel the need to harass girls
i_big_pp_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls and dating
Alelitt94 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music.
The creative process and how to make something decent.
I'd love to, specially with instruments not only on daw. It's so hard, I kinda understand but i feel dumb all the time.
icanrule · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those Bitcoin machines that are everywhere. Do they even have cash in them? Has anyone even used one? How much info do you type in to do your work?
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes they have cash, that is how they work. You can pay money into them to buy bitcoin, or you can take money out.
I used to use them from time to time. I played poker online, after goverment shutdown partypoker and made it illegal, i switched to playing with bitcoin. And to get my $$$ i would use those machines.
just have to type in your keys
Walok25 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What blind people actually see.
MoonLiteNite · 2 points · Posted at 20:23:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most "blind" people actually have some form of vision, it is rare that a blind person is 100% blind and sees nothing. Most have a motion or light perception.
So you can view it has having your eyes covered by a dark blanket outside in the dark, then you see a car driving up, you see the bright lights moving towards to
is_a_marvel_lover · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
tapprach · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fat shaming is a thing. How does another person’s size have any impact on your day. You don’t like it, look away. You wanna comment on it, just don’t. You wanna start some shit- bring it on, cause most people who’ve been fat shamed are just waiting to throw fists at the next mf that decides to say something.
Give people a break and be a good person, ffs.
awesomemofo75 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. How the fuck can you add a number and a letter together?
Anonymousys · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
North, South, East, West. It’s been explained to me, I just don’t understand how anyone ever knows which way is which 😂
TheRiddler1976 · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
LSDlabmonkey · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
aricente · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The valuation of money.
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well in USA there is no value :P it is called fiat money at this point, been like that for 50 years.
Dougdahead · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole fascination with scripted reality TV and the "why should I vote? It doesn't matter." If too many folks think their vote doesn't matter then suddenly it won't.
NOLA_Chronicle · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Synchronization in Java Object Oriented programming.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the frick there is so many sexualities
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why professional athletes are paid so fucking much.
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah that one is easy.
If 10mil people are watching them.
And they say something like "i love cheetos!" and only 1% of those 1mil people go out and buy cheetos. That means 100,000 bags of cheetos were bought. If each bag is 1.25$ that is 125,000$ made for cheetos brand.
And that was just 4 words spoken.... ONE time.
So cheetos brand is willing to pay someone 50k to say those words. Spend 50k to make 125k, worth. Not only is cheetos doing it, but microsoft, nike, addias, tenent, amazon, JNP, ford, ATT, everyone pays them to say a small bit. Or wear a small bit.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for explaining. It still seems like an absurd amount for what they do though
mdja123cs · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans need guns when most of the world doesn't
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don't need.
Some people like the skill of it it, some people like the way it allows them to have a fighting change against someone larger and stronger than them and others like the history and engineering behind it.
richochet12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always had a hard time understanding computer logic and coding
MoneyMike0808 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
memith · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taylor expansion.
ThisIsMyUsername1122 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still be communists in 2020
Rare_Leopard · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry. Just geometry. It is useless and adults out there, I'm sure you haven't used it in the real world. I'm happy this school year got cancelled, idk how i was gonna pass the final
P.S.- Ive always been good at math, especially algebra, but this is a whole different level of complication and uselessness
anshulans · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
College level physics
eksokolova · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Film theory. I can get it while it’s being explained to me but ask me to analyze a film and I’m lost. Strange because books are, well, an open book to me. I can analyze them in my sleep
kurtmrtin · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
RoscoMan1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Welp I’m not touching that either (yet).
poying55 · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dark humor apparently necessitates cognitive ability for processing.
I'm a dumbass and love the darkest shit out there and cannot fathom how smarter people can be offended by the same jokes.
TheGlassCat · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The twin paradox
Motion is relative, so who's to say which one is moving? There speed has nothing to do with it. One twin accelerates, but if a twin is in orbit it should experience less acceration than the one on earth. It confuses me.
paulinezi · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. I cannot wrap my head around how big it actually is and what goes on in it
roseticbloom · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain tbh
thefear900 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theoretical physics
jmoneyy28 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communists
The_Trevbone · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Morality
Sir_Psycho69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TikTok is popular.
BlankCartridge299 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why video game Companies shut down good development studios
kkamilkaze · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother
uwee996 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that allow Todd Howard's sweet little lies to go on.
Goddhoward42069 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls go to the bathroom in groups
crystal_meloetta12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can do literally everything people say is a good way to gain positive attention and still be invisible
pscle · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between adjectives, verbs, etc. I just don’t get it. Whenever this comes up, people laugh and define them. I appreciate this, but for some reason, I just can’t retain it. I’m a grown ass, graduate, pencil skirt wearing, Costco card holding bonafide adult, but what the FUCK IS AN ADVERB
MoonLiteNite · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can justify taking people's money by force, then giving them something they don't want and calling it "fair" and a "social contract" just based on where they were born.
The_untamed_jew · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The blood-brain barrier. It always interested me but it seems to elude me. I know neurons react badly with blood tissue but it still eludes me
TheStompingElephant · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get why people are so obsessed with TikTok, like it is actually really bad and i can see why so many people use it
Stevacus · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crocs
robo_y2k · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many liquids came out of a cow before someone decided that milk was the good one to drink.
pumpkin-jack · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How buying plants and fertilizer is essential. Go to a home goods store and it’s full of people walking around buying things that really aren’t essential. I have to go to buy items in a hurry( when I don’t have time to go to the supply house). I’m an electrician and deemed necessary.
Stargazer237 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Ryaven · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Competitive nature, human behavior
SonOfaSassafras · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A will to live.
Pyrosocial · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shitty writing. Surely when these awful TV shows, films and games are being made, there has to be one sane person around to call them out on how garbage the story is?
Asianboy5438 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
STACHEISTHECASH · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics. Like simple stuff makes sense, but who the heck sat around and thought “how can I prove that some numbers are imaginary” or “there are 2pieR radians in a circle.” Like legit this is mind boggling
k54- · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit coins
kittybom606 · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
CouldntBeFucked · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
League of legends. I can’t even begin to get jr
creepjax · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some states don’t allow vaccinations without parent concern if the child never gotten a vaccination
Tjoerd · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Physical-Cycle · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans and math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra 1 And 2
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How parents justify someone else’s abuse on their children.
Neonziii · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My homework
Ajmore430 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I have to be alive.
emmma_dinosaur · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Like, it’s honestly a problem. I pay attention in class (or at least, I did before miss corona), I did my work, I got help from the teacher and somehow still when the tests come, I can never get higher than a B. Like, no As unless the concept is ridiculously easy, and even then I’m barely getting an A- while everyone else it’s getting 100% on the test. Math is the only subject I actually have to study for and even then I still do so poorly. It’s an actual problem and I feel like I’m the only one in my class who has this problem. Everyone else seems to get that moment of recognition when they finally understand the concept but that never happens for me. Sometimes I pretend to have that so I don’t look like an idiot in front of my peers. I have just revealed one of my greatest shames to one of the largest subreddits. Good thing no one will see this🙃
Spades786 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can live life without ambitions. You should always have realistic goals and try to achieve them. I learned the tough way that some goals are never meant but that's just an opportunity to replace it with a new goal. I wanted to complete Highschool, then get into U of T, then go to law school. Law school did not workout so I had to change goals and now I'm at college studying something else.
I have friends that have never gotten into uni or even tried. They're happy working at factories. It's just insane to me.
mattjm11 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a mechanic, and I understand a lot about cars right, and I'm not even trying to toot my own horn but jeez dude How in the world does it make sense that your car burns more oil with less back pressure to the exhaust? For instance when I strait piped my car everyone told me that its gonna burn oil like a mf but it really doesn't, I've been wondering if that's just a myth or if it just happen to some cars because back pressure shouldn't effect anything, when your exhaust valve opens it should be pushing that exhaust gasses out anyways why would you need pressure pushing it back in? and you still have oil rings on your pistons anyways, so how come all the sudden that you have less back pressure the oil rings don't do their job? It's a myth.
WoomyAndNgyes · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do software and hardware drivers work. The only reason i hate Radeon Graphics.
danieandcats · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My 401k 😒
Waescheklammer · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ending of The Man in the High Castle season 4. Just watched it. Can't think of any explanation for it, I don't understand that bullshit.
Brantelope · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
PornoPaul · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job. Seriously I get the basics but the rules are constantly changing so I'm never sure if I'm following up to date procedures and guidelines and I get snarky answers from management if I ask. So i just guess a lot.
xaudionegative · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The size of massive stars. Just in our Galaxy alone, UY Scuti is around 1700x as big as our sun, which is 109x the diameter of the Earth. That size is just unfathomable to me, and makes me really uncomfortable when I think about it.
tanya11029023 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier Series and Transform
chasethesquirrel · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The original and all the sequels of the movie Jackass.
LeMeowLePurrr · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plumbing and water processing!! How do they DO that!
williamofblake12345 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why over the course of 10000 years of recorded history humans have not changed in any way.
An_Ether · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have changed, in ways you can't directly see.
For example, did you know the average human body temperature has decreased the last few centuries?
williamofblake12345 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didnt know that and I see what you mean. Psychologically I dont believe we have changed any.
heyImLel · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records. Never understood how music could just happen by putting a needle on a disc
AnduTR · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry. its kinda hard
pennylane927 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
pilot-777 · 1 points · Posted at 20:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, people, socializing on your phone via text and call, feminazis, racist
Ozymandias86 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin! What is it!? By the way I have seen (and loved) the movie Dope like 3 times but can never follow the whole thing with Bitcoin.
halloway14 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
music theory
Duke_Al_Pastor · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Internet works ... like really.
definitelyK-mart · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math for the most part
Anonymous3355 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I live life properly?
ro0ibos · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I saw this post title in my email notification, I immediately thought it was an aggressive reply to one of my mindless comments. I was so relieved it was just a neutral r/askreddit thread. So I guess I don’t genuinely understand why I care so much about petty things like random, faceless people attacking me online.
USCplaya · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social media.
Why does anyone give a fuck what someone else ate for lunch? Or give a shit what some B-list celebrity is doing? It's all fucking weird and intrusive.
Also, why the fuck are radio commercials so fucking annoying when their only way to communicate is via audio? Make it pleasant to listen to.
Also also, why the fuck do TV shows still use a laugh track? It cheapens the show and distracts from it as well. If it isn't funny enough to get a laugh without being told where the jokes are, you need a better show.
WanderingBear_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the American people just accept the political system. They give us two awful candidates that we have to pick from when there are a million better candidates out there.
roahir · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't accept that some prefer a pet over a child. We all accept "Oh you want a kid? Awesome!" but not "You don't want kids? You are so selfish."
Redpooly · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Yu-Gi-Oh! card game. I've always loved the show, but for some dumb reason, I can't understand how to master the game.
implatinumboi · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase “what in the cluckembuckems”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no one will stay the hell inside right now.
stuffisreal13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Lorenr13 · 2 points · Posted at 20:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
x a million .....
cutefish762 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe that China has less active Coronavirus cases than Panama.
nknavin · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics and what the fuck is wrong with schrodinger’s cat
Stiblex · 2 points · Posted at 20:22:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tl;dr a subatomic particle has no set position in space until you observe it, then you force it to assume a position. That's the simplified version of it.
sureshlaghya · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math equations...
WhirlStormPlus · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m late, but for me it’s gotta be love
Over the past two months I thought I had everything figured out, and then boom. I had a rich of new powerful emotions I never experienced before, and put in an unfamiliar and challenging situation with no clear answer. I’m now two months in and I’m still confused, and an emotional wreck
PreviaSens · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stochiometry
JavaRuinedMyLIfe · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution. Like they say that life came from the oceans. Organisms lived in the ocean and evolved to survive in land. But how does that happen on a individual scale? Like one day a fish like thing just had a son that could breathe outside water and that's it?
Stiblex · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are still some hybrid species that lives on very shallow waters. They're fish that occassionally walk on the shore. It's not that hard to imagine.
eccentrix__ · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this may be digging too deep but I don’t understand the mentality of when a kid’s parent dies and instead of taking care of their kid like they’re supposed to or trying to be fit to take care of them they get pissed that someone else is taking care of them. i saw a situation once where a couple was about to get married and they had 1 son, a toddler about 3 years old. they didn’t live together, the son lived with the mom and her brother. the son was born blind so he needed special care. before they moved in together the mom died and the court found the father was unfit to take care of his own son (he had no job and still lived with his family) so the uncle ended up with the kid and the father was so pissed and yet never tried to take back custody of his kid. his son is like 20 now and in college and his Uncle and biological dad ended up hating one another because even tho the dad was supposed to technically have rights to his own kid, he never got a proper job or a place fit to raise his own kid. I don’t understand the mentality of “thats my kid! I should be raising him not you!” and not doing anything to change that
frump_420 · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I personally do not understand religion, or how people believe in it
Diogenes-Disciple · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do dishwashers work. I don’t trust them
disorono · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The question
kinjinsan · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tennis scoring. Why not just play to five?
CupacKgirl · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The metric system
JokesSenpai · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monty Hall problem
Sh3llsh0k · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of love
momochicken55 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
JChilly716 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting. Fuck accounting.
CarnelianHammer · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that passage of time is relative, and time dilation and all that stuff. I just cannot wrap my head around it.
PapaRedPanda · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rage behind the Matrix movies. They're not that amazing.
IronVader501 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Hollywood keeps trying to adapt Books, only for them to completely change it from the source-material.
Seriously. Allmost all movies that did that failed (Eragon, Percy Jackson just to name a few) either critically or at the Box Office. Or both, most of the time.
So why do they keep doing it?
miraculousoffical · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get a job. I’m 20 and I’ve been putting in applications since 2016 for various entry level positions. It seems like every time I go into a store and ask for an application I’m told to fill one out online. I fill one out online and I never hear back. What frustrates me to no end is when I call in to check on the status of my application and I seem to get someone really rude with an attitude who says, “The hiring manager will call/email you when they’ve had a chance to look over your application.”
sgf-guy · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the elements of the universe just...existed somehow? Also, it can't go on forever but if it stopped there has to be...something...on the other side right? The universe is just as unbelievable as the idea a higher being just created all this.
dogsbeforedishonor · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still support the American “president.”
People who don’t believe food or health care are human rights.
Homophobes.
How my husband who is trans cannot respect my pronouns or chosen name as a non-binary person.
Aceguynemer · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why convicted pedos dont get automatic death penalty. Why are we risking this thing getting out and fucking someone up again??? He lost his chance at redemption with that, why not hang him? I've got a lovely, strong, stout tree right in front of my home, we could do this on a budget.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About 10% of all convicts are innocent and some who plead guilty are doing it because they can’t afford lawyers and they know pleading guilty will result in a better case. If you execute them then they have no way of proving they are innocent (even if it’s a slim chance) because their dead. Justice should always be maintained over punishment no matter the punishment.
subtomepsi · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people share their opinion online but want to refuse to allow others to do the same. (This is mostly Facebook)
Singularity2soon · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do so many women wear yoga pants, yet never do yoga?
portugi · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females, they just boggle my mind.
Phenrique25 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How satellites works
pnkgtr · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, especially to the point of genocide. There is absolutely no logical reason to believe that eliminating another group will make your life better. And frequently, the perpetrators seem to be surprised that there is resistance to their plans.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it’s not even the minorities who are being oppressed it’s the majority that just wants them out. Like at least in Haiti when they killed all the whites most of them were slave owners or were directly profiting from it I don’t condone it either but at the very least they were trying to change the oppression they faced
pnkgtr · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would call your example a revolution and justifiable homicide not genocide.
g_guy001 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Money works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The inability to play devil’s advocate with personal ideologies. People who have opinions, but never question them or stick to them as truth, are people I avoid.
flamethekid · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Like where da hell did these numbers come from and why do they do what they do and how did people figure out what they do and why we decided to start shoving letters and other shit in them and all these terms.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those fucking charmin bears and their goddamn toilet paper fetish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus
Big_Gasspucci · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The deal with airplane food
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating.
Extron02105 · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reddit karma works
Yes I have been to the subreddit and no it didn't help
glocksandnines · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ariana Grande stans, and for that matter, any stans.
Alpaca-Lord-exe · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Yawheyy · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people that think it’s perfectly OK to litter with their personal trash
grazinsheep · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people going out to hangout with their friends while a pandemic is going on like come on people have some common sense
Mr_Awesome_rddt · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can just blindly follow religion without asking questions. If they don't understand something, they just attribute it to an unknown force
JohnnyMurrell · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How music can be captured in a mofoing wax record?!?!?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. I mean, I do understand graphs and charts and stuff like that, but I don't seem to get a feeling for the science behind it yet. Otherwise I'm rather good at maths, I don't know why I struggle so much with it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are Subway commercials so awful?
brismell · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idiots
fabulousseaflapflap · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Cat in the Hat (movie) is rated for children
ThatGuyCalledReece · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thinking process of some girls at my highschool
Samuel-Pepys · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
Megz2k · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football (American)
It makes 0 sense to me. How can you call it first down when there’s a bunch of them. After the first one I mean.
Anyway it all goes downhill after the kickoff. That’s the only part I get.
Esi184 · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cell phones
Akai_mato · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mukbangs, so nasty (I do understand the origins of it), but like so much food, and discusting chewing noises
Ixirar · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why kids love the taste of cinnamon toast crunch
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I got this far in life, honestly
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone asks you for something (i.e. food, a favor, or anything else) and you decline, only to be met with a negative response from them. A bit childish.
R_Spc · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
calabreseLGV · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Thebaconvanman · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the choices ended up being Trump or Biden.
RoCKSLAM · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming, i have a degree in IT and understand computers as a whole and am very computer literate but for some reason i just cant code. I have tried learning many times but each time my brain just nopes out. Anything else i can do and learn no problem.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things
BlackAdam · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Like, what is it really?
FoilMasterRace · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can hold hate for something for long periods of time, regardless of the action committed against them or how much at fault the other person was. There's no point to keep that rage inside for years and years, but people do it.
Phuc_Kieu_2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
ThePsychoKnot · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This new use of the word "bet." People have explained it to me, but it still makes no sense. It seems to be roughly synonymous with "affirmative." What the hell does that have to do with betting?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. The whole thing in Interstellar. I just don't get it and I really want to.
Prince_Edward_IV · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how in the absolute fuck is it legal for news organizations to have political affiliations and personal agendas?
why is there not some sort of laws forcing news stations to adhere to defendable, justifiable truth?
and im talking about how theyll spin stories like instead of "an aggravated robbery resulted in the deaths of two people today" theyll say like "A black american shot and killed two white church deacons at a 711"
and thats the headline. so you watch the story and find out that the black guy was defending himself from the white church deacon robber or something but they know people wont watch that far, theyll just see the headline and go "YEP THEM BLACKS SHURE ARE A DANGEROUS BUNCH YEE HAW"
theyre just stirring up shit and societal unrest to sound more "exciting" thats not how fucking news is supposed to work.
Payton_Walter · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Curved spacetime
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the English language was created.
It was made by putting Latin, French, and many other various languages into a blender, pouring it into the sink, and collecting the residue, and making a new language with it.
cranialdrain · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think white men are facing huge discrimination.
kesikeanao · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We need credit to start credit.
realMouse_Potato · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum anything
jacobsredditusername · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to function in life.
weekend_man · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what a 3d printer is usefull for
kal1596 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. I can catch on to most things pretty quickly. I’m a fast learner and I think I’m decently smart. However, you can explain taxes until you’re blue in the face and it just goes in one ear and out the other.
prickly-picklez · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
xSHuSHx · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
discord channels and servers where people share their nudes/porn in general
mexican_rice · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how someone can be evil like do you have no heart? how?!?
JakeStarz460 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the lazer on a mouse eorks. i get it detects movement but... how?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How this country isn't sinking yet with the amount of money it's dealing out.
jellypoppy · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve always wanted to try and understand genetic engineering but I never even get close.
PhuckleberryPhinn · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who blow through stop signs to cut you off or pull in front of you while driving, then they go significantly slower than you were going. Doesn't make any sense to me at all
Lfarinha95 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Holydiver951 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women’s way of thinking about things. Even the most logical situation they’re still trying to understand/explain it in an empathic way... I’ll never understand
mateoago · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
mynamesagoddess · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
just45un · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are people who still in mystical deities in the sky
jmarie19144 · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why must people be so critical about the way bills are facing? Here are all $5 bills. It doesn’t matter if their heads are up or whatever. Is it that serious? What’s the point?
Meatball subs. Why must the meat be in all ball form? It would be 100% easier to eat if it was in simple ground beef form. Like chopped up meatballs for better eating.
Why don’t WNBA players dunk in games? I mean, female basketball players can definitely dunk but I’d like to see it more.
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of getting so drunk you can't remember anything and wake up the next morning feeling like shit.
carlzbuk13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is my girlfriend broke up with me
fatzgerald · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have to compete with others to gain currency to afford the life that I was born into against my will
nanonemau · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gossip
I mean maybe a bit of gossip is natural, like shure u may discuss people's actions for a minute or to sometimes when they affect you.
But I can't understand how you can make an jour of discussion about the fact that aquaintance A is dating person B or the fact that C's shoes look bad. Ect...
It just doesn't make sense to me
I_NoT-A-RoBot · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is wrong with people on facebook about ( I got 6 eggs i broke 2 cooked 2 ate 2 how many do i have left ) like what the heck is wrong with yall
Yamikk69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people read something once and they know all about it but if I gotta study it on my own I gotta do it 3 times and it’s not enough.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The willingness to create a public disruption to get your way in a transaction, even when you're clearly entitled to what you're asking for. Too uncomfortable for me.
McPandaNuggets · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
shyopossum · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks.
NationsBackbone · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tbh light pollution makes no sense , the sky is still very dark and no light is in sight why can’t I see the stars
thestonelyloner · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum. I probably have hours of videos of different people explaining it but I still have no clue how to explain it to other people.
wolferine07 · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people can be so hateful and greedy.
jctilex · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of Oceans 11
OopsieDoopsie369 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they just wanna rob a casino and towards the end George Clooney gets ditched, thats all you HAVE to know
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to have a good, interesting conversation with anyone no matter what differences we have.
Either I find the talk interesting and they find it boring or they find interesting and i find it boring.
RexAlivera · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our sense of smell works
Notmyrealname · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that we did not exist before we were alive, and we won't exist after we are dead.
InternalScreaming2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex
inanepyro · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Biden swindled the presumptive nominee slot
Cannalyzer · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women’s shoes
James310802 · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bondage
SupremeWolfMT · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy. Like, it seems too fucking fragile for it to be a legitimate thing.
bluecomanche · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What “off sides” means in sports. Many have attempted to explain this to me and it just hasn’t clicked for me yet.
azeee56 · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
GeneralZain1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my wife left me....
/s
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are not into cars.
Most people spend alot of time operating one, Why not take care of it and have a genuine passion for it?
It's a fairly simple thing to start learning. And you can use the skills from working on cars in alot of other places.
atherem · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sanders followers believe invading every subreddit with their topics trying to push it to everyone will make him win. The worst case is /r/MurderedByWords:
- Hey I don't know why this hospital bill was so expensive
- HaHA that is because we don't have socialism haha feel the bern
Muffinc0pter · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how do people stand up in the morning?
Whenever I wake up, I am very unmotivated, so I don't stand up. I need to figure out why it's worth to do anything, and as far as I can tell, other people don't need to do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. How if you travel closer to the speed of light, time will slow down. How a clock at the top of Mount everest will run faster (or slower?) to one at the bottom of the ocean.
Mustermuss · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin and cryptocurrency In general.
hhhai · 1 points · Posted at 20:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m quite ashamed to admit this but I have an engineering degree, and I still don’t understand why do we need imaginary number.
rjle_x · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. How you can be here one minute and then just be gone. I just don’t understand the whole situation. It’s terrifying but bizarre
PickleChips4Days · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact the universe is expanding. What is it expanding into!?!? The stars have always boggled my mind.
wordcantwait · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ELECTRICITY.And I’m a college grad... and my dad is an electrician that has attempted to explain it to me many times. It just doesn’t work in my head Edit: also, how does a tv get info live and present it in that way. Mind boggling if you ask me.
klaffredi · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why by all measurable metrics humannity is closer to extinction then ever and nobody seems to care.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you open your eyes underwater, I see it in movies so much. Can you even open your eyes underwater?
aabhransingh · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Imheretovent_yeet · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who decide they should insult random people they barely know anything about. It not only makes them look stupid and others laugh at them.
thesecondmadskillz1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. What’s the point? How do we know there 7 billion people on earth?
VuduPapaJuJu · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is so many medical commercials on TV in the U.S.
flyovercountry2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people love sonic 3 and knuckles
DharkonGaleen · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What ; means.
howarthe · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If Henry the VIII invented the Church of England in order to divorce his wife, why did the the church later pressure Edward to abdicate? Why, how, when did the Church of England become against divorce?
DrPlus123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
franzkunz · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t know why I get mad or frustated so easily. People told me I’m always cranky and get frustated about the littlest of things. Like seriously, people knocking on my door while I’m doing my shit? I get mad about that. Not the screaming, abusive kind of mad, but it just like that. I get annoyed pretty easily too. Probably the reason why I don’t have so many friends. I know I’m a little entitled sometimes, but when the moment comes, I can’t do anything about it. Thinking about this is already making me frustated.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How building 7 fell
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sarcasm
TheGlassCat · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. Why doesn't everything happen at once?
picklestring · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
MACBDJr · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dividing fractions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics, and people with anxious-attachment style.
AimaZero · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
GeothermicLSD · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just division. I can multiply fine, and I promise besides my political views, Im not retarded, but I just don't understand how someone can divide large numbers off the top of their head.
And don't get me started on how dividing by a zero point (number) ends up making the number bigger.
AzorAhai87 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
shamrock01 · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How otherwise good and decent people cannot see the sheer awfulness of Donald Trump.
SendMeYourQuestions · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics. Studied that shit for years, still makes 0 sense.
MartiMa08 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people SCREAM at celebrities. You wouldn’t run up to your mum and scream in her face - I think
Finsk_26 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Meaning of life
suckmydick-dot-com · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot understand why people deface national parks, beautiful rocks, trees, etc. Or anything for that matter. There is a beautiful sand canyon near my town that has hundreds of names carved into it, or driving through Joshua tree, the place I grew up, I see hundreds of tags on the rocks and trees.. Why? Just.. why? Do you real feel that entitled? That selfish to take away one of the peacefulness and pleasure of nature for a name tag? I don't understand. Never will. Absolutely disgusting. (You can see I'm very pissed off about this)
rohithkumarsp · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths, and computer language really...
One-depressed-loser · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parents who don't want to put effort into raising their children decide to reproduce. That child will become a teenager, then an adult. You knew fully well what you signed up for, please stop avoiding responsibility for what your neglected kid becomes.
buckeye111 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do blind people know when to stop wiping?
BrooklynDude83 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks...
Monkeyboogaloo · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How silicon chips work. I studied electronics a long time ago so I must have learnt it at some point. I still don’t understand it though.
Treynity · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
gingeropolous · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. Like USA nfl
nothingatwood · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subnetting.
cosmic_waluigi · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think peanuts and peanut butter taste good
McPassi · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being constantly late
Fireheart318s_Reddit · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some things evolved. Like, I understand poison and eyes and stuff; an animal happens to have a deadly chemical in their spit, and kills something when they bite it, or a patch of skin is sensitive to a certain color of light, but what about breasts? How did animals go from just hunting things down and feeding their young normally, to being able to process food into milk and developing specially-designed nozzles for it‽ Iftseems like an all-or-nothing kinda deal, ya know? Or what about the ability to fucking explode yourself to defend the rest of your colony? How do you go from just a normal ant to an ant that can turn itself into a bomb‽
So, that’s my rant on things evolving weirdly, I guess.
Truthamania · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can put a plastic CD into a drive or place a piece of vinyl on a record player and hear recorded music. I've even tried ELI5 explanations and videos and I still can't wrap my head around it.
fearm0ngrel · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being born, like why?
dolinputin · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Televangelists
blacclilac · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoples nerve to try me
MissLillian · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot fathom how someone could genuinely hate any person or group that's only transgression towards them is being different. It makes zero sense.
DEMONITIZEDZ · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people brag about their taste in music. Everyone has different taste is that not ok to you or something? I don't like modern music that much but I don't go and brag about it.
Tha95 · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls.
Glaz2Good · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Was never at all good at it. I barely passed it in high school, I just can’t understand how anything other than the basics work. Like all of the finding the angles of x, all the word problems always screwed me up, and all of the algebra work was the worst for me
TwoHands · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Greek language.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile game ads
Duublo121 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Competitive gaming communities
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah Xbox and PlayStation are brothers in arms. We SHOULD be teaming up against switch and pc
Duublo121 · 1 points · Posted at 09:05:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a switch gamer
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:28:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
THEN FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK YOOOOOOOOUUUUU
Duublo121 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
NUUUU
minmcmahon · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Golf
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baseball fans.
HydroPhobicWat3r · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The deal with airplane food
Linzinator · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
emwashe · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok
Farrudar · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clear vs colorless
TheAlbinoDj · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How billions of people were brainwashed into believing in something that’s literally impossible
Haraheliel · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet's genuine hate for Nickelback and Coldplay. I'm not a massive fan of either but they aren't that bad surely?
iuliabraia · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maths
SpacyDragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Randomdcguy · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1) Why we still have daylight savings?
2) Why they still teach cursive in schools?
BigCursive is as dirty as #BigTobacco
somewhereinside · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pi bonds in chemistry
eyefalafel · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clocks
FarrahKhan123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do so many people think that it is "not in their place" to tell on a cheater. I genuinely don't get it. Why not? If the guy/girl is cheating and someone in the friend group knows about it, why not open up about it. The other person (who has done nothing wrong) is wasting their time and energy for that person who basically is shitting on their emotions.
Why do people let it go on. It's the right thing to do
dirtyfacedangel · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel. I just cannot figure it out at all. 😳
SpacyDragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
jjjon666 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people are so irrational.
We won't believe in two hundred years worth of science! Nooo
We will just believe what that one yoga teacher
playdohsallegory · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people can't be intellectually honest. Instead of acknowledging an error or recognizing something or someone or some idea can be imperfect, they just double down or get angry.
There's something amazing about a universal respect for objective truth. It makes for happier people all around!
KN0W1NG · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How if I jump while in a fast moving train I don't hit the back wall, or if I jump in an elevator going down I don't hit my head on the ceiling?
I've read a brief history of time and still don't completely get it.
Ellie_Loves_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How nearly an entire country is blinded by the idea that whoever opposes them is absolutely 100% wrong and in no way whatsoever has a valid opinion or point of view to add to a healthy conversation. The country i live in i feel is obvious on that description alone but its seriously starting to bother me how many people haphazardly throw around labels like insults and follow it by something akin to "because youre xxxxxx youre wrong and cant know anything about yyyyyy". Its disturbing to a certain level. Its like we're all kids picking "sides" and if youre not on their side how dare you try to have a voice. Ive had this happen over my skintone, over my education, over my age, over my political views hell over my own baby! I cant know anything because im xxxxx and therefore whatever opinion or knowledge i have on the subject at hand is null and void. I wish for once we would listen to each other and understand that even if we dont like each other we are still citizens of the same country and we should be looking to make it a better place for ALL of us rather than fighting over nonsensical things. Im tired of being told im wrong for not 100% supporting a politician, or for saying "why cant we compromise?" We are supposed t be a democracy but that sure as hell flies out the window when your vote is going against theirs. How have we gotten to 2020 and not figured out that we all benefit from education systems being funded or from limiting the power the pharmaceutical industry has over its profits? Why is it that at this day and age we see people who are okay with others being crippled and destroyed by unnecessary debt because its not them and therefore they wouldnt dare give a penny to help the common man but will happily give thousands of their funds for policies they will almost never directly benefit from? Why are our teachers having money ripped from their wallets and we are seemingly okay with it? Why are our roads still trashed if we are supposedly paying for it? And why the hell are we fighting each other when at the end of the day we all want the same thing - a country that is stable, United, and lead by someone who has the people in mind and not the economy for their own gain (dont get me wrong economy is important but when youre doing things to directly benefit you and people like you, rather than the country as a whole it makes me question how much of a leader you are for the people) this isnt necessarily just politics as i mentioned above its happened in various situations but it drives me batty and thats the most commonly heard one. Im ready for society to say enough's enough and work towards creating a place we can all feel safe and stable in. Rather than the mess we are currently in. People in this country are buying propaganda that we are fed (and no im not a conspiracy theorist- i say this mainly because we still hear that we are the number one country in the world and we are the best all the time. Its practically shoved down our throats since i was a child at LEAST and undoubtedly long before that. Yet i was talking to someone in a different country about something big going down for them and i had no idea what they were talking about. Highlighting how little we are shown of the outside world unless theres a side to sell. Its kinda creepy really..)
I just wish we could really be what our name is, because I've never felt more troubled by our state of affairs than now.
LurzaTheHentaiLord · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths in general, I cannot understand anything when it comes to anything other then basic math. In school all my grades were good except math
Dankster_McFly · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works. In fact most financial things fly right over my knog. All I really understand is if I work I get the dollars and the bills take away my dollars so I gotta make more dollars than bills. Anything more complex than that and you've lost me.
helpimstupid209 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how atomic bomb/atomic fusion works. Am I the only one?
spazzleberry · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things
PussyWrangler462 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
KevinCatta02 · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
Ember_Kamura · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Suzy Lu continues to get away with her blatantly illegal activities.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can support Donald Trump.
Harbltron · 1 points · Posted at 20:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are birds?
RyukTheGodOfDeath · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simpity. Never understood why everyone feels the need to say sorry or whatever for something they had nothing to do with. I also don't understand how someone can relate to what another is feeling. Never understood why it was a thing.
appleskittles · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How human babies cannot fall asleep on their own. We’re born knowing how to naturally eat, poop/pee, breathe, etc., yet a basic biological function like sleep is not known by babies. Most have to have an adult help put them to sleep and won’t just fall asleep when they’re tired.
itsmanda · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deja vu
everyone describes it different to me than google, and I have gone 29 years with pretending to know what it means 🤷🏻♀️
Joe1972 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe 99.99999999% of all evangelists and give those fuckers money.
Its_Zxck · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the spawn system in cod mw. no matter how much your team is getting spawntrapped, the spawns never switch
LoveLaughSmile40 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MFKIN MATHEMATICS
ockwuordz · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get an opportunity,
For the majority of my adult life I was homeless and have no real work experience.
I have seen life from many different angels and don't see how a person in my shoes will ever get an opportunity at gainful employment despite the tremendous barriers I've overcome and the five years of stability I've established the world values things I don't possess more than things I do without being a esthetically pleasing or having a parent to pay my way into college or KNOW someone on the Inside I will continue to work extremely hard stay positive and keep trying to overcome
/rants don't get punctuation
Fragraham · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I found out that electrons are not made up of quarks I genuinely lost sleep over trying to figure that out. Up until then I assumed all particles were different compositions of quarks.
jalenvstheworld · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to kiss😔
Kumarthunderlund · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. How do they work
evolcosmic · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a STEM major, the Krebs Cycle
butmeeeeem · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know How internet works?
Enigmutt · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I’ve learned from this post: don’t read it stoned.
pacmanyelow · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain, taxes, cars, photography, olympic gymnastic dance routines, and much more
The-Nohbdy9 · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
krunfola · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin, especially mining.
Jaz_the_Nagai · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monty Hall
Agitate_Organize · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?
HelpMeILostMyAccount · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate or think there're better than some other race
gone_coconuts · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers
bremergorst · 1 points · Posted at 20:28:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions. I’ll never be able to remember any of it.
kpine101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The unspoken rules of texting timing an procedures pre-dating
BowerBowser123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How actors become wrongfully typecasted. Obviously there are some actors who like to do certain genres of films and dont mind doing those type of films, ie: Liam Neeson is infamous for doing action films. But for the others, if you dont want to be stuck in a certain role, then tell your agent to search in other genres or elsewhere. Certainly there are directors out there that would be joyous to have Toby Maguire doing a sad movie
nintendomech · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women!
Bchuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had food poisoning before and I keep shitting. This will go on for a couple days and at some point I'm saying to myself, "Oh come on, I haven't ate that much in the last month, there's nothing left to come out." But then I'm wrong. Again.
soulsista12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chile abuse- imo the worst crime of all. How could you ever hurt an innocent child?
ExPHoN3 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Figuring my life out and how to be happy. I always try to find solace in the small things but I get so caught up in deadlines and expectations that I forget what I actually wanted in the first place for myself.
Alpha__Prime · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics ?
theblakeness · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people punch walls when they get angry.
MonsieurFrench · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water
zeroshadesinthenight · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mechanics. Seriously my teacher dont know how to explain something, how am I supposed to know the speed if you give me the lenght of an object
HeyLarry158 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics
moongirllovespizza · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who cheat.
nom_de_boom · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
MrKADtastic · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The psychology of giving up. I give up often and feel if I knew why then I would be able to fix it.
LadyTenor · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can only feel good about themselves by making other people feel miserable. However, I keep my opinions regarding these folks to my self. The only way to help them is to compliment their good aspects and praising their benign accomplishments. Lead in by asking about their favorite She/heros.
Brettyaboi · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, when she says she is fine, OMG I am so sorry for you. There is always something wrong when they say “I’m fine”. I just don’t fucking get it.
GalacticGumDrop · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity, with its ohms, voltage, amperage, watts, kilowatts, induction, static and all that other shit.
And im a welder who works at an electric dam...
I-love-jesus504 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad has had such a really bad luck in life, he’s always struggled in life and everything he does just seems to fail or doesn’t workout for him😐😐😐
TheHakl · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
knoll90 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algorithms...
rocksteplindy · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How leftists think that paying for stuff via 1) taking wealth from people who earn it, or 2) printing money is economically viable.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
real leftists don't like the Fed either. Printing money is a centrist position.
you're presupposing that necessarily people who have wealth have earned it. that's the whole discussion in the first place.
rocksteplindy · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Printing money damages savers and investors whose funds lose value due to the printing. Thus, it may seem centrist, but it's left.
Either the wealthy have earned it, or someone else earned it and gifted to them. Either way, it's the property of the holder.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
idk what to tell you but people further left than neo-libs don't like the fed.
it may be the property of the holder, that doesn't mean it was justly earned though.
rocksteplindy · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on your definition of "just." If you can charge fraud, price fixing, or breach of contract, you have a case. Otherwise, the market is the market with winners and losers.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well you're presupposing an ethical framework here. that's my whole point. this discussion involves a ton of deep philosophical beliefs with wide ranging implications.
you can't just assume your framework is right, the fact that you don't understand why people would disagree with you means you're ignorant of the discussion itself.
black_mirror-2004 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
svenskithesource · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The american grade system. I live in Belgium and I really don't get it. Can someone explain please?
Randomwoegeek · 2 points · Posted at 20:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the standard is: 93% or higher: A 90%: A- 87%: b+ 83%: B 80% B- ETC for C,D and F
passing is c or higher
attached to those letters is a number: 4 for A 3.66 for A-, 3.33 for B+ 3.0 for B ETC
gpa is the average of these number values for all of your classes and is used as a metric for entrance into universities and graduate schools.
PrinceWalker22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of the Kingdom Hearts series. I mean, I love it, but there is just SO much going on.
joyleaf · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do logs :( I always forget
RustyOTrombone · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Westworld. I'm about to start season 3 and still a little lost.
clio44 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone on the other side of the planet can hold a device, record a video, upload it to the unfathomable www, and it can transit through the air, end up on my device, playing with the exact sounds they recorded, and all the tiny little pixels showing exactly what they saw there.
Like, I can't wrap my head around it. Heck, even just old school telephones with sound transmitted via cables is mindboggling for me
Brohammad_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation. I need an ELI5 lol. I understand it causes an insane markup on items but what causes that? Like if the treasury prints more money, what causes a can of soup to go up?
K14_Deploy · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think the earth is flat. It's a stupid theory and easily disproved. But nooooo... They won't take KNOWN FACT as what it is
Davwills03 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All my A-Level classes
manic-rainstorm · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i will never understand why my grandma grabs the nearest object and throws it at me or my grandpa with perfect aim when she’s mad. she’s dominican and all i can say is, the army would love to have her as a sniper.
spekterr_homo_jeff · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese.
Deeply_Depressed_Cat · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Riot Games
Swiddel · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That when you’re dead, you’re dead forever. Like, forever forever. Eternity. Can’t grasp it.
ThatOneWeirdo_KD · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"I am, the globglogabgalab. I love books."
beekeepingaround · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cell phones work 😬
B00STERGOLD · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 5G waves cause our immune systems to fail so that we get sick with the Rona. After this passes the waves will be safe to sell to the 97% left living.
/s
RiverOfNexus · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we all stand by watching as our government slides further into corruption and disaster, forgetting that we the people have control to replace said government if it fails us. Or why we don't come together boycott their stupidity?
Humpadilo · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t seem to understand why Netflix has so many bad movies. Some of the content they make is absolutely amazing, but those are so far and few in between. I can browse Netflix in an hour and not find anything worth watching. Also, why they make it so that you have to put in that code into a web browser to find more content. I watch on a smart tv and I can’t unlock more shows. It’s just a shitty model.
chickadee35 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to pay the government to live? I understand paying taxes for things, but why do I have to pay just because I exist?
iamwizzerd · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get followers on twitch. My newer videos are great but how will anyone ever see them... Same for YouTube. It's pretty depressing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Differential equations
Jords4803 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people think dating someone else to make their ex jealous or to get attention from their crush is a good idea. It harms the relationship more than it could ever help it and just makes the person look like a jerk.
captain_intenso · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Soap operas. Endless (genuinely endless) television shows that exist as a means to suck people in to show them advertisements with a show that has no conclusion.
noulis1482 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Mf23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sign language. So many questions.
How can there be a gesture for every single word?
Who invents a new one for new words?
Is it different in other languages or universal?
Why does a press conference on TV about corona need a signer when we have closed captioning?
Why do governors use a signer for their press conferences, yet the president doesn’t for his?
sonofagun_13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space travel. All of it.
StephenG7287 · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to whistle. I just can't do it. It cannot be done.
aka_jOKe · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Teenage girs who fetishize gay people and want a gay bestfriend just bc they are gay and not bc of their personality. I used to have a friend like this and it made me really uncomfortable. Also shows that make a gay character but their only personality triat is being gay. For example, Kevin from Riverdale. Literally the only thing abouy him was he's gay and his dad is the sherrif. Nothing else.
dolby80 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exotic weaponry
audreyy89 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mushrooms. Seriously what the hell Mother Nature? They are not plants, animals, anything. They are not even alive except they are and they are everywhere. And they live forever. Like why?
meowcubed · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My co-workers javascript
GloriuContentYT2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The question.
mycatsarecoolerthanu · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Affect vs Effect. My favorite English teacher tried to explain it to me again once I was an adult and I still cannot wrap my brain around it. Example: the girl was greatly affected/effected by the video she saw about stray dogs.
crpiecho · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Hadi202 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
erikagirardi · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok and its popularity.
NaryNewt · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how sound is captured onto a record, how those little grooves can sound exactly like a voice or instrument. I can’t wrap my head around it. I know there are sound waves but I just can’t seem to grasp it.
Ralph-Hinkley · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The knights and knaves logic puzzle. Ever since I first saw Labyrinth in the theater I've been confused.
halfhedge · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy. Have been trying for 20 years.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The effect oil prices have on the economy.
Oil price goes up, economy crashes.
Oil prices go down, economy crashes.
Kolton-W · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I continue to live day to day.
valuedminority · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hungarian.
Captain-Birch · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are petty over stupid things. You like dub more than sub? F*ck you! You are of a different political opinion to me? How dare you live? OK, we get it, you're a control freak with mental issues, learn to accept difference of opinion.
Flynnjaminfrank · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people genuinely arguing against free healthcare.
lazy_pinay · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What really is the “free world” if no one really has freedom or much rights?
jaaynt · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do sovereign citizens feel like they are above the law? Like what makes them think they don’t have to “follow the rules” like the rest of us normal people? I’ve seen enough videos on yt to conclude that it almost always ends badly for them during traffic stops and whatnot. Their antics are too entertaining like when they say they’re traveling instead of driving or operating a vehicle on the highway. Did they rewrite the dictionary or something? Do those words not mean the same anymore ? I legit don’t understand what they base their school of thought on.
TwickenhamPope · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think Nazis are evil but Communists aren't.
All the evil things one did, the other also did.
bmacknz · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communists rounded up an entire race and executed them en mass in gas chambers? I mean, I get Romania and all.... but still.
TwickenhamPope · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Both tried and ultimately failed. Only difference is that one for closer to it's goal.
It's the difference between a rapist and an attempted rapist, really. Just because their success it a horrible thing, doesn't mean their failure is an absolution.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the reason being that "Nazism is a form of fascism and showed that ideology's disdain for liberal democracy and the parliamentary system, "
so by definition you if think democracy is good then Nazism is inherently a bad ideology in your eyes.
socialism is a much more broad term that deals with an economic system rather than a political one. Have socialist leaders been tyrannical dictators in the past? of course. that doesn't mean that all ideologies under the brand of socialism condone those actions.
that would be like saying that because the rwandian genocide happened under a capitalist system; capitalism is evil. that doesn't logically follow.
TwickenhamPope · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said anything about socialism or democracy.
I said that people think that Nazis are bad but Communists aren't even though they both commited very similar atrocities.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you dodged the entire point of my comment. For most people's beliefs Nazism is inherently untenable. The same isn't necessarily ethically true for the other side.
TwickenhamPope · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nazis and Communists both hold untenable beliefs.
They are both evil groups who have evil goals and have done evil things to innocent people.
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's amazing how manage to miss every point I make and just say the same thing over and over without critically thinking what so ever.
Have Nazi's and communist's done terrible things? of course! I explained in my first comment why painting socialism/communism inherently doesn't make sense because the broad nature of the term. a communist can literally be an anarchist, complete statetist or literally anywhere in between. This is an economic theory. your logic means all capitalists are bad because some of them have done terrible, horrible things like genocide. that logic is terrible.
Nazism, however, is not a broad term. if you believe in almost any western value, then Nazism is inherently untenable to you. the same is not true for the definition of socialism/communism: the collective ownership of the means of production. Which implies almost nothing politically.
TwickenhamPope · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I said nothing about Nazism, Communism, Socialism, or any other kinds of "-isms."
Nazis and Communists are bad people and I don't want them in my country.
Shekket · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The obsession with team sports....just...what’s the point..?
sabbergirl03 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i‘m always depressed.
SkipingNtracing · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people spend so much time complaining or being angry at a problem they have then actually spending the time coming up with a solution to said problem.
slightlytoastedsalad · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry, one thing means another but the same thing means 10 other things
AWildCouchpugato · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
mclar32007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole Palestine and Israel thing just haven’t put the brain power forward to understand it!
crunchermunch · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a human can be created in 9 months but if I hurt my knee it will never feel the same or fully heal
TsonK · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flexing. No one really cares buddy
jaksrevenge1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras, man. How something can exist suddenly in a permanent 2D form is wild.
borking-boi · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The dumb people. I mean. How do you not understand the earth is round? How do you think your baby is safe from measles because “the vaccines give them measles”. WHO BREAKS THEIR SKULL FOR THE SAKE OF FOLLOWERS?! And most importantly. WHO GETS TIK TOK INSTEAD OF REDDIT!?
presidentme · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why Bruce Willis is quarantining with Demi Moore and their adult children and why his current wife and two young children don't seem to have a problem with it.
Edit to add that I usually don't care at all about the shit celebrities do, but this one just has me tilting my head.
thepinkcrystal · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin math yo.
cant-make-this-up · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parking in a Driveway and Driving on a Parkway. Who the heck thought that one up?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Toilet paper ads. Who the hell isn’t buying it?! Another thing: My guinea pig. He squeaks EVERY TIME I open a plastic bag.
randomcanyon · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They want you to buy "their" brand of TP. Same as for every competing product.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
True.
xxxyyyzzz89 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airplanes! I still find it fascinating how a 100k lbs metal can float up there and why aren’t we allowed to use phones and gadget before take off in planes?
uresse · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot wrap my head around how humans built things like the Vatican, or Notre dame, or any large, non modern building. My brain just can’t add it all up.
burritoswiper32 · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I [or we] here
Dgonzilla · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Like, I know how it works technically. But I just don’t understand it.
super1ris · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did people came up with bread. I just can’t wrap my head around that. Did they go like “hey, this wheat thing, can we eat it? No? Ok how about we pulverize it, can we eat it now? No? Ok how about mixing it with water? No? Ok how about putting it under high temperatures for a while and adding some other ingredients?
It seems so random. I mean how badly did people wanted to eat wheat? Did they did insane experiments trying to eat everything else as well?
jdsmiamibeach · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who stubbornly, doggedly insist on driving slowly in the left lane of a multi-lane highway when other cars are piling up behind them.
Look, I get it, you think YOUR speed is plenty "fast enough" for you, therefore it should be "fast enough" for everybody else on the highway, too. I don't actually care one way or the other if you want to drive 10 mph under the speed limit, or exactly the speed limit, or 20 over. Just do it anywhere other than the far left lane.
slippery-eggs · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vacuums in physics. Like the space between protons, neutrons and electrons in atoms. Just basically the empty space between particles. I’ve studied it for awhile, I just genuinely can’t fathom truly empty space.
throwawayyyyyprawn · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people that come across as simple are so happy, contempt and confident.
Like I'm constantly searching for meaningful purpose, or authenticity in everything but rarely satisfied, and my boy with the average Joe job, social skills of a cricket bat, no girlfriend and no hobbies is so much happier than me.
He also gives me life advice that wasn't asked for in full confidence, as if he understands.
I wish I could just turn my brain off and be like that.
DreyLuz7373 · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How English settlers in America went from “Top of the mornin good sir” to “WhY hoWdY pArTnER”
nsplgh · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can throw rubbish in the woods
Reilly1504 · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents.
Clari24 · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rounders
annab0808 · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people manage to turn a word document into a freaking masterpiece. I can't organize a document to make it visually appealing to save my life.
It's frustrating, cause I'll put hours into the content but I always hand it something that looks like shit.
findingmeno · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how I graduated while taking two semesters of physics and not learning anything. I literally was not able to answer any question in that class.
Tinymaffy · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirrors... I know how they work but thinking about how they work... That shit is mystic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fractional reserve monetary system, and The General Theory of Relativity.
pythonex · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. And relativity theory.
Wikipedia didn't help. I need someone to ELI5
bribhoy82 · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math with the letters an stuff.
electricgotswitched · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much the transfer and storage of all data
ErockafellarJones · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie Primer.
louSs1993 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. The vastness of it just blows my tiny mind
thisisausername · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can hear music/voices through headphones. Like I get the idea of soundwaves and that but how do you take a digital song and make it play via a headphone or speaker.
angk7466 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can take at face value what the media reports as news as truth. Those who don’t do any fact finding/checking on their own and are willing to relay the news as reported as if its gospel. I guess I’m not a trusting individual.
DrSlavefarm · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are only one kind of potato chips in a bag
pe4331 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The upvote color...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
trends
like why
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol.
marib_alam · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Greenmushroom23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum everything
Dark_Demon432 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase vibe check
_owie · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic Chemistry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of life
hailbopp41 · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don’t like nature 🤷🏻♀️
welcomebunny · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont know if someone has said this yet or not, but i genuinely do not understand the appeal to having children. And before someone say "oh you just hate children" no, not really. Like, i enjoy seeing my nieces and nephews. But i do not like the idea of creating a little human. I guess i just dont see the point of creating a kid. And I've had people explain it to me before because I've asked. A lot of them say that they want to continue their blood line or that I'll never know true love until i have a kid (weird to me but okay). Like its nice that other people love kids and want to have them and people have their own reasons. But i personally just dont understand it.
F4kEAstraiT · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fashion and why I should pay 400+ euros for a pair of shoes, or a shirt with a picture and/or a logo on it
GrindY0urMind · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile games like Mafia Boss or whatever that shit is that spams ads on YouTube. The ads are cringy I looked up gameplay and they are like tower defense games filled with microtransactions. What I dont understand is who the fuck is giving these apps their money?
poptohder · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people in can be so incredibly stupid, yet continue to survive.
Seiren- · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical circuits.
I’m studying to become an electrical engineer and I just can’t comprehend the math around calculating the Voltage and Current involved in different circuits.
Kathalysa · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people just lack compassion in their everyday lives.
Zilberberg · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My obligation to humanity
Mokragoar · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are disregarding this pandemic completely and still going to group hangouts and seeing multiple different friends every day. I genuinely don’t understand how they can be so oblivious and think themselves so above everyone else.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social media
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
reddit is social media
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what i mean by social media. Like ppl who live on fb, instagram and stuff. I just don’t get why people are so into that. I guess it’s a need to stay relevant and constantly connected, but i just can’t keep up honestly. Im not that interested in what others are doing either, just my character.
threeg40 · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sheer stupidity of a lot of humans. I can’t see any form of logic in their beliefs.
GenitalniUd · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baseball
irishking44 · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation and how it relates to lightspeed
AxiasHere · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheerleaders. I mean, they're hot I suppose but what exactly is the point of them?
throwaway2882574959 · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are able to find someone else and end a multi year long distance relationship by blocking someone without even saying goodbye
ObviousKing987 · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing, I don't understand what makes a dance good ? I looked it up in the dictionary and all I got was something around " a way of rythmically moving your body to music". Based on that definition, then if I walk in a way that matches some music, am I dancing? I asked this question to my friend and he said no. I also tried doing capoeira once, but the instructor told me that I was being too stiff, even though I was being as loose as possible. I just don't understand it. It's weird, because I play the piano and am good with rythmic instruments like the drums.
MAD-MAXXXX · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women and also why are employees at the DMV so mean and inpatient.
CaptainPryk · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Soccer mom's who read medical advice on a blog and take that over what her doctor/entire medical field recommends.
lilyarnheim · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that participate in fake Facebook raffles. Those pages never have an imprint, there’s usually only one post on the page (that you have to share in order to „win“), there are no terms & conditions given & the list goes on & on.
Ace_Karma_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yankees with no brim
imfunnyinthewall · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How WiFi or anything wireless work. Also how TV works. People have tried time and time again to explain it and it’s just not gonna happen.
aDumAdam1210 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions in certain situations
BeeHIVplus · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people dont have the mental capacity to create original questions on this sub
asyriks · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works
lionio2310 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people have kids they clearly can’t afford.
aliciasawesome · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SMALL TALK!
natsunohatsukoi · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
minesweeper
larala_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why countries can't just make money if they need it for something. I mean I know they can't but I just can't figure out why.
TyquiII · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tomato is a fruit regardless of the seeds
jameshancock25 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
photopunk101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still defend Trumps need to call this a hoax, his “response”, and continuous inaction. It’s like he’d rather play golf and let people die than actually start being a president for once. And they applaud, and defend it. It baffles me.
xpingu69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nonduality
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When obviously negative/shitty/annoying people do not realize that people hate them and do not want to be around them. How do you not know???
mercmouth1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currently, Calculus.
Since forever, when people say they don't like eating or doing something, even though they've never tried it.
wilbo666 · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Special relativity
lunaxboy · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
straight guys who pretend to be gay as a joke, even acting super gay around their bros, but then when they meet a gay person in real life they are extremely uncomfortable/homophobic. If gay people can act normal around you, you should be able to do the same lmfao
HeyBriansOn · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lock picking in oblivion
BadChineseAccent · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers
kayleeoh · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why H&R block is fucking around.
Phanum · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the first atom came to existence
jwillyandthenews · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
brobroschat · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long fake fingernails.
almera11 · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Marvel_Music_Fan · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That my period hurts so much. I think it's a little weird that hasn't evolved away. Or something like that...
made-u-look · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Search engine optimization (SEO). Every time it’s explained to me, they run through a brief history. Once they get past “and keyword stuffing doesn’t work anymore”, it just feels like /r/restofthefuckingowl. My university doesn’t have a class based around SEO so every time it’s just like a day or two around the concept
3amApollo · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry. never will. 🤷🏼♀️
Seth-E4613 · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TwoBitxMatthews · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ending of Lost. I’ve had multiple people try to explain it to me and I still don’t get it.
cenuh · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always read how dumb trump is, how bad he is for the country, but he is the votet president anyway. Where are the all the people who votet for him? where do they hide?
sealandians · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that 99% of us will never be remembered within just a couple of generations on this earth.
triotone · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drinking Alcohol, does it really taste that good?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
quantum field theory, chromo dynamics, quantum computing
/Don't bother. I'm not smart enough for any of this but still curious.
DrPortebello · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the gas pump stops pumping when the tank is full.
Kamikaze_AZ22 · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
gayrat5 · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
DickBiggum · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What people say when they are offended.
I honestly have no idea what that means or what that feels like and I dont think I ever will.
I know how not to offend and I'm a pretty good conversationalist but this feeling or being offended has always stumped me
antisadboi · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
zetavoidis · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my mom after 2 decades of showing her how, does not understand how to both differentiate turning on/off the cable box and the TV as well as actually turn on the cable box and TV
LaTulipeBlanche · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My upstairs neighbours’ need to continually blast their music at full volume. If I can hear it as though I’m in the same room, then I can’t imagine these people haven’t severely damaged their hearing yet. Bunch of twats.
PapiGrande7 · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pivot tables.
etchyl · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is something instead of nothing.
azharap · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How infants can learn to be bilingual. As a monolingual English speaker who’s only ever had basic French immersion education, there’s probably a logical explanation but it just doesn’t make sense to me. Like as dumb as it sounds, wouldn’t they get confused, or combine words from both languages while speaking? It sounds dumb but it just marvels me.
Lelricaa · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
when people are extremely rude and take out their day on young kids working in retail, food industry, any type of service industry. Or even just any person, but when I see a middle aged man screaming at a 16 year old cashier. Really? just really? you really don't have a life?
But just any person really. It's a shitty thing overall.
ferzacosta · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers.
will-probs-eat-that- · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could intentionally hurt a child.
khaos_kyle · 1 points · Posted at 20:37:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My inability to save money :)
OuiOuis · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers. Like how the hell can you make something three dimensional from a printer?
Lucas0428 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simultaneous equations
Jimbob-Bobjim · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Ye I understand it’s with wires and a power source, batteries, etc, but I cannot begin to fathom the intricate bits to it, it’s a personal mindfuck
Scallyb · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rewilding
Bubbly_Juggernaut · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Walmart and Acme are packed with people?
RoachesInMyBlister · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What goes through an anti-vax' mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
peacetotheash · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market...no matter how bad i try lol
philocalygrandma · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok I know this is childish, but there’s this game I play where there are two modes; solo or teams (there are multiple versions of teams but that’s irrelevant). A lot of people choose teams, but then HINDER their team by blocking them off to certain places or items etc. Like, I would get it if it was just teams and you want to get the best stuff (but it would still be hard to win by yourself against other groups..)I don’t agree but I understand. The thing is you CHOSE teams! Like just pick solo?? If you want to win by yourself and mess up your team so they can’t, why don’t you just pick the solo option?? WHY?? There’s no reason!! I know they’re not trolling either because they actually try to win the game but it makes ZERO sense to me
LandsharkDetective · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
ZoidSpam · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to lose weight
Fishemi · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fetishes, most of them
biggaebolg · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works and why we have incompetent elected politicians.
bashaheadin · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fucking stupid people are right now going out and socialising while the UK is on nationwide lockdown to stop the spread of a worldwide pandemic that has the potential to kill hundreds of thousands of not millions in the right circumstances.
What's more is I cannot understand how the same people who go out recklessly and ignore social distancing are the same ones that call for the NHS at 8 O'clock each evening when they're the ones making the doctors and nurses jobs 10x harder
Christ what a rant
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
verypossibly · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mimicry in the animal kingdom. Even considering evolutionary progression, how the fuck can a creature just decide to look like something?
Mycellanious · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I'm supposed to do after college. I cant get a job or an internship. Whats supposed to happen?
janad17107 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the n word is bad (?) to say, I guess it offends people or something
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seriously? Have you ever heard of slavery in America? The word was used by white people who bought and sold and owned other humans as a way to refer to them as being less than human. Years later, descendants of those humans forced into slavery have taken the term back for use in their own culture as a way to take the power away from the word. Black people say it as a form of unity among themselves, and white people using it now is akin to slave owners long ago who used it to label black people as less than them.
janad17107 · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So black people are allowed to say it but white people don't because black people will feel offended
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. It's more than "feel offended", it's more like a white person saying it is completely disrespecting the very painful history behind it's use.
janad17107 · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got it, thanks :)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it's so much more important for people to be liked than to be good people. I've seen so many good people/friends who just fold and go along with someone or a group of people because they want to be liked. I'm talking grown ass adults. I have far fewer friends these days because I can't believe people are so weak and cowardly.
There's a difference between being polite and going along with some bullshit that is downright socially wrong just because they're afraid to not be liked. Disgusting. Society sucks.
nelsonj574 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who let the dogs out. Who put the bop in the bop she bop she bop. And why wont Trump let that treble on his head to run free. Lol
Rick_Sancheeze · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You may have a chemical imbalance in your brain, which antidepressant medications can address. Please speak to your doctor about this; you don't have to live like that.
firinmalazer9920 · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people put on rims worth more than the car
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
jimschocolateorange · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah man, a lot of things...
PunkBobPlaidPants · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have energy to do things. I literally have to force myself to do anything.
Anneesp · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “police” system in the US. Sheriff, police, deputy...I have watched too many to count Crime and True crime TV shows and movies in my lifetime and still don’t get the different names, authorities, etc. Btw, I’m European.
Avalanche-rusher · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people smoke/vape or do drugs
givmeallurmoney · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of changing the past with time travel.
Like if you looked back and saw something you wanted to change and fixed it. But then would you be able to look back?? No! Idk how to better explain this but I find myself thinking about this at least once a month.
NevahTrust · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Condensation, precipitation, evaporation, the water cycle. I mean I know what happens but the why never seems to click.
sexman21 · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. Why are there so many steps?
Conor_Welsh · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/AskReddit
ZoiSarah · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who automatically assume the worst in people, or assume their actions are directly to cause your inconvenience. Instead of first wondering if there is a logical explanation for an odd scenario.
One instance haunts me for some reason. Came across a bridge with no one in front of me but someone behind me. A troop of ducks were crossing the road so I slowed and eventually stopped, waiting for them. The guy behind me had plenty of time to stop and starts laying on the horn, furiously. Like I've stopped in the middle of the road for no reason and clearly the only reason was to inconvenience him. He starts to go around me on the wrong side of the road peeling his tires and my ducks have cleared so I start to proceed and he slams in the breaks to not hit the ducks who are on that side of the road now.
I just don't get how the first thing in his mind wasn't "let me look around for a reason this is happening" instead of "omg this person sucks and my life is ruined because they are inconveniencing me"
diarionocturno · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holography.
xsarahnewmanx · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
LadyTenor · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Re: Advertising . . . I enjoy good ad campaigns. No ad, good or bad would convince me to buy a product that sucks or I have no use for or I cannot afford. I also do not patronize companies who mistreat their employees, are not eco-friendly, bigoted, and anti LGBTQIA.
PokeGamerCat · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t like beastie boys.
katmg96 · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics (I don’t ever understand anything that gets explained in that class)
Sweetdish · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how the hell people vote the way they do. We have the politicians and the leaders we deserve.
The fact that we have the PMs and the presidents that we do is proof enough that democracy doesn’t actually work.
jilly_is_funderful · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Downs in an NFL game. Many have explained it to me, no one has made it stick.
pabarb02 · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegemite
chaotic-sad · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don’t understand completely how Reddit works
TheWeeFreeMen · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theory of Relativity. Ige read books and stuff, and I think I get it st the time but the next day, nope, it's all gone.
theham_network · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand people that get into polyamorous relationships. Like I've personally been invited to a couples house for a fun experience a couple times but I would just straight up bolt after cause it's ridiculously awkward talking and drinking with a guy after you've been realigning his wife for 3 hours. But some people will wind up straight up living with and dating the couple and that just boggles my mind
varthalon · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate.
When someone posts a rant on reddit about something and you go and look at their post history and ALL their posts are rants about things. They have no posts about anything unless its full of loathing and hate.
I don't get how you can let hate dominate your life so much that you don't have any life beyond the hate.
ragnarkar · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When it comes to politics, people who think that if you are not 100% against a politician or political system, then you support it.
Examples: Trump and the Chinese Government.
I mostly disagree with Trump and there's almost no way that I'm voting for him in November. But I still agree with him on a minority of his issues.
Same with the Chinese Government. I hate the system overall, but I do think there are a few things that the West might be able to learn from them.
-_MaxWell_- · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
MasterRonin · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vore. As a fetish. I just cant.
Ryvitt · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me? I ain’t ever gonna understand what happened Last Nite. I mean, she said to me and I shit you not: “Oh baby I feel so down, see it turn me off when I feel left out” so I just turned round, I mean, I had only been in town for a few minutes, honestly I don’t know why I keep walking for miles around here, but what was going on with her was a great big lie. So I left
THICCPHROG_15 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind. Wtf is it?!
DayNNyquil · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people support the war on drugs, think the status quo is acceptable or thinking its a success story
WeeberthanYou · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How love happens. I'm in high school and should be falling in love and stuff but I just don't get it.
TnTxG · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Why am I here? What am I supposed to do? Am I doing things right? Am I supposed to be here? What's my purpose? What's the point of it all?
I don't get any of it
Bchuff · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did the phrase "a needle in the haystack" come to exist. Why were you sewing over a haystack to begin with? Assuming you were one of these people and you lost your needle, why wouldn't you just go sew over something else and by the next day forget about this incident. Why were so many people sewing over haystacks, and losing needles that when this phrase was said to someone else they were like, "You know Mary, your right I can relate to that because I too, lost a needle in a haystack." It's just such a weird thing to even do, no matter what time period a person lived in.
Its_Marz · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who bash other people for voicing their opinions on the internet.
SomedayImGonnaBeFree · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a dream, that one day people will be judged on the content of their character, not based on what's between their legs.
I don't understand people that keep doing the whole "girl power" thing.
The reason it drives me crazy is that people don't seem to think:
"Women are bad at things to a higher extent than men."
But that's literally all I hear when people say "girl power" or something similar. It's demeaning and condescending, not encouraging.
For me, it's completely backward in how people think. But maybe that's just me. It's like when 3-year-olds show their paintings to people. You just encourage it "because". And people seem to be encouraging girls "just because".
I've never understood it, and I don't think I ever will. If anyone wants to enlighten me on how this is not sexist (towards girls/women), then please do. But it's misogyny in my book.
kiwibird_99 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry
Mort332e · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monty Hall problem
Magmakojote · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Solving math problems on my own. Maybe I just need even more practice, but its just so difficult for me.
lil-thom · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Significant digits. Like wtf
Eblanc88 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers.
How can you have soo much denial, in something you can test yourself if you’d really wanted to spend the time.
Also can there be flat earth with no conspiracy? It seems it’s mostly about the conspiracy than the earth...
ironwolf56 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twitter. This is not even a political or social thing, I'm not talking about which mindsets are prominent there I mean I don't get Twitter. It's basically just short facebook updates that are public; what's the appeal? Seems like the people that enjoy Twitter (and again this is very much a both sides thing) are kind of the self-congratulatory types that think their opinions are far more important than they actually are.
avascrzyfknmom · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly do not understand if Mr. Pickles IS satan or just worships satan. Could someone possibly clear this up for me ?
Dragic90 · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no one loves me
wutangclanthug9mm · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Josh Gad
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records make no fucking sense and I will never understand how they work, watches tons of YT vida about it, just tiny grooves and vibrations on a needle amplified. But like. How.
M808VMainBattleTank · 1 points · Posted at 20:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
RTS games. They look so fun but every time I try to watch someone play I get so confused I cant keep up.
Sky_Thief · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Measurement. With metric and imperial my brain can't manage that and visualize the dimensions of things beyond something being 6ft because that's my height.
tackytacos · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus 2
eddmario · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck a bunch of hippies were able to train a shark to play the drums...
Zero4020 · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole anti-scocial club hoodies and merchandise,like wtf does that even do. Might as well make more brands with a mental disease glorified. Schizophrenia club:get yours now!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate each other so much in politics
Texas_Hammer98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few things
Why do people just leave their pet behind? Thats a creature that loves you so much and you just left it?
How does it feel to not deal with deppression and anxiety
How do you feel your in the wrong body? Like always heard "I feel like I should be a girl and not a guy" type of things
stevefrench__ · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to stock up on toilet paper of all things. You can clean your ass an infinite number of times in the shower if you run out of TP.
Angel_Advocates · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who have absolutely zero parenting skills are having children. ie, IG model moms
Kayish97 · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Open/poly relationship.
I am seriously monogamist. The idea of even a threesome seems gross to me. I don’t want ANYONE else involved or outside of my relationship. I do understand that it comes from a place of love. Of having so much love you want to share it more. But my brain just can not fathom it. Another person? Why?? I already have one.
theuneq · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How “we” can know so much about distant stars and planets just by looking at them from so far away. Like “this planet is made up of 65% this gas” or “this star is X billion years old and will collapse in Y billion more years.”
ImDioBrando · 1 points · Posted at 20:41:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
paper__planes · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ciolko · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Internets
Lucy-andra · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Simple math. I genuinely can't do math, i often have to use my fingers to count.
rmprice222 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people forget how/what they were from a younger age.
Like the whole every older generation thinking less of the younger one. It's the same arguments from the beginning of time and we have all experienced it so why not break the wheel
muSikid · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Commas,
ali_love1357 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does my truck start when it’s empty on gas, but never when it’s full?
fastkitty · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand the hype around Supreme ...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Half of the memes and challenges circulating nowadays.
Yes, I'm a millennial, but I'm a boomer inside my soul and good God I feel like one. I just want to make money to support myself, get what I need to survive, and try not to die early.
iam4r33 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That as big n old as the universe is, we haven't met aliens...
someguytoday63 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This 1st 2nd 3rd @ challenge like what is it exactly referring to? In your bio, in your comments, the third person you tagged
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People saying “slept like a baby,” When referencing they slept well. Babies do NOT sleep all through the night uninterrupted, if you were to actually sleep like a baby, you’d be waking up every couple of hours crying. I just don’t know where this expression came from.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most advanced math.
eddiedelrey · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dependent and Independent Variables. I have a BBA in Business Analytics and to this day, I am not able to differentiate the two.
Brawlyspade · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
UnimportantLife · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the body makes you want to take a dump the closer you get to the toilet.
Whyvbvie · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things I genuinely don’t understand: - Space, like wtf is up with that. - Why I had to learn how to calculate imaginary numbers. That’s literally what the name of a negative square root is and I just don’t understaaannnddd. - How people can abuse animals. Fuck off. - Why some people don’t recognize that mental health issues are serious and that service dogs are a huge help. - Getting genuinely pissed at people about video games (graphics, storyline, “real gamers”, etc.) It is a made up experience where you fuck around with technology for a bit. - The idea of “talking to someone”. Like I get what you are trying to say but when I first heard someone use this phrase I was very confused.
0ne_Guyy · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
mkouns98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most ask reddit questions are dumb .
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
slazengere · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylights savings time
BigNChunky1026 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to cheat rather than just break up and pursue someone else. Why take someone down with you?
JashDreamer · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who name their children common names with no major historical significance... Like Britney or Kyle. Why do you want your child to have a name that thousands of other people have with no real significance?
This isn't for people who were trying to name them for personal reasons. But people who just choose names.
Yardstiick · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work. I don't mean how to use them, I've built computers before and generally consider myself pretty tech savvy, but I can't wrap my brain around what the fuck goes on in those circuit boards that translates to playing Minecraft
Kimb0_91 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like to watch "Love is Blind" on netflix. I get that some people like reality trash tv, even ironically. But this isn't even fun in that way!
Stizzy611 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I got no understanding how my mom would let my dad stick his penis up in her
pauleide · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dry Aged Meat. Meat spoils in days without refrigeration and maybe a couple of weeks with refrigeration who know what antibiotics are being used. How is dry aged preserved and sold as the most special meat?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that feed the seagulls at the beach. Why are you the way you are? You’re making it miserable for the rest of us. Tossing a chip to draw in a seagull doesn’t make you freaking Snow White.
GoatAutopsy · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
yakfrags · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
kerplunkerfish · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleep.
proveitlikeatheorem · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When to use affect vs effect.
I’ve been told a thousand times, and I’ve heard all the tips and tricks to remember it, but I just can’t. When I want to use it in a sentence I just rewrite the sentence to avoid it all together.
Minimentoss · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math.
pokemonactor · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
willem_02 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tiger king
CaptainTim36 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like stuff like modbit or some other kinky shit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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oopssorrydaddy · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How would you determine whether someone was stupid or not?
IdreamofFiji · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement. Or how it supposedly transfers information. The fact that you can't measure the thing you NEED to measure makes absolutely no sense to me. Like, the parameters disclude the initial question.
usernameistaken108 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
hameater64 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
honestguacamole · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Karen’s are made. Like how do you get to be so entitled and feel like you deserve everything? How the hell can you be so in your own head that you feel like he world revolves around you?
Smile4thedemon · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How short selling gold mining operations works.
Olouf101 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can be okay and conscious of manipulating others
x9876543210 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Five2one521 · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people keep giving money to those scumbag TV evangelists.
Tallgothgf · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wanna know why the kardashians are a thing/still around
ikeableistiftdieb · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time and gravity have anything to do with each other
iustforjiggles · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines. Shits crazy.
stothetacks · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity and magnetism
I_am_teapot · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism.
salo8989 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who become less attracted to someone who shares fears or worries. The fuck?
jjpants888888 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we exist
nikkurnikov · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rubiks cube
salo8989 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who become less attracted to someone who shares fears or worries. The fuck?
cultomo · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she left me
jjb8712 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so mean.
CB147 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls are so attractive for us, and we are not attractive por them
ftmdudeguy180 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get why people want to push their beliefs onto other people. They can tell people of their beliefs to explain them, but trying to say that someone can’t do something because of your beliefs doesn’t make sense. I didn’t come up with this but it’s like telling someone that they can’t have a donut because you’re on a diet.
shapu · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Mongolian language.
Seriously, not a word.
boredtodeath · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
ummm_hello_there · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “🥴” emoji
Like everyone tells me it means horny/sleepy/ drunk or whatever but then I seen it in contexts other than that and I’m just confused.
KogasaGaSagasa · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How relationship works.
rej718 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how microphones work. i know somewhere in there the sound energy gets turned in to electrical energy that turns back into sound energy when it gets to the speaker??? but how does it magnify the sound? what goes on inside the microphone to convert the energy???????? it's very confusing to me
fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are a few different kinds of microphones. One is a condenser microphone.
"Condenser" is another word for the same electronic component that's also called a "capacitor". A capacitor is made of two thin sheets of metal that are separated by plastic, air, or other non-conductive material. It can store an electric charge between the two metal sheets. This can be useful for various things, such as echoing a signal between the two sides (in a resonating circuit) or cancelling out noise.
But in a condenser microphone, what matters is that the distance between the two sides affects the voltage between them. So if you can move one of the two conductive sides, you can make an electrical signal.
And sound can move things. In fact, sound is moving air, and when it hits a surface it makes that surface vibrate a little. This means that if you can vibrate one of the two sides of a capacitor, you can turn that vibration into a changing voltage signal.
And a changing voltage signal is exactly the electrical energy you're talking about.
rej718 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
cool!! thank u!!
BonelessMuffin1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people think Jeffrey Epstein didn't kill himself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole anti 5G people and anti vaxxers
Etobio · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on Earth can a Qbit be both 1 and 0 at the same time?
How is that information processed?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of people are super curious about aspects of sexuality that they haven't personally experienced; like being a different sex or orientation, or having more or less success at finding partners.
xxXMrDarknessXxx · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My continuous presence in the friendzone
tthatswhatshesaiddd · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
One time when I was little I threw up and it hurt my throat and it felt like I threw up an organ or something like I saw some sort of mass in puke. I still to this day don't understand wtf I threw up.
fubo · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sounds like having a cramp afterwards.
Mallevona · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just blast each other online for everything. When people (espically wealthy or famous) post happy pictures in this pandemic time and saying they feel blessed for being healthy, people are saying they are tonedeaf og insensitive. All I am thinking is like glad someone can see the light in these devestating times...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anything exists at all.
CaptainCorwin13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space and time
mcbruno712 · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hawking Radiation but people are saying more everyday life stuff so I will say how soccer goalkeepers kick the ball so far I have played soccer all my life but my kicks don't launch the ball 30m to the air across the field
LydiaJuice · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
Ogatomio · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking.
Of all forms of communication, speaking is the one I've always hated because I don't understand it. I can express myself in many ways: I can write, I can draw, I can dance, I can mime, but speaking? I asked Santa if I could be mute when I was little.
class_cast_exception · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can believe in creationism. It makes no sense.
Lowerlameland · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I wonder about that one a lot. Indoctrination from childhood? A need to understand the world? Cultural influence? Massive family pressure? So many different belief systems contradicting and borrowing... So much time, energy, academia, institutions, all helped to create an amazing momentum that leaves us with around 85% of 7.7 billion believing it...
class_cast_exception · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, definitely has to be indoctrination.
Mclarenrob2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life itself.
heslo_rb26 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G conspiracy theorists and anti-vaxxers
lilg_curly- · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women...
tacollama82 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lottery. People who play the lottery everyday and spend a good amount of money on it. Just save the money. The lottery is a poor people’s tax.
__Kev__ · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can be stupid when you have access to almost all collective knowledge at your disposal.
laying_on_thefloor · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People cheating on the their love person
Gamigem · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The motives of "stans," moreso kpop fans than any other.
If I were a celebrity, I would probably be pretty uncomfortable with people making accounts solely for the purpose of posting videos and pictures of me in unrelated comment sections.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think credit cards are a good idea.
BrickMcMuffins · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who need a label for themselves.
bonusminutes · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an overwhelming majority of people know the make/model/year of any car they see, even from far distance. Like I'll be in the car with someone and they'll be like "The Chevy avalanche 3 cars ahead of us is swerving a bit." Or I'll be at work and a coworker will say "The guy in that honda accord in the parking lot looks like Santa claus."
I never know what car they're talking about. Why would I unless I've owned and gotten well acquainted with that car? But literally everyone besides me can do that. If I ask people how they can, no one can really tell me. I always get some roundabout shrugged off answer.
doggosnpupperz · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sometimes there is still poop after wiping my asshole 1000 times until it bleeds
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How remote controls work. I mean, I get the basic concept, but how it actually works sounds like fucking sorcery.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rude people...
IAmTucoSalamanca · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4th dimension. Like whaaaa
cheers2810 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t just listen to Coronavirus guidelines that could save literally millions of lives
OCCEAnnn · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and math
SpiritGas · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spending leisure time with people you don't genuinely like. As the saying goes, "Real wealth is never having to spend time with assholes."
FernetEnthusiast · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Circumcision
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In some people, the foreskin can remain tight throughout their life, and grow to block urine from the urethra. That's one reason anyway; maybe Moses had phimosis.
SapphireWuffy · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can’t mind their own business when others are just having fun or doing their hobby.
Is it so difficult to just scroll past a post you don’t like?
Not like Kpop then see a Kpop post? Scroll the fuck past it
I can’t stand Kpop but if one comes across my feed, I’ll grumble and groan but then I’ll scroll past
It’s so easy
Same with furries You not like furries? Find them weird or gross? THATS FINE. you don’t have to like furries but give over about how much you hate them because it is NOT your business and you can very easily block what you don’t like without being an ass about it
Lol sorry for the rant, some people just baffle me with this
drunkcarrick · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket. I have no idea what the fuck is going on, and if you go to /r/cricket it's like they're talking in some alien language you need some cypher to interpret.
Urkartoffel · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever I do, my family always tells me I'm wrong :(
ProjectSalmana · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sometimes don't understand what I have done "wrong" in a sense to why people react a certain way towards me. They're the ones asking the questions usually.
Excel099 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Golden-_-mango · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything computer science related. You people are geniuses.
v137a · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Applications for blockchain. An infinitely-extending transaction record seems like it would be hell on storage and replication eventually.
Rev-dit · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
literature
PumpkinPieSquished · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics (for now, at least).
Dahedi · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
brianoforris · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people speak incorrectly on purpose and it’s somehow cool. I have never hated three words together like I hate “I got mines”
ObeseMammalWhale · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck people are so rude to Customer Service Agents (Emails, chats and phone) like they aren’t just trying to do their job and have so many expectations to be met.
subodhkumar10 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating in FPS games like CSGO
relevantwittyusernam · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My husband.
khemical420ish · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
acoolgaykid · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what’s with twitter and the victim game?
whenever i try to have a discussion on there, it’s “well i’m [minority] how dare you speak over me, your opinion doesn’t matter”. funny thing is i’m a minority too in many aspects, but i don’t understand what that has to do with anything. i don’t want to be heard just because i’m [x] minority, that does nothing to integrate everyone in society. i don’t want to give my entire life story and have to repeat it every single time just to have an opinion and i’m sick of it.
this is why they should’ve never banned porn on tumblr, now they’re going to every other platform
Gobsmacked04 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet
lilShmurt · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why my internet is so god damn terrible.
Eatingchickeninbed · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who love their pets more than other humans.
juguman · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1) how phones work eg calling and texting and video calling 2) how online gaming works 3) how tv works eg live shows 4) how radio works 5) how man reached the moon
fomicamore · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
flowrider_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics man. I can not for the life of me truly understand and be able to make some exercises on physics.
oi_piglet · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people accept community-wide corrupt practices.
As a student I used to got to a eat street and the guy charged us more than MRP and somehow those who asked why got a take it if you want else fuck off in response, but no one ever questioned the practice
Money for voting, a lot of people take the free money for voting, and then they still ask why the politician doesn't do any good for them?
I can never seem to get around how people normalize unacceptable things.
ight_here_we_go · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to show interest in women without making them lose interest in me lolz.
Abdullazan · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think strictly enforcing a belief system will make people want to continue following it (with their heart).
stixmcvix · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes.
ironmoraine · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Current, amps, all of that. I just CANNOT wrap my head around that concept.
Chemisty? Yes. Biology? Yes. Physics? I LOVED taking physics. But understanding the flow of electricity and the concepts behind it, nope.
Mind you, the past few people I've dated were electricians...
EDIT:Grammar
Its_Pacnel · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet actually works.
shiny_yagami_319 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Sports. I’m far too dumb for both.
slayedzombie69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
cis007 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotchya. And a put option works in reverse i imagine?
Techform · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
-ButteredNoodles- · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, back waaaay in the day we were just a bunch of dumbass monkeys with sticks, and here we are today.
edit: I’m not a creationist, I swear.
Eatingwafflesallmine · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depression. I've been through the gambit of life experiences but I've never felt so deeply in a hole that I could lose sight of the good in my life or give up on life in general.
DSaidIt · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
be thankful, means you've never felt it.
it's not a rational thing to be understood, it's the brain not physiologically not working right. experiences have only a little to do with it.
-_-Jack-_- · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I barely remember any of the stuff I was taught in school!
williambash · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “Fortnite bad, Minecraft good.” circlejerk.
pendletonskyforce · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sox Compliance in HR.
kingPrime01 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
adam73810 · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people enjoy Friends.
chipperr_p · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My emotions
luvintheride · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinite time. How existence has gone on forever. A trillion trillion centuries is almost nothing compared to infinite time.
ilikebeanzz · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mahjong. I can't complete yakuza 0 because of this crap
cidpit · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This reddit karma system. I just don't get it. I try to comment and post stuff but it just doesn't get better.
I want to post under a few subs but it's always like "you don't have enough karma to post here"...so I comment somewhere else and literally NOBODY cares.
SorahDragon · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can someone get over somebody else in a short time after a long relationship
thefakebrit8 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal to tiktok.
Isuckatthis23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brexit
Voc1Vic2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand losing self-control and flying into a rage.
goldkomodo · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I categorically cannot comprehend how to use "categorically" in a sentence properly.
HideousYouAre · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Common core math.
LethalFlavour · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global warmibg
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asmr
ScreamingChildren69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How hard it is to admit when you fuck up
Dahnji · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How music is recorded, and then cut to vinyl and then played back out of speakers.
I theoretically understand how it works, but no matter how many times I think about it my mind is blown.
chewbarski · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say “epicentre” meaning the very centre. It actually means something completely different and I have no idea why people now claim the epicentre is the heart of something.
BobT21 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Designer stuff. Pay many times more for a label? Is a $400 scarf 400 times more scarfy than a $1 scarf?
BRB. Gonna market designer tampons.
Ajford682 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people are rude for no reason and when you call them out on it, their excuse is “sorry i’m just an asshole at least i’m self aware”😊
ThaRealHaze · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudoku
NorthCatan · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Machine learning. I understand it learns through recognizing patterns but I don't understand how it can recognize those patterns in various forms even with all the data that is input.
eikeo · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that don’t like the outdoors/nature.
Jadefeather12 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so full of themselves and lack self awareness. How can people act as if they’re the only person in any given space?
kkdkdkdkdkdkd · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
Thats a paradox
Nicktastic86 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had type 1 diabetes for over 25 years and, honestly, I genuinely do not understand type 1 diabetes
briuh13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drunk frat boys jumping on tables and everyone being surprised the table broke?? Like what were you expecting??
BrainCave7 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics.
asax1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
yake_n_bake · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a computer take a bunch of 1s and 0s and turn it into the complex software we have today. I have taken multiple programming classes and I completely understand how code logic can be built into programs but how in the world do a bunch microscopic switches store, read, calculate, and display all of this information.
OGMReaper · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a.C and b.C works
mennobmx5 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How NOT to miss the sock when .....
ktoner1017 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mental illness
Brugman87 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the living hell can you believe a 5g tower causes covid-19. Like what is your thought process there?
ChiefKraut · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sent her a dick pic why won’t she send me a dick pic back >:0
Stinsudamus · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity and zero, beyond the conceptual nature of these mathematical values, I don't think they exist, and if somehow they do I cant comprehend or understand it at all.
terezka237 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men’s love for fucking a hole that shit comes from
MadamBootknife · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Caretaker album. It was designed to sound how dementia feels, its so fucking creepy
somewierddog67 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don't use dark mode
mrnacho69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Football
beefstewforyou · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Porn with a guy (unless you’re bisexual).
Pretend you’re the guy makes as much sense to me as saying pretend you’re the dog for bestiality.
notveb · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you date men, they try to control what you wear.
Kay2kyl · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t qual for a top 1000 player fortnite tournament
schrodingers_popoki · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most mathematics. It's really frustrating and makes me feel very defeated.
Willzyx_on_the_moon · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have been a nurse for 10+ years and it baffles me the amount of people I encounter who think they have a greater expertise in anatomy, physiology, and pathophysiology than I do with ZERO education. It would be lime me going to a mechanic and them saying “Your car is out of oil, it needs oil” and my reply would be “well, I know my car and my car does not need oil”. I never had people question me nearly as often when I worked behind a register, delivered pizza, or did landscaping. Why do so many people feel that they know more than the experts!?
sons_of_winter · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between karma and dharma.
Pride_of_Cleveland · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don’t like gay people.
DeDeToptier · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King crimson
conspiracy_maker · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are complete assholes but then try to make it up by using emojis and being fake.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Second grade equations. Like what the fuck.
sharmaanil0955 · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The person who doesn't work a lot in the office considered to be the biggest asset of the company.
Alalalalexalex971 · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When a parent says “You can tell me I won’t get mad.” But three seconds after you tell them they’re like🤬🤬🤬😡😡😡😡
lordofthefireandwind · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid some people really are.
darksaber522 · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The polarization of Politics. Some people believe that you HAVE to support either A or B, with absolutely no compromise. and when I say something like "I agree with A's Environmental policy and B's Immigration policy" people seem to lose their minds.
Wild__Gringo · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who sent basic scientific fact, in particular when it is detrimental. As an Oceanographer, anthropogenic climate change is just a fact I work with every day. The fact that people still refuse to accept it astonishes me. They debate about it as if it were an opinion based topic like abortion or something without much research like gun control. There is no debate that we are affecting the climate. We are. We just don't know exactly how much we do so.
And other things as well, like alternative medicine. I am sure that there are plenty of herbal medicines that work that just haven't been tested yet or found conclusive results. With that said, homeopathy does not work. It never will, it never can. The idea behind it astonishes me to no end.
I was once talking to an acquaintance of mine about chemistry. He flat out told me he didn't believe in atoms. I was shocked. Taken aback. I thought he was kidding. I asked him about why he thinks that and his response was "I've never seen one. I can't see an atom, so why should I believe they are real?" I was nice about it and told him essentially that I disagree with him and that he probably shouldn't voice that opinion around other people, that they may judge him for it. I offered to explain to him how we can know something exists without directly seeing it. All of the proof that atoms are, in fact, real. He politely declined my offer and I changed the subject.
I can't quite blame people for having these beliefs. I think it is a failure of our educational system. If a grown man can go through 12 years of public education and 4 years of higher education, he should at the bare minimum know that atoms are real. Just how poor the educational system is at explaining science past "guys in lab coats with test tubes discovered this so now memorize it" honestly disgusts me.
milly_miller · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asmr
n3verendR · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers were made.
Not like, "these parts go here and these parts go there" but legitimately, how someone decided that placing components on what would eventually become a chip would result in your ability to eventually display information on a screen.
mlagerloef · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time Dilation: every time I try to understand it, I just can’t wrap my mind around it. I feel like Mr. Incredible hitting the textbook going “TIME(math) is TIME(math)”.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:51:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people stay in relationships even though it's hurting them. I've already read a ton of explanations but none made me truly understand it.
blkviper129 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people spend thousands on sneakers
mongolmeat · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, on a micro level, computers and processors manage to do so much in such a small package.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get super upset when you don't text them back instantly.
kcomba1012 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fractions.
Pudgeysaurus · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your question
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ads be making ads telling you to buy something to not get ads.
icantchoosename123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
englishboy369 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
NegativeFux · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am completely unable to understand and people can put complete faith in abstract concepts that have no proof outside of a few coincidences. I have a hard time trusting something with no proof as to why you should trust it.
wonderwoman0621 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings
Jarrsynn · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anxiety works and why it happens so regularly with me. I could be moving along in life with no issues and then suddenly something COMPLETELY minor happens and I get sent into a fucking death spiral of worry and anxiety for several days at a time.
Berthole · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come America is a rich country, with record debt of $27 trillion. How the debt is structured and who owes who and what, and what insurances debitor has. What happens if the debt isn’t paid in time. And where is the cap to amount of it.
slammerbar · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How half of Americans cannot see the republican party does not help America?
speyonce · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My high school physical science class is still way over my head. I’m 29 The whole proton electrons thing I genuinely just do not understand and probably never will.
dindolino32 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people thing Trump is a good decision maker. I literally cannot understand why split second decisions, double down against all facts that are presented, and then throwing insults is somehow seen as having strength. This literally is what my 4 yr old daughter does, except her insults are poop related.
Pozsiiii · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anime. I just don't.
LoyalDoyle · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my ex abruptly left me 🤪
atlasraven · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that continue unnecessary risky activities (skateboard tricks with no helmet, jumping over bonfires, street racing, etc...) during the pandemic. Where are you going to go if you get hurt? The hospital needs every bed for virus patients.
Niggo1337 · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok especially these musically things. I don't get it. Why do you that?
lan60000 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how one kilogram of feather is the same weight as one kilogram of steel.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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lan60000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but steel is heavier than feathers
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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lan60000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
... what? I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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lan60000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
but look at how much feathers it needs to balance out the weight. that's basically cheating.
jasstheclown · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why marvel thought it was okay to kill tony stark
Darkskinvontay · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who ask you why you listen to music that was put out a while ago like they would ask you "oh why do you listen to that song still it's so old?" I'm sorry I didn't know music had a expiry date
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls want to be friends with you after they break up with you.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I say I’m going to do it later and someone persisting that I do it right now. Like come on, I’ll do it, but later?
Nicod27 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helicopters.
Pondaranks · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how many losers are out there to actually post and read on reddick... including me
Lylo_vito · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people be such douche bags at time, especially in relationships between friends
yingyangggggg · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My pepe
Kajex13 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How refrigerators and freezers work. Like how the fuck can you be like “yo, heat, I’m just gonna move you over heeeere away from my Ben & jerrys”. Where does that heat go?
Lima1998 · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can leave their house without doing something other than work/necessary groceries.
RockinRayZ · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand the inherent cause to (for a lack of a batter word) hate, a person because of their skin color or it being the cause of their dislike towards them. Skin color is something so benign and has to difference in a persons ability to be friend or not. Dont use the excuse of us being tribal animals and having a cause to distrust other tribes, we are beyond those times.
BattlefieldNinja · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kpop stans. I get it. You like their music. You don't have to worship them though.
JuIyen · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
God damn bed times. When I was a kid, I did not understand that at all. My mom’s reasoning on bed times is because I’ll probably fall asleep in school. I fall asleep at school ANYWAYS because I wake up so early. I tried to explain this to her but she didn’t care
hellahater · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Waiting in line for bars/clubs
SONOFCHEEZUS · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand living. How does all this we see around work
kerwapple · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What stamp duty actually is and does?
CrinkledCar · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how reality came to be. How is anything real? What made space? Whenever I ask myself what made space it just gives me this anxiety all over my body. And I don’t mean what made the planets, or stars, or a galaxy. I mean what the fuck made the place where everything that exists, exists?
Germesx · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People with no control over their emotions.
They'll get incredibly angry one day and incredibly apologetic and remorseful the next. Repeat cycle.
lolafame · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand space travel and when scientists refer to something as “light years away” or like how if you look in a telescope a million galaxies away you can still see the dinosaurs on earth. Like how is that possible... my mind just cannot fully grasp it.
CapaxInfini · 2 points · Posted at 21:30:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One light year is 186,000 miles. It's how fast light travels.
Let's say you're standing at one end of a field. I'm standing at the other end. If you were looking at my hands as I clap, you would notice that there's a delay between when my hands meet and you hearing the clap. This is the speed of sound.
Light works the exact same way. If you were in a galaxy millions of light years away, looking through whatever massive telescope it would take to see earth, the light (from the earth) that would finally go through your eye is millions of years old.
lolafame · 1 points · Posted at 19:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
DjDarkrai10 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. I don’t know how they work and I probably never will, too complex.
As well red stone in Minecraft, it looks simple yet I just can’t recreate it.
I also don’t understand maps at all, it’s just a bunch of random shapes to me and none of them look different enough that I know “that one is this country”
NoEscap3 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of countries and their spendings. We are being told countries don‘t have money for schools, better infrastructure or a minimum fixed income, yet they are capable of pumping hundreds of billions of dollars into the economy immediately in this time of crisis.
Also, why the hell do we not suffer from a massive inflation after all this is over and we put so much money out. I genuinely do not understand the way money works in these huge quantities.
Amuchalipsis · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the snakes move. I mean WTF they just swing and go forward???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between effect and affect. No matter how many times its explained I still never know.
CaveBoy36 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between effect and affect... I’ve been trying for so long
ARedditorCalledQuest · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you affect something, you've created an effect on it. Also, that example lists them alphabetically. I hope that helps!
drooln92 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people follow so-called Influencers.
Tropical_Boi · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
JWSpeedWorkz · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Household AC power. I have a very firm grasp of DC, as I work with it every day, and I am known in the surrounding areas for finding and repairing very difficult to diagnose automotive electrical issues, but AC doesn't make any damn sense. How does any meaningful work get done when the current is flowing forward and backwards 60 times a second? Plus AC 110 hurts like hell when you screw up (and I understand the mechanics of why, your body is a capacitor and AC doesn't care about capacitance) but what the hell Tesla, you mad genius.
Letmeliveinpeace1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Narcissists. You're okay with being a scumbag?
anotherbozo · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work?
Galemianah · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that preach up and down about something, then do the exact opposite of what they preached about
thegrailarbor · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ATP from cellular biology. From high school, through college, through a masters degree in health care. Still have no idea how that works.
slowmo420 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket. It's stupid and I hate it
ShyGamer2000 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Capcom screwed up Mega Man Legacy Collection on the Switch.
pinket25 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams.
fiddleplayer557 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tires turn without spinning the whole car but are still secure onto the car
crazymusicman · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
wanting current western societies to move towards less regulations for businesses, a government which essentially does nothing but military and police, and a society where all the problems are left for the 'free market' to solve.
TheRealPengiuini · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
girls.
Alcomo · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't follow giant yellow or red arrows at Walmart and grocery stores so the rest of us can avoid getting sick during a pandemic.
Quantum_Helix · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who kids lunches aren't free. Kids shouldn't have to pay to eat while getting educated
McFringeface · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Faith
ojghj54 · 1 points · Posted at 20:54:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting.
Letmeliveinpeace1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who NEVER apologize or admit fault.
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Warning: controversial for some people!
Why do people support LGBT? Adequate opinions only, no "Because my liberal agenda says they are humans", I want an adequate answer since these people are mentally ill but we don't accept mentally ill people in our society, so why are they an exception?
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they are human beings just like you.
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Once again, may be controversial for some people!
but theyre mentally ill, why wont we isolate them for treatment like other mentally ill?
julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are not mentally ill. Same-sex attraction occurs all throughout the animal kingdom. Brains of gay people have been studied and they have determined that there are physical differences from straight people brains. Their brains are just different, not sick.
Also, most mental illnesses do not require isolation from others, and in fact most are not even treated.
Being gay does not harm anyone, so there's no need to consider gay people in need of any sort of treatment.
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some animals behave gay because of a disorder or a mental damage, and gay people do need to be cointained in my opinion because their impudency poses a threat to world regimes, since any anti-gay law in western countries will be bullied into non-existence by the moron media
julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you explain how gay people's impudence threatens world regimes? Is there a particular regime you're thinking of which could be toppled by gay people?
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the NATO and EU countries for example. They were so annoyed by these tiny lgbt protests that tricked the rich and influential people who support anything that sounds good. During the existence of the Soviet Union and constant economic crisis the countries simply had too many other concerns than the neversnding annoying protests. After LGBT got a foothold in modern politics in the 90s, they then managed to convince post-soviet countries to at least legalize lgbt.
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, so now LGBTQ people are free to love who they want to love just like you are, and they won't be arrested or imprisoned anymore. How is it that they have an effect on the governing of NATO and EU countries?
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Read it one more time, I said now they have a foothold in politics and already brainwashed a lot of people
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so if a country became ruled by gay people and the majority of people support them (either due to brainwashing or on their own accord), how specifically would it destroy a country?
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Support of the gay people would enforce further moral and mental degradation in the country
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which morals do you think would be degraded by gay leaders being supported, aside from homesexuality which you believe to be immoral? Why would mental illness increase in a country when mental illnesses are not contagious?
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because LGBT are all liberal thinkers and would gladly degrade morality to allow more mentally ill people to be normalized and bias the media. And in an LGBT country mental illnesses are kinds contagious if you think about it, since mental illbessed would be encouraged
julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 23:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern science does not consider homosexuality to be a mental illness whether you dislike it or not. Additionally, mental illness cannot be formed merely by it being encouraged or normalized. Homosexuality can not be "caught" or "spread" by it being encouraged or normalized, either - it's something biologically determined.
It sounds to me that what you don't care for is liberal-leaning politics. I'm not sure why you think that gay people are the major factor in liberal thought, when they only comprise around 10% of the world population, and a much higher percentage of people support liberal politics. I will venture a guess that you are a religious man in a country that values masculinity, such as many Latin American and middle eastern countries. If this is true, consider that you've been told what to believe from a very early age, and that if you're an adult now, you're free to examine things critically. It may be possible that your feelings about gay people have been shaped by your upbringing, your culture, and your religion, and are only feelings rather than actual knowledge based on science. What you view as immoral may not be universally accepted to be truly immoral.
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that you assume my nationality and that I believe in god makes you genuinely look pathetic as it makes you look like you associate the south american nations with non-liberal thoughts. I am actually Russian and atheist. Political and financial bias does not make modern gender studies truthful. And mental illness can be in fact contributed by its normalization and encouragement. Your generalization and altering of the already subjective morality such as "like it or not" proves that you are fine with the mentally ill people taking over and prefer to brag about it since your brain has been already washed in the new society where LGBT is normalized and backed by false studies
julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 00:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I only guessed at your background, which is why I used the verb "guess", so there's no need to insult me just for guessing incorrectly.
In any case, I think you're attributing way too much power to the LGBTQ community who simply want to exist in the world with the same rights as everyone else. That's literally it. You can live your life as you wish and they have zero impact on your life.
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you a moron? I explained in thorough detail why I dislike LGBT and you act like you didn't even read what I write
julieredl · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not interested in discussing this further if you're going to continue insulting me - it really doesn't contribute anything to the discussion.
I read what you wrote - you think LGBTQ are mentally ill and immoral. I told you that homosexuality is not considered a mental illness, and you suggested that I based that on flawed studies, when I actually based that on the DSM-5 from the American Psychiatric Association. I do not know if there is a Russian organization which does psychological research and if there is one, I don't know if they in fact categorize homosexuality as mental illness. If you have that information about such an organization and their findings, I would love to see it.
I, too, am atheist, and I believe morality is subjective. You think homosexuals act immorally, and I do not. Why do you think you are correct and I am not?
SoriotianThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because you just generalized my essays
HotSheepherder2 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivative hedging. Took a class on it, passed with a C, and still have no freaking clue how to do it
LionThrows · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who litter. Do they not give a shit about anything?
Oscarnator200 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
vanilachai18 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get fucking tik- tok (and no I'm not a boomer, actually I'm 19)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shitheads
EzeqSaldu · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How king crimson works.
Grits_N_Gravy_23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the world doesn’t run out of natural food. Like let’s use Rotisserie chickens for example. Costco alone sells 60,000,000 per year. Walmart sells these too, and so do several other grocery chains. Where the fuck are all these chickens coming from and how do they keep up production?
fferreira5 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the toilet paper obsession during this pandemic.
dragonborne6 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules of cornhole. Or my step moms rules at least
EricaH121 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subatomic particles.
bcpfgrgw0411 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the alters go and what do they do when they aren’t fronting in someone with DID. Like I just straight up cannot fathom what that is like. Do the alters do things? Do they talk to each other? Does the host ever find out what abuse they underwent to have had their personality split? I just don’t understand how human minds built this defense mechanism against abuse.
fallonheather · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
dmvorio · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TheNeedforSocks · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How video cameras work
MrNovember83 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fat people that smoke
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunately how to talk to girls. Also how to built relationships. So yeah, 30 yo and still lonely.
Cheddar47 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
PringlestheBingles · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a very few memes out there that I don't really understand.
kendahlj · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes
lizzymonstur · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity.
DexusPlux · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how menstruation works
julieredl · 2 points · Posted at 21:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Google may help. It is the process of the female body preparing the lining of the uterus for pregnancy, and when no pregnancy happens, the body gets rid of the extra tissue it put in place for a fertilized egg to live on. The body repeats the process monthly, because biologically we are just animals and have an imperative to reproduce.
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girl testicle yeets egg down a tube. Egg tube is connected to the womb. If there's no sperm for the egg then the womb will tear it's insides out and throw them down into the vagina. This is very painful and will last for a week. Amount of pain varies from girl to girl ranging from mildly inconvenient to passing out from pain. No we cannot hold in the blood, same way you can't stop a papercut from bleeding.
Most girls are happy to answer any questions we seriously don't care
amoh23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are homophobic, racist, etc.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can be shown evidence and facts and still think that they’re right(antivaxxers/flat earthers). Like, with me if I see faces and evidence that my theory is wrong I’ll drop the theory but then there’s karen over here that gets shown legitimate legal documents proving that vaccines don’t cause autism and she just makes up some bullshit like “oH tHAtS jUSt tHe GoVErNmEnt HiDINg tHe tRuTH”. It confuses me.
Lazy_Cana · 1 points · Posted at 20:55:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space I guess? Or more that is goes on infinitely. I can't imagine something not have any end
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can get in a long winded heated argument and upon losing it just say no one cares it bewilders me
SmartPriceCola · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t even try go to the bathroom before throwing up. Instead pretending they are fine until the last second
TheCamoDude · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think that just banning things or making them illegal fixes problems. Murder is a crime, yet murders happen daily. Another thing I don't understand is how people think that banning implements of death will help the murder rate go down. Scary murderous black one hundred magazine clipped black shoulder things that go up can be made from scratch with hand tools. With ease. Knives are all but banned in the UK and yet people still get stabbed. A lot. But knives aren't even particularly dangerous unless you know your stuff. I'd rather have a padlock in a sock than a knife. What are you gonna do, ban socks? Everything is a weapon or can be readily converted to a weapon. Banning things does jack.
NinoAmon87 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The LSAT
Spainelnator · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They/Them pronouns and all that comes with it. Im not against it, I have a few friends who use they/them, and Im not saying its a bad thing. Hell, I can even somewhat understand trans people and why they transition. I just dont understand why people use They/Them pronouns or more specifically what makes someone think to disassociate themselves from "traditional gender" to put it badly.
shetaron · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FL Studio. I've been playing with the free version for a month now and I feel like I'm trying to drive an alien spaceship.
menofgrosserblood · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CSS classes and how forms work in HTML. Every time I try, I get so painfully frustrated and lost.
-M-A-R-S-Marsbitches · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tides
PhoxLo · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a 401(k) works!!!
CipherMk · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people came up with dumb shit
RaccoonBuddy · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computer or any circuit board, can use the transistor. It's a bunch of on/off switches that are magically switched somehow. A majority of electronic components are pretty straightforward, but the transistor is a mystery to me.
Saxopwned · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Operational Amplifiers. I am a physics head and went to school for audio engineering. In my program we basically received a physics minor with all the classes we took and electronics was one of my favs. I pretty much aced everything in two years of physics classes except the test and final questions on opamps. I have absolutely 0 ideas about their purpose or function. I can't conceive of how they're uses or why. I completely bombed that exam.
Aitch-Jay-Bee · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe toilet paper should face inward
Cr0ft3 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
boredanairplane · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why standardized tests are so important when all they do is stress me tf out
COVID19IsABlessing · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people need to take their whole families and clans and what not into the stores right now. You need one person to buy groceries for your family. Leave your shitbag kid in the car or at home. We need that ugandan policeman fucking capping everybody
dinomine3000 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how life that procreated without a sexual partner evolved into life that requires a partner. i mean , if a mutation made a being have an ejaculation sustem, another would have to have a sydtem to receive the genetic code
xwhatsthepointx · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I’m always seen as the bad person for cutting out toxic people even when it’s extremely evident that they are toxic. Like I’ll always lose a bunch of friends for cutting off one person. I even try talking things out so I don’t have to cut them out. Like let them know how their actions make me feel, etc. I’ve just accepted that this is what life is for me as a girl
DSaidIt · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
modern and contemporary art
jpsantos1610 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Portuguese
Actionkat63 · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all the information get on the web? There's about 1.2 million terabytes of info on the surface web alone. Who puts it there? Is it slave labor in Beofrah of people transcribing data?? I just pretend it's magic.
_StarScreamer_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact my friend thinks its okay to use me
Lo_dough · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think shunning and putting racists at the bottom of society helps the problem of racism, in my mind it only makes the problem worse
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how people can make big decisions like getting a mortgage without understanding how it works on even a basic level.
Trundle_69 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cruise ships float
QuirkArsonist · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science class, it is genuinely so confusing to me. Like hey here’s rocks, oh, and now periodic table! I don’t understand anything about science but ig im passing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
bigbig-dan · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults acting as if celebrities are ungodly. Like, yeah they’re cool, and you,like their work, but jumping up and down screaming “_CELEBRITY NAME _ LOOK AT ME! OMG THEY LOOKED AT ME AHH WOOO IL OVE YOU”. I idolised them when I was younger (not to this extent) but now I find it a bit pathetic. But hey, each to their own.
Burningd0wn · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happiness, it's such a fickle thing. One day I'm just getting up, go to college, go to work then come home to hw, video games and my dog. And that's a good day. Then for the rest of the week I do the same thing but it drags on, I'm not happy and I can't find anything interesting. It feels like some RNG
ModestAlligator · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people use the word like so much. Like why? In America we use like so much. Like does putting Like in every sentence have any grammatical correctness. I'm pretty sure that like 90% of people don't really like realize how much times they use the word Like in a conversation. Is Like like some kind of like word that we have to use in like every sentence. I like detest people who use like in like every sentence they say. L-I-K-E, how is it like pronounced? Like with the E of "Hey" or of "called"? Please help me understand why people like use like so much.
_heisenberg__ · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This specific theory on time travel.
Let’s say a train was built that went around the entire planet. If you travel on that train just under the speed of light for two years, you would travel x amount of years into the future. How? Aren’t you just traveling at that speed around a planet for 2 years?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works. Like how it actually works. Mystery to me.
jusimus3 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how my physics teacher was less qualified to teach than me lmao. I had the same amount of teacher training as her and she only got a 5 on her physics (-C) and I was working at a 8 (low A*).
gordo_pendejo · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
Cjayin · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it’s so easy to go to sleep when you have something to do and it’s so hard when when you’re trying to go to bed at night.
violetpurity · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. I don’t understand how people can blindly follow a god that isn’t proven to be real, and use it to justify their actions and beliefs.
CaptainTryk · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Six grade me in the early 2000s. history teacher has a massive miscalculation and decides to show Pearl Harbor for history class. I hate it but I was born a movie snob so nothing new there. I’m also a girl btw. Boy leans over to me during movie, goes: you know, I usually can’t see what girls find appealing in guys, but with Ben Affleck I totally get that he is a beautiful man.
i just look at him. Baffled. Ben Affleck type of guys who are basically made out of squares have never been appealing to me and I will never get it. I look at boy. I feel like I will never understand why he will never understand why men are attractive to girls except Ben Affleck.
in modern times it’s the Channing Tatum effect. Men made from squares with tiny eyes and very short hair. I will never understand. I will never get it. I cannot compute why template Ken doll is supposedly peak hotness for men in the eyes of every woman and boy I went to school with.
ratsonjulia · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dick pics
TexasTwo_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents that are horrible to their children. Some parents make their kids feel terrible for no reason, they call them names, yell at them, they make everything about themselves and complain about their problems but when their child speaks up about something bothering them, they wave it off. This is from my own personal experience and I know there are people out there whose parents are worse than mine and that’s a horrible thing to think about. I’ll never understand parents like that.
DeNappa · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier transformations
Otakoolkid052 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All beliefs aside, what the fuck comes after death? Like, you die suddenly, and then what happens? Do u just get reincarnated as a 100% different person, with no previous memory of your past life? Or, do you just kinda vibe with eternal darkness for eons?
BlackLegion47 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world.
BEERnard408 · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why every household doesn’t have at least one bidet installed in the place they live, if not on every toilet in that house hold. Way less TP is needed when you wash your ass first.
#WashYourAss #ButtholeShowers #NoDingleBerries
Epic-Gamer-69420 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How annoying and unfunny some people on the internet are. Basically toxic communities like maximilianmus’ that think it’s funny to just say racist things.
osiris775 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When my wife says, "Yeah! Well that's because guys think different than girls!"
I had recently gotten a promotion at my company. Previously, I had bought, laundered and pressed my own shirts. Well, she did. Stay at home, mom/wife.
I would constantly buy new shirts, because I always wanted to look fresh and clean, because I knew this promotion was coming.
Booyaa! It happens! I got a shit ton of brand new shirts. Higher quality, company dry cleaners, etc. My wife laundered them.
When the shirts arrived, we had a WHOLE conversation about her not having to launder my shirts anymore.
She took my brand new shirts out of the plastic, took them to the laundry mat, and washed them.
Really?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND
peoplearejustok · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
POTUS
CoachKatieRow · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem. I have never been able to convince my brain that it is better to change your door selection.
mmv_98 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
dclelan · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Fed and our stock market
heretowastetime247 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys who hate gay people but tolerate lesbians because they like lesbian porn
tintedcandles · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity/how information is transferred through wires.
thesixbpencil · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is chosen to be the president... and still after all BS he pulled over the past few years, still has a good chance of running again for another 4 years. (I am European)
littlefierceprincess · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The psychopathetic way Americans worship celebrities.
Edit: Athletes included.
BLizardLeLizard · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How society and other things that are part of human life exist in general. How the fuck did some random guy think the squeezing cow tits and drinking the white liquid hat came out was a good idea? How did people decide that random sounds from their mouths mean random things? How did some people decide that something was the most powerful thing in existence and that it had to be worshipped? How did two humans realize that putting a thing in a hole made more humans??????!
GoddamnAppleJuice · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom hates me. Maybe it’s because I look like my dad.
ThelWhitelWolf · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The size and complexity of the universe. Like how tf does it rain diamonds on Saturn and Jupiter? And how crazy is it that the light we see from stars is from thousands/millions of years ago? Pulsars. Quasars. Dwarf stars. Nebulae. Astrophysics. I genuinely love space but damn if it isn't so complex.
Native56 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I had friends or so called friends when came over to my place to chill ild be doing my chores n listen to what ever I like! One of them got pissed cause wouldn’t turn it off or down low! I simply said if you don’t like it there the door! I don’t rag on you for the stuff you listen to! So either chill n have a good time or go away!! They never came back. But the rest of us had a great time!!! It’s that simple injoy what you like that’s cool but we all have different like in music!! N that’s great be open minded to everything around you it’s life!!!
TurboFrogz · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generally don’t understand how someone can be a socialist after educating themselves about world economics and the system. Not trying to start shit, mostly looking for someone intelligent that I can have a debate with because I’m curious
kappa_demonn · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romantic and sexual attraction, specifically crushes. Like why does my friend feel so upset about being single? Why does he need a bf? Just dont get why yall want to slap flesh against each other. I'm aromantic and asexual btw
ocsike019 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other that Hungarian and English any other language
Consequence6 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electromagnetism.
I'm a science teacher, and I could explain to you exactly what electromagnetism is, how it works, the theory behind it, the equations you can use for it...
But at the end of the day, it's all magic caused by particles that aren't even real, creating a field that doesn't exist that affects things beyond itself because we say it does.
It's genuinely magic, we just have called it science.
JackiXxIscariot · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How would I know, if I didn't understand it? 😐
compacho · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Doing my taxes. I just wanna give someone a bag of money and just say "here. Just do it. Whatever it is"
TheSilentTitan · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how our universe is just there and infinite. as far as we know its always been there but how can something have always be there and be infinite? how can something exist but was never created. how were the rocks and gas that formed us have always been there? something just doesn't come from nothing.
gives me gas just thinking about it.
ch536 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras, video cameras and televisions work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to start, and continue a conversation without being dry
Flynn_lives · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries. Are the Philly Phanatic or other costumed mascots part of the whole furry culture? Is there some sort of distinction? Look at the mascot for the University of Washington Huskies......Pretty sure I've seen something similar on r/WTF.
Hollyheart1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how a tiny argument can break up a couple, friendship, or anything really. It's because of one tiny detail an entire relationship is destroyed, I don't get it! And it's always some massive fight too, like why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C6H12O6+6O2–>6CO2+6H2O happens every time you take a breath
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll probably get hate for this but fuck it. Why do girls say they hate when guys checking them out but wear revealing/seductive clothes?
I work out and feel uncomfortable if I'm wearing a t-shirt that rolls up and shows my arms too much.
TheNightmareVessel · 1 points · Posted at 20:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratic equations
Omattx8KUahasYzg · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of wearing droopy drawers
EricUdy · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people think trolling or generally being annoying to others is funny? You're actively making yourself disliked by the people around you dude...
whoisrula · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that don't eat vegetables or fruit.
I've known a few that only eat carbs and protein in all it variations but cannot stand fruit or vegetables. Not even tomato or lettuce with their hamburger. I just can't believe their body is not asking for vitamins or minerals.
ellie_queentero · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I don't fucking get is when I'm thinking of something that I have to get or do I immediately forget as soon as I leave the room I thought about it in! My mom says it has something to do with the doorways.
hangre_et_hot_dog · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
Hinterhalteg · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens sense of entitlement
ejensen29 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to form close personal relationships with people, let alone maintain them.
CaffeinePizza · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physical Chemistry by Peter Atkins.
adam35611 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people put blind faith in astrology like yeah sure it's fun to see what it says but I've met people that won't talk to me because we "aren't compatible signs"
EFCFrost · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I seem to be so slow to learn things. Like it's like my brain just turns to mud when it receives new information. I usually catch onto things months, sometimes YEARS after it's explained to me.
It made the first decade of my adult life very difficult. It also makes me really scared to try to learn new skills.
I'm an IT technician but everything I learned was by watching and doing. If you ask me what x acronym means or how y protocol works I draw a blank. Yet somehow I'm still able to do my job with minimal difficulty.
I'm leaving my career this year and going back to school for a subject I'm super interested in but once again I'm nervous that I'll not be able to keep up.
I legit feel like I'm retarded.
insane_taco · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can behead someone else for leaving a religion that they did not want to be a part of at birth.
HoChiMen · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand a lick of calculus and I have been taking it for 2 years now
SlaaneshiRanger · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone in the comments is going on about everyone liking different music, and movies.
Trolls 2 is literally a movie about everyone liking different music.
Just puttin' it out there.
BrexFlexx · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
bigotedbookworm · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand the science and threat of climate change, however i dont understand the goals of most climate change activists. They dont seem to realize that climate will change regardless of human intervention. We could become completely carbon neutral and our climate would still fluctuate between ice ages and tropical times and the same issues with human survival (famine, migration, natural disasters, and novel diseases) would occur. You can certainly make a "flattening the curve" argument like they did with Covid, not pretending you can stop it but rather lessen the hit, but that never seems to be the message. Thoses people seem to think getting rid of fossil fuels will end all climate change and we'll live in a garden of eden from then on.
thegoat83 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese writing
sweetcreature04 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, etc. discrimination in general. Just shut the fuck up and let people be who they are.
goldengod1004 · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket science
darknesscrusher · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my newly built pc doesn't boot.
OopsIForgotLol · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry and Physics
bruhbruhlol1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this thread is for things you don’t understand, it’s not a complaint center
Flarpenhooger · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can hate someone without even knowing them. How people can't see below the surface of someone.
neutron1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who support Sanders and refuse to vote for Biden. Selfish as fuck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how banks actually work.
nodadnobelt07 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegans
FreePosterInside · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rearranging formulae. I just cant get my head around it.
DrewSmoothington · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still support Trump
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Political shit is to confusing why people actually beat up each other. Your vote and opinion doesn't do as much as you think...
geek_loser · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time dialation works in space. Time is relative anyway, so how does it 'work'?
seippolf · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transistors
alexxandra_2828 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
FannyH8r · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who hate each other start a relationship
OptimalIntroduction9 · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These so called "Bad words". To me the only bad word is the word bad. Tell me 1 bad word that doesn't have an acceptable synonym. It's all ridiculous bull manure to me and these people who get offended by words can go sadomise them selfs or would you prefer, go make love to your self?
uhohspagettiio · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t wear seatbelts.
PsychoDongYi · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drinking alcoholic beverages and getting drunk. The drinks taste bad and the effects of the drink make you feel bad.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radical leftists logic
chrisisafk · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Garlic Salt and Garlic Pepper, it just seems redundant to buy something that you most likely have in your spice rack.
-DIrty__MARtini- · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any and all of chemistry
pantheraorientalis · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people eat meat. I understand that it’s tasty but after you’ve learned how the animals are treated, the environmental impact, and the risk to your health, what is the point??? There are so many ways the world would improve without the meat industry (antibiotic effectiveness, ability to feed the impoverished, less suffering, extended lifespans, available land) and it’s almost like people don’t care?
es-cee · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get offended after debates or discussions. I mean, okay, maybe you have a different opinion in politics/sports/film or music but that doesnt mean you'll start hating the other person for having their own opinions and principles .
1blockologist · 1 points · Posted at 21:00:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Leetcode hard problems
iLikeHRCashews · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find a job that pays well that's not serving or bartending
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How old/new cameras, film development, Polaroids, video/VHS, internet, phone lines work. As well as wrapping my mind around space and how there is no "end". Thinking of how these things were invented and how they work makes me feel simple and unintelligent.
UncleIrohsGhost · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the goddamn fuck simplex works
OuttaPhaze · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are you on about i don't get it
logicool73 · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
What it means to understand something.
What does it mean to you?
_BlasianPrincess_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How to kill myself. Like do I have enough pills or no? I have 23 pills of 600MG tablets of Ibuprofen and 33 pills of Quetiapine 100mg. If I take everything all at once (possibly including alcohol) will I die?
I’m a 17 year old female and honestly I find pills the most peaceful way to go. But I’m tired of not being dead so if I have to I’ll jump in front of a train. I’d just prefer pills.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mabey or you get drunk and sick so lose lose or win
_BlasianPrincess_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not ideal :/ I want to assure death. I don’t want to have to go into ICU and deal with all of that and mental hospitals again. Last time I was having seizures for weeks and couldn’t walk. It left me with extremely bad memory loss. Also did ETC (electric shock therapy...it’s legal in NY) as a last resort and that also did nothing but ruin my memory even more. So I’d want to assure death
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sucks horse cock ab your memory. But I'm not gonna give you a inquiry of how to kill your self. I understand that you want to die and I cant do shit but life can get better.
EagleDarkX · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do stoners get the idea from that weed is not addictive? It's like a myth that just started to exist a long time ago, and they all claim it's science, but 1 second on google and you know better.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's less addictive than you think. And NO it's not meth or heroin or any opioid. Those can be where if you take one hit you'll be really addicted to. I've smoked on and off and never had to be in rehab at all. I get what your saying ab the people who use it daily but once or twice won't addict you. It's still a drug but it's not as dangerous as you think. It's your dealer who you need to worry ab dont want something laced.
EagleDarkX · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say it's more addictive than you think, but I don't know how addictive you think it is, so that statement makes just as little sense as what you just said (:
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice comeback yet I was just putting my opinion pal. Have you ever smoked it before you sound like you haven't.
EagleDarkX · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's another thing I don't get, why do stoners get this defensive over their hobby they all claim they're not addicted to? It's seriously weird. One on those things I just can't wrap my head around.
My point was that you don't know how addictive I think it is, so it's weird of you to say it's less than that. And I don't get it. Why the defensive posture, unprovoked?
MR_KING--- · 0 points · Posted at 21:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You didn't answer my question have you ever smoked weed. Also I think you're mistaking how I'm trying to come off. I'm not defending weed or trying to be defensive about it but what I am saying is when I used it for pain or just to chill I didn't have to go to rehab to get off of it.
EagleDarkX · 0 points · Posted at 21:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I haven't. Should I? Is that a problem?
I think it is a very strange question tbh
MR_KING--- · 0 points · Posted at 21:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah kinda, you have no idea what you're talking about you call me defensive and talk about weed like you've smoked. Weed isn't as addictive as you think at all yet you tell me it is more than I think. It's legal in multiple states including mine btw and their not gonna legalise something that's so addictive.
EagleDarkX · 0 points · Posted at 21:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine thinking you have to do the addictive drug before you're allowed to talk about it. This is what baffles me about stoners.
So I need to smoke tobacco before I can say it's addictive? Ever note how many tobacco smokers can quit whenever they want, supposedly? How do I know cocaine is addictive? Spend 3 seconds reading what you write and you should realise it doesn't make sense. It's a weak defense. And it is always the same with stoners.
Alcohol is legal mate.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alcohol kills a shit ton more. At least in the USA and also I said that the other drugs are dangerous like cocaine its very addictive I never said it wasn't. I also agree with you about tobacco (quit a couple years back). But if you aren't even gonna be open to some kind of open train of thought your not gonna get your first answer at all. Because the answer is what you want to hear
EagleDarkX · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We were talking about how addictive it is, pay attention. I am not talking about deathrates. Alcohol and tobacco are both addictive, tobacco is even designed to be addictive. Yet they are legal. Weed being legalised is not an argument that i is not that addictive.
I agree with you that weed may not be ao addictive. But I also think that atoners that go out of their way like you are doing probably are. Otherwise I do not understand why you are here.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not defending that it's not addictive never said it was at all. I get you about the death rates man but its fucking dangerous same with tobacco. But your never gonna understand the stoners if you dont agree that weed is perfectly safe ( which its NOT) their just gonna argue.
EagleDarkX · 2 points · Posted at 22:05:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So I have to believe the same lies is what you're saying? That's true to my experience, but I do not understand it.
Alcoholists tend to hate their addiction, see the poison for what it is, they don't like that they're doing it. They just can't stop. And they're ashamed of it. Sure they make excuses, but they know it's harming them.
Tobacco same thing. Never had a tobacco smoker NOT tell me not to start.
Yet with weed, it has become a religion where you believe it is harmless, not addictive, cures anxiety (despite the fact it can cause it), cures depression (tends to make it worse according to some experts), and if you don't use, they reply the way you did, but MUCH less rational. For whatever reason, it just conjures up an us vs. them attitude and that is probably the most dangerous part of the addiction.
I do have experience with several tobacco and weed addicts. Even some weed addicts that were pushing really hard to get me to use. And one caffeine addict that is currently removing it from her diet. It's just the weed addicts that act this way. And I don't get it.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm only gonna say one thing and the I'll leave " cures anxiety (yet despite the factit can cause it)" does take the edge off what your referring to is after people smoke way to much and way to offen and then they stop. If you smoke once this wont happen nor will alot you mentioned but I agree with you
EagleDarkX · 2 points · Posted at 06:29:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Maybe good to note, in practice smoking once should be harmless (except the smoke, for me smoking once would be a horrible idea due to a lung condition). The only risk is it becoming an addiction, and that is not guaranteed, of course.
tjochris · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where we truly are.
Andkoh · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroverts
InvisibleRibbon · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Electoral College. BSed an entire project on it in 6th grade and got a 100%. How? I’m still not sure.
blodreinatrash · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics
fwauo · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can intentionally hurt someone/something else. I can't bring myself to hurt anyone, even when I'm angry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also what the fuck does lowkey and high key mean? I’ve had them both explained to me multiple times and I still don’t get it
potatosacksrgreat · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that there are genuinely people put there with no mental health problems. I really feel like they're a myth. I know some people that claim/look like they don't have any mental health problems and I just can't fathom it.
stregg7attikos · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
bitcoin
keyblaster52 · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
spacecowgerl · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
homophobes, transphobes:
like imagine caring THAT much about a stranger you saw in the street once & you became so offended by it that you had to speak your thoughts & feelings into existence (also, i understand ppl struggle with their sexual identity so they have to take it out on others to sort of 'prove' themselves as hetero but it's j like bro--it's not that deep)
sleepyplatipus · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagination. How some people see and “feel” things in their minds and others don’t. Why do we dream some things.
RyeToastOreos · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People in general. Especially girls.
Bigiebert · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who just follow celebrities you life’s and news like a religion and then go crazy when you don’t know what they had for breakfast that day
Graphicalrat36 · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einstein’s Theory of General Relativity
MANAWAKES · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t believe dinosaurs existed, still don’t understand why people think they did.
dbo435 · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Political tribalism.
KittyHammer · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
.Males not attempting to make a woman orgasm.
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls G-spots, I understand clits and how to give a girl a orgasm (most of the time). Yet I've recently been with this girl who wants me to hit that spot. Yet it's so damn tricky to find and properly hit well without her shaking or squirming. I get its probably the best orgasm ever yet its really tricky for us guys. I prefer sticking to the clit as its easier and more simpler than most guys make it out to be. Yet I understand why girls love it but why is it hidden like the magic Easter egg in video game.
MBatomzeus · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own mind.
shejones · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How photographs, television, radio, etc work. And how someone ever thought to create them in the first place, out of thin air.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
inkseep1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The expansion of the universe in relation to where things were when the light we see now started to come towards us. Like if a galaxy currently appears to be 13 billion light years away because it took 13 billion years for the light to reach us, how far away was it when the light started and before universe expansion caused the light to travel further and how far away is that galaxy's actual distance now.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything about cameras. How does a bunch of wires and glass and stuff “see”? How does it “see” everything in front of it and put it onto a screen? I don’t get it at all.
geniusn · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gamers™ and Billie Eilish Fans.
Caseman191 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
After high school I feel like I’m on a time limit but I have the rest of my life ahead of me, I just don’t understand why people say you should immediately go to school/start your career.
john-of-the-doe · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Power series
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people, to this day, keep emptying grocery store shelves from toilet paper.
aneeljaan · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did humans discover milk?
spindlebeak · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How double-clutch gearboxes work.
Vinon · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there still deeply religious people.
And before I get the usual "o wow so edgy lol", this is an honest answer.
O can't fathom how someone can believe in angels and demons and gods. Its like if someone came up to me and seriously told me that he thinks lotr is a real story, and orcs are just hiding.
Gloomy_Woomy · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do fetishes work? Like, why does pp expand when exposed to something that obviously has nothing to do with reproduction?
ExaemTurkey · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
tits, why do people like them they're kinda just fat sacks. i got yelled at when I told people I saw tits for the first time and I said I wasn't a fan.
before anyone asks yes I'm a gay man
slowlylosingit0416 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How black widow and Steve Rogers had the conversation about whether or not he trusts nat after the first avengers, during the winter soldier. I mean, They kicked ass together against the alien army if that wasn’t enough then that’s ridiculous.
Leadfarmer399 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people’s inability to mind their own god damn business and vice versa. Is it really that hard to learn what should concern you and what shouldn’t
Flyguy510 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Partial Differential Equations. Three semesters of my brain exploding exponentially.
Also, how to get a notification if someone replies to me on a Reddit thread.
:-)
Panflute_Sexual · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my brain works and why it does the things it does. I can rationally think to do something, understand why I need to do it, then not want to do it, then berate myself for not doing the thing.
es-cee · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, the "Please confirm if you aren't a robot" tests on sites. I mean seriously, do they work?
galaxygirl978 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah and why would a robot be trying to access links to pirated music anyway?
beatsbystav · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t get half these reactions in Organic Chemistry and somehow this is only the basics of it
StardustCrusadin · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social interaction
ImNotThatIntoIt · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who want to ruin other peoples day just because theirs got ruined/they're in a bad mood.
sop4321 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so abusive to someone mentally and just live like that.
I do one little thing that makes a person a little bit sad and I'm overwhelmed by guilt and all. My ex used to be so abusive and I didn't realised it until now and I can't understand. Like how can you harm someone so bad mentally and drop their confidence into the ground and be aware of it and sleep at night
geminimind · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Self hypnosis
IwannaYeetMyself · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything that happens in the US.
StankyMoms420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be anything but careful, vigilant and courteous behind the wheel. You're behind the controls of a multi-ton killing machine, capable of ruining or taking both your life and the lives of innocent strangers due to a moment's negligence.
I often compare it to everyone walking around with a loaded handgun. It's a risk-laden responsibility that most people seem to grasp; muzzle a safe direction, finger off the trigger, mindful of surroundings, etc. But then, every 10th or 12th nitwit out there is waving it around or sweeping people for fun or scratching their nose with the muzzle. People don't take automobiles seriously enough.
mz509 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Software languages
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gay people..and maths
og-hijab · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how everything in the world is mostly made from carbon, oxygen, nitrogen ect. it honestly makes no sense to me.
Maddie4699 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is kind of obvious but racism and sexism. It isn’t hard to understand that people think they are just inherently better because of their gender or the color of their skin. It legitimately blows my mind.
cushbro1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How normal people’s brains work.
JosephKirwan · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to build a PC, like I want to but it seems so hard and confusing
bits_of_entropy · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
IMO, this has gotten much much easier in recent years. It's really kinda like Lego, you just have to connect the pieces.
The subreddit /r/buildapc has a good beginner's guide.
Basically, you first make a budget and figure out what you want to do. Then pick a CPU that fits in your budget / needs. Then match it with a motherboard that fits your budget / needs. Get 8 or 16 GB of DDR4. Get a graphics card if you are gaming. Get a SSD for your OS and programs. Get a hard drive for bulk data storage. Next, choose a case that fits your motherboard. Last, pick a power supply, 500W from any reputable brand is fine.
When putting it together, most things will be clear how they fit. Your case will come with directions, sometimes cases do things differently from each other. Screws for the motherboard. Watch videos on installing a CPU, that's the only difficult part where you can break something. The memory and graphics card go into their slots. Once the drives are mounted in the case, SATA is straightforward. The PSU will have all kinds of cables, lots of them are labeled these days. The main ATX power is the biggest, then the 12v motherboard connector for the CPU, the 6pin PCI-E cable for the graphics card, then the Sata power connectors for the hard drive.
I think you could do it in a couple of hours.
JosephKirwan · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow thanks I wasn’t expecting such a detailed guide. I’ll make sure to check out the subreddit
murray903 · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I'm and soon to be architecht and I can visualize estructures, tension, a lot of physics involved in various scenarios. But it doesn't matter how much I try to study anything electric related, I'm not able to understand it. Also alchemy glad I don't touch that subject that often.
iZuqh · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still believing the earth is flat or that the moon landings were fake. Like wtf we know for over 2000 years the earth isn't flat. And it can be proven in minutes.
NeoCharms · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who social climb, like dude, just relax and find friends based on quality not where they can get/do for you?
springboks · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The notion of investing in the stocks or 401k in the free market. Even before the pandemic never understood wealth just showing up on a screen and going away. Yet people still participate in this ponzi scheme.
Jadestone820 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there so many different kinds of toilet paper.
Steven8786 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who vote for parties and individual politicians who act or promote ideas that work directly against their own, and their friends and families interests.
Like gay people who vote for anti-gay politicians, I will just never be able to wrap my head around that.
Yecal03 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phonics.
Npf6 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't wear seat belts.
fishy_in_water · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating on a spouse/SO. I just really don’t know how that’s a thing people do and where any enjoyment comes in. If you’re unhappy, can’t you just break up with the person you’re unhappy with?
JackNotInTheBox · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
xenomorph_princess · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Believing strongly in things that would make you hate someone for being different. I genuinely cannot understand why people are racist or homophobic, I seriously don’t get why
Lena_1995 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. 90% of it is just ancient scribble for me.
riddledleak9484 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
eggtart_prince · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Paranormal investigators and urban explorers running from what they encounter. The logic doesn't connect.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why employers label their positions as “Entry Level” in their job posts. But then require at least 2 years experience, with certificates in these so & so programs, fluency in 8 languages and 5 Olympic gold medals.
I don’t wanna say it’s clickbait, but it’s clickbait.
_yeetingmyself · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DnD. No idea how it works, had a friend try and tell me how but it went in one ear and out the other. Makes absolutely no sense to me how to play or how any of the dice, player stats, or boards (? I’ve seen some boards used) work.
EricUdy · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really just collabrative improv storytelling using different dice to influence the story.
little_miss_lonley · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
other girls my age, il not even joking i genuinely don't understand other girls
thecoolan · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who call people they disagree with Russian agents
minanageh · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced algebra ;(
La-Belle-Gigi · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra beyond the most basic level.
Lucky_Event · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math..
I get calculating and whatever but anything harder than equations and some basic geometry is a different language I will never learn.
SirMrCluck · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time change, not like time zones or anything but like how do you lose or gain an hour of sleep?
streetsworth · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
m_pzz · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that I’ll never be able to be outside of my body and my perception and that I cannot be certain of whether other people exist or not. And also how tf do I get to reason all of this and think, like who’s in my mind and who tells me this stuff inside my brain.
JackRipper2350 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone can't just drive a plane like a normal person in videogames, I just tried the prison break in GTA and the pilot would destroy the plane like it's a stunt plane Everytime he can, and when I told him, he tried but then he tried to land IN the prison instead of the airfield
Bertie_jj · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people seem to lack a basic sense of compassion for other human beings just because they're different or have no personal stake in their lives.
Agent_Nightfall · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok, why is it so famous in China while most of the content is cringy
Orangekosher21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:04:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can hate other people because of their skin color or sexual orientation
MonarchyOfForlorn · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics, I cant get the hang of it.
codezoned · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
Laura_kataUwU · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way the people live without a hobby, if you don't have a hobby wtf are you doing here.
kappakils_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anti-vaxxers
bingobanggo · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What century we are in. Everytime it is explained to me it makes sense but I never get it for long. I think that 1859 was the 19th century and we are in the 21st but in 2200 it will be the 22nd?? Because you don't count year zero but there is no way I would say anything with certainty around my coworker or people who I don't want to know how stupid I can be.
Samisshit · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
homophobic people, they genuinely confuse me
catwithaglasseye · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chernobyl. And how it’s still radiated. And why people still live in little villages next to it if the show made it seem like they were forcing people with threats of violence if they didn’t leave.
mrbadxampl · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how a single speaker can make multiple sounds at the same time, like headphones and earbuds
brokeburrito17 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cheating is seen as something forgivable or normal
Tyrania210 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
fucking calculus
getyourrealfakedoors · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every day people who feel the need to own military grade weapons. A small pistol to defend yourself or a hunting rifle, sure, but will never understand folks who buy AR-15s, etc.
chlotastrophe · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole time travel thing in Interstellar.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Reillyming · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People’s incompetence on life
Expected_Inquisition · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not being socialist.
Do you like paying for healthcare? Makes no damn sense.
CAM_ID_52 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people go to film school and/or study movies and then go on and make shit movies they're satisfied with
kpe18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there are people living in New York and California when they are living in the USA, it's like, a slave that has been released from their captors but prefers to stay with them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think 2020 is the worst year ever.
Lightning_Dave · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tom Cruise
TylerJWhit · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Republican Party, who claims to espouse Christian values, can support someone who has no sense of morality.
juicypizzaroll · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance.
snackpackattackk · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers
Sharksickle · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like Christianity. People legitimately believe some magic man in the clouds can create a universe yet give a shit about them personally. Blows my mind
JediSith22 · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Bubitz · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
nevesnow · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and similar
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I was born without my consent
dabeeisme · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My college stats class... like honestly.
7eregrine · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there is so much oil in the ground.
thealmightyghostgod · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who unironically use "we have always done it like that" as an argument
MildGonolini · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How engineers figured out how to make some of these complicated devices we use today. Sure, you can explain to me how these things are made, and I’ll go “oh cool so they do it like that”, but people figured out how to make those things with no prior knowledge. It honestly blows my mind.
TheSchemingColorist · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Driving in the far left lane when you’re exit’s coming up, so you cut across three lanes of traffic.
SleepIsForChumps · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
UsedPlant3 · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
natedig96 · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we clap our hands when we enjoy something.
beastfromtheeast92 · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that litter
knucklehead923 · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think other people are inferior based on something they can't control about themselves (race, gender, disability, height)
Ambrosia_the_Greek · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to trade options.
pizza_for_nunchucks · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
JavaScript
bouchandre · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What so special about dogs. I’ve always been indifferent to them, they affect me as much as trees, I just don’t care about them at all. They’re agitated, they lick you, they eat everything (including poop). I don’t care if you have one and love him, I just personally don’t understand the insane culture around them.
ChseeseSlalad · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you draw a line on your friend’s book when they aren’t looking so they fucking attack yours like their michael myers with a pen
crazycrossstitchlady · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cruelty. Just in general. I just don't get being cruel to any living being
Lorraa99 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people comment on a visible bra strap. Like we know it's there, but it's hella annoying to adjust it every 10 second. Leave me alone please!
baddashfan · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
BritishOmega · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stormont /r/northernireland
DerKaempfer_HD · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Last Math theme
giftedchick · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market. I follow r/wallstreetbets because it looks like they're having a lot of fun over there. However, I'd be lying if I said I understand ANY of it.
Gold-Development · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dental work is over priced.
drekaelric · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How you can not critic each politic system without being told fascist or communist by one of the sides.
TheRealCaelali · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pineapple on a pizza.... like seriously what is the fascination with it
fseahunt · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the universe is.
ObsceneFlower · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t think it’s important to self isolate and not hang out in group if not absolutely necessary during a fucking pandemic. You don’t know where your buddies have been and who they’ve come in contact with and shit doesn’t get serious until someone you know passes away. Your stupidity and recklessness gives you a greater chance of getting the virus and taking ventilator away from someone who was careful and never wanted to get it, from someone immunocompromised, from someone who works in healthcare/essential job and risked their life helping others, etc. because of ventilator rationing.
StraightMacabre · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I’m 29, barely got through high school math to graduate. I’m genuinely terrible at the subject.
WaterMyCatPlz · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we live in a society where a woman can get away with anything but a man has to sacrifice everything to prove his innocence.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My self
xXSnowy · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between mass and weight still makes my head hurt when I really think about it.
DjLongPickle · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vax and parents
taylorg855 · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
•Why people are OK with infant circumcision that pemanently mutilates the penis and is done without consent
•How it's fair that good christians go to heaven, but good people who aren't christian suffer eternal mutilation in hell.
•Special relativity
•General relativity
•Why entropy cannot be reversed
•Quantum mechanics
•How 20 cars show up the moment you arrive at a previously empty intersection
spejsky · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still dont understand how bitcoin mining works
CharlesKenway · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The german education system and how I survived until 9th grade
AutismAtItsBest · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries.
Twinwriter60 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t realize how dirty money is? It’s so gross to me! I mean think about your single dollar bills. Most have been in some strippers butt crack at some point. Or between some huge woman’s sweaty breasts while she’s walked around Walmart! Or even some snotty kid’s pocket on the way to buy ice cream or candy. Super yuck! I watched a woman yesterday put a couple of bills in her mouth as she struggled to pull out enough to buy her groceries yesterday and I swear I almost threw up right there in my mask !!! 🤮😷 Btw, I only pay with my credit card.
DGTavo88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you need to allocate memory?
VegasKeith · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Steampunk
iZezty · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people smoke cigarettes
biscuithead85 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How President Trump is still a president.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why toilet paper was the first thing to sell out at the start of the COVID Pandemic
cheezywafflez4life · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
king crimson
Heratore · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can open their eyes underwater? Like nah I’m alright I ain’t drowning through my eyes
LostCastleStars96 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my brain doesn’t compute mathematics on a screen but on a piece of paper I’m fine.
PetarPoznic · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
rolotonight · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation
impeachykeen · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how skyscrapers are built and how they are built to be earthquake proof
ieshulis · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No matter how much hair falls out, the thickness of them doesn't change. Moreover, all the hair is the same length, so how the new ones grow...
Zestymonserellastick · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can think that the answer to any issue is more government.
To help the homeless we need to spend more on government programs that don't work.
To help poverty and well being of poor people we need to spend more money in government programs that already don't work.
The answer is never more government. Society has actually be the change it wants to see in the world. Rather than pay someone else to do it for them.
fatherhuel · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Dillrun · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gravity effects time
LordVisse · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Dark_blue19 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
MsMandyBmBm · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to calculate percentages in your head
Seems it’s the easiest thing in the world for everyone but me. I’ve had several try to teach me multiple times over the years (In my 30s) and cannot pick it up.
Percentages are total enigmas.
Xcalibrated · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
upsetn00dle · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do women wrap a towel around their head after a shower? Sure it seems simple, but I’ve never understood it.
88bauss · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Left wingers, Democrats, Liberals and Progressives trying to ban something they have no idea about. If you're gonna come after something you better make damn sure you understand it inside out.
MetzgerBoys · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why little kids are obsessed with horror stuff, specifically Five Nights At Freddy’s and Stephen King’s It, particularity Pennywise. They make tons of little plushies of all these characters and little kids ages 7-10 or thereabouts live them. It makes no sense at all.
GayleMoonfiles · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Raves. The things people do there are baffling
45th_Degree · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Duration and Convexity of bonds. Gonna be on my final in two days and I still have no idea what they do or mean ;-;
mojo0123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone has been buying toilet paper
chosen_alioune · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i am 23 years old and have yet to have sex with a girl and have a girlfriend. Let alone why i can only build a few connections with a couple friends and not many people
Slowmac123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get into brand wars like “xbox is better. Fuck your ps4” or “bmw is better than mercedes gtfo here”.
Why does it matter to you what other people prefer
Lieutenant_Tamarov · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Rent is so expensive.
bits_of_entropy · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supply and demand. Limited amount of living spaces, many people want these spaces.
joblagz2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
everything
atlasmom2017 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still don’t know how to use their blinker.
Tamakama · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile game ads.
First of all making the player an absolute idiot isn't gonna make me immediately want to download the game especially after seeing how easy and pointless the game is.
Secondly having click bait ads is gonna make me resent the game even more because on most of them I've played them before and seeing this(even though I already have the game) is gonna make me wanna delete it instead. Also having things like: "if you pass this level you have 143 IQ" or "Only 1% of people pass this level" is obviously unbelievably stupid and also gonna make me wanna delete it.
So if you're gonna make a mobile game ad then make the game good so you don't have to have click bait ads that'll drive people crazy!!!
KaijuKing · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cashback
Lhoffmanjr22 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Why can’t the man take what he needs right away and leave everything else alone? It could be so much simpler. I Might also feel this way because I really don’t understand why I might owe or get money back. Doesn’t make any sense to me at all.
bits_of_entropy · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The government may not know about all of the income you make. The government also does not know what deductions you will make. Because of these things, the government doesn't know how much taxes you really owe.
But they still take taxes out of your income. So at the end of the year, you have already paid X dollars in taxes. But then you report the extra income you have from your side business, and also several deductions you get because you have a business. Now you owe Y dollars in taxes for that year. And if Y dollars is less than the X dollars that you already paid, the government owes you money back.
texanapocalypse33 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation ala Interstellar.
AraujoDaisuki · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Breeding
yungotto · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make friends... I just can't. I'm lonely and depressed... I can't take it anymore
der_held · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interstellar. I thought it was so interesting until that scene where he's behind the bookcase. I just didn't get it.
clsmn13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who in the face of factual evidence refuse to change their mind due to their opinion.
Pebble_Plays · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everybody hates Rise of Skywalker but somehow people enjoy the Last Jedi
shmiller19 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The recent viral video of a dude right out in the open on a sidewalk shoving his hand down the back of his lady’s jeans and placing his fingers in or around her asshole. Almost understandable. What I completely don’t understand follows. He removes said stank hand with attached fece fingers and presents them to his lady who enjoys a nice, deep lunged sniff. But why? Just why??
Azzie94 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lying.
Like, I get little white lies. Or lies that protect people, like "Did my son suffer when he died in that car accident?" Obviously you'd lie if you have to.
But like, "It's your baby." Or "Yeah, I'm single." Why lie about that shit? What do you get? A bunch of destroyed lives?
wackyjnr · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who attack butter and Hack big lumps out. Just scrape the knife across it gently and you'll find the wave spreads better on your bread.
ramsgrl909 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet works
WildGoose424 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who post Facetune/heavily edited pictures of their children on social media. It is both bewildering and upsetting. Like if you want to make yourself look like a deformed Bratz doll that's fine, your business, but I have seen people literally Photoshop and heavily filter their infants and toddlers. Just WHY?!?!
Oh_boi_OwO · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How drugs work in the US. I'm not American and I just don't understand why people can casually confirm on camera that they smoke weed or even smoke on camera , like in my country if you talk about that on the phone or someone else finds out you go to the foking prison.
lalalaurrenn · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never understood how people can be so inconsiderate of others. I'm always hyper aware of how I'm affecting people around me.
coolblackbelt · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democrats & Republicans
TherealCarrotmaster · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Velocity-Time graphs. I get what they are supposed to show but it doesnt make any sense to me logically. I know that, but i dont know why.
rednineofspades · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe the stories in the bible actually happened, but wouldn’t believe any of them if they happened in current time. For instance, would you ever believe nowadays a woman could get pregnant and still be a virgin? A man walking on water? We would say they are crazy lunatics and never believe them. I genuinely do not understand this.
LOOKITSADAM · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a monad is.
I've received 5 explanations that were completely confident and also completely incompatible with eachother.
Ebola714 · 1 points · Posted at 21:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Macroeconomics. Sure, I understand supply and demand. Elastic and inelastic etc. But WTF is going on at the State, National, and International level?
For example I live in California. All of our state leaders are slapping each other on the ass celebrating that we have a "budget surplus." Meanwhile, we also have an estimated 287 BILLION unfunded pension obligation.(see the link below) How is this possible?
If an individual said, "wow, I paid all of my bills and have a bunch of $$ left over" (surplus) but they also owed 100k in credit card debt (unfunded liability) they would be in a crappy financial situation. But at the state level, it's time to par-tay with all of the extra money.
The same seems to happen at the Federal Level. We have a massive national debt and lawmakers bicker and fight over spending during normal times. Then a disaster occurs and suddenly we have an extra 3 TRILLION dollars to spend on relief. Don't get me wrong, I understand that we need to help people during desperate times but how does this happen?
Thank you in advance smart economics people!
Ps. I have an advanced college degree and somehow passed college economics. https://www.sacbee.com/news/politics-government/the-state-worker/article229329509.html
Maruisagamer · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of this non-binary or gender fluid crap, what does it mean?
StarZEROPR · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math in general, Ive always had terrible problems with math and I also have a traumatic experience. I got into University only knowing operation order
VSM1951AG · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t just do what they know darned well they’re supposed to do.
You tell people, “Don’t smoke cigarettes. Don’t do drugs. Don’t spend more money than you make. Don’t commit crimes,” etc. Then they turn around and smoke cigarettes, do drugs, charge up their credit cards, break into people’s houses, etc.
And then, when their life turns to shit (“I have lung cancer!”) you think, “Of COURSE you have lung cancer! You smoked cigarettes. That’s why we told you not to do it. And here you are whining about how the very thing we told you would happen, happened.” Wouldn’t it have been simpler, cheaper, easier and less painful to do the right thing in the first place?
aaron60202 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people view the coronavirus peaking in a certain as a sign the end is near for it. Since there isn’t a vaccine wouldn’t the cases just go back up once people resume normal life?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How car insurance works. I'm really illiterate when it comes to car insurance.
tbib1988 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. All of math.
pushathieb · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
JD-K2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
HiddenxShadows · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The lack of support for womens rights.
I've spent so long showing people statistics and evidence, but still they ignore it all. There was an interesting short french movie on youtube that showed the roles reversed. Men as the caregivers for children, stay at home parents, etc. Women wearing no tops when jogging, women being in all the jobs, women harassing men in the streets. It's such an eye opening movie, but because we are so used to seeing these things happening to women we just dont seem to care.
Responding to womens issues with "what about men" just distracts from the conversation and ensures women never get the help they need. Ofc men need help in certain areas, but they shouldn't be talked about when discussing womens issues. It's a separate conversation. (Same vice versa)
Misogynists have their obvious reasons for not wanting to help, they want to keep women oppressed. But I like to believe most men are better than that...but they don't prove it by publically supporting women. They assume that as long as they're not doing the negative behaviour then there doing good, but their lack of support hurts. We need to be allies to each other.
I dont understand the hatred and need to oppress us just because we have a different gender.
Matthewfabianiscool · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone would vote for Donald Trump
McRaider2525 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my ex left me
cletoos · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tennis ball manufacturing
Carisma- · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bad shit happens to people? Like sometimes there is no reason behind it, it just happens and the person affected has to fix or make it better. Its so sad.
OhioClass1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My friends bath tub/faucet. It’s been 2 months and I still don’t know how to turn on the shower. Too embarrassed to ask. I have to use a plastic cup and “shower” when he isn’t home.
thatonesadblackgirl · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't get why we're able to suspend the constitution and throwing money in every companies pockets but unable to do the same to prevent climate change. Climate change will kill more than covid-19 through heat strokes, heat exhaustion, lost crops, etc.
Are humans really that short sighted? If so we really deserve to be extinct. Rather sooner than later.
pjrodrig · 0 points · Posted at 21:12:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because we can't do anything about it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know there is scientific advoce on how to get a hold of human made climate change and because of covid-19 europe is over achieving in the Paris climate treaty. So don't tell me we can't do anything about it. Right now we are doing more than we need. The goal should be to do it without breaking the constitution and huge loss of rights.
pjrodrig · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The COVID lock down is bullshit. Also, man cannot stop the climate from changing. We are not turning the clock back now and our contribution is minuscule compared to a sun flare. Man cannot control the sun either.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of course we're able to control the climate. We managed to repair the hole in the ozone layer by adjusting our pollution. We managed to get rid of acid rain. Do your research before you write.
Btw. A solar flare has absolutely no effect on our weather.
pjrodrig · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Of course we're able to control the climate." No we cannot. It will continue to change on Earth forever (as long as humans can comprehend). Don't be silly.
fromthewombofrevel · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. I understand the effective variables and theories and what it DOES, but I don’t understand why and how.
Ty-de-boi · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people are discriminatory towards different races/sexual orientations/whatever. Stop being an idiotic douche.
wayneDwayne098 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people dont believe that there possible life in the universe besides humans
GamiCross · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the Sense of self is physically, and what consciousness is.
st0zax · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life came to be. I understand the circumstances needed, but how did molecules come together in such a way that they can make decisions and do things willingly? Like is it all really just a series of chemical reactions?
And on a similar topic, how does the brain work? It’s crazy and I need to know.
mumbalakumbala · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The magic of Quantum mechanics, there is no one agreed interpretation, still an open debate (super determinism, multi worlds, Copenhagen, Von Noiman)
Basically we either have free will or just an illusion of it.
Jesshawk55 · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat-Earthers.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that the Earth is round, and we've known that since 400 BC, so how do people disbelieve Round Earth?
hereforsuicidetips · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would i get hit byy lightning if i stand under a tree ?
FizzyOperator · 1 points · Posted at 21:10:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The math that calculates acceleration
PercWonder · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be honest, how you can be mean to others. Like why would you wanna make someone feel bad. Did no one teach you or are you mentally incapable?
randomdude1142 · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy into the weirdest conspiracy theories, like 5G causes Coronavirus. Where does something like that even come from?
lnlystoner · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of calculus and mathematics. Why people don’t understand the impacts of losing natural resources and biodiversity. Why people aren’t more kind with one another. So much, I don’t understand so much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world without anything. As in, no planets, no “space,” nothing. Hard to process.
Ultimate_Waifu · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming. I took two years of it and barely scraped by. It's just not how my brain works.
scarletts_skin · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Incels. All women are disgusting whores and useless and yet their whole “movement” is based on....having sex with women? Or rather, their inability to have sex with women. It’s, by nature, oxymoronic; it makes no sense. They hate women, but want nothing more than female attention. It’s so stupid.
GlodenCloset · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find the change in enthalpy
Chilly_Grimorie · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why non essential resturants are still open?
MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 21:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money and morons
AllAfterIncinerators · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how some people make so much money. I don't have any real specialized skills so I don't value my time that highly, but when I hear people make $100-200k a year or even more it breaks my brain.
fatherdale · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, so much...
Psycedilla · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
captainhinkly · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have to be so negative all the time
GorillaBaby101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people lie for no reason or just because. they could be talking and just lie about something to make themselves liked, I never really understood why.
RandoRando66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/wallstreetbets
ombremullet · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our government got to this point
BrawlMatias · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers.
IsaiahIsTasty · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok
pastorjpxa · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wireless communication, manipulation of wireless anything.
bry1993 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls, man.
ItsMeTK · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a hard time grasping how people “become” a couple. Like two people are in a play together and then a week later they’re an item. What happened to make that happen? It’s like when you were a kid trying to understand magnets. It was two things, bow they are together, but how?
Or how they start careers. Like one minute I was in high school with you and the next you’re a teacher. I just have never really “gotten” the middle steps and it’s so weird to me. Getting jobs in general is strange and difficult fir me let alone some defining career.
Anyway, this is why I’m a thirtysomething loser; the world confuses me and these sre things we were never taught.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think life actually matters
MR_KING--- · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its natural and a lot of people aren't nihilists.
NoRolling · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sudoku
SumDumFuk_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stuff school teaches.
Yes, Josh’s 433 watermelons would help me later in life.
cebeezly82 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer programming. I've tried my best to learn and though I grasped if-then statements loops and raise I don't understand how assets can be drawn in to make a user interface and meaningful program
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i cant have at least one day ever where i feel well rested
Zxc10111 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My operating systems projects :(
covid19hotty · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Irrational numbers.
ZiggyStardust0404 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How really the economy works, i mean i undestand the basics of capitalism for example, but the complex economic moves made for example by the goverments just fuck my mind
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to comment on people's food choices and the amounts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Theory of Relativity.
Mason-the-Illithid · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people understand anime jokes
Tea_Mari · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People roasting other people because they don't have the same opinion about whatever
twood9615 · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shotgunning beer
Zelanor · 1 points · Posted at 21:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are so many trash players that play league of legends
nLegiit1- · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does my shit floats in water
littlemans88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When girls complain about f boys, and then continue to date them.
Wee_Willy_Wonga · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
1BoiledCabbage · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are racist towards other races coming into western countries and especially over a pandemic.
The amount of hate natives and middle easterns in my city is disgusting. Hearing "they're always drunk in the streets" or "they're ruining our culture" is disgusting. Yes, there us an alcohol and drug problem here, but there are more white addicts than natives, the natives just stick out because they're not white. And middle easterns aren't ruining our culture, they are our culture. Noth America is a culture based on many cultures from many different places. I don't see anyone complaining about St.Patrick's day.
Also, I went grocery shopping today and people where staring deer eyed at two asians in the store, jetting by them like their life depended on it, but the same people would stand 1 foot away from any other white person or leisurely strolling past them. Like, fuck you.
tibla · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trade and salary cap rules for sports teams in general. For example, rules surrounding transfer windows and deadlines, franchise tags, massive transfer fees amongst European clubs, MLS’s TAM, GAM, designated player, and homegrown player rules, guaranteed money in contracts, luxury taxes, etc.
Danriva2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get Reddit karma ?
Sa3ed022 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
will101113 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can get a bloody nose and have an allergy/sneeze attack simultaneously
MR_KING--- · 2 points · Posted at 21:14:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cuz your body says fuck you
Devourercoc · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your level of stupidity.
sardonixs · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m so scared of empty pools. I’m not scared of water, but any time I start thinking of empty pools, I legitimately feel so uneasy.
orualofglome · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry and directions. I just do not understand. I don't even know how to explain what I don't understand because it's all of it.
1helluvabutlah · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. I graduated barely scraping by in that one. Also my native language is English but I got a D in it and an A in Spanish. Anything passed graphing in math is beyond me. My best subjects were art and literature. I'm great socially but thats about it.
34Filip34 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men/women cheat
Whut_The_Hell · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans didn’t rally behind Bernie Sanders who seemed to genuinely be looking out for the greater good of the people...as opposed to joe biden who appears to be losing his mind and trump who lost his mind a long time ago.
kingbendo · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people wear Chacos
MrDWayneLove · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
fraxinus2000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
verallie · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Decaf coffee
LeMcWhacky · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hawking radiation
jacksnake4300 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who blame their problems on others, I get to an extent but I know so many people who make the effort to free themselves from blame instead of helping their situation. Like it sucks that your life isn’t great but blaming it on someone does nothing to help you
HCA2001 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I keep falling in love with broken men, even though I know they're bad for me.
a_cat_says_woof · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does king crimson works?
SirDrakith · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding.
Zolku · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I don’t have any friends?
DoyalTeel · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. I read. I think. I say: The universe was created from a single tiny speck and is infinite. I’m baffled.
Some_Random_Leafwing · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say that you can never be friends with your ex. Like they make a fuss if there in the same room. I just don't get it.
chickenboony · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
santz007 · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How public can keep voting for the same people who keep screwing them over
JoolHes · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socializing
BrucyGoosy · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Alexis_Bacon · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My god forsaken life
upper-noodle · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the media pushes companys into hiring more females in higher positions. I genuinely don't understand it. You should hire someone because of their skills, not because some feminists tell you that you need more women in higher positions.
Somebody-Call-IXII · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recursion, I get it, but I don't get it, do you get what I mean when I say I don't get it? Because genuinely I don't get it, but sometimes I do get it and it's like "oh how didn't I get this before" because now I totally get it. But then I look at it again and I don't get it.
RoyalDaDoge · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people do weird fucking things.
PIEMAN3377 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In any game with a team speaking system there will always be that one guy, for no reason, screaming into his mic "SHUT UP" over and over along with other profanities at the people just trying to have a good time playing the game and speaking to their teammates.
Nagon_Onrey · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can be so incredibly bad exclusively at English (the subject).
trippinnwhippin · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Rick_Adams91 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. Or at least how to make them happy.
DMGalaxian · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wikileaks
A year ago today was the first time I had them explained and it definitely wasn't what I thought it was.
idiot alert
Zetpill · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Assholes.
It's either a choice to be a complete dick and I just don't get why you would want to be one, or you're actually completely unaware that you're an asshole and that might even be worse.
djp73 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
LolRNDM · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market and how it works. I still haven't watched The Wolf of Wall Street because I've seen a few films with that whole 'Wall Street' theme and it's like they expect you to understand the stock market and how it works, but I don't. It might be because I'm from a small country in Europe and no one really does that here, and I guess a lot of working class Americans have some share of stocks in something.
_dirtydan_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
Jbro_82 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polarization of light
HOCfan_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instagram
cdcphat1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Tippcat · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounts. I analyse them every day and still cant make correlations between the balance sheet and p&l. I have to read my same few notes every day to figure out why I'm not balancing. And I did it for 4 years in college!
geralt_- · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are actually good at something...Academically or otherwise. Is everyone winging it?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Toxic_Gamer_Memes · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aerospace engineering. Specifically on planes. Despite watching several videos on design I cannot of the life of me solve to problem of my planes in KSP veering off to one side on the runway. It's what kills all of my designs.
legalZA0 · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Today’s Feminists
bennyisonline · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anime
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
snow-boll · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you copying this from the r/tinder post, or were you the one who posted it in the first place?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:10:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
snow-boll · 2 points · Posted at 03:48:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ooooh... Didn't know about that. Thanks for updating my internet vocab. ✌️😉
Nez_bit · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Same difference”
Timmeew · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to work window blinds
Wakandan_Knuckles900 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The circle jerk for New Vegas without the DLCs.
Gettingjiggywithet · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe.
Those numbers and facts are impossible to grasp. The concept of time and order is a human creation so I guess,the big bang,black holes,galaxies,perhaps "other" universes e.t.c. could be explained,just not by the human mind.
oldshanshan · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
whererainbowsare · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
dinosaur_coding · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is love.
MrsMellowCake · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conspiracy theorists.
Like...why does it matter if the earth is round or flat? You’re here for such a short amount of time, whatever shape it is, you ain’t getting off it alive. Just enjoy your life. Don’t worry about that stuff.
web_head91 · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have gotten off it alive.
SaitoPrecise7 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MHC 1 and 2 Antigen presentation
JohnHenryLegend · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ethan5203 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
saimaan_larppa · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe. I mean I love it and all, but the fuck??
longboi42069 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
FoxSickness · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket science
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gravity effects time.
Like I understand that it happens, and I understand that they are related somehow. But I cannot wrap my head around how more gravity=slower time. Just not smart enough to quite get it.
FATCATbtw · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my Jimmy John's gets hear so damn fast.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This.
andimacg · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have both that we are on a collision course with the Andromeda galaxy and that the space in between galaxies is expanding, pushing them away from each other.
How can both statements be true?
Cranicus · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much oil is in the ground. Absolutely mind blowing how we drill 100m barrels everyday and we have not run out.
Undefender47 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. My brain will never understand why electrons moving can change the image or transfer sound or really anything. My extent of real hardware knowledge is how film cameras work and radio works. Everything else is a mystery. At least I know how to use a computer though :/ I hope when i get old I keep up with how to use the tech of the current time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having to lie about why you left a previous job when the real reason was sexual harassment.
Marshmule · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
lcmpv · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who doesn't care if it is hurting someone by doing something.
ZeroByter · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People relying on each other.
I often saw people making friends, entering relationships, then crying about it when it inevitably ends. I think it's funny, genuinely made me laugh.
It's safe to say I have no real friends (depending on what definition of a 'friend' you are using), and certainly no close friends.
I rely on no one, because no one can be trusted, hell, there were times when I couldn't trust even myself.
All friendships and relationships inevitably end, I see no reason to start something that will end and I'll have to suffer because of it.
I'm not talking about just being introverted, it's beyond that in a way I can't really explain.
So, relationships, and I mean all relationships not necessarily romantic, I don't get it. I don't know if I ever will.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers.
MezzoSp · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
SpottieOttieDopa · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people still eat animal products.
devotion1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How multiple families can live in one house and be OK with it. You know, like a normal size house, not too big, and like eight adults and four kids living in it, plus probably 4 dogs.
Basedtrapical · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many marriages fail
jnumbahs2000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. I know the concepts (not the math) but cant believe that's how our world operates
Slowmac123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I consider myself an audiophile from an appreciation of sound point of view. I also have a very detailed ear that can hear differences between speakers and sources.
But I don’t understand how the actual sound is reproduced. Yes, woofers and cones move air but how does the sound come out? How does the computer play back a digital audio file through my speakers????
KHold_PHront · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People need to conform; why Instagram allows prostitution; why being bisexual or gender morphia is more common now a days and more common in people that does drugs.
Chaxnsxw · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we take videos, I don't really understand how cameras work so that they can document the real world, I also don't understand how we capture audio and add it to the video
Dharmsara · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why cooking videos promise “10 minutes”, but the start with all ingredients chopped up in bowls
johngo_503 · 1 points · Posted at 21:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why many Republicans (who say they love democracy) are opposed to vote by mail (which increases voter turnout, which strengthens our democracy.)
callmetini · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bluetooth
VerbodenMagi · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think I’m good at things, why people downvote good posts, and of course why I am alive.
5H_n_DBH · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
soulmates. i know there are people who get along really well with each other, but i can’t imagine being perfect for each other. it just doesn’t make sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Audio: tapes, cds, speakers, vinyl, digital whatever formats, etc. I know how they work, but it's like I'm not actually convinced these work like I know they do.
Jamesmateer100 · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some ultra religious conservatives in America say they hate liberals and the idea of democracy and use the Bible as a guidebook for how our country should be run. The very word liberal comes from the word “liberty”, if a gay person gets fired from a job for being gay and files for a discrimination lawsuit against a company with a homophobic boss they cry “religious freedom” but if they get fined and blasted online for being homophobic then they blame liberals and the government. We’re a democratic republic, hell we’re even part socialist from an economic standpoint yet they can’t seem to wrap their heads around the fact that they want to wrench control of the many and give it to the few just so they can feel validated in the eyes of their god. Isn’t that one of the reasons why early colonists came to this country?
SetlingAxe · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex
CJ_H77 · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry.
bingbongtake2long · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Balancing equations
potuspocus · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can feel sympathy for fellow humans, cats, dogs, horses, dolphins, and monkeys yet be indifferent about the suffering of cows, chickens, and pigs
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
US politics
burberrybradshaw · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH!! I struggle so much with it and always have. I’m 24 and just started college and revisiting math makes me want to cry. First of all, I’m literally never going to use it. Ever. And then for some reason my brain can’t make sense of it. I got straight a’s in school besides math. I remember once my friend was trying to explain a problem to me in class and when I didn’t understand she said “ stop acting stupid on purpose, it’s not cute”. Like nooo I’m stupid in real life it’s not cute
LexiLemon · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry.
whaleoil_beef_hooked · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neon Genesis Evangelion. I have watched it several times, I watched the movie, I've read wikis, explanations, and thought pieces. Im almost 40 over here, this anime has haunted me for about 25 years. I still can't figure out why Shinji is such a whiny little bitch.
BigPP69SucksBalls · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
when my family asks me to play a game and then when the game ends
Dedmeattt · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened to the World?
Yorkshirefannyfart · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit.
LordGailish · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transistors! Never understand when and what value of resistor should I put!!
corcipalazzo · 1 points · Posted at 21:16:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Nintendo Zapper & Duci Hunt works.
z3k3m4 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Enjoying Eminem’s music
Lunes11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Microsoft Access
KidBossTES · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my sister has to wait to be a certain age to do a certain thing, but when she tries to do that certain thing I, her younger brother about 2 years younger than her, have the option to do it with her. Same goes for an app or item. She has to wait to be a certain age to get a certain item or app, but then once she is old enough I can get that item or app too. I don't even want to do or want the item most of the time.
TLDR; My sister has to wait to be a certain age to get something or do something, but once she turns that age I, two years younger than her, can get that same item or do that same thing.
z3k3m4 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same happens with me and my brother who is 2 years older than me. Long story short: parents are retarded.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk man
LootGrinder · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people stick to greed and selfishness instead of cooperation and compassion.
FeartheReign87 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exponents and polynomials. I'm horrible at math.
Zefferolianital · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This "phone gamer" thing!!
washwasamber · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The space and light
blackbombshe11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racist people
macmillie · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I have an undergrad in engineering and I could never quite wrap my head around it. It “flows” but not in any sort of way that my brain can draw a real world, simple comparison. I understand math behind waves and energy individually, even some basic concepts like voltage and resistance. It seems like no matter how many formulas I remembered to scrape past the classes, something never clicked in my brain to the point where I could just understand it at the logical level. To this day I am afraid of walking through electrical rooms, or just plain paranoid about overloading the circuits at home because I don’t have the “street smart” cheat sheet in my brain to know what’s totally safe, mildly ok and bound for failure. It’s a good thing I use my engineering degree in a business capacity..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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warpfield · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anti-immigration
dirty765 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Is there a greater purpose? Is that purpose self-doubt and misery or happiness? Am I doing it wrong if I’m not happy? Is happiness a state of mind or a place you get after achieving X amount of things in your life? Do you know when you’ve achieved X amount of things? How many things is X amount of things? Are these things under any specific category of life events: Friendships, love, career, children, education, furry, travel, sexual, hobby? Something else? Why did anyone think Trump was a good idea? Is the number of things 27?
7deadlyhens · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this gonna get buried but: fax machines. I can't wrap my head around the concept of sending paper through the telephone cable to someone else.
fridgehawk · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetish.. just really don't get it
aikoaiko · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always thought it had something to do with this
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liverpoolgf · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Car dealerships. I don’t understand how there can be THAT many people buying new or used cars in my metro area to necessitate the thousands of cars displayed on lots at dealerships around town. How long do they stay there? What happens when they’re not bought? Why are there so many vehicles?!???
BoilerTomi · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My age. Im 17 and this age is full bs. Its possible that only in this country but every teen wants to get drunk, smoke weed and give/get the D. I have to talk to 25+ people for good conversations because i cant have one with same age. It makes me cringe soooo bad when they talk about how drunk they got. Like this is todays status symbol. How many times you threw up last night. Help me i want to talk to someone...😕
Condoms4Pussys · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am i alive?
faythinkaos · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can both believe voodoo to be bullshit and still get freaked the fuck out by it in movies.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad is taking so long to get back from the gas station
MandatoryMahi · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Water Table.
Nixty_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i dont understand myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly. I had to read Thomas Pynchon in university, and sometimes I still go to Wikipedia to try and understand: what does entropy mean and how does Maxwell’s Demon challenge the second law of thermodynamics? And still 100% do not understand.
Gmauldotcom · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get so crazy over sports. I understand liking something, but there is nothing I like as much as how some people like sports.
killergrape615 · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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aikoaiko · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
maybe he doesn't like to kiss guys?
dianasaurusrexx · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. But i think I'm in good company.
FEAR_SSRoseGokuBlack · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people ALWAYS use hindsight and legit use it to (try to) solve problems.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra, mostly :(
pantsdude1007 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why someone would talk shit about people who have a different skin tone than them just because of said skin tone. They haven't even gotten to know each other and already BOOM categorized. I just don't see how people can be that fucking stupid.
B-V-M · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
wolfcl0ck · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin C++, man.
DisSkreet · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mobile ads
DefacedReality · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
backyarddogs · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones.
BarnsleySprite · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier transform. Had it explained so many times and it just doesn’t make sense
pbear_799 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who feel the need to harm defenseless animals
m00dyjudy · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earth science :(
reavesfilm · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People voting for Donald Trump.
Kappios · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
Skipdadoodle · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
teddo23 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
K-Pop fans
ZskrillaVkilla · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation
Mishapchap · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults that go to Disney without kids
ProudOtaku95 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life why were we born why were we created, out of all species how did humans came to be.
MiasmicCheesecake · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Internet works. I just.. I just can’t understand.
big-lift · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ScreepaCreepa · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my job shorts me breaks
LastgenKeemstar · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hydrostatics are weird
funnybunnybee · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be disrespectful to retail/customer service workers.
iPrisonZ · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls' signs
Haligan74 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How landmasses at the same Latitude don’t all share the same climate and similar flora?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French lenguage. I have no idea what they are saying.
pammspunzala · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Measuring distance using light years. My 11- year old son tried to explain this to me. Still no luck.
mrsheep1118 · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes
TODD_G4CK · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just women.
psycospaz · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can take one thing and make it their whole life/personality. As in a fan of a tv show decorating their house/wearing the clothes/ect.
seanNTampa · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the people who have kids complaining about the 10 million things they have to do and how hard it is taking care of their kids at home all day since this covid thing. Like they deserve a statue in D.C, or a medal. They post to Facebook, Reddit, insta and Twitter 300 times a day, so how overwhelmed can they be?
hollyhawk42 · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The CFL. Be the NFL or be nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t ever find the end of the rainbow
Fallengreekgod · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come some women act like they’re not interested but seemingly it is a ploy to get the man to chase after them?
YouAreThat · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some microwaves can't take any metal, but some have metal racks in them!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The value goes down if everybody knows that you printed more money
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it stops being something special if everyone's got it, that's just human psychology
aikoaiko · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people will STILL argue that Bernie wanted to enslave the healthcare providers and force them to supply care when all he was asking for was AFFORDABLE healthcare.
How can they not realize that? Where do they get their information?
Duy91121 · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
Jolly_Rouge · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US society Flat earthers Anti waxxers Sovereign citizen
There is a lot but that's just to name a few
Extreme-Stomach · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Somebody-Call-IXII · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are almost an infinite number of colors/spectrums and we can only see a very small percentage of them. Obviously we will never know what the other colors or spectrums look like, but imagining the possibilities of what they may look like blows my mind.
bone_apple_teet · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of life and how we do the same things over and over again and add in friends to make sure that we dont kill our selves in this infinite abyss of life, and also sao the anime
zamyatinfoilhat · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV works. I just don't get how that complex info is transmitted and resolved into images.
eel_bagel · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How being transgender works. I genuinely don’t understand how in your mind you can know that you’re supposed to be the opposite sex when you don’t know what being the opposite sex feels like. I’ve tried to bring this up nicely to people before because I don’t understand and it always ends up with hostility. It sucks that we can’t talk about these things because there are a lot of confused people out there, including me. I’ve never been mean about it, I support my trans friends and adapt to however they wish to be called but I’ve never understood the mental part of it. But maybe I never will, maybe it’s just something that you need to experience to understand
InoueTatsuya · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oatmeal
Cordelldogdello · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma system
Mynamejeff827 · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The absence of the letters Y,E, and S in the word no
505alpha · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an engineer, I dont understand electrics. Very, very basic stuff I can follow with formulas, but anything above that causes serious understanding difficulties.
tittysprinkles_Oo · 1 points · Posted at 21:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racists.
KuraiTheBaka · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get girls to like you. I've been trying for a girlfriend since I was 15 and I'm still a lonely and girlfriendless virgin
the_splatter_strat · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
some-sad-boi · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how coronavirus started. why didn't they just close the cities and the neighbouring cities when it started spreading
Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a time lag between the virus spreading and people actually noticing that the virus has spread
some-sad-boi · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
huuuuhhhhhhhhhh?
Amazonit · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's not like Plague Inc where there's a counter that ticks the instant someone gets infected. They have to get infected, develop symptoms, realise that it's not a usual illness, get tested. Then the number of infected goes up by 1. It takes about a week for symptoms to start appearing once you first get infected, and you can spread it even if you're not showing symptoms.
WeirdoAmla · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you’re suddenly worthless or irrelevant if your opinion differs from that of another, and that other person is really offended that you have a different opinion on top of that.
Like these people will be so upset by it and you’re suddenly not worth talking to anymore and all your other opinions are stupid or something.
I’ve met too many people like this and that includes my “10-inch pole up their arses” parents.
OnionCoffee · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Secondary dominant chords, just why?
Solsting · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does electricity "flow" I've tried to get this infor into my brain on a few occasions and I just don't understand. I get the the energy is passed atom to atom but I don't really understand how or what that really means. Like it's not like a bucket chain of atoms dumbing energy into my TV right? I just can't get my head around it.
Wispercind · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is going through a liar's head when they tell such unbelievable garbage? "I saw Rihanna, and we hooked up backstage" Oh, yeah, sure, some small-time guy working fast food in podunk middle America who cant even get the loose girl at the counter to look at him... or how about "My father is in the CIA and I have been inside Area 51" yeah, sure dude, and I'm next in line for the Martian throne. How can people even lie about stuff like that? What is going through their heads that they think they can make such outrageous claims?! How do they rationalize to themselves that it is OK to make up such blatant BS??
Benny14071995 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Astrology. And especially why people believe in it, despite being so utterly ludicrous. I kinda understand religiousness, mostly because of the culture, but the belief, that horoscopes or stars are somehow responsible/related to a persons nature. I always thought, that nobody took it seriously, but every third girl on tinder names her zodiac sign and some really want to know mine. I genuinely cannot understand, how sometimes even totally irreligious people can believe something that ridiculous.
typicalytommy · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time travel happens in the atom? 🧐🧐 mind blowing 💪🤨
onetimemycat · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tides work. Water is an inexpressible fluid, so how does the gravity of the moon affect it at all? A little bit of upward force shouldn't make the water rise if it isn't compressed in the first place. Are there pockets of vacuum space that show up with a rising tide? It doesn't make sense.
esoto0782 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people cannot read the situation.
wildatlanticgay · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. I study "rocket science" ffs
sweetbrandiwine · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines
CTHeinz · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can have a working code, copy and paste it making NO CHANGES, and then it doesn’t work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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alternatiivnekonto · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are light, comfortable and perfect for wearing with shorts.
kiwispouse · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my brother-in-law nearly lost a 60 million (million!) dollar contract, because the client, a bank that wanted to advertise child accounts, had a guy on the team who demanded to know why a kid would draw an orange dinosaur. he wanted to pull the plug on the whole campaign, until they said, "what colour do you want? we'll change it!" there's always one asshole who needs his input.
also, bad adverts are remembered, and many of them are on purpose :(
Jtomas0812 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people argue about which of their opinions is right for example, Human 1: salt and vinegar chips are disgusting. Human 2: no, what are you talking about, they are good. Like the conversation isn't gonna go anywhere, you can't change other people's opinion.
wigl301 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. I don’t understand how we can all think children are so simple minded to believe in Father Christmas, the Easter bunny, the tooth fairy etc, yet people follow religion which seems just as daft to me.
WoodiestPie92 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
Prickly_Pickles123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a teenager I don't understand a lot but my mains are; homophobia, how things are feminine or masculine their just things, why people would hurt other living things(besides plants and if your eating the animal), and math
NarcisoFF · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe that Earth is flat
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. Like... who the fuck are we really? Neurons? Electricity? What?!
EthosPathosLegos · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who stick up for shitheads.
SweetGirl550 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I’m very good at algebra but miss me with the statistics bullshit
stargazr_93 · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How insurances work
incognitospy3 · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother
kolune · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make friends.
stop-the-world-tkw · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are pro-life and argue that the only reason why someone should keep the baby is because it was gods plan.
I don’t know if it’s just me but I find it offensive that they are basically saying that it was gods plan for me to get raped at a young age?
Maybe I’m overthinking it. But why should I conform to your religious beliefs in a state of law when in my country it is a human right to practice my own religious beliefs if I have any. Oh yes and there’s the whole thing about separating the church and the state.
However, I would like to state that I understand why someone would be pro-life because of health complications that can come with abortions and birth control. This is reasonable.
Although, what we should be doing in the first place is providing proper sex education.
And hey, if a consenting adult somehow gets pregnant while on birth control or a condom breaks then they should not have to be scared for their life. They should be able to have a safe abortion in the hands of professionals that will take care of them and make sure they are ok physically and mentally.
TL;DR: I can understand the concern for health complications that can arise from an abortion but what I don’t understand is the religious arguments that some pro-life people throw out there.
Gewif · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Point of life
IamEverest · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just about everything since I have aspergers, and also anything math related. Im failing all my algebra etc assignments and I cant figure a single thing out.
DRMACANSS · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ap physics 1 frqs sigh
statise · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am planning on studying engineering when I have never tried it out
TAC0PERSON · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebbs Cycle
MarmosetSwag · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people put others down- I get that it’s to make themselves feel better about their insecurities/loss/failure. I play a lot of online games and my girlfriend has recently started playing LoL with me. She gets flamed for under performing or dying or having bad gold upkeep like, she’s brand new. You wouldn’t call a 6 year old a fucking dumbass for not knowing University level physics would you? Probably not, so why hate on new players for trying to learn something? Accept that they’re new, accept you will lose your casual match, maybe give them tips or pointers or where to improve!
Arboretum7 · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Betting odds
Racob_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
katerrrtottt · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH...always makes my brain stop working...
winnieethepooh · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mole concept.
AcesWild90 · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homeless people begging for money instead of begging for a job. Does it have something to do with not having a physical address?
Jimmykalo · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Positive and negative Politeness. I have to do a task for class and that shit is impossible to understand.
TheDerpyDisaster · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how some people can be so heated over unnecessary matters of pride, especially matters of which they have put no significant effort into.
I’m honestly a pretty vain, self-centered guy, but I would never consider myself prideful.
I also don’t get people with extremely tribalistic behaviors. It’s almost like some people don’t want or care to think for themselves.
BanditsDog · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking a shit and being impressed by it...
JaddieDodd · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are many, many people with higher IQs than mine who are devoutly religious.
If there is a God, how was he created?
I don't understand the boundaries of the universe. I guess it goes on infinitely.
Savannahig · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no one has a crush on me
theboomboy · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I get national pride, but racism is taking it way too far
I especially don't get the Christian Trump supporter racists. "Love thy neighbor" had no conditions, especially not ones that couldn't exist people the commandments were written before Mexicans were even a thing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
mortgages. what the fuck is a mortgage?
nini1423 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing.
NerdyBoutKirby · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I lose weight faster by laying on the couch than exercising for an hour and a half. I can gobble down junk food and lounge on the couch with Clone Wars all day, and I'll lose all the weight by the next morning. Leading an active lifestyle, however, results in weight lose being slow.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you get hungrier, or potentially subconsciously eat more when you're regularly exercising? I think it's common for people to over-estimate the caloric effect of exercise. It's an easy justification, "oh I ran 3 miles today so I can eat this ice cream."
It also could be drinking more water, building muscle, etc that contribute to the scale staying the same. Doesn't mean exercise is worse than not!
Regardless of exercise, calories in < out = weight loss. If you keep calorie-sparse foods around (like celery) you'll fill up your stomach without contributing extra calories in.
BetterNoughtSquash · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic helpful knowledge. The alphabet, Metric, Imperial, I couldn't name a single place on the map except for maybe the small part I live in. I learned the approximate size of a mile (or was it kilometer?) last year, and only in 2020 did I learn I'm about 6ft tall. I also thought that 5ft9 was right under 6ft until a few days ago, which was why I was confused when somebody who was 5ft9 was a bit shorter than expected.
robral · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although I understand it now, it took me a while to comprehend what blockchain is.
annoyedperson420X · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell do people believe in flat earth?
cordoba172 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
I don't understand why everyone is so eager to take much so from everyone else when we all get the same. GAME OVER screen, the 'I got mine, F you' mentality.
I wish everyone was nicer to each other.
FidelDangelow · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe has no center. If everything is racing away from each other, it's also racing away from a single point, right? Can't we just trace velocities backwards to a point?
gcrage435 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
nogudnames_ok · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that treat you like garbage if you turn a black character into a white character, but if you turn a white character into a black character you're praised like a god
vvalkir · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
njb2017 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
art. what makes good art and what makes bad art? why is that painting that looks like a 4 yr old scribbled with a crayon worth $100K but another that is beautifully and accurately done worth nothing? even great musicians and writers put out an absolute did that everyone hates so why is every van gogh painting worth so much and sitting in a museum?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dislike charity livestreams on youtube
iujohn3 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I LOVE ALL THE RESPONSES - THANKS!!
One point I'd like to make though. A lot of people are pointing out that by making a crappy commercial the companies are successful because I remember the ad. That's all fine and dandy, but remembering an ad and wanting to buy the product because of the ad are two different things. If I don't like an ad, I usually make it a point NOT to buy the product.
MidnightCoru · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we have to split the human race up and treat humans differently based on gender/sexuality/race. It's like "cool, you are gay? black? I don't care". True equality is something that should be standard. You aren't better or worse depending on any differences, we are all human. However if you start acting like an ass expecting to be treated differently because of something you think is special, you become an ass and will be treated like one.
Also why is religion still around when all it does is cause chaos and destruction based on lies to gain profit and power.
Pu5hkar · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mainly 2 things...
The point of flat earth conspiracy theorists on the basis of which they debate.
People taking offense on behalf of someone else where that particular someone doesn't even give a f***.
toddman123712 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant wrap my brain around why it seems a lot females I know, love that murder mystery stuff? whether its documentaries, or those murder podcasts. It sorta baffles me why they almost fantasize death and how it can be committed.
zendrovia · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicanism and their hatred for our country
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Warren-Fuller · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
GPS. Who even had the time to map out the entire world and program a voice that knows exactly when to say “turn right”. Thanks though!
imhereforthememes0 · 1 points · Posted at 21:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
David Blaine
BankRupsy · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why this post got so many upvotes
very_big_hroch · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I see number 42 literally everywhere. I've read The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, I know what this number means but I still don't understand why there are so many 42s in this world.
Fox-Boat · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably will get buried, but reality television.
Nandii1066 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The metaparadigms of nursing
Abovearth31 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
DragonWolfe66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women and the way they choose men? The fact that they don't seem to want men that would treat then like the love of their life and instead choose men that become abusive, controlling etc. sometimes I think they would rather be a conquest or flavor of the month instead of being treated with respect and honor.
TheLuco · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidity
Thumper1544 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any math more complex than basic. My brain can’t compute. I have to take a math class to get my AA and it’s going to tank my GPA. It’s either algebra or stats. I’m so doomed.
Spartan17492 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pacifism.
skyesherwood32 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way the world is run
Somebody-Call-IXII · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of parallel dimensions, you could very well die in one dimension and seamlessly move on to another and never know that anything happened...but with slight differences in the new dimension.
Imagining the possibilities of those slight differences keep me up at night...just imagine a universe in which Friends is funny.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thought experiment:
Your mind is one continuous "four dimensional" experience: 3D universe, experienced in small moments of accumulating time. Overall, you are the same being from start to finish, but can only experience a tiny slice of that in each moment.
As you exist, bad things could happen to you. You look both ways, start crossing a street, but a car comes out of nowhere and kills you. But if your shoe came untied before you got there, you never died.
Both of those possibilities exist and happen, but you will never experience the moment of your death. Instead, your conscious mind "moves" along the path that still exists. You are still alive because you stopped to tie your shoe, and you'll never know it.
In that way, we all live our paths to the fullest possible length of time individually. Depending on the choices and random chance you're given, you may see loved ones perish. Maybe they have a divergent path where you still exist with them for a time, maybe all available paths for them or now closed, or maybe the only way for them to continue that path was for you to be gone. Those alternate paths are unknowable, so while you may create the longest possible path for yourself by being cautious, there is no way to predict your or anyone else's cumulative effects.
In one sense, every individual experiences "immortality" if there is a non-zero chance of surviving. But aging over enough time or absolute-certain-death with zero chances to survive will end that last thread of existence.
It's a little bit pointless in the end. It's not measurable or predictable, but it does form an interesting frame of reference for viewing each individual's existence. Aren't we all experiencing individual "universes" that constantly intersect?
atallnotrelevant · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can carelessly move on to another relationship after just breaking up with a long relationship.
Swagmastre99 · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the karma system
t_skullsplitter · 1 points · Posted at 21:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how most people buy the bullshit
iMin3Ra1n · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the face of likely death, some customers at my work 70+ n older still come in for lottery tickets with no PPE:/
Jernkjeve · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that turn to drugs
avabo · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still vote republican
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people give so little importance to ethics, morality and spirituality.
I think they should be compulsorily taught in school. We wonder about if we are being just in our behaviour or not. And whether others are being just to us or not.
Morality and ethics are more applied in our lives than complex science and maths.
Teach kids something irrelevant and they would naturally get bored. Teach them something that they can use in daily life and they would naturally participate more.
Our current teaching is more utilitarian.
But if people know how to cooperate and reach a middle ground, a lot of unnecessary conflict can be avoided in life.
Nation wants to utilise their population into doing things that are in interest of the nation. And the interest of the nation and interest of the common man are not always the same.
I also believe that military / army, should not be romanticized at all. But no one in their right state of mind would risk their lives to fight for nation run by greedy degenerates. So they romanticize army / military, and manipulate young healthy individuals into risking their lives.
CrazyGammer4357 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why bugs so badly need to be INSIDE my house... F off and go suck on some animals jezus!
RapidAqua · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Asked my mom this question. She said "why people feel the need to be negative all the time to try to be respected."
FangirlX185 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I honestly am just bad at math.
hot-one-today · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guitar modes/scales how to relate them into the key I’m playing in
venicerocco · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still support Donald trump or are even considering voting for him in November. It’s utterly dumbfounding.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people use mean insults in arguments with loved ones instead of just dealing with the issue. It's sad that some would rather than be right then happy, and hurt eachother for no reason.
chrisquila · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obligatory women
CrazyWorriedWriter · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't see the fucking tape on the floor showing them to stand at 6 foot intervals at the grocery store
Stinoah · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
yeeingmylasthaw · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people take offense when I say this if they enjoy it but I genuinely don’t understand how people can actually enjoy constantly listening to country music. Like it’s not bad but it all sounds so similar and it’s kinda boring.
KayDee2915 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Logic of the Democratic Party
DerpyCappy64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Nintendo allows so many weird indie games to be sold on eShop
pizzarrow9 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people move away from or get over those who are earnest in their nature.
TheCatharticCircus · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Painless_Candy · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still support the Republican Party.
kaereddit · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
Blue-Intovert · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why prions are basically indestructible.
stalkercat21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe news articles and fear mongering campaigns over real live people experiencing things and working in those industries. (I work in agriculture, gmo’s aren’t poison, we aren’t abusing animals, and we care for the earth too) But this goes for all sorts of fields. (I’m looking at you antivaxers)
amaury-wilmer · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English
Janek102TV · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
*Engljish
Agoodusername53124 · 1 points · Posted at 21:24:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why rich people want to hoard wealth. What’s the point of having crazy money if you don’t do awesome shit with it? Not just buying your 12th yacht but idk hiring bands to play free concerts or giving out free food and housing to people in need. Fuck hoarding that shit, so weird to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the term "he/him" lesbian like???? no disrespect I just can't wrap my head around it..like ever.
NEXphore · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans manage to be so absurdly stupid.
Ciryl_Lynyard · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who rage quit over a single thing going wrong in online video games.
Thirakules · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well when a business makes enough money for example 5,000 every month, and for some reason it just won't make more, why will they government shut it down if it doesn't make more. (Living in Germany) Why does the Profit graph has to keep going up. Why can't it stay level, as lot it stays out of the red it should be okay. Please enlighten me.
OriginalScrubLord · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What in the hell
scijior · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not proud to admit, but constitutional law. I understand how constitutions work, and the rights listed in them, but the analysis is mind numbing. And I challenge laws as my living. But how this shit got thought up - from the beginning of law all the way to Originalism - just escapes me. Whenever I do a constitutional challenge I just plug and chug (take a case on point, cut and paste the analysis, apply my facts, hope and pray), and I can tell you the levels of scrutiny from memory, but I can’t explain it to you.
Maybe it’s so simple that I’m missing the point. But it all is confusing to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people say “Sorry.” When they hear about an experience you went through that caused conflict for you? Saying “Sorry” means your accepting responsibility for the conflict someone has gone through without which wouldn’t make sense because it wasn’t their fault and they weren’t there, and had no cause it it. So why say “Sorry”?
OriginalScrubLord · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's a better alternative
sonic_custody · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly? Electricity. I can recite all the theoretical parts that are out there. I know volts, watts, ampere, ohm,... I ace every test that's out there. I just don't understand it. It bothers me. A lot.
Funkdat75 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the USA - with literally 10s of millions of people all meeting the requirements to be President - we have ended up with a choice between Trump and Biden this year.
threelayersofchinfat · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
J_A_C_87 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Voldsby · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. I absolutely do not understand how some people can be so severely uncomfortable (hateful even) towards the very idea of two men or two women loving each other.
Amyshamblesx · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to spread hate on social media. Especially when they @ the person. If you want to spread you negativity on your profile, then go ahead, that's your prerogative, but don't tag the person, they don't need to see your nastiness on their timelines. Be kind.
LilBooPeep · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. Which sucks because I enjoy learning things, but have never had a good teacher. :(
kingoflint282 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reaction videos with no substance. I get and appreciate reactions that are actually in-depth and contain legitimate discussion. For example, there's a channel I love called Lost in Vegas where they listen to a lot of music that I like and it's interesting to me to see what kinds of things they pick up on and enjoy as newcomers. Sometimes they notice things that I never did or have a whole new interpretation of something and it gives me a whole new appreciation for songs that I've listened to for 10 or 15 years.
But then there's those reaction videos that are literally just a video of someone watching something. Sometimes there will be a facial expression or two but mostly you're just watching someone watch something. At the end sometimes they'll say a bunch of meaningless shit like "ok guys I really liked it because I liked the way that it was and that's how it be" or some shit like that. Like why? What possible benefit or entertainment value does it provide? I couldn't even do that for people that I find genuinely interesting because it takes away the potential for anything interesting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why computers can’t load stuff instantly. If electricity is basically instant as far as us humans are concerned, why does it take any time at all to do something like download an app or load Minecraft chunks?
mlouisd1251 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet. Just everything about it. Is there a main internet hub all the computers connect to? Where is it? How did it start?
yeahiplayark · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people judge other people by clothes, what they eat, weight, height, etc.
Medic-32 · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women?
Quantum-Goldfish · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bursting a teabag and ruining what would have been a lovely cup of tea.
ItsKlip · 1 points · Posted at 21:25:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers
Kendalls_Pepsi · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who are the people that supported Joe Biden since the beginning based on policy
Mincraft_god445 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why stubbing your toe is such an easy thing to do
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Sexual harassment and abuse. Predators that are attracted to kids.
NotTheStatusQuo · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Biden is the nominee.
CarltheChamp112 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How i could be so fucking stupid
mythical_lex · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of he/him lesbians.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m so lazy and always procrastinate?
Desproges · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who pay for streaming services, to then complain that the show isn't available for them, so they pay for a vpn to watch one show, and then they watch the show while doing something else, missing most of the plot
pabodie · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone voted for Trump.
verallie · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t pee if anyone else is in the bathroom like I assume they must get some sick pleasure from hearing me spring my leak.
nushka1129 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People stocking up on toilet paper during this coronavirus outbreak
Mattinko18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
perezved · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. How tf did someone figure that shit out?
JustChabli · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ZIPPERS
my-tonguesinaspic · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
highschool chemistry
grizzlygrundlez · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
shoebee2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, you understood. Cats can be very insistent and irritating while attempting to type. What you want to understand is special relativistic time dilation and how it behaves with respect to the relative speed of light.
Gaining a broader understanding if you haven’t already grasped the basic concept is going to be a challenge. I am not a teacher. Sorry I can’t be more help.
schru031 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get why people are so mean to each other. Treating others how you'd like to be treated or how they treat you seems so easy.
k-emm · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom lol
TheTrent · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend and I recently bought a house and shes much more on top of how the whole fixed/variable rates, interest repayments and just general money stuff worka. I'm basically "tell me how much I owe and it'll be there".
She was asking questions about different home loan packages to our broker and i understood words but they were talking a different god damned language, I swear!
MattyBMcFly · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Citizenerased1989 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how someone can be non-binary. I have no hatred or disrespect towards them and will use they/them when speaking about them but I just can't wrap my head around it. I understand being transgender, just not non-binary.
jakkii92 · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand proficiency bonus.
graaahh · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of The Fountain.
Remix2Cognition · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender Identity.
Not that you can have some unique gender expression, but that you can identify to a specific socially constructed label that others are then suppose to just use based upon your own definition of such. That's not how words work.
It would seem a label is rather restrictive. And if you had a unique gender expression, it makes more sense to me to believe that no label could even begin to describe such. I see words of "he" and "man" to simply stem from male. And the male descriptor only goes as far as my biological status of genitalia and chromosomes. No words to befin to describe my gender. Because I think it's truly an individualist state of being. It would be too difficult to start lumping people together based on certain expressions of the billions that would make up gender.
I mean, this applies to any identity to a group classification descriptor with ill-defined barriers. Such as race as well. I'm white, because I'm sure the describes my apperance and heritage to most people. I don't see what it truly says beyond that. And I don't "identify" to the group because I don't see what it would actually say about me.
I've tried to understand it, many times. I just don't.
And this isn't just about transgenders. It even aplies to the descriptors of "cis". Because that consists of people who "identify" to a gender based on their birth sex.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Labels don't have to "say" anything detailed though, their point is to provide the first-level contact for a concept.
Some people would like to represent the way they want to be referred to, viewed as, treated like, whatever scenario you want to think about. So, those people might ask their friends, coworkers, and family to refer to them with new, specific pronouns. If they are asked why, what should their answer be?
One person might think, I don't identify with any of the labels Western society has provided to describe how I want to dress, appear, etc. They might answer, "I identify as non-binary gender-queer, and feel that he/she or man/woman does not adequately represent me."
Others might think, My thoughts, mindset, approaches to relationships, taste in clothes, and my own desires for how I appear in public closely aligns with the Western society label of 'Woman.' They might answer, "My inner self most closely reflects traits typically found or encouraged in Women in our society. I identify as a Woman and want to be referred to with she/her pronouns."
Is it hard to disconnect that idea of gender for you? It seems like you think gender is kinda made up anyway, so does it matter if someone asks to be referred to with a particular pronoun or to just use their name?
Remix2Cognition · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Sure. But what is that first-level concept? Let's use "Man". What does that tell you about my gender expression?
If I want you to call me compassionate, will you? Even if, according to your own definition of words, I was acting more like an asshole? Do you not care about understanding the language you use?
Their answer should be to provide a definition of the word. And if understood and accepted, then it can be used. Just like all words. How many words do you use that you don't know the definition to?
Maybe this will clear up my perspective better. I don't see these gender labels as having a standard definition. It's simply a language issue for me. It seems anyone can claim association to a label for any reason they so choose. That if you labeled yourself a specific gender for reason A, that if reason A exists with someone else, they could be another gender for that very same reason. With no foundation, the words don't have utility. Because they don't actually convey any meaning.
It doesn't need to represent you. That's my point. He/She or Man/Woman can easily refer to your sex. This entire "movement" has been to change these words to describe gender, and then at the same time declare how unique gender is. It doesn't make any sense.
So if I like to crossdress, does than make my gender "woman"? Or can I simply be a "man" who wants to challenge social norms?
See. You're using "woman" here to describe females. That's confusing. That females have certain gender norms associated to that sex. So if you want to challenge these norms, you can stay a "man" and just go against these social norms.
Basically, the larger question for gender labels is at what point am I one gender over another? How many of these gender norms do I need to associate to to identify as one over another? Sex has pretty specific defined barriers (with slight outliers). So I'm just trying to grasp the barriers of a classification label. And barriers need to exist for a classification to have any meaning.
Additionally, group labels exist for others to classify you. You don't get to classify yourself. I don't get to declare my race, my personality, my attractiveness, etc. and call for others to define me by such. They have definitions, and they are applied to me.
Huh? Very much the opposite. I don't think the practice of certain gender norms would define you to a specific label. Because it's so easy to take some from one side and some from another.
Are you just accepting these gender norms as objective realities and setting the foundation of gender based upon them?
I don't understand. What happens when gender norms change, as some have over decades of social change? Does your gender then change as well?
The reason people fight against the use of he/she to describe one's gender is because they want to continue to use it to describe one's sex. I don't understand the point of the change. Gender Expression is deeply unique. I don't think anyone has the same gender expression. Which is why it's weird to see a movement for labels to apply to it.
The question is "Why should these words now describe gender (a very unique expression with billions of factors), rather than continue to describe sex (a very static descriptor with very few factors)?"
It's like people want to show off their unqiue expression so much as to co-opt words not meant for that purpose. I just don't get it, beyond it being potentially narcissism or as a massive misguided battle against poor self-esteem. Where your attempts at fighting gender norms need to be accepted through mandating it.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
It tells me, in the United States at least, that you would likely be masculine in thought and presentation.
If you held a strong enough belief and self identity in those traits that a professional psychologist would diagnose you with dysphoria about that trait, then emphatically yes.
I care greatly about the language I use and its consistency with reality and understanding of it, as well as the effect it may or may not have on others. It is interesting you chose Compassion as the trait you may have or lack. That hypothetical may be approaching a false equivalency though, since consciousness may only be possible with self-identity and that is the root component of this discussion.
If you spent your entire life not understanding why a feeling or self loathing could not go away, if you never felt comfortable or the desire to expose yourself to others you were attracted to, if you believed your whole life you might be asexual because of the repulsion your own body caused you, could you see the potential improvements to life that would happen, even by taking the smallest steps?
Some people live their entire lives presenting as a man but identifying as a woman. If that person asked me to use "she/her" in private, I would. If the meaning of man or woman is specified to refer to gender, while male/female are reserved for sex, I don't see how it hinders communication. Language is meant to express ideas, but it also has to encompass nuanced topics as we develop, change and challenge concepts as a society.
Anyone can claim anything for any reason. We aren't simply discussing association to a label. I have been referring to the label used as a brief shorthand for one of the major components of self-identity in our culture.
If someone wants their social group and/or society at large to see and refer to them a certain way, I do not see anything ethically, morally, or legally wrong with it. If they say, "I am a man, I prefer he/him pronouns," and he wears a dress and makeup and traditionally-feminine hair, the word still conveys meaning to me about his self-identity. The rest of the things I learn will inform me even more.
There is still utility in knowing that component of self-identity, even if it is as simply-described as "man."
Is it possible Man/Woman was used synonymously with Male/Female in the past because the exceptional cases were so rare?
A doctor may assign Female as a child's sex at birth, based on their visible sex characteristics. If it was discovered later that they have underdeveloped testes and are genetically male, but have lived and know their self as female, would you describe them as a man or a woman?
Even outside of specific edge cases, maybe we have reached a point as a whole that we can adopt more specific language and think about these complex questions and thoughts on gender identity.
Is your issue with any change of definitions or usage?
You absolutely can be a man who wants to challenge social norms. Or a gender-fluid person that embodies masculine or feminine sides depending on the day. Or a woman, if your self-identity is described by that label.
I was not describing only female-sexed individuals in that sentence.
As a matter of probability, someone using the label Woman has more traits associated to femininity. Personality, appearance, sex could be components of that. A woman may be overwhelmingly masculine in many aspects, and identify as a woman and be female-sexed.
Is it possible then, that they could be overwhelmingly masculine in many aspects, and be female-sexed, but also identify as a man? Where "man" is a label for their self-identity, for whatever reason they have?
You are one gender over the other as soon as you have the self-awareness to understand yourself, to the extent that you know whether you are accepting or rejecting traditional gender norms based on the gender or non-gender that most closely describes that self.
In short, if I am a man that portrays and identifies with many traditionally-feminine traits, and you address me as "Miss," I feel it's reasonable to reply, "Oh I am a Man and use he/him pronouns." I would of course be gracious in the correction, since I would know my appearance was challenging the societal convention for what a Man should look like.
The knowledge that I identify as a Man but appear very feminine also informs you about my self-identity and personality. I think Man still has meaning in this case, even without a clearly-defined barrier for the outside observer that is not in this hypothetical conversation.
How would you define Race then? Interesting example, since genetically we have quite a few things in common outside of any "defined" race.
Why have forms started including, "White/Non-Hispanic" as an option? Other cultures might see a certain person or ethnic background as "White" that you may not consider to be the same "race" as you. The Irish used to be considered "Irishman" and equivalent in status to "Blacks" in the not-so-distant past. Why have we changed that definition?
Also, before moving on. You do get to declare your personality. What you say is only a very small portion of that.
100% in agreement with you. The practice or rejection of norms alone does not define or limit you to a specific label.
No. Those gender norms inform everyone else of likely aspects/labels about a person. They may be conscious or unconscious traits that are consistent with the assumed gender of a person. They may also be inconsistent with the assumed gender.
If a person is misgendered, and they aren't around to hear it, does it matter at all? Probably not at all as long as it doesn't affect that individual.
Not necessarily, but maybe. If you felt very feminine your whole life, and you had the language and societal acceptance to define it more specifically or in a different way, we have found a way to communicate a more-specific idea.
If society's concept of a gender shifts, and you remain with the same identity, it just means you have passively begun to challenge societal norms for that gender.
Absolutely, it is deeply unique to each individual. But we already have terms to describe sex, male/female. Seems redundant to me to have two more words that literally mean the exact same thing. Why not think about the complexities of self-identity more, and try to use purposeful language when discussing it?
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hit the comment limit but wanted to include context quotes above. Continued briefly below.
Scientifically, we have had a distinction of "sex" and "gender" for quite some time. If common usage is shifting to be more precise with our understanding if self-identity and psychology, that's a positive change in my opinion.
Sure, people might do that. Ignore them. Don't set up strawwomen or buy into trolls or pay attention to those. Most people with dysphoria want you to not notice them and to live their life.
Someone can have the opinion that there is complexity to gender and we should be precise when discussing it. But that doesn't mean we must tie man/woman strictly to mean biological sex, when male/female adequately describes it.
I try to talk with anyone willing to discuss it, because I think we should encourage new ideas and growth in society. I'm not forcing you to pay attention to pronouns people request. But you should know that it can cause harm to a significant number of people, and you will never be able to know a person's truest self. You only know what they choose to and subconsciously present.
I cannot fully know if someone is selfishly or sincerely using labels, but as long as there is no harm I am happy to use what they are comfortable with. I am much more interested in knowing their self in a deeper way, but I'm grateful that I can communicate with that self more comfortably and accurately.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bonus food for thought if you or anyone else actually sees this comment:
If I wear pink all the time as a self-described masculine man, am I challenging or aligned with gender norms? Pink was a masculine color, especially used for male babies, until a shift occurred in the arbitrary masculine and feminine qualities of a particular absorption of light wavelengths.
Remix2Cognition · 1 points · Posted at 09:23:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So back to relying on gender norms themselves as a foundation of gender. "Men have been observed to normally have acted this way, thus if you act this way you are a man". That's the logic you're applying. It doesn't actually have a foundation as it will move as gender norms move. We already have a specific label for the things men normally do, masculine. You aren't a man by the nature of acting like a man, you are masculine.
Everyone has things they loath about themselves. Everyone has instances where they wish to belong to a group, but are rejected.
Are we discussing sexual orientation or gender? Or are you leading to a state of simply not "measuring up" to expectations? Because of course many people feel that. Many people can't approach those who they are attracted to out of fear of rejection. For appearance. For lack of sexual experience. For communication skills. For their "status". Etc.
I can understand body dysmorphia. I can understand not wanting a dick, just as a can understand wanting a bigger dick or bigger breasts. I just don't understand why body dysmorphia when tied to sexual characteristics would suddenly make that person the gender of the sex normally associated with their desired attributes.
When it comes to what action?
Sure. The issue is that there is something rationally wrong with it. As in, classifications require barriers. You get rejected if you don't abide by the definition of the label. That's how the classification can maintain meaning.
I don't think so. It just seems like a grammar choice. Current definitions of "man" seem to still be "a human male". How would you like to redefine it? "A masculine human"? How do you define masculine? Is it tied to male or men?
It's an interesting question. Let me ask a question back, as somewhat a reply. Is sexual orientation based upon sex or gender? Is heterosexuality male/female or man/woman? Also, I'm not quite understanding your example. What consists or the rest of the genitalia? If this person has a vagina why would it be declared they are genetically male after discovery of testicals? It's a further question on what makes a male. Testicals or a Penis? I would think any unique instance of such should would then involve a chromosomal test. And if they are intersex, then they are intersex. They are an outlier to a scientifically created binary based upon our observations.
No. My issue is with alternate definitions not being provided. You've said it yourself, it's simply "empathy" to accept these labels of people who desire them. That's not how I use language.
My original belief on this issue was that I'm not a confrontational person thus I'd abide. But the more I thought about it, the more I couldn't rationalize myself into doing such.
Listen, if everyone calling themselves "man" was actually fitting to the social norms normally associated to males, then sure, it could work. We'd have some foundation of a definition. But that's not the case. We have people claiming these labels for any reason they so choose. And I don't see anyone accepting this gender identity and fighting against that behavior. So it seems that its accepted and part of the larger practice. And that's what I don't understand.
That's another can of worms.
You were discussing traits "encouraged in women". But these traits are actually ecouraged in females. That's the point I was making. Our society isn't encouraging anyone claiming a gender identity of woman to behave a certain way. They are encouraging biological females to act a certain way.
Can you help me out. I'm male. I like to crossdress. I believe I would have prefered to have been born a female, but am still comfortable in my male body, except for the basics of attractiveness and health. I fit many gender norms and stereotypes of both sexes. I just don't feel the need for a label though. I don't see how any one would begin to say anyrhing about me. And I reject non-binary because I reject the entire concept of gender identity. And I think the label itself gives of it's own impression that I don't want to associate with.
Like what? If you like your femine appearance, what does the "man" label tell me about you? No matter how you identified, you dress would simply tell me how tou liked to dress.
...I wouldn't. I don't think it's a very important descriptor.
I don't even understand the current definition. It seems to be some mix of national heritage and culture. But it seems with the passage of time, as we mix more and more, the reasoning of why and how certain races were formed, have and will lose meaning.
Yeah, it all seems so arbitrary to me as well. That's kind of my point.
Okay. Anything you want to believe about my personality, I'm actually the opposite. That's my choice. Accept it. ...once you've accepted that, I'm now going to be something completely different, because it's my choice. You keep mis-identifying me. Please stop. I'm also not at all a contrarian. I'm a vastly agreeable person. /s
Is man and he redundent then? It's grammar. "Look at that man" reads better than "Look at that male". "He carried the box" reads better than "the male carried the box". Especially after we've established a name. "Billy opened the door. He then closed it." They have different uses.
Male is a noun and adjective. Man is a noun. And he is a pronoun.
I still think it's illogical to "identify" to a socially constructed group classifciation. I completely agree with the complexities of individuals and how they don't fit into these group classifications. I just don't think adding more of them does anything to better that view.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I didn't say you were a man because you were masculine. I said you were likely masculine, because you told me you identified as a man.
My position is that you are a man if your gender matches society's implicit definition of man. Because genders are entirely constructed by society, even if many traits considered masculine or feminine are rooted in sex-based differences.
If I said I self-identify as Waria what would that communicate to you about me?
I find issue with this wording. Sex reassignment doesn't suddenly make that person have a gender matching their reassigned sex.
A treatment for gender dysphoria is to make the body match their internalized picture of themselves, aka self-identity. Their self-identity is strong enough to cause them psychological distress, and they are already the gender that they internalize.
I do feel like we're moving a little away from the topic. Using man/woman to describe gender, and distinguishing between gender and sex, is the main point. Whether you think they "don't qualify" for using the term man/woman doesn't really matter, because the trend is indicating that society is making this distinction in language. I can try to tell you all day why this is logical, but if you disagree that's ok.
Using a pronoun that matches your self-identity. For some, beginning to transition and live full-time as the gender matching their self-identity, and choosing to ignore or follow whichever societal conventions they want.
Or, generally, doing whatever they want that makes them happy and less-dysphoric. Regardless of which conventions they're following or breaking.
How do you think we scientifically discuss sex and gender? They are already distinct. We have distinct terms to refer to them. We can pick language that is specific to the societal side or the biological side of things.
I still have not been convinced that classifications require barriers to the extent you seem to want them. You even admitted that the classification of "race" exists but has changing or poorly-defined barriers.
There are constant discussions and debates over which species should be grouped together, where to draw lines for species vs sub-species. Those grey areas don't make the created classifications wrong or rejected, there is just not a complete consensus when all of the information is not available.
Self-identity is even harder to classify, because it is reliant on self-reporting and professional opinions of psychologists to study.
"Masculine" traits are traits associated to Men in the USA. Other cultures have genders with mixes of masculine and feminine traits, but those are relative to the culture.
Some people spend years researching and debating what gender is and how it is defined. I will probably do a poor job, but I can try:
"Man" is the term we created for the gender of a person that exhibits some implicitly-agreed-upon traits. In Western culture these are generally "masculine" traits and many male-sexed individuals identify as this gender.
You haven't answered if you would call them a Woman or Man.
Sexual orientation is based on the gender you are sexually attracted to.
I would consider Heterosexuality a sexual attraction to the gender opposite of your own. As a heterosexual man, I am attracted to women.
If it was based on Sex alone, a heterosexual would be attracted to a masculine person as long as they have a vagina. I don't think that really holds up; while genitalia may play a vital role in compatibility and attraction, sexuality is more specific to perceived or known gender.
I was talking about someone genetically male, chromosomally, but with externally-visible indications of being female. They were mis-sexed at birth, then later in life discovered that biologically they are male.
I was not talking about how you would classify their sex. Rightly so, you have declared them intersex. But is their gender Woman or Man? I would still call them a Woman if that was consistent with their (unchanged) self-identity.
Small side note. Testes aren't always descended before birth.
Not simply empathy. It is also providing a distinction between sex and gender, which are accepted as distinct. Even if you don't believe they are.
I agree that society does reinforce female-sexed individuals to act certain ways. If a person feels their self-identity is closer to the way society defines Woman, even if their sex does not align with the typical sex that is placed in that role, then that person may make changes due to the societal pressure and standards for what it means to be a Woman. Both cisgender and transgender individuals can conform to that pressure.
Society is defining what it means to be a Man or Woman. Western society was fairly uncreative and defined two genders to match the two sexes. It was not thought of to distinguish between them, until we learned more about self-identity and psychology. And now, if a person wants to conform to and holds a self-identiy consistent with one of those genders, we refer to them as that gender.
Agender. There's probably a few different terms but I don't know that there's consensus for "I don't believe anyone has a gender identity." Do you live your life completely blind to all gender?
What you claim is your personality is only one small part of your actual personality, especially when demonstrated in actions.
I accept everything you said as your portrayal of your personality. Taking in that information among other sources, I then form a view of your personality as contrarian, internally and externally inconsistent, and intentionally obtuse.
If a person claims they are a certain gender, acts like they are a certain gender, has gender-specific traits and behavior that conform to society's expectations of that gender, and want to be referred to as that gender, then I will refer to and consider them as that gender.
Is the primary focus of the sentence to communicate the sex of the individual you are referring to? I don't see your point here. Keep using he/him when referring to Men. The fact that it is "that man" communicates to me that I am looking for a type of person with masculine traits, not that I'm looking for a person with a penis.
Unfortunately, our society loves to put people into easily understood categories. It sounds like you think everyone should entirely drop the concept of "man" and "woman."
We aren't adding classifications. Two genders are widely recognized: Man and Woman. Sex is not as important as Gender unless their biology is specifically under discussion.
Remix2Cognition · 1 points · Posted at 14:40:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Based upon It's definition, that you're likely an Indonesian Male who considered themselves a woman. I have no idea how you interpret woman though. And why you are rejecting any label of man tied to your biologic sex of male. I might imagine you'd dress and behave a certain way, but that would be quite sexist to believe any such stereotypes as your true individual self.
That brings up another question. If "man" is someone who simply buys into male stereotypes, how should sexism be observed? If a man is a man for having a dominant personality, does that then excuse the personality? Or if we then tell men to not be dominant, does that make them less of men?
You want people to be defined by stereotyoes as we are attempting to deconstruct them. It just doesn't make sense to me
So you would be attracted to self identified women if they had the sexual characteristics of a male? You don't think it's homosexual for a person with a penis to be penetrated by another person with a penis?
Because, let's not forget, gender identity isn't held to these sex barriers. One can be transgender and still be fine with their body.
That's why I hate the term gender dysphoria. It lumps two completely different things together. Sexual reassignment would only be a treatment for trans people who have body dysphoria. Many don't have that. Many seek to simply seek social acceptance for their gender expression. And sexual reassignment could offer that (as appearance of a gender would gain better acceptance within the community), but could actually result is body dysphoria that didn't previously exist. That's why we very clearly need to separate them.
But "gender" can be decided for any reason. If you were attracted to a woman and then they identified as a man for the same reasons you were attracted to them, you'd become unattracted?
You keep explaining gender as something we agree on. We clearly don't. And the "trans community" would be the first to day so.
That's why I'm not understanding your position. Because it's not dealing with the reality that people arent defining gender identity based upon these "social norms", they are allowing claim for any reason tue individual so chooses.
Like I said, if people were consistent to the their gender to this larger idea of gendered social norms, then their is some understanding there. The fact we aren't, is why I'm confused. And why I don't think you're actually addressing my confusion.
I know, I personally had one undescended testical.
But you keep tying gender to gender norms which are then tied to sex. The fact that a certain behavior is tied to "men", is because most all "men" are males and males have acted a certain way to be observable and recorded.
These gender norms were created by observing males and females, not taking record of how each indvidual identified. If you don't believe that, then we're never going to come to an understanding.
No. Man and Woman aren't genders. They are descriptors of attributes that are assigned to male and female as "normal".
I agree that gender expression should be actualized. I'm however arguing against your link to the labels of man and woman.
All gender? I'm not sure of what you're speaking. I observe social norms that attempt to assign me as a male to specific things. I don't think if I don't fulfill that, I'm not a man. Because I simply see male and man as the same thing. I understand not fitting to social norms of behavior, thought, etc.. That just makes one's gender expression unique to those attributes.
I observe unique individuals who act and thinking individually. Individuals of one group of "men", would be vastly different from one another. There would be some similarities, but I'd tie any similarities to the fact they are males, not based upon how they identified. If a female was behaving and thinking "like a man", then that's simply a female that shares some atrributes normally associated to males. She would be an outlier to our historical observations based around sex. She would be just another unique individual.
Exactly!! It's my portrayal. You wouldn't just accept it, you'd challenge it on your own beliefs.
You seem to be agreeing with me now.
Okay. What if they claim a certain gender for their own reason, that seems truly justified and rational from their point of view? Where they disagree with your claim of what "gender specific traits" are?
That's what I'm arguing against. Again, if everyone that wanted to claim indentity to "man" was buying into the social expectations of "men", then yeah, I agree there is some understanding there and I could see how you'd then accept that. But that's not how everyone is using gender.
You aren't addressing my concern. We are talking past one another. If you're not going to acknowledge the people who claim identity, but still don't fit the the norms associated to such, then this conversarion is pointless.
You'd most likely be looking for the person with observable masculine traits (such as facial and body structure). Which have been specifically formed from observations of males.
Again, I think you're ignoring the massive link between sex and these gendered labels (I'd call them the same thing). You say they are strongly distinct, how?
No. That they should remain tied to male and female. And that a person of any sex can have any gender expression they want. That a female "acting like a male" is simply that, not a "man".
Well gender expression consists of basically all behavior. Because you're simply observing anything an indiviudal does and thinks and assigning it to a group classification. So of course that's more important. I feel like you think you made a point, but there isn't one.
The question is if linking that behavior to sex has any utility. That if I act the way that males normally have and have been identified as "masculine behavior" or the behavior of a "man", that I then am to idenify myself as a man. Rather than being a female that simply didn't follow the historic norms observed.
sacesu · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Final comment, I did want to say I appreciate the civil discussion we've had so far. This article is a specifically aimed towards physiologists, but I thought it was an insightful look at the importance of this distinction. If you'd like to learn more, I think it provides a compelling substitute for my clumsy attempts at an explanation.
https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/japplphysiol.00376.2005
LoveNowAndForever · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i want to die
SilverOvias · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming, I've spent hours watching online videos and reading what I can, but it's all just gibberish and I rather just copy and paste stuff instead.
And people who religiously complain about having a weight problem (without motivation to speak about it) and never do anything about it.
TheHambjerglar · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whether the stupid shit Reddit says about rent is indicative of mindboggling stupidity or a really bad send of humor.
gayPenguin_nootnoot · 1 points · Posted at 21:26:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why some people are homophobic
jinx_is_fire · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people get to know each other? Like I’ve been friends with the same three people for almost 7 years and I don’t know everything about them
Chowmeen_Boi · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Politics
(I'm American)
bitterreddituser · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
Bekfast_Time · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who deny scientific evidence due to their beliefs or feelings. It’s mind boggling and incredibly frustrating, especially because I’m surrounded by people like that, live with them.
RussoSwerves · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have these strange sporadic moments where I can really deeply hear my voice and breath, it strongly reverberates in the head and it feels like the sound in one of my ears is deadened so I scrape around in the earhole and maybe smack it to try and get the feeling of sound back. I would've just put it down to some medical condition but it's something that only ever happens a handful of times per year...but it also happens in the middle of class so it's really bothersome whenever it comes up. No clue what to make of it.
webux101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
where my scissors are
imanwell · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take advantage of the weak
j0eycrack · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures, and the Dutch.
Nite124 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Crossover SUV craze
olihlondon · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Makes no sense to me.
SleepWalkersDream · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some people find economics class fun.
midgetfaucker69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
kim_jong_un_no_dong · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people as you why you cant remember something?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
I was raised in a household where, from 0 - 5, I went to a church/temple of sorts maybe twice a year. However, over that period, my parents lost their faith and we never went since.
I just don’t get why people need it or want it.
Finttz · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who hate a specific game and shit on people for liking the game, we should let them play regardless you like it or not and not scold them
Lightmareman · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would get a septum piercing, or what its appeal is. Like to me it looks like youre either trying to look like a bull, or you got a shiny metal booger hanging from your nose at all time.
J0LTED · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly dont get why people give a shit when it comes to calling out a video as fake. Like okay, I guess that guy knocking an apple off his gf's head was fake. Not sure why that particularly matters. Obviously this doesn't apply to news videos and things that matter. But a random fun video on reddit? I really dont care. Let me believe.
On top of that, Grammer's nazis on this site are apparantly out of hand. I'm always seeing people's edits saying something like "yes okay I didn't mean to type their when I should have said they're*". Honestly can't see why people give a shit about such minor inconsequential details. If you know what they mean, and it's clear it's a typo or grammar error why go to the effort to message some random about it? Just nutty.
VastNature8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-Binary people. I seriously do not understand. I listened to a podcast from the Washington Post a couple months ago and I found myself getting mad at how this person acted and the way they led their life.
fttw · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm preparing to get downvoted here, but, from a leftists' point of view - liberals. I don't understand why you'd continue to play the moral high ground from an obviously hypocritical point of view when you could just be a lefty and leave all that partisan shit behind you
cocoguillen89 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
reagle2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job.
trock31313 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking fractions.
tattoodlez · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
DuckyBot592 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all the memes on r/politicalhumor are one sided and not funny. I get Trump May be bad but that sub is just people banding together making themselves look stupid with false information and misleading memes.
GE15T · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, after cycle after cycle of watching the Donkey and Elephant gangs lie, swindle, cheat, and pilfer their way into office and power, the majority of the "United" States still practically worships them like they are two anointed religions, instead of the two glorifies street gangs that they are.
Along with this, how a supposedly educated and enlightened populace totally buys into the lie that "every situation, issue, and problem, in all levels of governance (from federal, to regional, to state, to county/parrish, to city/local), can be boiled down to two blanket philosophies: "Liberal" or "Conservative", of which, there is no in between allowed, or deviating from the party-definition, lest you be cast out as a "kook", or evil "centrist"?
Our nation has become too stupid to deserve to continue...
JaJe92 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are extremely ignorant
jasmine-miller17 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School hours, nobody thrives waking up at 530
bhalrog24 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck people can not vaccinate their kids but have their pets vaccinated with the excuse “there are preventable diseases I don’t want my pet getting.” how fucking dense do you have to be??
biggboisupreme · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me but my friend doesn’t understand asexuality
Drizz2002 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polyamorous Relationships.
ReeseBass29 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can “care” about you and spend a lot of time with you and then one day drop you?
Rusty668sossity · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big Bang Theory. The scientists trying to explain it said that before the Big Bang, there was no time - time started with the Big Bang. Huh? My feeble mind just can;t grasp that concept. How can there be "no time"?
hellohellofellas · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How calling/texting/or anything internet related works. Like how do invisible waves in the air make it possible for us to talk to people on the other side of the world. I think I will never understand this.
DominatingLuck · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TheSubGenius420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How coding works. I think about how simple electronics with like motors and lights and even how chips have millions of different diodes(?) and try to figure out how they are coded and work but then I think about the actual code itself and then how even the code itself has a basic form which is 1's and 0's right? But then 1's and 0's has to have a basic form.(?) So I'm just at awe at the whole concept.
JTTooCold · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Destro666 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
yummymoon · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are willing to Believe almost anything they're told believably... I've red many spiritual guides and theological stuff and there's always lots of concrete wisdom to lead people to peace which could be enough imo but there always has to be something unbelievable and supernatural shit that gives me more questions than before..
tmurg375 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learned ignorance
Frockylikeslooking · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loan APR it's never made sense
DemetriCSR · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stoichiometry
BoonTheGoon21400 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
taithau · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency! It's like magic to me...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adults who purposefully act like toddlers. Whether it's because they think it's funny or are throwing legit tantrums. I just don't understand the motivation behind that behavior.
smallsyell · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cock and ball torture
Zircon_72 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why suicide is "bad", despite the fact it's legal (here in Canada, at least).
Solidclaw · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reddit hates fortnite so much it’s not the worst game ever there are worse.
freatr · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to have a large sum of money like 1 million us dollars. Like your life will get so boring and you won't be able to achieve anything.
Forlorn_Wanderer · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question.
Spaghetti_Bender8873 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don't get how Bitcoin or any crypto can change in value.
Crackracket · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of "Drag Race"
AnimeHound · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people bully. I just don't understand why, like does is make them feel better about themselves or something??????
Lilcoop · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my FUCKING BOYFRIEND can’t come home when he says he will be home????
gingiepet · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
Olly230 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I almost wrote a considered piece of text here to get lost in a comments section.
I wanted to communicate with the OP but at 14.2K comments its pointless.
Tmaster95 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time and nothing.
Before the universe existed, if it hasn‘t alredy existed (with a big bang, big crunch cycle), there HAS to have been something there... I just can‘t imagine how everything appeared out of nothing and if everything existed before then when and why did it appear? There has to be a beginning of everything and time, but there would technically be a time before that.
In theory an infinite number of time units must have passed by now and an infinite number of time units will be passed in the future. I can’t imagine how something can exist for eternity or appear out of literally nothing.
Maybe it doesn‘t make sense but I have to haven’t understood the principle of time and nothing correctly yet or it would be kind of a paradox. Maybe the solution would be that time isn’t linear and somehow it works that way, but I‘m not sure if a human can fully understand it.
StrikerX1360 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Mathematics is truly a cursed subject
Heinzme · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where personality comes from.
I know its a mixture of nature and nurture... but it boggles my mind that one person for instance, can have triplets and they're all quite different in temperament, discipline, emotional maturity, etc. They were raised in the same environment and womb. Add in neuroscience and psychology and I'm doubly lost.
guacamoles_constant · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have brand loyalty. Like yeah, sure, keep buying from the same brand because it fits you well or whatever. But refusing to buy from Nike because you're committed to Adidas, or getting outraged that a restaurant serves Pepsi instead of Coke... What??? These are multi-billion dollar corporations. Your brand loyalty is nothing to these people. Look out for yourself, buy the brand that gives you the most utility.
leeahbear · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks lol
g5_graphics · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do nice girls/ guys exist
StaticElectrician · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could enjoy or understand statistics
Dazz316 · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity.
I understand the effect it has in us, I understand how satallites orbit using gravitational force. The be effected if it are not lost on me.
But what IS it.
It's like wind. I understand the effect of has on me but I also understand how wind is created and where it comes from. Gravity I don't. What causes it?
Nurseang187 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebs Cycle
FunkyGamer101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
for the longest time, about 4/5 years, I had no idea what the joke "Why was 6 afraid of seven? becaus 789!" meant. I found out last year it actually means seven ate nine.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there are people who exist that dont have suicidal thoughts and dont have depression. I just csnt fathom having a clean mind
PoopLoofah · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suicidal thoughts are normal. It's the minds way of reacting when it is having trouble finding a way to cope.
People who claim to never feel depressed or contemplate certain things are not being completely honest or just haven't been there yet.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This isn't just feeling depressed. I'm talking about clinically diagnosed never-going-away depression. It's there when you go to sleep, and when you wake up all day, 24/7, 365.
And why do you say suicidal thoughts are normal? I've been looked at like a freak by some people when I tell them I have suicidal thoughts.
PoopLoofah · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not an expert, nor an educated professional. This is just my opinion.
I can tell you that going through depression is quite natural. There is nothing freakish about feeling that way. What I can tell you is that any of us can get in a situation where we need help. You have to remember that our brains are complex biological mechanisms that none of us fully understand. We’re all such a mess of chemicals and hormones, and I’m sure I’m not wording this in the best way but sometimes our brains can get stuck in a way, where a certain mood becomes the usual. An analogy would be like the wheels on a cart being stuck in a rut. The brain gets so used to producing an arrangement of, meaning an overabundace of some and even lack of other, certain neurotransmitters and hormones that that becomes our day to day mood. What we consider “our mood” is so insanely reliant on a complex mixture of chemicals produced by an organ that can sometimes get out of balance. We literally are that balance of chemicals.
To say that a certain arrangement is inherently freakish or unnatural is, I think, very short sighted and can be hurtful. It can be debilitating, and can be abnormal compared to that individual’s “normal” chemical balance. But comparing yourself to others in a matter of brain chemistry can do nothing but cause confusion and hard times.
To answer why I feel suicidal thoughts are normal, I have read and learned that the occasional contemplation of suicide is a natural response to prolonged stress when our brain’s usual coping mechanisms are not working. Like I said, I think people who say they never have those thoughts are either not being completely honest or have not gotten to that point where their coping mechanisms fail.
Personally, I have definitely had suicidal thoughts in periods of depression. I’m one of those weird guys who has accepted both the evil and light of the world in balance and I don’t run away from darkness but rather embrace it as part of me. Death doesn’t scare me and it is something that I can contemplate without being overwhelmed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:01:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What if it isnt occasional? I have suicidal thoughts every hour of every day, at least one thought of killing myself every hour. I have already made my plan for when I'm going to die as well.
PoopLoofah · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t really know. I think we can get into those situations and feel there’s no way out. I know the response is natural and can be expected and is no way “freakish” or wrong. I might could understand more if I knew more about the situation. You’re welcome to reach out if you want to. I’ll listen and give honest feedback.
I think if I was at that point I would be ready for something to change in my life. I’d be desperate for change. If I was getting to think the only way out was to die, I would probably be willing to try anything else. Another city, another country, all new people, new scenery, a whole world apart from where you’re at... I’d change every single thing around me on the off chance that it has to be better than what I currently was dealing with. I’d jump on a train or sneak my way on to a ship or I’d just hit the road. At least for a short time I’d be homeless, I’d work any job I could find, I’d be washing dishes part time and have done so in the past. They say running from your problems doesn’t really solve them but, sometimes a short term fix can make a world of difference.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have dreamed for moving away from my town. I want to go away where noone will know me and start all over, but I dont know how to do that. How would I live? Get money, etc. Moving away has sounded like a dream to me for so long
mejok · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disliking people because of their ethnicity, country of origin, and/or religion..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics
Ornery_Link · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The United States Educational System
Sapiencia6 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why computers work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the voice inside of our head works
FesteringFiesta · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In-person religious gatherings during a pandemic.
uselessdogg · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy expensive brand clothes to show off
-Captain- · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Killing people in games: great, lots of fun. A dog? No, I can't bring myself to do it.
In other words: the insane overreaction to dogs on the internet.
tom_stokes123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How can Schrodinger's cat be alive and dead or is it mathematically speaking?
JadenOD · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most CO’s have a bully mentality when they walk into work and just treat inmates like they’re not human, but rather that they are just low life scum and nothing more. Like at the end of the day, they’re still human. They just broke the law.
jimmywarrior · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find real clarity within my mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why hoard toilet paper? If I'm going to stock up it's gonna be things like butter, eggs, chocolate... FFS.
alex_carter11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I dislike getting into the shower and then once in, I dislike leaving the shower
LightningFlower01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think constructive criticism is the same as bullying. Constructive criticism is meant to help you and can make yourself and/or something you do better. Bullying is attacking you and tearing you down. Yet people confuse them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does a greens function work. I can derive it, but have no idea why that shit works.
fakegingereater · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4th dimension. I had many people, podcasts and videos of different levels (from very basic to advanced) of comprehension trying to explain the concept and my stupid brain can't absorb any of this. Generally l'm not an angry person, but 4th dimension makes my blood boil everyone I spend more than 10 seconds thinking about it
FESUCCINO · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why when Bleach you have all these Japanese mames, Ichigo, Rukia, etc. Then you have CHAD...
scottyLogJobs · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why cutting corporate tax rate improves the economy, unemployment rate, etc. As I understand it taxes are only paid on profits, so if you increased the corporate tax rate, wouldn't it encourage them to hire more people to lower their taxes, which would in turn increase growth over the long run?
I might have some fundamental misunderstanding or incorrect assumption, because I'm not exactly trying to make a point, as far as I'm aware a lot of economists disagree with that and think raising the corporate tax rate is a bad idea, so I'm genuinely looking for clarification.
camm44 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
difference between "effect" and "affect" been told so many times but I just doesn't sink into my brain. I need some sort of song or something to get it into my long term memory but there isn't any I guess.
Fried_Rice24 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i want to learn but dont have enough motivation to actually learn
Its_Just_Ranger · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all the fine girls are gold diggers.
Goats-are-the-best42 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t like dad jokes!
Yuya-Sakaki3736 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How babies learn languages like I get they hear others but how do they get a clear meaning of the words?
thekvant · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human consciousness and everything living overall. Like, I'm made out of essentially the same things as inanimate objects. How do I have emotions, how am I able to make decisions, how am I able to have senses, how am I even able to move my thumbs to type this? Do animals have thoughts? Some people could have a very different perception of reality, time or anything else, but as long as these senses are as strong as senses of other humans, we would never know. What is the point of living and what comes afterwards? How did we advance to the point of being able to connect with anyone else and have basically infinite access to the world's knowledge and take it for granted? I also find it insane how hard an average life is and how it's almost pointless and barely matters to anyone, this world system we have established, the beginning of the universe, the concept of infinity, how we can basically zone off and basically be unconscious and still complete tasks. I just can't wrap my head around how living beings work.
Heavns · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that are just born to understand math so easily. I can understand math up to college algebra (as that is what was required for me to know), but it never made concrete sense to me. It's just a part of my brain that doesn't click. But give me a paper to write, words to spell, or grammar to correct and I'm your guy. It sucks because I feel like math is far more needed in the career field im in.
cloutsilva · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
No1_4Now · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is a personality. People talk about it a lot these days and everything they say is contradictory with each other.
CaliforniaKid75 · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Porn addicts
-krizu · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who, actively try and change others to fit into their worldview
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw a post on here about blind people not seeing black but seeing nothing like what does that even mean
JamieCopp · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife's point of view.
ThatGuiTrent · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right now? Functions in math
samura1833 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Vanberk13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People being evil.
its_ya_g0rl_ari · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
ruaridhsummers · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers.
GoAvsGo17 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Epstein killed him self
bobbyegirl · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I just can’t get it
RavinDaveR · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Clopping.
Kristasista · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some Americans don't want universal health care.
StudioAtDawn12 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we haven’t all condemned China and Chinese made products? Why everyone in America is scared to talk about China being the evil world power they are, why I’m probably gonna be muted or banned or downvoted to all hell for talking about the CCP.
MockingCat · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people like fundamentalist Christians or trump cultists can willfully and consciously just override facts and reason as if they doesn't exist or aren't real and then just...believe it as if their fantasy is true.
To be fair, I also am boggled by people who believe in astrology, witchcraft, flat earth or Gwyneth paltrow goop. Humans are fucking insane.
Raz0rRamon · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bray Wyatt's popularity.
killalltinderfish · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans still support Donald Trump. He has proven multiple times that’s he is corrupt and doesn’t care about the American people but just fattening his ego and pockets. I’m saying this as an American.
jacksonsavvy · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can have all these ideas, but zero motivation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What based means
Fuduzan · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how you can just kill a man.
RumTonRum · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinks like scat. like... I just.. how do you even begin to be into this
Howie4MayorOfNoosk · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People in the medical field who are devoutly religious.
saucepan420_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?
DearYouu · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV and photographs work. It feels like pure witchcraft.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t support transgender people
dangshnizzle · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone with any empathy at all can be genuinely excited about Joeseph Biden
magicmanofmagic · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many things
skyyisgood · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monogamy. Like, if you love one person you’re not allowed to love anyone else? That’s whack
mzzyhmd · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intelligence of our president.
zeldanerd12 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Not a fucking clue what it all means. Tried to take it a few times and just never understood it.
ayush_2000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We can never understand what happened with big bang, like how did anything came to existence?
God_father94 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people cheat in a relationship
Kcorbyerd · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Increasingly large infinities and aliph numbers
JediPeach · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Opposition defiance disorder.
BedHeadBread · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern yugioh cards that have a 90-page thesis written on them in microscopic font.
By the time i read and understand the card my opponent just played, they'll have 8 more out on the field and i'll have a growing backlock of these single page books to catch up on. Seriously wtf konami?!
redditsimi · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who is at the beginning of traffic
QuackyWizard · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she doesnt love me
etchman97 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any and all chemistry
Il_Mil1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fashion world
palermored · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
thebananarepublic7-6 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some Apple users call non-Apple users poor.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad didn’t pull out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all this evidence coming up that the USA, we, knew since November about the out break. Our leadership did nothing and they aren't being held accountable.
Meli_oi · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
physics
primeirofilho · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. What the fuck do Sin, cod, tan, measure? What are logarithms? I even took calculus in college.
freedbutton · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why people panic bought toilet paper. I feel like I'm missing something.
hymn199999 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The notion of flavor
obamariah · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Measurements of any kind. I cannot estimate how big, long, or full something is. It just doesn’t make any sense to me. You could be a foot away from me but without a measuring tape, I couldn’t tell you that.
MarshallApplewhiteDo · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people vote based on purely selfish ideals, as if they live in a bubble. They vote as if they'll be a millionaire even though there's zero indication that they ever will be, and the things they vote for make it even harder for them to get there.
adog231231 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we've ended up with terrible candidates for the presidency for two elections in a row.
Savfil · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they can manufacture CPU's with several billions of transistors in the single digits nanometer range. The mind boggles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why these hoe ain't loyal
chinita1288 · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Workaholics - working 80-90-100 hr weeks when you're not the owner or founder? I get it when you're trying to start your own empire. But dedicating that much time to someone else? Nah, I'm good
northernptech · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that having the freedom to hold and express beliefs is a bad thing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When a Computer says it’s 100% even though it’s still loading.
irishmochi · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why politics is shit.
I dont care what side your on, Politics just sucks and I dont know how it got this way.
TheMatroid · 1 points · Posted at 21:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dont drink enough water
Wfhdhshsjsjskksjsjs · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Nickleback got rich and famous.
whisperskeep · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Porn
iLadelfia · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people
Ravenyxx · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make genuine friendships
honeyofthestars · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
fourthcrescent · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the female orgasm is so much better than the male.
CarefreeCastle · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SparkFlash98 · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people take it as a personal attack when someone likes/dislikes something the dislike/like.
xylvera · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being religious. I don't get it. I "know" some reasons why someone might be, but i don't understand it. It does not compute.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
DarkLunch · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries.
I have so. many. questions.
1) Can one change the species of their persona if they wanna try something else? Eg. Can a furry start as a wolf thing and turn into a cat thing.
2) Is any species game? Eg. Are there insect furries, fish furries, earthworm furries etc
3) Do the different species furries discriminate against each other? Eg. Do the canine furries talk shit about the feline furries.
4) Are mythical creatures off the table to be the sample species? Eg. Dragons, unicorns, bigfoots/squatches/yeties
Seriously, any furries out there willing to lend an ear?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
buddyblazer · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there's an infinite number of divisibility between two numbers.
LaVxlpes · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand automatic hand soap dispensers. This is because if you are going to touch them, surely youre going to wash your hands afterwards. Like the whole reason that there isnt a pump on them is so that germs dont reside on it but it surely doesnt matter cos youre going to be washing your hands anyway!?!?!?!?
likemikelikemike · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make my post get as many upvotes as yours
SaintLucien · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can act aggravating, be told that they are and why they are, continue to act the same way, and ask what they've done wrong later when tensions rise due to their actions and
Maddlee0702 · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed and power. Stepping on others to get to higher places. I just dont get it. Be nice to each other and work together. In my perfect world, no one is poor or disadvantaged. Everyones on the same level. In a perfect world.. but this planet is far from even nice. Maybe im just too empathetic..
the_onlyfox · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Janeway2000- · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who follow the royal family , I just don’t see why.
Erik_meme · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The american healthcare system, schoolsystem, gunlaws, why americans have the most ridiculous presidents, why there roads are sh*t, and some other things
Nitro_Spectre · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Stercore_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people become really angry. like it boggles my mind. i understand frustration and irritation, i go through that alot but i’m never really angry anymore.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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CapaxInfini · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You remember Morse code? How we translated language into dits or dahs? We evolved from that, now we use 1s and 0s. You can transport data hundreds of miles in the blink of an eye, then use a machine (computer) to translate the 1s and 0s into Never Gonna Give You Up 10 hour version on YouTube
SombreMordida · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the predatory business guys can do some of the shit they do to rip people off and be ok with themselves. how the guys that do shit like raping or beating some old lady don't spend all their time having terrible guilt ptsd for every terrible thing they have done to others. i get that no-one is the villain in their own story, but when one flexes like that in a way that damages others, once they know they're hurting people, how do they not just know it's wrong and stop? how can the pedos go though with damaging some kid ?how can the tv preacher ask for that old lady's or that poor bastard's money? how can the POSs live with themselves?
Acalson · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people will openly disagree with science because they’re stupid OR how people will instantly agree with science in that’s been disproven.
5G is corona? What...
Vaccines cause autism? How in the...
Earth is flat? Huh?!
More than two genders? But...
Climate change isn’t real? Where did you?
It boggles my mind people can’t stay objective when science and facts disprove your belief
meoe · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please no one take offence to this as I don’t mean any but I genuinely don’t understand how someone’s brain lets them believe in god. Even if I wanted to believe in it, there is nothing on this planet that could convince me. Basically it blows my mind that so many people believe in a god. ( I of course don’t have anything against it, these are just my thoughts)
blyetBoi · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math bro
GummibearFiend · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suicide from depression/mental illness. I know that will come across as ignorance and heartless but I just can't wrap my head around the thought process. My best friend tried to kill himself twice (he's doing brilliantly now) in front of me and I knew what he was going through. Even then I couldn't understand it. I'm sorry for anyone who has been this through and has lost somebody
cup-o-farts · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just can't fathom the sheer amount of things going on in this world. Billions and billions of interactions I'll never be privy to. Even just my next door neighbor, not to mention the person halfway around the world. Everyone has their own story going on right now and everyone of us is completely ignorant of it.
Point to one person you see and imagine what's going on in there mind or even just what the hell they are doing. You can't and you never will. This could quite possibly even be the case with your own family members, maybe even your spouse. They may have thoughts you'll never know. They may look at the exact same piece of clothing and see a different color green then you do and both realities are true.
It's mind boggling, and I don't even know what it really all means. More and more it feels as though I'm in my own version of the Truman show except it's not a show it's just like, life. Like every single person is their own dimension and two may never cross because, why wouldn't it be? If you and I can look at the exact same thing and see two different shades of red, the reality of the world is there are no truths.
Or maybe I'm just really high.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratics
isbutteracarb__ · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How or when we are going to return to normal life post-covid.
my-own-grandfather · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sin, cos and Tan.
I’ve tried but I just don’t understand how it works and always failed it in maths. Now 29 and still don’t know.
punk_rock_princess · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How college works. How mortgages work.
BuddyBilla · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced Math! I understand basic math, but when it comes to PIE3.14 SINTAN-... I give up.
rubbertoes193 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how something u see in real life can end up on your phone as a picture.
humdrummer94 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
VisualShock1991 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shotguns in CS:GO.
Judakis123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, algebra and up. I was homeschooled but was working full time from a young age and didn’t really do schoolwork. I had an opportunity to take adult education while collecting unemployment because my job of 6 years relocated to Mexico, and I tried to comprehend algebra and got a tutor and my mom tried to help me and it never clicked in my head. I tried so hard and it was like looking at hieroglyphics it made my head hurt so much I just said fuck it and got another job manufacturing. I’ve been a manager and I’ve managed budgets and production schedules and now I run a cnc machine, but I cannot comprehend algebra or show my work with math, I have my own method for doing math in my head and don’t know how to show my work and I’m really self conscious about it.
geace4l · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being shit on for not being interested in drinking or smoking.
Xiaxs · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese.
Jazel- · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics (I’m 14 so don’t know much)
ievfugbeidbeuwb · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I really struggle with even simple math like addition and subtraction. I will think I finally understand it, then keep failing a test.
SirRhor · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Integrals. I get Derivatives, I was able to solve them with my eyes closed in 1 second flat. But Integrals, for the life of me, it's like a completely alien language.
UsuallyMoot · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economy works.
Hagwill · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate.
outstandingperson · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How medications work.
Like you take this tablet that's supposed to alter the chemicals in your body. This small tiny thing can kill someone or make them live.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sound , speakers, wires that bring sound damn even ears
AXl0M · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so bad at DOTA 2.
Zachariot88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote against their own interests.
Unclear1nstructions · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are able to waste money like idiots. Come on, if you’re short on money why would you go get a tattoo as soon as your paycheck arrives? JUST SAVE IT
GreyRice · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bread. I took chemistry but still, I just look at the flour and then at bread and like... how the fuck
Godly_Enchiladas · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
spinfirexxxx · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like sao
jonhak28 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dam. I like it lol its enjoyable
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Low expectations
argyle9000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still honestly don’t understand electricity for the life of me. People and books explain it to me and I still just think it’s magic.
Lepraxhaun05 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin life man....
And how we're not dead yet😋😗✌️
Dutch_Koos · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can be perfectly fine speaking multiple languages. Without needing to be like "okay I'm actively translating this English word to Dutch in my head" No, at some point you just KNOW and it's so weird.
Charmle_H · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricty/modern electronics.
I've taken 2 year's worth of physics courses at the college level and I understand everything they've taught... EXCEPT ELECTRICITY. I'm pretty convinced it's witchcraft at this point, like a magnet moving near copper can produce an electric current, and better yet we learned to trick solid pieces of metal into thinking for us on levels we can barely comprehend. Like I understand that power goes in, it does some shenanigans, and that's that, I understand that. But how we, on a quantum level, go from moving an object to getting electrical power from it is absolutely absurd/a mystery to me. All of it is just so beyond me it's annoying.
SuperSuchti_Official · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how a putting a CD in your car makes music. Like I've had it explained to me so many times and it just does not compute. Flat plastic disc = complex sounds? Drives me nuts.
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
CDs aren't actually flat. They have a billion tiny marks that can't even be felt by a human hand. Only using certain machinery (radios) can read them. This is why CD scratches really fuck up the content. The tiny bumps are now unreadable.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But how do the bumps translate to music?
GKrollin · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If Trump has mismanaged Covid so badly, why is New York City responsible for like 1/3 of us infections
lwweezer21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti Vaxx mentality. It’s so weird to me. How can people think they know better than doctors, why doesn’t like 99% of the population have autism if we’re almost all vaccinated. They’re so stupid it’s hard to understand, and I’m not exactly the sharpest tool in the shed.
Fedwardd · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WiFi routers vs modems?
Like why does my ISP give me both modem and router, when the both of them have the cox cable input.
gekkebekketrekke · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that don’t “believe” in vaccines
Lpokm40 · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
algebra
-gaius-octavius- · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Infrared-Velvet · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how quantum computers work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people have to eat bats or other wild animals.
fabsfav · 1 points · Posted at 21:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating. I don’t understand why people do this without regarding the SO’s feelings.
Gay-People-Rights · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Pathfinder21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. Even after getting private tutoring all thru school I never could grasp more than a single variable equation. I passed my classes by showing up every single day and turning everything in and then getting a D on the tests.
ElfPaladins13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why every time I play league of legends my top lanedecides to balls deep hard ints.WHY IS IT ALWAYS TOP!?
Leowong8225 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How advertisements put on the internet (like YouTube ads) are profitable, I skip or ignore every single one of them.
Charly3003 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economy
TheRandyPlays · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My unit in math
cider303 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US us ignoring blatant corruption and Trump is still in office
strangeroutonight · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinitesimal calculus
aboxofchalk · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jellyfish.
1tacoshort · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alternative facts. We can all legitimately disagree about the interpretation of the facts or what to do about them but facts should be facts.
Deviltattoo · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't understand or deal with unironical humor/dark messed up jokes or comedy. IE (making fun of topical things such as racism, death, all those kinds of topics). I'm not trying to poke fun at those things, I'm making jokes for people to laugh at.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics. And I’m American
kaitmill · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what your blood pressure is a measure of
DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When did time start?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratics lol
Loaded_A · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mind
Deshik2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my cousins had and now my niece have crush on me
Lana_Del_J · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My love for French women
stoopid_person_6 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter how much I sleep I’m always tired
robertbreadford · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How little some people know to be convinced that 5G caused the pandemic, and how hard they stick to the bullshit when presented with real data on a silver plate.
BeeGassy · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I have been struggling with a couple of different thing so let me list them and why they have been so hard for me to understand.
How people get REALLY good at computer science. I'm a junior in college studying computer science and honestly I have been carried by homework partners. I understand that it's a combination of looking up problems you have and practice but I guess the thing I'm still trying to figure it out is the following.
How to turn someone who you are friendly with into a good friend. I have really good friends but honestly the way we all became REALLY good friends was kinda a fluke. We kinda are all just still hanging out together and have continued to grow the friendship. How can I meet new people and turn them into life long friends that I can count on and truly want to spend time with.
Why some people want "friends" that are really more like drinking buddies or casual friendly acquaintances. There are so many people in have met that seem perfectly fine (I'm sorry I don't know how else to say this) friend zoning a potential friend. It's almost as if they can see that you want to put in the extra work and keep you in this awful casual purgatory.
How people without parents are able to fill that void. I grew up without my mom and I feel like because of it I'm missing A LOT of lessons people with moms generally get taught. It's hard to name an example because they are generally nuances that come up with a conversation or the way I behave but they show clearly I know when I'm showing them. If you are someone that feels like you were able to get past this and learn these nuances how did you do it? I've been to counseling and everything and explained this and they always seem to just give me a "I understand" face or explanation.
I have a lot more questions that I truly don't understand but those at the moment are the big 4.
LoungeChair98 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Climate change deniers
TheElderCouncil · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How texting/instant messaging works.
I know the concept, but I just don't get it.
ATCaseasyas123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
demexo · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics.
clintonimus · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Working with teens, and I genuinely believe they are more racist than Gen X and the millennials ever were. Have you ever seen TikTok? Holy shit are there some smug, hateful young people out there.
simoney_3215 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greek mythology. How did it start? Who came up with it? Is it based on real people??? Just confusing
Tyrannicide31 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time travel could be possible through string theory and a 4th dimension. I can’t get over the mental block that’s saying time isn’t a tangible thing that can be travelled over because it’s essentially a social construct to keep everything organized
oehoe21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Hated it at school although my teachers insisted I had aptitude. Took my GCSE 3 times (passed second time with a B). Just agh.
kengerbenger · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the richest people in the world can single handedly unfuck most of the world's problems but dont do it.
thelastsamuraiii · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics- I really wish to understand the basics, I am an engineer and never studied it
TimeReputation · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's see...sexism. More specifically how women and men are under a different set of disadvantages and sometimes use said disadvantages against the opposite sex. Racism. Particularly racial slurs. Words born of hate and being taught to our future generations. Bipartisan politics and the stereotypes they imply. If you're not red or blue through and through, your labeled the problem. Westboro Baptist Church. Fuck those assholes. And shame on them for their actions. Job interviews. Most interviewers will not call you and tell you no job for you. They just leave you hanging. That's just rude and unprofessional. And lastly, people who insist on commenting on anything. In the USA, you have freedom of speech. That's a given. But there are still repercussions for the words of your mouth.
Saalieri · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans can virtually worship some animals (cats, dogs, etc) but will have absolutely no problem killing cows (which are equally sentient compared to said cats or dogs) for food.
Same people will get angry at the Chinese for eating dogs but will mock Hindus for not eating cows.
badantoni · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trynna rant or trynna to be funny I genuinely don't understand women. Like how can a topic that we've joked about with you making fun of me for it so many times and us just laughing it off become a whole fucking drama when I do it to you
CapaxInfini · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like saying a yo mama joke to a person who's mom died of cancer. It may be funny when directed at person A but not to person B, even if Person B watched the joke to Person A. Because person B is now thinking about HIS mom instead of Person As mom. It's just a matter of reading the room.
badantoni · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yh but like I understand that I didn't specify the issue cause its genuinely not that deep actually. Basically I'm on about like playfully calling a friend, close one at that like a slut or a bitch as a joke. Cause like she would always make fun of me for having shirtless pics and bulge pics of myself when I looked the best I ever have but this one time we were just talking and like I showed her a post on insta about how girls all have that one song that turns them into a stripper and she said true and I so blatantly jokingly said slut and said jokes quickly after and she got so pissed off at me
badantoni · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean we don't talk anymore but what bothers me is that ppl saw how ridiculous the situation was but only because a guy and she's a girl, it's unacceptable
Ctrl_Alt_Delett · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works. I legit know nothing about how it works it just happens.
mirrorwonderland · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How spaceships can fly in the vacuum of space. Isn’t the ‘air’....’empty’? It seems like no air means no go...no friction or way to hold the ship? Idk. It makes my brain hurt when I try to visualize it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
wolley_dratsum · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity
hails___ · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks! I want to invest so bad right now because I know the tourism industry will take off again in the next year or two but I don’t know where to begin!
Riptide-Shadow · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and why things that work with some things don’t work with those same things even though they have the same answers.
f1fan6890 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths....My worst enemy...
KaptainGrumbles · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy and why it persists in a way that makes money less valuable.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics and stock market
Artistic_Milk · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My parents and their old-school mindset
pageantdisaster · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers can recognize the sound of your voice.
Spirit_of_the_dusk · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that when i was a baby i would try to shove 3 pacifiers in my mouth the curl both my feet behind my head
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people who are sneezing on and licking the produce at the grocery store during the covid-19 crisis.
MotherFatherGentle · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything to do with politics
GovernmentLady · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The balk rule in baseball.
nauticalsandwich · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fandom. I don't mean "really liking and enjoying something," I mean truly "fanatical," I mean the kind of fandom that has you buying a lot of related memorabilia or branded products just because of the association, or screaming and crying or utterly speechless in the presence of the subject to which you are a fan (e.g. Beyoncé, the Jonas Brothers), or going to a movie revolving around the subject even if the reviews are terrible (e.g. Star Wars).
I have been a "fan" once in my life. It was when I was very young. I was a fan of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Since then, I can't think of anything I have ever been fanatical about. I have had the experience, and I still don't understand it.
Dman64w · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How spongebob's house has corners despite being round
Why the cake is a lie
Why British education is a lot more stressful than American education
The list can go on.
ArtworkGay · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How religion started. One day someone made up stories and that dominoed into millions and millions fully believing every word.
-TheDyingMeme6- · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any math that's more advanced than like, idk, 7th grade?? (Says the person who wants to become a robotic/ electrical engineer)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What nothing feels like. Where did my conscious come from before birth and where will it go after death? How will I feel? I guess I won't feel at all... But what does that feel like then? Lol.
username-----1122 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin mining
lettiestohelit · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
infinite space
Be_Or_Not_To_Be · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty good at robotics, more interested in the mechanical aspect of things, though I do understand modules, sensors, programming etc. The one thing I don't get is how processors work. For example: ATmega, ATtiny. How does that thing have so many "legs" that can do so many separate things in that space? How does it work? What's inside of it?
EngagementBacon · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend.
sageagios · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m still depressed despite seeing a psychiatrist, receiving medications, seeing a psychologist, and having friends and family that care about me.
chknnoodsoup · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking, everything.
1729yH · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
STONKS !
TheDoctore38927 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people smoke
dexxxxxXxxxxxter · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so stupid regarding religion? Should there be any religion if that improves the condition?
Scorppio500 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the bloody crisp fuck the sky is blue and not violet.
EXACLY_Apollo · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much about what others think of them. Live your life men don’t stop yourself from doing something just because someone thinks it’s weird or dumb!!
Pasan90 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones or the Internet work. How I can write a shit post to someone on the other side of the earth and they get it at the same moment. Or how I can hold a conversation with someone in the US and they get what I'm saying the moment I say it from the other side of the planet. What wizardry.
Pincurchin0975 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers that accidentally prove the earth is round and still believe the earth is flat
RealKenny · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How things like shorting the stock market works. Is that money just coming out of thin air?
benshapiro67 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
mancramps · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay so quantum physics--is there a simple way to understand how everything is basically just a wave function or however you put it
anmae20 · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How White women can vote for Trump.
MiloPuck · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Chairish · 1 points · Posted at 21:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone supports Trump.
CartoonAsriel · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people discriminate furries. Please, just hear me out. I'm sure a good amount of furry discrimination is just people being trolls, but there are plenty of people who do have genuine problems with how furries are. The nsfw art they make, the lewd fursuits, I do admit these exist and are furry material. HOWEVER. It seems to me that some people are only aware of/only think of these materials when it comes to furries and not acknowledging the full entirety of the furry community. Furries aren't an entirely nsfw group. They do also create age-friendly content and other normal things as well. Keep in mind that "normal" people have their sexual desires too. They're no different from the group they're accusing. Another point I want to make about this topic, imagine if humans were replaced with anthropomorphic animals and therefore never existed. Even without humans or knowledge of their existence in such a world, I don't think there would even be much difference in their society compared to ours. They have their own lives with their own jobs, hobbies, troubles, etc... Furries are people too. They're barely any different from "normal" people.
Thank you for reading this. If you have something to say, I'll allow it. I'm open to seeing other people's discussion, whether it's in agreement or not.
aaabbbcccdddaaaa · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I met a group of them and I can certify that the group are all head cases. Especially when I a little boy walked up to a person whom was stuck between being a mom and a dad and he called it Dad. I felt super sorry for that child.
WeirdGuyStudios-Boyo · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
PwnedDead · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get how binary works, I don’t understand how someone made a graphical interface for electrical pulses. I also don’t understand how, when new technology comes out, how they build application programming interfaces in general.
Patches67 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck these god damn 5G conspiracy idiots find their theories easier to believe than a pandemic simply being real.
LiFuMac · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arabic
dtswinga · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin and Blockchain
trolltruth6661123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
electricity
meaningless-comment · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Little kids' sense of humor. I don't think i could ever be a mom because I just don't understand children. They're so... Energetic? But grumpy and fussy at the same time? And they laugh at dumb stuff? And they can do the same thing over and over again with the exact same result every time and still laugh at it? I just don't get it, and it's even more confusing to me how people like my brother can get along with them so well, like they just keep going along with whatever the little kid does. I can't do that, I get too pissed off by that
nananaNate8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animal abuse
TayTae1321 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Klatelbat · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will probably get shit for this, but I'll be honest.
I don't understand the prospect of being trans. Don't get me wrong, I'm not homophobic, and I don't judge these people or treat them any differently, I just don't understand it. I don't understand how someone can believe that they are something that, biologically, they are not.
To me, being trans is pushing gender stereotypes rather than removing them. "I have a penis, but I am significantly more feminine, and relate more to things that are feminine. Therefore I must be a woman." No, you are just a dude that likes things that society calls feminine.
If you are a man and you like other men, you enjoy wearing makeup, you feel more comfortable amongst women, you got breast implants and dress like a stereotypical woman, then be that. Just be a dude that does all those things cause that's what you are. You are a man, regardless of what society might think. And vice versa obviously.
If someone wants to explain this to me, I am all ears, cause like I said, I genuinely don't understand it.
NTdoy500 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we receive phone signals in our phones. I get there’s satellites but how exactly our phone receives it I don’t get.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can't comment here. It's NSFW.
AlexzMercier97 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll never undeestand the "couples can't like or support each others hobbies" mentality. I think it's more of a "boomer" thing, but I still see it quite often. The whole "oh man the wife is gonna kill me for spending 200 bucks on this action figure!" thing is so awkward. Roles can be reversed of course, but I primarily see it with married men who are into collectables.
rae_pist · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
school systems and what they’re required to teach
CptnAwsm817 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people fight to pay the check after eating at a restaurant.
currentsofsaturn · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes can fly. Trust me, many people have tried explaining it to me, I‘ve watched so many videos on how it works. But a heavy object just flying does not make sense to me. Whenever I’m in a plane I wait for the moment where physics realize - Oh wait! This doesn’t actually make sense lol .
zoggyy · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The understanding of culture
Hcmp1980 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
MossBone · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still desperately try to open the door at where I work despite there being multiple signs on the same door instructing them to wait.
LastgenKeemstar · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.google.com/search?q=pressure+at+bottom+of+different+containers&client=ms-unknown&tbm=isch&prmd=sivn&sxsrf=ALeKk01M0gmvEoh8kppFb3vlOFYX1GfwMg:1586640773735&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj_vM69qeHoAhXwSBUIHaYsDqgQ_AUIEygC#imgrc=FGnQ3IYTYT0imM
How is the pressure the same at the bottom of the last container? I'd understand if the pressure reading was taken directly under the neck of the container since it would have the weight of the water above it, but the pressure exerted anywhere in the bottom section will be roughly the same. If you've got, say, 1 litre of water in the neck then that's 1kg, which is 10 Newtons of force. But that force will have to be spread out over the entire surface area of the container, so surely if you were to expand that bottom section the pressure would decrease? But in reality it doesn't.
This means if you had a box of water the size of Manhattan that is only a metre deep, simply adding a column of water anywhere that is 1 metre high, no matter how narrow, would supposedly double the pressure throughout the entire box of water. How?????
mrGeaRbOx · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics.
tinypp23 · 1 points · Posted at 21:38:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I'm riding in a car with someone and they have their music blaring and the bass is literally shaking the entire car as a whole.I don't understand why people like to put modified speakers into their car systems and turn the volume up to blare some stupid mumble rap.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
y ppl hate me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uninformed voters, shaming me for thinking biden is trash
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have all the knowledge in the world about certain things, but make no active choices to change.
The best example I have that will undoubtedly be downvoted is eating meat. There are people who have all the resources, did not grow up hunting, there’s no moral or ethical reason to do it and they have seen the videos, and even understand that these animals do not want to die, but refuse to give it up “because bacon.”
Or those who continue to vote for their class enemies aka the republican or Democratic candidates in the US. These people think black people or immigrants or white people or men are the enemy, but it’s the puppet masters who are making sure the candidates they pay get into power.
Or, in Trump’s case, although he wasn’t bought, he has class consciousness and solidarity with his fellow elites and does right by them.
vajaybajay · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
NihilistElfPrincess · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
can someone gently explain everything to me
liamalain · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say something is the exception that proves the rule. Mystified me for years.
walkoflife99 · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of different themes in mathemathics confuse me so much and I feel absolutely stupid for not understanding. Everyone else seems to find it so simple and I'm usually completely lost.
MediumSky · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Renaissance is so overrated. I understand that it was a giant movement in the art world.... but why does it have to be shoved down into Art majors’ throats
maybombs · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the factory seal has not been improved upon. They've got the tab as if you can simply peel it back but the reality is you usually have to stab it.
killalltinderfish · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics I absolutely cannot phantom how to connect the equations, then I will read the textbook and become even more confused.
feetue · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Console wars. To me they're mostly the same thing. I cant relate though cuz I have a PC
mdwoods · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what I can't grasp? That there is no center to the universe. To me if it all started at a point of singularity then that point had a physical location. That should be the center but I'm not getting something quite right. I've heard the balloon analogy and that doesn't help because the balloon has a center. Oh well, not the only thing in the cosmos I don't get. :)
issibissi · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science. I get an A on all the tests but in the end I don’t understand anything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia and racism.
carpentervr · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't get how health insurance costs are calculated.
Phurga · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people stop being able to learn new things past a certain age.
lfxlPassionz · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People dating assholes that they don't even love.
I've only felt sexual attraction for one guy in my life and my brain just cannot understand a relationship without the love and commitment that I need in order to even feel sexual attraction.
I know that it happens and it's not the person's fault but my brain cannot ever understand it. I cannot fathom how someone could abuse that trust either.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra Never understand it before and never will now
StephenJP33 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic. How can I be bumper to bumper one minute and then the next it’s all clear?
livinin82 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keys and Chords.
lacefishnets · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can see Donald Trump completely two different ways. Some people see a corrupt, wannabe dictator, and idiot, a babbling fool. Some people see a successful business man, a good person, a good Christian, and is doing everything right.
I. Don't. Get. It. and it nearly keeps me up at night because my brain feels like it desperately needs to understand.
placer000 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the F this works...
rainandpain · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stoichiometry... sob
BackSlashZro · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. How do a collection of neurons evolve one day and think, and realize they are thinking, and then are.
Yalloy123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life lol
StealAllThose · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
reyan4487 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gold experience requiem from JOJO’S bizarre adventure part 5 Vento Auero. I’ve read about it watched the show and I still don’t understand it
Shotkong64x · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The double slit experiment frustrates me to no end when I think about it.
X-Mewtwo · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How online connections works,i mean, how created the online signals?
Silpelit19 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that little eye twitch thing. It's random, lasts less than a second, and at most makes me lose where i was in reading a sentence.
its been happening several times a day lately and i dont know why.
Please someone tell me im not the only one who has this.
ButterBun3600 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That when I'm cold I cover up in a blanket and then two seconds later I am sweating them I get out of the blanket then I'm freezing cold again
imperial_age · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does “so long” mean goodbye?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people have kids with someone to hold them down?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printing.
Rocktamus1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we want more than we need?
NuclearLavaLamp · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Thought experiments about consciousness.
1 - If you stepped into a teleporter that destroyed you in one location and rebuilt you with atomic perfection in another area, the first you would be dead. Then, the second you would have no idea the first you died. Everybody would assume teleportation is working perfectly, with a transfer of consciousness, when in fact, the original copy of you would be vaporized and dead.
2 - If I cloned myself with atomic perfection, which one is the real me? How do I know I’m real, since both would remember creating the clone?
3 - What happens if you sawed someone’s brain in half and somehow connected it to half of your brain? Also, what if they then took your half-brain and connected it to their brain? Which one is you, and which one is them? Which person would you remember being? Would you have memories from both you and them?
4 - If conjoined twins somehow shared part of their brain, do they have a sense of individuality? Or, do they sense themselves as one person? Do they both think about the same thing in one brain, and if one is studying, are both learning that information?
5 - For conjoined twins, if you tickle their feet, do they both feel it?
Edit: Apparently 4 and 5 have really happened.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krista_and_Tatiana_Hogan
This is so unbelievably mind-blowing - especially the part about them communicating with each other from within their own mind, and seeing though each others’ eyes. This is so hard to comprehend.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What for does life exist and why the fuck do we live
radicallywicked · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly - photos. And capturing sound and video for that matter. I just don’t get it.
G33kyArmy · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is weird, but truth tables. I swear, my philosophy prof has said since the beginning of semester that it'll click eventually. Four months later, and it still hasn't.
This course is about critical thinking, and I often call it "how to debate" the class. Took it to fill a 'critical competency' credit. The prof is great, course was interesting, the truth table crap is just not clicking for me, no matter how many times I review notes and look for video explanations.
HaVeNII7 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This’ll be controversial. I can already feel it. But I honestly don’t understand trans people. I’m a bisexual man, and definitely not the most manly guy out there. Pretty feminine as far as personality goes. But I’ve never once felt like my sex, sexuality, or ANYTHING of that nature defines me. It’s simply natural, and so, not something to yearn for, be proud of, ashamed of, etc.
It simply doesn’t make sense to me, because I cannot understand attributing value to, or being ashamed of, things that are just...there. Why would someone want to change something that intrinsic to themselves, rather than learn to accept it, and see the good in it? Even so, I don’t see good in those facets of myself either, because of how little they matter. I don’t understand. It seems very complicated.
I should probably add that I don’t care if people are trans. That’s totally fine - you do you. Just doesn’t make sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ruby programming language and objective-c for that matter
Strict_Elderly · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What blind people see. They don't see anything. But I don't have an idea or know what nothing looks like. I can't imagine "seeing out of my elbow..." so...
ComedicFish · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m not entitled to what I want
CrisGamer78 · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The GPA system schools have. All this stuff about credit have me confused ._.
fuck_me_Daddy-puppy · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys send dick picks. I mean is it supposed turn girls on or something?
syphyllisdiller · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism
genericnamehere747 · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US political environment being so polarized atm - it’s like each side lives in alternative universes.
Oh and options trading. I get the concept but not how to do/manage risks.
ItsUrBoiChipsAhoy · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point in life
maybeesknees · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. I just can’t wrap my head around it.
shhkabob · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Legit time travel.
MeditativeMindz · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
DisturbedMagg0t · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe that whatever religion and God they believe in actually exists and that said God gives 2 shits about what they're doing. And why those people feel that they must impose it on everyone else
BigOlDarkSoul · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block chains. I have read so much about them but will never understand.
king_lifer · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I sneeze the first time I look at the sun, every time.
stacm614 · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think they're brave by not letting the virus stop them from doing things. Like I see people say "I'm not afraid of this virus. I'm not going to let it stop me from doing x, y, and z". And they seem to have no idea that they're a huge fucking asshole - because it's not about them. It's not about whether or not you get it. Sure, maybe you'll be fine - but you could easily kill someone else that can't handle the virus. Just the level of selfishness of people astounds me.
Jawsumness · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
domianCreis · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hype around Pixar's Inside Out.
I have ASD, seizures related to the part of the brain that processes emotions and memory, grew up fairly socially isolated and being gaslighted, etc. -- which have all combined into a condition known as Alexythemia. My emotions don't work correctly. I've been told I have them, but you only need to spend a short time with me to know that something isn't normal.
You'd think I'd fine the premise of Inside Out relatable. But I don't. I get that psychiatrists were consulted, it has helped a lot of kids express their own emotions, and that I'm not a normal case -- but I'm grateful I didn't see it as a kid, because it would have really screwed up my botched concept of emotions even more and made me more suicidal than I was.... Now I kind of think of it as just a gimicky metaphor played for drama. Not how things "actually work."
CloseButNoCigar69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the phases of the moon work. Like does the whole world see the same phase at the same night, and how can we all see it every night even though it takes a month to fully revolve around us.
Magikalillusions · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people.
Religious people. (Ultimate thicko's)
Flat earthers
Anti vaxxers
In order of stupidity.
arse-nico · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
hidingacorpse101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be dumbass enough to believe in conspiracy theories
stelioccckef · 1 points · Posted at 21:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Iamatheaternerd · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratic Equations and Dividing with negative exponents. Help.me.please
jackjohnson51010 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Leaf blowers, so useless as they do not get rid of the leaves, they simply blow them somewhere else!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of the Electoral College in 2020.
RandomCyber2112 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetishes and how someone could sleep 9 hours a night and wale up tired.
whoajamin · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people consider Donald Trump a competent president
Launchpad_McQueer · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of anal sex. What's so great about the place where shit comes out of?
joxiety · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
natittude · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If somebody has the energy to dedicate actual time to ruining your day. I’m not talking about somebody just having a bad day and taking it out on other people I’m talking about like a long-term dedication to ruining somebody else’s life
Kyari_Mason · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phones. Or even the internet now. I never could understand how you can talk in a phone and it goes over miles and miles of wiring and comes out your voice on the other end. And that it happens so fast. And now we don't even have wires. Stuff just goes to satellites and comes back down super fast. I just can't comprehend it all.
Trent948 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why electrons running into my technology (ie phones and computers) makes them do the wonderful things they do for me.
And as far as I’m concerned, in the words of the great Tod Howard: “It just works.”
shortaightboy · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Irony, at this point in not even sure it's real
starwarsbro · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The last three and a half years. I genuinely would like a Trump supporter to help me understand why they feel they can support someone who speaks and acts like he does. What about him appeals to them? If a school superintendent, for example, said, "You can do anything, you can grab them by the pussy." I can't think of anyone who would support that person... Why president Trump?
Greez_Mardox · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mukbang and how or why it ever gained popularity.
Somehow watching people eat became the height of entertainment for some of my friends and apart from being impressed/disgusting by the sheer amount these people can eat I only feel utter boredom whenever they try to show me what's so great about it.
J2TheRed · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can so easily go up to someone and spark up a conversation. I can never and have never been able to just go up to a girl somewhere and start talking casually with her.
ScrantonStrangler023 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my one dog will pee literally an inch off the pee pad while my other dog is great at it, and this is after like a month and a half after both were great at it with no issues.
stuntman_mike__ · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
PERCEPT1v3 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why BET is ok but WET would be considered racist.
The one explanation I've heard is that white people already own or run all the other stations so this is a way to even the field a bit.
That doesnt seem like a good answer. It's still racist or whatever you would call WET.
And I dont care who owns what or whatever. This isnt some white power shit, I've just never received an answer that makes sense.
HakunaYaTaTas69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I wake up on the weekends at 6am with no alarm (going to bed around midnight). But tired as shit going to bed at 1030 and getting up at 6 for work.
RobTheRobber6620 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ASMR
galaxy_love · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How/ why some people think they’re entitled to everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
T3XANGINGER · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How acid dissolves other materials
q1w2e331 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do chicken have sex?
aktiwari158 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How something I learned recently starts showing up all of a sudden. Like if you just learnt about some word and the you see it coming up anywhere later. Makes me doubt how many things do I ignore everyday to not have realized that I don't know what it is.
max420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers. Like, seriously, I don’t get it.
MrHotep · 1 points · Posted at 21:42:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi works.
XXX_epixZniper_XXX · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Max_Furious_Official · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to make it so my characters don't sound cheesy in my stories
lovelycoris · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why aren't all modern cars made so that the headlights are just automatically on or off with the engine? I think about it every dim, rainy, hazardous driving day where I see half the cars with their headlights off and who always love to hang in my blind spot.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Russian cases, what the hell? genitive, dative, accusative? why?!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics, why/how fusion works
DanjaHokkie · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in March Madness they put the best team against the "worst" team for the best team's first game. It gives a huge disadvantage to the team at the bottom and not much pressure against the #1 team.
bruschettatoast · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people are married and semi financially stable when growing up is so fucking hard
beetle-witch · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
401ks
Distempa · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so vicious to each other via the internet. Like, what mental process is going on here that you have to be so awful to another human being? Regardless of whether or not you can see them.
Social media notifications sometimes give me anxiety from previous issues with the whole cyber bullying thing, even when the last comment I left was a pleasant addition to a conversation.
Is it that hard to be nice?
sirwhatshisname · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being rude to and yelling at retail/customer service staff when there's a minor inconvenience.
Like they're out of whip cream and in the process of making more, go inside and wait for 5 minutes then get your drink. Calling the minimum wage 17-year-old working the counter a bimbo does nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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runekn · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
You add the sound waves together to get a new wave that is the product of the two. The speaker then plays this wave. Your brain is able to deconstruct it into the original seperate sounds.
Remember that you hear by having small hairs in your ear that moves along the the sound waves. If two sounds come from two seperate sources, there is no way for the hairs to tell. So this separation had to be developed in an intelligent system.
Did that help? I'm not an expert on the area.
sangoku866 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The kreb cycle
_OP_is_A_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how we got rocks to think for us.
I understand electricity and understand the concept of programming... But I cannot fathom how essentially "dits and dahs" turned into Doom: Eternal.
HeteroflexibleK · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hispanic people / culture.
DySr_Spicy · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did the Wuhan guy ate the bat
jakonr43 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how cameras or calculators work. I’ve tried ELI5 but the answers still don’t make sense
IngloriousBastardsay · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
bogoof1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
imma_meme_bruhhh · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alot of things, but how can people be actual dicks? Like some people ik really have no heart and have no problem straight up being mean and making fun of people :/
Classic_Mckoy · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Schwanz_Hintern64 · 1 points · Posted at 21:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People getting offended at jokes
vagittarius-szn · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely do not understand how people support our current sitting “president.” I really don’t understand.
Piscis_Volans · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the United States can have such high debt. When a country owes billions of dollars to a country, why don't countries collect on that debt?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people seem to lack the common sense to stay the fuck home during a pandemic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you store nested resplies to a comment in a NOSQL database such that the retrieval of a reply from a comment thread is efficient? I tried making such a system but failed.
Pleroo · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nested loops.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people write blank comments on Reddit.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
#
Edit: Dammit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
WittyBotch · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why Redditors think they’re better than everyone else
darthseph · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how parents, specifically mothers, could just not care about their children, or choose dope over their kids. All I've ever wanted was to be a mother, and that may not be possible for me, so why do these women who get the opportunity just throw it away?
cochino23 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poop
noodle-cutie · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How and where is money made and how does the government manage where it goes after fabricated?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a 1 inch line has infinite points and a 1 mile line has infinite points.
stacand1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck are people genuinely surprised that they have a fire problem when they douse themselves in gas and light it? What do they think will happen? What’s the desired end result?
lonewolfinthedark · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
leizne · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the internet works, how phones work, etc
EndOfTheWorld136 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
RySkyeMc66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras and photos work. People have tried to explain but I really don’t understand it.
Healma · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
tharizzla · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin , how is a currency harvested by the use of a computer processor?
furrnandough · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why my wifi works for a few minutes, shits the bed, then starts working again later
notNoiser · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only taking care of symptoms, when it's possible to get rid of the cause.
dolan2736 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivative functions
RosaMelTrozo-13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone who says they 100% understand the COD Zombies storyline is simply lying
Strykker · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How animals walk right after birth.
Rochelle6 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics.
Cuchulane · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why YuiMetal really left Babymetal and why she can't return.
deadseableu · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Final Fantasy XIII
MACintoshBETH · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens when we die
secretsquirrel051 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. WTF?!?
and_another_dude · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marriage. But I also don't want to understand it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. What makes you, you
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
infinity in physical world
ShutYourDumbUglyFace · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works.
JoshGordons_burner · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
AsianDaddy420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
AmeriChino · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in order to fall asleep, I have to pretend first.
Leguanodon · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are people basically equally feelers, thinkers, perceptors and our thoughts depend on what happend before to them (people) or is everyone actually individually different?? Why do I write so complicated..
bobyk334 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people get their steak well done.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
secretupvoter69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
chemistry
Friesnplanerides852 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
Michael_Bu · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit Awards. They just make no sense to me.
bonbonpon · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, along with basic economics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Macroeconomics
_GC93 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people comment on Facebook articles about celebrities or TV shows with comments like “nobody cares about this show!”
Peregrine21591 · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't just not be dicks to each other. It really is beyond me. From the little inconsiderate acts, right up to international posturing, I just don't get it. Just be kind FFS.
heylookatthatJoele · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evil people.
Like, I get the "Some men just want to watch the whole world burn", but why?
Also the origin of the universe. I know it's probably from the big bang but was there ever something before that?
captainmarvel25 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t know how to drive. r/idiotsincars
Swimming__Bird · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion with a deity or multiple. It just doesn't click for me or make sense. Billions of people have an imaginary friend, theirs is real and everyone else's is fake if they don't share that friend's same name. And some people hear their imaginary friend's words differently, so they fight and sometimes even kill people who didn't hear it the same way.
It's like some sort of mass schizophrenia.
Deuce722 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a Christian can vote for Trump.
Senetiner · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gear boxes work. I had an exam about this and other things am it went good, but I still can't understand how it works, how it is made, what are the parts in it. And don't even get me started about the clutch.
Henry-the-Anglerfish · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone. Like, how the fuck
notjordan165 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Bitcoin works I just don't understand it
velvta · 2 points · Posted at 22:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're not alone.
Bitch-ass-Irken523 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There’s a lot of things I don’t understand, but one thing in particular confuses me. I don’t understand how people can be so mean and terrible without feeling guilty. I’m good with figuring out people’s emotions, but when it comes to personality or motives I have problems
_Steve_T · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people who are "open minded" have no open mind for opposing ideas.
Why people are dedicated to political parties and have no idea how corrupt their chosen candidate is. (Democrat, Republican, other... they are all the same.)
sarandipitous_l · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the 2008 financial crisis happened and what is deregulation and privatisation. Whenever I read about it I can never seem to wrap my head around it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anxiety exists. Why do so many people fear such non-life-threatening things like walking up to the cashier and talking to them? To an extent I have this problem myself so I’m not judging anybody. I’m just wondering why our brains fear things that we don’t need to fear for our survival?
authentic_stds · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries
ImPoSsIbLe2343 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my dysphoria works
Just my brain says "hey bro u know your body. You're gonna hate it with every fibre of your being and it isn't your fault so you can't get mad"
LucyAvocado · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What backs the American dollar (or any currency". I also don't understand how to stock market works
An_Ether · 2 points · Posted at 22:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A stock is a share of a company. If you own 10% of all Amazon stock, you own 10% of Amazon.
A company may sell their stock for any reason. Like a co-founder wanting to sell his part of ownership and moving on from the business.
If you want to sell something, you'd have to either find individual buyers, or you put it for sale at a marketplace. For stocks, this would be the stock market.
Tl;Dr: Stocks are slices of a company. A stock market is where you go to buy businesses.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people harm/cut themselves when they’re espresso depresso, i just don’t get why people do it.
spicykangarooo · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What fugacity is 😡
rbddit · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are wearing face masks on their own in their car?
Squeezer999 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The leap from single cell organisms to multicellular and why there are no two or 3 cell organisms. Even the most simple multi cellular organism is a worm with millions to billions of cells.
Sisau03 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
SeantySean · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m suuuuper late to this but I still don’t understand water pressure or air pressure. Like how water just travels UP through pipes that shit don’t make sense to me at all. So pressure just don’t add up.
TidalCub · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sex works
rluvbeach · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we never see the other side of the moon
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How family guy is still on the hair
velvta · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No doubt. How any TV show is on the hair is amazing. Hair should not have TV shows on it. Hats? Sure. TV Shows, not so much.
_THE_BLANK_FACE_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I spend life wanting to die.
Ashley_9511 · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are still coming into stores AS A GROUP right now. I work at a store known for its red and khaki uniform and we have never been busier. And no one pays attention to how close they are to you till you kindly ask them to stay put and not keep approaching you when asking for help. I could go on but you get my point: STAY HOME AND AVOID CROWDS RIGHT NOW YALL.
batnastard · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dudes "top off" their gas tanks at the pump. Like, there's a shutoff system that works and it's there for a reason, but so many dudes have to show it who's boss and ka-chunk it another three times after it shuts off.
roxy3663 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few things Anti vaxers: like what. How does anything they say make sense People buying toilet paper People who think that the coronavirus can be transferred through the wifi and 5g
Goberth · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's going on with my girlfriend anymore. I havent seen her in 2 months and we just have the same cyclical conversation that makes me feel like shit everyday
tumbleweedLC · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get rid of that bitch Jambette on my island
Internet_Is_A_Lie · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone enjoys listening to mumble rap.
leavingdirtyashes · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life science. Atoms and molecules getting together to form something beautiful, fight and destroy each other, reproduce, all that stuff. Mr. Arsenic wonders why nobody will play with him... It's all bizarre.
Imadeutscher · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I got the Corona virus when I didnt even leave my house for almost 3 weeks
Xacto01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In Special relativity, what determines whether something is stationary reference frame vs moving reference plane? If there is aether, than this can be calculated. If no aether, then what is moving and what isn't?
Beanos226 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the King Crimson work?
everythingExtream · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't understand that why I hate my family. I just want to leave them and away from them alone.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
Rednag67 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Jon__Snoww · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cloud
lucaria438 · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deja vu‘s
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did the Supreme Court of the United States grant itself the power of judicial review? Based on what I learned from Civics class, it used the power to give itself the power, which doesn't make sense to me. Apologies if this is an idiotic question.
RetroCharge · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sin, Cosine, Tan
Tarafy · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Wile E Coyote keeps ordering from the ACME store knowing their products suck. And how is his shipping so much faster than Amazon’s?
bigbabycheeses · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok so there's these Japanese dollar stores called Daiso, right? Everything in them is 99 yen, or whatever the equivalent is in your local money - here in Australia it's $2.80. I bought a couple of kitchen knives from Daiso, and they're the best knives I've got. I've had them for 8 years now and they're still sharp. I have literally no idea how you can forge and sharpen a stainless steel blade, stick a handle on it, ship it to Australia and pay someone to sell it to me for $2.80 and make a profit off that. Like how the fuck.
Comestible · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fervent support for Donald Trump.
Toast_702 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wireless WiFi works like ????
Sialocin · 2 points · Posted at 21:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a computer engineer currently in a class to learn about it and it's STILL 100% magic to me.
jplank1983 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people find the Big Bang Theory funny.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I genuinely do not understand the whole "white guilt" culture in USA. I don’t live there.
There is some circus going on. SjW act like racist and discriminate white man, then there is SjW friendly The Witcher with black elves (funny fact, "elf" does mean "white being") and other funny things that happen because of this obscure cult of guilt.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that think Britney Spears is a good singer. Great person I am sure but her singing is just so bad. I do not understand how people can actually think that weird fake and forced voice is good.
WhatRhymesWithDigger · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helicopters: It's 4 metal blades spinning super fast, and apparently it defies the law of gravity and propels a super heavy metal object up?
truthneedsnodefense · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, in 2016, 62,984,828 people (roughly 17% of the U.S. population) said “Yeah, out of 360M people, Trump’s the best we’ve got.”
(Sorry, was this a trick question?)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote for Hilary
RWMagpie · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greek.
Wolfie_creed · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
narodnick · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Spent years studying race relations. Still don't get why people feel the need to feel superior through arbitrary, fictional classifications.
jolly-green-shauni · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I can make it do what i want, and work with it reliably, but damn if it ain't just magic lightning that i don't think i'll ever understand the 'how and why magic do thing?'
WildJester__ · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people deny Covid-19 is a problem, how do people not see that, I get joking about it (Lessing the fear it can cause) but people ignore that it’s a problem and it confuses me so much.
blowitch0 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people are born with astigmatism.
CorporateDeathBurger · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans. I'm not being a dick, I truly cannot understand the things they believe in. All of the social issues I'm either far opposed to or indifferent about. I've had friends try to explain why they believe in it, but I can't understand how anyone can arrive at those conclusions.
I'm not really even a Democrat. But I can find certain things that make sense from them and their arguments usually are fact based and less emotional (from what I see from Congress and the Senate).
Carlyphleb · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people believe in a god
ethoms9797 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how communism still exists. Like wasn't it proven to be a terrible ideology?
C2019a · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and the shit they do to themselves and the shit they put in their own way.
Savage_Cabbage__ · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wanting to be transgender./changing genders
spicy_nicey · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Took it 3 times in college. Still don’t know jack about it.
Theory-in-progress · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karen’s
as012qwe · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The current political polarization in the US - both sides seem moronic at this point.
mrskitzcunt · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How governments keep getting away with spoon feeding lies and everyone sits back and takes is and doesn’t stand up for their rights
oniongirl77 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How speakers make music. I understand the theory. But how does a vibrating piece of paper sound like drums, guitar, vocals etc etc. It's magic.
plastimental · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
breadman242a · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One thing i definitely do not understand is why people love to give comments awards? It literally costs money just to put a gold star on a post it makes absolutely no sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is my wife always cheating on me?
Big_Tuna05 · 1 points · Posted at 21:48:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
ChocDroppa · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trump supporters and flat earthers.
amethyst_deceiver36 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sonder, or "the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own". I think about it all the time and even though it's a fairly obvious concept I just can't wrap my head around it, it seems so strange and upsetting
wonderberry77 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have some people believe with all their heart that their opinion is just as good as a fact
Avocatelirious66 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory that our brain is actually 2 brains( some say 3 since the spine does some stuff that the brain can't do some things really fast) cooperating
MJC_Titcho_MJC · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my wife left me
Shivers711 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Burocracy.
A_Cup-O-Dirt · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers’ various theories.
Also, closely related, flat earthers.
Anc2014 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people can afford these $750k + single houses without being house poor. Serious question....
Richiematt262 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyl records work. How do small groves and bumps become someone singing and a full band
Valleygirl1981 · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who keep voting for Republicans and Democrats. They both suck.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general
imnotkeyera · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why deadbeat parents disappear, and years later, he or she wants to be part of the child's life. Did you expect to be welcomed back like "man that line at the gas station was something serious huh?" It's been 10 years. Fuck that. And fuck you.
09mnstr · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation
thecowcini · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Never understood it since I first learnt about it. Parallel circuits confuse me the most, why does it not just all flow through the first thing it finds?
likebedsheets · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ley Lines
glorwen · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who start smoking in this day and age with all the knowledge we have about the effects of Nicotine 🙄
MOSSY_COMPOST · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cannot think for themselves. Y'all have the internet you know.
TheLegendSwag21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the idea for LEGO Star Wars came around
getridofwires · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think Universal Basic Income will work without widespread price controls.
dsheafor · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
I_talk · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who voted for Biden
kinderkandi · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why my mom can’t leave me alone when i ask to be alone during a breakdown she knows if she just continues to bother me when i want to be alone that shit will escalate but no she continues to do it
Gognoggler21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinetic and Potential energy.... I have a degree in Mechanical Engineering....
seven_neves · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyl records manage to play music.
imTonchu · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you turn movement into electricity. I just cant get it. The wind moves this thing and bam! Energy
1highmf · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American health system
10010101 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Making a baby who grow up and have to work all his life on a fucking stupid planet who don't care about suffering like a mother do because she wants a baby. YOU STUPID MOTHERS. The minute you are a bit mature and your stupid parents tells you your out on 18 years old..I will NEVER be happy in life. I will never have a wife,kid,house,car or fucking happiness ever.WHY DO THEY DO THAT? But if we don't,the human race will vanish!! I may sound extremely stupid,but as a parent,you are the most selfish shit that got on Earth.
oman44444 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
notthecrystalskull · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my partner of 14 years decided to break up with me after proposing and declaring his love for me almost every day since then. Only a week in, starting to not give a fuck if I get answers now or not. That and the human sub conscious.
MatthewDark · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All languages except English and Czech.
UchihaEmre · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
Dirty-Soul · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell corpse bloom works.
shanster925 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to get political, but I have no idea how anyone can support a party of person that is so blatantly corrupt and lies about everything, then takes advantage of a broken system to get away with it.
Also, why the super billionaires of the world are still hoarding more and more... Like, they can't bring it with them when they die.
Snaildebt · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can have consciousness. I understand that there are electric impulses and chemicals fueling us, but it beats me how that all leads to thinking and feeling.
sanityonthehudson · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brexit.
Bonkies1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cardi B fans
mex1can_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the female gender
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we as people are scared of the dark.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
_lande_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How video games are made.
oidzbio · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
concept of free will
ReyKuromori · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Family love, i just don’t understand how people can love their family so much even if they’re complete assholes? I dont get along with any of my family and dislike em all most of the time so i really dont get it, i wish i would tho. The closest thing i understand is me loving my pets to death, they’re all i care about and i love them so incredibly much, i guess this is all i can compare it to tho.
km_eriksson · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people prefer citylife and not farmlife.
Twitch_HighMiZe · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that there are more than 2 genders
Bcarse · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job! Lol
queasybake · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people like friends
QCUFC · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports betting. Never made sense to me. And Cricket.
fistymish · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of math.. Specifically a lot of algebra and geometry
dungeonmaster81__ · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
minusbacon · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care so much about how other people live their lives when they aren’t harming anyone.
TxdoDekShipper · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans can't touch electrical wires yet birds can sit on them and squirrels can climb on them
acb5 · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger’s Cat
kangaroonemesis · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people in the US want so badly to ban firearms. Especially when the type of firearm isn't used often in crimes involving firearms and the overall murder rate involving firearms is low.
No one ever considers banning alcohol or texting as a result of car crash killings, which significantly out number firearm killings.
jordanleveledup · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can’t differentiate from causation and correlation.
Na-o-led · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foreign languages
Vilonious · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetish
markopotato · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That femenists say that boobs aren't sexual.
allisonnaut · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How information is transported through wires. HELL, HOW INFORMATION IS TRANSPORTED WIRELESSLY.
iiTrippie · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
JoeBenigo · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who immigrated to a country and faced prejudice, then becoming prejudice against other immigrants later in their life.
yesscratchthatno · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
exotictimmyo · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
whether "i could care less" and "i couldn't care less" are different things
Admiral_Aloysius · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females.
Mashlomech · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 3D printing works. How the fuck can it spit out any different kind of material?!
mineirodabahia · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eletromagnetism
i3xConnor · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My family.
deptford · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HBO's Watchmen.
Triquetra4715 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dating is supposed to work. Like, I’ve done it, I’ve dated some folks. But it never felt like something rewarding, I was just doing it because it thought it was getting weird that I hadn’t really done it and that could cause problems in the future.
shaddaupyoface · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can strawberries grown in Mexico, then shipped to Montreal Canada be cheaper than the ones grown 30 minutes away.
VaguerOsprey · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the power house of the cell?
leighroyv2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sailing boats, I just don't get how they can head in on direction and the wind is blowing in the other, I'm going to go look it up now.
sl0w_w0lverine · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anybody could look at the Superman Reborn suit and think it looks good.
After the Rebirth suit fixed the color scheme issues the trunkless costumes introduced, them taking a step backwards and introducing the most painfully generic attempt at a Superman "redesign" just hurt. The comics at least brought the trunks back eventually(which is the ultimate look), but toys and stuff are still using that stupid Reborn costume as if it was ever any good.
If you're gonna mess with an iconic look, put some effort into it!
siavash91 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I ask someone "What are you thinking about?" And they reply "Nothing". How is that possible?
nizzerp · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
algebra. Like, seriously, I can't connect the dots on that shit & it's seriously holding me back from the GMAT & eMBA programs, learning computer programming languages, on and on . . .
AMP_Games01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can accept the fact that to get cosmetic items in MW2019 you have to buy it, where we can just get solid cosmetic only lootboxes and keep the weapons in the battle pass, or just have Activision let the devs give us actual content in the missions. I'm tired of being told I have to spend $20 on a pack for one cosmetic item I want, or $10 on a battle pass for a $60 game. This is worse than BO4s before they added weapons into reserves. The free maps aren't even worth it, if I want to play them I'd just go back to MW2 since all the maps they've been adding have been remastered.
kongJPN · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuss is all about with Mr Brightside.
cracksilog · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calling people out rudely and hiding behind “tough love.”
How about, I don’t know, not being mean? Lol.
MBS_RL · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men ever think it’s a remotely good idea to send an unsolicited dick pic. I have never once spoken to a woman who has had a reaction other than disgust upon receiving one.
Ri_Konata · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. Transphobia. SJW's.
I don't know why, maybe cuz i wasn't raised to find it weird.
OGFahker · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing. I don't understand the need whatsoever, I feel like those people who can't build a mental picture.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are retarded and do dumb stuff
Wolfbeast864 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatism.
Nujwaan · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in my country are still walking about outside and acting as if its a holiday rather than a lockdown when they know 1000 people a day are dying from this virus. It's just fucking mental and painful when you know of people personally who have died.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people with OCD deal with the little line of dust after sweeping
HamletTheHamster · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a little bit of inflation is a good thing for the economy. Conversely why a little bit of deflation or no -flation at all wouldn't be better.
z-loan · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are some people out there who have absolutely no intention of trying to at least understand your point of view and would try and say anything so you would accept theirs.
I get human nature is quite tricky, but come on! Especially if those people are your friends. It’s just bewildering to me.
dontlookimshy1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Often, I think about how many objects are on the planet. I think about blades of grass, and leaves, and cars, and how much it would be if we added it all up.
I usually give up once I get to the blades of grass and try to think about something else.
wymco · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time travel...WTH is that?
badgelove · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the hell money even came from. Why don’t we trade still.
wykyd_wytch · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people bully children for something they can’t do anything about: being poor, physical issues, parents profession, parents addiction.
I was bullied for all of that. It started when I was 8 and continued until I was 17 and we moved across the country. I couldn’t do a damn thing about it. So why??
bignigma330 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m single
ILovePoTaToS1432 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why this is on reddit?
Space_Turtl3 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry 2
TechnoAlchemist666 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Littering. If there’s anything that I hate more than anything else in the world, it is littering. Bonus points if it’s right next to a trash can too.
MarleaF · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
ElCatrinLCD · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who defend the MAP movement, i dont get it
krystopher · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cell phone towers. Yes yes I hear spread spectrum and phase variance but it’s a dang black box to me...
ShinrasShayde · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That which I do not know.
Jztvchannel · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Graphs but I’m good at math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who litter.
pub_gak · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All that ‘volts’ and ‘amps’ bullshit. All that ‘electricity’ stuff is all just made up.
JoshCanJump · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be such cunts.
https://www.reddit.com/r/iamatotalpieceofshit/comments/fzbnxn/he_spent_20_years_breeding_a_superbee_that_could/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
PapyruNotASkelly · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Touch screens. How the hell?
Doomblud · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who post random kpop vids on unrelated tweets.
11fivez11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The ocean, human brains and space.
krustydustycrab · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I just dont get it.
bbooqi · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf do fries get stale and can’t go back to normal after reheating em 😫
scerZ · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths, unfortunately.
yblood46 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people still base so much of their life choices on religion, even though at this point in time, science has debunked everything. Tradition, maybe? 🤷🏻♂️
PabloFarOut · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why I push my SO from the bed when we sleep
oh-violet · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok.
I don’t mind it and I don’t have anything against the people who do it.
I can definitely see how it could appeal to teenagers, but whenever I see somebody over 20 doing it or posting it on their Instagram it really makes me wonder.
I guess that in my heart I just don’t see myself enjoying looking at teenagers dancing with cringey and cliché phrases typed over their foreheads.
josepphdun · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we’re still alive. Majority of humans have boring lives, we eat we shit we work we sleep Idk the reason behind all of this We have the life span of 60-75 years yet we still act like we’re immortal, people die everyday bc of hunger bc of wars etc etc... but we still are happy We kill our kinds we kill eachother we hate eachother without a reason or bc of our skin color, beliefs, sexuality... I hate humans.
TheJollyReaper · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any language other than English or Spanish
Geminikatz · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporter. Honestly not trying to make a big how do you do, but it is clear time and time again that he does things out of self-interest. I do not understand how anyone believes he is working for the betterment of the country.
jlhtn18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many total bases can a team acquire and not score a run....
Burd55 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The logistical side of trains and how they go from one location to another without wrecking into another train
mistertrev14 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have a devout belief in god. Like I used to go to temple as a child and believe there might be a higher power but like I never felt that spirit or firm belief. Like I’ve had experiences that seem otherworldly but like that strong belief that god is real and responsible for everything going on in Earth, not so much. I’m honestly jealous of those people a bit I guess. Also I don’t understand the people who believe in one god to the point they bash any or all other religions. Especially when the faith they’re preaching is the best is teaching to be accepting of everyone regardless of race or beliefs. It’s very ironic.
Hemphlev · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
intergalactic_retard · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where babies come from
Jhnyflowers · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how the us economy works much less some sort of a self sustaining one, I don’t understand how finances work.
stinav123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I “get” that religion and other stuff is a “thing” on a logical level but I just fundamentally do not understand how someone’s sexual preferences have the power to make some people SO. MAD.
NibbaChan333 · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Memory of smell and taste.
pizzacentral · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are video games created especially the big ones on consoles. Hundreds of hours of gameplay, battles (where you can chose any combinations), open world task, shorcuts. Like they need to be made keeping in mind like there can be so many different ways to complete any tasks and there are thousands of tasks.
TyTrymed · 1 points · Posted at 21:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women will say they don't want something and then eat your food or say "why didn't you get me any. "
dicksbo · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“i caught a sea bass! no, wait- it’s at least a C+!”
passthesierramist · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boats
Burger-meister · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever the hell Quibi is
DrRoborknik · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can want to be involved in other people's business. The need to have an opinion about everything and constant criticism. Who the fuck cares, mind yours.
Ben_Stro · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gay people
DarthFuckShit · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
$5000 pairs of sneakers
XxDailyDudexX · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people like Karen’s and trump fans exist
Wide-Presence · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand jojo memes, sorry guys
TMAC225 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
butsbutts · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i have sharp poo
nic_oftheshire · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people admire the Kardashians
randompuffin · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know how court works
Tristanio97 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our senses, except touch. How we see, hear, taste or smell I don’t understand how we as humans do it.
potatocomet · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithm
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok
VeriqueX · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's considered safer for bicycles to ride on the streets rather than on the sidewalks.
Stalinbaum · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to subnetwork
neverwhisper · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why so many people are unwilling to accept that people with mental illnesses are just "different" than those who do not have a mental illness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LIFE
Caranraug · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hacking and cheating in online games against other players, especially in ranked games. Is it fun? Maybe. But it ruins the game for everyone else, risks your account getting reported and banned, and even if you get a high rank by cheating it isn't really an accomplishment. You can always sell the account as long as it's not already banned, so I guess that could be one reason. But still I can't understand why there are so many cheaters.
S_shiggy_Y · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like tik tok
hambosammich · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
Sablemint · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can only use the GTS on the Mobile version of Pokemon Home, and not the Switch version. The Pokemon Company refuses to even acknolwedge attempts at finding out.
irishsniperkev · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you are gae
Rei_Inari · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance
TheStruggleIsREAL16 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people act like best friends to people they don’t like
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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oti890 · 8 points · Posted at 00:02:59 on July 8, 2020 · (Permalink)
They're not that bad if you're still single.
randompuffin · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe and existence in general
alibimonday · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we struggle to stream media through the internet (actually we’ve probably solved it over the last 10 years), yet we’ve been streaming wirelessly for the past 70 years via the crooked aerial in the back of my TV. Nobody has been able to ELI5 yet.
JPtheHUNN · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand Trump supporters. I understand disenfranchised people looking for a change in the old guard and giving trump a chance, but I do not understand continued support after the 10,000 plus lies and untruths, personal attacks and dismemberment of social programs designed to help those who voted for him in the first place. I have read some articles about racism but I hope that racism isn't as prevalent across his base as the article suggested. So someone, please explain.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe in the flat earth
MyaKate406 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who complain about things they have control over. I don’t get it. I have tried to understand. Yet, I can’t figure it out. Maybe it’s laziness? Which I also genuinely don’t understand. Too lazy to make the change? I’ll never understand.
penilingus · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
SJWs
voodootwinkie · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m sure this is the dumbest thing ever. For the life of me I can’t understand why the U.S can’t simply print more money for us when we’re out. Assuming that debt is an indicator of a functional and operational economy, any country that has a collective estimated debt of trillions to other countries couldn’t possibly afford to sustain most of its citizens for an unforeseen amount of time when its economy is stalled indefinitely. (So it’s issuing money that doesn’t really hold value)
devilmaycry129 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tie a tie. I've seen too many videos to count but it just never clicks.
katy_07 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apostrophes and semicolons.
riaa-bee · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why everyone is just so okay with being born and then suddenly they have things expected of them - by law you have to go to school and get a job pay taxes everything costs money you have to follow the laws made by people who will probably never meet you and you have to work to do things you want to do and some things youre not allowed to do things even though someone else could. like no one asked for this? why is everyone like yeah sure ill do this for the rest of my days no questions asked. like what i dont understand
ImTheRealDylan · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
Carbuncle_Bob · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks, bonds, CD's, all that financial jargon
CaliGirl1204 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced mathematics!!
eriarahman · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand emotions very well. I’m not saying I don’t have them but most of the time, they’re just not present. It’s only when it’s a deep or strong feeling that I feel it. I don’t know if it’s the same way for others but every time I try explaining it to someone, it comes off strange. I’m a very expressive person up front but inside, I just don’t really feel that way most of the time. It’s mostly acting and I feel bad for not caring the way I should. I can’t even say it’s because I’m repressed because I’m not.
Alone-Blueberry · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Like what it is it even
FrontButterscotch4 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is a bit difficult to explain but how the first computer was made.
I understand that we can code them now. I understand that if I put in some code correctly, something will happen. But why??? Who 'explained' that to the computer the first time? How do you tell a screen that you move a cursor if I move this mouse?? Why does the computer know what a string of code means?????
It's honestly magic to me.
FelpoBanana · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s the deal with airline food?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why shrooms and weed (nature) are illegal
Sevlow312 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
jlhtn18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amen to that!
str8uproofer · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we got to this point with our presidential elections
idunnowhyimadedis · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we cant send people to the moon again
Reddituser131998 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
elisamichele4929 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why on certian days I look up at the sky around noon and I can see the sun its directly behind my house every day around this time. But on some days a full moon makes an appearance as well in broad day light .. it seems to be around the same place it usually is around 1130 pm the night prior or the coming night. It's doesn't happen eveyday but you can see it a few times a month . I dont understand it lol. Space and astronomy intrigues me I guess..
Gh0stPickle · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people's knees
artificialdawn · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a vasectomy works.
Keed1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
poprocx · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4th dimension. I've watched more than a few videos on the subject but my brain doesnt click to understanding
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I keep living
noctrlatall · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Endless stupidity of humans.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get offended by jokes so easily. I am Indian and Muslim. My friends joke around about me working in a call center or being a terrorist. Heck, sometimes they are afraid to bring up the terrorist card and I bring it up. I don't get offended by ANY jokes at all.
AnimalCorpse270 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
KingKiler2k · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Marii_Wishes · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I'm tired as hell but can't go to sleep
Cryotronixz · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself....
If I could even properly understand myself better, even just a little bit... Life would be a bit easier.
I wish I knew why I do/think the way I do. Even having just a bit more of an understanding of myself would go a long way and I feel could lead to a better way do rme to function and live.
I wouldn't keep falling into this loop of self-loathing and pity. I have some phenomenal friends who have helped me immensely the past few years. I'm definitely far different from the me 3-4 years ago. Hopefully this train can keep going.
RyoanJi · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes can fly. These things are heavy.
bakedBoredom · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people not know what they want to do with their lives? I'm at an age where knowing what I want to do is really important, and just about all of my friends are figuring it out. Maybe I'm just a worry-wart, but I am constantly thinking about what I'm going to do, and questioning my decisions, so I'm pretty much certain I want to be a lawyer.
Maybe it's not necessarily that they don't know what they want to do, but they don't think they can do it so they're searching for an alternative that's "more realistic". Like I have a friend who wants to be a dolphin trainer, but he's a senior and yet to take his SAT's and he feels like he won't be able to be fit enough to do it. And I'm like- DUDE! You're awesome! You're so good at wanting something and working to get it- you do it all the time! Why now? Why can't you trust yourself for this one?
Idk. Just weird to me.
TAKG · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. I understand that it’s needed to exist but why. Why can’t we go back into farming and trading for what we need like with what we can do now tech wise we should be able to find a way to make sure everyone is able to get what they need at the least and spare the monetary system for the wants.
Society. Why do we really care about what one person is doing with their lives if it’s only truly affecting them and no one else? Why should we give a shit about one race or gender or whatever being better then the other when really we’re all wandering around life confused and usually dealing with the same issues as the next if you remove the problems that come from other people. Why aren’t we able to look at the past for what it is good and bad and just leave it in the past?
monkeydon · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dobble. How do they do it so that no matter How you shuffle the cards, when you draw two there’s only one pair of images. Bamboozled.
my3al · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3/3 = .999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 = 1
I do understand that .9 repeating is so close to one that is is indistinguishable from 1 at any meaningful level yet something inside me says that on an absolute level 3/3 will never truly be absolutely == 1. It will ever remain in my mind infinitely close to but never equal.
Also I never pretended Im the gooder-bestest in maths.
picole25 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t understand distance and money. Example: How big really is 6 acres? What does 15K look like?
The9thBitYT · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum randomness. Like, you're telling me this can choose one of two ways to spin or whatever, and absolutely nothing drives which it goes?? It just picks one? Crazy stuff.
redhandrail · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why we're here and what's going on.
Kaltwind · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women's rights
embrex104 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How much stuff it seems other people seem to get done.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say Exhibit A
swanlevitt · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The follys of mankind and its inate ability to learn from history.
hactrixed · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
just how planes work.
master_jackm · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i feel alone no matter whattt
justin251 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. In general. Like, how can you enjoy a good fantasy novel and then turn around and read something like the bible and not draw the similarities?
pabossbch · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Scrubrubberduck · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of stuff and super dumb I am
AnimalControl69 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Narcissistic people
That_Direction928 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Also what makes curly friended curly.
Qmnip0tent · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that say that marijuana is not addicting but also complain about people going to prison for it. I think that it should be legal but if people can’t stop smoking weed while on probation for smoking that sounds like an addiction. People losing their kids and going to prison for weed is terrible but that just shows it is addicting.
crypticbread2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. I failed calculus 3 out of the 5 times I took it. Like I still don’t understand it.
lostboykiddo · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
RickyBubblesLahey · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math and numbers. You can sit and explain how to count change over and over but I just don’t comprehend it at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monads.
I can understand some examples. I know how they work in practice. Ive used them a lot.
But I don’t feel like I have intuition about what they are.
Matthew2303 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally the most basic things. How can you be so horrible that you bully a kid into depression.
trombone420 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
hitx60 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fucking dumb some people can be.
peejay95 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US government.
Themetalsoldier · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Limits in Calculus. I had no problem with mathematics before I took it. Just something doesn’t click when came to limits. I understand them in theory but something about the formulas never fully clicked in my understanding.
J_Mc88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sometimes I become more aware of everything I’m doing to the point of thinking how to answer someone or say something so that in 10 minutes whatever I said hasn’t been misconstrued or that if I do this particular in this particular way now, what will the outcome be in 2 steps time from doing that thing. It’s hard to explain. That and Facebook adverts. Can’t do them - funnels confuse me = waste money testing.
Psychi98 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why K-pop Stan's are collectively insane on Twitter.
SuchaDelight · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get into YOUR car, then change the radio station or, even worse, micromanage your driving.
badboy17p · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trivia pursuit
thegooseisgreat · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
_AntiFun_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prolog.
DoNotCare_CP · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation fetish...that's just too weird for my poor normal human mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why music makes us feel and what the hell is music really
eken11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to openly hate on things that other people enjoy. I understand if you don't like something, but why do you feel the compulsive need to tell people that the thing they like is something that you hate?
A personal example for me would be baseball. I grew up in a baseball-loving family and I genuinely love the sport. Yes, I know it is slow and can be boring, but as a fan, I don't care. I love it regardless. Yet, when I talk about baseball around some people, they will emphatically say something like "uh I hate baseball, it is sooo boring!" People have said this to my face.
I genuinely don't understand why people have to be that way. Why shit on something that I love right in front of me? We live in a society people!
tHaToNe_bReAd · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can be too tired and too awake at the same time during the day.
BravickTheCleric · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eyes. I just don’t get it.
lyssumrose · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American football. No matter how many times it's explained to me, I'll never understand.
caughtinapickle88 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some auto makers can design cars that are so goddamn ugly
Cobravenom741 · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music. I play two instruments relatively fluently, love listening to all types of music, etc. but I just don't understand how it makes our brains feel certain things like emotions or memory. Why do only certain songs make people feel certain ways? For example, I can't listen to space oddity without balling my eyes out, yet many people feel nothing from it with some disliking it. It just doesn't make sense to me.
JesterRookie · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump ended up as potus... I mean I guess he had weak competitors but come on, that cant be the best you got
widdidam · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum computers
ncgphs13 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hegelian philosophy
Teminite2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who truly believe their opinion/perspective is the one and only truth. I just don't get that... There are so many people in the world with so many opinions, it's a shame to be open to only a single version.
darkfish301 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
ovelhaloira · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who stop talking to people and don't bother explaining why they did.
Unless the person did something unforgivable, everyone should get an explanation as to why they've been ghosted.
onlawbunny · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions. I understand everything else that I've learned in math but if Fractions are in a math problem I get confused.
wholesome_fartguy · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Fa_Me_245 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
xawlted · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like trump
MonkeySafari79 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything I can't really see, like how light works, or electricity, or sound.
gramsaran · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to short a stock and if it has a negative effect on a company why is it legal?
TastyOpossum09 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my wife who I’ve been married to for 10 years whom I loved and supported in everything, provided everything I could and stretched myself beyond my own limits to give her what she wanted, decided to cheat on me while I was away for work and doesn’t want to try and reconcile during a global fucking pandemic.
jag_dryke_da_soppa · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand movies when they travel to the future... is everything already decided and we just don't know it? If we did travel would there be nothing because it doesn't exist? My brain hurts now... thanks
The_Ringbearer1 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Family trees in Tolkien's books
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pepole who are religious, it's not like i hate them i just don't understand and when i ask them why they blevie they can't answer
cpnknowbody · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet, like how I can input data on a computer and someone can look at it on the other side of the world. What is it? Where is it?
King-Ducky-YT · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when it’s late at night and I get in bed, I just lay there. I don’t close my eyes, I don’t scroll through my phone or anything, I just lay there and look out my window that just behind my bed. I look into space and thunk about nothing other than “How? How is anything existing? Why can the arrangement of atoms that make up me, have thoughts, but not blanket? How am I here? What does everything me? What existed before the Big Bang?” I like philosophy.
Also another thing I don’t understand and is hard to think about, is; Based on what astronomers and other scientists say, the universe came from nothing. Something literally came from nothing. How did everything start existing? The universe is an infinite age based on what I think.
DigitalxKaos · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel the need to be unreasonable
cyber_1213 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi works, like people have tried to explain it (my roommate mannny times) but i think my brain just cant handle it .
sauceyFella · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Irrational fears. It’s self explanatory bc you aren’t supposed to understand them. I don’t have any that I know of so it’s strange to think about
royalfarris · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability
Thats black math.
ijustdraws · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Casserole. I genuinely can't grasp the idea or concept of one
Reflaxo · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Windows usability is still stuck in the 90‘ - why would you have 4 different places for users to change settings for eg Bluetooth?
Why a “self diagnostics tool” for different parts when the OS should be able to recognize and fix faults themselves, and mostly finds max mundane “faults” in the system.
Why is the user responsible for downloading new drivers for every piece of internal and external hardware.
I recently had the problem that the Pc decided to forget it had an internal Bluetooth module. After hours of troubleshooting, I decided to do a complete reinstall because apparently “that just happens” sometimes.
Idk how that shit got through any meeting, let alone in a company that big.
bigbrazy316 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This one is a dumb one but I’ve never asked or searched, But how are we in debt if we print money?
GroundbreakingSalad2 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When a new call of duty comes out and someone is already max level
Kjartanthecruel · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity Theory
knacker_chic · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is infinite and it’s expanding.
Aceritus · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls my age.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
consciousness
UpSsnackman · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way our government works and how these idiots stay in office when we have the power to vote them out.
IamSchroeder_- · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why my work doesnt take enough taxes off and I have to owe come tax season, even tho I work part time and I barely make enough money as it is 🤷♂️
mintjuul · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry
YeudielM · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics. That doesn't mean I can't do math, is just that I can't understand the big picture of it (I can understand "piece by piece", however, I have a big problem trying to understand all together), it just doesn't make sense to me. It is...weird for me and hard to explain to people when I say that I'm a programmer and I don't understand mathematics. I found easy the programming stuff, but not the math stuff.
KevineCove · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Turing reductions. I spent like a whole month trying to understand that shit in CS and was about halfway there when the class ended and then I never had to figure it out.
stashthesocks · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work, like what
DrewpyDog · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I too late? Can someone really really break down how a record needle reads a vinyl album and outputs it to a speaker.
cartoons01 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic multiplication. I’ve always had a really hard time in school and I could never get it down. I would ask for help but my teachers would repeat the same thing over and over expecting me to understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to take away in math such as subtracting, I don’t know how I graduated HS but I did
5tr0ker · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some dumb people become presidents
Gnorlaff · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don't understand how the Bombe machine (used to decipher the enigma machine) work.
I know how the enigma work, I know the concept of decoding the message, but I can't figure how the bombe worked.
kreebob · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck are people driving around my town right now. Statewide lockdown. Where the fuck are you all going???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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kreebob · 2 points · Posted at 00:04:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a rebel. Let me know how that works out for you chief.
jeanbrodie · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
automatic transmissions
Izzy_OJ · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How speakers work. Like what’s making the noice?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socialism
TheToastyNuts · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can look at their S/O and be like “ya know what. I think I’m gonna cheat on them”
There’s a lot of things I genuinely don’t understand, but that one I will NEVER understand.
Busy-Tomorrow · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tendency for people to generally believe "the grass is greener on the other side of the fence".
Why can't we just be content with what we have, even when everything seems good?
amrahmedaa31 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arabic grammer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
And here you are talking about them, so it obviously works.
The meeting kind of goes like this, " Yeah that is so shit, great job. People will never forget how shit this ad is"
Then we have you commenting on how shit the ad is, so they're pretty good at their job.
RacingVictor · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The desire of having a child.
aonele · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. Apparently people just make up finance shit all the time and create new terminology and concepts all the time in the name of money??? How??
k1ng617 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computers. I have a good grasp on how conventional computers work, but when people start talking about superposition and qubits I completely lose it.
jlhtn18 · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened to the Whig Party?
phairnuff · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who love cucumbers, why
Leeleechirps · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a relationship coach, why is it so much easier to spot and fix problems with other couples, than it is to apply my same teachings to my own Marriage :)
c_hriscole · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebs cycle
badgalcamcam · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of the universe being infinite.
WillOdinsun · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flirting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my life is just so much worse than it was before
TF-SOUL-OF-DOOM · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I gain karma?
GrizFarley · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are they working on 5g cell signal when I can barely get 1 bar of 4g at my house.
WeebGamerBoi · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who continue to buy EA games
LunaPNW · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Quantum mechanics.
FortuneGoddess · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
One word. One thing. People
druromance · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
YugiAsh · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries
ASK8ep · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be jerks to other people just for their own amusement.
Nihilist_Ninja · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is it than Americans don’t choose Bernie Sanders?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
JWSanchez · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How am I still here? I'm either crazy or of too much use.
ShadowInTheAttic · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why are people still treating this pandemic lightly....
Seriously! My sister had a close encounter with it. A coworker was hospitalized mid-March due to breathing complications. At the hospital, the guy tested positive for COVID19. Her company was forced to shut down for a week. During that week, my ashthmatic sister started developing flu symptoms. Her doctor gave her the ok to get tested. She came back negative. She was only sick for 3 days, but doctor believes it was just her allergies.
Unfortunately, another cousin of mine also had a close encounter. A coworker from his job lost her daughter to pneumonia after she came back from Italy. The mom also got pneumonia and was hospitalized. This was back in late February to early March. My cousin started developing symptoms too. It's April 11, and his symptoms haven't gone away. What's even more unfortunate is that his mom has been a strong Facebook conspiracy nut. She's been calling this virus a hoax. So that's rubbed off on her son and my cousin still thinks it's a hoax and he just has flu.
Now what pisses me off and I still don't understand is that, his brother and another one of my cousins are coming over. My aunt (his mom), and another aunt are planning an Easter party. Both her sick son, my aunt, her husband and sons are going to be attending. I live with my aunt (not the one with the sick son), but the one who is planning to host the party. Yesterday she had invited my other aunt and sick cousin over. He was coughing everywhere in the kitchen, while drinking beer and taking shots with the aunt I live with and her husband. None of them were wearing mask!
My sister and I have asked my sick cousin to get tested, but he's refused! His mom gets angry at us for even suggesting it. Says that how can we suggest such a thing, that her son just has flu. When we point to the mom and dead daughter from his work, she claims it was just pneumonia and not this made believe scare.
Omfg! Part of my family, all think this shit is just a scare and not real. Every time I try to talk to them, it just devolved into bullshit Facebook conspiracies. They show me videos of people who supposedly got it and those people claim it's just the flu. I honestly don't know how California has such low numbers compared to NY. People like my aunt's are everywhere! At my mom's job, people are going into work sick. Her employer already threatened to fire people who abuse sick paid leave during this pandemic. So naturally, workers are showing up nearly dead to work. It's not until the managers catch them, that they send them home. Oh and these same people who think it's just a scare, also won't get tested or go to hospital or seek medical help.
EDIT: Autocorrect!
m8key · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why for the last year I'm constantly getting deja Vu and always think I've done something in the past but can't seem to remember it
probablylayinginbed · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Grammar.
Don’t get me wrong I can write and talk perfectly fine, but you could explain to me what exactly the categories of words are and I just wouldn’t understand. Actually in no language, whether mother tongue or a language I learned later.
imperfectionsktm · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do Republicans and most democrats oppose someone like Bernie Sanders who is fighting for things like free healthcare, social security, better living wage etc. that actually benefits majority, maybe more than 90%, of these people who are opposing him. I’ve failed to understand people flying American flags with don’t treat on me stickers(btw I am an 11B veteran) on their pickup trucks while drowning in thousands of dollars of medical debts, but when someone is screaming for more than 30 years for getting these same people the benefits that would take them out of it. They hate him.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s better to have a base education in all subjects so that you aren’t pressured into a certain profession/field before you have to make that decision
SuomiPoju95 · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any language except finnish and english
Hyperactiv3Sloth · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroverts.
The-One_And-Only · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy so many shoes
purpleninjas · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Brendraws · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women?
DaLakeShoreStrangler · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Acruel accounting
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
SolarWind7 · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Driving stick. And I suck at it too.
HopeRMT · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girls can say, "You're like every girls dream guy including mine." but then go out of their way to not date you or they just go for a douchebag.
chin0413 · 1 points · Posted at 22:00:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loans. Taxes. Interests. Anything involves with money lol
kamunoz · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What stocks to companies that don’t pay dividends are for. Why do they change value if they serve no purpose other than to change value?
imuncreativesorry · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably has been said
But
Math.
starjellyboba · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When and how empathy became illogical. I see and argue with so many people whose political stance boils down to a believe that it's foolish to care about others. Who hurt y'all??
Calcifer4president · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bayes Equations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's really embarrassing but...electricity. I've looked up how it works and I'll understand while I'm reading about it, but then I'll forget. It's like I have a block or something.
OrwellianZinn · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people, particularly those of modest means, continue to support politicians that are actively, and blatantly, exploiting their positions for personal gain and/or corporate profit at the expense of those same voters. I understand the role of propaganda and the manipulation of feelings and ego that goes into it, but it still baffles me how people can allow politicians and businesses piss in their face year after year.
mccrackm · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Refrigerators. I know there are chemicals and circulation involved, but to me it’s almost as impressive as computers
memaloaf · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people believe in God (or any higher power)
kazanorby · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck we never see the moon’s other side. Like.... if i can’t, then the exact oppsite side of earth should see it cause it fucking rotates right?....
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 07:03:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The moon rotates and orbits at the same rate
Atlas_Zer0o · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How religion is so pervasive. I get back in like the 1800s but between science and seeing how Christianity is literally a plagiarised version of Egyptian god stories how do people fall for it? I guess it's the opposite of science and knowledge since it relies entirely on faith but it just feels like adults beleiveing in santa Claus.
headjakemedicine · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The moon. Like it would genuinely not surprise me if I saw it one place one night and then not at all the next night, and then somewhere else radically different the following night.
xMelynas · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate fortnite, I enjoy playing it and I’m not a 10 year old boy before y’all say something. Why can’t people let others enjoy something cause if not that’s kinda toxic
cdh2294 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What amps and volts are, i mean, i have to know it since its basic physics stuff and my brother explained it to me before, but still, i genuinely dont get it and how to apply it
Tokitueth · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why 16+ million people bought Pokemon Sword and Shield.
How is not overwhelming obvious the games were rushed to release during the holiday window? The graphics are worse than Let's Go and the animation for generally everything is terrible.
VainillaCat616 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Philosophy, whenever I was in Philosophy class I genuinely had small panic attacks, I understood NOTHING that the teacher said.
You might think I’m overreacting, but the small problem was that:
People always consider me good at philosophy
And sometimes the teacher or my friends would ask questions I had no idea how to answer, the teacher always said that my answers were great, and when I said to my friends “I genuinely don’t understand” they would get angry.
How did I miraculously passed that class? All of the exams were made in at least pairs, that saved me THREE years in a row. Every now an then I have nightmares about that class.
tiffanygray1990 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can I try something once and be addicted for life yet others can do it so many times and have literally no issues at all not doing it again?
DaCheezItgod · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spacetime, like I just can’t comprehend it. If I go fast enough I’ll literally travel forward in time, speed is the barrier to that?!
vegaboss · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiger King.
BlackIsTheSoul · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand fitness programs and routines. How people come up with them, how long you’re supposed to stick with one for, etc.. whenever I ask I get hostile responses especially online.
fenikz13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computer works, how does on or off turn into photoshop
colglazier17 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the US is so protective and obsessed with supporting Israel. Like why do they matter so much?
brookeko64 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf radios work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump is still in office AND allowed to run for office again. Like wtf!?
MargoThor · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people comment “nobody asked” on teenage girls TikToks... like yeah that’s how the internet works. Nobody asks people just post things for fun
tobillama · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why short hair is more acceptable and considered business oriented. I get that yeah short hair is cooler in summer months outside of that.
Gen9076 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. It has never made any sense to me and I legit cannot understand it.
Thereminz · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"wind" - trump
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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vincent_the_fool · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker.
ObamaBrown · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
DuccBoii · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that people bully each other for being different
kelsiersurvivor · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Disney decided to spend hundreds of billions of dollars on a Star Wars trilogy, but don't bother to write them out first.
tentwentythirtyforty · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
JimmyCrouton · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what temperature is room temperature
SNAKE0789 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
bobjackson999 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dietitians can call themselves scientists.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to properly use a semicolon!! As a non native English speaker using a semicolon has always been hard for me in a sentence much less differentiate between a proper use in a coma.
raucousporpoise · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You use a semicolon when you want to relate two similar but different ideas. For instance mountains are very tall; the tallest mountain above sea level is Mt Everest. Also, a semicolon can replace a comma, most often when making lists.
C3004 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why white ppl think it’s ok to say the n word
It’s ONE word u can’t say bro
Dogfishhead789 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come nobody has tried to invent something to see dark matter.... I got a lot of hell for making a post like this a while back under a different name.Also all the stuff we send out into space and none of it we sent to Orion's belt??? When almost everything on the Earth that we look into is lined up with Orion's belt??? From what I know we have sent nothing to planet x/nuberu/our Beetlejuice? I know it will take thousands and billions of years for us to send anything that direction but why have we not???? From the Beginning .Of us sending stuff into space???? WHY DID WE NOT SEND ANYTHING that direction?????
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can write "abolish capitalism" "eat the rich" or "feel the Bern" on an iPhone (tm) unironically.
Badlemon_nohope · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How zeros and ones make up everything we see on screens
ftdibivyeuobpbusra · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Привет
Grizzzzly1974 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a record stores sound. I just don't get it despite it being explained to me many times.
DemonDerek · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When women find me attractive.
When a woman compliments me, I never know how to react.
BuhrskySoSteen · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have psoriasis.
AmericanHoney33 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
coala147 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linear Algebra. Failed it twice already, majoring on statistics.
tom_la · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok
wvnne · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the hell mathematicians come up with these equations
GwenTomlinson · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the difference between friendship and relationships /platonic and romantic love? I mean I get that the feeling of having a crush at the beginning of a relationship is different but that feeling dies down doesn't it? And then isn't it just a very good friendship? I love my close friends. And since I'm bisexual I'm also attracted to some of them. What would be the difference to a romantic interest?
sheeeaaannn · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do toll booth workers get in their toll booths without getting ran over by passing cars? (Im from California)
1andonlybillyshearz · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in Europe its spring and on the other side of the planet it isn't. I mean, we're floating on the same Rock
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. Honestly math in general. I was always great at writing, drawing, and being creative in general (I’m a chef), but numbers and I don’t get along. I’m sure it’s disinterest more than inability but I just don’t understand the math “logic” and I’m sure that will never change.
jaylonsims · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
ScoutInBed · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fundamentals of Trigonometry. I always excelled in Math until I got into trig. I always found math easy since I always understood the concepts behind it. But in my trig class, there was no explanation to how Newton came up with Sine, Cosine, and Tagents. I can solve problems which include it, but I don't understand a thing and it drives me nuts.
-SecondHandSmoke- · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
sashanici · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks, bonds, trading
Annagrace420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why people like seeing other people naked or like are turned on my that like it’s just so weird to me to think that like wtf how do people like that
ben_games · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Zaddy13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ZantyRC · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
blackmirar · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works, I know it involves electrons but idk much past that
CptFandango · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Nicholas cage, Ben Afflek and Madonna have consistently got work over the years to the point where they are mega stars.
Budderfingerbandit · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender fluidity.
I get and can comprehend the rest of LGBT but the whole today I think I'm a woman and the next im a man and then back and forth I just dont understand. I've tried but it just boggles my mind.
SuperRiceBoi · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nematodes.
sofumashupotato · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people put idiots on a pedestal and worship them/give them their money
gambit57 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mols in chemistry. I was never great at science or math, but by all rights, I should have failed high school chem. I had a student teacher for Chem, and that may have had a small part of it, but once we hit the concept of mols, I was lost and totally screwed. Luckily, our Science dept was big into fundraising (my entire school was always severely underfunded even tho it was really high ranked). Student teacher offered extra credit for bringing in receipts to a certain store (kind of like box tops today). Except, being new, he didn’t understand the students at my school and didn’t put a cap on the amount of extra credit. I went from an F to a B-. 😅
If someone can give a simple explanation, I’d really appreciate it. Just cuz my kids will be asking me to explain it soon enough. The fact that the number changes really throws me off.
radrixx001 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that people love to talk so much , like please Karen shut up front door for once
stubbedliltoe · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How speakers work. Or tvs. HOW???
Midoriiihime · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
THE WORLD
Crakerlack · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics, shit is weird
hoyrry · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brexit I read a lot about it and I know the arguments for and against it. But I still don't understand why anyone would think that this is a smart move
Mommasandthellamas · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Dimauta · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How internet works. Especially WiFi and mobile data. I get the concept. I just wonder how can 0's and 1's "fly" through the air and show you funny cats in your pocket computer.
LoopbackZero · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A MODEM (modulator/demodulator) converts radio waves into digital data (1's and 0's). Your phone has a GPRS radio that basically does the same thing. Basically how does a wavelength get interpreted and translated to 1's and 0's.
Jossie2014 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why they let transgender athletes compete against females knowing full well the physical disproportionate advantages
bipidiboop · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need for more than one sexual partner if in a healthy relationship
c_hriscole · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people are able to see pictures in their head. like i know technically i’m the one with something wrong with me but i just don’t fucking know how it’s possible. it’s like a superpower
HandsomeRob74 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to have children
Emerald369 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who throw trash out of their Vehicles. Its like even the thought of doing it feels impossible to my brain its so fundamentally wrong to my head.
barkwooferton · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people find it so hard to repeat one word said in another language. I get that if it’s a fast sentence it’s hard to repeat but if someone just says one word with a simple noise structure I seriously do not understand how it’s that hard to repeat
astutebrat · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people have kids and then abuse them?
athenaxhope · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
football :(
avalanchebranches · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modular synthesis
SlenderManArmy01 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people see meaning to life.
niccthethiccc · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why those pissheads are spitting on the damn grocery store fruit.
_Mapache_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports fandom. On the one hand team loyalty is the point. People want to support their local team no matter what, even if they’ve consistently lost for decades. On the other hand the teams spend mountains of money in a competition to hire the best players in the world, regardless of where they’re from. So which is it?
HeathV404 · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records, how there is actual music in the grooves.
ItsYaBoyMajesticPepe · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polynomials in Algebra. Hate those things man
BlacktoothGrim · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum phucking physics...
Wraith_11a · 1 points · Posted at 22:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't know how breath. Like I really don't understa......
Firstdayeveryday · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how thousands of people can be online looking at a million different things and it all runs through a 3inch fiber optic wire... blows my mind
barkwooferton · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe that Chris Benoit was killed by Kevin Sullivan.
the-laughing-joker · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson
alexticboi23 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
RizaHawkeye1380 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general
GrinningDentrassi · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people feel that being a Typhoid Mary is deserved and perfectly OK
kidney_doc · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The use of Matrices
thabigcountry · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tie a tie with a long torso
Keanukx · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girls period’s works
joaoroceto · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How aligning one’s hydrogen atoms in a mri machine produces no body effect at all
korflorbajor · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why itching exists
Jimbobwhales · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are more upset with the US than with China when it comes to the pandemic.
Kildynn · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Investing, stocks, shares, trust funds, you know, that kind of financial stuff
snightoxic · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Announcements at a train station
RavenFlies · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That money can't give what the truth takes away.
revzsaz · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was told once by a stranger:
"Many seek the Solace of Wisdom - to know the why of a happening. There are a stark few that get an answer and fewer still that actually take Solace from it. Money can't buy this for or from you so take it or leave it - once you start asking "why" you won't stop..."
dhatlegend · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My love life
east-stand-hoop · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Somebody who is born deaf how do they think for instance I think in English but someone born has never heard or can grasp the idea of vocal language so what “voice” is in their head
xLilbigshot · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
DoNottBotherme · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that don't stay at home and don't follow profesional advise. People that discriminate DOCTORS AND NURSES FOR CHRIST SAKE in fear of getting infected with corona.
WHERE IS THE LOGIC
tickyul · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The earth is round.......why aren't people on the bottom upside-down, really?!?!?!?!
muddy19 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why private credit score companies exist, and why we are forced to use them. On that same note, why schools dont teach you about their influence BEFORE you get into debt.
chocolatemilksmhlol · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why doing drugs is considered “cool”
Mister-Scorpio · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ass college is
aimeeisnotacat · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Straight forward math. I’ve struggled my entire life no matter what way I look at it, I just can’t process the numbers.
psilvyy19 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parents kill or abuse their children. Beyond me.
prussell110 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we put an age to the universe when we don’t even know what’s beyond the visible universe?
LotlethTroll · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a nurse. I cant for the life of me understand how chest tube drainage systems work. I get that there's physics involved but the whole water seal concept just baffles me.
DoomsdayBlack · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fascination with the human anus.
Home_slice05 · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people insult you if you have Verizon or Android and not something like apple and Sprint. It's stupid.
BabyFloss · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
nightwastes · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twitch lingo
Elite_Gamer070 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people literally do the opposite of what the goverment says in these times.
ElyElyElyo · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
simonthebig111 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Addition and subtraction of negative numbers. Only thing I failed to understand in high school maths. Turned out to be pretty important in year 11/12 😬😬😬
can-solo · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. How come it's infinite? Whenever I think about it, I find myself dazed and teary-eyed and feel like just a useless primitive who is trying to do something to live on.
Jarzlopy · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people with the pledge of allegiance on their back truck window highlight the line 'and for the republic for which it stands'.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how Donald trump is still the president of the United States.
Overpunch42 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I always so tired even when I get enough sleep, I don't wanna get up.
zeryab_zsns · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There was a F&M for all mankind, and we've innumerable of languages
PigDestroyer3000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a cold can scare the world
Its_Lewiz · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans feel the need to hoard guns
revzsaz · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the more you have (and can effectively use) the harder it is for someone else to take them from you. This is compounded by firm belief in our Constitution's Second Ammendment (and rearing children with this in the forefront of their minds) alongside various politicians and less-than-informed "concerned citizens" pulling for guns to be outlawed and forceably removed from law-abiding, gun-owning citizens due to issues such as mass shootings (take from our news what you will).
Those of us who enjoy the idea (false as it may be), that we are prepared for any and all issues that could arise (speaking in very general terms of apocolypse) most often carry, collect, and feel proud of the resources we most highly value for such an occasion. For some (the average American) it's weaponry (usually firearms). For some (like me) it's other stuff like healing items and easy-carry containers (I make pouches and backpacks from upholstery vinyl). Some think along the lines of stimulating commerce by "bringing something unique to the table." Some think more along the lines of capturing that table by force if needed (or wanted). In any case, it's not all of us that hoard guns (I've never owned one myself at 30 y/o,m) (I also happen to think they're lazy - preferring more traditional meleè styles/weapons for everyday use).
I hope this helps and I'm happy to discuss my thoughts further if you'd like
Cheers
Edited for spelling
Its_Lewiz · 1 points · Posted at 08:41:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand this but you basicaly said it yourself;
“Because the more you have (and can effectively use) the harder it is for someone else to take them from you.
So if no one had guns you wouldn’t feel the need to have more than another person.
I get the whole “its the right of the American people to own a gun for protection” but when you have a fucking armoury i think thats a bit excessive.
revzsaz · 1 points · Posted at 15:18:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. It's expensive as hell and I'm sure regular maintenance eats up a fair bit of time. With all of this in mind, I can't see my way to asking for any change in the matter. Nobody gripes about how many knives I own - where's my right to tell you you can't (or shouldn't) own so many xxxxxx('s)?
My brother is a decent example of what I find to be excessive. When our Dad passed about ten years ago, he left my brother his guns. A shotgun, a rifle and three handguns. Since then, little bro has sold one of the handguns and bough three more. I've rarely seen him have the time to take these all out at once to a range (man's got a busy life). I've asked a few times what it would take for me to just borrow one of his handguns for some range time. His consistent response runs in course with "get your own while you still can." What this tells me is that there is an embedded attitude of someone(s) attempting to take this freedom, by force if necessary. In looking at some of the gun control lobbies and potential bills running around, I can sort of see this too. While I might see excess, his guns and my knives are not the only places I see these things. I've started to see it as most other collections - put together with care for the spirit of collecting and sometimes with disregard for the price of the individual item. The same can be said of cars, boats, various other pieces of sporting equipment, jewels, kitchenwares, coins, etc. While the specific desire doesn't make sense to me (specifically me and specifically guns), I say that as long as it's not harming anyone - let's all collect whatever we want.
SubjectDelta10 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genetics. there are only a couple of building blocks in genes and by putting them in a different order you can make a code that can create every thing in your body. it’s insane.
BabaYaga-Neyer · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is math from 7th grade and up basically useless besides geometry.
ImpossibleTheory9 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between those that call themselves hosts and those that are considered guests of this place/world.
ross52066 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Banking/accounting. I’m fucking horrible. I can manage my own budget but when you get into all the baking terms I’m a dummy.
ras2703 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monogamy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do relationships happen? Like how do two people get over all the nonsense and BS and games and end up together?
jblan1234 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hitlers reasons
mintygk · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biology. I get how Physics works and, to an extent since I've stopped studying it, I understand Chemistry. Biology, however, never makes any sense to me. Why does plant do plant thing? How does body do body thing? At least with physics I can link and derive equations based on experiments and such, I just don't understand how Biology makes things work.
_-_DONTPANIC_-_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
taxes/loans
MJB818 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why I don’t understand stuff.
eeggrroojj · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men wear Flip flops.
Why either gender, really.
OgreTheFat · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jealousy...and stupidity.
HardSwing_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How deaf people pronounce
aspargus62 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions. How people get emotive differently for the same situation.
Tocon_Noot_Gaming · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep defending Trump and acting like he understands what the poor man goes through. Kinda weird how he can get away with anything due to political convenience because almost half the things he has done and said that if Obama was in office there be blood on the street
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The bird egg fertilization process.
GW2RNGR · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. Is it even real, or just some bullshit puesdoscience made up for the sake of attention?
im_very_honest · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adult shit
space_cadett_kiwiora · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have issues with gay people (and any sexual orientation other than straight).
Like WHY DOES it matter to people who other people fall in love with? I just cannot understand it. I find it so illogical.
I don’t get why when people introduce people they also go ‘this is my gay best friend’. Like - what exactly is their sexual orientations relevance in an introduction.
I think someone’s sexual identity is a part of who they are and a component of their identity so I am not for a second wanting to deny its importance, it’s very important. But these wack reactions OTHER people have just baffles me.
Can’t we just love and look after people?
If you’re out there reading this and feeling judged or not accepted I LOVE YOU AND YOU ARE AMAZING! And the judgement you face has absolutely nothing to do with you, NOTHING. Enjoy your life, I’m glad you get you live your truth and be you! Because you are more than enough and deserving of love. You NEVER have to earn it or suppress a WONDERFUL part of yourself (your sexual orientation) to be loveable or be loved, so here, please please feel all my love to you!
Thomas_Raith · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why “Being mean is not nice” isn’t essentially a complete set of societal rules in and of itself that everyone follows all the time.
pokemonsta433 · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most languages, but Chinese stands out as a good example
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely I don’t understand how humanity could have evolved so intelligently - making fire, flight, heart transplants, curing diseases - and people take it for granted. I look around at folks sometimes looking at their phones and wonder, do you actually appreciate all this or is it just ‘there’ for you? If I sit and really think about what humans have achieved it makes me dizzy. And that’s before we get onto the bigger picture of nature and the universe in general...
111atchout · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looking at the maps of the universe's background radiation. I'm 68% certain we are not located within that map, but what's the base perspective? What is north? If this is seeing beyond everything else (is it even that?) where are some recognizable points? Howard does anyone get any information out of those things? To clarify, I am impressed, love looking at them, but what am I really looking at?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to properly communicate with people
ncreddituser · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do cruise ships float
Waltzcarer · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical shit
Source: am electrical engineering student
Baron250 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life (depressing I'm aware)
italianface123 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting
Eurocat75005 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People supporting Trump.
The_Holy_Turnip · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Porn games. Until there's a Fleshlight attachment for controllers I just can't get in to this movement.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gimbal lock
greenie-meanie · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
U.S. taxes. Why do I claim nothing just for the government to take the maximum amount of money from me, and then they give me that money back after I file taxes? Why take the money just to give it back? If you take it from me, why don’t you use it on the roads and for the schools? If you’re going to give it back, why must you take it from me in the first place? Shit makes no sense to me.
nadjp · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't read maps... I mean for me it's so obvious that I'm here a need to get there so next corner I turn left walk the street 2nd corner right, and I'm there.
LuckyCat95 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever a mole is in chemistry. I know it is a unit of measurement, but what it exactly measures is lost on me, even after AP chem in high school.
Suffice to say I did not take chem in college.
Ailyra · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People (that are not large corporate CEOs) that genuinely support Trump. Like, truly believe in him, what he says, what he stands for, that he fully has their interests in mind, that there is nothing that could be better for our country than what he says or does.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't fully understand pedophilia. Like a 15 and a 18-19 year old could be dating but as soon as they reach 20 years of age, it's illegal. Or a 20 year old dating a 25 year old, but a 15 year old can't date a 20 year old. That's not to say I don't think it's wrong, just to an extent. I'm just saying 15 and above is when I personally stop caring.
RedLazer03 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most everything.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution. How did water dwellers become land dwellers when evolution takes so many years? How did they survive the “in-between” time between gills and lungs?
And before you go and be an anal bead about it maybe you could explain it to me instead!
reduff · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fantasy football works.
NOYB94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Allowing Euthanasia on patients with clinical depression. I am actually pro-euthanasia, but suicidal thoughts are literally the main symptom of the illness. When I first heard it I thought anti-euthanasia people made it up, but it's actually true, at least in Belgium and Holland. Scary shit.
They_Beat_Me · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interpersonal communication. I struggle with it even after having six children, finishing two degrees, and working as a Liaison for a government agency. Go figure.
GlowWorm23 · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people will ruin their lives in pursuit of sex.
random_ass_girl · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why nobody believes rape victims
hellamellochello · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking fractions man.
Puudzy · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets
MadamGingerFarts · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Climate change deniers
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual fluidity among people who claim to be straight
aStupid_donkey · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
jimmiejamm · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drum and bass
Fionarei · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TV and radio with advertisements. How are they free?
Burgerlini88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Insurance packages.
In particular when starting a new job.
Hearing stuff like, “2500 annual deductible, with 200 deductible after , with a 20/80 copay once your max out of pocket is met, capped at 5000 flex spending for services rendered” or whatever ....confuses me.
Even when someone explains , I have no idea five minutes later
MrDude_1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
_leica_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t seem to stay put at home during this pandemic
shitshatmgee · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to most people it's viewed as normal for some girls to dress in more masculine clothes and be tomboys, but immediately get disgusted by guys being feminine.
realHueyLong · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Redstone
TheDarkDestroyer1995 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can vote Tory
Gitmurr · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Money works... Like why does money even have a value?
therealmyself · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you actually want to know this video (46 min sorry) I think is pretty good.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nBPN-MKefA
Gitmurr · 1 points · Posted at 08:33:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man!
whitesunsupergirl · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
investing
aeg4417 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything about football. Like actually what the fuck? (English football)
lattyb · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pullies
KingThisKhan · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Atheists say "Bless you" after someone sneezes.
shakeil123 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
Kintaki_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid this race is. I understand that there are many intelligent people in the world, but the fact that we are "the most intelligent race" and still have the capacity to be stupid enough to believe the earth is flat or that vaccines cause autism [as a couple of notable examples] is laughable.
llama_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you short stocks, and more generally how people claim to know anything about the stock market.
PharaohPeter · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subjunctive tenses in Portuguese.
nikoselezi09 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people dive underwater without closing their nose and not get any water sucked in.
wanderingflakjak · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human emotions and human behaviour
Parsival- · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our brain works. It seems so simple, a gel sack that fires electrons too and fro via synapses (or something like that) but I still don't get how it works, how we are able to remember anything or send signals from it to the rest of our body. Like, I "get" the "basics" but don't actually understand it. As in, I "know" how some of it works (electrical impulses etc ) but I don't "understand" how it actually works.
Eatmydonkey1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humanity is so fucking stupid
Bower007 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space never ending
Magoogly1983 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most other languages.
gsdagaw91 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras can see through green screen suits
purplepotatopatty321 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. I genuinely don’t understand how the stock market works and exchange rates.
enterwittynamehere · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting. I'm working on my masters and have always effortlessly been able to do any work assigned to me. Accounting on the other hand has been a fucking test of patience. I dont think I've ever worked so hard on something and still not understand it at all. Stupid balance sheets and income statements still look foreign to me.
liquid_atp · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t believe in science...or worse, people who pick what science they believe and what they don’t...yes doc, I’ll take this heart pill daily, but climate change, that’s some made up BS.
great_dame · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I do all these things for people but no one bothers to call on me to see how I am doing or what have you until I make a mistake.
Huntarantino · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women, apparently.
Goldskull992 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people make fun of people with disabilities
Tom_2171 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe’s creation, how can something come from nothing
Greeknerd2003 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans are such a holes. I have searched psychology sources for answers but I cant figure it out.
JessT8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People being mean/ bullying for no reason. Like, how hard is it to be nice?
DELAGZ · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being sober
fraujun · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
mrtygrsht · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care about cheating so much
weltallic · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The modern political fad of refusing to persuade and entice the opposition to switch and vote for you, and instead attack/insult/ban them, guaranteeing they will never vote with you, and actively pushing them further into opposition to you.
Reddit has been instrumental in this.
The damage reddit has done to liberal political advocacy continues to be immeasurable, and possibly irreparable.
AnonRstr_URNMegg · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frankly I never understood the persuade and entice activity either. It’s as if people of differing opinion cannot coexist, particularly people who only have a “cocktail” level of participation. Leave the gerrymandering, statecraft, and lying in general to the people who are actively involved.
DrunknHamster · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the stock market is up right now...
FlamingoPepsi · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rude people, this lady comes to my work every day and always has a bitchy attitude and and everything she says it sounds like she is wasting her time talking to me. I give her what she wants reasonably quick and not even a thank you. I can’t fathom how someone can be so rude.
TristanAHoughton · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can stay inside all day when it is sunny out
asmodeuscactus · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why they can’t just make more money to pay off countrys debts
dragonpugs · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A dishwasher
bbluey12 · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math just math.
evenmonkeys · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
chrrmin · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. Its like theyre a different species i just dont get it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe is infinite, but still expanding.
Ottersocks2020 · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need to bring others low.
I would really like a head doctor to sit down and break it down with me. So many times I do not navigate crucial conversations to the best of my ability because someone in the conversation is reacting so personally and working so hard to bring another person down and it just baffles me.
LunaPNW · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol at the folks saying "women"...are we that complicated? What's so confusing? Speak up, as I'm genuinely curious.
BubzDubz · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you posted this.
WonderfullyKiwi · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
ER-Fire · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of a pissing contest.
I get it’s one of those things that’s just like a macho contest, but if we actually held a pissing contest is the winner whoever pisses longer, or further?
MargoThor · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be mean to grocery store workers/other essential workers right now. Especially considering a lot of them are teenagers.
My friend has been called a r*tard, a stupid bitch, and been told she’s too stupid to ever have another job within one day. By grown ass adults. She’s 17. How can you speak to someone risking their health and safety, especially a kid risking their health and safety? I don’t understand people.
madmelloplayer · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How inflation works
bitstronginfo · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you can and can’t see through cracked (halfway open) blinds from the outside.
I know it has to do with the amount of light outside vs inside, but is there a general rule?
Klendagort · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are people uncomfortable to talk about sex?
1907_Can · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe that the earth is flat even if they see experiments that prove them wrong
Danilo24k · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirrors
redditdire · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The green blue bubble thing in the US
Luigibeforetheimpact · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Politics and I'm American. I just know it has a lot to do with greed.
ewrege · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
Kdasherz · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People , dont know how to form a long lasting connection with someone
Im_a_PotatOS · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms
K4RMITDAFR0G · 1 points · Posted at 22:08:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand when I am looking at my phone and then feel like I'm about to fall asleep but then when I turn over to plug my phone in I am wide awake....like seriously body just go to bed
Ashken · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electromagnetism
mnsriddho · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I became so dumb and stupid
TheCatanist · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of wanting to be and thinking you are or should be a different gender. I get that it happens, but I won’t ever be able to understand the actual feeling of it.
swflkeith · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people’s minds work when it comes to politics. How they can listen and watch someone lie to them on television, know it’s a lie, and do mental gymnastics to convince themselves otherwise
arctickitten83 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I get basic math and that’s about it. Oh. And space. It’s endless. We will probably never know what exists out there.
Doctor_who_10 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can do bad things when they know they are bad to do or will do harm to themselves and/or others.
chillypyo · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conflict in the middle east, place names, leader names, I just find it really hard to keep track of and it's so important, something that effects the world on terms of conflict and oil prices etc and I have to admit, its beyond me!
miurabucho · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transposing keys playing with a guitar. I just cannot compute that shit.
got_milky_milky_milk · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
basic chemistry
MarniMNM · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why staying at home is so hard for people.
chase_1998 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brunner & Suddath’s Textbook of Medical-Surgical Nursing 14th edition
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tongue Piece of meat sticking out of my face
whole-weet-bred · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The U.S. education system. I genuinely have no idea why their logic is so stupid. It actually bothers me they way they plan and do things.
P.S: Just to be clear I am an American and it still makes no sense to me.
captobliviated · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Knot theory
HarvardGradFag · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speakers! It’s such a thing we take for granted that we have these devices that can perfectly replicate any sound. How is that even possible, man.
-Pokei-Pokei- · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
2020
JustAnotherSadBot · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The science behind making a baby
GustavTheTurk · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't understand any grammar of any language.
Demonwolf22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
Knightlyboi · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why sonic team can't make a good game
iwjllsjj · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is/was ozone hole over Antarctic and new one over arctic? Why not some place else?
Blcea · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat in relationships.
captain-marvel86 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deaf people..... or more specifically, what language do they hear in their head? Or do they just visualize sign language? I’ve done research and I understand the concepts, but it still just blows my mind. I can’t image not talking to myself, but when you don’t know verbal language, it must get quite.
Jake1702_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Arithik · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
Whenever someone tries to explain it, my mind goes to the little oompah band instead.
droopypop · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some people don’t have an internal narrative.
I read that some people “hear” their thoughts, and some people just have non-verbal abstract thoughts, and have to consciously verbalise them.
I’m in the former category, as are the majority of people, and cannot understand the other for the life of me. My thoughts are a podcast that I can’t turn off.
sarelai · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are people in the world who would rather be Darth Vader than Luke Skywalker.
CygnusBC · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any appeal to Billie Eilish
Talking_out_ofhisass · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My taxes, am I paying for others ssi and stuff? Why can’t we just have universal healthcare
MandyYes · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
where money comes from during a crisis. currently there are a ton of headlines about X-country freeing billions of dollars to help stabilise the economy. where the hell does that money come from??
H3X-0MGA · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people will randomly give people awards for the most random things.
sarelai · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are people in the world who would rather be Darth Vader than Luke Skywalker.
Rey-Mcscriff · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whom
LDCSMB · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conflict over jerusalem
RunKMX · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?
misterbagel21 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Chalcko_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Have you ever stopped at a gas station during a roadtrip at like 2am to take a piss or something, and you get this... Feeling. I can't explain it, it's a smell, and a temperature, and a vibe. It feels empty and crowded at the same time. It feels cold and warm. It feels like another dimension. I have no idea what it is.
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another poster posted a link about "liminal spaces" which is what you are talking about.
Chalcko_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh
fulcyou · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people don’t “understand” reddit
juliejeans · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit scores, why they’re so important, why they can suddenly go down for no reason, and why we actually even use them.
whiskehangover · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think the world is flat
NPSheaffer · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
sleepJarr · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxers and their logic
telicia02 · 1 points · Posted at 22:09:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
unrebigulator · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gyroscopic precession.
EducatemeUBC · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My physics class.
CreeperAwwwhMann · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
thispersonistedious · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are rude/self centered/racist/sexist. I dont get how people can completely disregard everyone else's emotions/feelings and treat people like garbage. They're as much human as you are and they deserve to be treated like one.
LuquidThunderPlus · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
on the theory of evolution, there's the big bang, and from my very limited knowledge on the big bang, there was stuff compacted into a very very very small space so small that it blew up with a bang and created everything. but where did that stuff come from?
it's the same concept with any kind of god or higher being. who made god? where did he come from??
that's why I figure it's easier never to think about it because you can't get anywhere
edit: another thing, I seem to feel very little emotions of sadness about people I know dying. while writing this edit I'm realizing the better way to put this into words is I have an extremely difficult time making real connections with real people. I will cry over my pet, or a fictional character, but I just don't find the same sadness from real people. Someone very close to me died recently, and I barely cried. I don't know why.
Garrus_McSwagg · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My intermediate accounting II work. Which part of it? The new part I get every week.
forestandthemachine · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can hear, "I want all humans to have complete access to basic necessities required for living, without any barriers," and consider that a negative thing in any way at all. How could you argue that some people should just die for no good reason?
usingastupidiphone · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to fix my country
gustavomendes10 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What am I?If a person went through the same as I would she have the same personality?
MiguelMasso · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women gg
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trigonometry even works
SACGAC · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a nurse but I just don't understand blood gases. We have RTs at work so I rely on them a ton, but, yeah, other than respiratory acidosis, I got nothing. Thank you, respiratory therapists!
scooterrouter · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrons hate each othet and want to get as far from each other as possible. When there is a path between a reservoir with lots of electrons and an empty reservoir, electrons will flow in to the empty reservoir until they are evenly distributed.
scooterrouter · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:40 on May 24, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes sense thanks!
barkwooferton · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in the modern age who live in modern homes with modern technology in modern culture can believe in a god
tweetybean · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our government is what it currently is (US).
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Expensive designer handbags/purses.
BasedBleach · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blind hipocrisy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do some people like the taste of beer and wine. I don't get it.
Luca715 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most people don’t give a shit about school
Hardkoar · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:42:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Hardkoar · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The reason why I said stupid people, is because I believe they choose to remain stupid, just like you chose not to learn basic tense.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Hardkoar · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
No, one's education is not a display of intelligence. You are desperately clutching at straws in an attempt to sound smart.. If you had the answer to what you think you know, you would be able to explain it. But you can't, because you don't.
You see... Although one's education is not a metric we could use to measure one's intelligence in it's fullest, you can't be a dumb fuck AND also have an advanced degree in mathematics, which therefor becomes a displays of a certain degree of required intellect, meanwhile a complete lack of education says absolutely nothing about the subject's intelligence at all.
So the question then arises : When you make mistakes that are corrected in first grade, such as the ones you've been committing so far, are you stupid or just uneducated?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Hardkoar · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
''There are many educated unintelligent people''. Yes and no, it depends on the subject. For most, a certain degree of intelligence is required for you to understand it.
No, I did not misspell ''Therefor'', I just did not write ''Therefore''. One is an adverb that means “as a consequence,” “as a result,” or “hence.”
The other is an adverb that means “for that,” or “for it.”
Lacking information about a topic does not make one stupid, as one can always educate oneself. Rather, stupidity is more of a choice. If someone chooses to act without taking full measure of the available evidence, that is stupidity.
Therefor, I genuinely do not understand stupid people's choice to remain stupid and ignorant.
Thanks for the chat, have a good one.
ay-sea · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's all about finding x man.
ay-sea · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ik but it keeps getting harder and harder
dublox64 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sao haters...
lurch1066 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As in the anime sword art online?
dublox64 · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes i dont understand why some people still hate this anime even after many years...
lurch1066 · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love it. Have seen season 1 a lot, season 2 (GGO) a few times and the film once. It does seem very Male centred. Very easy. He has all the girl hanging on him so can see why it isnt everyone's cup of tea.
cuppedcookie · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people lack common sense
AWildAplaca · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How i got here and my life choices
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to squeegee for some fuckin reason
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How those cassette tapes that have an aux cord work! I’ve never looked it up due solely to the fact that it is the closest thing I’ll ever have to magic.
pussytsunami27 · 1 points · Posted at 22:10:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people don’t think before they speak. They just spit out whatever. It’s like... what are you thinking, are you thinking at all?
maunzendemaus · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
myself. (deep shit)
Blueistheonlyemotion · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
everything
gbinasia · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people afford a house in BC lol
Seikatsu6 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Is something weird because I'm really good at math, I know how to do math. But I don't get how it works. I'm not good to explain things like this but I just don't get it
_roldie · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans (not all) oppose universal healthcare.
ciaramcw · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
deckerjeffreyr · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Supporters
liquidswords10304 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why grocery stores put the sticker on the deli meat and cheese bag. Half the time it cannot be opened without ripping the bag
IDWKarma · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do stocks and the stock market work. Like, I get some of it, but like, how do people make it a career?
wrex08 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are tax deductible donations worth it (USA)? How is it that you could net money? I can't imagine everyone just does it out of spite.
francofranclic · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Circuit Theory
kayla_songbird · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the actual reason why electrons behave in such a way that makes sense but doesn’t make sense. the general idea of chemistry i understand but when we break it down to atoms and how they behave, i will not understand. basically asking why to every chemistry question about atoms and not getting a clear understanding from anyone.
therealmyself · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't ahve a good answer for you, but Richard Feynman explained why it is hard to explain complicated things to somone without the neccessary groundwork of understanding to understand the answer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MO0r930Sn_8
Short anwer is magic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I don't like going in the shower but why I don't want to get out of the shower once Im in
yennyspenny · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market and how the market relates to employees getting laid off.
slimthicpussy · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Veshrah · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why r/legaladvice moderators have no sense of humor
Aubreywilmslow · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People showering in the morning but not in the evening. Clearly, you get dirty/sweaty after a long day, not after spending 8 hours in your clean bedsheets. I get the argument that a morning shower wakes you up but I will never understand why someone would dirty their bedsheets by going to sleep without taking a shower first ugh
Roon22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They say the universe is still expanding....into WHAT ?? I don't get it !
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people in Australia buy peugot’s. They aren’t even cheap here. They aren’t particularly classy, luxurious, practical, high performance or reliable, they depreciate faster than milk, their interior trim falls apart in the heat here, they are a pain to work on & their service departments charge an arm and a leg. Honestly why?!?
unfederedpancake · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I suddenly lose sleep the moment I enter bed even though I've been sleepy for hours....honestly WTF
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum numbers in chemistry
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:46:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like an address.
In the US you have a country, state, city/zip code, street, house/building address, and maybe apartment number.
Or in a hotel, floor, wing, room number.
In atoms, n is the orbital. It's like the floor number in a building. l is the sub orbital shape. It's kind of like a wing of the floor. m is the magnetic quantum number. It's the direction the wing faces. The spin is whether you are in bed or out of bed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:01:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for the metaphor, I appreciate it!
tofutunasalad · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people believe religion over science
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just... Kill a man
sky-link88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:11:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've how software programs used to write others software programs work, like how did the first program come about if all programs need a programmer
TEX4S · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
envack · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
JoeisaBro · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subnetting. Real confusing stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work
I've been alive decades and I still lowkey think phones are some kind of voodoo. How can I talk into a little piece of plastic and metal and someone in japan can clearly hear what I'm saying
antealtares · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I get so mad at objects when I hit them with my head.
TrolloBlingBling · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am 26 and I genuinely have no idea how life works! I know that money is good and bills are bad, so I pay then as fast as possible so they disappear but other than that I have no idea..
Just wake up everyday go to work, have small talk pretend to do adult things and know what they are, go to bed sleep and hope I don't have to do this again tomorrow.. Ask me how an appointment with the doctor is made and I will just burst out laughing, cause I have no idea what you just said..
synchromorph69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who live at the top of the bell curve.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you might misunderstand. The top of the curve represents the average or median region. Average intelligence, average income.
It's the people in the tail regions who are unusual.
synchromorph69 · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:32 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I'm fully aware of what I wrote, and being from the far right region, I don't understand how so many people can be so fucking stupid.
Morgoth_Jr · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How matter warps space. That's how we get mass. Gravity is the result of this warping effect. Matter somehow warps space, like stretching taffy. There are no straight lines in space at all.. That's just an illusion. It's all orbits and curves.
Matter also warps time - because time and space are connected. I don't understand that either.
ExplodingShowtunes · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I before e except after c cause there’s so many exceptions to that rule other than after C
carolinethebandgeek · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy. And I’m taking macro and microeconomics classes right now. Fml
kizzrider · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homeowners associations. Why would I need to listen to someone else’s rules on my own property?!
Shines556 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make friends or not make coworkers uncomfortable and most most certainly don’t understand how to find a significant other.
callumhasa2inch · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blind people can understand what life is?
OutragedBubinga · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics. My brain doesn't work with math I don't know why.
chuudani · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the coordinates in minecraft
revzjohnson · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How atheists can look down on anyone else that doesn’t share their beliefs, often accusing them of being small-minded.
Ahhh, hello?
Frayus · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Game design. How do thousands of lines of code turn into interactive masterpieces. The concept completely eludes me.
GsnailTheBnail · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleeping. Like one minute you’re laying there, eyes shut, content with your thoughts. And all of a sudden you wake up to needing a piss or wake up with a dead arm because you were holding the quilt too tightly. How do we so suddenly slip into unconsciousness??
throwaway9999-22222 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Still don't know what's 4 ×7.
Insanebrain247 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Customers leaving half eaten food/drink on the store shelves. Even during this pandemic, I can't seem to go 1 week without finding a half full can of Mountain Dew, a sandwich from our deli, or more recently, a box of White Castle sliders! With half of said sliders missing but the other half still in there! It's "nice" to know that even though there's a ravenous lung/blood disease on the prowl all over the world, there are still humans with little enough common sense that they can just leave a mess with no weight on what would be their concience.
And store employees are supposed to be praised and regarded as "heroes"?
petofil · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who else just waits for the YouTube video of this
marsglow · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right wing people
SOLOgamer94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people have children
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of things
GMX451 · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. Is it truly linear or is that an illusion?
CrazyCaper · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of everything
fartassmcjesus · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corporate greed.
TallMills · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that 5G cell towers caused COVID-19... Like seriously, 4G didn't cause anything bad, so why would 5G?
Scrodge_Bogdar · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
PHP
college-drop-out · 1 points · Posted at 22:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and sleep
wellreadtheatre · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a parent can just walk away from their child, and have little to no contact with them. How can a person know they have flesh and blood on this earth and not feel lost without them in their life? I don’t understand this. I want so badly to understand my son’s father, but no matter what I do, I can’t wrap my brain around it.
runningstupid · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get dogs and then put them outside on chains. In America that’s super common and I’ve heard some people say it’s for protection but....how can they protect you on a 10 ft chain???? Can’t they protect you better y’know, in your house? If you can’t train/house train/handle a dog then don’t get one????
StressNeck · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the universe is expanding... what is it expanding into? Where is "the end" of the cosmos? I just can't comprehend it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are incredibly smart people at the helm of financial and managerial decisions in big multinational companies, but all they do is panic and carryout mass layoffs at the first sight of trouble.
Their only job is to ensure that the company efficiently does what it is expected to be doing, make products or services for the customer often partially consisting of their own employees. They are paid high salaries to be prepared for all contingencies. I just don't understand this.
Shills26 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many complex words mean the exact same thing as basic ones and schools make us learn all the complex ones.
Always give us these complex vocab lists, then I look the words up, and it’s just a different way to say something extremely basic.
Example: Adamantine just means unbreakable
time_flask · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Guys that wolf whistle and shout out things at girls passing by. What do you expect she's going to do?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Giant MMOs. They look so fun but every time I try to play them I just they so overwhelmed and have no idea what I’m supposed to do.
TargetBrandTampons · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Syndicate agreed to help to colonists
OwStopHittingMe · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good chunk of Reddit and most of my generations hatred for firearms, especially when lookin at the stats they do more harm then good
Diablo165 · 2 points · Posted at 22:14:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm reading this holding a mossberg :P
OwStopHittingMe · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nice :)
tangofoxtrot1989 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Git.
Timetoruinlife · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Certain languages.
Simply_Satanic · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Adjacent angles
nokkoren · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does one "build a PC". What the hell does that mean?! How do you know about all the hundreds of components and what not that belong in a computer! Fuck that.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don't build it completely from scratch. They typically buy a few key componants.
The motherboard (the thing everything plugs in to).
The processor (CPU) this is the brain of the computer that does the computing. Most computers have more than one.
The hard drive, or hard disk. This stores the programs and other data.
RAM. This is memory. Temporary storage where the computer puts data it will need shortly.
Video and sound card. Some motherboards have them built in but people often at least prefer to supply their own sound card.
Power supply. Supplies the power.
Cabinet. Typically a tower. The housing of the computer.
Cooling system. Fans and heat sinks. Some cooling systems use liquid through piping.
People might also add an optical drive and other accessories.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weather and forecasts.
I can't read radar on weather forecasts. I understand what it is SUPPOSED to be telling me, but I cannot look at one and understand it. I swear, most do not specify whether they are past, present, or future. And unless you live in a large city, we're just supposed to KNOW where we are on the map? There's no weather channel that leaves it on the screen long enough for me to have time to piece it all together.
When I talk to people and they say "well it's supposed to rain around three" I honestly don't understand where they got that information.
I have downloaded many, many weather apps over the years because I've constantly thought that everyone around me had the "good" one and I am clearly using some sub-par app. But I say confidently, with three weather apps currently on my phone, it's me.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might have a learning disorder that makes it difficult for you to understand maps.
Sparktank1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People thinking that using the toaster, the microwave, and a tea kettle at the same time will *sometimes* work out the way they want it...
AnotherAnxiousPerson · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nosy people. Why is my life so interesting to you? I'm just reading Reddit posts. Why? Because I'm trying to find the meaning of PI.. Because I want to, now go away and mind your own business!
CellPhoneConsultant · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump supporters and cultists are so alike but are given different names.
douuh · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How GER works exactly?
magusmccormick · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rain.
grymthelod · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English
Sloppycactus · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s a thought
omicron01 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming. I've learned the basics, still can't so advanced shit on my own
doco12345678910 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bees can fly since according to all known laws of aviation there should be no way a bee could fly
SalsaSpitter · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My emotions
JediH · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone with Aspergers syndrome... Emotion.. I genuinely don’t understand emotion.. I barely feel it myself most of the time but will occasionally be overwhelmed. Even then I don’t understand my own emotions or the emotions of others.. Within the last few years I’ve experienced more and started experiencing complex/mixed emotions like happy crying etc which just makes thing even more confusing.
How do you regular humans even cope with all these emotions, how are you able to decide anything or be even remotely logical XD
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
EVERYTHING!
N64TEAM · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are flames capable of existing?
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A flame is actually a region in which an exothermic (energy emitting) chemical reaction is taking place. The reaction causes electrons to give up energy in the form of heat and photons (light) as they reorganize and drop to lower energy states. This heats the air and in a gravitational field, hot air rises, causing the flame to have the shape it does. In microgravity, such as on the space station, flames are spherical.
orlabobs · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sex who bleed (and quite often can go through considerable pain during it) once a month, for a very large period of their life, (not to mention have to deal with even bigger shit After this) birth children (and deal with the recovery whilst dealing with an infant), (or go through the pain, often with little support and with very few people knowing, of miscarriage or still birth) feed children from their own body (even though it can hurt and can cause them to be stigmatised and forced out of public places), wear uncomfortable clothes and footwear along with getting waxed up and down their body regularly, etc. Etc. are considered the ‘weaker’ sex.
thepesterman · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sequels could be so unbelievably shit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how does memory work and how people are able to hold on to them, especially in the short term
Crilby · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ThreeWheeledBicycle · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
flat earthers
GaryCarterSays · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Third party payer system
ivyagogo · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
Xianio · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how a computer reads, interprets and then (re)produces sound.
Necromonicus · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatives
cooles_dudes · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
Never got it
kay_loves_riverdale · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why when I stay up for long periods of time, I start to feel less tired.
GodInABag · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I love sleep, but yet only get like 4-5 hrs of sleep a night
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of emotions they have no use and no meaning why are they here
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They keep us alive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
For example, fear causes most people and animals to respond in a defensive manner in the face of a threat.
tjean5377 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
(American here)
health insurance. Deductibles, co pays, etc. the math of what is charged for healthcare makes no sense. I am a nurse. I need to take a education hour credit class on this. But I'm so bewildered at my own health expenses that I cannot deal with trying to explain to anyone else. Also I had heart surgery in 1998, BCBS MA. I paid $21 a week. I found a PCP who happened to be a cardiologist who I happened to mention that I was kinda short of breath going up stairs and with emotion. One ultrasound later I was booked at MGH for immediate open heart surgery. I had a total of 3 cardiology consults, all labs, OR, inpatient, outpatient visit...$5. I. DID.NOT.WORRY. Now 21 years later I'm nickel and dimed for every damn test, lab, visit, (forget ER and anthing else) I have an FSA but, kid needs braces and I NEED HEARING AIDES so that is not viable for both of us since we had to pay 6000 out of pocket for hubs prosthetic leg not due to diabetes. (obvs my kid gets braces first...WHAT? WHAT????I'm fine with not hearing you also you won't know it since I've done it since birth) Also my husband is Type 1 Diabetes, his insulin has skyrocketed in the last 10 years. IT> MAKES>NO>SENSE. I'm luckier than sooooo many.
drewxangel · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to count money lol
Tmlfan3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability. I was always top of my class in math, took calculus in high school, have an engineering degree. Grade 12 precal we took probability. My average in the class was 99%. Probability chapter was around 50.
Give me differential equations and advanced calculus... no problem. Ask me the odds of anything past a coin flip and I’m useless.
BassandBows · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity and most of conic analysis/optimization
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes and the stock market
godbullseye · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care about there influence to others on social media
Lsuvsadbvl · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What turns a motor. There is a gear that turns another gear to spin a stick but what is causing the gear to turn?
dingo_deano · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity or a fossil fuel. Petrol or diesel or gas. Or maybe another energy source 🤷🏻♂️
Lsuvsadbvl · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No but what’s inside the motor that turns the gears?
dingo_deano · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Which one ?
Electrical - has two parts the rotar and the stator. The stator has windings which when energised create a magnetic field which turn the rotar which is basically the opposite of the magnetic field so will push away from the magnetic field in stator and will spin.
Petrol/diesel - explosions move pistons. The pistons have a crank shaft and drives wheels or a fan in a leaf blower or maybe the stator from the electrical motor so this time it creates a magnetic field and produces electric like a generator.
A bicycle- the sun sends energy to the earth and the energy helps seeds grow. The seed becomes a plant. Woman eats plant. Woman has the energy then to move the pedals on the bike. The pedals move chain chain moves wheel.
AlfaBundy · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
yer_man_over_there · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ramachandaran diagrams are created. I understand steric clashes and the like but I could never grasp how those damn diagrams are created.
irnhrs77 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dishonesty
entitledparentsaskr · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t realize the corona virus is man made. My guess is that it is a terrorist attack made by China because it was made in a lab (it is mutated from SARS) and some how got released. Why would China be working on a virus for no reason. It makes sense that it is a terrorist attack, why use bombs which cost a lot, don’t kill a lot, only work in a little area, when you could just make a new virus that spreads like a wildfire and is hard to trace back?
howlycat · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People corecting grammar or spelling mistakes. I just dont get it, I mean most people get what was meant...
BassandBows · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to understand Shakespeare
lunarantis · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding, wish I did so I could feel like I’m doing some cool shit
Romiita · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work
Metalcyanide · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vaguely waves in the general direction of most things. But mostly the stock market
christian_o2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why white people walk in there house and sleep with there shoes on
muvadeath · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the stock market
Innogenji · 1 points · Posted at 22:14:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human nature
12xn · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sudden onset feeling that nothing is real and that everything is real
JimJimOnionSkin · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia, racism and right wing views
rozesandviolets · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
VLSARK · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Double/triple integrals and people/human behavior.
sirius4778 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The natural constant e.
Volta001 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why to poor people love Trump?
beatznpjee · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths and why I struggle to wake up no matter when I go to sleep
NMJ87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I'm a musician, I have very very very good pitch, but I don't understand the significance of the notes and how they came to be.
I don't understand if they have some sort of special quality to them -- I understand the intervals, I understand that those are mathematic in terms of how the frequencies change between a half step and a whole step -- but where exactly do you start?
The sound of a tree falling is a note, but I can't sing it - you could base an entire order of music around it - stepping up each interval just like we do with our 12 notes across seven octaves.
I wouldn't say that I have perfect pitch probably, but really damn close, but I seem unable to sing out of key or play something out of key, is it because I'm only used to Western notes? Do the notes have some sort of significance as far as our biology and our hearring?
music is certainly subjective but what is in tune and what is out of tune is not subjective for most of us, most of us can tell if something is flat or sharp even if we can't say "oh that's middle C" after hearing it played - why?
When I sit down at the piano I know what keys to press based on whatever note I started with, absolutely innate, no thinking happens about it, I just know which ones will sound good after I start and I dont know why or how
There is this gal Lara on twitch and she has described her process, and she's the only person I've ever heard be able to put what I experience in words, but it didn't bring me any closer to understanding
3eyedpiiig · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
-Saraphina- · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I feel like I'm outside of my body looking at myself. Most of my memories are just looking at myself doing things from the outside. Or I'll look in the mirror and feel like it's not myself looking back at me. I don't understand how I can see myself from the outside when that isn't what I'm really seeing. It's one of the things that really messes me up.
pussonfiretires · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
FuckBagMcGee · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why sleep used to be so easy. Now I have to actively try to sleep.
dark_slayer666 · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
missdiggyhole · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is gonna sound super dumb but like a whole bunch of social constructs. Like respect your elders and family comes first and a whole bunch of other stuff. I’d like to say that I’m a logical person but logic has lead me to some conclusions that are, apparently, very strange. For one thing I don’t believe in safety; like people think they’re safe in their homes or whatever but like natural disaster, your body could fail you (heart attack or whatever), a family member could kill you or whatever, like there’s so many threats at all times that safety just isn’t a thing? I’ve been told most people wouldn’t like to hear that but it makes perfect sense to me? I guess I just don’t understand other people’s thought processes? Like if I can reason my way out of being upset I just won’t be upset anymore, which apparently isn’t normal. I dunno man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bluetooth
metalmolly · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cloud
neethar · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logic of some people
blackenedchi · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slope. Or rather everything that is build from understanding slope.
High school math, I was doing fine, we had just started to learn slope, which at this point feels like the main building block for anything graph and plotting related. But then I missed about a week of school because of an illness.
I came back and nothing made sense. I barely passed that class. It’s been over a decade and I can’t commit that shit to memory. I taught myself to learn it again, but then it sort of just drifts away.
Admittedly, I don’t use it in my day to day life and I don’t think I need it, but it comes up once in a while and I can’t help but remember when I felt completely derailed by it.
polioiscoolio · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me but my mom. She doesn't understand the earth is constantly curving. She is like "I know the earth curves but, where?" And I'm like😶
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way I process my feelings
duplink · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You breathe in and out for whole your life. You never need to think about it to actually do it all the time.
egalomon · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of things actually, but what I come in contact with daily without understanding it: microphones and headphones/speakers. Or I guess sound in general
singlerider · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.. math in general, but algebra literally makes me cry. It’s like my brain just DOESNT GET IT and I had like 12 different algebra teachers and it just didnt ever makes sense.
WithoutLampsTheredBe · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why the "best" candidates for president that our political parties can put forward are Donald Trump and Joe Biden.
atinybeardedman · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Push doors with handles.
FeartheLOB · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have yet to see a comment with something I genuinely don’t understand. Ya’ll need to ponder more.
_jukmifgguggh · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How and why people can be so terrible to each other. I just want everyone to get along tbh
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap
Karatekid101_rose · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The United States Electoral college or how the voting works
jbnagis · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I grew up with hip hop. It's my culture. I love it. I dont get how this new generation of kids, see nothing wrong with being a crackhead, and mumbling through life looking like a zombie. The music has suffered.
BamElJefe · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly..? My boss.
AmInevitable · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans in general. Why don't you just tell me what you want? What you expect? What I'm doing wrong and how can I improve?
JaGd_Dagger · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Factorio circuit conditions
TheRenegadeWolf · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't we live forever?
Mysteroo · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Satisfaction in lazy mediocrity
I just don't get how people can be happy with accomplishing nothing at all their entire lives. Like, at least try
Or being consciously okay with a self-damaging lifestyle. Just a complete unwillingness to change
jaezona · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fax machines work. To this day
Nulliai · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ll never understand furries
_noided_wave · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dimensions.
CarpeDenim77 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math lol.
No but really I don’t understand how some people lack empathy and understanding. I guess selfish/self centered in short. It’s necessary to put yourself first sometimes but all the time especially over those who are important to you.
Bleumoon_Selene · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people just can't understand basic technology. Now, I'm not a tech guru or anything. In fact, if you asked me how to hook an iPad up to a television I wouldn't know. I could research it though.
But that is impossible for these people.
I'm talking about people who don't know how to exit a tab, or people who don't know how to access settings but manage to turn on the disabled assistance in Korean. People who don't know how to change the volume on their phone or how it got on mute.
That also how people can believe those insane FB posts like "FB will start changing you to post unless you like this picture." Or "Big scary tropical spider is living in your toilet seat right now and will bite your butt, killing you instantly! Like and share to save lives!"
How? How do these people navigate everyday life?
I'm not talking about 80 year old WWII vets. I'm talking about your local 40 something soccer mom or that 35 year old district manager who has no idea how to Google how to change the font in docs.
tubbyturbo32 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still watch CNN and Fox without questioning or researching what they’re reporting. They’re both incredibly biased.
sonkkkkk · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effect vs Affect
I’m pretty good with grammar but can’t grasp this one for the life of me.
LdouceT · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effect is generally a noun, and affect is generally a verb. If something affects your life, you will feel an effect.
sonkkkkk · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know what, that actually perfect sense. Now I just need to figure out a way of remembering that.
LdouceT · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This isn't the easiest memory tool, but I use this: one's a verb, one's a noun. Affect comes before effect alphabetically, and an affect has to happen before you can have an effect.
model3kid · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If anyone can explain this one because I can never find an answer I understand
Why do humans not make the world heavier? Like think about the world today compared to when there were no humans, there’s now roughly 7 billion of us as well as animals yet somehow this doesn’t affect how heavy the world is? Like how does that even work? We each weigh different amount and you’d assume all that combined would make a noticeable difference. I get why houses and skyscrapers don’t affect the weight because the material was already there, but humans are created, idk this one always messed with me.
Cryrosa · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines
Steinhauser10 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind. How the fuck does it work.
cadetcarp83 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can like Animal Crossing.
I'm not saying it's objectively bad game or anything like that. It just runs so completely opposite to my personal tastes that I genuinely don't understand the appeal of it. Usually, it's easy to understand the appeal of something, even if you don't share the sentiment. You can understand what exactly people are liking in a thing and relate to that feeling, even if you don't like the thing yourself.
I can understand why people do science, even if I'm not a scientist myself. I can understand why people commit crimes, even if I find them abhorrent. It's not that I understand those people or those thing. It's that I feel that I have a capacity to understand them. There is something in it that I can find relatable.
But Animal Crossing is foreign to me on such a fundamental level that I just don't understand how anybody can like it. What is there to like? It's like having been blind from birth and trying to understand color. It's impossible. I just don't have a part of the brain that is capable of understanding it.
Animal Crossing opened my mind to the fact, that there are certain aspects of human condition that is not present in me personally and that I never will be able to grasp. I have never felt that way with any other peace of media or anything else in my life. When this game blew up couple of weeks ago, it truly changed my life.
grasshopper80 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to flirt and get phone numbers.
I am extremely literall minded. Bad at small talk with women. I just don't get it. The very few times I've gotten one of those I'll do you now looks, or the quick casual flirting (guessing it was casual, but I have absolutely no idea), I've been so far away from my home area I don't bother pursuing it.
sorsbandeam4thewin · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiger king
therealjackcharlotte · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
Ian09122006 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people not think before they speak, teachers say 5, 4, 3, 2, 2 and a half, 1, 1 and a half. But isn't 2 and a half bigger than two? and they are teachers? thought they are supposed to teach people good stuff, not jamming random counting shit into people's brains
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hot air rises. Other air rushes in to fill its empty space.
Voila.
randomrainb0w22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
waste0331 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people commit to religions
fran_385 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the Game
bukklab · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat on eachother in a relationship :/
thefreakingoutsider · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic java stuff, like static, void, private, etc. I never understand they're meaning
Dementio223 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people expect you to be a mind reader, the get mad when you can’t and don’t do what they thought was common knowledge/curtesy. My parents do this a lot after they shift around where everything goes without my knowledge and start yelling when I can’t find something.
idekorcareanymore · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How boys can justify any of their shitty actions.
TehAsianator · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mindset that leads people to far right ideologies
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fiancee and mine's relationship. We met while i was on the clock at my cvs and i helped her find what she was looking for. Then ended up complimenting her hat (harry potter fandom unite) and to make a long explanation short we ended up talking to each other in two fake languages talked about borderlands 3 before its release and 3 days later started dating. Now we just harass and annoy each other from dawn till dusk.
Adam0596 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Lemissa1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem. I feel like I usually pick that type of stuff up quite quickly but I'll never understand that one!
max1202 · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that space is infinite, how can there be such vastness with very little life (that we know of). There are so many galaxies and planets but human kind does not know where it all ends or if it ends at all and if it does end what is at the end of all this darkness?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space is finite though...
max1202 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did you come to that conclusion?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its not conclusively answered but it seems to be leaning that way in the scientific community.
Here's an article that explains why: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn4250-tantalising-evidence-hints-universe-is-finite/
max1202 · 1 points · Posted at 06:46:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That article is 17 years old, so if they haven't managed to prove it yet I think it's safe to assume it's infinite for the time being
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean with that horrible logic the fact that they haven't proved its IS infinite in the whole time that theory has been around is even stronger proof its not?
max1202 · 1 points · Posted at 18:38:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They haven't proven it either way so for you to say it is finite is just as incorrect as me thinking it's infinite
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. Neither of us have incontrovertible proof, just like with the existence of God.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:16:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Rubik's cube and why and how can so many people actually believe that the earth is flat or Covid-19 is a hoax
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:45:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And also I can't get one thing - where da hell did you disappear?
YasurakaYagensha · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do people go to sleep, and then wake up feeling rested and energetic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You probably have sleep apnea. Get a sleep study.
vedi1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
captainjulPSN · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
corLeon1s · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electromagnetics. How???
ImTooDrunkForThis13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can hurt kids or animals.... I just.... can’t even fathom it and I’m pretty understanding of some far out stuff.
DawsonAntilles · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything about Blockchain. People use it like I should understand exactly what they mean when they say it.
“We’re using blockchain to distribute our content”; what? How? I thought it was a mathematical list or something?
“Our security/transactions are verified by blockchain”; doesn’t that mean it will take longer every time a transaction takes place because the blockchain gets bigger?
Also - how can you have your own blockchain? Doesn’t it have to be multiple users across a decentralised network verifying stuff?
Please - someone explain it!
lettertilly · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minute of Angle
ScarletAzure · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drupal
MoFauxTofu · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the drag queen?
Pikmints · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just how different my voice sounds in my head vs what other people hear. I've heard my voice on recording and it comes out a lot more monotone and with less emphasis than I hear. Makes pretty much anything aside from normal conversation feel doomed to fail.
Madi_the_Insane · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and basic communication. I don't think the same way most people do, so my speech patterns are different and sometimes very blunt, which can come across as rude to those who don't understand me (even when I don't mean it to be). This has lead to many avoidable misunderstandings. Similarly I'm bad at picking up the signals and hints in conversations; I have to be told outright. I don't understand why people don't just accurately say what they mean (I think this stems from me only understanding the literal words that they say, but not their body language or tone of voice). With all the guesseork involved, I'm amazed they expect to get a specific point across without saying it outright because it could easily be misinterpreted even by people with a good understanding of this sort of thing.
I also don't understand the obsession with celebrities- they're just people. Why do we worship them?
Why individuals with autism are judged so harshly, even when they're high-functioning. "Autism" and "autistic" seem to have become synonymous with "stupid" in recent years... which is, needless to say, inaccurate at best. Why there is a fear of autism/autistic people, and why there's not better education/awareness of it (hell, even why people don't bother to educate themselves before assuming things).
I could go on, but I don't wish to get political or spark arguments so I'll leave it at this instead.
Cicero69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers and the coefficient of friction.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why my sex slave escapes my basement every single night
ISaidGayRights · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money works? Its really confusing for me
WhisperMeYourNumber · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
GizmoGeek1224 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls wear makeup when they’re just lounging around the house.
chifrij0 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a developer and i dont get how frontends are built
CarrieFitz · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie The Big Lebowski. I’ve watched it probably 100 times and still couldn’t fully explain the plot to you.
MoFauxTofu · 2 points · Posted at 22:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you know how many movie-goers died, face down in the popcorn, trying to understand this movie?
the_questioner297 · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Femenist’s
MoFauxTofu · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
they use chairs same as us bro
kzapski · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all colors are the same for people. The red I see is the same red you see. But for animals with more cones? or color receptors whatever, the red I see is not the same red they see. It just blows my mind that like 2 people are seeing the same color there, but something else (like a dog) doesn't see what we see.
kminima · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the BODMAS or PEDMAS. Specifically AS part where you do addition before substraction. Eg. 8-2+1 according to BODMAS is 5. But in most natural cases it will 8+(-2)+1 which is 7. Can only think of electrical charge as an example of a "natural case". I don't get it. I don't. This thing has made me doubt the BODMAS, Math and educational systems.
iredditmore · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sounds ridiculous but Sudoko. I didn’t suck at maths at school but my brain won’t compute.
ButterBananaBread · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am so lazy everyday even though I know deep down that I need to get working
gooddumbdog · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls need at least 12 pictures to say happy birthday
thatdude69nice · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, even with all this covid-19 shit, people decide its a good idea to go to the parts store with their entire family, risking them all getting sick or spreading this fucking plague. This is after a stay at home order has been issued
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The US (and Reddit’s apparently) obsession with guns.
I don’t understand how they can’t see the rest of the world functions just fine without a second amendment.
karogin · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Psychosis
5SOSlvr16 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own brain. I have a lot of mental health disorders and I’m so confused by my own mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Variables
SenzuBean19 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How accents came to be? Like an example a Boston accent compared to a Southern accent if they speak the same exact language.
cowsandsunflowers · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
simple_shadow · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics and I hate because of the teacher that introduced me to it
dprsl_t · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time
CloneAssassin · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy. If entropy is unusable energy, and energy is the ability to do work, than entropy is just destroyed energy. Even though energy can be destroyed
Schraeder · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are so obsessed with brands. Why is it a such an important status symbol? Do they really believe they are better than other people because of that?
titaniumjordi · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets
Aseninebadger · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
astrolabi0 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
divisions with two figures
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think that gravity doesn't exist. Like what the fuck else is holding you and everything around you to the ground you dumb bitch?
SkiodiV2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation. I've had people try to explain it to me before, but it just doesn't make sense. I think my dumb monkey brain just takes over whenever I try to think about that sort of thing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is there a 2.5 pound cancerous tumor on my side. How did I not notice until it became so big and difficult to treat. I’m 15. Why is my body putting me through this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girl needs a text back every 10 min
bleary33 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is karma on Reddit
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to read
fancyllamapants- · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why common sense isn’t in any way common
gwh811 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
trump supporters.
humble-pine-tree · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stitching works. How do you control the needle and thread if you can't see it?
glintsCollide · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How grown up men and women can be so incredibly wile and destructive on social media. I always regret entering any type of comment section on Facebook, especially politics and news in general, and they use their real names for everyone to see. And why doesn't the decent side of humanity hardly ever push back? It's so demoralising, everything is twisted into evil half-jokes and laugh-smileys. I don't understand how it got to this.
jij07002 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind. Shit blows my mind 😏
LVSTN3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The blinding pain in my scull and the blood in my poo... why?
Follow_Follow · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I just can’t wrap my head around it.
Stormageddon18 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Entanglement
therealmyself · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jesus, and the holy trinity.
What may follow may be genuinely idiotic, but I legit don't understand it. What I do understand is this:
In the old testement god was an angry god. He did this to provide justice. Someone did something wrong and justice was served. At some point god decided he wanted to give justice and mercy.
Justice and mercy contradict each other. So what he did is kind of split apart so he came to earth as a man. He was a perfect being so he was totally good and didn't sin. When he died he took punishment for all the sins of mankinf and was punished for them.
If people nowadays accept Jesus as their saviour then they can sin, and still go to heaven? They can do this because justice has been done becuase Jesus was punished for thier sins, and mercy is given so they can go to heaven.
Jesus is a sort of loophole so god can be mercifull and give justive at the same time? Isn't that a bit unelegant? What happened in the old testament? God got it wrong for a while?
Annmariely · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to read the periodic table, tried to have people explain it so many times and it still doesn't click.
mY_dAd_is_xIjiNpINg · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Tedros can be the director of WHO? I think most people on earth would have this question.
ttututut · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how humans collectively started communicating through sound vibrations and drawings we call letters
Coredintol71 · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The social reactions to sex work in a capitalist society.
Goods and services in exchange for money. Sex workers provide a service or good for money.
I know the negative stigma is starting to die, but why was that ever a thing?
FunnymanEcho · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost all math outside of basic addition and subtraction...I can actually trace the problems I have with division back to like 3rd grade where I missed, like, the two days of classes they went over division and I just never figured it out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
C++ debugging errors
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin’ magnets.
Darth_Zoup · 1 points · Posted at 22:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness
SerialKillerSweet · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I truly, honestly understand almost none of it. My dyscalculia has a lot to do with it I know but none the less it’s truly the most confusing things I’ve ever encountered in the sense of things that you are supposed to eventually understand.
TheBigBananaMan · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People on Reddit
MintyRose1013 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm the way I am. Continually making the same choices that give the same results
LuckyFeathers · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This thread is basically all ELI5 posts in one thread!
drummerhummer · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
Bluewizardtx1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. My brain just cannot make sense of it
houstonsnkrs · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rational functions 💀
MisterDragonAce · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to let my parents know im maturing, that im growing up and no longer a child and that they need to support me and love me, not manipulate me into doing what they want because theyre not prepared to let me go. I understand their point of view, baby bird wanna leave the nest, but talking to them only makes things worse.
tossaway3386 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humanity
atlaskennedy · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get over my ex from ten years ago
Rileybiley · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. Like, all of it. I’m a scientist and a professional, aced organic chem and bio chem. But physics can suck it.
mothacademy · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
hate to be one of those people, but how are people NOT attracted to women? Of course I’m fine with it, I’m bi myself (also how are people not bi??? Everyone is awesome!) but wow. Like I said, I’m chill with all sexualities but I know some people just cannot see women as attractive. Once again, sorry if I sound like the asshole, I just think they’re amazing!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks.
purhell · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you’re having a friendly debate with someone and they ask you for your sources. Like do some people have a list of sources memorized in the event it comes up in conversation? Who does that?
im2a3ratrace · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tower of Babel
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve never understood how dissociation works, and I dissociate often. It leaves me in awe at our brains. It’s obviously different for everyone though.
I read about derealization and it described what I felt correctly, but I couldn’t wrap my head around how my brain could do that without my “permission”. When I dissociate, suddenly I feel like less of a human. I am more aware of my body and the fact that I am a brain sitting in a skull moving the rest of my body like a puppet. During these moments, I feel as if I am sitting far behind where my eyes are, like I am witnessing the world behind the mask that is my actual face. It is unbelievably unsettling. Other times, the world seems as if it is fake, or like I am dreaming while still awake. Things don’t seem “real” to me, I don’t feel “real”, and I am on autopilot. The lights are on, but no one is home. It’s just crazy what the human brain is capable of.
B-i-g-K-a-l · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain has not developed enough to understand the call of duty black ops 3 campaign,it was so complex
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I haven’t killed my self knowing full well I have no contribution to the wold and have no purpose to fulfill as in finding no meaning to my life.
Assipattle · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
Chaseb2009 · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
DrBeverlyCrushU · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender
Crit race theory
How Firefly only lasted one season
SpoonwoodTangle · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. I have been trying for years to teach myself intro level statistics, and I have consistently failed. I’ve tried free online classes too, to no avail.
I have those moments where I feel like I’m juuuust starting to get it, and the skies part, and a ray of understanding shines on the damp confines of my brain... I rush to do homework to lock in this newfound insight... and get everything wrong.
ctgrell · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can someone be religious
Roctopus420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Heisenberg uncertainty principle. I’ve had it explained by my physics teacher, read and watched videos about it and still can’t grasp it in the slightest.
JordanllRay · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
I just don’t get how people are. A lot of people I feel not on the same wavelength as them and extremely frustrating.
ConfusedStupidPerson · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports betting. Specifically odds numbers.
LisaW509 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hated naps as a kid. They’re glorious now.
lil_mercy · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is it when someone is in coma? What do they see, hear, feel? Do they sleep all the time or wake up but cannot move their bodies? Do they understand what is going on around but are trapped?
fragilezebra · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we continue to put up with being owned?
AliveCommercial8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans can be so cruel to animals and not recognize them as sentient beings
RolowayPurp · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How magnets work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How touchscreen and screens in general work?
not-clickbait- · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depression
AquaIllusion4 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How animals think - like they don't have a language to think in in the way that humans do - so do they think in images? Or is there just nothing there?
Omomon · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom who has a bachelors in child psychology never took me to a therapist when I was a kid even though I had some pretty big emotional issues and even a potential learning disability.
robe199 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Oneofkings · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I understand the “buy low, sell high” idea, but not who is determining the numbers, how those numbers are calculated, etc.
Singlehander · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The invisible hand my friend, the invisible hand.
I'm sure that clears it up for you.
j0hnny_ric0 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin.
elimay · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works. My brain just can’t comprehend it.
WhiskeyPixie24 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people cheat on their significant others. It is very easy not to cheat! You just... do nothing! Take a cold shower or get a damn divorce.
Jmich96 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people care about the opinions of those who do not care about them.
If Becky tells Anthony his butt is too big, why should Anthony care? So many Anthony's take Becky's opinions to heart and genuinely get upset and hate theirselves over it.
Shotatanangle · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of writing an essay.
I didn't study 6th form, or go to University.
I just get be point of writing an essay, dissertation, or anything like that?
What does it actually achieve?
Terakahn · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My body's stress management system. Why does it do the things it's doing, why do mental problems cause physical ones. Can we just keep that shit separate please.
XeyeCeweX · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I need to figure out how much I owe in taxes.
prodigy1189 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting into someone else’s business. Like........ why? Stop.
Absent_Dad · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how record players work
mrtechit101 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand a general amount of things about a generous amount.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who buy and think dogs with brachycephalic conditions are normal or acceptable. Lookup Apple head chihuahuas vs Deer head. Bet you've seen less deer head chihuahua which are the natural way they develop.
Just-a-Bro850 · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently micro and macro economics from back in college. It’s just graphs, how hard could it be? Oh....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything to do with calculus or anything above algebra. You can explain a function to me all day long and it'll just woosh right over my head
mightyleanandclean · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romance
Massrado · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can play a guitar at an elite level. Weather it’s electric or classical. As someone who’s trying to learn. It’s insanely difficult.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:20:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How indoor plumbing works.
I'm not a dumb person, but I generally don't get how we seemingly have infinite water with perfect water pressure. If everyone in my neighborhood turned on their faucet at the same time, would we all still have adequate water pressure? Would it just come out in a trickle?
CutePets96 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people STILL think pushing in line is still okay. I've forgotten the number of times in High School where people just enter the cue at the front for no apparent reason mostly due to no actual effective punishment. And when the canteen cooks at the tills find out that people have pushed in, it's very rare and takes a long time for them to go to the back. I know that there are exceptions for skipping the cue but it is still rude.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "I am home" you are not home. you are maybe at home maybe in your home but how can a person be home.
stalkingmadden · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that outer space continues for an infinite.. or that if you go to heaven that’s where you stay for the rest of time
WY_the_second · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
mememesxans · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do i always have boners when i don't wear underwear?
iamsteveyouarenot · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people would let others die of a disease, including those who have the cure, just to put their name on the vaccine.
unsain679 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I sincerely do not understand how cars work. Like I can drive just fine and do things like jump a car and change my tires but there are so many mechanisms and things going on that every time I’ve tried to sit down and learn I’ve become completely overwhelmed with where to even begin.
hotterthanurmom · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i‘m so aggressive.
Slimyscammers · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity contracts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whenever something happens in the world people come up with insane theories (corona and 5g)
i-feel-like-a-potato · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human beings
mattweb94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could still possibly think that COVID-19 "is just media hype" or "just the flu" or "a Democratic conspiracy" at this point. My FB feed is full of these people. Is the whole freaking WORLD in on this conspiracy?!
Medcuza · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How hoarding toilet paper can actually save one from catching a virus. What are they gonna do, plug their ass?
jshelbyd · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why I doubt literally everything & cant trust anyone
loeded185 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why good women are attracted to idiot guys!
SteelBelle · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently which directions my boyfriend is telling me to go in video games based on how I spent today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really hope this isn’t offensive or out of line, but I don’t understand transgender people. I have no problem with them at all, I’ve met a few in my life and they’re great people. What I don’t understand about them is their feelings of not being the right gender. What does it feel like? How do you feel like a girl or a boy? How do you know deep inside that you are one or the other? Like I am a girl, but wouldn’t know how to answer someone if they asked me “what does it feel like to be a girl?” If we didn’t have gender roles, would there be transgender people? These things have always puzzled me but I have never had the courage to ask a transgender person these questions because I fear they are offensive. I want to become more understanding of the topic because I really can’t wrap my mind around it
Aiden_X · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lies. I get a white lie, just to make sure nobody gets hurt by something unimportant, but for real like lying in someone's face? I don't understand why somebody would do that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to have meaningful friendships
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a digital refractometer works.
Curm12 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Russian language
Ssme812 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself. Life in general
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why teachers assign essays more than 3 pages long like I can literally prove my point in 2 pages like wtf do you or me gain from reading more than that?
Sea_ijmn · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neoliberalism and Postmodernism. I’ve read definitions, and still have no idea what the fuck they mean. People use these terms a lot in academia.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math :/
cloveroli · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
what_in_the_hellheim · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cutting. Like i just can't even fathom it. If you want an escape, isn't something like pleasure a good escape? No one likes pain at all. Don't hate plz i just genuinely don't understand
4chanbetterkek · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding. I really like watching coding videos and maybe it's because I didn't give it my all when I tried to learn, or have the right resources, but damn is that shit confusing as fuck.
GrizzlyVision · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the internet work?
Le_Monke06 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dad left
Anonymous_Snow · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America with Replubicans, Democrats, no healthcare, taxes, states, corruption, no-vaxx, Trumps, rednecks and above all the fetish with guns.
BobButtwhiskers · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking JavaScript...
imunchsomuch · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there isn't a perfect viable president candidate in us ever....
IrregardlessOfFeels · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How being transgender isn't a mental illness. If you ask people what makes them transgender they say dysphoria. If you ask them what dysphoria is (mental illness -- clearly defined and they'd agree in all other context) they just yell at you and tell you you don't get it. I don't hate you or want you to live a bad life or even infringe upon your rights....but I don't get it. It's very clearly a mental illness. A lot of us have them.
zak2k3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own feelings. Am I happy? Am I sad? Do i like people? Wtf is wrong with me?
GoldenSleet · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The lack of common sense in this world
agfsvm · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
GirIsKing · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics, why don't we listen to each other amd share a conversation without freaking out about it.
MandenMedHatten · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain technology.
Elemental11221 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socialism, capitalism and the like. I’ve tried so many times
TheOptimisticPanda · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People leaving.
Massrado · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also how we’re about to send data through the air. Playing music through Bluetooth blows my mind if I think about it too much.
noahcomstock · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people pay the same price for a Papa Murphy’s pizza as they do for for any other chain, but they STILL HAVE TO COOK IT.
skwirrlz32 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. I've taken it three times. It makes no sense
Singlehander · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement...or quantum anything for that matter...no pun intended.
klaus_omgwtf · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people go around not thinking about death. Like, it's the fucking end of all things. There's nothing after it. Your existence is over. How are you ok knowing that?
Alchse · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyl records work
toothfairyassisant · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my boyfriend keeps cheating on me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people with more money than they can spend in a lifetime could possibly want more and are willing to step on anyone to get more
ALA44 · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't understand why people love roasting each other
ImTheRealKingB · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s cliché, but I don’t understand racism. I get hating people. That’s super easy. I hate people that chew with their mouths open, don’t use turn signals all that kind of things, but hating someone for color is weird to me. I genuinely DO NOT get it. I just hate the person., not their race. Don’t get me wrong I’m not privileged, Im the cliché black dude that grew up in Chicago and moved to another state and saw how the other side lives, but it don’t get why people hate people because of color. There’s so much to hate besides that!
Waluigi_Gonna_Win · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Umm... So I love Twenty One Pilots and I watch tons of their interviews and listen to all their songs (even the really old ones that you can barely find anymore) so naturally I was excited when I heard they were releasing a new song, "Level of Concern". Upon watching the video live and listening to the lyrics I noticed Tyler saying something about a Julie and a Michael. Now what I wanna know is, who tf are Julie and Michael. Like are they just random names, do they work with TØP, are they relatives or something, is it another reference and I'm just stupid...? I'm for real lost but I didn't wanna ask because I was afraid I would either seem like a fake fan or find out they didn't mean anything and then seem stupid...
TheCollegeBackpacker · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brief calculus (I’m a dummy)
lu-luxx · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Global oil issues.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
begoodorbedead · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones. Like how can it be 12am in Russia say on the 10th but 12am on the 9th in America somewhere and if I just went West would I loose a day?
Dukkellson · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wamen.
KRISTENWISTEN · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance. Deductibles, co-pays, coinsurance, in network, out of network, out of network max, etc. That shit is confusing AF. I understand what they generally mean but how they work together, overlap .... it's exhausting.
LAnative12345 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 4+0=4 but 4x0=0
4 plus nothing is 4, but 4 times nothing is 0? What in the actual fuck? Shouldn't 4 times nothing be 4?
ishmaearth · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space time
istrx13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
darealsneaktalk · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
geometry...
JeezItsOnlyMe · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry. I can do algebra but I could NEVER wrap my brain around geometry.
mynameismatt06 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
spacemonkeykakarot · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many, many things
silver-prime · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriends sense of logic
randomtask37 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Prob already been said but my head explodes when I try to think about it
StarFishPrime431 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is there more matter than anti-matter?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my crush only texts me when Im irritated or sad.
siggis_yogurt · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the obsession non-freckled people have for freckles and the hatred freckled people have for their own freckles
TexasOTF1971 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there is no end to Outer Space....
SVGE_Killzz · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans exist
Sup_Star_Child · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
honey_coated_badger · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics. You started with such a good idea. Now..........
the3horn · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The guy that was elected president of the United States...
LPFlore · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don't properly educate themselves on a topic and then act like they know everything to then block away the actual information.
EndFace_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation.
littlemsmuffet · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to let something go. Not physically, but mentally.
I understand the concept of it in principle, but I can't do it myself no matter how hard I try.
It's stilling I'm working on in therapy and it's they one thing I can't get
lesteramod1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
humans
Gunbunny42 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Decompression in a submarine. I know you can get the bends if you rise or dive too fast but I don't know understand how ,if you are in a watertight machine, does the air pressure change?
gmc_doddy · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the kardashians are so popular?
Nolan_Paine85 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter how many thousands of hours I put into a video game and practice there are always other players infinitely better than me.
shamash · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life, The Universe, and Everything
omandyu · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life 🙃
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to calculate percentages. It’s such an odd knowledge gap but somehow I never really properly learned fractions and percentages and now I just live my life without being able to do any math involving them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so selfish and why people would go out of their way to hurt others if they think they can benefit from that
OKredditer · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit comments
vcxtrp · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honors Chemistry
nbayoungboylover · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trans people choose to be trans
KittenCraze · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how homesteading works or how it could be profitable. I’d like to know since the idea sounds interesting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the U.S is so corrupt
pitchedtrout112 · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t like Fortnite
Romeo_horse_cock · 1 points · Posted at 22:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sounds really stupid, but alternators. I always think that if the car is dead, you put cables on and jump it and it still doesn't fire, thats its the alternator not being charged which is wrong. Idk. I just have a hard time getting it
dee_the_tech · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so obsessed with the Kardashians.
nsq01 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
yeahboyflamgo · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams, i can't understand them, they are allucinations?, Our wishes?, Or just random thoughts?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, also why magnetic fields flip over time.
EyeHallWay · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you watch livestreams on reddit. Is there a page or something? I cant find anything.
Ja-Chiro · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't understand how bees fly. According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I'm a straight man who liked(likes) Barbie dolls and Vespas but still uses a skateboard and hybrid trail bicycle to get around town occasionally listening to metal music.
crzychick0777 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you're going to ask someone why they feel insignificant, and then check the gaming chat on your phone while they're answering you.
dingdongbannu88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people spend money and give awards on Reddit
kittensandcatslover · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I think. I know it’s probably said a lot, but how do two cells grow into an organsim which has the capability to think and percieve? Why aren’t we like plants, just moving and growing towards the food source? Why do other animals not stop and think about what happens after they die? Why are humans different? And how?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so aggressive and hateful
davidwb45133 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Christians claim their religious freedoms are taken away by sensibly closing churches during this pandemic. Radio, TV, and streaming services don’t carry the virus but do carry church services.
cj6ixx0 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
swugglewumps69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those long ass fake nails
madamdepompadour · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how electricity works.
khm0416 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding. I don’t understand how the computer knows what the numbers and the code means
moronyte · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok
dante6970 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Realationship.
chikenjoe17 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why when I want to sleep that's when it's hardest to sleep. But when i NEED to be awake, that's when it's damn near impossible to study awake. Like in school I've had a 5 hour energy and a rockstar and I still feel asleep. It's even happened when driving, I end up having to pull over for a while.
Also cheating on a significant other. Like how do you do that to someone else as well as yourself. As a lonely loser, I dream about having a gf or wife and all the things that come with it. Like even the mundane things, or things I wouldn't particularly enjoy like getting dragged along to go shopping. Even I can realise how awesome it is that she'd want me there. I see long term relationships end because of cheating and wonder why you'd ever even come close to thinking about it. The person cheated on it's now broken hearted and had figure out what to do and the cheater just threw away years of live and someone who genuinely cares about them. And in the case of it being a bad relationship already, just break up, be an adult and deal with it.
ExGomiGirl · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Faith and religion. How can people believe this stuff is real? It’s like grown adults believing in Santa Claus.
Dinobob26 · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, anything math related is just gibberish at a certain point
kennedyhp · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How scientists can measure distance in outer space. From star to star/planet/galaxy etc. How can they possibly measure that and how can they be sure it’s accurate??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras take pictures. Especially Polaroids.
catchme1593 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoins
mrnorrisman · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
dx45 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If people invented the economy/economics/money, why can't we control it? We are at the mercy of something we made ourselves.
Usernameforgotmine · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. It’s magic.
eskabush1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Snake psychology
mtucker314 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sin/Cos/Tan
oct0nami · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Globalization vs Protectionism. I have an essay due tonight and the information I’ve consumed thus far just isn’t sticking.
mr-lamborghini · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a transmission works.
Reddit-part-2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how my husband and kids can never find anything, but I can.
SWA_90 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Baye's Theorem
electronraven · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand cruelty.
jamiesn · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can be head over heels in love with someone they just met. then they break up after a week. and then a week later the next man they meet they are in SO MUCH LOVE. repeat every month.
Teddylina · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I haven't gotten a job yet. I've wanted this job since I was 7 and still no one will hire me because I 'lack experience'. They never say I give of the wrong vibe or anything. I got my shit together because I was very nervous the first couple of times. But I know what to do and I'm a pretty good teacher for a "newbie". I just don't know what I do wrong at interviews to never get a full time job.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my mother has 0 common sense. It is so hard to explain things like sarcasm or any thing in general...
Joeye__1117 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say, "Who knows?"
Obviously someone has the answer, you are just too lazy to answer the damn question.
VilleKivinen · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empathy and sympathy. They seem like magic that some people have, and some don't.
BudCrue · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Late to the party, but oh well, what I don't really understand is human sex drive.
Been around, lots of partners, now been married over twenty years. My wife and I have talked about this and we both just think it is just odd, how sometimes, even for periods stretching into months or even years, sometimes ya feel it, sometimes ya don't. Sometimes you are in a near constant state of sexual desire and other times not at all to the point where the thought of it bores or even repels you. Most animals it seems are driven by seasons or what have you. With people? Its a total friggin mystery.
johnseyeric · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fire. Like what is it made of?
JohanP88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Danish
flipper1935 · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the world people still (willingly) are using ms windows? It wasn't a smart idea in the '90's, and it doesn't show any signs of getting any better.
Subvet98 · 0 points · Posted at 22:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s alternative
VoopityScoop · 1 points · Posted at 22:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bots who really think violently intruding my messages with "Henlo!!🥵😍😍! I'm am real girl whomst want yuo'r sausage 👁️👄👁️" and some random 18+ video, is gonna convince me to download their dating app.
ClapTheChad · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. I have had a bad history of teachers and I don't understand a thing...
Chino_Kawaii · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there like almost no funny ads. It's the best kind of ad you can do, it makes me want to watch it, why don't you make these ? Why make all these shit ass ads, that are so stupid.
stamatov · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all modern societies value democracy... How you expect low educated people to decide future of the world? The same people who put Trump on president chair of the US? In my country there was referendum about using nuclear energy. Why the society value low educated farmer and nuclear scientist the same on this matter?!? The opposite is true too - if there is vote about future of the farming industry, farmer will have the same right to vote as... let's say IT (me)?The vote count as numbers, we don't care who vote, everyone has the right to. I really don't get it...
numbers909 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have these little "hairs" of flesh on the bottom of my tongue.
AmIBrown1orBrown2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone who still supports Trump.
Dykannn · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Katerino cheated on Carson, he's so wholesome dude
BiffBiffBiff27 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Que?
froghops28 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people genuinely feel invested in celebrity gossip
zukatex · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empathy, why do I need to feel bad for those that don't want to help themselves?
acer1611 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I was born at exactly this time in history.
kc0181 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
passengerv · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people follow religions. Why people vote against their own interests. How time and gravity interact with each other. How people could be cruel to animals. Math.
GrungeBomb · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can be a trump supporter or have extremely conservative values. I genuinely cannot wrap my head around that kind of hate towards other people.
stupiduck09 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The money. I mean I think I almost do with the fed and all, but how can we keep printing it with limited reserves.
jwag012 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Westworld. I’ve rewatched it and enjoy it as a tv show but if I needed to explain what/when is going on, no chance.
dabadabadoo_da · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, just don't get it
BludgeIronfist · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The game of craps.
outonthwtr · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate towards others
seen_gleec · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
these hoes
Kainoto · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interstellar STILL
Khyta · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I need quadratic formulas
demekst87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bull vs Bear Markets and trading futures and options. Any books that cover the topic, or advice and signs to watch for?
Amphaeon · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That we as humans beings and rulers of this world have created this mess of a world. We can create our own heaven but make our own hell. We are so smart, have the means to share ideas via communication means never had before, the internet, but we continue this same cycle of suffering.
liexpompex · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
kfylol · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
sillygoywithnoshekel · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself :(
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Skalonjic85 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont think non binary people reject the existence of gender roles, its just they dont feel entirely male or female. I am not non - binary, but this is what i think.
ThatBaneFella · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supra fanboys. Some people are convinced that budget grand tour car from the 1990s came stock with over 1000 horses.
How?
Why are you dumb?
(Supra's a cool car - but waaaaay overrated. It's only fast if you put thousands upon thousands of dollars worth of mods into it and is nearly as heavy as most full size American sedans. With only 320 hp to its name, that brings forth a pretty underwhelming power-to-weight)
1sttimehere · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How new money gets into circulation. What the relation between produced goods and new money is, in terms of inflation/deflation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel. I pretend to know at work. But I just find it very difficult to remember formulas and all that
weegieboo · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life insurance works? And, the real difference between term and whole?
MeepInATophat · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory of relativity
0luckyman · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American attitude to universal health care.
Comfortably_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vocal audio compression works
xbezerks · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that we all live on a giant space rock and live 7.5 billion other life’s an no one ever seems to question how fucking crazy that is
Maximum_Gluteus · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm being vague because I'm unfamiliar with any proper terminology, so forgive me....
Drug (abuse/addiction) culture, eg. methamphetamine, marijuana, or whatever else. I cannot understand how someone can choose to frequent harmful drugs and continue to do so while there is so much prevalent evidence of its negative effects.
For example, I work with two underaged associates (under 21) who frequently smoke weed as a hobby and, despite any notion for their work performance or well being, they either don't care or don't understand the consequences -- professional or otherwise.
I can't understand how anyone can look forward to drugs as a hobby-turned-addiction and not see any bigger picture of what they're doing to themselves.
Savage47 · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All throughout school, every teacher, professor, or substitute, it doesnt matter who. Whenever the topic of attendance came up, the person would say they suck at pronouncing names by saying, "Sorry If I BUTCHER your name."
Or at least some form of that involving the word butcher. But I've always wondered where did the word's popularity originate? Like when and where was the first person to say it in that context and how did it spread to all these damn teaching professions?
62xracing · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
stefanglans · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump got elected! Im from Denmark by the way
lokilover49 · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
a lot tbh. Algebra, the concept of time, how tf do strangers have normal conversations when I can’t even ask my friends for a piece of gum, how people don’t use turn signals, how abusers can be so abusive but fee no guilt. I mean I’m not stupid but none of that makes sense to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big space is
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely believing that people who work a full time job should live at or below the poverty line.
huddleaw · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people get so die hard for their political candidate.
hibscotty · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peadophiles...like wtf?
Gu1n3ss · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity, the creation, use and storage of it. Watts and amps, it all just doesn’t make sense to me.
hillside126 · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you would use Profile Analysis instead of a MANOVA or an Univariate Repeated Measures ANOVA. I understand that Profile Analysis is looking at the Parallelism, Flatness, and for Equal levels, but I don't understand what that allows you to do interpretation wise compared to the other types of analyses.
BigZeasty · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole trans and social justice thing, it’s such a sensitive topic but makes no sense to me at all
DermoKichwa · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatism.
Bubblykit · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question...
HuskyLuke · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That majority of the world's spoken and written languages. However many there is in total and decuct three, no actually two*; now you know how many I genuinely do not understand.
*It's probably closer to 1.25 at this point.
RobloRamen · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry ,math
OverSentient · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight saving time
Iljuano · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reflexes work.
You may know nothing about physics or any other stuff, but if someone threw you a ball and you catch it, you have basically predicted the movement of the ball, put your hand in the right place at the right time and catched it. All that in milliseconds.
cashcashcashmoney · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How WiFi works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic human social skills? Does that count? Why are there no tutors for how not to be the most awkward human alive?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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mathias091 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why evolution decided to make growing pains
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the American dollar is so strong. Why can't it be like that in other countries?
wolfyfancylads · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don't understand things when the answer is right in front of them. You know the type: "Why is that person freaked out I'm pointing a gun at them? I know it's unloaded!" but they don't (and the gun, more than often, actually IS loaded). "I don't know why that guy hasn't called me back after we slept together!" Is it cos you slept with him on the first date and he clearly just wanted that and nothing more? "I don't understand why girls don't like me!" It's probably cos you immediately talk about breasts or act like a douche.
I know this may come off as a "I'm smarter than you" kinda thing but, seriously, how many of you have seen people who seem to actively ignore the truth punching them in the face? I'll legit never understand how some people just love ignoring obvious answers.
ehd94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How psychedelics can be so mystical
Upset_Toe · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What being blind is like. They don't see black like we think they do, because they cannot perceive color, or anything for that matter, by definition. It baffles me to think about that
cashcashcashmoney · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Bluetooth works
Singloria · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How casually people talk about/brag about breaking the law, especially if they’re using social media as an outlet to flaunt their latest felony. There are even communities online that promote if not romanticize theft. Things like that are just disgusting to me.
Aristo_socrates · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. How do they work? How do you interpret them? What do they even mean? Aaaaaa
cardboard-box-why · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
shadow125 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand homosexuality - a guy loving another guy and a girl loving another girl but....
I simply don’t understand a gay guy loving another gay guy - dressed up as a girl?
Or a gay girl loving another gay girl - who dresses like a guy...
Why not just have a real one?
raeyholic · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating
TheDarkWayne · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How nobody can intervene and stop a president that’s incompetent. How nobody can fire politicians for doing shady shit. How Nunes was able to participate in hearings while also being part of said investigations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It really is the inmates running the asylum.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did they program the first computer
Aquamarius84 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight Savings Time
Alex_4209 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOX genes. I know that they are the “body map” that tells the developing cells what genes should be active and what genes should be inactive based on where they are in the body. What I don’t understand is the spacial awareness of individual cells. How does the 15,000th cell in the lining of your eye know that it should be the edge? They must be pretty good at hitting the right numbers because red blood cells, for example, have generally less than 15% variation in size. But how they know where they are is a mystery to me.
franckunderwood · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. Nobody does.
maverick_bro · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get awards on reddit
grace123456789101112 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that some people put their toilet paper in upside down
lolafel · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
cars..... mechanics.... engine?????? what???
Kelmeckis94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in other countries they usually show all of the boobs except the nipples. That is like showing someone's whole face and covering the nose.
opardoman · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a quantum computer works... and by the way already watched all the flipping a coin and being both faces at the same time... I feel so dumb!! :)
fenuxjde · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I get raging crushes on people that last months but the second a relationship starts with them (like within 2 weeks) I lose feelings as get this ball on anxiety in my stomach and the bad kinda butterflies when I see a message pop up from them or see them around the school. I might have commitment issues but I fantasize about marrying them and stuff before the relationship starts. Does anyone relate or know what this is? Please, im worried that I will never be able to last a relationship.
Zuze_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a math student in times of online classes there is a lot of things I really don't understand now 🤣
midnightdragon105 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people need a million of toilet paper for COVID-19
Schporg · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why dark matter is so dark. Couldn't it lighten up just a little?
RUkittenMe34 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
goonherewhenboard · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
CatToeBeanz · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms
hubnerd · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
ednunez94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know the concept of a pyramid scheme, but why are they so bad? I have a family member that seems to be involved in one but seems to e making money from it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A good portion of digital electronics. Especially “don’t care conditions” for some reason.
Olgabr07 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the Internet even is
They-call-me-MrRight · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. It makes no sense. Why do we feel? That’s because of neurones. Why? They take an electric signal to the brain. Why? Because that’s how Electricity works. Why does it work in that way and not another way? Because it does. Why aren’t we made of lemonade? Because we wouldn’t survive. Why? Because. Why? Because because.
Iceman_B · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans and their news propaganda.
Am I late to the party?
jessietcorley · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Close minded people
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, why stocks exist, what a stock is, and how the market works.
It looks like playing with numbers and guessing probabillity, just like slot machines.
Why is it worthwhile to invest in the stock market?
bits_of_entropy · 2 points · Posted at 22:42:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A stock is a small part of ownership of a company.
Stocks exist so a company can raise money. The company sells part of the company in exchange for money. Now the company has a bunch of cash it can use to operate with.
It's worthwhile to invest because if a company is making money, the company will be worth more, meaning your small piece of the company will be worth more. In the long run, this is generally true. Which means if you buy stock in good companies, your stock will increase in value over time. This doesn't require any work on your part, your investments will grow just because you own them.
Nothing is guaranteed though. You can lose money if a stock falls in value. Nobody can predict the future. But there are still trends though, over time the market has generally increased.
It's sort of guessing, but it's guessing based on how the company is doing financially. With slot machines, it's random, there's no way to predict a slot machine, no info to go by. With stocks, companies are require to show their finances, and you can decide good/bad based on that. You still don't know, but it's not completely random.
lyrurus_tetrix · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Umami. Never understood what I'm supposed to taste. I think it's a lie.
chadly65 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how humans figured out. TVs computers and etc because how do you get information to travel through wires and such and how do you get it there. I’m just baffled
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
AP Physics Electricity and Magnetism
D3mqnU · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything exist. From where does everything come from?
citadel61316 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the head of my state is doing a crap job with the virus and is more worried about people taking care of their yards
helllllo97 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our finger nails and hair grows... I always have to stop myself from thinking about it or it’ll drive me insane
emcthemc · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TVs work. No clue. Don’t care to figure it out, I like assuming it’s some sort of magic.
spankymuffin · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole "liked" and "laughed at" bullshit in text chains. Especially when it pastes an incredibly long, detailed text with the sole addition of "liked" tacked on. I hate it with a fiery passion and I will never understand why people do it and how they put up with it.
CoalVein · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How quantum computers work/why they’re so much more efficient.
ANGRY_Naynay16 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helicopters - the spinning blades can rotate so fast it lifts the a helicopter that weighs about 6k kgs to 20k kgs, and extra weight! But! If you tried to take those blades off and then you try to carry the helicopter from underneath with those same blades in that same shape, they will bend out of shape?? I get this, but i dont???? So weird to me
TwistedDecayingFlesh · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americas greed, now don't get me wrong the entire fucking world is greedy but america really ain't ashamed about its greed unlike other countries including my own who will try to hide behind some bullshit excuse we can all see through but not america its proud to take all your money without even telling you why and i ain't talking about taxes we all know why we pay taxes it's the other greedy paws i'm talking about like high cost of meds, high rent, high well exorbitantly high interest rates on all kinds of shit, high cost of education.
Randomwisconsinboi · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
PeasantryIntensifies · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
minware666 · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earth conspiracy. Like what is the purpose of it???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stepfamily porn
WHY
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people ask these questions on reddit
lanelightfoot · 1 points · Posted at 22:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
kaliumzombie · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why hitting that snooze button and sleeping another five minutes actually feels like sleeping another hour or so...
DrumBxyThing · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How data storage works. I can't wrap my head around even vinyl records. How the hell do we put sound onto a disc like that.
red22nd · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ratios
I_am_Talisman · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The depth of some people's emotional responses. Like, I get anger at a situation, or at someone doing some stupid shit, but I dont understand hatred. Like, how can someone feel something that intense? Jealousy is another one I dont understand. I know the concept behind them, but why? And what does it feel like?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why america just sticks with the two party candidate options during elections when there are actually many more third party options...
Babygurlv86 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus...i truly dont understand it
cela96 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Big Bang theory. On a conceptual level, I understand it. What I dont understand is the math behind it. My thing is, of I dont understand the math, do I really understand, or am I just assuming it to be true because people who can do the math say it is right? It is almost like religion before the average person knew how to read. Just alot more complex lol.
taylorink8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of “letting go” of your body and it almost feels like... an orgasm? It’s like I’m going limp and my nerves get overwhelmed
Boostafazoom · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economy actually works. Man, I don't even know how to ask this question. The problem for me, I think, is that an economy is inherently circular / cyclical. So there's really no starting point I can use to build my knowledge, it's confusing to see how it all works and what the implications are. How everything fits together.
So many questions, but here's one. Due to COVID-19, the Federal Government has been implementing a number of measures to save the economy, namely printing a crapload of money. OK, I get that the stimulus checks will help people pay this months rent. But let's look at it from a high level, fundamental perspective. What is money? The purpose of money is to facilitate exchanges -- there's no inherent value in money itself. They are just pieces of paper.
So even if the Fed prints all of this money, how does that in any way solve the situation of people not being able to work due to COVID? All we've really does is print some paper, and the actual problem remains exactly the same. Yet the economy is supposed to benefit from it. Just don't get it.
Murphy338 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how Anti Hunters can be so bullheaded and stubborn.
oskarbd · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason why we exits and what our purpose om life os Other Than reproduce and repopulate
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers
meme-papi · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Whenever I try to just take a fact on electricity for granted I just stumble upon the next inexplicable thing along the way
AsukaSoryuuu · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. I’m almost 20 and I still can’t wrap my head around that shit.
AppleGamer711 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why many people say it’s bad drinking milk. “Humans are the only that drink milk in adult”. That’s write buy, unless you’re alergic, it will not hurt you. In my country, animals can’t open the fridge to get milk, maybe that’s the reason
youngjared_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boomers
bertyterty · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every US election is bought and paid for by some corporate interest
rainingtoads49 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell a million wierd things are going on with my body lol. I have pains everywhere, constant exhaustion, constant thirst, and reduced mobility. I'm only 16
potato_man22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Alma07 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
GroovyGoose87 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people get so angry all of the time. Is it going to fix the problem? Probably not. All it's probably going to do is make you and the people around you feel like shit. How about being calm and trying to work through a problem?
EquestrianShadow · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom and half-sister are so toxic
Normanisacat1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Closed and open circuits. Like I get the basics I just struggle a lot with circuits in general.
OhhhhHelllo · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how refrigerators or ACs work. i just can’t figure out how things get colder. Is it like a fast fan?
markbaladad · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
TAtheadventurer · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Heereman93 · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blind society is to getting fucked by gov’t and NEVER questioning, realizing, or doing anything about it.
Misuvatia · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you need motivation to work
feierfrosch · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question.
WhatsToxic · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheaters
305dr8koo · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If lesbians like girls why do most of the use dildos don't get me wrong I have no problems with lesbians I just don't understand
TheBronzeKneecap_69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve always been embarrassed that I don’t grasp the concept of acceleration in terms of physics. Like what does it mean for something to be accelerating at 10 m/s2 to 15 m/s2? For the former does it mean that the object increases velocity 10 m/s every second? But in the time the object reaches top speed, the acceleration was constantly decreasing right? I don’t know man.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An economic collapse. And admittedly, I studied Econ in college lol. I just don't get "the bubble." I don't quite get what is bursting. I get that prices can go up and people spend more, but what's actually happening behind the scenes that we aren't *seeing*?
OakFical · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly... And I've taken multiple aerospace classes
dog5and · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson
PANcakesuwu · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why if I sleep more than three hours but less than Four I feel incredibly tired. But if I sleep one hour I feel electric
SlipknotIsRealMusic · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
M_Boogz · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-Vaxers
UsedPossible · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Im one fo them but dont understand them. Like, a war veteran who blew shit up for his country can get scared of a spider. Makes no sense
ChaFoShizzle · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
BMoney8600 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Shan095 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women!
Planetary7804 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men, Women and every living thing in existence
Jar_of_Cats · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moderation
cheedybangBANG · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet. How it is so tangible and so intangible at the same time.
Here4TheMemes_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
jpagee58 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My anxiety and overthinking
Heynow779 · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The president
Leifrhyrne · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dog ran away...
ObamaSpinLaden · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recursion.
LiroXII · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The allure that Apple products clearly have on some people.
Rosanna_Ray · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I say I'm gonna work out and cut off all snacks only to not do either.
Quamity-Quam · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when people go to big stores to shop they can morally justify to themselves that it is okay to leave a cart in the middle of the parking lot...!!! Like 6 feet from a cart rack..like wtf!!!
TheDiamoneMinor · 1 points · Posted at 22:31:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people use 2-6 word phrases from the Bible out of context.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I go fishing with a buddy. Using the same set up his him, I get skunked and he limits out. Rude
broomonastand · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Enthusiasm for sports
Insane_squirrel · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How true consciousness can understand it's own creation.
conquer69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender fluidity. I understand that transgender people are born with the opposite gender in their brain and there is nothing they can do to change it back. But what does it mean to be gender fluid?
Neither trans or cis people are switching genders.
Unbaptismo · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
Harryarryson · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a Videographer and I think about it all the time. But I have no idea how cameras do what they do. Just taking something that we see and capturing them into something we can watch over and over. Shits wild. Just how we can essentially take the world and put it on a computer.
StraightNoChaser86 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that can't see an issue from both sides. Open you mind!
bklimko · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus and quadratic equations
louieeeee98 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are racist, like we've come so far and still we have problems bc people are different colors. Like really? You still hate black people, you hate Mexicans, and Asians that much? I just don't understand how people can hate someone for the color of their skin. I thought growing up we had an understanding that we will work / live with people from different walks of life, different understandings and still people are racist to the ones who are different from them. I always have a hard time understanding why people are still racist.
burntchknnugget · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pre cal. Wtf is going on????
aerozeppelinn · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Translate 'Quand meme' in English.......go ahead....
VymI · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've got two degrees, one in health science, one in ecology and evolutionary biology. I had to take two calc courses. Got A's in both.
I cannot factor a binomial by hand. For the life of me.
HarrBathtub · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirrors. How on earth can I see one thing in this mirror while if someone else was standing on the opposite side of the room as me, they would see something totally different!
roobee72 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division, for the life of me I just cannot understand it. 🤦♀️
Xenol_wolf · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own mother
robotwithdandruff · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism . And groups like the kkk, like wtf. I just don’t understand how it still exits especially nowadays
sports39 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
inflation
RC5108 · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers create colors
anonymousn00b · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
spacemanfriend · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Motivation. Literally do not know how people develop persistence and energy to try and try again. In the way of habits or hobbies. Like I really want to learn the guitar or keyboard and I have all the materials, and the internet to learn I just get bored and discouraged at how much information there is knowing I could try forever and never be even close to the best. All my life id love to make music and the closest I can get is I write songs. But that’s the easiest part. Cannot grasp self determination.
GloryoftheEmpire · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people over the age of 12 enjoy Pro Wrasslin'.
RattaStar · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The moon...
solcelmemeia · 1 points · Posted at 22:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
fiannavp1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Record players have boggled my mind forever. How does a needle, dragging across grooves in vinyl, create so many different tones/noises/sounds which equate to music?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife
MyHeroAcademiaSucks · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The love for Final Fantasy 7, in a narrative sense.
SchoolCocoa · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how killer queen works
MrWikiMemes · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetishes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why countries that are in a financial crisis can't just print more money. Apparently it would cause the world's economy to go into shambles but I honestly don't understand how.
Its_a1d3n04 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why I'm alive but feel dead.
littletrucker · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people go through the effort to pick up their dog's poop then leave the bag on the side of the road.
Orange_penguin02 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the American public is so complacent about the federal government not working for their interest like all the immoral and illegal stuff politicians get away with.
notneo57 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Trigonometry! I was sort of okay at mathematics, till this was introduced in my life. I don't know what 'sin' of an angle actually means. From that point on, math became a mystic art.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings
Lemonade-Master · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I'm so bad at communication that I legit think I might have autism, but I can kinda sort of get along with guys with similar traits of mine. Not with women doe. I just can't understand how a woman's brain works
IAmWeasel93 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well i don't understand the economy in general. I get that there is money but how does it all work?
Teeseadoubleyou · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Metal-nuel · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
what-is-r3ddit · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college
knifedc · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My health insurance
HobbieK · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor people who vote for Trump.
mallaire · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what do fish do all day
Magriso · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese
H3RM1TT · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people are driving in a parking lot and drive slowly around the speed bump like they think they're bad for the car to simply drive over the speedbump.
ednunez94 · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In what language do blind/deaf people think? Idk if that makes sense lol
green_meklar · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get into relationships.
canebarge · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a lot of people get hurt and start insulting people the dont share the same opinion !
rustyseapants · 1 points · Posted at 22:33:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Conservatives elected a non-religious, elitists, celebrity, mob boss wannabe, adulterer, three time married, failed casino owner, liar, fraudster, hack, lack of government service, draft dodger as Donald J. Trump and his fraud-ling family?
simpLEE_me · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In all respect, I honestly don’t understand how people can get offended so easily nowadays
LogDecember · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you froze time in the multiverse , does that freeze time for everything or will a universe exist where you didn't freeze time but is time freezing like a wave that just keeps going and will hit that universe as well?
How how Australia celebrates Christmas in summer
DirtyKlam22 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. I’ve looked into this a few times over the years. It seems nobody really knows. All we have is theories.
street__pharmacist · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking stoichiometry. I had a 94 in chemistry before that ridiculous unit and it brought me down to a 78.
1-800-mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least you passed :)
tommygunz007 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
An airline I work for is now spending a fortune spraying disinfectant on seats 'to kill the Covid'.
This teaches me that it lingers on hard surfaces for long periods.
This teaches me that it is on the money, the credit card machine, and the doorknob.
This means you can't escape it, and spraying down seats won't do jack shit for you.
rumpleman456 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people become so sensitive
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When physicists try to show me a picture of an object with more than 3 dimensions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are thoughts? What is consciousness?
bscottlove · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
toxic12093ureta · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, Why the hell do we multiply a letter or division
Eff01 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can picture things in our head. Like, where are we actually seeing it? If I think of a car, I see it, but where?
Cpformula · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Not the basis. The Y=X stuff. I don't think in variables well.
highapowa · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump passed the interview for the highest office in the land and got elected after the "grab her by the pussy" thing. Literally if you were interviewing for any other job and that happened you would be a no go. Not to mention everything else.
Btw I was not in either the Giant Douche or Turd Sandwhich camp. Or for that matter a participant in the shit show that is American politics so I have no political charge whatsoever..
howie1984-now · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Emsytunes · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how languages began to differ between regions. and also hoe people manage to teach other people languages.
for all we know, we could be learning all the words wrong but because of the reaction, assume its correct. I could be speaking total nonsense right now and noone would have any idea.
Kayel41 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can someone explain why SPY his 280 last week
Liz6887 · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why forgives is necessary to “move on” or how the concept is pushed so heavily.
Keep_IT-Simple · 1 points · Posted at 22:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxxers.
Where did this nonsense come from?
These are people who are usually skeptical of science and data, yet are so certain of whatever science and data is telling them their child getting vaccinated could cause autism?
What?
CodedElectrons · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people fear nuclear power more than the radiation coming out of coal's fly ash? Per terawatt hour of energy produced nuclear is the safest by far.
spacenut1990 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity... it’s magic, right?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that space is infinite.
ashinynickle · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. How can anyone truly believe that they are better than another person or group of people they do not know based simply on their genealogy or where on this planet they are from.
okc405sfinest · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes
blockman2803 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I tell myself I'm not going to make dumb choices but I still do.
SuperPunch82 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
the_dancing_hamster · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racsim
AnthonyTCYH · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my ex girlfriend still stalking my reddit profile
flashgordo88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have an allegiance to a political party.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Donald Trump. I'm mean seriously, he is the worst person since Hitler...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:35:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linear algebra
TTTfromT · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of the Matrix. Boyfriend explained it many times and it just won’t go into my head for some reason. I think I have it, then I watch the movie and just have so many questions again.
pinkyhooker · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What breed of dog was on Noah’s Ark
evil_screwdriver · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the US government is giving corporations and billionaires $0.98 for every bailout dollar and only $0.02 for every dollar to their citizens
Yoriq · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still think about going out and meeting others when there are thousands of warnings literally everywhere about the pandemic, caused by an extremely contagious virus which is currently incurable, is not well understood even by some of the smartest minds in the world, proves itself to be lethal for everyone indiscriminately every passing day, has caused a lot of casualties and destruction according to the questionably understated numbers released by officials and politicians all of whom cannot be counted on with handling the ongoing crisis, and spreads mainly through meeting other people
Wasabisushiginger · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, as Americans, who are currently being abused by corporations and our own government, haven't we said enough is enough and started a revolution. This isn't being better. Let's end this nonsense.
dididjf · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
OliPark · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the days drag, but the years fly.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how king crimson works
wackthat · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the heck our brain renders clean and sharp image with the use of light of chemicals, thats seems absolutly crazy that chemicals make us see, but its true.
BeardedLumberJack420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The female persuasion.
McMetas · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twitch streaming, i don't get why people wouldn't rather just watch Youtube so they have the abilities of going back, pausing, and skipping forward.
TrenezinTV · 2 points · Posted at 22:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its the interactivity of streaming. When you are watching a streamer you can actually talk to them, vote on things to do, ask and answer questions. You also get the real time reactions and dialog of other people who are watching, so when something funny or awesome happens you will see the chat go wild which just adds to the excitement.
The line of live vs video gets blurry the larger the streamer is, someone with a few hundred people can read and respond to nearly every coment made in real time. With a few thousand people in their chat a streamer is able to read some but not all of the messages so the interactivity is still there, but individual viewers start to have less of a direct impact on the stream. Massive streamers with tens of thousands of viewers pretty much only read donated messages so you will have to pay to interact with them much, there are still polls and other ways to have an impact without spending money but the stream is much more similar to a video now than small-mid size streams.
I think its a very different type of content, streams feel a lot more personal as you are directly/indirectly involved and are much more spread out the enjoyment comes from the feeling of community even if there is small lulls between jokes or action. But with that said videos have much higher production value and are much more consistently entertaining, you dont have the lulls and dips that streams will inevitably have so they are easier to pick up and just watch.
DefinetlyAHuman666 · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why whenever I’m in absolute silence my ears start ringing and I feel super weird
oofwgkta · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girlfriend says something and expects me to read her mind and do the opposite...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We live on a rock, floating around in space, and fight over words and kill each other over pieces of paper...life doesn't make sense to me anymore. I feel like I am watching the world go by before my eyes and it makes me want to kill myself because I want to help but can't because my own flaws outweigh my strengths.
gonzo2thumbs · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch the Twilight Zone. Rod Serling will help.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:08:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excellent suggestion. I love the Twilight Zone. Also love Night Gallery.
gonzo2thumbs · 2 points · Posted at 00:28:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you ever watch Amazing Stories? Or Tales from the Dark side, or Ray Bradbury's Theatre? Those are good, too. *But if you need quick fix, watch Super Troopers or some YouTube clips of fainting goats. I know it sounds corny, but I've been in dark places, these help. (I'll check out Night Gallery. I've tried before, Serling just nailed it for me.)
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant say I have ever watched Amazing stories, but I will look into it now. Tales from the dark side is definitely a favorite too. Thanks so much for reminding me of them. Yeah, things feel pretty heavy to carry and deal with right now. I did end up watching a few episodes of twilight zone, it definitely helped calm myself. Super Troopers is hilarious, and goats are awesome.
HaKdOgKagHoRl · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
silent letters. They seriously dont make sense to me....
rbe3_3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Diabetes and insulin/humalog. I work in assisted living and every diabetic patient is so totally different. I'm constantly confused
rubik0077 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interpolation
Read_It_Before · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hate and love everything at the same time!
hannahlizj · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How plans fly.
PM_ME_NUDES_PLEEASE · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my username doesn’t work.
I even wrote please!
i-have-no-idea-help · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything, the world is just pretty damn absurd
Maddocy · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inverse time or s
nightmare5670 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being left on read.
young_soldier · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
michaelo1985 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Risingskyes317 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In physics: the difference between momentum and inertia. I swear they're basically the same thing, but I'm consistently told otherwise.
bababarfani · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would people spit or wipe spit on the food in grocery stores? What are they trying to accomplish?
XJackatakX · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why on earth do you not fly backwards when you jump on a plane????
dylans0123495 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i want to commit suicide
elcapitan58 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics.
_____heyokay · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity and physics :(
CrazyComedyKid · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Just life.
flingell · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phases of the moon. I'm not doubting it but I do need somebody who is a great communicator to explain it to me probably using a desk lamp and some balls.
vortec43 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have endless amounts of energy.
Gongaloon · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I really don't get how in the world I can be on a massive ball that's both spinning and orbiting a colossal nuclear power plant at thousands and thousands of miles per second and live and breathe and exist here without the incredible forces acting on my body reducing me to a fine paste and flinging me off into the void. I know it has something to do with frames of reference and the Goldilocks zone and such, but it just seems so insane. I'm nowhere near a flat-earther, but I can understand why someone confused by the swirling, screaming universe around us would choose to be so.
c4str4t0 · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intolerance.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:37:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why humans want to stick their penis in everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms.
koukla_1234 · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people make a living doing social media
bigiee4 · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the majority of people don’t see Will Smith as a washed up tool who tries too hard to stay relevant.
Ramsus32 · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who care what others do with their lives if it's hurting no one. "I can't believe this person does this, likes that, works there"
Holy shit, I don't give a fuck and why do you.
cwsnakes · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abstract art and why people pay large sums of money for it
vader_kitty · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed. Like I get wanting to be rich af and never have to worry about anything. I don’t get fucking over entire populations of people to become rich and then working to make it harder for everyone else to make even a little bit of money.
Or heads of non profits who make millions of dollars a year and barely any of the donations going to the cause of the non profit!
jackishere · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my java class
AXxi0S · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand people who aren't willing to fail at stuff. Think about how good you are at walking. You put your feet in front of the other one one at a time like it's nothing. You can walk backwards, sideways, diagonally, any direction. No problem.
Do you know how you learned to walk? Your parents set you down on the floor and said "walk, bitch" and you fell over 3000 times but then eventually you made it across the room. What if you had just said "No, I'm not doing this, I'm not very good at it". You'd be the biggest bitch in the history of big bitches.
Push yourselves. Always aim higher. Quit being a pussy.
zzellers · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computing.
So if I want to make my website’s header a different font size, I understand that. I jump into the backend and change it in html. But how does the computer know to make that specific change? All I did was change a number with my keyboard and it made my font size a specific amount of pixels. How? How does a computer understand that 20px means what it does? That simply typing keys makes all these changes? Who writes these languages to designate these changes? What makes a computer react the way we want it to whenever these language prompts are used?
It’s fucking wild, man.
papyrusfont · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Smoking. Not in a judge mental way - I just don’t understand how it occurs to anyone that that’s something they want to do, and why it’s been socially acceptable for so long.
Swedish-Butt-Whistle · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
triceraquake · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how WiFi works.
NotAKneeler · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How OP’s momma could be so fat.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
nut_your_butt · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genders of people.
cryptogryphon · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
darryljenks · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rebiblicans. I honestly just don't get any of their points.
DUtlum · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking and consciousness, what makes us able to do whatever we want in our mind. There can’t be a chemical process for every single possible thought, right?
DieHoDie · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
stressed_bi_bean · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 2008 stock market crash... idk if im dumb or what but I have been trying to understand it for years and it still makes no sense to me
SkookemChoocher · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
domastallion · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computer Science
HerpieMcDerpie · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't divide by zero.
I have 10 cars and divide them in to 0 groups. I now have 0 cars.
VolitantMan · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Earth’s rotation.
Especially the way it affects the amount of sunlight a specific region gets. I.e. Alaska.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Department store Santa’s. You’re making a profit off a creepily elaborate and pointless lie told specifically to children. Lieing about Santa is a dumb tradition.
avg_ahuacatl · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I literally turn on a switch and I get some light. Can't understand the electricity making process
Hope_Holland · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science, it’s so confusing. I already know I’m gonna fail it.
Darksky770 · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost everything lol
Dalton_G · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand friendships and professional relationships if that makes any sense. I can't tell how far the friendship has progressed. I don't know when a joke gets old, or when someone's annoyed by jokes. I can't read people very well either. I can never figure out the tone needed for specific situations. I don't know when conversations end either. When does the topic change? Will they be annoyed if I change it now? I run emails to lecturers and job interviewers by people just to make sure I'm not sounding sarcastic, or passive aggressive.
I know it's totally on me. It could also be just anxiety. I'm more aware now that I don't know what I'm doing, so I try to be as casual as I can. But then that worry of tone and jokes and overused jokes comes into play.
And I hope that this doesn't come off as a "poor me, no one understands me" scenario. As stated before, I'm awful at tone. And I'm really sorry if this sounds edgey, or cringey, I don't mean it to. I'm more just explaining that this is something I struggle to understand, but I am working on it, so I can navigate these situations better.
EnsconcedScone · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when looking at a mirror you can make eye contact with a person standing behind you who is also looking into the mirror. Where do your eyes meet??
mayo_neighs00 · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How brains store thoughts! I understand how sensations are sent, with neurotransmitters and reuptake and all that. I just don’t understand how it is stored
b33fstu · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigotry and prejudice, there's so many facets to it but I always find myself questioning why. I've made it a personal life goal to confront it. There have only been a few occasions but it's fun and I highly recommend it. For example if someone was making fun of my gay friend so I told them that was my boyfriend, they shut up pretty quick.
wpmiller · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the physics of Relativity, if all motion is relative, with no absolute point of reference, how would the time-dilation thing work - one observer relative to another? The common example: one person on Earth, his brother on a spaceship near the speed of light. Isn't the most that can be said that the distance between them is expanding near the speed of light, rather than one is stationary and the other moving?
banana_bazooka · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my girlfriends brother treats their mother, and the way she treats him back. He is most of the time giving her verbal abuse over the phone about something or other, but asking for money on the other hand. He takes her bank booklet aswell and takes money out of her account and she just lets it happen(as far as I know) and also the way he treats his sister, my girlfriend.
Not as badly as their mother but once I had to take her away after he yelled abuse at her while I was in the bathroom, she gave him a black eye then the day after, because he spit on her)
I really don’t know what to do in those situations, she’s well able to hold her ground, I would say ever better then me if I was were she was, but I feel that I should do something but I don’t want to get involved(got involved in a friends situation before and messed it up even more and I’m afraid to get involved again)
Agnosticpoopster · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people love gold and why are all the currencies based on it?
joffreyjomers · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and trading.
Justfrozenvanilla · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inferential statistics .
Lagspresso · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The loyalty to political parties. I'm registered independent, and some people swear by their parties like sports teams, except that sports fans are far tamer than this.
physicallyuncomfort · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxxers
dustball21 · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like tiktok?
Iwantdienowplease · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Don’t understand how they work at all
EffyTeffy · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
michmah · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
calculus. I just dont get it :(
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep going back to Communism? Why don’t all religions don’t get equally shit on? Why unfettered capitalism is a thing? Why some atheists feel they are superior to their theistic fellows? Why isn’t studying Philosophy part of High School curriculum?
williewill19 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing lmao
scotja · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions > logic .
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math-math-math-math
DSOSA507 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people use their opinions for facts, like how can you say your opinion is a fact just based on anecdotal info. like did they even went to school
Notalizardperson13 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
With the existence of mortals the gods have created something they cannot control. If one cannot be in control, then how can one be considered a god?
AlaskanHamr · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I spend more money then i need to on video games when I’m broke as hell.
zubbs99 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einstein's theory of relativity. At times I've thought I kind of get it, then, a few minutes later, I don't.
On_my_way_slow_down · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the abortion argument has become a left and right thing. No one argues for killing toddlers, we're all disagreeing on when life starts. Why do we get away from that and make it baby killers vs. disregarding women's rights?
B0RD3RM4N · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
PC Parts/building I still don't understand anything about it, even though I want to get into it. That's why I just stick with laptops
czar4684 · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4 gallons of water puzzle using a 3 gallon and 5 gallon jug from Die Hard: With a Vengeance.
bullevard · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fill the 5. Use it to fill the 3. Then dump out the 3.
Now you have 2 gallons of water left in the 5 and an empty 3 gallon jug. Transfer the water to the 3.
Now you have 2 gallons in the 3 and, crucially, 1 gallon of empty space. Everything to this point has been designed to get exactly 1 gallon of empty space in the 3 gallon jog.
Now fill the 5, and use it to top off the 3 (requirung 1 gallon).
What you have left is 4 gallons in the 5.
It took me forever, because in the movie they cut all the parts up to getting 2 gallons (a 1g space) in the 3.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
DrakonSpawn · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. I’ve tried so hard to understand them and invest but I’m just no good with market trends, I imagine.
xxxminerxxx · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I only do 99 in 4.
sadakasana · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat Why would anyone go behind their SO's back and have an affair? Especially if they're not in love or not attracted to their SO anymore
yano242 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people.
DJ_CantPickAGoodName · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because I don’t understand.
2late4us · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job
Singlehander · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people decide something is worth something.
stratosfearinggas · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything about being against fighting back. It doesn't matter if someone hits someone else or yells at them or insults them, everyone seems to rally against the one fighting back, not the one initiating.
I get all the things against fighting but everyone has the right to protect themselves. If it so happens that fighting back or yelling back or insulting someone back will stop them from doing anything further, then that is an appropriate action to take.
I_AlreadyDiD · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there is still no cure for Dementia and Alzheimer's
lakor · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics. The more you learn about it, the less sense it makes...
EnzoAlcuino · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
1900’s is the 20th century
spencer575 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say they’re from New England when you ask what state they’re from.
is_me_who_is · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cross products. I’ve watched countless videos. I understand how to find it but what the fuck am I really finding? What real life situation is it applied to? I know torque is one but then why is the vector perpendicular to the actual rotation? It makes my brain spiral
Risaza · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
greengotfingered · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there is only a certain spectrum of light we can see. What’s going on elsewhere that I can’t see ? I wanna know.
Mysti_Tempest · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers. How the hell do we use numbers that don’t exist in problems and get actual answers? Witchcraft apparently
Jupexie · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my reflection keeps beating me at Rock Paper Scissors
Shemoose · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don't like cake
Jr1435 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Potatoes
YeetThemFeets88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fricking karma system
neonsign2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be okay with existing. Ever since I was little I always wanted to disappear and not be here. It mind boggling to think people are good with living and being here
mrellenwood · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sound like you have trauma and or deep depression and they dont
neonsign2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m not sure about the trauma bc I don’t remember anything really bad happened to me. But I know I have had depression for a long time. I’m not really sure how bad it is some days are worst than others.
donttalktome876 · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
noturavgsquid · 1 points · Posted at 22:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Differential equations. I tried so hard to learn the material in the course and still have no idea how to do any problems. Somehow I got a B?
OyasumiBerserk · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Get married for twice o third time i just don't get it
mrellenwood · 2 points · Posted at 22:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I know of someone’s mom whom has gotten married 15 times and is now banned from getting married in the state of Texas— my question is more so why would they marry her?? Either she is lying or they don’t care and that alone is a red flag on them too.
OyasumiBerserk · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never hear something like that it is shocking but funny at the same time being banned for getting married hahahah Maybe she is like somekind of black widow
But i agree red flags everywhere
horizant · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fidelity
faIsemessiah · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
trigonometry :(
NLM_04 · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual atraction
no_tori_ous · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printing. Don’t even try to explain it to me , many have and I always do the “oooooh ok cool gotcha” and then walk away not gotcha anything.
stressed_bi_bean · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of existence, like why do we exist? Why are we alive? Imagine if the universe didnt exist... nothing would exist... what tf would be going on? WHY DOES ALL THIS EXIST??? WHAT IS THIS???
arianna__herrera · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i font understand how ppl can be so not interested in all the pain the world is going through (and i am not referring to the covid situation), i mean with all the problems we have with governements and criminality, why are we not helping each other?
Tweety_Pie · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to read a map without turning it around and imagining I'm walking down that part of the street.
beansrats · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the hecc we are buying toilet paper
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can learn stuff easily.
I have to repeat the same thing again and again and again excessively in order for it to stick. Basically I have to do the thing everyday and if I stop doing that thing I'll forget mostly how after a couple weeks of not doing it.
Learning brings the worst out of me and it's terrifying. To the point I cant learn the things I want to because my brain shutdowns.
kylee121 · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people think china deliberatly started the covid 19 virus? My aunt told me this morning that they are trying to tank our economy? What the fuck is up with that? All from a deans koonz book post she read on Facebook
Sh44nT · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me having to pretend to sleep to go to sleep
insanedialectic · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why poor people constantly vote against their interests
-spicylady- · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, I feel like there’s a mental block almost that I just don’t comprehend math
dunno_surf · 1 points · Posted at 22:42:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Stirling motor It is so simple yet so confusing
MysteriousBirdie · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. I love the math, but I can’t really wrap my head around quantum mechanics.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plain and simple: Women
sansandtom · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans didn't have more clean air before covid-19
dacringeyfangirl · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Dahvie Vanity isn’t locked up. That dude has over 20 sexual assault allegations against him, and most of the people he assaulted were underage!
szymanskiadam · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a telephone works
SirMasonParker · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That statistical thing with the three doors and you should switch after one is eliminated. It's been explained to me so many times by my math-savvy father but... nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some women treat their men like trash yet the guy doesn't see it and defends her.
SinningJesus · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People’s obsession over celebrity couples, the kardashians, reality tv shows.
Pragmatic1869 · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy
PowerPokingPurple · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life, existence, consciousness, biological reproduction being solely achievable among species with the same/ similar body plan and much more
JoystickJustyn · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
the_real_drozo · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
taxes
health insurance
fucking women....AM I RIGHT?!
idk, kinda a depressing question tbh
TheReal_CoCo · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is going to sound so stupid, but I don't understand how countries are poor. Like why can't they just print more money at their mints or something? I know that sounds stupid but I've never understood it
metal-boi123 · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
L I F E
Also who created the first living thing?!?
elgato124 · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Paid vacation time. I have banked so many hours at various jobs bc I've always treated working as "you work to get paid". If I take time off, I'm not earning $. So I rarely take time off. I once had a boss essentially force me into using my vacation time bc he didn't want to see me go over my cap and said he would approve any requests. That turned out to be a great year bc I turned a lot of 3 day weekends into 4, took random Wednesdays off to break up the work week, etc. I usually sell back my vacation time for cash instead.
I understand the concept but I can't understand why it doesn't make sense to me.
humblechestnut · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understanding the speed of light, and what light years mean, and how what we see in the sky is based on how light has travelled a certain distance.
f0gax · 1 points · Posted at 22:43:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter how many times it’s explained to me I still don’t quite get long and short in investments.
Like I sort of get that one (long?) is investing with the expectation that the instrument will get more valuable. And the other is that it will get less valuable.
What I don’t quite get is how one makes money when something loses value.
leebee294 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t really know how waterproof coats/clothing works and I just take it for granted that I am wearing this thing that stops all water, it is incredible and very common.
FeelingxVertigo · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Circumcision on babys.
Canopicc · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is yawning contagious?
teefour · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap
samueldn4 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
MemeLord6995 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. Like, what in the fucking world, what did that come from?
mrvoltronn · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When to use who or whom
MsQueridot · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ignorance.
dumbkiddo420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
time relativity, for example in interstellar he came back and was younger than his daughter, i just don’t get it.
kweeenofhalloween · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radio/television waves and how they're converted into sound and pictures. I've read about it but it still seems like magic. Especially people pulling radio signals into their bodies because of metal and things and then the sound comes out of them. Amazing.
thatsmycookiegimme · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stock markets work
dest_chanel · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how prices in the shop depend on oil prices..
Th3BigFunk · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't wrap my head around the difference between to and too
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gangstalking
GildedCrow · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
nontenuredteacher · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how Aunt Becky got charged for paying her daughter's way into USC and Charles Kushner (even though he has been charged for other stuff) has not. Rich people have been paying for admission forever. Why is it NOW a problem? (Not saying it's right)
Das-Fuhrer1936 · 1 points · Posted at 22:44:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
hahahahaha.... taxes
Genshed · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Syncopation in music.
Locksley_1989 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girls can play Mass Effect and not feel the need to romance Garrus.
OkPage8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you park in a drive way and drive on a parkway.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how politics and the banking system work. I got some notions about who gets elected and why, and I also know that banks are dangerous if you don't know how to use them. I'm 18, so I guess that it's because of that
KentuckyFriedEel · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of programming. Coding. I understand that getting something to work can be rewarding but damn does it seem dull
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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KentuckyFriedEel · 2 points · Posted at 23:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A-men!
DeanCorso11 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in this day and age can be soo racist.
SpiritSla · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
mankind's retardation especially working class ppl not installing guillotines in every townsquare.
REPTARJESUS · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone thought to eat oysters. Or sea urchin. Or most weird ass animals. Also how people came up with cheese? They just let milk go so bad that it became good again. How people came to create and eat certain foods in general is insane to me.
bookity_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How my most recent reddit post seems to be getting a negative view solely because I posted it a certain way.
How else am I supposed to share my salt for a video game if the app that coincides with it only works for my old account on my broken Switch and doesn't work for my current one?
Also, my own comment about how bad the photo is taken got more love than the main post.
ustbota · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4th dimension and above
IamVegetableMan · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics
young_chip · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nothing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people freeze bread. People have tried to explain it to me, but I just don't want to understand.
Forewarnednight · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other people
tresmarias12345 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me.
HunkyPunkTeenApe · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Willful ignorance.
agMORALZ · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
axsirik · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Maths works when you put letters in it. My brain can't comprehend..
nrd170 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find Hamiltonian cycles with a polynomial time algorithm
_Lethal_Panda_ · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers
absjunkname · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
tgashwinrohit · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have understood the studies and the curriculum almost effortlessly until high school
During high school however, everything became very abstract and completely overwhelming
Still never understood what caused that immense jump in difficulty or the immense dip in my capabilities
PallyWrath · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't just get along despite our differences... We are all people trying to live in the same world, but for some reason a difference in opinion makes people see others as a completely different species that, for some reason, is seen also as an enemy.
Neithersmile · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate others because they don’t agree with them on a certain topic
red90999 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person could find true love with the perfect partner.
my2wins · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t fathom that some people hate dogs or cats. They are the greatest source of joy known to me and most of my friends, and I genuinely do not understand how some people do not like them.
pizzapunt55 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the biggest reason a friend of mine gave me is that it's hatred by associaten. A lot of people (I agree on this part) treat pets like they are the best thing in the world and that they own us which we both find anoying. In turn that makes him dislike the animals aswell. I think if people acted normal around animals he might open up a bit more
pinkfluffyunicorns76 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The one thing I can't understand is how people invented things like the modern engine design, or anything else related to that level of complexity.
KVIIILYNLYN · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Silos
slant · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Replacing the toilet paper with the paper hanging down the back. I truly don’t see how that would be more desirable.
Comecuyos · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Elmeromero55 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Real fucking ANALYSIS the concept of open/closed ball
Jeremy-Hillary-Boob · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
How can a particle be 2 places & neither place at the same time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that not wanting your kids to have autism means you wouldn't love them as much if they had autism
Heypen · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Narcissists
iseedeadllamas · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How little bumps and scratches on vinyl makes sound. Like I understand that the waveform is captured there, but why is it that when needles touches it, it produces sound? Is just rubbing against the bumps?
Flash_point69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Heatho14 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can have a complete lack of respect for employees at retail stores or restaurants.
CAhomebuyer2020 · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
emily_is_a_rat · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
bts fans. you say jungkook has a booger in his nose and you get death threats from people.
Push-This-Button-O · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would pay for nude content from random internet girls. Is that the closest you’ll ever get to an actual woman, and so it just comes from a place of resignation? Do you not understand high-quality porn is free online? Maybe you have millions in the bank and you don’t care how you spend your money? This last one is the only reason that maybe makes sense to me, but even still, what are you really paying for that you can’t get for free on the internet? Are you that obsessed with this one singular woman that you HAVE to see her naked? It’s just all very strange to me and I will never understand it.
Blysse102598 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep playing rage inducing video games. If it pisses you off that much, stop playing it or at least take a breather. Why torment yourself with that much anger for the sake of an imaginary victory?
LoveFoolosophy · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How slavery was ever considered ethical.
Freakin_A · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At some point the brain became self aware and named itself. That hurts my brain.
vinnyg761 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 1/3 is .3 repeating and 2/3 is .6 repeating but 3/3 is 1 and not .9 repeating
KiwiSpike1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding. I've wanted to learn unity so I've been getting into python to introduce myself to code before C# but I can never understand how people make/delete files or show graphics and videos. There's no tutorials out there I can find so I'm probably searching the wrong thing
eldus74 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spending over $1000 USD on a gotdamn phone.
palpablefuckery · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why people believe in God/s.
Or why people think Trump is a good president.
These two things leave me dumbfounded quite often.
hdrol28 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are hoarding toilet paper.
BumpBoi88 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People in general, how to speak to them and create relationships
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bad drivers
scout_nine · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people enjoy watching shows like temptation island.
Super___Nova_83 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
MTG222 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
sadgirl07 · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, religion. It has never made sense to me how people just blindly believe in something they have no proof or evidence exists. I know that's "faith" but I have just never felt that way about anything and it seems so foreign to me. I have to be able to see or feel something to believe it exists. No offence intended toward anyone of any religion, it's just something I can't understand and I'm okay with that.
Electrical_Catch · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think you are mixing up religion and god. There are many different religions but only 1 god. I think what you are saying if I'm not mistaken is that you cant "see or feel" god so you cannot believe in it. If all people knew that there was a god do you think that there would be evil in the world? Everyone would be good people doing the right things not stealing, killing, etc. Hence that is why we have free will. We have free will to do whatever we want because it is our choice to believe if there is a god or not
sadgirl07 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But I feel like every religion has their own "version" of god, yes? Like any given religion believes that their god is the only god, even though when you compare all religions they're basically the same. And I feel like if God was a tangible thing there would still be evil in the world. Even now, people do evil things in the name of God, because they feel it's the right thing to do. Everyone has their own perception of what is right and what is wrong. And that's where it gets messy. I believe I am a good person. I don't kill or steal and I try to bring joy to those around me, but I don't believe in any higher power. So why do people commit atrocities in the name of a god that they cannot prove exists?
mister_picklz · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
SavageAlcoholic · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
z3r0p1lot · 1 points · Posted at 22:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vegetarians and vegans
are_you_kiddding_me · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why college students are left out of the stimulus.
We’ve been kicked out of our dorms, forced to finish the semester online, pay for high speed WiFi at home, struggle with bills, job loss, and car payments... really hassling to save money just for textbooks next semester and because my parents filed me [20f] as a dependent, I can’t get any help.
My parents contribution to the last two years of college: $0
Yet my 15 and 14 year old brothers get $500 each. How are my brothers (who are also dependents) getting this? Why are we being sh*t on for working hard to make something of ourselves?
College students who fall into this gap, I feel for you. It’s not wrong to want help like everyone else.
FBI_Trained · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Addiction. Why I can't free myself from it.
firedragon000 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we have neglected and blamed animals like rats, racoons and pigeons for our own trash. I mean, I know they carry diseases and I can't go against that, but still people refer to them as if they couldn't ve conscious of the whole panorama of why those animals have become what they are :///
buell_ersdayoff · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are mean :/ i like to do good things just because i feel it
DonkeyKang2902 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell youtube thought it was a good idea to put two ads before videos instead of the 1
GoalFinisher · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to out pizza the hut
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how a piece of silicone is running entire computers, functioning as its brain.
I understand the concept of bits. But i genuinely cannot fathom the idea that someone discovered that a silicone die would help us run ocmputers, which in turn run the world
ExodiaTurn1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so aggressive discussing politics. Their isn't a right or wrong way to run a country, no need to name call or be violent lol.
Revisionss · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anxiety
injailout_soon · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Jimburino · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can be mean to the nicest people. (I'm a mean person, but I can be nice at times, especially to nice people.).
TheOneC · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Findom.
Divine_Crystals · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I found pepperonis spicy when I was a kid.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LIFE.
silojames · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How televisions work
JustElyra · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my boyfriend doesn't think he's pretty
beets_bears_bubblegm · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why he broke up with me
TectonicRoom438 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still play fortnite
pc----- · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People liking men or women. I genuinely don’t understand when that question is posed to me- like who do you find more attractive. I feel like there’s no way to know if you’re attracted to someone unless you’re around them.
tuncs · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s so hard for me to visualize how space is expanding and there’s no center, and how there was none of it in the beginning... the “balloon surface” analogy works to a certain extent, but this is 3D so it’s harder to make visual sense of all this for me.
JrRoper · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
l-ll-ll-l_IsDisLoss · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone..
FelixzeBear · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so hesitant about nudity. It’s really weird. We all have those parts and we’ve all seen them. All it is is skin lmao.
kman25l · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
English
AdrianAndon · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can eat bats
bigjuju27 · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
GabeThyGodly · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scientists naming sense...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets.....
How do they work?
Paricleboy04 · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We have equations describing how magnets work, but we really don’t know why these phenomena occur.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/8bhYMnHb5JY
Moar_Input · 1 points · Posted at 22:49:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
401K
sea32883 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What people post on reddit
Ziplocking · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics, particularly relating to trains, relay houses, and traction powered substations.
hipsterX · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Person00012345 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Um i hate when people pour milk before the cereal
Patheoff1996 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people born deaf think if they don’t know what words sound like.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bad people can be, or are I should say. The pettiness, selfishness, and shallowness is so unnecessary, and never gives them what they actually want.
It's like everyone has been told a weak lie in order to be happy, and they're too scared to be the person they're supposed to be.
Detracting from yourself in order to be purposefully miserable.
gpsydngr · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social media.
Danewhite293 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are sexually attracted to children, ie micheal jackson. Ive watched leaving neverland and am a huge fan of his music, but I don't understand how its even possible to become physically attracted to children, even if you "had no childhood."
IsrarK · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How FedEx and UPS are so shitty. Even pre-corona FedEx is dog shit. UPS is somewhat better. UPS has been in business over 100 years. FedEx 50 years. Amazon Prime? 15 years. They can get me my shit in two days and tell me when the driver is like 10 stops away. FedEx and UPS? It'll be there by the end of the day... probably. If USPS goes to shit I'd much rather Amazon deliver my mail than those two.
BaroquePseudopath · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Tandril91 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can somehow work a full time job, eat a balanced diet, exercise, and hold a healthy social and/or love life. I can barely maintain the job part, and I’m only just starting to shift my diet to something more healthy.
MeWill333 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many otherwise rational people vote against their own interests?
flawlessbengaltiger · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own incompetence
NerdyNinjaAssassin · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything actually. Politics on both a micro and macro level. Same goes for economics. Stock markets. Inflation. Taxes and what they do. The electoral college. Et cetera. I’m 26 and I feel like I don’t actually know anything that I’m supposed to to be a competent adult.
AKAIBOKO · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LIFE!!!!!
plplplplpl1098 · 1 points · Posted at 22:50:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
brucifer7325 · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The vastness of space. I just cannot wrap my head around just how fucking big it must be.
MyAimSucc · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How I’ve been doing yard work/housework by myself for the past 20 or so years of my life, yet whenever I’m at my mom’s her husband needs help doing the same shit. Putting a desk together doesn’t take 2 people... picking up dogshit or mowing your backyard doesn’t take two people, taking the bins down to the street doesn’t take two people.... I would know I did that yard and all their chores by myself for three years before I moved out.
On a funnier note: I don’t get the whole ducklips/selfie faces every girl seems to do
idumby · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does a person need 7 billion dollars? When you have more money than your grandchildren’s grandchildren can spend, why not share the rest??
Chilis_Mooth · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand induction
jamlesmithjr · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anarcho-communism
graybo77 · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravitational waves.
ABNEWhwi · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid some people can be
RecordOLW · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity - positive, negative, ground, neutral... but what does it all mean, Basil??!
Dupreme-Evan420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ppl eat Mac n’ Cheese with a spoon
Annomous-Account · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Reddit doesn’t just have a “Post as Anonymous User Function” I’m on mobile so maybe it’s different for computers but I just want to be able to write a post on my main on a subreddit I follow but not anyone else know it’s me but still getting notifications on it
TisNotMyMainAccount · 1 points · Posted at 22:51:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we will advance with social scientific research in a world of non-probability sampling (since most don't have landlines anymore).
BorkBorkIAmADoggo · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras work. How the fuck does a little box depict the world as clear as, and even more so, than the human eye?
jaqness · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be honest, understanding in itself. How do I understand things?
Jager_main4 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When ikea had no meatballs
radiokiller458 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
US Gov't, the FED, and the goddamn stock market.
GuyattRiott · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming languages - been trying to study this for a long time know. And the logic just doesn’t seem to compute with me. Which mean I’ll probably never be able to figure it out to a competent level.
Black_Magic_M-66 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people just don't "get it".
therankin · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anxiety. I just can’t understand why my wife panics at small things..
I mean, logically I can, but I just can’t put myself in her shoes.
unfading89 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How other people's brains work? People can get crazy over things despite being told it's ok.
benburton5555 · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone wants something from me but doesn't want to give shit
bbrusevold · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Reddit karma system. How does it work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:52:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people who were born blind and deaf function
nhojo68 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FYI, people that were born death don’t function.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Frick you I’m tired
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get a job. I mean the finding a job that sounds interesting, applying and getting the job. I never actually gotten a job I applied to.
I worked before in different companies and areas. I even got a job training qualification (in my country you either go to university or do a job training like trade school. It's part school and part working in a company for 3 years). I just got the jobs I had so far through whatever. Sometimes, I'm not really sure how. But I've never gotten a job that I picked myself and applied to.
I even did multiple trainings and coachings on how to apply to jobs (they're paid for when you're unemployed or not working full time). Everyone is always telling me that I should find jobs with my qualifications and cv. I even had a information talk with a person working for public office (kinda like recruiting, except that he can't hire anyone, just point in the right directions). He also said that I should have no problem getting a job.
I have no clue how people send out a couple of cv and get a job (or even multiple offers where they can pick one).
I know that no one can really help me here, but I still got a question. How does it feel to be the "lucky" person who gets the job?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity, I understand how it works. Just not WHY. Why do things with mass pull shit to it?!
whoknowsjeff · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A boring answer compared to the rest but...relativity. I get the science, it's been explained to me many times by many formats, but fuck man, it just makes no sense. And I refuse to believe it. For those who dont know what I mean: Einstein's theory of relatively, general and special, which refer to the dilation of time (I'm not smart enough to explain, clearly, so please look it up yourselves).
drowningnotwanking · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A random piece of metal that always knows how to point north.
only_temporary · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market... but I maybe just dumb, because nobody is saying it.
alash52 · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Animal2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chewing tobacco. Like, I already have a major issue with how disgusting cigarettes are and why the hell would anyone choose to smoke. But holy hell chewing tobacco is a whole new level of just hit you in the face with it disgusting.
Pbj-paterick · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does it seem like most people prefer to back out of a parking space? Like when there's a pull through spot open they pull into a spot behind another car.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
CutterMusic · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anime and K-Pop
Milly_Woods · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I genuinely do not understand people. The older I get the more they disappoint me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't sleep.
BeefyFarts420 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to socialize. It's a curse.
jcmc9901 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers
enty6003 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This meme format:
It's the first line I don't get.
Is it trying to say that 'no one' is saying 'nothing'? As in, everyone is talking?
It doesn't make any sense to me.
FrederickLazarus · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who thought that dragon ball evolution was a great idea?
its7ash · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand time and relativity. Like in the movie interstellar how being on that one planet for 30minutes was like 7 years to the people on the ship. How is that a real thing!? Scary. Space in general is just mind boggling.
TheLikeGuys3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can actually believe the shit they hear from religious leaders.
hismaserati · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
Salty_Hunter-1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That feeling of not knowing exactly what I am. I mean yes I understand I'm a human and a living organism, but what exactly am I? Am I my brain? Is that what makes me who I am? Is that what gives me the ability to feel emotions, and gives me sentience? I'm not sure and when I think too deep on it I feel like everything is too overwhelming
Zulazer · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in reality shows get a couple of very obvious hints before an event and then are surprised at said obvious event.
OldSaintThick · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why my pc constantly has problems
Oliviathedoglover · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can go through life without having any major health conditions.
This is because I have a disability and a range of other medical condition since birth so the whole idea blows my mind.
EveryFairyDies · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parents who “stay together for the kids”, or one parent who’s miserable but who “doesn’t want to break up the family”. In our modern western world, there is no logical reason for it. So many families are made up of divorced parents, kids who have a set of parents and a set of step-parents. By staying in a bad relationship, you’re not helping your kids, you’re actually hurting them. You’re teaching them bad lessons about how a romantic partnership should work, and you’re making them feel guilty because they know you’re staying in a miserable situation for them and they blame themselves. Seriously, just separate and move on with your life already, the idea of single parents being bad parents or lesser people is so outdated.
Heterophylla · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sewing machines.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:54:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people who cut corners, don't follow the rules, and slack off at work are rewarded, yet those of us who do things by the book, follow the rules, and never slack off are treated badly.
RoombaKing · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LGBT people who exclude/hate trans people. I literally cannot understand how they reason that.
Cactus-Orb · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your intense beauty.
c3h7oh · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself sometimes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking Differential Equations and linear algebra. I’ve skimmed my way through all my engineering classes and still don’t understand it.
XoXFaby · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can genuinely believe in religion. It's the dumbest shit ever and none of it makes sense. I get that it's a nice alternative to the inevitability of death but most of them are still scared of death anyways. And it doesn't excuse the shit people will do for religion or the weaponized ignorance required to not get that it's ridiculous.
yellowfluffycat · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Bitcoin works
RickyBobbyBooBaa · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely can't understand how America is a country that should be a leader in everything from technology to politics, social science and economics and environmental issues,but more than half the population is so backwards that it has pulled the whole country back a century. Like,how does that even happen?
Santos61198 · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why unhappy couples stay together
nebulola · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
SaintAssassinDirk · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate when I get transferred to a parallel universe and I don’t understand why it keeps happening.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Ran_Mori · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of living
youWHAT- · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Integration through trigonometric substitute.
Fuck that pls help.
ViveIn · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
United States dent and how it seems to not matter at all.
NY_Ye · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pewdiepies career still exits after saying the N word. He obviously says it off camera, he could’ve said anything else but nope
emohipster · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok dance videos and why no one is ashamed anymore to just do some shit tier dance moves in public for a lame video. That shit would make you a prime bullying target only a couple years ago.
EcoAffinity · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How investments work. I throw my money into a Roth 401k at work for the company match, and I throw extra into an Edward Jones-managed account. Even though I picked everything to be on the aggressive side and sat through explanations by people about the different options and funds etc (which was doing well until recently lol), I still don't know what that shit means.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who take their anger out on others who’ve done nothing wrong. Don’t ruin someone else’s day, please.
NotAshleySampi · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people find car racing entertaining to watch
wanderlustnsew · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely cannot understand how Radios, TVs, or computers work. How did someone even think to make it? How do people continue to make them now and even better than before? I’m lost.
I_Like_Coookies · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fugacity. Like what the actual fuck.
spriest14 · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie ‘Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy’. Forget double agents... I think there were some triple / quadruple agents in that movie. Very, very confusing.
Salty_Hunter-1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were born deaf and blind what is your thought process? Is it just association of things by feel or emotion? How do you even think to yourself? That keeps me up at night sometimes. It's just baffling...
Ketchupgamin · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How hot showers and cold showers feel good yet they are opposites
CaptionSkyhawk · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t like to shower
Scary_Puppy · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men.
martej · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hedge funds.
Smellyclown · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm on and off with exercise, but each time I actually do it, I feel amazing for the rest of the day. It's like when you can finally breath again after a couple weeks of cold, but I keep getting the cold.
mathteacher343 · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think trump is smart or a good leader in light of all his failures and obvious daily lies. Why trump people exclusively talk like bots yet call other people NPC. How so many people simply rejected critical thinking at an early age and never recovered.
Jackieboi24 · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
politics
FrederickLazarus · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we sneeze when we see the sun directly?
CutterJohn · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people manage to not be nightmarishly self conscious to the point of paralyzation and self isolation.
All my friends have kids graduating high school, and I've still barely ever even had a girlfriend.
Doeg · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How record players work.
sharksandwich70 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bruce Springsteen
AlessandoRhazi · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid financial decisions. Not reading what you sign, I read and catalogue (take photos) of everything I sign because that the mark of my responsibility. Yet people carelessly agree to sign any stupid shit.
ceapone85 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin and farming.
MartyMcMcFly · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Governments treating their countries like a business instead of focusing on quality of life of their citizens.
OfficerDougEiffel · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
High fashion. It all looks insane to me. And when my girlfriend watches shows about it, I feel like it's a bunch of people putting on ridiculous clothes and pretending it has some deeper meaning.
I don't know. It reminds me of million dollar, pretentious, nonsense art pieces.
Shadow07_1997 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wireless signals actually work? How did the first 'signal' come about? How does a metal dish create a signal that other metal dishes just know how to read?
I'm about to finish a masters degree in computing too
DFMABN · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are still hoarding toilet paper.
MuhammadUmairHaider · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing
N0_Tr3bbl3 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vietnamese.
E is like 6 different words and I mispronounce all of them... I give up!
binkbuhjankers · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people's empathy is hard to come by and not having it is rewarded. I mean, I know kinda WHY, but how its allowed or even rewarded at this point when there is so much evidence in sociology and psychology to give the world some perspective. Why is it okay to not look at people and be able to, or want to see what it may he like to be them, or have their struggles? Again I feel know why it happens the causes, but I hate how it's made to be okay and even encouraged down to families or everyday life
CyrilAdekia · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don't fact check outrageous statements
joe_broke · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flirting.
Want_To_Live_To_100 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computers... quibits confuse me
muffin_mugger · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
LGBTQ community, they are confusing af
TheGoldenGooseTurd · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can do so many mental gymnastics to justify and accept the multiple layers of contradiction and lack of common sense it takes to support the current US president and his actions
Tamperwith1234 · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker
dndjjdxjdjdhh · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voltage.
daytookRjobz · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's magic created through magnetism, and metals
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How seasons work in the different hemispheres
swolff · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antisemitism
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
daytookRjobz · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Answer: low on fat, cheap, goes good with gravy
SubstantialProduct5 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
you, you cutie pie.
easiestEC · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the economy works
daytookRjobz · 2 points · Posted at 23:00:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you heard about trickle down economics?
The Richie's are hurting which will trickle down and wreck us peasants
easiestEC · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
well shit.
Randomdropdead · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravitational time dilation
kneesandgers · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin life man
Shir0_1 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ice is less dense than water, why water is incompressable, why warm water freezes faster than cold water, just water in general.
--Turd--Ferguson-- · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
Bonnaraw · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the word "colonel" is pronounced "kernel"
EnergyLawyer17 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stupid tabloids at the end of the check out aisle are profitable to anyone at all. Who cares about so and so beach body
reishid · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cleaning your butthole with paper instead of water.
SilverLugia1992 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How ocean currents are possible
jai2810 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is infinity?
Stkrdknmibalz69 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't simply be honest, especially when they lie over the littlest and meaningless things.
Stupercrossman · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never grasped the phrase "in your own words." I've always thought "I'm using the same words everyone else is using, I don't have my own words."
Also: anti-vaxxers. Don't get that either.
ajgasnick04 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras. They make absolutely no sense to me
ILiekFishes · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships. Why rely on someone else to make you happy? I’m referring to both platonic and romantic with this, they both make no sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Ancientcows7 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How photo editing software can remove things from a picture and yet know exactly what the background of the photo is. How is that even possible?
S_pritey · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
soyedmilk · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Affect vs effect. Never understood it. Had it explained to me a thousand times. Never will understand it.
numbwolfrun · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I keep being exhausted even if I've had enough sleep
Rafael0969 · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G towers
numbwolfrun · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ofc.
Condings · 2 points · Posted at 23:31:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Try eating greens / foods with iron it you might be a bit anaemic one of the symptoms is feeling tired, but eating an overall healthy diet rich in dark, leafy greens, nuts and seeds, seafood, meat, and beans can help you get the iron you need. Im no doctor though.
numbwolfrun · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh thanks a lot ! Ill try it.
cmj3226 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Direction
JamboNumber5 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the hell they get all my favourite bands into my earphones..
daytookRjobz · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kirchoffs law.
My teacher friggin lost me in school. Thank God I don't really need it for work lol
germinred · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If there really is people out there who think like me
whitenoiselover · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
EcoBeaver · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
willflameboy · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we all know plastics are killing us and the world, but are almost powerless to change it
sonic10158 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do loops and nested loops work in any programming language and how can I effectively know when they can be useful?
I have only been able to figure this out on my own once, and even then it was a fluke. All other times, I am just thinking to myself “ok textbook, that is neat and all, but ...huh?”
NormalPressure5 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everything falls, everywhere, all the time.
(I understand the concept of gravity - that’s not what I mean).
Ever notice how nothing ever seems to stay put? Why.
khayy · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to program my LED hula hoop. i’m struggling so if anyone has any advice id love to hear. it’s the astral atomic V and i’m able to plug it in and i have java running the designer but once i download a design it says click and hold to put into receive mode but what do i do from there?
FeckingFiddlesticks · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. You know when your doing something and it feels like it was 10 hours when it was just 1 and then someone else feels like it was 1 second. Like, time passed quicker for them because they enjoyed it.
series6 · 1 points · Posted at 22:59:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory.
mynameismyname333 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who have the urge to r*pe, harass, kidnap, stalk, murdee and abuse others. I get that people like that have no sympathy 'n stuff, but why do they do THAT of all things?. I can't seem to understand how those thoughts start and why.
tcrbt71023060 · 2 points · Posted at 23:04:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Usually because of trauma they experienced as a child, it fucks them up psychologically and they don’t develop the same way mentally as you or I or anyone else.
crocs9000 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people say "i could care less" implying that they don't care. but what they just said means "i do care"
damn_peggy · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people like cosplaying (for nonsexual reasons)
WorldRemix_TV · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be homophobic or racist...
sillyeasterbunny · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe.
RugskinProphet · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m so bad at math. Maybe it’s mentality at this point where I start to almost get anxiety when asking for help but the numbers just never clicked, formulas I’d start to mix them up and just never was very good at it I guess.
TimeBreakerBaba · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone.
SPEZtheTyrant · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why idiots still vote for liberal Rtards. Maybe its because they have a really low IQ
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
_just_me_0519 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle Eastern politics.
Seahorse714 · 1 points · Posted at 23:00:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money laundering
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This electrical box and it’s contents I’m working on.
JST0B · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating. I legitimately can’t fathom that shit. Maybe because I’ve been cheated on and it hurt so bad, but I just don’t understand how someone can do that to another person. If you’re not happy with a relationship, talk it out or break up with them. Obviously, if you have the opportunity to cheat on them then finding someone new won’t be a problem for you. I just don’t get why people do it other than to be evil. (Edited) because I left out a word.
SlickSerpent · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings
SphynxMother · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aeroplanes! It’s witchcraft!
FrederickLazarus · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do the aztecs think: Azteca: white people! I'll give you our gold
Candylnd · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it that when i stand in a tall building i get a split second urge to jump even though i know i dont want to. Or even sometimes get that split second idea of stabbing someone when i hold a sharp knife even though i am not psychotic.
Mkoska215 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are so afraid of science.
baconandpilsner · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Pighunter11 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy
Cuervoazulado · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kant's Critique of Pure Reason
Delirious-Xero · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
AVDRIGer · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sounds like male-bashing, but it’s not meant to be: I just honestly don’t UNDERSTAND why dropping underwear and dirty clothes NEXT TO—but not inside—the basket seems to be a typically male thing to do
ilyanna · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve been known to do this, and the solitary reason is because I’m a really bad shot. I do throw stuff at the basket, but socks seem to have a life of their own, and just want to land on the floor.
Frylosphy · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought processes of my children. I tell them " Don't run inside and not 3 seconds after I turn around to get a drink or use the washroom or whatever I hear a loud thud followed by crying and hurried steps trying to find a hiding place.
rx6553 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Graduated from undergrad with a B.S. in Biology. I still do not understand entropy, enthalpy, and thermodynamics in general.
Paricleboy04 · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
All I really know is entropy. Entropy is pretty much a measure of how much usable energy is left in a system. If there is a lot of energy left in a system, there is low entropy and vice versa.
Kelfenmaer · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genderfluidity. I don't have a problem with it, I don't care what gender you feel like you are, what your skin colour or sexual preferences or religion is. I think everyone has the right to feel how they want and be happy. I just don't understand what the "genderfluid" mindset is. My best friend had a gf who was genderfluid, they preferred neutral pronouns and said that they "sometimes felt like a man and sometimes felt like a woman" and I just don't get it.
HeyimSweet · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When i suddenly want to kill someone. But i kill that feeling by cutting wood.
heatherloree76 · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Random guys in public telling me to smile.
I’m cursed with resting bitch face (RBF) so I’ll just be minding my own business maybe on the bus looking out a window or walking down a hall in a building or even just in the line at the grocery store and some stranger thinks it’s totally alright to tell me I should smile. Like I’m not here to make you feel better man, I’m just looking out the window minding my own business. I don’t give a frack whether you think I’d look prettier if I smiled. Holding my face in an awkward position to make you leave me alone is more than I’m willing to do each day.
MrPavlovic · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are not wearing masks and social distancing. Are they that stupid?
jmccarthy24 · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Chub_thumper · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you say tarpaulin
shawnypitman · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What relationships are.
BryanZero · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republican Christians
Papelis21 · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson stand works
Jrodvon · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t speak like other people do.
facedbiot88 · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still do not understand the concept of social distancing and doing their part in society and staying the fuck home!:)
MrYamieYercherson · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hypnosis.
xULTRONxGHOSTx · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tesseracts and exactly how it relates to the 4th dimension.
TLamb14 · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Not even the complex stuff. Even simple maths just never made sense to me.
qwondre · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How anybody could decide-for whatever reason- to choose to vote for trump. Everybody should have known before 2016 that trump was/is a scumbag. It was so obvious, yet he got the vote of the religious right? And they have gained much... to hell with the cost... righteousness purifies all rationalizations...
happy easter... I choose to glorify the easter bunny...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How technology works. How does my phone and computer do what they do? How do cameras record videos and take pictures? How does this crap work?
Please dumb it down for me. I’m not that bright when it comes to technology terms.
corydaskiier · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every language except English and Italian lol
dayapark · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's logic at times.
WrestlerLizard · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
GoodDog_168 · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a criminal can shoot a cop and the cop shoots back and people still defend the criminal
ach00oo · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i feel obliged to like/upvote a comment that is pretty shit tier simply because it has a huge amount of likes.
petulent_sweatpotato · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
that joke about the horse who had cancer
Skimpy_Pete · 1 points · Posted at 23:03:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a girl will say, " i wish i had a boyfriend like you." But not date you.
E60LNDN · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why UFO sightings don’t seem to be a thing in the media anymore, which confuses me especially given that almost all of us have a high quality cameras on us at all times in the form of smart phones
crooky50-dc · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
SniperJay915 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how legitimately stupid people, like people who just have no common sense or are just lacking knowledge in general, think they know more than you about anything, even though you have literally dedicated good time, effort, maybe even your whole life to the topic you are talking about (that they "know" more about than you), whether it be physics, history, politics, anime, or anything at all. I cant wrap my head around their obliviousness to their own lack of understanding.
sy029 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Why is it that big things pull other things to them?
buggerbot5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What people assume I knows vs what I am actually suppose to know. Its a nightmare
FoxDiePatriot · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people do not want society to continually improve. I.e. I know people who don't want college to be free, because they had to pay, or they dont want free healthcare cause they have had to pay. I dont understand how you can just not care about your fellow man. How some people can be soooooo greedy to amass billions. Blows my mind. Will never understand that mindset.
dryark · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Mayru1235 · 1 points · Posted at 23:04:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
G
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pass 3 tests- Raises grade by 0.9
Fail 1 test- Grade drops by like 5
Why are schools like this
Gunnvor91 · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market. Also, my lecture notes on genome research. For some reason I just can't organize the notes into cohesive take-home lessons aside from how different methods of sequencing compare to one another.
awkwarderest · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polarity in chemistry. I have problems figuring out what is polar and nonpolar
Condings · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72CQe-_PJU4 this might help you
awkwarderest · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I appreciate it! Thank you :)
bass_mayo · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
League of Legends
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we are trillions of dollars in debt but apparently we had a few bucks just laying around...now everyone can just get $1200 bucks. Thank God we don't need universal health care. That would collapse the economy.
ccg_nul · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can go bed late and wake early
mark28269 · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How one side of the moon is always facing earth.
Its-Infamous- · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can spend thousands of hours doing the same thing and not improve past the bottom 50%
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
College advanced algebra
Cls63amgsinmygrage · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Erie doctrine
Sparky_the_Crusader · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics/R programing. I'm an environmental science major who just wanted to study plants and animals.
passportwhore · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Equity
RashestGecko · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we work so much. I understand things are expensive and we need to buy them to survive and to buy them we need money and for money we need to work. Why though? We work our lives away and here in North America our vacation time isn't impressive at all. Our lives are literally wasted working for two days a week and those two days you're typically exhausted. Then we spend that time working for hopefully three weeks a year off. That's really not a lot. I dont really understand.
nickydickydooda · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Diesel engines. The absolute marvel of the combustion engine is incredible, but diesel I don't understand, it just presses gas and it goes boom?
Xanderulz · 1 points · Posted at 23:05:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t for the life of my figure out how electricity and currents work. Failed that lesson in physics and it’s never been brought up again.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Polyamory.
the_late_os · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How being gay and being pedo is different? Like how they say that when a man is sexually attracted to another man it's genitec and stuff but when a man is sexually attracted to a child or a minor in general it's a disease
If someone can explain please that would be very helpful Btw I'm not talking about the legal or moral aspects purely medical And dumb it down I'm not that good in English
EhManana · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social interaction. Communicating with other human beings always befuddles me and like I have to legit plan out and get a script of what I want to say before I even try to talk to others, and one "wrong" answer/unexpected response throws me off my tracks so much
coldpillowofdeath · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s the point of changing the keyboard QWERTY to stuff like QWERTZ
lucas_lol · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dress up in dog costumes and act like dogs
Thecameldances · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why Darwinism hasn’t given camels the ability to fly 😞
jefeelguapo · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap
BusStuhlStuetze · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
sherlock----75 · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wonder if people see me the same way i see myself.
Ecks_Chip · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
jwfulz · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I've tried everything including even simplified YouTube videos to try and wrap my head around it and I seriously can not fathom how it works.
Gambesti · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do radios work? How can music be turned into a wave and then received and turned back into music? Blows my mind more than a computer and the technology is far older.
Paricleboy04 · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music is a wave, just a wave in air and not of light. What happens is that a circuit takes the analogue signal of the music, shifts the frequency up some, and uses that signal to generate radio waves. These waves are then picked up by an antenna, their frequency shifted down some, and used to play a speaker.
Gambesti · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do they capture the initial wave of music, and how does it emit a wave? Through what mechanical means?
country_dev · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
sam_maloner · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy
takoshi · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are those mobile game ads where the ad has nothing in common with the actual game even legal? What's up with that and how the hell is it so common?
A_Random_Guy641 · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don’t get how some people can only think about the present/the near future. This really applies to groups like corporations and politicians that only see their bottom line and not how their actions will bite them, or their successors in the future, in the ass further down the road.
dragonxomega · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blue/White Control Decks. Why play a game if you don't want anyone else to play? How is it fun if you counter every spells, summon or counter to your own?
carsonshams · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Batteries
reaperkronos1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics and Math
I_Have_Weird_Dreams_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself :)
thin_pole · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That how come I am supposed to earn Karma if I am not allowed to post in most of the subs because I am too 'new' and having too 'little karma'. Its like asking for 2 years of work experience for an internship.
Pearly-Megs · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is really stupid but I don't know what AWOL means and everytime I search it up I forget afterwards I am a single brain cell help me
ConpletelyConfused · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
WhosYourBuddha89 · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are so many people voting for autocratic leaders and parties. Ever since I’ve woken up to the last US elections it seems like I’ve been transferred to some weird parallel universe where half the population is acting and voting like stupid assholes.
Snow-Wraith · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
anthoskg · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of electromagnetic waves
Cabrego01 · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When to use the biot-savart law
jlangley301 · 1 points · Posted at 23:09:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money laundering
hackme234 · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because reddit reccomends r/Askreddit posts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Using Log in maths. It hurts to think about it
fartknocker52 · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance
DaddyAidan14 · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love going to sleep but hate waking up Like hate it
miseryside · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Punjabi
A_Random_Guy641 · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get why people will refuse an idea on the basis of it contradicting their beliefs on a subject, no matter what the evidence says.
OpaGerard · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am born
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does my mom find my lost things in the same place I looked and didn't find?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
SamanthaThePantha · 1 points · Posted at 23:10:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
SaucyByrd · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that everything is made of atoms/molecules. So even the air I breathe is a tangible object if you look at it closely enough? Does this mean in a sense that we are all constantly connected because there really is no empty space, just tightly packed atoms?
Hippocr4tes · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The bi-cycle
beerandbikes55 · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gluten. What is it? I've googled so many times, it's in wheat, it's in soy sauce, it's in bread etc. But then you can have wheat products with no gluten? Its toxic to some people, then fine for most? Can you get a tablespoon of gluten? Why would you add gluten to something?
Paricleboy04 · 2 points · Posted at 23:16:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gluten is a protein made by some kinds of grains. It is a protein just like hemoglobin (in blood) or egg whites are. It can be removed by some chemical processes, like how lactose can be removed from milk. Gluten is absolutely harmless for most people, unless they have celiacs disease (which is like lactose intolerance but for glucose). Gluten is what gives dough and bread it’s stretchiness and is therefore added to some products in order to make them more stretchy.
Valeh9985 · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
ozzydev · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Japanese language structure
giraffehokie · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why road construction takes so long.
-SuicidalThoughts · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How u would get girls
3AMsunday · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know if I’m just stupid, but unless it’s freezing out I don’t see the point of clothes being necessary.
HibachiTyme · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things, despite being pretty smart. Some from the last hour that I can remember are social distancing, my mum making me fill out a form so the school knows what name to put on my diploma
GoZeoGo · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any math beyond division.
hunanpalacevirus · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work.
Lupacor · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still love trump!
El_Redactor3030 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Government Economics, and Political "fan boys". how do these organizations and people over-tax everything with a more than sizeable population and economy (Illinois I am looking at you) and yet only gain debt. Where does the money go, how do they have no control over it; and why does the average person stupidly think that all of this is Billionaires versus Peasants, or Democrats versus Republicans, or Socialism versus Capitalism. These problems are more complicated than we are led to believe and it is infuriating to figure out.
KeyboardTapper165 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can I forget vital information but always remember random trivia like octopi have brains on their tentacles?
misoisthebest · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bayesian statistics. I've run some models based on Bayesian stats, but don't quite understand exactly what's going on. Anybody have any good tutorials?
williamcxvttd · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
kleenex2020 · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there’s Christians who teach that Jesus and love is the answer yet want to murder pedophiles and rapist. I’m not defending pedos or rapist it’s just confusing why some Christians who love Jesus have enough hate to want to (sometimes do) kill someone. Also Christian judges who give out the death penalty
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a fucking black hole is. Wtf it’s emptiness but it’s not.
capitalistrussian · 2 points · Posted at 07:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s not emptiness, it just looks like it because light gets suckled in. It’s more like a lil climb that is so massive and small that it’s gravitational force attracts and collapses anything that gets near it
dreamlandblues · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bigotry of all kind
ruski_mouse · 1 points · Posted at 23:12:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
MaterialAssumption7 · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand extremely passive people. People who never talk or express anything. I know people who litterly never talk nor express anything, rather it be a conversation or doing something fun. It's beyond my comprehension.
MisterSnippy · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suicide. I want to live more than anything else, just being alive is enough for me. I'd rather live with eternal pain and suffering than die. Just the fact someone can decide not existing is better than existing I can't wrap my head around it.
drpepguy · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
adventure_in_colours · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump is president.
Pinguin_Kowalski · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of drugs and alcohol. Like I don’t see why people see escaping reality as a favourable decision.
hermeticpotato · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi
OminouSin · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.... maths in general- all the maths. Or how people could ever remember school work from studying, no matter what I do I always forget everything. :(
Fjeldberg · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
ASR3015NTK · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Bad Boys 2 is on SyFy
Soviet_Chaff · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my hostages dont shut up
puffsaddy · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks. anything about them.
heathn · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spooky action at a distance. How the hell are two things entangled? What makes them pair up? Why?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi and telecommunication work. How is enormous amounts of data packaged up and sent thru the air and converted into high definition video in our hands across the planet almost in real time?
Fenix_blau · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still trust archaic institutions like the Catholic Church. I don't have any problem with church-goers and the lower ranks in the hierarcy (they even do some humanitarian works which I applaud) as I support the freedom of faith while keeping on being an atheist. But church leaders are just too privileged and have accumulated an exorbitant amount of wealth whereas they don't give a beneficial input to society in any form.
TherapeuticYoghurt · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Technology. Women
MCMurti · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Leaving literally one bite on the plate after eating.
call_me_mr_bean · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
my mom saying im handsome and that all the girls wanting me.
But girls dont like me lol
RSB93 · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things
Blades-AND-Bullets · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how audio tech (from ear phones all the way up to concert speakers) can produce any possible sound with perfect details.
I understand what the voice coil is (usually aluminum or copper), but I don't understand how electrical codes and signals are sent to the audio system and then is output as specific instruments and voices. Bass is simple and easy to understand, but any multiple factors (voices, instruments, other effects etc) that are converted into sound is mind numbing
mrgrey5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can side with (widely accepted) disgusting habits .
Fatechanger1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anti Vaxxers exist, like, their just there
sarahhmitchell · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
DC/AC circuits, everything about them. I have been enrolled in an electronics technology class at a vocational-technical school since my sophomore year (I'm a senior, high school). I'm in this class every single day of the week, three hours a day, and after a few mental breakdowns the first year I noticed that I could complete a majority of the curriculum without any actual knowledge of the subject. I've been doing this for years and even though a lab here or there will make me legitimately cry in class, I've been maintaining high C's.
HLDCDRM · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are we going to flatten the curve? I mean if everything opens back up all at once in May and there are people that are infected leaving their houses that they've been cooped up in, doesn't it just start the whole cycle over again?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cinema4D
yooyuball · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poetry
flowerjunkie- · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making money short selling the stock market
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people that scam others out of their hard earned money and are still able to sleep at night
God1643 · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do bones and limbs not grow back?
okario4 · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism and Waves.
Ive had it explained 12 times by 4 diff professors, it still doesn't make sense to me.
sherlock----75 · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holocaust deniers.
h4nd3y3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand people that constantly complain. I know a couple people who are only negative all the time. Its almost like they cant think of interesting things to talk about so they just nitpick everything around them. Seems like a miserable mindset, and its definitely miserable to be around.
Now i feel like im complaining....
ExpectedBehaviour · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
AureliusOFP · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic math
moonpeachy · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deja Vu.
Just...howw..is it possible?? What even is it?? The fact that there is even a term for it. Imagine how crazy it must have been for the first person to explain it to another, and them go "oh yeah, I get that too you're not tripping??"
Yampace · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock
Jekasei · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
Piritiup · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. No matter what kind if explanation I get, i still dont understand the basics of it...
JaxenSR · 1 points · Posted at 23:16:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
LostInTranslatjohn · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that for a species we’re super into self annihilation
curseyouZelda · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Remember, the majority of species are already extinct.
WaterzGrace · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really wish I had been more inclined in the sciences. I think particle physics, quantum entanglement, space and time waves are so interesting. I just don’t have enough context to adequately conceptualize the ideas the way I want. I get it on the broad, Tyson DeGrasse on Stephen Colbert sort of way, but not the way I want to fully understand.
JUICemannnnnn · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people support Donald trump
curseyouZelda · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take this one step farther, how does anyone support anyone in political life.
I mean when you get down to it you are voting for someone you think can run your life better than the other guy?
Like how do people accept this?
JUICemannnnnn · 1 points · Posted at 14:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No
Pandanerd51 · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
weirdbunni-chan · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming and computers. I know how to do the basic stuff and everything I need. But all the deeper and more complex stuff just doesn't make sense.
notneeded401 · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck D4C works
curseyouZelda · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I get my wife to think objectively about politics and not operate on an emotional level. I just want to have one conversation about politics where I don’t get personally attacked for is that too much to ask?
spit1re · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ditto religion. And sports fans.
R3DJiVE · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women, they are always a mystery to me.
Scared_Pace · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why, people just don't get that I am a 34 year old black female that like only listens to rock. People still get in my car turn on rap and say, "don't you like this song?" Then look at me like I'm crazy when I don't dance to it....
orangeworker · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the guy down the street thinks it’s OK to walk his dog 9 feet into my yard so it can piss on my shrubs.
shuuuuuuk · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
crazyshenanigans1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lacrosse
nyanlol · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this might be a psychology thing or an evolution thing i don't know
but why is it so hard to get people to open up to others? What are we all so collectively afraid of that we hang on to our impression management for dear life? you'd think the chance to let your guard down would bring emotional relief, but it doesn't seem to.
I wonder sometimes. Would life be less stressful if we all just up and admitted that we have problems? Would it level the playing field somehow?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why my dad used to beat my ass as a teenager and then apologize 30 minutes later. I don’t think I ever really got over how fucked up that felt.
GTX_Incendium · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kpop stans
brittleirony · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
Zinc116 · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump still has voters
ImaginosBDesdinova · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the ice cream stay cold in Baked Alaska
phargle · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm in IT. And I don't understand how computers work. I get binary and microprocessors and all that jazz, but the part where something programmed meets something physical blows my mind.
EstebanCabot · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
iwatchdonaldpee · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why smart people believe in God
stubetcha · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That puzzle in the movie labyrinth with the two doors. One always lies and one always tells the truth. Never made sense in my brain.
mrdanjamesuk · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we pretend to be asleep to actually fall asleep?
Zerobeastly · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
comzon · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
this question
zigger_niger · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people make money then lose it so quickly
diddlydayz-1310 · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i genuinely don’t understand most math problems, i’ve have them taught to me by many different teachers, tutors and other students in so many different ways and i have never been able to do it.
Idiotfif · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people find saying something edgy or offensive with no other context funny
this isnt me trying to say my sense of humor is superior because its probably not but i simply do not understand whats funny about it
eLishus · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
Kamelasa · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Mr_Mighty01 · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket science
Snaz5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can talk to others, even close friends, for so long. Like, how many topics can you possibly have??
DaSellsAvon · 1 points · Posted at 23:18:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuckin’ semi colons
youfuckingretar · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
Gamepro2169 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get the fact that parents think spanking is a good punishment, like why would you hurt your kid in one of their most vulnerable spots just to "teach them a lesson". What's next, parent are gonna kick their kids in the balls as a punishment?
tommyk41 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
college. which is troubling since i’m about to be finished my 2nd year (I guess?)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
World economics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Analytic solver
devink7 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who created the universe
toprim · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People cheering clear skies, less pollution, less carbon footprint at the time of the most severe world wide economic crisis since Great Depression.
Llary98 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we call the U.S, America? Even though America is a continent not a country.
sydoroo · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mechanical advantage of pulleys. Still confuses me and cannot visualize the forces.
Psykogummibear · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why certain celebrities have such a massive following for their brand -
Hear me out .
Kylie Jenner , has a line of lipsticks to make your lips “just like hers” . But google can literally show you what she naturally looked like and then bam <plastic surgery> and now she looks like this .
There is no lipstick in the world , there is no green coffee drink , there is no corset trainer blah blah bs that will make you look like her because it is all plastic surgery / Botox / fillers etc .
It’s also all online you can tell it’s fake.
Yaspeedyboi · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Meobeobungbu1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who follow IG pages that post thread from Reddit. Just join Reddit.
wittier9 · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm too lazy to get up to go to bed or take a shit.
Mattprotz · 1 points · Posted at 23:19:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory
monsur-Prescott · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lots of things but I don't want people to respond with explanations.
Tyraneqt · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America with their guns and presidents
Also people who have a virus and decide to book a vacation
GustavoFromAsdf · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the SIMP meme. I know it means Squirrels in my Pants and where did it come from, but I don't ask why because I know someone will answer with the song instead as part of the meme
wabbithool · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is religious sectarianism, like why the hell would a superior being a.k.a GOD need the help of humans in the first place.
All sect fights revolve around protecting one's religion. I don't get it.
crdctr · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other languages
aMAEzingly · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ikea furniture assembly instructions
KaelyxS · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand clouds how can water which is denser than air float up into the sky only to fall back down again later, not only that how come water droplets can stay in the air for that long when they're way heavier then air? how come it doesn't constantly fall?
doge_is_a_doggo · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened over at r/misfits
ToxicAidsHIV · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where my nose ring went while I slept last night
Paricleboy04 · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They capture an initial sound as a wave to though a microphone. In a microphone, a tiny magnet is vibrated by sound waves. The magnet vibrates through a coil of wire. When the magnet moves, it induces an electrical current in the wire, proportional to the movement of the magnet, and therefore the sound wave. The sound is released by a speaker, which is the same as a microphone, but in reverse.
No-ce-bo · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics. It seems to be the least democratic democracy. Those in power (even at local/state level) can reduce the effectiveness of the opposition.
espo951 · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any kind of war, conflict, or general angst caused where religion appears to be a significant factor. Like the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I get the mechanics of the issue but I don’t understand it at a fundamental level.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Derivatives of log functions. What the fuck. Help. I'm drowning in 12th grade Math.
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people attack medical workers
YoungPhoooo · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cost of education
Sir_Reeington · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
"My brain hurts from thinking too much"
Spikeroog · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fourier transform. And I have degree in optics.
brianaflower · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck cameras work.
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 00:19:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are, fuck cameras, and how are they different from just plain cameras?
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how this gets 30k upvotes
chrisqx2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why partial birth abortion isn't illegal
T_GHOST_T · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no one treats me right 😞
DosephJavis · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
AnubisKingofthe11037 · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who watch one thing in a vast genre then defend it to death and bashing other things that aren't that thing Example: my hero fans, it's not a bad show got some great arcs but these people have only ever seen it and bash things like fmab and AOT with no understanding of what there bashing (personal example I see alot in highschool)
Bryce_Christiaansen · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Mcdonalds is still so much more popular than other similar fast-food restaurants (BK, Wendys, Taco Bell). Mcdonalds is good and all but its not the best and it is so much more expensive than the others.
Oliver_Klosov · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better marketing.
Ihadsumthin4this · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Better GoldenArchesarketing.
ftfy
MetalIndigoAcid · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America, no joke, I really don’t get how they accept the clear corruption
Oliver_Klosov · 2 points · Posted at 23:24:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because the majority aren't starving yet. Only really destitute people with no political power are starving right now. The majority who would stand to make a difference are comfortable enough to not rock the boat.
MetalIndigoAcid · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you scared? I feel I would be if I lived there.
Oliver_Klosov · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
No. In fact most places are worse.
Kevinyamouth · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey lads trying to get 1000 karma so I can post and actually use reddit properly, well I think that’s how it works from what I read so if anyone is able to help us thanks a million! Enjoy your Easter holidays
Ladymistery · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Addiction.
I truly cannot fathom an unrelenting NEED for something. I can get wanting it, but doing anything to get...anything? nope. I just don't get it.
Alienwallbuilder · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go and take some meth and find out first hand! I have never been an addict but appreciate the need of addicts. I used to smoke and quit 30 years ago and that was hard enough.
Ladymistery · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't like the feeling of being high, so I don't know that it would work with me
I quit smoking over 20 years ago, and just because I didn't want to do it anymore, and I was done. Just like that - once the withdrawal stopped (1 week) I was good.
Alienwallbuilder · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are the exception to the rule then, but the fact that you smoked and found enjoyment out of it for a time tells me you did enjoy the high. It is very insidious smoking because you may start by forcing yourself to enjoy it through peer pressure you find the effects you enjoyed when you give up. Taking drugs for addicts is not just about the high it is also about the anticipation, like the process of turning powder into liquid and sucking it up a syringe, ( smoking before you light that cigarette and the first drag) it is like salivating when you smell a good food you love to eat. You have been there you just weren't conscious of it because its all about feeding the reward indorphins.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
300GTP · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump's brain.
Minyae · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market... why is it going up? -_-
swimtaco_24 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Irony
pingdg · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m 21 and still can’t really wrap my head around there and their. I normally wing it and just choose the one that looks right and 9 times out of 10 it works out.
Jokker_is_the_name · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm from a family with a lot of color blinded people, while having full vision myself.
No matter how many times I need to pick out the right color pencil, give advice on color matching clothes or explain how to see fruit is ripe, I'll never understand how they simply don't see the same colors as I and many others.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity.
JazminRae117 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I zone out while driving- usually home- but I'm still aware of what's happening around me and it feels like I go into autopilot and before I realize it I'm home. Trips me out and it just happens randomly I've tried to think about what I was thinking of or looking at right before but nothing comes to mind about what triggers it. Hasn't happened since I've been home during this pandemic but still.
HumbleBraggg · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Volts, watts, and amps. Who knows.
ChiliSocks · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
UHHH pizza. Its a circle, it comes in a square box, and its cut into triangles.
SleightlyMagic · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why bitches be crazy.
oliverdrama · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I Could Just Kill A Man
DontJudgeMe13777 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell coding, computers, phones, software, etc.... Work.
It's essentially magic to me.
Illidan-the-Assassin · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nationalism. I have no idea why am I supposed to feel related to a bunch of people that have nothing to do with me because all of us are supposedly connected by "nationality". I understand that I'm on the minority here, but I genuinely have no idea.
supasockerseamen · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who watch huge twitch streams and type in chat. Like u think anyone is actually reading that?
DullwolfXb · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit
Unimmortal47 · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate companies.
Like I get that you don’t enjoy their products. But why you gotta wish then ill. Just go buy something else. Especially bad when it comes to games
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people.
ftylerr · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. So much money, time and tutoring, so little results.
icantimetraveliswear · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are so stupid
guccidior · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking directions. I’m terrible at directions.
PittsburghMannequin · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
1-800-mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person can think it's ok to to lie about birth control to get their partner pregnant or get themselves pregnant without consent. (yes, there are actually people who do this)
I have zero sympathy for the man if the woman gets an abortion. and zero sympathy for the woman if the man walks out and leaves her a single mom.
ThatBoleynGirl6 · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people just refuse to learn new things.
TheCrustiestofSalmon · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people not show up on time for things outside of unforseen cercumstances. That and the general culture of showing up late for events. Boggles my mind.
NJoose · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a bisexual, I cannot for the life of me understand straight AND gay people.
DerpDog47 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how or why do you limit yourself to only men or women? that halves your chance of finding a partner, and I'd imagine it gets old.
1-800-mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual orientation isn't a choice.
DerpDog47 · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i am completely aware, but you always have the option to experiment. hell, you might like it.
1-800-mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most often, people experiment when they're still unsure about their sexuality, and through experimentation discover whether they're gay or straight or bi. If someone didn't like it with the same/opposite sex then, I can't see how they would suddenly start liking it now.
1-800-mayonnaise · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You sound like people choose to straight or gay.
throwaway17921096 · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics, whether its circuits or wiring, It is beyond me. I work on my truck and I can never figure out electrical issues
T_DcansuckonDeez · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division. I was actually pretty good at math in school and never really struggled with too much of anything(algebra was a doozy for me but I got after time) and graduated no problem but in all my time in school I just never learned how to write out a long division problem and solve it. I think I was just sick that day and It snowballed into just never learning it.
Esclope_69 · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people judge serious topics with their emotions. If there's a potential disaster or a very major issue, then I will think about it 100% rationally.
LlamaThrustUlti · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t like cars, and hate on those who do. Also in general people who hate on things other people are passionate about
candy__sandy · 1 points · Posted at 23:23:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Suplexodactyl · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making an effin schedule
njb1017 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry.
bp2132 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The blockchain—the technology that cryptocurrency is built on.
GriffinGoodman · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why people need to take drugs to have a good time
Kronix98 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
When I wake up and unencumberely just stand there like i'm dead
ColeTrainxx435 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to braid hair. My girlfriend is determined to teach me. I have the patience to watch step by step but when I try it myself, I always fuck up and get pissed off.
ToxicAidsHIV · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking MAGNETS..how do they work? And I don't wanna talk to a scientist Y'all motherfuckers lying, and getting me pissed
Lmao @ ICP
Andanotherone4 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes and gravity. I'm fascinated by these topics and I get the concept of gravity but have no idea why it works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
supply side inflation ratios between economic asset classes. its easy to model but hard to apply. its basically like asking everyone around the world to show their poker hand.
Valtorix28 · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people cheat on their SOs.
ScorchFalcon · 1 points · Posted at 23:24:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to work a dishwasher
khakiwallprint · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people in my area can afford $300,000+ houses.
We're looking right now and despite being in a Midwestern city and making solid incomes, every house seems to be a mcmansion and everything going up for sale sells within 2 weeks of hitting market
GodDamnSharon · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally everything to do with the economy and stocks. Absolutely yeets itself over my head.
FaiaPauz · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Bottled_Void · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quaternions
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quaternion
I've tried several times to really understand what's going on. A rotation about a vector. And you can do transformations on it. But for actually understanding what's going on, it's still all a complete mystery to me.
VolitheBear · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can see when something needs to be done (cleaning, laundry, etc) but my husband is completely oblivious until I ask him to do such things. Like, is your passive perception -10 ffs?
Jollygreengiantess5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cats can sense death.
KardunSantari · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans cant afford medical treatment. I've never had to afford it. It's always been available.
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don't have public "free" healthcare.
KardunSantari · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's the part I dont understand
Papphase · 2 points · Posted at 23:35:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, ok. I don't know if there is a good reason. I think it's stupid that they don't have one. But a lot of people seem to want only private healthcare, like my grandma. I can ask her the next time i call her
markianna · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the minions
JV-Communist · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
aurora borealis
ThatsFairToBeHonest · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
King crimson
NoahMP321 · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loud Music in public.
Sickofitblonde · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid people can be and not realize it
fayegobrien · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
vegans.
honeypotofsadness · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a bool function works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:25:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 07:10:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watch a khan academy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Civilization
Jake848679 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Playing Craps
princesscarly · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
any math higher than basic algebra
rphil123 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an MRI machine works. Slice, phase and frequency encoding is messing me up.
gantzchigo · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Carole Baskin is getting all this hate online, it should be redirected to Antle for grooming underage girls.
RazGrox · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People living their life vicariously through popular people like streamers, celebrities, and youtubers.
tbk030191 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to pay more for faster internet if the infrastructure is already there? Why can’t I just have the fastest all the time.
Turbo_Shades · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all of the internet and 1,000 channels can get to my home on a single copper wire but an HDMI plug has like 20 individual copper wires.
Like streaming Netflix at 4K with 5.1 surround gets to my home through 1 cable. Why does it need to be transferred from my Xbox to my TV with so many?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
Octaviusdu92 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you get colors. The primary ones. And white.
McKenzieC · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sequences and series in calculus
SuperDooperSwankin · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
baxter8279 · 1 points · Posted at 23:26:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. Like I get what they do functionally, but like how do they actually do it?
chekitchekit122 · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tiktok.
0rion_03 · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neon Genesis Evangelion
lil_boy3443 · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do girls go with other girls in the toilet.
furbyabi · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t take responsibility over things...
twistedfuckery · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I am nearly 40 and still insist on partying and drinking way too much....had worst hangover of my life fel terrible lol
Frustated_ex_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I take so long to get shit done
Blades-AND-Bullets · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Amazing TV shows that are cancelled
Horrible TV shows that tend to be ongoing for at least 15 seasons
TV channels (hint hint cartoon channels) bringing back cancelled multiple amazing TV series and turning them into ongoing terrible TV shows
The super creepy "kids cartoons" on YT
The really creepy "family friendly" videos on YT
For #'s 4 and 5, those thumbnails make me cringe and vomit
1905mikey · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly how can I be surrounded by people that love me and yet, still feel so alone?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can't describe a color to a blind person
kojoteteeth · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Front loading washing machines. Fuck whoever invented them, they're not "HE" and they don't get your clothes cleaner. They stink unless you wash the damn machines every little crevice, they don't get your clothes as clean, they're loud as fuck, they can't hold as much as top loaders and they have a bunch of bullshit settings they slap on to make it seem like it's sooo much better. Not only that but they don't even last as long. Top loader all the way.
Anxious_Alice_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:27:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why every time I look in the mirror, I just notice every little imperfection. It’s such an inconvenience- But whatever, you got to deal with it?
Kermitbutstressedout · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having a foot fetish
deadheadonshaked · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. How/why does it work the way it does?
ArcadiaKing · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can just be awful to a person who has never done anything to them. I guess I'm naive, but it seems like the default mode for any interaction should be neutral or positive. What do people get out of just being a dick?
The_Adeptest_Astarte · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how helen keller has quotes on the internet
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming languages. I have programming courses in school and i technically know what you can do, but when i see code and try to understand it it just doesn't work. My friend is amazing at this. He takes a 5 second look at my screen at tells me what i did wrong or can explain to me, what the code does
Scorpio-Hank · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Things that Trump does.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
THExEXPLOITED · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math specifically graphing and geometry, it just doesn't click I've tried khan academy but I just can't seem to get a grasp on it and it sucks because it's the one test holding me back from my G.E.D if anyone has any resources that can I'd be really grateful.
Underline_______ · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be mean. I get the worst feeling in my stomach whenever I make a person feel bad, even if it wasn’t intentional
Kepsin · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
hmontcl33zles · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
President
icoulduseaday · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the internet is
tooflyandshy94 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How physicists can can think up seemingly abstract concepts about space. I say abstract because its unfathomable for me to comprehend things like that.
ScrappyTackaberry · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting and taxes. Makes my brain feel like it's going to implode
allisonrallison · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't understand why humans are still eating animals.
It's not necessary. It causes torture and suffering for no reason. (If you don't believe that torture is an appropriate word, look up some videos from slaughterhouses and it'll make your stomach turn.)
People in Western countries love their "pets," and couldn't FATHOM eating a dog or cat but for some reason animals people eat are in this different, arbitrary category. Why is that any different?
People cry all these tears for the animals killed in the Australia fires, when just as many animals are killed every single 2 days for food........
Meat causes all kinds of diseases.
Logistically, it's cheaper to grow vegetables, so the poverty argument doesn't work either.
I could go on and on but you get the point.
I've heard every possible ridiculous argument there is, and I've yet to hear one that makes any sense against veganism. The only argument is apathy, really. And apparently that's good enough for most people.
firebolt08 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whether r/BanVideoGames is satire or not
LeftHandYoga · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
Detectivellamas · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ReachableBadge8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Michigan has “this” type of weather
HHIDROLIXX · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a simp is, no idea. I hear and see children calling eachother simps, every time I ask online someone just says "well then you probably are one" and then everyone leaves it at that.
_Dolemite_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Volts, watts, amps, it's all a mystery to me.
GrandWorldliness3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my husband cheats and is angry I don’t trust him???
Ayoof3060 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
norbi69 · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who burn 5G towers
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the United States seems to just have endless debt, like...I don't pay my bill once and I'm getting calls non stop. how can we be trillions in the hole but it's like chill?
coffeevsall · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people believe money is real.
i-literally-can-not · 1 points · Posted at 23:29:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how our collection of experiences is purely based on our memory. like I’ll remember me lying in bed and then all of a sudden i’m awake the next morning. the fact that stuff happened in between those two memories is crazy.
charis_yvette · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
keenynman343 · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my fiance is crying in the bathroom after asking her how much she loves me
McCafe_McGee · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. I’m 40 years old, a carpenter for 16 years, but the most advanced math class I ever took was pre-algebra in HS.
wdwerker · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a 60+ year old carpenter/cabinetmaker and I use geometry daily. Algebra not so much.
Rexticles · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dudes who collect Yeezy's.
itsyuhboysam · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WHY MFS CANT STAY HOME HOME SO WE CAN GET RID OF COVID-19 AND I CAN GO BACK TO THE BEACH
Busy_Adult · 1 points · Posted at 23:30:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets and I'm being serious. Also the economy, it just seems like a huge convoluted mess.
JaxyRod · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can somehow tie anything to religion, can’t even have an argument with my dad without it leading to something to do with god
Pipcopperfield · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. I remember being very existential at around five and I would keep asking questions. My dad is an atheist so he told me nothing happens. I still genuinely don't understand it, even after years of study, meditation and searching.
thelbchomie215 · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pee shivers...
miraculous_spackle · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems like turbojet jet engines are perpetual motion machines. I don't get it.
Excaliber112 · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?
TheAcadianCanadian · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
V-S-M · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some languanges such as any asian,most of european languanges,and latim.
Hobbyles · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms.. Everything is made of atoms... Atoms never touch... Which means no one has actually touched something in their life...
MuffinPuncher321 · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voltage... Like what is voltage
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 00:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered watt it is, too.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be great musicians but so bad at learning anything at school (science, math, history etc) I knew guys in school who had the worst grades and were honestly kind of stupid. But they were great guitar or drum or even piano players. I was good in school and for me learning any instrument was hard I tried and never got good at guitar or piano. Same goes for a lot of the rockstars that I really liked growing up.
It takes a strong discipline to learn music and become proficient in it. Yet some of them can learn music like it’s nothing but be absolute idiots about anything else. 🤔
ThiccSpicc08 · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
nanonand · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blended fabrics.. How does a clothing designer decide the percentage of cotton, polyester and elastane (or whatever material) for making a pair of jeans? How can blended fabrics be dyed uniformly? And make prints on top of it!
phlegelhorn · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, if the Big Bang was 13 billion years ago, how all the light from that event has not “passed us by “ since we still see it’s light as the the cosmic background radiation from that event...
jvmesdruiz_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some cheese is stinky
freshpear13 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How buses go around corners
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although buses themselves are long, there wheel base is not to much longer than a car, so they can get round city streets without a hassle. If your talking about tipping, all heavy systems are mounted in the lower section of the bus so the centre of gravity is quite low
DrakeFromUSA · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our welfare system. Maybe anecdotal, but my neighbor tried to commit suicide with insulin and failed. After leaving the asylum she gets her bills (water, gas&electric, rent, internet, phone, etc.) paid for, for free. She manages to go walk to the store everyday for soda and pack of cigarettes. She doesn’t work at all just sits outside her home and smokes cigarettes all day.( I see her everyday after I get off work and have to walk past the smell of her cancer sticks) Why does our system accept this behavior?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not even that half of it. It’s bullshit. I understand why people wanna do away with it. People like her live for free and I can’t get a dime of assistance as a hard working American. Wtf.
LeisureSuitLawrence · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Years ago, The American, with Clooney. The opening scene was so promising....and then nada.
syxtfour · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to multiply and divide numbers in bases other than base-10.
And I've got a math exam next week, so you can imagine the stress I'm under.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh man good luck. Love this shit but I can’t explain it over the internet. You tube Kahn Academy I bet he has a video
cyrebrus · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don't give a fuck about their kids.
mediumrare56 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Florida
CamieCreative · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Magnets, coils, motion - voodoo.
emacleod10 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Weirdly specific to my job but I have no idea how telephony/softphones work. I am able to upload an xml file and then magically I can click on a phone number and make a phone call.
Librarycat77 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
America.
FR though...😬
hoerogan · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The term “mutually exclusive” I read up about it and get a general understating of it and when to use it but as soon as I hear it in a conversation my brain just short circuits and I get confused on what the term exactly means.
Weird as it’s such a basic term that’s used all the time but for some reason my brain just can’t grasp it.
cyrebrus · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people don't give a fuck about their kids.
trashboxes · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Litterbugs
Codkid036 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Korean
Pseudonymico · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Swahili.
_jujuislost · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
miggie2332 · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly
How fax machines work
4huggies · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:34:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do magnets work
trash_throwmeaway3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nudes, like grow some balls and go see her, or don’t do that at all
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
VoidedSouls · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life its self as a whole
JBaabs · 1 points · Posted at 23:33:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
selfdestruckbombgo · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand what Reddit awards are, and what they look like.
DsterGames · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They look like this.
aHoleInYourChest · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why February is spelled with the R before the U
Rachel8912 · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Minecraft won't Allow VERTICAL slabs. They say its Illegal but it would help a lot
pickledoctor · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understood how after consuming expensive amounts of THC, I still am not high. I feel I have not been high in months and I smoke like 3 times a day and have a dab pen. I understand tolerance but god damn me and my boy will finish like 5 js in one sesh and I’m still sober sally
granitebudget1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economics of fireworks stores.
melkncookeys · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
stalindab45 · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have aspergers
elenaran · 1 points · Posted at 23:34:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics
And what's really sad is I've taught PhD level stats classes...
nederino · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my Lenovo Google home (has screen) can't Google anything.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why vagina can smell so bad
whisperkid · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
pears. never had a good one. Even in animal crossing where they do nothing to me physcially. Just not a fan
g_2_m_2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dinosaurs!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like getting drunk. I can understand enjoying a beer or a glass of wine here and there, but being drunk makes me feel like I am simultaneously retarded and sick.
soul_ackerman · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
KinkySalam · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Particle physics
michaelandlori · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why, with as many problems our county has (before the pandemic), such as Unemployment, Rampant GREED Causing HIGH Prescription Prices, Runaway Healthcare Costs, Drug Addiction, Widely & Easily Available Illicit Drugs (like Heroin), Racism, A BROKEN Education System, Gang Wars, HUNGER, HOMELESSNESS, A Broken Veterans Care System and SO ON.... WHY DO SO MANY of our elected politicians, want to absorb Thousands and Thousands of Government Dependant Refugees from Enemy Countries? They're sadly mistaken if they believe that these people will Educate and Assimilate to become productive Americans! LOOK AT ENGLAND, Germany, France, Sweden and every other country that's taken them in! They CAUSE TROUBLE, THAT'S IT!!! IT'S GOT TO STOP!!!
freedfg1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thinking it just happens
Dkp2211 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics, pretty deep
slimgod2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What factor drives bitcoin and other crypto’s values up and down?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I thought it was smart to pay 50k for college so I could sit at a desk for 50 hours a week to pay it off.
AdditionalAffect2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife, mostly everything else seems to make sense.
Bored_of_this_shit · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you have to pay $85 so you give the cashier $100 and he asks for a $5 so he can give you a $20.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So he can give the change in one note 100-20=80, he loses money, or your carrying more notes 105-20=85, he gets the correct amount of money and you only carry one more note
Bored_of_this_shit · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But still, he can just give me the the one extra note and still will be the same
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:51:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Normally this happens when a store is out of a note, like a 5.
Bored_of_this_shit · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, alrighty then
KiazerScorpio · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How and what shifting gears does and means
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In a manual?. So there are different sized cogs on the shaft going out the manual. they connect the the gear box shaft cogs. Now the reason they are different is for power and speed. At a start you the engine needs the best leverage to get over the friction of the tyres, and from school physics the more distance the more force, so the first gear has a low ratio to get the car going. But when a cog needs to turn lots of times to get the big cog to turn once, you ain’t going nowhere fast. At higher gears the cogs are more equal, do give more speed. Think of the engine running as a constant spinning force. Think of first as a tiny cog, and it’s connected to a big cog. The tiny cog has to turn many times to get the big cog to turn once. Now keep the engine speed the same, but have equal cogs, like 4th. The bottom one is faster. But in the first gear, the little cog had more leverage and there for more twisting force or “torque”. This overcomes the friction from stand still. The gearstick moves a lever that moves a fork, which changes the gears. The clutch makes it disconnect the engine shaft so that if the car stops it doesn’t force the engine to stop. It also means the cogs can match speeds and change over smoothly without the twisting force of the engine destroying the cogs.
metflixchill · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who thinks that everybody needs to have an opinion about everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The quadratic equation. Every time I figured it out, it would be gone by the next day.
pbx45 · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dumb people are
angadb456 · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the same people who didn’t understand how Trump was elected voted for Biden this time around
Hi_itsGracie · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cigarettes and why people start smoking. I genuinely don't understand how people smoke knowing the risk and the awful smell.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In the past the side effects were unknown and it was seen as cool. If anyone gets into it now they really are very stupid
Hi_itsGracie · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I understand that in the past they didn't know and they started young but nowadays people who are educated still start smoking which is crazy.
therealstindge · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:37:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How other people had energy to upvote this post
yawnatahn · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the heck do flash drives and hard drives store my data? How does physical data storage work, is data stored as an electronic capacitor and is maxed out when the capacity is reached? What's happening on a microscopic level inside these things?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market, I’m 23 and it makes very little sense, even after watching videos.
nikkijaneb · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I saw a reddit chat the other day about how some people don't have an internal voice in their head. Like they dont "chat to themselves " . Example if they need to make a decision they just do it rather than weighing it up in your head. That just freaked me out.
ike709 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the mechanisms on my organic chemistry exams.
Beauxtai · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The birthing process
dreal08 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my damn neighbors listen to every genre of music on maximum bass.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Differential equations combined with electromagnetism.
TheHonestResponse · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Bobshnwinkle · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
i have absolutely no idea why people feel it is acceptable to repost various items on reddit for karma; I mean, just be creative and stop leeching of others work.
michael140394 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedophilia.
BelievingK9 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we still need the postal service.
youbel1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general If I had to name something specific I'd say quantum physics
Diesel_Rugger · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Penguin_On_Yes · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people ask basic as fuck questions on those stupid ass question subs like r/EIL5 instead of just looking it up?
Searioucly · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the saying “rip you a new one”. Where are the tearing it out of? why isn’t it a new mouth?
lycheebobatea · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printers work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how my memory works and how I am a different person every day
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:38:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve seen so many explanations but I still don’t know how cameras work.
Fourtires3rims · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The bunny ear method of tying your shoes.
Ambitious-Minute · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If hydrogen is flammable and oxygen supports combustion, why isn’t water combustible?
TaurusX3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
SpiiderOlogy · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can say they hate doing something and then do it to you for 10+ months.
DeceiverX · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people base friendships and relationships on political affiliation.
Obviously you don't want to be friends with a raging racist or the person who keys businesspeople's cars and commits arson because they don't believe in personal property (yes, I HAVE met someone personally who is this far-gone down the communism ideology and is now in prison)... but most people are pretty reasonable and are just mostly byproducts of their environments and given time and exposure will change their minds to be more rational. Especially when put in a context where they can see and understand its benefits.
If we hole ourselves up in our own little bubbles of friends, we're not able to teach or learn or witness the world and the people in it, and that just fosters even more hatred and bigotry to the benefit of absolutely nobody.
I'm not saying go make friends with the people who suck, but maybe instead be the judge of whether someone sucks based on the whole of what they say or do rather than of what they maybe prioritize out of our leaders.
There are a lot of truly awesome people in the world from all walks of life. It's okay to be friends with people who you disagree with on things, because neither of you are experts on every issue, and it's very easy to get lost in personal feelings and experiences.
The only people who deserve condemnation are those operating against a truth they have been enlightened with (looking at most climate change deniers). But you won't know that they are until you sit down and really talk it all out.
DrakeFromUSA · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reddit has such a hate-boner for the USA.
flopsdemopz · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question.
craptastick · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lying
dysmorphicomnigon · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think talking shit is endearing
bgatty1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are super mean to their parents and try to blame all of their shortcomings in life on them. I know plenty of people have genuinely awful parents, but I’m not talking about them. I’m talking about the people with decent parents that have tried their best. I see so many people take their parents for granted that it’s astonishing at times. Zero appreciation for them giving you life. Never understood that whole concept.
Nerd-exp · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How "wash your hands" and "dont touch your face" became "TAKE ALL THE TOLIET PAPERR!!"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating. Im awful at flirting and being open and vulnerable, and even worse at reading and reacting to signs and hints
Banjo-Kazooieiscool · 1 points · Posted at 23:39:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why pikmin extinctions have to be sad.
N0vemberRain · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
Rnc88 · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone could genuinely think that communism is a good idea.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m scared of boys (Especially the tall ones with deep voices)
Joeydakid · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human Cognition and intelligence. I game with someone who is very good at FPS and creative games like Minecraft and such, but he seems off. He has anxiety and depression and is insecure when we say things like “stupid” or “dumbass” like typical joking gamers. He also mispronounces words and is oblivious sometimes idk. I just don’t get how someone can be so good at outthinking opponents and and video games in general. Maybe he watches youtube and gets his ideas from there?
I guess we are all just smarter in different fields.
TickleMeIvory · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Having a sense of direction. People who can just automatically orient themselves to look north blow my mind. I guess I am capable of it, but it takes me a lot longer than the average person. I routinely confuse right and left, and my navigation skills are an utter joke. I hate being so crappy at something so useful.
It drives my husband crazy, he's given me shit about it on multiple occasions, has said that I "just don't want to learn". I envy that it gives him no problems.
SUCKmaDUCK · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People actually being interested in things they have to learn in school or college. How the fuck do you find joy in learning this stuff and using it?
thyrethiuth · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get religion
Malchior_Dagon · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why its acceptable to make white characters into other races, but not the other way around
jbossss1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
remittingclock · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit
rayrayrayray · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why low income Americans dont vote for or want universal healthcare in the USA.
Tom-Pendragon · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ever single person you see has their own experience with life, so unique and yet...they are just numbers
FloppyGerbil · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, I study accountancy at university and to be honest I don't have my standard grade math. I understand what I need to basic and probability but my classes expect me to know advanced probability and I'm basically stumbling in the dark.
n0tter · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to spell restaurant correctly the first time.
clayblood2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How selfish humanity truly is.
kabard · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recursion
kevbayer · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other languages.
Pineapple on pizza.
Olives on Pizza - It's like eating a Lego tire.
Trump.
majluther · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how do cameras work, honestly
nurulnabihah · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People buying extremely expensive clothing or accessories.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess they have money to burn. 🤷♂️
OR
They're buying expensive things to overcomepensate/impress.
gankstar5 · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poker
solidpensi · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
Maniac112 · 1 points · Posted at 23:41:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to visualise fstops and lens effects.
ShenmueZerov21 · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how we can have so many billionaires and yet we have so many homeless people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
logarithms
bayekofsiwa · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who never wonder about human conciousness and greater purpose EVER. I'm fine with "you know what I think we'll never really know so I'm better off not worrying about it and simply enjoy life the way it's thrown at me" rather than getting the blank stare of someone who's never had any reflection about it at all, I don't understand how you can go through life and never wonder once if there's something bigger. Again, maybe there is maybe there isn't it's not about the beliefs it's about wondering even just ONCE.
Ninjanarwhal64 · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. I get that it's relative to everyone and dependent in where you are in space to a degree, but just like....da fuq man?
TheBurningYeti · 1 points · Posted at 23:42:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are some people so motivated all the time? Some days I literally don't want to think, let alone do something.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Goals.
Start off easy. Everyday, write 3-5 things you want to do on a piece of paper, phone or whatever and try to get those things done. It'll be a chore at first but getting things you want done gives you a sense of accomplishment.
Phokew · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantitative Easing
buckthefuffs · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At this point, any republican or Trump supporter. Seriously
End08 · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Light ... how does observation change how it behaves...stahp!!
Ryan19841 · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand if our lives are scripted or if we have free will
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biology. I took a class in college and it is all just way above my head.
lonestarcom · 1 points · Posted at 23:43:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
bairyberry · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
WiFi
jdrinks123 · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald trump
weliesowedontdie · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be hateful towards a certain group so much that they want to kill them Nazis, I understand wanting to kill them, but not unhateful groups that do nothing to bother anyone and just want to exist
zeda96 · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
y=mx+b. I used to be A+ in math until that equation. It broke me and I couldn't do math again
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember those days thankfully I had help.
sorud-alf · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I’m on this fuckin planet.
w0mbatina · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy.
Watsonmark25 · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a plane gets up in the air. Like, I've read how engineers and physicists say it's gets up there... but I literally do not understand how something that heavy gets up there.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, I’ll try my best. Air, is just a less dense body of fluid, like water. Now if you been swimming, you get a feel for the physics, mainly that more surface area makes you float as well as movement. Planes work on that principle but at speed.
Watsonmark25 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
See, I've had this explained before (this is possibly why I dropped out of Physics in High School) but it just makes absolutely no sense to me.
Truthfully, I think it's all witchcraft.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you have a bike, ride it at speed and stick your hand out flat. You feel the force. Then stick it at a 45’ angle. You should feel your hand lift a little. Now increase the surface area massively and increase the speed.
Watsonmark25 · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I totally see what you're getting at.
Skewl_boi_casH · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women...
thebahzile · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unintentionally inconsiderate people. It absolutely blows my mind.
meoli · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I say gravity
pheen13 · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
Rihannas_nipples · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
FAX MACHINES
bia4co · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing
Lostdazedandconfuzed · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can look at directions and follow them and do anything they put their mind too. I'm diagnosed ADHD so I'm sure that has something to do with the inability to focus. But I can look at directions and the words on the page just mesh together and make no sense to me. It's been this way since I was a kid and I'm 27 now.
Ozemba · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Premium tax credits... ???
I just bought my first health insurance policy and I was so confused. I'm still confused.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm going to leave this comment here for that notification.
Ozemba · 2 points · Posted at 03:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well.. nobody's answered yet I guess we'll just find out when we file this year's taxes hahahahaha.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Patience young padawan.
Doubletakelook123 · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones, is is possible to work and live in different ones, is it like state lines and you hop back and forth changing your watch? I never got it.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah pretty much. But you're going to feel the (jet) lag.
Jacksonfpvyt · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
School & why we have to do stuff we don’t need like prime numbers
Dirko007 · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
4 dimensional seeing
crazygamer1502 · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taking to strangers
Taydrz · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
BecauseIShould · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does racism/xenophobia still exist.
0847 · 1 points · Posted at 23:46:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tell if you paid enough attention to someone (including oneself). It seems like everyone is a thought magnet that isn't content with their attraction.
catpicsorbust · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why wrestlers/boxers cut weight.
Rayezerra · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everything I eat makes me sick. Everything. Except brussel sprouts...
OkComputer2 · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human behavior
ruka2405 · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interstellar
Im_a_raddish · 1 points · Posted at 23:47:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometric Equations and Functions
LucasNoober · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why start a game or entering a match looks like so much work even knowing i will have a lot of fun
123floor56 · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What my partner does for work. Shh, don't tell him.
ArcadiaKing · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did a 15-year-old kid in an uncontacted tribe in the Amazon rain forest get Covid-19?
Elio200 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spreads through moisture in the air doesnt it? It is easily spread thru human to human contact but it is capable of long distance travel i guess
Crank911 · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how an engine works. I’ve always loved cars since I was a kid, but I don’t have a clue as to how some explosions in the engine pushes the wheels of a car.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Youtube recommendation algorithm
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If you like or click on a video you'll get more of it in the recommendations. I mostly look up video game stuff so I get a lot of recommendations of other gaming channels. Even if you click on a video to rant om the YouTuber the algorithm will think you want to find more of said YouTuber or similar.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, how do they work?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin.
Sir-Potato123456 · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
neverfree_ · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stocks work
blubirdcake · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
what i'm supposed to do with my life
tweedierclamp · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to short a stock or make money when the stock market crashes
devyReddit · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures.
And the Dutch.
i_have_aspergers235 · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dont like me stealing there fridges
kingcheesehead- · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i like to be the first one to open a bag of chips
MikeRadical · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The minor key and how to find it. I swear I keep watching videos, use the same 5 shapes but slide the root note down 3 frets and you're in the minor pentatonic? Huh? Wuh?
QbitRat · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does everyone likes The Office more than Parks and Rec? Andy Dwyer destroys it.
JemoIncognitoMode · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A few things that bother me (because there's a lot of stuff I don't understand but don't care about either): how computers work like the other guy said, however I know how eacht layer kind of works. But all the layers won't connect as a whole in my head, I can't find that click.
Quantum mechanics, the math works, it all works but what does it mean. What does any of it mean, how can I interpret any of it.
Why turbulence in a pipe causes less friction by creating a thinner boundery layer. But turbulence on a moving object causes more drag. But suddenly with golfballs it causes less drag? I had a short eureka moment, but it hasn't resolved it completely.
MrRobertSox · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I arrived at total enlightenment last Thursday, so I got nothing for you. But thank you for asking!
DitkaVirus · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum anything
greenvelvetcity · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't want to come off as kink-shaming but I genuinely do not understand the sexual appeal of feet/foot fetish.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here's a list. Someone please respond so I don't feel that alone with my problems.
Emotions. I know I feel something, I have feelings and emotions, but how do I describe them?
Most of this probably comes from terrible anxiety.
Empty There's no way that there's nothing, there's always something right?
Snapchat Really what is the point.
radilyar · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The law of surprise
plateniteshow · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
emyrpritch · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think it's funny to laugh at my cleft pallet that made my top lip split and now I have a scar going from my lip to the middle of my nose
princehumperdink1122 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
adding and subtracting fractions, i just don't get it.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 23:59:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
When u add or subtract fractions,u make sure the denominator-bottom number- is the same(lowest common multiple) and when u have the same denominator,u either add or subtract (depending on the question) the top number.
Example
2/10 plus 1/5
As the denominators are a different number, u need to make these the same by looking at the lowest common multiple . In this instance it is 10.to get the 1/5 the to have the same denominator as 2/10, u multiply 1/5 by 2.
This results in 2/10 plus 2/10. Now that the bottom numbers are the same , u just add the top numbers.SONT ADD THE BETTER TROM NUMBER
So the answer is 2/10 plus 2/10 equals 4/10.
I know this is long and complex to explain but in real life would be way easier but I hope this helps:))
princehumperdink1122 · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried so hard to learn, it's not within my capability to learn :(
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, it’s easy to learn and as soon as u get it it all starts to click together However I would recommend watching a video explaining it because the videos take u through each step:))
jesskachnic3089 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras
misha511 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Differential equations as applied to cardiac dynamics
Lachrymist8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the tides are influenced by the moon. I get it sort of intellectually, that it has to do with gravity, but it just doesn't make any sense to me logically.
RoughBrick0 · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “beginning of time.” There couldn’t possible be a beginning of the universe. I mean, there’s the Big Bang but when was before that?there literally always had to be something. Mind fucks me
The-Original-Remix · 1 points · Posted at 23:50:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college
ulyssesjack · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many receptor systems in the human brain have a sub-type that causes abject terror. Why isn't one enough?
LdyGoodBread · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
georgepearl_04 · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apple products, why would you pay more for a product that does the exact same thing but with more flashy animations. "I don't like windows", that's like not buying a car because you don't like the buttons. It's really petty and dumb.
VengeanceKnight · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One-word: reputation.
Apple has a reputation for extremely user-friendly interfaces, excellent security features, and a well-maintained app store.
These features may be present in part or entirely on other phones, but Apple made them famous and accessible. It's would take a massive flop to derail the good name they've built for themselves, at least in terms of hardware and software quality.
georgepearl_04 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are using intel in 2020, big enough security and hardware flop for you?
VengeanceKnight · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people don't know or care what that means. All they see is a phone that’s extremely easy to use.
tiempo90 · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Like why did I learn that shit (and forgot), it served no practical use at all.
Fra23 · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to ignore/change my emotional response to things. It happens way too often that I consciously want to do something because it interests me/it needs to be done and then I end up not pulling through with it/procrastinating because it takes too long to complete, or because it takes proper work to do, or because I associate past negative experience with it etc.
Sometimes I try drawing things because I have hated arts class in school but the idea of making simple pencil drawings of things I care about is something I really want to do. Yet, unless I have had a recent rush of "feel good hormones", it is literally impossible for me. During one of these rare "phases" I could literally pinpoint the moment my mood ran dry and I was back to tensing up every time I picked up a pencil.
I really wish I could change these things because it always feels a fight between what I want and what my monkey brain wants.
ORI0NE · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat Earthers and Anti-Vaxxers
sean_h8989 · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
Creative-Cranberry · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
olgasman · 1 points · Posted at 23:51:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popularity of anime.
Elio200 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its not all just girl who looks 5 does a funny dance u kno
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Star Wars episode 3, Revenge of the Sith
Movie time frame: 1:42:00
YouTube time frame 1:14 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5vOFiSGejI
You see in the clip, Obi-Wan sneaking on to Padme's ship by entering a room. When he's outside the room, he clicks a button to open the door and then goes in. After he sits down, he uses the force to close the door.
My question is, is there a button on the inside of the room to close the door? If there isn't, how does a non-force user get out, once they go inside? Is that room supposed to be a prison chamber, so prisoners cannot escape.
VengeanceKnight · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The room is a closet. It probably isn’t meant to close with someone inside it, hence Obi-Wan using the Force to close the door so he can hide properly.
egptiandisapointment · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my dreams are no longer like a movie playing in my head? Its more like fictional things are happening but i also feel very awake and aware during them to an extent where i can judge what’s happening and make decisions on what i say or do next in the dream. However, im still unable to control other factors of my dream such as the people and the places.
uzumaks007 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Carole Baskins got away with murder!
Fraxinus2018 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could support Trump at this point. His supporters, some members of my own family, are literally terrifying in their ignorance and fervor. It actually gives me anxiety.
-kVIII · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Currency. It’s so mind boggling. How do we even know what the value of the stock market it? It makes no sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who are born blind picture things in their head
kevn3000 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone’s dedication to a sports team that they nor friends or family are a member of
daily_joe · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
thenightday3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans
TheRealMylo · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
As an European, I don't understand how the fuck Trump is still the president of the US... after all he said/did.
microtodd · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come so many women talk about not being able to meet men, and so many men talking about now being able to meet women. Can’t you guys arrange a place to all meet or something?
(Source of confusion: been married for 15+ years so I don’t understand today’s dating scene)
xkrazyxcourtneyx · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Effect and affect.
I pride myself on being well read and literate but DAMN dude. I can’t figure them out for the life of me.
MrsFelidori · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some girls and women try to seduce men that are married or in a long term committed relationship, especially when they know the family and their children. I cannot comprehend it.
MastaKoopp · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Euchre. I’ve seen people play it a handful of times, I’ll literally never understand.
sendfuckinghelp · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love , not in a sad way, but litteraly dont get it how it works and such.
Clear_Subject · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get how sound waves and the inner workings of electronics
egptiandisapointment · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how i can sometimes think and contemplate in my sleep. It’s like my body is resting but my brain refuses to.
Billargh · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on earth do my floating shelves in the kitchen stay on the walls with the weight of all the tins, plates, food etc in them? Genuinely baffles me.
JudasKennedy · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
trying_my_best_dude · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to break 'the cicle'. I somehow ended up in some cicle I can't break.
I legit understand my situation but I just intesively think about it, then get tired thinking about it and take couple naps a day. Then as I go to sleep I am thinking about really doing something about it but come to conclusion that it's too late so I promise myself I will do a better job tommorow.
And here I am, ended up a little bit overweight, huge daily ammounts of nicotine in my body which I can't seem to give up on neither, no job, struggling financially and yet I still beat myself mentally about it but no real outcome
Ridikiscali · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people liked the movie Snowpiercer. What the hell was that hot garbage?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What insurance deductibles are.
Aiden1119 · 1 points · Posted at 23:52:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is consciousness, and what’s responsible for it
dm_me_alt_girls · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The naming of age groups, and the rabid tribalism among these groups. The fact people tie their entire identities around the time period they were born in and will use that as an excuse to be nasty to each other.
Named generations are just another way to separate people even more than they already are, except this one is entirely artificial and pointless.
Also, entirely American. It's an entirely American concept, based around American culture and events, so I cringe anytime I hear someone referring to some rando in India as a 'Millennial'.
mustooch · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
PriffyViole · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people drink carbonated beverages. They hurt so much...
Keinrichie · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Disgusting people wearing disposable gloves throughout their grocery store shopping experience. Ignorance is bliss.
ZAHyrda · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programmatic media.
very niche, but I work in digital marketing and have no idea how programmatic media works.
NurseTaric · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do American politics work how in the ever living fuck did Joe Biden beat bernie to be the candidate when he litteraly had a fraction of the support.
send_it_ignacio · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Here’s my input. Well, Reddit made it look like he was the most popular candidate. The front page of Reddit is an echo chamber, believe it or not, and it is no way indicative of the entire US population. Bernie still won CA and a few other states. However, he couldn’t win the more middle-of-the-road crowd. He had lots of support, but his policies were too left-leaning for many people.
NurseTaric · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Still it is mega scummy that a candidate that so many people fully supported now has no say, how come the US has a garbage system that only votes for the president and not a parlement with multiple political parties trying to represent the people as well as they can like the rest of the civilised world.
send_it_ignacio · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He may have some say by backing Biden, as Biden and his team will definitely want to corral the Bernie supporters so they’ll turn out for the election. Obviously, there are pros and cons to both two and multi-party systems. For people that like consistent and steady change, this system works alright. Of course, local legislatures and congressman can make a difference at the state level. However, as you mentioned, it’s not perfect, and there can definitely be rules in place to reduce lobbying, gerrymandering, and other issues.
weabo_exe · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
ACLuke · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most comments on Reddit.
PissedBadger · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t stay apart to stop this fucking virus spreading.
mscleo55 · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drug addicts..
Chill0000 · 1 points · Posted at 23:53:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Divide by 0 equals nothing
I don’t understand it
Subnauseous · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine you have zero cookies and you divide them evenly among zero friends. See? It doesn’t make sense. And Cookie Monster is sad that there are no cookies. And you are sad that you have no friends.
Chill0000 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thought process is that why isn’t the answer either 0 or the number you started out with
you have 8 slices of pizza and you dived it among 0 people
🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕 and 0 is taken away
So why isn’t the answer
“You divided 8 slices into 0 slices”
Or
“You didn’t take anything away and you still have 8 slices so the answer is 8”
Why isn’t the answer the number you started out with or just 0
I’ve asked so many people this question and no one has given me an answer that makes sense to me
If the answer is literally “NOTHING” than why isn’t it just 0
Subnauseous · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This can easily be answered with a calculator. Just type in 8 divided 0 and you get Error. So this obviously means the answer is Error. I dont get it either
Chill0000 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wish I could meet the guy who came up with this rule and have him explained it to me and I’ll explained my thought process on it
I really wanna know how “nothing” doesn’t equal “0”
skysky719 · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
math. it just fucking sucks. my tiny peepee brain cannot comprehend
TheWonderingBunyip · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
CartooNinja · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
detaileddevel · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How apr is calculated and why it is different from just the interest rate
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ppl from England say maths and not math
EdsonFoothills · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any Americans can genuinely support Trump
(or Brazilians with the case of Bolsonaro, or any other equivalent president)
Wyntrej · 1 points · Posted at 23:54:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time travel. Or the theory of time travel.
Qwerk- · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
centrifugal force, or centripetal force. not even not understanding which is which (although I forget right now), but I just dont understand how the force is being applied and how it creates like a spin. I have tried for hours studying to wrap my mind around it, but finally just resort to memorizing and using that for physics tests. I've given up on actually understanding it. every ah-ha! moment I've had in regards to this, I've explained to a teacher/classmate, etc and been like "that's it, right?" no. wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think they can be animal lovers despite the fact that they’re constantly shoving meat into their mouths.
Indybooks46220 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still support Trump??!
JenJardine1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all my hard work didn't pay off. Did everything but sold my soul and I'm tool old for do-overs.
beforefocus · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet. I can’t wrap my head around how it even begins to work. Yet, I use it everyday.
atheistmessiah59 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time and space
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Elio200 · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost the same as a religion smh. No proof for ny of that
NickolasVarley · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there can be millions of people in Canada paying taxes to the government and they still can't mange to make a government site that runs well and can handle more than 20 people at a time..
imnotsurewhattoname · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radiation
Like what the buck is that shit. I’ve tried looking into it but I just get more confused. I really only know the basics like which types are bad and what happens when you are exposed to too much, and what it can go through.
Bossman1166 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Heather661 · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Theory of Relativity.
ascendtofutility · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics major here. I'll start with special relativity. Einstein essentially asked the question, "what if the speed of light is the same for any observer, or frame of reference". What that is basically saying that there is one constant that is unchangeable, no matter how fast you are going, or where you are. Let's say there is a person 5 meters away from a firecracker exploding, and a person 100 meters away from a firecracker exploding and they both are on the phone together. They will agree, by sight, that the firecracker explodes at the same instant in time. Now what if we have a person 2.998x108 (how far light travels in one second)meters away and one right next to the firecracker and they have the ability to instantly talk to eachother? Well, that same event, which is 100% happening in a location and time, will be seen to happen at 1s apart by the different observers. They will not agree on the time the firecracker is exploding! This also changes if the observers are moving relative to the event and each other ( the effects start to be noticable when you are moving around 1/7 the speed of light). Not only that, but the locations can vary as well. Objects can become shorter to some observers, no joke it's called length contraction, and the timeline of different events are argued upon. Its mind blowing shit. Essentially our reality as we know it, flagpoled in our existence, is very malleable when your reference frame starts moving super fast (like you are in a train going half the speed of light). I'm sorry if this is jumbled, I'm at work on the phone.
Tldr: when you move fast, the time and location and size of an object doing something/event is not agreeable by all observers. The length of a train could be shorter!
broad101 · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need to "come out".... Just live your life
Nothing against anyone everyone is their own person but why make a big event. Just enjoy life and do with it as you like
ChadNeubrunswick · 2 points · Posted at 23:58:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The term coming out just means telling people who you want to be with. It's not an event and if its made into one it's due to the personalities involved
Torino888 · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Texting a photo to someone! Even when explained I dont get jt.... it's like the picture de-materializes and flies through the air and re downloads on their phone.
dahon95 · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the e-maps work (Google Maps, MaptQuest etc.). Where do the companies get their sources? If there's a central database of places, who updates it when a new road/street is added?
pwbue · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. Why it exists and why it gets bailed out.
ThanksCrystals · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sports fanaticism. I understand the basic underlying concept of tribalism and ingroups and outgroups, I just don't see how that progresses to the point of defining oneself by way of team affiliation--despite not actually being on that team and not benefitting from wins or losses in any way (betting aside). Even city/state affiliation is tenuous. "I am a [team] fan, I watch the games, buy the merchandise, and actually antagonize fans of other teams" is a way of life I just can't wrap my head around.
As an offshoot, it's almost bewildering to me that sports are so important to the average person that an entire block of time is dedicated to its coverage in daily local news.
MidwestAction · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle class republicans
silvertopbeauty · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
reality, all of it
Rck003 · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can be dirt poor already have debt racking up and then go and buy a car off the lot from the last 5 years with a loan.
fightwithgrace · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can easily speak multiple languages. I honestly have no idea how they do it. Like, do they heard the words and automatically translated them in their head? How do they not have to think about it? Most of my family grew up speaking more than one language, but I just hit a snag, it doesn’t work for me no matter how had I try.
I have a friend who is bilingual she says that depending who she is talking to, her inner voice changes languages, so she thinks in two different languages. I just don’t get it! The only class I ever failed was French. I bombed almost every assignment.
Grey184 · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the earth is round , but when you get close and walk on it , it seems totally flat. I’m 45 and never understood how this can be.
Kvahuest · 1 points · Posted at 23:56:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths, no matter who teaches me it i just dont get it, this annoys me because i need to get a 4 in my maths to progress with my course im doing, never reached high 3, always been high 2 or low 3. My family have put thousands (not exaggerating there) into personal tutors for them to not really get me anywhere.
Some people have looked at the work i do and said “why the fuck are they teaching you that? Its fucking useless!” After they said why i just sit by that, “its fucking useless knowing that i dont need it”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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CAREYmebaby · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What quantum computing is and why it’s important
Bergen360 · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don’t believe in global warming. There are substantial amounts of evidence supporting the idea that it exists.
nottoppost · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its the game reason why people still think the earth is flat, because that makes you think you are better, or just ignoring your ignorance about thing and justifying your actions whith a it's not important
DrippyBeard · 1 points · Posted at 23:58:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How products from across an ocean can be cheaper than things made here.
dingoatemyaccount · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sleep paralysis works. Is it just your brain making up a demon like character? If so why would the brain even do that it’s scaring itself
OddGlove · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxxers.
Gallotto · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flight.
MochaBlack · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
YouTubers and vloggers. You’re just sitting there by yourself talking to a camera pretending there’s people there? Not even a camera or lighting crew, just you. It just seems so awkward to me. “Hey guys, it’s me, coming at you with another episode”. But there’s no one there, just your own face on the monitor.
SrWohper · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's because they have years of experience, and they are used to talk to a virtual audience.
MochaBlack · 2 points · Posted at 00:14:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess you just convince yourself people are listening, like how I convince myself someone is reading my comments.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Could you please elaborate??
AliasGenimi01 · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
buckthefuffs · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
WhipsandPetals · 1 points · Posted at 23:59:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Internet.
chevelle0507 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything beyond basic math :(
mikefromtheblock · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened at the start of the universe? Ex before the big bang if there was one, and why did a ton of matter come into existence - or did it...
bassoonabis · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still do not understand how to pick up chicks from tinder...
its0matt · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How batteries work. Like store bought As Bs Cs ect
Edu4rd0_73 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
las peliculas de crepusculo
AlterEgoCat · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Snapchat streaks. They are just stupid, and if you lose one people get really mad at you for something dumb like that.
Dinahmyte1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how so many people can ignore the reality of who Trump is and how he has destroyed this country.
diamond10023 · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why time and space are the same.
jarwicks · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes works.
I’ve had friends explain so confidently, but it never quite...adds up? Humans shouldn’t have this power. It’s like we used a cheat code.
smpolu · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes...like what
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:00:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I think backwards.
beeguy727 · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Big Bang. So what one second there’s nothing and the next... everything? What came before nothing? Don’t make no sense
AizenStarcraft · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why I exist.
These are some of the reasons I have come up with but I need help narrowing down which one is correct.
- My Mom and Dad had unprotected sex.
- The universe is constantly expanding and that energy is what I actually am and I nearly exist as a representation of the energy.
- Billions of years of random events happening all over the universe somehow all came together in an exact sequence that ended up we me being born and being able to breath, eat, sleep, mate and procreate.
- I don't actually exist, but am created by whoever is reading this text is...or...maybe I created them!
-God, he thought of my entire life from start to finish, especially that time I peed my pants in front of everyone.
- Lizard people who plotted my existance for the soul purpose of using my body as food for the eternal feast which is actually a different demention that we go to after we die.
prolapsedwiener · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. We can't even see what's going on but we have complex mathematics that explain how things work and even their magnetic field structure.
TheRealCammz · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How babies pick up langauges. It’s amazing for me. I think the fact humans can immerse in any language, without studying, is the most fascinating thing about the human brain. The fact that some children are bilingual before the age of 5 is really strange for me too. As for someone who loves linguistics, it’s just so interesting, yet it doesn’t make any sense. Especially with how specific and complicated our language is compared to the other creatures on earth.
ddecoywi · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sewing machines. I don’t get how they work, and I like not knowing so please don’t explain.
brand0ooo · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
caffeineevil · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex, why humanity is so obsessed with it...I will never understand
AyyMVP · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Econmics. Just print more money. I don’t get it.
omnitions · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still believe the American system is running efficiently
dangoodspeed · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat-earthers. There's a lot of people I don't agree with intellectually or politically (anti-vaxxers, Trump supporters, pro-lifers)... but I can at least understand their point of view and where they're coming from. Flat-earthers... I just don't understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is link cut tree working?
0Markus0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the U.S is in so much debt
keepitclassydc · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything IT, coding, programming... Not one bit. I've risen quite far in operations, but am completely illiterate when it comes to that stuff and I feel likes it's embarrassing and I should know more. Then again, Ive never put in the effort because I haven't had to.
I know how to use programs and am very good with Excel (pivot tables, vlookup, etc...) Salesforce, SAP. But how those things work, I have no clue and do not feel like I ever will. And I'm in my mid 30s.
kneecap_lasagna · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why straight people call a gun a “strap”
To any breeder who is confused and doesn’t know why I’m confused, in gay lingo, a “strap” is a strap-on. (Fake dick you strap onto your body)
For the sake of all us single lesbians, don’t say “I’m strapped”
tnewtan · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance . How to buy a house
johndoe7872 · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Blewmydoodle · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Complacency in society, it's like there's something in the water.
JCtheWanderingCrow · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How weeks work. How is Monday seven days from Monday!? Shouldn’t it be 8 days!?
LifeSportsDialysis · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can love someone but cant stand their family
Hardie93 · 1 points · Posted at 00:02:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithmic functions. I missed my teacher teaching them and I've been lost about them for a few months now.
DivaBeaver · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
kaisenup26 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How manage anxiety. Every time I think I now how I have some symptom and lost focus.
Raven019 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Financials
DimNotFound · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminists
Finoton · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
Anuyushi · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't seem to figure out math and language. I'm an expert in all things English and fine arts, but I've struggled with math, language, and music my entire life. It's not like I haven't tried. I took all my notes, I practiced and practiced, I joined band, I studied online when math class was over, but I can't retain or understand it even ten minutes later.
Some people say I'm simply more right brained, my family says it's hereditary as everyone on my mother's side of the family struggles with the same issues. But I simply can't understand it. Even after all the work I tried to put into it, a part of my brain simply... Doesn't feel like working so I'm stuck? I don't get why brains work like this, what warrants a person to be left/right brained, or if that's even an actual thing. People always chalk it up to "Well you just can't help it, that's how you are" but I feel there's more to it I'm just not getting.
FashnDiva · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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assbreaker · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anthropomorphic principle(?)
We can only ask why we exist because we exist.
The rest is just chemistry.
WyrmHero1944 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Since there are millions and millions of stars in this universe we might say that life is pretty much a probability, in this case it’s us.
zoecandle · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my parents don’t see just how entitled my younger sister is.
I had to go to the hospital because of some extreme abdominal pain and was literally rolling around on the floor screaming. When my sister learned my mom was taking me she threw a huge fit and broke the tv in our living room claiming my parents didn’t care about her, and they didn’t care when she had a stomach ache. This was about 15 min after she and my mom got home from a 400$ shopping spree that my mom paid for... she also has stolen about 3500$ worth of things from me including my Xbox and tv and my parents haven’t done anything to make it stop. And whenever she throws a did about something she gets what she wants...
WyrdX · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of having to make education a type of buisness. I dont get it, it the reason why in the world, America ranks like 26th in education.
S1lent_Echo · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary Electricity.
arryhthmic · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity...ohms and watts and amperage and volts...and idk man!!!
WyrmHero1944 · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s pretty straight-forward, bunch of equations that in the end make sense and thus we can prove it with our current technology. Computers, smartphones and the bulbs in your house it’s all possible because at the end is simple to do.
WyrmHero1944 · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics and the fluctuations which occur in a vacuum in space. Someone please explain to me what the fuck is going on with that, if you can reliably explain that to me so that I understand it in the frame of physics I will give you a Nobel Prize in Physics and a cool million bucks.
a1ways_me · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no one makes a coffee carafe anymore that doesn't dribble puddles.
cookus · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people that still support Trump.
Cereal-KilIer · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to make scales sound natural and like music on the guitar
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I see ur point but a lot of the time I get random stuff that I’ve never seen anything related/to do with that before.
And then when I click the video and go to the comments everyone just comments about how they also got recommended this and how it doesn’t make sense because they don’t watch that kind of stuff
wethreewinchesters · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
Jamobill9999 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell can someone hear me In real time when I talk into a 3inch piece of glass and plastic (phone). Like how the hell does my real voice just make it to that person.
whatsername1180 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All my dad's conspiracy theories. I've tried genuinely talking to him about it, like sitting down with him with an open mind and just talk to him about what he believes and then me trying to explain what isnt right, or accurate,but it's no use. He's a flat earther, anti government (but bows down to Donald Trump, which that in itself doesnt make any sense, but I digress.), anti history, and now an antivaxxer. He has bipolar disorder and at first I thought that maybe he's just not talking his medication anymore. But he's been like this for 2 years and it's just getting worse and he's going further and further down. I still think he's not taking his medication, but there's nothing I can do about it because it's not a harm to himself or others. I've talked to my aunts and uncles about it but they dont really seem to care or think it's that bad. I just dont know what to do.
Ruyva52 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do some stores have a thing called happy hour that lasts 2 hours??
What the fuck is up with that???
Nebula_Zwie · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
im always behind on the hip new trends, i had no idea what a simp was till a friend said it to me and i looked up what its supposed to mean. i just dont understand how i never find these things out until they're halfway through their life.
tortellini-sauce · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How money or credit works.
treehugger2729 · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be selfish and do things that negatively impact others without a care.
cantcutnomore · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As some one with a well aging, baby face, how the fuck do people go through puberty and come out looking completely different? I have had this face since I was born (I'm 29) and I just do not understand. All I have now are some bags under my eyes occasionally.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cantcutnomore · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do also like it but it does boggle my mind. Idk my family has a good lineage of people that live for a hundred years. Maybe that's why
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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cantcutnomore · 2 points · Posted at 01:42:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Glad you got it all out I guess now it's just trying not to get sick and letting your doctor monitor you.
sloppynipsnyc · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work in tech, and every day I genuinely do not understand certain things in tech :)
whocaresabout01 · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human relationships
AgentEgypt · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people walk in the street when there is a sidewalk 2-3 ft next to them. I've seen this in neighborhoods and busy streets.
Edit: rewording, added context
Priced_In · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we pronounce minestrone like minestrone ?
rasqoi · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s Italian.
Champion_of_Bear · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bikes work. It literally doesn’t make sense to me. How are we able to ride on them when logically we should fall over?
NonFecalis · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is not to understand ?
Lonelybiscuit07 · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity and nothing, I can't wrap my mind around it never ending.
AgentShabu · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Volts, amps, watts... I don’t get it
maan-maan · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fake food for commercials and movies. It’s way more expensive and looks basically exactly the same. Just get some damn takeout and use that
qulski1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding interviews
RedditSteadyGoing · 1 points · Posted at 00:06:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How accents emerged.
The-Slav-Boi · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything about computer specs or how to tell how good is a pc
Alienwallbuilder · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all addiction are fed.
lookslikesausage · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how quickly things that should have nothing to do with politics become about politics
genericbl2player · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont want to do anything with My life and I dont entirely know why. At some point i guess i just started thinking "why bother when someone Else more motivated and talented is gonna Come along and do what i can do 10x better" along with other things Like. I dont want to use lots of My life on something and just lose it All again when i enevitably lose it All when i die. I have and have had a fair amount of teachers try and talk to me about My lack of motivation for things and what i wanna do in the future. The only answer ive Come up with after having these thoughts for 3 years is i want to Coast. I wanna live on the line of not really doing anything but still workin a bit. I want to have enough money so i can buy something i want every now and again but I dont wanna work more to just get a load of money i wont ever use. Ive also thought about things Like is there really Any point in trying to achieve something when the future is so unscertain. Like i Mean the majority of us could litteraly get wiped out druing these next months. Along with thinking about how close we are in technology to achieve freedom in terms of food Like if the top People wanted to they could invest an insane amount of money into production and research of food and just solve world hunger. If things Like these happen is there really Any point.
Its very late for me rn so if anything dosnt make sense dont worry to much about it.
Also this has more turned into me ranting sorry abou that.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean everyone can just say that someone is gonna do better than them or they feel like what’s the point. But the thing is u shouldn’t compare urself to other people because than it wouldn’t really be ur life would it.the whole point of living is that it’s an experience that YOU make out of nothing.Yes the world is changing, but that’s a part of life , I mean it’s about u adapting to it and gaining the benefits and he things u enjoy.Life will look dull if u have a fixed mindset however if you were to look at the things u could achieve, it by far outweighs the negatives.OPTIMISM IS KEY
I hope this helps:))
pizzapizzaeatmy · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why college students are not getting stimulus checks. Please read this response I made to someone else before you @ me:
depechesomnia · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I absolutely for the life of me cannot understand how/when to operate 4WD in a truck...and I sell them......
ToxicHazard- · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Belief in a god with no evidence for one.
I respect people's beliefs, and love discussions with religious people. I've searched, but never found any evidence, and I just couldn't believe something without any.
T_Peg · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Records are making a comeback. They're objectively inferior in every single way except "My AeStHeTiC vInTaGe"
ToxicHazard- · 0 points · Posted at 00:18:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I believe vinyl records are better quality? So it might make sense for audiophiles. But for your average consumer, I agree it is just an expensive aestetic gimmick.
Grandarmee70 · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
lordofthefloofs · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The far right
sth128 · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. Why do we only seem to only traverse in one direction? Why do things at light speed like photons stand still in time? Do they perceive the universe as instantaneous?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could possibly be emotionally stable lmfao
HotGuy90210 · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love.
CarrotGod · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind.
S3xySouthernB · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxers who think that a “clean and healthy lifestyle only” will protect them and everyone. And that they “don’t expose themselves to those kinds of illnesses”. Like what about their pets? Don’t their dogs need rabies shots to be able to have them? Or if they travel abroad, there’s vaccines to avoid illnesses that we don’t have here...do they just not get those vaccines? Or people visiting here from another country...I’ve got so many questions...
bubbaboik · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cant even fathom what not living would be like
king-kitty · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Political compass thingy
kupakins · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I feel so lost when it comes to social interaction. My friends and loved ones say it doesn't show but people always find a way to surprise me in a usually not good way
jakethson · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tying ropes of any kind. Like, even basic tying shoe laces is complex to me. I understand everything else perfectly fine but when it comes to rope it just doesn’t make any sense, it’s like dyslexia towards it
ShriLo · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the moon has phases...I can understand it but just can’t retain the knowledge!
klm_Tlp · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Deathcraftian20 · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls I am as of last year 18, Male and I am definitely naive I have been trying to get into a relationship but at every turn to try to get one with a certain person I couldn't tell if anything was happening at points I would think that there was of some effect. Because of the things I like about her like the overall deadpan personality (unless with friends) it has been difficult to know if things are moving forward. Not to long ago it was valentines day, because I am not very good at showing how I feel I had decided to draw a portrait of her and give it to her on V-day being that I am an aspiring artist. I ended up giving it to her scared to death, this was my first big attempt shooting my shot to show who I am in my own way. Later the same day I got a text saying she had a boyfriend because I wanted to make sure I was seeing things right I showed a my mother who I had been conversing whit along with friend all year about this situation my mother had said that the way it was written it sounded like it was a parent influenced response if not directly then in a way I could try and decipher. Some backstory, the whole year leading up to this point this girl had been starring at me in class turning around to look at me talking to friends and to where her and her friends would seem to look back, still doing this after the fact, in fact it seemed like it was going to start getting a bit more heated until this worldwide crap show happened and while I can say for the most part I am not to affected this was the one thing I was looking forward to find out and now prom are gone other things like graduation are on a stricter leash. What do you think?
MarxiMox · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think and very loudly exclaim that USA is the best country, no questions asked.
I don't see how living in a country and paying taxes to a government who doesn't pay for stuff like healthcare, college et cetera could compare to the other western countries like in scandinavia and so forth.
and then there is gun laws but thats a whole other can of worms i am not going to get into
SirBeavisChrist · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
vic1822 · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Block chain
PokerJawn · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democrats
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my life is the way it is .-.
HudWon12 · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams,
bob_pipi · 1 points · Posted at 00:08:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of furries
Needless99 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women!! I love almost everything about them but it highly confusing to place what they say they want with what their actions say that they want.
TampaTJ · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency
Golden_Zephyr · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's feelings. I can't quite get by with more than 2 layers of conversation without understanding the real meaning of someone's words incorrectly.
bloooomy_boi · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How somebody could possibly be cisgender AND heterosexual at the same time.. or at all
a_normal_teenager05 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminists
First they want to be equal then call themselves the better gender
dano_saur · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf do people fap to hentai?
DaNoid414 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kubernetes
Profoundant89 · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand anxiety, or depression. I've been sad, and ive been overwhelmed, but I have friends that suffer from both afflictions, who often tell me that what I have experienced doesn't come close to what they experience.
It only sucks when i try and empathize with my wife, who often suffers from anxiety. I don't have a point of reference, and I often come off as cold or uncaring.
I understand what both of these things are on a textbook level, I just don't think I've ever experienced them myself, at least not in my adult life.
I apologize if this is poorly formatted, currently writing this from the comfort of my porcelain throne, on mobile.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is one of the best ask reddits I've ever seen. There has been so many great, trippy questions
jgraben · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, so if I feed my dog 3 cups of dry dog food everyday, but then I switch to making homemade dog food (really healthy nutritious recipe), how much homemade dog food do I feed my dog each day? 3 cups? It’s driving mad trying to figure out the right answer.
Honorary_Black_Man · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can just kill a man
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women fight the way they do.
gnnjsoto · 1 points · Posted at 00:09:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spanish
Dzsiii · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rich people who say they are socialist.
Jmm1022 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to solve SLC circuits
BigBoydski · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science. I’m a returning student and taking a biology class. I can solve math equations all day.
Guaymaster · 2 points · Posted at 03:35:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a whole field of philosophy called epistemology. Basically we don't really know, we just call science what's popularly called science in pur environment.
Neat-ocopter · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. This week in particular.
Terrormon556 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships and emotions and empathy
tremontguy · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your question.
jakebg44 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my brother is such an asshole
MartynPlayz · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4th dimension
Scud200202 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Been studying it for a year and I still can’t wrap my head around some of the concepts
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to have kids
FirstTimeLongThyme · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
kshebdhdbr · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls dont see me sexually
rmf1129 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Melody and harmony
ledz094 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
InfantInAWoodchipper · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can believe in left wing politics
InfantInAWoodchipper · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can believe in left wing politics
GlitchMyMatrix_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Star Wars timeline
GordonVass · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans. And people who vote for republicans.
Patch_The_Pancakes · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
cantcallsaul · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
Madetoclownfelix · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people like tiktok
BambieTheRedditUser · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many amazing people are living in terrible situations. What did they do to deserve that? -- I'll also never understand how people can be so cruel. From animal abuse to just bullying someone online, it will forever baffle me.
plasticfoot0202 · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the cloud works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. I see threads on Reddit about the top 1% taking everything and that we should tax them more. Then more people saying most millionaires/billionaires don't make wages, so taxes would do nothing. So instead we should tax capital gains, but I don't even know what capital gains are.
Also that one recent article of that one guy saying let the airlines fail. A lot of people are saying they have 401k's invested in the managing hedge funds, so that guy doesn't know what he's talking about.
And everyone has a point that makes sense to me, so I don't see how I'm supposed to choose a side. It feels good saying "fuck the man" and stand up for the little guy, but not knowing if it's the right answer really gives me anxiety. People get so vitriolic over it, but the more people discuss it, the more painfully obvious it is that it doesn't seem like most people understand it either.
Funnierthanyou555 · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People say that they don't control their dreams. This allows confused me because I can close my eyes and think of anything and at some point I doze off. Maybe this isn't dreams and if so then please help me because I think I don't dream, I'm always self aware in my "thoughts/dreams" until I lose consciousness. And that may also be because I'm always daydreaming so maybe I get so used to daydreaming that regular dreams don't seem that much different than when I'm awake.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras, no clue how a little machine sees the same thing I see and can save that picture.
sadistic-salmon · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get girlfriends
Ringer41 · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:11:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why americans have garbage disposals
Your_everyday_Idiot · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everybody seems to think I'm an idiot.
rbhport · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
tessiemaemarshhh · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how people create video games or apps, is it just a tremendously long line of code? As the quality of games and apps improved, did the code become much much longer? Am I way off? Probably. I genuinely don’t understand.
Metrinui · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so caught in there own world and so oblivious to their surroundings
AprilDawnBelieves · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exponents. To me, it's like multiple dimensions... Mind boggling. For instance, if something is falling at an exponentially faster rate... IDK wtf that means. Btw, I have my masters in business.
Sans_The_Skelet0n · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
pineapple on pizza, fettishes, and how kids like today's absolute shite cartoons.
Grubbanax · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lacanian theory
My_Nama_Jeff1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Multivariable calculus lol, trying to learn
LoisCIB · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I head a few large Facebook groups. I don't understand 2 things-
1) How others who head large groups become dictators or the Facebook group becomes the main focus of their lives. This isn't a paying job! Hopefully, it isn't the most important thing in their life!
2) How people who are in your FREE Facebook group complain (leave the group!!!) or expect you to put in hours and hours of your time in private messages to them.
genevievemia · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The support for Joe Exotic and the hate for Big Cat Rescue
the_true_Cross · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
DBD hitboxes
Benn00010 · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just turned 31 and I still don’t understand life.
ACubeInABox · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can condemn an entire nation or group based on the actions of one person.
Inverted-Mountain · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quaternions
anFaRhANkh · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reality
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life works out for horrible people and shits on the good and deserving.
SpickleMickle · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics and quaternions. If anyone here is experienced with Euler quaternions please can you explain it to 9th grade me. I only understand some of it for unity for programming but not as much as I would like.
little_chupacabra89 · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
TheOriginalPerson · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Months in english. I speak fluent english and I've learned basically the whole entire dictionary, except for the damn months.
var-username · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No matter what, I cannot understand the speed of light the speed of light. I can understand there being a sort of universal speed limit, but what's it in relation to?
IIRC light doesn't move faster if for instance the object emitting light is moving, so does that mean that light moves at a constant speed (given the medium its passing through) relative to a specific point in space, like a hypothetical center of the universe?
sippingfromthestream · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To this day I do not understand how people look at prices or numbers in general and can just... add them... with no hesitation. They don’t have to count as a whole and that’s crazy, they see 3 apples and 5 pears and think 8 fruits. I see apples and pears and I have to count all of them together. No one has ever addressed my problem with any level of success and honestly it’s frustrating. I can’t calculate tips, I can’t add or subtract prices to see if I can afford what I’m spending, I can’t even read a clock without counting by 5s up to the number it’s pointing to. It’s bad. I almost failed math until the 4th grade, and then suddenly in 5th grade something clicked and 5th grade math was a breeze, 6th grade I was placed in Advanced Math and got 2nd place in the Regional Math Bee. I then skipped both 7th and 8th grade math and so far Algebra 1 through Pre-Calc has been a breeze. I can do Pre-Calc in my head but can’t multiply, divide, add, or subtract.
calmyourtitsyall · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why all these fuckers are clogging up my street doing ludacris cherry blossom photos. It's like cat nip as soon as the pink comes out my street looks like a market.
Pegacious5 · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people call their parents by their first name.
richardbaal · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printing money makes it less valuable.
Yeah more of something = less valuable but still... 5 bucks is 5 bucks
Freak_for_art · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact of that I hate interacting with people but now that I'm stuck inside I want to
SweetWodka420 · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how there are people who can't seem to think logically. They probably can, but they don't show it or act like it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. Why are we all here? Why are we put on this Earth? Why are people depressed.?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Skateboarding.. HOW DOES IT STAY ON YOUR FEET
HelloYesCooHere · 1 points · Posted at 00:13:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese, i bet i could understand it if i tried but i haven’t
hilariousmars · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnet's. What makes the attracted to each other? And how can they move without being acted upon by an outside force?
rachelhand · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helen Keller.
TheMadIrishman327 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
wolfpandataco · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
As a person with autism and a high sense of self-awareness, I can never understand people, the way they think, process things and behave, I don’t understand it. I try, but I’m too busy trying to understand and control myself
Theconfusedfox21 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are racist
SourTomato123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people that are mean for no reason
_DosesAndMimosas_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people voted for trump.
davidspinknipples · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a digital camera is able to work
GoodTimeNotALongOne · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
RavingMalwaay · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moments
Jlee3416 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of Umami.
Is it richness? Is it bold? Deeper flavor?
talmorus · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Apple products.
bimman · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i dont understand how time can bend
Frank08H · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did people find out how science relates to the math. For example, how did Einstein’s theory of relativity come to be?
Fireking157 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the moon revolve around the earth? Wouldnt the sun get in the way because of gravity?
nbennett23 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans culture.
CelticTraveller · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
SourTomato123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens after death
henchman3G · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flirting. I have a hard time picking up on it and I don't understand how to start or how to reciprocate. I feel like I'm always being too obvious, too subtle and I'm afraid of coming off as a creep or disinterested.
not-A-accountPerhaps · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
shelby56 · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes!
saintlane · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
AbsolutlyNormalUser · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother.
Bhaalchildswrath · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry. I aced chemistry and flunked out of Organic chemistry twice.
That and people who lack empathy.
OscarDelaChoka · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organized religion
super-saiyan-shaan · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kingdom hearts
asolidcitizen · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
CrystalCrys · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vinyl records
baddadpuns · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where exactly does economic growth come from ? I have heard various answers from discovering new natural resources, increased productivity, expanded consumer market, or added credit.
You can easily come up with counter-argument for first and second.
The third is plausible, but does it mean in a market of fixed population, there can never be economic growth?
If it is the added credit, makes me feel the chills because economic growth is really an illusion?
KaiserKulrais · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The inability of a certain race pronouncing a sound because the colour of their skin. Extremely racist
tommybahama66666 · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people only watch ONE type of news channel. Or why people even watch the news at all.
RuinedSilence · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those 30 minute youtube ads
Wisnee · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fake exhaust tips on cars these days.
princessoffreakks · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the first recorded singing onto the gramophone and vinyl disks. Like how?!
Tw15t3d_Jordan · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
(And i'm sure it's vice-versa for many of them as well)
hertoymaker · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why XXXTENTACION was killed.
g1v3L0v3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:16:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How i ended up getting addicted to tiktok
holleringgenzer · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Esperanto didn't become the international language.
mnorth5123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How easy it was for Vladimir Putin and his puppet Donald Trump to overthrow the USA without firing one bullet.
yeetimusprimemoney55 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That so many Christians identity as conservatives.
ILikeToDrawIGuess77 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Bee's can fly. They're fat little fluffy bodies are too heavy to fly... Yet they do it anyway to piss us humans off
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trapping more energy than normal in solar panels doesn’t directly cause global warming.
getsangryatsnails · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a speaker produces sound. Like I know how it does its built and works, but can't comprehend how vibrations from some materials can result in clear, concise, controlled sound.
juliacorco · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sksksksk thing
alexvonhumboldt · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
NPSH on a pump
whoKnowsNot-I- · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need for people to make their beds
Guaymaster · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The folds of the bedsheets accumulate and get uncomfortable after a while. Also, they get filled with sweat and hair (and potentially... other things) so they should be washed and changed over relatively short periods. I do it about once a week.
There's also aesthetics, I guess.
whoKnowsNot-I- · 1 points · Posted at 08:29:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No I agreed with the washing, it’s just that it seems pointless to make it every day
Guaymaster · 2 points · Posted at 14:52:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I agree.
TheKaijuKaiser · 0 points · Posted at 00:36:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This comes down to perception and mental health, with the idea that your surroundings influence your mental state. So a clean and ordered bedroom leds to a healthier mind.
I don't understand people who can live in, or very close to squalor, it baffles me that, keeping your own sanctum in a state of chaos can be okay with people.
So in short, having a clean and tody room, with a made bed, feels better.
Pepwaffle · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
love-of-whimsy · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How photos and film actually work. I just don’t understand
jerseygirlinmd · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Insurance (car and health) and the stock market
cornlover95 · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
TDO_PUDDING · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That clocks work when they aren’t on the wall
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand why some people (conspiracy theorists) will believe weird random stories they heard somewhere, and they sometimes can not even remember where they first it. However if they are presented with a research paper that gives enough detail to be able to replicate the study; all the statistics so readers can check results for themselves; reviews of previous articles; references; and a report written by someone who has most likely spent years researching the topic, they claim it’s a conspiracy and a manipulation
hectorrcassio · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who believe God is real. I wish I could. Not to offend anyone at all but I wish someone could give me a good reason to believe in the existence of an almighty figure, heaven and hell. Most of the time the only answer I get is "faith" with them getting mad at me for doubting or questioning it.
Domshous · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I need to learn all this stuff in highschool. Why do I need to know logarithms and how to convert moles of one thing to moles of another and than to grams.
Personally I’m going into the trades so math does matter to me and my future, but making me learn about how the mongols invaded China is useless to my future.
Personally I believe that highschool should be focused more on career exploration and how to live as an adult. I’m extremely fortunate to have a wood shop and metal shop at my school as well as the opportunity to take classes at the technical college.
Sadly a lot of my friends go to a school where there’s no mention of the ability of trade schools. I’ve had to teach people about carpentry and welding in my garage.
My school has never actually advertised the ability to do a trade. There are tons upon tons of universities and colleges that have banners and flags all over my school, but only once have I seen anything mentioning the trade school we have near us. Even the classes at dctc are restricted for highschoolers. I take an automotive class because it was the only opportunity for me to weld and just as we were getting into it the virus cancellation happened.
gyptii · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That when I eat a lot in the evening, I'm more hungry in the morning.
tripsteady · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are still able to support Trump
4seasons4ever · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people don’t text back
fancyllamapants- · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
New phone who dis?
d1n127 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people support trump and actually think he’s doing a good job.
Glenallen_Mixon22 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people be so dumb.
naco228 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. Got an F first semester. Then a D next semester.
a_do123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok dances
ShyLawn · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general
CommunistWaffle990 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trig. Just started it in Geo class and have no clue why any of the equations work. How do you know what Cos15 is withour using a calculator
jsmith05 · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everyone just accepts that Bitcoin was invented by some unknown dude that just happened to create a blockchain that’s unbreakable by the NSA.
D_U_S_K · 1 points · Posted at 00:19:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
justanotherperson_15 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is something instead of nothing
the-real-agent-crab · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
school
jasons060902 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bluetooth, it feels like magic.
gurgleglump · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people trust the government/ why we still have the amount of corruption we have in government. The governments track record for doing “the right” thing is horrendous, it’s like most Americans have Stockholm syndrome/ reminds me of someone in a really abusive relationship that makes excuses for a abusive partner “they promised they’d change! I can’t leave them!”
beautifulbuttnut · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
jocasseedave2 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people that draw disability checks and food stamps vote for conservative republicans, and demonize socialism...... I just can't understand it!
trebleclefjeff · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airplanes, why do they float in the sky?
sOmEOnEs_me · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why im reluctant to get in the shower but ince I get in I stay in for like 20 minutes
samless2 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit upvote system
AFP312 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That sixth sense.
When you just get a feeling that something is off, someone is watching you or that something is about to happen.
Often it's due to our brains picking little clues without us even notixing nut sometime, SOME-BLOODY-TIMES it is nothing but a gut feeling and it is right.
redskins5575 · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
,*,$ s
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How code works. Why does typing in a bunch of numbers or commands do things? Like who coded code to do that and who coded the code that codes the code?
Does it just exist- has it always existed?
itsmethatboythere · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can some people be so unaware of the people around them and be so egoistic , live in a egocentric world and they always think that they are right and have to do things first , even those small things. I still cant get those kind of people.
krakfiend · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Special relativity, space time. The faster we go, what we observe can appear to slow down. Time is also slowed down. How can time slow down, it's an abstract concept of measurement that we created. It's not real. So movies where we travel through time is false.
Acrdshyofafuldek · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logic, the college class. I could never wrap my head around it.
readditted · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This coronavirus
ric1969 · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Base 10 mathematics
madScientistDood · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the poor keep breeding slaves for the rich
CloutchasR · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why im a man and i have female breasts.....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the people are doing with math in things like Good Will Hunting and shit. I just don’t understand the point.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gaining weight.
I eat everything in the house and barely gain any weight,but then if I go to sleep or not eat for an 1 hour , I’ll lose 1kg. I dont understand
Mr_Magino_McMillian · 1 points · Posted at 00:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does Komm Susser Tod make people sad?
JHushen12 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, I’m sorry but as a young male I still find it hard to understand the needs and wants of women.
bigmakdaddy69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
kingdomofdramallamas · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The riddle in labyrinth of one of us tells the truth and one always lies and you have one question to work out which is the right way
Cael_of_House_Howell · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV displays or musical records that play on an actual record player work. Like do they just produce the sounds and colors? What?
Fix0000 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
TremorX · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it took humans so long to figure out flight. My son and I have this discussion often, and my hypothesis was that faster and smoother forms of land travel (cars, trains) made the concept of aerodynamic lift easier to grasp: eg, putting your hand out of the window of a moving car and angling it differently makes the idea of aero lift extremely obvious.
RVADoberman · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How toilets work. I have repaired and replaced many over the years, but I will be dammed if I REALLY get the physics behind it all. Plumbers are under appreciated.
quattrophile · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
Basic stuff like addition / subtraction / fractions / decimals I can do, but almost as soon as variables entered the scene all bets were off. Despite studying literal hours every day the best I could manage throughout middle and high school were Ds. In my first go at college I spent the money to get a tutor for math (which turned into four tutors as progressively each would give me a refund, apologize, and proclaim I just didn't understand it). Took a break for a few years and went to a different college a couple years back, and ran into the same issue.
So with literally thousands of both hours and dollars invested into trying to overcome the weak point I just accepted the fact that numbers loathe me and I won't ever be able to understand math.
imissdancing · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who work long hours at jobs where no one cares about this and there is no incentive to work long hours. These employees get paid no more and receive no additional credit for their toil. Usually, these folks end up burnt out and bitter. These are public sector employees, I don't get it!
Crafty292 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Still using Facebook. Wtf are you all doing??
SometimesImLonely · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Jamalan31 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Volts
hofoot29 · 1 points · Posted at 00:22:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe, what’s after life, space
gdickeyd92 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big boats float. Watched videos. Still dont understand.
Cafarak · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the exitement/reverence that people have for beyonce.
To me, she's just another fairly good singer. She doesn't give of a remarkable 'vibe' in interviews - she doesn't seem (to me, at least) to be any different from any other famous singer.
But for some reason she is a queen. I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
physics, which is a crying shame considering I'm doing physics at college
EGPL21 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people who are born deaf think? Do they have an inner voice? In what language do they think to themselves? Do they think purely visually and have no words associated with the images they see?
thegayhat_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why large empty rooms scare me. like a planetarium
02837471901 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think. With this covid stuff going on, people thinking Corona is related to coronavirus. People think 5g towers are related to this. Dont even get me started on anti-vax people. Like were they never taught science or common sense?
mrsmanzo · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings
icejam007 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people have a hard time understanding how 1 in 2 equals 4. All you have to do is extend the tail on the two and put the one half way through it.
Balcil · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prejudice
shewy92 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is at the edge of the universe and what would happen to you if you reached the edge. Like would you get stopped by something? YouTube videos about this subject don't answer this question, not even hypothetically "because it is impossible to know". Yet we hypothetically know what happens the closer to light speed you get and what could happen to you inside of a black hole because math or something.
Deaths_Lover · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat on their “significant others”
kennymc2005 · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
RedShortForNothing · 1 points · Posted at 00:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Telephones. HOW?!?
AmuseDeath · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily Trump supporters, but rather the cognitive dissonance with the average American in this country:
https://youtu.be/NzDhm808oU4?t=608
This lady says hiding thing is bad and when she is told Trump is blocking witnesses, she then resorts to saying "I don't care". It just goes to show how many people in this country and perhaps the world that are all about "teams" rather than being able to reexamine their held beliefs without feeling threatened.
XboxPlayer7S · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a memory stick used to only hold so much, but now can hold like 2tb or whatever
moosedeersheep · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
ktrainismyname · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of luxury brand name items. I get that there’s a quality differential but at some point it’s about the brand and like...WHY?
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How scientists and physicists can calculate stupid complex stuff like how far away stars are, and the temperature of far off planets by using math equations and rules. Mind boggling we can construct ways to find stuff like that out
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, distance starts by using the parallax method. Try holding out your finger at arm's length. Close one eye and look at it. Now close that eye and open the other. You can see that it shifts due to perspective. So we look at a star, and then six months later when we're on the other side of the sun, we look at it again. The difference in perspective is a measurable angle, and we know the diameter of our orbit, so it's just some basic trig to finish the equation. However, parallax only works for stars that are closer.
So we find certain stars with the parallax method. I can't remember their name, but using the parallax method we could tell these stars are always the same brightness. That means that we can look at how bright they look, and based off of how bright we know they actually are we can tell their distance. There are certain traits to identify these stars other than brightness, so that's how we know what they are to start with.
After that it gets a bit weird, but this works for many light years.
carjo2110 · 2 points · Posted at 03:27:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ya but there’s just so many other questions that stuff raises, even simple ones, like how do we know the diameter of our orbit?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it looks like that was figured out by using Mars as a reference. They were able to see how mars orbited, and they knew the distance between Earth and Mars. So they were able to take the change on angle over time and use math to figure out how far the Earth is from the sun.
carjo2110 · 2 points · Posted at 03:42:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did they know how far away mars was
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Looks like it was originally known how many times farther or closer to the sun a planet was relative to the Earth. We didn't know any actual distances but we could say mars was about 1.5 times further out than the Earth because of how much longer it takes to orbit. Then they used the parallax method to see how far Mars was from the Earth by checking the angle from two different points on Earth at the same time. So then they knew the extra .5 in orbital distance, so they could figure out our own. It was a bit inaccurate, but we got better equipment later on and improved.
carjo2110 · 2 points · Posted at 04:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you’re looking all this shit up as I’m asking you it you’re an absolute saint, and if you just know this shit, you’re a genuine. If I had any reddit gold or silver to give you i would
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well I did have to look up those last two. It seems like such a simple thing to know the distance to your own sun when you're measuring the distance to other galaxies that I hadn't really thought of it. So I learned some more too. Plus I like sharing about space. So this was fun. If you have any other questions about it let me know.
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok so how did we originally learn how far we were from the sun?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did I not explain that very clearly? I know I do that sometimes.
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t think you ever addressed it, but would we have used the parallax method again to see how far away the sun is?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So we started by figuring out the distance to other planets. We didn't know the actual distance, but we did know how many multiples of Earth's orbit they were from the sun, based on how long it took for them to complete one orbit. In Mars' case it's about 1.5 times as far as Earth's. So we didn't know the 1 of Earth's orbit, but we could use the parallax method to find that extra .5 that Mars orbits at. So we did that and figured out that it's closest point is somewhere around 33 million miles. So we knew that the extra .5 of Earth's orbit was equal to around 33 million miles (keep in mind these numbers are rounded a bunch for simplicity, they would have been more accurate than this). So then we knew how much one half of Earth's orbit was. Multiply by two and you're good.
Again, these numbers are relatively close, but not very accurate. And I hope this isn't too confusing. I'm having a hard time straightening this out into something I actually like.
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No that makes sense, do you happen to know anything about the parallax method, mathematically?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 15:42:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember the proof, but I don't remember the exact math.
Basically when you take those measurements you create a triangle. The two base points are your measurements, and the third point is the star. This is an isosceles triangle, since the distance from the two points to the star are the same.
We know the two base angles, and we know the length of the base. The basis of the proof is that with the width of the triangle and those angles, we know when the sides of the triangles will intersect. I don't remember exactly how it's figured out though.
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 17:41:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would the two base points be the same point from the sun? Aren’t different distances from the sun slightly at different points in the year?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but at the distances you're working with it gets you pretty close. Again, that early estimate was alright, but there was error in it. But once you have a specified distance to work with you could start to narrow your estimate more and more with more and more measurements. I'm sure part of it was that since we knew how far away they were we could now figure out their size. And once we know their size we can look at changes in size that come from the distance changing and narrow it down more.
carjo2110 · 1 points · Posted at 19:31:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ya so basically most of stuff we observe is a bunch of trail and error to get a more and more accurate answer
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would assume so. This would be back when all we had were optical telescopes, and information was shared much less efficiently than now.
Nowadays when we see something new we just keep looking at it for something to help us figure out what it is. The more information we have the better. Like that interstellar asteroid that came through a few years back. Pretty much every telescope and satellite suitable for it was pointed at the asteroid to see what it was.
Archeol11216 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
General relativity. What's the point of it and why cant it apply to literally everything?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How belief in God/belief in something greater than yourself, or any manifestation of faith is inherently worthy of ridicule and disrespect.
stucon77 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people walk towards oncoming traffic, in the road, when there is a sidewalk right next to them. Why walk in the road when there is a sidewalk right there? It makes no sense!!!!
Shockblocked · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why covid19 is so dangerous
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A large part of it comes from the fact that it can have up to a 14 day incubation period. You're still contagious during that time, but there's no sign of it unless you actually get tested. So you could be out there spreading it around for two weeks before you know you have it. If it weren't for that it wouldn't be so bad. It's not too terribly deadly, especially if you're otherwise healthy. It's just that so many people can get it, so even though a small percentage die, it's still a lot.
Shockblocked · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't other diseases have similar onset times though?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think most are closer to a week. If I'm wrong about that then I'm not entirely sure.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emilia fans.
Pungentstench69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lack of kindness, Most word problems or riddles (I interpret things not good) social cues, all of math past algebra one, maps, polygamy (kinda), political terms, the movie 'the arrival', cheesecake, coconut flakes, decaffeinated coffee, magnets, being aware my own struggle with mental health and still confused, hate on the Beatles or Led Zeppelin, polka, white reggae,
LightAnubis · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. Like savings and stuff. When I go to the personal finance sub it’s like they speaking a different language.
mkronenb · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How greedy people in positions of power can be
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people LOVE Waffle House.
I’ve tried it sober, drunk and high. The worst breakfast food I’ve ever had in the country. The only way I swear people love it is through nostalgia growing up with it, get to see your food being cooked, late night munchies or only having that as your diner; which compared to most diners is just.. really, really bad. I grew up in the NJ/NYC area, so I have been spoiled with great diners, but I’ve traveled enough to know it’s really not good.
I’m not saying you’re dumb or have a weak palate for liking it; I’m just saying the fan base is highly overrating it and delusional for thinking it’s god tier somehow. I mean, if it’s all you know, it’s all you know.
I also know most diners use minimal cheap ingredients because that’s how most run, but I’ve taken people there who enjoy basic, bland food and still hated it. I don’t get it.
drosen32 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space-time. I've read ELI5 explanations and just can't get it.
Billybandit · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I get in trouble when my partner says she'll eat anything and I bring back anything
dmcdjr76 · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
BigBadJohn65 · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why god gave me such a big dick and the ability to last so long!
morganraymo · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many people lack common sense.
lemortede3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computers
djpj1977 · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do we know the strong nuclear force is not just gravity? or do we really know? Protons and neutrons have to be extremely dense (for obvious reasons) which means their gravitational force per unit volume is idk thousands times greater than lead or gold. It seems like their gravitational force could overcome the electrostatic repulsion.
Busterathome · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why the government just can't just print enough money for what it needs. So all the needy charities will have enough money.
Trees_for_Mees · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation my guy
Elio200 · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the little voice in your head come from
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where at any giving moment be able to tell where North, East, South and West is?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:25:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
Trees_for_Mees · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
you just didn't REALLY need the money then
FlasKamel · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do really need the money
Trees_for_Mees · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then go to work
FlasKamel · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I probably will until I can pay rent for a time and then the circle continues. It’s painfully depressing
Kolobok42 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hate
PandaSounds · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The pythagoras thereom
Ceramic_Avatar221 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Math.
I fucking suck at math and arithmetic reasoning.
I can do the basics but for the life of me if I start reading a word problem it goes right out the window.
curlywatson · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do the birds find my bird feeders? Like, can they smell the seeds? I sometimes go days with empty feeders, but as soon as I fill them up, boom! Birds everywhere!
gunsgod · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Ha_Ha_V_Air_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic conversation.
mother_rebel · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can hurt another person wether it's emotional like cheating or physical like rape or killing
chesterhiggins · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The terms of twitch chat Pog, Pogchamp, weirdchamp, loggers, and others like it
thehenryshow · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Dow Jones
Vermonto · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of death, like it's easy to understand from the outside but if you die then your brain stops working. It isn't just "darkness", it's nothing, you physically can not experience anything anymore. The only way I can think about it is going under anesthesia but never waking back up. Even then you brain seems to function somewhat. I don't think it's even physically possible to imagine death or nothingness but I still try.
runsurf22 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
VEGANS
funkyaerialjunky · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The offside rule
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Of soccer?
funkyaerialjunky · 1 points · Posted at 12:00:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 15:52:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well ain't that perfect. I reffed soccer for a couple of years.
So being in offside position is legal. That's when you are behind the second to last defender. In most cases the last defender is the goalie, and the second to last will be a the next closest person to the goal. You can go back there with no problems.
The penalty comes when you participate in the play. Usually this is if the ball is passed to you. If you're in offside position when it's passed, and then you touch it, that's offside. If you don't touch it you haven't participated and so there's no penalty. If you're not in offside position when it's passed, you can then run into offside position to get the ball with no penalty. It all depends on where you are when the ball is passed. This is to keep offensive players from gaining an advantage. But if you're faster than the defence and run past them, there's no reason to penalize you.
There are two other ways to get penalized. If you block a defender from getting to the ball, that's a penalty. And if you block the goalie's view of the ball, that is also a penalty. Obviously you need to be offside when you do these for it to matter though. But any of these three things will be called offsides.
funkyaerialjunky · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then why is it not an illegal move to be somewhere where you will get penalised if you touch a ball coming your way? You know, to prevent that situation from coming up in the first place?
From a non football fan it feels like home brew rules to stop you playing within rules that are there. Like a video game exploit that makes you ‘that guy’ but is part of the game.....
Isn’t having a player (that’s good at offence) in the front in order to gain an advantage a sensible strategy for the game??
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 16:34:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because if you don't touch the ball, what advantage have you gained. Unless you gain that advantage, you haven't hurt the other team, and there's no reason to stop the play. It's to keep the players happy, really.
The offense will be upset if you penalize them because their teammate accidentally kept going towards the goal line when the defence stopped. And that would actually be a strategy of the defence to stop an attack. So you don't call a harmless activity, play continues, it's all good. But the defence are happy because you'll still call a penalty if an advantage is actually gained.
It could be compared to a "trifling" call. This is when a penalty technically happened, but it didn't really do anything. Say someone got a handball but the ball either didn't change course or it went immediately to the other team. Unless they clearly tried to hit it with their hands (in which case you stop it to prevent future infractions) the ref might just let it go. There's either nothing changed, or they've already been penalized because the ball just changed course directly to the other team. It could be called, but it doesn't really need to be.
PyroWizza · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like to throw up for kicks and giggles. Seriously, no part of throwing up is enjoyable. It's painful, messy and disgusting.
MrBoo_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand influencers.
heaven-in-a-can · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t understand that a mask is supposed to cover your mouth AND your nose.
Owensboro22 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do fish eat underwater
Drluiz06 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What you try to say if this message is for me cause I not understand your cuestione
Daydream-dilemmas · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our society is ran
The corruption and greed of our leaders. How willing everyone is to screw someone else over for a leg up. How it’s promoted to work your entire life away.
How helping others must be done with a return
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Monty Hall problem works, like how is it not a 50% chance?
TheDeadlySpaceman · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can fall for Republican talking points
Wisconski · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We all want world peace, but don't nobody want to take the first step by starting with themselves.
bananaftw1013 · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to return a damn rented modem from Xfinity
SAVAGEGAMER2211 · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I jump in my bed instead of walking to it when I turn off the lights
littering-is-bad · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How king crinson works.
BecauseGeicoCan · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girls are interested in men at least 1 foot taller than them like the talks about 6 feet guys. It is painful to lean over and kiss. Sex is a whole topic of even worse and awkwardness
StupidGirl15 · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math equations. I have number dyslexia and it's all jumbled mess to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is philosophy?
thdave · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy. I’ve got an engineers degree and worked in Thermodynamics. Never used it. Never understood it.
LoadingUsrname · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
American taxes
smashthecool · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many humans kill and eat other animals.
jokerevo · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
L I F E
chubbytumtumtummy · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People saying they are going to “write in” Bernie for president in the 2020 election... like how is that going to help anything.
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If enough people write him in, he can still win. It's probably not going to happen, but not impossible.
chubbytumtumtummy · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but in reality it’s just taking votes away from Biden which in turn helps Trump win....
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:14 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's people for you.
CommanderNeon10 · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
New fashion and social activities among female humans.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:27:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
coldflykid · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why arent all the states quarantined/lockdown
CLE_CoasterCo · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America's obsession with college sports.
dragonimposing · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the U.S. govt does not care about its working class people.
radbiv_kylops · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is energy? We can't directly measure it. Is it really just an imaginary quantity that happens to be conserved in physics problems?
Gunners414 · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animal crossing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market works
kait09tales · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Multi lane roundabouts/traffic circles/rotaries/etc
twinering · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Laws etc
bizkitD · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Digital coin mining
legitcursed · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand movie logic with guns, they can make you just back? No, it's supposed to be just a man falling over
groovieknave · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our healthcare system, our government, our judicial system, and why people continue to vote for liars and rapists. (USA)
Galaxy-R-Us · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings time. No matter how anyone explains it, I could never wrap my head around it.
lildryersheet · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to pronounce worcestershire
tydasilva_401 · 1 points · Posted at 00:28:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m never good enough for anybody
gooey285 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the United States economy works
SpudTheCrud · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how anything exists. It is equally as confusing to think that there was a start, as it is to think the universe always existed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Kenesiskill · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Compulsive liars.
Like I get you want attention but goddamn....
LOOK_THIS_UP · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who designed the Malibu maxx, the pontiac aztec or pt cruiser got paid for that, and those designs were approved. Also how they can sleep at night.
Wonder-warrior · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Federal reserve is called the Federal Reserve but in fact is a privately owned bank.
mikeandela · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to sail against the wind
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, they don't keep their sails perpendicular to the ship. That's only when they have the wind straight from behind. When it's at an angle they rotate the sails, so they're actually getting pushed to the side. But they have a keel on the bottom, which is basically a fin that runs the length of the ship. This makes the ship want to go straight ahead, and minimizes side slip.
So when they want to sail into the wind, they do a manuever called tacking. They sail at an angle slightly into the wind. They're also going a fair amount to the side though. If the wind is coming from 12 O'Clock, they're sailing towards 2 O'Clock. But they're still moving forward. After a while, they turn and start sailing towards 9 O'Clock. And they keep zig zagging. It's inefficient, but they still move forwards.
Zane17889900 · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
Lee0636 · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
WestSoft6 · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's easy...Men Lol!!😂
BabyFarkMcGeezAx92 · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maxwells equations governing electromagnetics. I have a physics degree and still don’t know what that shit says
MasterDredge · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
socializing
JolfsWorkshop · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people not quarantining and getting together with other people. Oh and also the COVID-19 challenge
flyingjabe · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fractions
ceedeez1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings.
Matstrenet · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers. Like, you are on your phone invented by science, denying science. The cognitive dissonance just blows my mind.
diesinPuertoRican · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some humans can witness the cruelest shit and have no empathy or remorse whatsoever even if they never suffered from anything in the past. Correct me if I'm wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how anyone on this planet tolerates mumble rap
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand why people on the internet will be downright cruel and judgmental, but would never do that in the real world. What is it about the internet that brings out really crappy behavior? Also, what do people 'get' out of trolling? Attention from people you don't even know?
It can't just be anonymity, can it?
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is. Anonymity is very powerful. I read that in the Nazi death camps they compartmentalized the people running it. The people guarding the prisoners are just keeping them contained. That's not too bad. The people putting the prisoners in the chambers could say they didn't kill them. They just put them into new cells. The people who activate the gas are the problem. There's nothing for them to do. So what they did was not let them see the prisoners, and not let the prisoners see them. That way, they're not actually hurting someone. They're just twisting a knob.
Same thing with online. There's no one there to hurt. It's just a screen.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OK, but how? What part of the human psyche allows someone to disassociate this when the connection seems pretty clear. I've read some truly horrific insults that people have made to others online - do they think this about people in real life in their minds but just not vocalize it - because that would be anonymous too.
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's because there's nothing that really forces you to realise that that's a person. It's just a name on a screen. In real life, you see them. You hear their voice, see some of their habits. So you can't deny that they're another human.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
saaberoo · 1 points · Posted at 00:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would still vote for Trump?
manwithabazooka · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory. I'd really love to but try as I may.. I fail
Aconite13X · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably already posted here but the die hard Trump supporters. Its cult like, I just dont get it.
Astyanax1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People voting against their own financial interests
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I just drool and I don't even notice until I feel something wet on my hand.
Leaves me puzzled all the time, "bruh why is my hand wet?"
SMKBLUE · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why during quarantine everyone is complaining but before everyone wanted a reason not to do anything
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because people don't like being told what to do. They like doing nothing when that's what they feel like, but if someone tells them to do nothing, they don't like it.
AaarghAWasp · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How working class people vote Tory.
BrdManInTheBrdMobil3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I tried out some quantum computing a few times.. just not for me
noremacheese · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phones
isitadorv · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand death. Very few people really can without the inclusion of religion. I have a fear of death but not in the sense that I fear death itself. I fear not living to my full potential. I have many aspirations that I’d love to achieve, however, death can interrupt it all and what happens to what makes me, me. The mental part of myself, not the physical, where does it go once I pass. Do I get stuck in a constant state of dreaming without the urge to ever wake up? Do I feel the great amount of dread that I have towards death relieve itself? Death is quite the subject to not understand in my mind.
CheshireSanity · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers went from being an entire room and now being in our pockets
bythegraceofgod2986 · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my 403b works.
diesinPuertoRican · 1 points · Posted at 00:31:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That oddly nostalgic feeling I get when I hear a sort of event for example "pov: she left you at the dance so you're crying in the bathroom". I know I didn't experience it but I still feel a sense of nostalgia.
10H13U0639 · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who scrape their teeth with an eating utensil everytime they take a bite of food. How do you do that? Wtf?! Every. Fucking. Time.
MinMaxPlatypus · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have to hate on games they clearly aren't the target audience for.
Also, people who play games and do nothing but hate on the game they're playing.
In both cases people have to hate like their life depends on it. It's beyond the 'cool kid' internet thing, it's like it's their justification for living.
If you don't like it, stop playing and walk away. If you didn't enjoy the experience, so you didwlike it and play your preferred game.
Another being why people have to hate so damn hard on any Final Fantasy that isn't their singular preference. I get it, you like that one specific thing, why can't I like my preference and we go about our respective times of day?
WalkerPhresh · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why society is required to pick up after their dogs, but police on horses soil every walking path and bike path and just leave it all over. (In Toronto)
SLeepy232 · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fucking rinnegan
JTDrift · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How torque is measured in physics, particularly in car engine output. I get foot/pounds as far as say a gun's explosive output when fired.
Will admit that I can never remember off the top of head if the number means amount of energy created to move a certain weight a distance of 1ft. Or, if the number means 1 pound moved a certain distance. But I get it.
But when I try thinking about torque, I just get lost and don't know what I'm looking at.
fencethe900th · 2 points · Posted at 00:44:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Torque is measuring the force (or weight or whatever) applied at a certain distance. If you have a wrench with a one foot handle and you push on the end of it with one pound of force, that's one foot pound. To find the foot pounds you just multiply the distance in feet by the force in pounds.
The reason distance matters is because it acts as a lever, so one pound at two feet is two foot pounds, one pound at three feet is three foot pounds.
daowel · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
sirskitt3n · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Code. Was just never able to pick it up. Then going for a traineeship in IT and being told no because I was a girl didnt help me want to learn. This was closer to 20 years ago. Damn that makes me feel old now!
JiffyDealer · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does x0 = 1
Chrisplayz4life · 1 points · Posted at 00:32:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French. Why the hell are there irregular verbes and male and female endings. Its like whoever made the language wants me to suffer
unknownbeaver32 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are anti-vaccination. There is no hard evidence that it causes autism, so why do you think that?
sunshinedb · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lightyears. People have tried to explain it to me but I've just never fully understood it
fencethe900th · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess I'll give it a shot. If you traveled at sixty miles per hour for 8 hours before stopping you would have traveled 480 miles. You could call that a day's travel. So a year's travel at 8 hours a day every day would be 175,200 miles.
Light travels 186,000 miles per second. So a day's travel for that (8 hours, just like yours), would be 5.356 billion miles. And a year's travel (this time going non-stop) is a light year, or about 5.88 trillion miles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything posted and upvoted on r/streetwear. I'm not even that old, I'm in my 20s but if I saw people wear that shit outside I would legit laugh. Genuinely not trying to be rude as I understand people have unique tastes, I just don't get it.
johnno149 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an autogyro works
Powerfuljmbgdly · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m still single or so bored 😫
Mr_556 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
Bpeori4204 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. I feel its so vast, that I can't begin to wrap my head around any of it.
youngdumbgrumbum · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. I'm often able to effectively predict their actions but I've never been able to really understand a person's mind and what they're thinking when they make those decisions.
sequoia2075 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain, and I’ve tried
PuzzleheadedRespect4 · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why hasn't the IRS AND the Treasury figured out how people on SSI would be getting their stimulus money? They already have their banking information, and they CAN'T file that so called "simple file" because they don't give you the routing number
janessagreen · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm Asian, and I need to know: why do people wear shoes in the house??? Doesn't it track a bunch of dirt and gross things onto your carpets and floors? Also, wearing shoes is so uncomfortable. Someone please enlighten me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gossiping and not liking people unless it's because they're mean to you
Lord_Jebus_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminism
Cyrigg · 1 points · Posted at 00:33:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Killing for religion
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romance and sex
Sw33tN0th1ng · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean?
P0l1zistensohn · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The financial system like stocks and trading and banks and stuff. I just can’t fathom it. Why is it a whole financial crash when one bank goes bankrupt like in 2009?
TheZanyth · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moving time ahead and backwards. Like. You move it ahead but it goes backwards and vice versa. Like. What
ProDiesel · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trash television.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people exist without budgeting.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hate getting in the shower and why I don't want to leave the shower.
Battedjack1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This has probably been said a million times already but what what what what seriously WHAT is the obsession with toilet paper during this pandemic? Exactly what about this virus compels people to buy toilet paper en masse? It’s dying down now but during its peak I remember Walmart still having plenty of food/water etc. (in other words things you need to survive) but they were still absolutely out of toilet paper.
kingkongbananakong · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
Revan_of_Carcosa · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife
graycloud9 · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The differnce / importance of 5' and 3' in DNA replication
Traumx17 · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just cant understand statistics. Like I get the basic stuff ( 3 doors pick one, are offered to pick a different door, is it safer to stay with first pick or change?) but once you get into heavier stuff I'm at a loss.
I dated a girl who did research compiling data sets and my pa Is a medical researcher they would get off on these topics and try to explain how 2 things are the same when they shouldn't be or 2+2=7 or whatever idk I cant even explain it. Like the basic math I know and understand just doesnt work for that kind of problem and I'm just lost. They always tried to explain it but just not something I can wrap my head around.
Istolejokes · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people play Fifa
-delightfull- · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drawing
SR_estroncio · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious fanatics who believe that epilepsy is removed by exorcisms and who believe that cancer and homosexuality are cured with prayer, even going to extremes of believing that the earth is flat and that vaccines are bad and cause autism, throwing blaming all the evils of the world on the devil, for them to do, literally their history is corrupted by the power they wished, modifying the bible to cover up and erase pagan festivities, making all its "truth" end a hundred and one tangle of lies and indoctrinations
PigsCanFly2day · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work?
P0l1zistensohn · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people thought and still think voting for Trump would be a good idea.
Salman_Abbas_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an electron can exist in 2 places at once
Andy-Alonso · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why billionaires need to keep making money, or even exist.
Somekindofbear · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human contact
KidGloves45 · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've had it explained to me a billion times, but I still simply cannot visualize how big and acre is.
shay_shaw · 1 points · Posted at 00:35:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how pundit squares work.
AndrogynousHobo · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and investing. No matter how many times I learn, I still don’t really understand it.
reach_for_the_bleach · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to play uno
Luko2912 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How on earth does a Torque converter work. I get the turbine blade part stuff but the physics behind it just make me think.... how can a fluid transmit power?!?!?!
Giantflyingbirds · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neon Genesis Evangelion.
happyfaceoten · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my laptop's audio services died amidst this corana pandemic, I mean cmon does it have to be this kind of time ive got alotta gaming to do and a bunch of art to finish!!
pmak13 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms. If they repel each other do we actually touch anything? If not, how do we know something is hard and something this furry etc
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be $1000 away from bankruptcy their entire lives and never make any effort to become more financially independent.
i_would_fuck_addison · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people keep buying up all the toilet paper at the store.
Just because we can't leave the house doesn't mean I'm shitting more often than before.
Meme-2 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electron shells: Atomic are somewhat easy to grasp for me, but electron shells just don't clock.
MrClovvn · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone trying to justify more than 2 genders.
Harganfliffle · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we evolved from sea dwelling creatures to be able to live on land. I understand how evolution works in a general sense with a genetic mutation sometimes allowing a species to have a better chance of survival/reproduction. I understand how land creatures evolved and how sea creatures evolved and could explain a simplified version of it to someone, but when it comes to the first sea creature to live on land I would have no idea.
mumbojumboname6427 · 1 points · Posted at 00:36:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How antivaxxers take one retracted study as gospel and reject hundreds of other studies.
the-earthmaiden · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If rude people know they are being rude, and do they care???
TY7676 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can keep denying in the face of overwhelming evidence
FloopedPig · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft coordinates
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just blindly hate things like Fortnite. It’s a fine game, it’s just like Minecraft. They are both popular games with annoying fan bases, but also fun gameplay. Is it just because Minecraft is more nostalgic? Monkey see, monkey do.
McClucker_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spacetime. So lost.
Lightmarked · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. It's the reason I switch my major from computer science to accounting.
TH3xD3VIN3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US government is so corrupt we have no possibility of fixing it.
Dolobene · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inferring investment decisions from charts of any asset
dazatron420 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
KELLHunter121 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
GratefulDadHead · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slope and pi
velvetstallion · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the government borrow money from?!
prophetKi · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely Women
gentleplant · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic Chemistry
bearr_baitt · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i genuinely don’t understand why i am the bad guy for not tipping. society has constructed a system where employers get off scott free for paying their employees next to nothing and making them rely on the tips of their customers to support them financially. when i purchase a good or pay for a service, i shouldn’t be looked at sideways for not throwing in extra money, especially when someone expects to be tipped for such a low level service (delivering pizza, filling my cup with water, driving me for A to B). idk, maybe i’m wrong, but i see a problem with the world where i am supposed to feel guilty for not tipping, especially when the company they work for could just pay their employees basic living wages..
CarlSpencer · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who enjoy crappy beer like Bud Light. Honestly, WTF?
Beasides · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oops, that’s me!
CarlSpencer · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But WHY? There are literally hundreds of different beers, the vast majority of which are BETTER.
MisterReese2019 · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redditors taking Reddit seriously. Especially over jokes
criminal_baker · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules of small claims court
The-Mariana-Trench · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the sun shines, the moon shines but the earth doesn’t shine. For real, I can’t comprehend how the moon reflects light I guess and makes itself visible with a holo around it depending on which part of month you see the moon.
I might be silly but I have not understood this fact. For some reason I can understand or make sense of another human and give a gist about them without ever talking to them, through mannerism and body language but this Moon phenomena has bothered me much more than you can imagine.
If anyone can break it down, I’d be up to learn the basics of it.
Peltii · 1 points · Posted at 00:37:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As European I don't understand the candidates people vote for in USA.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life
Lboogety · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
5n0wm3n · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people buy water, half the time tap water is fine, I kinda get it if you live in america/ Canada because it tastes funny over there.
Poko8105 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Villagers in minecraft
matteritdoesnt · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
SadPanda_7 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer chips work, like how do a bunch of different pieces put together make up in the inner workings of a computer then output it to a monitor.
MrClovvn · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve always been fascinated by CDs. Like, how does a laser hit a piece of plastic spinning really fast and you get noise. Not just any noise. Noise placed on the plastic circle that when hit correctly by a laser it plays exactly the same noise you put on the disc.
the_grumpiest_guinea · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my boss reopened the business durning quarantine.
Chickensoup127 · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get a job
Miguethor · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a camera works. How can something capture an image from real life? It's crazy if you think about it.
Bremmylol · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:38:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
my kids 'new math'. Only half the class shows up, but the teacher does an hour of class over Google Hangouts.
He knows it, but a general question sometimes I'm completely lost on the method he does to get the answer
Baysara · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who likes and uses tiktok
DiarrheaOutMyPeehole · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What in the hell a title company does and why it’s necessary
CherryAlmondGirl · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Postmodernism. I reckon it’s a conspiracy - nobody really knows what it is, they just say they do to make themselves sound smart.
Steben-Weeben · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
EnjoyLifeLikeAMOFO · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I crave the McRub knowing that it is slowly killing me.
rayon875 · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infinity of space
princessly143 · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people are extremely cold and evil Iam sure everyone is different and we have our own story but it really scares me how some people are truly evil. Iam not saying iam perfect, i have done things i now regret but feeling remorse and compassion have never been an issue for me. when i see cold people it just makes no sense to me.
I could never help but think 100 times every night over everything bad i have done that day. I remember i stepped on a snail and that haunted me for weeks, i cried and cried because of that so how come a person is willing to kill or rape someone? I guess i will never know 😣
peanutbutterscousin · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i have to take gen ed classes that have nothing to do with my major
pjc6068 · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
MysticAmberMeadow · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm confused on drug lingo.
Like did everyone but me have a secret meeting to figure out all the workings of drugs, approperate mesurments, methods on consumption, things that are weed but are different (like wax, sativa, etc.). I got scammed from a "friend" because I was so uneducated on all of this.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cliché, but antisemitism. I just don’t get the thousands of years of Jew hatred across the continents and centuries. What the hell is so wrong with Jews???
I have hypotheses about why people don’t like them, but at the end of the day it just doesn’t make sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
OmegaMountain · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theoretical physics.
Dexter_Adams · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where my god damn 10mm is hiding
BusterHolewell · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singularity.
AndreMeyerPianist · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think 5G causes coronavirus
kken21 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea that certain letters make certain sounds in the alphabet.
Sometimes I’ll just stare at letters and be so confused about how someone said “this letter here sounds like this” and it’s rattling.
XiaoWuLee · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life man, just life...
Randominister · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
-_- A lot..
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How men justify giving money to e-girls. E-girls will never love them back, yet some men give literal thousands of dollars a month.
cmatth12 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many extraordinary or anomaly events are caught on camera
reyrey412 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This website
morilythari · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How early homo sapiens lived in caves for thousands of years with no progress and now all of life changes every few years.
UA09 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Wife Zayba
TerranOrSolaran · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can’t people just be nice to each other?
Imporeo · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people actively vote against their own interests in elections.
iamtheletterh · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea why people get angry
veekay19 · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
DATING
darfini · 1 points · Posted at 00:40:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AutoCad for commercial kitchen design- any takers to help me out??!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The greater than and less than signs. Lmao. I know it’s very dumb but I never understood it in school and probably never will. For some reason it doesn’t click.
Beasides · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember learning that the alligator is very hungry, so he needs to eat the bigger number. Ex: 9 > 1
KickHodorInTheBalls · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics. In general. Even more so towards the beginning of the age of the telephone. A wire transferring sound and a speaker interpreting it back to the actual sound.
thomport · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why most organized religious communities single out gay people as not being worthy of respect. Insinuating that they actually did something wrong. Subsequently they chronically persecute them and will do anything they can to hinder their lives. But then deny they carry-out these behaviors.
Vivinho3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is the president of the U.S.A 🤷🏻♂️
bloodclots12 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music. I love it, but trying to learn a instrument is painful, my brain just doesn't understand it
off-chka · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the earth is round. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that it’s round, but how are people in the southern hemisphere not upside down?! I just don’t get it!!
PhoenixQueenAzula · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people purposely have children.
Mlgguy82 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If energy can not be creater nor destroyed, then how does energy exist?
BubbeHero · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how to solve a Multiplication equation that’s on top of each other for example 156 X 34 ———-
Never been good at math growing up lol (Phone format my bad )
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Electoral College. I’ve read about it each election and had smarter friends explain it to me. I still don’t understand why we elect that way.
Mellow_Meow · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just how poor human social society is
Daniel24035 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
TiddleLittle · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People still laughing at “conspiracy theorists” while locked in their own homes, voluntarily.
RaedwaldRex · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of god/religion. I don't get it, I really don't. It's a mass of contradictions, dullness and rules you have to adhere to for seemingly no reason. I get people have faith and want to believe in things, that bring them comfort and hope. I get that and there's nothing wrong with it but looking deeper into it and it makes no sense to me whatsoever.
Maybe it's the fact I found church tedious, religions all seem dull, things all seem to be forbidden, and prayers don't work; yet if you are not down on your knees worshiping the one true creator absolutely, you are punished for eternity no matter what you do. I don't get how people think this is a rational thing to believe in.
highonlifekid · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark matter
vlcal · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Clammyhandstony · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a needle pressed against a big plastic disc transmits music out of my speakers. I’ve had a sound engineer try to explain it to me but for the life of me I cannot wrap my head around it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 00:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sound is cut into a vinyl using a type of lathe, depth=shape of soundwave. Then they stamper a negative copy of record onto metal. They then take the stamper and push it into vinyl and voila!
Noobmaster912 · 1 points · Posted at 00:41:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Big companies when they try to make a political statement and when it backfires it's on us.... cough Hollywood cough cough.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why talking about money is perceived as rude
Norrin_Radd71 · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coronavirus.
carzarIV · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jews. Fuck ‘em.
code-right · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
ConstipatedUnicorn · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think it's 100% ok to be out and about during a shelter in place order just because it's Easter weekend. Like, these stupid fucks understand that they won't just rise from the dead if they die of Corona, nor anyone else they kill via exposure. Wtf. Stay the fuck home you selfish cunts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t simply leash their dog in parks and on trails.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
stormybitch · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. How the economy works. Why can’t we just print more money? Why does it matter if there’s more money in circulation? Isn’t it only as valuable as we say it is? Idk man
Kolenga · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't understand how there can be different sized infinities. I heard all kinds of different explanations and watched many videos about it and I get their point, but it just doesn't make sense to me.
MSIRISH1919 · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bitcoin works...? And you mine it?? Like, wtf???
f00lonthehill · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyl records work. I understand how the system works and amplifies the sound, but how the hell does one needle moving across a groove of vinyl perfectly reproduce a stereo version of music including all the intricacies, human voice, guitar, percussion, bass? 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crochet. I got as far as learning the knot thing at the beginning and cannot work that shit out!
Scott_Uzumaki · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone could want to raise a child/children
-Sanctum- · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Morons breakin quarantine because:
they "are bored of staying at home"
they "can't infect otherd if there's no one nearby"
they "want to party" (aka the "Floridian Springbreaker" excuse)
my favorite: "wE aRe bAtHeD iN ThE bLoOd oF JeZuS!!"
Seriously. Stay the FUCK home.
Signed,
A redditor in one of the afflicted countries with 4 elder relatives and 6 other relatives - all at risk of contraction.
McC0CK · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This life I’m living?
creamybaileys_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantitative easing. Where’s the money come from?
CapraDamron · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in the hell people play Animal Crossing. I just... It does not make sense to me. I don't get it.
thechurchofcage · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people are so very fucking stupid
Matt18002 · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to sail a boat
kimchikonchii · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry. I can solve the problems by rote but i've never "got" it
emilicia · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can wake up early and never feel tired
kjvlv · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity
How you put water on a spinning sphere and it does not slide to the bottom of the sphere.
My wife.
Carliesmith11 · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the FUCK did Helen Keller read, talk or survive? I'm convinced she's an urban myth.
Tildisp · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?!
thatiswhathappened · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain and Bitcoin
kassi0peia · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the universe can be infinite
lastruve · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seriously don’t get how to make a budget and manage my money. And now with hours cut due to c-19, I need to figure it out!
SoullessSenpai1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How high school girls think that they are better than the rest of the school just because they are cheerleaders or something like that. I'm a junior now (because of the beer flu) and I've been to two different high schools and I have yet to meet a humble cheerleader. Another thing is how high school boys can be such a dick to quiet kids like me sometimes. Smh people cant just let quiet kids be.
PhantomBelow · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whoever I'm using my phone before I go to sleep, I feel really tired. So I put it down to go to sleep and I'm wide awake, just laying there like a dumbass.
the_deepstate · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Murder. I just don't get how some people can take it upon themselves to end the life of another who is doing no one any harm.
chrismcteggart · 1 points · Posted at 00:43:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Logan76667 · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jerks.
From my perspective, some people are just assholes to others, and I don't get how you can be such an ass... Are these people not aware that they're being jerks? Do they not care? Are they enjoying it? It makes no fucking sense to me.
CougarBait9120 · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot fathom why people live there lives chewing with their mouth open. Sure, most of the time you don't actually see the food BEING chewed... But that sound... THE SOUND
Billybandit · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The worst thing... ever!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
Billybandit · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gotta lie your way outta the lie
debunkdattrunk · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
falcon1269 · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand radiation no matter how much I read about it...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i haven't killed myself yet.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything wireless works...Sending voice messages for example: How do the soundwaves from your voice get coded into your phone then sent to halfway around the world for someone to listen to? I'm sure it's actually pretty simple but I just never take time to learn about it.
Hotinthakitchen1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
MainelyBlond · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Boswellboxer · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to feel normal and not the odd one out
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life. The brain. Depression. The meaning of all my suffering.
Hermanwangtoe · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the world are we going to get back to "normal" if there is no mass Covid-19 testing ? As it stands now my county has tested less than 1% of the population and they keep telling everyone they have a handle on the situation. The reality is they don't have a freaking clue due to not testing.
SpaceSeahorse · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms. I just can't grasp how every part of an atom works, or exacly how they interact.
Nekaz · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obsession with drinking and drugs. Gave it a go in college and i was like EH.
Joe_bob_Mcgee · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is a man in office disassembling our government, one chunk at a time, and nobody gives a shit?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monosexuality
lamsham69 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Televangelists!!! Guys like Kenneth Copeland, why people believe stuff like that and they don’t see the scam it really is.
huxley00 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ITT a bunch of privileged folks confused by the leisure that privilege allows them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Marxist theory.
I'm trying to, 'rads, really.
CampFlogGnaw1991 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to use safety wire
bumpkinspicefatte · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to create a binary search tree in Python.
I’ve tried watching some videos and reading up about it. I think I understand it from a high-level, I just can’t seem to do it.
trashaccount996 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How dogs evolved from wolves like you see a wolf and it’s a HUGE fucking animal but then you see a chihuahua and wonder how that became to be
hakongeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gay people
dacool66 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people make fun of people for crying
iStealyournewspapers · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Fuck it.
Calment45 · 1 points · Posted at 00:45:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
EuphorMar · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of romance movies, feels like there is nothing here.
BK_Randy95 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly can't comprehend how camera's take pictures, it's literally magic in my mind
Amefarser · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My job
Goomfulus · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell people snap their fingers.
Moe_Problems · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone thought Donald Trump would be a good president.
MysticMusc · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SIDS
Droopyzebra50 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
Breeze_Tome · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I fell like I’m walking weird when I have my hands in my hoodie or pockets
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French
goblin_dikmasher42 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people act the way they do these days
mule401 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market, high finance type stuff. Just really don’t understand the ins and out. Mostly because I don’t care. I think it’s largely bullshit (sorry for my language).
Dude36593 · 1 points · Posted at 00:46:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
SandboyNull · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Guilty beyond reasonable doubt”
I know what it means, but it takes me a long time to fully remember what it’s true meaning is.. especially in situations where understanding said phrase is required for further analysis.
Tomato_Thomass · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why i have to take online classes when we should be worrying aboit the disease, not our grades
AdrNTrades · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why they didnt close the borders right away when corona happend
sparky76016 · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humanities. What the fuck is it, I have no clue.
ocolgan · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never know the difference between adjectives, verbs, nouns, pronouns etc. I've googled it many times and always forget what they mean
I-AM-YOUR-KING-BITCH · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No one is going to see this so I'll say how to make friends.
Like is that even real?
zaimc · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
james bond movies
Thousandwall896 · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have such a hard time changing my diet. I am an extremely picky eater, and I have been my whole life. I don't eat any fruits or vegetables besides potatoes and, rarely, spinach. I don't like wheat bread, yogurt, cottage cheese, steak, eggs, most kinds of pasta, etc. I can't eat healthy, and it's not even that I won't, if I try I just gag to the point of vomiting. I can put healthy stuff in my mouth but after two seconds of chewing I have to spit it back out.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?
Kachian · 1 points · Posted at 00:47:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
dartmorth · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a hollaback girl is.
darrenwise883 · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump can say untruths and it seems ok . How he can make it up as he goes along and when questioned on it , it's the reporters bad for doing their job for us . We can't ask him , the reporters NEED to , so thank you reporters for doing your job in the face of baby's crying unfair . And the risk of being kicked out of the club unfairly .
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics. As a person with a math degree, I got further lost the longer I studied the depths of the subject. It'll drive you mad if you let it.
Expert_Yeti · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
GnathusRex · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to "mine" Bitcoin, and why that affects the price of video cards.
dudewithamind · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I can get verified for the r/selfie on Reddit, I posted me verification photo ):
Willbane · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How calculators work
ClowxReed · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
General theory of relativity.
ZachSbeve · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My exsistence
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between “effect” and “affect”. I google it regularly and still never remember or understand.
Stormerthewolf · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When Karens are genuinely convinced that vaccines are bad or cause autism
1_ofthesedays · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flexible grid DWDM networks.
DudeTheGray · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think I'll ever be able to understand baseless prejudice and hate.
I've hated people before, like the kids who bullied me so mercilessly in school that they nearly drove me to suicide. I've hated institutions, like the corporations whose avarice is sucking our planet dry. I've even hated concepts, like inequality and injustice.
But an entire group of people? Hundreds, thousands, millions of people who I've never met and never will meet? How could I possibly hate them? How could I have any feelings for people I don't even know?
And yet, so often I've heard statements like "Gay people are an abomination unto God" or "Men are evil" or "Arabs are animals." And I honestly, truly, simply cannot understand them. How do you know that all men are evil? What evidence do you have that all arabs are animals?
I don't know. Maybe I'm just naive. But fuck, if being "mature" means comprehending baseless hatred, I think I'm better off like this.
-Holiday-Armadillo- · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How observing atoms can change them. I don’t think this can ever make sense to me.
AbsurdMasochist · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People when talking to them on the phone. I get a lot of human sounding static, with a few intermittent words. If I hear the right words, I can infer what they're saying. If not, I tend to guess.
erzyabear · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does the universe follow simple equations like e=mc2.
ricolausvonmyra · 1 points · Posted at 00:48:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That many people generally tend to prefer texting over real face to face interaction nowadays. How can you say you know a person if you never met that person in real life?
armaedes · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The offsides penalty in soccer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can become "friends" with someone, and years later, you find out that they were completely fake, but ignored that fact because of a friendship you spent years building with that person.
snasna102 · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've always wondered why we use the words we do... some one looked at 2 people fucking and said "look they are having coitus "
xoxfangirl · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes . I just can't wrap my head around it.
mnmotxca · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism.
xStanoeski · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
MarburyReed · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the fuck they put music on a disc.
D_D_Jones · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind
crypticstencil · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras and televisions work.
BusyAccountant90 · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How law enforcement can get peiple to confess to crimes they didn't commit.
MRethy · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
They’re just witchcraft
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cult of the orange one. I genuinely don’t understand how so many people can be so dumb and easily manipulated.
bobcat633 · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
trump voters. Of course I don’t expect that uneducated lot to be sophisticated and avid readers. But geez. Voting for trump is like 2+2=9 simple. Dumbest people around
pichael288 · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computer gets from electron spin states to what you see on your monitor. I understand it at the base level and the higher levels of programming, but not the part in the middle
snottythekid · 1 points · Posted at 00:49:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people are shopping like it’s black friday every day..
Raffro98 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why thanos didn’t just recreate the universe from the start
VengeanceKnight · 2 points · Posted at 00:53:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because he wanted to prove that he was right about how Titan’s overpopulation should have been handled.
Raffro98 · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanos was right tho? If you reset everything with the mindset that if we limited our endeavours etc the universe wouldn’t outgrown itself, he was right all along
VengeanceKnight · 2 points · Posted at 00:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But he still has to murder untold trillions to make it happen.
Raffro98 · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
He didn’t care about the trillions, surely the entirety of the universe is more important
Raffro98 · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree with you but surely he could’ve seen that a complete restart was better than just 1/2 of everything, at that point Titan was already destroyed
VengeanceKnight · 2 points · Posted at 00:59:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eh. There’s a reason he’s called “the mad Titan.”
Raffro98 · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
True I suppose but I always enjoy a good discussion, glad you replied vengeance!
Thieri · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US voted in Trump.
Ryker62 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who wear ripped jeans. Just, why? How is that appealing to you?
allhail18 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
computers. Seriously... on off on off on off... and i get to type this? makes no sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
Cmander0789 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who STILL...after all the fuck-ups and stupidity, support Trump and hang on his every word as if it’s gospel. It literally strains my brain.
emeeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic Chemistry. I can’t rotate 3D objects in my head while adding and subtracting molecules. My brain just can’t do it.
cyberslash44 · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry the whole lot of it , I really didn’t comprehend most of it in school ; seems like a cool subject now that I look back on it .
piakii · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don’t understand how someone can leave you high and dry without feeling bad
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump’s coronavirus response
TennisADHD · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets.
VengeanceKnight · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. To quote Grant Morrison, “How the $&@# do they work?”
worldisovah · 1 points · Posted at 00:50:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perception of the self. I am a non-religious person, thus I don't believe in souls or anything else as the source of what makes us human but one's brain.
And every time I fall in that thought it keeps leaving me astonished. I mean, imagine a person who had a lobotomy or a part of the brain removed, one that has amnesia, other that has a neurodegenerative disease or even plainly simply your own brain over the years.
If the interaction between neurons RIGHT NOW is what you are NOW, what would it mean to be in one of there situations. Would it mean you're not exactly you anymore? Is it the same when you grow up and get old?
Imagine for example, in an attempt to become immortal you start replacing every single neuron in your brain, one by one with mechanical ones. Of course a single neuron being replaced won't make noticeable less you, but what about a couple millions... over time your entire brain is replaced with billions of robotic neurons. Would that still being you? Would that be the same (assuming their behaviour is the same as their biological counterparts) as getting old? So would it mean we're just... information? Is our conciousness not the physical structure but the interaction taking place there? So what would be to be dead if you can simply copy that interaction in a brand new mechanical brain all at once and not gradually? What would it be if your old is reactivated while the new one also is active? Being a physical support much like it's biological counterpart, would be able to do the same in the future? I think it would present the same questions then.
Then what is to be dead, what is to be alive really? I'm not the first nor the last one to make these questions. This is pretty much the paradox presented by the "Ship of theseus", created hundreds of years ago between Plato and Heraclitus but just most modern.
gulagula · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics.
DavidicusIII · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does the hate for the US postal service come from, and why? Both politically and at the local level. I’ve never had a problem or a bad interaction with them, whereas FedEx and UPS have both made me drive 30 minutes out of my way to retrieve my packages at one time or another.
Unostril · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why naming a product after a person (ex: Ben and Jerry’s, Dean’s, McDonald’s, Wendy’s, etc) is a much more popular concept in America than anywhere else in the world
JuliusTiny · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum computing
some1_told_me_to_ · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
normal__ · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those fairy videos on tiktok
IntrovertedBox · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
Saucetheb0ss · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Volts, amps, ohms, etc. I've been told basic concepts but nothing seems to ever stick.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a kilogram of steel isn't heavier than a kilogram of feathers
walebrush · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still think the earth is flat. I don't understand how they can still boleave it dispute disproving themselves with their own experiments on multiple ocations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wup-deedoo, off to controversial I go...
703rd · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a narrow window of grocery shopping hours help lower the spread of disease? If anything they should be encouraging off hours shopping
segruee · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transgenderism. The idea of being born into the wrong genders body makes zero since to me. I accept it, I support it, but I do not understand it
Tod_Vom_Himmel · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
MrAsync · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck school systems are so stupid
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People liking beer
HipHopulous · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
cueroybotas · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
Scientist78 · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to see those one pictures that you have to stare at and the 3D pictures pop out. I have NEVER understood how people can do it :(
emeeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t vaccinate their kids. There was one ‘study’ that said vaccines cause autism and it was proven to be completely false. The benefits to vaccines are so obvious, especially with what’s going on with COVID-19.
gaarylasereyes · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we actually need the electoral vote
IamEli247 · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
renny_g · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of simultaneous time; that linear time is a manmade concept. My father tried to teach me this from when I was little, but I still don't understand at 33.
YaBoiTTT · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
gravity. Just why and how does it even exist
Alpakat35 · 1 points · Posted at 00:52:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Architizer97 · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. I've had them explained to me multiple times. I didn't know you get taxed for literally everything including what laminate flooring you have. Money is ridiculous. Adulting is hard
Ooovooo-Javer · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The logistics of time travel. Like you go back in time to do something and when you catch up to the time you time travelled from you technically have yo continuously do it again or you technically never went back since the intimate time loop wasn't completed. No wonder people haven't invented it yet is because it's literally impossible.
butteredtoast622 · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
WabbitCZEN · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transmissions. I'm in the auto industry, and those fucking things are witchcraft to me. I get the mechanical innards, I understand the process that they utilize. It just doesn't make any fucking sense.
reefsurfing · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets!!
How the fuck do they work??
Hype_Flame · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How all my friends talk and hang out like family while I am nervous as frick
Lulz5776 · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
KlumsyNinja42 · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking taxes. I’m paying so much on taxes and I have no idea why. Going to the tax man soon...
Busterathome · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't understand that some single mothers who are struggling get pregnant again while already struggling with money and life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The full Political compass.
Not_Seojoon · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people aren’t already dead or injured from stupid shit they’ve done
st2yp05 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why girl throw hints. Just make a move dude, im dumb af and hints go right above my head
Ants3548 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people disregard facts
TheMuffinMan-- · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming in the context of 3D.
I've been an indie game dev for a decade, love making 2d games and whatnot. But the concept of 3D and its math, just blows my mind. I always try to watch online tutorials, get hyped, start my own project and then get lost again. Done this cycle probably 4-6 times a year, I just don't think my brain can comprehend it.
alexw117 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens to information that enters a black hole.
manityamtime · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How data and things like video or audio are sent through the air or cable. Like I don’t see how something could be able to convert a band playing a song and send that to someone’s home computer where it is played in hi def and perfect audio.. even am fm radio amazes me . I get that it is data being sent and then replicated by said computer or receiver but it’s still crazy to me.
Jarmahent · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Function decorators in python 3. Ive been programtwith othon for a while now and I just don't get them.
Bambi-Reborn · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a color of your skin can make such a big deal.Where you grow up or where you came from and traditional habits and beliefs , Maybe , but color of skin is so shallow some times I think people should be born blind so we would see the inside of a person not the outside. How people believe and do would tell who they are.
inkyboii12 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ur mom
urgent45 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness
31engine · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bachelors in Physics and Masters in Engineering. I don’t understand eigen values.
baldamazon · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people have synesthesia and others don't. What exactly causes the brain to be able to see music as colors and tastes as numbers??
Marcsherif · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happiness
ThisDisaster3 · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
bubzor888 · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain. I’m pretty savvy in CS and math and I just can’t get my head around it
Smashedwhale72 · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
poppcorrn · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Boners
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly.... Everything. I literally feel like I'm walking in the dark when it come to doing life.
sigisty · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Optical fiber
SuddyDaNoob · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The things with the centuries. I still don’t understand it.
Theredtomcat · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time, just confuses me to much.
paxo_1234 · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can loose feelings but then come back and say they didn’t
SibbyLaFonda_New · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karen
DeepPackage · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Niiicksjk · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the earth is flat
disneyfastplay · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how we discovered things
I can understand how individual things work but how did someone figure out the intricacies of things without the knowledge that we have after the invention exists. Idk if this makes sense i just think about it often
yearofthesquirrel · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I can't get my head around volts, amps, ohms, no matter how well it is explained to me...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do add binary. I dropped my uni paper on it because I just don't understand how to do it, no matter how much I went over the lectures or looked it up.
ninesofeight · 1 points · Posted at 00:55:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
dougy181 · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Although I read the wikipedia article,I still don't understand why gravity is a curvature of spacetime
powellriverliver · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
American politics
turbospacehippy · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gullible society is as a whole
CocayneWayne · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW DO PRINTERS WORK???? Like I can’t rap my head around it I know they don’t have typewriter-like stamps inside but that’s the only explanation I’ve ever had for them and that doesn’t even begin to explain how they print pictures in EVERY COLOR OFBTHE RAINBOW??????
iDownvoteLe · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like trap music so much. Repetitive beats and generic lyrics about wealth, violence, success, sexual promiscuity. It's like dumbed down rap and hip hop.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my brain treats me the way it does.
BaarLenny · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Even basic stuff. Like 3/8 × 12/58 ÷ 3/4.
Autistosaur · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hebrew. Not a single word.
toucantootie · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
deductibles(insurance) and deductions(taxes)
BetaTalk64 · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My dad always says "I'll see you in 2 shakes of a lambs pidgeon" I know what he means, he is just saying I'll see you in 2 shakes of a lambs tail, but why pidgeon at the end?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The general willful ignorance of the greater American public.
i_have_anxitey · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Veryallegorical · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are late/slow.
s1ibedr1ll · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the government wants to kill us
Lipserviceme · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
ForbiddenOof · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The big obsession with Game of Thrones
xBiagi · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chopsticks. Just doesn't click lol
Arkhamman367 · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
shamacck · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This might not be answerable but why can’t we, in all actuality, just print more money? Inflation and money are concepts, man made, why can’t we just print more money and fix our issues without inflation?
meltingtreebranch · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of why schools use some shitty app called Zoom over Discord and neglect the truth that Discord is way better and easy to use
monkyhatman · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I know that everyone is thinking this, and is definitely not an uncommon answer, but there are just some subjects i have no fucking clue what is going on. I can do an many practice problems as i want, but as soon as a test comes and i need to remember/figure out what to do with all these numbers in weird places, not to mention letters thrown in there as well, everything is just so confusing to me.
edp44569420360 · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in general
slipperyiwnl · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
mostly everything
Coco_Comics · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are pictures square when every lense is a circle
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
_uncreativeusername · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "six of one, half a dozen of the other". I know that it means the choices are the same, being that six and half a dozen are the same thing. But if I have one thing and another thing how are they the same.
emeeez · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics aside, I seriously don’t understand how Trump can just say things that are completely false and just get away with it. Also I don’t understand how he can say one thing and then say the complete opposite thing like a day later and people still support him. Also how can people support him when he speaks to reporters so horribly? I get so uncomfortable when I hear the tone and language he uses.
Everydaypunk · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
240 3 phase
Goldie1976 · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right just make everything 480 already.
Ghenges · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people have fallen for Apple's marketing.
Woopscoop94 · 1 points · Posted at 00:57:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can have love in their heart and not act on it.
raidersguy00 · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People wearing masks in public
pooploopdoop2 · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it’s actually better than nothing because if you cough or sneeze you are not passing a virus to any one else. Also you are not able to touch your nose or mouth keeping a virus away and it can filter air you breath if it’s the right mask
idkwhattocallmyse · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The love for cheese
ciorilor_nu-i_lapte · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
Though I've been a lurker for a damn long time, i still don't understand what that means and what it does and why it's so coveted.
crustymeowmix · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AP Physics
loxgrez · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont really understand what other dimension really mean, how do they exist, how do they interact with the 3D world and creatures. A friend of mine has explained me what the fourth dimension entails and how its existence is mathematically proven, but I simply cant comprehend it.
Kowth0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A really good book for those interested in the theory but not necessarily delve into the hardware side of it, The Pattern on the Stone. The last third gets more philosophical about computation vs thought, AI, machine learning and orthogonality.
tokyian · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of life~
Hi_itsGracie · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
Mike91444 · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people follow a Religion? Why did people vote for the Australian Liberal Party? How can I get better at my job when I'm not given the kind of support and guidance that I need?
Also why do people wear wrist watches?
Thoth_is_a_Birb · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you you go from molecules randomly floating to a system of highly specific molecules which are seemingly programmed to go specific places and do specific things. Essentially Inorganic matter -> Organic. (Then past that there’s the whole development of consciousness thing but screw that)
f1fandf · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fermats last theorem!
darktower420 · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How politics or religion can make the most intelligent person into a complete moron
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can knowingly elect a racist, sexist, and blatantly ignorant man for president. And how America just accepts this reality and goes no further than sending saucy tweets about how ridiculous it is we live this way. We just accept our government is run by old greedy bastards. Like what?
patooterbird · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's so damn hard for people to just be nice to each other.
pickle_of_dill · 1 points · Posted at 00:59:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics/quantum computing. Gave my senior capstone presentation on it and I still have no idea what it’s about.
Chadthunder01 · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still dont understand how a camera's and sound from headphones work or how to replicate them.
Sghnnm · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
latexcourtneylover · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people use social media when we can text on our phone.
SteamyyBunss · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the fuck I am or what I’m going to do later
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chess
pookznbootz · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Environmental law in Canada
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everyone involved but especially the writers of Game of Thrones finished the final season and were like, “yup, this is acceptable. You’re all going to love it”.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand mean people. Parents who think it’s ok to invite every boy in the class to a party except one. People who reward their kids for getting kicked out of a soccer game. Girls are the good awful worst. They are so mean and their moms don’t discourage it. The moms are mean too. What do you get from being mean to an 8!year old.
Source am a teacher and a mom
thebadgeronstage · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
writerovert · 1 points · Posted at 01:00:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
S&M
I’m not trying to offend anyone. I truly don’t understand why people enjoy the practice of pain for pleasure.
hippiedippity · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t intend this in any way to be disrespectful. I don’t understand how someone can genuinely believe in a god. I get why someone would believe because of comfort and a sense of purpose, but I don’t understand how you could logically literally believe there is a god above us.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on your definition of god, I think. But, most people can't even give a good definition. They just feel like there's something beyond the materialistic things, something bigger and beyond anything the words can describe, so they name it god for the lack of a better word.
hippiedippity · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was very well put and actually helped, but to go deeper: But why does everyone feel the need to pray and go to church to appease this things that is beyond our level of comprehension?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good question. One reason is that they were brought up this way and just keep doing it out of habit. Another reason, well, since people feel like there's something beyond, they just kind of feel like connecting to it. And, they obviously find mainstream religions to fulfill that desire. Once they do some things like going to church, praying, they convince themselves that they are now more connected to god. The power of self-affirmation in churches can be very strong. Churches can also give them a sense of belonging. It is also often what keeps cults going, not to imply that cults are the same as churches though.
But there is a deeper question going beyond the mainstream religions, misconceptions, cults, desires for connection, etc. Why are we here? Why are we born on a surface of some random planet, with laws of physics as they are, and we can perceive the whole thing, and even study it? Why is there something rather than nothing? Asking these questions is not meaningless, and looking for answers is good, in my opinion. I've always been grappling with these questions, and still am. And religion (Christianity) used to be an escape for me some years ago, though I eventually realized it didn't answer anything actually. I keep investigating those questions through self-reflection and meditation, on a daily basis. It is not wrong to explore it, I believe, and see for yourself whether anything can give you clues. Our minds are part of the universe, no matter how you look at it, and that means that the origin of our minds must contain some connection to the origin of all things. And that is what I'm trying to attain by looking deeply inside. I don't know if anything will happen, or if things that happen would be "real", but that's probably the only shot at these questions.
hippiedippity · 2 points · Posted at 04:24:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That was a very thorough response. I agree in pursuing the answers to existential questions that we don’t actually have a choice but to think about from time to time. I find that writing down and making graphs of connecting ideas can finally set some ease to your thoughts in time of existential panic. But there comes a dead end every time; an unanswerable and incomprehensible question. Considering the fact the we are bound by the laws of physics and stuck without the ability to perceive anything beyond a three dimensional space, I too believe that there is something bigger than us. I believe we live in an infinitely increasing amount of dimensions, that we can not observe or comprehend beyond three due to the human race’s abilities. Do I believe in god?
Crono_Time · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ladies next text first
NotJace · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Confidence. How does it work? Why do people get away with stupid shit as long as they seem confident? Most importantly how can you “get” that?
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you look at yourself like a person. I used to hate myself for things I would never hate on other people. When you look at yourself impartially. I was only able to do that after experimenting with acid. You will get there.
Kashi__ · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Bungie messed up a perfectly setup franchise.
manityamtime · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music and why music sounds good to us . Today’s music is all built off of scales and patterns from some ancient mathematician and if you deviate from that you just call it jazz and keep going
avramdawid · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emojis. I can't stand them.
EdDoesntKnowAnything · 1 points · Posted at 01:01:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can’t wrap my head around quantum computing.
Charito123 · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people pursue love. It genuinely baffles me
Papa_Tarob · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How men just naturally know to pinch and roll, not scratch.
MiniMunch · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Eating meat. Once I understood that something has to be killed for me to eat. I stopped eating it from then on. I find it so hard to get why people think another life is less than thiers. People try to justify but I just can't view animals as lessers so I guess that's the difference.
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not saying I don’t agree but aren’t you also killing when you eat plants? When it comes to eating, you always need to kill. I just think meat it’s so addicting that most people won’t quit it. If you think about it, most people won’t even give up their favourite thing for their second favourite thing in most situations even if that would help others just because of how everything nowadays is built for our pleasure and that’s everything we think about.
MiniMunch · 1 points · Posted at 02:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plants aren't hooked up the way humans and most other animals are. There is evidence that they respond to being eaten but that is just chemical response rather than synaptic. They don't feel pain, even if they did vegans consume so many less plants. As it takes copious amounts of grain to feed cattle. So even if we did discover that, I've still reduced suffering in a way. And yeah man that's totally it. People always (very patronising normally) tell me how I'm doing such a good job and it's good for the planet. But God forbid, I could never go vegan. I'd miss bacon or cheese or this or that too much. I mean awful that animals die but bacon though is where the discussion leads. People would rather be easily satiated than help animals or the planet. Almost like its own bystander effect. People don't want to be responsible for their consumption, not even to do with meat even down to stuff like palm oil, or people sourcing cocaine likely made by children in columbia. Consume consume consume.
massivemusicsucker · 2 points · Posted at 02:18:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed. My question was more hipothetical than anything. I’m not totally vegan yet but I’m in transition and not even talking about the ethical, environmental, political and economic aspects related to veganism, it is a livestyle and set of ideologies that have improved my health both mental and physical and increased my energy levels. So you selfish humans out there with no selfish reasons to be vegan, here they are.
MiniMunch · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Awesome man glad your enjoying it 5 years vegan for me now! Any change towards sustainability is a great one. I never push it upon people to be vegan even cutting beef out your diet has tremendous effects on your carbon food print. All the best.
Kitkitgaming83 · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I want to die
ashdogbuba · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of the universe expanding into nothing...
ForzaFenix · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music Theory.
candy_cartoon · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
Arcalter · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
yearningmedulla · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How banks and companies get billions of dollars in bailouts, but when the rent is due and millions of Americans need food on their table, they are given a single payment of $1200.
dontfukcignlookatme · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. I do not understand it and I honestly don’t think I want to. I really tried and now I’m giving up.
DelmonacoAD · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ghosts. How even are they remotely possible?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroversion. I just can’t comprehend it as a concept. All my family are super introverted, and by chance all my close friends and partners have been introverted. I can’t fathom how being with other people could give you energy. Don’t get me wrong, it sounds great, but it’s like being told you get energy from doing intense physical labour for hours. It’s such a weird concept for me.
tommytomtommctom · 1 points · Posted at 01:03:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who proudly tell me they've never seen a single Star Wars movie with this big grin like they expect me to be angry about it...
aliesterblackmark · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how certain commercials are cost-efficient. there are a ton of high-budget ads i see al the time that there's no way they would have a significant enough effect to warrant the budget
mamaxchaos · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. And digital displays in general. I do not understand how a bunch of binary code and four color cables make TV shows happen. It’s a magic space box and I’ve tried so hard to get people to explain it to me like I’m five but I got nothing.
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so an LED TV screen has millions of pixels made up of a red, green and blue diodes, backlit by a white led panel. There’s a control chip inside that when it receives a 1 or a 0, it knows “right pixel 1 needs to be yellow” so it lights up the green and blue diodes and that pixel turns yellow, with the brightness provided by the backlight.
This process happens 50 times a second for every pixel on the screen to give the illusion of a moving image (of course it’s just 50 still images played over 1 second so you see it as a moving picture)
mamaxchaos · 1 points · Posted at 18:17:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
this... helps SO much. So it’s like faster than the human eye can notice just flashing off and on or flashing different colors
THATS SO COOL. Thank you!!
itzphantomzz5461 · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes. They erode my very few brain cells
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If something has mass, it has gravity, you have a tiny gravitational field and if you were in space, you would attract smaller objects but only if they were very close to begin with because you’re so small. Earth is huge, so when you get close to the planet you’d be pulled in.
Now imagine matter concentrated so densely into a small area, a black hole the size of a grain of sand is heavier than our planet believe it or not, that’s going to pull everything in (including light waves) and because the gravitational pull is so great it just rips things apart then adds to the mass, making the black hole bigger
MrLadrillo · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
bitcoin mining
Flashy-Reach · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how we can detect terrorist 4,000miles away and use drones to attack, and not be able to notice a pandemic that's been around for 5 months and have no clue on how it started and where it came from? I know we have the resources to prevent this but why so late?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
yort_yeet · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Krippling_Koopa · 1 points · Posted at 01:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How debt works for countries. USA, like many other countries, are in trillions of dollars in debt, but I don’t see any consequences and the countries keep spending more to add to the debt.
Hannah-Sands · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
batesdon1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me!
tomime · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't we as a species make better governments to help everyone, not just the rich/powerful/etc, so as a species, we all benefit and progress forward in leaps.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my minecraft sometimes changes from qwertz (i live in germany) to qwerty and half of my keys dont work as intended and i type random shet the whole time & %"=;/
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
object oriented programming— can't wrap my mind around it.
dood_somen · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
MaryPoppppinBottles · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The “Cloud”
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you’re using your computer, you make a power point (for example) and save it to your computer’s storage. But you can’t access that file if you’re not at your computer.
All Google Drive, OneDrive or iCloud is, is someone else’s computer (Google’s, Microsoft’s, Apple’s etc) and when you save that file, it’s saved on their system, so you can log in and download it from any internet enabled device
Antonygrowsup · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The magnetic force that creates electricity. What runs the OG?
Screaming_At_The_Bug · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't get my girl to order her own fries even after I offer to pay for her own set of fries after she just tried to take mine >:[....very difficult times as you can see ...
the_av0cad0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are organisms evolve in such a way that they have to take care of their young ones so that their species thrive. I mean the whole thing about caring for the younglings is that they should survive and we somehow evolve in a way that they bring the prents happiness as long as they as small. Because at the end once we die, we are just gone. Also, why the fuck would you hoard money, like rich one will also die. Why are you obliged to give your child a better future when you won't even be there to experience it? How deep has the love for our kids been sown into our DNA?
ope_didntseeyathere · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fine line between partly cloudy and partly sunny
D_1190 · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people take so damn long at the ATM
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is so annoying!! You queue for ages then it takes you under a minute to get your cash and go
HereToSmileAtYou · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people maintain multiple friendships without getting completely overwhelmed. There are lots of people i get along great with but at the end of the day i just cant be bothered to do the upkeep. Eventually they get tired of messaging me first, and i get tired of pretending i didnt see their messages in time.
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:05:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people can still be anti-gun and believe that the police and govt will always be there to save the day. Pretty sure the police have said they will not help with minor crimes like theft. Seriously.
Edit: I wouldn't be surprised if another L.A. riot happens.
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I take it where you’re from there are guns?
I’m from the UK (I’m not about to be smug btw) but the chances of me being shot be some lunatic with a gun is very low, it could happen but in a town in Yorkshire that’s not very likely. So why do I need a gun? I don’t
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Edit: Sorry, I should've clarified. I'm from the US living in LA.
Bowtie327 · 2 points · Posted at 01:45:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So I’m going to assume an average sized town? I’m from one of the biggest ‘towns’ in the UK and we don’t get a lot of crime (not by New York or London standards) but we have theft, vandalism, robbery etc and probably the odd murder. I’d say most of our crime is victimless like drug dealers.
But I don’t think giving everyone a weapon would reduce that crime rate, this is just my opinion, but you rely on the authorities to help you in those rare times when you’re affected by crime. I’m all for defending yourself, I have a golf club hidden in my bedroom in case of intruders but at the age of 20, I know of 2 people who was broken into and they weren’t in the house so having a gun wouldn’t have helped them
YourAverageJoe0 · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
California, the state I currently reside in, has the strictest gun laws in the US and they also have high crime rates. Same with Detroit, Michigan and New York.
Now, it seems you're doing fine. All I'm saying is gun laws don't work. You should be allowed to own any gun you want as long as you pass a background check without these silly "red flag laws" put in place by politicians. Self defense was the second purpose of the 2nd amendment the first was to keep those filthy politicans in check and some of the people here are just giving away their rights away.
Here in Cali, we have to abide by a law that prevents us from having more than 10 rounds per mag. That's absurd. Well enough of my ranting.
MeatraffleJackpot · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don't see through religion.
ProGenji777 · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How complex things were evolved, like I understand simple things like how giraffes evolved long necks to reach higher trees since the ones with longer necks were more likely to survive. But take something like a liver, simple organisms didn’t have a liver, but complex ones do. So like, did one generation of some in-between-er species just suddenly have a whole ass liver that produces bile and all??? Did generations have partial livers that weren’t functional as the trait evolved? How did having a partial chunk of liver improve an organisms survivability great enough for it to pass on? Whatttttt!?!?!
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think about it like this:
You’re 6ft tall, I’m 5ft tall. The food is on the top shelf out of my reach, so youre going to be able to survive another day and one day attract a mate and pass on that 6ft trait, I will not because I will starve and not pass on my 5ft trait.
Then your kid does the same, then theirs does until hundreds of generations have passed and the only people left are 6ft tall because they’re the ones that can reach food
Edit: you’re correct, one day a simple organism revolved to have a basic liver, which filtered out toxins which made it more likely to live and pass on that trait
ProGenji777 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s exactly what i meant when talking about the giraffes, they survive since they can get food easier etc etc. But what about something like a liver, the whole structure can’t have just appeared across one generation, it must have appeared gradually, right? So why did it continue to evolve since a underdeveloped liver provides no survival advantage whatsoever.
Bowtie327 · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok so we have hearts, but so do insects yet they don’t have blood like we do. Millions of years ago before humans, our predecessors that would eventually become early humans were very different and would utilise organs differently, we have eyes with eye lids and lenses, yet fish don’t have eye lids and nautilus don’t have lenses.
The first ‘eyes’ might have been patches of skin more sensitive to light than the rest (like how you can feel the sun on your arm, because you can detect the heat through your skin) over the years that adaptation gets nurtured, so if I can sense light, I might find better food. Or to use your example, a few cells that filter toxins might allow me to live a bit better, so I will pass that down and then thousands of years later you have creatures with whole organs devoted to filtering toxins
ProGenji777 · 2 points · Posted at 11:30:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow! That makes sense. Thanks!
Unit219 · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Mineboxer123 · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metal gear solid's story and timeline
ZigZagZugZen · 1 points · Posted at 01:06:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Milk/cheese, chocolate, US mail
26SobbingHorses · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Milk=Cow Piss Cheese=Foreskin Chocolate=Beans US mail=USPS
SWtoNWmom · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How, in this day and age, with all the sciences and experiences of man, so many people believe in religions. We can look into history and teach our kids about the many Greek gods, we can discuss wars over differing religious beliefs - but then we are downright certain that OUR God is the right god and we are firm in our faith.
Angel-likes-pandas · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pedophiles I don’t understand them
grain-0f-salt · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
By the way, this is genuinely the sexiest reddit thread I’ve ever read. So many smart and knowledgeable individuals, goddamn. Very sexy!
Ghostman-TX · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vector spaces, kind of embarrassing since I'm a math major but I did get a B in linear algebra so I guess it worked out.
diamondturtlez · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why solitude guards want to kill me. I mean all I did was kill the chef for a hat.
YeetSkeetRepeet · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
GunnerGaming101 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
carter_bonneau · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the speed of light works.
Busterathome · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
W
chris_almighty · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pointers, primitives, and passing by reference
Inpotatomode · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. At all. Ever.
houseofleopold · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how electricity works.
freeloadingcat · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My own actions. Half the time, I don't understand why I did what I did...
audiblegiggles · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity is made
ZPac7 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratic functions.
Kiwi_0verlord · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why don’t motors need different gears while engines do?
ladness707 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is next Tuesday this coming Tuesday or the week after this Tuesday? Idk
dazedan_confused · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I remember unimportant things from decades ago, but not important things from this morning.
rainey629 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
yeah....some trippy shit if you ask me
Psilocichonaut · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
LinuxNut · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stupidity of the people on the internet.....
nibian26 · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aphobia. Like they’re not bothering anyone? Just leave them alone?? It’s not hard???
thisisuntrueman · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covid 19
Stan_Ohm · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Theory of Relativity
Busterathome · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't I find either of my 2 questions here on Reddit
_avian-flu_ · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why parents consciously make the decision to have a child then complain that the child ruined their life, stopped their fun, etc.
mlperiwinkle · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people admire, believe, and follow lying narcissists
EQIIepicknight · 1 points · Posted at 01:08:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
English. Been studying for 10 years but my grammar is still pretty bad
berin_bukow · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can just forget things at any given time.
JohnnyMcCloy · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cynical..never understood the word...it’s the only definition I cannot comprehend and how it’s applied. It’s the only thing my brain does not understand despite multiple examples given to me.
childtherapist88 · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
mwhandat · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mumble rap, or the performer called ‘bad bunny’
Razazael · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sound is transported through mobile phones.
HipsterLuigi · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone complains about one of their faults (like to the point that they truly see it as an issue), but doesn't attempt to do anything about it. For reference I mean something that's within their power to change (even with help from others) like smoking or procrastination e.t.c.
ChickyWorky · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
king crimson
EconomyIndependence2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am i Born to suffer
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suffering is not necessary
dumberthanuravgbear · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How did Disney launch a new Star Wars trilogy without planning the story first?
dwrecksizzle · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my friends and family can’t see what a giant piece of shit Trump is and how he is profiting off the presidency.
InfluxInfo · 1 points · Posted at 01:09:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are able to memorize things so well. I meet some people who are on Mach 3, remembering with ease and I’m stuck on Mach 2, barely remembering what I ate for dinner, a concept, names, faces, you name it. Yes, I greatly struggle with multiple choice tests. I take 5-7 days out to study for an exam. Hard class = B. Neuroscience killed me—barely finished with a B
archelon16 · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cricket. I consider myself to be a reasonably well-educated person, but when I watch this game, I start to believe in conspiracy theories - like this is some mass joke to deceive us into thinking there's a game with actual rules being played here.
LilGracen · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How DNA and whatnot works. A bunch of stuff coding for acids, and somehow but all works together to make your body work.
JackIsCool340 · 1 points · Posted at 01:10:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Filthy Frank and the lot
lowfemmeweirdo · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How most people are so idiot.
My mother actively did heroine while I was in utero. My father shot our tv in anger & would stab inanimate objects. Physical abuse was common. I was often left hungry.
Yet, I graduated from college, put myself through. I’m well read. I know enough to have nothing to do w my family. I genuinely don’t understand how most people are so mired in ignorance, completely led by their emotions and lack logic.
notallamawoman · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism. Magnetic fields. Electromagnetism. Anything magnetic. I have a very scientific background and can grasp most sciences but never magnets. They just don’t make sense to me even when explained in the most basic way. None of it except same sides repel and opposites attract. That’s all I got.
tanki60o · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can possibly think that water is not wet.
Pyrocaster · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Censoring free speech
the-_-cob · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
There was this youtube video (I know, reliable) with an animated man talking about how electrons can "decide to behave" when observed. It blew my mind and I think about it all the fucking time but I have no idea how any of it works. Edit: found it
OnTheFenceGuy · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The different classes of lever.
0erlikon · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don't return their shopping carts back to the cart corral?
htownballa1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Bill O'Brian felt randall Cobb and Brandin cooks are better to have instead of DeAndre Hopkins.
Oceanbound10 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump and his supporters....
Also my country's leaders and priorities
Fun_Police2020 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers.
succman1234 · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
mexican because i dont speak it
zahraata · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability and statistics in Maths, absolutely no chance of me understanding how that even work
I was good at everything else in maths (algebra, geometry, differentiation, integration, trigonometry etc) but statistics was the one topic i just always failed at
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that when people ready they don't say every single word in their head.
NamboXD · 1 points · Posted at 01:11:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How that shot in FIFA does not go in
Litafajita · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way that I can somehow understand most of the concepts that Michael from Vsauce has explained, (maybe not in a way I can explain it to another person but enough so I can understand) but I can't understand simple algebra.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH
Unique_Significance · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
American Republicans. I will never ever understand them. They are all so heartless.
ccg_nul · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If my arm gets cut off where do I feel pain?
Connor_Kenway198 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How America can still be largely pro gun when there's daily mass shootinga
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we fake sleep to sleep. Like why can’t I just pass tf out. And how tf do we wake up.
FeelThe_ChoccyMilk · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sister's sister is our dad's cousin making her my cousin once removed
gsheridan · 2 points · Posted at 01:14:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What in Alabama are you talking about?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hahaha
FeelThe_ChoccyMilk · 1 points · Posted at 22:27:43 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
I DONT KNOW-
DemonMouseVG · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
PluvioBlue · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our bodies can "feel" that something/someone is watching us. Those feelings/vibes you get from certain people/environments/things. Even while I understand it's instinct, it still baffles me how our bodies can pick up on things like stares. How does someone's stare make your body react, if you're not even aware someone is there, or looking at you?
ClappedIsland · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look I may be late to the party but how the fuck do I think.
mostokballplayerNA · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely don’t understand how EVERYONE is quarantined at home and my friends STILL tell me they’re too busy to do anything. Fuck everything.
Jaguppal786 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
comfy_bed · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
CharliePixie · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the electoral college
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
semiconductor physics
cereallkiller17 · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Engineering calculus 3...
Been a nightmare
schubert_cast · 1 points · Posted at 01:12:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Hi, how are you?" "I'm good, how are you?" "I'm good"
I'm not really good tho :(
Pof_no · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the graffiti got up there?! Like how did the graffiti get up on the side of a bridge or really high up on a building.
flopyboi · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
sonicmario123 · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people kiss and why people enjoy kissing. I used to genuinely not understand the logistics and mechanics of how two people go about kissing. But one of my friends (who I had fairly open platonic friendship with) were discussing kissing and she offered to show me, so we kissed. From the tutorial, I finally understood the logistics of kissing but I still don’t understand the psychology behind why one would be aroused by kissing nor want to kiss another person. Despite her explaining it along with a couple of friends who I have similar relationships with explaining it to me, I still genuinely understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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LennartGimm · 2 points · Posted at 01:44:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just to really fuck you up: I present to you the Twins Paradox.
And also: Things don‘t happen simultaneously in the universe. At least not for everyone. A result if relativity is that while some things might happen in order A and then B for me, you might experience them B and then A. And I‘m not talking about the light reaching you and you see them differently. No, for you: They did happen in reverse order to me. Even if you subtract how long the light takes to travel, the order is switched.
And I suspect in the framework you are operating in (Newtonian Physics), you can‘t really understand relativity, because it‘s not part of that framework. In order to understand relativity, you first need to understand how spacetime is interlocked and how Newtonian Physics fails. No matter how good the explanation, you can‘t build relativity on top of what we use to make sense of our day-to-day observations.
For me, it took about a year in Uni (I study physics) to wrap my head around. And I suspect it‘s mainly because I got taught the whole framework at once. It‘s probably much harder to understand it one piece at a time. That‘s like replacing your house one brick at a time. Might work, but the house might collapse during that, and that would mean starting from day one.
shadowst17 · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump isn't in jail yet. Multiple times on live TV, twitter and speeches he has admitted to illegal activities yet nothing happens. I really got to wonder what he has to do to actually be put in jail.
At this point if he fucked a baby on LIVE TV then snapped it's neck he'd still be the President of the United States and the incident would be bitched about on the internet for a week and then forgotten.
melizzapizza · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
space
doodles65 · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Learning.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people seem to equate caring about the environment/nature with being a liberal snowflake. I mean, it's more often those that lean to the right that spend more time actually out doing stuff in nature like hunting or fishing, am I wrong? Not everyone who wants better environmental protections is a vegan peta member.
cessirius · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why America keeps continuing to make the same mistakes over and over that's turning our country into an awful place to live.
Escipio · 1 points · Posted at 01:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
GodsNectar · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I capture glitches in the matrix but no one else around me sees it or it’s too complex to wrap my mind around but I know something off just happened..
FalloutFanbase · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people play games like this
saenakata · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
4th spacial dimension
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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LennartGimm · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You might prefer Riemann Integrals.
But if you want to get somewhat of an answer, it might be better to work backwards: Look at a function f(x) and find it’s derivative. The derivation is easier to understand most of the time. And then apply that backwards. Instead of starting with f(x) you start with f‘(x) and work your way back. If it works one way, the reverse should be true (under certain circumstances) as well.
It‘s still a topic that took me half a year to understand and fully settle in to in my uni classes. This stuff is hard, especially if you don‘t use it every day.
Stingy_Vette · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
myself
rabbidasseater · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity
SynthGood · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
654646 genders that there's.
PocketRocket863 · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
abyss_aaa · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
AndrogumsFinestChef · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Series Six of Doctor Who
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Only the Brits get any of the series 😂
Axerty · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why does one of the girls suck on the strap on with more vigor than just lubing it up requires.
Stewy_1st · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not how colorblindness works but exactly it’s doing to my vision. All my life I’ve had to explain it to people and the best I’ve got is that I see sepia tome but I’m so used to it that I actually still see the colors for the most part with less variation? I’m really just stabbing in the dark though, I have no idea how what I see is different except that rarely it’s harder to differentiate colors..
Adamotu · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How governments get away with crime? For example, US and Russia aid terrorists, triggers coups and even invade countries. They sell guns, they kill civilians, they test stuff illegally. I do not get how big powers are explicitly doing stuff and moving on like nothing happened. Someone explain pls.
carthuscrass · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets. How do they work!?
Miranskiii · 1 points · Posted at 01:15:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football and how the rules work. I’ve tried and I have no concept of what a 1st down, 2nd down, why are they doing a field goal? I get the fundamental idea, move the ball down the field to get it into the end zone. Everything in between is beyond me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dancing. As in, let’s go dance at the discotheque. I think it is weird because I’m a musician and have a sense of rhythm, I like EDM a lot, I like to make EDM but I have zero interest in dancing. It feels like my brain is just missing the dance module.
phillylb · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. I was a straight A student until chem in high school. Failing it changed my whole career trajectory. I couldn’t even pass a test when I cheated with formulas input to my T-89 calculator. 🤦🏼♀️
Specifically, I remember being introduced to atoms and how everything, everywhere are made up of atoms that bounce around each other and create energy etc. I could never wrap my head around how things are formed ie. a table and how little pieces of atoms of the table aren’t bouncing around and break off and attach to something else.
Aunt-NawNaw · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who put their lives on social media and when people comment on it, tell them it’s none of their business. ... like dude... you made it everyone’s business when you put it all over social media. Am I wrong?
tallulahpots · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Access and egress on public transport. Why don't people wait for passengers to disembark before boarding trams. What's going on.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The love of sports or a sports team
dbh5021 · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not trying to be rude and hate on the band but why do people like the band Gorillaz so much? I'm genuinely interested as to why, their music is very unique. Is it that they have the 2d characters maybe the random artists they invite for a collab?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long term marriages. I wish we could spend time and move to someone else every once in a while with no negativity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spielberg had an animated series where you renewed your marriage licence every 10 years. 🤔
player_meh · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If evil people really decide actively to be like that or somehow it relates to urges or some addiction... how evil works on human nature
lionsdude54 · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a joke...how anyone can LIKE Donald Trump. I understand voting republican if you’re very into guns, or very against abortion. But he is NOT a decent person.
tehnulls · 1 points · Posted at 01:16:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a GE turboencabulator works.
yusufmkI · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry.
Devflu · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't have healthy relationships with the people I love
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So what I have learned today on this thread in a nut shell. Bit 0 1 1 0 bit.
livinghumanlife · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How she couldn’t force heal Kyo Ren..
bubblebumblejumble · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fantasy football
memecaptial · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have not come together to fix the fucking govt
stagehand1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is trump still in office?
pioverpie · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
stonetjwall · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck does anyone actually play the lotto.
outbackpaul · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hell if I know
chai-m8 · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i do not know the first thing about cars/mechanics and i really wish i did!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe anything at face value in the internet. That people can be easily convinced without a shred of reliable, peer reviewed sources.
We've been taught in school, college, university etc. That you have to cite everything and check whether the source is biased. Yet there's people that don't follow this curriculum.
Do they know they're wrong but the human ego is too stubborn to admit and leads to it doubling down, creating an ever deeper delusion?
How do you convince someone like that without some sort of therapy?
Honestly, these sort of people are the source of my sadness on the internet and I'll never understand their ignorance.
Scrambled_59 · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we get 8 fire emblem characters in smash and only one sonic character
gratatuie · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes and helicopter work.
Like I was told physicists make close estimates through equations of the physics behind planes but the math is never perfect. We’re basically riding these things hoping everything works out.
spaceandstuffbros · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself, tbh. My mind is really confusing and hard to navigate. People always yell at me for not understanding, saying its because I don't pay attention, but to me I'm trying my hardest to listen and focus, but I can never seem to get my brain to work. Everything seems so foreign to me, all day every day.
massivemusicsucker · 2 points · Posted at 01:30:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have the same. Just don’t forget you are special but you aren’t alone, even if no one gets you. Reach out if you need
spaceandstuffbros · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks, man. I needed to hear that.
massivemusicsucker · 2 points · Posted at 01:34:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem 😊
Esuper123 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
jcomey · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of Animal Crossing.
_honeybuns_ · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I talk to myself, like a lot, out loud, in my head, always WORDS. There are people who dont have that voice in their head, so wtf is going on in there?
Fatclapcheeks · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so bad at driving.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Pretty much everything about crypto currency. I've watched explanation videos but I still really couldn't explain it to someone.
brandnewdayinfinity · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Complex theoretical math. My brain only does well with things I can touch and see
ClearIsAColor · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wireless money transfer works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does the money fit in that little wire 😂😂😂
therandomdude338 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chaos theory
Chazlord5679 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
space. fucking space. how does it go on forever? there has to be some sort of barrier or something. but then what’s beyond the barrier? it’s not like it’s a barrier forever? or is there? or is it just space for eternity? sometimes i’ll think about this in the shower and give myself headaches.
SOCH2564 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trig identies.
_scatterbrains · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
column multiplication, shit's confusing man
Yung_Dreezy · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Theory off Relativity.
I know what it is but I don’t get HOW it works and why it is the way it is.
LTslitlsnake · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
pinksheep20 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A different language
notyetnotyet22 · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women..
Lonecoldmadness · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry, fractions, and algebra
Au2o · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a computer works, where do the 1’s and 0’s even come from?
sanseriph74 · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space - how can there be no end to it?
StarZod · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That when I can, I will
BleuetsSun · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How lightning works
Charlesbrown74 · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My DMs
LittleD262 · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything with spelling. Some words I think are spelled correctly but then it comes out that it’s not.
unlikely_lurk · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division.
Eddie_The_Deagle · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not me but my boyfriend. He doesn't understand how I could care less if a someone insults me. I'm often the verbal punching bag of jokes when it comes to my friend group. Mainly because they know I don't care (in fact I think most of the jokes are pretty funny). Now my boyfriend is quite the opposite. He's delt with bullying and a lot of stuff esteem issues growing up. As a result he's very sensitive about negative comments regarding himself. For me I've just come to the conclusion that words only have power if you give them meaning. I know people can just say anything. After all your actions are more important than your words. He just can't seem to understand how I can just decide to not let something like that affect me. Of course I understand how words can be hurtful, even more so if it's from someone your close to. For me at least I've realized it's really a choice on how you let things affect you, and I'm (mostly) confident in myself to realize things said about me either aren't true or exaggerated.
jaimecookin · 1 points · Posted at 01:19:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance , car insurance or any insurance?deductible cost co-pays or any sorts of all of it
Been explained numerous times and still don’t get . And why do I monthly pay and still pay when something happens ?
nam137 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String Theory
Boomarang9000 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an image can be transmitted through the air
BlothHonder · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music genres, like they're so diverse I can't find the difference between 2 things anymore
Jacob-Greene · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Nuff said
doges_are_my_ppl · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be mean, rude, or just plain cruel to you when, personally, I intend to be kind and considerate ALWAYS, and as non-judgemental as possible when meeting someone Ive never personally met or been introduced to. If you have never spoken with me, if we've never had a chance to show each other who we are (or hope to be perceived by others in general, the reputation I hope I have through your eyes) if I haven't had the opportunity to talk with you, and choose what sort of effort I care to make in that regard....HOW ARE YOU ABLE JUDGE ME AND LIKEWISE, DECIDE IF IM WORTHY OF YOUR KINDNESS OR RESPECT, OR NOT???
unwarrented, or unjustifiable judgement and rudeness to others is too common these days... ESPECIALLY... If I havent even had a chance to show you how kind and considerate of a man I am in the first place. Its not fair.
Be kind to one another. You havent walked in their shoes, and that's so important to keep in mind no matter what, in my opinion.
Anyways, I hope you had a good day today, you are important and deserve to live the best life possible. And I bet we'd be good friends. What a special opportunity we all have, getting to experience what life is like. No matter what. Someone else couldve been born instead, but we all lucked out. Thats pretty cool. 😎
Aint_gettin_jokes · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girl I went to high school with got maternity pictures in a bathtub full of milk and flowers. I just don’t get why.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. It's all numbers on screens, it's not tangible.
shower0522 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I’ve made it to 25 and have never had a significant other?
mellamma · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people rebound relationships so fast.
Jmc21399 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. And I'm a 3rd year electrical engineering student. Essentially the more you learn, the less you know with the shit
d0ct0r-Sunn · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. I can understand not really liking individual people. But a whole race??Sheesh
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is quite intuitive.
karmaskimmer · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Supporters.
sedchild · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
i_play_games_daily · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally Algebra 1, I’ve taken it 3 times and I just don’t get it, in short I’m dumb
Vallarta21 · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crypto currency.
i still dont get its use other than to buy guns, drugs and hookers on the dark web.
Smol_ButMighty · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How national debt works. America’s debt is in the billions. Who do we owe it to? What’s the point if it’s never going to be paid back?
Solfire · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really a helpful response by me, but it's not in the billions. As of April 2020, it's 24 trillion.
REDPURPLEBLOOD2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The love for new pop songs... it’s just the same few beats over and over with auto tune...
Ifonlyicoulddance · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Surds
MinyMinyMooo · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be in the zone. Why do we get discouraged and lose motivation easily?!
thecloudkingdom · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
poetry. my boyfriend and best friends have tried so hard to get me to understand that what i was taught about it in school is bullshit but it just feels like reading song lyrics without the music, it feels like its missing something. books im fine with, i connect with them fine, but poetry is beyond me
Dells51 · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Carole fuckin Baskin got away with it
Jackal7112 · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will seem beyond basic but how the diagonal line in the middle of a square is longer than the sides. Not specifically with a square, but how a diagonal has to be longer than the sides in order to go the same distance in the directions it is mimicking.
Uncoolx2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chinese.
hfssfh11 · 2 points · Posted at 01:22:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life path. Like whats going on? What am I doing at this job? Why am i not doing something that I enjoy? So many questions. Idk whats happening and its as if Im just existing everyday but not living :(
singhbenny · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people support Donald Trump despite his clearly wrong choices.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys paint their nails
chano76 · 1 points · Posted at 01:22:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Suddenly understand a concept after traing for a wile
Greyvvolf · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minesweeper.
this1dude23 · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
The_werid_girl · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that blind people don’t just see black like when sighted people close their eyes. they see nothing like how sighted people see out of their feet and my mind just can’t imagine not seeing things bc I’ve always been sighted
weevr · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
bensjamming · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WOMEN..... More specifically MY WIFE!
wsbtroll · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i'm always hungry
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationship
luckyduckyyou · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgages, escrow, all that goes with buying a house.
MusicShouldGetBetter · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
cake day karma whoring posts
wonder_beagle · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Discrimination, mostly the why but how is wrapped up on there
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people nowadays still treat their partners as property and want to control every aspect of their lives.
What is so fun of controlling your partner to the point you decide even how short or long they cut their hair? Life is to live for these perfect imperfections.
Honestly it is beyond me.
annaunjaded · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
SpaceKoala34 · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's this pizza place near me everyone says is AMAZING but it is genuinely inedible to me I don't see how people like it.
Solfire · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you hate cilantro by chance? If so, the pizza place might have it in their recipe and maybe that's what's turning you off from it. Found out about this phenomena when I met a friend in college in San Diego who couldn't stand authentic street tacos because of the cilantro.
SpaceKoala34 · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nah I know the thing your talking about where it just tastes like soap to some people but I love cilantro I put extra cilantro in price de gailo when I make it
Hyper_Agressive · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is women an acceptable answer?
natebrookss · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole medieval era, did it even happen or was it just madeup? Did knights actually have tournaments and rise to power or is that a recently developed theory?
star_snek · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people come up with theories, like yeah there's evidence but what helped you find that? Was it a Kind of machine? But then there's who came up with the design? How did they know it would work? It's kinda hard to explain but I just can't grasp it.
Bigphatdaddy · 1 points · Posted at 01:24:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how cameras work. Like how do you take a still image of something from the real world and save it on a camera. I don’t understand the same thing with videos as well.
Clownbaby43 · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
poop
joelmallen · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The singularity. Like, do we all mind meld or wink out of existence?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, snakes scare me cuz I don't understand how they move. I know it has to do with scales or muscles or something, I just can't understand it and it freaks me out.
TurnipSoTurntUp · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
agdraco8 · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother-in-law
aforakshit · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are people able to flirt?
Jaret_Jackpot · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. I didnt try very hard at Physics the first time in high school, got a terribly low grade. Second time i decided to pay attention more. Still failed miserably. Couldnt grasp the equations, color spectrum, etc
SpicepTap · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say that when they think of something they see an image of it in their mind.
I've tried so hard to do this and I just come up with nothing. I see nothing at all.
What does this mean? Like, are they being for real at all, is it just a figure of speach? I just don't get it.
-_Kaede · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can create images in their minds.
Imagine a ball rolling off a table and hitting the floor.
What color was the ball, how about the table?
When i was asked this the ball or table didn't have any color or shape, i couldn't really imagine anything but the bare concept of a ball rolling off a table.
I asked one of my friends and the ball, table and floor all had color and shape, i find that crazy, i literally can't comprehend being able to do that.
essdee623 · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes!
angelfishgod · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
halting problem
JJrider · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Especially AC. Like wtf how does it move? Why does AC electricity go back and forth? (this is why I almost failed electrical engineering class/physics)
sokraftmatic · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why the government is stabbing American citizens in the back. I don't understand idiot voters voting against themselves when they elect idiots. I don't understand why we don't elect people that stand for us. Andrew yang is one example, Bernie Sanders, etc. Jesus Christ America sometimes I feel like you deserve it.
StrawberryFreak · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers
pixiesprite2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can be absolutely sure that we all see the same colors in the same way. We’re told “that’s blue” so we see that color and call it blue.
But what if my blue is your red and so on and so forth. WE WOULD NEVER KNOW.
dev_b_glad · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market, Wall Street, investing
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I couldn't post on r/memes after making my new account
gotanx1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s to keep people from making throwaway spam accounts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah lol I just wanted to see Batman slapping robin tho lol
randyscookin · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Helicopters.
indianzfan2 · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how anyone likes rap music. Lots of degrading women and talking about killing people. They rap about how much money they make on this horrible music.
HolyPizzaPie · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God I hate to sound like a broke record.
But I genuinely don't understand greed and the shamelessness of corruption at the top here in the united states. How does jeff Bezos ask for his employees to donate sick time for those affected by the virus. How does delta have the best 3 weeks of all time, then need a bailout when they slow for 2 weeks. How does trump strip the oversight committee for the bailout and not feel like he's doing something unethical. I dont get how these people's brains work. Would I be the same way if I was in those circumstances. I say I wouldn't, I hope I wouldnt, but how would i know?
chubarka_nz · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who I am.
still_a_muggle · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra. I help kids with learning needs during their exams. Math is the only time they tell me they don’t need my help. 🤣
AutistChan · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how pills are, I know the ingredients and the process and stuff, but like how the powder can help cure diseases and stuff, while being an addictive substance, it’s all very confusing.
supersalad51 · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we have to have multiple universes to fix some physics equation.
frogwithaglassofmilk · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How recreational marijuana isn’t legal nationwide in the U.S.
NitroXityRealm · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Standard deviation
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
classyfenn · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
1- Why utes are huge in Australia but every single manufacturer refuses to make them available outside of Australia
2- how to genuinely go about getting into proper vr without breaking the bank
3 (more formula one related)- how does drs take the skill out of overtaking
annepitt · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ppp
AaronD96 · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. Specifically the Monty Hall Problem. I've read the whole thing, watched videos, but I just don't understand it. I "get it" but I just don't understand how it actually works. I hate it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t get interested in school work but from 1-10 I loved school but from then on and into college I’m having issues learning and doing work
Ant_TKD · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How our brain can make pictures/ voices in our head.
Now, what we perceive as “real” is actually just our brain’s best guess at how things are. It’s already “imagining” everything we think we perceive. So to some extent, thoughts that we can “hear” or “see” are just like opening a new tan on a computer, but keeping it minimised and in the corner.
But since I was a child I have been baffled how my brain can draw realistic pictures of things I’ve never even see.
I have this really vivid image in my head of a cave halfway up a cliff, occupied by a velociraptor in a lab coat and spectacles.
How/ why did my brain draw that!?
whensmytime · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who believe things like the 5g towers, anti vaxxers, and flat earthers. Completely blows my mind how everything they have and do in today’s world is because of forward belief in science, but can’t or won’t put simple logic first.
cachoraCocobichi · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics, I tried but still sounds like a fairytale to me.
cynwil710 · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apathy about other people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Upvoting on Reddit. What does it do?
Pilivyt · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump became president, and many other things about America.
How depression works.
Why I haven’t had a lucid dream yet.
Why we don’t switch educational systems.
And so on.
juengel2jungle · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sound. I understand waves, but at the same time is basically magic. Take a record, is just a needle going over some grooves, but for some reason this groove gives makes a trumpet sound, this groove makes a cymbal, etc. Somehow this groove makes 10 different sounds at once.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand any time travel movies
sheepsareboring · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
ha_ha_emeralds · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. I don’t think anyone really genuinely understands it.
Yourhandsaresosoft · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t 100% understand how vaccines work and I don’t know how to ask without people jumping on me like I’m advocating against them.
I really just don’t understand how they work. I get them because my doctor isn’t an idiot and recommends them. I know some of them trigger your blood to make the antibodies (or whatever they are) that you get when you’ve had the illness. I just don’t understand how it triggers that or if you are getting it it’s just a really not severe case of whatever it is? If that makes sense.
Suphling · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
saxon lesson 42 advanced math
hollowv1ctory · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why stupidity wins.
TheMoscha · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America, how does a nation constantly vote against its self interests? Or let corrupt officials get away with blatant crimes?
Ayrtonomous · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Like just a quick google I saw y = 2x + 1. Wtf? Where are all these letters and shit coming from? Maths was never my strong subject at school and I get all panicky when I have to do this as an adult. Stupid me. Stupid maths. But mostly stupid me.
maddog42020 · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
¿¿☆Magnets ☆¿¿
LoanThrowaway214 · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people want something so single-mindedly so as to twist their perceptions of reality and make the good bad and bad good.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Truthfully? How two people can read the same article and come away from it with opposite and incompatible conclusions.
jordan31483 · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And both think they're right, although there can always only be one truth. That's exactly how I see conservatives and liberals.
The_Dog_Of_Wisdom · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The first edition artillery sighting rules for Advanced Squad Leader.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
WeldinMike27 · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boss. Great bloke but hella confusing
anubhav103 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Opposite attraction.. How do girls lose their marbles over a guy that barely texts them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't understand how some fully function normal people fail basic instructions. This includes the quarantine.
TrueAcuity · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How when we think of a memory or event in our life, we can almost visualise it - even while we are awake and looking at everything thats in the current moment. Same with sound, how can we hear a song in our head?
Acrazypineapple · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math really confuses me i have no clue why it exists but it does
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The molecular mechanisms of circadian rhythms. We have like 3 different labs in our school working on them that all give multiple presentations per year. It all goes over my head
rml23 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space.
YuccaPalm344 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ethereum
DreamingRealityiii · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you make a working solar panel?
Pieter350 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hacking
Pandacat1551 · 1 points · Posted at 01:31:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why US education makes you learn everything you don't really need later or things people usually don't want to be. Like yeah some of us will be scientists, but we can learn that when we decide. If you teach me math I'll just holdbit until the test and forget it.
I think we should follow the countries that are actually good with their schools instead of "haha History and Math make you have big brain. Nobody cares about art and music. Fuck that"
InnocentAboud · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What I'm supposed to do in life.
here_for_answers · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Watching sports. I mean playing sports is fun. Maybe even watching some friends play sports. But people who spend tons of time and money watching overpaid athletes play (and often act like dipshits)...I mean you couldn't pay me enough to waste my time on that.
no00dle_boi · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I dont get any coochie.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say “I could care less” isn’t that backwards?
GustavoShine · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sarah.
justpassing1111 · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics, hypnosis and consciousness. My 3 nemesis from studying math/physics, psychology and philosophy. They are absolutely crazy. It's not necessarily hard to learn by heart what you need to do, how the equation solves itself, how the protocol work and the definition but you can get an A+ and still feel like you understand absolutely nothing about it. It works, no idea why. And then I get paranoid: is this all bullshit? Does anyone actually really get it or are everybody just too damned confused by it to refuse some weirdo past affirmations?
kosa8692 · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone doesn’t think healthcare is a basic human right. Like fresh air and water.
T-Byrd150 · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why people cut their wrists. I hate to say that I don’t understand it and I don’t want to ask because it’s a touchy subject so I never asked.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you can't just print more money
Lokistale · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it devalues what is currently out there. Look at post world war one Germany, took a wheel barrow full of money for a loaf of bread.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know that, it just doesn't make any sense to me
Lokistale · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It needs to be backed, if its not backed by anything its not worth the paper its printed on, basically.
Al3rtROFL · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the fuck my cum looks like water and how to fix it
Lokistale · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Iron supplements
dovesondoves · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Jesus story works: if God is omnipotent, why would he kill his son and how exactly does that benefit anyone? We re supposed to be grateful that he died for us, but I’m not following why he had to die when God is all powerful and also how does him dying even benefit anyone? I truly don’t follow the “logic”/story.
kadiebrooke · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women who wear the title “bitch” as a badge of honor. Seems like you’d want to be known for being a kind person but what do I know?
jcar27 · 1 points · Posted at 01:33:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people say that the electoral college protects small states. how?????
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not to be politically instigating; like, a serious question:
How do people still support Donald Trump at this point? I do not understand.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the universe is endless and what was ‘here’ before anything was here. If space then what was before just space. 🤔
DoodleDragon413 · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
coleh779 · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
DaveAps · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Laplace Transform
egginadisguise · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers. Their theories are never backed up by proof, and whenever the other side shows proof they say that everyone is lying.
hdsd · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people idolise the kardashians or even pay attention to them.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people with literally nothing in terms of wealth could support the decisions of the greedy.
Stynger247 · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do blind people know when to stop wiping
phreaktor · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options in the stock market.
bombelman · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Enjoying rap singing. Beats are great. This "singing" usually destroys everything
urmedieval · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WiFi. Like, I get it, but i can’t convince that it makes sense no matter how much I research
bright0920 · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People fanstasming on feet.. like how the hell?
sonorancafe · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
bobtheplanet · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dark matter.
xLunara · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human hate based on skin color.
GreyWolf4389 · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schroedinger’s equation
What
AThiccArmada · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How breathing oxygen slowly kills us
AndyF1996 · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monads
vbrown13 · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Westworld Season 2.
huntinginstyle · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How animals see at night
Gregweaver90 · 1 points · Posted at 01:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life in General.. Some days you feel like you have a firm grasp on it, then other days it feels like you can't stop the nonsense..
journeyman12345 · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The famale orgasm.
Tande-1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How POTUS can be such a half wit, and still stay so ignorant to all that has gone on.
spideylance · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
vests. why would you only want to warm your torso ??
mandrake53 · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why trump is still in office
noogers · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The game craps no matter how many times you try to explain it to me
ib2ndyear · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness - is it independent of our body? How does it come about? Is it necessary for existence?
BrilliantWeb · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Icing in hockey.
Ghihbhgtedfjk · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
blippityblap1 · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreaming, like our minds can create entire worlds full of people and can be really vivid and evoke emotion and can stimulate all kinds of senses, all inside our own head without even knowing we are doing it.
dlasky · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just can't wrap my head around quantum mechanics. I can recite the dumbed down explanations, models, examples and what not all day long. I just dont understand how the parts you have to assume are true to make the whole thing work. Like how electrons don't necessarily exist in a certain place at any time. How can that possible fit into how atoms work macroscopically. Like how can something have mass but we don't know where it's at? How can an electron only "probably" be somewhere? But it only has a definite location when we measure it. Where was it before we measured it? Idk maybe the dumbed down examples are too dumbed down and they misrepresent the actual concepts. I'm missing something somewhere and it drives me crazy.
dooferdoo · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking chemistry
nobollocks22 · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they could carry all that stuff to the moon.
Pungentstench69 · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Folks who aren't "animal lovers"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming
ChiefSaltyPanda · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everything exists
Britt863 · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chicken of the Sea thing with Jessica Simpson
sachsrandy · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit karma
2tired2live · 1 points · Posted at 01:39:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get into politics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything.
jwillsrva · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How/why we use i (the square root of -1) in math. I was pretty good in math in high school. When we got to that, I gave up.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How he could just kill a man
NowFreeToMaim · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people actually think the United States is in “debt”.
lVlatthew3 · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Falling asleep
Teddy-Rux · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How big the universe is. I try and "scroll out" as far as I can but my brain just can't handle it and it shuts down
The-Kragle · 1 points · Posted at 01:40:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there are infinite realities with infinite possibilities. So anything and everything is happening right now....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump and the people who support him.
theMalleableDuck · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anybody in April of 2020 can still even remotely support our shitbag toddler of a president
CarelessRook · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How posetive people manage to be that way.
As far as I can tell, life only really gets worse and there's barely anything to look forward to, but so many people preach about "The Gift of Life" and how wonderful and thankful they are, and I don't get it.
infected_detective · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How/why people get scared at movies...its a movie. I cant watch anything from the horror genre, put me to sleep everytime they're so dumb.
PapaIndica · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do stupid people think.... For real
I see people who just think that the earth is flat and they don't support vaccinations because they cause autism and many more. I seriously can't understand their mindset. If you ask someone who is against them, they will usually answer "because they are idiots". A short answer that doesn't really helped with my question ... why these people think like that. There must be something that makes someone stupid... but im not sure...
It's crazy how many people are stupid and we just can't understand them... We tried to listen, process and answer but these people were not convinced for something that has been debunked by the most of the world.
I can't understand these people. Their mindset is a mess and I just can't understand them. Watching people online and in person being stupid really bothers me.. I often question my self.. Are these people looking for attention? what makes them think that their opinion is a fact? Can you actually change a stupid person?
even if we knew we wouldn't be able to change them.We really can't.
Sorry for my bad grammar.
rj-crispy · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people hate autism so much?
Just...why?? Like, a lot of important historical figures like Alan Turing, Mozart, Michaelangelo are or were supposedly autistic themselves. ASD is literally just being wired slightly differently but people go absolutely ape over it. Just look at the "vaccines cause autism" crowd, for example; people would literally have dead children over autistic children and that's so depressing to me.
Maybe it's because I'm (supposedly, my parents refused to actually get me diagnosed when my dr said i showed signs as a baby) an aspie myself and I'm missing some big overarching joke but it's been years of me sitting on this question and I still don't get why my neurology is so deeply hated by society at large to the extend of DNRs being ordered on autistic patients during the COVID crisis and autistic people & others with learning disabilities being turned away from giving or receiving organs.
DariusStrada · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
jordan31483 · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is a generally "expected" path for everyone to follow in life, i.e., go to college, get married, have a family, work till you're 65, then grandkids, etc. The U.S. is basically 320 million clones of one person, and I think that's both sad and terribly mundane.
dylanmcevoy21 · 1 points · Posted at 01:41:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras work, specifically film ones.
Captgoldboots · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How eclipses work
BinChap11 · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
Palarity · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminism
FatTim48 · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how time changes based on speed.
I asked a friend who is smarter than me if we set two digital watches at exactly the same time, then he effed off on a rocket ship for a while at insane speeds, when he came back the watches would have different times.
He said yes.
I said he's a damn liar.
But he's smarter than me...soooo???
Sneezes_in_Braille69 · 1 points · Posted at 01:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I can’t remember what happiness feels like
msomnipotent · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I forgot to log out of a grocery delivery site and someone a few states away tried to have a 60" tv delivered to their house on my account. The site said it was because I didn't log out, but I have no idea how the people "found" me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:43:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people create things. I genuinely don’t understand how people create something from nothing.
Azure5577 · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who say "Just do ____" like it's something that just comes to everyone naturally. Like "Oh, just build your own PC" or "Oh, just buy a junk car and fix it up". I get it but I have limited funds and im not very bright. Im beyond a YouTube video's help in some cases.
LennartGimm · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They only say it once they‘ve done it and proven to themselves that they could do it (and gathered experience on the topic). It‘s easy to say „just drive to the shops“ if you have a drivers license and know how to drive and what route to take. But tell that to a 12 year old and everyone immediately sees that the kid lacks the prerequired skills. But tell that to a 20yo without a drivers license, and while the skills still aren‘t there, this isn’t as immediately obvious. It‘s not exactly as hard, but comparatively as hard for the 20yo to drive to the shops as it is for the 12yo. But this time, people don‘t immediatisieren see that you lack the skills, and they can‘t perfectly empathise. We all know what it‘s like to be 12 and not understand how to drive, but many of us don‘t know how it‘s like to be 20 and not know how to drive.
The only difference to your example is that most people are still aware that it took a good bit of effort to learn how to drive safely. But if you don‘t get taught by a person and need a license, you‘re much more likely to forget that effort and only remember the skill.
So when someone tells you „Just build a Pc“ they forgot what it took to get the knowledge or they project their own knowledge to you.
Indarys70 · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people listen to the fake liberal media narrative
white_shiinobi · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can’t I do stuff before 10 am
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand how a two-way electrical switch works.
Chanelbaby01x · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans exist.
Outsider_0706 · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you flirt
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it’s pretty fricken lame, but long decision. I’m going to graduate soon and ever since it was taught to me in elementary school I never got it. It has been explained and shown to me so many times over the years and for some reason I get it when it’s explained, but after my mind just completely loses any information about it then I’m back to square one.
beckyloowho · 1 points · Posted at 01:44:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How non autistic brains work versus my autistic brain.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people who say history is written by the victors. I guess Athens won the Peloponnesian war when i wasn't looking, the South won the civil war, the Wehrmacht did nothing wrong (well tbf America kind of helped with that one)
Talanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Military victory isn't the only type of victory. It's often not even the most lasting or effective type. After all, if you write the history of how it took everyone else ganging up on you to defeat you, and you still rose back to power afterwards...who won, in the eyes of history? If you spin a narrative about how sure, you lost, but only because you were too noble for the world, and were truly the only force fighting for freedom against a dastardly oppressor who had no finesse, no honor, just massed troops fed to the slaughter against your brave and honorable warriors? Well, that kind of narrative can win a deeper victory for your cause than you ever were going to manage with guns.
jimsvejda · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
dark matter
Quinnbot2000 · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I have to put on every pair of glasses I see even though it hurts my eyes
toasted_marshmellow0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How microwaves work. I get it is friction of water molecules but just how it is done by such a common house hold item..
Ephyrion · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market right now. It's bad out there.. which is apparently good?
abuchunk · 1 points · Posted at 01:45:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don't pick up after their damn dogs.
aeutea · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who can bite directly through an ice lolly or ice cream and don't wince.
MITCHATRILLION · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
taxes
CALowrey · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why guys can’t replace the roll of toilet paper???
SomeChickUKnow · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Progressive commercials with Flo are still a thing.
Masticle · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrickery; seriously?
Pass a magnet through a coil of copper wire and it creates electrickery. I call BS, must be magic.
HazardMancer · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's illegal to kill myself, and why they make it so much hard to find and get a pain-free method.
wafflesonsaturday · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone says the stars you’re looking at are already gone? How can I see them if they’re not there anymore?
Talanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Put it this way. You know how, when you see a flash of lightning, the sound of the thunder doesn't reach you until several seconds later? You're hearing the lightning, but the lightning is already gone. Light is just much, much faster than sound.
But it does have a top speed, and while it's mostly irrelevant to us on Earth, it gets important quick when you're talking distances between planets and stars. So important that we use the speed of light as a measure of distance - light-seconds, light-minutes, light-hours, light-years...all just ways of expressing how long it takes light to travel in a vacuum.
The Moon is a little over one light-second away from Earth. The Sun is eight light-minutes away. If the Sun suddenly went dark, we wouldn't know for eight whole minutes because the light that would reach us during those minutes was already on its way.
The CLOSEST star to our solar system, Proxima Centauri, is a bit over four light-years away. If anything happened to Proxima Centauri, we wouldn't know for four years.
Imagine what happens when we see the light from a star that's ten million light-years away. If that star burned out ages ago...when would we find out? Only ten million years later.
Now, all of that is true, but the thing is that the person saying that the stars you can see are already gone is actually full of crap. The furthest star that you can see without a telescope is Deneb. It's 1,500 light-years away. Sure, that's a bit of time to people, but stars usually live between millions and trillions of years. None of the stars that you can see unaided are really that far away.
fairiefire · 1 points · Posted at 01:46:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Atoms. I love science and nature, but my basic science education was not very good. I watch stuff on strong theory and get it a bit, but the basics elude me. Like, around make up everything, and like particles attract, but how do they know when to stop being a knife and start being the sandwich I'm cutting?
_MyMomDressedMe_ · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
happyd0gg0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heat capacity and specific heat capacity, basic physics thermodynamics but I just can’t get the difference :(
kaboomaster09 · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life, in general, what’s the point/end goal?
jaarn · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other languages. Tried. Can't.
NiceNeckBud · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we have genitalia and breast that protrude out. I understand the theory of sexual selection but it doesn’t make sense to me that such a vital body part would be put in such a vulnerable position.
Talanic · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans got to be what they are now by selecting for intelligence.
A human that doesn't guard the dangly bits isn't very smart.
If only unintelligent humans are removed from the gene pool by preventable damage to the dangly bits, but it does not reduce the amount of offspring in the next generation to the point of threatening the species' survival, it wound up being a selection for intelligence.
Absotruthly · 1 points · Posted at 01:47:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand how characters and stories portrayed on tv can completely reflect a real persons bad habits and life style. Then the actual person continues on dogmatically through life doing the same predictable actions.
acox7942 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Timbre
BirdBrainGameDev · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Scat porn
Just.. Why?
_solosucio_ · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our government...
gloriousfire101 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you ask about something and someone says "you don't want to know," if I god damn asked about it, I want to know it! If it sends me into crippling depression, so be it! I asked about it, so f**king tell me! Sorry, I got a bit carried away there. But yeah, I don't understand that.
thebeerbabe · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain. I write about technology, I am a smart cookie, and I have had this explained to me several times and I just can not grasp it for some reason. Its frustrating AF.
brh8451 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
RC circuitry, I was going to school for automation and then I dropped out of my AC course when I got to this point.
nostalgicmeep · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we came from complete darkness, and thinking about if the big bang never happened. What would it be like complete darkness? Totally white?
paulusVR46 · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the UK and US sheeple masses continue to vote C*nservative. I truly hope 2020 helps them realis(z)e what this scurge's agenda is actually really all about. The One Percenters are ONLY interested in OUR sweat and blood, and THEIR ever-devisively obscene slave wealth and offensively overpriced power trinkets. Please try your hardest to WTFU and have a much, much nicer day! Peace out and stay safe... THEY hate that xxx., 🇬🇧🌍🇺🇸🇪🇺❤️✌️
ExoticOlives · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einstains theory of time relativity. How where if you move faster you age slower. I just dont get it. I know what the theory is, i just dont know how it works.
Talanic · 2 points · Posted at 02:00:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Essentially, space and time aren't entirely separate concepts. Move too quickly through space and you disrupt how quickly you flow through time. The rest of the universe keeps going at the same pace it always does, but for you, you're effectively pushing forward faster in time because you're moving so much faster in space. That means - to you - while you're moving very quickly, everything that's not traveling at the same speed has had time advance more for them than it did for you.
maeflower14 · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mail system. Thinking about it too much jumbles my brain.
happily_confused · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Craps. My husband loves the game and has tried to explain it to me soo many times. I. Just. Cant. Get. It. But I will be his cheerleader everytime he plays!
pico_de_chonko34 · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How colors are explained..
craze1590 · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are so blindly partisan when it comes to politics. How can people expect to exist peacefully if everything is black or white and never anything in between? Sometimes, we got to meet in the middle.
Rogue_Mormon · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How life insurance works. I feel like life insurance companies must pay more to families when a client dies, than the total cost of the life insurance fees. It seems like a loss on every client, as everyone of them will die. What am I missing?
Talanic · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The company has the money NOW. They're playing the stock markets, investing and using it. Money NOW means they're able to make money in order to pay you or your beneficiaries back LATER and still make a profit. They do a lot of math to determine how much they should charge you, how much they can expect to make from investments and the odds of you kicking the bucket early, resulting in them losing money by not having the time to invest it.
On top of that, not all life insurance is 'whole life' insurance. Whole Life will pay out for sure, sooner or later - either when you die, or when you hit a hundred years old. At that point, the company declares you dead to them (in a good way) and pays you out as if you'd died.
A lot of other life insurance is 'term life.' That means you pay the company for ten years to have a policy. If, during that ten years, you die, the company pays out. But if you survive the duration, the contract is over and you and the company go your separate ways. You can opt to buy a new term policy, and some have provisions for upgrading your term policy to a whole policy, but not all of them will allow it (it's in the contract from the very start if it's allowed). Term life policies don't build up value because they don't have the guaranteed payout, and will instead expire completely.
Source: Insurance guy!
Lacdesbois · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How almost half of the people in the US approve of Donald Trump as president.
tiagodisouza · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how electricity works. We would t have anything without it and I look at these boards in my electronic devices and just think it's magic
xColinBellx · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump and his political views
larrieskiwii · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the word Wednesday is spelled the way it is like tf
g2em42 · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my sisters scared of the Easter bunny. She literally goes ape shit when someone says “Easter bunny”.
Great-Band-Name · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airplanes
GKman49 · 1 points · Posted at 01:50:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stupidity of people.
uwumilk77 · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why some people want to live
mdavis625 · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
Major_Cause · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spooky action at a distance.
throwRAnovember2019 · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social skills and building a relationship.
I'm still not sure how I even got a girlfriend years ago.
UrMumIsACommunitDog · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity
Sunrise2007 · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Earth harbor life. It must have to have a perfect position to do something like that when none other planets we have found has no life on them as far as we know. And also how Karen’s mind work
twinklestein · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politically conservative ideology. And more than that, I really don’t understand libertarianism. Like....why?? Why is it a good thing to fuck over everyone else so that you can make a few more dollars? How does that make society better when the entire ideology is centered around literal selfishness?
I can’t wrap my head around those people.
mycontortionisticgf · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics. I have my bachelors of electronic engineering.
edibleimagination · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't imagine how the universe stretches on forever. Everything around me has an end. The end of the couch, end of a room, end of the earth. There must be an end somewhere. But then what's in the other side!?
dog_cow · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to know if someone is exiting where your entering a roundabout or if they're doing a 180. It feels like I'm winging it every time.
throwlog · 1 points · Posted at 01:51:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Chinese
uuhhoo_stinky16 · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feelling of pleasure, how can rubbing a clit or head make us feel good, how is it that only when we want to feel good we have that feeling of rubbing it and now when that part touches our pants or under wear. how can people enjoy pain like hair pulling or painal. Why do i have to rub my dick for like 10 minutes just to have a few seconds of eufora?
TheFurbyOverlord · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus. Don’t take this as a chance to explain it, I don’t wanna know.
Spqroberts7 · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our current president
1wikdmom · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bonds, mutual markets and what the fuck hedge funds are
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely don’t have a understanding of how we can navigate a fucking RC car on Mars yet i will still drive thru cell phone dead spots. What in the hell is that shit. Lol.
Pro_napper650 · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, ugh!
Ledbolz · 1 points · Posted at 01:52:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can what comes out of a speaker sound exactly like its original recording. Like what is entering my ear is vibrations in the air caused by a vibrating speaker. How do those vibrations sound exactly like what comes out of Robert Plant’s mouth?
flemingmarshal15 · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does a camera work?
Joeltror · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people can enjoy watching videos of real people getting killed/seriously hurt, especially those who find it funny. Really breaks my heart and makes me lose faith in humanity.
i_Azoz · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
r0se_buds · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOUSES in astrology. I understand that we have a sign for every planet but once you get into houses, I'm lost.
brocobasilpestopasta · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science
yoshipapaya · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m not good enough.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greek
DowinBread · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
if only i see colors in a certain way. like black for me is green for them but they still call it “black”
Ryan_2908 · 1 points · Posted at 01:53:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How small we are in the whole UNIVERSE
LoukasDoukas · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes exactly! In fact radiation was a huge shock for us when we found it because half life is a constant. No matter what you do to radioactive materials, heat them explore them drop em off a building, they always decay at the same rate.
meerasrini01 · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jacc belwai
Rogercake · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell Americans have old men as presidents.
Emmuffins · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
MAGNETS
midoriorange · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
T accounts for accounting
Ryan_2908 · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans need to do all these tasks and work when all animals just need to mate and survive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people just die. Like why can't you just keep living, obviously like if you get stabbed, it damages your organs but why is that fatal? why can't it be fixed, like okay basically what I don't understand is why do humans die of old age? or die at all? IDK what I'm saying but if you understand please help me out
pugapooh · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How eggs and sperm multiply to become anything. Skin cells,organs,muscles,etc etc.that they can figure out where arms and legs go. Creating a brain. How can people not believe something or someone is bigger than our world?
angelanebraska · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people that have very little income decide to have pets. I don't understand because it's another living expense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:55:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fascination and devotion surrounding sports.
Completely inconsequential and giving nothing whatsoever to the spectator other than a false feeling of "belonging" to something, while being rooted in nothing more than corporate modelling and marketing.
The fans are more devoted to the team than the actual team members and staff.
Hardly makes any sense at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How many Bernie supporters think voting green will help the progressive cause.
skycloud620 · 1 points · Posted at 01:56:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ratchet rude girls
EsquilaxM · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fiat currentcy. And how there's more money in the world then we start off with, more than is accounted for by any jet gain in raw materials. Something to do wth fractional banking, which seems to create artificial wealth, and how that system isn't a major house of cards is also something I don't get..
dragondropz · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where does our universe exist? What is this "void" that is interstellar space...where and how does it exist?
Moist-Classroom · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. How they can put petty emotions before facts. How the majority seem completely incapable of looking at the big picture, or putting all of us before themselves, or even equaled. People are selfish and stupid and I truly do not understand, how it's not only so common, but it's openly rewarded.
Being the one screaming "iceberg" for years while no one listens is just so soul draining
momasf · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hegel.
Jatrap · 1 points · Posted at 01:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The machismo bullshit over sex crimes. When there’s a story posted on Reddit about some rape or molestation that has occurred and is inarguably awful, the entire comment section will be filled with these people saying things like “If it were my sister they’d never find the body” or “I sure hope he gets raped every day in prison for the rest of his life”. It’s absurd and it’s indefensible. It gets to a point where I genuinely hate the people making these comments more than I hate the criminal the story is about.
Dragonn2005 · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don't believe in vaccines
cplaprade · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
genniifurr · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
effect or affect
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How two people look at the same information and have completely different takeaways.
ElecticMad · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think there are more than 2 genders. I’ve tried several times to justify their reasoning but I always come to the conclusion that they are selfish self-entitled uneducated dumbasses
Madalynnviolet · 1 points · Posted at 02:01:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's more of a concept of what is gender and what is sex. Those "self-entitled uneducated dumbasses" refer to gender as the societal and mental constructs around what you refer to as gender, which would be sex to them what is what you are born biologically.
Then it brings up another question, what about those who are born with both? How would you characterize them?
ElecticMad · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are kinda outliers. I’m not saying disregard them, but u can’t rly use people born like that as evidence to back up their argument. They are their own. But u can’t tell me every single person that identifies as a made up gender was born neither male of female.
flatnoseflounder · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chapter 12 of Algebra and Trigonometry Seventh Edition by Michael Sullivan
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:58:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand anything really. Nothing at all. How is bread made? I know the ingredients but why does it makes bread? How do computers work? I know about electric signals, but why do they do what they do? If you asked me "why does this happen" for anything at all and I wouldn't be able to tell you. It's like my brain is incapable of knowing true explanations for anything that's told me.
So I guess what I don't understand is how to understand the first thing in a series of thing's that lead to something being something.
arrogant_ambassador · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can make a living as an animator or a poet or any kind of creative.
SirByron · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For want of a 75 cent mask the nurse was lost
For want of a nurse the patient was lost
For want of a patient the household was lost
For want of a household the economy was lost
For want of a economy the battle was lost
For want of an battle the kingdom was lost
And all for the want of a 75 cent mask
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people aren’t wearing masks during this pandemic
Jamiejame2123 · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people lack compassion. In addition, how some people can turn their back on you.
cecelia16 · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
hayzie93 · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the show Gossip Girl became so popular. It is literal trash and communicates the worst values.
MegaMope · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radio waves and how we send complex sounds with them.
Bbymorena · 1 points · Posted at 01:59:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hook up culture
jdotAD · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want to be victims
joemac1994 · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The expansion of the universe
econoking · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Euchre.
Th3inc3 · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finding your place in the world. What if I don’t have a place? What if the place I come to isn’t something I like? I just wanna be happy but what does that even mean? I guess as a whole I don’t understand life and where I fit into this whole thing. I’m starting to think I don’t fit.
briannasaid · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
helen keller
le_potato99 · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know, man. I am aware that i do not understand a lot of things and there's so many things that I wish to immerse myself into but with my discouraging family and their continuous habit of leading my life as to what they think is right for me, the possiblities of me learning and understanding concepts offered by the world really narrows me from little to nothing at all. So in the end, I am generally confused all the time.
Timelapseninja · 1 points · Posted at 02:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, that shit is pure magic. Also seeds that grow into plants, also pure magic. Electricity is also something I have tried really hard to comprehend, but still can’t fully grasp.
blondie_the_abuser · 1 points · Posted at 02:01:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. I don't get any of it. The only reason I support who I support is because my friends and family do too.
thestinkestgoldmine · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m not good enough
second_aid_kit · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning in life.
ThatTallAsainKid · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Several things actually 1. How do people eat so little and say they're stuffed 2. The concept of seeing things in your head 3. How do people read so slowly 4. Y'all need 8 hours of sleep?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why different people like different genres of music.
cherry--garcia · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Caring what others think about you. Believe me I used to care A LOT as the typical teenager. I get it that it's waaay more intertwined into society, but using Japan as an example, a problem they seem to face is a lot of shaming surrounding sex/sexuality? As an adult you can do whatever you want? I'm from America so I am aware there are societal differences. I'm sure I don't understand the underlying implications from general society and relationships with families.
snow969 · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
itslekker · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything Quadratic related
aedroogo · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man.
EguinoElPinguino · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stokes' theorem. I cannot even grasp Green's theorem, so it's obvious I wouldn't understand Stokes'.
jordan31483 · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why money is the basis of life in the U.S. and most people will resort to almost any immorality to get more of it. How can you live with a clear conscience knowing you did something illegal or immoral, rather than genuinely earned your money?
janky-dog · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
New Ripped Jeans.
Why do you want to be a fashion slave and pay top $ for a look that says "broke-ass laborer"?
Is it saying that you are so wealthy that you don't care about how you look? Simulacrum? A weird reverse elitism?
BTW, I am a broke-ass laborer and I always try to dress neat.
jdarby84 · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the 1% can truly not care about anyone else...
flumpett · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cranes get built
SheFoundTheSock · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Like how can you genuinely judge someone solely off of their color?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why America has let China make their essential goods and take advantage of them in trade for decades.
eyefrica · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd love to know the origin of Anunnaki
Violent-Profane-Brit · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people gain enjoyment from being assholes, I just don't get it
Space_Wave777 · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you say words in your head you remember saying them but not hearing them.
KMKY · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math classes. I am one math credit shy of my degree. I’m almost 40. I can’t pass the class and I do not know what to do. I have good credit. A great job. Balanced a budget on a single mom income for almost two decades now, never missed a car payment and have a (small) savings account. But I can’t pass college math and it is holding me back from so. Much.
forlorn_hope28 · 2 points · Posted at 02:08:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The irony is that unless you work in some specialized fields, you won’t even need college math. I majored in Finance and worked on minoring in Comp Sci so I took more math than an arts major, but less than a math major and I don’t use any of the advanced calculus. Like ever. It felt great knowing it in school because it made me feel smart, but I’d have to start at square one for anything more complicated than derivatives.
Getset · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Am I the only one reading these comments who feels like they understand almost all of them?
jwat4455 · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
wattoexe · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prime numbers
SonnusFanAB-C3000 · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people brag about sleeping late and I see them in the morning complaining that school doesn't give them enough sleep.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can know that their actions directly result in the torture of innocent animals, yet choose to value the taste of their flesh over their existence. Despite humans being able to eat plants and be completely healthy
ValterKuechel · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have gone crazy over toilet paper with this pandemic.
Marsssiii · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it works, that we can think in different languages. So to explain what i mean: Im german and (mostly) think in german and i cant make up how others think in their language because i can just think in german and english. Well if it sounds confusing, here are some other things i dont really understand: Timetraveling How life developed and how it functions so well.
MacGrubR · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any rational adult can think Donald Trump is a good President/human and that he has done nothing wrong in his presidency.
I genuinely don’t know how to relate to anyone who does because their world view is so vastly different from my own that we must not have much (if anything) in common.
rabbitswithnoears · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
jordan31483 · 1 points · Posted at 02:05:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ricers think their cars look and sound good. Because they totally don't.
w0rstwitch · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets.
MegabyteMessiah · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This damn question. I'm reading responses, and I'm thinking WTF? Look back at the question... oh, it's "What", not "How".
madmel996 · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get mad at vegans for eating vegan alternatives of meat.
Some vegans admit they miss the taste of meat and their lifestyle is due to reasons such as ethics and the environment. They miss the taste. I don’t understand why people find this so hard to comprehend.
Grinagh · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The emotions and thoughts that another person must be feeling given my history in any given moment, I only gain this when I reflect on memories.
Snapiw0w · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being gay. Why are they gay? How?
thenewkidaw71 · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do stocks have intrinsic value?
olddog_br · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of nothing, like what is beyond our universe or before the Big Bang.
tgolf4fun · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife.....
rokitup · 1 points · Posted at 02:06:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cars
BibiGS · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get it the question asks “what do u not genuinely not understand. “ How can downvote be an explanation to my answer ? It’s a real answer.!
watercrews22 · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
45
Jeermzz · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:08:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics, I mean......I understand physics, but I do not under stand physics.
sunshinebear995 · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meaning of general happiness.
VenusIsBetter · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the universe. so many things happening all at once, everything happening by chance, and here we are, an insignificant speck of rock with a sentient bit of mold drifting through it all. it's beautiful, yet terrifying.
renmana74 · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Singularities, doesn't matter how much terminology I look up or how it's explained I cannot wrap my brain around it. Same with 4D
eddyisdead · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
willybisquick · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mom
ItsUrBoiAman · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
ferrettimee · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That part of maths where its a triangle plus another, different triangle I also have dyscalculia and can barely do division so maybe that’s why
derpylerp12 · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe just happened like no. Something big made that some entity or something
papaskla34 · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where matter came from
jeffritoh · 1 points · Posted at 02:10:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is time relative
kurlozzzzz · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My "friend", i dont know what him want of me, is confusing and hearthless
youpores_could_never · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people lie about dumb things that don’t matter. Yeah, I understand lying sometimes. But why are you lying when you know you ate the last cookie JARED
mark484877 · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics and how is Religion real and not fake.
Ghenges · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intelligence - the ability to learn things. What is it in the brain that can make a 5 year old understand calculus or play chess at a high level or play the piano with ease. I've always been intrigued by child prodigies and how the ability to grasp concepts come so easy for some people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What life is and how living creatures live and how did the first living thing come to start living?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's ability not to stay at home during CoVid restrictions of movement....
Red_RyDon · 1 points · Posted at 02:11:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Negative interest rates. I can't understand why anyone would give some one more money today for less money in the future.
Professors usually explain it as paying someone to guard your money. But I always feel that you could find a bank to keep it on a 0% basis.
GreyWolf9820 · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid some people can be. It always blows my mind when I think about it.
Las9rEyes · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TVs, WIFI, texting work.
ohmesrv · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people on Reddit always state the reason they edited their post or apologize for editing their post/comment. Like, how does anyone even know, and why do they care? I’m on mobile so maybe I can’t see everything.
Gooderesterest · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
amazinglymorgan · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i enjoy torturing myself so much. I get a Slurpee then get a brain freeze and it's living in hell, then the second that hell ends what do i do?... Take another drink of slurpee. Same thing with sour stuff or spicy. I cannot figure out why I love to turture myself.
Or there is a perfect gentleman in front of me who can make every dream of mine come true and is just a good human. Do I accept the offered hand. Hell no i just run. Because it makes more sense to continue my struggle right?...
Or I do something the difficult way 20 times and i say to myself. Okay next time i am going to do it the other way so i don't have to deal with all this nonsense. One day later guess where i am. Yelling at myself for doing everything the hard way. I love torture apparently. ???
ExplodingXMango · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why discord is forcing changes on their users despite massive outrage and dislike compared to the previous UI versions
havereddit · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain...why it's revolutionary and why it matters
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
deja reve. I have had several events of this. One dream was about a guy I knew in my hometown who was an acquaintance. We lived on the same street as kids and went to the same high school and played on the same soccer teams. We weren't really friends though. About 15 years later I had moved to another city attending school. One night I have a dream about a soccer game that included him. The next day I get off the elevator at school and literally walk into him! It was his first day.
Blue_Dragon0354 · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any math pre-algebra and after
kdkdkssidj · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the universe even exists. What’s the point of all this? Space, matter, life.
Nanashouse · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m the same way. I say I suffer from INERTIA!
EarthlyAmbushNSFW · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organized religion, and why it’s “a thing.”
dementor0003 · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams and sleep.. If we need to sleep so our brains could rest, then doesn't having dreams make the brain work while we try to rest it?
RainyFern · 1 points · Posted at 02:13:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. The internet, like HOW does it work. Wind.
swampthingonsteroids · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ooflord60 · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why your mom doesn't like it when i fart during a blowjob.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The relation of space and time, and 4D
jewyouevenlift · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everyone in the West doesn’t constantly question their political and social convictions, or at least their intensity, knowing that there was and is a massive Russian propaganda intended to blow them out of proportion. How does no one seem to 1) question whether they were influenced by it and 2) be redirecting that intense anger to Russia instead?
It’s like we were in a fairytale where a whole town of villagers was put under a spell by an evil queen and convinced to fight amongst each other; and then one day the spell was broken and all the villagers learned they were under this spell; but instead of turning on the evil queen they just said “fuck it,” and went back to throwing punches.
Like...what?
ArmourDoggo · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking everything.
TheBigBo-Peep · 1 points · Posted at 02:15:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf I have to spend hour upon hour learning Eigenvalues.
Sateloco · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how power is wielded. Is it a weapon? How does it work?
namesake_kml · 1 points · Posted at 02:16:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of religion
MrPotatoLauncher · 1 points · Posted at 02:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
common sense
ATreeOutsideMyWindow · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
CommanderNat · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why im so bad at my chosen major.
TwentyYearsLost89 · 1 points · Posted at 02:18:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I feel like after thirty years, I still haven’t changed, and yet I know that I have, but something was left behind that I can’t get back and it keeps me awake some nights.
Tom_Foolery2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I wasn’t alerted it was my cake day until 8pm.
myleg-Hurts · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can say whatever we want yet she still says nothing to me, 🥺
bencarroll20 · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation
InnovaTosser · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finding permutations of things. I work in software and I oftenbhave to think of all scenarios for test cases and I can't just do the math in my head. It drives me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Willful ignorance.
renaissance-breast-f · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The gift of tears. Happened to me when I first walked into church. I am not religious nor am I an atheist. Also, I’m not a person who cries easily but I am highly emotional.
Nguyenanh2132 · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vr games work.
militarydrawer · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dance on tik-tok, why people watch people dance, just the whole dancing on tik-tok thing is beyond me
Crazyxjx · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say turrents instead of turrets on Ark..
tplnr · 1 points · Posted at 02:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that suddenly many women remember to tell you about their feelings and consider you more attractive when you get into a relationship (especially when they don't even know about you being in a relationship at all). I'm totally not being any different from my usual self. The only thing that has changed is my overall happiness because of my girlfriend
takashi9 · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agnostic-theist and agnostic-atheist. I know what a theist and an atheist is but I have a hard time understanding how agnostic-theist and agnostic-atheist work. I always thought you are either a theist, agnostic or atheist.
rootware · 2 points · Posted at 02:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agnostic refers to the idea that there isn't enough information to make a scientific, evidence based decision. An agnostic theist has decided that while there is no way to know for sure, they'll choose to believe there is a god. Agnostic atheist means that while there is no way to know for sure, they'll choose to believe there is no god.
toe-tell-e19 · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik Tok
upvotingthisnow · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flaunting torn clothes as fashion.
ontheroadtv · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother and why she does the things she does.
DeletusTheFeetus · 1 points · Posted at 02:21:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you asked me this.
agoodheavymain · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Okumara's fight in both persona games are bad.
bongocat132 · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animals communicating. We know almost every single human language but not one "animal language".
reddit_selfhelp · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The freaking stock market.
El_shawnzo · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time works. Obviously it exists, buy what I don't understand is how we would perceive it if we were on a different solar system. Time as we understand it is based on our planets movements in relation to the sun. But another planet can do that in either more time or less time. So if we colonized a different planet in a different solar system whose year is half the time of ours hear on Earth, how does that affect how would we perceive time? Are there any scientists that can explain this to me?
buddybyte · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How video games work. You put the disc/cartridge in then you can run around and play however you please within the game!!! I would love to learn about game development and see how it all works.
toolmantimmy · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't unstand, is it a rule that you cant talk to me eye to eye? What did I do now?
themooseyoufear · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. Does it have actual worth? Is it just to show off? Is there a certain amount that equals to a US dollar? Can I touch it? I could look this up, but I don’t care enough too. I remain curious yet lazy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:22:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
icyangel2666 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I came here to say, how people can be so inconsiderate.
Movie theater, who care's if there's other people lets talk away throughout the whole movie/take a phone call.
Friend's house, their mom make's the friend go to a birthday party and I'm stuck there with nothing to do until they get back. Uhh, shouldn't one of you had thought about that before I came over?
When someone parks over a puddle and I have to try and get around it going in and out of the car.
Our cabin, we're sitting on our dock fishing. A couple in a little boat stop in the middle of the bay we're in. They didn't anchor, presumably because they didn't have one. It was almost completely calm but there was just enough breeze to cause them to slowly drift toward our dock. Long story short, they kept drifting closer and closer, and closer. They didn't put their motor in and drive off until they were literally like a foot away from our dock. They didn't say a word but the expression on their face was like they were annoyed that we were there... on our own dock. That wasn't only inconsiderate but it was incredibly rude. There's kind of an unwritten rule at least where I'm from that you're not supposed to invade someone's space, especially when they're like fishing. But some people either don't know, or don't care.
There's probably a gagillion other examples but I can't understand why so many people are so inconsiderate of others. I mean when I think about it sometimes it's cause people forget to think/of others, but still.
PixelZorn · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Almost everything "bureaucratic".
I consider myself a quite intelligent, logical person - studied computer science, have a wider and deeper knowledge & understanding than most people in many fields (science, psychology, nature, history, society,...)
but when it comes to forms, taxes, law, insurances, ... i just ... i just don't understand it. i can sit down with someone explain everything to me. 1min later, I am completely clueless again. It feels like sand running through my fingers. and if i think i got it, i try to postulate it with my own world.. and it shows that I didn't get it.
it really Annoys me so much, that i get really really angry.
neurophysiologyGuy · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does time slow as you get closer to the black hole
kirbyfox312 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've tried to learn computer coding multiple times. I can understand certain things but as a whole I have no idea why things break and why they don't half the time.
EnergizedPhoenix · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A belief that government is the answer to everything.
JPeak96 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Language and how we can comprehend even our own language in our minds, when I think about it I start to lose my own understanding of my own language. Kinda freaky.
Thirtyqueen2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
Darth_lDoge · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus, God help me pass year 12 maths!
gameraider505 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
when you imagine something, where do you see it.
estratega583 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music. I have been learning guitar for 5 years and drums for 2 years and I don't fucking understand ANYTHING about theory.
miggyp1234 · 1 points · Posted at 02:23:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exists at the edge of space
awetZ · 1 points · Posted at 02:24:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings.
_Bruce_Lightning · 1 points · Posted at 02:24:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Outer Space. Like I know that scientists say the universe is ever expanding but I have this thought that if I could travel in space forever, meaning no food, water, air, or fuel needed, then I’d eventually loop back around to where I started. I know that’s not the case but all my life I haven’t been able to get that cognition of space out of my head.
phillybillyboo · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
arrrrpeeee · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't put effort into learning how to do things I'm passionate about
cool23819 · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why nothing crazy has happened in april
gco2239 · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand stocks
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to to turn decimals into fractions
Demonicsilver · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
100exodus · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump suporters!
McPugg · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My self thought
therealpro198710 · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women think
aaronkellysbones · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything about politics i.e. Democrats vs liberals etc i dont even know what a democrat or republican is.
kejok · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
That-1Sad_Pineapple · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell the education system is as fucked up as it is. Like, they expect you to wear the uniform, and you cant wear boots for whatever reason, they don't teach you how to do taxes or how to apply for a mortgage or even how to help people with depression.
Oh, but that's all fine, cause now I can tell you if the number of unnecessary deaths caused by that stupid choice is prime.
kjdflskdjf · 1 points · Posted at 02:25:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin in detail
PepitoPlomo · 1 points · Posted at 02:26:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who shot johnny
BusterBar1 · 1 points · Posted at 02:26:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rules of football 🏈
lycan10101 · 1 points · Posted at 02:26:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of offside in football, just can’t comprehend it, don’t know why
wafflesonsaturday · 1 points · Posted at 02:26:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! This actually makes so much sense! I appreciate you breaking it down for me!
NefariousNev · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How right-wing conservatives avoid logic and reasoning
Zeus240 · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
JoelAK · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
E=MC2
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of The Elder Scrolls’ more esoteric lore. Fucking stop using big words, Vivec, you dick.
Mayas1 · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anyone earning less then 75K voting Republican. The process of voting against your own interest. I've read a lot of different stuff regarding this from people in different fields, but can't say I can wrap my head around it. There are all sorts of reasons lack of critical thinking being a popular reason, but how much of it does one need, to know that you don't have food in the table, you can't go see a doctor and so many other such basic human necessities that you are deprived of which people all around you in other countries have. And yes if it was one or two or three people sure. But millions of them.... Boggles the mind.
yipsnippet · 1 points · Posted at 02:27:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do flat-earthers exist?
instantpuppycloud · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wisecrack did a good piece on that. https://youtu.be/umo6pMCkcXs
RogueGamerFoxx · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who pick on underdogs or “kick you while you’re down” for enjoyment.
Baseraji · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inception movie
Heavy-Theory · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to find my way without written instructions (in the geographical ways.....=)
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sign_in_or_sign_up · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why letters in the mirror are flipped left-right but not up-down. doesn't matter if I rotate myself sideways or not.
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has to do with focal lengths and the positioning of the viewer.
oc2156 · 1 points · Posted at 02:28:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music theory
WeeWeePeeblins · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Binary
pandacubz101 · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
KrookedKnees · 1 points · Posted at 02:29:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck people think 5G causes Covid-19
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Light years. You can explain it to me now and I’ll completely understand it but ask me about it again 30 minutes later and I will be completely dumbfounded by it.
sign_in_or_sign_up · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where the material for a tree comes from? I mean picture a 100' 10 ton cedar tree. where did the 10 tons of material come from to make the tree? it's not like it used up 10 tons of dirt, all that is still there. plus trees rot and make MORE dirt! where is all this material coming from? are trees made out of air and water? doesn't seem so.
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plants use photosynthesis to turn water and co2 into sugars. Photons basically help bounce electrons around to drive the reaction
Mikkkey · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie supporters that would rather have Trump than Biden.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:30:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people enjoy playing league of legends. It is the most boring and annoying game I have ever played.
UnicornMolestor · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone that isn't a rich multimillionaire supports trump. Like, unless you're super rich, he will shit on you and your redneck family in an instant and then laugh in your face about it.
ReddotCleaner · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
pankaud27 · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Github
DelphineasSD · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating.
I can sorta understand emotional cheating if I really think about;maybe your SO won't talk about a certain thing, or is otherwise terible at communicating.
But having sex with a third party? Maybe it's because I'm a virgin, but I can't wrap my head around something being SO AMAZING that you'd be so wiling to get it at any cost.
I could understand if your SO hasn't slept with you in years, or being an idiot and getting blackout drunk,but other than that?
But then again, I have the(maybe warped) view that a relationship without sex is just friendship. Like...what else could be the difference between the two?
Ricjack99 · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How States can say Marijuana is legal but the Federal Government says its not.
-I_eat-paper_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a person would plagerize.
I don't get it at all. What does a person think when they see the post they're about to steal? Where does it get them? Why do it when there's going to be a trace of someone else posting before you? My one theory is either people do it for clout or compliments, but even then why not just take one talent they have and post that to social media? It confuses me to an even further extent when people get mad and say it is theirs. What makes a person think this is fine? Everything about it is so murky to me, and it just doesn't feel right when I see stolen work. My spidey senses go through the roof when I find reposts. If anybody does have any thoughts or knowledge as to why, please do tell me. Thanks for reading my wall of text.
TheACistooloud · 1 points · Posted at 02:31:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft redstone.
max1mx · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How that person is in charge? Who the hell did they fool to get there?
chauhan_sahab · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people or a lot of them can sleep for 10 hours or more at a stretch. Sleeping more than 6-8 is literally time wasted.
I am 26.Cant sleep a second more than 6 hours or even less sometime.No dark circles no testesterone dips no nothing. I am 5' 8" 72 kgs. Feel fine and super energetic.
ghhcdjvc · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the western society thinks trans , gay and drag are ok , statics shows different story yet it’s acceptable and pushed even on kids whom literally wanna become anything from a stone to a fly.
andytse · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't understand women and how they think
Raf9999 · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blackpeopletwitter and whitepeopletwitter reddit subs are not racists. (Been bothering me for a long time)
lmartinez0351 · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to say Worcestershire
Blob-fish5 · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Mona Lisa’s hands are so hot
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cells
Kaisernator · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cooking. It’s a foreign language to me. What food goes with what? How do you cut vegetables, types of seasoning, how to put together a dish, and so many types of knifes? I guess I just didn’t grow up with parents that cook. Really affecting me now that I’m home so much.
grandroute · 1 points · Posted at 02:32:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why Trump is still President
ypmr2406 · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone like Trump became president
PM-ME_YOUR_CREAMPIE · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foot fetishes.
i-like-ur-mom42069 · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I do something dumb then do it again
Adverage · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people came up with complex math
nxknxwledge · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
White people.
tryingtodad · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking Magnets, how do they work?
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Anytime a young kid commits murder, people say "he was never taught right from wrong". Even in cases where the kid kills himself afterwards. Um...the guy killed himself to avoid going to jail.
This American Life had an interview with a guy who blamed the Sandy Hook shootings on Adam Lanza's mother. No, not for not recognizing Adam's warning signs (which makes sense):
I don't understand "not to do things like that", but I think he means "Adam Lanza was never taught you shouldn't kill people". Look, if you're 20 years old, you know if you murder a bunch of people, you're going to get arrested and go to jail. Remember, Adam Lanza killed himself. He knew damn well that he would go to jail if he didn't kill himself.
Edit: I'm not a big fan of the "this kid did something bad! He wasn't raised right!" thinking. Just because you taught your kid to not do something doesn't automatically mean he's not going to do it. If you teach the kid "it's wrong to hit people" don't assume the kid will never be in a situation where he's going to hit someone (AKA a bunch of kids are making fun of him and he is trying his damdest to ignore it, and he's had enough and hits the next person who messes with him. Especially years later when he thinks "i hit someboidy who made fun of me. I was right, that person did deserve it." Yeah I know it's /r/oddlyspecific)
eyefrica · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to access Akashic records and how true is it?
ehdiajenskksz · 1 points · Posted at 02:33:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am i alive
Stegosaurus41 · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Interaction with people.
itz_yer_boiii · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people lose 5 years of friendship in 15 min of hatred
Goop474 · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This may be basic, I don't understand coding and medical stuff.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The beginnings of the universe. How big is the universe? Are we alone? Where did we come from? Did some sort of God create us? If so, where did that God come from? It blows my mind to think of the possibilities! 🤯
died1996 · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people crave to be the center of attention
rootware · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biological impulse. We're social animals,most of us have a tendency to be accepted by the pack.
FeatheredSamus · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Corrupt politicians/leaders/billionaires that view success as stomping over others due to their status, race, etc.
How do you continuously live with yourself? What’s inside your head?
Don’t just say they’re used to it. I want details and answers. Mostly because I love the psychology of psychopaths.
sinjinerd · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
KousieArima · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Integration
Quasisotropic · 1 points · Posted at 02:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm still alive.?? Why
chillsloth2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How penises work I get the basics but nothing else also just how human body work what's in them ect I never had a good health class
Essy_17 · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people just can’t be kind or do the right thing. I wish I knew their thought process.
KieffasGreenHoodie · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
toe-tell-e19 · 1 points · Posted at 02:35:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to successful put myself out there. I genuinely want to meet someone but I can’t seem to do it. I must be doing something completely wrong.
The_NitDawg · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
King crimsons stand ability
shedoesntevengohere9 · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
ankitpoor · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Origin of the universe
NiceNeckBud · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So your saying my dick is why I’m smart
MarvelMorganS · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most memes
gigglebit275 · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms
bDsmDom · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Pauli exclusion principle. I know what it is, but why is it?
Entanglement. I get the basics, knowing one set of observables determines the other, how do things become entangled? What ISN'T entangled? Where does entanglement occur?
Wave Function Collapse. What's waving? Probability? Higher dimensions?
Why doesn't Schrodinger's cat count as an observer?
What are the equations that describe a mathematician sitting at a desk reading a math book?
Where does consciousness fit into physics? Like not woo-woo meta physical stuff, but actual testable science?
KATEOFTHUNDER · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When someone decides the love you and then has a list of things they want you to change about yourself. W.T.A.F.??
sexypatriarch · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
FraughtQuill · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How basic commands are given in cpus. So I understand how memory and data storage works, and I understand that instructions essentially move blocks of data around. But how are those basic instructions actually carried out?
qwerty32112 · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
tona19 · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Galaxies
SevillanaMoon · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 1 x 0 = 0 and 1 x 1 = 1 , really feel it should be 1 & 2
unnewl · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between exponential and linear growth.
ssr2396 · 1 points · Posted at 02:39:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the world turns do fast yet we don't feel anything
nightstalker_55 · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why genital mutilation is still legal to do on baby boys. You’re violating someone’s right to their own body, their own genital integrity. Nature made you intact, yet people somehow are allowed to decide getting their sons genitals mutilated if they wanted to?
MountieRed · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time being relative. Or the theory of relativity.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How birth-blind people learn to talk
incognito7917 · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The same way non blind people learn.
sanyogG · 1 points · Posted at 02:40:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space and time
psychotic_neko · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Faucets. I don’t know why but they absolutely blow my mind. Hell, the science behind pipes and sinks are probably pretty simple but I just can’t even comprehend it.
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's mostly about pressure
SIacktivist · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem. Alright, so, three doors and you pick one, you think it’s a 1/3 shot. But if the gameshow host opens a door that ain’t yours, and it has a donkey or whatever behind it, now it’s a 1/2? Like, I guess, from your perspective, sure. But in practice, don’t that mean that it’s always been a 1/2?
Also, the idea that not every parallel universe exists (for example, “hehe what if there was a universe where star wars was real”) because “there are infinite points between 1 and 2, but none of them are 3” makes no sense to me. Like, the idea seems logical but not that specific explanation.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The need for pennies.
Maus-Ratte · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:41:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Airplanes
wanna-buya-llama · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crowded intersections of pedestrians, each walking towards each other in a giant swam, yet somehow we make it across to the other side efficiently without massive collisions.
napbasturd · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
UnwashedMaritalAid · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone
parapluie88 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who listen to loud music or talk on speaker phone in a public area but relatively small space (subway car, elevator, store). What happened to your headphones? Do you just not care that we can hear it too? Did it occur to you that we don't want to? If you don't care, why is that? Who did/didn't raise you?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pepper’s ghost
Hartless_One · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who play competitive playlists in video games that constantly complain about how shit their teammates are but never put effort into finding teammates.
scifigetsmehigh · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How lines of code translate to graphics on the screen.
StoneNutria · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cords get tangled
badnewsbeers86 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
modernangel · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calc II
Jewish_Cat_69 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
jonesy070707 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emo-mumble rap. Call me old, I grew up with old school Em and Dre. I just don’t get the new breed of rappers.
Jimikook04 · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does university work? I'm in grade 10 and I'm seeking to enter a local university but I have no idea what uni life is like.
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. I know a good deal of math but I'm way out of my league in that field
DJSeale · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I worked myself to the bone for nearly a decade at community college and then Stanford University just to end up completely under employed tending bar and tutoring.
LordAbrahamIV · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to use pointers in SQL
juliza147 · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math...any kind...I just don't get it :/
fightingwithmyheart · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Filing taxes. (Just did mine)
bobbythepainter2020 · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Volcanoes. I don’t understand why they don’t blow crap out all the time.
_0nyx_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the unit circle
Loofy12 · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people have that inner voice they can hear, and some people don't.
UnicornBoned · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mailboxes. Why do things keep appearing in them?
Insatiable_Skeptic__ · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market ins and outs. It's over my head. Also the concept of time and that we've always existed, there is no beginning.
Mr_Chucklepants · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That Trump hasn’t been tossed out yet.
AnuT-5000 · 1 points · Posted at 02:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How love works and why love?
broke_actor · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options and Futures trading.
eye_tawnyah · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
options trading
Owendy · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slopes like what the fuck I can never figure out how to solve or right a slope equation
firephoenix0013 · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can get around without seeing in 3-D. I even work with people who have never seen 3-D before and it just blows my mind. Technically I don’t have 3-D all the time as I have eccentric fixation in my left eye so my brain sometimes just says “ah fuck it” and turns it off...but I can’t tell O.o Brains are weird.
Grandmastermuffin666 · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the hell is concienseness
dca_user · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The subtle unwritten social rules for the US. I have the big picture items down, but I somehow rub people the wrong way within 2-3 interactions.
I'm trying to work with a therapist on social skills, but everyone I found works with kids.
Grateful for advice here, books, or recommendations on how to find someone who can teach this remotely.
pak256 · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you give some examples?
dca_user · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks for asking. I’m good enough to be on the outside of a group, and good Enough to ask for help, but not someone they want to willing talk to.
It’s hard to describe as I don’t know what is happening but I’ll try in two examples:
I help all the new employees onboard to our office, but no one is friendly with me after the on boarding is done. (But they’re friendly with each other.)
or for social gatherings: I’ll invite a group of People (who I thought were my friends) over to my house 3-4x in a year. I think everyone has a good time. I later find out they were having their own parties and not inviting me- multiple times during the year.
Does this help?
pak256 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A little. I see a few things going on here. I can 100% help with the first since I do that for a living (I’m a training and development manager for a company and do on boarding). The second will require some explaining. I’d love to chat with you about it, feel free to pm me and we can set something up.
quaranzine · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:10 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
I imagine this results in feelings of rejection, loneliness, and frankly, of being used.
One possibility is that during an onboarding process, it is easy to come across as going "over board." If you are responsible for showing the new person "the ropes," if you are over eager in offering information or multiple channels to accomplish office tasks, the other person may subconsciously put up a wall in order prevent themselves from being overwhelmed. In this case, you are trying to be helpful and share all the tips to help make the new person's life more productive. The reality is, onboarding is about "office vibes" as much as it is about office protocol. This means, a gentler approach may be to be friendly in a responsive way instead of a "here let me show you XYZ" way. If you are the onboarding designee, the new person may subconsciously associate you with "information only" and not as "friendly chatting." This is a fine line to walk because you are responsible for the not fun, not sexy parts of beginning a new job, and thus, are not included in the friendly office banter once everyone feels comfortable.
Another way to address this: is it part of your official job description to onboard new staff? Does it seem feasible for someone else in the office to take over this task? A way to look at it as like good cop/bad cop, or fun parent (commonly dad) and strict parent (commonly mom). In the cop situation, both cops care about the person, the bad cop is more straightforward about it, and the good cop goes slower and is more "dancing around the topic." In the case of the parents, the dad often guides and does big picture stuff like christmas presents and summer vacations, while the mom often does the nitty gritty everyday stuff like teeth brushing and homework.
If you are responsible for teaching the nitty gritty protocol stuff, the others may not be able to associate you with anything other than tedious feelings.
Let me know I am on the right track here.
I generally break parties up into three categories: open house party, close friends, and topic specific.
Open house parties are giant parties where I invite close friends and acquaintances. These are housewarming parties, a giant new years party, a baby shower if I were trying to collect many gifts. I am less discerning about the guest list because I am interested in having people from all areas of my life attend. I expect to spend only a few minutes chatting with each person because I am busy greeting guests, taking coats, organizing appetizers, etc.
Close friends party are much smaller, maybe 5 to 10 people. These are people I have one on one encounters with, people I enjoy spending time with, and people who either are all also friends or friendly with each other, or at least mesh well together. This is a party where I expect to spend significant time chatting with everyone, either one on one, a few groups of three people, or even all of us as a group. I am usually less busy playing hostess here because the focus is on spending quality time together. This party takes place in a quieter environment - no loud music, no bustling big party feel - because the focus is on connecting with each other. When thinking about who I would invite here, it would people that when I saw them, I would give a hug and a squeeze to.
The topic specific party are those like a book group, or a hobby specific group, like my hiking group. These friends may be close or they may be acquaintance level, or most likely, a mix of both. The primary focus here is that our shared interest is what brought us together. This type of party would have some hosting duties and some small group or one on one conversations, but the focus here wouldn't be on close conversations. It would be on friendly getting together, passing time type of party.
I imagine you and your friends are having different types of parties and also thinking of each other as different types of friends. It can be challenging to rectify this, so don't feel discouraged if it doesn't change right away.
Some options are to try throwing a different type of party. Like, if you always throw house parties, throw a close friends party and invite these friends. There are a few other options to try and help this. Please let me know if I am on the right track before I keep writing.
dca_user · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:32 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you so much - I think you hit the office one right, and I may be coming off strong. If you dont mind, I'm going to sit with this for a bit.
For the second one, I get what you're saying, but let me think on this a bit more. I was told later I wasn't supposed to know about their parties (to which I wasn't invited to...) so it definitely felt deliberately mean.
Thanks and have a good night.
quaranzine · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:37 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah, if you were intentionally excluded from the friends party, that leads me to believe it is similar to clique- y behavior some experience in middle school. I will elaborate more below.
Now, I mentioned middle school as an example for cliques because people commonly associate middle school with bullying. The reality is that cliques exist often into adulthood and social and professional environments.
It is a way to increase social status by diminishing others, therefore increasing real or perceived power.
Cliques intentionally leave out individuals by considering them as 'other' or 'different'.
So for example, if you are throwing a party and inviting 10 people. They all attend. Later, you find out that all 10 of them had their own party without you.
The point here is for them to emphasize that they are similar to one another specifically because they are all different from you.
This elevates there social standing above you.
People choose someone to ostracize based on small actions - a slight accent, a chaotic personality, distracted/all over the place.
So, for example, if you all hang out together, and everyone eats meat, and your vegetarian, if one of the meat eaters feels insecure about something, or perceives you have a positive quality that she is jealous of, she will begin to build alliances with the other meat eaters as they already consider you different because of the vegetarian option.
I'm not sure if I am explaining it clearly here. I will try to write about this again in a little bit. Let me know if any of this makes sense or not.
dca_user · 1 points · Posted at 19:15:33 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
This makes sense... in a lot of ways
quaranzine · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:10 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have been thinking about commenting since I saw your post and just had the time now. I am happy to help with this and give specific instructions for you to try, if that is helpful. Would you like to chat over reddit mail?
dca_user · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:35 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh wow, thanks for reaching out. Would love to. I will message you in a few minutes. Thanks!
Anon420024 · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
Drivingthrurain · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma
6140006242 · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I genuinely don’t understand feelings. Yes i’m a 15 year old kid and yes i’ve not been in any serious relationships, but listen to this. I’d known this girl in my 8th grade year of middle school. I was put in a gym class with purely 6th graders. I kind of gained “feelings” for this girl. Of course, she was in 6th grade. I never thought it would work so for the sake of the friendship, I set those feelings aside. Now i’m in my 9th grade year of high school. I’ve had about 5 girlfriends since then, all of which ended poorly. But each and every time I crawled back to her for comfort and safety. After my most recent break up, she admitted her “feelings” for me and a few days later we ended up together. We text every day, she would wave to me on the school bus and we even had a minecraft world together. But I could tell she was kind of drifting away, so I asked her about it and she told me she “lost feelings a week ago” The really confusing part of all this is that 1. She held feelings from me for over a year. 2. She somehow lost those feelings in about 3 weeks.
I’m not posting this for pity or sorrow, i’m just genuinely confused. In about 2 hours it will be officially two weeks since we’ve been split, and I still feel terrible. I won’t lie, the three REAL weeks of the relationships were the best of my life. I can’t tell you how happy I was. And as ironic and stupid as this sounds from a 15 year old, I honestly feel like I was in love. Can anyone shed some light on all of this?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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6140006242 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I told her everything prior to us getting together through our friendship. I told her EVERYTHING. It’s not like we got together and I completely changed my life.
incognito7917 · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people kill.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Ephilorex · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still do not understand how anything about electrical engineering works. Especially the parts; I have not a single clue what each one does.
Sardorim · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people are still dumb enough to believe in religion.
KaiNCftm · 1 points · Posted at 02:45:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People telling you something didnt happen. Like, I've had someone tell me I never had meningitis despite my proof and it just boggles my mind how someone cant understand facts prove a point.
I'm not saying there really are 200 aliens in your back yard but like, if I have a medical document and picture evidence of events, it happened, like it just happened. How can you honestly believe something didnt happen when there is 100% solid evidence proving it did?
deano_deanski · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point system in tennis.
woneeh · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I have to wait for 10minutes to write another reply. What’s up Reddit?
dinopark123 · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between people being angry with me and people being angry at anything other than me.
digitalcurtis · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't stay the hell inside even just for a little while to protect themselves or their family or friends during this time.
FwoofBoi · 1 points · Posted at 02:46:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay, okay. I genuinely can't understand why no one teaches us how to do our taxes or how to buy a house or whatever, or how to apply for jobs (our school has a program for it but it's basically cancelled due to quarantine), or any nessessary things, but instead they teach us algebra and Shakespeare and mythology and stuff that isn't nessessary to the majority of the population. Yes I'm aware of the fact some jobs actually use those things. 99% of the jobs we will have won't have to do algebra however. I bet like 83% of the class of 2023 will be working at either Walmart, Burger King, McDonald's, or their local gas station.
ksgif2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many things. Why do we have a bum crack? I mean, my dog doesn't have a bum crack and has no need to wipe, isn't that a more efficient design? And what about gravity? The earth has more than the moon because it's bigger, but why??? Why don't I have tiny moons flying around my head?
_Zero_tolerance_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the ‘background’ of space is black. I don’t even know how to describe why it confuses me. How do we see black? It’s like a big black sheet is wrapped around the universe of something?
kunciemas · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck does people can explore the shit out of space and universe, but can't explore deep under water which is in our own planet?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoppe who are religious.
hoopaGX · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who still think COVID-19 is a hoax
GhostAgent69420 · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Mumbo Jumbo’s redstone creations work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People and my life
CadenSmithereens · 1 points · Posted at 02:47:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, I don’t understand the formation of the universe. What was before the Big Bang? If there was anything, what was before that, and before that, and so on? And how did those things form when there wasn’t anything there?
FinnualaDaKing · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculating shapes. I can do Pythag but I can’t do trig or circles or shit. I’m great at literally every other concept in math
marauder467 · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How women work
bigppmanwithsmallpp · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do fucking algebra. I’m literally failing the class and I’ve really been trying but I still don’t understand it. And with this stupid break, I can’t even ask my teacher for help even though it’s never worked in the past.
bjcm5891 · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who only listen to media that follows their political leanings and hang around with people who agree with their political leanings- and then question out loud how anybody could hold views they disagree with or assume that the only way people could do so is because they are ignorant, horrible people or brainwashed.
It baffles me just how many people like this exist, and how lacking in self-awareness they are.
inaclimatecrisis · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music coming out of a freakin record player. like wth hell is happening.
FrostCA11 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
hunglejam · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
jtdvdv · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Too much
SalamanderRex · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern conservatism.
ecp001 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That cricket actually has standardized rules.
kiminty1 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The lifecycle of a coconut
sleepwithmythoughts · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How texting, calling, and video-chatting work
TheNerd669 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
atchoe · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don't understand matrix and linear algebra.
jabbajae · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vhs, cd and records make sound come out of them. Also how do they get the sound into them? Witchcraft!
ftmcatdad09 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Joking but not joking: my narcissistic mother.
rainbow-unicorn-t · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time, what even is it? Does Thursday even exist? So many questions.
weaseldream · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 300mil people get themselves deeper and deeper in shit for by decades electing presidents that are an embarrassment for the entire nation whether it's is by getting a blowjob in the office, thrusting country in an appalling war spanning short of two decades or electing a malignant narcissist in the office who blatantly does not give two farts about ordinary folk who installed him... and then they're surprised the entire world laughs at them or outright dislikes them...
Do not bother with your answer if you gonna tell me something about
thisisjill88 · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football.
Ohheywhatehoh · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space..time can slow on different planets? How big is it and why is it always growing?! If it snaps back would we even know.. would we even feel it if the universe imploded?! How did the big bang happen out of nothing? Where did it explode from if it was nothing to begin with...
dntfuxwme · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can walk in to a business after reading signs and not abide by the rules on said soghs..
tortillasnbutter · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot. Thought comes from outside, sometimes I get the honor of saying their min(d)e.
TheRealHamDogMike · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think that I don’t have the right to kill myself or label me as selfish if I chose that I want my life to end because of “people I’d leave behind and the impact it would have on them.”? They basically guilt me into not committing suicide because I’d make other people feel bad.
feeling_slothy · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are homophobic, racist, ect
SweetConsequence1 · 1 points · Posted at 02:50:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can stay focused on homework and studying for hours at a time. I can't work for 15 minutes before needing to take a break and watch a video or go eat something.
LordLlamacat · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness. Literally everything can be explained by physics and math. My brain works via a bunch of chemical reactions that govern everything I do. But somehow my brain creates a consciousness which experiences everything, and supposedly all other brains do the same thing (all though I can’t prove that anyone besides myself is conscious which is depressing as fuck to think about)
For an extra mindfuck google “Boltzmann brain”
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a person could harm a child or worse. The level of evil I cannot fathom.
figgs1515 · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
Mindjolter · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people are so stupid
Mrawsome123 · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
speed of light stuff. if a star explodes 50 million light years away and it take 50 million years for light to get here then to us didn't it not explode yet. we base time on light. light speed only really matters when something is sent and we want an answer.
Dos_MiTTs · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The true origins of us.
eatfuzzybacon · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How veggies and fruits that are grown with animal byproducts for fertilizer or nutrients are considered vegan
grandchester · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Orbital Mechanics. I’m pretty good with math and physics but I cannot get my head around this at all.
iwantsofttacos · 1 points · Posted at 02:51:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
pre-calc
FeralBanshee · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could even start getting into poop fetish.
Also, a lot of politics. I could probably understand it if it didn’t bore me after 30 seconds.
BillNye916 · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe trump is speaking honestly about doing the most he can about the pandemic
YesLikeGuySensei · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Current, Amps, and Voltage. I’ve taken Physics in high school and Calculus 2 a year ago and STILL can’t figure it out. It just doesn’t register in my brain how they each work.
Envjd · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem.
-kung- · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can move my limbs, like, what control do I have to use to make myself move
yeet-mander · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think camping is a fair of legit strategie.
moonshinetemp093 · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the internet exists and functions. I can't comprehend it, for some reason.
And apparently, another version totally separate from the internet can't exist?? Like... it's literally a man made concept, virtual and digital realities don't exist in nature.
How in the world does this shit actually work?
M--Taqi · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death.
OpnerOner · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
pWaveShadowZone · 1 points · Posted at 02:52:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think Einstein says time is an illusion. That the distinction between past and present and future is not real. What does this mean?
DreamGenie345 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Left wing and Right wing. I have a Journalist friend that patiently explains me about it every single time I ask him, but I can't get a grasp of it.
_Light_Yagami_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
mumble rap, I just don't get it, are you there for the beats? mumble rap songs have a few good beats here and there but most seem sub-par at best. and it sure as fuck isn't the lyrics.
I mean hey your free to listen to what you want but I just want to understand what about it there is to like about it.
frieelzzz · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happened before the beginning. What created that and before that and before that...
MateoElJefe · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Over-the-air television. Such an old technology. How can a signal flow through the air and be received on a device such that a perfect HD pic and multi channel sound are derived from it. Fascinating.
LordLlamacat · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand enthalpy and Gibbs free energy etc for ideal gases, but then all the same terms get used for chemistry. If enthalpy is U+PV, what do P and V refer to for a chemical system?
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pressure and volume. If I'm understanding your question correctly.
LordLlamacat · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But like, what does volume refer to? The volume of the molecule? Like what is the enthalpy of a reaction between two molecules, what do pressure and volume refer to in that case?
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the pressure and volume of the system you're measuring. In chemistry these sorts of equations relate to closed systems because it would be impossible to calculate anything if the system were open.
fitfag · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socialising. Social cues and norms. I was a spoilt, sensitive kid and was isolated many times by the ‘leader’ that hated me. Despite growing up with the same guys, I was always distant and a bit different. That’s how I still am. I’m good at many things, but I don’t understand how people have those friends (real/fake, guys/girls) that they go to nightclubs with, and how I can have friends like that. I do wish being normal sometimes.
MUHTASIMf3422 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AC power
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Rippingtonson · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still like starwars/Disney.
DJaySteff · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an MRI machine works
misteryham · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my private, employer-provided, good-I-guess-but-actually-pretty-expensive American health insurance works
neptun_3 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How things are spelled.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electronics “go bad”... I can see machinery going bad from lack of up keep, but why a cpu?
VideoPickle · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
PithyGinger63 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
sjw’s
BG34700 · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My ex wife’s family
PorkerSub · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sexuality
Codyzfluff · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Folding proteins. At our work we have our computers folding proteins or something of the matter to help cure the coronavirus. I don’t understand how it works and I need someone to explain it to me like I’m 5 years old.
yodadamanadamwan · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
So proteins are made up of amino acids right? That is the primary structure of a protein. On top of that, proteins can also have turns and folds which are referred to as their secondary structure. Additionally, they can actually have a quaternary structure which refers to multiple types of subunits that compose the overall structure of the protein. Hemoglobin (what carries oxygen in your red blood cells) is a good example of this. Protein folding refers to the tertiary structure of a protein.
arnodorian96 · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Romantic Love. It's weird how you can have the same love you have your family for a total stranger or how that emotion is basically constructed on the basis of sex. It's weird how people act so dumb when in love and think a total stranger will make them better.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. Like any religion. Its probably the most ridiculous thing I can think of and I'm super happy it's finally starting to go the way of the dodo.
saltypikachu_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks.
mmmtangywater · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people genuinely don’t understand the concept of more than 2 genders. not the people that disagree, the people who you can sit and explain it to for 20 years and they say “so what your saying is they’re confused”
dumbosodyssey · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Existence
timmytthatsme · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Indemnity bank guarantees
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
Commander_Random · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women prefer taller men
Fonkin89 · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin. A friend explained once about a computer doing a bunch of math. Felt way over my head
tellitsomething · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The high cost of euthanasia for humans.
Why is the price unnecessarily high to want to die peacefully and when I want by being euthanized?
Dr-Didalot · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trickle down economics actually helps those at the bottomb of the pile
Guaymaster · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For starters, it doesn't work. But in theory it's actually quite simple:
This guy is a billionaire, and buys a yatch. The yatch is worth one million dollars, which he pays to the owner of yatch inc. Yatch inc. doesn't make yatchs appear out of thin air, so their profit margin isn't a million dollars, let's say it's half that. The other half is then divided between the clerk who sold the yatch, the workers who build the yatch, and the companies who sold the raw materials, who themselves pay the workers for harvesting and transporting said materials.
Dr-Didalot · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree it doesn't look like it's working . There's a great movie about a tray of food that's lowered down a hole and has to feed hundred of pairs of people as it goes down. it shows how the top layers take everything they can of value before it gets to the next layer. I feel like trickle down economics is like that but even worse because they sipohen funds to different tunnels and to their billionaires friend who builds the yacht's.
Blikplaat · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wamen
MrGooseman32 · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Highschool Chemistry
kcflds · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sheer size of the known universe.
TranslatesPoorly · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't spell definitely right ever. Thanks autocorrect.
maybeimanegg · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can newer CPUs and GPUs can have incredible tiny and complex parts, i heard there was an amd graphics card with transistors in it that are 7 nanometers across, which is apparantly less than 100 atoms, like how do robots assemble these with such accuracy and not instantly destroying them?
cosmo2450 · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And can these nano things be some how implanted into the human body to create digital illness
cosmo2450 · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And can these nano things be some how implanted into the human body to create digital illness
charcoalkitty · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that other people exist and live lives like me. The thought of someone experiencing feelings like me is crazy. Other people make memories with other people that also have feelings and make memories is crazy. Other people have jobs that they either love or hate. I think the craziest thing is how much someone else can impact your life, while you know basically nothing about their life. Just the whole thing is crazy.
brooklynne33 · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Reddit works
Just_Chillaxin · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The game of cricket.
I've had it explained, I just can't get it though.
fatfaye · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Family
Lotus_Blossom_ · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it's possible to get a song stuck in your head if you don't want to. Like, my brain is telling my brain to STFU with that noise. How does the part of my brain that's having an all-night rave get to overrule all of the other parts of my brain that just want to hear a different song, FFS?! This lame-ass DJ has to be outvoted, but apparently that doesn't matter.
international1066 · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How phones work. Like how is it possible that I can talk to someone so far away, understand exactly what they are saying, and it sounds EXACTLY like their normal voice! Just like they sitting there with me in the same room.
Brahdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At what point does political stances become ideology. I mean why do I gotta vote like it's a sports team? And why do the teams hate each other so damn much
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers. Like, are you so wrapped up in proving yourself right that you're willing to potentially kill your own children? Are you so unaware of, like, reality that you don't even realize that you're gonna hurt your kids? It's honestly baffling.
Hymapp · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wifi, radio waves, etc. Like how is it possible that this computer I talk to can transfer my image and sound across the world to another persons computer/phone.
squirrl4prez · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets and gravity...
Consistent-Finding · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What are people thinking when they cut in front of my loaded,80,000 pound Semi-truck and slam on their brakes?
daddy-shykat · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is reality TV a thing?
McBallzzx · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How balls work
spartanz001 · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have to put it back up. If it stayed up then I wouldn't have touch it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry. That is all.
heyu123987 · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
React
Kyrinoid · 1 points · Posted at 02:56:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People, they're complicated.
askawashere · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we put so much pressure on individuals to fix the economy/environment yet there's people make billions of dollars and not helping. Pay your taxes and stop telling us plastic straws are the problem.
AOCissmoking · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we allow government and big business to plot against us. And why so many are against universal healthcare.
steve_jobless72 · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a 15 year old who lives in Australia, so I do not understand how the fucken iceheads can afford their fucking rent.
iphoneian · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls on Tinder
peteytoboes · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pictures. I don’t get how can a camera can allow you to have a standstill of what was happening in a moment.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Wikezoja · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radio waves
MasterExploderr · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The flavor profile of bitterness. Apparently I like bitter because I love hoppy beers but I have no idea what is "bitter" about it
Anthraact · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people walk so SLOWLY. I hate Melbourne's CBD for that very reason 💀
RightioThen · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans are so resistant to the idea of universal health care. Australia has had it for almost 50 years. It works. It's worth it.
PapaJuke · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why i lag when i play cod and how people can kill me so easy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
zerocc · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look inside for the answers.
dbax129 · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electric motors work. AC and DC. I need to understand all of it to get it I think. Have to be able to visualize and its hard to visualize fields. I neer this to move forward in life.
captainchill2 · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music, absolutely zero talent or ear for it. I love listening to many types however. Very frustrating.
misskeek · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel.
ragdollzz · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HTML
SalsaBitch14 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
zerocc · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupidly.
granada75 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a record player works.
zarlaan · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
War. What is it good for?
Silent_rain_drops · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who choose the thrill vs stability. There's a time and place for everything.
MinorCarat · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How non-ADHD people do shit without issues. Drives me up the wall on bad days and as a concept it's just insane to me.
chileanwaysso · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are mean.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
nico1325 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
kylebutler775 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A 3way light switch, I can wire one but I still don't understand it
jack_barclay · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Are Photons Massless?
bclark32299 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistical analysis.
I was asked to determine if the assumption of homogeneity of variance was violated. I had to Google most of those words individually.
I ran a couple of formulas in SPSS (statistical analysis software) just to get an idea of how it worked. Somehow when examining a group of age ranges, I would get a negative number (how can an age be negative!!??!!??). Then, I was told I did it wrong, which was obvious, but the correct answer was a different set of negative numbers!!!!
I was asked if .05 is greater than 1, I said no.....again, I was somehow wrong.
Statistical analysis is stupid. I don't get it. I don't want to get it. I quit.
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/kids-addicted-to-nintendo-_n_2130285
When the Super Nintendo came out in 1991, a number of kids who owned the original NES wanted it (no surprise), but a lot of parents were pissed at Nintendo and a number of parents put their kids in therapy(!!!!!). No, I'm not kidding. These parents put their kids in therapy because a new advanced console is out.
Okay, this is the first time these parents had to go through a hardware refresh of a video game system: "I spent hundreds on video games for my child and now I have to start over? No thanks!" But did these parents not experiencing upgrading their record collection to a CD collection? That required buying a new player!
My favorite quote: "And I'm going to explain to him how people market things to spend more money". Yeah, that's how a business works. By making products people (hopefully) want. And by making new, advanced products.
I can completely understand teaching kids "You know that toy that looks awesome in the ads. It's a terrible toy, just look at the reviews. Marketing is supposed to make terrible products look good".
And I can understand putting kids in therapy for more serious things like: stealing the parent's credit card to buy things, intentionally destroying a phone or car the parents bought them just so they will buy the kid the phone/car the kid really wanted. Not because new technology requires you to purchase a new system.
bubblegum1415 · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we have toes?
ratmaster8008 · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The word duality. I’ve read the definition and I’ve heard it in sentences but I just don’t understand the meaning or how to use it correctly in a sentence. I’m not sure why but this word is difficult for me to learn.
LovePink1195 · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’ve been disliked by so many my entire life. No this isn’t some “oh feel bad for me” type of thing because I truly don’t care anymore, I’ve grown to love being alone, I just genuinely cannot understand why I’m so unliked by most people I’ve come across. I know I can’t be the only person that’s felt this way.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
SumoFlavoredDoritos · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who wear jackets without hoodies when it's crazy hot outside
-BootyBagel- · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
tedothedo · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
oceansidedrive · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How digital cameras take a photo and store it on a microchip. Its legit magic to me. We are like stopping time. I can wrap my head around old timey tech.. Like how we first started taking photos but cant figure out how that jumped to digital .
Video recordings are straight up witch craft to me lol
boblasagna18 · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever’s going on in Israel. I keep on hearing something about Palestine or something but I never really know what they’re talking about.
mykelcrumb · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people who say they are faithful Christians, yet look down on their fellow man and refuse to help those in need.
RedheadBanshee · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the point of all of ... this. I mean life. And all if it. What's the point?? Seriously though.
EpicTwinkieGamer · 1 points · Posted at 03:00:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
MATH definitely math... it’s like reading a language I have never heard of
Shadowace112 · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like what the fuck am I doing with my life. One year I am a straight guy looking for an entry level programmer position. The next year I am a gay trans girl working at Walmart stocking produce. Is this what adulting is?
edwardd666 · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trumpers
Koopk1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some lesbians like girls that look like young males.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
RyousMeatBicycle · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gendered nouns in european languages.
AdmiralFugly1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Déjà vu no matter how many times someone try’s to explain it to me I always fail to understand why.
BowTieBoo · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whatever the fuck is goin on over there
kloudab · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I forget which one, but either the first or second fundamental theorem of calculus and how it's used to solve calculus problems. Calc 2 was stupid hard. Calc 3? Was a breeze.
But yea, I missed a problem on the test using that theorem and the teacher showed me how to solve it and I'm still unknowing as to how to use it for any problem, including the one she solved for me
-exekiel- · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
After reading a lot of replies, I don't understand how a human can't understand something. If it's properly explained and the person actually wants to learn, I can't figure out how they can't understand something.
blackjackgabbiani · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not everyone's brains are set up the same way. Like I know someone who's incapable of learning more than basic math. She wants to, and she's tried so many times, but her learning disability makes it impossible. Her brain simply doesn't make these connections.
-exekiel- · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think that all brains have basic logic skills, and then if properly explained if someone can understand 1=1 then all maths can be explained based on it. I'm not talking about solving problems because you have to either REMEMBER or SOLVE the thing, but I think every healthy brain should UNDERSTAND it. Just to clarify I'm not an expert or whatsoever but that's what I think.
blackjackgabbiani · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what you think is based on your own experience, not that of others. And other people have brains that simply can't do things. There are things that you'll never be able to understand.
stufforstuff · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so stupid to believe any of the crap that spews from Trump's mouth. He's been proven a liar and a con man hundreds of times but people still believe Trump is going to make their $35,000 hillbilly asses rich. This is why public education sucks - dumb people are gullible people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:01:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
number theory
Quantum-Manic · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CRISPR. Like you take some blood from someone and plug it into your computers USB, change a couple BRCCA’s around and then inject it back into someone and they won’t get a disease. How. The . F*%k?
herotz33 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can a parent be so blind to their having a favorite child?
JazzEXH · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
NotJarJar-Binks · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe. If it doesn’t have an end. How does it keep growing?
danman6565 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TooManyPot · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radio waves and how they transmit information. Also, light.
poulette12 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gabor filters
elchivillo8 · 1 points · Posted at 03:02:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Listen, I had a pretty intense LCD trip and it made me question so many things I actually panicked
Sam-is-here-an-queer · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I’m pretty terrified of water but love pools& showers an baths- Like I find water fascinating but when I go to like a lake I’m genuinely terrified of it but if I’m on a floaty often it’s okay but if not I feel good as dead- like wtf It makes absolutely NO sense
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
quantum physics
cantflywontdie · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to hold normal conversations. Like when am I supposed to laugh or when is there. Double message? I was homeschooled and sometimes social situations go over my head. I learned as much as I could from books and tv but the actual practice usually leaves people uncomfortable in my presence. Not like I said soy wrong but like when you here a non-native speaker say a sentence that is technically right but hits the ear just a bit off.
pickleIvan · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
Gigli31 · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people think 5G causes cancer.
When you confront them with: "Well..5G affects everyone and the "elites" as you call walk in the same area as we do, why would they be OK with getting cancer ? "
Their answer: "They get so much money they don't care "
Well then !
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just how hateful people are towards each other....
HGSenpaii · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like and be proud so much of their TikTok mediocre videos
wrongtreeinfo · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
macciahyo · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people think a person is a kpop idol when they’re asian like ?????????????
arob770 · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Factoring in math :( I’ve gone through it for multiple years and I just cannot grasp it for the life of me.
blackjackgabbiani · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Like, in general. I'm autistic and what makes sense to me is alien to others, and what makes sense to others is absolute moon logic to me. It may as well be arbitrary what other people come up with and how they react to things for all the sense it makes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:04:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Electoral College
TrickyPiston · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t fully understand how people think horoscopes are supposed to work. I don’t understand how some people live their lives by them.
CommonSkys · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement. No matter how many modern physics classes, no matter how many quantum mechanics books and equations, it still boggles my mind that this, this thing can actually exist.
elementaltheboi · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone looks forward to going away to college. I dont understand how someone can enjoy living at a school and in most cases sharing a room with someone.
chepnis · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sight is a very strange sense!
ForeRight7 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind.
I don’t get it. Where does it come from? How is it stronger some days?
sansthelazyskeleton · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existential crisis of not knowing where you were before you were born.
PlumpTrump · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Kane didn’t square it against Croatia
FitKing22 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empathy and sympathy. It makes no sense to me. People gave told me the differences many times but in real life situations I can't make a difference. Which do I use?
ChickensAreDangerous · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people feel the need to post EVERYTHING on social media
morgnvd · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
literally electricity... like in school i feel like we were taught the water cycle and how air moves and that stuff but wtf is electricity like is it just in our atmosphere and we tap it? is it created and or was it invented? was it found one day? i genuinely do not understand
Dqnijel · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.
usernamemb1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
god
Pump_DaddyC · 1 points · Posted at 03:05:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humanity is so selfish as a species.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people put deodorant under their armpits but not under their toes.
skythepeople · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck consciousness works. I don’t think anyone does. For instance, what if I took an exact copy of my brain and somehow put it into a robot. Like exact exact, right now. The robot would have all my memories and shit, but would I be in that robot? What would happen?
Duckvallejo · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
LittleZackBackup · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people let their whole outlook on their day be ruined by a small inconvenience that befalls them. Especially if that inconvenience is someone else’s actions that conflict with their unspoken expectations for the day.
Vafler1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
Why am I here?
Chocodog212 · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a printer works.
CaptainAries01 · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone as grossly negligent, and as pathological when it comes to lying, as Donald John Trump can be President of the United States of America; and, after all he’s done (or failed to do), people still support him.
It just blows my mind that this is real. It’s almost like this is the part of the video game where the bad guys win temporarily and their brainwashed minions get all excited about it.
AC2BHAPPY · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I keep dying at Olm...
torradinhaquentinha · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This will sound weird but I don't get probability. If something has a chance of happening, even if it's very small, then it might happen, right? So, in the end, everything always has a 50% chance of happening because either it will happen or not. I'm not trying to say probability is fake but I don't believe in it and I'm only half kidding.
fugazi79 · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
While I understand how stupid people do, I genuinely do not understand how seemingly intelligent, rational people believe in God.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:06:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand love, and all the problems, the drama and the attachment, when you care about someone and then you dont....it makes me lose faith, sometimes I think that love in old times where so much more easy, a boy who fall in love with a girl and be together for ever, but now love is not easy at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How the universe/space as a whole was made. I’m not just talking about the Big Bang, I’m talking about literally everything ever. Why was it created? How? I have like an existential crisis every time I think of this.
Red_Dead_Redeemer · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The lack of single payer healthcare in the United States
Dockie454 · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of the universe.
MRpokemonfan · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you're mad and someone says "calm down". That's like putting 100,000,000 mentos into a volcano of cola. Also (and yes I know this sounds like grade a under a but he made a good point) when someone says that I tell them that if they can't calm down in 2 seconds after being told to calm down then they have no write to tell me to. Thank you for reading.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do cameras work?
nzchw · 1 points · Posted at 03:07:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
kdkncnxd
dedokta · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What my girlfriend wants for dinner.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyls work. Just don't get how it translates from imprints to music. Mad shit.
slushfluffs · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate on things just cause it’s “cringe” to them. As long as they aren’t hurting anyone it’s not a big deal imo.
Or just hating on things you don’t understand
Mostly talking abt fandoms here sense it’s a large part of my life. Especially being a furry and all the misconceptions that come with that.
fahd22222 · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me.
Infero_dipz · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When some guy is wearing a football shirt and gets a girl but when some one else is in a basketball shirt they don't get the girl. Totally didn't happen to me.
evtda · 1 points · Posted at 03:08:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Cyrilcynder · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact the you have a consciousness that you see through your own eyes but you can't see through other people's eyes. You can prove your own consciousness to yourself but can't to others.
Looking4sumD · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that donate to twitch streamers
Dreamy-cloud-club · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people (mostly men) can date someone, the same age or a year older, than their own children and NOT feel weird about it??
concisekinetics · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that don't have friends or respect people with different political beliefs. I'm not saying that militia-men should get along with communists or anything, but the amount of people that seem to think ~50% of their neighbors and countrymen are stupid or evil blows my mind. I've seen people cut their loved ones out of their lives after they find out they have a different letter next to their name.
FuckAllofLife · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Conservatives".
Grifters like Coulter or Carlson are one thing..
It's the sheer volume of commoners that legitimately believe the whole hodgepodge of cognitive dissonance while constantly moralizing over the supposed hypocrisy of others that is..
literally mind boggling.
bergenfurgun · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people believe in free will. Free will is an illusion. To have free will one must be able to choose any path at any time. Unfortunately, our choices are limited to the knowledge and experience we possess. One can not possibly choose a path they don't know exists, therefore they do not truly have free will. The will to choose from whatever set of options your personal experience and knowledge base allows perhaps, but that is still a limited set of options.
ya_no_quiero · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes and why the gov takes so much of my check.
porkchop_toucher · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how any of my friends can stay in their relationship for over 4 years while I’m struggling to even have a stable relationship for a month. I just don’t understand.
zector96 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life... life is to hard
NormalToast14 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
humans
Weird-Move · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirror neurons. It's pretty cool we can view a youtube video and learn something intrinsic.
panthaX666 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fucking existence.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry, I understand the basics at a surface level but getting by brain to understand it past that is difficult, maybe that’s why I went to law school. 😂
sonkien · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a healthy guy now has to wear a mask outside my house when I’m clean
the_Dodo1999 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kingcrimson
hiricinee · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
gyroscopic force and any mechanical force involving the right hand rule. Newtonian physics is supposed to make intuitive sense.
Mook1971 · 1 points · Posted at 03:10:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
browniebrittle44 · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who say the big “I Love You” within a couple of weeks of knowing someone. People who isolate their friends for the sake of their SO. People who get convinced into an open relationship when they’ve been strictly monogamous.
Pemburuh_Itu · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatism. I’ve studied international politics. I’ve studied criminal justice and history and it just doesn’t make sense.
It’s never felt like a governance or leadership theory, moreso a power and wealth aggregation strategy. Stagnate, destabilize and profit from X.
I-Own-All-Beenz · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how humanity is so idiotic. And this site/app is a prime example.
Jfer4ll · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How that was not a headshot?
KebzYT · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Monty Hall problem. Just blows my mind
badlikewolf · 1 points · Posted at 03:11:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why are people stockpiling tp and paper towels during this pandemic?
shmokenapamcake · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stars can be light years away. Like what you’re seeing may not even exist anymore. I’ve had several people explain it and I still have zero comprehension of it.
LGlitterSparkles · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people get to be born completely healthy while others are the complete opposite and will never get to live a normal life.
Opalescent569 · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the police keep finding my bodies like seriously man, is kevin snitching?
astroboy37 · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand inflation. Like I literally understand that a nation taking the action of printing a bunch of money has the effect of the money losing value. What I don't understand is how the economy somehow knows that a bunch of extra money has been thrown into it and how the billions of different markets know to react by raising prices.
helenatay_27 · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people in the school only care about being popular, going to parties, (i dont mind that tho) judging others and bullying just for more reputation. what is wrong with themmmmmmmmm. Anyways, not everyone is like that just like three quarters of the whole school.
batangmaynila · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a non-American - the US elections. It's so confusing! The electoral process I mean.
MadMan018 · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At what fucking point do you just mature? from being a kid
Like one week you'd be having fun and shit and the next some fucking teacher be like "stop acting like child" like "wow thanks Karen, I think it's time I just start paying taxes in Primary School"
aRandomGuy-_- · 1 points · Posted at 03:12:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
SSD memory cards.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think Gacha Life is hot and cutr
PMMeMeiRule34 · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The high level mathematical equations that go into making a nuclear bomb.
sierra__stellar · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sign language
painfullyhardonebi · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
Portlymoses · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Red stone in Minecraft
Ginger347347 · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Partial Differential Equations
dustwanders · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people gotta be negative first
Lizmc615 · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks and investments. I don’t understand anything. I don’t understand the “what’s in it for me” or the other people that do it. I have yet for some to explain it to me like an alien from another planet.
MJBjacket · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. I just don't understand how people can continue to believe in invisible beings doing magical things.
Religion is a mental illness and indoctrinating children into it is child abuse.
lmacreep · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question.
ThinkerZero · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are shitty to asexual folks for being ace. Like, literally what harm are they doing?
1921Zeljo · 1 points · Posted at 03:13:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
browniebrittle44 · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people forgive cheating
StanGamble · 1 points · Posted at 17:00:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheated and been cheated on. Depends on various factors
metrosmash · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social interactions and situations in general.
I'm always that weird kid since I was little, and when was about 19ish, I began to understand things about myself even more, and notice that I have a hard time understanding social situations, like for example, knowing and understanding the "air" around a certain situation (although I admit I started to understand this concept a few months back, now I'm 24). Because of this, I'm very oblivious about a lot of things, and how "things" work in my campus. I'm uncomfortable with most of the people there, but able to make few friends. Still in this journey of understanding myself further, and in process of crawling out of depression.
Wish me luck!
younggripper1000 · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone trusts a single thing that ANY politician says. Why does nobody ever talk about how politicians are going to say anything needed to be said for their personal gain? It’s mind boggling that people actually listen to any of these clowns. I have lost all faith in the system
w3lcometothe1nternet · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fuckin everything guy
thekarensarecoming · 1 points · Posted at 03:14:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so religious about sports.
Competitive-Junket · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason why almost everyone these days are in such a rush, like they're trying for 1st place at everything. I do it too.
betspaghett13 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrency. I’ve had it explained to me probably 80 times and my brain just cannot connect A to B. Mining? From where? There’s a finite amount...? There are charts? Wat.
shf500 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Movie critics love to say "People are sheep! They like to watch [terrible mainstream movie that makes a ton of money] instead of [low budget movie that barely gets released]".
Look, people have heard of [terrible mainstream movie]. People have not heard of [low budget movie]. You can blame marketing for overhyping the mainstream movie. But I'm not going to see a movie that isn't released near me. I'm probably not going to see a movie if I've never heard of it! "You should research what movies come out". A lot of people don't realize you have to do that.
Walleyisgood234 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division.
nsfwmostly · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How capturing audio and images work. Imagine if they hadn't been invented and you came up with the idea... but how do you execute it? Insane
IMS97 · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra and above
Meth_smoker · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don’t know if this is true to all people but the fact that I can see the numbers in the air that I’m using in an equation. Like I can be doing a multiple part problem and put some numbers to the side and do the other parts of the problem while the other numbers just stay there.
Komaric_ · 1 points · Posted at 03:15:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t understand how some people can get genuinely angry at another person. I can dislike someone or be pissed off, but there’s no hatred. I’ve never raised my voice at someone or never even thought of using physical violence against another person
LetMeBoopYou · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy.
amandabelen · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. When I try to learn about how they work, I hit a wall of not understanding. They attract because they have a magnetic field. Yup, sounds good. And they have a magnetic field because..........WALL
Zymoojuice · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tattoos. Go ahead and downvote me. Why would someone permanently change their skin? Is there any purpose to it? If it's the process of getting the tattoo and the endorphin high from the pain, well go for a run or a hard workout. If you need a tattoo to remind yourself of a dead person or some life event you must have a poor memory. If it is because you think it looks "cool", well if it is not visible then no one sees how cool you are, and if it is visible, then it is as much of a social liability as a benefit.
I genuinely do not understand.
Rexxldexxl · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm so ugly
zynzynzynzyn · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of forever
Gucci_meme · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How guys will pay for porn, or donate to twitch streamers and then get mad when they find out said streamer has a boyfriend/husband. It just boggles my mind
casper_th3_gh0st · 1 points · Posted at 03:16:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe in god.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Minecraft redstone works. Like no matter how hard I try I cannot, for the life of me, understand how it works.
Napilitan · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Golf.
nutbuttstillsuccn · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is right and wrong real or did we make that up to keep everything sane. Is the word sane real because I’m starting to feel insane what is real and what isn’t HELP ME!
tripwork · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Iambic pentameter and Morse code. I can't distinguish between the stressed and unstressed like I can't distinguish between the dots and dashes.
Mrhurtmachine · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How grown ass people still believe in fairy tales.
rknap24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we keep electing Republicans for any positions?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The basics of English. It’s the only language I speak.
superninjasailor · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Dasher096 · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why in hell im alive
jj1042 · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How certain laws of the universe even exist. For example, chance. So many things in our lives and in nature are subject to chance, but why is chance even a thing that exists? What universal constant allows concepts such as chance to exist? If the Big Bang happened by absolute chance, what allowed for chance to exist in a place where reality as we know it didn’t exist?
Shit like this gets my mind turned inside out... I need to go play more Doom or something.
Tyler-LR · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who are already very rich feel like they need to get richer.
philliesbaby · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe....what is out there beyond Earth / whatever the fuck we’re floating in.. and how is it infinite... I just cannot fathom space when I really start to think about it
evermore360 · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
stocks
always-sunshine · 1 points · Posted at 03:18:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump as president and how people are still following him
Bree12586 · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was younger and in school, if I was walking down a hallway full of people and felt that even one person was watching me I would forget how to walk normally. I'd literally have to stop and say to myself, "hey get your shit together, walk normal." But I probably looked like a zombie trying to blend in.
BlueCorruption · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
BoounitiveDamages · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anytime I see a big ass ship on the water my mind is blown lol
gunnerclark · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radio waves. I have issues mentally visualizing abstract items. You show me a map and I can travel across states with no trouble, but try to 'tell' me to take certain roads and turn right gets me lost.
So the idea of radio waves, something that is not visual, befuddles me...and I really want to get a technical license for ham radios for my small BaoFeng radio I bought.
gabbygonzo57 · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have tried to work out how tides are affected by the moon so many times. I feel that my brain cells do work, but I can’t see in my mind how there are low and high tides.
downsincebirth14 · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Photography
xfreddy- · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity
CrunchyNutmeg · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The reason why anything exists to begin with. I sometimes ask myself why anything exists, is it because the universe exists? Like why is there a need for anything to exist instead of nothing existing? It's a little hard to explain but that's the jist of it.
Lost4name · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just like the music thread down below, how people can get so wound about not important crap. Example: I am giving my brother my old laptop with Xubuntu installed so hopefully he can't screw it up like his Windows machine. Also I have Xubuntu installed so I can tell him see this do this as I am doing this. Anyhow some other friend of his is getting way bent out of shape about him getting a Linux machine and how it sucks so bad. Gee guy its just an OS, it isn't a big deal.
Alaeriia · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who on Earth is actually voting for Joe Biden in the primaries?
Amnesiablo · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Stock Market.
StudentStrange · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women amirite
chocolateornothing · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do I start? How the internet works. How television and radio work. And don’t even get me started on the stock market.
kathy10956 · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we take a moment to appreciate what’s happening in this thread? People are teaching each other and learning. This is freaking heartwarming and I can’t stop scrolling lol
manicMechanic1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why evangelicals (like me) tend to make blanket statements about everyone based solely on their own experience. For example: all men are struggling not to be sex fiends, while women don’t like sex. I can understand the mindset but the thing I don’t understand is why this seems so particularly prevalent in the church.
GrooveMerchant99 · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Nayelii123 · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens after we die? Like something has to happen like if we go to heaven will we be there forever and will it be a cycle that never ends same with reincarnation.
crissimon · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money
Dlph_311 · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How modern day pundits and politicians can say one thing on air, and then a few days later say the exact opposite (or deny ever saying the original statement). Are these people unaware that they're being recorded. Do they not know that we can go back and "check the tapes"? I guess they just don't care and I genuinely don't know why we let them get away with it.
PCPanther · 1 points · Posted at 03:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tax returns
BhamBlazer615 · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works. Even more specific, how can I plug in an item and it gets charge.
enigmazweb24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people rely on alcohol and other drugs to do practically anything....
Wanna have fun? Better drink!
Wanna go to sleep? Better drink!
Trying to cope with anything even remotely difficult? Have a drink!
Trying to relax? Drink!
I don't get it and as someone who really can't drink even if they wanted to.....it really makes a lot of shit way harder then it should ever be.
KnowNotAnything · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't apply IRAC to a situation in law well.
KingOfGooodTimes · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My internal dialogues. They are scary sometimes. I don't get it whether I have a person inside who is controlling me like anything, forcing me to do things which I don't want to. For example, suppose I am going to help someone, then the inner dialogues will start functioning like "Yeah, you should help him. It will show everyone that you're a good person and blah blah blah" and that dilutes the thought of helping someone, even though when I don't want anything in return. It feels like I am doing anything to get something in return. Not only this, even though I don't want to answer anyone but my inner dialogues will start forcing me to respond otherwise it'll make me look bad in front of the other person. There are so many problems like this which I am not able to understand. Is it only me or it happens to most of the people?
Allwillendwell44 · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market and economy in general. "Confidence was down so we're all screwed now".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:21:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your mom
Maybird56 · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation...I know a good amount about economics, and know the theory behind inflation. But I don't know why it can just get totally out of control (e.g. Zimbabwe not so long ago).
Thick_Thigh_Lover · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so stupid and actually believe things like 5G causing the carona virus, and how some people in this day and age still think that vaccines cause autism.
soundtrackband · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people will ignore facts staring them in the face, but I do understand it. It's called ignorant stubborn pride.
I also don't understand calculus and how to code javascript from scratch. Also chemistry and astronomy are quite difficult.
pipsqeek · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accounting.
And cryptocurrency.
War-Whorese · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Mechanics
Griffith made the basics a tiny bit easier but goddamn I thought I would get in something exciting, so I chose Quantum Mechanics. Feels like I’ve chosen the short straw. It’s like classical but adjusted, I need more time to try to comprehend this. I want it understand this but fucking hell! The abstraction is getting to me. Before exams.
I’m happy for the quarantine though, I now at least have some time before it’s back to pavilion.
TsitikEm · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers and conspiracy theorists. My mind can not comprehend.
brokejetflyer · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
animegs · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
organic chemistry
CallMeCrazy01 · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women's hints.
emilysage719 · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The DOW Jones dropped 'X' amount of points. How about the stock market in general.
Rusekavich · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Particle-wave duality
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculators.
troznov · 1 points · Posted at 03:22:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
.999...=1
I understand the math behind it, but how it works/looks in reality is totally beyond me.
Team-We-Suck · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like I understand what a calorie is but like.. what’s a calorie?
_pleasewait_ · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people on Reddit think that anyone that they are morally superior to people just because of their opinion. Reddit unfortunately was made for circle jerking
BigZaxSnax · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How only fans girls make money. I don’t even have a problem with only fans, i just legitimately don’t understand why people pay for only fans (or even premium for sites) when they got the whole rest of the internet available. Why pay for a product that is readily available for free?
space-cowgurl · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
EdBen0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How different cultures eventually got to completely understand each other's language when they first met
Regular_Reddit0r · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
mcnuggets18 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can support Trump.
finmo · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand how four stroke gasoline motors work but automatic transmissions are pure magic.
Brooksie515 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why rich folks are so greedy? It's always perplexed me, they never have enough of anything when other people just try to survive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who donate absurd amounts of money to girls on twitch
gistbug · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
database normalization
MGS3Snake · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The saying "Have your cake and eat it too"
I sorta know what it means but whenever I hear it I can't help but go on a mental rant about how much I hate it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division.
tmkennedy33 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fax machines 😆
Wouldtick · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How almost every white shining star in the nights sky is a sun.
justforcollege7116 · 1 points · Posted at 03:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers / electronics work. I've always learned WHAT each basic component does, i.e. bits and bytes and how ram stores memory and all that , but if I could take a microscope and literally look at what's happening on the circuit boards, what is even going on. How does ones and zeros end up being the backbone of a computer. What does storage even mean? How do computers "store" information? It's so confusing cuz all the answers online just leave it like that. They explain some electronic component of computers and conclude "that's how information and data is stored" on your computer. HOW??? haha
ScrexyScroo · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
FamousTicklrAlex · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a fucking record player works
nofuneral · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When to use the word "whose".
regnad__kcin · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
space.
like I get there's a solar system in a galaxy in a universe, etc. but at some point you run out of names and explanations for what's beyond and, I know it's nearly impossible to answer but... wtf is out there?? like where is the end? what is the end? how could it possibly just end? but how could it go on forever?
shit fucks with my brain man
wontaks · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people feel the need to leave bate comments online.
Istripua · 1 points · Posted at 03:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can feel so still when we are in such a fast moving complicated universe. - We live on a ball of rock that is spinning in space - Earth is not only spinning but also travelling around a sun - And our solar system is also travelling around the galaxy etc Everything in space moving in a speedy circular complex dance, yet here I am in my living room watching a spec of dust fall in a beam of sunlight
wontaks · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why do people need to leave hate comments online.
gah514 · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how all animals of a species do certain things exactly the same, like dogs who kick dirt over their poop/urine or do that “will you play with me” bow. if humans need adults to teach us anything, how do animals all know to do these certain things?
The-Pokester · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abstract math
xllsiren · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people's lack of interest of anything outside their immediate lives.
NubberBlubber · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furrys jk
inKritix · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How DPH in high doses is a gateway to the shadow realm. Some people even see the “hatman” without dph. Shits crazy. r/DPH
CaterpillarArmy · 1 points · Posted at 03:25:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
All I know, by not understanding, is that it’s not for me.
WhoTheHayIsThisGuy · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some celebrities are so disconnected from reality.
cartankjet · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My thoughts are hallucinations
Lizardfishbucket · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time
Church-of-Nephalus · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How in the genuine fuck do shower thoughts happen? Like....how does washing your ass or letting the water just hit you cause an existential crisis in your head?
Meth_smoker · 2 points · Posted at 03:36:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you ever wonder why the water has to be at a certain temperature for it to feel right when you take a shower? It’s because your brain is like “hey if this temperature of water hits me then I’ll find the cure to cancer” so your body’s like “ok that would be cool” and then ten seconds later your contemplating what the meaning of life is.
rydog11111 · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry.
I've been taught it by 4 different teachers I've taken a hand full of online courses in it and I still don't understand it. I can do fluid dynamics fine enough, I have a great under standing of physics, and I'm a natural at anything hands on but the moment you ask me the angle of a triangle my brain just freezes and I have a break down.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have synesthesia, specifically chromesthesia, grapheme-color synesthesia, and some ordinal-linguistic personification. (Look it up if you’re not familiar with synesthesia)
I genuinely cannot imagine what it’s like to not see colors when you hear sound. I don’t understand how the letter S isn’t smoky, yellow-ochre, soft as velvet and coyly feminine for other people. It’s hard to imagine each song not having its own colors and movements and textures. What is it like not to have thoughts that smell like licorice? It’s very foreign and quite frankly odd to me that most people live without the colors I have. I know the why of it, of course - I have a rare neurological condition that most people don’t have, so on and so forth. But I just can’t imagine a part of people’s worlds being so... blank compared to mine. It’s not something I’m able to picture.
Littles_Darklighter · 1 points · Posted at 03:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
figuringdustyorbital · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of time dilation
J25J25 · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
nickstat_ · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck will happen when I die...
kwhugh · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is space? How we all come from a big bang from nothingness. Also, where do the bang came from? If the big bang created a space as we know it, where did the big bang was before it happen?
G-RatedJeff · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biochemistry in general. Fuck that class.
The_Agnostic_Orca · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t read anything without internal dialogue, and how others have asked me who I’m talking to when I’m having internal dialogue with myself about something and I’m not opening my mouth.
TL;DR Having internal thoughts/dialogue when you aren’t opening your mouth, but people come up to me and ask who I’m talking to.
EsVaHo · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does anyone believe you can change sex? Baffling.
nevermore2627 · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Sweet lord what i wouldnt give to understand it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Caste system, Racial hate
shakboii · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
Steve-2000 · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
ExtraValuablePillow · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People want you to have work experience but if you don't have any how are going to get a job
notimemustgo · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is electricity and are we on a track of physics that eliminates the possibility of free will
Gnomologist · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Basic algebra. I have the highest scores of Language Arts, Reading, Social Studies, and one of the highest in science in my class; but I don’t understand simple equations.
still_oblivious · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry, I don’t even know how I got Cs in those classes.
FailedSystemEngineer · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump. I dont think i am the only one here who doesnt understand him and his narcissistic behaviour .
justforcollege7116 · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we are alive. Everything we create have to be powered in some way. Batteries, solar power, momentum, electricity, etc. How the hell are we alive? Sustainability is solely based on air and food (simplification obviously). But, like from an embryo, our organs are formed and our heart just somehow autonomously beats rhythmically. It beats until the day we die. What kinda sorcery...
Antonio_Brownies · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity just makes electronics work and what electricity even is. I cannot for the life of me understand how a generator creates energy that powers things to just work. It boggles my mind completely.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
galoreluna · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. When I think about it and how it happens or what happens afterwards I go crazy and freak myself out. It scares me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those people's logic
The economy of the recent modern era
chixbutt24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus It blows my mind. I cannot understand how derivatives turn into areas or rates and it is beyond frustrating, maybe I’m not trying hard enough, but I’m taking it for the third time and I might make it this time.
RinneWanKenobioli · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How currency works in an economy as something of monetary value. How a country can be in debt and still function. There's a lot about economics that I don't really understand
TigerRaiders · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum theory
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
NeutralityTsar · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly stellations are in geometry
michaelscott1776 · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we're told by the media we have to listen to a 16 year old on the climate and how we're all gonna die, but when multiple countries and doctors find a cheap way to treat Wuhan Flu we're told we can't trust them
what2do4you · 1 points · Posted at 03:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Avidoutdoors65 · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we are so terrible to each other
sadly190 · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
ZETA_RETICULI_ · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life...and what really is our purpose.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Protons and neutrons being the building-blocks of everything.
One proton is hydrogen. Alright, sure I guess. I can understand that if I think that basically a proton is a little bit of hydrogen. Two protons and two neutrons is helium. Alright, sure I guess, since I don't really know what a neutron is. Some protons plus some neutrons is helium, apparently. If you say so!
But then you're telling me I add one more proton and one more neutron and now it's a fucking metal called lithium?! And you're telling me if I took two helium atoms (two protons and two neutrons is one atom) and smashed them together the result is some bullshit metal called beryllium? How the FUCK does that work?!
I don't buy it. Something doesn't add up. I'm a chemistry truther. There must be something else going on that They don't want us to know about it. /s
digiking_2 · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
Edit: plays the why are we still hear sound track
klad_spear · 1 points · Posted at 03:30:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no matches still?
AdventureOfStayPuft · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why popular youtubers/streamers can’t change the damn batteries in their damn smoke alarms.
ProAssassin84 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can genuinely like Trump.
CobaltNeural9 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How red goo moving around inside me keeps me alive. If you take a certain amount of goo out- you die.
cristalmt · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who killed Teresa Halbach.
Dups47 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic
Shreddst3r · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My Life! 😂😂😂😭
SkullKrusher17 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How audio is recorded and played back. Are there tiny people in computers or something
EKlipztsu · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
localsusieathens · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My tax return.
Plague77 · 1 points · Posted at 03:31:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
MidniteOG · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrical and electricity. Amps, ohms, resistance, etc.
awex_wealy_high · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yesterday I was counting my fingers, and then I realized that I can’t count to 10. I have 10 fingers and I know that because I can count. Just not on my fingers, 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 10 where the fuck did 9 go
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don't genuinely how to chill out and not work all the time
cartankjet · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make myself do work
ChibbySlayer · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ART. The only thing i can do is draw a stick figure. My brain just cannot understand drawing or painting.
TheEshOne · 1 points · Posted at 03:32:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf you build a crane.
And don't give me this "with a smaller crane" crap. How tf you build the first crane dog!?
excited4theunknown · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
3D printers. What is the “ink” made of? Where does the material for the object come from? How does it all stay together? I just want to understand!!
Karen-vaxx-nope · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the enemies if humanity won't leave me and my last city alone. Like go to your own planet or find a system without gaurdians.
AlyksTheUnicorn · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How im alive. Like how cells... work? Im just a bunch of little atoms shooting electricity at each other and making things happen but how?!? How do they make ME? How can i move and think and act. Like i kinda understand plants and fungi and small single cell organisms but i don’t understand how we have instincts and thoughts and momorys and “free will” i don’t get it!!!!
kgriffen · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The speed of light.
Raven_Reverie · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How moving the sun with a new introduced source of acceleration will bring the entire solar system with it without breaking all the orbits
zbth24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Say it with me premed-but-now-another-major: "Organic Chemistry"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought that Covid-19 is a hoax
handsomegeek · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone would possibly want to live in a socialized state . It makes me really sad that so many young people believed in Bernie . Please look into the massive amounts of failed socialized governments thought old and recent history and . You see The thing about socialism is you eventually run out of other people's money.
666lolhailsatan666 · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make a string class in cpp
bluesnacks · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people's political ideology and, honestly, lack of rational thought. I'm not going to say exactly what.
Vicks_sexorinipizza · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate this whole thread. I’m going to curl up in a fetal position now and cry.
lariosme · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Metric system.
xGlob · 1 points · Posted at 03:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The real-life scenarios of using quadratics
shaym3421 · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are we here
mcflurvin · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
syfiarcade · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams, like how the fuck did you take something I was thinking about before I went to bed, and create a detailed story that can rival any good film
retroash · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The shit I see on acid. Also the stuff people see on DMT. Life for the most part makes sense with science. Then I take psychedelics and I’m like, what the fuck was that.
throw_awa73 · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ADHD
haydenhouse123 · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it’s so goddamn hard to post on Reddit, seems like everything I post gets taken down because it violates one of many stupid rules
Theburbank · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tik tok
LovelyMinnie95 · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men
austenbaechle · 1 points · Posted at 03:34:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How shorting stocks work...
xmaire · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there is any question about the value of human life from conception to natural death.
transmissionfactory · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.
-gemr- · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh look. Im late. Fourteen hours late. This is gonna get buried for sure.
How a human works. Why do we function? How do we think, talk. Diseases, the brain. The body. Why?
mechno · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How during a pandemic, the candidate who is the champion of universal healthcare, didn't do better than he did.
AliceCinderMoo · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
many many simple things. also what does genuinely mean ;-; im so stupid
CasualRedditor26 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
SthenicFreeze · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How wifi works or was invented. Like seriously, how did someone figure out how to send data through the air with no health consequences?
Sengel67 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Matrix movie 🤷♀️
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the brain can make us really like someone, or love someone, without our permission or conscious decision, then have us/them stop liking us/them or fall out of love sometimes without rhyme or reason, leaving us then to consciously grieve and hurt.
sirwinkalot · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economy works and how they are interlinked with other countries
justforcollege7116 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Where we are and who we are. Think about this. No matter what God you believe in or where you're from, we all are on this planet Earth together. A biological form we call "humanoid" that adopted different cultures and languages and intelligence - living and dying on this round planet seemingly floating in this enormous universe. We don't even know what we know about what's out there. We discovered a form of communication to explain the physics of how the world works through the medium of mathematics, which could be totally differently interpreted on some alien planet. Like why are we here? Why on a globe? What is before life? Looking at all the creation around me, I believe in a Creator. I can't fathom the idea that everything just exists because it does - popped out of thin air. Someone/some God had to create this. We often question the idea of "the meaning of life" it gets so cliche. But have we thought about the idea "life" itself?? Like what is the end goal to this Earth and the human race ?
I just realized after writing this there could be many answers - there is a biblical answer no doubt. Ig I just wanna hear your guys thoughts.
Waadm947 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a supposedly advanced and "great" country like the USA cannot provide enough tests to find out who has the coronavirus? Without knowing who has it, how are we going to transition from stay-at-home?
Braydizz · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people support Trump, even though he's made it quite obvious he is a narcissist and completely unfit for office
ExoticStories · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How OJ was acquitted.
snowball010 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Level of interest from people
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fathers who want to be in their children’s lives are constantly shit on in Family Courts, and when fathers who don’t are catered to by the same Courts.
Pwnch · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can own a home, raise 5 kids, have 3 cars, a boat, 3 dogs and a wife and do this all in the wage of a forklift driver. Debt?
NamasteHealthy1111 · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who abuse animals. I just can’t begin to understand how they can possibly bare it. Animals feel and know more than we do but somehow some people see them as a lower life form or something. We’re all the same just different species.
yungjazzyyyy · 1 points · Posted at 03:35:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people won’t just stay in the house
oliverejm · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. How is it possible 4 someone of a same species to hate another only because of a difference in skin pigmentation.
zombiekiller0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes and most adult things
taytayfiain · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People with excessive anger. I don't understand how someone gets SO angry over insignificant things.
arvis03 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
AnticipateRisk · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens when we keep going up into space? And I mean deep space, past the furthest visible star.
killernat1234 · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so idiotic
Doom_Toon · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who genuinely believe in star signs.
iron_spidey · 1 points · Posted at 03:36:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do they work?!
welpkelp84 · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What fucking statistical test to use smh
DukeBball04 · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters, climate change deniers, and also fans of mumble rap...it’s just absolute garbage.
hydraphantom · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
5G conspiracy. I still live with 800kb/s and would kill for 5G.
quietconsigliere · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As a northern coastal American, huge swaths of southern and midwestern American culture.
chocomol · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God. A lot of things.
rebootfailed2 · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it is hard to eat only one bag of Doritos a day.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks/economy
BANG-JP · 1 points · Posted at 03:37:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why exactly I give up on learning something because I can't understand it's concepts down to the littlest detail that isn't even relevant to using the skills efficiently.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
my mom
Nitimur_in_vetitum · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes, and Tax Credits
Floatfreeoftime · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love. Lol
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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wormthewormdoctor · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
whars 1+2+3
Gambit3le · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why seemingly reasonable people vote against their own best interests.
spanky2222 · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But the how to use the word lay, Or lie
mitchellmarkoff · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Carole Baskin got away with it.
lemidy · 1 points · Posted at 03:38:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that people actually like ask reddit posts
shoyoki · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The political system
Ghibli214 · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
rt-PCR.
cade2271 · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How new pharmaceutical drugs are made. Like are they just mixing chemicals hoping it does something good?
Peepshawtyy59 · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
confusedmacchiato · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quadratics
maheshdhamane · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls falling for real bad guys
sunqiaodan · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of actually being dead, unconscious forever, and the fact that our reality may not become anything further once we die.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does League of Legends work? I genuinely don’t understand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black people. Why put thugs, drugs, and sex on a pedestal when you could just not do that and have a good wife and kids?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:39:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 04:15:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The commonly accepted idea is that... it’s... complicated. Firstly you have to recognize that space and time aren’t separate, but instead the two sides of the same coin. That’s what Einstein talked about with relativity. In other words there are four dimensions (three spatial, and one temporal), and they all interact with each other. So, changing one will change the others.
We know this to be true because the ISS has to set their clocks to run slowly because of this issue.
At the beginning there was no space, and therefore no time. So the idea of “before” the Big Bang really doesn’t make much sense.
Some have the idea that the universe goes through an infinitely repeating cycle of expansion and retraction to an infinitely small point.
Again it’s complicated (a lot more complicated then I can explain, or even grasp fully), but it’s really interesting when you get into it if you want.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
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FUCK_ME_IN_THE_ASSS · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do?
6-dog · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer processors work
PcGamerSam · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m studying computer science at university but I have no idea how I got into my course because I in studying computing science for 5 years at high school I never got passed the simplest of programs, I can’t write arrays I struggle with ifs and loops and sorting algorithms besides a bubble sort seen like trying to write in an alien language and I haven’t the faintest idea how to write them or how they work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
swllord · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is this so hard to drink after you turn 21
danielcool555 · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life it's self
NalayakLaunda · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If electricity is movement of electrons then why the Wires are not too thin in the one end and too thick at the other end?
ImJustMe-_- · 1 points · Posted at 03:40:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relationships
TheExecutioner- · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our existence as a whole. How did everything come into existence? How long has the process of time been going on? What happens if time stops? What happens after we die? The best part is, entire wars have been fought over religion which ties into this whole thought process.
esotesomiza · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between < & >
God8869 · 2 points · Posted at 03:52:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it like an alligator mouth and it only wants to eat the larger number. You always read the equation from left to right, so whichever way the "mouth" is open towards is how you interpret it. Example: 8 > 2 = 8 is greater than 2 or 2 < 8 = 2 is less than 8
amh1191 · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
monalisa_coolingonU · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting banned from Instagram Reality. Are we supposed to be only nice? Honestly, tell me where I can go to be a little petty, snarky but still within the bounds of normal behavior.
Please
lhiz_jordn · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me
JimBo_Nuttrun · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why the dark web isn’t regulated. How can the surface web stay under regulation by the FBI and the government but the deep web can’t. I know things on the dark web are encrypted and are meant to be hard to shutdown permanently or find the culprits that put bad sites up, but I feel like it’s a feasible task. Is it just to difficult to handle for the FBI and our governments or is it just not worth it in the long run because it doesn’t pose much of a threat?
bleepbloopblurg · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can study the history and origins of religion and religious texts and remain religious.
Tristanmpayne5 · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. Like how do the just want to stick together one way then force away from each other the opposite way
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/OBdQIa4rt78
CannaDad623 · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Bible...
Mundee366 · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What "simp" actually means XD
loneWolfDog · 1 points · Posted at 03:41:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The clitoris.
geobese · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ice tea
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my job works
lex_edge · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Banning Easter services for virus but not spring break or drive thru liquor stores.
ShaureaT · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. The afterlife. Or the lackthereof?
webnetcat · 1 points · Posted at 03:42:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money laundering
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 03:51:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/257wV-AbKaE
CerberusC24 · 2 points · Posted at 04:03:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Illegal operations are typically done in cash. Large amounts of cash can't be actually used without tipping off authorities.
You have a legit business that operates in cash (bar, casino, strip joint etc). You then begin to filter in your ill gotten cash and make fake receipts as proof of purchase. This allows you to then pay taxes and make it seem like you're business is very lucrative. You end up with less after taxes, but it is "clean" money that can be used without the authorities wondering where it came from
webnetcat · 2 points · Posted at 14:04:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you for taking time to explain.
pinchjester · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my housemate can't grasp using two thumb stick at the same time using a controller.
SneakyNacho · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
toolargo · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people truly believe racist shit. Like, how in this day an age?
allthenamesrtakenarg · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maps
MarkusRight · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets... Like I've read the textbook definition of how they work and I still can't understand how something can repel something else with something that's completely invisible.
idlehanz88 · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can visually picture how a room will look when moving furniture around, before actually doing it.
bettysak · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Someone please answer my post I’m new it’s my first post and idk how to get people to see it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Non-Binary/Transgenders.
I mean, they just decide not to be the gender they were born with and they're that gender? How does that work? Non-Binary genders make even less sense, for example: Demi-boy/Demi-girl, meaning you are partially boy/girl. That makes no sense, what's the other part? Is it nothing? I mean people are "Identifying" as downright random things.
rlynbook · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules of poker. There are too many variations and it confuses me.
haymaker18 · 1 points · Posted at 03:43:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This may not be on here but how people thing certain things are normal and right. Like when your abused but it’s happened to you your whole life so you think it’s normal. Or when you hear yelling all the time and you think that’s how the world works until you get on the outside .
CerberusC24 · 2 points · Posted at 03:59:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because that's their baseline for normality. You're comparing their experience to your own without shifting the frame of reference. It's relative normality
haymaker18 · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I watched rSlash (well listen) and a story popped up that reminded me of how my gf saved me and then see this Ask Reddit and posted.
thecody17 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Electoral college is at all a good idea still. I have had it explained to me so much and I still don't see any realistic benefit.
loisstrancy · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How colorblind people know what colors they are seeing when they see them for the first time, specifically with the glasses that help colorblind people see colors. Like if someone is completely colorblind (they can only see in B&W), and they use the glasses, how do they know what color they are seeing?
HashtagH · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cannibal Corpse lyrics
LosDosSode · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ratchet straps
ianholt150 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it’s acceptable to burn the American flag.
CerberusC24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really? It's a free speech thing. Is it a dick move? Sure I guess. I don't personally care but whatever.
ianholt150 · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet if I burn a pride flag it’s hate speech
CerberusC24 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty sure you're allowed to burn those as well. Is that also a dick move? Probably. Again it doesn't bother me personally so whatever.
icantthinkofone87 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Genuinely do not understand how people can watch even 1 speech given by Trump and support him as a leader of the United States
KingKeever · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Mormons believe their history.
jlaw904 · 1 points · Posted at 03:44:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathmeticians (like the creators). Taking Calculus 3 and at this point I'm wondering how the hell somebody figured this shit out in the first place. I'm still struggling through solving problems with detailed instructions at hand, but some of the proofs and concepts are really impressive. The type of intelligence it must have taken to develop the proofs and methods for for integrals, limits, etc, before the concept was ever even invented just blows my mind.
Chickenflocker · 2 points · Posted at 04:00:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calc 3 if you’re talking about multi variable seemed a natural extension of the first two courses just applied to more dimensions. The first courses are what impressed me and more specifically second semester calc which imo is the big conceptual jump and the hardest for students to wrap their head around. Then differential equations is another leap.
Leibniz and Newton did some badass work but the concept of infinitesimals came before them, it was just shunned and not considered serious work iirc. The history of mathematics is a really cool story that everyone should learn.
jlaw904 · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea I definitely agree conceptually Calc 2 was the most difficult for me, but really started seeing the real world applications of it.
OsamaBinLadin420 · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
bitcoin mining ⛏
nicki-cach · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trickle down economics.
Dynamo_Ham · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How other people who I respect - smart, thoughtful people - look at the same world I live in - but reach dramatically different conclusions.
ZombK · 1 points · Posted at 03:45:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my wife is such an asshole.
TheRealTegan · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit cards...
juvurson · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
2020
francorange · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
john_spicy · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
think of something while looking in a mirror ie a man walking down a street you can see that image and focus mirror at the same time! it's insane!
Lichtboys · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so stubborn when it comes to politics. People just refuse to listen
lanefam6 · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can deeply love and hate someone......
nautical1776 · 1 points · Posted at 03:46:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why people follow Trump like a Svengali. Why they dismiss his insane antics and shady dealings. I literally can’t understand it
Franticfap · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shiny Pokemon hunters.
I mean, if there were 10 different colors of each one would you spend months getting them all just to have the new game out and have to start over?
CerberusC24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, with such little post game content, it's the only reason I've kept playing after beating SwSh
hancocbr0217 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how people get so sucked into conspiracy theories, based on little to no actual facts.
hopeoftheking · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people on this earth can be such assholes to others, even when they are struggling themselves.
Dingleberry_Pie37 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’ve had this conversation many times with multiple people but I cannot understand how The Monty Hall problem works.
ChefBrownBoi · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
How people can pretend they know what’s going on
hopeoftheking · 2 points · Posted at 03:48:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We pretend because it makes us look cool
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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forlorn_hope28 · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Full blown carnivore here, but plants are living beings too. By your assertion, no one should be eating plants either. A better position might be the suffering in living beings to satisfy ones taste buds. To that I have no answer. Some might troll and claim that plants suffer too, but if I trim the weeds, they’re not gone forever, they’re back in 2 weeks.
trueblue9009 · 2 points · Posted at 05:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I should have said causing them pain to satisfy ones taste buds.
FrustratedFishKeeper · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a Licensed Civil Engineer in my country. I still couldn’t understand structural steel design. Good thing I’m in another specialization.
gogo-gadget69 · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cloud storage. Or any other abstract internet concept. Beyond me.
CerberusC24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's like an external hard drive. Except instead of plugging it into your computer, it's in a server rack in a warehouse somewhere. So you upload it to the internet and it gets stored there and you can access it from anywhere
gogo-gadget69 · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole uploading to the internet gets me. How does that happen? How does the data travel so incredibly fast to a different destination?
CerberusC24 · 2 points · Posted at 04:13:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet is just a series of tubes lol. You're over thinking it. Cloud storage is an external hard drive on the internet is the basic answer to your original statement
wickedspork · 1 points · Posted at 03:47:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Schrodinger's cat
boi_s64 · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people thought the world was flat
ceeashi · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Sh3lls · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logarithms. I mean, I know they're the inverse of exponents but except for a 7 minute period in 10th grade it's a struggle to actually get it.
GalvanZWAX · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If there's any physical way to access to ideas, thoughts, dreams, knowledge...
paralleltimelines · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me: the US government
The government: the economy
Sarge212 · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras. None of the individual components “see”. So why do adding things together suddenly create sight, let alone the ability to capture an image/color. That’s like adding blue, blue, and blue together and expecting to get red.
theHuntsclan · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How conciousness functions. We humans have conciousness and other animals have conciousness, but what allows us to be conscious exactly? Could a plant or computer attain conciousness? What can and cant be conscious? There have been reports of twins sharing feelings and pain, is that a form of shared consciousness? I have so many questions...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Extroverts.
I just do not get the need for interaction. I just don’t get it.
WheresHambone · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
e22keysmash · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can be straight and/or cis. I'm a total queerdo but it really blows my mind that other's aren't at least a little like me. I've dated so many men who claim to be strictly straight but I'm not a woman (or a man) so how are you straight if you're attracted to both women and non-women? How can you be a monosexual gay if you date men and non-men? My best guess is that it's a failure of language and education but I really can't wrap my head around the concept
ShadowSwoopz · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
consciousness after death.
TragicDaydreamer · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people are still hoarding toilet paper. Don't understand it... I really don't 😑
DependentRope7 · 1 points · Posted at 03:49:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand why parents do not love their children or disown them if they’re gay/lesbian. Like I don’t care what you do with your life, you’re my child and I will love you matter what.
Paratwa · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck we have such fucking terrible people who win primaries for President of the U.S, the last couple of elections, damn man.
We GOTTA have someone better than the choices we got from both sides of the aisle, when George Bush looks like he had class compared to anyone in the forefront you know we are fucked man.
0_IceCold_0 · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the ‘housewife’ type soaps. How can you watch such drivel? Are your lives that empty?
2Woke2Handle · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why manufacturers are withholding products from the shelves.
TheNacho14 · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sleeping.
As simple as it may seem, its actually kind of wierd when you think about it. There is no difference between sleeping or just laying down in terms of energy waste, and your brain actually does more because it has to keep you alive while you are unconscious.
botanicalbk · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nick cannon
01WwDF · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why pancakes don't look the same on both sides?
Why 7-11 have locks on their doors?
When I need urgently to write down a phone number - and I always get the ballpen that dried out?
Why the answer to 'life, universe and everything' is 42!
DoctorMittensPHD · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music theory. It just doesn’t click I play music I have a pretty good feel for it but actual theory makes no sense to me
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really don’t understand why there are teachers that just like watching everyone burn, like yo what the truck?
Cerphilly · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual love. How can two people start to like each other more than anyone and even have sex? I know it exists, but truly cannot understand it. I'm aromantic asexual, and it's not something you can ask to other people.
aSmelly1 · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How different modes/keys or styles of music portray emotions. Like you hear the music and say, "this makes me sad" or "this is energetic" or whatever.
I get the immediate why; the way it impacts our brain and all.... but if you keep asking the why of the why, it's just wack. Like really, why does this lyric-less melody make me cry? Music is crazy powerful.
Okboomeryouaregay · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whether the white army was from the russian empire of Nicolas II or from the provsional Government of the February revolution
Pizzasheep12 · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cameras can capture what we see and how microphones can record sound. How you can wirelessly pair up devices via Bluetooth.
lookachoo · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory.
And why, on many occasions, I decide to bite into a hot pocket straight out of the microwave.
G0merPyle · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I get the flow of electrons, AC vs DC, finger-touches-prongs-equals-pain (I'm a learn by doing kind of guy) but past a certain point my caveman brain says "just accept it's witchcraft."
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
TheNonAbsoluteZero · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope I am not too late to the party, but I do not understand economic crises. I mean, where is the money? The economy has slowed down because people are not spending money because they do not have money. Well, where is the money?
best_grandpa_ever · 1 points · Posted at 03:52:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any and all forms of math except the absolute basics
Itarotchi · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
...life, 27M
NthngLeftToBurn · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Affect vs effect
iiSalvage · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ideas. Especially good ones.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people think the silent treatment in a relationship is even remotely a good idea
TarquishaSmith · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trump being president.
Cyfyclops2 · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the fuck advertising works!?!? Maybe I'm just a full blown anti-consumerist but it seems to be that interrupting what ever I'm doing and enjoying to shove your product down my face Is a great way to get me to NOT buy your product!
GarrusCalibrates · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The physics behind Three phase electricity still seems like magic to me.
Dkothla13 · 2 points · Posted at 04:01:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck three phase transformer calculations
kaotickatt · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Narcissism
justmyself1999 · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, stopped understanding it after algebra1 in eighth grade
MilwaakeePustaBandit · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
King crimson
Deoplan · 1 points · Posted at 03:53:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How come im always too late to a thread
getkaizer · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife's reasoning.
iama3patchproblem · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people pay a premium for the exact or lesser quality item just because it has a famous name on it. Bag made by Mary is $10 but a bag made (licensed) by Mary Moviestar is $500. If you buy the more expensive bag, color yourself pathetic.
ShiftyAdamSchiff · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people blame trump for the rain
dmurr2019 · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where all the trash goes
kolmstead446 · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death, I understand as much as the next person. However, it truly freaks me out and keeps me up. It’s almost like an obsession I have. Wondering why, how, when. The thought of dying. Leaving my kids and wife. It brings me to paranoid panicky state. From here I end up taking quick escalated breaths and turn myself into a real time panic attack. Now I can’t figure those out.
I just don’t understand how one minute you’re here and the next minute you could not be? It is absolutely terrifying to me.
Good luck.
shaquille-oatmeal33 · 1 points · Posted at 03:54:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. I can’t wrap my head around it. It’s so... vast
SillySausage30 · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who unironically watch TV shows like Love Island and The Bachelor.
pwnstar · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imaginary numbers
Surpriseitsyourwife · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capoeira... I've tried to gain an understanding but it still looks like my nephews play fighting after just having watched ninja turtles for the first time.
Youmustbethistall103 · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do asteroids just decide not to hit us
Starblaze647 · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They swerve away real quick when they see that Earth is infested with gross, fleshy, bipedal things that call themselves homosapiens.
Roro_Yurboat · 2 points · Posted at 04:19:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's how they keep flying through space. They throw themselves at the Earth and miss.
Starblaze647 · 2 points · Posted at 04:20:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They need to up their aim game. Pathetic 😤
Notasheila · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have never understood the apparent desperate need some people have to have biological children. I dont mean just the ones that spend money and time and go through all the hoops to have kids if they are infertile. I mean anyone that has ever said that they cant wait to have kids. I dont get it.
Yes I have kids, and I love them like crazy,, but I never actively tried to get pregnant.
riyadh01 · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gaming businesses feel skill based matchmaking will be the future of gaming... what happened to the days where if you genuinely practiced to get better you had the right to be, well, the best.
(Businesses like
Epic - Fortnite Respawn - Apex Legends Activision - Call of Duty Modern Warfare Riot Games - Valorant
have added it so far).
MelbPickleRick · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pretty much everything that came before and after the Big Bang.
MrDicksnort · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The electoral college
hootybarng · 1 points · Posted at 03:55:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where a bald person's forehead ends.
leeshylou · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can actually think that governing bodies have the best interests of the people at heart.
Cavalier_Avocado · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The origin and fate of the universe; God (I’m a Christian I’m just very confused); straight people (from the very little I’ve seen on TV straight sex seems really painful)
bottleofmtdew · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Correct singing technique. Like, breathe from my diaphragm? I try to, but it feels like I get way less of a breath and I feel like I'm suffocating, but when I breathe with my chest, I feel like I'm overflowing with air and it feels way better. I just don't get it :(
CheetoMussolini · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y do ppl luv me qmq
graypapermoon · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight saving time...why does it have to exist? imma head out, cause I feel so stupid
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How video games are even possible. The fact that programming leads to a visual and manipulatable thing with all these colours and imagery it baffles me. Like, number and shit caused that. How is that possible???
Assassin_Seal · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Recursive functions in anyway. Fuck that! I don't get it, programming is hard.
KingofCrudge · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how the internet works.
LaytonsCat · 1 points · Posted at 03:57:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why easter isnt always the same day. We celebrate Jesus's birthday the same day each year, but the day he died is moved around. Don't get it.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:43:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The way the date is worked out doesn’t help clear things up
ElBarro69 · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus, biology and chemistry :(
Raccoonborn · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife on any given day, especially right now as she talks about a mysterious "clothes bin" and how it's "half done".
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crowdfunding is better than the Lottery.....but Americans are so greedy they cant see that we can make the USA great again is we started Crowdfunding in a more responsible manner.
paradoxperumal · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why USA likes Guns so much? Its almost like a love affair with guns.I am 30 years old and I have never seen a real gun in my entire life!!
I just can't imagine going for a school or a movie or a club and getting shot . How can you live with that constant tension?? How can yall even go out???
msmedic2U · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cause we have guns 😁
KnocDown · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our current irrational economy.
Probably starting from 2008 on to now. We print dollars, create and monetize debt that will never be paid off, live with new zero percent interest rates and some how the market goes up.
Ganon2012 · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans have been around for about 200,00 years (according to Google). Where the hell was I that entire time? What is it like to not exist? We have no concept of life before we exist, so what will it be like afterwards if there is no afterlife?
This relates to another thing: I don't remember anything from when I was a baby, so it's like it never happened from my perception. How am I aware of all this right now if years from now I will have no memory of it either?
JOY_OF_CREATION · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The entire voting system of America and how the fuck they didn’t vote for the only candidate that basically didn’t want you to die for being sick
Mineshafter61 · 1 points · Posted at 03:58:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The create community button on Reddit. What's that about?
maskedmyself · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math 😭
meat_eatr · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karen’s.
bloatedkat · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
dolphinboiiiii · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geography, like wtf how does longitude and latitude work
WilliamJohnMcCann · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can support Donald Trump.
ParasomniaBeef · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man!
Mamba4life8_24 · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How snakes move
meamer_man_fan1k · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trashy ppl and women sometimes
MrJChM · 1 points · Posted at 03:59:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump. I mean he got the best advisors in the world to prevent a pandemic, buuuuuuut he didn't listen to their advise.
eggy0ked · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my supports can get hooked by blitz 10 times in the first 5 mins of the game
KingYamYam · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be a functioning adult. Shit just didn't click even before corona dropped in.
cloakedabyss · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot to metal gear solid
PlasmaGqpple · 1 points · Posted at 04:00:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Socks in sandals
uchange · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Any math.
youCantcMe4real · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christians 1 +1+1 = 1
And how can a man (Jesus) die for their sins? Some might say how dare u say a man?! But hey, he came for lost sheep of Israel and even they didn’t take him as a God
Basic simple English is twisted.
gotblake · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand if when you commit a crime and hire a lawyer, do you have to tell your lawyer the crime you committed or if they know they can’t represent you.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You don’t have to, but it obviously helps to be honest with them so they can properly defend you and be aware of anything the prosecution may bring up
gotblake · 1 points · Posted at 00:53:24 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow, so defence lawyers know when a horrific crime has been committed and their job is to convince a bunch of people that their client is innocent. What a way to earn a living.
Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 07:04:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yep, it’s pretty shitty
acidtitties_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra and Calculus. I went through all the classes in high school and college but still don’t know how to apply it to actual real life scenarios.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, I just get to the point of repeating illogical, illogical, illogical and turn into Spock when I try to understand it.
It just won't fit in my head I can understand wanting to lie to yourself so it makes life easier but I don't seem able to do it and I know it would probably make life easier to think there is an external power controlling things but I can't even start to begin to understand it.
UnusedSheep · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can think that Carol Baskin did not kill her husband
urmomgayy777 · 1 points · Posted at 04:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
School
driehvs · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can live hating other people. Hatred it’s just not worth it.
470vinyl · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like mumble rap.
Shoutspoken · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The double slit experiment and its implications in the real world. Life is like a box of possibilities. You dont know what your gonna get until you measure it.
IHOPEYOUDIETODAY · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cameras. When the person looks at the picture, it looks great, high quality, then when a person looks at the original thing without the camera, it just looks depressing.
Nulovka · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dez caught that ball.
splorp_evilbastard · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Belief in religion in the modern era.
There's an invisible being (or beings, if that's your flavor) who created everything.
They know everything and can do anything, but don't anything to prevent true evil ("it's free will!").
There's no physical proof they exist ("you have to have faith!").
TidalSurf · 1 points · Posted at 04:02:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole concept that if you are on a train going the speed of light, and you run from the back to the front of it, you are still NOT going faster than the speed of light......... I'M SORRY, HOW TF AM I NOT?
enfp-vagabond · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trumps appeal or American exceptionalism
sweetlysarcastic10 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why social media "influencers" are a thing.
one_yen_tea · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
El idioma ingles v:
quintonmarksii · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how and why trump’s supporters look passed his “just grab em by the pussy” remarks. not just “citizen” supporters, those in government positions as well. is that acceptable to them? do they just look passed it? i’m just not able to see the bigger picture, and maybe i’m not meant to, but it really just doesn’t make sense.
TokenOpalMooStinks · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reasonable person can be so afraid the idea of trial and error
aspspartan · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot
701036001 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i know what i'm doing
mrgeebs17 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is dinner the hardest meal to figure out? My spouse and I run into this nonstop. Breakfast lunch and snacks seem to be easy or just whatever you're in the mood for but figuring out dinner is a beast
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything in legalese.
kjc030589 · 1 points · Posted at 04:03:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit I'm so confused what to do and what icons to hit, don't even know if this will post
sentientfartcloud · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we have to make our beds.
GrizzlyRT · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we capture photos/film. I've read about it and it still absolutely baffles me. We are literally taking what we currently see and capturing it forever.
paulharris1279 · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The time travel paradox from Endgame. Everytime I watch it, I know lose more and more of my imaginary grasp of it.
Most recent thought- Thor takes his hammer from his old self after talking with his mom- wouldn’t that ill-equip that time’s Thor and change how he interacted with Hela?
And then...if they return the stones to when/where they got them wouldn’t there be other Thanos running around in different years, like a 2010 Thanos instead of a 2014 (second Thanos that gets snapped).
Brain hurt. Dumb dumb. Halp!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:04:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, better yet, how?
Rum_Hamtaro · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. A third of the country (US) is unemployed and the market is up.
adissimo124 · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WiFi
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a physics degree and I don’t know who phones work. Why does your voice come out where I can recognize it as your voice????
juniperroach · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of things. I can read about it and people can explain it but I still can’t really understand it. It’s like I can regurgitate the information but it means little. Mostly things like how a electronics works, the stock market, math equations, economics Ect
Astral-Napping · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets! How do they work?!
Getmetothebaboon · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people would be so quick to embrace that which harms them the most, whether it's drugs, violence, panic, etc..
lovePenis818 · 1 points · Posted at 04:05:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can draw. Like what?? I see them do the drawings but I physically can’t copy what they’re doing and I don’t understand why.
Krednaught · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women... I'm a 34 to man...
WUNDERCLUB · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of heaven being a place where you live infinitely.
dogeof2co · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m still single
gayandafraid- · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how i can feel so much like a boy and so much like a girl and so much like neither at the same time. i dont understand who i am
speedbump_32 · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any sort of complex math
jfranklin513 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Phones, gravity, airplanes, bacon, contacts, vertical jumps, microwaves, ice makers, to name a few
MrPickleton · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can be sitting at an intersection at 11pm, I'm the only car in the area, and all 4 directions are red lights.
shootermcdabbin007 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How light travels through a medium, like it’s always said that like from air to glass or something, light slows down in the medium, now what I don’t understand is if it is actually slowing down, or if it is constantly ricocheting against the atoms, therefore through the medium it appears slowed down, but is it really just traveling a farther distance that seems like it’s slowing down, or is there a wave interaction that actually slows down light, I understand what’s happening on the outside, but really confused on the inside.
twunlove · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
WiFi. No clue how is works.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
that, even with all the moral development and science in the world, people still believe in right wing ideologies. we're supposed to evolve, not devolve, idiots.
jwooouwh12 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How such a huge airplane that weighs who knows how much can glide in the air across thousands of miles and deliver passengers safely to their destinations.
Tronacy_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This annoys people when I bring it up, but how our bodies are 70% water, I know it means H20, but isn’t that just water, and there is hardly any water in us, skin isn’t water, it’s skin, same with bones...
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:24:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water is a main component of intracellular fluid and extracellular fluid (blood plasma, lymph fluid, interstitial fluid, spinal fluid), so every cell in the body contains and is bathed in an aqueous solution
Tronacy_ · 1 points · Posted at 11:25:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but there’s not actual water is it, it’s just the molecule.
biglebangle · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Complex integrals.
Like how to solve them is basically to find every way not to directly compute it (Cauchy's formulas and deformation of paths). I have no idea what I'm doing.
deanadra23 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I feel completely normal and someone says something slightly stupid my voice has more control than my brain
patagoniabaggies · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say percentile. Like they are in the 99th percentile like is that good or bad. Woof
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:17:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends what it’s for. Test scores, great. Weight, not so much.
It means that, on average, only 1% of people would score higher/weigh more than you
TidalPod · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Logic gates. I want to understand them and how to use them but most explanations fly over my head.
The_blonde_next_door · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most things unfortunately
Osalosaclopticus · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole horny/chasing tail thing. I've never had a sex drive so I just don't get the lengths people go to for sex.
IredditJ · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
saylerjesse · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought of absolute nothing existing. Like nothing at all. Nothing anywhere in any universe ever. Nothing. My mind can't even think about it.
MegaboltPhoenix · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Rightside-Up." If it's not upside-down, then the object in question is vertical; therefor, the right is facing space.
...
Yes! I know "Right" has another definition, but I'll take the rest of my night to consider the term Downside Up or Upside Up when the object in question is up the right way. You may proceed to laugh at my stupidity.
ali123512 · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly. And I’m an aerospace engineer!
XenoMaker · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sex life
JSchift · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we fall asleep
Like you close your eyes, think of some stuff, and then bam you’re knocked out.
MrSwirlyEyes · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
TimeEstimate · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How two pieces of paper doubles 100 times would create a stack of paper 13 billion light years long? Sorce
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:09:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why reditt users think an up or down vote is how the world views success....
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Percentages Like here's an example A plane has a 1/10 chance of crashing There are lots of planes that take off every day The plane doesn't know if I'm the 1st of 10th Just wondering why I haven't won the Powerball yet.
MsCrazyPants70 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people can go out of their way to be so shitty to each other. From little things as just saying crappy things, to stealing and murder. For supposedly having such big brains, it doesn't seem to have elevated us much beyond basic monkeys.
ali123512 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How planes fly. And I’m an aerospace engineer!
heyimrage · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
SomeShinyPants · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sound is put onto a disc or record
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well on a vinyl record it's actually a needle that vibrates up and down as it cuts a groove. The vibrations represent the sound wave so it's cutting a replica of it in to the record. Record players reproduce the vibrations by running a needle along the groove and as it goes over the "hills" the signal is translated in to an electrical one and then a sound wave at the speaker.
imanisland_07 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Catholicism. I’ve read and I’ve read. I’ve gone to mass’s. I’ve asked questions, but I can not understand it nor why anyone else would want to..
unitabrain13 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Kardashian/Jenner's popularity...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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riehnbean · 2 points · Posted at 04:16:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a breathe and relax. This isn't a question needed while alive, but if I had to give an idea. I would say your reality changes. You live on, but in a different reality. Your thoughts will be somewhere else. Until (If you believe in Jesus) then I guess you wait to be brought back to life after the end of the world.
chavs2 · 1 points · Posted at 04:10:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is she angry?
riehnbean · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to communicate effectively with lower level Intelligence
no_carbs_since_2004 · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blackholes/Anti-matter
D0esItEvenMatter · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is there still support?
How the the leader boasting on twitter about his tv ratings during a pandemic that has already killed 20,000 AMERICANS wasn't removed from office. Thats more than:
9/11, soldiers the Iraq war and Afghanistan, police and firefighters killed on the job since 2001, Bengazi
COMBINED.
TheAwesomeOnes16 · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dudes
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Ho
FrancoSupanko · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is it called Real Estate? I get the Estate part, but where does the Real part come from?
FlyingAlephants · 1 points · Posted at 04:11:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If we can’t describe it in language it does not exist. We are unable to describe (for example:) color “Blue” without using any examples or reference. What are such concepts that we don't understand because we don't have vocabulary for it.
Sp1ffy_Sp1ff · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Death. Shit terrifies me. What happens after? Do we know we're dead and just exist in nothingness for eternity? Do we not understand what's happened and are just gone? Sometimes I think about it too much and I start freaking out. The thought of literally nothing forever makes me sick. Boredom is my biggest enemy and that sounds like eternal boredom...
backgroundworld · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I have finally accepted I have a disability. Luckily my job doesn’t require me to employ my (lack of) math abilities.
magdood · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
human existence and consciousness. the idea and existence of my hand is right in front of me right now but how do i know it actually exists? idk..
cgon1990 · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people ask to borrow money in huge sums and have no intention if paying it back. It should be a given that they'll need to pay it back to that person who lent it to them, especially cuz a huge sum of money is hard to forget about; it's noticeable. And they have the audacity to not feel any guilt, and be upset when they're asked when they can pay that money back. Which means they had no intentions of paying it back ever. I... I truly don't understand that.
2006YamahaFz6 · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone just one day decided it was fathomable to produce a moving image across a braided wire to a screen and that it would work. Like, did people think he was a nut job back then?
Like someone did it with the telephone before then. And that was crazy. But then someone was like “f*** it, watch this.” And people literally did. Just seems crazy to me.
asweatshirtman · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people smoke cigarettes, my grandpa died from them a couple years back and after that I genuinely do not understand why. Idk if its just cuz I’m a kid or if you get a high from it or something but it just seems dumb.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Federal Reserve.
PlatypusFighter · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The speed of light being a universal speed limit. I just don’t understand how there can be a speed limit to the universe.
I once heard an analogy and it fucked with my brain, and still does. Two trains are traveling opposite directions towards eachother, and both trains are going the speed of light. If a passenger in either train looks out the window, the other train would appear to be going the speed of light relative to themselves, even though you would expect the relative speed to be 2c.
I love physics, but I just can’t grasp how the speed of light works. I’ve put a good amount of study into quantum physics and engineering just because I want to beat the speed of light. I simply cannot accept it, and I hate things that don’t make sense, so either I need to understand it, or I need to prove it wrong, otherwise it’ll bother me my whole life.
chenzo17 · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
ksimbobbery · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conservative viewpoint of "If I am Okay then fuck you if you're not able to keep yourself alive"
When they're so against abortion
RonJohn223 · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
pang0lin · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father, FIL, MIL, grandfather, and Aunt. They all think 'Mexicans' and Black people are 'less than'. How two of those people hate Jews. How two different people hate Chinese, Japanese, and people they 'assume' to be Japanese or Chinese but can't actually name any other countries that have the people they hate so call them all by one of two racist terms.
I honestly, genuinely can not understand how they could all be so incredibly racist and not have the self awareness to realize that people are people. And should each be judged upon their own character.
...Mexicans is in quotes because its the only country any of them seem to think exists south of MURICA.
Sizzle_Streams · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How major video games refuse to revert changes or make changes when their entire community is telling them to
Upbeat-Crab · 1 points · Posted at 04:13:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
9th grade maths
sempersapidum · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is 1 kilogram of steel heavier than 1 kilogram of feathers?
...I don’t get it
Fat-- · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking calculus
poopsonthemoon · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I me? Why do I see through these eyes? Why am I inside this body, and not another? Why am I not that guy over there? Why was I not a guy in 1802? Why did the universe decide to use my consciousness in this body at this moment in time? Why?
Thehaas10 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calls puts and strike price. I've watched so many videos for "dummies " and still just over my head. I understand regular training. I'm very new to this whole thing. I've recently been placing limit orders for boeing, southwest, United airlines, and disney. But outa and calls. No fucking idea.
lancaster24643 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we have fingertips but we don't have toe tips and yet we can tiptoe but we can finger tip
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market.
Magister1995 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do quantum computers works? It's based on principles of quantum entanglement, which is so hard to understand for me. Furthermore, how can you apply that concept to computers???
ravigoyal2003 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman
Beyond_Kielbasa · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why China treats animals and the environment so badly?
strangr55 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The square root of -1. All the math stuff makes perfect sense, everything fits, except the square root of -1. So, we will all just agree to call that an "imaginary number" and move on. Any questions?
ParkRanger_Man · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont understand why we cant be a better world?
captjay98 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make and keep friends.
lizlies · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division and I’m too scared to tell anyone.
shysanashy · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cheat
hotelmariomaker · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras work
ironbar101010 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of infentisimal. It exists but it is infinitely small. The more you think the more mindfucked you get.
ShittyMomma2Goblins · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. Like, how in the hell... what in the hell... what the hell IS a stock? I’ve looked it up... but for the life of me can’t figure it out. Maybe it’s just not worded for a dumb person like me.
My husband and I just got into it. He’s loving it, he clearly understands what the hell it all is. I’m to afraid to ask him, even though I know he’s probably the only person who can explain it in a way I DO get.
I’ll be 35 this month... and it’s a huge thing that confuses me still.
Whiskey027 · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand how people can watch neon genesis evangelion and complain so much about the ending.
Wooosh_If_Dumb- · 1 points · Posted at 04:14:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why some cities just hate homeless people. I’m talking about when they install those benches that you can only sit on, or make it so you can’t sleep under bridges. You’re still a person who deserves to be treated with respect whether you can buy a house or not. Are you going to tell me that people who lost their homes during the Great Depression aren’t people just because they can’t afford a house? I honestly just don’t get it.
Flash_Discard · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can grow up without critical thinking. I’ve visited multiple countries on many continents in my life and I’ve seen entire societies where no one seems to be critically asking the “hard” questions. How does that happen? Who started it in that society? How does one fix it?
TheCatsPajamas96 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's after the universe? My brain can't comprehend the idea of the universe being infinite and neverending, because well, how? The idea of infinity entirely overwhelms me
YoBroHoDoh · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people on Reddit can’t understand that they are as much in an echo chamber as conservatives. Article after article full of anonymous sources and spin and they eat it up and act like the other side is brainwashed. You are all brainwashed idiots, conservatives included.
theslothamongus · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
superiorpanda · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Water witching
Anonyymous2949 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why washers and dryers aren't just an all in one machine. Why can't you wash my clothes AND dry them? We went to space. Tf.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 07:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’ve existed for a long time
Anonyymous2949 · 1 points · Posted at 07:14:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This... Is news to me.
sellingsoap13 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who don’t believe in COVID19
swimming_fish1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:15:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The USA, seriously, wtf are you guys even doing
Phascolar · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we taste things
Franky2468 · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is like a bad trip without the psychedelics. I’m getting anxious thinking about the stuff I’m not good at knowing stuff about.
h3110again · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
GideonStargraves · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know this is really controversial, but I really want to know; Why does anyone follow that guy. I need to have someone explain it to me without yelling.
abemansour · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Java script
deisle · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetic flux
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok. My Achilles heel here - I am a physics major but it just boggles my mind about how can clouds stay suspended in the air and cause rain. Scientists estimate that one inch of rain falling over an area of one square mile is equal to 17.4 million gallons of water. That much water would weigh 143 million pounds! How does all that moisture stay elevated in the air in a coherent cloud??
edosi · 1 points · Posted at 04:16:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
Storm916 · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life. Why is it so bad? Am I cursed?
XNICHOLVSX · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My baby mama
megaines · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well, as a darkskin, I genuinely don’t know why darkskin is considered inferior or ugly in general society (on women, but also men too in some places). Like how did it become this thing that keeps people from having jobs in certain countries, or bullied and teased? It’s just melanin and no one asks to be born a certain way, plus darkskin is super pretty to me. I don’t get it.
ffchampion123 · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Photos + videos. It's all black magic I tells ya!
MattHopfman420 · 1 points · Posted at 04:17:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Chemistry.
LarryDavidCrosby · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maf.
sarahkatie123 · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Dick is short for Richard.
Carrot-Bro · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mind of a cat
Zixrias · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Redstone
Jas_Likes_Eddsworld · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
TheSkyFlier · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an E6B flight computer works. I’ve had it explained a dozen times and watched a bunch of videos but I just don’t get it. If someone is showing me how it works I can follow along, but I can’t do it on my own.
chentufio · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All of existence being a simulation......
dawson62294 · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy and not be depressed. I do not remember what true happy feels like. I’ve been depressed since I was at least 11, I’m now almost 26.
Kenos_ · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Raliator2 · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
scraull · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Masochism.
MT_Flesch · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
carpet in a bathroom heh
36600rEd · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, how do those things even work?
ThatOneGenZKid · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How da f*c oxygen is made
EpicGamesLauncher · 1 points · Posted at 04:18:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Karens exist in our world... oh and also calculus :(
Asher-can-make-a-pun · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do I make serotonin?
ajagler · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it's possible to dream in third person, or not have an internal monologue
2themoonndback · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy and how money works. I’m a licensed history teacher (and having a basic understanding of economics is part of that—and my understanding is the bare minimum) but I genuinely don’t understand how it works. It’s a human developed system, why can’t we just create more money or drop debt?
Dragonmk5 · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I really just don't get them.
Bru875 · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
GFisheh · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not existing.
notadilemma · 1 points · Posted at 04:19:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why younger people smoke. I’m a millennial, and people at least in my age range and below have known from the very beginning that smoking is terrible for you and anyone else who can inhale that crap around you. so why do young people smoke????
_Odin- · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I don’t understand how the vast majority (99.999....%+) don’t get “It”. No specifics necessary, just “It”. Fucking mind blowing, OMG, holy shit, wtf, how do you not get “It”?!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “It” is fucking insane, as in “How are you still breathing?...” that kind of “WTF”. I’ve explained “It”, numerous times, in complete detail, all “i’s” dotted, every “t” crossed, decimals to the “googleplex”, and it still escapes them. Yet, they still breath, manage to “function” (if even at the most basic level of “survival”). How, on Gods green Earth, do these mouth breathers make it through the night?!
... and then “Modern Science/Health Care”/Gov Assist/... “Social Wellf...”.
lospolloss · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Excel spreadsheets.
dittybop1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How completely healthy people get terminal cancer
MattyDub89 · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Supposedly, if we took out all the blood vessels in the average human body and laid them end to end individually, they'd cover about 60,000 miles...similarly, our lungs are said to have over 1500 miles worth of airways in them. I understand how tiny blood vessels (and bronchioles) can get, but still...it's almost incomprehensible that the numbers are that high for something that is stored in the human body.
EatMyShortStories · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That blind people don't see blackness. They see nothing. I once had it explained to me like this: Imagine what's directly behind you. You know there's stuff there, you just can't see it and you don't know what it looks like. That's what blind people 'see'.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do your fingers see when you put your hands behind your back?
SpudsBuckly · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Deluded liberal idiots.
PuppySOS · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why 'band kids' always argue about what instrument is the best.
murkfury · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. It has taken me 20 years of thought to conclude there are people that are completely alien to me. Completely indecipherable. Of course, a serial psychotic like Ed Gein (think Leatherface/Texas Chainsaw Massacre) is going to strain the mind to understand his mental clockwork but I’ve come to accept that much much more benign and albeit normal average humans are absolutely foreign to me. Now I’ve discovered if that says more about me or them. Thoughts?
tmoneyxx · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fox News viewers. Da fuq is wrong with them.
Pervinator6 · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Difference between Present perfect tense and Simple past tense, English does not make any sense in many ways to foreigner. (I am Czech guy living in Canada for couple of years, but this thing sets my brain on fire)
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They are talking about different points in time.
Present perfect tense is talking about a duration of time up to and including the present.
Simple past tense is talking about something that is already over with.
Pervinator6 · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I get this part hypoteticaly, put if we put it in conversations, it does not make much sense to me, in Czech we have only past, present and future, nothing else. So Perfect simple, perfect, continuous etc. Is hard to put in my head and do flawless conversations
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do you say how long you have been doing something in Czech?
Pervinator6 · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I would say: I did something, its in the past. Technicaly it has happened before but has nothing to do with present (only perfect past).
gauxsyd · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
xenophobia
averyconfusedperson · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why math is so hard
datrandomduggy · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why at night when I am trying to sleep my brain is just like this seems like the perfect time to complcate the essence of life
_14justice · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The American Electorate.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do we smell something
VOODOOGLOWSTICK · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife
BrostFyte · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I Genuinely don't understand how people can so easily be 2 faced. In front of you they're one person, but behind your back in the presence of another they will trash your name and everything you stand for.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking math classes, it seems that the fucking core concepts change in every version of math and what works before is incorrect now
Picax8398 · 1 points · Posted at 04:21:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who brush their teeth in the shower
mathewh · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is a section of the city I live in, a stretch of street (it's a major street) that runs north/south. Super easy. I can not for the life of me recall where it starts or ends, any businesses on the street, where the other major streets cross it, or where to turn off it to turn onto my friend's side street until I'm actually on it. Once I'm driving down it I'm g2g. But I can't fathom it's route or layout any other time. I've lived in this city for about 20 years.
Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 07:06:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain maps are useless out of context. I know how to get to certain places from certain places, but can’t plan my route or join any of my maps together if I need to go between two places I wouldn’t usually travel between
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreaming, why do I do it? Do I need to? Can they mean anything? Why is it I’ve had dreams of events of the future that have come true? Though they are small events, is my dreaming just a calculation of possibility? If dreaming is possible and anything is possible in the universe, have i dreamed of something that has already happened? Is time linear? Is our universe just some donut of time and Space where the center is everything and the out side is nothing with us being the possibility in the center?
It’s 12:22am
MyJohnFM · 1 points · Posted at 04:22:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So many things. Just one I asked myself yesterday. What does aftershave do?
KhangoForest · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Compound interest. ELI5
Kevsterific · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of the economy.
brittanyh1012 · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What our universe is expanding into. What was there before the Big Bang.
violet0709 · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do stoichiometry. Fuck that shit.
Hessssel · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
chemistry, the passing of time
JSloan311 · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How trump is still in fucking office.
moogiepea · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fractions.
WakeWriteWander · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we pay for land.
Why some jobs essentially boil down to being paid to sit at a desk for hours after the actual work is complete.
Government that can’t provide basic necessities to be a productive member of society.
Marmite on toast.
kaden1537 · 1 points · Posted at 04:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why bad things always happen to good people.
ballrus_walsack · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do I even?
brazenwildhoney · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people manage to learn -and converse, in more than one language.
I loved the idea of learning other languages than my own, I took French when I went to secondary school (aged 11 for those who are not from the UK!) and I really really wanted it to work! It was another 5 years of lessons and 4 separate French teachers in that time before we were able to drop it, I scraped a C but only because the exams were pretty predictable and if you were prepared to learn photographic-memory style *raises hand!* it was possible to just about scrape through. Most of my class were As and Bs and all of my other exams were A*-B; Art, Maths, Music...etc but not French :( I still wish I had the ability, it wasn't for want of trying, I just didn't get it. Not with French or any other language :(
What really impresses me though is when you find little kids who are like 4 or 5 and fully bi or tri-lingual and able to converse and often translate so that mummy can understand what the teacher/Doctor/etc has said. Blows my mind! Then they go study something else altogether because they loved something else far more. Amazing skills they seem to have taken for granted. I wish I had a fraction of those skills!
PapaColapa · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Bill O’Brien is the way he is.
thuy_chan · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Option trading. I get buy puts if u wanna make money on a stock going down and buy calls for a rising stock but how does holding an option make you money? Especially for puts.
ezt93 · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness.. I understand that we are a complex organisms made of atoms and billions of year of evolution. But I can't understand why we are conscious of ourselves and have "freewill"
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do any quadratic equations
OOO-OReilly · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our propensity to make decisions that could potentially destroy our life. I.e. making choices to be with certain friends or selecting a partner that we know only causes chaos within us, or using a substance that we know will harm us, yet we do so anyway.
greatnesdbyamu · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriends love for soccer
papichuloswag · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my gets hard in the morning.
n0tjohnlocke · 1 points · Posted at 04:24:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The school system (only certain aspects)
VirgingerBrown · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of the movie Mothman Prophecies, I saw it twice but so stoned both times. I understood not one second! Haha
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why so many people are rude, selfish assholes.
shewantstheJD · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How airplanes fly and how ships float on water. I read up on it, but I just can’t wrap my mind around it. Lol.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let's start with air bubbles in water. The water is denser (heavier for the same volume) than the air, so the water above the air bubble falls down around the air bubble, displacing it, causing the bubble to rise.
Water is also denser than ships, so the ship cannot displace enough water to sink much like the air bubble can't.
The shape of the wings of airplanes combined with the speed causes higher air pressure under the wing and lower air pressure above the wing causing lift.
research-addict · 1 points · Posted at 04:25:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I realize that. Dear
TigerTrue · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Reading music. Why my husband left me and why my best friend betrayed my trust and had an affair with my husband.
10 years have passed, and he died, but I still don't know what I did wrong, or what was so wrong with me that they did this.
muffinmane19 · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Bassman150 · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people treat celebrities and politicians like idols. They are just people
Lewinskytonguetactic · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions. Never got them. In school I had barely enough of a grasp to pass the section
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 04:56:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Give an example of what confuses you about them. I will explain.
Lewinskytonguetactic · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the major thing was I never understood finding the lowest common denominator.
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 05:51:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take 2/3 and 5/6
If I wanted to add them, I have to make it so their denomenators (bottom numbers) are the same.
Looking at 2/3 I see the denominator is 3 and I can turn it into a 6 if I multiply it by 2.
But I don't want to actually change the quantity that 2/3 represents so I also have to multiple the numerator (top number) by 2.
In other words, I am performing 2/2 * 2/3. 2/2 is another way of saying 1 because any numbet divided by itself is 1, and 1 multiplied by any number is that number. That is why the quantity is not changed. 2/2 * 2/3 is the same as 1 * 2/3
But it makes it look different. 2/2 * 2/3 = 4/6
4/6 and 2/3 represent the same quantity, just like 4 quarters and 1 dollar do.
So I have managed to represent 2/3 in a way that gives me a denominator of 6.
That is actually the lowest number I can get the denominators to have in common.
I can now perform 2/3 + 5/6 = 4/6 + 5/6 = 9/6. That can be reduced but I will leave it.
A trickier one.
1/3 and 1/5
I can't find an integer that makes a 3 a 5 or a 5 a 3 but multiply the denominators together will give me 15.
Or rather, following the previous method, 5/5 * 1/3 and 3/3 * 1/5 gives me 5/15 and 3/15
5/15 is another way of representing 1/3 and 3/15 is another way of representing 1/5
15 is the lowest number I could make the denominators have in common.
Lewinskytonguetactic · 2 points · Posted at 05:57:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You are a saint
Shameless_Voices · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social norms and such. I have brain damage due to a birth defect, I'm lucky to have overcome as much as I have. But I'm socially retarded and need rules explained to me in painful detail. Basically autistic symptoms without the autism. I've learned certain forms of sarcasm and can sorta indentify it now, but social behaviours still perplex me despite knowing the basic guidelines.
Another aspect of social behaviour that confuses me is how people can understand words. How does everyone not just hear it as a bunch of nonsense sounds that require internal translation? My approach to combating that is to memorise as many words as I can, such as spelling, meaning, contextual usage, and grammar rules. It helps, but if I'm not actively focused on what you're saying, you may as well be making velociraptor noises at me.
Imagine this. Random person: dirka dirka dirka Me: you want me to shoot little Timmy? Random person (active focus engaged): no, i asked you to turn the kettle on... Me: oh, why didn't you say so?
SumiraBee · 1 points · Posted at 04:26:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot understand how both good, and bad, can exist in someone. If I find out something bad about a person, I automatically think they are all bad.
This isn't entirely my fault. I have borderline personality disorder, and that is one of the symptoms. Unfortunately, this has led me along a lonely path.
White-Obama231 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I always wonder to myself whenever i walk home how language was created and how people were able to decide what was what in a different fucking language like wtf??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm having such a tough time answering this question.
tawnyheadwrangler · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The allure of video games & gambling. I get that other people like or are addicted, but personally genuinely feel nothing compelling about the activities.
Nikhiljain195 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between amps, volts and Watts.
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 04:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
On Earth, the higher from the ground an object is ,(assuming the pull of gravity is constant...it isn't really but we can ignore this) the more potential energy it has. For example, a ball on top of a 100ft building has more potential energy than a ball on top of a 50ft building. Drop the ball off the building and the potential energy is converted to kinetic energy. The ball dropped from the 100ft building will hit the ground with more kinetic energy than the ball dropped from the 50ft building, meaning it will be going faster at impact.
Voltage is the electrical version of potential energy and the "balls" are electrons.
Amperage is the unit of current...the flow of electrons. It's like velocity but instead of distance per unit time, it's charge per unit time. More specifically coulombs per second.
Watts is energy per unit tome, more specifically joules per second. It's better known as power. It's the amount of work done in a period of time.
rationaltreasure2 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a CPU actually work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans and their fascination with guns.
Sarahw17 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't understand "stay at home"!
Stealthninja3 · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How generators work. Like ik that mechanical energy is transformed into electrical energy, but how exactly?
Memepower272 · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is my understanding
The generator rotor has a magnet surrounded by coiled wire. The magnetic field is created by unpaired electrons in the magnet, which have small repulsive forces against other electrons. All the small fields in the magnet create a larger field capable of repulsing electrons in the wire coil as it spins. The flow of electrons in the wire moves electrical energy down the line so it can be used somewhere else.
Stealthninja3 · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
ReelTxLegend · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I have to think about shit that nobody knows that I've done but me, Do I tell anybody or do I keep this, All to myself for the rest of my fucking life.
PryingJewel · 1 points · Posted at 04:27:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That one picture of 2 guys holding an S while infront of a church sign. I never understood it
darko215 · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the Universe began. Even if there was a Big Bang then what created that to happen? Not talking religion or anything else but how did the first piece of matter begin??
the1xtina · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How cryptocurrency can be mined or created somehow
Behlial1992 · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gwent
Charlaradon_1500 · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A man who wants to synergize with a woman and show his intentions by doing things(trying to be handy, ) and being conventionally traditional about courting, while expressing emotionality, sexual appeal and desire is seen as creepy, incel-ish, and toxic; especially if he is either a social late bloomer or not up to societal standards.
A man who is openly brash, bluntly objective about relations with the opposite sex and has a more selfish drive is seen as real because he was "honest about his intentions from the get go."
While there is truth under most things, and no one is perfect, This mindset is the most absurd thing I have heard and seen. You reject the very thing you say can be potentially ideal because you want to poke holes in it's contradictions, but you ignore all of the skin rips in the ladder because it wasn't trying to hide them. Nonsense imo.
Veggiedelite90 · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck trump got elected
mustangg81 · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women stupidity
seaweedo · 1 points · Posted at 04:28:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
Rurik8 · 1 points · Posted at 04:30:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
ZoranGT · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nothing. As in, what is nothing. What does nothing look like. Feel like. Smell like. The simple answer is nothing, but what is nothing.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My brain can’t comprehend the fact that blind people just see nothing, not black. If I can’t see anything, I mean everything is black. But to see actual nothing, to not see, just, what?!
Longanjelly · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematical Logarithms. They scare me till today.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:42:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people got "buy every medical supply that people on the front lines, like medical workers, first responders, and grocery workers, need and use them incorrectly" out of "wash your hands and don't touch your face"
bobrossismycat · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to play poker
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where universe ends, and if it ends whats behind it? Like how something can be infinite, I cant visualize volume that has no other volume storing it...
Luis19062000 · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
English is difficult! 😰
cassidilly · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I scare myself when I start thinking about outer space. How we are on one sphere, floating around a fireball sphere, with a bunch other spheres? With potentially endless amounts of black space, filled with even bigger fireballs and bigger spheres AND BIGGER GALAXIES? Life is really just like Horton Hears a Who, and we're all on a speck, within a speck, within a speck. We could be a piece of dust?!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why bean farts feel so good
Precutodogg · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get how the fuck fossil fuels work
Memepower272 · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically fossil fuels are organic matter that has been left to decompose over time and break down into simpler molecules. This organic matter is primarily made up of Carbon, Oxygen, and Hydrogen, which will take a multitude of forms as it decomposes, which are different variants of fossil fuels. In a combustion reaction, the fossil fuels will break into mostly Carbon Dioxide and Water. As the bonds in the fossil fuels are broken to make these products, small bits of energy are released that were previously being used to hold the atoms together.
This energy then heats up water to form steam which then turns a turbine rotor. This rotor is attached to a magnet inside an coil of wire. The magnetic field exists because of unpaired electrons in the magnet, leading to a slight attraction or repulsion of other electrons around each atom. These repulsiones move electrons in the wire coil, thereby creating electric flow in the wires which can then be transported elsewhere for use.
Hope this helps explain a bit!
aRandomMemes · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry, I can't understand anything no matter what explanation you gave. I always fail on that subject but I love science tho
DemiBlu · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people hoard toilet paper
geoslayer1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:43:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trumpers,
none150 · 1 points · Posted at 04:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
dustyholland · 1 points · Posted at 04:45:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how some people can visualize things so well in their head. I can see mental images, but very, very faintly. It’s detailed, but fuzzy and it’s hard to keep there. I have a huge imagination and I just wish I could close my eyes and see clearly what I want to see!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 05:34:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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dustyholland · 1 points · Posted at 06:14:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I am. I see images when I read. When I just close my eyes and imagine, it’s like the images are very far away, if that makes sense. I hope that there is a way to change that.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:34:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I read something about this recently and there are people who completely lack the ability to create a picture in their mind
jazzyxx22 · 1 points · Posted at 04:45:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Entropy makes no sense to me lol
aethelwulfTO · 1 points · Posted at 04:45:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people in the USA can be so stupid.
cocoa-cherry · 1 points · Posted at 04:45:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we HAVE to made good first impression to new people, as if we dress all dark and people will think you’re a killer or something, why don’t you think they LIKED it?
Iced_Road · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
"Vaccines cause autism"
Where the fuck did this come from? I literally cannot figure out how people came to this conclusion. The weakened virus in a vaccine does not just say "nice place" and waltz right into someone's brain and whoopsies! Now you have autism. A lifelong mental disorder isn't caused by an injection designed to make your body a little bit more resilient to a stronger virus you might eventually come across.
Another thing, how in the flying fuck did people go with it? How the hell did someone think "Yeah this sounds right with literally NO reliable sources or any way to prove it"? The virus you're getting vaccinated against has literally zero connections with autism, but just because someone said so, you're willing to put your own fucking child under risk of a dangerous virus if left untreated? What will you do, scare it off with disinfectant and aloe vera?!
Sorry for this absurdly long rant but people like this just really piss me off. Remember your vaccinations kids.
Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 05:28:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A British doctor wrote a paper stating that the MMR vaccine caused autism. He has since admitted fabricating results and has been struck off and banned from practising medicine in the UK.
IIRC, he was trying to produce his own single vaccines to replace the triple MMR and was also paid to write the paper for some class action lawsuit.
I think he now gives talks at anti-vaxx meetings, but how anybody believes anything he says is utterly beyond me.
I can’t remember his name, but if you search for MMR vaccine autism paper, you should be able to find something
Iced_Road · 2 points · Posted at 05:49:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, that actually explains a lot. I still can't believe how quickly and firmly it started to branch out though. Thank you.
RealKingMcQueen · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trauma
ight42069 · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point
andymundo · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People with natural sports ability. You know, can run 5km no sweat, balance on a beam, throw and catch, pick up skiing or skating in an instant. I struggle with sports and balance yet I see so many who take it for granted.
breakoffzone · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me it’s definitely death. When I die am I just gonna stop thinking? Or is there some kind of outlet our brains do it’s fucking weird considering I don’t remember the past 14 billlion years yet here I am.
melbell1234567 · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The movie interstellar and I'm too embarrassed to keep asking people.
thewatchelorette · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok.
H8threeH8three · 1 points · Posted at 04:46:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why h3h3 continues to censor anyone on reddit that speaks out negatively.
mexicanboi69420 · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does nobody love me
jlJJO · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
astoneta · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music composition
2478Musskrat · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lying. I mean obviously people do it because it benefits them. They lie to avoid accountability, responsibility... they lie to hide things, to get away with things. They lie to get what they want and cast off what they don’t. Typically people assume they’ve gotten away with it. Some people flaunt in duper’s delight knowing full they haven’t. Nothing can be resolved, reconciled or healed when people lie to themselves or others. There’s always collateral damage and the truth always comes out.
baneaxe · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I exist
Pingu-onACiD · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
FunkyWaffleWanker · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money, banks, taxes, insurance, ect
5352563424 · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The gap between logic tables/binary numbers and making code. And then, representing those things with resistors, diodes, fluxcapacitors, etc.
mary_widdow · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
A_Redder_Tophat · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell, someone on this Earth had the highly intelligent idea, of eating, a fucking, bat.
TheGreatPhoebe · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Bernie wasn’t the nominee. Now we have to chose between two sex offenders to lead our country.
wwiibuff44 · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Alright, somone gonna tell me how the fuck they started programming computers. Now you can open the computer and write a program and up it on the files, but how do you create an operating system? Seriously what is this black magic fuckery?
teabagz1991 · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how conciousness arises
NICKwestTECH · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
abigaiher · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nsfw ish not really its a stretch.
Sexual Attraction
Maybe its because I'm young or just plain ol uninterested, I've never understood one's need for sex or how one's appearance can make someone act as a clown all for sex. It's extremely baffling and sometimes funny lol.
H1rose · 1 points · Posted at 04:48:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who the fuck shot Johnny Joestar? Is it the President, Wekapipo, Diego?
1728tc · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Matrix
YesImTakingADump · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. I read a book on Einstein that goes into detail on special relativity and gave a lot of thought experiment examples on time dilation. Seemed fascinating but I couldn’t quite understand it. Read some articles and watched about a dozen YouTube videos explaining time dilation. Still can’t wrap my mind around it.
Dongusarus · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How countries go bankrupt. Like it's just too big to fathom for example a few years ago it was like Greece is going bankrupt. OK how does this work it's not like a house or business asset and the bank or other country with most owed by Greece can just take it and sell or own the WHOLE COUNTRY... or can they?
Tamarasgotjuice · 1 points · Posted at 04:49:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the alphabet and Roman numerals came to be and how math was invented. Blows my mind to think that someone one day said "This is A and this is what it looks like"
m_qasem · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economy and finance terms
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
money laundering. its not a complicated concept, but my brain just CANT. been watching “ozark” and ive asked my husband for clarification so many times, he is completely bewildered
KH3HasNoHeart · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia.
itbayly · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
King0Horse · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Political tribalism.
"My team is better than your team because they're closer to how I see the world and how I think the world should be!"
I get that part.
"My team is better-therefore your team is 'objectively' stupid, evil, completely insane, worthy of some sort of eradication!"
Yeah, I...I don't fucking get that. Like, at all.
Jotaro_Kirigaya · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Half life decay of a radioactive atom
goscottygoscooty · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Health insurance/billing
Monster_NotWar · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How insurance works. I've had it explained to me in every way possible, and I still don't understand how it works or what I'm paying for.
triptaker · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution/adaptation. In college they teach you that Lamarck didn't understand natural selection, because he thought parents passed on traits that they used a lot. Like if you worked out a bunch your kid would be stronger and there was a giraffe example too somewhere, but they said he was wrong and I get the basic ways traits are passed on, mutation, gene flow---but I still have a hunch Lamarck was a little right in some way...
GordonLambsay · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Aphantasia, if you don’t have it you can’t picture it
konkeydong7 · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My boyfriend is a senior software engineer. I'm also an engineer and can usually grasp concepts pretty well but I have no idea what the fuck he's talking about when he's venting about work lol.
UnevenTableLeg · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where Christian Bales character in the movie The Big Short put all of the money to "bet against the Housing Market" and how he made them so much money from it.
vcr_repair_shop · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry. And I'm not sure why. I was always decent at physics and math, and I did great in biology, but chemistry? You might as well be talking in a different language to me. I really tried to study and understand during my chemistry classes, but I genuinely couldn't grasp even the simplest concepts. I barely passed with minimal required grades and am totally useless at it to this day.
RubberDuckHuh · 1 points · Posted at 04:51:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand how make up contouring works. It's like magic.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Work
iceup17 · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cheating, if you can't be happy with someone just suck it up and leave theres no need to destroy another perfectly good human for your selfishness
SoundsCrunchy · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Question
getoutlindsxy · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone else can look at another person with a different skin color and believe that person is inferior to themself because of skin color only. Idk I try my best to understand people’s POV on most things but this one is impossible to me.
ChemistryForFun · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that actually think the Government spends the time and the money for WHATEVER FUCKING REASON to convince us that the Earth is a sphere. If the Earth were flat, why the hell would they go through all that effort and money to make us believe otherwise? I just don’t get it. No Flat-Earther has been able to answer that question reasonably for me.
nhphotog · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like trump
smbower17 · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
adamcoolforever · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of the things I interact with every day. Which is pretty nuts.
liIboyy · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This
CookieCutter98 · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks
sixtysecondslife · 1 points · Posted at 04:53:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Patience
dudlers95 · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans
Huffalumpbump · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
-golb- · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The expansion of the universe/spacetime. I just feel defeated.
_Vance_V · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my younger sister gets everything she wants when she act spoiled enough. I get my phone for an hour very day. I ask my parents why i cannot get my phone for longer. They said it will hurt my eyes. They gave my sister who is four years younger than me and they don't complain that it will hurt her eyes.
LaurenAngelique · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand time travel.
Alidesidero123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:42:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oof, Ill try to explain.
So, going back in time... not possible.
Going forward in time would be possible by freezing a human in a way that the cells dont lose their integrity, and let them sleep there until they wake up years later, in a different world. This w the current tech isnt possible. But when we find a way to do this, space travel will not be an issue, at least for the astronauts.
Hope I could explain it!
Ya_Boi_Hank · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the ACTUAL FUCK do mukbangs exist!?!?!?!?! Which deranged fucking lunatic thought to themselves "yeah this sounds pleasing." Just looking at the word pisses me off at how completely nonsensical it is.
sivanitesh · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers
wumomaster · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is still the president of US of A
thinkingmagic · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Blockchain works
Arcaneshdo · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnetism still melts my brain no matter how many time I try to learn about it. How one piece of metal really wants to be near its little metal buddy, but only one side, you show me the other side and I’m heading out. Craziness.
ColinCasey9 · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand religion, but it's always been crazy to me how widely adopted it is. I'm 18 and I have a hard time putting faith into such wild ideas and concepts with little proof especially when there are so many different religions and branches of those religions. I would've thought that by now with how connected everybody is in the world, most people would move away from religion, but it's still such a large part of life for so many people.
UnholyPeanuts · 1 points · Posted at 04:55:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://youtu.be/rGIY5Vyj4YM
How Americans are not rioting at the shitshow that is Trump's America. Our Australian Government is corrupt too, sure but nowhere near on the scale Trump and his goons are.
ClassicSP-01 · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can be great at meeting and talking to people, but when I’m walking past someone and they say, for instance, “I like those shoes man,” I just grin while violently nodding my head and say something along the lines of “hahoughthanksivehadthem” and then walk away.
highhopesgettinglow · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Photography and videography. I don’t understand how a scene from real life can be captured forever. I’ve tried to look it up and know it has something to do with light, but I just can’t wrap my head around it.
notinaboat · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drawing from different perspectives
chunkair · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time. It genuinely upsets me as a person.
StriderHiryoo · 1 points · Posted at 04:56:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. Whats in the guy that they like about. 😭
QueenLexi13 · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can love someone one day, and the next day the love is entirely gone...
boolpies · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electricity works, like wtf is being grounded? Is it a good thing? How the hell should I know?
Protox__ · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
1sgweb · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Taylormaytor · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Depressioncito · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. I want to get into them, but have no clue how to even start
Caturn187 · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought processes of some people...............
Ocollatus · 1 points · Posted at 04:57:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.. I just don't get it..
IRISHBAMF210 · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone could ask a sh1t question such as this and get more than 100 up votes.
user_28531690 · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistics. Took the class but NEVER got it!
Pochiii1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so stupid sometimes(all the time)
Devenery · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Hụi", a community piggy bank thing that benefits everyone in the group. And you take turns to use the money and return it.
inosebest · 1 points · Posted at 04:58:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If an instant is motionless, and life is made of of instances, then motion is impossible and just an illusion...
the_wild-one · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've got a damn good one...STUPID PEOPLE! Ok, stick with me here and I'll explain. You learn new things by studying yeah? Physics, driving, yoyo skills, knowledge about certain subjects, you all learn by reading and trying yeah? Well why the fuck don't all people do this? Why are there STILL people out there who are incapable of getting off of Instagram or wte and learn what they're asking others to do? Or are not understanding.
This feeling has genuinely led me to feel extremely lonely in the world because I'm a mega geek, like Sheldon Cooper level of geek and it's hard being this smart 😔😔
jackostpf · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Forcefieldofstank · 2 points · Posted at 05:00:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same, my dude. I legit just left those blank on tests
andhowareyou · 1 points · Posted at 04:59:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can abuse defenseless animals. I just don’t understand how anyone can look into the eyes of a helpless soul and decide to mistreat it in any way.
michan1998 · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Peoples’ different personalities. Like how can we think so differently?
StrongNthearm · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still root for Trump
JesusMadeMeKosher · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where my wife left her purse.
Chel_Out_Brah · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I mean seriously though.
Jenbu · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One night stands and probably Sex being such a big priority in someone's life.
There are way too many dangers with a one night stand for both sexes. It's not worth it. Ever.
Vonqueque · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Theory of Relativity man what the fuck
thisisntajokeee · 1 points · Posted at 05:00:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin
willz0rz · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fax machines.
TayLoraNarRayya · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greek life, I will just never get it no matter how many times it's explained to me
mckickm · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to control my emotions
bromelianhc · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The actual science of how electricity works. Wave energy, electron flow, how does it work?
toxicityamped · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a paradox is
EdofBorg · 1 points · Posted at 05:01:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a problem with negative numbers. They have to have imaginary even roots but can have odd roots like -27s cube root is -3 but you can't have -9 square root without using an "i" yet the square root of 9 can be either 3 or -3.
And before AHoles start trying to teach me math. Forget it. You will never convince me negative numbers exist outside of math. So you will be wasting everyone's time.
DreamWarbler · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh yeah? Check out the USA’s budget: less taken in minus more going out equals LARGE NEGATIVE NUMBERS! 🤣
alldayswole · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can enjoy rap
nothing2live4 · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
christt28 · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I can speak 6 languages but can't do a math question.
Rojherick · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Joe Biden
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why certain Physics sites, based on homework for aspiring young minds continue Promoting "The Hubble Constant" when it is very commander obvious that space is not expanding at a constant rate because of how space is affected when mass displaces Gravity. They refuse to discuss it because it hasn't been proven, neither has the Hubble Constant.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moles in chemistry. I didn’t get them then, and I don’t get them now.
Golfguy809 · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options in stock market
Magnolia120 · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MagnificentClock · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tv show?
GothAnimeBoi · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some humans among this earth can out their milk before their cereal
Xenton · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As somebody with imposter syndrome: the Dunning-Krueger effect.
Spoken simply, the notion that stupid people are so stupid that they don't realise how stupid they are and hence overestimate their aptitude and ability.
As somebody who constantly doubts every action and conclusion I make, even when I do all the research I can manage, the idea that somebody who did no research can so vehemently believe they are right is alien to me.
rdweezy27 · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time zones. Like why are they so jagged and not straight/semi straight lines?
thesimple_dog · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
basically anything related to quantum physics. i watch a few videos and think "huh, that's pretty crazy" but then i realize that i really still don't get any of it
JobCentre · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Port forwarding or basically anything to do with internet
Gunnerld413 · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why she left me bro...
alter_rank · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Musical theory. I keep watching videos and lectures nothing really sticks
simitdoshi · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to put it in words. I mean I always try to go on social media and think about writing something to spread information or awareness but end up writing few words and that's the end. Can't write more, as you can see now I can't even explain it clearly what I mean.
beffyjoy1 · 1 points · Posted at 05:04:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How guys confidently go into bars with the absolute intention of hooking up with a woman.
GymnasticsThrowaway · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the hell can i play warzone perfectly yesterday and now i'm dropping frames out of nowhere
cojallison99 · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can people support and genuinely like people like James Charles?
ggcpres · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anarchism or libertariaism are supposed to work on a large scale. They seem to both need large amounts of buy-in to function on even the basic level.
finlshkd · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
According to string theory there are more than 3 dimensions. It makes sense to me that as you travel through time, you are simultaneously going in different conventional directions in different layers of the unconventional dimensions. But it just doesn't make sense to me that we can't properly observe these other dimensions anywhere as easily as the conventional 3. We sense things by interacting with the aftereffects of other things interacting. Why can't we interact with the aftereffects of other things interacting in another layer of an unconventional dimension. And what the hell did Klein mean with those unconventional dimensions being squeezed into too small a space for us to observe anyway?
RumpleForeskin0w0 · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how the tiny metal pin in a metering valve can open and close holding back 4000 psi without just snapping
SpeedR4cer89 · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to build genuine emotional connections with people that last and have meaning.
How to get buy in from people. Get people to actually trust you. On the topics that you really are worth trusting on.
anighttodismember · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why we regard murder as the worst possible crime yet punish it by executing those who commit it. why do we kill people for killing people? why is only that kind of killing justified?
Bubba421 · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does King Crimson work? Sure okay, he erases time, but what does that mean? How do you erase time but stuff still happens in it?
ifuckinglovechurros · 1 points · Posted at 05:06:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every electron can be the same electron.
CrowKit · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The topic of free will. In many religions they say you have free will but it just doesn’t make sense. Like in Christianity you technically have free will but if gad has a plan and already knows what you’re going to do is it really free will. Or with atheism. Yeah you have free will but what’s the point. It’s not like it really matters since it’s only social laws keeping you from doing morally right things. Even though I don’t understand it a friend straight up just told me “why does it matter” and I think it changed my whole perspective. So even tho I don’t understand it I don’t really care
kennystetson · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
blorkywallus · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell all that computer stuff comes from a green board with little black squares and metal string on it, and knows what image to make on my screen, which is a completely different piece of machinery.
plhearn1 · 1 points · Posted at 05:07:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit’s TOS
pennypancake · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cars. Anything with gears really. My brain just doesn’t compute.
King_Apathy_VIII · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really enjoy computer programming, like using algorithms to solve problems. But my technical vocabulary is very limited. If I look something up, like how a function works, I start going down a rabbit hole of "What does that even mean?" over certain words, then other words to describe those words, and so on. After a certain point, everything becomes too abstract.
jake4421 · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Solving non linear systems of equations in matlab.... homework sucks
Kiynz · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coding
tconwaystacy · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus or coding. I think I’m fairly smart but always gravitated towards english and history in school. I have some friends who are mathematicians and software engineering and every time they bring up their fields I think “welp, there’s an entire area of human experience I know literally nothing about.”
finlshkd · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transistors. Why does one depletion zone being removed suddenly allow charges to move across another?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a secret
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
princesseffoff · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mother.... and I'm 40 yrs old. It's as if she lives on another planet and the thought of giving me a ticket to tag along didn't even occur to her. All of her friends who fangirl over her got to at least fly coach.
darkregie · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people cheat. if you do not want to be committed to a relationship, then go. why stay when you just tie yourself down and hurt people.
i7933 · 1 points · Posted at 05:08:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol people
CowBoyBoy73 · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no clue how cameras work, no matter how much it’s explained to me I just don’t understand it
orange_katana · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still stand behind Trump. He has done so many terrible things, said so many terrible things, and just proves all the time he does not care about the American people. There are so many people who have listed of all the things he's done that are not good for our country. Baffles me.
freddy296 · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who wacth pornhub. Yes i am young and all but i still dont see it.
beeeeeg_yoshi · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hate behind Fortnite Instagram and tik tok
sashaxl · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe in God or gods
FullAppointment · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://gfycat.com/weecoordinatedbellsnake
davkes89 · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender paygap
DEEZLE13 · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Traffic lights
twango23 · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Road rage. Just chill out bra
KTom1634 · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebs Cycle and cellular respiration. No matter how many times I "learn" it, it just never sinks in. Yay for being a science major 🤷♀️🤦♀️
discontentia · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics. A mic preamps has an input transformer, op amp, and output transformer. All the preamp has to do is boost the signal to line level. Why have 3 different things to accomplish that one task?
KTom1634 · 1 points · Posted at 05:10:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Krebs Cycle and cellular respiration. No matter how many times I "learn" it, it just never sinks in. Yay for being a science major 🤷♀️🤦♀️
huntersswrld · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The entire CoD Zombies Storyline
jamesgent32 · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The thought process of an antivax parent
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How things become words. Like how do we know a car is a car and not a house.
yous_a_bech · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can be a Republican
Cj081807 · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why timmy took my chocolate milk during snack time
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How baseball works
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers actually work. Like I get it’s all cards and processors but idk what they really do.
seeasea · 1 points · Posted at 05:11:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How babies differentiate parts from whole. Like we teach kids body parts by pointing at them and saying it's name like "nose, chin, eyes" but then when you to teach "Mommy" you point to your chest or face, and expect the baby to figure out that "Mommy" doesn't mean "chest" or "cheeks"
pepperminthaloo · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
auss2287 · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I’m comfortable fixing most things in my house but when it comes to wires I’m clueless and scared.
rnierras · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, and anything about them
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people won’t let their guard down even though you’ve got them figured out...
outdodinusFrisshwoin · 1 points · Posted at 05:12:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Climate change deniers. Sooooooo much evidence pointing towards climate change and the evidence against it is either biased, taken out of context, and/or just flat out stupid
NG800 · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that you’re the main character in your life and everyone else is also the main character in their own lives.
General-Walrus · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
New_Axus · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hate myself but won't change.
New_Axus · 1 points · Posted at 05:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This all get buried so it's ok.
ajonesxoxo72 · 1 points · Posted at 05:13:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to set a flair on my username. HOW DO PEOPLE DO IT??????? Nobody can explain it to me :((
djbdb · 1 points · Posted at 05:14:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The game of Craps. I can watch it for an hour and i still don’t get it. It’s maddening.
DriftyDewdrop · 1 points · Posted at 05:14:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how record players/records produce sound
flopcus · 1 points · Posted at 05:14:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/all
audreyzoesch · 1 points · Posted at 05:14:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why relationships make me so fkn anxious
solepegasus94 · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
truealimthah · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How nice guys don't get all them hawk chicks?
sir_adam_XP · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Driving 😂
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:15:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Terms for moves in smash bros
usernames-suck- · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
willwarrenpeace · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
commonsenseulack · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
yeeyeet236 · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Social etiquette. Like at all.
Cynically_okay · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fucking LIFE.
Shield_Madulians · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jai Courtney
hollidaychh · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m 31 with a college degree and I don’t understand decimals at all.
LocalGae · 2 points · Posted at 05:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I vibe with that. I can’t do fractions but decimals make sense.
Emlerith · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This sounds facetious, but it’s a genuine struggle for me professionally and personally: that some people complain about a problem and DO NOT want you to offer them solutions; the only want to vent. I’m a very analytical and approach everything with an efficiency mindset. If something is broken or wrong, fix it or forget it and move on.
I’ve mentally accepted that while I can’t understand it, that it is still a valid emotional need of the person complaining, but man, I do not get it AT ALL.
LocalGae · 2 points · Posted at 05:24:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I wanna rant, but just need to get it out so I can work on fixing my problems myself. Its nice fixing something yourself. Id recommend just telling people that if they need help, you would love to offer it. That way they can’t take it as “I’m trying to fix you” and as “I’m trying to help you”
Emlerith · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a really great tip, thank you!
LocalGae · 2 points · Posted at 05:34:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No problem dude! Sometimes when you offer solutions to people, it makes the feel inadequate or insecure, like you think they couldn’t figure it out themselves. Sometimes its good just to listen and be there for people who are struggling(literally any struggle, power-tools to emotional hardships). :)
Nikker_Snikker · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The gender spectrum
WyattC5 · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infinite time before and after our deaths; how there was 14.8 billion years before me and probably that many more after me. Just all that time that you will never witness, how we will only just ever see blips of the grand scheme of the universe, like how we will never get to experience what it was like 68 million years ago or 68 million years into the future. The universe will go on as time goes on, people might go on as well, but we will never know. Once we are done life will be like what it was before you were ever born, infinite nothingness, how we have the privilege, yet burden of knowing what has and will come, the inevitable nothingness. I feel like people get a glimpse of this when we sleep, the nothingness; what if sleep is our way of preparing for death, for the nothingness of what was before us. How so many lifetimes and spectacular events happened while you never existed. Its like everything and nothing happened before us, and will after us. The depressing, yet exciting reality of knowing that everything will be like before you were born; everything, and nothing. How there was a 1 in a billion chance that none of this would have happened hadn't you not have been born. I wonder if the short 80 years of life is worth it knowing that billions of years have been before and will be after you. The incredible advancements in humanity, or the incredible destruction. Damn, that question got me thinking to much. One more thing that I don't understand tho, who makes those little knick knacks that cost like a nickel. One more thing, how does the karma system work?
GladiatorMainOP · 1 points · Posted at 05:17:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do TVs make that weird sound when they turn on? Kinda like how people describe tinnitus
Spants23 · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foid quartz diamond graphs
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Society
johnnyle530 · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand our whole US government system. We have the president, supreme court and other branches just to look at sign bills. Why on earth do we need so many branches when we have a president that can do all that?
LocalGae · 2 points · Posted at 05:21:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So the president can’t just do whatever and become a dictator.
johnnyle530 · 1 points · Posted at 08:30:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Actually I see the point now.
Hughtone · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fire is hot
KavinduGimhan · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prescriptions
SeanGotGjally · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Destiny’s developers, Bungie, claiming they don’t want the core PVP mode they’ve been working on for months now (after being on hiatus for over a year!) to “go out half baked.” The community, before and after all things could be done with the mode, agreed in unison that it was beyond less than half baked. How does this happen?
thessabsurd · 1 points · Posted at 05:19:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thermostats
LocalGae · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sexual attraction works. I don’t feel it, never have. I’m 18 now and have never understood it. Like sure, I bet it feels great but how does yalls brain pick people? ¯_(‘-‘)_/¯
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans, enough said.
Archibald_Meatpants_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:20:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space just... all of space.
Banananan9999 · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
maffems · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man!
12345burrito · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get the appeal of food trucks. Usually they are overpriced and a lot of time you end up having to stand up while eating.
tstols17 · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly, quantum physics. Not the super high level math of it, I’m talking the conceptual basis of it. Blows my fucking mind.
Ree_The_Cale · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad left😭
McCIoud · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets, I understand that it's a magnetic field and north an south poles attract. But what exactly creates the magnetic field and maintains it?
Maggeek · 1 points · Posted at 05:21:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between affect and effect even though I've googled it 1 million times.
O_OGee · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wind
PotatoSaladPhew · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of movement
How are our muscles able to move us and our objects in any space what so ever. I completely understand the concept of them balancing out and that two alway work together but it still doesn’t answer how in the given space we’re able to lift and move our arms to a different position.
I know I sound weird and maybe I haven’t explained it correctly but, yeah worth a try.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
camcake15 · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
The_Artful_Doja · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Circumcision
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
healthytuna33 · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the point of addiction to things that will kill you?
DotFaceTheGreat · 1 points · Posted at 05:22:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck Emperor Crimson works
ItsRainingRupees · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How intense, consistent and determined my brain can be at attacking itself yet show great difficulty in trying to get done simple tasks.
trashcanari · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we know when something smells like strawberry when real strawberries have no scent
Makjets · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modern Art
mannhayzz · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
posting selfies
dinomelia · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people chose to have 4+ kids.
Ashketchup_151 · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prose, just prose
InsdTheScrn · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If matter is not created nor destroyed? Then where tf did it come from
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans can vote for a President that has no experience, married 3 times, with 3 families of children by different mothers, and is psychologically disturbed? No really, I need to know. This is not a joke. His latest lies with the corona virus, still people fall for his crsp.
TabioTabio · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand Donald Trump. I really don’t understand how someone could be so selfish and heartless.
Limemaster_201 · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time, especially that twin one where one of them younger than the other in space. I get its the curve and stuff but it does not compute.
aprition · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ow abortion isn't murder
FearkTM · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
1 kilogram of steel says to be same amount of weight as 1 kilogram of feathers. But in a practical situation it cant be true.
kafengvarako · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to do academic research.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The use of the word irony. It has so many definitions and yet every time I try to understand them and their contextual uses I just wind up getting mixed up and all of it gets dumped. For someone who is, if I may say so, quite decent at English, this one mindbogglingly continues to elude me.
Gim3z · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Deltax23 · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Metal gear solid lore
cocaineskittles · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How threads like this, that any Average Joe could’ve posted, gets a crap ton of awards.
smilbandit · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so the covid19 virus is killing people by thickening the wall that oxygen normally passes into the blood through, so it can't pass any longer and your organs don't get oxygen.
why does that effect obease people more?
eggs_are_me · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The japanese languege. I havent learned it yet.
adjgbole · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who have no healthcare insurance vote for people who want to ensure that they never get healthcare insurance, or people whose sole retirement source is social security vote for people who want to weaken it, or how people who are working two jobs to try and make ends meet vote for people who want to keep their wages artificially low while the person they work for has so much money that they literally have nothing better to spend it on than rockets.
kaijuknight · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The evolutipn process on earth and the enormus range of different animals and how they come about today
Lord_Of_Hell151 · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
10000000000000000006 · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why fishes never get thirsty
Frater_Green_Genes · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Joe Biden is the Democratic Presidential Nominee. How?
SpicymeLLoN · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I realize it's a very broad net to cast, but in general, art.
notshinytinfoil · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
what happens after death
LasVegasRaiders2020 · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
SuperiorKnight · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seriously don’t understand all the fucking polls/surveys/ what have you, that asked 100 people and then put it out there saying 71% of this country thinks this. Like how the fuck... even if you did 1000, if there is 300 fucking million in the country and tf is 1000 people. Or even 100,000. It blows my mind.
BucketOfTicks · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tensors, eigenvalues, and eigenvectors. Working out pretty well for me so far...
fusuck · 1 points · Posted at 05:26:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crypto
Babboos · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Trump is still in office.
King_Jake239 · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there can be over 50 shows on HGTV that are all basically the same show with different names, and people still watch them
Ozzyboi166 · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Renegade-VII · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space, there’s gotta be some point where it ends or something different happens
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:27:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Rule of Perpetuities
SelfRape · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Fallawake88 · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
4-D Geometry
melvinthefish · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does hair on different parts of your body know it's the right length to stop growing? if you cut an arm hair it will somehow know it was cut and know when it has grown back to the normal length and then stop growing. Head hair doesnt really stop growing, maybe after a very long time.
But an eyebrow hair or leg hair will not only know it was trimmed but somehow know when it has grown back to the correct length. It blows my mind.
Nomadic_Photography · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
On a real level? Hating people for things that people have no control over. Like racism and shit. On a weirder level, evolutionary mutation. Organisms "randomly" knowing exactly what aspect to mutate for the next generation of the organism to help it survive. Though I suppose that's more the human limitation into understanding exponentials and even the things we create ourselves naturally, like time. Been around forever but so far all we really know about time is that it is relative to our own position within space. Gravity be weird too.
furrycockmusclebig · 1 points · Posted at 05:28:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people claim that they have 50 different thoughts at the same time.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
American football. I don’t understand the rules no matter how many times they are explained to me, and as an American, that’s pretty unacceptable
GorillaTr0n · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What e=mc2
MrPolymath_ · 2 points · Posted at 05:56:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Engineer not a physicist, But in the most basic terms the energy that is contained in some arbitrary amount of mater is equivalent to the mass of that object multiplied by the speed that light travels in a vacuum squared
GorillaTr0n · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you that’s actually made more sense than I’ve ever seen
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
:)
myths2389 · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't people just get along.
macster71 · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do fans make a room colder? Don't they just add kinetic energy to the room, making it hotter?
Knightowle · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of nothingness or the null set.
I can comprehend infinity as a concept, but I cannot get my head around non-existence; even in the most abstract sense.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sympathy/empathy, especially for people you don't know.
I would freak out if something happened to my son or wife, but every time I hear about a mass shooting, or even all these recent covid deaths, I just feel absolutely nothing about it.
I also don't understand religion but I've just given up on that argument.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how cameras can capture images, review videos and live stream thingsz
Dr4g0n__Kn1ght · 1 points · Posted at 05:29:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does music go from data on my phone to actual sound?
jclar50 · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
solthereup · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Photography. F stop, apature, iso. Confusing for me to decided which is best a what moment I’m trying to capture. And I am a videographer also! Lol. It’s funny cause my photographer friend doesn’t understand video. So we try to explain to each other how to Better understand it and we still feel clueless. 😂
justthrowmeaway778 · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
MsSharingIsFun · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am what’s called a “sun sneezer”, meaning often I sneeze when I look up into bright light. The other night I felt right on the edge of a sneeze and suddenly thought to look up and imagine the light of the sun above me. It made me sneeze. Or, I sneezed and just thought it made me sneeze. I have no idea how it would work. I genuinely do not understand
Kat_ri · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
darkredwing · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
avidsdead · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where is the clit. I've fucked like 10 girls now and still dont nkow wheres the fucking clit
Preistophile · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makeup, why the fuck would people ever wear it
MJCampillo · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
thebobrup · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything about politics or ?
MJCampillo · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Generally, yes. I live in Australia, so I believe that politics are not such a passionate/sensitive subject as it may be in the US. Most, of not ALL, people I know do not have a strong opinion about which political party they believe in. There is no open hatred toward one party or another. As a result, I have never seen or felt the importance of understanding everything about politics. I’m sure that stance will anger some people, but when it comes time to voting, I read and listen to as much there is relating me and my family. Outside of that, I tend to steer clear of it all.
thebobrup · 1 points · Posted at 10:31:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What you are feeling is what Carl Schmitt critize about liberal democracy. you dont feel you matter in it, a good way to understand politics is looking at local goverment. You will get a good understanding of how little goes either a long or short way. Politics is about how people share or dont share ressources
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand nonexistence. But I have before. It clicked all of the sudden. I literally almost went mad.
It left as suddenly as it came, taking everything with it.
Alex535459 · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman But my dad told me that’s expected because they’re crazy
batmajn · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
fernfairy99 · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My emotions.
CoinsorFish · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I will never understand how someone can listen to an ASMR of someone eating a pickle or a super spicy potato chip. It is just about the nastiest thing to me.
PrinceDanielZ · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Islam is a Religion of Peace.
arturas1987 · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Finance, cutrency rates
herionisnasty · 1 points · Posted at 05:31:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion.
Honkypigdong · 1 points · Posted at 05:32:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there no black chinese "people"?
ineedhelp0304 · 1 points · Posted at 05:32:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Greed and love just those things are impossible for me to comprehend
LuvleeAri · 1 points · Posted at 05:32:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why LGBT people don’t deserve rights.
Like I’ve talked to people that oppose LGBT rights. They’re either oblivious to the anti-LGBT agenda, they want to enforce their religion, or they try to support killing LGBT people because “their side is killing babies.”
These aren’t valid arguments and I’d really like to hear someone explain their perspective on LGBT rights solely. I cannot understand how being LGBT makes you a democrat, and how your religion is above the constitution. The answer is that it doesn’t.
So does ANYONE have an actual argument opposing LGBT rights? It’s a serious question and one that I have not seen clear answers to. It honestly just seems like politicians are killing people to pull in more votes.
nojnomeel · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Something. Don’t know what it is. Have felt my whole life that others intrinsically understand a concept that is just eluding my grasp. Something important.
Just wish I knew what.
azlashspa · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How reddit works
RadarPainter · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Connections to people. I don't miss people, even family members, when I'm away for extended periods. I don't really have my own friends. It's not that I'm anti social. I very much enjoy the company of people, but I don't understand the connections people seem to have with each other. I'm married now, but before that I would come home at nights after work and not go out, not interact with anyone and my weekends were pretty much the same and it didn't bother me whatsoever. I've wondered for a while if a part of me is broken, but it doesn't bother me, because I really don't mind isolation (physical or emotional). And yet, I wasn't always like this, certainly not when I met my wife twelve years ago, this is something more recent at some point.
el_daniel_asinomas · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The rules of board games, until i read them like 2 or 3 times, i can understand how to play.
phiexox · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Financy and the economy. I don't get why we follow made up rules for made up monry for made up value
ilikescolouring · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crochet. That shits witch craft.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m unable to comprehend the idea that space is infinite. When you think about the sky, being on a plane, eventually you’ll leave the atmosphere, there’s a limit to how high you can go. In space, there’s just no limit.. YOU JUST KEEP GOING. FOREVER.
blue_watermelon4 · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people decide to design things is such a way that the most necessary, commonly replaced parts take HOURS to remove and replace. Vehicles are my main gripe. Yes we all know newer vehicles are made so the regular common folk are discouraged from fixing them, thus dealerships and the like getting more money from you by making you pay for simple repairs. But to make it so even people specifically trained to do it take hours?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:33:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating. How to date, how to meet women, how to proceed in any way shape or form, and I have been married... I don’t understand it so much that sometimes I think i might be an alien or something.
NachoLatte · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Student debt: Why did you take on so much debt? Why not state school or community college? Why college at all?
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It was a mistake and I really hope engineering lands me a big job to pay it off.
im_confused-_- · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electronics have always confused me. I can assemble all sorts of mechanical systems but I just can’t understand exactly how we are able to control electricity so precisely.
neo0909 · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Einsteins theory of the space time continum, I've read countless pieces, attended lectures and watched videos, yet I can grasp that we move through space and time. The closer you get to the speed of light, the slower time is
kryse222 · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calc 3 like wtf
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have to be so mean to other people. We all do dumb and terrible things sometimes, and being unkind isn't going to undo any of it.
bacci3 · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The metric system.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To put it very simply it all measures the same thing weight temperature distance etc. But different names stand for different amounts and those amounts often make doing math much simpler
jradkennedy · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
sphui1028 · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My wife.
Just_OneReason · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
trippyearthling · 1 points · Posted at 05:34:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do babies think if they dont know words? How to they look at a light and think its bright but they dont know what a light is and they dont know what bright means??? How does the human brain learn language?
Tylermcd93 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The very basic economy thought of the more of something there is, such as money, the less valuable it is. It just does not make any sense to in the modern day. I’d understand if we were still using metals for our money, but our money is largely digital and paper now, which is near infinite. It just seems kind of an arbitrary economic law at this point.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine it this way. I have an orange tree and I sell oranges to every person passing through town to each person I charge $500 dollars an orange. I can do this because I am the only person with an orange tree.
The next year however every person see that I am making a killing selling oranges so every person in town plants 10 orange trees. I try to sell my oranges for $500 but my neighbor says he well sell them for $450 but his neighbor sees that and decides to sell them for $400 this continues until an equilibrium is reached and you can't sell them for any less (say someone tries to sell an orange for $1 but it costs $5 in water to make that orange)
This is the balance of supply and demand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space. How big is that shit actually? Is it infinite? If not, what's at the end of it? How's anything even infinite? How'd that fucker even get made in the first place? Fuck it.
its_poop_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf do people like Money Heist.
_PM_ME_YOUR_SYNTAX_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. The dude is literally screwing them and making sure they die soon in misery and poverty and they just keep cheering him on.
dormanttt · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m always either sick or in pain or both and doctors can’t find out why.
bagelnagel01 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its too really why were here are we made from a god or?... just some monkey speices that got lucky?
memeholic_gajan · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is 2* 2
b90313 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why atheism exists when existence cannot be explained by science. Nothing can explain why the Big Bang happened in the first place, something paranormal must have happened at some point.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why would you say that because we don't have an answer then the cause must be paranormal. Just because we can not explain why the big bang happened doesn't lend itself to their being a paranormal reason for it. For most of human history we did not understand how a great many natural processes worked. We did not know that techtonic plates caused tsunamis and earthquakes or that tides were influenced by the moons gravitational pull. In time we found out that these in fact all have natural explanations that follow governing laws of physics. Is it too hard to believe there is a perfectly natural explanation to the creation of the universe that is just currently to complex for us to understand. I don't see why this makes a supreme deity or paranormal explanation more likely. We just haven't solved this particular problem yet.
Source: am an atheist I hope that cleared it up a little.
b90313 · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no natural process to existence. Realistically nothing should exist in the first place. No matter how it begun it can't be scientific.
MrPolymath_ · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's so much that, "There was nothing that existed and atheists are out here sneering at religious people for not getting that." It's just that we don't know and we don't understand it yet. There's no process that we know of currently that could explain it. It could be anything and that includes a supreme being. However none of the natural phenomena or really anything in the oberservable universe that we do understand is caused by a supreme deity. It's easier to say that we have no idea what happened to create the universe however it's more likely that similarly to everything we currently do understand it was not caused by a supreme being.
No one can go up to you an tell you that they know 100% that there is no god. All the best they can do is say it lacks any evidence and it doesn't seem like the most likely solution to the problem.
jedinut2point0 · 1 points · Posted at 05:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Driving. Normal 10 minute drive, there's hundreds of things that can kill you. And you're normally just jamming out to whatever song only seemingly paying attention to when you're supposed to stop (red lights, etc.). But think about it...You're on a 2 lane road. The person coming toward you sneezes at the wrong time, you're dead. Someone isn't paying attention getting their mail. Dead. Someone doesn't react to the 3 seconds the lights give you to stop. Dead. And yet 99% of us does this every day, usually at least twice. And that's not close to the leading cause of death anywhere. That's crazy to me.
press757 · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How different music instruments were invented in different parts of the world prior to the ease of communication that we live in today. Did the person who invented the harp know how to play it before it was finished? & how would someone from somewhere else have an idea to make a horn? How did music spread globally from its original source?
WhyTheHeckDoIExist · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can insult another person without feeling guilty.
Even if I insult someone I dont like or has aggravated me already, I'll feel really bad for it and most of the time end up apologizing.
littleferrhis · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to date/flirt, way too many contradictions at least when it comes to advice.
Act like x so you don’t seem like a loser, but if you act like x you may seem like an asshole or a creep so maybe try your best to avoid doing it.
shasta-mcnugget · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rednecks
RoosePostingReddit · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitcoin mining
tHE_WORLD_SpiKE · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people skip life, because they are afraid of dying -.-
desertdog9991 · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't under why is it so hard to be happy. Like I help everyone out and try my best to do something for myself but everyone treats me like shit then. What am I supposed to do.
BTW anyone need a friend? Slightly broken lmfao
thebobrup · 2 points · Posted at 06:08:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont know where you live but my 5 cent Is in America there is this odd “you against me” mindset which is quite toxic. Try looking for people with the same hobbies as you, it can help quite alot.(Forums are a good place to start)
We are all slightly broken and we are in this togther!
desertdog9991 · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you friend annd there isn't alot of people near me that are into the same things as I am.
_macaroni_rascal · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cruise control
iamavocadoman · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The world economic and banking system
wowbagger85 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
southerngirlsrock · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get offended over every little thing. Why people can't let other people like, love, read, do, be..... Whatever makes them happy, as long as no one is getting hurt.
Caleb-Stober · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’ve been unbelievably sad since I was about 14.
thebobrup · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Have you gone to the doctor? Might be a clinical depression, it sounds odd. But most people are sad and dont think they can do anything about it, but you can, go out and ask for help.
MikiH03 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fashion shows. How can the fall-show take place in the first few weeks of February but then Paris/milan/london/NY fashion weeks takes place in the next month? Are they not the same?
Lilsammywinchester13 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
I used to have my cousin on speed dial in college to ask questions like “why do people get jealous?” “I know she hates me but I was being nice to her, why did she get so angry?” Etc etc
I could just blame it on the autism but I think a lot of people are confused, they are just better at knowing the normal cues of what to say/do (even if they don’t know why)
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gravity?
realden39 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most Americans are so stupid.
How could like supposedly the smartest country let somebody like Trump get in, and then when they need a guy who actually cares about the ppl and not rich corps, ppl dont want him.
How did you get so dumb. Was it all the processed foods or Sunday Football. I just don't understand
Tough_Connection · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transistors
2000sSilentFilmStar · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
no engineering student or even engineering professor will ever truly understand Chemical Engineering Thermodynamics
EeroC · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AC circuits, and I have final on them in a week.
press757 · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who picked the words that we call profanity? Who decided we can say “screw it” and it’s fine, but “fuck it” is a no no?
whorlk · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Zeitgeist, Boomer!
melogalla · 1 points · Posted at 05:37:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math !!!
borski88 · 2 points · Posted at 05:51:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't understand people that can do it in their head but give me a calculator or Excel and I can figure out much more difficult calculations.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a really hard time understanding sub atomic particles and spin ratios. How could a particle be at a one place but not be at the same place?
So confusing. I just memorized like a parrot to pass my university class.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That the light emitted from a flashlight travels at the same speed whether your holding it stationary or holding it while standing on a vehicle traveling 100mph. I would think that the light would be traveling at speed of light +100. But it dont be like that. Same goes for sailboats that can travel faster than the wind pushing them.
Also, magnets. Also free-will.
throwaway85774748499 · 1 points · Posted at 05:38:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you know your future, you can change it. Then there is always a future planned ahead of that future and that future and that future etc. Mind fucks me when I am alone in my thoughts.
Mm22693 · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a camera can just be clicked and print out a picture of something you’re looking at
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I remember trying to talk to my family about this and they just didn’t get what I was asking.
Record players.
HOW THE FUCK do bumps on vinyl touch a little needle and then wires tell a speaker how to make the right noises? I know if you don’t have speakers, you can still barely hear the needle and vinyl play the song so like what is happening right there?
v4k4r15 · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions, friendships, relationships, love, marriage:
Simply put, I do not understand and why so many of us chose to have relationships with other people even though there are possibilities that they will betray you, and even if not, why form them anyway? Is it an evolutionary instinct? Is it simply a human desire to be with others, just because were social animals?
Why do you need other people in life? Statistically you’re going to lose them and get “hurt” as most say, and if not, then the question arises “is it even worth the effort?”
What feeling of pride or gratitude do you get from being with someone? What kind of emotional forces you to stay with someone, even if it adds 0 benefit??
(I am someone who has difficulty understanding why people form these bonds, I do not have ASD, but rather Psychopathy)
Cheap-Habit · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
Music_i · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand why I'm here....
borski88 · 2 points · Posted at 05:45:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To participate in this thread of course.
Esounplatano · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that litter. I see it happen all the time living in NYC, but I do not understand why people are so fucking selfish and lazy to the point where they would rather throw a piece of garbage on the floor than walk a couple of feet to the nearest trashcan. The trash you throw on the floor can end up in the sewer system, or confuse a poor animal for food and result in their death, overall it makes the city dirtier, you're adding to pollution - there are so many consequences to littering yet people do it all the time. These are the same people that turn around and say their neighborhood or the city is so dirty yet they're actively contributing to it. And then if you point out their littering, they get aggressive! They get caught doing something bad and I'm the bad guy? I don't understand.
borski88 · 2 points · Posted at 05:44:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
I try to act like they accidentally dropped it and point out to them like "here I think you dropped this" or something to that effect without accusing them that it was intentional even if it obviously was.
They seem more confused and receptive in my experience than if you accuse them of doing something wrong.
haydenhbond · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
Zebrahoe · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mirrors
SmallerChinesePeople · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between effect and affect. I’ve had multiple English teachers, classmates, friends, and parents try to lay it out for me but I’m convinced I will never ever grasp it with confidence.
LaTalullah · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cats. and Trump supporters. For totally different reasons I get that cats are adorable assholes. I miss mine terribly. But WTH are they???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:40:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get how Americans used to have an addiction to fast cars and now you see people riding their brakes all the way down main street. Are people worried that a cop will materialize out of thin air and pull them over the instant they get slightly above the speed limit?
A_clean_sheet · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand why people think rich people (the ones who did their own hard work to be rich not the you know who my dad is type) are evil,Satan,bad? Whenever there is a post about someone donating money there are people commenting this isn't enough,he should donate more,he is evil etc. Like everything you have around you is because some rich dude decided to invest in it in the early days.
whataboutbrie · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My cat
ItstheHappyPanda · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I truly wonder about the concept of 'normal', especially socially. Is being normal just finding enough people to validate you as you are? If it's so abstract, is there any way to understand what normal is?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
June bugs and why God created them. They are by far the stupidest creature ever. They literally die on contact and don’t amount to nothing in life.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:41:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people say “ I am humbled “ when they receive a big award or do something awesome. Like wouldn’t you be the opposite of humbled????
Senselesswriter · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Higher Engineering Mathematics
echoKj · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls.
Shadomd · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stocks work
SteamyBoi185 · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I need to learn English in high school, when I’m perfectly capable of creating the noises recognized as speech in the English language
kadenw17 · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
JustMemes_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
parents just don't understand
serenelydone · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t get shit done when others are home with me. Empty house only me I can start 20 projects and have them done by dinner!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:42:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Investments, taxes, and Trump.
TheSid12 · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
AP Physics Electromagnetism Some of it makes sense but a lot of it doesn't
Gay-redditor · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Does something look the same in two different pairs of eyes? Is someone else’s blue the same as mine? If I were to pinpoint the exact location I was in the universe 1 second ago, where would that be? Billions of miles that way? How fast is our solar system traveling through this ever expanding universe? Why are humans more intelligent than other species, or are other species thinking the same way? What is time? Do we all perceive time the same way? Is one second the equivalent of 1 minute for other beings? What makes a person intelligent? Why do objects have to not work before they work? How is the universe expanding or does it go on forever? Is there an end to the universe? Are we the only planet gifted with life? What’s it like to not have these thoughts all the time? What’s it like not to wonder? I may never know.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religious Appropriation of Gendered Race Politics
ultimatemove1 · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
futurenginer · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vector transformations
CAREBEAR_KILLER · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So people just keep handkerchiefs in their pockets, blow their nose and put it back in? Repeat?
TypicalCanad1an · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans came to be. Always blows my mind when I start thinking about.
fuckyusuke · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
life
yeehawbygod · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rocket League
-hackerboi- · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that my irl friend won't stop spamming me on Discord that he needs my PlayStation Network account password to play Fortnite on his account.
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How was I able to sleep fast last night, but I can’t do it now.
Correct_Oven · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why animals stare at empty spaces of a room. It freaks me out
lennso · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fire!
It’s actually crazy. Like what the fuck do you see and what do you not see? As far as I understand there is some sort of process going on including a spark (what?) which then leads to combustion. But what am I looking at when I see flames and why isn’t the actual part confusing any more interesting? I don’t understaaaaaaand
SevenHunnet3Hi5s · 1 points · Posted at 05:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll say it and get made fun of for it. But football. American football. Feels like there's a thousand rules and positions. Don't understand the huge rave and excitement about it especially when I live in an area where everyone has flags and posters of the team here
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I’ve read the science of it and learned about all the tiny tiny tiny things that are happening but I’m blown away by it.
Cronicium · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me this is mainly about team based games (looking at you League), but I'm sure it applies to other scenarios as well;
How someone is unable to blame themselves for their own mistakes, but instead blame someone else for it who has had nothing to do with it.
Or, even worse ;
People who want to give up even though their entire team is doing well and they're guaranteed a win, but for some reason can't accept they're not the reason they're winning. Like, it's okay to be carried once in a while, be happy you're still going to win when you've got a bad game.
goth60 · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Parallel universes- the idea that in another universe another me exists that is not in lockdown and free to roam the streets
Redditman246810 · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people could believe Bernie sanders is different from any other politician. Same corruptible person just a stupider following.
HeavyDoubles · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 3D printers work.
SerenityGhost · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My sleeping pattern. I have consistently woken up multiple times every night for no reason for years. Not from a bad dream or can’t breather I just wake up. Like I’m waking up in the morning but this’ll happen every half hour. Sometimes every hour and sometimes not at all. It’s really weird and I never know what it’s going to be like. It plagued my high school years and I got 4 hours of sleep a lot. I still have it now and sometimes I’ll wake up every hour.
DatGuyFromTexas · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I get huge anxiety from noses. I am fine with looking at them, having one, etc. However, a couple of days ago I was watching a YouTube video and as a joke the YouTuber did a nose vlog for a minute. The camera was just really close to their nose. I had this huge feeling of fear, and I felt like I a bad headache, and after I skipped that part I still felt scared for a few minutes. I only had this since a couple of days ago.
Has anyone had something like this before.
EphemeralArchon · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can hit a fly in mid air and they just fly away like nothing happened. But if I got hit by something equally as large compared to the fly and my hand I would be obliterated. I'm assuming I'm not able to transfer the energy efficiently enough to the fly why it's mid air.
jshaver41122 · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As someone with good vision I cannot understand how people make it through life with bad vision. My mom had surgery to correct her eyes being crossed and as a result she basically can’t see in 3D and I just can’t imagine a world like that.
snappalover · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The people who think blowing things up will always end well
Sitterbuhn · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
ionman220114 · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of ferraris and Lambo in Instagram feed. How do you earn that much money??!!
hotaru4401 · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
hyouka
spagettttttttttttttt · 1 points · Posted at 05:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Engish
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Why The man I’ve devoted my whole heart to for the past 19 years won’t even give us another chance 💔
Reading_Reddit_Read · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the world was so unprepared for a pandemic that they knew was inevitable.
JessDaMess8787 · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My minds blown every time I think about how each person has a full life with nuances, struggles, relationships and a past.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does writing code, a bunch of words, equal programs doing stuff? How the hell does that work? What is actually going on? Does that mean the coding possibilities are endless? Why does the program even listen?
alecwatersmusic · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the United States can be so deadly committed to hating another for their bipartisan beliefs, but build each other up during the face of a pandemic like COVID.
Coompa · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
electricity. I do lots of diy stuff and the shit still baffles me.
scoobabadeedoo · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I imagine an elephant in my mind, does it exist? Is it made of some sort of matter while it’s being projected in my thoughts?
XESODOXIOS · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
God
Adriatic88 · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can use Twitter on a regular basis and not come out of the experience suicidal.
ohrlygr8 · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Pedophilia.. How is it possible for some?
desertdog9991 · 1 points · Posted at 05:46:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can't I be happy, I do my best for everyone else and when I try to do something for me I get yelled at and treated like trash, I work myself to the bone 5o help my family and my friends with anything.
Anyone want a friend or a boyfriend ? Slightly broken lol
Crown-of-Roses · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Super late to the party, but if someone could explain this to me, I'd be grateful.
I don't understand internships that want you to have (professional) experience in what you are applying for in order to get it. I mean, isn't the whole point of an internship is to gain experience? Before I got the internship I have now, I applied to over 70 internships. Many of them required you to have prior intern experience to apply. When I got interviewed for a couple of them, they all asked me, "Do you have experience with writing emails for corporations or have done any corporate writing?" Like, I'm a college student. Where do I even get the experience to do that? If anybody could help me understand that, I would be grateful.
Chrissy13211321 · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not crazy!!
CleoBelleMeow · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers
Fred_Foreskin · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck I'm supposed to flirt with women without being a creep. I'm 22 years old and just never learned to flirt. There have been plenty of women who I've been very attracted to (especially in high school) and had no problem talking to, but I could never navigate my way to flirting; so we would always end up as good friends. I'm currently having the same issue in college.
Bernardoz117 · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is it that the tilt of earth axis is more relevant to the weather than the distance difference (delta) between perihelion and aphelion. In other words, the distance to the sun is less important than the angle of exposure.
ahyet · 1 points · Posted at 05:47:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fractions
Fortessio · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My mind and why it goes into depression spiral when everything is fine and I’m taking my meds
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Myself. No matter how much I practice self-reflection and strive to be self-awareness, I do things that I simply can't explain or understand.
KurokoNoBagre · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't get cosmology
how the fuck can you point big ass telescopes to the sky and understand that there are things that no one knows what it is, and that the universe is expanding, and time stretches, and what the fuck is dark matter
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:48:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My will to live.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like every other human on this planet, there is a potentially innumerable list of things that I genuinely do not understand.
minty_spiceu · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Codes and hacking. Ive tried and tried to learn but i just dont know where i should begin. I gave up cuz i felt dumb trying to learn it bruh.
amiraeahmad · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
Cringy_Crusader · 1 points · Posted at 05:49:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ratios
xRouge7 · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How gaming systems read discs, and can tell disc for x game from disc for y game.
uhhhhyasureman · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What came before the Big Bang...maybe this is more me just trying to imagine it or what but I think it fits
Noimnotsally · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to delete all my messages at reddit. Just can't do it. Mind you I'm on amazon tablet n only can use the RELAY app....ugh
rcad69 · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to invest and develop money.
TOASTER2309 · 1 points · Posted at 05:50:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tories
pressthebuttonfrank · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A god that makes his followers circumcise little girls.
AsteriodZulu · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. I just don’t understand caring about other people’s preferences that don’t affect me in any conceivable way.
Jaketheband · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trying to be an artist here and if I'm honest:
SHADOWS HIGHLIGHTS COLOUR THEORY HANDS HAIR FEET BODIES FACES SHOES GUNS ANIME TITTIES
icedcaramelsoylatte · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Netflix and chill"
I said it to my guy friends on different occasions because I took it word for word, literally. Until they started to make moves on me. It's quite funny. Like which part of the phrases hints that you want something more??? I still don't get it, though now I never used it again.
MrSmallMedium · 1 points · Posted at 05:51:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the stock market is legit with this level of tech and communication, like shorting and everything seems so wrong
lonewolfalpha3 · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The conception and creation of computers and coding is as mysterious to me as life itself.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Was gonna post this.
I agree, computers are something else man
bedpotatoe17 · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
2020
cochorol · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics
Nesvrstana · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How boats float and how planes fly.
skubeevape · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why companies and managers get away with being shitty to their employees. No context here. I need companies and managers that screw over employees to be equally screwed themselves without fail.
DanJalvor · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My homework
blasphemusa · 1 points · Posted at 05:52:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many crooks and evil people are able to rule over countries and their people.
SheIsPepper · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck GoT season 8 happened.
While we are at it, why ruin the AMAZING Dorne plotline? That shit would have been awesome on camera, but whatever.
Librariankat98 · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intentional cruelty.
mzzms · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
MrAVAT4R · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything and anything.
SanOK_ · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Audio/video analogue conversion to binary. Or just recording audio. Like what the fuck.
Comp_xe · 1 points · Posted at 05:53:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people process language, through the wall I can tell someone’s speaking English, but I have no idea what they’re saying, while I can another language through a wall and just be able to tell it’s not English despite the fact I wouldn’t be able to differentiate any words even if it was english
WORKREDDITOMG · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. That shits magic yo
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rockitman12 · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. I have a degree in physics and took multiple nuclear and quantum classes, but that shit is still so unintuitive for me. Can’t wrap my head around it. Maybe I just haven’t found the right way to look at it yet.
doug-fir · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The GOP mindset that wants to “drown our government in a bathtub” and all the enablers that are allowing it to happen before our eyes.
lucky-chickennuggets · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can solve a hard math problem or physics problem in my head but if I try to show my work I look like I have the IQ of a mealworm.
MyMurderOfCrows · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Imaginary numbers... Before anyone says try harder, I do genuinely want to understand them and have tried to...
ninjawick · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Integration and disintegration problems in maths. Never understood the purpose even after trying it for 100 hrs. And now i think am i retarded. For not able to understand it after all this effort
ice9kills · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I have no idea what it is or why it’s relevant. At this point I’d feel too embarrassed to ask someone in person.
pepethemisunderstood · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. Some magic force generated by anything that hss mass. Thats some.bullshit right there.
klockworx · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people act like yeezys arent fugly.
AgustinCuenca · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how does car wheels offset numbers work.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life and reality
procedureszone102 · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can just be ok with being addicted to things. I don't understand how people can be aware they're addicted to coffee or cigarettes and not do anything about it and not even care to the point that, at least with coffee, it's the societal norm.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:55:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I never want to sleep.
Like, I know I can be a better me when I get more sleep. Yet, when night comes I don't want to quit doing the things I love so I stay up late, wake up early, and then the cycle continues. I hate wasting time sleeping and having to consolidate memories.
Edit: I just gotta suck it up and surrender though :/
GeorgeWooosh · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black holes and bending of the space-time continuum and whatnot. I see all the funnel graphics and explanations and sometimes I am at a point where it makes sense - and at the same time I simply cannot understand shit how an object can be at two places at a time and i lose it all.
mom_i_am_star_lord · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to communicate with people. I was a reserved child and didn't talk to anyone except a couple of other kids who were also weird. Now that I don't have the communication experience that others have, it's very difficult for me to make friends and make new acquaintances. Fortunately, books on social psychology help me
Ruminatingbit · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how insurance works, what the hell are deductibles and premiums!?! I am not even sure what my insurance covers, I’m confused every time someone explains it...
Chanmess · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So from what I understand, and I’m fairly new to life so I may be wrong, but the premium is the amount of money you pay in order to be insured. The deductible is how much you have to spend before the insurance will actually give you money... so if you pay $200 per month to be covered for $20,000 and have a $1,000 deductible, and you get in an accident or something, you have to pay the $1,000 before receiving the actual insurance money... or if you get in an accident, and the damage is worth less than $1,000 to fix, you would not receive any insurance money... please correct me if I’m wrong
ItIsIBryanFerry · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animal abuse and recreational hunting. Will never understand the attraction
loharders · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
traffic. why does it let up all of a sudden? what?
Chiefmeez · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t really get how boats float
simpomode_69 · 1 points · Posted at 05:56:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My love for her and hers not for me...😔
The_cake-is-a-lie · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are we still stuck on this planet? Why haven't we at least gone back to the moon?
Actual_Cancerrr · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans.
FXSZero · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dumb people.
DJ_Paper_Trail · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Establishment Democrats
BlackWhiteStriped · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
bluebird1520 · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some adults don’t see climate change as a real threat to society and the earth.
D048 · 1 points · Posted at 05:57:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are we just basically machines? Do we really make decisions? Or are we wired and guaranteed to make certain decisions at certain times? Does it just feel like we are in control? Is there any true random? If we don’t actually have control, and neither do animals, and (obviously) inanimate objects don’t, then wouldn’t that mean everything that happens was guaranteed to happen since forever? (Also I will say in advance computers are NOT truly random, they are time-based)
NobodyImportant2222 · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 2007 financial crisis, specifically within the United States. I have tried to understand what had happened and how the bubble within the housing market developed. From my understanding, it became easy to get loans without collateral, credit checks, background checks etc. People were taking risky loans to pay for homes that had artificially rose above true market value. Banks were using mortgage bonds that consisted of poorly rated assets masquerading as fully guaranteed AAA rated backed securities. Banks were incentivized to build and sell these mortgage bonds for easy and quick profit. Now assuming what I have above is generally correct this is the part that is confusing to me. Did the terms of loans change after a certain period of time to increase monthly payments and this is what caused people to default on their loans on a wide spread scale? We’re the banks to blame? People for not closely examining the terms of their loans? Ratings agency’s such as the S&P and Moody’s? All of the above? Also I don’t understand how it was possible to bailout these institutions without checks and balances such as preventing stock buy backs, bonus structures, etc.? Also, I have trouble truly understanding traunches and CDOs, synthetic CDOs....makes me feel stupid/vulnerable to problems like this in the future.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lmao I genuinely understand nothing
Dropkickshitstick · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know it's an old meme but MAGNETS. Like gravity I understand -- the mass of one object attracts other massive objects, cool, got it. But MAGNETS?!?!? What is there, some kind of fucking enchantment on them bad boys?! They just KNOW when other magnets are near them?!?!?
lennon_starr · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are we here? Why does anything exist?
SparkleCl0ver · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why there’s people under the age of 18 that are making inappropriate stuff online, namely smut/lemon fanfics or inappropriate videos (eg Gacha community) and not understanding the gravity of their actions. I mean where the fuck are their parents????
cylph11 · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can repeat mistakes over and over. I understand we’re human but is it really so hard to avoid? Or is it that people just don’t care?
WakandaZad · 2 points · Posted at 06:15:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don't care
brionelee · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 05:58:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football. I get the big picture but the first downs etc I find confusing. As soon as someone tries to explain it my brain shuts down.
WakandaZad · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football like all competitions end when the time ends most points win or they can tie
Football games start with a kick off like basketball with a tip off *like most competitions one team has to on defense while the other is on offense
You could start the game in the middle of a big field with both teams fighting to go the furthest north while one team tries to keep them the furthest south but most football players and fans in attendance love the adrenaline of a ball flying high to one man who "returns" it until he scores or get tackled
Football teams are rewarded by points that can earned by placing the ball in the end zone "furthest north or farthest south" or kicking the ball through the up rights (field goal)
Due to the fact that end zones call be extremely far. There are first down yard lines along the field to keep a "drive" alive ( no first downs yard lines means team have to score in the "downs/plays" that are giving to them
Tldr teams want to score points, first downs are like a check point in a video game where it's like you start a new chapter going further into the story until the end. If you get to the end you are rewarded
whitepartofanorange · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people in movies will always pour the last bit of water from the bottle all over their face instead of just drink it carefully.
Ripfangnasty · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone ever thought JavaScript was a good idea
y0x95 · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum string theory
IsoscelesDice · 1 points · Posted at 05:59:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
4th dimensional space in theory
Zap_byte · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hablan español?
Z93K · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The economy
TerrieBNL · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Toilet paper hoarders. Why not MREs or survival supplies? .
aliengang625 · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A Polaroid picture.
Imagine having to make an image appear on paper without drawing it.
redditor_rat · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is my screen the way it is? How are there so many pixels and colors on here? It just doesn’t seem like a DIY thing..
xLadyLilacx · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Advanced trig :/
NochillWill123 · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trig ez.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:00:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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NochillWill123 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fighting the corona virus.
z3r0xcool · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
venusk · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A very close friend now shared life and philosophical quotes from Money Heist especially mouthed from Berlin and The Professor from time to time. Says it made her think as of she goes with Berlin way back. But what do I make of it ?
plantgi · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why I’m here
Yuuki-_-16 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Writing a code. When you spend a weeks to figure out what the error is and one day the program decided to run without any error and you don’t know what the problem.
TheJoker1432 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to learn the key of a song and what chords come with the key. I am playing guitar and want to get better at the theory part and yes there are many videos out there but how do you properly memorize it?
Just watching a video isnt enough
IronBabyFists · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Strategists. Playing RTS games, strategy board games, anything that takes complex thought. I just don't get how people can think ahead without their minds going somewhere else.
The-Bounty · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does everyone have internal dialogue ?
PrestigiousLink · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
alldemboats · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the stock market.
_too_beaucoup · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
importantsphere · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Measurements. I don’t understand how people estimate or visualize measurements so easily. Whenever I hear on the news that we’re getting ___cm of snow, I just wait and see what happens.
psiprez · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to create a spreadsheet in Excel.
My mid just can't. Some sort of mental block.
Mertdemlicay190 · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But steel is hæviya then fæthers
apollo4567 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In space movies, when you’re near a black hole the time slows down and you come back to the ship and the person waiting there has aged... why, it’s a biological clock, you weren’t really gone for biologically 40 years right?
greysilver69 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that I hear my thoughts but it’s not my voice and the way it works....
anthonycruz · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How CD’s and hard drives work. A spinning disk with data on it and its read and interpreted perfectly with a laser reading 1’s and 0’s. I don’t get it.
kyouma420 · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell there are only two political parties in america that hate each other and are governing the country by rotating every one or two elections ? I really dont get how it is like impossible for a new third party to rise.
industrialmonk · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Poor Republicans.
Incompetentbator · 1 points · Posted at 06:03:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anything exists at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. Really, really complicated creatures
IanBauters · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Impedance… I have never found someone who can properly explain it! It almost feels like you either do or you don’t with no in between
Cringe-at-its-Finest · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How complex things like computers came to be. Like how the hell does somebody have that idea, and like no previous ideas to base them off
DrDroidz · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where do we store everything's shit. How can we handle it.
lourdes_Ar · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Blockchain
funnyrunner3 · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time differs in space, like in the movie Interstellar, when he comes back the same age while his daughter is older than him. Isn't time supposed to go forward as always, like the biological changes in a body keep moving forward in time linearly, so he should be older too. I still don't understand that! And many other things too.
joe-dad-gone · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do deaf people think in their head? Sign language?
GerbilJibberJabber · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Jealousy.
I dont think I've ever experienced it. Like, I "get" being worried that somebody may come along and try to take my S.O. , BUT, it takes two to tango, ya know?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Partial differential equations
masterheater5 · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
astrophysics. and rocket science.
Karito_17 · 1 points · Posted at 06:06:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my ex cheated on me
NochillWill123 · 1 points · Posted at 06:06:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dynamics.
spitzy69420 · 1 points · Posted at 06:07:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Division. Specifically the process of long division. It makes zero sense to me no matter how many times it's been explained to me and I can't do it. I'm mathematically pretty good and I like it but long division is like trying to do a puzzle but you only have one piece.
christawfer47 · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people need chaos in their life
KeviF · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Twitter
lardman420 · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get GF
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those kpop people that post some kpop star’s dancing videos whenever they tweet something
CinaMahBun · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like tiktok
gorgon277 · 1 points · Posted at 06:08:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The story of MW2 and 3
DrSixtyNine · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Call of Duty’s Modern warfare ?
gorgon277 · 1 points · Posted at 06:40:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. Like why did shepherd declare TF 141 criminals. Was it Makarovs PMCs that invaded America or the actual Russian government, why were there guys dressed in Russian military uniforms keeping the Russian president and his daughter hostage, and what happened to the other members of TF 141 like Robot, Worm, Nomad, Zack, Archer, and Toad. Were they captured, killed, or did they go into hiding. Way too many plot holes for me. Still great games though
xHECKx · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. We should all be homeless and starving, but we're not.
mask_creations · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
MaBe2904 · 1 points · Posted at 06:09:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bethesda.net
Johnny-Godshot · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who justify cheating, I mean why are you in a relationship.
ForgottenBelmont · 1 points · Posted at 08:02:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
That’s easy enough. Stability. One knows for a fact they’ll come home to a warm bed so they can afford to be bolder than they usually would added to the thrill of sneaking around. Most cheaters are often simply people with issues, people who follow the "be with the one who's around you rule" or people who settled but are still looking for the better option.
Then again I'm a moron so what do I know
christinasays · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus.
roxiclavi · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand football. I have had it explained many times, but perhaps I selectively choose not to remember.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhmmm....repeat the question?
get_down_funky · 1 points · Posted at 06:10:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People not being able to receive constructive criticism as a potential catalyst to positive change. Feeling attacked by critique.
Twisted_Ink · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why politicians are mostly corrupt
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic Chemistry?
Abc555558612 · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kubernetes
RedditCorner · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How alot of places just feel off.
Examples include
-Hotel hallways at night (hotels at night in general)
-empty big brand grocery stores at night
-gas stations at night during road trips
Etc etc.
But what really makes them feel off?
crazyshenanigans1 · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Seems like the night!
RedditCorner · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah but like. Empty Movie theaters at night don’t feel off or empty restaurants at night.
mememan8000 · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
marieappleseed · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
zke14 · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic Chemistry
yilum · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. I mean I get it: There is a magnetic field. But what causes it? It‘s just magic.
corymhulsey · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I see people and think 'why is he/wearing that ugly outfit? I get it- fashion is subjective just like any other form of artistic impression but sometimes there's just no excuse.
A great example would be jeans. Wearing the wrong fit, cut or size for your body can make them look just horrible, while just getting one or two of the three categories correct can make a HUGE difference.
To get back to the actual point and add a little clarification, let's just assume at first the person in question has no one else at home or in their circle of friends to nudge them in the right direction. That would remove some of the accountability for the person's choices.
Ok- so here's what I don't understand. I would say it's safe to assume that I'm correct in saying an overwhelming majority of adults over 25 in the world wear clothes, do our makeup or style our hair in order to create the best possible example of ourselves that we can be.
The guy with the ill fitting carpenter's jeans isn't looking into the mirror and thinking "Damn these jeans are ugly and they're falling off without a belt. Looks like I've got my blind date outfit covered!" He's more likely thinking he's a lone wolf or a trendsetter.
Because who would do that? Who would wear something that doesn't suit their fashion or outward image they want to achieve. No one would, I just don't get it.
I want to make sure everyone understands that yes, I know (like I said earlier) fashion or people's tastes and choices are all subjective so I'm just using that for the example to make my point.
I'm also not including anyone under the age of 25 because I remember being in my late teens and early twenties and wearing big baggy jeans hanging off my ass and a leather biker's jacket covered with spikes and studs. It was a tossup what color my hair was going to be that week. Yeah a part of me thought it looked cool but the main reason i was wearing that Rancid t-shirt with no sleeves and those green/black sprayed 62 hole air cushioned boots was to get a reaction or to keep others at a distance from me. In wasn't trying to look my best and I would dare to say that their just as many of kids out there doing the same thing I was- so I'm not including them in the example i used.
tl;dr- do people who dress badly look in the mirror and think: hmm... This looks great, who's ready to go to the club?!? I've always assumed that people are trying their best but it seems I'm wrong in some cases.
Edit: jesus I didn't mean to turn my reply into homegrown terrorist manifesto length
TheWizard01 · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can hit a 95-100 mph fastball. The combination of processing speed, reaction time, and hand/eye coordination is insane.
kendylou · 1 points · Posted at 06:11:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I really have tried for a while now to wrap my head around why people enjoy BDSM. I don’t understand being the sadist or the masochist. I just don’t get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
kcufemdrah · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why does dick taste good. Can’t understand it
lourdes_Ar · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the moon shine
ThePatrician007 · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how computers physically WORK.
I took computer studies and computer programming in school, so I know how programming works and I was pretty good at binary maths and Boolean logic and all that. But I want to know what goes on to convert theoretical ones and zeroes into a Word Document, image, spreadsheet or application programme (for example).
Everytime I ask, I get the same answer: it's ones and zeroes and eight bits make up a byte and bla bla bla. All that aI understand. What I DON'T understsmd is how the ones and zeroes (the electrical current being either ON or OFF) works on a microchip or motherboard for instance.
How can those currents on a single chip or circuit board or flashbdrive or whatever be able to store/run images, applications, documents...
I don't get the link between the theoretical and the physical way the computer works.
Paul_Stew1e · 2 points · Posted at 06:13:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
And here I was thinking I was the only one!
smooching_time · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When i'm trying to go to sleep, i can hear my heartbeat. I'm like "what the f**k?"
Sports_Junky88 · 1 points · Posted at 06:12:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
BigFuturology · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Student loans.
Please someone help
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes when my mind wonders off I see my self in the third person. Also why I always get goosebumps when something nostalgic happens
dizzydshort · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any and everything related to real estate. WTF is a PMI.
dotBlueShoes · 1 points · Posted at 06:13:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Natural" it makes no sense to me everything is natural.
eigenvalueshateme · 1 points · Posted at 06:14:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
linear algebra :(
kiowa_lara · 1 points · Posted at 06:14:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people refrain from organizing and fighting for their rights, especially in the workplace.
History has shown over and over again that inequality only changes if the suppressed get together and fight for their rights and against the oppressors.
Today, most people seem to happily give up all their power in order to play pingpong with their boss or something like that
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
Januarysadness · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A mother's love, I've never had one so I honestly cannot relate or ever know.
AT070 · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
taxes
Alshaar · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics. Like what is happening to all the money produced in the world? Where is it going? Why do we have to generate more wealth?
Joephps · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people watch “YouTubers”.
oozing_oozeling · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The song Scarborough fair. Why are you asking a stranger to hit up your old true love for free shit? They've probably already moved on.
cityshepherd · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every sandwich based catering order has to come with onions on every sandwich. No meat? Fine, but plenty of onions. No cheese, no problem but there will be about half an onion per tiny piece of sandwich. No bread? Sure, here is a sandwich wrapped in something else, oh by the way it is just an onion wrapped in lettuce so enjoy!
Don't get me wrong, I love fried onions (must be cooked completely) and cook with them frequently. I am not even allergic, I just have a severe taste aversion and if I get even the SLIGHTEST hint of raw onion flavor and/or texture I start gagging uncontrollably and cannot enjoy the taste of anything for at least 30 minutes afterward.
The worst is when sandwich places keep the cut up onions next to the prepped tomatoes, and some onion bits and juice make their way into the tomato container and contaminate the entire thing.
Don't worry I'm not the least bit bitter about this.
LeetleNorwegianBoy · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:16:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why no "close doors" button on any elevator actually does what it's supposed to do.
swalkers1 · 1 points · Posted at 06:17:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
JavaScript
fernanditokitkat_ · 1 points · Posted at 06:18:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infinity of the universe. Just thinking about that there are infinite versions of infinite things and unlimited possibilities of any imaginable and unimaginable concept, blows my mind up.
Churningray · 1 points · Posted at 06:18:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people get energy from coffee. I hear all sorts of people saying how coffee powers them,etc. But when I drink coffee it's just a warm tasty drink. I don't feel any energy. I feel shit as always.
SquidCultist002 · 1 points · Posted at 06:19:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I'm expected to live like this
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tristasaurus_rex · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
we're the same as straight people, just with better sex
hyphenpepperfield · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are any of the big cat zoos/sanctuaries/cults/whatever you want to call them from Tiger King any different from one another? They all keep big cats in cages. Why does Carole Baskin get an out?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Red stone in Minecraft, I will never understand some of the shit people make
InfyPlayz · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How tf did Helen Keller learn to read and speak. I read her book called The Story Of My Life and the first thought was: this is pure bullshit. I mean how can anyone who got blind and deaf at the age of 18 months learn to read and speak and write.
dogcatball · 1 points · Posted at 06:20:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What IS in the box?
JerryKujo · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Herd mentality
GhoulishlyGrim · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to find someone who loves me
sahiljakhar · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don't understand how to set demarcation between working and chilling/off work time while working at home. I feel I'm always working throughout the day, more than what I was working when I used to go to office.
Pestoandmortal · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vaccums in space.. My dad is a physics teacher and has tried to explain to me hundreds of time. I just don’t understand what fills the space if it’s nothing??
Blaza_Plaza · 1 points · Posted at 06:22:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How karma is calculated
MR_JSQR · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The size of the universe. It big. Like, a lot.
Big_Chonk6911 · 1 points · Posted at 06:23:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we know people see the same colors. If somebody pointed to an object and I said it’s red, how do I know they see the red I see? How do I know that their version of red isn’t my version of blue??
oldirtypunk · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HUMANS..
CarleyWH · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division/ multiplication. I could never grasp it in math class and I've had numerous people try to help me through it.. they always end up receiving the same blank, confused stare.
TheUwUCosmic · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is everyone so ok with dying. Sure there is a fear most people have. But theres this whole societal culture where death is ok. We all have to die blablabla. I know we dont like in some sci-fi utopia, but it feels like theres an asteroid headed for earth and everyones just acting like everything is fine. Im sure its out there but i feel like there should be a more collective panic or effort to halt it or... idk.
TLDR; I am so afraid of dying and i dont understand how people are indifferent to it.
Xyxxlytz · 1 points · Posted at 06:24:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people call them "assless chaps", I understand that they are trying to emphasise that they're assless, but that's what makes them chaps instead of just jeans.
itsnachikethahere · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to prove Trigonometric Identities :(
badatusernames17 · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many otherwise logical people can think they just so happened to be born into the only "real" religion without any even remotely compelling evidence. Religions have changed throughout history as we became better able to understand the world, why wouldn't that apply now? I guess I just don't understand blind faith.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the greedy people who get into important government positions are so short-sighted. If they want to keep power and wealth coming, they'd better invest in the people who put them there. Keep the people happy and they'll choose you every time. Instead, people just get the metaphorical shaft in favor of personal interests.
It makes no sense to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:25:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are so ignorant, needy, and selfish and cannot do what they are told to stop the spread of Corona Virus.
queen_ofgeeks · 1 points · Posted at 06:26:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgages.
HungryHornyHigh · 1 points · Posted at 06:26:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where is the internet coming from? I get electricity is processed through a wire in a series of lights that go on and off in accordance to the coding but where is the internet? Is it in the cables or the electro magnetic waves around us?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:26:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This subreddit
Homerdoh31 · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How seasons are a result of the Earth's axis' tilt. I just cannot grasp it in my head.
Arcenies · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's less sunlight in the winter and more in the summer, like how it's cooler in the shade than in the sun. The seasons occur at opposite times in the opposite hemisphere, but the planet is too big for all the heat to equal out
flooflet · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism. Seriously, the fuck is wrong with people looking different from yourself?
Maduras_1991 · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism / Sexism whatever bullshit unwholesome -ism - I genuinely don't understand why not everybody is able to treat each other with decency and respect.
DoomDenny · 1 points · Posted at 06:27:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People complaining about something that they can make better.
PIIG3ON · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How electrical ground works. When is ground used vs the neutral socket? Over time does the electricity have any effect on the actual ground outside over time?
reapacesy · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why butts or boobs are considered attractive. I don’t get it. I don’t get the fact that people can look at someone’s butt and be like “yeaaah that’s a hot butt.” Its weird.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:38:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I feel this.
Baked_potato_x · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a phone call works, like the physical science behind it. You could explain it to me all day long and I still won't be able to wrap my brain around how my voice can travel through wires and someone thousands of miles away can hear me.
It's like alien technology to me.
Baked_potato_x · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, also the universe. Because holy fuck is that thing big and my poor little human brain can't fathom infinity. It gives me a headache to think about the size of it, because it literally doesn't end. And if it does end, then what's outside of it? What's outside of that? And what's outside of that?
It hurts.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:29:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Happiness
klathium · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters who voted for trump
mask_creations · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people drive 70 in a 100 zone but still continue to drive 70 when there is a 50 zone
lirotuhe · 1 points · Posted at 06:30:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Really big pr really small numbers.... How small an atom is or how far away the edge of the universet is . I can:t seem to grasp the idea of it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:31:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 09:55:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I could teach you
livinthedream17 · 1 points · Posted at 06:31:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Craps
TheDjTanner · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Statistical physics
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:32:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy. There are things in my life that bring me joy but I would never say that I am happy.
gmasworstnightmare · 1 points · Posted at 06:34:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Square footage. Specifically relating to houses/apartments/etc. I understand that it's used to describe the size, but understanding what a certain number means is completely lost on me
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 09:54:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I would only ever be able to understand it in comparison to something I already know. My house is x sq ft, the new houses being built are x+2000 sq ft and is therefore bigger. By how much, I still don’t know, but I know it’s bigger
shkabdul · 1 points · Posted at 06:34:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't reply on message , whatsapp etc.? I mean how busy are you to reply with a 'OK'?
Mr-Mcshiny · 1 points · Posted at 06:35:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism
varun_t98 · 1 points · Posted at 06:35:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That how on Earth do hormones affect what we think!! I used to believe that one could control their own thoughts coz, well, it's their own thoughts..
But damn, the fact that some hormones releasing from certain glands have more control over our thoughts than us itself has always bamboozled me!!!
Danfu777 · 1 points · Posted at 06:36:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evolution of Eyes.
I’ve worked for a research lab for a while, went through tons of science related courses in Uni, and devote much of free time to reading related books, papers, and essays. So far I’ve yet to hear convincing evidence as to how the first eyes developed... In conversation, I can explain all the major theories, regurgitate popular explanations, and sound competent and knowledgeable to most people. In reality, it still makes no sense to me. How the hell did creatures go from eyes not existing, to BOOM, you can now “see”? I understand how modern eyes developed from the primordial theory of eyes. But, I have some sort of logic-gap or blind-spot when going from point A (no eyes) to point B (first primordial “eyes”) developed on the first organism.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 07:32:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Danfu777 · 1 points · Posted at 08:43:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s a whole different discussion friend... creationism vs common ancestor evolution. In the labs I’ve worked in and circles I run with, the former is akin to flat-earthers and taken just as seriously. Not dissing creationism or anything, I try to keep an open-mind, but many of my colleagues would laugh if someone presented those ideas to them; then their opinions would never be taken seriously again.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 08:49:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Danfu777 · 1 points · Posted at 09:01:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think the more perspectives the better! Science moves forward by the outliers with unique or controversial ideas.
Mavricx118 · 1 points · Posted at 06:36:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Netflix can keep pushing out the shittiest content.
Like these motherfuckers really made a THIRD SEASON for 13 Reasons Why, like goddamn, and it’s about Bryce Walker, who raped the girl who killed herself in the first season, and their trying to give Bryce some sympathy by showing him bonding with his mother and shit, like what in the goddamn!
Titanus_Gojira120 · 1 points · Posted at 06:39:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
anonymous12342069429 · 1 points · Posted at 06:40:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly probably a really dumb thing but I never understood how instantaneously things can happen over the internet basically just using 1s and 0s ( obviously more complicated) but apart of this is voice and video chat. Probably easily understood by others but it's like magic to me
Bmckay2005 · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry, fuck that shit
LYX-ok · 1 points · Posted at 06:41:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
For me how dumb are some people are who can F*cking afford any high end shit ,why apple trade(I may get blasted by toxic android and apple sheeps) in is a lot different for other countries in my opinion
7hend · 1 points · Posted at 06:42:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why not close the entrance to healthy cities where there is no coronavirus
lighteroticfrisking · 1 points · Posted at 06:42:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I dont know shit about fuck
Blobfishforpresident · 1 points · Posted at 06:42:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why America uses the imperial system.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:25:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Blobfishforpresident · 1 points · Posted at 07:55:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The metric system was made just after the American Revolution, during the French Revolution and put in place in France a few years (decades) later, while everybody was using imperial. The system caught along over Europe for its simplicity over the past couple hundred years and I guess it just didn’t catch along in America, Liberia and Myanmar.
Fun fact: The metric system is actually older than the imperial by 35 years! It just got put into place later!
And yes, I did research it.
Also the answer to why they don’t use it is because they actually did implemented the change, but they did it sloppily, and, instead of making the change compulsory, they made it voluntary and nobody cared enough to change over to another system of measurement.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 06:43:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you were on an infinite, flat plane, and you could see infinitely far, would there be a horizon? If so, what the fuck? If not, would the plane loop up around your head, or at least look like it?
juicyjerry300 · 1 points · Posted at 06:43:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Options trading, I’ve read into it so many times but it is still all so foreign to me.
sponyta2 · 1 points · Posted at 06:44:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computer chips work. Like how does a usb store data?
dasistverboten · 1 points · Posted at 06:45:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Science, particularly anything quantum. I cannot wrap my head around it. I wish I could understand because I find it fascinating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:45:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Belly Buttons
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:06:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:01:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, but like how does it stayed sealed? That fascinates me.
SupremeLeaderKody · 1 points · Posted at 06:47:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. Just the way that materials on earth can create something like a phone or pc is just mind boggling.
Stick_and_Rudder · 1 points · Posted at 06:47:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do we constantly pace back and forth when we have to pee?
Necrozmatic · 1 points · Posted at 06:47:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transphobia, homophobia, racism and all other kinda of prejudice that people can't help being born that way
MissMetalSix · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I have an issue with auditory processing because 90% of the time, I can look straight at someone who’s talking to me, concentrate on nothing except for what they’re saying and not understand a single fucking word.
HateQclegitstores · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry
originalname104 · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
increasing the money supply in economics. Yes, "print more money" but how does it make it's way into the economy and how does the government ensure it keeps moving?
Colossomon · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why I can find romantic interest in some one and then I suddenly lose that interest all of a sudden. I've had most of my relationships end because I suddenly lose my romantic interest for no reason at all and I absolutely HATE this about myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how to bleach hair without crying after because it looks terrible.
Wolf_Nightingale · 1 points · Posted at 06:49:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens when you die, where do you go? Do you even know you are dead? Because do you even have a mind to know you are dead? What do you see?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Online banking, online shopping, credit cards, debit cards, credit. Please help me someone. I don't want your opinion, I just want a factual and consistent answer.
IWillBePoetry · 1 points · Posted at 06:50:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can hurt a person and not feel bad, or even feel good about it. Like, even when I'm writing a story, I have a hard time writing real 'bad' people. I can write selfish or ignorant people, but true sadists... nope
KwtanL · 1 points · Posted at 06:51:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people will never learn something because someone will be around to help them. What if they aren't ? Why can't I find someone to talk about my feelings or thoughts with ? For the student side of me, Geography, China is currently in the stage of transforming from secondary industries to tertiary industries. Who will do the first and secondary industries when all countries have developed ? Biology, How did everything come to be? It can't be just by chance of something randomly coming to be the way it is now. Someone designed it or something did ? Religion, what someone just make something up and people believed in it or something , why ? Humans, why kill each other or argue over some ideas that doesn't make any sense that is completely made up ? Language , why do we still learn something that is over 10 centuries old which are completely irrelevant now ? History I understand but why language ? No one is going to understand or use them. One last thing , what counts as normal ? And what is subjective opinions ?
TMachine97 · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like pulp in their orange juice
SyrensVoice · 1 points · Posted at 06:52:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why a room full of people have to be told the same thing individually before they think it applies to them. Jesus.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The karma system
Shlongerburg · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your mind is quicker than your eye.
honalele · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe is flat.... the universe is flat
xixiboy · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers
AjdinoX · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How this post got a fuckton of upvotes.
Cryonics-01 · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If matter, which is essentially energy, can't be created nor destroyed. Why is perpetual energy impossible? Matter is perpetual isn't it... The universe is running off perpetual energy and the matter of which it is comprised can never go away. Right?
Herazim · 1 points · Posted at 08:31:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can't be created or destroyed, but it can change form. Think of a log, you set it on fire and use that heat to power something, all that energy gets converted to fumes. Now you need to build something else that can use those fumes as an energy source.
The universe is not perpetual, it seems that way because of how vast it is and incomprehensible but it's not perpetual, the universe will eventually run out of energy and stop, it will take billion upon billions of years for that to happen but it will.
Arenyt · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fast time goes by when we are asleep. Like sometimes I’ll get anxiety thinking about it. I’ll purposely stay up late, because I know if I sleep, the next day will come super fast. Staying up late allows me to slow down time.
TheOriginalNukeGuy · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics...
Schobeer · 1 points · Posted at 06:54:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So, my roommate started his master in physics and he's basically learning everything about quantum physics. I don't have to tell you more.
AstridKrake · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably stupid but color. I'm colorblind but it's not like I see in a gray scale, I see color but I see them mixed up.
I can tell which color is which if it's pure but when mixed I'll probably see it differently than most people, but why? Color is perceived by me and I'm telling you how I see it, how do I know that the turquoise you're seeing is not exactly as the green I see but we just name them differently?
I don't even know if I can explain this correctly.
XxHipsterDeathxX · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How fucking computers work man, like how the electricity moves and shit. How typing e on a keyboard makes it appear on the screen. I also know that’s code is behind a lot of it, but who coded the code, how does the machine understand the code that’s being type. God damn.
a_moist_raisin · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we as humans can ruin someone’s day.
sionic79 · 1 points · Posted at 06:55:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are STILL not social distancing.
Sticklarry · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How time has a set beginning and just decided to start existing at the start of the universe.
intangible-tangerine · 1 points · Posted at 06:56:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Linear A
ben_freddy · 1 points · Posted at 06:57:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does something warp space. It literally doesn’t make sense
Suus2004 · 1 points · Posted at 06:57:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexual attraction
Teehokan · 1 points · Posted at 06:57:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, when I die in a game, an entire load screen has to be sat through just to put everything back where it was when I've been affecting the game world in all sorts of ways up until that point with no loading needed.
TotFuzz · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:58:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how printers work, how can they be so fast and yet so accurate, does it stamp the letters one by one, how do the letters get on the paper? I just don't get it.
wordsmitty · 1 points · Posted at 06:59:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept that time began with the Big Bang. That there was no such thing as time before it happened.
H-713 · 1 points · Posted at 07:02:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Laplace transforms.
straight_away · 1 points · Posted at 07:03:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is endless. I just cant get my head around it.
Herazim · 1 points · Posted at 08:07:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Except it's not, our universe is finite, it just keeps expanding and while we will never reach the corners of the universe, it's still an expanding universe, not infinite. At some point that expansion will stop, when all the energy in the universe is expended.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:04:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people call people try hards in video games. Isn’t that the point? To try hard to win?
Vivid_Bird · 1 points · Posted at 07:05:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who like red icing.
Legal-Abalone · 1 points · Posted at 07:05:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
troubledhoney · 1 points · Posted at 07:06:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m an EMT and when I was in school I learned that the chest cavity has negative pressure in it and that’s what allows the lungs to inflate, and if that is compromised (like an open wound into the chest cavity) air comes into the chest cavity and that creates positive pressure and can collapse a lung (pnuemothorax). Like I completely understand the correlation of “air in chest cavity bad” but i still can’t wrap my head around negative and positive pressure, it just makes no fuckin sense to me.
babyProgrammer · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wish I got here earlier, but what, if anything, drives time forward? Where is the next moment coming from? Must the next moment happen? If so, why? What is making that moment in time come to pass? Is there a driving force behind time?
Herazim · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm by no means knowledgable in such things, so this might just be my personal opinion (and therefore invalid).
Time doesn't exist, it's a human concept. What drives everything and what seems like "time" is all the other laws of physics working together.
A star being born from a nebula, a star producing heat and having a massive gravitational pull, planets getting caught in its pull, entropy, living organisms consuming energy and heat to function and so on.
Every moment is generated by everything that is and working according to the laws of the universe.
Elkay_Ezh20 · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
who shot johnny
HeftyJohnson1982 · 1 points · Posted at 07:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don't understand an Einsttein - Rosenbridge. Or how Gravity affects time. Or if it even actually does or not or if it's just velocity.
lullaby876 · 1 points · Posted at 07:09:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really understand microcomputer architecture/Assembly very well.
kaace · 1 points · Posted at 07:12:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The secondary market of anything
kahan_18 · 1 points · Posted at 07:12:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our subconscious mind while dreaming.
Imagine you are dreaming and you are at some place you can't identify. Supposedly you are in a room which you had never seen before and you are casually dream and nothing weird, at this point you can only see the room and a few doors and windows. The thing that fascinates me is when you try to move around like towards on of the doors, our brain tries to render that space for us and it's soo damn perfect (all this happens in a split second). It's like from the movie inception where the build the world/spaces around them but the difference is that our brains do it subconsciously and it's perfect to the finest detail. This makes me think that our brain is more powerful while we are asleep. Anybody else notice such things?
jjjjjyuh · 1 points · Posted at 07:15:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fear of dying and humans worrying about the next generation after death.
I am over-curious about the thought of what and if there is a next and the idea of “this is it”
Why should I care about anything after I’m dead?
plumeria5511 · 1 points · Posted at 07:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
American football
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:35:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The band or the sport?
plumeria5511 · 1 points · Posted at 05:09:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The sport...there’s a band named American football ??
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:53:09 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes they’re a bedroom pop group and they make some really chill music. You’ve probably heard Never Meant from a few memes
Pinkie852 · 1 points · Posted at 07:17:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
SwizzelLime · 1 points · Posted at 07:17:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
xXPurpleRabbitXx · 1 points · Posted at 07:19:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The feeling of staring at a window with closed curtains in a very bright day and the room is dark, or a deserted street in the middle of the afternoon. A lot of places that get deserted in broad daylight kind of gives me this inexplicable sense of distortion in reality somehow and it's really bizarre that it's kind of hard to put into words sometimes.
Anand_Tomy · 1 points · Posted at 07:19:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are humans really an earthling , since human life has emerged the life on Earth has changed so much.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:19:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selfies
HarpySix · 1 points · Posted at 07:19:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who create a new save file for every save of a playthrough instead of just overwriting the old file. Doesn't that just take up space?
Beedlel · 1 points · Posted at 07:20:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What a lucky kind we are to live on a planet and being able to think and not living like a tree or plant
itzpenguinking · 1 points · Posted at 07:20:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theories surrounding the existence of Earth, when i was in 5th grade taking about stuff on how the Earth existed, they said the Big Bang theory, a star supernova theory and another one which i forgot, I paid all attention to the explanations and still hasn't understand these theories, During quarantine I'm still helping myself understand what they mean.
Cleanest_Boi · 1 points · Posted at 07:21:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans can be so evil. Its disturbing
GooddBaddLlamaa · 1 points · Posted at 07:21:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
other humans
blank_flare · 1 points · Posted at 07:21:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That we can die for america before we can drink a cold one
IshkaPt · 1 points · Posted at 07:22:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
Redninjas · 1 points · Posted at 07:22:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I sound so weird on video but normal in real life.... Do I sound like that?
Skyfall106 · 1 points · Posted at 07:23:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation or General Relitivity, I don’t understand how it’s plausible
jolanda99 · 1 points · Posted at 07:23:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it is still a question if abortion should be legal.
It should always be legal, everywhere.
shadow_girl-666 · 1 points · Posted at 07:23:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why ps3 did not get the village and pillage update on Minecraft, but stopped at update aquatic. Like, it's the only edition of Minecraft that didn't get the village and pillage update. It sucks but I just have to deal with it... Btw if you were wondering, yes i have a ps3, and it's what I play on.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Don’t worry. I still use my Xbox 360 and I am perfectly content with it
shadow_girl-666 · 1 points · Posted at 07:38:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm fine with it too I just really want them to update the rest of the platforms you can play Minecraft on. Its annoying but like, what can you really do ya know.
reddit_sage69 · 1 points · Posted at 07:23:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion. No offense to anyone. I just don't get how people are so confident in a higher power when there's, in my opinion, no evidence.
And then all of the writing and rules for it. It's so nuanced. How do you know what's right and what's wrong?
Genuinely curious!
Tyler-LR · 1 points · Posted at 07:24:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
TheWeirdKid18263 · 1 points · Posted at 07:25:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
Girl_from_DK · 1 points · Posted at 07:25:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So i'm danish, my best friend is chinese. (This is importen to the story. ) She speaks danish, english, german and chinese. So one night when we where walking home, she was speaking with her chinese mother, I was walking in beside her, just thinking about things, when one question poped into my head. "does she think in danish, english or chinese?" Becauce when we talk we speak half danish and half english.
To all of you, that speak more then one language. What language do you think in?
Herazim · 1 points · Posted at 07:36:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A mix of both native language and English. But for different purposes, I think native for serious things and English for anything else that pops into my head.
Gudrobilk · 1 points · Posted at 07:26:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Concept of Love.
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naomichels · 1 points · Posted at 07:28:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of returning purchased goods. Here it is your reponsibility to know what you're buying, and almost no store accept returns.
Kaleidoscope02 · 1 points · Posted at 07:30:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
krstnamarie · 1 points · Posted at 07:30:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sound. Inputs, outputs, channels, etc. I'll get it to do the thing I need for a moment, but ask me a minute later and I've confused myself again. It's an endless cycle of trial and error with no real learning for me and drives me nuts.
imdaholymink6345 · 1 points · Posted at 07:31:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my girlfriend acts so superior to me
ravefan · 1 points · Posted at 07:31:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
lushslc · 1 points · Posted at 07:31:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How coding websites works, how in the world does code become designed things on the internet? How do you make it look how you want????
Whuwisp · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The start of the universe. Makes me believe in god
mr_nudle · 1 points · Posted at 07:36:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y the ppl in the basement wont stop screaming
TheNotoriousMJT · 1 points · Posted at 07:36:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why fully grown men like Marvel films.
ciscowizneski · 1 points · Posted at 07:38:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people spend real money on this website
_djur_ · 1 points · Posted at 07:39:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the interface of the application Z-Brush. What a mess.
jfire777 · 1 points · Posted at 07:39:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit... specifically politics... just wow
compendium88 · 1 points · Posted at 07:41:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not trolling, not out for a fight, not trying to be an instigator, but I honestly genuinely don’t understand republican ways of thinking and general right wing views of the world.
PunnyButNotThatFunny · 1 points · Posted at 07:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to make friends and keep them
compendium88 · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, and the obsession with mumble rap.
hank2d2 · 1 points · Posted at 07:42:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers. It's a guilty pleasure to watch the videos of flat earth believers. There's something special about people so lost in their convictions that they ignore solid tangible evidence and then talk like you're the stupid one.
sirshuffle · 1 points · Posted at 07:43:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How TV franchises earn money by their shows, especially local ones. How is views converted into money?
And photographs. It's hard to understand what happens inside of the camera.
Fr3ddaM · 1 points · Posted at 07:44:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How humans managed to conceptualize a working computer thousands of years ago. Like, how did they even know?
GeekMosquito · 1 points · Posted at 07:44:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How currency values work
sshranjay · 1 points · Posted at 07:44:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christopher Nolan movies in the first go
DJEFFF900 · 1 points · Posted at 07:45:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are willfully ignorant
MrTsquared88 · 1 points · Posted at 07:45:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How it’s possible for me to quickly mention trix cereal, hold my phone in front of my face moments later, my phone recognizes specific pixels as regions of my face, uniquely identifies it as my face, and then opens up to Instagram where I can see ads for trix.
And despite the fact that we have the technology to do all this, when I highlight my text and hit ‘caps lock’ the text doesn’t automatically switch to capital letters.
emilyjayp · 1 points · Posted at 07:45:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Credit/debit cards. How does plastic know so much?
Yossarian287 · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The real impact of the national debt. We owe the vast majority to ourselves. China's and Japan's stake is less than 10% and completely exaggerated in the media. The debt fairly reasonable until the early 80's when Congress went nuts. And the two parties actually operate as polar opposites of their standard party lines. Debt skyrockets under Republicans and recovers under Democrats. I think Bill Clinton actually balanced the budget during his tenure working with both parties
I don't think anyone knows what it means over the long term because it's never happened without a country going bankrupt
beferney · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. I just... can’t grasp it. Like, you buy a stock, but it’s not a tangible thing, it’s like an investment..? And is there a finite number of stocks for one company, or do they conceptually have no limit?
Idk. I have a BS in Chemistry and now I’m working on an advanced degree and stocks just continue to baffle me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
In video games and movies how did the ancient people discover magic spells? How did they know what to say and if they wrote it and made it themselves why not make it just like “boof” and not a paragraph long sentence while also having to do weird hand motions in the movie Onwards (IDK ITS NOT REALLY SPOILERS BUT IT COULD BE) it could have ended in 20 mins if the spells were just one word long and they didn’t have to do weird things like focus on one thing and “sPeAk FrOm YoUr HeArTs FiRe”
Caskimmor · 1 points · Posted at 07:46:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Americans and how idiotic and stubborn they can be.
Soepoelse123 · 1 points · Posted at 07:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Americans are not revolting against their oppressive government when most of them are willing to use their guns for said purpose?
serious_filip · 1 points · Posted at 07:48:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space
BulliesSuck123 · 1 points · Posted at 07:48:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think it's okay to pretend you're the opposite gender. Like, they probably click 'custom' when a website or login asks for their gender.
NicNole · 1 points · Posted at 07:49:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity. I know the earth is round, and I know it keeps us on earth, but my brain just can’t comprehend how the people living on the countries at the bottom of earth don’t feel like they are upside down.
brumbles2814 · 1 points · Posted at 07:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Im dyslexic and cant retain the knowlege I gain about it so every day im back to the start.
The worst part is when someone believes that "they and they alone will be the one to teach me!!" And it ends in failure and frustration for them.
Im 40 now and can be reduced to tears in seconds by someone getting a scrap of paper and saying "right...long devision its easy really"
ash_alwi · 1 points · Posted at 07:52:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald Trump
YLI4 · 1 points · Posted at 07:52:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People. Their thoughts. Mindsets. Worldviews. Why is everything difficult? Why is everything so complicated? Why is it that contentment and happiness are too hard to find for someone. Especially to someone who claims that she knows exactly what she wants.
BeAnNuke · 1 points · Posted at 07:53:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Busting my head open and drowning on multiple occasions and I’m still here
AlbusDM3 · 1 points · Posted at 07:53:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
evolution in the sense that animals evolve to their surroundings lol. The one that made me question this particularly was like a fox that has white fur during the winter to blend in with snow and then sheds it and has brown fur to blend in during the other months.... lol like howwwww does it’s dna and fur even do that. Like I understand why just not how I don’t know.
ikalwewe · 1 points · Posted at 07:53:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is to commit suicide in French "se suicider " -- in the reflexive .
Suicide by itself is already reflexive. You cannot suicide another person.
cameroo_n · 1 points · Posted at 07:54:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my dad left...
SleepyMidnightReader · 1 points · Posted at 07:54:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 07:54:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would wear shoes inside their home, I will never understand..
captainidfk · 1 points · Posted at 07:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Colour, how do I know if I see the same purple as you see?
Possibly_A_Hero · 1 points · Posted at 07:56:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people reply with Kpop clips on Twitter that seems to have nothing to do with the reply or the original comment
ashburns100 · 1 points · Posted at 07:56:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics. But I think that’s the point right?
cheesus123456789 · 1 points · Posted at 07:58:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra
How tf am i suposed to find wat a is its a fucking letter why is it there
riskofruin456 · 1 points · Posted at 08:00:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still don’t get how a tv works it blows my mind
AlbertOnReddit01 · 1 points · Posted at 08:01:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
SquidThumbs · 1 points · Posted at 08:02:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spelling
mouseroulette · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Federal Reserve and central banking system
LaSage · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can it be that despite the fact that trump is clearly compromised and beholden to a foreign power, and despite the fact that he is activly working against the health and well being of Americans, and despite the fact that t is causing the deaths of countless Americans, how in God's name is he still in his job as though he weren't committing treasonous War Crimes?
-Lumine_ · 1 points · Posted at 08:03:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human emotiones
z0mbie_420 · 1 points · Posted at 08:04:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
College: how financial aid works? how student loans work?
Voingo · 1 points · Posted at 08:04:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
HighTide49 · 1 points · Posted at 08:06:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How blind people use reddit. And yes, they're out there.
MaximusDell · 1 points · Posted at 08:07:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Computers. I am pretty good at using computers, and I am more educated than the majority of people on computer stuff, but I get completely lost with certain parts. I dont understand how a combination of parts can result in a computer experience. In my head I know what each individual part does, but it baffles me how they just magically work together. Also, folders and files. Oh my god. I am horrible with downloads and getting certain files to run. I play vr and try to install mods for certain games. But when I have to go into the game files, and pick the correct folder, I just get utterly confused.
Mr_Robot81 · 1 points · Posted at 08:07:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
itsmemanME · 1 points · Posted at 08:07:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get pissed that I do my work properly.
thecozycat · 1 points · Posted at 08:10:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dissociative Identity Disorder: I've always been amazed with people having it, as they display the personalities are distinct and possess skills that the host doesn't even have.
Jettett · 1 points · Posted at 08:11:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck is wrong with humanity, (I know that this next part is a touchy subject but I think it proves my point) for example...Candace newmaker yeah I know but before I get to my point in case anyone hasn’t heard of Candace newmaker or her story here’s the link to the transcript start of with this (quick content warning it’s extremely disgusting as in a disgusting visual of this horrid story so fair warning) https://www.ratbags.com/rsoles/comment/candace.htm there’s the link but anyway my point is that humanity is just disgusting so yeah I genuinely don’t know what is wrong with humans
bjjess17 · 1 points · Posted at 08:14:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How every time my wife asks me a question and after I give her my answer she says I’m wrong, why the hell does she even ask me than???? 🤯🤯🤐🤐🤬
Skinipinis · 1 points · Posted at 08:14:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who like cuckholding.
elainaxp · 1 points · Posted at 08:14:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans wont revolt
elzeeablo · 1 points · Posted at 08:14:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Antivaxxers. Just why?
_PLEASE_DONT_PM_ME · 1 points · Posted at 08:15:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was little I used to think to myself “if I draw a line straight up in the air, and keep going, what comes after we leave the earths atmosphere? And after we leave space? And keep traveling in the same direction forever, what’s after “nothing”, and what’s after nothing’s nothing?? And after that? And after that?”
QuantumStorm0 · 1 points · Posted at 08:15:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths, like how do people add, subtract, divison, multiplying but why can i barely do it but yet only get length and width and height.
blueish_cookie · 1 points · Posted at 08:15:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The whole thing about stock market and Wall Street stuff…
politicalup24 · 1 points · Posted at 08:18:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "by the way" I understand what it means, but why do those words mean that, I don't get it.
_ilina_trif_ · 1 points · Posted at 08:19:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How coding works. Like wtf do u need a slash here or a file. there. Also, how tf does a cockpit work?? too many buttons, switches, it's like tryin to choose a chocolate but they're all your favourites and u dk which to choose.
dockmayrtens · 1 points · Posted at 08:20:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain me like I'm 5 year old: how does computer learn to create faces from scratch like in "thispersondoesntexistdotcom"
Throwawaybecause7777 · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, what drugs (medicines) are made of.
I know that sounds stupid, but I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Emotions.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
For real though, it's fascinating to me how the human brain can take photons or vibrations and turn them into images or sounds. It's just...crazy.
aoi_fikoritsu · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I can't remember yesterday or the day before yesterday unless something emotionally scarring or just relevant happened that day
PasTu777 · 1 points · Posted at 08:23:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck do people like history?
Shinkekku · 1 points · Posted at 08:26:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
american politics and presidential decisions
i live in New Zealand, where the corona virus has only taken four lives, due to the efforts of oir prime minister and Parliament. i can't comprehend what the fuck is wrong with trumps head
Fealuinix · 2 points · Posted at 16:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm pretty sure trying is bad for one's own head.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That people don't seem to translate or express their 'second silence'.
There is always that memory or thought we recognize as 'oh yeah, that thing' but there is also that second silence which only surfaces for intense/impactful things which tend to be the moments that make us go 'well, this is me now'.
A second silence is essentially the part of our brain/internal dialogue that goes 'if all obstacles are removed then I'm in!' while the first silence is the one that goes 'what can I learn from this?'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMxyi0TK_ms
If there was ever a contender for what I just said it would probably be how translation/transition isn't taught as a basic idea or class in schools. Not specifically foreign language but the general idea that there are always two unknowns that we are living/operating within and being able to take two unknowns and make a thing from an existing understanding of it, then present that to another, and have them recognize or relate to the output product is just a joy.
Deganawida33 · 1 points · Posted at 08:29:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
religion
bananas7777 · 1 points · Posted at 08:29:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apostrophes
MeTA_2x · 1 points · Posted at 08:30:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
QUATERNIONS honestly fuck them
Fealuinix · 1 points · Posted at 16:34:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know just enough to not want to delve any further.
heckleveryfine · 1 points · Posted at 08:34:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politeness. Sugar coating.
tylerv50 · 1 points · Posted at 08:36:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have zero idea what the internet actually is
Fealuinix · 1 points · Posted at 16:30:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a series of tubes!
tylerv50 · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You just gave me more questions than answers
johnnyle530 · 1 points · Posted at 08:37:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Serious question for all the scientist out there! I dont get why theres a way to remove or safely contain radiation from a nuclear site. I mean is there nothing we can do for disaster sites like, Chernobyl?
Is there nothing on this planet that can safely absorb, remove it, destroy radiation or radiated materials?
pastryalchemist · 1 points · Posted at 08:37:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ghosts.
How are we able to see them with cameras? Do they think it’s the time period they died? Do they know the current time period? How are they bound to us? How are they more active around certain people and not others?
It confuses me and intrigues me all at the same time.
Also, demons. Where do they come from? What determines a soul becomes demonic?
Rafael0969 · 1 points · Posted at 08:46:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Demons are fallen angels..
iceepop · 1 points · Posted at 08:38:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I’m so fugly
karolikonst · 1 points · Posted at 08:39:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How vinyl records work! How the heck is there music carved into an object physically. It blows my mind, especially that they came up with this method and used it for recording in the early XX century.
The-Pixel-Phantom · 1 points · Posted at 08:43:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I so tired throughout the day, but the second I can lay down and go to bed at a normal time, my body wont let me sleep?
luisfc95 · 1 points · Posted at 08:43:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers
mossd88 · 1 points · Posted at 08:44:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti vaxxers
Jumbo_jello1055 · 1 points · Posted at 08:45:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting random stiffies. they should only happen when the dick is passionately touched
crzyboii1212 · 1 points · Posted at 08:47:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fellow teenagers.
dilipmodi · 1 points · Posted at 08:47:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Music
ChillWisdom · 1 points · Posted at 08:48:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans being selfish assholes and ruining things for everyone else. The list is long.
silvercoloredskies · 1 points · Posted at 08:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who get so paralyzed by the idea of making a decision, even if it seems obvious.
When I was younger I had a friend who was a genuinely smart and passionate person. She always spoke about her dreams and how she would execute them if she only had the chance. Due to long, irrelevant reasons she lived with my parents and I for a short period of time where the only expense she had to pay was her phone bill. After a few months and some research my parents offered to pay for her to go to school for her dream. It wasn't a lot of money to them and they've always been the kind of people to help where they can. They sat her down and laid out that they were willing to pay for all expenses, so she would continue to only have to worry about her phone bill, and at no point did they expect her to pay them back. She asked if she could "think about it". Granted, this was a big decision and for anyone who doesn't know my parents it might sound to good to be true. But she had known us for years and knew that this was the kind of pay-it-forward thing I was raised on. After months of my parents and I bringing it up to her about every other week we realized she was never going to decide and gave up. I really don't understand.
In a less extreme case I also once dated a boy who was so indecisive that he texted me to ask if he should take a shower or a bath because his family was out of the house so he couldn't ask them. Lol, I really don't get people.
Double_Jet · 1 points · Posted at 08:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why movies can't be assed to actually put liquid in the props. It is kind of ridiculous watching the actors 'drink'. If it was up to me, I would put liquid in.
Etwusino · 1 points · Posted at 08:51:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vision after light gets converted to neuron signals.
The eyes are pretty straight forward thing. You just have bunch of sensors that convert light to signals. But what happens after that? How does brain processes this signals? Where is the final image projected?
saltyguy101 · 1 points · Posted at 08:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Random guys asking women for nudes out of nowhere, over text obviously. Its super weird and reaaallllly creepy. Stop. This goes both ways just males do it a lot more.
SnorriGrisomson · 1 points · Posted at 08:51:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Freee will
It looks real. But it can only be an illusion.
Not_So_Good26 · 1 points · Posted at 08:52:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreaming of things in your life before they happen.
I've had many occasions since I was young where I have a weird and vivid dream. I wake up wondering who it was I was with or in places I never thought I would ever be.
Eventually the day arrives where that dream comes to life and I catch it. I remember having the dream and there I am in the middle of it.
I have even remembered the moment a person walked into the room in my dream and I knew they were coming before they arrived.
People have told me it's a good thing to have dreams or deja vu like this though, they say it means your where your supposed to be or your on the right path in your life.
It's just one of those things in life that I don't understand. How does it work? Can I learn to do it whenever I want? Why does it happen?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 08:53:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism
Aya-sama · 1 points · Posted at 08:54:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreams I guess. They are very complex and intricate. We don't know why they exist and what is the purpose of our dream in our daily lives. Why sometimes we don't have a dream and why sometimes we forget it really really quick.
DarkMind03 · 1 points · Posted at 08:54:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The instinct many people have to slap bags of rice/soil/flour/soap. I don't know what makes our ape brains go "hmm yes smooth shiney surface, must slap" I've seen people of all ages and sizes do it. And although I don't understand it, I will continue to slap the bags.
DeadHED · 1 points · Posted at 08:57:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Spades, the card game. I don't get the strategy and I don't understand the point of it.
saud001 · 1 points · Posted at 08:57:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
CharmTLM · 1 points · Posted at 08:59:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is our inner voice better than our real voice?!
Libra8 · 1 points · Posted at 08:59:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I/you dream and you are in a crowd of people and you don't know any of them. Your mind created their faces.
YouYeehdYourLastHah · 1 points · Posted at 08:59:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why nobody has even tried to assassinate trump yet.
lunalunalunaluan · 1 points · Posted at 09:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love :/
totalllost · 2 points · Posted at 10:10:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a choice. It's commitment. It's perseverance. It's hard work. Make the right choice
lunalunalunaluan · 2 points · Posted at 18:19:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know, you killed me with your explanation. I have never felt this. I don’t know what love is and it’s hard for me to understand. I experienced a huge gamut of feelings for people, but nothing like love. Like pity, yes it was, sympathy, respect for people. But there is no love. What is it? Explain how it feels?
lagunaisacoolguy · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mortgage in the US
SoggyWombat69 · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amazon prime interface
Possible-Ride · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could murder in the name of religion.
FraSuomi · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend
EmollientFish · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to have a conscious.
YourWifeNdKids · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Instinct, something just feels....off somehow but I don't know what or why and it's usually right
fuckmeff · 1 points · Posted at 09:03:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My desire to be approved and complimented. Mostly concerning my penis and face, vanity uhg!
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 09:04:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pysically selective sexualities.
Im pan, so other than hearing the same small dick crockery jokes (jrockery?), I also don't care about what you are. I get going over personalities more than anything. Sure, there are bodies that I love, but they're like irrelevant bonuses to the attraction - I have never once saw someone, no matter how much I enjoyed looking at them, and wanted them to bed me.
Now some dork talking about mongolian linguistics? Fuck yes take me now. Don't even finish the sentence, you've already got me.
I can understand asexual peeps, and aro to a degree, because it's the same but in reverse kinda, but hetro, homo, bi, etc? Fucking bizzare to me. Like, in theory they don't even have to be human - so long as they're an adult who can give legal informned consent, a cow with a good personality is as good as any human. Bodies are just a non-factor to me and I can not, for the life of me, understand how they can matter so much to y'all.
thebobrup · 1 points · Posted at 09:57:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
First. This oddly turned me on... dont know why??
Hmm my theory based on a constructivism philo way. Its basicly that people trough the times have “learned from evolution that people need a good and healty partner” to mate with, and this is passed trough social-capital from generation to generation.
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 13:31:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, I understand the logic behind it, I just can't 'get' it as an experience. Like telling a blind person about what it's like to see: makes sense but also so alien at the same time.
I kinda pity them - it's like a buffet but you're allergic to everything except one dish. except you want to fuck the food, i guess.
thebobrup · 1 points · Posted at 14:06:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basicly for you, its you look at the buffet and like the taste of the food, just not the look of the food or the mouthfeel of the food.
Kalaan · 1 points · Posted at 18:59:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Kinda. I appreciate the look and the feel, but I have a.. much greater, I suppose, appreciation for the taste, the chemistry of the combinations, the nurtrional value, and all that other internal stuff because I don't have to spend time lusting over the curve of a lettuce leaf.
This is different to people who 'fall in love after a while' or 'but he's got a nice personality' - I can want to fuck someone after a simple greeting, so it's not like it'a delayed response either.
DrSalty33 · 1 points · Posted at 09:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people grasp music theory and apply it to their instrument of choice. I've played guitar for 4 years now and I struggle learning a song and even then I cant tell people the notes. I dont know how they process the information in a way that it just.. stays and they can then learn the next thing. (There are no teachers in my area and Yousician sucks.)
isaacdjb · 1 points · Posted at 09:05:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why so many people in the US want guns so bad.
Finneganmac · 1 points · Posted at 09:09:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks. Not for companies like Tesla no no no I mean like who the fuck decides when the Canadian dollar is worth less all of a sudden, The CEO of money?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:10:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics, but then again who does
A1BC095 · 1 points · Posted at 09:11:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how an engine works
Peach1o2 · 1 points · Posted at 09:13:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you ask anyone I know, they'll say I'm an idiot and understand nothing, but what they dont know is that i want them to think of me like that because if I dont want to talk to them I can easily play off the dumb blonde act and then easily slip away. Oh but I am still an idot, how else did you think I could play it off so easily? I've got years of experience under my belt. XD
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:14:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they build bridges.
Used_Front · 1 points · Posted at 09:14:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why are there no businesses in the US that are charging for the right to die, whilst there are businesses that charge for right to live?
Easy money.
rockyitalianstallion · 1 points · Posted at 09:18:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
rainelle95 · 1 points · Posted at 09:18:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. Don't understand what it is, how it works, or how to calculate it. I'm not dumb and I've always been good at math. Just cannot seem to grasp the concept.
11varine · 1 points · Posted at 09:18:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How was that not a headshot
Sexmasternumba1 · 1 points · Posted at 09:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why I was bullied
FakeOrpheus17 · 1 points · Posted at 09:20:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can’t we simply live in peace? Fuck war, fuck discrimination. We are all the same people, regardless of skin colour.
therealzienko · 1 points · Posted at 09:21:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How information is stored on usbs? Or floppy disks for that matter.
dadbitches · 1 points · Posted at 09:21:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stocks and stock market work
derby_scarlet · 1 points · Posted at 09:22:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand time. The timezones, how it came to be, or how it works in space. Time is confusing.
PACo626 · 1 points · Posted at 09:22:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry.
WarchiefServant · 1 points · Posted at 09:22:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That living beings exist, most if not all, have a general 50/50 split or at least close to it. Like, how?
That’s some crazy thing.
mrsmeaseaks · 1 points · Posted at 09:23:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is the universe infinite? Like there’s no end? My brain can’t wrap around it.
jac98wal · 1 points · Posted at 09:25:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity.
EasyToRememberName5 · 1 points · Posted at 09:26:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you ”see” something in your mind while looking at something else and how you can perceive both, as well as the fact I can see colours in my head even though I don’t have any way to perceive them
Raidarbg · 1 points · Posted at 09:26:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
FlyingSquirelOi · 1 points · Posted at 09:27:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to tie shoes, I’m 20 years old and still can’t get it.
sorrynotsorry7 · 1 points · Posted at 09:28:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can go through an entire childhood and not remember much of anything. No TBI, or any other trauma. Just no vivid memories. Like they weren’t really present or ever in the moment. How did that person pass through school if they weren’t paying attention?
Draxios4827 · 1 points · Posted at 09:28:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are mean just for the sake of being mean :/
indianzfan2 · 2 points · Posted at 12:09:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it makes them feel superior. They have crappy lives and being mean makes them feel better.
Zuhairpe · 1 points · Posted at 09:29:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stocks.
RazGrox · 1 points · Posted at 09:31:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
especially options
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:29:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math with letters and numbers. Anything past 9th grade Algebra I have not been able to comprehend for the life of me.
maxilos101 · 1 points · Posted at 09:30:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how someone dealing with a problem can attack it head on with confidence and courage, but facing a different problem they will break down and hide from it
How can the mind/brain/person be so different, sure I understand the problem may be different but why would you change the way you approach it?
If you get results being confident, why is your go-to to be a coward another time? Especially if the problem you hid from comes round again and again?
It baffles me
JayAreH · 1 points · Posted at 09:30:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fact resistance. Why can political leaders get away with incompetent decision making and being caught in obvious lies again and again? It becomes a joke and almost normal, but they don’t seem to loose democratic popularity because of it. Why is that even possible? How come humanity haven’t found a solution to this yet? It really scares me and I don’t understand why it is being accepted by the majority of people. That’s not how democracy is supposed to be.
Mad_Mab · 1 points · Posted at 09:32:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stock market
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:33:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the concept of marriage.
BlackMorzan · 1 points · Posted at 09:34:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why recursion is better
greekjesuss · 1 points · Posted at 09:36:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Existence...Ok we exist in earth then we die and we go to heaven,a parallel universe,another dimension and who knows where but even those who are already there, were somewhere before that and before that like how does heaven or this dimension exist where did it come from what is the source of that existence? And if we do find out what that source is then again what is the source of THAT existence?No matter where you go there always was something before that and after that and its so crazy i can't even process that
OctobersAutumn · 1 points · Posted at 09:39:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the concept of obtaining per capita data appears to be lost on most people. Most recently: The US has more deaths from COVID-19 than Italy. Um, yes we do. We also have 5x plus the population, so it is going to get a lot worse. But this doesn't just come up in situations like the world is in right now, it is all the time. People compare cities, states, countries, etc. without using per capita information (which is honestly the tip of the iceberg, but what people should be doing minimally).
drillerboy · 1 points · Posted at 09:39:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
3 year olds,
bunnyh0pp · 1 points · Posted at 09:41:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how guys dicks work
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:26:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's an inflatable tube of meat, what's there to misunderstand?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rap music.
I really don't get it. The only rap songs I've ever liked are by Lonely Island, which just highlights how much I don't get rap.
Jamano-Eridzander · 1 points · Posted at 09:44:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Periods. Logically speaking there's no reason a female (of any species) should even have periods. All it really does is cause pain.
VowoV-Mr-dog · 1 points · Posted at 09:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people like music albums not individual songs.
MickyEngy · 1 points · Posted at 09:47:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life...
Enervation-Sage · 1 points · Posted at 09:50:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my father doesn't love me......
Sorry, too sombre? But on a less personal note, as a teacher I see parents all the time who clearly don't love their children. I would say a solid 5 to 10% of my students are neglected. And that's not including the children that get actively abused.
frodorick90 · 1 points · Posted at 09:51:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. I tried it so many Times. Still i Just cant get it
SRWfangirl · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. I Just dont understand why we have to learn something Like sin, cos, tan, and stuff Like that, especially If you already know you wont need it in your Future.
Also: why are so many people afraid of spiders? Poisonous spiders i would understand, but this simple small housspiders, what are they gonna do to you? Your a hundret Times bigger, you can simply kill it If needed? why are yOU RUNNING?
the_twigs_kid · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people with autism are judged for something they have no control over.
Gredush · 1 points · Posted at 09:53:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
String theory. I just can't wrap my head around this theory at all.
CrystalJizzDispenser · 1 points · Posted at 09:55:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand poetry
Hitlers_Forskin · 1 points · Posted at 09:56:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes, how to apply for a loan, how to use a credit card, math in general, social interaction.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 09:57:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it shows your location if you google “we are here with you”
BerserkRenegade · 1 points · Posted at 09:58:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Graphing anything in math.
LavaBricks26 · 1 points · Posted at 10:03:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think of it like chess or dancing on a tile floor
kirs7604 · 1 points · Posted at 10:00:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of energy. Why/how is ATP making us able to move our body? I don't understand how something at a chemical level can "correlate" to a broad term such as energy.
It also seems like energy has a different meaning depending on the context, and that is so confusing to me: When talking about energy in psychics, I feel like I'm starting from square one again
(I know that there are plenty of other types of energy, but I still don't understand any of them, lol)
mercer47 · 1 points · Posted at 10:01:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does an RMBK reactor explode ?
LavaBricks26 · 1 points · Posted at 10:02:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe at an objective level. Or really anything objectively to be honest unless in conversation or debate.
Noobc0re · 1 points · Posted at 10:03:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people love sad stories, or moments in stories.
stolen-username6969 · 1 points · Posted at 10:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that the universe is always expanding
sconesolo · 1 points · Posted at 10:05:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Long division
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:06:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Prime numbers. Square roots. Trigonometry.
I don’t have enough time left on this earth to learn these things.
Diabocal · 1 points · Posted at 10:07:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of infinity. Mainly because if there turns out to be an afterlife, you can do nothing for infinity long and still have an infinite amount of time left, the whole idea just boggles me.
Poppyset96 · 1 points · Posted at 10:07:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How your preceptors or mentors (in your relevant profession) get a kick out of being a jerk. It’s like they want to watch you cry in order to feel as if they are superior, idk. I work in healthcare and my preceptors on all my rotations have always tried to upset me, but it never bothers me.
mrsgremlin · 1 points · Posted at 10:08:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.
How to push through a relationship when times are tough and you both can’t seem to get past being just “surface happy”..
How people decide to purposely cough on others during times like this..
beyayyellyay · 1 points · Posted at 10:09:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hair Conditioner
Bottle - After applying a generous amount, rinse off completely. Protects your hair.
Me - I don’t believe you
esther0777 · 1 points · Posted at 10:11:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we perceive colour!?! I once spent 10 minutes desperately trying to see yellow under only blue light and it was low-key frustrating.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:12:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can believe in a god or gods. My opinion is, it is a form of hypnotism or they are mentally unwell.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:12:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any sort of religion, but mostly those that involve higher beings or other wacky stuff. Ive grown up around different denominations of Christianity, but my parents aren’t very religious and therefore I was never too involved with it.
classical_daniel · 1 points · Posted at 10:14:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity, always when I think about space and that there's universe on top of universe on too of universe and so on. It blows my mind
siescool · 1 points · Posted at 10:17:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know if this is just me but the fact that we’re breathing and seeing and just being alive I don’t know how to explain but I just look around and I think to myself "fuck this is actually real im actually real i Can fucken see and im standing here" then as I think about it more it starts to seem like it’s fake i don’t know
glassonatable · 1 points · Posted at 10:19:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism, sexism, homophobia etc. Like why would anyone out anyone else below them just because they look a bit different/have different views? Beyond me
quarteringsea · 1 points · Posted at 10:19:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No way out. Was Costner a spy or not?
trythetaint · 1 points · Posted at 10:21:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity
Nuppa_Nuppa07 · 1 points · Posted at 10:21:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my fifth grade teacher -who traumatized half a class with yelling and barely taught us anything- didn't get fired. I cried myself to sleep multiple times because I didn't want to go to school the next morning. Thank FSM we got a new teacher for sixth grade but still! HOW DID HE MANAGE TO GET OUT OF THAT WITHOUT ANY PUNISHMENT!?
mr-creator · 1 points · Posted at 10:21:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When your brain sends signals. If your arm was super long could there be a delay? Sure the brain sends signals to move stuff, but what sends those signals? How does it know when to send the signals? Surely we don’t just think of it like “move finger 7 up two centimeters” it’s just happens.
ganwaniKamal · 1 points · Posted at 10:22:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People hunting down other people
human hates other human
honeybeary · 1 points · Posted at 10:23:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything math related more than the basics. I've never been diagnosed with any type of learning or mental disability but for some reason I just cant wrap my mind around numbers. At all. It's like being only fluent in English but trying to read Spanish. Its so embarrassing to me and I hate talking about this. I just have so much trouble. I cant spot patterns or even so basic budgeting without having to write things physically or do charts to understand what's going on :(
KluverBlucy99 · 1 points · Posted at 10:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the contradictory nature and trajectory of emotions. how they change from once upon a time “i can’t wait to see you” to “i won’t mind if we never saw each other again”, as you grow out of a particular love. how sometimes they feel just the same even after many years as they all come crashing back like a wave when you see someone you loved once again. how you can be content with and genuinely care for someone, but be completely in love- a very different type of love- with someone else.
sir-spooks123 · 1 points · Posted at 10:26:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:30:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That I am me. I have my own thoughts. That I’m unique. It blows my mind.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:35:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Higher Physics
ochipapo · 1 points · Posted at 10:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is this one thing I've been trying to wrap my head around since forever, really scared me sometimes as a kid. I was never religious, so as a kid I always thought nothing would happen after our death, today I just dont know what will happen or if anything will happen. But let's say nothing happens. That nothing eill be eternal, literally, there is no end to this reality. and rven if there is, time cant stop it goes on for ever, now I ponder that for a while and really try to realize what it means not to exist for the rest of eternity, and whenever I think about i hard enough theres this point where the thought really flashes me and makes me go oh shit. I dont know why, and as a kid as I said, this absolutely terrified me.
ApUmKinFaCe · 1 points · Posted at 10:37:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
Bored_lurker87 · 1 points · Posted at 10:37:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry... I used Algebra to solve most Geometry questions in HS. Needless to say I got a c-, but somehow still passed.
vishals14101993 · 1 points · Posted at 10:37:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand / can't visualise infinity. Mathematical rules just fail when applied to infinity. e.g. 2infinity = 3infinity. Why can't the world be simpler.
MissFallout92 · 1 points · Posted at 10:38:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I ask what could wrong with my car and they start asking questions and my mind just stops working
Monochrome_YT · 1 points · Posted at 10:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you can automatically "sense" if a TV is on standby when you walk into a room, or turned off.
Similarly, how you can ALWAYS tell when someone is looking at you from across the room.
How?
asasnow · 1 points · Posted at 10:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bloom in fortnite.
madelinemarymayhem · 1 points · Posted at 10:39:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Two-laned roundabouts. Why don't we crash?
KobraByte15 · 1 points · Posted at 10:42:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's so hard to just stay the fuck home
thecumbucket_ · 1 points · Posted at 10:43:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People's emotions. I'm really not good at empathy and understanding how people feel.
TerrorBirb · 1 points · Posted at 10:43:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that my consciousness isn't actually located in particular place, just roughly around my head. Making my brain feel more like a biological accessory that I barely notice.
How the things inside our body can stretch for thousands of miles but condense into a figure of about 6 ft tall.
The terminology of guns and how exactly they work.
Why every action has a reaction, even when it doesn't make sense.
How bees can fly.
How gravity can hold everything together but be so weak.
How and why we're here, and how random everything actually is when you think about it.
Whether or not animals have thoughts.
How the human body is so strong and weak at the same time.
That's all I can really think of right now
pushpaks · 1 points · Posted at 10:44:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covidiots
MrBoombastic9 · 1 points · Posted at 10:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feelings, well actually maybe sudoku as it always seemed like a boring old person game
Chip_fuckin_Skylark · 1 points · Posted at 10:48:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that believe in batshit conspiracy theories over proven facts. Covid has people going out of their fucking minds lately.
Vestastic · 1 points · Posted at 10:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Technology & Discs. Im not a boomer but: From playstations to gameboys to computers to even cell phones, I just don't understand how a motherboard con hoard so much information for us to utilize. And discs, I did read up abit on it and understood how it works based off of the grooves but that might make sense for vinyl since the squeaks are designed enough to make the words and sounds we hear... I guess? But how does a CD contain the files or pictures we put onto it. Baffles me tbh.
sammichboss · 1 points · Posted at 10:49:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moral relativists. Why? How? Do you have a brain in there?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:51:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How stupid some people are.
tedeevsavage · 1 points · Posted at 10:52:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we don't understand communism
expresidentmasks · 1 points · Posted at 10:52:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have the need to feel taken care of. It makes me feel awkward like I owe the other person something, so I try to avoid people doing me favors if at all possible.
Selfish people aren’t rude to me, they are a different species, who needs to be understood, not shamed.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:52:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers work
SmallOneOfTheSpecies · 1 points · Posted at 10:53:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why you can have a real talent for something or be really good at something and yet absolutely hate doing it. Like, what's the point?? For example: customer service.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:54:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America
eddyvazquez · 1 points · Posted at 10:55:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe. It amazes me how there isn’t an edge at all and it’s just infinite space and energy and all sorts of matter. Who knows what’s out there
wackypose · 1 points · Posted at 10:57:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
CELLS. Like when you zoom into all places of our bodies does it really boil down to one single cell?? I wish there was a video or something that shows how it looks like zooming into different parts of the body where you reach different cells. I can’t even explain what I don’t know!!!! Also microscopes at the same time ... telescopes!!!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:59:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dumbass rules on subs
Dream_Scaper · 1 points · Posted at 11:01:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:01:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:16:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/usernamechecksout
ThrowtheKeyRA · 1 points · Posted at 11:02:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trigonometry. Thankfully I married a man who DOES understand it, so whenever I need a tan or to sin, he's right there with me 😂
milkandvaseline · 1 points · Posted at 11:06:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mukbangs. No I do not want to watch someone chew with their mouth open. If I did I'd just visit a farm and stare at cows instead.
IamSliide · 1 points · Posted at 11:06:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If technology is going to take over all the jobs. Who is going to make the machines that makes the machines, that make other machines?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:15:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Machines
IamSliide · 1 points · Posted at 19:12:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But..... who made those machines
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To answer your question with a question: who makes the humans that make the humans?
IamSliide · 2 points · Posted at 00:00:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck....
youraverageuser985 · 1 points · Posted at 11:07:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Relativity. I know there are two types but I could never wrap my head around it...
vida79 · 1 points · Posted at 11:08:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there was a time when time didn’t exist.
TooMuchQuartz · 1 points · Posted at 11:08:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people eat ass? That's where the poop comes from.
zentrie101 · 1 points · Posted at 11:13:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I still on my phone
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:16:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry
Th3truth1t53lf · 1 points · Posted at 11:17:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think it is so wrong to kill, even if the person deserves it
ViktorDagoe · 1 points · Posted at 11:19:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
German grammar
I’ve had German since 4th grade (Nearly 10 years at this point)
I just can’t wrap my head around that every single object has got it’s own gender.
For example a phone could be female all while a pair of headphones could be male.
German speaker’s is there any rules, or would you just have to remember every gender for every item?
bordslampa · 1 points · Posted at 11:19:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That there's supposed to be one wave function for the whole universe.
jason_connor · 1 points · Posted at 11:23:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can create overthink to the point of creating problems in our heard that weren't even there. Even to the point that it affects us psychologically and how we approach situations (especially social).
goblix · 1 points · Posted at 11:26:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How boomers this Biden is better on the environment than Bernie
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 11:31:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Colour blindness - so is that thing invisible? Is it grey?
501Panda · 1 points · Posted at 11:32:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where is the edge of the universe? Does it exist? Does it loop back like a donut? What happens if you escape the edge?
squatland_yard · 1 points · Posted at 11:33:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do we store and retrieve information? When you think you don't know something and then all of a sudden it just comes to you.
Also, why are guys all of a sudden showing off white socks?
qwertyuiop3294 · 1 points · Posted at 11:37:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we can’t print money to get out of the crisis? Why is fiscal deficit such a bad thing considering most countries run a fiscal deficit anyway
crappotheclown · 1 points · Posted at 11:43:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyperinflation_in_the_Weimar_Republic?wprov=sfla1
Germany was having a similar problem 100 years ago for different reasons. Here's why printing money doesn't work.
lmaoyeet6 · 1 points · Posted at 11:40:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everyone on the earth stands in the same direction. Everyone always says "gravity" which does not help at all
KrenkoTheRogue · 1 points · Posted at 11:43:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works.
fantastupido · 1 points · Posted at 11:44:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
United States of America.
Pedantichrist · 1 points · Posted at 11:45:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity.
cottoneyejoe__369 · 1 points · Posted at 11:45:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People.
aranabel · 1 points · Posted at 11:48:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mining Bitcoin, like the process..
OmarBavari · 1 points · Posted at 11:49:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How computers do math?
I mean I understand that all data in computers are in Binary form but what i don't understand is how a computer knows that "1+1=2"?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:11:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's a really good book if you're interested called "but how do it know?" which explains from first principles exactly how a computer works
mildiii · 1 points · Posted at 11:50:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald fucking Trump. How did we get here?
FFibbles · 1 points · Posted at 11:51:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Riemann's Theorem
Basically, if you add all positive integers from one to infinity together, so 1 + 2 + 3 + 4 + 5 + 6 ... forever, then the answer, I shit you not, is negative one over twelve
The theorem has actual physics applications, and the proof is super easy to explain, but that doesn't mean I understand it any better
Deepmaniac80 · 1 points · Posted at 11:51:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My answer is going to be controversial. But- I shouldn't be worried about that. Anyway, to explain, I will first tell you a story. I'm not naming any names, but I know this guy who is gay. At the time this happened, he was 17. We were on a bus to go to what was basically a summer camp, and he was telling everyone the story of something that had happened to him recently at his college. There had a been a girl there- she had a crush on him. And she had come up to him and said, "I think I really like you." Aparrently, that was offensive because he was gay. He responded with "Well sorry to burst your bubble, love!" in a sarcastic agressive way. And told her he was gay. Because of the agression (and probably partly because she now knew that she could never be in a relationship with him), she got very upset and went to a teacher crying. The teacher came in and told the gay boy (man?) that he had upset her. He responded that she had upset him, and he just told her he was gay. He was saying on the bus how wrong the teacher had been to tell him off instead of the girl. And everyone on the bus seemed to agree.
I didn't say anything, but I don't get it. Why should it be offensive for a girl to like a gay boy? Especially if she didn't know he was gay? It's not offensive for a gay girl to like a straight girl or a gay boy to like a straight boy, so why is it different? If somebody can explain it to me, please do, but I doubt I'll ever understand. And please don't say "straight people never seem to understand these things", because... I'm not actually straight. I'm bi. Anyway, that's my answer.
Lcreasey127 · 1 points · Posted at 11:51:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pythagorean’s theorum and nomials
Denssi · 1 points · Posted at 11:54:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who actually go and dislike a powerful YouTube video with 1m likes and 10 dislikes.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a matter of principle!
Sonnyblu62 · 1 points · Posted at 11:57:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How for over 1300 years people who call themselves Christians flock in droves to the most Evil Fascist they can find... like moths to a flame. It makes me believe that those who claim Christianity are more Cult members than anything... they sure have nothing to do with Jesus but everything to do with Fascism and Cultism.
CaptainAlternateMan · 1 points · Posted at 12:01:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths, I try to focus but... it just, it just doesn’t work ok?
Something about maths
God fucking dam it maths holy fuck mayhths
dialogicale · 1 points · Posted at 12:04:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes. Fucking gotdamn taxes.
hekmo · 1 points · Posted at 12:06:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market. What's causing these stock values to go up and down? Why does the success of a company have any impact on the value of a stock?
Could I create a dummy company, sell stock in it, and have people compete just as fiercely for the shares? Could I just take the money and run, leaving the shares to be bought and sold with no further interference on my part?
I've been learning about investing, but all the instructional sites seem to deal with what the things are rather than why things are the way they are.
NooBrix · 1 points · Posted at 12:10:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Waman
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:07:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Waaa man is called waluigi, and no one understands him
Blueglitter_11 · 1 points · Posted at 12:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability. Basic phenomena like tossing a coin is alright. But phenomena with more variables and outcomes make the probability figure incomprehensible.
OhThatMaven · 1 points · Posted at 12:14:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is said Albert Einstein spent the last year's of his life trying to establish a general theory of relativity that would reconcile how things behave on the scale of the very small with the behaviour of things that are very large. I don't understand how things could suddenly change. I would like to know where exactly along the line of things getting larger things change their behaviour? Have I even got the question right?8
i_hav_da_sads · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anything came to be. Like there are insane amounts of interconnected extraordinarily complex systems that just happened to be. My brain hurts when I try to comprehend the possibilities of what everything could be if it wasn’t this, because it is quite literally unimaginable because it just isn’t I know I will never be able to comprehend the nonexistent possibilities for existence but it’s still cool to think about.
dietinki · 1 points · Posted at 12:20:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people give up. As an Individual who has dreams and goals and not follow them.
lowhypez · 1 points · Posted at 12:21:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humans,I just genuinely don’t understand and am fascinated with how the human body works.How we are so similar,yet so different,how we think,how we percieve different situations,and experience the same things very differently And also the multiple personality disorder,how they are in the same body but like one can be allergic to something and the other not,or like one be talented in something the other not so much.My brain just can’t grasp it
srbinhud · 1 points · Posted at 12:23:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That probability has anything to do with the real world. I could have a 99% chance of lose and 1% chance of winning and still win 10 times in a row. Since the prosentige is of the whole and doesn't mean anything since u dont know the sample size needed to get it right. Like 50/50 coin toss lands half the time on head but you can get 20 heads in a row so what does the probability mean even in real world application.
-HTID- · 1 points · Posted at 12:24:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls that have lip injections
0101000001000001 · 1 points · Posted at 12:24:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man.
alxledra · 1 points · Posted at 12:27:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can just walk into a place and talk to anyone. Or dance in a club. I just can’t do it. It takes days for me to work up the courage to just ring someone.
ThatStupidKidInClass · 1 points · Posted at 12:31:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
the reason why school exist
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:04:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean this whole thread is full of good reasons for school to exist.
Spoafy13 · 1 points · Posted at 12:34:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
shakespearesgirl14 · 1 points · Posted at 12:36:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not get r/copypasta!!!! Everyone who asks to have it explained .... people think they are just messing around. There is no good, true answer.
guyinAmerica1 · 1 points · Posted at 12:36:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people keep buying crappy remakes and remasters of a game that big gaming industries keep pumping out that pretty much makes the saying
" we'll stop making it when people stop buying it."
not every one is a gaming wiz and a terrible game to a veteran player will be nostalgic for a new comer or the next ree-kid addicted to v-bucks.
saucyspacefries · 1 points · Posted at 12:37:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It blows my mind but how some people don't have an inner voice.
XNightcrawlerBAMF · 1 points · Posted at 12:38:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sneaker culture or something about shoes. Like why do y’all need so many shoes? I could get by with 1 pair
HaroldM10 · 1 points · Posted at 12:40:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I still do not understand how you can measure and know which line is the neutral and which one has the voltage in an AC system. The current flows in equal amounts by both lines 60 times per second.
Kedric11 · 1 points · Posted at 12:40:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Where everything living thing's will to live come from.
helbells21 · 1 points · Posted at 12:45:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people stockpiled toilet paper and probably will never understand these idiots
Black_Gale · 1 points · Posted at 12:47:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. like I don’t know my multiplication and barely know how to add and subtract
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 12:47:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ignorance.
karmickickback · 1 points · Posted at 12:47:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Does your chewing gum lose its flavour on the bedpost overnight?
elireloaded · 1 points · Posted at 12:48:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls.
Drumslover · 1 points · Posted at 12:50:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
• The 4th dimension. I've watched countless YouTube videos but still can't fathom the concept.
bruisingdiamonds_ · 1 points · Posted at 12:51:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics.
Wifflemeyer · 1 points · Posted at 12:52:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mean people.
Newperson1957 · 1 points · Posted at 12:53:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I truly cannot understand how millions (billions?) of cell phone calls, text messages, photographs, printer directions, wireless anything - how can they happen all at one time and everything gets where it is supposed to go? I get that there are bandwidths, but that's it. How many bandwidths can there be?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:02:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Many many bandwidths. But mostly things just don't travel wireless for very long. Your cell phone for instance only sends signals to a tower that's roughly a couple dozen miles away (depending on how rural you are) which in turn sends things into wires. So each tower is probably only doing a few thousand things at once.
timjr2500 · 1 points · Posted at 12:58:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people still support Donald Trump.
Thillegalamigo · 1 points · Posted at 12:58:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
bobvella · 1 points · Posted at 12:59:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
dish washing machines and umbrellas look useless to me.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:00:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people don't like learning new things.
twatchops · 1 points · Posted at 13:03:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so angry and not control their emotions.
How people can hurt other people and feel no remorse.
Just_satire · 1 points · Posted at 13:03:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how cameras work.
ptrades1 · 1 points · Posted at 13:05:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space actually created itself.. it’s infinitely big and no one knows where it came from
august_16 · 1 points · Posted at 13:05:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process of how we think and see
DeathByTireIron · 1 points · Posted at 13:05:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a scale can measure mass even though mass and weight are different
asmufti3 · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Whether Coronavirus is Men-Made or Godsend?
(A) If it is Godsend, then what is the message?
(B) If it is Men-Made then what is the purpose? If men know how to make it then men should should know how to destroy it.
Is the purpose to suspend human activities is to reduce pollution, resist climate change or the purpose is to destroy the economy of a developed country or group developed countries and take edge over the country or countries who cannot stop the havoc caused by Coronavirus?
blobfisch_ · 2 points · Posted at 13:23:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why only the two? Viruses per se are mysterious, but why can’t it just be here by chance?
float05 · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How about C) it came from nature, but not sent by god? It’s not here for any reason.
ChippiePusher · 1 points · Posted at 13:09:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything related to stocks, or how banks work. I guess just economics in general. I just don’t get it.
Also, uno. I’m great at chess, puzzles, scrabble, and even that monopoly card game. But cannot play uno to save my life.
NicoFae · 1 points · Posted at 13:13:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people are actively confident in their body
Milkdominion · 1 points · Posted at 13:13:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
Kapianx · 1 points · Posted at 13:14:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
phoral · 1 points · Posted at 13:18:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 3D printers work!!
Venom_67 · 1 points · Posted at 13:20:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The meme above this one
IHateBananasUwU · 1 points · Posted at 13:21:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why homework’s a thing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love
Moos3racer · 1 points · Posted at 13:23:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Apparently I don’t understand a good portion of chemistry, nearly failed that class
General_Sheephearder · 1 points · Posted at 13:25:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls sex drives
TicTacManiac893 · 1 points · Posted at 13:25:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Makeup. I live in a house of a tri-generation that's dominated by women. My grandma, mom, and sister. Aside from my grandfather I'm the only dude there and anytime they mention makeup on someone using makeup I can't help but get confused. When they say stuff like "oh that girl is using too much makeup" I don't get it. When they say "it's because she looks like a clown" I am thinking "but she doesn't look like the Joker or Harley Quinn". And then when they themselves use makeup I could never tell but when they're with other chicks everyone is saying "I love your makeup". On top of that when they use that special wipe, the Makeup Remover, that was the only way I could tell there was makeup. Plus what am I supposed to think of that makes the concept easier to understand. Is it a basically paint to help "beautify" them? Is it basically human white-out to help cover up any acne? Plus there's the talk of apparent different "advanced" techniques and names for different types of makeup stuff there is. I mean when they talk eyeliner and lipstick I'm thinking "okay so it's the stuff on their eyes and lips" but once words like "mascara" shows up I'm at a loss what to think.
ImSolin · 1 points · Posted at 13:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
politics. it always seems like every person you choose to support or every new bill or law that gets passed sounds good but then theres an ugly side to it that you're not aware of. Every news source seems to twist things and staying up to date with it all is so exhausting. I can't ever come to a conclusion of who or what I support confidently.
SharkyTendencies · 1 points · Posted at 13:29:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Economics.
So I understand that there's a finite amount of 'stuff' on earth and economics is the study of who gets what. Sure. Got it.
When you start busting out graphs and the invisible hand and talking about Keynes like he's your BFF and whatever else, 20-year-old me suffers through second-year political economy class a little bit more.
AndreilLimbo · 1 points · Posted at 13:30:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do I have to be the leader of a group if I do something useful and well. For example, if I decide now that I want to pick up some trash from the beach, people will start gathering and help because of course it's a good thing to do. But then, they will expect me to make the next group decision. Like, why? Can't you decide on your own if you want to pick up some trash?
darkpink19 · 1 points · Posted at 13:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m what would be considered “suicidal” which the term sounds like I’m going to do it, but I never will even if I wanna die real bad. These thoughts are mostly out of my control. I don’t have the chemicals in my brain to be myself and have my normal perspective and thoughts, I’m in extreme emotional pain and I don’t sleep. SO the brain goes straight to “I desperately need relief” so poor suicidal thoughts constantly. They are either kind of a relief bc I would do anything not to exist or annoying bc I’m not dark enough to have no hope or desire to live!
Got hit with all this 6 months ago, so it breaks my heart I’m not “me” most of the time. I now have I profound understanding of what ppl go through when they are suicidal, I used to just think like “ok why do you need to jump to that conclusion, that’s horrible.”
somerandomname1112 · 1 points · Posted at 13:32:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes. You stated it much clearer than me. Thank you.
MurkyAmbition · 1 points · Posted at 13:38:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
At what point and how did I understand people as a child. Like how can a baby understand "say mama" and actually utter the word. When did i start to converse with people?
whyyy-yyy · 1 points · Posted at 13:39:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like.... All of it. Everything. Just.... What?
theodore_sandhu · 1 points · Posted at 13:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people drink alcohol.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 13:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
extreme political correctness
decent_canine · 1 points · Posted at 13:44:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why governments can't just print more money if they run out. I've had people explain it to me over and over again, that it decreases the value of the currency, but I just don't get it!
kayisbadatstuff · 1 points · Posted at 14:41:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you only have 10 $100 bills, then people want them more, because there’s very few of them. If you have 1,000 of them, people want them less because there’s so many of them you’re more likely to have one. That’s a very simplified explanation, but it’s decently close.
decent_canine · 1 points · Posted at 15:11:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you!
CrazyNoisyJosuke · 1 points · Posted at 13:45:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How King Crimson works
NTverves · 1 points · Posted at 13:47:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics
REOspeedwagooone · 1 points · Posted at 13:48:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the hell water tastes so good and cold from the fridge at 3am but warm and disappointing at day.
Mondeleev · 1 points · Posted at 13:53:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I would love an in depth explanation!
Patsifist · 1 points · Posted at 13:54:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people put so much emphasis on the value of life.
Mondeleev · 1 points · Posted at 13:54:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I would love an in depth explanation.
Mrredseed · 1 points · Posted at 13:55:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is pretty random but I've never understood the appeal of really big cities. I've lived in one most of my life (Paris) and I just couldn't wait to get out. The reason I hear often for people to stay is "There is everything here", like if you want to eat Nepalese food on a a Sunday you can. Sounds very strange to me.
kayisbadatstuff · 1 points · Posted at 14:39:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
From someone who has lived in a small town, like 500 people small: The idea of being able to do whatever you want whenever you want is intoxicating. In a small town, you can’t have any food delivered, if you want to go to a movie it’s 20 minute drive, if you want to go shopping it’s a 45 minute drive to the next big town. Living in a big city and being able to walk to wherever you want to go is very convenient.
Mrredseed · 1 points · Posted at 15:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hum allright, well in the opposite way being able to do anything easily makes everything bland and kind of average; perhaps because you don't have to put much effort into anything you don't get the same rewarding feeling. So then nothing feels special anymore. But then that's just my opinion, I guess I got too used to everything being within reach in big cities... It's really interesting getting your perspective though, as it's pretty much opposite to what I know and insightful
GThotty · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I honestly don't understand how microwaves work, my 8th grade teacher told me tiny waves of energy called microwaves, but I did some research and others say it's radiation, but microwaves couldn't be radioactive could they? Is the radiation caused from an internal mechanism?
critcommander918 · 1 points · Posted at 14:10:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Vaccum pumps
lonkboy321 · 1 points · Posted at 14:11:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
King crimson
ashee5 · 1 points · Posted at 14:13:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people fall in love?
djgizmo · 1 points · Posted at 14:14:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea how trump became president. Everything he says seems like absolute non-sense.
LeratoNull · 1 points · Posted at 14:15:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What people see in Naruto. The main character is annoying and all of the fight scenes that people link to 'prove how good it is' all seem rather boring.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 16:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It has some surprisingly deep philosophy.
manouna-theo · 1 points · Posted at 14:19:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people randomly give awards on r/askreddit
normal-things · 1 points · Posted at 14:20:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do science and religion feel the need to disapprove each other? They are, by definition, unrelatable. Belief without facts vs. proof to create facts.
banana_boom_baby · 1 points · Posted at 14:20:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
Reve-Stogers · 1 points · Posted at 14:21:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics
dhsutherland · 1 points · Posted at 14:21:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Color copying. Black and white copies make perfect sense, capturing the light that doesnt shine through.
Caleb-camo · 1 points · Posted at 14:28:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The theory of relitivaty
mr_spod · 1 points · Posted at 14:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum Physics
MandarinaSeca · 1 points · Posted at 14:34:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we reached to the actuality. Like how people thought some minerals and other things I don't know could create technology, how far has medicine went and what people consider nowadays basic and obvious but it wasn't 100 years ago
JustARegularToaster · 1 points · Posted at 14:35:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any language except for german, swiss german and english.
HelenMatthews · 1 points · Posted at 14:36:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anti-vaxxers. I don't understand how anyone can ignore the mountains of evidence in front of them and gamble with their children's lives that way. I'll never understand how, when most of them are vaccinated themselves, how they can hate their children so much, just to make a point and not admit they're wrong. This is the ground they choose to sink their rocks on but it's their children that bear the brunt of their stubbornness
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 14:40:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate on other fandoms or things people enjoy just because they don't like the same things. Like it costs zero dollars to not be a jerk just because you don't like something that someone else does like.
nishi_kawaguchi · 1 points · Posted at 14:40:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do humans all look so different? I dont mean just in term of race, but shouldn't we all look more like one another then not? And I get the "early ancestors" distinction in some part, but why are we still so dramatically different?
hugemanbeeing · 1 points · Posted at 14:43:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how anyone likes brooklyn 99. the first episode one of the cops shoots a mannequin in the head 6 times and it was presented as an innocent joke. why is it funny that a cop would shoot someone in the head 6 times? i don’t get why it’s so romanticized i guess.
palapot · 1 points · Posted at 14:49:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
maths and chemistry :c
plsdontfriendzoneme · 1 points · Posted at 15:00:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
verkino9 · 1 points · Posted at 15:00:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry, especially organic one. Never got it, never will get it, since i stopped trying a long time ago. Seemed interesting during highschool, but was too difficult for me.
missbeans8687 · 1 points · Posted at 15:02:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reality's can u love someone through all realities but still keep the soul in the body u first met it in? I know who my twin flame is but her ethereal body will not let her respond to me how do I save her? Amanda bazzell
GeneralGarfield · 1 points · Posted at 15:03:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How you breathe automatically.
SiliconSorcerer · 1 points · Posted at 15:04:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gravity
cramdangler · 1 points · Posted at 15:04:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
shotest0ne7 · 1 points · Posted at 15:05:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. Plain and simple Algebra. If a number and letter are in the same equation my brain literally turns off all receptors, and I become a baby nursing again my mother's teet.
Angrywalkeromnom · 1 points · Posted at 15:06:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
parakeet can sing songs?
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 15:08:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh??
Aisleyne0504 · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didnt realize it until I took the class, but apparently I do not understand economics. Only class I've ever felt like an idiot in.
I also don't underatand how people can have children and want nothing to do with them.
SirDigitalKnight · 1 points · Posted at 15:15:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Mathematics.... Was told I would be using it in my daily life after school.. I have a mini computer in the palm of my hand that does all my thinking for me and I have long forgotten what they tried to teach me in Math! :-)
5H4D35_0F_HU3 · 1 points · Posted at 15:17:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im wondering how does the first people come to life. Did they just spawn like in game? I mean we have Adan and Eve inside a so called gate before they were threw. But how did they come to life did they spawn?
Loveinacase · 1 points · Posted at 15:17:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Football
graydave · 1 points · Posted at 15:17:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Keys in music. I play an instrument, can read music, have had it explained to me several times. Don't get it.
bandghost · 1 points · Posted at 15:17:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
sex. I don't understand why it's appealing or why people want to have kids. but like you do you
Snuffaluffagus_42 · 1 points · Posted at 15:18:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Money. Money makes no sense to me. Most money that you have is never a physical. It all exists online with the bank, your employer, and with credit cards. If the government wants more money, they print it. Everyone is in debt, even governments.
Please explain.
blakej510510 · 1 points · Posted at 15:24:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't really understand anything. When asked why enough times... I never know the answer.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:39:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The process that take to create and use language, and how it diverges to create others
BeneathTheDirt · 1 points · Posted at 15:43:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
her
BananaRhino12 · 1 points · Posted at 15:59:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the mind can develop DID. How can it develop multiple alters and how does it feel to have them
fatchair09 · 1 points · Posted at 16:03:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mirrors work, how my left hand is still on my left side in a mirror but facing someone else, my left is their right, etc. I feel so dumb when I think about it
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 16:32:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The light bouncing off your hand travels to the mirror and bounces off the mirror. It's like when you stamp a paper with a rubber stamp, you produce a mirror image on the surface the stamp struck.
fatchair09 · 1 points · Posted at 19:49:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks that makes sense!
DaveyRulez · 1 points · Posted at 16:06:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does a living thing think? Is it like a computer, sending electrical signals that our brains know how to read?
shutupmimsyboi · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle class brits voting Tory
turdspud · 1 points · Posted at 16:10:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets
bicycletom · 1 points · Posted at 16:11:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people believe there is more value in an afterlife, than the life you’re currently living. I honestly envy them.
Rabid_Kiwi · 1 points · Posted at 16:15:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people promote themselves at the cost of others. Like are they that jelly? It is not other people’s fault that they did not find and aspect to improve and build upon in your life. So why do they hate others that have? I will never understand, what stopped them and why they are that way.
AnkleBreakle · 1 points · Posted at 16:17:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can defend something that is so obviously wrong or not true
BlurryPixel0 · 1 points · Posted at 16:18:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
kjohn13 · 1 points · Posted at 16:23:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
When I was at the army my lieutenant once ranted saying "I genuinely don't understand why people smoke"
I was not a smoker back then but I genuinely didn't understand why he said that.
jadelemental · 1 points · Posted at 16:23:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
people
Dis_Bich · 1 points · Posted at 16:30:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot comprehend that space is literally infinite
InsouciantSoul · 1 points · Posted at 16:30:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so completely absent-minded as to litter. For example, all of the disposable gloves and masks I have seen recently all over the ground in the Walmart parking lot. Fucking mindless fucks.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:33:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how life works. Anyone here know?
Im-a-cat-I-guess · 1 points · Posted at 16:33:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Two. The number two. I don’t know what’s wrong but for some reason I don’t...hhh this is weird but it doesn’t make sense to me. It’s a weird number. Something about it scares me. It’s just something that I can’t describe.
ckksksjfjf · 1 points · Posted at 16:35:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ngl I have never understood mathematical and geometrical proofs, in a sense of what should i do next. I went through 8th grade geometry and that was the main topic I somehow managed to pass, I have literally not understood an entire year's worth of a subject.
bigbelly000 · 1 points · Posted at 16:39:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Qr codes ,its wierd how the same pic can be red as diffrent links
IntelligentRegret8 · 1 points · Posted at 16:46:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math/ algebra
janiebobaney23 · 1 points · Posted at 16:48:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything beyond simple math. I have no mental black board.
W1zdumbb · 1 points · Posted at 16:51:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
Aye_james2 · 1 points · Posted at 16:54:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The present subjunctive in Spanish
linda-55 · 1 points · Posted at 16:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The circle of life .
Physnitch · 1 points · Posted at 17:00:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The plot of The Big Sleep. My next step is to read the book before watching it again.
AggressivePipe9 · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
empathy, people usually tell about their problems and things and it's hard for me to understand how they feel and sometimes I don't even care, that doesn't mean that I give them advice or try to help them but it's still not important to me
NotMasterOogway · 1 points · Posted at 17:16:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Master Oogway quotes
cirrus01 · 1 points · Posted at 17:19:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra.
kangaroopete123 · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that drive slow when there's only one lane, and then as soon as a passing lane opens up they floor it so no one can pass them, then slow down again after the passing lane ends
naefinCreates · 1 points · Posted at 17:22:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
fortnite, I will never understand the obsession of a free cartoon game.
haz87 · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Subnetting
donotblinkman · 1 points · Posted at 17:25:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hard leetcode problems
The-Savage-Atheist · 1 points · Posted at 17:28:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Human emotions
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:32:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
[deleted]
Fafinozka · 1 points · Posted at 17:36:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cum 💪😎👌🇮🇳🏳️🌈😤
Gender_Juice · 1 points · Posted at 17:39:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are people so obsessed with others private lives?
tobeawh0re69 · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
TikTok celebrities. I can’t get it.
Papercoffeetable · 1 points · Posted at 17:44:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people believe it’s my (or everybody elses) duty and obligation to read their mind and do what they want even though it’s wrong.
Kleptoplatonic · 1 points · Posted at 17:46:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Modes and cadences. Like, is a mode not just a scale?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:49:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can have so much money. I only make 27k a year before taxes and it makes me go NANI!? When i hear someone putting down 25k on a car as a down payment. Like how the hell can you do that? And they are just average joes like me.
Sufi_99 · 1 points · Posted at 17:53:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Normal lectures aside, why do we have to attend online labs?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:54:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
QED?
NulloK · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Light... A bundle of energy with particle and wave-like properties. I don't get it... Nor do I understand the Standard model of particle physics.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:58:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If it makes you feel any better, physicists don't really get it either. Light is weird. Nothing can travel faster than it. It has wave properties. It has particle properties. And it's it's own propegation medium. Sometimes being a good phycists doesn't mean having a good understanding of something but the ability to say "Well that's weird but whatever."
NulloK · 1 points · Posted at 05:18:56 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
That actually did make me feel a little bit better :-D
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:57:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
A thorough literal interpretation of any "holy" book. Some things have happened since most of these were written: logic is a pretty decent thing, literacy of the masses is on the up and up, oh oh and this new thing called science...just wait till you hear about this one
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:00:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how anyone can, in good faith, “like” Donald Trump as a president. The guy has a documented (i.e., substantive, longitudinal) history of lying about matters from the smallest to the largest (e.g., number of floors in a building), so what makes you think he is not lying/would not lie to you?
If you like his usefulness with respect to advancing the Republican Senate majority’s agenda(s), that’s fair. If you like his usefulness with respect to “sticking it” to people with whom you disagree (e.g., liberals; immigrants), then that’s honest. But how can you feel any kind of camaraderie with the man himself?
trendz19 · 1 points · Posted at 18:01:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covidiots!
trendz19 · 1 points · Posted at 18:02:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thermodynamics
QueenAnnziaOfficial · 1 points · Posted at 18:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
saved a friend from her suicide attempt i have been told, but i blacked out the memory of it. but what I genuinely don't understand is how the brain can blackout a memory like that?
HipsterCavemanDJ · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. Also used to be mormon.
pursuitoffruit · 1 points · Posted at 18:10:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get better quality sleep.
arbasit · 1 points · Posted at 18:11:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers. What makes people think that the whole world is lying to them.
mcbuggerluggs · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics. When they’re all sat in that room on them daft fucking benches all shouting at each other. What on gods given fucking earth is going on there?
fantastupido · 1 points · Posted at 18:23:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homeopathy. How is it still a thing and why is my government sponring it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 18:24:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand how to navigate with only road signs and maps. Google maps brought me out of a long terrifying hopelessness.
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:53:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is probably a learning disability like a form of spatial dyslexia.
831-XXX-XXXX · 1 points · Posted at 18:27:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why these mf wont stay in their house
indie_lover17 · 1 points · Posted at 18:29:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What happens after we die.
Yeah sure, there are a lot of theories out there, but nobody knows for sure what happens. It's a thought to keep anyone up at night.
swiddy_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im gonna go out on a limb here and assume that after you die you rot in the ground. and its as simple as that.
swiddy_ · 1 points · Posted at 18:35:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
magnets, As far as im concerned magnetic energy is a force( magnetic forces duh) and it makes things move, things need energy to moive there is kinetic and potential energy. when i put a peice of metal next to a magnet there is no potential energy for th metal(I think so at least). anyway my point is where does the energy from magnests come from. they produce energy by making things move but they dont haver any energy in them. unless your using an electeromagnet then a magnet is just a special rock that can makes things move without using energy. please explain
edit: yeah I know I made a lot of spelling errors deal with it I dont care
w3dg22 · 1 points · Posted at 18:42:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand, and I was about to post an ask askreddit about this, how business individuals think bringing people back to work faster while the virus is still spreading will help the economy for more than a week. Unexpected, mass absence and massive amounts of dead customers and employees is really bad for business. Not to mention the optics, long term.
Even thinking about it without empathy and sociopathically; idgi.
izzySharpenuff · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uhmm... Can you repeat the question please.
GrayMatters0901 · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything. My whole reality is based on my perspective and memories but there’s so many other ways people see things I can’t possibly understand it all. I only know what I can perceive. But also, how do I know what I perceive is right?
mcm5tt · 1 points · Posted at 18:49:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who excercise in public eye... I either 6am it or 9pm it. Feels in your own lane
Jannyaaaa · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Perspective. No matter how much I study it, I can't seem to understand how perspective works in an enviorment.
dacica11 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
OWL in Protege, I cannot understand the use of ontologies in modern computing.
tsuruki23 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Foreign languages in a language genus with no relation to those Im familiar with
Altema22 · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. She holds you so tight you can't feel your arms, makes you breakfast, confides in you, sends you kissy-face "Love you!" texts, falls asleep next to you. Then when you open up, she says we were never even friends, then her mother joins in and attacks me.
XavierYourSavior · 1 points · Posted at 19:22:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How credit cards and debit cards work
labimas · 1 points · Posted at 19:38:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the computer chips are made with billions transistors on one die without faulty triggers. Memory is easy - you can disable faulty blocks, but cpu or gpu is mystery for me.
l0st_in_my_head · 1 points · Posted at 19:42:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Universe is infinit. Wheres the start ? What about before and before?
9YearOldDuck · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crying at movie I have never done it and I don’t know why people do I can get the reasoning behind crying at sad movies but not happy ones
foopa_ · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Day light savings
powerpl_nt · 1 points · Posted at 19:50:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
One time when I was a little kid I was outside playing with kids in my neighborhood. All of our parents were outside hanging out while we played. One of the moms put up one of those 'Warning Kids At Play - Drive Safe' signs. A few other parents put of cones and various other things to make sure no one sped down the street and hit us. At one point we decided to play baseball in the street and we saw a car coming. We all got out of the street and waited for him to pass. The parents saw that this guy was speeding toward us so they seemed on edge. So what does this guy do? He slows down his car, leans out the window, and grabs one of the cones?!?! He proceeded to drive a bit then throw the cone. All of our parents were angry and went to confront the guy. He ended up speeding off. Later on I learned he was notorious for speeding around our neighborhood and he was one of the main reasons our parents put the cones out. I don't understand why he grabbed the cone. To this day, I have no clue. What did grabbing the cone accomplish?
gmtcm · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How price fixing is legal with OPEC
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do we record sounds from a phone?? Or how is music recorded and played from a vinyl? I cannot comprehend this.
DeweyFinn_ · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some people choose their partners based on perks/benefits rather than genuine connection...
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:26:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean that’s utilitarian. But not logical. Every decision is an emotional one. The only logical conclusion would be what ever one made most sense to do as the operator in the scenario. What repercussions would he face hitting one group or another. All you’ve done again is proven that 5 is less than 10. There is no conclusion that we can come to as humans that operates on only logic. Even scocipaths have emotions that guide them. They still feel anger.
mayoayox · 1 points · Posted at 20:30:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people dont see abortion as the taking away of human life.
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:47:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That an embryo is a stage of human is not disputed. What is disputed is when personhood arises.
Jackattack1254 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How like signals work. I have no fuckin idea how we send a signal. Like what even is a signal? How is information put in a signal? How can a signal let me call somebody?
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Signals come in different forms. Your voice, for example, is a type of signal.
random_commenter1 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The internet
Bahamas1959 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why 45 is President!
KrattBoy2006 · 1 points · Posted at 20:49:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump
whits_up23 · 1 points · Posted at 20:50:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I hate the process of showering. I don’t want to but as soon as I’m in the water I don’t want to get out.
JustAnOrdinaryBloke · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an entire division of General Motors saw a rendering of the Pontiac Aztec and thought
"OK! That will sell well."
Aztek Ugly
randomreddituser02 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Furries. What turns people into cringy fursuit-wearing fucks who act like animals in public? I can't seem to get behind the idea of wearing a fursuit in the first place.
Heck, it wouldn't be that much of a problem for me if these people would at least shut up about it. But no, I somehow know several people who are in this community, and they always try to turn a conversation in this specific direction, no matter what was previously talked about or if the other people in the conversation are even interested.
And the ridiculous wondering why they're getting bullied, of course. For fucks sake, if you keep bringing it up in conversations with your relatively normal classmates and try to show people clips of other furries acting like maniacs in public you're going to get ridiculed by others. The worst thing is the kind of furries who go out wearing fursuits don't keep to themselves for the most part. Larger gatherings of furries in public, when there's no convention going on or something, are mostly just a bunch of weirdos harrassing people. There are lots of video documentations of furries in public harrassing others.
carrieevans11 · 1 points · Posted at 21:02:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely don’t understand how students look so surprised after a teacher tells them off for something that they did. I sometimes fail to understand how students can be rude to their teacher, who only wants the best for them.
It’s not funny. They are not some revolutionary human rights activist that is standing up for the rights of students by being rude and plain disrespectful.
Unfortunately, this happens quite a lot in my class. The teacher has to stop the lessons and start a row with a rude and ungrateful student who is desperate for attention. Those students are selfishly preventing others from learning and making the teacher upset and moody for the rest of the day.
It’s alright to make a class joke every now and then, I don’t want to seem like someone that hates it when a person has fun, but doing it frequently and annoying the teacher to high heavens is not funny.
Stop seeking attention. You are not a comedian. Let the other students learn.
dan424gg · 1 points · Posted at 21:03:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What it means to be naive lmao
ChichoWasHisName · 1 points · Posted at 21:06:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the point in anything being alive if everything is just gonna die anyway?
jimmy_ate_my-world · 1 points · Posted at 21:08:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Those extra miles on your car
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Futons. Why can't we just call them mattresses?
beetboybarry · 1 points · Posted at 21:20:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of living
ImNotReal8 · 1 points · Posted at 21:27:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Plumbing. Like wtf
tendercanary · 1 points · Posted at 21:28:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people will assume they're offending someone else merely by being near by them. (this might be especially an american thing, not sure.) for instance, i'll be standing on a trail in the park, taking in the view or something. lets say a couple walks by and, a lot of the time, one of them will smile all guiltily and say or mouth "sorry!" right as they pass by you.
and if one of them is like talking or appears less aware of your presence, the other one will put their hand out and usher their partner along, in addition to the apology.
this is pretty specific, and its not something that annoys me per say, its something that genuinely befuddles me when it happens. when i was little i used to look around intently afterwards, thinking something bad happened or someone got hurt. and really, it makes me feel a lil crestfallen, like i wanna get up and do a jig or something and be like "you can be you!! you're safe here!"
shadynasty28 · 1 points · Posted at 21:30:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dreaming, like how do you see, what's going on up in your head that makes it so you can see and feel things just in a reality in your head.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:32:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Time dilation. How do we know that time itself slows down; and that it's not just our clocks not working properly at speeds high enough for relativity to be relevant?
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 22:43:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Look up the light clock example. That will illustrate it visually for you.
Juggernaut7654 · 1 points · Posted at 21:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Geometry
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The idea of an economy.
That for people to have money, other people have to be without it.
For a table to exist, it has to stand on its legs.
For example, someone has a service, like electrician or a locksmith. He does it himself and gets the full net profit. He decides to expand and hire employeesemployees... the employees have to be paid LESS than what he made doing the same thing.
That principle exists everywhere in economy. For large companies, the management that d oesnt do the actual service is still being paid 100k salaries, but how? Because they have to screw someone over at the bottom rung, and if not within its own operation, then it screws foreign manufacturers of its product (3rd world $2 wawages)
It's just horrible and depressing to think that for the average person in the usa to own a home and grab a Starbucks with friends while throwing a half-eaten pizza out the window of their new car... five people in a poor country have to labor for peanuts.
I'm not an economist, but from my experiences, it feels like to make money comfortably, someone somewhere has to suffer. Like every action has am opposite and equal reaction.
Limelimo · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But tbh without that system, there aren't any viable alternatives.
So it unofficially acknowledges that not all people are equal, and that slavery is a necessity.
AlanCobb2012 · 1 points · Posted at 22:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If there was no money what would people do? They would barter. I am good at fishing but have no success at catching other animals to eat. I wold trade X # of fish for X # of animals that you caught. If there is an abundance of fish and not a of people who can catch other animals the value of 1 fish goes down while the value of a different animal goes up. That is essentially the job market; people with skills that are harder to acquire are paid more.
As for the wood worker, how about you lean how to make tables. Invest in tools. Purchase (or somehow acquire) the wood we will use for the projects. Line up the potential customers and develop a reputation over years of hard work; now I will come and work with you. I won't have any tools, I won't have any wood, I won't have a well earned reputation but I demand an equal share of the profits. I have risked nothing, but demand to be paid the same as you has risked everything. It doesn't appear to be an equitable split.
People who start businesses risk all of their assets on the hope that it will work. Starting and successfully running a business is hard. If you take away the profit incentive fewer people will attempt to start & run small businesses.
tsuka19 · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tumblr
MaterialReplacement2 · 1 points · Posted at 22:01:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like OC x character ships that were made by other people.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:06:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How radios work
guythedan · 1 points · Posted at 22:07:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who sort by controversial
DiddlyDouche · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The vastness of the universe. Hell, even the vastness of one spiral arm of the Milky Way is mind-blowing. I don't understand how we have learned to plot ourselves in the Milky Way. And who was the genius that figured out how to find exoplanets? In addition to this, how did they learn to find whether or not said exoplanets are in the Goldilocks zone?
The entirety of astronomy is incredible. I literally get butterflies in my stomach when I watch documentaries about the universe.
Rossco1874 · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of deja vu.
Rubyhamster · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It kind of sounds like you have some sort epmathy defiency (like in autism I don't know) or a depression dominated by apathy. Can you really don't feel the difference imagining your parents dying vrs. a stranger? Imagine the feeling of never having them talk to you ever again. Dream about having someone that just fills your heart? I guess it starts with yourself. I have so much empathy because I can imagine/remember it happening to myself. So much that it takes my focus away when I really shouldn't feel so much.
orzrly · 1 points · Posted at 22:26:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to deal with anxiety in general for myself and others
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:30:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Internet Slang I'm Young but it still does not make sense
second which platform posts good memes (Reddit hated, Twitter dumb cringe, Ifunny racist, 4 chan cringe) WHERE DO I GOOOO AHHHHHHHH
stardust54321 · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
FStops & ISO for cameras. I understand the idea behind it, but cannot apply it to when I’m actually taking pictures.
TeemuKai · 1 points · Posted at 22:46:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How atoms are (apparently) mostly made out of nothing, but things still exist. And I can touch those things, although they're made out of bits that are barely even there.
krystallej · 1 points · Posted at 23:01:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you all so much for helping explain this! I won’t say I understand it completely now, but my brain has a nice outline. I definitely can make a lot more sense of it now than just thinking about it like abstract rocket-science. I appreciate you all!
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
My father says: quantum physics
My mother says: my father
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:06:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
anything math related
aashmediagroup · 1 points · Posted at 23:07:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How parents let their kids have random friends (primarily middle school) over at their house and be completely cool with it. I'm an Indian 13 yo, that might have something to do with my confusion.
Djdrisco1224 · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To premise this, I have multiple degrees and a PhD in education. I do not understand the insistence of utilizing common core in the US school system. I boil it down to this. There are almost limitless ways to travel from Los Angeles to Las Vegas. If the end result is not the arrival in Las Vegas, then why insist the traveler utilize one method to get there. Also, as a human, do you care about the process ( assuming it is moral :)) scientists find a cure To the Coronavirus or do you care that they found the cure? Common core curriculum makes zero sense regarding application in any real-weld scenario.
RubyReign · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a CPU works. Genuinely have no idea how it actually works even when someone explains it. It’s like every time someone explains it there’s a gap in the information.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:17:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can solve cases on r/Whatisthisthing so easily! Most things posted can not be searched easily, nor are common objects.
DemCookies18 · 1 points · Posted at 23:48:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The creation of life (not sustainability, but how it is actually formed). What are the chances that all the right elements will come together in the perfect spot to function as a conscious entity, even it’s a tiny bacteria?
transferingtoearth · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
OrenKC · 1 points · Posted at 23:55:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Body language and facial expressions holding more weight than actual words.
I got Asperger's/High Functioning Autism. I always get my point across with my words and always say the truth. When I talk to people not on the spectrum and don't disclose my AS, it feels like I'm speaking Italian in my own country (America/Florida) and sometimes it makes me feel horrible that it's like I don't belong everywhere. If I want to connect with strangers I have to learn how everybody else operates, not that everyone else is made aware of how I and other AS and HFA people are. Like I have to adjust. It always makes me feel broken. Like everyone thinks I'm not telling the truth when I'm just unaware of their and my non verbal communication. I just want to be understood. Not feel like I have to change how I act for everyone else's comfort.
carogers21 · 1 points · Posted at 00:04:53 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can't be straightforward or honest. Like the amount that people will neglect to say something that needs to be said, baffles me. Many times I find that a little bit of uncomfortableness in the beginning can save a lot of pain or heartache later on
SureAssumption8 · 1 points · Posted at 00:26:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm here
LopsidedSet0 · 1 points · Posted at 00:54:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is the question? To Whom is it directed?
ExtremeAlternative0 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:48 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that ship try and kylo ren.
amberthebear · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:21 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely dont understand the concept of death. I mean i know when you are gone, thats it. But after. Like if i sit here and think about it the idea that i wont be able to think and talk get to me. Im not religious. If you are thats ok. Whatever you believe is fine. But as someone that doesnt believe in an afterlife. The idea of the unknown baffle me.
hopalong2k · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:23 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
string theory
ChronicKushh · 1 points · Posted at 01:49:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dating. Or how to get to that point.
Special_Friendship · 1 points · Posted at 02:03:59 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything
bradleyxii · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:21 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people throw up in toilets?
Butts go there. The worst aspects of the human design is deposited there on a daily to tri-daily basis. 8 if you're having a bad day. Yet people will put hands on, and heads in, the booty bowl. Can't you throw up in the trash can next to it, or get a trash bag and wrap it up?
oneeyedjack60 · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:45 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
oneeyedjack60 · 1 points · Posted at 02:37:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
watchyourtonevision · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
music theory. i just have an ear what sounds good, but for the life of me, i can't understand why. so many have tried to help me, but i just don't get it.
watchyourtonevision · 1 points · Posted at 02:48:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
music theory. i just have an ear what sounds good, but for the life of me, i can't understand why. so many have tried to help me, but i just don't get it.
oneeyedjack60 · 1 points · Posted at 02:49:34 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
marshimallows · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cells in biology. I know that the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell but I have no idea what the fuck that means, and cells are so abstract to my brain I glaze over when it's explained to me.
veiner_shnitzl · 1 points · Posted at 02:59:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Monster moonshine and the categorization of simple groups. J-functions and elliptic curves. Ugh.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Loving someone who’s not blood related.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 03:28:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are greedy. Look at the richest and most powerful people in the world. You have all this money and control and you just continue the monopoly to try and make it to the top of the economy, but for what? What is so special about it? We all die eventually. Why not dedicate your life to being compassionate and helping others so we can become one?
Beavis-Christ · 1 points · Posted at 03:48:44 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consciousness
AmberMetalicScorpion · 1 points · Posted at 03:51:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Engineering. I just can't wrap my head around it
HextechProtobelt · 1 points · Posted at 03:56:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Car engines.
JJ-BATTLELANDS · 1 points · Posted at 04:06:37 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wtf the first person who first drank cow milk was thinking
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:41:21 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
everything
mttyflynn · 1 points · Posted at 04:54:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The blind hatred people have a President of the party opposite thier affiliation, matter what good they do, its always portrayed as evil or incompetent Hannity with Obama and Joe and Mika for Trump.
michael0629lul · 1 points · Posted at 05:03:42 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Midnightstrike-JM · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:41 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our generation.
hugerefuse · 1 points · Posted at 05:25:15 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
i don't understand how some people just know what way to turn or what direction they need to go without having done it before. i dont have any innate sense of direction and i have to learn streets by memorization only.
5cscout5 · 1 points · Posted at 05:36:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand how people are able to confess their love to another person. I be suffering over here.
mhere7341 · 1 points · Posted at 05:54:25 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
When an adult says always tell an adult figure to say if something bad happens to someone else or if you get bullied yet you get in more trouble this is why smithed get stitches
TypicalEgg789 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:32 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How sex works
Hotwheellin_Laser · 1 points · Posted at 07:26:03 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does Siri understand what I say. Not to mention all the other languages that you can switch too. I get that someone says a certain phrase In a certain language, but how does a robot tell if someone is speaking or if it’s just the wind blowing hard?
sleelopez · 1 points · Posted at 07:27:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
jay_Da · 1 points · Posted at 07:44:52 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The existence of 'karens'
Fitz989 · 1 points · Posted at 08:32:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Our minds eye where we can imagine images. Like where is that? I can see it so clearly but it’s not physically in front of me, is it inside me?
stella8_ · 1 points · Posted at 09:52:22 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people buy 300 dollar t-shirts????
FemShepVakarian · 1 points · Posted at 10:10:36 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the economy failing is like a self fulfilling prophecy. Like people panic thinking the economy is going to tank, so they spend less money, putting less into businesses, in turn actually CAUSING the economy to tank, and going, "I told you it was going to happen!" Like if people just stopped panicking all the time and just went on with their daily lives as normal most economical droughts could be prevented, no?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:20:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets. How do they work? Im assuming miracles.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:48:06 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The tesseract from Interstellar. Is it built by future humans and is it in the 4th dimension?
Pharm199 · 1 points · Posted at 11:18:10 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
kochacha · 1 points · Posted at 12:12:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tumblr. What the fuck is it meant to be?
Curositysucks · 1 points · Posted at 12:16:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Organic chemistry
Corporal_Joker · 1 points · Posted at 12:26:32 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Professional Wrestling, and more specifically why otherwise sensible, well-adjusted friends of mine love it so fucking much.
It's scripted and even the people who know it's not real are somehow okay with all the people in the audience who don't know it's scripted.
And presumably people who know it's not real have had a moment in their lives where they finally understand that, but they kept watching? Is that like learning Santa Claus isn't real or??
I play vidya games and listen to extreme metal, but pro wrestling just seems like nonsense to me.
brokensaltshaker · 1 points · Posted at 12:31:12 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
lakeslakes55 · 1 points · Posted at 13:51:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The federal reserve / fractional reserve banking system. Money created from nothing?
SoloRasputin · 1 points · Posted at 14:09:54 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Supercell stays in business.
undrhyl · 1 points · Posted at 14:17:50 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who won't comply with social distancing.
lexi_141414 · 1 points · Posted at 14:56:07 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can stay mad at somebody after they profusely apologized( especially if what they did was small and insignificant)
ForgottenBelmont · 1 points · Posted at 15:03:53 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, not really. Money is made up, nothing stops you from getting a boat and living on the high seas from what you fish and algae. Or moving some place with extensive woods and build a shed in the middle of nowhere.
If people actually cared about each other there’s more than enough land to feed and house the entire population several times over. Just look up how much good food is thrown away every day because it doesn’t look the way supermarkets want it to look.
retr0001 · 1 points · Posted at 15:05:05 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
KING MOTHAFUCKIN CRIMSON
TheLongDarkNight4444 · 1 points · Posted at 15:12:01 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selfies. I just don’t get taking and posting 100s of pictures of yourself.
dvidshultz · 1 points · Posted at 15:26:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do people believe it to be a good idea to inject a large population of one cultural into a region dominated by a different culture and expect everyone to blend together to form a new culture. Humans tend to live with those like themselves, so instead of blending, diversity kicks in and each group stays separated while trying to make the other culture convert to their own.. Makes you wonder if those conducting these social experiments are evil or just misguided, hard to tell but even with all the evidence (events) that show it isn't a good idea they keep pushing forced diversity.
lemlom · 1 points · Posted at 15:27:40 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
The single piece of tape on Iceberg lettuce, the only way to get it out is by ripping it. The packaging techniques of the folks at the cabbage farm are far superior - an elegant twist and tuck.
TheLongDarkNight4444 · 1 points · Posted at 15:53:02 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is really annoying.
lemlom · 1 points · Posted at 12:15:44 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Drives me crazy, I did successfully peel one off once, but the juice was not worth the squeeze
ViolentlyWild · 1 points · Posted at 15:30:55 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math.
ewandavidcharlie · 1 points · Posted at 16:07:04 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
GCSE Chemistry
upvote-button · 1 points · Posted at 16:13:02 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand finna as a slang word. Don't get me wrong, there's quite a few slang words I like to use, that are good contractions that shorten words and some of them that are downright genius but finna is just stupid. It's just gonna but with an fi instead of a go, that's not shortening it or making it eaiser to say or anything. If it was supposed to be a contraction of "finally gonna" then I'd like it but that's not the context I keep seeing it in.
catfroman · 1 points · Posted at 15:34:40 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
It means “fixing to” like you want to do something, not necessarily that you’re going to (gonna) do something
upvote-button · 1 points · Posted at 16:08:19 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Then where do the Ns come from?
catfroman · 1 points · Posted at 16:12:11 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s just shorter and faster to say.
“Going to” becomes “gonna” in the same way “fixing to” becomes “finna”.
Fixing to, fixin’ to, fixin’ ta, finta, finna...you can see the progression there.
Keelel · 1 points · Posted at 16:40:51 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
The general concept of life. The way it started and how we are all alive. Also our concept of time, like how is it we can stare at like a pile of wood for what feels like 5 minutes but is really up to an hour, or the other way around.
kjetildedx · 1 points · Posted at 16:42:39 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
When dependents get a call after a accident and answer "no" when asked about donating organs to save other lifes. I mean, come on...
pressthebuttonfrank · 1 points · Posted at 18:08:30 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does paying more taxes to the government fix climate change?
fancypants323 · 1 points · Posted at 19:26:38 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
just about everything anymore! crazy crazy world crazy crazy people in the world
SuzyFreckles · 1 points · Posted at 21:39:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people pronounce “realtor” as “real-a-tour/ter.”
I hear it ALL the time, and it’s infuriating. I work in real estate, and even some colleagues pronounce it this way.
WHY!?!?!
Nora_Bacon · 1 points · Posted at 22:38:46 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
myself (i'm transgender).
verticalboy · 1 points · Posted at 22:39:27 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
myself
Gaietah · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:30 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I been learning English since i was 8 (I'm 17). But I don't understand a lot of expressions that millenial people use in text like "btw" "tho" "stfu" and more. Sometimes it makes me feel dumb when i ask what does that mean :C
polonyforlunch · 1 points · Posted at 01:14:30 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pyramid schemes/pyramid selling
colincsa · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:14 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
people with a PASSION for something, but really more so having the passion. example: the cast of cheer who live and breathe cheerleading.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:55:38 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma. Fucking karma. Look at my profile and you'll know.
Mithril2H · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:10 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
sassage_flare · 1 points · Posted at 04:12:41 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
The appeal of Pro Wrasslin
I understand when you're a kid but when you turn 25+ and still like pro wrestling, I'm baffled..
gypsybbz · 1 points · Posted at 06:21:58 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depression
lilmissbug_ · 1 points · Posted at 07:18:02 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life 😩 someone pls help
Sammy_Waffleman · 1 points · Posted at 10:57:14 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Every other language than english
szen_ · 1 points · Posted at 15:20:49 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings time
sheepbeepbeep · 1 points · Posted at 15:45:43 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people have to be gangsta, hip and cool (thug life) and then complain and bitch when they see people who are more successful than them in this society.
zanetti2001 · 1 points · Posted at 16:21:03 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can such a large portion of our population believe in a God? A super-natural being that knows all and controls all (when it suits him) has all the answers. Yet we can not see him/her, hear him or genuinely experience him in anyway. How can so many people be fooled in this day and time.
daddio2590 · 1 points · Posted at 18:05:24 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Consult on Labor Relations and bother my wife
urmumgay69420lol · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:27 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
my math teacher lol
tge_golden_foxy · 1 points · Posted at 20:15:04 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
why people think this is outside https://www.outsideonline.com/sites/default/files/styles/full-page/public/2019/11/05/outside-careers-at-outside_h.jpg?itok=U1rJr0Mp
K1ngCr1m5on · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:18 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
why some dogs won't eat dog food but will eat cat food like it's a steak.
minutemash · 1 points · Posted at 00:58:01 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the current occupiers of the White House are not yet in prison.
Seriously, the number of crimes collectively committed -- sans repercussions -- throughout the lifetime of these clowns... I'd be willing to bet they are the mob. Only explanation they're still standing.
I will never understand it as long as I live.
And yes, I know all politicians are corrupt to an extent; I'm merely speaking of the ones in control now. Worst I've ever seen.
sirensslave · 1 points · Posted at 02:44:45 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Moles in reference to chemistry, my mind can not comprehend them whatsoever.
deadly_pigskin · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:57 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never under stood the function of the brain. In the end your brain is meat whith electricity flowing through it. brain disorder are another thing I dont get is depresion, i dont know how it works and i know it must be bad for the victom.
sisar · 1 points · Posted at 08:49:59 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend :(
JockeyJ · 1 points · Posted at 08:57:33 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like Michael Scott. I'm on S6, and at this point the only way I can understand is to believe that there's some elaborate joke that I'm not in on
roller110 · 1 points · Posted at 09:46:14 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tail end recursion...
YPLAC · 1 points · Posted at 17:15:41 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
The popularity of Michael McIntyre, James Corden, Mrs Browns Boys, Jimmy Fallon and countless other laugh-voids.
BlackBandit123 · 1 points · Posted at 17:55:27 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people can’t freaking practice social distancing
carlosthedog7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:29:45 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Reddit live
carlosthedog7 · 1 points · Posted at 19:30:32 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
What's the deal why I can talk on the live chat and people respond?
oh_mydays_ · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:58 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
People🤷🏽♀️
RegenKaje · 1 points · Posted at 22:53:23 on April 15, 2020 · (Permalink)
Understanding. Why are some things instantly apparent to some people and then completely lost on others?
OliverSmi · 1 points · Posted at 00:01:20 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Redstone from Minecraft, even if I watch Mumbo Jumbo's videos.
csmiley17 · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:47 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Molecular orbital theory. Despite probably 100 hours trying to understand this shit, I finally realized it was never gonna happen, and promptly dropped out of my OChem class.
Gnojuan7734 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:41 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand what people see in Reddit.
a-man-with-a-hat- · 1 points · Posted at 08:28:47 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I should give a shit about politics, like , there are just so many sides and so many wings and so many stupid people , I just wanna live my life politics free but that seems impossible in 2020.
blackpandacat · 1 points · Posted at 10:38:47 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm from the UK. I cant understand the American obsession with guns.
YourFavoriteDictator · 1 points · Posted at 23:13:17 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
Capitalism
momofxandz · 1 points · Posted at 23:21:37 on April 16, 2020 · (Permalink)
How days/ years are calculated based on how long it takes a planet to tilt/ travel around the sun. Like when people say "a day on such and such planet is a year on our planet"... I can't wrap my head around it no matter how it is explained
Imchildfree · 1 points · Posted at 01:38:28 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
littleargent · 1 points · Posted at 03:50:20 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math, 6th grade and up. I am able to remember and understand up to about 4th grade math, and some of fifth grade math, but beyond that it just gets so frustrating. It is like trying to hold water in your hand and not spill any over 5 miles of rocky terrain where you have to put it in a well that is mostly dry anyways.
I have always felt worth less than others my age because of that.
mrsborsc · 1 points · Posted at 09:02:05 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my mom had to beat me up so much when I was a child
_trashlobster_ · 1 points · Posted at 10:17:17 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra! I’m in middle school and it’s hard.
WrecoBlade · 1 points · Posted at 12:56:27 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fawk do we forget most of the things we learn / experience throughout the day?
I want to remember a lot of things I forget. I practice, use memory tricks and do tons of things to make sure I remember those things put I eventually forget them. On the other hand; I can't forget things that were really unpleasant, bad or horrible. Mf I don't want to remember somethings because they are bad. Why do you keep it in my head???
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:14:52 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people who get married can get divorced. Why does everybody jump ship when things get hard? Makes zero sense to me.
Chefshipwreck5897 · 1 points · Posted at 22:13:15 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
The amount of people who watch those “life hack video” or “5 minute crafts for kids”.
Many of those videos display incorrect facts and a number of them are actually very dangerous, and for some reason YouTube has it for kids under their algorithm. It’s extremely irresponsible to have those kind of videos directed to kids.
plzignoremeplz · 1 points · Posted at 05:39:41 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men.
Horrorgoreandlove · 1 points · Posted at 13:10:42 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Algebra and Chemistry. Numbers and I do not get along
kymikobabe · 1 points · Posted at 13:37:21 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life.
sgninnigeB_ehT · 1 points · Posted at 17:11:00 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
6
HolaImmaFrickYou · 1 points · Posted at 18:51:45 on April 18, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Shadow1778 · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:55 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'd say how people can figure out who is attracted to who.
pansexualsquirrl · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:45 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
too much to say
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:49:25 on April 19, 2020 · (Permalink)
everything, just think about it
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 10:33:34 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why karma is needed to post and you can’t get karma without posting
Drgnmztr · 1 points · Posted at 22:04:54 on April 20, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thats a loaded question. Time, infinity, the universe, but those I can deal with. The big boy of them all though?.... Females.. No joke.
EmyNNN · 1 points · Posted at 02:57:18 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Easy. The way installing private solar energy works in the US. For us in Nigeria, you just get the parts (that must include the battery) do the installation and call it a day. In the US, I don't understand I have to seek permits to install one in the first place and that an "on-going" option exists in the first place. When you now throw in the energy saving benefits calculation and saved bills part, it leaves me thoroughly confused. After all, it's my house and I'm doing them a favour saving them power and going green so why the permit or having to still be connected to the grid?
moxielicious · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:12 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
All the medical equipment and supplies that keep getting taken by the United States federal government during this pandemic—where is it and what are they doing with it? It's not like the federal government runs a lot of hospitals. Military and prison hospitals are the only ones that come to mind, and it's not like they make up the bulk of hospitals in the country. Where's it all going and what is it being used for?
Shoey377 · 1 points · Posted at 07:04:37 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get less priority for being a different race, gender, or sexualtiy than straight white men
crafter2k · 1 points · Posted at 12:34:07 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why most talented people never got famous after their death.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 15:29:06 on April 21, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sight. It’s weird. I understand the structure of the eye, but I don’t at the same time. HOW? Like, how does it actually work?!?
I also don’t understand imagination. Now, I love it, but how does our brain create an image? It’s weird too!
somerand0mb0i · 1 points · Posted at 15:21:34 on April 22, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anti vax mums can be so fucking dumb
xblaster2000 · 1 points · Posted at 23:22:13 on April 22, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nationalism/pattriotism
Caleegula · 1 points · Posted at 18:09:12 on April 23, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that there can't be nothing. Think about it, we're on earth surrounded by other planets but if you removed all planets and stars ..what's left? Empty space? Is empty space perceivable? Is it a container? Are there other empty spaces next to this empty space? How can there be nothing and who is allowed to exist outside this nothing? Blows my mind.
LewDogg4 · 1 points · Posted at 02:14:18 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electrolysis
souleswolf · 1 points · Posted at 05:16:47 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
We learned more in space than our earth ocean
Off-to-tesco · 1 points · Posted at 12:46:00 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can't follow a simple rule... JUST STAY INSIDE AND ONLY LEAVE FOR ESSENTIALS!
1-14Karma14-5 · 1 points · Posted at 16:42:39 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
How these amazing people how make a whole ass holograms or programs that help make robots run and jump like... Wow
All I know is that they are dedicated to their art and making work!! Like AMAZING!!!
bro420911 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:24 on April 26, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to be happy
KurtRussellsShoes · 1 points · Posted at 07:16:13 on April 27, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fucking magnets, how do they work?
Aman1455 · 1 points · Posted at 16:19:41 on April 27, 2020 · (Permalink)
The phrase "by the way" I understand what it means, but why do those words mean that, I don't get it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 16:29:17 on April 27, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the conversation is the "way", the topic that "by the way" segues into is not far from the way, thus it's "by the way".
DesperateKid68 · 1 points · Posted at 18:47:23 on April 27, 2020 · (Permalink)
When you have a "Gut feeling" that you feel like something is not right. It's really weird to think about the fact that this "Gut feeling" saved peoples lives on some occasions.
psycho_yello · 1 points · Posted at 22:48:23 on April 27, 2020 · (Permalink)
the "nobody: this person:" trend. like it literally doesn't make sense. if it's "nobody saying nothing", then it doesn't make sense because nobody wouldn't be saying anything anyway because its NOBODY and NOBODY isn't SOMEBODY to be able to say something. it would make more since if it was "everyone: this person:". the trend started on twitter and i was so confused so i would say it with the "everyone" format because it just makes more sense that way, because everyone would have the ability to say something but they don't because of "this person:"
newaccterryday69 · 1 points · Posted at 09:22:25 on April 28, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity. How can it make a ball of meat discover calculus and make some silicon compute the equations?
Crunchy_ass_water · 1 points · Posted at 19:54:33 on May 1, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can do shit like steal or kill people or kidnapping. Just the guilt of taking a loved one or a priceless item that could have been attached to so many memories. If I ever did it, I would not be able to live with the guilt of it and would probably end my life. Or I'm just sensitive, idk.
starrsuperfan · 1 points · Posted at 16:59:09 on May 3, 2020 · (Permalink)
The purpose of Minecraft. Some say it's to build stuff. Some say it's to defeat the Ender Dragon. Some say it's survival. Every time I ask someone what the point of Minecraft is, I get a different answer. BTW, I'm 23.
Another honorable mention: Lady Gaga. The woman looks like a completely different person every time I see a picture of her. Most celebrities, ok, they change their appearance but you can still tell it's the same person. Not Lady Gaga. You could put up 20 different pictures of her and tell me it was 20 completely different people. I've been saying this since 2010.
lrg333 · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:14 on May 4, 2020 · (Permalink)
When people say they love animals but still eat them..
ScawyDemon · 1 points · Posted at 00:39:06 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
Uh, how to read human emotions based on anything.
EngrNinJa · 1 points · Posted at 15:50:11 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why live. Why die. Why exist.
Rhundis · 1 points · Posted at 16:55:04 on May 5, 2020 · (Permalink)
Chemistry and Calculus.
Tried on numerous occasions to learn at my local college failed or dropped out of all the classes I took. Not from lack of trying, I just can't get my head around it. I'm a A+B=C guy. I don't need an A+C/B=AB+C. Or I don't need a question for an answer, I need a solution.
BobaTheLesbian · 1 points · Posted at 09:07:51 on May 6, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Homophobia, I'm Gay and been trying to understand homophobes for the longest time, and I still don't understand
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:11 on May 6, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people lie, especially for no real reason.
Espidowagon · 1 points · Posted at 00:17:12 on May 7, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths
DesertMP351 · 1 points · Posted at 16:48:51 on May 7, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wife sharing or cuckolding? Cannot for the life of me figure out that appeal.
mikaakitten · 1 points · Posted at 15:23:43 on May 9, 2020 · (Permalink)
Brains and neurone and shit
urgay05 · 1 points · Posted at 06:45:33 on July 3, 2020 · (Permalink)
That I'm a specal just wandering in space. And that i can control my body to move on just a little thought.
Dorieflorie · -31 points · Posted at 15:47:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Evangelical Christian republicans who worship Jesus and trump.
officeromnicide · 6 points · Posted at 18:24:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same reason they don't understand you, emotion over empathy
CitationX_N7V11C · 5 points · Posted at 17:30:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are very few that actually do. Also of note Evangelical Christians are only one part of the Republican Party. Their numbers and power are hyped up by critics because they're a nameless, faceless adversary that gets you to focus on one group instead of the party's overall message or ideas. Remember when a few years back everyone kept saying "The GOP doesn't have ideas or a platform." That was ridiculous, of course they have both. Critics what you to focus on what they say are your adversaries. To think of others are groups and not individuals. Are there some people who worship Jesus and Trump? Probably, the realm of possibility is there. Are they supposed to be ideologically perfect according to the definitions that others set upon them. Hell no.
spinner198 · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just because I support Trump doesn’t mean I worship him. The dudes not perfect, but he’s way better for our country than Hillary.
wordsworths_bitch · 1 points · Posted at 08:25:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You know one?
daniel4sight · -3 points · Posted at 19:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people need an authority figure to survive.
oneUnit · 1 points · Posted at 02:54:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally what leftists want more of.
princess-smartypants · -54 points · Posted at 18:10:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. More mystifying every day.
Antisocialfox69 · 11 points · Posted at 19:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can you not
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 21:33:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Antisocialfox69 · 2 points · Posted at 06:59:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can people just stop bringing politics into every fucking thread
daltonthekidd · 6 points · Posted at 23:27:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It is valid, it’s just annoying. I’m 90% sure everybody on both sides is tired of seeing the same political bullshit in every thread
equinecm · 1 points · Posted at 19:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is this downvoted?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:53:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Election season, so bots and brigading. Just like 2016.
zugtug · 14 points · Posted at 19:55:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because not every thread needs to turn into this. It's thrown out there as a circle jerk at this point. Yes it technically falls within the limits of the question but it's every single thread on the front page for the most part. I say this as a non Trump supporter.
cicatrix1 · 0 points · Posted at 00:15:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Waaah
symetra- · 15 points · Posted at 19:52:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because trump supporters are snowflakes.
LMK44106123 · 11 points · Posted at 19:53:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it doesn't fucking belong here
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 20:22:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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LMK44106123 · -2 points · Posted at 20:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hundreds of millions of people voted for a guy they agreed with, simple as that.
[deleted] · 13 points · Posted at 20:29:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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LMK44106123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people likes his views on: guns, abortion, lgbtq rights, and economics. Some people wanted a guy that would stand up to China and bring jobs back to America. Some people wanted a president that would secure our borders. That should be enough reasons for you
princess-smartypants · 7 points · Posted at 21:14:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
62 million. I can understand why people voted for him. I can understand why people support some things he does. I can't understand the die hard supporters who insist he is always right, and can do no wrong.
LMK44106123 · 1 points · Posted at 00:14:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Agreed
cicatrix1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Got it, snowflake.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 19:54:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it's trash
Omegacraft42 · -1 points · Posted at 22:12:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because it is an ignorant statement? You can hate Trump and think of him all you want, but if you treat this echo chamber like it is a reflection of the real world and pretend that people don't have reasons to support him, then you will get the downvotes. Simple as that.
cicatrix1 · 2 points · Posted at 00:16:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There's no reason to support him unless you hate America or are in on one of his blatant taxpayer cons (or really like having 10 million unemployed and tens of thousands dying).
equinecm · 2 points · Posted at 00:53:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
alright I understand what you mean but it’s a genuine thing that we have a hard time understanding.
LMK44106123 · 1 points · Posted at 19:52:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I knew this would be the first thing on controversial. You're an idiot
Aturom · -1 points · Posted at 19:52:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same.
spinner198 · 0 points · Posted at 21:30:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ikr? Imagine supporting a president that actually likes America and wants it to succeed rather than kowtow to other nations.
thealmightybrush · 0 points · Posted at 21:50:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump absolutely kowtows to other nations. Saudi Arabia. North Korea. Brazil. The Philippines. Fucking motherfucking Russia. But he won't work with nations we are allied with; suddenly he thinks he's a hardass.
I want a President that understands our flaws and tries to fix them and apologizes when we fuck up. I don't want someone who puts blinders on and says we're the greatest no matter what.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 23:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can we just leave the political shit out of here please? Allow people to like what they like, it's none of your fucking business
cicatrix1 · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sorry if people like Anti American fascist criminal bullshit they need to be corrected or at least exposed to facts.
ech0FX · -24 points · Posted at 14:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Women. Not in a sexual or discriminating way. But litterly Women....
I guess every Dude will understand what i mean
I_hate_traveling · 16 points · Posted at 14:50:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Give an example of a typical behavior you don't understand.
ech0FX · 16 points · Posted at 14:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Well saying something and meaning something different.
Exapmple: Like when you ask her if you can go out with the Guys.
She says "yes" and after that she complains that you allways leave her home alone (even tho this happens like once a month)
And this is not a univeral thing with women...
mtled · 4 points · Posted at 17:09:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At a guess; she doesn't want to deny you those friendships and outings, but also would enjoy a similar outing with you. Maybe she has fewer friends, or "going out with the girls" means a different activity and while she enjoys that, she'd like to do whatever activity you're doing with the boys too.
Or, if you have kids, you going out means she's taking care of them and that's exhausting. She'd rather you two go out together and hire a babysitter than know you're having fun while she's home, despite not wanting to tell you you can't go out because that's not nice of her and she probably wants you to be happy.
Or, you're a dick that does nothing around the house/parenting/etc and she says yes to get you out of her way, but she's really unhappy about something else that you've fought over 57336 times and nothing's changed, do fine, go out with the boys but that doesn't mean she's happy.
I don't know you, or her, but perhaps you should talk about it at a time when you're not scheduling an outing (and therefore not trying to meet friend expectations too). Ask her kindly, or schedule a night out, or whatever.
LeMeowLePurrr · 5 points · Posted at 20:04:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you see, as mtled so thoughtfully and brilliantly explained, it's possible that its not that some men don't understand women but possibly a difficulty with communicating with the women whom you do not understand?
ech0FX · -1 points · Posted at 20:52:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
wow calm down. Not talking about anyone specific. But had that experience way too often. I do communicate very much when im in a relationship. But if you lie in my face, dont tell me when somethings bothering you in the first place or just litterly say Yes when meaning no. Thats a problem i cannot fix.
Theres more i whould tell, but im good thanks.
Edit: Ah yes, and thanks for implying that im a "dick". Im suprised you know me that well allready
tempski · 6 points · Posted at 16:57:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Never ask to do something, just inform.
If you're asking, you'll end up negotiating.
I_hate_traveling · -9 points · Posted at 15:03:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don't want to be judged for saying what they mean.
Society tends to just women harsher than men for a ton of things, so they choose to obfuscate their communication.
tempski · 8 points · Posted at 16:56:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I love how you put that. I also love how you blamed others for their behavior, because not taking responsibility for their own shortcomings is another stereotype.
I_hate_traveling · 3 points · Posted at 17:58:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not really, I still blame women for acting like that, I just think I understand why.
Just because something is understandable doesn't mean it's excusable.
Dargon34 · -3 points · Posted at 19:31:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's obviously not only women, but tends to be mostly them from my experience: They want to do something that makes no sense, for no reason only because they want to and they want to do it their way. You can show them a hundred different ways that are better, you can show them things that make more sense, you can write a dissertation explaining your point and be as nice and as understanding as possible. And it doesn't make a difference. I like to think that if I'm doing something and someone who knows what they're talkin about came along and offered advice or suggestion or did anything to better what I am doing I would listen to them and at least consider what they're saying. Again, it's not only women who do this, but from my experience primarily a woman does not care about anything other than her doing this particular thing the way she wants to for any other reason than it's what she wants to do and she wants to do it her way.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 22:15:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you have a specific example?
Dargon34 · 0 points · Posted at 23:52:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Absolutely, a common one for me is on our way home. The first time going to this new house, we went one way. Then found a shorter distance (by about 10 minutes) that I always use. Now, does it really matter if she wants to drive further? No, but for no reason other than she wants to drive that way she will. Even she has said, when asked, she has no reason for driving that route: it's not more scenic, less potholes, faster, nothing other than (her words) she just wants to. Afyer two years, yes she knows both ways Now in this example, really the only time it matters is when we're trying to keep a schedule and she wants to go that way when we're behind, otherwise it's not a big deal. Very basic example, but one I will never understand
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 00:03:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Huh.
I’m shooting in the dark here, but maybe she just doesn’t like being told what to do.
Dargon34 · 1 points · Posted at 00:15:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, it's not about telling someone what to do. I don't care that she does it (again, unless were running late or something) but it's something I can't understand. Why do it when there is no reason other than she wants to do it that way. I don't tell her what to do, but it just baffles me that people do things like that just because it's what they want, regardless of how much sense it makes. If there is no justification other than "I want to" that's what I don't understand. Now granted, there are things that are right or wrong (loading dishes into a dishwasher for instance) that she does like putting glasses in the bottom when they fit in the top and then you can't put plates on the bottom. Well...my solution there is to just do the dishes since I can load it in one go, instead of doing two loads. Why does she do it that way? She wants to...no other reasoning behind it.
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
As Judge John Hodgeman so sagely says, people like what they like.
Dargon34 · 1 points · Posted at 02:04:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yup, and that's all my response to the question is. I genuinely don't understand why someone does something for any other reason than they want to. If I'm doing something, I have a reason why, or at least an idea behind my thought process. Outside of it's "just what I want." It's always a "I want it because of..." But it's just different personalities and everyone is different.
[deleted] · 11 points · Posted at 14:39:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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PhoneJazz · -35 points · Posted at 15:42:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men are simple. Give them food and sex and they are happy.
Stiblex · 22 points · Posted at 20:14:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Men aren't dogs
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 20:18:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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Stiblex · 5 points · Posted at 20:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Depends on how much peanut butter I have left
youroldcanofbeans · 1 points · Posted at 02:24:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Imagine only not being able to understand one type of person
This post was sponsored by autism spectrum gang please help me why is everyone so subtle all the damn time oh god
equinecm · -18 points · Posted at 19:36:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m a woman but I totally agree with this. Sometimes I feel like I’m the only sane woman on earth...
harveybattleborn · 20 points · Posted at 20:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/notliketheothergirls
CapnBeardbeard · -25 points · Posted at 15:54:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone making less than seven figures a year would ever even consider voting conservative
LMK44106123 · 15 points · Posted at 19:58:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people do it for moral reasons because they might value the pro gun or prolife movement
spinner198 · 4 points · Posted at 21:44:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
“Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” - John F. Kennedy, a Democrat
Because voting isn’t just about “Screw everyone else and future generations. How will this exclusively improve my life?”
hotrodruby · 10 points · Posted at 20:03:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because not everyone likes to give their money to people who choose to not work or better themselves. Though I'm not a conservative, per se, I'd never vote for a republican... Just telling you why.
cicatrix1 · -4 points · Posted at 00:27:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans use the most welfare
hotrodruby · 6 points · Posted at 02:47:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Source?
BroMuch · 1 points · Posted at 15:38:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't know about welfare but republican states statistically are poorer, and are considering welfare states due to them getting more federal funding.
California for example are considered a donar state because they receive something like 78 cents back on the dollar. So all the shit republican talk about California, they are bank rolling a lot of the poorer/republican states. They why they have such influence in the country, they would literally have more money by becoming their own country.
Funny enough the poorest county in California happens to be republican, Centeral Valley, receiving the most federal funding.
That's why I say if you're looking to make more money , don't vote republican, statistically they don't know anything about business, All those fox News pundits that talk shit on California happen to live in California, Tomi lahren is a good example and just goes to show, they don't want to live in a republican state, because they are poorer. Just look up donor states and welfare states, it's interesting
Texas might be a outlier, but their cities that are bringing in the cash, probably are democrats, I'm willing to bet
Sorry for the rant
[deleted] · -17 points · Posted at 20:19:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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CapnBeardbeard · 0 points · Posted at 20:33:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol
kimishere2 · -20 points · Posted at 17:25:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How a full 48% of Americans believe this orange turd is doing a good job leading this country. I genuinely do not understand. Almost half.
MahaloHangLoose · 7 points · Posted at 23:24:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s simple: people have different views and opinions on things than you do. Some people likes his views on guns, abortion, lgbtq rights, borders, and economics.
cicatrix1 · -5 points · Posted at 00:26:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah bullshit. He's a crook with mental issues and that's objective fact. Your brain is broken. He'll say anything- He's so obviously a conman. All his supporters need serious help.
MahaloHangLoose · 5 points · Posted at 00:41:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is my brain broken? Please explain where you got that idea.
Noble____Actual · 6 points · Posted at 01:38:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bro, are your seriously incapable of accepting that people have opinions on issues that differ from your own?
cicatrix1 · -3 points · Posted at 01:43:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People can have opinions but there are still objective facts and there's nothing good about Trump. Objectively. He's a piece of shit conman who cares about nothing but himself, and he's pushing America more towards fascism every day. His crimes and abuses are blatant and there's simply no excuse to support this unless you are also a criminal benefiting from his criminal acts.
MahaloHangLoose · 3 points · Posted at 04:23:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m curious...what are you trying to accomplish with all of your toxic posts, bashing others, calling people “snowflakes”, and not accepting the fact that people may have different views than you?
You have no idea what my political views are and have no idea who I am, yet you said my brain was broken? Because I said other people have different views? I’m genuinely curious what your end goal is. You are doing nothing but losing credibility and pushing people away.
Noble____Actual · 2 points · Posted at 01:50:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok ok, that's understandable I get that. Guys needs to go into history as an example, pretty obvious. It's just your comment came of as a little harsh. Bit I will say, as a gun loving American I do like that Trump is fighting some of the anti 2A Bill's floating into Congress, but I find it hard to believe anything beyond that.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:26:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least it's enough to almost definitely win him into office again
blackeyedsusan25 · -3 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't either but I also don't know how polls work.
michele71976 · -30 points · Posted at 18:22:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
MahaloHangLoose · 5 points · Posted at 23:21:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What exactly don’t you understand about them?
wordsworths_bitch · 2 points · Posted at 08:27:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How they can disagree with someone's opinion, obviously.
Miloklaas · 3 points · Posted at 20:01:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some countries still use the Imperial System of Measurement and not the International System of Units
itsbeenawildride · -20 points · Posted at 15:37:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
In America, Republicans that aren't wealthy.
CitationX_N7V11C · 16 points · Posted at 17:21:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some people have a different idea about the role and scope of government in society. Some people just don't like the Democrats or their ideas. Your wealth level doesn't automatically decide who you should vote for or not.
spinner198 · 4 points · Posted at 21:42:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because some people don’t vote for the party that essentially bribes them with other people’s money.
“Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” - John F. Kennedy, a Democrat
Modern democrats should try to be more like this man.
fskoti · 5 points · Posted at 19:23:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be fair, working class people who support either party in America don't make much sense.
taarotqueen · 2 points · Posted at 19:58:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
to play devils advocate lots of non rich republicans are more on the libertarian coin of republicanism and blue collar workers who don’t want the government “taking the money” through taxes they’ve earned through their under appreciated labor.
i can understand why you’d say that though
itsbeenawildride · 3 points · Posted at 00:58:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I guess it's the whole focus on liberty, that each individual is responsible for their own success or failure. The key to America's achievements and may yet be the key to it's downfall. A German said to me " It's in my narrow self interest to make sure that the poor people in my community don't get sick and infect my family. " An American said "Why should I pay for health care for other people? "
[deleted] · -19 points · Posted at 18:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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xenongamer4351 · 25 points · Posted at 19:23:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
This is legitimate horse shit and you should try to spend more than 5 minutes away from r/politics to actually get an idea of why someone that isn’t wealthy would vote republican.
Some people just believe in a small government. Some people believe in the rights of an unborn child. Some people believe in the 2nd amendment.
This may blow your mind, but there’s plenty of people out there that don’t vote with the mentality of “let’s see what the government can give me for free” (which I only even mention since clearly you’re of the belief that everyone should vote in their best financial interest) and instead vote on beliefs they genuinely believe in.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 20:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ahh yes the second amendment. One of the best amendments
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 20:39:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It absolutely is
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:41:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fuck yeah
turk__turkleton__ · 1 points · Posted at 14:32:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What in the hell is strangeness
ameme · 1 points · Posted at 18:26:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:47:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anger
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:59:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are more than two genders.
Turtpet · 1 points · Posted at 20:23:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trinomials and trigonometry.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans aren't protesting in the millions.
As a Canadian ( Who Grew up In Australia ) America is not the greatest country in the world, It's so far away from that I'm shocked.
( I Love the USA, I love the people, but my god so many people are brain washed ).
1) No Free Healthcare
- If you are poor, unemployed, you either die in the street, or go into enough debt that Bill Gates would even raise an eyebrow.
2) A Joke of a President
- Seriously, this is your leader, your commander and chief, your boss... You have an Orange Reality Tv Show host who is racist, sexist and wants you all to stay poor
3) No Middle Class
- You are either rich or poor in the USA, there is no inbetween, and if there is an inbetween you are one heart attack, child birth or medical bill away from going into debt that will cripple you for years
I suffered a Blood clot, Gallbladder removal, diagnosis of an auto immune disease, if I was in the USA it would of cost me well over a million dollars in Medical bills, It was free in both Canada and Australia with leading industry doctors to get cured.
When Covid-19 happened and I lost my job, The Canadian government stepped in, here's $8000, hope it helps.
There's little to no crime in both countries, I can leave my door open, if I see someone in the street I can invite them in for coffee or tea, It's safe, there's no hate or fear.
I mean the list goes on, and it hurts me to write this as since i was a child I idolized America, I wanted to move there so much, but after visiting and seeing what it really is I get saddend, There's a better life out there where you don't have to suffer.
iamsambro · -8 points · Posted at 16:52:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. I wish I were joking.
shhitssecret69 · 1 points · Posted at 15:42:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Another thing is i dont know how theres like a gap between egyptians, and like romans. I think im confusing this but i feel like theres so much missing about the human race history, like mayans and stuff, and theres people right now who live on islands that we arnt allowed to interfer with and know nothing about.
foe1911 · 2 points · Posted at 15:54:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pharaoh Cleopatra of Egypt was banging Marc Antony of Rome, they existed at the same time.
shhitssecret69 · 1 points · Posted at 15:57:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yea this is why im stupid 😂
Thatsmyhashtag · 1 points · Posted at 16:29:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t get how Trump can wake up in the morning and think ‘yep, I’m doing a good job for my people’. He’s like an uncle who needs to be taken off social media.
euphoria_shmuphoria · 1 points · Posted at 16:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who owns the internet
Raidingyourfridge · 1 points · Posted at 17:04:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans that are not the top 1-15%. You don’t have to be a Democrat but why constantly vote for people that activity go against your best interests. You don’t have to throw away the bath with the bath water.
agnihotrijai · 1 points · Posted at 17:08:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bitches. These fuckn bitches.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:23:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:25:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It can be used in a similar way to vine and thus people who used to love vine love it
ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Let me guess. Tic toc?
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 20:36:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
yep
funky555 · 1 points · Posted at 18:58:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
societies double standards.
Black_Cherry_Merlot · 1 points · Posted at 19:06:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics. I just genuinely have trouble understanding the concepts and everything.
idunno12345678910 · 1 points · Posted at 19:07:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How EMOTIONALLY business, political, “big” decisions are made! It blows my mind that CEOs, bankers, the President, whomever make decisions based on their emotional read of the situation. “They didn’t treat us right, so do X.” “Based on the way they’ve been acting, let’s move forward with Y.” Seriously blew my mind once I started working in finance.
roachesincoaches · 1 points · Posted at 19:08:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Middle America’s fascination with Trump.
I don’t want to flame or incite a political conversation, I just genuinely don’t understand it.
SpartacusTR · 0 points · Posted at 19:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Neither do I. It seems like a blind unconditional following.
coljung · 1 points · Posted at 19:36:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hate from people from both sides for Hillary Clinton.
Afaik, she hasnt done anything remotely horrible to grant the amount of hate she gets from a LOT of people.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:37:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! And the same energy is now going to Biden... he is a perv... he makes no sense etc when Trump is 1000% worst that Binden.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:40:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why lower class vote against their own self interests
Lothbrokerth · 1 points · Posted at 19:43:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:44:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How 16,000+ have died in the USA and it won’t matter to trump’s voter base, leading to his re-election.
Also how Fox News is still considered by so many to be a viable news source, especially after their recent coordinated effort to discredit the coronavirus as a hoax...
terminal_delite · 1 points · Posted at 19:45:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How homophobic/conservative people say “I don’t want my children to be exposed to sexual thoughts at a young age” but are the same people that think it’s cute constantly ask the kid about bfs/gfs in elementary school. Or buy a T-shirt for the child that says “chick magnet” or something to that effect.
How parents force their girls to change out of shorts or tank tops bc a male family member is coming over.
rdldr1 · 1 points · Posted at 19:46:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How could people still support Donald Trump.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karens
Lemonz09 · 1 points · Posted at 19:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Streaks They literally serve no purpose but everyone fokin loves them
emanuelpina · 1 points · Posted at 20:02:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone like Trump could become POTUS.
Ino_Yuar · 1 points · Posted at 20:10:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That 40% of the US population still thinks that Donald Trump is doing a good job. I'm not trying to start a flame, it's truly the most puzzling thing I have ever encountered in my 60+ years of life.
Second would be why Hostess Twinkies, Cupcakes and Pies with too much filling were considered 'rejects'. No really, grew up near the Hostess factory/ outlet store and that's true.
I mean really...
SamSamTheHighwayMan · 1 points · Posted at 20:12:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. I’m saying this as a Brit, I just cannot even comprehend how someone could vote for someone so fucking stupid. I mean his stupidity isn’t even up for debate.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:14:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How schools and terrible parents still believe video games cause violence.
How boomers keep ruining the world.
How crabs move so quickly.
How cooking bacon is reversed when saying baking cookies.
How the english language is stupid.
1_Marauder · 1 points · Posted at 20:17:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How someone can listen to the president speak and still respect him.
How can people look at the same thing I do and not see what I see?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why socialism is bad??
cloudmaker236 · 1 points · Posted at 20:22:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
boomer_6102 · 1 points · Posted at 20:29:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mirrors work, like they reflect you but also horizontally flip what you see so if you wave your right hand your reflection will wave it's left, also how does it the reflection even work and in such a thin layer, my best guess is magic.
retiredtrump · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why can people not be racists against white people?
drunk_funky_chipmunk · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
sh4d0wm4x · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Americans can vote for such an incompetent, antisocial and genuinely dumb president and then wonder why he drives their country into ruin.
AsBigAsAlone · 1 points · Posted at 20:35:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone could listen to Trump and think he has anyone’s best interests at heart but his own. I genuinely don’t understand the support he gets from seemingly half of America.
418puppers · 1 points · Posted at 20:38:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Radical feminism. It used to be women's right, you know, before they could vote or do anything, but now it's about bringing men down. The people who support it have as much critical thinking as an anti-vaxxer, which I do not want to talk about.
ubik88 · 1 points · Posted at 20:42:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Biden voters. He wrote the mf patroit act...
Yung-Dy1ng · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls who say stuff is sexist just bc they don’t like it (I don’t mean actual sexist things I mean like a girl getting called Karen and saying it’s sexist)
Yung-Dy1ng · 1 points · Posted at 21:01:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Literally someone downvoted this, probably a Karen or a radical feminist
nithdurr47 · 1 points · Posted at 20:44:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Trump apologists
Hinataismyhero · 1 points · Posted at 20:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homophobia. Down to its very core.
I can wrap my head around most other forms of hatred, I can understand how racism evolves for example- not saying it’s ever acceptable but being brought up by a racist homophobe stepfather, I could see how his ignorance lead to his racism- but why care about who other people are fucking in consensual relationships?
Like why? I don’t get it at all.
miafran123 · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
anyone who would vote for joe biden.
cassierra · 1 points · Posted at 20:46:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who leave the bathroom without washing their hands. Just why.
yagooba · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics. How can something note technically exist, but have a probability of existing?
Naugle17 · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can still have faith in "voting" away their troubles. Isnt it basic sense to know that other people cannot and will not solve your problems for you?
trees_are_beautiful · 1 points · Posted at 20:48:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I seriously do not understand the support of Donald Trump. He is a complete fool. I just do not get that anyone supports him. I'm not American, so maybe I'm missing something.
DobbyUwu · 1 points · Posted at 20:57:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
Chi2Wisco · 1 points · Posted at 21:07:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That ANYONE can actually like Trump
jeremymeyers · 1 points · Posted at 21:11:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
how people can genuinely believe that everyone has an equal chance of success and financial security in America and how slavery and white supremacy are not things that have had any effect on this. And how poor people are lazy.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:13:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some americans consistently vote for policies which benefit the 1% rather than the 99% (FYI I’m European)
BlitzJager · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why people still get married in 2020. Don't people realize marriage is ONLY a business? That's why it costs so much to get married and costs so much to get out of a marriage.
Why did we start buying rings for our significant others? Does anyone know? A Birks commercial. A Birks commerical that told people to spend not 1 but 3 month's salary on a ring for your woman because that's the only way you can make her happy. People still do this today.
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:20:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a way to feel more connected. Being legally bound to someone out of love can make your relationship feel more real.
lasaintepoutine · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The concept of romance.
projecks15 · 1 points · Posted at 21:18:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
Smiddy23 · 1 points · Posted at 21:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People wearing face masks and gloves when they’ve been told it’s practically pointless and likely to put you at higher risk currently...
healyu · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right wing party supporters
OnToNextStage · 1 points · Posted at 21:45:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probability. If a coin flip is supposed to be 50/50 then why can I flip a coin 50 times and get 30 heads? Supposedly it's sample size but that makes the whole idea of probability worthless when it can't be applied to a real life situation. Kind of like a schrodinger's cat thing, sure the probability of a coin flip may be half and half but until it actually lands no one knows what it could be, so wouldn't it be better to say the coin is both heads and tails until it lands?
117ishappy · 1 points · Posted at 21:47:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans are so fucked up.
terdude99 · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people vote Republican. I mean I know they're influenced by a variety of media and cultural reinforcements, but it seems to be that Republicans and ESPECIALLY conservatives, are voting for people who obviously do not have their backs at all.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Trump has so much support. If people voted self interest he'd get 20% max.
ccgg21 · 1 points · Posted at 21:54:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
patrickbateman02 · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maga cult
PaaanicJ · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the US is the “best, most powerful” country on the planet. I had the blessed opportunity to live in Canada for a little while and I can tell you the US is shot compared to Canada.
stinav123 · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I also do not understand kissing. If you really think about it as if you’re an alien, it’s the weirdest fucking thing!!!!! Putting your mouth against someone else’s and exchanging saliva in the name of “love.” The. Fuck.
itzanothergrill · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be blind to the corruption of democrats and hate republicans for trying to calm that corruption down
OOF-MY-PEE-PEE · 1 points · Posted at 22:05:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think even showing a little respect to a women is simping
zanesthamain · 1 points · Posted at 22:17:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump Support.
MetalRanga · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people in America still want to vote for Trump. Why they don't seem to want free healthcare.
Also why Christianity is still so powerful despite all the evils it produces.
Perhaps people are just dumb.
Edit: also the fascination Americans have for holding onto their guns. When school shootings are a part of life surely you should realise that something is messed up. But they seem to think the answer is more guys. Baffles me.
TrilobiteTerror · 2 points · Posted at 07:44:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
School shootings and mass shootings in general are no where near as common as the media makes them seen. (Note: that's MotherJones which is anything but pro-gun).
Nevertheless, it's still an issue. Realize that people don't see more guns as the answer (they just recognize that it benefits no one besides the shooter if the only one armed in a shooting is the shooter). The answer is addressing mental health issues in this country (such as the reasons some people want to kill a bunch of people), preventing at risk people from falling through the cracks in the system before they get the help they need, etc.
Sculpturedeye · 1 points · Posted at 22:19:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I choose the most random, sometimes disturbing even, porn video’s.
I don’t like what I’m seeing, however, I only realise when post nut clarity kicks in.
I understand that I’m horny, but no matter how horny one might be, watching a video of a guy putting his head in a vagina is not okay. And we’ve all seen that one, don’t even deny it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:21:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why anyone would vote for that shitbag Donald trump.
gerryflint · 1 points · Posted at 22:22:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Murica's irrational need for weapons and the fear of nipples on tv
Excellent-Most · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the government has money to bail out banks but not students with heavy loan burdens.
niceyniceyzoozooo · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
swimfishy8 · 1 points · Posted at 22:36:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Americans are so afraid of socialized healthcare.
weareppmen · 1 points · Posted at 22:40:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women and menstruation.
emmaisbadatvideogame · 1 points · Posted at 22:45:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why men don’t respect women but they came out of one
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:08:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone sees Donald Trump as anything more than total piece of garbage who is actually destroying the country to line his pockets.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:11:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand why the USA still doesn't use the metric system even though it makes conversion so much easier
sculldug · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump is the president of the USA.
romesthe59 · 1 points · Posted at 23:20:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
tidbitsofblah · 1 points · Posted at 23:31:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Honestly I do not understand monosexuality. As in only ever being able to be attracted to one gender.
I do trust that it's a thing, but I do not at all understand how? People are so fricking different from each other in a million different ways. I just don't understand how gender is ever the thing that makes someone go "nope not interested in fucking that person"... because what even is gender actually?
Even for people where it is just that they are grossed out by dicks/vaginas... how can a body part be so gross that you just cut everyone with it out of your dating pool? I do not relate.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Rotational relativity, which is apparently solved in Einstein’s special relativity.
In general relativity, all velocity is relative, meaning that any given frame of reference is not special and velocity must always be relative to the chosen frame.
But when an object rotates, there is a center of that rotation and the entire universe can be assigned rotational motion relative to that center.
What I don’t understand is how to reconcile the absolute nature of the rotational frame with the notion of relative motion in translational motion?
0hh_FFS · 1 points · Posted at 23:44:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The insane psychology of a Trump supporter. Like, how does your brain even work? What in the absolute f**k makes you think any of what he does/says is good for humanity, yet alone the country? It’s not even political anymore; it should be common sense. I grew up Republican, and G.W. looked like Gandhi compared to this angry, apricot hellbeast.
turbols3 · 1 points · Posted at 23:45:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can support Donald Trump. It’s been more than 3 years now and he has been even worse than expected. And yet here we are.....
Orovo · 1 points · Posted at 23:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
War
nottoppost · 1 points · Posted at 00:10:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think its becouse of the thinking I am better than insert country or I hate it and, what better way to impose that than with a conflict
4664207 · 1 points · Posted at 00:03:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How democrats think.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Own-Log · 1 points · Posted at 00:05:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wow the top answers are wack.
Heres one: The appeal of sports. I just don't understand how people can get super hyped up over watching a group of people kick or throw a ball around for >1 hour. What's even more baffling is how people get fanatical about their teams. Who gives a fuck about this shit?
chodabomb · 1 points · Posted at 00:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That Donald Trumps biggest supporters are conservative christians.
KJarvis06 · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Wanderlust. I'm very anxious about travel in general, so they idea that someone would constantly want to travel somewhere new is so alien to me
I_Fuck_Raccoons · 2 points · Posted at 00:20:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I become restless if i live in the same place for too long. I dont understand how someone can live in the same house for more than a few years. It kinds correlates with that.
TiesThrei · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can believe that one side of the political aisle and ONLY one side of the aisle has all of the right answers and only right answers to every problem.
SquirrelyStu · 1 points · Posted at 00:18:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck any halfway intelligent person can -still- support Donald Trump.
I_Fuck_Raccoons · 1 points · Posted at 00:24:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Who else am i to support? I dont care much for politics but i cant bring myself to support some senile fucker whose views doesnt correlate at all with mine before him. And before you tell me that i am not halfway intelligent: sure, im only on my third year in med school but i wouldnt consider myself stupid.
nmsjtb0308 · 1 points · Posted at 00:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans. Trump supporters. I just, how?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:56:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stupidity of trump voters
thegoossOG · 1 points · Posted at 01:02:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can advocate for abortion by saying that it’s their own body but have no concern for the other body in their body
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:17:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Hey I don’t think that’s the point tho. It’s not like abortion is “the easy way out” that people make it seem, it’s incredibly hard mentally on a lot of women unless they are psychos. It’s not like they have no concern for the baby. For what I have seen, babies who are born into the world without being wanted turn out to either be horrible human beings or incredibly unhappy. Either way, you don’t know what the kid wants, you are assuming the kid will see life as a gift but I don’t really see it that way though.
thegoossOG · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah so let’s just not give them the chance or any option to live
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
But by bringing them to life you are not giving them a chance to live, you are making them live. Do you get my point of view? Also, parents who want to abort children and then don’t are more likely to abuse those children. I don’t know, I’m not saying it’s an easy choice but I definitely know a lot of people who have been taken away from or abandoned by their parents (my daycare and kindergarten was held in the same place as an orphanage and a met a lot of kids there who are still my friends, literally dozens) and the ones who have been able to open up throughout the years have told me parents who don’t want to have kids, shouldn’t have them. All of these conversations we had started because I was pro life. They totally changed my mind
thegoossOG · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah man I just don’t understand how one can argue that it’s their own body and completely their own choice. There’s another human inside that has the chance to live. If he chooses not to live in the future, he can make that choice.
You can do whatever you want to your own body. Surgery, whatever. But taking out someone else inside of you? I don’t see the argument that it’s your body your choice. I totally understand other arguments like health reasons. Just not that one.
massivemusicsucker · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah man but deciding not live isn’t that easy either, is it? I totally see your point, like I said I was pro life and quite honestly you are being calm and collected which most people aren’t during arguments. Just know all I have said, while I totally believe it, before anything else, I believe contraceptive methods come first always.
thegoossOG · 1 points · Posted at 03:09:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Definitely agree.
As a strong libertarian, I simply can’t square that argument.
I think the most compelling pro choice argument is that abortions will happen either way, at least if they are legal it’s regulated.
impeanutswife · 1 points · Posted at 01:21:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people won’t stay the fuck home right now.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So true.
TheSufferingBooth · 1 points · Posted at 01:25:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How adults can believe in a god, or several gods.
aestherisms · 1 points · Posted at 02:02:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How America got SO BAD with covid. Im Canadian, in WA state while my husband and I go through adjustment of status for me to get my greencard, and I'm...struggling to understand how this country has lasted this long. It's pure chaos and everyone is dying, and people are still ignoring stay inside rules? They're still making jokes and doing as they please? How....is anything supposed to change if everyone is so...selfish?
ThatRandomPersonHere · 1 points · Posted at 02:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How toxic, entitled, transphobic, and homophobic people can exist
TuttoParmesano · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
King Crimson’s power
chunkychicken69_ · 1 points · Posted at 03:19:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
On how someone can think that woman have rights.
tiedtoyourapron · 1 points · Posted at 03:27:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Any argument against abortion
itsjustalot · 1 points · Posted at 04:29:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can’t remember things in detail. I can’t remember complex things, simple things, old memories or even newer ones. I sometimes remember just feelings and little glimpses/pictures from what should be “memorable moments”
Creeper690 · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm a physics undergrad and a technician in mechanical engineering, but I feel stupid BC Alternated current makes absolutely mo sense for me, mainly the part where u ise IMAGINARY numbers to describe a REAL physical process
expopanda1 · 1 points · Posted at 04:31:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people cant stay the fuck home and away from home depot.....
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 1 points · Posted at 04:32:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am a hughly intelligent person, so I can't answer your question, unfortunately
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:23:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Intelligent is subjective in your case :/
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 13:31:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 13:45:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're stupid
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 15:16:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, you're the stupid one.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:31:20 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're retarded
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 11:50:53 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)*
NEVER use that word derogitarily. I was a pediatrician, so IN other words I was a doctor who worked specifically with children. One of my Patients, had down syndrome, in other words, retarded. He and I were very, very close, AND had a very strong connection with one another. He unfortunately passed away at an incredibly young age, and I am forever haunted by this.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 11:54:18 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did you call him retarded?! That's so mean!! Retard!
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 13:43:56 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
NEVER use that word derogitarily. I was a pediatrician, so IN other words I was a doctor who worked specifically with children. One of my Patients, had down syndrome, in other words, retarded. He and I were very, very close, AND had a very strong connection with one another. He unfortunately passed away at an incredibly young age, and I am forever haunted by this.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:00:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
you already said that bastard
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 00:49:08 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're a bastard.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:02:26 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 15:30:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I was a doctor, dumb ass. What were you? A wage worker, I'll bet!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 11:31:02 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't have a job, and I'm not as old as you to retire, you bitch boy.
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 13:33:00 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am am retired, and watch your mouth you little brat.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 15:01:19 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Or what, are you gonna use your walking stick to beat me up?
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 2 points · Posted at 00:47:44 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
My fist,punching
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 10:02:57 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your punch couldn't hurt a fly
Arney_Loves_Beatles · 1 points · Posted at 12:06:16 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'll hurt your fist, buster
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:00 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
buster
Cocacola888 · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be fans of Kanye West
Aiksenpains · 1 points · Posted at 04:34:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This'll probably get buried, but why can't faith and science peaceably co-exist? I mean, faith is that God (or whichever divine being(s)) created everything, and science is figuring out the universe and thus bringing us all closer to God.
Is it because we, as limited creatures, basically don't have a real concept of omniscience and truly ultimate power so people like many scientists or atheists and the like reject the idea out of hand? Like, "no one could be able to make all this, so it must all be random,"?
Are the faithful that scared of learning to be closer to God, so they reject science out of hand? Do they just want to be all "God created it, so leave it be," rather than "God created it for us, so let's figure out how it works and how to use it for the betterment of everyone."?
I just don't get it.
thiswasentfrommyipad · 1 points · Posted at 04:35:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The 4th dimension. No matter how much it’s explained to me, I can’t get my head around how 4D objects rotate and move and look like. It never made sense to me.
AmericanShowoff · 1 points · Posted at 04:36:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are atoms 99.9 percent empty space, but still form solid things? Or anything for that matter.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 04:37:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 06:25:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think they’re named because of the main elements they’re made of, rather than their state (solid, liquid, gas). Hydrogen for us is a gas, but at certain temperatures and/or pressures it would become solid. I could be completely wrong, though.
It’s either that or they’re stars that aren’t made of the right things to be shiny ☀️ 😂
stankywarrior · 1 points · Posted at 04:37:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How can one be born with (gender) specific characteristics, yet mentally its not there. I will truly never understand that ignorantly
Thor752 · 2 points · Posted at 06:19:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same. I don’t ‘feel like’ a woman, I just am one. I don’t doubt transgender people feel the way they do, but I just can’t get my head round it. I think it’s one of those things that’s impossible to understand unless you’re going through it
Yochevedb · 1 points · Posted at 04:38:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How an infinite amount can add up to a finite amount. Between each whole number there are an infinite amount of decimals. So how do you end up with finite whole numbers?
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:02:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s best not to think about it
hwatts1095 · 1 points · Posted at 04:40:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the hell do computers get slow over time?
iamtheshitler · 1 points · Posted at 04:40:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How space is expanding and there isn’t an edge. I’m not sure how to comprehend that. Someone help?
Semour9 · 1 points · Posted at 05:05:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why it's impossible to have a rational discussion about controversial topics on Reddit. You can't even mention he who shall not be named in a non-negative light without being called a right winger and hounded on. People wonder why places like 4chan are growing.
TheUwUCosmic · 1 points · Posted at 06:34:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Also, why religion isn't universally looked at like grown people believing in santa clause. And yes i understand that many MANY people are religious. I used to be too. Had my doubts. Shit didnt make sense. Quit. And now its the equivalent to the tooth fairy or whatnot. And yes. As a former religious person i understand faith. But even as a religious person you have to admit it makes no logical sense.
dhb1ibo · 1 points · Posted at 06:48:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
Iskjempe · 1 points · Posted at 08:16:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not being vegan nowadays in the economic West makes absolutely no sense to me. All the evidence is out there and proven time and time again but somehow people feel like they’re too good to make selfless decisions.
FightMilk888 · 1 points · Posted at 09:55:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Pewdiepie's appeal. maybe I'm too old but all I see is a boy with an annoying Swedish accent, who is the farthest thing from funny or entertaining.
spmahn · -25 points · Posted at 18:57:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
thegreenpiglet · 3 points · Posted at 22:40:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They feel empathy.
Cumbayacumbaya · 2 points · Posted at 22:59:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatives
ron_sheeran · 4 points · Posted at 20:15:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Elaborate.
HisRandomFriend · -27 points · Posted at 20:09:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They want free stuff without having to work for it and aren't smart enough to do the math to see that it doesn't work. It's pretty easy to understand really.
CapnSpazz · 6 points · Posted at 21:37:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I work and have great health insurance. I don't need the government to help with that. Yet most of the people I work with still support it. Not to mention most of us wouldn't be getting it for free, so that arguement doesn't hold much weight to begin with.
ohwhofuckincares · 3 points · Posted at 22:43:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yet we were still able to find trillions of dollars to bail out corps again while the American people line up an unemployment offices. Fuck off.
exoalo · 11 points · Posted at 21:08:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They want equity and giving everyone a fair shot. There is a difference between "free stuff" and "getting value for your tax dollars"
schudermcgavin · 9 points · Posted at 21:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I, too, can make disingenuous arguments. Where has that ever gotten us?
perfectwing · -1 points · Posted at 21:34:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree. Private ownership of the means of production is pretty cringe.
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 19:47:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people say there are more than 2 genders?
Why do people think the earth is flat, and why does it matter?
Why do people think vaccines cause autism? Where is their evidence?
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 5 points · Posted at 21:07:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are more than two genders. That's why.
[deleted] · -15 points · Posted at 21:10:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What is in between the legs that says something othet than male or female
schudermcgavin · 11 points · Posted at 21:37:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Please, for the love of god, learn the difference between sex and gender.
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 21:40:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Explain it then, teach me
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 7 points · Posted at 21:50:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok. Here goes. There are 3 general sexes. Male, female, and intersex. They are determined by what is between your legs, and other organs. They are biologically determined.
There are a potentially infinite number of genders, but let's simplify it to boy, girl, and non-binary. They are determined by they are determined by the individual. They are mentally determined, but they are no more a choice than your sex.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 21:51:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Im mostly talking about the 4th and 5th people claim to be. Sorry for not being specific at first
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 3 points · Posted at 21:52:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean the 4th and 5th?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Idk, i just see people saying they're the 4th gender or 5th.. I wana know why
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 6 points · Posted at 21:54:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've never heard of that before, but they're probably labels that some non-binary folk have given themselves to explain themselves more specifically.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok
schudermcgavin · 5 points · Posted at 21:55:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sex is biological, gender is a social construct. Sex normally dictates how a person's gender identity is formed, but not in all cases. Sex only dictates how your biology works. Gender is a spectrum of beliefs, personality traits, and socially accepted norms that categorize which gender mold you fit into.
Each culture can vary greatly on how they construct certain genders. A machismo man in American culture can be seen as a feminine representation of the male sex by a different society. There are many cultures where women are seen as tough and the leaders of their household, while men are the soft and effeminate type.
So when you say how can there be multiple genders, it's fairly simple. You are in fact multiple genders simultaneously, but you only fit a certain definition of a gender depending on what culture you're in. If you equate sex with gender, you're doing it wrong.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:56:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why'd ya edit this?
schudermcgavin · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't. Try reading it
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:59:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ah ok, someone else already explained it though
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
These are the only issues redditors like you seem to care about lol
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:58:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, im just genuinely curious about the 2nd two. First one was answered
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 22:06:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because stupid people want to feel like critical thinkers.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 22:16:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just wana know what goes through their heads
Shnarb · -14 points · Posted at 19:05:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone finds President Trump to be an effective leader and, above all, a compelling speaker. Truly mystifying
KevinGredditt · -1 points · Posted at 20:46:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans who are not wealthy.
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[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 19:34:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Spidercentaur · 0 points · Posted at 19:59:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like for example LGBT clubs at schools, right? Usually, they're about bringing everyone together to stop harassment and stagnation from both ends of the equation. From my experience, the people in those clubs really seemed like they were anti-heterosexual and thought of themselves as much more important than those who were heterosexual. But everyone is important, not just these small groups of people.
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 4 points · Posted at 19:08:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They don't tho?
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 14:57:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 21:43:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Are you alright?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:46:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:51:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Did you go through a breakup or...?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:55:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are you avoiding the question? 16.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:56:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dude, your comment seemed like you were having a rough time, I'm just trying to make sure you're okay. I don't know what I'd do if you weren't, granted, so I don't know why I want to know.
RiloxAres · 5 points · Posted at 17:51:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:27:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:30:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:33:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I never said it wasnt. I dont judge those who do no harm. I was only haveing a bit of fun god.
miauna · 1 points · Posted at 21:52:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hope you will find someone :( Heads up mate, don't lose hope!
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:54:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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miauna · 0 points · Posted at 22:02:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well it did sound a bit like you were accusing everyone of lying, had to read your other comments to get your point, too.
More than finding love, I think it's more like achieving love. The love you feel at the beginning of a relationship is (for me personally) very different from the love you feel several years into a relationship. It takes love, duh, but also a lot lot lot of work to maintain a healthy and 'fulfilling', whatever that means to one individually, relationship.
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 19:53:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah I am starting to doubt that too
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 19:55:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:03:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think a lot hast to do with how values have shifted
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:18:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everyone is so worried about what they can get out of the relationship or how they will appear to others. That's always been a factor but seems even more magnified now
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:45:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How old are the girls you are talking about? I think we also through stages
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:50:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:57:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Exactly 40+ have very different goals
DepressedBeanSoup · -21 points · Posted at 14:40:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why schools force religion onto students
revelation18 · 15 points · Posted at 17:26:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What schools?
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 18:39:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
A lot of countries have religion at part of the core subjects up to a certain age. This means teaching about a number of religions, including their practices and the stories behind them.
I assume this is what they mean by forced, but this isn't forcing religion it is just teaching them about it.
Harmxn- · 6 points · Posted at 19:07:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean I go to a Catholic school and they don't really force it onto us.
But one thing I have noticed is how everytime we learn about a religion other thsn Christianity my teacher finds a way to connect it to Christianity.
Idk how she does it but it's like:
In Hinduism, cows are praised, in Christianity however we do not
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 19:13:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can't speak for your school, but at mine they did that as well and we found it easier to learn just because it gave us a comparison point to learn from.
Also Christianity does tie in with Judaism and Islam to varying degrees, so Christianity being mentioned with respect to those religions is fairly common as well.
ron_sheeran · 3 points · Posted at 20:08:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Catholic schools.
[deleted] · 4 points · Posted at 20:37:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We were taught the different religions but that should be a basic thing. If that's forcing religion to you than what has gone wrong with your schooling years?
FlyingDarkKC · -4 points · Posted at 13:47:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Stupid people
klevland · -2 points · Posted at 18:59:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 17:04:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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AffectionateZoey · 4 points · Posted at 00:32:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender identity has been shown time and again to be something innate to someone that can't be changed, and transgender people's brains have been consistently shown to have a lot of things that are sided more towards their gender identity rather than the sex assigned at birth. i.e. trans women (MtF) have brains more similar to cisgender women than cisgender men. This mismatch between the brain and the body often causes gender dysphoria.
The only proven way to treat gender dysphoria is transitioning. It consistently improves quality of life, with regret rates for things like lower surgery generally being around ~1%, and while suicide rates decrease are also shown after transition, being accepted by peers/family can often make an even bigger impact on suicide attempt rates. I can provide studies for any of those claims if needed.
I'm trans, and I have dysphoria that can sometimes get really bad, but being on hormone replacement therapy, being perceived as my actual gender, and being accepted has significantly improved my mental health. Several of my friends who are trans can also attest to this.
Contrast with the idea of transracialism. There's no major inherent mental differences between races, nothing that shows that your brain can be different from your race, and no evidence that if it were "wrong", it would cause distress. Not to mention just how uncommon it is, especially compared to people who are transgender- I literally have only ever heard of one example of someone who says they were born the wrong race.
TL;DR Race just isn't something that's as hard-wired into your brain as gender, and there's nothing to show that you can be the "wrong" race, or that trying to change it would actually improve your mental health.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 02:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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wikiwiki88 · 1 points · Posted at 04:07:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That has been tried and it hasn't worked.
IndigoImperatrix · 1 points · Posted at 04:08:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
source?
wikiwiki88 · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Just look up conversion therapy and other times it was tried
IndigoImperatrix · 1 points · Posted at 05:24:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've heard children given therapy ended up happy with their bodies by adulthood
wikiwiki88 · 1 points · Posted at 07:16:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Some do and some don't. You can't change someone's gender identity but you can help someone realize their gender identity. So some people end up happy in their birth sex and some don't.
AffectionateZoey · 1 points · Posted at 17:20:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
http://assets2.hrc.org/files/documents/SupportingCaringforTransChildren.pdf
Page 12/13. Therapy can help but it doesn't actually "cure" dysphoria. Dysphoria stems from something in your brain that isn't actually wrong, and trying to force people into therapy instead of giving them gender affirming care is harmful.
Also note, in children, "gender expansive" is different from transgender. A child who cross dresses won't necessarily grow up to be trans, and won't transition, but denying treatment to those who do grow up trans ends really poorly.
It has its place, of course. I have regular therapy, and I actually know someone with relatively mild dysphoria who is able to cope with it through therapy and has no plans to transition. And in an ideal world, that's all I'd do too- transitioning is long, expensive, and difficult. But it's the only actual treatment that works.
And anecdotally, therapy really helped me, but nowhere near the extent that actually transitioning has. Therapy helped me cope, but from literally the moment I started hormone replacement therapy, it was an immediate weight off my shoulders. I felt like I could actually be alive for the first time in years, and you can actually see the quality of my work go up as a result.
Here is one document from the American Psychological Association dating back to 2008 that supports this, and they've continued supporting transition as the most effective treatment to this day.
ErohaTamaki · 2 points · Posted at 17:12:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transgender people hate their bodies and will want to commit suicide if they can't change. There isn't a gender dysphoria equivalent for not being the skin colour that you want to be
evansawred · 6 points · Posted at 19:20:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's uh, a HUGE oversimplification. Not every trans person hates their bod;, dysphoria isn't necessarily about hating your body
ErohaTamaki · 0 points · Posted at 19:21:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
thats why I mentioned gender euphoria in my other comment (I am not a truscum)
IndigoImperatrix · 4 points · Posted at 17:13:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
But what about people who say they're trans but aren't dysphoric? I've heard mixed things on that.. and what if a x race person did hate their skin and thought they were y race on the inside?
ErohaTamaki · 3 points · Posted at 17:16:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well the trans community is a bit split over whether people without gender dysphoria are trans(look up truscum). In my opinion, if they experience gender dysphoria and/or gender euphoria then they are trans (basically its where if you dress up as the gender you identify as/people use your correct pronouns you feel happy)
ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 17:17:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
About the race thing, I haven't seen anything about people wanting to change race outside of people not wanting to be black so that people aren't racist against them
IndigoImperatrix · 2 points · Posted at 17:19:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've seen a male identify a Filipina woman, so it was both of them, which was confusing
ErohaTamaki · 7 points · Posted at 17:20:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I haven't seen that before, I guess it could be possible but it sounds more like internet trolls who say stuff like "I identify as an attack helicopter"
IndigoImperatrix · 2 points · Posted at 17:23:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe.. his birth name is adam but goes by ja du
IJustWantToGoBack · 1 points · Posted at 02:19:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender dysphoria is where your brain expects you to have organs your body doesn't have. There is no equivalent for race because there isn't a fundamental difference between races. The current science points toward the brain developing the way female brains develop and the rest of the body developing male, or vice versa. The races are too similar for different brain development.
IndigoImperatrix · 0 points · Posted at 02:37:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I've also heard brain sex is a myth but I can't discuss it without being attacked
IJustWantToGoBack · 0 points · Posted at 02:47:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol. I think attacked means different things to you and me. I know people who have been beaten half to death for expressing themselves. You ever get that for 'discussing the myth of brain sex'? If you get insulted for talking about your beliefs, I'm sorry. But try to recognize that people like me get insulted regularly for existing. Even if trans people are, in your mind, delusional, do we deserve to get harassed and/or physically attacked for wearing clothes we feel comfortable in? Try to toughen up a bit....
IndigoImperatrix · 0 points · Posted at 02:48:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get blocked, banned, harassed, death threats, rape threats, etc.... but whatever.
IJustWantToGoBack · 1 points · Posted at 02:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand the blocking and banning, depending on how you're 'discussing it' and the rules of the community you're in. People giving you death and rape threats need to be reported. The way I do when people threaten to kill/rape me. Sorry I don't have a lot of sympathy for you. I get the same treatment because I'm minding my own business trying not to hate myself. Trans people aren't hurting you. You don't have a great reason to be against their existence.
Buttholepussy · -4 points · Posted at 14:39:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Female anatomy
europahasicenotmice · 1 points · Posted at 23:14:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
female anatomy
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 17:24:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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idealfury88 · 12 points · Posted at 19:46:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don't think it's cool, we just need to do it.
taarotqueen · 6 points · Posted at 20:01:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
it’s not cool i’m just depressed
[deleted] · 5 points · Posted at 20:06:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you not understand about it?
wrathBUNNICU · 5 points · Posted at 20:24:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do you do whatever you do at night. They are just sitting and relaxing what’s the problem with that.
AtlantisSquirtle · 1 points · Posted at 20:59:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homer Simpson would like to have a word with you
Inflorida17 · -43 points · Posted at 17:18:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why folks Vote Republican...
Harmxn- · 4 points · Posted at 18:58:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they agree with certain policies the Republican candidate promised the fulfil in their campaign
[deleted] · 25 points · Posted at 18:00:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s called close mindedness. Maybe go out and learn what they truly believe in and make your own decision from there
MahaloHangLoose · 4 points · Posted at 23:34:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This. The majority of people on reddit need to learn this.
Rostin · 20 points · Posted at 19:07:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have tended to vote Republican or Libertarian for most of my life because of three issues: abortion, religious freedom, and second amendment issues. The Democrats (and "third" parties to the left of them) are terrible on all three.
taarotqueen · 1 points · Posted at 20:01:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
aren’t most libertarians typically staunchly pro choice?
Rostin · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably. I think the capital-L Libertarian party platform is pro-choice. However, I know (and know of) a good number of pro-life libertarians. The movement seems more welcoming of pro-life people than the Democratic party does.
MortifiedPuppy · 1 points · Posted at 19:24:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you plan to vote for Trump?
Rostin · -1 points · Posted at 19:27:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, and I didn't in 2016, either. (Went with a third party, not that it mattered in my state.)
While I appreciate the judicial appointments he's made, he is disastrously incompetent and terrible human being.
Lone_Wolfen · -1 points · Posted at 19:28:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Overturning Roe v. Wade won't make abortion disappear, only make it less safe as people resort to backalley abortions or other methods that would endanger the mother. On top of that abortion is only treating the symptom, not the cause. If you were truly against abortion, you would support people in favor of making birth control accessible and improving sex education, as those stop unwanted pregnancies that otherwise end in abortion.
What "religious freedom"? Democrats have demonstrated themselves to be more open to different religions while Republicans seem to only care about Christianity and its subsets.
Rostin · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
If a major party did a good job of supporting both abortion restrictions and policies that would make made it easier to raise children and reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, I'd support that party. I'm not married to the Republicans, and the Trump presidency has greatly eroded any loyalty to them that I once felt. Unfortunately, that is not what we have.
It's very difficult to estimate the number of illegal abortions that occurred before abortion was legalized nationwide and that would continue to occur if it became much more restricted. I'm not convinced on those grounds that a truly pro-life person ought to support the Democrats.
Moreover, the Democrats have made it pretty clear that they are fundamentalists about abortion. It used to be common to hear Democrats lamenting the number of abortions and arguing basically as you are here. My perception is that this argument is now deployed only in a weaponized way, again, as you have here. The mainstream, or at least the elite and controlling, attitude about abortion is that it is a women's rights issue, full stop. Something like 40% of pregnancies to black women are ended by abortions in NYC, but numbers like that are really of no concern to the Democratic party. If for the sake of argument I did accept the logic that the Democrats are effectively more pro-life and chose to vote for Democrats, I would not be welcomed as a pro-life person by the Democratic party.
On the question of religious freedom. I have to agree that Democrats have been marginally better on defending the religious freedom of some minorities. A good example is Trump's attempts to restrict Muslims from entering the country.
At the same time, there has been a dramatic increase in willingness among Democrats in the the last 5-10 years to steamroll religious objections to their pet projects. The Obama administration sued nuns for refusing to offer contraception, which they were required to do under the ACA. The state of Colorado fined a bakery for refusing to make a cake for a same-sex wedding, even though the baker otherwise had sold cakes to gay patrons and had gay employees. The Democratic conception of religious freedom seems to be a freedom to privately believe things. They seem to broadly reject the idea that the government ought to be constrained in its actions in any way by the people acting or refusing to act in certain ways on the basis of their religious convictions.
I think the RFRA, which institutes strict scrutiny for religious freedom claims, is a good approach to religious freedom. Democrats used to agree. It was passed almost unanimously and signed into law by Bill Clinton. Democrats have shifted and are now opposed to it.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Abortion. You wouldn't need if you y'know, kept your fucking legs shut and learned what birth control, condoms, and vasectomies. Also if you chose your men better than a shit ton less people wouldn't need an abortion
SpaceGerbil · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah! Good thing Republicans don't routinely defund sex education programs, or cut funding towards women's health initiatives and establishments like planned parenthood.... Oh wait.
Choose your men better? Holy shit. You have never actually had sex before have you. Lol
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 21:22:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not with men but I can speak as a man who believes in trying everything you can to prevent kids
SpaceGerbil · 3 points · Posted at 21:23:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Holy shit, now I realize your only like 13. Damn internet
Jagob5 · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Personally, my most important values line up more with republicans than democrats (which, if you must know, are regarding economy and abortion, amongst a couple other less important things I agree with). Voting republican doesn’t mean I agree with everything they have to say, just what I consider important. I could ask the same thing about Democrats but I’m sure I’d get the same answer, along with, of course, the occasional “Trump bad”. Like many things, it’s a matter of opinion/beliefs/values.
SuperWaluigiOdyssey · 1 points · Posted at 20:53:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Propaganda is powerful.
[deleted] · -9 points · Posted at 18:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sue me, but sexes other than hetro.
JrPolygon · 6 points · Posted at 20:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What confuses you? I'd like to help clear up some things.
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 20:50:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't know how being homosexual works? I don't seem to figure where they are coming from?
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 14 points · Posted at 21:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First of all those aren't sexes, they're sexualities, just so you know.
Second, there isn't much to get. I'm going to assume you're a dude, you know how you like girls? Imagine that, but with other guys.
Exnaut · 3 points · Posted at 21:33:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To be even more specific tho, they're sexual orientations. Sexuality is a bit more broad and includes other stuff
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 00:03:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I am curious about where it comes from in the sense of evolutionary biology. We aren’t the only species that exhibits homosexuality. I actually don’t understand how it can arise in a species. Does it have a benefit to our evolution? Can it be nature’s attempt at population control? Or is it just a certain mathematical chance that one in every certain amount of humans born will be gay or some other sexuality.
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 21:10:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
First, what's the difference? Second, I know what it means, I don't understand it because I'm not one. Why it's a problem anyways?
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 9 points · Posted at 21:24:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sexes are biological Male and female and intersex. What's between your legs. Sexuality is stuff like straight, gay, bi. Who you are sexually attracted to.
Dont worry, it's not really a problem, but the way you said it seems like it comes from a place of hate, and I'm not sure what about it you dont get.
JrPolygon · 2 points · Posted at 05:40:43 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I didn't get a "Hate" vibe from this guy. He just sounds ignorant and curious, but not angry or hateful. I tried explaining to him already as well.
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 11:38:11 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
I agree, I phrased it badly, but I think the way he wrote his first message sounded hateful, even if that wasn't his intention.
[deleted] · -6 points · Posted at 22:11:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It seems to you wrong. It comes from a place of geniunenes yet boldness. Hate? I don't understand it either to be honest.
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 23:07:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Other people live their lives, express themselves, and love their partners in ways that are not the exact same way you would do it. What don’t you understand?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:15:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Downvoted for not understanding something, y'all are sick.
JrPolygon · 5 points · Posted at 21:11:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's the same thing as a guy liking a girl. Society has engrained in our heads that "boy likes girl" and "girls likes boy", but it's the same thing. I will see a girl and I know what I am physically attracted to (boobs, nice smile, etc.) It's the same for a gay man to look another man and look for the physical features they like. What do you mean by "Where they're coming from"? They're not some sort of different breed lol. They also aren't born that way (known to us thus far that is) and it's not a choice either, so I'm not sure what you mean.
[deleted] · -16 points · Posted at 13:22:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Billionaires don’t think about ending Poverty
darksoldierk · 8 points · Posted at 16:33:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What do you mean?
Look, why would I strive or work to be a billionaire if I was going to give my money away to people without getting anything back? Poverty is always going to exist, you can't just "end" poverty.
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · -5 points · Posted at 19:10:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empathy? Basic decency?
darksoldierk · 5 points · Posted at 19:16:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, that's not how the world works, and that's not how it should work. If you want to expect empathy and basic decency from the rich, you should have those expectations from the people causing these problems first and foremost .You should go teach poor people to not have kids. You should preach to corrupt government policies.
The fact is, expecting rich people to "solve" the poverty problem is like asking rich people to pay for poor people's choices to have kids, and to pay for corruption in government policies. Why should they? IF poor people weren't having kids, and government policies weren't corrupt, then i'd probably agree with you. Starving children are the direct cause of somebody's decision, and I'm not going to pay, or to expect others to pay, for the poor decisions of others.
qudina · -4 points · Posted at 19:40:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So poor people who are already deprived from money and all the benefits that comes with it you want to deprive them from the joy of having a family children (becoming pregnant, being a parent...ect) because they weren't born with a golden spoon in their mouth which was never their fault in the first place? theoretically (cause I don't know if you would do it if you had that power) this is really selfish.
darksoldierk · 9 points · Posted at 19:44:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm not depriving them of shit, they want to have kids, that's fine, but we shouldn't be expecting the rich to support and pay for those kids.
It's not selfish at all. The ability to become a parent is a privilege, not a right. That privilege comes with responsibilities. If you aren't able to meet those responsibilities, then you shouldn't have kids. You aren't entitled to children.
And it's an exaggeration to say that every rich person was birth with a golden spoon in their mouth. The majority of rich people earned their money, A lot of them chose to give up having kids because they couldn't comply with the responsibility of raising them.
CitationX_N7V11C · 1 points · Posted at 17:35:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
By all practical means it is impossible. So why dedicate your life and resources to something you know can not fundamentally happen? You can help alleviate it but no amount of resources will ever end poverty.
jasonrodrigue · -11 points · Posted at 14:12:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can’t help losers by giving them anything. They have to want it for themselves.
[deleted] · 6 points · Posted at 14:53:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How are kids starving around the world Losers?
jasonrodrigue · -9 points · Posted at 16:34:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Their parent are losers. Don’t have children and starve them. That’s not anyone else’s fault. The mentality of people that would want to spend billionaires money would never be able to make a billion dollars. No one is talking about defenseless children. If you’re in poverty don’t reproduce yet.
[deleted] · 10 points · Posted at 17:11:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You got to be fucking kidding me right? You have no idea what life is like in Africa for you to be jumping to conclusions.
I was born under the Apartheid era to know what living in a 3rd world country is like. Get off your high fucking horse before jumping to conclusions without first walking in someone’s shoes.
throwawayjavachip · -11 points · Posted at 20:01:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
thunderwhalepicnic · -19 points · Posted at 16:36:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Being religious in the face of all the information humanity has gathered and made available.
In 1400, sure, God did it. But not now, come on.
iceman202001 · 13 points · Posted at 19:57:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its pretty easy. I'm a strong Catholic but I still believe in evolution, the Big Bang (which was a theory created by a Catholic priest btw), and science in general. I believe that God is the origin of order and structure in the universe.
thunderwhalepicnic · -1 points · Posted at 15:44:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's just it though, a belief, unfounded and arbitrary. There's no need for beliefs if we can go by what the data shows. There is no data for god.
iceman202001 · 1 points · Posted at 15:48:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
There is also no data for love, compassion, or empathy. There are things beyond data. I believe the order and structure of science were created by God. There are still things science and data cannot explain. Living by data alone is faulty- it removes any idea of free will, human rights, etc. If everything is just data, why dont we kill half the population for the good of all. After all, data could be used to support such an idea. Saying "there is no data" is an incredibly lazy sentiment.
thunderwhalepicnic · -1 points · Posted at 16:06:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Love, compassion and empathy will show activity on a brain scan. Human rights are a recent social construct created by humans and have not always existed. However, we like the human rights idea and it says don't kill half the population, so we aren't doing that. "There is no data supporting X" is a perfectly valid and common experimental result. It's not lazy, it's a fact.
iceman202001 · 1 points · Posted at 16:12:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The origins of the universe are not explained- we know of the Big Bang, but what caused it? What is the universe expanding into? It would also be entirely plausible that God be the source of these things. Its just as likely that data will prove that God exists ss it will that God doesnt exist. Isnt one of the biggest teaching points of science that just because there is an absence of data, doesnt mean something is not there? 100 years ago, we didnt even know of black holes. There are many unknown and unexplained things in the universe. God could be the source of any number of them.
wrathBUNNICU · 9 points · Posted at 20:27:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You can still be religious and believe in science. The Catholic Church for example has scientists and astronomers.
ManyBrightThings · -8 points · Posted at 17:58:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone anywhere who isn't hiding from Israeli security forces could support Donald Trump at this point.
RmmThrowAway · 0 points · Posted at 17:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who are completely economically illiterate, and proud of it. Worse when they think not knowing anything gives them ~special insight~.
jenna9902 · 0 points · Posted at 19:31:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why married men cheat
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:47:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why humans kill humans over internal pain projected out.
MeTheFlunkie · 0 points · Posted at 23:53:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fat people
King_Rhymer · 1 points · Posted at 00:51:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s because you’re a troll.
MeTheFlunkie · 1 points · Posted at 02:07:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No, I just don’t understand how you could eat yourself to death. Just trying to be honest. It’s on me. I fully recognize how reprehensible I am for thinking this. Are you fat?
King_Rhymer · 0 points · Posted at 15:18:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Nope. I don’t understand alcoholics. What a loser. Just trying to be honest.
MeTheFlunkie · 1 points · Posted at 21:59:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I know, me neither. Day at a time is the best I can do. I don’t think fat people are losers. I just don’t understand the mindset. I’m happy to answer any questions about alcoholism if you’re interested! :)
King_Rhymer · 0 points · Posted at 22:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Haha. Have some self control. I just don’t understand the mindset
MeTheFlunkie · 2 points · Posted at 22:35:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You said it best, brother! That’s what I exercised for years and then once I stopped, only a matter of time before I slip. But that’s ok! Today I have self control, and today I feel great. :) It’s less of a mindset and more of a disease, just like being fat. I guess you gave me some insight :)
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Transgender
flatline____________ · 0 points · Posted at 05:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many Low IQ could vote for Obama.
indianzfan2 · 0 points · Posted at 13:06:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why gay pride parades are full of people with dicks around their necks or people who dress overly sexual. “Accept me for who I am” but having a straight pride parade is homophobic.
kkrulesyoudrools · 1 points · Posted at 07:33:42 on May 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
•People are sexual because they’re celebrating sexuality. •Straight pride is homophobic because it’s already straight pride everyday. The whole point of gay pride is to normalize and celebrate queer sexuality because it hasn’t been. It’s about equality.
yeil_noung · -9 points · Posted at 18:36:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christianity.
cherub3 · -38 points · Posted at 13:26:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Women... how can one create life without taking another... this is not the law of equivalent exchange...
Edit: I meant for this to be an Edward Elric joke but I do believe this is the biggest r/wooosh in history
CriticalGeode · 24 points · Posted at 13:27:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're smokin the wrong strain
cherub3 · -1 points · Posted at 13:32:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t know how to properly respond to this
CriticalGeode · 6 points · Posted at 13:33:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have one guess as to why
cherub3 · 2 points · Posted at 13:34:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Go ahead, I’m ready to disappoint
CriticalGeode · 11 points · Posted at 13:37:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You're smokin the wrong strain
cherub3 · 4 points · Posted at 13:37:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol nah I’ve just been awake for twelve too many hours
kartingdude72 · 2 points · Posted at 09:32:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you're saying when the baby is born stab the mother? Or does the mother have to stab someone in order for the baby to be allowed into society?
cherub3 · 1 points · Posted at 11:36:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The mother has to absorb another human’s soul to form a child, as is the law of equivalent exchange
jvken · 5 points · Posted at 18:57:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ik right? Women smh
Justacatpillow · -6 points · Posted at 18:23:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Animal abuse. I don’t get it. Also how ANYONE thinks Trump is a great guy. Lost on me.
o-_l_-o · 1 points · Posted at 03:03:18 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you eat meat, eggs, dairy, or fish? Have you seen the horrible practices we have to use to feed those to people to meet the demand of the population?
If you don’t support animal abuse, you should try eating plant-based foods instead of animal-based foods (if you don’t already).
Jagob5 · -19 points · Posted at 19:45:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People who support abortion but not murder. Same thing.
Edit: I knew this would be the case, but the fact that so many people disagree with me simply astonishes me.
Luuce98 · 3 points · Posted at 22:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If I murder someone, I’m ruining their life and their family’s, probably mine as well. If I oppose a woman having a safe abortion, I ruin her life and the kid’s. Apples and oranges.
To be fair: I support abortion (with exceptions of rape and medical reasons) up until the first trimester, the way it is in my country.
To me (and science, as far as I know) is not a life, it is not a baby, it is a clump of cells at that point in time; but I do try to understand your point, so let’s assume there’s a “life” being stopped.
That kid would not have a good life if it were born, the rich and capable would have an abortion regardless of legality if they wanted it so, so we’re not talking of middle or upper class; so either being raised by parents that cannot support them or abuse them, or in the system, that kid is having an awful life. Then the mother and father if there is one, they have the burden and trauma of bringing unwanted children to the world.
I would love for it to be a system in place teaching young and/or impoverished people to practice safe sex and for there not to be such a (mostly religious m) taboo on sex that open talk of it is rare; but there isn’t, and reality is not cut and dry. I’d rather let a woman that would have the abortion anyway (and risking her life in the process) get it safely and save her and her partner if there is one the grief of having a child they don’t want/can’t care for, and following your logic keeping that “life” that never formed from suffering.
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Jagob5 · -1 points · Posted at 08:27:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No it’s a fucking natural death, whereas abortion is taking another being’s life.
Livelaughlovekratom · 2 points · Posted at 10:57:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
No its not taking a life, its preventing a life
IJustWantToGoBack · 1 points · Posted at 02:36:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It depends on how you define a person. I require people to have thoughts and experiences. Destroying self-realization is a crime. Destroying the potential for self-realization is not.
imkingferrari · -7 points · Posted at 19:48:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How everything in the universe fell so perfectly into place. It’s unbelievable....
Logically there must be a higher power that we, as humans, can’t comprehend.
exoalo · 3 points · Posted at 21:14:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
To the contrary the universe has a lot of mistakes that we accept as normal.
Just look up the vagus nerve for example.
ron_sheeran · 5 points · Posted at 20:32:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Given the fact the time is infinate and that space is BIG with a capital HUGE its not impossible for the circumstances of life to not eventually fall into place. If you give bunch of monkeys typwriter and infinite time one will eventually write Shakespeare.
imkingferrari · -5 points · Posted at 20:47:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Right, which honestly makes it more insane.
Mathematically speaking it’s impossible for there to not be a planet/galaxy where people are living and look identical to us and even mirror our decisions, etc.
ron_sheeran · -1 points · Posted at 20:49:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean we are most likely living in a simulation anyway so.
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 20:05:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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korabas1 · 3 points · Posted at 23:06:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Found the drooling Republicuck
Yougotmail1 · -11 points · Posted at 19:52:23 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people voted for trump, think hes a good man and is incapable of screwing up. People are fast to call out Bush and obama but I literally see people DEFEND trump like hes jesus and make excuses for him when they have been super critical of the Bush's and Obama, I'll admit EVERY person and president has done some good and bad things but trump supporters are acting like he has NEVER and WILL NOT mess up in any way, shape, and form and that's what kind of bothers me.
whipmydick · 1 points · Posted at 12:45:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
ok I'll admit he's messed up. still voting for him tho.
Cristi_smasher30 · -24 points · Posted at 18:52:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
More than three genders 😠
JrPolygon · 0 points · Posted at 19:17:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender is a social construct. Sex is a biological fact. Please learn the difference.
NaraciaB0T · 2 points · Posted at 19:38:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
people always say this, what the fuck do you mean by "social construct" that "boys should act like boys" that kind of crap?
JrPolygon · 4 points · Posted at 20:10:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender was and is created by people. People will feel certain attractions or have certain types of people and/or genders they are attracted to. This is where the gender categorization comes in. It is not based in science but rather in society. This is what I mean by "social construct."
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JrPolygon · -2 points · Posted at 20:13:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Fair point, I feel some genders are socially constructed. Pansexual for example. People feel a certain way and find a term that best defines who they are, hence me using "social construct."
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:23:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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JrPolygon · -1 points · Posted at 20:25:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think your last sentence comes closest to my belief and understanding, I think.
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JrPolygon · -1 points · Posted at 21:07:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same to you! Saturday for me. Enjoy your Sunday :)
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ErohaTamaki · 1 points · Posted at 19:04:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex
Intersex people are individuals born with any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones or genitals that, according to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights, "do not fit the typical definitions for male or female bodies".[1][2] Such variations may involve genital ambiguity and combinations of chromosomal genotype and sexual phenotype other than XY-male and XX-female.[3][4] Intersex people were previously referred to as hermaphrodites or "congenital eunuchs".
On-All-Twos · 1 points · Posted at 20:04:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think I could explain! Honestly I understand the confusion and can't blame anyone for at first thinking it's all just bunk.
So our cultural norms are built around 2 sexes (male and female; Love you though intersex people!) and social roles have come to be associated with people who look like they're of a certain sex. Think of the stereotypical "boys like monster trucks and girls like dolls" idea. Of course this is a pretty benign example, but the main thing to see is that social/personal dispositions such as liking one thing or another are not entirely dictated by one's sexual makeup (that is to say that having XX doesn't force you to like dolls and XY doesn't force you to like monster trucks).
It sounds obvious when you say it like that; peoples' behaviors, desires, social roles, etc are not genetically dictated. So if they're not wholly genetic, then they're probably a result of social influences and expectations, and it becomes useful to differentiate between the biological (sex) and social (gender). So at its most basic level, gender is meant to be a descriptive label of how one is expected to act. It's meant to inform others of one's social roles and values. So, since the labels are meant to be descriptive, some people will choose a different label that fits their behaviors better. A big misconception about transgender people is that they are necessarily changing something about themselves, but really it's just that they aren't accurately described by the gender assigned to them at birth, so they choose a label that does accurately describe them (as opposed to trying to change themselves as people in order to fit themselves into the gender they were assigned at birth).
To put things succinctly, there are more than 3 genders because people find that none of those 3 paint an accurate picture of who they are. Having genders isn't about changing who you are, it's about telling others how you fit into certain aspects of society. If a piece of fruit looks like an apple, but tastes like a strawberry, smells like a strawberry, and has the texture of a strawberry, I think it'd be best to call it a strawberry!
Cristi_smasher30 · 2 points · Posted at 20:08:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh... I thought it was more complicated .... Thank you 🤗
equinecm · -1 points · Posted at 19:47:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I kinda get what you mean but why do you care? If you want to believe there’s only 2, or 3 I guess, that’s fine. But why does it bother you that men dress up like girls and vice versa? Let people do whatever makes them happy as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone.
ActionCookiez · -5 points · Posted at 19:28:40 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Crazy how people think there's more than 2 genders
Exnaut · -1 points · Posted at 21:43:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there are 3 sexes. Male, female and intersex. Thinking there's more than 2 genders doesn't sound that outlandish
ActionCookiez · 0 points · Posted at 21:44:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well there's only 2 genders and 2 sexes (because they're the same thing)
Exnaut · 3 points · Posted at 21:45:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well. As I just told you. Intersex is a thing. And gender and sex aren't the same thing, sex is biological, gender is more subjective than that
ActionCookiez · -1 points · Posted at 21:46:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well gender is the same as sex, you can't change genders I'm sorry and there's only 2
IJustWantToGoBack · 0 points · Posted at 02:39:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Lol look at this person who stopped learning at 5th grade biology.
ActionCookiez · 1 points · Posted at 02:42:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Me? Gender = sex
IJustWantToGoBack · 2 points · Posted at 02:53:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So brave.
ActionCookiez · 1 points · Posted at 02:53:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you
pistol-pete19 · -8 points · Posted at 15:52:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who say Covid-19 instead of Corona. Like, why? Corona is so much easier to say
MahaloHangLoose · 3 points · Posted at 23:32:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coronavirus is more vague. There are many different types of Coronavirus, while COVID-19 is specifically referring to new virus that is going around.
PolishRobinHood · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you want to get super technical CoViD-19 is not the name of the virus. It's the disease the virus causes. The virus is SARS-CoV-2.
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 16:33:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I think it's because the word "corona" on the internet has become more of a joke than anything else.
Redditorareasshoe · 0 points · Posted at 20:38:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I prefer rona'
thunder75 · 1 points · Posted at 23:28:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coronavirus is an entire class of virus, it's not specific (though today everybody would know what you're talking about). COVID-19 is the disease caused by the novel coronavirus SARS-CoV-2.
GENERAL_A_L33 · -2 points · Posted at 22:28:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not a catchy is the Kung flu.
oldsmee · -5 points · Posted at 18:31:05 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who make jokes about horrible things. I don't understand, because it could be offensive to millions of people.
altacc00000000 · 4 points · Posted at 01:11:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Humor is a thing to make things less hard and make them easier to talk about.
jayestcoast · -5 points · Posted at 19:41:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why there is a gerneration of women that simultaniously preach femenist ideals and think its a man's duty to be a walking wallet for his S.O
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 23:21:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You’re dating the wrong women.
JaleelRoy · 1 points · Posted at 20:47:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
So basically feminist who preach equality yet say “you cant hit me im a girl!” ?
Crypto_Psyrin · -11 points · Posted at 17:09:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people get really mad about animal abuse. I genuinely do not understand it. I know logically there will be consequences if you do it and get caught but when I see people get angry it just confused me. I've never really had the compulsion to hurt any animals either so I just don't get either side.
PurpleFlame8 · 1 points · Posted at 23:15:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they hurt innocent, defenseless sentient beings who don't deserve it.
lucksen · -5 points · Posted at 18:47:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people indirectly commit animal abuse by paying others to kill them and raise them in horrid conditions, so it's kinda widespread.
Crypto_Psyrin · 0 points · Posted at 18:52:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
At least lab grown meat seems to be making progress, as long as it tastes the same or at least very similar I can see it really taking off
lucksen · 0 points · Posted at 20:39:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
They say that once it gets going it will also become cheaper than animal meat, though I'm not holding my breath for that nor is it excusable for us to wait quitting meat until the lab stuff arrives, because it's already easy quitting it.
reddreadben · -8 points · Posted at 19:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why(most) feminists,(some) vegans,(some) Karen's etcetera, etcetera are so fucking pissy
[deleted] · -8 points · Posted at 19:41:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ron_sheeran · 4 points · Posted at 20:28:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its a moral thing. When we live in a post panama papers world big companys controled by the rich isnt really a good thing.
Boofcomics · -5 points · Posted at 18:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Donald trumps appeal
bescuit00 · -3 points · Posted at 00:00:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I'm not getting any upvotes
steezy_drip_god · -15 points · Posted at 19:19:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
BLACK PEOPLE
ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:16:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
/s? Or are you serious?
steezy_drip_god · 1 points · Posted at 09:45:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm dead serious.. I dont get why black people are the only ones that wont evolve
ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 03:17:27 on April 14, 2020 · (Permalink)
What? Do you mean like evolve in the biological term or the cultural term or the technagical term. Well Either way your racist.
Bohnanza · 0 points · Posted at 16:47:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people repost questions to /r/AskReddit
Eleberium · 0 points · Posted at 18:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Is time real or did we just make it up ? Maybe there is a REALLYY long time loop that we are not aware of ?
McMurden · 0 points · Posted at 18:43:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
monsterlooster · 0 points · Posted at 18:47:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Redstone. It just never clicked
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 18:56:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 19:25:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I’ve been active on this platform for well over a year and have yet to get over 1k upvotes
kaozbender · 0 points · Posted at 19:28:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who think kids can decide if they want to be trans.
Ojos-rojos · 0 points · Posted at 19:32:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
U-GO-GURL- · 0 points · Posted at 19:41:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Septum piercing
_Nachtkrieger_ · 0 points · Posted at 20:30:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Empathy. After a few events in my life, I've near totally lost empathy for everyone.
sigtany · 0 points · Posted at 20:48:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. I’m serious. I can’t grasp the concepts of equations and formulas. It’s making college fun :) /s
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:00:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Arguments on why you can't be racist towards white people.
The most common thing I hear is "racism is institutionalized" as the explanation. But there are institutions that discriminate against whites, like college campuses having "no whites days". So as this is discrimination that is institutionalized, shouldn't that mean you can be racist against whites? Or do colleges not count as institutions. If that's the case, then what's the definition of an institution?
Perhaps it is something measured on an individual basis, and just because some institutions exist that discriminate against whites doesn't mean that a lone individual not affiliated with those institutions can be racist towards whites. But if that's the case, then since I'm not affiliated with any institutions, then no words I say or actions I do would be considered institutionalized, and I therefore cannot be racist towards any race.
And what's the scope of the definition anyways. Does the institution have to exist in the country I am in for it to count? Or does some random discriminatory institution on the other side of the planet make it so that prejudice can be considered racism? If slavery can be brought up to determine if prejudice is racism or not, then what exactly is the expiration date on how long an institution needs to have no longer existed for it to be irrelevant? Is it valid to bring up institutions that went away 2000 years ago in discussions on what is or isn't racism in the present day? If not, how is that not as valid as bringing up slavery when they hasn't been around for over a century?
I haven't seen any definition of racism that would mean that you can't be racist against whites without also meaning that you cannot be racist against blacks, or a definition that allows one to be racist against blacks without allowing them to be racist against whites.
ali3nado · 0 points · Posted at 21:01:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:13:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How little computer chips hold so much information. And how a gallon of random liquid (gasoline) can make a big ass piece of metal semi truck drive around and tow stuff.
CRaCkhEad_AsIan · 0 points · Posted at 21:22:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I hate it when people think their opinions matter SO MUCH that they've got to voice it.
I was once with a friend talking about something or rather and this woman comes up to us and starts badgering us about our opinions. I just looked at her dumbfounded because of 1. She was not part of mf conversation and 2. she was sharing her opinion to a bunch of teenagers who were talking something that had nothing to do with her. Like tf? I tell you Karens are literally the worst.
KrystAwesome17 · 0 points · Posted at 21:27:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we get ingrown toenails but not ingrown fingernails.
BluerGold · 0 points · Posted at 21:41:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:46:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why weed is illegal...(in my country anyway :(
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 21:57:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Zionism
PickleRick9594 · 0 points · Posted at 22:02:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How my entire nation turned into a bunch of whiny little pussies.
contentgodd · 0 points · Posted at 22:04:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s the purpose of learning maths like precalculus if not that many majors use it?
Jay9173 · 0 points · Posted at 22:07:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people keep voting for Boris the butcher
bigsquishymanbaby · 0 points · Posted at 22:14:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people like tiktok and can bare looking at it for more than 2 seconds
Kjellvb1979 · 0 points · Posted at 22:18:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Anyone who doesn't look at the donor list of both parties and can't figure out who the government really serves, is beyond me.
Both are funded by a very small percent of very wealthy elite (often donating to both sides), they have enough similarities between fiscal, foreign, and other aspects that it doesn't ever change. It's just back and forth, 1 step forward and 2 steps back...unless you're in the upper/upper middle class than you get served in various degrees that keep them happy with more of the same mediocrity.
It's a system that doesn't represent at least 50% of it's populace. If not more like 70 or 80%. I'm honestly thinking the only way for people to realize this, is to experience what those in the unrepresented populace deal with. Seemed that's what helped get the New Deal era going...probably history repeating ... Having to because we have short memories I guess.
"In the 1932 presidential election, Roosevelt defeated Republican President Herbert Hoover in a landslide. Roosevelt took office in the midst of the Great Depression, the worst economic crisis in U.S. history. During the first 100 days of the 73rd United States Congress, Roosevelt spearheaded unprecedented federal legislation and issued a profusion of executive orders that instituted the New Deal—a variety of programs designed to produce relief, recovery, and reform."
From wiki
This is my prediction, we will need the worst economic collapse for enough to snap out of it and see what its like for us that are too disenfranchised, and beaten down, to care.
Good luck... I guess... But sucks that's what it seems it will be to get help to those who desperately need it... Now. We don't have the time or patience now, and wether its Biden or Trump, I'm thinking we will crash and burn regardless at this point. The current system is unsustainable. So I've sharpened my pitch fork, rewrapped my torch, when the rest realize how that are being played, I'll be here.
I'm a pacifist, to a point. But both parties threaten my health livelihood, and whatever little dignity I have left by being in power and don't think about it for a second...so I'm not going to think about them anymore as a viable option for me.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:19:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
nothing
amwfhunter · 0 points · Posted at 22:29:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
URBLEGENTLEMEN · 0 points · Posted at 22:34:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women put so much effort into make up, hair, nails....but then no effort into being in shape, staying healthy and and being a REAL example of a successfull healthy attractive woman??
mtaylor808 · 0 points · Posted at 22:36:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How mortgages work.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 22:44:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How any reasonably intelligent person doesn’t want to cut off the CCP from the rest of the world. They kill so many of their own people, just like North Korea. They’re ruining the rest of the world, having infiltrated the civilised world with soft power plays. It’s a truly evil regime.
OC_ill8 · 0 points · Posted at 22:55:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservatives.
bottlebowling · 0 points · Posted at 23:12:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why people end sentences with prepositions so often. My kids will often ask me "can I come with?". At that point I will wait for them to finish their question until I ask them "with what?". Why add the extra word?
Edit: my first sentence was a dangling participle, and I apologize. It should have read "why do people".
Ihadsumthin4this · 2 points · Posted at 00:28:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
"Where are you AT?" and, "So they dropped me off where I work AT."
grits teeth, clenches fists, stomps ground
bottlebowling · 2 points · Posted at 01:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Granted, sometimes being grammatically correct can be a bit more awkward; e.g. "who am I talking to?" should be "with whom am I speaking?".
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:33:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between reverse racism and double standards. I know i sound dumb but i came across this topic last week and genuinely couldn't understand it even after reading a few articles about it. It's kinda confusing for me
TheMidnightJava · 0 points · Posted at 23:44:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I can't seem to hold onto a man
Shakooza · 0 points · Posted at 23:46:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I consider myself devilishly handsome but no one else seems to feel the same...
yenpo97 · 0 points · Posted at 23:48:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I fall for guys that don't like me bck 😔
goldengodImplication · 0 points · Posted at 23:48:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people didn't vote for bernie
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:53:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some people actually want to be at work.
The last 9 to 5 job I had was at a warehouse, and there was no reason my coworkers and I couldn't have finished each day's work in 4-5 hours. Except that my coworkers spent most of the day talking about absolutely nothing, fucking around on their phones, shooting hoops in the parking lot, and doing some work in between. I'm a "work until work is done" kind of person, and that's because I don't want to spend a second more time at work than I have to. But instead, I had to kill time while I waited for my coworkers to do their job so I could do mine. The worst part is that the boss who set the hours probably did the least work of all and had no life outside of work. Like, you'd seriously rather be in this hot, windowless tin can of a building than...literally anywhere else?
ThatsWamdu · 0 points · Posted at 23:53:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
whoswatchingyounow · 0 points · Posted at 23:54:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don't understand what Congress is doing with is covid virtus. This is a socialism trial run they are doing and everyone is biting. Please help me understand why people are just laying down and handing over their freedom
Elmokid · 0 points · Posted at 23:55:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can keep voting for Trump
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 23:58:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get the thought process of Republicans.
I'm not saying you're stupid, I'm wondering why y'all decide to do things the way you do! Like, what makes guns so fun? They look really cool, but they kinda scare me.
Also, What would be the point where you decide to vote Democrat instead of Republican? bc, I know that if a Republican said they'd do free healthcare and environmental protection, I'd vote for them, do you guys do this too? (like vise versa ofc)
Finally, I grew up in a household that constantly stressed that Republicans are stupid, and are the enemy, I know this occurs on your side too. Is there any way we could reach a middle ground and set parties aside, and simply talk about the legislature/morality of things without predicaments?
Edit: I've been told "no" to all these questions by people from my party, the Democrats, I'd like to see what y'all think from the other side of the fence.
AidanTheAudiophile · 0 points · Posted at 00:04:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anything anymore. Shoot me.
Arurry · 0 points · Posted at 00:04:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The infield fly rule
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:05:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get Reddit gold.
dizzeedan1 · 0 points · Posted at 00:09:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Covid 19
Panic for nothing?
George-The-Mann · 0 points · Posted at 00:09:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women I mean come on. I’m 14 and I still don’t get it. It doesn’t help my last name is mann though
Somanikolasch · 0 points · Posted at 00:09:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Red k) lip l
fiftynineminutes · 0 points · Posted at 00:10:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people think “the rich don’t pay their fair share” in America.
It’s fine if you think rich people should pay more, but why would you pretend that they don’t pay a “fair share”? The American system has people paying a higher percentage of taxes the more they earn. So, no matter what, they’re always paying more in terms of dollars, and they’re always paying more in terms of percentage.
And if people retort “yeah but some higher-ups take a salary of $1 and get paid in stock which is only taxed at 15%”... 1) that’s still higher than basic tax rates, 2) that’s the employment arrangement, and 3) sometimes stocks lose value before you can sell!
I suppose the issue I have is with the word “fair.” It’s used exactly wrongly. Flip it. If there was a cake to be shared between two people and one person took 4/5ths of the cake, would you say they took a “fair” slice? I’m guessing most people would say “no, they unfairly took too big a slice.” Yet that’s the tax system. 20% of taxpayers pay 80% of the taxes.
As I said: I just don’t get it.
Strm007 · 0 points · Posted at 00:10:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women🙄🙄
sparish91 · 0 points · Posted at 00:12:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Euchre. My partner and his mother have tried to teach me how to play, and I just can't get it. I consider myself maybe slightly above average as far as intelligence goes. My partner has a mildintellectual disability and he knows how to play it.. I get so frustrated when I can't understand something and I think that hinders me learning at all. But I've downloaded euchre apps, I've watched videos, I've tried to play it with them and I just cannot learn the game. It's been years and I dont get it. Lol
reddit_user002 · 0 points · Posted at 00:13:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What women mean when they say they don't like small talk.
Argee_ · 0 points · Posted at 00:17:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:18:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How to get better at singing
Really
fhatkow · 0 points · Posted at 00:25:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals and their obsession with communism
dannyjoe278 · 0 points · Posted at 00:27:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Not trying to be political or push beliefs. How a single cell bacteria found outside of Earth can be considered life, but a week old embryo isn't.
Schmitty300 · 0 points · Posted at 00:29:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
Gmcfetr · 0 points · Posted at 00:29:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why, in 2020, people are religious and still believe in God. Really????
hutchj1 · 0 points · Posted at 00:29:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes
ValkStrike · 0 points · Posted at 00:30:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans
NinjaTurtleFan2 · 0 points · Posted at 00:34:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people support President Trump.
alexj420 · 0 points · Posted at 00:37:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The hysteria over this pandemic
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 00:44:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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alexj420 · 2 points · Posted at 01:08:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I realize it’s a terrible illness as I work at a hospital and I also didn’t say that it was bad that we’ve implemented social distancing and shut down certain nonessential businesses. I’m just saying hearing about it left and right and causing panic and anxiety in Americans to the point they are loading up and preparing for an apocalypse and not spending any money has hurt not only our economy but our overall mental health. Not that being informed is a negative concept but it does get overwhelming.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 01:32:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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alexj420 · 1 points · Posted at 13:50:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you and I hope I didn’t sound snobby or arrogant. I guess I’m just tired of hearing about it all the time especially due to work. Anyways I hope the best for you and I just can’t wait for a return to normalcy. Cheers!
aguyindenver62 · 0 points · Posted at 00:39:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christians supporting Donald Trump, especially the "devout" ones. I feel it's the ultimate hypocrisy, and so telling about the lure of power. What would Jesus do, indeed...
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:54:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people sacrifice their freedom and things that truly bring them joy just to do the respectful/right thing in societies eyes.
RuffandTumbleGal · 0 points · Posted at 00:55:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people voted for Trump.
Also how the heck he won
MachiavelliSJ · 0 points · Posted at 00:58:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 00:59:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump is president
moonpeachy · 0 points · Posted at 01:01:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
America's voting system
DokCrimson · 0 points · Posted at 01:02:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck does the US not have enough COVID-19 tests?
issooeofovoisoqoe · 0 points · Posted at 01:04:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
both genders should be treated the same but when a boy hits a girl its game over for the boy but if it a girl hits a boy it’s completely fine?
boredtxan · 0 points · Posted at 01:10:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people on Redditt can determine so much about a person from one comment they didn't understand and be SO CERTAIN.
a-random-stool · 0 points · Posted at 01:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This question
asdsheepmail · 0 points · Posted at 01:21:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math. There I said it. I dont understand anything about math at all. It just doesnt make sense
fred-durst555 · 0 points · Posted at 01:30:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
being gay, i genuinely just cant understand it, isnt it like built in to like women, they are so beuatiful men are so unnatractive
Axilllla · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So you should totally understand why women are gay then right? Because they are just so attractive and that’s all there is apparently 🤷♀️
fred-durst555 · 1 points · Posted at 09:39:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
sorry i offended yu man, neva tried to hurt anbody i have bipolar and add and i always offend everbody but i genuinely was curius on subject though, sorry.
jordan31483 · 1 points · Posted at 01:48:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well, as a gay man, I can turn that around and say I don't understand straight men's attraction to women. The same female features that turn straight men on, i.e. breasts and vagina, turn me off. I think breasts are ugly, and the bigger, the uglier.
trrapped · 0 points · Posted at 01:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why 99% of humans are evil.
Chreint · 0 points · Posted at 01:32:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gender equality. So much females can get away with, but men cant get away with much.
Lunatheholy · 0 points · Posted at 01:32:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Calculus
BibiGS · 0 points · Posted at 01:33:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes.. legitimately
hump_back143 · 0 points · Posted at 01:33:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women, minorities, LGBTQ+ etc that support Trump
Count_Queenie · 0 points · Posted at 01:33:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand the hype around that 'never gonna give up up' guy.
I've only heard the chorus and it's not great at all. The dance he does, looks silly. People like doing 'tricks' where you click links and it goes to that song. Why do people love it so much? Why? It's so stupid and I genuinely don't understand why such a horrible song is loved.
aisolae · 0 points · Posted at 01:42:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why china discriminate against Africans.
Why it seems the west is trying to destroy Africa?
Why US spend more on wars rather than its people.
Why white people discriminate against blacks in the us.
Why racism exist if the world is big enough to feed us all.
Why some government spent more on building nuclear weapons rather than the poor.
Why pastor claims to heal but couldn’t heal corona infected people
Why Bill Gate seems to know more about bioweapons than the government.
Why china builds more house while average citizens can’t buy it leading to lots of empty apartments.
Why Africans are so inclined to religion while those who introduce religion to them don’t actually care.
Why Terrorist would risk the lives of people when obviously we only have one life to live.
Why people join terrorist group when death is obviously the only way out.
Why we can’t have one big world with same language and live in harmony, didn’t they say ‘unity is power’.
Why war, why chaos, why look for lives outside earth when you could make this one a better place.
I could go on and on. I don’t really understand and if anyone here have answers to these questions, please post it.
It took a virus for the country leaders to work together. What happens to humanity?🤷🏾
How do people get addicted to social media when the real social is outside the media. 🤦♀️
chestyspankers · 0 points · Posted at 01:44:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How others don't understand Darwinism. Also how others still believe Trump hasn't lied.
mahki43 · 0 points · Posted at 01:45:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Two thing specifically come to mind:
Athiests: I don’t understand how someone can be so oblivious to the existence of God. Sure, 99.99% of the time a booming voice from the sky is not heard. There is, however, literally countless other evidences of God’s existence, presence, and personal involvement with us every day.
Pro Abortion: I don’t understand how so many are blind to the fact that abortion is straight up murder of another human being. There is no greater evil in this world than abortion.
Anyway, Happy Easter. He is risen!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:55:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Republican voters see Republican efforts to supress voter turnout and often decry it, and don't see it as any kind of problem worth holding the party accountable for.
skeemnathan · 0 points · Posted at 01:57:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democrats.
Kamikazioo · 0 points · Posted at 01:58:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
maddenplayer2921 · 0 points · Posted at 02:19:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How girls emotions change so drastically when they’re on their periods
Gold_Tiger · 0 points · Posted at 02:21:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters
fesier10 · 0 points · Posted at 02:35:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
inevertaptheglass · 0 points · Posted at 02:35:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I m Canadian. I don t understand how Americans elected and may re elect Trump. He is clearly a serial liar , a racist , a sexual predator , bereft of morals . Any ONE of these would make him ,in my opinion,unfit to be the president. I just don t get it. I ve lost respect for Americans .
PrometheanRevolution · 1 points · Posted at 02:38:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bear in mind, he lost the popular vote by 3 million and his voters only counted for less than 1/6 of the population.
NoFapperFan22 · 0 points · Posted at 02:40:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women being so damn confusing. Being subtle and saying they’re telling you EXACTLY what they’re saying but they never said it DIRECTLY. Like they’d expect you to understand their actions or how they feel..In other words, when they’re confusing!
alfakennybody123 · 0 points · Posted at 02:44:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans.
linwar_au · 0 points · Posted at 02:45:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion, I’m not having a dig at people that have faith. But I genuinely don’t get it why people believe so strongly in something like that.
EXNnized · 0 points · Posted at 02:45:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the people of the USA can be so stupid to make the same mistake again.
GoldJerryGold22 · 0 points · Posted at 02:46:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone liked Uncut Gems
Gangsterstyles4ilf · 0 points · Posted at 02:47:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump thinking he was ahead of the virus and people stupid enough to believe everything he says. Are they stupid or Trump brainwashed?
Jerdizzle17 · 0 points · Posted at 02:47:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Color, there is no real way to tell exactly what the description of the color “red”. It has been an interest of mine for a long time
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:48:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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SLynch0000 · 0 points · Posted at 02:52:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Slope. I’m on my way to a science-based PhD and would consider myself intelligent. Fuck if I understand slope and I’ve been learning about it since about 5th grade.
30withneeds · 0 points · Posted at 03:02:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
F U sELINA!
OneLivingMan · 0 points · Posted at 03:27:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the federal government and state governments can have different laws or flat out disagreeing laws. What’s the point of uniting states????
Melloyellopilot · 0 points · Posted at 03:28:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Trump doesn’t want to save the USPS?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:28:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone supports Trump. Even in the face of OVERWHELMING incompetence. Seriously.
TheMightyGonthoriam · 0 points · Posted at 03:29:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people vote/elect politicians that directly contradict their views or affect their livelihoods.
HDHunter3x · 0 points · Posted at 03:49:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
(Not trying to be political)
How people think it is okay to kill a human being growing inside them. How they think it isn’t murder as well as the government saying it is okay. How do people really think they can justify the killing of innocents.
Yet, if I were to accidentally or purposefully kill a pregnant woman...I get 2 counts of murder. (Or attempted)
Cyanide_SweetHeart · 0 points · Posted at 03:50:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women dont take paternity test I'm a girl also I'm not being sexist
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:57:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why don’t women take a test to find out if they’re the father of their baby?? What?!
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 03:53:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How pineapple makes your sperm taste better.... it's still gross sperm on pineapple
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 08:52:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
🤣
esotesomiza · 0 points · Posted at 03:56:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man. I wonder why my mathematics teacher didn't told me like this...
LastGuardian7 · 0 points · Posted at 04:19:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Physics and quantum physics. I have never taken any actual classes but I've tried to learn on my own and they just make no sense to me at all.
reputaylord · 0 points · Posted at 04:21:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people smoke weed
Shadowislost · 0 points · Posted at 04:28:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How for profit prisons exist in a free country, since it is a breeding ground for oppression.
JPedro32 · 0 points · Posted at 04:29:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The saying “blood is thicker than water” I’m a family kind of person and I do love my family but that doesn’t mean that I stick with them no matter what, if they do something unbelievably awful then I’m walking away, family or not. genuinely sometimes friends can have your wellbeing in mind and be better for you than family so it’s not really about the blood it’s about the person, or that’s how I think anyway
R4phael_Ayd3n · 0 points · Posted at 04:29:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why I create messed up incidents inside my head
that_guy215 · 0 points · Posted at 04:29:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
This comment
Jojobyte · 0 points · Posted at 04:30:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Magnets
Basomati · 0 points · Posted at 04:30:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself.
upstatedreaming3816 · 0 points · Posted at 04:30:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Flat earthers and holocaust deniers. FACTUAL EVIDENCE EXISTS READ A BOOK.
TerrZzz · 0 points · Posted at 04:30:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How does one feel emotions? How are we able to feel emotions and do people feel differently for emotions. How do we clearly convey how we are feeling without giving an example, for example, “Imagine if you lost a bet for $5000”. Why do we express emotions like we do? Why can we empathize? Is it just the act of feeling the same emotions as them. I will never understand us humans.
Also, why can’t people understand the same way? I know it has something to do with our brain, like with people with disabilities and such. But for those who don’t, do they just have different degrees of the brain? How do we learn? I have no clue on this. How to we think? Is thinking just us making sounds in our brain? How do we think back on a memory? Are all our forgotten memories stored in a back closet, waiting for us to remember.
Not Actual Real Life Things: In a time loop, is before the time loop the past or future if you go back in time to that time? Does time loops go the Back to the Future or the Avengers way. In the Back to the Future style, if you change anything, will it cause a change reaction that’ll affect you? Example: you go back in time and kill a caterpillar. It’ll prevent it from going into a cocoon and growing into a butterfly that’ll help this one person win a picture award. The person is inspired that they won and decided to travel the world. They eventually become super famous and establishes a business that will create it’s own town, the town you lived in. Will this actually happen like this?
theaden01 · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
martinencinal0002 · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people have the exact same dreams. Teeth falling out, fighting or running but being really slow, etc.
2Quick_React · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Programming in general. Especially JavaScript. Doesn't make sense to me.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we capture sound
_r3ts0f316_ · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People
JohnnySuede007 · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Femininsm
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:31:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why tf my gf left me
AnimatedHokie · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How bowling is scored. I know a perfect score is 300. I know a strike is ten. I know three strikes in a row is a turkey. I know a spare means it took you both balls to knock down all ten pins, and that carries over. That's about where I lose it...
ankerous · 2 points · Posted at 04:39:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Getting a strike in each box means you get 30 per box essentially.
When you get a strike, both balls in the next box count towards the previous box. So if you got a strike in the first box and then a spare in the second, the original box can only be 20.
Then the second box can only be a max of 20 because only 1 ball on the next box counts towards the previous box on a spare.
To get a perfect game you have to throw 12 consecutive strikes.
browniethesnake · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
rookan · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum mechanics
bigheadluvr · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
HOW WE CAME ON THIS MOTHERFREAKIN EARTH
amazingkatt99 · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I can understand algebra until graphing starts to come into play. Some where from the quadratic formula to y=mx+b I get incredibly lost. Barely passed Algebra 2 and failed my algebra class in college because of graphing.
LugteLort · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
how things like cache works on a CPU
sharpasastone · 0 points · Posted at 04:32:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anybody’s individual consciousness is decided to be in any individual body? Like why my soul is in this vessel? Consciousness decision assembly line? 🤯
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Politics
Jaderosegrey · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are going to look at me funny, but I cannot understand how someone can happily have sex with a person they hardly know. A person they do not love, care for and trust implicitly.
I had one guy who, on the first date wanted to kiss me on the mouth. I tried that (first guy I dated) and everything in me said "Oh, Hell no!" I actually ran from him because he insisted on doing it again. It felt so unbelievably wrong to me.
Fortunately, later on I met the person I am with now and he was the kind of person who took things slow.
pratprak · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand how one can have a philosophy where you do not want the best for all your fellow human beings.
I get that there are relevant economic, political and social forces at play. But why is it that we as a civilisation continue to define a ‘us’ and ‘them’ in each and every micro context possible, and not want the good for all others as a whole.
chokeu1 · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cryptocurrencies. Can just anybody mine them?
HaveAGreatDecade · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Anxiety. I have it, still don’t understand why or how it happens. And, I don’t know if this only happens to me, but there are these times where my thoughts get “Meta”. Like, I’m thinking about something and then I think about what I’m about to think about and I think about that thought and then when I try to stop the cycle I keep thinking about thinking about stopping it.
Meta is the only way I can think to describe it, it kinda summarizes it.
icomfrmthelnddwnundr · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Electricity................I’m an electrician.
ToanGreenlow · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can enjoy life and have actual goals when we're all gonna die. I can't fathom that. I have almost no drive to do or learn anything since I know it will be pointless eventually
RogueInspiration · 0 points · Posted at 04:33:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That bouncy hand waving hyper expressive TikTok movement style. Usually done by cosplay people lip syncing
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:11 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Color sometimes I sit and think does everyone see the same colors as each other? I know we all call them the same name but what if someone’s green is my yellow and vice versa there is no way to ever now that. Maybe this is a stupid thought but it drives me crazy thinking about it
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:43:15 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Buoyancy and propulsion 🤷🏽♀️
Akkie09 · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
Ubuntu369 · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can gaslight others and take advantage of people in difficult mental health situations or/and physical issues. I've been personally gaslighted and was in more shock than anything when I realised, i cant wrap my head around people being that horrible.
gcrooze · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:51 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes, mortgages, anything else important
IAmA-Little-Stitious · 0 points · Posted at 04:34:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
math
dathomar · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
French. Never learned the language.
_-Redacted-_ · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people want children. Like why would you be excited about financially crippling your self and bit having any personal time for 16+ years?
NoMoreNeverenough · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Life
rickjamesia · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the universe can have an edge to it. The very concept of there being an outward limit of "everything" distresses me no matter which way I come at it. (I guess this is very similar to the person who said how "nothing" can exist too)
To have no more space in my mind would suggest that there's no more dimension in that direction. If you took the model of a cross-section of the universe and drew the outline on a piece of paper, what is the outside of that outline? Should the right representation be to take out scissors and cut away the rest of the paper? If we graph it out and the edge is at 1 universal radius on the x axis, what is at 1.1 universal radii? Does that even exist at all?
paigehaines · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The difference between affect and effect...
And a lot of other things, but that one has been the most detrimental to my every day life.
ShayGotTheGay · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:29 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't get how anyone finds people who "flex" and show off cool. how is being an asshole cool?
ChasingEmbers · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be so closed minded and actively choose to be ignorant and not understand what they’re doing
FlorianVizitiu · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't understand, even 'til now, in my 30s, how did we get to name colours. I mean, how do we know red is actually red and not green? How did people came to terms to agree that white is white and is not yellow? This thing is bothering me since middle school.
LowBeatss · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:41 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Racism I don’t understand how you can hate and believe people aren’t human based on skin color.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
why the voice in my head sounds like it does. really weird to think about
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:28:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It’s a really interesting subject. Some people don’t have an internal voice, they ‘see’ the words instead of ‘hear’ them
mschanandlerbong29 · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How some medical professionals are not following social distancing rules places by the CDC. Adding to that—how anyone is not following the social distancing rules.
Evil__Jeff22 · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Accumulation depreciation. I use to LOVE accounting and was very good at it, for some reason whenever that’s introduce everything goes to shit, I just can’t understand it for some reason.
Dr_Icabodias · 0 points · Posted at 04:35:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I do not understand this question.
Rodentlife · 0 points · Posted at 04:36:28 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The cloud
-Izzy_G124- · 0 points · Posted at 04:36:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Karma points. Who & why did they make them?
nicholas_gatto62 · 0 points · Posted at 04:36:37 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
So it doesn’t matter how you think the earth was formed, but what caused the Big Bang. What put giant things there to hit each other. How was the universe really created. The story with God and the days doesn’t include any other planets or dinosaurs, but something had to of put things in place for something like the Big Bang.
Unhappy-Parking · 0 points · Posted at 04:36:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why every issue is the pres fault.
peppermint_butts · 0 points · Posted at 04:36:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What my 6 pseudocodes for runoff: pset3 should say. This problem is fucking me up. I suck.
kenmoe1 · 0 points · Posted at 04:37:03 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How #Evilcrat minds misfire or don't work! 🤔
ChangelingCactus · 0 points · Posted at 04:37:47 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Passive aggression. Maybe it's because I'm on the autistic spectrum, but I apparently shut down people attempting to be passive aggressive with me because I just... Don't process it the same way? Ex. my manager once came up and said, "We're really behind. I wonder why that is?" and then stared at me as though expecting an answer... So I provided the very literal, blunt response. I thought she got frustrated because it wasn't actionable feedback... According to friends I was supposed to be ashamed.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:05:33 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Your friends suck
ChangelingCactus · 1 points · Posted at 21:44:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh no! It wasn't like a "you should have been ashamed and therefore you have performed Being An Entity badly" it was a "dude, she was trying to make you feel ashamed, fuck that". Sorry for the wording!
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 22:02:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh, that’s much better. I take back my comment :)
ChangelingCactus · 1 points · Posted at 18:07:47 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thank you! I realized my wording was a little weird, I'll watch the tone better next time!
jlewis2909 · 0 points · Posted at 04:37:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I genuinely do not understand why people don't care about what is happening in the nursing home industry. People are being abused, neglected, and dying! There are no huge social justice movements and the new doesn't pick up these horrible stories? Why?
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:04:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Cognitive dissonance and blissful ignorance. It’s how we survive as a species
dirtythoughtdreamer · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths.
sosila · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:26 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why am I not allowed to kill myself?
Level3pipe · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The stock market
chihuahuaOP · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Selinux and git i used It every day... Also i dont understand law or acouting. Or medicine... I just know im not that smart and thats ok..
wial · 0 points · Posted at 04:38:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why time slows down for the object approaching the speed of light relative to its origin from the perspective of the origin, but not for the origin as far as the object is concerned, which is moving away from the object at the same near luminal velocity relative to the object.
Taylor-Blackwood · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making friends or finding a SO outside of work??
rharoju · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Space - it’s such a frightening question of how big is it, how much of nothingness is out there. Where is the end? And if there is an end, then what are we in this planet? Are we inside something else? Can gravity stop working at any second and the earth goes into free fall? So many questions and it makes me queasy to think of it and the older I get the less I want to know but really I want to ask these questions to get over my fear of space.
triplestackks · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How we can feel the heat from the sun on earth. Imagine how hot the sun actually is when you're right next to it!
EpiclySadPotato · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Minecraft Redstone.
DoubleAGay · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why vampires are/were sexy to so many people. Don’t get me wrong, I think they’re alluring myself, but I don’t get why.
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They were believed to be able to hypnotise and control people so have been portrayed in many films and literary works as having beautiful women surrounding them and being irresistible. Being good looking makes it easier to get an audience to believe people could be lured in.
The early vampire (as in beings that were once human, not just bloodsucking creatures) tales were based on a lack of understanding about body decomposition and a condition known as porphyria. (I actually wrote an essay about some of this last summer. It’s really interesting stuff.)
There’s also the whole ‘danger is sexy’ thing. Increased heart rate and breathing, adrenaline spike etc are fear responses and responses to arousal, which can easily be misinterpreted. Obviously, more common with indirect fear, such as horror films, rather than if you were being attacked by a lion
DoubleAGay · 2 points · Posted at 06:04:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
That is really interesting. Thanks for the info!
nomad213 · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The square root of -1.
Tardykestrel1 · 0 points · Posted at 04:39:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm unbelievably late, but Death.
What.
How does something just... stop existing...
How can a human being, with this wacky mushy thing piloting a meat machine, just suddenly stop. Where do we go. What happens..!? All my thoughts and memories, just for nothing? I just disappear. Is it dark forever? Will I experience anything after death..
There is so much more to get into, but oh my god I have a crisis every time I think about it.
nomad213 · 1 points · Posted at 04:50:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's easier if you think about shapes. A shape can change, but what happens to the previous form? From a common point of view, it stops existing. But the truth is: that form's never been substantial.
christo334 · 0 points · Posted at 04:40:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum physics.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 04:40:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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nomad213 · 2 points · Posted at 04:41:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Do you exist?
martin-1207 · 0 points · Posted at 04:40:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I’m dyslexic so I genuinely don’t understand how I can’t read and spell like I should be good at it I do it everyday
CulturaRedditYT · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shiping fictional characters, i never understand why care about that stuff, i dont say it is something bad, but for me it doesnt make sense.
indigoo_cat · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:13 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trig Substitution. That is all.
EmperorNero_ · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Inflation. Like what ?
Turtlev3 · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Quantum entanglement sounds like made up magic every time I listen to it be described and I've no idea how it is possible.
RCSquaw · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
General theory of relativity.
jonesjedidiah · 0 points · Posted at 04:41:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm too drunk for this thread. Making my brain hurt.
FbK_536 · 0 points · Posted at 04:42:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Religion
Red-Dead-Turtle · 0 points · Posted at 04:42:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The universe man, like think about there being nothing, like nothing in the entire universe, no light or space. That just blows my mind every time I think about it. Like we are too small to even comprehend that scale.
Dabugsta99 · 0 points · Posted at 04:42:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women. I know it's cleche,. It I have no idea how they work. Once you figure it out, it changes
Thor752 · 1 points · Posted at 05:44:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
We don’t “work”. That’s insulting. It “changes” because we’re individuals with the ability to make our own decisions
magbybaby · 0 points · Posted at 05:05:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Conservativism.
Comegansos- · 0 points · Posted at 05:05:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How feminists seek equiality just focusing in female gender, instead of getting a balance from both sides where all of us could feel confortable.
memeholic_gajan · 0 points · Posted at 05:12:06 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Can anybody like me I want 50 karmas.im new .😊😪😥😪
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 05:49:59 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thoughts and prayers 😒 or belief in any "higher power".
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 05:51:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls
vybabe · 0 points · Posted at 05:51:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why its taking so long to find a vaccine
AuraBTK · 0 points · Posted at 05:51:25 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Dovahkiin419 · 1 points · Posted at 06:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They’re people, just like you. If you stop playing 4d chess with your own brain and just socialize it will be like anyone else
leahsuxxx · 0 points · Posted at 05:53:34 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
DevilishflyZ · 0 points · Posted at 05:54:21 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
BlackkkGod · 0 points · Posted at 05:54:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
pepethemisunderstood · 0 points · Posted at 05:55:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Take a man. Then take away reason and accountability.
_pasas · 0 points · Posted at 05:58:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
communism
Rachey56 · 0 points · Posted at 05:59:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people lie on reddit for fake internet points? Pretending to have jobs or experiences they have never had
Tasty-Pace · 0 points · Posted at 06:02:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
YWUPR2V
RoosterCity · 0 points · Posted at 06:02:45 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people have stocked up on toilet paper during the COVID pandemic
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 06:02:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people are obsessed with being oppressed or being mentally ill. People wear it like a badge of honor nowadays.
Diegodog19 · 0 points · Posted at 06:07:55 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don’t understand why I can’t play my music while I’m under quarantine!
InYourPantss · 0 points · Posted at 06:17:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Reddit is a Anti-Trump propaganda machine but everyone pretends to be a liberal while everything here is clearly skewed. I don't like Trump and I don't live in US but somethings are too obvious to ignore.
KwtanL · 0 points · Posted at 06:25:08 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The point of language arts test, especially Chinese. To me, language are created or used to describe something complicated with simple ideas. However, the language arts tests uses complex language combinations to describe a simple idea. Completely the opposite direction of what I understand as language. Or maybe just the inner engineer of me is screaming practicality over everything. Idk.
viper_star_ · 0 points · Posted at 06:32:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most people's dreams. I am a natural lucid dreamer, therefore I can control my dreams. I don't understand how come people can't even control THEMSELVES in some dreams. Like, just MOVE, guys
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 06:37:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How do i lucid dream. Got a list of things i need to do
viper_star_ · 1 points · Posted at 17:06:28 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
There are lots of tutorials on YouTube and Google. I don't know how to make yourself lucid dream, because I was born with it
Liqqa · 0 points · Posted at 06:58:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people can be so stuck in their little box. Maybe not just themselves, but maybe stuck in the box with their family, or friends, or job. Even religion and the like. They never look out to the world. The clouds, the stars, the entire universe. It is so vast. So meaningless and meaningful at the same time. So unforgiving and cruel, yet beautiful. And people choose to waste their time here being so closed in. You are ALIVE. Living and breathing and feeling. You are here. Do something with this precious time. You will not be here for very long, don’t let it all pass you by. You will regret it at some point if you waste this time. You have ONE life. About a quarter of my life is over now and I regret the time I’ve spent doing things that don’t matter with people that don’t matter. It’s an extremely profound feeling that I have, being able to look in to the sky and understand how small and meaningless I am in the grand scheme of things, yet having that be the fuel to make it as meaningful as I possibly can. I don’t want to waste the rest of my time. I want to be something.
kandeal · 0 points · Posted at 07:01:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I cannot fathom humans!
thatclownwhocries · 0 points · Posted at 07:02:04 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do i have to do everything my mum says. "Because she said so " So what i don't wanna do that. WHY ? "BECAUSE I SAID SO
Mhannia789 · 0 points · Posted at 07:20:46 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sometimes I think in German, I don’t get it, I don’t know German, I’ve watched one show in German, didn’t know what was going on. But I realize it’s German when I see the stupid show again. :/
sebster111 · 0 points · Posted at 07:49:31 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Most of Quantum physics and string theory. Good thing it's been dubunked... I try so hard to grasp the concepts
Fealuinix · 1 points · Posted at 16:46:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Debunked? News to me.
Emhyr_var_Emreis_ · 0 points · Posted at 08:26:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Given that the sky is blue, derive Avogadro's number.
kevinmorice · 0 points · Posted at 09:07:00 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the Coronavirus statistics don't add up yet everyone in the UK blindly believes them. And in particular why the extreme left have not only stopped questioning a strongly right government, but are actively helping them enforce extreme right wing policies.
thebobrup · 0 points · Posted at 09:17:10 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
They do add up, its just how they are said that makes them sketcy, very normal in politics to make something look like nothing or everything, everybody know the basics of math, just not everybody have critical thinking
kevinmorice · 0 points · Posted at 09:28:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
They just don't though. 78,991 cases, 9,875 deaths, 0.5% death rate.
At least one of those number MUST be wrong, yet they are all being put forward as factually correct. Lets assume the actual deaths is at least in the right ballpark, then either the death rate is over 10% or there are actually nearly 2million people infected.
EDIT: Downvote all you like but this is basic fucking maths!
Wooden-Asparagus · 0 points · Posted at 11:40:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How race is a social construct and not a biological reality but then certain medications work better in different “races”. For example different types of blood pressure medications work better in African Americans versus caucasians
whynotbro05 · 0 points · Posted at 11:48:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have no idea what to think of racism... cause many people find things only racist if you do them to a black person and not to a white one, which should if i understand also be racism as well, which means that calling someone a racist is racistic??
YES EXACTLY, I GOT NO CLUE HOW THIS WORKS LOL
PerfectParadise · 0 points · Posted at 13:52:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
r/deadmalls must be thriving as of recently
pola-ber · 0 points · Posted at 14:14:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
Truthisalligive · 0 points · Posted at 14:25:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How so many people can deny that Jesus is the only begotten son of God. Jesus died and rose again so that they can have eternal life with God after they die, if only they believe that Jesus died for them and took their sins upon Himself. Happy Easter! He is Risen!
Zoe-the-snekkkk · 0 points · Posted at 14:33:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Christians. Just ‘god’ in general. I dont understand why people believe this dude that wrote a book one day, called it the bible, and filled it with discrimination. Seriously, that mustve been a straight, white male who made it.
periperi-chicken · 0 points · Posted at 16:44:19 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
If the economy is struggling, why not print more money?
PurpleFlame8 · 2 points · Posted at 23:01:36 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
It eventually causes it to devalue and for retailers to raise prices. This is called inflation.
periperi-chicken · 1 points · Posted at 04:52:03 on April 24, 2020 · (Permalink)
That makes sense, thanks!
Sodae2 · 0 points · Posted at 17:07:57 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
All that altright, left, and whatever else there is shit
Reckless_Blu · 0 points · Posted at 18:56:07 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The current President of the United States
Busterathome · 0 points · Posted at 00:06:42 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why doesn't the government print enough money for the needy underfunded charities?
36ix9ineDamnYouFine · 0 points · Posted at 01:02:35 on April 13, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people could still support Trump.
PM_ME_YOUR_MILK_PLZ · 0 points · Posted at 16:10:10 on April 17, 2020 · (Permalink)
dumb people
[deleted] · -33 points · Posted at 13:32:25 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls logic: They get mad at you and ask them to leave them alone yet they get more mad at you for actually letting them be alone. Like WTF you want?
MMXXfan · 20 points · Posted at 14:37:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That's not Girls Logic. It's Your girl's logic. I don't understand it either, and I'm a girl...
[deleted] · -10 points · Posted at 14:41:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unfortunetly she aint the first one to do so. Almost all of the girls I have been with have done the same thing. Im starting to question myself in this situation if Ive done something wrong in the situation :/
DepressedBeanSoup · 3 points · Posted at 14:48:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't think it's you necessarily unless you have a naturally aggravating personality. You might just have a type that you go for who are overdramatic :)
I promise as a female we are not all overdramatic and confusing.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe pick your standards up so you dont have to deal with those women
[deleted] · 3 points · Posted at 15:01:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
It's a inner conflict. At one side you don't want to be left alone with you thoughts, but on the other side are you still mad at this person, even if you don't want to. I would stay, but still let them think about it. That's at least what helped me.
mtled · 1 points · Posted at 17:19:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Speaking for myself; leave me alone to give me a few minutes to process my emotions because they are overwhelming me and I don't want to make things worse because I'm so sad/angry and the conversation has shifted to my feelings (which are valid, but overwhelming, and you talking about them makes it worse) and not to the issue that triggered all this. So let me calm down.
BUT, whatever the issue is is still unresolved.
So please also take this time to reflect on the problem and maybe offer a solution/talk about YOUR feelings or maybe just hug me calmly and tell me that we can work on/fix whatever and it'll be ok.
I don't know, it's hard to give such general advice because there are so many variables. But in short, I still want my husband's love and affection but also need space to handle my feelings. And yeah, those are conflicting things, but that's human. So don't "leave me alone" and go play games/have fun/pretend nothing's wrong because that just seems dismissive.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 17:59:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get what you mean. Usually I let her know that Ive noted she wants to be alone by saying something like "okay, come talk to me when you want I will wait" or something like that. It is just that whenever Ive said it they keep being mad at me at bring up stuff like "oh wow you dont care about me"(?!) wich makes me pissed off. I dont want to sound a douche but their reaction usually makes me feel like Ive told them to "fuck off I dont wanna talk to you"
I (in general)appriciate girls who can actually tell me straight that they need few mins to calm down and then we can talk about what was bothering them/making them upset. Its just all the unnecessary things some needs to say after that like "so youre gonna ignore me" or something like that. Its not like I just told you that I will give you your own space and time and Im gonna be here waiting until you feel like you want to talk about it..
[deleted] · -46 points · Posted at 13:53:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · 16 points · Posted at 14:10:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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[deleted] · -28 points · Posted at 14:24:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iamnotabot200 · 18 points · Posted at 18:40:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do realise straight people kiss too right?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:24:05 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iamnotabot200 · 2 points · Posted at 01:25:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I wanna test the waters a bit, how do you think reproduction works?
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:28:02 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Isn't kissing part of sex
iamnotabot200 · 1 points · Posted at 01:29:22 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Not necessarily. And you said reproduction, which though you need to have sex to reproduce, you do not need to reproduce to have sex.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:34:42 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Think like on point of nature ,like Darwin would think
iamnotabot200 · 1 points · Posted at 01:37:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Even allot of animals don't use sex for only reproduction. Quite alot of primates, one species especially, the bonobo, use sex to relieve themselves or express familiarity or kindness.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 01:32:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iamnotabot200 · 1 points · Posted at 01:35:16 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
You do know kissing, nibbling, all that jazz, isn't necessary for reproduction, nor are their sole purposes for reproduction? Kissing especially, is oft used as a way to show affection to a romantic partner, and nothing about it has to be sexual, though it can be if wanted.
[deleted] · -7 points · Posted at 16:09:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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JrPolygon · 11 points · Posted at 19:14:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't see how this is different than being straight and having different-gendered sibling. What's your point exactly? A teenage guy can have a girlfriend whom he kisses and have a younger sister, too.
CapnSpazz · 3 points · Posted at 21:47:51 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I have a mom and a sister. If I was dating a girl, and kissed her in front of you, would you feel the same way?
Not trying to jump your shit or anything. I've just genuinely never heard this before, so I'm kind of curious.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 01:18:12 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
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CapnSpazz · 2 points · Posted at 01:33:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
To me, that's like saying all women are my sisters. So when I see a man kissing a woman, or a woman kissing another woman, should I feel the same?
europahasicenotmice · 2 points · Posted at 23:24:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What
liviu506 · -4 points · Posted at 18:58:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
women
dav1d3l · -4 points · Posted at 19:05:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
RamenExpert · -5 points · Posted at 19:31:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
receeses · -1 points · Posted at 18:42:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people main mirage
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:26:44 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The Middle East :/
BeBa420 · -1 points · Posted at 19:28:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Will Ferrell keeps finding work. He’s awful
powerpig2000 · -1 points · Posted at 19:30:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What Females want in a relationship
pizzaladypanties · 2 points · Posted at 19:40:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Attention, time, and someone that shares common interests.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 19:37:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maths. Especially when there aren't any numbers.
BeanpoleAhead · -1 points · Posted at 19:47:55 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Daylight savings. Help.
ron_sheeran · 2 points · Posted at 20:29:46 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well back before electricity was a wide spread thing people wanted to spend more time outside in the summer when they could enjoy it.
BeanpoleAhead · 1 points · Posted at 20:31:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Okay but like, why do we do it now? Is there a real point or is it just a thing we do because we used to?
ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:32:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People are just to lazy to change it.
HEUUUGH · -1 points · Posted at 19:48:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people hate furries
DonkeyGamer2000 · -1 points · Posted at 19:48:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
brcn3 · -1 points · Posted at 19:49:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why some whites will defend the anti-racist point of view to the death in a conversation, even when there aren’t any non-whites around. Like, who are you trying to score points with?
itsmetwigiguess · -1 points · Posted at 19:50:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Unironic "Stan loona." Loona is great, they really are, but when you're not joking it's pretty stupid. Also linking kpop fancams to your tweets.
Limnuge · -1 points · Posted at 19:51:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That some people can believe god exists, that there’s more than 2 genders, and that 9/11 was not an inside job
lulpwned · -1 points · Posted at 19:53:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trump supporters. Not bashing. I've tried to at least understand how someone can think he's even a passable leader/person. I just don't get it.
Aturom · -1 points · Posted at 19:53:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Support for the electoral college
ocean5648 · -1 points · Posted at 19:53:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How half the Americans still support Trump. It’s just sad that there are so many ignorant people.
Substep11 · -1 points · Posted at 19:55:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Republicans now a days
drunklematt · -1 points · Posted at 20:00:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the people of the US let the US become what it is today. For example Trump is your president 😐
tylertheboi101 · -1 points · Posted at 20:18:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My life
er490taco · -1 points · Posted at 20:23:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why did the DNC pick the very worst canidate to run? And then after getting Biden in decided it was a great time to fire up a party civil war...
Aeroangel · -1 points · Posted at 20:23:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why is toilet paper out of stock?
bostonbabe38 · -1 points · Posted at 20:24:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Math
NumptyJax · -1 points · Posted at 20:31:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that there is an American commercial depicting a family of bears who confider the highlight of their days to be wiping their asses. I get it, it's for toilet rolls, but still. What the hell?
Miriam9999 · -1 points · Posted at 20:32:13 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinitely. And how stocks work
No_Name_Ideas · -1 points · Posted at 20:35:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
ITT "orange man bad" Remember Reddit before it got astroturfed?
XxIronTrooper984xX · -1 points · Posted at 20:38:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Feminism
givmeallurmoney · 4 points · Posted at 20:41:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The radical idea that everyone should be treated equally regardless of if they have a penis or vagina. There. Explained.
XxIronTrooper984xX · 1 points · Posted at 20:43:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, I understand that part i Don't understand is why "Men should be Exterminated"
givmeallurmoney · 3 points · Posted at 20:43:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
That’s not feminism. That’s sexism towards men.
XxIronTrooper984xX · 1 points · Posted at 20:52:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like, I mean if they can accuse men of rape, then we could do the same...
givmeallurmoney · 2 points · Posted at 20:54:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, you guys totally could. Also please consider that not all accusations of rape are just accusations, most of them are real.
XxIronTrooper984xX · 1 points · Posted at 20:56:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I understand perfectly, but they should at least should study the incident at hand
captainmo017 · -1 points · Posted at 20:42:38 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls. It's cliched and all, I know. But still
lemonfish442 · -1 points · Posted at 20:43:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Girls.
Excidiar · -1 points · Posted at 20:43:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women arguing. Every. Single. Time.
In_Vitr0 · -1 points · Posted at 20:43:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
My girlfriend...
King_of_Dew · -1 points · Posted at 20:43:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Bernie supporters.
guimatala · -1 points · Posted at 20:44:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people with zero brains become the supreme of their country?
P.S I’m not talking about Trump, Modi & Rouhani.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 20:49:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How is Hillary not in jail?
LarryByndon22 · -1 points · Posted at 20:49:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
This is going to upset some folks, but I genuinely do not understand how abortion is legal to the point of birth.
TDogBlu649 · -1 points · Posted at 20:49:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people don’t like trump
pressthebuttonfrank · -1 points · Posted at 20:51:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why are African Americans in the united states allowed by their community to vote for only for members of the democratic party?
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:18:58 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because they’re not doing a republican primary. Trump is already in office so they don’t need to vote for a republican. It’s not just black people.
Alechu-Akbar · -1 points · Posted at 20:52:01 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Gun control
collind8 · -1 points · Posted at 20:53:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Taxes, investing, stocks and bonds.
Johns_Jackson · -1 points · Posted at 20:54:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why my weener is so long
hucksire · -1 points · Posted at 20:56:17 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Shaving off your pubes. Grown people genitalia is not supposed to be hairless like infant genitalia. Pedophilic.
I2ecover · -1 points · Posted at 20:59:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why the fuck are unemployed people getting an extra $600 a week? Half the people with jobs don't even make that per week.
kijamiiii · -1 points · Posted at 20:59:33 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why girls don't like me.
SanaNANANANANANANA · -1 points · Posted at 21:04:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why everyone doesn’t listen to kpop
Oat_Biscuit · -1 points · Posted at 21:30:02 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Communists
ImFromNoon · -1 points · Posted at 21:30:19 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people still advocate for abortion, even though you're literally killing a baby.
Exnaut · 2 points · Posted at 21:55:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Good thing it's not a baby then
ImFromNoon · 1 points · Posted at 21:58:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Its still a life that you'd be killing though.
deamay18 · -1 points · Posted at 21:42:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people don’t do more research on or look into event 201 and agenda 21, Gematria behind propaganda and fake news rather than just assume everything on the news is true and the government is there to help us and not control us and get as much power as they can.
Arqideus · -1 points · Posted at 21:46:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Why at least 1 woman is not able to see me as something they want to fuck. [serious, kind of]
The_92nd · -1 points · Posted at 22:04:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How I could just kill a man
Animezoomer0000 · -1 points · Posted at 22:08:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why older people insist on us saying good morning e en to stranger, for me I don't know why but it's very awkward and I feel my heart race everytime I'm told to say that instead of just a simple 'hi' or juat nothing. I don't understand how it's a sign of respect, I see it as older folks just trying to get attention for no reason. Don't get me wrong if someone says it I'll try my best to say it back or at least a hi because it really is hard for me to do social norms.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:09:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
MAGAts.
HowRememberAll · -1 points · Posted at 22:12:09 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Black Democrats in the United States.
I understand fear of racism that Republicans are accused of. I don't understand bowing to the government as a master with the stain of slavery in US history. Democrats are about big government dependence as a master
Aly3n · -1 points · Posted at 22:14:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I took ap biology and completely don’t understand how homosexuality works
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:17:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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MoFauxTofu · 1 points · Posted at 22:24:07 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Compared to what?
spartanz001 · -1 points · Posted at 22:19:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why boys leave the toilet seat down.
Rainbowgaming555 · 2 points · Posted at 01:10:32 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What? Isn’t it supposed to be leaving it up that annoys people? What annoys you about the seat being down?
H8Mking · -1 points · Posted at 22:19:06 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why cat hate cucumber but when I but my dick in the table he bites it but tbh it feel kinda nice
unclebobslastresort · -1 points · Posted at 22:25:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Liberals
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:44:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can clearly see that throughout history, socialism has never worked, and in present day, socialist countries are not working, and yet they look at that and say yeah, I want to try that. I honestly can not understand that.
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 22:51:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Support for Trump. You guys are fucking stupid
tcrbt71023060 · 0 points · Posted at 22:55:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Oh give it a rest. Get help for your Trump derangement syndrome. People throw insults when they lack the intelligence to present a valid argument... childish
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 22:57:41 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Strong argument in support I see
tcrbt71023060 · -1 points · Posted at 23:01:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why we allow anyone with an iq less average (toilet bowl lickers, tide pod munchers, etc.) vote
pressthebuttonfrank · -1 points · Posted at 00:04:09 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Man made climate change. How is that?
Elio200 · 0 points · Posted at 00:08:49 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
R u am of hav stupid look it up
Topcity36 · -1 points · Posted at 00:42:20 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How Donald Trump is president.
Raging1000 · -1 points · Posted at 02:40:54 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why women keep saying there's no more good men out there but were clearly rejecting the good men and kept going for the bad men. (not referring to nice guys, good men and nice guys are different)
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:44:43 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Heterosexuals
[deleted] · -1 points · Posted at 02:58:38 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why people enjoy s*x. Even the idea of kissing is weird for me. I love giving hugs though, but even then I feel awkward. Am I the only one? Lol probs not but still
Justburymewherever · -1 points · Posted at 03:26:30 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Voting conservative.
moopiotio · -1 points · Posted at 05:14:50 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think there are only two genders
_teilzeitgay_ · -1 points · Posted at 06:51:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
The straights.
myrealnamewastaken1 · -1 points · Posted at 13:16:48 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone is able to look at the history of socialism and say, yeah, let's try this again.
[deleted] · -44 points · Posted at 15:23:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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iamnotabot200 · 12 points · Posted at 18:40:53 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You fecking troll
ron_sheeran · 3 points · Posted at 20:23:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Well 5 g isnt harmful because it one the low frequency left end of the elctro magnetic spectrum which is home to infared and radio waves which do no harm to cells. Also the holocaust did happen its a fact and millions died you fucking asshole. And people litter because they are too lazy to walk to a trash can.
itsamemeudipLmao · 0 points · Posted at 20:47:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Thanks man, I'm enlightened.
CapnSpazz · 1 points · Posted at 21:49:29 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I find it wierd people still do the whole downvote troll thing. Like it was funny years ago when there were a few infamous accounts doing it, but the joke is kind of old.
itsamemeudipLmao · 0 points · Posted at 22:08:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Making retards waste their time is kinda fun.
CapnSpazz · 1 points · Posted at 22:55:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm on reddit. It's already a waste of time. You're already wasting your time. But what ever makes you happy I guess.
ozzybell · -15 points · Posted at 18:34:48 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Obvious dumb cult following..yes, in talking about trump..
Shot_Turnip · -6 points · Posted at 20:47:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Dumbass feminists who think the world is unfair. Like honestly, everything is already fair and feminist groups just want more. Honestly the feminist movement should get a life and move on.
GettingGrannyBack · -7 points · Posted at 18:43:42 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why Trump and Americans hates Sweden.
mlgloominate · -2 points · Posted at 16:49:43 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If Epstine killed himself
groovybanana094 · -2 points · Posted at 18:59:58 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
trapskee455 · -2 points · Posted at 19:00:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Females.
councilreject · -2 points · Posted at 19:00:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
ohheav3ns · -2 points · Posted at 19:17:47 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
the hypocrisy of parents. (note: we're christians)
one time my mom asked me after mass why I didn't pay full attention to the priest.
I told her she wouldn't have known that unless she wasn't paying full attention either. My sisters were "OOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"-ing their heads off and my mom doesn't bother me for this anymore.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:27:20 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people on this website can hate an entire country (America) when most of them don't even live there or even interacted with an American other then the Strawmen they made up in their head.
It's baffling how easy it is to shit on the US but when an American tries to defend themselves everyone and their mother comes out of the wood work to just shit on them for not being 'born right'.
Darren_NH · 0 points · Posted at 19:28:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Dang. We Americans getting shat on all the time.
ChachiElPicante · -2 points · Posted at 19:30:12 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How there are people that still want to establish communism on their first world, rich, successful, capitalist countries
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:30:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How leftist anarchy is supposed to work. I just cannot wrap my head around how you're supposed to prevent capitalism without significantly restricting people's freedom.
G_money16 · -2 points · Posted at 19:30:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women.
hubble14567 · -2 points · Posted at 19:44:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People that do not understand math. It seems so obvious to me, how can someone be stuck at dividing two numbers ?
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 19:48:31 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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ron_sheeran · 1 points · Posted at 20:34:26 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Infinity my good friend, is big.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:00:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
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zoe_maybe_idk · 1 points · Posted at 20:08:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because all of those things are just people trying to live their lives with partners and expression of self that they self chose and not society.
Minorities in any sense don't deserve to be shunned by their fellow members of society just because they are themselves.
I actually didn't even know how to reply to this message..i can't decide if you are coming from a play of utter naivety or institutionalized hatred.
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 20:11:28 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yes, but what makes my opinion wrong on the matter? If people are praised for loving who they love and all that, why can't i hate on those people without getting flagged as a terrible person?
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 21:21:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Same reason you get flagged as a terrible person if you hate ob anyone who hasn't done anything wrong.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 21:35:39 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
In my eyes the bad thing they have done is being part of the lgbt. I shouldn't force my own values on them, and i don't. However, people flag me as a terrible person just for disagreeing with their values, doesn't that contradict the "acceptance" part? 🤔
I think i will actually delete the comment because it would be really bad for my karma :D
zoe_maybe_idk · 1 points · Posted at 22:56:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because hatred of a person that hasn't done anything harmful to you or society is incompatible with peace.
With that mentality violence is lurking around the corner, and I think I speak for most, I enjoy peace.
emzett1 · -2 points · Posted at 20:02:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why are there homeless people in countries like Germany. We literally give them everything they need to live. Everything. They can literally choose to live in an apartment and a regular life or live in the streets, take drugs and beg for money
jonnylovemonster · -2 points · Posted at 20:05:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the people of the USA could elect Trump as president. And most likely do so again.
twoPillls · -2 points · Posted at 20:05:15 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How anyone can still support trump
WitchesScienceandTea · -2 points · Posted at 20:19:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The absolute stupidity of Trump supporters/Republicans when it comes to their denial of actual facts and science and how absolutely paranoid they are even though they stress given science to reassure them.
Dinoboyt2008 · -2 points · Posted at 20:29:24 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why white people feel the need to be oppressed
1PartEagle1PartLion · -2 points · Posted at 20:42:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans people. I don't get the whole I feel like a woman or man thing.
oopssorrydaddy · 2 points · Posted at 20:45:54 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
What’s not to get?
1PartEagle1PartLion · 1 points · Posted at 01:07:17 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I get the concept but not in practice.
Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 2 points · Posted at 21:11:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Ok, think about it like this. Assuming you're a dude, imagine if everyone else thought you were a girl. If you were forced to dress a certain way, if you had to behave like a woman, if you had to use a name that didn't refer to you, even though, to you, it's obvious that you're a guy.
That's what being trans is like.
Rainbowgaming555 · 2 points · Posted at 01:18:01 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
so then you change in a way that allows you to recognized how you want. Go by a new name, dress differently, act differently, etc.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 21:43:50 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women complaining about being over sexualized when they tease everyone all the time
NinjaVanLife · -2 points · Posted at 22:36:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
why did they changed the name of wuhan virus to covid? wouldn’t it better to call it for its origin? and people seems to be offended by it when you call it a wuhan virus.
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:14 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Because that implies that the people of Wuhan made it. It’s a scientific term.
NinjaVanLife · 1 points · Posted at 01:27:35 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
but i thought the virus originated from wuhan because of some people cooked some bats with disease.
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:30:27 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Yeah, but they didn’t create it, the bat did. It was always called Covid-19
NinjaVanLife · 1 points · Posted at 01:54:44 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
okey. its just weird to me, since i grew up calling a disease “german measles” or rubella. oh whelp corona it is.
capitalistrussian · 1 points · Posted at 04:20:56 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Coronavirus had existed before, and that’s what it was called.
geechee1 · -2 points · Posted at 23:25:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Democrats that want everything free
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:32:57 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Like what?
geechee1 · 1 points · Posted at 23:35:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Everything...ask Bernie
Papphase · 1 points · Posted at 23:36:16 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Maybe a few examples. Do you mean healthcare, school and support by the government?
xXJoe-UwU-69Xx · -2 points · Posted at 04:37:24 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why do people with mental illnesses exist, like down syndrome and autism.
Shouldn't they be killed to stop them spreading?
lackofusernameeideas · 3 points · Posted at 04:38:39 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
eugenics have been proven time and time again not to work :-)
xXJoe-UwU-69Xx · 1 points · Posted at 04:47:23 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I don't care about that. I'm saying they should b killed not cured. Why would I like people like that living in the same planet as me, ugh. Send them to the sun so they die burnt
C_Talbot · -2 points · Posted at 07:06:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)*
People who are pro-abortion. It scares me when people devalue human life so harshly.... I don't really remember hearing a logical, unbiased opinion from the opposing side. I think about it morally and legally, 'all men are created equal... Right to life' type of stuff. I feel like it's so obvious that it should be illegal, it's the very first line of the US' Declaration of Independence.
Edit: my ears are open. Please share your opinion with me, I really want to understand - please help me.
[deleted] · -14 points · Posted at 15:16:21 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
People who unironically think the Star Wars prequels are good movies. Especially if they dislike the sequels as well.
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:04:18 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Episode three is one of the best star wars movies
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:19:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm mostly talking about one and two(specifically two). I truly don't understand how one could think those are good movies. They share a lot of flaws with the sequels as well so that makes it worse. Three still has a lot of problems, even though it is better than the other two.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:20:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
If you take out all of the cringey Anakin and padme scenes it becomes a decent movie. And episode one is pretty cool but yes, they aren't that good.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:21:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I'm mainly talking about Anakin's entire character. I don't get how one could dislike what was done with Luke yet be okay with Anakin's treatment. Even if you take away the OT it doesn't really make sense. It's supposed to be about his turn, yet in two he's basically already a Sith in all but name.
[deleted] · 1 points · Posted at 20:25:35 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I disagree because we see him murder the tribe of sand people out of anger but still feel the guilt after I don't think a sith would feel the guilt and the Chancellor had already began to poison his mind. I have to re watch the movie because I don't remember any other specifics but it kinda goes like this I'm pretty sure. The clone wars show also fills in a lot of the gaps between episode two and three.
[deleted] · -14 points · Posted at 15:47:03 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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taarotqueen · 1 points · Posted at 20:09:27 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
hire an escort?
[deleted] · 2 points · Posted at 20:09:56 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
I mean how much you charging me?
empressith · 1 points · Posted at 21:14:30 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Probably because you phrase it like that
[deleted] · -4 points · Posted at 13:20:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Myself
Strawberrycocoa · -2 points · Posted at 19:04:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Sitting around in the recliner watching TV or napping while someone else runs around the house doing chores, then actually deciding it's the correct thing to do to ask the to get you a drink "while they're up".
Jamesricardo · -2 points · Posted at 19:17:10 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:17:34 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
prestonmelky21 · -3 points · Posted at 19:17:37 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Women
uglybalogne · -3 points · Posted at 19:48:49 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Why American support Trump
[deleted] · -3 points · Posted at 19:49:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Homosexuality
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:26:40 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
What don’t you understand about it?
[deleted] · 0 points · Posted at 02:11:52 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
I just don't understand attraction to the same sex and I think it's pretty childish that my comment got down-voted. I answered the question genuinely.
Estellar123 · -4 points · Posted at 20:01:52 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
White people
rockablade · -2 points · Posted at 20:29:11 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Y people think evolution is actually scientifically possible
[deleted] · -5 points · Posted at 20:30:00 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
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Asphalt_Is_Stronk · 1 points · Posted at 21:17:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
You got some major sexism going on there my dude
TheCrowGrandfather · 1 points · Posted at 21:40:22 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Tell that to my wife
RagingLion04 · -2 points · Posted at 20:34:36 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)*
Democrats, feminists, and vegans/vegetarians Love how I got downvoted by them lol
Randomwoegeek · 1 points · Posted at 20:39:59 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
philosophically it's actually really hard to justify eating meat. I'm not a vegan/vegetarian, but most people who do hold inconsistent beliefs that do not soundly justify their behavior.
[deleted] · -2 points · Posted at 20:43:45 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Trans. No seriously no disrespect to trans people at all, I just don't get it. Not from a religion standpoint. You were born a male or female. Why is it so hard to be gay? Why is it so hard to crossdress? Why is it so hard to get mental help? I just don't get why teenagers and adults are saying they don't feel like the proper sex/gender. This is called "gender dysphoria" and is a thing that needs to get checked out. I've run into a lot of zoomers who've said, "I don't feel like I'm a boy" maybe you're gay. Youtube - I want my sex back. Watch that and understand the stuff you'd have to go through. Do you see think you are the opposite sex? Your life wont be happy, it will just be different.
Also, all these genders and sexualities. I'm sorry but if you read any sexuality outside of gay, straight or bisexual and asexual, they are all fancy ways of saying "I'm bi"
I looked up "sapiosexual" that's just bisexual with nerd sprinkled on top. You want a smart person to date, just say that. That's a preference not a turn on "OMG WEAR THAT STAR WARS SHIRT AND FUCK ME" "OMG TELL ME MORE ABOUT SCIENCE, YOU'RE SO FUCKING HOT" Really? No, sure that might be a turn on but that's not a sexuality. I look for smart girls myself, but you don't see me saying, "talk comic books to me in bed and watch me fuck you hard when you mention your love for Nightwing too"
The genders thing? It bothers me and I don't get why you can't be a boy or a girl. People wonder why they get made fun of and they are calling themselves "non-binary" you're not a fucking code, you're a human-being.
Sorry to get so mad about this but I just don't get where this is all coming from in the last 20 years. I'm 28, so I've seen a lot of people on the internet crying about their gender, their sexuality, about everything. You're Gay, you're straight, you're bi. Awesome, enjoy your sex life, enjoy your adult life. But don't expect everyone to "respect it" because respect is EARNED not GIVEN
JaleelRoy · -3 points · Posted at 20:51:08 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people can be Gay or Lesbian or even Trans. Im not Homophobic or Transphobic. You can do whatever you want, its your life. i just don’t understand it.
animemes1 · -3 points · Posted at 23:41:04 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
How people think the earth is round?
Rainbowgaming555 · 1 points · Posted at 01:23:53 on April 12, 2020 · (Permalink)
How the fuck do you think it isn’t?
patrlim1 · -5 points · Posted at 15:00:14 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
The fact that this post had exactly 250 comments before I ruined it
Cycling_Chicken · -7 points · Posted at 19:00:32 on April 11, 2020 · (Permalink)
Woman.